All parents who live with children who become dysregulated face how they will comfort and sooth the child. Those new parents of children, who have been traumatized in early childhood, face many dysregulating situations with their new children. When I say, dysregulating situations, I mean those in which either the parent or the child becomes dysreguated, as one can affect the other without either realizing. Calming the parent must be a first priority in calming a dysregulated child.