Phase One: Pay Attention ~ To the Book of Psalms, David, the Lamenting Psalmist: 2 Samuel 1:17-27; To how Jesus Grieved, Jesus, the Man of Sorrows: Isaiah 53:3; To Losses from our Past ~~ Phase Two: Living in the Confusing In-between ~ Good Friday to Pentecost; Orientation, Disorientation, Reorientation ~~ Phase Three: Allowing the Old to Birth the New ~ Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Matthew 5:4