Part one : Why relationships don't work : the problem men and women share. What's wrong with our marriage? -- Facing ourselves honestly -- The real problem -- Surely I'm not that bad! -- Change is possible -- Celebrating forgiveness -- Part two : How relationships do work : The difference men and women can enjoy. A tough question -- Is there really a difference? -- Masculinity and femininity -- Unique ways to freely love -- Relating as men and women -- Enjoying the difference -- Notes -- About the author