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In class. It's not so
bad when school's out

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and the others go off to enjoy
themselves. If you are what they call.

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That's when you really see the
only most of the new and.

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You don't know how to make people like you

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and you find yourself holding
a grudge against them.

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You are standing on the
outside looking in.

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You might have something to
contribute to the conversation

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but nobody cares whether you
do or not there's a barrier

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and you don't know how to
begin breaking it down.

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You imagine they keep watching the
way you look the way you act.

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They think you're different. So
you head for home. What else.

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But still you can't forget
that you are alone. And out.

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So well for.

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Your record transmitter microphone going.

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I can't figure out where to connect. I
know I have to connect. But where this is.

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Why not a store and get more information.

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By the way how things are
going in school. Oh OK.

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But school here isn't like I was back in
Morristown But you know maybe school is

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like your radio.

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This oscillator will do its work well

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but as you said you still have to fit it
in so it can work with all the other five

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hundred what you're driving at. Dad But I
don't think I ever will fit in here on.

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I'm different from the guys
in this town but as far as

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that goes fail everybody's different.
That's what makes people interesting.

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Maybe you know.

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When we moved here this summer I had quite
a time anything Frandsen a new office

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where everybody else knew
each other what you do there.

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Well I asked aside the point.

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Son what works for one doesn't
necessarily work for another.

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But I bet the other men didn't
look at your clothes all the time

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or what makes you think they'll look at
your clothes tool because the other fellows

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wear sweaters or just sure it's
not a record still like mine.

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Whereas whether they were clothes alone
won't say oh what about the other

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fellows.

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What do they do what are they like
gosh Dad I don't know I never noticed.

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Only I know it's not radio's Perhaps
that's the reason you don't know you don't

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notice what the others are interested
in what I'm trying to find on holiday.

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Where Allan might try watching listening.

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Pick up the most popular boys and girls
in school and keep an eye on them.

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Trying to figure out why people like them.

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Not that you'll ever be
just like any of them

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but you might learn something
we have to say at that.

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So there's an eighty year maybe a
good idea for the try anyway into law

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or is not too soon to start pick up the

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most popular boys and girls in school

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and keep an eye core they need some
of them right here in this class.

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Andy. MacIntyre for instance
people like him right.

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Chick Gallagher a tie in popularity
to. There's chained him glory.

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She's popular with boys and
girls. And Jack Gilbert.

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What's he got that makes
people like him so much.

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And he's gets of them say in jest was
to make you really seems interested.

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Come to think of rejection always interested
in what people are talking about them

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is why he gets it off
so well with everybody.

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Anyhow and he thinks he's a great guy.

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I know I lead stool easy just listening

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for words. This sounds like
James Caan of the same thing.

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She's listening hearing about Helen's
collection of menus and liking it.

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That makes her kingpin with children.

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Maybe there is something in this
business of being a good listener.

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But still there must be morning getting
along with people than just wearing a

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sweater and listening.

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What's a matter

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but I've never stuck to I can't get it open
right here only try to check to some of

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these that. Are sure
you thanks a lot Jack.

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Now why didn't you think of a. Chicks
always doing things for people.

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And it pays off in France.

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What it sure is one tough history is

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that we after Friday which I could find
some good outside reading material.

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I thought this was what the covers
everything was Carson wants us to know it's

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called The Last Days of monarchism by Henry
darling you can get a lot of your from

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you're going to tell me about it I'll go
this afternoon. I thought but I don't.

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Yet you knew about that but you would
have been the guy that helped the guy.

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There it is again.

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Even

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when you bump into people a term here

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alone but alone in the crowd.

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But keep looking around trying to find
out what the score is just to check

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and be easy over there. Girls seem
to like this one would see a single.

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Do it kind of polite.
Least they see the girl.

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The waiter they are like some of the.

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Jericho tropicals
milkshake them all right.

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Please I've got yours might just
help me out during rush hour.

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Bob thanks a lot check girl
fish chick being helpful if

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you don't tell me you two are still talking
close was a subplot this watch on males

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present

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to go over to make sure you're pretty good

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right and supports the Rundown is clearly.

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Why don't you go back to the top of
your discussion. Mission is finite.

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So glad you checked. I
haven't got a date yet.

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Well grab yourself a girl come along.

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It's not going to be a real party just
a class game together for some fun.

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I'd like to check.

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Yeah I sure would.

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Yeah I sure would be something
to take Mary Lou to the mix.

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You wonder if you already have a date.

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Well the oscillator coming along by then.
So I haven't quite got it working yet.

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But you know that other
business we were talking about.

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Has been following your
advice. How about it.

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Find out anything yet

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that I think I did it looks like people
get along best with other people

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or oh the people who think
about the other guy.

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They make a point of listening
to what others have to say

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and watching for ways to do things
for them being polite toward.

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Do you suppose it's sort of a case of
thinking so much about other people

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that you don't have much to tell.
Well perhaps that's right.

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Maybe the best way to
find out is to try it.

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The next chance you get you know
that there's a mixture Friday night.

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I wasn't going to go

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but in the drugstore the other day chick
said I oughta come good are there fellow

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well dad. There is a girl I'd
like to take you Mary. Right.

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But I'm not sure she'd go
with me never even talked to

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or probably fall over myself.

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Besides she's popular she's
probably got a date but you know.

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Well it is pretty late to ask a
girl. Why don't you just go stay.

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You needn't worry about doing anything
wrong feel you act all right.

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Just do it and say whatever
seems most natural. Well there.

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Maybe maybe it will be easier after I've
had a chance to talk to her the mixer.

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You know what I kind of think this
is going to fit in. After all.

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This is it sink or swim.

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She did come with another guy easy by what

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the break.

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And what could be easy

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with the first one boy the look of a way
people flock around a good listener.

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What's this. Talking about
radio. To write down your.

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They're asking these
are you got any stock.

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You know the answer to that
one you could tell him

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but she just above him.

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Easy still stuck. He really need to know

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that sick. And offer of help.
That's welcome any. Where.

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It's not hard to fit yourself
into a conversation.

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A mention of a similar problem in
connection with the record player.

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They are interested in that record player.
They are interested in that shy guy.

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They know he's alive now.
And strangely enough.

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He's just discovered that they're alive.

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Of course they'd like to
see the record player.

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Of course they'll come over tomorrow
afternoon to do a little more

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Saturnian connect the escalator and the
amplifier and everything or video.

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Bill could you have it ready by next week
and bring it over to my house I guess so.

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Some of the games coming over Thursday
night we could have a lot of benefit you

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will come won't you. When
one shy guy is on his way.

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Not that his worries are over. He'll still
have his moments of doubt of hesitation.

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Of fear that he might do something wrong.

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But he can face these problems now because
he knows that he's not really different.

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And while he's discovered only a few
of many ways to overcome shyness.

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He's discovered that it can be
done and that's the main thing.

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Isn't.