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LADY  LETT1CE 
VI-COUNTESS FALKLAND 


•LADY  LETTICE, 
VI-COUNTESS  FALKLAND1 


'LADY    LETTICE 
VI-COUNTESS    FALKLAND' 

BY  JOHN  DUNCON 

EDITED,  WITH  INTRODUCTION,    BY 
M.  F.  HOWARD 


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GATEWAY  IN  GARDEN  OF  MANOR  HOUSE,  GREAT  TEW 


LONDON 

JOHN   MURRAY,  ALBEMARLE  STREET,  W. 

1908 


1  It  is  not  growing  like  a  tree 
In  bulk,  doth  make  men  better  be  ; 
Or  standing  long  an  oak,  three  hundred  year, 
To  fall  a  log  at  last,  dry,  bald  and  sere. 
A  lily  of  a  day 
Is  fairer  far  in  May. 
Although  it  fall  and  die  that  night, 
It  was  the  plant  and  flower  of  light. 
In  small  proportions  we  just  beauties  see, 
And  in  short  measures  life  may  perfect  be.' 

BEN  JONSON  :  Ode  to  the 
Memory  of  Henry  Morison. 


OR 


TO 

K.  M.  B. 


PREFACE 

THE  idea  of  this  book  was  suggested  to  me  by  the 
sympathetic  account  of  Lettice  Lady  Falkland's 
remarkable,  pious,  and  beautiful  life  given  in  the 
chapter  on  Great  Tew  in  Mrs.  Sturge  Henderson's 
'  Three  Centuries  in  North  Oxfordshire.' 

References  to  Lady  Falkland  in  the  seventeenth 
century  biographers,  Anthony  a  Wood  and  John 
Aubrey,  are  full  of  respect  and  admiration  ;  whilst 
Lord  Clarendon — her  husband's  most  intimate 
friend — describes  her  as  '  a  lady  of  most  extra- 
ordinary wit  and  judgment,  and  of  the  most  signal 
virtue  and  exemplary  life  that  the  age  produced ' 
('  Life,'  i.  45).  There  are  glimpses  of  her  gentle 
presence  and  influence  in  his  '  Character  of  Lord 
Falkland,'  and  also  in  a  biography  of  her  mother- 
in-law,  Elizabeth,  first  Lady  Falkland ;  but  the 
real  charm  of  her  personality  only  appears  in  the 
little  book  of  consolation  written  by  her  chaplain, 

vii 


viii  PREFACE 

Dr.  John  Duncon*  (1648).  It  gives  a  vivid  pic- 
ture of  the  life  of  a  devout  lady  of  the  seventeenth 
century — one  of  the  many  pious  Royalist  widows. 
She  would  be  interesting  merely  as  'the  dearly- 
beloved  wife  Lettice '  of  Lord  Falkland ;  but  her 
own  fascination  becomes  additionally  apparent  in 
the  simple  story  of  her  great  sorrows,  and  of  the 
eager,  loving,  and  practical  spirit  in  which  she 
grappled  with  the  social  problems  of  her  time  and 
sphere.  Her  methods  of  charity  may  seem  obso- 
lete, but  they  are  characterized  by  that  directly 
personal  contact  and  sympathy  which  is  now  recog- 
nized as  the  highest  type  of  social  service.  This, 
with  her  earnest  sense  of  responsibility  and  her 
idealism  for  herself  and  for  others,  makes  her  life 
as  instructive  to  those  who  work  as  to  those  who 
suffer. 

The  sincerity  of  Dr.  Duncon's  narrative  gives  it 
a  real  value  as  a  record  of  spiritual  experience,  and 
although  perhaps,  as  a  whole,  it  can  scarcely  claim 
to  be  regarded  as  a  book  of  devotion  suitable  to 
the  present  day,  yet  it  contains  so  much  that  is 
intensely  human  in  thought  and  aspiration,  so 
much  that  is  as  appropriate  to  the  needs  of  to- 
day as  to  those  of  three  centuries  ago,  that  I 

*  See  footnote,  p.  3. 


PREFACE  ix 

believe  it  will  appeal  to  many,  and  I  have  there- 
fore incorporated  a  large  part  of  the  spiritual 
letters  in  this  volume. 

The  description  of  her  life  and  character  to  be 
found  in  the  Rev.  W.  H.  Teale's  '  Life  of  Lord 
Falkland  '  has  been  helpful  to  me  in  many  ways. 

My  thanks  are  due  to  the  friends  who  have  taken 
an  encouraging  interest  in  the  preparation  of  this 
book ;  also  to  Viscount  Falkland  for  very  kindly 
allowing  me  to  reproduce  the  portrait  in  his  pos- 
session. 

M.  F.  HOWARD. 

February,  1908. 


CONTENTS 


INTRODUCTION  :  PAGE 

I.  BIOGRAPHY,  ELEGY,  AND  CHARACTER  I 

II.  ARGUMENT  OF  'THE  RETURNS  OF  SPIRITUAL  COM- 
FORT AND  GRIEF  IN  A  DEVOUT  SOUL*    -  15 

'  A  LETTER  CONTAINING  MANY  REMARKABLE  PASSAGES  IN 
THE  MOST  HOLY  LIFE  AND  DEATH  OF  THE  LATE  LADY 
LETICE  VICOUNTESS  FALKLAND  ;'  WITH  EXTRACTS 
FROM  'THE  RETURNS  OF  SPIRITUAL  COMFORT  AND 

GRIEF  IN  A  DEVOUT  SOUL/  BY  JOHN  DUNCON,  PARSON, 
SEQUESTRED,    OF    RATTENDEN,    ESSEX    -  -         33 

INDEX  -  -       107 


XI 


LIST  OF  ILLUSTRATIONS 


PAGE 


LETTICE,    VISCOUNTESS   FALKLAND  (FROM  A   CONTEMPORARY 

ENGRAVING)    -  -     frontispiece 

GATEWAY  IN  GARDEN   OF   MANOR   HOUSE,   GREAT  TEW        title-page 

ST.  MICHAEL'S  CHURCH,  GREAT  TEW          -  i 

INTERIOR  OF  ST.  MICHAEL'S  CHURCH,  GREAT  TEW,  WHERE 

LORD  AND  LADY  FALKLAND  WERE  BURIED  -  32 

LETTICE,  VISCOUNTESS  FALKLAND  (FROM  THE  PORTRAIT 
BY  CORNELIUS  JANSSEN,  IN  THE  POSSESSION  OF  VIS- 
COUNT FALKLAND)  -  -  to  face  page  32 


Xll 


ST.  MICHAEL'S  CHURCH,  GREAT  TEW. 


INTRODUCTION 

THE  rapid  development  of  biography  is  one  of  the 
most  interesting  features  of  English  literature  in 
the  seventeenth  century.  Before  this  period  it 
scarcely  existed  in  an  independent  form,  except  for 
a  few  Lives  of  kings — where  the  interest  was  scarcely 
psychological — and  the  stories  in  Foxe's  '  Book  of 
Martyrs/  The  place  of  the  modern  obituary 
notice  was  taken  by  the  elegy,  which  was  especially 
popular  with  the  superficially  cultured  Eliza- 


• 


2  INTRODUCTION 

bethans.  Although  the  pastoral  laments  usually 
miss  the  note  of  personal  sorrow,  there  is  a  stately 
reticence  in  their  pseudo-classicism  which  is  not 
lacking  in  good  taste  and  feeling.  The  death  of 
Ben  Jonson,  in  1637, was  deplored  in  a  little  volume 
of  elegies  written  by  his  friends  and  imitators — 
including  Lord  Falkland.  A  few  years  later,  similar 
poems  were  inscribed  to  the  memory  of  Lucius 
Gary  himself,  but  the  truest  portrait  of  the  man 
and  his  life  was  written  much  later  on,  in  the  auto- 
biography of  his  greatest  friend,  Lord  Clarendon. 
This  appreciation  of  Lord  Falkland  is,  in  form, 
closely  allied  to  the  '  Characters/  which  were  as 
fashionable  a  craze  of  literary  aspirants  in  the 
metaphysical  Jacobean  period  as  the  sonnet  was  of 
the  poetical  Elizabethans.  Perhaps  the  earliest 
example  of  a  prose  biography  of  the  modern  type 
is  Izaak  Walton's  '  Life  of  Dr.  Donne/  published 
as  a  preface  to  his  works  in  1640.  The  distinc- 
tive note  of  seventeenth-century  monographs — 
elegies  or  Characters — is  their  idealism,  for  they  are 
all  based  upon  sympathy  and  personal  friendship. 
A  very  representative  little  book,  published  in 
the  last  year  of  the  reign  of  Charles  I.,  combines 
the  different  elements  of  biography — elegy,  Char- 
acter, and  narrative — in  a  quaint  and  pathetic 


MEMORIAL  OF  LADY  FALKLAND       3 

manner.  It  is  a  memorial  of  Lady  Falkland, 
written  by  her  chaplain  and  two  friends  for  her 
mother  and  the  ladies  who  had  known  and  loved 
her  during  her  short  lifetime.  The  greater  part  is 
a  theological  and  rather  mystical  discussion  upon 
spiritual  joy  and  sorrow,  which  the  chaplain  had 
composed  for  Lady  Falkland  a  few  months  before 
her  death.  The  biography  was  an  afterthought, 
written  to  her  mother  in  the  form  of  a  letter,  and 
added  to  the  second  edition  of  '  The  Returns  of 
Spiritual  Comfort  and  Grief  in  a  Devout  Soul/1 
As  prologue  and  epilogue  there  are  two  elegies, 
more  conspicuous  for  enthusiasm  than  poetry,  but 
typical  examples  of  the  weaker  Caroline  verse. 
They  imitate  the  conceits  and  far-fetched  meta- 
phors of  Herbert  and  Donne,  and  the  epigrams 
which  delighted  Crashaw — all  the  artificialities  and 
mannerisms  which  show  decadence  in  any  school  of 

1  The  whole  book — '  The  Returns  of  Spiritual  Comfort  and 
Grief ' — was  republished,  1653,  with  additions,  and  again 
about  1760.  The  first  edition  (1648)  has  disappeared,  and  the 
second  (1649),  to  which  the  biography  was  appended,  seems 
to  have  become  rare  by  the  time  Antony  a  Wood  wrote  his  '  Life 
of  Lord  Falkland/  The  '  Life  of  Lady  Falkland '  was  modern- 
ized and  slightly  adapted  by  Gibbons,  and  included  in  his  work 
'  Eminently  Pious  Women/  published  in  1777,  1804,  and  1815. 
The  Rev.  W.  H.  Teale  added  a  short  account  of  Duncon's  '  Life 
of  Lady  Lettice  '  to  his  '  Life  of  Lord  Falkland.' 

1—2 


4  INTRODUCTION 

poetry.  The  authors  had  scarcely  escaped  from 
Ben  Jonson's  influence,  but  there  is  no  trace  of  the 
conventional  classical  elegiac  style,  and  the  poems 
are  biographical.  Their  metre  is  the  heroic  couplet 
dear  to  the  later  seventeenth-century  poets,  but 
their  spirit  is  that  of  the  early  Caroline  writers,  and 
the  combination  is  suggestive  of  Jacobean  epitaphs. 
They  were  written  by  members  of  an  Oxford  col- 
lege, and  signed  with  initials  which  probably  repre- 
sent Jaspar  Mayne  and  R.  West,  or  Walter,  who 
had  been  Lord  Falkland's  fellow-contributors  to 
'  Jonsonius  Virbius,'  the  collection  of  elegies  on  the 
Poet  Laureate.  The  longer  and  more  elaborate 
poem,  by  Mayne,  seems  to  have  been  written  from 
a  personal  knowledge  of  Lady  Falkland's  life  and 
character,  though  his  appreciation  was  founded 
upon  a  partial  misunderstanding.  The  biography 
shows  that  her  purity  of  soul  was  that  of  flame 
rather  than  snow.  The  elegies  are  confirmed  in 
their  praise  by  the  later  testimony  of  Lord  Claren- 
don, who  described  her  as  '  a  lady  of  most  extra- 
ordinary wit  and  judgement,  and  of  the  most 
signal  virtue  and  exemplary  life  that  the  age 
produced.' 

Incidentally  the  elegies  throw  some  light  upon  the 
state  of  religious  feeling  in  the  Royalist  party.   The 


ELEGIES  5 

standpoint  of  the  two  poets  is  that  of  the  tolerant 
orthodox  Arminian  (characteristic  of  Oxford  life 
and  thought  at  that  period),  to  whom  such  saintli- 
ness  as  Lady  Falkland's  was  a  virtue  rather  than 
a  necessity.  But  they  held  the  doctrine  of  special 
vocations  in  spiritual  things,  and  reckoned  her  with 
those  elect  souls  called  apart  for  superior  sanctity. 

'  Show  me  your  Legends,  you  in  whose  bright  Year 
More  Saints  and  Martyrs  than  black  Daies  appear  : 
Martyrs  and  Saints  whose  consecrated  Names 
Stand  shining  there  as  in  their  second  Flames. 
'Mongst  all  your  Tecla's,  Bridget's,  Friswid's  ;  all 
Your  fiction-Saints  ;  or  which  we  true  Saints  call ; 
You  will  not  find  one  He,  or  She,  more  fit 
To  be  extoll'd  or  canoniz'd  in  Wit, 
Than  this  departed  Ladie,  who  embalms 
All  Poetrie,  and  turns  all  Verse  to  Psalms.' 

With  equal  assurance  the  other  poet  declares  : 

'  Her  deeds  are  more  than  boldest  nuns  do  vow, 
The  legends  will  turn  a  true  histrie  now.' 

Although  not  wholly  free  from  exaggeration,  in 
thought  and  word,  the  Life  written  by  her  chap- 
lain, John  Duncon,  is  far  more  spiritual  in  tone, 
and  truer  in  its  view  of  her  character.  He  had  a 
closer  knowledge  of  the  facts  of  Lady  Falkland's 
last  years,  and  also  a  great  sympathy  and  reverence 
for  her  personally.  His  deep  admiration  of  her 


6  INTRODUCTION 

saintliness,  and  his  gratitude  to  her  and  to  her 
widowed  mother,  Lady  Morison  (who  lived  with 
her  at  Great  Tew),  must  account  for  his  tendency 
to  obsequiousness. 

John  Duncon  had  been  deprived  of  his  living,  at 
Rattenden  in  Essex,  by  a  Parliamentary  Commis- 
sion, about  1642  or  a  little  later.  His  political 
opinions  were  probably  the  chief  reason  of  his 
sequestration,  for  his  sympathies  were  so  obviously 
loyal  that  malice  and  ignorance  were  sure  to  effect 
his  displacement  by  slander  or  misrepresentation. 
He  explains  his  position  in  the  preface  to  '  The 
Returns  of  Spiritual  Comfort  and  Grief  in  a  Devout 
Soul/ 

'  It  hath  fared  with  me  (by  the  extraordinary 
blessing  of  God)  as  sometimes  it  doth  with  Ship- 
wracked  Mariners,  to  be  cast  off  a  tempestuous 
Sea,  into  a  rich  Island. 

'  Had  I  gone  onward  in  the  voyage  I  set  out  for 
(attending  my  Cure  in  Essex),  I  could  not  have 
promised  my  self  so  much  content  and  satisfaction 
(no,  not  in  outward  respects)  as  my  happy  Ship- 
wrack  (by  Sequestration  from  my  Parsonage)  hath 
gained  me.  I  left  Houses  and  Friends,  but  God 
provided  (according  to  His  promise  S.  Mark  x.  30) 
even  these  worldly  Comforts,  with  an  hundredfold 
Advantages. 

'  I  shall  offer  no  other  proof  for  it  than  that  I 
was  received  with  full  Accomodations,  and  plen- 


JOHNfDUNCON  7 

tifull  Conveniences  in  the  House  of  the  Right 
Honourable  Vi-Countess  Falkland. 

'  And  in  this  Family,  while  I  was  reaping  Carnall 
Things,  there  appeared  to  me  a  necessity  of  sowing 
Spirituall  things. 

'  This  virtuous  Lady  afflicted  with  Barrenness  in 
her  Soul  wanted  Inward  Comforts ;  and  I,  being 
the  nearest  (though  the  meanest)  of  God's  Minis- 
ters, undertook  that  Office  of  Comforting/ 

In  Lady  Falkland's  household  at  Great  Tew1 
John  Duncon  seems  to  have  found  his  inspiration 
and  the  great  opportunity  of  his  life — first,  in  his 
ministry  to  Lettice  Cary  herself ;  later  on,  in  the 
publication  of  the  letters  representing  her  spiritual 
conflicts  and  his  own  advice  and  comfort ;  lastly, 
in  the  short  biography  which  gives  so  intimate 
and  vivid  a  picture  of  one  of  the  noblest  yet 
most  typical  women  of  the  early  seventeenth 
century. 

John  Duncon  published  no  other  book,  and  died 
before  the  Restoration.  Although  his  theology  was 
narrow,  and  his  literary  powers  were  not  great, 
there  is  a  certain  charm  and  individuality  in  his 
work.  His  style  is  transitional — it  is  not  as  affected 

1  Great  Tew  is  in  North  Oxfordshire,  about  seventeen  miles 
from  Oxford.  The  Manor  House  was  pulled  down  and  rebuilt 
at  the  beginning  of  the  nineteenth  century.  The  stables  and 
dovecote  of  Lord  Falkland's  house  are  said  to  remain. 


8  INTRODUCTION 

as  that  of  Donne,  or  Dr.  Featlie,  the  writer  of  Lady 
Falkland's  favourite  book  of  devotions,  but  it  has 
not  the  direct  simplicity  of  Izaak  Walton.  Many 
of  Duncon' s  phrases  are  quaintly  beautiful  in  their 
naive  poetry,  and  may  be  compared  with  Walton 
at  his  best.  But  as  a  rule  the  overstrained  meta- 
phors (especially  Scriptural),  the  occasional  pro- 
lixity, and  the  love  of  pseudo-metaphysical  self- 
analysis,  reflect  the  fantastic  prose  of  the  early 
Caroline  writers.  His  thought  is  limited  in  range, 
but  it  is  curiously  representative  of  the  elements 
which  composed  the  faith  of  an  orthodox  Church- 
man at  that  period.  With  Herbert,  Laud,  and  the 
High  Church  party,  John  Duncon  is  intensely  loyal 
to  the  teaching  of  the  Prayer-Book  ;  his  advice  on 
the  inner  life  of  the  soul  is  deeply  tinged  with  the 
mysticism  which  probably  came  to  him  through 
the  influence  of  Nicholas  Ferrar ;  but  there  are 
traces  of  the  austerity  of  the  Puritans,  their  dis- 
trust of  human  love  and  joy,  and  their  gloomy 
opinions  on  election  and  reprobation. 

John  Duncon  thus  describes  the  origin  and 
growth  of  his  book  : 

'  After  frequent  Communication  with  this  Lady, 
having  learned  all  her  Objections  against  herself, 
and  having  seen  the  chief  sorrows  of  her  heart,  I 


THE  ORIGIN  OF  THE  BOOK  9 

composed  them  into  these  Letters,  and  annexed 
these  Answers  to  them,  and  left  them  with  her. 

'  And  now  they  are  the  Figure  of  a  Pious  Soul, 
with  its  vicissitudes  of  Comfort,  and  Grief;  The 
Lineaments  of  which  Figure  I  have  drawn  (as  you 
will  understand  by  comparing  the  Treatise  with 
the  Life  hereunto  annexed)  from  that  Holy  Ladies 
Soul ;  lest  she  (for  whom  alone  it  was  at  first 
decyphered)  should  think  it  too  general ;  but  the 
Proportions,  and  Degrees,  I  drew  not  exactly  from 
her  ;  those  I  heighten  here  and  there,  lest  you  (for 
whose  benefit  it  is  now  Published)  should  think  it 
too  Particular. 

'  So  it  will  appear  that  these  Letters,  and  their 
Answers,  are  not  a  strict  Relation,  but  a  Repre- 
sentation ;  And  in  them  I  have  taken  the  Liberty 
of  a  Representor,  to  express  the  height  of  Comfort, 
and  the  depth  of  Sorrow,  suddenly  succeeding  one 
to  the  other  ;  One  and  the  same  Soul  yesterday  on 
the  top  of  Mount  Tabor,  shining  with  the  excess 
of  Comfort,  and  to-day  on  the  top  of  Mount 
Calvary,  pierced  through  with  the  sharpest  points 
of  Sorrow  ;  And  though  this  be  not  ordinary,  yet 
some  such  there  have  been  and  are. 

'  But  you,  perhaps,  are  one  of  those  Holy  Souls, 
who  walk  in  the  plain  low  way,  unacquainted  with 
Heights  and  Depths  ;  And  though  so,  in  this  Repre- 
sentation you  may  see  the  various  Dispensations  of 
God,  and  from  it  you  may  learn  (however  God  hath 
been  pleased  to  deal  with  you  heretofore  ;  or  how- 
ever He  shall  be  pleased  to  deal  with  you  hereafter) 
to  be  fervent  in  Spirit,  and  to  be  zealous  to  the  end. 


io  INTRODUCTION 

'  The  other  annexed  Letter  is  not  a  Representa- 
tion of  what  the  Lady  should  have  been,  or  how 
she  ought  to  have  lived,  and  died,  but  a  strict 
Relation,  of  some  Spiritual  Comforts  and  Griefs, 
with  their  Returns  ;  and  of  many  excellent  virtues 
in  the  Life  of  the  late  Vi-Countess  Falkland  ;  which 
particulars  were  gathered  up  and  put  together,  at 
the  request  of  some  of  her  dear  Friends,  who  have 
promised  (as  it  is  hoped  you  also  will)  to  be  fol- 
lowers of  her  as  she  was  of  Christ,  and  then  to 
strive  to  excel  in  every  grace  and  virtue. 

'  If  in  anything  you  receive  Comfort,  or  Benefit, 
let  God  have  the  praise,  and  pray  for  me,  who  am 

'  Your  friend  and  servant  in  our  Lord  Christ, 

'  J-  D.' 

At  the  end  of  the  Life,  it  may  be  noticed  that 
John  Duncon  describes  the  preceding  letters  as  a 
collaboration  in  which  Lady  Falkland  herself  took 
a  large  part : 

'  I  have  prefixed  a  discourse  (by  way  of  Letters 
too)  wherein  much  of  a  Character  of  this  your 
Daughter  is  conteined ;  It  was  composed  for  her, 
and  delivered  to  her,  and  left  among  her  Papers, 
(and  though  upon  the  transcribing  of  the  Letters  I 
have  altered  and  added  somewhat,  yet  that  was 
according  to  her  desire,  and  the  directions  I  re- 
ceived from  herself  after  her  perusal  of  them) ;  and 
your  Ladyship  will  quickly  discern  that  many  of 
the  objections,  and  of  the  answers  too,  came  from 
her  own  self,  and  therefore  proper  enough  to  be 
joyned  with  this  relation  of  her  Life.' 


A  STUDY  OF  A  SPIRITUAL  LIFE      n 

Bishop  Earle,  the  friend  of  Lord  Falkland,  had 
written  short '  Characters '  of  a  child,  an  antiquary, 
a  contemplative  man,  and  many  other  types — keen- 
sighted,  witty,  and  rather  satirical  studies  of  man, 
the  microcosm.1  John  Duncon,  the  'sequestered 
parson/  with  unconscious  boldness,  described  the 
Devout  Soul,  in  '  general/  and  Lady  Falkland  in 
1  particular  ' — it  is  probable  that  Bishop  Earle  also 
had  '  particular '  cases  in  his  mind.  There  is  no 
question  of  a  pious  fraud  in  the  '  Representation  by 
means  of  Letters  ' — a  form  of  literature  for  which 
Duncon  had  at  least  one  precedent,  in  Lyly's 
'  Euphues.'  The  whole  work  as  he  conceived  it  is 
not  the  correspondence  of  Lady  Falkland  and  her 
chaplain,  but  a  study  of  the  spiritual  life  of  a  pious 
soul. 

Early  in  1649,  when  a  second  edition  of  Duncon' s 
book  was  published,  by  Richard  Royston  (an 
enthusiastic  Royalist),  a  similar  study  or  '  Char- 
acter '  appeared  from  the  same  press,  and  caused 
much  excitement  and  controversy.  In  the  '  Eikon 
Basilike  '  ('  The  King's  Image  ')  very  similar  prob- 
lems present  themselves,  for  there  is  the  same 
uncertainty  of  authorship,  notwithstanding  Dun- 
con's  explanation  of  his  own  part  in  the  Letters, 
'  Microcosmographie,'  by  John  Earle. 

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12  INTRODUCTION 

and  Gau den's  somewhat  incredible  claim  to  the 
'  Eikon  Basilike.'  Did  Charles  I.  write  the  medita- 
tions which  form  an  '  Apologia  pro  Vita  Sua,'  or 
was  Bishop  Gauden  or  some  other  chaplain1  the 
interpreter  of  his  hidden  life,  as  Duncon  was  to 
Lady  Falkland  ? 

It  would  be  preferable  to  believe  in  the  King's 
authorship  of  the  '  Eikon  Basilike/  for  no  sym- 
pathy is  adequate  to  the  task  of  writing  an 
impartial  and  yet  appreciative  '  Character/ 
Personality  is  too  elusive  for  analytic  description. 
Consequently,  John  Duncon' s  view  of  Lady  Falk- 
land is  sometimes  obscured  and  falsified  by 
exaggeration,  and  very  often  by  an  apparent 
misunderstanding  of  her  motives.  His  greatest 
merit  as  a  biographer  is  his  habit  of  quoting  her 
own  words,  and  her  quaint  speeches  often  have  a 
deeper  though  more  obvious  meaning  than  her 
chaplain  recognized.  Lettice  Gary  was  essentially 
a  mystic,  but,  in  the  spirit  of  St.  James,  she  in- 
stinctively translated  her  emotion  into  action,  her 
faith  into  works.  Even  her  arguments,  her  im- 
pulsiveness, and  her  '  anguish  and  bitterness  of 

1  The  Rev.  Edward  Simmonds,  who  brought  the  King's 
MS.  to  the  printer,  had  been  Rector  of  Rayne  in  Essex.  It  is 
probable  that  he  knew  John  Duncon. 


DEPTH  OF  CHARACTER  13 

spirit/  show  the  depth  and  reality  of  her  character, 
and  sometimes  make  Duncon's  serene  orthodoxy 
seem  a  little  dull  and  superficial.  Unhappily,  he 
did  not  fully  realize  how  far  her  depression  was  due 
to  ill-health,  and  he  commended,  though  he  did  not 
advise,  a  much  stricter  asceticism  than  she  should 
ever  have  practised. 

Lettice  Gary's  life  was  an  aspiration,  but  she 
was  an  intensely  human  woman,  and,  though 
starting  with  a  clearer  spiritual  insight  than  many 
souls,  she  had  no  scorn  of  earth,  and  little  of  the 
mystic's  impatience.  There  was  no  dullness  in 
her  life — in  joy  and  sorrow  alike  she  lived  vividly 
and  truly.  Mayne's  elegy  rises  to  an  almost 
Wordsworthian  thought  in  describing  her  youth  : 

'  A  stage  of  life,  in  which  appear'd  all  seeds 
Of  after-virtue,  yet  unmixed  with  weeds. 
Here  did  begin  her  studies,  which  then  told 
How  young  she  was  in  years,  in  grace  how  old. 
Whose  other  Scriptures  were  God's  creatures,  where 
She  heard  Him  speak  t'  her  eye,  as  that  t'  her  ear  ; 
And  like  the  Hebrew  shepheard,  in  each  blush 
Of  flowers  beheld  Him  flaming  in  a  bush, 
Once  more  unburnt,  thence  thought  she  heard  a  sound, 
Which  told  her,  God  thus  seen  made  holie  ground.' 

Her  early  lif£  at  her  country  home  in  Leicester- 
shire, and  her  romantic  marriage  for  love,  seem  to 


14  INTRODUCTION 

have  been  as  ideally  happy  as  earth  allows.  '  I 
have  had  my  portion  with  the  first — no  one  woman 
more/  she  testifies.  There  had  been  times  of 
doubt  and  depression,  nevertheless,  and  she  had 
a  natural  tendency  to  melancholy,  which  appears 
first  in  the  youthful  temptation  to  despair  (a  fore- 
shadowing of  the  trials  of  her  later  years).  Her 
brother's  death  must  have  been  the  greatest 
sorrow  of  her  girlhood,  but  it  is  probable  that  Sir 
Henry  Gary's  resolute  opposition  to  her  marriage 
with  his  son,  and  his  obstinate  refusal  of  forgive- 
ness, may  account  for  some  part  of  her  '  anguish 
and  bitterness  of  spirit.1 

As  John  Duncon  states,  her  afflictions  began  with 
the  separation  caused  by  her  husband's  departure 
for  the  Scotch  campaign  in  1639,  '  When  her  dear 
lord  and  most  beloved  husband,  that  he  might  be 
like  Zebulon  (a  student  helping  the  Lord  against 
the  mighty),  went  from  his  Library  to  the  Camp  ; 
from  his  Book  and  Pen  to  his  Sword  and  Spear.' 
From  this  time  onward  he  was  deeply  engaged  in 
political  duties,  and,  having  identified  himself  with 
the  Royalists,  he  was  made  Chief  Secretary  of 
State  in  1641.  The  Civil  War  broke  out  in  the 
following  year,  and  Lord  Falkland  fought  with  a 
desperate  and  reckless  courage  which,  added  to  his 


INFLUENCE  OF  THE  CIVIL  WAR      15 

obvious  anxiety  and  grief  for  the  national  troubles, 
occasioned  the  suspicions  which  arose  after  his  death 
at  the  Battle  of  Newbury  (September  20,  1643). 

Lady  Falkland  survived  him  for  three  years,  '  a 
most  disconsolate  widow/  finding  her  only  possible 
comfort  in  devotion  and  the  strict  performance  of 
her  duty  to  her  children  and  dependents.  Loyal 
though  she  was,  it  is  likely  that  the  political 
troubles  had  affected  her  most  painfully  through 
her  husband's  distress ;  and  from  the  mournful 
seclusion  of  Great  Tew,  after  his  death,  the  great 
struggle  was  regarded  with  less  excitement  than 
sorrow.  References  to  the  war  are  few  and  vague, 
but  it  cannot  be  forgotten  that  the  spirit  of  the 
time  was  full  of  strife  and  suffering,  and  that 
Duncon's  picture  of  Lady  Falkland's  life  is  painted 
upon  a  dark  background — as  it  were,  of  distant 
battlefields. 


II 

It  is  scarcely  an  exaggeration  to  say  that  the 
Civil  War  broke  the  hearts  of  both  Lord  and  Lady 
Falkland.  But  even  in  a  time  of  peace  and  pros- 
perity, Lettice  Gary  was  too  emotional  and  too 
sensitive  for  any  lasting  satisfaction  with  earthly 


16  INTRODUCTION 

joy,  and  she  never  ceased  to  look  through  and 
beyond  things  temporal  for  things  eternal.  She 
was  a  devout  Churchwoman,  and  the  first  letter  in 
Duncon's  book  describes  in  detail  her  religious 
exercises,  and  their  resultant  spiritual  joy. 

'  Now  and  then  I  compare  the  former  pleasures 
and  delights  I  had  in  worldly  things,  at  Court,  with 
these  I  now  enjoy,  and  I  account  them  all  as  dross 
in  comparison  of  these.' 

But  the  chaplain  responds  with  a  warning,  as 
well  as  encouragement. 

'  All  such  comfort  and  delight  (as  you  seem  to 
speak  of)  is  not  spiritual  or  lasting  ;  In  these  holy 
exercises  .  .  .  there  is  an  outward  and  sensible 
comfort,  as  well  as  an  inward  and  spiritual  com- 
fort ;  and  these  sensible  consolations  (as  they  are 
called)  not  so  lasting  and  permanent,  as  these 
inward  comforts  are/ 

His  correspondent  replies  : 

'  That  clause  in  your  letter  of  Spiritual  and 
sensible  consolations,  I  do  not  clearly  apprehend  ; 
how  (I  pray)  can  there  be  sensible  consolations  in 
Inward  and  Spiritual  things  ?' 

In  the  next  Answer  the  chaplain  explains  his 
meaning  in  a  characteristic  metaphysical  theory.1 

1  Duncon  seems  to  have  studied  some  modern  mystical 
writers,  especially  S.  Francis  de  Sales,  as  well  as  the  Fathers. 


THEORY  OF  CONSOLATIONS          17 

It  is  somewhat  mystical  and  abstruse,  but  Lady 
Falkland  was  a  cultured  and  intellectual  woman, 
and,  later  on,  complained  of  herself :  '  If  I  could 
abridge  myself  a  little  of  the  pleasure  I  take  in 
Philosophy  and  History/ 

'  I  must  subdivide  the  Soul/  John  Duncon 
writes,  '  into  a  Lower  region  and  an  upper ;  I 
mean,  into  Sensitive  and  Rationall  faculties  ;  the 
lower  region  or  the  Sensitive  part,  consists  of  the 
Inward  senses,  Imagination  and  Memory,  etc.,  the 
Upper  region  or  Rationall  part  consists  of  the 
Understanding  and  Will,  and  answering  to  these 
two  parts  of  the  Soul,  there  are  Spiritual  and 
sensible  consolations/ 

This  is  merely  a  preface  to  the  main  argument, 
and  in  the  next  letter,  using  the  phraseology  and 
distinctions  thus  expounded,  the  devout  soul 
laments  the  decrease  of  her  '  sensible  consola- 
tions/ 

Throughout  the  letters  there  is  no  obvious  refer- 

The  Spanish  mystics  were  popular  in  England  with  a  certain 
section  of  the  High  Church  party  (cf.  Crashaw's  enthusiasm  for 
St.  Teresa,  and  Abraham  Woodhead's  edition  of  her  'Life'). 
Nicholas  Ferrar,  of  Little  Gidding,  translated  the  '  Hundred 
and  Ten  Divine  Considerations/  by  Valdes,  a  Spaniard.  An 
Italian  translation  of  this  book  was  presented  to  the  Bodleian 
Library  in  1639  by  one  John  Duncomb,  Rector  of  Swanning- 
ton,  near  Norwich.  Possibly  this  was  John  Duncon. 

3 


i8  INTRODUCTION 

ence  to  the  events  of  Lady  Falkland's  life,  but  it  is 
clear  that  her  spiritual  conflicts  were  caused  by 
her  grief  for  her  husband.  With  her  widowhood, 
a  great  change  came  over  her  spirit.  There  may  be 
some  morbidity  in  her  view  of  the  sorrow  which 
had  fallen  upon  her,  but  there  is  more  to  be  ad- 
mired in  the  faith  and  love  which  still  endured, 
though  her  health  was  failing  and  her  heart  broken. 
Henceforward  she  modelled  her  life  and  character 
upon  the  Sermon  on  the  Mount,  and  this  resolve 
is  the  framework  of  John  Duncon's  description  of 
her  widowhood,  so  that  the  outward  story  becomes 
the  symbol  of  her  inward  growth  in  grace.  To  the 
chaplain,  it  seemed  a  triumphal  progress  in  the 
way  of  Holiness,  but  to  Lettice  Gary  herself 
(judging  by  her  words  and  the  letters)  the  imita- 
tion of  Christ  included  the  Via  Dolorosa — the 
'  King's  Highway  of  the  Holy  Cross/ 

But  the  crisis  which  occasioned  the  writing  of 
the  letters  came  in  November,  1645,  two  years  after 
her  husband's  death,  when  she  lost  the  youngest 
of  her  three  children,  Lucius,  Henry,  and  Lorenzo. 
As  John  Aubrey  says,  she  was  '  much  governed  by 
and  indulgent  to  the  nursery/  and  this  boy  was 
specially  dear  to  her  because  of  the  promise  of  his 
character — and  partly,  perhaps,  on  account  of  the 


LOVE  AND  LIFE  19 

delicate  health  which  he  and  his  eldest  brother  seem 
to  have  inherited. 

In  the  biography  there  is  a  pathetic  but  brief  des- 
cription of  her  sorrow  and  the  spiritual  difficulties 
which  followed  this  trial,  but  the  problem  is  dis- 
cussed through  several  letters.  JohnDuncon writes: 

'  If  God  will  not  have  any  love  of  yours  run 
waste  upon  consolations,  but  elevate  it  all  to  Him- 
self, you  have  no  more  reason  to  complain  than  the 
Child,  from  whom  the  Nurse  is  withdrawn  that 
the  Mother  might  gain  its  chiefest  affections ;  or 
supposing  God  bestowed  comforts  (especially  those 
sensible)  on  you  because  of  the  infirmity  of  your 
condition,  but  now  hath  strengthened  you  to  sub- 
sist without  them,  you  have  no  more  reason  to 
complain  than  the  Cripple  that  is  healed,  for  the 
loss  of  his  Crutches/ 

The  chaplain's  theory  of  life  sometimes  seems 
to  place  all  earthly  blessings  in  the  category  of 
'  comforts '  for  the  lack  of  Absolute  Joy  in  this 
world — depriving  them  of  their  value  as  a  real, 
though  not  essential,  part  of  that  joy.  Lettice  Gary 
did  not  accept  this  Puritan  doctrine  without  a 
struggle,  but  there  is  almost  a  note  of  bitterness 
in  her  words  on  earthly  love — '  Oh,  love  me  not,  I 
pray,  too  much,  and  God  grant  I  never  love  my 
friends  too  much  hereafter  ;  that  hath  cost  me 

3—2 


20  INTRODUCTION 

dear,  and  my  heart  hath  smarted  sore  with  grief 
for  it  already/  The  words  '  sound  harshly  '  to  us, 
as  they  did  to  her  dearest  friends,  but  it  is  likely 
that  she  foresaw  her  early  departure,  and  would 
have  saved  them  from  mourning  for  her  too  deeply. 
The  ascetic  view  of  human  love  and  joy  had  no 
attraction  for  her,  and  refusal  of  earthly  happiness 
was  no  part  of  her  philosophy  of  life,  but  she  advo- 
cated temperance  in  affection,  and  fully  recognized 
the  claim  of  a  higher  love.  Moreover,  the  truest 
earthly  love  is  seldom  free  from  an  element  of 
selfishness  which  entails  purification  by  sorrow. 
The  problem  discussed  in  the  letters  is  summed  up 
in  that  pathetic  speech  which  gives  the  keynote 
of  her  life  :  '  Oh,  I  have  had  my  portion  of  these 
very  comforts  with  the  first ;  no  one  woman  more  ; 
but  there  is  no  lasting  or  true  pleasure  in  them  : 
There  is  no  real  comfort  from  any  espousals,  but 
from  those  to  Christ/ 

In  some  measure,  she  accepted  her  earthly 
sorrows  with  resignation,  but  a  feeling  of  desertion 
developed  from  her  grief,  and  drove  her  to  despair. 
She  could  feel  no  joy  in  her  faith — the  chaplain 
insisted  upon  its  necessity,  even  in  tribulation. 

'  There  is  a  joy  which  is  the  fruit  of  the  Spirit,  and 
it  constantly  ariseth  from  faith  in  God,  and  love  of 


JOY  IN  TRIBULATION  21 

Him  ;  and  there  is  the  fullness  or  superabondance 
of  that  joy  .  .  .  the  first  is  a  Grace,  the  second  is  a 
Reward  .  .  .  the  first  is  a  most  necessary  fruit  of  our 
Faith  and  Love,  and  doth  always  accompany  them. 
We  love  Him  not  unless  we  rejoice  in  Him  .  .  . 
whereas  this  second  is  a  bountiful  expression  of 
God's  extraordinary  grace  towards  us  ;  a  foretaste 
(indeed)  of  the  joys  of  Heaven.  The  first  is  as 
the  Christian's  daily  bread ;  this  second  as  their 
festival  cheer/ 

To  this  his  correspondent  replies  : 

'  Alas,  instead  of  my  former  Omer  of  Joy,  I  do 
not  now  find  this  Ephah  !  And  if  my  joy  wholly 
fails,  what  love  can  there  be  in  me  ?' 

John  Duncon's  solution  is  full  of  insight  and 
sympathy,  with  all  its  mystical  metaphysics. 

1  The  Schoolmen  are  wont  to  say  that  all  the 
while  our  most  blessed  Saviour  Christ  lived  upon 
earth  there  was  (as  it  were)  a  traverse  [screen] 
drawn  between  the  beatifical  vision  and  the  sensi- 
tive faculties  of  Christ's  human  soul ;  and  that  when 
our  Saviour  was  upon  the  Cross,  and  cried  out, 
"  My  God,  My  God  !  why  hast  Thou  forsaken  Me  ?" 
then  the  traverse  was  drawn  between  the  beatifical 
vision  and  the  reasonable  faculties  of  His  human 
soul. 

'  This  may  be  applied  to  many  good  Christians. 
...  As  there  was  a  true  hypostatical  union  between 
God  and  man  in  Christ  while  He  cried  out  so  upon 


22  INTRODUCTION 

the  Cross,  though  the  manhood  had  no  vision  of 
the  Godhead ;  so  there  is  still  a  mystical  union  be- 
tween God  and  your  soul,  though  you  have  no 
vision  or  appearance  of  it.  Subtracta  est  visio,  non 
soluta  est  unio.  Love  still  unites  you  to  God,  and 
there  is  joy  and  other  necessary  graces  with  it,  too, 
though  you  wanted  the  comfort  of  them  in  your 
sensitive  faculties  for  a  long  time,  and  now  also  in 
your  reasonable/ 

But  the  question  of  the  disinterestedness  of  her 
love,  which  was  Duncon's  greatest  anxiety,  is  the 
occasion  of  his  finest  passage  : 

'  Your  Love,  that  most  precious  and  excellent 
affection  of  your  Soul,  shall  by  this  desertion  be 
advanced  to  God,  and  appropriated  to  Him  alone. 
Then  you  may  see  how  weak  that  Love  is,  when 
we  love  God  only  or  chiefly  for  that  parcel  of  Mercy 
or  comfort  which  He  is  pleased  to  communicate  to 
us  ;  and  that  the  strength  of  love  is  to  love  that 
infinite  mercifulness  and  incomprehensible  good- 
ness that  is  in  Him  ;  to  love  God  more  for  that 
Ocean  in  Himself  than  for  these  few  drops  He  sheds 
down  upon  us  ;  for  His  own  goodness  more  than  for 
our  benefit  or  comfort  by  it — this,  this  is  the 
strength  of  love.' 

There  is  comfort  in  the  very  theory  of  sorrow  as 
a  discipline,  for  meek  souls  with  Lettice  Gary's  in- 
tense desire  for  perfection.  Yet  the  worst  pain  of 
her  desertion  was  the  thought  that  her  own  sin  had 


HER  FAULTS  WERE  ALMOST  VIRTUES    23 

caused  it,  for,  as  Julian  of  Norwich  said  :  '  There 
is  no  harder  hell  than  sin/  There  are  pathetic  con- 
fessions in  the  letters  of  faults  chiefly  due  to  her 
bodily  weakness.  '  I  am  actually  slothful  and  will 
not,  and  then  I  excuse  it  that  I  am  naturally  weak 
and  cannot/  she  complains.  Another  lament  is 
equally  human  : 

'  I  have  some  jealousies  .  .  .  worldly-mindedness 
may  be  shrewdly  accessory  to  this  my  desertion. 
I  am  too  busily  (I  fear)  imploied  in  the  things  of 
this  world  to  have  and  retein  that  portion  of 
heavenly  comfort ;  I  traffick  too  much  on  this  side 
Jordan  to  have  those  sweets  of  the  land  of  Canaan.' 

Nevertheless,  her  worst  faults  were  almost  vir- 
tues in  excess— an  unconscious  selfishness  in  affec- 
tion, a  dread  of  offending  those  whom  she  loved, 
and  some  degree  of  impatience  and  impulsiveness. 
Though  they  were  at  the  root  of  her  worst  '  deser- 
tion/ they  seem  little  more  than  the  sins  of  a  child. 
In  answer  to  the  most  despairing  letter,  the  chap- 
lain repeats  an  earlier  warning  that  her  fear  may  be 
a  great  temptation  of  the  Evil  One,  and  ends  with 
a  prayer  that  it  may  quickly  pass  away.  The  next 
letter  recounts  the  return  of  joy  to  the  devout  soul : 

'  Now  my  joys  return  ;  I  now  behold  the  face  of 
God,  and  feel  His  comforts  in  the  service  and  wor- 


24  INTRODUCTION 

ship  of  Him,  and  therefore  every  hour  seems  five 
until  the  hour  of  Prayer  comes.  ...  If  barrenness 
be  so  fruitful,  and  yields  such  a  plentiful  harvest, 
oh,  my  soul !  be  thou  never  hereafter  troubled  at 
it.  Resolve  thou  rather  with  Habakkuk,  cap.  13. 
17  :  "  Though  there  be  no  Oile  of  Joy  nor  wine  of 
comfort — no,  nor  blossom  on  the  Olive  or  Vine  (no 
appearance  or  hopes  of  any  Oile  or  Wine  for  re- 
freshment)— yet  will  I  love  the  Lord  and  rejoice  in 
my  God";  and  then  press  forward  (O  my  soul) 
towards  that  of  Job,  cap.  13, 15 : ' ' Etiamsi  occideres, 
though  I  be  parched  and  withered  with  drought, 
and  consumed  with  barrenness,  though  Thou  killest 
me  (O  Lord)  with  it,  yet  will  I  love  Thee  and  trust 
in  Thee." 

The  argument  of  the  book  ends  with  this  attain- 
ment of  a  higher  type  of  spiritual  joy  in  the  tenth 
letter,  but  two  more  letters  and  answers  follow  as 
an  epilogue,  with  advice  on  questions  of  conduct 
and  encouragement  for  continuance  and  progress. 
The  chaplain  enforces  his  early  warnings  against 
the  delusions  of  a  false  joy  in  a  way  which  shows 
his  knowledge  of  mystical  theories.  The  devout 
soul,  practical  as  ever,  is  '  full  of  diligence  in  holy 
duties  and  exercises  of  devotion/  and,  '  though 
increasing  in  holy  fear  and  godliness,  is  much 
troubled  with  doubts  and  scruples/  Some  passages 
may  be  read  in  close  connexion  with  the  biography. 


SYMPATHETIC  COUNSEL  25 

'  Though  God  hath  given  me  a  most  sincere  and 
unfeigned  desire  to  please  Him,  yet  in  many  things 
I  offend,  in  most  things  I  fear  and  doubt.  One 
while,  I  fear,  I  indulge  too  much  liberty  to  others, 
and  too  little  to  myself ;  another  while,  that  I  am 
too  strict  to  others,  and  too  remiss  to  myself,  and 
therefore  I  mete  not  to  others  as  I  mete  to  myself. 
I  multiply  queries  against  myself — whether  this 
duty  was  well  performed  or  not ;  this  action  lawful 
or  not ;  that  word  or  silence  seasonable  or  not/ 

John  Duncon's  conclusion,  with  its  sympathetic 
counsel,  is  characteristically  quaint : 

'  And  now  at  last .  .  .  you  seem  to  grudge  all 
time  which  is  not  spent  by  you  in  holy  Duties  and 
Prayer,  and  you  think  fit  to  advance  in  them  as 
in  other  graces  and  virtues.  Love,  I  see,  is  liberal, 
and  where  you  love  much  you  will  still  be  giving 
more. 

'  And  the  more  you  increase  in  Love,  the  less 
will  that  seem  to  be  which  you  bestow  ;  that  which 
is  much  now  will  seem  less  hereafter.  And  if  you 
think  fit  your  holy  duties  of  Prayer  and  Meditation 
should  advance  still,  in  proportion  to  your  Love : 
Remember  withall  that  of  Jacob  (the  mighty  man 
of  Prayer)  to  drive  no  faster  than  the  children  and 
cattle  (your  weak  body,  Jumentum  animczy  as  the 
Fathers  call  it)  are  able  to  endure. 

'  Now,  my  Prayer  shall  be,  That  all  these  shak- 
ings by  doubts  and  scruples  may  tend  to  root  you 
more  deep  and  more  firm  in  the  love  of  our  Lord 


26  INTRODUCTION 

Jesus  Christ,  to  Whose  grace  and  mercy  I  com- 
mend you,  and  rest 

'  Your  servant  in  Christ  Jesu, 
'J.  D. 

'December  23,  1646.' 

These  letters  seem  to  have  been  the  chaplain's 
Christmas  gift  to  Lady  Falkland  a  few  weeks  before 
the  journey  to  London  which  hastened  her  death. 
At  the  end  of  her  life  there  was  no  ecstasy  and  no 
terror ;  '  her  tranquillity  of  mind  was  most  ob- 
servable/ She  sent  all  who  could  be  spared  to 
pray  for  her  in  the  church.  So  much  of  her  life 
was  bound  up  with  that  church  at  Great  Tew  that 
her  friends  must  have  found  hope  and  comfort 
there  from  a  fuller  realization  of  the  Communion 
of  Saints.  To  those  who  stayed  with  her,  she  said 
only, '  Fear  God,  fear  God  I'  and  so  rested  in  peace. 

It  was  an  elementary  truth,  for  '  the  fear  of  the 
Lord  is  the  beginning  of  wisdom/  yet  the  fear 
which  is  reverence  can  never  be  outgrown.  More- 
over, '  the  secret  of  the  Lord  is  with  them  that  fear 
Him.1 

It  was  not  the  spirit  of  bondage  which  pervaded 
Lettice  Gary's  life,  but  the  spirit  of  loving  service. 
With  all  their  characteristic  thoroughness  and  spon- 
taneity, her  actions  are  so  practical  and  so  wise  in 


CARE  FOR  HER  HOUSEHOLD         27 

their  unworldliness  that  they  clear  her  from  the 
charge  of  morbidity.  There  was  nothing  superflu- 
ous in  the  charities  which  seem  formal  or  fussy  in 
John  Duncon' s  record.  They  supplied  a  real  need, 
for  the  cottagers  whom  she  helped  and  visited  were 
dependent  upon  the  bounty  of  the  richer  classes  to 
an  extent  which  it  is  hard  to  realize  now.  Even 
the  house-servants,  whose  welfare  occupied  so 
much  of  her  time  and  thought,  were  probably  un- 
able to  read,  and  were  certainly  untrained  in  the 
refinement  and  Christian  courtesy  which  Lady 
Falkland  desired  in  her  household. 

It  seems  that  the  ideal  which  the  domestic  life 
at  Great  Tew  Manor  followed  during  Lady  Falk- 
land's widowhood  was  the  standard  of  that  at 
Nicholas  Ferrar's  '  Protestant  Nunnery '  at  Little 
Gidding  (a  much-criticised  but  beautiful  endeavour 
to  revive  the  professed  religious  life).  One  of  John 
Duncon's  brothers  was  a  High  Church  divine,  and 
another  was  Edmund  Duncon,  who  had  been 
sent  from  Little  Gidding  to  George  Herbert's 
deathbed  in  1633,  an(i  was  entrusted  with  the 
poet's  manuscripts.  He  lived  in  close  connexion 
with  the  Ferrars  for  some  years.  It  is  more 
than  likely  that  John  Duncon  had  shared  this 
intimacy,  and  that  his  account  of  their  ordered 

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28  INTRODUCTION 

and  devout  lives  had  a  great  influence  upon  Lady 
Falkland. 

One  of  her  most  cherished  plans  was  that  for  the 
establishment  of 

'  places  for  the  education  of  young  Gentlewomen, 
and  for  retirement  of  Widows  .  .  .  hoping  thereby 
that  learning  and  religion  might  flourish  more  in 
her  own  Sex  than  heretofore,  having  such  oppor- 
tunities to  serve  the  Lord  without  distraction/ 

It  is  said  that  Burford  Priory,1  an  estate  which 
Lord  Falkland  sold  to  the  Speaker,  Lenthall,  had 
seemed  to  her  especially  adapted  for  such  a  pur- 
pose. It  was  a  large  Elizabethan  manor-house, 
with  a  Jacobean  chapel.  This  scheme  seems  to 
have  been  suggested,  or  influenced,  by  the  success 
of  the  community  at  Little  Gidding,  which  chiefly 
consisted  of  Nicholas  Ferrar's  widowed  mother  and 
sister  and  several  nieces.  The  '  Nunnery  '  had  been 

1  Burford  Priory,  in  Oxfordshire,  the  birthplace  of  Lord 
Falkland,  was  left  directly  to  him  by  his  grandfather,  Lord 
Tanfield.  The  house  has  been  rebuilt  with  the  old  materials, 
and  made  smaller,  but  it  still  has  a  fine  Elizabethan  front. 
The  chapel  was  unaltered,  and  is  in  much  better  repair  than  the 
house,  which  is  falling  into  ruin.  Teale  seems  to  be  the  only 
authority  for  its  connexion  with  Lady  Falkland's  plans,  but 
his  supposition  is  not  improbable,  as  she  spent  some  part  of  her 
early  married  life  there,  before  it  was  sold  to  Speaker  Lenthall 
in  1634. 


TENDENCY  TOWARDS  ASCETICISM    29 

commended  so  highly  by  Charles  I.  and  other 
visitors,  and  was  so  much  in  harmony  with  the 
ideas  of  many  Royalists,  that,  in  a  more  settled 
time,  Lady  Falkland  would  have  had  little  diffi- 
culty in  carrying  out  her  project. 

This  influence  accounts  also  for  the  apparent 
tendency  towards  asceticism  and  conventual  life, 
which  is  rather  exaggerated,  not  only  by  John 
Duncon  and  the  writers  of  the  two  elegies,  but 
also  by  W.  Marshall,  the  artist  who  designed  the 
symbolical  frontispiece  to  '  The  Returns  of  Spiritual 
Comfort  and  Grief  in  a  Devout  Soul/  Emblems 
(reminiscent  of  Quarles)  representing  the  contents 
of  the  book  are  surmounted  by  a  portrait  of  Lady 
Falkland,  in  which  the  nun-like  characteristics  of 
her  face  are  emphasized  by  a  black  widow*  s  veil, 
which  is  hauntingly  suggestive  of  a  conventual 
dress.  A  visitor  to  Little  Gidding  writes  : 

'  The  habit  of  the  young  women,  nine  or  ten  or 
more  of  them,  was  black  stuff  all  of  one  grave 
fashion,  always  the  same,  with  comely  veils  on 
their  heads/ 

Duncon  records  of  Lady  Falkland  that  '  the 
vanity  of  apparel  and  dresses  she  had  cut  off  long 
before,  and  after  her  Husband's  death  the  richness 
of  them,  too/  During  his  lifetime  she  had  certainly 


30  INTRODUCTION 

dressed  to  please  his  taste,  since  '  clothes  and  habits 
...  he  had  minded  with  more  neatness  and  indus- 
try and  expense  than  is  usual  to  so  great  a  soul/ 
for  two  earlier  portraits  represent  her  in  the  elabo- 
rate dress  of  the  period.  In  her  girlhood  she  was 
exquisitely  pretty,  with  a  pensive  and  gentle  ex- 
pression which  reveals  a  tendency  to  a  rather  sen- 
suous type  of  mysticism.  A  later  portrait  is  dig- 
nified and  reserved,  with  a  somewhat  cold  refine- 
ment, but  it  lacks  the  charm  of  her  personality. 

The  frontispiece  portrait,  though  it  represents 
Lettice  Gary  in  her  thirty-fifth  year,  worn  with 
sorrow  and  ill-health,  has  a  much  more  youthful 
expression.  In  spite  of  exaggerations  and  possible 
inaccuracies,  the  artist  had  caught  the  spirit  of 
her  life,  and,  to  the  utmost  of  his  power,  he  de- 
picted the  soul  he  saw.  Her  eagerness  and  sincerity 
are  evident,  and  her  pathetic  humility  and  wistful- 
ness  make  the  same  appeal  as  the  letters  of  inquiry. 
Her  features  show  very  plainly,  in  their  unearthli- 
ness  and  transparency,  '  that  look  we  have  on  our 
faces  who  die  young/  The  small  chin,  the  large 
and  beautiful  eyes,  and  the  sadness  of  her  mouth, 
all  give  an  impression  of  flower-like  purity  and 
fragility.  It  is  not  a  weak  face — unless  the  inno- 
cence of  a  child  is  weakness — and  the  extreme  sen- 


A  BOOK  OF  FRIENDSHIP  31 

sitiveness  is  that  of  a  fine  spirit,  capable  of  suffer- 
ing, not  with  passive  endurance,  but  with  a  power 
of  realization  of  pain  which  made  even  sympathy 
an  agony  to  her.  The  deepening  of  spirituality 
makes  this  the  best  and  truest  of  the  portraits,  for 
it  shows  a  woman  who  loved  much,  whose  strongest 
characteristic  was  devotion  too  earnest  to  be  in- 
variably wise  and  reasonable.  Yet  her  great  capa- 
city for  joy  is  visible  enough,  and  it  is  easy  to 
imagine  a  smile,  wistful  and  quaintly  humorous  as 
her  little  epigrammatic  sayings.  Perhaps  she  was 
too  sincere  to  be  wholly  serious,  and  sometimes 
John  Duncon  seems  to  record  a  playful  remark  or 
thought  so  ponderously  that  the  point  is  obscured 
or  lost.  But  although  he  did  not  always  under- 
stand her  real  meaning,  he  quoted  her  actual  words 
in  the  letters  or  the  life  simply  because  she  had 
spoken  them,  and  her  friends  would  love  to  re- 
member them.  The  whole  book — and  this  is,  per- 
haps, the  only  excuse  for  the  publication  of  her 
biography  with  the  letters,  which  she  had  probably 
authorized  Duncon  to  print — is  a  book  of  friend- 
ship, written  by  and  for  those  who  loved  Lady 
Falkland. 

The  keynote  of  the  volume  is  sounded  with  no 
uncertainty  in  the  text  which  forms  its  motto. 


32  INTRODUCTION 

Sorrow  and  suffering  are  not  mere  tests  of  faith  and 
love,  but  a  '  means  of  grace/  and  a  way  towards 
the  ultimate  and  eternal  joy.  So,  through  all  his 
deep  sympathy,  and  even  while  he  recognized  pain 
as  a  chastening  discipline,  John  Duncon's  theme  is 
Christian  gladness,  and  thus  he  could  write  on  the 
papers  he  '  composed  for  and  delivered  to '  Lady 
Falkland  :  '  We  are  helpers  of  your  joy/ 


INTERIOR  OF  ST.   MICHAEL'S,   GREAT  TEW. 
(Lord  and  Lady  Falkland  were  buried  here,  but  their  graves  are  not  known.) 


LETTJCE,   VISCOUNTESS   FALKLAND. 

From  the  portrait  by  Cornelius  Janssen  in  the  possession  of 
Viscount  Falkland, 


A  LETTER  CONTAINING  MANY  REMARKABLE 
PASSAGES  IN  THE  MOST  HOLY  LIFE  AND 
DEATH  OF  THE  LATE  LADY  LETICE, 
VICOUNTESS  FALKLAND 

WRITTEN  TO  THE  LADY  MORISON  AT  GREAT  TEW  IN 
OXFORDSHIRE1 

'  MADAME, 

'  It  is  the  desire  of  some  Honourable  Per- 
sonages to  have  an  exact  account  of  the  Death  of 
your  most  dear  Daughter,  the  Lady  Falkland ; 
they  being  privy  to  much  piety  in  her  life,  expect 
(as  well  they  may)  somewhat  most  remarkable  in 
her  sickness  and  death. 

'  And  for  the  comfort  of  you,  and  for  the  satis- 
faction of  them,  I  have  gathered  together  some 
scattered  particulars  of  her  life,  sickness,  and  death, 
and  have  sent  them  unto  you.    That  the  most 
precious  perfume  of  her  name,  being  poured  out 
(like  S.  Mary  Magdalen's  box  of  Spikenard),  may 
1  Second  Edition,  1649.     London  :  R.  Royston. 
33  5 


34  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

fill  your  and  their  houses.  And  though  this  rela- 
tion of  so  many  eminent  virtues  in  her,  would  not 
(perhaps)  have  appeared  so  handsome  from  your 
own  pen  (because  so  deep  a  share  of  the  praise 
belongs  to  you),  yet  you  need  not  blush  at  the 
delivering  of  it ;  it  may  consist  with  your  modesty, 
to  be  a  witness  of  the  truth  of  these  particulars  ; 
though  not  to  be  a  Publisher  of  them. 

'  And  if  the  memory  of  that  most  holy  Lady, 
continue  precious  amongst  us ;  and  her  holy  ex- 
ample efficacious  with  us  ;  and  God  (who  sanctified 
her  here,  and  now  glorifies  her  in  heaven)  be  mag- 
nified and  honoured  for  his  mercies  and  graces,  I 
have  all  I  aim  at. 

'  I  shall  note  somewhat  remarkable  in  the  very 
beginning  of  her  Christian  race  ;  more,  in  her  pro- 
gress, and  proficiency  in  it ;  and  then  come  to  the 
last  stages,  when  the  crown,  at  the  end  of  the  race, 
was  (as  it  were)  within  her  sight  and  view. 

'  This  elect  Lady  set  out  early  in  the  ways  of 
God,  in  the  dawn  or  morning  of  her  Age  :  There 
was  care  taken  while  she  was  young,  that  she 
should  be  brought  up  in  the  nurture  and  admoni- 
tion of  the  Lord ;  She  came  not  from  her  nurse's 
arms,  without  some  knowledge  of  the  principles  of 
Christian  religion. 


OBEDIENCE  AND  DILIGENCE          35 

'  While  she  was  very  young,  her  obedience  to 
her  Parents  (which  she  extended  also  to  her  Aunt, 
who  had  some  charge  over  her,  in  her  Father's 
house)  was  very  exact ;  and  as  she  began,  so  she 
continued  in  this  gratious  and  awful  temper  of 
duty  and  observance :  I  have  heard  you  say 
(Madame)  that  you  cannot  remember  any  one  par- 
ticular, wherein  at  any  time,  she  disobeyed  her 
Father,  or  you. 

'  That  her  time  might  not  be  mis-spent,  nor  her 
employments  tedious  to  her,  the  several  hours  of 
the  day  had  variety  of  employments  assigned  to 
them  ;  and  the  intermixing  of  prayer,  reading, 
writing,  working,  and  walking,  brought  a  pleasure 
to  each  of  them,  in  their  courses  ;  so  that  the  day 
was  carried  about  faster,  than  she  would,  and  she 
begins  in  this  her  youth,  to  abridge  herself  of  sleep, 
and  was  ofttimes  at  a  book  in  her  Closet,  when  she 
was  thought  to  be  in  bed. 

1  You  remember  wel *,  I  presume,  the  Purse  her 
young  fingers  wrought  for  her  own  alms,  and  how 
importunately  she  would  beg  your  single  mony  to 
fil  it ;  and  as  greedy  she  was  of  emptying  it  too ;  the 
poor  seldome  went  from  the  house  without  the  alms 
of  the  young  daughter,  as  wel  as  of  the  Parents. 
L  The  spelling  of  the  original  is  followed  throughout. 

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36  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

'  And  how  constant  she  was  then,  at  her  private 
Prayers,  I  ghesse  (guess),  by  what  I  have  heard 
from  the  keeper  of  your  house.  When  strangers 
were  in  her  own  room,  where  she  ordinarily  had 
her  retirements,  he  was  called  to  give  her  the 
key  of  some  other  chamber  for  that  purpose, 
at  her  hour  of  Prayer.  She  would  procure  a 
new  Oratory,  rather,  than  omit,  or  defer,  that 
duty. 

'  And  how  powerful  with  God,  the  lifting  up  of 
her  pure  hands  everywhere,  in  this  her  innocent 
Childhood  was,  soon  appeared.  For  while  her 
piety  and  holiness  was  in  this  bud,  a  violent  at- 
tempt there  was  made  to  blast  it.  About  the  thir- 
tenth  year  of  her  Age,  there  was  a  form  of  tempta- 
tion raised  in  her,  and  some  arguments  the  tempter 
had  suggested  to  drive  her  to  despair  of  God's 
mercy  towards  her  :  And  this  I  note  the  rather, 
because  it  is  not  ordinary  at  such  years,  to  have 
attained  to  that  growth,  as  to  be  thought  fit  for 
those  encounters  :  But  God  upheld  this  young 
twig,  against  such  a  storm,  which  hath  torn  up 
many  a  fair  tree  :  For  see  after  some  anguish  of 
spirit,  and  patience  in  the  combate,  and  earnest 
praiers,  God's  grace  was  sufficient  for  her  :  And 
surely  it  was  not  the  strength  of  her  hands,  at  this 


DELIGHT  IN  HOLY  DUTIES  37 

Age,  but  the  pureness  of  them,  which  prevailed  for 
her. 

'  Some  there  are,  whom  God  leads  from  the 
spirituall  ^Egypt,  to  Canaan,  not  by  this  way  of 
the  Philistines,  lest  they  should  repent  when  they 
see  war,  and  turn  back  again  into  ^Egypt  (Exod. 
13.  17).  But  her  (it  seems)  God  trained  up  in  this 
military  course  ;  and  from  her  youth  exercised  her 
in  it,  that  she  might  be  expert  at  it. 

'  After  this  conquest,  her  soul  enjoyed  much 
peace  and  tranquility,  and  she  went  on  most  cheer- 
fully in  holy  duties,  and  tasted  much  comfort  and 
delight  in  them  : 

Extract  from  Letter  2. 

'  I  bless  God  Who  openeth  His  hand  wide,  and 
poureth  out  plentifully  His  comforts  upon  me ; 
And  so  much  the  more  must  I  praise  Him  for  this 
goodness  of  His  towards  me,  because  (as  you  in- 
form me  in  your  letter)  these  comforts  are  not 
common  to  all  ranks  of  holy  Christians,  but  to 
Beginners  chiefly/ 

Compare  the  chaplain's  answer  to  Letter  10  : 
1  These  consolations  .  .  .  are  sometimes  a  special 
gift  of  God,  which  He  bestows  upon  some  men  to 
invite  them  and  allure  them  by  the  sweetness  of 
them  to  His  service,  and  one  whose  heart  is  still 
stony  may  have  them  and  receive  the  word  with 
joy  (St.  Matth.  13.  20).  And  at  other  times  God 


38  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

bestows  these  consolations  after  regeneration  to 
strengthen  them ;  regenerate  and  encourage  them 
in  His  service. 

'  Secondly,  these  consolations  sometime  proceed 
from  our  own  temper,  and  from  our  natural  con- 
stitutions ;  some  men,  and  many  women,  have 
such  soft  constitutions  and  tender  tempers,  that 
the  affections  of  joy  and  grief  are  very  soon  raised 
in  them,  they  may  soon  be  dissolved  (as  it  were) 
into  sighs  and  tears ;  and  they  are  soon  dilated  and 
enlarged  with  the  cheerful  expressions  of  love  and 

joy-' 

'  And  her  heart  was  ever  and  anon  so  full, 
that  out  of  the  abundance  of  it,  she  would 
say,  "  Oh,  what  an  incomparable  sweetness  there 
is  in  the  musick  upon  David's  harp  ;  oh,  what 
heavenly  joy  there  is  in  those  Psalms,  and  in 
praiers,  and  praises  to  God ;  how  amiable  are  the 
courts  of  God's  house  ;  how  welcome  the  days  of 
his  solemn  worship  !" 

'  And  now,  nothing  can  hinder  her  from  those 
holy  Assemblies  ;  Every  Lord's  Day  constantly, 
forenoon,  and  afternoon,  she  would  be  with  the 
earliest  at  them  :  Some  while  (when  she  wanted  a 
convenience  of  riding)  she  walked  cheerfully  three 
or  four  miles  a  day,  as  young,  and  as  weak,  as  she 
was,  to  them :  And  at  night  she  accounted  the  joys 
and  the  refreshments,  which  her  soul  had  been  par- 


RICHES  OF  CHARACTER  39 

taker  of,  a  sufficient  recompense,  for  the  extream 
weariness  of  her  body. 

'  And  within  a  short  while  by  reading  good 
Authors,  and  by  frequent  converse  with  learned 
men,  she  improves  (by  God's  help)  her  natural 
talents  of  understanding,  and  reason,  to  a  great 
degree  of  wisdom  and  knowledge. 

'  And  now  these  riches,  of  her  piety,  wisdom, 
quickness  of  wit,  discretion,  judgment,  sobriety, 
and  gravity  of  behaviour,  being  once  perceived  by 
Sir  Lucius  Gary,1  seemed  Portion  enough  to  him  : 
These  were  they,  he  prized  above  worldly  Inheri- 
tances, and  those  other  fading  accessions  which 
most  men  court. 

'  And  she  being  married  to  him,  riches  and 
honour,  and  all  other  worldly  prosperity,  flow  in 
upon  her,  and  consequently  to  proceed  in  holiness 
and  godliness  grows  an  harder  task,  than  before  it 

1  She  was  the  daughter  of  Sir  Richard  Morison,  and  her 
brother,  Sir  Henry  Morison,  was  Lucius  Gary's  intimate  friend 
at  Cambridge.  The  Morisons  lived  at  Tooley  Park,  near 
Leicester.  Henry  died  about  the  age  of  twenty,  and  Ben 
Jonson  wrote  an  elegy  describing  the  friendship  between  the 
two  young  men.  Lucius  Gary  married  Lettice  Morison  soon 
afterwards,  against  his  father's  will  (Sir  Henry  Gary's  estate 
was  much  embarrassed,  and  he  wished  his  son  to  marry  a 
richer  woman). 


40  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

seemed  to  be ;  it  being  much  more  difficult  when 
riches  and  honor  thus  increase,  then,  not  to  set  her 
heart  upon  them. 

'  Yet  God  enabled  her  by  his  grace  for  this  also  ; 
for  when  possession  was  given  her  of  stately 
Palaces,  pleasantly  seated,  and  most  curiously  and 
fully  furnished,  and  of  revenues  and  royalties  an- 
swerable, though  your  Ladyship  hath  heard  her 
acknowledg  God's  great  goodness  towards  her,  for 
these  temporal  preferments,  yet  neither  you,  nor 
any  of  her  friends,  could  perceive  her  heart,  any 
whit  exalted,  with  joy  for  them. 

'  They  were  of  the  Babylonian's  retinue,  who 
when  they  had  seen  Hezekiah's  riches  and  treasures 
set  their  hearts  upon  them  (Isai.  39).  This  true  Is- 
raelite reserved  her  affections,  for  those  riches 
which  never  fade,  and  for  those  dwellings,  which 
are  above,  where  the  City  is  of  pure  gold,  and  the 
walls  garnished  with  precious  stones. 

'  This  confluence  of  all  worldly  felicities  and  con- 
tentments, did  so  little  affect  her,  that  there  were 
some  seemed  displeased  at  it ;  and  then  she  would 
attribute  much  of  it  to  a  melancholick  disease, 
which  was  then  upon  her  ;  And  though  I  deny  not, 
but  that  some  worldly  delights  might  fall  by  the 
hand  of  her  melancholy,  yet  doubtless  where  the 


SPIRITUAL  COMFORTS  41 

disease  slew  its  hundreds,  grace  slew  its  ten  thou- 
sands. 

'  And  in  this  condition  some  years  passed,  during 
which  time,  she  was  most  constant  at  Prayers,  and 
Sermons,  and  frequently  received  the  blessed 
Sacrament ;  and  although  now,  and  then,  she  felt 
not  her  wonted  spirituall  Comforts,  but  in  stead  of 
them  had  some  anguish,  and  bitterness  of  spirit, 
yet  by  the  advise  of  good  Divines,  and  by  her 
ordinary  help  of  Prayer,  she  recovered  soon  her 
peace  and  joy. 

Extract  from  Letter  i. 

'  Your  Spiritual  directions  I  have  observed  as 
punctually  as  I  could  :  I  am  present  at  all  publike 
Assemblies  in  the  house  of  God,  and  bear  my  part 
constantly  in  the  solemn  worship  of  His  Name. 
And  to  these  publike  devotions  I  add  private 
Prayers  with  my  family,  Morning  and  Evening, 
and  to  them,  Secret  in  my  Closet,  and  these  duties 
I  perform  constantly  ...  for  I  remember  you  told 
me  that  that  strict  precept  of  the  Apostle,  "  Pray 
continually/'  hath  not  ordinarily  a  more  qualified 
sense  than  this,  "  Observe  your  set  times  of 
Prayer  constantly,  without  intermission." 

1  Neither  am  I  less  constant  at  Sermons  and 
Catechizings,  and  at  the  Holy  Sacrament  of  our 
most  blessed  Lord's  Body  and  Blood,  though  I 
cannot  be  so  frequent  at  these  duties ;  Those  I 

6 


42  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

can  hear  but  once  a  week,  This  I  can  receive  but 
once  a  month.  And  on  days  of  Humiliation,  I 
labour  to  intermix  more  earnest  as  well  as  more 
frequent  Prayers,  for  the  publike  necessities,  and 
for  mine  own  private  wants ;  endeavouring  to  ob- 
serve the  Ordinary  and  Extraordinary  Fasts  of  the 
Church,  as  strictly  as  my  weak  body  and  my  weaker 
flesh  will  admit. 

'  And  that  which  I  relate  all  this  for,  which  I 
dare  not  divulge  to  others  nor  conceal  from  you, 
is  this  :  my  exceeding  great  delight  in  these  spiritual 
exercises.  While  I  hear,  or  read,  I  taste  much 
sweetness  in  the  promises  of  the  Gospel ;  and  while 
I  pray  or  meditate,  I  receive  much  Comfort  and 
Delight ;  my  soul  is  filled  as  it  were  with  marrow 
and  fatness,  and  my  heart  is  almost  ravished  with 
spiritual  joy.' 

*  Thus  in  severall  conditions  of  youth,  and  ripe 
yeares  of  virginity  and  marriage ;  and  amongst  con- 
trary temptations,  of  adversity,  and  prosperity, 
affliction,  and  comfort,  she  continues  that  course 
of  holy  Life,  which  she  had  begun ;  a  great  pro- 
ficiency, and  a  far  progress  this  :  yet  I  crave  leave 
to  reckon  it  all  into  her  beginning,  for  this  was  but 
slow  in  respect  of  that  great  agility,  and  quick 
speed,  she  attained  unto,  in  the  other  part  of  her 
spirituall  race. 

'  Her  proficiency  and  progress  I  shall  account 
from  that  time,  when  her  prosperity  began  to 


HER  HEAVY  AFFLICTION  43 

abate ;  when  Her  dear  Lord,  and  most  beloved 
Husband,  that  he  might  be  like  Zebulon  (a  student 
helping  the  Lord  against  the  mighty,  Judg.  5.  14), 
went  from  his  Library  to  the  Camp  ;  from  his  Book 
and  Pen,  to  his  Sword  and  Spear ;  and  the  conse- 
quent of  that,  an  inevitable  necessity,  that  she 
must  now  be  divorced  from  him,  for  a  while,  whom 
she  loved  more  than  all  the  things  of  this  world ; 
this  was  a  sad  beginning  :  but  that  totall  divorce, 
which,  soon  after,  death  made  between  him  and 
her  ;  that  he  should  be  taken  away  by  an  untimely 
death,  and  by  a  violent  death  too,  this,  this  was  a 
most  sore  affliction  to  her  ;  the  same  sword  which 
killed  him,  pierced  her  heart  also. 

'  And  this  heavy  affliction  which  God  sent  upon 
her,  she  interpreted  for  a  loud  call  from  heaven, 
to  a  further  proficiency  in  piety  and  virtue. 

Extract  from  Letter  4. 

'  I  have  no  stream  of  Comfort  at  all  in  my  Devo- 
tions, no  comfortable  blast  of  the  Spirit  to  set  me 
forward,  and  a  heavie  load  of  dullness  and  drowsi- 
ness to  retard  me,  and  yet  I  must  make  as  quick  a 
dispatch  as  when  I  had  no  such  impediment  against 
me  and  a  full  stream  for  me  :  Yet  for  these  late 
weeks  I  have  set  myself  strictly  to  observe  that 
and  your  other  directions  ;  but  alas,  Sir,  the  more 

6—2 


44  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

I  struggle  with  my  disease  the  more  it  increaseth 
upon  me.' 

The  chaplain  replied  : 

'  There  is  a  Spiritual  desertion  of  grace  and  a 
Spiritual  desertion  of  comfort.  The  first,  when  God 
withdraws  His  Holy  Spirit  and  divine  Grace  from 
us,  for  some  notorious  sin  committed  against  Him. 
The  Latter,  when  He  withdraws  only  the  joy  and 
comfort  of  that  Grace  which  is  still  with  us. 

'  And  this  latter  kind  of  Spiritual  desertion  may 
be  in  the  best  saints  of  God  upon  Earth.  .  .  .  (It) 
may  be  inflicted  upon  you,  Ob  caritatis  profectum, 
as  an  incentive  to  love.  .  .  .  Or,  Secondly,  .  .  .  ob 
humilitatis  cmtodiam,  as  a  preservative  against 
pride,  that  humility  may  grow  more  in  you  ;  a 
Thorne  in  the  flesh,  lest  you  should  be  exalted 
above  measure  with  the  abundance  of  heavenly 
Consolations.  And,  if  so,  who  will  complain,  though 
the  honey  and  the  honeycomb  be  taken  away  from 
him,  when  he  hath  eaten  sufficient,  and  is  in  danger 
to  surfeit  by  the  rest  ?' 

'And  yet  she  fears  it  may  be  a  punishment 
also  upon  her,  for  some  sin  or  other,  and  therefore 
strictly  examines  her  self,  and  ransacks  every 
corner  of  her  heart,  to  find  out  wherein  she  had 
provoked  God  to  lay  this  great  affliction  upon  her ; 
and  to  make  sure,  she  renues  her  repentance  for 
all  her  transgressions  ;  and  her  godly  sorrow  for 
her  sins  past,  is  as  fresh,  as  if  it  had  been  for  the 
sins  of  yesterday. 


STRICT  COURSE  OF  LIFE  45 

Extract  from  Letter  5. 

'  Upon  a  view  of  my  actions  since  the  last  solemn 
Humiliation  of  my  Soul,  I  find  many  defects  and 
failings,  and  though  I  cannot  charge  myself  with 
any  one  notorious  sin  unrepented  of  (blessed  be 
God  my  upholder),  yet,  while  I  am  compassed 
about  with  so  many  infirmities  and  imperfections, 
negligences,  and  ignorances,  I  cannot  but  fear,  too 
probably,  that  for  some  of  these  it  is  that  God 
in  displeasure  withdraws  those  His  comforts 
from  me. 

'  And  can  there  be  a  greater  heart-sore  than  this, 
that  my  dearest  comforts  should  be  taken  away, 
yea,  driven  away  from  myself  by  myself  P 

'  And  now  she  adresses  her  self  to  a  Divine 
of  great  eminence  for  piety,  and  learning1 ;  and 
from  him  she  takes  directions  for  a  more  strict 
course  of  life  in  this  her  Widowhood,  than  for- 

1  This  may  have  been  Dr.  Eleazar  Duncon,  who  was  at- 
tached to  the  High  Church  party,  and  was  one  of  the  King's 
chaplains.  Dr.  Triplet  had  been  tutor  and  chaplain  to  Lord 
Falkland.  Hugh  Cressy,  John  Earle,  William  Chilling  worth, 
and  Henry  Hammond  all  belonged  to  the  circle  of  Falkland's 
clerical  friends,  and  were  frequent  visitors  at  Great  Tew. 
Jaspar  Mayne,  Canon  of  Christchurch,  and  Rector  of  Cassing- 
ton  and  Pyrton  in  Oxfordshire,  had  written  verses  which  were 
much  admired  by  Lord  Falkland,  and  he  was  (almost  certainly) 
the  author  of  the  longer  elegy  on  Lady  Falkland.  He  also  was 
a  personal  friend. 


46  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

merly  ;  now  she  forgetting  quite  what  was  behind, 
presses  forward  to  what  was  before,  and,  as  if  she 
had  done  nothing  yet,  she  begins  anew. 

'  And  though  the  greatest  and  chiefest  part  of 
her  Christian  work,  was  locked  up  close  within  her 
self,  and  some  of  it  very  studiously  and  industri- 
ously conceeled  by  her  (that  she  might  be  sure  no 
degree  of  vaine  glory,  should  creep  upon  her  with 
it),  yet  much  of  it  appeared  by  the  effects,  and  is 
now  forced  to  come  abroad  before  us. 

'  Her  first  and  grand  employment  was,  to  read 
and  understand,  and  then  (to  the  utmost  of  her 
strength)  to  practise  our  most  blessed  Saviour's  Ser- 
mon upon  the  Mount,  in  the  fift,  sixt,  and  seventh 
Chapters  of  St.  Matthew's  Gospel ;  and  having  read 
over  a  most  compleat  (though  compendious)  Com- 
ment upon  that  Sermon,  she  set  forthwith,  upon 
the  work  of  practising  it,  and  began  with  those 
virtues,  to  which  the  beatitudes  are  annexed. 

'  And  her  mercifulnes  was  none  of  those  virtues, 
which  she  could  at  all  conceal  from  us  ;  much  of 
her  estate  (we  saw)  given  yearly  to  those  of  her 
kindred,  which  were  capable  of  Charity  from  her  : 
And  some  of  her  neer  neighbours,  who  were  very 
old,  and  not  able  to  work  ;  or  very  young,  and  not 
fit  for  work,  were  wholly  maintained  by  her  :  To 


WISDOM  OF  HER  CHARITY  47 

other  poor  children  she  contributed  much,  both  for 
their  spiritual,  and  their  temporal  wel  being ;  by 
erecting  a  School1  for  them,  where  they  were  to 
be  taught  both  to  read  and  to  work  :  much  care 
she  took,  that  no  man,  or  woman,  or  child  should 
want  employment ;  that  their  own  hands  might 
bring  them  in  a  competent  subsistence ;  and  ac- 
counted that  the  best  contrivement  of  her  estate, 
which  set  most  poor  people  on  work  ;  for  if  it  were 
to  their  profit,  she  little  regarded  her  own  detri- 
ment in  it. 

'  So  that  her  principal  care  herein,  was  to  keep 
them  from  Idleness  (that  root  of  all  sin  and 
wickedness),  for  by  another  contrivement  of  her 
estate,  she  might  have  received  more  profit,  and 
thereby  have  been  better  able,  to  relieve  them, 
though  by  this  only,  she  was  able  to  set  them  on 
work. 

'  A  most  eminent  piece  of  mercifulnesse  this, 
where  corporall  and  spirituall  mercy  went  together, 
and  wisdome  guided  both. 

'  And  for  the  poor  at  home,  and  for  strangers  at 

1  About  the  end  of  the  eighteenth  century,  a  school-build- 
ing, attached  to  or  close  by  the  church  at  Great  Tew,  was 
pulled  down.  It  is  probable  that  this  was  the  school  erected 
by  Lady  Falkland. 


48  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

the  dore,  she  was  very  charitable  in  feeding  the 
hungry,  and  refreshing  the  faint  and  weak  ;  and 
for  clothing  the  naked,  in  some  extremities  you 
should  see  this  Lady  her  self  goe  up  and  down  the 
house,  and  beg  garments  from  her  Servants'  backs 
(whom  she  requited  soon  after  with  new),  that  the 
poor  might  not  go  naked,  or  cold  from  her  dore  : 
So  that  she  was  not  only  a  Liberal  Almoner  to  the 
poor,  but  also  an  earnest  solicitor  for  them  :  And 
when  it  was  objected,  that  many  idle  and  wicked 
people,  were  by  this  course  of  charity,  relieved  at 
her  house,  her  answer  was  :  "  I  know  not  their 
hearts,  and  in  their  outward  carriage  and  speech, 
they  all  appear  to  me  good  and  virtuous  ;  and  I 
had  rather  relieve  five  unworthy  vagrants,  then 
that  one  member  of  Christ  should  go  empty  away  ;" 
And  for  harboring  strangers,  the  many  inconveni- 
ences, ordinarily  ensuing  upon  it,  could  not  deter 
her  from  it ;  sometimes  for  some  weeks  together, 
they  were  entertained  by  her. 

'  And  since  her  death,  I  hear  of  plentiful  relief, 
here,  at  London,  and  at  Oxford,  sent  privately  to 
Prisons,  and  needy  persons,  with  a  strict  charge 
that  it  should  not  be  known  whence  it  came  ;  She 
would  not  have  her  left  hand  know  what  her  right 
hand  gave. 


RELIEF  FOR  HER  ENEMIES          49 

1  And  this  her  mercifulness  could  not  be  bounded 
within  the  limits  of  friends,  it  extended  itself  to 
her  enemies  too  ;  when  there  were  some  store  of 
them  taken  prisoners  by  the  King's  Soldiers,  and 
in  great  need,  she  consulted  how  she  might  send 
relief  to  them  :  and  when  it  was  answered,  that 
such  an  act  would  raise  jealousies  (in  some)  of  her 
loyalty  to  His  Majesty,  she  replied,  "  No  man 
will  suspect  my  loyalty,  because  I  relieve  these 
Prisoners,  but  he  would  suspect  my  Christianity, 
if  he  should  see  me  relieve  a  needy  Turk,  or  Jew  : 
however,  I  had  rather  be  so  misunderstood  (if 
this  my  secret  Almes  should  be  known),  than  that 
any  of  mine  enemies  (the  worst  of  them)  should 
perish  for  want  of  it." 

1  And  this  one  instance,  and  reason  of  hers  is 
ground  enough  to  believe,  she  failed  not  to  relieve 
her  enemies,  as  often  as  occasion  required. 

'  But  beyond  all,  her  mercifulness  towards  the 
sick,  was  most  laudable  :  her  provision  of  Anti- 
dotes against  infection,  and  of  Cordials,  and  other 
several  sorts  of  Physick  for  such  of  her  neighbors 
as  should  need  them,  amounted  yearly  to  very  con- 
siderable sums  :  and  though  in  distributing  such 
medicinal  provisions,  her  hand  was  very  open,  yet 
it  was  close  enough  in  applying  them,  her  skil 

7 


50  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

(indeed)  was  more  than  ordinary,  and  her  wariness 
too. 

'  When  any  of  her  poor  neighbors  were  sick 
she  had  a  constant  care,  that  they  should  neither 
want  such  relief,  nor  such  attendance,  as  their  weak 
condition  called  for,  and  (if  need  were)  she  hired 
nurses  to  serve  them  :  And  her  own  frequent  visit- 
ing of  the  poorest  Cottages,  and  her  ready  service 
to  them,  on  their  sick-bed,  argued  as  great  humility, 
as  mercifulness  in  her  ;  yet  the  Books  of  spiritual 
exhortations,  she  carried  in  her  hand  to  these  sick 
persons,  declared  a  further  design  she  had  therein, 
of  promoting  them  towards  heaven,  by  reading  to 
them,  and  by  administering  words  of  holy  councel 
to  them  :  "  There  is  no  season  more  fit  (she  would 
say)  for  sowing  good  seed  than  this ;  while  the 
ground  of  their  hearts  is  softened,  and  melting  with 
sorrow,  and  sickness  ;"  And  to  gain  this  advantage 
it  was  that  she  was  so  frequent  a  visitor  of  the 
sick,  going  day  after  day,  to  their  bed-side  ;  This 
Honourable  Lady  hath  bin  observed  sitting  in  a 
Cottage,  way  ting  the  sick  woman's  leisure,  til  the 
slumbers  and  fits  were  over,  that  she  might  read 
again  to  her,  and  finish  the  work  she  had  begun. 

'  And  of  late  when  she  could  not  do  this  good 
office,  in  her  own  person  (she  growing  sickly  and 


CARE  FOR  THE  SICK  51 

weak)  yet  she  would  do  it  stil  by  proxie  ;  for  some 
of  her  friends  or  servants  were  deputed  by  her,  to 
go  to  the  sick,  with  her  Books  too,  daily  ;  and  now 
and  then  most  of  her  family  (who  were  fit  for  such 
an  imployment)  were  sent  abroad  on  this  errand. 

'  Thus  ordinarily  in  all  her  works  of  corporal 
mercy,  she  added  works  of  spiritual  mercy,  too  ; 
relieving  the  wants  of  the  body,  and  of  the  soul 
together,  instructing,  and  exhorting,  and  earnestly 
persuading  the  poor  and  the  sick  to  some  virtue  or 
other,  for  their  souls  health. 

'  Herein  following  the  command  in  this  Sermon, 
and  also  the  example  of  the  Preacher,  our  most 
blessed  Savior  :  who,  when  He  cured  the  diseases 
of  the  body,  cured  the  diseases  of  that  infirm  soul 
too  ;  and  at  the  same  time,  with  one  word,  ad- 
ministered to  the  sick  and  impotent,  both  health 
and  grace  :  our  Savior's  practice  is  the  gloss  upon 
His  own  Text ;  and  this  handmayd  of  His,  was  for 
the  text,  and  this  glosse  too  of  mercifulnesse. 

'  And  as  for  this,  so  for  meekness  also,  she  was 
most  eminent :  she  was  second  to  none  of  her  Sex, 
and  Age  (I  believe)  among  us,  for  perspicacity  of 
understanding,  and  clearness  of  judgement ;  yet  as 
far  from  self-conceit,  as  from  ignorance  :  her  wont 
indeed  was  upon  debates,  to  object  till  all  argu- 

7—2 


52  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

merits,  she  could  think  on,  to  the  contrary,  were 
satisfied ;  and  when  that  was  once  done,  no  cavill 
was  heard,  but  her  assent  readily  given  ;  and  this 
ready  submission  of  her  judgement  to  the  best 
reasons,  I  mention,  for  the  meekness  of  her  under- 
standing ;  herein  this  Lady  excelled  some  of  the 
chiefest  Rabbis,  that  her  knowledge  did  not  puff 
up,  but  edifie. 

'  And  her  understanding  leading  the  way  in 
meekness,  her  wil  chearfully  followed  in  it  too  ;  as 
soon  as  her  understanding  was  satisfied,  her  wil 
bowed  presently  and  obeyed ;  she  seldome  denied 
to  do,  what  she  was  convinced  was  fit  to  be 
done. 

'  The  greater  difficulty  was  with  her  affections  : 
her  natural  temper  she  would  oft  complain  inclined 
her  to  anger ;  and  being  so  well  aware  of  it  she 
most  diligently  observed  her  self,  and  did  in  a 
great  degree  conquer  that  froward  inclination  :  and 
that  good  measure  of  meekness  (in  this  kind)  which 
she  attained  unto,  was  the  more  commendable, 
because  of  the  great  difficulties  she  met  with, 
in  it. 

'  Then  for  peaceablenesse :  as  much  as  in  her  lay, 
and  as  far  as  was  possible,  she  had  peace  with  all 
men ;  she  suffered  her  self  to  be  defrauded,  and 


A  PEACEMAKER  53 

damaged  in  her  Estate,  rather  than  she  would  dis- 
quiet a  debtor,  by  suits  at  law  ;  for  peace  is  equiva- 
lent (said  she)  to  the  summe  detained. 

'  And  for  differences  in  Law  among  others,  where 
she  was  not  a  Party,  her  Christianity  engaged  her 
to  wish,  and  endeavour  for  reconciliation  amongst 
Brethren  ;  but  especially,  when  controversies  arose 
between  Neighbors,  and  Parishioners,  she  made  use 
of  all  her  power  and  art,  to  reconcile  them. 

'  And  she  had  her  Antidotes  here  too,  as  well  as 
her  medicines  ;  to  prevent  contentions  as  wel  as  to 
cure  them.  It  cost  her  a  good  sum,  your  Lady- 
ship knows,  a  while  since  to  prevent  a  contention, 
she  foresaw  arising  among  the  neighbors,  about  the 
choice  of  a  Parish  Officer  :  she  hired  one,  and  all 
was  peacable  and  quiet. 

'  Thus  she  hungred  and  thirsted  after  peace,  and 
after  righteousness  too  ;  as  the  chased,  wearied, 
and  faint  hart  after  the  water  brooks,  so  her  soul 
seemed  to  long  after  righteousness ;  frequently 
panting,  "  Oh  why  am  I  not  ?  Oh  how  shal  I  be  ? 
Oh  when  shal  I  be  perfect,  as  my  heavenly  Father 
is  perfect  ?" 

'  And  for  patient  suffering.  Of  late  she  was  sel- 
dome  free  from  this  or  that  trouble  :  spiritual  afflic- 
tions, and  sorrows,  or  bodily  infirmities,  or  weak- 


54  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

ness  and  sickness,  or  worldly  losses,  in  her  estate, 
one,  or  more  of  these,  or  such  like  pressures  were 
constantly  heavy  upon  her  ;  yet  little  disturbance, 
no  impatience  at  all  could  be  perceived  in  her ;  I 
have  seen  them  all  upon  her  together,  and  yet  her 
patience  triumphing  over  them  all. 

Extract  from  Letter  3. 

'  Heretofore  I  took  great  delight  in  the  service 
and  worship  of  God ;  my  Prayers  were  refreshments, 
yea,  banquets  to  me,  my  Fasts  and  Humilia- 
tions as  corne  and  wine  did  feast  and  cheer  my 
Heart ;  By  reading,  or  hearing  God's  Word,  or  by 
meditating  upon  it,  and  by  receiving  the  Blessed 
Sacrament,  my  soul  became  young  and  lusty  as 
an  Eagle,  full  of  vigour  and  comfort ;  But  now 
dryness  and  sadness  have  taken  hold  upon  me, 
and  sorrow  and  grief  overwhelm  me. 

'  In  the  exercise  of  Holy  Duties  I  am  so  little 
affected  with  comfort  and  delight  that  I  grow  now 
backward  to  them,  and  dull  and  drowsy  in  them  ; 
and  those  times  which  are  set  apart  for  the  publick 
and  solemn  worship  of  God  seem  now  to  me  (as 
the  Sabbaths  to  them  in  Amos)  most  tedious  and 
long.  ...  I  was  well  aware  that  the  delights  of  the 
world  were  fading  and  transitory,  but  are  these 
Christian  Comforts,  these  holy  joys  so,  too  ?  The 
fire  and  heat  of  Earthly  Pleasures  I  have  oft  seen 
suddenly  quenched,  and  can  that  from  heaven, 
heavenly,  be  quenched,  too  ?  Oh,  that  I  had  wings 


POVERTY  OF  SPIRIT  55 

like  a  Dove,  that  I  might  flee  away  to  those  com- 
forts and  Pleasures  which  never  fail,  where  there 
is  fulness  of  joy,  and  that  for  evermore  !' 

'  There  were  who  thought  her  in  love  with  suffer- 
ing, when  she  refused  to  pay  contribution  mony 
against  the  King,  and  suffered  her  stock  of  great 
value  to  be  seized  on,  rather  than  to  pay  some 
little  tax,  which  was  demanded  :  This  (I  say)  was 
thought  much  ;  had  not  carrying  the  Cross,  when 
it  is  inevitably  layd  on,  bin  enough  ;  but  thus  to 
meet  the  Cross,  and  take  it  up,  thus  forwardly  to 
suffer  damage,  rather  then  blemish  her  obedience 
and  loyalty,  this  was  her  practise  ;  and  there- 
fore til  the  King  himself  granted  an  indulgence, 
she  patiently  suffered  whatsoever  damage  came 
upon  her,  stil  refusing  to  pay  contribution  to 
the  neighboring  Garrisons,  which  were  against 
him. 

'  And  now  after  the  exercise  of  all  these  virtues 
in  this  high  degree,  such  a  Poverty  of  spirit  was 
apparent  in  her,  as  was  most  admirable  :  upon  all 
occasions  bewailing  her  weaknesses,  and  lamenting 
her  spiritual  wants  :  There  were  some  about  her, 
who  had  an  holy  emulation  to  be  like  her,  in  these, 
and  such  like  graces  and  virtues,  and  she  hath  now 
and  then  overheard  them,  wishing,  that  they  were 


56  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

as  forward,  as  she  :  and  her  constant  reply  was, 
"  Oh,  ye  are  not  so  backward  !  yet  wish  yourselves 
better ;  ye  know  not  how  vile  and  corrupt  my 
heart  is/'  So  that  in  some  respects  she  accounted 
her  self  the  greatest  of  sinners  ;  in  no  respect  would 
she  esteem  better  of  her  self,  than  of  the  least  of 
Saints  ;  a  welwisher  towards  holines,  and  a  be- 
ginner stil. 

'  Of  late  I  have  been  searching  up  and  down  my 
soul  for  those  other  graces  and  virtues  which  God's 
spirit  had  formed  in  me,  and  whereas  they  should 
grow  and  increase  more  and  more,  for  a  while  they 
also  have  languished  in  me,  and  now  (I  fear)  they 
are  quite  dead.  ...  I  am  a  weak  Suppliant  (God 
help),  and  a  weaker  Combatant.  Indeed,  if  I  should 
perceive  my  zeal  working  only  while  I  am  on  my 
knees,  and  not  other  ways  also  ...  I  dare  not  ap- 
prove myself  for  that.  I  was  wont  to  aim  at  being 
a  stout  Combatant  as  well  as  a  fervent  Suppliant : 
But  now,  not  only  my  knees  are  feeble,  but  also 
my  hands,  and  no  zeal  at  all  to  be  perceived.  .  . 
And  when  I  plead  for  my  excuse  (as  you  suggest  I 
may),  my  Natural  Infirmity,  I  fear  lest  that  should 
be  Self-flattery/ 

'  Thus  she  daily  practised  these  graces  and  vir- 
tues, to  which  our  Savior  annexed  such  special 
blessings  ;  and  studied  to  be  stil  more  and  more 
perfect  in  them,  with  as  much  diligence,  as  the 


THE  DUTY  OF  PRAYER  57 

Scholar  doth  his  lesson,  and  with  as  much  success, 
and  good  speed  too. 

Extract  from  Letter  i. 

1  Now  I  miss  those  opportunities  I  had  at  Court 
and  at  the  Cathedral  [Christchurch,  Oxford]  ; 
either  of  these  places  afforded  publick  Prayers 
thrice  every  day,  and  Lectures  also  on  the  week- 
days ;  Nay,  it  is  not  here  so  well  with  me  as  it  was, 
when  you  and  I  lived  together  in  that  Country 
Village,  where  the  good  Parson  had  Morning  and 
Evening  Prayer  in  the  parish  Church,  twice  a  day 
continually.  .  .  .  Now  we  have  this  advantage  of 
Publick  Prayer  only  on  the  Lord's  Day  and  its 
Eve,  and  on  Holy  Days  and  their  Eves,  and  on 
Wednesdays  and  Fridays,  our  wonted  Litany- 
days  ;  now  I  find  not  that  other  Analogy  between 
our  Prayers,  and  the  Incense  and  Perfumes  of  the 
Tabernacle,  that  as  those  were,  so  these  are  now 
offered  up  daily/1 

1  And  from  this  Sermon  of  our  blessed  Savior, 
she  learned  that  duty  of  Praier ;  and  her  chief 
practise  therein,  she  could  not  conceal  from  us 
neither,  which  was,  as  follows. 

'  First,  she  spent  some  hours  every  day  in  her 
private  devotions,  and  meditations  ;  and  these  were 
called  (I  remember)  by  those  of  her  family,  her 

1  This  probably  refers  to  the  Prohibition  of  the  Prayer 
Book,  1645. 

8 


58  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

busy  howrs  ;  praiers,  her  business  ;  Martha's  em- 
ployment was  her  recreation,  she  had  spare  howres 
for  it ;  Maries,  was  her  business  :  Then  her  maids 
came  into  her  chamber  early  every  morning,  and 
ordinarily  she  passed  about  an  howr  with  them  ; 
In  praying,  and  catechising,  and  instructing  them  ; 
to  these  secret  and  private  praiers,  the  publick 
Morning  and  Evening  praiers  of  the  Church,  before 
dinner,  and  supper ;  and  another  form  (together 
with  reading  Scriptures,  and  singing  Psalms)  before 
bedtime,  were  daily  and  constantly  added. 

'  And  so  strict  was  she  for  the  observing  of  these 
severall  howres  of  Prayer,  that  a  charge  was  given 
her  servants  to  be  frequent  (if  their  occasions  per- 
mitted) at  every  of  them  :  However,  she  would  not 
endure  that  any  one  should  be  absent  from  them 
all ;  If  she  observed  any  such,  she  presently  sent 
for  them,  into  her  Chamber ;  and  consecrated 
another  howr  of  Prayer,  there,  purposely  for  them  : 
And  she  would  pray  with  those  servants  privately, 
ere  she  went  to  bed,  who  had  not  prayed  publickly 
with  her,  that  Day. 

'  To  pray  with  David,  seven  times  a  day,  or  with 
Daniel  three  times,  is  expected  perhaps  only  from 
such  persons,  as  have  leisure  and  opportunity  :  but 
with  Levi  to  offer  up  Morning  and  Evening  Sacri- 


KEEPING  THE  LORD'S  DAY  59 

fice,  every  day,  this  she  required  from  the  busiest 
servant  in  the  house,  that  at  the  outgoings  of  the 
Morning  and  Evening,  every  one  should  praise  God, 
and  call  upon  His  name. 

'  Neither  were  these  holy  offices  appropriate  to 
her  menial  servants,  others  came  freely  to  joyn 
with  them,  and  her  Oratory  was  as  open  to  the 
neighbors,  as  her  Hall  was. 

'  On  the  Lord's  day  she  rose  in  the  morning, 
earlier  than  ordinarily;  yet  enjoyned  her  self  to 
much  private  duty,  with  her  children  and  servants 
(examining  them  in  the  Sermons,  and  Catechisings, 
etc.),  and  with  her  own  soul,  that  oftentimes  the 
day  was  too  short  for  her  ;  and  then  I  have  known 
her  rise  two  or  three  howrs  before  day,  on  the  Mon- 
day, to  supply  what  was  left  undone,  the  day  before. 

'  To  dispose  her  self  the  better  for  the  religious 
keeping  of  the  Lord's  day  (as  wel  as  for  other 
spiritual  ends)  I  presume  it  was,  that  she  so 
solemnly  fasted  every  Saturday  ;  that  day  she  se- 
questred  herself  from  company,  and  from  worldly 
employment,  and  came  seldom  out  of  her  Closet, 
til  towards  evening,  and  then  the  Chaplain  must 
double  the  sacrifice  ;  praiers  she  had  and  Catechiz- 
ing both. 

'  And  the  other  Holy  days  of  the  Church  she 

8—2 


60  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

punctually  observed  :  and  when  the  publick  duties 
were  performed  by  the  Congregation,  on  those  days 
she  released  her  servants  to  their  recreations,  and 
to  their  particular  Occasions,  saying,  "  These  days 
are  yours,  and  as  due  to  you,  as  ordinary  days  to 
my  imployments ;  and  I  wil  not  be  unjust  to  en- 
croach upon  your  severals,1  by  expecting  any 
work  from  you." 

'  And  on  these  Holy  days  she  rejoyced  much,  at 
the  advantage  she  gained,  of  going  to  her  poor  un- 
learned neighbors  with  her  Book  ;  "  Now  their 
plow  and  their  wheel  (said  she)  stands  stil ;  and 
they  are  at  good  leisure,  to  hear  some  good  lessons 
read  to  them/' 

'  And  her  strictness  was  exemplary  in  keeping 
the  fasts  of  the  Church,  and  such  days  as  were  ap- 
pointed for  Solemn  humiliation  ;  yong  and  old, 
noble,  and  mean,  free  and  bond,  in  her  family, 
must  observe  them  duly  :  the  Ninivites  were  her 
patern,  both  for  outward  and  inward  humiliation. 

'  And  since  our  calamities  increased  upon  us,  she 

1  *  Severals  '  :  a  word  which  has  fallen  out  of  use  since  the 
enclosing  of  the  country.  '  While  the  country  was  for  the  most 
part  laid  out  in  commons,  it  was  applied  to  the  portion  set 
apart  for  different  owners  of  common  rights,  for  growing  their 
private  crops,  the  rest  being  pasture  for  the  parish  herds  ' 
(Teale). 


SCRUPLES  AND  FEARS  61 

often  wished,  that  lawful  authority  could  vote  it 
fit,  that  not  only  the  second  Fridays,  but  also  the 
last  Wednesdays  in  every  Month,  should  be  kept 
solemnly  throughout  the  land  ;  that  our  Fasts  were 
doubled  as  well  as  our  troubles. 

'  And  her  care  to  prepare  her  self  for  the  receiv- 
ing of  the  holy  Sacrament,  of  our  most  blessed 
Lord's  Supper,  was  most  commendable,  and  most 
punctual :  oftentimes  scruples  and  fears  arose  in 
her,  tending  to  keep  her  back  from  that  heavenly 
banquet ;  and  she  (having  upon  examinations  of 
them,  reason  enough  (as  we  thought)  to  conclude, 
that  they  were  temptations  from  the  Devil,  whom 
she  perceived  labouring  amain,  to  deprive  her  of 
that  strength  and  comfort,  which  she  hoped  to  re- 
ceive from  that  sacred  ordinance)  neglected  them 
all  and  presented  her  self,  with  an  humble  and 
trembling  heart,  at  that  blessed  Sacrament,  and 
these  fears  and  scruples  in  her,  occasioned  this 
peremptory  resolution  from  her,  that  she  would 
not  (by  God's  help)  thenceforth  omit  any  oppor- 
tunity of  communicating  :  Thus  while  the  Devil  is 
undermining  to  weaken  her,  she  is  countermining 
to  strengthen  herself  more  against  him  ;  which  reso- 
lution she  constantly  kept  at  home,  and  (I  am 
told)  at  Oxford,  and  London  too  ;  The  first  inquiry 


62  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

almost  after  her  journey  thither,  was,  where,  and 
when  is  there  a  Communion  ?  And  sometimes  she 
would  go  to  the  other  end  of  the  City  for  it. 

'  At  home  her  Servants  were  all  moved  to  accom- 
pany her  to  the  Sacrament,  and  they  who  were 
prevailed  with,  gave  up  their  names  to  her,  two 
or  three  days  before  ;  and  from  thence,  she  applied 
her  self  to  the  instructing  of  them  ;  and  she  knew 
wel,  how  to  administer,  to  every  one  their  par- 
ticular portion  ;  and  several  exhortations  she  had 
for  several  persons  whom  she  had  power  over. 

'  Yet  she  trusted  not  in  her  own  instructions  of 
them,  but  desired  the  Chaplain's  help  also  to  ex- 
amine them,  and  to  instruct  them  farther  ;  and  her 
care  was  so  to  order  her  domestical  occasions,  that 
all  those  Servants,  who  were  to  receive  the  Sacra- 
ment, should  have  the  day  before  it  free  from  their 
ordinary  work,  that  they  might  have  better  leisure 
for  that  spiritual  work  of  preparing  themselves  for 
that  Sacrament. 

'  And  after  the  holy  Sacrament,  she  called  them 
together  againe,  and  gave  them  such  exhortations 
as  were  proper  for  them. 

'  And  this  very  care  and  piety  in  family  duties 
was  so  highly  esteemed  of  in  Abraham,  that  God 
made  him  one  of  His  privie  councell  (as  I  may  so 


A  FURTHER  AFFLICTION  63 

say),  for  that  alone  (Gen.  18.  17).  And  might  not 
the  singular  wisdom  and  deep  knowledge  of  divine 
councels,  and  heavenly  mysteries,  which  this 
daughter  of  Abraham  had,  be  a  reward  of  that 
care  to  instruct  her  Children,  and  household  in  the 
ways  of  God  ? 

*  Yet  while  she  is  thus  religiously  and  piously 
imployed  in  this  good  proficiency,  and  far  progress, 
going  on  from  grace  to  grace,  from  virtue  to  virtue  ; 
God  hath  a  further  designe  upon  her,  another  afflic- 
tion to  quicken  her  yet  more. 

*  Her  young  and  most  dear  son  Lorenzo  (whom 
God  had  endowed  with  the  choicest  of  natural 
abilities,  and  to  whom  her  affections  were  most 
tender,  by  reason  of  those  fair  blossoms  of  piety, 
she  perceived  in  him)  God  takes  away  from  her. 
This  added  to  her  former  troubles,  of  the  loss  of 
her  Husband,  of  her  crosses  in  the  world,  and  of 
her  spirituall  afflictions  (which  came  often  upon 
her)   makes  the  burthen  most  heavy  ;   she  was 
bruised  with  afflictions  before,  but  now  she  fears 
being  ground  to  powder. 

Extract  from  Letter  6. 

*  I  peruse  your  directions  daily,  for  I  am  still  in 
my  disconsolate  condition,  my  dryness,  my  dry- 
ness,  woe  is  me  !  I  cannot  dissemble  it.    Those 


64  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

Comforts  have  held  up  my  weary  hands,  in  prayer 
they  have  strengthened  my  feeble  knees  ;  in  the 
publike  Congregation,  in  my  private  closet,  medi- 
tating in  the  field  and  on  my  bed,  at  all  times  and 
upon  all  occasions  they  have  been  my  companions 
and  my  supporters  also.  They  have  made  me  more 
forward  in  Christian  duties,  more  cheerful  in  them, 
and  more  plentiful  of  them,  than  otherwise  I  fear 
I  should  have  been  ;  but  now  they  have  all  for- 
saken me,  and  I  am  left  weak/ 

'  Now  she  weeps  and  mourns  all  the  day  long, 
and  at  night  also  waters  her  couch  with  teares  ; 
and  weeping,  saith,  "  Ah  !  this  immoderate  sorrow 
must  be  repented  of,  these  tears  wept  over  again  :" 
and  this  quick  sense  of  displeasing  God,  by  this 
deep  grief,  soon  allayed  the  vehemency  of  it.  And 
now  she  retires  herself  to  listen,  what  the  Lord  God 
said  unto  her,  in  this  louder  call  of  affliction ;  and 
she  seems  to  be  prompted,  that  she  was  not  yet 
weaned  enough  from  the  things  of  this  world,  and 
that  it  is  expedient  for  her,  that  some  of  those 
worldly  comforts  she  most  delighted  in,  should  be 
taken  away  from  her,  that  her  conversation  may 
be  yet  more  spiritual,  and  heavenly,  and  therefor 
this  affliction  seemed  to  call  her  to  a  greater  morti- 
fication to  the  world,  and  to  a  near  conformation 
to  Christ  her  Lord. 


THE  CHAPLAIN'S  COUNSEL  65 

'  Yet  stil  her  sorrow  for  her  son  is  somwhat  ex- 
orbitant (she  fears),  and  therfore  she  goes  to  her 
ghostly  Physitian  again,  and  acquaints  him  with 
the  violence  of  those  fits  of  sorrow,  which  of  late 
seized  upon  her,  for  the  death  of  her  Son  ;  and  he 
with  his  medicinal  councel  and  direction,  by  God's 
help,  cured  this  her  distemper1 ;  and  antidotes  he 
prescribed  too,  to  prevent  a  relapse  into  this 
malady  of  excessive  grief. 

Extract  from  Answer  to  Letter  3. 

'  Devotion  doth  not  consist  in  these  outward 
and  sensible  consolations,  but  in  a  steady,  active 
will  and  purpose  to  conform  ourselves  inwardly 
and  outwardly  to  the  holy  pleasure  and  commands 
of  God,  and  as  occasion  is  given,  executing  the  will 
of  God,  and  obeying  His  Laws  ;  This,  this  is  pure 
Devotion/ 

Extract  from  Answer  to  Letter  6. 

'  There  goes  alway  along  with  these  our  Conso- 
lations, self-love,  and  sometime  too  much  of  it  too  ; 
It  will  concern  us  therefore  to  moderate  it ;  to  that 
purpose,  when  we  propose  to  ourselves  the  exer- 
cise of  any  duties,  or  the  practice  of  any  Christian 

1  The  Chaplain's  counsel  in  '  desertion  '  follows  the  highest 
and  severest  method  of  the  devout  life.  His  chief  points  are 
absolute  and  wilful  faith  and  obedience,  and  entire  disin- 
terestedness in  the  service  of  God.  Cp.  St.  F.  de  Sales' 
'  Devout  Life/  Part  IV. 


66  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

virtues,  our  own  interest,  Pleasure,  or  advantage 
(spiritual  though  they  be)  must  be  the  least  things 
we  aim  at,  lest  self-respects  blemish  all.  And  thus 
(though  in  the  depth  of  desertion)  our  love  is  more 
commendable,  and  those  duties  and  virtues  more 
acceptable  to  God,  for  Whose  sake  wholly  we  per- 
form them,  than  those  exercises  and  duties  we  for- 
merly had  so  much  comfort  in  ;  and  upon  this 
reason  I  still  advise  you,  not  to  set  too  high  an 
esteem  upon  these  Consolations,  your  own  delights.' 

'  Now  she  confesses  that  this  very  affliction  was 
most  fit  for  her,  and  that  it  would  prove  most  be- 
hoofful  to  her,  and  therefore  she  labors  to  put 
on  joy  instead  of  sorrow,  and  comfort  instead  of 
mourning,  and  returning  home  with  perfect  cheer- 
fulnesse,  every  one  there  observed  a  most  notable, 
though  sodaine  change  in  her ;  sad  Hanna's  coun- 
tenance and  conversation  not  more  visibly  changed 
upon  the  good  words  of  Eli  the  Prophet,  to  her, 
concerning  the  Samuel  she  should  obtain,  then  hers 
now  is,  after  the  loss  of  one. 

'  Thus  God  made  the  medicine  most  sovereign 
to  her,  and  the  antidote  too  ;  for  I  verily  believe 
she  never  after  felt  any  fit  of  that  her  disease  ;  and 
though  she  wept  often  for  her  tears  so  profusely 
spent  formerly  upon  her  Son's  hearse,  yet  after 
this,  not  a  tear  more  shed  over  it. 


A  SUBTLE  TEMPTATION  67 

'  And  with  this  extraordinary  cheerfulness  she 
takes  up  a  most  firm  resolution  of  a  further  pro- 
gress in  holiness  and  piety,  and  addresses  herself  to 
run  these  later  stages  of  her  Christian  race,  with 
greater  speed,  than  she  had  shewed  in  any  of  the 
former ;  and  thereupon  she  begins  with  a  most 
diligent  endeavour  to  conform  her  life  exactly,  and 
universally  to  the  most  holy  wil  of  God. 

'  But  the  Devil,  who  before  envied  her  beginning, 
and  her  proficiency  much  more,  is  now  most  violent 
to  hinder  her  perfection  ;  and  therefor  upon  this 
her  renued  purpose  of  more  exact  obedience,  pre- 
sently assaults  her  with  fiercenesse  and  rage, 
strongly  tempting  her,  to  think  that  she  had 
deceived  her  self  all  this  while,  and  that  she  had 
mocked  God  with  a  counterfeit  repentance,  which 
was  no  way  acceptable  to  Him. 

'  And  an  Argument  was  brought  to  this  purpose, 
which  was  so  fully  suitable  to  the  tendernesse  of 
her  own  spirit,  that  it  is  hard  to  say,  whence  it 
proceeded. 

'  And  this  it  was  ;  my  grief  for  my  sins  hath  not 
been  so  vehement,  as  that,  the  other  day,  for  the 
death  of  my  Son ;  I  wept  not  so  bitterly  for 
them,  as  I  did  for  that ;  and  therefore,  that  my 
repentance  is  not  acceptable  ;  you  may  read  the 

9—2 


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argument  further  pressed  against  her  self,  in  the 
Letters  annexed. 

Extract  from  Letter  7. 

'  The  other  day,  while  I  was  judging  myself  for 
my  sins,  an  allegation  was  cast  in  against  my  Re- 
pentance also,  and  that  was  accused  of  insincerity 
and  hypocrisy  ;  and  proof  was  brought  in  of  it : 
My  grief  and  sorrow  for  my  sins  was  compared 
with  my  sorrow  for  other  things  ;  the  small  bottle 
of  my  penitential  tears  was  brought  forth  and  set 
by  the  bottle  of  my  tears  for  worldly  crosses  ;  and 
it  appeared  how  enlarged  I  had  been  in  these,  and 
how  straitened  in  those ;  that  I  have  wept  more 
for  the  loss  of  a  friend,  or  of  a  pension  for  some 
years,  than  for  the  loss  of  my  Lord  God.  .  .  .  Upon 
this,  how  heavy  and  sad  my  guilty  soul  is  cannot 
be  expressed/  * 

\  Extract  from  Letter  9. 

'  My  sins,  which  were  removed  from  me  as  far 
as  the  East  is  from  the  West,  are  now  met  together 
again,  and  set  in  order  before  me  ;  and  they  which 
were  as  white  as  snow  or  wool,  are  now  crimson 
and  scarlet  again.  Yea,  my  Saviour  and  Redeemer, 
Who  was  my  Surety,  and  cancelled  the  bond  of 
handwriting  which  was  against  me,  is  now  become 
an  incensed  creditor  against  me.  Lord,  if  I  could 
believe  in  Him,  He  would  quit  me  and  set  me  free 
again  ;  Oh,  help  Thou  mine  unbelief !  and  though 
I  am  weak  in  faith,  make  me  faithful  in  weakness. 


COMFORT  AND  SATISFACTION         69 

And  yet  my  hope  perisheth  also  (Lam.  3.  18).  I 
was  wont  when  I  could  not  rejoice  in  things  en- 
joyed, yet  somewhat  to  comfort  myself  in  things 
promised,  but  now  things  past,  and  present,  and 
to  come,  are  all  against  me,  and  fear  is  on  every 
side/ 

The  Chaplain  answered  : 

'  I  think  that  the  Lord  inflicts  not,  only  suffers 
this  against  you  ;  that  it  is  the  Devil  who  thus 
buffets  you,  and  that  these  are  his  fierce  assaults 
and  vehement  temptations.  And  if  so,  as  before 
you  were  conformed  to  our  blessed  Saviour  in 
desertion  of  comfort,  so  now  you  fill  up  that  con- 
formity to  Him,  by  enduring  also  this  infliction  of 
temptations.  .  .  .  And  if  our  Head  and  our  fellow- 
members  suffered  these  very  afflictions,  I  pray 
think  it  not  strange  concerning  this  fiery  trial : 
especially  considering  that  this  conformity  to 
Christ's  sufferings  will  work  out  for  you  a  con- 
formity to  Him  in  glory/ 

'  And  in  this  anguish  of  spirit,  she  hastens  to  her 
learned  friend  againe,  and  begs  councel  and  direc- 
tion from  him,  and  after  devout  Prayers  and  holy 
Conferences,  received  full  comfort  and  thorough 
satisfaction,  and  returns  home  now  as  visibly  lifted 
up  from  the  deep  pit  of  anguish,  and  disquiet  of 
spirit,  as  she  was  the  other  day,  from  the  valley  of 
sorrow  :  and  with  tranquillity  of  mind,  and  joy  of 
heart,  shews  to  her  friends,  both  how  she  sunk, 


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and  how  she  was  raised  again ;  as  you  may  read 
further  in  the  annexed  Letters. 

Extract  from  Letter  10. 

'  I  return  you  many  thanks  for  your  letters  of 
ghostly  direction  and  comfort,  and  for  your  Prayers 
for  me,  and  the  more  heartily  because  they  prove 
so  behoofful  and  advantageous  to  me ;  The  floods 
of  afflictions  and  the  waves  of  terrors  beat  vehe- 
mently upon  my  soul,  but  the  Lord,  Who  sitteth 
above  the  water-floods,  hath  supported  me,  and  I 
have  now  seen  the  wonders  of  God  in  the  Deep. 
...  I  have  found  Him  Whom  I  sought,  the  love  of 
my  Soul,  and  the  joy  of  mine  Heart,  my  God  and 
my  Lord.  Now  I  enjoy  His  Presence,  I  feel  His 
Influence,  and  the  light  of  His  Countenance  also 
shines  upon  me.  .  .  .  Surely,  Sir,  my  sufferings 
compared  with  the  Age  of  my  sinfulness,  but  espe- 
cially with  the  eternity  of  Comforts  which  I  shall 
enjoy,  were  but  for  a  moment,  a  very  short 
moment,  but  the  twinkling  of  an  Eye  :  And  now 
my  joys  return.  .  .  .  And  when  I  am  filled  with 
the  comforts  of  God,  my  heart  dilates  itself  further 
by  looking  upon  the  joys  of  heaven ;  for  if  there 
be  such  joys  during  the  seedtime,  how  infinite  is 
the  joy  of  harvest  ? 

'  Praised  be  the  Lord  Who  hath  heard  my  com- 
plaint and  answered  my  prayer,  and  that  with  ad- 
vantage. I  asked  my  former  comforts,  and  He  fills 
me  with  them  far  more  than  before  ;  He  hath  been 
more  bountiful  to  me,  than  I  dared  presume  to  ask. 
Now  I  perceive  it  was  so  far  from  being  prejudicial 


FULLNESS  OF  JOY  71 

to  me,  that  it  was  most  expedient  for  me,  that 
Christ  should  go  away  from  me,  with  these  His 
Consolations,  for  now  He  hath  sent  the  Holy  Ghost 
the  Comforter  down  into  my  soul,  with  far  greater 
delights,  and  with  more  Heavenly  joy,  than  ever 
heretofore ;  and  if  barrenness  be  so  fruitful,  and 
yields  such  a  plentiful  harvest,  oh  my  soul  be  thou 
never  hereafter  troubled  at  it.' 

I  And  now  having  by  the  help  of  her  God  leapt 
over  this  wall,  and  overcome  this  difficulty,  with 
much  cheerfulness  of  spirit  she  enters  upon  the 
practise  of  what  she  had  last  resolved  on. 

Extract  from  Letter  n. 

I 1  still  abound  with  these  consolations,  and  I 
cannot  mistrust  them  to  come  from  any  other  foun- 
tain than  from  heaven  ;  my  sensitive  faculties  have 
some  share  in  outward  consolations,  but  my  ra- 
tional faculties  overflow  with  them  ;  and  therefore 
I  bless  God,  the  Author  of  these  and  of  all  true 
comforts.    And  these  still  increase  in  me ;  the  oil 
of  my  former  joy  was  as  that  in  the  widow's  little 
cruse  ;  but  now  I  have  such  store  that  (with  the 
other  widow)  I  want  vessels  to  hold  it. 

'  Oft-times  I  cry  out  (with  the  holy  man  I  read 
of) :  "Sufficit,  Domine,  sufficit " — It  is  enough,  Lord, 
it  is  enough,  I  am  full  of  joy,  brim-full,  and  can 
hold  no  more/ 

'  This  opposition,  though  it  stayed  her  awhile, 
yet  set  an  edge  upon  her  resolution,  and  she  soon 


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recovered  that  whetting  time.  And  she  begins 
by  a  most  sharp  mortification,  to  obey  the  call 
of  her  last  Affliction. 

'  The  vanity  of  apparel  and  dresses  she  had  cut 
off  long  before  ;  and  after  her  Husband's  death,  the 
richness  of  them  too.  These  (and  her  looking- 
glasses  with  the  women  in  the  law,  Exod.  38.  8) 
she  had  laid  by,  for  the  service  of  the  Tabernacle  : 
what  she  spared  in  these,  she  bestowed  upon  the 
poor  Members  of  Christ,  and  now  she  begins  to  cut 
off  all  worldly  pomp  also. 

'  In  her  House,  in  her  Retinue,  and  at  her  Table, 
and  otherwise,  she  denies  herself  that  stale  (which 
her  quality  might  have  excused)  that  (with  Dorcas 
the  Widow)  she  might  be  full  of  good  works  ;  and 
more  delight  she  takes  to  see  her  Revenues  now 
spent  among  a  crowd  of  Almes-men  and  women 
at  her  dore,  then  by  a  throng  of  Servants  in  her 
house ;  it  was  a  greater  joy  to  her  that  she  could 
maintain  poor  children  at  their  Books,  and  their 
work,  then  to  have  Pages  and  Gentlewomen  for 
her  Attendants  :  These  expences  she  knew  would 
be  better  allowed,  in  her  Bill  of  Accounts,  at  the 
general  Audit,  then  those  other  ;  it  was  her  pomp 
and  joy  to  mortifie  all  useless  pomp  of  State,  and 
all  delight  in  Courtly  vanities. 


THE  UNRULY  MEMBER  73 

'  And  now  her  anger  too  (which  was  crushed 
before)  must  be  wholly  subdued  ;  and  to  that  pur- 
pose she  solicitously  avoids  all  enquiries ;  and  all 
discourse  which  she  feared  would  provoke  her  to 
immoderate  anger  ;  and  when  she  feels  it  struggling 
to  arise  in  her,  then  presently  (either  by  silence,  or 
by  diverting  to  another  matter)  she  labours  to 
stifle  it. 

1  And  while  she  is  suppressing  the  sinfulness  of 
this  passion,  she  undertakes  also,  that  most  diffi- 
cult task  of  taming  the  tongue  :  And  as  it  is  neces- 
sary with  unruly  beasts,  she  begins  roughly  with 
it,  ties  it  up,  with  a  most  strong  resolution,  and 
scarce  suffers  it  to  speak,  lest  she  should  offend 
with  her  tongue  :  thus  for  some  while  it  was 
straightened,  and  then  she  loosed  it  a  little  with 
these  two  cautions. 

'  First,  that  it  should  never  speak  evil  of  any 
man,  though  truly,  but  only  upon  a  designe  of 
charity,  to  reclaim  him  from  that  evil :  And  because 
it  is  not  ordinary  to  reclaim  any  vicious  person, 
in  his  absence,  therefore  her  charge  is  peremptory 
to  her  tongue,  That  it  never  should  speak  evil 
of  any  man,  were  he  most  notoriously  vicious,  if 
he  were  absent,  and  not  like  to  be  amended  by  it : 
A  strict  rule  this,  yet  verily  I  perswade  my  self, 

10 


74  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

that  for  a  long  time  before  her  death,  she  most 
punctually  observed  it ;  she  accounted  it  a  crime 
to  speak  evil  falsly  of  any  man  ;  and  it  went  for  a 
slander  with  her  (as  wel  it  might)  to  speak  evil 
truly  of  any  one,  unless  it  were  in  love. 

'  The  second  caution  her  tongue  had,  was  that, 
as  much  as  possible,  it  should  keep  in  every  idle 
word,  and  speak  out  only  that  which  was  to  edifica- 
tion. 

'  The  Thessalonians  were  famous  for  speaking  to 
the  edification  one  of  another  (i  Thes.  5.  n),  and 
this  Thessalonian  language  our  good  Lady  studied, 
with  as  much  diligence  and  earnestness,  as  we 
ordinarily  study  a  deep  science,  or  a  gainful 
mystery  :  and  now  she  is  very  slow  to  speak  (as 
the  Apostle  exhorts)  and,  where  she  cannot  rule 
the  discourse  to  edification,  she  sits  silent,  and 
refrains  even  from  good  words,  though  it  be  pain 
and  grief  to  her. 

'  And  of  late  she  distinguish^  between  civil,  and 
spiritual  edification,  and  scarcely  allowed  herself 
discourses  for  civil  edification  of  her  friends,  or 
neighbors  in  worldly  matters  :  Spiritual  edification 
in  heavenly  things  was  all  her  aim. 

'  And  her  care  was  the  same  in  writing,  as  in 
speaking  ;  not  a  vain,  not  an  idle  word  must  slip 


MORTIFICATIONS  75 

from  her  pen  ;  she  thought  not  her  soul  clean,  if 
there  were  such  a  blot  in  her  paper.  In  her  Letters, 
no  favour  of  complement  at  all,  and  she  judged 
her  self  guilty  of  a  trespass,  if  she  subscribed  her 
self,  Your  servant,  to  whom  she  was  not  really 
so. 

'  And  for  that  other  temperance  in  diet,  as  wel 
as  in  speech,  she  was  very  eminent.  A  small  dosis, 
of  meat  or  drink,  and  of  sleep,  and  ease,  sufficed 
her. 

'  In  fastings  often,  in  watching  often  ;  and  tem- 
perate she  was,  in  an  high  degree,  continually. 
And  these  were  sure  means  for  the  mortification 
of  her  appetites  ;  and  as  far  from  daintiness  as 
from  intemperance,  and  both  that,  and  this,  not 
only  in  a  care  of  her  health,  and  in  respect  of  God's 
commandment,  but  also  out  of  a  consciousness  (as 
she  would  now  and  then  intimate)  that  she  was 
unworthy  to  enjoy  any  thing,  for  quantity  or 
quality  above  the  meanest  in  the  Parish. 

'  And  together  with  these  mortifications  of  her 
affections  to  honor  and  state  ;  and  of  her  appetites  ; 
she  now  also  severely  undertakes  the  mortification 
of  her  natural  Affection  to  her  Children  and 
Friends,  and  keeps  that  from  its  wonted  exorbi- 
tancy. 

10 — 2 


76  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

Extract  from  Letter  5. 

'  If  I  could  abridge  myself  a  little  more  of  that 
delight  I  take  in  the  study  of  History,  Philosophy, 
and  the  like ;  If  I  could  abate  some  little  of  that 
comfort  I  solace  myself  with,  in  friends  and  chil- 
dren ;  if  I  could  be  a  little  more  straitened  in  these 
worldly  comforts,  I  should  well  hope  to  be  enlarged 
again  in  these  spiritual  comforts/ 

'  It  sounded  very  harshly,  to  some  of  her  dearest 
friends,  when  she  said,  "  Oh  love  me  not,  I  pray, 
too  much  !"  until  she  added,  "  And  God  grant, 
I  never  love  my  friends  too  much  hereafter,  that 
hath  cost  me  dear,  and  my  heart  hath  smarted 
sore  with  grief  for  it  already  :"  And  now  her  will 
and  understanding  must  be  henceforth  more  mor- 
tified than  formerly  ;  she  had  resigned  them  before 
to  God's  will,  and  she  renues  that  resignation  daily, 
and  most  freely  submits  herself  in  everything,  not 
only  to  God's  will,  but  also  to  his  wisdome  :  "  And 
whatever  comes  upon  me  (said  she)  I  will  bear  it 
patiently,  because  by  God's  will  it  comes  ;  yea,  I 
will  bear  it  cheerfully,  because  by  God's  wisdome 
it  is  thus  ordered,  and  it  will  work  (as  all  things 
else)  for  mine  advantage." 

Compare  the  Chaplain's  answer  to  Letter  8  : 


ACQUIESCENCE  IN  THE  DIVINE  WILL    77 

'  Consider,  I  pray,  there  are  other  graces  to  grow 
in  you  besides  peace  and  joy  ;  and  though  the  light 
of  God's  countenance,  those  sunshiny  days,  might 
ripen  them  most,  yet  this  present  cloudy  weather 
may  advantage  your  growth  in  humility  and 
mourning  and  self-denial ;  and  if  there  be  a  growth 
downward  in  these,  though  you  perceive  no  growth 
upward  in  the  other,  yet  are  you  increasing  in 
holiness/ 

1  And  upon  this  reason  she  was  wont  to  account 
the  death  of  her  Husband,  and  of  her  Son,  as  ex- 
traordinary perquisits  and  advantages  to  her ;  "  and 
therefore  I  should  offend  not  only  against  free 
obedience  and  submission,  but  also  against  com- 
mon prudence  (said  she)  if  I  should  wish  my  con- 
dition otherwise,  then  now  it  is ;  I  cannot  wish 
anything  so  gainfull  and  prosperous  to  me,  as  this, 
which  my  heavenly  Father  in  his  wisdome  hath 
ordered  for  me." 

c  And  as  in  suffering,  so  in  doing,  she  resigns  up 
her  self  wholly,  and  resolves  (by  the  grace  of  God) 
to  do  whatsoever  is  her  duty  in  everything,  and 
therefore  she  proposes  henceforth  to  deliberate  of 
nothing,  but  what  is  her  duty,  in  this,  or  that 
particular  ;  and  without  further  pause  goe  about  it. 

'  When  matters  of  difficulty  came,  she  usually 
consulted  with  the  most  learned  and  pious  Divines 


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she  could  meet  with,  to  learn  what  was  her  duty 
therein  ;  she  trusted  not  her  own  judgement,  nor 
mistrusted  theirs  ;  but  presently  applyed  her  self 
to  do,  as  they  directed  her. 

'  In  the  Transactions  of  her  worldly  affaires, 
though  she  foresaw  sometimes  inconveniences  en- 
suing by  following  their  directions,  yet  more  she 
feared  might  otherwise  happen,  and  therefore  she 
would  not  neglect  them.  And  when  the  success  of 
any  business  answered  not  to  her  expectation,  she 
seemed  not  troubled  at  it ;  her  Conscience  bearing 
her  witness,  that  she  had  done  what  was  her  duty 
to  doe ;  and  seeing  it  was  God,  who  in  His  wisdome 
denied  her  successe,  she  would  still  hope,  and  say, 
"  Though  at  this  time,  this  way,  this  business  pros- 
pered not,  yet  at  some  other  time,  some  other  way, 
it  will  be  successfull  unto  me.  This  doing  my  duty 
will  be  some  time,  or  other,  some  way  or  other,  for 
mine  advantage/' 

'  And  these  her  mortifications  were  not  without 
a  great  degree  of  Sanctification,  both  in  the  inward 
and  outward  man  ;  for  to  these  she  joyned  her 
former  purpose  of  adorning  her  soul,  more  espe- 
cially with  those  virtues  which  our  Savior  com- 
mends, in  his  Sermon  on  the  Mount ;  and  now 
she  endeavours  to  put  them  in  practice  more 


INCREASE  IN  VIRTUES  79 

perfectly,  and  more  exactly  then  formerly  she  had 
done. 

'  And  first,  mercifulness  begins  to  exceed  :  she 
was  most  liberal  before,  now  she  is  (considering 
her  Estate  brought  into  a  very  narrow  compass) 
most  bountiful :  for  whereas  before  the  main  of 
her  Revenue  was  for  her  own  maintenance,  the 
superfluity  of  it  for  her  charity,  now  the  maine  of 
her  Revenues  goes  abroad  for  Charity ;  the  other 
only  is  left  at  home  for  her  maintenance  :  I  have 
heard  her  compute,  and  the  remainder  after  such 
and  such  deeds  of  Charity  to  be  expended  quarterly, 
that  small  pittance  was  only  it,  she  accounted  hers, 
and  ordered  her  course  of  life  accordingly  ;  very 
well  content,  though  she  herself  made  a  shift  with 
Augurs  single  food  and  rayment  (Prov.  30.  8)  that 
others,  who  depended  on  her,  should  (as  the  hous- 
hold  of  Lemuels  virtuous  woman)  be  fed  and 
cloathed  with  double  (c.  31.  21). 

'  And  with  this,  her  meeknes  exceeds  also  :  meek- 
nes  was  the  attire  of  her  soul,  before,  now  it  is  the 
Ornament  thereof :  hath  the  fulness,  and  length, 
and  comeliness  too,  of  an  Ornament  or  Robe  :  And 
I  will  say  nothing  (for  I  cannot  say  enough)  of  the 
richness,  and  glory,  and  beauty  of  that  Robe,  a 
meek  and  quiet  Spirit :  now  she  grows  a  most 


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eminent  pattern  of  meeknesse  and  gentlenesse  in 
every  kind,  and  all  that  knew  her  admired  and 
reverenced  her  for  it. 

'  And  her  Compassion,  which  was  thought  to 
be  with  the  deepest  before,  goes  deeper  now ; 
she  had  formerly  the  heart  of  a  most  tender 
mother,  towards  every  one  in  distresse,  now  she 
put  on  the  heart  of  God ;  and  so  enlarged  she 
grows  in  her  heart,  that  she  seldome  sees,  or  hears 
of  any  object  of  pity,  but  it  yearns  so  much  with- 
in her,  as  to  force  tears  from  her  eyes  ;  And  it  is 
hard  to  say,  whether  her  heart  or  her  Hand  (her 
Compassion  or  her  Charity)  contributed  most  to 
the  comfort  of  the  poor  and  needy. 

'  This  was  confined,  that  at  large  ;  and  the  pub- 
lique  calamities  which  her  Hand  of  Charity  could 
not  reach,  her  heart's  Compassion  did;  And  we, 
who  observed  her  (when  the  publique  and  generall 
miseries  of  the  Kingdome  and  Church  were  the 
Discourse  at  Meales)  to  mingle  her  Drink  with  her 
Teares,  cannot  but  think,  that  the  sadder  thoughts 
of  them,  in  private,  made  her  water  her  Couch  with 
her  Teares. 

'  And  now  she  is  almost  pined  with  hunger,  and 
faint  with  thirst  after  righteousnes  ;  ever  and  anon 
sighing,  "  Oh  that  I  could  attain  unto  it !  Oh 


JUSTICE  81 

that  my  ways  were  made  so  direct !"  It  was  usual 
for  her  at  night  to  compose  herself  to  sleep,  saying 
to  her  woman  (not  without  some  joy),  "  Well,  now 
I  am  one  day  neerer  my  journey's  end  ;"  comfort- 
ing herself,  that  when  her  body  should  sleep  in  the 
bed  of  her  grave,  then  the  days  of  sin  should  be 
accomplished,  and  then  she  should  be  perfect,  as 
her  heavenly  Father  is  perfect. 

'  Particularly,  her  hunger  and  thirst  after  justice 
was  most  commendable,  that  judgement  might  run 
down  as  a  stream,  and  righteousness  like  a  mighty 
river  :  And  for  justice  in  her  own  affaires,  there 
lives  not  (I  believe)  any  one,  more  punctual  and 
exact  than  she  was.  She  perused  a  learned  and 
strict  Treatise  of  justice,  and  made  those  rules  her 
standard,  practising  them  most  precisely  :  And  in 
more  perplexed  and  difficult  cases  she  would  send 
to  some  Divines  (of  whose  piety  and  fervor  she 
had  a  good  opinion)  and  desire  them  to  pray  (as 
she  her  self  did)  that  she  might  be  most  just  in 
them,  neither  swerving  to  the  left,  nor  to  the  right 
hand. 

1  In  her  absence  from  home,  the  Sutlers  of  the 
Army  came  to  her  House,  and  took  provision,  pay- 
ing for  every  particular  the  highest  price  ;  which, 
when  her  Servant  accounted  to  her  again,  she  com- 

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82  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

puted  exactly,  what  the  particulars  cost  her ;  and 
then  sent  solicitously  up  and  down  the  Army  to 
find  out  the  Sutlers,  and  to  restore  the  overplus, 
which  she  thought  not  just  to  be  taken  by  her  : 
and  her  hunger  and  thirst  after  that  justice  was 
not  satisfied,  til  she  heard  it  was  so  done. 

'  And  for  engagements  descended  to  her  (after 
care  taken  to  satisfy  them  with  all  possible  speed) 
she  lamented  often  with  teares  that  she  could  not 
actually  discharge  them,  saying,  Though  they  may 
consist  with  justice  (2  Kings  4.  i),  yet  they  could 
not  consist  with  that  outward  thankfulness  which 
she  desired  to  express. 

'  And  for  the  other  points  of  our  Savior's  Sermon, 
her  charity  suspected  few,  judged  none  of  her 
neighbours  ;  an  Eagle's  ey(e)  she  had,  to  espie  any 
good,  though  but  inclinations  in  them,  and  with  a 
favorable  construction,  judged  the  best  of  what 
she  heard,  or  saw  in  them  :  yet  a  Mole's  eye,  to 
espie  the  evil,  though  acts  in  her  brethren ;  a  mote 
of  goodness  could  not  escape  her  sight ;  but  it  must 
be  a  beam  of  evil,  her  eye  would  take  notice  of : 
and  her  slowness  to  believe  miscarriages  in  any 
one,  drave  all  talebearers  from  her  :  yet  when 
faults  were  evident  (in  such  as  she  had  charge  over) 
she  would  reprove  with  a  great  deal  of  power. 


HUMILITY  83 

'  She  was  most  respective  to  her  superiors  ;  and 
most  courteous  and  affable  towards  inferiors  ;  And 
very  cautious  lest  she  should  give  offence  to  one  or 
other,  either  in  word  or  gesture ;  and  as  cautious 
too,  lest  any  of  them  should  take  offence  at  any 
speech,  or  look  of  hers,  towards  them  ;  "  for  either 
way  (said  she),  in  offences  given  or  taken,  God  is 
offended ;"  And  her  humility  in  begging  forgive- 
ness from  others,  was  most  singular  :  Of  late,  your 
Ladyship  knows,  she  seldome  slept,  til  she  had 
asked  forgiveness  as  well  as  blessing  from  you  ;  if 
she  had  offended  you,  she  thought  your  pardon 
necessary ;  if  not,  it  was  no  cumbrance,  to  have 
supernumerary  pardons  from  you,  lying  by  her. 

'  But  to  see  this  honourable  Lady  begging  for- 
giveness from  her  inferiors  and  servants  (as  she 
often  did)  for  her  angry  words  to  them,  or  her 
chiding  frowns  upon  them,  was  that,  which  put  us 
all  to  shame,  and  to  astonishment ;  now  and  then, 
when  she  had  expressed  no  anger,  outwardly,  yet 
their  pardon  she  would  desire,  because,  said  she, 
"  somewhat  I  felt  within  my  self,  too  like  anger 
against  you,  though  I  suppressed  it  as  soon  as  I 
could." 

'  More  than  once,  or  twice  of  late,  she  brought 
her  gift  to  the  Altar  (was  in  her  Closet  on  her  knees 

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84  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

towards  Prayer),  and  there  she  remembred  that  her 
Brother  might  possibly  have  somewhat  against  her 
(for  such  a  word,  or  such  a  look,  or  a  neglective 
silence  a  little  before),  and  she  left  her  gift  at  the 
Altar,  and  went,  and  was  reconciled  (asked  par- 
don), and  then  came  and  offered  :  so  that  her  chief 
care  was  still,  to  lift  up  in  Prayer  pure  hands, 
without  wrath  ;  If  there  were  any  wrath  in  her 
against  others,  or  any,  in  others  against  her,  she 
would  have  it  allayed,  before  she  offered  her  gift 
of  Prayer. 

'  And  though  all  these  graces  and  virtues  (by 
God's  help)  did  thus  increase  in  her,  yet  a  true 
poverty  of  spirit  increased  also  in  her. 

Compare  the  Chaplain's  reply  to  Letter  n  : 
'  Though  these  consolations  of  yours  are  (as  you 
hope)  from  the  Holy  Spirit  (Who  giveth  every  good 
thing  plenteously),  yet  there  may  be  too  much  de- 
light taken  in  them  ;  and  temptation  there  may 
come  to  rest  in  them,  to  think  yourself  not  only 
the  more  happy  but  also  the  more  holy,  and  the 
more  fervent  for  them  ;  yea,  and  holy  enough  with 
them  ;  But  labour  I  pray  to  abound  as  with  com- 
fort so  in  every  good  work,  knowing  that  the  more 
comfort  you  receive,  the  more  holiness  you  must 
return/ 

'  The  more  Holy,  the  more  Pious  she  was,  the 
more  humbly  she  walked  with  God :  In  her  greatest 


HER  CHILDREN'S  DEVOTIONS        85 

abundance  she  complained  most  of  spiritual  wants. 
Sure  the  bright  lustre  of  her  virtue  gave  her  an 
advantage,  to  espie  many  corruptions  in  her 
self,  which  she  could  not  before ;  and  these  she 
lamented  more  sadly,  now,  then  heretofore. 

'  And  in  these  duties  of  praier,  she  advanced  for- 
ward too.  Now,  her  Nursery  must  have  an  Ora- 
tory annexed  to  it ;  and  her  Children1  their  private 
Devotions  ;  they  are  appointed  by  her,  to  read 
Morning  and  Evening  Prayers,  and  Lessons  at  their 
rising  up,  and  at  their  lying  down  :  and  their  spare 
minutes  being  destined  as  hers  also  were  to  conning 
of  Psalmes  without  book  ;  they  open  the  day  with 
one  of  the  seven  Eucharistical  Psalms  (for  thanks- 
giving to  God,  for  renuing  his  loving  kindnes  to 
them  that  Morning),  and  they  shut  up  the  day, 
with  one  of  the  7  Penitential  Psalms  (praying  for 
pardon  of  the  offences  of  the  day) ;  this  care  she 

1  She  had  three  sons,  Lucius,  Henry,  and  Lorenzo.  Lorenzo 
died  in  November,  1645.  The  eldest  was  entered  at  Christ- 
church  in  Lent  term,  1646-1647,  but  soon  afterwards  went 
abroad  with  his  tutor,  Maplet.  It  is  possible  that  grief  for  his 
mother  had  weakened  his  health,  for  he  died  in  the  same  year  at 
Montpelier.  Henry  succeeded  to  the  title  and  estates,  but  is 
chiefly  remarkable  for  the  tradition  that  he  sold  his  father's 
library  for  a  horse  and  mare.  He  had  only  one  child,  at  whose 
death  the  direct  line  ceased,  before  the  end  of  the  seventeenth 
century. 


86  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

took  to  season  her  Children's  affections,  and  memo- 
ries with  good  things  ;  and  now  she  trains  them  up 
also,  to  those  virtues  commended  in  our  Savior's 
Sermon,  and  an  explication  of  them,  she  directs, 
should  be  annexed  to  their  first  Catechism. 

'  And  for  the  Church  prayers  in  her  house,  there 
was  of  late  some  exceptions  against  continuing  that 
practice  ;  and  some  danger  the  Exceptors  appre- 
hended, likely  to  have  ensued  upon  it  :l  Hereupon 
the  Book  of  Martyrs  was  brought,  and  the  story  of 
the  Lady  Knevit  in  Norfolke,  in  the  time  of  Queen 
Mary  was  publikly  read,  which  in  short  is  this  :  "  A 
persecuted  Protestant  Minister,  being  in  her  house, 
reads  the  Morning  and  Evening  Prayer  of  King 
Edward  the  sixt  his  Service-book  (the  same  with 
our  Service-book)  constantly  in  her  family,  though 
there  was  an  Act  of  Parliament  against  it.  Here- 
upon the  holy  Lady  is  threatened  to  be  punished 
for  it ;  she  goes  on  notwithstanding,  in  that  course 
of  piety,  promising  to  welcome  the  punishment, 
when  ere  it  came ;  and  though  many  resorted  to 
her  house,  who  had  disaffection  enough  to  her 
piety,  and  particularly  to  that  Form  of  prayer, 
yet  they  commonly  kneeled  down,  and  joyned  in 

1  The  use  of  the  Prayer  Book  was  forbidden  by  Parliament 
in  1645. 


EXAMPLE  OF  LADY  KNEVIT          87 

prayers  with  her ;  God  would  not  suffer  their  hands 
to  punish,  nor  their  mouths  to  speak  against  her, 
for  it." 

'  And  now,  when  every  passage  in  this  story  was 
so  readily  appliable,  to  this  our  pious  Lady  also, 
she  wanted  not  an  answer  for  the  Objectors,  nor 
courage  to  go  on  in  her  wonted  course  :  and  the 
event  was  most  particularly  according  to  the  presi- 
dent ;  for  though  complaints  were  made,  and 
threats  sent  to  us  ;  and  many  quartered  upon  her, 
who  liked  not  our  Form  of  Prayer,  and  had  power 
to  suppress  it,  yet  God  suffered  them  not  to  execute 
that  their  power  upon  us.  And,  Madame,  if  the 
Lady  Knevit  was  thought  fit  to  be  Chronicled 
(amongst  the  Martyrs  and  Confessors)  for  this 
alone,  I  pray  let  not  this  of  our  Lady  be  forgotten  : 
And  I  shall  presume  that  your  Ladyship,  and  every 
one  who  considers  these,  and  such  like  examples, 
will  hazard  any  thing,  rather  then  alter  your  course 
of  piety,  and  constant  use  of  our  sacred  Liturgy. 

'  And  she  was  as  constant,  and  as  resolute  for 
her  other  howrs  of  Prayer  and  Meditation.  The 
entertainments  of  honourable  persons,  or  the  haste 
of  necessary  business,  should  not  excuse  her  from 
these  other  Devotions ;  In  her  deepest  griefs  and 
disturbances,  in  her  highest  comforts,  and  gratula- 


88  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

tions,  she  was  most  constant  at  them  :  and  though 
she  could  not,  at  these  times,  discharge  those  duties 
at  her  ordinary  howrs,  yet  her  eyes  were  not  suf- 
fered to  sleep,  til  she  had  gone  through  with  them  ; 
when  she  must  lose  her  sleep,  or  God  this  his  ser- 
vice, she  readily  resolved,  which  was  fittest  of  the 
two. 

'  Her  last  work,  every  Evening,  was  to  review 
with  some  diligence  all  the  works  of  that  day,  her 
thoughts,  words,  and  deeds  ;  what  in  this  room, 
what  in  that ;  what  good  she  had  done,  what  evil 
she  had  committed  ;  what  opportunities  of  benefit- 
ing others,  she  had  embraced,  or  neglected ;  and 
what  comforts  and  blessings  she  had  that  day  re- 
ceived :  and  after  this  examination,  giving  thanks, 
and  begging  pardon,  in  every  particular,  as  occa- 
sion required,  having  communed  with  her  own 
heart,  in  her  bed-chamber,  she  was  still. 

*  Thus  she  was  a  very  good  proficient  in  these 
several  points  of  our  Savior's  Sermon,  went  on 
from  one  degree  to  another,  in  most  of  them. 
Faith,  and  judgement  (the  weightier  matters  of  the 
law,  the  chief  virtues)  she  was  most  eminent  in ; 
and  for  tything  of  mint  and  cummin  (the  lesser 
virtues)  she  would  not  leave  them  undone. 

'  She  thought  not  all  the  laws  of  God  performed, 


A  COVENANT  WITH  HER  FRIENDS    89 

If  any  laws  of  the  King  were  neglected  ;  and  there- 
fore she  was  wont  earnestly  to  presse  obedience  to 
all  things  which  the  laws  of  the  Realm  require ; 
even  to  penal  laws  against  shooting  and  hunting, 
and  the  like  ;  and  would  not  suffer  any  of  hers  to 
transgresse,  in  these  lesser  matters :  Severely 
(though  judiciously,  and  truly  enough)  affirming, 
"  That  the  Lawgivers  made  their  penal  laws, 
for  obedience,  not  for  Mulct ;  and  their  chief 
and  first  intention  was,  that  their  laws  should 
be  observed,  not  that  the  offender  should  be 
punished." 

'  And  having  thus  far  improved  her  self  (by  the 
grace  of  God)  in  an  holy  and  spirituall  life,  she 
now  labors  what  she  can,  to  improve  others 
also  ;  and  now  she  is  strong,  to  strengthen  her 
brethren. 

'  A  Covenant  she  enters  into  with  her  acquaint- 
ance, especially  those  with  whom  she  frequently 
conversed,  that  they  should  take  liberty  to  reprove 
whatsoever  they  saw  amisse  in  her  :  and  also  to 
give  her  liberty  to  deal  so  with  them  ;  saying  to 
them  "  there  is  no  friendship  without  this  ;  and  if 
you  suffer  me  to  be  undone  for  ever  ;  or  I  you  ; 
how  are  we  friends  ?" 

'  There  was  near  acquaintance  between  her,  and 

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some  strict  Papists/  and  as  near  between  her,  and 
some  stricter  Non-conformists ;  and  she  not  only 
warily  avoided  the  Superstition  of  the  One,  and 
the  Nonconformity  of  the  Other,  but  also  earnestly 
laboured  to  reduce  the  One  and  the  Other  from 
their  Erroneous  ways  ;  And  not  without  happy 
Successe.  I  could  instance  in  some  (and  perhaps 
your  Ladiship  can  instance  in  more)  who  now  are 
firme  to  the  Tenets  and  Practices  of  our  Church  of 
England  whom  she  (principally)  by  her  Arguments 
and  Endeavours  gained  from  Rome  and  from 
Geneva. 

'  But  for  improving  her  nearer  Acquaintance  it 
was  her  constant  Labour. 

'  That  counsel  which  she  gave  to  young  Mothers, 
not  to  be  fond2  of  their  Children  or  Husbands, 
came  most  properly  and  most  pathetically  from 
her.  "  Oh,  I  have  had  my  portion  (said  she)  of 
these  very  comforts,  with  the  first ;  no  one  woman 
more ;  but  there  is  no  lasting  nor  true  pleasure  in 
them  :  There  is  no  real  comfort  from  any  espousals, 
but  from  those  to  Christ ;"  this  (I  say)  came  most 

1  Her  husband's  mother  and  sisters  and  brother  had  all 
become  Roman  Catholics.  They  stayed  some  time  at  Great 
Tew. 

3  Fond  =  excessively  affectionate,  or  foolishly  loving.  In 
theology,  '  inordinate  affection/ 


LOVE  OF  THE  PSALMS  91 


fitly  from  her,  here  she  had  tripped  once,  and  again, 
and  now  she  fore-warns  others  of  the  dangers,  lest 
they  should  stumble  at  it. 

'  The  benefit  she  had  received  from  her  child- 
hood, by  pious  and  learned  Divines,  makes  her 
solicitous  to  provide  such  for  her  neighbours  ;  and 
til  they  were  acquainted  (as  wel  as  she)  with  the 
conversations  of  the  people,  she  would,  some  way 
or  other,  hint  unto  them,  what  virtues  it  would  be 
proper  to  commend  in  their  Sermons,  and  Dis- 
courses to  the  Parish  ;  and  for  catechizing  the 
young,  and  for  visiting  the  sick,  she  her  self  took 
a  special  regard,  as  if  the  cure  had  depended  more 
upon  the  Patroness,  then  upon  her  Clerk. 

'  And  the  remembrance  of  those  heavenly  com- 
forts, she  frequently  had,  while  she  played  upon 
David's  harp,  set  her  on  to  commend  those  Psalms, 
for  daily  and  howrly  devotions  to  all. 

'  Yet  some  discord  she  found  of  late,  even  from 
that  harp  ;  observing  such  Psalms  of  David,  where- 
in he  (by  his  Prophetical  spirit,  or  in  zeal  for  divine 
justice,  upon  the  publick  enemies  of  God)  pro- 
nounces curses,  spitefully  picked  out  and  malici- 
ously applyed,  both  in  private  families,  and  publick 
Congregations  to  our  own  enemies  ;  This  she  often 
lamented  as  a  most  notorious  profanation  of  the 

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92  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

holy  Book  of  Psalms,  and  as  an  evident  breach  of 
charity  :  "  Oh,  that  sweetest  harp  sounds  most 
harshly,  unless  it  be  touched  with  pure  hands, 
without  wrath  :  Therefore  (said  she)  the  people 
must  be  often  warned  (in  these  days  of  contention 
and  opposition)  to  sing  David's  Psalms  with  David's 
spirit :  And  when  cursing  of  enemies  came  in,  to 
reflect  (as  David  oft  did)  upon  the  lusts  and  cor- 
ruption of  our  hearts ;  and  then  the  109  Psalm  (a 
common  curse  among  the  Hebrews)  be  upon  these 
our  vilest  enemies,  and  most  deadly  foes,  little 
enough/1 

'  Neither  was  her  care  of  improving  others  con- 
fined to  the  present  age ;  designs  and  projects  she 
had  also  for  posterity  ;  for  setting  up  schools,  and 
manufacture  trades  in  the  Parish  ;  to  shut  out  (by 
those  engines)  for  ever,  ignorance,  idleness,  and 
want. 

'  But  that  magnificent,  and  most  religious  con- 
trivement,  that  there  might  be  places  for  the  educa- 
tion of  young  Gentlewomen,  and  for  retirement  of 
Widows  (as  Colleges  and  the  Inns  of  Court  and 
Chancery  are  for  men),  in  several  parts  of  the  King- 
dom, This,  was  much  in  her  thoughts ;  hoping 
therby  that  learning  and  religion  might  flourish 
more  in  her  own  Sex,  then  heretofore,  having  such 


HER  ABANDONED  PROJECT  93 

opportunities  to  serve  the  Lord,  without  distrac- 
tion :  A  project  this  adequate  to  the  wisdom,  and 
piety,  of  this  Mother  in  Israel ;  and  not  beyond 
the  power,  and  interest,  she  had  with  great  ones, 
to  have  effected  it. 

'  But  these  evil  times  disabled  her  quite,  and 
discouraged  her  somwhat,  from  attempting  much, 
in  these  her  designs,  she  returns  therfore  to  im- 
prove her  self  with  the  greatest  vigor  ;  If  her  virtue 
cannot  shine  out  over  all  the  Kingdome,  it  shall 
shine  and  burn  so  much  the  more  within  her  own 
soul ;  and  now  she  grows  so  strict  to  her  self,  and 
so  severe  in  examining  her  own  heart,  that,  with 
holy  Job,  she  fears  all  her  workes.  She  had  always 
a  tender  conscience  ;  but  now  that  exceeds  too,  in 
quickness,  and  tenderness  ;  and  this  holy  fear  began 
at  last  to  breed  in  her  many  doubtings  and  scruples. 

Extract  from  Letter  n. 

'  Though  in  matters  of  faith  (I  bless  God)  I  waver 
not,  yet  in  matters  of  fact,  both  divine  and  civil, 
spiritual  and  temporal,  many  doubts  and  scruples 
(I  know  not  what  to  call  them)  arise  in  me  daily. 
.  .  .  Now,  Sir,  if  these  motions  be  from  the  Spirit 
of  God  in  me,  I  must  hearken  what  the  Lord  God 
saith  to  my  soul ;  at  my  utmost  peril  it  is,  if  I  re- 
ceive not  and  cherish  not  these  motions ;  and  if 
they  be  doubts  I  raise  of  myself,  they  are  not  to  be 


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neglected,  there  is  danger  (my  books  tell  me)  in 
that ;  but  if  they  be  scruples,  heeding  them  is 
danger,  so  there  is  danger  on  every  side/ 

The  Chaplain  answered  : 

'  I  much  commend  that  universal  care  you  have 
of  all  your  ways.  ...  If  we  ...  performed  all  we 
ought  as  well  as  God's  grace  did, then  enable  us, 
yet  are  we  unprofitable  servants^  and  thereupon 
the  Apostle  chargeth  us  to  pass  all  the  time  of  our 
sojourning  here  in  fear.  This  fear  will  advance  our 
awe  and  reverence  to  God ;  it  will  quicken  us  in 
His  service,  and  make  us  more  diligent ;  and  it 
will  truly  humble  us  in  and  after  all  our  perform- 
ances. 

'  And  yet  I  must  tell  you,  this  fear  is  very  prone 
to  be  extravagant,  and  to  run  out  into  vain  doubts 
and  scruples  ;  and  our  task  is  to  keep  it  and  to 
moderate  it ;  not  to  cast  it  off,  nor  yet  to  let  it  run 
out.  If  we  keep  this  fear  within  its  bounds  and 
due  limits,  it  will  bring  forth  these  effects  of  rever- 
ence and  diligence  and  humility/ 

1  And  in  these  doubtings  and  fears,  she  seldom 
trusted  her  own  judgement,  but  advised  with 
learned  Divines  ;  and  when  she  met  with  anyone 
of  learning  and  piety,  she  proposes  her  Cases,  and 
seeks  Resolves. 

'  And  upon  these  fears  she  would  dispute  against 
her  self  very  sharply ;  scarce  omitting  any  objec- 
tion material,  nor  accepting  any  answer,  which  was 
not  fully  satisfactory  ;  and  when  she  was  once 


DOUBTS  AND  SCRUPLES  95 

clearly  resolved,  she  cheerfully  submitted,  and 
ordered  her  future  practice  accordingly. 

'  And  it  is  very  observable,  how  this  holy  fear 
(as  her  other  virtues),  extended  it  self  also,  not  only 
to  greater  matters,  but  also  to  lesser,  almost  to  all : 
such  was  her  love  to  God,  and  her  reverential  awe 
of  His  Majesty,  that  she  feared  to  offend  him,  in 
the  least  particular  :  "  If  it  be  but  a  mote,  may  it 
not  grow  (said  she)  to  a  beam  in  mine  eye  ?" 

'  And  such  zealous  Anxieties,  as  these,  such  holy 
fears  of  displeasing  God  in  any,  the  least  thing,  are 
strong  arguments  of  most  ardent  love  to  God  ;  and 
of  most  passionate  desires  to  please  him  ;  oh  how 
greedily  did  she  aspire  after  perfection,  while  she 
thus  solicitously  fears  the  least  imperfection ! 

'  And  if  some  of  these  Scruples  proceeded  from 
Her  own  Carnal  Reason,  or  from  Satan  (to  disquiet 
and  DisturbeHer),yet  even  that  Poyson,she  turned 
into  Honey,  taking  Occasion  from  those  very 
Scruples,  to  be  more  exact  afterward  in  her  Life. 

1  And  now  in  the  very  last  stage  of  her  Christian 
race,  she  growes  so  exact,  that  all  time  seems 
tedious  to  her,  which  tends  not  to  Heaven ;  and 
thereupon  she  now  resolves,  to  get  loose  from  the 
multitude  of  her  worldly  employments ;  and  pro- 
vides to  remove  from  her  stately  mansion,  to  a 


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little  house  neer  adjoyning  ;  and  in  that  house  and 
garden,  with  a  book,  and  a  wheel,  and  a  maid  or 
two,  to  retire  her  self  from  worldly  businesse,  and 
unnecessary  visits,  and  so  spend  her  whole  time  ; 
and  she  took  as  great  delight  in  projecting  this 
humiliation  and  privacy,  as  others  do,  in  being 
advanced  to  publick  honours,  and  state  employ- 
ments. 

'  Now  towards  the  end  of  her  race,  all  her 
strength  seems  weakness,  and  her  quickest  speed 
seems  slothfulness ;  Therefore  at  Christmas  last, 
she  prepared  to  be  at  the  holy  Communion,  with 
the  first ;  and  after  that,  her  soul  stil  wanting  the 
strength  and  vigor  it  aimed  at,  she  thinks  of  com- 
ing with  the  last  too,  the  next  Lord's  day  :  But  he, 
who  hath  let,  will  let ;  for  that  very  morning  she 
had  a  very  sore  conflict,  and  great  anguish  in 
spirit :  one  while  her  unworthiness,  another  while 
her  dulness,  and  driness  deterred  her  from  ap- 
proaching to  the  holy  Sacrament ;  and  then  the 
singularity  and  unaccustomedness  of  receiving  so 
often,  disswaded  her ;  after  an  hour  or  two,  some 
reason  she  found  to  presume  this  might  be  from 
the  Devil,  her  grand  enemy ;  (who  was  unwilling 
that  the  Castle  which  he  now  besieged,  should  be 
double-walled  against  him)  and  thereupon  she  con- 


A  STORM  OF  TEMPTATION  97 

tinues  resolution,  and  came  to  the  blessed  Sacra- 
ment, that  second  day  also,  and  received  with  it 
much  comfort  and  peace. 

'  And  not  many  days  after,  the  Devil  brought 
his  strongest  batteries,  and  laboured  to  take  this 
castle  by  storm  ;  Temptations  again  she  had,  and 
those  vehement  and  fierce,  to  suspect  her  whole 
course  of  life,  as  so  full  of  weakness  at  best,  and 
oftentimes  so  full  of  gross  corruptions ;  Her  faith 
so  weak,  her  repentance  so  faint,  that  God  would 
not  accept  of  her :  But  her  shield  of  Faith  in 
Christ's  merits,  soon  repelled  these  darts,  and  her 
wonted  Sanctuary  of  prayer  secured  her  presently 
from  this  storm  of  temptation. 

Compare  the  chaplain's  answer  to  Letter  7  : 
'  Whether  you  should  take  part  with  Fear  or 
Hope,  you  yourself  must  resolve  ;  yet  somewhat  I 
shall  say,  concerning  the  fears  which  arise  in  you, 
that  you  are  not  justified  before  God  nor  recon- 
ciled to  Him. 

'  It  is  good  to  fear  alway ;  it  keeps  us  low,  lest 
pride  enter  ;  and  it  keeps  us  active,  lest  sloth  seize 
upon  us ;  and  so  we  humbly  labour  to  make  our 
Calling  and  Election  sure ;  and  when  I  sadly  con- 
sider how  many  miscarry  through  Spiritual  se- 
curity, not  at  all  suffering  themselves  to  mistrust 
their  condition  towards  God,  I  am  not  forward  to 
cast  out  fear  :  Yet  there  is  torment  in  fear,  and  a 

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firm  hope  well  grounded  (if  it  ejects  not  fear  itself) 
will  wholly  allay  the  torment  of  it. 

'  Whether  your  Faith  and  Repentance  were  as 
they  ought  to  be,  is  between  God  and  your  own 
soul ;  but  if  your  faith  were  lively,  with  love  and 
trust  in  God,  and  your  repentance  unfeigned,  assure 
yourself  it  was  no  other  Spirit  but  the  Holy  Spirit 
of  God  (Who  can  neither  deceive  nor  be  deceived) 
Who  said  unto  your  soul,  Christus  est  justitia  tua, 
et  salus  tua;  Christ  is  thy  justification  and  thy 
salvation/ 

'And  in  peace  and  tranquillity  of  mind,  her  piety, 
and  zeal  of  Justice,  hurry  her  to  London  (in  the 
bitterest  season  of  this  winter)  to  take  order  for 
the  discharge  of  some  engagements  :  this  she  knew 
was  her  duty,  and  that  she  her  self  should  take 
that  journey,  was  conceived  the  necessary  means 
to  performe  that  duty,  and  therefore  she  ventures 
upon  it,  and  leaves  the  success  to  God. 

'  There,  at  London,  she  strengthens  her  self  yet 
more,  for  the  final  period  of  her  race,  by  receiving 
the  holy  Sacrament  again :  But  alas,  Madam, 
Though  her  inward  strength  encreases,  her  out- 
ward strength  decays,  and  her  weak  consumptive 
body,  by  a  cold  there  taken,  grows  weaker  :  yet 
thence  she  came  homeward,  and  at  Oxford,  her 
cough  and  cold  very  much  encreasing,  she  with 
most  earnest  prayers,  and  holy  meditations  (which 


ILLNESS  AT  OXFORD  99 

a  pious  and  learned  Divine  suggested  to  her)  pre- 
pares her  self  for  death. 

'  After  a  while,  they,  who  were  about  her,  fearing 
the  pangs  of  death  to  be  upon  her,  began  to  weep 
and  lament ;  the  whole  company  grew  sad  and 
heavy  ;  she  only  continued  in  her  former  condition, 
not  at  all  sorrowful,  nor  affrighted  by  these  mes- 
sengers of  death  :  Then  the  Physitian  comming, 
and  upon  consideration,  saying,  "  Here  is  no  signe 
of  death,  nor  of  much  danger  ;  by  Gods  help  she 
may  recover  again  ;"  the  whole  company  was  very 
much  comforted  and  cheared ;  she  only  in  her 
former  indifferency  ;  no  alteration  at  all  could  be 
perceived  in  her,  as  if  she  had  been  the  only  party 
in  the  chamber,  unconcerned  in  it ;  neither  fear  of 
death  could  grieve,  nor  trouble  her,  nor  hopes  of 
life  and  health  rejoyce  her ;  "  I  have  wholly  re- 
signed up  my  self  to  God  (said  she)  and  not  mine 
but  His  will  be  done ;  whether  in  life  or  death  :" 
She  was  not  afraid  to  live,  and  still  endure  the 
miseries  of  this  life  (and  ever  and  anon  encounter 
with  Satan  too)  because  she  had  a  powerfull  God 
able  to  uphold  her  :  nor  yet  afraid  to  die,  and  ap- 
pear at  Gods  Judgement  seat,  because  she  had  a 
merciful  Redeemer,  willing  to  save  her. 

'  They  who  write  of  perfection,  account  it  an 

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ioo  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

high  degree,  to  have  Vitam  in  patientia  et  mortem 
in  voto,  to  be  content  to  live,  but  desirous  to  die  ; 
yet  surely,  this  here,  In  aequilibrio  ad  vitam  et  ad 
mortem,  to  be  wholly  indifferent,  and  to  be  most 
equally  inclined  to  either,  to  desire  nothing,  to  fear 
nothing,  but  wholly  to  resigne  our  selves  to  God, 
accounting  that  to  be  the  best  (whatsoever  it  is) 
which  He  pleases  to  send,  This,  this  is  to  be  a 
strong  man  in  Christ  ;T  And  this  in  our  most  pious 
Lady,  was  a  very  neer  approach  unto  perfection. 

'  It  was  related  for  a  very  great  virtue  in  S. 
Cyprian,  that,  Maluit  obsequi  praeceptis  Christi, 
quam  vel  sic  coronari,  He  had  rather  live  and  obey 
God,  then  die  and  reign  in  glory  :  But  this,  to  have 
no  propension  at  all,  more  to  one,  then  to  the  other, 
to  be  wholly  indifferent,  to  work  on  still  in  God's 
Vineyard,  or  to  be  called  up  to  Heaven,  to  receive 
pay,  this  may  be  a  greater  virtue. 

Compare  the  chaplain's  reply  to  Letter  10  : 

'  I  do  truly  sympathize  with  you,  and  rejoice  for 

the  return  and  increase  of  your  joys  ;  now  you  see 

how  good  and  gracious  the  Lord  is  to  all  them 

that  call  upon  Him,  and  wait  upon  Him  patiently, 

1  Compare  '  Manchester  al  Mondo '  (published  1638-1639  ) : 
'  It  is  a  good  mind  in  a  man,  to  be  content  to  dye,  and  willing 
to  live  :  But  to  be  willing  to  dye  and  content  to  live,  is  the 
mind  of  a  strong  Christian.'  (Henry  Montague). 


HER  PERFECT  RESIGNATION        101 


according  to  His  promise  by  the  Prophet,  Isaiah 
54.  7.  With  great  mercies  will  I  visit  thee  again, 
though  for  a  small  moment  I  have  forsaken  thee. 

'  Your  afflictions  were  like  Job's,  in  body,  in 
estate,  and  in  your  friends,  and  in  the  barrenness 
of  your  spirit,  and  in  the  terrors  of  your  soul ;  and 
your  deliverance  is  like  his  also  (in  these  spiritual 
things)  :  and  as  he  did,  so  you  have  already  re- 
ceived double  for  all  your  losses ;  for  a  cup  of 
affliction,  vessels  of  joy ;  for  disconsolate  days, 
months  of  great  delight  and  comfort. 

'  Continue,  I  pray,  your  indifferency  to  abund- 
ance or  want ;  Let  not  the  height  of  your  joys  puff 
you  up,  nor  the  depth  of  desertion  cast  you  down  ; 
or  any  condition  dishearten  you  in  the  service  of 
God  ;  Learn  to  be  as  well  content  to  be  with  Christ 
on  Mount  Calvary,  sorely  suffering,  as  on  Mount 
Tabor,  full  of  joy  and  comfort ;  And  as  heretofore 
Christ  was  your  only  hope  in  your  barrenness  and 
sorrow,  so  let  Him  be  your  Rock  and  your  Castle 
still,  and  rejoice  not  so  much  in  your  Consolations, 
as  in  Him  Who  is  the  only  true  joy  and  comfort 
for  ever/ 

'And  this  perfect  indifference  to  do,  or  suffer 
Gods  will,  in  life,  or  death,  appearing  in  this 
servant  of  God,  was  such  an  act  of  self-denial, 
which  they,  who  observed  it,  in  her,  could  not  but 
set  a  special  character  upon,  most  worthy  to  be 
commended  to  your  Ladyship. 

'  Thus  she  was  brought  from  Oxford,  home,  and 


102  BIOGRAPHICAL  LETTER 

now  being  far  spent,  and  near  her  end,  she  could 
speak  little,  yet  expressed  a  great  deal  of  thank- 
fulnesse  to  God,  who  had  brought  her  safe,  to  die 
in  her  own  house,  among  her  dearest  Friends. 

'  And  there  she  showed  those  friends  a  rare  pat- 
tern of  patience  in  the  extremity  of  her  sickness. 

'  But  the  tranquillity  of  mind,  which  she  had  in 
these  her  last  daies,  was  most  observable  ;  that  the 
Devil,  who  had  so  often  perplexed  her,  with  violent 
temptations,  should  now  leave  her  to  rest  and  ease  : 
she  was  wont  to  fear  his  most  violent  assaults  on 
her  deathbed  (as  his  practice  commonly  is),  but 
now  God  (it  seems)  had  chained  him  up,  and  en- 
abled her  (by  his  grace)  to  tread  Satan  under  her 
feet :  not  a  word  of  complaint,  nor  the  least  dis- 
turbance, or  disquiet,  to  be  perceived  by  her,  which 
is  a  sufficient  argument  to  us  (who  know  how  open 
a  breast  she  had,  to  reveal  anything  in  that  kind, 
especially  to  Divines,  whereof  she  had  now  store 
about  her)  of  her  exceeding  great  quietness,  and 
peace  :  and  this  tranquillity  of  mind,  more  clearly 
now  appearing  at  her  death,  then  ordinarily  in  the 
time  of  her  health,  is  a  great  evidence,  to  me,  of 
God's  most  tender  mercy  and  love  towards  her,  and 
of  some  good  assurance,  in  her,  of  her  salvation. 

'  This  quiet  gave  her  leave,  though  now  very 


SO  SHE  VANISHED  FROM  US  '      103 


faint  and  weak,  to  be  most  vigorous,  and  most 
instant  at  prayers ;  she  calls  for  other  help,  very 
faintly ;  but  for  praiers,  most  heartily  and  often 
(in  those  few  hours  she  lived  at  home),  and  after 
the  office  of  the  Morning  was  performed,  she  gave 
strict  charge,  that  every  one  of  her  family  (who 
could  be  spared  from  her)  should  go  to  Church  and 
pray  for  her ;  and  then  in  a  word  of  exhortation 
to  them,  who  stayed  by  her,  saying,  "  Fear  God, 
fear  God/'  she  most  sweetly  spent  her  last  breath  ; 
and  so  most  comfortably  yielded  up  her  spirit  to 
him  who  made  it :  and  was  (we  doubt  not)  admitted 
into  Heaven,  into  the  number  of  the  Apostles  and 
Saints  of  God  (on  S.  Matthias  day)  there  to  reign 
in  the  glory  of  God  for  evermore. 

'  In  which  moment  of  her  death,  there  seemed 
as  little  outward  pain,  as  inward  conflict ;  none 
could  perceive  either  twich,  or  groan,  or  gasp,  or 
sigh,  onely  her  spirits  failed ;  and  so  she  vanished 
from  us,  as  if  God  had  intended  her  here,  some 
foretast,  not  onely  of  the  rest  of  the  soul,  but  also 
of  the  ease  of  the  body,  which  she  should  enjoy 
hereafter  in  Heaven. 

'  Thus  in  her  youth,  she  was  soon  perfected,  and 
in  a  short  time  of  five  and  thirty  years,  she  ful- 
filled a  long  time. 


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'  And  having  in  a  most  acceptable  manner  prac- 
tised the  duties  of  our  most  blessed  Saviors  Ser- 
mon, she  is  now  (we  firmly  believe)  partaker  of  the 
blessedness  too  of  that  Sermon  ;  through  Christs 
mercy,  she  hath  obtained  mercy,  and  enjoyes  the 
vision  of  God,  in  the  Kingdome  of  Heaven,  where 
she  is  most  fully  satisfied  with  delight,  and  com- 
fort, and  joy. 

'  There  were  these,  and  many  other  virtues  your 
Ladyship  knows,  observable  in  this  your  most 
pious  Daughter ;  but  I  pretend  not  to  relate  all, 
many  I  omit,  because  common  to  all  the  servants 
of  God,  and  many  other  excellencies  also  there  were 
in  her  (I  doubt  not)  which  she  concealed  from  her 
nearest  friends  ;  and  indeed,  many  of  these,  I  have 
named,  she  endeavoured  studiously  to  conceal  from 
us,  but  now,  and  then,  unawares,  she  discovered 
them,  and  so  I  came  acquainted  with  them. 

'  And  now,  Madam,  you  have  observed,  that 
the  growth  of  grace,  which  was  most  evident  and 
apparent  in  her,  especially  these  late  years  (as  of 
corn  from  a  blade  to  an  ear,  then  to  a  blossome, 
and  thence  towards  full  maturity  and  ripenesse), 
was  most  of  all  promoted,  by  the  afflictions,  which 
God  sent  upon  her  ;  the  loss  of  her  dearest  friends, 
and  other  troubles,  were  as  a  shower  of  rain,  to  a 


A  «  LADDER  OF  PERFECTION  '       105 

crop  of  corn,  on  a  dry  ground  ;  an  evident  benefit, 
and  a  present  improvement  by  it. 

'  And  was  there  not  then  somewhat  extraordi- 
nary in  that  dream  of  hers,  soon  after  her  Sons 
death  ?  wherein  she  being  much  troubled  for  that 
loss,  a  ladder  presently  appeared,  reaching  (with 
that  Ladder  in  Jacob's  dream)  from  earth  to 
heaven ;  after  the  death  of  her  Son,  every  one  of 
us  could  sensibly  perceive  her  climbing  up  higher, 
and  higher  every  day,  in  piety,  and  holiness,  till 
God  exalted  her,  to  the  top  of  Jacob's  ladder,  the 
height  of  glory  in  heaven. 

'  So  may  it  be  with  every  one,  who  suffers  in- 
ward, or  outward  affliction. 

'  And  now,  though  all  this  while,  I  have  been 
comforting  your  Ladyship,  and  wiping  the  tears 
from  your  eyes,  yet  I  have  deteined  you  too  long 
(I  fear)  from  improving  this  affliction  sent  upon 
you  (the  loss  of  your  dearest  child)  with  that  hast 
and  greediness  you  desired,  to  your  spiritual  bene- 
fit :  I  shall  help  you  what  I  can  hereafter,  by 
begging  in  my  praiers  the  strengthening,  and  estab- 
lishing grace  of  God,  for  you,  to  bring  store  of 
heavenly  comfort  into  your  soul,  from  this  your 
present  sorrow. 

'  And  for  the  further  satisfaction  of  those  to 

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whom  you  shall  please  to  communicate  this  rela- 
tion, I  have  prefixed  a  discourse  (by  way  of  Letters 
too)  wherein  much  of  a  Character  of  this  your 
Daughter  is  conteined ;  It  was  composed  for  her, 
and  delivered  to  her,  and  left  among  her  Papers 
(and  though  upon  the  transcribing  of  the  Letters  I 
have  altered  and  added  somewhat,  yet  that  was 
according  to  her  desire  and  the  directions  I  re- 
ceived from  herself  after  her  perusall  of  them)  ; 
and  your  Ladyship  will  quickly  discern,  that  many 
of  the  objections,  and  of  the  answers  too,  came 
from  her  own  self,  and  therefore  proper  enough,  to 
be  joyned  with  this  relation  of  her  Life.  That 
herein  I  may  promote  the  service  of  our  gracious 
Lord,  and  comfort  you,  or  any  other  of  His  true 
servants,  is  the  utmost  drift,  and  most  earnest 
prayer,  of  him,  who  is 

'  Your  servant  in  Christ  Jesus, 

'I.  D. 

'  April  15,  1647.' 


INDEX 


ARMINIAN  standpoint,  4 
Aubrey,  John,  18 
Autobiography,    Lord    Claren- 
don's, 2 

Beatitudes,  46 

Biography,   i,   2,   3,   4,    7,   24, 

31 
Burford  Priory,  28 

Cambridge,  39 
Gary,  Sir  Henry,  14,  39 
Lettice.     See  Falkland 
Lucius.     See  Falkland 
Lucius  (son),  18,  85 
Lorenzo,  18,  63,  65,  68,  77, 

8$,  105 

Henry,  18,  85 

Cathedral,  Christchurch,  57 
Characters,  2,  10-12,  106 
Charles  I.,  n,  29 
Children,  85 

Chillingworth,  Dr.  William,  45 
Clarendon,  Lord,  2,  4 
Compassion,  80 
Consolations,  theory  of  spirit- 
ual and  sensible,  16,  17  ;  joy 
in  sensible,  42  ;  decrease  of 
sensible,     17,     19  ;     loss     of 
sensible,     21,    43,    45,    64; 
return  of  spiritual  and  sen- 


sible,   23,    70,    71,    100  ;   in- 
difference   to    sensible,    66, 
101  ;  danger  of  sensible,  84 
Court,  1 6 

David's  harp,  38,  91,  92 
Desertion,  20,  22,  23,  65 
Devotion,  true,  65 
Disinterested  love,  22,  65 
Divines,  45,  77,  81,  91,  94,  98, 

99,  102 

Donne,  Dr.  John,  2,  3,  8 
Dream,  Lady  Falkland's,  105 
Duncon,  Dr.  John,  history  of, 
5,  6  ;  thought  and  style  of,  7, 
8  ;  his  preface,  9  ;  theory  of 
consolations,  16,  17  ;  counsel 
in  desertion,  65  ;  his  keynote 
joy,  31  ;  his  scheme  of  bio- 
graphy, 1 8 

Duncon,  Edmund,  27 
Dr.  Eleazar,  27,  45 

Earle,  Bishop,  n,  45 
Eikon  Basilike,  11,12 
Elegy,  1-5,  39  ;  quoted,  5,  13 
Essex,  6,  12 
Euphues,  ii 


Falkland,   Lady,  memorial  of, 
2 ;    appreciations    of,    4,    5  ; 


107 


4—2 


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INDEX 


part  in  letters,  10  ;  mysti- 
cism, 12,  13,  30  ;  early  life, 
13,  34-38  ;  marriage,  13,  39  ; 
prosperity,  40  ;  beginning  of 
her  sorrows,  14,  43  ;  widow- 
hood, 15,  43  ;  models  her  life 
on  the  Sermon  on  the  Mount, 
1 8,  46  ;  loses  her  son,  18,  63  ; 
her  grief,  64-66,  69  ;  return 
of  her  spiritual  joy,  70  ;  re- 
solves on  further  mortifica- 
tion, 72  ;  of  worldly  pomp, 
72  ;  of  anger,  73  ;  of  speech, 
73-75  ;  of  appetites,  75  ;  of 
affections,  75,  76  ;  of  will  and 
understanding,  76-78  ;  her 
sanctification  and  increase  of 
former  virtues,  78-89  ;  care 
for  improvement  of  others, 
89 ;  philanthropic  schemes, 
92,  93  ;  strict  self-discipline, 
93  ;  doubts  and  scruples,  93- 
95  ;  plan  of  retirement,  96  ; 
her  last  Christmas,  96,  97  ; 
journey  to  London,  98 ;  illness 
at  Oxford,  98  ;  resignation, 
99-101  ;  returns  home,  101  ; 
death,  103 

Falkland,  Lord,  writes  elegy,  2, 
4  ;  character  of,  by  Claren- 
don, 2  ;  Life,  by  Teale,  3  ; 
marriage,  13,  14,  39  ;  political 
duties,  14  ;  distress  for  Civil 
War,  14,  15  ;  death  at  New- 
bury,  14,  43 

Fasting,  59,  60,  75 

Featlie,  Dr.,  8 

Ferrar,  Nicholas,  8,  17,  28 

Foxe's  "Book  of  Martyrs,"  i, 
86 

Francis  de  Sales,  St.,  16, 
65 

Gauden,  Bishop,  n,  12 
Gidding,  Little,  17,  27-29 


Hammond,  Dr.,  45 
Herbert,  George,  8,  27 
History,  delight  in,  17,  76 
Humility,  77,  83 
Hunger  and  thirst  after  right- 
eousness, 53,  80 

Jonson,  Ben,  1-4,  39 
Julian  of  Norwich,  23 
Justice,  81,  98 

King    Charles   I.,    n,    29,    55, 

89 
Knevit,  Lady,  86,  87 

Laud,  8 

Leicestershire,  13 
Lenthall,  28 
London,  26,  48,  61 
Lyly,  u 

"  Manchester  al  Mondo,"  100 
Manor,  Great  Tew,  7,  27 
Maplet,  85 

Marshall,  William,  29 
Mayne,  Jaspar,  4,  13,  45 
Meditation,  25,  87,  98 
Meekness,  51,  53,  79 
Mercifulness,  46-51,  79 
Microcosm,  n 
Montague,  Henry,  100 
Morison,  Henry,  39 

Lady,  6,  33 

Sir  Richard,  39 
Mortification,  72-78 
Mystics,  1 6  ;  mystical  theories, 
17,  24 

Newbury,  first  Battle  of,  15 
Nonconformists,  90 
Norwich,  17,  22 

Oratory,  36,  85 

Oxford,  48,  57,  61,  98,  101 

Oxfordshire,  33,  45 


INDEX 


109 


Patient  suffering,  53 

Peaceableness,  53 

Perfection,   desire  for,   22,  53, 

81,  95,  99,  100 

Philosophy,  delight  in,  17,  76 
Portraits,  29-31 
Poverty  of  spirit,  55,  85 
Prayer  Book,  8,  57,  86,  87 
Prisoners,  48,  49 
Psalms,  85,  91,  92 

Quarles,  29 

Rattenden,  6 

Rayne,  12 

"  Returns  of  Spiritual  Comfort 

and  Grief,"  6,  9,  15-26,  29 
Roman  Catholics,  90 
Royalist  party,  4,  14 
Royston,  Richard,  n 

Sanctification,  78-89 
Schools,  47,  92 
Scotch  campaign,  14 


Sermon  on  the  Mount,  18,  46- 
51,  57,  78,  82,  86,  88,  104 

Servants,  care  for,  58-62 ; 
humility  towards,  83 

Severals,  60 

Simmonds,  Edward,  12 

Sutlers,  8 1,  82 

Swannington,  17 

Tanfield,  Lord,  28 

Teale,  W.  H.,  3,  60 

Teresa,  St.,  17 

Tew,  Great,  6,  7,  15,  26,  27,  33, 

47 

Tooley  Park,  39 
Triplet,  Dr.,  45 

Valdes,  17 

Walter,  R.,  4,  5 
Walton,  Izaak,  2,  8 
War,  Civil,  14,  15 
Wood,  Anthony  a,  3 
Woodhead,  A.,  17 


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