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FOUNOeO lY TMI COUNCll Of JEWS FIOM OElMANT
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20, Feoroar 1962
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Dr. M, Kreutzberg-er,
Leo Baeck Institute, Inc.
129 Kaat 73rd Street,
New York 21. K.Y,
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Lieber Krcutzber^er,
leider Koace inh erst heute dazu, Ihren Brief vorn 26.1,62 zu beantworten. In
aen riaecnsteri Ta£:en senden wir Ihnen eine Abachrift der Krinneruru'en von Krau
Else Berf:inanri >:eb.Fanta (der ersten Frau von Hupo Berfjman)^ muesaen fiber hus-
aruecklich betbhen, dass diese Abachrift unter Keinen Umstaenden zur Veroef- y
fentiich'jn^ in irgena einer Form DertinLit seir. darf . Wir naben von Frau Berf^inh\^
noch nicht einmal die Erlaubnis, aiese Erinnenmgen Ihn^n zu ueberrcitteln, aber- —
icn t'^'-^t>e, dass ich oazu berechti^t bin, nachdem wir mit ihrer Zustimmnn^
seinerzeit Absc^iriften her^stellt hiaben. Die Fraje einer evfntuellen Veroef- J)
f^intlichoTi^ stand bei uns schon einmal zur DiaknEsion. Es hatten aich aber von
alien Seiten so vie] Zweifel erf-eben und 3chwierit;keiten herausgestellt , dass
wir dieae Fra^'e nicht noch einmal aufnehmen wollen.
Wie IT. nur iTjner wieder betonen k.ann, bin ich an der Brocn-Broarruere von
Erich Kanler auaaerordentlich intereasiert. Lc-iQer bin ich in Fol^ Aroeitsueber-
lastung (dap BlumenJela-Buch ist ins Man'iskript fertif: und zujr SatL an aie DVA
^'e-Tir^n; noch nicht dazu ^kornnen, aen neuen Band "Die unbeicannte Groense" zu
lesen una durchzuarbeiten. Wann kann man in aen Besitz aer broschuere oder
weni^jstens der Umbruchfahnen kommen ?
Auf die schon lan^ versprochene Photokopie der Einleitun^; von Natorp z'jdd Nachlass
von Lipiner freue ich mich senr,
Fuer heute mit vi^-len herzlichen '^rraeasen
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Srli,n.rui.^^n eu«« u^d Toiler r,c'imer««n -
Bin Ich d^s WlrkilcU«? Oder Jiii- ^n
Wl« •iii« Btthne «ln. una ^us-.r^uat
Und wilder auf jeetalit?
W doch so w.Xt«nfern una walt«nfr««d
Und so bin .ch mir a.lb«r .uwh una .ch^
a«dtnk Ich aieiner Ll«b«ii
2)1# drub«ni hoff» l<*h < i^.« v ^v„
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Sin aott^elUMt vrVmitc wr lalt ••iii«B Fr^uad^a
8«iatfi T«ili0 dM tautM4Jalirl««a Braielitiai.
Hit dl«sga Si«g«l ia AfiUlts blst du a«lal
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"Das X««b#4i «i#Xi ang«v«iid«t vard^a^ im aa daa grosaa Zial»
daa l«a«r vlnut daa uaa Jo«tlia gawi«a«B hmt§ aa Icomaat
ua «ia tau4i;lieliaa lah au rollaadctt* naeli d«a Geaata*
vaiiAC^Ii da awittrttaa**
(sail Ludwig)
So¥aId iah it«ia«r ••ibat baauast «urda# mm aar aagaflilir ia
meXumt dr«ii>aigat«a Jatott bis dalila aar l^ laB«r aateataaaaci aad
uabavuaat arlabaad g«bliabaa# atlag la air awt a«daalca aaft daa
Bataal aalzias Lubanat daa la aalD^ir TdilkOMiaaaa Uabifralfilalikalt
Tor air ataiid* Tltlialebit ula «(iiil^ta la lufttat w^nn leli dar Ja-
actULelita aalaar Yit vlturBf dar Tra^ar aaluaa BXutas naehglnga*
leh war ubaraaugt* daaa daa Blut • d&a in aalnaa Adera fliaaatt
aioh arlnaam auaatat vaa aa in 3eat«i^It diaaar Yorfahr an arlabt
halt daaa aa air laiobt vardan a^aatat ihra Gaaohiehta aa araililaAa
wana nur aaiaa ?ahi,$kait hinr'^lehtaf ua diaaa Stit^a daa Blataat
diaaa KaXodiat dlaaa Sparanr4lirtt dar Ji^acblaclitar piaatiaah aa
aaehan* Sachrichtan ii ba ieH Ja laider vaalg* Brlafa alad aa gat
wim k<flna arlialtan. So auaa ioh aeboa daa acbraiba&f vaa air dlaaaa
Blut in dunklaa H&chtaat aa aias'iaan Abandaat la ariimarua^agatriiak-
tan ""agaa Torsingt. Und da leh aa iiaiatlga Kriifta und Zuaaaaaiihima
f aat gX^abat bin ieli abaraau^tt daaa diaaa Varatarbanan «lr liaifaA
vardan* Ylallalclit vardan alulga Ton itmaa akaptiach auf mala Var-
Habaa bliekan und nlcUta davaa luiltanf ▼laUalebt vardan air alalga
Taa ihnan Yan^taiidnla antgaganbringan uad nlr half aa» uaA dana a&M
Tiailalebt ela labandigaa Blld iiiraa Labana aaataada Icaanaa*
Malaa Faadlla iiat aehoa laagara 2alt la ^m Stidtahaa RaiidBlta#
Ubaohavlta und Budln gavahat. Dlaaa Sttdiab^aB bafl»4» aloli a»-
garahr In dmv Mltta sviaeHan Karlabad luUl Fvag. Maa fladat dart
aaf nll^ FrladMfaBt dia aocb dla atlawmgavallaa ftltM GratotaiM
baaltaan* dla aUa via dla daaataaatafala tt©aaa« aaaaaiMN 4la
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Untf t« h«tt« fur mleh loner «ineB eigea«Q R^ist cii«s« nua
Bchon hftlb Ter&ujik«n«n Denkmaler «u seh^n, Qeht aoch mlt dietea
•infftch«n Steinen der letzte Heat eln^r tra^lsch^n 3poch« sujrundo*
Kin ^g«Qi(fb«n d«r Ja(litch«n» btfUmlschsn :;ation nnr da» baute sleh
atbrauoh«f Sprachtt ^«rctt«f Mttbol* Sehulon und jine Jftsellsckiaftt
dl« frl^enartlg war. In lhr«r \rX l«btt dlt bdhmischt iiaturt dl«
bi>bBi8ch« Umwelt ait d«a Judischen und hebraischen Kultur iit in
•in J;uises Terb^ndt und in d«n I«Andgemeind«n» die sich TOr uag«-
f<Ahr nundert JaUr«n ^iu fluids en begntinent wnr daa Leban noch eit^an-
artiger ais in tiochbaruhiLten Prag«r Jhetto. OroBHa lelehrta iebtan
da in dan IcXeinan f:tadten» w^iltberuhmte Knbbin-n be<nu4i;tan oich init
winzi^^an '^Jatan ron L«ndrabbirit>rnt bomniecha )eii%rt« M^ivda bis weit
in uan Crientf bio ..usoinndt bis M.jiart bia Mneri^af b^jkaiint,
yurchtbara Tra:diian apieitjn sich ib untar ai^aen ba^^nutianjaan Men-
schant dia iurch dia ir^UDama Jt^Betsga mn^; harvorgar^uf^n vurdan*
j)laaa achwar^n Zit^n dea Kittcjl- Uero und der Keuzeitt aua denan
mein Oaacbla^htt wia Jadas nndaref nufjatfiucht ic^x.9 i&t !iiir nur in
sIIgaBaineB bakaimt* Jiinselochickb- la hat dna Dunk-^I der Vergaaaan-
hait Taraehlungfin. ^ain Ynt^jr bahauptata immer ku wlaaany data wir
Ton dan '*bdh]aisch«ii Brud^rQ" abatiaman. Ji sa Sekta zur Zait dar
Huaaitankriaga soil /iale Tachachan dnzujjQbracht habent sua Judaa-
Xvm tib#rsu^ahan« ua dna Haich Jot tea durch diaaa ?at aahersubringaa.
Und ua dar iTy^hrhaiti wia sia aia daania auff-iaatant naherzukoioaan*
Sin 7.w*ig dar Camilla ioll ait Rnachi ia Jnhre "au. endfuiifund-
funfBig ubar Dautsehland n-^ch Prag (tingawandart aain. Daher dar
Kant Fantat Ton l&nfnnX. Kina innera 3tina« in air ^ibt dar flypo-
thas« Ton dan bdhaiaohan Brudarn rachtt dana rail cittaa und philoao-
f
fhiacha lutere^aan vfiran in aeiner ^nailia TOn Jahar tt«i^"^so^
und charakteriatiach.
Der ?rate* Ton daa dia ?«imiliantradition barichtatt iat ela
T'hiloaoph gawaaan. Mr war in (iaa winiigea St'adtiMchan Buain dar
Ba^under einar Ladarfabrikt dia noeh in a<iinar Jugand baataad*
Stfina Bibliothek entbiait weni jat abtr aahr ^t% Buclier. Der
Diehtar Sauma, nuf aainaa "Spaxierg^ig aach 3yrakua* bagriffant
kahrta b«i iha im Jf\hT% 1802 ein. Sauaa barichtatt "In Budin*
einaa Grte» ^0 ^ilganaina Verl«i^.eeimai t zu sain aeaaiiit* traf ieh
bei daa Juaan Lasar Taussig dina kleina .> icaiiun^ ^tar Buohar an
und iiaea )i)ir vou iha» da ^r Le8k>iri^*8 i^athan ainaa ?raunda ga-
iiehan hatte» auf aan vband Knnt' a "Baweiagrund zur eiiizi^ mbg-
iichan LeHiOiiatr'^tion uber u«a I>aa<»in Jottaa" gaben. "
Daa S tzaielwark ron Jr. Jold "1)19 iaffieiudan Bohaana** antnehaa
ichf dnaa Budin 1760 aii^a kl -iua Juaanga^iaiiide hatt^i, }ilf ?axaiiian -
4^ Jtf^lan. Bi» G-nin Mnrcti cia uater liar Mrxcntbefugnia der Orafan
Sternberg und M sanburg geweaen, aeren stolza Burg auf dam Haaanbarg
bei I*ibocho*it» dap Land rioch Jetzt ©la rtolze T^uina welt baharracht
Lninr Tauceig k ufta ein Hiu a in ^udlnt abar achon Torh^r waran
Judan aortt ^ii« von dan vJrafen gazmintren wurdan» Tcirlaaaana Hauaar
zu kaufent und dia eine hebraiacba TnachrJft ait daa ITagen Larid
auf ihrer Kuhle anjabracht batten. K^«an unaarar 7aaiilia Panta»
Brill» Getrauer. ^racheinan in dieaaa G-^raaelwark und zu aain« Br-
ataunan fa.d ich auch dort Bildar ron daa Vatar a«lnaa VatarSf dar
Mutter aein'^r Vuttart Eailiat und einae Groaaonkela 31ocll« Auch
dia 7a»ili« iellnar let dort haufig arwiikint. So heiratat« tin*
Judith aellnar 1870 einea Keraana Fanta aua Ubochowlti. Xint Selaaa
wurda in "^udin bareita la Jahra 1680 arrichtat und alna 8yna«»ga
ia Baroekatll 1631. Daa Bach Laaainga war Tarborgtt ala ZaielUAt M
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da«9 lASar ifut^fi phlioaophlsohsn V.rkchr in dm Best gehabt hat.
StlAMi Toa faj3d «r les«nd* }fir sehrltb auf (il« TiaehpUtt« oUt
Krtidtt "L«icht un4 tc.iMvrsXosVt ua ftein« Trau su trostaiu IU#
^Hu dle8«8 L^ear ""auoBlg, ,jeborent Lajadamaniif ©oil roii Zeit su
Ztit V«rfoI7i:un/rR«rnhn g^haht hnben. Labat «p«rrte «!• dnon jaii»
elnfach la den Keller eln und pfle^te slo hlnje iun^aToll bis sit
v^itder norm«i wurrte. Diese Ihre wechanlndt Sxlst^rn* hut »ich fort-
gttrbt wle dlo hoh« J .Istltjlc^tit Ln«fir«. GroaiTatrjr KiWartt von den
Bpater di« ^ta« B«in wlrd. und der Kftkelsohn von Lna^r* «l«o dtr
Brudcr mein^r Ur^rossrauttar Chariott«, waren ceir uiiruUlg** ^^uschan.
Kin Bruder vom iros6Tat«r Aibtsrt, Hermann oohrt ;iehort In dl«s«
K«lh«. i*r nahia uie ^ uf «» t;iii oastb^ai^nter Zaiuiarzt In Prag« d«r
nur Iiochadel and ho-^hsto Otti&tlichkdlt behandalt« and naeh d«B ^in
Kundwaasor verblieb* w«leh«i njch rlela J^ihre in unoerer Apoth«k«
hergeatijllt wur<l« und «^U8ichIirf88llch von dem -iochaael und dtr
h ihan Jaietllcakei t gticaurt wurdt. Ich arianert l^qUp wi« atolz Ich
wart ate u-«»a -Aiuipg^^tn vor d^r \nolheke hi.a*:en. ^r ^ndeta
durch Seibatmord,
Vleles in Boln.n Tar»ciil«d9n«n abrupt.n Vsriumaruiigan ■-io«r
L«b,n.rlchtun^-,n lat w.hr.-h.inXleh auf dl^.e Ver9rbunb-,n «uruck-
zuJ-uhren. Schn un4 Schwl.^.rtochtw al...e L^ar. Jo,ciil. und
Jualth, b..oiu.t« i« K.u«l«lt« .in .inat«cicl^„ la.^Xlcha. ^.baud,.
U.fn b,fand alch aa. .,.c«rt. an L.in.n^..ehHrt. .a. tl.f und
.cb.al war. ob.n ^1. W.hnun,. una .1. y,n.t,r Mlckten h.r.u. auf
di» s'-hmal, 'ueisngasiaa, ell. ran .^ w^-w
kowlt«« T)ah«rr«eiit wird«. Kola-..!--. .
• •n kbiii^llAhan '!«-■ v «.
^•n .It.. :,,i«. .r^„..«.,fr .^.arlatf. inr -'nxa.,
^ , *iittt, da» ron alnai
*ewi.„„ 2,ub,r a,r .-^Ica.un.. ... ,,,,,,^. ^^^
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4rar« Der Dicht«r und vbent urer Caaanora loota in d^m Schlosaa
kurx« Z.'it %l8 alt^r nn una ordiiatd dort cli« Bibilothtk* und
war ciitaor t^auiiim^ii«i70il« Zaabor&rt der rieileicht di^ 3«8i« Ciiar-
iotttsna baainfladdttf* Sia war von zartar 3a&tait» aiit jrooaan
bl»uan \ugt9n« Ihr ^Jabicbt loII aim eln l.onncage&icht ^ev^aan
a iin* Ciia iiabta rsiamn. Ghrlatar.* naturlich lioffi.ungcloa9 und
achriab Jaaichte* ^'^it ^robser Hlu^abun^^ pflu^te tie Kr^uk^f
Christen und Judent ^enn si a jfam ^aran* 31 a w^r in Kaudnitz
beruhmtt man aai^ta von ihr» daas nia iurch Hand'^ufle^en Bchmcrzaa
llndarn koiiiit^* Han riaf nach ihrt un lelchter sterben zu kSuiient
wann el a dia Hand nuf dla Btirna leite* So a'^h &ie vitdia Mcnachaa
starban und daa Laban verflOLa ihr i a <sine trauriia I'al dla*
ioatha war Ihr I.iabliiij88chriftfet»filt?r und yon der >feBBiada kaimta
aia 5an£a Stucka au8w«ridlg, l>la Jlt«rn aiafar Ursrostirnuttar waran
bar':?it8 ^naz vom Juuentum entfarnt. L}ia war-sn reich» aber ^a war
aina ua^lucklicha Mha und Urr^robumuttar arsahlto mir» daas aia
Rauf- und ^rdgelazanan d^r I^lt^rn :;rlaota und d<^ia8 bia bai alaaar
Galagatih'.'it TOn ihrea Vatar Tcrprugalt wurcia» "n^im 3la ihra liuttar
Tartaldigt«« Diaua i^uttar Jualth trl^b jros&an ToilettonluxuBt
dan ihr Ifann varurtailtet aa ar «$t«ab gaisig ▼«raniu^t vart uxid
wann aia wiadar ain u^u^a Klaid wolit<« sa^^ta liiai ''GaxuK Xaar iat
ta in mainea Kaatan; ain ^cUtai kdimte m,a uarin ..u&andaiu'* Yoa
ihr ^tniamtan rarlfjnachnara » dia Urgroaamut tar Chariotta aufba-
wahrta# bia aia ihr ihra Schwlagartochtar fur Ihra Toohtar Olgat
dia dla ^au dea Dl^htara Hujo Snlua wart abbattaita. Urgroaa-
auttar Chariotta heiratata baraita 16 Jahra alt.
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Urgrosaratjr Simon :mg9l «us H«leli«iiau war «lii sohtiner* statt*
Xleh«r Umjm$ glattraslertf oo class Ihn dlt LnndXeuto oft mil Hand-
kilsssa als ?fa ror bt^jraaBtan. ^r war sin sehr ori,;lB0ll«r Jelst.
Zuwrot war or Jacklmiidi'^ in P.audnlts* daua "vtirci^j er Landwlrt in
Hsicksiiaii* JOort war tr dor ttrsto* dor eino kunstliche Diin ^m^^ tin-
fulvto* iDio Bau^rii laclit<si:i ihn -^us* Go hatte er iirj&al alo Kiss-
fold gsdiomt; als dsr Kids huran^ruchst otaiid in aom /aid ir^ss-
Milchtlg dis kufBchritt aut don hoch^^awacUaonsn iCleopf iansen: "Wir
eini kanetlich godaii^t.* ^t hatto den mdorn ""eil ieia ^«ld^8 un-
gedungt gelae&en. ' fim ^in Ariaer ^tmt hek^m .fr ^ll«8 <ra3 ^r ver-
langto* :Ur.m!il jab jr seinen le-2Sten Anzu^ wei and muesta im
schwarson Cabbatabratonra?k mfj ?eld • Ur ^roasinutter zerbrach Blch
den Kopf aarabert vrae dsr jeiatliche ne^r rat ihrem 7elde aur^htet
als sis iha von wsitim snh. r.i« hrarhte iVja dao Ksssa ?*.ufr> ^eld
und im irah«rkoriaB*fB ^^k- unt^ aie ihren Umant zxx ihr^a irstaunen and
Schrecksn in arh^ars^fn Vnsug bairn Pflujsa, Urgros^: :.u tter liebts
ihn mit vier gaiuaen Kraft ihrer biaher ao trauri^en Seols» aber b^ld
war ihr Glack yorbei* '^ war Ihr untrou una lurh 'jtwae Torochwcnds-
risch und ei« muoste aehr hart arbciten. Sio hatt* -m ihrer «^lnsn
Kand g*ina Tobogens "'irig^r ron aer ^rbeit in Troct unl va» V^iucbo-
was'^hsn in der Kalto* Ihrsn Yniji rerchrxe cic rber trotrdoK wis
oinsa H«iiligenf dsr cr nicht war. Kr war (;anz aufgcjklkrt und er-
aiihlto alt grdf Steffi ntolst dass er «ur Zoit der Achtundvi^rzi jor
""efvolution auf ei.-ur Barrlkaas wuf dor r nrlsbrucke in '^roij ititge-
lti«pft hatte. ''^or dor Henktion konnts or sich nur rsttent inc.iwi sr
aich bol ine« "^raunfis vieraehn "ago i« Keller vorotockts. In
solnsn Altor Isbto er in Trag in usn ?i inborgon (Vinohrady). Bort
srriehtsts or don sehonen zwaiturmigsn Tsapsif abor nicUt aus
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fr#ia«i^liit» osAdsrn nur ma a«insB bostgi ?round» Rabblnsr Starkf
«inen "oetwn au Yvraehaff oa • wioaor Habbinar Stark war naeh Kit-
teliung<fa ran iiflly %ag«l, gsbor^ns ^hisWrgart die os TSn ihrsa
Votsr arf*?hr«9n hnttot t»in gana groaaor loiohrtert wahrssb^lieli
«in«r der «ilorlotato« ijrasaon Judiachsn }«l«hrten ^raijs. Doktor
StarkanatslAt der Istats ^ratjor Pharmokoiogs an d«r JDoutschon Ual-
Tarsi tat i sraahittf dam Vatarf dea ibbin^r Tiiidb«rg<*r» dasa or
vib^tr ^ino beHti^iRts ?flanas in ""nlaud Boschsid wleaen volilo und
ru d«B '>abbin^r :tark jin^« I^ioaen traf er ab«r • uf aer Stisgs
an und fragto i>in auf d«r ntie^i^ riach diss^r -fl^iiias. Habbinsr
Ct^rk Bn.;t?f ihn sufort «u8 diin Kopf «^«»att uis ^t^-Iap wo dieao
Pflanzs iai ?'»ic:ud rorkooEt. Ale *r daa i^Id far li © Cyna^ogs
sa-'iaelto» fuiir **r in gnaa Oeat«rreich und Deutachland h*ruai* pis
kleino F iaotagchsf dio «r dimalii rsithatt '# mit grosson Blunon
puf Fanraa toe der Urgrouaimit t#r ^entiekt* aeii^tt 5r mir oirnaal
nit jrojifiOB ;3toli£i Tm w^r oiraail dor T mptl in "^ inberge drin,*
Mit StoXa blickta ich als Kind vom '^iitrin ^uf di-^st zwsi joXd-
Xouchtisndsn "^^rtio w i t an :ioriaont« Mb jun.^oror Knsm a*i'?hto or
^r^ikas Rifiaon fiiit dsr ^nnznn ^-leilisf i^^it m^iXn^r }r« anuttor
:SmiXis und dsren Td^ht^rot and ieh ^Xnubs nichtt dtas nnaors 7a-
milisr* 90 zuaa iKenhin^^n wie dio n^inijc* Od«r s^ its os das bs-
Icaroito ^^tjuaiae^is F*imi Uen^ofuhX isweotn sain* das uns ^rhpltsn
liat bis auf aon h^utigcn Tag?
Bin asdiohtff dms or n«in^ l^uttor in ihr Poeoi^aXbusi sohri«^»
lot fur ihn chnraktsriatischt obonaa wis os d%a ^tdicht iat» das
seins ?rau in d«\8 \Xby« ^jln^istragon hatt
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Kleht laaor ist dw Lob en
It'tnch Gorf • und L«ld
Aucli brlngi^ clle Ztlt.
a«h» dl«««ii autig •ntgt^eii
Bew%ur» hoi torn Slnut wan das :ier«.
2»4 boalmiaat Ihron SoUagon
dec ttmchllchtn Selmori.
?uo ^-uto« nur ua dos guten wliXoa
Und Btr«iig in ..rfullunj dor PfXlcht
alack bluiit air im Bowus»tooln doa .till en
l>aiik, Aii«rk^i4.ung bedurf oo d^^n nicht,
Dtla Irosar^tor Simon ::ns.l ;2o.8opte..b.r 1873
¥t?ln iitibff :,V.>.if
In delnea ^a..^-n ...j^jxi ael k^n Tag
Der «r.der.s dir a« ^utes b^iugen ma«,
Schaufko Ibn dafur lilt dor Tat
Dlo tuch uur gutos in rich hnt
Una k^^nat du durcu ^^at m r.l-ht
Woil an li raft es :ir ijebriciit
So tu ee durch oin \^ort
J>'0 welat Eiut iiut«a f^rt.
Bint du Auch dft r.och ochwach
So '-ufo <»lnoa aodnxiken wncli
Von don dlo 3>ol wlrd klap
L'nd daa Hon oriluht
Aua d#m la Zulamft dio £:utt Tat orbluHt.
Oroom,i«a Chariot to :ir.gol 44.7.1867
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arooamuttor Charlotto hatta auek roiaaiida altpragor SpriA«tfrtor»
ran donan ieh mleh <ai ainoa orlnnerot daa aio mirt bogloitat Tam
ihr^A oigenartigon kurion Laehan lait dor ?rago Tor«itttslto» "Woiaat
Dtt waa daa I<ab«u dlr bringon <vird? 2in ^daomoa Buehaal» ain ail*
bern«»a Hlxolf •!& tialaonoa tart* t/lna Veil* •« Huga Salua hat diaaaa
qltao Spruch in einoa aeinor iodiehto Torwendot.- Orosssiuttor hatta
Zuknnftabliekf done d^^c Lehtn ^ab ut^r Tlel» r.^isn oa iiir auf oixaMil
jnd Ileea mir auacor aioeon droi Din^^n dae waa ich :air solbat woA
«chwer Torachafft oabot una «iuch das Ai«t Jioch unaichor.
Um kt»m Jedon ag in dor kieinon ^onnunj der Urgrosaoltora ia
den T inberfoR zusfiKmen. Zuerat bstrat Bian aio £ueho» in wolchor
die herrllcheton Kuehoxi und "^orten untcr dar iufelcht der Urgroaa-
renter ron <if»T kleinrn ^J^nm. ^j^barkan wurdon. Dia slelno Anna war
unsahligo J^hro bol rq^rocarfiutt^ir nia Ki>chin. Mit groaaan blauan
^Uj^'jn und font nn don Kopf geklebten ochflwtaigblonaen Maaran. Auf
dem HintTkopf w^r ein Zoof achnackenartig ^^ngobracht. Sio trug
iHlor aehr brtjite und t^d<*llos e-^ubiro Ochurson* nac^iadttaga war
yon dor ftacen Kochorei niehts mehr su ^paron. Dn hatta dia klaina
Ajina bereita don Kolabodec jjawaa-^han und mit weieaaB Sand baatraut.
I/aa Vohn-ciirim^r war nir goarhwunjjanwaf achwarB-wichalainwaBdaatfi Sofa
und ebenu'Jlchari f^easoln nussoatattot. Sola Senator 4nd ain lILhtiaelit
den ich b^aonders liebto» well or ait bunton achill ^riidaa Hilaara
und 'f^^i^lmuttsr ^In^^lo^t wart und ain ^ikuot dor ron Mina tligliall
gewnarhan und be looaen wurdat- tr aah aua wia Icunatlicht atmad ¥aia
andorn. Das xw-jlte 7Amm^T war daa Schlaf aiwiar. Dort ataniaa
dia Bott-sn r.it blutenwolsaon '^Iquatdaekan lagadaekt. Suarat warda
"Daddcl" s^BPiolt; wlc Idi ?ir»nohaaf aia altjudlachaa Kartaaapial* 4*
Finion nftchf dac un^ofSihr oln koaplisiortas Hariaga war. fuur aiaii
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wmtmn b«8oad«r« aiisi«li#nd <U« faiitaati»ch«ii Bilder d«r K6uig% und
UaigiiiJ2«a« Uiit«rbroclitii wurd« dies Spi«^ durch Kaffo«trixik«ii and
ma«s«nhftft« Vtrtilgun^ d«r Vund«rw«rk« ron Axmaf und durdi leidtn*
sehaftlich« 8s«n«a» botond^re iwlsohcn UrgrOBsrater Siaon und Oross-
Tator Albertf die sirh weldlleh beBrhlmpften und uralta UnetioMlg-
»c«ltiin ^m-dan hprTor<[jeholt» und elch legenaeltl^ an d«n Kopf gavor-
fen. /^o3BTat5r Vlhart wrirf den UrffrosBTater aelst Beine VerBChWBil-
.unjseucht 70* uiid die kl »lne i^itjlft der Crrossaiuttt$r« Die iftelber-
gescalcUten Tt^rs'^U^le; trt deiui ar hatte eren auch elne l^en^e auf
dem KerbAols* ^r pfle.it e Immer bel BolchBn aalegenh^ilt^n den AUB*
Bpruch aeln^r /'utter zu ^Itierom ":>ln« />ute '^'rau muss elne c^rosBB
SchUvte habon* u£ die f ehle r ihres lAonee mit ^jln^in UcheXn susu-
declcen.** An alesen i«ac^unltta^en Mirueii luaner seiir vlele .^amiXl«tt-
•rinuerungen ausgskraffit una Lrciroeaniutt^r t?r&ahlte nit r^tols Ton
dexi H'^lcentaten aee Ur<^rodciTMtc<r0» Sie ha^ te iromer ein rilzendeB
Spl t Benhiubcuen nn und ua mu Hals wnren ib^nf-ills ir^<2ridwelche
3plt»«n ijij«oranet. UrirOdtiTater Sl?\on und IrOaaniutter BniiiB
Beiztun tich d'^im xua Schaoiiy -vaarend aer aiidere Tdl der FaaiiiB
weiter "daddeltc". iiach dem Toae aee Lirgr^eeTaterL vohnte UrgrOBB-
mutter in der liVohnunts irir-e S4>tinep Ludwig lUiifsl una der SohvlBger-
tocht^Ff (^er Tante Lu1b« In dur Voiinun;^ er viroBamama jmlXla la
Gtadtpnrk in *4iuqB 7ornelita«A K^ur e in n^ichuter ^Tachbairsciiaf t der
KlXXlonire r^etachok ^oiruen uieoe ^aniiieu .u&mx*menkuuf te fortgaaatsty
nur in etwaa grJ38&ujig^*rea AusQaas. ?aiiny» uie iCbchic der Jraaa*
aaiOAf war ein Jag^nDtack 2U der kXeinen /v. nat eiu war beinaha la-
benaXangXich oei ^rv'Bsai'uiut und ale einzi^e ^iruon« 70r der dar
GrOBBTatar Mbert "espekt liatt«« ^enn er ein^a "'utanfXl bakaa* aa
brauehte ale Ihn nur ^inzuacU'tUan mlt ?inea st^IireekerreiXendai BXiek
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unc alt Ihrtr tT^oaaen liase drohend Xtm zugeweudet» war er gXelek
wleder la 3Xelchgewicht« lUr beeouaerer LicbXing war ueia Brudar
Ottai der nwjh ihrea "Xinsch n^ch seinen llaman Otto naoh ihraa Idaalt
dem Kbnl/^ .Itoknr* erhlelt.
Hancha/'X nirden dioee ^jrocatiU tieBeiXscIiaf ten unt^rbrocban und
die F'-^mllle rerB' W' It e ?iich b«l .'tutrl^, defn t'Jr^^^'ten Zucic©rbiickar
Pr^ga -la " drzel8-»lntz. Der Ladan war la ?*pirterre Yon der Otrasaa
au;anglich durch ilTenturoilcha 3i«i8tur«»n, die nit klein^^n i-ingeXa-
jeotaiten a<»B-'^'^wickt wnren. Van betraf den herrlich duftandan rtami
auf ti^fen I'oten Te:ipi han, vor eich den Hi -sen^iufbru der ron una
ao ^•iiebtdii ;> ucke. Voaa VdrknufBrnua t^tii^^ mpin -liie ^eachwungana
'^r»ppe »i£por» ait ratan T«*pplchan belert und jolderem iitter. Auf
der " nd waran theatervorh-'\nepaiaelaj jem Xte ingeX, xie Zuckortfark
na8<-hten und aus TuIXnorr <irn d^e beaten Kunstwtrka dea Ilerrn Stutiig
auaachut teten, Ob»ju aa^a man an i.. araortischen mf :oXd^nan rot-
»iimx^u%ix 0('88eic;ien unu u e i^Ladchant aits bedientan^ saheii gar aieht
via KeiXneri-i-eu wi^p yo.dern wie vorn laiea Persoiiol in einea SehXoBi
Gie *ru.;«a wucebX^iU jjefcr^iirta /J.eiaer mlt weiaBcii Tanchettan und
Wtfi buan i;churzch«£n, \ut ciea £apf hatten eia rie&ib'e welaBa TuXX •
LiaschaHf vie wi© ':irii«n8C/iii;^t t^riii^iie xJLf liiren Toup-^ea saaaaa*
i;ie3e uiiderv^^iexi )ra iit^n acUokoXadetassen ait exuea riiulgea Barg
ScaXaisaiu^e daraaf uud ^vundervoXXa Kaatonldnacludtten mlt Krea uod
anceri htsrrlleha -tucke# vun aeiian ich Xanga ^'eachlchten araiUiiaa
kbrnte ind Ola rnich ^xuvh .aa ^iXXererata TaX diehterlaeh b88chaftlgtaa«
lah f ntasl ert« v^snprvcha z iech^a dieaan wundarbarea WeaaUf i4Uiraad
ich ale Tit H^oligenuiia rt^rochaang* Auoh dim alt Puttl gaaolaaiaktaa ^
3tuckoriifiaente ^.iruten nut alch al* gertAiu mtslkgawd. tlgar Kraft*
Kb war -ica Marchenw^lt und wlr Kinde# durftaa uaa auawaliXaa« aaa air
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•oilt... l,.gl.lt.t r.n ,„. r..p.ktann«..ena« w«l.«a.eUg«.
«art.a. in a-. ,oth..ch ...,uua K.ff..aaa., das uraprox^Ucb ,1a,
orr«, "«„..., .nr. ^ ax. >,»i«.i.eh« und JJst.rreichl.ch* H.n-.ch.r
«lt rot<itwurf«iteii Tl»clitach/«rnf In d.T- i^if* ♦ .
u u^mru, in dfir i^ltte star.d uar PaTlUaa
*- » u urbro»9TattfT ZXmoa und OrObs^iitter .ijililt
^-if it^i d«r Lu«lk3taci£e. die ale fr^ua^ und ep-
xca le'-ntQ auf aiasa «.i8« Offenbach
uad K«yerbeert Strauss, Verdi unr v^r.«,.hi ^ », * .
"iBten kennen. Die Lusik jur -Puooenf e- und r^«^ - . . u
iu.uonie und tier ..idelzkywarach
gefitl mir -in besteii. Zu« Kaff«« und zur 3cho>aln<«. . i *
v*«u ^.ur ocuoKoxada ueryierte man
.xn,a »o«,n..a>t.B Strle..!. ein, .rt su«,.. Barehe.. daa «it Ro»l««
und Uand.ln «Tailt w,,. u„, ^.^ Kinder b,>c-..„ von ..r .rwac^,«.«
noch K^fldeln ,U8 lhr,n Gtack^xi In d.n Vu^d =ie8te(.kt m „ ,
'y*' A44U iieatecict. in meiner Sr-
a«rT IX aurti^jn Toiletten der > men au8 7ull
Oder Suitie. ruck^-^rts mit etwas S-hlenn. r -n j i
hoben Kr«i^9ii und mit «in**» - ^^u
Hute .it y.ilch^aarr,n,..ents oi.. •..3.n oder TuU .it .ro.aen Sa.t.
«a,ch.n. i)ie -mf :eBp..nt.n S.it, ^naehirme h.tt.n .u^ an ihrer
Spitse die 3pcn d«i«u pnBaend^in v^ii<*Y«.»«
^ «»ena«n \^;fXlcntn- ogen- Oder S^tbandar.
Sin berufimte* GecU-ht ron ^^u,ro ^-lu. h^^ h* . .
-^u,,o aus, d«r die iCu^ine m^xn^^ Muttert
Olga, heiratet., h.iast ^i^ruhlin^Bhut- unci b.aciirabt ein« ai„e,
entsuckenuen Kun.twerke. Ich erinn^re .ich noch a« Glga, wie si.
damaie .u...h. eln ^.„, fein licht^eues. dufti,«. aeid war g..
Bel««ckt .it eine« brelten, .x,„,, Ca^t^urfl, der ^t ale.- b-
ruhntMirprdenen Vellehenhut harmoniertt.
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Dieses Jedicbt war abgedruckt in den beruhmten Zeitschrift'
•Jujiend* und "SiapIisisBiMUs" un& wurdt stlindig bei 7eier& •■
Vj tragatiaclu «u ^ehdr (jebracht. Sp&ter belli elt iTOBumtmm dies«
aewohnheit bei und icb jeauchte ele dort oftp sie sass dort «it
Tants Luist bia einea Kach«ittag« ©la von ihrera Seaaal ▼•■ Sehlag
getroffen fiel und "^ar.te Luisa und der Kallner bracht^n aia ia
einen ^^^^gen nach Hiusa ur.d in derB«*lben Hacht starb eia.
Dia Srinnerung nn CJroasaaittvjr IJnilie iot bei nir iinaer Termangt
■it dan Kiridruckaii uieaer Baumjartenara und ich atme noch iaiaer
in der Hriunerun^ aan au&aen Duft der 3tief»utterchaii und der
Ma^nolien*
Dia lt»frn meinaa iroaavat -rs \iberti des Vatera meiner Muttart
war^n ciurch eigena \rbeit reich jeworden. Auch hier war ea dia Up-
grosaButtert Katharine Sohr» die hauf ta^ichlicht wia dia Jroaaaama
Kmilia» d^s Jeld rerdiente. Sia foJmten in Libochowitm und aia Ur-
groBsffiutter rau88te au aen Prager Uarkten .^nfa^iga lu ?usa gahan, ain
Mnrach von m.ndeBtena mehn 3tunaen. 3ie muaate aurch eina^ma Waldar
und einen ^erg hinunterat lien, nn deaaen \biiang Tiela Jahra ap&tar
dia YiXXa meiiier Jraaamnina limiXia stand und iroasMaaa }j3Biiia «r-
»ahXte una Kina^rn, wia .la Urgroasffiuttar achwar bepackt «it 3toffa«
au Karkta *og, wtihrend dar iK UrgroaaTatar aich aainaii hebr&iacha*
StUQiaii ergab. Fur dia rothaarigat blauJIciga Urgroaaaiuttar gab aa
abar nichta harrlicharaa aia diaaan UrgroaaTater. dar an seblBar
und elaganter Kann war. Spater konnta alah dia Urgraawuttar aeton
einan Wagan 1 iaten und dar Jawailiga StugUng wurda iiiitgaiia«««.
iroaarater Ubert araahlte, wia «r aia Saugling znf&lUg i« •!«•
Kiata auf da« Kutacheraita fial und diaaa «« Oiucl auklappta,
al. dar ^agen u«kippta- »« -ai-alta allaa auf u«d fiUir mmdk Hauaa
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uii4 naoMtfi di« Urgroasmuttor all«« Abgtladtii hatt«ff mriauTtm sle
0ie)i mB lhr«n Siiugllag uAd fancl llm nach laxi^«a 3uch«ii •AclXicli la
b«s«gt«r i^l8t«. Sid hatttfii cilntf l£«a^« Illnder* Jross^iiutttfr Marl«»
dlt )<'utt«r Mtfines Vaturs uiui deii ^ai^oiiiiaf tdi; Zajmarzt, dta lc2i solion
gfUiS Am A^f^nj ^tschildert h^bet und dtn liocholti^ai^ten dtelnrttlehan
Brudtr d«» CrroBavateret i!orlt«f der in Prag eino bek u.nt« H«lt«r-
fl^sur !■ Bnu«i;art«n ^ar und auf mlch turner cl«n Jllndruck eia«0 Hoeh-
adtligen iii«cht«» mlt 8eln«B Htitkntcht hint^ iha. Ich traf lim
oft Im Baum^arten, wtioi ich Ton uBs^rar Villa In ^odbaba zu Tuaa
in di« Sciiule iing. }3.r b«ujt« sich voa Pf«rd« nlnunter und sprach
mit olr l«ut8«Iig» gsnx im Tone ron Knlser ^rariz Jos-f,
Bit <9rBt« 51 chulbil flung erllslton die Kinder in dm. Landstadt-
chtn in der ^ohnuii?j den Inbbet der ausBer seinen relif^idsen
Pfllchtec dia Kinder dar Jadischan ?aBilli«$n zu erziehtii auf alch
nahm. 1)1 est ^r^lehuiiti dtiaerte Ton fi*uh sachs Ubr bis acUt Uhr
abends* Lie rllndcr Xeraten alia Vachar b<»i iii eeoBi U^xm und wurdan
barbariach bettraft, Ber O'^ossrater ariahltet was fur eiu«n Lia-
druck ts a^ dia Jun^en Jeauter machta» waiiH der Lehrer einar Sc^-
larin di« R<ielc« nufh(t> uad sit ganz einfacb auf den nackten Hint am
•chlug. Fruh ;iii>^ aaa nocb alt einer Latarnt In dia Sciiula unA
wna dia iCinder aakaaant riaf ihnea dar Sehulaaister 2Ut '*Lau8a
geban langaaa", Kr dachta aaalicht dA88 da8 V^ort "iiilaa'* so aua-
gatprJchan wird und warntt dia Klndtr auf ditaa Welsa aelna ia-
aablia nleht la Morganaehlaf sa atdraa. mt iUnder Ton Katharloa
uni Jakob Johr (deasen Vater war laraal uad 8alnt 7rau liieaa Bolltt
wohntaa in Leipa) waren \lbart0 dtr Vat«r aelnar Uuttert i'aria* dlt
Mutttr atinet Vatertt islisabttli und Haraaaa Sohrt uad Morits Sohrt
dar tpattr in Prag in dar Sttfana^iaaaa tla ^alait bawoUntt*
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aroasauttcr Xb111«» «li« t'utter malner Huttar* hatt« in Raldli^
nau in B»»»m» in dtr Judi«ch«n Sehwl* ein« jut* BUdun^' ^tkoaaw.
Danais «ar«n di* Ju<li«ch«B 3ebul«B ••hr .."ut. »!• 3>ib«n dva 8tiwla«m
«iua aUg«««in« DHaua«, die in dl«««r Zeit d«r kufkianing kla tea
bach»t« (Jut g«s4i&tst «urd«. Ilir tlnxLjar Bruder Uidwig «urd« »*«r
8chon all Zw81fjalxrlg«r in ain Ssoehaft ««Bt«el* , w«« ihn abw nieht
hindertai eintr dar relehstan ?or««ll!Uifabrllf<at«n in Aicta Stt w«rd«n
»r war alna ror-nelMia Srachalnuns, pflagta i« Baimjartan auch m
reltan und w«r in T'ra« gas«ilachaftXleh -ina ParsBnlichitait.
8 ina ?T8u w«r Lula« Tausalg, aelna Kuaina. Diaaa Tauta uiia. iiabta
ich S'M* baaondaro. Sia uberachuttata una mit J«ach«nkan und ibr
rosa-stuBtener Hokoko-S-ion ^raehlw mir ungeheuar TOrnahn. An dar
Wand bins ein ^jr^aaa. 'ortrnit Ihrar Tocht^r Olst*. Ton da- t>arub«t«n
K.nltr ^ohwabiuaki. Inr B udar I'aui wurda in .J«ns juiijan Jabran naoh
Fruiralcb gaachiekt, wm uia Laderbmncha su eriarn*. iir holta
aich nieht nur fran.o^lsoh, aondarn »ueh die frauzoaiacba Krankbait.
KT wurda K*T«Uariaoffl«i«r und liaaa aich aa-ufol^a tauf«. £r
heirnteta ana Ohri tin, dia ar unToraichtigarwaiiia in «in«« U«»>««>-
rnuB, fiaa BliaaaUa sakuaat hntta. D<.r Bruaer car 3ama ar.chian
pietziieb, drobta .it aina- Ukandal, d.r P-ul um saiaa om»i«r«-
.t,lU bitta bringan klJ.nen, und .0 ka« ciia^a Hoob«eit zuatWMl.. I*
.rir.n,ra «icb noch an dia furcbtbar d.prlr.iarta nti>nnmn« dar Hooli-
.alt. s.-alX.chaft. an dia Tranen d,r "•'nt, I.uiaa und an da. *itan4«
aasicht ron Onkel Ludwig. Sgltar arobarta aich dl. Jung. Trau, il.
.,hr acbttn war, ain. at.Hung in dla.ar ?a«ili.. und gu>. baaondT.
naeb dar i.burt ran ...i prachtTOll«» 8»bn.n. Int.r...«»t lat dia
Tataacha. daa. dar .ina 3ohn dia -rnditian dar FULaophla watar-
fuhrta und D..ant dar l-hiloaophi. in ^.« wurda. -»». nua lb. ga-.»-|
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d«n i.t. w»lM leh aleht. lrQ.«««u war -An, -ro,.» 3ch»nh«it,
«!• uad Ihr Vattr, d«r Ur«rotirr*ter nlnon, rwrntandan sloh mtf
.•Ichn^t. 31. X.bttB M^rst U Libochowlts. CJroa.mama harat.t.
alt ,.elii*ha Jnhr.ii, und *l«d.r« Ihren Kueln. Bit w«r «!«• s.l.Utf
boehstthwd* ?r»u und auo««r«t jeschaftBtttohtij. Das scimlttwrwi^
g.Bchiift « 3tadtplmt» m Llbochowlt. ftihrt. .1. fa.t aan» ali«ia.
31 • 1>«sa8a«B 9ln jrosses Haus alt alnw B«hr >»T9lten und .Xegaatrt
3ti«:«, alt :;«Behnltit««B 3»l!ind«r, uad drnuus.n auf dtm Trottoir
war m ^unten Stein-B d.r K«ne -A.S." auBS*leit. aroBSTBtar Alb.rt
bB.chSftlst. Blch hauptsacHllch mlt B,ln*» Bruder Korll* xubbbbbbb
mlt aruBdBtaek.:e8clMlft8n, %t war eln mos^s^cbatteT nat.r und
Bteta von -lii« .TOoaBn Kund bBjl«ltet. aroBSYater war dar UBbar-
«eu Mig , (JKBB dor "uBd Blch Tor lb. furcliten muss., und ^o rera*-
reicht. W !)■ J-Jflen Vorgen ..Ina Portion rrugel. lima arme Tier
tausBtB d«nn noeh st.in<i«.lnnc hluter bsIubb Pferd herrBimen. Jr
wnr *ln BBwalttiitls ruT'yulTi.cteT Uenseh.
i.m let klar, d^aa C.rb :A«pnar ralch warden uiuaete und =;anz
beaondBra tIbX Yerdlanta aroaen^utter uurch an^a ^sen^rtUBn Vor-
fall. Mb dlB DeutBchan nach der Grhlacht b.l K6nljgrat. Biasrelch
m Llbochowlt. eln»03en, brachten el. (11b Cholara nit. Un Junjar
OfflslBr, dBr bBl dBB .roBBBitari. ./oUntB, «ird9 -.uch kr'Uak. 3roB.-
fflutttr TBTBtBckt. Ibn ab,r, daalt m-,u Ihn nlcht Ina Spital und dB«
BlchBrn TodB auBU,fertB. Si. pflajt. ihii aufo.fsrnd und alB BT
g.BUDd wurdB. V'.uftB Br lUr daa sanz. Lager «u .Ina* kolosaalBn
Pr.lBB "b. aroBBmutter plaUa auch au.gweichnet Schach und hatta
0«lBgBnh.lt. «lt Bin- .ehr solBtToUan Kwn. bIdb. dortlgw. lUuf-
■ann. na-sne ^BlBSg^rbBT. m nl,lan. lilna wnhrhaft woaantlacU.
i.iBkB TBrbiuad b^b abar rnlt «ln« achbnjn Junasn Vann «ub TIbb.
-2.0-
.so -
.Ina. .u..,rord.ntUch ^alBtwoUBn Ub...cU,«. K.ln. «utt.r. 41.
,.^.. uooh .1. .c.w.,..rlBCher BackflacU war. T^rllBbt. alch in
,^. .0 daa. «1. .lr»« ^rank ««t. und ^cUwbt .lut.r-,-ur4..
U.ln Vater .-h.^ta da^Xa auch .u .,n v,r..rern dor .rOB.«« ua*
w *i«-t- k'alM «latt«r war aD#r »o erfUia^
MaxiA f^r a^lat i^aix«r i»«»**
1 w!4,.Kaan Li «ba iu ilautiierf date dittt
Tatsache auf ai% ^nr KeAa^i ^
in- Pfiichtaa ais Traabadour Ton ar08»m.ma und ku.ata
daa zarta» nocn unoaruic- v.
Uama war eina Romantl'teria.
' H*n in dar ?nmllla ^t aia abj«-
. ..,^, t-auri^a *>a8 ij^oan m oar -ri««.
w 4* 4 ni rater Li«b« an itoa aln*lgt
T. n Dla wal acii/irm.riachan If^Adchai. waran untar
Schw.Bt^r Ida an. Di# ••*
%.^« un^ •naischan 3ouTi*rnantan» oaxaa
d,r .ufalcht ron fran.oax.chBn und a^iXl.
V >.t und beidB .Btu- XembBilTl*. ^^hrand Ida ««XtB.
- «ri.it. BBiir BChBn KiaTler. Ich ha*,
^t^htata maln« i-utt^r und oplaitB aanr •
dlchtata «» vianan Crt Uoochowlta o"
in S.B.iXBchaft -Bia.r Mutt.r dle-.n kX.lnan
.» ih, «XlB t.g. la raXd. auf dBB ^leBBB otol-
b.BUcht und -inti »lt ibr «XXb l.g. . „ ^. wl.
. ^ iirh«i bXihtan dort 1b alnar Manaa. *l.
ilartBB St«rcha und VelXchan oiani'
Ich Bi. «on.t ulB «o . B ^^^ ,.pp.X.«r.
nt ^. war sprlchwdrtllch In d.r F.i^Ua, da m
! ..t,r aXB .XI. andarn OXBckan au Xaut.n bB.«m.
KBln Vater ^rhiaXt spai.r .^b-h-b Mhiirt«g
_t>t8 in aadaakBB Tartiei^ * , _- --. i
■ tat. *» -»» ,♦..-, b.ifuiita* dan tf «.- 1
.X 4., - < »ti xur lintarhnXtuB^ ttaiiaa^w*
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"v
- ai •
Amnkcnlos burtlts ron •ia«r and^rn P^aon g^drt hatt«. Wlr Kliid«r
vart«t#ii •ellOA loftcr darauft bli si eh dma konasehc ?han<m«a vl«d«r*
holtt* wit wlr auch Jedaa Jahr auf d«a «rat«n ?rulUln/is0pmsisrg«ng
auf gelna T7arnuii^ wartetont nlcht untwr dla BauB« su j«h«ii» da •!•
au88ehlji4[«A kdiiHtaa*
't
arJ«8iautt«r liiallle und IroasTater Albert ub«r8l«dalt«n daim spater
nach ^rng und Ich hnb© bercits cJe8chlld8rtf wit di* Faollla daaais
l8btt. Oroosmuttar war ungomein wohlUtlgf ijehiirtt belnahe ali^a j
Tohltdtljkoltarortjin^n fuhrend ?ux und ^jruridttt ausa'jrddni noch elna
Mengt Inatltutlonen, m> z.B. «ln Lehrlln;j8helm und elnt alien H«ii. j
glontn zugiingllcUe frel* Kacht. ^ei lhr«Bi Bejriibnls war elne so un-
gtheura etelll ,Ting, daaa der "^erkthr In dan Prager otrnsoan alnt z«lt-
1-ng Rufgab-aten wurcia. Papas iatarn, Joachim und Maria ^' nta, Mnrla
war aia ScUweettir voii Albertt wohntcn dam Haua der 5ro3Belt«rn Sohr
ganau gagantibar. '^9 war eln ^infncheB Ilaua, im obern r>tock wobnte
Urgroasmuttar Katharina, ron der ich achon <dr»ahlt habe» dasa sla zu
?U8« oach !>ag bandaU ring. Dar Kof war Babr long und -m Znd% das
Ilofas war aina boha Scheuar. GroaaTater Joachim betriab Landwlrtschaft
Kr WAT aln auasarat liumoryolltr und nalver Manii» bl» In aoln apatt-
ataa \lt«r in aoina ?rau 8cbraekllch Tarliabt. Kr :lng iPiit aaln^i Ax-
^altarn aufa Fald ihinaus^iigl arbaitats als aratar* und so In 8^n«
Arbalt vartiaft* dasa ?r gar nleht aarkta^ daas aalna Arbaitar fau-
ianstan. ^r hatta cilnea mindarbaran Oiiubaa aA dia Oiita dar ^^anaal^
halt. In salnar LnocbuXd war 9r ran dar aalbatraratandllehsn AnatEii-
dl^alt ainas jacitn ubarsaugt. J>ia rlaXan Kinder dea Shepaaraa ar^
taa aina gawiase Vornahshalt das Auftrataus ron itasi. Dar Glpfel <ax
dleser Kntwicklung war der Jun;{st« Brudar mtflnes Vaters* HUcjSt der slch
dar Offisiaraiaufbahn widmata und dar d r Sfris d r ^aaillle war*
yeias :^atttir «iIlerdiii(S8 macbta aich sahr ubar Ibn lustig und brachte
ihn ftnjsar dazut zu schwadronieran. Und ein beru JBter \48s;)ruch Toa
ilim w^Tf "daae er elch nirbta Sch6ri«9re8 TOratallen ko. na» aia dam
Pallid dixuaai. dan rot an Habn aufsx/ach satsan au koxman*. \uch er war
ein ^l^nsandor Haiter und roil yon miiit iriscben k'anegaspaasan*
i;ie Schwaatara meiiias Vatera heiratettin ^utsitui ;*rta Kauflautef
zwei ^^uder ^loch» von danan der aina daa iaua der Urgrosaaltarn la
Haudnits ub-srr.a^* ,:;r zaicbnete sich ^oinz basondars dadurcb ausi dasa
ar is 3ach8und8dcazij4r ?eldzug Bnuchachmarsen bekniBf sich in ainno
GraDan zuruckzJj und dort die ^anze Scblaebt abwartete. Ka gaif^ng IhB
liachhTf etjina \bteiiuni wladerzufiiidan und tr zog mit ibr als Siagar
in ^audnltz ein. ^^eina lro88altr;rn "ohr oplaitaa in Llbochowlta tjine
grosoa *'oila. !Dar Groaaratar war hiufig 3a«aindaT0r8tand» die Gross-
mutter uibta i^roaszu :ija ^ahltatL^ei t. Untar ^ndern 3chutzliiAgan
wnren vi»r Geachw^ator I»ngai» Waioan nach «in?« T^abbln r und Chaaan -
Ottiiiat dia -jinj b-ruhmta iwiariar ;)ial«rin wurd at T^ :rta» elne Bangerla
und zwai '^rudert ron danen ainar aln baruhater Liri^^nt in Ijautscbland
wurde. Vit Ottilia hatta ich aln intarassantas }s.rlabnl8t Bar baruhata
Physlicar r;inptein ^rw^ihnts ainmai mlr gagenubar* d^iaa ar ao garns
aina Bagiei tun,i zu tseiiian Vloliaapiel hM.tta» **abar"» sagta 9T9 "da loh
salD^r 8dhr jut Bplaie» naaata main Baglaitar aln rlchtlger Kuustler
aein* una i^h jlaubat Ich flnda kalnea» dann <%lie haitaa aich fur so
herro-rfi randf daas Ich furchte* nicht aa sia harajaraichaa au kdnaaa".
Ich aa^te Einj t aia: -Ha^r Prof assort Ich wrde sis mlt siaer KlaTler-
Bplelerin bakm ntma bent die alne ar&tklassige Xumstleria 1st und dia
trotzdam aina sahr baschaldene alta Jungfar lst*« "Hah Hah" • lachte
Kinstain 9U8 roller K*hle» "das is t das rlcbtlga fur mleh. Da wir4
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'«<»
■8ln« frmu nleht «if«r0uehUg ••la"« leh mirda spater Ton OttiXit sit
•ijusM ?«• als iiiiifti^«r ^ast eiii^«?Xad«o und kormto Kins tain auf di«a«
^^i^hr^nd di« aross^ltdrn noch la ^ibochowits wolmteny Icauftc
arOdsmat&a *sin9 Apotli«k« ait •iaea Haus auf d«a lli^uptpl-^its. Git b«»
atimiat^t dass ofttiiB 7at«r A.poth«iker w^rdtn aollt9» um 1^b% A.poth«ic«
spatdr xu uberiieiu&^n* ILnin Vator hiittt swar die Aboichtt die wiss«a->
Bcliaftlicht LauHialiii anzutret^n und »wnr j'E der ^r^i^er Technik, -sro •r
3lch fur Krlstallojr^phlt hnbllitleren w/ollte, \ber der B«f«:il m&iner
Chp^Bsrautttfr kopft« dio8« doffnujigen und so wurdt ^r ein ianx jewdhn-
lichijr Apothekert und noch uozu sollte er sein L ban in dies^r kleineii
Staat Tei!7riu^«nl i;i ?8«r trauriga Kmp skt hind arte Ihn nb^r nirht* um
die Hand »eintjr Mutt«r lu kaapfen und in 'ier b^wuesten L'^ube ruckwiirta
in lart-in fial ©r vor 22:amfli nuf Jia Knit und bptt sie flehentlicht seia«
Frau su w^irc«n. M'^ine ITutter* die damale 00 romnntloch npjr» konnte
nicht andtrc nle iim beida H nd© zum Kutse zu r«ichen und ein Jawort
^u fluatern. Beiae iuhrmu nach aer Veriohung nach ^rag. I'ein Vatar
wurde Tiro in dar Apothek#
a& kleinisn Bin? bei yin^m Apotb«kcr»
der -ie Ctewohnheit hntte» wenn ein Angeatellter ihn irjjsrte* durch
den gwiixen '?^ua dem Unrrlu'^klicl^ n xuxurufon "S* Vioch!**.
Meine i^utter ^ohnte bel Onk«l Ludwiji und ^inte Luise. 3ia sX^ Ao
ein« Scnuiet in eine aog«no'jint« ii.r£i9hangBa stall fur hdiierd ?ii cuter
und war eine herYorrat;enae Schalerin. Sie liebte mre I-.^hrerin ab-
gttttiech. Dieee i^iebe h«itte «jin trauri^ea Hach^oieli ale sit oaniieh
in der deutsch«n Kacherxahlungattundt ein Thoma aue ibrer Juj;end in
Libochowits behandiXtat ar9^Tau<^^tt oie das tort •yebblch*. Die Leh-
rerin stoppte sofort und aagte ihr» dass das Irein dtutacbea Wort aeil
Keine Muttar aurde duakeXrot TOr Schaa und aagte Ihrt daas das nieht
Mo^Xi.h w".r.. denn ihre kutter g.braiicht die... Wort aUndig. 3)1.
Lehrarin wurd. .tr.ui und be.tand *alnuf • da., dia.e. -ort nieUt -^
.orko««en aarfa. da e. J.U.ch ..i- ^ane Iluttar brach in Tr^nan
au. und dnait wnr dieaa Lirbfii erioce baaidet*
Im Bnuee der Tata und dae Onk^Io «rlebte I^a«a iilnge, ran
dena. aia fruaer . ^ch keiua Ahnun^ hatte. P r Onk.X hatta ain U.-
A* 4 - ^«,-> ..iT-ittet^n ?rnu. le volX«t%nrlig aein«n
b«8TerUAiti.i. aiit aiA^^r YsrUoiraxex-s« rv ^»
T» I ., t.-,T.i.rh .- ei€te nir anmal auf aieae leben»Xan|Xicha
?reunain deutands "D* B''^^" alnmal, m m«,«T*r
?^.u ,u..,h^. S-forag.' /ir .,fl.l <1U..- ^I-^^ ^"^ '•^«*'* ^•"'»-
der.. a,ru. .1. a«tt. d-r.al. chon ein rlchtlj,. B.rtch^n *uf d-r
0»Tiip?.. ^i. -ar r.b.r iu.s r.t ,lt«la «* .in. .'lin«»d. Kart.n.pi-
Urin. Di. .i>i»i«« r.ch.estcr «#!'. r Mutter T^rloM. alch uilt .in*.
«ehn J.nr, iXfr^ K.m. d-r rich -.la I^oktor Juri. «ub<j.I.. ii. at.llV
,i.b ,b«r nnch <i-.r E.lrat h-mu.. dn.e .r d.u Doktorjr.d noch nlcht
,r»ork..n i-tt. unci ao -u.uf O-.-oa.o.m. auch noch ..In ritudleng^ld
so k« .e, d,.. ;roaM»«« «crtrc-«lrai dl- Vit^ft noch ein-al erl^
- 1,-.. v,t«r knu^-t. Jl« oM :uua a» AltBtidtw Ring alt
^ .. • j_ unma ua krilnoB '''rtis »■ Land* l«b«B
der Apoth.k.;!, "ZuBi ..lahorn-, d* Varna ua K^inm rm »
.out,. aro«.«a.a ba».3a ia Pra, dr,i iau«,r und Jahr.Ia»«^h^t.
.1, ax., ,ig«, ^,uipa,,. in d.r «x, .u. i:ore. 1- .auiM^t.n fiite.
uan. Ut.rn .oUnt.n .uar.t in d .r .,ihn.t.«tr«.. und u>,«.l.d.Xt-
dann apater in dns H-a. .Mtatadt.r "in^ 31. P.p. .rrlcht.f «»-
.chli.»..nd .« CI. Vpothalc. ,in. .cif.nf.brlk 1- alt«t«iaich.n
gr....n Hof ... H,u3e.. ,r T.r^tand «b.r nlcht rl.l dar... T.rl.,
ein. Hen.. ^.1- u«d .o «u.«te "Jr.cam^a .ucb Ihr.r .w,it«i Toc.lt«
noch«,i. .1. . It^ft aurxahlen. M. .poth.k.r b.iribrt. .1<A «a.
Vater abir ..hr 3ut und di. A;)otli.k« «urd« .in« d.r b«st.n ^rmtrnj, ^
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31. .« 1. Bl.<,««,i„.til .U l?.h.,onl.db,ln ,ua,e.t.tft. -Ut .laer
.i*.uartU.„ uhr. dl. Ihr Zirf,rnbl.tt 1. .-aWcr.l. ««eora«,t hatt.
«Bd etatt d,r Z,lg„ -ar eln. ^.^^Ann. 3chl.n.T«. Im Mu.,u. d.r
ntadt -rag a- l^.n. -X.piatz .ar ,ln. ,anx, Apoth.k«elnrlchtung au.
d«n «ltflalt.r «lt ^«« .l«,n,rtls,n alchamlatl.chw .erufa und
gro.«.„ iinh«rn.rn. Di,.. ,vp.th,ic. war fruh.r .1. Elnrlchtung 1„ un
Stad. s«ch«nlct. Dna H.ua. Me,a .uch aea,.ge„ .-Zum :iln.orn-. well
elch 1. vittelnlt.r ,1« ai^«n«rtlg,r Vorf.U uort abg.B.ieU »^tt..
Dl. Tocht,r des daBall,,« B,«lt, r. fi.l .u. a.m Veneter auf al„,
.ufalil Torb.Is,h,nd. ncb^m rd. and brach a,n idda* aln Horn ab um
bUab ,uf ,!,„ ran, .« L,b«u. ii.beu unaar- Ballcon war .in R^ll.f
angebrmcht, das ©In Kind in Jr«tchitnt^-^h* ^ -. . i
Schnf cilt ein-B !forn. Kin. Insrh^-lft «n«..hit 4
?r'^nx Kafka ^efl«l daa '-.oas ni.^«i-;/t« <. ti
Hol«jltt(ir» er aagte eiiuaal: Vsei^n aan eln Bolrh— c *4
Blgen naant, mua. das .^.n^ I,eben davon b.alnfiusst cardan.
Andar. Kin.otu.er dlaa,. u,„3„ i,„,t^„ ,^^,^^^ ^^^^^^ ^^ ^^^
elnar d.r Baalt.ar s„wung,n. da. SchaflC* zu aeateijea. uad mit li-
.«..«*aB *urde d-,»ni.. .acta d«« drelaalgj.hri.... Krlag die ,.n..
Uchactxlach. I.t.Ulgen. «nd ihr A.,1 auf a. Utut.dt.r Ring „r d«
Rathau. gakdpft. Da, Kau. hatte rl,aenh,ft« >C,il.^ u.d bei eia.r
R.paratur faod «ai. .in, unt.rirdi.cb, Ualle. di. m^ln -ruder an eia,
theoaophiach. >.,U.chaft T.r-let.te, dl. dies. H,Xi. i„ «i„, ^i^h.
umwandeit., V.n fa«d noch elne uraXt. Luftung dl..ar Hall., .o da..
.1. frl.ch. Luft bekon^en konnten. 51n rjang fuhrt. bl. wr Th.in-
klrch.. In dieae. altertfilchw Hau.. In d.n wilarti^en El,
• ehufw slch main. KUarn .In .chon.a .',!■. sie hatten ,r^o...
«.(>
r^t^
^e8«il9Clyift«nf Koetambilla warden nbgehnit«n and ieb«i.da Blld«r J*-
• t«llt. "an fahrta Jottha* 8 Xaskanftaga auf, die ar In rtfich<*r Auawahl
far dia Weliaarer 39B«ilach«ft iaachrlwb^n Uatt«« '^a. t« Ida und Kaam
aowla viaia ?reai.da daa Hauaaa bat«iXi.;t«n »ich aicht«rxach uud T«rfaa»-
t^i "haat«rstacka» dla dnriO van der i^ae Xachaft aufgafuhrt wurdatt^
Bia l-ibenden "Wilder wnrtti. ffl-?i8t9n» humorlsticctu So eri -aera Ich «lcb
fin ein l^bend^B Biid# i^u .iero una laandor carat -all^jn aoilta. l;la
Hero »5t0s ^^uf ^xu^m i.^zimu im griechischan ^ewnud and lander biondar
er-ckat iu der Hand «ina brafuieuaa t ^t%9. D#r Lif^ader 1 g auf daA
Bauch -uf .*ine« r>eG8al •sbenf'ila In jriachiach^r -^racht, blickta »tt Ihr
auf nit T«r^w«iftslten JeaichtsauadrucV, S-hwiEmb^wairungen auafahraad.
Ich eri..nera mich noch ^n T-^on und UMt aU " nael ^nd ^retel verklel-
det und ien Kinderr^ira ^us Humperdinck' o 3pur sing^iidt "laiJi^l bint
eiuaiai her, riuguaerua dno iit nicht schw^r*. Und ich ^rian^ra mich
«B Mliien Vater ala Cyr^nno i« "^erierac -nit elner uniiehuuran ba«uchta-
ten rase und m Ane ''utter -U -c^mr^nm, wle ala ih«, d«r Ihr e^t seinan
■y^ntm ujiiufhorlich e^ina Mebe er<i.rt^, etu^ai und ^ana Imisnum dan
Kopf achuttelnd dan ^.uck^n kehrt«. I)la ietata aerartiia iu^ti^a Veran-
stnltung hnbe Ich schon ^le Braut mitgetnacht.
^er nhllOBOoiiiacha Kreia» tian ich noch ^pater achiidorn wtraat t^
Wiatriitete fur SylTester ana -heaterauffuhrung. l^as Glack ^raa Toa
Uichter '^'r^ini K«fka ^eachriab^n, i&uaai!i:r.en «it aantim damala beat«l
Traund, de« Kun.thl itoriker Oakar Poilak. i*a wur elne V^ruikung dar
BrantnnophllOB^phia. !>!• TlauptrUla .pielta Oaknr PoU^ik und »war dl«
liolla daa ^>Iter ron 3toliin«* Dleaar phlI06ophlach-dlclit«riach« Krals
wnr aber achon «o»u«agen dla awalta Stufa dar Kntwickluiig .alner HUttar
Dla erste ^tufe w»»r dia Ton mlr b«raita gwchlXdarta laa«il«chaft, iU
slch -^uf dam n^utachUbernlan -rag aufbaut*. Dlf Judan havtaa dMmU
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1r«lne Ahnuqs asTont dass man Ihr ochtes I;eut8chtuB ^ixjanl answelfelo
kdnnte und T«rlr#hrten ait ihren chrlBtllchsn 2Ciiinatloiiai«n auf das
herzllchst«* I>«r rittel!^ui.)ct der dimall^en deutschan O^siischaft war
das Deutsche Kaaltio im iraberif wo sich aas £;e8<i4.i»chaf t iicas i.ebsn zlub
grossten T»il «^b8plclt«» l^«ln Vat«r v«rbracht« aen ;'^chmltt3^ ia
LeBezimCier* Vortrti« warden dort ver^'iitit^ Itet und anter Huaeren aprach
auch dort Theoaor ^.rzl una lobte jroaaca I^rst^unen -ue. Ii* at*m rel-
zoiiden Hokolcosaal rurlan r.oBturaUaile Ternii^taitt^tt fur die zu K'^uas
wochenlnng Vorbereitun^cin jetroffen Aruruan. liii.es d«r ivortume c^efiel
Elr {^nnx b«yoiider.)# j-b war aie I>ur8tciiung eii.er '-'eria. ^ima a!»tta
ttin :>erifarbit;«a ocrileiarko^^tum an und trU|{ BO/in^nscrurruartig zu^aa-
menklappbar eina Vuechelform r.it oich herum. :jii4 aiiaerea i^oatum fat-
ten dia '^chwastern in ril» Egypt iecha ^rii*z«fcsi:^<jn una z^.jen hint«r
sirh -ine ?r#»»« lajerfi ..-ur lalt Pfnuenwedei, Malaa ITutter und lueina
T^nta waren nis g-ii^tvoile ^r^uaa o^icunt und waren a«iir ehrg^izif^
Unter ihr«n manulicnan ^artii*jrn vareii viela 3^hrif tst ill er $ dia la
jewbhniichan l«u'b«n i\«chtanLnw ^itf » •v^^'Zta uaw. jrnren. ISlner yon ifmon*
Dr.Bondlf war ^In rerbiso^ner J'lnj^geEallat der linmer beanuatsta* dass
ihm ktfina ?rau Inponiaren kdi.ne. Ifuiiia "utter und m-inc "ni.te nahman
sich vor» ib« einen ''>treich zu spielan. Sia bra ht^n iiin d-^zu, auf
eine Zal tun^a^UiOonca mlt der Ciiiffra "Herilla^t ^inar damaia baruhmtan
3i'.#armpld f zu nntwort<»n. Und «» entwickelta sich ain Priefwacheelf dar
durch zwel J-^hro "nhielt. Der reriiebta Doktor ^ondi las dia in uai-
nen lagan ^o herrli<»han ^riefe la Kasino s inan Fr'jundan vor und mein
Vatar kaa nach H'^ueet ziti'jrta of tar 3Uza «ub dlasan Bri^fen and aa^^ta
dann meiner "utteri "Dna iet eln Wrjibt so at was wurdest Du i^icht su
•tanda brinfjen.* ilach \blauf des zwel tan JF»hrap» als das Dr^in.ien das
Tarliabtan Dr. ^ anal schon an stark gawordan war und iia g^tnza ^ra:xar
^(T
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aaselXschnft iierilla bar its zitlertat wattetan dia zwai ?rauan alt
Djictor ^ondi» in ^iner g'-oaaen }e«elischaf t» dnee sia imatanda sain
mr<3an» iha lia trosttte Uebarras??hun : seines Lebens zu T«rsehaffan«
i^oktor Bondl lachelte hdhj»iach und sa^zta *in«n harrlichau Diamantring
ein. Mo beiden /r^uan sa^tt^n d^iOif a-^ss t:ia i^ia noch in aiesar Stunda
iseriila voratsilan rurdan una klarten dia Sacha «uf. DoKtor Bumil war
so betrjffen* diss er vor Schrack itr-inic •.urua. Kn^igw Jatire war dia
Trtrunaschaft ..wiscnan ina una uan ^ hwrctarn /jeatdrtf ab-sr er iilxaD
Jvin ' ^esaiia und wrr unnn si^^iter noch 2lna b^iciijit^j wrschcinung» kiclB
und alck ale Bac'iaittjr das Xan^jent mnjern Hujo Jalus. Ktban liu^o
Salus wirkte r.uch "rladrich '.dl^jr 'via I-ichter in dieaem ilreis. Rilka'i
2ltern waren zw«r in '^^ag und Hilkes Vatar mit harrlichaii blau><an
Vugen und eiuea .pitibart war eine bsk-Uiiite ^.rs'^hai' unj auf dea T»rajj«r
Grabei.korao, ^^ber Rilka a ilbst t-at nicht hervor. Verfel hnt oeina
ersten dichterisc^an jilndrucka von cieeen Lichteru erh'^lten. Da m^sina
vit-rn eine ?heat;srlod;« ftbonai^rt hatttjn und a-oasmu^tar Kallle und
iroasyiter Mbert im ^a -terre aboimi^rt w^iren, hatte 14i ala Kind oft
3-legei.haitf die dautscha J-fsellschaft zu b«obachtan. 3 .hr intvjras»isr-
ta tnich in einjr ^ertarreloga dar ^^eiharr ron L^irjasi der aussah wis
ein ZwilUii^sbruaer ron \ciolf yon Yanil, se r kleln, mlt elnai^Kalaar
?r-^nx JJsafs-Bart. ..s hiess. dass saina ?lrma dia S^nz. •.oldauacUlf-
fahrt beherr.chta. i.r war «ln -roaser Kan.tsiJiien. aan sagta ron ibsip
dass er k-.ina badeutendara \uffah-un.; Tarsauata. Dia I-oga glalcli
naben dar Buhna war dia 1 iraktionBloge. 'O .\ng^lo Keuaann alt .alnar
?rau. der Gch-iunpialerin Busks und dea Tbaatarkrltlkar Tawalss sass.
Vaina Gutter und aalna '^^nta rarsaumten kaina '^sgnarauf fuhrung und
auch dia baruhmtan V.if astspiala, dl# rlalt Baral-thaltan Tarelntan.
wurdan basucht. So sah man So..nanthal. Kaln. und cm Koaponistaa
~0
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Aueh di« bilcLe^don Kunste splolten elne «;ro8ee Kolle la L«b«n
dleser auf reln«]2 ICunet- und L bonsgenuss olngestallten 3anerntion.
Au88t9ilungen wurdan b«8ucht und (tin jahrlicher \U8flU(:; nach Munch«n
zu Jla«pal(i»t»u«8tellungeii war Pfllcht, He Gehwester meiner Tuttart
veXbst Vfxl»rin9 gjrundete wit ••liilgeri ^indern Kanetieri nen den Klub
deutscher Kanstlerlinen^ d«r elner8t?it8 ^In Fitti2lpun)ct des Icunstl*-
ri8ch#n und cJeiatljon "'rag8 wurdtt und iad«rer8t5it8 durch .^richtung
einer unentgeltilchtn .'Ittags- und Xbondlcach* fur oiltteilose K^nsti^r
^rosaen r>«g9n brmclite. Zwiaciiendurch wurden grosee ^ ;isen unt^rnoaitten
und illes \ufgenoMin«nt rurdc zu ^/"ortrA^tfn Tarwendett die meiae *-'utt9r
und m^iiie "^X4te im Verein :^r«»uenfort8chrl tt hlelt*jn« iJiea^r Vereln
wurdt von 7r^u "!y^hnoMf8ky una ?rof«88or '^'internit* ^©^jrana^jt zur Propa-
tjierun^j acr ?' rau en em * nzl p ?% t io ti na ▼^rmitteit© aurch die Isiniadung be-
deateitder Persdnii hkei t^in in rejes ^aiati.^as ...^jben. K^xiaa. xileit dort
Tielt vortrige und war iiLic-r 8ear '^^uf jere^jt. Leider .^abe ich auf ai eso
Aufre^^ung sehr wenig ^.acksicht :;c;no::3ien und knm boinahe Jeaes ^ai 7oa
Xlalaufen su '^p!i.tf ale \ufre;;un^ inaii^vr flutter vermeUrend. }:,iiimal be-
gaiin sie so ;ar eine Viertel&tunde HpHter» aa aich ihre I^uttergefuhle
nicht unterdrucken liensen. I. ire Vortrliga wnren inm^r a hr betucht
und es wArd Tlellel?iit interoerierenf daea die chriotliciie Zuhorer-
eclxaft w-rit jrdseer ^-^.r rIb aie ju<:i8che« I>ie Juaiunjn der d-^na li^en
Zeit war^n fur ernste ^ra^^en nur in eelteiien ?ailen int-reesiert. her
Verkehr mein r Wuttar war d^her mel8t«9n» christllch und durch das Vler-
hIndig8plel8B war pie mlt elnlgen ^auen der boeten ?^rl8chcn J>5aell-
8ch«ft befreundet. Sine dleser bestan ^«undinneii» die "^attin ein-e
Irosnindu tri«ll#n und ^«rf»-nfabrik"ntftn» I'arie ^oec'.olf frajte ble
einat^li •?«?rthm» wlr Bind doch so cjute Treundlnnen, saje mir gnu* auf-
:?o'
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u ni- Judeu zxx Tesonch ChristenblutI ! •
^ 4«, v^T-tf-iueni Brauchen aie Juaen »u
3uroh dU .,V.nnt.cV«ft .it di"«r cu l.tUch*.
1 im Jre«eo»Atz «u aluer rem
,.„H -ie Blch B^nOwnl .lurch antl»9«ltl.oh«
. . t die alch U««r -i«i.r hnupt»achUch an der
. H.n UnWer-lt.t and Tec^i^ ,.«P-U,n und den vielen Judl.cu«
Balis 7«nt(» Ida rr-""" » nfM-
.leU,n K»^t... -u ^d .,r .It d,r t ^^^ ^^^^^^
.,,e„Un .nd aMe.en no...at..U.n ^^^^'^^^ ^^^^^^,,^^,^^.,
,ehllee»ilc»» "«" -"^'""^ '^ ,,,<„>,., -tdUuntf or«»iil-
IB 7,u»^T>n,uh«n3 alt (llas-'r , ^^^^^
sl.rt. si. . u.T „till8ch*<..l3end .jewahrt.
ltanotI«rlBCU.i^ ,UT«au. -^"O
v,.rt m'Btlleh n)>i-«ihit '"'•''«• ^" *^
d^8. di. ^i^^^-'i ^^„ .,„ ^hrlBt-
,.* 1 Juaen taXi.'*>«e«n und lueh ol«»8 *"^<i''
•" -""' --» „. .„„„«„ „„. ..» ...<" "-"•■ ,
..„ a„ ...• -.. - -•'" ;; ^,^ „„^„. ,, «... .>. ......
-aoetheabeud- und .,,,5nllch)c.iten nu. d.r ^.Imarar
uo':8B8U«cn.ft und .u. .8. ^, ^^ . ^
^ Hi-a*r 'i-ueott durch sin Hjnu«»'
,4 ,» 7-it. die lerren unren ^ii.* i ,
r
Z
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wkir die»« ir^u t^t^tf ieh oo It mleh sua Ballot nelaent ich hatto bt*
•ond^rts 7al«nt* Unter dsn ehristllch«D Herr«n waren ?e«iat« der
D utsch^n Spai4c%8««, <}in# Kochburg d«* litutsehtiutst und eojar aiii
J un^ifr ?ur8t ron ^niieBsttln war aiiwctsand* Und frahr«nd wir taiutaiif
•agte Ich lluif ich ware gnnm ber'^uacht Ton a«« iod<)nk<fn» mlt einaa
£achkO!mnen doe rcitaelaaft«a ^ailvnoteln zu tnn-^an* ^orauf clr d«r jua^a
Vi^nn ^anx trocktn "^ntirortetat •Von ein^r RatB^lhaf iit;5c:m ist in un-
8er«r ?«\inllla nlchtu btfkaaxit*. £^t war «in jutttr Jeii'^rii ut*d ich bin
8toiz» La tiiant Gr.L^rtjeatat a«a rwaisera zu a^in," iiacadem er auf
aiesa ^itlsa gnr uicat '>af mein Ja prkch ain^ingy war ich ai^ ttaaacat
und ($ab meinaoi ii'iupttanzart der imoiar ^uf luieh wartet^t «*in Zaichaii»
mich abzuhal«B# So rerabacniadata ich Siich YOn dieaam ^riabuist von
dam ich co yiaX erwartat hatta. ^iner TOn aan B^aicten der Bank war
ein irOHBert achon^^jbaut er Mi^^iit d^r aich aia Joetha vtirki«id«ta und
in 8eixit;r J^faeiiachaft zo^^n mil iha nn dar Spltza alle baknnntan
Llaben iOathas <fin« M^ina Mutter wnr aia ?rau ^at Ooatha dekleidatt
Hu ;o B^r^^'vr.n ala ^a^^art und ich hatte zwai iCoetuoia an dieaam Abenat
elnea nla Venuattiin erin» und ein zweltas ala Liebe in ainaa ^aakanzug
Goethea. Kin nxidarer \bend war ein Soltzwegaband* und ein andarar
wiad«fruB hatta ?rauz Hnla ala Fotto* Zun 3oathaaband aracfiianan lUz
Brod und Franz Kafka ^Is Bipiom^ten mix ^rack und Spitz an jabaauund
Bruatbindarnt Max Brod »^it grune«» ?ranji Kafka mlt rot an Band* |
Lan^a^B bareitata sich eina Vei^nderuag ia Leban main r tfuttar |
Tor, Eina tlefa Ta Tiarrerahrung erwackta in Ihr ■yatiacha und rail-
^Idat Srlabnis^se und aia wurd« aina f<^natia^h« Kletsschamneriii. Daa
i
tagllcha :5aapraeh war bahe-raeht Ton Auaapruchin Kiatzachas und
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¥«3n«rs. iSlr KAad«r bakam.n «in« »orf«naunt« fr«l« Sr»l«huns, dl« una
Bpater ««iir Bch«d«t«, da tlr hcUlo. wiren. la moiu^r ?r«1U« wc
die Jutllsch. rradltion sebon ••it d«« Ur^roBSTater TsrschwundtB.
Wein Vater int r.SBiert. slch Bpoltll f^r Moha««dftni«Bu. und •■
koatat. meln«r Mutter t1«1 '.rbalt. Ihn doron i»b«ubrinet«u, Wim I»l«"
A^t.rzutrst^n. :-.r "f b««innu3Bt ron d^n Cehrift*.. de« Rascnld B«y.
«lr.,3 dautBchBf. 3-h-lft«teiltr», der d.n IsX-ua In i^oU* bracbt*.
Sp-itcr HiJrtc leh ..och ub^r dleo«n ^- nn von Tau -Ator 3ubtr, dl«
al> ridcien SeVr.ti'-ln bfi lh« wnr. l!«ch cii»B«r NUtBchtpsrlod.
Urnte 'tir.e (ten Dosant^n -*3tU ke.ui m. d.r Ihr und 'aiit, phllo.*-
,hi.ch. :t.^<l«n j^b. Auf di,., *>!». -urde Ibr J-lst d.r PhllOBOphl,
.U^Bfuhrt. aU wurdB .InB riaB.igB .lerBrin. :-atBrnl'jtin an d«r Unl-
v.r.ltit, and -urde dl. Schul .rln ^rofe.Bor Uartys. n. i«it« ail*
Prafung^n rs^ ,^ni ,rob«rt« Blch zu:Ulch ai. rreundschaft dlB.BS
BdUn ",rn.r. PL BrTtanopni lonopHle and d«,n .insteiUni «1 dBB
Teltp-obl^.n und r.« Ln abri^jen phllo.opiU,ch.i. 3y.t.m*n «x d. in
a.r -iv«twohnun,j ron .Tor^saor i:.rty aifrii di.lcutlert. di. .In*
K«iU3tu« -l.ieh^-chat* *urd, und In d,. philosochx.ch*. Kr,!..
der d,n r.nen LourrBZlT »ca ,*lBlt. n.«h d*n Caf5 '.ouTr., in d«B «
ei.H rer.«n«,U.. Dl.-»« KrelB .e^orfn « dl . T>o.Bnt,n Ka.tll uod
^.ennayer. nuch -^rofeBsor ...r-nfBlB. dar .ochlnfr....nt, uo* ori-
.i..il, ;...n,ol dB. kuhi lo.i.ch .,nkBn,..aPr-af..or «arty. .pat«
a-ch vrof..l...t,in. *x.*«i»»«*.f trat fur VlBlw.ibBr.i .i». -
^.op. .on d.r ,.Ibon a.fnbr « r.tten. Kr war .ueh Dlcht.r un*
Ko«po.iBt u- -in Sch.u.pi.I .on i« wurd. in Pra. auffuhrt. d-
T V. 1^ v»«tt. T-ine eenr Interateanta Arbeit Ton Vm war
m atlachan Iiih«iU h^tte. r.ine ae ir
ni^v,«-H Maimer ••Ina HauptBOtlTa ▼« ?ali«
eina Daratelluns. d^sa ^^f'^^^'^^^^l^^ Uarty. ~ ei^obara
« aich dia Tei^iuiiiii* « ^emin^
/"UM
SV
:.xt;rit^-
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Mendelssohn «ntnon«i«B hattet und dles«r erste Kisl halts gsniu so
gshandsit, wle alls selns ^achfolger in Tauiiend ahri^en R«lch. iir
schrisb ja bsk'^nctlich oln Bu-h, dao dsn Ju.ei. Jsds niu s ileal is chs Bs-
gabung pibspMcht ^bei- seine KnuotaotiTe stahl er dem j^nlcel von 1/oses
Mendelsohn. ?r^ih-rr Chrlbtl^.n von \*?hr-nfels war ein t-otblondert
bl-.u'iugl/?e^ ^l<»ss und 8eln« Kinder und s-ins '^r^u ^nr-n helinionds
\rl-r. Tro-X(i#m ^Inuhe Irh, d-^as •r ir^^endwie von Juden »ibHt^Biiate.
Br w'^r nlB KonlcuT -iit von ^^ofescor i^arty und dur<*h &»lne ^^i^idnarti-
fen Ifleen et^»nB ini'ifltrr.uiech itt^a^n philosonhisc^iexi /.raio aafgeao .m*l#
lun«^rde« /?^h6rte .ieu^m ICrelse -^n der Di-htar »i . 'Jtilz, nHcnmaJs
d«r
UniT*%rRlt^tso'-'>f«»^ ^r in ''OG'ok and '^«il9 fur \e8tu-tik, ttt l^uiitjs-
anhiehtl-^r Cak-ir ^ollnk, d -r '.linQ -rundUjei^ue \rb^it ab^r usu BarJck-
bildh'-iu^r P-okoff o-nri«b» deasen T^rke Klrchen -*ua ais Stei.ii;}rns
Brar^ke in Prag schraucken, ^«ui Mriinn» d-r Ueb^rsetzer rm^^zooiocher
I.ite?atUT» ^-Jfosoor Oskar Kraust Schuier lartys una apater seln Kach-
f}Vr^rf und ^iiii^e exjtiscUe Chrlstei., ^le eia ^aron -.auueriy und sin
HauiiOT^rnner, der 3i>it?r in < sn Pnmpf^s Mn^rikas at^ro, Kujo l^ere^aiiH,
Max ^rod. ^-jUx ^eltorii, ''ranii Kafka, ri^aiu Brua«r v. to ^nnta» Robert
Vsltsch und i»och ^iine T-; :jihs ^un^ier licUt^r. darunttjr .-vnaz "erf el.
Dieaer ^'r#ie *ar Strang ortUodox breut-ini ctlsch un«. es k^m au eiuen
Sk^ndnl, mIb Var Brod einmil -ine HoTiHe ub*r Ifben krcifi schriab
und Bis in din*?m, ho-ribile ^ictu, -itz')latt ^rscUanen iifas. Xmn
TS'-urtellte inn d'-zu, dass tr i.icht mahr eing'-*Iauen sur^^a una ss snt-
fltand '.ins Spal^ung der 'itgli-<ler. Dies-r \bgrund wurde absr spater
wilder a)erbra'?lct. riina ^fsucherln 'ieses Kr^ises m^r auch eins Dich-
t^rlnt D«mens Ubl««j, -ins Judin auts dea ::;udstenland» 4is Ton dsa
df»malis:en "^^ofes^or fur deutschs Lit«»rstur» 3au-r# hoch^esch&tst und
mit iviroa ^ublik^aonm -.If^ deutachs ichriftst^Uarln in sainer Zslt-
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schrift -^ngepri^sen wurde. Das war dacials aSglleh.
Jro B-^-ia Smilis k'lufts eine Villa in Bodbabat nicht w^it Ton
Bubentsch # und s^henkte Hie inr^a beiden Tttcntern, I^as ?rahjahr und
elnen T^il ass Souiaers rerbrac^iten wir da* ^as Haus st^uaats Ton der
Pamiiie Zaeknuer* ainar jetiuftttn jadischsn Kotab^^lnf tnilis. Der tar-
tan una aaa ^.ti agenhaua ./-^ren a:i t Kopiei. nach gri ecu! echen statu en
S^BCluBuclct. ■"tr.'? i*btt icn besondere* sie hi ess "Der Jangling" und
st'llte 'ir tn floteo ^ielenden larten Cf^r* :.iese ::ix*arucke des im
T^ieasraai er.' ti I ^s^'^ut-an il^Ubes «ar«n bel ir sehr st^rk una eo ksB es|
dass .^ie riedtrra^i vrEeit bo r«cht i^as r.'ira«.i«B mei^. er Seale ie'orasn
let. Lie BCh..cen Tlpazi. r^^^ncje durch ^\ia .r» '^ idchei and durcii ais
sog^nnnnte 'lies fcharket d-ir scUuntten Oegtind bai '^ragt una T.ootfahr-
t.«u und ?a len in r.^r ^'oid-.u w^j^cUeeit jn nh ..it :|rojiien } .?8«ilBChaften
una ?ami ll^-nzuB JBSsnkanf ten und i^artenpnrti **. V^\n :in^ oft 2U 7uss
uach '^-ng* - durch a«n r. um^^.-ten una durch 7ro^ai den '^arkt aesssn
scaci«9 Statuen cuu d ^r ^ait Uaria Tnereeias otnL.iaten« Z)i^Q9 3tatuen
siud in al« -unrjtgeBC?nicht« uber j^gaiij^n, r>is -'^lailie widmett sich
auch cltjm "^ad.^po-t md a'^n nacata jrouue '.uBflaija in die m^ie )ung« X)is
BcLd-^r hat ten Jedes einen Umn^m Co hl-das aas '".ad m.-in^is Vat«re "Atlas
d?r TTijanme^f «ein:;r Tants ?aa hiyaa ''Jrane a^fr H«an«r" und m in Had
hleuB "iro^li A^r ^roech", ^ine kjmiecae I^pi.ods vi od^rh^lte sich bsl
diiuen Ausfluj^n rsgelra^bsig* Ysnn w^r im Ochweifise unseres ^■f^"
/aijesi^hts unsere Hid 'r nuf dis i'uhs eii^es B rgee goschob^n hatten»
w^ij«rte siich meln Vater# noch hdh»jr zu titeijent d r in der Hoehsbsn«
.feit ^rzuf hr-Uf .^ond *rn raate fur jewdhnlich dis nachtte ''itrasss
bergab. P-ia nachaten wirthaus wartete er dann in d r *!offnuagt wir
wurdsn uort varbeikonzmen* Vanchnnl jeschnh das aucht ab'fr A^chSULl
missteu wir dem Keffen der Tant^t den nachmaligen Birektor Otts Trsimd
der /nloah'iik und -> Uerersten K;irtyrer der '^rager Juaenh««it naeh
-hf'
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I
■araeh Ton Hltltrt absend«n» \m Ihn nach olndtt gtnosBenvn jlas Biar
M«der auf dA8 Had lu Ttrfracht»n, Jroesa R^ieen untarbrachan die 89
SoBMerldyila. Veln^ Mutter ujid m«ine Tanto org^nlulerten elna
g'*OB88U ige ^ohltatl^kelt in dem kloln«ii Viilecort Bodbaba* Aite
^T'^uen vnirden y^rnorj^tf Indem m- n fur el* bit aer Jemeinde um Unter-
h«lteb*ltr Age ansuchtat and iLrin* I/utter und meine '^si^ta gab«n aeiost
«iU0 algenan Kltt-jln ylal Geld. Lt-r gnnxa Ort dtid^ivte peine 3teilung
zur Ju(lenf''«i.'?e« Ale meine ?rmili9 die Villa ub'»ri.'iBBf war ein unror-
Bt fllb«irer ^ntie-miiienauB in cer Bevdikjrunt? verbr-lt-t« Venn wlr
una nur ^'uf der Strneea zai rtynp ri^f r:in ung S^^Uranfn'ynen nach and
nelr* /roHpynt ^r \Ib.*rt iiess es sich nlcht n«}hinen» den Ijchreiern
nnchzul'^uf ^n und ^^le zu vorprvAgeln, Klne achone ;>zexie l^t mir aus
dles'^r I'elt In iji^iuii'^runtj jebll^bon: Ich nnr der beeoiid^re i-iebling
von 3^088Tater Mberti well ^iederwUfi m^lne l^utt-r 8*»lne Llebiinga-
t^ehter Wirt und er nniim xich oft cdt ^uf selria Sonzldriiuiga, Geradt
wnr *ina eolche JacJd »«af /jitiatiiiii ten beer^a.t und die u'ebeitater
hat ten iire tuehtij^© Tracht Prujel erhaiten. I^.r Jroaavater nahm
ml'?h bel d ^r Hnnd und wir .lu^ru uber die Icurza 5rurke bel der
kl^lnen '•unden r^pelle. In dem unter der Brucke riitjogei.den Baoh
arhwamm eln '^npl^raack^ auo clea iCatieanliuen ertoate. Ich bedauerta
die irraen "^1 -re, dla knufi {ebor^n, s'^hon ertrinken o-»llten. l>er
Gro3BTater anrang luf daa Jelvnair dar T^ruck^" packt e elnen groaaan
jtork, d fr (lOT-t In (p md rett«te dao Un.:lurkBpf»ket. Knch einigar
7eit b«50bfi'^htet-n yiv* wie ine ma' tor XI ch a Kr*e« die ^anze Jaaall*
u nd 3 00 r t sm^iin/
schaft bfleckta und trdstete. Vis )9Tf9)ctf;T ^eitei^ achwang sieh
aein CJrosBvater wleder HUf das Pracken^jel'ande^* und wir aetsten unsar
Spasif^rgnng fort und er aa^rta: "1:1 esa Gchirelnet Juden beBChiapfaa »
und hilfloae Knt«en ertranken» das ^iJi.nen sit#" Mit der ^^it faaata
/^nd T-^n da aua spr'ing er eiiu ^e "^ttr ti.f an dan 3achrand,
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ab-tr die BeTdlk.-rung gr^PBtea v«rtr^uan 8U unaarer Ftiaiia und wana
wir -UBUQ^ien. horten irir .ichte anderes ila -Rukulibam Hil^tpanl-.
Oder -rukuUbrm. srilo-.tpant- (Kaaa' die Hand, jnilci ;e ?rau, .jnaditiar
Kerr). Dia iihefr^uan kaman sich baraten in -aian ..henn^eie^onhaltan.
Kinder, die ron ihren .;aern ejr^uaaa bahandalt urdant bracbta man
in Anatalten unt-^r und b«ei*aete 00 ihr furchtbareB W«rty-lum.
Schwansere V-dchant li^ ecaou .la \baicht hattdn, ^ich in U^ Uuldau
lu werfen, wurlen bel ebamman un%«pga tracht. r»U »ie ihr Klad zur
v^lt gebracht Imtten. \n jine oesond^re ei.^enar -iga -^Jpisoda arinnara
ich mlch: 68 ;/fir .la aeiir achon^a V.dchan. die -Ina BeknnutecUaf t
mlt elnim Off Izi :r VmUe, ^^ie irht ohne '^isn hli^.b. Per Vatar,
Pin hoherer Ba-^mter. ja^ta 3le nua dem llauaa und Bie ..^rte .urch ainaa
Zufnilt wahrend bU scnon .n der l^idau -uf und na.lnj ^nd Bioh aan
7od jeb^n ^oilte, durch .ia. ?Tnu von dan zwel .ohltUtl^eu ^'rauan und
in Ihrer Yerzwelflur« twm tie in .nrere Villa. I^cine Mutt.r nahm aia
aofort ruf. .rufta mehh^r Ihre An^ebei; und dber^ab .ie ^in r llabaaaia
und 3-hrlab dein 0-flzi r. Dieeer b.x^hlte alle Auali^ien und Ur hor-
ten BpdLtar. i^BB er in. -..dchan geh.lratet hntte. Per bdt,e /ator
pil:erte ebeaf Us xu d .r VlUn. ku^ata dan beiuan Frau^n der Heiha
nach dia Hnnd. und rer.lcU.rte. daaa a.ina ^ochter. ..^.t dam ..Ind
Val ih« ^t Auf/?.hob«n r,.ia *erde. und nla Begrundun^ ,jab .r nn. dasa
d.8 TT.u.Taborana -^in J.nge .ei und daae ^ darub.r ub.r ;iucklich aal.
Elna -ItUlletfarin war lia .^rau d^a 7laiachhauera aa Orta. ^ua Fratt
r.mlXU '.u,r. und ,ln In Tr.^ ^eV^unt^r Archltokt ^l.ch.. d.r .la.
.u.ee..ichnet or^.nlslTt uad o.r '^uf d« b.ia.n Fr.«.n T.rbr.lt.f
.ich in d.r «-.«. lims.'^ua,, - da., wir ..It «nd br.lt sai.bt und
,'S»»'«;'i«fc'-'""''(|'';;?-i. ■
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gttoh&tst war«n» ^o wlr mir hinkaatn. Kin Beleplel dafUr war fol-
gtnd««t In eint^ ein9fim«n» finxlgen Hdusehin l«bte eln« alte Jart-
ntrln, dl« allg^eln den ?uf ale K«x« U%tt« una di« bo men«ch«n»chfii
war» dass •!« ^ein«n 'Jaasch^n su slch herein lieae. Heine I-utter und
tneine -*inte begirt ^te ale nber YOll.r ?reuci-f talt ..rdb^eren and
jun«rta ?:rb#i*»n, 30 vie f -ioehjiiaolkentr Zi«3«nmil?h.
pie ^fliilie h;\tt« '^uch cln^n 7:ir.iii«nl,Tt2 gi>acl>titt '*a wlr
«lle elni^* V'tle in d ir oche Tennis aoieltsn mS vidL 3a'jach au3
?ro<5 kiia .iU iieeefo V^r^ruien. \u-h in der Villa seib^t rarde ^runs-
aati'Te aesellitkeit gKpfi«3;t# Hque^oniertij, Vortr?iSver .u;,taitiiagen
und -^in ?t4naij*j^ ^ylv iot-rarixl ia inter ^Turde ab^^jhUtca.
Der Lieblicio^i tz 'i/in r Ifutter wir ein mal^risciies i^iudftt daa
eintjr chrlatlicher. deuta'ih- ta^hechibcueii ?-iaiil^ jeh6-ta» i;iede
T?q3ilile Uiif9»n.;r v.»r typi:ich al t-o-i^terreichiacli. :: r :.r^.in sin ehe-
mali.^er Of f i^i .r and apat-T . ^ , in xCraakh^jit p insioi^i jrtt*r o<jat«r-
relcbis'^Hflr ^e-^tit-r, die -'r'iu ^-ine rhesi^iliti'j i^raleb^rln in adell.ion
Hausern. ^la wir ^?in« ubsrecalnkg -.rerheinuA^ una trug die ITleur
der Ji-.ig^ria ilsabeth, in .a« utirn jtskainmte ^^onnyfrisur uud auf^j^
• telltc -^U^httnk-jne. Dae J«Uoft w-ir eiiie c/hemnli^e ¥dhie#
lalt dem ma^eriocUeii "-.hlrad and ^-.Ul^mbach, und iin ;r :chcu«r. deren
rarjh '^it h-ll.;runem 1-03 In d«r 30i»ne ^IrUiizte. Mn Ob©t;5firtt5nf der
In Fruhjnhr ain BluteUBiior ^va-, )rat^tii «icli zu beiiien S^iten des
Vuhlbachs aas, nn diOBen Uf^rn liia ni«d«rbu3ch^ ihrenlmit uHt
Apfelbaumhlut nrtuft yermi2chtt.u. Line alte HoUbruck'e. be.achaen
Kit y oa und dem znvt^a 7arn-^rnueiiliiif!r fuhrte zu dea Li ;blingsplat»
mein'r Furta-. T)ort, uinieben von ilargeriten und bl^uen alocken^
bluwrnt im «".hr len ->ann>- der ITischtijifiilen, er^ab aie oich dea pUl-
loaophlnchen "tudiura und ihr-n dicht rlachei; ^rbeit«n, th^hrend Tante
30 -
Id% aalte* %i>r iCliider X0({eii hoh^r xilnauf auf den Berg ola Bur
Eurjrulnef ^o elu Teppleh ?on :}raB und Gansebluir^eben Haat bot* Dort
fuhrten wir i£it LelilenachAft Schiller's Dranen silt Terteliten HakXea
ciuf • In diaa^^r po«tieoUen Umgebung entetMid ain Tfijebuch meln«r
Mutter ur.d sle ijab riich dort P.echenachnf t viber alle wichtlgen iirelg-
nirse ihras Lubens. L«i4Ur ist tiein .^xeaplnr elne Ibachrift melnea
Vattrat d'^r jlch die 7r«iU«it u^^imt "t5Uen# die e^lnor \naicht naeh
an&tdat.ii; Taron» nuozui«i8a<9n and 30 li^t i&ein 2Te£^pl^r uleht TOllstlUl»
itj. Trota.^ti uochte ich ine kurze \u«waiil liler eiufut^^jnt da ale
Lie charr.kt^rldtiaMe .;inateilan^^ miiner Hutter zu ▼erBcrxiedensn Le»
bei.afragen wieder^sibt* die Schlldarun-i una«#reB internen ^amlllenle*
b::i.at die aie ^t wunderbartim Humor beiebt und vieie ^eraonen eixi^
fuhrtf die a -r.ia anaer illteriiiiaua in bunter K^lhe »ufauchtfin» und
die b^ruir'exi ^rfrediAlichkeitenf wei he celner L'utter iroaae gelatige
Krlebuiase ub-'-tuit teiten. Auch ihr Verhaltiiia su Ihrer elnjiljea
Sch^eat^r *d.'i ii>t int »re«aant» aaa *^iii« a nweaternil *ibe aarateiltet
die jie auiiichani u zu t>rli*3t» ihr •jl^tjii^e ao ./ertvoiiea r>^ln ausjna*
loaciien und wich in in l>op^^iw^aen zu rer^'aideln. Ich zltlere eia
Jei^prach mit iiirer xYeoaaln Fxnet d^r lY^unaln dea jliiaal aehr b#-
kfxuutvn, A.eata«t.en -^o 'pmo^r^* Cle si^jte: •Manchmnl habe ich euek
b«jlde rieal<i litfb {^elne ;}ch4eater uiid ich alnd fur unaere Bekanati»
uiiirti-uiAi)ar» <*li*e i^rson in dar i'eiirsaiil) • da kanii loh nlelit ohne euell
aelut iHiinciiaal de^iice ich wi«dar talt waiirer Augat an eucht da erseheiftt
inr ode 80 h^raloa und kalt und Ich «1 ?he mlch da n fur lange Zelt
Ton aueh ^ur-^ck. arend Ich mlt eurh vprechet achtslnt Ihr air so
lleb und echti und d^f.n ^iedw*r dl«ie \bkiihlung." Melne Hutter gibt fiir
dieeea Vhkuowimut dae Ich al» typiachei Freund«chaftaph&no««ii lietraelit(
wurae '-oiu da» Ich 'luf die ron mlr TOrher erwJihnte Doapelwlrkuag al«
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B.i.pH ,nfuhr., fol^nd, BrkUruns, 'l.y, k-oin air ol.-n «,ch«,l
4.r 3mpfi 4u..«an .ahr ^t ,rklar-,n. Mn, xet ,ln. »,ich. Batur, In
Wlch P <!!• harfn Schrift„l.h« u„8«.,r Vor.lb.^rlff, tl,f ,ln-;-
«r»ben alnd. let ,1, mlt una b,l„,«,„, d,nn wl,.he« wlr «lt <l«i
Sch-»?»aai Uiisorer una durch r-'lnll^h.. ■'. t.^ ..i. _
a-rcn r laix n.s ,., hd«nit»n •yworbener /UiBchauungwi
uber dl«a. a,.i=..„3t,,f .1, iUr n Ub.t 1« d-nn far !n,r„ Zeit b,fr,lt,
M aacht rrraclj. Sprung., d,h<n. das ^*n,»ana i.fuhl. wirk,n wlr
ab.r nlcM unaittabnr auf si, eln. lot ej , „l.i, 8.,x>,ct ur.d Ihrer Unw
«.bun^ ab.r.l,s»,n. a- .a i„,t,B .l«.«r fr.m., -o^.e-un^.-n und -rUehten
auf Ihr und ci, Ic.r* »„ ,,^a. .Icht b,,a-.af,n and y:>roteh,n
Sine W.lt....8ohauuu« » h oeii. tttx«x* Ich n.ln« .m, «isene. dsw ,•-
hcirt .m u=f,B.«a.,o. :.aturle6.a,chnftUche. und osycu.s.he. M.aea.
"ur -uf )runa sachUcher :. ..tni«.. k-.m „.,.» .In. Hyoo^h.ae ,uf3teil,n.
welchs ale 3r Inrun : .eB • altjed • nk,n, dlen,n k--nn
bin, waeho. c.l. F.rd,k.lt hat. In Ue .r i., aca :ro,s,„ -.'elt r^dnnkan.
' "Ir-i.nrnl
pun te entf.rnt «eln. J.or rrof.Bsor l.nkt, «eln, Vu^.erknn^.l t ..uf
dl« ^at dtr Uom«. he^#s, dm«n ^^cits cles -r At^me ins -^U fur
»lch int, ..It Zo:.a^n und -ianef n, l..r Vortra,, der mein^ s.hnsuchf
TOilen S.h.uen in al« Ui. .rjrundUchkei t a«r i^atur eln n.^u.s 7.id ep-
•chlo«B, ma-ht^ Trous^n Hind^u^k auf rr.lch. .In.n ahiill.hen irle eln
tl^f nnch.apfundan.0 /u Ik.iuck. D,r n.mzug dea j.waitljan : .aaln.
drlnst in die aufn.hnie fiU^a Si .^elae.le. A» Ab^nd spielt* ich ainig,
Ch.pin.^ha Pr.Xuciitn, .lurch w^lrh^ ich ui a ho.hg^Ummte npaiinun^
••inar 3 ••!• .ai^ft auflkliugen lieo
. 40 .
..•••in latzter Zait baaeh^^ftigt n^ch dia naathatischa r>traitfraga
"wfta iat Forsp #na lat Iiihait ttinaa Kunatw«rkaat* !?ind di«9 baid«n
zwei trji^nbara* rcrsciUadana ^ajrifftff od^r oind nit untr^^nnbrrt I^n-
hfit. Bi fial rair folgandar 3adank« aint Der InhRlt alnas Kucatwerkat
ipt dor ^*irin nnch Mtfglichkai t (Potanzialitrt) enth-ltana iad^oka -
die ''or^ ist der m ^ir)cllc>ik«i t ( A.ktual.itat) ubarja^jnxijena Oadaxika.
HI *r koiam^n dia beidan \u8iciiten ein-^nuer ant^a.^an. In uuoern phi-
loGOphischan Cafs-Louyra-Abendan h«itten wir nit Onknr ^ollftk und
Ernst Liai4 ^hsr aiaoa ?ra^an fot^aa ebattan.
S.Eovaaber i^Oo. Ja aiahr >.rk-i*i»tnia» d<?8to mahr Ha teal •
!i:nda *Tars lill* Madltitionaubunjan. 16.Jfinui%r 1901. Meii^e Ht^ligiont
Sroteus: Peta can ochopf^r alcht u'lch i^eiiBchanirt iii# doiait arni •>
driest I)U iUii» ^r ist unfaaabar in seiner un<i$ndlichan Jrosea*
Zwylt ne' r.ciiaffa Di r nich seinara Voroilda I^^ina el^jjua ''^Iti in dor
die T-*S9tza D^iiiaa L 'bana harrachan* D^ittena: ?.-f;iindla ^^ulnan KttryoT
und } 'let :ait Varnunftf auf dasa Uu jjasund l^baat auf ..rdciw
Ti Tt^ue: VerjucUa abw-rall ScUorihait und Kunat zu fincija. ^:ann ^
mit Ilea Sxxuiun uuchdtt ai^t Du achon in dns Keich der r.cIidiiUei t ^a-
drunjeu, yunftena: Ub den Armtjn von L^inam O^lde und nicut von i;ain#
nildtin Gii^nt uad aueha uia Kaichat. "^n Jeijtf d<ia5:jie lis ^ou ihrar
l^w^nze jebrn.
d«?abruar 1901: J^ada klu^a T<it lohnt aicb «uf Srtfen«
uebtrcit'laacliolia* bnd wia Irjoar wann ich elnar ^irkun^ ,£agaxi»
ubirete^a » riia anerw5»rtat eintrittt deran Uranchen ich mlr nicht ap«
kl'iren k«inn» aberk'^m mich eina tiefa Kelancholiat dia stets in mattar
Glelchr-ilti'^keit endet. Ich mdchta Jada Lebenaatunda aufn^hmaudatt
Jeiataa roll> bahar-^scht von intenolTBtaa Tuhlan *»m*)find^n« Sit soil
mir ;ebani waa aia ^n aussaatar Helfaf 7ulla in aich hat. llioht ai^r-
wx-
u .
lloh tropf«nd darf sla lhr«n Inlwit mlr schwtVao, rsia ni*89»n aall
aua ail«» Por.B Ihr Snft, d-fl* loldselb.n dunft^nlan Harz* ^l^lih, i,r
daa Inn.rn das Bnuno entetromt. Atm,n, tlns^ujjn ao^ht-j ich lora
Pracht, blB alt adr lar j»»M98 3«ln :!b3t«: dl s 'rShllcU* I'ortiaiijtuii.
de dee .•.iitstsh.n., dl« Mltt^gsjlut dar hOphst-n Sntwlrilurn; uad dM
Voena. alia,» »ud,8 X.«ucht«n. So oolite ieh die 7ruchta .-..in.r Ctuad
zu *ii.tm iraiiz* fiec.1t»ii and mir Inn nuf« H*u?t setzen. B^a.-hwsrt
ur.d i9b.u»-t yon aoich« ^nst. dem "ort- und d^r ^ernlchtun^; eit iesaa
row -.5«b«8*^icM ^eh.a, h.lsst alcht a«.rb«n, .onderu b^^raben asin
In eln»o 'l-t •(iiii<j«r.
-°^ •^••^"» ^^' ^-•'tur in eli.,m LlabeaT^raultnls, als .-nt-
s-hUl^rt air oft iUr« T«rbor,^«.8t«„i H.lz,. Ich fuhl, nlch lUr m«nch-
■"1 Inul^at .,r. i.at. U.m* ich In aeoeni U«b,8r,'.us h« ihr .Igsat.
llrhee C.ln re.ht empflna.. lUit si, r.lch 30 in x,,,^, ^.^^ ,,1^, ,.^^^^^
aefuhle ..ilr fr«md uad r.lcht zu air gahd^'-lg e-8ch,in»n uad i .-h fral ron
9Ueu ^jjsan in iarir b«rulUj{^nG«n Umarmni; ach^il ts uuj aaiu unat.-
t,a Ich m ai, T.riier.. ]>1. jroaB, Jdttin ^Ibt a, :,ir j«f,3Uit um
llebevoH ^jatiirkt wlatiup zuraek.
3a.i.J7,rab.p 1303. Heirlcht uber eln J.p.priich ait UrjroMButter
ShTlnt,: ...L..b^ndl^ zUi^^n Alt.. Juinstr^rstorbexi, aurcn iuro
8.hH..-una«n TO. «ir auo a,« i.lchts. -,11, -iie Vorf.hr.n. ale ao .ohw„
am Lc
ban littsn. cl,r :>-uadton lot imcier d^raelb-: ArbUt, .,ol a«
Leb ne. Zwel ;u8,..hn«n '.Ud,n ,ln Urnhn T,u.,,ig ..^^ j,.^^^^^ ^^ ^^
Streb«n nach Lrkei.ntnl. das -Ja*h-t,n.tubch«, -rhellt,,, uud mein
0r>09vnt,r Simon -.nTel, der d«» L.b.n alB kur.weill,,^, ron.fcdU uufxu-
fa33,n v«r»t-,nd und elch b.l d« ernst^n ntelUn nnsen.v^ ,.,hr«a. b.i
d«n hat.»ru «ut unterh-ilttn Um.. ^r selbat 8T,l,Ue -rla rortrofr-
lloter CUar«ict«d«r.t,UT glan.end alt, eo da., .o^.r di • Lachwlt 11.
- 42 -
Doch Kranx. fllcbt. ■Igtntu.llch b.eanftlgend .Irlcn dl... 3«.prieh.
«»f mein a««ut. *% d.r 3uft der Vohi.blut. .chlSf.rn .1. dl. .rrw-
ten icmpflndune.« .!«. !>« Hauch d« •wis.n 3t-rb.n. ItibU di. h.i..«i
Schlaf«n, unT.rruckbar 8t.ht da. dunkl. ?ra««««lrh«i d«. Sain. un4
T.rd.ckt alt neluer Jros.e dl. t igllrh. Kl^ln.org. d.. Leben..
34. ^kU cu8t li»-l. M.ln Sahvi.ea'^miLttr b.aucht. mleht ($••»«"»
nnch funf«.hn J<»hr.3n und >« «rar, rIc ob dsr Vartret.r aln.r rr«»d«
W.lt n«b«n >6ir »ltz«n «urd.. ir saa. In unaarem Jart e&.al»och.a,
n-xhm ain r^ach nach u#« <ma«rn In dl. Hand. a<.un dasB .. dr«l Buohw
.^.Den koai... ..i. ^iclchx.lti • utb«n-t«t und nuf .-In*. Tioch U.««
und sOTi.l 0,id kocten, war Ih. ui.b.^-rel filch. Uaua k.imwi all. dl.
nalT-n yr«S»n. »arum ^U« eliantUch l-.rn.. *«8«r.g«n aorl.l. Butt.r-
brat. auf«..trich.i. -arl-n, »a. »lr In Podbaba trslben, wann wlr ka».
Miich- und AUhwirtscaaf t anben. I>««wl8cn.n .rklirend* 'art. ub.r dl.
merk«irr.l!<. Tat.ach.. a;88 er so acUone d«fa ntinbe. 01. iiadoJi«ii,
.el». ink.lfcmi-.B, uann... xua clu. ^iten SU,f.l »3r a«r Has. ».g und
■.tst.a dl. aodsrn lacklertaa ror iha Uln. So mua.t. ^r in .1. hln-
•in.chlipf.n. lifld dar J »'ua.r ab,r dl. ^rl.l« w.l.a.n Kriig.n und
Ta8eh.ntuca.r. aia ^03an M ideh.a hatt.n di. .w.i iroa.en rot.n. dl.
.r fur ai. ar.i lUis.^or-^i.r. mltn-,hB«» wollt-;. S»gnn .In Duti.Bd
«el8.. T.rtau.cut. ao^.r --Ik.thandBchuh. «oUt. .r ub.r a.in. iV-
ben abs.arb«ltatcn Bauernhand. .lahw. Tmn Ut .in J'en.oh wl. ^a
Stuck f.U. haraaa.j'j'ra-h9«n aua Kutt.r Srd., .ich nihr.nd, wat«>.
leb-nd ohn. Abaicht, ohn. B.«ur3tB.in ..In.r ..Ib.t. wi. ^a Bras la
dicht.n uald ..in-ct ron Alt,r i.bro<-h.n, eo wlrd .r eln.t .t.rt^
ohn. ain. Le.r. xu hlnt.rlna.en.
U.bar Lnngewalle. Ich hah. .« oft .la. 8.h.l.. Aag.t Tar lte«
Bintr.fn uad dann. wenn ich alch unt.r Uat.rhalt«ag.l-cUr. hla*.».,
- 4J •
sprlelit ctmis la mirt Du darfit dloh elnaa •» niohtlgen Vtrjnujaa
nlcht langt hlngvbw. du cusst fur dl« ?ortbHaun,i duinsB aalstcB
BOrgen, dureh Lesen und VePBtanan nchwer bu «rf«88«nder philosoptii-
Beh»r Oedsnksn, durch yiaderoclireibaa von Sslbatarda .it«. IcU •chrsl-
*• dl« Un-uh« 1» -)«jale8s«n «elaer nwTttaen VsrHiUajunj su und jUcat
«inm wlrklleh ntn-k rfrt «lokelt«n Zug ..nch V<irTolllco numni. -enn loh
T9rt-»d«l» Oft 3'»-»ld8eaUs viai« a*und«i aaineo I-eben.. " eaa icb .ir
«uch T0r8..,».,Uen y -mn ;. d-^.B die .i>t^,a.-n«aa,t2t«n .i^'.x.sciiaf t.
m.lner Vorfnhren In ■ Ir «i,.«a T«rs,«lfaten Kr.mpf u» VDriiarr.ctiart
fuhr«o und d.durch -oaae Unruh^ h«rb.ifuhr.n. oo k-,nn Ich mlr d«n
frx,aUch.n Z«„t.fld. ci,r ^ich oft fur Un^, 2,lt ,rfuUt. ,ar Ucht
•rklaran. Ich b.ao, a,na 1„ aolch,n Au,-,^>,Uck«-. n.luen Bchwach durch.
B4cn ^leicb aurch jeoen irebei «^1 n 3 chu ciitjrn
Abaad« b,i. s ..-,f,n5,b.n hatt. Ich »ln au88,rct .n^«ue.>«,» j,.
fuhl der stiilan B,frl.cii.-ua^ In «lr. .oh^r k.™t dl .8, wohll^. a^
nutaetm, uach erfuilt^r -fUcht. alea, Au.«,,Uch,nh.l t. di. nach
einer ganussrtlchtri .'Uunuc nie slnt-itt Wn^>» w i u
di^ nicht<*rf das JeBetzburh far aim ^i.y^n-.« t? ^ 4
lichk^it i^t una noch nicnt in /i-iocii und i^int .k
i'x.xBca und Biut ub«rg©ifaii»j9n. iie ist
noch nicht ▼srdaut and er««u.ct a*«h«ih ^^^ la - u
^j»«u^i aetjuaib oft 3e»chwerQ«n und I/ruck. Un-
er.en echon ul, ^r«ft una d.n Saft qus dlttser Eahruaj
hnben. Wir h^ben dl, Xiube und die \rb«lt....«
Phlloaophlscle K .rae, oowi. ,in Kara ub«r 'o.t>. - ^ ,*
wnren in Pra^ b^ruh^t und brncht^a melnt Mutttr «dt ln«
•r aehr Mentch«
•n und ^ach Srkenntnls duratatM. s.
-Vn-
• 44 •
war daher kola Wuadart dmss 8I9 auch iclt thoot?opiU8Ch«a Kreieta in
Verbin(iua<i trat. Zu ^rat w^r »is dit rateelhaft© Jestalt dar ^lawatlkl
di<* an l»fu-jfi*jrda dar Schwest^^frn arizog und Im 7,U8nain«nh«»nj^* !nl t dl^aaa
Studian l-rnt^n oia dia ^rnu elnew h3h«n ocat'jrroicliiachen BaAintsn
k^anen» die sie In siyatlacha Krala^Jt dl« .J:lelc^i2el tl^ chr'iatllch ^a»
rli'iitet wnt»en» tflnfahrti*. ?m^ b tibtjn Zalt iescliifti $ten alch dia
Cciiw ;atern ait waniaient liplri tl- tiecha n "^hafiom snan* m^ini? ""^nta Ida
«ar Stfibot eln ot?irke© Mnuiua und *ir hatt^n bei dleaer iel^^^^cliait
5#ir iateresaante ^ri^fbaldan, Eln schw^rar '^i»ch» «>in ^uazichtlaoh
j t
uei«dntaorochand achwarttr ^i»iage» ar i?rlxob sich und r'lo^ iro a aiJIi
jlnda diis *il:uaerti zu« anderni *o jr iiicii ffierkmiruig lautlos nl tidaraittata
"It t;iltaa aerit^i§ scaiOBzen #ittaor uia K9tt«( vo^nuf er uich aaatiadig
und Sddi«jaruUij wi*jd^r -in a^inaa iAi^ ?atanaateB ^l»^t« otelltt. Ma dar
liichtir I'ayrinck b«i «iii ^r B^kni4»tan mlt neiaer 'Gutter Tjua^^ffijatrs^t
flog elua ^i«iid'?rbur9ta uurch d^s "fiua Fanater hwrauat durcfi daa aadara
herjia. ^Uu vor JCU'-zer Z-»lt VitrBtOfb^a^r Bakiontjrt ela Srhiffon. ait»
dcr .uf utfOi ieara jestorbeu *'.'irf m^^^fldtsta sicii uad bat» m*»n mcchte ceiiup
ea /uigeiiori.ii«a aas Datuai sii^ae Todsu nittvilaa* daa aifsen unbakaiiat
w:ir» da aar Y^tisrt «in f-omra-r Judet «» pchmarzlich t-mof^ndt dia Jahr-
Z2it a^iiiN#a 3j:iaaa nirht zu ▼ircen, ^la aEcJiste rtufa 4er Katwlcklung
kna d^a wtuulam der '^a8*\at-'"h«0 30')hia» ao^fie der iaaiachan Weij^heita-
lehrjr*. ^11 uiaaa jai ti^^en j;ri«briiu8«» wurdaa elaaai jrosaon -ublikiua
in CJ^et:^-.! voa Vortrncjsn abermi tt.dlt # so diaa aigaatllch Has v:€i8tlga
deutB la Prmg rtdnai^ in den deiatfsa-ntwicklua^sa dar x««i r»chwesttra
teilii'^ha. l/UTh diena Kor.naxloar?n k'^man dia Schwaatara aueh Tult
der viitaropOBophia in Verbiudung. ^uuolf Steiaar'a Vortr*«^a ruhrtaa
dan ^r-^-nea literal rch-JjUillosophischan KraU auf uad la dan aaal-
mrtie-n P'iuffiun m«in«3 Mtarah^uses wurde dia iruaduag ainar aau-
th^o:)ororbifchan Loga t^aftricrt. Ich arinnera mlch aoeH an d* 1
rr»
-s^-
' . "' %
''!^ -*.- V
Z^
- 49 .
Uclx, Au>.ch.uckun<{ m*t umtm iroaaw zi«n.r., e. war au.j.riiuBt,
aitt d.« wand^a 8t«nd,n Blattpflra«« unf rbrocu^n ron Straus.M rot,r
R-8,a. Auf rtan. Vorrr^.pult stnna ebwf.u. ,in g.waltlg,. Ro,,n.
b.u^u.t. dl, rot. oo.e ut J, b,lc,.nUich da. Syu>o.l a,r Ro.,nkr«i.,r.
An dar WiiTjd hloj; -in KoloaaalsaBui-ie. n«-Ht.. ii—.., i -
» i»a-jiu_ti 10, aa^at3ij.»aa oiu Bcttwars.s Kr«uz»
u^fihM Ton ,in«m ^asankr-^a*. Ru.,oir 'it^ix.sr -ab d«r Lor- ^ „ r
3ilaiuiOiog«, ..ach asm rhiloaoph^n -Jlz^ao, -o^ohi «ln« h^n h, ♦ n
^-- iv,4i« L .«.'i^w, .uxiioj. eindB Dorancitan Pr*-
«er Mlonorb-n. ,i. aucb Trof.jaa,. • ,„ -
«erad. «ir., \rb.lt ub.r t,„, ' "'*"' '^^'' ***«*^"
u.ter .„« .„..,. ,,, P,..aucu..x. 3t,U„ ra .„d ,' " "''""
^c.... .teXifn. -u .1 ^^* '""""■" ''-''— ^-. ale a^a.
Au..n -.a .„a. ...., ,,, .,^, ^^^ .:.n..T: : '" """ "^ "•
ci.e>. cau a.ai .at .....ut. .., '1 ""^ ^"''^'^"''" ^*-
- --^.b a.,.. ,.ute.. .1. elJ* T" ""■ ''"'" ^''''^^''^" '*'-*" -«*
rl..,n ::t.i„..„ ,,,,, ^,„ ^ ■' --^-"'^-- "na Anhan,..
BarVuat untard-.-k-p h. . . ■^'^soten nb«r J,<ie 3^
^= - ^sn, rta doch cii, th,o.,a lU8c-,e-
auca^run^^n T,Pdnn;.^n. -'38''chtun^a-
iiluig« j!.ilP8 W/.r tint. . K
» WT una i,.ben meiacr J'uuer m , »
^o«»"..ae uni a„ A«thropo.,onhie c.rl.^ t .
"•■^ •'•, In -i.p.D V,rl"uf ?.i- i„ u;. ,
^'la. den ,.a„.i,,„ ,„.,^^ " ' '" -^^^ '-^ ^ri.iaeUer
-*u«?na^c ^rl*>nl8 fur ro-.ir^
?!nnn *ir, un<j ypho"f- ' , <i '
•ciwftlich, tr-ufb^h,, ,„ , „ ■■ "*^ ^^ -^'^« -rt6,.a-
"T rn««r UnlTt-rrltat. «;-ir-» o .
(Ul d«F
Vfe
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Pr«i,r UniTeraita^iaaenf »i^ »ich lEim,r ^.la Vo-b«r<.ltua« dl.aM Ihr.i
I.eb,a.wuacti,,. J), tr«f una .lie uu furc.itbnr«r r,chi,«, d.r Krl.g
brncii ,ua. i>x. V,-2w,xaan,i «Un,r l(u fr d^rab.r. ,1. Hu.to B,ri«nr«
.-Uich in dM ,reten "ngea n^eh ^nilzi.a ,inruck« .us.te, war unb.-
e-hr,ibHch. Tag uad ; «cht .acht, si, .a nl^hta anr,r,a nU ihn Irs.adJ
wle d«r ;,f.hr zu entru.aen. S,lb.tT,r,t^dUch wT,r«n diee. B«uhua-
••n re-„-,bUch. ana ,ir, aach zwelj .hri^^er Xrl,i,d«uer -la KoUag,
B.r^;«.r:» nnch P^a^ k-,.. besturmf al. itxn, .« Ihr zu r-tf^llchw. :.lt
B-in.r Abt^Uun^ ,n dl, F-aat zu ,'eh«i, da. alch d-.«.U In Un.an, b.-
f'.nd. r*r Leutannt kor.i.t. ,, durcha.t.«,, anas «i. ala iU-a.^cenachw-
.ter elch a.ln.r .„t.llun^ ,nocUU.„.ea du.-fte. .x. aatt. uat.r«.B.„
=« J.dl.ch.n S,U»1 in -„ ,in«n Kr.nk.apaa^erl.aenkur. b.aad.t. d«
Ihr da, ...cht :nb. ,1. .ot.kr,u..chw..t.r .Ich zur .roat «. ..i,i.n. si.
war .»a xhr,, "i,a .Icht .bzub.in^a und ao U„aea ,lr ai. .cbw.r.a
H.rz.n. zi,U.a. I,.l„r »,.t .1. aich .ihr.nd dl.a.r ^.la. durch di. u^
.«**n ine ..ler^ukrrinicheit 2ii^e«o<j«n, die Bchon intent
■•rt.. Uo si. In d^r ..tapp. nnk-m, mu.at. si. z«.i t,^, ,^j ^^^
tl.dera.h.a «it ihr.m 3ch«1.3.r«oha .,rt,n und b.autzt, dl. J.i.^.a-
heit. xlt ... dort at»tionl.P«.rt,„ . tab.ar.t Sch.ch zu Bpl.l.a und
.•l««?r.und.-haft zu .r-«rto.n. a1. d,an Hu;. B,r:s»ann .ak«, mlt
elnar II^rMehmch., ,,r U.r ..tab.arst b.relt. Iha nneh M.a m .chlek.. .
K«ln. Ifuttar hatt. la l.a d.a Koaaandn^.teo d.. Parlwa^ ..pital. .1.
rh-a.o,hlo.h.n ^.ahdn.j.r r-t.i.-r. b.aucht und d«.zufoXg. wurd. Hu.>,
l«rg»^.m dort -ufg«na=«:^n. I'eln '-.ud-r Ctto war d'.mal. ,ueh In Tien
alfl rritt^lr.huU.hrer titlj und ao b..ehloea.B wir, dl. z^U . dl.
Hu?« ?.r3m nn In ".pltol T.rbraoht., in l«i mwrl.^w. I;l... z.it
wor fur Belna Kuttar <.*ln« jrobe. :.-holunij.««lt , Sl« T.rkahrt. tI.1 alt
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2rnst Ifuller* dm Blbllothtk^ir d#r Ju .Ischtn lemaii.ae, ci«a U«b«r-
8etE«r Biallkt ins Deutsche und den Her«U8<jeber rleler phlXosopkl-
•ch<^ und thi»08ophi3eh«r w^irke, Auch -ndtre guiati^e P^rsdnilchk al-
ien wlrkton ^nr<fg«i.d nuf ihron wisBensdurstii^en Vdretand. Al» Hujo
Ber^aiin au« der Spitnlpfles© entlftaeen wmr # ubareiedelten wlr uoch
fur elnl^t ^ochen In -Inen ^'orort ta n#ner ''nldt wohin meino iilutter
•iue Treundin von lhr» ain© aiirlftBtf?iI«rln, die unt^r a«m l«aman
H#raann D^hl ▼l«l.»jel«e«nt Paiaan« reroff «it ilchttt, elniud. I;le»«
Vrtdiunain t-rrad^^llehte es* 'i»*»8 «iii Jet^uch iiujo Bar^ini'j.-nBf ils ]>ol-
Bitttscher bvjl der Arair;e ^iiir^eruiht zu wercian, posltlT -^rladijt wurdt
und 8^1 wfiren wlr iii« .lacklirh, Ihin der 8cureckllch«n L-b;»n8j«f ahr
entruckt :u sahtn. Vmn^ llutt^r hat ii^9T die \n8icht au8i5eBprochon»
daes I>oktor Gt-jlii^r recht behlelt* d«r slch eliuttal aucserte, dass
HU£0 ierjBnnn den xirie^ iut abaretehen <urde» und noch zu jrossen
Auf^&beu la P^laEtiiia berufen sel* ..eider h«4t i-aine Juttttr d«i
z^teiten Tall der V. eisea^ung in seiner ..rfaiiun,,^ nicht mahr eriebt,
nie -Ti-ebte noch seine Hackkehr n^cU Kr4.eg0ende una sciae Berufung
nfich ^-.ondon nla Se rctar aee *^r*iehunj»aepartia*jiit8 aer Zioni^tiecheii
Organisation unter 3chinnrjaiiu Le#ln« *>le war aua Li-jbe zu ihrea
3chwic jeri>ohn ^Iu»^o 'il^Ts^ai^nu una aue Verachtun^ der f^ulen ;aseil-
cchnfttiorduun^j in ;ni 'opa entechlJesent ait une i-ach "f^-^aastina zu
g«hen und ^ollt<» raaik^i ihr L ben anat*rn. «vU8 inem 3rief an
Ber^^inn entn«hinQ icht '•Liebee Huueiet Ich beschaftige aich Jetit
so eehr mit d-lnem P'^lastlnaplAnen. lia let eiue Aueeicht auch fur
micht noch na^h m.?inen Tun8chen» nach mein r "ehnoucht zu leben. Ich
denki mir das 8O9 daaa Jeder der in einer solchtL^ Jeduinscliaft lebtf
fbrnlieh d^a Segonbrlngends seiner tagllrh^ Arbeit fuhltt dass maji
tndlich festen Bodtn :{«winnt in der \usubung seiner PfXichten gegsn
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ftDaerei ohne das indiTlduelle Streben auftreben zu amoeen.
Wel'^he ^'or«^b*it w^ire ntttig, um aich ir^en wie Torzuberei ten zu finer
nutzlichen "^itijkeit? Teh denke "nlrf ea «are ;utf anatandig ^ochen
zu koiirif?n od«r lart ennr\r«lt zu
rersteben, Ich steile es mlr
alB Ideal T)rf noch •'uf o Ine altan Tage nit* Kocain od^r \ufsehsrin
ein^r Kurhe r.uch -^llen nutzlich zu p *ln. " jiixi ich nur uoch den Kopf
h'ittet heb>-aipch zu 1 ?rnen. Ich kmai j.ir .:ar nicnt a?i'ien» wie unaus-
sprechlich zuwid^r ri.i^ uns^jre G-iaeilBchritsortlnan ; iBt» Mir iot»ais
/jint^e ich uber riumrifef in die ich :-^nz zu verbirken ,laube. Colite
da eine itettun^j moijiich seiu? Koi ate "-?*n fid ?fei*;r uriter ?reien le*
beUf d^im *urde aich nlchta in iiUrop% hnlten kOiin-n. .i«n Verzicht auf
die ^enuHBe der h6hc»rn Kultur djnxe tch "lir fur aich aehr ieirht. Sa
habe ich jetzt eine Iloffuun.^ ror "ilr. Dich k^s5dend .'^^iina.''
3ie ^olltc in eintfr Kwutzoh y.bchic &eii«i si et aie Yur^/bhntet
^jintTOiie 3nionaaffle» niet die nur phiioi^ophischs Bucngr inb* dichtets*
musizierte* in ieeoliachnfti^n jiacztet Vurtra{;e hieit w^bur die sohwsr-
8 ten and ti^fsten Problrjia©, pie stirbf jreii «lt ocin ''ei^ruhrsn sich
k;uTiei anstrene^te* ua ihre i^.9chkeuntni«:se «ieder zu eru'^uern und der
neuen Aufs^abe :;ewach8en zu sein* :ie abcrspiunte ihre iCrufte und
atarb auf aieae \^'^ise >uf a^m ^ege dar v^rwirkiichunj ihrer Aiijsh an
Herzsching. Sie err*ichts "ur ihr zweiundfurifzit^stes L bensj^hr und
ihre ailerletztec ^0 te liTor kjie das "^e uaftaein yorlort waren la
'^one tifjfeter Traueri •Zweiundfanfzig J^hre! •
^rofesBor Oerhard Kon«i«ki, ^heraalij^r UaiTeraitatsprofessor an
der Pra.^er Deuts'^hen Univgralti.tt s hriibt in teinm .ebenserinnerungsn^
Kunchsn IdI5. In T^r^g gm% es ein^ ;<«i8ti<t 8«9hr hoch stehends 'OasttPrau
Berta '^^^intat die Hhnlich wi « Vadans de Stf^el <?lnen KrelB ron IntelXsk-
tuellen xm slch siraselte, Kan laa ^stf^n^l! enm Htf^el Oder Flchtet wohsi
-n-
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der Phiiosopb HUtjo BeTp^nnut der Schwiu^jeraohn dcr -^r^u ^^nta ill
Int rpr«t funjl^irtt. l^r w«r d^mnls PiV)ioth-l:*ir» j«tzt let /er Pro
feitor der Ualrerisltit Ji*ru8^1e« unci *lrie antri^aXiCt e Koryph%e# '^Ir
Btnunten -in dies^n ?^nt«-Abenden ub^r den j^ictigen riocU&tand ai«oe]
?rau. Herr ?%iita» aar Btaltxer der nltber^hmtiiii ^;lnhora-A.potA«kt
nm Mtetadt'ir* 'iln^» «rir «uch ■i'ii*rh«'»l anw-st-ivj ju . iiatt^ «jb«tnf tiia
atarka phlloc jp^jiorhe Interesseu* }jer 3ohn» Ctto rontfif D^t^u-hta
mein»» VorlfsLULviei:! ind ni;»^j mlt -^^^jiZ -r Steele 'n :rir« 'ancottil cr-
der Phyoik r ''hilU; .'t auk und 7r-unciilch, 7r^unaiich iiielt cixiaal
einen Bchoiiin Vo traj uo^jr ula rjiniit^jntheo-i d. Aii* /luz r<*cJiiina^»i-
tjer una sniir iiituraakil^iriar rtfiiiie^us r •^nr aer Gciirif tat^iier Tax
3rod« I<^h h.>be liin au ^ix«cBi Jt«ner \bencie von Ircy^ra Lio^raphie das
\3tronomtjn Tyho "rrJie uraahit* die Ihm daa ""nteachviiJiEiit iriii zu
B«ln*»m ber-.hToten ?.')rann "Tylio Brahea Wag «u ;;ott" iiif-,'fti,
Ich ^itit -iiiicni \jti Prnu ?auta -'inen «rrdaaan Vortra^ uber Kcji-
druck irmohttj. Auch cfrjTn«^*iU wnr 8»jhr lnt»:reopl2rt , eii -t sich vlel
mlt Bolzqno beochi-i.f ti^t batte und dessin '^^Tm<lT<i^u aet5 Un«fncliicaan
kniitite. Ich h^b« solt an mil eo ab©r3?hwi*9nill 'Jhar Berudo'^fliii: ?1 1 cia-
aprochan wi e b»i aicaam Vjrtra-j»j.
Lringe 7«it iiinuarch vairaan icjn«jr
norh iod-nken auoijut'^uscht. ii.inmal erzahlte irh ^n Tinen ^«»nta-r\band
Ton dera b^rahcittja '^ra.ier I/os.-nten S^il^nmn Fintor.
?riu ?ant" hntte ^iria 3chwa«ter» die "^it den ^ra^^er Pachtaanwrilt
l)r«'^«*und r^^^-h'lr^tet v/ar und dam Klub D»»utach**r Kunf^^tleritjiari prii-
aldierta. Ihre •^o-jhtTf ala :'9dl«ln studlfrt hptt*, :'ora» hulratata
dan aehr tiK'hrlj^en ?hiloiog,jn Dr.nichiilt der ai^-h z«;nach. t :\le lllttal-
•ehuilelirer betrtticjte. riv ;nb aem Sohn dee Vt»rln>^8 uirHhanai^ra
B#ilMniin T>rlTat«tun2an. ibinas '^agea aagta (Jer Junge B^laaxin m Xfingi
. 50 -
L«hr.r: ^^igentUch tun sxu mi. l.id. iU-r I^olctor. 'oaen 3la nicM »
una iuB ;eaclxift eintreten? ..er Y.t.r hat .i- ^oua^jt. ich n-ichta 34a
frai.n, Di.a.n utrag .rachte der j-inja ^tlim^.n in so nelt^r :-om
vor, dnsB ::oktor Bi-h^l wi-'Uich .in:ii.g and nach icurztr BaapracHung
ait Ker-n ^.Ulannn -inig turrta- 2r ntnnd nun luf .xn^r gaiiz anaarn
BaciB unci k niite neinan wlfcsenarhnf t Ucher. Interecueii aachgahao.
Frau Barta ?antn **tirb uf tr^ :i8-na .*ci5« icurz iiacU UM.
D-xrz-xU h'^tta aich i.r.::.»r ;ni' nn .niacal > istn, u^it . r ui uad Kiudtjrn ameh
i^alaotma .lunzuw^sr^d^rn. '''rau '^'r.ntft B^hwutkte aehrt ob aia Mi tgeUan
nolltnt um nort in d«r n uan H^imftt ir»,i.cwie xiuiziich oeiu asu kon-
nyr, Tirf sicn alt u«r Ibr ?i j^nai* -:.i.'?rjia ^af .Ho Ko iikun^t. Vo«r
noch V)- d«- \breiJa ^uraa sia .uhr^nd der ;rbait von <^inm lltiraaciiiag
^-ctro'^ffTH. Inre Toteuf ii^^r i« J- -isciian KatlMia. deflfc»«n ^roacar Saml
dicht ccfaiit w^^rt blriibt air
'■'rfri.it:'i:«'^^--'---- ' -'' ^""'"'^Xt.t)
• Ll« die^e ■.urzelcnnuiigon uber ■•lue ."ir.iiia loUaii sin Eilo
an ."raft u^r r^Wibfrsud., 'ier j-fuLlth-lt u.1 1 .-UiUB- uad ilri«b«n«-
kri'tiu, cl« ihrar Satur sntstammt^n, ^ie iber rueh auo dor zat und
ihrer J«oorg«nfa,it. u,r i««l--h-rtha t ihr- ..xiet.nz, ilir*r laat^l.lA
l,n, TiorHli-nien und Ueber.^u ;un;3-r.lchTh •! t ^ita.rlnst. uud f«»t
TTanVrt •>r'.r in d«M 3inuben «n wi, fsanBrlwft una a.r Ittth^r.ntwlc^iumj
der ••af.scohelt. I^ifber Unube trrt -.n r,t,lU arr reii,^i6»en. dtr
Jud.ntume.:>i.ubl3-K-lt. di, -U -^lU -^U ;lon,n lUr.r 'v.mUX^UiX wgta
un-l •■Infachh-it -Un t'n,j«bll(let9n und \m-n xlt. T,rzslh«ad«« iAch.in
ub^'-l-.aaen nirCe, rr.it ler f wtsn U-b -rseu run«, d'lsf *nmnl dl. %i6»«»-
schr.ft It^ra s'Lorr•ir^• "egent«rh-ift ub^r die C-nse t'mschhait T«rbind«
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und imai^r hbh«r fahr**nd '^ufrichten «*ar(1e. In dianer b>b«rzeu .xixii*
fjimloii ei« Hiimat far len itsltitt vie «!»» in der Schblih-it lhr«9« ir-
Ci8ch«n Zuhau«8<9Beiiie f-.r ihre nesth^tischen Bedurfninae i^ahrunj
fpnden» durch Kunst und i»atur jen^ao zu^leich. Ich iernte pchon "la
Kinr! ' li«-fi niit iHreii Aujeii BcheHt 30 aaaa Jiir -aln ::tuc1c Lnndschnft
i ^pr ilw Kjiistwerk 'ichoii i7. .liiCdn ontgejiiitrat unci i'usik* lfil'ir<il»
l^ilf1h^U'?r'^l > ii*f.i w-ir «t.*?-3 ^n^j vi »iiplcht njiasre Kind -r nis Vnter-
un««r und •^nder'S Gebite Xirutia* sa vrtr <?ii*« Uibetun^j der mei^tichilchen
V
vjr Jad«« Kunplwer^e vuriiei^tu Ui-^n uxf^U ;leic iiz'.i ti:^ vor der ▼tjrbar-
g«a#n 7otth^it» aie ^^iraae ii^i lllrtr Vrfr^)Orgefih^l t ai e *riiie hatt^t
• ich In :run3t, " iiie^usciiif t zu jff .^iio'^ren. ]f«in« Grosern'jtt ?r zlti.r-
te i -r .'>«?th;s ' ortei """ rr "VlBsauschrf t -ma ..'unnt 0f?9itzt» der hnt
RUrh Hrlici^n; .ver clt^ii© bdiuen laciit beBitzt» der hube Rellilon,"
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d«skrtfi8«s T9n uns«r«r 7rmi 3«rt« '^nata \bschled n«haaa! Tir ti^b^a
8la 9lla in lhr<A L«b«9a ((ill«bt iiad T^rohrt* Hvutat ia <^ir 'la ihr«a
Sar^e atehan* da ''Ir dl«»«;8 L^ibtsOt deosafi ^.ufte .rkBiAa uad dai^bara
Z^ujita #ir wr>r<:;af <ibj:«achloa8<fa 8eha&» da tritt zu diaaer Li«ba und
DenA wl8 ci<ur uad jlulidl tiled il8jt ui^ttea L^fbt^n ror una* I>la
Frna* ua dia vir Mler trauern» h«?t inr L-^b«n uieht elnfnch pnssiT hia*
g«na!iiiii8a» wle es inr ;«raaa sU;;of'ilXan i«itt t^^ood.ri* liiia Ust tsm fr^i
uad kr^f tig i^^eb iarfOi ei^auaxi lawalatif f<frii roa ail#r ki«)iuiichiC8lt»
gestnltetf ji« o^t 08 T«rst iiatsa* iur:fa i.v'bt$a ^iu-iU ::iun £U c>«^^a«
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air d#i-^aa kaiiat s.'ia «a)irU^ft Juuiachad liab» i£i>o«y «ir ana 3iua ui«aua
iaabeaa in aaa orttta aua^i&iaearaaasa; I
?rau B«rta ?aata bnt iar i;aii;&«8 ufstina iaa^ uuTtfrbruckUieb ^#- I
atrabtt dan a«i.t aa fiaaaa - wu^d ilia ^uf ^raaa su Tdrairicileliaa* f
3ia Uat uicata i»a a«Ur ^(jii«bt» via dis tal&rbeit uad dla ..^r-
kai^iAtaia uad aia aar ia i^irea KaiiuaXa tou uiciita aii^eraa on^tisiBtt
aia 7oa jan ^illaat Jauaaaai daa ^ut^ xu. tua*
Daa i4^t 8ia uch wihrlich g-staa - ait ?ili«r "ia ,«ibit iUr8a Ja-
fuhlsf ait daa gucaaa Klnaata ihras Vl^^rant ^rachaa and tapf^raa V
atandaa* uud B*it jaaer 3tiil8 uad Varaehaheit daa vohltuaa* dla d
a4laa tfeuacdaa kanaaaieha*;t«
Uad wi« hat 8ia dia ^ilirlidit i«liabtl Yoa ibr kaaa aaa* via
a^-tea raa «iot?r ?rau ant^sas iiir Lab^a war caa Leraaa gaaiteat. kit
uaUiubllchst^B ^lf#r uad doch ait iin«r auad8rbar8a Baachsidaahait
aabtf 8i8 sich dan :;rou8ea 3al8tt»ra dar l^gxiachh-it icit aaitaaar la-
tan8itiit dacht# ^ia ab«r alia ^robltiai d«a Li«fbaaa aacbf ait aiaar
Aufn'tliB8rihiik8it otin8 Jleichan trf taste aia ^Il8 u urn J«d:.aikaa ua4
ait einoa etaua>::a8v#rt«n0 xnrteBt acbt w«ibiicban "^iikt MAs^ta aia
iui2ure^8n und i^eistig su ford^rn,
Da8 ^iiva hab-n <ir» i^ra ?r»und^» au uiit»ar«ja jrojii^aa «»utaaa ar»
fahrent van f»il ciea au Ban .*lr ^etat au uiicertsia ^rojjtjaa Scboi«rsa Ab»
acnied nehata,
Ab8Ciilad a^batsBf fur iwrn^Ti oim^ wia aa aouat unsara Ja^srobabait
«ar» Ta^ und Ort uti6or«r nuehs^ten ZUBniiia«akunft su bcatimx^sa*
So oiei'>t un£ ui :nta» ai8 cif^nkb^ir iOt deiu und su 7tfraprac)aa»
daae «lr /rau Berta F^oita fur i^i^ar Xl, uuaaripi J«l»te i^band •rbiU.tiA
«o I 1 ea«
^ iat eina ^t^rk^^raii^t f^il;ua^ aaa J«acUieka» daaa a«ia latataa
Oaspr^cb* daa ich silt irnu x>arta -^nuta b.9tt«;» aia Unaterbiiekkait
d«r Scaia b«traf« tir bitbea das Jai»praeb aicbt suaaaa f^afubrt* HuUtat
blar oa dain<ia Sarget will icb ea ba^iidaa* B^aaaaa mit aincr aiebaraa
Ark^untnla» nach dar au &.a a-^Hr ^eXacJiat baatt «ir K«nacbaa ^aubaa
aa dla Linjtarbiiebkait dar S aia* aieaan kouaaa air nichta ^Mb^raa 4ap
rub«r* Aiaaa a^^r «rird *^r hiart aa diasa« r(«rgtft auf daa daliiagaca»»
gana ^ab«;a diaaar ^^i^taa '>Iiekaad» einaa aird air hi^ar gawlaat waaa aa
alaa Uaatarbiiebkait dar Saala ^ibt uad ia walehaa ' iioia iiuiar vir aaa
diaaa Uaatarbliebkeit daakaa ao^aa^ da» Barta ?«tata» auaat aia gaaiaa
•rruagaa hibaa* daaa da hatteat wahrbaft uaa richti^^aa lag* Lalia wMLi
—WaWWMUIIHluil jil)n»HJi.i-mii
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Qm^mi^9€m for Trnu B«rUi Faatm.
^ifim Tod« ^Xskmm H«ld«iA» belM lliraa cli^rr TMi«rt4iUaiM» ¥«rAi^d«it uaA
S«v&ititf ▼9rl9b^(llit (.urcn das J^f^ia roi. ~4ii«^r^ acu*ru uod »ihtn
•ig«ii«A Tod» d-r Vorwurff d^ss wlr due irotts^ uld* t^(*iiU4i g«li«bt9
IhA aicht mlt 'iHer ua»tr^ Xvmft g«Ui>if«n, aa» i» chl . eslgk ^i t d«B
uiij;eh«u«r«ii Varsu^* disa #lr its httsci coaa.«A^ a« I«l Ut jft» ait »o
g«rln^«« Opf ira. iilciit ^^imtat k.»bt»a. lir »iud so »«hr li^w^,\mX. aach-
hoi#ii uud gutiiacn«4i »a ko.a^, daa^, w^ui es plot«iich lUiJao^iidi «lrat
4ojr ^wb«l i^nbi,^ ufib«dacai.*r U ib -r i'-i^nu^ una tt»9cht.lchtl.itfr : lo«i-
btrruiU >iAiit:«a vor una UB«liiiiJUi rr.:fiB.,t| «la BlAta ,;r u«im ft«r Klar-
lieitf ci^Bb t^ii elu ^HC?iiiJltii ja uberUiu ^t aicht ,lbtt wall aur il^lch*
4Ug,i£i >iic«i. iU« «i«d jrktiiArt Ui<u uuu« ociiuid «iriru» «r«i«^ koiuMexiu« Hond-
ian.^, aim siu M«^r» alii ^«ue», eia : eiutt *u b^li^ lk».tt«» V^r^^uates
<Mf 1 elcixiA muss.
A» «r9t«» 'btoidf alii Icii aach d.^« iiurt« tack Xra« SJi^ik^ch^o a«a
Flri^t^rn fi^hitcrt t?4it atna 4ch suis ibsc ^itd^rwiMi ha u^ff Ttm^ru itfist«
Koioiunj klo^fttt war .» -ir xu »cUr9CiLlleu> ^fialaca »ur '^a^«^ruXAung
i
aiit ]MLa«« lAs X«la« su ka..m«ait ai« ^•iscU^a iaos i)«ryiirt ^oru«a « rsA» \
ail«ft j^tdiMi« d,\k ijrtfch**. _« wnr .*ich tIhI icntl^je* uaruiii«sr# da* t^Asf /
•0 Stfhr btfv^^t hf)tt«f :lit Wf^r* »• 'lepia»^t« iciit c^u^ wi« bio «» #oiii 1
g«taii Ikittit hinius zu ihrt ^o aXa v^tro K^ir d«r tfrstd V%u^ch ^tiftt^rb«a
uud leh «rui>at« uaeh nickits Toa aoa ..rf arui^tfH* ai« «i« ;vad*:ir^A Ait
di«0«B .ril^iic ^ ^a-^rht U bijnt und don l^btfUiliiX .n Vereuch Bin hoiit ob i
oicht irg«nd -^int
d#r V rrtanol ;uiig swlsch«ii uns ubrig ^ebii ib«a
war** V'on iBlr ubauao fahrt d-?r ^ef f^pr^daatts di« h iba Stuiidt} 1 og
ble UiisAUs nrtgwfrora • unbrtiebt acbaifiXs Dtrass* Aaben f:^chi«&«a b«r.
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*Ach daft ist selidAf dass Sia kor!««Bt* hdra ieh di« raaeli« •Bar-
gischa Z^Ti^chm air antgagan* durch dia iimar oin frduadiiehast loi
?r9Uda uAd ?rauAdlielikait w^rb^iidaa iiaehsiii durebkiingf bais iatitan
tort i&it aaa ucf alii bar eA Huek via imtfrwartat abbrachand* Uad ieb
• taad in d«B ki<iiuttn Yorsiiuatsr auf dam Aitatadt«r Hinj ait aainar dar
Unwiehtigkait ainat Yorsinaeva sa unbakufiaiart aAtapraehaidan Eaga und
hjttta unt'fr dan ^UBsan noeh daA Widttrstand d«r un^^iaicbaiaaig Tartra-
tanan hiatoriaehan ateil^A Ioiietuf«A. Yor Seliraekaii und Y«r>MUBdaruAg
ta ieh bald Ttfrgeeaan* dan ^intarrook abauieg^A uAd aA uia gavoluita
Sttjila links hochxuhan^eA* *Acb dan i«it 8Chdo» daaa VAm kaaaiol lak
hnbe dn so etw^a IrosseB oriabt und aa tata siir isidt niaaanuaa daraa
t«ilneha«n zu iaesaa* I>a» iat aal andiieh atwao* daa
niehi Biir T9^
datf sondern ^irklieh fabltl :»8 i»t c>'ut» daas mm daa MonaeHan niekt
freiatehtf ob tsr at^^rban will, Kaiuer wurda aa tun* S«ilDaiaordY Da
antswtsit aicb einer alt sich so laage bis ar bieh hasstf iaaar iirgart
8«}iuan Faiiidt dan ar aulatst oabriagt* Abar atarbant aaa istt vateiaa*
ga«;en aeinaa Yiilan daa Rae^ta tUA ai^asant im Kraapf ailar falacUaa
Richtua^en nnk -in^f tjid aaa $in^g Kotwanuiganf Richti^aB» aicht ant^abtfi
kttiinaa. Dar arsta Aujanoiick ungahou jrstar ^aviaahaitf daaa aan labia*
labt. aii^ariiitanda Tataaciia ifc.t» aina Vorbanaanhait ia AU» f^inSaliS?
mehr wegzu vis chant uht «i wanaaln* Fuhlaa 3ia nieht Jatat rallkaaaiaa
airkiich und gan»iAf daaa Sia ait air radaat"
Ieh fuhita daa hnrtgafrorana Flackchan Straschniti untar daa
Puasan* laisa Jlocka aitt rta durch dia kuhla Stillat riallaieht
dar Kapaaa daa chriatliahan Friadhofa harubart rialiacbt vaa d
Dorfkireha druAtaa*
•Sia rufan aich harauf» Wk racht wato uad daaaiaafarb<
arachainunggaward aaa ?or« n faaaaai lu haltaat n
IhAaa ab^ Ja nihar? Sprachan ^r uaa Ja uAgahaaatar uad
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■truktieaM. Slim«..lcli«ru«,««i d.. aacto .la^ ;i«it u» .leH T.pp,od«a
aa«8tllcli«, hHfX«. durch da. Leb« r.cii..b.iMl.a. Cdurch, da., m
0.rau.eh. a,elit.. «.na Ich r.d.t., ^latf. mloto b.w.^f, war .. x^eht
.lchT.r, d... 31. horten. wa. ich ..Mj.a wilte .a.r leh T-r.taa*,
•a. SI. dacht«.. T^ SI. «lr .la. i.l.»,. 7r«uutl .1. .i..«. ich
•ar la »11«. .. j,ra ^-rundUch, aoXlt, Ich da. .In. :;tackch« r.lt,
da. %l8 «,ln r.Pk und Schlckaal za,^^a.«fl.,., mcht ax. iluh.lt
b.l.aiui».n g.-ma und kl ir uber.ch-uw -ollent Ich habe uo rl.l. Ruck-
bUek. al. Ke.^.h.1 .im. dl. Mich ll.b hab«». vu. d*r i..au«th.lt
aU.r ^..lua. Ich Tl,U.leht, .a. air d.r elg.n. nlcht ^ebea k uia.
J»dm» d«» leh «twa. war. au.. Ich doch .twa. ander.a ciew^.« ».lat
KUB Baua 0 k«r. 31. Bind In der Schul., ich ruf. .il, auf, .««« ol.
wl. war Ich? ri. t,lu ich auf d.r ii.tsh.ut Ihrar ^^,1. 8t«h«i j.bllebaaT
•W. fas. ich ••? Zart«n ;.i.! Von ««lehw Tunkt d.r tau.ead ^-
lrmeruni.B au. ub«r.eh. Ich .. ru> v.awt*a»al<i8t.«, 2er.cht.8t.aT -
Unt.r «U.n M»n«eh«i, ul. Ich keua., #ar«i ;a« eln. d.r tapferatM
Empferliinwi la d.r Scolacht d.s -ol.t.. g.g.n dl. laterl.. Ab^r daa
let ail nb.tmktt SI. warea .a nlcht aur la sro8..n int.«h*lQUa^'<(«| m
war ZhnM 8. noturllch, daas .. Ihr Lt^w durehpuista bla la all.
Slu«.lh.lt.n. Oim. Path.Uk. oha. apott u« iioeteut. aha. lr<tM4 Mtf-
h.b.aa daTon lu aactiaa. brachan £1. mjt d«r /CouT«Btloa la allaa tfaa-
k«a uBd nur fur Ihr. Pcir.oat aachtun al«aad«B .la. Vorachrlft awaua.
nad SI. Tsrfl«l«a nleht d.r "/.fahr. «laa KoareatLa nur Wth.r.r ^t-
tuac m .taMinroi. Sla war.a a B. nlcht ela. galatraleha !>«■•* di«
alBM Utwrarlaehan Svlan hl.lt. 'im war Ihr. Lu.t* .la Zlaa.r rail
lab.adlg.r Qelst^r na .leh m hab.a« t.b dsBMi abm JadCT Slas«laa
•twaa Tarha«b.a au.at. uad dla luaamiMi .twaa warhailbMi Buaataa* dla«
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L^glsl^tlTv d«r Ide« li koD^titiil •r«a und tin* R«Tolutloa g«g«a das
xuralllj v;«word«ii« in aII^h ••itian bXlA^haAtigtm Taraonei^oaltioiiaB i
organlbi*srea« Ihr ^inub« ma d«A aeist al» awig l«¥tfiidi^«ii Urspruag
g^geoubtfr a«B mt Vutoritat g«rOi.a«a«a attlbst8ich«r«a Uebvrkomaa
so w&hr und tiefgahvadt daas Sl« Ihra achllm badrohta Gsauadhaitt Ihr
g«rdhrd«t9a Leb«n d<fr ladixln ait allaa ihran sut^^gtstiroa KachtMlttaXa
daa )iriBaanschaftliclian ArbttltanaeUwoisaa antsot^ea uad dar Jaat;as Jtatar*
halilcuiida aoxuTartri^uaa wa^taa» oleht atwp aus ratlooalar Uabarla«puigf
Eiaeh \b«a.eS<»a dtrr Jruadat oOad .ra aurch oia tlnf r«»ll^i6aa ivhrliebkait
iiM ^.rn«uaraa,;8^1iuben jaceis prophetisch bauarlsehau Waruaaorfar ?abri«
kaiiten uberscu^t und ich daaka»
t;roBaaa Vortali Ihrar latstaa Jahra
Dar Va«{atarlanlaitaia ant«>prach so stihr Ihr«tfi tl«ff«n sittliohaa Rai»>
llchkeitabadurfolB.
Si a mnT9u aiaa - "
'*Ich kann nichts dafari wartaa 3ia! Also Yon aina^u aadaraiA Puakt anas
weun ?ji9 la "^haatar in dar latztaa ^alariaraiha aaeaan odar bai das
Philunra^niachan ia ubarfuilten !Iaua aueh #ohl mnnebmul auf dai^ Stab*
piatsatufant - a& iat uoeb so aina juta Akkuatik ubaraUt aagtaa Sia
und hntt«n ^n dan Tag «ia rialaii Arman Kohla rartailtt in Ihrar algaai
Wohnung irratidan haiciloaan umheriSaatoaaanan Koiiatlarnt Lehrara* Xk^l^
karn ala :)a8tau ^iiit dankbarar Fraucia und sartar Sorgliehkait aia Kmjl
gabotaa;"
"Sia sind kleinlichi Ich haffat Sia wisaaa andarea rmn airf* '• "as t^ibt
es «uf der V<elt» ^lUi.'Ber r'r^ude bereiten, Leiden er leichtsrn?- I;och
Sia wuaateQ aa uad aa fullta diaa andara arat in araatllAar Badantiuig
Ihr Laban aaat Sia auchtaa* aachtaa nach daai 8ina» dan Kara dar Waltf-
halt. leh kinn mir Sia nlcht andara Taratallaat ala vana Sia fragaa
odar lehraat laraaa adar barataai Aar Qaatalt gamrdaa
a jata wiUa<
*Und aaina Tahlart Ich auaa d«eh aaah Vahlar gahabt
iaaar daa Wiahtigal*
habaa* Dla aiaA
»«chruf nm 3r«b» too ?rau
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ila-a. d.r yalil.. «^.«. ^„ ii t=rarl.c,»«. and pMIoeoohl-
"'''•" "•""" *• "— '^^ -o«l tX.ch^ Or«anieaU,n b^. u^
auf ,l««,i dl. ^b.chlsde.tuna, .chi tian uad aaa i..b-n h .
e>«M u«a aaa i<ebeaf daa ctu i^efuhrt
t>a»tf Barta ?iuita - •■ war «lr. «,.•«♦ < < ,.
•B war «ln ,cat ju^.i.chee -«&««: la ail d,ia«
Tua uad :;enlc,n •«rot au d»r eaelBte -y-^u, , <:,. t..«i .„ . ,
jr. «■ » (laa Ideal ulaor Jadlachea
?rau, Jauiacll wnr^a dl# ar-hsirv... .. •
r^a aie 8oheliib«r«n ^etr^n^-^tz. In d^ium CharaJcter,
Jaalech a., .„r-o.x.. «, der au dlch .«s ale„a ..,.a«.t.«. !«,„
*l..er durcUic^prfat. J..l.ch war uxe S.,psia. ..e uu ail« .«»^«,
rlchtua«,a .at^.^enorachtest. . J...,eh aber ,uch ui. «tat. Ju^,a4.
Uch, Leiaeuacii&ft, >at u.r au ai.s, Ct toua-.-a erriff.n h ♦ r
war d,la. ^r^a«Xa.. Her.e....ut.. . Jaai.cU auch ula atr.ag. Kritlk.
dl. .« .a aich uad -.a nil, K.a.ch.n uad Zuatande aale.test. D.iaa
indlTldu, l-.ig«a,xUl^, .«.....fuaru«g war J.aisch - uad Juui.ch aocb
auch die w.hre -.»,ia,cbaf t. al. d« .la^, ^ ^,,^ ^ ,,^^,,^^ ^^^^^^^
••na „ In a- Jahea V-rlu-t. tt,r ua, g,troff.B fact, elnw, -roat
«lbt. 80 ist «, a«r, ao», .Xr a,a Jt.«i d,« juui. b«a Volke., au, d- "
4— ar »l,d,r aolchc edl, uaa au^BerordeatUehe ~yp,B wie au herrw-
iehea ».rdea, kraftroil uad ^auuaa b..ntoaa -oa«a, • U wlr dlch
gelieht ad T«rehrt ,iab.a. ,1, a,lt«o aue. ;:caacix,B. wU* .Ir d«
Volke. de. alch herrorsebracht hat, Trw. b.wanr. . so faaa. leh d.l.
VeraJiehtBl. arf . Wlr horea d«la« lieb, rtla.,, wl, al, una ao oft '
In dan Tartrautan rler riuden dalnea Heiw «rkiuag«a let uad *lr
gdlobeB ••• aoTlaX la una llegtt dlr alaao Irulsetaa Uaatarbllehkolt*
dla uB. tarbllehkalt dalava 7ypua, m arkaiKpf aa - was abar dlo aadara*
dla blaBllecba Unaterbllebkalt aiiiai.«;t* so jlnuba Icht daaa du ala
«1d« J«r«cht«( dlcu aeuta hciiati i«r Schachlaa •rfrouatt aach aar dH
dich if»«iiat h'lat, aain gaa-a* I<<ib«a lane.
♦ #c
?u« gfifiy
In <flll0B seiner 0«dl ehtband* findet eieh oln G«dleht mus d«B
•r0t«n W«lt1trles» (D«r Band ist 1917 erBchl«n«a)» debs«a Titsl *Aa
7rnii : ttrtm 7.*v Auf Jen« geistig Tom«lMi« 2>ns« hlx^slvit* di« ais
Mutter aer Varfaseeriu la Klttelpuakt d«r uler fi3lg«iid«a \urji«lek-
aun^sn el nr ?aBlil«iiehronik istvia • leh hnbe ai« wleder «in«a tf«a-
Bchsn 1r«i*&tta a^lmrnt^ d«r bo wi« ?rau B^rta ?»uta uureh and durli
aus a«fi Ulrb«ln ola^r g-ins und gar J9iati^«a Leldei^acaaf tiicakeit
btat^ban achlsat d«r nilt 3ieh seiust ia iiaapf 1h^ uud a«r0 da uad dart
«ich alt G Choi 111 OiiiUitiQB 2Ufrl<»a«a c>«)>^<a(1» wi« wlr 98 ror d^r i^ata-
atropht don Ariat^vauubruclis Xil4 daciais ill* tat^n* la ^aaasD a^cli
nlvBiAXt das Zl«l a^r tii^fat^A :>rk^.uixiXu ami dar ^iiiforuuuti^ a«s al^aaaa
Salbat ff wl« d«r ^aiizaii Ua^rait aua dan Auji^n iiasa. Dar ^auzma Uawaltt
- dajm ti^^cirta -^uaa^r inrjr ?aai].la« luaa ir ^^iStflldchartiieii air frai^
den vJll :dt5ruii^en» auch dv:r Kr^la* dor kilch xujrbt In o^naa kialuaa
Souderxii-^ai«r das Cafo Lourra li* d«r ^erdiii^^aQaatriaaet upatar in ihrar
schduan '^olmua^ In aix^aa cilttel It^rllCiiaa Pra^ar '^arg^rhaua *VL»f^mmmi^
fand* Hugo Barja^ixaif Felix waitacbt 7rax4» K^ifka and ich c^ehdrtaa
ntbut anaaren dlt^aaa £ral»a ^n, :J.u9t«iQ uad aein gatrauar H^roldt
Profasrfor Hopf» jrartfi hAUfi^^a Jiiata* ?rof<*afeor Ilopf eroohioss una ia
•iu^ «iuzigan» unvartf«a»iicbttt Vix*tar kurawalsa dia Gahalanlasa
swtfiar Uaaals 99^ uaatritt^snan n uan Tiaeenachnftaat dar HalatlTl-
tiitethaoria und der T>8ychoanalyaa. Hit ainaa iiauta kajia aaUr rer-
st«llbpren neias uad i^raat wurda hlar unter Ber^anaa Leltu* ia
FO chant 11 Chan Ditlcuaaionafibafidan Knnta Kritik dar rainaa Varnunft
Zailo fur Zaila vea naun Uhr ^b^nda bia iwi^lf Uhr mchta (ua4 laa^jar)
durch^anomaaa* Siner der a harfstrt Diakuaaioaaradnar war iUnbtaat
dar daatla noch faa' unbaknnatt Jun^« Profaaaor. j£r bakaapfta Xaat
utA n ar.erkanata iha dock ^ueh, ia ^aiaa Stuckaa* wotm ia aaiatA
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.pat.r« Scarift«» i—. r -l.dw Spurii auffuehfa. Su folg.«d.
j.hr B-h ua. b,i H.i-1'. PhdnoMoni. d*. 3a«t... d-uu. b.i Br«eh.tiiok««
Ton icUt.. ^1. «.n«cliaft.l.hr^, dl« allerding. beld. Ton ua* «leht
«dtr 80 lUMiebuxijoToU «el«8«n wurdw, •!• .In od.r aar »«1 Ja^w.
laafi K«iate ^roano »erk. iDwm riw ua. der Krl«« ausalnaadw.-
0ft liab. Ich y.l..uns3ii wiBtfesproch*!, di. In dle.«« Kra.« nidht «••
fi.irt, di. h«f«» ^^Jipft *urd«n. U«b«r nil. VUmrme^^tin4niuu»
Wnweg aber hAbe ich »leh j.raU. hi,r «u U«U8. j.fuhit. Und in di.-
sem ~.i'M^ 0.0;, m-^n il. oln i.aj, arwJuifn Vt.« auff-iU3«, di« ich
nun h.iah'fr a at i at
in ^r«tu Berta ?»
Oelater wlrktn aler una dortt
Kleina FiAiaachan imaarfort
sunvjln 'lUf 'in aancha» ^rt»-
amaa liacht durch Znubc-r^ortt
einaa habt sich and Tardorrt.
Heiter :ib*t Im aiasan IftHsaa ?la:^<
aina lleiaatt ein Baiaaiaaaa*
1^1 a f^onet auaeinnnaar claitaa#
naharn hier bich aua dan laitaa*
I at aa ein basoudaras Haua?
In d*tr wciten kniten ^alt
a*jltan sich ain Flaaaichan halt.
Hiar nua t5ehn »ia nia ala auat
liiar gadaiht ihr haiaaar Schein -
"iarttiant aura uraachaaaatl
••^«il dar Bodan as-i.bat hiar brauntt
j^^nr ?laam9 i-icht und Paia."
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FOM FOK OESCHIITION (P MKMOIHS
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Plocr.^. Bcx.V^. Filet'/
1. Author: Not mentioned "Your Mother's sister"
2. Title of Merr.oir:
FAMILY FRAGMENTS
Photocopies of
Original letters in German
150 pp.
3. Language and length of memoi?-:
with typed translations c
4. Subject of ncmoir:
Letters c. 1900-1970
5. Date covered by memoir:
1900-1970
6. Form of memoir: ♦) individual bin
autobiography
corporate hintory
•^^ letter honk ****^*
collective h.i story of one or more families
♦) pleaso circle one
7. Summary:
Subject index shovild list, maior ontries about:
personal and fninily nnmen
corpornt ion5;/indnstr ien
town or region or Jowir.]^ comrrunity of the town
historical events
8. If photogr.ii-hs or fvin^ily '.r.-f^s in rnei.clr
Photocopies of photos, 3 origi-nal French ID papers , 1 photocopy of
French ^pu^^ipp^gjd^r^lg^l. ^Phtoc,j,^i^e^ <^f jD^MENSIC^NS^^^^s^^ue ^S^^ing 1967
10. Copyright:
11. Donor:
Mrs. Marianne Berel
76 Riverside Drive
New York. NY 10024
The University, a former monastery, w.-\3 situated
next to the river "Oder." It was a good size river
with lots of greens, full of langousts and a nice
swimbatn.
There were a number of churches and a ?*vna^7o^"ue,
A few cable cars connected the various parts of
the city. Ours was nicknamed "the rolling synagogue,"
since most people using this number 2 were "our kind
of people. "
For our parents life in Dreslau appeared to be a
contented one. A man brought ice during the summer
months, an older woman came weekly to mend our
socks and clothing and a tiny crosseyed woman came
to do ci.e f aiMi i y l«iindry in the h'»semont,
I still see her in the misty vanor of these large
wooden basins, trying to roll over the heavy towels
and linen of our household.
They all had to be hung up in the courtyard for
drying and then pressed by the maid.
The cook remained in the kitchen.
During our earlier childhood we had a girl for
ourselves , but when we went to school, she was dis-
missed and we only had two maids, besides the
additional helpers.
My father was "off" Wednesdays to play billiard
and my mother was "off* »^*ond lys for the subscription
concerts. Fridays all stayed home - and no visitors*
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Saturdays we went mostly to tho country.
Two grnnd pianos were in the musicroom, ono upright
in our room and there was another in the co in tryhome.
Thus, we had U pianos in 3 different places.
In the nominf? the maid knocked at my parent's bod-
room door to Q'^Ck.^^' the curtains. Hreakf as t\/sr?rved at
8:30. y'y father, dressed in a stiff collar and tie,
my mother in a Iressing gown. After my father left
for the office, my mother arr mgod our social life
over the telephone.
At 1 : JO my father returned for lunch:
soup, meat, potatoes, vege tables , gravy , s'^^ewed friit.
Water and grenadine for a drink.
Then ny father retired with a cigar, reading ar^d
sleeping for about an hour. He then had tea anrl some
sweet, steDped back to the officn for a little
while and played chess in a club the rest of the
afternoon .
Dinner at 7:30» usually slices of d'^rl: old bread,
butter and coldjcuts. Tea for a drin-:.
Friday: special day, hot chocolate, fresli bread and
butter.
At one point we aad a c ir (^onz)- but since my
father did not drive, (nor did he h ve any wish
to learn it) we had a chauffeur. -J-^is became a' so a
necessity, since my father acqiired a we'^^knnd hoise
in Zobten am Berge. This was especially built according
to his instructions. (1928 )
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in Zobten an i
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a nice place
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P A M I I Y
FRAGMENTS
compiled
written
and
edited
by
YOUR MOTHER'S
SISTER
MARIANNE
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VI TH
GRE.vT
LOVE
TO
YOU
ALL
Chi cago
Soptember 1982
t:»kon by Rita's
son Anthony
I hrahim
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I N T .R 0 D U C T I O N
In his book *^^e.un ^hristophe" Ron: n in ^^ol i rjid
excl aims : "^'eurs , Jean ^hristot)he, .'eurs, r>)ur
revivre ! " ( Die , Jen ^hristonhe, ^ie, to live af^ain.)
It happens frequently, that an end turns out to
be anot.er be(;inning. -similarly, this hap-^ened
to me,
Preoccipied with death, I just received a book
I had ordered "^^ow to L)ie wi tl; Uignity." -^y coin-
cidence my friend L. came to see me and, bein^ in
that mood, I showed him one of my diaries he had
wanted to see already for a lon^x time.
'^gain, by coj^nciilence, I saw Verale's poen in my
diaryiwliich she had written after my mother's death.
Like a flash it ,:ave me the idea to translate it
f .r you and perhaps - I have other thin^^s in or^ler
to make a collection. I did
However, by translating these papers, I had been
tempted at tires to use a little better /^r vmmar, than
the originals. But t'en I decided to rer.ain as
faithful as possible, although grammatical constellations
freq'ientiy scened a bit awkward.
Yo'i will ilso have to forgive mo of typing errors,
but unfortunately, the piper I needed does not
exist in an erasable quality.
So here is some of the past and I shnll be :in with
the description of the town where we grew up:
B R E 3 1 A U
(now called .t'rozlav,-)
BREST A U
A3 you see on the map, Dreslau is located like a
spider Within a web surrounded by the f.amous cities-
Vienna, Prague, Berlin. Budapest and V.sovie
In those days these cities s.emed to be far awav
yet, the I'olish border as well .s the one f
, ^'^ ^^'o one from
C^eechoslovakia was only an hour drive and ^
^^ D , . urive and travelllnr
to Ber.in or Vienna was q„ite conmon r
* common for people like
my pi rents,
Breslai ha i cxbout 600.000 people
Aat.ou.. a .elauveiy s.alX tow.. ,. n.a Tou. theater,.
TWO for plays only, one for Musicals ,^. one for
Cabaret .
T^ere was a concert hall for about 400 people ana one
lor chamber music.
An orchestra with two full tine conductors, a .adio
statxon. a museun,. some swanky nightclubs with a
band, where one could drink and dance until 4a m
3o.e nice Motels, a castle with candlelight co^e:*,
at txnes. A few movie theaters, a h*^e hall caUed
Die Jahrhu^dert Halle" for exhibitions and a zoo
Moreover. ^ opera, playing the entire season and'a
University, faznous for Drahms composing the •■ • caH ,
festival there. -.cademic
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My father was the son of a rather well to do man
who, together with others^ f uinded a fim cp.lled
"Simon i^emh ird Levi.** (La ter: '*Schlesische Foumi erwerke . " )
Without any formal education, as well as bein^ very
young to conduct a big business, my fattier was
most probably the victim of perpetual criticism
from the various partners incl . his o\/n father,
FortTina tely , his father died soon and he was now
placed in char/je as a full fie I/:ed T>artner.
The business brought enouf^h money to supr^ort five
families living quite well.
There were abont 80 workers in the sa^/mill md a
number of employees in their own office bull ling,
"Sonnenplatz -r3f" ^o which Verale refers in one of
her poems.
Another office was maiy\tained in Berlin and .mother
in Hamburg.
I had been told, that my grandfather had boon the
first millionaire in Dreslau. So my father had to
struggle with ex-jerienced partners and I am quite
certain, that it took him years before he felt to
have been^accepted. "
"Mein Vatel chen:"
Arthur, Josua Schiff, bom
June 12, 1881 in Dreslau, had been the ytjunger
brother of ''>malia, called Malchon . (Mother of Use
and .Vnnerr.ari e .
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Richard Schiff
My grandmo t^ier loved M.ilchen, but not my father.
'^^e wns perhaps not much to look at or bra^j about.
A poor stu lent in school, reticent in all he did,
he was freq .ently beaton, as -was the custom in
those days.
There was also a younger brother, named IHchard,
bright and charming, who never married and died
for Germany in 1917*
Since Malchen died of cancer at an early a/^e,
my grandmother was left with the one son, she
never cared for.
We, the grandchildren liked my grandmother very much.
But Vatelchen only spoke in negative terms about her.
Except for a little swimming or walking, my father
shied most physical activities.
But he loved flowers. The moment he was in the
country, he would pick any little blossom placing
it in his buttonhole, almost every week he brought
s vme precious flowers to my mother.
His birthday always began by having a heavy crystal
basket filled with moss and the most expensive
red roses wore cut short to fill the flat crystal.
This, the maid placed on ny father's nighttable
early in t'.ie noming, so when he woke up, he would
smell the sweet perfume of roses.
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his r.r ve in Oxford, which frrew b
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until she was bined ther
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I had another rosetree plantei, whicl
is still
there, but t:
lere is no su!)erintend
ent anymore
to main t.- in i t .
One d.-.y Verale had t
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rinfj some rose
petals to her in I ondon , something 1 continued
to do, until she be(;ged me
not to do it anym
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Vatelchen was a thi
nicer and verv fond of
soDhis ti ca tod
iterature and the the-ter
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passion.'te chess pliyer
he a
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title oi:
master
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Frequen tl y ho al s
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skat md bil iard
He felt to be a '"rerman Jew, but in
r o t ro s n e c t
I think he was t
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o intern. itionaliy -riented to
really feel "^erman."
He avoided to be drafted in 191^ by intoxicati
himself with ..ispilrin -- paid l.ir.-e
nf:
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to my uncle Ise in Herlin
who appeared t
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some
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He hated war from the very bottom of his soul
His clothes were expensivi; but not very "chic
1^1 ly aware of his respo ::sibi 1 i ti es , he had
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perhaps more* than he was able to carry.
Consequently, when the Nazis apr>eare<! on the
scene, he was too reluctant to consoliriate
everytaing and leave ^erniany.
'^e may h.we been a bi t too attached to his
status, IS well as his possessions. Thus , the
inttiitive irive to leave, as oppOsed to his
awareness for his many responsibilities,
genero-ted a tremendous pressure and a great
deal of anxiety.
^either could lie believe in Zionism \nd wou M
bring all ;inds of arguments.
•^cared of thp c »ming Vazis, yet not sufficiently
courageous to go into the unkno\/n worM,
he remained.
Some came to propose leaving together, such >s
my mother's brother Qeorg, who did .-^et out in
time with all he had. >^i th his and my father's
money, we would all be sitting today in "-'rasil
quite nicely.
But -- it was not meant to be, 1X% his inability
to decide my father hoped, that these antisemf^Cc.
threats wo ild ease, once Hitler reached the top.
Wliat happened then, you know:
1938 all synagogues were burning and male Jews
were forced into concentration camps.
So after he was in Buchenwald, he immigrated to
England, where, as an ennemy alien he was nut a^ain
into an internment camp about a year later.
There, on my mother's birthday, he hung himself in
the toilet with a belt 1 had mailed him for his
birthday
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C^ommen t :
^e following letter written ,o. k
was mailed after he wis i n n u "^
^ """^ ^" Duchenwald. iie broke
has lee there, since he fell do,vn a Cli^^t of
stairs. Intentionally - i ^.^3 ^^^^
But. wh.t really Ha.pe.ed. we .av nover ;.now.
"ow .pset he was while writing this letter
you mav r:otice th^f- -, i *-v, ^«ti;er
' . '^^^' althou^:. ho Icnew it was a
boyhe wr.tes •.! still dent Ico. her na.e, as
well .3 his ropea,i.,, ,,, ^^^^^^^^^ ^^
about the nrime. ^
Or. Meidner- was a well Vr^ .
In nr^ooT ^ouTi physician
in Oreslau and a close frxend of m, p,,,ents.
^exr son in the Con^o. a ,ood friend of .Uicel >
J- met bin: with his family years -,^ v, ,
Alicel. ''^° ""^^^^ Visiting
H£iil£: n,y ex-husband — i„i„g ^^,,
money -^^
Interesting his intuiti
son probably represents the future:
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My beloved children
Tl">e Is rufl„in,T md we ,re r- ,
t":":cisrv^-'.^rrrd -^ ^-"-"'^^ -"f -bJir^ ^^^ '^•■'- *^«
cut 13 done from f^e outside! "^"''"l^'^ '"d so
And with you. (Iott- v
"f whom I still do lll^: probably nevt to vou ,<
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to London fron your ^'f!^ '"^ ' ' " "^ received . ,
^oe.s not vl.h to "o th:'!'" '" '"-' "-^ t ten V Oo^T'"^: ^"-Itatlon
behave. "° ^'^«'-«- "nd 1 „ont know n^se^^ k* '^ ' '-""el
-^yolf how we should
Yesterday I wont nm- r
very difficult. I ^ ^. ^^^ ^'^^ whom the fireweli .
Anncmle very well ^"^^'^^ together with ann ^^ "'-^turally
nurse, who knows
^'esterday -^ vent to
sentimental of ficer . 'Cho'^a^w'''^'' '° '^'^ "-^k. T>.e t^„
'^'eidner's want ro ^o to th ^'^^ '^^'^ t.'^-'iness wit,! ,. " "°''-
tMn.s do not yet w^^rrou'^."^ ^'^^ ^" ^^- ^onj^ ^';,Th^ "J-t.
an, stiJl paTu/\rb:,^^7;-- »ut. since you .-.re m b .
or 15 d.,,rees. "^ "^ ' ^^ ^^ fitting, particularly wrth'^" ^
■^ - y with a cold
So what is Ills n ,m«
^^ov i. the bre.3t^Xr;re':i'^^ ""^^^'^ ^^^ ^^o.. ho ..i .
a picture? ^ '""^ ^^^^ movomonts? -hen ,.11 / "*" ~
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Take c ire
•>"br.icln^ you
Your V tol
beloved Verale
I send you kindest regards, hope that you are
well again to ncjurish your child, Vith the lines
from -Salter we were very happy, mother speaJcs
little --- she and Use very busy -
today is auction, anrl feel quite faint with the
thought where all the beautiful things mi^jht go!
Last night Dr. Pincsohn took the boat.
Regards for ^^alter to whom I desire a good life.
Your i/rossmiittel
Comments: ("rrossniu t tel Sc iff
Grossmuttel Schiff grew up as an orphan-
Both of her parents died during an epiclemy,
(1 believe it was typhus)
With her rather well to do husband, she was able
to lertd a life of leisure.
However with my grandfather's death, war and
inflation she ended by depending a great deal
upon my father, whom she disliked.
(And my father disliiced her. . . . )
She was rather apprehensiv to die in a "Poorhouse"
an idea she hated -- but that is the way it actually
happened -
Unfortunately •
No one was able to help her. Ve all had to leave.
Dr. Pincsohn : a gynaecologist, a distant relative.
In I95S I saw him in Chicago wit': his non Jewish
German wife. He lived in a very pretty house aiid
elegant car. He invited me to a fine lunch at the
Ritz while complaining bitterly about his diughter,
^*e died a few years later, but his wife never kept
in touch with any of us.
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My dear,cle.ir M.irlaniie,
Your last linos were soinewh.iL dlsttirbod, hut thore is
certainly no reason for it. Did you receive a messa^je in
the meantime? Yesterday we were in a very beautil\il pare
near Leeds.
Did you ever read Samuel liutler "The Way of all ^lesh?"
It interested me, *le is a predecessor of Shaw.
One sentence: Half the vices, which the world condemns have
seeds of (jood and retiuire moder.tte use rather than total
fibstincnce. Hy the way it is a Ciod believinf^ booK.
1 do not read ^^emian anymore :iiid ^{jlish is still difficult
for me whicli does not m.tlce mo unv wiser.
With time the void becomes lar<:er. -'■ feel how it {;oes down-
hill. Now 1 :\m as an/;ry that 1 did not remain in Oxforci as I
am about many other thin^js • Accept things as they come is not
the zenith of all wisdom. (Senile)
Today is Heinz* s birthd^iy, 1 think of him with due respect.
Keep loving
Your Daddy.
2^: Goethe said one that he could not ima^jine a crime of which
he would not be capable, Muttel did not understand this
sentence, i3u t thanks to Goethe's remark it becomes more
comprehensive. It depends on the motives as well as the
intensity of feelings. The worst are the indifferent ones,
they go to hell firs t. (UcUi te)
As a present for my birthday in 19^^f Muttel
copied the following fragments of Vatel'u writings.
I do not remember ever seeing amy of the originals
and I find it rather strange, that Muttel never
showed them to me.
I suppose, the xerox machine never entered her
mind and she did not want me to copy them while
spending my vacation with her.
She probably cherished them very highly..
As an example of her attacliment!
She slept on my father's bathrobe below her
bedsheets, until she was obliged to live in a
Nursing Home
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(21 years old)
AS a child I implored the God of children In my daily prayer:
I am a ^reat, (jreat sinner, listen to my fervent prayer'
I read .ind rend, and I lost the old children's God -
A believer appeared to me to bo a fool - religion only satire.
The world consists of atoms only
I said it every day:
"There is no God in heaven above, Uenr this!
VThoever wants to hear!"
And I meant this beliof had greater valuo than onythinr else -
I had to rob the world of its God,
I thought myself to lye very wise.
And then I learned to Icnow the world.
Saw labor, tomient and sorrow
It nearly broke my heart :"Kee[^ your God"
And be it only the God of Bacchus
or be it one of forests and valleys
or be it the God who feeds your bellies
or be it Mrs. Venus only
Man must have a steady God -
Some call it an "ideal,"
It helps man bear his sufferings,
it spices his meas.
So stop yoM realists, the lie is so beutiful -
A victory of yours -
Mankind would perish without consolation.
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CULTURE f
WTiat did you do to mankind :
A wretched fiG:ure in comparison to wh it he had been
placejT which you did not yet penetrate.
and in
He was a flower, today he is a working and thinking machine,
VThat good is it, that we only have to press a button, to
see all miracles of Western and liastem culture — take
only two steps to race with tremendous speed to the most
distant parts of the globe, to sleep on the softest
paddings ;uid to delight in the most delicate food.
Hypocrite -- With all these worldly posessions you do not
replace one of those solemn moments filled with serene
happiness which man would experience deep in i lonely
forest surrounded only be the elements of nature.
Yes, even more - If for any reason, we would be deprived of
these "necessities" we feel that, what appeared to be of
no inportance, now turns out to be a terrible burden and
deprivation.
You took away nature's lively fire, •'^lowly and tired we
creep along, moaning and sighing under the burden of a
thousand year development, t^ach one almost a crippley
each decrepit at one point or another,
"Mature cultivated people."
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Sinflood 19^2 (July)
Sevenhoundred thousand Jews
Death - gased - murdered.
Whose dreadful sins have they been paying for?
Millions of soldiers - women and men are a^ain
bein^ sla9ghtered.
Flowers and grass are soaked with blood
>Vnd I imagine mud and bodies without limbs.
Houses are falling
Children calling
Windows breaking
And nerveraking sirens go on and off
Sinflood 19^2
Four irears ago July 2nd 19^^
Four years ago and a day
You were still alive.
The ray of the sun shone upon your face
And I am sure you must have felt
Its warmth - and loved it.
Four years ago and one night
Your heart beat fast
And you felt the hour near
That would stop its frightened beat
And stop the pain and joy of life.
Four ye irs cigo in the morning
You ended your life by free will
Wish God that you found peace then
And sleep a happy sleep.
four years hence to-day
might sleep
the sleep of death
But I shall have lived a happy life
You - my father - be blessed!
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March 3, I903
"Always look to the stars
but yoM will never reacli them
So root firmly on the ground
^earn to jump, but never fly."
Concerning RODIN'S SCULPTURES
in the Palais de Luxembourg:
Never did I see so much life in dead marble.
Some of his works reflect a tenderness that
one may believe only women's hands coild have
produced such soft shapes.
On the other hand some physiognomies frighten
us with such a strong expression, that one
would like to doubt, if the artist's genius
did not even exaggerate life's cruelty.
In each feature expression shows a particular
individuality, ^erything made such an impression
that it was impossible for me to see other
things. Like magic, it pulled me back time
and time again, until the Museum closed.
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Two so'ils Joa.led eictrically
:Jxc}w-ui,';e only n look
In Khich the souls .re dro,/nin/T
Call it love - caJJ it happiness.
Sparks are jumping; across
In li ' ac hlie ' i^ht
'Vri'l r! rkness comes a^ lin
■^nd ni-rlit follows thn in-'t
(Ma J nine '. . )
^uiy 17, 1903
England is the land of whisky
Germany the home of beers -,nH .» - ^
oeers and "i>chnapses , "
France of wine
"Voil^! Judge it Monsieur!
Common t :
He was too young to understand,.
If he wo^ld have been ^le to re.li^A fh
profoundly rooted princip ea nf *
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January 3, 1903
(22 years old)
"If in the tumultous noise of life
Lonely people meet one another,
LoBBly fo.nd - profoundly f el t 'opinions exchange,
It goes like spasm through their souls.
Two meteors bom in glow - lost in the world
Greet each other
'♦-nd are flying off."
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BEFORE YOU KN!=:WHER:
December 1, 1903
From his sketchbook:
The gre it danger which the more and more
growing ntheismus carries with it, consists
of the sentiments and feelings, which are
being neglected. E>ven when the educator is
convinced of the non-validity in religion,
he should educ \te the children religiously.
So, let us combat the growing crrjelty of
the spirit.
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MY MOTHER
Gertr d Schiff , bom Kraft on July 2nd, 188? in
Lisaa, (Posen) was the 11th and youngest child. My
grandfather had 6 children with his first wife and,
after she died, married her sister Theresa Jacoby,
with whom he had 5 more children.
My grsindfather suprised everyone, when he bought a
new carriage for his 11th child, which astonished
my grandmother, claiming:
"The old one was good enough for 10 - so it should
be good enough for 11."
Still, my grandfather anticipated my mother's birth
with particular Joy, for which my grandmother had no
understanding. As i t hap'^ened, my mother was the only
one, who inherited his muaiccil talent - and the only
one with black hair and dark eyes.
'^e died, when my mother was two yenrs old.
There was little money, no insurance smd no social
security. But it seems, that my grandmother had an
unmarried brother, who probably helped her.
From these 11 chi dren 5 survived whom I knew:
Srail, Ise, Georg, Gretel and ^oris.
My mother never could get over the loss of her beautiful
sister Claire, who died of a heart disease at age 19*
There was ajiother sister, whose son married KAthe.
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Thus, my mother ^ew up anong many siblinrs.
A poor student In school, my n:ot.;er played the
l^iano to everyone's enjoyment in times, when there
were no movies, nor radio, television, or record
players, hly mother spoke of an elderly lady giving
her piano lessons, but serious studies w±th pro-
fessional musicians began only, after she married
my wealthy father.
My mother had perfect pitch and a rem .rkable memory
for music. All musicians, who knew her. adored .-uid
loved to play with her. For e;can:ple, when indisposed
singers needed their music in a somewhat lower or
higher key, she Just played their pnrt without any
problems, ^uring: orchester concerts, she would
suddenly ''sigh,- when a player forgot playing a sharo
or a flat.
She gave piano lessons in a school, when she met my
fatner. ^t was a -^match." 6ne day, my grand-mother
called after one of her sons:"?ind someone for Trude!"
And so my father was "found."
He was no "asanova. At age 29. ne.^lected by his parents
and working in his f ther's office, he probably felt
inclined to think of a marriage.
"e knew, that my motr.er had been chosen for him. but
my mother had been left "in the dark."
And so they were introduced to each other in a theater.
Ten days later they got engaged while in a museum,
and married within three months on June 19, 1910.
Thirty years 1 ter, Verale picked June 19 for cele-
brating my mother's birthday, since my father's
suicide took place July 2nd, 19^^ -(»ny mother's birthday)
June 19, 19^1 became my day of freedom, since "peace"
was declared, while Petain shook Hitler's hand.
It was the day, when the captain of Gurs proclaimed:
"Sauve qui peuti" (lEAVE!)
My mother wanted six children, however, after Verale
and myself, she was pre^rn.ant three more times, but in
vain. The last one in 192U, when the baby was expected
any day, but strangled itself on its own 'ombilical cord.
I do not remember ever seeing my mother in the kitchen.
I am quite sure, that she never cooked, cleaned, sewed,
washed or ironed. She left these tasks to the "help."
uur girls were usually recommendations from neighbor-
hood stores and became paurt of our life.
My mother insisted, that they be c:\lled "Miss -* The
girls felt flattered and tried their best to please.
Vhlle hiring them, my mother sugcTested not to accept
any tips from our guests, since she thought this to be
degrading. ^ do not know wh .t these gir'.s -"ctually did,
but I do renember the laughter l-tf» at night, when our
rather well to do guests wished to leave sone money
and my mother tried to convince them otherwise.
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The high pile of books on my mother's nighttable seldom
changed, she even read while knitting our clothes. At one
point she tried to learn "Braille" with the idea to copy
books for the Blind, "whether or not she succeeded, escapes
me. How long she tried to learn - I do not remember.
/Kile living in the Nursing Home and diagnosed as being
"legally blind" she admitted, reading to be rather difficult.
•-*fter arr.inging»/a library service with large print books,
supply her with a list of titles and ^^Y her a stand
to make it more comfortable, she broke out in tears to thank
me. It was the only time I ever saw her crying....
She felt our love and knew our needs.
•fhen she went on trips, each one of us got a box wi th a
present for every day she was away. Verale opened them all
at once and then appeared to envy me, when I had a daily
suprise. "DONT STAND aRoUND* D 0 SOMETHING," she would say
to us, so that we had to think of something to do,
Vhen we were two years old, we had a daily music session.
With great care she taught us the story and the music of
Humperdinck' 0 "Hilnsel arnd Gretel," before she took us to
see it. I was four....
Ac age 12, she h.uided me over to a professional musician
and begam to take me to concerts and operas. 'WTien I was
hospitalized with scarlet fever, while my parents were on
vacatioi , they returned immediately. Twice daily my mother
sent a maid with cooked food wrapped in lots of newspaper,
so I would be well nourished.
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On the other hand, I was obliged to walk to and
from school by rain or shine, ice or snow, which for
a six year old, took about an hour each way*
I suffered.
But - perhaps it was good training for difficult
times to come
When my father slapped me, she did not ta'. k to him
for a week, ^ut she slapped me, when I refused to
say "hallo" to someone she met in the street.
Goethe said: "Show me your friends and I can
tell who you are."
Thus, to see my mother's personality in greater
detail, here is a rough outline of her siblings
and some of her friends:
EMIL: the oldest brother, with whom my mother only
had a lo^se relationship, was a«i/ealthy man in the
lumber business. His son, Julius, became a known
professor of philosophy, who cUso played the piano
very well. Consequently, whenever they met, they
played together. After Ju ius' death, his wife, who
later became the head librarian of the Science '-'ept.
in -<ueens College, became my friend.
ISE: helped my father substan tially Kf;iu^l»his connections
to avoid the battlefront during the 1. world
war.
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He had two children , Val ter and E^va, who both immigrated
to London. W'alter became a solicitor with little relation-
ship to the family, while Eva, a headmistress in a special
school, visited my mother frequently and so I met
her a^ain and we became friends.
GEORG t Georg and my mother loved each other.
Vhen she was 18, he invited her for a trip^the Adriatic-
and for her 70th birthday, he came from Brasil to Leeds,
to pick her up for a trip to Switzerland.
George married Hedel^ with whom my mother had a close
friendship, "^ey laughed a lot, went together on trips
during the summer with their children and U8(plus a
babysitter) and also visited each other. Georg lived
in DGsseldorf, which was quite far, yet they managed.
Long before it became difflcul tj Georg went to Sao Paulo
with his family. His son Peter is now a well known
cabinetmaker, haS two children aind now 8 grandchildren,
Georg' s wife had a brother in Breslau, a dermatologist,
who visited my mother at times.
Usually she received him while lying on a sofa -- which
bothered me to the extend, that ^ told her so. Never-
theless, she continued to do so.
GRETEL: The oldest sister was like a substitute mother
since there was an age difference of more than 20 years.
Gretel married Ludwig, who was not too popular with
the rest of us. He wore a moM.stache, spoke loud and
rough, which was frightening. They lived near Poland,
but ^retel managed to be with my mother often, always
inclined to cry for whatever reason.
She had two sons, Albert and Jullu. Albert developed
to be like his father and Jullu like his mother.
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with his son "'emer
(who committed suicide)
and his gran.lchild.
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Georg, about 90 yrs old
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Jack and Rita
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Jullu with his wife Betty
and his son Jack
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Jack's son Jim with his bride
Jaqueline Getzel
their baby bom I983
Jullu, about 85 yrs old and
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Jullu 's d?iuffhter Rita
(married to Dr.Nabil Ibrahim)
with her children , >.nthony
and Nina.
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Albert had no children, but Jul lu had two, Jack and
Rita, who both look like their father, but Rita in
particular, like her grandmo ther--
my mother's most beloved sister ^retel. Yhen I met
Jullu after aiore than 20 yeirs of separation, we
took to each other imrr.edia tel y , v-invi ted me for my
summer vacation to his house in ^'.ilwaukee.
DCR13 : married a rich man and was the only sister, who
lived with us in Breslau. My mother and Doris did not
like each other for many reasons and only "met" when
they "had to."
Doris had three children, Kflthe, Margot and Heinz.
K&the loved my mother as if she were her daughter,
hatinc her own mother from the bottom of her herirt.
Margot married a German physician and remained in
'-'ertnEmy. fhen Heinz married in ^gland, my mother went
to that far away place to attend his weddin<^, although
she had very little money to do so.
Needless to aid, that my mother also kept in touch
with Kflt:ie's two sons, who both married and again
have children.
These were the brothers and sisters, but there were
also cousins with whom my mother had a close
relationship :
TRUDC GCTT>ri'-F: a beautiful woman, who married .1 man
who corsmitted suicide and left her with two little
daughters. The family was shocked.
Unprepared for any kind of a job, the family gave her
money to open a millinary shop on Kurfflrsten Damm in
Berlin. About 10 years later, she >\\w.f ^'^A "^ nike man,
.1971 Kathe in my mother's
Nursing Home
£972 KUthe at her son's
Thomas wedding.
The son of my f:r:arlno thor ICrtft's brother:
Dr. Curt Jacoby;
One of my most cherished friends who
helped ne t.. rough difficult times for very many years
a director of a department store, with whom she had
another son. ^he died after a few years, when the son
was still snail.
CUT^T JACOBY: A physician and an ardent Zionist, with whom
my mother only had a lose relationship - but who became
in later years one of my most cherished friends,
UNCIE FELIX: '^heir friendship started when my grandmother
sent my mother to Leipzig for a vacation. She was about
l4. Felix and his lister Anne were about the same age.
Felix played the violin and Anne the piano.
They must have had a most wonderful time together, since
that summer their relationship grew into a friendship,
which bridged over more than 25 years.
*^^y mother maintained the correspondence (perha'^s they saw
each other) and spoke about them to us.
Thus, when I was stranded in ^-ondon during difficult times,
I called -- and they gave me shelter.
'i/hen my mother became a widow and lived alone in Leeds,
Felix visited her often with his violin to play with her.
Gradually he assumed the role of a brother and took care
of everything she needed until the end.
Their relationship was so c ose, that my mother often
threatened Felix with: "Dont you dare dying before me..."
^e told me that, if he ha dared to do so, she would have
said, "you did it on purpose" -- we both laughed at the
Idea, but it Just sounded like my mother.
And so only a few years after my mother died, he died too.
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D«ceob«r 8th 1975
My d^ar Maz*lanfltt,
Thank you ao vary much for your baautiful Poat Card of
Tumar'a Muaic Party at PatiAirth and your kind
Chanukkah lattar. I am ao ^lad that you are atlll fit
to maka Plana for ^artin^ton and all your partlas and
fas tlvl ties. I thank you for your kind Vishaa and aand
you our vlahaa for the coming year.
I an ^lad you hoard the Scottish NationaJ. Orcheater and
aav John Kltto. He ia a very nice boy.
We are living a very quiet life and I have bean ^ettin^
very weak of late. So ve han^ on with patience*
I aend you my love and kind wishes.
AJ.1 the best
Your Felix
ent:His last letter to oa.
jphn Kitto, a cellist, is the son of his sister.
Ann, his sister waa a close friend of my mother,
a ^ood pianist and married to Profeasor Kltto,
apeciaJLlzed in Greek History.
Martel,67 with her lister, Leeds
Dr. *!a:c Plossner
with his wife Lottel
freq:ent quests at
our house
Lottel
in London rem-^ined a
close friend to a : of us.
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Felix with his wife
'Vinnie at Thomas*
wedding in London
1972 (a few months
after my -mother's
death)
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A very special friend was my father's sister:
HAICIIEN: She died of brenst cancer ar: J left f..'o girls,
Use and ..nnenie, at the a{je of about 12 ye^rs,
^'hey contir.ued living with their father, until he too
had to be ::os ita^ized, atvi t'.e«^ they lived with
grandmother Schiff.
My mother trie^l her best to take care of the.T. , but there
were a number of obstacles, which would lead too far to
explain here.
The fact remains, that my mother s:cceeded to win their
love and both fjirls became Verile^as \vell as rr.y friends.
But aside frorj my mother's rather iar:^e fair.il y , she also
had friends, but they seemed to have disappeared with
the exception of one, who adored my mother in particular,
and who played later a major role for my mother as well
as for me, this was:
>'.ART''A ST:!:T.'\I 1 Z ; She was a hunchback, who never married
and had three sisters like herself, w^*om she managed to
brine: to Leeds. She was a quaker and had left ^ermr^ny
many ye^rs a^o.
Pa?»siona tel y interested in noli tics, she was suprised,
that my rr.otlier never re ul a newspaper. "3ut you rrust do this!"
'•'hereMpon my mother retorted, "but then my h':sban! could
not tell me any thine: -" ^o * my mother never read a paper,
even after my father's death.
In I93S, my mother decided to move to Leeds, honing that,
by bein/; in the sa;r.e town as Martel, it m-.y bring her
some piano students and perh .ps some soci'il connections.
(She must have plajined this long ago, since she snbjected
herself t :> maJce her examination as a music teacher nrevionsly. )
This happened, but not as soon and not as much as
she wo ;ld have liked. Nevertheless, when ^ talked to
a friend, wh-i lives in Leeds he said, that some people
still remember playing with her -- which was more then
13 years ago.
FMB (Franz Maria Bachman )
TTiis relationship had its beginning during the first
Vorld War, when people were "invited'* to mail packages
to service men without a family. Thus, my mother began
mailing packages to someone, who wrote back to thcink her.
During the ensuing correspondence my mother asked for
his profession ajid so he answered that he was a painter.
After the war they continued writing to each other and
one day, he appeared in our house. My mother expected to
see an average fellow, who could paint her walls.
Great was her sunrise, when a man arrived wearing a
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monocle, bald, in an open shirt and kneebreeches .
was about 6ft. 5 -
He did not paint any walla, but portraits.
Their friendship grew amd lasted till the end. H^ painted
my father, Verale and me. *^e lived with us for months
at a time, they met in Switzerland during the summer and
obviously had a good time together.
Later, he wrote an official letter in which he explicitly
declared, that as a German Aryan (he wrote "Deutscher
Christ") he could no longer identify himself as being
a German, that he met too many particularly nice peoole
among Jews, and that his many Jewish friends were being
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Gretel KorOszl
in Leeds
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(He did) dec^sxcn to con-.it suicide.
•^" letter vr.s :>.bU,he.: by the-, ..-•.,
- 7CV..3 later vera'e tq «j — *~ ' '•
' <^"- ^^"— nate.v. the a^swe! •-/";" '^^'^'^ '^' -^^^^
nd bu.-.ed ever. ,.„,,. doc^e. t . ^ .hi^; .^ "•: ""^^"^
their «rchiv.-s. '^••'^>' •^'1 in
Vou n=y see his pict,re wi . , ^^
booic. ,..her^ veraae ProudI ..• '.V,, , "^ " '" ""'-^ ^-^°-
■Htar un her bathing ,uit. " ^"^"-"i^e^ed
."or mv Ijt'i hi r-*.Aj
• -^ "irtnday he gave »,« a olctur. ■
<^one in v.torcolor. ^erale ..i:e. „ " '''^"^"
-ote to n. pax-ents which I ^ d r ' '"■''' "^"^^ ^^
3 P-t:res for you in .y .,^1, ^'"^^'- ^° ^-^-^ -re
•member ;
~i:2^ier. the conductor «r
»y mother btudi*^ ^^^^ opera wl t-h u
i»tjclied, and his ir^ ^i ^ ^ ^^o«
I^un^k- A „. «^^i friend
— — ifiiS- A marvellous C^,^
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My mother •^. ^^ ^^o-tln.
wuner studied with t
from Bor±<, r -^oaaph and Vpral. ^
ooris. Later Bnri , k ^^raie took lesanr.-
n^^4. oris became ^h-> ^ -^wasona
"•Pt. at .ueens CoUe.e i„ ^' *"' ='^^^"- "^ the .M.„,
* "- Soris 1 called, when V'
;-ai„ an, „,,,,, ^^^ introducti "" '^ '^"'^^ "-^c
^^^=i-^^^:£H2d.. a viouni. ; *''• ""^^-^ Trio
socially b.,T ~^^--°" t'o^nlBtr hla.eij. ^»«
^y. but neteer play,d ^i.. ' =^« to us
L- oJ.aer woman ^^w
^^^==^2rzienrat Sterj^ber:.. an^ ''"'''•'' '^ '»> Brahm.
^^thou^h n,y -.o;;;r:7::^. ,r*'"' -^^^^^^.t.
-cepted hl„ for wh.fv.; ^ "'''^ ""•vfe^"*. -h.
"-ought her alway, lar.e/ "' "'""''''^-— • he
-- -3 -.e .arden.T lirS':' "■^"""^ "--
"-. vhlch n,ay h.ve flattered^ "''' """^ ^-^^n.
*»>«' he continued to callT '''' "'"^ *° -"il. at .. '
= -ii her-onadlffe Frau. . •• "*• *"»
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"'•e the musicians I h„
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iJ.von Pozniak
Crirl Freun i
Joserh Schuster
The couples my rother invited to rlay chess or s':at
with ny f..cher I clo rcrr.ember : ^-cii.
Dr. losner, a dentist
Dr. .'i.essner, an internist
Dr. Laband
Dr. iincsjhn,a ::yn.ieco ] oc^i s t
i.antorowi tz, a rese.-.rcher m chemistry
and more ....
iknt evenings for my fpt :er me-^t, t^at mv mother had to
** entertain" the sr?ouses. 1 doubt, if she like^l this
.he -onet-.es pu ^ed -. short cic^r, or knitted.
Apnies ..-ere never -^rve'J, ^inc. shp conic! not to'er-te the
soujid vheji ^f-onie chewed them.
So t is was my .^other's 1 i f e : ICoeping .^^ j^^,^^^ hanrw . vacation
trips, our •..•eifare .nd ed .ic. tior , the household, the
weekend house, the evenin,:s filled witr. cliess, s:;at, music,
oncerts. plays, c barets. intoi tations ^ the luncheons
. with relatives, ouf of tox^-n ,T.iests, the after-
noons with numerous birthday parties and other obli^ra tlons .
Thinkin- about her living in Leeds so utterly alone,
deprived practically of all her belon<;inT3. slee-.ing in that
cold attic with my father's bathrobe un ler her bed5j:.eet
she must hive been profoundly depressed,
Zveryone she loved or knew, was either deal, far avny or
had an unknow destiny, riow sad and lonely she nnjst have been.
Yet, she zianaced - as you well know.
L eeds
19^6
One of the m.st interesting- aspect of her person lity
±a the asto-ojidin^ strength wit!, which she tried to ke-p
family and friends togetner.
At a critical point in that time - in 1940 - she wrote
me the address of Feli:t's brother in New I'ork. By sheer
coincidence, this actually saved my life and ^ot me out
of Gurs •
'.-hen I arrived in New York, she wrote me the addresses of
everyone sh«? Icnev.
.atnou(rh 1 did not like my cousin ^bert. for ny mother
he w-.s the child of her most beloved sister ^retel ind
she insisted, that - should ke^p in touch with him.
^hus, 1 fo. :nd through Albert his brother Jullu as well as
Curt Jacoby.
It was Jullu. who was behaving like a father to ne. when
I visited them in Milwaukee. ^*e w-:s the one. vho brought
me to a vocational service, whose social worker convinced
me. that - should try to take up music again professionally.
And taere are many more of my mother's connections, who did
extraordinary things for me, contributing to alrrost
everything: I am today.
It almost feels like a mystery - as if rry mother had the
intuition to malnta:Ln relationships with so many, so that
I may benefit.
For how well she succeeded, there is no expression..
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Oder violltlcht an AUTIIUI: SCiari-*, ichloalscho Foumlom/erkc, Sonncnplatz 3 7
VER bcsuchto uns violloici.t zu «ir cm "=»chach odor ^kat Abend wiihrend ir.
Muslkzinunor Joseph Schuator, Jasbiia I^ornstein, Carl Freund, Joseph
Schwaz^ odor viole Andoro horrliche Muailc machton ••von Schubert,
BcethovoHf Uralims bis i^obussy oder "sojar Hindemi-rh" ••?
^R besuchte uns zu den vorjnUgtcr Schtllerkonzerten voi. der Geijenlahrerln .
HANNA SCfC'iACIC? (Wo mac <^^^ wo^^^ scin^ )
VEIv ass wohl die gutcn iCuchcn, liebevoll gebac.vcn voi: Triuieir* Hanne"
(Mt deis Zwicker auf dcr Nase und dc-i Doppeii>J.rjn'» } ^
Oder VER canzte mit der fcdchcn Marianne Tru-.^jo oa^r *'<x.:bz.':
VER fuhr Ski nit der rundlichen Vera in-ocicr nicnt tn do;; ICarncrader.?
Giot es nuch solchc. diu sich erlnr.ern wollcn?. ^ ..
ur.bokannten Dckonnten, dcnn am 23 .Mai dieses J.xJnrc^ ibt nicin *.uttclc^'.en,
unsex'c Ocii, iXire Trud* Schiff, gcb. Kraft, san* t einceschlaf en. Vnscre »
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4'j\ die monatlichc Va:*chfrau
An unser iCindcnnAuchcn i'rau Caspcrlco
An die verblichcnen Namon v:n Menacx.v.n, Liobe :ial faj.r».n, C^acliichaft"
.\U8nu^en, i'^erienreiien, Gei-urtstac>:n und alios all3&
Unser ^oliebtos Muttelchen Velcher "^e^eii Jottes eine sol.:.c
Muttor bosesaen zu haben*
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VHO may still rerr.enber TRUD3 3C!iIFF?
Breslau, the street of iinperor .Villiain number 179?
Or perhaps ARTIIU.l 5CHIF7 of the '*5ilesicm Veneer Manufacturing"
Sunny Pl.ice nui^ber 3?
■.iHO perhaps, paid us a visit for a chess or sc^t evening •
while in the .-nusic room Joseph Schuster, Jascha i-ierr. stein,
Carl 'reund or many others made won 'erful music
From ^chubert, Beethoven, Brahms to ^ebussy or "even Ilindemi th? ••
WMD visited our happy student concerts of 4anna Schir.ack?
( tTiere mp.y she be now?)
VHO ate the good c .kes lovin/rly prepared by >:iss -Irnne -
with the pincenez on her nose and a doub'e chin?
Or, -^'HO danced with the chic Marianne a tan^n or a rur.ba?
WHO went on skis wit the "roundly" Vera from or not fr^^m
the "Comrades?"
Are there sti'l people, wio wish to rer:ember?
In this case mourn with us - unknown friends, because
on May 25, tiis year, my "fclu t telchen " our Omi , your
Trude -^chiff, born l.raft, softly went tr) eternal sl:?ep.
Our mourning is jrer.t,
VITH HER disappear the children within us and we are
obliged to be adults ''^or good."
WITH HER dis ^^pear the letters fall of love r'nd interest
for the most sec et wishes and emotions.
WITH HCR our far.ily and circle of friends definitely
entered the '^past present. ••
WITII llZn died all memories we ha^; in comr. on :
the monthly washerwoman
our nurse, Mrs ^asperke
•nnd the now f^ded names of oeople, l-^ve nff^irs
parties, excursions, travels, birth-iays r>nd every thin^. . everthin.T
Our beloved ".'ru t te ' chen" hat blessing of God t- hnve
had such a mother.
Vera (l?72)
Comnient :
The time to which V.rale refers here^s about 1926 . 1
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Hanna Schmaclci was her violin teacher, a particularly
usly woman with buck teeth, but obviously quite popular.
Joseph Scnu,ter= a cellist - a young Russian. Jewish
refugee, who spoke very little «ennan. The successor of
the famous Gregor Piatigorsky in the Poiniak Tr±o.
Professor Bronislav von V.ir.i.w. ^^s my piano teacher.
To be one of hi, students was considered a great honor In
reslau, since he only worked with professionals and I
was no more than 12 years old when he accepted me as
his pupil.
Carl freund; a young German, who played the violin In
the Poznlak Trio.
All of them played with my mother at all hours, at time,
til dawn - while my father went to bed or played chess
or skat in our library.
PS: Ko alcohol nor wine was ever served at any time!!
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clever?? Vaiter had been in i .r,'. ' ^^d
»^cen in London ove-r j*,,,,^
works alre..dv verv nurh ^ "^nday, David
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January I3, 1953
My Beloved,
there is so much •« « ^« »_
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letters, that ir ^- ^ /o«r
that It is impossible for me to answer
even hair of it!! answer
Did you again receive an -a- fro. Pace? I . .
the pictures ^d artici. whose voicT ou Jw:;:""
your wor. - such famous p.opi. . ,„. .J^/^Zl
all thlsf! Ray win coo. back .o„„ n . ""•"""
V. have a iot of .now and ic^ 1 " '^*'°"* '""'
nobody comes! - It wo Id h .' "" '""^ ^''••
Y . t wo Id be nice to play trio-
Yes. about Val I „ad everything.
li.e read the book already „any y,ars ago.
A tender lUss. my dearest
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To mv clilldren,
I only wanted to tell you, that the two little chests of
drawers are the property of Peter Kraf t (KUthe ' s son) and
that Kurt left them have me only for use during my lifetime,
but belong to the purchase of my whole bedroom, I should
like to have them back without further discussion.
Your mother
This letter, dear Marianne may be completely past - I
shall try to tell timeless things, i'^or example, that the
son of Kurt Gadiel will be passing here. ^Ise thought him
nice. I made them a present with a tablecloth for X2.-.
It seema, that she was very happy about it. Furthermore,
the matron was pushed off the bus and she has a swollen
blue eye. Thanks *^od , it is not too bad. Then this morning
a welfare officer came to see me in connection with Braille.
'*'lse spoke of "talking books", something that you proposed
years ago, I need a certificat from a physician. My cold
is still with me, but thanks God not too bad. Received the.,?
Yesterday I had...? in my condition.
After my afternoon nap I stripped my^self entirely naked
and waited for .,, to get dressed. Suddenly Ilse ippeared.
i thought - so early? In my head it was 8:30 - in reality
2:30. So it goes downhill!!
Give me only with warm and cold
so I would have at least one pen
Monday 10 o'clock (January 18, 1971)
My Beloved,
quickly a kiss for you before the mall strike
begins. I Just bathed and breakfasted emd now I also want
to write to Vera. Perhaps V^ra Just "aald so" about her
plans with slds and did not mean It seriously.
Never did I work as much as you or Vera. Although I had
many students In Leeds (I6) and verv often played in oublic.
But I was independent, which is a gi an tdi rf erence,
Ernie was here again, a golden mam. Hude came the other
day with home made cookies. 1 had good news of her children.
Read the biography of Ida Handel, which made me clear again
how clever we were not to chose music as a profession.
What occurs behind the scenes is undescribable. How was the
exan*^ Ann becomes impatient, she says the baby is so restless,
A sign, that it wants to come out. She will be in a very
good Hospital, she will be taken there by an ambu^amce,
B. does not like it. But thanks God she has a very good
relationship with her father, who spoils her. The Matron
told me this*
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continue your great success.
In great admiration
and love
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My Beloved,
Vera's address: Vera ieter, 5 Me^gadiai, ^^anat Gan Israel,
Felix is still not/right. The other day he forgot to
bring '^•nne's address. He is no youngster anymore .(■:! 3 years)
Today arrived your letter with enclosures from Paris.
Today I am a bit better, that is why I shall write right
now. How highly talented and so mul tifaceted>/character
you have. Cn stage you would have been also very great.
Presents: matron, warm scarf in a color of mandarins,
Ann waxrr scarf - color insignificant. She is always cold.
Children - has time. For the others I dont know.
For mm 2 pairs of stockings, 2 white pants, fountain pen??
Do n t spend so much money, you work hard enough.
1 am a little better, but far from being well.
Therefore only a tender kiss, rr.y Dearest, Beloved
Your Mutka
May 20, 1972
(five days before she died)
My Beloved,
Tea, I still cam read your letters, although with
interr'jptions. Am happy for you about Paris. How long
did you stay there? How did you arrange I)artington?
Yesterday, I vomited again a lot and at night had
more nose bleedings. K&the and Olive travel ^^onday
to Norway for 3 weeks. Unf ortunatel)r, there is'nt very
mueh doing with me anymore.
(This as preparation for our seeing each other again.
Vhen?? Tliat David learns ax*abic I wrote already?
Dont work too mucli, health is EVERYTHING.
With tender love
Your Mutka
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My Beloved,
Unforgettable your first appearance with your fine
part and grandmother's only handklss - I was touched.
And now, you are a mature woman, who fills her place
in life 100*^0. From my heart all the best my ^eareat,
my Best. X-10»- ^ c*" promise you for certain, but
hope it will be more, after I speak to ^elix.
^e takes wonderful caxe of my finances. A golden man
and Winnie too. "Diis we have to thank grandmother.
She became a widow with 8 children - I was two years
old! And she maintained the correspondence with my
father's cousins • (Felix' s father and uncle)
That is marvellous. Well, I wish you with all my
heart continuous success my Beloved.
In great love
Your Mutka
Comment ;
Four days later, she died.
The sen tence : "This we have to thank grandmother**
confirms her belief, that by keeping the family
members in touch with each other, is a source of
strength and was part of her heritage.
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Loved by so mcmy, why did my mother live a', utterly
alone? 3he h d been in Israel as well as in New York
— but always returned . Yes, ^g] and has a sir.ilar
culture as the one she was used to ajid yet ---
She must have known how much Verale needed her, as well
as myself. **e both expressed the wish to live with her.
But no -- and her "no's" were consistent
One time she asked me, if I ever mentioned to be Salter's
sister in law, because she never did. (Neither did I)
She told me that, while bein^ in Oxford, how much she
disliked, when people introduced her as Walter's mother
in law and not with her name. She was n proud -uid inde-
pendent soul and did not wish t-i be identified as a mother
in law of-----
Vhen I came to see her, feeling happy to be with her .nd
satisfied if I could make her place a little nicer by
cleaning, lining drawers ajid polishing the few remnants
about her she said: "I don t like the iden, that you spend
your vacation in this room - do something else -" And
nothing could convince her, that it made me happy to be
just with her - and I had to leave.
And so alone, she waited for "peace" to cone.
-*"t was dark in her room, with some plants she liked at
her screened window, a little piano vit:^ some insignificant
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You saw it all -
When I came, I always needed to suppress the
memory of the past, when she would practice at
her grand piano in a black and gold papered music
room aunong lemon wood furniture with beautifully
inlaid patterns of the most precious mother of pearls*
How cruel li^e has treated her.
And yet:
It • eems as if she was relatively content, that
she had managed a life true to herself and to
her convictions.
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V E R A L E. HY SISTER
Bora in Breslau on May 19. 1913. Juat a year before World
War I. Verale picked up the marching songs from the passing
soldiers, singing them long before she spoke a word.
She was about k years old -hen she started her violin
lessons. After my mother tried to teach her to read music
for quite some time, she discovered to her suprise. that
^erale could not read a single note.
V. had learned to play by ear. TTius my mother made her
read the compositions backwards, but to no avail -- V,
played the music baCKwards by ear as well.
soon we were suppo.ed to play together, which never worked
out since ^ felt accompanying to be -degrading." So we
played together only when we felt obliged to comply with
pur mother's wishes.
AS adults we liked playing together whenever we met until
she married Yehuda.
Yehuda claimed to be musical, which aroused Verale 's
curiosity and so she -tested" him by playing the same piece
the moment she hear* him come home. After the third time
he asked her:-Vhy do you always play the same piece?- which
proved that he had quite a good ear.
it was a nice joke for us.
In 1972 when my mother died. I went to see Verale and met
Yehuda for the first time. A few weeks before. Vera had a
bad accident, hurting her ann badly and she could not play
the violin.
We were both in a somewhat somber mood and Vera was for-
ever exercising in front of a mirror to control her move-
ments. Not being able to play was a serious setback in
her life.
The next tine we met, Vera was already tocsick to play.
However, she wanted me to play a melody we both connected
with our childhood:
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So I played the sentimental song a bi t more cheerful to
which she naturally objected.
However, I was quite aware, that melodies sometimes
generate powerful emotions.
Ve both realized the advamced degree of her sickness and
I felt intensely, that this was a "musical good-bye."
It was a difficult moment, but I decided that at all
costs, I had to avoid a situation of profound distress.
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*^-ided In the heavenly situated 3irlsschocl( fcraerly a noipery) at Downhouse
.. 'JeYsfeur:.', 15o sen and women fron the age bet-.veen 19 and To assembled there
r. a certain Prida:^ in the month of Julyequipped v.lth rationcards pillowslips she*
.eets tov/els instrjsnents ( froa one to three because I saw one ineaber arrive v/itl:
violins and one viola) rrasicstands and lots and loads of oueic. This was the fin
^ of a scene lastir*g 4 vreeks run by the British Finti^rnT *^ orgar-f ea^^^?ny^ under
.9 Os-vLt^.*^ Cr«A.4-^c — a-i^ , 7he first v/eek quartetts guintetts /a?TT o "dd string? 2c
*s like nyself-;hose ?5ad luck aadec it izxossible to come as a quartett unitT^nd
■ek was an orchestralv.-eek which was attended by a good number of players vSo had
-rived v.lth ae, 3rd v.'eek recorders only and the last week sinnging.
n 3ov.Tiho'.:se t'^ere ••'ere plenty of c^lls v.here instead of contenrlating the life
••'e v.'ere ver:' --ch r:ore concemed)/ln practicing a certain difficjilt passf
^ahr:s" I never succeeded in counting ther: but there niust be no end of Ir
^rjesize rooz:s v.'here the 4o quartetts or so 7;orked for their dally coaching less
n.'r^'oboly was in the least concerned about -^.erefrcn v/e C3r.e and v;i:ence v;e v.-ent
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LO'* to daj' or '^.at shall ve '* ^o " to r.orrow. 'Tov/ this was
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the players 3rea-:fast( and it '.tas good f:z
becaug^.everyone tried for the first Fidels, It was a revelati
/;?ac?fvery^ery simple. She came made no speeches except that
r and sore ver'/ keen people rlshed already at 7,2o into their cell for practice-
(9rrjsic cane fro::: ever:.-r;here and those '::uartettunits ^.ho pla:'' torather ^n tl:e
ar round or had formed themselves at arrival \rith old friendsC this sumerschool
s already been in excistence for I rthirJc 12 :.'^ars and there are novr many more 11
'T.t different t;^es of e± suchJ-i'tes in excistence) worked for their lesson' of 5o
n^-ites mcmir*^ and afternoon. 3eir^ a stranger among them I started off to the
larg3 G:,Tihall v;here I fo'jnf ca 31 players eagerly av/adti^ Helen Just Teacher
^'^ Cello at t:ie royal academi^e for music London and wife of Ivor James C.H. Celi
-Os^, I wondered H077 would she shape us all net knov.'lng our /Qualities and how
vrould she seat us
:ion to me and as al^ , _ _
:he inforr.ed As of the prograrsn and as the Basis for chambeirrusic told us to tune
•rmr and th^t one by one ?d.th everyoneelse absolutely quiet. It took us more than
-^0 minutes and it had to be perfect. And ever^/one afterwards knew escactly which
'Ualities each player has. The succesful ^onfort^jnite leader of the group had from
then on the terrible task of giving his A to everyone 4 timeds a day. Helen Juat
:ever started a reheairsal without this procedure and ale ays took the utmost troubl
about everybodies 4 strings. After 2 days already '/fe were seated into groups
f ^artetts so that one should not become dependent on the player seated next
nd the miracle was that without raising our standards of technic she shaped the
usic by teSKtjiginsi sting on phraseing pauses accents and little titbits which
ere the caract eristics of music. As much as possible she tried to not to conduct
and her concentration never never slackened durinr that week. The ^players we^
mostly nonproffessionals but some v/ere teachers at schools onexlOBiy teacher in
"remen, sa'iime students at the accademitxxHxgnDxxsBBAli^juLxxa Break for coffee at 1
11 were v/e sat on the lawns or went to a musical librajry where you could look at
or buy chamber music from the oldest to the newestliteratur*e. 'York from 12 to one
Lunch and from 2 to 4 we formed into groups andcdddceerlo^ecpiaytng and pla:''ed vi
just so. Tea ?.t 4 and work from 5 to b3o 7 dinner and every evenir^g at 3 there
"v/as a concert performed by the l^enges auartetjfcxasd
'/dth occasional addition for Qintett or Sextett by
:'ov; you ma;/ sav for or against the Kenges what you like but there they played s
erbly. You see if you play to an audience like that it improves your pleasure
' * >ia:^nr. The works were usually illustrated and analysed by the very asiusiro
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and I cannot unfortunately dare to copy sorae for your pleasure because It
rrould lack the atnosphere his c voice and the funny little tuff of hair or. ;
his bald head. He is a v^ry lovable man and has a -^fonderful musical Instir.v -'.
Ai^er the concert there was the usual en^lish"cup of tea and.a-.bun" and there
^re occasional^ s'ti^ sounds of playing: after lo,3o but I ^^^^^
•^••^11'^ -♦— 'gi'' +0 -*-»*^''v^iit wi'O'^o ^r^^ -^o '^•^^ tvof*^ ^c® ^* lunch time we had
a gooo perronnSnce or^ n .
players partaking in the course anon£: then Students
>of the R.A.r erf orrring the^och ^uintett. This is the li^t of works perforaec
J« in tlie evening and Sere arc those v/orks v/hich I plaved in the course of m^''
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Seven days of alias for all lovers of chanberrrruaic .
This should really have been tne title for the course
of chamber music, which I -attended in the heavenlv
situated "Girls School," (formerly a nunnery; at
Downhouse, near Newbury.
13c men and women from the age between 19 and 70
assembled there on a certain Friday in the month of
July equipped vu. th ration cards, pillow slips, sheets,
towels and instruments, (from one to three, because I
saw one member arrive with two violins and one viola)
music stands and lots and loads of music.
This was the first day of a scene lasting four weeks,
run by the British festival Organization under the
Queen's Patronage,
The first week quartetts, quintetts, -vnd odd string-
players like myself, whose bad luck made it impossible
to come as a qviartett unit.
The second week was an orchestral week, which was atten-
ded by a good number of players, who arrived with me,
the third week recorders only and the last week singing.
In Downhouse there were plenty of cells, where instead of
contemplating the life hereafter, we were very much more
concerned in practicing a certain difficult passage of
"the Brahms" I never succeeded in counting them, but
there must be no end of large size rooms where the Uo
quartetts or so worked for their daily coaching lesson.
Nobody was in the leist concerned about where from we
came and whence we went, but only what did we "do" today
or what shall we "do" tomorrow. Now this was the dally
routine.
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Bells went at 7a.m. and there was a rash for the bath-
rooma as there is in any comrn'onal gr-^up. The rooms were
tidied by the players. Breakfast (and it was good food)
at 8 and some very keen people rushed already at 7:30
into their cell for practicing.
At 9 1 music came from everywhere and those quartett
units, who play together all the year round or had
formed themselves at arrival with old friends.
(This summer school has already been in existence for I
think 12 years and there are now many niore anc different
types of such likes in existence) worked for their lesson
of 50 minutes morning \nd afternoon.
Being a stranger ajn-n^ thera, I started off to the large
gym hall, where I found ca 31 Dlayers ep.gerly awaiting
iielen Just, teacher for cello at the Royal A'caiemy for
Music La^don afld wife of Ivor James S.H. Cell too.
I wondered, how would she shape us all not knowing our
qualities n d how wojld she se^t us, because everyone
tried for the first fidela . (fiddles )
It was a revelation to me and aa always, revelations
are very very simple. She came, made no speeches, excent
that sh*^nformed us of the program and .s the basis
for chambermusic , told us to tune.
And that one by one with everyone else absolutely q'liet.
It took us more than ^O minutes and it had to be perfect.
And everyone afterwards knew exactly, which qualities
each player has. The successful unfortunate leader of
the group had from then on the terrible task of giving
his A to everyone k times a day.
Helen Just never started a rehearsal without this
procedure and always took the utmost trouble about
everybody's ^ strings.
After 2 days already we were seated into groups of
quartetts so that one should nor becntr.e dependent on
the player seated next, and the miracle was, tihat
without raising our standards of technic, she shaped
the music by insisting on phrasing pauses, accents and
little tidbits, which were the characteristics of music.
As much as possiJile, she tried not to conduct and her
concentration never never slackened during that week.
The players were mostly non-professionals, but some
were teachers at schools. One teacher in Bremen, some
studants at the -^cademy -
Break for coffee at 11, where we sat on the lawns or
went to a musical library, where you could look at
or buy chanber music from the oldest to the newest
literature. Vork from 12 to one - Lunch and from 2-U
we forrr.ed into groups and played Just so. Tea at k
and work from 3-6:30. 7, dinner and every evening at 8
there was a concert performed by the Menges Quartett
with occasional addition for ^uintett or Sextett
Now you may say for or against the Menges what you like,
but there they olayed superbly. You see, if you play to
^n audience like that, it Improves your pleasure of
playing. The works were usually illustrated and analysed
by the very amusing man Ivor James and really, I have
not laughed in years as much as there - and I cannot
unfortunately dare to copy some for y^ur pleasure,
because it would lack the atmosphere, his voice and
the funny little tuff of hair on his bald head.
He is a very lovable man and has a wonderful musical
instinct, '^-fter the concert, there was the usual
^(jlish '*cup of tea and a bun" and t:.ere were occa-
sionally still sounds of playing: after 10:30 but I
never really tried to find out where and who did them.
'-'nee at lunch ti.-se we had a good perfonrance of players
partalcing in the course umong them students of the
R.A,(Hoy^i Academy) performing the Bloch ^uintett.
'-^his is the list of works performed in the evening
and those works which I played in the course of my
wonderful stay at Downe House at the cost of 7.I76O
Brahms ^^uintett op. 38 in F
Beethoven Fmin. op. 95
f\ircell ^haconne
Mozart Quintett K..515
V. Williams Phantasy Quintett
Dvorak Sextett op. 48
Schubert "Death and the Maiden."
Debussy G min .
Bloch Quintett r2
Mozart Quintett in £
Hoiydn op. 33 ^3
Schubert quintett op.163
Wh«, Vera wa. 12 years old. I was already a fully
fledsed teenager and «ore than welcomed invitation,
to ride behind a boy on a ■otorbike. receive po«»,,
flowers or presents from my various "bows."
It was the time of Kafka. Brecht. Strawlnlky. Richard
Strauss. Ja«. Marlene Ui.trich. "The Countess Mant.a-
short hair, short clothes and nylon stockings.
I was permitted to go to concerts in the evenings,
although I was still in Higi, School.
Verale seemed "awed" - and I remember her asking-
-how do you do it7-- while expressing her wish to do
likewise. By trying to console her. I said, -it will be
the same for you one day."
However, it never happened.
Not only did she have a different disposition, but time
*aa against any possibility of ever enjoying the kind of
life I had for so many years.
She was -late- in growing up. and by then, our society
had begun to disintegrate. Profound anzlety influenced
our daily life. J.wi.h people were reluctant to main-
tain relationship, with Aryans and ^Ty^s shied away from
Jews. When V.rale finally .et so-eone ,h. liked, he wa.
the son of my parent's friends.
He was a medical student, who was also a passionate
amateur photographer. Only about a block away from us,
he lived with his parents in a aumptlioas villa.
In spite of a very different lifestyle the Jewish
society had to adopt at that time t VeraJe seemed happy.
"No Jevs" signs appeared on coffee and movie houses,
people were leaving or discussing their depaxture, there
were rumors of torture, disappearances, suicides, there
was a "hush"* in the a tino sphere, which seemed to be growing
by the day.
When Vera got officially engaged to him, she had a job
and appeared to be satisfied. However, it took very many
years before Verale told what actually happened next:
Without informing neither Vera nor my parents, her
fiance's family had been trying to arrange a visa to the
States. So it came like a thunderbolt, when they suddenly
announced, that they were leaving.
-^t was natural for Vera to think, that they will get
■angled and she would leave with them, but there was the
question of a dowry*
Yes, my father was willing — but under the circumstances »
he was reluctamt to give more, than he specified.
Actually, the prospective father in law was a much
wealthier man than my father. It was 193^ amd my father
felt responsible for his many employees as well ais for
his family.
Nevertheless, they insisted on getting a larger sum as
a dowry — - amd so they departed without Verale.
Psychologically V«ra could not accept the situation
and feeling certain to be loved by her fiance, she was
waiting for a sign - a letter - a cable - something.
But nothing ever caoe.
When I saw her again, she was very still, quite be :ufiful
and better groomed than it was her custom.
We met in Holland, where she stayed with her good friend
Alicel. It was tie Spring of I937 and she was on her
way to Oxford as an "aupair" to Dr. Berenblum's children.
VHY OXFORD ????
Strange to say, but the reason why Vera would go to
Oxford had its beginning with my brother in law:
Rudy Beerel.
At this time laws agaiinst transferring money out of
Germany had been an accepted fact and many tried to
find all kinds of ways to smuggle it out, Thus, ^dy
bought a diamond ring and a small IS karat gold handbag,
went to London and found a wholesaler, who was willing
to buy them, but the offered price did not satisfy him.
^hen Rudy came to Paris, where he left the jewelry with
his brother, my husband, in the hope that he might be
able to get a better price.
However, this was not the case so ny husband mailed it
all back to th^wholesaler in London. Since this is agaiinst
international law, the wholesaler was furious and cabled,
that he had no use for these pieces amymore and demanded
to have them picked up.
For some reason my husband needed this money very badly
and so he reminded me that I have some "^glish uncles"
- - handed me a worthless violin, which I should also try
to sell and "shipped" me with borrowed money the same
evening to London*
For me tnis was great adventure! It was February, I spoke
no English, had no money and had never seen these "English
uncles." By crossing the frontier in the middle of the
night, the inspector asked me to leave the train to be
questioned* I made a suspicious impression*
Rather young and quite pretty, dressed in a light colored
furcoat wi th an artificial rose pinned at the lapel.
A German passport, on which it was marked that I am a
pianist, but carried a violin, the inspectors were at
a loss what to think of me.
Hy husband had urged me not to mention the Jewelry, so
I only spoke of the "English uncles" which they did not
believe me. ^fter some minutes of questioning I became
rather uneasy, which gave me the idea to invent a boy-
friend in London*
"You see," I said, "that I am married, but I have a
boyfriend in London whom I wish to be with."
It was purely made up, but it worked: I was in England!!
At 5 o'clock in the morning I arrived in this foggy town
and di<inot know what to do with myself, when I remembered
a composer from Vienna whom I met in Paris and had given
me as his next address the Hotel *^egent in London.
When I arrived at the ^^otel, he had moved, but there was
a f'rench speaking manager, who was able to trace his
present address, gave me some money and a bellboy to
put me on the right bus.
The composer was in bed and - to put it mildly -
rather suprised to see me. ^e breakfasted together and
^ told him of the transaction I was supposed to do*
At a reasonable hour I telphoned my &iglish uncle
(uncle Felix) but he was in Merocco. His brother Erwin ,
who did not even know of my existence - proposed me to
come to the office for lunch.
Rather shocked with my appearance, he did not know what
to do with me nor with my Jewelry. So he called his wife
Hetty, who was to pick me up from the underground station
By wishing me good-bye he made it quite clear, that no
Bake up would be tolerated in his house. It was a beautiful
house in Hampstead, but I was given a room where the water
was frozen and the electric^«^'^'*-'^was shining but not
wanning. So for many days I slept fully dressed in my
furcoat on the floor next to this electric heater.
There was a bathroom, but it was always occupied and I
did not know enough English and did not dare to ask at
what time I may be able to use it.
After a few days my composer friend gave me some toilet
water while stating that I had begun to smell. He was a
wonderful companion and it was also he who finally helped
me to find someone to sell the Jewelry and mail the money
to my husband.
For me living without heat was pure suffering which stopped
me from thinking straight, -"^ating fried fish with tea at
8 o'clock in the morning and no one shaking hands with
me made me uncomfortable.
But, I gradually adapted, because people were so kind to
me. There was a nice grand in the salon, many complimented
me about my Biglish, there was a possiibility of getting
a scholarship — so I remained in London,
Tlie family intended to give a party and Hetty suggested
to wrtte my husband to mall my evening dress.
It was a beautifully custom made white satin gvwn from
^reslau to which my mother in law had given me a white
ermin cape, since it was deeply cut and she knew how
much I suffered with cold rooms. I was pretty much in
contrast to the rather young English daughters who were
dressed in tulle.
Reni in light green, Joan in pink and Peggy in brown.
While dancing to and fro 1 suddenly noticed a grin on
a middle aged man when it '*hit'* me that this m^st be
uncle Felix of whom my mother had spoken so often.
I was more than happy to see him - it felt as if I had
finally found my "ID."
However, after tlie party, I was told to move into a hotel,
since they expected another cousin to live %fi th them.
They would pay for it. This being done, I had to find
someone, who would give me food and perhaps a scholarship.
"^trange as it may sound, I arranged it all:
I was accepted at the ^obum House for my meals, supplied
with some money to study Jazz as well as a course to learn
English at the University.
However, my husband resented my independence and wrote;
"If you are not able to share bad times with me, then we
better part. "
Although I knew he had only debts and did not even pay rent
for our furnished room, I returned to him after three monthi
Since I had wx-itten in detail everything to my mother she
came to the conclusion that I must have made a rather bad
impression upon the English family*
Consequently she decided to go to London. Loaded with some
nice presents, not only to find out what really happened,
but also to reacquaint herself with Felix, whom she had
not seen in many years*
It was 1935.
All over the world Jews discussed how to behave or what
to do. The Nazis seemed like a growing cuicer, which no
one understood nor diagnosed correctly Its ghastly
ifflplications.
However, triggered by my '•adventure," my mother under-
took this trip to see ^elix and met a^ain her good friend
Martel i^teinitz.
Thus, it was on account of this Journey that my mother
was able to arrange the au-pair position for Verale in
Oxford when she was in need of a chamge.
Before I continue writing about these rather fragmented
documents as well as memories let me give you an idea
about the atmosphere of that time.
Vhen Verale married Walter in 1938 I lived in Paris
with my husband under rather difficult circums tances.
But so did my parents and all those, who opposed
"Hitlerism" . Many of us thought, that if the AJ.lies
would Just drop a few bombs over Berlin or the concen-
tration camps, everything would collapse.
But those were dreams.
The following year 1939 Varschau ( Vaursovie) burned and
war had begun. The years that followed forced all of
us to constant difficult adjustments.
Letters, particularly from Vera, were rare. Her confidant
was my mother whom she saw occasionally, but I was
left out, not only because I lived so far away that we
could hardly see each other, but also, because in order
to survive, I had been obliged to adopt an entirely
different lifestyle.
Thus, you will find huge time gaps in this collection.
As sm example: it took more than 10 years after ^erale's
marriage before I saw her a^ain in Leeds at my mother's
home. Suffering from a tumor in my spinal cord (which
took another year to be diagnosed correctly) I was in
a sozrry state.
Moreover. I was dependent on medication and more
often than not in violent pain. Nevertheless, I
believe we succeeded in lau^hin^ together as in
the old times, although these were only seconds
of happiness taicing our thoughts away from the
anguish we felt in adjusting to new lives in our
uprooted and confusing world in which every familiar
element had vanished,
Verale lived a difficult life in Israel, as you
may well remember, my mother vi th very little money
without her loved ones alone in England and I had
to face the problems of my own life.
However, although 'strangers" in a way. we both
tried to be like sisters and adjusted to one
another in our first renuion in more than
ten years.
Worte kffnnei* es nlcht sa^en
was G«fUhle slad •-
^^°d ajl,n«lne helasen Pfageb
ffprech Iwh in den Vindy
la den Wind der sl^e'blmreffti^rt
in Vergessenheit '^ is^-^S^
Heut noch alles aturabewegt
wlrd bald Vergangenhelt.
Waff heut in air laut sprechen will
mlt helsaeatem Gerihl
^ h^J^^^^ Morgan wleder •tiU-
ab^ekiart und kUhl •^-uj.
Vorte kOnnen es nlcht sa^en
was GefUhle slad
Und all aelne helssen Fra^en
aprech Ich In den Wind.
Tra^achea Schlckaal lat ea zu SoUen
/ ^» ^.n.^ ^^^^ ^ Wollen,
; GWciaichea Schlckaal lat irfOUnng d
Boch z^eapalt br§\?fl^:^^ ^eehnen
Txnd ftr Becht elnzuatehen.
i^^«^-.j« I — a— jBi
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Not dat«d
"L'^'.iT"''* "'' ^"^ ""otiona feel
And .11 ay bot questions 1 sp.I^ i„^ ,^
T« *w -^ »P«ajc into the vind
-tn the wind which car-r-i^. ♦.k '^na.
Today all stll^ .i-^!!. " ^''^^ ^"to foreetrui«-.
u^-4. -T^r^ "^ stormy -toon win k-> -.u "^"-^s' ^-iuixiess
Vhat wished loud to talk wlthr^ ^^'^ P*«^
within myaelf with the .o.t fex^ent
Tomorrow already it is ..signed and cool -otlon..
Vorda cannot .ay how emotiona f.-i
And all my i,ot questions ispef^in.. .h
apeaic into the wind.
Tra^c fate to "muat" t^^M
Happy fat. 1, sa^sfacwfn !„ *° ""'"*'"
-^1 though doubts brrngthe J^""*^ deatiny
"d to dofsnd on,-, rlffh? *' towards lonfflnj
Coomejitj^ Like m, , v.ral, Uved .Ion .
in sxtrem.iy difficult situ J^ •'"*^"» ^ar,
^r family, frisnd.. .t,d curtur^''
destroyed nnd we were f^^fn !!.""'"• "rutally
Within ourselves wiThour^'u^rhe^f ' ""^^^
Verale tried to adjust bv h.^
which she call, -b^r de^ti^^t"^ t *°°'' '»°**'«^ -
obliged to cope with evf^v^K. " '~*' ^^ ^'ing
•"d wl-hed for a littirLr f '"■"' »»'« ref.nt.d
to be "her right." "°" happl„es.. .he f ,i "
A Mothers
Be happy, be ^ay,
The worries won't run away
Work hard but leave the rest
To the One (and only) who knows beat
Lau^h at the flowers* snell the wind,
Mi.x with people of a happy kind
Be sad %flth o there » cry at sad thought)
But dont live your life
with fearsome gods.
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Once I was young, impertinent _a hopefol fool,
How happy and cocksure I was of myself.
Then I loved, How rich how f'JLllwas my life
Me,! loved was loved I
Then this love died the world caime to an end
No friend, no father, no mother could help;
I then found an outstreched arm
So warn
So dear
So honest
I looked for the heairt I found it
The world was still grey
Grey the people who did not know
Tha^ I was but a corpse 'Yalking Talking,
I then gave life One Two Three
Tiey laughed they cried they needed me.
They blew life into me, oh how hard they blew
The world looked on T still wa,a dead.
Then I came to Palastine
Oh to think how soft I grewl
I started life afresh.
Tew tears
Mew laughter
New thinking
No shrinking away from the passt.
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"Oit of that corpe'^T cried
"New men but to live-'life"
Life
The waves of life ar« beating me hard
Sometimes I drown
But my eyes now can see
'''^^!ify heart can feel
That I thank thee Palastine.
k^^^\\ Oxford \<^Mr
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Fan t2i«€ veil Kogland
That baa given ne boot
Fare tbae veil Snglaod
Tbat baa given me all
Huaband and children
Family and friend
TTbitbont you England
Wbere would I stand?
would my bead have been shrunk to a dolls bead size?
o- would zv soul from tka gaacbamber arise f ^,r>^onn?
^tjI^^ bid^ lie with tboSaand owners In a forgoLLen dungeon?
Would I bave been burnt?
Cut to pieces like wood?
Fare tbee well England
Tbat baa given me bome
Fare tbee well Island
Tbat bas given me all*
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VTfe,
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Vein geliebtes Kariandel.
Ich habe ^.ir so viel rd schreiben aber es ist s achwlerig ia kurzer
• Torten alles zu schreibea und 'yi vreisst ich bin langatmig, daher weij
Su auch so wenig von mir. Ich freue jnich sehr^ dass Du nit Isa zuaaarne
TTarst. Ich flaube es flllt ihjn entsetzlich schwer micht mehr gut auazu
sehen u»d sich^r hat er Schmerzea, ?run zu Teiaen Triefea. Die wilder
sind sehr suss. Hildes Kleiner sieht ge»au aus wle Henry in dero Alter
U^jttel sieht aus '^e ein zerzauaes Huha. So gerae wtlrde ich sie bier
babea. Du hast air moch alcht geantwortet una ich weiss micht ob Du
weiaeu irief bekoanen hast oder ob er verlorea gegaagea ist. Use aat
wortet sie will wis sea was eia Ajrtrbbesuch kostet , ob es eiae Versid
cheruag gibt u«d was eia Tag ijs Hospital kostet, Alle diese ?*ragea brai
ehe ich ia Woaeat aicht ra beaatwortem dean die Lage wacht es «ir xmnf^gl
■ llch Flilne zu ?nachen. Selbst wean alles sehr bale ruhig wlrd bia ich 2:u *
»erv'5a jetzt Pline ra aachea. Vua zu Deiaer Post: far es Dir ait Gadiel i
auch so langweilij '^e Mir?? Ich war froj wie er weg war, Keiae Hume, )
keiae i»oabons hat er gebracht, Ich habe eia feiae s Xssea gefaeht, au^
geblasea, duiw uad langweilig, Uad Deia ^iadruck??
Isa wird ja wohl jetzt wec^ea xa der politischea Lage nicht herkoaaea,
Schade, Ich staad aal sehr g^Jt ait ihm, *r tut air leid ait seiaer
Verbreiwuag. Das ist ^rklieh eia grosser Schock. ^reue aich er gefJLllt
, Dir auch. Ja, Vielea Daak fUr eiaea Teil der loaboas, Der Zweite ist «
aoch nicht gekoanea, lesoaders das Varzipaa ait ?TUssea war €ia' Traum.
•■ ^as ist ait Deimea Landlord plStzlieh? Will er die Uiete raufaetzea?
Von GrtlaaaJidel babe ich Post, Ir aucht nebbich was er aie iiehr findea wj
Die d'.ahre uad ?eine Jugead von 1925....
Du willst tiber die Kinder wissen? Weia Hauptproblea bei dea Kiadera bin
•' ich. Ich verstehe aicht sehr gut zu erziehea, Ich bia sicher Du wurdest
as alles viel besser aachen. Ich bin zu inkonsequeat und so viel MUbe
' ich air auch ?ebe und so viel ^egeln ich air far aich oder mir fUr die K
: Kinder aufstelle. immer kofwrt was dazwischea, und ich verresse alle gute
Plane oder Vorsatze, Ich sehe auch an meinea Tagebuchem.'dass es schoa
. ijHner so war, Ich schreie oft, viel uad tJbertlUssig uad bin leider kein
(OTp^chem sondera ein Wops. Kach diesea Vorredea warde ich Dir Jetzt achl
dera wie die Kinder siad, ^utbie sehr htlbscb, intelligent fiirchtaam,
wehr treu und gut aber veraucht zu doainieren wo sie &aaa, Im Moment
iJ-I^ ^^tr^l^^^^^^ ifcngstlich wegen Krieg und ausserdem aber davoa weisj
»lluttel KICHTS, MUSS sie am llinddara operlert werdea. Is eilt aicht aber
;'aber ho^ffentlich nachsten Monat, Auch davor bat sie Angst. Ii»er sieht
sie seht adrett aus trotaden ich ihr aebbich aichts k^e. Jomv iat in
iriir^'Jo^rJ.'^^^ r^> "i? «"^ ^^ ^«^ ^^^ lautH^Jlr^nntreues
'^^^^h; ?^^^\t!lf ''w**?^^^*^•''^^^^^"l ^«« obne Anleitun* Ser
,Drs^]le^Sf^'^l^^;^^J?J. Sd'Sir.aS'ei'ift'ln":;? ^^- 'i«^S ^ach.
komae Sonnabend Abe^S^wcKiSr ll^ll Jli iJeSiLa'Sc^HSsr^rMn'^
St vi^ noif'^fS?,!'* S^i:*" ^iOTer in Kitten von Wasser vezmischt
"" ^?SlA-* «^i-!!?.^!^!_^?r^^^^^3 ^-^-^^ ^ achmusst,.,Icb^aMe L
die Tre}
!i:!f^j?L'i^:7^^.^^.r*«^„^«^ " aui^zuwis^h^riio^T
Sd ^^.»'i^'L??L^;: V^l Nasser vonlescSpnbX'i^kimT'zf air
^t ^1 J /""^ ^^* "^^^^^ binschUttenC als ob er es Scht wSiL
Tch antworte bCse dass er •utbie nicht geboLfen hat, nicht tiberdar '
^afteriklf* ■Irn^aifti.egal" » fragt noch aal" die gleicne Xntwo-t dan^
e.aiehs-e V^al er fragt« Zitrtck in aein Zijmer"? leh sage Wenn W wlUatJ
3tell Mr vor er gebt*und acfaBeisst daa Waaaer aoeb nU xortlek in aei^
ZliBwrU::: Gott babe icb galacbt; Dann bat er aebr still tsid rahig alj
ia^iS^^IT ajofirewiacht and ina ELo geaebftttet. Was aagat Du?
TsmabhJLs^g Tom de« Utera umA so gnt iaror«ierx uoer aj-iea aasB ler
oft tehr wemif Material mlt Iha zu ff»reehe» babe. Mr fehlt «lr oft uad
lA bedanre et ao aahr daas wir so eiae aerbrochae ^aaille siad, Uit
Walter atehe ieh gnt aber als Fajslllc cxeisti^rea wir leider aieht. Wa«
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My beloved Mariandel,
I have so much to write you, but it is difficult to write
everything in a few words and you know I am of "everlasting
breath," this is why you know so little about me.
I am very happy that you met Isa. I believe that it is very
difficult for him to have lost his good look^ and he must
certainly be in pain.
Now tP your letters. The pictures are very sweet. Hilda's
youngest one looks exactly like Henry at his age. "Muttel"
looks like a picked chicken, I would love to have her here.
You did not answer me yet and I don t know if you received my
letter or if it got lost.
Use answerei^and she wants to know how much one pays for a
doctor's visit. I dont have to answer to all these questios^s
at the moment, since the situation makes it i-npossible to
make any plans. £ven it everything calms down soon, I am too
nervous to plan anything now .
Now to your mail: Were you as bored with Gadiel as I was?
I was glad when he left, He brought no flowers, or candy.
I made a fine meal. He is blown up, stupid and boring. What
is your impression? Isa will probably not come now on account
of the politicaJ. situation. Too bad. '^^t one time I had a good
relationship with him. I feel sorry about his bums. This ia
really a great shock, I am happy you like him too.
Many thanks for part of the candy. The second did not arrive
yet. ^specially the marzipan with the nuts was a dream • Vhat
happened suddenly with your landlord? Does he want to r&ise
your rent? I had mail from OrtLnmandel, Nebbich, he is searching
for something that he will aever find. Tbe years and his youth
of 1925
Tou wish to know about the children?
Hy n.al. probl.0. with the children i, „,„,,. j ,, „„^
.tand howto raise then,. I an. certain yo. would do it much
better. I a» inconsistent and. aa thougn I try very hard and
-aJc. re<rulation, for n,ys.lf. a, well a, for the children
.on,ethin<r always happens which caice, ., forget all „y ,oL
plans and intentions.
I also see this in n,x diaries, that I 'was always like that.
I screa^n often and a lot for no reason. Unfortunately I an.
not a ■..MOpschen" anyore. but a -Mops.- After this intro
duction I shall now describe the children-
Ruthy very pretty, intelligent, fearful. Cery loyal and ^ood
but tries to dominate, wherever possible. At the ^o.ent sL i,
very anxious aWt the war - and - but of this vftatt^l v
NOTHING - She has to hare an appendicitis on .
cippenaici tis operation. Ther*. l«
no h ,„, ,, ,,, ,„ ,, ^^^^_ ^^ ^^^ _^^^ ^^ accounTo
Of that she has fear too. She always looks very neat altho„ h
n.bbich. I do not buy her anything. "^^
^onny is in a new school, he feels very comfortable. He is a
oud, wa™ and faithless child, fabricates char^ning woodpieces
intelligent and lazy. A funny t.ing: ''oodpxeces.
■nie toilet was clogged and the water ran inf„ *k
T . V - "*° *^* apartment:
ca»e ho.e Saturday evening after an hour with friends into
^waterbath. Huthy. who s.ould have been in bed. is cleaning
and .onny sxt, with friend, in his roon. in the midst of wat!r
»l..<i wxth nails, wood, paper, tools and so on and -sch..:,
I b.gan to send his friends away and ,h,n he began to TeZ^'"
asic.. Where shall I throw the water." (as if he did-nt .now)
answer angrily, that he did not help Huthy. but not about
th. water. I don t car.. He asks again. T.,e sa». answer, that
I dont care. Then he asks.'*where do you want me to throw
the water, back into my room?" I say, if you want! Ima^ne
he goes and throws the water back into his room! !! God,
did I laugh. Then he was very still and quietly wiped
everything and threw i t in the toilet, '.^at do you say?
David is a charming boy, completely relaxed and independent
and so well informed about everything, so that I have very
little to say to him, I miss him often and I regret so
much, that we flire a broken faimlly.
With Walter I am in good terms, but unfortunately we do
not exist as a family. Vhat else would you want to know?
About the Job I shall write extensively to Use and will
ask her to keep the letter for you.
I am very hungry, but Ruthy makes the dinner and so I dont
daure to go into the kitchen. Like you, she will have every-
thing very pretty and not a lot.
Tender kiss Marlandel
from your
Ve have a dog Tizzy" small, black, sweet, bites me.
David says, he comes from a cat. Ruthy adores and loves him
"With or without your permission I made a widow out
of you since two divorces in one family makes a
bad impression."
Coosnent :
May 23. 1961
Isia: You may remember him as your father's friend in
Oxford, but you may not know, that he worked in Brazil,
where he had a bad accident.
In the middle of the night his Jeep clashed with a
truck and he was thro%m way out into the fields where
he burnt.
\/hen I met him, he looked ghostlike, but ^ got used to
it and a few years later he was better. He came to NT
to live witn his sister and to get medical treatment.
Thus, V^erale wrote him suggesting to meet me in order
to have some company*
Gadiel t is one of our relatives from the Schiff's side.
"ow we are related escapes me. ■hile in Breslau i never
had much use for him. My parents talked about his family
in rather negative terms. But I remember hearing, that
the father made f eatherdusters and his sister was an
epilectic - and (a. la Breslau!) "they only have one maid."
Verale picked him up at a later stage, -^fter all, he was a
• ingle male amd quite bright. I met him in NY and he was
very nice to me for some time. Later, he moved away and
I only got Xmas cards, although I am quite sure, he came
to NY often. Now he lives in Florida .
Grdnmandel : A
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playing the violin. who used to live in
Breslau and then in Israel. V^pgAe flirted with him for
some time, but she did not want to marry him,
MOPS: my nickname for Verale, i.e. I called her "Mttpschen"
which is a kind of dog called "pug" in ^glish.
Mariandel ,
For your oOJI send you my best wishei
(missing)
Greet all your friends and acquaintances.
Imagine "how young" you are today, if you were to
think about your present age in 1971
With great love
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C^eliobtes Marifindel,
Was fur eine herrliche Ub«rii8chTing baat Du ona
STi ChAXiTikkffii g«fflacht mit Karte 7o^ >hittel und herrlichen Kosan* Vi«l«n Biotk t[^
fur die Idee g^nz ab^esehen von der Anaga^* loh wollte Dich sofort animfen v^^
ua IHr persdnlich zu danken abar J^ehudah wazmte BichClL ^o.oo) und lo thral ^-~
b« ich doch lieber und hebe air Geld fur eine wertvollere ^araachun^ auf*
Das Nadchan traf ich nicht an ea kaa von Blujian^achaft und ich wte* nicht zu
^auaa* Herrlich laoga Hosan die ich in unsera feinate Kriatalvaaa gaatallt
haba* Die Hoean axif dan Tisch zuaainnan mit dar ailbaman Chanukkija ait 3 nm*-^ '
buntan Lichtan an^azundet. Nochaala vielen Bank, ^as Bluioenpapiar banutzta i^'f
ZUD abtropfen von Lattke8(lartoffalpuffer) die ich una zua Abandbx^t ■mchta.l^
Gaetem kainen wir zuruck von 3 herrlichen aonni^^en ^interta^en
Zichron JacovCbargi^i dar Anfan^ too i^«j*Tial.)Daa Mar wiadaraal so via ainat
Jadan Ta^ riala Stundan Xuaik. arsta Geiga, zvaita Geiga, ia laaaarorchaatar
viala Stunden jadan Ta^: Mozart — Prokkokiaff Quartatt. Ich hoffa auch, daaaf
▼ialleicht vieder ein Quartett zu Standa koraoan vird, denn ich apialta gvt^ m^
wann auch ich achlecht achnell spiele und nicht iauaer gut 7od Biatt laaa. f
Ich BU88 neine 3rille auch verstarken aber ich habe aia ^t schnall g^apielt'-^'
Abar ia Ganzan waran meine Mitapielar uharraacht, daas ich trotz SIhe und ohn^'*'
Quartett so g^ut drafa bin* ^aran iat a«in re^elaaasiges apielen ait i^lavier
schuld.
Jehudah korrigiert und, nicht lantorovz aondem Goathe. . • ■'ieso
^" lioj- iriadar nal auf dar Nasr. Ich "*»lrr r-i^h* -rrr-
Bcheint mir manchoal als aai er nicht richtig gasund. Ich vflasta
er vor dar She auch ofter krank war abar wiv^e aa nicht die Sltwm zu^*;^
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Jahr trotzdem sie doch ein bo Bchweres Jahr hatte ait 2 Mai l^rankenhaxia (ich.,
und fflit dea 3aby.«an der Univaraitat fartig. Diese Snargie hat aia yon Dir
garbt das ist kiar wie die Sonne, Ich fraua oich aehr fur sia*
Die Praise ataigen aia varruckt und da habe ich air ain^c^a-1-*'*-' '^
aalbar g:anaht«(Mit Hilfe ron ainar Kollagin). Jatzt warda ich air'^ruhlin^
Btoff kaufan und das salba noch aalnahan daait ich as allaina kann. 37*oo
an Stella Ton 13o*oo(und das Mar nicht hubsch)
Shira ist waiter ^liebt« Sie steht jetzt und schaut stols in die oelt.
Schriab ich Dir, dAse ich ihr zua arttan 2ahn aina ^ahnburtsa kaufta und
sia bagaistert daran ruakaut???
Ganug fur hauta Nariandal. Ich nuss kochan gahan. ti
I>a schraibst iomar auss Sals in dar ^auda aain* Ja« Und anch in jadan Kuol
chan komat at was Salt* Kuttal sa^a iaaar: dar ^ai^ stirbt looo Xal, dar
ti^a 1 Nal. Ich warda wain n wann aich das Schicksal trifft* Bis dahin
rarsucha ivh aich und die Ga^jsit auf dar Stanj^a zu haltan* X« iat laiohtar
fur aich die ich so unenlich viela Phasan dea Lebans hintar air haba, als
fur jun^a Lauta, die ohna Sor^n varvohnt aofwachsan* Jonnj war ainpaar
Stunden lu Haus • Sr warmt air das Hers* Gestem sah ich Zvl Hubinstain Bai'_
aini^n Monatan* Xr ist in dar Havy, nicht wieder zu arkannan* Gross, schla^
schlank und blendant schSn* ^raua aich fur Hannahle*
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after the bloody job has been done.
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^e hope for better ti«e. are not yet dead.
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December 2k, I973
Grandmother Kraft's birthday
120 years "zu ffesund."
Beloved Mariandel,
What a Cllghtful .uprl,. you .ad, u, for Cha^uJcah with
.card rroo, .Mutt.l „d d.li^htrul ro.„. „any thanic. for
the id.a - apart fro- not counting th. .xp.ns.s. I wanted
to call you n.ht av.y to tha.W you personally, but Tehud.
wa^ed .e (IL 50..) a.d .0 I prefer to write and will ^eep
the money for a more valuable suprise.
I did not meet the irlrl - it- <«....^ *•
wie riri - It came from a flower shop and
A was not home. Delightfully lonir stiMmn^ ^
«» -•.xy ±ong stemmed roses, which I
placed into our flne.t crystal vaae. T^e ro.e, on th. tabl.
together with th, .liver -ChanuRidj.. and five colored
candle, - again .any thanKe. I^e paper fro. the flower,
used to drip th. -LattKe... which I .ade for our dinner.
Yesterday w, returned fro. three delightfully sunny winter
day, m zichron Jacov. (hilly . the beginning of the Canoel)
It was again a. It u.ed to be. Each day ..ny hour, of .u. c :
nrst vloim. .econd violin, m the cha.ber orche,t,r.
every day .any hour,, Mozart — Proicoffleff ,uartett.
1 also hope, that perhap, a quartett will co.e about a^aln.
It la fast, and not always so well wh«« t u
TV 7 so well when I have to sl^htread
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However, my partners were suprised, that although oarried
and without having a steady qi^artett, I would play so
well. I owe this to my re^ulajr playing with the piano.
Yehuda corrects, not Kantorowiz, but Goethe.....
Vhy do you have blank postal cards from Muttel?
Dove is on his nose a^ain . I do not know exactly, but
sometines it seems to oe , as if he is not really healthy.
I would like to know if he had been sick so often before
his marriage, but I dont dare asking his parents.
Perhaps I ask him myself some day when Ruthy is not
there.
Ruthy finished her second year at the University, although
she had such a difficult year - being twice in the
Hospital, once it was me and then with the baby. She
inherited this type of energy from you, that is as clear
as the sun. I am happy for her.
Prices climb like crazy and so I sewed myself a "Parafan"
(with the help of a collegue) Now I shall buy material for
Spring to do the same all over again, so that I can do
it by myself* 37«* instead of 150. -(and it was not even prett;
Shira continues to be lovely. She csin stand now and looks
proudly into this world. Did I write, that I bought her a
toothbrush for her first tooth and she chews on i t with
great pleasure?
Enough for today Mariandel. I must go and cook.
You ailways write that enjoyment has to contain some salt.
YeSt sjid cake too needs some salt. Muttel always said:
■The coward dies a thousand times, the courageous only once."
I shall weep when my fate coraes. But, until then, I
try to balance myself and my environment. It is
easier for me, since I have so many phases of life behind
me, in comparison to young people growing up spoiled
amd with no worries.
Jonny came home for a few ho rs. He warms my heart.
Yesterday I saw Zwl Rubinstein again after a few months.
He ia in the Navy, unrecognizable. Tall^ thin, and
delightfully handsome. I am happy for Hannahle.
Enclosed a poem.
With love
Vera
September 10, 1973
And now X an old and new war has come
And now I am 6o and our children fl^ht
Which miffht is pulling the strings behind the scene?
So badly, that instead the peace that ai^ht have been
There a^ain is pain and blood and destruction.
And now that I am old and a new fear is in my heart
And now that I am 60 and my grandchild smiles,
And looks happily into our faces
I ask myself to see traces '
Of hope for the years to come
After the bloody Job has been done.
And now I am old and yet still alive
So many years have passed, so many lives have ended
And still I am young enough yet to strive
For pleasures of the mind, the heart and the flesh
The hope for better times are not yet deeul.
The fear in my heart I tuck away with care
I challenge the unknown "Might**
To pull different strings behind the scenes
To blow away the fear of heart
To make the smiles blossom in the world of to-morrow
And to drown forever •• "Sorrow"
(M«iandel, you see I wrote this two days after war broke out.)
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rinally today I can vrl te why you had no news.
For over five weeks I had teats for intense belly aches !
Gynaecolog^ist , orthopaedist, internist - a private doctor,
a hospital doctor, rectoscope injections in the belly,
private doctor and last week hospital. (10 days)
A^ain three times rectoscope, Xrays , ^ynaecolon^st
and treatment*
Today they said - except for the last test - everything
is OK. Tlie back is entirely displaced and it seems, that
I had a rupture at the 3th lumbar, which slipped over to
the 4th. BUT* all this is no reason for these pains.
(I live on pills)
Now I belike, I can go home on Fi-iday. The doctor says,
that when he kno%rs, that it is nothing "Different," he
can give me painkillers.
Yehuda cooks (in rage) I don t know what to say.
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Mariamdel, I got your last letter for the 3rd grandchild.
TTie baby looks like Edna's father, drinks, sleeps and is
healthy. I was there Saturday the whole day.(l had vacation
from the Hospital) They spoHled me and it was very nice*
And now comes Chanukkah I I like to retire.
With work — pains, husband, children and grandchildren
violin - friends. As long as I still have some healthy
days, I like to be free.
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Your last letters I can only answer at home.
Hopefully there is something against these intolerable
pauins. Naturally, I am glad that probably, there is no
need for an operation,
Mariandel - Jonny had been in Greece and is now in
Rome - later in Paris (friends) Frankf^jrt (Uri)
Amsterdam (relatives) London - the US.
Already now I am longing for hira, but I am also happy
for him.
Much love and soon I will type answers to
your letters again.
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Mv beloved Mariandel,
Did I write you the 28th?
I do not know emyoiore. But that I have fine mail from
VOU, I i<^OW.
I am hnrdly better, ^"^ever - pills - fever - pills.
Your postal cards ^re enchantin^ly beau ti ful .Marianiel .
n2__not reserve any time for me. I dont know where I
will be - I f I want to see you a^ain - because ^ am
very tired of people mcl. you - Yehuda - Hanna
and so on.
I have good help at home thanks ^od.
What happened on Z^-1 Write. The scarf is dazzlingly
beautiful. How is -ntonio? Yesterday was the day Muttel
died. Good, she has her peace. I envy her.
Use ^-'otthilf
Jonny is in Los ^ngeles. -ell, my big sister.
A fat kiss, all wishes
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The 25th is my birthday-
"Muttel"- my mother , • , j.
Use Gotthilf: The daughter of Trude GotthiL.my
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February 13, 1977
(a few days before she died)
Marlandel - in tie Hospital!
Your idea was nice: reading in the Hospital,
I was particularly interested m the article about Toscanini,
I shall give it to the younger couples.
I think often about your cold, snow and ice. •c^op^fully you
can leave home - school must surely be closed?
In spite of "sister eCiOtionj" 1 wo;jld like to invite you
for Passover (but not the ticKet - God forbid! ).
However, it does not work out in my apartment, 1 need the
small room for myself 1001&. Frequently I lay down during the
day and must c.iange my underwear and dresses 2-5 times and so on.
Hotel is too far away and expensive and tne room Hilda amd
Ernie had, is not available now.
An interesting visitor cane the other day, who met Peter
Kraft while visiting Sao Paulo. He told me much about him.
Interesting. Both children married Portuguese women. I shall
write him. ^e seems to be very interested.
We have a frightful day behind us. A main waterpipe broke
at night and the apartanent was flooded. I sceoped the water
for 3"^ hours I ! Finally, when it was somewhat possible to walk
agajin {k pairs of shoes were dripping wet-) the installator
arrived ( about 10:oo) and said: "It is only the hot water"
and then -- a^aln the apartment was flooded.
Thank God "Sarah" came and I went calming down the furious
neighbo*^. Vhon I returned at 13 o'clock to the now dry
apartment, another installator arrived at 1:30, who wished
to investigate the pipe when I became Hysterical, since
agajin I had to wipe.
,,« arrived, onened rhe faucet - so I
^, 3 someone else arrl . . ^^^^^^ ^.^^^
--screa-'ned at lenuu^*
tooR the car —' _ _^ ^^^, ,, ,^,..e. I was
with the installators
finished, ^joyed mvse
If
with Gall and res
ted for
•--hen 1 came
,H . de too was "dea
^acR. 1 ro.u.d Yehuda "water
on e o
anvmore. Today
two hours. ^^.^-- ^^^^ Neither one of us is
nle to cone with such tnings
nnally they ^^^ J ^^^^ ^, ,, .,th .y diarrhea,
the refri.^erator m the
a water bag
Difficu^l:.
r between tny I ec^3
in the Hospital
Tenderly .
Vera
THOUGHTS FOR KT DlARY
written two months
before h'^r death.
How changed the world looks
Now, that I am ill -
How changed the blue sky, the sun and the moon
I am ill, of course without my will.
How changed looks e'.ery thing if you have no strength to move
And here, I lie still
And cannot do what waa always ione my me:
To play arounu with the children's children
To take them to the Zoo,
To hug therr:
To lift t n em to my heart.
Now they tire me and they have little affection - how can they?
With me always tired, may be smelly with i.o r'un , no fun,
With no strengtli to sing to them songs of love.
How changed, how sad is life
Of Gd - help me to grow old in my mind, not only the body -
Oh Gd - help me out of my distress.
Make me more modest, less wanting.
Make me dead, if you like -
But dont let me Live like tkat.
How changed is the world,
No worries for money,
'"^o duties that others could not fulfill,
No health to spring to do - to play - to laugh -- to eat-
to walk -- to work and be satisfied.
make
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BOX 303
BURLINGTON lOAA 5260!
TUEPHONt 3.9 7i4 7io6 jW 7',4 89/7
Mari^h l'2, 1978
Mrs. Marianne Berel, Fo.M.
UCP - broGklyn Hehat i li tati-.n Ccinpus
lib Lawrence Avenue
Brooklyn, I.'Y 11230
Dear Mrs. Berel i
InTJ' TtM r.'? ^^^^^^^i"^^ ^^ a ^cpy <m- >oui late sisi.r*.
poem. I think it i^ beautiful.
Cculo you oiant me peimicsion to use it ^ithrr in our news-
letter or in some of my writinns?
Sincerely,
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^d yet - how fateful should I -eel To u
Healthv children hu.h h ' '^^"'^ ^'^
:Liclren. husband, friends, but vet
How chan^_?ed looks the brooir T -.
DrooiL, I cannot sweep,
How changed the needle. I cannot sew .
How cha..e. the .a.den . no st.en.^.h to tend.
-wch,:.^ed the cu.ta.n . Ic.^not wash,
-ow chan,^ed the na^ls wxthout .an.cure
-ow chan^^ed the book, 1 cannot r.ad
FLEETING
MOMENT
Only RLAlin
Only worry --.
^nly hope
Oh Gd . . . .
— -- the pain,
- the dirt,
for change -
. .HELP ME.
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M B E R .
THE
FUCHSIA
While we lived i
n Berlin durlni^ the first
my father brought my mother for
particularly nice Fuchsia pi
war(lQ17)
a special dav
plan t
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ere were !::ajny pretty red bells t
delight
o my paren t ' s
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The
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ext morning Verale
bedroom ind said
appeared in my parent's
r.
^uck mal"(look here)
and she
had picked all the bl
ossoms in t
o her acron
yet times
My parents were anusevi
that the destruction of a litt
were so upsetti
n^
le enjoyment was
di s tressi
ns
HANSEL AND GRETEL
VrTien I was four
, my mother prepared me with
great
care to go to the opera to see "Hansel and Gretel
She had plaved th
e music many times and we had b
een
smgingsome of the themes and knew the
s torv
Thus, ready to go with me
Verale cried
out she wants
to go also. My mother, however reluctant to t
ake a
two year old
cons en ted
erale sat transfixed and watched
But
when the witch appeared wi
:h an electric bulb fo
a nose, going on and off, she screamed with fear
"I did not want to go ! I did
not want to
^o
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Strietzel (ClVd^LAH)
In l'U7 my father was obliged to move t
to Berlin, where h
enporarel y
rented a fumisiied apartn
for U5 and my mother hi
en t
help her with the
ed a woman, "Frau '•en^en,'' ti
household. Pood was scarce, which
compelled -ny .-nother to go to the market
at ^ o'clock m the morn
>equen tly
^ng to stand in line for
some goat meat. Often she returned di
everything had bee
n sold out bef
It was mostly uncle Ise(Wa Kraft
sappointed when
ore It was her turn
us with black market f
'ather, who supplied
ood ) who kept us ali
ve
Since I was blessed with a low metabolisnil di
.1 lot of food for my well being. How
different for Veral e , who graduall
d not need
er, it was
of misery
Moreover, sh
y looked a pictur
e
e wetted her bed and
absence of my mother, was be iten by ^ ra
My mother called a doctor, but I d
in the
u Wengen
le was successful
.n any case w
o nor remember if
e were aJl scared of
rau engen: my mother, since she could not
else, Verale afraid of
everything and everyone
Wlien we returned to Breslau
a doctor suggested that Veral
meals , such
Verale to
being hit, ai;d I afr
get anyone
aid of
about a year later (Nov. 191S )
as a 2.breaJcf
ist
e be
I>iu
fTiven meals between
ex-
eat and she developed the hibit of
erybody encojra^ed
than she needed perhaps because she iiked
eating more
One day an en
ormous Strietzel wi
e located
and somehow could not b
the car? or packed m a suite
all over.
Thus , i
s baked f
:o make us laugh
or the weekend
as
t placed i
n
ase? -^he maids looked
, m a joke one of the maids approached Veral
suggesting she had eaten
bl.imed for all kind
it all. Verale, fr
timid voice : ''Yes
I -^
3 of mischief, admi
did. ••
equen tly
tted i
n a
THE
TEMPLE
My parents were not religious, but the high holidays
were kept to some degree and they went ro the temple.
One day when my parents considered to take me along,
Verale wanted to go as well.
Ober.joyed with this pro pect, she then -\sked:
"VHich book can I take along?"
Great was her disappointment when my mother tried
to explain what one does in the temple.
(They should have given her a bible, but I do not
think they had one. )
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5 H A M POO
Verale expressed her unnappiness about her ugly
hair majiy times, wni ch broug-ht my mother to the
point of askJ.n(^ me what I do w3 th my hair ajid
why it looked so different from Verale' s,
Proudly I gave a description of how I wash my
hair and my mother pointed out to Verale that I
washed it twice.
Now she knew, but she was not ready to do it
my way - it was against her priJe to do
what 1 did.
PRESENTS
Birthdays, as well as Chris tmams, were considered
important milestones in our lives. There were flowers,
caices , dinners, and friends and, of course, presents.
We were given pocketmoney every Sunday with which we
could do what we wished,
it was not very much, however, I manared to save a
little or do something to get my presents ready.
Verale thought of it perhaps, but did not do anything
about it. '^o when Christmas came - or a birthday, she
seemed suprised that it was already " tomorrow. '^
Frequently she was prevented from readying her presents
by sickness or a cold day or a trip we had to take
at the last minute --
and then she cried. My mother felt sorry — but
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CHROME
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M Y
MOTHER
V A C A T I
We both were very fond of chocolates, and
frequently my parent's friends -is well as relatives
brought us a box with sometnin^.
fh
us my CTother supplied each one of us with a pretty
me ta
box in which we were supposed t
o keep our
chocolates
However, Verale's box was always empty since shi
ate it all at once - while 1 had chocolates for
m
any weeks. I cleaned and shined my box, makinr: small
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My motAher knew how much we would miss her when
she went away, ao she had the in^renious idea to
give
each one of us a box with individually
wrapped presents - one for each day she wnuld be
awav
She thought that this would g:ive us somi
consolcition for her absence.
^^owever, she hardly had the door closed, when
^erale opened all presents at once.
But then she was sorry she did it, when she
obser^/ed me unpacking every dav mother nresent
layers of it -- but Verale did not seem to care
THE
H U 3 B E R
BUBBLE
Of particular interest to all of us, but esDecially
for Verale vri th her behoved friend '^licel, was a
snail rubber piece which, when placed on a faucet
would blow UD like a balloon.
Squeezed between two fin^-ers they woul 1 run to the
front terrace intending to suprise passing pedestrians.
Great was their glee when they saw so eone with a
pretty hat to provide a moving tar/-et to shoot at
with a stream of water.
Sometimes they succeeded, which angered my father
since he was obliged to pay for other -eonle's hats.
I do not remember how it ended
"D
ELECTRI5CHE
In front of our house in Breslau passed the
electric tramway (die ^1 ec tri sche ) .
I dont Icnow who ^ave Verale the idea to throw
pebbles at its windows - but one day she succeeded
only too well.
Scared with the uproar she had achieved, she
ran home for "safety."
To her great suprise my father confronted her with
tne knowledge of what she had done while infonr.in^
her oi the enormous price he would Lave to pay for
the window she had hit.
(She never did it a^ain.)
THE
CLOSET
Each one o
f us had a large wnite lacquered closet
where cat clothes aj:d and e
T^wcw were kept, but there
was a^so enou/x-i room
for whatever we wisiied to put
o one w?s sup^
osed t
-^ see
to it t n a t order was k o p t
s X n c e
jiy Ji o
;her's Daasion was to make us mdependen
The sight of Veral
e 3 Close
t w IS 'onaescrxbabl e
At one time sne m
ailed me a photo taken from a
closet belonging to one of her Yemenites - that was
the way ae
r closet looked
I am sure she su
ffered - it smelled of urine, the
dowrj , everything seemed to be
shelves were faJ^ling
Just thrown in --
But apparently she did not know ar) y better
THE
TREE
Verile 1
Ve had s
oved to climb high
u
P in tree;
^me in our garden m Bresi
was a cherr;
hous e .
tree m Zobt
au but her deligh
en. where we had our weekend
On
e evening, while we had company in the gard
climbed the tr(
en
e quietly and th
en
lignted some powerful
I scaring ever*
she
on9»
red mat
ones
that th
e tree were in flam
f giving the impress!
on
es
She chuckled
fith pleasure ,and exci t
agitation she caused
enent about the
amo
ng the adu: ts
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READING
Verale w
as a passionate reader
At the time that we were supoosed to be sleeping
she
supplied herself with a flashligr. t and read
hours with it under her blanket
read
However, during the day when sheTCmd r»ad, she did
not think of tajcing the book with her to the batnroom
but read on holding: her hand against her genitals
to hold the urine in until
well
until It wab usually a bi t too late
VeraJe came to Paris for my wedding. Loaded with a
suitcase full of presents, she tried her best to
make it as festive as possible.
However, she was also taken aback with the poverty
n
wnich WQ were obliged to live. There was not a single
present I would remember today and I dont tKink there
was any present which could possibly have made me hapny.
Verale looked at all these pretty things with satisfaction
which had be<?n so carefully selected for me -- but she
was at a loss to c nsole me.
Apparently she felt excited to be with me in Paris
enjoying the occasion and the delicious food in a nice
French restaurant with my husband's business friends.
Then she left.
My sadness about gettmf^ married s le could not possibly
understand; neitner did I grasp it at the time.
Today I know, and, wnile thinking about these times
even now, I feel the same profound disappointment
about that marriage, which was mixed with overwhelming
ajixi e
ties about tne future
THE
NUT
CAKE
As you may icnow Verale was very Droud of her cooking
and bakAng, Thus, one day, when I came home from Paris
to Breslau we wsmted to give a party just like it *
used to be •
Living in rather impoverished conditions in Paris,
Breslau had forvthe flavor of "wealth" in spite of the
Nazi era. To give me a good time Verale planned it all
with great love and anticipation in all its details.
Ma-king a nut cake presented "the crown" of her contri-
bution .
It was summer - in Germany nuts ripen in the fall -
refrigeration was unknown in those days. Consequently,
it must have been difficult for her to even find the
nuts she needed - but she succeeded.
^owever, she did not realize that nuts which had been
picked m the previous fall had the tendency to be bitter
The people came - former friends and flirts, all dressed
up in bow ties, '/hen she cut the cake and was the first
one to taste it, sn.e cried out:
'*DCNT TOUCH IT • IT IS BITTER"
and her face showed profound disappointment.
I felt very sorry, but assured her, that a nice party
does not have to have a nut cake.
I dont think she believed me.
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WEDDING
In March 1938 Verale' s wedding began the evening before in
Dr. Berenblum's house. My parents were there, Walter cind I
had arrived, when hanvlsonie Ernie appeared on the scene
in a taxi. Verale seemed "startled" which "alter immediately
noticed, exclaiming: ?It is not too late changing your
mind. Vera ---" She blushed and kept silent.
Wh_ile getting ready to sleep I was not sure whether or
not I should give her some advice. She felt this and in
no uncertain terms told me, that she was fed up and
does not want "to fool around anymore" uDon which I pre-
dicted a baby in 9 months time,
^avid arrived punctually in Q^^®*"^*^'
Verale married in black velvet, something we discussed
years after her divorce, while I reminded her, that I
got married in dark brown, obviously neither one of us
anticipated "naradise" in o':r marriage.
IXxring the ceremony I felt rather "guilty'* not to wear
any gloves. Someone seemed to watch me and handed me
one of her w^ite gloves, which I accented with delight,
^his was H.innah --
The big dinner which followed in London at i5ownside
Crescent overwhelmed aie . I loved it a-1 1 , but I spoke
no ^nglish and did not know anypne, which confused me.
Here I came from a furnished room in Paris, and now
here for Verale everything looked so lavishly rich,
•^ woman apDroached me, placed her hand under my chin
and said: "You will sit next to me, you are home here.'*
This was Granny.
She kept me in London for many weeks.
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When I came to Israel for the first time. I believe
it was in 1952 Verale lived in a nice apartment with
a terrace.
David was in a kibbutz. a.>d '^i thx e , rather shy »n*d
perhaps "afraid- of me. wlaked about wrapped in a
aiuge blanket and even tried to eat that — when
Walter put a stop to that,
rriendly and affectionate was handsome Jonny with
whom I haa great -parties" in the bathroom, ^hen I
presented Jonny clean and combed to Verale she
just said:"this is'nt Jonny."
Although I was not an -'merican citizen. I was en-
titles to food coupons which Verale saved untH we
only had rice to e,.t. Then she entered the store
as if she were in paradise.
When Veral. travelled by car for her job. she took
this opportunity to snow aie a bit of the land.
In fact over the years , e saw to it. that I had
been practically evervwhere.
At one time we were in Safeu which delighted me.
While Verale had to ,,, someone. I walked by myself
through the town aoiniring the mercnandise in their
pretty shops.
Later I told Verile about a copper lined
cerainic bowl with little black hearts aro'xnd
which had t.i.-;en my f oicy. t
•e had to leave early the next :nomin(T, but some-
how she u\ajia.c,ed to steal away from me and, to
my suprlse, presented me the bowl it our deparmre.
Without me she had found the right shop and the
bowl I had described.
The bowl stands here on top of my bookcase and
^ speak about this memory each time I use it.
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Ve talked endlessl
y when we saw each other and
I know she talked a ^reit dea.
with my mother
as
well as with her various girlfriends
But one day she canie to the concl
us ion that
"formerly one always tnou^ht the other
able to help - but no."
m a V be
I should have told
her wnat I ':cnow today, that
talking alone t
o someone you tr'ust, relieves
one of pressure, and seems to clarif
y one ' 3
thinking, which actually i 3
one is seeking.
the help that
T H F
KISS
Except for my mother I did
not lik
e to kJLss
anyone. I never even kj.s.sed Veral
e
As adults, often with vears of 3
er^aration
between us
■e just hugged, but not ki
ssed
Considering this behavior th
rou^hout our lives
it was therefore the more touching: when she
tenderly caressed mv back
behind oie m her littl
operation •
i felt int
, while st.anding
e room after her
enaely, that she would have liked t<
kiss rae, but as with th« moment at the piano
I knew we both would have be ;un ta cry and it
would have placed both of us under tremendous
emotional strain.
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stop it anymore
said my 99 year old "Mutti
Biy former girlfriend's mother.)
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BEEF
In those days in Breslau working men U3ually came hom
to have their "Mi t ta^^easen " ( a midriay xe
al)
In our hoiDfi tn::s con si a
ted of
souD, warm m»jnt., ootatoes
aomf? rrravy
jui cc wi t
V,
vcf^otables, salad and stewed f loii t . 'Grenadine
Jots of water w is oermitted as a drink, but
only af ter the meal.
To the supriso of evervone at a relatively yo'jm^ a/^e I
resisted eatin;^ all this in the middle of the day.
Vehuda, brnu/^nt up in the same tradition, insisted upon
these mcils in spite of Israel's climate.
Thus in 1972 (a year after their man-lag-e) Verale con-
fronted me in the middle of August with such a meal,
which I politely refused.
Vith her expressive eves she looked at
me exclaammg
1 am not going to imagine that you do not love me
because you dont like my mea
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I laughed -- but by contemplating this moment in
pers'-ec ti ve
there were just two different lifestyles
wiiich seem to clash with my innibition to
beef during the '^ugust. heat at lunchtirae.
eat boi I ed
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Being her sister VeraQe alw
ays seemed to have
difficulties with
the habit of not s
my suggestions, so I got in t(
uggestmg anything
However, when I saw her th
e last tim
e m
srael
she admitted not to have good taste ' an
to arrange her apartment.
On a wired hanger she got fro
d asked how
m the cleaners she
had all her necklaces h£ini.
ns on tne wall
^o as
the first item I
suggested to put her
jewelry some-
where else and sur*?l
not hanging on the wall
This suprised her to no end, which I thought rather
amusing since it was such obvious bad tast
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YEHUDA
Verale told me: •
that when Ruthie w.is assi^. ed to
march in an officiel parade, she took i- "in a stride."
But then, when it actually happened and she saw
Ruthie in her Israeli 'oniform, she was overcome
with emotion, pushed herself throuf^h the crowd and
VI tn all her strength called out: ' RUTHIE !"
How well I understood tnis -
For as, wno experienced the Nazi time it was a
feeling bey .nd measure.
Her own child in Israel marching for an Israeli
parade filled her not only with axi immense pride
but aulso with an undescribabl e victory over all
t>iOfle hurdles she had to overcome,
.\nd. sc' , by seeing Ruthie, young, healthy and pretty,
this glorious moment of perfect happiness returned
her belief in "Justice" amd the satisfaction of
havin<J done her share.
Verale was happy when she met Yehuda and still happier
when she married hxm. But tiien things seemed to go the
wrong way.
She loved the apartment "alter had provided for her and
she could not share the enthiisi.ism Yehuda exrressed con-
stantly about his own place.
r>very time I saw her (which was not too often) she spoke
of little things Yehuda had said, which embittered her,
I do not remember the details, but I do remember her
sharp answers to him she repeat':?d to me.
And so she got sick.
Verale seemed happy when I came to see her for Passover -
I believe it was 1976 - :\nd she expressed her appreciation
agaan and again. It was ifter her big operation \nd she
looked almost like m'> giandino ther ■^chiff.
On my arrival there was not mucn to eat in the kitchen so
I proposed to go and buy a few things, but since ^ only had
dollars, I asK.ed for some money. *
Yehuda, who was standing next to me, immediately put his
hand in the pocket to g^ve me some money.
Suddenly Verale jumped up and screamed : "Don t take an>'' , **
money from him -- I give it to you,"
^en Yehuda silently left the room, she cried:" I HATE HTM -
I ?iATE HIM and I am convinced I never would have gotten sick
if I did not marry aim ,. my whole body is destroyed."
And bitterly she wept.
But then i t was Passover and she was looking for^ward to a
nice party -with all her children and "children's children"
as sne called her grandcni Idren . ^he wanted to look at her
best and enjoy the love she would receive. It was a real nice
party, we were 16 and she at her shinging best.
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The la^t t.me I aaw Verale m Liechtenstein.
It was on a Sunday, 1 be.ieve ,^d . according to
forrr.er tradition, we manicured our
s run e time.
hands at the
We both knew th it it w ■» .» r^^^u ^- 1
..ai: It w,>.s probably the last ri rual
we had to^etner, when she said-
•'I dont know .f I ^ave been of any use in mv ^ife
but I know I have brought up three wonderful .eople
and 1 .in proud of each one."
■..^en I agreed wx th her, ,he lashed out accusing
me of K^nowxn^ nothing ^bout such -eelings. s^nco
I never had any chi'aren, and led a selfxsh 1-e
(perhaps )
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(SHE LIES)
••She l.es:.. Verale used to shout over our dinxn^ roo.
table, thus accusing me when I told soneth^nc.
NO Verale, I did not lie.
Only you did not know it that fimo / 4
iw tnat time (and neither did I)
that everyone of us experiences things .n di-erent w.vs
^en now, as 1 come to the end of this collection I
feel that you may think that I am lym.j a^am.
But Ver.ile, althou/;h vou do not exist w-i rh
iiyt exist with us Tjr.-more
as a human bem^, vou con^irij<» tr^ k«
?s, . u wjn.inue to be among: all of us
who knew and loved you.
In the belief that mv " r«ve^ a t i on <, - .^
X -venations of vour life will
be of interest to your children an.l your child-en's
cnildren. I tool, the t.n,e and made the effort to nut
all this together.
I mav not have conveyed it -your way" but . tried to
present it the w-v 1 remember it.
"''^ill you forgive me?
"Yes - No''"
"Yes - No" 1, a g^e that we played .s little children
before f.Ulin^ asleep, Occasional y , but rather soldo.,
one of us would a<jree and say san,e >s the other
and so it is; "Ves .v„
t 'I
And now your imimmy ' s sister: .M ^ p j ^ ^, ..
^■hxle I have been ur^ed to give an acco-o^t of
n-y own l.re, I .refor for cne moment to ,.:..iy
attach a sumnary of my professional activities
T I T : r
• 01310 •'•he ram St
Learning Disability Specialist
■LJL,^- C A T I 0 N
1973 -d.M.
-1-^66 M.A.
^962 B.A.
1961
•^3ic Education ^n^^v,
^^wxon, -eacners ^oiil*.**'^
Coiujnbia 'Jniversity
Special Education
Neurologicallv Imoaired r^
paired, Teacners College
Columbia university
Special Education
^ien tal 1 y i<e r -:. rv4o^4 T
y e carded, Teachers ^olle^e
Columbia '-niversitv
Admitted as an iinder^raduatA ,^ .
at T.acners "olleg-e rli u ,^-^^'^'"t:
wi rh ^o '-'i-'-effe, Columbia Univer^i m/
wi tn 69 credits for 1 i r^ ^ university
xor iiie exnerienre
P V B L I C A T I 0 N S
"Songs of Familiar and not so Ffuuiliar Melodies
for Young Mothers and Teachers."
edited by I aurence Xaylor, Ph.D.
United Cerebral Palsy of NYC, Inc. October 1981.
Dook Review: Jl . of >tusi c Therapy, vol. XIX, -'^ ,
winter 19^2, p. 233, by Yvette Herzog.
"Teachi.vg Mathematics to a Mul tihandi capped Girl,
A Case ^tudy," International Jj.
Pesearch, vol.T^j 1978.
of -'•ehabi 1 i tati on
"Teaching Mathematics to a Mul ti handi capped Boy,
A Case otudy." The British Society for the ^tuav
of Mental -^bno r-nal 1 t v , vol . 22 . Dart 2. -42 lQ7t^
Reprinted in the VisuaJ.ly HandicappecJ , -^12,
Schindcle V'erlag, 1976.
Reprinted by A^^I^T (Ass. for Educational ^echno^o^-)
vol. 2, ^2, 1977. ^
"Music as a Facilitator for Visual Motor Sequencing
Tasks in ^hlldren with Cerebral Palsy,"
(Together with Dr. Leonard Diller & Marilyn Orgel . )
Developnien tal Medicine &. Child Neuro : o "•/ .
vol. 12 , »3, June 1>>71 . ~~" ~~ *
Compiled a Bibliography on Music Therapv geared
towards the Handicapped ""hild.
United Cerebral Palsy Ass, of N . Y. S tate , Inc . I969.
1975
^
1976
1979
19^^o
1982
Listed in the Intemotional ^7:0 ' 3 '*ho
In ^^aslc 'c M\isicians Jirectorv
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International 3iogra-hical Center,
Cambridf^e, t-ngland.
Video- Tape :
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m a cl
1 V
r* '^ed
V_ V, , • i ^
V , - * ■^ ^^' n ,
I * ^ -^ '4 -If fi ! *
Video; uon Brockway
Video-Tape :
The Application of a Color 3equ«?nce to
teach Mathenatics to a ^tul tihandi c arped ""fir
A C a s e S tu d v\ Video : ^on Brockwa y
I
Received Certificatt: of Merit
from the In tema ti . Film 1 Peh.ib . ) Festival
Fordliam University.
Video-Tape :
Learning Through Association r'rocessing
A Case Study. Video: Don Brockway
"Finalist' at the International Film
(Rehab) Festival, 1982.
1934
Video- Tapes :
"The Use of Music to Facilitate Learning"
"The Application of a Color Sequence"
"Learning Through 'Association."
accepted for the Film Library by
REH.vPFIlM - ^ division of 'Rehabilitation
International USA.
P H E 3 E N T A T I 0 >; s
as a volunteer ^czx^/izy :
Teichf^r's Colle/re, Coliunbi.i Ln : y^r-. ^ ^ ,. .
Dent, of Mc'ithernatics
Dept. of ^,-irly ""hildhood
Dept. of -Speci.il Education
Dept. of .'iusic Tlierapy
Dent. oT Audiolog-y
Dept. of i^sycnoiogy
Coney Isl.aiid Hospital: Psy cho-^duca ti cnai Center
Manhatt.ai^ville Coll.?^^. lOirchaae, N.y.
5th International Congress of the In t em^ t- s nr,-. i .
Jer'aaalem, i97y.
3rd International Conference fo
Communication and Handican,
ilel3inki, f^mland, l>-)cO
r Special Education (EASE 8o)
3th World ^onrress of Social rsvchi.-.r^v
Zagreb, Yugoslavia, IQ^l ""* ^^-^*
(my paper accepted for publication by the Plenu. Press, London
XV IS.VE InerTj^ot^onal Music ^iucnt.nn -o-^.^r-nce
Bristol , :-ngland, 19^52 ■ ' ^ "^^
3rd International Sympo sirnn in Musi c , Medi cine PHn^.^s
.and. Therapy for the Han, n . > o^.^.r L-ll^cin^Education__
Ebeltoft, Denmark 19>i3.
Included in V^VZRSITY r .ts- r.rr-j.. .
versity .New York -ity
.eachers -olle^e, Columbia Uni
University of Gotheburg, Sweden
Liberal ^rts C^iie.e. Dart.n^ton, ^evon. E^^land
Kansas university, Kansas, USA
Women's University, Denton Texas USA
International Rehabilitation ^il.., Library
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I h.ive olHoii sjioken about Hi»- I'ol lowing; liiciili-nt lut recently
8onu.M>no w
lio believu.'i in r,od
III
ystery iir^icd me Lc) u L it in
wri tiii^j
.Hid t.cnti i L to you
IL h.ii»p«"necl on account of an <ntiroly casual ^^cstart? un the
part of I lopci.
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The person of this testimony
II. (as i sh.-J 1 cal 1 him, )
was an -jiu
ri cm bus inessni.iji (.t,".e 02) a ChristiiUi ( i ro Ct.s tim t )
w
ho haii !iis own tlress business m
N
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City
When i c.uue to lwiu>w liiin his b v:kf^round st-cLied a bit "s i.uiy
Me hail been divorced, remarri«'. with a s.rj.
'ori^ovr-r, !u;
was c lU
(^h t t.dcint; a bribe vviilc on juiy duty, but these
tilings did not upset me.
What disturbed me was sumetiiitui he said whiic dinin.: in a
restaurant, arousing my .aixicty that his behavior ton'anl me
i/rht chan^;e, (wliich it did Sdine years l.iirr -) \nj told me
that oveninf;
about a love aiT.ir wliich li.id come to .ui t}nd
whc^n the ^irl lied to him, »(?ars later, \vhon a nrJesi:
ca
lied K. with a requc»st that he visit tbe ,';irl , \/lu3 \/iis
dying in a hospital, he rcrusel to see h«r, al t aou :h tlto
priest toi«J him that this vv.is her last wxsli.
"This IS all rubbish," ;.*; excJaimod, "the prii-'sts ^niy
want money," 1 was a^jhas t , [)arti cul arl y so because it
w.is in auch conti'^st t** v.li it i had seen Iji IiLmi,
There was much para«lox in his i)orson.i 1 i ty , l^tt^lor
generous to some .rnu ilw ly.s rotidy Vkjv i jood time, he
CO lid proceed ru tlil cs.s 1 y towards others,
i''or a iii.'ui who never went in chiurch except tu att<«nd a
weddiiij: or a fiiner.iJ , who loved to t^lrink, ai.udve, cat
and laujh, the foilowin,
sii |)i'i sin^;.
vents seei;» to the iiivoro
.\s a youn,
ewLsii refu^;i.>.' iroiii Nazi ''i.riiUiny i lived with
my lius
beUjd in I'.iris
aid
met ii, wi.il e
was
A repre-
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ntative for a desif;ner .-.ellin/j fasaon bel t.-D 1
n
Hotel lobby. It was the Fail of l^y) iid 1 \; . .^ living:
with falst-' papi.rs .ilone ui a tiny I^iinLshefl r«jt>m,
'utterly cut olf from fiumly and fi'ieuds, i.iy hush. ail in a
i'V(-'nch ijiLernmcnt Ciu/i(3 .aid rny fiimiJy I i vln,': in l>irrl
md
in
roCiirious circ uiis t.aices
received my mc. 1 s in a
wel V le iM tclien
aid 1 ivr I with the ni,,ht.iiare of i.i.ikin/:
my rent payment, fhe futaie was bi.tcl^.
Thus, \/hen 1 i.ie t -^t ho ctiMe into iny 1 i f «? Jiico ui in/^el,
^^e had ju.-. t returned fro..* **-ome , wucr^r he iiad ..one out of
heer curiosi t
to «ittei> i au audi en CO
i th the 1 oi)o
Min;;ling in a crowd of the faithful, h.e, q-iite ]>y chance
received a blessing froni the I'ope
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Al thou,';h he inacJe li^^iiL ul^ hia own r<:cJin,:b, lie admitted
to have buen very Luuch«.il , rmd ima^jififMl tliat fate had
chosen hini to do a good dcM,'d in consuiinence of this
bi o.sMin^:, in i.ioetin;^: m<- in l'ari3 and i«?.. rnln.: of my
situation, ho s'dcJonly ccided (.i^> -^ later 'c riioil)
tliat it was i:jo wiio iicoih.-d hih /;;ood dc(?d, riii:> w..s only
too true.
1 .Tiow to trust hi.ni, h(; h(»inj oldei- arid liohavinj like
a Tatacr, .'^ivin/: a-^jaur i/i(:<.".s , that lio v/.is ,';.)iii,; ld lielp
me and w.>ni<.l brin;; uio to the US any tliiie I wjshed.
Durin,; the sliort periotl 1 Ivnew hiiii in i'aria tlii.s trust
quickly developed into a lovin.: kind of worship,
A fov; K.ontha later, iii l-a? Spring' of l^^^^t «ui oiTicial
notice in all newspapers obli(;ed mo to f^o to a detention
center in a sports arena (Velodrome d' diver) for u'hat
was described as 2^* houi-.s of procoi>;-.in^:.
The ':h hours turned xnL(j j weeks o i" unii:ia^:in; 1)1 e
hara.ismcnt, ^hc place w ..-^ an ^unazin.: .si;;ht. 8»oO0
women cr^u.uiied to^;ether, t>loepin^^ on strawb.'i/;.s wi t}i
dozens of rrench soldiers watcliiut: froiii to\,'ers in un-
endini': 2k - houi* electric li^;!it, inadequate tuilet
facilities, .aid endl(?;.H hoir-s of continuously dr nin/r
loudspe Jeers - it was .i n i ^;ii tiiiare • There were suicides
aliMust every ni^dit, not lo menti(ui the c instant rumours
and psychological pro.ssnres. Finally we woi^oyi lippod in
locked cars to the Sp^mi-sh frontier to the notorioiis
Ccu.ip of Gurs*
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If U, W(?rc iletcri.iined lu -e t me tv> the US hi- now nad
no aildross of laine, noi* could he possibly locate mo,
^**oi*eover, iiuiil w.i.s c»^n.soi-eil .is well as uni'o 1 i .ibl e.
^triUiTe as it may aoujul , my confidence in tais luui
and in si>i te of all odd:>, my optimism xn a l)ettor
future prevailed,
On^ diiy, after a fc\/ distressing \/'*okM in 'nirs wo
wore told secretly that .->()meone was le win,-; within an
hour who would be able t^ smu^.jle our inai 1 out of
France, Since ■*■ Icnew only a little ^n/^lisli t \.roto a
note to a tlist.mt relative in *Vnv torlc inste.id of to
U, , indicating; li's i)iionr number .uivl address, •ar;;in(j
him to infonn U, of my \»hereabouts as soon as i>ossible.
In my childish notions -boat future possibilities J-
added, tat 1 would in .^j ce by *^eptei:d:)er 1 (if not
earlier) .uid to please iiail me some iioney to the
'wnericiJi i-xpress there.
On June 19 19^0 l-'etain aliook ^*i tier's h.ind winch was
followed by an anuistice.
At this moment the ^-'iptain of *-'urs r)roclair.ie«i ; " Sauve
qui peut!"- r.ieajiin;: that anyone wisiiinj to leave the
cam{>, may lio so. Many left, but died on the roa«i since
they did not real ize w!iat it memt t > w:uHlor without
trains, without shelter lU 1 not cnoujh money for food*
I foresiiw tills d n^er in«l remained ii\ tiie Ciu.ip until
trains wore schoduLed a.siin, which took two months!
mf0
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In t'lo mcajjtime 1 had arr ui^jecl to J e.jvo \. i tU .i com-
panion wlio vva3 willing; Lo i^ive mo some r.njncy .since she
was cripp'ed and n^odetl help.
Thus in the middle of "^Uj'.ust -*- .irrivo«l in '«ico at Lhe
i\jiicric:uj ^xpreas. **owcver, .since tlic ^Mnei'icaii Government
liad decided not to alJow ar)y money to bo sent to Krajice
in the belief that tJie Nazis wf>uld confiscate it, ^^.
had aj^r.in^Ted tliat money bf mailed from 'Switzerland where
he had a business Irienci, "I'tor some wieks of ^re 1 1
anxiety the money arrlv<Mi!
In order to c^t me a visa to the US H. obviously con-
sulted a lawyer who Icncw about lioosuve J L ' s deciision to
issue emergency visas undei" an or(;.inization called
"The lVosidcnt*s Advisory Conunittee."
Tliese visab were i.ie ai t foi' [)ro fession il s such is \/riters,
conductors or other in tc? 1 1 «;c tual s of in Lcniatieiinl re-
putation md in d-tn^jer due to the situation at tlie time.
SureJ y such a visa would not be avail ibl<? to a person like
me, ^et R. succeeded in obtaininj such a visa l^nr mo -
how - -*■ d< not l\Jiow,
Perhaps a discreet ^If^ ^'> •»^> influential secretary, perhaps
money ch.ai{^in^ hands throu^^;!! a lawyer wlio luie\.' someone,
^n for tuJM tely for a lon^j time 1 did not understand
sufficient ^n^lish so that -^ could ask liLm dei.iiled
questi'>ns about tliis e;)isodo.
The fact remains I received a visa from the 'Mnerican
•^onsulitte in *^ice. That it was illegal -^ only Icnew when
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the FDI vlsitevl me in *'ew ^ork to inves titrate my status
in the US,
(To rive a description of tho many details \/1ilcli wore
necor. sary to achieve the <:<'^1 "^ '"y arrival in tho US would
entail m;uiy more pa^es and not necessarily enhance It* s
person 1 1 i ty . )
WTiat remains is the ox t ra*) rdinary rosturo of a m;ai, who
must have spent a ^re.it d«^al of time, cucrjy anvl money
to malvC my rescue possible, t
1 was happy when 1^ Cijue, althou^jh ^ suffered wliat is
commonly called a "culture shock" frequently railing into
Ijrcjfoiuid clepi'ossions of luuoLiness.
^c?in^ (le[>riveti of faiuily .uni friends, wi thout,.iouey , lackin^j
peniiission to ttUco a job, 1 was entirely dependent on
this iii.ui. 'Mthoui'^h he tried to be nice, he was after all a
stringer wuosc cultural background 1 hai^4ly undcrstoori.
Many years i)assed :uiA cradua L 1 y -*- adjusted, but then a
rather ^icJy separation took place .viMi -^ was obliged to
make life over a^ain , eventually leading nic to return
to school,
I final ly si'.cceedcd in lin.vin/: my now life "i th my r)revious
oducr.ti'U in irasic, ' nd for the past 20 ye rs -ly \.'ork has
consisted of liel[)inc handic.pped cliildron, icarainc to
brin;: tliom many moiiKMits o i' h ii>py lau/jhtor by u iin/: (iitsic.
Thus, "the iiyetery" remains s
^k casual I'io.-.turo of a ^'op.; moved a non-be] iev(M' to ultimately
turn the life of an innocent person like mo into someone willing
and able to contribute constructively in a ficlfl where optimism
and creativity are needed most. Without ^*. ■*• would have been
<jbli(;ed to remain in *-Mrs from where more than 20.(>00 people
were shipped to Hi tier' a monstrous ovens.
Vor 46 Jahren in der Vorweihnachtszeit
Deportation jijdischer
Burger ins Getto Riga
Stadtarchiv bittet um Hilfe fur eine Ausstellung
Bielefeld (NW) Heute yor 46 Jahren begnnnen fur judische Burger Bieletelds
die Deportationen zu den Vemichtungslagern im Oslen Der erste Transport
vom 13 Dp/ember 1941 brachte fast fausend westfalische Juden ins Getto
Riga Nur wenige uberlebten Das Stadtarchiv Bielefeld mmmt das historisclie
Datum 7um AniaB um au' e;n Projekt hinzuweisen bei dessen Verwirklichung es
der Mithilfe von Zeitzeugen Dedarl.
13 Dezember 1941. Guterbahnhof Bielefeld Der Transportzug vor der Abfahrt
nach Riga Die Juden im Zug suchen BeKannte unter den neu ankommenden ju-
dischen Familien aus Bielefeld. Foto: Stadtarchiv
I" f^K'otier nach'jten Janres soil eme
A. • .-g'zum TMema . Sechs Jaf^r-
f-.u'^'JeMe |i^'1.v:rien Lpr)er,s im RauTi
Bieiefei'l ero^fneI vvtraen Aria3 ist der
50 Jaf^'-estag des Novembe'pogroms
von 1938 Dei dem a^^h die Bieieteider
Sv^agoge zerstort wurde
Der VernichtungsKreuJ/jg der Natio-
naisc^raiisten wrd m der Ausstenung
viel Raum einnenme" Afcer auch d'e
b'S^^er se'ten bedachten Anfange ]udi-
scf^en LeDers im mitteiaiterschen Bie'e-
feld die A^a PreuBens der Autschwung
der jud sc^^e^ Gememde seit dem '9
Jahrh'jnderl der VViedertjegmn nach
1945 und die Bie>efcider Gegenwa''! sol-
len e'^thaiten sem Erstma's entsteri! en
Dokumentarfilm m dem Zeitzeugen und
K nder der Holocaust Uberiebendcn :c
V\orl Kommen
Das Stadtarchiv b !tet nun um Unter-
stul^ung und Suchl.
• Fc'os von ludtSChen Schyl- und Ve'
e-^sKame'aden Freunden Nacnbam
BfKanf-.ten von GebaucJen die m |uc3i-
schem BeS'tj sta^den (ducn 19 Jahr-
hundect)
• Brefe Aufzeichnungen Oder Gegen-
i.'ande von [ud'SChen Mitburger^
• Zeitjejgen die verfotgten JucJen ge-
ho'fen Oder S'C verslecKl haben
• Schiider'jpg"n von Ermnerungen an
judiSC^e Mitbjrger und von besonderen
VorHommnissen vor und nach 1933
Alie Informationen werden verVauiich
benandeit Personennamen auf Wunsch
anonymisiert Fofos Gegenstande uncJ
Do>*ume"te sonen nur a's Leingabe ge-
nuizt werden Kontaktadresse Dr Mo-
nica Minmngc Anke Stuber Stadtar-
chiv und landesgescrMcntiicr.e Bbho-
t-^ek Rohrteichstrafle 19 Tel 5168 46.
5; 68 40 und 51 24 n
-A
1' .Iff IT
■V]\--: TIM!-: OF VD.M' . TMENT
The i'irst Fen Years
M 1 rianne Ho rel
iif'^S
i
o
y
r^
o
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Hi^FORE rirvRi.
iAR;ir>ii
So here I was. I had saved my life, escaped the
war and cd:tio to tho man 1 trusted.
Yet, -*- felt as if ^ were at the bottom of the seal
a^::aln. Since I lived in I'tris with mv liusband for
many years, it had become my second hon,
peakinf^
French - linos t like natives, v;o had acqnired some
friends and established .1 household however modest
V,nt "ow
v/as alone*, wit out an v le.^al docii-
trients, notr in*: to do and stripT>ed of evcrvt^ii
1 <.'Vor ii.Ad
•j.ilizin;;^ myself utterly der^endint
on one nmn's ^^'him , • m.-n who was tnarriod, bo]
nnr^rir.
to a different cnltnro, 'i dif'erorit .'cener iti
on
ex[)ressod r.iy feelin s in my diary with the ^/ords :
'»'./e all die it one time in our life v;ithout
bcin.": buried
'ur f I te accomplished
wo
have received every thin/^ ! i f e was ible to
fJIVG
anrl we h ive j^iven evervthin/r ^'C have
v/itliin us
rt,
I :.tever comes aftor this point
does not deserve the label 'life
"Tlie worJd is full with T:)eople who hnve
died but did not !:uow it. <'nly a few have
the privi 1 e;';e to die at tlie rnotnont v.dien
their life came to an end."
(frnnsl 'ted frcnn berrnm with no reference indicated
- but obviously referrin/^ to my time in >.'ice -^ just
loft, where I know a ^;ro.') t deal of happiness with a
rn ai
1 -^ called ' i'ori tz
)
•'^
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Tn my drive for indcpendenco my Tirst decision
u »s to rind A nl ce to live ;ind ?ny Lion i as i called
hita now, sinco he wis hnrn in .lu/vust) sortned
relieved that -^ w-inted to J e ive tlie luxury hotel
so soon.
Thus, wQ drove irounii difrerent no j ,^:hbor1ioods
loolciji."^ for some thin-' , when ve hrc pcned to roine
to i n rrov/ street u-i tdi little houses v/!iich
deli'hted me. "There is i tree," -^ excl 'litned from
a dist nee - "let's /70 to the troe,"
-^ndood Che tree sloo'J m front of a sm>ll resi-
dential hoteJ where \ w'S to live for many years.
llie house bc\oni^:ed to the brother of a youn': vJcv/ish
worn u) wlio w !S in ctiir.':e of it. There were carpeted
stairs reminding me of the small pi ice -^ had in
p. iris near tlie Madeleine -rnd i ,';o t a pleasantly
furnished room with a pretty bathroom and a kitchenette
which \/as every til 1 n;: ■*■ corild wish,
nut, for ill t>iese positive developments, -^ felt
a bit dizzy with so many drastic ch-'n.'^es,
After all, t ''xl spent three months in a concen-
tration camp in the i'yrenoes with 8.000 women -
then relative freedom on the f abu • ous ^ote d' \zur,
f ol 1 ov/ed by tiree weeks on a -Spanish ship in the
company of many youn^'7 iTien !
dinner at .?9 /est 12th ^t.
v/itli my cousin Tl«e anrl
155 -
r
f^
- 1-. 6_
*)
.\ccordJ.n.'; to !:iy calender of 19'll ^ bej:ai ir.y d;>ys
in i^-«cw '^orJc v/i tli s^lop})in^: and as rnijiy a>poin tmon ts as
I could irran/je.
Moreover, inriuonced by the many <liscn.ssions -^
had on Che bo it with my companions, I jiursued
the idea of 1 oarnin,^ "Spanish, ■'■hrou^';:h my fornier
partner in Piris ^ founci a ^ rench soealcin,-^ pianist
from ^pain who, also str^n<lod in N<»w York on
account oT the war, consented to teach tiie,
Concerned to reestahlisii f.nnily ties r:iy ».iother
wrote tlie a^'dresses of relatives in N'eA/ York \
nrf:in/c ine to ,';;e t in touch with t*. em, wh.ich -^ did.
hut i felt a sense of' s tr in,':eness v/i th these
r(-'l itives, lookia,": ■\t me with "peculiar" eyes.
Instead of bein.'^ y)roud of iiavim ac^ii eved my rescue
-^ v/ IS ill at e ise •
dov/ever, bein,": dressed in fashionable clothes,
wearing a i-Told watch studded wi tii rubies uid
dirj^iionds, carrying, tlie exquisite scent of A'atou's
j^crfiirio, it v/ is only natural that people would
tiiinl: of me as sr)moone "^ refused to lie, althonr:h ^
ha.ii to adr.iit that alJ -^ h. m1 v/ » s paid by one man.
On tlie other hand ^ fou^vht these uncomrortable
fee Lin. ,s with tlie reco/^iition that cert* in rules
had presently lost their value an*"! that 1 had to
.live according; to my present neods - -
and so tlie hell with a1 1 of them,,., ^.-
il
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Tlic only person wiio un'^orstoocl was my niothor who
v/rote lue : "re;: irdless ^^ ^^ ^^^® circumstances my darling?,
ynu live ;iri(i you nro safe."
It ::oGS v/ithout sayin/j that tiiis man I called "my lion"
(his il .j.e was ac taai 1 y "^harlio" ) thorou/;hly enjoyed
taking; :ne to all kinds of rishiond)le places while
bein.; doli{jhted with my enthusiasm. But after three
montlis time i.e. with the bo.'cinnin'T of summor he loft
mo more often alone,
As -i- nee it tod.iy, he? probably v.'ishn.l to relax at home
after a d.y's \.'(jrk. 'Moreover, ^^\ily u'ld m/:ust was the
hi,'Th so -s >!i for' his oven in,': 'iress btisiness, ^ir
cnnditi.'^n in 19'n 'lid rio t exist and bcitK' in his nidUe
GO'S >nrl a. bit ovcrw ei >:h t , ho probrd^ly ncede<i a rest.
Too i'.nor nt to nn'orstan' this beh.-vior I bc^an to
fool ritlier nxlon:;, doubtinr: his affection :\rn\ on
tbe ver.vc qi V losin^; my trast Ln bin. Thus, in ' -^v nnly
two :nonths after r.iy .arival ^ wrote in my diary:
"Vdiero do I find sapn^rt md consol > tion'-
ivithin myself ever y tli i ri,- is torn md splintered
wi t'n 30 m iny (:orif)lic tions,
I thou/;ht to hold liipidness in my hanrls, liu t it
was an ill as ion.
.:o ..at tor )iow one iooks it 1 i f <^ , it is v.'ron/T,
even who ; one believe-, not to have ai.y feclin.TS
left, one ntivor thel(?Hs s«.' r;is \o fin'l the
stren.'^th to suffer .i-Mn,"
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vnierGiii^on ray mot-ier insworn<i :
"il'ippj.ncss is n 'lisposition.
Out; of .sclfishnoss I im i philosopher.
1 w n i. to Sf'P ind fool the .^ood thin.^^s •
i'o 1 oolc do\>m and he hiimblo, it the same
tiaic to ^"t rive iiy)wrirds concernin.«T cliaracter
formation irul lvnowlod;:e in mrmy directions,"
.vlthou;,h Charlie I^'^i'^ ^'^^ everythiri;: ^ noeded, .sendin(7
freniiently prcciouo fiowers ui-i bnyinf: me little
presents, -^ never hid any cash. The niost I had was -i^S*-
I realized ttiat I was fond of him, hut also luiew that I
neecled to build another 1 L f e to ree^i t ibli sli niy inde-
pendence, •"'incc ho a/;roed to this ho surprised me one
day by arr-^n.^in ■'^ r>ot:ie thin;; for tiie in a little retail shop
off i^adison -'Vonue, "'"lie place was within walkiri;': fii stance
of liir. office an«l ;. cross fr >in a '•.•onderPnJ -^^••edl.sli re-
st a" rant ^'/here we often met ta enjoy leisurely Inncheons,
'^ince he did not t ike my /)ob aerio isly, he took me
as Ion/: for Innch as h^^ lilced, makin/^ me late for the
aftiornoon's v/orl<.. This in ter ferrerl with the store's
lanchtij^e policy and "'■ was dismissed - r^erliapr also for
iny lack of le,;; tl documents, as well as my poor I'n/^lisli,
It appears as if I lived "two lives" at that time:
^ tried to bo v/ lat was expected of iik^ , to en.joy all
tlio fai;ulous concerts, stiows, weekend trips etc .and to bo
^;1 ad for b .inr. save<l, ihit from what 1 v.rrote in my
diary in those months, ^ was burdened about everything
bein;; in a fo,-:. There were no news frf)m my husband nor
from fo -iiier fri'-nds, '^orrid stories about concentration
cojiips caMio to my attention and 1 felt uneasy beinf: the
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9 -
girlfriend of •- rich old M.m , tlespcr.) tel y tryinf^
to rind my p ;icc of itiiiil in tho iibt^iry mci by
v/ritin^: to my mother who rt-iiindod me to continue
to find
('Iflcksbasis
(a I
).isic h.!p:>ino.ss ;
ma
to look rit tlie stirs md to bow before the
"ALL - the UNKNOWN." Later she wrote:
±
n
..'7(^ner il we rlisciss too m-my
things v.'hich '»re fruitless
orlc - nnd
try to bo .someon»' for oth.ers, even if you
ire not: in lores tc'i .
Ucvf^iop your intellect, out oven iiiore your
soul • "
Thus 1 s tru/j.'^led with soinethin,': I hid never experienced
a scemin^':ly ondless loneliness -
cs
1 was terribly lonely in Paris, but !iy husband
Ct.amc home in the evening;, vl thou^^h 1 was in contact
v/i th so;iie friends and faiiiily mcnibors who occasionally
inviCtMi me for dinner, the constant feel in,
of
anxiety alone in a farnishod [)lace, particularly on
w
eelvcnds, made mo wretched md speculations about the
future i":rew into a dre idful ni^^htmare
Wh y
3 a
v e d
w
IS a frequent thou/;ht anrl the only
an
swer I CO! lid finfl was tf) i)rin/r h.appincss to the man
who saved mo, alchoti,;h he did not (^Lve tlie impresion
o
f nf^edin.'v '-e
No
1
did not come to -nneric ! to stav here - I had
my husband and my family in ""urope. My ambition was
ta become a musician
after dl, -^ had been a student
of the frumous WancLi Lando\/ska - only circumstances
had broJven everything; into pieces
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9 -
girlfriend of i rich old i.ian , .lespcrntely rryin^r
to find iny p .icc of i:iin-l in tho libi^-iry md by
writing; to r.iy mother wIto reminded i;ie to continue
to find
Olflcksbasis" (a basic h.i[)r>ine.ss y
nd
to loolc rit the stars irid to bow before th(
"ALL - the UNKNOWN." Later she wrote:
• • • •
±
n .-?(
■nor il we fiiscnss too mmy
thinrs v.'Viich are fruit] <vs;
l.r
ork - and
try to bo :^omeon«> for others, even if you
are ru^t inlorestcti.
iJevniop your intellect, but oven more your
soul • "
Thus 1 strurj/^led wi t'l some tliin,'^: I hid never experienced
a scerninf';ly (mdloss loneliness —
Yes, -L was terribly lonely in I'aris, but ny husband
cJ.u:ie home in tho evening;, vl thouf^h 1 was in contact
v/itli sojiie friends antl f:unily i:icnibers wlio occasionally
invited lue for dinner, the constant feelin/;s of
anxiety alone in a fnrnisiiod place, particularly on
weelvcnds, made me wretched and spectilations about the
fLiture iTrew into a dreadful ni/'^h tniare,
\<hy w .s -•- saved, was a freq<ient thou/jlit and the on] y
an
swer I co:;ld find was to lirin;: h.'iT)pincss to the man
who saved rue, althou/;h he did not (j/ive the imiiresion
of need in,", '-f^*
No I -^ <'lid not come to -nrieric i to stay here - I had
my liusband and my family in '"urope. My ambition was
to become a musician, after all, -^ had been a student
of the f.'u:ious Wanda Landowska - onlv ci rctiins tances
had broJvon everything; into i)ieces.
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n
- 1 61 _
Ikit tiino v;cn L on aid
I en f .1 i
w \:
in tlio
J r
a r 1 i
bon/:}it: i new 1 incoln \.'i th pi -ins to drivo kL iJi t.o t
'lorirl I
o r .sjn "i s
e iitj(j:;;ns tOfl tlr»t I
'-♦^t rnv Ir i ver' s
license v/Uich 1 d id , ^'n -^undiv, Jecoiriber '7th w'i.li
wai tin.
1 ri U 1
car for tr itfic li/:ht t:o ch-nTG
>'- »
the
iicv;s ibout i e.»rJ. -inrbor wns flashed in li;: ts across
Tirues ^^quare
Tliat n.eans war kiddo
ha rile excl lined
lUi t a WAT \;i t J.apan 'lid not iiipre.ss me since it
as
too r r Pro
J ip.-'ji \,'as
n
1 1 1 !;
Jly of
Jiew,
fail in,": to raco.Tnize that
nmce
^ roniiati
tills nioant
n \C 1
r i/Tainst
the
r,
^ a z 1 s
Uncon'-orned a.ho'i t the news we drove leisaroly south,
fill] oP 'drriir I tion for the po j. nse 1 1 i as , the Mossy trees
rvTid do!i,;:itral Sp.a^isii touch aroiind St, \n.'7Mstine, .'e
wore m
vtona i3e ch .'.iiiaa eve where i '" Wvas vr-m .and
the at rs be ..a ti fa 1 1 '/ bliaLin
m
volvt;ty bl 'clc sky
n . i
j d e
i.a.- li tlie w tor
'•/ s
.n^di too co3a for sw i 'T'lin/v be—
i I w;l:
t o o
cit. i[dod" foT^ li'.y taste
r»-.er a \.'n
ok v;e retnrnofl t
n
r»w
oris
In Flori
- 162 -
- J o T -
The mod f.' Is
FTV:R ]'
L,.-V
ill. I
\C}il
'hen Gh.r-rlic? rcalizci r'y «lirricL'l ti
s in rii^IiiiT a
ol.
10.
li'^.roed to lot i-.e worlc j i» his factorv, sofrio th Inr
T
n tG'I to 'lo 11 alo
r:ov.-ovor
for
ra f. lor s'-ia] 1
saJ. try lie eirmloyeri mo in ihr s<>r:icv/!ia t dt-nibtrirl can'city
of liolPLn'T t'lc iK^dols chrMire their
< ) \-/ » 1 p
'hi
v;a:
r «'' r> c n l o
:->y hi
s d. es';i .n, nnrh <t>s V
oirn n
no^sibl c
C'linoo ti t i'?n ttJ rnv prcr-ouce .iwiicrMi f;d
so:.', ov/'i- 1 V'' id ion
r.
f
n t i s o':n. tism i.n his T)ni'ioro"s
nn >T) drossmakers '.'liich
obliTod hi'.u to lot mn rj^ af'tor a s'-ort ti'r.o
'r
Ti
11
d i s tros -cd
since L M .vried "lyr.elf for 'in inihilitv
to
jiist inste-id of roi.li/,in;7 th • t ly ippe- irruice ini^^ht
liavo cm .so<
1 J
11 o r d") . I r r a s ; -tr. e n L
fi
Rgscuc" caine v/i th the visit of some hnycrs frnm d.ivana
The Cub nil frionf-
s
\/ho did not 'vish t) vnfuro ,".n i n,'7 to v.'artorn I'rirope
and tlioLi.dit or ^ettin,: their needed 'iiorcUindise i
n
-Now
or-;
ivno\.M rii
y (iesire to
srDeaic .:?
ip.mish Oi't] jo
rr(
)t
:o i i;: tonch wi t ' »orne of these (yiiban
Isabel, bcciaiie a friencl. ^he spoke ai.)oa t
one of '/I'oiTi
n '.sth:-ial:ic
/^i r J (a dressrn, Jcery in ^-uhi -/iiose snr\riviJ depen'led on
a c I ■; a I
1 :e o r cl i:;ia te
li 'rlie C')nsonte<i to Tive her i
job in t,he factory and so pventnatly she ^rrived, a
fact
1 c
»J ayed
SI ni
iric:int rolo for r-.e later m
The aliilitv to ontert 'in ens to:. era Vr
T' corni^-'C ted lie '-ri t:h diai\lio's wor'
ti'
■ub ' r.OMelio^/
'S v.'as my luck,
an ord(;r for
or tain o-vn c I'.ie in roquirin.': an enonnous
amount of v/or!; for i finisher, a taslc whicli -^ eonlfl <lo
- 164
A t.'iljic c rrl <
"^tin
of my cousins ri.iflo for :\ part
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Thus, despite the ui t.i,':onisrn of liis omploycos 'h'.rlio
took r;ic brick, ^his time it was for .^ood since the
situition now h.-.c! ctian^:ed dr istici'ly i/i th the
es tnivi islirnen t of the United -^tates '/ar l^rodiiction
Board L33 ''irectivo 2,
's^OHicn ' s clothes were deaJ t a series of severe b.lov;s,
by iKinisIi in/^ full .-kirts, no kriifo T-)loits, nor tuckin,«:
or p;itch pockets, no bolts :nnre tiian 2" ',;ido and the
like, - miifricturers wnre oldi/jcd to use synthetic
fnbrics c.licd "victory fibrics," thus lon;T evening:
drosses such as wore i)roducod at C.i arlie's frictory
V'nishod overni'cht,
Atiiorican fcisliion indiustry ropr«^sented a three billion
dollar lousiness at thit ti:iie, however, nov; faced with
fTOvcrunien t rdTulatlons in<\ su Irlen shortages (such as
i:iotal for zippers or rubber for elastic) m tnn fac tnrers
were also c iallenf';ed to ere » to their o\n\ fashions
since Europe was shut off which presented for most of
tlierii •roat difficulties.
By 19'l2 ^'orTlen ' s '.ve£ir D.iily rcnocted these problems
q.iite clearly in Itnost everv iss\ie, ->onio ])nlieved that
wartime v/otild hivo a depre sLn;: eCfoct on business,
especiilly evening; r.owns , It /:oes without saying that
Charlie's l')usiness wis ,'^reatly inriuenced p Tticularly
by the ;:oncril .gloomy mood \nd anxiety .•'•lon,^': his
C'jsto .ers , WHO r'tpidlv dis.ippe.irer!.
fl
1^
- K'6 -
Charlio's 1 :bel was n-o 1 L Icnov.-n in tho tr.»<le t
o cirrv
one op t:
e Cinnst: .lebut'nt;R ru^(\ ov
onjn;: Tovm.s \;liich he
iiriDoi^tO'l f'roni I on<lon anfl i iris I.
AnioriciM larkot. T.u t nnrort tinty
o co|>y tlieci for th<
s tf) ho
afreet h'
ir>inesr>
:ovorn:ion t re '^s tri c ti on
w t!ie wnr '•.'onlrj
shortn.'^es of
Coods as v/(}] 1 as t!ie falJin;: off of his h
brou.Tiit lilin nov; ai^iost to the l)riTilv of bank
II 51 1 n e s s
m I n t c y
Thus ho felt obli/Tod to cut
is stafi' md move to a
smaJ.Jcr tilice hooi
n.
to survive »:h
e war
Ai.
avin£^ ills fii.Tl conridence I became in time more
or less
th
•'J
ick of all trad
es
for hi
m which Miade me only t
oo
lianny , Un f or tnnatol v
W ' '
it these circi
• m stances mo
Ji t for
hill', cjscaoed me, since 1
was
too invol\c<l in my o
\\'n
aJix i c ties
rid
« e pro SSI on s
moreover
-I \
I'ul lon.T wished
that America ^/olllfl join tlie war. nid
now
I Vi
as over i o ved
with this fie V'; I oT->men t
1 1
us, my thou,'^:hts v;ere fa
re' ioved from ^hirli
e's worries, some thin/; he mi.^ht hav(
re sen ted
Xevertlu^l Qr,r, ,
be t ' or fu ture
1 ■• d to livn Miy own life in the hone of a
tr Mi.^e IS j ^
m r
eo'i ^ '-U'^lder^lv received
'I poem from my has- ul, ij though i 'nad
nnnn o \
of touch
v;i t
n I m i ii
o r
\ on,
t i Mio
it-
le po(^") w
no t d ted ukI
wri t ♦ en in
1 CO
ncentration ca'Mp in .\orth 'Africa
In \/<)cidcn barracks .1 cunnot. V)Mild c'.stles in tlie uir,
ant
1 barb'^l
■ire
w
hich is h -rd uid ti.^lit
I cannot en t with a s i nr^l c word of love
dut. in the eva-iiLti'; when iviJm trees itiove
an
d d arlvTiess is around us
it is in peacetime -
theji -^ foeJ til it yon are '/i th me
P
- 167 "
- L ) ,^ -
Thouf^hts about thn !„ t
ernatlonal Hou s e :
i^^^! ?^!^ stellten weiter ^-arniclits vor
Doch half en sie mir tlber den'/Tossen B^-rrr^y.^^
Stud on ten w.ren sio aus frornden L,^de^ ^ hxn.e.Tzuicom.en
^«o rn.an eino andore ::iprache sj>richt,
Wo Palmon in cier ^trasse wachsen 'ht-^k^h
Viel waren sie nicht wert ^^ ^^rchideen .in den Mauem blflhen
Doch war es reizvoll sich mi t ihnen anzusch.-.eicheln
Uber Oiesea und auch Anderes zu diskutieren '''''^^"
^nd auch den ^anco im Original zu tanzen."
\
me
(They did not represent .uiythin" in n-^-rt-i r-ni ^-r. i^ 4- u -,
to overcome the "bi,; mountain": ^^""^^^^^^^ but helped
They were students of rnroifrr^ io«.j« l,
ton,..o - where pal„,trees "row iTstrtl?^^''''^'''.' T"*^""
on their walls. streets ,uid orchids blossom
They were .just avera-^o but channin/T to riirt with th^r,
discussinc this or th,t, but in nartio.n .t^ t '
the tanno in the orisin.a...) f^'^^'-^cular to darice with th
em
jflfl; Ba-flB. 3 5... 03 as^j
¥Ji
SUS^frS
*"S».T
.NTtRHATKDNAL «OUS« OH RIVIUS^OS WUVS AT ,,4* STP»T NCW rO«K OTY
My friend Melida
from lajiama
,«
lin.vin;; boon \;i til my husb itid since T war. in tuy toons,
our rol a t lonSiii ^> was par-t 'f' uiy l>(«in^, ilo sic.n^ly
"belon.'veti" to -i^/ life aithourrh v/o j) irtcd .like stnn';ors
\/'ioii v/o .1 st s 'v/ oic'i other, iiowovor, this ;.oo?i e\'oked
o'lr past hipninos.?, ;rener-' t, i n(T a i';l iinpso of hope for
the f'l tairo •
>ince I had p.lonty oV tiiiie in my lonely existence T
persisr.c<i in st:'i(lyinj': Sp'nish, ?\rtor tryi.n.;^ a Vow
teachers L roi:nd ,'',(?1 id a , wlio livofl at tnc 1 n terna ti<>nn 1
i^on.'io, i«ein":a i 'ai i:;ioni an sho iritrofhiced rn-^ niostly to \
neof)lo froni ooath caorica v/io at t'.at ti'ie diil not soern
to unh ors t'-ai- 1 tlio hi frernnce het\'.a^oii a ^erp.an refn'^ee
anl a '^eniar:. *^iace 1 co Id not tolerate tlie idea of
boin.^ iden ti ri. o'.l as a Croniian, 1 a.l v/ays T)re tended t.o be
r'rench. ." oreover, since ^ fled l*'rr\nce this seenied to be
an easifjr way to avoid misundors tandinjs ,
Thus, for many years 1 net Meli(La there every I'^riday
where \.'e had a wo. lerful time with its lively social
life, freqieiit lectures and in tero^i tin;: neo|vle»
L\irthon;iorc , -^ discovered t lat the *^'rcncii I'nivorsity
was one of ny noi.Thl-Jors on 12th str'-'et, v/hore L could
attend l(^c tnrcjs free of ehar/^e in i'sychol Oj'T^y uid
/Vn thropol o.-^^y . 1 \/ou ] d h.ive bc^n satisfied v/inh this
trrxnsi tion tl existence except for the fact tliat Charlie
see'Med to no.lGCt nic.
- 1(1
9 -
raero was a rift for wliich 1 hil no exol -..nation then
but c '11 soo it nuv;. Mie fn r th\t he ni-lit broalc our
rel itlonnhip drove
me to inr-iense sadness -nd anxieties
in v.i ev/ o (' wlnt hanncned to my societv .»>id the bruta-
lities then fikin;; place in Bnrope Ch rlie's probleins
did not seem to no tf> be that tra-'-ic.
I difi n(3t ronjize then but n
ow
novf -_ that he
(1
iKe t
lost /unericansy (iid
not save Tor his later
veirs
as WIS cur, t')rTiary in Furopo, but lived well vn th t>ic
inoney )io r.i.ade, but now ts an older nan vritb. res non-
si Iji .1 i ti ct> Toi^
1 fain L 1 y , he musi: have felt threatened
v;.it!» a possibJc b-nkruptcy, fe iri
n,
its irnvl ications
Thus, v/i- lived in r.^tiier diffordnt spheres, 'i
o r o o v e r
iru:o v/e wore now wo
rkin.f^ to/^etlier , ti- -e spent to^^ethor
out si' to o
i lace
o' 1 rs
^ec inio a rare tv
I 1
ived alone
s o r e 1 " n e ed i : i ': a f r i o n d , s or;i
eone to t-'ll: to
ince the
ti
' i i r» \
/o used (:o sf^end to/^ether wis now e--ipty
l^^ir tier: lore , ho ,^;o t into the h dvi t of not cnniin": when
he said he would uid 1 liad a ritlier difficult time
ovorcM-iin": my an '^or -'.bout broken pro'iiises, nrrticni >rl
from himVx trusted so much
i th only a T>ayphone three
fli,,hts down at "ly disposal tnd not possessin/^ th'^t
ci
any friends, ^ did not hive the opportunity to replace
the time reserved for him ind usur.lly fell into -n
abyss of oin])tiness and an awareness of loneliness
whicii drcjvo in feeLin/^s -^ i^refer not to remember.
- 170 -
r
■o
- 1 71 .
'Y 0 WA.S Tilts ::\N'
\rs
'Yho xv'.i.'i tills i.i 111 i loved ,il trios L
;^ro t'lnn vw o^'n father'
'h.it broii,'7ht hliii no the point of .sorMid , n •: his ti.ino
'ncr.v iDfl '-loriov for mo
Con 1
It bo th
t I
v/v s on 1 V
a symbol of -..m • tover ho li^Tlit. Iiavo roa I or ho > rh
about l:ii(? nor -) ocn I, L on of lows in
:iany
Up K'S lis onriosit\' aronsod hv so(Mn
a vonn
'.v'or.ian
I i on
in
lo tol 1 obb V i n
1 I IM
1 , • I.
I' to rnoon
rv i n ' • to
t.LSO'! in
s o
J 1
oo
1 t
^,
orMc.'M sooiotv with its oroindicos 'is
to v/h u on, (\ s
o
ill ov
o 1 1 1 i not t i
o
^<■ r-\ -1 Tvi h c wan ted
1 )
1 n i o' I t f ( • r h i 'Tiso 1
:i ido r;i\-
1 C
1 I I i n t ■ 1 n c <"!
nd
1 n
V i. tod ;-i-
o r .1 lunch
11 s \/. I s a rav' o
s M n r. 1
;i n o f (^r
i.ic irid, Jespito \\\\ r tiior 'inltovl 'anjs' i od;7G of i -n :1 Lsh
! tool: this r>T>no r funi t V t.o dosoribo nini the disu'.tc^r
1 1 1 .' t. C not Oil
1 ul ijc
f.il 1
V f
:iM
i I V , bn t. tne
on ti re
Jo
Wl -S ' 1
lOT-) 1
ti on in ' ronn ni
Shockod \-i\- t.'iO tiiin/rs -•- to Id hii;i, ho ni/dit liavo folt
<) nolle'
! ♦
UO 1 IIV
t i , a t o or d » SO; '.•• tl 1 in.
on II s own
p
I
«^ H
% «»••
&.
M
I
f
?4
•
!di r t 1 cniioi'*.
no n 1
in s t coino f r-')M
*^o;:io
1 n
tiiorc for
oc^r •
d von r,: ir
o I o s o o t: 1 o ^ o n o I 1 ' i n
.in)
•/ ; o r o ho
ri.L
n'V-Icd ■.'! til tho crowd n i h n
100 ! id to
t .'1 rd I r o
ro t:h o - OT 'O n
Ovi w o bios sod tl i i:i , 'Hi on ho told mo
t; lis \\o
\.v
od thit
! thou'di boin'. a T^otostant
ai*
no
ro 1 i ' , L tju s
f o 1 t to chod, .'IS if "lifo li I choson
hii;i to do a rood dood
ti
1 o s o \v
r o tho
or
ords ho usod
W I
ich i disti .ctlv ro''otiibor, Ini ;, lid not, '-loan anvtiiin,
r.
a
- 172 -
- 173 -
to no tlicn , ( '11 ' V voirs lator, \;lion noon! n isicc<l
no
nbout i-iy ro.>nwo, i i. occiirrod to iio tTtt '^orhnps tliis
c I .'■> ' ' >
1
ir
a
liio I opo iiotivt'?d \\ in into 'ict. i'^n
il in l'>a(' 1
irriciontls' viiTi Li) boliove that he
1 i
t -vor
iv
for iiKj
Chnr 1 ie \-: -^
born In lrf7b ;ti
'I r ' L '-i o I
in "^iticinnati
n L o
a .s the
so
o
. r r ;
n . ro los tan t if:r:.i . .r ti t;s
'1 tliiKi/:.! lio
c a;
J i no
po \,
I r J u c n t
r ■ in no i. i iioa t.o \}:^o nis
^iejrci.Ui vac h
n\ . rv v.'honc va' r a
I ^ ■ )
apnc
ro'.l to no
m Louchod bv ai tisctni ..is.
1 n c (i no
o iii'vht h ivo
con si (vr''i ::io La
ho 1 i .voi to as o ,
bo a .in- 1 of ri " L ;n(h*>:;innn ''
"" or hiM "^norir i was tao Inn
m o Kni'o ss i. on
i • n
rooM ("^'n
cC plonl
1 1 O I ' ) V ' • I
<)
f oabi.'iJj t i (?.s ao'l ' haven for the opT>ros.=^e(l
cri. c.'i. -
1 ' (;
o t into t'lo
r; Mai t. b' I s i 1 1 o.«i s iTtor iin ri!rishod
col 1 o ,('
•ini'r 1. o
'A' ''Oil
*a} riT^CCJ
h ( M
1 i 'SO
1 in 1 !i
iM r> no vmn in Mis » >i
r, (icau! tir.io v/i th a son i
c:o.l 1 r- "-o
1 L \' i T 1
L n
i zo'i i r. rinna f lo to r i n
t' X f: I n 5 ; I \' r:
h'-bn { oi to rnid
o von:i n "* .":o\-;n s
') I nlvj n
(
is ■ ! o s r I I f
] ) tbn t rm f
"lors ii'o
ino' in*"*'!* to :-'.pond i.oro iMonoy t" brin": out t'noir '1 o'dita^rs
tb at w'aai
)0\'
) .. nari' i o
t ]oast tw'ic*^ i voar b<-^ nse<l
t . t i^ ' VO I to ^UJ'0!'(!
V 1 s 1 I L rn' \ n con
rs of' tb.o Maute
(a)n t.' I ro la; i m
X tr (Van", ai to oria.Ln al
r'^ncb 1 ''. ca' s
1 1': 1 irm
I !
V I '-^ \v' i s .s t a ! 1
v.'b i cb bo tb. on nrc^OT") tavl
t'
\\ I.
ens to ers in n i .s
1 e/: ri t
.s ao\i.'roo!n iai "ov/ ' ork
- 17^4 -
To adjufit tiiese rovns for tlie Ai;ioricn.n nuirkct th
ev
!i iri to })r -•loliricd soTnov/'i.it in tlieJ r l:'vir;h
n c 3 s , s n n h t s
sini]vl«?r o-.bru fiery » less mnt^rial, ropl-xcin.T innntnora'^ i e
hoolis x.'i.t:i -^ipnor? uul tho llko, \ inodcl for v;hich ho
n ;irl ,• ratlier 1 ar-'^o sum could thus hr ro!->rodnco<? for
an idocji ) to
on CO
To do this H' ICC OSS Pull
y Tor his
olito custoiiors, such .s I'-orTdorP .od<l-i ti, S<ks 5th """ve
Noinidi .h-rc'^s or .'; ' uiu, ho h .d to h
vn I
thoron.'di
i<;nnv/l ofi/ro in rr n v wiv.
> •
Chirlio livod i coiu for t vl^lo life, oi\joyiri', the s it.is-
r-ict:i')n o i" ioin -: v/oi 1 . ^^o was a i<er>ub.lic''ui hut not
politica ly ictivci nor was ho in any way reli;':;!
ous
ilo 1 ovod ;; drink hut n^^vor ,':o I driinlc, i'.iunacu] -telv
c i o :n in • Ic^Tit but discroot
ctot:'>os, stand in,": 3 ' 1*^
v;i th clo.r blue oyos , thick hloti'l hiir and a hit stout,
lie made l >':ood impression with fiis r-^'dv s«nilo and thero
v/ns not n v/titor in any rest I'lrant v/ho <'!{ rl not jump
v/hon they saw him, ^^ne could s^o 't a r^l anco that
Char] i o
n of nio u)s, ^*o (»u joyod .spondin": iTionoy
frooly, vot Mf) alsr) hid put so; lo nionov -isifle vi tii th
dosiro to do
.11 ido I th it
onothin,;; ono day wiiich v/ -s worth whilo
le ill f'l \»'eeT^ who
1 1 'v'o v;oro in : trixi /Toinr:
to tho nJ CO waor'^ -^ W'S t,o he inLornod, ^-/'non ho liolrl
my han'l ti ditly, say in/: dosr)er i te 1 y :
'' vll r:iy life i saved :iioney for m import vnt dood and
yet no\/ -^ ain 'no 1 yi] oss , . . , "
i/hcn ho c : .e to see inc before i o 'vin;: i'aris lie said:
I hn
oin.
to Pi;;! it now - dont yon \-.'orry
ti
- 1
75 -
.n'l x-.'ith this sttornont ho locpcno^l my trust in hi
A7'ilcii com fort cl mo in tho fiitnre.
Ill
lint tiion" 11 To " closod the 'loops >)*^^twno
n u
inoo
1
w is
5>liipj>o«l ^/ith thousaiKl of oth<*rs t-) the c \rr»p oP Gurs in
tho 1 yrenieii. There was no I'ldress Tor liim to ''rot in
touch with nc ">n<l I couJH vrito only in 'une - after
i'etain shoolc ii tlor's !i »n'l t) nake a pc rco treaty - to
a distant uncle in Nev/ loriv who.",e address my mother had
in a
iled nie hororo wo were cut off
in 11
y r ither youthfuj optiniisni -^ had docidod les'^al or
iilc'-.il to lo:ivo this c imp not. J i tor than .Snpt(?:.iber an*-!
therefore indicated jn tho iettor to my nncle tho
A'iior.i can lOxpross in iMce
s mv iddress
\fter ^ii > die rocolvod my nnclo's phono call to ":ivo
him iTiy i.cUircss ho be^.an Jookin>; for a lawyer vnd then
tried to mail me some uionoy. Ho
wt^ver
since the Nazis
occu[)iod i^'ran'-e the US uovornrnent did not any J onj^^er
permit the dispatch of dollars to I-'rance, Bnt since
Charlie vms a .'^ood cistoiier of a -'^/ir.s m inn fac turor )io
nana/red for- mo 'o '-^et tlic moncv thron;:h. Since i could
o
rily leave tho c.i y> with the proof of h'vLn;; e.i thor
monov ()
r someone lo live with, tiie c d^le T receive'1
/7 ive
10 tiie cliance to J e ive tho c imp and c;o to '.ice
- 176 -
At the time Charlie triol to nrran.'-e a visa Cor ne
uho mood in ^Vjnerica was sti.l I. oversiiadowcJ by tlie
econoriic rocoverv of the '}('>* s^
In l'*3^ Uoosovolt ai'»pointe(l a 4uasi-^Vf)vcrni:ien tal r,roup
with tlie idea of dovcJopinr: refu/:oe policies, a f^roup
cabled "The i residential Vdvisory *^on!!iittce on lolitical
Refu.'^ees" ( TAG ) Ue flee tin,*; the inclinations of its
chairman tiie ;roup worl^ed " cu'i tionsly behind the scenes."
( I), ^. './yinan ,rhe Abandonment of the Jews, P. 313) It was
a presidential com littee yet it received no "government
f'unrls, tlms its uncertain financin,": was one of its
wealcness in Tunc tionin/^ ePrectively,
Moroover, the per v-^si v^*^3S <^^ anti J3emitism Jiirinj the
late 3^'*'^ <^'J throu,;h the war was confirrtied by piiV:)]ic
o;>inion colls. 'I'lius, rescuin,'7 Jews at that tii:je was a
rather con troversi tl issm^ even to be officially
discii.5;od. ;lthou,'^;h mcKst "'•nioricans were bro i.'^ht up to
believe that '^urone was safely distant, for some the
continuous flow of news about conditions under -'itler
and :!ussolir»i v/ere be.^TinninT to be a cause for alam.
lowever, most ^>eopl e (wi th some ♦exceptions of course)
were stilJ far removed fro:n re»1izin,T tVio tremendous
ari:7uish which we were all facin^*; \m ler Hitler's fist.
Charlie '»s \n experienced traveller, v;as f amiliir
with the conditions in ^urope, but also was aware
of tiie attiiosp'nere in the -states.
-■WWgliBg
*%
« 177 -
« !
lie liius t have Icnoxvn ti.at he v/tnil«l liivo to find soMieone
rather spccia.1 to lielp him in his intention to bring:
me to the --^tatos#
Tin for tnna tely I- do not kjio\; the details, but I roineniV)or
that he introduced me to an -Irish lawyer in liis Park
/ivenuo office whose 'girlfriend came to (Charlie's
f.-'.ctory Co fit some olal)orate evenln^c .;ov/ns v/iitch
seemed to bo pa t of "^harJie's pi\TJent for Iiis norvico,
fiowever, there is no cioubt that this -'-rishnan must )i ive
been shrewd enouf^h to find out about the resident's
/advisory ^oniniittee and the chajice of approachin-T
someone important in that coiiunittee who was suffiontly
adroit to ,70 1 me i visa, -^Ithou/;'! this was ]:)roV)ibly
.illo,']:al, it scrv -d its vurj^ose to r,a t me into
tlie States.
ii^hilc wai tin;': in Nice for Vichy to issue my exit visa,
(Jliarlie reserved and paid for my first class boat
ticicet leavin;: fro'n Vif^o (Spiin). his meant tliat I
also n«:edod a Spanish transit visa which w.»s Imposiiblo
to ;:e t without .lo(;al docu'rients,
Tlius - as ^^liirlic told me - lie invito ! the Spanish
Cotisul for a luncii at the i'laza, whicli probably
intri;',iied the Consul: Th.at an ■"■•Morvcan hnisinessman ,
married, of i aoi.iewh at ol'h^r vinta-.e, a protcstant,
was tryin;: to help a Jewish refu,':ee,
(;f course he co.nplied tn<l J received ny transit visa.
i''or what price?.' 1 dont know and Charlie never told me
- 178 -
i
- 1
/9 -
Tho tric!:y p irt '> f this entire otjer.ition was to h ivo
the exit visa
in ti!Jic so tho otlior visris v;(^'ild not
hav^e eKi'iro<l
aiy ooin'nittc«l suicide in this
•aino
since Viciiy for icric reasr)n or other wonlil (hi ly the
oxi t vi sa3
■> •
Thu;
1 hid to have my oxit visa in time
tOi"-ethnr with to Spanish transit visa
u'eJ 1 as the
Ai'ieric^m v i s.i.
II
i-iinco
11 visas had ^'lo I'l 1 i no it actU'lly was n act
of fate v/iot:er or not tho plan v/auld succeed
• • • •
I sup'^o:
It TO
OS u'jthout sayin,:: that. Charlie enjoyed
liis triumph trcmendon si y that , despite all odds
he h id succeeded to .".e t nio in to the '^tates.
1 1 v/as ri
ye tr in ^'ebrn \ry that his curiosity to
SCO
the 1 opci brou.'Tiit h ir.i to "^orne w
here his fnelin/rs that
life had clioscii iiim t<> do a
"Toai
1 deed wore tri,":,*:erod
throu ,h a i opo s casuai j;«?sturo
In
Pic
ly 19'K>, desi)ite tiu? hi <ckouts in I'aris, the windows
taped
;ainst i)Ossible honibin;':s ill over to\>m , s
oino
stores clos
ed il to.^e tlier
V^i
larlie decided to return for
the
the
isOW
raid sea
son." Instead oP the usual boat trip he took
tt
cli^^^^or" - tho first co'h'i
erciaJ airlirio ))etwoen
iork and Lisbon
or '.
tnin born in IS78 it must
h.-'vo been
torri Cic sonsition. ^nd then after havin
SI
ich v.rnnderf'il days with "le in a
ris ho v;as so deeply
novod that he cried hecanse lu^ ff?lt hoj pie s ta holu
:-;y disappp rarice orobabl y v;orriod
Mio in ny
l s t r e s s
h lin
lui t lie C) iltl not do rnu
oh about it until he received
in
y ;uldross witi» my uncle's plione call s-ich in turn
- l80 -
luotivatoci iiiiu to use His conrioctlons s well as
money to succeed, 'nee i h kI roic'^e*-! ''.'cw 'I'ork ho
was keen on .'^liou-in/'
mo
his" Am e r i c n : 'ris car
tlie finest nirThtclubs
res tan r in ts
fTl o \' 1 o s
shows
and concerts, drivin,". nu' iltnost everv weekend to -i
diCTcrcnt :)i.ice such as Atlantic ^ity, rhi ladelMhi n
Bear Mount'iins, the (^atsivills, Montaulc and the like
i\'o matter where wc \/erc, iic ordered the best f
v;i th the finest v/ines or ch irnpa-^^ne.
ood
ij
id ho wanted to s;uil liieVV i''or wh-.t" -- ur did he
just try to do wh 1 1 he rnl^dit hivc ton r:ed to do for
many vers — to t iste the .'^ood life, wliich ho was
abJ o to if ford now md could not do so !")revionsl v?
(n t!'o other hand, my tnmnltnons past \v'i tdi
fu turc
that v/as nn tire.ly in the d .rk :»roventod me from con-
soiin,*: myself witli these activities, it was nice,
1 w ts :r ttefnl , but there were too many unanswered
qiestions disturbing; my loneliness for which ^harlio
Sf.'omed ti-> have no unders t >nd in,'!".
i'or me
the trar.edv of i ear] tiarbor was "a relief
since -^ was convinced t lat the -Hi or, ;;ould finally
brin . an end
c>
these luibeli evab] o atrocities
Conscqaon 1 1 y 1 wolcoiied tiie war ilespi te J. ts restrictions
- Jyj_, -
l\syc)iolo,':ical 1 y onr rol itirMiship rersotibl erl
a 55 0. IS aw
'nen
h irlic u
swim 11 n,
in h-i-) ine-.s \»'hilo trvin"-
to COM i'oV I
\:i t\\ the nianv In
X!iri(»s MLS :nonGy f?onlcl
l)uy, I. wr\.3 broixlin/T about w!iy tli<
Jlio.s wonlfi liesitnto
so Ion . not to .•; itiply cut atlor'.s tbrorit
Now a yo t later, ^fiirlLo f'c ire-l for hi
s vorv '^xistoncn
\v
ilc -^
v;;i^
ort} or» t in L s tic
t t'nc s Kio time onr
rcl 'tionsMlp ci n/'orl
\ n t o r
UQ S -O
i t a /:ro • t do 1 1
u' tii. e t'^'vothor cuJrni-
na t i n
n tae triM to I'^l or i d
1 'Itirjii
On as ti c In hi
nev/ 1. incoJ-fJ • i'vow in tac .itnosuhoro of
war
ail
"ClU
each
otaer d . i 1 v wh i lo
v;or":in : to-other, the sonsation oT boinr:
to/cetl!cr had worn off for liif
i nco -^ 1 ivod al
one lie
was ,ijl I. ;i;'d, a ratlior di f f"(^r(Mi t aitnation Tron liim
v.'ao t;ot only h.a 1 a fa'iii. ].y iti'l .i huni
nc.
but was lis
o
rooted itero v.-i ta ill ai.-s nrLvilO'"es
Moreov(^r, ly .sMS|iicion taat ho r.ii-^ht b(
nl ' vin.'- around
\<.'
as con Tj I'liiod v/iiofi he suddenly dLsai)pe'red -^r)*] left
me
alone on
ev;
car s
ev^e , r»bout which I cornpl linerl
Ivitterly in letter to r.i y niother to v/hic'" nhe renlied
• • • •
men do not have the sli/:htost unders tan'in/^
w'l'vt Ihis !;»ea.ns for r
n i 11 ov.' nrorr)undlv it
r rents us. ,/e should value t eir acts d.ifTerentl
because th
o?] t kno^.' wh 't thev do
Thev just dont ,';rasp it, "e >re rn\: su frici en t.ly
slrnnle' — v/e ro over sensitive, forever
aalysir)"- - nonsense - it i.iikes life onl^'
more
colli -licated
• • • •
mmm-'
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A Sunday: with a student from Chile
'It is a universal condition r^r *.v.
believe in the existenL'\°"r I'd^^^^HT'' '''''' '""^ '"^"'^ -st
r«t nave a mysterv fr. ,««,.
^-^*.c?xy zo move in "
^•C. Maxwell
- 1
83-
So I livc<i by tryin;: to coinproiTii «;e • Hiore v/cro still
bociutif^il flowers on certain days, at tines lie took
n:e f^or 'ILnnor -nd occ «sioiial trir>s <»rj woelcnnrls,
ilowover, ^ w i:^ iricreas In^^l y nn-ble to continue
t'^osc cn<lle.s.5 lonely ov«;nin,':s, holid.ys >nd weeiicnfls,
VloTie in my Ptirnished pi -ne «•] t!i nothing to do,
no tolerihono, no pimo, j'lst i Jittlc 'M r.-^dio, 1
folt t^ic n«^cc.'jsity to enl -ir^r'* ny life.
i'lms the acqtiain tancos t the Intern tJonal iioiise,
where 1 had I'v -^j) nis-^ lessons wi t!i i. el id a nov;
becafie '-ly frien<ln, v/ho 1 vmtld ^late, ^ho war was
cor.ij.n": to an end nH , to my .":re'.tost do' i'jht, the
Amori c i-'iF. v/ere in i iris -
/ind t'ton l.'ier^ wore the lef.tors of v,\y Vielove<' inot'^er
who wro tc :
"•... .Iwiys when l was in doe-) worry about
yon ' felt issnrcd t at ^ on liivo tlio !ie-'d
and lie rt in the ri/dit snot, and t'^erefore
you v/ore il^le to .jui:ip over tlie wall on
t!)e fhirl^es t days of yo ir J i f c •
My b(;l oved darl in - , how many thJ nf;:s
yon haci to survive alre^idy , , , , , ''
ft
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SOMC 0[^ TI»: CAIM'UONS I COL I.IOCTCi) IN >'Y 'JiAUY T TT! riM^:
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Xv' •* J ' Ix lr'^'ii^,.'
I;
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»M«l/t
iwUki
'y'fe'
lis is the
I R Ha
V.
AHTIM**\HOE HLLR AND ANCOMA DHF.VV MONOCI EH r^ A Z I
'ei
a
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am
r
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/.lis).
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<) 1 |{V.M «» — I III /> /irii (//i/»/M»f icri* rii i<Kiriirn/i).
IXI I'fl/I
/ f« // ttlutluT hr'H (I tlitrk
iiir sc M I r /I
r/i 11 /ii/c >l
ri/i«'«i «»r (I u
hit*
littr^r nilli tItirU >trifn-
NAZI MIMSTIIl ()I l.< ONOM^ I I M\ — I In- K(ini:tiruu (Mnrsiipiiis hntihrtiftt ti
III- iiinLtw liifi jimijty nitli i/*i/j/,> puitn-
I
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f, f<trnll
lift tit
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JAP I'HI .MII,|{ -|O.I(»_/7„. f„rl..,„ (Curnlln. Inf.,,,,!.).
I',il> his fut:-, in ,,ili, r j,, ,,i,l, \ ,,, -.1.,
cs
C^AJO *>^-^ VKkXc^rX^
(,i Js / hr ham >.
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IMKKHi: LAN AI.~//m. Ua.,wV (/•/,„ sn,,./.,.).
>/r«/.H vivr\ llu„fi that .sl,i„rs.
1 1
hi
1-1
B
r.
r>
- 1.-9 -
A T(m;:i u/tm t:»;: i' .s i :
iirin,'; in ;iy tmclo's bo.'.u ti f^i 1 1 i vIttt room DVf^r—
.looklJT V tl\n Hudson T rernonibor l.hc nionion (; whon nnme-
one •.r.':<'d no, i r 1 kn«^v that 'osoph '-^cln/.-ir/, now
1 i v M ; in X o v/ York,
Tlio nnclo v/ • s '^-rwin, in *^n ■. I i F^hiri'in , w'loso TrniTl-
r tlior v^is y\y ;;ranr] f n ther ' s l)rother. ^c was m.irri ed
to 'Ictty \.'ho h 'd fmir' 1 u,";htf;i's li :\ bj. l yonn^or
Him myself. -^ only mado thoir .-\cmu • i n tancc in the
19^u's v;iion 1 wc\s in 1 -ndon, t t'\' i rj •, to soil a diamond
I'in.": which ins' broUior in liw h -d .'^nnij:.:lod. (vit of
I rermnny •
oincc ii'v/in'.s brother ind sister v/ere rti si clans and
i:iy r.iothcr's chll ihood fri'-nds, i v/ori t to them when
L needed help, "^rndnal 1 y we b<>c ^rie fh'iends 'tid I
;:rcw Ton i o!" tlicMr dan/yhters.
The qMo^tinTi eorieorniiT: -Jose'*!! '"''div; rz To 1 t 1 i k»^ a
boJ t nf 1 J :ii ten i n/: since 1 issoci ted !iim i':riod i a t e 1 y
v/:i t!i 'ly -.ot' f>r, !) ich md hovio, he v;aM a '^issian
■pr. f i";oe v;ho used to 1 i v^ i ri WmM in trinrin/T the world
wi til iiin son PI i'"Ln,'. the viul in. "!ii1i» in oni' town
tliov stav'ed in onr ipirtmnnt irid my mo the?' md i
harl !>i "'o 1 (»ssons rro;.i him, whiJo his son r^rxve
le^>sons t<^ Kiy sister.
I'^irtiiornore , i r'^c »l lo ! a pi .no tr uiscrLpti on dor?ef">h
•5c1iv;t'/, made fr >!r. an oiv'-n '.vork u \cli h.\d transcribed
f r " I Vivaldi, Years i.-o when L i.io t v\y m thcr in
^'.vd tzeri rid ^ copied it, conseq-ion t J y .studied and
nl.i.ved it I VoM tui.es before an audience in -ris.
IU(. <;»)Kimi:i.S— 77ir ll,n,l,r Mnnkry (Vur.iMH mnfnsnr).
I ' /..../ - ill..- ,, ,,: I,, l.t, I ,\ ,, ,,,,,,,/, .
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My unci c ■rv.-i n v/i i.h
his v.'i fo iiotty
r
- TM -
Ilov;ovnr, no;; ill this seomod 1 i ko n tni r.-i.^rc ,
Jofionli *^chv/ir"/ rocriv^'l mo \/.i th :\ 1m '7 sr-iiJe -i
fo'.v fl-\'s 1 -t'^r -n 1 -^ t I' '11(11 V tol'l lii-M that T
h.ui a C(Mn' or ^i is ^^ic'i t r in sci' i :W: i on , llo hncl
m'!''o rovisLons sinco t'lo first \'*^rsion, itt'I
SM.'^^os t(Ml tlKit -^ '<\(l thos(? ch irr^os to my noriy.
^'■.1 thou '.h 1 Ivifi r^von np pi > v i n •; tl^o :>ir->tin Ion-:
Ij'M'orn, !i(3\;<'Vor i l>lt r-iotivato'l Lo fol low his
Siv.'TCS tion H'l v/rMi t a fow tir-io-S.to *!is honso to
co-'V cho 1.1 i.nvKscr 1. p t ,
'.I'hen my roi it-ivcs sav; niy on thti f.i .•sin on finlln,':
J<).'i<">h ^c.lwrrz .L";i'.n, thoy pr()po;iO'l th'\t -^ nso
tholr T'i no \;:iil'' t!ioy w-^ro o
n V'C • t i on , T
acco'-to'i thoir off^er, ))ut thn ol'l oxcitornont
;.'ts tMis.in-'-. *\atJior it fo 1 t s if 1 f.rio'l to
nonotr vte ;i sphorc tf) u-hir:h I h "1 lost t'-'o
nri V i 1 f^'To of ontr\'. r^rastrntod ani d i saoMoin tod
I aba.ndo!i(' 1 -d 'Vin.-^ t'io piano.
■^0!:io w'l lit- 1 1 tor
\/ris 1
nvi t;"(l to i honsf* nonoort
o
w.o I
^. or "^''is.si-in f'T'i/^no, idiTJ h.lstrdn, vh o
innrf)'nnod !:ic to his fri'^nds as .1 "iMUsi ni ai , "
My 0-0 i'lmncd w i t,h Joy - wh v di-! ho sny this''
ivoj nc tan t ] y ^ rroriies-ed t'nat -^ n(j 1 on :or '>! !yod
anviiioro - 'nil -opirontdv it did !iot; .son; ; t.o rnatd.or
to c'in\a;nc.
- 19 'i -
Youri , a cellist, was an older '.i tri v.iio socnicd
ini.ere.stcd in ,'Tettini": me back to music, iioJn,':
n ^Hissian rof\j;:ee ho s iw my problems rrf>«n a
dirforcnt i^orsnective than nyseJ f sinoo his
exr)crionce of living viprooterl had been miny
ycar3 lon.'Tor. bus he tried t.o c«:>nvLnce mo that
he would facilitti.e viy pltyin,': the y^iano by
r,ivinf^ nie free co c'mti': sessions, nd that for
little :;r)ney ho wo -Id Jot nie h 'vo a snail room
behind his kitchen where -^ o^nld i)nt a rented
ui>ri::h t .
-^inco i:iy landlady would not permit mc to have
a piano, it all seemed i^eifect and so 1 bo. 7:011
to i)r iccice a^^'^l'i*
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f
- 1
9^
Tho ii r'len hour, o of
my
:n;:Jish f.-nii ]
in i ondon
n
My niotlier in Leeds
T
' T
^
It wan 19''Ot pe ICO was in the '-ir, I had learned
to sj>o 'k some better ^n.'^li.sh \\\
1 ^
p '111 :v\
KorJcinrr
rive oi;;ht Iiour divs in "^h ir li f ' .•, factory, v/Iiile
enjoy in,': the ti e with ''Rlida it the -^n ternatioanl
lloti.se. To my iio tiler's S'tisf iction -^ h \d esta-
blished ;;ood rol ^.'ti on shi ris with fa-ii 1 y members
and
as particuJarJy proud about r.iy renewed
tics to 'nusic,
Charlie was hnppy to hav(» survived the v;orst by
nlun.cin,': b icic int') in ikin,". woddin/. dres.ics anrl
hoste.ss ,":ov/ns
while evenin.^ drosses be.'^an
se ! lin
1 1 ^'■t. •
iu: in
i.'^er t') I'oturn to ''urope
h >rlie
loft on a I'.ot v/eekend in dune, aslcinf^ an
clressm.aJver to t il<e nh ir/^e of his business
J-tal
1 an
-^ took the opportunity to ,':ive him tho a<ldress of
my relatives in London and notified my motiier of
his v i f, 1 t
v>
n 1)1 s re
turn ^h trJie told jne hov; he
had l)oeu impressed wit) my family s .''^onerous
hospi taJ i ty
l)viousJy \\\o. Mieetin.'T v/as a success
sine:' he went tf) dinner armed ^/ith a bouquet of
roses, *L' roi ttives invir.ed him b ick to t'ueir
oie,':ant h')i:ie for otdier visits wlienever he v/as
i r\ I ondon •
On the sane './eekerul (Jh trlie harl left for 1 ondon
went io
the beach with a cousin, './here -'- made
r
- 19 3 -
r
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fn n () !' ■ M ni si t: L i n
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n '.n :- nous t.
r f • c ( ) 111 '/ o I ; ; V
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v ' ■ w r t •)
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Ml rro f \:
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1 e ■ i t 1 1
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1 oc CO r i ■• no
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T'ossni ' I-
.Of 111 '-1 1. 1 r* ■ f ■
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t.li o o' M t, o r
1 '.n
t. ho
r»,-i t: LoriiMi licor ni'l oLliors - i. ! i- ''i' t
i t ' 1 • p I O .S t. i nil s
f.-n t. I ',• nn OIK.' Iiul ttio c:' >'i I'a :o t.-'.iii . <l''cisions
and
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1)11 i t i o
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r,.i I.
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1 ' ! () ' 1 : 1 r^s
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To r
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r) ro i ::i o r t
i.-i t
[ipji.'iro: 1
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> ' .' ( ; I ) 1 I ' Vi^ ^ (^'^ r. r
\ t ' ■ ■ I t
T u • ' O O \ ,
i.iir;: i ti «mi (,
■ly
io".' \;as s ()!.iov;l I a t, clon h^h:
0
f
0
t^^^^
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Jp
still without lo.^al clociifnen t s , 'ly husband
sornevhoro in .'vfrica, the "tionownoon" './i th
Chnrlio fie teriorated , my mother far away, T
had never seen ;ny sister's three children and
now they were movin/^ to I'ri 1 es tine . !'y father
v/as Tone nrv] with hinj all t)i^ irisurance policios
he had carried for our safety as v/oll as his
money, factory rid houses which the Nazis ohli;;ed
hir^j to sell.
"lireslau, "homo" with ill its " trinrdn/TS'' soomed
to h -ve dJsappoar«>d from the nia|) and 1 did not
even dare t») think of all those L Icnew, whether
they have <lied or survived somewhere.
Thus the peace so niany welcoried did not brin.^ mo
any coiKiol. vtion - life br(^ke my future into
pieces, s tri i'j>in,'T i'»o of every tlinr: 1 had,,,,
vniat to do??
iJesi)ite these depressin,T thou,'7hts my youthful
optimisi;: brou.'jht me to the conclusion that I
itr.ist find the strenf^th to compromise i,e, to
cn^oy today's 'sunshine" le jviui'^ the future
to fate.
'^f'^*^*^E^^^^'^'*S!W^%l*flf''' '
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•i:.-.--Wj ~
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iLake Mew York^
. *>^. •■■■ . . ■^J
"»r 1 » »-■
-~— — ^a;*;^
the beautiful, sophisricatrd
gra When they walk wah grace on
I IX>NT 1.IKK t:.c.n; in ni^^ht club.,
.Where they ber.uvc unnaturally and arr-
ioud a^ U.ou;;n they wer..- airaid U»ai
somebody wouldn't notice them.
i.
By UERNAIIDO CARLOS ALEMANY
^Ar^nuno Wn,., Now Uvm, U, Now York
I LIKE the correctly dres. .-d bu.sine.s.s
men »n the.r luxunou. Wall Street
oiiicca.
^here ihey eat so fa.t l;..-u tney don't
•kiiow what they are ealint'.
\ I LIKK Uie plain ur.prttontioui, Amrr-
■d'she.r^'^'"'''"'^ ""'''" '^*''' iiouU.ern
;J I'l'i"'' *'^*''' ^'^'^ i.nlcrnaliuiiaJ re.-.
'ta^riLm5-w.Uwhc.r rr.enu« wiwch .ourfd
Continental manner.
I lAKK the wonderful pain ting-" 'exhi-
_^bition3 on Fifty-sevcnUi Street.
I r>ONT LIIvE Uic preview opcuinL's
_ wi.ere evco'Lody chats, eat^ sandwiches
and dnnk^ cocktails and nobody shows
the slightest interest in the paintings. •
-' I UKt the Staiue of Uberty. which
I iiKF tv i~-r? ["'' ^^' ^'^^^ ^''■^•^^ ^'■'Jl from the.
_U>.„^ tho.. ,., Teutro Co,.,, '" Bje„'o:-,^,;,""-;-->: "KK ... neighbor. Elm X..'"
,.>'--Wto:,.r;^.^"",""''./;-ot.nK....:^I[™3j '''^;^-"- to ISSU, street via
- :t^;" ";r.r„rr.°" p"'-''-^.-" ^'way.
clubs, will, their
1
• I lAHE the r.i;;ht
wonderful orchestra i
:. 1 DON'T Ulit: the head waiters who
apologue «Iyiy ^.e,,,.. ,,, ^^.^^^ ^^^^^
,wadt IS reserved, but wi,i ,.-. you l^
,;.<^a. you war.t if you give theni a gooi
• "' "- " =^ E! z — _ - w
! I MKE the cockliii r.«„„.,. wTurUivir -
pcr/ect and ap.-.dy bartender.,
jou tunda. I,kp a .shadow, another „or-
L"vcrvo,r''"" '"'"' ''^"•- >■- ■^''<'-- -'>
— o.n,.. -If. -^ -= •■-'''-;--;ro:r;.roT.t~Aa'n?-"
.,.'a"-r„',;"": '•-- -'- they ,ro./^- . . ,.T. '''''' '" >'°" '-'•• "■ ..;
■- .ent. and .how then acli't ::.;;e:;^ ""
ligh';'"" '"■'^■"^"^y. With it. wonderful
" '-"'ivrj Lnein VL'Mon o *■»
-"0".' d'^'"'/"^ »- .',r^t t;nr^:v;:".-.
— 10 rind out throu'/i t - ••'>--
the touKh. in,|,clile 1 '""^w *>^^lthy you are! ^"^ l^-^^t.oni,
taxi'dr?. J , - '*"•• t""«". i.n|.clile -
t-te,o„ :?ait:';,'',%:'-^>-tough an.
;for/a tip
I ••LIKK fascinating y
with itc ..r. . ^ 'ark Avenue,
AC^tl-c^drng., .hey'sor^v^ ' ^'^'^
>■%'<
- coL'^'t^ V "j^^v" ^'^^<''-ican.s when tnev
^ na live .; : n /' ^^^ '^"^^^^^'^^ '" ^^eiV
„ native South Amcncan way-
_• ' '^'^'■^ thr magnificenl thcalre^nor.-
^.^1 LIKl. the men in the audi--
-- I LIKK the workHil-.^iria In Hn,. »
- rnent stores whn s^, ' ^ depart-.
I DOX'T I IKK fv,„
the'customer" order toT""' *"° "»>°"t
".eyare;e;?tp::inr."-°'"'"^-:
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rDON-3>KE-tJ r.de in suhw^. and --r-vy'c;;:rc':a,."Lt: and'w'r" '""'
.k at.UB «J.and un.a-j.,r,ed ,L, „, - to aa« 20 cenu for . hat^reck, """'^'
« I-IKK the sn^art • « I
SASSr ~E25 .;■••—= ■-■-=: -- £?-.'=r-iiS~
that they flometimes for^'-.t 10 get Off at '-'- I I ikf f^ , ' I dovt i ,. .. *
Uij^r d„tu.atio„. , . °" ":- e.a'horMe'-o, :;3'"'^"^'^''.''""' *'"> '*>'''-:. '-'taU men''" :;.^f;T-''",they try V
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AND M::p:T THK pimp: \.S it jiCEKS us " Shakespeare
The $500.- that Charlie had e:iven me raised my
spirit relieving some of my fears about a possible
split, '•''hile it was clear that -^ had bCfTiin my work
at the factory without any qualifications whatever,
at this point -'- realized with pride that 1 had gained
valuable experience, which wo ild enable me to find
another job if 1 parted from ^harlie.
Like my father, *^harlie supplied me only the money
I needed for rent, the dentist, etc, but n^ver any
cash. To most people I appe ired to have adju.sted to
^"^ew Aork, bein^^ in perfect health, well dressed,
havinrr a good job, able to read, write and speak in
four languages, playing trie piano and having some
friends •
Some German dressmakers in hirlie's place had left
£ind to fill their place the asthmatic Cuban dress-
milker, Marucha, was hired, as well as other Cuban
friends of her. This permitted me to practice my
•Spanish .uid develop friendships w^lich were later to
prove quite decisive in my life. Ch.^rlie was delighted
since they worked for less money and better than
h 1 s ^emails •
ilowever, no one st^ened to notice that I now carried
the responsibility for whatever happened in Charlie's
place •
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Thus, no bill was paid without my initials,
customers frequently called me directly for
delivery, often in despair when they needed some-
thing special for certain dates iind ^ was in con-
stcxnt motion calculating the time of the vsirious
sta^^es to have the material in stock, getting the
dresses cut, sewn, embroidered, etc. I was in
frill charge of the stockroom ordering the supplies,
making out tickets, checkin^j inventories and
distributing- che work.
Moreover, I was also working in the showroom with
or without Charlie frequently carrying heavy bales
of satin 50" wide from one end of the premises to
the other. L-^te afternoons 1 packed voluminoMS
gowns into boxes the size of coffins, putting
string around and addressing them while Charlie
made out the bills.
Dreading the emptiness of my furnished room, I always
tried to meet friends or fcunily^ attend concerts etc.
It was rather distre.sHing for me to realize that
time and circumstances had changed that bcautifnl
relationship with 'Charlie and -^ had begun to date
other men.
One day someone older than the usual crowd sat at
our table at the International House, ^^e had deep
blue eyes in an oval shaped face and a heavy gold
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IC
watchband hun^ loose on his wrist as if he had
lost a lot of wei^jht recently. I felt drawn to
him and soon wis coming to understand him as he
told his sometimes confusing: story in a stron^jly
accented l^'rench,
^is was .\ntonio, with whom I developed a pro-
found relationship which was to endure for h^ years
until his de.ith,. ciespite n host of problems,
chanr,es find challenges.
Like two puzzle pieces we fitted together despite
our different backf^rounds Joining each other
intuitively, "e were both married but without our
spouses neither of us s^oke a fluent i^n,':li3h but
French was the second langxiaj^e for both oik us and
neither one of us had "legal" documents to remain
in this country.
Theoretically he could have returned to his native
Portugal but psychologically he felt uprooted
since ho lived in Africa the last ten years.
Moreover, ho profoundly mourned both his parents
who had just died and his only sister recently
married for the second time^was preoccupied with
two little children.
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He hj\cl an MD from the University in Lisbon but was
washin^j dishes in the cifeteria of the International
House since this fjave hira the chance to eat, ^^e had
a joint bajik account with his wife whom he had left
with his sister in Lisbon, but she had taken out
all his .noney, iie was stranded, lost, lonesome cind
alone - and so was I,
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ANTONIO ( as I remember him- )
Born in Dra€:an9a (Portugal) as the son of a post-
master general -Vntonio grew up in Lisbon where he
went to college and certified as a physician.
Although his father had a well paid position he was
not able (or not willing?) to fin.ance a private
office for Ajitonio,
For physicians without a specialty .jobs were scarce
in Portugal since there were not too many hospitals.
\;hen *^tonio married through his father in law*s
connections with the ministry of the colonies he was
offered a job at a coffee plantation itj Angola which
he accepted.
However, bored with the colonial life style, he
joined a scientist in studying r.orillas, resulting in
a book which was published by the ministry of colonies,
and a grant to visit European ^003 to observe gorillas
in cai^tivity.
His next position was in the jungle of .Mozambique
where he was in charge of a hospital for the natives.
Although he tried to divert himself by doing some
research on tropical diseases and writing about his
travels (which were both published-) he felt trapped
by the lack of possibilities to advance himself.
Moreover, deprived of ;uiy cultural stimuli in the Jungle ^
he felt the need for a change.
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.Vntonio must have re;id (or heard) somewhere about
a Spanish ophtal molo{3ris t , ^r. R, Castroviejo who,
celebrated as the author of the "atlas of keratectomy"
(the excision of a portion of the cornea) and
"keratoplasty" (plastic surgery of the cornea) was
working: air the Columbia I'resby tarian Hospital in
^ew Yoitk City. With the idea to improve himself by
learning a specialty, he thought of studying with
this man in New York, By 19^5 he had saved: some
money to come to the States and was free to leave
his position.
Being reluctant to undertake such an adventure with
his wife, he begged her to remain in Lisbon with his
sister to which she consented, ^'^'evertheless , he did
not realize t!ie amount of time, effort and money it
would require to become specialized in such a difficult
field such as or^htalmology .
Nor was he aw ire of **orld War II development with its
Ponsequences such as the GI bill. Thus, it took him
by surprise when american veterans invaded the
University, inclurling the lectures of Ur. *^astroviejo.
With the additional blow of learning that his wife
had cleaned out their joint bank account he must
have been at tiie point of desperation.
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'ft
k
Lookin^^ b;ick 1 dont think I perceived his tr igredy
in its entirety, since I was so distracted by the
loss of so many around me due to the Nazis* So I
approached his distre.ss with perha; s more optimism
than was warranted, reasonin^j that, after all, he
could Qo back to Portugal and (yet a job with the
government, precious thinj^s none of us refugees
could claim to possess. However, the sug'^estion th
rettjm to 'Africa was the worst advise I could have
proposed, ^e came to love 'onerica and wanted to stay
no matter under what circuras tances •
It was the spring of 19^6,
My days wero full: niy job it Charlie's meeting my
girlfriend weekly for spmish lessons at t>ie Inter-
national House, going to concerts and parties with
Antonio, practicing the piano, A consequence was that
the piano was rather neglected since it had lost its
imt'Ortance.
The rift with ^harlie did not hurt so much euiymore,
but 3/ dont think I realized Charlie's reactions to
my intimacy with '^tonio.
In October my mother came, (^harlie had supplied the
money for a boat trip <md we were all looking forward
with great exciteujent. '^inco we had not seen each
otlier for eight ye.ir.s I was eager to be with her
and to show and tell her everything.
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I shouJd h ive t;iken time off but Jid'nt and Charlie
did ridt j)ropotic it eiilutr, j)robiibly lecause i had be-
come too irr'.])or tan t wi t a the daily roiHino in }i i s
business
o nv mother was .l«»rt on her own (.
o see
i^ew i
orl
V •
[•^ir therrnoro
'■n tonic did not spo dv my ^M-ni,aji and
ve r
little
n
1 i sh so wh
ever" w • s sin
into ^'rench which ny iiiothei' did not hno'
1
iH'
tr tns 1 a ted
i^ o s o n t e d .
In f <: t she told i.a,» that sh^ f^' 1 t. is if I wt-re wh i s nerinp:
into .^11 t o 1 1 i t) ' s e ' r H .
Then /tntonio /;o t sick. Deeply worrie^i i v/en t daily
before w
ork to
s o c
iin .in
.^ I
o
:i ike ii ! ::i comfort d.) 1 o
.:> o ni y . o
ther left t-j be wilii my cousin in -^ou th Dakota
where
A
1 » ■ won
Id fin
I moro con/'enial e r v i ronnioii t
Tlie
srn
ail place
: 1 e r e
1 lived, t : . r e e f
;i i.s u'o
\' »
i tiaou t
tele'dione md ::u- woricin,'. ill dciy (besides bein,"; concerned
a. 1 ' o u
t Antonio) did nc^L leave much ia)^^::i foi' in y mother
There were other disappoin tnien ts
when
I
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V«J
\
ier
li ii i.'S i wrote with so i:ui(di love for
h '^ r o v * r these
in V
ve : rs sru> re! use*
,t )
liscu.ss them
[dioutiu,-; ,an^:ril y : " .Spi-echen soil ich d^rtlbt-r aach noch
(-'- should i. ilk ai)out theiii ta)0 .' )
o rt
'hen
./e
i-e to.'other in
irne^Tie Hall - insteicl of
en ,j o y in,
tie riiusi
ind hein,: with me, she ST)ent lier
time
f iCO
I o o k i n
I re J
nd
s if s : 1
in the audience
.:> o w e
I ,
»' W' ^' 1
1
1 d
r
1 n
a f ami liar
1 a ' 1 our '
lifderences -it was
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not surprisin/: that the many years h-<d changed us and
my liope that she might consider living with me in New
York was shattered. Not only because we were different
she also disliked .\mericans exclaimin,-:: "everyone has a
dollar written on their face." Soon she returned to
^^land. • .
The day my mother left I found /Vntonio's room empty
with bloodspots everywhere, and was told thnt someone
had brought him to a hospital but did not know which
one. P'oiicked I got a ^^axi , whose driver truly helped
me, .and I found -^ntonio. There was something wrong with
his lungs but I do not remember the diagnosis. After a
few days he was discharged and told to eat good food and
find attentive care.
Needless to say ^ took him home with me»
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LIFE TOGETHER:
■^ '•T>. .1i<M
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"Et meme quand to t ' en vas ton ame reste chez moi
Tu voudrais bion t'absenter, mais moi Jo reste en toi
Nou3 sommes devenus inseparable
Que nous voulions I'admettre ou non -
II n'a a plus rien a nier
Tu es a moi et moi je suis a toi."
(And even if you were to t^o away, your soul 'remains with
You may want to leave but 1 remain within you
We became unseparable if we want to idmit it or not.
i'here is nothin.T to deny about it anymore,
You are mine and I am yours)
These lines I wrote in my calender of 19^7 without the
faintest notion tliat some kO years later Antonio would
otjerwhelm me with his constant whisper on his deathbed:
"I love you - I love you - I love you "
Ttius in 1V^7 we be{^an life together with no money,
family or furniture, yet we soon had a few nice friends*
Dadly Antonio attended br. Gas trovie jo ' s lectures with
whom he had become good friends and who had given him
permission to audit tuid ^ went to Ch-irlie's factory,
now as "manager." We both knew that ^tonio's future was
nowhere but to remain in the States he would ha'Ire to
marry someone with -American papers (he was married)
go to the army (too old for that) or become a priest
(which was beyond his possibilities) The middle way
was trying: to ch mge his totirist visa into a student
one, but he had no money for tliat, nor would studying
legalize his status.
Mi^^j^iai^l
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RECORDERS OF
LORE
,-COfflNUE WORK
The Social Science Field Lab-
oratory in.stiiute has recently
returned to Uki^^ r.-> resume i{s
research w5?ra^^. the Indian.s
of thLs locality. This year the
cd 'A-, h the Maxu-ell Graduate
f:.^""^ oL-5Zi-acu.se Univrr.cjfv
Director oHhe Laboratory is
S'-ir iV'^;- /^"'"^ Chairman
^.01 LIU: U'parlnivnltr Sociology
. and Anlnropology at the College
«^'?;k ^.^'^^ °^ ^^^'••^' York. Dr.
' "d?W^- ^^^"^^*^y ^-^ A.s.sociatei
Director and Alfred p. parse'l '
. li^ A.ssLslant Director of the Lab- '
. o;-^tory. Dr. E:}).: A-sn.Vv and
• f^- Par-Jl aie nicmocrs^of tho i
. tpacnm:: ,taff o' tho Department
of Sociolosy and Anihropologv
;_at jjunter CoDege in Ne-A York j
Research work among the Ind-
• J^i!f .""^ ^^^••''^'^ ^'^^ Mendocino
coun.y nri.s L\"cn In prog.recs b"
fn.H?/'';;^'^^'''^-'' ^^"^^ ^^34 '.vhen
under tl^p .spon.<;orship of Coi-
•. umb:a Univcr.^itv. th.ev nru^o
their fir.st field trip to this ree-
lon In 1039 the scope of th-ir
ac.ivjtirs was expanded through
the organization of the Field
. Laborau-ry wi^jch was first
. sponsored by New York Univer-
sity.
; Each .su.mmer since 1939. until
■ ti rn •'''u* u'^ ^'■'' Af;in.sky came
to Ukiah bringing with them a
• different pioup of scient:st.s
^ and students to participate in
the research project. Thiv years
, ^cssion is the fust to be'con-
^ ducted .Since the outbreak of the
V.ar, althou^'h the AsiM<^kys
came to Ukiah laH .summer to
visit and to do personal work.
The project upon which the
• Fieid Laboratory is en::n-ed Ls
. scientific :;nd educatiotial in ni-
turc. In the past support f'i-
iiancial and otherwise, has been
provided by such major educa-
tional and re^cardi instituti^n.s
as Cohirv-ii University. th« So-
V'"' He:ev.- Ke.vearrh Counc:!
. ;..id New V >:k Univei-.itv At the
T vjdcd through a. special rc.«^oarch
.£rant_from the Vikin- Fund
Including; this suinmer'.s group,
a total of 32 persons comir.K from
20 different universities and col-
leges throujihout the country
Iiave v;.siied Ukiah as members of
Llie i'lcld Laboratoiy. Tl.e Drs.
orii^'inators of tKe
"IliiVi"
_A^;nskv
Lab-
spent eight sum
(>.\ilV;> , ~-c.-.-
inci'i\r.,d parts of two winters in
the Ukiah Valley. Parsell. a
mcr.ibrr of the original group in
193JJ», ha^ been a resident of the
\ cun'.uumity for five summers and
two winters. Daring the winter
^ of 1042-43 he w.is as-^ociatcd with
• the Bartlelt Oil & Burner Com-
pany m Ukiali.
Eight new scicnli.sLs and stu-
dents have joined the Laboratory.
, this summ.-'r. Comir.;^ ^r<'-'^ Lis-
; ben. Portu.i^a;. i^ Dr. Li/. Fcn-cira.
I uiiO is at prc.^.iii eaga'^^ed m a:d-
vanced anthropoloq:ical study in
New Yoi'K. Dr. hcrreira 16 a.spec"-
' iali^tin trop.cal di.spa.sc.s, and has
done c.xtcniivo medical 'work in
iuthcrn Africa.
I
' ea.stern and .Sv _
I Syracuse University, wiiiai is
I iiov.- .>pon.soring the Laboratory,
; is represented by Mrs. Eileen P.
I Kuhns, of the Department of
•-Sociology and Anthropology, and
<* William B. Mitchell, geographer
* and pholograpacr. Mrs. Kuhns
ronie.s Irom Ponland. OreV'-'n."
. MiLchell's heme Is m Baker^-
. field.
Other members of the Labora-
[ tory are Florence Mahl of New
'York City, a fellowship student
in the Graduate School of the
New Sc;hool for Social Research;
Eugene Golhn, also of New York
City, a graduate student at the
Colle-o of the City of New York;
Dixon Bush of St. Louis, Missouri.
and Michael Feucrs, of New York
City, both students at the Col-
lege of the City of New York.
Coni^tance Hanf. a graduate of
New York University, is on the
tCc.ching slalf of the Town and
rountry School in New York
City.
The Laboratory-" group will re-
main in Ukiah throughout the
months of July and Au-u^t.
They h.ave their headquarteis in
the north
Schcoi.
wir.g of Ukiah High
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So we worried, but happy to have found each other,
trying to^ake the best of it. One day ^Vntonio met
a {jirl who was a student in iuithropology and insisted
on introducing him to the Drs, /V^insky(8ee clipping")
Doth were rather keen to have Antonio in their group
to study the Indians in California, a research project
sponsored by the Viking Fund,
;/hen .\ntonio agreed to go with them ^rs. ^^ginsky helped
Antonio to fill out the requested forms sugfjesting
that he would go for a Ph,^. in -Anthropology,
Antonio laughed at this idea thinking it to be an
impossible task, (He made it though, •• )
By coincidence my cousin living in South Dakota invited
me to Join them to go by car to California where her
husband wc\nted to visit his sisters. So we would be
both in c^ilifornia at the same time,*,, I flew to
South Bcikota and Antonio went by car with ^r, ''^ginsky's
group. We had a wonderful trip from South ^akota via
the Black ^^ills, Denver to the ^rand Canyon and then
vi^ the Ghost Mountains to Los ^ngeles where separated
from my cousin to join Antonio in Ukiah,
Together we went by bus to the redwoods, admiring the
beautiful landscape. Six weeks later Antonio returned
to New York with a shoebox filled with cards containing
the various data he collected. Officially he was now
a student entitled to 9 credits from the Syracuse
University but only if he were to write a paper about
the Indians,
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To legalize his status he had to register as a student
in anthropology at a university in New Vork. The needed
money to enroll I supplied with the understanding to
return it one day. (Ho did) However, writing the paper
about the Indians frustrated him so that one rainy
evening he took the shoebox with all the data and
threw it out the window. Pretending that this was
an accident I nished down the three flights soliciting
eTeryone in sight to help me collecting the many cards.
At this point I promised to help him as long as he
wrote in whatever language he chose* Since I had taken
lessons in i'ortuguese for about a year we finally
succeeded in finishing it.
I then transl »ted the paper into '^nglish assisted by
a girl fro I Charlie's factory who had been at Fiunter
College. It was a turning point for '"ntonio since
now he received the nine credits from Syracus University
as well as credit for his "life experience" (MD from
Lisbon University^ which were transferred to Columbia
University where he was now a student in anthropology.
Somewhat later he had the idea to give this paper
to the chairman of his department who was so enthusiastic
about it that he submitted i t to the Ford foundation
who gave him a scholarship of |2.500«...,
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At the end of 19^7 when 1 realized that my life with
Antonio had replaced my interest in music I wrotethe
following lines in my diary:
" In der Nacht, in der ich ftlhlte, dass er mich
nicht vorla^^sen wird, schloss ich in meinem
^raiun drei {:ros3e 'Kl^el -
Asche sah ich noch verstreut von dem, der vor
rair spielte, Ich wiisste es war v^oseph ^chwarz*
der tot war und grosse Trauer war in meinem ^^erzen."
(one nii^ht in which ^ felt that he will ne^er leave me
I closed three lar^^e keyboards in my dream.
I saw ashes still scattered of the one who played
before me - I knew it was Joseph Bchwarz who had died
and great sorrow invaded my heart)
Indeed I had stopped practicing for lack of time and
interest. V*ien I abandoned the piano in Paris I felt
that under present circumstances my "career" was a
hopeless enterprise, although ^ thought that perhaps I
could go back to it one day. But now I ha<l an urge to
give all my time to Antonio since we seem to need each
other. Thus, after this dream 1 gave up ray rented piano,
leaving music again, actually without regret since my
happiness with 'Sitonio seemed to fulfill me,
"Augenblicke gibt es so stlss, so unendlich sttss
Wann man in '\igen sehen kann , ^o nichts als belle
Liebe widerstrahlt
Und man doch im 2weifel war.
Dunkles Ilaar umschattet blaues Leuchten,
Alles sieht so ehrlich aus und of fen.
Man mttchte glauben er ist gut - er hftlt ganz still
und sagt in seinem Bllck
Was Worte niemals sagen k5nnen«'*
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(There are moments so swoet, endlessly sweet,
when one sees into eyes where only love reflects -
although one ha*- been in doubts.
i>ark hair surrounds the blue e:lcw, everything seems
so honest: and frank one would wish to believe
he is good - he is very still but expresses in his
looks what woxxl9 can never say.)
As described earlier, war conditions had changed the
character of Charlie's place considerably, obliglne: him
to move to smaller premises and cut staff, '^-t first he
had contemplated closing the business, but with the war
taking a turn in 19^2 he began making wedding and hostess
gowns with which we were successful and soon evening
dresses started up again. Doing the "manager" ^ was
stock and showroom girl as well as shipping clerk all
in one. Marucha, the asthmatic girl ^harlie hired on
the recommendation of my friend lzabel(the buyer from
Havanna^ was now our patternmaker, a trade she learned
which Charlie sponsored. Moreover, M-\rucha initiated
friends from Cuba to come to us so the language in our
place was mostly spajiish, rather beneficial for my
practicing.
As a ^ewish refugee having lived in Paris I quickly
became popular among Charlie's customers as well as
with the Cuban dressmakers. *e were like a large family
although it was hard work for me, I loved being in the
middle of it all. Many buyers thought thr^. if Charlie
were to retire ^ would take over, an idea Charlie
profoundly resented, although i only* wanted to make
him happy#
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to
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Eventually, when he said to need my savings
(about SU.OOO) I turned the money over to him since
I felt -t owed him ray life.
It was Ik years now that I had lived uprooted with-
out family in furnished rooms, forever searching
emotional support. Though ^ntonio and Charlie wore
the best friends ■'■ could wish for, I felt in constant
tension to please both of them. Terror overwhelmed
me when fixed appointments were not kept, throwing
me into an abyss of depressions, 'Hie calenders of
those years are filled with concerts, movies, invi-
tations etc. but the diary i wrote shows a sorrow-
ful existence.
Although Antonio had now a legal status, he hated
to study the way anthropology was taught cuid was
still deeply worried about his future. Moreover, his
sister wrote about his wife»s unfaithfulness, contem-
plating divorce procedures, (She did)
■O
As regards my husband I must return to events during
Vichy France when he had found a job in a hotel in
Agadir (Morocco) after he was discharged from the army
and wrote me to Join him. Of course it was impossible
to think that ^ would be admitted to Morocco since I
had no legal papers. Furthermore, leaving the States
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would moan that I might never succeed in returning.
On the other hand -^ could not legalize my status
in the ^tates since immigrating; without the spouse
was against the law, thus forcing me to live from
day to day. My husband's job ended anyway when
Americans landed in Casablance and the Nazis in-
terned him. One day I had the visit of a stranger
who advised me to warn my husband since they plotted
to murder him as a collaborator, .,.. .
Later my husband wrote to ask for a divorce for
which I did not bl.\me him since it was more than
six years ago that we had seen each other and
already then wo felt like str.ingers. ^iowever, this
letter gave my lawyer the opportunity to apply for
my first papers and so in 19^8 - seven years after
Charlie smuggled me illegally into this country I
went to Cajiada to reenter as a legal immigrant
entitling me to receive my first papers.
Close relatives of my husbimd lived in Montreal whom
I visited at this occasion. They were refugees like
me, vlived in a beautiful house, rather different from
my family. It felt like a relief when they bombarded
me with questions which I was only too happy to
answer. When i told them about the savings ^
returned to Charlie they had a f i t and insisted
that I get the money back from him, However, rather
anxious of losing Charlie I asked their advice
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how to go about it, which they were only too glad
to supply. Their opinion differed f^reatly from my
own but, comforted by their attitude ^ did succeed
eventually in getting this money back from Charlie.
With my salary and .Vn tonic's scholarship we had a
modest existence in New ^ork. But the money of the
scholarship was dwindlinfj and that beautiful relation-
ship with Charlie never returned.
Some time in that year a bachelor with a piano moved
right below us which 1 resented, but my landlady
claimed that he paid a higher rent them me. ^^is
amateurish jazz playing was hard to tolerate yet his
eagerness to learn claasicftl music led him to approach
me for piano lessons. Since 1 was in need of money I
accepted this task and became friendly, ^e had an
important job with a good salary, a chain smoker, who
thought that he might prolong his life by making music.
However, it took only a few more years when he died
of lung crmcer.
Similar t6 my connection with Joseph Schwarz dic-
tating me his Back transcription, the loose relation-
ship with this mam had little meaning for me, yet
it reconnected me with the past.
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It was 19^*9 - Life appeared "settled" with the war over
and ^ succeeded in having my "First Papers" which meant the
freedom to travel, to work md to remain in the States.
HavinfT learned to speak, read and write a fluent ^rench,
a relatively {^ood i^nglish and .some Portu^^ese (besides my
mother tonfTuo) I planned to study some Hebrew since my
sister's family lived in Israel,
My job made me feel independent, believing that I could
find a similar job any time should ^ ever have to leave
^harlie, i'his was an illusion. However, at this point I
looked into the future witti optimism, althou<?:h a bit
uneasy about the stability of my relationships to Charlie
as well as to -'^ntonio.
When Charlie had proposal {jettin^^ a divorce to marry me
some time earlier, I knew ^ could not cope with it since
for me he was a father figure, ^n the other hand yVntonio's
eunbition was to remain in the "^tates, which my lawyer
labelled as "hopeless". Besides, Antonio' u values, his
desire to have a house and a car wore irrelevant to me.
My divorce proceedings were at a snail's pace since all
documents required official translations.
Deing t^rofonndly attached to both men, 1 wrote in my
diary: "I must have patience and time to find an answer for
mv new (luestions in this life." VThat did I want?
Thinking of my mother's philosophy th-,t life only made
sense by helping others, 1 felt justified with my present
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lifestyle, but hoped to live in Hirope acaln - perhaps
as a buyer for *^h rlie or someone like him. America seemed
rude with its particularly unpleasant architecture, the dirty
subw ly, the laclc of trees and flowers in streets etc. Ch^
rm
and romance were absent. My marria^^e tnd music iiad vanished,
but my mother's frequent letters with her ^reat love and
unders tanr'.inf^, '^tonic's prof'»und dedication and my popvu-
larity at Charlie's factory overcame the uncertain future
with the threat of old i^to*
My present preoccupation wis vrheumi tic pain in my left
upper thi(;h which -^ could tolerriLe with aspirin, then my
mother mailed me money' for my birthday in May we used it for
a trip to New Orle£ins, In a sleeping car we went to i>t. Au-
gustine and continued by bus stopping in various places.
In Now Orleans we were in a pretty hotel with a fountain
in the courtyard surrounded witri pink mimosa trees. i\nd then
we had a cott'fre noar the sea in lUloxi with beautiful
{gardens cverywiiere but felt disippointed in our expectations
since we thouG^lt of finding so;.iethin/T lik<= the Cote d' Azure.
NO - i t was not like ICurope...
We also worried about -^n tonic's hopeless future an-i my
physical pain. In the fall J- re/^s tared to learn some
^^ebrew but cuuld hardly concentrate. Finally -^ wont to my
doctor who snnt me to a gynaecoloffis t but neither had a
clear diar,nosis. In Boston 1 consulted my husband's cousin
who was a neurologist, but it was in vain as well. Since
the ^gynaecologist claimed that -*■ had some fibroids ray
doctor thought that these fibroids might be pressing on
the sciatic nerves causing this pain.
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Thus, on New Year's day in 1950 I entered Mt. ^inai
Hospital v/hich was actually the be^^innin^? of a complete
trans fonnati on of my life in which "^ was {;oin{i: to lose
Charlie, all niy savinf^s and suffer a drastic shift in my
relationship to '^ntonio. It was a gruesome period in
my life.
The operation was not a compl icated one but during^ the
recovery period I had a brush with death, as -^ learned
when my speciaJ night nurse stated with an alarmed
expression on her face that t was "almost pone" and that
she just caught me in time, Dut ^ felt fine until medi-
cation was reduced and the pain which now felt like a
metal ball under my knee - was back.
The f^ynaecologis t , convinced it was connected with the
spine sent me an orthopedist wlio suggested that "^ wear a
tight corset. ITie reaction to the corset was a feeling
of sheer torture anfl impulsively ^ decided not to wear it,
rather to cope with my affliction.
My relatives, who had mailed me $200.- to pay for my
special nurses, now came to pick me up to live with them
for a while, ^t, deprived of my usual life with Antonio
and the growing pain, ^ had them take me home after a few
days. My doctor, who fortunately supplied me with pain-
killers, recommended that J- return to the ortiopaedist
who treated me by injecting some fluid into the spine*
This ^ tolerated a few timo^under tremendous stress, but
it did not improve my condition. He then recommended a
neurologist who suggested a milogram.
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However, sinre this required a few days at the hospital
the orthopaedist thought a stay with my mother in Leeds
would be preferable since ^ was in poor shape,
H'hilo preparing my trip 1 continued working at Charlie's
factory, gave piano lessons to my neighbor and studied
iiebrow. •:>uddenly an attack of fever with large streaks of
pus in my throat brought me to another specialist who told
me to have my tonsils out. Hius , t iree months after my
operation ^ entered a different hospital where the proce-
dure ended with an unexpected hemorrhage, ^ij^e a fountain
my throat sputtered blood almost blinding the physician's
glasses an(J coloring the white sheet entirely red. I!e was
alone, running out of cotton pa«ls while the anas the tic
wore off, out finished the job. I had lost six pounds in
one day and was unable to speiik for a w«»ek,
In March 1950 it was four years th;«t '^ntonio and I had
lived together, so a trip to feuropo presented our first
separation. *^owevor, the excitement was overriding every-
thing else. Travelling not only with my luggage, but also
with a large wooden bo.jrd on which "^ hnd to learn to sleep,
I went by boat via Canada to Liverpool where my mother was
to pick me up to go with her to Leeds.
Although had seen my mother in Now York four years ago
it was the first time that I s \w our luxurious apartment
(remembered from nreslau> retiuced to my mother's place,
^ut of four pianos we iiad, only one r.r aid was there and
some furniture from our musio room, -'-nstead of R table wo
.^y
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we ate at her precious lemon wood writinfj desk wtiere
she had placed some curtainlike pieces covering: the
shelve^ originally made for stationery, ^t was a sad
sight. She still slept with my father's bathrobe under
her bedsheet and wore the s.uiie clothes,
■^t niust have been difficult for her to see me rather
skinny, constantly takint^ pills, Uu t -^ was hap))y although
frequently 1 aslcod myscl T how ^ can be so contented in
spite of so much pain. Nevertheless, 1 blocked the pain
with medication, awaitin/:^ a visit to a specialist in Oxford
who was an acquaintance of my sister but when 1 saw him ^
was disappointed.
The British Government had awarded him a medal for treating
war veterans with si)ine problems, but in my case ho claimed
that ■*" should le.trn to live with this condition and talked
about the -^ndians training themselves ngtto feci anything
while sticking Rails into their arms - which was no
ct^risolation for me. he brought me back where "^ stayed
in his car but di(i not accompany rue to the door, something
my sister's father in law labelle<i as "utter rudeness."
My sister arrived from Israel to be with us and was so
happy being back in "urope that I found the strength to go
to York's beautiful cathedral, iktrrogate .uid London.
Later -^ flew to Geneva to join my friend ^^edi in Lausanne
who had arr.uiged a room with a huge terrace overlooking the
lake for a very low price.
While in Lausanne I began to have violent attacks of
diarrhea, fainting spells and frequently periods of
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of paralysis. ^'Nevertheless , .tlniost daily ■*" went some-
where to enjoy the unbelievable beauty of Switzerland
my father loved so much.
Suddenly cruel reality broke on my feelin^Ts of bein^
somewhat nearer to "eternity" in the presence of theae
overpowering: mountains: Charlie cabled, "undergoinf:
emer/Toncy operation, sugf^est you cut short your vacation,"
With the help of my relatives in ^^land I managed to be
at ^harlie's bodside within 2k hours, TTie operation was
successf 1 and Chirlie had a smooth recovery. Back in
New ^ork I functioned in my former life as best I coul4«
It was summer, 1 had enjoyed frreat happiness in iiXirope and
now felt much better so I had no need to see a doctor.
But when *^harlie returned to the office in September I
consulted a physician, particularly so because the pains
had returned and even rnaicin^^ love with "ntonio had become
fin impossibility.
In my need for warmth ^ bundled a heavy blcuiket around me
whenever possible. I had a flcuinel sleeping ba^ but felt
less pain sleeping? on a wooden ch.air against the wall in
an outlandish position or by standin/r in the bnthroom leaning
against the sink. Since Antonio was under pressvire to
finish his Ph,i>. he often atterapte<l to stay in his own
quarters to study, ^i t then, more often then not, he
arriverl any time .\t night exclaiming: "SUUPRI SE- , " while we
embraced each other crying together. Although all this
happened more than thirty years ago "*" still hear iVntonio'a
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desperdte woopin/: alono in our bed while ■*- tried to
sleep stindin^r in thic bathroom, as a physician he 'rrust
hive knovm how deithly ill "'' was without bein.^r able to
help me nnd ^ could only srru^^/^le with these sometimes
horri fyinR pains.
^t then sudflenly !t was ^k a^,^4„- i never knew when it
would hit me ;ani ha<l no control, '^t one point someone
su^^'^ested a chiropractor which ^ followed up as well
but with no resuis. "^n fict, "^ was wor^^ after each
session and had to ab.u*idon the idea.
The ^uban dressmakers, seeing my distress, blamed i t on
the cold we;ither .tnd one oV tliem invited me to spend
Christmas vacation at her home in Havana, an idea ^
embraced with enthusiasm, ^es, perha;>s warm weather is
"the solution."
But already the bus drive to the airport jumping: over
potholes made me scream with pain, -'-n *^uba everybody
was very nice, they even had a wooden board made for me
to sleep on - yet -^ was in misery, -^omeone recommended
t^olnc: to San Uie^^o de los Hanoa where they had special
waters Icnown to heal, ^t before ^oin/^ there ^ consulted
a r^hysician who had been recom'iended by one of the *-'ubans
After ex iminin^ mo for almost an hour he dia^^^osed my
pain as a possible t'lmor in the spinal cord proposing
a milofjriun soiuethin^^ the neurologist from Mount ^inai
wanted to do a year a^o.
He thouf^ht that tiiis water wo^ld not make me worse, but
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had doubts whether it would help me. ^ decided to try it
as lonr, iA3 ^ was there cilready, ^n New ^ear's eve ^ dressed
up for the party in that pretty hotel, but fainted nnd
missed it all» i'or hours -'- stood daily on the torrasse
overlooking^ the beautiful /T'tr<len writinf^ in my new ca-
lender: "^'Od is not a symbol of power over man but of man's
powers, "(^. ^romm) l>iere was nothin;^ for me to do except
to QO to trie baths, wliich did not relieve me.
i^ow "^ was walkin^j with a stick, oTten cioubled up with
pain, carefiilly avoiding: any uneveness on the /ground.
-^Ithou^rh far away .Uitonio felt my (iis tress, wri tinf: me
an urtjent" letter to come home, /it the airport in New ^ork
I phoned an orthopaedist my /gynaecologist's secretary
recom» ended, but needed to wait, a week to see him. ^ was
in a shcimbles, at times screaming until the walls shook,
when it fell like scissors cu^^ing through my spine.
When -'- finally saw the orthopaedist ho declared that ■*■
was an fmier^ency case but would only take me on i f ^ could
afford a private hospital room, With my insurance, and
sure of Charlie's help, ^ agreed and the neurologist
from the previous year made the milogram.
■*■ had a ttimor the size of fi pigeon's ef!;(; between the
fourth and the fifth column.
Looking in the mirror after the milogr.im ^ hardly recognized
I'
myself with huge wild eyes and n strained face. he
effect of the unbelievable painful procedure was . like a
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thousand needles in the brain leavin*; me with prolonsued very
fast breathing . .vntonio was there wi tn his books, left
for lunch and returned. That ^ survived these trying: times
"*■ owe to his Jove and care.
And then oame the operation lasting? two and half hours,
■^till numb from the anaesthetics the surf^eon oxcitedly
tapped my shoulckcclaiminfT: "benign - you hear me - it was beni^ <
I did not know whit bonifrn was, but from his voice I under-
stood it was souiothinf^ fjood.
Perhaps I should add that the neurologist charfjed me hardly
anything; for the milo/rrain and the surgeon demanding
S6,0()0.- reduced his fee to S2.5O0,- when ^ told him about
the fate of my family unler the ^^azis. **oreover, when ^ left
the hospital he arran^jod a nurse for mo for a reasonable
price wlio lielped me in the morning: while 'Sitonio took over
for the rest of the day.
The orthopaedist from the previous year came to apolop^ize
for his mistetke. ^f he would have accepted the nourolof^ist • a
advice to make the milograni a year ago^ he would have Sfived
me not only a lot of expenses but an entire year of agony.
So I lived again - but everything was different now.
In March, three months after my spinal o-^eration ^ began
working again at Charlie's factory, ^o my surprise he had
hired a woman for the showroom claiining that it iiad been
entirely too much work for me so it would be easier now.
However, it did not take me long to discover that ^harlie
had iriven this person the privilege oV knowing t!ie safe
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combination md saw, that she hi<i recently rtepositod
relatively larf^e snrns of money. -'■ t had a bitter taste
to be Tuished into the factory and forbidding: me to be
with the buyers -^ knew so well, 'Moreover, ^ noticed,
that she lied to customers on the phone promising: them
flelivery of clothes of which we did not even have the
material, "hen "^ romindod her of this error she brushed
me off. frequently she cnrue in rather Inte or dis-
appenreti at any tim«* for hours,
■^n fact she beh ived - and *^harlie tolertted - as if
■^ could not believe my intuition and yet here it was;
Charlie had replaced me with her. She was married, of
Italian descent with two children, ;i bit plump, snappish,
defi.mt and yet to some flittoring in an artificial way.
I was stunned that ^harlie cotild fall for someone like
that but at the s.une time ■*■ feared, that she was {^o±ng
to "bury" liim. ('^he did) i knew that to disappoint
customers meant losing their trust, and eventually they
will not come back.
That ^harlio did not see throuf^h this seemed unbelievable.
Since I was in such emotional turmoil I was unable to
clarify these fact to myself at the tine anri my working
there bee ime a ni/ri^tmare. However, now as an older person,
Charlie's behavior appenrs to me in a rather different
perspective which ^ was too youn^^ to understand.
After all, Charlie know of my relationship to Antonio
and probably felt deeply hurt in his pride to have "lost"
me after all he di<l for me.
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At the same time he was experienced enou^^h to know,
that ;in excuberant and younf: person was no match for
him unless -*■ woul<l marry tiim vvhich -^ refused to do.
Thus, with the w r over aid now beinf: in his 70' s he
permit t«jd himself the luxury of f^ettin/r another com-
panion lor his showroom :md probably for other leisure
hours. **orer)vor, he felt I roe to act this way, since t
had been sick for a long time and lived with "ntonio.
^n my present frane of mind -i- .Iso suspect that he felt
rather revengeful .( '^To hell with her" as a motto) which
brings me to one of my worst traumatic experience:
Since Charlie never supplied me with cash ^ had saved
dollar for doilar over a long time to buy him something
special, which was a gold watch on a little chnin which
he wanted. I'hus, with the first hundred dollars •** had
together Vsome k^ yc.irs ago it was a lot of money) I
bought him that watch fr >iii a fancy Fifth Avenue store
which ho used to fondle with care.
Now, about ten years Inter, -•- s«iddenly saw this woman
with this watch hanging on her dress on which she had
her own initials engraved. 1 paled .••••• and in one
of the succeeding nights -^ dreamed of taking our cutters
huge scissor to stab her for good.
•^ knew then that "*" had to leive -
Almost every njorning ^Vntonio t Id mc t :at ^ cried in my
sleep, "how much you must )iRve loved this man." ^es, It
was love but for me it Wcis much more than that, ho was
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my "raison d etre." ein^ so niiich older and loiowinff his
business -'- had pledged myself to help this mm tin til the
end. Many of his customers thouf^ht i.uid said) that if
Charlie were to retire "^ would take over.
That he would push me out of his life never occurred to me
and "^ was profo ndly shocked to ha'V'e lost not only his
affection but more than anything else, the realization
that he no longer needed nor wanted me«
*^owever, as 1 see it now, takin.T this woman initially
was perhaps not directed against me, but selfishness. *^e
was married but his life was in his showroom and he wanted
company, ^nowin/: that 1 lived with 'hitonio he felt rejected
and tried to erase his disappointment by simply replacing
me. Por him "^ had been "a /url needing protection" while
for me he was a "father" on whom "^ could rely for support.
Thus, when he isJiew about my life with '^ntonio ^ ceased to
be "his ^^irl". The bre.ik seemed inevitable since he re-
sorted to innumerable insultin/j little /gestures to get rid
of me coming? finally to the point of offering roe to pay
for a trip to Israel if -^ were to leave.
Antonio suggested that t take this opportunity, in view of
my distress and the long illness.
V,'hen 1 left Charlie s building the last time ''' remember
being with one of our models, who envied me going to Israel.
Mien ■*- expressed my feelings in co iparing it with going into
a tunnel slio could not understand, of course, since she did
not know the circ Distances . ^it a tunnel it was , lasting
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nicuiy yC'irs. ITiua, another life bef^an.
While t.ikin»T inventory of my past-childhood in ^reslau
with all the trimmincSt ^aris with a husband as an up-
rooted rofiif^ee without direction except for having food
and safety, ^irs , the concentration cainp, resulting
In the exhiliratinfT experience of findingr a trustworthy
man who achieved the feat of smu/r^linf? me into 'Viorica,
the loving: years with '^tonio, the incredible pains
and three operations and now thrown out by the very
person 1 thought "^ could trust - ^ felt to be a rather
old womcin. et, 1 had to f'jce a future however uncertain
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While still r(!CoverinA;- froiri yo irs of pain, throe
operations and dru^TS tbo sei^arition fr
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har I ie
addefl another iminonse sadness in niy J i To . In for tunatel y
1 riovor realized that the en<ll
os.s insults Charli
daily hearted upon me wore not only meant to ''debase'
but ilr.o to doinon.s tr 1 to his dis/^yiist about niy livin/r
WL til '"'n tonio .
me
ii
e felt youn/v when wo t;;ot in l'»ris enJoyin,T r.ooc]
times to;:othor and, ifter- suoco -^s f^ul 1 y brin,':inr me to
tie States, del. i jilted
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reactions while s lowin^r mo
.Vmeric :. oinco he was niarrierl hie riid not conceive my
u
tter lonolines:i wliich led me to casual d-tin/:
tranqnillizors .ind ilcoiiol, Witiiout a telephone and
only i little AM rarlio in my T'lrnisho-! room T dreaded
the Ion/: weeJcends and holidays bein^; alone with
n
othirj(T to do
Many pooj)J o rcadin;: this mif;;ht qiiostion why 1 did
not join a teini)! e wiiere I would ji.ive rr)tuid company
sharing my Jot, ^^owover, this never occurred to me
because psycholo,": Lc t 1 1 y -^ was not connected with
Judaism.
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\{hen i met Antonio
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Althoui^h my parents went to the temple on hi^h
holidays, my father was convinced tiiat assimilation
was the answer to an tisomi tism and never followed
any .lowish rituals.
My husband, al tlioiich Jewish, came from u slirvhtly
antisomitic family, celobratina Onas with all its
trimmin^^s, iiis father rather proud to have achieved
boin.T in officer in the r,erTnan '^rmy during: '^'orld
War I. fhus, while livin.T in Paris joining a lewish
or/T >riizatd on was anat^lo^la to him.
i^'Joreovcr, when i received my expulsion order in
I'aris a vJewish rof\if7oe or/:aniza ti on refuse! my pleas
by s lyin^ that they first had to take care of those
wiio had icial [)apers • (L i t tie di<i they realize that I
was in ^^reator dan^:er to be deported.)
-'-n New York depoudcnt on *^harlie, a married mem and
non-*^ew, -^ felt reluctant to ex osn myself to
stran^jers who wo ild probably have no undors tandinf: for
my problems.
Thus, when I met .Vntonio in 19^6 "^ was intensely happy
in endiniiT such a period I five years!) of isolation
an<l loneliness, i^espite what he had done for me, it
never occurrr>(I to mo tliat Charlie wo'ilfl be deeply
offended that ^ woa 1 d talce a lover, ^ or my part, my
feelin,':s v^orc thp same for him riespite mv relation-
ship to -^Hi tonio , sinne 1 always saw in hiin a father
fiiTiiro and not a lover.
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Lackin.'T tiio nn<lors tarxli
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for his b#*lMvior, I hi \rned
his infitu ttion for ^volyn, th(^ now showroom rrirl he
had liirod. rod.iy i know th ^ t ho wanted to deny his
age
nie
\ik1 edgcr to demons tr.i te his ability to replac
^ittlo did ho foresee that this
wo:n in ' s lies t
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customers, horimhiiity to speak Sp vnish to our Cub;
dressm.dvers , her inefficiency cuid selfishness would
brin,': iiiin no luck,
*^vent'ially lie went b.inJcrupt .ind dievl poor in *'*orth
Carolina whore iio was forced to live with his wife's
f.'unily, who ho hated.
Compounded with my dosiivir about Charlie there were
chnn,TCs in my relationship with '^ntonio which were
distiirbin^^. .Vn tonic's usual t*^»nderne3s had disappeared
for whicJi -^ had no oxpl -nation except that perhaps my
lon^; illness 1. ad soiik' tiiin,': to do with it. Oblifjod to
resist .Vntonio's advances during: years of nain we now
lived to.^e ther 1 ilio siblings but his lack of desire
flis tressed me witliout knowing? a solution.
Before leavin,: Ttow York 1 wrote in mv diarv:
Zu dern dor u bist
or seinon N men nicht
gibt, zu dem der leitet, e:ibt und nimmt
fdhre r.iich aiif den
Oil
luf rlass icli ndtzlich
bin, ftVr den der mich braucht
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(To the "one" who exists, who does not f^ive
his name, to t^ie
one
who le-ids
» 1,
ives and
takes - ^:uide mo to the way \/herc -^ cotild be
usQful for the one who n- eds me.)
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These wortiS-so intensely felt th t I wrote thoin
in my diary wt^rc the resii t of my idealization t(
h.ive TiiJed to be 'isefnl to nnyone.
Since ^harlie forced rie loaliinf^ my job v/i t
n a
proposcil for a trip to see my sister in Israel
Vfor which ho woiil<i pay to r,ct rid of rne) I felt
r a tiler uneasy about iry future without him, although
1 was excited .ibout ,';oinf^ to Israel •
iiowever, loivint; ''*'ntonio alone preoccupied r:ic, but
I lioped tiat '>erl\a'vs i separation mi.'^ht re-est d)lish
our for.aer re 1 a tionshij),
TJie plan for the trip was tt) follow Antonio's
su/jj/^e; tion im ikin^'; a stopover wi t)i liis sister who
lived with her weaJ thy linsb md iiid tlit.vlr cliildrcn
in a mansion in hisbon. ^>'nce "iitonio's sister con-
finncd iicr wi J 1 inr^ness to receive Vfir* , I intVjmed
m
V sister s father in law that we could meet
knowin-r tuat lie would be there at this titne. ^
n
re[>ly he cabled :" l>ont r.^ tc^ that cotton merchant,
you can st i\' with us,' ihis was unusua] for him,
not only to cable, but to warn me of '')roble!".s ahead
•Vntonio iuicw of a is brother in law's had reputation
but thoUi":ht it. would not affect my visit, -'- felt
that uitonio w.uited trie to be with his sister an<l
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w
ns interested that I sho'ild make ^ list of books
in Lisbon
nnd silverware lie inherited from his parents
Vs
it happened my sister's father in law was jvistified
wi til his advice. 1 felt on t of place eit Vntonio's
sistor sinre wo differed in ill respects and they
had not the sii/rhtost understanding: for my situation
So 1 l(?ft sooner tiian 1 expected,
.Vntonio's sister wrote that sl;e did not find me a
sait.\ble companion for him, which quite disappointed
him
I ex{)ected her to wri to such
lo t. tor
ind felt
sorry for '"ntonio. Somehow she ditl not realize that
I had suj)ported Antonio for years uid that without my
help he would never have made his h.i>. at Coltunbia
Un I versi ty •
Her sliurt cableti and ten dollars for his birthdays
were an insult and 'Vi tonic suffered with her coldness
- but then she was all he had as a family.
After
sT>endin<* a few dtys in
''rreece
1
arrived in
Israel. While 1 h kI seen my sister two years a/^o
in "^n/:land, now we were to/;ether in Israel, the first
time for me, and an overwiie 1 rii I n^: ex!>erLenco
Since scho
lolfl'vs 1 felt belittled V)ein^ Jewish
nd
thre 'toned by the Nazis, left home. Jlion I was looked
down as an unwcuited alien in I'rance anrl , boin/; without
le^val donnments, likewise in the -^tates.
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My sister with her
husbmd at a reception
Al thou/!:li I wfis familiar with the "niir.icJc" of
Isr.'iol thriuit'^li pictures, seein.'^: it ,':avo me a
fon-.erl y nn]cno\/ri pri^ie, oxvr'r I oncirif; an iminonsG
satisfaction in wh 1 1 was perhaps "^od's vlustice."
Ho\^ever, since food ind rrruioy were scarce in those
days, iny sister nioaneci witli the difficulties of
nic'iJvinr: ends luoct. ^•evcr theJ ess , we had a niost
wonderful time witlj invitations to cocktail and
garden parties of i.lie various "^nbassies Uiuo to niy
brother in Jaw s officiel i)ositi'»n,> roamin/r around
the coujitry by car, soein,'; friends md relatives and
pi lyin,' ci: viuber music,
■'^11 this tempted me to remain in Tsriel, but
Antonio's frequent letters and the need to lenrn
Hebrew for a job, I'jave me the iinj)rossion that it
would be too difficult for me. -'-t was not only
Antonio v/ho drew iiic b:ck to Now Yorlc, btit the benefits
of th(^ uneiiiployrnen t insur ince, my familiarity with
Now York .-nd spoalvinr: n^^lish, ^^nxiety about my
uncertain future weir:hed henviJy on i;iy mind, 1 was
constantly trying to m.-dvo connections with manu-
f ictnrers to supply wie wit i colJections of samnlos
for sale in New Vorlc, *nd ea/rerly cntttnr. advice from
friends •
\fter three months "*" left Israel \.n(\ went to friends
My sister's three children
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in Lioch tons tein .lul then flew to my mother in
H^prlmid, Throu,";h relatives in London ^ met '">>rthur,
the presifiont of .i pen arui innicil manufacturer who
su.'wrosted to do market research ior him, but the
pay was a f)i 1 1 mce . ^ - 300. - ye ir 1 y ) llowovor, it was
an imoressive title rivin.'^ me the illusion leaHinfT
to r.oiro thi n/: bn(:t<»r.
Antonio expressed his disappointment that, after
five months of tr ivol 1 iti,'^ nnd bein,': v/i th all kinds
of poo[>le 1 h d f'ouna ?iothin/T else.
MirJcot rose irch for ""-rtijur nioant ,Toinf: to depart-
ment md stitionary stores, buyin;: '"^nd mailin,':
him Llio entire linn of ('(junta in pens md uer^cils
in tlio market at the tinie. ^ was to watch for
novelties whicli a J. so led me to tiie -ublic library
roadin/: f^rofossiona] journals and wri tin,'^ ro-orts,
TiiroUfTh a friend 1 obtained ri v'lid li) and was
abJ e to visit tr-alo shows. Hut it also nioant making:
out bills on i.iy own [)rinted station iry, packa.^ini'; ,
kee[)inf: trick of ex:)cnsos etc. -^ t wis the time when
the first billpen came out, so -^ was credited for
a ,'Tood start,
^d thou/:h th<? pay was next to nothin,'-; i w.is {jl ad
to have t lis , since it was precisely in those
emotionally •Irainin.'^ yeirs tiiat "*■ found n certain
s'l ti s ( ac tion in such activities.
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Occ IS ion lily \rtlitjr came to New Vork invi tin{^
me
to dinners in oxpensivo rest lurants
Iways trvin^T
to help lie v/i Lh .idvicc and ^jivinr; me a (rood time.
Son his brother, a tny balloon tu in»i f ic turer Joined
my service and there was also a distant relative
in ^»^u.stralia who was interested in "blister
pack i/^in/;
Thus, my froeianct* activities kept me
busy, v;hi«h was s titnul a tin/'^.
Convinced of Charlie's ne/T-'Ative attitude
lid
not attei.ipt to ^:ot in touch with him and, on my
return from Israel , applied directly to the un-
enipln yi.ien t a^^cncy cuid studied the -^'imes adver-
tisin;: section
ince
had worked with Charlie in
the showroom .aid was farniliar with certain isnects
of m uiuf ac turin^ -^ exi^ectod to -find a larrro selection
of positions, i^u t -^ ended up with a succession of
short-term uns i ti s fao tory jobs.
The fol lowin,
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Margaret Mead, 'h/ coln'^idence my husbanfi's cousin
came to New ioric v^rio , for lorly
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his staff but how he justified Antonio's position
as .tn .tiien without workin^'T pennission, 1 «lont l:now,
However , Jitonio wis h ip[>y with this opportuniy and
i was f^l.ad that i could h-lf) him.
But to move with hi i m
:lid not f^el to have the
stren/vth uo overcome more ol)S tides since ^ still
dirl not act ny divorce, no .job and no iioney.
'ovorthei ess
w-
met fretpiently v/i)ich was alwavs
an event for both o. iis, but our daily Jif
di f fi cul t.
o was
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An ton i o -a J one in -« "en tal ^
nstitntion f\ill of misery
r e s t r i c t i o n s , j)o o r
( > O (
ro. icaes
liiirl r I ts v/i th little
s timul.! tion .uid poor py was no paradise
And
I n.,
am
w -3 .ilonc tryin/T to re:;:aLn optimist, c
desj^ite endless hours of hopelessness,
liov/ever, ^ hcid my hiealth a/Tain, Antonio s love
letters and :..y mother's concern, sofiie friends,
occasionally a job besides worlcin/: for Arthur in
ICn^jlcuid, -^ finally learned t.h.it an interview and
a contract were mandatory for ill enoloynent
a;';encies, r^.eedin/: a subscription of the Times
ideli'/ered diily at 7:00 a.m.) an'i i: irncii a tol y
clissif yin;3 those jobs where ^ woul'i h^ve to ^'^o ,
to c 1 1 1 ')r to wri to,
1 (?nded up b(>in/T listed with 2iS a;:encles who never
r.n
t in touch wi th me
but wi'.o
coild call if thoy
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advertised. Althou-h ± spoke ^lirferent l.infru .':es,
Cor a Job -^ was not sufficiently fluent in any of
them, music - besides ,:ivin.': lessons to my noir;hbor
had been forgotten Ion- a/;.), but havin.- worked with
Charlie 1 tried to ^e t some thin/: in tho showroom
or stocicroom.
In June 193^ t ■'» wom m T oil Jed for a Job, t'llked
me into *'boin,^ a m ma^er in tr linin;: Tor some very
nice people who would jppreci'ito rrre.Jtly if T wore
to consi<!er wori^in^; for them."
hivinrr w mdorod .jronnd des!»er-i tol y for more thnn
a vo ir, I consented to try.
The p.iy wis bad: 73c ts -m liour, from 0-6, tho
followin/: d. y fron 1-10 ^m .md every other Aveekend
which was paid with time md a half, ilowover, they
had a union, with the promise of better p.iy, medical
care^incl dentist^ and a pension plan, ^hey were
orthodox Jews, closing: ^riday on -^hal^bath time raid
remained closed all Jewish holidiys. ihcy had a
factory in Brooklyn and 73 pretty stores In "ew Vork
all immacul iteiy clean .md air eonditioned.
It was Barton's *"mdy with 1 20O employees and a
ten million dollar yearly sales, J- 1 was not somo-
thin,': i expected but it was a Job, while 1 wr^s
looking for another. Moreover, -^ found new friends
'•nd tho sciiodile pf^rmitted me to rontinue workin/^
for i^nr:land presentin,: an additional income. The
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job Kie.uit iTi.ikin;: adjustments of which tl
lo worst, w'ls
dcalin/v with tho retail trade. Having been tho
victim of probJ etus md tra.'^odies (hirin,"- the war
noodod a ,:re;'t deal of pitience for Lhos
wao
could not tlccidc wnich ten cent bal; they would
like to eat at tlitt irionient, Nevertheless, -^ adjusted
/rradu.iliy, perli ps because Antonio continued
t o 1 J i n ,T
coiir »mn,
;e, that this is only i truisition
: ine Lo thirjk of the future.
en-
./ith about '"^'i^.- weekly i <leriderl on throe wishes
n furcoat, visit niy mother in '"n/:! and an'l a piino
J.
t took sGV(ui ye irs to accoiiii'l i sh t^us
Moreover, wi (:h th(; i(imL.ssi<»n is a student
I L
Teachors "^ollcf^e, ^olumbia riiversity \/ith 69 points
credit for "life exy)erience , i wis on the I'o.'iri
for another future
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THE
SEVEN
YEARS
It was not love for music but Intolerable loneliness
motivating me to consider playing the piano again.
I also remembered my dream of closing three keyboards
feeling that happiness with Antonio could only be
achieved by giving all of myself.
Another thought was the possibility of supplementing
my meager income by giving piano lessons. Moreover,
I wanted to see my mother and get a furcoat.
Being cut off from Charlie and Antonio by moving to Boston
scared me, but when I had three raises in six months
(although it was no more than a nickel an hour) I felt
more optimistic.
The people working at Barton's were an extraordinary
mixture of nationalities and mentalities. Since Barton
had the stigma of using unskilled labor, many workers
provided lonr, stories (or excuses) why they had to work
there. Although most of us were only too happy to have
a job, yet we felt humilitated.
Having thoroughly learned a trade by working in Charlie's
factory and now being "reduced" to a salesgirl in a
candy store was particularly distressing to me.
*
Moreover, I felt rather disturbed about not having found
something more suitable for my future although Antonio
constantly reminded me of my past successes insisting
that Barton's was only a transient situation*
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The ov/iiorri of li rton .s \ir.Te rcPn.^oe.s rri»»ti Vidin.i who
caiio to . w Voric in l'»;3H, Micii* succt^sii he ..m hy m »kinf^
coil t i t!on t 1 1 style? cMocolates in Lhiiir kltchon in
Brooklyn ». licli tho I.ti i ly -dIiI to st«>rt»s. ''ijwevt^r, in
19!3'l v/h(in ' st.irtod \.'orkin/:, thoy Ii .d their own Pactorv.
Hy \;or'.in.^ ovortiine (at times het\v.'on . > jiil 6^' honrs
Hcekiyy ' lot'ie tiiMGH h»^l|»d f lo \/ i n^lowdro ^icr , 1 -^ uUn^^
evontnally of !ii-.!;in^ •.in !>ws hy mysoir which piifl an
adfi i t i. ii;.l 1.7 , - ,
.\rtlin r ' ::> Ivico ».<> .s ivo Lhn s I irs' Tor *h>in' i:iit'kct
reso:«ic^ I <? -.' I t;*" I 111 i>.i y i o/Tt >!:•' stoci; thirju-^n my
I'^ ; : 1 i s 1 1 n ! c 1 o •
Often I Ih >u,'.hr that; i pj .« y v;rj .",ii t »\'oii 1 I h tvo round
?un[*le l.>.icl: '.ro'in I for » co«:io«ly it lartmi'M:
the vMiietv' t) i' stores in .so u iriy 'lirforenl. ii»* i ,':hborhoods ;
tho ' hy.s Loric^i 1 ' oryin,". of win.i. ti /hon told to inovo to
anoi.hf^i' .->(.t)i'(;, sin(:<- they fc* 1 t at homo in thoii' previous
stoi'i.-; t.ii) sliocks \/iioii ..'e for"/ i lov.'ojvLn^j tho M/ninT
and th:; s ui i lo I tin;: t>or c -nl\- in Dio '.indow; t.h«: ,':i rl s
.sv/oei)in'. Lne street; i nid.'^i^.in P'yinc itcJplossly in
the \.'iii.!<> / v'isi^l a ' ,'■. itlioi'If!;: the Hroi Iwnv crowd on a
Sundtv iftt^rnoon; t':0 'irmsiial .Shd)hith closin/" of
73 .torois; I dor, wit diarriiei wil'vin,-: tlironrh the
on t i r(i I on;vth of tho •.tiiro on lat'U'd.iv- ovonin;;; v/h^n the
cle n I n ; hoy ws /:one; th« i/ .ny iiol lU^ . , tlio |iolLco.,«
n 1 ] this i/.in 1 d • i > v. e o I i o i ted . nch i n •..• r<' . t i '* it v'oro
proro.isioii .1 'y \/rittoii tor diow.
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Once I was locked with another ^irl into a tiny
toilet after a fellow forced me to open the safe
while sticking a knife in my back and then we
had to wait (l do not remember how long..) before
someone would discover us.
One day we had a meeting when the owner announced a
new idea with great excitement: a chocolate greeting
card I While emphasizing that he accomplished
"his dream" by having 1200 employees and a ten
million dollar business, he added that we contributed
to his success. Thus, for our loyalty he wanted to
give us a special present. But since he had to multiply
it by twelf hundred he could not give us as much as
he would have liked, so he thought of a silver dollar.
While stressing it as a symbol, he implored us not to
spend but save it with his wish for good luck.
The short man carried a large sack of coins around
the hall so we could pick our own individually.
Since the majority felt one dollar to be an insult
I heard no one saying "thank you" but I took and kept
it as a sign for a better future - and so it was.
Despite my feelings of degradation, I repeatedly had
the strange impression of a "home coming," Perhaps
because it was the first time that I worked for Jews,
with Jews smd the continuous presence of Jewish laws:
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The strictness of closing on time for Shabbath,
the celebration of Jewish holidays (which I never
observed) the koscher merchandi
se with their b
oxes
often decorated with the star of David, thei
r strong
belief in God, by coding their merchandise with
"GOU HELP US."
Thus, all working there had to keep these letters
(or prayer) constantly in mind since we had to
watch the freshness of our candy. Particularly
pleasant was the owner's trust in us since there
was no supervisor. *-'nce in a while someone would
appear "to make the register" or make sugf^es tions
for display. We had to punch the clock and watch
each other with the usual fights, ^t the schedule
was adjusted so that few of us were
steadily together
and, if the si tuation wer
e to become intolerable we
had the chance to ask for transfer. The manager was
responsible for the inventory and the ordering, the
others for cleaning, display and selling, but more
or less we ail shared in what we had to do.
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Suridenly someone offered Antonio a Job in Argentina
which delighted him since this seemed tov^ solution
for his perennial nightmare: escaping the FBI's perse-
cution to leave the United ^tates.
Although initially he was able to change his visitor
into a student visa, it expired by achieving his Ph.D.
Giving speeches about "GOOD HR/VLTH" on "Voice of .\jnerica"
and now working in a Mental institution made the J^mmi-
gration Department somewhat lenient, nevertheless
Antonio continued having profound anxieties about
being expelled, which would oblige him to return
to his job in the Afi^ican Djungle,
Although i was soon to become a citizen, -^ did not
have my divorce while "Vitonio got his divorce more
than a year ago.
It was Xmas time in 195^ when Xntonio returned from
Boston, since he accepted another job in "orcester.
For ^ew ^ear's evening we were invited to Lucilena,
a former friend of ^r. *^a3 trovie jo , Antonio had met
previously, -^he was an /Xnierican citizen (formerly
from ^lexico) a beautiful and elegantly dressed
woman, but with a rather doubtful reputation.
J-t was a pleasant party but, being profoundly
disturbed about "^ntonio's plan to leave for Argentina,
I retired to another room to relieve my sadness in
abandoned weeping which ^tonio could not share.
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vi though our reiitionship chn n/^efl since my sick-
s, lie w ! ; the m vn with whom i sh irod ei^^ht year:
nes
of tho iiiosl. intiiiMic bond 1 have ever kno\/n .in«l to
whom i sti'1 felt nlo.se des;.ito our di rforcijces .
iVnt')nio, krvwin';: th.vt niy brother in lav/ was 1
n New-
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f^otisnltod iiiiri about .''oin'r t
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thf)U.":ht not to be a frood idea
^''evoi'thelons , Vntonio's fear of boin": expelled
firovo him finally 'nto such a panic tViat he sudflnnl
<lo(:i lerl to • irrv lucLleni wliich providofl him with
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not i-espond, -^n re ction to niy silence Antonio
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-- althoi/'h useless -- f.»ol L
n.
isol itofl and . hand o nod --
coinnl ctcly
exporioncinifT a
rorrninil.lc par ic which threw mc bliiirlly int
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for von
lat ' fOd lias pitv for
HI
o and tor you
iiid hi- will bo satisfied,
««y he.»l whirls with crazy ideas and I 'o not
even I' vo the coar i/^e to work nor to taink.
Throe imjopIo will be heartbroken, you, niyseir
'uid she,
Mien yo'i ciIIcmI 1 »st n i .-^h t (siio w';s tlicro) I
felt piralyzod thit 1 could not talk to you
as I would have liked. Porlay ^ sii.dl Iry to
call you from i InbJic ihono. 1 feel crushed
to th.' '^xtent that i dont even fin^l the v;ord.s
to express myseir - which scorns like a CGirica-
turo o • iny reclin,';s. 1 dont ovc know ho\/ to
explain wiiat \ ipuoued to me, i f^rhans
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r.iti/nin — after so luanv ye \rs of studyin,'^
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•ly unexaecterl Mirrii/:e is ui e-ctronoly sorioiis
risk.
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Every end constitutes another be^^inni
ng" said
Albert Schweitzer, but this beginning was a life
I did not wish to live. Feeling to be in a complete
void everything had lost its meaning, only mirroring
my inaptitude to be of value to an
yone
Thus, -^ became careless about
my apperance, lost
weight, smoked and drank more while taking an end-
less ajnount of tranquillizers. Although J- had a nice
circle of friends 1 had lost interest. A streak of
white hair had grown and with mv ski
nny body and
dilated eyes from pills ajid sadness, i was frequently
the center of curiosity amon
g my co-workers. Gradually
I confided to one oT the other, but si
nee my tragedy re-
sembled their own, most were nice to me
Later in another letter '^n t
onio wrote
Jan. 13/1956
another drive
n
"My most beloved Uarling.
It is true that 1 married
by an irrational impulse - but if it is
God's wish we still will be 'together.'
A thousand thanks for your letter and the
photos. My tears were falling when ■'-
lool^ed at thiem.
My arling you must always think that there
is a man profoundly loving you who would give
his life for you
I feel you in my^most profound sotil.
Certainly we will see each other acid ^ think
that the idea of Hartford is a good one.
I notice that you think of going to ^rope soon
and hope to meet you before* I feel much
better my arling. May God protect you always.
With my eternal love
Antonio
I he next [> f^e of
n I
•tier* -
1 n<
• • • »
J
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■waL
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)
Six months had passed when i suddenly noticed
.Vntonio standing in front of the store where I
worked, causing my mind going blank,
, . . . "Go . . . you have a headache and dont worry..."
my co-worker blurred out and so I joined him
without saying much while we walked along i* i f th
Avenue eventually sitting opposite each other in
a restaurant with a bottle of wine between us.
"^es" he admitted — "1 felt compelled to marry
so I could remain in the States," begging me to
understand that he continued to love me.
While noticing my sloppy clothes he felt my
despair, pleading with me to take care of myself,
-Although profoundly troubled -*- had to realize
that the years have changed us.
When we first met we fitted together but now
Antonio was a free man in good health with an
MD and a Ph.D., while ^ was still married, had
lost my well paying job and was stigmatized by
a severe illness of which the consequences were
not known.
Some years ago ntoni3 bought me a gold wedding
band from ^artier corisisting of three rings forming
a rose, impyling three phases of relationships --
perhcips this was one of them*
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ii>
It was the spring of 1956 eind , since "^ntonio
shared the expenses for my f\ircoat before he married,
I had reached the first goal of my three wishes and
could plan to see my mother in ^glsmd,
Moreover, as recommended by my English uncle, I
continued buying stocks which were paying interests
and my salary as a market researcher doubled
since Arthur recommended me to his twin brother
manufacturing toy balloons.
There was also a distant cousin from Australia
visiting New ^ork,who retained my service to in-
vestigate now machines for packaging with plastic.
Another acquaintance from ^outh Africa wanted me
to cut the advertising of certain dresses from
the Times, since he was interested in women's
f astiions •
Antonio wrote frequently and mailed me some money
at times which helped me to believe him that he
still loved me,
I
Working so many hours at Barton s Candy in
addition to my various part time Jobs ^ was never-
theless hunting for a'^second hand ^teinway upright.
^ would have preferred a grand, but that seemed to
be beyond my possibilities.
I
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)
Social life began to interest me a^ain but ^ felt
old with my hair turning white and still thought of
Antonio which prevented me from establishing closer
relationships, ''or me life had come to an end,
^^ome did not exist anymore, my marriage ended in
divorce, my trust in Charlie shattered and now
Antonio married someone else.
Faced with these realities I looked for support from
my mother and perhaps a more peaceful existence with
music besides my jobs. *^ certain satisfaction derived
by being successful in saving enough money to buy a
piano, to have become an American citizen and restored
my health. hus, in the summer of 195^ ^ went to my
mother in Leeds and visited the other fcimily members
in London •
My mother agreed that playing the piano again might
be a good idea but not prof essional 1 y , since T had
lost too many years of training. *^ever theless , some
people disagreed, particularly one cousin, (a lawyer)
who stressed that J- could get money from the German
Government , since "*" could not become a professional
musician on account of the war. {le was ready to take
my case but needed a certificate of attendance from
a music school, ^^is was great news for me and,
with the help of friends 1 succeeded and mailed
it to him.
mmam
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^
On my return to New York I alao followed my mother's
wis . to c. 11 the son of her
most beloved aiater Gretel
who told i:io that his brother JuUii from Milwaukee was
here, whom I had not seen in more th,
Rememberin*; him as a particularly nice m n
in twenty ye.irs
was ea^jer
to see him and so the next evenl
nt^ we a
11
met
We had a wonderful time to^^ether celebriti
n,
our survival
of the war talking about
VVll
o is whoTf* and whit the
y do
Since i Just saw my iiiother, to re -connect with the
family, felt particularly excitln
t* •
JulJu, now in.irried, with two .'trowri w,. chilctron, Invited
me for next year's sum.nei vac .tion in 'Ulwavikee which 1
was only too glad to -ccept.
The sec<.n«l hnnd Steinway upri^^^ht
fountl a few weeks
1 ater
or tlio then enonnou?^ su
111 o
:0,,0
thf drtaler
agreed to keep the [.idno in stora^^e lintil 1 found a
suitable ipartment wliich took another ei^ht months of
searchiin^;.
Leaving: the pretty tree lined 12th street \/hore ^ lived
for sixt«ion years was difficult. Th
e i'rcnch hnlversity
as well as Kifth Avenue were on the loft side
nice
church across the street and the N
ew
c ool of Social
i<
esearch at the othnr cntl of Die street. I missed the
at:jio3{»hero of fireenwich Vi 1 : a^e with their attractl
ve
stores, coffee and riDvie houses
Now -^ ] iv(ul on West 7^>th -'treet wh^^r -^ had to shop on
^olnmbns ^vonue in the mi<lst of hoises I hi ted -
■ •""«' nitiliiMIMMWlgBWIIHi
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<J
-y a u
Jullu's daughter Rl t
a
v..^
JuMu wrote oftnn tlurin^T tho
year romln-an.'^ me of
rnv
pr-)riii.se to Join hi.^ f mily in the s
made ine feel ^:aoM. ihus, in July l'>37
unmer, v/hich
I went to "''ilwuikei
Ills son was i/i collofjo but -his IS yf» ir oJd daughter
i?it\ w a thore nd, t^ my surprise, »h • looked oxactly
lik her '.raii'l no ther : mv mother's
Ore Lei" wh
o
rcMTiembered so well fr
most belovod sister
1 my childhoodl
rho ni ny ple-rtint hours we spent tO'^nthor ^jrew int(
a 1 'Stinf^ fri'Mi ship.
s i' h- wore mv f. ther, JmIIu -isk^d about
:iy p 8 1
t>re^«ent: nd Vwt re i f > o winch 1 truthfully answered
that * Ion' U-nov. w at to rfo with myself now, Ince I
w »s
v/ 1 n f ! o ^y
rn sor n rrjy Job at 'i .rton's Candy, I
tJio ifjji t o r n rn In
IS a profeMMl.iii in i school
but
WIS tui ertain w.iet jer thi
was the rifrht choi
ce
To my deli^^ht Jul In proposed to {^o wit;h mo to a
Voc tional <;uid n- e 'Jentor,
Aft«?r filiint; out a iiestionaire 1 h.«d an intervi
ew
with -x rn n v/lio ii>olo^:izcd To. his y uthful
appearance
but assur- d mo h«? wis experienced ince h<» ha«l b
oen
i n til
ua.r
I'o riy ast nif^hnierit h<» rl imed thit ' h tvc a "proTounfl
neurosis" ..u,.^oS tin/: music is i pr ♦^PSsLon! This felt
liko '< bc»mhsh«'lJ, presniitin^
'n
overwhelming task
of how to (^o ibout it except perhaps — getti
snm^? pr'ofe sional tr ining as a piano teachor.
npT
>w
w
I
r
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'!
The youn/j: ^'^ustralian
f'>
However, from my experience £it home (in Breslau) I
lacked the confidence that this would ^ve me sufficient
income. Usually people paid for each lesson they had,
but frequently cancelled. Still, since the fellow's
statement at the Cruidance Center made a big impoessiori
I considered fallowing his advice,
Once back in New ^ork I phoned Boris, the son of Joseph
Schwarz (mentioned previously) to ask him for a piano
teacher. Being that he was chairman of the music de-
partment at Queen 'a Oollegeyl thought that he might know
someone. Although I was not a professionnl musician he
recommended his friend Joseph who was specialized in
coaching pro fessionals^ thinking th-it he could arrange
an audition for me.
To my amazement Joseph t lought me to be "very musical"
and accepted me as his student under the condition t||at I
have weekly lessons over a three month period. Although
the charge was (for me") the enormous sum of S25.- an hour,
I nevertheless decided "to invest in myself" as -^tonio
used to say.
Some weeks later a youn^ man approached me in front of
our house offering his help t') carry my groceries while
asking if 1 were the one playing the piano. He lived with
his friend a floor below and said that they turned off
their TV to hear me which was flattering. Soon we found
common ground in our dislike for the landlady, and he
invited me to their weekly "hate sessions."
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They were Australi:uis work!
ng ut the inited Nations
Although rattier young :i close friendship developed between
the three of u.
■Seeing my loneliness they told me t
come any time when 1 see light in their d
oor which was
particularly pleasant when 1 returned from Barton'
on Saturday or ^unda
y nights. Often they had company
of other Australicuis who were most interested in heaiin^f
about Europe during; the Hitler yeirs.
However, in January 19 38 our landlady got the
from the city for the project of upgrading: the West
money
to (ether came to an end
r me but
Side and our noighborly livin
since we .ill had to mf)ve out.
To find another apartment was a ni^'itm«re fo
then my luck turned and 1 found the place where
i still live.
Although I liked playing the piano the expensi
ve lessons
witli Joseph did not seem to improve my performance
and the idea of becoming a piano tenc'^er was not
appeallin^?. ^n the contrary, old friis tra tions and
uselessness invaded me again at times paralyzi
efforts.
ng my
It was in the early Sprin/: when I hid lunch i
n a
crowded cafeteria sitting next to a white haired
men
reMding a paper on which I noticed the headU.
ne
If
Music for Haxidicapped Children
imir.edia tel V this
i lea fascinated me and i asked him where I could
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buy the paper to rend the <rticLc. kftar some lalk
the in ♦n nust have sensed ray "stafpiation" and supplied
me with the n ime and address o f an office where they
roi^ht accept me as a volunteer in some musical capacity.
The office was in the elegant 57th Street near
Fifth 'venue where ^ had to fill out a questional re ind
supply two references al>OMt ray -nusical btckgroand,
Althou/:h -*■ had no exi^erience in any musical acitivlty
i was .tdmitted ^nd assigned as r> voluntef»r at t!ie
M.inhattan '^tate Mospital(a cental -institution) where I
was immediately put in char^^je of the music department*
ciince ^ only hid to play s..me records, t preferred t
^;et sumething different from wh.;t they had at the
o
iJonnell Library
The librarian suggested
an opera wi th
the story printed at the back of the album, i^elighted
with this i)rosnect ^ took Carmen, an opera i knew well,
Uiit since 1 never talke<i in i>ublic an»l was anxious to
please, ^ wrote every f hi n^; down , and practiced alOU4,at
hom
e, obviou.sly it worv«»d ou^ since every week nore
people '^ame t" my sonsion
Moreover, so no wanted me to accompany their
iingiing or ^rt piano l«*ssons, John
studaot of my
teacricr Jcsei'h, .;sked ni'^ one day if iie co Id play there
since hf^ wj^ntcd to try out a pro ;.rani Tor his concert.
/^
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r^
Ihe people vere <ieii(^hc«cl, sug^es tin/: th it 1 play
two [imo pioces with .lf>hn. nother .stiuJent of .^osenh
who special i /.ed in imy>r'^vis it i ma
w;\s in teres tod 1
n
the react i)n .inionfT th(» inm itea rind also rnme
a r«w times
Uowever, tiie most as toundin/: experience 1 had
w 1 *? wi th an eldei'lv v/o'iiari who had for^To tte
n '>er name
and did not- sf»e ik for- fifteen voir**, it was sn":f:ested
th t ^ 3h<'\il ' ri V - her piano le ^sonn nd X w\s to^f!
that sho lie! r,oinr. to church. ThnH
/^Tve her sone
easy B^ch rhor Is shilo .n^lvsln/r ^hr> r>olyphonic
lines with the concl ssion of the "'mon" cadence,
it took only few weeks wiien the psyrh<> 1 o^:! s t
told nie t it t'lc woiT) 'n talked a{;ain m
bere 1 her n ane,
even roi''em-
In iJecoinbor \ntonio returned from Georgia
where he hid boon vMsi.'^t\nt professor hut did not
like it and waiite«i fo find somethin.^ in New Vork's
vicini tv
L thoii/^h I still loved hiitijriiy interesta
had shiftol nd ^ntonlo's marrin/Te h »rl left mo
br'Jised, "e wore li pi»y that wetc?w^ he together af=:ain
more freq-iontiv hut the fortuer intimacy did nnt return
In fact in tliese last ye >rs 1 chpn^'^d
to the '.oint of 1 1 ien • t In/r myself frnm the liarton
O
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r\y youriiP: AnstrnJi.ui frionds in
thoir now nuar tinon t .
/^
crew
^-'oin,
to .shows with
rnv y')iing
ustr.ilian friends
m.isical tJ' thorin^'js with .Jose;>h'.s f;roii[i, playing the
piano .\;^iin, working; in a >ientaJ -institution, my part
tir.o jobs with Rn,:lish ni.inuf c turers and ape kin.'-T five
I an^. la^os <;ener ted in -11 probability a lot of ,TOSsip.
The fjiontility md ^^rowiii/; hostility .laion^:: sone of the
women, re.^uitc: in ny accelAr ited search for ' school
to l)ec<»mG I prwfossionol iiu<*iri m in one way or another
One d .V
I 8li
pped from a ladder in the store
br i .sin
niv le,:s w'i h turn d thoiri a d ^rk blue, -^in-^e
t>ie
!()• tor tolfl mi
o St y home L called t\\p. n-'nafT**r
w^^o was not pie sed sinc»^ she h \ri to ilust th«^ s^'hedulo
By coincidence I pirkod up the ohono imruod 1 » to 1 y ' f^ \i
n
;() '^r>)<.
e :in other call
when
ncidentallv shi- did tn
Srijne ana ^ overuoira
r r«!^ort ;>b.)iit rr. e to th«- ot fice
Aftor w(»rkin;'. there lor years snu accused mo of unoe-
xievable wron;; aoinjis
n<
w.mtoa me to
,ct rired
Compelled bv niy anr.er, I overcame tnv previous
reluct irice .ind called the Julli rd ochool of ^♦n.sic.
There i (;o t jso;iieone on the phone who understoofi my
problctn and advised ihh 1.0 ,:ot in toordi with the chiir-
m
an of the Music iJeparti.ien t at Teacher's Colle/^e
Columbia University. Within less than a half hour T
had an appointment with him.
lO
lo
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liiM r^f ler pi
eas.mt .ippear.ince md obvious interest 1
n
my previous nnsical triinin^ s
eem to impress him causing
profound satisfaction within myself
Since
certain imotint of educati
on T^l'^yed » Al^rnlf leant
role in our family I always felt ridiculed (or rebuffed)
dtirin;^ the tinie i 1 ookofl for work in an
unemploymen t
mi or
offi<-e. No one -^f^emofi to reco(piize the merit of my fo
studios which wore so brut illy interripted by the Nazis
Oblir^d to have a different lifestyle where my basic
ue, it was like n boam
imous university who
principles no loufxor hid any v il
of Jir^ht to (Moot this !!i m in a fj
apT'reci tted rnv p ks t achievements.
After years nt try in/: to .idjust in tl\is appnrontly 1 aw-
lef^s v'orld, "^ dirl not fl ire to believe that 1 may hnve
foun'l the path h <ck "^lolne
• • • •
to music
Al thou^^h m-'kin/j;
livin/^ wit*i it w^s rather dif^tTnt, T
be/' tn to attend tho weekly morninf: so '5*ions at Teachers
^olle/:e, Colunibi » ni^ersity in I'^obruary I96O,
I cancelled my volunteer activity at the 'hospital,
arnan^^ed to work at IJarton's ^andy from J : OO to midrji/^ht,
but continue! my piano lessons with 'oseph, and tho niarket
rose ;rch for Vrthur in *^gland«
The au'ience in this course were mostly piano teachers
who
ty p
re intei'ostod ii
1 the different anp.roach 'or which
this rourse wis well kiiown. As if it wore an en ter t- inmen t
I listened nH le«rnod even swearing to myself to sit
here
ti 1 1
am 'JO
oaf
^
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Uowevr^r, whori my carofully prepared torm pajier wis
ret'ii'no! without i ^^rade
w \3 iJiaappoin ted to t)o told
I w s t kin^ this (onrHC* for auditioning: ^nd not Tor
credi t
inf^ unrunili T with this voc vbulary ^ f^lt hurt
ith t>iis expl-mation hut nnverthelenn
1 n my i ;»Tior " nre
1 proceeded to i\o to the administration to chanf^e
rny
t a t ' ! » ,
After srru tin i 7. infT "'y uipl i cat i on with the ^oil to
teach music t) hand i ' ai'i'ed rhildren the re/^istrii?
su;r.''*
tod makiui". a list of my p.tst experiences, 'tlltihou/^h
1 ailiiu t lod not to h ive .my 1 e/jal tlocuments to verify 'My
statement sho -liitned it .i»uid be accej>ted as 1 on(j "^ i t
was notorized.
My Mir:liHh i*^! \tive idvised mo to inform them of my
attend. uice ntl t^ie paper 1 sutuii t ted thinking
previous
that t 'is wr.iii fi \ n
riMf>noe their decision
^o tho suri>ri '« of "voryono Te \c^le^s ^-oller^e »< ceotod
s n und»'rf':r ' hiate student in the musio depart-nent
me »
with ^'' point credit for life exoerience.
'»>bout the same ti.Me » second hind pi mo de U er
inforn»n<i »ne ^o h ve • o'nd a "ste'nway f^r md but he
ner
led the full pay "en t in 2^ hours
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PIANOS BOUGHT and SOLD
I* I A ?\ O S
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UKV,' YORK, N. Y. 11
Oil. :2-79P
?ebru:iry 5rd \q 60
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Ilavln.'T ii >'J the T^romlse of my 1 'wvor to receive
restitution m.nev j ws Rooking for a piano Imt
tho rnonnv.vas sti 1 outst ndinfT. Luckily a cousin
in SoutJi 'alcota provided the sum m'i, to my ^reat
excitemf^jt, my uprl/^ht was exch.inffod .nd
^ I came
into tho r>os.se?<'^iori of a most beautiTul ♦^t'^inway
r:ran 1 in ori'-ntal ni.h»f^ony rci^ently rebuilt bv
"^ t '^ 1 nw.'iy ,
riio shock was so nvei'whel m in/T that ^ doveloped
a skin r ah and it took me days bo .'ore J- darnd
.just touching it.
Received fiorn "^ss i:arianne 3erel, 76 Riversid th^ sum
Drive, Kev/ York, !:. Y. .
of_Tv/elve I^Midr-d .-nd S-venty 7ive^ ($ • 1:175.00 ) Dollars
aad o ne o tei rrv riy rpr i f;iit ' P i n n o ,*
plus ^^ Sales Tnx. amo'intinq to Thirty ^ii^yut and 25/lQQ
($ 38.25 ) ,n f-iU payment ttiereol for sale o[ alIsM-lMiO£:a|iy_ '' A''
_Sieinv.ry .".: Sona _, GniKlIipnqrht Piano, No. 1^7925
v/i t h deli ver y i nc 1 ud e d •
This Piano is v/arranted to be (ree and clear of all liens and
encumbrancer.
"^ ^^^ ( 10 ) yo^irs gwnrontee on ''my mechanical delect.
^"^ ( ^ j yrj?irC'dxi:^ixsari'iDcc Iree tuning •..'itixln one ye^irs p-^rio'j
Thr«e ye ir» a^o , when 1 went to Milwaukee to see my
co\isin vlullu, I m -de a stopover in '''hica^o wViere T
mot I man while visitin/: a Museum. We was a pro-
lessor or Mat!iom>tlrs at the I ondon ^'niversity, but
now niado cl'MPfins tr < t ions for te »chers 'f young
children about < new approach in Mathematics.
In the succoedinr years I saw him inite a few times
in New ^ork and he wrote me frequently from different
coun tries •
Imi'ressed with his intellectual sophistication and
flattered by his attention 1 caine to worship him.
Although there was a huge gap of educational as
wei ] as a cultural difference this relationship
influenced my life.
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Tims, wlien 1 met htm again as a n-\rt time student
ho Sf-e<nef! Impressed, but thouf^ht It to be a wnste
of time
, sirK^e it w.i'M rj take yeirs to complet** ft
dpf^ree. nowf»vf^r, to st idy full ti
tMf»
meant to leave
my Job which j^ppo rod to mo f)Ut of re^ch.
^ovortlie I esM , he rominde'l mo th t ' Ind s »vod some
money nd that mif^ht ^et a schol rshi
nut I
postponed a decision, hecatiso I wis too nnxious t
n
leave a secure position for atudyin-j full time with
an uncertain i uture
^he foil
owiru: \in s i went to England to se
e my
mother jitI other family members where t thought
to discuss it.
The final resolution came with the visit of my
brother in law's friend specialized in economics
who surf:e-ted that, if I n
ceded in<iney for studying,
not to soil my stonks, but to got a collateral fr
a FVuik. it was a new idea to get a collateral for
om
o<tucationnl purr^oses, but T di'1 find i U.ink t
o
accept my stock certificates -^nd therefore rlecifle<l
to study Hill time.
When I I prilled «t Te chera ^ollcge to change my
status T wis advised to go to i school speciiMzed
in music therapy, since ^ wanted to study <usic
for huidlrap ed children.
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Mowover, I in«l3te<l to remain ^t J eachera ^olle^e,
slnne tho 60 y)oint credits -^ receive(i for 'ire
experience, won 1 rl not only shorten the time, but
I nlso w ntrri th*. ttr-'ctivo label of beini^ certi-
fied at Coluinbia niversity.
Affor m^^ptln.'TS in v.trions .lepart-nen ts I w?\a finally
adiMLttotl in tho ilopartment of speci.il educati n :ta
an 'tnrlpr ,-r irlu ite Hfident to be certified in ir\f»ntMl
ro t irda t I on,
I tiiourht i h f enough money for one ye'^r ^n*^ my
ma thetuat I ci an »riend had calcul ted correctly --
I did receive a scholarship of C8(.>().- from the
A^lk i'^ound . tion. Nev-. rthel os.s , evon Nith the addi -
t L >n ».l -^v)!),- it WIS a cXiirinr. enternri.se. Althntiir^h
uttorlv .ilono in this world I pi need -ai th« non*»y
I ij d rt v(. I inio )ne year of studying: and bo^an in
February 196I - with i^nglish as my fourth lanffuage,
as a student in the Nursing department , since this
was the only division with an ujiderf;raduato program.
131-1 1 .... I was optimistic, thinking, that if all
should go wrong ^ could return to my Job at
llarton ' s O.indy •
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THE
N B W
LIFE
Thus, seven years had passed .since I made my three
wishes — ( seoin?,' my mother, getting a furcoat and
buying a piano; whxie entering barton's Uandy as a
"manager m training" for O.75 Cts. an nour,
^evertheiess, I missed going there lOecause it had
always been em escape from ^opressions on lonely
weekends and holidays, .undenly 1 found myself alone
coping with problems I never imagined.
The situation reminded me of the time when I left
Charlie's factory ind none of the dressmakers would
ever get in touch with me, although we worked together
for more than ten years.
The other surprise ceune from Joseph, w'f.o did not wish
to give t!ie anymore piano lessons, since he claimed to
have a different philosophy than that of Teachers
College,
However, in my need for friends I gradually succeeded
to get some support among staff members. Having lived
like an "outcast" for many years 1 necessitated an entire
gamut of behavioral changes for a university.
Moreover, when ^ saw my m i tl.ema tici m friend again he
said, thafthis time he will only be able to see me m
tne morning, since he Ccune with his "new wife,"
Although he always compared his family in ^gland with
a cenetary, he never mentioned a divorce. Since I was
sufficiently infatuated, his statement came as a shock
■"■"I^n
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.ind resulted in a sudden and violent outburst of
my menstruation, which did not stop for weeks,
feeling lost without a male companion, being limited
tinancially ajid trapped between the needed psycho-
logical balance and the anxiety to succeed at
Teachers College, i decided to disregard my body's
reac tions •
Only months later, when the staining persisted
and 1 be^^•In to weaken did ^ realize that, as a
full time student i was insured to see a physician
at the hospital.
Thus, I met a fTynae^o ^ ogis t , who not only restored
my health, but with his extraordinary capacity
for empathy helped me to overcome my distress,
I did not have to tell him my rather sad tale,,,
he knew, in fact, he always did (to this day)
After my hospitalization under the magnificent care
of this man ^eachers College seemed to be more
familiar territory and the tests ajid term papers
appeared easier.
However, the prestige to be a successftil student
bolstered not only my ego, but also flattered the
vanity of my fiunily and friends - and particularly
Antonio, who just returned from his job in (Georgia,
The busy schedule at Teachers ^ollege apart from
working for Arthur in England, the piano lessons
with one of Joseph's students, in addition to
my sociil life, supplied me with sufficient
stimuli to continue pursuing the idea of music
for handicapped children.
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One day I had to see someone in an office at the
elee:ant upper East sid^of Fifth Avenue. *hile waiting,
the secretary started a conversation when I mentioned
my interest in music for handicapped children.
She seemed familiar with the subject .ind supplied
me with the name and address of a music therapist
in Philadelptiia.
It was May when 1 wrote him whereupon he canr^ to my
apartment to tnlk to me. .^ince he sensed my interest
he invited me to come to Ihiladelphia to observe
him at the iiosnital,
^^e had a partner helping: the psychotic children at
their percussion instriments while he improvised-
singing .ilon^ at the piano.
It was fascinating to see how he "disciplined" the
wild outbursts of these youngsters witn his own
rhythm to an acceptable tempo .and musical organi-
zation.
Wlien i told him my intention to see my mother in
^gland now, before starting on my first teaching
job, he eagerly suggested including a visit to the
Sunfield Home near Birminghcun. He would arrange for
me to stay there overnight so that I would get
acquainted wi tli the tetuii dedicated to "The f^orgotton
Children" (.is they were labelled).
hi
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I
With a Bplus average at Teachers College and a
sigTied contract for my first teaching job, I left
for London on a Columbia charter plane.
Although usually I went to England to see my mother,
this time I also thought of investigating the
possibility of living there again.
It was more them twenty years ago now, that I
arrived in New York via Cuba in a rather slow moving
vessel, where I had a most wonderful time among
mostly Spanish speaking people.
Rather excited and immensely happy to have escaped
the war, confident of Charlie whom I trusted like a
father, I discarded my previous nightmares and the
sorrow of leaving t^urope, since I was determined
to return.
However, my calculations were premature for the
unexpected break with ^harlie and my divorce had
changed everything. But now in 1962, having received
my certi fioQ-tion as a speacial education teacher I
hoped again to resettle in Europe,
Although 'hnerica gave me shelter and opportunity, I
longed for being back among my own people,
■Profoundly bruised psychologically from all that had
happened, I yearned for my mother, a familiar culture,
mentality and environment.
Ten years ago when ^harlie blojokmailed me to accept
money for a trip to Israel it deemed "natural" to
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establish myself there with my sister and her family.
But, although I loved Israel, for me i t was alien
territory. It was London with my mother, other family
members and old friends, where I wished to live more
than anywhere else.
Yet, by facing this realistically, such as the expenses
of moving, finding a job and a place to live ^ arrived
at the rather painful but inevitable conclusion, that
actually -■- had no choice but to remain in the States.
Th±S had been a dream of long ago - in a time that had
ceased to exist.
Moreover, having borrowed money from the Bank for my
studies I knew, that I had to froe myself first from
financial obligations, ^his was feasable only by working
and saving, so that I had a chance to spend my vacations
in Europe,
Under the circumstances it was the only alternative
but, by having succeeded to become an American citizen
gmd to receive my teacher certification from a presti-
gious University, I had established the foundation from
where I could develop my interest wOw only in music,
but particularly in music for handicapped children.
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lUblio/craphy on Music Hierapy (geared towards the Har.dicapned
Child. ^*
United Cerebral Palsy -^ss. of New York State, Inc. I969.
"'"Music as a Facilitator for Visual Motor ^equencinr Tasks in
Children with ^erebral Palsy." ( To.'Tethor with Ur.L. i)iller
and Marilyn Urgel ) Dovelopinon tal Medicine /^_';;^;iild Neurology ,19?
3
" reaching: Matliema Lies to a Mui Lihandicapped Roy , " \ Case Study
British Society for the -^tudy of Mental Subno rrr.ali t v , I976 .
Reprinted in the "Visually Handicap"
In tcrnaLional Kehabili t tcion Schindele Verla/r 1976
Reprinted by AS_ET( /vss. for Educational Techno J o/Ty, 1^77,
a)"^on,':s of F.air.iliar and not so Pamiliar Melodies"
Unite*! ^orebral Palsy of New York City Inc. 19b ♦•
b) "'Another perspective: A personal experience in Music l>ierapy"
SOCIAL PSYCHIATRY Plenum Press London 198^.
c)"Scudy showing effect of Musical ^ovs on i<etarded '^hildren"
ClilLI)'.^ PLAY, USA loy Library Kss . I0.S3.
riie Use of >!usic t o ^'aci 1 i tato Learn i n r in a Class with
>:ul Lihandicapped Chi idren. - -
Video : ->on Brockway
^) The Application of a Color Sequence to Teach Mathematics
to a Mul tihruHJlcapped CirJ: '*• Case Study*
Video: Uon Brockway 1Q79
Received cor t i f i_c aj^e of Meri t f r )m the International
Film (Rehab) Festival Fordhiun Lniversity, IO80,
^ ) Uearninf: ^\l r o li^i i_jVs s o c i ation rrocessinfr : A C as o S tud y
Video: ^oirilrockway' 1981". ( ^ finalist')"
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F^ifth International Con^^ress of the In lernativ^nal Ass. for
the Scientific Study of MIONTA!. IjKFICTFNCY
Jerusalem J 1979,
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a) Third in uernational 'Conference for "Special i^dvicition
(EASE) COMMLMCATiON \NM) HANDTT: \l', Helsinki^ Finland, I98O
b) ^i/^th World Lon^ross of SOClAt. KS Y CH I \ TRY , Za/rreb,
Yo^^oslavia, 19^1.
c) TSME International MU S [ C El )UC AT ION CO X PKRKXt" E , Bristol,
^nfjland, 1982.
d) International S>anposium in MU S T C . M E I )I C I N E , E DU C ATT O N ,
AND TilKRATY for the ilmdicappcd. Ebeltoft, Denmark, IO83.
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(jne day a poem my late sister wrote after my
mother's death intri;;ued nio to compile pictures, poems
and letters from the j.kis t for my sister's children^ v/ho
lived in Israel.
It took many years to pat it all to/ce thor . . . . and it was
followed by my traiisl. lion of a riiary I kept durin/r the
war and finally endeti with another book dcscrit>in/'^ niy
agoni/inc adjustment in Now York.
Recall in^T the past in those many details was an extra-
ordinary experience as it almost felt like a "double life" -
that of tlie person I had been and my present self.
^^^,
"Family Era/;ments" LE«) aAECK INSTITUTE (vrchives)
"Letters to my Mother" I.Kf- !'^^r\- TN'STinJTE (Archives)
"The Time of Ad jus tn.en t " L'jrt [_:LtO BAFOCK I STlTi'TR (Archives)
"The Time of -adjustment" l^irt II (Hie -^plit)
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Actually 1 revived the people I loved, (and lost) thei
environment, clothes and behavior.
In my memory I "heard" their lau<-hter, "felt" their
tenderness for rne and roco/nii^^ed their anxiet
les
However, n
ow
as 1 am a! out t finish
ny "tale" I
ain overcome wi tii profound nostalgia,
My world is it wcri
has ceased t
o exist
It almost s corns as Sal
man i<ushdie recentlv exclai
med
that bein/T an exile ii
one ' s niemory
leans to hnv
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Max L. Bcrges
Woodland Park Estates
12 A Olive Drive
Woodland Hills,
Calif. 91364.
Approximately
150.000
words .
PLEASE. DON'T WORRY!
NOTHING CAME OF IT!
The travels and travails
of two people and a guardian angel
without a country.
By Max L. Berges.
•
All rights reserved.
Please, don't worry! Nothing came of Itl
To my beloved wife Annie
who prodded me into writing this book
"Life is a treasure we have got to
cherish and we must tend it with
everlasting care and devotion, so
that when the hour comes when we
must return it to the Donor, He
will not be disappointed with the
way we have taken care of it, for
He is a severe judge in such matters
and allows no excuses for indiffer*
ence, negligence or careless workman^
ship."
Hendrick Willem Van Loon.
Please, don't worry! Nothing came of it!
I gratefully acknowledge the unselfish help
I have received from Mr. Gustave Schindler
of the Albert Einstein Foundation as well
as from Mrs. Margaret Bush and the late
Mrs. Else Staudinger of The American
Council For Refugees in the Professions.
Max L. Berges.
All incidents and characters in
this book are basically true.
Only some of the names have been
changed or the first letter been
used to save embarrassment to those
concerned.
Please, don't worry I Nothing came of It I
Please, don't worry I Nothing came of itl
TABLE OF C0NTI-:NTS:
Chapter:
ONE:
FOUR:
FIVE:
SIX:
NINE:
BY WAY OF AN INTRODUCTION
WHO AM I?
TWO: MEET TIMOTHY, MY GUARDIAN ANGEL
THREE: WHO IS SHE?
FROM WEST TO EAST
SHANGHAI - WHEN SHE STILL V;AS
SHANGHAI
EXIT SHANGHAI / ENTER MANILA
SEVEN: MANILA AND ILOILO, P.I.
EIGHT: FROM EAST TO WEST
THE PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS
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21
42
78
151
259
325
476
551
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BY WAY OF AN INTRODUCTION
Like the Greek cynical philoso-
pher Diogenes, who in daylight carried a lantern to find
an honest man, so one might nowadays carry a flashlight
to find a decent man who honestly could or would say a
kind word for the mass-murderer Adolf Hitler. And yet -
although not by design - he unknowingly became the instru=»
raent to bestow upon us a great blessing. If it had not been
for him, we might never have emigrated from Germany. If it
had not been for him, we most probably never would have
become American citizens. Nothing in our lives we cherish
more than our American citizenship. (Sorry, Mr. K. , wher-
ever you are) .
Indeed, if this Belial had not come to power in Germany,
my travels with Annie through many parts of the world would
not have materialized. Please, understand that we did not
travel for our pleasure or as tourists. Nonetheless, we have
seen more of this world thanks to Hitler than most people
ever have or will. We did not have an easy time of it. Still,
we would not wish to miss any of our experiences, bad, sad,
good, joyful or whatever.
After escaping from Nazi-Germany with but a few pos-
sessions and very little money in our pocket we have journeyed
from continent to continent, from one lan//or nation to another,
Please, don't worryl Nothing came of itl
II.
from islands to other islands. The choice had not been ours,
and we do not recommend exile for anyone unless it is a
matter of life or death. Sometimes we only traveled through
for a few hours, at other times we stayed for a few days,
for several weeks or months or even for a year or two in
countries or places like Poland, Kussia under Stalin,
Siberia, Manchuria (called Manchukuo at that time when the
Japanese occupied it), China, Japan, Hong Kong, the Philippine
Islands, Singapore, the Malay Peninsula, the island of Sum*
atra in the then Dutch-East Indies, Colombo on the island
of Ceylon, the Suez Canal, Port Said, Italy, the Straits
of Gibraltar and England. We have crossed many rivers and
mountain ranges, sailed over oceans and seas, through
channels and straits until we finally reached these United
States of America .
After all our wanderings, or globe-trotting so to speak,
after all we have seen and experienced, after all our travels
and travails we have learned that in all the world this
great country of ours cannot be surpassed. There is no
better, no finer, no more exciting and freer nation than
these United States. (Sorry, Mr. K. , wherever you are).
There is no# better way of life anywhere, no better chances
to get ahead, no better opportunities to obtain an education
whatever color of skin, whatever creed or former nationality
Please, don't worry! Nothing came of itl
III.
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one has. An individual, if he or she puts his or her mind
to It, can rise from poverty to wealth, from ignorance to
knowledge, and nevermind what all the extremists may claim.
In these present times, when it is no longer fashionable to
be a square and a patriot, we - my wife Annie and I - have
often been put down. We have been called Chauvinists and
Fascists when we praised this land, and Communists when we
opposed racism and any other ugly forms of prejudice. We
have been called many names although all we claim is that
we are faithful and loyal Americans, which includes praise
without excluding criticism. We do not like the Birchers
and the Minutemen on the one side, and the S.D.S. students,
the Weathermen and the Black Panthers on the other.
Sorry, I guess I went off the subject. In all proba=
bility I will do so again and again. Thoughts have the habit
of running hither and thither and cannot always be stopped.
Right now, for instance, I am reminded of Socrates who said:
"The sun could as easily be spared from the universe as free
speech from society. Life that is not tested by discussion
is not worth living." The trouble with extremists is that
they demand free speech for themselves, but oppose discussion.
And, friends or foes, that is my hang-up: Free dis»
cussion. I am going to let my thoughts ramble as they come,
let my memories revive as they do, and my mind say what it
Please, don't worryl Nothing came of iti
IV.
likes. I do not care on whose toes I will step and I am
bound to step on some whatever I say. If you are willing
to follow rae for a while, you might shed a few tears here
and there, or sometimes take umbrage at me, but all in all
you might get interested in the ventures and adventures we
managed to survive, in the ideas and philosophy I intend
to dispense. Perhaps - and I am almost certain about it -
occasionally you might be amused although now and then you
would wish that you could punch me in the nose or feel cora=
pelled to write a kind or unkind letter to me. I won't stop
you - even if I could - in whatever you wish to do as long
you will go on reading.
On my part I will do my best not to bore you with
our experiences, our bewilderment at times, our disap=
pointments and frustrations and also our joys and sorrows
while we were two people without a country.
So - come along with us, if you will, please. You
won't regret it. At least, ray wife Annie, my guardian angel
Timothy and I hope so. I cannot promise you any straight
chronology. We might be for one moment at one place and for
the next somewhere else. The events of yesterday, today and
tomorrow won't appear in the regular order of time. I will
just let my fingers dance over the keys of my typewriter,
but rest assured I won't annoy you with an autobiographical
autobiography - if that makes any sense to you. It does to
Please, don't worry I Nothing came of it!
V.
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me and you will understand as the book develops.
No doubt, at one time or other most of you have taken
a roller-coaster ride. That's what our life has been for
several years. Figuratively speaking we were riding a
roller-coaster. Up and down. Down and up. Sometimes in
slow motion, sometimes so fast that we were left dizzy or
shaken. And if I say "we' , I mean Annie, my wife, Timothy,
my guardian angel, and myself. Our ups and downs were not
of the ordinary kind. After all, anyone experiences ups
and downs during the span of a lifetime, but let me ask
you for instance who of you in the dark of the night had
to get out of a beautiful apartment, furnished with love,
leaving behind a valuable library and knowing that you
never will be allowed to return and claim your property?
Just leave to save your very lives? Just leave with a few
suitcases and nothing else? That's exactly what we
had
to do one night. That's how we were starting «i our travels
and travails as people without a country, totally doubtful
of our final destiny. We had to abandon burgeoning careers
and never could catch up with them again. We have been in
heaven and hell and in between. We have known the joy of
remaining alive ahid the disaster of hunger and near-star-
vation. We have pursued our lost happiness for years and
then found it when we did not expect it anymore. It was a
long and hard road. Yet, we have survived.
Please, don't worryl Nothing came of Itl
VI.
Please, don't worryl Nothing came of itl
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All right, friends or foes, let's face it. It's up
to you if we will stay together for a while or perhaps
all the way to the last page. And if you want to know the
truth, my guardian angel Timothy is not very optimistic
about ray writing this book or that anyone will ever care
to read it. It's his nature to be pessimistic and please
don't mind him. He has an unavoidable way of budding in
from time to time and being my guardian angel I can't re«
fuse him if he also wants to have his say. One should never
underestimate the importance of having a guardian angel,
even some one like Timothy, who is not exactly the most
cheerful celestial companion.
CHAPTER ONE
WHO AM I?
I wonder, if anyone truly and
honestly knows who he actually is. A date of birth, a
given name, a profession or occupation can not be the
answer to this self-defeating question. Perhaps character
and a way of thinking or believing can be, although I even
doubt that.
Well, who am I? A cog in a wheel? A part of a system?
A psychic body that sees and can be seen according to Brah-
manic dogma? Does nationality, religion, color of skin really
matter? All £>j1<:now for certain is that I am a human being.
Anything else is guesswork. "Which of us is not, forever,
a stranger and alone?" So asked Thomas Wolfe in "Look
homeward. Angel". Who am 1?
When Annie and I lived in Shanghai the Chinese called
me
Liu Fai Pei. I forgot what it means and in case you are
curious try and ask a Chinese. It so happened that I was
born in Hamburg, Germany, on November 19th. Please, don't
tell me under what sign I was brought into the world. I
don't believe in astrology. As far as I am concerned it is
a most lamentable hoax, perpetrated on mankind for too many
centuries. (There you see, I'm already stepping on other
peoples' toes. I can hear the anguished outcries of the
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many who are addicted to this non-science.) Hitler very
much relied on astrology and see where it got hira.
I remember that a few days after Roald Amundsen, the
famous Norwegian polar explorer, had disappeared in an
attempt to rescue another polar explorer, the Italian
Umberto Nobile, we - that is a group of actors, singers,
writers and other anomalous people - were sitting in the
cellar restaurant of the Hamburg City Opera House, dis=
cussing this event. Among us happened to be a man who at
that time was considered to be one of the most reputed
atrologers in Germany. He told us that he had studied
Amundsen's astrological chart. Without the shadow of a
doubt, so he predicted, Amundsen was alive and would sur=
face on a certain day at a certain time. That certain day
and certain time came and nothing happened. To the best
of my knowledge we never exactly found out how Amundsen
perished. But perish he did. This same astrologer, whose
knowledge in his chosen field was supposed to be unas=
sailable, also predicted that I would become a very rich
and famous man. Again he was wrong - at least so far. I
didn't get rich or famous, thank the Lord. As a matter of
fact, I never had enough time to spare getting rich and
never cared as long as 1 had one cent more than we needed
although there were timeiwhen we didn't have that extra
cent. My knowledge about money is almost nil. I believe
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what HC/fTy David Thorcau said, "The only wealth is life".
If there is anything remarkable about November 19th,
I haven't found out yet. However, President Lincoln de-
livered his Gettysburg address on a November 19th and that
is certainly a very remarkable event in world history. The
Austrian composer Franz Schubert died on a November 19th,
but that's all I can tell you about this date.
As far as my place of birth, Hamburg, is concerned, I
do not have an excuse. Any place in the United States, even
Tombstone in Arizona, would have suited me much better. I
never have been in Tombstone, so please anybody living
there don't think I am downgrading this good town. I just
chose it as an example because the name Tombstone for a
city is very intriguing.
Since I never had any delusions about myself, I also
had never any need to be psycho-analyzed. The very fact is
that in my opinion I was bom a nut and did not change much
over the years. However, don't get me wrong, I'm in no way
mentally deficient, or at least I do not think so. At times,
and whenever it suited me, I have sufficiently conformed to
fit into normal society - although there isn't anything like
a normal society.
Some years ago, when I had to undergo an exploratory
operation, my doctor sent me first to a psycholoj)fist in
order to feel assured that the pains I complained about were
not Imaginary^ since all medical tests, including x-rays^
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had been negative. The psychologist and I had a very
pleasant talk which he suddenly terminated because in
his opinion I was wasting his valuable time. So I had
this exploratory operation and as it turned out I did not
waste the surgeon's time.
Who am I? Like you, I would say, I am a member of the
human race. No more, no less. As Mark Twain said, "Worse
I can say of no man".
Politically and emotionally I am moderate as dis=
tinguished from liberal. Having personally experienced
life under a dictatorship and observed it for a short
time under another dictatorship, I am uncompromisingly
opposed to any extremism, be it of the left or the right.
I do not understand how it is logically and rationally
possible to be anti-Communistic and at the same time pro-
Fascistic or vice versa. Both these so-called ideologies
are basically alike in their final aims: The destruction
of democracy, that is liberty and freedom for all, and
the in>4tallation of an imperialistic dictatorship.
Religiously I am a deist and so is Annie (or at least
so she has become after having been married to me for a
while) . We do not belong to any of the mechanical and
neither/
organized religious sects, hi^£/lo we abide agnosticism
or atheism. We believe in the unlimited power of prayer
and not a day goes by that we do not pray to God together
and thank Him for His goodness. We are able to converse with
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God so much better without interference by man-made rituals
and dogmas or any allegedly professional men of God.
My pet peeve are the so-called Evangelists. I won't
say what I think of them because I do not like libel suits.
"Lbelieve in one God, and no more," so wrote Thomas
Paine in "The Age of Reason" and so do Annie and I think,
'*and I hope for happiness beyond this life. I believe that
religious duties exist in doing justice, loving mercy, and
endeavouring to make our fellow creatures happy. 1 do not
believe in the creed professed by any church that I know
of. Religion is not an act that can be performed by proxy.
Every person must perform it for himself."
Who am I? Once by birth and not by choice I was a
German citizen and now solely by choice I am an American
citizen which suits me so much better although I have no
animosity against Germany whatsoever. On the contrary I
admire the industry of the present Democratic Republic of
West-Germany and don't equate it with the Nazi-Germany of
the past. As an Ame>tican citizen - albeit a naturalized one -
I have not acquired the untenable attitude of some Americans
to feel superior to members of other nations. Notwithstanding
and despite my aversion to general prejudices I have become
antagonistic toward the Arabs and their late Fuehrer Gamal
Abdal Nasser in particular. Their stupidity is monumental,
but as Friedrich Schiller, the classical German poet, wrote
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in his play "Die feindlichen Brucder" (The hostile Brothers):
"Mit der Dummheit kaempfen Goettcr selbst vorgebens". Against
stupidity even the Gods fight in vain.
The Arabs with their vast land acreage can and could
easily give up the small strip which originally belonged
to the Jews anyway. Under the many centuries of Moslem and
Arab rule this land was left to barrenness. The miracle the
Jews performed in Palestine and the few years of Israel's
existence should have been an inspiration to the Arabs
and to Mr. Nasser. Instead it provoked envy and malevo=
lence. It is one of the great tragedies of mankind that
the Semitic Arabs refuse to reach out their hands in peace
to the Semitic Jews, their brothers.
In anything but hatred for the Jews Mr. Nasser had
been a failure, the same as Hitler, Mussolini and Stalin
were failures. Perhaps if it weren't for the evil designs
of Communist Russian Imperialism the Arab nations would
have found a way to live in peace and friendship with the
State of Israel. If that ever comes to pass, the entire
Mid-East would be changed into a modern Garden of Eden.
Who am I? A man with a sense of humor. Consequently
I am suspicious of people who lack this sense. Hitler and
Stalin had none, and I think neither had Nasser and Musso=
lini. Otherwise I cannot think of having any prejudice which,
of course, is not quite normal. Prejudices always have ruled
and probably will rule the world. I am a poor capitalist
for not being a Communist. I thoroughly distrust the stock
market, having an Idea (perhaps wrongly) that It Is being
manipulated by a few egotistic financiers. Gambling, I am
sure, would bore me to death as does playing cards or games.
Although we do not llv^very far from Las Vegas, we have
never bothered to visit It.
Certainly, like anybody else we did not escape Las
Vegas or Reno on the movie or TV screens, always wondering
why gambling had to be made so much more attractive by
elaborate, super-dlmen,ional shows? It Is generally assumed
that the desire for gambling like alcoholism is one of the
most common human psychological aliments. The Las Vegas
Strip (or whatever It Is called) with Its gigantic neon-
signs over-exposes all the vulgarity of a carnal carnival.
Moreover, nothing looks more abhorrent and pitiful than the
faces of some of the old and middle-aged women, working the
slot-machines like robots. The money lost In the Nevada
gambling casinos could cure much want and hunger In the
world. Irving Katz, Chairman of the Psychology Department
of the Nevada Southern University^ defined this modem Sodom
and Gomorrah, originally created by the Crime Syndicate,
with these words: "Las Vegas is a focus of all our national
ailments and problems. Success Is judged by wealth alone,
and false values predominate".
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In contrast to most or probably all other people,
who very much like money or the possession of it, I
thoroughly dislike it. Don't get me wrong, though, I
have enough common sense to realize that in this world
one has to have some money in order to survive. However,
it scares me that like slaves we are so dependent on it.
Who am I? I think, by nature I am a re^el without a
cause because I don't have the deep desire to change the
world. I abhor revolutions, violence, riots and any gener=»
alized hatred. Nonetheless , I once belonged to an anti-
Nazi underground group, dedicated to oppose and fight
Nazism as well as Communism by any means, words and deeds >(
at our command. I hate wars, and yet I have been a soldier
in a war. When I was drafted I told these people that 1
was deaf in one ear which is true. I was assured not to
worry about it because I would be able to hear the shoot=
ing all right. The very moment I couldn't hear it anymore,
I could assume to be dead. They were right I heard the
shooting. I still hate wars , but 1 don't think it would
ever occur to me to bum my draft card. I am not a coward,
and I think that my country has the right to call me for
duty when she needs me. That's the kind of square rebel
I am.
Who am I? An extrovert who secretly is an introvert
Crazy, but true. Regretfully, the majority of people in
the world are ambiverts. In psychology an amblvert is
some one who is neither an extro- nor an introvert. If
you come right down to the essentials, not the dictators,
the politicians, the military, or whoever else In this
category, are responsible for our wars, but the ambi=»
verts, or as lately Mr. Nixon called them - the silent
majority. They, being complacent, let their leaders as
well as militant rebels get away with murder and mass-
murder. The worst violators against world peace are the
professional pacifists themselves. They will commit any
crime, any violence in order to feed their own cowardice.
We cannot be unilaterally pacific. If not all the people
in all the world go onstrike against wars, we always will
have wars. We cannot have a one-sided peace. We cannot
protest against one establishment if we do not protest
against all establishments and that includes the Russian
and Red Chinese variety, for without their support of
wars we would and could have peace in the world. That's
why ever since Cain slew Abel we had very short periods
without wars and mass-murder. I prefer a Ghandi to a
Stalin or Hitler, a Dr. Schweitzer to Ho Chi-Min/^or MacT
<ze->Lung. Sorry, I am a benevolent rebel. I don't want
to slay my enemies, but I wish these Hitlers, Stalins,
Nassers and their likes would never again be duplicated.
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Who am I? If nothing else, I am an avid
reader. Like a drug addict suffers when he doesn't h
ave
his jolt, I suffer if I do not have a book that inter-
ests me. I am selective in what I read, but read I must.
A book store has the same attraction to me as a bar for
an alcoholic.
Felix Frankfurter said, "Very few people ever read
anything except the headlines and the commentators, these
great raiseducators of the American public in giving pep=
sinized knowledge and sometimes half-knowledge." Most
people, if they read at all, turn to the sports pages
of a newspaper and the comic strips - and iv^hat the hell
can they learn from that? I pity them, for they miss the
best that life has to offer. "Reading is the heart and
soul of culture in its highest form." So wrote Walter
Pitkin in his book "Life beins at Forty".
I honestly believe, if it weren't for the majority
of non-readers, the uninformed ones, who often are con='
vinced they know everything, the world could be at peace.
They feed on their own prejudices and make it possible
that the Hitlers, Stalins, Mussolinis, Mao Tze-Z^lngs and
Ho-Jhi Min^ could become the mass-murderers of our times.
They with their untrained minds are the followers. Igno-
rance is the worst of all human shortcomings.
Antfplease do not tell me that there is a person in
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the world who hasn't got the time to read. They have time
for golf, for watching television and sport events, and
they have time for many non-essential matters as gossiping,
playing cards and gambling for instance. If one wants to
read, one finds time to read. But perhaps Mark Twain was
right when he said, "Let us be thankful for fools. But
for them the rest of us can succeed."
The people I fear most are the deadly intellectuals.
(Sorry, Mr. K. , wherever you are). They always have been
and are, to be sure, a small minority, but they constitute
and have proven to be extremely dangerous to all mankind.
Luckily, the non-deadly ones, the ones who have shaped and
shape our world affairs, our civilization, our culture, are
in the majority. To name a few - I think of Socrates,
Galileo, Ghandi, Dr. Schweitzer , Professor Einstein, John
Kennedy, Martin Luther King Jr. and many others. The deadly
ones, though, are the destroyers, the enslavers, the conscious
liars and tyrants. They are greedy for power and would commit
any ethical, moral and physical infamy to obtain it. They
do not have any scruples whether they align themselves
on the side of the super-patriots or the super-Marxists.
Their intellec tualism has gone sour, evil and hazarcjjpusly
unbalanced.
Webster defines "intellect" as "That faculty of the
human soul or mind which receives or comprehends the ideas
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communicated to it by the senses, or by perception, or
by other means, the faculty of thinking."
Unfortunately, a so-called intellectual is not always
wise or even intelligent. Each human being has the faculty
of thinking, but only a few use it and use it intelligently.
The deadly intellectuals are persuaders by which they
advance themselves and their sick causes. They are liars by
their own choice. Like Joseph Goebbels advanced the cause
of the monstrous Adolf Hitler; like Lenin and Trotzki used
their evil minds to establish the feudalism, or if you
will, the imperialism of Communism; like Mao 'ize -Tung "liber'
ated" China from the war lords and the Fascism of Chiang
Kai-shek to establish a worse tyranny himself ; like Ho*
chi-Minh espoused civil war to free his country from the
colonialism of the French and then suppressed his people
as a brutal dictator. All of them were mass-murderers.
Among them they have with malice aforethought killed
millions and millions of innocent people.
Joseph Goebbels himself admitted the evil of his cause
when he said in 1943, "We will go down in history as the
greatest statesmen of all times or as their greatest
criminals." Men like him have the faculty ofr becoming
great statesmen , but like any gangster they cannot act
like men of good will. They cannot walk in the light of
the sun. They need the darkness of night for their evil
deeds. And make no mistake about it, we have some of these
deadly intellectuals in our own country.
Vladimir llyich Lenin, who claimed to have founded a
people's republic and instead organized a tryranny, admitted,
"We can and must write in a language which sows among the
masses hate, revulsion , scorn toward those of different
opinion." He, the man who studied law, demanded to be heard,
buiT" disallowed the same right to those who opposed him.
That is what Communism and Fascism have in common. They
seek the right of freedom of speech, but will not listen
to anyone who has any other ideas. They glibly talk of
democracy and ruthlessly destroy it. They poison the minds
of young people and brainwash them until they are unable to
think rationally. They believe that riots and violence are
substitutes for progress, and then dare to call it an ex=»
pression of democratic dissent. Communist and Fascist think=
ing processes are "controlled and more often uncontrolled
schizophrenia" .
The deadly intellectuals - as history has proved again
and again - suffer from paranoiac delusions. They are treacher'
ous not only to their own country, but also to humanity in
general.
The American variety of deadly intellectuals - and I
have known and met a number of them - despise anything
American and rather would see the Swastika, the . red Hammer
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and Sickle^or Vietcong flag fly over the White House than
the Star and Stripes. They negate all things Amcvtican and
yet partake of our country's abundance and exploit our
democratic pel3nissiveness under the Constitution. Their
aim is to abolish the American way of life. They grow hot
and angry if anyone lauds the United States and our Con^*
stitution, under which they believe they can commit treacher=*
ous crimes. "Anger is the wind that blows out the lamp of the
mind," said Robert Ingersoll. Yes - that is what happens
to Americans who fall into the trap, set by deadly intel=
lectuals and their agents provocateurs. The wind of anger
blows out their minds. To them love for these United States
has become a deadly sin. (Sorry, Mr. K. , wherever you are).
Who am I? Although I think to have established
that I'm neither a deadly intellectual nor a deadly super-
patriot, but a moderate in my political thinking, abhorring
the gyrations of the extreme left or right, I guess I still
have not really answered this ominous question. How can I?
Perhaps it was foolish of me to ask it in the first place.
Sometimes in the stillness of the night, unable to
sleep and yet not fully awake, my mind is invaded by a
weird feeling that I am just a stranger on this planet,
we call Earth. Perhaps we all are strangers, staying for
a while and then go on to - we do not know yet where. Per-
haps our real home is somewhere else in this great uni-
verse. Q^ite often, when this feeling invades my mind
and takes over my emotions, a curious longing , that
I would like to return to that mysterious home of mine,
arises in me .
An incident comes to my mind (and I am sure others
have had similar unexplainable experiences), an incident
which happened many years ago. I had taken a train to
Liege (Belgium), a city and country where I had never
been before. I was supposed to meet a certain man at a
certain address, both unknown to me. There was nothing
secretive about it, just an ordinary journalistic as=
signment. After arriving in Liege 1 walked out of the
railway station with the intention of hailing a taxi.
I did nothing of the sort. Neither did I ask anybody how to
find the address. The very moment I had stepped outside,
I just recognized the place in a manner as if I had been
there before in the long ago prior to my birth. Like being
in a trance I started walking toward my destination. I
began to remember streets and houses and stores in this
ancient city, the history of which goes back at least to
the fourteenth century. I walked unerringly ahead, turned
corners, knowing in advance what to expect in the next
street. Somehow 1 had redeemed from oblivion the names
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of stores and shops, some of which had been owned by the
same families for hundrecUof years. I even could tell the
names of streets before I saw the signs. In less th
an
fifteen minutes I reached the house of the man I was
supposed to see. There and then I suddenly stopped before
knocking at the door. It was a frightening feeling to real-
ize that I had done something for which I could not give
a rational account. What had happened to me? How had it
been possible that suddenly I had recaptured ^A^me forgotten
part of a nescient past and pulled/out of the retentiveness
of/
of memories i^r ^^r il/tFTis otherwise totally strange town?
Could it be that I might have lived in Liege in a former
existence? Who had I been then? I never found an answer
other but that it confirmed my inner conviction that life
is eternal.
Never before and never after have I been so close to
the mystery of life and death, the mystery of creation in
the spiritual sense.
Who in effect knows who he is? Most of us suffer from
delusions in regard to our own ego. The worst of our de=
lusions are those of grandeur, of our own importance in
the great scheme of God, delusions that we actually are
what we believe to be. Only very few of us like to admit
that life on this planet will continue without us as it
has existed before we were born. Few of us comprehend
consciously that wo do not leave a vacuum which cannot
be filled after we have departed. We are soon forgotten
unless we have committed exceptional deeds of good or evil
which are written into the annals of history. Even of these
only a small number remain stenciled forever in the books
of general knowledge. We, the mass, just seem to disappear -
but we don't really. Our existence leaves an imprint, even
if it is smaller than a micro dot. Life apparently goes on
without us, but it doesn't really. We are still there in
some form or other. Our ideas remain alive. Our acquired
knowledge, as scanty and limited as it may have been, does
not die with our bodies. Physically we are destined to dis-
appear, but where do we go? After all, each of us fulfills
a certain function in life, good, bad or seemingly incon-
sequential. And so does an insect, a plant, anything that
was alive, if even for a few hours only. Each living being
is pre-destined to guarantee the continuance of our species
for some length of time, some thousands of years, others
millions or even billions and more. Our having been alive
must have had a. definite purpose, or we would not have
existed at all. Not we, not the insect, not the plant.
Lewis E. Lawes in his book "Cell 202 Sing Sing'; wrote:
"When we die and are buried and then come to life again on
the earth in the trees and grass and flowers, can you tell
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which grass and trees and flowers are Christians, or
Jewish, or Chinese, or Mohammedan? Nature doesn't put
any marks on them : God doesn't cither. Your face, your
body, your language may be different. But the soul, it
has no label."
This, I believe, is all the truth of which we can be
assured. The soul has no label. Still, I often wished I
knew who I am or rather what I appear to be in the minds
and eyes of my contemporaries - if I leave God out of this
question and answer game.
I could ask Annie who she thinks I am. Her answer,
if she would give me one, would be anything but objective,
/he is definitely prejudiced in my favor. So was my mother
I was the apple of her eyes until the day she died. She
neither could have told me who I am although I have groisTi
into a being in her womb. I could ask a good friend. He
might not want to hurt my feelings and be evasive. I could
ask an enemy. Perhaps he would answer my question, but I
don't think I would like to hear it. Perhaps no one can
answer my question. So we better leave it be. It doesn't
actually matter very much who 1 really am , unless by pos-
ing this question I might have succeeded in catching your
interest to read this book and then it's up to you to come
to your own conclusion.
be a re- incarnation of Ahasuerus, the legendary, wandering
jQwand that is what this book is all about.
Timothy, my guardian angel, asserts that I am his
punishment for sins he committed during his life on this
earth. I am his purgatory, his own, personal hell. Maybe
I am all this to him, poor fellow, and if you don't mind
I would like to introduce this character to you before I
will tell about our years of wandering over many parts
of this globe as persons without a country. Timothy, after
all, cannot be denied his role in this book. Without hi
im
I might not even be alive anymore to overwork my type-
writer. This, at least, will prove to you - that I ami
For seve^-al years I had a weird feeling that I might
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CHAPTER TWO
MEET TIMOTHY. MY CUARnTAN Ahirpi
Somewhere I have read that
266,613,336 angels remained loyal to God when Satan
lost the battle and was banned to hell. I haven't got
the faintest idea who ever counted these angels, but it
must have been quite a task. In the meantime we can safely
assume that the angel population in heaven has as much
increased as the human one on earth. If there is a popu-
lation explosion down here, it figures that there is
bound to be one in heaven, too, unless Satan has been
getting most of the human souls which, considering our
mass behaviour over the centuries, is quite possible.
Timothy is not exactly an advertisement as far as
angels go. He is not very well educated. At times he can
be very close-mouthed, especially about celestial matters.
At other times he gets too gabby about anything concerning
me or our relationship to each other. I don't know if each
human being on earth is being protected by a guardian angel.
Timothy won't tell me although it seems that Communists and
Fascists are excepted. They go to hell anyway. He never re-
vealed to me why guardian angels are assigned to some human
beings and not to others or to all, as it should be.
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most people lack the imaginative inspiration to believe
in the existence of guardian angels. So much more pity
for them. It doesn't matter to me one whit whether or
not you believe in guardian angels. The fact is that I
am blessed or burdened with one.
Knowing him now for so many years, I can honestly
say that the name Timothy doesn't fit him at all, although
he maintains that it was his given name on earth and that
it has not been changed when he barely managed to squeeze f
into heaven instead of going to hell. It had been just a
fluke of good luck.
Quoting from "The New English Bible" (published by
the Oxford and Cambridge Universities Presses) the first
letter of Paul to Timothy started with these words:
"From Paul, apostle of Christ Jesus by command of
God our Saviour and Christ Jesus our hope, to Timothy
his true-born son in the faith."
Well - my guardian angel Timothy could not have been
a true-born son in the faith. From what I have gathered, he
had been anything but a saint during his lifetime on earth.
In fact, he had been so much amiss in his religious faith
and duties as well as his human behaviour that he had not
expected to over be admitted to heaven. But admitted he
was, and after many years of induction, instructions and
menial services, in none of which he excelled, he was
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finally assigned to me as a form of penance for failing
to conform with the general rules and regulations in
heaven. He doesn't make a secret of his feelings. He
dislikes his job and consequently did let me suffer a
great deal, but quite obviously has stuck to his orders
to keep me alive until my foreordained time on earth
will have been spent.
Before I'm going to tell you how I got
to know about Timothy, I cannot help but digress for a
while. You'll have to get used to my way of reporting.
I like to get off the tangent every once so often.
We ordinary human beings do not really know what
life is all about. It is truly astonishing that we manage
to live it for better or worse, although I have a sneak=
ing suspicion that the majority Cf us live our life for
worse. We are too much engrossed with our material well-
being and thus neglect our spiritual and mental welfare
which alone can lead us to salvation. More and more
we
recognize the bad shape this world of ours is getting
into, but then - of course - whenever has it been in good
shape? Human beings have never learned from history and
consequently still don't know how to live in peace with
one another. The bible tried to teach us to love our
neighbors, but then also it tells a lot about wars, sins,
€
obscenities, violence and bloodshed. More and more often
it occurs to mc that Satan - at least temporarily - has
become more powerful than God. We cannot deny that lately
he succeeded in brainwashing more people than ever before.
How otherwise could have godless Communism triumphed or
even come into existence and grown so mightily? How other**
wise could it be possible that so many people in the world
have become blind, dumb and deaf that they won't see the
evil which Communism represents?
It so happens that I strongly believe in the goodness
of God despite all the signs to the contrary. I trust that
His omni-potence and omni-science will prevail. Somewhere
in the bible it says that "Wisdom is better than weapons
of war". I wonder why God has given us so little wisdom?
And that brings us to the second letter of Paul to
Timothy as quoted from "The New English Bible": "You must
face the facts," so wrote Paul, "the final age of this
world is to be a time of troubles. Men will love nothing
but money and self; they will be arrogant, boastful and
abusive; with no respect for parents, no gratitude, no
piety, no natural affection; they will be implacable in
their hatreds, scandal-mongers, intemperate and fierce,
strangers to all goodness, traitors, adventurers, swollen
with self-importance."
It sounds frightening, doesn't It? Could it be that
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we are living now in the final age of this world? Paul
very well described us as we are and behave in these
times. But then he ends his letter with a prediction
which might instill us with some hope for the future.
"But their success will be short-lived, for, like those
opponents of Moses, they will become recognized by every-
one for the fools they are."
Well, my contemporary citizens of the world, when
will we take a spiritual stand to save mankind from self-
destruction? I have grave doubts that we ever will. If by
now we have not learned a single lesson human history should
have taught us, do you think that we ever will?
Do you truly believe that we ever will stop dissent=
ing without violence, mayhem and bloodshed? Will we ever
stop gambling and whoring? Will we ever bury our hatreds
and prejudices? Or will we continue to make wars and kill?
Will we forever remain strangers to the ideal of universal
brotherhood? Will we forever stay convinced of our self-
importance, forgetting that life on this earth is only a
fleeting moment? Where in your opinion will it all end?
I cannot but conclude that we are caught in a cul-de-sac
and unless we manage to retreat together we will like
goats butt our heads to pulp against the wall which we
are facing at the end of the blind alley. Wlien dialogue
stops, mankind is on the road to vanish from this earth.
We can only \yUOf that Paul was ri^^lit and eventually wo will
rccoj;nize what fools we have been and are.
If I have been sermonizing, I apolo^;ize. I'm not,
thank the Lord, an Evangelist, but my Timothy did compel
me to insert these ideas. He asserts that tliere are pre =
sently ruraors in heaven that once more Satan has declared
open warfare on God, and if Satan should win - well, my
friends and foes, you can well imagine the results.
This increasing influence Satan exerts is a constant
worry to Timothy. He doesn't like hell despite the miser=
able assignment he had drav/n to protect me.
I don't care whether you believe it or not, but
the story hov; I first consciously met Timothy is the honest
truth. I know the way you all think. A writer is an indi=
vidual who by nature and profession tells tall stories. In flU
way this may be right. A writer liwom and works by imagin=
ation to a certain degree. He may let this imagination run
wild once in a while or control it if he wants to. Neither
a lie nor the truth can be told well without imagination.
To be sure, imagination by itself is not alv;ays a contra=»
diction to truth. Many of you certainly may think what the
hell makes a writer tick. It's hard to explain.
Robert Ruark states in his book "The Honey Badger":
"A writer is a delicate, mysterious organism. |/obody ever
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knows quite what makes a writer. Pain and poverty may forge
one, and might easily ruin another. Some write best in se-
clusion; others can't write a line away from the clatter
of Times Square. Riches spoil some and improve others.
Some need deadlines - some need limitless time. Some need
Spain or a South Sea Island, others are miserable outside
a grimy hotel or a cold water flat."
I need my own study, quiet with no outside noise like
gabbing women neighbors . or loud TV. or telephone calls.
I cannot write outside my study and without Annie close by.
When she was in the hospital. I was unable to write a line.
Most of us are compulsive writers. We would despair of life
if we were prevented from writing the way we wish to write
or about what we want to write - as those poor writers are
in CommuntTor Fascist countries. When I work on a book,
or a play, or a story. I want to be left alone except for
the presence of Annie. However, like I myself few writers
ever strike it rich. 1 abhor the pornographic, mentally
aberrant, dope-flavored so-called literature which is
presently so much in vogue. I simply do not understand how
books like "Peyton Place" or "Valley of the Dolls". to name
only two - can possibly have become best-sellers. I have
tried to read then, - as well as a few others of the kind -
and was so bored that I did not get beyond a hundred pages
until I threw them into the waste basket where in my not so
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humble opinion they belong. If I am old-fashioned, so bo
it.
I do not write for fame or riches. I like to dre
am
and by expressing my dreams In written words I free my=
self from the bondage of dally drudgery, experleniBjby
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those who have to work In jobs where all their lives
they do the same chores, or essentially the same. Through
writing I find the buried treasures each and everyone of
us are consciously or subconsciously seeking. If I would
write with the sole aim of making money and gaining fame
(God forbid), I would not be happy. The meaning of success -
or what is generally understood by success - is a very
dubious and disputable one. I feel successful - not only
because I have arranged my life without the many (mostly
trivial) mental upheavals peopl(«)ring unnecessarily upon
themselves - but also because I enjoy writing as I please
and about what I please, and if I can contribute a little
to the spiritual welfare and entertainment of a few readers,
so much the better. Besides I agree with the philosopher
Italo Svedo who said, "To write may be necessary, but to
publish is not."
Writing makes me free, makes me fight my own lonely
battlet against a life of reality which is a burden. I can
choose my own time and hours when I want to sit down and
work, but then in order to work I do have to do a lot of
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thinking and dreaming and that quite often makes me
asocial. I only can think as a fre^^an, beholden to none,
not being at the mercy of a boss, an editor or an agent.
I pity those writers who sell themselves into slavery by
accepting jobs at one of the film-making or television
programming industrial plants. To me writing is not only
a compulsion, but more so a pleasant mystery like the
waters of a river which flow and never stop flowing,
like the mystery of time without end. A writer can - as
Stuart Cloete wrote - "disappear into his private euphoria.'
However, any writer, worth his salt, has to pay the
penalty of being in some ways set apart from his or her
fellow men. The profession of a writer is a lonely one,
and if we want to create we better like our isolation. On
the other hand we ^in a certain serene, inner happiness
one/ '^^
which no/ille can achieve. We are aware of what is called
in Latin, "Habent sua libelli" which means that "Writings
have their destinies".
That, indeed, brings me back to the true story of how
I actually found out about Timothy, my guardian angel. It
happened on a warm Jul^ night in the year of 1918. I was
sitting on top of an artillery bunker at a hillside away
from the enemy side. How I got there does not matter. I
knew that in another ten or fifteen minutes I would be
part of a storm attack through a mined field. I wasn't
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actually scared (teenagers don't scare easily), but I
wasn't overjoyed either. Even as a young man one can make
peace with death. I had done so - at least so I believed.
I was sitting on the underground bunker all by myself,
meditating whether or not I would survive the next few
hours. The odds were against it.
"Come on," some one said to me in a kind of whisper.
"You can't sit here any longer."
I awoke from my reveries and looked up and around.
It was quite dark and I couldn't see a damned soul close
to me. I thought that I had been dreaming.
Again I heard the same whispering voice, urging me to
abandon my seat on top of the bunker.
"Go to hell," I said. I certainly wasn't in the mood
to be spooked because I was quite comfortable where I was.
"Jesus Christ," the voice swore, "that's the one place
I don't care to go to. Do me a favor and don't act like a
stupid fool. Or do I have to drag you away?"
"You don't have to do anything," I said. "Who are you
anyhow?"
For a short moment there was silence, and I felt sure
that my imagination had played a trick on me. This was surely
a weird night, and I wasn't in a normal frame of mind under
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the circumstances.
"I'm your guardian angel," I heard the voice again.
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and It was not one that recommended trust. It had a kind
of rasping or perhaps grating sound as if it emanated from
an old, churlish person, "fretfully, I have been assigned
to you. I want you to know, you were not my personal choice."
That was the last straw. I shook my head to clear my
my mind. "Guardian angel, my foot!" I told him. "This isn't
the time for practical jokes. Now you do me a favor and
vamoose.
It
"I can't do that, please," the voice beseeched me. "If
it were up to me, I would go away. I don't like these silly
wars, but it so happens you're my punishment and I've orders
to stick to you, nevermind where and how. A celestial order
can't be disobeyed."
It really was weird and spooky. Any minute now we would
be called to march the few miles to the front lines. I
was
determined to ignore that darned voice, but somehow I could
not. I had been caught like a fish in a net.
"Do you have a name?" I asked
"Timothy."
"I don't believe it," I taunted him.
"Who cares if you believe it or not. You've got to get
up and run on the double to that big boulder over there and
drop behind it, flat on your stomach. You better listen, or
I'll have to transport you there in my own way."
"I don't have to do anything, and I don't like to lie
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flat on my stomach," I objected, although running on the
double and crawling on my stomach was part of my training
which hopefully would be of some help in the forthcoming
attack.
h
The voice sighed in despair. "Man, you're a stubborn
ass," it told me. "Go already before I punch your nose."
I tried to detect the boulder, but I couldn't see it.
"Where's that damned boulder?"
"About twenty meter to your left, man," the voice
you/
informed me. "Please, get a move on^efore it is too late.
If
It
II
Too late for what?"
For you, of course."
"Go to the devil," I advised him.
"I can't do that. Don't you understand? I work for
the competition."
"I must be getting nuts," I said aloud.
I never kn^ what came over me, but suddenly I jumped
down from the top of the bunker and ran on the double in
the direction of the boulder. When I got to it I ducked
behind it flat on my stomach.
At that very moment one of the occasional enemy ar«
tillery shells came whizzing along and hit with pin-point
precision the top of the bunker (no one was inside)where
I had been sitting. Boy, I was shaking all over. God Al-
mighty, if I had not listened to that voice, I would have
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been totally disintegrated. That shell, whether by unholy
design or not, must have had ray name on It. After a while,
when the dust had
settled, I sat up, looked about, *
hoping to see the man to whom that voice belonged. The
whole thing boggled my Imagination.
"Are you still around, Timothy?" I ventured to ask,
not yet sure If I was just crazy or not. My feeling was
that I definitely must be. As a matter of fact, I'm crazy
right now, or I wouldn't tell you all this. I know, you
won't believe me, nevermind what I'm going to tell you
about Timothy In the course of this biographical chit-chat.
Yet, I swear, It's the truth, the whole truth and - well,
the truth as I know It.
"Sure, I'm still around," Timothy replied. "I'll be
always around, God help me."
"That was a close one," I said, still unable to accept
his assertion that he was my guardian angel. "Thank you
for saving my life."
"No need to thank me," he rebuffed me somewhat grouchlly
"I haven't got a choice In the matter. If I had, I'd rather
see you dead, pardon me. I happen to be a lazy guardian
angel and generally you give me the creeps, getting your-
self Into one scrap after another."
This got my Ire up. It wasn*t my fault that I had been
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drafted Into the army. "How the hell
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He didn't let me finish. "Please, never mention that
place again. I'm allergic to It," he begged me.
"All right. But how did you know that this particu-
lar shell would land right there where I was sitting?-"
There was another moment of silence. "That's my
professional secret, but I better know these things. I
can't afford to lose you yet."
Another shell was whizzing over our heads and landed
somewhere farther on. Involuntarily 1 had ducked.
"No need to duck," Timothy said. "I'll let you know
whenever It's aimed at you."
"You really would do It again, wouldn't you?"
"That's what I'm here for, although I wished this war
would be over already. It's too much trouble for me to pro-
tect you."
The CO. blew the whistle for us to assemble and
march to the front line for that storm attack.
"Don't worry," I heard Timothy at my side, "I'll have
to stick to you, but for God's sake listen to me and do as
I'll tell you without a split second's hesitation. Is that
clear?"
I nodded, but It was funny. Really funny In a macabre
sense .
In that godforsaken noise of exploding mines, shooting,
shelling and yelling I couldn't hear a dam thing, certainly
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not a word from Timothy. But I felt him pulling me down or
up, pushing me forward or holding me back. All around me
men were blown to bits and pieces. It was a bloody mess
and whoever had ordered this attack must have known that
it was plain murder. Later we heard a rumor that our storm
battallion had to be sacrificed across this mined field so
that the regular infantry could get through for the actual
attack. They gained their objective, only to be thrown back
a week later. Thus was the game of chess in war. We of the
storm battallion had been the expendable pawns. Of the
twelve hundred men in our battallion , who went in there
first that Julj^ morning in France, only six came through
alive or without a scratch. I was one of these six.
On many other occasions in my lifetime I was in
dire danger. There is no doubt in my mind that I Sever
would
have made it so far without Timothy. Once he
even saved ray pareots ' s lives and please don't shake your
fool heads. It's the honest truth.
It happened a number of years later and I
had gotten accustomed to have Timothy with me. As they did
each summer my parents had booked a state-room on a night
train which would take them to a health resort for a va=
cation. Only this time Timothy interfered. I was not yet
married and on the afternoon prior to the departure of my
parents I was reading in my room.
"Get up," Timothy told me, "and advise your parents
to take another train."
Sometimes he had a way of ordering me around which
really irked me. I sighed. "You aren't their guardian
angel," 1 rebuked him.
"No, I'm yours, so God help me. As it is I've got
enough trouble with you, but it scares me to think what
you might do if you suddenly find yourself an orphan.
You're kind of crazy, you know. Unpredictable, too."
I closed my book and got up. I had learned never
to ignore Timothy's counsel because he had not once
intentionally fooled me or had played a practical joke
on me. He was not the brightest guardian angel, I guessed,
but he took his duties toward me quite seriously although
he didn't enjoy them. Besides, he had little sense of
humor.
"All right, chum," I acquiesced, "tell me why my
parents shouldn't take that train tonight?"
"Do me a favor, don't ask questions and don't call me
your chum. I'm your guardian angel, but not necessarily
your pal. Vou just go to your father and tell him to change
his reservation for the train tomorrow morning."
"Just like that?"
Ho, not Just like that. You've got enough imagination
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to find some sort of reason for it."
"All right. I'll try."
"Don't try. Convince him for their own good."
"Okay, 1*11 tell him that yoJTaid so."
Timothy sighed in despair. "Idiot, he'll laugh at you
if you tell him about me. He's one of those people who
won't believe in the existence of guardian angels. That's
why none was assigned to him. You stop him from taking that
night train, even if you have to lock both your parents into
their bedroom. Is that clear?
II
It wasn't. Sometimes he got my goat. "I can't lock
my
parents in their bedroom and you know it. Before I even go
and talk to my father I want to know if guardian angels
are infallible."
That question truly seemed to upset him. He groaned.
"Ji/ow, please, don't bring that nonsense up."
"Why not? Ever since 1870 the Catholics claim that
their Pope is infallible when he talks about faith and
morals."
"Let them believe what they want. It's their business.
Infallible, my foot I Even God - so I heard - ha4 made His
mistakes . "
"Come now. As an angel don't you believe in the
potence and omniscience of God?"
omni'
"Of course, I dol Heaven help me if I didn't. I'
m
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t
I
still on probation. But, honestly, you've only to con-
sider His creation of man. Don't you think He could
have done much better?"
"Maybe He had His reasons not to do better."
"You've got a point there," Timothy conceded.
It surprised me because he was the kind of character
who would concedet nothing. "If you ever have read Spinoza,"
I continued our discussion, having all but forgotten about
his warning in regard to my parents, "you'd remember that
he wrote about what's being bad ai|d good are prejudices
which the eternal reality cannot recognize.'*
"Come now, don't start throwing quotations at me.
I never heard about this Spinoza," Timothy objected angrily.
"I told you, I'm not an educated angel. All I know for sure
is that God is the eternal reality . **
"If you aren't infallible, why should I make my parents
in?"
postpone their trip?
"Did I ever fail you? Please, do as I told you and
stop arguing. You give me a headache."
It was true, he had never failed me in all the years
since he had revealed himself to me. Well, I went to my
father and bluntly asked him if he had made his last will
He thought that I was interested in how much he would
leave me, for at that time I was a big spender. I set
him straight that for once I didn't care for his money,
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but that 1 had an uncanny feeling in regard to that night
train. I always followed my intuitions. I told him. and
1 felt it in my bones that something was going to happen
to that train. He was a stubborn man who didn't believe
in intuitions. However. 1 didn't stop pleading and reminded
him that my extra-sensory perception had been proven right
before. That's how I had explained Timothy to him on pre=
vious occasions whenever he didn't understand why I suddenly
changed plans. He accepted E.S.P. to a certain extent. If
I had told him about Timothy, I never would have persuaded
him. He wasn't an atheist, but religion was so much humbug
for him. God existed all right, but when it came to angels
he drew the line. The presence of a guardian angel would
be a joke as far as he was concerned.
"All right," he finally yielded to my entreaties. "I
don't want to hear anymore about it. If l wake up tomorrow
in that train and am dead, you're lij.able to accuse me that
you toK^me so." He went to the telephone and changed his
reservation to the morning train.
1 was still asleep early the next morning when my
father woke me up and told me that he had just heard over
the radio that that night train had been derailed and the
sleeping car, in which he had booked his state room,
was allegedly a total wreck. It was the worst train dis»
aster In a hundred years - which of course was nonsense.
There hadn't been any trains a hundred years ago. But
as Timothy is my witness - all passngers in that particu"
lar car had been killed.
Standing at my bed, my father, who was no more than
five feet four inches tall, looked down on me and asked
in awe, "What made you think we were in danger?"
1 heard Timothy whisper, "Don't tell him about me,
or the next time I won't warn you. Anybody but you isn't
actually my business, you know."
"Well, I guess, sometimes I have a sixth sense," I
tried to explain to my father.
He nodded his head and spoiled everything by quot*
ing Shakespeare that there are more things in heaven and
earth than are dreamt of.
I could hear Timothy chuckle.
After I got married Timothy also took Annie under
his protection. That was darned nice of him because he
did so voluntarily and despite the fact that he always
complained I alone was already too much of a burden for
him.
However, I have a sneaking suspicion that he also
fell in love with Annie in some sort of strange celestial
way. At least, he assured me that in his opinion she was
much more deserving to be guarded than I. Nonetheless, Che
son
-of-a-gun didn't give us any advance warning about the
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hotel bed we occupied on our wedding night. It collapsed
under us, which turned out to be quite embarrassing because
someone in the hotel must have talked about it. The one
and only newspaper in the small town, where we were, re-
ported the incident with all the glee of a mischievous
editor. For days afterwards people smirked at us when they
saw us. Besides, we were the object of many funny innuendos
and remarks - althbuth we didn't think they were so funny.
I wonder, if I have convinced you that I do have a
guardian angel. If you still doubt my veracity, I only can
feel sorry for you. Lacking in imagination, so I believe, is
very sad for anyone. It's like living without loving.
Speaking of Annie, please let me tell you who she is.
In case you aren't interested you may skip the next chapter.
What do I care if you miss reading about the one and only
romance in my life?
CHAPTKR THRKh:
WHO IS SHK?
Quite often Annie attracts or
rather has attracted the kind of attention which had
nothing to do with the indisputable fact that she was
a very pretty female and still is as far as I'm concerned
If you don't mind, let me give you a "for instance".
We were traveling in the slow, so-called daily
mail train from Harbin to Hsingking which at the ti
me
was the capital city of Manchuria or Manchukuo as it
was then called. How we had gotten into this predicament
does not matter right now and here. We will talk about
it later in the book. An>^ay , as chance would have it,
we two were the only foreigners among the Chinese peasants
and their families in this car of the train and probably
in all of the train. Few, if any, of these good people might
have seen or been so close to Europeans before. Like children
they did not hide their curiosity, and we very much felt
like freaks in a cicus side-show. Annie in particular was
the object of their amusement, something in the order as
if you or I would travel in the same compartment with a
topless dancer who really traveled topless.
Up to this day I have no doubt that these simple people
were afterwards telling some tall stories in their h
ome
villages about Annie, the Yang kwei-tze, the funny, foreign
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devil, who had performed a strip-tease for them. She might
even have become a kind of legend over the years.
It was late October. The weather had been getting
quite cold. For almost two weeks we had been riding on one
train or another through part of Germany, all of Poland,
Russia and Siberia. Now we were traveling through all of
Manchukuo. By nature, Annie was quite allergic to cold
weather, much more so than I.
She began to unpeel, so to speak, after we had found
two seats in the confounded mail train, in which we were
not supposed to be in the first place. But through no
fault of ours we had missed by less than a minute the
Asia Express in Harbin and so had been compelled to take
the mail train if we didn't want to miss our boat in
Dairen the following morning. We did anyway, but that's
another story entirely.
Thus unwillingly Annie became the star attraction
for the poor Chinese peasants who had bundled themselves
into what was probably the only items of clothing they
possessed, that is ragged quilted coats and baggy pants,
held together by a rope around their midriff. Instead of
regular shoes they wore thin, soft cloth slippers. Their
babies were similarly drcssed«,but their pants had slits
where their little behinds were, an innovation which made
it easier for the mothers to let nature have its way. No
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t
diapers or little panties, which they did not know any*
way, were necessary. When nature called, the mothers held
their babies away from them, parted the slits and that was
it. No trouble at all unless one would have been squeamish
about the smell or the sanitation which these simple peasants
were not. Annie and I, being so much in the minority, did
not dare to voice or even show our disapproval.
Gradually they congregated around us and the more
Annie was taking off, the more amused they grew. They
laughed and chatted and had a real good walla-walla which
could mean a talk-feast or a gossiping session. What else
could Annie do, but/laugh and smile back at her audience?
If they had fun watching her, we had fun watching them. It
was a new experience for all of us.
The train was relatively well heated, at least too
much for all the clothing Annie wore. She took off her
fur coat, and as she did so, our fellow travelers saw
that underneath she was wearing another coat, made of
heavy, grey wool. She took that one off. I don't know what
they expected, but she still had not reached her altogether.
Under the grey wool coat she wore a woolen suit. That,
indeed, was too much. The laughter grew hilariously. No-
body in the world could ever wear so much. At least, they
had never seen anything like it. It was not the end, but
almost. Annie now took off the suit jacket and lo and behold
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under it she was wearing a wool sweater. She brought the
house down. They really rolled in the aisles. They were
so much/affected by laughter that they clapped their hands
in sheer wonderment. What next? Would she also take off
the sweater and what would be under it if anything? Their
anticipatory fascination was beyond anything we had ever
observed. Annie said to me that she felt like a strip
teaser, but she would be damned if she would go any
further with the show. She would not let them see her
woolen underwear. They might die from laughter. Yet, hav==
ing been an actress, she was hard up not to take a bow.
she never had had such an appreciative audience. At last
she sat down and unintentionally continued her performance.
As she removed her rubber boots, her audience went
down to squat on the floor, or those behind stood on the
benches to have a better view at what was happening now.
After all, this was a sensational, new experience - a
"miserable" female who not only wore boots, but under them
even a pair of shoes and stockings. Hei-ho, hei-ho, they
thought, Annie and I must be rich land owners in our country
that we could afford so much clothing. Nobody paid any
attention to me, for I had one coat only and one pair of
shoes. Finally, when the show seemed to have come to a
close, they all got up again or stepped down from the
benches. That was the moment when they discovered the
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•
upstanding, green feather on Annie's cute felt hat. Indeed,
it was the punch line, the master stroke of comedy. Who
ever had worn a feather on a hat, not to speak of a hat
at all? They formed a line so that each one could pass by
Annie and fingertip that feather, making it swing back and
forth. Then at last they retired to their seats to discuss
the phenomenon of this crazy foreign woman.
Opposite from me sat an old Chinese with a straggly beard.
After all the commotion had died down, he pointed at the
feather on Annie's hat and sadly shook his head. Apparently
he did not approve of a mere "miserable" wife who dressed
like a peacock. Chinese peasant women were much too modest
for that. But he was quite a friendly fellow. After a while
he asked us, "Ho la ma?" (How are you?). Of course, we
didn't know a word of Chinese and so just nodded, instead
of politely answering, "Gay ho la nay no la ma" (Very well,
thank you, hope you are too) . For a short moment the old
man looked at us with a kind of pity. It dawned on him
that we were very ignorant people who did not understand
a word of Chinese which, however, did not keep him from
conversing with us. For no reason I can explain I called
the old man - Ottokar, a name that certainly did not fit
him. It just came to my mind and to this day, whenever I
think of him, he has remained to me - Ottokar.
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The old man took It upon himself to describe for us
the landscape through which we were traveling. He chatted
away as if we were old friends. From time to time I said
a few words in German and he smiled with satisfaction al-
though he understood as little German as we did Chinese,
that is none at all. Nevertheless, we had a wonderful con=
versation and all would have been well if he had not
smelled so much of garlic that I got nauseated and had
to smoke one cigarette after another to overcome his
foul breath.
When around midnight the train reached Hsingking,
Annie reversed her performance. She stepped into her
rubber boots, put on her suit jacket, then her wool- and
finally her fur coat. Actually, she was not wearing all
these garments only because it had been quite cold through
Siberia and in Harbin, but more so because we had had no
space for them in the suitcases we had managed to take
along on our flight from Nazi-Germany. Once more our
fellow travelers gathered around her. When she alighted
from the train, they all bowed to her in deep reverence.
Nobody took any notice of me. Only old Ottokar shook my
hand in commiseration for having such a vain and miserable
woman for a wife.
to draw attention to herself, had happened many years
before that show in the Manchurian mail train. It was a
very cold winter day in Hamburg, Germany, and the two of
us were briskly walking along a crowded douTitown thorough-
fare. I began to notice that people stared at Annie, then
smiled and even looked back when they had passed us. After
a while I wondered what was the matter. I shifted my eyes
to her and as they traveled from her head downward I dis=«
covered to my dismay the reason why she had become the
sinecure of all eyes. She was wearing a fur jacket which
she held tightly together with her arms as a protection
against the cold wind. That damned jacket had drawn her
skirt high up and she was walking with her woolen, red
panties exposed.
Oh, I could cite many more "for instances'", but I
better leave it be for the time being.
Who is she? Her maiden name was "Milde'^ (mild in
English), and she very much lived and still lives up to
as/
that name. She is/even-tempered as a storm which never
breaks. She is not given to crying spells or temper tantrums
and has a beautiful smile that I wouldn't sell for a million
dollars. She does not know how to complain although she
often had reasons for it. She is not a demanding or domineer'
Ing woman. What we can't afford to have, we can't afford
Another "for instance", how Annie managed
to have, and that's that. She understands less about
money
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than I do, and in her case that is nothing. She has no
head at all for any business deals, but thank God she
"digs" me which is not very easy and certainly more than
I do myself. She is the perfect wife for a writer, not
gabby and as quiet as a mouse when I am working. She is
a trustworthy critic and not afraid to tell me where I
went wrong in her opinion. In most cases she's right, too,
although I won't always admit it. There is no malice in
her, and she can't tell a lie, even if it would kill her.
No, that's not entirely true. Aside from official docu=
men
ts she would not tell the truth about her age. It
even confuses me sometimes.
It is quite a complicated job to be a writer's wife.
f
Stuart Cloete wrote in an articleabout "The Writer's
Life": " The person to be sorry for is his wife. Hers is
a lonely existence with rivals she cannot see. When he's
working, a writer is absent-minded; when he's finished, he's
used up and depressed, convinced he'll never write another
line - until the next idea gets hold of him and he dis=
appears into his private euphoria."
Annie, indeed, never failed to cope with this kind of
life and this kind of a husband. And that is a trait very
few women possess unless they're writers theirselves.
Who is she? She is not one of those demonstratively
emotional women, thank God, and neither is she a typical
housewife as she herself will admit. I could not live
with a woman who prefers cleaning to reading, cooking to
discussing events of the day, washing laundry to talking
about literature. As far as house chores are concerned
we keep them to a minimum and share equally in them. Most
of our married life we didn't have a house to clean. We
lived a nomadic existence and didn't care to possess our
own furniture or whatever normal married couples cherish
to own. We lived for each other and that sufficed as far
as we were concerned. To ray estimate she always was and
still is pretty and as I said has a million dollar smile
which quite often pulled me through, in particular after
the many massive operations I had to undergo. She doesn't
panic and can take misfortune and fortune without getting
all excited about it. We both had severe bouts with cancer
and survived without making a great issue about them. Her
faith in God knows no bounds and that is all one needs to
live a happy life. We two always got along famously and
still do so after many years of marriage. Our love for
each other did not diminish, but has grown like wine
mellows with age. We believe that we have two hearts and
one soul.
At the time wc got married no one gave us any odds
that we would stick it out for more than a year. I was
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dltions or dogmas in any way whatsoever. My father was a
very liberal man who did not deny the ethical standards
of Judaism, but accepted them without outside demonstrations
The idea of regulated worship was anathema to him. A re-
ligious person, so he believed, was not necessarily a
good person. Consequently I was n^er officially confirmed
to be a Jew, that is I did not go through the formalities
of a barmitzvah. My mother, although she, too, never went
to worship in a synagogue, strangely enough felt initially
sad that I did not marry a Jewish girl.
Annie was Catholic and had been reared in a convent.
Her folks, in contrast to mine, were blindly orthodox and
threw her out when they learned she was engaged to a Jewish
boy. Such are religions. They induce people to act ridicu*
lously divisive,
Annie and I had never any trouble in that respect. We
never did prescribe to any organized religious sect. It is
our opinion that religion actually boils down to human be=
haviorism and relation to one another. Otherwise it is
nothing but a crutch. If we had had children, we would
have brought them up with faith in God and no more. What-
ever religion they would have or not have chosen, that
would have been their own business. Neither would we have
objected if they had wanted to marry a Chinese, a Negro,
or a Hottentot. As wo judge a person only by his or her
character, cultural and educational standards as well as
individual merit, so we would have Judged their chosen
mates in the same manner. Nobody, not even parents, have
the right to interfere with any grown-up person. We do not
know, though, how we would have acted to any child of ours
if he or she would have embraced either Communism or Fascism
That is a question neither of us can answer now because we
feel very strongly about it. We cannot abide extremism.
We two literally met on the stage. I was her director
a/
and she was/completely inexperienced, naive young actress.
At first I didn't take much notice of her other than I
thought she had a funny face. She still has. Then all of
a sudden, as if a veil ha^ fallen from my eyes, I took to
her so hard that I didn't let her reject me, although she
was determined never to marry. I pursued and brainwashed
yielded. /
her until she finally/iji
She had one
great asset in her favor. Ever since her early childhood
she had been an orphan, brought up by an aunt and uncle.
At least I didn't have to cope with parents-in-law. I al-
ways thought that one set of parents, as wonderful as they
were, was sufficient for me.
It was quite silly to predict that our marriage could
not last long because supposedly we came from two different
worlds. There is only one world for all human beings and
any difference among them are of our own makings. Anyway,
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our marriage has now happily lasted for very many years
although It had not been sanctified by a priest, a rever-
end or a rabbi. We were satisfied to swear our allegiance
before a justice of the peace. After all, any marriage
certificate Is just a piece of paper with no guarantee
attached that the promises It contains will be kept. It
Is nothing but a treaty between two parties and If treaties
would always be adhered to, then we would have neither
divorces nor wars. The same applies to Invocations by
so-called raen-of-God. They are mere words, hollow and
empty, If goodwill does not exist. In wars God Is called
upon to help, abet and bless soldiers of two opposing
armies. What kind of religious chicanery Is that? Does
anyone with a sane mind believe that God takes sides?
God here on earth Is represented by each single human being
and no evangelist can change that. We are all children of
God. Unless each one of us recogaczQ4 and accepts this
simple fact we cannot live In peace. The few self-styled
representatives of God I have met did not encourage me to
join any of their denominations.
Our marriage started under the gathering clouds of
rising Nazism. Even under normal circumstances a mixed
marriage Is generally frowned upon. Under Hitler It became
an outright crime. It Is a sad commentary that even today
In the new nation of Israel a mixed marriage Is not recog'
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nlzed under the law and children of mixed marriages are
considered bastards. Why have the Israelis not learned
from the Infamous Nuremberg race- laws?
CXir life together was destined to be fraught with
hazardous ventures, most of them through no fault of our
own. I have little doubt that I must have been created by
God when he was In a fighting mood. Through all my youth
I got Into one scrape after another, and I had more black
eyes and bloody noses than anyone else In my age group.
fven before I was a teen-ager I didn't let anyone abuse
me
because I happened to be a Jew. Later on as a soldier
I was anything but subservlant which certainly did not
endear me to any officer of the Prussian variety. I still
believe that in my own way I am as good a man as anybody
else, and I will stand up for my rights the same as I
will admit my errors. As I do not feel inferior to anyone.
I neither do feel superior.
f:^
The turbulence of the post Arst t/orld i/ar years,
when Germany was in a constant state of paroxysm, cer=
tainly drew me already Into an adventurous life. It was
natural with me to join those groups who stood up against
the evils of left and right extremism. It's not my nature
to bend with the wind. In fact, I was almost constantly
Involved against or for some vital political and social
Issues.
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Contrary to her sedate upbringing In a small, pro-
vincial town and within the narrow confines of a dicta=-
torlal religion, which demanded and expected total sub=»
servlance and unquestioning obedience to its dogmas and
rituals, Annie had within her the spark of rebellious
opposition which broke into full bloom after she had
hitched up with me. In short, she became as foolhardedly
combative as I always had been. She as a non-Jew accepted
the challenge of anti-Semitism. Like me she lacked the
courage to be a coward.
Our first adventure, a few weeks after we
had gotten married , rose from the fact that I was scheduled
to play the leading part in a play to which the few local
Nazis in the small town vigorously objected. Not only
did these nincompoops object/to the part and play, but
they also objected to me personally, being the only Jew
in the cast and even in the town where we were playing.
On the afternoon of the opening of the play I went
for a haircut to the one and only barbershop. Then and
there three representatives of these brown-shirted morons
approached me and quite frankly warned me that 1 would be
the target of one of their shooting practices in case I
Insisted in playing the part /that night. What else could
I do but tell them to go to hell? They might have eventually,
but they certainly did not do so that day.
It happened at the end of the second act. The brave
more/
Nazi warriors - there could not have been /than half a
dozen - menacingly advanced to conquer the stage and
slay the villain -me. My fellow actors prudently (I
use this polite adjective here advisedly, for it is a c j
common human frailty not to want getting involved in some
one else's troubles) retired. I had no choice but to stand
my ground although I don't like to act the part of a hero
if I can help it, but I disapprove of being a coward so
much more. A coward, as I already had learned at this
young age, dies a thousand deaths. Anyway, like Martin
Luther at Wittenberge (or was it Worms?) I felt like
shouting at these miserable imbeciles, "God help me I
I II
Here I standi I can't do otherwise 1
Suddenly, though, I noticed that I had a co-defender -
Annie. She had run out onto the stage and for lack of any
real weapons she had grabbed the next best things that
were handy - a hairbrush in one hand and a prop-brick
(made of cardboard) in the other. She did not have the
stature of a Brunhilde (the mighty female warrior in
Germanic mythology), but the spirit of this legendary
woman possessed her. With a hairbrush and a cardboard
brick she rallied to my side to win or die with me.
I cannot say why, but the sight of Annie with her
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pert nose^nhanclng her whiifclcal face, and her gentle eyes,
now livid with scorn, stopped the storm troopers in their
tracks. For a moment it looked like a stalemate, but then
they turned about and retreated after having raised their
right arras and shouting the Nazi salute "Heil Hitler".
Annie definitely was the heroine. The audience, as well
as our "prudent" fellow actors applauded her. It was her
first great triumph on stage and she deserved it. She, too,
had not much talent for heroics, but where I was concerned
she never hesitated to stand up and be counted.
You can bet your sweet life that whenever
anything happens to me it won't happen in the ordinary
way and without any dramatic impact. Over the years Annie
has gotten used to it, but so short after our wedding it
still makes me wonder that the events did not leave her
with some traumatic shock. On the evening following the
ludicrous Nazi attack I was stricken by appendicitis .fllBr
The entire incident could well be called a comedia d'el
arte or a fa4ce if my life had not been at stake. At that
time appendicitis was often fatal. Timothy was too much
annoyed to be disturbed, but nonetheless assured me in
his grouchy way that I won't be dying.
There was only one over-aged general practitioner in
town and a retired navy surgeon whose medical reputation
was not the best. Both of them had already gone to bed
^
and did not take it kindly to be rudely awakened out of
their slumber. After a cursory medical examination I
was taken on a stretcher with torch bearers fore and aft
to the so-called local hospital. Our landlady assured
Annie that we were all in God's hands, a superfluous,
unctuous reminder because she was always well aware of
it. The question remained, though, how well God's hands
were guiding the hands of the two medicine men. I had
felt too miserable to tell her about Timothy's assurance.
Not yet married two months Annie learned her first lesson
that being my wife was fraught with dramatic surprises.
She followed the swaying stretcher and torch bearers
through the narrow, dark streets - a kind of medieval
procession if there ever was one. In a theatrical way
it was a badly written scene as if lifted from a classic
opera in which heroes and heroines ridiculously die for
at least ten minutes, singing their hearts out to the very
last moment. Luckily for Annie she could not foresee that
in another thirty years (what young couple ever imagine
that they still would be together in thirty years?) I
would make surgery an almost continuous feature in my
life. But as young and inexperienced as she was, she kept
•^«.
her cool although she was tretbling from fear on the inside.
It was her nature not to let her emotions take full control
of her.
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The so-called hospital was a narrow, ancient two
story brick building, behind which a small, but rapid
and noisy waterfall could drive any patient to a nervous
breakdown. The upper floor was one big hall, containing
sixteen cots. That night only one was occupied by an old
drifter who suffered from delirium tremens. On the ground
floor was a single private room with an old, creaking
bed that was even too short for me although I stand only
five feet six inches in my stockinged feet. Another larger
room served as the general practitioner's office and in
case of an emergency as the surgeon's operating theatre.
No sane resident in the little town would let that surgeon
even lay a hand on him or her unless the emergency was one
where the patient could not be transported to a hospital
some thirty mountainous kilometer distant. A single,
elderly nurse, who had her living quarters also on the
ground floor, was on duty twenty- four hours a day but
take/
she did not /very kindly to a patient who rang for her after
ten p.m. It did not faze me a bit. Whenever 1 had need of
her, I called for her with such insistence that she had
to get out of bed and come to see what was the matter with
me. Neither did she care to show her displeasure, nor did
she bother to throw a robe over her flannel night gown.
Disgruntled as he was, the retired navy surgeon with
the assistance of the over-aged general practitioner succeeded
in removing my appendix in one piece although it was on
the point of bursting. 1 guess, Timothy made sure that
nothing was done which could ^danger my life. However,
it took the two doctors close to three hours which poor
Annie had to sweat out on a wooden bench in the hall
where behind a window the waterfall worked on her nerves in
the manner of a Spanish torture.
The next day and each day as long as I was in that
hospital the local newspaper issued a medical progress
report about me. At that time, years before Hitler came
to power, the citizenry like in any democratic country
still had the right to make their opinions known by
letters to the editor, and they were with one exception
all in favor of me. How I ever could have fallen victim
to appendicitis as a result of what the letters to the
editor claimed to be was "an uncalled-for, shameful attack
by the brown storm troopers" is impossible to figure out,
but that seemed to be the general idea in town. In fact,
these "poor" brown devils were urged by public opinion
to apologize to me and on the third day a delegation of
two appeared at the hospital with the intention to do
penance. This probably was the one and only time in the
history of Nazidom that any member of the S#A, or S.S.
ever tried to beg forgiveness fromj/a Jew. I told the
nurse to throw them out. Apologies were not acceptable
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to me. It gave me a good feeling to add insult to injury
although Timothy disapproved. He had been brainwashed
that only the meek inherit the earth. I was anything
but meek, sorry, folks. Later, after Hitler had taken
over Germany, these same storm troopers killed the Jews
first without apologizing afterwards. As heroes they were
and remained a sad lot.
Annie, though, never learned to restrain her fighting
spirit in my behalf. Some •• years after the storm troopers'
attack on me she pulled another "heroic", but more danger^
ous stunt. During the years prior to the Hitler regime
I had become quite well known as an anti-Nazi and anti-
r> an/
Communist writer. After 1933 I joined/fflt anti-Nazi re=:
sistance underground movement as well as a Jewish organ=
ization to help Jewish artists who were the first victims
to lose their livelihood under the Nazi regime. No doubt,
I had been and remained a thorn in the eyes of the Nazis,
but for some time and for reasons unknown to me they left
me alone.
One day, Annie and I walked along one of Hamburg's
most famous boulevards, the Jungfemstieg (literally
translated: The street of the Virgins although I defy
anyone who dares to claim of ever having seen a virgin
there, since it was a favorite yolace for higher class
street walkers). A newspaper "boy" (he must have been
in his twenties) , wearing a brown Nazi storm trooper uni-
form, was exclusively selling the infamous weekly Nazi
periodical "Der Stuermer" (The Stormer) , published and
edited by the obscene, filthy-minded Nazi Gauleiter
Julius Streicher. It so happened that in that week's
paper my name was featured in the headline. "Hear all
about the Jew-Bastard Max Berges" the storm trooper news=»
boy yelled. That was too much for Annie. It didn't disturb
me. Actually, I considered it an honor to be worthy of
being the subject of Streicher' s excrementitious mind.
I told Annie so, but she couldn't see it my way. The
very moment we passed this brown- uniformed newspaper
seller she turned on him with all the fury of a female
knight in shining armor or rather a female chevalier
sans peur. She grabbed the stack of newspapers and threw
it into the gutter (where it really belonged, I had to
admit). The man was so surprised that he didn't put up
his dukes in time. Annie did not only give him a tongue-
lashing, but also hit him over the head with her umbrella.
Naturally, a crowd began to gather around us and the
situation became essentially dangerous. I had no choice
but to pull Annie away before other storm troopers could
be attracted. We were lucky not to have ended up in Ge-
stapo headquarters which already was known as a place
where unbelievable brutalities were perpetrated on anti-
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Nazis and Jews. I was both.
h Yet - believe it or not - I was no
stranger at Ge«
stapo headquarters. In fact, I had been
a regular "visitor"
there because I was in a position to be
of help to some
of my fellow Jews by being the contact man between them
and the Gestapo. Each time I went there
I took my life
in my hands, but in 'the end and by some
fortunate happen=»
stance I was saved from being arrested and most probably
being killed in a concentration camp-^on
which proved to
be my last visit to Gestapo headquarters. Later Timothy
claimed that he had arranged the entire
rescue mission. i
He might have and I tend to believe him
because my case
i was/ a singular one although it did fit
well into the
many dramatic aspects of my life.
After Hitler had come to power the
German Jews were
forbidden to enter any public place like a restaurant.
a theatre, a movie house or whatever else. A small group
of Jewish artists and others founded the Jewish Kultur=
bund (Jewish League for Culture) , the aim of which was
to employ only Jewish entertainers (who
like me had been
dismissed and could not perform their profession anymore)
by Organizing concerts and theatrical performances for
exclusively Jewish audiences. We were obliged to submit
L in detail each manuscript or program to
the Gestapo for
censorship and permit. I was elected to
do just that for
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reasons which are of little importance anymore. I had to
go to Gestapo Headquarters once a month. It was quite an
unpleasant job which again and again I undertook with
trepidation. The Gestapo agents were like vipers. One
never knew when they would strike.
Each time I was led to the same office to see the
same man to whom I had to submit our programs and manu-
scripts. He kept them and called me back several days
later to pick them up again after he had censored them.
Of course, he had neither the education nor the experience
for such a job and seldom discovered any of the subtle
and sometimes not so subtle anti-Nazi innuendos we had
built into our programs. Generally he blue-penciled the
wrong lines. Like most of the fanatical Nazis he lacked
a sense of humor.
On ray visit in October of 1935 a mistake occurred.
I was led to the wrong office to a man whom I had known
prior to 1933. He had been a member of the Social-Democratic
Party, the real arch-enemy of the Nazis. He - like some
others - had been delegated to infiltrate the Gestapo as
spies. Most of them were later exposed and executed. At
seeing me, he almost did a double flip. I was the last
person he expected. Not wasting a moment's time he in«»
formed me that he had just seen the list of the next series
of arrests which would go into effect in three days. My
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name topped that list. Someone had denounced me as a member
of our underground group. He gave me one advice: Don't
hesitate. Get out of Germany and get out without delay.
The most I had were forty-eight hours. He also warned me
not to draw any or all of my money out of my bank account.
The bank was duty-bound to report it to the Gestapo who
then immediately would take me into custody.
Naturally, I didn't submit the programs and manuscripts
we had prepared for the following month, but left the omin-
ous building as hastily as I could without arousing special
attention. I really was on the spot. Although I had suc-
cessfully managed many times to smuggle other people in
danger of arrest out of Germany, I could do little or
most probably nothing for myself just then. As bad luck
would have it, all my contacts were unavailable for some
reason or other. Luckily I had had the foresight to acquire
passports for Annie and myself before Hitler came to power.
They were still valid. Moreover, I had enough ready cash
stashed away. I always had known that the day would come
when we had to quit Nazi-Germany in a hurry.
I cannot help but admit that Timothy was on the ball.
I had not walked away from Gestapo Headquarters for more
than a hundred yards when I literally bumped into a man
whom I had met once. His name was Moritz Pfeiffer.
me. He said that I was God's answer to his troubles. It
turned out that he was also the answer to my troubles.
Walking along toward the next street car stop, he told me
that he was born in Tientsin, China, and that his parents
were now living in Shanghai. All this may sound like a
fairy tale, but it was true, so help me God. He wanted
to go back home, as he called Shanghai, but he didn't
have and couldn't get the money for the trip. He was
stone broke and nobody would lend him a cent. He was
small and chubby with the dishonest face of a sly con-
man. Despite my predicament, which somehow stunted my
thinking processes, I should have asked him why his
parents didn't send him the money or why he had not
tried to interest the Jewish community council in his
case. Normally I would have inquired, but at this very
momenmothing else mattered bH^getting Annie and myself
out of Germany. I just listened to his proposition and
accepted it on its face value because it showed me the
way out of our dilemna.
This man Pfeiffer assured me that it was a cinch for
him to get Chinese entry visas for us without delay and
any trouble. By helping us, all we had to do was lending hi
fifteen hundred Mark so that he could return to Shanghai.
His parents would pay me back the day we arrived there.
m
This Pfeiffer fellow was tremendously happy to see
It seemed to be an#excellent bargain since according to
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new Nazi laws ^emigrants could not take more than twenty
dollars per person out of Germany. The time to organize
our flight was so short that we had to obtain immigration
visas fast In order to make the forty-eight hour deadline.
Besides by lending Pfeiffer the money we would not be
totally destitute after we arrived in Shanghai. I agreed
eagerly that early the following morning Annie and I
would meet Pfeiffer at the Chinese Consulate. After we
had gotten our Chinese entry visas I would hand over to
Pfeiffer fifteen hundred Mark in cash for which he would
sign an I.O.U. Furthermore, I insisted upon our traveling
together and thus would arrive at the same time in Shang=
hai where his parents would repay me in Chinese currency.
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In his enthusiasm Pfeiffer called me his saviour. As
I learned too late, I could have gotten the Chinese visas
without him. Besides he did not advise me in advance of
the necessary travel permits through Poland, Russia and
Manchuria. All one had to do - so I found out in Shanghai -
was to fill out application forms at the Chinese Consulate,
pay the required fee and one would get the visas without/
any trouble. The fuss Pfeiffer acted out for us had no
meaning at all. However, I do not think I would have
thought of immigrating to China if it hadn't been for him.
Savior? Perhaps. But sucker also starts with an "s*'.
When I came home to our suburban apartment, I told
Annie that within the next two days we were leaving for
Shanghai. Just like that, never figuring she would or
could be stunned by these news. During the almost two
years, since Hitler had come to power, we had talked
quite often about the necessity to emigratefit a moment's
notice/
/on account of my anti-Nazi activities, past and present.
We had little doubt that one day they would catch up with
me .
That's why I had no qualms to impart the news to
her without any preliminaries. However, her emotional
reaction surprised me. She was actually stunned at first
when this illusionary possibility had changed into fact.
I should have known that a woman has deeper roots than
a man. Besides, so she reasoned, one doesn't just go to
Shanghai. One just doesn't travel uncounted thousands of
miles to another, absolutely strange continent and country,
inhabited by very strange people (the only Chinese we had
ever known was our laundryman) with the knowledge that this
would be a sort of final move. One just doesn't leave be=»
hind all that was dear to oneself, our home and homeland,
our relatives and friends without any assurance whether or
not we would ever see them again. Going to Shanghai was
something incomprehensible to her. We had talked about
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going to Sweden, or England, Switzerland, or if at all
possible to America - but China, the Far East - never.
I could as well have told her we were going to the moon.
It took her minutes to recover and then she asked
if we were going by boat or train and how would we manage
to make a living there? If nothing else, women are always
practical, even under the most trying circumstances. I
had no answer yet to these questions other that Shanghai
would be much better than a concentration camp where I
would land within the next few days unless we succeeded
in our flight.
For some fifteen years prior to the day Hitler took
over I had worked hard to buiM a career for myself. By
the end of 1932 success was just around the corner. I
mi^ht have/
had signed the kind of contracts which/put me over the
top. But with Hitler not liking the Jews I had been
stopped short. I was not anymore allowed to follow my
profession. All my contracts were cancelled. It meant
the end of my dreams, my hopes and ambitions. Now in
October of 1935 my very life was at stake and I better
took care of that. I could do very well without a con=
ccntration camp where I certainly wouldn't stay alive
for long. I wasn't the kind of man who wouldn't hit
back when I was hit. I n^or had been able to keep my
mouth shut in regard to my low esteem of the N izis and
Communists. To this day I believe that neither the Ge-
stapo nor the Waffen SS (Black Storm Troopers) would
have succeeded in changing my obstinateness , tortures
or no tortures. Moreover, Annie - although she might
not have been arrested being an Aryan despite the fact
a/
that in the opinion of the Nazis she was contaminjted tff
as the wife of a Jew - would neither have kept quiet. We
both had been in the forefront of the anti-Nazi resistance.
It would have been more than foolish not to heed the warn-
ing. The time had come - as we had expected it would - to
get out and stay out. A martyr among millions of martyrs
not have been/
would/Sl a contribution to the anti-Nazi cause. As a
writer and speaker I could be of better use outside of
Nazi-Germany. Anyway, I could not see myself in the role
was/
of a martyr. That/not my style.
Annie's initial shock wore off as quickly as it had
hit her. Bless her, she had the heart and willpower of
an Amazon as long as we two would not be separated. We
were a team, and that was all which counted to her.
"When are we going to leave?" she asked.
"Day after tomorrow. Late in the evening or at night."
I assured her as if everything was already settled.
She wanted to hear my story in full and I gave/her
a detailed account. Of course, being a writer and an actor
she knew that I had a habit of partially fictionizing my
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non-fiction, and so she asked, slightly suspicious, "Is
that all for real, or do I have to get my blue pencil?"
For years she had been my literary conscience. Her
blue pencil had done quite a job on anything I had written.
We always had worked together.
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It's for dead real this time," I told her and she
believed me.
Without any further ado she got up. "All right, in
that case we better start packing."
There would be not much packing. We couldn't ship
anything out without arousing suspicion. All we could
take with us was what we could carry ourselves. We grieved
most about abandoning my books, some of which were quite
valuable. Nonetheless, we packed thirteen suitcases in
two days aside from rushing from one consulate to the
other in order to get all the permits we would need.
Of course, thirteen suitcases (two of which we filled
with canned food of all kinds like pumpernickel, crackers,
coffee, tea, sausage and butter) were too much of a load.
Once we had crossed the German border we could not afford
to hire porters anywhere. Somehow wo would have to manage
carrying the cases from one train to the next. But the
food was necessary because our paid fare included meals
only on the Trans-Siberian Express through Russia. A
friend of ours exchanged for us at his bank the required
amount of German Mark into forty American one-dollar
bills. We couldn't dare to apply for a special ex«
emption to take more money with us, and we couldn't
take the chance of smuggling any more money out in case
we were searched at the German border. We were lucky at
that to be able to pay for our entire fare from Hamburg
to Shanghai at the Russian Intourist travel-agency.
If the Gestapo had had any suspicion that we had
been fore-warned, they would have put us under constant
surveillance. Apparently they had not done so. Otherwise
our visits to the Intourist office and the several foreign
consulates would have given us away.
As Pfeiffer had predicted we had no difficulty in
getting our entry visas into China, having valid German
passports. After that we got the run-around. The Russian
Consulate stubbornly refused us transit visas unless we
obtained first the Polish transit visas. The Polish Con^
sulate played the same game. No Russian transit visas -
no Polish ones. We ran back and forth and our time got
shorter and shorter. Moreover, if some one at the Russian
Consulate would have recognized me as a former anti-Commu»
nist column writer, we would have real trouble. If they
granted us visas nonetheless, they might kidnap me in
Russia. Timothy tried to calm me down by telling me that
all would work out well. But what did he know? He could
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protect me from getting killed and that was all. I was
wrong. I under-estimated the power of guardian angels,
^e helf^^ the other in real emergency cases. Anyway,
we had to take our chances and before the day was over
I succeeded in persuading the Russian Consul to let us
have the transit visaswith the proviso that they wouldn't
be valid without the Polish transit visas. When the Polish
Consul saw the Russian transit visas he relented and
stamped his country's transit visas into our passports.
That was all we could manage to do the first day with=
out keeling over from sheer exhaustion. We went home,
slept for a few hours and then finished our packing.
The next morning we tramped to the Japanese Con=
sulate for our transit visas through Manchuria. But there
they played the same Russian game. The Japanese declared
that Manchuria - or Manchukuo as they called it - was a
sovereign state despite the fact that Japanese troops
occupied it. Since Manchuria was not diplomatically
represented in Germany we would have to buy our transit
visas at the Siberian-Manchurian border. That was exactly
what we didn't like. We could hardly afford to spend money
on any visas after we had left Germany. Besides we didn't
know how much we had to pay for them. On top of it - what
would happen if we were refused the transit visas? We would
be stranded for good. Who would come to our rescue? No one ^
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we surmised. However, we didn't dare to think about
such an eventuality if we wanted to keep our sanity
in tact. As it was, our future held nothing but un-
certainty .
I had no other choice but to rely on Timothy, but
he began to act strangely. After insisting on knowing
what was eating him, he explained that he wasn's so
sure if he would get any celestial permit to accompany
us through godless Russia. Ever since the Communists
had taken over there only very few guardian angels were
stationed in that country and these had to undergo special
training first. I simply blew my top. I had had it. I
told him to get that celestial permit or else we would
have to go without him. If anything was going to happen
to me, he would have that on his conscience. He said
that he had not much of a conscience. Never had, in fact,
but the possibility that he might be punished in case I
met with disaster without him was another matter. He was
certain that he would be penalized for neglecting his
duties toward me. Anyway, he must have gotten his permit
because (le never mentConed this nonsense again. It's my
contention, though, that he invented the permit story be-
cause he disliked nothing more than traveling.
At the last moment my older sister hexed a second
travel companion on us by the name of Schneider. He, too,
had no money, but I had none left to lend him any. With
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the help of my sister he got it from another source. As
it turned out, he was as much of a pain in the neck as
Pfeiffer.
During the last hours prior to our departure Annie
grew scared. It was the first time I saw her crying.
Suddenly she was overwhelmed by the idea that we had to
tear ourselves loose from all we had cherished. She was
overwhelmed by the idea that we just had to walk out of
our apartment, leaving everything behind. Our thirteen
suitcases contained only the bare necessities. We faced
an unknown future as refugees. We faced a country that
might as well be on another planet. We had to speak in
a foreign language. The whole world, as she had known it,
seemed to collapse around her, and how could she or anyone
accept a catastrophe of such magnitude? I stilled her
tears and in all our life together I saw her crying only
once more.
I myself had a hard time to put up a brave front the
very moment we closed the door of our apartment behind us.
It constituted a frightening finality, a total break with
the past which never could be bridged again. Then already
we felt like fugitives as in fact we were. We had not com=»
mitted any crime and yet we were fugitives. We had to flee
from a country, our country, where humancAaws had been
officially abolished. We knew that not the entire German
of/
population had gone Nazi or did approve/IB^ iflBt Hitler.
Yet, very few had dared to rise in protest.
As in all national crimes the foremost guilt belonged to
the silent majority. Even in the last free German election
in March of 1933 Adolf Hitler and his party of thugs had
not pulled more than forty-six to forty-seven percent
of the entire vote cast. He was a minority leader. To
this day it is my belief that the hard-core Nazis could
not be called Germans and did not represent the majority
of Germans. But Hitler had seized power to use it with a
brutality that frightened the people into submission. Any=
one who stood in his way was eliminated and the Jews were
the principal object of his paranoiac hatred. It was the
beginning of a tragedy that would engulf the whole world.
At eleven p.m. on October 18th, 1935, we boarded the
train to Berlin where we had to change to another one that
would take us all the way through Poland to the border of
Soviet-Russia, ruled by another mass-murderer - Joseph
Vissarionovich Stalin.
Then and there at the Hamburger Hauptbahnhof (main
railway station in Hamburg) we said good-bye to my family
and a few friends. We never saw anyone (with one exception)
of them again and in our hearts we knew it. It was a tear*
like many others/
ful farewell although my parents /SBitbelieve^c hat
not/
Hitler could/last longer than a few months ■■01 or at
most a year. They, at least, didn't feel the finality
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of our separation. They scoffed at my conviction that
the jj/azis were to stay for at least a dozen years.
None of us took much notice of Pfeiffer and Schneider.
They had no one to see them off. Besides, Schneider, wear-
ing a ridiculous black cut-away suit, looked like a funeral
director.
At no time Annie faltered. She went where I went.
She took what I had to take and sometimes more. She
stood by roe as I stood by her. She is a great gal who
could take it and still can as she has proved many times
over, even after we had settled in America. She is my
life and I am hers. We were and still are a team. We
thank God for each day He is keeping us together.
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CHAPTER FOUR
FROM WEST TO EAST
Throughout the trip from Ham=
burg to the Polish border (with a short stop-over and
change of trains in Berlin where some good, faithful
and courageous gentile friends of ours bade us farewell,
unmindful of the danger of being publicly seen convers*
ing with a Jew) Annie and 1 remained sitting in our com=
partment in stolid postures most of the time. Now and
then we exchanged a few meaningless words because we
had a sordid feeling of mentally dehydrating. Pfeiffer
or Schneider tried to talk to us every once so often,
but all they got from us were grunts or stony silence.
We were not sure if they understood that silence was
the better part of valor as long as we were still in
Nazi-Germany. Nobody else, of course, spoke to us. To
any German it was too obvious that I was Jewish - as
were Pfeiffer and Schneider - although I could have
been Spanish or Italian or South-American. But a person
with black hair and a fairly prominent nose aroused sus*
picion in Nazi-Germany. We were pariahs or at least I
felt that I was one. How quickly one could acquire an
inferiority complex. Maybe, the idea that our lives de-
pended on making it across the border affected me more
tmm
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than I had deemed possible. Although many thoughts and
emotions revolved In our minds, we would not have dared
to express any of them. After two years of Nazy tyranny
It had already come to the point where we would not trust
anyone but our most intimate friends and relatives. In
many cases, so we had learned, even they had betrayed
and denounced friends and relatives for no other reason
but to Ingratiate themselves with the Nazi authorities
or as a result of Inhuman tortures. Most certainly our
nerves were on edge as never before. We were unable to
sleep o/L doze off for short moments of relief. We could
not eat a bite. Our stomachs had closed up on us . I at
least had the solace of smoking cigarettes, but Annie
had never smoked before and didn't do so now. It was
Impossible to shed our apprehensions that somehow some=
where on the way the Gestapo would still catch up with
us. How could we succeed In slipping away unnoticed? I
was on their list as an enemy of the state. I was slated
for arrest the next day or the very same night while we
were about to cross the border. It would be a miracle If
they had not telegraphed wanted flyers to all border
stations. I tried to consult with Timothy, but he also
was taciturn and didn't offer me any solace as to what
was in store for us. He wouldn't commit himself one way
or the other.
The train reached the German border station a
few minutes before midnight the same day we had left
Hamburg. We knew this was It. Now or never. We pressed
our faces against the window to watch what was happen*
Ing on the platform outside. The sight was not very en=
couraglng. Quite a number of people were taken off the
train by SS men and forcibly led away. Would it happen
to us, too? These few minutes of waiting for whoever
would be ^<amining our papers and baggage seemed to be
hours of infernal agony. We were so close to freedom
and yet might be very far away. For a fleeting second
I had the crazy Idea of grabbing Annie's hand and run
for It - run to the other side and freedom. It was sheer
Insanity. We would have been shot In the back or captured
before we got out of the station. There were black-unl»
formed SS men and Security Police every\^;here . Luckily
I didn't succumb to an understandable panic. The other
side was still quite a distance away.
Pfelffer and Schneider were dozing unconcernedly.
Goddamn them! They were two companions we could have
never/
done without. In all my life, 1 think, 1 had/felt so
terrorized or would ever again. In moments when I was
faced with real danger - and there had been many such
moments - I had kept cool. It was not In my nature to
lose my head when I needYlt most. But now I was close
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to it. Very close. Too close for our security. My heart
was beating into my throat and looking at Annie 1 could
see In her eyes that she would not have survived these
few minutes without my presence. Timothy whispered to me,
tiT (
I m getting bored, riding in a train." I could have
punched his nose If that would have been possible.
At last they appeared at our compartment door, a
man In mufti who looked to us like a Gestapo agent (al=
though they were actually not distinguishable from other
civilians) and an# SS man, slick and arrogant in his
form-fitting, black uniform. We had/to conjure up all
our willpower so that our teeth would not Chatter. Ti=
mothy hissed disdainfully, "PfffftI" to let me know not
to worry. He could handle them with ease. We were ordered
to open each and every one of our thirteen suitcases.
Of course, we took them down from the overhead rack and
opened them. A strange metamorphosis came over Annie. She
suddenly bathed her face In a natural smile. It was so
Incomprehensible that It Irritated me. How could she
smile at our two deadly enemies? She was a wonderful
actress and her smile was Irreslstable. She knew It and
she used It as a defensive weapon.
I on the contrary was prepared to resist If these
two tried to take us outside. I rather would be killed
^but/
/kHP go with them. Pfelffer and Schneider just remained
seated, waiting for their turn while our suitcases were
curslly examined. They were too stupid to be afraid.
Annie continued smiling as If it all was a friendly
game. The Gestapo agent took our passports, paged through
them and said, "Quite a trip you're taking."
"Yes, It certainly Is quite a trip," Annie responded
without as much as a tremor In her voice. I think, she
could have broken Into a song (she liked to sing at any
time) and the two men might have joined her. Who could
tell? The atmosphere had become so relaxed that It would
not have surprised me. The Gestapo agent returned the
passports and then Inquired how much money we had on us.
I showed him the forty American dollars which he dutl=
fully counted before he gave them back to me.
"Xs that all?" he asked.
Stupidly honest as I usually am, 1 took one Mark and
sixty-five Pfennlge from my pocket. I didn't think they
would have any objection to this small amount In excess
of the twenty dollars permitted per person. They had not.
The SS man took the cash and pocketed It without a word
of explanation. There Is nothing more despicable than
petty thieves. After looking at Schneider's and Pfelffer' s
one suitcase each, their money as well as t h?lr passports
they departed for the next compartment. The Gestapo agent
threw one last smiling look back at Annie. I could have
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murdered him for it. My sense of humor must have gone
awry at this moment, I guess.
But then - oh, my God - then I took a deep breath
Joyful/
and exhaled it with the most (feeling of happiness any
one can eter experience. Annie had slumped down into
her corner seat at the window. Pearls of sweat appeared
on her forehead. Her smile must have cost her dearly.
"That was quite a performance/' I praised her and
would have liked to put my arras around her and kiss her.
"I almost died," she whispered. "I almost died."
I could well understand it. But it was over now.
These two were the last Nazis we were to encounter -
so I thought. I was wrong. We met more of them in Shang=
hai and on our voyage from ■■ East to Mi West. We met
them, clad in brown uniforms, marching on the yard of
the German school which happened to be almost across
from the house where we had rented a room in Shanghai.
Many times we heard them singing the Nazi national anthem
Song"
"The Horst Wessel^: "When Jewish blood flows from our
knives ."
Have you ever been aware that a dream
was nothing but a dream while you were asleep? If the
dream was a nightmare could you then compel your sub*
conscious mind to make you wake up and liberate you
from this nightmare? I have had this weird experience quite
often.
When at last our train rolled out of the German
border station, after the German crew had been replaced
by a Polish one, and slowly traversed the no-man's land
between the two borders, I felt that I was awakening from
a torturous nightmare I had willed to end. Annie and I,
holding hands, sat side by side. No words were necessary
to express our gratitude to God and our happiness for
being now out of reach of the Gestapo. In these few
a thought/
moments we did not even waste /about what was laying
ahead, the danger of traveling through the Soviet Union
against which I had as much agitated as against Nazi-
Germany, or of the total insecurity which was the lot
of penniless refugees. We just held hands and let the
immense wave of relief wash over us like a cleansing
detergent after the filth in which we had to wallow.
For the first time in twenty-four hours I closed ray
as/
eyes, and/T~did so a strange idea invaded my mind.
1 1
Now I am Ahasuerus, the wandering Jew," I said
loud enough for Annie to hear. "Now I am that legendary
poor Jewish cobbler who was doomed to live a wandering
life until the day of judgment."
I did not open my eyes and yet could feel that Annie
was looking at me.
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"No," she said, "you are not."
"And why not?" I asked. "Do we know if and when our
wandering will come to an end?"
"The'/ls no beginning without an end," she explained.
"How do you know?"
"I just know."
I wanted to remind her that eternity has no end, but
I let it go. The crazy idea that I was reduced to being
Ahasuerus, the poor Jew, destined to wander and wander
forever, hit me so deeply and suddenly that I withdrew
into my own soul and began to meditate about the mean=
ing of life. As never before I felt the heavy burden
that every one had to live his own life and die his own
death whenever that will be. Your life, the way you con=
duct yourself, the way you act and talk may make a few
waves which may be felt by a few others. Your deeds and
words may influence some of your friends or foes, but
if it comes down to the basic truth, you alone own your
life and you alone die your death. Therefore one should
never feel that one's life or one's death is of any im=
portance. It is nothing more than a fraction of a micro
dot in the annals of human history. Each one of us is
only a single issue of humanity, one among billions of
others. A few may permanently leave imprints in the sands
of eternity, but they can be easily counted. You live and
you die and that is all there is to your existence
on
this planet. In between you try to pursue happiness and
if you are born under a good omen you may find it. You
may conquer ignorance. You may be able to reduce your
prejudices and hatreds, for they, too, have little mean-
ing. You live and contribute your infinitely diminutive
share, good or bad, to the welfare or misery of mankind.
But you do not count so much that all life will stop with
yours. If you keep all this in mind while you live, then
y^ so/
you cannot possibly take all the ti^vialities/seriously
that you allow them to bother you. You will not anymore
be disturbed by a speck of dust on a piece of furniture
because in the end you yourself will be only a speck of
dust in all eternity.
It is written in the bible (Job 5:7): "Man is bom
unto trouble, as the sparks fly upwards."
I woke up from my day-dreaming and opened
my eyes. Annie must have watched me. The moment I looked
at her she smiled. That beautiful smile on her pixy face
never failed to enhance me. But then I remembered.
"How did you ever manage to smile at these two Nazis?"
I asked her.
"I didn't smile at them," she said, shaking her head.
"I smiled because the thought occurred to me that we were
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leaving Nazi-Germany while they had to stay behind. You
know, I could foresee the day when they' 11 envy us if
they're still alive then. I thought, the day surely will
come when they will consider us the lucky ones." For a
moment she stopped, then she continued in a manner as
if she could see into the future. One day, though, Ger*
many will be Germany again, but 1 don't think that we'll
ever return.
ti
Sometimes it was hard to figure her out. It never
bothered her to make predictions and the damned thing
about them was they proved to be right more often than
not. She even had and has dreams that came and come true.
Some time/
/B Ml 4B|Hi before we knew that we had to escape from
war-torn Shanghai she dreamt of a big, red ship, lying
anchored in a harbor. She didn't know where that harbor
was, but she could describe it as well as the red ship
in some detail. When several weeks later the boat, on
which we were traveling, sailed into the harbor of Kobe
in Japan, there it was as she had seen it in her dream,
and at the outer edge was the big, red ship which ap=
parently had been converted into a kind of lighthouse.
It was uncanny.
I could enumerate many such occur;cnces, but the one
which impressed me most happened many years later. By then
we were so closely attached to each other that our brain
waves often transmitted thoughts or even dreams from one
to the other. One nightl had been dreaming that I was in
a ladies clothing shop and saw a brown polka-dot dress
which I liked. I didn't look at the size or ask the
sales lady about it. I just bought it (something I never
would have done being awake) and took it home to Annie as
a present. Just then I woke up and so did Annie. Still
half asleep, she said, "You know, that brown polka-dot
dress is pretty. I like it, but it's just like a man not
to think if it's my size or not."
That was so extremely funny that I laughed loudly.
"What's the matter?" she asked.
I told her about my dream.
Now fully awake, she began to giggle. "Funny, isn't
it?" she told me. "Just before I woke up you gave/me this
dress in my dream.
ft
Please, don't shake your head or shrug your shoulders.
It's true and you explain it if you can. I certainly never
could rationalize her strange, mental escapades.
Well, we had closed our suitcases and stored
them again in the rack above us after the Nazis had left
our compartment. Luckily the Polish customs inspectors were
not interested in them since we were traveling in transit.
We showd our passports at the Polish border station and
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nothing untoward happened during the twenty hours we
yere traversing across Poland. Pfeiffcr and Schneider <:
were d4^gusted with us because we didn't play cards
and strictly ignored us while they were engaged in some
kind of card game I hadn't even heard of. Timothy was
around, but kept silent most of the time after having
once again/
/made it known to me that he disliked traveling more than
anything else. We wished, we could have interrupted our
trip in Warsaw for a day or two to go sightseeing. But
we weren't tourists to see the world. We were just
people in transit like so much merchandise. To us
Warsaw was just a large, bustling railway station.
Again it was night when we reached Negoreloje
at the Russian border. We had to carry our thirteen
suitcases to the Russian customs building. Neither
Pfeiffer nor Schneider gave us a hand, and I felt I
would be damned to ask them. We had left so much behind
in Germany, why the heck hadn't we left all? Thirteen
suitcases were too much for two people. Yet, we stuck
to them until we got to Shanghai. They contained all
we owned in the world.
While we were waiting in the square, brightly lighted
Russian customs budding (outside the night was pitch dark)
with our suitcases spread out on the quadrangle table to
be inspected, it suddenly occurred to me that I must be
out of my mind. We had just escaped by the scrape of our
necks from a country, dominated by gangsters, to enter
another country, dominated by another set of gangsters.
Prior to 1933 1 had written a weekly newspaper column,
directed against the Nazis and the Communists. To me
NaJ'.ism and Communism were and still are brothers- in-
arms. Fascists and Communists have basically the same
aims, to replace democracy with dictatorship, suppress
all indivudal and civil liberties and convert the world
into a spiritual graveyard.
Standing in that Russian customs h^ll, I remembered
the many threats I had received from Communists. They
had sworn (as had the Nazis) to get me one of these
days. Maybe now they had their chance while we were
traveling through the Soviet Union. Maybe some one in
the Russian Secret Police remembered my name, or maybe
they had even a dossier on me. Who could tell? As a
refugee 1 was an easy target. I had no protection. No
one would ever care if I disappeared in the vastness of
Russia. Where the Gestapo had failed, the Russian counter=
part might succeed. Actually, the danger of ending up in
a Russian slave- labor camp instead of a Nazi concent^daion
camp was a possibility. No writ of habeas corpus for us.
No justice of any kind for some one like me. I had no
business to enter the Soviet Union, but not to do so was
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beyond ray power. We were at the point of no return. Ti-
mothy was disgusted with me that I even could harbor such
morbid thoughts. If 1 was caught and sent to a labor-camp,
he had to accompany me. nolens volcns. He couldn't do any=
thing about it. but he had orders to keep me alive. Yet,
grudgingly he had to agree that we weren't safe until the
moment we had crossed the Russian border into Manchuria.
I looked around. In large letters and in several
languages the words: "WORKERS OF THE WORLD UNITE" were
painted on all four walls. In contrast to the labor unions
in capitalistic countries those in Soviet Russia as well
as in Nazi-Germany were absolutely powerless. They did
not have the right to bargain for better wages or any
other benefits. They were not allowed to go on strike, r
No employee or working man could quit a job on his own
volition. They had no rights whatsoever and still have
none. Why then should the workers of the world even con=
sider to unite with the ones in Russia and thus losejtheir
hard fought- for bargai^ning power? There was then and
still is no more imperialistic country than the Soviet
Union. The State was and is the only boss and the State
was and still is almighty.
Actually the Communist Manifesto by Karl Marx ends
with these words: "The workers have nothing to lose but
their chains. They have a world to win. Workers of all
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Under the feudalist Ic Communistic dictatorship the
working class had not lost their chains. They had gained
more tha'^; they had had before.
Already in this cement-walled, absolutely unadorned
and square, high-ceil inged customs building, which seemed
to stand in the midst of nowhere,. one had the depressed
feeling of entering a prison There was no friendly smile
to wjelcome us On the contrary we were treated with a
robot-like correctness - cold and impersonal The un«
spoken attitude of the customs officials clearly conveyed
to us that we were just being suffered like enemy invaders
At last a plump female inspector searched through our
baggage like a vulture picking dead bodies apart. Not a
word. Not a single question. Not even a glance at us. When
she was through, she silently waited until we had stowed
everything back into our suitcases and then sealed them
except three which contained only pajamas, underwear, a
few shirts and blouses as well as the one with our food
cans. As travelers in transit throughout the long trip
across Russia we weren't permitted to open the rest of
our luggage. Finally we had to show and declare in
writing the exact amount of money we had on us. Upon
leaving the country at the Manchurian border station we
would have to account for each cent we might have spent
while being in Russia.
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I do not know how a trans-Siberian Express trip
through Russia affects a foreign traveler now, but at
the time, when Stalin was riding high, it was lndescrib=
ably lugubrious. Then as well as now the country had a
and/
drinking problem which somehow provcd/jjl still proves
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that the peopp were and are seeking escape from the
oppressive Communist establishment. There is a Russian
nursery rhyme which expresses it well:
Chizik pizik, gdye ti bil?
Na fontenye vidka peel.
(Little birdie, where do you go?
To the fountain drinking vodka) .
It is a bad habit of mine to get sometimes
ahead of my story, and I hope you'll forgive me if I
now
relate an incident which happened shortly after we had
departed from Moscow. One evening a Russian lady joined
us in our compartment. Pfeiffer and Schneider were absent.
The trans-Siberian Express had no special sleeping cars.
In the second class men and women, whether they knew one
another or not, had to stay and sleep together in the
four bunks compartment^. That ' s how Pfeiffer and Schneider
were our companions in the same compartment throughout the
ten day trip through Russia. Luckily for us they had be-
friended a Dutchman who had a stateroom o^ his own in the
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first class part of the train. Pfeiffer and Schneider,
being natural f ree- loaders , were only too happy to share
many bottles of booze with this man.
Anyway, we were alone when this lady came to see us.
We had met her the day before in the dining car and since
she spoke German we were attracted to one another. Furtively
she closed the door behind her and sat down. She was in
such a depressive state of mind that she had to unburden
her heart to someone in order to keep her sanity under
control. For reasons we couldn't fathom she had chosen
us. She must have felt she could trust us not to betray
her. Her story was a sad and unique one, almost unbeliev"
able to people in free, civilized countries. She as well
as her husband were physicians. They and their two little
children lived in Moscow where they had the privilege of
having a small apartment of their own. Few people were
so fortunate unless they belonged to the high government
class. The so-called classless society was and still is
a myth. As a reputed pediatrician she had received govern-
ment orders to proceed to some place in Outer Mongolia to
take charge of a new children's hospital. She had no right
to refuse and had to go whether she wanted or not. She was
compelled to leave her family without having been assured
when or if ever she would see them again. Her contract
read for a five year stay in Mongolia, but her fear was
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that she might not be relieved at all in case she did a
good job there. How in the name of Hippocrates could she
do a bad job when the lives of little children were in
her hands? Long tears ran down her cheeks while she was
whispering this story in German to us, still afraid that
eavesdrop/
someone might/SHHTTv despite the closed door. That,
she said, was Soviet Russia, the paradise on earth.
Russia, the so-called democratic republic. As she left
us, she begged us to say a prayer for her and her family
Prayers, too, were forbidden in Stalin's Russia.
Well, we've got to return to the customs
building in Negoreloje, whether we like it or not, be=
cause I suddenly discovered that Annie had disappeared
from my side while I was busy with that obese, sag-chested
female customs inspector. The one trouble with Annie was
that she could disappear from one second to the next. At
one moment she was standing at my side, at the next she
wasn't anymore. She can do that trick anywhere, even in
a supermarket. This was certainly not the time for sepa=
ration. She had a habit of saying the wrong things at the
wrong time, which was as dangerous in Stalin's Russia as
it had been in Nazi-Germany. Sometimes it proved to be
downright nerve-racking and this certainly was such an
occasion. I shouted her name again and again and nevermind
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what the other people including the Russian officials were
thinking. I was side-tracked by the inspector who requested
that I sign still another one of these never ending forms
of Russian bureaucracy. When 1 looked up again, there was
Annie, her face expressing the innocence of a babe in the
woods. I warned her that I would put her on a leash if
she would do that again during our trip to Shanghai. How=»
ever, she had a valid excuse this time. Thinking about
having to lug our suitcases out of the customs building
to wherever the trans-Siberian Express train was located
and with Pfeiffer and Schneider being impervious to our
plight, she had gone in search for some one to give us a
helping hand. And, lo and behold, she had found a single
young man to whom she had appealed and who could not re=*
sist. Very few people ever could
"Poor Orphan Annie".
when she played
The young man had come along with her. He was carry=
ing only a small overnight case as if he were on a short
pleasure trip.
"This is Karl Holz," Annie told me with her angelic
smile. "He was born in Shanghai and his parents are still
living there and he had promised to help us witl\Dur baggage."
Karl shook hands with me, but I was too cautious to
ask Annie how she had managed to learn so much about him
in so short a time. He was a good-looking young man with
■UMtHMMMImMMiM
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light brown hair and very blue eyes.
"Glad to meet you," he said in German. "I've been
visiting in Germany for some months and an, on my way back
home. The Nazis got on my nerves."
"Do you always travel so light?" I asked him, point=
ing to the small overnight case.
"Sure." he answered smilingly. "I've experience. This
Is my fifth trip."
Annie with her little, uptilted nose had sniffed him
out among the hundreds of passengers as the one who most
likely would agree to help us. And so he did. He was a
no-Nazi German, the offspring of German parents living
abroad. To us he turned out to be a Godsend in more ways
than one. Even Timothy, who on general principles was
inimical to other people, approved of him.
When we were through with the customs and passport
inspection. Karl took charge of us. For the thr^e of us
our thirteen suitcases were not much of a problem. We
followed him in the dark of the night (it seemed as if
electrification was non-existent outside the customs
building) to the trans-Siberian Express train with its
two smoke-belching engines and long row of cars. When we
found our car and compartment, our two rogues, Schneider
and Pfeiffer, had already settled down at one side of it.
Holz's compartment was in the adjoining car. After helping
us with stowing away our cases, he left us. Daring the long
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trip the three of us bec«iine very good friends.
At last the cumbersome train started to move on
the wide Russian railway tracks. We were actually enters
ing the Soyuz Sovetskikh Sotsialistischkikh Republics,
the Union of Soviet Socialist Republics. However, with
the exception of Moscow we saw the vast land and numerous
in which/
cities only through the windows of the train^/MH IpM
for ten days./
^mi we were confined ^M ^^ iBiflMi t^very once in a
while we could stretch our legs for several minutes
at small stations where the engines took on a new supply
of water and coal. Some of the names of the bigger cities,
where we halted for a period of no more than a quarter of
an hour between Moscow and Manchuli at the Manchurian
border, have remained infmemory, names like Perm,
Sverdlovsk (the former Ekaterinburg where Czar Nicholas II.
and his family were shot to death in 1918), Omsk, Tomsk,
Novosibirsk, Tschita. We crossed the Ural mountains at
night which to me was a great disappointment.
As the train slowly huffed and puffed away from Nego-
reloje Timothy sighed deeply. "God Almighty," he complained,
"1 wished He would allow me to swear once in a while. I'm
a poor guardian angel, I know, but this should not happen
to a dog."
"You'll survive even godless Russia," I tried to
appease him.
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"Of course. I'll survive," he hissed at me. "But
the burden isn't easy to bear. Guardian angels don't
die, they only fade away."
I could not help;t but laugh outright at him. "Like
old soldiers?" I asked.
"Like over- tired, over-worked, underpaid guardian
angels," he rebuked me.
"Boy - do I feel sorry for you."
"^an imagine," he grunted.
End of our conversation. He faded away. Annie and I
prepared ourselves for a few hours of sleep. Our two
bunks, one above the other, were made up for the night.
During the day the upper bunk was tilted up and hooked
to the wall and the lower one became our seats. While I
undressed in the compartment (Pfeiffer and Schneider did
the same), Annie naturally preferred to undress or dress
in the so-called washroom at the end of the car.
Please, allow me to digress once again to
tell you the "dirty-smelling" story of our sixteen day
trip to Shanghai without the opportunity of taking a
bath once and not much chance to was^even properly. It
was a conspiracy of sinister forces beyond our and Ti
mo-
thy's control. Regrettably, guardian angels are not
ma'
glcians. Each second-class car of the trans-Siberian Ex
press
had but a single, very narrow washroom with warm water
available only in the early morning hours. Armed with
a towel, slung over one's shoulder, a cake of soap, a
toothbrush and tooth paste as well as a glass one had
to wait in line for a few minutes stay in that god-
forsaken little room. No one dared to take more than
five minutes because generally the warm water did not
last long. I most often did my shaving with cold water
later in the day.
Well, if you like adventure, try to wash and shave
in a wildly swaying train. And don't make a mistake, the
trans-Siberian Express (a misrepresentation if there ever
was one. I doubt that at any time it went faster than
thirty to thirty-five miles an hour) was swaying like
a camel in the desert. The washroom contained a shallow
wash basin with one faucet and nothing else aside from
the toilet. With each sway the water splashed over and
if you didn't watch out the cake of soap slithered to
the floor from where it was hard to retrieve. I never
was able to shave properly and without cutting myself.
Neither did we ever succeed in getting decently washed.
For ten long days we fought a desperate battle with
the wash basin, losing each and every one of them. Soon
Annie sadly admitted (and Timothy had to add his two
bits by agreeing) that we didn't smell like roses, to
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express it mildly. Yet. the trans-Siberian Express offered
at least some washing facilities although they were quite
Inadequate. The trains from Manchuli to Harbin and from
Harbin to Hsingking had none at all, or if they had we
didn't discover them. The supply of water in the express
train between Hsingking and Dairen was so limited that we
almost could count the drops which trickled from the faucet
when we turned it on. Butwhat happened at the hotel
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Dairen as well as on the Japanese steamer from Dairen
to Shanghai was - to coin a phrase - a total wash-out.
By the time we arrived in Shanghai we were dirtier than
pigs after wallowing in mud. We must have snielled to high
heaven although we ourselves couldn't tell anymore. I've
read somewhere that in her days the 17th century courte=
san Ninon de Lanclos was ridiculed for insisting on tak=
Ing a bath each day instead of using perfumes as a sub=
stitute for soap and water. We had forgotten to take a
bottle of eaU-de-cologne along and didn't dare to spend
the money for buying one in Dairen if one could have been
gotten there. All the while Timothy found this state of
affairs quite amusing. His cleanliness didn't depend on
water, but I noticed that he kept his distance from us
as much as he could.
I was reminded of our childhood when we lived in a
coldwater flat in.-'the St.Pauli district of Hamburg, one
of the poorer neighborhoods. We had to wash every day,
of course, and we could make a good job of it in the
summer. During the ice-cold winter days, however, we
just went trough the motions. Quite often a thin film
of ice had formed on the water in the basins. Twice a
month, though, our mother took us children to a near-by
public bath house where for twenty Pfennige we could rent
a wooc^J^n tub with hot water. We all made use of it, one
after the other. My older sister first, then I, then my
younger sister and finally my mother. Of course, we had
to take green soap, towels and a scrub brush with us.
My father (at that time a father was still the privileged
member of the family) went once a week and had a tub all
by himself. The entire procedure was nothing out of the
ordinary. To go back only two centuries^ too much bathing
or use of water was considered unhealthy to the human
body. The wealthy doused themselves with plenty of perfume
and the poor - pardon the expression - just stank. I guess ,
if everybody stinks, nobody really notices it.
In later years, when my father's fortune took a turn
for the better, we moved into an apartment which had steam--
heat and cold as well as hot water. We were able to take
a bath whenever we wanted, even several times a day, which
of course was considered the utmost in (^xury. Nobody as
yet had heard of a shower then. It was a tub bath or nothing.
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Our youth nowadays cannot even imagine how it was. They
take everything for granted and that is perhaps why some
of them revolt and avoid washing or bathing and get stink=
ing dirty again. I wonder if that can be called progress?
Our car steward in the trans-Siberian Ex=
press (he was called in Russian: a provodnik) didn't seem
to mind about any hot or warm water shortage. He had a
limited amount of wood to bum and that was it. We never
saw him even wash his hands during the long trip from
Negoreloje to Manchuli and despite the fact that I gave
him a used razor blade for a tip each day, he never shaved
either. At the end of the trip he looked something akin
to a present-day hippy. His duties were few. He had to
make the beds in the evenings and break them up in the
morning. He had to feed the stove with wood and that was
about all. Once a day at one of the many stops a herd of
scrub women invaded the train and washed the floors. It
didn't help much, but it was a good show.
All the while and until we saw the last of Russian
territory Timothy remained ill-tempered. He missed the
occasional meeting with other guardian angels. As he had
asserted, not many were assigned to this officially god-
less nation and there were none on the train. I didn't
believe him. However, I had no way of disputing this
matter. His resentment toward me that I had chosen this
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route did not abate and the two of us had little communion
until he faced the special predicament in Manchuli.
"This country is ruled by a man who never will let
the world know peace," he told me once and without pro-
vocation on my part. "Even the rulers who will follow him
won' t ever."
of/
When I tried to advise him that it was/# little use
to pull a long face over facts we knew, he got really
angry with me, because any person alive in the world
should care about it. If he had had not the fear of God
in him and wouldn't have been under obligation never to
swear, I think he would let me have it with all the in=*
vectives that exist in the German language. He had often
complained about my habit of quoting famous people or
parts from great books since he had been an uneducated
man in life and had not much improved his knowledge since.
He must have consulted at one time or other one of his more
erudite celestial brethren for a quotation to throw at me.
I'm sure, he had only waited for the right moment to show
off with it to prove to me that he wasn't altogether a
"Dummkopf". Acting, as if he was bristling with indig=»
nation about my attitude toward him, he asked me if I ever
f
had heard of Savonarola.
"Sure," I said.
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asperity In his voice. "Who was he?
II
'*A fiery-headed, Italian religious reformer in the
15th century."
For a moment he remained silent, then he asked, "But
do you know what he cried out in his scorn when faced with
godlessness?"
He had me there and he savored this moment of triumph
as if he had won a great victory. "Savonarola had cried out:
No one who resists the Lord, can ever find peace," he told
me in a pontificial manner.
This was the only serious colloquy we had during the
ten days of our trip through Russia, but at least he had
found some satisfaction in his misery.
The colloquies I had with our provodnik, obviously a
benighted ignoramus, were of a quite different nature. We
didn't understand each other. This gangling, tall sycamore
of a man, all gnarls, knuckles and joints, had not learned
a single expression in any foreign language despite his
many years of meeting people of other countries on this
train. In his simple mind he was convinced that everybody
understood Russian although not everybody could speak it.
Once in a while when 1 had given him an extra cigarette or
used razor blade he wanted to show his appreciation by tell=
ing me a story. All I could do in response was listen and
nod from time to time, or smile
when he
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smiled, chuckle when he chuckled, or make a sad face when
he did. He must have felt that he had well entertained
me
as a compensation for my little gifts and so he acted as
if he and I were good friends. Maybe we were although
neither one of us could surmount the language barrier,
but as I learned again and again a dialogue was possible
despite of it. How often, though, does it happen that no
dialogue can be achieved with people who spoke the same
language, but had adopted a righteousness which didn't
allow them to listen to any different point of view but
their own.^
All in all cur trip through Russia was quite boring
under the circumstances. With each day our feeling of in«
security mounted although our friend Karl Holz tried to
encourage us by telling us how exciting Shanghai was and
how much we would enjoy living there. We were skeptical,
but did not show it. Really, an unclean train window wasn't
the best way to see the world. We passed through unending,
grey and dismal flatlands, dotted here and there by some
small v^l,lages with dilapidated, unpainted wooden houses.
We saw some people, mostly women, working in the fields.
Each time the train stopped at a small station far from
nowhere we watched policemen chase vendors and beggars
away so that we could rush out unmolested to fill our
thermos bottles with
hot water. Otherwise we couldn't
brew ourselves some tea or coffee In the train.
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We cros^d the Volga and didn't see any boatsrnen,
pulling barges and singing the Volga song We traveled
through the Ural Mountains, which divide Europe from Asia,
but only heard about it when we woke up the next morning.
We got a few glimpses of newly erected industrial cities
which had been built since the revolution. Most of Siberia
appeared to us like an imagined moon landscape. Pock-
marked, round-topped yellow hills and snow covered valleys
with no life whatsoever - at least as far as we could ob«
serve. Once we thought that we passed a slave-labor camp
with its high watch-towers, but it was so far distant that
we wereiH't altogether sure. Our Intourist guide always
went into hiding when we had an opportunity to ask him
unpleasant questions. Nonetheless we traveled through
quite a bit of geography. The trouble was that we had
little chance to enjoy it. If one is imprisoned in a train
for over a week, one's nerves and sight dull. However,
again we are far ahead of our story.
While the train was slowly rolling into Moscow,
we passed a few onion-shaped spires of the old churches.
I was reminded of poor, little Napoleon whose victorious
invasion of Russia spelled defeat as it had done a hundred
years before him to King Charles XII. of Sweden and as it
would do some one hundred thirty-five years later to Hitler
Napoleon died of cancer after he had been exiled to the
island of Saint Helena; Charles XII. was killed by a stray
bullet in Norway; and Hitler committed suicide in Berlin.
Russia is bad luck for invaders. Although we had had no
time to prepare ourselves for the trip, I had a few ideas
of what I would like to see in Moscow beside the Red Square,
the Kremlin - as for instance the famous Vasili Cathedral
where the French so adequately had stabled their horses.
Don't worry, the Vasili Cathedral was out of bounds. At
that time one just didn't see anything anywhere what one
would like to see - certainly not ordinary tourists or
travelers in transit. One only saw what the authorities
determined one could see. From the moment a foreigner
entered the Soviet Union to the moment he left he remained
under constant surveillance. Whether this haSv^ohanged or not,
I don't know - although I doubt it.
We had a stopover of three hours in Moscow while our
train was shunted from one railway station to another. A
stout, stem-looking woman, somewhat shabbily dressed,
approached us on the platform of the Byelo Russky Station.
She addressed us in German (which made us suspicious),
asking if she could act as our guide. I felt convinced
that she was an agent of the secret police. Anyway, as
an authorized tourist guide she must have been instructed
in regard to our itinerary Her service was free of charge.
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This lady was of Danish birth, married to a Russian
petty bi;§;:eaucrat . Of course, she let us look at the
Kremlin from the outside, that is the surrounding wall
and a guarded gate. For that we had no need to go sights-
seeing in Moscow. We had seen it many a time on pictured
and film screens. Notwithstanding, walking across the
Red Square with the view on the Kremlin we felt touched
by history, the memory Of which we never could erase
from our minds. We were not morbid enough to have any
desire of visiting with the embalmed corpse of Lenin.
I might as well omit any report of our sightseeing
tour in Moscow. Whatever we wished to see seemed to be
out of bounds and what the guide lady showed us all of
us have seen many timei on our TV screens, fli 0R isBBHlBm
However, in 1935 we did not encounter a single smiling
person, man, woman or child. All their faces were sad
and stony and their eyes appeared to be dead. It might
have been our imagination, but it CLffected us enough that
we were thoroughly depressed by the time we reached the
Severni Railway rotation where our train was waiting for
us .
Many years later I read Arthur Koestler*s book "The
invisible Writing" in which he stated, "I was a Communist,
but I found life in Russia terribly depressing." I was
reminded how we had felt in Moscow and all through Russia.
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Rbecca West in "The Meaning of Treason" said that C
ommu'
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nism was Fascism with a glandular difference. Nothin
t>4uer was ever written.
Saying farewell to our lady-guide, we asked her
what we could give her to compensate her for the time
had/
she/spent with us, although we had not much to give.
She assured us that she was not allowed to accept any
payment or a tip in any other form. Yet, as little as
we possessed ourselves, we could not leave this good
woman without some token of our appreciation. I asked
her to wait with Annie on the platform while I quickly
boarded the train to get a cake of soap and a bar of
chocolate from our unsealed suitcases. I pocketed both
and went outside again. Before accepting these simple
gifts she anxiously looked around to make sure that she
wasn't watched, then she quickly took the two items and
stuffed them into her old purse. The poor woman, who
definitely made the impression of having seen better
days, had tears in her eyes. Her two children, she told
us, had never tasted any chocolate, and they had not had
any good soap for a long time. We felt a little better for
that. We were so poor ourselves and still rich in compar=»
ison to her.
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Until we finally arrived in Shanghai we did not
fully realize the absolute fi/n/ility of our break with
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our past. While we traveled we still were In a kind
of trance, and It did not hit us completely that we
had torn up our roots, that we were refugees, people
without a country, vagrants so to speak, cast-outs. We
had no assurance that we were wanted anywhere In the
world. To each llvlng-belng the future Is an unknown
mystery as it should be if one wants to live a life of
sanity. To us, however, it went beyond that. We didn't
even know that we had a future. While we were in transit
to Shanghai anything could occur, preventing us from ever
getting there. And who would ever care? Who would ever
investigate what had happened to us? We could not permit
our minds to dwell on how we would manage to establish a
new existence, probably altogether alien to the one we
had left behind. We did not even dare to discuss with
each other what we would do if the last of our forty
dollars had been spent. It was such a meager amount of
money , separating us from to be or not to be. Moreover,
then already doubts assailed us about Pfeiffer. Perhaps
we might not even see a single penny of the loan we had
given him. In our anxiety to get out of Nazi-Germany we
had taken his word for granted. We had been like drowning
people grabbing for a straw. The way he acted ever since
we were en route gave us little confidence. Yet, without
the fifteen hundred Mark we had Invested In him wc might
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as well forget about starting anew In a strange city
among strange people. So we honestly believed, not yet
knowing how resourceful one could be when faced with no
material assts. Like anybody else , refugees also had to
learn how to cope with unforeseen emergencies. And we
did learn. We surely did. We were taught a very important
lesson that God in His goodness would never abandon us.
Faith was all we needed to open seemingly locked doors.
Faith - how beautiful it Is. Faith has sustained us
throughout our life with all its many vicissitudes, ^
ventures and adventures. It still sustains us. Without
faith life is not worth living. Love, faith and gratis
tude - what else is there to happiness in life?
Both, Pfeiffer and Schneider, proved to be real
nuisances. We had been the ones who had made it possible
for them to leave Nazl-Gennany . Now they didn't care about
us. Most of the time they were drunk or nearly so. Their
newly acquired friend, the Dutch gentleman in the first
class, had taken plenty of booze along. The three became
Inseparable companions. At least we didn't see much of
them. Whenever they were with us In our compartment, they
went to sleep to sober up in order to get pickled again.
They were oblivious to anything else. They were also ob"
llvious during the one day we traveled around the southern
part of the Baikal Lake In Siberia. This lake was the
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only worthwhile scenic sight we encountered throughout
all our trip and probably one of the most beautiful in
in the world, ft covers an area of over thirteen thousand
square miles and is supposedly the largest fresh water
lake in Asia as well as the deepest in the world. At
least so the Intourist guide told us. Its water is as
clear as crystal, and one could see deep down to the
bottom. Even from the slow-moving train we could watch
the fish swimming in it. There were blue-hazed, snow-
topped mountains far in the background. We traveled
through fir forests and stopped at little villages and
towns where the pople looked clean and attractive. After
the city of Kultuk we passed through numerous tunnels
and wondered about the strange names of towns like Mur=
inskaja and Mysovaya. For a whole day Annie and I
were
glued to the window. We tried to rouse Pfeiffer and
Schneider, but they had a monumental hangover from the
previous night. So far. although we were already in Asia,
we were nojmuch aware of the difference between West and
East. It was brought home to us in Manchuli, the Manchu*
rian border town.
The one silver- lining in the clouds was
pur young friend Karl Holz with whom we chatted many hours.
•Naturally, we mostly talked about Shanghai and our chances
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to make a living there. Whenever I revealed to him some
of my still very vague ideas of what 1 could do, he quite
obviously acted guarded. Not wanting to dash our hopes, he
neither encouraged nor discouraged us. As it turned out, we
later learned that he knew quite well that any of my ideas
were sheer phantasies, as far from reality as most dreams.
Yet, he never bat an eye when I talked about them. He had
the wisdom to recognize that our lives hung on a very thin
thread, called hope.
Karl himself would not have liked to live anywhere
else but in Shanghai. He was born and raised there. It
was the ''old home- town" fiction, a mental malady not many
people are able to overcome. Anyway, after we knew Shanghai
it was hard to imagine her as an "old home- town". She was
more likely a modern Babel, where so many different languagues
were spoken as well as different dialects among the Chinese,
that more often than not people could not converse intelli-
gibly with one another than in English, French or Pidgin
English. To explain Shanghai of that time was even hard
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for our fric/>ad Karl Holz. /It was altogether dissimilar
from any other metropolis in the world. One had to live
there as a resident to get the feeling of the strange
Shanghai-way of life. She had an atmosphere all her own
which in our opinion can never be duplicated. She was
unique. One could love or hate her, but one could not
be indifferent to her aura.
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Despite Karl's reticence to raise our hopes he
promised to ask his parents to rent us a roon, in their
small house for at inact- t-u^ a
lor at least the first month. Thus we would
have a roof over our heads, a bed and an address until
we had found jobs and could afford to be on our own. It
so happened that we stayed in the Holz house for as long
as we were in Shanghai.
Anyone, I guess, who ever has traveled
the Whole vast stretch of Russian territory in the trans-
Siberian Express, must have felt some sort of relief
when at last the end was reached. To us it was like
being released from a prison. We had made it so far
and although we still had quite a long way to go we
were confident the worst was behind us. How well has
God arranged it that the future is always unkno.^ to us.
^^J^;as far from over and it started - after we
A^^^^^^^an inspection of our baggage and finances -
with carrying our thirteen suitcases so.e five hundred
yards from where the Russian train had stopped to the
railway station of Manchuli across the border where
a train of the Chinese F•^c^,.r•r. d -i
^■iincse Lastern Railway was waiting for
us. We had an hour's time until departure. As always
Pfeiffer and Schneider had disappeared with their one
piece of luggage each. Annie took four cases and Holz
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in addition to his overnight case took another four
which left me with five. On the Manchuli station plat-
form we put our baggage down in a heap and Annie got
the job to sit on it. Holz and I were going to town
to obtain our Manchurian transit visas. Without Holz
I wouldn't even ha v^ know/ how to find the passport office
I hated the idea of laving Annie alone, but s
ome
one had to guard our luggage. The other people on the
platform didn't inspire me with any confidence. To me
most of them looked like cut- throats or some sort of
bandits. They were members of many nationalities -
slant-eyes Mongolians with cheek-protruding faces,
Tartars with long, black moustachios, Circassians,
supposedly wild warriors from Turkestant, blue eyed
people from the Caucasus, and, of course, Chinese.
No doubt anymore, we were in Asia now. The umbilical
cord, which still had held us to Europe, was cut at
last. Leaving Annie by herself with all these strange
and dangerous looking characters was not a'^^easy decision
to make. Timothy stubbornly refused to stay with her. I
was his official responsibility and he could watch over
Annie only as long as we two were together. I had to
rely on Holz's assurance that I had nothing to fear.
Nobody would harm poor Annie. I took a long last look
at her when we left, praying I would see her again and
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alive, too. She looked so forlorn that my heart ached
for her. However, I should have known her better. She
still amazes me today how she is able to make friends
anywhere.
When Holz and I returned some thirty minutes later,
she was still sitting on the pile of our luggage, but
with her squatted a Mongolian family which she had lured
into her charm. 1 don't how she had managed not to have
died of fright. She never knew real fear since she had
such an unbelievable faith in God. Annie and the Mon=
golian family were chatting amiably without knowing one
another's language. The children in particular were
fascinated by her. They all had never seen a woman
like her. Besides, the feather on her hat seemed to
them so funny that they didn't stop laughing about it.
Annie had the youngest, a baby, in her lap, and the
mother just smiled with beatitude. The father stood by,
a little aloof and puzzled, but I had a strange feeling
he would have defended Annie with the dagger he carried
in his belt if anyone had dared to look crosswise at her.
That was my Annie. The strangest people fell in love with
her and men always felt they had to protect her. We were
to face many real dangers, but nobody ever got the idea
to do harm to her, not even nature in its scorn. On the
contrary she aroused the protective sentiment in all and
everybody.
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Holz and 1 took two rickshaws to the passport office,
mine following his. One couldn't simply step into a rick-
shaw like into a taxi and tell the driver where one wanted
to go. One had to direct the coolie by shouting at him
and directing him by hand signs. I never forgot the revolt-
ing feeling about being pulled by a human animal. If it
hadn't been for Holz, I would have stopped the poor,
sweating fellow after a few minutes, paid him off and
rather walked 1 did just that the first time we took
rickshaws in Shanghai. We had no trouble in obtaining the
Manchurian transit visas unless paying five dollars for
them meant trouble which it did for us. It bit too deeply
into our meager financial resources and 1 got mad all
over again about the stubborn refusal by the Japanese
Consul in Hamburg to issue these visas for us. The
rickshaw fare was only twenty cents each for Holz and
my
self. Yet even a single cent counted as far as Annie
and I were concerned. However, when I saw Annie again un»
station/
harmed at the railway/l forgot all about it. Nothing else
was of real importance.
Pfeiffer, Schneider, Holz, Annie and I found a com-
partment for ourselves in the Chinese Eastern Railway
train which was so overcrowded that many people had to squat
with their bundles outside in the corridors. They never
stopped gabbing, spitting, eating all kinds of strange
smelling food. The children got restless and babies
cried. I didn't bother any of us, but it did Annie. For
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the first time she felt truly mise'iable and showed it.
Sitting next to me at one of the two window corners,
she started silently to cry. Small tears were running
down her cheeks. I asked her what was wrong. She looked
at me as if I had offended her.
"Do you know that there aren't any restrooms on
this train, and I have to go?" she whispered into
my
ear.
"How do you know?"
"1 haven't seen any when we boarded the train."
I shook my head, then whispered to Holz, asking him.
He chuckled and whispered back that Annie was mistaken.
Nodding at her, he indicated that he would take her.
When they returned, Annie still looked depressed.
"That was the dirtiest place I've ever seen," she flBt
"I couldn't even wash my hands."/
whispered into my ear as she sat down ./A moment later
she began to cry again.
"What is it now?" I asked her. She never cried. I
couldn't figure her out. In all the years to come she
never cried again, but the change from West to East
somehow and sudd^_i?nly must have overwhelmed her.
"You know," she said in a low voice, "one always
reads in newspapers, magazines and books about exiles,
I mean real exiles, refugees. One never thinks that it
ever can happen to you. But it can. Anything can happen to
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more, and we don't know if we ever will have one again.
wiped off/
She /MBii her tears and tried to smile, but for once
she did not succeed. Just then and there with all these
strange-looking, strange-sounding and strangely behaving
people around us, people one had only see/* in pictures,
she felt the deep pain a tree must feel when it has been
torn up by its roots. What was it? Slow death or new life
by being re-planted somewhere else? As the uprooted tree
doesn't know, neither did Annie right then. What answer
could I give her? How could I console her without sound-
ing hypocritical? There never had been any lies between
us and I couldn't lie to her then. I couldn't tell her
that all will turn out all right when she as well as I
didn't know for sure. Taking her hand into mine, we sat
in silence for a while.
"Well," I said at last, "I guess as long as we two
are together, nothi'h^ can be as bad as we might think
it is."
She nodded. Our togetherness was the only reality
she could cling to.
"The fitting is awful," she complained. "Why do
they have to spit all the time?"
I shrugged my shoulders. I wondered myself. But the
spitting was to follow us all over Asia with the exception
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of Japan which probably is the cleanest and most sani-
tary country in the world. People just spat from deep
down, not caring what or whom they hit.
Suddenly the door to our compartment was pushed open.
Two Japanese soldiers with bayonets fixed on their rifles
stared in at us. This became a regular, hourly occurrence.
one/
Just when/had dozed off again on the hard and uncomfort=
able benches - whami The door was thrown open and there
they were - the same two soldiers on inspection. What in
the name of Buddha did they expect to find? Obviously we
neither could run away or engage in any nefarious spy
activities. There was nothing to spy on and we certainly
couldn't disappear. We just had to sit where we were and
hope that the train wouldn't be late so that we wouldn't
miss our connection with the Asia Express in Harbin.
"I guess," I ventured to say the third time they
disturbed us, "they've got orders not to trust us."
Nobody carea to comment. We had exhausted any con=
versation we had had. These sixteen or eighteen hours
between Manchuli and Harbin were the most uncomfortable
ones during all our sixteen days trip.
I never could figure it out, but somehow whoever was
responsible for the train schedules in Russia and Manchuria
had conspired so that the travelers would not get to see
any of the mountain ranges. We crossed all of them at night
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I had very much looked forward to the Ural mountains and -
vfell, as you might remember,- we traveled through them in
the dark of the night. Now I was looking forward to the
Greater Khingan Mountain Ranges between the Amur and
Sungari rivers, but alas, yes, you guessefl^it. We didn't
get a glimpse of them. Agiin we crossed them by night.
It was kind of frustrating. This probably would be the
only time in our lives to see these famous mountain
ranges, and we were denied the sight of them.
It was a matter of sheer wonder how all the Japanese
soldiers and officials we saw on the station platforms
and in the Manchurian trains ever got there, when the
Japanese consul in Hamburg had assured us that he had
never heard of Manchuria. In fact, they had changed
Manchuria to Manchukuo and they had it occupied. No=*
body must ever have told the consul in Hamburg about it.
We weren't on the train for much more than two hours when
a Japanese official, accompanied by two other soldiers,
handed each one of us a six page long questioaaire which
we were to fill out and then return to him. At least, so
much we understood although he talked to us in Japanese.
These six pages contained more silly questions than we
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were able to answer. Holz advised us to write down any
thing. What we didn't know, they certainly didn't know
either. The questions were printed in three languages,
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Russian, English, and German. None of us, of course, re-
membered or even had heard all the names, places and dates
of birth of our grandparents and great-grandparents. Why
the Japanese authorities were interested in getting this
kind of useless information was beyond us. In order to
please them we all invented the answers. Furthermore,
among many other personal questions we had to state the
exact length of time we intended to stay in Harbin and
with what train at what time we would continue our trip
to what destination. Intourist in Hamburg had booked for
us seats in the famous Asia Express from Harbin to Dairen.
According to the time table the Asia Express was scheduled
to depart from Harbin ten minutes after our train was
supposed to arrive there. We knew, it would be a tight
so/
squeeze to transfer all our suitcases infshort a time,
but we very much looked forward to the Asia Express which
had been described to us as the most modem train in the
world. Each car was topped by a glass dome for good view=
irg. There was a modern dining car, excellent washing
facilities and all the comforts one could ask for. Maybe
all this was true. Please, don't worry; Nothing came of itI
The very moment our train pulled into the Harbin station,
the Asia Express with its domes pulled out on another track.
It so happened that we were fifteen minutes late and the
Japanese were sticklers in regard to punctuality. A five
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minutes wait was unthinkable. Well, that was that. No
beautiful view from a glass-domed train, no modern din-
ing car, which we couldn't have used anyway for lack of
money, no modern washrooms, which would have been a bless*
ing after ten days without a bath. This was truly a moment
for shedding tears, but Annie had regained her good humor.
She just laughed, not even realizing that we were stranded
in Harbin. How the hell were we to go on without also
missing the boat in Dairen? The Asia Express ran only
twice a week as far as we knew.
Once again we had to drag our thirteen suitcases
out of the train across several tracks and platforms.
It was getting too much. I deposited Annie and our
baggage on a platform bench just outside the stati
on
building and went in search for someone who could tell
me when another train was going to leave. We had to reach
D-iiren in time for our boat or we would be stranded there
for fully three days. We didn't have the funds for a hotel
room, or at least it would deplete our money almost com*
pletely .
My search was entirely fruitless. No one, whom I
accosted, understood me. Finally I gave up and returned
to Annie, sat down beside her, determined to let fate
take its course. Some time during the day there was bound
to come another train which was going in the direction of
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Dalren. We decided to wait and see.
Neither Pfeiffer, Schneider nor Holz were around,
and we couldn't imagine whereto they had disappeared.
When we met th£hi again on the boat from Dairen, we got
their stories. The Dutchman had bribed some officials
and the three had gone into Harbin where they entertained
themselves in one of the famous brothels of that city.
Holz, although taking a chance of being stopped, had
MBIL ■ iBMBV JB sneaked out of the station within
the minute after our arrival. He had a Russian girl-
friend in town to whom he paid a visit. Well, that left
Annie and me at the mercy of Japanese hostile militarism.
It so happened that we were the only foreigners on the
station platform.
Getting hungry after a while, we opened the suitcase
which held our vittels. While eating our pumpernickel
with butter and cheese we watched what was going on.
Japanese workingmen, all of them wearing white cotton
gloves, were busy with some task of repairing railway
spikes or something of this order. A number of Chinese
peasants with their families and others were squatting,
apparently waiting like us for another train. There
were few activities of any interest.
For an hour or so we sat in peace on our bench with
no train in sight anywhere. Then gradually all the people
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including the Japanese laborers disappeared into the
station building. Within a few minutes we two were the
only living beings outside the building proper. We began
to wonder. It was kind of eerie.
At last the little*, bow-legged station master, wear«
ing the red cap of his office, came out and rapidly ap-
proached us. .^nnie and I looked at each other. What now?
What now? The little man stopped in front of us and
excitedly talked to us after he had first politely bowed.
A Japanese will always bow politely, even if he was going
to punch you in the nose afterwards. I told him in German
that we didn't understand a word he said and that he could
go and fly a kike for all I cared. It didn't make any
difference. Each time I opened my mouth he stopped talk-
ing and looked at us as if we weren't quite right in our
m
inds. He was pointing to the nearest door leading into
the building. Nothing doing, I told him. We wouldn't move
an inch. It was no fault of ours that we had missed the
Asia Express. Again he bowed to us. What could I do? I
got up and bowed to him, telling him at the same time to
go to hell. While again and again he pointed to the door
leading into the station, I pointed to our thirteen suit-
cases, then shook my head, indicating that we had no in-
tention of moving wi-6i all that luggage. Finally the
redcap gave up. As we watched htm hastily retreating
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into the building, I proudly told Annie how smart I
was. We had won over that officious son-of-a-gun. The
heck I had won. A minute later he re-appeared with two
porters who just picked up our suitcases and carried
them into the building. What choice did we have? Remon=»
strate some more with the little station master? Fight
Japanese City Hall? We two^ poor, lonely foreigners had
to follow our only possessions we had left. The two porters
deposited our baggage at the proper baggage department
and we got a piece of paper with something printed on it
in Japanese which we assumed was a receipt. Meanwhile all
doors were closed and locked. Japanese soldiers appeared
from nowhere and guarded the windows.
Not a soul was in sight at the totally deserted
platforms and railway tracks. We waited for a few minutes
and then it happened. A train with three modem passenger
cars rolled through the station. All window shades in the
cars were drawn. Japanese soldiers with their rifles aimed
to all sides were lying flat and in firing position on the
car roofs. On the steps of the engine and the front bumper
were more soldiers ready to shoot. I wondered if they would
have shot at us if we had stayed on the platform. A single
locomotive had preceded the train by about a hundred yards.
This locomotive with its engineer and two more men were
apparently expendable in case the rails had been mined
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or otherwise tampered with. Each car of the train bore
the Imperial seal of the Emperor of Manchukuo. He had
been the last Chinese Emperor before he was forced to
abdicate. In March of 1932 the Japanese had installed
Henry Pu-Yi as their puppet emperor of the newly con=»
quered land of Manchuria. When. he traveled in his train,
no one was allowed close to the/tracks and he could not
even look out and show his face. The Manchurian Chinese
considered Pu-Yi a traitor and his life was constantly
threatened by the many guerilla groups, roaming the
countryside.
Later in 1946 poor Henry Pu-Yi testified at a war
crimes trial that he had been the unwilling tool of the
Japanese militarists.
Shortly after the Imperial train had safely passed
the/
the station /Qoors were unlocked and opened again. Every-
thing returned to normal. The station master showed up
again, bowed to us and said something which sounded like
a polite apology. I asked him by sign language when we
index/
could expect another train? He lifted his/finger, then
pulled his clumsy pocket watch and pointed to one o'clock.
I nodded and thanked him. Since it was only ten- thirty
we decided to take a walk into town. Our baggage was
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I don't think we had walked more than a hundred
yards when two Japanese M.P.'s stopped and arrested
us. It was a damned nuisance. For once we had a chance
to be on our own and then were forced to turn back and
perhaps thown into jail although we couldn't imagine
why. We hadn't committed any crime, or had we? At the
station we were taken to an office to be confronted by
a Japanese officer who looked quite grim as if we were
two dangerous criminals. He let us sit down and then
read what appeared to be the two questionnaires we had
filled out in the train between Manchuli and Harbin.
Luckily I kept my mouAi shut for once although I was
very much tempted to voice my violent objections. The
officer understood and spoke German fairly well.
After he had gone through the questioi^ires he
looked at us with stern disapproval. "You wrote here,"
he said, "that you would continue your journey on the
Asia Express after arrival in Harbin."
That really got my goat. "How the hell could we
have continued our trip on the Asia Express?" I asked
him, not hiding my wrath. "That goddamned train pulled
out while ours rolled Into the station. Why in the name
of all the gods in all the world couldn't the Asia Express
more/
wait for a few/minutes so that we could make the connection?
Besides," I added, "we paid three extra dollars each for
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the privilege of traveling on the Asia Express. Some
one owes us six dollars."
The officer was not Impressed. So much I could see.
He lit himself a cigarette and let the smoke escape through
both his nostrils - dragon-like.
"Why did you leave the station?" he Inquired.
"To go sightseeing. What else? I hope, that Isn't
a crime around here."
"It could be. You didn't state In your questlonalres
that you Intended to go sightseeing In Harbin.
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I In- and exhaled deeply. Boy, oh boy, I thought,
what kind of Idiocy was that? "How could we state that?
We were supposed to transfer without delay to the Asia
Express . "
I hope that at last he would understand. But to no
avail. Bureaucrats and Inferior military officers never
understand anything.
"You may be spies for all we know," he accused us.
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This city Is a mecca for spies."
"I don't care what kind of mecca this city Is. Be»
sides, what is there to spy upon?"
"Military Installations," the officers said.
"Oh, come now I" I sighed in despair about so much
stupidity.
"If you were as Innocent as you act," the officer
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continued, "you'd have asked for a permit to go into
town."
"Nobody had told us that we need one."
Our conversation, if one could call it that, had come
to a dead end. The two M.P.'s were still standing behind
us, and I was prepared that we would be taken to jail. In
my silly imagination I saw already how we were indicted
for spying, sentenced to die and be shot by a firing
squad. I wondered what famous last words I would shout
just before the order to fire was given? Long live -
what? Hitler? Stalin? I decided on President Roosevelt.
He was our best bet.
"You two have committed a grave offense and I
am
empowered to hold you for trial," the officer advised us.
I didn't know then if it was true in real life, but
I had read in books and seen on films that someone arrested
had the legal right for one telephone call. Whom could I
call in Harbin of all places? The German Consul - if there
was one? Oh no , I thought, not him. He would care a damn
about us. We were fugitives from Nazi-Germany where they
had open season on Jews. In fact, the German Consul instead
of helping us might get the idea to recommend to his su»
perior in Berlin t^ request our extradition. That's all
we/
we needed after^d gotten so far. At this moment it was
driven home to me that people like us had no protection
w^ixtsoever.
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All I could rely on was my wit. I had parleyed my
self out of serious troubled before . Now I had to do it
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again. As in a flashback I remembered that I even had
parleyed myself once out of a general court-martial in
the German army. My offense had been that I had refused
to be a member of a firing squad to shoot s^e francti^
reurs (guerillas they would call them now) . Most im*
portant was not to show fear. Showing fear brings out
the worst in your enemy. I quickly glanced at Annie,
sitting at my side. She smiled at me and took my hand
into hers. Her confidence in me frightened me. I knew
what she was thinking. We were able to read our minds.
"All right," she thought as she trustingly squeezed
my hand, "now it's your turn. You won't let a mere Japan=
ese officer brow-beat you, would you?"
She was right. The best defense was always an of=
fensive move whether or not I felt squeamish in my stomach.
I had to attack. Tallyho, hurrah - or whatever.
"Holding us for trial?" I asked, acting boiling mad.
"For how long?"
"Oh - perhaps a few weeks or months," he said casu-
ally.
I had the feeling he got a kick out of paying cat
and mice with us. It was ridiculous. Here we were as inno-
cent as babes in the wood and I was determined to blow my
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top. Howi^^s I going to do that with two armed soldiers
standing behind us? We were at that officer's mercy and
he knew it.
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I m going to send a cablegram to President Roose=»
velt," I said impulsively.
"What?"
"You heard me. I want to seTid a cablegram to Presi =
dent Roosevelt.
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That did it. The officer exploded into a burst of
laughter. "President Roosevelt?" he asked and laughed
some more. "Is he a friend of yours?"
"My best friend," I assured him as sincerely as I
could.
"And he'll send an army to rescue you, won't he?"
"He'll sen fit an ultimatum to your government in Japan,"
I advised him, having a hard time not to laugh myself.
Sometimes I got the craziest brain storms.
The mood had changed. "All right, you win," the offi-
cer admitted and then informed us that he would let us go
if we promised to stay within the confines of the railway
station. We could board the mail train to Hsingking at
one o'clock and from there the connecting express to
Dairen.
We were dismissed, but we didn't give that man the
satisfaction of showing that we felt relieved. We just
walked out and that was that.
we met Karl Holz aRain/
When/VHfll on the boat from Dairen to
him/
Shanghai 1 told/>PB about this incident. He shook his
head. "That officer had no intention of throwing you in
jail. He was doing you a favor,"
"A favor? He prevented us from seeing the town."
"Sure, he did. He preventa^you from getting into
real trouble. You had no business to go sightseeing in
Harbin all by yourselves."
"Why not? We went sightseeing all by ourselves
before."
"But not in Harbin," Holz patiently explained. "Harbin
is known as the Mecca and Medina for all sorts of crooks,
muggers, con-men and certainly many hunghut-se as Chinese
bandits are called. All of these kindly people love to
prey on greenhorns like you and cut your throats to boot."
"But all these kindly people left you, the Dutchman
as well as Pfeiffer and Schneider in peace, didn't they?"
1 asked ironically.
"No, not if we had been greehorns. The Dutchman and
I know our way around there. We're old hands in these parts.
There are certain districts one better avoids like the pest.
Believe me - Harbin is a dangerous place for greenhorns."
"Is that the end of the lecture?" I couldn't help
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Holz laughed. '*Sure. This is your first time. Asia
and Europe are world's apart. One just doesn't wander
around in a strange city in Asia like you do in Europe.
Besides - who wants to go sightseeing in Harbin? It's
faceless, neither occidental nor oriental. There isn't
much to see. It's nothing but an ugly city on the shores
of the drab Sungari river. That's all." Suddenly he smiled
broadly. "You didn't miss a thing - unless you wanted to
visit one of the many bordellos or care to get waylayed,
robbed or killed."
Now I smiled broadly. He didn't know about Timothy.
Moreover, I thought he was exaggerating to show his super*
iority as an old Asia-hand which was silly since he was
only in his early twenties. No city could be that bad
although strangely enough I never could find Harbin mention=
ed in any tourist guide book. After all, it's a city with
more than a million population. According tO encyclopedias
it hasn't much of a history, having been founded by Russians
as a construction settlement as late as 1897.
Timothy just tells me that he never would have let
us visit a bordello. They're off-limits for guardian-
angels.
All right - we had given our word not to
leave the railway station again and so we didn't. Shortly
before one o'clock we retrieved our suitcases from the
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baggage department and decently enough weren't charged
anything. At least, they didn't add injury to insult.
We were standing on the platform when the mail train
huffed and puffed into the station. With all the others
who had waited we boarded it. The cars had no separate
compartments, but we found two seats in the center of
one and settled down for the almost twelve hour slow
trip. I'm almost tempted to use the old cliche "slow
boat to China", but actually we were already in China,
Japanese occupation or not. With the Asia Express it
would have taken us less than half the time. Well, as
I told you before, we met the friendly, old Chinese
peasant whom I strangely enough called "Ottokar", and
Annie unwittingly performed her striptease to the a»
musement of our Chinese fellow travelers.
Nothing else happened. When we arrived around mid-
night in Hsingking, the express train to Dairen was wait-
ing for us on the opposite side of the platform.
It was a good train as trains go. A comfortable,
clean train, and there was a pleasant washroom in each
car, but as I said before the faucets never produced more
than a trickle of water, just enough to wash our hands
superficially. No chance, as we had hoped, for a sponge
bath. Anyway, we discovered that we had forgotten tf 0ti
to take at least one sponge along.
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We didn't know why, but ever since our arrival in
Harbin we had seen neither the Dutschman, Pfeiffer, Schnei=
der nor Holz. As a matter of fact we never found out how
and when they managed to reach Dairen in time for the
boat to Shanghai. But there they were, a little worse
for wear, though.
In Hsingking we had to transfer our suitcases with=*
out any help. We couldn't afford to hire a porter. Our
forty dollars were dwindling away and we had to have
enough money left to pay at least one month's rent for
the promised room at the home of Karl's parents in
Shanghai, even if we would stuii^je to death in it. We
had become quite dubious in regard to Pfeiffer. It could
very well be that we wouldn't see a single cent of the
fifteen hundred Mark we had lent him in Hamburg. Of course,
the loss would be kind of illusory, even if he had conned
us. We couldn't have taken the money with us. It had just
been a gamble which would pay off if Pfeiffer would be an
honest man.
We had found two opposite window seats in the express
train and looked out upon the lighted platform. Oh, how
sick and ^tired one could get of platforms because after
all with the exception of Moscow and in my case in Man*
chuli all we had seen so far had been railway station
platforms after having traveled for almost two weeks.
This time, though, we were rewarded by a good show just
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outside our compartment window. A middle-aged Japanese
woman and what we assumed where her son and daughter
were saying farewell to one another. Mother and daughter
attired/
were wearing beautiful kimonos and the son was/in a sort
of cadet uniform. He was the one to leave because he had
a suitcase standing at his feet. Both son and daughter
were in their late teens or early twenties. However,
to be correct, they did not "say" farewell, they "bowed"
farewell. Anyone, I guess, has at one time or other seen
one/
the polite Japanese custom of bowing, but/has to watch
it personally to get the full impact of the ceremony.
We were absolutely fascinated. To our dull Western
minds and eyes it seemed to be wonderfully ridiculous.
But who were we to judge? The Chinese peasants in the
mail train must have thought that Annie and I were wond
fully ridiculous. So it goes. Anyway, for fully ten
minutes and without saying a single word the mother
bowed to her son, then the son bowed to his mother,
then the sister bowed to her brother, then her brother
bowed to his sister. This play repeated itself without
er'
interruption like in a puppet show
where the
puppet master had forgotten to go on with the action.
They bowed and bowed and we stared and stared. Their
faces did not show any expression. It seemed to be serious
business. They bowed until they heard the last call to
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board the train. The son picked up his suitcase and,
without looking back once, he stepped into our car.
A few seconds later he entered our compartment where
he swung his suitca^i^e on the overhead rack. Mother and
sister were still standing out .side, but the young man
did not as much as wave to them. He looked at the two
of us. Not wanting to be impolite we smileeat him in
our Western ways of bidding him welcome. That was a
mistake. CXir smile compelled^ the young man to respond
by bowing to us. What could we do? We got up and bowed
to him. As the saying goes - when in Rome do 'as the
Romans do. The young man bowed back again and we, not
knowing better, did the same. Well, Annie never liked
to be upstaged. She bowed twice the second time, so he
bowed twice. I almost flipped, though, when Annie - as
if she were playing a part in a stage play - bowed to
me. All right - if that's the way it was going to be -
I bowed to her and then we bowed together to the young
man who bowed back to us . I wonder now if we would have
been bowing to one another for ten hours all the way
to Daircn. Luckily, the train started moving with a
sudden lurch which throw us onto our seats. That was
the end of our acquaintance with the young Japanese
fellow. He never as much as looked at us again. We
didn't exchange a single word. I missed our friendly
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Ottokar who had welcomed us to the Far East. The old
peasant probably could neither read nor write, but he
had a heart of gold. He had felt our loneliness and
so he had talked to us. We instinctively knew that all
he wanted was to be kind. He probably loved people, all
sorts of people, even foreign devils like us. He was
loufi ,as/
satisfied asfhe could fill his stomach every day, had
a place to sleep and some people to talk to. It occurred
to me if our Ottokar would have been the emperor of Man=»
chukuo, he wouldn't have drawn the window shades in his
have/
train. He would /waved to his people. He was a kind, old
man who had no need to bow with ceremonial politeness.
He was a link between West and East for us . But not so
this young man who quite obviously came from a higher
class of society than our Ottokar. By bowing to us he
had just followed the custom of his people, the same
as we doff our hats or nod to one another. Unlike the
simple, old peasant Ottokar this young and probably well
educated man was aware of the difference in our cultures
as well as of the language barrier. And so were we in his
presence. For ten hours we shared the same compartment,
breathed the same air, but neither he nor we made an
f
attempt to get acquainted. There was no charisma between
us, this extra-ordinary mental power which so easily
links the minds and emotions of people.
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At last our traveling on trains ended in
Daircn. or^ as it is better known^r at the Yellow Sea
naval base of Port Arthur on the Liaotung Peninsula.
We unloaded our suitcases a'Xd piled them up on the plat =
form as we had done before. We missed our friend Karl
Holz. It was nine in the morning and the boat for Shang=*
hai was supposed to leave at noon. I had to go into town
to have our reservation confirmed at the Japanese steam=
ship office. Once more and with a heavy hearc^ I had to
leave Annie at the railway station in charge of our
baggage. Timothy and 1 took a taxi. Without Holz I had
no other choice to find my way. The /^ip to and fro cost
us another dollar. Our boat reservation was manifested
all right, but the news that the ship had left at eight
in the mo/^ning instead of at noon as scheduled almost
floored me. We had to stay in Dairen for fully three days
until the departure of the next Shanghai bound ship. How
the heck could we do it without spending whatever money
we had left?
Holz told us later that the Shanghai-bound steamers
often left early so thatthe train passengers missed the
connection and had to stay in a hotel for three days. He
didn't know for sure, but the way he figured it was that
«
possibly the steamship L/ne got a pay-off from the hotel
owners .
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As we were to find out over the years of our travels
4
and travails each place - city or country - had her
own
special brand of racket. Some of them - like the hole in
the road to Wusi between Shanghai and Nangking - were
real daisies. Human greed doesn't know national boundaries.
Dairen was anything but a tourist town. Regular passen=
ger liners did not stop there. The hotels could use the
extra business of people stranded for a number of days.
Knowing about it, Holz had spent two full days with his
girlfriend in Harbin. The Dutchman with Pfeiffer and
Schneider had done the same with three prostitutes. In
contrast to Dairen Harbin was a wide-open town.
I was really down in the dumps when I returned to
the railway station. Poor Orphan Annie was still sitting
on
our suitcase pile. Each time I had to leave her alone,
Timothy got angry with me. How could he protect her when
he was duty-bound to accompany me? It didn't help any
that again and again I assured him that Annie could well
take care of herself and that I considered her more of an
angel than he was.
With the sweet smile of a fairy she looked up at
me when she saw me again. While I had worried about her,
she had worried about me. We always worry about each other
when we are separated, even if only for a few minutes. She
is an angel with a knack of getting acquainted with strange
people who could be of help to us.
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The railways station in Daircn was the business
center for hotel runners. One of them, a Jewish fellow,
who claimed to hail from Turkey or thereabouts, had at=
tached himself to Annie while I was gone. She knew already
about the disaster that we had to stay for three days in
Dairen (if I had waited a little while I could have saved
the taxi fare) and had made all the arrangements neces=
sary with this man. He spoke Yiddish and Annie understood
roost of what he said while he understood most of Annie's
German. The gist of their agreement was that he would
take us to a brand-new hotel where we had only to pay
three dollars per night. It sounded somewhat phony to me
and I was suspicious of this fellow. Who could tell to
what kind of a hovel he would take us? He might even be
a white slave trader. After I got my throat cut, he could
sell Annie for what she was worth. For a second I was
determined to get rid of him, but then I realized that
as usual I had a hell of a macabre imagination. It's one
of the side-effects one had to endure when one believes
to be a writer, mixing reality with phaiy^:asy. Winston
Churchill had said something about the truth being so
precious that it had to be surrounded by lies. I could
do no better than putting my trust in Annie's common
sense and Timothy's protection. However, before I gave
my consent I asked, "Does this brand-new hotel have
bathrooms?"
The man looked at me as if I had personally insulted
him. "Bathrooms?" He kissed the tips of his fingers with
a smacking sound. "It has the most modem bathrooms in
the world. The Tah Mahal Hotel in Bombay, the Dai Iti
Hotel in Tokyo, or even the Bernini Hotel in Rome could
not boast of better accommodations."
I noticed that he had not mentioned any hotel I might
have known - as for instance the Adlon Hotel in Berlin
or Die Vier Jahreszeiten in Hamburg. It increased my
suspicion although I'm by nature not a suspicious charac="
ter. Annie even insists that I'm the most guileless person
in the world, but she, of course, is prejudiced in my favor.
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The three of us gathered our suitcases, walked out of
the station and took another taxi to that brand-new hotel
where I reluctantly handed the man a dollar tip which
understandably he didn't find very generous. For a moment
he stared at the single dollar bill, shook his head in dis=
belief and muttered in Yiddish something akin to: "May
your children pee on your feet, not mine." We never saw a
m
an disappear so fast as he. For a dollar he wouldn't give
us another helping hand with our baggage. The hotel was a
simple, square cement building with no resemblance to any
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of the luxurious hostelries he had mentioned. At least,
he had not lied about the room price. Six dollars for
two nights . Before we were /through with Dairen and the
sea voyage to Shanghai our capital had shrunA' to twenty-
one dollars .
The Hotel Oriental was brand-new all right. In fact,
it was so new that it wasn't all finished yet. It had
modem bathrooms, thank God, beautifully tiled with large
tubs and everything one could dream off - with the ex=»
caption of water. The pipes weren't yet connected. The
all we could do was sleeping or wandering around in
Dairen which the Chinese called "Talien" and the Russian
"Dalny". Nowadays ^inc luding the naval base Port Arthur^
it has the name of "Lu-ta". It was not an interesting
or impressive city, partly occidental and partly oriental.
There was nothing special to see and if there was, we
missed it.
FindXly on the third morning we could board the
"Hoten Maru", a very small steamship that didn't instill
didn' t have/
us with much confidence to its sea-worthiness. It/l
same applied to the little wash basin in our room. No
more than a dozen passenger cabins. Pfeiffer and Schneider
water connection yet. Luckily the flush toilet worked
already, but that was the extent of water supply. Other=
were already on board. When we met them, they boasted of
had/
the good time they had/in Harbin, but I didn't l3t th
em
wise the room was simply, but quite nicely furnished. We ^t^*
get into details in regard to their carnal exploits in
wouldn't have cared to sleep on the floor, if we only
could havef*had some water to wash. We stayed dirty, and
the presence of Annie. When the call came for "tiffin"
(lunch to you), we found Holz sitting with us. He looked
we had no choice but to live mostly out of our food suit=
a little worse for wear.
cases. The room clerk managed to get for us from somewhere
After we had stowed our suitcases away into our
enough hot water to fill our thermos bottle twice a day
tiny cabin we made a dash for the one and only bathroom
so we could brew ourselves some coffee or tea.
aboard. There was a sign on the door which read in several
However^ we had a nutrition problem. One cannot exist
on pumpernickel, crackers, sausage and cheese alone. We
languages that the bathroom facilities were out of order
for the duration of the trip. The Hoten Maru was in service
needed some vegetable or at least some fruit. We dis»
covered that one could buy forty small, red bananas for
twenty American cents to supplement our feeding. Otherwise
for some fifty years and very much lacked in modern
ac c omod a t i on s . /
We still had no choice but to stay dirty.
Quite obviously the gods who ruled over wasing water were
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in a conspiracy against us.
The journey from Dalren to Shanghai took forty-
eight hours, twenty- four of which we were seasick, and
I mean seasick. This little shell of a vessel took the
swells of the ocean in a very unkindly manner. She behaved
like a roller-coaster. Up and down and down and up. The
sea was roughf. Not exactly stormy, but quite close to
it. This little steamship, not bigger than a river boat,
had to ride high waves while we were lying in our bunks,
groaning and moaning. Strangely enough, this was the only
time I got seasick. We certainly were happy when the
Hoten Maru docked at Tsingtao the next morning. We had
time to go ashore for a couple of hours.
Tsingtao, a German possession from 1898 to 1914
(from the end of the boxer rebellion to the beginning
of the first world war) still bore the marks of that
period. We didn't enjoy it. It reminded us too much of
the land from where we had fled. The bitterness, until
then suppressed, welled up. Quite unreasonably so. Tsingtao,
after all, was not to blame for the Nazis. But we were
determined to forget Germany. That was impossible in
Tsingtao where most of the Chinese spoke some sort of
pidgin-German. There were typical German churches with
their highl and pointed steeples, sticking like sharp
toward/
needles/fiSSthe sky. Many street names were still in
German. There were ^ggH houses built in typical small-
city German style. Tsingtao could as well be a city like
Erfurt for instance, if it hadn't been for the Chinese
of/
population. The whole atmosphere was thatja provincial
German town although it was supposed to have a population
of more than a million people. We didn't know it then, but
it was probably the cleanest, most orderly city in all of
China. The truth was, though, that we couldn't yet stomach
anything German, even if it was only a facsimile. In
later years we learned better than to condemn an entire
nation for the brutal savages who at that time /Ravaged
the beautiful country of Germany.
We were glad to return to the Hoten Maru and didn't
look back on Tsingtao as we got under steam. The second
day of our short ocean voyage was much better. The sea
was calm. No more malade-de-mer.
The next morning we reached the more than a mile wide
estuary of the Yang tze-Kiang or Yellow River and two
hours later the ship turned into its tributary*^ the Whang-
poo, on the shores of which Shanghai is situated.
The Hoten Maru had not yet fastened to its wharf when
she was literally invaded by hordes of wildly shouting
and running coolies, all of them intent on grabbing our
precious suitcases. If it had not been for Karl Holz,
coming to our rescue and taking charge, we would have been
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overwhelmed and defeated. Neither Annie nor I could act
fast enough to retrieve our <?ases. Until Holz appeared
on the scene we fought a losing battle. Wc were bewildered,
exhausted and absolutely helpless. How could we know that
all these poor devils wanted was to earn a few coppers for
carrying our baggage to the custom shed. To us they looked
like a gang of robbers intent on piracy. Holz with a few
Chinese swear words got the rabble under control. He picked
three coolies who took our suitcases to the customs and
from there to a taxi for which Holz paid each one of them
two/
five coppers or less than/f^ American cenDfl
During our fight with the coolies Timothy lost his
head altogether. He against several dozens of wild men
was too much for him. He got unnerved. In fact, he was
ready to call it quits then and there. Forgetting his
celestial status, he began to swear like a drunken sailor,
something a good angel was never allowed to do. He was
totally out of his mind and believed that these yelling,
fighting, dirty coolies were emissaries from hell. He was
beseeching heaven for help, but only Karl Holz materialized,
and one could hardly call him a celestial warrior. Timothy
never told me what kind of penance he had to do for his
swearing.
While we were busy with getting our suitcases through
customs, Pfetffer and Schneider waved us good-bye, and that
was the last time we saw our "friend" Pfeiffer. We never
succeeded in tracing him and he never contacted us to
repay his debt*
Res ipsa loquitor - the thing
speaks for itself. Or, as Elbert Hubbard wrote: "Life
is one damned thing after another." or, as I said - we
had been conned. We had to begin a new life with the
twenty dollars we had left.
At last we truly had arrived in the Far East. Yet,
as we were to learn^ Shanghai was not China as New York
is not the United States of America.
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CHAPTER FIVE
SHANGHAI - UWEU SHE STILL WAS SH/\NGHAI .
The arrival at any strange port
of destination may evoke all sorts of emotions, curiosity
perhaps, or thrill, or joy, depending on what you are,
whom you expect to meet, or what you intend to do. Shang=
hai was our first port of destination and the total of
our emotions was a feeling of insecurity. We were neither
tourists nor on a business trip, nor were we visiting
relatives or friends. We had no job awaiting us. We were
penniless refugees«,exiles , emigrants, or whatever you
will call it. We were two lost people, deprived of our
past and utterly unsure of our future.
No one was expecting us and perhaps we were not even
wanted. No one ha& promised us a livelihood or even an
existence. All we possessed were our miserable thirteen
suitcases, two entry-visas with no promises attached to
them and about twenty dollars in cash. We had to flee
for our lives from the land of our birth. We had left
behind a way of living to which we had been accustomed.
We had been separated from our relatives and our friends.
Whatever we had achieved and acquired, professionally and
materially, in years of hard work was irretrievably lost.
To sum it up, on the day we reached Shanghai we were nothing,
but still alive - and that was something for which we had
to be very grateful under the circumstances. And so we were.
We had not a single compact idea of how and where to start
a new life. Having been actors and in my case also a writer
we were bound - for some time, at least - to the German
language which would be of little help to us. We had to
learn a new language and this Babel of the Far East was
a place of many tongues - Chinese, English, French. Portu«
guese, Russian and many more.
The naked truth was that two poor refugees would not
arouse mm interest in a city where poor refugees were
abound. Thousands and thousands of Russians had fled to
Shanghai after the Soviet Republic had been declared a
workers' paradise. Many of them had come and few had been
able to make even a scant living. We, Annie and I, were
like driftwood, thrown onto a strange beach, not knowing
if anyone would care to pick us up. We were like fish out
of water who had to learn how to breathe.
Timothy, being sure that we had arrived in hell,
simply collapsed in the taxi. The three of us were so
dazed that we were unable to see, hear, or talk - like
the throe ],gendary monkeys. We were deaf and dumb, dead-
tired and very, very dirty. We had no first impression
whatsoever of this most exciting, most international,
most outrageous metropolis. We later did not remember
how we got to the Holz residence. We were so bewildered
and lost that Karl Holz could have kidnaped us, done away
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with us without meeting any resistance. This was the only
time where Timothy might have failed to protect us. He
admitted it later and shuddered at what would have happen=*
ed to him. He certainly would have been condemned to hell's
fire. He was in a state of shock for the first and last
time. Whenever later I reminded him of it, he flew into
a rage that must have cost him some demerits in his
heavenly account.
Holz had told us that his parents lived in a house
which was situated in an alley off Avenue Haig in the
French Concession. Well, when the taxi came to a stop
at the narrow alley, Holz climbed out over all our gear
and advised us to stay in the taxi until after he had
talked to his parents. They didn't even know that he
was coming home. So we waited and waited, anxiously watch=
ing the ticking meter. We didn't know that one couldn't
pay in cash for a taxi ride.
In fact, the employment of a taxi in Shanghai was
absolute unique. Only at wharfs, when passenger boats
arrived, were waiting taxis allowed. Otherwise no one
could hail a taxi on the street because kidnaping was
a great sport in Shanghai. Besides, the Shanghai taxi
companies wouldn't trust any of their drivers to accept
money. Cheating was also a great sport. The occupant of
month was presented with a total bill which he either
paid to the money collectors (compradores , as they were
called) or directly to the companies. If one wanted a
taxi, one had to phone one of the taxi companies to send
one. They in turn told you the license number of the car
to assure you that everything was on the up and up. Non-
residents like us could not sign chits. The Holzes had
to do that for us and we would re-imburse them.
Almost ten minutes passed before Karl emerged again
from the house. That ticking money meter had gotten so
much on my nerves that I could have screamed. Annie was
so tired that she scarcely could keep her eyes open. I
nudged her, and we both looked anxiously at our friend
as he slowly approached us. The expression on his face
was not very encouraging. He put his head into the car
window and told us that his father had died while he was
on his way back home.
We somehow expressed our sympathy, but the news were
like a dash of cold water on our hopes. What would happen
now? If we wouldn't get the room in Holz's house, where
were we going to go? What were we going to do in this
fear- inspiring city? We had not enough money for a hotel,
or probably no more than for a few days.
Karl must have seen the expression of apprehension
a taxi had to sign a chit and then at the end of each
on our faces. He smiled and assured us not to worry.
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"Mother has a small attic room which she's willing
to rent to you. She wants twenty Shanghai dollars a month
for it/
Twenty Shanghai dollars were about sven American
dollars and after paying the taxi fare we would have
about ten dollars left, enough to get us through the
first few weeks if we skimped as far as eating was c
on=
cerned. Karl signed the chit for the taxi and we gave him
three dollars plus a twenty cents tip for the driver.
What can one say to a strange woman who just had
lost her husband? We managed to tell her how sorry we
were, and we thanked her for letting us have the room.
We paid her the rent for one month, and she without say=
ing a word led us up a narrow staircase to the attic. She
was a tiny, kind of dried-up woman whose eyes seemed to
have gone dead. Karl and I took the suitcases and lueced
them up.
It was a small room all right, not larger than six
feet wide and twelve feet long. There were two iron beds
with patched-up mosquito nets and no more than half a foot
passage between them. At the window stood a little, rickety
table and two narrow wooden chairs. That was all. We had
to leave our suitcases outside in the hall where we were
give/the use of an old-fashioned wardrobe. Mrs. Holz also
allowed Annie to use the kitchen on the ground floor.
After a while I began to call our room our prison
cell, for that was about the size of it. Yet, at the
mome
nt we were very grateful for having a roof over
our head. A floor down below was the bathroom which we
had to share with another roomer and Karl. We took a
cake of soap and two towels out of one of the suitcases
as well as our pajamas and robes and then headed straight
for the bathroom, that is the very moment we were left
to ourselves.
Yes, indeed, the bathroom had a large, old-fashioned
tub, spacy enough for the two of us, hot and cold running
water and as soon as it was halfway filled up we stepped
into it. We just sat down and soaked as happy as two
children who had received the most wanted, the most
wonderful, the most expensive Christmas present. HqC
water - what a luxury! Hct water after sixteen days of
almost no water. Who can ever imagine the joy we ex=
perienced? Three times we let the dirty water run out
and fresh one fill up the tub again i
For one full hour we soaked and soaped and rinsed.
What a feast 1 At last we scrubbed and cleansed the tub,
put on our pajamas and robes, picked up our clothes and
soiled underwear and climbed up to our room. It was still
daytime, but we went to bed, and we still could feel the
sway of the ocean in us . A bath and a bed. Whoever would
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think they could be precious luxuries? To us they were
on this first day and night in Shanghai. We were deter-
mined not to move until the following morning. Just rest
and sleep and if possible not think, if that would be
attainable. As usual Annie prayed for the two of us,
thanking God for the long, safe journey from Hamburg to
Shanghai, for the bath and the room. We had had a sub=
stantial breakfast on the Hoten Maru and that would have
to suffice until the next day. We were not yet altogether
destitute. Our rent was paid for a full month. We still
had about ten dollars left as well as a few vittels in
our food suitcase. In the morning we would contemplate
our future, if we had one.
Timothy, too, was relatively happy because we had
found lodgings with a decent German woman. He had been
quite apprehensive that we might have to live with a
Chinese "heathen" family, a thought that had disturbed
him despite the fact that he had assured me many times
that a guardian angel was not supposed to have any pre=
judices. No wonder that he still was on probation in
heaven.
Annie, after ending her prayer, fell asleep from one
second to the next. She can do that any time.
One may well ask how it feels to be a
poor refugee in a strange country, a strange city among
strange people who speak a strange tongue or many strange
tongues? One may also ask how one manages to survive with=
out any money to speak of and no real prospect of earning
some? One may ask how deeply it hurts to have been torn
from one's family and friends, from one's life-work,
one's career and projected future? One may ask how one
does suppress one's bitterness for a nation that has
forced innocent people to all the misery of being persons
without a country? One may ask and ask many questions,
but who wants to hear the answers? One may ask about
the heartbreak when one has to walk out of one's life,
out of one's home, leaving behind everything one has
owned in order to escape a fate which to contemplate
was almost impossible? One may ask again how one can
start to build a new life, a new career without for=
getting the lost years of ambition and work? But one
has to forget or one never will be able to start living
again.
Well, ladies and gentlemen, sisters and brothers,
i^body ever asked any of these questions. During this
first night in Shanghai I alone did ask them. I did not
have the capacity to fall asleep like Annie although I
felt as exhausted and tired as she has been. She could
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sleep under any circumstances, but not I. I always had
been a poor sleeper and now I was lying awake in this
narrow, sparsely furnished attic room under a mosquito
net which needed washing. By some miracle we had landed
in this room, this prison cell, which would be our home
for at least four weeks or longer if we could come up
with another^t month^rcnt. There was no air-conditioning
or even a fan to alleviate the tropical, humid summer
heat and no heater for the cold winter days. My reso=
lution not to think about our situation had been in vain.
All of a sudden it hit me. It really did hit me
hard like a heavy blow on the head that I had only
questions and not a single answer. I fell into the
deepest well of depression and could not see any way
how to crawl out of it. It was not my nature to be de=
pressed ever, at least not for any length of time, and
I should have known that by morning I would be all right
again. I was not the kind of man to give up the fight,
even when buried under a heap of adversities. I always
had been a fighter, a rebel, a non-conformist, a doer,
neither an extro- nor an introvert, but somewhere in-
between - an ambivert.
To me the worst crime a man can commit is to cop
out on himself and by that I mean to give in and let
stand up, looking fate straight into the eye. He has to
stand up, not only for his human rights, but also for the
preservation of his human dignity. No amount of money, no
material advantages of any kind, no mere pot,sonal ambitions
can guarantee his human, ethical rights and his dignity
as a person. The poorest fellow in the world is able to
preserve his human dignity and rights if he refuses to
drivel, and the richest man could fail if he succumbs to
selfishness, greed, and a criminal tendency to cheat the
other fellow of the piece of cake that does not belong to
him. I don't think that I ever copped out on myself. I
gladly paid the price for it by not expecting and not
achieving financial success, but be satisfied with
spiritual and mental happiness.
\'Jhen on that first night as an exile in Shanghai I
fell into this deep well of (pression , I nevertheless knew
intuitively that it would not last because it did not
affect my determination to preserve my dignity as a
human being. I could never drivel for favors or beg
for charity which I could accept only if it was given to
me voluntarily out of the goodness of some one's heart.
This subconscious knowledge, I think, saved me from drown-
ing during these unhappy hours.
I tried to assess the professional and mental re-
himself to be trampled underfoot. A man has always to
sources we had and upon which we could build a new life.
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It was a vain attempt since I came up with nothing concrete
CXir situation seemed to be hopeless, and for once God was
far away from me. I could not reach Him. Suddenly I was
gripped by an attack of claustrophobia as if I was con=
fined in a room without an exit. I believed that the closed
door could never be opened again. I felt paralyzed, unable
to get up and try the door. I forgot that there didn't
exist a problem which could not be solved as long as one
retained faith in God. But where was God?
Indeed, during these hours I was a lonely refugee.
So lonely that I saw black and nothing but black, unniind=
ful of the fate I had escaped from, a Nazi concentration
camp and a tortured death. This was despair at its worst
manifestation. It never happened to me again, and I think
if Annie had not fallen
into a deep, exhausted
sleep, if we could have talked it all out then and there,
I would not have lost my mental equilibrium. Thank God,
she never has failed me and neither would she have failed
me that miserable night.
There is no percentage in worrying other
than that it inflicts self-induced wounds and sometimes
leaves mental scars similar to those from physical surgery.
The first black night in Shanghai left such a scar in my
mind. By worrying one inflates any trouble one might have
or only ant icipatcs .More often than not worries are not
rooted in rationalism - as quite often hope is not, although
it is so much better to live with hope despite f>^equent
disappointments than with worries. Believe me, most of
the time you'll say afterwards: Please, don't worry! Nothing
came
of it. Now that I've reached a mature age I've taught
myself to bar worries as well as hope from my mind. I let
destiny take its course and feel so much happier for it.
I did not tell Annie of my desperation the next morning.
By then I had pushed it into some of the deep recesses of
what Dr. A.T.W. Simeons calls: "Man's Presumptious Brain",
a book which I could not know then because it had not yet
been written. It was to be published in 1961 and should
be read by anyone who can read.
"Psychosomatic ailments account for the bulk of urban
man's ill health and are the most frequent cause of his
death. Man shares this kind of affliction with no other
living creature," so writes Dr. Simeons. Worries and fears
are most often, if not always, the cause of psychosomatic
ailments .
It was and is hardly possible to worry or harbor fears
with a wife like Annie at one's side. She was and is the
kind of woman who never falls victim to moodiness. We had
a very hard time during these first months in Shanghai,
but Annie had and still has a way of being what the Germans
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calif.-Frlsh und frohlich". which can be translated in many
ways, either as "fresh and gay", or as "lively and happy",
or as facing life at its worst moments with an undaunted
optimism and courage.
Of course, she got herself a job before I did and made
a success of it with all the odds against her. The first
barrier we had to surmount was to acquire sufficient know=
ledge of the English language before we could expect to
land a job. In the Orient foreigners are excluded from
menial work. The natives did it for pennies where we
needed dollars.
Whatever EngUsh we had learned in school was mostly
forgotten and what we had retained did not suffice. We had
not only to learn speaking, reading and writing EngUsh,
but also thinking in it. Besides, we had to overcome a
mental block of shyness to apply our newly acquired know=
ledge.
After the first unpleasant rebuff in our search for
work. Annie took the lead. She urged me. pushed me. nagged
me to learn EngUsh and learn it well. For endless hours
she worked with me and by doing so she learned/aSw ^
In her youth she had studied to be a college teacher,
but instead caught the stage bug and had become an actress.
Something of these years of preparation for the teaching
profession had been retained in her. She was good at working
with me. Besides, she never let up reminding me that I
start/
was a writer and I should/writing again, even if 1 still
had to do it in German. So one day I began the book which
eventually opened the path to America for us.
An uncle of mine had always maintained that money
had the pleasant habit of coming back to you. It was a
saying we found amusing, but he was right as we were to
discover more than once. There was a day before the first
month in Shanghai had passed that we were down to fifty
cents. We didn't even have any food left but a few potatoes
which we boiled and ate as/they were ^H what we considered
our last supper. What grand-eloquent, silly ideas one can
get in such a predicament. Our last supper - it almost
made us feel heroic. Of course, we could exist on fifty
American cents for another day or two, but what was the
use? We decided on spending the money to see a movie.
That to us seemed to be a good way of going out in style.
Amovie and then the finale. The picture we saw was "Les
Miserabls" with Frederic March as the star. It was a very
good picture, but it certainly wasn't the right one for
us. The fact that o^r English was still so inadequate that
we almost didn't understand any of the dialogue made us
than/
more miserable/ji we already were. What in the world were
we going to do if we couldn't even understand the language
of a film which as a book was so familiar to us?
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We troddcd home to our prison cell, crawled into
our beds and tried to sleep. After a while I heard Annie
chuckling.
"What's so funny?" I asked her.
"We are. Who else?" she said. "We had fifty cents
left and, as miserable as we're supposed to be, we spent
/
it on a picture called 'Les Miserables ' " .
"All right," I said, adding a deep sigh to underline
my desperation, "maybe that was kind of stupid, but what
difference does it make?
ir
"That's not what I meant. If we had some sense we
should have gone to see a musical. At least, we can
understand music, or at least I can, and perhaps we
would have laughed now and then. Besides, we won't
starve," she asserted with her usual optimism.
breakfast we/
The next morning our stomachs growled for the/couldn' t
have. Annie said, we should call an acquaintance of ours
and ask for a loan of a few dollars. I couldn't do it. I
couldn't borrow money without knowing if I ever could re-
pay it. But then ray uncle's monetary theory proved to be
correct again. As he had maintained - money has the pleasant
habit of always coming back to you.
At ten o'clock the mailman brought us a letter from
Prague, Czecho-Slovakia. It contained a check for four
hundred dollars. Through the good services of my older
sister, who had become a literary agent in Stockholm,
Sweden, the Prague radio had bought an old radio play
of mine and had broadcast it. I had had no previous
knowledge about it. My sister had given these people my
address with the proviso to forward the royalties directly
to me after her commission cut of twenty percent.
Last supper - my foot! Thank God, Annie wasn't and
isn't in the habit of saying, "I told you so". Of course,
Timothy had to put in his two bits. "I knew, you wouldn't
starve to death," he said. "Your time isn't up yet." I
reproached him, "\^y didn't you tell me?" After a moment
of silence he admitted without hiding his disappointment,
"I kind of hoped that I was wrong. I've had it with you
two kids. I don't like it here at all." I didn't give him
any further argument. Whether he liked it or not, on four
hundred dollars we could well exist for at least another
three months. Life in Shanghai was cheap in more ways than
one .
Shanghai, when she still was Shanghai (that
is before the Communists changed her into the culturally,
commercially and entertainingly dullest city in the world),
was a fabulous place of unbelievable contrasts, of frighten-
ing wealth and abysmal poverty, of bank palaces and shabby
shacks, of lustful gayety and depressive sadness, of all the
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extremes with nothing in between. She was a city which
knew little charity and good will. She was a dog-eat-dog
city.
Shanghai had been built on swamp land and in a way
she remained a swamp. Some of the larger buildings slowly
sank into the paludal soil, a few inches each yearf, and
in a manner of speaking so did the people who made Shang=
hai their permanent residence. If they lived long enough
there, they were stuck like in quick-sand. And yet Shang=
hai could also be called a veritable paradise where people
were able to live the life of Riley, figuratively and actu=
ally. Even a man, who according to Western standards had
a modest income, could afford to have servants and imagine
himself a mogul.
Shanghai, when she still was Shanghai, was no doubt
a sinful, soulless, crazy, horrible, wonderful metropolis,
the largest city in China - although she was basically not
China. She was Shanghai and nothing else. She was the Inter=
national Settlement and the French Concession with poverty-
stricken Chinese suburbs surrounding them. That is not to
say that the Settlement and the Concession had no Chine
se
residents, but many of them were immensely wealthy, ex*
ploiting their poor countrymen more than any of the foreign*
ers or "Shanghailanders" as they were called.
Shanghai was built on the shores of the Whangpoo River,
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t
the waters of which were contaminated by human excrement.
Shanghai had a harbor where foreign warships lay at anchor
and large passenger liners came and went, where Chinese
freight tramps plied their trade, where little junks and
sampans ferried back and forth.
have Rone/
Yes, Shanghai was Shanghai, and if we could/i» back
there in time and place, we might have serCously considered
it. Somehow Shanghai enters one's bloodstream. Never before
and never again will there be a city comparable to the Shang=
hai prior to the take-over by the Japanese in 1937 and
the Communists in 1949. Now she is from all we read and
hear as boring as she was exciting, as sanitary as she
was unsanitary, as regimented as she was wide open. Her
harbor is dead. Only the swamp is still there. Even after
so many years we still feel that Shanghai was the most
exhilarating experience during our travels and travails
as two people without a country. Anyone of the old Shang=«
hailanders will always think and speak of this Shanghai
with nostalgia.
The reality, of course, was quite different. Nowhere
were poor people as much exploited as in Shanghai. The
ma
sses of the poor Chinese were uneducated, mostly il=
literate. Few of them knew more than a hundred characters
of the approximately twenty- thousand characters (words in
other languages) the Chinese language contains. Few could
PWjWH— twwww
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either write or read. In Shanghai the ancient Chinese
culture had gone underground. As far as they existed,
civilization and culture were only a veneer. Nonetheless,
she was a center of learning with more schools and uni=»
versities than in any other city in China. I told you,
she was a city of unbelievable contrasts. She had many
parks and recreation grounds - for foreigners mostly. At
the entrance of the Public Gardens in front of the British
Consulate General was a sign which clearly stated: "No
dogs or Chinese allowed". The Municipal Racecourse on
BubbL^ngwell Road, approximately the center of Shanghai,
was not exclusively restricted to foreigners, but only
well-to-do Chinese could afford to visit it. Shanghai
had everything and nothing and I cannot think of any
other way to express it. Anything was possible and nothing
probable. People of all nations lived together in a po=
litical and human vacuum - like cats and dogs and birds
in one cage.
Years and years ago an actress friend of ours in
Hamburg invited us for lunch in her apartment. When we
approached the building where she lived a crowd of people
were standing in the street, looking up to an open third
floor window. There a big dog with its paws on the sill
was loaning out. On his back sat a cat and on the cat's
head perched a canary bird. All three were peacefully
looking out, waiting for their mistress to ieed them. This
little, true anecdote actually has nothing to do with my
attempt to explain Shanghai, but in an odd sort of way
that was the manner of living there, although not as peace=
ful by any means. She was simply impossible, consisting
only of contradictions. Shanghai, when she still was Shang-
hai, was hell and heaven in one.
You may well get impatient to learn what
really happened to us in Shanghai after we had settled
in that dingy attic room. Annie claims now the trouble
was that nothing in particular happened to us. Timothy
on the other hand insists that plenty happened. I don't
know. Maybe both are right with Annie being an optimist
and Timothy an inveterate pessimist.
I surely remember that the first thing we did on
that first morning was taking another bath, first Annie
and then 1. We had become civilized again, at least in
respect to taking separate baths. While Annie was down
in the bathroom, and if he had been waiting for the moment
to be alone with me, Timothy exploded into a kind of revolt.
Apparently guardian angels - or at least guardian angels of
Timothy's type - tcire p/?one to be as combustible as men.
He was riled because it had not been in his agreement, when
he was assigned to me. that he was to tramp all over the
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world. Moreover, he did not belong in China, neither did
he like the idea that we might stay there for any length
of time. He remembered the old saying, that West and East
could never meet. In short he flatly bawled me out for
immigrating to this heaten-country . He would put in an
application for permission to resign from his present
job with me. He had it up to his neck and wanted out.
After letting him rant for a while he got my goat and I
told him to go to hell. That was too much for him, for
he knew quite well that's where he might end up if he
failed me. Besides, he had once told me that no guardian
angel was ever released from his job during the life span
of his or her ward. For weeks he sulked and for weeks he
refused to talk to me. Our relationship became somewhat
strained for a while.
Well, what did happen to us? Annie was right. In the
beginning unfortunately nothing and then, as Timothy
maintains, plenty did happen. Although we had lowered
our anchor, it took quite some time that it took hold,
at least strong enough for us to believe that we might
grow roots. Please, don't worryl Nothing came of itl When
at last we truly could shed all our apprehensions in regard
to making a living, when we could look forward to a future
with justified hope and could plan for the next ten years
of increasing affluence - all hell broke loose. We were
shot at. We were bombed. We lost our jobs through no
fault of our own and the promise of "increasing afflu=
ence" went up in smoke. Once more wc had to flee for our
lives. - But I'm getting again ahead of my story.
Of course, we two - or three if we want to include
Timothy (and I've got to) - weren't the first refugees,
or as I like to call them: People without a country, in
the history of mankind. However, it is in the nature of man
to take one's own troubles and misfortunes quite personal.
We were little concerned about being the first or last
persons without a country. The fact remained that we had
landed in a strange country and a strange city among strange
people whose language we didn't understand and whose habits
were alien to us. We were faced with harsh and hard reali=
ties. After all, what good was our successful flight from
Nazi-Germany if we perished now from starvation? Like
anywhere else we had to eat, we had to pay our rent. We
needed basic necessities and without work, paid work, we
would have nothing of the sort. Where could we find work
and what kind of work could we do? We both were still tied
to C\\c language which didn't do us any good in Shanghai.
Foolish, as youth is bound to be, I had not U^itened to
my father's advice to learn a trade regardless of what
kind of profession I would choose. He had claimed - and
rightly so - that by having learned a trade to fall back
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upon one would not be lost anywhere in the world. Yet -
as many of us learn in a span of a lifetime - if the
need arises, a human being has more resources than he
can dream of. In the course of our years as persons wlth«
out a country, and even later when at last we had come to
America, I worked in a lot of different jobs, although I
hadn't been prepared for any of them. I worked as a ball=*
__and"/
room manager, a hotel manager, a five^ten- cents store
manager, a packer, a shipping clerk, an assistant manager
in textile firms, an egg gatherer and candler on a chicken
farm to name only some - until finally and happily I had
my/
no choice but to return to/first, true love - writing,
although in my spare time I always had kept my hand at
it. Serious and chronic illness made it impossible for
me to do anything else, and it mattered little whether I
was successful or not in my literary endeavours. It kept
my mind occupied and left me little time to brood over my
incapacities or feel sorry for myself. I never was good
at self-pity anyway. Writing is hard and lonely work, but
it leaves one free to do it at one's own time and without
the pressure of being bossed - unless one sells one's soul
to the devils of advertising agencies or film makers.
That first morning in Shanghai we had but one asset -
and that was the address of another refugee from Hamburg,
a physician who had left Germany with his family just
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»
before Hitler seized power. And as it turned out - it
mostly turns out the same way - my depressive worrying
like all worrying was as futile as trying to fill
leaky backet with water.
a
Daphne du Maurier in her book "Frenchman's
Creek" wrote: "Those who live a normal life in this world
of ours are forced into habits, into customs, into a rule
of life that eventually kills all initiative, all spon=
taneity. A man becomes a cog in the wheel, part of a
system.
II
We certainly were spared the boredom of leading a
had/ opportunity/
normal life. We never had/much/cSftHt for it.WHHpi
Events in Germany after the lost first world war, which
in its train brought deprivation, inflation, mass-unem=*
ployment, militant uprisings from the extremists of the
left and right, did not encourage us to become either a
cog in the wheel or part of the system - or as it has
been dubbed nowadays - the establishment . Coming to
Shanghai the way we did was not opportune either for
acquiring regular habits, and we better kept our initia-
tive well oiled if we wanted to keep our heads above water.
Of course, we did not starve to death, although we came
close to it occasionally. The truth is that we could
have made a regular fortune if it had not been for the
Japanese invading Shanghai in 1937. I only can repeat:
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The trouble J I encounter in writing about our cx=
periences of that time^ I can compile into the one question:
How in the name of all the gods and devils, saints and
sinners can I manage to explain life in a city like
Shanghai when she still was Shanghai?! mean, how can 1
make it possible for you to feel the specific atmosphere
of this extra-ordinary city, the many smells, ranging all
the way from the burnt incense in temples to the carts,
in which human excrement* was collected for fetilizer,
the peculiar sounds and noises, emanating from the great
variety of people, from the poorest coolies to the wealthiest
men in the world, from the lives of socially accepted taxi-
dancers to the puritanistic British society ladies, fro
m
the waddle huts to the bank palaces and to our ears dis=
cordant Chinese music from over-amplified radios or record-
players in open Chinese stores to attract customers? Unle
ss
I devote a whole book to it, Shanghai, when she still
was
Shanghai, simply defies description. I only can try my
best to acquaint you with this unique city while I'm tell=
ing you our personal story which, of course, is the actual
purpose of this book.
One factor came home to us before anything else - we
had to change our modus vivendi in many ways. None of our
previous habits, customs, experiences were of much use to
us. We learned fast. To give a small instance, we learned
never to wait on a street aisle for the streetcar if we
did not want to be spit or urinated at. I'm not kidding.
There was nothing personal about it. People just spat
through the open streetcar windows without looking, or
mothers were holding out their babies when they had to
c^o a certain wet business. We had to learn - another
small instance - when to hold one's nose while driving
in a rickshaw at night. As I said, human excrement., which
was used as fertilizer in the farm fields, were carried
away in open, little dung carts. The smell was absolutely
nauseating. We had to learn how to direct a rickshaw coolie
and not to pay him a copper (the third of a Shanghai cent)
more or less than the ride/had been worth. There were no
fixed standards and yet one had to know unless one
didn' t mind/
/CO De conironted by a big walla-walla, a trenchantly scream^
ing argument from the coolie. If one had paid less than he
.1^ J , paid/
deserved , he wanted his due. If one had^^^ngle copper
too much, he assumed that his passenger was a greenhorn
and could be co-erced into even paying more. I still could
not say how one learned to evaluate the price of a rick=
Shaw ride. Mostly it was instinct, I guess. One also had
to learn the fine art of bargaining. There were no fixed
prices in Chinese shops. One had to bargain for one's own
benefit as well as for the merchants sustenance of happiness.
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•
Unless one bargained an item down to the right price
(here again it was instinct to guess the right price^
^n instinct I do not possess^), one was a sucker and the
merchant or craftsman was very unhappy. If one paid with=
out an argument what he requested, one cheated oneself and
the seller bewailed his bad fortune that he had not asked
for a higher price in the first place. I never learned the
art of oriental bargaining, but Annie was just wonderful
at it. She enjoyed it as much as the merchant. They both
parted in a happy frame of mind. Then, of course, aside
from learning correct English, we also had to get acquainted
with the Chinese version of pidgin English. As for instance
an airplane was not just an airplane but a topside rick=
shaw; a piano was not simply a piano but so much more
poetically: Outside strikee-strikee , inside sing-song
girl. If one went to visit an acquaintance or friend and
he or she was not home, the number-one boy would tell you:
Missie walkee-walkee, or Master walkee-walkee. It was a
slanguage all its own with many wonderful facets of picture
esque expressions. Nothing was hurried or of any valid im=*
portance. The standard answer to any request was: Will do -
by and by. Everything was maskee - who cares?
At this point I've got to emphasize that
this is not a general trade-travel book, a guide for tourists,
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or globe trotters, or other footloose people. Neither
is it a book for sightsecers or any such curiosity
ridden burghers. This is exclusively a book about two
people and a guardian angel who lost their country and
their citizenship, a book about two refugee-greenhorns
and their individual experiences which sometimes were
funny and quite often sad. Of course, there is nothing
exclusive anymore about being refugees. Neither was it
then. We were only two in a crowd of refugees which
could have been found and stilll exist in every corner
for/
of the world. Yet, /the majority of average people, who
are living relatively uneventful lives and naturally
have never given a thought to how theu< would feel or
how they would act if they were forced into unwanted
exile, this book might reveal the basic injustice, per=
petrated by some power-hungry leaders on their fellowmen
who were neither criminals nor undesirables. We became
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globe-trotters by no choice of our own. We were no
tourists by any means, if you please.
A tourist - according to good, old Daniel Webster -
is a person who makes a journey for pleasure, stopping
at a number of places for the purpose of seeing the
scenery etc. We did not travel for our pleasure, and we
did not stop at a number of places for the purpose of
seeing the scenery etc. We traveled and stopped all right,
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and wo couldn't help seeing the scenery (of which there
was not much in Shanghai), but the etc. was of more im-
portance to us. The etc. meant that we had to work where
we stopped, or were forced to stop. Understandably, we
were little interested in the scenery, but more so in
the people we met, especially when they could be of help
to us in regard to making a buck. The tragedy about money
is that one doesn't have to like it as I don't, but that
one has to have some in order to exist. Money by itself is
no guaranteed pathway to happiness, but not having any
can surely make one unhappy. What I want to say in so
many words is that you, reading this book, should not
expect any artistic or poetic and either laudatory or
one/
lamentable descriptions of what/may call -/scenic views.
Our simple excuse for that is that during our kind of
travels and travails we didn't feel very poetic ever and
had little use for mother nature, unless it lashed out at
us which it did on occasions.
Once in a while we might try to bore you by crudely
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painting scenographic pictures, but if you prefer you can
always skip them. Shanghai, when she still was Shanghai,
could be in our opinion of interest to tourists only, if
they didn't mind to be fleeced. Shanghai was geared for
the suckers who came to visit her. Shanghai had more night-
clubs, ballrooms and honkie-tonks with more beautiful taxi-
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dancers than any other blace in the world. These taxi-
dancers or rather dance-girls or hostesses as they were
called were veritable queens of the night who were ex«
ceedingly well trained to extract money from their patrons.
They were expensive and they were sexually exciting. Each
and every one of them could have succeeded, if they had
entered beauty contests, in being chosen tm Miss China,
Miss Asia, or Miss Universe or whatever the contests were
about. They were no glorified prostitutes, but tough pro=
fessionals in this unique Shanghai- field of endeavours
because Shanghai always had more male than female resi»
dents. For most of them, with whom I came in contact, I
had great admiration. The-i.rs was not an easy life.
Shanghai, geared as she was to world travelers and
tourists, had also a canidrome, where one could lose money
by betting on stupid greyhound dogs. There was a Hai-a-Lai
arena where the most famous players in the world exhibited
their skill and where one could also lose money by betting
on them. There was the Municipal Race Course to lose money
on poneys. There were a number of illegal, underground opium
dens (Shanghai was a trade center for the opium traffic) and
gambling casinos as well as bC'^ello§, stocked with girls
from many parts of the world. There was Yates Road, an
internationally famous shopping street for oriental curios
(remember the bargaining). There was the little Chinese
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town, Nantao, outside the French Concession with its
narrow alleys of silversmiths, mahjong makers, bird
sellers and so on. There was Chapei and Hongkew to the
North of the International Settlement with its honkie-
tonks and less expensive taxi-dancers, its go-downs
(warehouses) and a multitude of poor Chinese residents.
There were in Shanghai restaurants to satisfy people
of all nationalities; Russiana, French<r, Armenians,
Chinese, Japanese, Germang, British and so on. There
was the famous Cantonese restaurant "Sun Ya" on Bubbling=
well Road where one could eata good meal for two Shanghai
dollars on the ground floor or pay a hundred dollars for
a plate of swallow nest soup or an eighteen course
dinner on the top floor. But there was only one ''Jimmy's
Kitchen". No Shanghailander will ever forget it. It served
wholesome food for real, ordinary people with ordinary
tastes and at prices everyone could afford - except the
poor coolies of course. Jimmy's Kitchen was in my opinion
the best eating place of all, but few tourists ever chanced
it.
Shanghai offered any thrill a tourist-sucker could
imagine. If they wanted and had the dough, they could have
have a hell of a good time. I met only one exception, a
lady- tourist who certainly did not enjoy our crazy Shang-
hai.
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A friend of ours, a Shanghai businessman (also a
native of Hamburg), who had settled in Shanghai many
years before Hitler seized power, received one day a *
letter from an acquaintance in Hamburg, informing him
that a certain lady, the widow of a locally well-known
poet and writer, was on a world cruise and would he be
so kind as to entertain her during her twenty-four hours
stay in Shanghai. He didn't know her and told me about
it. I was mischievous enough not to describe the lady
to him although I had met her in Hamburg on several
occasions. This friend of ours had the smallest European
car of that time. The present ugly-duckling Volkswagen
is a giant in comparison. I kept my mouth shut when he
set out in this his baby-buggy car to pick the lady up
at the wharf. To his bewilderment she turned out to be a
veritable Brunhilde (in German mythology a mighty female
warrior), who was taller than six feet and must have weighed
close to three hundred pounds. He told me later that he
silently swore at me for not having warned him. He tried
to got her sideways or any other ways into his midget car,
but not even a man-sized shoe horn would have done the
trick. The car just didn't fit her. Finally he decided
to let her ride in a rickshaw to follow his car. The
poor rickshaw just collappsed under her. There was a
tremendous walla-walla and the police had to rescue the
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lady as well as our friend who later had to pay the price
for a new rickshaw. He called a taxi, but the driver after
one look at the lady took off again. In his desperation
our friend finally hired a Cadillac limousine. This lady
was one tourist who didn't enjoy Shanghai. Although she
was quite wealthy, she was too stingy to re-imburse our
friend for the broken-down rickshaw or the rent of the
limousine. She hated to spend money and wanted everything
for nothing. Shanghai was no place for free-loaders. Within
a few hours she returned to her ship and was neither seen
nor heard from again.
On the other extreme was an American oil millionaire
who twice or three times a year passed through Shanghai,
or rathe/;^ stopped over there for a few days during which
he had a whale of a good time. In fact, he must have had
several whales of good times. I got to know him when I
was the floor manager of the Casanova ballroom.
Sorry, on second thought, I better tell his story a
little later after I've explained to you the inner work=
ings of a Shanghai ballroom and nightclub. Otherwise you
wouldn't understand. Remind me, please, not to forget about
him because he might have been the instrument to make me
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Timothy, Annie and I were innocent babes,
or rather lambs in a den of wolves. We could easily have
been devoured and disappeared without leaving a trace.
I won't bore you with the tale of how we survived the
first weeks. The fact suffices that we did although it
was anything but easy.
Historically, the Chinese Emperor in 1842, after
having lost the opium wars, was compelled to open up
five ports (Shanghai, Ningpo, Foochow, Amoy and Canton)
to the foreigners who were granted extra-territorial
rights in these cities. They were even excempted from
paying taxes which, of course, was of little concern
to us, at least in the beginning. We had no income
on which taxes could be levied.
At the time we lived in Shanghai guide books were
trying to tell the casual tourists that the city looked
as Western as Chicago in those parts which was the Inter^
national Settlement and the French Concession. Despite
business streets like Nanking Road and broad avenues
like Bubblingwell Road, Avenue Foch or on the waterfront
The Bund, sprouting huge bank palaces, despite high-rise,
modern apartment houses and some shady residential streets
with one family homes one had to have a great imagination
to think one lived in Chicago or New York, in Rome or
London.
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These ridiculous tourist guide books, as misleading
as fairy talcs, did not tell about the multitude of toil-
ing, hungry, miserable Chinese in Shanghai. Neither did
they mention that Shanghai was only gold-plated, that she
was nothing but a devilish assinbly place for all the money-
grabbing, greedy free-booters from all over the world. She
had a society all right with a strata of the so-called
upper four hundred families, most of them could trace
their fortunes back to the opium trade which still was
in progress when we arrived. Shanghai was a fake, a phony,
neither occidental nor oriental. And yet - God forgive me -
she was the most exciting and unique city in the world,
although she was more or less disgusting. She was like
a pretty girl, partly a whore and partly a saint. She was
poison, and the old-time Shanghailanders were addicts who
never could free themselves from being in love with her.
Shanghai was not only a dope trade center, she was herself
the kind of dope which one couldn't shake off. Thinking
about her now, we also got addicted to her in the few
years we lived there. We still remember Shanghai with
nostalgia and whenever we meet people, who lived in
Shanghai, when she still was Shanghai, we can gab about her
for endless hours. If it hadn't been for the outbreak
of the Sino-Japanese hostilities in 1937 we might have
never left Shanghai, for at that time we were already
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contaminated by greed for money and fortune, an addiction
absolutely foreign to our basic character and state of
mind. Thank God, when events beyond our control cured
us from it, we never caught it again. "We cannot serve
God and mammoth", it is written in the bible.
At the time we arrived in Shanghai there weren't yet
any committees to help penniless refugees from Nazi-Germany
Since we were the first of the kind the news spread among
the approximately twenty Jewish physicians and their
families who had left Germany shortly before or after
Hitler came to power. They could practice in Shanghai
without any trouble. After the first hungry month had
passed we were in rotation invited for at least one daily
meal by these good people, thus preventing us from starv=
ing at least.
One afternoon, several weeks after our arrival, we met
by arrangement an American newspaperman, whom we'll call
her^Mv^He owned and published a Chinese newspaper, the
Hwa Mei Publishing Company, and also acted as an agent,
booking traveling show people and acts into nightclubs.
We hoped, he could find a theatrical job for at least
one of us. Our meeting with us at the foyer of the Astor
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at least for us. But many a time a catastrophe turns out
to be a blessing in disguise - and so did this one. Our
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English was so poor that we didn't understand one another.
He shook his head and made it quite clear to us that he
couldn't do a darned thing for us unless we Improved on
our almost non-existent English. We parted on this sour
1/
note. Annie and/were almost reduced to tears.
That was the end of a short dream and the beginning
of our determination to learn English and learn It fast.
To the exclusion of almost anything else we sat In our
small attic room, fighting and absorbing all the pitfalls
a foreign language presents. Besides, we bought a second-
hand, ancient radio and listened to broadcasts In English,
being disgusted when we understood so little of them. We
never failed to attend the religious services of the
American Fourth Marines which were open to the general
public and were held in a big movie house each Sunday
morning. The Marines' chaplain, whose name unforgettably
was Witherspoon. spoke a beautiful, slow and clear English
and his sermons were wonderful language lessons for us.
He actually opened our minds to the language. To this day
we feel that we owe him a great deal of gratitude although
he didn't know then that he was our teacher. Besides, we
enjoyed the marvelous band of the Fourth Marines. Their
concerts after the religious services were wonderful.
Some months later Annie met Chaplain Witherspoon in
person. He was quite touched about the role he had played
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in our lives. Annie was already a reputed nightclub singer
then and the good chaplain engaged her to sing with the
Fourth Marine Band for the July 4th celebration. It was
our first American Indepenpe Day. God, what a great occasion
that was I Then and there the seed was planted in our minds
and hearts from which sprouted our deep love for these
United States of America. (Sorry, Mr. K. , wherever you
are) .
♦
Many a time I wanted to throw in the towel, despair=
ing that I never would be able to command English sufficient'
ly to make it my servant. For me a language had to be a
precision tool which I could use automatically. Being
overzealous, I lost courage easily. However, Annie didn't
let me slack off until at last I felt that we were pro=
gressing. I made my first few although uneasy attempts
to write In English and found it less Inhibiting than
spaking it for the reason that I hated to parade my
accent. I didn't yet realize that one never fully loses
one's accent and that it didn't actually matter as long
as one mastered grammar and syntax and could make oneself
understood without trouble.
Many years later in America a famous Jewish-German
actor, who had emigrated to America directly from Nazi-
Germany, told me in despair, "When I die, my last sigh
will be tliat damned th . True enough, the th sound is
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the hardest one to pronounce.
I feel sure now that we learned more English during
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the first six weeksthan most foreigners do in six years.
Some of the refugees from Germany still have not even
mastered the basic ground rules of English grammar and
syntax after thirty years or more.
The first time I tried to speak English with Timothy
he blew his top. "You stop that nonsense, do you hear?"
he told me angrily. "I don't have to learn it. If it
hadn't been for you, I wouldn't have to run away from
Germany. Besides, I'm too old to learn another language."
That gave me the cue. "How old are you?" I asked him.
Wnenever I had put this question to him, he had refused to
answer it. And so he did again.
"None of your business," he retorted curtly.
However, from what he had told me about his life on
earth I had figured out that he must be about two hundred
fifty years old.
"You speak good, old German with me and I speak
good, old German with you, is that clear?" he advised me.
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It s clear, but what will you do if I refuse to
speak Germany anymore?"
"Why should you?"
"If I want to speak the English language correctly,
I'll have to think and dream in English. Swit^jyjhing from
one language to the other is confusing, at least in the
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1 care a ....," he sighed deeply. "Why aren't we
permitted to swear once in a while? Anyway,! don't care
a Pfennig for your perfection. My business is to keep
you alive until your time comes. And I'll do it in German."
1 shrugged my shoulders. "All right, you keep Annie
and me alive any way you like, but the time will come when
I'll be able to cuss you out in English when you irritate
me, damn iti" 1 smiled when I saw him wince. "I'm allowed
to swear once in a while, you see," I reminded him.
At last our studies began to pay off. We first noticed
it when we laughed at jokes in the movies. It's a real
point/
turning/when one starts to understand the humor in a
strange language.
The next step was an audacious attempt to write an
article in English about the life of Jewish refugees in
Shanghai. After re-writing it several times and let Annie
polish it as well as she could 1 mailed it to "The Jewish
Telegraph Agency" in New York with little hope that it
would be accepted. Yet, if I didn't try, I could never
succeed. It seemed to be impossible that my newly acquired
K_powledgeV/ould already be good enough to pass a literary
test. To my great and joyous surprise the article was
accepted. The editor, a Mr. Wishengrad. wrote to me:
"I found your article quite interesting. It is being used
in its entirety and will probably app^jar in a large number
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of Anglo- Jewish weeklies throughout the country. Your
use of the English language for a man who is self-taught
leaves little to be desired."
I was prouder than a peacock. At last, I could look
forward to continue my career as a writer. As poor as we
were, the money I got paid for the article was not as
important as the fact that an American editor had attested
that my English left little to be desired. That to me was
a triumph I could savor. To a great extent I could thank
Annie for her tenacity not to let me give up. As always
she was the heart and soul behind my endeavours.
However, when it came to writing my first book after
leaving Germany, I did not yet dare to do so in English.
It was still too much of a*challenge.
Not long before Christmas Annie heard some=
where (at the Chinese green grocer's or from a Russian
neighbor or who knows where) that the Paramount Ballroom,
which had been closed for some time, would be re-opened
under new management. The place was only a few blocks
from where we lived. On top of the ballroom building in
a sort of cupola was a small, very intimate nightclub,
called "The Blue Danube". That's what Annie aimed for.
The following morning she made herself as pretty as
she could and went to the Paramount. She wore the one good
street dress she owned and looked truly lovely. Thank
God, that I always have been and still am prejudiced
in her favor. Her brown, silky, unruly hair forever re="
sisted a permanent wave, or at least if she got one it
wouldn't last longer than a few days. It didn't matter,
she couldn't afford to go to a hairdresser anyway. Her
hair always looked kind of disorderly and tousled, but
it emphasized a whimsical face of great beauty. To me it
was seraphic - a wide forehead, hJLown , candid, irradiating
eyes, a pert and upturned small nose, a finely chiseled
mouth. Her alluring body was slim-waisted. The calves
of her legs were well turned. All in all, she was a
lissome girl with a million dollar smile. Who in the
world could resist her? Thus presenting herself to the
new Chinese manager she asked him if he needed a girl
singer for the Blue Danube which had been re-opened in
advance of the ballroom.
In a way it was an act of desperation on her part,
but she was much less inhibited than I. She or I had to
earn money to pay our daily expenses at least. She had a
sweet voice for singing "Lieder" as we said in German, but
so had many others. Although she had taken a few singing
lessons in her younger years, she never had sung profession*
ally in a nightclub. That was tough, and she knew it. Her
repertoire of songs was insufficient, and if she was accepted,
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she had to find some one who played the piano and could
rehearse new songs with her. She was walking on a tight=»
rope. Her only asset was that she had been a professional
actress and so had faced audiences before, but not as
close as in a small nightclub. Yet, if she didn't try,
she couldn't win. Please, don't worry! For once something
came of it I
The Chinese manager smiled at her, then shook his
head and told her, ''My no know English. You wait."
She waited although wondering for what or whom.
About fifteen minutes later Mr. M. , the man who had advised
us to learn English before he could do anything for us,
walked in. He happened to be the agent who was going to
book acts for the Paramount as he did for most of the
better clubs and ballrooms in Shanghai.
For a moment Annie just stared at him. She had not
expected to see him again. Then she got up and collect=
was/
ing all her wits she/determined to parade her newly learned
English to her best advantage. When it came down to brass
tacks, she proved that she was a pro.
"I'm so glad to see you, Mr. M.," she said, displaying
her million dollar smile, "I hope, you remember me.
n
At first it seemed that he didn't. Then a light
appeared in his eyes. He nodded his head. "Yes - sure -
I do remember you -," he replied hesitatingly. It didn t
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sound very convincing.
With her heart pounding against her chest she knew
that she couldn't muff this opportunity. "Mr. M. , we met
at the As tor House Hotel, and you promised to do something
for me and my husband if we learned to speak English. We
worked very hard and our English is much better. I cc
ame
here to find out if perhaps there was an opening for a
girl singer at The Blue Danube."
"Well -," said Mr. M. and repeated, "well - well -
well - you certainly took my advice and you deserve a
break. If you sing as well as you now speak English,
I'm going to book you into The Blue Danube."
Annie told me later, these were the sweetest words
she had heard in a long time.
"I can sing in English, French and German," she ad=
vertised her assets, although if he had asked her, she
might not have been able to think of a single song she
except/
knew in Engl ishflOMBl/ for "My heart's in the Highlands"
which she had learned in school and was not very appropri='
ate for a nightclub audience.
Mr. M. beamed at her. He must have thought he had
found a pearl in an oyster. "That's good," he said, "how
about annudition this afternoon? I'll have a pianist there
and you bring your sheet music.
M
"All right," Annie agreed, but not very convincingly
"You know, what an audition is, don't you?" he asked
a little suspiciously.
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"Oh yes, I do, Mr. M. , I certainly do," Annie assured
him, making a mental note to look it up in our small diction=
ary at home.
"Okay. I'll be seeing you at four this afternoon."
Audition, so Annie read in our dictionary, was a
hearing to test a speaker, an actor, a musician. That
did it. She sent me out to a friend of ours, the wife
of a German refugee dentist and a very talented pianist,
who had emigrated in time with her grand piano, to borrow
from her some sheet music of English songs and ask her if
eventually she would help her to learn new tunes. In the
months to come she did a wonderful job coaching Annie.
Luckily Annie had had the foresight to pack a bundle of
music sheets of French and German songs into one of our
suitcases .
From the time she came home to the time she had to
leave for the audition Annie studied cold in our not very
accoustic attic room. Then promptly at four she presented
herself at The Blue Danube. She had a small, but truly
lovely voice, just right for the intimate Blue Danube
Club. Mr. M. liked her singing as well as her manner
In which she acted and engaged her to start the same
evening at nine. Luckily she didn't know that a night=
club singer in Shanghai didn't work as in nightclubs any=*
where else, appearing once or twice. She was expected to
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sing whenever one of the guests wanted to hear her sing
between nine and closing time at three or four in the
morning, or until the last party had left.
Over my protest, because I had considered them non-
essential, Annie had taken along two eve^ng gowns, a black
and a green one. She proved to be right as usual. Without
these two gowns, which for a while she had to wear alter=
natively until she could improve her wardrobe, we would
have been in real trouble. We didn't have the money to
buy a single gown or wouldn't have known from whom to
borrow one which would have fit her.
On that first night she chose the black gown which
actually consisted of a long, widely folded black skirt and
a silver- lame blouse. She looked ravishing, if I may say
so, and I do. I would have liked to come up to the Blue
Danube with her, but husbands were not wanted. All I could
do was accompanying her to the portals of the Paramount
building. Naturally I felt kind of left out. If it hadn't
been such a long wait, I would have acted the good watch
dog and sit on the steps outside until she came out again.
I knew she trembled with stage fright and I couldn't be
there to steady her. It felt strange for me to walk back
home alone with only Timothy for company. He was a lousy
substitute. Sorry.
Annie was an immediate success, and if I say success,
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I mean success. I had a hard time, though, being by my
self night for night. I always worried about Annie's
safety, but she knew how to hold her own among the wolves
of Shanghai. Each day she learned new songs with her lady
friend who got a great kick out of it. Soon enough Annie
became what is known as an attraction.
Whoever lived in the Far East at that time knew Whitey
Smith and his band. He was as famous there as any of the
big band leaders in America. Whitey Smith made plenty of
money and never got rich. He had too many broads - at least
that's what he called them. They drained him of each buck
as fast as he made it. Shortly after Annie had started
at The Blue Danube (appearing under her maiden name,
Anne Nilde) the Paramoint Ballroom was opened with Whitey
Smith and his band. It didn't take U^itey long to dis=
cover Annie and persuade the management to let her appear
with his band twice each night. It was quite a challenge
for her. She had been a novice as a nightclub singer, but
singing with a big band was a totally different matter.
She had little time to get scared because one night with=
out any preliminaries Whitey sent for her and that was that
To her own surprise she came through with flying colors.
Having had radio broadcasting experience she at least
knew how to handle a microphone.
Whitey Smith was mightily impressed with her and so
were the Shanghai newspapers. For instance the Shanghai
Times wrote: "Miss Anne Milde, the star entertainer of
the Blue Danube Bar, made her first appearance with Whitey
Smith at the Paramount Ballroom. Miss Milde, who has a
delightfully pleasing voice and sings in English, French
and German, is expected to become a favorite at the
Paramount.''
She certainly did become a favorite and remained one.
She continued working at The Blue D inube and the Paramount
until the Japanese attack on Shanghai in 1937. It was a
record of a long-time engagement, even for Shanghai where
good entertainers were always in great demand. But she
never was paid enough for what she was worth.
On the first of each month Mr. M. promptly collected
his ten percent commission from Annie, as he later also
did from me. But until the time when he found a job for
me I lived in a kind of twilight zone. In fact, I was very
much at odds with myself.
Writing a book like this one, I have a hard time to
tell the events in chronological order. There was so little
chronological order in our lives. Annie became what might
well be called a star in Shanghai. The high/ight of her
career - as I mentioned before - was the American Inde=
pendence Ball, sponsored by the Fourth Marines at the
Paramount Ballroom. Both bands were playing al ternat;J|ply
at both sides of the large ballroom, the Fourth Marine Band
Mi
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truth of the matter was that every once in a while 1 spoke
German with some of our European-born patrons because be=»
sides English or French as well as their native language
(most Swiss and all Austrians speak German anywny) they
generally had a fair knowledge of German. That's how Wong,
who didn't know a word of German, assumed that they and
I conversed in their native tongues. As Annie was a success
at The Blue Danube and the Paramount so was I at the Casa=
nova, but mine ;nade more waves all over the Far East - and
that reminds me of the afore-mentioned American oil-mil=
ionaire.
I had not seen that man before when he appeared one
evening at the Casanova, engaging half a dozen girls and
ordering nothing but champagne. The girls had to be paid
for the time they spent with a patron and for each dance.
The man, who quite obviously was not a local resident,
should not have been allowed to sign chits, but pay in cash
or redeem the chits in cash before he was leaving instead
of being presented with them by the end of the month by
one of our compradores. Anyone, who once defaulted in
redeeming a^ny chits, lost all his credit anyv;herc in
non-alcohol ic/
Shanghai. The girls were generally served/ tea-cocktails
although the patron v;as charg,ed the full price of what =
ever he had ordered. As a general rule the management
did not appreciate any of the girls getting high. It
was bad business all around. Some of the regular patrons,
wise to the ruse, could not be fooled, and when it came
to champagne, which could be ordered by the bottle only,
it was not possible to substitute sodawater for the girls
Aside from their fifty percent of the dance tickets each
girl received a special commission on the over-i)riced
champagne. Not a night went by without trouble for
me
to separate one or more inebriated girls from one or more
inebriated patrons. One girl in particular had the odd
habit of starting to striptease when she had reached a
certain degree of drunkenness. If I didn't catch her in
time, all I could do was to sling her over my shoulder,
bare-bossomed and all, and carry her to the girls' dress=
ingroom, depositing her there on a couch and feed her
strong coffee.
Well, this American oil-millionaire had a hell of
a good time, and after a while I began worrying. The
amount of champagne started to show and the amounts of
chits he signed was staggering in my opinion. When the
chits, the man had signed, added up to almost two thou=
sand Shan^'Jiai dollars I decided to consult Wong. Although
I was generally authorized to judge, how much credit we
could extend to a customer, this man baffled me. So I
climbed up to the balcony and asked Wong what to do.
He nodded at me. "You're right. We better find out
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them, and they take their friendships, once extended,
very seriously.
Well, I went to see the American at the Park Hotel
on Sunday morning, and he redeemed the chits cheerfully.
In fact, he told me it had been worth the fun he had had
For simplicity's sake let me call him: Arthur Long.
We two became well acquainted. The last time I saw him,
he posed a proposition to me which was a once in a life=
time opportunity. Everything being considered and having
plenty of money to invest, he had come to the conclusion
that the nightclub business in Shanghai was uniquely
he/
profitable. V.1iile/had H^ been back home after his last
trip to the Far East he had a firm of architects dr
aw
blue prints for the most exclusive, glamorous nightclub
anywhere in 'the world, something even Shanghai had never
seen. When he would be coming back to Shanghai within
three month's time, he would bring his architect al
ong
to get the construction under way. Meanwhile I should
canvass the city for a choice of at least three good
sites from which he would choose one. I would be managing
the club with full authority vested in me. I was going
to hire two dozens of the most beautiful dance girls,
find a small, 5ut outstanding dance band, hire the best
most superb/
Chinese personnel I could gather and make it theT
club there ever has been. I would receive a yearly
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guaranteed income of thirty thousand American dollars
with a generous percentage of profits above this
amount .
That was it. To say the least, I was stunned. For the
first time in my life I was handed an actual chance to
become wealthy. A Nabob, a Croesus, a Tycoon. Arthur
Long, so he said, trusted me completely and so could I
trust him without reservation. We would draw up a contract
prior to the opening of the club.
Coming home that morning about the same time
as
Annie, I asked her to look at me with special attention
because she would be seeing a future millionaire or
some=
thing close to it. She looked, shook her head, yawned
and started to get ready for bed. She was tired, but
I didn't let her go to sleep before I had told her of
Arthur Long and his fantastic nightclub. Within ten years,
so I boldly predicted, we would have at least a quarter
of a million dollars put aside and then would immigrate
to the United States as true capitalists. Sure, she said.
and yawned again. Before she closed her eyes she told
me
we would count the money when we had it - in ten years.
She was right. So please, don't worry! Nothing came of it!
In contrast to Annie I had an uncanny capacity to get
quickly enthusiastic. In retrospect, I should have re-
membered then and there what Jacob Wassermann had written
in his book "Wedlock", "Average young people today and
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probably in all ages are as inconceivably stupid in judg=
Ing life as they are imprudent in self-assurance and in-
capable of self-mastery.
It
I never met Arthur Long again. It was not his fault.
To this day I strongly believe that he honestly meant
what he had promised me, but neither he nor I could have
reckoned with the gods of chance who were stubbornly set
against my getting ever rich. But the idea alone of mak=
ing big money had already corrupted my mind. Never before
had I coveted wealth and never did I so afterwards. I was
punch drunk with the promise Arthur Long had planted in
my head. I totally forgot that I had no understanding
about handling money and actually did not care to have
more than I needed at any given time. If Arthur Long
could have made his commitment true, I might have growTi
wealthy. Yet, I cannot help but feel that I also might
have had to pay for it in some way not to my liking. Too
much money is not inducive to creating happiness.
Anyvay , before Mr. Long could return the Japanese
interfered by attacking Shanghai. Tourists and traveling
businessmen stayed away and we had to leave. That was
Arthur Long, God bless him wherever he is, still alive
or not. It was just another dream gone with the wind and,
believe it or not, we are grateful to God that He did
not ever let us grow dependently rich. Wealth, too often.
creates selfishness and selfishness in turn creates spirit=
ual misery. There may be some people who may say, they
would gladly buy spiritual misery for a million dollars, ^'/
hur I believe/ a/
/Mi if they could, they would regret it. There is/middle
way between poverty and wealth, to which everyone should
be entitled and which allows one to buy what one needs,
but not all the goodies in the world. We had to struggle
all our life and were so much happier for it. We never
lost the excitement of joy for anything we were able to
buy after saving for it dime by dime or dollar by dollar.
Even now after so many years I still feel kind of ashamed
that I ever coveted so much money. I should have knowTi
better. Great wealth was and is not my hang-up. I was
and am not the type for it. Annie and I would have given
most of it away.
Henrik Ibsen wrote, "Money may buy the husk of many
things, but not the kernel. It brings you food, but not
appetite, medicine, but not health, acquaintances, but
not friends, servants, but not faithfulness, days of joy,
but not peace and happiness."
I heartily prescribe to that, for I've known it to
be true. We have met some of the richest men in the world,
but none of them we thought were truly happy, while Annie
and I were relatively and independently poor all our lives,
but always very happy.
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Prior to the influx of Russian refugees
from Soviet Russia^Shanghai was the city of luxuriously
elegant and very much frequented maisons-des-rendcz-vous
(brothels or bordellos, very well stocked with girls of
all/shades and nationalities) instead of nightclubs and
ballrooms with almost exclusively White-Russian girls,
often coming from good families. They could not be en=
ticed into the brothels and as a result the nightclub
and ballroom business crowded the majority of bordellos
out of the market. Moreover the moral attitude had changed.
Consuls of most foreign nations shipped girls of their
countries home if they strayed from the path of bourgeois
respectability, whatever that is. The Soviet Consul, of
course, had no interest in the White Russian refugee girls.
But one fact had not changed ever since 1842 - foreign
males always outnumbered foreign females, and the pro=
stitutes before as the dance girls later were a com=
modity of sexual necess>^ty. After the Russian revolution
in 1917 many Russian families fled to Shanghai and hav=
ing neither means nor opportunities at first to make a
living, the daughters became the bread earners. Thus the
famous dance girls of Shanghai came into existence. These
girls were exiles in an alien world. They were citizens
of no land (the same as the German- Jewish refugees later).
They could obtain no passports, these infernal, little
books so vitally valuable to involuntary exiles. They
had come to Shanghai like we had done without the know=
ledge of th£. language and way of life. They had come to
Shanghai where they had no friends and knew no neighbors.
They had come to a foreign city where they had no contacts
and no other choice but to become dance girls. It was a
m
atter of starving or not starving for them and their
families. Between them and so-called taxi-dancers any=
where else existed a big difference. These Russian refugee
girls managed to integrate themselves into the social life
of Shanghai. Some people - but not many - had the audacity
of calling them glorified prostitutes. They were nothing
of the sort. They were hard-working gals and some of
them made more money than they ever had dreamed of.
one/
The girls and I got along very well wi th/ another.
None of them ever tried to seduce me, and I never attempted
to seduce any of them. They had been hired by Wong for
their beauty, their intelligence and their cunning to
fleece customers as well as their social behaviour.
In a city where good reputation was at a premium, the
Casanova enjoyed one of the best. It was quite expensive
for patrons to hire one of the girls out, but all in all
they got their money's worth, that is good company for
an evening of good fun by going dancing with them in a
number of other clubs. However, the fun was not always
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what you might think it was. Even if the girl agreed and
the management got paid for the loss of time to let a
patron take her out, he had no guarantee that she would
go to bed with him. More often than not she resisted and
refused. If however she ydlded, the sucker had to shell
out sometimes as much as five hundred more Shanghai dollars
(three Shanghai dollars were about the equivalent of one
American dollar) which the girl could keep without sharing
them/
/with the ballroom management. In fact, a manager of a good
club frowned on such arrangements and didn't want to know
about it. Having won the confidence of the girls, I was
often the recipient of many tales of woes about unbelievable
sexual aberrations the girls had to endure. Some of them
were not much unlike the escapades of Marquis de Sade's
Justine. No wonder then that the girls did not yield
easily and then only at great expense of the buyers.
Each of these girls had their ovm style of gold-
digging as well as sex appeal. Perhaps if you happened
to have lived in Shanghai or even visited the Casanova
as a tourist at the time, you might remember one or 'the
other of these girls who had reached the peak of their
profession and were as famous in Shanghai as starlets
in Hollywood.
For instance do you remember "Helen with the silver
pupils of her eyes always turned glaringly sex- infested
and silvery whenever she had one drink too much. The ruse
of serving them tea cocktail instead of whiskey was not
always successful. Anyway, it was blond-haired Helen with
the silver eyes who changed into a compulsive stripteaser
if she got drunk. If I didn't catch her in time, she per=
formed as a topless dancer.
Or do you remember Tonia, the "Golddigger" , who was
the most intelligent, educated and most serenely beauti=
Both/
ful of our girls?/iA'er two children, a boy and a girl,
whom she brought up by herself after her husband had
deserted he
became reputed physicians. She enabled
them at great sacrifice to study medicine in America.
You certainly would rerpember black-eyed Suzan, if
you ever have visited the Casanova. She had jet-black
eyes, a wild temperament and was a crazy practical jokster
I was told that once she had hired a white pony, had it
brought up to the ballroom and rode it onto the dance
floor like Lady Godiva, her nude body covered only by
her long, black hair.
Sandra, "The Tigress", was one of my favorites and
would have been yours, I'm sure, if you had known her.
She was of Mongolian descent. She had the narrow fore=»
head and flat nose of her race as well as the savage
eyes"? If you do, you won't have forgotten that the grey
temper. Oncef she had set her mind on a patron, this man
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was lost unless he took to his heels in time. She was able
to extract his very last dollar before she was through with
him.
Thinking back, I'm sure, you'll agree - if you've
been at the Casanona - the most fascinating girl was Do=
lores. Like so many Eurasians she was an exceptional beauty
Hers was a strange mixture which only could have been pro=
duced in Shanghai. She was half Chinese, a quarter Portu=
guese and a quarter Swedish. She definitely had a Nordic
face and Jfsky-blue, almond eyes. Her hair was black. She
was tall and slender with a body that excuded nothing but
sex appeal. You could feel it through your skin and almost
smell it like the effluvium of over-scented perfume. How=
ever, she had one incorrigible, mental flaw. For the life
of her she was unable to tell the truth, even if she had
wanted to. Every word she uttered was a brazen lie. She
was quite a money-maker, and she catered to the richer,
older men.
All places of entertainment were open sven nights a
week and none of the employees had a night off. Neither
came the idea of a vacation ever up, at least not during
the almost two years I was working at the Casanova and
Annie at The Blue Danube. There was no Social Security
or any other fringe benefits and no health insurance, at
least not for us. When one got sick, one was ducked pay
for the missed time. Yet, I never heard anyone complain
about it.
Occasionally, when business fell off earlier tiian
usual on a weekday night, Wong liked to visit other ball=*
rooms and nightclubs mostly for the reason to look over
the stable of dance girls in case some new ones had been
added or substituted. He liked to keep tab on his com=
petitors who did the same with him. Any new workable
tricks were soon copied all over town.
None of the managers - although they were always
guests of the house on such mutual visits - wore above
hiring promising new girls away or what could be called
industrial espionage. While I was working for Wong, he
liked me to come along on these fordyas and let me select
two of our girls to accompany us as symbols ioif our status.
Wong, to be fair, always paid them for their time.
Once in a while, after a visit to the Paramount Ball=
room, Wong took the elevator up to The Blue Danube, al=
though there was nothing that co/^ld be of interest to
him. The intimate atmosphere of the place seemed to re=«
lax him and besides he enjoyed to hear Annie sing. At no
time did he mention to me whether or not he was aware that
she v.'as my wife. She was knov.Ti as Anne Milde and our re»
lationship, if he knew about it, was none of his business.
In any event neither Annie nor I approached or even greeted
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each other on these occasions. It was bad business for
The Blue Danube if any of their guests thought Annie was
a married gal. Quite often I saw her sitting at a table
with a group of male patrons, and she s.iw me, of course,
coming in with two gorgeous girls as our companions. In
retrospect. I think that this situation was the real test
of our marriage. We simply trusted each other. I've got
to repeat it again and again, Annie was and still is one
gal in a million. In fact, I told her many times that I
had chosen her among millions of avalaible females in the
world.
a/
Shanghai, when she still was Shanghai,
was/pu22ling, exciting, fascinating and fatiguing city,
much more so than anyone can imagine who wasn't there at
the time. She made herself heard without interruption.
Shanghai was also the city of professional beggars,
employed by a so-called beggar-king. Each one of these
pitiful creatures were trained in the art of begging and
its various specialities. Their boss provided them with
any necessary tools
because begging was
considered a trade in Shanghai. Even small babies were
loaned out to women mc^icants. If these little ones did
not cry from hunger or other want to arouse attention,
they were pinched where it hurt them. Only the rags they
were wearing were the beggars' own. The beggar king extract-
ed fifty percent of whatever coins they collected and waxed
wealthy on it. Cruising beggar supervisors watched out that
no one dared to cheat the boss.
The variety of begging seldom changed. There were the
women with crying babies; there were genuine and faking
lepers who loudly shouted for pity and mercy; there were
arm- and legless men who rolled along the side walks,
chained to their alleged or assumed wives; there were
others with horribly swollen limbs, suffering from ele=»
phantiasis which could not be faked; and there were some
who learned how to cry bitter tears for hours on end; and
at last there was the one man who with crying shame would
call out his misery in the only English words he had mcmo=
rized: "No pappa, no mamma, no whiskey-soda, sir". Of
course, there were also begging children, clad in rags.
Everything and everybody was geared to extract money from
others .
In a way the beggars of Shanghai had to work hard for
their unbelievably meager existence, but much more so had
the rickshaw coolies, few of them lasted much longer than
five years pulling the rubber-wheeled carriages and running
in rythmic strides until their lungs caved in from con=
sumption. They were the most harassed underdogs of all
underdogs. None of them owned their rickshaws. They had
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to lease them on a daily basts from another big boss who
was on the take for half th^ fares the coolies earned.
These poor fellows were the most tormented beings in
Shanghai. Each policeman - the Tonkenese in the French
Concession and more so the black-bearded, turbaned Sikh
giants in the International Settlement - was their deadly
enemy. Especially the Sikhs played cat and mouse with the
rickshaw coolies and woe to any one of them if he got
caught violating one of the numerous traffic regulations.
Although the coolies scattered as fast as mice one or two
slip cover/
of them always got stopped. The Sikh took the white/ encasea^
coolie/
seat -cushion of the rickshaw, without which thef/could not
ge
t customers^ and lost much time of theday or night. The
coolie had to redeem the cushion at the police station
after paying a fine. It most often meant that they could
no
t afford to buy the ball of rice they needed for food.
Many of them had not even a habitat and slept on spread
newspapers in streets and alleys. The competition among
them was fierce and they followed any prospective rider,
yelling: "Rickshaw, master (or Missie) ! RickshaVvl " , at the
same time slapping the white seat cushions with the flat
of their dirty hands. For a measly twenty Shanghai cents
they would pull you all across town, drying the sweat,
running down tbeir faces, with old rags, slung around one
of/
/the vehicle shafts. But they could exist on a few coppers
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)
o
^
a day (remember, three coppers were one Shanghai cent
hich ill turn was/
a third of an /\merican cent) and saved whatever they
could in the hope to return with a little nestegg to
their peasant families. Too many never made it.
Very few of the poor masses ever ounned an entire
Shanghai dollar at one time. Chinese employees worked
for so little that there was no contest for most jobs
as far as foreigners were concerned. For instance, our
dance ticket boy. a man in his early thirties, who each
night exchanged or sold, if you will, thousands of dollars
worth of dance tickets ^BB, was paid no more than thirty
Chinese dollars (the approximate equivalence of ten /\mer=
ican dollars) a month. Being the only bread winner in
his large family, with these thirty dollars he had to
feed, house and clothe his wife, ghis three little children,
his aged parents and two sisters when they were out of
work. They all lived together in a one-room waddle hut
on the other side of the Whangpoo River in Pootung. The
only things the Casanova provided for him was a clean,
white ishang each night and his food while he was on duty.
He, like all the other Chinese employees of the Casanova,
belonged to Wong's family clan. I could neither hire nor
fire any of them despite all the alleged authority in=
vested in me as the floor manager. China, so I was told,
had about a hundred family clans and each one stuck to
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their own. Wherever Chinese were employed, they had to
belong to the same clan whether the foreign employer knew
it or not.
I did promise not to lose myself in
as/
lengthy descriptions and stick/closely as possible to our
own travels, travails, ventures and adventures, but Shang''
hai, when she still was Shanghai, was unique to excess and
for that reason alone deserves some more attention than
I'll be giving other places and sites. Most probably there
never will be another Shanghai in our modern world as
there
never was any other Sodom and Gomorrah of
biblical times although Las Vegas and Reno may run a
close second - not to Shanghai, but to Sodom and Gomorrah
As there was extreme poverty of the masses so there
was extreme wealth of a few in Shanghai with little or
almost no middle class in between, just a deep chas
m
with few crossings over it. The ugly mass-poverty was so
inflamingly damnable, that one could eventual/ harden to
it, for thus is human nature. To us, though, the uglier,
extreme wealth remained more repugnant and repellent, and
I speak of super wealth, of which Shanghai had more of her
share that any other place on the globe. Annie and I met
two of these mul/i-multi millionaires (and I met three).
They simply depressed us because we couldn't make up our
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minds if they actually belonged to the human race we knew.
f
The worst of the lot were the super-rich Chinese.
As
often as not they totally lacked compassion for their poor
compatriots - as nowadays the wealthy Sout-American land-
owners lack compassion for the down-trodden masses in their
countries and thus nolens volens drive them into the greedy
claws of Communist agitators. Communism, after all, is be-
coming more and more a world-wide mental illness.
The man, a Chinese of tremendous wealth, who owned the
Casanova and Majestic B;^llrooms as well as the Canid
rome
and many other enterprises including a heap of real-estate,
seldom left his mansion and the large rock garden compound,
fenced in by a high stone wall and patrolled day and night
by armed, burly White-Russian guards. Whenever he had to
leave his fortress, four of the heavily armed body guards
were standing on the running boards of the specially built,
bullet-proof limousine. The ever-present danger of being
kidnaped inspired this wealthy Chinese (as it did others
of his class) to disguise himself as a beggar by wearing
old and torn clothing. any time he ventured out. Of course,
it was ridiculous. What beggar would ride in a Rolls Royce
or Ca4i;.lac? Although kidnaping was a great sport in Shang-
hai, tL must be emphasized that the well-organized, profess-
ional Shanghai kidnapers could not be called ordinary crimnals.
They definitel^y ha^ a special honor code. They were no killers,
n if they/Tcv^'^ld their victims for a lengthy time.
eve
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They were in the business for the large sums of ransom
money they demanded and after a period of bargain^ they
eventually could expect to receive. A dead victim was very
bad publicity and would make them lose face. No one, not
even kidnapers, cared to lose face. It was the most dreaded
misfortune.
The first time the big boss showed up at the Casanova
one evening I almost committed the worst of all blund
ers.
I was about to refuse admitting this man, who looked like
a beggar or rather a poor, old man, clad as he was in
dirty rags. Luckily the waiter captain spotted him at the
same time as I and wised me up. The captain bowed deeply
to him as I let the man pass, not knowing how to greet
him. I can't tell why, but I couldn't help feeling great
pity for this old man as I watched him shuffling up the
stairs to the balcony where Wong, who was as I learned
then, a nephew of his, welcomed him with deep reverence.
Unquestionably, Annie and I began to
prosper in Shanghai. We earned money. Not too much, but
enough to keep us going as long as we continued living
modestly. We had moved, though, to a larger room a floor
below and paid fifteen instead of seven dollars rent. We
inherited/
/Wt big, "flying cockroaches in the bargain, but one get
used to every, and anything. We managed to put a few dollars
and Whitey Smith with his musicians. The entire American
community in Shanghai attended and Annie had been engaged
by Chaplain Witherspoon to sin^ the American National Anthem
to start the celebration and then later whatever songs
she herself chose. It was a great night for her and it
placed her solidly in the front. rank of all entertainers
in Shanghai. The one song that really brought the house
down was her rendition of the hit from the film "Follow
the Fleet": 'I joined the navy to see the world and what
did I see? I saw the sea." She wore a specially tailored
American sailor uniform and with the round, white cap
rakishly sitting on her tousled brown hair, she looked,
as a high-ranking British guest told her, simply "smashing".
It was a great evening for her, but 1 couldn't be present.
At that time I was also working nights. During the course
of that one night she was asked for more dates by bachelor
officers of the Fourth Marines than she would have been able
to handle in a year. She did not accept a single one. She
was not only brave, talented, but also faithful. It has
elementary/
always been so/|m for me to love her.
Meanwhile and from the first night she appeared at
The Blue Danube Annie pestered Mr. M. to do something for
me. It was not so easy. I cannot sing. In fact, I'm as
tune-deaf as a dead mackerel. Yet - Mr. M. came through^
placing me in a position which made me well-known all
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over the Far East. Once more we both were on our way up -
but that was all. Once more our hopes were set high. Please,
don'tl worryl Nothing came of iti This time the Japanese
intervened by attacking Shanghai. It was the same all
over again. Through no fault of ours our promising
careers were suddenly cut off as they had been in Nazi-
Germany.
The gods, who promote success, were against us.
Years later after we had settled in Los Angeles I was
being considered for parts in radio dramatic shows by
a major broadcasting network. You guessed it. Please,
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and America had just been drawn into the war against
Japan and Nazi-Germany. Without rhyme or reason, without
any
common sense we refugees from Nazi-Germany were de=
Glared enemy aliens and as such had to obey a stringent
curfew law which kept us at home after eight p.m. each
day. That ended another dream. By being forced off the
streets after eight p.m. I could not play any roles
during prime radio time. I never regained the chance,
for in the meantime I had no choice but to work outside
the entertainment world.
heart out at The Blue Danube each night, I had a miser-
able time for myself. The money she earned just kept us
in bread and butter and paid the rent. Wliatever was left
she had to invest in new evening outfits, the uniform of
nightclub singers. We could not yet move out of our cheap,
little attic room - so humidly hot in summer and freezingly
cold in winter. This room was a constant reminder of our
status as refugees. Any spare time we had we used to
improve our English.
Each night I was alone. I couldn't sleep while Annie
was gone. Shanghai was an extra-oridinarily noisy city,
day and night. Street vendors were calling out their wares,
rickshaw coolies were fighting and shouting for customers.
Other coolies, carrying loads on long, widely swinging
bamboo poles across their necks, chanted loudly their
"hei-ho, hei-ho - make way" and people had to step aside
if they didn't want to be hit by the ends of the poles.
Somewhere was always a walla-walla around street noodle-
kitchens, or at night one could hear the clacks and clicks
of mahjong pieces. The Chinese were inveterate gamblers.
In our alley Russian refugee women always gathered to
gossip from the early morning hours to late in the evening.
Before I was installed as the floor manager
We had to sleep from dawn to noon, but there were always
noises and sounds to wake us up. Strangely enough we never
of the Casanova Ballroom and while Annie was singing her
got used to them.
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To me the hardest experience was to learn how not to
be jealous. I suffered mentally, thinking about Annie
being exposed without my protection to strange and per-
haps lecherous men at the nightclub. I felt like a caged
animal in our narrow room and quite often went in the
hours In front of/
middle of the night to wait iot/mmm Wk the Paramount building
,^^!^^ ^^"^^ with Annie after she came out at last./
'^^^^^^^ MBHHI HHHHHBHI &■■■■■ The streets
Shanghai were not very safe. But gradually I got my senses
back. I could not afford to worry myself into a mental
wreck. Besides, it wasn't in my nature to sit around
idly. I had to occupy myself (aside from reading) and
so I yielded to Annie's ever repeated suggestion to
write a book again. One night I started on it. Despite
my initial success to write in English, I wasn't foolish
enough to believe that I already could do a full, book-
length manuscript in any other language but German. A
relatively short article was a different matter from a
It/
book. So I wrote/VBBHV in German and managed to finish
it just before we were forced to escape from Shanghai
over two years later.
Indeed, writing filled many of my empty night hours
and later, when I also had a job, grew into a compulsion
which to stop was impossible. Yet, it didn't make mc any
happier. The fact is, as Robert Ruark wrote in his book
•'The Honey Badger" that "a writer is really only ha
ppy
when he is miserable - when he's shut up in the back
room with a typewriter and a hunk of paper with no words
on it. Then he bitches and growls and screams about being
tortured. Writers are not as normal as men."
A writer is often asked how he got the idea for a
book, a story, an article, a play or whatever and as
often as not he himself doesn't know the answer. What
in essence is an idea? It's just a small thought which
may or may not get lost in the mass of thinking we all
do all the time, even when we sleep in our dreams. If
this thought, this idea sticks, it may and generally does
find a small niche in one of the many recesses of the
brain or the mind, if you will. Sometimes one goes pregnant
with such a thought^ such an idea for days, or months and
often longer. The embryo may die of malnutrition before
it gets born or - wonder, oh wonder - it may develop into
a full-fledged brain child. If it does, your troubles begin
You wake with the idea, you sleep and dream with it, you
eat and drink with it, you start isolating yourselfTrom
your surroundings and get downright asocial. You resent
the company of people and the interference by outside
sounds. You retire into yourself and away from social
life. Your wife (or husband) bears the brunt, your friends
fail to understand your behaviour toward them. You start
jotting down notes and the time comes when you have to
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sort these flMB notes which you had thrown helter-skelter
into a box. Thousands and thousands of unconnected words
and sentences, and sometimes whole paragraphs and dialogues
have to be categorized. One miserable day you actually roll
the first blank sheet of paper into your typewriter from
where it stares at you menacingly. At last you hesitat=»
ingly type the first words and you're caught like in
quicksand. For weeks, for months and sometimes for a year
or more you sit at your typewriter for so many hours a
day and work. You feel slightly relieved when you're done
with the first draft of the book, although you know a
book is not written, it is re-written and re-written,
pruned or enlarged, until you think you're satisfied. The
last copy is being typed. You proof-read it and here and
there you'll re-write again. At last you'll send the manu=
script out and more often than not it will come back to
you after weeks or months. Well, you mail it out again
and chances are it will come back again. Only seldom has
an editor the time to explain the reasons behind the
rejection. If you're lucky, one of these editors will
find sufficient merit and market-value in the manuscript
to accept it. Generally he will request more re-writing
done until finally you're so sick and tired of your own
book that the actual publication is an anti-climax.
However, if you ask me how 1 got the idea to the
book I started writing in our small attic room in Shang»
hai, I'm able to give you an answer. There was no pregnan'
cy at all or very little. It rose out of the ashes like
the legendary bird, the Phoenix. I still felt very bitter
about Nazi-Germany, about having being forced to flee for
our lives, for the damnable persecution of the Jews and
for sitting in a back attic room each night by myself.
I was bitter all right and so I was ripe emotionally to
fall back on my most cherished vocation. Yet, I myself
did not give birth to the idea for this book or for the
story in its essence. I plotted it and enlarged it and
in a way perhaps dramatized it. Friends of ours planted
the story, or at least part of the story, into my mind
as I explained in a foreword. The German title was: ''Das
ist kalter Progrom" . That is cold pogrom. In the English
translation it was shortened to "Cold Pogrom". As titles
go, it was a bad one. Too few people know what a pogrom
is. In case you don't, let me quote Noah Webster. A po=
grom is organized slaughter of helpless people, particu=
larly with official sanction as the massacre of Jews. In
the beginning of the Hitler regime the Nazis did not yet
pursue a hot pogrom, that is wholesale slaughter of Jews.
They wAecL cold methods as depriving the Jews of their
livelihood, robbing them of their possessions and abolish'
ing their civic rights.
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There Is another question which pops up
every once In a while. How does one become a writer?
Fact is, one doesn't become a writer. Either one is a
writer or one is not. It Is that simple. No school c
an
teach anyone how to become a writer. It can teach certain
techniques or methods, some styles and a good command of
the language. That's all and none of these lessons are
essentially of any value, If the talent Is missing. If
one has the talent, it will come out sooner or later.
One has to learn by trial and error, that is In a hap=
hazard way and one has to develop one's own method, style
and technique. All of It often takes years, agonizing
years cf sweat and frustration. The worst feature of being
a serious writer Is that one has caught the bug. One never
can stop. Failure or success doesn't Influence your com=
pulsion to write. In a way writing Is a mental aberration,
a sickness of the mind, if you will. Yet, for all the
love and money In the world I would not like to be cured
from this often heart-breaking, wonderful ailment. Here
I have to paraphrase Gertrude Stein who might have answer=
ed the question by telling you that "a writer Is a writer
is a writer.
'/
How then did I start out? How did I catch this dls=
ease of the mind? If you want an answer, you'll have to
bear with me because I'll have to go back In time, far
back. In case It will bore you, you may skip these pages
the same as you will turn to another TV channel If you
don't like the show on the one you're watching. I won't
hold It against you If you do.
During my formative years It never had crossed my
mind that I would become a writer. As a young man my
Interests were acting, reading, horses and girls - In
that order. A year after I had gotten home from the war
I obtained my first engagement as an actor In a pro=
vlnclal town In Schleswlg-Hols teln. There the conductor
of the municipal orchestra was obsessed by the Idea of
wanting to compose the music for an operetta. He searched
for some one to write a libretto and for no reason I
could account for he zoomed In on me . I was his man and
none of my refusals did any good. It came to the point
that I wanted to run away whenever I saw him. After s
ome
months he had worn me down, and I promised to think about
it. Being as unmusical as I am, I could not write anything
to fit any melodies of his. He had to fit his music to
my words.
One early morning (It always happens to me early In
the morning) I got a flash, a brain-wave or whatever you
may call It. My mind had produced a vague Idea for a li-
bretto. Before 1 knew it, I was caught like in a maelstrom
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I had to swim to get out of it if I didn't want to drown.
Within a few weeks I wrote the libretto, story, plot and r«p
songs. The whole bit. I still wonder how I ever did it.
Although I remember the title "Die Apachen Koenigin"
(The Queen of the Apaches), I haven't retained the
faintest idea what it was all about. We produced it
first in our municipal theatre after we had invited as
many crtics as we knew. To our surprise several of them,
representing out-of-town papers, showed for the opening
night. The operetta, music, libretto and production ap=
pealed to them. We received prating reviews which in turn
induced several producers to come and see the show. One
of them offered us a nationwide, quite favorable contract
which we were only too happy to sign. Vt\o could blame us
that we Relieved to have written a number one hit? We
haa: struck gold, so we thought. Please, don't worry 1
Nothing came of it. I was not destined to strike it rich.
The day after we had signed and mailed the contract and
before the producer could return our copies with his
signature my composer friend got himself arrested for
playing around with under-aged girls, making one of them
pregnant. He was tried and sentenced to a minimum of
ten years in prison. It was his third conviction for the
same offense. Unluckily I had not known about it. The
entire music score of the operetta had disappeared. I
visited that man in prison, but he stubbornly refused
to tell me where he had hidden the one and only exist-
ing music score and orchestra arrangement. He was para-
noi^ally suspicious that I might cheat him out of the
royalties due him while he was sitting behind bars, not
musical bars of course, but those made of iron. Anyway,
that was the end of my career as a librettist, but the
beginning of my career as a writer. I had caught the bug.
Some of my first stories and articles began to sell. That
did it. I became a theatrical and art correspondent for
a number of newspapers throughout German language countries
During the last years before Hitler came to power I was
no
t only acting, directing and producing, but also writ=
ing a weekly anti-Nazi and anti-Communist column. I wrote
plays for the stage and radio. In short, I was on the
way up to the top. Please, don't worry! Nothing came
of it! Hitler put a stop to my carrer.
In the fall of 1932 Hans Albers, the then most pro=
minent German actor, called me one day from his hotel room,
while he was in Hamburg, and asked me to come and see him.
He had something to talk over with me. Well - a call f
rom
Hans Albers was like a royal command. I went and saw hi
m
the next morning, and he plied me with one hundred years
old Napoleon Cognac which was as heavy and potent as any
alcoholic beverage can be. I wasn't much of a drinker and
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and never imbibed in the morning. That over-agid cognac
went to my head fast and before we got around to talking
business 1 was gone far enough to sign my o\-m death warrant
without hesitation, and so in a way 1 did. At least Annie
and I thought so after ray mind had cleared again. Without
giving it a second thought I promised him by all that
was sacred to me to write a play tailor-made for him
an
d to which he would own all the production rights. That
by itself was not too bad. However if I had been sober
have/
(and he must/known it, the son-of-a-gun) , 1 never would
have solemnly agreed to write the play within the span of
six weeks by which time he would be back. He didn't give
me
a single idea of what kind of play he wanted other than
that his part had to be different from whatever he had
done before. It was a tall order, but he insisted on it
and expected to see the finished manuscript after these
six weeks.
Coming home to Annie I told her what I had done. She
said - and rightly so - that I wasn't only drunk but also
totally out of OH my mind. But that was neither here nor
there. Hans Albers had my s^gnature under a generous con=
tract and I had to fulfill my obligation.
One of the many reasons why it is such a pleasure
to be married to Annie was and is that one could be silent
with her without her taking any offense. For six weeks we
didn't speak to each other or hardly so. For two weeks
I wrecked my brain for an idea and then I wrote the manu=
script in four. I actually did.
Six weeks to the date I had seen him, Hans Albers
was back in Hamburg. He, too, had been born in Hamburg
and his father had a butcher shop there. Whenever Hans
could he came visiting his old man to whom he was very
close. I took the manuscript to him and he read it in
He/
one night, /liked it and asked for S(
• •
ome minor revisions
which I could do on the spot. With him as the leading
man in a play of mine, my fame as a writer would be
established. He promised to assemble the best cast he
could get and would premiere the play in Berlin during the
1933 / 1934 season. He was sure it would have a long
run in Berlin. There-after he would take it on the road
all over Germany, Austria and Switzerland. Any trans=»
lation rights we would share Bl equally. Finally he
arranged for me a contract with the UFA (Germany's
Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer) for writing the screen play. To
make it short and sweet - there was no doubt anymore
that at last I had made it.
Please, don't worryl Nothing came of it! After Hitler
took over on January 3oth, 1933, all contracts I had
signed were cancelled because I was Jewish. Haad Albers
himself was in trouble. His girl friend was Jewish, and
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he was ordered to ditch her, but he wasn't the kind of man
to take orders from a former Austrian bum. He took his
Jewish girl friend to London and there married her for
the spite of it. When he returned to Nazi-Germany Hitler
didn't dare to have him arrested, but he was forbidden
any public appearances. Being professionally dead, he
retired to his home in a small town in South Bavaria
and told the Nazis they could lick his behind (pardon
the expression, but I'm sure you've heard it before^),
Hans had not been the marrying kind, but the Nazis got
his goat and thank the Lord he wasn' t the only German
who had the backbone to defy Hitler and his gangsters.
There were many others. Millions in fact and that is
the honest truth. A quarter of a million of these brave
German anti-Nazis had to pay with their lives for their
resistance.
The first time Mr. M. collected his ten
percent commission from Annie she point-blank told hi
m
that he had to find a job for me, too. After all, I also
had learned to speak English, or what we considered was
English.
Of literally hundreds of nightclubs, ballrooms and
honky-tonks in Shanghai the "Casanova" on Avenue Edward VII
in the French Concession was considered as one of the two
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most prominent. Only the "Delmonte" could equal it. The
Casanova was Chinese owned and its general manager, Mr.
Wong, knew the nightclub business a la Shanghai better
than anyone else. He was totally self-educated, had n
fantastic head for figures and spoke English and Russian
well enough to converse easily in these two foreign languages.
The Casanova which almost exclusively catered to foreign
patrons, could not do without a foreign floor manager.
Luckily shortly before Annie had accosted Mr. M. about
me^ Wong had to fire his floor manager because this man
had succumbed to the temptations, offered by the American-
style bar and the forty-five beautiful dance girls. He
drank and fornicated to such an excess that he more and
^
more neglected his duties.
As so often in life it was more important to be at
the right spot at the right time than having the neces=
sary experience. Mr. M. introduced me to Wong by telling
him that I happened to be one of the best-known European
ballroom manager. For once I was dishonest enough to keep
my mouth shuLalthough it was the most blatant over-state=
ment of the century. Timothy, though, nudged me and giggled.
The true fact was that I never had been inside any ballroon},
leave alone managed one. But apparently Mr. M.'s word was
good enough for Wong or - as I later suspected - I was the
only candidate available just then. Wong, when I learned
to know him better, was much too shrewd to have swallowed
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such obvious balderdash. To be on the safe side he even
didn't inquire what ballrooms or nightclubs I had ever
managed. I'm sure, Mr. M. would have named half a dozen
from the Folies Bergere in Paris to the Trocadero in
Hamburg. Anyway, Mr. Wong hired me on the spot with the
understanding that I would start working that very night.
I was so green that/even didn't know what a ballroom
or nightclub manager was supposed to wear. Mr. M. made
a list of what I needed. Luckily we had enough money on
hand to buy in the afternoon a pair of black trousers, a
black curaberbund, a white shirt, a black bow tie, a white,
so-called monkey jacket as well as black patent leather
shoes. When I had dressed prior to leaving for the Casa=
nova Annie claimed that I very well looked my part - as
slick as a Casanova. After the first night we dismally
had to admit that I had to have a clean white sh-^t and
monkey jacket each night and at least a change of trousers,
cumberbund and tie once a week. All we earned in the be=
ginning we had to spend on our professional wardrobe.
A ballroom as well as a nightclub in Shanghai, when
she still was Shanghai, had a flair and atmosphere so
unique that it couldn't be compared with any other in
the world. They ranged from luxurious elegance to simple,
cheaply adorned halls. Nonetheless, they all did a flourish*
At the Casanova one had to walk up a wide, fake-
marble staircase to an elaborately furnished lounge with
its cjoak-, powder-, and restrooms. To the right two steps
down
one entered the American-style bar.
Another two steps down was the large, rectangular ball=
room which if necessary could seat more than five hundred
guests. At one of the long sides was a row of high windows
with always drawn, heavy drapes and at the opposite long
side was a balcony which was constantly kept in semi-
darkness to afford male guests and dance girls a certain
amount of privacy. Up there, too, was Wong's ever dis=«
orderly, cramped, small office. Most of the night he was
sitting in one dark corner of the balcony from where he
could observe the ballroom activities without being seen
himself.
During the first weeks I had the creeping feeling
as if his inscrutable eyes were constantly focused on me.
If you have seen Leonardo da Vinci's painting of the
Mona Lisa, you'll know what I mean. Whatever your po=
sition may be in regard to the picture, her eyes never
leave you. Wong didn't have to move his head and yet
you couldn't escape his gaze. Naturally, it made me
nervous at first and prodded me to be always on my guard.
I was very unsure of what he would do in case he caught
Ing business for reasons I'll have to explain later.
me In a single mistake and being as green as I was I should
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have been prone to mistakes. He never called me on the
carpet, although from time to time he lectured mc as to
how he expected me to act. Gradually, I lost my inse=
curity and forgot about being watched. He and I became
very good friends. Despite the habitual suspicion of
most Chinese toward any fan guey (foreign devil) Wong
was a trusting man at heart. Basically, he didn't harbor
any prejudices and once he felt convinced that I was re-
liable and honest, he accepted me without reservation.
Through him I have grown very fond of the Chinese people
- with the exception of Chiang Kai-Chek and Mao Tse-
Tung and their entourage which included Chiang Ch'ing,
Mao's wife, mm the most blood-thirsty murderess in
history.
No Shanghai ballroom could do business without a
string of dance girls, most of them were white Russians.
Each and every one of the forty-five Casanova girls,
carefully selected by Wong, was a beauty queen in her
own right and well trained as gold diggers. They uere
expected to wear the most elegant evening gowns and
behave in a lady-like manner. They were also expected
to entice our male patrons to spend as much money as
possible, but in the process at working toward that goal
they quite often forgot thei A«nanners. It was my job to
keep them in line which wasn't always easy, although
in time they and I learned to like one another. After
all, to be hired into the Casanova or the Delmonte meant
for these girls to have reached the peak of their pro=»
at small, round tables/
fession. They were sitting /in twos or tlirees around
three sides of the dance floor unless they were invited
to join patrons at their tables or at the bar. At the
far end of the ballroom on a raised platform sat the
eleven men Filipino dance band, the best of its kind
in all East Asia. Behind the bandstand, hidden by an
elaborate kind of stage curtain, were the service bar
and kitchen.
Sorry, I've got to describe the set-up, otherwise
you won't understand Shanghai nightlife. The waiters as
well as the waiter captain were all wearing spotless,
white uniforms which I had to inspect each evening be=
fore opening. They were lined up in a long row and I
walked along like a company commander. One of the most
important employees was the dance-ticket boy. None of
the girls were allowed ever to accept cash for their
services. The patron4 bought tickets for them and each
evening the girls turned in the earned tickets and once
a week they were paid their fifty percent share. Unless
they were tourists, guests didn't pay cash for food or
drinks, but signed chits which were presented to them
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by cotnpradores at the end of each month. The same applied
to dance tickets. The exception were officers of foreign
navy vessels whose chits I had to present to them for
payment, depending on the sailing dates. I received a
ten percent commission for any amount I collected.
The only one not dressed In black and white or only
white was Wong who never mingled with the guests. Without
fall he wore a blue serge suit. Supposedly he bought a
new one once a year. He was a middle-aged man, self-made,
self-educated and as even-tempered as a calm mountain
lake. On the other hand I never saw him laugh or smile.
All In all the Casanova was run as a high-class,
respectable place of entertainment - as far as respect=
ability went in this morally unrestrained city. At the
time Wong engaged me, neither he nor Mr. M. told me any=
thing about floorshows. As a matter of fact, the best
available acts were booked Into the Casanova.
When Wong advised me shortly before eleven o'clock
the first night that I had to announce jflii each act of
the floorshow, I couldn't help but shake In my shoes. My
heart sank way down where it didn't belong. I was simply
not yet ready for such an experiment although I had acted
as M.C. many times In Germany. But nothing Is harder than
being funny In a foreign language and w>cthout preparation
at that. The Idea of going out on the dance floor, facing
some five hundred guests, a number of them already In a
state of Inebriation, and introducing the acts In English,
trying to be humorous to boot, almost Induced me to take
French leave. But how could I? I^ever anyone needed the
job. It was 1. I had no choice but to pull my heart up
to where It belonged and then went In search of the
entertainers' dressing rooms. The least 1 had to know
were the names of their acts and what they were doing.
It didn't help much and I was afraid my mind would be conk-
ing out on me. Despite the notes 1 had jotted down, how
the hell, I thought, would my English stand up In front
of a large audience? The floor show, I felt for sure,
would floor me (pardon the pun) - or at least I expected
It to do just that. I had little doubt that I would flop
terribly as an M.C. and It would spell the end of my
job. My newly acquired knowledge of English was just not ym
yet up to par for exposing It In public.
There are moments In every person's life when he or
she feels cornered or when he or she has him- or herself
painted into a "no exit" spot. Only a miracle or a brain-
storm could get him or her out. Well - I think when one
is desperate enough, one either has to give up or one
has to have a brainstorm. Where that brainstorm comes from,
one seldom remembers. I had the kind of brainstorm which
made me famous all over the Far East. Wherever I went
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later - Japan, Hong Kong, Manila, even Singapore - the
press was there for shot^and interviews. I was known as
"Max of the Casanona" .
I had actually staggered away from Wong. At the very
moment the lights were dimmed in the big dance hall and
the spot lights centered on the dance floor for me to
come out, I was prepared to lay the biggest egg anyone
in my position ever had layed. I had resigned myself to
the sad fact that this would be the first and last day
of my job. My mind was a total blank as I slowly stepped
into the center spotlight and waited for the audience
to stop talking. How it came to me what 1 said, I never
will know. I just introduced myself by name and then -
silence on my part.
There was only one thing I knew for certain - 1 could
not remain silent. I had to say something however silly or
stupid. All of a sudden, born in the sweat of desperation
and if conjured up by some magic, words issued from my
throat and my mind as if they had been there all the
time. I smiled - or at least I thought I was smiling -
and then I addressed the audience which 1 luckily could
not see. My eyes were blinded by the spotlight on me.
I said, trying to be as articulate as I possibly could
manage, "I have to beg your indulgence, (or something
of the kind. I don't remember the exact words and
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"indulgence", I think, was too high-f aluting for me at
the time), but this happens to be my first night at the
Casanova and only a few minutes ago I had been told to
announce the acts of our floor show. As a matter of fact,
I even didn't know we had a floor show." Of course, I
didn't express myself as well as I'm writing all this
down now, but It's the gist of what I said. I'm sure,
my voice was kind of tremulous, but I didn't stop. I
kept on talking as if I were playing the tape of a
sound track, mechanically so to speaki, fully unaware
that this little, almost meaningless speech would make
all the difference between failure and success. "I came
to Shangha^only two months ago with little knowledge of
the English language. As you can hear, It still Is very
faulty, and please whenever I make a mistake just call out
and rectify me."
Some one In the audience called loudly, "Man, we
won't rectify, but correct you."
Laughter I GreClty long laughter and applause I I bowed
and after the applause and laughter abated, I acknowledged:
"Thank you, 1 stand corrected. As I said, my name Is Max
Berges, and If you'll call me 'Max', I think you and I
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will soon be friends.
Well, I made a lot of mistakes and a lot of friends
The word got around what fun it was to correct me. My
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malaproplsms, Incidental at first and Intentional later,
became so well known that some of them became household
words among the English speaking Shanghailanders . It
grew into a real sport between myself and the Casanova
patrons. Although I knew better, I might say one night,
"Ladies and gentlemen, forgive me for dis interrupting
you." Naturally, a howl went up andOozens of guests
corrected me. Or I would say that "on the way to the
Casanova 1 had a mis-experience." Or; "I've got something
to tell you. If you hear it, your eyes will pop off." I
intentionally mispronounced words and exaggerated the
hard German sound "ss" for the damnable "th". In any
event until the last night of my engagement at the Casa=
nova I simply had to invent funny malapropisms or ex=
pressions, and I really worked hard on doing so as time
went on. Although many of our regular patrons knew I could
speak a fairly decent English by then, everyone expected
that I would announce the floor show in my double-talk.
It got to the point that many Far East travelers heard
of it and visited the Casanova to listen to me. The enter=
tainers often complained that I stole the whole show.
The Casanova Ballroom was advertised (and rightly
so) as Shanghai's foremost Cabaret. Soon after I had
been installed as its floor manager, newspaper ads and
write-ups included statements like "Max Berges has been
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here a short while , but has become a landmark at the
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Casanova." To me this kind of publicity was terrible,
but I kept my mouth shut, figuring that one day I could
hit Wong for a raise on account of it. Then one day my
picture (I still have it) was featured in a Shanghai
newspaper, bearing the caption which I simply couldn't
ignore. It read: "Max Berges, formerly a well known actor
in Germany, is now the manager of the Casanova. Although
he has onjy been connected with the popular cabaret for
a short period, he is gaining a host of friends because
of his affable manners, his willingness to please and
his ability to speak with guests of many nationalities.
He knows eight languages and has a fair understanding of
several others. He is an outstanding exception and has
decidedly become an asset to the Casanova."
To say the least, I was flabbergasted, and so was
Annie as well as Timothy when I translated the caption
to him. In fact, he roared w^h laughter which, of course,
nobody but me could hear. None of us had known that I spoke
eight languages and understood several others. Sure, I
spoke German, some English and French, but that was all.
As for being such an asset, I concluded that the time
had come to ask for a raise in i^ay. I had accepted too
low a salary anyway, being more intent on getting the Job
than jeopardizing it by bickering for more money.
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That evening I confronted Wong, showing him the news-
paper with my picture and the strange caption. He serenely
looked at me. "Very satisfactory publicity," ho said. "Must
make you feel very good.
If
"Sure, it makes me feel good, but will you please tell
me what eight languages I'm speaking?" I shouldn't have
asked if I had been smart. If he believed I spoke eight
languages that should have been good enough for me.
"Well," he said, "I've been watching you, and it has
pleased me greatly that you're a linguist." Despite his
simple manners his way of speaking was somewhat pompous
as if he enjoyed to sound like a learned man. "Mr. M.
did not mention it when he brought you here. I knew you
spoke German and English, but when I heard you talking
in their native languages to patrons from Denmark or
Holland, Hungary or Switzerland, Austria or Czecho-
slovakia, Poland or Norway and Sweden to name a few^
I really was impressed. You're a good man to have around
here."
It was not good Chinese manners to praise some one
to his face, but Wong was something special. All of us
who worked for him (including and especially the girls)
grew very much attached to him.
His praise really caught me by surprise. I had not
expected it and for a moment I was at a loss how best to
utilize it. I decided on a straight-forward attack. Mr.
Wong," I asked, "saying as you do that I'm a good man
around here, would that induce you to double my salary?"
The request for twice my pay was as the Jews say
plain "chutzpah" - impertinence and generally I had very
little of it. Naturally, he didn't feel induced at all
to go that far. In fact, he wasn't that un-Chinese. For
that matter, I'm sure, any boss anywhere could not be so
easily induced to double any salary. However, without
any bargaining (another surprise) he gave me a fifty
percent raise which was remarkable for him as well as
for me. This would have been an opportunity for him to
smile, but he didn't. He remained as solemn as ever when
he told me: "You see, I back up my opinion about you.
You also do very well with our girls. Most of my former
foreign managers had affairs with some of the girls. That
undermines morale and his superiority of command. We had
lots of trouble on account of it. Others drank too much
w
ith our patrons. It pleases me that you don't get in=
volved personally with the girls and that you don't
drink on the job.
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Wong and l/remained on these friendly terms to the
end when all entertainment places in Shanghai were closed
in August of 1937 as a result of the Japanese invasion. I
ne
ver told him that 1 was anything but a linguist. The
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aside each month. In our precarious situation, having no
citizenship status whatsoever, we never could feel secure.
We had to have a few dollars in the bank to fall back on
in case it started raining again. All in all, though, life
didn't look so bleak anymore. We were building up new
careers and, not being the complaining types anyway, had
little to complain. We had made a few friends and acquired
many acquaintances. We had lost a past and in a debatable
way we could look forward to a perhaps promising future
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More and more praising write-ups appeared about us
in the daily press. But there was more to my job than
just pleasing the Casanova patrons. Nobody can please
everybody all the time, and neither could I. We had our
share of obstreperous guests, troublemakers, vulgar drunks,
fights and parties which got out of hand before I could
prevent it.
foreign/
One night half a dozen drunk^iavy officers in mufti
had me against the wall, threatening to beat me to pulp
un
less I allowed six girls to leave the Casanova with
them without exerting extra payment for them. With my
back protected by the wall I stood my ground. A real
fight was finally averted when our giant doorman and
bouncer Ivan interfered. A later complaint by Wong to
the officers' commanding captain resulted in an official
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apology.
On another occasion we had a group of belligerent
German and another group of as belligerent French guests
at the same time. Since the assent of Hitler Frenchmen and
Germans in groups acted out their hostilities after a few
drinks. I wisely had seated the two parties on opposite
sides of the dance floor. It didn't take long, however,
until the trouble started. The Germans defiantly began
to sing their national anthem "Deutschland . Deutschland
ueber alles" which was promptly challenged by the French
national anthem, the Marseillaise. Soon enough a battle
of national songs rendered the air asunder and the regular
business in the ballroom grated to a halt. More and more
guests began to leave. I had to threaten the German group
(who retaliated by shouting anti-Semitic obscenities at
me
) as well as the French with calling the police unless
they stopped singing and get out without any further trouble.
I was afraid that the battle of songs would e/^pt into a
battle of fists and the by now empty dance floor would
serve well as the battle field. Neither side paid any
attention to my entreaties until I sent for Ivan who was
black-bearded, almost seven feet tall and weighed close to
three hundred pounds. His hands looked like sledge hammers.
He always reminded me of Ivan the Terrible, and I was sure
that a single blow from him could fell an ox. He could
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part two fighting men with ease and take them downstairs
and out of doors by holding them by their coat collars.
Knowing his own strength, he never hit anyone. By nature
he was the gentlest of men, but the sight of him put the
fear of God into any troublemaker. And so it was with the
German and French song battlers. At seeing him appear on
the scene, they beat a retreat after Ivan had made sure
they had paid their bills. Each group marched out in for=
mation like a squadron of soldiers, singing to the last
second. So often grown people are acting much sillier than
to/
playing children.
My biggest trouble was avoiding^di><nk<m with our
guests. I could not simply turn down the many invitations
and had to rely on our bartenders to serve me a special,
non-potent concoction of club soda with a shot of grenadine.
Any alcoholic beverages were strictly out, even if the one
or other of our guests might feel offended. I have a very
low capacity of absorbing alcohol and had to keep a clear
head all the time. Neither could 1 sit down with patrons
at their table. Once I did that, I could not refuse other
guests the same privilege. If I wanted to remain in control
of the entire business, I had to remain on my feet. It
often posed quite a problem to get out from under the
stubborn insistence by Inebriated guests to join them.
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Annie and I began to feel that we were
quite well established, but Timothy had other Ideas. He
was dissatisfied. Very much so, in fact. And he didn't
mind letting me know about it. He could and would not
adjust to being compelled of living (that's what he said
although I have my doubts If one can apply the word 'llv=
Ing' to a guardian angel) In a city like Shanghai. He con=
sldered It very unfair and even complained why I had not
been provided with a Jewish guardian angel who might have
had a better understanding for my problem. He was not pre*
judlced by any means, he assured me. He was not permitted
any prejudice, but he could not altogether forget that he
had been a Christian German and that his assignment district
had originally been Germany. Maybe as time went on he might
learn better. Although he had not yet earned his wings, he
could not possibly anymore be concerned with political
events on earth. Once one was In the employ of the ce=»
lestlal state, color, creed, or race didn't make
any
difference or at least that was the way It was In heaven.
is/
He had also been told that God, that/iUs solrlt, never
entered a church or temple where a congregation excluded
worshippers on account of their color or social standing,
or for whatever other stupid reason.
All this was all right by him, bMt it didn't change
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the fact that he had made a big mistake when he turned
down to go to a ghost school. He had been given the
choice either to start out as a ghost or a guardian
angel, and he had been stupid enough to have chosen
the latter. It probably would have been much easier
and more fun to haunt people than to guard them, es=
pecially such a man like rpe. It was quite a job to protect
roe and often Annie as well in a city where an underpaid
policeman could be bribed with fifty dollars to look
away if some one wanted to kill some one else.
I truly taxed his patience to the limit when I
accepted the invitation of a friend to motor with him
to Nanking for a day. Whether true or not^ the rumors had
it that there were hordes of roving bandits in the country^
side. Besides, each village policeman was a power by him=
self and none could be trusted. A foreigner, as a means
of identification, was expected to hand his calling card
to each one of these so-called law-enforcers, although most
of them could not even read the Chinese translation of
one's name on the back side of the card. Going on a motor
trip without a pack of calling cards was an invitation
to pay some sort of ransom at each village or city on
the way. Whatever these policemen did with the cards they
thus collected was a mystery.
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My friend was acquainted with the infamous hole in the
center of the road as one drove Into Wusi. This well-
camouflaged hole was carefully kept in good condition.
It was sufficiently deep and sharp-edged to break the
axle of a car and it often did if an unsuspecting driver
hit it instead of detouring it by slowly driving far to
one side of the road. It was a good racket for the one
and only mechanic in Wusi whose garage was close to the
hole. In fact, this hole was his personal property and
one could assume that the mayor and police chief got
their monthly pay-off. The mechanic never could repair
the car without delay, but "by and by" which meant that
the hapless driver and company had to stay overnight in
Wusi. The local population not only ha<n^ their fun to watch
the stupid foreign devils (Chinese always laugh at others
having accidents), but some of them - as for instance the
hotel owner - also profited by the hole. Believe you
me
that nowhere in the world you canP escape some sort of
shakedown. I've come to believe that man forever is dis-
honest by nature. The petty thief, the quack doctor, the
fake evangelist, the politician on the take are not better
than any professional criminal. What a paradise this world
could be if we had total honesty and integrity. Only a
foolish dreamer like I would have such a thought.
While my friend conducted his business in Nanking, Timot^f/
and I went sightseeing in a rickshaw. What else could we do?
There was a department stOre through which one leisurely could
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ride from one stall to the other and from floor to floor
without ever leaving the vehicle. It was the
first drive-in I encountered and I*m sure the only one
in the world at that time. O^ierwise Nanking, being then
the capital of China, was a dusty, unimprcssing hick-town
despite some formidable government buildings in tradition=
al Chinese architecture. It could not stand any comparison
to the former, magnificent capital, Peking, or Peiping as
it was called under the rule of Chiang Kai-Chek. It had
not like in Peking at the entrance of the Forbidden City
a "Tien An Men", a gate of heavenly peace.
Nanking was destined to become the scene of the
mo
St unbelievable atrocities, committed by the conquering
Japanese army . In fact, the "Rape of Nanking" cannot be
erased from the annals of man's inhumanities to man, as
the genocide, committed by the Nazis, or the mass-murder
ordered by Stalin, or the attack on Pearl Harbor, or
the dropping of atom bombs on Hiroshima and Nagasaki,
or the London Blitz and the aerial destruction of Coventry,
or the not- to-be-excused, unnecessary saturation bombing
of Dresden, where more people perished than in Hiroshima
and Nagasaki combined, or the present bloody imperialism,
exhibited by Communist Russia and China, or the atrocities,
bejjng/ North-Koreans, the/
/flBHB0 committed by the^Vietcong and North- Vietnamese ,
can or will ever be forgotten.
We departed for our return trip to Shanghai later
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than my friend had promised. I had to be at the Casanova
at eight in the evening. To make up for lost time, my
friend drove very fast, not minding the fact that the
weather turned bad. It began to snow, and it got dark
earlier than usual. At one point, when visibility had
become nil, my friend missed the road and we got stuck
in a muddy rice field. There was no traffic at all, and
we certainly were in trouble. Timothy was as mad as a
hatter. It was not in his power to get the car unstuck.
All he was able to do vcaspreventing us from freezing to
death, although in his opinion we didn't deserve his help.
He hoped, so he told me, that my friend and I would come
down with a miserable cold at least. He could be mean,
my Timothy, but on the other hand I couldn't blame him.
It was kind of him to protect my friend as well although
he was not dutibound to do so. Finally in the early morning
hours a peasant for an exorbitant cumsha (commission) pulled
us out with a team of oxen.
Naturally, Annie was frantic when - tired and be=
with/
draggled - I got home. The fact that Timothy was/me had
been her only consolation.
After I had told her about our misadventure, had her
calmed down, had taken a bath and eaten a substantial
breakfast to satisfy my ravenous hunger, I could no
longer postpone calling Wong and apologize for not showi-ng
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up the previous night. Whether or not he would accept my
apologies was another matter. Wong never seemed to sleep,
or if he did, he slept very little. Perhaps a few hours
in the early morning and an hour in the late afternoon.
At night he always manned his observation post on the
balcony and from ten in the morning until late in the
afternoon he worked in his tiny, disorderly office. He
never told me if he had a family, and I never found out.
He was a loner for all I knew. He didn't have a secretary
or any office persqnelf. He did all that work himself and
only once a month the company auditor showed up for a day.
Well, I dreaded to tell him why '?! hadn't come to work. He
didn't understand that anyone ever deserved a day off.
to/
"There is no need for you/call Mr. Wong," Annie told
me. "I didn't go to work either and so didn't anyone else."
As much as I had suffered in that miserable car stuck
in that miserable rice field, I had been lucky at that. Any
place of entertainment as any other business or shop had
been closed on account of the heavy rainfall. Whenever
there was a rainstorm in Shanghai, life came to a stand=
still. The totally ineffective sewer system couldn't cope
with the torrent of tropical rain. The streets were over=
flooded so quickly that anyone caught outside had to take
shelter wherever he could find it. It was either that or
drowning and each rainstorm took its toll of drowned people.
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Thus Wong never learned that I would have missed a
night's work which to him was a cardinal sin. I guess,
the only excuse acceptable to him was a death certificate
or an illness so severe that it required hospitalization,
and then he even might have replaced you. He was a humane
man In all his concern for his employees within the confines
of the ballroom, but he could not accept any excuse if
some one In his emply shirked his or her duty for even
one single night. That was the blind spot in his mental
make-up. The Casanova Ballroom was his life, love, broad,
butter - in short everything that makes life worthwhile.
Whatever happened outside thSe walls did not seem to exist
for him or concern him.
As I have repeatedly maintained, this is exclusively
a book about the personal ventures of two people and a
guardian angel without a country and not one to linger
on artistic, poetic or other scenic descriptions. Aside
from the fact that I am not a poet, I also don't have the
time to indulge in such reveries at the end of my life. My
days are growing shorter and shorter, and if I want to
finish this book, I better stick to thexvents as they
happened, because so few people ever had to experie
nee
such a life as ours. Nanking in one day was just another
dreary Chinese city, and I riding around in a rickshaw
without a guide could not store in my mind many if any
iiij
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memo
ries of that day. The troubi^ with us was that during
our Odyssee we were mostly occupied with staying alive
which was a full-time, hard job. Most of the scenic
beautiful places, for which ordinary people take to travel=
ing, either escaped us or in the struggle of keeping our
heads above the water level didn't impress us enough to
retain them in our memories. Even in our spare hours -
and these were few because Annie had to take care of every
day chores like shopping and preparing some meals, and I
was working on my book, wrote an article or story now and
then, or kept up our correspondence - we seldom could enjoy
the wonders of nature or any man-made landmarks. Thinking
back to that one day trip to Nanking I can for the heck
of me not even remember if we passed outside of Nanking
the magnificent Sun Yat-An Memorial Temple high up on
a hill with thousands of steps leading up to it.
Annie and I began to feel at home in Shanghai, figur=
ing that we would stay for ten years or so until we had
made our promised pile of money (how funny that sounds now)
and then immigrate to America to fulfill our fondest dream
of becoming United States citizens which we considered
would be the one great achievement of our lives. (Sorry,
Mr. K., wherever you are). Of course, in the span of ten
years we might have grown roots in Shanghai so deep that
we not anymore could tear them out as it has happened to
many foreigners who had settled in this strange city. But
if it wasn't Hitler, it were the Japanese militarists. We
weren't given time to grow any roots.
It seemed that we were destined to remain what we
had become - people without a country. Prosperity was
often just around the comer, but we never made it.
Luckily we were resilient to bend with bad luck and ill=
ness. Our mutual love always sustained us. We had carved
for ourselves a strong granite block onto which we anchor'
so that/
ed our happiness/MIP adversities could not really do us
any permanent harm. It may seem ridiculous to many of
the young peole in these times when divorces are c
ommon
occurrences that we believed and still believe in the
sanctity of our marital bonds. We possessed and possess
love. Neither money nor any other material gains can
create true happiness. Only love can.
The Shanghai period with its future dreams came to a
rough and quite bloody end. Timothy had a heck of a time
to keep us from getting killed, but when it came down to
the essentials, to the gritty-nitty, good, old Timothy
never failed us.
We almost had forgotten that wo were refugees, but
were rudely reminded of our status when suddenly we had
to pack artain and once more leave behind our friends, our
acquaintances and even the few possessions we had brought
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along from Germany or had acquired in Shanghai, not k
ing if we ever would see any of them again. This time we
were allowed no more than one suitcase per person on our
flight from war- torn Shanghai. All we could take with us
were the parapernalia of our new professions - some of our
evening outfits. We had saved four hundred dollars which
didn't do us any good because we had deposited them into
a bank account and all banks had been closed. We had a
few dollars in cash, much less than the forty dollars we
had been allowed to take out of Nazi-Germany. The rest
of our meager possessions we packed into a big, overseas
trunk and the few suitcases which had survived the long
trip from Germany. We left them in a warehouse which, as
we later learned, was damaged by a Japanese bomb. The one
thing I certainly didn't leave behind was the finished
manuscript of the book I had worked on all along. We
believed it could open for us the way to America although
that was just another drcair. at the time. However, for once
we didn't dream altogether. The book helped. Scripta manent,
verba volent - written words remain, spoken words evaporate.
Our exit from Shanghai was at least quite as dramatic
as our exit from Nazi-Germany.
CHAPTKR SIX
EXIT SHANGHAI / KNThlR MANILA
As a pacifist suffers from an
inferiority complex and can't come to terms with the
reality that man is by nature the most brutal and wanton
killer in the animal world, so too many people live in
a non-world, that is in a world which doesn't exist, and
are, without realizing it, refugees from reality. Brain=
washed by professional pacifists, who in turn are quite
often suffering from a mental illness, defined as Coramu=
nism, and who are at least as brutal and vicious as any
bloody militarist, they foolishly yell "Peace Nowl" and
expect that peace w^ill break out all over like flowers
on a desert after a spring rain. Only there are few
spring rains in deserts.
Each day people hear and read of catastrophes and
naively believe it cannot happen to them or where they
are living. They read about terrible car accidents and
smugly assert that they could not be involved in any of
them, being such careful drivers. They learn about horri'
fying air disasters, but just the same take confidently
to the air, feeling secure that other planes may crash,
but not the one in which they're traveling. For whatever
non- reason they are always convinced that others may get
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cancer, but not they.
Young people quite frequently are incensed because
the establishment or rather their government forces them
to pay Social Security from which they do not immediately
benefit. They want the old folks to take care of them»
selves, unable to imagine that eventually they, too,
will be old folks, if they are that lucky. As 1 said,
to most people the (on-world has more reality than the
real world. With all the scientific and technological
advances humanity has not improved. Humanity has remained
prone to illness, disaster and wars because peace cannot
be achieved unilaterally. Humanity both benefits and
suffers from the good and bad of modern living. Man may
conquer the whole universe, but still will remain a mere
mortal. Man can preserve nature as it had been created by
God and yet ai^stroys it by pollution. The ecological
balance of nature is very fragile as we finally begin
to learn. An eventual cancer cure will help all mankind,
but it will never come to pass if all we do is yell "No
Cancer Now!".
"The difficulty in the social question is that men
everywhere are hamstrung by ancient abuses, habitual in=*
ertlia, and inherited or acquired wrongs," so wrote Theodore
Herzl, the father of Zionism, in his diaries.
It cannot happen to you, can it? Don*t be so sure.
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Anything can happen to you at any time and wherever you
may be. If for instance you think of anti-aircraft bullets,
you see them shooting upwards toward flying enemy planes,
don't you? They either hit the planes or they don't. Un«
less you are one of the crew in a military airctaft, you
feel assured that they won't hit you, being safely on the
ground. Again you are a refugee from reality. What, indeed,
happeaj to those bullets which don't hit the enemy aircraft?
According to the law of gravity they have to come down
again, don't they?
Now I ask you in all innocence, my friends and foes,
have you ever been the target of wtk anti-airctaf t bullets?
I don't mean the ones which are winging toward you in case
yru're flying in a military plane, but the ones which miss
and come down again straight at you, the non-intended target?
It so happened that we were close to being hit by them, not
once but many times, and may I tell you, if it won't teaches
you anything else, it will teach you the futility of life.
Being on the ground you aren't supposed to be the targetof
anti-aircraft bullets, or are you? Man, you're so wrong.
Of course, it teacheuf you nothing if one of them hits you^
and you are stone dead from one second to the other. If
it just misses you by a fraction of an inch, you could
fiivc or take a few Inches./
get burned fiercely. If it misses you by a yard,/ you've
had
an experience which will leave you quite shaken.
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It hisses by you like a streaking fire ball. If you don't
believe me, try it out once and you won't like it. We never
did while we were in Shanghai after the Japanese attacked.'
If you ever hear the ack-ack of anti-aircraft guns, take
my advice and run for cover, even if you aren't up there
in the sky. That's being realistic.
Anyway, it all started some weeks earlier when the
Japanese attacked the Marco Polo Bridge near the village
of Lukouchia, a short distance to the West of Peking or
Peiping. That was thousands of miles away from Shanghai,
we/
and^iii didn't give it a thought. After all, it couldn't
happen to
us/
in Shanghai. In fact, like fools we in Shang=
hai didn't take that skirmish up North seriously until one
fine morning the Japanese fleet appeared at the mouth of
the Whangpoo River and sealed it up to all water traffic
from or to the Yang tze-kiang, or as it is called in China,
the "Ta Chiang", the great river.
Of course, that was pretty close, some twenty-five
miles away. We read about it in the morning newspapers,
and we listened to radio reports, but still we smugly
believed that nothing would happen to us. The reality
was yet somewhere else, but not where we were. Even,
when the Japanese started shelling the Northern Chinese
suburbs of Shanghai, it was still on the other side of
in a way/
the Creek, the narrow inland river that/divided tt •
he extra-territorial International Settlement from
the non-protected Chinese suburbs of Chapai and Hongkew
although the General Post Office Building was located
there. We worried a little about the landing of Japanese
troops at Woosung where the Whangpoo River flows into
the Yang-tze-f^iang and so a few squadrons of the American
Fourth Marines, the British, French and Italian military
forces, stationed in Shanghai, went on protective guard
duty at the Garden Bridgeif and other crossing which
spanned the Creek.
We still, I mean all of us foreigners, did not
think much of the whole episode. It had happened before
in 1932, and the Japanese had honored the Internationa}.
Settlement as well as the French Concession. Sure, the
fighting came closer and closer just across the Creek.
Yet, we refused to call these bloody skirmishes - war.
We dismissed them with the totally unrealistic expression
of Sino-Japanese hostilities. We didn't want to acknowledge
the possibility of danger, although thousands and thousands
of Chinese refugees, poor, pursued humanity, streamed
into the Settlement and Concession. We kept our wishful
thinking alive that we were secure on account of the
extra-territorial rights. Even Annie and I forgot that we,
although being non-citizens, were actually protected by
these rights. Officially none of the refugees from Soviet
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Russia and Nazi-Germany could claim any rights whatsoever.
The reality was that without a valid passport we did not
exist and could be prey to any attacking force. Nobody
would probably give a damn about us. Strangely enough,
as it turned out, we German- Jewish refugees were not for=-
gotten, but the Russians were.
Meanwhile, these poor Chinese masses, bedraggled,
clad in dirty, tattered garments and carrying bundles
with the few things they possessed, were almost literally
crawling like ants over the Garden Bridge and other cross-
ings. Since they had nowhere to go and since nobody thought
of organizing aid committees, they squatted in the narrow
streets and alleys of Nantao, the small Chinese city to
the South, or in the streets of Shanghai proper. They
just stopp^l walking when their tired feet wouldn't
carry them any farther. They sat down and waited - al«
though no one could say for what. As it was, they were
left to their miserable fate. In the ever increasing con-
fusion no one seemed to think or attempt of feeding them,
or finding some some sort of shelter for thera.
For a few days it was almost a one-sided war. The
Chinese had been ill-prepared and there were few troops
to resist the invasion. By and by Chiang kai-shek rushed
military cadres and weapons to Chapei and Hongkew. A few
Chinese bomber planes appeared in the air which posed more
of a danger to our side than to the Japanese.
When the gas was turned off to prevent a conflagration
in case the Japanese would dare and shell Shanghai, every"
body stopped being refugees from realities. That concerned
us, our own well-being. Ironically enough, one had to buy
a hibashi, a Japanese charcoal burner, unless one didn't
mind to forego hot meals at home. The producejr from the
countryside did not get through anymore. With all shipp«
ing on the Whangpoo River cut off and the railway lines
as well as the roads to Shanghai under Japanese fire the
flow of merchandise came to a standstill. Now the hoarding
began^ the wild scramble of buying up anything that was
edible. Everybody was on his own and nevermind the next
fellow. The egocentricity of human nature revealed it=«
self in all its nakedness. Who cared how many Chinese
refugees and others died of starvation? Even under normal
conditioai several corpses were found each day in the
streets, victims of starvation. Civilization retreated
as it always does when men fight men. All the progress of
the centuries gets lost with the exception of the one
geared to killing.
One morning, a few days after the whole mess started,
came to the conclusion/ (f^
Annie/SHHHH that it also was time for us to hojrd some
Mrs. Holz's/
food if one still could obtain some. Our part of/SSTTce
box was empty. The little Chinese green grocery and butcher
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store In our street had nothing to sell anymore. So Annie
decided to see If a Japanese store, where we had often
shopped before, had some can goods left. She stopped a
rickshaw and was on her way. Please, don't worryl Nothing
came of itl That Is - she didn't get any canned food. I
pretended not to feel uneasy about her going out by her'*
a few/
self al though/ fl09 stray shells had hit the Settlement
and some of the anti-aircraft bullets had done some nice
killing. I had to stay home for some reason or other I
don't remember. But instead of bringing back some canned
food, she almost returned with a Chinese baby. As it was,
Chinese babies seemed to be the only merchandise left
for sale. However, with our luck this very morning the
war really came to Shanghai proper.
For the first time, since the hostilities had started,
three Chinese bomber planes went into action against the
enemy just when Annie was riding to that store in the
center of the French Concession. The three Chinese pilots
att;^mpted to attack the Japanese flag ship, the Idzuma,
anchored on the Whangpoo close to the Japanese Consulate.
They didn't succeed in unloading a single bomb. The Idzuma' s
off target/
powerful anti-aircraft guns kept them^JgJJJJp and in the
process hit one of the planes close to its bomb-bay which
was quite badly damaged. Whether or not the pilot and crew
could never be established. In any event the three planes
tunned to fly back to their airfield on the other side
of Shanghai. The damaged plane crashed before it reached
prior to/
, but/a
the field
that
it caused the death
of thousands of people on the ground. As it was flying
above the busy comer of The Bynd and Nanking Road a bomb
detached itself from the damaged bay. It killed several
hundreds of people in an unbelievable mass slaughter.
occurred/
But that was nothing to what/sSQJBBl a ^^^ minutes later
just where Annie would have been if it hadn't been for
Timothy. For once I can happily tell you: "Please, don't
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Luckily I had stubbornly insisted on Timothy ac-
companying Annie although he had strenuously objected
that this was contrary to all the rules and regulations
for guardian angels. I had gotten so angry with him that
After all,/
he had yielded.yfiMia^Ihe was not supposed to leave my
side ever.
Unbelievable at it seemed the crippled Chinese plane
continued d its flight across Shanghai and two more bombs
dropped from the damaged under-carriage exactly over the
Plaza on Thibet Road and Avenue Edward VII. No enemy air-
craft could have caused more death and destruction, Thou-
sands of Chinese refugees had squatted down at this Plaza
had been aware of havrlng been hit at this vulnerable spot
to await their fate with the kind of stoicism one only
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can find among Asiatic people. Annie in the rickshaw would
have crossed this plaza just at the same second the two
bombs exploded there. They wrought the kind of havoc no
living being can normally imagine. So many people were
killed (not counting the many who were seriously injured)
that it took thirty-seven big, heavy trucks, heaped high
with corpses, to remove the dead. Later the plaza and the
surrounding streets had to be hosed down for hours to
clean them of blood and human body-debris.
I heard the bombs explode. We lived only a few miles
from the plaza. Naturally, I couldn't tell where exactly
the bombs had fallen, but I could imagine the direction
to/
and I got frantic, knowing AnnieTbe in that neighborhood.
Yet, I was helpless to do anything. Going after Annie was
out of the question. I had to stay put at home in case
she tried to reach me by telephone or returned. I hoped
and prayed to God that she was safe and only the fact
that Timothy was with her gave me some assurance. After
about half an hour, through which I suffered agonies from
listening to the radio news about the catastrophe, she
called me from a friend's apartment which was only a block
out of her way to the Japanese store. The idea to pay a
short visit to this friend had come to her of a sudden
and for no special reason at all. She was awed, because
had she not done so, she might also have been killed or
at least seriously injured. I had not told her about my
insistence that Timothy go with her and didn't do so then,
but I was dead-certain that the special celestial per-
ceptual sense of guardian angels had been the guiding
influence behind her detour. The main thing for me was
that she was all right. She would come home when all was
safe as far as it could be still safe in Shanghai. It
didn't matter when later Timothy got really mad at me
for letting Annie go out by herself in a time like this
and putting him in such a precarious situation. He wasn't
sensitized for protecting Annie and only an intuition had
influenced him to steer her to our friend's apartment.
Annie told me what happened to her on her way back
home. She couldn't get a rickshaw since all the coolies,
scared by the bombs, had gone into hiding. So she had to
walk. There were Chinese refugee women everywhere, offer-
ing their babies for sale and pleading with tears stream=
ing down their dirty faces. It was not the money so much,
but more so the desire to save their kids from starvation.
Two dollars for a baby boy was little enough. Baby girls
they were giving away for free. One such woman had followed
Annie for several blocks until at last she gave her two
dollars without accepting the baby boy. It was not easy
to refuse the woman two tried hard to put the baby into^
Annie's arms. I think, Annie with her soft heart might
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have come home with a Chinese baby Instead of a few meat
and vegetable cans if it hadn't been for Timothy. He just
would not let her do it. He had enough with the two of us.
One more would have been a burden he could not assume.
I still have a newspaper of the following day. Under
the caption "CHILDREN SOLD FOR $ 2 IN SHANGHAI" the
first sentence of the report read: "One of the most
tragic features of the wholesale evacuation of the Chinese
areas yesterday was the fact that women were offering to
sell children to anyone who wished to buy."
The next morning I was the exclusive, although not
intended target of an anti-aircraft bullet. It was the
first of several similar experiences although this one
came the closest. In a red-hot, hissing, fiery streak the
bullet zoomed down directly at me as I stepped out of our
house. Timothy pulled me back so quickly that I almost
keeled over backwards. Instead of me the bullet hit a
Chinese vendor who at the same second stepped into the
where/
spot/l had been standing. He was killed instantly and
burned to a little heap of ashes. In rapid succession
other bullets hit the asphalt and the sparks flew upwards
in all directions. It was a macabre fireworks.
The danger from anti-aircraft bullets, having missed
their target (and most of them did), was by far greater
than the occasional artillery shells, landing indiscrimi-
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nately withinf the boundaries of the Settlement and the
Concession. Whether or not this was an intentional assault
on the city from time to time in order to frighten u^ or
warn other than Chinese military forces to keep out of
the conflict the Japanese attackers never disclosed.
Neither did they apologize. The fact remained that the
Japanese gunners on Japanese war ships could not have
been so badly mistaken in regard to the direction their
artillery was aimed. There was no safety anymore anywhere
in Shanghai.
To our unbelievable surprise the German Consulate
General called us, offering us evacuation with the passen-
ger liner "Gnelsenau" which was going to be diverted from
Japan to the Yang tze-kiang. We could not decide to ac«»
cept the risk of setting foot on German soil again and
a German ship was just that. We refused at first, but the
us/
Consulate called again assuring/that under the circumstances
we would be absolutely safe and be regarded as Auslands-
deutsche (Germans living abroad).
We were in a quandary. Our hopes of having found a
haven in Shanghai had been shattered and come to a brutal
end. With all prices of entertainment staying dark and
closed we were jobless. Life in Shanghai haou as much as
ceased to exist. All business had come to a grinding halt.
Store fronts were boarded up. Sandbag bastions appeared
on most street corners. Street cars and buses did not
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run anymore. Few rickshaw coolies still dared to come out
and hustle. Taxis were hard to get. ^od grew scarcer and
scarcer and prices soared beyond our means. We had little
cash on hand and with the banks closed as well we couldn't
even draw on our meager savings of four hundred dollars. The
German Consulate offered us a free trip to Manila as guests
of the German Reich, or as we translated it as Hitler's
guests which was quite ironic. It was a hard decision to
make. We surely had to get out of Shanghai for better or
worse. No other shipping line of any other country would
if/
take us, even /we could pay the fare. They were busy evacu=
ating their own nationals. It was the same all over. We
had to flee for our lives - only this time on a German
boat and a German boat under international law was German
territory and German territory to us was Nazi territory
and Nazi territory was fraught with danger as far as we
were concerned. We could be tricked and kidnaped with ease.
I consulted with Timothy. He had no celestial perception
of danger. At last we yielded to the circumstances and
accepted the generous, or at least supposedly generous
offer by the German Consulate. The poor White-Russians
had nowhere to go unless the one or the other of them
succeeded in obtaining a Nansen passport, especially created
for people without a country. Yet, even with this passport
It was very doubtful that the bearer would be able to book
a berth on any ship as long as the emergency lasted. This
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particular, so-called passport, initiated by the Norwegian
explorer and scientist Frltjof Nansen, who in 1922 received
the Nobel Peace Price for his relief work in behalf of
starving Russians, was internationally recognized (except
by Russia, of course). In general, though, it was not issued
to ordinary exiles.
We had to go downtown to the German Consulate General
to have our invalid passpc^rts temporarily re-instated and
stamped with the entry visa for the Philippine Islands.
We were lucky to find two available rickshaws, but every
few minutes we had to jump out and run for shelter. It
was a race between us and death whenever enemy planes
overhead came too close and anti-aircraft bullets began
zooming up and down again. Timothy got all excited with
so much work c
ut outt
or him. He even forgot that he wasn't
allowed to swear under any circumstances. Despite all the
danger it was funny, for Timothy quite obviously remembered
some of the juiciest swear words and tried to protect him-
self by always adding the same apology: "Please, dear God,
forgive me, but why do You do that to me?"
Death in Shanghai had become a casual occurrence. One
didn't even skip a heart beat anymore at the sight of
corpses which were gathered up like so much junk. Shells,
bombs, anti-aircraft bullets killed scores of people day
fires frinf,e ci /
and night. Huge/SHMI flBHJPi ^^^ Settlement and the
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Concession. Nantao, the quaint natlA^ city, was packed
with refugees like a can with sardines. Business ha^ stopped
there altogether and nobody could tell how these poor people
fed themselves. The Northern suburbs of Chapel and Hong-
kew, where the actual fighting was going on, were envelop-
ed In an ever spreading conflagration.
Jim Marshall In the now defunct magazine "Colliers"
wrote In an article: "In the maze of winding streets and
passages of Nantao the ragged, dirty thousands cook, eat
and live and love - and die like animals."
A few days later Nantao also went up In flames. How
many people perished there nobody will ever know. Human
beings, men, women and children, became flaming torches.
The horror was indescribable.
Mrs. Theodore Roosevelt, Jr., wrote in the Saturday
Evening Post a long article, titled: "Escape from Shang-
hai". It is worthwhile to quote a passage from it. "1 was
In Paris," so she wrote, "all during the bombcz^ment of
1918 and, at that time, thought that I was looking on the
face of war. But the bombardment of Paris was a child's
tea party compared to the war which was to engulf us in
Shanghai."
In a way, I assume, I'm a product of World
War One, of post-war Germany, of material and spiritual
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deprivation, mass- joblessness and stupendous inflation
i
when
a billion mark was not enough
to buy a loaf of bread. All the wars lumped together have
only proved that they never solved problems, but created
new ones. And yet, since human history has been recorded,
that is from about 3000 B.C., it has been written in human
blood. History always tells of wars, violence and sin, but
so little of human goodness. The great religions with
their many splinter groups have dismally failed mankind.
The humane teachings of men like Jesus Christ have been
recorded, but have not changed the baser instincts in
man. What has humanity learned from history? Not much,
indeed. We still conduct wars without rhyme or reason.
We, the people in the world, still follow leaders who
promote strife among nations. We live in fear of total
destruction, but still pile up nuclear weapons. Each
national administration in all nations has a Secretary
of War or Defense, but none has as yet seen fit to appoint
a Secretary for the promotion of Peace. Nations, where
dictators rule, as for instance in Imperial Russia and
Red China, still encourage wars , and thus the democracies
have to stay armed while millions of people in the world
remain hungry. Vast amounts of money are spent on armaments
and comparatively very little on general we If are. Brinkman-
ship is still the rule and not the exception.
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Shanghai all of a sudden had become hell on earth,
because Japan's super-militarists with their cold-blooded
lust for power and territorial expansion, had indoctrinat-
ed their people with their own insanity. And so they creat-
ed hell in Shanghai and other parts of China. And so they
spew forth fire and death wherever they stormed ashore.
A strong minority always succeeds in leading a weak ma-
jority for better for worse.
One late afternoon from the roof of a high-rise
apartment house, where friends of ourd lived, we watched two
Japanese military bomber planes slithering like silver
fish through the air, apparently unconcerned by the dark
puffs of Chinese anti-aircraft bullets. They reached their
destination, the Jessfield Railway Station, about five
miles from where we were watching. They dived steeply,
dropped their bombs and disappeared into the darkening
sky. High, red flames shot up at the station as it burned
to its death. And there we were, innocent, helpless by-
standers, observing modem warfare at close range. It was
absurdity, driven to its limits of bloody futility. Wars
are the utmost in human absurdity. We will go to any length
to save one person's life and then offer thousands to be
sacrift^ed senselessly in wars, none of which can be
rationalized by sober reflections. It could be that wars
are manifestations of human mental aberrations which find
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their fulfillment in a mass death wish. We won't ever be
able to explain it. Peace can only be universal, demanded
by all the people on earth. Like the sword of Damocles the
final world war with its total nuclear destruction is hang-
ing above us and will fall upon us unless we, the people
of the world, change our way ot thinking and our moral
and ethical attitudes, unless we finally learn to settle
our differences by dialogue and reasoning. Men apparently
have not been able to live in peace, but we could live
without wars if that is what we all really want. I despair
that we ever will learn. We had so much time for learning.
I despair because embracing Communism in the fashion
of our youthful rebels (and to hell with the generation
gap! I had been a youthful rebel, too.), misguided by the
older, deadly intellectuals in our midst, is no acceptable
alternative. It is worse than death on a battlefield. Yet,
too many of our young people and some of the not so young
ones are rushing like lemmings toward the darA'sea of Commu-
nism or Fascism which is another way of total self-destruction
Where Communism or Fascism reign, humanity is doomed to live
in a graveyard like zombies. Where the minds of men are
shackled, life loses all meaning because extremists arrogate
free speech, but refuse to listen.
And where is God, we may ask? Who is God, we may want
to know?* We cannot and should not learn where and who God
that/
is other than/RIs omnipotence and omniscience are beyond
our human understanding. We have two choices - for or
mmmnrnjum^mimmm
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against God. Whoever decides for God as being the Creator
must have faith about which there cannot be an argument.
Faith Is faith and Is not grounded In religious hocus-
pocus. Faith Is a state of mind. No more, no less. Who=*
ever has faith does understandU life with all Its fortunes
and misfortunes, Its vicissitudes, happiness and unhappl=
he or she/
ness. Whoever decides against God and falth^^ls lost In a
jungle of deep darkness where happiness of heart and soul
cannot be found. And If we accept God as the Creator of
the Universe, we may ask who created God? Luckily there
is no answer to this question either, for If we ever know
all the answers we cease to be human. But you may very well
ask, if there is a God, why do we have wars, violence, crime,
natural catastrophes and Illness? Only God knows as He
knows why ecology, the balance of nature, also applies
to the selection about which animals, Including the human
perish/ totally/
species, shall live and which shall/SSor become ^extinct
- for the latter may be a means to control the population
explosion.
The foreign nationals In Shanghai began to
stir at last when shells and bombs and bullets did not any=»
more honor their extra-territorial rights. They started evac
uatlon proceedings for women, children and non-essential men
Unconcerned about the others, each nation took only care
of her own, the French for the French, the English for the
English, the Americans for the Americans, the Italians for
the Italians, the Germans for the Germans and so on. No one
gave any consideration for the refugees from Soviet Russia.
However, In all honesty It must be said that In this crisis
the Germans In Shanghai did not forget the refugees from
Nazi-Germany. At home they killed and Imprisoned the Jews.
In Shanghai they saved them. Another absurdity, but one
which showed that not all Germans, not all Germany, could
be blamed for the atrocities the Nazi gangsters committed.
While we had begun to prosper In Shanghai, modestly
yet, because prosperity to us meant making a living and
thriving on the Illusion that we were taking roots again,
I had forgotten about Ahasuerus. Now once more I was re=«
m
inded that I was still the wandering Jew. I finally learn'
ed my lesson that nothing In life was stable, that there
Is no guarantee for security. We again had acted silly by
believing In possessions and ownership. In reality we do
not possess, we do not own anything ever, for there Is
nothing we can take with us when the day of departure
has come. Why do some of us envy the greater fortunes of
others when we do not know of their sorrows. We cannot have
the one without the other, or to be more specific, we can
have sorrow without fortune, but not fortune without sorrow.
It is part of the law of compensation. Why are so many of us
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filled with vain pride of the material things we own,
knowing that whatever we possess is only a temporary
loan, since earthly values are fleeting? We may enjoy
them for a short while, but we should not cling to them.
They have no meaning in eternity. Everything is a shadow
without recblity , and we are materially neither rich nor
poor after death. Only if during our lifetime on this
planet we have trained our mind to reach out for true
knowledge, for the ethic and moral values which are ours
for the asking, we may benefit in our existence after
death. We may, and I cannot help but feel that we will.
"People are generally of the opinion that man needs
things," so wrote Jacob Wassermann In his book"Wedlock",
"but this opinion is utterly foolish and perverse; in
reality the matters stand quite differently. It is the
things which shamelessly and impudently and Importunately
stand in need of man and demand and misuse his strength
and his time, as seems fitting to them."
Days went by and Japanese men-of-war continued to block
all major traffic on the Whangpoo River. They allowed only
small tenders and launches, jammed to excess of their ca=»
pacity with evacuees, to f>ass for the four hours trip to
the wide es^jyary of the Yellow River where the big passen-
ger liners, anchored midstream^ were waiting.
The German liner, the Gnelsenau, a 19,000 ton ship,
f
was expected to arrive at the estuary in two days, and
we were informed to report at a certain dock of the
Whangpoo where we would be loaded onto a small launch.
The Gneiscnau had been diverted from Kobe in Japan on
her regular East-Asian tour. There we were. We had left
Nazi-Germany with forty dollars and thirteen suitcases
and now almost two years later we had to leave Shanghai
with about five dollars and two suitcases.
We found ourselves in a strange, even perhaps danger-
ous situation. Of course, we could have refused to leave
war-torn Shanghai on a German ship , flying the swastika
flag. But if leaving was what we wanted, because we had
not much of another choice, there was no other transport-
ation available for us. The other alternative would have
been to stay without having money or any chance of earn-
ing some plus the possibility of getting ourselves killed
as the fighting grew closer and closer. Although neither
Annie nor I are gamblers, we had to gamble then. We had to
choose between two evils with no idea which tfi was the
lesser one. We could have tossed a coin, but we consider
tossing coins as frivolous. We trusted in Timothy's advice
who was for accepting the trip on the Gnelsenau. Still it
was a hazardous decision. In Nazi-Germany I had been public-
ly denounced as an "Enemy of the State" with a price on my
head. Here in Shanghai the official representative of the
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same Nazi-Germany had assured us that we were free guests
of the German Reich and that we would be safely landed in
Manila. The question was, could we trust his promise? Who
would rescue us if we were abducted to Germany? There were
other German Jewish refugees going along with us, but none
of them had exposed themselves so openly and frankly as a
militant anti-Nazi as I had done in my writing, speeches
and actions above as well as underground. To this day I
can't explain why the German Consulate General in Shanghai
included us Jewish refugees in their evacuation program
while in Nazi-Germany the Jews were herded into concentration
The truth, as I always belieyed and still/
camps and already slaughtered like cattle.^JSflBVIk
believe, is/
^■■■i that not all Germans were Nazis as not all Nazis
were Germans.
It was a weird kind of experience joining this
assembly of several hundred evacuees^at Shanghai's famous
waterfront boulevard. The Bund, early in the morning. It
was for real, and yet I believe that everybody must have
had a feeling that it was a kind of nightmarish dream, in
particular for those women who had to leave their husbands
behind. Tears were being shed that could have filled buckets.
A squadron of young Germans in brown storm-troopers
uniforms with large swastika arm-bands policed us, that
is they were supposed to keep the evacuation orderly, load
•
us onto the launch and accompany us to the Gneisenau and
then return to Shanghai. The sight of them almost induced
us to take to our heels and forget about being evacuated.
That's all we needed - the protection of Nazi-Troopers. We
had had more than enough of them in Germany. We could see
in the faces of other Jewish couples that they were think="
ing the same. We were sick to the pits of our stomachs.
They were our deadly enemies, the enemies of all which
was decent and humane in the world. The brown-clad S.A.
(Sturm Abteilung - Storm Battalion) had committed and
still were committing anti-Semitic deeds of cruelty in
Nazi-Germany beyond human imagination. I had been one
of many in the German underground who had fought them as
they/
mercilessly as they had fought us. Here/^i were again,
installed as our protectors. It was so ironic that it was
almost funny. We could not turn about and walk away, for
we didn't know where to go and what to do for sustenance.
We had burned our bridges in Shanghai. And Timothy said, "-/^
"Don't get excited". It was easy for him to say so. After
all, he was not of this world anymore. So we stayed and
stared at the small, decrepit launch which was waiting to
take us to the Gneisenau. It seemed to be impossible that
we all could be crowded onto its deck. In fact, we were
afraid it would sink from the over-load before we even
would pull away from the dock. But we walked the plank ,
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each with the one suitcase we were allowed. We sat down
where we could - on benches, on the deck, below deck,
wherever there was a small space.
A young man from the German Consulate General, who
was in charge of this expedition until we had been safely
deposited on the SS Gneisenau, explained to us over a bull=
horn that the trip would last between four to five hours,
and that the Japanese as well as Chinese military forces
had guaranteed us safe passage. The shooting would stop
while we passed. The heck it would, I thought, but didn't
tell Annie that I never trusted military promises of mercy.
War was war and mercy had no part of it. "Woe to them that
trust in chariots, because there are many; and in horse=
men because they are very strong." So it says in the bible,
wary/
Isaiah 31:1. I had learned the hard way to heflmetM of men
behind guns.
While we boarded the launch and before this miserable,
little boat got underway, Japanese planes were raining down
bombs on Chapei and Hongkew, the suburbs we were going to
pass. Anti-aircraft bullets were zooming down all around
shore/
us and snipers on Pootung at the opposite^f the Whangpoo
were shooting wildly at a target we couldn't even see. This
god- forsaken launch appeared to me - and I'm sure to every-
mero/
one - so fragile that a single hit by a /rifle bullet could
sink it.
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Annie and I found a spot
on the side fac-
•
ing Chapei and Hongkew, We both kept quiet, and Timothy
was hovering at our side. 1 asked him how he would save
us in case we were sunk. I should have left well enough
alone. He shrugged his shoulders and without much assur-
ance in \ycs voice promised to fish us out although the
was/
problem/that he wouldn't know where to take us. After all,
he said, it wasn't his fault that we got ourselves into
this kind of a mess. He would fish us out all right and
then we would have to see. Nice, indeed! Neither weird
no
r eerie are the right adjectives to describe this trip.
It was akin to the super-natural, the unearthly, the trau-
matic experience beyond normal imagination. The entire
trip was as way-out as if we had taken some hallucinogens.
These hundreds of people on the small boat silently and
raotionlessly sat or squatted as if they weren't really
alive. The inside fear and the outside sights stopped all
conversation. But this abnormal muteness on our part spoke
louder than any sounds we could have uttered. Then some-
one - as we learned later a professional folk singer -
whose only baggage was his guitar- started to play sad
melodies as if he felt compelled to background our feel-
ings musically.
The launch huffed and puffed and very slowly made
its way toward our goal. Ashore we saw the mass destruction
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of war. Burnt-out godowns (warehouses), burning buildings,
smoke belching into the air. The once teeming streets of
Chapei and Hongkew were as empty of living beings as grave-
yards. The shooting ashore did not stop, but no soldiers
came into our sight. Shanghai was dying, and we knew that
it would not ever come to life again. We were on a psy=
chedelic trip without ever having heard of this phenomenon.
As I had expected, and contrary to their promise to
stop the war while we were passing by^ the Japanese showed
off what they could do. Each of the many Japanese gunboats
we passea started shelling the shore-line the very moment
our launch came into view. We were the unwilling audience
of real war, and it did not amuse us. At one spot the
Japanese waited until we could watch them landing soldiers
ashore. If the Chinese troops had lost their heads by shoot*
ing back while we were passing, we would have been done for.
As I said, I was convinced that this launch of ours could
have been sunk by a single rifle bullet. If we had been
able to stop breathing, we would have done so. We were in
a state of hallucination which was reality, and the sad
melodies of the guitar player added to our confusion of
ideation.
There was no doubt, however, that the Japanese were
In control, and they made sure we observed it. It was the
free, lustful. Tlie Japanese took her a short time later
and in 1949 the Communist forces of Mao Tse-tung threw
them out. After that there was a long silence. Shanghai
seemed to have ^disappeared from the map of the world.
In September of 1967 I read in the Zuerich Weltwoche
an article about Shanghai, written by Pierre and Renee
Cosset. They did not leave any doubt that Shanghai was
a dead city. The Red Flag was flattering from each roof
of the former British, American and French highrise build-
ings as well as from the former bank palaces on The Bund
and the well-known hotels of international reputation.
There were no more large ships in the once teeming harbor.
Street traffic was almost non-existent. However, with all
this the beggars were also gone and so was the night life.
The former French Club had been converted into a so-called
Communist Culture Center. The former Canidrome was being
used as a People's Auditorium where boring political in=
droctination speeches were delivered almost each night.
Shanghai's unique charm as the most international metro-
polis in the world was gone, but so was the trade of opium
or any other trade. No more nightclubs, no more ballrooms,
no more fun and no more dance girls and very little crime.
Gambling was forbidden and Shanghai was as dead as it could
be.
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It seemed that we had traveled for days
instead of hours when at last we reached the end of the
Whangpoo River. The estuary of the Yang tze-Kiang, where
the shore lines were almost invisible, was as calm as an
inland lake, and our little launch chucked on like a shell
on
the ocean toward the gigantic Gneisenau, looming up
like a sky-scraper when we came alongside her floating
platform. None of us, we knew, would ever see this mighty
river again which for three thousand and four hundred
thirty miles from the Tsinghai Province flowed to the
East China Sea.
Our limbs were cramped and stiff, and we had a squeezy
feeling in our stomachs as we stepped on the swaying,
swinging platform or pontoon. A so-called Jacob's ladder 9
led up to the deck of the Gneisenau and climbing it was
to us like scaling a straight mountain side. It was a
nightmarish termination of a nightmarish trip. If one
added to it our apprehension what might await us Jewish
refugees, the adventure could only be called macabre.
And so we took one cautious step after another up the
ladder, holding on with our left hand to the rope along
the outside of the ladder. I had put my right hand against
Annie's back to give her a feeling of steadiness, as ima-
ginary as it was. If only one of those ahead of us would have
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slip', we all would have toppled like so many dominoes,
lined up one behind the other, onto the pontoouor the
sea below. It was all less dangerous as it may sound,
and yet none of us had ever climbed a Jacob's ladder onto
a gently swaying ship which appeared to us as enormous
as a high mountain. None of us were athletes or sailors,
just ordinary people, young, middle-aged and old. I can't
tell how many steps we had to climb - a hundred, a thousand
or more? Step followed step - and we didn't dare Wk either to
look up or down for fear to lose our balance of which I
had little anyway, being deaf in one ear. We took each
step by itself and sighed with relief when at last a hand
reached out to pull us on deck. No mishap occurred and
no words had been spoken. The SS Gneisenau was lying high
on the water and as we looked over the railing we didn't
trust our eyes. Down below the launch didn't seem to be
la4Lger than a mere rowboat. High above us a single Japanese
military plane was circling in the air like a vulture.
The very moment the last one of us had reached the
deck
f
our suitcases had been hauled aboard^
was/
the pontoon/ VM pulled in and the anchors were
heaved^ Vihe SS Gneisenau slowly started to steam toward
the China Sea and back to Kobe, from where she had been
diverted. Our little, decrepit launch with the sqadron of
brown storm troopers pulled away in the opposition direction
to return to Shanghai.
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We reached kobe , Japan, in two days and stayed there
for three more. Being the first evacuees, reaching Japan
from Shanghai, we were what is generally called - News.
I could not help feeling some resentment of having been
taken to the land which so viciously was attacking and
destroying the city we had adopted for our new home. Again
we were unsettled escapees. Only two weeks ago my picture
in The North China Daily News/
had been prominently displayed/next to one of Edward G.
Robinson, mine as the manager of the famous Casanova Ball--
room and Robinson's as the star of a new film "Thunder
in the City". How true a prediction that title turned out
to be.
Well - what was the use to dwell on the past? One can
never recapture it.
A large crowd including members of the press
were waiting for us down below dockside as the Gneisenau
made fast. It seemed, the entire German community from Kobe,
Yokohama and Tokyo had come to welcome us . A German brass-
band played German national tunes and all of us were wel=
corned with rousing shouts of "Heil Hitler". The whole scene
- to say the least ■/ -, . . ^
was/painful to us Jewish refugees. We certainly wouldn t
"heil" that damned Hitler back as the other German passengers
did. Neither had we any desire to listen to the German music
or the welcome speeches. We kept in the background, wonder-
ing if the Germans in East Asia had not yet heard of the
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brutal anti-Semitic racial Nazi-laws, proclaimed by their
"great" Fuehrer at the Nuremberg rally in 1935.
Suddenly through all the noise we heard our names
called. Again and again. Stepping to the railing high
above the crowd below on the dock we scanned for whoever
called us. After some time we saw them, a couple of German-
Jewish friends from Shanghai u/ho had left Germany just days
before Hitler came to power. They had gone on a vacation
trip to Japan prior to the outbreak of the Sino-Japanese
hostilities around Shanghai. They were stranded now, un=»
able to return to Shanghai. Luckily they had enough money
to hold out for months.
They lived in a small Japanese hotel, the owners of
which had hung out the Nazi Swastika flag in their honor.
The Japanese could not differentiate between Germans and
German Jews. Germans were Germans to them. We spen^ the
day with these friends and returned to the Gneisenau for
dinner. Since we had no money for any sightseeing, they
forced us to accept ten dollars although we did not know
if we ever could repay them. In fact, after we left Kobe,
we never heard from them again. Years later, when we were
already in America, we were surplsed when someone told us
that they had been Communists and had gone back to Germany
after the war, East-Germany that is. They had disappeared
behind the Iron Curtain like divers below the water line
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without surfacing again.
Back aboard ship the first evening in Kobe we found
in our cabin a beautiful basket with a variety of the most
delicious fresh fruit we had seen in a long time. One could
not eat any fresh fruit or vegetable, grown in China (and
imported fruit or vegetable had been much too expensive
for us) , because the Chinese peasants used human excrements
as fertilizer. Of course, one could wash them in a potassium
permanganate solution, which, however, generally spoiled
the taste and was not a hundred percent guarantee against
catching diarhea or any other internal disorder.
Japan was different. It was and probably still is the
cleanest and most sanitary country in the Orient. One could
eat any food grown there without fear. The sight of the
oranges, apples, pears, bananas, peaches, plums and cherries
made our mouth water. These fruit baskets, one for each
evacuee couple, were presents by the German Embassy as
well as the German community in Japan. Each of the baskets,
adorned with a swastika ribbon, had a card attached to it,
offering each one of us a hearty "Heil Hitler" welcome. Even
to us Jews. It seemed to be unbejievable . That swastika
ribbon and the "Heil Hitler" spoiled our Jewish appetite.
In a way this goddamn "Hcil Hitler" cxpresseoC as much a
menace to our health as the human excrement fertilizer in
China. We were very much tempted to throw the whole, god-
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forsaken basket, fruit and all, overboard as many of the
Jewish evacuees did in their rightful scorn. Annie and I
had second thoughts. We threw the card and the swastika
ribbon into the water below and then enjoyed eating the
fruit. After all, so we argued, the fruit didn't care
whether they got into a Jewish or German stomach. God
had grown it to be eaten and so we did. To be sure, we
didn't choke on them, but fervently hoped that some day
in the near future the Nazis would choke on their swastikas.
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Using the ten dollars, our friends so
graciously had given us, we took a trip to Takarazuka
(pronounced: Takarazka. In spoken Japanese the "u" be*
fore and after a "k" is generally omitted), an hour's
train ride from Kobe. The Takarazuka Girl Opera, a phe=»
nomenon and living legend in the world of show business,
had become internationally famous since it had been founded
more than half a century ago. Its first promoter, Ichizo
Kobayashi, had started the all-girl song and dance theatre
in 1910 in order to save a fifteen and a half mile long,
bankrupt railroad which ran between Osaka and the little,
quaint town of Takarazuka, which means "Treasure Hill".
Recently a part of the company, which consists of
about four hundred beautiful, graceful girl singers and
dancers, toured the U.S. We didn't go to see the show.
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Its great charm is lost out of its own surroundings. One
has to see their musical extravaganzas in Takarazuka itself
to appreciate it. Each show always lasts four hours with
one half hour intermission. It is split in two parts. The
first half is a Kabuki-style musical and the second a
Western revue where the girls also appear in male roles.
The costumes in both parts are dazzling and so are the
sceneries.
The little town of Takarazuka has^grown into a unique
tourist attraction. The Grand Theatre with its three thou-
sand five hundred seats has eleven revolving stages, wind-,
rain-, smoke-machines, so?te one thousand floodlights, over
fifty dr^ curtains and a stage almost four hundred feet
wide. The little city has seal and otter ponds with
small, red bridges, a monkey island, a children's play-
ground, a kind of zoo with kangaroos and elephants, and
various restaurants, foreign and Japanese.
We arrived around eleven in the morning and had two
hours until the performance woi^d start at one o'clock,
/o we wandered around, watching the majestically proud-
looking, black swans on the lakes, crossed the curved red
bridges and felt as if we had been trans-planted into a
fairy land. Takarazuka Shin-Onsen, which is its full n
ame
is exactly what we uneducated foreigners envisioned a
Japanese village should look like. Picturesque, enchant=
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ing, clean - an Oriental showcase.
Although foreigners are given programs with an English
synopsis of the plays, it did not matter whether one read
it or not. The stories of the two plays were of little
significance. All that counted were the glamorous per**
formances of the girl actors, singers and dancers. They
had been trained for many years. Their lives were strictly
controlled. They were not allowed to marry. They were some-
thing to behold in their dazzling, sparkling, bejeweled
painted in pastel/
costumes. The beauty of the sets, /MM fli color-shade
was/
combinations, SKKKMfwitH indescribable and could have
created/
been/i
only by Japanese artists. It all may sound like
cliches, but one had to see it to believe it.
During the intermission we sat down on a velvet-
upholstered settee in the large foyer and watched the
audience strolling by. The Japanese ladies were dressed
in the most beautiful, most colorful kimonos one could
see in Japan. It was a joy for the eyes. The men generally
wore drab kimonos of subdued, grey shades. The women of
Japan are as graceful as the embodiments of perfect flowers,
complete in form and vagrance. How pitiful that nowadays
so many of them had adopted Western Fashion which deprives
them of their culturotif heritage and unique, oriental beauty.
A middle-aged Japanese couple sat down beside us and
in a kindly manner talked to us in fairly good English.
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When we told them that we were evacuees from Shanghai,
they exhibited great concern. They had read in their
newspaper about the Gneisenau's rescue mission. Before
we parted they invited us to tea for the following after=«
noon. In fact, they promised to show us the ancient tea
ceremony since we appeared to be very interested in Japan^
ese customs. We eagerly and gratefully accepted. They lived
somewhere outside of Kobe and would pick us up at the
boat and take us back in time before the Gneisenau would
be leaving the following evening.
Thus it happened that we were the only passengers
on the Gneisenau to be invited into a typical Japanese
home which so far we only had seen in movies. It was an
experience we still deeply cherish. Of course, we shed
our shoes before entering the beautiful, delicately
fragile house and walked in our stockinged feet on the
soft tatami mats. There are no more gracious hosts than
the Japanese (an inexplicable contrast to the brutalized
Japanese soldiers of the second world war). Our friends,
if we may call them so, although we never saw them again,
explained to us the many thousand years old tea ceremony
while they served us. The ceremony in honor of a special
guest is called "cha-no-yu".
We were politely asked to wait in an outer room, called
his/
the "Yoritsuki". Our host, who had picked us up in •/ small
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automobile, wished to change from his Western-style suit
into a kimono. When he re-appeared, he officially welcomed
us by bowing to us with his hands on his knees, addressing
us as Berges-San and Berges-Oksan. Then, sliding back a
gossamery-paper panel, a shoji, he led us into the largest,
sparsely furnished, spotlessly clean room of the house
where we were to drink tea with him and his wife. In the
center on a tatami mat stood a low table with a soft
cushion on each of its four sides. Next to one cushion
was placed the Shichirin, a dainty charcoal burner, re»
presenting the "winds of the pines", on which in a por=
celain kettle water was boiling. At one comer of the
room we saw the traditional tokonoma niche with scroll
paintings, a vase with flowers and the butsudan, the
family altar.
The lady of the house, dressed in a more colorful,
but still simple kimono, formally greeted us in the same
manner as her husband had done in the Yoritsuki. We bowed
baclcand then sat down cross-legged (a very strenuous exer*
cize for foreigners) on the cushions. The hostess served
us in the traditional manner of the ancient tea ceremony.
Into each of the four handleless cups she put three tea-
spoon^ full of green, powdered tea, then poured hot water
over it, twirled the tea with a bamboo whisk, which al-
m
ost looked like a shaving brush, until the tea was frothy.
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The bubbles of the froth represented the "evanescence of
life", reminding us that life was nothing but a fading
experience. At last with a rythmical, gracious gesture
she turned each bowl around twice and then presented it
to us. We were told also to turn the bowl around twice
and then slowly enjoy drinking the brew with audibly
sucking noise.
During the afternoon as guests of these two kind,
extra-ordinarily cultured people we experienced a few
hours of true inner peace as we had not known for many
years and would not know for many years to come. Like
us they abhorred war and were ashamed of their power-
hungry, military leaders (as we were of ours in Nazi-
Germany) , who - as they said - in their lust for conquest
fed like maggots on decaying human minds. The exception,
they said, was their revered Emperor Hirohito who was the
gentlest of men, but did not have any political power. He
was a symbol of godliness, far removed from the realities
of common life. CXir conversation turned to thoughts, not
bounded by our different nationalities or the chasm between
Occident and Orient. We were simply four human beings of
the same mind, but caught up in a whirlpool which none of
us could control. We agreed that moral, ethical and politic^"
al issues have been and are being again and again arti£>fc^-=.
ally reduced by a minority of irrational, shouting, but
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not listening extremists to fundamentally primitive con-
cepts which deny any ideological principles to the con-
trary.
It is my belief that when strange people meet for a
short time it happens for a higher purpose. Our meeting
seemed to prove that active minds, although they had been
formed in basically diverse upbringing and cultures, are
able to bridge the gap if rationality and the will for
neighborly kind-heartedness prevail. There was between
us a convergence of ideas which had an ever-lasting ben=
eficial effect on us and we tend to think on them as well.
Sadly enough, though, too many people do not activate their
minds and instead let them float on the shallow surface
of existence. They are willing to follow any Pied Piper,
any demagogue, any evangelist and quack as long as they
are not compelled to think for themselves.
In these few hours of a single afternoon the four of
us were friends, true friends, although we had not met be«
fore and in all probability would never meet again. It was
beautiful and the memory has lingered on all over the years
When we parted, this kind Japanese couple warmly addressed
me as Berges Kum, meaning our good friend. Therein lies
a deep tragedy. If only ordinary people and not heads of
states in summit meetings could converse with ordinary
people of other nations and cultures, we all could and
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would be good friends and neighbors. The Hitlers, the
Stallns, the Mao tse-Tungs, the Kosygens, the Tojos, the
Nassers, the George Wallaces, the Fulbrights, McGoverns,
the Joe and Eugene McCarthys, the De Gaulles and Francos
would have no chance to rule our thinking. We would be
liberated from the yoke of prejudicial extremism. Fascism,
Communism, Racism would be words without meaning.
But there we were again aboard the Nazi ship Gneise=
nau, leaving Kobe on a journey into the unknown as far as
we were concerned. This one afternoon was just a short,
although unforgettable interlude which could not change
our destiny. We still were exiles, unprotected 4y any
laws, at t^^e mercy of powers from which we could not
escape. Again like in the Siberian Express we were travel-
of/
ing without any knowledge/what we could expect. Chjr mis =
so/
givings, our apprehensions were real and/were our con=
stantly gnawing doubts if we shouldn't have stayed in
Shanghai instead of trusting the promise that we would
be landed in Manila. There is as little honor
among
political fanatics as there is among any other criminals.
And so we could not enjoy our sea voyage on a luxury
liner. We were not molested either by word or deed, and
yet we could feel the silent antagonism against us, al»
though we might have imagined it more than it was factual.
We avoided getting acquainted with any of the other passen-
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gers and none made an effort to get acquainted with us.
We existed - at least in our minds - in a kind of vacuum.
Our faces were masks. Our smiles were artificial. Young
people nowadays complain about insecurity without knowing
what it is. We've lived with tangible as well as legal
Insecurity during the years we were people without a
country. That is, perhaps, why we so much more appreciate
the security of American citizenship than most native-born
Americans. It is the greatest gift. God has granted us.
(Sorry, Mr. K. , wherever you are.)
That night, when the Gneisenau sailed
away from Kobe to Hong Kong, Annie and I took stock of
our status. When we left Germany we had been worse off,
for we had not known what ^ife in exile would be. In
these last two years we had learned more than we realized.
We had learned to hold our own, no matter what and despite
that/
the fact/5nce more we were on German territory. It was
an odd and anomalic situation in which we found ourselves.
We had also learned to speak, read and write English fairly
well. Both of us made up our minds that one day we would
go and live in the United States, come hell or high water.
We had not the faintest idea how to accomplish it, but we
were determined. And that was all that counted.
Timothy complained that he was prone to sea-sickness.
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Even with the ocean as calm as it was, he didn't feel too
we
II. If he wanted to, he could transport himself to Manila
without suffering a long sea voyage. He could wait for us
there if we promised not to get ourselves into any trouble.
I promised him that we would jump overboard if he dared
to leave us alone for a minute. We were In dangerous terri^
tory and who could tell what might happen to us without
him.^ I could not anticipate how right I was. Something
happened that could be called a near-catastrophe, although
it had nothing to do with Nazism.
As
I turned around in bed and tried to sleep I began
to reminisce. All right, we were determined to immigrate
to America. I remembered that many years ago, and before
I had met Annie, I almost did so. If I had, Annie and I
wou
Id not have found each other. However, truthfully it
was in the book that we did.
I had been in my early twenties and Germany was a
bleak country during the post-war years. There was much
hunger, mass-unemployment and an unbelievable inflation.
I had studied American history and government, and I
thought the time had come to find out for myself what
America was like. My mother had a cousin living in New
York. She wrote to him and he invited me to come over
and try America for a spell. If I like it, I could stay
and apply for citizenship. On the other hand I always
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could return to the old country. He was not a rich man,
but he could afford to give me room and board. Please,
don't worry! Nothing came of it! A few weeks prior to
my departure the good man passed away, and I stayed on
in Germany. Well, that's the way it was in life, I thought,
before falling asleep that night. All one actually needed
was faith in God, and we had that, both Annie and I, and
since this faith had carried us so far, it would carry
us further. Many do not believe it, but God's will be
done. Always. Whatever we are - Americans, Germans, British,
French or you name it - even exiles - whether you*ve faith
or not - none of us ever ceases to be a citizen in the
Kingdom of God.
The odds are that very few tourists, even
if they travel to the Orient more than once, have ever
typhoon/
met with a/tyKpan or will ever meet with one. If they do,
the odds are even longer that they will meet with the kind
of typhoon we ran into. It seemed that everything happened
to us, but to make such a claim is blasphemy. Our tribu=
lations, our pains and anguish as well as our happiness
are bestowed on us by God who always has His reasons which
sometimes we learn to understand and more often not. There
cannot be an argument about it.
Generally typhoons rage in the Far East between May
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and November. Allegedly, though, they are always dls-
atrously violent when they blow In August and September.
It was August when we steamed from Kobe to Hong Kong
as/
and, as I said, the ocean was/peaceful and bluish-green as
a benevolent mountain lake. One reaches the actual Hong
Kong harbor after passing through the so-called Junk Bay
and then through a sort of canal. We arrived early in the
morning and docked opposite Hong Kong at one of Kowloon's
piers. All the docks for passenger liners and large
freighters are situated at Kowloon on the mainland side
of the mountain-ringed harbor which with/ its many emerald-
green islands appears to be more of an inland lake than
a sea port, teeming with dirty-grey Chinese junks, little
white sampans and scurrying ferry boats. Several naval
ships lay at anchor in the middle of the harbor.
From the city of Kowloon on the Kowloon Peninsula,
a mile across the harbor, the sight of the twenty-nine
square miles island of Hong Kong (translated: Place of
Sweet Lagoons) and Victoria City is just fabulous. No
other adjective will do. At night Hong Kong, rising up
on a mountainous hill, the Peak, glitters like a star-
studded fairy land.
From Hong Kong the view upon Kowloon (anglicized
Cantonese for "Nine Dragons") is something else. KowJ.oon's
range of hil^s, whose highest point at over three thousand
feet is Taimo Shan, actually resembles a row of dragons.
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While Victoria on the island of Hong Kong is the business
center of the British colony, Kowloon is the industrial
complex with Nathan Road world-famous for its shops. We
almost spent our last dollar there and bought a black,
dragon-embroidered silk robe for me at a bargain price
we couldn't resist. I still have it and like a good luck
charm I always take it along each time I've to go to the
hospital which in the last fifteen years has happened more
often than I like to count.
From April to October the sun is all prevailing in
Hong Kong. The humid heat is devastating, worse even than
in Shanghai. As the SS Gneisenau made fast at one of the
piers, we saw a number of other passnger liners at pier
after pier. There were among others the Italian "Conte
Verdi", the British "Korfu", the Japanese "Asama Maru"
and the Dutch "Van Heuszten". A great number of freighters
were unloading their goods, destined for Shanghai, which
had been declared out of bounds. Aside from Rio de Janeiro
and Sydney - Hong Kong is being considered the finest and
safest harbor in the world as long as there is no typhoon
hitting it. Then it changes into hell's cauldron.
During breakfast we were warned that there was a
cholera epidemic prevalent in Hong Kong and that we should
not eat or drink anything and anywhere but in foreign
restaurants or hotels which, of course, Annie and I could
not afford. Moreover, we were advised to be back on board
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before six In the afternoon. There was a typhhon warning
for the night and all big liners would leave Hong Kong
harbor before nightfall.
We didn't think much of it. A typhoon, after all,
had little meaning to us. But one had to live through
one to learn better. The Gneisenau with a number of
other big ships steamed out of the harbor for the dur-
ation of the storm because it always got caught there
like in a funnel with the deathly result of a giant-
sized, furious whirlpool, the power of which cannot be
/^
imagined, unless one afterwards witnesses the destruction
t had/
caused.
Timothy, although he was gloomy and kind of obstreper-
ous, had no choice but to accompany us to the other side
of the harbor and Hong Kong proper. As much as we were
tempted, we didn't take the cable car to ride up to the
top of the eighteen hundred three feet high Peak from
t
where on clear days one allegedly could see the Poruguese
island of Macao, some forty miles to the West. In fact,
when we did take the ride two days later, we couldn't
on the other side of the Peak/
even see the outlines of that far-away island, but/we
Ba^^/
caught a glimpse of Repulse/riHi
Hong Kong's fashionable, all year-round resort
place. At it was, we could do little, being down to
three dollars cash. For an hour or two we walked through
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Hong Kong's narrow streets, inhaling the same pungent
smells we remembered from Shanghai. Then as now Hong Kong
seethed with people. We pressed through the bustling crowds
and did some window shopping if one can call it that. Chinese
shops had open fronts and no windows. Sometimes it wasn't
easy to withstand/ the temptation to buy curios, although
we were used to them from Nantao and Yates Road in Shang-
hai. Buying curios seems to be a compulsive affliction
of all travelers and more often than not one just acquires
worthless/
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junk. But Hong Kong, being a free port, was and
supposedly still is a bargain delight for shoppers, hanker-
ing for mementos as for instance Chinese hand-woven rugs,
Swatow embroideries, delicate ivory carvings or jade
jewelry.
Although we were wearing our tropical outfits (Uhich
was almost all we had in way of clothing aside from our
professional evening wear), we were drenched as soon as
had/
we/sCarted on our first tour of Hong Kong. The climate was
worse than in Shanghai. Luckily we didn't know that Manila
would even beat that. One never gets used to the absolute
heat and almost one hundred percent humidity in the tropics
After two years of Shanghai we still couldn't take it too
well. Besides, the alleged cholera epidemic, of which we
couldn't detect a sign, scared us somewhat. We perspired
profusely, but we didn't dare to buy something to drink
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anywhere. We returned to the safety of the Gnetscnau long
before the deadline of six p.m., changed into dry clothes
after taking showers and then watched the preparations for
the expected typhoon. All windows and port holes were her-
metically sealed. The hatches were closed and rope hand-
lines were rigged everywhere. All during the afternoon one
ship after the other left the harbor - with the exception
of the Dutch "Van Heuszten" which went to anchor in the
center of the harbor alongside the naval vessels.
We left the pier shortly after six and steamed slowly
through the narrow channel to Junk Bay where quite a way
out from the shore line the Gneisenau waited with her
engines idling for the storm to break. Innocent
as we
were, none of us passengers were prepared for the cata=
strophic intensity of a typhoon, and this one turned out
to be a lulu. Other passenger! liners and freighters had
gone to anchor all over Jun/T Bay. Only the Gneisenau did
not let her anchors down. We wondered why not, but the
steady hum of the idling engines somehow gave us a feeling
of confidence. Timothy, however, was in a state of alarm.
In all his years as a guardian angel he never had faced
any danger of this sort. He was a landlubber and water
scared him more than anything else. He prayed for guidance.
Gradually the blue sky turned into an ominous grey
and darkness set in with frightening suddenness. Within
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a minute day Changed into night, total night without stars
and without a moon. A light, drizzly rain beg^i to fall
which in another hour turned into If slashing, pouring
water sheds. The Gneisenau seemed to be alone in all the
world which had been lost to the eye. Darkness obliterated
everything. Winds began blowing, churning the sea around us.
Yet, strangely enough, we were not perturbed. The big nine=»
teen thousand ton ship was to us an island of security.
We had lived through some sort of a storm on the
little Japanese steamer between Dairen and Tsingtao. We
could not imagine that that one was children's play in
comparison to the one we were headed into now. Our ship
began to sway and swing as the ferocity of the storm in-
creased. Nonetheless, we sat down for a belated dinner
and ate with good appetite.
The heat of Hong Kong and the many miles we had walked
through her streets had tired us out. So we turned in quite
early in the evening and fell quickly asleep although the
boat began heavily to roll. Sjveral hours later the loud
clanging of the ship's bells woke us up. I had the sen=»
sational feeling that I was lying upside down or something
of the sort. And then again I was not. In quick succession
the ship listed deeply to starboard, came up again and then
did the same to the port side. In between it heaved fore
11;
and aft. It felt like being on a merry-go-round,^
jinxed into beinft/
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totally wild and out of control. It was so absurd that we
forgot to be scared or get seasick. Outs ide/^r cabin it
sounded as if people were running back and forth, bumping
against walls and doors. Despite the roaring noise of the
storm, we could hear excitedly yelling voices. Then I
heard some one groaning and moaning within our cabin. 1
called to Annie, but she hollered back that she didn't
groan or moan although she felt like it. We tried to get
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out of bed. It afforded a major/aH» because if we didn't
hold on to something we were thrown around as if we were
foot balls. I managed to turn the light on. Holy mackerel,
the cabin was a mess. Everything was strewn about and
rolling all. 'over the floor. Trying to reach for something
was a gamble. The very moment we thought we had it, it
slithered away and then came back like in a magic game.
It wasn't easy to get halfway dressed, but somehow we
managed to get some clothes on. although we were bruised
in the process. I still heard the groaning and moaning
and it went on ray nerves. At an opportune moment I suc=
ceeded in grabbing our briefcase which contained all our
papers and documents as well as the manuscript of my book.
I held on to it as if my life depended on it. Someone was
knocking hard at our door. We heard our room steward's
voice calling out for us to get up and dressed, then put
on our life belts and proceed to the diningroom. What in
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the name of the devil was the matter with him. Did he per-
haps imagine anyone could have stayed asleep in this may-
hem? And what about the life belts? Ever since we had left
Kobe we had had only one life belt drill. For the heck of
it we couldn't remember how to fasten that unyieldy thing.
In front or back? It was aiyimpossible task anyway in the
turmoil when standing or sitting at one spot was an aero-
bat's feat. Annie and I helped each other the best we could
while one of us was holding on to somthing immobile. When
the next morning we inspected each other, our bodies re-
sembled raised maps, blue and green colored and with more
bruises and bumps we could count.
Still the groaning and moaning had not stopped. It
turned out to come from Timothy who at last managed to
complain that he was terribly seasick and that this was
worse than hell could ever have been.
God in heaven, who ever would have thought that a
guardian angel could get sea sick? I bawled him out that
he ought to be ashamed of himself. It didn't do any good.
He continued groaning and moaning, and I was glad that
after reaching the diningroom nobody but I could hear him.
I reminded him that Annie and I depended on him if the
wo
rst came to the worst. He had to fish us out of the
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drink. That was his god-given duty. In fact, he better
beware and do something that the whole ship didn't go
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under. "The whole ship?" he groaned. "You must be crazy I
Do you think I'm the only guardian angel on board? I'll
look out for you two and that's all."
The first sound-film we had seen came to my mind.
Maybe you remember or heard of it. No, not the one with
Al Jolson and his black face. It was "Atlantis", the story
of the Titanic catastrophe. But that hadn't been a typhoon
ed/
Only a big iceberg. I wonder/ if in our case women and
children would also be given first seats in li/^ boats.
I wondered how the passengers and crew would act when
it came to sinking? I wondered what Annie would do. I
knew her stubbornness. She never would go with the women
and children while I had to stay on the sinking ship. How
about Timothy, seasick as he was, could he take care of
both of us? And how about the other guardian angels? There
were always people whC? perished in a disaster. Did they
or didn't they have guardian angels or was their time
actually up? Too many questions were /racing through my
mindwhile we were tossed from one side of the cabin to
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the other. At last Annie and I were ready to leave the
imaginary safety of our room.
The trip to the diningroom was a major expedition. I
had taken ray briefcase along, determined not to let go of
it. The Gneisenau was listing more and more heavily to
all four sides, bow and stern, port and starboard. The
big ocean liner was but a toy with the crest of the waves
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crashing over her. We were not riding out the storm. The
storm was riding us out. I don't know how hight the highest
point of the Gneisenau was, but each wave/reached higher
and broke with a thunderous noise that made the ship
shudder and our ear drums hurt. The storro was howling.
and I mean howling.
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It seemed as if /took me an eternity to pull the door
open. The very moment I succeeded we saw a body gliding
past us on the floor of the gangway. It was eerie because
not a sound emanated from it. The next moment the same
body came gliding back as the ship heaved to the other
side. It disappeared at the far end around a comer. We
were
thrown to the floor the very instant we let go of
the door. Somehow we managed to scramble up again. Tim-
othy was gi^aning into my ear, and I told him to shut up.
I still held on to my briefcase with one hand and the
other to Annie. More passengers were coming out of their
cabins. Many of them were only partly dressed. They had
their life belts fastened any odd way. Only the next
morning it occurred to us how funny we looked, but then
it was easy to joke about it. Amidst the cacophonous fury
of the storm we heard the wailing 6f children. Somewhere
a/
a woman screamed in/high pitch. We were again holding on
to our cabin door, afraid to let go. When we did, we felt
as if we were sliding down a chute and the next moment
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were confronted with a high wall. We were thrown from one
side to the other of the narrow gangway and began to ache
all over. I couldn't tell how long It took us, but we fin-
ally reached the diningroom or rather were shot into it
like bullets from a canon. We climbed onto two empty chairs
which like all diningroom furniture had been screwed to
the floor. We sat down, totally exhausted. I got worried
because I didn't hear a sound from Timothy and wondered
where he might be. Clinging to the chairs and the table
in front of us, we threw glances to the high windows. Waves
of water mountains obscured any view. In between we heard
and felt the heavy engines throbbing in a futile scorn
against the elements.
Suddenly we were jarred as if an earthquake had hit
had/
us. Many of us were thrown to the floor and/to pull our-
selves up to our chairs again. A minute later we heard
the pumps working in a furious rythm.
I wasn't the only fool who clung to a brief- or attache
case, containing whatever we considered our most valuable
po
ssessions. In fact, there wasn't a single exception. Dc
spite all the mayhem and excitement everyone had taken the
same p>i,rcaution - if one could call it that. None of us
had gotten the message that it wouldn't have made any
difference whether our valuables went down with us or in
our cabins in case the Gneisenau sank. Not a single life
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boat could have been launched with waves as high as mountains.
Not one of us could have succeeded in swimming ashore, a
distance of at least three miles, and holding a case to
boot. But there we were, not letting go of our small cases,
sitting like ghosts and looking like bulky monsters with
our life belts.
Then and there we were all equals. Gentiles and Jews,
rich and poor. We were all fragile human beings in the
hands of God. We were brothers and sisters whose lives
depended on the whims of a nature which was 'running amok.
Nobody uttered a sound. Nobody showed any signs of
seasickness although our faces had the greenish taint that
preceded what the French so aptly call: Mai de mer. During
any other normal storm our stomachs would have been pushed
into our throats. However, our minds were frozen to a stupor
which prevented the brain to give the order: Get seasick.
Even the children kept quiet, clinging to their parents
as if they had the power to save them.
The storm, raging above and around us, was far more
than a mere nightmare. It was a super-chimerical orgie of
total evil. It was hell incorporated. CXir senses dulled to
this outrage beyond our human capacity of understanding. It
was death without dying. The ship heaved heavier and heavier
The miracle was that she always straightened out again and
not keeled over. Wave followed wave, crashing over and down
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on us. Each one could spell the end. But we weren't
any
more able to comprehend. We sat like lifeless figures in
a wax museum. The pumps were working feverishly, and so
were the engines. None of all this reached our conscious
mind. We were beyond fear, the most human of all emotions.
This was a typhoon to end all typhoons. How true it was.
When all was over, we learned that in the last fifty years
no other typhoon of this magnitude had ever hit the China
Sea and Hong Kong in particular. With the winds exceed!
a velocity of one hundred twenty-five miles an hour no
instruments were able to measure the full extent of the
ng
impact.
Eons of time went by during these night hours. Eons
and eons. We didn't believe our eyes when the diningro
ora
door was pulled open and quickly closed again. The captain
of the Gneisenau paid us a visit in all this upheaval. He
had taken time out from his super-human duties to keep the
ship afloat. We all turned our heads toward him. What was
he bringing us - a message of doom or hope? Streams of
water were running down from his black rain coat. His
wet face was drawn and very serious. He remained standing
near the door like a bulwark against the elements which
were threatening us. With his legs apart he took the heav='
ing and swaying as if he were mounted to the floor.
"Ladies and gentlemen," he loudly and steadfas tedly
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addressed us with a forced smile on his weather-beaten
face, "please, give me your attention for a few minutes.
I came to tell you personally that we have the situation
well in hand. This ship can withstand any storm, and so
showill. However, you must have felt the jarring collision
some time ago. It so happened that a rudderless freighter
rammed us aft and tore a hole into our portside. Our pumps
are strong enough to take care of the inrushing water. We f|
have it under control and with God's help will keep it
that way. For the last three hours we're steaming full
power ahead against the storm without gaining a yard,
but v4^hout losing one either."
At this point I heard Timothy sigh into my ear, "Amen".
The captain went out again and we felt a little more
confident after his little speech although we didn't know,
of course, whether he had told the truth or not in order
to appease us. It didn't really matter. As he had said, we
were in God's hands, and I made sure that Timothy stood
close by.
"Are you still seasick?" I whispered to him.
"Mind your own business," he rebuked me. I guessed,
he was ashamed of himself.
We remained seated in the diningroom for endless hours.
No one conversed with the other. We just sat, holding on
to the tables and our briefcases. In the small hours of the
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rooming the storm abated somewhat. Heavy rains were still
pouring down, but the waves grew smaller and didn't any
longer smash over the big ship, but Just rolled on the
gangways outside. The pumps never stopped working faith-
fully. Gradually the ship steadied herself in the still
churning waters. We had the feeling as if we were steam*
ing ahead now. The chief steward made an appearance, ad=
vising us that the worst was over and we could undo our
life belts. Somehow the cooks had managed to brew coffee
and prepare sandwiches. It seemed impossible that we were
able to eat and drink, but we did. After all, we were
among the living again. The danger had passed, and Ti=*
mothy had the nerve to tell me that he and his comrades
had sent some direct communication to their superiors on
our behalf. It had been they who had saved the ship. I
found it beneath my contempt to give him an answer. I
knew he had no direct pipeline to God.
The winds died down and the Gneisenau with her pumps
working was actually steaming toward the small channel which
led to Hong Kong Harbor. The sky was still grey and a misty
less/
rain filled the air. The water, though, was/flBfl agitated.
However, as the weather cleared, the heat and humidity re»
turned worse than before. Despite the loss of sleep, we were
still too much keyed up to go down and rest. The scenes of
destruction we passed were often beyond belief. The power
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of nature, or the wrath of God if you like to call It that,
was demonstrated to us. While we had forgotten to be fright-
ened during the storm, we were shaken by the sights we saw.
A big freighter, perhaps the one which had rammed us, had
been driven onto the rocky shores and now was slowly glid-
ing back, sinking helplessly beneath the water. She was
damaged beyond repair, and the crew had abandoned her. We
passed the beautiful, white Italian passenger liner, the
Conte Verdi. She had run aground on a shoal below the
water line. Although she listed slightly to starboard,
she didn't seem to be in immediate danger. Later in the
day tugboats succeeded inpulling her out and tow her back
to Hong Kong. As we slowly sailed through the narrow channel
and from there into Hong Kong harbor the picture of de-
struction grew more and more awesome. The Asama Maru was
sort of hanging between rocks near the shore of an island.
The anchor chains of the Van Heuszten had snapped as if
they had been made of thin rope. The ship had careened
all over the harbor toward the west-end where she finally
was heaved ashore up the hilly side of Green Island. A
Chinese freighter, the "Eng Lee"^ was lying high and dry
ashore the waterfront of Hong Kong. The British India boat
"Tilawa" was aground off Devil's Peak. Another Chinese
freighter was edged into a pier like a knife into a loaf
of bread. Only the German naval vessel "The Duisburg" was
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apparently unharmed and afloat In the middle of the
harbor.
Hong Kong was a shambles of mud and debris. We made
fast at the same pier as the day before and were informed
that we would have to stay In Hong Kong until the hole
in the portside aft had been repaired, meaning at least
another four or five days. Being housed and fed aboard,
we didn' t mind.
After all these years I still have preserved the
evening paper of that day, the "Hong Kong Daily News",
which under a large lettered headline: "TRAIN OF DEATH
AND DiSOLATION" reported: "Hong Kong's million inhabitants
entered upon a terrifying experience the like of which has
rarely been witnessed anywhere in the world. So great was
the velocity of the wind that even the instruments of the
Observatory gave up the count when the 125 miles per hour
record had been reached and passed. Death and destruction
followed in the train of the typhoon. Mighty ships were
piled up along the foreshore. How many of Hong Kong's
literally floating population have perished in the storm
is not, and probably never will be, known."
This had been our first typhoon. Several months later
I was almost killed by our secbnd one.
Hong Kong as well as Kowloon was then as
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it is more so now the center of international intrigue
and a haven for spies, none of whom to my regret we met
personally. Whenever we now see Hong Kong on the TV screen,
we are reminded of the unbearable, humid heat and the many
strange smells, strange at least to our Western noses.
Screen pictures are deceiving because they convey only
what your eyes can see and your ears can hear. There is
much more to the Orient. Even guided tours don't make it
possible^for you to comprehend the chasm between abject
poverty of the masses and the extreme wealth of the few.
We play war games at the cost of billions of dollars, we
conquer outer space and the moon at the cost of more
billions of dollars - and when I say we I don't mean
only these United States, but also Russia and Red China -
but when it comes to feeding the hungry in the world we
fail. We are made to believe that we cannot afford it.
We send help in cases of natural catastrophes, but we
never make an all-out, controlled attempt to feed, house
and educate a^ the poor in all the world all the time.
Our compassion is only sporadic and haphazard and if an
organization like Unicef also tries to donate food to
starving children in Communist countries we object, for=«
getting that all children are innocent of the sins of
their fathers. Forgive me, but I cannot help wondering
sometimes what kind of "superior" animals we human beings
are.
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We did some more sightseeing, but without money it
wasn't much fun. and we were only too glad when the time
of departure came. Hong Kong might be an interesting, al=*
though as far as the Far East is concerned not very fascin=»
ating place to visit for a few days, but it certainly did
not raise any desire in us to stay there for any length
of time. In comparison to Shanghai, when she still was
Shanghai, Hong Kong was as dull as most British colonies
so often are. Wherever the English go and take possession
they bring along a certain hypocritical puritanism and
class conscience which affords comfort only to them, but
not to the natives or anyone else. We wouldn't have cared
to live there, but to be frank we neither cared much to
live in Manila although it was a paradise in comparison
to many other cities in the Orient.
The journey from Hong Kong to Manila was uneventful.
No stonns, not even inclement weather of any kind. Of
course, Annie and I couldn't shed our apprehension whether
or not the Germans would let us land in Manila. It seemed
almost incomprehensible that the Gestapo agent on board -
and there was one although we didn't know his identity -
would not seize the opportunity to abduct me at least,
having been publicly denounced as an enemy of the state.
I never had been or even was then an enemy of Germany,
only an enemy of the Nazis whom I did not then and do
not now consider Germans. Gangsters have no nationality.
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For many years prior tof the Nazi-regime and even
after that event I never had^raade a secret about my
convictions. I had been a front-soldier in the firsuworld
war. Germany had been the home of my family for close to
five hundred years. So I had a right to speak my mind. In
my weekly newspaper column as well as in many articles
and speeches I had advertised my opposition to Nazism
as well as to Communism which then as now I considered
and consider evil to the same degree. I neither had been
complacent nor apathetic like the majority of German Jews.
Annie and I had been lucky to escape in time, and it would
be short of a miracle if we would get away with traveling
on a German ship that flew the swastika flag.
During the days between Hong Kong and Manila we two
discussed ways and means how to escape in case either I
alone or we both would be detained when the Gneisenau
docked in Manila. I'm sure, none of our plans would have
worked unless they would let Annie go and hold only me.
Annie would have alerted the Filipino and American au-
thorities although it was doubtful if they would have
intervened since I wasy^stateless person.
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ashore as we had been promised. We had been - as we were
told - guests of the German Reich, Nazis or not, and despite
ou
r request to be allowed paying for the trip from our
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blocked bank account in Germany, the voyage was free of
charge. Whoever will be able to understand the hum«in mind
- even the minds of organized criminals?
Well, nothing happened between Hong Kong and Manila
until the very moment we set foot on the famous Pier Five
in Manila.
CHAPTER SKVEN
MANILA AND ILOILO^P.l
Friedrich von Schlegel, writer,
philosopher, founder and editor of the influential German
periodical "Athenaeum" at the turn of the 18th century,
wrote: "Der Historiker ist ein rueckwaerts gekehrter
Prophet". - The historian is a prophet looking backwards.
Although I'm anything but a historian, 1 now realize
that I am evaluating all past events with some sort of
clairvoyance in reverse. At the time when any of these
events happened I was not consciously observant of my
inner thoughts, but they tucked themselves away in a
corner of my brain and emerge when 1 try to dig them out,
in order to organize them into written words.
As I said, we Jewish refugees on the Gneisenau had
been all apprehensive whether or not we would be let
ashore in Manila. We also wondered how we would be wcl=«
corned. As Nina Feodrova wrote in her book "The Children",
"Whatever people say, no country is very eager to welcome
refugees." In fact, most countries are less eager to receive
Jewish refugees, for anti-Semitism is a world-wide disease.
There is nothing more diabolical than anti-Semitism, or
for that matter any form of race prejudice. There is
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nothing so utterly and finally hostile to the spirit of
Jesus Christ than an anti-Semite. If a Christian is anti-
Semitic he denies Christianity, for without Judaism Chris=
tianity would and could not have come into existence and
without the Jewish carpenter Yeshua of Nazareth Saul of
Tarsus could not have traveled abroad to convert the
Gentiles to the teachings of this Jesus, who was the son
of God as we all are children of God. A Christian anti-
Semite is a defiler of Christianity, and yet through the
two milleniums the followers of the devout Jew Jesus and
ff
h^ Jewish apostles have never ceased to defame the Jews
and on many occasions have killed them with a lust for
blood, unequal in the annals of crime. But all the
enemies
of the Jews, the known and unknown ones, have learned what
Franz Hoellering wrote in his book "The Defenders": '
We
Jews have a surer method of getting even with our enemies;
we simply survive them."
Yes, we survived them all. We have survived the Nazi
mass-murderers of the Jews and so will the nation of Israel
survive despite all the irrational hatred by their Arab
neighbors. At the outset of the Communist regime in Russia
many of us did hope that at last there would be one new
nation, free of prejudices. We erred grossly. Prejudice,
that is anti-Semitism as well as racism against the black
people, is more rampant in present-day Russia and other
Communist countries as for instance Poland than anywhere
else in the world.
A.M. Rosenthal and Arthur Gelb in their book "One More
Victim" tell an anecdote which better than any other words
explain the basic veracity of Jewish philosophy. "What is
the Torah, a pagan demanded of the sage Hillel and challenged
him to tell him its essence in the short time the pagan
could hold out standing on one foot. Hillel said, 'What
is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor. This is
the entire Torah, consisting of sixty-three volumes includ-
ing the Talmud. The rest is commentary thereon
And that, too, is the essence of Christianity. Love
thy neighbor. But do we?
I remember that I was thinking of the curse of anti-
Semitism as we were landed in Manila although there was no
special reason for it, or perhaps no other but that we had
been traveling on a ship of a government which had dedicated
itself to the destruction of the Jews. I was not consciously
aware of these thoughts although I won't ever forget how
deeply we breathed in relief as we walked down the gang-
plank and stepped on Pier Five in Manila. With the ex-
ception of the two of us all other non-American e\^icuees
had only been granted temporary visas for the Phillipine
Islands by the American Consulate General in Shanghai.
They were all supposed and expected to return to Shanghai
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whenever conditions were norraal again there. Neither Annie
nor I - for reasons I'll explain later - had to worry about
it. Besides, we had learned the hard way to live for one day
only and let the next take care of itself. In short, we had
recognized the futility of worrying about anything. My
mother had been a professional worrier. She worried most
when she had nothing to worry about. The way she figured
it, there must be something wrong somewhere if life didn't
put any obstacles in her way.
Everything went all right at our arrival in Manila.
We weren't retained on the Gneisenau and were welcomed
by a Jewish Relief Committee. Everything went all right
except for one thing. Mother Nature stole the scene again.
The very second we set foot on land the ground under us
began to heave, to buckle and make like unruly waves on
sea. We experienced our first earthquake. Thus we entered
Manila in dramatic fashion - from the war in Shanghai
through the typhoon in Hong Kong to t^e earthquake in
Manila. We still had the sway of ^he ocean in us and
now the swaying on land was added to it. We didn't know
whether we were coming or going. The few seconds this
earthquake lasted seemed to be like many minutes. Look-
ing toward the city we saw the wall of a high-rise building
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Wl
crack from top to bottom. For a moment we wondered if the
pier would be torn apart and we would be sucked into the
water. We had survived the war in Shanghai, the typhoon
in Hong Kong, but for a few scary seconds we weren't so
sure about the earthquake. Mother Nature is very fickle
and somehow she didn't stop showing off for us. War,
typhoon, earhquake - what would be next? And while the
ground trembled and buckled under us I held on to Annie
and Timothy held onto me. "What is it?" Annie asked, dumb-
founded. She read the full answer in the evening newspapers
which claimed that this one had been Manila's worst earth-
quake. We could have well done without it.
There were reporters and press photographers on the
pier because like in Kobe we were the first Shanghai
evacuees. We were news, but the interference by the
earthquake put us on page four. A picture of mine landed
in the Manila Herald with the caption that I had been the
well-known manager of the famous Casanova Ballroom in
Shanghai. It was good advertisement which led me to a
job in Manila. With my picture three others appeared on
the same page. One was of "Cohn Corell", noted German
accordion player, the same one who had played sad melodies
on the rickety launch which took us to the Gneisenau. Then
there was one of Andre Shelaff, Russian welter-weight
r
boxer, who was going to win the Philippine cham^onship
and later went to America, there to be killed in his
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first fight. The fourth picture was that of Shelaff's
trainer anj manager, H. Sellg, whom we once again met
In California. What happened to hlra after Shelaff's
untimely death we never learned.
However, unlike our arrival In Shanghai, there was a
Jewish Reception Coiiinlttee to greet us and take care of
us because none of us had any means to pay even for a
single meal, leave alone lodging. There was one couple,
though, with plenty of means, but they neither did nor
could reveal It then. We certainly were received by hlgh-
falutlng speeches and very klnd-soundlng words and finally
were taken to Hellmann's Boardlnghouse for temporary
shelter. Very temporary, Indeed.
Although - as 1 have repeatedly mentioned -
this book Is not meant to be a tourist guide In any form,
way or Intention whatsoever, 1 cannot help myself but quote
from "The Encyclopedia of World Travel" (published in 1961
by Doubleday and Company) for the sole purpose of giving
you a general Idea about Manila. However, like aJ2y tourist
guide-book it doesn't convey the real atmosphere and way
of life of any place on the globe. Sometimes, though, it
Is far better to read a guide-book than participating In
a guided tour. It Is much less strenuous. Neither one
leaves you with the right Impressions and you may not
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remember where was what and what was which.
"Manila," so It stands written In this book, "combines
much of the best of Spain and America."
at the time/
That may be so, but/MHI we were there* we would have
said that it
combined the worst of Spain and ATJwrica.
"The wide, green boulevard following the gorgeous curve
of Manila Bay,'' so it also stands written in this book,
"once named Admiral Dewey Boulevard, now is known as
Roxas Boulevard. Manila is located at the west coast of
Luzon, the major Island of the Philippine chain and faces
out on Manila Bay, one of the largest harbors in the world.
Manila Is sprawling on both sides of the Pasig River. Modem
Manila is a traveler's dream."
Again I have no choice but to say that it may be so,
although to us Manila was anything but a dream. Just the
opposite. It was close to a nightmare for the sixteen
months we had to live there - if only for the hellish
tropical climate of which not a word is being mentioned
In the encyclopedia. There was for us only one day we
cherished In Manila and that was the day of our departure.
We have no hard feelings against Manila, but we wouldn't
like to see it ever again. The Filipino expression of
greeting is "Mabuhay" - Long Life. From as far a distance
away as we are now. we do wish Manila and the Philippine
Islands a happy Mabuhay - a long life without us.
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^Janlla without a doubt can be called a red-hot mamma.
With the exception of perhaps Calcutta no climate could be
worse. She used to be a city walled out Instead of walled
in. Tourists nowadays are deprived, so we heard, of visit-
ing the old and most beautiful part of Manila, the walled-
in center "Intramuras" . It was burned out during the last
war. Luckily Manila Bay and the gorgeous sunsets with the
backdrop of B^aan Peninsula were immune to the ravages
of war.
The climate In Manila is so humid and unbearably hot
all year around that one had to change the tropical, white
cotton suits six times a day together with one's underwear.
after/
The very moment/«i having changed Into a dry suit and dry
underwear one was already drenched again with sweat. Nothing
is mentioned about that In the tourist guide books and
nothing about the many churches and the many snakes. Manila
is like a trombone which never had been tuned right. Crime
was rampant while we were there. In fact, no one In his
right ralnd ever dared to walk alone and unarmed In the
streets after darkness set In. Of course, nowadays It
is a feature of almost all major cities In the world.
As kidnaping was a sport in Shanghai, so purse snatching
was a game for children In Manila. After the first
kids could run faster than Olympic champions. Once they
had captured a purse, It was Impossible to catch up with
un'
successful attempt by an urchin to wrestle Annie's hand-
them.
The guide books don't mention another feature and
that Is prickly heat. No one, foreigner and native alike,
ever can escape this most unpleasant skin rash. The natives
believed - and I think rightly so - that rain water had a
healing quality for prickly heat. Many a time we saw §
whole families, naked as they were born, run out Into
the street when it rained to get all the benefit
iBBB flliof the unpolluted water.
Tourists nowadays, I guess, don't have to worry any*
more about to be hit by a falling coconut on Dewey or, as
It Is called now, Roxas Boulevard. During the war the Japan'
ese used the wide, beautiful Dewey Boulevard as an airstrip
razed/
and just/BHmB ^^^ ^^^ coconut palm trees which lined
the curb like Immovable soldiers on guard. While we were
there, we always were cautious not to be bombed by a fall-
ing coconut. It could knock you out or at least leave you
with a painful lump on the head.
It Is a great pity that the tourist guide books don't
describe the most beautiful sight In Manila, perhaps one
of the most beautiful sights In all the world, the dally
sunset which lasts for ten minutes from six to ten past
bag from her, she learned to beware all the time. The
se
six each afternoon. Within these few minutes day changes
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into dark night. Generally during these ten minutes a
refreshingly cool breeze blew and surely still does over
the boulevard, the only breeze one could expect and of
hour/
course still can expect in the twenty- four /period of the
day. These ten minutes as the sun set over Manila Bay and
across from It the Bataan Peninsula, which turned Into a
black silhouette as the sun rays disappeared and the
moon rose, were forever a thrill and never lost an awed
><<- of/
feeing /wonder about this magnificent spectacle, nature
produced with unfailing regularity - unless it was rain*
ing or one of the frequent typhoons was hitting the Island.
During these ten minutes the sky exhibited all the colors
and color-shade combinations one could imagine - from deep
blue to pastel green to purple and violet and red and pink
and finally Into a spectrum of all these color hues until
It was dark all of a sudden. Soon little, phosphorus lights
like fireflies were dancing on the water surface.
The Jewish Relief Committee had collected
some twelve thousand pesos (or six thousand American
dollars) for helping us over the first few days. When
this small amount of money was spent we were on our own.
The Idea was that the thirty to forty Jewish couples had to
go back to Shanghai anyway whenever the hostilities there
ceased. Somehow contr^y to my inspirations I became a kind
of ambassador for the Shanghai Jewish refugees. It was
no official position. I just slid Into It. All communi-
cations from Shanghai were sent to me, mostly cablegrams,
all of which clearly Insinuated that we weren't wanted
back In Shanghai while the Manila Jewish Community did
not want us to stay for any length of time. We were, so
to speak, sitting between two chairs without being Invited
to occupy one. To give an example, one of the Shanghai
telegrams read: "Strongly discourage evacuees returning
Shanghai now. Life danger still existent. Earning possl»
bllitles hopeless. Inform Manila Society Aid funds."
That was all good and right, but the earning possi-
bilities In Manila were also almost non-existent. l-Zhat
do we say? Peace on earth, good will toward men. Paz en
la tierra, buena voluntad hacla los hombres. Are these
words In whatever language empty of true meaning? It seems
so, for men speak with false tongues, or there would be
no
wars and so little good will toward men. What Is the matter
with humanity that It hasn't grown up -to maturity? We always
destro>fwhat we have built. Why?
When I was lying once In a Los Angeles hospital many
years later, there was an old senile man who had forgotten
all the words of our language but four which he used as the
only means of communication. "Son-of-a-bltch," he said. "Son-
of-a-bltch" and nothing else. How pitifully primitive we
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human beings are when our minds have deteriorated. "Son-
of-a-bltch" for "Thank you" and for "Please" and for what'
ever he wanted. And this poor "Son-of-a-bitch" seemed to
be very happy. He always smiled at anyone who helped him
or talked to him.
In Manila our determination to immigrate to
America jelled to a point where it became a fixed idea. The
basic question, though. was, how could we achieve it? All we
knew was that we simply had to.flHHBM^ The United
States of America appeared to us like a mirage on the
horizon to which we were drawn like thirsty desert travelers
to the mirage of an oasis. Our principal fear was whether
or not we would make it before it was too late. Native
Americans don't know how difficult it is to immigrate to
their country. There are many barriers to surmount. I had
little doubt that one day in the near future the Japanese
would attack and conquer the Philippine Islands which to
them would be the central base from where to conquer all
of East Asia. We had no desire to be caught in this holo=
caust when it would come to pass. We had had a taste of it
in Shanghai and that had been sufficient.
It became an obsession with us that Manila was definitely
not the place to stay for any length of time. It didn't offer
probably was our fault that we did not grow as fond of
the Filipinos as we did of the Chinese. The climate In
Shanghai had little to be recommended. The climate in
Manila had nothing to recommend. It was and naturally
still is absurd all year around. Although we could gener-
ally get along with our newly acquired English, we were
handicapped nonetheless by not speaking Spanish, not to
mention Tagalog, the principal native language. Allegedly
the Philippines consist of a thousand islands. Whoever
are/
counted them may well be right. There/KBxe certainly
more dialects than ants in a sugar bowl. To name only
the few I heard about beside Tagalog, there is the Boco«
lano, the Cebuano, the Ibang and Moro-Sulu dialects. This
scramble of dialects came really home to me when I had
to travel with a Filipino interpreter from Manila to
Iloilo.
Despite our unflagging ambition to go to America, we
did not engage in irrational expectations. We knew that
the streets in America weren't gold-plated. We knew that
we wouldn't be welcomed like long lost friends. We knew
that we would have to work hard there for our livelihood
and maybe harder. But to us America was the land of the
free and of the brave where we could stake out a claim
we/
for life. There and only there would/be granted the op-
us the kind of acceptable refuge like Shanghai. Thus It
portunlty to rise above ourselves. If we didn't^it would
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be nobody's fault but our own.
While we were in Shanghai - and despite our apparent
chances to prosper there - I had written a letter to Presi-
dent Roosevelt, appealing to him for aid in our desire to
be granted immigration visas. A day prior to the Japanese
Invasion the American Consul General wrote to me: "Your
letter, addressed to the President of the United States,
relative to your desire to proceed to the United States
with your wife for residence has been referred to this
office for reply. Please, call at the Passport office of
this Consulate General at your convenience in order that
appropriate considerations may be given your inquiry."
I never learned how much cons^<ierations might have
been given my inquiry, for when I called at the rassport
Department the war had already broken out. There was, of
course, much confusion since all Anierican women and children
had to be evacuated from Shanghai. Notwithstanding, when
1 presented the letter at this office of the Consulate
we were treated with the utmost courtesy and instead of
two alone/
t temporary vis,-\^we/ were granted ■ permanent onc4 for the
Philippine Islands which were under the mandate of the
United States €it that time. That was the first step toward
our final goal. The second step I took a year later in
Manila.
Annie had come through aU c^"-' dangers,
the vicissitudes and hardships like a real trooper. When
the bombs fell on Shanghai, when the anti-aircraft bullets
and artillery shells rained from the sky, she kept at my
side like a clinging vine. If we had to die, she maintained,
it was better that we died together and at the same time,
we belonged to each other in life and in death. That was
and still is the theme of our married life.
The typhoon, the earthquake and whatever else happened
to us, she bore without «■ a whimper, including the loss
of our home, belongings and careers. It is not in her
character to wear her emotions on the outside. She had
the steadfastness and hardiness the pioneer women had
displayed in their long treks all across the big country
that was and is America. At no time was she a burden. On
the contrary, she was an asset, worth her weight in gold.
Our love for each other has always remained unassailable
I cannot tell how other people see her. but to me she is
__^ a man can have the
the most Wdl'wonaeriui wunutu ,— :
, rrr^it she is an innocent. She cannot
fortune to havej AL Ucarc, sue
tell a lie (although she fibs about her age and probably
„ai do so until the day she dies), and she feels person^
ally insulted by injustice, even if it doesn't concern her
She has intelligence, she has con^on sense (much more so
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than I because 1 easily fly off the handle and am by
nature quite impatient), and she has an enviable en-
durance to accept without complaint the physical ailments
and handicaps which beset us as age creeps up on us. God
has been very good to us by bringing us together. Despite
all hardships our marriage has always been sheer bliss.
However, during the first years of our exile and
until we became American citizens I did not realize how
much she really suffered. Never outwardly losing her even
temper, she locked her emotions up like valuables in a
safety deposit box from where she did not let them escape
unless she willed so. As it was, she never did.
Not then and not later when more hardship befell us.
But even a locked box will eventually crack open when
it is being filled to more than its capacity. If she only
had let BHf go of her emotions and frustrations once in a
while by a good cry or an outburst of any kind, she would
have been better of. She could not and would not open the
safety valve which any engine needs to function properly.
I was different. I could show my anger, my frustrations
and my scorn. I could let go with an explosive temper
tantram and then felt so much better for it afterwards.
But not Annie. She remained silent and even-tempered on
the outside. If she had not bottled up her feelings, she
would not have ended up with a malignant high blood pressure
which caused and still causes her much suffering. In fact,
together with arthritis it finally incapacitates her to
a great extent
Today I am not so sure anymore why we did
not like Manila as much as Shanghai. Perhaps it was our
dejection for having to start all over again without know-
ing where to begin. We weren't as green anymore as when we
came to Shanghai, but we were as poor and we had to fight
our disappointment that all our efforts and hopes in Shang-
hai had come to naught. We had fought hard to acclimatize
ourselves in Shanghai, to work oui^^elves into positions
which gave us a reasonable outlook on a good future liv-
ing. We had made new friends there and now we were up=
rooted again.
After we had been installed at Hellmann's Boardings
house for a limited timey the newly formed refugee com-
mittee seemed to stop functioning. None of its members
showed any interest in finding work for us. None of them
ever invited anyone of us into their homes and unlike in
Shanghai we were not induced into making friends among
the Jews in Manila. We had a feeling that we were regarded
beneath their personal attention.
Although we had gotten used to the ways of the Far
East. Manila was not Shanghai. She did not have the inter-
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our eve
national flavor and adventurous spirit which had made it
possible for us to rise to positions of some kind of pro-
minence in a relatively short time. Seemingly, there were
no or very few jobs available for us in Manila. Again
had/
we were without funds. We/nothing to wear, not counting
but/
ning outf its, /iBBI what we had worn on our flight
from Shanghai, that was one suit and one dress, one pair
of §3oes each and some underwear. This posed quite a
calamity in Manila's all year round tropical, humid heat.
One had to have at least a change of wearing apparel sever-
al times a day. Even then one had to order new tropical
outfits each month since Filipino laundresses ruined them
by beating the wash against stones.
The first night in Manila I had another serious talk
with Timothy, although he was in as foul a mood as I was.
Bemoaning as usual his fate of having been assigned to me
of all the people in the world, he also bitterly complained
that he was sick and tired of traveling all over the world
under circumstances which certainly were anything but ideal
By nature he liked to be settled in one place and stay
there. That had been the way he had lived and that was
the way he expected me to live. He cared a hoot of earthly
politics. He cared a hoot about how I felt. That all was
my business and not his, and he would ask his superior
for a transfer, although he knew quite well that transfers
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were granted only on rare occasions. He considered this
a rare case of maltreatment of a guardian angel. I never
found out about this transfer request, but the fact is
that he is still with me.
"I wish you were dead already," he told me that first
night in Manila. "It's not so bad to be dead," he added
for comfort.
"Boy, am 1 lucky that the time of my departure is not
determined by you," was my rejoinder.
"You can say that again." He sighed and then con=»
tinued in as grim a tone of voice as a guardian angel
could possibly produce, "I'm going to tell you a secret
although I'm not supposed to. But I'm deeply troubled
about the length of time I've got to stick it out with
you. Your first date to die is at your age of sixty-eight.
I don't know how I ever will be able to stand it for so
many more years.
M
I remained silent for a few minutes. Who, after all,
wants to know the future? That is the trouble with human
justice and capital punishment that a condemned person
is being told at exactly what time he is going to be
executed. It reverses justice to injustice.
"1 wish, you hadn't told me." I protested. "Are you
sure it has to be when I'm sixty-eight years old?"
"No. There's always a possibility for a reprieve
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for some reason or another. With ray luck they let you
live to be a hundred."
"Who wants to live to be a hundred?"
"You. All human beings want to live to be a hundred."
"How old were you when you died?"
"Not a hundred, so much I can tell you. Otherwise
mind you own business, please."
After another few minutes of thinking I decided to
appease him. "We won't stay here for very long, I hope."
"More traveling?" he groaned.
"One of these days we'll be going to America."
"I wonder how you'll manage that?"
II T I
I 11 find a way, don't worry. Once we are in America,
we'll be staying there until the end of my life."
"Hallelujah!" he exclaimed. "At least, America is
supposed to be a civilized country."
"So was Shanghai and so is Manila," I remarked.
"Maybe, but I don't like it here."
llTT^ I
We ve been here for less than twenty- four hours and
you dare to judge that you don't like it."
"Neither do you like it," he accused me.
n
That doesn't matter. We'll do our best here and then
go to America."
"And you'll stay there in one place?"
Timothy was and is a professional groaner. "Yes, I
can see it. America is big, and you can travel there for
years without seeing it all. You're the kind of bum never
to settle down in one place."
"Maybe one of these days I'll surprise you and stay
put .
II
"That will be the day," he kind of sneered. "When
will you go to America?"
"In a year or two, I guess. It all takes time.
M
"A year or two," he groaned again. "Even guardian
angels can melt away, and this heat is certainly inducive
to melting."
"What's the matter with you? Don't start acting
like a living being."
"What do you think I am? Dead? Nobody ever dies. The
body dies, but not the spirit. And the spirit has some
feelings, too,"
"Sure - like getting seasick or melting away in the
heat. Is that it?"
"I hope, you'll be a guardian angel one of these days
We don't enjoy all the privileges other angels do. We're
on probation and that can last a very long time. Hundreds
and hundreds of years. Promotions aren't easy to come by
these days. If it weren't for the population explosion in
"Who can tell?"
hell, I never would have made it to heaven. I was a border
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case. Sorry - but that's the truth."
I yawned to show him that I wasn't Interested in his
troubles. I had enough of my own. But he didn't care. He
was bent on telling me what was going on in heaven and hell
"The descending order of angels is very strict," he
continued. "The highest order are the Seraphim§ , the only
angels with six wings. Very few ever get so far and then
only after many thousands of years. I haven't got the
slightest chance, that's for sure. The Seraphlms together
with the Cherub ims attend to God personally."
"How does God look?"
"How am I supposed to know? God, we're taught, is a
spirit and He is everything, but not what you and I think.
Forget about that long beard and all that rigmarole. Men
are too presumptious to imagine God look^like they do.
Anyway, one class lower than the Seraphims and Churubims
are the arch-angels who are the administrators. They're
the bosses over all the lower class angels."
"You must be kidding," I said, although I wished he
would stop already. I was getting very tired.
?••
"Why?
"I thought, there are no classes in heaven.
t»
"What's the matter with you?" he told me off angrily
"Do you think we're Communists up there?"
He had me on this point. Yet, I had a hard time to
"Next to the arch-angels are the regular angels. They
are divided in three classes. The angels first class take
care of all the clerical chores. The angels second class
are the keepers of the souls on earthly loan and some of
them are members of the Heavenly Choir. The angels third
class are our group supervisors. We guardian angels take
our orders and assignments from them and report to them
every once so often."
I was about to doze off.
"You haven't heard a word I said," he reproached me.
"I've heard every precious word of yours, but all I'm
interested in that you do your duty and protect Annie and
me .
II
"Before you fall asleep, you better listen about
what I can do and can't do for you, so that at last we
understand each other. 1 can't protect you from getting
sick or sometimes have an accident. All I'm charged with
is to keep you alive until your day comes. It's all in the
books. You see, being a guardian angel isn't exactly a bed
of roses, but it's still better than being in hell."
"And that's where I hope you'll go if you ever fall
Annie and me."
"Protecting your wife is a personal favor and not part
of my duty."
"It better be, or you can go to hell right now," I
suppress a yawn
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warned him. "Besides, stop gabbing, please. 1 want to go
to sleep."
He was deeply offended. "If I had already been awarded
a pair of wings and a halo, you wouldn't dare to talk to
me
like this," he complained. "All right, go to sleep. I hope,
you'll have a very bad dream."
That ended our conversation. I don't remember, though,
whether or not I had a bad dream. I don't think so because
whenever I ' ve a nightmare I moan and groan audibly and
Annie mercifully wakes me up. She didn't that night.
It is my opinion that each human being has
a built-in radar system, tuned to the rest of the world.
R^retfully, only few of us ever listen to it. I've con-
ditioned/myself to keep tuned in at all times, and I be-
lieve that I've greatly benefited by it.
The first morning in Manila after breakfast I had a
talk with Annie. There was little doubt in my mind that
my radar system was sending me a warning, and I was de-
termined to heed it. It told me that Manila could be a
trap for us and that we should leave before it was t
oo
late. Of course, I couldn't tell when it was "too late".
Listening some more, I came/to the conclusion that we had
at most two years. I was proved right and wrong. We would
have had almost four years, if we had waited so long. Four
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years after we came to the Philippine Islands the Japanese
attacked and conquered them.
Annie had learned to trust my premonitions, but others,
with whom 1 dcscussed the same problem, thought I was un*
duly alarmed. The Japanese wouldn't dare to attack the
Philippine Islands because they wouldn't be so stupid as
to challenge the mighty United States. It was the same all
over again. When I warned the Jews in Germany that Hitler
would come to power, they didn't believe me. So they stayed
in Germany and paid with their lives, and so they stayed
in Manila and got either killed in the holocaust or let
themselves be incarcerated at the University of Santo
Tomas where they existed under the most inhuman conditions.
Anyway, I told Annie what I thought would happen. She
accepted my judginent about the political situation, but
when I told her that we had to start planning immediately
how to get out of Manila and emigrate to the United States,
she quite logically asked me: "How and with what?"
know/
I shrugged my shoulders. "I don' t/how and with what,"
I told her. "All I know is that we've got to get out of
here somehow and with what will solve itself. It always
does. When the need for financing comes, God will stand by."
Annie's faith in God was and still is monumental. None™
theless, she had the common sense never to lose sight of
the practical part of a problem. She tried to act as a
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Imaj^lnatlon/
brake to my/fmMBHHR^hlch 6ften ran wild. Yet, If I
had always let her common sense persuade me, we wouldn't
have survived as we did. At time common sense can be a
trap.
"We won't get anywhere without God's help," she con-
ceded, "but I don't see what we can do to deserve His help.
Whom do we know in America and how Qan we finance getting
there?"
"That's exactly the point," I agreed. "We'll have to
think until we've a plan to act upon."
"In the meantime," she reminded me, "we've got to
find jobs."
She was right, of course. It was our first order of
business. That very same morning I visited the editorial
office of the Manila Herald, the paper which had featured
my picture. It paid off. Some one there told me that the
Great Eastern Hotel had an opening for a foreign manager.
that/
Well, I advised them, that/was my cup of tea. With my ex»
perience it should be a cinch to land the job. Experience?
I could have written a book about what I did not know in
regard to hotel management. But neither had I known any*
thing about managing a ballroom and nightclub in Shanghai.
The Great Eastern Hotel was the second largest hotel
in Manila. It was nine stories high and claimed to be the
tallest building in town. It seemed so anyway. Like the
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•
Casanova in Shanghai it was Chinese-owned. Well, I pre-
sented my credentials which included a letter of recommen-
dation by Mr. M. , our agent friend in Shanghai. The long
and short of it was that I was engaged as manager of the
hotel diningroom, ballroom and roofgarden. In fact, I had
to sign a contract which was as contradictory in its con-
tents as the hallelujah promisesbf a politician running
for office. According to this contract I had full authority
in the way I would manage the part of the hotel, assigned
to me, but at the same time I wasn't allowed to make any
decision without first obtaining the okay of the general
manager who was the Number-One Son of the white-bearded,
eighty year old patriarch of the family owned enterprises.
In an old-fashioned Chinese family the children obeyed
their fatherf without an argument. The old man was a miser-
able dictator and everybody lived in fear of him,'
ilA I have a special prejudice against all dictators, small
or big, as well as for bosses who underpay their help. My
salary was nothing to boast about, but I was in no position
to bargain, for any salary was better than none.
The Great Eastern Hotel was one of a chain of companies,
owned and operated by Ng Tip & Sons. From way back the fami-
ly were importers and distributors of groceries and pro-
visions. Beside The Great Eastern Hotel they operated a
bakery, a grocery store, an| import and export firm as well
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a&the New Washington Hotel and Restaurant In Bagulo/ (liter-
ally translated: Typhoon), a mountain resort some two
hours distant from Manila. It has a pleasant, cool climate.
A head-huntlnR trlbc^/
/the Igorots (Mountain Dwellers) , live in these hills and
while we were in Manila they allegedly attacked a bus
and all its passengers including the driver were found
minus their heads. After the war we heard that the Igorots
had the time of their lives during the Japanese occupation.
Some underground organization paid them a price for each
Japanese head they delivered and apparently they delivered
a great number of them. In fact, they never had it so good
before or after the war. Head-hunting has gone out of fashion
in the PJilippines.
All the Ng Tip & Sons estalp^ishments were geared to
thin^i American. When the American East-Asia Fleet harbored
in Manila for four months each year, the Great Eastern
Hotel served the sailors huge T-bone steaks with a heap
of French fried potatoes for two pesos or one American
dollar. I never managed to eat one in one sitting, but
some of the sailors consumed two or even three at one meal.
The meat was of first-class quality and if there was a bar-
gain, this was it.
I had to work from eleven- thirty in the morning until
the diningroom was closed after midnight. Occasionally I
could go home for a couple of hours in the afternoon. It
was a job which gave me face but not enough dough/to live
on for the two of us.
Of course, in the meantime Annie also had gone Job-
hunting. A week later she got herself hired into the "Tro-
cadero", a small nightclub reputed to be very exclusive.
It was owned and operated by a former Australian actress.
By some fortunate happenstance an already advertised,
so-called Viennese female dancer had failed to arrive
in Manila and Annie was engaged as her substitute. She
was advertised as "Anna from Vienna", well-known as the
nightingale of "The Blue Danube" in Shanghai. Singing
as before in three languages she was an instant success.
Luckily for her no patron from Vienna ever showed up.
If that would have happened, Annie would have been in
trouble. She had never been in Vienna. Natives of Vienna
are a unique brand of people who never cease to believe
that their city is not only the artistic and culinary
center of Europe, but of the world. It is true, in gener-
al Viennese are very charming, but they shouldn't feel
sorry for anyone who hasn't been bom there. Annie as
^^
"Anna from Vienna" was ska,ing on thin ice which fortunate-
ly held firm. Not once was she unmasked as a fake Viennese,
After all, being at least as charming as any Viennese girl
could be, she was above suspicion. Besides, any girl from
the river Rhine (as Annie was) is as gay, as vivacious and
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as attractive as girls from the Blue Danube.
The days prior to her first appearance she was an-
nounced In large newspaper ads:
"COME AND HEAR THE HEW ARTIST
ANNA FROM VIENNA
AT THE TROCADERO.
Cabaret starts at 11 p.m."
We had been smart to have packed into our two suit=
cases almost exclusively our evening outfits, but work=
ing again we had constantly to replenish them and that
included custom jewelry for Annie. We had to buy daily
wearing apparel month by month. The price of a tailored
tropical suit was ten pesos or five American dollars.
Nothing could survive long in the tropical climate. Both
our salaries combined just allowed us to exist, but no
more. At that we had to budget ourselves and any luxuries
were out.
We moved away from Hellmann's Boardinghouse after a
week's stay. The Jewish Refuggee Committee ran out of money
and disintegrated quickly. We rented a room with a Filipino
family in a nice street of the residential district, not
far from Dewey Boulevard. Like many houses in Manila it
had no glass windows and no air conditioning. In case it
rained (and it could rain harder in Manila than anywhere
else) there were wooden shutters we could close, but didn't
iis
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do much good during a typhoon. One couldn't close the
shutters during rainless days or nights if one didn't
want to suffocate or sweat to death. Thus open to the
outside myriads of bugs, bats, vampires had free entrance
when we turned the light on in the evening.
It happened a few weeks after we had moved into our
room on the second floor above the house entrance, fac=
ing the peaceful, residential street. I had come home
at about one o'clock in the morning. Our pet gecko
(scientifically known under the name: Gecco Fascicularts) ,
a small lizzard, who very happily lived with us and con*
suraed as many small insects as he could digest, had wel-
corned me joyfully by smacking his tongue in a way that
9 sounded like "geek, gecl, geek" and running back and
forth on the ceiling, all^excited, for he had adopted
Annie and me as his personal friends. We liked him, too.
Anyone who consumed insects was very welcome to us. I
felt weary and exhausted after twelve hours of work. Com-
ing out of the cool, air-conditioned diningroom of the
Great Eastern Hotel the humid night heat had hit me like
a sledge-hammer blow on the head. As usual and since it
wasn't raining the so-called window in our room was open.
There wasn't a whiff of a breeze. I undressed to the al-
together, pushed all my clothing into the laundry back
and wished there was a cold shower available. Instead I
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had to be satisfied with tepid water from the wash basin
faucet. I had emptied my pockets and put my gold wrist
watch, a present from my brother-in-law in Sweden after
our arrival in Manila, and my wallet with some twenty
dollars and whatever loose cash I had on the table in
front of the open window. The rent for the room was cheap,
but so were the few pieces of furniture, a double bed in
the center of the room, a dresser and stool for Annie,
two chairs and the table - that was all. A wardrobe for
our use was outside in the hall. Naked as I was, I crept
under the mosquito net which made the humid heat even
more unpleasant. It's unbelievable how much a body can
perspire. The sweat soaked through the mattress and each
morning there was a puddle of water under the bed. It
sounds exaggerated, but you better believe it. Annie
came home around three. I heard the taxi stop in front
of the house.
"I'm pooped," was all she said when she came in. I
grunted in response and that was the entire conversation
we had. Anything more was too strenuous for us. She follow
ed my example and stripped. No nightgown, no pajama. If we
could have done so, we also would have shed our skin. The
gecko had welcomed her in the same joyful manner, but
quieted down after Annie had slipped under the mosquito
net. We fell into an exhausted sleep.
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I had a bad dream. Some intruder had climbed into our
window and was stealing my wallet and watch. Some dream,
indeedl If it hadn't been for the gecko, gabbing excitedly,
I might not even have waked up. But there he was, a shadowy
i
figure crouching in the fram/'of the open window - the cat
burglar of my dream. I jumped up, got entangled in the
godforsaken mosquito net and before I reached the window
the burglar was gone. I just could see him jumping to the
ground down below and start running. I grabbed a heavy
metal ashtray and threw it after him, missing him of
course. Gone was my gold watch and wallet.
"What's the matter?" Annie asked from the bed.
I told her and she groaned. She might as well because
she had a fool for a husband who deposited all he owned
on a table in front of an open window just for the tak-
ing. The newspapers reported cat burglaries every day.
So - I should have known better. Funny, one always learns
only when it is too late, or as the Germans say: "Wenn
das Kind in den Brunnen gef alien ist." kf-tex the child
fell into the well. We both put on robes, alarmed the
house, called the police. They promised to send a man
without delay which meant after two hours. And then he
could do nothing, but tell me to come to police head-
quarters in the morning and sign a complaint. No use to
look for fingerprints. Cat burglars always wore gloves.
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The next night a cat burglar ransacked the house of the
police cotnml^loner. Neither he nor I got any of the stolen
goods back. Cat burglary was much in vogue in Manila.
Of course, Annie and I didn't get to see much of each
other. The situation was very similar to the one in Shang-
hai. If we had not fully trusted in our mutual fai^ful"
ness and loyalty, we might easily have drifted apart. But
neither she nor I had any grounds for jealousy despite
the temptations to which we were exposed in our profession**
al lives. Annie in particular had a hard time to keep the
wplves at bay.
In Manila she had to cope with one man who seriously
and persistently proposed marriage to her several times
a week. He could not be dissuaded. Known to be very wealthy,
he promised Annie heaven on earth. She would live like a
queen if she only had the good sense to accept him. When
she as persistently rejected him and finally let him know
that she was happily married, he wasn't deterred either.
He offered to pay me off with any amount of money I would
demand. We weren't even tempted. We had no reason for a
divorce, and we didn't believe in divorces anyway. We two
belonged together. Nothing could shake this conviction.
We really stood the test, more so than most other couples.
And in regard to living like a queen - the rich man, his
girlfriend and servants were killed in the war by an aerial
bomb which hit his mansion dead-center.
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My advice, for all it is worth, is: Don't
rely too mucljon what travel guide books will tell you. I
read in one that the best time to visit the Philippines
is in the cool season from November to February. While
we were there, we didn't experience any cool season. All
of the Philippine Islands with a few exception^ like Baguio
are a vast, miserable, unwelcome steambath from January
to December. Both of us have always been allergic to steam-
baths and have never entered one voluntarily. Yet, there
is a rainy season and a typhoon season between July and
October in the islands. When it rains, it pours, and when
the typhoons hit, they do so with terrifying force. Neither
rain nor typhoon relieve the humidity. If at all possible,
they increase it.
We two, as much as we tried, were unable to acclimatize
To make matters worse for Annie, she lived in constant fear
of snakes. There is quite a variety of these reptiles even
in Manila. Most of them ar^on-poisonous, although to meet
a fat and large python snake - as we did once in front of
the General Pos toff ice, a marvelous building, endowed with
Dorian columns - is not entirely a pleasant experience un-
less one happens to be a herpetologist. Annie, otherwise
not given to phobias, has a particular one for snakes. I
can't even talk to her about snakes before going to bed.
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or she'll have snake nightmares. She won't look at snakes
in zoos and if she had been Eve in the Garden of Eden, the
snake would ndver have persuaded her to cat the fruit from
the forbiddden Tree of Knowledge. Who knows how different
the legendary history of mankind would have developed if
Eve had been as Tfiuch afraid of snakes as Annie. We might
still live in paradise.
We heard so many snake stories, whether true or false
we never could ascertain, that it became Annie's undoing
one evening. The American Red Cross on a specially charter'
ed ship had managed to get all the baggage, we evacuees
had to leave behind, out of Shanghai. None of us had
thought we would see any of our belongings again. There
was no charge for this extra-ordinary service. We had
placed our large, metal steamer trunk with our winter*
wear, including Annie's fur coat, at the foot end of the
bed in the center of our room.
As on all evenings Annie made up her face before
leaving for work at the Tr^cadero (or "The Little Club",
as it had been re-named). She was sitting on the stool in
front of the dresser, wearing nothing but her panties and
light./
bra. Attracted by the electric/ bats and vampires were
circling with flapping wings just below the ceiling, JHf
All sorts of weird insects had in-
vaded the room as they did each evening, unless it was
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raining and we had to close the shutters. Our pet, the
gecko, chattered and fed on the smaller insects. None of
it disturbed Annie, having gotten used to it, until she
felt something slimy slither across her naked feet. That
did it! Her brain became paralyzed. Without any other thought
she jumped up and ran toward the door. She didn't get far.
She was dumb and blind. A snake was a snake was a snake.
She ran smack into our steamer trunk, which had arrived
the day before, and fell over it head on. When she came
to, her face was bleeding and her upper lip was split.
Her mouth was swollen to a size, of which even an ape
would have been ashamed. The worst of it was that there
hadn't been a snake, only some kind of creeping insect
missed/
with innumerable, spidery feet. Naturally, she/flMBBMBII
9 go^ to work. Unable to move her lips, she couldn t make
herself understood. It was useless to go downstairs to
the telephone and call me at the hotel. For a few days
she communicated with me by writing everything down. In
fact, she had left a note on the table, illogically tell-
ing me :: "Manila, I hate it."
When I came home after midnight, she was lying on the
bed under the mosquito net with a wet towel over her lower
part of the face. When she removed it to show me the damage,
I almost laughed. She looked grotesque. I had never seen
anything like it. If I had been around, she wouldn't have
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blindly as/
panicked as/she had. Alone, she couldn't be trusted. Snakes
were too much for her, even if there were no snakes. The
was to/
idea sufficed. All we could doysee a doctor flA in the
morning. He prescribed a coal-black ointment which made
her look more ferocious and didn't do any good. Finally,
I remembered that my mother, who believed more in home
' remedies than prescription medication, had always used
camomile tea for healing wounds. I bought some, boiled
it, folded the thick, hot brew into a handkerchief, so
that the juice soaked through, and put it over Annie's
mouth. We repeated this procedure every hour by the hour
for a day and a night and the swelling receded. Vithin
twenty-four hours she looked almost normal again. A
remaining scar gradually disappeared. Yet, she couldn't
go back to work for a week until her mouth was flexible
enough to enable her to sing again. She almost lost her
job on account of it. Her lady boss was a very impatient
person who had no compassion whatsoever for any employee
who managed to injure herself. Of course, /^nnie didn't
get paid for that week, a loss we hardly could afford.
To this day Annie hasn't lost her fear of snakes.
We're living in a mountain area and have some snakes
around. Now and then also a fat rattle snake. But since
we two don't separate anymore, she feels secure. She can't
imagine that any snake would harm her as long as I'm around
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It may sound funny, but that's the way she is.
I hate to admit it, but the longer we
stayed in Manila the less we liked it. Even now it's
hard to explain why that was so except for the devastate
Ing climate. Somehow we were more conscious of being home"
less exiles than we had been in Shanghai. We didn't succeed
in making friends although like anywhere in the world there
were a lot of kindly people. After the stimulating city
of Shanghai, Manila was a let-down.
The deepest trouble was that we were in a bind and
felt it more so than in Shanghai. Unlike other foreigners
we couldn't just pack up and go home if we were dissatisfied
with our jobs, our work or the way of life. We had no home
to which we could return. This idea more than anything else
plagued us, consciously and subconsciously. We were pain"
fully aware of our status of exiles. If we lost our jobs
and didn't succeed in finding new ones, we could starve
to death without anybody give a damn about it. If a natural
or man-made catastrophe fell on the city or the country, M
where could we go? What other country would accept us? We
had no valid passports anymore. The uneasy feeling, that
we were at the mercy of events we couldn't meet head-on,
never left us. We had been lucky to have been evacuated
from Shanghai, but would we be as fortunate a second time
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blindly as/
panicked as /she had. Alone, she couldn't be trusted. Snakes
were too much for her, even if there were no snakes. The
was to/
Idea sufficed. All we could do /see a doctor flA in the
morning. He prescribed a coal-black ointment which made
her look more ferocious and didn't do any good. Finally,
I remembered that my mother, who believed more In home
' remedies than prescription medication, had always used
camomile tea for healing wounds. I bought some, boiled
It, folded the thick, hot brew Into a handkerchief, so
that the juice soaked through, and put it over Annie's
mouth. We repeated this procedure every hour by the hour
for a day and a night and the swelling receded. Within
twenty- four hours she looked almost normal again. A
remaining scar gradually disappeared. Yet, she couldn't
go back to work for a week until her mouth was flexible
enough to enable her to sing again. She almost lost her
job on account of it. Her lady boss was a very Impatient
person who had no compassion whatsoever for any employee
who managed to Injure herself. Of course, Atinie didn't
get paid for that week, a loss we hardly could afford.
To this day Annie hasn't lost her fear of snakes.
We're living In a mountain area and have some snakes
around. Now and then also a fat rattle snake. But since
we two don't separate anymore, she feels secure. She can't
imagine that any snake would harm her as long as I'm around.
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It may sound funny, but that's the way she Is.
I hate to admit it, but the longer we
stayed in Manila the less we liked it. Even now it's
hard to explain why that was so except for the devastat*
Ing climate. Somehow we were more conscious of being home-
less exiles than we had been in Shanghai. We didn't succeed
In making friends although like anywhere in the world there
were a lot of kindly people. After the stimulating city
of Shanghai, Manila was a let-down.
The deepest trouble was that we were In a bind and
felt it more so than in Shanghai. Unlike other foreigners
we couldn't just pack up and go home if we were dissatisfied
with our jobs, our work or the way of life. We had no home
to which we could return. This idea more than anything else
plagued us, consciously and subconsciously. We were pain*
fully aware of our status of exiles. If we lost our jobs
and didn't succeed In finding new ones, we could starve
to death without anybody give a damn about It. If a natural
or man-made catastrophe fell on the city or the country, M
where could we go? What other country would accept us? We
had no valid passports anymore. The uneasy feeling, that
we were at the mercy of events we couldn't meet head-on,
never left us. We had been lucky to have been evacuated
from Shanghai, but would we be as fortunate a second time
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in case the Japanese would attack and Invade Manila and
the Philippines as I was convinced they would sooner or
later. The Insecurity of our existence as persons with-
out a country grew harder and harder to take. All which
sustained us was our never falling faith In God. He had
not let us down once. That, Indeed, Is the real truth In
life: Faith. Although we don't have any personal quarrel
with organized religions (philosophically we're Inclined
against them), we don't believe that we could have found
true faith In temples, churches or synagogues where wor=*
ship Is substituted for faith which cannot be conjured up
by dogmas and rituals. Faith should not be entombed in
man-made buildings and cannot be anchored in the worship
of God on Sundays and a few religious holidays. Worship,
Indeed, creates the assumption that God is an arrogant
dictator. Faith is strength which flows from God to you
and from you to God without interference by a so-called
clergy. Faith is our private shrine of happiness without
which one would vegetate in misery.
If nowadays we hear young people complain about their
Insecurity, we only can wonder. They have a land, a nation,
to which they belong. They are protected by the laws of
their land and also, of course, punished by these laws if
they break them. They don't know what insecurity means. As
stateless exiles we had no protection. We were outsiders.
"^tKttSBSS'
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We did not belong and were totally on our own. No social
security. No unemployment insurance. No welfare. We had
no status as human beings. We could not afford to become
undesirables in any way or form because we could be de-
ported for the slightest reason. Deported to where? To
Nazi-Germany? To 00 death in gas chambers?
Our desire to immigrate to America seemed like a pipe
dream, like wishful thinking without a shred of reality.
We had to bug an immigration quota system which as far
as Nazi-Germany was concerned had been over-subscribed -
or so we thought. Besides, who was waiting for us over
there? No one. We were like little puffs of cumulous
clouds, dissolvable at any time. We had no civic rights
or duties. Being an exile is basically being non-existent.
We wonder nowadays how some of the young people, who have
voluntarily/
exiled themselves/jHBBBi^ from this wonderful country
might feel in moments of loneliness, homesickness and
depression? Being an exile is not a way of living.
Our life in exile created a trauma which never fully
left us. It won't vanish from our souls until the day we
die. We never believed in security again and do not so now,
not even In these United States which we have learned to
love dearly (Sorry, Mr. K. , wherever you are). Never be-
fore, not even in pre-Nazt- Germany, have we felt so much
at home as we do In this MMBf country. We have settled
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down, really settled down, but deep
still a tiny fear that it cannot last.
inside us is
It seemed strange that during our time in Shanghai
we never thought about the opportunity we had had to
emigrate to Palestine. After much souli searching I had
rejected the idea. When we felt so unhappy in Manila, I
had moments of regrets not to have accepted the invitation
by a friend to join him what was then Palestine. Perhaps
the true reason had been that I could not bury my dream
to become an American citizen, a dream I had harbored
ever since I had survived the first world war.
Today Israel, the one and only true democratic nation
in the Mid-East, is a hope and a promise, a bulwark against
the crippling influence and advance of destructive Co7»imu«
nism. If these United States, the greatest democracy in
history, the most powerful nation in the world, fails
little Israel, we may as well surrender to Communist
world domination.
As Manila was not Shanghai, so was the
Great Eastern Hotel not the Casanova. I was in trouble
from the start till the end, and the job did not last
longer than three months and two days. According to my
contract I was the manager of the diningroom, the ball"
room and the roof garden. I was nothing of the sort as it
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turned out. I was expected to be a puppet and function
the way/
/iP the general manager (the number- one -son) pulled the
strings. I was not and am not the kind of person who can
be manipulated. None of my^suggestions were approved and
others, which I instituted without asking, were canceled.
All I had to do was acting as if I did supervise every-
thing and apologize if a customer was dissatisfied. I was
a kind of trouble-shooter. As far as banquets were con*
cemed (and there were quite a number of them, the most
memorable was one given by President Quezon) I was ex"
pected to see that the tables were correctly set and
decorated and then stand by to direct the smooth flow
of food. However, there was one so-called duty I was
not prepared for. I had to okay the daily menus which
actually was nothing but a formality. What I didn't know
about ipenus is not worth mentioning. Never in my life had
I cooked a meal or read a cookbook. It was quite a let-
down after my position at the Casanova where Wong had
given me free reign.
Old man Ng Tip was a yellow peril - at least to me.
He was the kind who didn't brook any opposition. A stranger
and a foreigner to boot had no standing with him at all. He
just suffered me because the hotel, catering to foreign
patrons, had to have at least one foreign manager for show.
Well, the old panjandrum never spoke a single word to me
although he took his lunch in the diningroom each day. His
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rheumatic, slanted eyes looked at me with conspicuous
suspicion. Like Ottokar, the kindly peasant in the
Manchurian mail train, he also had a scraggly, white
beard and a leathery, wrinkled face. Only Ng Tip didn't
smile, ever. Not even at the Chinese waiter who regularly
served him. The old man had the habit of never consulting
the menu, but ordering the special lunch of the day with-
out knowing what it was to be. That, indeed, turned out
to be my downfall. Quite innocently I caused that over-
aged time-bomb to explode, and I was the only victim.
In fact, there were three unfortunate incidents
which finally resulted in my losing the job. The first
one was when one day I fired a waiter because he had been
repeatedly obnoxious to customers. Well, I had no right
to fire anyone without consulting first the general man*
ager, but I was sick and tired of consulting. I was never
good at taking orders and had always been anxious to keep
my personal independence inviolate.
All right, I had fired that damned waiter, telling
him not to show his face again. He came back the next
day with a big grin all over his idiotic face, re- installed
to full duties. I in turn was reprimanded. All the Chinese
employees were related to the Ng Tip family and that par-
ticular waiter was a nephew of the big boss. If ever looks
could kill, I would have been dead the very moment the old
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man entered the dlningroom for lunch.
The second time I got myself into real trouble
was on Christmas Eve. We had advertised in all news-
papers a special dinner and floor show. A large artificial
Christmas tree and other make-believe decorations enhanced
the diningroom and roofgarden. In the ads we had invited
families to come with their children for this occasion.
And by golly they came. The diningroom and roofgarden
were crowded for hours. Naturally, I was very busy to
run the whole spectacle. I vaguely remembered after-
wards that one of the waiters had accosted me with the
information that a party of "foreign devils" had c
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plained about a Filipino mother who at the next table
was breast-feeding her baby. This, indeed, offended the
"foreign devils'" appetite as the waiter expressed it. I
had seen it myself, but had thought nothing of it. Breast-
feeding in public was a common sight in the Far East,
and I couldn't imagine why such a natural act should be
offensive. This particular family looked nice and neatly
dressed and I saw no objection for the mother to breast-
feed her baby. But the complaint was repeated and I had
>ut/
no choice/to interfere in one way or the other. Stupidly,
I believed it would be more appropriate for roe to stay
out of it, being a foreigner myself. So I sent the waiter
captain to tell the mother in as polite a manner as possible
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that we had a complaint about breast-feeding her baby
in the diningroom and that we had a beautifully and
comfortably furnished lounge adjacent to the ladies'
room where she could fee^ her baby. I honestly thought
that the Incident had been solved in this manner to the
satisfaction of both parties. It was not by any means.
Shortly afterward the father of the family stopped me
and bitterly complained about the unkind treatment his
poor wife and bab^ had received. I tried to explain and
apologize, but to no avail. The man didn't want to be
pacified. In fact he and his family left in a huff
without even having finished their meal.
Two days later the general manner handed to me a
letter, addressed to the floor manager of the dintferoom.
Despite the fact that supposedly I was;dhis floor manager
the number-one-son-of-a-gun had opened and read the letter.
Imitating his father, he disdained any comment. By giving
me the silent treatment he obviously conveyed to me that
I had acted very stupidly. He was right at that.
Over all these years I have kept this letter as a
reminder how thoughtless even a well-meaning person can
act sometimes. It so clearly showed the gap between We«^t
and East. Regrettably, the letter had no return address and
was signed: John Doe.
Perhaps it might be educational - although its li
very questionable whether or not you like to be educated -
if I let yo^read this letter in full, copying it exactly.
The Floor Manager
Great Eastern Hotel,
Manila, P.I.
Dear Sir:
Before leaving our home last night with my family
to go to places to find what Christmas joy that the small
children could have more than my humble home could offer,
we were in full Christmas spirit. Every place we passed
I saw smiling faces and admiration of people at children
and mothers.
We never had the intention of going to your place
believing that is is high and expensive for us. But this
outing for children is just once a year and that we saw
outside there was glittering light demonstrating full
Christmas splendor and we thought that it would be heaven
to see the place. We presumed there in your place there
might be seen more infants that may be adding glory to
the place if that night was really intended for the spirit
of Christmas by your place. From the ground floor up - up-
up to our surprise ■ we reached the top of town. The
light we saw from outside gave us the atmosphere of wel-
come and everything was perfect until we finished and
enjoyed the courteous services of the waiter who was
gracious and kind to the small children especially. Short"
ly after a while when I was in the Gentlemen's room, I
was called by a waiter and before I could reach our
table the poor mother filled with surprise and disappoint-
ment was already starting for the door and explained that
you have certain disapproval.
Why in the course of our meal the infant child was
breasting and now and then eating with us you have not
called my attention. I saw you at a distance walking isles
and I suppose you have not missed to see my group, and
having seen it you could not afford to miss who was the
head of the group it being with a father and a mother.
It would have been proper if you had given me a timely
information of your objection of breasting the infant.
You told me when I approached you that it would have been
proper to breast the child in the ladies room (toilet).
How could I believe as you told me that you have had
complaints of certain precedents if there is ever any in
your place? I have quite seen your views in the matter
which I had appreciated and yet I went home with a dis-
appointed mother when I informed her how her infant should
be fed (inside the toilet) and her surprised querry was,
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Why? I told her of course, that I am sorry but It is the
policy perhaps of the manager which I have never known
before in my life. Only with the spirit of Christmas en-
couraged me to take the whole family, minus one, to your
place, and you should have considered in connection with
your objection that you have approval of whole family
presence according to your advertisement
At 3:00 A.M. this morning I had a troubled spirit as
to why an infant should be breasted in toilet room. To my
humble knowledge so far, an infant is entitled to better
consideration - better place than a dinner table but not
in a toilet room where neither the nursing mother nor the
infant child should bear to inhale the offensive odor. To
this end, I have greatly felt your idea of social dis«
tinction. I am sure that you will not make the same sug=
gestion to a European mother. I know just as well that
small children should not be taken out for dinner, es=
pecially to a formal gathering. I know just as well that
your place is a public eating place where every body should
be welcomed. If there was ever anything against your policy,
people going up to your place should be advised properly
in due time, that is, before they ever spend any money
and just before entering the dining room. When you raised
the objection especially not direct to me and besides
using the waiters to communicate your views to your patrons
is absolutely discourteous and undiplomatic. Only decency
and certain consideration held my patience. Whatever your
reason is, last night was one dedicated to children in the
name of Christ. The child whom you saw breasting is also at
the same time table feeding as stated before and it would
be an injustice to treat him in a toilet room.
I hope that the same occasion shall not happen with me
again anywhere - but at such Christmas day or night, until
the end of the world, children ought to be given the spirit
of Christmas and not the spirit of the toilet room, other=»
wise nothing but the worst could be expected to the end of
our day. I assure you I am very careful in going to places.
With the help of other people of course I was quite sure
that the children were decently dressed enough and behaved
well enough to meet the requirement of the night and your
place.
If there is any implied immorality of indecency in the
act of breasting a child, there is several times more in the
act of showing almost every flesh of a woman in the acts
of your floor shows.
If there is an important matter to be communicated to
a patron, I hope a responsible floor manager should take
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more precaution and diplomacy to take the matter strictly
private without the least embarrassing the party concerned
even before the eyes of the waiters.
Please understand that I am writing you this not with
the spirit of any pride behind me for to tell you the truth
I am Just depending upon what my daily efforts could pro*
duce, but I am writing you to express my deep sentiment in
celebrating Christmas - for the children - In the name of
Christ. And in His name I shall forget what had happened
as that day He has brought to the world Peace and Good Will
to men.
Very truly yours,
John Doe .
The sad fact was that this poor manby not
signing his name or giving his address deprived me from
explaining to him that no|| affront to his or his wife's
dignity had been Intended and that It had not entered my
mind to make a social distinction since European mothers
did not nurse their babies In public. To this day I regret
my error of having Interfered at all or had not asked the
European patrons at the next table to leave If they were
offended by the natural custom of the country. One always
learns to^iate and then only through one's own errors.
The last and final offense I committed, the one which
terminated my job at the Great Eastern Hotel, was the most
harmless one. I made the mistake of telling the chef to
put "apple soup" on the special lunch menu. Please, don't
shake your head. There Is such a soup. Annie had the brain-
storm to get me fired. I should have known better. Whenever
Annie gets smart Ideas, they're exceedingly smart, so much
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so that they often backfire. When I complained to her that
I never had a new Idea in regard to the menus I had to okay,
she suggested chilled fruit soups. If you haven't heard of
fruit soup<J, ask a German hausfrau. she will explain how to
prepare them. In any event - to me it seemed to be a grand
idea to serve ice cold fruit soups once in a while in soupy-
hot Manila. Any kind of fruit soup from cherries to apple
is delicious. I chose apple soup for a starter and Annie
wrote down the recipe for me. I should have consulted the
general manager first, but I didn't. Instead I proudly ex-
plained the dish to our Chinese chef who stared at me as
if I were a fugitive from an insane asylum. He and I were
not on the best of terms and he must have foreseen the
kind of havoc this crazy, unheard-of soup could play on
unsuspecting guests. Without a doubt he must have sworn
his kitchen help and the waiters to total secrecy. Not
a soul was forewarned of this culinary inn<^,atlon. So
it came about that apple soup/a^soup de 1our>appeared /
on the next day's tiffin menu.
• . . automaticallv wa*:/
As usual old man Ng Tip came for lunch anTTt ^ -
erved the special fy nf/
*"*"* i^S~lK~the day. The trouble was that I had
not seen Ng Tip enter the diningroom. I was talking to
a couple of guests who were enthusiastic about/fe apple
soup which they had never eaten before. I felt proud of
myself and decided to put a fruit soup on the menu once
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a week. All right, Ng Tip was served his soup which to
him might have looked like pea soup, the color being
the same. It was his habit to sprinkle his soup with
plenty of salt and pepper without even tasting It first.
And so he did with the apple soup which was sweet, of
course. He put the first spoon' full Into his mouth and
then let go with a yell of protest which could be heard
all over the diningroom. He had me called to his table
for the first time since I had been working there. For
a few chilling seconds he stared at me as if I were a
monster from another planet. Then he threw at me a torrent
of Chinese Invectives which luckily I didn't understand.
They must have been quite juicy because all the Chinese
waiters including the cooks, who had run out of the kitchen,
grinned from ear to ear. At last the general manager (number-
one-son) was called. I was on the carpet without being
given the opportunity to defend myself. Then and there
I was fired and was told to leave at once. Since I was
not a member of the family, I couldn't come back either
the rext day. Before I left, though, I had the good
sense to remind the number- one -son that according to ray
contract my employment could be terminated only on a
thirty days notice by either party. That hit a sour note
in that man's greedy heart.
He told me with deep contempt in his voice that a
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man, who dared to put apple soup on the menu, had com-
mitted a culinary crime and was not entitled to thirty
days* notice and severance pay. I In turn, although I
knew perfectly well that as a stateless person I had no
civic rights, threatened him with a law suit. The long and
short of it was that I got a month's severance pay al-
though he considered me a blackmailer.
However, 1 was through as far as hotels in Manila
were concerned. The general manager, I guess, spread the
MttHH word that 1 was a lunatic who served normal guests
outlandish apple soup. As it was, I had to agree, appleg
soup tastes awful if spiced with pepper and salt. The
old man Ng Tip died shortly afterwards. I wondered, if
he liked devil's cake with salt, pepper and triturated
brimstone. The latter is allegedly a speciality in hell
according to Timothy.
To be a refugee is not to be recommended
by any standards, but to be a jobless refugee is the kind
of calamity to be avoided by all means. We knew where we
stood, Annie and I. We did not expect any help and didn't
ask for it. Anyway, we weren't yet totally destitute. I
still had that one month's extra salary which did not
eunount to much, but was still better than nothing. Annie
was still working at The Little Club and made a few pesos
each night. Altogether, though, we had to turn each dime
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around several times before spending it. Yet, the little
amount of money we had dwindled away faster than water
from a leaking faucet. We had to keep ourselves in decent
clothing for appearance's sake, and Annie's professional
wardrobe could not be neglected.
We were at a low, mentally and financially. The heat
and humidity paralyzed my brain and though 1 tried I was
unable to coax it into action. I was unable to write any-
thing. The white s^et of paper 1 rolled into the typewriter
each day remained white. That was the most unbearable aspect
of my idleness. If I can't write, I don't live.
Besides, at this time we were most concerned about
my parents who were still living in Hamburg. My older
sister, with the help of the Nobel Prize awarded writer
Selma Lagerloef, had immigrated with her daughter to
Sweden. My younger sister and her husband, who had had
a position with a Swedish firm in Germany, had been trans-
ferred to Malmoe, Sweden. All three of us were determined
to get our parents out of Germany before it was too late.
The Nazis had already taken over my father's business, but
otherwise had left him alone. Even if I could have managed
it, it would have been murder to transplant these two old
wouldn' t/
people to the horrid climate in Manila. They/flBHMI have
survived it for long. Moreover, I wasn't financially able
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erous help of Selma Lagerloef, succeeded in getting them
to Sweden Just twenty-four hours prior to the Infamous
Crystal Night, when mobs In organized pogroms all over
Germany burned synagogues, destroyed Jewish property,
beat up, killed or arrested more than twenty- thousand
innocent Jews. At least, we were spared the fate of so
many other refugees who never learned where and when
their folks were tortured or gassed to death.
Louis Fischer in his book "This is your
World" wrote: "It takes a great deal of resolution to
land/
break with your native/HSHHI ^"^ steal away into a
strange world whose language and manners you do not know,
and where you will have no friends or even contacts and
may starve because you are unskilled."
This truth came home to me again when I was footloose
in Manila after the apple soup affair. The sad fact was
that I did not have the faintest idea how and where I
could find a job again. There wasn't a deuce of a chance
that I would be hired by any other hotel management. Old
man Ng Tip and his nuraber-one-son had seen to that. As in
all of East Asia none other but so-called executive po-
sitions were open to foreigners, but what kind of execu-
tive position could I seek? I had no experience in bi^li^iness
or in any other specialized professional field- but in the
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world of cncertalnment. Yet. within two weeUs n,y problem
.as solved. Instead of my seeing the ^oh. the Joh sought
The only friends we had made in Manila were another
t^^ rii<:hi st^od for Gustav.
refugee couple. Gushi and Louise. Gushi sta
, A <n ShanEhai just two days prior to the
They had arrived in Shangnai. j
,^^ack of the/ evacuated with us on
Japanese armed forces and had been
w ,•!=> Aside from the one suitcase each
the Gneisenau to Manila. Aside rrom
. iwe P«.ot, on. of c.e .ost i.colUs.oc bird, o„. couU
1 ^v,a^^prbox but understood
imagine. That bird was a real chatterbox.
u- »«„rh shut He wouldn't utter a
well when to keep his mouth shut.
1„ Sh„ghai .ad out asaln In.o ManiU. Th., carried t.ac
w. u ►*,»« keot in a perforated suit-
poor thing in a cage which they kept in
^hP kind of people who could manage
case. These two were the kind or p h
t- ut^A cnnke onlv German and low
anything. Naturally, the bird spoke only
German at that.
..„Uh .vacua., to HaU^ann's .oatdios^ous.. T..fs wH.t.
„e aotuaU, ..t t... and SOt fti.ndl, »lt^ on. .not..r. tH.,
.atta.1. v.r. . P- »' """ "^ "'"^ '" """"'' "'"'
attjracted^/ _,^ ^^ ^^^ „^a avis category.
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As we all, they had to leave Hellmann*s boardlnghouse and
find their own lodgings. They had some money (at least
it seemed as if they had) and so could afford to rent
a small house for themselves, which of course made them
a natural target for a cat burglar. Shortly after my
watch and wallet was stolen, some one broke into their
house and took most of their clothing as well as the
cage with the bird. That to them was a major catastrophe.
After all the effort and cunning to smuggle the bird over
half the world, they just could not and would not accept
the loss. The bird was their most cherished possession,
a pet they had had for a long time. For weeks they didn't
give up searching.
They had to have the
cage and the bird back. No parents could have been more
grief-stricken if a child of theirs had been kidnaped.
For three weeks they braved the horrible heat and wandered
from one street to the other, visiting all pet- and
pawn=
shops until finally one day their perseverance was rewarded
They found the bird in the cage at a native pawnshop. The
parrot almost died from excitement at seeing them. With=
out asking any questions Gushi paid whatever the pawn
broker asked and bought their own property back. Only
then they confided in us. As much as they loved the old
bird, It had been the cage th^y had been really after. It
had a double bottom in which they had secreted so much
valuable jewelry that they could live on the sale of it
for years if necessary. Having learned their lesson, they
rented a bank deposit box for the jewelry. Yet, they had
taken quite a chance on smuggling all of it out of Nazi-
Germany. If the Nazi inspectors would have discovered the
false bottom of the cage, they' would not only have wrung
the neck of the bird, but also theirs.
We were reminded of two wealthy Germans. One was a
bachelor, the other one was married and had two teen-aged
children. Neither one of them was Jewish, but they both
disliked the Nazis enough to defy the laws against ex»
porting anything of value, including money. They were
determined to get out of Nazi-Germany with as much of
their property as they could. If they had been caught,
they would have faced a death sentence.
The bachelor had an ingenious idea. He was known to
transact quite some business in Holland and there was
nothing to arouse suspicion for him to travel to and
from Holland several times a year. Any profit he made
in Holland, he transferred to his German bank account
as was demanded by law. Generally his chauffeur drove
him across the border in his expensive car. The German
border guards knew him well and most often they just waved
him along. Prior to their last trip to Holland, he and
his chauffeur replaced in the man's garage at home all
chrome of the car with platinum fixtures which they had
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molded themselves. The value of this platinum was tremen-
dous. As usual they were waved across the border, but this
time they didn't return. They shipped the car to a South-
American country on the same boat they took. However, they
were so proud about tricking the smart-aleck Nazis, that
later they told the story to a correspondent of an inter-
national news syndicate. Their escapade made headlines and
the Nazis were furious. From then on the chrome of each
car, crossing any German border, was carefully tested.
The married man had for years taken his vacation with
his family in Switzerland. Mostly he sent his wife and iB
children ahead and followed a few days later. The Nazis
had no reason to suspect him of any wrong-doing because
he had declared officially his numbered Swiss bank account
as he was supposed to do. In fact, he had withdrawn most
of the money on request of the Nazi authorities and had
deposited it in a German bank. Legally, he was allowed to
keep a hundred dollars or less in a foreign bank account
without declaring it. After his family had safely arrived
in Switzerland for their annual vacation the second summer
after Hitler had usurped power, he wrote an fBHHH^ un-
signed letter to the Gestapo accusing himself of having
another^ undeclared account of a million dollars in a
Swiss bank. Two days later, as he had expected, two Ge-
stapo agents paid him a visit and showed him the anonymous
letter. He acted very aggravated, denying that he had
more than a hundred dollars in this second account. The
Gestapo agents didn't believe him, as he had hoped they
wouldn' t/. After some arguing back and forth, the man
suggested that he personally would drive the two agents
in his own car to Zuerlch the following day (he lived
only a hundred kilometer or about sixty- two miles from
the Swiss border) and there would authorize the Swiss
bank to show the account to these two doubting men. They
fell for it. The next day they crossed the German border
without any trouble or any search when the two Gestapo
agents showed their credentials. Once they had arrived
in Zuerich, the man changed the tune. He tj^old the two
agents that they could go to hell. Neither he nor his
family would return to Nazi-Germany. He lifted the back
seat of his car, under which he had stowed several millions
of German Mark, equivalent to more than a million American
dollars. In fact, thti two Gestapo agents had been sitting
on the money all the way. This man and his family took
the same precaution not to stay|| too close to Germany and
left Switzerland for America twenty-four hours later. This
trick, too, couldn't be repeated by anyone else. One could
fool the Nazis only once.
I had not dared to take along a single Pfennig more
than was legally permitted.' . I never could get away with
anything. I wou^ have been caught for sure. There Is
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always a police car around the corner if /y mistake I
drive through a red light. When it comes to gambling in
any form whatsoever, I'm a born loser. Even blue chip
stocks would drop disastrously the day after I had bought
some. I tried it once and never again. No - I strictly
leave the stock market alone , having no desire to be
responsible for a nationwide financial catastrophe -
although I could invest only a small amount of money.
Besides gambling, playing cards or games of any kind
bore me and I'm never bored otherwise. It's a waste of
time as far as I'm concerned.
One late evening , after I had been fired
from the Great Eastern Hotel, the four of us - Louise,
Annie, Gushi and I - were sitting together in the Legaspi
Gardens. It must have been a Monday night because that
was Annie's only night off.
The Legaspi Gardens was an outdoor restaurant - the
only one in Manila - situated at one end of the Bay where
after eleven in the evening a slight breeze tried to cool
us off, or at least so we imagined. The phosphorescent
water gently lapped against the shore. All in all, it
was romantic and peaceful. The two German owners of this
place boasted that they served the biggest glass of beer
In the world. It might well have been true. Their round-
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bellied glasses must have^been large enough to hold a
gallon of foaming, ice-cold beer.
Gushi, who looked like a cashiered Prussian officer
affected the behaviorism/
with a brush-moustache and/t
of a mis=
placed comedian, told us that two Austrian brothers, who
had been living in Japan for many years, were planning to
open the first 5 & 10 C store on the Escolta, Manila's
main business street. They had an uncle in New York who
with a partner owned a whole-sale firm, specializing in
merchapise for dime stores. One of the two brothers would
later return to Japan and the merchandise for the Manila
be importedy
store would^HSlfromNew York and Japan. The surprise
was that Gushi had already been hired as office manager
for the Manila store.
He announced grand-eloquently that he had recommended
me for the job as store manager. To say the least, I was
dumb- founded while Annie was enthusiastic about it. She
believed I could do anything. Of all the Jewish refugees
in Manila I was the only one without any business exJDerience
I never had handled a piece of merchandise in my life. But
that's how it was in the Far East. Topsy-turvey .
As it happened, that same evening the two brothers
and a party had also a table at the Legaspi Gardens. It
was a matter of being at the right place at the right
mome
nt. Gushi introduced me and then and there I was
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hired as manager of "The Continental 5 & 10 centavos
Store" without having lifted a finger. The salary was
a little better than the one I had received at the Great
Eastern Hotel. Stupid as I always was and am when it comes
to self-promotion, I made a feeble attempt to explain my
non-know-how. It didn't break any ice. Both brothers
assured me that I looked sufficiently intelligent to
learn and they expected me to report for work the next
morning at nine.
Man ol} man, did I learn I The first thing I learned
was that no one else (including the two brothers and
Gushi) knew anything about the operation of a 5 & 10 cent
store either. The bosses' uncle in New York had written
them a general information letter how to run such a
had/
store and that was all they/to go by. The second thing
I learned was that no one ever should physically work
hard in a tropical climate. I was sweating my heart and
soul out while we were getting the store ready for open-
ing. The third thing I learned already before the opening
day was that kleptomania was a wide-spread disease. And
the last thing I learned was that I wasn't cut out to be
a businessman.
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I certainly had not cared too much for my job at
the Great Eastern Hotel after the way I had been spoiled
at the Casanova, but being a businessman was something I
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soon began actually to loathe and although I was damned
to be one for many years I never did enjoy it. I guess,
I lacked and still lack the right amount of greed to
make a buck for the sake of making a buck. I have no
reverence for money. All I know is - never to spend more
than I have and rather do without if we cannot pay cash
for whatever we like to buy. Crazily, as a result of
this "square" attitude I don't have any credit rating.
One has to borrow to the hilt and more In order to be
recognized as a good credit risk. So - I became a business-
man and had to concern myself with money without knowing
neither/
what it was all about. The fact remained thatymerchandise
fllWMflM IB iltf/customers |^ver appealed to me. How-
ever, as St. Augustin had said: "Necessitas non habet
legem" -Necessity knows no law.
Once I had started and, knowing that I had no other
choice, I faked enthusiasm to cover my aversion. Without
that job we would have been in a very bad way as were most
other refugees who envied Gushi and me.
The strange truth was that I really became an ef-
fective 5 & 10c store manager under the possibly worst
conditions. None of the sales personnel we engaged had
ever worked in a store, leave alone our kind which was
the first one in Manila or in the Philippine Islands
altogether. I, who needed training myself, was charged
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with training them. It was like the lame leading the blind.
By trial and error we arrived at certain routines which
we improved as we went along. Luckily, I found a fairly
smart Filipino assistant who spoke English. He lorded it
over the girls like a pashaf with a harem. So to speak I
was /
had to keep him on the leash because he/^ther too reliable
nor too honest. Yet, I never caught him with his hands in
the till. Soon after we had opened the store we had to
Increase the prices. This store with merchandise dis-
played openly on counters was too much of a temptation.
Our loss from shoplifting amounted to twenty percent
vigilance/
despite my/HBTT?^ a desk on an elevated platform. If
I caught a culprit, I gently took the stolen merchandise
and let her or him go or we would have had mayhem every
day. The salesgirls were either blind or sometimes In
cahoots with the shoplifters and so was my assistant. He.
however, was smart enough to catch one once In a while,
making much more of a show of it than we liked. After all,
shoplifting is an international illness.
Of course, anywhere in the world truck drivers are
a human breed of their own. The legend that wherever they
stop to eat the food is good is a myth according to some
research of my own. I call my stomach as a witness to
testify that wherever truck drivers stop to eat the food
is rough and tough. But that is getting off on a tangent.
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The Manila truck drivers were not only a breed of their
own, but together with their helpers destructive savages.
They had the most simple method of unloading crates and
cartons. The first delivery we got turned out to be a
major disaster. Twelve crates of cheap china- and glass-
were pushed off the truck and dumped on the pavement in
the alley behind the store. They became twelve crates of
broken bits and pieces of china- and glass-ware. I lost
my temper; Gushl lost his temper; and the bosses just
tore whatever hair they had left on their heads out by
the roots. I threatened the truck driver and his helper
that I would shoot them the next time if this performance
would be/
^■9 repeated. Gushl threatened to shoot me, and the bosses
not only threatened to shoot all of us, but also started
a law suit for recoverey of the loss. It was bedlam and
mayhem all together. However, I didn't take any further
chances and hired a kid whom I posted as a spy at the
entrance to the alley. He had nothing else to do but to
run and call me or Gushl at the approach of a truck.
The highlight of each day were the couple
of hours between my coming home from work in the evening
and Annie leaving for her job at the nightclub. It wasn't
much, but all day we looked foirward to these two hours of
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togetherness. The nights until Annie returned toward morn-
ing were lonesome for me and I filled some of thera by writ'
ing short stories and articles, maybe two or three a month
Some of them my older sister sold in Europe (except in
Nazi-Germany or occupied countries of course) . She had
established herself
in Stockholm.
as a literary agent
m always/
Jne was/in financial troubles
and quite often Mi 1 didn't see a cent of whatever she
got paid for my literary efforts. Later on, after my
father had died and my mother was living with her, I
compelled her to sign a contract with me that any money
due me had to be handed over to my mother who otherwise
wouldn't have had a cent of her own. A few of my articles
I managed to sell myself to Jewish periodicals in America.
They either paid very little or nothing at all. Still, I
didn't stop writing. It kept my sanity intact and improved
my English more and more. These hours of writing fulfilled
a good purpose. They banned my loneliness (I felt always
lonely without Annie around) and kept me in the profession
I loved best.
One of my articles paid off very well, although not
in money. I received a letter from a man in New York who
had read and liked it. He turned out to be a relative of
mine on my father's side. Two of my father's older brothers
had emigrated to America long before I was bom^
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I replied to his letter and a regular correspondence
developed between us. When the time came and although
he didn't know us personally, he willingly provided us
with an affidavit without which (despite Professor Ein-
stein's personal recommendation) we might not have ob-
tained United States immigration visas. This man wasn't
blessedwith much earthly goods, but he had a heart of gold
To our deeply felt sorrow he died shortly after we had
come to America.
My conviction that the Far East
would be
embroiled in an all-out war of aggression by the Japanese
remained unchanged, the same as I had predicted in my book
"Cold Pogrom" that Hitler would go on a rampage in Europe.
Dictatorial and military regimes as those in Nazi-Germany
and Japan could only cover up their dishonest leadership
by aggressive wars. The same applies now to the Soviet
Union and Red China.
Therefore Annie and I had only one goal to leave Manila
could/
as soon as we possibly/manage it. We had no intention of
being caught in this war, in particularly not since we had
been lucky to get out of Nazi-Germany and China in time.
Our luck could be stretched only so far and not farther.
Naturally, everybody with whom I talked ab^ut my premo-
nition, if one can call it that, indulgently smiled at
me as if I were not quite right in my mind. Yet, it was
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there for everyone to see like the biblical handwrit-
ing on the wall: "Me-ne, Me-ne, Tekel, U-Phar-Sin" -
God has numbered Thy kingdom, and finished it.
Our friend Gushi in particular, who - like most people
who talk too much - had little wisdom, failed to understand
our urge to quit the Philippines and the Far East alto-
gether and go to America before it was too late. He con-
stantly tried to dissuade me. After all, he pointed out
again and again, 1 had a good thing going for me in
store/
Manila, a job with a future. The Manila/was only the first
in a chain and I could rise to general manager^ of all
stores and so on. What did I expect to achieve in America?
There was a depression and plenty of unemployment. Be-
sides, the Japanese would never dare to attack the Phili-
ppines, he claimed as so many others did. They couldn't
win a war with the United States and they knew it. As
it turned out, the Japanese didn't know it (the same
as Soviet Russia doesn't seem to know it now). Their
kingdom was numbered as that of Hitler's and Mussolini's.
I even believed then and believe now that all dictator-
ship nations are doomed from the start and that includes
Soviet Russia, Red Ghina, Franco's Spain and the Arab
nations. No people can be kept in spiritual, -mental and
political 8 lavot^ forever. In these countries, too, the
handwriting is on the wall and the days of their existence
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are numbered. Their power will be broken before the end
of this century because their rulers try in vain to silence
the voices of the thinkers in their midst, and despite all
their efforts and momentary success in brainwashing some
of the youth in the world, the great awakening is in the
cards .
Gushi 's assurance, that I didn't know a good thing
when I had it, didn't convince me, but neither did I con-
vince him. He stayed while we left. He stayed and was
killed in the holocaust of Japanese aggression. Louise
got out after the war, and we met her again in Los Angeles
and then she disappeared as if some unknown fate had
swallowed her up.
Well, I knew I had to start somewhere to get things
moving in my direction. I couldn't sit still and expect
God to do everything for us. We always have to help our-
selves if we want God to help us. But the knowledge that
God was on our side was all the impetus we needed. I wrote
to a Jewish Publication Company in America, querying if
they would be interested in reading the manuscript of my
book although I had written it in German. Strangely enough,
I knew of no other publis/fing firm in America aside from
Covici-Friede. When first I had sought advice from Pro-
fessor Einstein, he had replied in German which I trans-
late here: "I've got to tell you that I myself had very
..'ma-^m^ ^}iwWMLa.ik,^tiihiinM—[j"i'i »*'
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unfavorable experiences with Covici-Friede . Be anyway
very careful with American publishers."
How could I be careful from so far away? All that
counted was to find a publisher willing to accept the
book and trust 1 would be offered a fair contract. It
was quite important for me to get a real literary start
in America, a foothold so to speak. This was one of the
greatest mistakes in my life although without the advance
payment this publishing firm wired to me, I might not have
been able to pay our ship fare in full to America and so
it fulfilled a definite purpose. Nonetheless, I had chosen
the wrong publishers - as I found out too late. At the
time of publication theU did nothing to advertise the
book. In other hands - as I will prove later - the book
might have done much better. It was the right book, coming
out at the right time. When many years later I tried to
be released from my contract in order to sell it again
to a foreign publishing house, I was refused despite the
fact that it had no value for them anymore. The trouble
was that they had taken out the copyright in their name.
In my letter to the Jewish Publication House I had
enclosed the Foreword to my book which as I hoped would
arouse their interest in wanting to read the manuscript
in its entirety. I must emphasize, though, that the book
was written prior to Hitler's execution of total genocide.
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"I began this novel." so the Foreword reads, as
translated by a man who later on in his own books claimed
my book as credit for himself, "in the first year after
my emigration from Germany and completed it in the second.
I wrote it in Shanghai, in a small attic room which con-
stantly reminded me of a prison cell.
"One evening close friends related to me the tragic
history of the Selig family, whom they had known in Berlin.
I realized then that the fate of the Seligs was material
for a novel describing the actual plight of the Jews in
the Third Reich. For this true story of a Jewish family
clearly belies the National-Socialist statement, 'Nothing
is happening to the Jews in Germany'. Nothing is happen-
ing to the Jews in Germany except that they are losing
their means of livelihood; that they are driven out of
professions which they have pursued honorably; that they
are maligned and execrated. They are being murdered slowly,
without benefit of pogroms in the White Russian and Polish
manner. They are merely being put out of the way - one by
one.
"I have intentionally described the events in Germany
shortly before and after 1933 as they affected average
people of the Jewish faith who had no political interests.
It is only in the introduction to each section of the
book, that I have placed my own thoughts. These intro-
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ductions serve as the general background and the scenery
on the stage of the National-Socialist horror-drama."
To be sure, I had great hopes that the editors would
request to see the manuscript. I was wrong, but so were
they if they thought I would take *'No" for an answer. I
received a relatively quick reply from them, informing
me that their list for the coming season was filled and
that they were not interested in reading the book at all.
Publishers find more excuses for not reading or accepting
manuscripts than a determined virgin for not letting a man
creeping into her bed. And yet -there are more dull, poorly
plotted and written books published than good and inter=
esting ones. Quite often the determining factor for accept=
ing or rejecting a manuscript for publication is not the
literary, historical or social value (unless the author
has already a name for him- or herself) , but the violence
and sordid sex it contains which in their estimate increases
the commercial feploitation of a book. That is why the fil
and TV industry as well as the book publishers cater more
and more to the mediocre minds and the carnal and gory
emotions of the masses of the asses. More often than not
the criterium is left to the literary uneducated sales-
manager instead of the literary educated editors. As no
producer can pre-judge the success or failure of a screen,
TV or stage play, so can no book editor predict for sure
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which book will hit the best seller list. Even violence
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and sex don't always suffice. The preponderance defies
any experience.
As far as 1 was concerned, I didn't care whether or
not the list of this publisjing firm was filled, whether or
not they were interested. 1 believedi^simpleton as I still
was, that I was entitled to their benefit of the doubt
which only could be determined by the evaluation of the
entire ma][iscript. 1 almost wish I could say again "Please,
don't worry^ Nothing came of itl", but I can't. If they
had rejected the book after reading it, 1 would have been
compelled to a^t more sensibly. In my ignorance and over-
whelming desire to get published in America, no matter how
and where, I trapped myself. 1 was too impatient to take
the time and make the effort to research the American
publishing market and then submit the manuscript to an-
other, more aggressive firm. This particular book was hot s
at that particular time as years later one of the editors
of a now defunct national magazine confirmed.
But all this is hindsight. 1 was well aware of the
many obstacles one had to surmount in order to obtain
immigration visas to the United States. The publication
of my book, so I believed, would greatly aid us in this
endeavcyir. The sooner I could get a publishing contract,
the better were our chances. This was a fixation of my
wishful thinking. Time - so I was convinced - was running
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out fast. Besides, obstacles had never deterred me from
going ahead. As far as my thinking went, obstacles were
there to be surmounted. The rest was in the hands of God
And so God willed it that one morning I
received two significant letters in the same mail - one
came from Mr. Wong in Shanghai and the other from the
American Vice Consul in Manila.
Wong offered me my job back. Life in Shanghai, so
he wrote, had returned to normal under the Japanese occu»
pation. The Casanova like all other places of entertain-
ment was doing all right.
The American Vice Consul wrote: "This office re*
ceived from the American Consulate General in Shanghai
information generally favorable to your application for
immigration visas. The Consulate will be pleased to dis=
cuss with you further steps to the preparation on your
application."
The decision was an easy one. There was no going
back to Shanghai - even if friends there had not advised
us in letter after letter against returning. Moreover, it
was our belief that the past never repeats itself. Our
hearts were set on becoming American citizens.
The American Vice Consul was as good as his word. He
received us a few days later and in the most friendly manner
advised us of the steps we had to take before he could
issue immigration visas for us. The Inspectcur de la
Police Francais in Shanghai had given the American Consul
in Shanghai a clean bill of our honesty. We had proved that
we could stand on our own feet under the most adverse cir-
cumstances. All in all there was no reason to refuse us
entry into the United States if we could produce an affi**
davit by an American citizen in good standing, preferably
a relative of ours.
We left the American Consulate in high spirits. Every-
thing seemed to go our way thanks to the good offices of
God. My father's relative readily consented to sponsor us.
Several weeks went by until we heard from him again
by cable, informing us that he would air-mail his affidavit
via the next Hawaii Clipper which flew to Manila once a
week.
Indeed, everything seemed to go our way, but not the
affidavit. This particular Hawaii Clipper, which was suppos"
ed to carry our aff>tdavit, disappeared on the high seas
between Guam and the Philippine Islands and was never heard
from again. We were frantic and spent the money for a cable
to our relative in New York to fill out another affidavit.
We worried too soon as one always doo^. The affidavit arrlv
ed with the next clipper. Through an unforeseen delay the
document had been mailed with the clipper after the one
that disappeared. My mother had always maintained that
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nothing was good without some mishap. Maybe she was right.
At least, she was In this case. The American Vice Consul
accepted the affidavit as valid, especially since a few
weeks later It was augmented by a letter of reconmendatlon
from Professor Einstein.
In fact, I had written to the professor for such a
letter as an added precaution in case the affidavit of
our relative was not sufficiently convincing. His good
heart could never refuse an honest plea for help.
One morning the Vice Consul called me with the news
that he had received a letter from Professor Einstein,
but It had been written in German and would I please
come over and translate it. It was a strange fact that
the good professor, whose genius was completely unique
In the world of science, was In many ways a very naive
man. It never occurred to him that the German language
was not understood by any Intelligent person. Besides,
being Professor Albert Einstein he could write In any
language, even Sanscrit, if he wanted to. His name alone
carried enough weight that the recipient of one of his
letters would certainly have It translated. I had little
doubt that this letter decisively added to the fact that
we were granted American Immigration visas as long as all
legal formalities were fulfilled. This was my translation
of Professor Einstein's letter:
*'To the American Consul,
Manila, P.l.
Dear Sir,
Today I learned with great pleasure that the f f^^avlt
for Max L. Berges Is now at hand. Mr B«>'^8es Is not
only a talented artist, but he has also proved him-
self during the period of his /emigration that he is
able to make a living for himself and his wife I
consider him especially worthy for an in^igratlon
into the U.S.A. and would be very glad, if by
Issuing a visa his wanderings would come to an
end. _, ,
Sincerely,
A. Einstein."
Well, all was set. Our Vice Consul cabled
JTTirlerican Consul General in Berlin (for which 1 had
to pay thirty-five pesos) to issue us two quot^numbers
which were granted for November, some four months hence.
Yes, all was set with the exception of financing the trip.
We could not afford to book a berth on a non-German liner.
My parents still lived in Hamburg and my father succeeded
in liberating a certain amount of money from my blocked
bank account to be transferred to the North-German Lloyd
in Bremen. However, this amount did not suffice to pay for
the entire trip to New York. The German government wanted
us to. pay some foreign currency. Unless we came up with
we/
five hundred American dollars/* »^uld have to disembark
in the middle of the Straits of Gibraltar since no German
ships stopped at any Spanish port anymore on account of
the Spanish civil war. They could well have allowed us
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account, but the Nazi government was very keen on getting
foreign currency wherever possible. Re-armlng the country
for a total war was a very costly enterprise. It was a
dive off/
ludicrous blackmail. We couldn't possibly/MIBI Hm the
boat and swim ashore in the Straits of Gibraltar, but
was/
that/what we would have to do unless we came up with
five hundred dollars.
The North-German Lloyd office in
Manila re^
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served a cabin second class for us for departure
on
November 19th (my birthday incidentally) again with the
SS Gneisenau. After a three day stay in England, we could
proceed on the SS Europa to New York. Once more we had to
travel on a German ship and it scared the daylight out of
us. much more so than the first time. Yet, we had to take
that chance or stay in Manila. The choice was not ours^
and all we could do was to trust in God and Timothy. The
reservation was to be held open until October 31st. On or
before this date we had to pay the balance of five hundred
dollars which we didn't have. Besides, we had to have a
few dollars while traveling as well as for our three days
stay in England and the first week in New York.
The American Vice Consul assured us that all will be
ready by the second half of October when he would stamp
the American immigration visas into our German passports -
and there we hit another snag.
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Our German passports were not valid anytnore. The
German Consulate in Manila refused to re- Instate them.
For a while it was a stalemate until the American Vice
Consul got into the act and demanded of the German Con-
sulate to validate our passports until January 4th. After
all, the Philippine Islands were an American Protectorate
and it was expected that the German Consul was obliging
in such a small matter. The German Consul changed his
mind all right and obliged. All we had to do was to make
sure that we entered the United States before January 4th.
I believed that this special effort by the American Vice
Consul was the direct result of Professor Einstein's letter.
We had kept mum about all these proceedings. In fact,
we had not even confided in our friends Gushi and Louise and
neither had we told our bosses. We had to make sure to keep
our jtfbs until shortly prior to our departure. We needed
the money we earned.
Indeed, this consideration was of the utmost importance
and that's why my boss (one of the two brothers. The other
one took care of their business in Japan) had me on the ropes
when out of the blue sky he asked me to open g| on September
^irst a new store in Iloilo of all places. It was to be the
first branch store of a chain to follow. He didn't ginger
me up at all, but just told me as if he owned me like a
baseball player in America who could be sold to another
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club like a slave in olden times. I certainly wasn't in an
invidious position, for as chary as I was about telling my
boss to go hang himself, as chary was I to leave Manila for
the last few months of our stay in the Philippine Islands.
I couldn't accept his request and neither could I reject it
altogether if I wanted to keep my pay checks coming until
we were leaving. I had to compromise and so asked him where
the hell Iloilo was and what kind of place it is anyway. His
explanation that Iloilo was the capital city on the island
of Panay, about twenty- four hours by ship from Manila, did
one/
not mean a god-darned thing to me. There was no /else, so he
said, to take over but me. I had acquired the know-how and
would be in full charge of the store. "For how long?" I
inquired. The boss wouldn't let himself be pinned down.
That did it. I told him that I wouldn't and couldn't go
under any circumstances. Annie and I were leaving for New
York on November 19th and I had to stay in Manila until
that day.
The boss was a stubborn man. Although taken aback,
he still insisted on my going to Iloilo^
at least
for the first few weeks.
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Besides, he argued^ I was crazy to leave the Philippines
where I had a good job and always would have one. Anyway,
what would I be doing for a living in New York where native
Atifericans were jobless by the thousands? I listened', but
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that was all. His ranting got him nowhere. None of his
arguments held any interest for me. I remained as stubborn
as he.' The time of our departure for New York was set for
November 19th, and if I went to Iloilo (the name alone dis-
turbed me and rightly so as I found out), I had to be back
in Manila not later than October 15th. He threatened to
fire me if I didn't agree to stay in Iloilo as long as he
needed me there and I told him to go to hell for as long
as he could stand it there. We argued off and on for several
days - until he capitulated by agreeing that I could return
that/
to Manila after six weeks in Iloilo ancyhe would buy a
round-trip ticket.
I was to open
the new store and got it running while he was seeking a
replacement for me. I fell for it, but warned him that
I would abandon the Iloilo store whether or not he had
sent a replacement for me at least a week prior to Ctetober
15th. He said that I was the original son-of-a-bitch, but
that was all right by me as long as he kept our bargain.
Naturally, I asked around about Iloilo and what I
heard wasn't very encouraging. Everybody advised me not
to take Annie along. Since I was going for six weeks only
it would be the wise thing to do although we would be separ«
ated for the first time since we got married. I cursed my
luck that my boss couldn't have waited to rent the Iloilo
store after we had left. I hated to go by myself without
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Annie and she worried about me being alone in this strange
town of Iloilo.
The travel guide I consulted didn't say much. It advis-
ed the reader that Iloilo was a small coastal town on the
island of Panay across from the island of Negros and that
it was famous (famous, indeedl Whoever outside of the Phili-
ppines had ever heard of it?) for the weaving of pina cloth.
What pina cloth was it didn't tell. In case you don't know
either, Pina cloth is woven from pine apple fiber and is
used for native dresses.
During the seven weeks (notice: Not six as I had been
promised) I had to stay in Iloilo I never saw anyone weav-
ing pina cloth. It was a small coastal town all right, but
it also was hell on earth. And I mean hell. Even Timothy
agreed with me and he had had a glance at the real hell.
My boss (may he never be named in this book) had re-
served for me Cabin No. 15, which was considered the most
luxurious on the flagship of the De La Rama Steamship Com-
pany. The "Don Esteban" was a small, very small luxury
liner, built in Germany. She ran much too fast for her
size and consequently any passenger including me had a
heck of a time not to get seasick during the twenty hours
from Manila to Iloilo. I was to leave on the last Monday
of July at 3 p.m. and arrive in Iloilo on Tuesday at 11 a.m.
1 still have the ■■ bar chits from the "Don Esteban'/ but
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I won't tell you to what they amounted. Anyway, I had
charged them to my boss. I'm not a drinking man, but on
this occasion I turned to the bottle with great dedication.
The very moment we started to move away from the dock In
Manila and I saw Annie waving good-bye and getting smaller
and smaller, I longed already for her. IflBHHHBV ■■■■I
If I had had the guts ^ I would have jumped overboard
and swam back to her.
Now - before I report on ray adventures in
Iloilo and there were quite a number of them - I'll have
to digress as I'm wont to do from time to time. No mind
works in straight lines and mine is often very crooked
when it comes to telling tales.
On the Saturday prior to the Monday, on which I was
scheduled to leave for Iloilo, I received an airmail letter
from my father in which he beseeched me to help neighbors
of them, O- Jewish couple about our age. The Gestapo, being
in the habit of arresting Jews at random, had taken the man
away at night and sent him to a concentration camp. As it
was, he might be released if he could prove that he and
his wife would be able to emigrate within the next four
weeks. My good-hearted and naive father (who himself was
In constant danger of being taken into "protective custody"
as the Nazis so euphemistically called their nefarious
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treatment of innocent Jews) begged me to do whatever I
could to get visas for them so that they could come to
the Philippines. I had to act fast, he wrote. Whatever I
would do for these two people, my father ended his letter,
I would do for him. But what could I really do? I had only
a weekend left in Manila and besides one couldn't get
entry visas to the Philippines simply for the asking.
However, I
never would have refused my father, who
had been always the best friend I ever had, and so I raked
my brain how I could possibly be of help. I saw only one'
way out. I airmailed my father's letter with one of my
own to friends in Shanghai (which according to Wong was
normal again) and urged these friends to do something,
anything, which would induce the Nazis to release this
man and let the two people go. Perhaps they could wire
the wife that a job was waiting for her husband in Shang-
hai, whether that was true or not.
The entire episode is worth reporting only because
of the political consequences which developed from it and
because of another letter I wrote years later in which I
denounced Coranunism the same as I always had denounced
Fascism. Both political aberrations are always bound to
meet at twelve o'clock if they start at six with Communism
running to the left and Fascism to the right. Their so-called
ideologies are basically the same and any German- Jewish
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refugee^, who nowadays fall* for the extreme lef twlng move-
are/
ment in America, /M guilty of betrayal - not only betrayal
of the country which gave them a new lease on life, but also
betrayal of Judaism and the Jewish nation of Israel.
Anyway, these two letters I mailed to Shanghai
were shown by our friend to another friend of ours who as
would have/
chance/i
it knew these people well. He had gone to
school in Hamburg with the man who now was in a c6ncen»
tration camp. He sent a wire without delay in which he
Job/
assured that an immediate/Was available at any time the
two people would arrive. The Nazis let the two people go
and they made it to Shanghai where they stayed all through
the war. I never heard from them. As far as I was concerned
the matter had been resolved. After the war's end they
emigrated to America where they had close relatives. I
never could understand why they had not contacted these
relatives from Germany and before it was too late. They
must have suffered from the same kind of political stupidity
as so many other German and Austrian Jews who instead of
acting in time ended in the gas chambers.
The couple settled in Los Angeles after the war and
there we met them by chance. We became friends, close friends
indeed. Late in life they begot a son who became the apple
of thetr eyes. This son grew up to become a young man with
no special talents or any particular attraction. He was an
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average youth, intellectually and pshysically, who - adored
and pampered by his parents- accepted their misguided dictum
that he was a genius. As time went on the parents believed
in their son as the Greeks believed in the oracles of Delphi.
Without any question they took any of his opinions as the
gospel truth. After years of hard struggle they suddenly
began to prosper and acted more and more like the prover-
bial "newly rich". In short, they became unbearable bores.
To top it all and contrary to their capitalistic achieve-
ment they suddenly turned anti-American and extremely left-
wing. That was beyond what Annie and I could endure. They
themselves had not the intelligence to acquire any politi-
cal opinion of their own. We felt sure that the son, who
by then was a student at the University of California in
Berkeley, had brainwashed them as he must have been brain-
washed by one of the left-wing professors at this univeiity.
And so it turned out to be. I said "newly rich" are bores.
Extremists of the right or left are double-bores. Each and
every one of them are the gravediggers of our nation.
One day the young man proudly told me that he adored
ftdel Castro and abhorred everything these United States
stand for. Instead of being a "brilliant" young man - as
his parents advertised him - he was as stupid and blind as
that minority of our youth who shout the loudest and manage
to turn rightful dissent into illegal riots.
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This anarchistic minority seeks/
f IBB WM WB and received an undeserved publicity by our
commercial news media although they are not the true re-
presentatives of the general protest movement of our young
generation. These few, relatively young men and women, like
the son of our friends, reduce all the problems in the world
to primordial, primitive ideologies. They are crying for
freedom of speech for themselves, but not for others who
expouse opposite opinions. They are the talkers and anyone
else has to listen. They are the kind of fanatics with whom
an argument is not possible. But without mutual dialogue,
mutual debate there won't be any progress. If the recog-
nition of the divergence of opinion4is not upheld as the
foremost basis of humanitarian ism, the majority rule of
the people will come to an end as it had in all dictator-
ship countries. The affrontery of these fanatics is beyond
any rational understanding.
When we found out that his non-thinking parents agreed
with this boy, we felt at a loss. We could not believe it,
but we also could not remain friends with anyone who would
oppose the essential democracy of our country. After much
thought I wrote a letter to the son. It is a letter which I
would like to write to all the young Americans who have
turned against their country or the establishment, as they
choose to call it.
"To say that I was shocked about your political views,"
so I wrote to the misguided and confused young man, "would
be an understatement. I was unable to believe that you could
fall victim to some sort of brainwashing. If I understood
you right, you don't trust anything American, but every-
thing Russian or Cuban despite the fact that the Russians
haven't kept a single International agreement. They have
broken them all. You discard the fact that men like Lenin,
Stalin, Krushev and others of their kind (including Hitler
and Mussolini) have murdered millions and millions of inno-
cent people, that they have suppressed freedom of mind and
speech. You confuse Socialism with Marxist-Leninism, which
are two entirely different ideologies, if one can call the
latter an ideology at all. Wherever the Communists came
to power, they eliminated the Social-Democrats first be-
cause they and not the Fascists are their most natural
enemies. I wonder, if you ever have read "Das Kapital"
by Karl Marx. If you haven't, I would advise you to do so
because you'll find that it has no similarity to the pre-
sent-day feudalistic Communist systems. Besides, it has
become obsolete in our times.
"Here are a few quotations by men whom you cannot
suspect of being anti-socialist, even anti-Communist.
Andre Gide wrote: 'Culture will always be in peril where
criticism cannot be freely practiced.' Max Eastman wrote:
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'Those who consecrate themselves to Communism must not only
cast out truth, mercy, justice and personal honor, but under*
go a sickening discipline in lies, cruelties, crime and
self-abasement. ' Maxim Gorki said: 'Lenin was a man who
prevented people to live their own lives as no other man
before was able to do.' Lenin himself declared: 'We must
be ready to employ flBiHMH|f trickery, deceit, lawbreaking,
withholding and concealing truth.' In fact, Leninism is not
a dictatorship of the proletariat, but over the proletariat.
At the end of his life Karl Marx allegedly said: 'One thing
is certain, I am not a Marxist.'
"If there is so much more freedom in nowadays Russia,
as you claim, why must there be still an iron curtain, why
the infamous wall in Berlin? Has this wall been erected to
prevent people from coming in or from escaping out? None
of the evils which Communists claim must be remedied
re/
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worse than Communism itself. Like a fungus it feeds
on the ills of the world. If this was not so, the honest
writers and thinkers in Russia would not be thrust into
slave-labor camps or Insane asylums.
"You told me that you would like to visit Cuba for
a few days. I think, it would be a very good lesson for
you if you did. Castro has declared: 'I am going to intrc
duce In Cuba a system like the Russians have - only our
Cuban system will be better.' Yes, it is so good flBH
that the poor Cubans slowly starve. When Castro came to
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power, he exchanged Batista's Fascist regime for his Commu-
nist regime. The aims are the same: Total dictaprship. When
Castro came to power, he promised free elections, free speech,
free press and free land for the landless peasants. Please,
don't worry I Nothing came of it! He didn't keep any of
these promises. Like a true Communist dictator he promised
the poor people paradise on earth, but promises are cheap.
"Louis Antoine de Saint Just, the arch-angel of the
French revolution, said: 'The stones are cut for the build-
ing of freedom. You can either build a temple or a tomb
with the same stones .'*' Fidel Castro chose to build a tomb.
"Please, don't grow into a phony intellectual. I have
seen too many fall by the wayside, devoured by their own
naive and sometimes evil aspirations. There is no sub-
stitute for democracy - with all its shortcomings. To
breathe - one needs air, free air."
I did not receive an answer to this letter. We lost
these good friends of whom my father had written" What-
ever you do for them, you do for me." But I am prejudiced
against ignoramuses, vain pretenders of knowledge and
self- inflated nincompoops - and that what these friends
turned out to be. I do not condone treason in any form.
If it had been hot and humid in Manila, it
was even hotter and more humid in Iloilo. Never before had
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I felt so lonely and unhappy. The worst was the separation
from Annie. I wrote to her an average of three letters a
day and she answered them all. Besides, I worried more and
more about my parents in Germany where the persecution of
the Jews grew with furious and brutal i(£ensity.
I became a true worrier in Iloilo because there is no
inducement to/
deeper/mental illness than loneliness. As far as I knew
there was only one other guest at the so-called *'Hotel de
Paris" where I had rented a room. D^A^pite the grand-elo»
quent name it was a ramshackle, wooden, two-story building
which could not have seen paint for years. The room was
relatively clean. Twice a week a houseboy swept and dusted
it. I never saw him wet-mop the floor, but he changed the
bed linen each Saturday which didn't do much good. Sweat=»
ing as one did, the linen was always clammy and smelly.
Outside the window was a swampy field, the habitat
of thousands of bull- frogs who kept quiet during the day
and barked like puppy dogs during the night. This kind of
concert was not very inductive to falling asleep, but given
time a human being gets used to anything. After a week I
didn't notice the barking anymore.
But when one night about two weeks later these damned
bull-frogs stopped barking with a razor- like suddenness from
one second to the next, just as I was lifting the mosquito
net to go to bed, the total silence was like an unseen, or
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in this case unheard terror in the darkness of the night.
I had one leg on the bed and just froze.
"What now?" llsked.
"They stopped barking," Timothy stupidly answered.
"I noticed it." 1 said. "Why?"
"Those animals have more sense than human beings,"
Timothy explained. "We're going to have an earthquake."
"You must be kidding," I told him and retrieved my
foot from the bed and got out from under the mosquito net.
"Jesus Christ," Timothy said angrily, "I haven't got
any humor left in this hell hole, pardon me, God. Better
brace yourself," he advised me.
"Brace myself?" 1 asked him. "Are you nuts? We better
get out of this shack before it collapses.
It
Timothy sighed. "Why don't you trust me for once?
We two have been in worse fixes. Hold on, here it comes."
It was too late. I wasn't holding on to anything when
the earthquake struck. And how it struck! I was thrown clear
across the room. The building swayed as if a big wave was
rolling under it. There was a horrifying, ear-splitting
noise as if the entire building was breaking apart. It
was - but the other half of it. The chest of drawers in
was/
my room/feB VHi pushed from one side to the other. The
bed followed. The one and only chair became a Poltergeist
or an acrobat. It did summer-saults or something of the
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sort. And then it was over. The bull-frogs had survived.
They started barking again.
"We better look if anybody has been hurt," I said to
Timothy, trying to control my trembling.
"Sure," he retorted ironically. "You're the kind of
guy who would think of going on a rescue mission. I managed
to have everybody on this side of the house. Nobody got hurt
I don't like to rummage through debris with you in the
middle of the night. All what the owners can do tomorrow
is boarding this half up and let it go at that. Go to
sleep, man. Itis all over aside of a few tremblers maybe.'*
I pushed the chest of drawers and the bed back where
they belonged, straightened up the room and felt annoyed
about Timothy who wasn't even trying to give me a hand.
The funny thing, though, was that I never slept so well in
Iloilo before or later. Natural catastrophes seem to be part
of my life and I thrived on them. Yet, when I saw the damage
the next morning, I wondered. There was really nothing left
of the other half ojf the hotel but rubble. Our store was
a shambles with all the merchandise strewn about. We had
to do a clean-up job before we could open. And I sent a
telegram to Annie that I was all right in case she heard
about the quake over the radio or read what happened in
the papers. My boss called from Manila, and I asked him
why the hell he ever had gotten the idea to have a store
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in this god- forsaken place. He didn't give me a very friendly
answer and I told him he could do the same.
The average men and women all over the world
think, believe and are even convinced that all there is to
life is sex (which is being exploited beyond the limits of
endurance) , a so-called formal education or the knowledge
of a trade and work in their chosen field whatever that may
be. They get married and produce children, or they stay
single and avoid producing children in which endeavour
they do not always succeed. They participate in some sport
or play games, watch television, and in general employ the
grey cells of the brain as little as possible or only as
much as their daily work demands. The most common conver-
sation centers around food. They live to eat instead of
eating to live.
At no time do they consciously realize that there is
so much more to life. Li^ demands of us constantly to
think and study, to get involved, never to stop our edu-
cation and have true faith in God or some higher spirit
which not necessarily means adhering to the dogmas and
rituals of an organized and mechanized religious sect,
which again dulls the mind.
It is my conviction that this earth of ours Is a
test station, and we better prove ourselves worthy or we
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are Jeopardizing our future destiny after we've been
taken off this station.
The majority of people avoid serious thinking,
serious studying and reading. They use the lame excuse
that they don't have time for reading and studying in-
stead of admitting that they don't have any desire for
it. They always have time for all sorts of other (Activi-
ties. They claim that life is too short for not making
the best of it by having a good time which to them means
devouring too much and often unhealthy food, gambling,
partying, copulating, participating in childish games
or sports (they even dare calling hunting a sport),
sitting in front of a TV set, watching indiscriminatingly
one show after the other or being glued to the set follow-
ing sport games, none of which enAiches their minds one
iota.
Life is not short at all. Life is eternal, for to
measure life simply by our sojourn on this planet is sheer
foolishness. Life existed before we were born and will go
on after we have passed on. During the time in between
we have a duty to endow ourselves spiritually with a sense
of humane values. A human being should also be a humane
being. Are we always? Pleasures and joys are part of
living as long as they don't stunt our good will.
Life constantly demands of us to think and consider the
thinking of others. Life demands that we combat without let-uf
our mental and spiritual laziness. Life, we must
recognize, is the pinnacle of existence and to waste it on
jejune trivialities is the greatest sin we can commit. No
one can solely live his or her own life. We all have to
live for the welfare of all mankind. We have to think for
all and work for all. We cannot simply sit back and say
for instance: I <jnly look out for number one, that is for
myself. We cannot simply accept the untrue theory that war
cannot be avoided because there were always wars and there
will be always wars as neighbors cannot get along with
neighbors. We can and must get along with one another by
give and take, by good will toward all. If we strive to
get involved in peace (without breaking the peace ourselves
by rioting and committing violence in the name of peace),
there can be peace on earth. We have to think peace within
our small circles as well as world-wide; we have to pray
for peace unless we want to remain the sheep we are. But
the kind of professional pacifism which creates violence
and rejects the freedom of democracy is perpetuating war
and strife among the people of the world. We must learn
that free speech cannot solely belong to one group and
should be denied to^other groups. Free speech has to be
universal or there is no free speech at all. Without/
mutual dialogue, without give and take we cannot have
universal peace. Generation gap and establishment are
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meaningless words unless we listen to one another. We roust
speak out, but we also must listen, or we will never pro-
gress toward our goal for universal brotherhood. Young or
old, Russians or Americans, French or Germans, Chinese or
Indians, whites or blacks or browns or yellows - we all are
human beings, children of the same God, created with the
same good will and the same mental and physical systems.
We are all living beings with the same bodily functions and
the same capability to act on our own, to think for our*
selves. But do we think? Do we act? Or are we complacent,
silent and uncommitted? It is not enough that a few of us
act for the good or evil of mankind. We all have to use
our minds and our brains if we want to create the paradise
this earth can be. God has created us, and we create our
lives for the best or worst of all. People who never read
a serious book, people who don't think universally have
lost their right to judge and to vote their own destinies
and the destiny of all mankind. All people are bom equal
although they are not made equal. Yet, all people have the
same human and spiritual rights before God and the law. If
you have to fight City Hall, do not hesitate. You always
have a chance to win. And if you lose, you've done your
duty. You are mankind, each one of you and don't ever ask
or think what can one single person do? Mankind consist
of single persons.
Iloilo was quite a lesson for me. A lesson
in self-discipline; a lesson in forbearance; a lesson in
never displaying fear; and a lesson in learning that most
people, rich or poor, will steal or cheat if they can get
away with it. Dishonesty seems always be more tempting than
honesty.
I remember seeing a man running out of a gambling
place across the street from our store followed by an-
other man, brandishing one these vicious, razor sharp
bolo knives. The first man ran in terror and the other
threw his knife from a distance of at least twenty yards
with such dexterity that it hit the other fellow at ex-
actly the spot where the heart or lung was. Death was
immediately. Nobody on the street even as much as turned
an eye. The dead man lay there and nobody cared. Some time
later two policemen came and carted the body away.
Iloilo could have broken me in a few days if I had
given in, that is if I had shown any fear or had tried to
act superior. I had to act the boss without being bossy.
The natives were fiendishly proud. It did destory my suc-
cessor within a year. He committed suicide because he was
by nature a coward without any inner resources and reserves
and no ability to cope with this primitive way of living, f
He was a vegetarian in a place where there were no orfeanic
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fruit or vegetables. He displayed his fears where he should
have displayed fearlessness. Like any animal will sense fear
and act accordingly, so did the natives of Hollo, or at
least most of them. There were as many good people as any-
where else. However, my successor was a man who could not
and would not accept the truth that nothing Is as serious
as it looks. So he succumbed to the hardship that life In
Hollo asserted. One could make friends with the people
n ,
there who like children acted positively to kl^ness and
fiercely antagonistic to indifference. He hadn't the courage
to stand up and not the wisdom to leave before he fell
victim to his own shortcomings. I had no intention of
staying either in Hollo or Manila as much as my good
friend Gushi tried to dissuade me from leaving. Besides,
I don't think that I could have held out in Iloilo longer
than a few weeks without losing my mind and either kill
some one or break down myself.
A short time ^fter we had opened our store the police
chief of Hollo paid me a visit. He was a man of high stand"
Ing in town and pompously showed it. His English was funny,
but understandable. In any event I had the good sense to
treat him with all the courtesy and reverence due his po»
sltion. Quite obviously he had expected it from me and was
well satisfied with my behaviour. After all, I was the in"
a propos de rien - without a motive -/
truder, the stranger and n/wasn't entitled to his protection.
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If he granted it to me, he did so voluntarily. Almost any-
where in the Far East (except Japan) a man could disappear
and remain so for good. I was determined not to get lost.
The chief came to ask me if I knew that the stock
clerk, Romero, whom I had hired, was on parole after hav-
ing served close to twenty years of a life sentence in
prison. Of course, I didn't know. Romero had shown me
letters of recommendation which had satisfied me. The chief
smiled and explained that anyone could buy forged letters
of recommendation for as little as j^ive pesos per letter.
He was sure that none of the letters he had shown me were
genuine, and he warned me to be cautious with this man
who had a quick temper and little compunction to kill.
and/
I thanked the chief for his kindness/ assured him that I
1/ .^J/ ^
would keep my eye<>on Romero*liBI gBli/accompan>*^ the great''
man to the door where we shook hands, after I had made it
clear to him that any merchandise he or his wife wished to
buy would not charged to them. I had won him over to my
side. This was an important step, for Romero and the other
personeli had watched us. It was good to be chummy with the
chief of police.
As a matter of fact, Romero was doing a good Job and
it wouldn't be easy to replace him. He had learned his duties,
spoke and understood passable English. I liked him and be-
lieved that this feeling was mutual.
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After the chief was gone I called Romero to my office
(a roped-off space in the stockroom) and asked him why he
had not told me that he was an ex-convict. He shrugged his
shoulders. His body went rigid and I could see the tension
in his brown, bony face.
"Boss, would you have hired me if you had known?" he
asked.
"Probably not," I confessed honestly.
"Do you want to sack me now?" There was a slight threat
in his voice. "No one but you would have hired me. They all
think I'm dangerous. I*ve a very bad temper," he admitted,
"but I like you. You treat me like a human being. I am a
human being. Before I did what I did and went to prison
I had a good education and wanted to go to college, but
that is all over now."
All the while he held in his right hand a sharp knife
with which he opened cartons. I didn't dare to take it away
from him. He could stab faster than I could reach.
I certainly could not afford to show any fear, so
I acted sternly, but not unfriendly. Without hesitating
he freely admitted that the letters of recommendation, he
had shown me, were forgeries.
Before I went to Iloilo my boss had handed me a small
Beretta revolver^
admonish-
ing me to keep it always loaded and never be without it.
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After all, I was handling what amounted to a fortune in
a place like Iloilo, and I had to take the daily cash to
the one and only bank in town each day. He also advised
me never to walk the same streets and at the same time
each day when I went to the bank. Any routine was a
a hold-up./
dangerous invitation foryilHBBfli MlHlHHBi
Well, I looked at Romero without flinching an eye lid
as he stood in front of me, fingering his knife and not
flinching an eye either. I told him that I was satisfied
with his work and had no intention of letting him go,
nevermind what he had done in the past, but I also warned
him to mind his ways as long as he was in my employ. See*
ing that I had offended his pride, I did something which
could have turned out to be the most foolish act I had
ever committed. However, I had to show him that I wouldn't
stand for any nonsense. If I would fail, it could have had
disastrous consequences. Remembering that I had been what
is called a "Scharfschuetze" in the German army during the
first world war, I got the crazy idea that once a sharp-
shooter always a sharp-shooter although I had/ not handled
any weapons for a long time.
I picked up a black marking pencil and stepped to a
four by four pole, one of several holding up the roof in
the stockroom. I marked the pole with a black spot the
size of a dime, then stepped back again as far as I could.
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Romero watched me, probably wondering what I was up to.
He didn't yet know that I was carrying a revolver. As
quickly as I could 1 pulled the Beretta from my pocket,
released the safety catch at the same time and pressed
the trigger, apparently shooting without any visible aim-
ing. I guess, I was more surprised than Romero that the
little bullet hit the black spot so exactly that it dis-
appeared. It seemed almost impossible. For SHHM IBiVL
years I had not handled any fire-arms, but I had had a
thorough training in all sorts of weapons. If Romero
had asked me to do it again, I certainly would have failed
Not in a lifetime would I have been able to repeat this
performance. It was like a hole- in-one for an amateur
golfer.
Timothy whispered to me, "Please, don't ever act so
asinine again. A guardian angel isn't supposed to be a
magician." As always he claimed all the glory for himself.
I just ignored him.
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I looked at Romero who grinned all over Yucb face now.
"Bull's ey9," he said proudly.
That was it. God Almighty, had I been lucky. Any more
words were unnecessary. That shot was the kind of language
he understood better than any other. It had Impressed him
mightily, but no more than it had me. Romero and I became
very good friends. In fact, he must have bragged about my
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I was treated with much respect from there on on. I became
a legend all over the island and heard that 1 had acquired
the nickname "Mr. Bulls-Eye". During the seven weeks I
stayed in Iloilo I had with two exceptions no serious
troubles. I went daily to the bank with a bag full of
money and not once did anyone attempt to waylay me. I was
safe because I was Hr, Bulls-Eye, a much admired gringo.
I was safe but for one young man. .
From then on I could trust Romero Implicitly. He never
tried to steal (yu do anything wrong. This man, who had
served twenty years in prison for cold-bloodedly murder-
one of the few really/ ,jcy
ing a whole family, was/tfHHBM trustworthy men I met in
my life.
shooting dexterity.
The word got around and
Iloilo was an experience in all kind of
adventures. There was the case of the rubber shoes. There
was the case of the clean and the dirty bar. There was the
case - well, there were so many cases I couldn't list them
all. There was the case of the Japanese carpenter; of the
Folies Bergere; of Javero, my assistant, whom I had taken
along from Manila on his persuasion that I would need an
interpreter. There were the two dozens svales girls I had
hired, and the one I had to fire. She had a boyfriend who
promised me that I never would leave Iloilo alive. And
there ^ere the ten men who assembled in front of the store
to shoot and kill me. There was the one and only taxicab
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driver who also was a procurer. All in all, I never sighed
a deeper breath of relief as on the day when I finally could
return to Manila and Annie. Timothy almost cried for joy
the very moment the boat went under steam away from the
Island of Panay.
As a matter of record the people of Hollo had never
seen any store like ours where merchandise was displayed in
the open and where they could select themselves whatever
they wanted. Stealing became a real sport and a challenge
whether or not Javero or I would catch them. None of the
shoplifters were ever arrested because the few policemen
thougW^it was a good joke or game, whenever I reported it.
The police chief himself was an honest man and didn't take
me up on my offer to get any merchandise free of charge.
If I ever had worked hard, I did so getting the store
In shape for opening. Gushi had come over for a week to
help me. We worked sixteen hours a day to get the tables
and cashregisters in place, the merchandise on display and
the stockroom filled up. We had to hire the personnel, train
them and have them swear on the bible not to steal a centavo.
None of the girls had ever worked in a store or had sold
anything. They came from poor families, ovmed one good
dress, but no shoes or stockings. They had no bathroom
at home or ever seen one. Each morning I had to line them
up and Inspect them to make sure their arms, hands, legs
and feet were clean. If not, they had to go to the so-
called ladies' room and wash up. Sometimes I felt like
a eunuch in a
seraglio - and that's no joke. Only
a week went by when I was made aware of the sad fact that
some of the girls had no idea how to use a modem flush-
water toilet. They had never seen one and left it strictly
alone, being suspicious of its actual function. Instead
they squatted over the grating in the center of the cement
floor which was there so that the water could run off when
Romero hosed the restroom down. He reported to me about
the smell in the toilet.
I had no choice but to call the supervisor girl, whom
I had hired for this position because she was better educ*
ated than the others. I explained to her what was going on
(wondering why it was Romero and not she who had reported
the mess) and charged her to teach the girls how to use
the toilet bowl. For a while afterwards it became a happy
sport to flush the bowl until I had to put a stop to it
and order them not to do so unless necessary.
All in all they were good girls, but they were like
children who could not be scolded, but had to be treated
with loving kindness. We had organized the Hollo store
the same way as the Manila store. Each of the twenty tables
had its own merchandise inventory and cash register which
the girls had been taught to manipulate through many hours
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of hard sweat. They liked the cash registers as children
like mechanized toys and treated them as such. If merchan"
dize inventory and the amount of cash didn't come out ex-
actly right, that was my headache. I had twenty headaches
each and every day. Their knowledge of figures were very
poor. More often than not they confused adding with sub-
tracting and vice versa. Besides, they couldn't understand
why they weren't allowed to exchange certain items from
one table to the other. If one day one of the girls liked
selling combs and another was enamored with selling certain
custom jewelry pieces, they just exchanged them, and I was
left with holding the bags. There was a numbered bag for
hadn't/
each numbered cash register and since TT'
done any
bookkeeping either, I just manipulated all the figures so
that somehow they came out rig^ in the total amount. So
Gushi and the boss in Manila had a total headache each day
which made them so unhappy that they mailed a stream of in'
suiting inter-office memos to me. After a while I gave up
reading them and just filed them away in a special port-
folio which I labeled: "The Babieca File" - The Nonsense
File.
I had my two special headaches. One was Felicitas and
the other Javero. I had hired Felicitas, an exceptional
beautiful girl who always wore shoes, to supervise and
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assistant, whom in\ his plea 1 had taken with me from
Manila to act as interpreter and store manager to relieve
me for other duties^ had turned out to be a flop. Despite
his assurances in Manila that he did, he neither understood
nor spoke the particular Iloilo dialect. Not a single word.
He spoke some English, Spanish and Tagalog, but not Iloilo-
nese which was very important because most of the customers
and all our girls, except Felicitas, did not speak anything
else. To add to the troubles Javero was a ladies' man. He
couldn't leave the girls alone although he never tried any
hanky-panky with Felicitas. Despite my repeated warnings
that I would send him back to Manila without a job if I
would find him once more with a girl somewhere in a dark
comer in the back, I caught him in flagranti time and
again with his pants down.
Naturally, I depended more and more dn Felicitas to
keep things running in the store while I was busy in my
office or had to go on an errand. One fine afternoon, how-
ever, I couldn't find her anywhere. I asked Javero if he
had seen her. He shrugged his shoulders. I ordered him to
look for her, but he had no intention to do so.
"Madre de Dios," he said. "Boss, you better don't
bother."
"Why not?"
troubleshoot which she did quite efficiently. Javero, my
He was fearful, so much was obvious. "Boss - Felicitas
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is a sel^ora muy cari^osa."
"Speak English," I told him.
"You see, boss, she's very affectionate with her boy-
friend. If I were you, I'd leave her alone. She'll be back
soon.
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He refused looking for her and so I had to do it my-
self. I went back to my office in the stockroom and asked
Romero if he had seen Felicitas. Romero grinned from ear
to ear. He was a tough hombre and didn't know fear. He
pointed with his head toward an aisle in the stockroom,
but he put his fingers to his lips to keep quiet. I was
kind of bewildered, as if I had fallen into a real-to-
life mystery. With Romero following me I cautiously tiptoed
down the aisle. I kept my hand in ray pocket where I had
the Beretta in case I would need it. Something was wrong.
I almost could smell it. Well, at the end of the semi-
dark aisle I found Felicitas with a young man with whom
I had had trouble before. He had been coming to the store
for the only purpose to annoy the girls. As cocky as a
young rooster he hacii't been easy to handle. Since he
kept one/or the other girl from doing her work, I had
told him at one time to stay away from the store. He had
simply sneered at me and left, making an obscene move with
his hand at me. From Romero I had learned that this young
rake/ number- one/
/■■I was the^son of the richest man on the island whom no-
body dared to oppose, not even the police chief. This man
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owned more real estate on the islands of Panay and the
neighboring Negros than anyone else. Besides, he ran all
the gambling dens and brothels. In a way one could con-
sider him the Al Capone of Panay and Negros. He was the
law - period. I never met him face to face. Supposedly,
he lived in an elaborate ranch house on a large pine apple
and cobra plantation. But he had other habitats on Negros
and in Manila as well as Baguio, so I was told. To cross
him was like sentencing oneself to death. However, 1 hadn't
heard that any one of the seven foreigners, living in
Iloilo, had ever been bothered by him. Three or four of
them knew him and said he was a charming man as long as
one didn't interfere with his affairs.
So I
tiptoed down the serai-dark aisle between
rows of shelves and bins, containing all kinds of merchan-
dise. I found Felicitas at the very end of the aisle, quite
pleasantly engaged with this young man whose name was Felipe
They didn't notice my approach. After all, love-making is
always an all-absorbing activity. They had taken some
cushions from a bin afid had converted them on the floor
into a bed on which they were comfortably lying, Felipe
on top of Felicitas. It was good business for them and
bad business for me. With my hand still on the Beretta in
intercourse/
my pocket I interrupted them just when th^mBK between
the two was coming to a climax. What then happened the
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very next moment I cannot recount. Felipe acted as fast
a/
asy'striking cobra. Within a split-second he was up, a bolo
knife in his hand which he pressed against my abdomen be-
fore I could even take another breath. Our encounter was
a draw
unless I wanted to shoot the boy through my
pocket. The girl got up, leisurely adjusted her dress and
then kind of sneaked away.
Felipe pushed the knife harder so that its point
pricked my skin through my shirt. I slowly retreated,
but he didn't give up until we were in the open near
my
roped-off office. There he relaxed and buttoned his fly.
By then 1 had my Beretta out and pointed it at him.
*'you try and shoot me, mister," he said in good
English, "and you won't live another day."
dare to/ and/
I knew, I couldn' t/show any fear^ VHHI looked straight
at him. "I'm going to shoot the next time I'll see you in
the store or back here."
"Mr. BullisEye, hey?" he laughed. "I know you can shoot
like the devil, but it won't do you any good. What my father
says on this Island goes. Man, you caught me here and for
that you won't leave this island alive. You better be care-
fuiy, Mr. BuU's-Eye. You shoot fast, but I throw my knife
faster. We'll watch you wherever you go. The day you leave,
you'll die."
Before I could say another word, he ran out like a cat
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on light feet through the store and into the street. I
called Javero and told him what happened. He was visibly
upset.
"Boss, you should have acted as if you hadn't seen the
two. That boy is bad medicine." He shrugged his shoulders
and I could have slapped his face. "Boss, I wouldn't give
a centavo for you."
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You can go to hell, Javero," I told him angrily.
"Tell Felicltas that she's fired as of this moment."
Javero shook his head. "Not me, boss. She's also
want to/
trouble. If you^ire her, better do it yourself. I'm
scared. She has five brothers and they've many friends."
I ordered Javero to tell Felicltas that I wished to
later/
see her in my office. A few minutes/she came. She looked
sullenly at me as if it all were my fault.
I counted out whatever salary was coming to her, asked
her to sign a receipt, which she did, and then told her to
get out and stay out. She didn't protest. Not a word. She
just turned around and left.
Naturally, I felt disturbed over the possibility that
I might have to shoot to kill in case I was attacked.
I heard Timothy mumbling somdthing about death being
much less painful than living.
"Nevermind your cheap philosophy," I turned on him.
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the back. They can throw bolo knives from quite a distance
and still hit the target where it hurts."
"Next time don't threaten to shoot anyone, stupid,"
Timothy grumbled. "I don't know what's the matter with
you. You get the two of us into the darndest situations."
"You can say that again, Timothy."
"I won't, but I haven't been trained to divert bolo
knives."
"Nevermind that baloney. You've been trained to pro-
tect me and that's all I care about."
At this moment Javero appeared at my office. I was
still mad at him and determined to send him home with the
next boat. He was no help to me. I rather depended on my
family murderer, Romero.
"Boss," Javero said, "you better come to the stogie and
see for yourself."
"See what for myself?" I asked him irritatedly.
"You better come and have a look," Javero repeated.
I got up and went into the store. Javero pointed to
the two front doors. I'll be damned, I thought. Ten fero-
ciously looking young men had lined themselves up in front
of the store. Their dark faces were inscrutable like stone
masks. Each one of them carried an ancient, long-barreled
gun which must have been in use at the turn of the century
when one Jose Rizal led a powerful movement for independence
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from the Spaniards.
"Who are they?" I asked Javero who stared at me as if
I were stupid or something. Business in the store went on
as usual. Customers entered and left as if these ten young
men were invisible.
"They're up to something no good," Javero gloomily
predicted.
"I can see that, but who are they?" I repeated my
question impatiently.
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You better ask Romero," Javero advised. "He might
know."
"All right, call Romero.
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When he returned with my family murderer, I asked him,
"Do you know these fellows, Romero?"
"I guess, they're Felicitas' brothers and their friends.
They're muy serio, boss. They'll shoot you for the honor
of Felicitas. She lost face when you fired her."
"How the devil could she get them together so quickly?"
"She probably knew where they hang out and went straight
to that place. If Felicitas needs help, she gets it pronto."
"What about Felipe? Hasn't he a gang of his own?"
"Sure, but he wouldn't use any of his friends to kill
you. They'll spy on you maybe, but they won't harm you.
You're Felipe's personal target. He's going to kill you
himself, boss."
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kill him first, Romero," I said although I dldn^^t like the
Idea very much. "Why are these fellow waiting out there?
Why don't they just come In and start shooting?"
"No, boss. If they start shooting In here, they might
hit some of our people. They want only you, so they wait
until you'll leave. Maybe tomorrow they'll forget all about
it if you call the police chief to give Felicitas a talking-
to.
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"I could call the chief now and have these fellows
arrested."
"He wouldn't, boss. They haven't done anything yet."
"All right, Romero. You better go back to your work."
Turning to Javero, I told him to watch the store while
I was in my office until closing time.
I just had settled behind my desk when Javero appeared
like a dog with his tail between his hind legs.
"I don't like it here anymore," he complained. "If
they shoot you, they may shoot me, too." And then he added
quite sensibly, "I don't like shootingy
"Who does?" I asked.
boss."
"If you don't mind, boss, I'd like to go back to Manila."
That's what I had in mind anyway. By asking for it, he
saved me the trouble of telling him. I'olavero, if you want
to go back, you^go back. I guess, they can use you better
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in Manila. They're going to open a second store, a kind
of fire-sale store - whatever that is. How about going
back tomorrow? 'jif
"That's good, boss. Very good." He smiled happily.
"All right. That's settled. I'll call the Corapania
Maritima and hooK yo\i for tomorrow's boat."
"Thank you, boss."
After Javero had gone back to the store I told Romero
to pack the six gross of rubber shoes we had received from
the Manila store. They would go with Javero the next day.
It was ludicrous and Gushi should have known it. Selling
rubber shoes in Hollo was like selling ice boxes to
eskimos. Despite strict orders not to return^ them, I
would do so anyway. I couldn't even give them away. The
boss could shove - no, I won't tell what he could do. I'm
not a writer of pornography.
At last, I could sit down at my desk and have a talk
with Timothy who mischievously snickered at me.
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Whenever you get yourself into trouble," he said.
"you think you should have a talk with me. I'm getting
as tired of Hollo as your boy Javero. When do we leave
here?"
"In three or four weeks."
Timothy kept silent.
"Did the devil get your tongue?" I asked him.
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"Don't you dare and conjure up the devil I" Timothy
warned me angrily.
"All right, then you tell me what we're going to do
with these ten cut-throats out there waiting for me?"
"How am I supposed to know? That fellow Felipe Is
much more dangerous. You better watch out for hlra."
"I leave Felipe to you. Besides, he won't do any-
thing until the day we leave."
"You shouldn't have fired that girl. She was doing
good work."
"With Felipe?"
"That was fun and not work," Timothy reminded me.
"We don't make fun in the store."
"Don't I know it?" Timothy complained.
"All right, what are we going to do with these
fellows outside?"
"Call the police chief after you closed the store
tonight so that they'll leave you in peace tomorrow. To-
night you'll do what I tell you." He had a good idea and
going/ shooting match./
I was^to follow it. It could be that there wouldn't be a /
"Okay, but it better works. I don't care to die in
Hollo of all places."
"Oh, you bore me," Timothy said disgustedly. "What
difference does it make where you die? Moreover, your time
isn't up yet. Why can't you people understand that there
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is no death. Nothing dies. I told you so often that life
is eternal although of course it undergoes certain changes.
You shed your body like a caterpillar sheds it cocoon. Life
always goes on. Death is only a human imagination. It does
not exist."
"Thank you, wise old man," I retorted ironically . "If
death doesn't exist, why do we die?"
"You don'.t listen." He sighed in despair. "No one
dies. The body dies and your soul goes on to another
place of existence. Like me /although I had bad luck to
become a guardian angel. It isn't an improvement of what
I've been, believe y6u me. A guardian angel has little rest
and being assigned to you means not getting any rest at
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all. Almost none. Hollo - for instance - that' s^ the last
would/
place l/choose to be."
"Do you think I want to be in Iloilo? Well, I'll
take your advice for tonight, but God help you if it
misfires."
"Stop worrying already," Timothy told me angrily. "I
can't afford to be wrong. You do as I told you and every-
thing will be all right. Now leave me alone, will you. I
need some rest."
He retired into a comer and ^iylked. I worked at my
desk for the next two hours and when it came to closing
time I got up and went to the store with Timothy following
me.
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As usual the girls went home at seven. Although Javero
generally stayed with me until all the chores were done,
I let him also go at the same time. Scared as he was, I
had no further use for him. I locked the two front doors,
pulled the shades and acted as if I didn't see the ten men
with their long-barreled guns. Thec^ hadn't moved an inch,
standing there ■■■■ like rooted trees. If Romero was right
they expected me to leave the same way through one of the
front doors because I had done so each evening. Their
simple, untrained minds just worked one way and they
could only act as they always did when they were bent on
eliminating an enemy. They knew I had a gun. They knew I
could shoot well. They would give me a fair chance to de-
fend myself. It seemed almost unbelievable, HBHIHHHI
and I had a feeling that I was living a ghost story. They
had missed their chance to shoot because they wouldn't do
so unless I made myself available to them in the street
where I would be an open prey like an animal for hunters.
As I did each night I made the rounds to empty the
cash registers. Having done so I turned off all lights
except two. Then I retreated to my office in the rear,
deposited the twenty money bags in a deep, wall safe.
Romero, like a faithful dog, waited for my orders. I could
rely on him and so, following Timothy's simple plan, I
sent him out through the rear door to tell the taxi driver
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to pick me up there instead of at the front. None of the
ten men, so Romero had assured me, would think I was a
coward and avoid open combat. If 1 did, not the girl but
I had lost face. While waiting for the taxi, I called the
police chief who promised that I won't be bothered the next
day. Timothy had figured it would be much easier for him
if I played the coward for once and lost face. Ten long-
barr/Ied guns, even if they were old and rusty, against my
small Beretta were bad odds. He might be able to save me
from getting killed, but not from getting injured. If I
got away this night, I had nothing to worry about but
Felipe on my last day in Iloilo. This boy was made from
a different mold. He was an educated Juvenile delinquent
who not likely would forget his promise.
All went according to plan and I arrived safe and
sound at the so-called clean bar (we only went to the
dirty bar for a short drink in the afternoon) . To me
there wasn't much different between the two bars. Both
weren't really clean and both served execrable food and
watered-down drinks. The only safe bet was Asahi beer
which came in bottles and none of the bartenders could
tamper with them.
Each night five of us seven foreigners who resided
in Iloilo met at the clean bar for dinner, drinks and
talk. The other two were a middle-aged, married couple
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and wisely stayed home. LucAlly for me we didn't play
cards. I wasn't a card player at all and the other four
didn't care.
While I was driving to the clean bar, the taxi driver
as always tried In vain to sell me on the Idea to procu^te
a "nice" girl for me. Any girl I wanted for five pesos a
night plus two pesos as his commission. We two weren't
good friends because I never made use of his offer.
This night I was the last of our group to arrive
at the clean bar and, of course, had a tale to tell.
Each of the others had had W similar experiences as
I with my ten enemies. We always had food for talk
besides the miserable vlttels and drinks we were served.
There was
the British Consul whom
I'll call the honorable Mr. Hlgglnbottom. There was Dr.
Medlssa, a Spaniard and physician. He was a very well read
man with whom it was a pleasure to converse. There was
Fred Hellerlng who owned the El Cine Palace, which ex-
clusively ran American films three days a week and
Filipino pictures on Saturdays and Sundays. Then there
was Dick Little, the representative of an American Tire
and Rubber Export and Import Company with its main office
in Manila. The youngest of the group was Peter Wagner,
the son of the middle-aged Viennese refugee couple who
strangely enough had settled of all places in Hollo. His
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father represented an English firm which bought copra
from plantations all over the Islands.
On this particular evening we had a guest, a Herr
Heinrich Beutel, who traveled the Far East as a salesman
for a famous brand of German harmonicas and accordions.
He like I had a room at the Hotel de Paris for the week
he stayed in Hollo. Herr Beutel turned out to be a practl=
cal joker and not much of a Nazi. At least as far as I was
concerned he didn't display any anti-Semitism. On the day
he left for Mindanao he piled up all the furniture in my
room, one piece on top of the other, and roped them to-
gether. I had a hell of a time to get thorn all unroped
again. He also left a note, written in large, red letters,
which told me: "Was ist ein Abschied ohne Budenzauber?
Keln Abschied! Auf Wiedersehen, mein Freund." Translated
it meant: "What is a farewell without a magic room? No
farewell! So long, my friend. '• I never met Herr Beutel
again and despite his practical joke I hope he has sur-
vived the Nazi years. He was a likeable fellow and I still
have his farewell note.
We were a motley group each night at the clean bar,
just thrown together by happenstance circumstances. Each
of us had his own story to tell how he had landed in this
god-forsaken part of the world. The honorable Mr. Hlggln-
bottom, of course, had been posted in Hollo by his govern'
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ment to supervise and document the export shipments of
copra, hemp and whatever other goods the British bought
on the Panay and Negros islands which were on^y five
minutes apart by air.
Fred Hellering was an odd man who for years had bummed
it all over the world and finally had won the El Cino Pal-
damned/
ace in a poker game. He^iflB0MI that game ever since and
swore if he couldn't sell that place soon, he would just'
abandon it. He had had it with Iloilo.
Only Dick Little had no complaint about Iloilo. He
liked his job, flew all over the islands in a company
plane and bought the rubber his firm wanted.
The good doctor, although a Spaniard, was bom in
Iloilo. He had studied medicine in England, then returned
and opened his practice. He was a widower who wanted to
marry again if the right woman came along.
Herr Beutel and I were temporary residents. As long as
we were in Iloilo we were welcomed by the group who nightly
assembled at the clean bar. Each one of us had had some
education. We all liked to gab about any subject which
came up. Chance had brought us together and we made the
best of it. With the exception of Peter Wagner, who worked
for his father and didn't like it, we all were addicted to
throwing quotations around and then labor on them - mentally
that is.
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After I had ordered a T-bone steak (the only meat
halfway palatable), greasy French fried and a bottle of
Asahi beer (the best beer in the world, brewed in Japan)
I entei;^ained my friends with the events of my day. They
all were ardent talkers, but also knew how to listen. Only
intelligent people are good listeners. When I had finished
my report from the sex act between Felicitas and Felipe
to the death threat of the ten men, they slid into a
macabre debate about dying and death in general. Each
one of us had witnessed death in many ways and so we
had many death stories to tell. I kept quiet for a while,
IHHB ' MHM iMHBt being occupied with chewing the
tough steak and washing it down with the wonderful, cold
beer.
At last I was ready to partcipate in the conversation
by quoting Timothy, although none of them knew about my
guardian angel, of course. "There is no death," I threw
in as my contribution. That naturally was hotly disputed.
The doctor was convinced that there was death and that it
was final, the end of everything. Fred Hellering, though,
agreed with me (or with Timothy, really). He was a true
Cosmopolitan, a soldier of fortune, a participant in
many wars, none of which had been his business, and death
to/
was very familiar/0M him. He believed that we would come
to life again after death.
"Nature or God don't care what wc are and so after
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after death we might become anything," he said, ''a tree,
a blade of grass, a flower or even God forbid a Mohammedan."
For some reason or other he was prejudiced against Mohamme-
dans.
The honorable Mr. Higginbottom was doubtful. He could
not accept the idea of reincarnation and besides he would
not like to be reborn as anything else but an Englishman.
To him the English people were the salt of the earth and
If/ ever the world came to an end and there would be only
two persons left - another Adam and Eve, so to speak - they
got to be British this time.
We all ganged up on him, being of one opinion that
that would be worse than the end of the world itself, it
didn't break any ice with him. If it had to start all over
again, only the British breed would be able to change the
world into the Garden of Eden, the original Adam and Eve
had lost.
Young Peter Wagner - as all youth will - /^thought
we were just old fogies to talk about death. He just had
read "The Magic Mountain" by Thomas Mann and remembered
that Mann had written about birth and death being two
events we don't actually experience and that they entirely
fall into the category of objective events, the only ob-
jective events in life. We come out of the dark, so Thomas
Mann had written, and return to the dark. He didn't quote
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do/
exactly ( and it was the first time that he tried to/so
at all), but this was thdssence: We are bom and we die
and life is in between.
There must be a purpose for life on earth, I main-
tained. Peter shrugged his shoulders. How was he supposed
to know? He liked life and wasn't yet willing to contemplate
death. He would leave that to poets and philosophers and
old fogies like us.
I had already come to the conclusion that death was
a friend and not an enemy and said so. Death was the
bringer of peace, the only peace we ever could obtain.
Heinrich Beutel, the accordion salesman, who liked
to tell jokes as so many of his kind do, surprised us
by quoting Horace. Beutel wasn't the type to quote any
Latin poet and in partcular not in Latin. "Pallida mors
aequo pulsat pede .....", he began and stopped, seeing
that we were staring with incredulity at him as if he
had gone balmy. He laughed with some sort of embarrass*
ment. "I beg your pardon," he apologized. "My father wanted
me to be a priest and made me study Latin. Being with you
people brings out the worst in me. That's why I started
quoting in Latin which I hate as one hates anything which
one is forced to do as a youth. Horace said, 'Pale death,
with Immortal step, knocks at the poor man's cottage and
the palace of the kings."
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Dick Little nodded in agreement. "That's it," he said.
"We make too much fuss about living, about what and who we
are - and then death comes as the great equalizer. As far
as I'm concerned this discussion is fruitless. No one can
say 'NO' to death. After all, death makes its own rules.
Whenever the book of fate says so, death comes and gets us."
It was my turn to order another round of^'drinks or
beer for everybody. For a while we kept kind of quiet
until the supposed- to-be priest Beutel quoted the bible
for no special reason at all. It has been and still is
my experience that quoting from the bible is contagious.
Some one starts and the others want f to show that they knew
the so-called "good" book as well as anybody.
"D^t thou art, and unto dust shalt thou return,"
Beutel declared as if he had invented the idea.
Dr. Medissa, the believer in the finality of death,
came up with: "All flesh shall perish together and man
shall again turn unto dust."
■■H Dick Little was the next. "God will redeem
any soul from the power of the grave: for He shall receive
me.
It
The honorable Mr. Higginbottom obviouoly was raking
confirmed/
his brain in order to remember a quotation which/his dis-
belief in reincarnation. But he failed. "There is no life
after death," he objected, "and nevermind what the bible says."
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ase
Peter Wagner, who went through the youthful ph
of being an atheist, assured us that to him the bible
was nothing but a book of fairy tales.
That got Fred Hellering angry. "Young man," he told
Peter, "you've got to learn a lot. There's more wisdom
And then/
in the bible than in any other book ever writtcn.VlHBi
' he contributed his quotation:/
/■■■■■B flMHBHM "Fear not them which kill the
body, but are not able to kill the soul."
"And the spirit shall return unto God who gave it,"
said I.
The honorable Mr. Higginbottom opined that this was
a strange way of whiling away an evening in Iloilo and in
a bar to boot.
Fred Hellering pulled a thin, beautifully bound book
from his hip pocket. "These are stories and poems by the
Persian poet Kahlil Gibran." he explained as he opened the
book to a marked page . "Please, allow me to read this. Kah-
lil Gibran was deeply moved by the death of his beloved
sister Sultana and said to a friend: 'Everything dies that
it may be born again in another form. The rock dies to be-
come stone and pillars in a temple; the candle dies to be
transformed into light; a piece of wood dies to give birth
to the fire within it; a fruit dies in turn Mm to give
birth to the tree. Everything goes back to its origin. Life
is going forth; death is a coming back. Life is an invest-
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ment; death Is a dividend. Life Is a thought embodied;
death Is a bodiless thought. While God Is both - life
and death.
t ti
We all agreed that this was a fitting ending to our
discussion and resolved that on another evening we would
talk about God. The bartender and owner of the place, who
always listened to us, but so far had not contributed any*
thing to our conversations, remarked that this bar wasn't
the morgue and that we were morbid. Besides, it was time
to close for the night and for us to go home, go to bed
and have nightmares.
what/
Well, that's^BI we did^ and I don't know if any of
us had mightmares. However, this evening stayed in my
six/ ,
memory because/flBB men sitting ina bar together and
talking about death wasn't quite normal. I wonder how
many of us are still alive. That's the way it is. People
meet, people part and they disappear from our personal
horizon forever.
When I went to bed that night in my room at the
Hotel de Paris Tiraothy/reproached me that I hadn't brought
up the fact that some people after death become angels,
although he doubted that I or any of the five companions
of mine with the exception of Dr. Medissa perhaps had
much of a chance. The trouble with me was, he complained,
that I was never thinking of him because he was only a
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guardian angel and yet after all he was the most im-
portant part of my life. I argued that, but to no avail.
•'You could have quoted from Hebrews," he said, "re-
minding these barflies of yours that they entertained an
angel. "
M
What quoCe from Hebrews?"
He groaned in despair. "You know even less than I.
The quotation is: Be not forgetful to entertain strangers:
for thereby some have entertained angels unawares."
"Why didn't you tell me then and there, and I'd have
obliged you."
"What's the use?" Timothy gave up. "You better go to
sleep. You drank too much beer."
"Two bottles are too much?" I asked him in surprise.
"For you it is. You aren't a drinking man. You're
strictly a one-bottle-of-beer-man. "
That remark of Timothy's reminds me of
the Japanese carpenter who certainly was a beer-drinking
man as I learned the hard way. Icaro Kono was exceptionally
tall for a Japanese and built like an ox. Once he showed
me on the map that he hailed from the northern part of
Hokaido Island. Yet, I always wondered what ill wind had
blown him to Hollo where he had taken a native wife with
whom he had Innumerable children. He was a jolly good
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fellow I hope that he and his family weren't harmed after
the Japanese invasion.
Dr. Medissa, though, was always suspcious of him. He
believed Itaro Kono to be a spy or perhaps a Japanese array
intelligence officer planted in Iloilo to take over in
case of war. I doubted it and still do so because there
was nothing sinister or suspicious about him. He was the
kind of likeable character one seldom meets in life. In
fact^ he was a very gentle man who did not know his own
strength and he never displayed any great mental capacity
which^ I guess, would have been expected of a spy. But then
I*m not an authoritu=<^ on spies and even do not understand
any spy stories. However, in my opinion the Japanese were
in no need of having an agent on Panay Island which to the
best of my knowledge was militarily unprotected. We human
beings always tend to believe the bad rather than the good.
We did so after Pearl Harbor on the West Coast of America
by giving in to a mindless hysteria against our Japanese-
American citizens. We deprived them of their freedom and
their hard earned property without due process of law.
No - I do not think or even believe that Itaro Kono was
a spy. He called me his friend and I'm still proud of it.
Itaro and I had many conversations with each other
although neither he understood what I said nor I what he
said. I had invented the kind of sign language which solved
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our communication problem. He knew Japanese. Spanish and
a smattering of the native dialect, but neither German
nor English which left me out as far as languages were
concerned. The boss had hired him to built all the shelves
in the stockroom and a number of other wooden fixtures.
The sales tables in the store had been shipped from Manila.
Whenever there was some carpenter work to be done in the
store or stockroom I called on him, o/ course. He was a
darned good craftsman and much in demand all over the
island which he knew like his pants pockets. His work-
shop was across from our store next to the gambling den.
Working or not, he always had a bottle of beer at hand.
I never did figure out how many bottles he drank each
day without ever getting really drunk. Next to the
Germans the Japanese are supposed to be the most beer-
drinking people in the world.
The two of us communicated with one word./only and
that was: Sukiyaki, the name of a Japanese dish known
all over the world except in Japan. Having eaten Suki-
yaki on several occasions in Shanghai (and how delicious
most familiar/
it is)^ it happened to be the/igg§, Japanese word I knew
one/
then. However, ItarO taught me another/SI*, quite fitting
for him, and that was: Kampai or Bottoms up. Anyway, we
got into the habit of using the sord Sukiyaki as our means
of communication. At first he almost died of laughter when
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I started this Sukiyaki business. If I wanted him to
build something, I showed hi^ffhow large and wide it had
to be with my hands, always accentuating everything with
*'Sukiyaki here and Sukiyaki there*'. We got along famously
and not once did he repair or build anything the wrong
way since we also used a measuring tape.
One day he invited me to a drinking tour of lloilo.
He put his beer bottle to his lips and then made a sweep*
ing move with his hands. After that he pointed to his
store across the street and/holding up eight fingers
made it clear that we were to meet there at eight in
the evening. It was quite a sukiyaki palaver. At last
he astonished me by clearly saying several times - Folies
Bergere. I was dumbfounded, but how could I ask with the
one word Sukiyaki what he meant by Folies Bergere? Had he
been to Paris or what? For me there was only one Folie
Bergere in the world. Or at least that was what I thought.
Itaru repeated "Folies Bergere"several times and grinned
lascii^iously. The latter I understood. The Folies Bergere
was/
in Paris^iiii famous for its lavish productions of girl
in which/
revue s^/MHi Tor the first time topless dancers performed.
Many distinguished entertainers were created there like
Mistinguette, Josephine Baker, Ivonne Menard, whose special-
ty was to dance with no other wearing apparel but a pearl
necklace and ^ g- string. The name Folies Bergere also
brought to my memory names like Maurice Chevalier, Fer-
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nandel and the clown Crock. I pointed with my right in-
dex finger to the temple of my head. ItartJ was crazy.
No Folies Bergere in lloilo, but he nodded vigorously.
••Si. amigo." he said. "Folies Bergere lloilo." This
definitely aroused my curiosity. In my mind I saw tfV
Manet's famous painting €f the Folies Bergere. Anyway,
this Folies Bergere business induced me to accept his
invitation against my better judgment. Although Itaro
was feared and liked for his enormous strength, lloilo
as well as the entire island of Panay was anythihg but
safe for an expedition at night. I didn't mention this
would have written to her/
invitation in my letters to Annie. If yjptti^
that my friend ItarO had invited me to visit the Folies
Bergere, she would have thougli^I had flipped at last.
ItarO happily grinned all over his broad face
*
when I kept my promise and met him at eight that evening.
He pumped my hand so vigorously that I was afraid he had
cracked all the bones. We started out by dropping in at a
number of little drinking places, I had never seen before.
He was known everywhere and always ordered beer. After
the third bottle I faked the drinking. Itaro consumed
an aro6unt of beer which would have felled men like Her-
cules or Henry the Eighth or even a red-necked Bavarian
who had been raised with beer instead of milk. He drank
his beer strictly from the battle and pinched all the
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female behlnds he could reach. The more he drank, the
jollier he got In his own bearlike way. During that one
night he must have guzzled at least thirty bottles of
beer and pinc^d or slapped « probably more than twice
as many female butts. I was slightly intoxicated after
my third bottle. Otherwise I'm sure 1 wouldn't have
climbed again and again into Itartl.'s small English car'
which he drove like a madman. Timothy lost almost what-
ever mind he has. He begged me, he pleaded with me to
give up, but to no avail. I had a heck of a good time
watching Itaro at his oft^iest. Finally Timothy warned
me he couldn't keep us from having an accident with me
getting injured and ItarO killed. I refused to listen
until I had seen the Folies Bergere.
It must have been way past midnight when at last
we drove out of the city and along bum^ roads with
nothing but fat coconut palm trees at each side. It
was pitch-dark and I kept my fingers on my Beretta in
case we were stopped by a gang of highway robbers. Itam
drove without regard to any obstacles, careening from one
side to the other, circumventing the palm trees without
as much as scratching them. I huddled in my seat next
to him, scared to death, but I stuck to my bargain of
visiting with Itaro the Hollo Folies Bergere. All the
while my Japanese friend lustily sang in Japanese, Spanish
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and what I assumed was Ilbllonese. I was drenched in sweat
when after an hour we at last reached a clearing with a
row of dismal Nipa huts alongside a forlorn beach. Nipa
huts are made of bamboo poles with Nipa palm thatch roofs.
They stand on high stilts and one has to climb unsafe ladders
to get up to thera.
Nipa palms grow only in Southern Asia, especially in
the Philippines. Its fibers are being used for mats, its
leaves for thatching, its stems for building material,
and its drupes (fruits), which grow in large bundles,
furnish edible kernels.
Itaru braked the car to a screeching stop, then got
out on somewhat unsteady feet and beckoned me to follow
him. He pointed to one of these huts and proudly proclaimed:
Folies Bergere' . My God, I thought, that was impossible.
But it wasn't. Like the ramshackle, unpainted, weather-stain-
ed wooden building, in which I had rented a room, grandiose-
ly called itself "Hotel de Paris", so this swinging and sway-
ing stilted Nipa hut bore the name, painted on a sign, "Folies
>
Bergere". I didn't trust myself to climb the bamboo ladder
behind Itartf, but my curiosity and the three bottles of
beer got the better of me. If Itara, weighing more than
two hundred pounds, had made a single slip and had fallen
down, he would have crashed me to death. Timothy climbed
between the two of us and I could hear him muttering some-
thing to the effect that I wasn't only crazy, but also
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stark-raving mad.
The entire Hollo Folles Bergere consisted of one
square room of about twelve by ^A^felve feet. Its floor
was covered with multi-colored nipa mats. At one side
was a small bar, or at least what looked like one. Behind
it sat a fat madam* who heaved herself up at the sight of
us. She greeted Itara with great affection by throwing her
lubberly arms around his neck while he slapped her elephan-
tine behind. The hut began to sway dangerously, and I felt
better when she seated us at one of the three small, round
tables. We were the only guests present. However, I didn't
yet know that the other Nipa huts were annexes to the
Follies Bergere. IBHi They were rented out for private
entertainment with one of the Folles Bergere girls. Four
of these girls were seated on a bench, waiting for customers
They were topless and their tiny breasts wfe simply ridi-
culous. The madamf cranked an old-fashioned graramophone
and turned it on. The record produced a grating piece of
music which must have been played /deveral thousand times.
The girls began to dance a kind of hula-hula. They moved
nothing but their little behlnds and shook their teeny-
weeny breasts up and down as far as that was possible.
I got dizzy from the swaying of the hut and, feeling al-
most like a pole-sitter, didn't like it at all. Before I
knew it one of the small girls had deposited herself on
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my lap, one of her arms around my neck. Two others had
taken po^ssion of Itartf who Just embraced them like a
bear-mother her puppies. I didn't know what to do with
my girl. Could I dare pushing her off my lap or what? All
I could think of was what Annie would say if she could see
me now. I would have been embarrassed to death.
The madamt brought us some pink, foamy liquid in
coconut shells. I made the mistake of taking a big, long
sip and almost choked on it. Then I started to cough vio-
lently which threw the girl to the floor. I never had tasted
anything like it and never fouTld out what it was. It must
have been some fermented fruit juice or a combination of
fruit juices which could kill anyone but Itar» who swallowed
the whole contents of his coconut shell. He rose to his
feet, carrying his two girls like dolls and began to dance
like a Russian Cossack. The wildly swaying of the hut plus
the one sip of my drink had made me seasick. I headed for
the bamboo ladder and never knew how I made it safely down
to terra firraa. I remember seeing Itaro also coming down
with his two girls and then all three climbing another
ladder to one of the neighboring huts. I crawled on all
fours to the beach where I must have passed out, dead to
the world. The incoming tide gently lapped at my feet and
I scarcely noticed it. I could have drowned, or been robbed
and stabbed to death, I wouldn't have known. Timothy later
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told mc that he had sat watch over me and that he had had
a strong desire to spank me like a father would spank a
naughty child if he only had had the physical ability to
do so.
It must have been dawn when ItarO shook me awake. I
didn't know if I had been drugged or what. That one sip§
from the coconut shell certainly had gotten to me. I woke
up and was surprised that I was in Itar<r's car in front
of the Hotel de Paris. I was unable to move a limb. ItarQ
carried me like a baby to my room and put me to bed. 1 was
his friend. His real, true friend. No other fo-^igner ever
before had gone out with him and I couldn't blame them. It
was an experience I didn't repeat. One time was quite enough.
I had written to my boss in Manila, urging
him to relieve me of my job and send a replacement as per
our agreement. As far as Iloilo went, I had had it. Besides,
I missed Annie so badly that it did hurt me, and I was needed
in Manila to complete the final arrangements for immigration
to the United States. I had suggested in my letter to engage
young Peter Wagner for the management of the Iloilo store.
He was living in Iloilo anyway, knew the people and it
wouldn't be much trouble to work him in. I should have
known better. Nobody likes to be told what to do. My boss
wasn't different. If I had let him know, I had heard a
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rumor that he wanted to install Peter Wagner and that I
had my doubts of the wisdom of such a step, Peter most
possibly would have gotten the job because after all he
would have been a logical choice. I had used the wrong
psychology and consequently my boss rejected the idea.
He wrote to me quite succinctly: "I received ^our letter,
recommending Mr. Wagner for the Iloilo store. I have de-
cided to send our Mr. Fischer to take your place, inas-
much as I have confidence in him and have studied his
character during the time he worked here. He is of course
handicapped by his poor English, but I am sure this will
come in time, althemore, if he has to depend on himself."
Well, Mr. Fischer (whom I had not met before) arrived
a week before I was going to leave and within a day I knew
that he certainly was not the type to depend on himself
in a place like Iloilo. He was a refugee from Vienna, a
nice fellow, unmarried and very timid. Gushi had trained
him well enough in the Manila store so that it was easy
for me to acquaint him with his work in Iloilo. But that
was totally insufficient. He was too much of an introvert
and didn't know how to assert himself. After once accom=-
panying me to the dirty bar in the afternoon and to the
clean one in the evening, where I introduced him to my
friends, he refused to go again. In regard to the natives
and the store employees he was completely lost. I had a
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feeling he was afraid of them and dreaded the moment when
I was going to leave him to himself.
My family-murderer Romeo noticed his fear immediately
as an animal always will. I warned him to be on his best
behaviour if he didn't want to break his parole. But 1
could tell from the way he acted toward Fischer that he
would take advantage of him. My friend Itar^y disapproved
also. He sadly shook his head as if he felt sorry for
Fischer. No Fo^^es Bergere for him.
Two days prior to ray departure the kind of incident
happened which very much bewildered Fischer. Felipe appear=»
ed in the store for the first time after I had surprised
him and Felicitas on the bed of pillows. Fischer and I
happened to be standing together in the rear of the store.
When I saw Felipe, I told Fischer not to interfere. After
all, I didn't want to get him involved in my trouble with
this young ragamuffin. The boy approached me like a cat on
the prowl, walking on the tip of his toes as if he were going
to Jump me at any moment. I waited for him, but had my
Beretta ready in my pocket with my finger on the trigger.
I trusted Felipe as much as I would trust a man-eating
tiger on the loose.
When he at least confronted me, he sneered, *'I heard
you're lej/ing us day after tomorrow."
I nodded. "You've heard right, Felipe."
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He grinned mischievously. "Remember what I promised
you? You won't leave Iloilo alive."
Again I nodded. "Yes - on my last day here you're go-
ing to kill me - unless I kill you first," I warned him.
Once again my eyes weren't fast enough to see from
where he got his bolo knife, but he had it in his hand and
pressed the tip on my abdomen. This time I was better pre-
pared and almost acted as fast as he . 1 punched him into
his solar plexus as hard as 1 could manage. He hadn't ex-
pected it and doubled over, groaning as he straightened up
again. After retreating a few steps he swore at me, "Mono
peludo" which means something like "hairy ape". Then I
heard Timothy hissing into my ear, "Duckl", and duck I
did just in time. I could hear the knife swishing past
my neck with less than an inch to spare. It embedded it-
self into the wooden partition between the store and the
stockroom. I had my Beretta out, but couldn't shoot, afraid
of hitting an innocent bystander. But the sight of the little
gun sufficed. Felipe ran out, shouting at the door back to
me: "I'll get you, Mr. Bull's-Eye. I'll get you for sure
now. Please, don't worryf Nothing came of it I
As brave as I had acted outwardly, as scared I had
really been - and more so after it was all over. It took
a few seconds to get myself under control again. Then I
turned around and pulled the knife out of the wodden wall.
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I was sure he could have hit me exactly In my throat If
he wanted to. Felipe was too good with the bolo knife. I
looked at Fischer. That poor fellow trembled all over. His
face was as white as a sheet. I took him back to my office.
"Man," I said," I was as shook as you, but for heaven's
sake don't ever show It, or you'll bcmost around here. If
you don't assert youi;^elf, you might as well askfll to be
recalled right now and I'll put Peter Wagner in charge,
nevermind what the boss says. These people here aren't bad.
They're like children. They want kindness, but you've to
show them that you're the authority here In this store."
I could see that It was of little use. Of all pro=»
fesslons he had been a kindergarten teacher in Vienna until,
of course, the Nazis had usurped his native Austria. He
never had met with any violence other than tantrums from
nasty, little kids. I was tempted to wire Manila to recall
him, but how was I to explain the reasons why? The bods
wouldn't have accepted my advice anyway. Hollo certainly
was no place for a soft soul like Fischer's. He never would
learn how to cope on his own. Moreover, he refused my offer
to leave the Beretta with him. He wouldn't even touch the
little revolver when I held it out to him. He was a doomed
man in Hollo and as It turned out he was even too timid
to quit his job and so he committed suicide a year later.
Life outside Vienna was no life for hlra.
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Well, it seems obvious that Felipe didn't kill me
the day I departed from Iloilo. I had asked Itaru to be
my bodyguard/Bi accompany'^ me to the dock and stay with
me until I had boarded the "Don Esteban". No attempt on
my life was made. As always Timothy took credit for it
and maybe what he told me was true. The fact was that
Felipe met with an accident the previous night and was
laid up with a broken leg. Timothy claimed that he had
arranged the accident. He could have although I had my
doubts. But who was I to argure with him? Besides, I had
taken the precaution to have a talk with the police chief
who in turn had a talk with Felipe's father. With or with-
out Timothy's allegeflL interference Felipe most probably
would not have tried to kill me. I had heard that he had
an awesome respect for his father's anger.
My friends from the clean bar were assembled at the
pier to bid me farewell and so was Fischer. The poor fellow
looked miserable and little did I blame him. I tried my
best to pep him up. I had Introduced him to the honorable
Mr. Hlgginbottom as well as to the others, but it proved
to be of no use. Peter Wagner wrote to me later that Fischer
never showed up at any of the two bars. Peter's parents
had asked him for dinner. They were the only ones to whom
he would go every once In a while, but only after he got
invited first. Otherwise he had no contacts. He was a
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very lonely man who was unable to accept his status as
a refugee. He deeply longed for his beloved Vienna al-
though the Nazis there had killed his entire family.
Vienna to him was the center of the universe. He was one
of those unfortunate refugees who
not want to adjust.
could not and did
The last few weeks in Manila passed with-
out incident - except one. In fact, the future looked
rosier than it had since we had fled from Naz i- Germany .
We easily passed our physical examinations which was a
pre-requisite for obtaining American immigration visas.
The German consul had yielded to the pressure of the
American vice-Consul and re- instated our German pass-
ports until January 4th. The only worry we had were the
five hundred dollars we still owed the German ship line
for the passage to New York. We had no choice but to trust
in God. Besides, I still was a strong believer that money
has the pleasant habit of coming to you when you needJi it.
Very few refugees who at that time immigrated to
the United States had jobs waiting for them. I had one
and thus could assure the American Vice Consul that we
wouldn't be destitute after our arrival in New York. When
my boss finally had been convinced that I would leave, he had
persuaded his uncle in New York to offer me a job as
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merchandiser for the Far East market. At least, with me
on the spot in New York the Continental Stores would not
get anymore the many items which weren't saleable in the
Philippine Islands. In a letter to me the u^le confimed
my employment at a salary of one hundred and fifty dollars
a month. Please, don't worry! Nothing came of it!
During the last weeks prior to our departure I managed
the second Continental store on Rizal Street where we had
a continuous "fire sale", that is we got rid of damaged
goods. Annie, though, had lost her job, but we could
get along without it. We had our reservation for a second
class cabin on the SS Gneisenau to London and from the
re
three days later on the SS Europa to New York - if
we
were able to come up with the requested five hundred
dollars on or before Ctetober 31st. How we would be able
to do that was a mystery. My boss refused to lend me the
money with my expected salary in New York as collateral.
His uncle could deduct twenty-five dollars each month
from my salary until the loan was repaid. I^was no deuce.
He was stubborn to the last, hoping I'd have to stay in
Manila. But God came through as He always did when we were
in a pinch.
On the 3oth of October I received a cablegram f
rom
the Philadelphia publisher, to whom I had mailed my book
manuscript despite his previous refusal to read it. The
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cablegram advised me that they would publish the book and
had wired to me an advance rbyalty payment of five hundred
dollars. That was all.' Short and to the point. Annie and
I performed an Indian dance in our room which shook the
whole house and gave Timothy the creeps. He thought, we
I had/
had gone out of our minds untiylv translated the contents
of the cablegram to him. Our landlady might have thrown us
out if we hadn't already given her notice for November 19th.
All of a sudden everything was in apple pie order except
for our washer woman. When she heard of our going away,
she took advantage of it and filed a complaint with the
Department of Labor in Manila that we owed her twenty
dollars in unpaid wages for the last two months. The
Labor Department in a very official document informed us
that we could not depart unless this matter was settled.
That woman had us cjver the barrel and she knew it. We
couldn't wait for our day in court some time in the future
and neither had we written proof that we had paid her in
full. We never had asked her for a receipt.
I tried to remonstrate with the Labor Department, but
to no avail. The man in charge was not unfriendly, but
firm. A bureaucrat is a bureaucrat anywhere in the world
and to him a claim was a claim. It had to be settled one way
or the other. If we couldn't wait for our day in court,
we had to pay that woman plus court costs or else. The
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"or else" decided us to pay the fraudulent claim.
There was another unexpected trouble. We needed some
winter clothing. When we opened our metal-lined over-seas
trunk, which the American Red Cross had rescued for us
from Shanghai, it was empty except for a small heap of
dust which was the moth- repellent powder we had spread
among our winter clothing including Annie's fur coat, so
much admired by the Chinese peasants in the Manchurian
mail train. Some special kind of ferocious termites or
tropical ants had bored themselves through the metal of
the trunk and had feasted on our non-tropical wear. There
was nothing left but several buttons. We were faced
with the impossible, frigthening fact to travel into
the European and American winter in tropical outfits
and probably freeze to death. We simply couldn't afford
to spend our money on winter clothing which was pretty
expensive in Manila and hard to get. It was a real dilemna.
A few days before we had to leave a number of Jewish
refugee physicians and their families had arrived from
Nazi-occupied Austria. They badly needed tropical outfits
unless they wanted to perspire their lives away. We scouted
around until we luckily found a couple approximately the
same size as ours and offered them six tropical suits
and as many light dresses for one wool suit and overcoat
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for me and two warm dresses and an overcoat for Annie. We
made the exchange to our mutual satisfaction, but we couldn't
give away all our tropical wear because we would still need
some until we had passed through the Suez Canal. On the other
hand this one couple benefited from the exchange until
they could fend for themselves. '
We never had understood that the Austrian Jews had not
heeded the warning of what was in store for them after Hitler
usurped Germany. He had not made any secret of his ambition
to annex Austria. The Austrian Jews had five years time to
emigrate, but few of them did before it was too late. When
in 1938 the Anschluss came, they learned
that the Austrian
Nazis were even more brutal than their German counterparts.
need for a/
They had had no/soothseeer or a Jeane Dixon to warn them,
but they had been more stupid and complacent than the
German Jews had been.
The basic truth in life is that all pains and mis-
fortune pass and only happiness prevails. Whatever happens
to us, bad or good, we always can find solace in our prayers
to God, thanking Him for the manifold blessings He bestows
on us. I remember a sentence a young girl spoke in a TV
play recently. She was by profession a guitar player and
folk singer, but a progressive brain illness would sooner or
later first end her capacity to use her fingers for playing
of the fate awaiting her, she said with a beautiful smile
on her face: "When I can't play the guitar anymore, I still
can sing, and when I can't sing anymore, 1 still can listen
to music."
And so it is. When a loved one dies, one still has the
memory of him or her. Anyone who says that everything happens
to him commits blasphemy. God's modus operandi is always on
our side, for we do not know if death is not a blessing. It
might well be the most wonderful blessing each one of us
is destined to experience. "The pain of living is far worse
than the pain of death and all pain is inevitable," so wrote
Taylor Caldwell in her book about St. Paul "Great Lion of
God". And then she also wrote: "Man's life at its best is f
brief and full of trouble and pain and despair, and there
is not a man alive today who will not be dead in less than
one hundred years from now, and few among us will be re-
membered, no matter if they were evil or iust, saints or
demons, traitors or patriots." And so it is. We should
never worry about trivia and all is trivia measured in
eternity. Yet, we are made to worry • but that, too, seems
to be God's will.
During the previous months the news about the atrocious
persecution of the Jews in Nazi -Germany and Nazi-Austria had
grown increasingly worse. We felt more and more concerned
the guitar and then destroy her vocal cords. When she heard
about my parents who were still in Hamburg and naturally
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felt overwhelmingly relieved when a day prior to our
Manila/
departure f rom^HMf we received the good news that they
had successfully escaped to Sweden.
Although the Nazi authorities had forced my father
to sell his manufacturing plant and other holdings at ten
percent of the actual value, my parents were luckvito have
been saved from tortjures and death in a gas chamber. The
irony, of course was, that it had not mattered whether or
not my father received ten percent or nothing for his
property because he could not take a penny with him to
Sweden. As we all, they also had become penniless refugees,
but they at least were not alone in Sweden. Both my sisters
were living there.
of our passports/
The temporary validity/as well as the United States
immigrations visas did, of course, not protect us against
abduction by the Gestapo on the German ship. If wd had been
apprehensive while we were evacuated from Shanghai on a
German ship, we were much more so when we boarded once
again the SS Gneisenau to start our journey from East to
West.
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CHAPTER EIGHT
FROM EAST TO WEST
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came of itl The abduction, I mean - although there were
two instances which might well have been a warning and
an attempt if it had not been for Timothy's caution. He
was on the alert all the time. I must say that much for
him and give him credit where credit is due. Otherwise
he was more than happy about leaving the Far East for
good and being - at least for a few weeks - on his native
German territory again. In regard to the United States of
America, which we hoped would be our new, permanent home-
land, he reserved judgment.
Each race (I use this expression euphemistically, for
we don't have any pure races left on this earth) as well
as each nation has its own characteristics. None can be
all good or all bad as no single human being is all devil
or all saint (with the exception perhaps - and to pick a
few only - of Jesus Christ, Albert Einstein or Mahatma
Ghandi who were all saint; or Hitler, Mussolini and Nasser
who were all devil) . We may dream of Utopia, but we will
it/
not find/anywhere on this planet.
It is an undeniable and certainly sad fact that during
our sixteen months stay in the Philippine Islands we did
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not feel welcome at any time or truly happy for one moment.
We were unable to take to the steaming hot and in many parts
underprivileged country. Yet, we cannot but admit that the
people in general like anywhere were friendly, but we never
managed to get really close to any of them. Psychologically,
we had no sense of belonging or being wanted. I think, it
was Ovid who said, "Exilium mors est". Exile is death. Never
before and n^er again did we feel the truth of this state-
ment so much as in the Philippine Islands. Of course, we
made many acquaintances among the Filipinos as for instance
the beauty queen of that year, Miss Adela del Puerto. Her
portrait appeared on the front page of the magazine "Bisaya"
and she autographed it for me with the words: "With Love,
Adela". I still have this title page and cherish it very
much. However, we didn't find any good friends with per=*
haps the single exception of the erudite, lyrical poet
Concepcione and his kindly, gentle wife.
I think, we could have happily stayed in Shanghai for
a long time , but not in Manila. We surely were strangers
in both places, but the difference lay in the way of liv=»
ing, I guess. Shanghai gave a man a chance to rise above
himself, Manila held one down, or at least that was^the
way we experienced it. Shanghai had different climates,
a very tropical summer and a more sub-tropical winter as
for instance in Southern California. Manila and, of course,
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the Philippine Islands were tropical all year round.
We
never could help feeling that most of the poor natives
suffered as much from it, if not even more, as we foreign-
ers. Shanghai was life. It had an international esprit and
always was exhilarating. Manila was kind of dull and in-
festive. She didn't seem to offer any impetus to remain
there for any length of time unless one had to. All this
may have changed (with the exception of the climate, of
course) since the Philippine Islands became an independent
nation although we have a strange feeling that life there
is worse than it had been under the benevolent Amer
Lean
governorship. If we are wrong, we beg for forgiveness,
for we only judge from news reports now. Very often we
yearn for the Shanghai as she was when we were there,
but never for Manila and the Philippines which to us
are stepchildren of nature. (I almost was tempted to
write "fucking stepchildren", but I don't hold with
writers like Philip RCth for instance who must believr*
that all people in all strata of society use this and
other unsavory adjectives in their daily language. I've
never used any of them and must have the wrong friends
and acquaintances. I've never heard them using them either
at any time. They aren't dc^Jcriptive, but only dirty and
very much repulsive.)
what/
Regretfully, Communist Shanghai, from/we have read,
has become even less than a mere stepchild. She seems to
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have been modeled into a macabre monstrosity as a habitat
for human beings. The change from the most interesting to
the most world-weary, apathetic and colorless city in
the world is so freakish that we cannot even imagine it.
And so the farewell from Manila was an easy one. The
moment the SS Gneisenau steamed away from Manila's Pier
Five was the best one we haCU^ had there. Yet, deep d
own
in our hearts we felt that another part of our life had
come to an end. The atmosphere of anti-Semitism hung about
on this German ship like the smell from a heap of dung in
a farm yard. During all the weeks we were traveling on the
Gneisenau and on the Europa we could not forget for a single
moment what was happening to the Jews in Germany and Austria
In the diningroom^we were subtly separated from the
German passengers as if my Jewishness was contagious. And
maybe it was, for I wouldn't have kept still if I had heard
a single anti- Semitic innuendo. But all through the journey
o:lt both ships the decorum, that Annie and I were untouch=«
ables, was kept. We were seated at the farthest corner with
three non-German travelers. From Manila to Singapore we
had only one table companion, a tall, blond Swedish gentle-
man, a representative of a Swedish armament corporation.
Sometimes I referred to him as "the bloody Swede" which
was unfair and he rightly resented it. At our first stop
in Singapore two Englishmen were assigned to our table.
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•
They were an odd pair as in a way the Swede was an odd
individual. We all became good friends and one of the
Englishmen, a sea captain, later even visited us in New
York. We'll have to say more about them because one sel-
dom meets lovable characters of their kind.
While we were on the Gneisenau and the Europa we
never spoke a word of German. Our far from perfect English
(one never loses one's accent) didn't fool any English or
American passengers, of whom there were few, but somehow
the Germans aboard generally assumed we were Americans
and left us in peace. On the printed passenger list our
final destination was manifested as New York which of
course helped. No one ever insulted us or discussed in
our presence the anti-Semitic policy of Hitler and his
gang
We had a group of Hitler youth on board who paraded
their martial training. They had been on an official visit
to Japan and now returned to the fatherland as future canon
fudder for Hitler's militaristic ambitions. They didn't
bother us. With obvious disdain they ignored us as if they
had been ordered to do so. That was all right with us al-
though their Nazi uniforms with the Swastika armbands were
not beautiful sights to behold. As there is a Communist
Commissar wherever and whenever Russians travel abroad,
so was a Gestapo agent on any German ship. We didn't know
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his identity, but he was our real enemy since he wasn't
obliged to take orders from the ship's captain. He was a
power to himself and no one would have dared to interfere
with any of his actions. I told Timothy so, but he couldn't
ferret him out until shortly before we arrived in Southamp*
ton and then it was almost too late.
As 1 said before ■■■■■■ we were treated all right
Nonetheless, we could feel - and perhaps we were over-sensi=
tive - that we were some kind of pariahs on board. Even
now there is with the exception of Israel, of course,
no
country free of anti-Semitism, but only in Nazi-Germany -
as presently in Russia, Poland and the Arab countries -
We/
it became the official legal attitude. MMT^ ^^W Mi
know deep down in our hearts that even a so-called philo-
Semite has somewhere in the sub-conscious recesses of his
mind some anti-Semitic streak and given the opportunity it
will break through. We experience it again with so
many
black militant groups, as with the "Black Panthers" in
particular, as well as with the Student non-violent co-
ordinating committee which should drop the "non" because
they're absurdly violent. In 1967 Harry Golden, so well
known for his support of the civil rights cause of the
Negroes, wrote to the director of this committee a protest
letter, objecting to a newsletter, distributed by this group,
which "follows the pro-Arab, pro-Soviet and racist lines with
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heavy overtones of anti-Semitism." These black militant
groups have adopted anti-Semitism as part of their creed
to their own detriment and shame. There is nothing more
diabolical than racism in any form, and it is more so
when it is being employed by those who have been or are
persecuted themselves. I detest it when a Jew speaks of
a gentile detrimentally as a "goy" as I would not call
a black man a nigger or an Italian a dago, or as 1 dis-
like as a Jew being called a "kike".
The Supreme Court Justice Frank Murphy once said:
"It is impossible to understand how a man can hate or
persecute the Jews and at the same time pretend to keep
allegiance with the principles of Christianity."
But even if we forget about Christianity, the so-
called god- less Communist Soviet Union and Poland are
the most race-prejudicedM^ the most anti-Semitic, anti-
Zionist and anti-Negro nations in the world nowadays.
The black people anywhere in the world should know by
now how their people are being treated when they go as
students to Soviet-Russia or when they flee to Communist
Cuba - as Eldridge Cleaver found out for himself. The
Russian and Polish Jews are being treated as second-class
citizens, if even as that. No Russian official would today
acknowledge Tolstoy's statement: "The Jew is the pioneer
of civilization". If ever our country, these United States
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of America, allows Russia and their Arab satellites to
dest/i^y the nation of Israel, the world will have lost
something unretrievable: True democracy. Why is it that
the Jews produced thirty-four Nobel price winners in
half a century? I ask you - why? A tiny minority of the
world population and yet they've succeeded in creating
green pastures in the arid desert which had been in Arab
hands for so long? Why is it that in so short a time little
Israel can give so much to the world, while the Arabs have
nothing to offer but a Jihad, a so-called "holy war"? Why?
Only the Soviet Union could stop the Mid-East conflict.
Why doesn't she? Like vultures feed on carrion and offal
the Soviet Union and Red China exist by creating hate, un-
rest and dispute between other nations. They kindle the
fires of wars and militancy outside their territories in
order to reach their ultimate goal of conquering the world
without spilling the blood of their own people. In the end,
though, they will defeat themselves.
At the time we were traveling on the Gneisenau from
Manila to Southampton the nation of Israel did not yet
exist. However, we would have liked very much to pay a
visit to Palestine, but lack of money and time prohibited
such a side-trip from Port Said. It was an opportunity we
never will have again because our traveling time has defi-
nitely come to an end.
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visit/
To/flM Israel will remain for us an unfulfilled
dream. Jewtshness is not Just a religion - it certainly
has never been with me - but a philosophy and a heritage
and as James Michener wrote in his grandiose book "The
Source": "No Jew can ever cease to be a Jew". That is why
the Jews have suxrvived thousands of years of persecution.
That is why not even a mass-murdered like Adolf Hitler
could destroy the Jewish people. He, too, has learned
the truth which Chaira Kaplan so well expressed in his
Warsaw Diary ("Scroll of Agony"): "In all the countries
where they want to bury us alive, we pull the gravediggers
in with us." It happened to Adolf Hitler and all other
anti-Semites in all history from biblical times on. With
Abdal Gamal Nasser having gone to hell, the other Arab
anti-Israel leaders better beware before they truly
attempt to run the Jews of Israel into the sea. They
will drown with them . That is not a threat, but a holy
promise.
The voyage from Manila to Singapore was a
choppy one. Most of the time the ship was rolling heavily.
We didn't get seasick, but sometimes very much sick of the
sea.
We hadn't left Manila for more than an hour and were
passing the island of Corregidor when Timothy requested a
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private talk with me. Alone, if you please. That Is some-
where on the ship where nobody could observe me talking to
him who was and is invisible to anyone but mc . He was con-
siderate enough to prevent me from getting the reputation
that I was what the Jews call "meshuggah, or the German<5*
"verrueckt", and the American "nutty". Annie and I had
been lying side by side on deck chairs and I told her to
stay put. The truth was that I never liked to leave her
out of my sight. During the previous trip on the Gneisenau
and the more than five weeks' trip to New York not a day
passed without
having her paged at least once because
I didn't know where she was. Her ability to disappear was
absolute unique. One second she was at my side, the next
she was gone. She liked to explore, but how much could
one explore on a 19,000 ton ship like the Gneisenau?
"Timoty wants to talk to me," I said while I heaved
myself up.
"You and your Timothy," she responded disgustedly.
"I'll take a walk."
"No, you won't," I said sternly, "I'll be back in a
few minutes.
Timothy pulled at my coat sleeve to come with him al'
ready. He directed me toward a spot at the keel of the
ship where we were alone.
"All right, Timothy, what is it?" I asked him.
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"It will get a little rough/between here and Singa-
pore," he started in on me, "but don't let that bother
you. There won't be a storm."
"You won't get seasick again, would you?"
"No, not this time," he came to the point now. "You
see, I won't be here until the Gneisenau docks in Singa=*
pore Tuesday afternoon."
It was Saturday morning and I didn't cherish the idea
of being without Timothy for over three days.
"Don't worry, man, nothing is going to happen. Only
watch your steps," he warned me. "I've got to go away."
711
"Why?
"Because I was granted a three days leave of absence
and I deserve it, if I may say so myself."
"Where are you going in case I'll need you?
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II
You won't need me and that is a stupid question,"
he rebuked me. "Where else but what is here generally
called heaven?
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"I don't like it," I told him.
"It doesn't matter. I've got to go. We've a meeting
to form a Guardian-Angel- Protective-League. It's high
time, too.
It
"A union?" I stared at him with incredulity.
"You may call it that if you wish," Timothy conceded.
I laughed. "Why? Do you intend to strike for higher pay?"
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"Don't be silly. We don't get any pay, but we want
some fringe benefits."
"As for instance?"
"As for instance - that isn't your business. Something
like promotion according to seniority and regular vacations."
"I can understand that," 1 agreed and then asked out
of pure curiosity with no intention of being fallacious,
•*Do you ever get to meet the big boss, 1 mean God?"
"No, not us. We guardian angels are so low that we
never see Him."
"I sometimes wonder," I mused," how God actually looks.
Is He only a spirit, which I think He is, or what is He?
I can imagine that to a white person God must look white,
to a black He would look black, to an Indian He would look
like an Indian and I can go on like that. We believe in
God, but does He in us?"
Timothy remained silent for a while, then he said:
"When we were in training, our superior told us that God
is whatever you imagine He is. God is just God. All we
angels are equal under God and so are you living beings if
you only would learn to acknowledge it. God is God."
"The Jews for instance believe that they're the chosen
people."
"It doesn't matter what the Jews or anybody else believe*,"
Timothy said. "God is God for everyone and everything."
I could accept that. God is God. We are so foolish to
think that we're different from one another on account of
our color, our creed, our man-made religions. As God is God,
so we humans are just humans, Jews or Christians, Mohammedans
or Budd/^ists, atheists or agnostics, or whatever religious
or non-religious belief we have. God is God and to Him we
are all alike. Maybe every once in a while God in His wisdom
permits Satan to send his emissaries down among us, men
like Hitler, Stalin or Nasser, so that we're reminded of
the choice between heaven and hell. Maybe we need these
evil creatures to «?adjust our fragile human views into the
proper perspective and re-appraise the omnipotent goodness
of God. Who ever can tell? All we can offer is our faith
in God. Some of us need the dogmas and rituals of organized
religions to hold on to our faith. Others have the strength
to have faith without being shored up by religious hocus-
pocus. Even those who call themselves agnostics and athe-
ists cannot escape faith. They only
kid themselves
Timothy interrupted me in my thinking. "Well, man," he
said, "take care of yourself while I'm gpne. I'll be seeing
you Tuesday and please don't gO ashore in Singapore before
I've reported back to you."
And then he was gone. It may^seem strange, but I felt
uneasy and lonely.. For the first time I began to wonder if
Timothy actually existed or if he was a fixation of my creative
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mind. For some minutes I was lost In my thoughts. If Timothy
didn't exist, nothing existed. He always had been with me.
How often had he saved ray life? How often had he given me
solace when I needed it? How oft«n had he warned me of
danger? How often had we talked to each other and even
kind of squabbled? Timothy was part of me. He had grown on
me
although he wasn't always easy to take, but he had never
shirked his duty. He had grumbled and complained about his
miserable fate that I had to be the one whom he had to guard.
No, Timothy existed allv right. Now that he had left me for
a few days, 1 could feel it more than ever. He had and still
has his faults and foibles and at times he had disturbed roe,
but it felt and feels always good to have him around for
cone/
protection. Now withBi hlm/I was almost tempted to jj seeK
the refuge of/
/fBIBHi our cabin and stay there until he returned. It
had never occurred to me that I could feel insecure with-
out him, but for these first few minutes I-'did.
Waking up from my thinking about Timothy, I kind of
shook myself. 1 decided not to tell Annie about Timothy's
vacation. I returned to the deck chair where I had left
her. Of course, she wasn't there anymore. She could drive
me nuts with her disappearance acts. Right then I wasn't
In the mood for it. Nevertheless, I went in search for her.
For half an hour I walked all over the ship and that meant
quite a bit of walking. She wasn't in our cabin either.
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Finally 1 returned to our deck chairs, stretched out
and although I could really worry when she wasn't with me I
dozed off. Waking up ten minutes later, she was lying on
her chair next to me. She smiled at me and had the nerve
to ask me with all the innocence of a perfect angel, "Where
have you been? I've been looking for you everywhere." - If
I didn't love her so much, I could have strangled her.
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I assume, it happens to anyone to get in-
vited by a relative, friend or neighbor to come over for
an evening to watch with them the movie pictures, slides
or still photos they took on their vacation at Lake Kani-
bootchie or wherever they had gone for their vacation. You
dread the idea of having to look afhundreds of mostly poorly
shot pictures of people you don't know and places which
bore you and if you're smart you try somehow to wiggle
out of the invitation by some sort of excuse which doesn't
sound offensive. 1 know, I always find such excuses after
having been caught in this dilemna several times. Please,
friends and foes, rest assured I'll try to bore you as
little as possible with picturizing our sightseeing ashore
during our journey from East to West.
As scheduled we arrived in Singapore early Tuesday
afternoon and were informed to be back aboard the ship
:before the midnight sailing. This time Annie was ready
and roaring to go the very moment the Gncisenau had docked.
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s she used/
the
over-^abused excuse that a woman needs more time to get
dressed and make-up than a man. If that is so, why the heck
don't women start earlier than men? Of course, females being
contrary by nature and character Annie had started earlier
this time and was ready when for once I didn't want her to.
I dawdled and dawdled - a good lesson for her anyway -
determined to heed Timothy's advice not to move until he
was back. When ^^ Annie grew impatient, which generally
was my prerogative, I invented a headache, which generally
was her prerogative, and she made me swallow two aspirins.
I stretched out on the bed until my "headache" was gone ^
and let Annie fret. She was anxious to go into Singapore
and I couldn't blame her. I was anxious, too, but not with-
out Timothy. We had a few dollars set aside for sightseeing
and we didn't mind to spend them on the trip since a job
was awaiting me in New York.
"All right, let's go," I suddenly heard Timothy tell
me.
For a moment I was baffled, but then I got up and told
Annie that my headache was as good as gone.
"Did you have a good time?" I asked Timothy,
"Good time?" he grunted. "Don't remind me, please.
We almost were thrown out of heaven when we assembled for
our meeting. I guess, unioiyior protective leagues are meant
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for people here on earth only. Heaven doesn't want a part
of it. So please, don't worryl Nothing came of itI"
"Do we or don't we go?" Annie asked.
"We go," I told her.
"So - what's holding us back?"
"Nothing anymore."
Of course, a few hours ashore an>'where doesn't mean
a darned thing. Sightseeing of this kind leaves small im-
pressions if any. Yet, millions of dollars are wasted each
year by foolish people, taking restricted, guided tours and
letting themselves being rushed from country to country and
city to city. Afterwards they're quite often so confused
that they can't recall where was what and what was where.
The only thing they perhaps remember is - as a movie title
suggested - : "When it was Tuesday, it was Belgium." (Or
was it Wednesday?)
Yet we went ashore with the idea that this was probably
our only chance to see Singapore - although one could live
a good life without ever having been there.
I took my old five dollar Kodak camera along. We must
have taken literally thousands of pictures with it everywhere
with the exception of Russia where it had been confiscated
until we reached the other border. At that time they had
very good reasons not to let foreigners take pictures. Russia
Stalin/
under SBTBMBBl had not much to brag about.
What happened to all the pictures we took as well as the
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picture postcards we bought? Well - they're all buried in a
big cardboard box. We'll leave them there to whoever inherits
our otherwise non-existent estate.
However, of all the pictures Annie or I took, I'm
proudest of one single shot of the southern tip of Kyushu,
Japan, from a distane^of at least three^miles. We had been
sternly warned that Japanese military observers from naval
vessels and the coast were scanning each passing ship with
powerful binoculars to make sure that no one on any boat
snapped pictures of the fortified most southern tip of
Japan. If they espied anyone, whom they suspected of hav=»
ing directed a camera at the shore line, one of their fast
naval vessels was supposed to race toward the ship and,
coming alongside, stop it. Unless the culprit did vol=»
untarily surrender the roll of film, a search party would
come aboard and not leave until the "dangerous" film was
found. That's what we were told, but I cannot vouch for
the truth of it. Anyway, after consulting with Timothy, I
found a spot on the Gneisenau from where I could secretly
shoot/
/a picture of the forbidden coast line. Apparently I wasn't
detected if there were any military observers at all. No
Japanese naval vessel came into view. My cheap camera did
a beautiful job even from such a distance. I guess, that
photo must be still somewhere in that above mentioned card-
board box. What do mementos mean? Why, In fact, does one
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accumulate them when one never looks at them again and
can't take them along when we leave this planet for good? '
It's a pertinent question, isn't it? I don't know the
answer and neither do you. Chances are that after your
final departure these so-called mementos end up in a
trash can.
A few days ago we were involved in one of these terri*
fying mountain brush fires, and we like all residents in
our area had to evacuate our homes within minutes. It
was an infernal experience through which one wouldn't
like to go through a second time. The speed with which an
uncontrolled fire in mountainous brush country can spread
is unbelievable unless one is there. We didn't think that
we would see our home and those of our neighbors again. The
raging fire, creating a devastating windstorm, came within
inches of our mobile home park. We had no more than two or
three minutes to decide what to take along. Annie and I
took some important documents, this unfinished manuscript
and my electric typewriter, and then we drove out of the
park away from the fire or rather through it on both sides
of the two lane road. The smoke cloud over the mountains
looked as if an atom bomb had been dropped. Annie was clad
in a house robe and I in a shirt and a pair of slacks. We
saw our next door neighbor throw sofa pillows and some bed
linen into their two cars. Another neighbor across from us
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took a heavy vase and a framed painting. Mementos? We
even didn't give them a single thought. Our cardboard box
with family pictures and snapshots from many parts of the
world - we forgot about It. I even didn't think of a col=»
lection of letters I had received by famous people. Me=»
mentos? What good are they and any other material things if
one's life is at stake .^ Within another few minutes we could
have been totally surrounded by fire-walls without a chance
of getting through. Mementos? Who needs them? We have had
too many experiences of the kind.
There was no panic, strangely enough. Like ghost
vehicles car after car slowly drove out of the park and
another park higher up in the mountains. No anxious shout=
ing. No impatient honking of horns. Car just followed car.
was/ safely/
Each of several hundred cars/iSa /guided out of the endang*
ered area
thanks to the protective efficiency and
calm courtesy of many police of f icersn^f iremen, sheriffs
and highway patrol men. We owe these men as well as ■
the brave pilots of helicopters and airplanesf^ who flew
into the shooting flames and black, hot smoke to drop
water and chemicals, a great deal of gratitude which to
but/
pay is Impossible other/^MV to praise them. Those vulgar
young people who dare to call these wonderful men "pigs"
and other dirty names should be reminded that one day they,
too, might have need of their help, protection and kindness.
In case you're curious or interested, please, don't worry!
Nothing came of it. The fire was stopped at the edge of our
none of our mobile/
Park and/ap homes were burned down.
Whenever we went ashore, the first thing I
did was to buy a local newspaper, sometimes even a couple.
To me they represented current history, and, if one kept
them (there we go again - mementos!), past history. Re-
cently I dug out from another cardboard box several old
newspapers, among them two from Singapore, "The Morning
Tribune" and "The Singapore Free Press". Some of the
headlines of that day in November of 1938 read: "PLIGHT
OF JEWS BECOMES WORSE" and "^-mAT NAZIS THINK OF JEW PLAN".
The latter referred to the suggestion of the childishly
naive British Prime Minister Neville Chamberlain to settle
the German Jews in Tanganyika. The Nazis didn't like the
idea. They believed their lethal brand of anti-Semitism
was politically very advantageous to them. Dictators need
scapegoats. Furthermore there is a paragraph in one of the
two papers that the first to send rubber to Europe were
Portuguese missionaries, a fact which might Interest no
one. On another page is a report that British Catholics
protested against the Nazis. Hitler must have been very
Plus XI. (and after 1939 /
much chagrined about that. Their Pope/Pius XIlJ did not
protest. On the contrary, he concluded a concordate with
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the Nazi gangsters. It could ajmost be compared with an
American President signing a non-prosecution agreement
with the presiding council of the Crime Syndicate.
We had a letter of introduction from an acquaintance
in Manila to - for the heck of me I can't remember his
name, so let's just call him a Mr. James in Singapore. He
was an optometrist, I believe, although Annie claims he
had been a jeweler. It doesn't matter, I guess. James was
a nice man and quite busy when we budded in on him. He
suggested that we take a walk in a nearby park and then
come back in about an hour. He would close shop at that
us/
time and would take/Tor a long ride all over Singapore.
In the meantime he'd call his wife to expect two guests
for dinner. He called it Singapore hospitality.
It seemed to us that the majority of Singapore's then
six hundred thousand residents were Chinese. It wasn't very
exciting. We had seen too many Chinese already. They're a
nice and industrious people and when it comod to bargaining
iliey're as smart as the Lebanese, Armenians and Jews - ex»
cept me. I'm a natural-born sucker and pay any price withoit
an argument if I have the money. The truth is, I've been
taken in many times and still haven't learned my lesson.
To rac anyone is honest unless proven otherwise. It is one
r'
of the manwdeficiencies of my mental make-up.
Some one on board the ship, who had been in Singapore
before, had told us that on some boulevards hordes of
monkeys were living in trees. They were supposedly quite
tame and would eat peanuts out of one's hands, but if one
squeezed their tails they would bite viciously. While
walking through the park we didn't see any monkeys. Even
if there had been, we had no peanuts and we aren't monkey
tail squeezers like allegedly Italian males in Rome are
addicted to pinching female butts.
James was as good as his word. When we returned to
him, he closed shop and drove us around on a sightseeing
tour. Singapore was supposed to have an all year round
pleasant temperature of about eighty- five degrees. The
day, we were there, it must have been over a hundred and
our host apologized as if he personally were responsible
for the extra-ordinary heat. We accepted his apologies.
What else could we do? In the course of the evening we
found out that he was one of the professional apologizers.
He even ap^ogized for his wife's dinner which was delicious.
First he drove us to Singapore's famous shopping
center. Raffles Place (named after Sir Stamford Raffles
who had founded Singapore in 1819) past fashionable stores
and Raffles Hotel of world renown.
James really went out of his way and made sure that
we saw the three most fascinating sights of the island -
the view across the Strait of Jahore at the Causeway, the
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Gap on the Paslr Penjang Island and the East Coast Road
at Bedok. And by golly there were lots of tree- jumping,
chattering monkeys which we wisely and strictly left
alone as they did us.
Before going home for dinner James drove us all through
theJTanglin District, allegedly to be the most attractive
residential quarters in the Far-East. But as we learned
too late we missed the most beautiful spot of Singapore,
the Botanical Gardens. Yet, we're still grateful to this
gracious gentleman that he went to so much trouble for
two strangers. There are kind people all over the world,
thank God. On all other shore leaves we were on our own
and couldn't afford to see as much as we did in Singapore.
And that is as far as we'll go in regard to scenic descrip-
tions. As a writer I've got little talent for painting
landscapes .
James explained to us that on most evenings Singapore
had the most beautiful sunsets in the world. This wasn't the
evening, however. The sunset was nothing to brag about. Be-
sides, no sunset anywhere can beat the one in Manila. We
were told the same about the sunsets in Penang, Belawan
and Colombo. None could even come close to the unbelievable,
extra-ordinary, beautifully <iolorful sunset the sky above
Manila displays, unless there is a torrent rain storm or
a raging typhoon. These Manila .typhoons are something special,
too, althbu^h not veryrccommendable.
We haven't got the slightest memory about the James'
home, how he or she loolced, what we had for dinner. I al"
most feel apologetic about it. However, after dinner a friend
of theirs dropped in and lo and behold he turned out to be
a long
forgotten schoolmate of mine. Naturally,
we began to talk about the past good, old times which, of
course, is utter nonsense. There are no good, old times.
Any time is as good or bad as we ourselves make it. As
it is always in a case like this one, we couldn't get over
the fact how small the world really is. I guess, in a
few hundred years people will be saying, "Golly, how small
this universe is". It '/I all a matter of how distances are
diminished by faster and more sophisticated methods of
transportation. I'm not so sure, though, we've improved
our modus vivendi by super-sonic jetliners and outer-space
vehicles. Soon there won't be any passenger liners and
trains left. That will be as sad as the disappearance of
the horse and buggy days and sailing ships. We again will
be so much poorer for it. More and more we're losing our
precious joy of time, replacing it by ever increasing
speed. Speed, I maintain, is no substitute for time. I
still rather walk than run. I rather keep the balance of
ecology in the natural order, God has created it, than
have it destroyed by so-called progress which may hurdle
roan
kind into oblivion sooner or later. I've an idea that
our younger generation begins to realize the evil of it.
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The next morning at breakfast Captain Tingey
and his first mate joined us at our table. The two English-
men almost looked like David and Goliath. The captain was
a small, thin, wiry, humorously tall^tlve man, who con-
sidered anyone unable to speak or understand English as
being uneducated. His first mate was a BBt bulky, broad-
shouldered, globular giant who seldom opened his mouth un-
less he could sM^fle food into it. They both disliked the
Nazis, but had taken passage on the Gneisenau because the
food was so much better than on an English ship. Besides,
the next P & 0 liner, with which their crew would be going
home, was due in England about a week later than the Gnei-
senau.
Captain Tingey' s specialty was to navigate under their
own steam small river boats across any ocean to any British
colony where a river boat was needed. This time he had taken
a small ferry all the way from London to Singapore, quite
a feast of seamanship.
He became our good friend who took us under his pro=>
tective wings when he learned that we were refugees from
Nazi-Germany. From Singapore to Southampton the good captain
and his mate were always watching over us. We felt sure that
the mate (six feet seven and close to three hundred pounds
of muscles and bones) could have heaved without any help
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the entire crew of the Gneisenau over board if anyone as
much as touched us.
Our friend Tingey was definitely an eccentric, the kind
only good, old England still produces. Daniel Webster defines
an eccentric as "anyone or anything that acts or operates in
an abnormal or unusual manner". Captain Tingey certainly
operated so. He was all British to whom anyone non-British
had to be inferior. He still belonged to the class of Bri-
tish marauders like Francis Drake and naval heroes like
Horatio Nelson. In stature not much above five feet and
weighing no more than one hundred- thirty pounds he exuded
authority from the top o^ his thinly haired head to the
soles of his feet. He liked to eat well, but unlike his
mate not in great quantities. One couldn't classify him
as a gourmet. He didn't care for fancy delicacies (as I
myself don't) and believed that the English had cornered
the culinary market (despite his dislike for the not well
prepared food on British ships) with their ghastly roasts
of mutton and ghastlier Yorkshire puddings. Strangely
enough, he liked German cooking from Sauerbraten to Leber-
knoedel. Despite his dafty obsession in regard to the English
language as being the only one a person need to learn for
the sake of culture in general, he kindly accepted our im"
per/sct version as better than no English at all. He was,
though, very much concerned how our English would develop
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once we were exposed to the American way of pronouncing,
which he thought was abominable. In his opinion Americans
spoke the bloodiest English of all English speaking people.
In contrast to our good captain his first mate was
the most gluttonous gourmand we ever did meet. He was a
very good-natured fellow - or at least he seemed to be.
The fact is we never got around to have any kind of conver-
sation with him. He was what the Germans call a "Vielfrass".
He could eat more in one sitting than we four. Captain
Tingey, the Swede, Annie and I, together. Eating was
his one and only hobby, and he enjoyed it to the fullest.
To give you an idea, this is one example of a single
dinner he easily could and did consume: Live boiled Lobster
with celery and olives; Cream soup O'Connor (Please, don't
ask me what that is. We both forgot); Glazed Ham in Bur*
gundy with green peas and carrots and Dauphine potatoes;
Roast Chicken; Thuringian sausages with creamed horse
radish. Naturally, he also had the salad and after that a
good tenderloin steak with German- fried potatoes. Only
seldom did he miss the seafood or fish like a fillet of
Salmon Russian style, an assortment of vegetables and
several different kinds of potatoes. For dessert he had
mostly a double portion of ice cream and several cups of
coffee. He ate it all and felt fine. His breakfasts and
luncheons were almost as huge as his dinners, and he never
missed any of the in-between snacks. The North German
Lloyd must have lost money on him.
Well, as I said, the good Captain Tingey and we hit
it from the start. He convinced Annie that uii hafltno need
to be afraid $B talk/ to him and be overheard since these
It/
uneducated Germans didn't understand English anyway, TSbBI^
was one of his iiaosuncrasies that only the British were
truly familiar with the English language. They were plenty
of Germans including all ship officers aboard who spoke
and understood at least as much English as Annie and I
did. However, Annie, persuaded by Captain Tingey, grew
bold and talked about or rather against the Nazis, for-
getting she was on Nazi-German territory. I reminded her
what had once happened to me in Shanghai when I cursed
a Chinese in German, idiotically believing that no Chinese
would ever understand it.' But there are no secret languages
in the world.
Annie and I were sitting in a streetcar in Shanghai
and a Chinese gentleman stepped pretty hard on my toes
as he walked through the middle aisle. It did hurt quite
a bit and that son-of-a-bitch didn't even as much as apolog-
ize. On the contrary ho threw a reproachful, dirty look
at me if it w^tdall my fault because my foot had been in
his way. That was too much for me and I told him in good,
old German: "Leek mXch im ArschI" It means in English (please^
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forgive me. Regrettably, 1 am not a Philip Roth): "Lick
ray behind!" It's some expression I had never used before
and I can't tell why I did then. I happen to be a civilized
person. The Chinese, very neatly dressed in a Western style
suit, turned around and answered me in perfect German and
with a big smile on his face: "Das habe ich scon einem
andem Schweinehund versprochen. " Translated: "I promised
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that already to another son-of-a-pig.
I almost fainted. I really did, while Annie giggled,
although she had been very sedately brought up in a Catho^
lie convent. We both never use or used bad language although
nowadays it is considered a literary achievement. What
could I do but apologize to the Chinese gentleman who
in turn apologized to me. For a while we conversed. It
turned out that for ten years he had been a counselor at
the Chinese Embassy in Berlin and, of course, spoke per-
fect German. Of all the Chinese in Shanghai I had to
insult this one. But from then on until today I won't
even curse in Hottentot if I don't want to be understood.
Who knows I might curse at the one and only person in
America who happens to understand the Hottentot language.
Each and every day the ship's Captain (Dcr
Herr Kapitain) in his splendid, gold-braided uniform and
with a retinue of at least two of his officers made the
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rounds of the ship between breakfast (Fruehstueck) and
dinner (Hauptmahlzeit , which according to German custom
was served at midday). Der Hcrr Kapitain was a good-looking
man, the blond, "Nordic" type as the Nazis would have de-
fined him. He walked as straight as a Prussian officer and
as stiff as if he vo^§y a tight girdle. One was never quite
sure if he was a robot or a human being. Loftily, he always
seemed to be very conscious of his status and position that
he and he alone represented the authority on board. Neither
he nor one of his officers did ever wear any swastika emblem
and one wasn't sure if he was a Nazi or if like some pro-
fessional German military officers he disliked the whole
dirty business of what was happening in Germany. Making
his rounds, he condescended to speak a few words with one
or the other of the passengers, or smiled at most, or con-
fined himself to a perfunctory "Guten Morgen" (Good rooming)
Whenever he approached us, that is Annie and me, he suddenly
changed his d^JIpieanor . He couldn't have missed seeing us.
yet^ he
neither smiled at us nor honored
us with a "Guten Morgen". We just weren't there. We didn't
exist. He passed us by as if we were invisible. I don't
know how personally deliberate his attitude was, or if he
didn't want to give the Gestapo agent on board the impression
that he had any contact with a Jewish refugee.
Ourl/'friend Captain Tingey also noticed that der Herr
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Kapltain cut us cold and It got h^s goat. He was all set
to give the Herr Kapitatn a piece of his mind of what he
thought of the Herr Kapltain' s discourtesy and the Nazis
in general. 1 had a heck of a time to dissuade him from
interfering because I rather had him ignore us. If he
got upset at us he might be influenced to give the Gestapo
agent on board free hand to kidnap us to Germany. The less
be said, the better. Besides, so 1 explained to Tingey,
our future might turn out to be much better than that of
the Herr Kapitain and his crew. We would be living in a
free country while the Herr Kapitain was dependent on the
good will of a single Gestapo agent. I wasn't so wrong.
Der Herr Kapitain didn't survive the war. The Gneisenau,
converted into a naval ship, was sunk. Actually, I didn't
have then and haven't now a grudge against this man who
was a slave without perhaps knowing it. Yet, somehow
each time the Kapitain cut us cold 1 felt stung. All my
life I hated to be ignored.
Despite the Herr Kapitain and despite the
precarious situation of being on a Nazi ship we enjoyed
the journey, thanks very much to Captain Tingey who always
was good company. As poor as we were, we yet had the oppor-
tunity to see the world. We play-acted to be normal world
j:ravelers and even acquired a few curios along the way.
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Wliat did it matter if we were left with only a few dollars
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upon our arrival in New York.' I had a job waiting for me
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A few days before our departure from Manila we had
bought a beautifully hand-carved camphor chest for twenty
Pesos or ten American dollars. It had been carefully crated
to withstand the long trip. For a long time it remained
the only piece of furniture we possessed. It traveled
with us deep down in the holds of the Gneisenau and later
the Europa. We never let go of it, even when we were in
dire need of money during our first two years in the States.
We could have sold it in America for at least twice the
amount we had paid for it in Manila at a curio shop which
for no obvious reason called itself "The Tah Mahal, and
that was as close as we got to that world-famoud edifice.
The real Tah Mahal wasn*t on the itinery of the Gneisenau.
The chest now stands in our livingroora beneath the front
window of our mobile home, a constant reminder (together
with some other smaller mementos) of the time when we were
involuntary "world travelers".
After leaving Singapore we sailed or rather steamed
through/the Malacca Straits between the Island of Sumatra
and the Malay Peninsula. Twenty-four hours later we docked
midstream at Penang which the tourist guide described as a
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tropical paradise. As far as we were concerned there were
still/
no tropical paradises, but only tropical **hells". I^have
a few notes I jotted down in Penang. Aside from the normal
unbearable, tropical, humid heat there and probably still
are giant palm trees and fern plants. There was a Chinese
Snake Temple of some fame and there lived people of various
ethnic origins as Javanese, Malayans, Tonkincse, Chinese
(always Chinese everywhere), Indians, Pakistanis and non-
Orientals like Americans and Persians. For a long time
Penang had been an important trade center and merchants
from many parts of the world had been attracted to it. For
a change it had clean and relatively noiseless streets
in contrast to most Oriental cities. We didn't see any
monkeys in Penang and neither did we encounter any go=
rillas in Sumatra the next day, although the islands of
Sumatra and Borneo are the natural habitats of these apes.
Of course, I bought two newspapers in Penang and still
found one of them, "The Strait Echo". Like the London Times
of that day it had and might still have, if it has survived
the second world war, the infuriating practice of placing
advertisements, shipping and commercial news on its front
page. The Strait Echo of that particular day reported that
the SS Gneisenau and five others ships had arrived. At the
airport the East-bound Empire Flying Boat was expected as
well as the K.L.M. plane from Bangkok. In the movie theatres
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they showed "Tropical Holiday" (which probably would have
been more appreciated in Alaska) with Bob Bums and Martha
Raye as well as "Romance and Rythm" with Dick Powell and
Priscilla Lane.
There was an article "Soviet Attack on Munich" on
page six. It stated that Prime Minister N. Molotov of the
Soviet Union had declared in the presence of Stalin that
"the British and French leaders boast of the 'Munich Agree-
ment' as a great success and of themselves as great peace-
ma
kers. France and Britain have lost prestige." Then Molotov
ended his speech, which he had begun by stating that the
second imperialistic world war had already begun, with
these words: "We must lead the proletariat to victory -
that is the chief aim of our October Revolution." - It
still is.
He was right thanks to naive and in ray opinion nefa-
riously incompetent, so-called statesmen like Daladier and
Chamberlain as well as to the complacency of the American
people and government. Communism has advanced in its destruct'
ive way all over the world and is still advancing.
Sorrowfully we must admit that once more we have men
like Daladier and Chamberlain in our midst who have not yet
learned that appeasement is not peace, but leads to more
and more wars. God help the world if these men or others
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like them ever again are being given the chance to direct
our foreign policy and sign international agreements with
gangsters. The world cannot survive another "Munich".
As I am writing our memoirs of the years,
when we were people without a country, traveling by jet
and super-sonic air planes is replacing the more luxurious
and leisurely voyages on ocean liners and passenger trains
and of this tragedy I cannot write often enough, even if
I repeat myself. Nowadays we let ourselves be hurdled, con*
fined in a locked contraption, through time changes which
must and often does leave us dizzy. We don't yet exactly
know what a nine hour difference in time within/a single
day will do to our mental and physical equilibrium. It
is called progress, and we believe that progress is a
matter of necessity (which it well may be), but it seems
technological progress grows so fast, so bewilderingly
fast that our human behaviourism and the natural ecology
lag behind and thus the health of all life^on earth is
endangered. We have become progressive destroyers, and
if we do not learn how to harness our technical progress
we will pollute nature's environment and ourselves to
oblivion.
Annie and I find flying a bore and much too confining
We don't cater to the idea that it contributes enjoyment
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to be flown from one culture and civilization to another,
from one continent to another, within a few hours. We
suffer from claustrophobia in these big air ships. What
happen to nature when one is looking out of the windows
of one of these super-sonic air liners? Nothing. Before
we think we've seen a mountain range, a lake, a city or
whatever it's gone already. Mostly one looks down on
cloud formations. It might be a great achievement to set
foot on the moon and we rightly admire the heroic bravery
of our astronauts, but we still feel like crying that at
the same time we seem to be unable to conquer hunger and
want on our own planet. We are constantly reminded that
we won't have a chance of survival if something goes badly
wrong within these flying machines. We survived one of the
mo
st destructive typhoon^ in the history of the Far East,
but would we have had the same chance if we had been travel
ing in an airplane? I cannot help but doubt it.
how/
The trouble now is that we have forgotten/to relax
and enjoy doing nothing once in a while. We're driven,
constantly driven to newer horizons, to other places and
when finally nature rebels, when our physical constitution
demands of us to take it easier, then we fail because we
have not been taught how to cope with leisure. We are los-
ing and perhaps already have lost our love affair with life
a
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After leaving Penang we crossed the Malacca
/traits and docked at Belawan on the island of Sumatra, the
fifth largest island in the world. Of course, during the
five or six hours >^tay of the Gneisenau we had little oppor*
tunity to explore the volcanic jungle of Sumatra or hunt
with our little camera for a life tiger, gorilla or at
least a crocodile. We could have bought a wretched tiger*
skin for twenty- four Dutch guilders from one of the many
street peddlers if we wanted to waste our money on some-
thing we had no use for or take it with us to brag about
having shot that poor tiger ourselves. Belawan' s waterfront
showed nothing but u^ttractive warehouses, supposedly flf
stored with the products of Sumatra, Java or Borneo like
tea, coffee or rubber. We took for a guilder each an hour's
train ride to Medan. The cars were open, similar to electric
trains in American zoos or amusement parks or we would have
suffocated in the heat. Along the tracks were forests of high
as well as/
palm- dBB|/banana trees and hemp-like plants. We crossed
several rivers, none of which seemed to be inhabitated by
crocodiles. Neither did we get a glance at any other wild
was/ very/
animals which Wm fWKKtKH Wam^fmmtk disappointing. We had
looked forward to it, but as usual you know - please, don't
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where the natives stared at us as if wc were the big apes
we had hoped to see. All in all the trip did not offer much
more than steaming h6at and we could have done without it.
Medan was so typical Dutch (if it weren't for the
natives and the heat) that we felt ourselves set back
to Europe. Like in Holland the people, nativciand non-
natives, were bycicling everywhere like the Dutch still
do in their home land. Medan was as neat and clean as any
Dutch city and only the residential homes, wide open from
front to rear in order to let air flow through^were built
in the typical Indonesian architectual style, featuring
elaborate wood carvings and thatched roofs with upswept
gables. In the center of town, the business district, we
were attracted by the European style stores and most of
all by the coffee houses and pastry shops. We hadn't seen
any since we had left Europe. Nowhere in all of East Asia
could one get fresh milk or dairy products. I used to be
a whipped cream addict and after we entered one of these
cafes the first thing I asked was if they had whipped
cream. Indeed, they had. It was a dream. I ate so much**
of it that I got sick afterwards. Yet, it was worth it.
Definitely.' Timothy was disgusted with me, but what did
I care? It so happens that I still like to think of this
feast, because now I'm not anymore allowed to eat any dairy
products because I've become a natural manufacturer of
kidney stones, the variety consisting o^ calcium which
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Is a part of dairy products. Well, despite my stomach re-
volt from too much whipped cream we made it back to the
Gneiscnau in time. I went to bed without any dinner. I'm
sorry, folks, but contrary to all the romantic aspects
we generally attach to the Indonesian islands my most
memorable recollection is - whipped cream.
Of the many adventures we had^Annic by herself would
have sufficed. Although somewhat tamed by now, she still
is and always has been an unpredictable creatures. Regrett"
ably, arthritis has very much slowed her down, but in her
younger years and all the while we were exiles she never
ceased to be as vivacious as Rhinish girls are supposed
to be. The songs and poems, which have been written in
admiration of the pretty girls from the Rhineland, are
numerous and Annie fitted any of them.
During the three days it took the Gneiscnau to steam
from Sumatra to Colombo on the island of Ceylon dear, little
orphan Annie disappeared at least half a dozen times each
single day. I had to go in search of her or had to have
her paged because she had a way of getting into mischief
which was absolutely uncanny and in our situation danger^
ous . She never learned to keep her mouth shut in regard
to her disgust of the Nazis. Besides, she could get her-
self into the most impossible situations and then after I
had rescued her laugh about them.
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Annie always was and still is thank God the most lov-
able, the most devoted, the most faithful and brave wife
a man could ever desire to have. There had been no need
for her to share with me the travels and travails of home-
less refugees. After all, she was by birth a gentile with
no Jewish infested ancestry. Like some other gentile spouses
she could have divorced me and stayed in Germani^which accord=
ing to Hitler would be paradise on earth for at least a
thousand years. Luckily for both of us she chose otherwise.
She might have been arrested for being radically anti-Nazi
(and also anti-Communist as I am) and perhaps would not
have survived the holocaust of the second world war. The
idea of letting me emigrate alone never occurred to her.
That was unthinkable as far as she was concerned. Wherever
I went, she went. There was no other way for her. Today
we
are never separated, not even for a single minute. We
^
enjoy our togetherness more than ever.
I could write pages and pages about Annie, but she
tells me to shut up or she'll be embarrassed. Since I'm
one hundred percent prejudiced in her favor, perhaps I
better leave well enough alone. Nonetheless, I can't help
but say that she is one in a million, and I thank God each
day that 1 fell in love with her. Nothing better could have
happened to me.
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Ever since Singapore the sea had been calm
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and the weather beautiful. There is nothing more enjoyable
than an ocean journey on a luxurious passenger liner as
long as the weather god is acting benevolent. Even Annie
and I, despite our deep misgivings about traveling on a
Nazi-German shipycouldn' t help but have a good time. We
always could count on Captain Tingey to take our side
in case any Nazi on board would try to insult us and on
Timothy to protect us from any real danger.
Right now I would like to jump ahead of my story
and tell about the one and only Japanese passenger on
board. Late one evening somwhere between Colombo and
the Suez Canal I got acquainted with him. Mr. Kashuo
Nishitani^as I'll call him here^although to the best of
my memory we never introduced ourselves to each other,
just fell to talking as passengers on board a ship some=
times do. He was a quiet, little man in his early fifties
who exclusively kept to himself. He sat a few tables away
from us in the diningroom with three other passengers.
Each time he came and went he bowed to his table companions,
but that was as far as he went. We assumed he spoke only
Japanese and for that reason alone could not be drawn into
a conversation with anyone.
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That particular evening I was standing at the rail-
ing, looking out over the dark sea, churned up by the
ship's propellers. A full moon left a wide silver-streak
on the water and I felt engulfed by some romantic fairy*
land atmosphere. I don't remember why I was alone w^ithout
Annie. She probably had gone to bed already.
After a while I noticed Mr. Nishitani standing a few
feet away from me. More than once I had been wondering
about this little, lonely man. Having learned that diff=
erant languages were no barrier to communication, I thought
this was an opportunity to get acquainted with him. There
was no one else around but the two of us. Somehow, however,
I felt shy to break into his revery. I wished Annie would
be with rae. She always had an easy way of meeting people
and getting friendly with them. There we were, only a
few feet apart, and yet there seemed to be a wide gulf
between us which I didn't know how to bridge. Of a sudden
and to my surprise Mr. Nishitani addressed me in quite good
English.
"You are Jewish, aren't you?" he asked.
For a moment I was taken aback and was about to tell
him that it was none of his business what I am. I was over-
sensitive on the Nazi-German ship and the Japanese were
known to be very friendly toward the German Nazis. However,
his voice had sounded so gentle that I couldn't possibly
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take umbrage at his question. I nodded and said that I
was Jewish.
For a few moments he looked at me quizzically, then
asked, "If you're Jewish, why do you travel on a Nazi
ship?" Before I could answer, he added, "Please, forgive
me for being so inquisitive."
'. I explained to him the reasons and inrum asked him,
why he was interested in knowing that I was Jewish or not.
He smiled. "I'm Jewish myself."
It almost floored me. I never would have imagined
that a Japanese could be Jewish. All I could say was,
"You must be kidding."
"What does kidding mean?" he wanted to know.
"Joking or something like that."
He shook his head. "No, I'm not joking. In fact, I'm
on my way to visit Palestine. Once in my life I want to
see the Jewish homeland, maybe to pray there at the Wailing
Wall. You know, this for me is a holy voyage, perhaps in
the same way as a Mohammedan desires to visit Mecca once
in his lifetime."
I still had my doubts about him. It seemed to be in=
credible.
"I have been wanting to talk to you ever since you
came on board in Manila,** he said as gentle as ever, "but
I though it wiser to wait until no one could overhear us."
I felt still lost for words.
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"Do you mind if I call you 'friend'?" he asked shyly.
"I think that all Jews in the world are friends.**
"I feel honored," I said idiotically, but how was
I to cope otherwise with this curious happening?
"You know, friend," Mr. Nishitani went on, "all through
their unhappy history the Jews have been praying * Tomorrow
in Jerusalem' . One day and perhaps in our lifetime Palestine
will again belong to the Jews as it rightly should be. They
deserve to become a nation again. You see, I'm not a
Meshummed, a convert. My family has been Jewish since my
grandparents accepted Judaism for their religion and philo=
sophy. I've studied the old testament and the Torah and
now
for one month I want to live in the land of the Jews
and see the ancient shrines of Judaism. I'm not a rich man
and so I couldn't take my family along. We saved for many
years so that at least I could make this holy journey."
He interrupted himself and smiled at me. "Forgive
me please that I'm talking so much, but I was so happy
to see another Jew on this ship and so glad that at last
I can talk to you alone."
I knew, it was my turn to say something. "I, too, am
glad to talk to a fellow Jew," I said although that wasn't
the way I actually felt. I was so much more curious how it
came about that his grandparents had been converted to
Judaism. We Jews do not send out missionaries. We don't
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even encourage anyone to convert. On the contrary, we make
it as hard as we possibly can to accept non-Jews into our
midst. We don't advertise if some one converts to Judaism.
In all my life I've known only one rabbi who did so in
Hollywood when he accepted a famous actress into the
Jewish faith and she probably doesn't make a^^y use of
it anymore. This rabbi shamed not only himself by this
revolting publicity, but all Jews in general.
"You know," I said to Mr. Nishitani, "this is the
first time I heard about a Japanese being Jewish."
"There are very few," he admitted.
"Do you mind telling me why your grandparents b
ecame
Jews?"
"No, I don't mind at all, my friend. You probably
don't know much about the old Japan. The majority of the
people lived like slaves and worked like slaves. We're
very proud of our country and her history, and yet during
the centuries when our emperors were Cnly puppets and the
shoguns with their samurais, the warrior class, ruled our
nation until Emperor Meiji, whose real name was Mutsu-hito,
the grandfather of our present Emperor Hirohito, overthrow
the shoguns and abolished the samurais^ the simple folks,
mostly peasants like my ancestors, were not only very, very
poor, but also had no civil ri/its at all."
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I've read much about Japan's history," I told him,
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"and know about the shoguns and the samurais."
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Then you understand that I'm telling the truth. Plcasq,
believe me, we Japanese are essentially a good people, but
so few have ruled over so many of us and not always to
the best of our country. It still is so. I think that we
Japanese would have very much benefited if we all were Jews.
I think, the whole world would have been a better world, if
it had become a unified Jewish world, for the Jews want
peace and justice for all. But these are only my thoughts
and few people would agree with them. Our greeting is
'Shalom' which means Peace and that says all."
"Yes," I agreed, "That says all, but you haven't told
me yet how and why your grandparents became Jews."
He looked out over the wide ocean while he told me
the story. There was joy and nostalgia in his voice and
also a quiet satisfaction.
"At the time after the American Commodore Perry came
to Japan in 1854 and opened the door to the West for us,
my grandparents were still very young and they lived both
a/
to be/hundred, God bless their souls. Then after the Meiji
restoration and the overthrow of the shoguns in 186SWesterners
J
were allowed to come to Japan and live there. My grandfather
was a small craftsman, but he was paid very poorly. He and
his wife knew much hunger. There came a Jewish family from
England. They bought a house not too far from where my
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grandparents lived in an old shack. The Jewish family
was very religious and needed some non-Jewish servants to
do the menial work on their shabos , their Saturdays, and
their holidays when they weren't allowed to do any work. But
I don't need to tell you all that. The Jewish man started
an Import and Export business and although they weren't
rich when they came they soon flourished. They hired my
grandparents to be their servants, but uhlike other well-
to-do people in Japan Mr. arii Mrs Goldsmith, which was
their name, were very kind to ray grandparents. They had
a little house built for them on Mr. Goldsmith's property.
It didn't take long until my grandparents were treated
like members of the Goldsmith family. In all their>^lives
they had never known so much kindness. For the first time
they had not to fear hunger and want anymore. With some
regularity Mrs. Goldsmith bore children, five altogether,
and so did my grandmother. The young ones were brought up
together as if they were all one family. Gradually my
grandparents learned more and more about the Jewish re=»
ligion and their children were given an education, the
same as the Goldsmith children. So my grandparents became
Jews, not only out of gratitude, but also from conviction.
The oldest son of my grandparents, who -became my father,
was given a beautiful /amitzvah when he became thirteen
kids that he was a Jew. Anti-Semitism is such a conta-
gious disease. But he and we remained good Jews. My whole
family, brothers and sisters, aunts and uncles, our children
and their children haven't changed. We're Jewish and feel
Jewish. We're proud to be Jews, and we still honor the
memory of Mr. and Mrs. Goldsmith who were the source of
our happiness and our well-being. Their children stayed
in Japan and I'm working for one of their grandsons as
an accountant. My grandparents were Meshummeds , but my
parents and we are true Jews and perhaps one day, when
Palestine will again become a Jewish nation, we may be
able to go and live there. All of us. Never forget -
Tomorrow Jerusalem!
And then he said, "I guess, it's time for me to turn
in. You've done me a real mjEzvah (a good deed) to let me
talk to you."
Before he left M he said in Hebrew with a slight
Japanese accent: "Jevorechacha adona voshmerecha. " - May
God bless you and keep you.
I had tears in my eyes and thanked him with a choking
voice for the most beautiful story I ever had heard. I never
felt my Jewishness so much as on this occasion and never did
so again, although I'm not a religious Jew as I said before.
Mr. Nishitani left the Gneisenau at Port Said to travel
years old. My father was very much taunted by other Japanese
to Jerusalem. I was standing at the railing as he disembarked,
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and he turned for a moment to wave at us. I believe, the
Jewish people are very much richer for this one Japanese
and his family. May God bless them all. I hope, he could
make his dream come true and move with his family to
Israel to settle there for the rest of their lives. I
know they would have been greeted with a hearty "Bruchim
Ha'baim:"/a hearty welcome. Thank God for Israel and may
she be blessed
in all eternity.
I did promise that I won't write a guided
tour of world- traveling, for that isn't the purpose of
this book. We weren't guided at all, but compelled into
it. Besides, I myself am generally bored whenever I'll
have to thread my way through pages and pages of phony
descriptions which so many writer like abstract painters
conjure up by their flatulent imagination. I've read
accusing/
about skyscrapers which supposedly look like.
fingers stabbing into the sky. I never have seen a sky=
scraper which looked to me like an accusing finger. I've
read superlatives about the beauty of the Orient and orien=
tal cities which were compared to rare diamonds. Baloney.
None of the l^rientaj cities have any similarity to rare
diamonds. The only diamonds I've seen in the Orient were
in the pierced nostrils of wealthy, sarong-covered Indian
ladies and they didn't enhance their female beauty. Each
one of these diamonds could have fed a poverty stricken
family for a year or more. I have wltnessefl^ the unbeliev-
able poverty which is part of the Orient. I've seen the
filth of native parts of C^riental cities while the tourists
are being shown the splendor of wealthy residential sections
or the Tah Mahal which was built with the sweat and lives
of slaves.
I'm very much tempted to skip the few hours we spent
m
Colombo on the island of Ceylon if it weren't
for the Durlon fruit, the elephants and a Nazi from the
Gneisenau crew who sort of waylayed us.
All right, let's begin with the Durlon fruit. Chances
have/
are you may never/heard of it or have eaten it. We had
been told/
about it many times. The Durlon tree grows in the
Malayan Archipelago and in parts of India. Its/strange
grows to/
fruit/fir
the size of a man's balled fist . Generally it is
in season during May and June, but we had been told that
the Indian variety of the Durlon tree bears Its large,
yellow-green flowers later in the year. If the fruit was
available in Colombo, we were determined to taste it. After
some wandering around we found a native restaurant in a
narrow side street. We went in and asked. We were lucky.
Although the season was as good as over, they had a few
Durlon fruits left. They were still edible although they
spoil quickly and cannot be exported, not even if they're
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quickly frozen and kept refrigerated. They're being served
in a tightly lidded dish because their fetid smell is ovcr=
powering. In order to put one into your mouth you've got
to pinch the nostrils of your nose together. One whiff of
Che smell and you won't be able to start eating it. but
once it reaches your taste buds, you won't ever forget it.
It's not an experience, it's a happening. No other fruit
in the world can. be compared with it. There's only one
expression for its taste and that is "ambrosial", the food
for the Gods. Delicious beyond any words or any description.
The next item on our Colombo agenda is the Nazi who
kind of waylayed us while we were watching the rope trick,
you all have heard about or seen on the screen. I can't
explain it either how a rope can lift straight up and a
boy can climb it.
I don't know if you can imagine the kind of shock I
received when - while standing in a small crowd watching
the darned trick - some one from behind me hissed into my
ear in the most ugly, guttural German: "Mister - 1 checked
you out. You're wanted in Germany as an enemy of the state.
I'm going to make sure that you'll be taken back for the
punislwient you deserve, Jew-bastard."
The first thought that came to my mind was that Timothy
must be playing a very unfunny Joke on me. When I turned my
head, 1 knew that each word the man behind me had said was
not an empty warning. I stared into the most cruel, Ice-
cold, steel-grey eyes I had ever seen. They sent shivers
dovsm my spine. I remembered having seen this man once or
twice on the Gneisenau. Quite obviously he expected a re=»
action from me. When I was still in Germany and a Nazi
insulted me I had a standard answer: "Drop dead'.'" And so
quite naturally I told this man the same. At that moment
Timothy whispered to me that the man won't drop dead. I
wasn't that lucky.
Annie, fascinated by the rope trick, luckily hadn't
heard or noticed anything and 1 didn't tell her about it.
The man had walked away before the^ick was over.
Later, after we had returned to the Gneisenau, I
reported this ugly incident to Captain Tingey. The next
the/
day I had a chance to point^^Bl man out to him. Tingey
was up in arms. He never told me what he did, but I sus=«
pected that he had a talk with the Herr Kapitain, warning
him that he would raise Cain if Annie and I weren't safely
landed in Southampton. That man never as much as threw a
glance at me again. I didn't believe my eyes when I saw
him with a duffle bag slung over his shoulder leave the
ship at Genoa. Perhaps the Herr Kapitain had still enough
him/
influence to haveTjliBMBl recalled before the Gneisenau
reached her home port of Bremen. Nothwithstanding, UHl the
episode remained fixed in my mind until the very moment we
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8C<: foot on American soil. This particular Gestapo agent
might have been recalled, but who was his replacement?
Before we reached Southanpton I had reason to suspect the
Gepaeckmeister (baggage master) on the Gneisenau, but
Timothy also smelled a rat and prevented me from stepping
into his trap. Once we were on the SS Europa we felt less
concerned because there were no ports anymore between
Southampton and New York. Yet, it was still possible,
but not very probable unless the passenger manifest was
falsified. Besides, kidnaping a so-called "enemy of the
state" within their own territory could have been con-
sidered a matter of German internal affairs. After all,
it had been our own foolishness to travel on a Nazi-ship
- although the choice had not been ours if we wanted to
immigrate to America. And we wanted to - desperately so.
Now at last to the Elephants which '\i>en't living
animals. While the Gneisenau was getting up steam to
leave Colombo many passengers were leaning over the rail-
ing, watching the small, native boats below. They were
loaded with a variety of native handicraft. At the last
moment Annie had set her heart on buying at least one
ev
ebony elephant, even if it would be only/very small one.
From the boats below to the decks high above an/vlce versa
a constant shouted bargaining went on. Annie was in her
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element. She Just played the game with all the gusto
she always had shown when it came to bargaining in the
Far East. She loved nothing better. Instead of one she
espied a set of four elephants in different sizes, the
biggest one was carved from a single coconut shell, the
others, each one smaller than the next, were made of ebony.
So she shouted and gesticacated and the turbaned Indian
in the bopping boat below shouted and gesticulated back.
He wanted for the set twenty-four rupees, the equivalent
of four American dollars. I thought they were very cheap,
but told Annie we couldn't afford to spend even four
dollars on something so useless. She didn't listen,
gripped by the fever of bargaining. Both she and the
man down below enjoyed it very much. Finally at the very
last moment they agreed on six rupees or one dollar. No
one but Annie could have managed it, but she had continued
bargaining until the Gneisenau started to glide out of
the harbor. The seller down below either could keep his
elephants or take a dollar for them. He capitulated and
put the elephants into a basket, attached to a swinging
bamboo pole which reached up to our deck. Annie got her ele-
phants and he his dollar. These four elephants are now
solemnly standing on a narrow board above one of our
l^vingroom windows which we call the elephant walk. They
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dollar to a better purpose. Maubc she's right at that.
During the recent Los Angeles earthquake our mobile home
was a shambles. Only the elephants had calmly remained
on the narrow board above the window. They hadn't toppled
down like most of our things from book shelves, cup boards
and tables, including a small bronze buddha. His dignity
was certainly impaired.
About a week after we had left Colombo
and the island of Colombo we entered the S^^z Canal. Our
travels and travails in the Far East and what is gener-
ally called the Orient had come to an end.
The climate of the Canal zone is hot all year around,
but influenced by the Sahara Desert the heat is dry in
if
contrast to the humid-^lHR we had known in the Orient.
Yet, a few nights each year are exceptionally cold.
Naturally with our luck the one night we traveled through
the canal was one of the coldest in many years.
After having sailed through the Red Sea, which is
anything but red, the day came to an end as we entered
the Suez Canal. It was a very bright night. A full moon
eerily lighted the landscape on both sides of the narrow
waterway. In that respect we were lucky because we had
been told that the visibility could be reduced to almost
zero when the Khamsin wind was blowing up the desert sand.
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It seemed as if there were only inches to spare between
the ship and the^banks of the canal. Only at the Great
Bitter Lake and Lake Timsah could ships pass one another.
At times the Suez Canal pilots had to keep a ship waiting
in one of these two lakes whenever they had been informed
by radio that another ship was approaching from the oppo-
site direction. We sailed through the Great Bitter Lake,
but came to a stop at Lake Timsah for about half an hour.
At last a large freighter appeared and passed us silently.
The canal was open for the Gneisenau to continue toward
Port Said.
The temperature fell rapidly, but we could not per-
suade ourselves to go down to our cabin, I still was wear-
ing a white, tropical suit and, having no sweater, I just
remained on deck as I was.
We saw a camel caravan with burnoosed Arabs like sil-
houettes slowly moving in the opposite direction along
the ancient caravan road on the south bank of the canal
which led from Gaza to Arish and El Quantare, places which
would be making news during the seven days war in 1967.
We were told that Abraham had traveled this same road thou-
sands of years ago. Maybe he had and maybe he had not, it
did not matter much, for we surely were on biblical grounds
on both sides of the canal. I felt deeply enthralled as if
I were taken back to the times of the Old Testament and the
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people who so long ago had been my ancestors, for there
is not a Jew In the world who cannot trace his ancestry
Jewish/
back to the land of Israel. And althouth the new/nation
did not yet exist, when we were slowly steaming through
the Suez Canal, my heart was deeply stirred, knowing that
probably never again I would come so close to the ancient
land of the Hebrew people.
I know very little if anything about the Jewish -
or for that matter about any other - religious rites
and rituals, but religion per se has nothing to do with
Judaism as a philosophy and a state of being and mind. If
one is born a Jew, one can never deny to be a Jew, one
can never cease to be a Jew either - even not a convert
to another faith. During all Jewish history, in the
thousands of years of the diaspora, the land of Israel
always existed in the minds of all Jews and now that
the Jewish Nation has been reborn, it will never cease to
exist. It is there because God has willed it so.
The coolness of the night, this particular night, at
last sent us shivering down to our cabin. I actually felt
chilled to the bones. After all, we had lived in a tropical
climate for several years and the sudden onset of the cold
took effect of me . As a young man I had been pinned down
In a fCxhole in Flanders during a rain which lasted with-
out interruption for two weeks. Like my comrades I was
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living and sleeping in a water-filled hole in the ground
with not a chance to dry out even for a few hours. When
at last we could be relieved and marched to the rear, I
had to be taken to a field hospital, having acquired a
case of severe rheumatism of which I wasn't totaly cured.
During this night in the Suez Canal I had an attack of
ray old rho//Tiatism which almost made me crawl up the walls.
The pains were unbearable. Annie got some ointment from
the ship doctor and for hours massaged me. The irony is
that now when I've reached old age I'm completely free of
rheumatism while Annie is a victim of arthritis which keeps
her very much incapacitated.
Luckily after the night of frightful pain and sleep-
lessness the wonderful desert heat returned as we reached
Port Said where again we had to anchor midstream and go
ashore on a small launch past the formidable De Lessps
statue.
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In Port Said we were for the first and only time
on Arab soil and what we saw we didn't like. Port Said
was certainly a poor advertisement for an Arab country,
or in this case for Egypt. She was a dirty town and
probably still is. Even dirty is not the right expression.
I would rather say - unclean. We wandered around for a
while, followed and annoyed by a little, filthy Arab
urchin. Although we spoke English, he addressed us in
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German, knowing we were traveling on a German boat. He
begged with probably the only German words he knew, try-
ing to sell us some pornographic picture cards. He didn't
/■ running at our side - /
reiterated the same words: "Kleine
Schweinereien, Herr Baron^"
•HBBMB •■■■■■ "Schweinerei" cannot be easily trans
lated. A Schwein is a pig and Schweinerei means literally
dirtiness or filth. The closest translation would be:
"Little obscenities, honorable sir"/. He waved the
cards at us with his dirty hands. He didn't make a sale
on us/
with us. At last he gave up/to follow another tourist
couple who must have been Italians. There was an Italian
passenger liner in the harbor when we arrived. So the
clever, little pest of a boy attacked this couple by
telling them, "Tanto bene cochino, senor". Very good
obscenities, sir.
We found the department store of Simon Arzt which
was internationally known for its own brand of Egyptian
cigaretr-which they sold in flat or round tin cans, de-
pending on the amount of cigarettes one wanted to buy.
Once in a while I had smoked them in Hamburg where they
were frightfully expensive, but they had a kind of trans-
lucent taste which was absolutely unique. Over Annie's
protest I bought a flat can, containing twenty cigarettes
^/
Although we couldn't afford/ 1 was unable to resist. After
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visit Simon Arzt's
did/
Department Store, hesjt^s , the cigarettes/cost half as
much as I had paid for them in Hamburg - but even half
as much was too much for us.
We wandered around some more to satisfy my second
ambition in Port Said, that is to take a snapshot of a
veiled Arabian woman. I remember an Arab sitting on a
chair in front of his white-baked, mud house. On a small
table beside him he had a
cup with the thick coffee
they're used to drink. It's more fine coffee ground with
sugar added than a liquid and can almost kill you if one
isn't used to it. He looked at us stoically, neither
curious nor interested. A swarm of fat, green flies
were buzzing all around him, settling on his face, arms
and hands. They didn't seem to disturb him. He made no
attempt to get rid of them. They were also all over his
coffee cup, attracted by the sugar. He just sat there as
if he were mummified. One couldn't tell if he was day-dream-
ing or not thinking at all - if that is possible.
We continued walking and at last there she was, the
veiled Arabian woman. She walked toward us and I whipped
out my little camera, aiming it at her. She shook her head
vehemently, turned away and started running from us. We
tried to pursue her, but it was of no avail. She managed
to evade us. I never got my snapshot, although I was de-
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termined not to give up, but Timothy stopped me be tell-
ing me that I was crazy as usual. If I continued acting
like a lunatic, I'd get myself into trouble. Aral^j^ were
notoriously jealous in regard to their women and taking
a picture of one against her will might not be taken as
a friendly gesture. If I got into a spat, I had to fight
myself out of it without his help. He wasn't my bodyhuard,
only my guardian angel and that didn't include brawling
in my behalf.
I regretted that Captain Tingey wasn't with us. He
him/
would have helped me, but we didn't see/when we went
ashore. Later, telling him about that elusive Arabian
woman, he said it served me right. I had no business to
bother foreign females. Moreover, he hadn't wanted to
go ashore because he didn't like the bloody Arabs. Once
an Arab merchant had cheated him thoroughly and that was
enough for him to dislike all Arabs. In his opinion they
were all thieves and robbers. Of course, it was the same
all over again, collective prejudice for the sin of one
individual. I met a man once who hated all cats because
one of them had in the long ago accidentally turned over
had/
a burning candle and his house/almost burned down. Crazy, Jf
but that's the way we are. Always apt to condemn rather
than to praise. We never would praise a whole nation on
account of one good man, but we easily persecute an entire
race
for the bad deed of a single member of this race.
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I am not better. I, too, am prejudiced against all
Arabs on account of the hate-spewing Grand Mufti in Hitler's
times and later of their misleader Nasser. Both men are dead
and hopefully have gone to hell - but can and should we
blame each and every Arab for the existence of these two
bad men? Each people as a people are basically good, I
think. They would as willingly follow an honest leader as
a dishonest one. The trouble only lies in the ignorance
^ the evil designs of/
of the mas se sand /nany so-called educated, supposedly not
ignorant single persons. I am prejv^j^iiced against all
Arabs and never have met a single one. I know it isn't
right, but I can't fight it.
•
No ordinary traveler or tourist or any*
one else for that matter can ever Imagine our feeling
of insecurity and fear - yes, also fear although I rarely
suffer from fear - when our ship sailed toward Italy and
which/
Europe. We were on our way to Genoa and Italy/like Nazi-
Gerraany was ruled by an egomaniacal dictator. If that
Gestapo agent on the Gneisenau, who had threatened me
in Colombo, had a chance to kidnap me, he would have it
in Mussolini's Italy. We didn't know what to expect. In
Nazi-Germany the Jews had been officially designated as
sub-human beings (Untermenschen) who had no civil, judi-
cial and moral rights at all. They had been declared and
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were treated as open prey like vermin. In addition to our
apprehension about our own safety we could not suppress a
feeling of guilt that we were traveling on a Nazi-German
ship. True, we had had no other choice if we wanted to go
to America, and yet each minute aboard we were aware that
we didn't belong. We had no right to be there. We really
were in a quandary which to change was beyond our power.
Captain Tingey, knowing of our predicament, always
tried/
stuck close to us. Timothy/^to calm me down although he had
to admit that he might be of little help other but warn me
in time in case there would be a contemplated attempt
to shanghai me back to Nazi-Germany. If ray time was not
yet up, the Nazis couldn't kill me, but on the other hand
he mioht not be able to protect me from all the tortures
they had already refined to a degree that it wasn't some=»
thing to look forward to. Most of all Annie and I feared
the possibility of being forcibly separated by the Nazis.
Actually, there was nothing we could do about it. Like
children, waiting for Christmas to come, we waited for the
qioment we could set foot on American soil.
The weather g:ew colder and colder. We had December and
even in the relatively mild climate of the Mediterranean we
- more than others who hadn't lived in the tropics for a
number of years - could feel the first stirrings of winter
during the three days and nights the Gncisenau sailed from
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Port Said through the Straits of Messina and along the
Italian coast up North to Genoa. Try as we did, we could
not shed our inner tensions and yet could not escape the
beauty of the evening as we passed through the Straits of
Messina with Sicily at one side and the southern tip of
Italy on the other. It grew dark when we reached the
Tyrrheanian Sea and the Lipari Islands, which in ancient
timeanad been called the Aeolian Islands and allegedly
had been the residence of the w/Cnd god Aeolus. Luckily
for us the old god must have been asleep, for no winds were
blowing. It was here where according to Greek mythology
the two monsters Scylla on the Italian side and Charybdis
on the Sicilian shores dominated the narrow waterway through
which Odysseus sailed. In later years Scylla was mapped
as a reef and Charybdis an a dangerous whirlpool, and if
the mariners didn't watch out the one or the other would
cause their ships to sink.
We passed quite closeB to the Stromboli, an active
vulcano. which generally was engulfed by sulphur vapors.
J^/
But this late evening/]BB ■■■■■H gave a pyrotechnic
performance for us. It spat flowing lava into the air which
like a fiery waterfall rolled down the three thousand feet
of the mountain. It was one of the most fascinating sights
to behold.
In Genoa, where the Gneiscnau stopped for a few hours^
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quite a number of passengers disembarked for the quicker
trip by railroad to Nazi-Germany. Annie and 1 debated
whether to go ashore or not. Both of us were in desperate
need of a sweater to withstand the cold weather. Captain
Tingey willingly offered to accompany us aTad Timothy ex»
pressed signs of jealousy, but had no choice but to trot
along. It was his duty never to leave ray side, but he could
not help complaining about our relying so much on a mere
mortal like the good Captain Tingey.
We had little time for sightseeing and didn't care
to stay on Fascist soil for longer than it took to buy
our sweaters, hoping they wouldn't be too expensive.
Genoa around the harbor displays white palaces and
mansions with green gardens rising on terraces to the
peaks of steep hills. While we were searching for a
department store we changed our mind and made a detour
for a short visit of the San Lorenzo Cathedral, supposedly
the most magnificent Gothic church in the world. There is
no doubt about its magnificence as an edifice, but I have
yet to be inspired by any building consecrated to the wor=
ship of God, thinking how many people could have been fed
and housed for the money expended to build it and keep it
up. Man can pray anywhere without the need of pompous
structures and professional clergymen. I can't believe that
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believe that He woujd listen more to the prayers, said
by a congregation assembled in these houses, than to the
plea of a poor man who by himself prays in a hovel. Neither
do I believe that earthly wealth entitles anyone to special
privileges in the grand theme of God's universe.
We crossed the Piazza Dante and went into the museum
which allegedly was once the home of Christopher Columbus,
the man who is wrongly accredited with having discovered
America. If we coujd have afforded the expenditure we would
have taken a taxi ride to the Stagliano Cemetry which all
tourist guide books declare as a must for visitors although
they don't define why.
Our main objective was a department store. We tried
to inquire, but found no one who spoke English. Captain
Tingey declared that all Italians were just uneducated or
they would understand English. It never occurred to him
that he was the uneducated one because he didn't speak
Italian.
We walked and walked and when at last we detected a
department store we were in the same predicament. Nobody
there spoke English and our Captain grew increasingly ex=-
asperated. Nonetheless, we managed to buy our sweaters. It
was cheaper to pay in Italian lira than later in English
po
unds, for it was in England where we really would have
God demands pomp, rituals and dogmas of any kind. I can't
frozen to death without our sweaters.
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We praised the Lord when we left Genoa without having
encountered any incident. Since the start of the Spanish
Civil War foreign passenger liners didn't stop at Spanish
ports anymore. So we just steamed from Genoa through the
Stpits of Gibraltar to the English Channel and Southampton
where we were supposed to disembark. The day prior to our
arrival there the kind of incident occurred of which I had
been afraid. In fact, I still don't believe that it was a
happenstance incident, but a well prepared trap.
Early that morning, while I was walking the deck, a
seaman approached me and asked if I would mind coming down
with him to the baggage hold. The Herr Gepaeckmeister (bag-
gage master) would like me to inspect our overseas trunk
which had been damaged so that I could sign an insurance
claim if necessary. 1 should have been suspicious at once
that this seaman might have waited until 1 was alone. Annie
had just gone down to our cabin and a few minutes before
■■I Captain Tingey had left us to work on some report for
his company in London.
Not realizing how many narrow, winding stairs one
had to walk down to reach the lowest part of the ship I
naively followed this obsequious seaman. There didn't seem
winding, ^f^J]^
to be an end to the/ stairs. •* t/ithin a few minutes 1 began
to feel giddy and though^I was going to get seasick. Timothy
whispered to me, "Oh no, this is all wrong. Tell that man
you don't feel well and therx clim/back up to the deck. To
heck with that phony insurance claim. I promised to warn
you when I smell danger and I smell it right now."
I stopped in my tracks and followed Timothy's advice.
I was close to throwing up anyway. If that trunk was damag-
ed, I still could sign a claim in Southampton where they
had to unload it. For a moment I thought if the seaman
would use force to come down with him, but then something
stopped him. A scare hushed over his face and without
saying anything he let me go back up. I heard Timothy
chuckle. "I was about to push him down," he said.
While I was slowly climbing up the stairs again I
wondered why I had been so stupid in the first place to
A-
let the seamh lure me down to the baggage hold. That
baggage master could have imprisoned or killed me and
nobody would have been the wiser.
"I would have been the wiser," Timothy said, "but
I wonder what I could have done if he had held you prisoner?"
"Annie wouldn't have^given up to search for me and
Captain Tingey would have reported my disapperance to the
port authorities in Southampton."
"Sure," Timothy mocked me, "if the^Nazis didn't want
you to be found, nobody would have found you."
Maybe all this was my imagination and maybe Timothy -
as it was his habit - over-dramatized the situation, but
the fact remained that our trunk wasn't damaged in any
way whatsoever as we discovered when it had been unloaded
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In Southampton the next day. Whatever the truth was, I
was smart to have listened to Timothy. What good is a
guardian angel, if one ignored his warnings. After we
arrived in New York he proudly /informed me that he had
been promoted to Guardian Angel First Class which was
one step up the ladder to a better job after - well, you
can imagine after what.
The railway trip from Southampton to London
and back was included in our fare. We took a cheap room
in a modest hotel on Russels Square for the three days
we had to stay in
London which I had known in
happier times. We had managed to make it without mishap
so far and didn't anticipate that anything would go wrong
on the SS Europa which was sailing non-slop from London
to New York. After all, we were on the official manifest
of the SS Europa and had no doubt anymore that we would
be safely delivered in New York.
Please, don't worry, but we weren't on the official
passenger manifest of the SS Europa when we went the
next day to the offices of the Norddeutscher Lloyd on
Regent Street. They had no papers or documentation that
we were booked on the Europa. We showed the agent our
tickets, paid for in Manila, and demanded that he would
wire the main office in Bremen. He assured us that he would
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do so and we should come back the following day.
This was a predicament we had not figured with at all.
in case we were denied further passage we were going to be
in deep trouble. We had little money left and no one to
turn to. How could we afford to stay longer than the
calculated three days in London or worse even buy passage
on another ship? We would be stranded and perhaps declared
undesirable aliens in England. Moreover, if we didn't
arrive in New York on or before January 4th our passports
wouldn't be valid any longer. If the worse was coming to
the worst the British could deport us to Nazi-Germany.
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like most worries had been in vain. As it turned out the
next^, it was all a matter of mislaid papers and everything
was in perfect order. We could proceed on the SS Europa
without any further trouble.
Of course, we cannot tell how native Americans
feel when they return to their country after a trip abroad.
To us our arrival was the most grandiose, the happiest event
in our lives. As we passed the Statue of Liberty we could
not help but shed tears of the most deeply felt joy. We had
come a long way from Nazi-Germany where liberty had been
totally abolished. We had traveled from West to East and
from East to West. It had been a hard and long detour from
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West-Europe to the East-Coast of the United States. Wc
were emotionally so overwhelmed when our eyes feasted on
the gigantic Statue of Liberty and the fascinating sky
line of New York that we could not fully fathom the realty
that at last we had come to the land of our dreams. We
sincerely believed that nothing but milk and honey would
flow in America. From now on nothing could wrong anymore.
We had made it to our new country, to the land of the brave
and the free, to the land where once more we could live
as citizens, to the land where our rights and our duties
as human beings were constitutionally guaranteed. There
never could be a repetition of this moment of happiness.
But milk and honey - please, don't worryl Nothing came
of itl At least not in New York, where for sixteen months
we knew almost nothing biit hunger and disappointments.
And yet, today when the words "Establishment" and
"Anti-Establishment" are tossed about so meaninglessly ,
we are again and again reminded how great our debt of
gratitude to these United States of America is, this vast
land which has become our haven and home. If th€jB vain
of/
pretenders^li knowledge, who have joined the CSOBIBHB
ranks of the anti-establishment movement^, should succeed
in overthrowing the so-called establishment the process
would be reversed. The anti-Establishment would become the
Establishment and the former Establishment tlie antl-Establlsh"
ment. Lust for power and greed would not have been abolished
Both are so human that they never have been conquered in all
history. What, indeed, is the Establ isliment? Our government?
Our present political system? Or is it also the Russian
government and its political system? We here in this country
do not incarcerate our best minds in slave-labor camps or •
insane asylums as the establ ijliment does in Russia. We do
not repress the freedom of other nations as the Soviet-
Russian establisliment did in the Baltic countries, in
Hungary, Czecho-Slovakia, Poland, or the Red Chinese in
Tibet. Where is the line between no establishment and
anarchy?
This bel(^gyed country of ours (I beg your pardon, Mr.
K. wherever you are) may not have the best form of a govern-
mental establishment, but where is there a better one, ex-
cept perhaps in Israel? We may want to correct the wrongs
which are built-in in any establishment, but what will we
have if we overthrow it altogether? Dictatorship? Anarchy?
Is that what we want? The loss of all freedoms, for the
preservation of which this country has fought so often and
so bravely? Is that what we want? We never will achieve
Utopia anywhere in the world. We may as well dissent and
correct without destroy^jig what we have. "Liberty without
obedience is confusion, and obedience without liberty is
slavery," so wrote William Penn. Establisliment, anti-
Establishment, if we want to use these empty expressions,
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no matter - we better be aware that one day in the not
too distant future we - that is the people of the entire
civilized world - will have to face the most dangerous
monster of all establishments - that of Red Chinal
Long, unkempt hair and beards, libertinism and total
sexual permissiveness are not the means by which we can
change which should be changed. If mankind wants to sur=»
vive, it cannot be done by bombs, by riots and by the
bloody means of professional pacifism, but only by intelli=
gence, education and rational planning. Our ecology, the
balance of God's nature, is endangered, but we cannot re-
build it by destroying our liberties. The liberal writer
and humanist Hendrick Willem van Loon wrote in his book
"Our Battle": "We are adherents of the Illusion of Free
Speech. We believe in it as one of the essentials of a
democratic form of government. Yet our enemies to whom
we grant this privilege abuse it by a form of propaganda
which has only one purpose - to destroy a form of govem=
ment which grants even its most dangerous enemies the right
to give free expressions to their views. It is all very
puzzling and perplexing." Don't we better trim our hair
and beards and go to work to preserve freedom , liberty
and our natural resources?
Yes, Annie and I never have been and never
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aga
in^MlB be so happy as when our ship steamed into
New York Harbor.
We had left Nazi-Germany with forty dollars in our
possession and now after three years and two months of
travels and travails we owned seventy- five dollars - a
net gain of thirty-five dollars.
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CHAPTER NINE
THE PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS
We did not discover America in
New York. 1 believe that no alien, who lands in New York
, and stays there, ever will discover America, the heart-
land of America, the true America, the America, any immi=
grant dreams about; the land of great mountain ranges, of
wide stretches of prairies and deserts, of beautiful forests
with redwood trees, born two thousand years ago; the land
of many blue lakes and farms; the land of natural beauty
and sometimes man-made ugliness; the land of freedom.
New York is something special, something set aside,
almost a country by herself, a melting pot where natives
of many nations don't melt because they generally live
and aggregate in special parts of the city. Without a
doubt New York is the most international metropolis of
this time - but she is not America. More Irishmen liver
there than in Dublin, more Italians than in Milan, more
Germans than In Berlin and more Jews than in Israel - to
name only a few nationalities. New York is a forest of
low and high-rise stone buildings with a few parks in
between, a few trees and little beauty. New York is a
city of sky scrapers which cannot be seen in such con-
glomeraLioiyinywhcrc else. New York is a city of art.
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theatres, advertising agencies and the home of the United
Nations, the greatest hope and failure of modern mankind.
New York is Wall Street and Madison Avenue and Park Avenue
and slums with rat-infested cold-water flats, but she is
not truly America. One hears in New York more foreign
that/
la-Wguages spoken than English and/includes Brooklinese.
New York has her own facade, her own principles and
her own way of living. She is Harlem, and Bronx, and Brook-
-^
lyn. and Wlliamsburg and Coney Island and, of course, Man-
hattan but all these places combined do not constitute the
real America. New York is New York, a city which is unique
in all the world and fascinating as well as repugnant. Like
cattle stock yards she is a slaughterhouse of human souls.
Many won't agree with this my personal appraisal, but that
was how we - Annie, Timothy and I - experienced her.
We spoke more German in New York than we ever had done
since we had left Nazi-Germany because we had no choice but
to congregate mostly with
German refugees for want of
any other social contacts. As hard as we tried to like New
York, we never did. We didn't feel at home there for a single
day. We couldn't get used to the impersonal, commercial cold-
ness of the people, to the unsmiling faces in the streets m
and public places, to the rushing and running, to the ex-
press subway trains, the ever crowded streets and the bad
air. To use a present-day language expression, New York just
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was not our kind of hang-out. It didn't turn us on.
The United States Constitution, so precious for the
freedom of mankind, guarantees the pursuit of happiness,
but not happlnes Itself. We weren't happy in New York as
much as we strlved to pursure the happlnes we had been
seeking. We had looked so much forward to getting to New
York and start an entirely new life, but we failed in our
endeavours. America had been a wonderful dream for us.
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Maybe the disappointment was all our fault because we
might have expected too much. Perhaps New York did not
reject us, but we rejected her.
Again and again one hears or reads about refugees
dropping/
arriving on the shores of New Yo rk ,/#■■■■■■ on their
knees and with tears streaming down their cheeks kiss/the
hallowed ground of the land of the free. It is such a sad
sham, for they only kiss the dirty ground of New York
which is not America. And after having kissed the ground
they believe to be in the land of their great hopes. In-
stead they're going to be swallowed up in the ghettos and
slums of New York, there to eke out an existence which
very often is below a decent living standard.
As In Shanghai and Manila nobody was waiting for us.
At leant so we thou;;ht./
/Nobody had invited us to come and live a new life there.
Nobody was very much if at all lnt;ercsted in us or in
associating with us. No passer-by on any street In New
York would ever think of bidding another passer-by a
friendly "helloh".
New Yorkers /ake their lives much too seriously and
forget to smile at one another. We were lonely among the
crowds in the streets of this big city. How hard it turned
out to be to pursue happiness in New York on an empty stomach.
During the time we stayed in New York we were often
close to starving. Many a day and days in succession we
had nothing to eat at all and more often than not we could
not pay our rent for a miserable backroom with a window
that met the stone wall of the next house. These months
in New York were without a doubt the most desolate in our
lives and once we had left we never returned or had any
desire to return.
We discovered America In America and our pursuit of
happiness was crowned with success after we had turned our
backs on New York. Yet, during the more than thirty years
we now live in this great and wonderful countxry (Sorry, Mr.
K. , wherever you are) we've met many kind and warm-hearted
native New Yorkers, but they did not any longer live in
New York, which docs not bring out the best in men. On the
other hand - although we are unable to understand It - many
New Yorkers, who were born and raised there or who had adopt"
ed her for their own, never feel wholly at home anywhere
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else. The true New Yorkers are a special breed of people
as New York is a specsial kind of city. One either likes
or dislikes her with little in between.
We, Annie and X, didn't learn to love her, but neither
did we hate her, for we have little or no talent for hat*
ing. We just disliked New York and don't think we would
change our attitude if we ever would visit her again. And
so I beg all enthusiastic New Yorkers to forgive us for
our attitude. We felt more like strangers in New York than
we did in Shanghai and even Manila. I can't define the
but/
real reasons - other/SSi our forlorn poverty perhaps -
why we could not adjust ourselves to life in New York. We
were theatrical people and New York aside from London is
the theatrical capital of the world - or so they say. We
felt dejected and rejected there despite the fact that a
few kind people made a half-hearted effort to make us feel
welcome.
It was cold that winter. God Almighty, was
it coldl For three months one snow storm follwed the flV
other, and we had not the wardrobe, not even the unde^ear,
for this kind of weather. For over three years we had been
living in a tropical climate. Our blood had begun to thin
out. We felt like tropical birds transported back to the
ice age.
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Yet, at first our profound happiness that at last we
had been admitted to this country, that we could expect
to become American citizens in another five years and thus
would not any longer be people without a country kept us
going although one catastrophe followed the other. Each
time we ventured out on the street we almost froze to
death. Our few dollars dwindled away and soon came days
where we had nothing to eat. We were constantly cold and
the/
most of/ time hungry. A meal of maccaroni or potatoes, fried
in lard, was a feast which we always shared with another
actor refugee from Berlin. He, too, was hungry and when=»
ever one of us could buy something to eat we shared it
with'i^m or vice versa he with us. We've been good friends
ever since and still are after all these years.
Of course, millions of other penniless emigrants has
arrived before us in New York and gone through the same
ordeal, but that didn't give us any consolation. One only
feels one's own needs and ours were bad. New York wasn't
good to us or perhaps we failed to conquer her. We were
ro
iserable greenhorns although we were experienced refugees
As far as we were concerned New York had neither heart nor
soul. In Shanghai we had found some kindred souls who helped
us over the first tough months. In New York was no one on
whom we could count. Even some acquaintances of my parents,
who had rented us a room, turned out to be no friends of ours
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In the Ivtg city of New York everybody was on his own.
All the way. There was a Jewish refugee center, which doled
out a few dollars once in a while, but jobs were not avail-
able, not even menial ones. Hitler's bad conduct had not
yet really penetrated the minds of the New Yorkers, not
even those of the Jews. We met few people who actually
believed in the true horrq^stories which came out of Nazi-
Germany.
Our hard luck - although it didn't appear to be so -
started at the pier. We had gone through the immigration
procedure on board of the Europa and then through customs
without trouble. As we walked down the gang plank, an old
acquaintance of my parents, a woman, whom we had sjightly
known in Hamburg, was waiting for us. All I can say now
is God help us form our avowed friends since it is so much
easier to take care of one's enemies. But at that moment
a familiar face, any familiar face, seemed to be a godsend.
She and her second or third husband had already immigrated
to HB ^^^ York in 1933. They were settled in a large apart=
ment on West 77th Street where they rented rooms to poor
suckers like us. My father had written to that woman and
had advised her of the time of our arrival. The little,
obesive lady took command of us and like lost sheep we
stupidly followed her. We fell for her con-game when she
assured us that she would take care of us until we could
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manage for ourselves. She took care of us all right by
letting us have a room at three times the rent i^. was
worth. What did we know? In all the J^rs of our emigration
we always had succeeded in standing on our own feet. Perhaps
without this woman we would have also suceeded in New York,
but it seemed to easy at first to take that room, and once
we couldn't pay our rent regularly we were unable to get
our from under. When she waited for us at the pier, though,
she welcomed us as if we were her own beloved children. My
father had naively written to her that I had a job at one
hundred-fifty dollars a month, a veritable fortune in those
times of mass-unemployment. No wonder, she sucked on to us
for all she hoped to get. She and her husband didn't work
but/
other/iSi taking care of their apartment. They lived quite
comfortably on the blown-up rent they took for their rooms.
"Isn't it wonderful," she asked us over and over again,
you don' t have/
"that/i
to search for lodgings in this miserable
weather?"
She was right. We were so tired and cold, we would have
followed the devil If he had promised us a roof over our
heads. We took her word that twelve dollars a week for a
room was dirt-cheap and learned too late that we could have
gotten a similar room for four dollars without any trouble
anywhere in New York. Well, we forked over twenty-four dollars
for the first and last week in advance and that left us with
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fifty-one dollars. We weren't worried. After all, I had
my Job and Annie as always would find an engagement as a
singer in a nightclub. Please, don't worryl Nothing came
of it:
So we stayed with this lady In her miserable backroom
for all the fifteen months in New York, and when at last
we moved West to California we had to leave with herp.n
compensation of unpaid rent my father's solid gold watch
and diamond ring which I had inherited after his death
a few months after our arrival in New York.
We had been in Los Angeles for about a year when she
sent a man to us with the offer to sell us back these
valuable mementos at a price we couldn't afford to pay.
I was then working for a salary which just kept us going.
In later years when our fortunes had gone up and we were
able to retrieve the watch and the ring we could not any-
more locate her in New York. She might have passed away
and Timothy tried to convince me that she had been sent
straight to hell. For once I didn't believe him. Who was
he to know and besides what did it matter?
Well - as the lady had promised - we had a roof over
our heads and a bed to sleep in, but not much more. Al-
though we couldn't get a glimpse of the sky from our window
and the air from outside was foul, we clung to the room
like birds in a cage. Since it was poorly heated most of
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•
the time, we stayed in bed. But a job was waiting for me
and I had to report to the uncle of my Manila boss. On
the third day I gave myself a push - sl^ow storro or not -
to venture out and find the business on /wenty-Third street.
This^my first expedition in New York. was a traumatic ex=»
perience. New York is overwhelming, so overwhelming that
how/
to this day I don't understand/outsiders can adjust to
her. She is even worse than London.
Most native or resident NewYorkers may shake their
fool heads and perhaps laugh at me, but I still shudder
when I think of a New York subway. One doesn't enter a
subway train, one is being pushed into it from behind
or left standing on the platform. Neither does one leave
the train unless one is being pushed out if one getJ close
to the door in time or one stays in the train until the -^.^
end of the line. If late at night the trains are relatively
erap
ty, one never knows if one isn't mugged or killed out'
right. We had faced many dangers in the world, but none
as fear- inspiring than riding in a New York subway train.
Nothing in hell can be much worse.
People in New York don't walk leisurely like human
beings. They always rush as if being pursued by devils.
They run and rush. They bump into one another H/ithout an
"Excuse me, please" or even "I beg your pardon". Everything
is express. Everything is push, rush, push. Rush, push, rush
- that typifies New York.
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Underground - and part of the way of life in New
York is underground - one has to follow arrows and colored
lines and God help you if you ever err. You might be lost
for hours. In fact, Annie, who had braved the dangers of
Nazism in Germany, the dangers of war in Shanghai, the
dangers of typhoons and earthquakes as well as many other
adventures, got frantic each time we had to take a ride
in the subway. She was scared to death that in the push
and rush we two might get separated and never would find
each other again. The maze of subway tunnels - in parti=
cular under Times Square - were to her incomprehensible.
Timothy fully agreed with her, but he had lived in the
horse and buggy days what he called the good, old times.
Anyway, Annie clung to rae like a vine whenever we got
pushed in or out of a subway train. At times, when we
were riding the trains at night, 1 wished I still had
my nice, little Beretta from Iloilo days. Iloilo - how
easy and secure life seemed to have been there in comparL<><:>n^
(■Hco the human-made jungle of New York.
Every once in a while we still have nightmares about
the New York subway. The fetid, underground air alone
could sicken any normal human being. When I'm now reading
about experiments to make it possible that one day people
could live in cities on the bed of an ocean, I fc£l very
happy that I won't live to see it. I believe, we're lucky
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to live now and not in the next century when fiendish
technology and science might change human beings into
automatons, troglodytes, or underwater creatures which
they had been eons and eons ago. From the sea we c
ame
and to the sea we will go. Not wc , Annie and I. Neither
would we cherish to exist on outerspace stations. We've
become very old-fashioned and earthbound for the rest of
our lives. Not even the most luxurious super-sonic jet-
liner can lure us to leave terra firma.
Our pursuit of happiness in New York was
a futile effort and thank God that New York isn't America,
for nowhere in the world can one find a deeper sense of
happiness of living than in these United States of America
At least we have found it and we wouldn't surrender it
for all the gold in Fort KnqJ^. (Sorry, Mr. K. , wherever
you are.)
My first New York subway ride
has
remained in my memory as much as my first rickshaw ride in
Shanghai. We never had gotten adjusted to being pulled by
a human
animal, but we had the choice to stop that
animal and walk instead. One couldn't stop a subway train --t
at any moment we felt sick of riding in a mechanical under*
ground conveyor amidst a sweating, unsmiling mass of human-
an/
Ity. Each one down there like /anthropoid apc9 was
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out for himself, not caring a damn for his fellow travelers
And so it came about that 1 didn't push my way out at the
station of my destination. Politely I waited for others
to exit and before I knew it the door was shut by unseen
hands. I^osted myself close to the door for the next
Vd/
station/was forcibly evicted or rather ejected by other
people pushing from behind. I walked up to the surface
and asked my way back to Twenty-Third Street and at last
reached the office building in a shattered frame of mind
and physically exhausted. Twenty-ThUd Street in New York,
as most everybody knows, is the center of the garment
industry. It was teeming with industrious humanity. I
felt transformed into a super structure of an ant hill.
On the ground floor of the building behind large
windows which had been taped up with brown packing paper,
preventing anyone from looking in, were the offices and
store rooms of the company where I expected to work as
a merchandiser for the Far East. One hundred- fifty dollars
a month would mean the difference between eating and
starving, between paying rent or not paying it, between
living and not living. At the very moment I stood at
the entrance door 1 had the premonition that the old
spook would work again: Please, don't worry I Nothing
came of iti Why should I have any premonition at all?
In my pocket reposed the letter of one of the two owners
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of this company, guaranteeing the job I had been promised.
They might in fact already waiting for me, but in all my
life I had some sort of radar system in me, warning me of
coming disaster. I^-had saved me many a time, although it
also quite often had fooled me into not taking actions
^ which would have benefited me. Now - what kind of disaster
could befall me in this office of a reputed business firm?
Notwithstanding,! was hesitant to enter although Timothy
didn't hold me back which he would have done if ho smelled
danger. At last I gave myself a mental push, opened the
door and set foot into the office. Well - this time my
radar system hadn't failed. There was no office anymore
and I could have as well stayed home, announcing my arrival
over the telephone.
To make it short - it was unbelievable; it was really
ridiculous; it was absolutely childish and in retrospect
it was the best catastrophe which could have happened to
me. If I had gotten the honestly promised jol? to which I
had looked so much forward. Annie. Timothy and I might
never have left New York. We might have become/fi^T^^he
ants in this giant ant-hill and would not have discovered
America, the true America which we learned to love so
deeply (Sorry. Mr. K. . wherever you arc) and which made
good our drenm of successfully pursuing happiness.
If one ever could write a story with an end only
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and no beginning, this was the one. I had gone to a funeral
without the sermon of a preacher and sad organ music. As
a majtter of record, I never met that mysterious uncle of
my boss in Manila. The company was in the process of clos^^'
ing shop for good. There was no job and no one hundred- fifty
dollars a month. As I entered the premises I encountered
nothing but some packers to crate whatever was left of
the business. A man, who seemed to be in charge o/ this
unhappy ending, approached me and asked ftf what I wanted.
I showed him the letter. After reading it he grinned from
ear to ear and he hadtnagnif icei^itly large and ou&tanding
ears .
"Do you know what you can do with this piece of paper?"
he asked and handed it back to me.
Stupified as I was I shook my head and so he answer^
ed his own question which I rather won't repeat here. I'll
leave that to your own imagination.
"What happened?" I inquired. "When I left Manila six
weeks ago this firm had been still in existence."
The man nodded his head. "Sure, sure," he said.
As he understood it, one of the two partners had found
out that the other one had milked the till for all it had
been worth to pay gambling debts. There had been a blow-up
between the two men which resulted in criminal proceedings
and liquidating the partnership as well as the company.
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t
That was it in a nut shell. What else could I do but re-
treat like a beaten dog with my tail between my legsf Wliat
now, I wondered?
While I was dejectedly returning to the subway station
it occurred to me that never before had I admitted defeat
under any circumstances and I wasn't going to do so now.
No, sirree. To each defeat there was an alternative. Fight
for something else. We always had survived however bleak
had/
the outlook/seemed to be. And we would survive in this
rais£^able city of New York. Why miserable city, I asked
myself? The city wasn't miserable, I was. Why blame New
York for a cheating partner who was stupid enough to gamble
and lose more than he could afford.^ No, the world hasn't
come to an end. Not yet. Not for a long time. After all,
the universe was a thought of God. Who had said that? I
had read it somewhere. Nevermind, if the universe was a
thought of God, I was a tiny particle of that thought,
was/
and that /sufficient for survival.
t
I found my way home to Annie who greeted
me as if I had been gone for years. Anytime I went out on
my own, she worried about me. I couldnlt understand why
because I never had been the one who had gotten lost. But
her joy o^ seeing me back sound and safe enveloped me
with the warmth of security which I needed badly just then.
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Please, forgive me, bat I cannot help but again
one of/
quote Taylor Caldwell whom I consider/the greatest writers
of our century. Why she has not been awarded the Nobel
Prize of Literature is beyond me. In her book "The Earth
is the Lord's" she wrote what I felt when I came home
with the inglorious defeat I had suffered: "Nothing is
more precious than the love of the woman we desire, and
that love is water in a desert, a horse among enemies,
a sword in battle, and a warm hearth. It is a fortress
and a refuge. He who hath such a woman hath a jewel above
all price and all heaven with it."
Annie and I owned so much happiness that we had
little need to pursue more of it. What greater happiness
was there than our togetherness? We had lived on empty
stomachs before, we could do it again.
I should have known that she took the bad news in
stride. If the job was not to be, she said, I just had
to put my thinking machine into new gear and let my well-
trained sub-conscious mind come up with an idea what else
I could do. I could write to the publisher in Philadelphia
that we had arrived and perhaps he would let me have
another small advance on my future royalties. Don't
worry! Nothing came of it! However, we still were con-
vinced (how green we were) that the book could not be
anything but a best seller. Besides, I could pay a visit
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to the editor of the Jewish Telegraph Agency who had
accepted some of my articles I had mailed to him from
Shanghai and Manila. 1 could ask around if there were
no other German refugee actors and writers I had known, ff
Perhaps we could do something together,
"Whatever you do, don't sit and brood," Annie advised
me. "You'/e always been a man of action, even if you had
to act in a vacuum. This isn't the first vacuum and
probably not the last."
Yes, I had always acted, even in a vacuum. I had
never faltered to meet an emergency head on if necessary
and could act decisively on the spur of the moment. On
in my own behalf/
the other hand I had little talent to hustle^HHHHBJf
unless I could do it by writing letters. I could never
go out and sell myself personally to people whom I did
not know. Well, Annie persuaded me that the editor of
the Jewish Telegraph Agency wasn't a total stranger.
Perhaps he would welcome me if I went to see him.
I never could resist Annie and so I went to see the
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editor. As she had predicted, he welcomed me in a very
pleased/
friendly manner. He seemed to be genuinely^j
that we
had made it to America and promised to write about me in
his regular JTA Features which was being distributed
among all Jewish periodicals and newspapers in America.^
I wished, he would have offered me a job. in his office.
He didn't volunteer and I didn't ask - foolishly sensitive
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as I am.
All right, the man kept his promise. It carried a
tiny hope that some editor of the many Jewish magazines
swallow/
and newspapers in America might M^^the bait and re«
quested my services. Please, don't worry: Nothing came
of it! At least not until we came to Los Angeles and
me
t the then editor of the Jewish Voice. Otherwise not
one of the editors as much as inquired about me after
the following paragraph appeared in the JTA Features
two weeks later:
"Li'ry Note: A globe-trotting refugee dropped in to
say hello to us the other day Came from Germany,
via Shanghai, Manila and points East, South, North and
West He is Max L. Berges, former actor, stage
director, and writer of Hamburg Readers of the
Anglo- Jewish press may remember some articles by Berges,
especially one, in which he described the plight of Jewish
refugees in China American readers will soon have
the opportunity to appraise Berges as a novelist
For his book "COLD POGROM" will be published this year ..
The editors of the publication house took on the book
despite the fact that their schedule had already been filled
for the year, so impressed were they with its punch and
power
II
The publishing date of my book was not scheduled for
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another ten months. We only could pray that it would
launch me on a new career. Please, don't worry I Nothing
came of itl It didn't launch me to anything. The editors
of the publishing house who were so "impressed with the
and/
punch/W power of the book" didn't put any punch or
power behind the promotion, or rather they didn't promote
it in any way whatsoever. It was - as the editor of a
leading national magazine confirmed years later - a
potential best seller, but it died for lack of initiative
on the part of the publishing house. It sold some six
thousand copies and coud have easily sold a hundred
thousand if another publishing firm had picked up the
option. It coulrf have sold to the movie industry, and
if it had been pushed it could have been serialized
in a national magazine. It was the right kind of book,
published at the right kind of time. But I still was a
faint-hearted greenhorn who didn't know how to act in
my own behalf.
Of all the many reviews it received not only in
America but in many other parts of the world I will
insert hero only /Sii sequence of one:
"COLD POGROM is a stirring novel. It tells the story
of a peaceful Jewish family in pre-Nazi Germany and what
happened to it after the National-Socialists seized power.
- COLD POGROM is the story of all German Jewry. Unprepared
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for the storm, relying upon the fairness and culture of
their fellow citizens, a proud and gifted community suc-
cumbed to a wave of barbarism the coming of which only
a few of them believed possible. COLD POGROM is not a
in/
horror story, but one/which the human spirit is pitted
against cold brutality. Berges ' story couched in dramatic
novel form may be accepted as vivid truth. It is a living
book which should be read by everyone.*'
Quite a number of years later I corresponded about
this book with James Young, one of the editors of the now
defunct magazine "COLLIERS". I sent him a copy and this
is what he wrote to me:
"I have read COLD POGROM and it is indeed a power=-
ful novel as well as a terrific indictment of the Nazi
regime. I do not know its history but it would have served
a very useful purpose had it been serialized in Colliers
or The Post when it was written. I think it is fully as
fine a novel as two that were written about somewhat
similar sufferers by Erich Maria Remarque ( who as you
probably know, barely managed to escape from Hitler's
Germany, when the Gestapo was hot on his trail). And
that is high praisci
"It was very difficult to convince the average IBHB
American in the Thirties that the Nazis were what we know
them to be today what we knew them to be once the war
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had really got under way and we began to learn the truth
about the concentration camps and the wholesale murders
and so on. COLD POGROM, had it been widely circulated or
serialized, would have done much to teach us the truth
about what had happened in Germany, under the scoundrel.
I am sorry it wasn't."
And so am I - still - despite the fact tha/'the advance
five hundred/
royalty of^Bi dollars enabled us to pay part of our fare
to the United States. Perhaps this alone should have
sufficed as far as I am convemed.
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9
Meanwhile we had to eat in New York, of
course. It was quite a problem. Gradually we met a few
other German refugees - actors, writers, singers - all
of them struggling for their existence under aggravated
circumstances, for at the time so many Americans were un=»
employed .
I succeeded in making a few hopefully valuable con=»
tacts as for instance with Edna Ferber and George S. Kauf=
man. They tried to publicize me, but their efforts were
half-hearted, done more with an idea of duty to help than
with a compassionate heart. With my book no more than a
nom
inal success I was little noticed. And I wasn't the man
to make myself noticed. It was as much my fault as those
who tried to help me.
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Annie, as usual, didn't flake out. As In Shanghai and
Manila she earned some money before I did. All by herself
She went to audition for the then famous Major Bowes Ama>
teur Radio Hour and was ch6sen to appear on the show where
she sang a Viennese song in German and English. A few weeks
later she was called for a repeat performance for which she
received a bonus of twenty-five dollars, a fortune for us.
We had no doubt that her new carppr i„ i™^^-
new career in America was launched.
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Epictetus. a Roman Stoic philosopher, who
taught that good is within oneself and advocated the
brotherhood of men, wrote about 60 A.D.: "If anyone is
unhappy, let him be reminded that he is unhappy by reason
of only himself. God has made all men to enjoy felicity
and the orani-presence of God."
Shortly after Annie's pleasant success at the Major
Bowes Amateur Hour I got a call from the Gennan Language
Department of the Columbia University to play a part in
the classic drama "Nathan, der Weise" (Nathan, the Wise)
by the 18th century Gennan author Gotthold Ephraim Lessing.
"Nathan, der Weise", a drama which Lessing wrote in 1779,
has not lost its valuable message of tolerant co-existence
among religious faiths. Lessing's friend, the German-Jewish
philosopher Moses Mendelson, a leader in the movement for
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cultural assimilation, was supposed to be the model for
Nathan .
If I remember right, there were three performances
and I received a minimum fee. Of course, these small sums
we earned didn't add up to much and weren't enough to fill
our stomachs for any length of time or enabled us to pay
our rent regularly. Yet, they gave us a small measure of
confidence that we were on the way - although on which way
we couldn't yet tell.
We had applied for and received our first citizenship
papers and Timothy made a fuss about it. He maintained that
he actually had illegally immigrated into the United States
and then wanted to know what I'm going to do about it.
Nothing, I told him, or did he think I would make a
fool of myself by asking the authorities to issue citizen=«
ship papers for an invisible guardian angel? They either
would send me to a nut house or laugh me out of the country.
No bureaucrat in the world had the imagination to believe
officially in guardian angels and no government would have
rules and regulations concerning them.
Well, it didn't pacify him. He maintained that he was
a German-bom guardian angel and might get into trouble with
his authorities over this whole matter. He always had
wondered why they had let him travel with me, instead of
assigning local guardian angels wherever we had resided.
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The United States, if we intended to settle there for good,
wasn't his territory, and he at least had to confer with
his superiors.
1 shrugged my shoulders. If he had to confer, he had
to confer. In case his superiors wanted to substitute an
American-born guardian angelg, I hoped he would be more
friendly and less complaining. I was ungrateful and he
had a right to feel insulted after all he had done for me.
I apologized. We two really had gotten so much used to each
other and to our peculiarities that we both would have
hated to get separated.
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That same day he proved to me that he still was on
the ball./
He suddenly pulled me back from crossing a busy
street intersection. Only a few seconds later a heavy truck
collided with two cars just at the spot where I might have
been had I crossed the street. I shook all over at the
sight and heard Timothy tell me that at least I could ex=
press my appreciation for having saved me - and I could
cross to the other side now. Otherwise I might get stuck
court/
with being a/witness to the accident which actually didn't
cause too much damage. I asked Timothy what was wrong with
being a witness? Nothing, he said, if I had the foggiest
idea which vehicle caused the accident. I hadn't, so I
crossed the street and felt irritated. I never liked to be
manipulated and besides Timothy always insisted on instant
thanks before I had even caught my breath.
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A few days later he informed me that he had gotten
permission to stay with me until further notice. That
further notice never came, I'm happy to say. I don't
think I would have like another guardian angel. He is
looking over my shoulders now while I'm writing these lines
and demands that I give him proper credit for his services
to me and not just let it go with a few meaningless sentences
After all, once I had passed on to the next station of
existence some promotional, laudatory material might prove
valuable to his future assignment by the celestial autho*
rities. I promised him to write a special letter of re™
commendation for him if he'll let me know in time when
my allotted span of life on this earC^was coming to an
end .
Not too long after our arrival in New York
we met another German refugee who like me had been an
actor and writer. Our paths had never crossed in Germany.
I was from Hamburg and he hailed from Berlin. He now Jives
not too far from us in Hollywood and all over the years we
have remained the best of friends.
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He and I hatched the idea of assembling a group of
refugee actors and singers, write a show or something of
the sort and produce it ourselves. We had the vain-glorious
hope/
/■■M that we could go on the road with it, starting with
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the borscht circuit in the CatskiU mountains. Please,
don't worry! Nothing came of it! That is - we produced
the show at one place in the CatskiU mountains and there
it died.
Being the only one of the group, who was able to
write the show in English, I sat down and did it. With
the exc^ion of Annie and myself none of the others
in the group we ha^ assembled spoke any passable English
yet. Well - we rehearsed hard, doubly hard, day by day
we/
for weeks and weeks until we feltfTere ready to go on the
road. Or so we thought. Where the heck was the road? We
didn't know how and where to start. My friend from Berlin
went scouting and we waited.
Around noon one day I got a call from the
Jewish Anti-Defamation League. The main speaker at one of
their meetings somewhere on Long Island had suddenly taken
ill and they had been unable to find a substitute at such
short notice. I happened to be their last hope. They would
feel very much obliged if I would lecture that night on
any subject of my choosing as long as it was within the
province of anti-Jewish defamation. They offered to pay
me the princely sum of fifty dollars plus transportation.
With less than five dollars in our possession that was
after/
a windfall, but|l had hung up my heart started to sink to
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the bottom of my trousers. How could I Icct^e on any
subject without any preparation? What subject could I
choose? My brain stopped functioning as brains sometimes
will in times of mental crisis. Annie tried to encourage
me, but she neither could tell me about what I could talk
All she could do was to go out and buy me a white shirt,
which I didn't own, and then press my one and only suit.
I went to bed in the hope that while lying flat on
my back some idea would pop up. It didn't. I remembered
that several years prior to Hitler's regime the German
Democratic Party had done the same thing to me. I was
asked to fill in for another speaker and talk about the
perils the Nazis posed not only to the Jews but to all
decent German citizens. Although I had been unprepared,
I had spoken for close to two hours with a modicum of
success. It started me on a tour of lectures, in parti-
cular before Jewish audiences, but I made very few con=»
verts. In general, I wasn't believed that Hitler ever
would be able to assume power in a country which so
proudly called herself the land of poets and thinkers.
I fact, I gained more enemies than friends. In the years
between 1928 and 1933 very few people, including very
few Jews, wanted to hear the truth in Germany.
Well, that was neither here nor there. Instead of
coming up with a subject for the Long Island meeting, I
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fell asleep. What was the use to rake my brain and what
was the use to scare myself about how I ever would be
able to deliver an hour long speech in English, a language
still not entirely my own? Annie woke me up in time. I took
a bath, shaved and pushed my heart back where it belonged.
How ever good or bad I would be, they still had to hand
over the fifty dollars (I wished I had the guts to ask
in advance/
/for the money ■■■I) and that wasn't hay in our case.
We would be able to pay two weeks' rent and eat at the
same time.
And so Annie and I set out for Vong Island. When the
appointed time came Annie took her seat in the audience
of several hundred people. Some one introduced me with
all the apologies he could muster. With my knees feeling
like rubber I got up, walked mechanically to the lectern
and after a long minute of nothing started to speak.
Annie told me later that I had been stuttering for the first
few minutes and then all went fine. I just told the audience
some of our experiences as exiles from Nazi-Germany, just
what came into my mind about the years of our travels and
travails as people without a country. 1 felt that I was
catching the attention of my audience and that my English
was adequate despite my accent. I received a pleasant
applause, answered a number of questions and the re*
prcsentative of the An ti -Defamation League promised to
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call on me again for speeches at other chapters of their
organization. Please, don't worryl Nothing came of itl
However, after my book had been published (the royalties
of which didn't exceed ■.much more than six hundred
dollars) the Anti-Defamation League reprinted certain
chapters of it in a pamphlet under the title: "The In-
different are guilty. A challenge to Jewry." It was
distributed free to membeciof the League all over
America, but I didn't get paid a single cent for it.
we/
Even poverty-stricken as^were I had not lost my talent of
being a sucker.
When I was called upon to deliver another speech
about "The Odyssee of a German Refugee", this time for
the members of "The New History Society", I got my hopes
up that I had been launched on a new career which would
last long enough to keep us in bread and butter until
we had found our niche in our new country. Please, don*t
worryl Nothing came of itl
Meanwhile - as I did say before - our
show was ready.
We had worked at it as
if our lives depended on its success or failure. We
honestly and foolishly believed that we were good enough,
and that we, the newly arrived immi-
grants, thrown together by happenstance, could entertain
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American audiences and get away with it. We wanted to
make money to build new lives for ourselves without be-
coming charity wards. We were pure and simple optimists,
but we were brought down to earth fast and in a manner,
none of us could have expected. We yelled with joy when
one of our group managed to get us booked in a Jewish
hotel of the so-called borscht circuit in the Catskill
Mountains .
We weren't offered any pay except travel expenses plus
room and board. No one, who hadn't seen and survived the
amount of rich food that is being offered in a Jewish
resort place, can imagine how we, who had lived on a
near starvation diet, felt. It seemed to be impossibler-
flHHBHBl that none of us got sick from the feasting
ro which we were exposed. We were hungry and stuffed our=»
selves like pigs - chicken soup with matzo balls and the
fat swimming on the surface, chopped liver, thick sour-
cream, served in large containers, meat, poultry, fish,
gefillt and otherwise, de^rts from strudel with whipped
cream to butter cakes. Today, when I'm allergic to almost
all food, I shudder when I think of it.
The recreation hall was filled to the last folding
chair on the first evening, BBM t/e couldn't imagine that
we would be anything but successful. Each one of us in his
or her ovm right had been a seasoned trooper in Germany
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and so it didn't occur to us that we could flop. Most of
the people in the audience were oldi
at least sixty
and many of them over seventy. They, too, had once come to
America as poor refugees. We and they had a common bond or
so we believed. Just the opposite was the case. Being Jews
from Eastern Europe, thfiy had little liking for us "arro»
German Jews/
gant" German Jews and rightly so bee aus e/j/ffff had always
looked down upon them in Europe
They had fled from the old country during the great
exodus at the turn of the century. My father had financially
aided many of them when they had come to Hamburg for their
steerage trip to America. These wonderful Jewish people
and their ancestors from Eastern Europe, from Poland,
Russia, Lithuania, Galicia, unlike most of the German
Jews^ had been the ones who had kept Judaism alive under
the most trying conditions of persecution during the
diaspora. They never had abandoned the old Jewish tra»
ditions, the Jewish way of life, the Jewish stamina of
survival amongst the anti-Semites who for many centuries
had persisted (and still do in Russia and Poland) in their
hatred and pogroms to destroy all Jews.
These immigrant Jews had not assimilated in America
to the point where they ever forgot that they were Jews.
They loved America, for it was the country where they could
bring up their children to be free and educated citizens.
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For centuries and centuries they had existed in a pressure
cooker and yet had survived. The Jews are the salt of the
would/
earth and without that salt mankind /■■I have undermined
its right to exist. We have seen it in Spain in the fif-
teenth century when the Jews were burned at the stake or
in 1492 driven ou^ of the country. The great Spain, whose
kings had boasted that the sun never sets in their world
empire, detoriated and lost her supremacy as a result of
making their country "judenfrei" - free of Jews. The
present-day Russia and Poland as well as the Arab countries,
unless they mend their ways, will learn the same lesson
Nazi-Germany/
Spain and^flHBI ■■■■I had been taught.
To be Jewish means to be human. Human in the sense of
love for humanity, for peace and by no choice of their
own
for self-preservation. Love and peace - that is the essence
of the Jewish way of life, but if Jews are compelled to
fight for their very existence they will do so, although
without joy and without boasting of a holy war. War is un=»
holy to them as it should be to anyone. However, no one
should ever make the mistake that race prejudice is any=»
thing but a cancer on the body of mankind. It has to be
torn out if mankind wants to survive and that is why the
Jewish people - contrary to an often expressed belief of
non-Jews - cannot possibly love Communism, for no other
country is officially as anti-Semitic as Communist Russia.
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A Jew, who embraces Communism (a brother- in-blood of
Fascism) is not a Jew anymore. He is as sick as any
American who hoists the Vietcong flag. The minority of
militant American Negroes ( brain-washed by Communist agi*
tators) who will accept anti-Semitism as their credo will
suffer defeat as all anti-Semites have suffered.
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And so we performed before this Jewish
audience and flopped as no other show could ever have
flopped. The musical numbers received scant applause, but
comedy/ black-outs/ dialogue/
our/jmi scenes and/i^BIHMi , our jokes and/l^HMHHI were
met with stoic rejection. Not a single laugh, not one of
our funny lines went over. We started to ham it up until
we were red in our faces. No re-action. Nothing. At the
end we were dismissed in silence and we slunk off the
stage like puppets whose strings had gone slack. We
couldn't understand what had happened to us.
The following morning, MHBSi walking along the
and/
porch/ still depressed about our failure, an elderly man^
sitting in a wicker chair, stopped me. He looked at me for
a moment and then asked in Yiddish from where we performers
came from, I told him that we were all refugees from Nazi-
Germany. He sadly shook his head and then said again in
Yiddish why we didn't perform in German instead of English.
If we were so stupid as not to know Yiddish, we should at
least have known that a Yiddish audience would understand
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German. After all, the Yiddish language had originated
the/
in/Germany of the Middle Ages and then later, when the
Jews had again to wander to the East, had been interspersed
with Russian and Polish expressions. These older immigrants
never had the time to learn more than a smattering of
English. They had settled in Jewish neighborhoods and
had worked in Jewish shops. Among themselves they had
continued spaking Yiddish and for entertainment they went
to Yiddish theatres.
The second evening we improvised our show in German
and had a modicum of success. They laughed here and there
and applauded at the end to show their appreciation .To
these good people Jews were only Jews if they spoke Yiddish.
We German Jews had been assimilated too much and so in this
case rightly paid for it.
We stayed for the three nights for which we had been
engaged and then went back to New York, not richer, but a
little wiser. There we disbanded. We had learned our lesson
For the fifteen months Annie and I stayed
in New York we constantly lived on the edge of starvation
and depression. We remained bewildered, lonely, unhappy to
the last day. We had wanted so much to like New York and
didn't find a way to do so. We never could have said "1 am
a New Yorker" as many years later President Kennedy pro-
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claimed in West-Berlin : "Ich bin ein Berliner", which.
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of course, was i§ political
hypocrisy.
We met a few famous personalities^ but none of them
despite their goo4^ intentions ever realized how much lost
and broke we were. They tried to aid us, but we had so
little to show. None of them got truly interested in us
with the exception perhaps of Hendri,fe willem van Loon,
but he was so busy that he hadn't the time to take us
under his wings. Edna/Ferber ' s and George S. Kaufman's
attempts to do something for us just fizzled out like
Alka Seltzer in water that isn't consumed. It was too
early for the people in New York to realize fully the total
brutality of the Nazis. The slaughter of the European Jews
wasn't in full swing yet.
1 still have a letter which Edna Ferber wrote to
Richard Simon of the still renown/publishing house of
Simon & Schuster. She wrote:
Mr. Richard Simon,
Simon & Schuster,
366 Fourth Avenue,
New York.
Dear Richard Simon:
Perhaps you have read a lot of letters like this
one, but give it reading time just the same, won't
you please?
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Max Berges. who presents this letter, Is a German
refugee who like many others is trying desperately
to get a foothold in this country. His novel Is to
be published in September, but in the meantime he
is having a most difficult time, trying to get on.
If you have any research work or work for a reader
or a translator, or any other office work where a
reliable, efficient and honest man can earn, at
least temporarily, something on which to live,
win you consider Mr. Berges. In Germany he was
an actor, writer and stage director. He is willing
to do anything at all. I should be grateful if
you would talk to him, however briefly.
Sincerely,
Edna Ferber.
II
I am afraid, I did not present myself at my best. I
still had only that one suit which I had exchanged in Manila
for six tropical ones and which didn't fit me too well. Be>
sides it Showed its wear. I remember that I was very hungry
that morning, having had nothing to eat for twenty-four
hours. Moreover, I didn't even have the nickel for the
subway fare and had walked I don't know how many blocks
to reach the off^es of Simon 6. Schuster. I was a good
talker (as long as I didn't have to talk about myself).
I could show some sort of intelligence, even wit, but I
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OOX 20?. STtrNLV or POT
STrrNlV. tAfcTON
CONNLCTICUT
July 13, 1939
Mr. Ki'j'i'^ird vSinoti,
vSimo.'i U Sc ivi 3 t»ir,
360 !"oart'-i Aveiiuo,
Dear Ilicivird Simon:
?erh:ip:: you have
read a lot o:"' letters like thin one,
but ^ive it rcadiiv; tino Just tiv- sa:.ie,
•.voTi' z you plcane? Max 3c^r^^es, v. ho
prcseiitr; t.iis It-ttei', is a Gcrnan
rerUi;eo who lik»^ nri^ny others is trying
desperately to ^et a foothold in this
country. Mis novel is to bo publi3:;ed
in September, but in the meantime he
is having a most difficult time, trying
to get or.. If you iiave any research
•.vork or v.ork for a reader or a trans-
lator, or any other office work where
a reliable-, efficient and honest man
can earn, at It^ast tvniporarily, sone-
thiri^ on v/hich to live, v/ill you
consider -Ir. Bcr^es.
In Gernany he was an
actor, writer and st.'..o'3 director. He
is v/illin^ to do cAvythir^ at all. I
should be- o^ateful if you v/ould talk to
hi n , how e v e r , briefly.
Sincerely,
E? : V
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was too exhausted to say much when I was allowed to see
Simon/
Mr./jHJMHB in his private office. Well, Mr. Simon, not
desperately cxhaust(^d, /
knowing of my empty stomach and my being/ SHI Mi M|B
talked to me/ '
/very kindly and "however briefly", as Miss Ferber^ had
suggested. I certainly could not have made any impression
at all on him in the state I was in. He was friendly wLth=*
out committing himself, and I am sure forgot about me
the very moment I closed the door behind me after leaving
his office. What else could I have expected? I could have
talked to him about many things, about my experiences, my
abilities and past performances, about our travels and
travails, but I didn't have the strength to say much at
all. To him I must have appeared as a shlemihl. Perhaps
he might have been a little more impressed if I had shown
him one of the letters Professor Einstein had written to
me. But I was stupid and never even mentioned them. No
one fights well on an empty stomach. The walk back home
was an ordeal. Mr. Simon had given me a promise to think
about me in case anything came up. Who could eat on pro=»
mises? I couldn't look any one into his eyes. I felt beaten.
Annie had had great hopes that a letter by Edna Ferber would
open any door for me. It had opened a dbor for me all right,
but after that I blew it myself. \^at was I going to tell
Annie? Neither Edna Ferber nor Richard Simon had failed me.
I had failed myself. However, this elucidation is just hind"
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This was one of the few times in my life that I
despaired of God. Wliile I was trudging home - or what
we had to consider home then - I forgot that God was
always present, that He never closed a door without open-
ing another one. I forgot that all one needed in life was
faith. I felt as if the world had come to an end when even
a recommendation by Edna Ferber did not do any good. I be-
lieved that nobody just could non-committedly dismiss me
when I came armed with a letter by Edna Ferber who was
then riding high on her fame and who was knownfor her
warm-heartedness. I had already seen myself employed by
U£/
Simon 6c Schuster and working myself/to better and better
Simon/
positions there, tf had not occurred to me that Mr./i
couldn't but have seen in me anything but a misfit and
that Edna Ferber' s heart had been bigger than her common
conquer/
sense. One cannoty/fiSBBRf one acts in a dispirited
manner.
It is impossible to sustain any depression or remain
discouraged with Annie around. She must have seen my sad-
sack face when I came home and that was one more reason
for her to greet me with what - as you should know by now
I always call her million dollar smile. To me that smile
is so beautiful that it defies description. It combines
a happy nature, love, faith and an inveterate optimism.
As far as she is concerned life is beautiful as long as
sight.
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we/
/two are together. She never had the capacity to accept
or even admit failure. Success was always around the
corner if one only had the patience to wait for it.
Seeing me, she didn't even give me the chance to re-
port to her what had happened at Simon & Schuster. She had
good news and they came first. There had been a check for
twenty- five dollars in the mail as payment for a short
story a magazine had bought. And that wasn't all. A lady
had called from Staten Island, inviting us for dinner the
follbwing evening. She had told Annie that ray sister in
Stockholm had written to her about us. They had known each
other in Hamburg. As it turned out this elderly woman be«
ji. good-fairy mother./
came in a manner of spaking our/lHlMHli She herself, al=«
though born and raised in Arizona, was a refugee from
«
Germany. She had marr-6ed a German- Jewish physician and moved
with him to Hamburg where he resided. Her husband had
died shortly before Hitler came to power. Being a native-
bom American she had had no trouble to return to the land
of her birth. She wasn't rich or anything close to it, but
somehow she had a steady income which allowed her to live
comfortably. She was 10 old-fashioned,
women/
dressed as/S
who still
did at the turn of the century, but she
also had an old-fashioned, good heart. We went visiting her
many times and she instinctively knew when we were in fin-
ancial trouble (which was most of the time) and often
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slipped us a ten or five dollar bill without expecting
anything in return. She would have fejt deeply offended
if we had not accepted her gifts. She has gone to heaven
now and may God bless her soul. It seemed as if things
left/
were going to happen if I only/SSiB Annie alone for a
few hours. A cousin of mine, whom we had not seen in
fifteen years, had also called that same morning. He
from Hollywood/
had come to New York/a few days ago for a short business
visit. From a mutual acquaintance he had heard that we
were in town.
Annie told me that anyone could have pushed her over
had/
with a feather when she/heard his voice over the telephone
used/
Every once so often years and years ago my mother/to
invite him for his favorite dish "Kohlrouladen" - boiled
cabbage leaves filled with ground meat, chopped onions and
whatever else went with it. He had asked Annie if she
could cook them for him. Annie told him that she could.
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but that we had neither the kitchen facilities nor the
him to do so/
money for any fancy dishes. But she promised/Mim HiBi
in better days. I>2 later years he once in/ a while wrote
to us, reminding Annie of her promise whenever he would
come to Los Angeles to visit with his mother and sister,
both of whom could have cooked Kohlrouladen for him as well,
but Annie had learned the recipe from my mother. Please,
don't worryl Nothing came of itI
He invited us for lunch at a Schraft restaurant in
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our neighborhood. We didn't know it then, but he was the
door God opened for us.
I never got around to telling Annie how much I had
Simon/
despaired of God after the polite brush-off by Hr,/mSSmmM.
It has been said too often, that I almost hesitate to repeat
it here, but it is so true that I can't omit it. God has
wondrous ways in shaping our lives. Some insignificant and
mostly /Unforeseen even/soften influences the history of the
entire world as well as the individual life of each one of
us .
When we met with this long lost cousin of mine, I felt
bitter, really bitter about New York. I actually couldn't
think straight anymore. Whatever I had tried had gone awry.
As an old Swedish p/^^verb says: A hungry man is an angry
man. And I was hungry too often and angry all the time
at how New York was treating us through all the months
we were living there. I only saw the slums, the ghettos
and all the ugliness of life in New York.
I remembered another failure. My friend Harry, the
same with whom we had cooked up the show for the borscht
circuit in the Catskill Mountains, had another great idea.
We had tried to promote a concert with a very talented Jewish
singer in a hall on Second Avenue, the heart of the Jewish
ghetto. We had managed to borrow some money with which we
could hire n hall for one evening, have t<^kets and handbills
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printed as well as put a few ads in l^cal Jewish papers.
There wasn't a Jew on Second Avenue and the entire neigh-
borhood who hadn't heard of this singer. To them he was an
artist of great merit, an adonis with a tenor voice which
could bring tears to all Jewish eyes when he sang the songs
of our people. We had set the prices at one and two dollars
a seat and looked forward to a full house and a nice pro=
fit. In fact, Harry and I saw each other already as new,
budding enterpreneurs , raking in the dough like leaves
falling from the trees in fall. If I remember right there
were no trees on Second Avenue and there abouts. So - Please,
don't worry! Nothing came of itl
Annie took the box office, that is she was sitting
in the drafty entrance hall on a woo(4fpn chair behind a
wooden table with a used cigarbox on it. Harry took care
of the arrangements behind stage, and I was the general
overseer, keeping close to Annie and the money we expected.
The people came all right, quite a number of them, but no-
body had told us that on Second Avenue we should have asked
twice the price for the tickets in order to get what we
wanted. This kind of audience had neither sold nor bought
anything without a hard bargaining and so they did for the
tickets. They had enough money to pay the one or two dollars,
but they simply couldn't believe that we meant it. They
tried to haggle the price down and I remained adamant. In
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all my life in the entertainment field I never had heard
of bargaining for theatre tickets. So it was no go as far
as I was concerned and as a result we had only one third
of the hall filled. Most of these people would have felt
suckers if they had bought the tickets at regular prices.
When Harry and I bargained with the singer to take a lesser
fee, we didn't succeed either. We were lucky to break even
and get out from under it without any debts. I had been
stupid as 1 always was when it came to business. If you
want to take a little, you*ve to give a little.
On another occasion Harry and I got hold of a good
musical play ^^nuscript and decided to go into JBH pro=*
ducing fli stage plays. That, we thought, was our kind of
cake. Boy, oh boy what it takes to learn a lesson. It
was a good manuscript and we saw ourselves already as
successful producers. Please, don't worry! Nothing came
of it!
We found a few backers or angels as they are called.
We managed to get hold of a theater, the owner of which
was willing to lease us the house for forty percent of the
gross profit, or the box office take. We should have stopped
right then and there. Forty percent would slice any profit
to less than nothing unless we had a full house each night.
The trouble was, we had nobody to advise us. It was a one -
set play and once the rented set had been installed on stage
all we needed was one man M to raise and lower the curtain
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plus one electrician. Moreover, we could present the play
with only two grand pianos, that is we needed only two
musicians. However » we had forgotten about the unions.
This particular theatre was in the union books for no less
than eight stage hands, throe electricians, one prop man
and at least twelve musicians. That constitutedthe kind of
overhead which wou^ have bankrupted us before starting the
first rehearsal. We pleaded with the unions to be reasonable.
If they insisted on their demands, nobody would make any
money. It was of no use. They didn't budge. We talked to
block heads and so we had to give up in dismay.
I'm not anti-union, but I'm afraid the unions are grow*
ing so short-sighted that it goes beyond human understanding.
They're pricing American merchandise out of the world market.
Their demands are often so unbelievable that one wonders if
they don't harbor a death v<;ish. Each new increase in wages
and added fringe benefits either give managements an excuse
for hiking up prices or force them to do so and no one de«
rives any benefit. It is a vicious circle. I have known the
horror of run-away inflation after World War I, but unless
we all come to our senses or the President invokes price.
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wage and rent control this great country of ours will
economically go down the ^ain. Illation always leads to
mass unemployment .Why are we Americans our own worst enemies?
All right, we met with my cousin at Schraffts.
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He appeared to be affluent and very much confident of
himself. He didn't tell us what kind of business he had
in New York, but he acted as if it was of great importance
to him. And it might well have been. He welcomed us with
warmth and kept his promise to pay for the lunch. It was
a happy occasion, for he was the first member of our
family we met after we had fled from Nazi-Germany. We
were all set to tell him about our misery in New York,
not/
but he was smart enough/fBi to let us do it. Instead he
talked about Hollywood, about the wonderful life in
Southern California. His mother and sister had just come
out there from Nazi-Germany. In short, we couldn't get
much of a word in edgewise. He looked forward to return
to Holl>'^^ood in six weeks. Without knowing it he persu=»
aded us to go also to Holl>a^ood. We hadn't been in para=
his/
dise before. He invited us to come with him in/ big touring
car. That was all right with us. We had nothing to lose
in New York.
That was that. We came home all fired up. We were to
follow Horace Greeley's acijjyice: "Go West, Young Man". Good-
bye New York. California, here we come. Please, don't worry I
Nothing came of it.' That is - we didn't drive with my cousin,
his lovely wife and beautiful shepherd dog in a big touring
car to Hollywood^ We got there the poor man's way - by bus.
Our friend Harry also had a cousin in Hollywood. He
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invited him to come out and/he left by bus two weeks be-
fore wc did. We saw him off with the understanding that
would/
we soon/meet again.
The six weeks went by and my cousin still had not
finished his business. We were in trouble and couldn't
watt any longer. W^e had given notice to our landlady
and she had rented the room again to another sucker. In
shor^ , we had burned our bridges in New York and there
was no indication when - if ever - my cousin would be
on/
going back to his beloved Hollywood. So wc left/jf our^»-
own/
/■■■■I by bus to see America. At last that part of our
dream came also true. We saw America all across from the
Atlantic to the Pacific. We traveled over mountain ranges,
through small and big cities, along the great lakes, through
prairies and deserts. Once more we were on the go and
with each mile that took us father away from New York
we felt happier. This was the country we had been looking
forward to.
For over a week we were riding the bus and for over a
week Timothy kept complaining, reminding me of my promise
that once we had reached the United States we would stay
put and settle! down for good. As far as he was concerned^
he was sick and tired of traveling, but there we did it
again. Whenever would it end? How was he to know that
Los Angeles would be the end of the long road? He was not
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80 wrong. We still were footloose. There had been nothing
or nobody keeping us back in New Tork. It could be the
same in Los Angeles. Yet, wherever we went, it couldn't be
worse than New York. Timothy had little trust in us. There
still was Mexico or Canada or Alaska and Hawaii or any
country in Central and South America, not to speak of
Australia and New Zealand, weren't there? I assured him
that for us there were only ^ese United States of America.
And so it was. Los Angeles was the end of the road. We
had done our traveling as two people without a country.
We never did return to New York, not even for a visit, or
did long to do so. Finally we are settled, absolutely settled
in the San Fernando Valley. Here we intend to stay until
our last day. We have had many more hard years in Los
Angeles, but none comparable with those in New York. We
wen^hrough much more hardship and yet have found our
happiness, we had pursued for so long. For whatever reason
we don't know, but our cousin remained in New York and did
not return to Hollywood but for one week's visit to see
his mothers and sister. After the war he traveled back
and forth between New York and West-Germany until at last
he lived more in Gexnnany than in New York. Not so long
ago he passed away in Munich. May God bless his soul. Who
knows whether or not we ever would have made the move
to California if it hadn't been for him. Without meeting
him our pursuit of happiness might not have come to a fruit-
messenger from God although he himself was never aware
of it.
Time is now forever getting shorter. Almost
nothing is more frightening in my opinion than hearing some*
one say: 1 do this Cr that to kill time. Or: When 1 do this
or that/ time passes so much faster. Why in the world do
we want to kill time or try to make it go faster? Whatever
we lose^ we can either replace or forget as not being im»
portant. But lost time is irretrievable. It passes too fast
anyhow. The slower we believe time goes on, the happier
we should be. We ought to treat each single minute as if
it were the most precious, God-given possession. Time
should be enjoyed with leisure. We shouldn't pride our*
selves to have conquered time so to speak or don't pay
any attention to it until it is too late. The span of
our life - even if we get to be a hundred - is no more
than a second in eternity.
The world has become much too small while the jet age
changes to the space age. We can't anymore turn back as we
can't turn back the clock. We're committed to speed and
more speed. Vv^iatever, though, has happened to the vi^BHD
pursuit of happiness? We use drugs to find it, but temporary
euphoria is no substitute for true, lasting happiness. We
talk about the soul as if it were something tangible. Soul-
ful conclusion. We cannot but remember him other than a
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children, soul-songs, soul-food. Baloney! Humbug! The soul
Is the spiritual, immortal part in man and cannot be con-
jured up to surface by drugs, food or songs. Happiness can
only be gained from deep inside of us through the resources
of a growing maturity.
God help us if we ever forget that America, our
America, gives everybody and everyone the chance to catch
up with happiness if he or she honestly pursues it. The
opportunities which are offered to us under our Consti-
tution and Bill of Rights are limitless, and yet make no
mistake, if we don't watch out, if we don't stand firm in
defending our precious freedom under the Constitution
we here in these United States of America can fall victim
to dictatorship of the extreme right or left. Our gullible
young rebels, black, white or brown, apparently don't
know or do not want to know that they are being manipulated
by agents provocateurs as the German didn't know or re=
fused to know during the years prior to the Third Reich
that a group of gangsters were taking over. These young
anarchists today don't pursure happiness, they pursue un=
happiness and we better wake up before civilization has
been turned around to non-civilization. It matters not if
an extremist i/i a Fascist or a Communist, a right- or left-
winger, for they arc/*rmed in the same mold. They all aim
to destroy democracy and free speech and free press. The
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result can only be totalitarianism. These anarchists to
the right and left deny free speech to anyone but them=»
selves. It cannot be done. No people can exist without
dialogue unless one wishws death to free though^and slavery
for the masses as we have it in Imperialistic Cominunist
and Fascist countries. No movement ever has been more
bloody, more murderous, more cowardly that professional
pacifism. Once we allow the extremists and the professional
pacifists to destroy democracies like the ones in the
United States and Israel, all hope for a free mankind
will be buried for a long time. We never can have peace
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at any price.
1 haven't lost hope and confidence in the great power
of our way of life. It had been so strongly anchored in
our Constitution and Bill of Rights that it cannot be torn
loose by the rebellion or anarchy of one single generation.
In this time of transition, we cannot help but look
with abhorrence on the violence, the senseless vandalism
which is spreading all over the world. We might harbor
the fear that our present civilization and culture is
being demolished by a minority of cowardly provocateurs.
\Je might he afraid tha/" mankind is doomed, that the old
order is crumbling with no new order in sight. Yet, truly
enough in the long history of mankind there never had been
a time of secure stability.
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children, soul-songs, soul-food. Baloney I Humbug! The soul
is the spiritual, immortal part in man and cannot be con»
jured up to surface by drugs, food or songs. Happiness can
only be gained from deep inside of us through the resources
of a growing maturity.
God help us if we ever forget that America, our
America, gives everybody and everyone the chance to catch
up with happiness if he or she honestly pursues it. The
opportunities which are offered to us under our Consti*
tution and Bill of Rights are limitless, and yet make no
mistake, if we don't watch out, if we don't stand firm in
defending our precious freedom under the Constitution
we here in these United States of America can fall victim
to dictatorship of the extreme right or left. Our gullible
young rebels, black, white or brown, apparently don't
know or do not want to know that they are being manipulated
by agents provocateurs as the German didn't know or re=
fused to know during the years prior to the Third Reich
that a group of gangsters were taking over. These young
anarchists today don't pursure happiness, they pursue un==
happiness and we better wake up before civilization has
been turned around to non-civilization. It matters not if
an extremist i/6 a Fascist or a Communist, a right- or left-
winger, for they are/4rmed in the same mold. They all aim
to destroy democracy and free speech and free press. The
result can only be totalitarianism. These anarchists to
the right and left deny free speech to anyone but them=*
selves. It cannot be done. No people can exist without
dialogue unless one wishws death to free thoughfand slavery
for the masses as we have it in Imperialistic Communist
and Fascist countries. No movement ever has been more
bloody, more murderous, more cowardly that professional
pacifism. Once we allow the extremists and the professional
pacifists to destroy democracies like the ones in the
United States and Israel, all hope for a free mankind
will be buried for a long time. We never can have peace
at any price.
I haven't lost hope and confidence in the great power
of our way of life. It had been so strongly anchored in
our Constitution and Bill of Rights that it cannot be torn
loose by the rebellion or anarchy of one single generation.
In this time of transition, we cannot help but look
with abhorrence on the violence, the senseless vandalism
which is spreading all over the world. We might harbor
the fear that our present civilization and culture is
being demolished by a minority of cowardly provocateurs.
We might be afraid tha/" mankind is doomed, that the old
order is crumbling with no new order in sight. Yet, truly
enough in the long history of mankind there never had been
a time of secure stability.
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We can go as far back as the second and first century
B.C. when Polybius, writing the history of the Medit^xranean
world of that time, explained the thesis of Thucydides , a
Greek historian of the fifth and fourth century B.C., who
is also remembered for his oration at the funeral of Pericles
Polybius' account of Thucydides' basic thesis is as
valid today as it was then and has been ever since and
probably will be in all future. After all, mankind has
not basically changed, for we have not acquired the wisdom
to learn from history.
Polybius wrote: "Human history is a cycle which excess
of power keeps revolving. Primitive despots start the wheel
rolling. The more power they get, the more they want, and
they go on abusing their authority until inevitably oppo=
sition is aroused and a few men seize the rule for them*
selves. These also can never be satisfied. They encroach
upon the rights of others until they are opposed in their
turn. The people are aroused against them, and democracy
succeeds to oligarchy. But there again the evil in all
power is no less operative. It brings corruption and con=
tempt for law, until the state can no longer function and
easily falls before a strong man who promises to restore
order. The rule of the one, of the few, of the many is
destroyed in turn because there is in them all an unvary*
ing evil - the greed for power - and no moral quality is
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necessarily bound up with any of them."'
As I said before, we cannot help but being concerned
with the state of affairs in our time, but so were our
forefathers in their time and so will be those who follow
us in the time of the future. What is happening today, has
happened before and is going to happen until mankind has
become obsolete.
Here on the Westcoast of America, in Southern
California, our odyssee as people without a country was at
last coming to an end. There were four more years of hard=
ship because after the disaster of Pe^kfcl Harbor we, who
had fled from Nazi-Germanym.who were the Nazis' bitterest
enemies, were declared enemy aliens until the day we were
awarded American citizenship. Then finally our pursuit of'
happiness found its fulfillment. Perhaps a native-born
American will not easily understand, but this day was the»
high-point, the pinnacle of our lives, and no other event
could or did ever rise above it. American citizenship -
aside from all the rights and duties it entails - is most
of all a state of mind. And so we fully agree with what
Williams and Van Narvig wrote in their book "Secret Sources"
"In being granted United States citizenship the oath of
allegiance is just a symbol. It's what you do after that
what really counts. If you preserve your European mentality,
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I firmly believe that Annie and I have shed our Euro=
pean mentality. We are Americans, we feel like Americans,
and we are happy and contented to be Americans. We have
learned: the hard way the value of American citizenship, w :-
Thank God for that. In fact, each day of the year is
Thanksgiving Day for us.
We cannot help but despise the many ugly anti-American
deeds, manifestations and vituperations by some of our
ypung people and those whom I call the deadly intellectuals.
Neither Annie nor I could ever be swerved from loving this^
wonderful country, which, of course, is not Utopia, because
there can be no Utopia on earth. The 1944 Nobel Prize winner
Johannes V. Jensen said: "The United States of America is
the power house of civilisation." And so it is. (Sorry,
Mr. K., wherever you are).
We didn't re-visit Germany or Europe. Yet, our bitter=
ness toward Germany, the country of our birth, has evaporated
We never hated the Germans as a people. We hated the Nazis
and still do. They, indeed, were no true Germans. No Coramu^
nist or Fascist has a nationality. They exist outside the
human race. That is why we don't believe that the Nazi-guilt
should or could be transferred to the present, new generation
of Germans or any generation in the future. We cannot blame
them for the sins of their fathers. The new democrajlc Re-
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public of Germany, the one we here call West-Germany, has
taken her place among the free nations of the world and
rightfully so. She is paying retribution for what the
Nazis have done to the Jews and she is probably the best
ally the State of Israel has today. We look upon today's
West- Germany with great pride and hope that one day in the
future the Eastern part of Germany, how dominated by Commu'
nists^ JBBBBHI will be re-united with West-Germany.
Some five years ago we bought a mobile home and moved
into one of the most beautiful parks in the West of the
San Fernando Valley at the foot of the Malib^i Mountain
Range some eleven miles from the Pacific Ocean. To/ us
it is paradise on earth. We have no intention of moving
anymore and Timothy enjoys sitting outside in our yard
on a long chair, taking it easy. No more moving and no
more traveling if we can help it. At last Timothy has
his wish while he has to remain my guardian angel.
The years in between have not been all
strewn with roses. If it hadn't been for Timothy - and
I have to give credit where credit is due - I wouldn't
have>:.made it long enough to write this much too long book
whichmay or may not have interested you. It doesn't matter
very much to me, for I have written it to be my legacy. If
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Tiipothy is right, I'll have another fifteen years to
live on this earth, and I intend to make the best of it.
Indeed, these years, ever since we came to California,
have not always been easy ones and yet they were years of
true happiness.
We worked hard and we made progress. We became a part
of these United States and have grown deep roots here which
we couldn't tear up even if we had the desire which, of
course, we have not.
The real set-backs we received in the last years
have been ones pertaining to our health. We contracted
more illnesses than we ever thought possible. I had to
undergo ten major operations and Annie three. If it had
not been for the assistance of a beloved friend of ours,
Lila Gross, whom we have adopted as our sister, we might
have fared much worse. At all times she was there to take
care of Annie when I was in the hospital. We never can
repay her kindness and hospitality.
I myself cannot be grateful enough to the Kaiser
Foundation Hospitals and the outstanding physicians there,
especially Dr. John Fennimore Cooper (a descendant of the
famous writer and name sake) who saved my life more than
once. The medical care I received and still receive at
this finest medical institution of its kind could not have
been and cannot be better anywhere else. Besides, Annie
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and I always took and take care of each other as it
should be. In a way, though, we have become semi-inva*
lids and yet our pursuit of happiness has paid off. We
have achieved the kind of inner happiness one can only
achieve in these United States of America. We are free
citizens in a free democratic nation, the greatest and
finest in the world. (Sorry, Mr. K. , wherever you are).
Of course, we reco^ize her many flaws and defects which
generally are part of democracies. Yet, in the final
analysis any country is as good or bad as her citizens.
This is still a country which has not become stagnant.
She is alive and move^ forward and will improve as each
new
generation, even the present one, will do its part
Neither Communism nor Fascism, seemingly a threat to
our very existence, will ever succeed in destroying our
way of life which is unique in history. Annie and I feel
certain of it.
Sorry, Mr. K. , this may sound patriotic or even
chauvinistic, hUt it isn't. We can't change how we feel.
Sh haven't been born here. We've accepted this country
for better or worse. Yes, Annie and I are happy here and
thank God each day for our togetherness. We live a wonder*
ful life the way it is and despite our phys/^^al handicaps^
t4/e don't find age a ourden.
At no time in our life did we believe that success
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has anything to do with acquiring money and possessions.
The fact is, as most people know, that no onu?. owns anything.
Whatever we may own is ours temporarily only and often
more a liability than an asset.
At last we have met with true success in our pursuit
of happiness after we have retired from the more active
way of living. We have never known a minute of boredom
and do not now. We find satisfaction in thinking and medi=
tating, in conversation, reading and writing as well as
watching television for a few hours in the evening. Our
days are always filled although they have become shorter
since we have to rest quite a bit.
We have not obtained much in way of material things,
but whatever we have does suffice to keep us alive and
out of debts. We've shed all our worries, for now we can
honestly live for one day only and let the tomorrow take
care of itself. Death has no fear for us. Death is our
friend and when he will take us we are ready to join God
in eternal peace.
We have learned that there is no more glorious way
of living than our way in the United States and don't care
who agrees with us and who doesn't. We've found our niche
and we like it. God has truly blessed us.
And now, please, let me come to the end of this book
of reminiscences, if it is that, with an article X wrote
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not so long ago. It appeared in the magazine "Harvest
Years"and I hope that the editor won't object if I
insert it here.
"OUR LOVE AFFAIR WITH LIFE
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FOR EACH OF us there's
one romance that can re-
^jn'dm eternally rejuvenat-
ing: our love affair with
life.
Life is the sum total of
ever5i;hing we hold dear,
ever>'thing we feel . . . from
the first breath to the last.
It can be likened to, and for
some encompasses, a good
marriage that keeps its youthful romantic aura
and mutual regaj-d, despite the arguments and
adversities to which lovers are prone. In fact, our
feeling's may he intensified and strengthened by
occasional setbacks, if we but acknowledge the
significance of our love.
And just ;is any true romance shows its mettle
be;-t when it comes through a snag mX\i flying
colors, so it is with our regard for life.
Recently— while sitting in my doctor's waiting
room — I was reminded how our experiences are
temr^ered in thiKS way by our basic attitudes, or the
quality of our emotions. An acquaintance I hadn't
seen for years came in and wearily dropped into
a chair beside me.
"I'm shaking with fear," he whispered to me.
I looked at him question! ngly.
"I'm going to have an operation," he confided.
''Vou know, incredible as it may sound, I've never
before had a moment of real pain in my life."
My poor friend was caught on a snag that often
mars our romance with life: fear. 1 was tempted
to counsel him about such a harmful negative atti-
tudi»,..to tell him, then and there, how I'd suc-
cessfully stabilized my love affair with life despite
eight major operations in the last ten years. But,
figdring that one shouldn't meddle with another's
em'>Lic»Tis, I didn't say anything.
However, 1 later fell to thinking how nebulous
our emotions can be. And as lovers fail to make up
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after a quarrel, sp people often fail to adjii8t^J»t
the vicissitudes of life. I ^yondered if my friend
would have benefited and found encouragement-
if I had shared my own positive ideas about life '
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Prior to my first operation—which lasted over^
six hours and from which I'd been given less than ;-
an even chance to recover-— Fd made up my mind J
to do one thing: face it squarely with dignity, I V'
estimated tiiat, since my chances were slim» ihy •
sheer love of life might l>0 a determininir factor
for survival. Aji^, whil^ l prepared myself^ to;
submit gracefully io God's will* I fibred if (^U;;
the world loves a lover*' God would do nolessjand
might consequently shift the odds to my faypri^>;
When I emerged from the anesthesia my niind
and body behaved very kindly and settled into the ':
routine of recuperation w;xth little pain. The doctor '
later told me that the opeiiition had been a night-; ;
mare of complications^ aii4:^® ^^^ fought tiard
for my life. But we had won the battle together:-^ ■ ^
with his skill and my spiritual and mental equi-i;'
librium. And although my illness was so severe tiat
I had to undergo surgery seven more times, I Icept
my love affair with Jife intact ^\^^ ,'i#^^i^<^^^?^
Losilig your zest and love for life is bound to {
create within, you a feeling of insecurity and
spiritual misery, and tliis, makes a mockery of
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Perhaps, like my firien^, too tnany of us are so
blessed by good health and fortune that we take
life for granted .. » we for^^et that life itself is a
miracle, fragile and transient though it may be,
that 'Should be chenshecli,.^^^;!^;:'"-;^^;^.-^ ;^;^ If J*;"' '^^r/ •:''■• ';
If we keep our romance y/i'^ life unmarred by
fear, .selfishness, greed, or resignation to mis-
fortune— we have accx)mplish(jd the most succesa-
lul aspect of our lives. After all, succesis comesi
from within, not f ronx wlthoutj 0»ly you can keeb ! .
your love affair with yfe eterjiaUy young. iS^"'^H0'^
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1*11 have to add that after this article appeared
I had to undergo surgery twice more and came through
with flying colors. Timothy was there to make sure of
it.
All I can think of now is for you not ever
to forget the words from the bible, I have quoted before:
"Man is bom unto trouble as the sparks fly upwards". They
also flew upwards, it is my sadness to remind you, from
Hitler's crematoria ovens, where they were kindled by
human flesh to prove perhaps that man truly is bom unto
trouble. Only God knows the reason why.
So, please, do never feel that anything is so im=
portant that one should hate for it or rage about it,
or even worry on account of it. Remember, in a hundred or
only fifty years or less we all will be forgotten on this
planet. Only God will remember us.
And so - Annie, Timothy and I are wishing you all our
very best and thank you for reading this lengthy book. May
God bless you all.
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Two Postscripts:
1) You may well wonder who this mysterious Mr. K. is. Well-
he is just a symbol of the kind of native American, the deadly
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intellectual, who Condemns anything and everything these
United States of America stand for. He is the symbol of
the sadest example of humanity this wonderful country of
our has produced: The American an ti- American.
2) Now Timothy tells me that the title for this book is
wrong or has been proven wrong in the end. After all,
something came of it. If it had not been for Hitler and
his gangsters - as I wrote on the first page - we never
would have found the happiness of being American citizens.
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