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MEMOIRS
OF
EMINENTLY PIOUS WOMEN
OF
BRITAIN AND AMERICA.
COLLECTED AND EDITED BY
DAVID FRANCIS BACON
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Favor is deceitful and beauty is vain ; but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be
praised. — Proverbs xxxi. 30.
/° NEW HAVEN:
PUBLISHED BY DANIEL McLEOD,
1833.
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Entered according to Act of Congress, in the year 1833, by Daniel McLeod, in the Clerk's office,
of the District Court of Connecticut.
Printed by Hezekiah Howe & Co.
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CONTENTS
Page.
Preface, 5
Lady Jane Grey, 9
Queen Catharine Parr, 33
Countess of Warwick, 45
Lady Elizabeth Brooke, 59
Lady Alice Lucy, 72
Lady Frances Hobart, 76
Viscountess Falkland, 84
Mrs. Lucy Hutchinson, 102
Mrs. Catharine Clark, 122
Countess of Carbery, 137
Lady Rachel Russell, 145
Mrs. Elizabeth Bury, 159
Queen Mary II., 183
Mrs. Elizabeth Burnet, 206
Mrs. Elizabeth Rowe, 212
Countess of Seafield, 229
Elizabeth West, 246
Lady Elizabeth Hastings, 260
Countess of Huntingdon, 272
Lady Ann Agnes Erskine, 280
Viscountess Glenorchy, 285
Lady Henrietta Hope, 297
IV CONTENTS.
Page.
Mrs. Sarah Edwards, 301
Mrs. Sarah Osbom, 332
Miss Susanna Anthony, 363
Mrs. Martha Laurens Ramsay, 384
Mrs. Isabella Graham, 395
Mrs. Harriet Newell, 419
Miss Fanny Woodbury, 431
Mrs. Susan Huntington, 439
Miss Caroline Elizabeth Smelt, 469
Mrs. Susan Poor, 493
Mrs. Elizabeth Dolson, 512
Mrs. Sally Agard, 519
Miss Elizabeth Peck, 522
Miss Lydia B. Leavitt, 531
Miss Elizabeth Hough, 535
Mrs. Sally Rundal, 539
Miss Catharine Brown, 543
Tahneh, 560
Mrs. Jane Clark, 564
Mrs. Elizabeth Bishop, 568
Mrs. Ann Hasseltine Judson, 575
Mrs. Esther Butler, 581
Eliza, 585
Mrs. Myra W. Allen, 593
Miss Hannah Adams, 602
PREFACE
The learned and philosophical Bayle remarks, " Atheism is not
the vice of women 5 they make it a virtue not to enter into deep
reasonings, so that they adhere to their catechism, and are more in-
clined to superstition than impiety." If this is indeed the natural
constitution of the sex, it cannot be esteemed at all unfortunate with
reference to their destinies in life, but manifests, on the contrary, the
wisdom of him who forms and fashions the moral as well as the phys-
ical part of humanity. For the business to which women are called
in life, is seldom of such a character as to require the boldness and
severity of investigation, which in the sterner sex sometimes degen-
erates into undiscriminating scepticism. The office of training the
infant mind, and giving to the young immortal those first principles of
thought and feeling that must constitute the character for ever, needs
powers and propensities of a different kind from those of him who
devotes his life and labor to the discovery of new truth. The mother
seeks and finds the materials of instruction, in the truths which the
experience and opinions of ages or the sanctions of religion have
approved and hallowed, and the course of her natural duties can
seldom or never lead her to search after those before hidden. The
disposition in her to receive the solemn and saving truths of Chris-
tianity with more readiness, than the scoffs or sophistry of atheism
and error, assures us that rising generations shall learn in their earliest
and most susceptible years, that knowledge which is of eternal im-
portance, and that the tender twig shall receive a bent, which shall
grow with its growth and strengthen with its strength, till maturity has
fixed its character. The mighty and immeasurable influence which
mothers exert on the character of an age or a nation must itself be
swayed by religious principle, or it will prove a pestilential miasma,
poisoning every breath and tainting the whole moral atmosphere.
Religious principle early implanted with the solicitude of tender affec-
tion, and watered with fervent prayer, will not be fruitless ; it will
at least operate as a restraint from sin ; and, in general, a much hap-
pier result may be expected, Few are so far sunk in iniquity as
VI PREFACE.
wholly to forget the lessons of their childhood. This is beautifully
illustrated in the familiar story which an eminently good man told of
himself; that when he was a boy, his mother used to call him to her
side at evening, and placing her hand on his forehead, pray over him
and for him, teaching him also such prayers as suited his age. The
mother died, and the boy, as he grew up to manhood, mixing with
the gay and busy world, turned aside from the ways in which that
parent had led him, and gave himself up to the pleasures of sin.
But wherever he went, in every scene of gayety or splendor, or vice,
he always seemed to feel, as in childhood, the gentle pressure of that
cold hand on his burning brow, reminding him of prayer ; till at
last the memory of that mother's early culture, aided by the Spirit
of God striving with him, turned him back to the forsaken ways of
wisdom, and those low whispered prayers that fell upon his ear in
childhood, came to his heart with a more convincing eloquence than
all the thunders of homiletic theology.
Our age has produced many bright examples of female excel-
lence, in a literary as well as a religious point of view, who have
not only trod the paths of science, but have devoted their time and
employed their talents in imparting instruction to all ranks of society;
thus consecrating their endowments to the service of him, who so
bountifully bestowed them.
It is remarked by our celebrated moralist, Dr. Johnson, " That
there has scarcely passed a life, of which a judicious and faithful
narrative would not have been useful." If such a remark is gener-
ally applicable, much more is it appropriate to the subjects of grace.
To observe the past conduct of others may be very useful to pilot
us through life, by shewing the rocks upon which they split ; but
the history of the heirs of glory is full of instruction as well as ad-
monition ; it teaches us how to enjoy prosperity, to support adversi-
ty, to improve affliction ; and, above all, guides our feet to those
heavenly mansions where there are joys unspeakable, and everlast-
ing pleasures.
The varied circumstances and situations in life of the subjects of
these Memoirs cause a great diversity in their history; some are in-
stances of early maturity in the divine life, and were transplanted
into their native soil in the bloom of youth ; others were removed in
the midst of active useiulness, ■ and some were gathered into the
PREFACE, V1J
heavenly garner in ilie evening of life, as shocks of corn fully ripe ;
some were among the rich and noble, others humble and obscure ;
some of great talents, cultivated minds, and liberal education ; others
plain and unlettered ; but the same point is discernible in all — ex-
perimental, vital religion, manifesting itself in holiness of life and
conversation.
The work which afforded the materials for the first half of this
volume was Burder's Memoirs of Eminently Pious Women of the
British Empire, a book of high reputation, from which have been
extracted such of the most valuable memoirs as the limits of this
volume would admit. The second part of this volume is a compi-
lation from various sources, in which it has been attempted to in-
clude sketches of those who have been most highly distinguished
for piety and usefulness in our country. The list, however, is by no
means complete ; and in the course of the tedious and laborious re-
searches which the Editor has been compelled to make in the prep-
aration of the work, a large mass of materials has been brought to
light, which, if the present volume should be well received, will
probably hereafter be given to the world in an improved form, with
suitable illustrations.
The Editor considers the following Memoirs as exhibiting an in-
teresting picture of genuine Christianity, but certainly does not hold
himself responsible for all the sentiments and expressions thus re-
corded. He would discard every thing which is contrary to godli-
ness, built on sound scriptural knowledge, and a steady, regular
walk ; and judges the best evidences of a state of salvation to be
those which are found in holy dispositions and correspondent de-
portment. D. F. B^
New Haven, May, 1833,
MEMOIRS
OF
EMINENTLY PIOUS WOMEN.
LADY JANE GREY,
OTHERWISE LADY JANE DUDLEY, OR QUEEN JANE; SHE HAVING BEEN PRO-
CLAIMED QUEEN OF ENGLAND UPON THE DEMISE, AND IN PURSUANCE OF
THE APPOINTMENT, OF HER COUSIN KING EDWARD THE SIXTH.
Lady Jane Grey was of a very noble stock. Her father, Henry
Grey, Marquis of Dorset, descended in a direct line from Sir Thom-
as Grey, knight of the garter, Lord Harrington, in right of his wife,
and created Marquis of Dorset by Edward the Fourth, who married
his mother. Her mother was Lady Frances Brandon, the eldest of
the two surviving daughters of Charles Brandon, Duke of Suffolk, by
Mary, Queen Dowager of France, youngest daughter of King Hen-
ry the Seventh, and sister to King Henry the Eighth.
Lady Jane very early in life gave astonishing proofs of the great-
ness of her mind ; and though there was very little difference in age
between her and King Edward the Sixth,* who was thought almost
a miracle, yet in learning she was not only equal to him, but his su-
perior. Her person was extremely pleasing ; but the beauties of her
mind were still more engaging. She had great abilities, and greater
virtues ; and, as Bishop Burnet says of her, " She was the wonder
and delight of all that knew her."
Female accomplishments were not improbably the first part of her
education. Her genius appeared in the performances of her needle,
and in the beautiful character in which she wrote. She played ad-
mirably on various instruments of music, and accompanied them with
* We cannot exactly ascertain the time of her birth. Mr. Fuller represents her
as eighteen when she suffered ; and Sir Thomas Chaloner, as but very little beyond
that age. If so, it is but counting back eighteen years from February 12, 1553 — 4,
when she was beheaded, and we shall fix her birth in the latter end of the year
1535, or the beginning of the year 1536. — Mr. Foxe expressly says, that there was
little difference in age between her and Edward the Sixth, who was born October
12, 1537.
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a voice exquisitely sweet in itself, and assisted by all the graces which
art could bestow.
Her father, the Marquis of Dorset, had himself a tincture of let-
ters, and wTas a patron of learned men. He had two chaplains,
Harding and Aylmer, both eminent for their literature, whom he em-
ployed as tutors to his daughter. Under their instructions she made
a most extraordinary proficiency. She spoke and wrote her own
language with peculiar accuracy ; and it is said, that the French, Ital-
ian, Latin, and especially the Greek tongues, were as natural to her
as her own ; for she not only understood them perfectly, but wrote
them with the utmost freedom ; and this, not in the opinion of super-
ficial judges, but of Mr. Ascham, and Dr. Aylmer ; men who, in
point of veracity, were as much above suspicion, as in respect of
abilities they were incapable of being deceived ; men, who were, for
their learning, the wonder of their own times, and of ours : the form-
er, famous for Roman accuracy ; the latter, one of the ablest critics
in those learned days. She was also versed in Hebrew, Chaldee,
and Arabic, and all this when she was in a manner a child in age.
She was remarkable for a sedateness of temper, a quickness of ap-
prehension, and a solidity of judgment, which enabled her not only
to become the mistress of languages, but of sciences ; so that she
thought, reasoned, and spoke upon subjects of great importance in a
manner which greatly surprised even persons of the best judgment
and abilities. And yet she was in no respect elated by these extra-
ordinary endowments ; but was remarkably gentle, humble, and mod-
est in her demeanor.
Her parents, as appears from her own account, were both of them
strangely severe in their behavior towards her ; and as she was nat-
urally very fond of literature, that fondness was much heightened, as
well by the severity of her parents, as by the gentleness of her tutor,
Aylmer ; and, when mortified and confounded by the unmerited chi-
dings of her parents, she returned with double pleasure to the lessons
of her learned preceptor ; and sought in Demosthenes and Plato, her
favorite authors, that delight which was denied her in all the other
scenes of life, in which she very little mingled, and seldom with any
satisfaction.
Her alliance with the crown, as well as the great favor in which
the Marquis of Dorset stood with Edward the Sixth, necessarily
brought her sometimes to court, where she received particular marks
of the young king's esteem, who was nearly, as observed before, of
the same age with herself, and who took great pleasure in her con-
versation. But for the most part of her time she seems to have con-
tinued at her father's seat, at Broadgate, in Leicestershire, where she
was with her beloved books in the summer season of 1550, when
the famous Roger Ascham* paid her a visit, as we are informed from
* Roger Ascham, Esq., two years tutor to the Princess, afterwards Queen Elizabeth.
LADY JANE (iREY. 11
himself. " Before I went into Germany," says he, " I came to
Broadgate, in Leicestershire, to take my leave of that noble lady,
Jane Grey, to whom I was exceeding much beholden. Her par-
ents, the duke and dutchess, with all the household, gentlemen and
gentlewomen, were hunting in the park. I found her in her cham-
ber reading Phoedo Platonis in Greek, and that with as much de-
light, as some gentlemen would read a merry tale in Boccace. Af-
ter salutation, and duty done, with some other talk, I asked her why
she should lose such pastime in the park ? Smiling, she answered
me ; ' I wist all their sport in the park is but a shadow, to that pleas-
ure that I find in Plato. Alas ! good folk, they never felt what true
pleasure meant.' — 'And how came you, madam,' quoth I, ' to this
deep knowledge of pleasure ? And what did chiefly allure you unto
it, seeing not many women, but very few men have attained there-
unto?' 'I will tell you,' quoth she, 'and tell you a truth which per-
chance ye will marvel at. One of the greatest benefits that ever God
gave me, is, that he sent me so sharp and severe parents, and so gen-
tle a schoolmaster ; for when I am in the presence either of father or
mother, whether I speak, keep silence, sit, stand, or go, eat, drink,
be merry, or sad, be sewing, playing, dancing, or doing any thing
else, I must do it, as it were, in such weight, measure, and number,
even so perfectly as God made the world ; or else I am so sharply
taunted ; so cruelly threatened ; yea, presently sometimes with pinch-
es, nips, and bobs, and other ways, which I will not name for the
honor I bear them, so without measure misordered, that I think my-
self in hell till time come that I must go to Mr. Aylmer,* who teach-
eth me so gently, so pleasantly, with such fair allurements to learn-
ing, that I think all the time nothing, while I am with him. And
when I am called from him, I fall on weeping, because whatsoever I
do else but learning, is full of grief, trouble, fear, and whole misli-
king unto me. And thus my book hath been so much my pleasure,
and bringeth daily to me more pleasure, and more, that in respect of
it all other pleasures in very deed be but trifles and troubles unto
me.' — I remember," adds Mr. Ascham, " this talk gladly, both be-
cause it is so worthy of memory, and because also it was the last talk
I ever had, and the last time that ever I saw that noble and worthy
lady."
What a speech was here from so young a lady ! What reader is
not melted with it ! What a fine taste, and what a noble and enriched
mind are here discovered ! Mr. Ascham appears (and where is the
wonder ?) to have been deeply affected with this interview, and to
have retained a most pleasant and honorable remembrance of it. In
a letter written the December following to his friend Sturmius, hav-
ing informed him that he had had the honor and happiness of being
* Dr. John A j liner, afterwards Bishop of London.
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admitted to converse familiarly with this young lady, and that she
had written a very elegant Latin letter to him, he proceeds to men-
tion this visit at Broadgate, and his consequent surprise at what oc-
cured there, not without some degree of rapture. Thence he takes
occasion to observe, that she both spoke and wrote Greek to admira-
tion, and that she had promised to write him a letter in that language
upon condition that he would send her one first from the empe-
ror's court.* But this rapture rose much higher, while he was com-
posing a letter addressed to herself, in the month following. There,
speaking of his interview, he assures her, " That among all the
agreeable varieties he had met with in his travels abroad, nothing had
occurred to raise his admiration like that incident in the preceding
summer, when he found her, a young maiden, by birth so noble, in
the absence of her tutor, and in the sumptuous house of her most
noble father, at a time too when all the rest of the family, both male
and female, were regaling themselves abroad with the pleasures of
the chase, I found," continues he, "the divine virgin diligently study-
ing the divine Phcedo of the divine Plato, in the original Greek.
Happier certainly in this respect than in being descended, both on
the father's and mother's side, from kings and queens." He then
puts her in mind " of the Greek epistle she had promised him, and
prompted her also to write another to his friend Sturmius, that what
he had said of her, wherever he came, might be rendered credible
by such authentic evidence."
If Lady Jane received this letter in the country, yet it is probable
that she did not stay there long after, since some changes happened
in the family, which it is not unlikely brought her to town, for her
maternal uncles, Henry and Charles Brandon, both dying at Bugden,
the Bishop of Lincoln's palace, of the sweating sickness, her father
was created Duke of Suffolk, in October, 1551 ; Dudley, Earl of
Warwick, being also created Duke of Northumberland at the same
time.
These Dukes of Suffolk and Northumberland, upon the fall of the
Duke of Somerset, having reached to the pinnacle of power, upon
the decline of the king's (Edward the Sixth) health, 1553, began to
contrive how to prevent that reverse of fortune they foresaw must
happen upon his demise. To accomplish this end, no other method
was judged effectual but a change in the succession to the crown, and
the transferring it into their own families. The Lady Jane was des-
tined to the principal part in this intended revolution ; nay, in reality,
the whole of it centered in her. Those most excellent and amiable
qualities, which had rendered her dear to all who had the happiness
of knowing her, joined with her near affinity to the king, subjected
* Aschani's Epist. lib. i. epist. 4. It is to be observed, tbat Mr. Ascham, at the
time of his making his visit to Lady Jane, was going to London, to attend Sir Rich-
ard Morrison on his embassy to the Emperor Charles the Fifth, in Germany
LADY JANE GREY. 13
her to become the chief tool of an ambition notoriously not her own.
On this very account she was married to the Lord Guilford Dudley,
fourth son of the Duke of Northumberland, without any discovery
to her of the real design of the match, which was celebrated with
great pomp in the latter end of May, 1553, so much to the king's
satisfaction, that he largely contributed to the expenses of it from
the royal wadrobe.
But the magnificence and splendor attending their nuptials was the
last gleam of joy that shone in the palace of King Edward, who
grew so weak in a few days after, that the Duke of Northumberland
thought it high time to carry his project into execution. According-
ly, in the beginning of June, he communicated the matter to the
young monarch, and having first made all such colorable objections
as the affair would admit against his majesty's two sisters, Mary and
Elizabeth ; he observed, that the Lady Jane, who was of the royal
line, was a person of extraordinary qualities ; that her zeal for the
Reformation was unquestioned ; that nothing could be more accept-
able to the nation than the prospect of such a princess ; and, that in
this case he was bound to set aside all partialities of blooa1, and neai-
ness of relation, which were inferior considerations, and ought to be
over-ruled by the public good. To corroborate and secure the suc-
cess of this discourse, care was taken to place about the king those
who should make it their business to touch frequently upon this sub-
ject, enlarge upon the accomplishments of Lady Jane, and describe
her with all imaginable advantages. In the result of the king's af-
fections standing for this disposition of the crown, he yielded to
overlook his sisters, and set aside his father's will. Agreeably to
which a deed of settlement being drawn up in form by the judges,
was signed by his majesty, and all the lords of the council.
This difficult affair being accomplished, and the letters patent hav-
ing passed the seals before the close of the month, the next step was
to concert the properest method for carrying this settlement into ex-
ecution ; and till this was done, to keep it as secret as possible. To
this end the Duke of Northumberland formed a project, which, if it
had succeeded, might have made all things easy and secure. He
directed letters to the Lady Mary, in her brother's name, requiring
her attendance at Greenwich, where the court then was ; and she
had got within a half a day's journey of the place when King Ed-
ward expired, July 6, 1553; but having timely notice of his decease,
she escaped the snare which had been so artfully laid for her.
The two Dukes, Suffolk and Northumberland, found it necessary
to conceal the king's death, that they might have some time to gain
the City of London, and get the consent of Lady Jane, who was so
far from having any concern in the business, that as yet she was un-
acquainted with the steps which had been taken to procure her the
frown. At this juncture the Princess Mary sent a letter to the
privy counsel, in which, though she did not take the title of queen.
14 MEMOIRS OF
yet she clearly asserted her right to the throne, and took notice of
the concealment of her brother's death, and of the practices into
which they had since entered ; intimating that there was still room
for reconciliation, and that if they complied with their duty in pro-
claiming her queen, she would forgive and even forget what was
past. But, in answer to her letter, they insisted upon the indubita-
ble right of Lady Jane, and their own unalterable fidelity to her as
their queen, to whom they urged her to submit.
These previous steps being taken, and the Tower and city of Lon-
don secured, the council quitted Greenwich and came to London :
and on Monday, July the 10th, in the forenoon, the two last-men-
tioned dukes repaired to Durham House, where the Lady Jane re-
sided with her husband, as part of Northumberland's family. There
the duke of Suffolk with much solemnity opened to his daughter the
disposition the late king had made of his crown by letters patent, the
clear sense the privy council had of her right, the consent of the
magistrates and citizens of London ; and, in conclusion, himself and
Northumberland fell on their knees, and paid their homage to her as
Queen of England. The poor lady, somewhat astonished at their
discourse, but not at all affected with their reasons, or in the least
elevated by such unexpected honors, returned them an answer
to this effect : " That the laws of the kingdom and natural right
standing for the king's sisters, she would beware of burdening her
weak conscience with a yoke which did belong to them ; that
she understood the infamy of those who had permitted the violation
of right to gain a sceptre ; that it were to mock God and deride jus-
tice, to scruple at the stealing of a shilling, and not at the usurpa-
tion of a crown. Besides," said she, " I am not so young, nor so
little read in the guiles of fortune, to suffer myself to be taken by
them. If she enrich any, it is but to make them the subject of her
spoil ; if she raise others, it is but to pleasure herself with their ruin ;
what she adored yesterday, is to-day her pastime : and if I now per-
mit her to adorn and crown me, I must to-morrow suffer her to crush
and tear me to pieces. Nay, with what crown doth she present me?
A crown which hath been violently and shamefully wrested from
Catharine of Arragon, made more unfortunate by the punishment of
Anne Boleyne, and others that wore it after her, and why then would
you have me add my blood to theirs, and be the third victim from whom
this fatal crown may be ravished with the head that wears it ? But
in case it should not prove fatal to me, and that all its venom were
consumed, if fortune should give me warranties of her constancy,
should I be well advised to take upon me those thorns, which would
dilacerate, though not kill me outright ? To burden myself with a
yoke which would not fail to torment me, though I were assured not
to be strangled with it ? My liberty is better than the chain you
proffer me, with what precious stones soever it be adorned, or of
what gold soever framed. I will not exchange my peace for honor-
LADY JANE GREY. 15
able and precious jealousies, for magnificent and glorious fetters.
And if you Jove me sincerely, and in good earnest, you will rather
wish me a secure and quiet fortune, though mean, than an exalted
situation exposed to the wind, and followed by some dismal fall."
But notwithstanding the prudence, goodness, and eloquence of
this speech, she was at length prevailed upon by the exhortations of
her father, the intercession of her mother, the artful persuasions of
the Duke of Northumberland, and, above all, the earnest desires of
her husband, whom she tenderly loved, to yield her assent to what
had been already, and what was still to be done.* And thus, with
a heavy, disinclined heart, she suffered herself to be conveyed to the
Tower, where she entered with all the state of a queen, attended by
the principal nobility; and, what was very extraordinary, with her
train supported by the Dutchess of Suffolk, her mother ; in whom,
if in any of this line, the right of succession lay. About six o'clock
in the afternoon she was proclaimed queen with all due solemnities
in the city. The same day, also, she assumed the royal title, and
afterwards proceeded to exercise some acts of sovreignty. But the
royalty of this worthy lady was of very short duration, a sunbeam of
glory, which was soon utterly extinguished in clouds and darkness ;
for on the 19th of the same month, the Princess Mary was proclaim-
ed queen in London, so that the reign of this lady was only a va-
por of about nine days continuance.
As soon as the Duke of Suffolk, who now resided with his daugh-
er in the Tower, was informed of the Princess Mary's proclamation,
he went to his daughter's apartments, and in the softest terms he
could acquainted her that matters had taken such a different turn,
that laying aside the state and dignity of a queen, she must fall back
into the condition of a private person. To which intelligence she,
with a composed and serene countenance, made the following an-
swer. " Sir, I better brook this message than that of my advance-
ment to royalty. Out of obedience to you, and to my mother, I have
* The mention of the crown, says Bishop Burnet, when her father, with her
father-in-law, saluted her queen, did rather heighten her disorder upon the king's
death. She said, she knew by the laws of the kingdom, and by natural right, the
crown was to go to the king's sisters, so that she was afraid of burdening her con-
science, by assuming that which belonged to them; and that she was unwilling to
enrich herself by the spoils of others. But they told her, that all that had been
done was according to the law, to which all the judges and counsellors had set their
hands. This, joined with their persuasions, and the importunity of her husband, at
length prevailed with her to submit, of which her father-in-law afterwards said in
council, that she was rather by enticement of the counsellors, and force, made to
accept of the crown, than came to it by her own seeking and request. — Burnet's
History of the Reformation, Vol. II. p. 235.
Lady Jane, says the writer of the British Biography, was altogether uninfluenc-
ed by any ambitious views, and the settlement of the succession was by no means
agreeable to her: Indeed it does not appear that she was at all consulted about it,
either by her father, or by the Duke of Northumberland, nor does she seem even to
have been acquainted with it till after King Edward's decease. — Vol. II. p. 420.
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grievously sinned, and offered violence lo myself. I now willingly,
and as obeying the motions of my soul, relinquish the crown, and
endeavor to salve those faults committed by others if at least so great
a fault can be salved, by a willing relinquishment, and ingenuous ac-
knowledgment of them."
Thus ended her reign ; but with the end of her reign commenced
the severest afflictions. She who had been lately a queen in the
Tower, soon found her palace turned into a prison. She also saw
the father of her husband, with all his family, and many of the nobility
and gentry, in the same circumstances, for supporting her claim to the
crown ; and this grief must have been considerably increased by his
being so soon after brought to the block. Before the end of the
month she had also the sad mortification of finding her own father, the
Duke of Suffolk, in the same circumstances of imprisonment with
herself. On the third of November, in the same year, 1553, she
and her husband were carried from the Tower to Guildhall, with
Archbishop Cranmer, and others, and was there arraigned and con-
victed of high treason by Judge Morgan, who pronounced sentence
of death upon them. However, the strictness of her own and her
husband's confinement was mitigated in December, by a permission
to take the air in the queen's garden, and other little indigencies.
These circumstances might give some gleam of hope : but Queen
Mary at length determined to take ofT both Lady Jane and her hus-
band. The fatal news made no great impression upon her, the bit-
terness of death was past, she had long expected it, and was so well
prepared for the worst, that she was very little discomposed.
What has been already related concerning the subject of our Me-
moirs, affords us strong proofs of this lady's fine understanding, her
most uncommon proficiency in learning, and her most noble and ex-
cellent spirit, that ascended to the highest elevation of human life
with sincere reluctance, and descended from it with as sincere pleas-
ure. But the brighter part of her character, her piety and goodness
are still behind ; of which, that we may have a clear and full view,
let us particularly attend in the sunset of life, and collect, if I may
so speak, every ray which adorned her in her preparation for death,
and even in her last moments.
Lady Jane was early instructed in the principles of the Reformed
Religion, which she seriously and attentively studied, and for which
she was extremely zealous : and this, together with other excellent
and amiable accomplishments, greatly endeared her to King Edward.
Her dislike of popery, particularly in one of its worst abominations,
that of idolatry, was shown, as it is credibly reported of her, when
she was very young. Upon a visit to the Princess Mary, at New-
Hall, in Essex, she took a walk with the Lady Anne Wharton. Hap-
pening to pass by the chapel, Lady Anne made a low courtesy to
the host; at which Lady Jane testified some surprise, and asked
whether the Princess Mary was there? Lady Anne answered, " No :
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but I made my courtesy," said she, " to Him who made us all."
"Why," replied Lady Jane, " how can that which hath been made
by the baker be He who hath made us all ?" This speech of hers, it
is said, being carried to the Princess Mary, gave her a dislike to the
Lady Jane, which she retained ever after.
But her attachment to the Reformed Religion, her knowledge of
it, and her capacity to defend it, are more especially evinced in a
conversation between herself and him who was afterwards Dr. Feck-
enham, otherwise Howman.* who was sent by the queen but two
days before her death, to discourse with Lady Jane, and to use his
best endeavors to reconcile her to the Church of Rome.
The conversation was to the following effect.
Feckenham. — Madam, I lament your heavy case, and yet I doubt
not you bear out this sorrow of yours with a constant and patient
mind.
Lady Jane. — You are welcome to me, sir, if your coming be to
give Christian exhortation. And as for my heavy case, I thank God
I do so little lament it, that rather I account the same for a more
manifest declaration of God's favor towards me, than ever he showed
me at any time before. And, therefore, there is no cause why you,
or other which bear me good will, should lament, or be grieved with
this my case, being a thing so profitable for my soul's health.
Feckenham. — I am here come to you at this present, sent from
the queen and her council, to instruct you in the true doctrine of the
right faith ; although I have so great confidence in you, that I shall
have, I trust, little need to labor with you much therein.
Lady Jane. — Forsooth, I heartily thank the queen's highness, who
is not unmindful of her humble subject, and I hope likewise that you
no less will do your duty therein, both truly and faithfully, according
to that you were sent for.
Feckenham. — What is then required of a Christian man ?
Lady Jane. — That he should believe in God the Father, the Son,
and the Holy Ghost ; three persons, and one God.
Feckenham. — What ! is there nothing else to be required, or
looked for, in a Christian, but to believe in him ?
Lady Jane. — Yes, we must love him with all our heart, with all
our soul, and with all our mind, and our neighbor as ourself.
Feckenham. — Why then faith justifieth not, nor saveth not?
* John de Feckenham was so called because he was horn in a cottage near the
forest of Feckenham, in Worcestershire, his right name heing Howman. He was
first admitted into Evesham monastery, and at eighteen years of age he was sent to
Gloucester College, in Oxford. After studying there some years, and taking his
degree of bachelor of divinity, he became chaplain to Bonner, Bishop of London ;
and on Queen Mary's accession, was made her chaplain. In May, 1556, he was
made doctor of divinity by the University of Oxford ; and in September following,
appointed Abbot of Westminster Abbey. He is said to have been a generous and
benevolent man.
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Lady Jane. — Yes, verily ; faith, as Paul saitb, only justifieth.
Feckenham. — Why St. Paul saith, If I have all faith, without love
it is nothing.
Lady Jane. — True it is ; for how can I love him whom I trust not?
or how can I trust him whom I love not ? Faith and love go together,
and yet love is comprehended in faith.
Feckenham. — How shall we love our neighbor ?
Lady Jane. — To love our neighbor is to feed the hungry, to clothe
the naked, and give drink to the thirsty, and to do to him as we
would do to ourselves.
Feckenham. — Why, then it is necessary unto salvation to do good
works also, and it is not sufficient only to believe ?
Lady Jane. — I deny that ; and affirm that faith only saveth ; but
it is meet for a Christian, in token that he followeth his master Christ,
to do good works, yet may we not say that they profit to our salva-
tion ; for when we have done all, yet we be unprofitable servants,
and faith only in Christ's blood saveth us.
Feckenham. — How many sacraments are there ?
Lady Jane. — Two ; the one the sacrament of Baptism, and the
other the sacrament of the Lord's Supper.
Feckenham. — No, there are seven.
Lady Jane. — By what scripture find you that ?
Feckenham. — Well, we will talk of that hereafter. But what is
signified by your two sacraments ?
Lady Jane. — By the sacrament of Baptism I am washed with
water, and regenerated by the Spirit, and that washing is a token to
me that I am the child of God. The sacrament of the Lord's Sup-
per offered unto me is a sure seal and testimony that I am, by the
blood of Christ which he shed for me on the cross, made partaker of
the everlasting kingdom.
Feckenham. — Why, what do you receive in that sacrament ? Do
you not receive the very body and blood of Christ ?
Lady Jane. — No, surely, I do not so believe. I think that at the
supper I neither receive flesh nor blood, but bread and wine ; which
bread, when it is broken, and which wine, when it is drunken, putteth
me in remembrance how that for my sins the body of Christ was
broken, and his blood shed on the cross, and with that bread and
wine 1 receive the benefits that came by the breaking of his body,
and shedding his blood for our sins on the cross.
' Feckenham. — Why, doth not Christ speak these words, Take, eat,
this is my body? Require you any plainer words? Doth he not
say, it is his body ?
Lady Jane.— I grant he saith so ; and so he saith, I am the vine,
I am the door : but he is never the more the door nor the vine. Doth
not St. Paul say, He calleth things that are not, as though they were ;
God forbid that I should say that I eat the very natural body and
blood of Christ ; for then either I should pluck away my redemption,
LADY JANE GHEY. 10
or else there were two bodies, or two Christs. One body was tor-
mented on the cross, and if they did eat another body, then had he
two bodies ; or if his body were eaten, then was it not broken on the
cross; or if it were broken on the cross, .it was not eaten of his
disciples.
Feckenham. — Why, is it not as possible that Christ by his power
could make his body both to be eaten and broken, and to be born of
a woman without man, as to walk upon the sea having a body, and
other such miracles as he wrought by his power only ?
Lady Jane. — Yes verily. If God would have done at his supper
any miracle, he might have done so ; but T say that then he minded
no work nor miracle, but only to break his body, and to shed his
blood on the cross for our sins. But I pray you to answer me to this
one question, Where was Christ when he said, Take, eat, this is my
body ? Was he not at the table when he said so ? He was at that
time alive, and suffered not till the next day. What took he but
bread ? What brake he but bread ? Look what he took he brake,
and look what he brake he gave, and look what he gave they did
cat ; and yet all this time he himself was alive, and at supper before
his disciples, or else they were deceived.
Feckenham. — You ground your faith upon such authors as both
say and unsay with a breath, and not upon the church, to whom ye
ought to give credit.
Lady Jane. — No, I ground my faith on God's word, and not upon
the church ; for if the church be a good church, the faith of the
church must be tried by God's word, and not God's word by the
church, neither my faith. Shall I believe the church because of an-
tiquity ? or shall I give credit to the church because it taketh away
from me the half part of the Lord's supper, and will not let any man
receive it in both kinds ? which thing if they deny to us, then deny
they to us part of our salvation. And I say it is an evil church, and
not the spouse of Christ, but the spouse of the devil, that altereth the
Lord's supper, and both taketh from it and addeth to it. To that
church, say I, God will add plagues to it, and from that church
will he take their part out of the book of life. Do they learn that of
St. Paul, when he ministered to the Corinthians in both kinds? Shall
I believe this church ? God forbid.
Feckenham. — That was done for a good intent of the church, to
avoid an heresy that sprung in it.
Lady Jane. — Why, shall the church alter God's will and ordinance
for a good intent ? How did King Saul ?
The Lord God defend.
With these and such like persuasions, says Mr. Foxe, from whom
this conference is transcribed,* he would have had her lean to the
Foxe's Acts and Monuments, Vol, III. p. 31, 32
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MEMOIRS OF
church, but it would not be. There were many more things where-
of they reasoned, but these were the chief. After this Mr. Fecken-
ham took his leave, saying, " That he was sorry for her ; for I am
sure," saith he, " we two shall never meet." — " True it is," said La-
dy Jane, " that we shall never meet, except God turn your heart ;
for I am assured unless you repent, and turn to God, you are in an
evil case ; and I pray God, in the bowels of his mercy, to send you
his Holy Spirit, for he hath given you his great gift of utterance, if it
pleased him also to open the eyes of your heart."*
It has been mentioned before, that Lady Jane's father had two
chaplains, Messrs. Harding and Aylmer, who were also her precep-
tors. Mr. Harding it seems was, in King Edward's days, a zeal-
ous protestant, and was not only a preacher of the Reformed Reli-
gion, but was very fervent in animating its professors to abide by it in
the face of all persecution and danger. But, upon the return of po-
pery in Queen Mary's reign, he renounced his protestantism, and be-
came a papist. f Upon his apostasy Lady Jane wrote him a letter,
which will abundantly shew, that however he was qualified to instruct
her in the matters of learning, she was no less capable to instruct him
in the greater concerns of religion. Should the letter appear to be
rather too severe and poignant, let it be remembered, that Lady Jane
must have known Mr. Harding well, and was warranted by her inti-
mate acquaintance to deal more freely with him ; that she might prob-
ably have heard him often represent the Romish errors, and guard
others against their infection ; and that the good lady might well have
a keen edge set upon her mind against popery, as it is in itself such
a dreadful corruption, and indeed subversion of the Christian faith,
and in her days -made such cruel slaughter of the saints of God, for
their testimony to the truth as it is in Jesus. Lady Jane's letter is as
follows :
" So often as 1 call to mind the dreadful and fearful saying of God,
that he which layeth hold on the plough and turneth back, is not meet
for the kingdom of heaven ; and on the other side the comfortable
words of our Savior Christ to all those that, forsaking themselves, do
follow him, I cannot but marvel at thee, and lament thy case, which
seemed formerly to be the lively member of Christ, but now the de-
formed imp of the devil ; formerly the beautiful temple of God, but
now the stinking and filthy kennel of Satan ; formerly the unspotted
* We must conceive that this was understood as it was spoken, as flowing from a
religious zeal, and not from any distaste of contradiction, or any dislike to his per-
son ; since we find tha': Mr. Feckenham, far from deserting, attended her to the
very last, and that the Lady Jane shewed a very proper sense of his attention and
respect for her in the sight and hearing of all who were upon or near the scaffold. —
Biographia Brltannica, Vol. IV. p. 2421.
t It appears that Mr. Harding, after his embracing popery, persisted in its profes-
sion to the end of his days, and accordingly we find him afterwards engaged on the
popish side, as a writer against Bishop Jewel.
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spouse of Christ, but now the shameless paramour of Antichrist ;
formerly my faithful brother, but now a stranger and apostate ; some-
time a stout Christian soldier, but now a cowardly runaway. Yea,
when I consider these things, I cannot but speak unto thee, and cry
out upon thee, thou seed of Satan, and not of Judah, whom the
devil hath deceived, the world hath beguiled, and the desire of life
subverted, and made thee from a Christian an infidel. Wherefore hast
thou taken the testament of the Lord in thy mouth ? wherefore hast
thou preached the law, and the will of God to others ? wherefore hast
thou instructed others to be strong in Christ, when thou thyself dost
now so shamefully shrink, and so horribly abuse the testament and
law of the Lord ? when thou thyself preachest not to steal, yet most
abominably stealest, not from men but from God, and committing
most heinous sacrilege, robbest Christ thy Lord of his right mem-
bers, thy body and soul, and choosest rather to live miserably with
shame to the world, than to die, and gloriously with honor reign with
Christ, in whom even in death is life. Why dost thou now show
thyself most weak, when indeed thou oughtest to be most strong ?
The strength of a fort is unknown before the assault, but thou
yieldest thy hold before any battery be made !
" Oh wretched and unhappy man ! what art thou but dust and
ashes ? And wilt thou resist thy Maker that fashioned and framed
thee ? Wilt thou now forsake him that called thee from the custom-
gathering among the Romish antichristians, to be an ambassador and
messenger of his eternal word ? He that first framed thee, and since
thy first creation and birth preserved thee, nourished and kept thee,
yea, and inspired thee with the spirit of knowledge, (I cannot say
of grace,) shall he not now possess thee ? Darest thou deliver up
thyself to another, being not thine own, but his ? How canst thou,
having knowledge, or how darest thou neglect the law of the Lord,
and follow the vain traditions of men, and whereas thou hast been a
public professor of his name, become now a defacer of his glory?
Wilt thou refuse the true God, and worship the invention of man,
the golden calf, the whore of Babylon, the Romish religion, the
abominable idol, the most wicked mass ? Wilt thou torment again,
rend and tear the most precious body of our Savior Christ with thy
bodily and fleshly teeth ? Wilt thou take upon thee to offer up any
sacrifice unto God for our sins, considering that Christ offered up
himself, as Paul saith, upon the cross a living sacrifice once for all ?
Can neither the punishment of the Israelites, which for their idolatry
they so oft received, nor the terrible threatenings of the prophets,
nor the curses of God's own mouth, fear thee to honor any other
God than him ? Dost thou so regard him that spared not his dear
and only Son for thee, so diminishing, yea, utterly extinguishing his
glory, that thou wilt attribute the praise and honor due unto him to
the idols, which have mouths and speak not, eyes and see not, ears
and hear not, which shall perish with them that made them ?
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" What saith the prophet Baruch, where he recited the Epistle of
Jeremy, written to the captive Jews ? Did he not forewarn them
that in Babylon they should see gods of gold, silver, wood, and stone,
borne upon men's shoulders to cast a fear before the heathen ? But
be not ye afraid of them, saith Jeremy, nor do as others do. But
when you see others worship them, say you in your heart, It is thou, O
Lord, that oughtest only to be worshipped ; for as for those gods the
carpenter framed them, and polished them, yea, gilded are they, and
laid over with silver, and vain things, and cannot speak. He show-
eth, moreover, the abuse of their dealings, how the priests took off
their ornaments, and apparelled their women withal ; how one hold-
eth a sceptre, another a sword in his hand, and yet can they judge
it no matter, nor defend themselves, much less any other, from either
battle or murder, nor yet from gnawing of worms, nor any other evil
thing. These and such like words speaketh Jeremy unto them,
whereby he proveth them to be but vain things, and no gods. And
at last he concludeth thus : Confounded be all they that worship
them. They were warned by Jeremy ; and thou, as Jeremy, hast
warned others, and art warned thyself by many scriptures in many
places. God saith he is a jealous God, which will have all the honor,
glory, and worship given to him only. And Christ saith, in the fourth
of Luke, to Satan which tempted him, even to the same Satan, the
same Beelzebub, the same devil, which hath prevailed against thee :
It is written, said he, Thou shalt worship the Lord thy God, and him
only shalt thou serve.
"These and such like do prohibit thee and all Christians to wor-
ship any other god than that which was before all worlds, and laid
the foundations both of heaven and earth ; and wilt thou honor a
detestable idol, invented by Romish popes, and the abominable col-
lege of crafty cardinals ? Christ offered himself up once for all ;
and wilt thou offer him up again daily at thy pleasure ? But thou
wilt say, thou dost it for a good intent. Oh sink of sin ! Oh child
of perdition ! Dost thou dream therein of a good intent, where thy
conscience beareth thee witness of God's threatening wrath against
thee ? How did Saul ? who, for that he disobeyed the word of the
Lord for a good intent, was thrown from his worldly and temporal
kingdom. Shalt thou then, that dost deface God's honor, and rob
him of his right, inherit the eternal and heavenly kingdom ? Wilt
thou for a good intent dishonor God, offend thy brother, and endan-
ger thy soul ? Wilt thou for a good intent pluck Christ out of
heaven, and make his death void, and deface the triumph of his
cross, by offering him up daily? Wilt thou, either for fear of death
or hope of life, deny and refuse thy God, who enriched thy poverty,
healed thy infirmity, and yielded to thee his victory, if thou couldest
have kept it ? Dost thou consider that the thread of thy life hang-
eth upon him that made thee ; who can, as his will is, either twine it
harder to last the longer, or untwine it again to break the sooner ?
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Dost thou not then remenber the saying of David, a notable king, to
teach thee a miserable wretch in his 104th psalm, where he saith
thus, When thou takest away thy spirit, O Lord, from men, they
die, and are turned again to their dust ; but when thou lettest thy
breath go forth, they shall be made, and thou shalt renew the face of
the earth ? Remember the saying of Christ in the gospel, Whoso-
ever seeketh to save his life shall lose it ; but whosoever will lose his
life for my sake, shall find it. And in the same place, whosoever
loveth father or mother above me, is not meet for me. He that will
follow me, let him forsake himself, and take up his cross, and follow
me. What cross ? The cross of infamy and shame, of misery and
poverty, of affliction and persecution for his name's sake. Let the
oft-falling of these heavenly showers pierce thy stony heart ! Let
the two-edged sword of God's holy word tear asunder the sinews of
worldly respects, even to the very marrow of thy carnal heart, that
thou mayest once again forsake thyself, and embrace Christ; and
like as good subjects will not refuse to hazard all in the defense of
their earthly and temporal governor, so fly not like a white-livered
coward from the standing wherein thy chief captain Christ hath set
thee in array of this life. Viriliter age, confortetur cor tuum, sus-
tinet Dominus* Fight manfully, come life, come death : the quar-
rel is God's, and undoubtedly the victory is ours.
" But thou wilt say, I will not break unity. What ! not the unity
of Satan and his members ? not the unity of darkness ? the agree-
ment of Anti-christ and his adherents ? nay, thou deceivest thyself
with the fond imagination of such an unity as is among the enemies
of Christ. Were not the false prophets in an unity ? Were not Jo-
seph's brethren and Jacob's sons in an unity ? Were not the heathen,
as the Amalekites, the Perizzites, and the Jebusites, in an unity ?
Doth not King David testify, ' they united against the Lord.' Yea,
thieves, murderers, conspirators, have their unity. But what unity?
Tully saith of amity : t Amicitia non est nisi inter bonos.' But
mark my friend, yea, friend, if thou be not God's enemy, there is
no unity but where Christ knitteth the knot among such as He is.
Yea, be well assured, that where his truth is resident, there it is
verified that he himself saith, ' I have not come to send peace on
the earth, but a sword, to set one against another, the son against
the father, and the daughter against the mother-in-law.' Deceive
not thyself therefore with the glittering and glorious name of unity,
for Anti-christ hath his unity, not yet in deed, but in name. The
agreement of ill men is not' an unity, but a conspiracy. Thou hast
heard some threatenings, some cursings, and some admonitions out
of the Scripture to those that love themselves above Christ. Thou
hast heard also the sharp and biting words to those that deny him for
'Go on manfully, let thy heart be strengthened; the Lord sustains."
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love of life. Saith he not, * He that denies me before men, I will
deny him before my Father in heaven ?' And to the same effect
writeth Paul, Heb. vi. ' It is impossible,' saith he, ' that they which
were once enlightened, and have tasted of the heavenly gift, and
were partakers of the Holy Ghost, and have tasted of the good word
of God, if they fall and slide away, crucifying to themselves the Son
of God afresh, and making of him a mocking stock, should be re-
newed again by repentance. And again,' saith he, ' if we shall wil-
lingly sin, after we have received the knowledge of his truth, there
is no oblation left for sin, but the terrible expectation of judgment,
and fire, which shall devour the adversaries.' Thus St. Paul wri-
teth, and this thou readest, and dost thou not quake and and tremble ?
"Well, if these terrible and thundering threatenings cannot stir
thee to cleave unto Christ and forsake the world, yet let the sweet
consolations and promises of the Scriptures, let the example of Christ
and his apostles, holy martyrs and confessors, encourage thee to
take faster hold by Christ. Hear what he saith, ' Blessed are you
when men revile you, and persecute you for my sake : rejoice, and
be glad, for great is your reward in heaven, for so persecuted they
the prophets that were before you.' Hear what Isaiah the prophet
saith, ' Fear not the curse of men, be not afraid of their blasphe-
mies ; for worms and moths shall eat them up like cloth and wool, but
my righteousness shall endure for ever, and my saving health from
generation to generation. What art thou then,' saith he, ' that fear-
est a mortal man, the child of man, which fadeth away like the flow-
er, and forgettest the Lord that made thee, that spread out the heav-
ens, and laid the foundation of the earth ? I am the Lord thy God
that make the sea to rage, and to be still, whose name is the Lord of
Hosts. I will put my word in thy mouth, and defend thee with the
turning of an hand.' And our Savior Christ saith to his disciples,
{ They shall accuse you, and bring you before princes and rulers for
my name's sake, and some of you they shall persecute and kill : but
fear you not,' saith he, ' nor care you what you shall say, for it is the
Spirit of your Father that speaketh within you. Even the very
hairs of you head are all numbered. Lay up treasure for your-
selves,' saith he, ' where no thief cometh, nor moth corrupteth.
Fear not them that kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul ; but
fear him that hath power to destroy both soul and body. If ye were
of the world, the world would love his own ; but because ye are not
of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the
world hateth you.'
" Let these and such like consolations, taken out of the Scriptures,
strengthen you towards God. Let not the examples of holy men
and women go out of your mind, as Daniel and the rest of the pro-
phets, of the three children of Eleazarus, that constant father, of
the seven of the Maccabees children, of Peter, Paul, Stephen, and
other apostles and holy martyrs in the beginning of the church. As
LADY JANE GREY. 25
of good Simeon, Archbishop of Seloma, and Zetrophone, with in-
finite others under Saphores the king of the Persians and Indians,
who contemned all torments devised by the tyrants for their Savior's
sake. Return, return again into Christ's war ; and as becometh a
faithful warrior put on that armor that St. Paul teacheth to be most
necessary for a Christian man. And above all take to you the shield
of faith, and be you provoked by Christ's own example to withstand
the devil, to forsake the world, and to become a true and faithful
member of his mystical body, who spared not his own body for
our sins.
"Throw down yourself with the fear of his threatened vengeance,
for this so great and heinous an offense of apostasy, and comfort your-
self on the other part with the mercy, blood, and promise of him that
is ready to turn unto you whensoever you turn unto him. Disdain
not to come again with the lost son, seeing you have so wandered
with him. Be not ashamed to turn again with him from the swill
of strangers to the delicates of your most benign and loving Father,
acknowledging that you have sinned against heaven and earth : against
heaven, by staining the glorious name of God, and causing his most
sincere and pure word to be evil spoken of through you. Against
earth, by offending so many of your weak brethren, to whom you
have been a stumbling-block through your sudden sliding. Be not
abashed to come home again with Mary, and weep bitterly with Peter,
not only with shedding the tears of your bodily eyes, but also pour-
ing out the streams of your heart, to wash away out of the sight of
God the filth and mire of your offensive fall. Be not ashamed to
say with the publican, 'Lord be merciful unto me a sinner ?' Remem-
ber the horrible history of Julian of old, and the lamentable case of
Spyra of late, whose case, methinks, should be yet so green in your
remembrance, that being a thing of our time, you should fear the like
inconvenience, seeing you are fallen into the like offense.
"Last of all, let the lively remembrance of the last day be al-
ways before your eyes, remembering the terror that such shall be in
at that time, with the runagates and fugitives from Christ, which set-
ting more by the world than by heaven, more by their life, than by
him that gave them life, did shrink, yea, did clean fall away from him
that forsook not them ; and contrariwise, the inestimable joys prepar-
ed for them, that fearing no peril, nor dreading death, have manful-
ly fought, and victoriously triumphed over all power of darkness,
over hell, death and damnation, through their most redoubted cap-
tain Christ, who now stretcheth out his arms to receive you, ready
to fall upon your neck and kiss you, and last of all to feast you with
the dainties and delicacies of his own precious blood, which undoubt-
edly, if it might stand with his determinate purpose, he would not
wait to shed again rather than you should be lost. To whom with
the Father and the Holy Ghost, be all honor, praise, and glory ever-
lasting. Amen.
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" Be constant, be constant, fear not for any pain ;
" Christ hath redeemed thee, and heaven is thy gain.,;
We shall next present our readers with a letter from this pious lady
written to her father during the time of her imprisonment ; her father
who, by his solicitations to her to take the crown, became the unhap-
py instrument of her untimely death.
" Father — Although it hath pleased God to hasten my death by
you, by whom my life should rather have been lengthened, yet can
I so patiently take it, as I yield God more hearty thanks for shorten-
ing my woful days, than if all the world had been given unto my posses-
sions with life lengthened to my own will. And albeit I am well as-
sured of your impatient dolors, redoubled manifold ways, both in be-
wailing your own woes, and especially, as I hear, my unfortunate
state ; yet, my dear father, if I may without offense rejoice in my
own mishaps, meseems in this I may account myself blessed, that
washing my hands with the innocency of my fact, my guiltlesss blood
may cry before the Lord mercy to the innocent. And yet though I
must needs acknowledge, that being constrained, and as you wot well
enough, and continually assayed, in taken upon me, I seemed to con-
sent, and therein grievously offended the queen and her laws ; yet
do 1 assuredly trust, that this my offense towards God is so much the
less, in that, being in so royal estate as I was, mine enforced honor
never blended with mine innocent heart. And thus, good father, I
have opened to you the state in which I presently stand, whose death
at hand, although to you perhaps it may seem right woful, to me
there is nothing that can be more welcome, than from this vale of
misery to aspire to that heavenly throne of all joy and pleasure with
Christ our Savior : in whose steadfast faith, if it may be lawful for
the daughter to write to the father, the Lord that hitherto hath
strengthened you, so continue you, that at the last we may meet in
heaven with the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost."
Another letter of this lady's is preserved, which was written at the
end of a Greek Testament, and was sent by her to her sister Catha-
rine,* the night before Lady Jane was beheaded.
"I have sent you here good sister Catharine, a book, which
although it be not outwardly trimmed with gold, yet inwardly it is
more worth than precious stones. It is the book dear sister, of the
law of the Lord. It is his testament and last will, which he be-
queathed unto us wretches, which shall lead you to the path of eter-
nal joy ; and, if you with a good mind read it, and with an earnest
mind do purpose to follow it, it shall bring you to an immortal and
everlasting life. It shall teach you to live, and learn you to die. It
* The Lady Jane had two sisters younger than herself; this Lady Catharine the
eldest, and Lady Mary the younger.
LADY JANE GREY.
shall win you more than you should have gained by your vvoful
father's lands : for, as if God had prospered him, you should have in-
herited his lands ; so, if you apply diligently this book, seeking to
direct your life after it, you shall be an inheritor of such riches, as
neither the covetous shall withdraw from you, neither thief shall steal,
neither yet the moths corrupt. Desire with David, good sister, to
understand the law of the Lord God. Live still to die, that you by
death may purchase eternal life, and trust not that the tenderness of
your age shall lengthen your life ; for as soon if God call, goeth the
young as the old, and labor always to learn to die, defy the world,
deny the devil, and despise the flesh, and delight yourself only in the
Lord. Be penitent for your sins, and yet despair not ; be strong in
faith, and yet presume not ; and desire with St. Paul to be with
Christ, with whom even in death there is life. Be like the good
servant, and even at midnight be waking, lest when death cometh,
and stealeth upon you as a thief in the night, you be with the evil
servant found sleeping, and lest for want of oil you be found like the
five foolish women, and like him that had not on the wedding gar-
ment, and then ye be cast out from the marriage. Rejoice in Christ
as I do. Follow the steps of your master Christ, and take up your
cross. Lay your sins on his back, and always embrace him. And
as touching my death, rejoice as I do, good sister, that I shall be de-
livered of this corruption, and put on incorruption ; for I am assured
that I shall, for losing of a mortal life, win an immortal life, the which
I pray God grant you, and send you of his grace to live in his fear,
and to die in the true Christian faith, from the which, in God's name
I exhort you, that you never swerve, neither for hope of life, nor for
fear of death ; for if you will deny his truth for to lengthen your life,
God will deny you, and yet shorten your days ; and if you will cleave
unto him, he will prolong your days, to your comfort and his glory ;
to the which glory God bring me now, and you hereafter, when it
pleaseth him to call you ! Fare you well, good sister, and put your
only trust in God, who only must help you."
We shall, in a manner, conclude the excellent composures of this
worthy lady with a prayer drawn up by her in the time of her trouble,
which will open to our readers the state of her mind in the near views
of death and eternity.
" O Lord, thou God and Father of my life, hear me poor and
desolate woman, which flieth unto thee only in all troubles and mise-
ries. Thou, O Lord, art the only defender and deliverer of those
that put their trust in thee ; and therefore I, being defiled with sin,
encumbered with afflictions, disquieted with troubles, wrapped in
cares, overwhelmed with miseries, and grievously tormented with the
long imprisonment of this vile mass of clay, my sinful body, do come
unto thee, O merciful Savior, craving thy mercy and help, without the
which so little hope of deliverance is left, that I may utterly despair
of any liberty. Albeit it is expedient, that seeing our life slandeth
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upon trying, we should be visited sometime with some adversity,
whereby we might both be tried whether we be of thy flock or no,
and also know thee and ourselves the better ; yet thou that saidest
thou wouldest not suffer us to be tempted above our -power, be mer-
ciful unto me, a miserable wretch, I beseech thee, that I may neither
be too much puffed up with prosperity, neither too much pressed
down with adversity, lest I being too full, should deny thee, my God ;
or being too low brought, should despair, and blaspheme thee, my
Lord and Savior. O merciful God, consider my misery best known
unto thee, and be thou now unto me a strong tower of defense, I
humbly require thee. Suffer me not to be tempted above my power,
but either be thou a deliverer to me out of this great misery, either
else give me grace patiently to bear thy heavy hand, and sharp cor-
rection. It was thy right hand that delivered the people of Israel out
of the hands of Pharaoh, which, for the space of four hundred years,
did oppress them, and keep them in bondage. Let it, therefore,
seem good to thy fatherly goodness to deliver me, sorrowful wretch,
for whom thy Son Christ shed his precious blood on the cross, out
of this miserable captivity and bondage, wherein I am now. How
long wilt thou be absent ? For ever ? Oh Lord, hast thou forgotten
to be gracious, and hast thou shut up thy loving kindness in displeas-
ure ? Wilt thou no more be entreated ? Is thy mercy clean gone
for ever, and thy promise come utterly to an end for evermore ?
Why dost thou make so long tarrying ? Shall I despair of thy mer-
cy, O God ? Far be that from me. I am thy workmanship, created
in Christ Jesus ; give me grace, therefore, to tarry thy leisure, and
patiently to bear thy works, assuredly knowing, that as thou canst, so
thou wilt deliver me, when it shall please thee, nothing doubting or
mistrusting thy goodness towards me, for thou knowest better what is
good for me than I do, therefore do with me in all things what thou
wilt, and plague me what way thou wilt. Only in the mean time arm
me, I beseech thee, with thy armor, that I may stand fast, my loins
being girt about with verity, having on the breast plate of righteous-
ness, and shod with the shoes prepared by the gospel of peace; above
all things taking to me the shield of faith, wherewith I may be able
to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked, and taking the helmet of
salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is thy most holy word,
praying always with all manner of prayer and supplication, that I
may refer myself wholly to thy will, abiding thy pleasure, and com-
forting myself in those troubles which it shall please thee to send me,
seeing such troubles be profitable for me, and seeing I am assuredly
persuaded that it cannot but be well all thou that dost. Hear me, O
merciful Father ! for his sake, whom thou wouldest should be a sacri-
fice for my sins : to whom, with thee, and the Holy Ghost, be all
honor and glory. Amen."
These are the principal remains of this most excellent lady. It
may not be displeasing to our readers to hear what judgment Bishop
LAD* JANE GREY. 29
Burnet has passed upon them. "One effect," says he, "of this,
that is, of the frustrated rising of Sir Thomas Wiat, was the pro-
ceeding severely against the Lady Jane, and her husband, the Lord
Guildford, who both suffered on the 12th of February, 1554. The
Lady Jane was not much disordered at it, for she knew upon the first
jealousy that she must be the sacrifice, and therefore had now lived
six months in the constant expectation of death. Feckenham, af-
terwards Abbot of Westminster, was sent to her by the queen, three
days before, to prepare her to die. He had a long conversation with
her, but she answered him with that calmness of mind, and clearness
of reason, that it was astonishing to hear so young a person of her sex
and quality look on death so near her with so little disorder, and talk
so sensibly both of faith and holiness, of the sacraments, the Scrip-
tures, and the authority of the church. Feckenham left her, seeing
he could work nothing on her, but procured her, as it is said, the con-
tinuance of her life three days longer, and waited on her on the scaf-
fold. She wrote to her father to moderate his grief for her death,
which must needs have been great, since his folly had occasioned it.
She expressed her sense of her sin in assuming the royal dignity,
though he knew how unwillingly she was drawn into it, and that in
her royal estate her enforced honor had never defiled her innocent
heart. She rejoiced at her approaching end, since nothing could be
to her more welcome than to be delivered from that valley of misery
into that heavenly throne to which she was to be advanced, where
she prayed they might meet at last. There was one Harding, who
had been her father's chaplain, and that was a zealous preacher in
King Edward's days, before whose death he had animated the peo-
ple much to prepare for persecution, and never depart from the truth
of the gospel, but he had now fallen away himself. To him she
wrote a letter full of severe expostulations and threatenings for his
apostasy; but it had no effect upon him. It is of an extraordinary
strain, full of life in the thoughts, and of zeal, if there is not too
much, in the expressions. The night before her execution she sent
her Greek Testament, which she had always used, to her sister,
with a letter, in which, in most pathetic expressions, she sets out the
value she had of it, and recommended the study and practice of it
earnestly to her. She had also composed a devout prayer for her
retirements, and thus had she spent the last moments of her life."*
I cannot restrain myself from adding what the same bishop, in
another place, says concerning her, which, if it is a digression in the
order of our account of this lady, it will be more than excused for
the excellency of the character this celebrated historian draws of
her. "She read," says he, "the Scriptures much, and had attained
great knowledge in divinity. But with all these advantages of birth
■ Burnet's History of the Reformation, Vol. II, pp. 271,272.
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and parts, she was so humble, so gentle, and pious, that all people
both admired and loved her. She had a mind wonderfully raised
above the world ; and at the age when others are but imbibing the
notions of philosophy, she had attained to the practice of the highest
precepts of it. She was neither lifted up with the hope of a crown,
nor cast down, when she saw her palace made afterwards her prison,
but carried herself with an equal temper of mind in those great ine-
qualities of fortune, that so suddenly exalted and depressed her.
All the passion she expressed in it was that which is of the noblest
sort, and is the indication of tender and generous natures, being
much affected with the troubles into which her husband and father
fell on her account."*
We are now to attend this excellent lady to her closing scene, and
view in what a manner she met her violent, though unmerited death.
The day finally appointed for her execution, as well as that of her
husband Lord Dudley, was the 12th of February, 1554. The fatal
morning being come, her husband earnestly desired the officers that
he might take his last farewell of her, which, though they willingly
permitted, yet upon notice, she advised the contrary, assuring him,
"that such a meeting would rather add to his afflictions, than increase
that quiet wherewith they had possessed their souls for the stroke of
death, that he demanded a lenitive which would put fire into the
wound, and that it was to be feared her presence would rather weak-
en than strengthen him ; that if his soul were not firm and settled,
she could not settle it by her eyes, nor confirm it by her words ; that
he would do well to remit this interview to the other world ; that
there, indeed, friendships were happy, and unions indissoluble, and
that their's would be eternal, if they carried nothing with them of ter-
restrial, which might hinder them from rejoicing." She expressed
great tenderness when she saw her husband led out to execution, but
soon overcame it, when she considered how closely she was to fol-
low him. All she could do was to give him a farewell out of the win-
dow as he passed toward the place of his execution, which he suffer-
ed on a scaffold on Tower-hill with much Christian meekness. His
dead body being laid in a car, and his head wrapped up in a linen
cloth, were carried to the chapel within the Tower, in the way to
which they were to pass under the window of the Lady Jane, which
sad spectacle she beheld with a settled countenance. After this af-
fecting sight, she wrote three short sentences in her table-book, in
Greek, Latin, and English ; which book, upon Sir John Bridges'sf
entreaty, that she would bestow upon him some memorial, she pre-
* Burnet's History of the Reformation, Vol. II, pp. 234, 335, lblio edit.
I This Sir John Bridges, the ancestor of the present noble family of that name,
dukes of Chandos, was lieutenant of the Tower at this time, and was present with
Lady Jane in her apartment, from the windows of which she had the last sight of
her husband living and dead:
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sented to him as an acknowledgment for the civility she had receiv-
ed from him. The sense of the Greek sentence was : " If his slain
body shall give testimony against me before men, his most blessed
soul shall render an eternal proof of my innocence in the presence
of God." The Latin sentence was to this effect : " The justice of
men took away his body, but the divine mercy has preserved his
soul." And the English sentence ran thus : " If my fault deserved
punishment, my youth at least, and my imprudence, were worthy of
excuse. God and posterity will show me favor." She was led out
by the lieutenant of the Tower to the scaffold that was prepared upon
the green, over against the White Tower. It is said, that the court
had once taken a resolution to have had her beheaded upon the same
scaffold with her husband, but, considering how much they were both
pitied, and how generally Lady Jane was beloved, it was determined,
to prevent any commotions, that her execution should be performed
within the Tower. She was attended to and upon the scaffold by
Mr. Feckenham, but she was observed not to give much heed to his
discourses, keeping her eyes steadily fixed on a book of prayers she
had in her hand. After some short recollection she saluted those
who were present, with a countenance perfectly composed ; then ta-
king her leave of Mr. Feckenham, she said, " God will abundantly
requite you, good sir, for your humanity to me, though your discours-
es gave me more uneasiness than all the terrors of my approaching
death." She next addressed herself to the spectators in the follow-
ing speech : " My lords, and you good Christian people which come
to see me die. I am under a law, and by that law, as a never-er-
ring judge, I am condemned to die, not for any thing I have offend-
ed the queen's majesty, for I will wash my hands guiltless thereof,
and deliver to my God a soul as pure from such tresspass, as inno-
cence from injustice, but only for that I consented to the thing I was
forced unto, constraint making the law believe I did that which I nev-
er understood. Notwithstanding I have offended Almighty God in
that I have followed over-much the lust of my own flesh, and the
pleasures of this wretched world ; neither have I lived according to
the knowledge that God hath given me, for which cause God hath
appointed to me this kind of death, and that most worthily according
to my deserts ; howbeit I thank him heartily that he hath given me
time to repent of my sins here in this world, and to reconcile myself
to my Redeemer, whom my former vanities had in a great measure
displeased. Wherefore, my lords, and all you good Christian peo-
ple, I most earnestly desire you all to pray with me, and for me, while
I am yet alive, that God of his infinite goodness and mercy will for-
give my sins, how numberless and grievous soever, against him ; and
I beseech you all to bear me witness that I here die a true Christian
woman, professing and avouching from my soul that I trust to be sa-
ved by the blood, passion, and merits of Jesus Christ, my Savior, on-
ly, and by no other means, casting far behind me all the works and
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merits of mine own actions, as things so short of the true duty I owe,
that I quake to think how much they may stand up against me."
Having delivered this speech, she kneeled down, and repeated the
fifty-first psalm in a most devout manner from beginning to end; after
which he stood up, and gave her gloves and her handkerchief to her
women, Mrs. Eliz. Tilney and Mrs. Helen, and her prayer book to
Sir John Bridges. On her untying her gown the executioner offer-
ed to assist her, but she desired him to let her alone, and turning her-
self to her woman they helped her off with it, and gave her an hand-
kerchief to bind about her eyes. The executioner kneeling down re-
quested her forgiveness, which she most willingly gave him. Upon
this he desired her to stand upon the straw, which bringing her within
sight of the block, she said, " I pray dispatch me quickly." Then
kneeling down, she asked, " Will you take it off before I lay me
down ?" To which the executioner replied, " No, madam." She
then tied her handkerchief about her eyes, and feeling for the block
said, " What shall I do ? where is it ?" Upon which, one of the
standers-by guiding her to it, she laid her head down upon the block,
and then stretched herself forward, and said, "Lord, into thine hands
I commend my spirit," and immediately the executioner at one stroke
severed her head from her body.
Thus fell this most accomplished lady, resigning her life in a man-
ner worthy of her employing and improving it ; " and a true Chris-
tian faith," as one observes, " having uniformly produced a Christian
life, with What triumph did it trample on the sting of death, and spread
a glory round the Lady Jane, that eclipsed the faint lustre of the su-
perstitious and cruel Queen Mary on her throne ?"*
* Glocester Ridley's Life of Bishop Ridley, p. 427.
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CATHARINE PARR.
CATHARINE, WIFE OF KING HENRY THE EIGHTH, COMMONLY CALLED
CATHARINE PARR.
She was born about the beginning of the reign of King Henry the
Eighth, who succeeded to the throne of England April 22, 1509.
She was the eldest of the two daughters of Sir Thomas Parr, of
Kendal, by Dame Maud his wife, who bestowed on her a learned
education, as the most valuable addition he could make to her other
accomplishments. Her progress in literature fully answered her fa-
ther's culture and expectations, so that she soon became celebrated
not only for her good sense, but her learning, and made a most excel-
lent use of her abilities in the employment of them for the best pur-
poses in every stage of her future life.
She was first married to John Nevill, Lord Latymer and after his
decease her perfections both in body and mind so powerfully attracted
the affections of King Henry, that she was married to him at Hamp-
ton Court, July 12, 1543.
She always took great delight in conversing with the sacred wri-
tings, and the investigation of divine truths, which soon dissipated the
clouds of ignorance, and set before her in a true light the nature of
the gospel. She seems, indeed, to have had a religious tincture from
her infancy, but the religious duties she so carefully practised in ear-
ly life were according to the blind devotion of that age. These er-
rors she not only afterwards retracted, but forwarded the Reforma-
tion, and advanced and encouraged the Protestant cause. She pur-
sued these good designs as far as the mutable and perverse disposi-
tion of an arbitrary prince, and the iniquity of the times, would ad-
mit, and even further than she could go without exposing herself to
the utmost danger ; for though her laudable attempts were carried on
with all proper prudence, and as much secrecy as the nature of the
thing would allow, yet they were maliciously observed by Stephen
Gardiner, Bishop of Winchester, who, with the Chancellor Wriothes-
ley and others, conspired against her so artfully, that at length, hav-
ing drawn up articles, they procured a warrant subscribed by the
king's own hand to remove her to the Tower, which being accident-
ally dropped, was happily found by a person who conveyed it to her
majesty. The sight of it, and the reflections upon the hard fate of
other queens, threw her into a violent disorder, which confined her
to her bed. The king hearing of her illness, made her a very kind and
seasonable visit, spoke all the comfortable things imaginable to her,
and sent her one of his physicians, Dr. Wendy, as is believed, to take
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care of her health. The doctor, it seems, was apprized of the de-
sign, and guessed from outward symptoms the cause of the queen's
indisposition ; upon which, well knowing her singular prudence, and
relying upon her fidelity, he ventured to open the matter to her. The
king himself being at the same time a little indisposed, the doctor ad-
vised the queen to make his majesty a visit, not doubting but that by
her good sense, and prudent management, she might avert the im-
pending danger. The queen took the doctor's advice, and soon af-
ter made his majesty a visit, attended only by her sister, the Lady
Herbert, and the Lady Lane. She found the king sitting and talk-
ing with some gentlemen of his chamber. He seemed pleased with
her visit, and addressed her in a very obliging manner ; and, break-
ing off his discourse with his attendants, he began of his own accord,
contrary to his usual custom, to confer with her about matters of reli-
gion, seeming as it were, desirous to be resolved by the queen of cer-
tain doubts, which he then proposed to her. The queen, instantly
perceiving the tendency of his discourse, answered with great humili-
ty and submission :
" Your majesty doth know right well, neither am I myself ignorant,
what great imperfection and weakness by our first creation are allot-
ted to us women, so as to be ordained and appointed as inferior and
subject to men as our head, from which head all our directions ought
to proceed ; and that as God made man to his own shape and likeness,
whereby he being endowed with more special gifts of perfection,
might rather be stirred to the contemplation of heavenly things, and
to the earnest endeavor to obey his commandments, even so also
made he woman of man, of whom and by whom she is to be govern-
ed, commanded, and directed : whose womanly weakness and nat-
ural imperfections ought to be tolerated, aided, and borne withal, so
that by his wisdom such things as be wanting in her, ought to be
supplied.
" Since, therefore, that God hath appointed such a natural differ-
ence between man and woman, and your majesty being so excellent
in gifts and ornaments of wisdom ; and I, a simple poor woman, so
much inferior in all respects of nature unto you, how then comes it
now to pass that your majesty in such diffuse causes of religion, will
seem to require my judgment? which, when 1 have uttered, and said
what I can, yet must I, and will I refer my judgment in this and all
other cases to your majesty's wisdom, as my only anchor, supreme
head, and governor here in earth, next under God, to lean unto."
"Not so, by St. Mary !" replied the king, " you are become a doc-
tor, Kate, to instruct us, as we take it, and not to be instructed or di-
rected by us."
" If your majesty take it so," answered the queen, then hath your
majesty very much mistaken me, who have ever been of the opinion
to think it very unseemly and preposterous for the woman to take
upon her the office of an instructer, or teacher, to her lord and hus-
CATHARINE PARR. 35
band, but rather to learn of her husband, and be taught by him : and
where I have, with your majesty's leave, presumed heretofore to dis-
course with your majesty, in which I have sometimes seemed to dis-
sent from you, I did it not so much to maintain my opinion, as to min-
ister discourse, not only to the end that your majesty might with the
less grief pass over this painful time of your infirmity by this kind of
engagement, which I fancied might afford you some relief, but also
that I, hearing your majesty's learned arguments, might from thence
gain to myself great advantage : and I assure your majesty, I have
not missed any part of my desired end in that behalf, always refer-
ring myself, in all such matters, unto your majesty, as by ordinance
of nature it is convenient for me to do."
"And it is even so, sweetheart?" said the king, " and tended your
arguments to no worse an end ? then are we now perfect friends
again, as ever we were before." And, as he sat in his chair, em-
bracing her in his arms, and saluting her, he declared, "That it did
him more good at that time to hear these words from her own mouth,
than if he had heard present news of an hundred thousand pounds
in money having fallen to him." Afterwards, having entertained the
queen and attendants with some diverting conversation, he gave her
leave to depart, and in her absence gave her the highest commmen-
dation.
The day, and almost the hour appointed, being come in which the
queen was to be conveyed to the Tower, the king went into his gar-
den, with only two gentlemen of the bedchamber, and sent for the
queen, who immediately came to wait upon his majesty, attended by
Lady Herbert, Lady Lane, and Lady Tyrwhyt, who were all to have
been apprehended with the queen. The king seemed in high spirits,
and entertained them with all imaginable gayety. In the midst of
their mirth the lord chancellor approached his majesty's presence,
with forty of the king's guards at his heels. The king looked upon
him with a very stern countenance, and walking a small distance
from the queen called the chancellor to him, who, upon his knees,
spoke softly to his majesty. The king in great anger, called him
knave, arrant knave, beast, and fool, and commanded him instantly
to be gone out of his presence. Being gone, the king immediately
returned to the queen, who, perceiving him to be much chagrined,
employed all the powers of her eloquence to soften his displeasure,
humbly entreating his majesty, if the chancellor's fault were not too
heinous, to pardon him for her sake.
"Ah, poor soul," says the king, " thou little knowest how evil he
hath deserved this grace at thy hands. Of my word, sweetheart, he
hath been to thee an arrant knave, and so let him go." To which
the queen returned an answer expressive of her charitable dispo-
sition.
Thus, remarkably, did Divine Providence defend her from the
snares and malice of her enemies, and rescue her from this most im-
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minent danger, which being over, she passed safely through the re-
mainder of this tempestuous reign.
This dreadful alarm seems to have awakened all the faculties of
her soul, and to have put her upon the employment of her thoughts
in pious meditations and prayer, and upon making due preparation
for eternity.
She saw, very plainly, that the principles of religion she had first
imbibed, did not correspond with the inspired writings. But though
she had a considerable share of learning, joined to an excellent un-
derstanding, yet her great modesty would not permit them to be her
only guide in matters of such great importance, for she kept several
eminent divines constantly with her to solve her doubts, and instruct
her in the true religion. With these learned men, who were her
chaplains, she used to have private conferences, as often as opportu-
nity would permit, about the doctines of the Reformation, and the
abuses which were then crept into the church, but particularly in
Lent. She had a sermon preached to her every day in the after-
noon, in her chamber, which generally lasted about an hour, at which
time the ladies and gentlemen of her privy-chamber, and others who
were disposed to hear, were present. To all this she added great
application and industry in the study of books of divinity, particularly
of the Holy Scriptures. Being thus qualified, she began to commit
some of her own thoughts to writing. Her first composition seems
to have been that entitled, ' Queen Katharine Parr's Lamentation of
a Sinner, bewailing the ignorance of her blind life.' This discourse
was found among her papers after her death, and was published by
Secretary Cecil, who prefixed to it a preface of his own writing.
In it she acknowledges the sinful course of her life for many years,
in which she, relying on external performances, such as fasts and
pilgrimages, was all the time a stranger to the true internal power of
religion, which she came afterwards to experience by the study of
the Scriptures, and prayer to God for the assistance of that Holy
Spirit, by whose direction they were indited. She explains, clearly,
the ideas she had of justification by faith, so that holiness was its ne-
cessary consequence, and lamented the great scandals given by ma-
ny Gospellers, a name by which they were distinguished who gave
themselves to the reading of the Scriptures.
She also drew up psalms, prayers, and pious discourses, which
she herself published. The psalms were in number fifteen, each of
considerable length, and composed in imitation of the Psalms of
David, being digested into versicles, of which many were borrowed
from the book of Psalms, and other portions of Scripture. Each
Psalm had its proper subject. The first was 'for the remission of
sins,' beginning, " O Lord of lords, God Almighty, great and dread-
ful, which by thy word hast made heaven, earth, the sea, and all
things contained in them ! nothing is able to resist thy power : thy
mercy is over all thy works : all things be under thy dominion and
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rule, both man and beast, and all living creatures : thou art merciful
to whom thou wilt, and hast compassion on whom it pleaseth thee,"
&c.
The second Psalm also was 'for remission of sins," beginning,
"O most mighty God of angels and men, whose judgments be
unsearchable, and whose wisdom is profound and deep ;
" Hear the prayers of thy servant, and cast not away the humble
suit of thy poor creature, and handy-work," he.
The third Psalm was 'for remission of sins' also. The fourth,
'A complaint of a penitent sinner which is sore troubled, and over-
come with sins.' The fifth, 'For obtaining of godly wisdom.' The
sixth, 'A Christian man prayeth that he may be healed of God.'
The seventh, ' For an order and direction of good living.' The
eighth, ' A Christian prayeth that he may be delivered from his ene-
mies.' The ninth, 'Against enemies.' The tenth, 'When enemies
be so cruel that a Christian cannot suffer them.' The eleventh, 'Of
confidence and trust in God.' The twelfth, ' If God defer to help
long time.' The thirteenth, 'In which a Christian gives thanks to
God that his enemies have not gotten the over-hand of him.' The
fourteenth, 'In which the goodness of God is praised.' The fifteenth,
1 Of the benefits of God, with thanks for the same." To which were
subjoined the twenty second Psalm, entitled, 'The complaint of Christ
on the cross,' and 'a Psalm of Thanksgiving.'
Then followed the book of prayer, entitled, 'Prayers or Medita-
tions,' wherein the mind is stirred up patiently to suffer all afflictions
here, and to set at nought the vain prosperity of this world, and alway
to long for everlasting felicity, collected out of holy works, he.
These prayers were all digested, as were the psalms aforesaid, into
verses and sentences, and contain a great spirit of true piety and
devotion, sense of God, and dependence upon him ; and many of
them were excellently suited to her condition. Then follow two
prayers for the king, and for men to say entering battle, the latter of
which the queen very probably composed upon the king's expedition
into France with a great army, when she was left regent at home.
In this prayer she has this truly pious petition, "Our cause being
now just, and being enforced into war and battle, we most humbly
beseech thee, O Lord God of Hosts ! so to turn the hearts of our
enemies to the desire of peace, that no Christian blood be spilt ; or
else grant, O Lord ! that with small effusion of blood, and to the
little hurt and damage of innocents, we may to thy glory obtain vic-
tory, and that the wars being soon ended, we may all with one heart
and mind knit together in concord and unity laud and praise thee."
The next is a devout prayer to be daily said, together with one or
two besides.
There was also printed another piece of the devout studies of this
good queen, entitled, 'A goodly Exposition of the fifty first Psalm,
which Hierom of Ferrary made at the latter end of his days.' This
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work begins, " Wretch that I am, comfortless and forsaken of all
men, which have offended both heaven and earth," he. Then fol-
low in conclusion other things, as ' Of Faith — The power of Faith — -
The Work of Faith — Good Works — The Prayer of the Prophet
Daniel.'
Before we proceed any further in the Memoirs of this truly excel-
lent person, we shall present our readers with a pious prayer of hers
composed in short ejaculations, suited to her condition, which may
serve as a specimen of the devout exercises of her soul.
" Most benign Lord Jesu, grant me thy grace, that it may alway
work in me, and persevere with me unto the end !
" Grant me that I may ever desire and will that which is most
pleasant and acceptable unto thee !
" Thy will be my will, and my will to follow always thy will !
" Let there be alway in me one will, and one desire with thee, and
that I have no desire to will or not to will, but as thou wilt !
" Lord, Thou knowest what thing is most profitable, and most ex-
pedient for me :
"Give me therefore what thou wilt, as much as thou wilt, and
when thou wilt !
" Do with me what thou wilt, as it shall please thee, and as shall
be most to thine honor !
" Put me where thou wilt, and freely do with me in all things after
thy will !
"Thy creature I am, and in thy hands. Lead me, and turn me
where thou wilt !
" Lo ! I am thy servant, ready to do all things that thou command-
est; for I desire not to live to myself, but to thee.
" Lord Jesu ! I pray thee grant me thy grace, that I never set my
heart on the things of this world, but that all carnal and worldly af-
fections may utterly die, and be mortified in me !
" Grant me, above all things, that I may rest in thee and fully pa-
cify and quiet my heart in thee !
" For thou, Lord, art the very true peace of heart and the per-
fect rest of the soul, and without thee all things be grievous and un-
quiet.
" My Lord Jesu, I beseech thee, be with me in every place, and
at all times ; and let it be to me a special solace gladly for to love
to lack all worldly solace !
"And if thou withdraw thy comfort from me at any time, keep
me, O Lord, from separation (desperation) and make me patiently
to bear thy will and ordinance !
"O Lord Jesu, thy judgments be righteous, and thy providence
is much better for me than all that I can imagine or devise !
" Wherefore do with me in all things as it shall please thee !
" For it may not be but well, all that thou dost. If thou wilt that
I be in light, be thou blessed ; if thou wilt that I be in darkness, be
thou also blessed !
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" If thou vouchsafe to comfort me, be thou highly blessed ; and if
thou wilt I lie in trouble, and without comfort, be thou likewise ever
blessed !
" Lord, give me grace gladly to suffer whatsoever thou wilt shall
fall upon me, and patiently to take at thy hand good and evil, bitter
and sweet, joy and sorrow ; and for all things that shall befall unto
me heartily to thank thee !
" Keep me, Lord, from sin, and I shall then dread neither death
nor hell !
" Oh ! what thanks shall I give unto thee, which hast suffered the
grievous death of the cross to deliver me from my sins, and to ob-
tain everlasting life for me ?
" Thou gavest us a most perfect example of patience, fulfilling
and obeying the will of thy Father, even unto death.
" Make me, wretched sinner, obediently to use myself after thy
will in all things, and patiently to bear the burden of this corrupt life!
" For though this life be tedious, and as an heavy burthen to my
soul, yet, nevertheless, through thy grace, and by example of thee,
it is now made much more easy and comfortable than it was before
thy incarnation and passion.
" Thy holy life is our way to thee, and by following that, we walk
to thee that art our head and Savior : and except thou hadst gone
before, and shewed us the way to everlasting life, who would en-
deavor himself to follow thee, seeing we be yet so slow and dull,
having the light of thy blessed example and holy doctrine to lead
and direct us?
" O Lord Jesu, make that possible by grace that is impossible by
nature !
" Thou knowest well that I may little suffer, and that I am soon
cast down, and overthrown with a little adversity : wherefore, I be-
seech thee, O Lord, to strengthen me with thy Spirit, that I may
willingly suffer for thy sake all manner of troubles and afflictions !
" Lord, I will acknowledge unto thee all mine unrighteousness, and
I will confess to thee all the unstableness of my heart.
" Oftentimes a very little thing troubleth me sore, and maketh me
dull and slow to serve thee :
" And sometimes I purpose to stand strongly, but when a little
trouble cometh it is to me great anguish and grief, and of a right little
thing riseth a grievous temptation to me ;
"Yea, when I think myself to be sure and strong, as it seemeth I
have the upper hand, suddenly I feel myself ready to fall with a little
blast of temptation.
" Behold therefore, good Lord, my weakness and consider my
frailness best known to thee !
" Have mercy on me and deliver me from all iniquity and sin, that
I be not entangled therewith !
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" Oftentimes it grieveth me sore, and in a manner confoundeth me
that I am so unstable, so weak and so frail in resisting sinful motions;
" Which, although they draw me not away to consent, yet never-
theless their assaults be very grievous unto me ;
" And it is tedious to me to live in such battle, albeit I perceive
that such battle is not unprofitable unto me, for thereby 1 know my-
self, and mine own infirmities, and that I must seek help only at thine
hands.
" It is to me an unpleasant burthen, what pleasure soever the world
offer eth me here.
" I desire to have inward fruition in thee, but I cannot attain
thereto."
The number as well as piety of these compositions sufficiently
show how much of her time and thoughts, amidst all the business and
ceremonies of her exalted station, were employed in order to secure
her everlasting happiness, and sow the seeds of piety and virtue in
the minds of her people. And as she very well knew how far good
learning was subservient to these great ends, so she used her utmost
endeavors for its establishment and increase. A remarkable proof
of which we have in the following authentic piece of history. When
the act was made, that all colleges, chantries, and free chapels, should
be in the king's disposal, the University of Cambridge were filled with
terrible apprehensions ; but well knowing the queen's great regard to
learning, they addressed letters to her by Dr. Smith, afterwards Sir
Thomas Smith, the learned secretary of state to King Edward, in
which they intreated her majesty to intercede with the king for
their colleges, which accordingly she effectually did, and wrote to
them in answer, "That she had attempted the king's majesty for the
stay of their possessions, and that, notwithstanding his majesty's prop-
erty and interest to them by virtue of that act of parliament, he was,
she said, such a patron to good learning, that he would rather advance
and erect new occasions thereof, than confound those their colleges ;
so that learning might hereafter ascribe her very original, whole con-
servation, and sure stay to him ; adding, that the prosperous state of
which long to preserve she doubted not but every one would with
daily invocation call upon Him, who alone and only can dispose all
to every creature." In the same letter she tells them, " That foras-
much as she well understood that all kinds of learning flourished
among them as it did among the Greeks at Athens long ago, she de-
sired and required them all not so to hunger for the exquisite knowl-
edge of profane learning, that it might be thought that the Greek
University was but transported, or now in England again revived, for-
getting our Christianity, since the excellency of Greeks only attained
to moral and natural things, but that she rather gently exhorted them
to study and apply those doctrines (the variety of human learning) as
means and apt degrees to the attaining and setting forth the better,
Christ's revered and most sacred doctrine, that it might not be laid
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against them in evidence at the tribunal seat of God, how they were
ashamed of Christ's doctrine ; for this Latin lesson, she goes on, I
am taught to say of St. Paul ; "Non me pudet evangelii"* and then
adds, to the sincere setting forth whereof I trust universally in all
your vocations and ministries you will apply and conform your sundry
gifts, arts, and studies to such end and sort, that Cambridge may be
accounted rather an university of divine philosophy than of natural
or moral, as Athens was."
This so satisfactory an answer to the petition of the University of
Cambridge, shows as well the great influence she had over the king,
as the good use she made of it; nor can the reader fail of observing
from her letter how well she deserved his majesty's favor. Indeed
she merited every instance of it she could desire ; for, next to the
studies of the Holy Scriptures, and the performance of the duties
enjoined by them, she seems to have made it her principal care to
be obsequious to his will. And as that part of his life which it fell
to her lot to share with him was attended with almost continual indis-
positions, so his ill health joined such a fierceness of manners to his.
former untraceable disposition, as rendered it a task extremely diffi-
cult even for his prime favorites to make themselves agreeable to him,
and preserve his esteem; yet, such were the amiable qualities of the
queen, that by a most obliging tenderness, and charming turn of con-
versation, she not only secured his affection under all his pain and
sickness, but greatly contributed to the alleviation of them ; which so
cemented the king's affections, and grounded her so firmly in his
good graces, that after the Bishop of Winchester was known to have
been disappointed in his scheme for her ruin, none of her adversaries
durst make any attempts against her.
As a confirmation of what we have said concerning this lady's ex-
traordinary virtues, and the true sense which the king had of them,
we shall here exhibit the last testimony of his affection to her from
his will, which bears date December the 30th, 1546, but one month
before his decease, which is as follows :
" And for the great love, obedience, chasteness of life, and
wisdom being in our aforesaid wife and queen, we bequeath unto her
for her proper use, and as it shall please her to order it, three thou-
sand pounds in plate, jewels, and stuff of household, besides such
apparel as it shall please her to take, as she hath already ; and fur-
ther we give unto her one thousand pounds in money, with the en-
joying her dowry and jointure, according to our grant by act of
parliament."
Her great zeal for the Reformation, and earnest desire to have the
Scriptures understood by the common people, put her upon the pro-
curing several learned persons to translate Erasmus's paraphrase on
am not ashamed of the Gospel.
6
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the New Testament into the English language for the service of the
public. And this she did at her own great expense. She engaged
Lady Mary, afterwards Queen Mary, in translating the paraphrase
on the Gospel of St. John ; upon which occasion she sent the fol-
lowing epistle in Latin to that princess :
"Cum multa sint, nobilissima ac-amantissima Domina, qua? me
facile invitant hoc tempore ad scribendum, nihil tamen perinde me
movit atque cura valetudinis tuse, quem, ut spero, esse optimam, ita
de eadem certiorem fieri, magnopere cupio. Quare mitto hunc
nuntium quem judico fere tibi gratissimum, turn propter artem illam
musicse, qua? te simul ac me oppido oblectari non ignoro ; turn quod
a me profectus tibi certissime referre possit de omni statu ac valetu-
dine mea. Atque sane in animo fuit ante hunc diem iter ad te fe-
cisse, atque coram salutasse, verum voluntati meae non omnia respon-
derunt. Nunc spero hac hyeme, idque propediem propius nos esse
congressuras. Quo sane mini nihil erit jucundum magis, aut magis
volupte.
"Cum autem, ut accepi, summa jam manus imposita sit per Ma-
letum operi Erasmico in Johannem, quod ad tralationem spectat, ne-
que quicquam nunc restet, nisi ut justa quaedam diligentia ac cura
adhibeatur in eodem corrigendo te obsecro, ut opus hoc pulcherri-
mum atque utilissimum jam emendatum per Maletum aut aliquem
tuorum, ad me transmitti cures, quo suo tempore prelo dari possit ;
atque porro significes an tuo nomine in lucem felicissime exire velis,
an potius incerto autore. Cui operas mea sane opinione injuriam
facere videberis si tui nominis autoritate etiam posteris commenda-
tum iri recusaveres in quo accuratissime transferendo tanto labores
summo reipublica? bono suscepisti, pluresque, ut satis notum est, sus-
ceptura, si valetudo corporis permisisset. Cum ergo in hac re abs
te laboriose admodum sudatum fuisse nemo non intelligat cur quam
omnes tibi merito deferant laudem rejicias, non video. Attamen ego
hanc rem omnem ita relinquo prudential tuae, ut quamcunque velis
rationem inire earn ego maxime approbandam censuero.
" Pro crumena quam ad me dono misisti ingentes tibi gratias ago.
Deum opt. max. precor ut vera ac intaminata felicitate perpetuo te
beare dignetur : in quo etiam diutissime valeas." Ex Hanwortbia,
20 Septembris. Tui studiosissima ac amantissima,
Katharina Regina K. P.
IN ENGLISH.
" Though there are several considerations, my most noble and be-
loved lady, which readily invite me at this juncture to write to you,
yet there is none that equally induces me with that of my solicitude
for your health, which, as 1 hope it is perfectly enjoyed by you, so
I feel myself most earnestly desirous to receive assurance concern-
ing it. It is for this reason that I have dispatched this messenger to
you, who I doubt not will be most welcome, both on account of his
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eminent skill in music, which I know is a most delightful entertain-
ment to both of us, and as he will be able, coming immediately from
me, to give you certain information of my health, and all that relates
to me. I had it indeed in my intention to have made you a visit,
and to have paid my respects to you in person, but things have not
fallen out to my mind. I now promise myself that in the winter,
before long, we shall have an interview, than which nothing can be
more acceptable and pleasant to me.
"As I have been informed that the finishing hand has been put by
Dr. Mallet to Erasmus's 'Paraphrase on the New Testament,' so far
as it regards its translation into English, and that nothing now remains
but an accurate review, and care in its correction, I earnestly request
you to transmit me this most elegant and useful work now revised by
Dr. Mallet, or some other able person whom you have employed, in
order that it may be printed in due time, and that you would also
signify to me, whether it is your pleasure, which would indeed be
most auspicious to the work, to have it published with your name,
or anonymously. Indeed, if I might give my opinion, you will
considerably obstruct the work, if it does not go down to posterity
under the sanction of your name, by which, in the most accurate
translation, you have undertaken a most lasting service for the great
benefit of the people, and are ready, as it is well known, to make
further additions in the same kind, if your health will permit. For
my part, I see no reason, as mankind will undoubtedly ascribe the
work to yourself, why you should endeavor, by suppressing your
name, to decline the honor which they will so deservedly confer up-
on you. But I leave the whole affair so entirely to your prudence,
that I shall readily fall in with whatever method may seem most eli-
gible to you.
" I give you abundant thanks for the present of the purse you was
so kind as to send me. I beseech the all-gracious and almighty God
to crown your days with true undisturbed felicity, and to give you a
long life for its enjoyment !" From Hanworth, the 20th of Sep-
tember.
Yours in the most attached and affectionate friendship,
Catharine Queen K. P.
King Henry dying upon the 28th of January, 1546-7, when she
had been his wife three years, six months, and five days, she was,
not long after, married to Sir Thomas Seymour, Lord Admiral of
England, and uncle to King Edward the Sixth. This unhappy
marriage put a stop to all her temporal enjoyments : for between the
matchless pride and imperiousness of her sister-in-law the Dutchess
of Somerset, and the boundless ambition and other bad qualities of
the admiral, such furious animosities ensued, as proved the destruc-
tion of both families, and must have interrupted the studies and con-
templations of this excellent lady, now embarked with them, so that
after this marriage we find no more of the pious productions of her
44 memoirs, he.
pen, or any thing considerable, besides her procuring the publication
of the above-mentioned work, the Translation of Erasmus's Para-
phrase on the New Testament into English.
She lived but a short time with this gentleman ; for after being
delivered of a daughter she died in. childbed in the month of Sep-
tember, 1548, not without snspicion of poison, as several of our
writers observe. And, indeed, she herself was apprehensive of un-
fair dealings, and roundly reproached the admiral on her death-bed
for his great unkindness to her.
Where she died, or in what place she lies buried, we know not nor
can we meet with any information on the head among our historians,
though many of them mention her death, and speak of her with
such regard as makes the omission of such a circumstance appear
somewhat extraordinary ; but we have a Latin epitaph composed
in memory of her by Dr. Parkhurst, one of her domestic chaplains,
and afterwards Bishop of Norwich. It bears the following title and
is as follows :
Incomparabilis foeminae Catharine, nuper Angliae, Franciae, et Hiberniae Reginae,
dorninae mere clementissimae, epitaphium. Anno 1548.
Hoc Regina novo dormit Catharina sepulchro,
Sexus foeminei flos, honor, atque decus.
Haec fuit Henrico conjux fidissimaRegi,
Quern postquam e vivis Parca tulisset atrox
Thomae Seymero, (cui tu, Neptune, tridentum
Porrigis) eximio nupserat ilia viro.
Huic perperit natam : a partu cum septimus orbem
Sol illustrasset raorstruculenta necat :
Defunctam madidis famuli deflemus ocellis ;
Humectat tristes terra Britanna genas.
Nos infelices moeror consumit acerbus :
Inter ccelestes gaudet at ilia choros.
IN ENGLISH.
An Epitaph on the incomparable Lady Catharine, late Queen of England,
France, and Ireland, my most amiable mistress.
This new-erected tomb contains
The mortal, but rever'd remains
Of her, who shone through all her days
Her sex's ornament and praise.
To Henry, Albion's mighty King,
With whose renown all nations ring,
She prov'd a most accomplished wife,
The crown and comfort of his life.
Her lord no more, in Hymen's bands
With Seymour next she joins her hands ;
Seymour, who o'er the wat'ry plains
Wielding th' imperial trident reigns:
To him a female babe she bore,
But, when the sun had travelled o'er
For sev'n successive days the skies,
A breathless corpse the mother lies.
Her family her loss bemoans,
Britannia echoes to their groans :
In night and griefs we pine away ;
She triumphs in the blaze of day,
And with th' angelic choirs above,
Attunes the harp to joy and love.
45
THE RIGHT HONORABLE
MARY, COUNTESS OF WARWICK.
This lady was the daughter of Richard Boyle, the first Earl of
Cork, who was born a private gentleman, and the younger son of
a younger brother, and to no other heritage than what is expressed in
the words,
God's Providence is my Inheritance,
which as a motto he inscribed on the magnificent buildings he erect-
ed, and indeed ordered to be placed on his tomb.
By that Providence succeeding his unremitting and wise industry
he raised himself to such honor and estate, and left behind him such
a dignified family, as has very rarely if ever before been known ;
and all this with such an unspotted reputation for integrity, as that
the most envious scrutiny could discover no blemish in it, and that
only shone the brighter by the malignant attempts made to obscure
and debase it.
The mother of our lady was Catharine, only daughter of Sir
GeofFry Fenton, principal secretary of state in Ireland. She was
married to Mr. Boyle, July 25, 1603, and obtained this most hon-
orable testimony from her husband : " I never," says he, " demanded
any marriage portion, neither promise of any, it not being in my
consideration ; yet her father, after her marriage, gave me one thou-
sand pounds in gold with her. But that gift of his daughter unto me
I must ever thankfully acknowledge, as the crown of all my bless-
ings, for she was a most religious, virtuous, loving and obedient wife
unto me all the days of her life, and the happy mother of all my
hopeful children, whom with their posterity I beseech God to bless."*
By that excellent lady the Earl of Cork had fifteen children.
The Hon. Robert Boyle, famous as a philosopher, more famous as
a Christian, was one of them. Mary, the seventh daughter, and
who was married to Charles Rich, Earl of Warwick, is the subject
of our Memoirs. In opening her character to the public view, we
shall begin with that which had the first place in her regard, piety to-
wards God. We shall make some observations on her entrance
upon it — on her progress in it — on the various exercises of it — and
her holy zeal and industry to promote and encourage religion in
others.
* Birch's Life of the Hon. Robert Boyle, p. 10.
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As to her entrance upon religion, or making it her business in
good earnest, though she had received a good education, and had
been instructed in the grounds of religion in her youth, yet she
would confess that she understood nothing of the life and power of
godliness upon her heart, and indeed had no spiritual sense of it
till some years after she was married. Nay, she declared that she
came into the family in which she lived and died with so much honor,
with prejudices and strange apprehensions as to matters of religion,
and was almost affrighted with the disadvantageous accounts she had
received concerning it ; but when she came to see the regular per-
formance of divine worship, and hear the useful, edifying preaching
of the most necessary, practical and substantial truths, and observe
the order and good government maintained in it, and met with the
favor of her right honorable father in-law, who had always an extra-
ordinary esteem and affection for her, her groundless prepossessions
dispersed like mists before the sun, and were succeeded by the most
cordial approbation.
The providence of God made us of two more remote means of
her conversion, — afflictions and retirement. Divine wisdom and
grace may be very adorable in adapting suitable means to accom-
plish the good purposes of God towards men ; and afflictions and
retirement, in this lady's circumstances, appeared to be admirably
chosen out by Providence for her. Her great impediment and diffi-
culty lay in her love of the pleasures and vanities of the world, which
she neither knew how to reconcile with the strictness of religion, nor yet
could be content to part for that, whose nobler delights she at that
time had never experienced. The Lord therefore gradually drew
off her mind from the pleasures and vanities of the world, by ren-
dering insipid, through her afflictions, what had too much attached
her regards ; and by granting her an happy retirement, to acquaint
herself more thoroughly with the things of God ; by which she was
enabled to set her seal to that testimony which God gives to spiritual
wisdom, that " her ways are ways of pleasantnesss, and that all her
paths are peace ;" Prov. iii. 17 ; which, indeed, she would fre-
quently and freely do to her friends, by assuring them that she had
no cause to repent the exchange of the shadowy and unsubstantial
pleasures of this world, for the solid and satisfactory joys she found
in religion, thereby inciting and encouraging them to make the ex-
periment, not doubting but that upon the trial they would be of the
same sentiments with herself.
Two more immediate helps which God blessed to the good of her
soul, were the preaching of the word, and Christian conference. The
pressing the necessity of speedy and true repentance, and shewing the
danger of procrastination, the putting off, and stifling convictions,
seemed to turn the wavering trembling balance, and to fix the scale
of her resolution.
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This happy change took place about thirty years before her death ;
and from this time, (for though her conversation before was by no
means vicious, but sweet and inoffensive, yet she would confess that
her mind was vain,) she walked most closely, circumspectly, and ac-
curately with God ; and very few, if any, from what was seen in her,
ever chose the better part with more resolution, or more unreserved-
ly devoted themselves to the love, fear, and service of God, learning
to be religious in good earnest, and to increase and grow in grace,
and in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
To promote and strengthen religion in her soul, she, like the wise
man, Matt. vii. 24, dug deep to lay her foundations upon a rock.
She made a strict scrutiny into the state of her soul, and weighed
the reasons of her choice in the balance of the sanctuary ; and with
the other builder in the gospel, Luke, xiv. 28, sat down and consid-
ered with herself what it might cost to finish her spiritual' edifice, and
whether she were furnished to bear the charge. She examined
whether the grounds of her hope were firm, and such as would not
delude and shame her, and whether her evidences for heaven were
such as would abide the test, and be approved by Scripture. On
this most important and interesting concern she drew up a paper with
her own hand, which a good judge, to whom she privately commu-
nicated it, declared to be judiciously, modestly, and humbly written.
Having put her hand to the plough, she looked not back, but minded
religion as her business indeed, and never gave so much as the suspi-
cion of her trifling in so solemn and momentous a work.
As to the various exercises of religion, or the practice of it, it ap-
peared to be her great design to walk worthy of God in all well-pleas-
ing, to adorn her professed subjection to the gospel by a conversation
becoming it, and to shew forth his virtues and praises who had called
her into his marvellous light.
According she was very careful and circumspect in abstaining from
all appearance of evil. In all doubtful cases her rule was to take
the safest side, for she would say that she was sure it would do her
no hurt to let what was any way dubious as to its lawfulness, alone.
While, therefore, none were further from censuring others, or usurp-
ing judgment over their liberties, yet for herself she would never al-
low herself the addition of an artificial beauty, using neither paint nor
patches ; neither would she play at any games, because, besides ma-
ny other inconveniences, she thought them great wasters of precious
time, of which she was nobly avaricious. There were three things,
she said, that were too hard for her, and which she confessed she
could not comprehend.
" How those who professed to believe an eternal state, and its de-
pendence upon this inch of time, could complain of time's lying as a
dead commodity on their hands, which they were at a difficulty to
dispose of.
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" How professing Christians, who would seem devout at church,
could laugh at others for being serious out of it, and burlesque the
Bible, and turn religion into ridicule."
And finally, " How intelligent men could take care of souls, and
seldom come among them, and never look after them."
Many years before her death she began to keep a diary, consult-
ing two persons, whom she used to call her soul friends, concerning
the best manner of performing it. She at first wrote her diary every
evening ; but finding the evening inconvenient, from her lord's long
illness, which occasioned her many inevitable interruptions at that
season, she changed it into the quiet, silent morning, always rising
early. In this diary, among other things she recorded the daily
frame of her own heart towards God, his signal providences to her-
self, and sometimes to others, the gracious manifestations of God to
her soul, answers of prayer, temptations resisted, or prevailing, or
whatever might be useful for caution or encouragement, or afford her
matter of thankfulness or humiliation.
She used to style prayer hearfs-ease, as she often experienced it ;
and, though her modesty was such, and she was so far from a vain
ostentation of her gifts, that a minister,* who was long acquainted
with her, says, " that he could not name one person with whom she
prayed ; yet," adds he, " I can say that she was not only constant and
abundant in prayer, but mighty and fervent in it ; for, as she some-
times used her voice, she hath been overheard in her devotions ; and
her own lord, knowing her hours of prayer, once conveyed a grave
and judicious minister into a secret place within hearing, who much
admired her humble fervency." In praying she prayed, and, when
she used not an audible voice, her sighs and groans would be heard
from her closet. On the very day before she died she shut up her-
self above an hour, which she spent in fervent private prayer, not-
withstanding her indisposition. Indeed prayer was the very element
in which she lived, and actually died ; or the vital breath of her soul
that wafted it immediately to heaven.
But if she exceeded herself in any thing as much as she excelled
others in most things, it was in meditation. She usually walked two
hours every morning to meditate alone, in which divine art she was a
most accomplished proficient, both as to set and occasional contempla-
tions; in set comtemplations choosing some particular subject, which
she would press upon her heart with the most intense thought, till she
had drawn out its juice and nourishment ; and in occasional medita-
tions like a bee extracting honey from all occurrences ; whole vol-
umes of which she hath left behind her.
* Dr. Anthony Walker, rector of Fyfield in Essex. He preached a Sermon at
Felsted at the countess's funeral, and afterwards printed it under the title of, " The
virtuous Woman found, her Loss bewailed, and her Character exemplified ;" to
which are annexed, " Some of her ladyship's pious and useful Meditations." To
this publication we have been principally obliged for the Memoirs of this excellent
lady, as well as her pious compostions.
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After she had consecrated the day with reading the Scriptures,
prayer, and meditation, a short dressing time, and ordering her do-
mestic affairs, or reading some good book, employed the remainder
of the morning, till the season came for chapel prayers, from which
she never absented herself, and in which she was ever reverent, and
a devout example to her whole family.
She was a strict observer of the Lord's day, which may be truly
considered as the best external preservative of religion ; for it is very
evident that the streams of godliness are deep or shallow, according
as this bank is kept up, or neglected.
This lady was a very serious and diligent hearer of the word, and
constantly after sermon recollected what she had heard, sometimes
by writing, always by thinking, and calling it to mind that she might
make it her own, and turn it into practice, not content to be a forget-
ful, fruitless hearer, but being a doer, that she might be blessed in her
deed : James i. 25.
Nor was she less solicitous to make others good than to be good
herself. She well remembered our Savior's charge to Peter :
"When thou art converted, strengthen thy brethren:" Luke, xxii.
32. She set herself to build God's spiritual temple, and applied her-
self to it with all her might. She had a seraphic zeal for the glory
of God, and a great love for immortal souls, and hence she was en-
gaged to promote religion with the utmost industry, which, that she
might accomplish with greater advantage, she would in company in-
troduce good discourse, to prevent idle, or worse communication.
She would drop a wise sentence, or moral or holy apothegm, with
which she was richly furnished from her own making, or her collec-
tion, that suited with, or was not very remote from, what was talked
of, and by commending, or improving, that she would turn the conver-
sation into a useful channel without offense, and even with pleasure.
She indeed kept a book of such weighty sayings ; much valuing sen-
tences which contained much use and worth in a little compass.
The following were a few out of the many.
The almost Christian is the unhappiest of men ; having religion
enough to make the world hate him, and yet not enough to make
God love him.
The servants of God should be as bold for their master, as the
servants of the devil are for theirs.
O Lord, what I give thee doth not please thee, unless I give thee
myself. So what thou givest me shall not satisfy me, unless thou
give me thyself.
O Lord, who givest grace to the humble, give me grace to be
humble.
He loves God too little, who loves any thing with him, which he
loves not for him.
So speak to God as though men heard thee ; so speak to men, as
knowing God hears thee.
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We should meditate on Christ's cross till we are fastened as close
to him as he was to the cross.
By how much the more vile Christ made himself for us, by so
much the more precious should he be to us.
He who takes up Christ's cross aright, shall find it such a burden
as wings to a bird, or sails to a ship.
It is a great honor to be almoner to the King of heaven. To give
is the greatest luxury. How indulgent then is God to annex future
rewards to what is so much its own recompense !
To be libelled for Christ is the best panegyric.
Where affliction is heavy, sin is light.
Sin brought death into the world, and nothing but death will carry
sin out of it.
The best shield against slanderers is to live so that none may be-
lieve them.
He who revenges an injury, acts the part of an executioner ; he
who pardons it, acts the part of a prince.
Why are we so fond of life that begins with a cry, and ends with
a groan ?
Where this excellent lady had particular kindness, or personal in-
terest, she would improve the authority of her friendship in free dis-
courses and arguments, and plead the cause of God and their own
souls, with such eloquence, that it was hard to resist the spirit with
which she spake. " Let me," says the minister who writes her life,
and was many years well acquainted with her, "echo from her lips,
though alas! too faintly, how she would, with melting charms and
powerful strains, make her attempts upon the friends for whom she
had a kindness, and whom she longed to rescue from ruin.
"Come, come, my friend, you must be good ; you shall be good.
I cannot be so unkind, nay, so unfaithful to the laws of friendship,
as to let you persist and perish in a way which you know as well as
I, leads down to hell. It grieves my very soul to have so good a na-
ture insnared against the dictates of its own light by bad example,
custom, or any thing else." If they replied with excuses, she would
stop them thus : " Pray, my friend, have patience ; hear me out.
I know, or guess at least, what you would say, and I would not have
you say it. It is bad to commit sin, but it is worse to plead for it,
and defend it. None sin so dangerously as those who sin with ex-
cuses. The devil then plants a new snare, when he gets into our
tongues, to fasten us to our failings, or when he raises an outwork in
our own mouths, to secure the fort be possesses in our hearts. I
take it for granted, that all other holds were quitted easily, could
you conquer such or such a vice, too much by custom prevailing
over you. Unhappy custom that dares prescribe against God's law!
But, friend, use no arguments that will not hold at the day of judg-
ment ; though hand join in hand, you know what follows. No ex-
ample, custom, number, should have power over us which cannot
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excuse and secure us. But this is the mischief of sin lived in ; it
bewitches the heart to love it so, that it cannot leave it. CANNOT !
So men love to speak, but it is because they will not • that is, will
use no endeavors to be rid of it. But, my friend, you must leave
it; there is no remedy, though it cost you trouble, smart, and self-
denial. There is as much as all this comes to, in cutting off a right
hand, and plucking out a right eye. I speak to you as to one in
whom I have a party to help me plead, I mean your conscience,
and the belief of the Scriptures ; for, if you were one of those on
whom you know I use to set my mark, I would not give you this
trouble, nor esteem myself under more than the laws of general
charity to wish you better, and should hardly venture my little skill
to make you so. But as for you, who still own God's authority, and
believe his word, and attend his worship ; why should 1 despair of
making one part of yourself agree with the other, your practice with
your convictions, your conversation with your conscience ? And not
to terrify you with the thunder-claps of wrath and vengeance, and
God's judging you know whom — Listen to the still voice. It is your
peculiar eminency to be kind and grateful : and because there is a
kind of magnetic virtue in these arguments which touches our tem-
per, I shall attack you on that side, hoping the strongest excellency
of your nature will prove the weakest defensative for sin, and to
keep out God. You therefore who are so good-natured, so kind, so
grateful, that you never think you have acquitted yourself sufficiently
to those who have been civil, or, as you are pleased to call it, obli-
ging, Oh ! how can you be so unkind and so ungrateful to God Al-
mighty, the kindest friend, who is so much beforehand with you,
who hath given you so much good, and is so ready to forgive you all
your sins ? O that you, who, I dare say, would take my word for
any thing else, would do me the honor to take my word for him,
who, I assure you, upon your sincere repentance, will be fully recon-
ciled to you in Christ, and never so much as upbraid your past neg-
lects, but heal your backslidings, and love you freely. And do not
fear you shall have cause to repent of your repentance. No man
was ever yet a loser by God, and you shall not be the first. You
shall not lose your pleasures, but exchange them ; defiling ones, for
them which are pure and ravishing. And let it not seem strange, or
incredible to you, that there should be such things as the pleasures
of religion, because, perhaps, you never felt them. Alas ! you have
deprived yourself unhappily, by being incapable of them. New wine
must be put into new bottles. To say nothing of what the Scriptures
speak of a day in God's courts being better than a thousand, and of
joys unspeakable, and full of glory, of the great peace they have
who keep God's law, and that nothing shall offend them, and that
wisdom's ways are pleasantness, let my weakness reason out the case
with you. Do you think that God's angels, who excel in all perfec-
tion, have no delight becaase they have no flesh, no sense, no bodies,
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as men and beasts ? Or have our souls, the angels in these houses of
clay, which are God's images, and the price of his blood, no objects,
no employments, which may yield them delight and satisfaction ?
Think not so unworthily of God, or so meanly of yourself. Have
not the strokes of your own fancy, or the intellectual pleasures of
your mind, sometimes transported you beyond all the charms of your
senses, when they have chimed all in tune together ? And cannot
God, think you, who is a spirit, and so fit an object for our souls,
give them as great pleasures as any object of our taste and sight ?
Come, come, my friend, take my word for it, there is more pleasure
in the peace of a good conscience, in the well-grounded hope that
our sins are pardoned, in serving God, and in the expectation of
eternal life, than in all the pleasures in the world. Alas ! I was
once of your mind ; but I assure you, upon my word, I have really
found more satisfaction in serving God, than ever I found in all the
good things of this life, of which, you know, I have had my share.
Try therefore ; dare to be good, resolve to be so thoroughly. If
you do not find it much better than I have told you, never take my
word, or trust me more."
Thus, and much more powerfully, would our lady's zeal for their
good, cause her to argue with her friends, that she might by holy
violence attract and allure them to be good and happy.
She took great care of the souls of her servants ; and if she had
any ambition in her, it was to be the mistress of a religious family.
This appeared, among others, in the following particulars : in exact-
ing their attendance on the public worship of God, and reverent be-
havior there : in personal instruction, and familiar persuasion of
them : in preparing them for, and exhorting them to the frequent
participation of the Lord's Supper : in dispersing good books in all
the common rooms and places of attendance, that they who were in
waiting might not lose their time, but well employ it : and in making
religion in her servants the step to their preferment ; for she used to
make the hundred and first psalm the rule of her economics ; and
though she treated all her servants as friends, yet they were her fa-
vorites which most remarkably feared the Lord.
, The good countess had learned St. Paul's lesson to perfection,
"to speak evil of no man." Where she could not speak in com-
mendation, the worst injury she would do was to be silent, unless it
was to some single friend, of whose taciturnity she was secured by
experience. Nor would she invidiously diminish the just praises of
any who deserved them, but would study to extenuate their other
failings by presenting the bright sides of their characters to conceal
their dark ones.
As a wife, it may be truly said, that the heart of her husband safe-
ly trusted in her ; and that she did him good, and not evil, all the
days of her life. Never was woman more truly a crown or orna-
ment to a man. She always lived with the sense of the covenant
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of God which was between them, upon her heart. She was an equal
mixture of affectionate obedience and obedient affection. She cov-
ered and concealed his infirmities, deeply sympathized in his long in-
dispositions, attended and relieved him with the greatest tenderness,
and above all loved his soul, and would both counsel him with a pru-
dent zeal, and pray for him with the strongest ardor and fervency.
And he was not wanting in her just praises. He hath with vehement
protestations declared, "he had rather have her with five thousand
pounds, though she brought him much more, than any woman living
with twenty." When the torrents of his sorrow were highest for
the death of his only son, he made it the deepest accent of his grief,
"that it would kill his wife," which, he said, "was more to him than
an hundred sons." But actions speak louder than words : he gave
her his whole estate, as an honorable testimony of his grateful esteem
of her merits towards him, and left her sole executrix. Which trust,
though it cost her almost unspeakable labor and difficulties, she dis-
charged with such indefatigable pains, such conscientious exactness,
and amazing prudence, that as she failed not of one tittle of his will
till all was executed, so she never gave or left occasion for the least
complaining from any interested person, but rendered all more than
silent, satisfied, more than satisfied, applauding and admiring her
prudent and honorable management of that great affair : an event
which she owned to God with much thankfulness, as no small mercy
and blessing to her. As for that noble estate which was to descend
to others after her, she would not have wronged it in the least, to
have gained the disposal of the whole ; and therefore was at vast
expenses in repairs, both of the mansion and the farms, though she
herself had them only for a term. It may be also truly said con-
cerning her, that though none were more ready to recede from their
own right terminating in personal interests, yet that she was very
strict and tenacious in whatever might concern her successors, usu-
ally saying, "that, whatever she lost herself, she would never give
occasion for them who came after her, to say that she had hurt their
estates, or wronged her trust, or them."
She was an incomparable mother, as appeared in the education of
her son, the hopeful young Lord Rich*, who went to the grave be-
fore her, and afterwards of three young ladies her nieces, to whom
she was in kindness an own mother, though she was only an aunt in-
law. As they were left with less plentiful portions, she would, even
during her son's life, never leave pressing her lord to make noble
provisions for them, suitable to their birth and qualities.
She was a most tender and indulgent landlady, and would usually
say of her tenants, " Alas ! poor creatures, they take a great deal of
* Her historian tells us that she was never the mother of more than two chHdren ;
a daughter, who died young, and this promising young gentleman, whom he here
mentions with honor.
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pains ; and I love to see them thrive and live comfortably, and I can-
not bear to see them brought into straits, and would therefore, with-
out grudging or difficulty, have all things made convenient for them."
And if they had sustained any considerable losses, she would effec-
tually consider them. As for her copyhold tenants, she would urge
with warmth the timely finishing the rolls of her courts, and the de-
livery of their copies, declaring, " that she could not in conscience
suffer these things to be neglected, because it was all they had to
shew for their estates." A piece of justice this, not more honorable
than necessary in lords and ladies of manors.
As a neighbor she was so kind and courteous, that it advanced the
rent of adjacent houses to be in such a near situation to her. Not
only her house and table, but her very countenance and heart, were
open to all persons of quality for a considerable circuit ; and for the
inferior sort, if they were sick, or tempted, or in any distress of
body or mind, to whom should they apply but to the good countess
for assistance and relief? She supplied them with surgical assistance
and physic ; and herself, (for she would personally visit the meanest
among them,) and the ministers whom she would send to them, were
their spiritual physicians.
As her soul was filled with the love of God, so she expressed her
love to men in the most exuberant munificence to all who stood in
need of it. In her charity she was forward to her power, yea, and
beyond her power ; for she would even anticipate her revenue and
incomes, rather than restrain or suspend her liberality. She would
not live poor in good works, to die rich as to this world's goods. She
made her own hands her executors, and they were very faithful to
her enlarged heart.
When she had, in her lord's life-time, a separate allowance settled
by marriage articles, she consulted with a minister, with whom she
was well acquainted, what proportion persons are obliged to conse-
crate to God of their substance. The minister told her, " that it
was hard, if not impossible, to fix a rule which should hold universal-
ly, and that the circumstances in which persons stood, their quali-
ties, their incomes, their dependencies, must be considered, neces-
sary and emergent occasions inevitably occurring." On her insist-
ing on a more particular answer as to herself, what would be fit and
becoming her to do, the minister, who was no stranger to her cir-
cumstances, suggested, " that a seventh part, he supposed, would
be a fit proportion of her substance for charitable uses." Before he
could assign his reasons, she replied, " that she would never give less
than the third part." Accordingly she kept her resolution to the
full, and with advantage, laying aside constantly that proportion for
charity, and even sometimes borrowing from the other proportions to
add to it, but never making free with that to serve her own occasions,
though sometimes pressing enough.
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When she came to the possession of the very large estate her
lord bequeathed her for her life, she in good measure realized what
a great person was reported to say, " that the Earl of Warwick had
given all his estate to pious uses," intending, that by giving it to his
countess it would be converted to these purposes. All the satisfac-
tion, as she declared, that she took in such large possessions being
put into her hands, was the opportunity they afforded her of doing
e;ood ; and she averred that she should not accept of, or be encum-
bered with the greatest estate in England, if it should be offered her,
if it was clogged with this condition, that she was not to do good to
others with it.
Such was the amiable and exemplary life of the Countess
of Warwick. It remains that some account should be given of her
death.
What presages she had of its near approach she never discovered,
but her preparations for it had been for a long time habitual. Death
was one of the most constant subjects of her thoughts ; and she used
to call her walking to meditate upon it, her going to take a turn with
death, so that it could never surprise or take her unprepared, who
was always ready for it.
Yet there are some particulars worthy of our remark, of the watch-
ful kindness of Providence over the people of God, alarming them
to trim their lamps, as the wise virgins did, against the coming of the
bridegroom, and allowing them fit opportunities to do it, as Provi-
dence signally did to this good lady.
The following transcript from her diary contains an account of the
last Lord's day of her health, being written but the very day before
she was taken ill ; whence it should seem that the thoughts of her
dissolution were impressed upon her soul in a remarkable manner,
though at that time there were no visible symptoms of it upon her
body.
"March 24, 1678. — As soon as I awoke I blessed God. I then
meditated and endeavored, by thinking of some of the great mercies
of my life, to stir up my heart to give glory to God. These thoughts
had this effect upon me, to melt my heart much by the love of God,
and to warm it with love to him.
" Next I prayed, and was enabled in that duty to pour out my soul
to God. My heart was in it, and was carried out to praise God, and
I was large in recounting many of his special mercies to me. While
I was thus employed, I found my heart in a much more than ordinary
manner excited to admire God for his goodness, and to love him.
I found his love make deep impressions on me, and melting me into
an unusual plenty of tears.
" Those mercies, for which I was in an especial manner thankful,
were the creation and redemption of the world, and for the gospel,
and the sacraments, and for free grace, and the covenant of grace, and
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for the excellent means of it I had enjoyed, and for the great patience
God has exercised towards me before and since my conversion, and
for checks of conscience when I had sinned, and for repentance when
I had done so, and for sanctified affliction, and support under it, and
for so large a portion of worldly blessings.
" After I had begged a blessing upon the public ordinances, I went
to hear Mr. Woodrooff. His text was, ' Pass the time of your so-
journing here in fear.'" — After a summary account of the sermon,
she goes on, " In the afternoon I heard again the same person on the
same text." This sermon she also concisely and methodically re-
capitulates, and then proceeds : " I was in a serious frame at both
the sermons, and was by them convinced of the excellency of fear-
ing God, and of employing the remainder of the term of my life in
his service, and I resolved to endeavor to spend the residue of my
time better. At both the minister's prayers I prayed with fervency.
Afterwards I retired, and meditated upon the sermons, and prayed
them over. I had also this evening large meditations of death and
of eternity, which thoughts had this effect upon me, to beget in me
an extraordinary awakened frame, in which the things of another
life were much realized to me, and made very deep impressions
upon me, and my soul followed hard after God for grace to serve
him better than ever yet I had done.
u O Lord, be pleased to hear my prayers, which came not out of
feigned lips, and to hear the voice of my weeping for more holiness,
and for being more weaned from the world, and all in it ! After
supper I committed myself to God."
Our excellent lady was far from being among their number, whose
consciences are such bad and unquiet company that they hate soli-
tude, and dare not be alone, for she loved retirement, and found in
it her greatest satisfaction ; though, when she was called from it, she
would deny her particular inclination to comply with a duty of press-
ing necessity, or of larger extent. Thus she cheerfully sustained the
hurry of business, which was inevitable, in discharging herself of the
trust reposed in her by her lord's last will.
But never did bird more joyfully clap its wings when disentangled
from a net, or delivered from the prison of its cage, than she solaced
herself upon her withdrawment from the bustle and crowd of earthly
concerns. And when her dearest sister was, in the beginning of the
winter before she died, about to leave her, she took her farewell of
her in these words : " Now I have done my drudgery, (intending her
attention to worldly affairs,) I will set to the renewing my preparations
for eternity ;" and accordingly she made it the repeated business of
the following winter.
In the beginning of March, 1678, she set to the making of her
will anew, and signed and sealed it on the twelfth day of the same
month, and on the Tuesday, March 26, was taken with some indis-
position, loss of appetite, and aguish distemper, and had four or five fits,
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which yet, in that season, were judged, both by her physicians and
friends, more beneficial to her health, than threatening to her life.
She continued afterwards free from her fits till Friday the 12th of
April ; on which day she rose in tolerable strength, and after sitting
up some time, being laid upon her bed, she discoursed cheerfully and
piously. One of the last sentences she spoke, having turned back
the curtain with her hand, being this most friendly and divine one,
" Well, ladies, if I were one hour in heaven, 1 would not be again
with you, as much as I love you."
Having then received a kind visit from a neighboring lady, at her
departure she rose from her bed to her chair, in which being set, she
said she would go into her bed, but first would desire one of the
ministers then in the house to pray with her ; and asking the compa-
ny which they would have, presently resolved herself to have him
who was going away, because the other would stay and pray with
her daily. He was immediately sent to, and came. Her ladyship,
sitting in her chair on account of her weakness, for otherwise she
always kneeled, and holding an orange in her hand to which she
smelt, almost in the beginning of the prayer was heard to fetch a sigh,
or groan, which was esteemed devotional ; but a gentlewoman who
kneeled by her looking up, saw her look pale, and her hand hang
down ; at which she started up affrighted, and all applied themselves
to assist her ladyship, the minister catching hold of her right hand,
which had then lost its pulse, nor ever recovered it more.
Thus died, in the fifty-fourth year of her age, this right honor-
able lady, this most eminent pattern of zeal for the glory of God,
and charity for the good of men : she died in the actual exercise of
prayer, according to her own desire, for there were many that could
witness that they had often heard her say, " that if she might choose
the manner and circumstances of her death, she would die praying."
We shall annex to the Memoirs of this worthy lady, specimens of
her own numerous compositions. Among her meditations on various
subjects we find the following.
Meditation, on considering the different manner of the working of
a Bee and a Spider.
While I am attending to this despicable spider, which, despicable
as it is, yet has some of its kind that have the honor to inhabit the
courts of the most glorious potentates, for the inspired volumes tell
us, that they are in kings' palaces*, 1 am led to consider that the work
he is so busily employed in, while he spins his web, entirely out of
his own bowels, without having any help from any thing without him,
is when it is finished good for nothing, but is soon brushed down and
* Prov. xxx 28:
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flung away ; while the industrious Bee, who is busily employed in
making his useful combs, daily flies abroad to enable him to do so,
and, flying from one flower to another, gathers from each of them
that which both renews his own strength, and yields sweetness to
others.
By the Spider's work I am minded of a formalist or proud pro-
fessor, who works all from himself and his own strength, and never
goes out of himself to get strength for his performances, or to work
by, and therefore his thin-spun righteousness is good for nothing, and
will be thrown away.
The Bee's going abroad is an emblem of the real Christian, who
is renewed in the spirit of his mind, and, that he may be enabled to
work the great work for which he came into the world, he goes out
to an ordinance, and to Christ in a promise for strength by which to
work, and thus obtains it, and this makes his work yield honey, and
turn to advantage.
O Lord, I most humbly beseech thee let me not dare to work for
myself, but let me go out daily to thee for ability, with which to work
my great and indispensable work, that I may deny my own righteous-
ness, and make mention of thine only, and find such sweetness from
every ordinance and promise, that my soul may be like a garden which
the Lord hath blessed, and may exceedingly thrive and prosper !
We shall now give one of her pious reflections on several passages
of Scripture.
REFLECTION ON PSALM Cxix, 136.
Rivers of waters run down my eyes, because men keep not thy law.
Lord when I read in thy word of the man after thine own heart
thus speaking, and yet consider that I am so far from imitating him,
that 1 can many times suffer sin to be upon my brother, without so
much as giving him a reproof for it, or advising him so much as to
consider whom he offends by it ; nay, that I am ready to smile at
that which is a grief to thine Holy Spirit, I beseech thee, O Lord !
to humble me under this consideration, and to make me, for time to
come, to imitate holy David in my charity towards my offending
brother, and with thy servant Lot, let my soul be vexed in hearing
and seeing the filthy conversation of the wicked.* O let me be so
charitable as to weep over the soul of my offending brother ; and let
me, as much as in me lies, deliver him out of the snare of sin, and
by my prayers, and holy example, help him towards heaven !
2 Pet. ii. 8.
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LADY ELIZABETH BROOKE.
This lady was born at Wigsale in Sussex, January, 1601. Her
father was Thomas Culpepper, of Wigsale, esquire, a branch of an
ancient, genteel family of that name, which was afterwards in her
brother advanced to the rank of the nobility. He was created a bar-
on by King Charles the First, with the title of John Lord Culpep-
per, of Thoresway. Her mother was the daughter of Sir Stephen
Slaney.
Thus she had thG favor of an honorable extraction, and a noble
alliance ; and as her family conferred an honor upon her, so she re-
flected an additional glory upon her family by her great virtues, hav-
ing been one of the most accomplished persons of the age, whether
considered as a lady, or a Christian.
While she was in her infancy she lost her mother, and in her child-
hood her father, so that she came early under the more peculiar care
and patronage of God, who is in an especial manner the Father of
the fatherless.
Her first education was under her grandmother on the mother's
side, the Lady Slaney.
She had rare endowments of nature, an excellent mind, lodged in
a fine form, and under a beautiful aspect, the traces of which were
discernible even in her old age. She had an extraordinary quickness
of apprehension, a rich fancy, great solidity of judgment, and a reten-
tive memory.
She was married very young, about nineteen, to Sir Robert Brooke,
knt. descended from a younger brother of the ancient and noble fam-
ily of the Brookes, formerly Lord Cobham. Sir Robert was a per-
son of good estate, and of virtuous character. He lived with her six
and twenty years, and died July 10, 1646. Their children were
three sons, and four daughters.
Sir Robert Brooke and his lady continued the two first years of
their marriage in London, as boarders in the house of the Lady
Weld, her aunt. Thence they removed to Langly in Hertfordshire,
a seat which Sir Robert purchased purposely for his lady's accom-
modation, that she might be near her friends in London. After some
years' residence there, they came to Cockfield in Suffolk, his pater-
nal seat, where she passed the residue of her life, excepting the two
first years of her widowhood. In all these places she lived an emi-
nent example of goodness, and left a good name behind her, and es-
pecially in the last, where she passed the most, and best of her time,
and whence her soul was translated to heaven.
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She had many accomplishments, which recommended her to all
who had the happiness of knowing her. But the greatest glory that
shone in her, was that of religion, in which she was not only sincere,
but excelled.
To which general head the following particulars may be referred,
as the distinct jewels in her crown of righteousness.
She devoted herself to God and religion very early in life, remem-
bering her Creator in the days of her youth, and making haste, and
delaying not to keep his commandments. And as she begun, so she
continued with great steadiness, her walk with God through the course
of a long life ; so that she was not only an aged person, but, which is
a great honor in the church of God, an old disciple.
As she thus early applied herself to religion in the power and strict-
ness of it, so her good parts, industry, length of time, and the use of
excellent books, and converse with learned men uniting together,
rendered her one of the most intelligent persons of her sex, especial-
ly in divinity and the holy Scriptures, which made her wise unto sal-
vation.
This knowledge of the sacred writings was not confined to the
practical, but extended also to the doctrinal and critical part of the
book of God, even to the difficulties concerning Scripture-chronolo-
gy, and the solution of many of them.
She was able to discourse pertinently upon any of the great heads
of theology. She could oppose an Atheist by arguments drawn
from the topics in natural theology ; and answer the objections of
other erroneous minds by the weapons provided against them in the
holy Scriptures.
Though she was not skilled in the learned languages, she had so
great a knowledge in divinity that no scholar could repent the time
spent in converse with her, for she could bear such a part in discour-
ses of theology, whether didactical, polemical, casuistical, or tex-
tual, that some of her chaplains have professed that her conversation
has been sometimes more profitable and pleasant than their own stu-
dies, and that they themselves learned, as well as taught.
This perhaps may seem incredible to those who were not acquain-
ted with her ; but something of the wonder will be abated, by shew-
ing in what manner she attained her treasures of knowledge.
She was an indefatigable reader of books, especially of the Scrip-
tures, and various commentators upon them, the very best our lan-
guage afforded. She had turned over a multitude not only of prac-
tical treatises, but also of learned books ; and, among many others,
some of those of the ancient philosophers translated into English,
gathering much light from those luminaries among the heathens, so
that she could interpose with wisdom in a discourse purely philosoph-
ical.
She was also a most diligent inquirer, and made use of all learned
men of her acquaintance, in order to increase her knowledge, by
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moving questions concerning the most material things, as cases of
conscience, hard texts of Scripture, and the accomplishmant of
the divine prophecies.
She generally also took notes out of the many books she read,
that she might with the less labor recover the ideas without reading
the books a second time.
She was very industrious to preserve what either instructed her
mind, or affected her heart, in the sermons she had heard. To
these she gave great attention, while they were preaching, and had
them repeated in her family. After all this, she would discourse of
them in the evening, and in the following week she had them re-
peated, and would discourse upon them to some of her family in her
chamber. Besides all this, she wrote the substance of them, and
digested many of them into questions and answers, or under heads
of common places, and thus they became to her matter for repeated
meditation. By these methods she was always enlarging her knowl-
edge, or confirming what she had already known.
Having thus acquired a great treasure of knowledge, she improved
it, through Divine assistance, which she was most ready to acknowl-
edge, into a suitable practice, working out her salvation with fear
and trembling, and being zealous of good works.
Her piety was exact, laying rules upon herself in all things ; and
it was also universal, having a respect to all God's commandments,
equally regarding the two tables of the law ; and it may be truly add-
ed, that it was also constant and affectionate. Her whole heart was
given up to religion, and an holy zeal accompanied it, which zeal
was guided by much wisdom and prudence; her prudence never de-
generating into craft, there being nothing apparent in all her conver-
sation contrary to sincerity.
Her piety also was serious, solid and substantia], without any tinc-
ture of enthusiasm, though at the same time she had a great regard
to the Spirit of God, as speaking in the Scriptures, and by them
guiding the understanding and operating upon the heart.
As her own practice was holy, so she endeavored that her family
might walk in the same steps, providing for them the daily help of
prayer morning and evening, with the reading of the Scriptures,
and on the Lord's day the repetition of what was preached in the
public congregation. And for their further benefit, she for many
years together procured a grave divine to perform the office of a cat-
echist in her house, who came constantly every fortnight, and ex-
pounded methodically the principles of religion, and examined the
servants. This work was done by her chaplains till the service of
God in her family, and the care of the parish, centered in one per-
son. Thus, with Joshua, she resolved that she and her house would
serve the Lord.
With her piety was joined much christian love, which was univer-
sal, and extended to all mankind , so that she never suffered her-
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self to hate or despise, or overlook, unless in the way of censure
for a crime, any persons in the world, abhorring only what was vi-
cious and evil in them.
But this universal charity admitted a difference, so that, as the
more Christian and holy any persons were, they had more of her re-
gard. That image of God that shone out in a good conversation
she could not overlook in any, though in some respects they might
be less acceptable to her ; as she valued grace above all the accom-
plishments of parts, breeding, and agreement in smaller things.
While all were dear to her in whom the fear of God appeared, she
had a most peculiar regard for his ambassadors and ministers, the
guides of souls, receiving them in their ministrations as angels of God,
fearing the Lord, and obeying the voice of his servants, esteeming
what they delivered in harmony with the holy Scriptures as his word
and message.
She was very exact in matters of justice, and in rendering to all
their dues. She could not endure to have any thing without a title
in conscience as well as law ; and was particularly tender in refer-
ence to tithes, giving away all she held by that title to him who
took the care of the souls, and reserving only a little portion yearly
for repairing the edifices.
Her almsgiving was very great, and drew the admiration of all
who observed it, though they were acquainted with only some part
of it. Every one who needed it received it in proportion to his ne-
cessities, and in the kind that was most suitable to his particular wants.
She esteemed herself only as a steward of her estate, and therefore
gave away a great portion of it to encourage the ministry, and re-
lieve the indigent. She dispersed abroad, and gave to the poor,
and her righteousness remains for ever. She most frequently cast
her bread upon the waters, and gave a portion to seven, and to eight,
and lent much to the Lord. All this she did cheerfully and willing-
ly, and was so ready to do these good works, that, when there was
any occasion that solicited her charity, it was never any question
with her whether she should give, or not give, but only in what pro-
portion she should communicate her bounty ; and that she might fix
the proportion she would many times most frankly refer herself to
others, saying, "I will give whatever you think is meet and fit in this
case," having in this respect a heart as large as the sand upon the
sea-shore, and a most open and bountiful hand.
And as the poor were blessed with her charity in abundance, so
her friends, who needed not that kind of benevolence, were witness-
es of her great liberality and goodness, by which she adorned reli-
gion, and won over many to speak well concerning it.
Her generosity was such, that one would have imagined there was
no room for her alms ; and her charity was such, that it was matter
of wonder that she could so nobly entertain her friends. But her
provident frugality and good management, with the divine blessing,
enabled her to perform both to admiration.
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Her charity was not only extended for the relief of the wants of
others' bodies, but she also most readily afforded counsel and com-
fort to such as applied to her for assistance in the greater concerns
of their souls, though of meaner rank and condition in the world.
To such she would address herself wisely, such she would hear with
patience, and such she would treat with compassion, when under
temptations and disquietude of soul. Upon one of her servants
coming to her closet on this account, and beginning to open to her
the grief of her mind, she required her for that time to forget that
she was a servant, and having discoursed to her with great tenderness
and prudence in reference to her temptations, she dismissed her re-
lieved, and much revived. Very many others she received with the
greatest freedom, ministering spiritual comfort to them.
That part of religion which is particularly styled devotion, was the
solace of her life, and the delight of her soul. A considerable por-
tion of her time was every day employed in prayer, in searching the
Scriptures, and in holy meditations. These exercises were her
proper element, and in them she would often profess she found her
greatest consolation. In these she conversed with God, and was
then least alone when most alone, for she did not merely perform
these duties, nor generally engage in them as a task, but she observ-
ed the frame of her spirit in them, and commanded the affections of
her soul to wait upon God, not being satisfied without some emotions
of mind suitable to those holy exercises, as she hath often professed,
and as might be gathered from her complaining sometimes of her in-
firmities, and of the difficulty of praying aright, and of preserving
through the duty a due sense of God.
The Christian Sabbath was her delight, and a day in God's courts
was better to her than a thousand elsewhere, and her enjoyment of
God in the public ordinances and services of that day was to her as
a little heaven upon earth. The impressions she received by an at-
tendance on these holy institutions were such as that she longed in
the week for the return of the Sabbath, and great was her affliction
when her hearing was so impaired, that she could not attend the pub-
lic worship of God, though few were better furnished to supply the
want by private exercises and closet devotions.
What challenges our admiration is, that this lady, in the midst of
all these attainments, virtues, and graces, was deeply humble, and
clothed with the ornament of a lowly spirit. While many were fill-
ed with wonder at the example she exhibited to the world, she her-
self apprehended that others excelled her in grace, and godliness,
and continually reckoned herself among the least of saints ; and the
writer of her life* declares, "that notwithstanding her quality in the
world, her exquisite knowledge, eminent grace, and the high value
* The Rev. Nathaniel Parkhurst, M. A., vicar of Yoxford, and chaplain to her
ladyship.
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her friends had justly of her, he could never perceive, in the whole
course of eighteen years' converse, the least indication of vain-glory,
or self-admiration in her."
Her humility appeared to be of an excellent kind, the fruit of
great knowledge, proceeding also from a deep sense of the fall, the
corruption of human nature, the imperfection of mortification in the
present life, and the remains of sin in the souls of them who are
sanctified. It was also nourished by a great sight of God, and ac-
quaintance with him, by frequent self-examination, by an observation
how sin mingles itself in our best actions and most holy duties, and a
diligent trial of herself and her conversation with the exact rules of
the Scriptures.
This grace of Christian humility was the more illustrious in her by
the accession of the virtue of courtesy, which she possessed in a high
degree, entertaining all persons with civilities proper to their several
qualities ; so that she obliged all, at the same time being ever careful
that nothing in conversation might border upon those freedoms which
dishonor God and blemish the Christian profession ; in this manner
adorning the gospel, and evincing that religion, though it requires
great strictness, yet does not involve in it either melancholy or mo-
roseness. And, which is a much greater thing than to be courteous
in the highest degree, as a real disciple of Christ she had learned to
deny herself, and could abridge her own right, that she might there-
by promote the glory of God, do good to others, avoid offense, and
maintain love and peace in the church and the world.
And which may be properly subjoined to her self-denial, as a grace
equal to it, she industriously avoided censoriousness, and endeavored
to put the best interpretation of both words and actions, not lightly
speaking evil of any, nor readily receiving an evil report. Above all
things she abhorred censoriousness in reference to preachers and ser-
mons, of which she was a most candid and equal hearer, sufficiently
judicious and critical, but not in the least captious. If but truth
were spoken, and piety enforced in any ordinary method, she was
satisfied so as not to find fault. But the discourses she preferred
were either discourses peculiarly rational, or such as particularly il-
lustrated the sense of Scripture, or unfolded the excellency of the
gospel, or such as displayed Christ in his person, undertaking, and
offices, or such as discovered the difference between the real and
almost Christian, and such as most nearly approached the conscience,
and urged the exactest conversation, and the government of the heart,
thoughts, and inward affections.
In all her relations she behaved herself as a Christian. She was
a faithful, dutiful, affectionate, and prudent wife. She was a watch-
ful mother, restraining her children from evil, and bringing them up
in the nurture and admonition of the Lord, most constantly endeav-
oring to instil into their minds the principles of justice, holiness, and
charity. To them who became her children by marrying into her
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family, she was most kind, and treated them as her own. To her
servants and tenants she was just and good ; and to her neighbors
she was, in one word, all that they could desire.
To her particular friends she was endeared by her prudence, fidel-
ity, and almost excesses of love, and the improvement of friendship
to serve the great puposes of religion, the honoring of God, and the
benefiting one another.
Many more things might be added to this account of her attain-
ments, graces, and virtues ; but all may be summed up in this short
character.
She had the knowledge of a divine, the faith, holiness, and zeal of
a Christian, the wisdom of the serpent, and the innocency of the
dove. She had godliness in its power, and spread a glory over her
profession. She was serious, but not melancholy, and cheerful with-
out any tincture of levity. She was very holy and humble, and thank-
ful to God for all his mercies, having a deep sense of her need of
Christ the Mediator, depending entirely upon his merits and satisfac-
tion, and renouncing all her works in the article of justification-
By these excellences she attained a good, and, which she never
sought, a great name.
A person of quality and great learning, who loved to speak much
in a few words, having observed her gravity, holiness, prudence, and
freedom from all that was little, humorsome, or morose, declared,
"that she was a woman of a generous piety."
Another drew up her character in Latin, in these words: "Ingenio
mascula, mente theologa, ore gravis, corde sancta, cultu intensa, ca-
ritate laeta, crucis patiens, tota moribus generosa ; marito Sara, libe-
ris Eunice, nepotibus Lois, ministris Lydia, hospitibus Martha,
pauperibus Dorcas, Deo Anna.'
IN ENGLISH.
She had a mind great by nature,
And enriched with the knowledge of a divine,
She was venerable in her aspect,
Pure in heart,
Intense in her devotions,
Cheerful in her charity,
Patient in tribulation,
And in the whole of her behavior a complete
Gentlewoman.
In her concentered the various excellences of the several eminent
women on sacred record.
She was a Sarah to her husband,
An Eunice to her children,
A Lois to her grandchildren,
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A Lydia to Ministers,
A Martha to her guests,
A Dorcas to the poor,
And an Anna to her God.
As the qualifications of this lady were great and eminent, so were
the providences of God towards her, for she had great prosperities
and interchangeably great afflictions. The first she received with
humility, the last with patience.
To her prosperities may be referred the great kindness of her hus-
band, with a numerous family, and a very plentiful estate during his
life, and a competent revenue afterwards in her widowhood ; a fine
temperament of body, so that she was seldom sick though never
strong ; the continuance of her powers, the vigor of her intellect, and
the firmness of her judgment, even in the last years of her life ; the
respects and civilities she received from the gentry in her neighbor-
hood ; the blessing of long life ; the conclusion of some unkind law-
suits, which as she did not begin, so she could not prevent ; and the
seeing every remaining branch of her family amply provided for, and
in a very comfortable condition, before her decease. And, which
was more than all these, as the best of her prosperities, she enjoyed
much inward peace ; which, though it had sometimes the interrup-
tions of doubts and fears, was generally firm and steady, and was
sometimes advanced into joys and strong consolation.
Her afflictions were chiefly widowhood, and the loss of children.
The sharpest of all her trials was me untimely death of her last son,
with the aggravating circumstance of it, that of his being drowned.
This great affliction came upon her like an inundation of waters,
threatening; all the banks of reason and grace; but the presence and
power of God supported her so, that she not only lived many years
after the death of her son, but recovered in a great measure her
former cheerfulness. Her behavior under this sad providence was
truly Christian. She did not murmur, though at first she was aston-
ished, and afterwards much depressed by it. Her danger was that
of fainting under the correcting hand of God ; but she was upheld
by him who is able to succor them that are tempted. She often ex-
pressed herself in words importing that she justified God, and ac-
knowledged his righteousness in the dispensation. She feared lest
some might be scandalized, and reflect upon religion, and decline it,
because of her deep affliction, and she most earnestly desired that
God would take care of his own name and glory. Afterwards her
spirit revived, and she was comforted as before, and rejoiced in the
God of her salvation.
The close of her life was a long languishing of several months,
which gradually confined her, first to her chamber, then to her couch,
and last of all to her bed, accompanied sometimes with great pains,
in the endurance of which patience had its perfect work. During
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this sickness her mind was calm. Her conscience witnessed to her
integrity, and she had a good hope in God that he would crown his
grace in her with perseverance, and then with glory. She was very
apprehensive of her need of Christ, adhered to him, rejoiced in
him, and desired to be with him. She expired almost insensibly,
and had an easy passage to that happiness, which is the reward of
faith and holiness, and the free gift of God, through Jesus Christ
our Lord.
She left behind her, besides a great number of other writings, a
book containing Observations, Experiences, and Rules for Practice,
which, being a most lively image of her mind, may supply the de-
fects of the narrative that has been given of her. and extracts from
which we have thought proper to subjoin, in hopes that they may be
of no little benefit to all pious readers.
OBSERVATIONS AND EXPERIENCES, BY THE LADY ELIZABETH BROOKE.
I. The Vanity of the World.
All my comforts below are dying comforts. No one creature, nor
all the creatures that ever I enjoyed, have given my soul satisfaction.
II. Good Actions ivill bear Consideration, but Evil Actions will not.
Every act of piety and obedience will bear consideration, but so
will not any sinful action. If we consider before we attempt any
sinful action, either we shall not commit it, or we shall do it with re-
gret, and a conscience half set on fire. But if we consider before any
holy action or duty, our revolving thoughts will much animate us to
the service. Wherefore I hence conclude, that sin shames, and that
religion justifies itself.
III. The Worship of God is made pleasant by a Sense of his
Presence in it.
God's presence was formerly manifested by visible signs, as the
cloud, fire, and brightness; but though we cannot expect these, yet
we have the same especial presence of God with us ; and whenever
by faith we attain any lively apprehensions of it, how solemn, profit-
able, and delightful do they make the worship of God ! With what
joy do they bring us to the public assemblies ! and how unwilling are
we to be kept from them, when we have this expectation from them !
And finding our expectation in this respect answered, how devoutly
do we behave ourselves in them ! And how joyfully do we return
home, as they who have seen God, and conversed with him !
IV. It is our Interest to be religious.
It is a most experienced truth, that we shall never be well recon-
ciled to religion, and steady in piety, till we see it is our interest to
be religious.
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V. It is difficult to Pray without some wandering Thoughts in Prayer.
It is very difficult to carry sincerity, and keep up a sense of God
through every part of prayer, which is necessary to be endeavored,
and is the life of the duty. I find it hard to keep my soul intent,
for ray thoughts are slippery and swift, and my heart is snatched
away sometimes against my will, and before I am aware, yea, even
then sometimes when I have made the greatest preparation, and have
had the greatest resolutions through grace to avoid wandering thoughts.
My best prayers therefore need Christ's incense to perfume them.
VI. A deep Sense of God in Prayer is desirable and ravishing.
Could I understand my near approach to God in prayer it would
exalt my soul above measure. And why am I not ravished with the
thoughts of being in the presence of God, and having the ear, yea,
the heart of the King of heaven ? It is nothing but want of faith,
and the strange power of sense, that weaken my spiritual apprehen-
sions, and keep me from an unspeakable delight in my addresses to
God. What an high privilege is this to speak to the great Jehovah,
as a child to a father, or a friend to a friend ! But how slow of heart
am I to conceive the glory and happiness thereof! Could I but man-
age this great duty as I ought, it would be an heaven upon earth, it
would bring God down to me, or carry me up to him. Why should
I not be carried above the world, when I am so near to God ? Why
should I not be changed into the same image from glory to glory ?
Why am I not even transported beyond myself?
VII. We ought to be constant in Prayer.
Inconstancy in prayer is not only sinful, but dangerous. Omission
breeds dislike, strengthens corruption, discourages the spirit, and
animates the unregenerate part. Constancy in this duty breeds an
holy confidence towards God. Inconstancy breeds strangeness.
Upon an omission I must never approach God again, or my next
prayer must be an exercise of repentance for my last omission.
VIII. Sincere Prayers are never offered in vain.
Formality is apt to grow upon our secret prayers. One of the
best ways to prevent it, is to come to God with an expectation. This
sets an edge upon our spirits. I do not enough observe the returns
of prayer, though God hath said, I shall never seek him in vain.
But when I observe, I must acknowledge I have daily answers of
my prayers in some kind or other. Nay, I think I may say I never
offered a fervent prayer to God, but I received something from him,
at least as to the frame of my own spirit.
IX. Prayer promotes Piety, and Godliness, and Acquaintance with
God.
It is the Christian's duty in every thing to pray, and holiness lies
at the bottom of this duty. If I in every thing commit myself to
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God, I shall be sure to keep his ways, or my prayer will upbraid me.
This keeps me from tempting him, and makes me careful to find a
clear call in all I undertake, knowing that if I go only where I am
sent, the angel of his presence will go before me, and my way
will be cleared of all temptations and mischiefs. When our call is
clear, our way is safe. Besides, the practice of this leads me into
much acquaintance with God. My very praying is an acquainting
myself with him ; and if in every thing I pray, I shall in every thing
give thanks, and this still brings me into more acquaintance with him.
By this means my life will be filled up with a going to and a return-
ing from God.
X. The real Christian loves Solitude.
Solitude is no burthen to a real Christian. He is least alone when
alone. His solitude is as busy and laborious as any part of his life.
It is impossible to be religious indeed, and not in some measure to love
solitude, for all duties of religion cannot be performed in public. It
is also a thing as noble as it is necessary, to love to converse with our
own thoughts. The vain mind does not more naturally love com-
pany, than the divine mind doth frequent retirement. Such persons
have work to do, and meat to eat, the world knows not of. Their
pleasures are secret, and their chief delight is between God and
themselves. The most pleasant part of their lives is not in but out of
the world.
XI. Religion gives us a real Enjoyment of God.
The true Christian lives above himself, not only in a way of self-
denial, but in the very enjoyment of God. His fellowship is with
the Father and with the Son. He every where, and in every thing,
seeks out God. In ordinances, duties, and providences, whether
prosperous or adverse, nothing pleases unless God be found in them,
or admitted into them. That is to him an ordinance indeed, in which
he meets with God. That is a merciful providence indeed, in which
there appears much of the finger of God. God is nearer to the true
Christian than he is to others ; for there is an inward feeling, an in-
tellectual touch, which carnal men have not. And herein lies the
very soul of religion, and the quintessence of it, that it unites us in a
nearness to God, and gives us already to enjoy him.
XII. The Expectation of Death is profitable to a Christian.
The serious expectation of death, not forgetting judgment, frees
us from the afflicting, discomposing apprehensions of it. It is of great
service to the Christian, it takes off the soul from carnal pleasures,
covetous desires, and ambitious pursuits, and assists patience and con-
tentment. It helps the Christian to redeem his time, prompts him
to settle the affairs of his soul, to put his heart and house in order,
and to leave nothing to be done to-morrow that may be done to-day.
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It excites to frequent examination, quickens repentance, and suffers
him not to continue in sin. It assists fervency in prayer, as it drives
away worldly cares, and helps against distractions ; for death is a
solemn thing, and the thoughts of it breed a passion in the mind, and
all soft passions cherish devotion. The expectation of death sweet-
ens all labor, work, and duty, because of the everlasting rest to which
death leads us.
It moves us to pray for others, to counsel them, and do what we
can for them. Thus death in the expectation of it is a blessing if
we look for it as certain, and yet uncertain when it shall come, as
followed with judgment, and as putting a full end to our state of trial.
Thus death is ours.
HER RULES FOR PRACTICE.
I. Let love and charity be universal ; for no pretence whatever,
no, not religion and zeal for God, can justify your not loving any per-
son in the world. Treat all men with kindness, and wish them well.
Do them good according to their necessity, and your power and op-
portunity. If persons be above you, express your love to them, by
paying them the honor and observance their place and authority
call for. If they are in worldly respects beneath you, manifest your
love by kindness, affability, and granting them an easy access to you.
If they excel in natural or acquired endowments of mind, express
your love to them by a due esteem of them. If they be rather
wanting than excelling, shew your love by pitying them, and despise
not their weakness. If any be in misery, compassionate them, pray
for them, comfort them with your presence if you can reach them, and
relieve them according to your power. If any be defamed, shew
your love by stopping and rebuking the defamation.
II. Be very careful not to harbor any evil affection in your heart
against any person whatever, for though you are far from intending
any actual mischief yet you tempt God to let loose your corruption,
and his providence to permit an opportunity ; and so, ere you are
aware, you may be drawn to an act you never before thought of.
Besides, by an evil action harbored in your mind you will prevent
the blessed illapses of the Spirit of God, and open a wide door for
the entrance of the devil into your soul ; and indeed an unkind dis-
position towards any man is so much akin to Satan that if you admit
the one, you cannot exclude the other.
III. Despise none, for love never rides in triumph over inferiors.
IV. Look upon all unavoidable temptations as opportunities for an
high exercise of grace. Are you injured ? be sorry for him who has
done the wrong, and bless God for the opportunity of shewing your-
self hereby to be a Christian, by patient bearing, forgiving, doing
good against evil, treating your adversary with meekness, and break-
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ing his heart with love. Every provocation is a price in your hand ;
get an heart to improve it.
V. Put a due value upon your name and reputation, but be not
over solicitious about it, for that discovers some unmortified lust at
the bottom.
VI. Pursue piety under the notion of an imitation of God, and
then so great a pleasure will result from it, that neither men nor dev-
ils shall be able to make you question his being and attributes.
This notion will raise an esteem of piety, will render it lovely, will
make the several duties of religion more free and easy, and will
gradually wear out the remains of unbelief, and unkind jealousies
of God.
VII. Let humility be the constant covering of your soul, and let
repentance follow all your performances. This will demonstrate
your religion is inward, for if religion be suffered to enter deep into
the heart, it will always find work for repentance, while we are in
the state of imperfection.
VIII. Love nothing above God and Christ, for to love any thing
more than God or Christ is the way either never to enjoy it, or to
be soon deprived of it, or else to find yourself deceived in it.
IX. Do nothing upon which you dare not ask God's blessing.
X. Esteem time as your most precious talent, which when you
bestow it upon any, you give them more than you can understand.
All the power of men and angels cannot restore it to you again.
XI. Never speak of religion for the sake of discourse and enter-
tainment, but for the purpose of piety.
XII. Upon the Lord's day consider in private the love of God in
the several instances of it to yourself and the world, in Creation and
Redemption, the promises of eternal life, the care of his providen-
ces and his mercies to you, your friends and family ; and stay upon
these considerations, till your heart be lifted up in his praise, and
you can say with David, " Now will I go to God, my exceeding joy."
Consider also your miscarriages in the week past, and industriously
endeavor to prevent them in the week to come.
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LADY ALICE LUCY,
This lady was honorably descended, though the particulars of
her pedigree are not related in the Memoirs we have met with con-
cerning her.
She entered early in life into the marriage state, though not sooner
than she was qualified for it. To her husband, Sir Thomas Lucy,
of Charlcot, in Warwickshire, she was reverently amiable ; and
from him, for all the virtues which an husband can wish for in a wife,
she received as much honor as she could expect, or desire.
After this honorable pair had lived together in this near relation
for thirty years with much endearment and delight, it pleased God to
dissolve the tie, by taking away her support and honor, far dearer to
her than her very life. But it pleased God also to shew himself
very gracious to her, by upholding her, comforting her, and enabling
her prudently to manage her great estate, and to order her numerous
family with admirable wisdom, especially if we consider that- her
bodily infirmities for the most part confined her to her chamber, and
seldom permitted her to stir abroad.
She continually carried about her the burden of a weak body, but
she bore it with an exemplary patience, and improved it to her spirit-
ual advantage. It was her great affliction that she could not visit the
house of God, and attend upon the public ordinances, where God
hath promised his presence, and where we may expect his blessing.
But because she could not go from her own habitation to the house
of God she made a church, of her own house, where for several
years she every Lord's-day in the evening, unless she were prevent-
ed by extraordinary weakness, heard the preaching of the word,
strictly requiring the presence of all her family, and shewing herself
an example of great reverence, and singular attention.
Her first employment every day was her humble addresses to Al-
mighty God in secret. Her next was to read some portion out of
the divine word, and of other good and profitable books ; and indeed
she had a library well stored with most of our excellent English au-
thors. No sooner did she hear of the publication of any pious, book,
but she endeavored to make it her own, and to make herself the bet-
ter by it.
She spent much time in reading, and was able to give a good ac-
count of what she read ; for she had an excellent understanding, as
in secular so in spiritual things. Finding the benefit of this practice
as to herself, she recommended it to her children, whom she caus-
ed every day to read some portions both of the Old and New Test-
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ament in her presence and hearing. In the afternoon she employed
some time in the same manner she had done in the morning.
About an hour before supper she appointed some one of her chil-
dren to read some godly and useful sermon before herself and her
other children, frequently taking occasion of instilling into them some
pleasant and profitable instruction, and exhorting them to a constant
religious walk with God. In the evening, a little before she went to
rest, she ordered them all to come into her lodging-room, where they
joined in singing a psalm, as the servants did also constantly after sup-
per before they rose from the table ; the men-servants in the hall,
and the maid-servants in a more private room. After her children
had done singing, with many pious exhortations, and her maternal
benediction, she dismissed them, and then closed the day with secret
duties as she began it. This was her continual course.
By what has been said we may observe, that she was of a pious
spirit herself, and as careful to leave the like pious impressions upon
her children after her. Some of them tasted death before their dear
mother; yet she left ten behind her, five sons and five daughters,
who were all present at her funeral, and who all, with the children of
Solomon's virtuous woman, Prov. xxxi. 28, " called her blessed."
Next to the golden chain of graces, mentioned by St. Peter, 2
Pet. i. 5, 6, 7, with which she was eminently beautified , and the or-
nament of a meek and quiet spirit, 1 Pet. iii. 4, she accounted her
children to be her chief ornaments, and therefore her desires and
earnest endeavors were to ennoble and adorn them with all virtuous
habits, and to make them the true children of God. She knew, and
was solicitous to have them know too, that, if they would be happy,
to their great birth there must be added the new birth, that to great
kindred and alliance there must be a relation to the family of heav-
en, and that to a great estate there must be added the riches of grace,
or that else they would wish one day they had never been born. She
often inculcated it upon them that true grace is true greatness, and
that the more any of them feared and served God, the greater share
might they expect in her love.
This elect lady, to adopt the appellation of the Apostle, 2 John,
i. was much in those holy exercises by which she might make her
calling and election sure. She was much in the duties of piety, and
much in the duties of charity. Many coats and garments did this
Dorcas provide for the poor. God gave her the blessing of a great
estate, and then added even a greater blessing than that, a heart to
make a right use of it.
Every day she reached out her hands to the needy. A great
number she relieved at her gates, and gave charge to her porter, that
when there came any who were very aged, or who complained of
great losses in those dismal times of our civil wars, especially if they
seemed honest, that he should come and acquaint her, that she might
enlarge her charity to such objects, which if at any time he had neg-
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lected to do, she would probably have been as much displeased with
him, as she once was with another of her servants for neglecting an
order she had given him for the relief of some poor persons.
In the times of scarcity she sent every week many loaves to neigh-
boring towns. She caused her corn to be sold in the markets in such
small quantities as might not exceed the abilities of the poor to pur-
chase. She allowed certain meals in her house to several poor
neighbors, whose want was visible in their pale faces ; and, when
they had by her bounty recovered their former complexion, and had
received, as it were, a new life by her means, she with pleasure de-
clared, "that the sight of such an happy alteration in them did her
as much good as any thing which she herself had eaten."
She continually employed many aged men and women in such
works as were adapted to their age and strength.
When the physician came at any time to her house, she used to
inquire of him whether there were any sick persons in the town,
that, if there were any, they might enjoy the same helps with her-
self. But at all times, if any persons were ill, and she had intelli-
gence of it, she most cheerfully communicated whatsoever she
thought most conducive to their recovery, having not only great store
of cordials and restoratives always by her, but great skill and judg-
ment in the application of them.
As our Lord said to the woman of Canaan, Matt. xv. 28, "great
is thy faith," so we may say of this excellent lady, that great was
her charity ; for she well knew that faith is but a fancy without the
labor of love ; that the greater any are, the better they should be ;
that the more they have, the more good they should do; and "that
pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is," James ".
27, "to visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep
ourselves unspotted from the world." And the whole of this pure
and undefiled religion was exemplified in her; for as we have seen
that she visited the fatherless and widows, " so she kept herself un-
spotted from the world." As the Apostle says, Rom. vii. 33, "who
shall lay any thing to the charge of God's elect ?" It is God who
justifies; so may we say, who can lay any thing to the charge of this
elect lady ? It was God who sanctified her : not so as to free her
from the inherency of sin, for so he sanctifies none in this life, but
so as to deliver her from the dominion of it, and from all such acts
as would have cast a dishonor and blemish upon her, as all who knew
her must acknowledge. Her soul might be compared to a beautiful
well-cultivated garden, which was not only free from prevalent weeds,
but richly replenished with all manner of fragrant flowers and delicate
fruits. Or she might be resembled to the glorious sun, which is not
only free from spots, but full of light. As Boaz saith to Ruth,
Ruth iii. 11, that all the city knew that she was a virtuous woman;
so it might be said, that all the country knew that this was the de-
served character of this eminent lady.
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At her entrance into her last sickness, which was about a fortnight's
continuance, she apprehended that her life would be very short, and
accordingly composed and prepared herself for her dissolution ; but
yet she durst not but make use of her physicians, whose eminent
skill and fidelity she had frequently experienced, having been raised
up by them, as the instruments in the hands of God, from the very
gates of death. But the time was come, when, as the poet says,
"Non est in medico semper relevetur ut aeger;
Interdum docta plus valet arte malum."*
ENGLISHED.
Sometimes the best physicians cannot heal
The dire diseases which their patients feel,
But spite of all their med'cines, all their art,
Victorious death plants his unerring dart.
The last words of this pious lady were, "My God, I come flying
unto thee." Presently after, her soul took its flight hence, and her
bodv quietly slept in the Lord, anno Christi, 1648.
Such were her humility and modesty, that, although in that mag-
nificent monument she erected for her husband, she caused herself
to be laid by him in her full proportion, yet she would not suffer her
epitaph to bear any proportion to his, conceiving that the most that
could be said of him was too little, and that the least that could be
said of herself was too much. She was unwilling that any thing at
all should be said of herself, but, when that might not be permitted,
she would by no means allow of any more to be inscribed concern-
ing her than this, "her observance of her dearest husband, while she
enjoyed him, and her remembrance of him by that monument when
she had lost him." Only one thing more was added, but much
against her will, namely, that her other exquisite virtues were forbid-
den by her excessive modesty to make their appearance on that
marble.
Ovidius de Pont.
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THE RIGHT HONORABLE
L.AJ3Y FRANCES HOBART.
This noble lady was born in London, in the year 1603. She
was the eldest of eight daughters, who all grew up to mature age,
with which it pleased God to bless the Right Honorable John Earl of
Bridgewater, Viscount Brackley, and Lord Ellesmere, Lord Presi-
dent of Wales, by his noble Lady, Frances, daughter of the Right
Honorable Ferdinando, Earl of Derby.
The lady, the subject of our Memoirs, had no sooner passed out
of the care of her nurse, and begun to speak, but she was in her
father's house intrusted to the tuition of a French governess, from
whom she learned to pronounce the French tongue before she could
distinctly speak English ; an accomplishment which she retained to
her dying day : and having her organs of speech so early formed to
this language, she so naturally accented it, that the natives of France
could hardly be persuaded that she was born in England.
The years of her minority were spent in learning what was proper
for that very early age, and that might qualify her for that noble sta-
tion in which, if Providence spared her life, she was to appear in the
world. She was now instructed in playing upon the lute, in singing,
&c. ; things of which in her after-life she made little or no use, and
which were even less in her esteem; but they fitted her for the court,
with which she was to be acquainted, before' her removal into the
country. She was taught also to read, to write, and cast accounts
with great skill and exactness, to use her needle, and order the af-
fairs of a family ; qualifications which in future time proved of extra-
ordinary advantage both to herself and her husband. She was also
in these younger days of her time, partly by the diligence of her
governess, partly by the pains of one Mr. Moor, her father's chaplain,
and partly by the superintending care of the earl her father, fully in-
structed in the principles of religion ; as to which she would often
mention with particular honor her father and her governess, and the
last especially, for the good histories she would tell her, and the good
counsel she instilled into her. She gratefully remembered how ex-
actly the hours of her days were portioned out for the several kinds
of instruction, so that no time was left her except a small allowance
for exercise, and what was granted her for her private devotions, as
to which her governess was her most faithful monitor, or for the more
public religious duties of the family, in which her constant presence
was required by her father.
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Having attained to riper years, she was frequently at the court of
King James and Queen Ann, and was in great favor with the queen,
and King Charles the First, then Prince of Wales. She made fre-
quent sad reflections upon this period of her life, for misspending a
part of many Lord's-days in masques, and other court pastimes, ac-
cording to the custom of others in like circumstances. This she
would often mention with bitterness, and with a commendation of
one of her noble sisters who had in her youth a just sense of the
error of such conduct, and courage enough to resist the temptations
to it. It was the only thing in which a divine, who was well ac-
quainted with her, declared that he ever heard her repent her obe-
dience to her mother, and her attendance upon her.
The noble soul of this lady was ordained for higher things than
balls, and masques, and visits. It was now time for a plant nurtured
with so rare a cultivation to be removed into another place, that her
God might have the glory, and her generation the fruit of such an
education. Her native beauty, and the excellent mind she began to
discover, made many noble persons desire her in marriage ; but at
length, with the approbation of her parents, she chose for her hus-
band Sir John Hobart, of Bricklin, in the county of Norfolk, Bart.,
who was the eldest son of Sir Henry Hobart, at that time Lord Chief
Justice, and Chancellor to the Prince. He was a person, indeed, as
to title, in the lowest order of nobility, but his estate bore a full pro-
portion to his quality, and his noble spirit and temper far better suit-
ed his excellent lady, than a higher ascent in the scale of honor, with
a different spirit and temper, would have done.
In her conjugal relation she had become more conspicuous. She
was now, as it were, planted upon an hill, in which those good seeds
which had been sown in her ingenuous soul during her minority
sprung up, and yielded abundant fruit in the whole of that triple ca-
pacity to which this relation, in some little succession of time, brought
her, that of a wife to a worthy husband — that of a mother of children
— and that of a governess to a numerous family of servants.
If we consider the constituents of a good wife as living in chasti-
ty— in the prudent management of the affairs of the household^-in
respect to her husband's person, a concealment of his weaknesses,
and in an obedience to his commands, together with a due sympathy,
and patient and cheerful participation with him in the vicissitudes of
Providence with which he was exercised, and above all, a serious
and tender regard to the salvation of the soul of her husband, this
most worthy lady will be found to have deserved the highest praise.
As to chastity, she judged it not enough to be in this respect vir-
tuous, unless she lived above the suspicion of the contrary. She
would often mention a saying of her mother's on this head, " that
temptations to the violation of the honor of ladies in this particular,
look their rise from a carriage too light and familiar in themselves,
and ihnt man was suffered to come loo near who came to be denied,"
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Her constant behavior, therefore, was that of an affability, ever tem-
pered with gravity ; and they both shone in such an inseparable con-
junction, as spread a glory upon her character.
As to her prudent management of the affairs of her household, she
was not only so vigilant as that it was no easy thing for any servant to
impose upon her, but she also extended her regard to concerns which
were more extrinsical, and not the ordinary province of women ; for
finding her husband encumbered with a great debt, she undertook the
management of his whole estate, and the auditing of all his accounts,
and so happily succeeded in the business, as to diminish several thou-
sand pounds of the sums which he owed.
Her respect to her husband's person, her concealment of his weak-
nesses, and her obedience to his commands, were evinced not only
in words, but in actions ; and she shewed that she had learned that
precept of sacred writ, Eph. v. 22, "Wives submit yourselves to your
own husbands as unto the Lord ; for the husband is the head of the
wife, even as Christ is the head of the Church."
Most remarkable was this lady's kind sympathy with her husband,
in those bodily afflictions with which it pleased the divine Providence
to visit him. From their first marriage he was visited with afflictions,
though in different degrees, and his noble consort seemed to be allot-
ted to him as much for a nurse as for a wife. Her care for him, and
tenderness of him, was beyond expression, of which the writer* of
her Memoirs " declares he was an eye-witness for the seven or eight
last months of his life, when his distempers lay heaviest upon him.
In the day-time she confined herself to his chamber, seldom leaving
him for so much as an hour ! unless to attend upon public ordinan-
ces, to take her meals, or perform her secret devotions. In the night
she watched with him to such a strange excess, as some may deem
it, that all about her wondered how her tender frame could bear the
continual fatigue, seldom laying herself down to take any rest till two
or three o'clock in the morning, and then taking it upon an ordinary
couch in his chamber, where she might hear every groan, and be at
hand to render her husband every service in her power."
But this is not all. She was as much a meet help for her husband
as to the things of eternity, and the salvation of his soul, as in the con-
cerns of the present life. The familiar appellation which her hus-
band generally used in speaking to her was, " My dear saint ;" and
this not without good reason, from the experience he had had of her
in spiritual things. No sooner had God wrought a change in the heart
* Dr. John Collinses. He drew up a piece entitled "The Excellent Woman,"
discoursed more privately from Prov. xxxi. 29, 30, 31, upon occasion of the death of
the Right Honorable the Lady Frances Hobart, and prefixed it with what he calls
"A short Accourit of her holy Life and Death." To this account we are obliged for
the Memoirs we are giving of this lady, and in several places have made large quo-
tations from it.
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of this noble lady, but there sprung up with it a great solicitude for
the best interests of the companion of her life. By her prudent ad-
monitions, and pathetic entreaties, he was recovered from the vanities
he had indulged in, in his youth, so as to abhor the things in which
he had formerly delighted, and to inquire after, choose, and find his
pleasure in those good ways of God, with which formerly he had no
acquaintance, and against which, for want of a due knowledge, he
had conceived a prejudice. He now unweariedly desired and was
present at private fasts, and other religious duties, and admonished
his friends, and severely reproved others, and especially his servants,
as to those errors which had once been too much his practice and
delight. In short, by the blessing of God upon the public ministry
of the word, upon which he now diligently attended, and the more
private means of his excellent lady, he was brought to so good an
hope, through grace, for several months before he died, as without
perturbation to view death every day making its near approaches to
him, and at last, not without testimony of a true hope in God, quietly
to commit his soul into the hands of his blessed Redeemer.
Having viewed this lady in her marriage-relation, we shall next
consider her as a parent. She was the mother of nine children, of
which only one, a daughter, lived to marriageable years, the rest
all dying either in their infancy, or before they had arrived to ma-
ture age.
This young lady was married to an honorable and worthy person,
Sir John Hobart, Bart., the heir of her father's honors and family,
by whom it pleased God, after some years, to give her a son, which
she did not long survive, being taken away from our world many
years before the death of her mother. The son she left behind
soon followed her to the grave ; and thus did the good lady, the sub-
ject of our Memoirs, live to see God stripping her of every branch
that had sprung from her, though he had a better name with which
to crown and comfort her, than that of sons and daughters.
"Concerning her deportment," says the writer of her life, "to
her other children, while she enjoyed them, I can say nothing, not
having had the advantage of knowing her till some years after God
had deprived her of them ; only 1 may rationally presume it was not
unlike to what she shewed to the only survivor. For her I could
say much, if, while she had a being with us, by her pious disposition,
affable and ingenuous temper, and most virtuous conversation ; in
short, by whatsoever accomplishments could perfect and adorn a
young and virtuous lady, she had not both approved herself to all to
whom she was known, and also commended her by whom she was
educated to such a pitch of feminine perfection. The instruction of
her father which she heard, and the law of her mother which she
did not forsake, proved an ornament of grace unto her head, and as
chains of gold and oriental pearls about her neck. And indeed, as
there was nothing wanting in nature to accomplish that young and
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excellent lady, so her virtuous mother had resolved that nothing
should be wanting which either her own care, or the art of others,
could help her to. Nor did this rare lady shew more of a mother
to her while she lived, than of a Christian mother when it pleased
God to extinguish this light of her eyes, and quench this only coal
which she had left her, taking her death with that due sense which
became so tender and indulgent a mother, and yet with that patience
and fortitude which became not only her rational spirit, which con-
sidered that she had brought forth a mortal daughter, but also a sub-
missive Christian who had learned not to repine against Heaven, but
in great measure to melt down her own into the divine will."
We shall next consider this noble person in the relation of a mis-
tress to a numerous family of servants ; and it may be truly said of
her, that she acquitted herself in it with an equal honor to that with
which she adorned her other capacities in life. She behaved her-
self in such a manner to her domestics as that her carriage would
not allow them to be proud and malapert on one side, nor discour-
aged into a servility and baseness of spirit on the other. After the
choice of her servants devolved entirely on herself, her great care in
the first place was to procure persons for her household who feared
God. She ever preferred the virtuous and sober. She might in-
deed as to such be once and again deceived, but none were ever
suffered to continue in her house when she had once discovered
them to be drunkards, unclean persons, profane swearers, or cursers,
enemies to religion and godliness, or in any way wicked and scanda-
lous ; and her eye was so much upon her family, and her care so
much employed in the discipline of it, that it was not easy for any
such persons to be long concealed, but they were quickly seen in
their true light, either by herself, or her steward.
She not only amply provided for the comfortable maintenance of
her servants, but she also bestowed a more than ordinary concern for
the better interests of their immortal souls. In short, there were
none who served her who would not praise her in the gates ; none
who ever waited upon her but what would rise up and call her
blessed.
We shall now view this excellent lady in the third and last period
of her life, when she became a widow. " In this state," says her
biographer, " she was indeed best known to me, as I had the happi-
ness of waiting upon her during this whole time, and for some little
time before, (about seven or eight months,) whence I shall begin my
story. It was in September, 1646,* that I was invited by Sir John
Hobart, at that time alive, to take my chamber in his house, while
I discharged my ministerial office in the city, (Norwich,) and to take
* Dr. Collinges was then only about twenty three years of age. What an excel-
lent spirit, and uncommon endeavors to do good, this man of God discovered so early
in life, will be made abundantly evident from the Memoirs of the lady.
LADY FRANCES HOBART. SI
some oversight of his family in the things of God, Sir John himself
having been lately a valetudinarian, and the family without any spirit-
ual guide. I found it in some disorder, and the several persons in
it, the daughter only excepted, being persons grown in years, I ap-
prehended it no easy matter to reduce it to a due religious order and
discipline. My design was, it being a family of much leisure, to
bring it into a course of prayer, in conformity to David's pattern,
morning, evening, and at noon-time, reading some portion of Scrip-
ture every day, and expounding it, as my leisure would allow me,
together with catechising once in the week, a stricter observation of
the Lord's-day, and repetitions of sermons, both on that, and other
days, when we had attended upon the public ordinances. I did not
do this as thinking it was what God required of all families, but be-
cause I thought God expected more of us to whom he had given
more leisure from the distracting concerns of the world, because my
hands at that time were not so full of more public employment, but
that I could attend this more than ordinary service in the family, and
indeed because I thought I saw the family so much behind-hand as
to spiritual knowledge, as that ordinary performances in a short time
were not likely to reach the end at which I aimed.
"As to the generality of the servants, I feared this alteration might
prove like the putting new wine into old bottles, and be judged a
yoke that they were not able to bear. I therefore first communica-
ted my thoughts to my lady, Sir John's sickly state not allowing much
liberty for discourse at that time. Her ladyship cheerfully approving
my thoughts, propounded them to her husband, who, with great ex-
pressions of thankfulness, signified his approbation to me, and com-
manded the servants diligently to attend the duties ; and himself,
when his infirmities would permit him, was never ordinarily absent
for some time at our prayers. At noon and night he was with them.
The morning-service was by seven of the clock, rarely after eight,
from which her ladyship, unless in a bed of sickness, in eighteen
years, I think, was hardly twice absent, and was commonly with the
first of the family in the room where they were performed, before
her sickly state brought them to her own chamber.
"The business of catechising was more difficult, but yet it was
made easy by the parents prevailing with their own daughter to go
before the family in a noble example, which she continued till she
had attained a competent knowledge in the most necessary princi-
ples of religion. From the time I first came into the family it pleas-
ed God to keep Sir John Hobart in a dying condition, though he had
some more lucid intervals than others, and within less than eight
months God removed him into a better life. It was his great satis-
faction all along his sickness to see his dear daughter making such a
proficiency in the knowledge of the things of God, and so willing to
set an example to his family; and he mentioned it as his dying com-
fort, that he had seen his family, before his death, in a course of re-
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formation, which he doubted not but his lady would bring to per-
fection."
To come directly to that period of her life, her ladyship's widow-
hood. Now she sat solitary, mourning as a turtle that had lost her
mate, and for a while knew not how to be comforted, because he was
not. Having recovered herself from her distress, and learned to
hold her peace because it was the Lord's doing, she made it her
first request to Dr. Collinges to stay with her, and keep on the course
of religious duties in the family, which he had begun, proposing to
him a high encouragement from an assurance that he should find hery
according to the pattern of the man after God's own heart, endeav-
oring "to walk in her house with a perfect heart — that those who
were of a fro ward spirit should depart from her — that her eyes
should be upon the faithful of the land, that they might dwell with
her — that they who wrought deceit should not dwell in her house —
that he who told lies should not tarry in her sight."* To which
resolutions she afterwards strictly adhered. To give herself the ad-
vantage of doing good to the souls of many, she at no small expense
converted some less useful lower rooms of her house into a chapely
which would conveniently hold more than two hundred persons*
Here she engaged the above mentioned minister to preach a lecture
every week, and to repeat one or both of his sermons every Lord's
day at night, after the more public sermons were over in the city,
which for sixteen years was continued to a very full auditory, and to
the great benefit of many younger persons, and of those who had
not such advantages as they desired in their own houses, for hearing
again what they had been hearing in the day time. This work of
piety was the more remarkable, as her ladyship's chapel lying in the
way to that field, where young persons had formerly been used to
profane the latter part of the Lord's-day, by idle walks and recrea-
tions, happily intercepted many of them, and proved, from the ex-
ample of it, an allurement to them to a further reverence of the
Sabbath ; and, from the instructions they heard there, the happy
means of an acquaintance with God and their duty. After this her
ladyship engaged Dr. Collinges, above named, to preach a morning
sermon on the Lord's-day, those monthly days only excepted when
he was to administer the communion of the Lord's Supper more
publicly. This course she continued so long as the good doctor had
liberty to preach, or her ladyship had liberty to hear.
This most worthy lady having thus served her generation accor-
ding to the will of God, her time came when she was to fall asleep,
or rather when as a shock of corn she was to be gathered in her
season.
* Psalm ci.
LADY FRANCES HOBART. 83
The time of her last sickness, the dropsy, which seized her some-
thing more than half a year before her death, afforded no great va-
riety of temper as to her spiritual condition. She kept on her course
of religious duties in her house and chamber, as formerly. Her
work was finished both as to the present and future life, her house
and her soul were set in order, so that she had little to do but to be
still, and wait for the salvation of God the remaining days of her ap-
pointed lime, till her change came. " I do not remember," says Dr.
Collinges, " that during her long illness she more than twice discov-
ered to me any conflicts in her spirit, though I constantly attended
upon her, and as constantly inquired into the frame of her spirit.
She had sown in tears before, and had now nothing to do but to reap
in joy. Her death was a long time foreseen both by her, and by
ourselves, but as to the particular time we were somewhat surprised,
for, when she probably thought the day of her change at some dis-
tance, she lost her senses, and her speech, after two or three days
quietly fell asleep in the evening of the Lord's day, Nov. 27, 1664.
"Thus lived, thus died," says her worthy Biographer "this twice
noble, excellent lady, about the sixty-first year of her age, possibly
the brightest example of piety, and truest pattern of honor, liber-
ality, temperance, humility, and courtesy, which it hath pleased
God in this last age to shew in that part of the world where he had
fixed her. A woman, indeed, not without her infirmities ; to assert
that, were to discharge her from her relation to human nature ; but
as they were of no reproachable magnitude, and the products of
natural temperature, not of vicious habits, so they were so much
outshone by her eminent graces and virtues, as that a curious eye
could hardly take notice of them. In a word, none ever lived more
desired, or died more universally lamented, by all worthy persons in
the city of Norwich, to which she was related.
She was buried in a vault belonging to the family of her dear
and noble husband, at Blicklin, in Norfolk, December 1, 1664,
therein paying her deceased husband a last obedience, who as I
have heard her pleasantly say, made it his first request to her on the
day of her marriage."
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liABY LET-ICE*
VISCOUNTESS FALKLAND
[Written in a Letter to her Mother, the Lady Morisojv, at Great Tew, in
Oxfordshire]
Madam,— It is the desire of some honorable personages to have
an exact account of the death of your most dear daughter, the Lady
Falkland ; they being acquainted with much piety in her life, expect
(as well they may) somewhat remarkable in her sickness and death.
For your comfort, and their satisfaction, I have gathered together
some scattered particulars of her life, sickness, and death, and have
sent them unto you, that the most precious perfume of her name
being poured out, (like Mary Magdalen's box of spikenard,) may fill
your, and their houses.
And though this relation of so many eminent virtues in her, would
not, perhaps, have appeared so delicate from your own pen, (because
so deep a share of the praise belongs to you,) yet you need not blush
at the delivering of it ; it may be consistent with your modesty, to
be a witness of the truth of these particulars, though not to be a
publisher of them.
And if the memory of that most holy lady continue precious
amongst us; and her holy example efficacious with us; and God,
who sanctified her here, and now glorifies her in heaven, be magni-
fied and honored for his mercies and graces, I have all I aim at.
I shall relate somewhat remarkable in the very beginning of her
Christian race ; more, in her progress and proficiency in it ; and
then come to the last stages, when the crown, at the end of the race,
was, as it were, within her view.
This elect lady set out early in the ways of God, in the morning
of her age : there was care taken while she was young, that she
should be brought up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord ;
she came not from her nurse's arms, without some knowledge of the
principles of the Christian religion.
While she was very young, her obedience to her parents (which
she extended also to her aunt, who had some charge over her in her
father's house,) was very exact ; and as she began, so she continued
in this gracious and mild temper of duty. I have heard you say,
madam, that you cannot remember any one particular, wherein, at
any time, she disobeyed her father, or you.
MEMOIRS, &C. B5
That her time might not be misspent, nor her employments tedi-
ous to her, the several hours of the day had a variety of employments
assigned to them ; and the intermixing of prayer, reading, writing,
working, and walking, brought a pleasure to each of them in their
courses ; so that the day was carried about faster than she would ;
and she began in this her youth to abridge herself of her sleep, and
was oftentimes at a book in her closet when she was thought to be
in bed.
You remember well, I presume, the purse her young fingers
wrought for her own alms, and how importunately she would beg
your loose money to fill it ; and as earnest she was in emptying it
too ; the poor seldom went from the house, without the alms of the
young daughter, as well as of the parents.
And how constant she was then, at her private prayer, I know, by
what I have heard from the keeper of your house : when strangers
were in her own room, where she ordinarily had her retirements, he
was called to give her the key of some other chamber for that pur-
pose : at her hour of prayer, she would procure a new oratory,
rather than omit or defer that duty.
And how powerful with God the lifting up her pure hands, every
where in this her innocent childhood was, soon appeared : for while
her holiness was in the bud, a violent attempt was made to blast it.
About the thirteenth year of her age there was a storm of temptation
raised in her, and some arguments the tempter had suggested to drive
her to despair of God's mercy towards her : and this I note the rather,
because it is not ordinary at such years to have attained to that growth,
as to be thought fit for those encounters : but God upheld this young
twig, against such a storm, which hath torn up many a fair tree : for
after some anguish of spirit, and patience in the combat, and earnest
prayers, God's grace was sufficient for her ; and surely it was not
the strength of her hands at this age, but the pureness of them,
which prevailed for her.
Some there are, whom God leads from the spiritual Egypt to
Canaan, not by this way of the Philistines, lest they should repent
when they see war, and turn back again into Egypt, Exod. xiii. 17.
But her, it seems, God trained up in this military course : and from
her youth exercised her in it, that she might be expert at it.
After this conquest, her soul enjoyed much peace and tranquillity,
and she went on most cheerfully in holy duties ; and tasted much
comfort and delight in them : and her heart was ever so full, that
out of the abundance of it she would say, " Oh what an incompara-
ble sweetness there is in the music of David's harp ! Oh, what heav-
enly joy there is in those psalms, and in prayers, and praises to God !
How amiable are the courts of God's house ! how welcome the days
of his solemn worship !"
And now, nothing could hinder her from those holy assemblies ;
every Lord's-day constantly, forenoon and afternoon, she would be
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with the earliest at them : sometimes (when she wanted a conveni-
ence of riding,) she walked cheerfully three or four miles a day, as
young and as weak as she was, to them : and at night she accounted
the joys and the refreshments, of which her soul had been partaker,
a sufficient recompense for the extreme weariness of her body.
And within a short while, by reading good authors, and by frequent
converse with learned men, she improved (by God's help) her natu-
ral talents of understanding and reason, to a great degree of wisdom
and knowledge.
And now these riches, of her piety, wisdom, quickness of wit,
discretion, judgment, sobriety, and gravity of behavior, being once
perceived by Sir Lucius Cary,* seemed portion enough to him :
these were they he prized above worldly inheritances, and those
other fading accessions, which most men court.
And she being married to him, riches and honor, and all other
worldly prosperity, flow in upon her ; and consequently to proceed in
holiness and godliness grows an harder task, than before it seemed to
be : it being much more difficult when riches and honor thus increase,
then, not to set our hearts upon them.
Yet God strengthened her by his grace for this also : for when
possession was given her of stately palaces, pleasantly seated, and
most curiously and fully furnished, and of revenues and royalties
answerable, though your ladyship hath heard her acknowledge God's
great goodness towards her, for these temporal preferments, yet nei-
ther you, nor any of her friends, could perceive her heart any whit
exalted with joy for them.
They were of the Babylonians' retinue, who, when they had seen
Hezekiah's riches and treasures, set their hearts upon them, Isaiah
xxxix. This true Israelite reserved her affections for those riches
which never fade, and for those dwellings which are above, where
the city is of pure gold, and the walls garnished with precious stones.
This confluence of all worldly felicities and contentments, did so
little affect her, that there were some seemed displeased at it ; and
then she would attribute much of it to a melancholic disease, which
was upon her; and though I deny not but that some worldly delights
might fall by the hand of her melancholy, yet, doubtless, where the
disease slew its hundreds, grace slew its ten thousands.
In this condition some years passed, during which time she was
most constant at prayers and sermons, and frequently received the
blessed sacrament; and although now and then she felt not her wont-
ed spiritual comforts, but instead of them had some anguish and bit-
terness of spirit ; yet by the advice of good divines, and by her ordi-
nary help of prayer, she soon recovered her peace and joy.
Thus in the several conditions of youth, and ripe years of virgin-
ity, and marriage, and amongst contrary temptations, of adversity
* See Note at the end of this Memoir.
LADY FALKLAND. 87
and prosperity, affliction and comfort, she continues that course of
holy life which she had begun ; a great proficiency this, yet I crave
leave to reckon it all into her beginning, for this was but slow in res-
pect of that great agility and quick speed she attained unto, in the
other part of her spiritual race.
Her proficiency and progress I shall account from that time when
her prosperity began to abate ; when her dear lord and most beloved
husband, that he might be like Zebulun, a student helping the Lord
against the mighty, (Judges v. 14,) went from his library to the camp;
from his book and pen, to his sword and spear; and the consequence
of that, an inevitable necessity that she must now be separated from
hira, for a while, whom she loved more than all the things of this
world : this was a sad beginning ; but that total separation, which,
soon after, death made between him and her, that he should be
taken away by an untimely death, and by a violent death too, — this,
this was a most sore affliction to her : the same sword which killed
him pierced her heart also.
And this heavy affliction which God sent upon her, she interpreted
for a loud call from Heaven, to a further proficiency in piety and
virtue.
And yet she fears it may be a punishment also upon her, for some
sin or other, and therefore strictly examines herself, and ransacks
every corner of her heart, to find out wherein she had provoked
God to lay this great affliction on her ; and to make sure, she re-
news her repentance for all her transgressions ; and her godly sor-
row for her sins past is as fresh as if it had been for the sins of yes-
terday.
And now she addresses herself to a divine of great eminence for
piety and learning ; and from him she takes directions for a more
strict course of life in this her widowhood, than formerly ; now she
forgetting quite what was behind, presses forward to what was be-
fore, and, as if she had done nothing yet, she begins anew.
And though the greatest part of her Christian work was locked
up close within herself, and some of it very studiously and indus-
triously concealed by her, (that she might be sure no degree of vain
glory should creep upon her with it,) yet much of it appeared, by
the effects, and is now forced to come abroad before us.
Her first and grand employment was, to read and understand, and
then (to the utmost of her strength,) to practice our most blessed
Savior's Sermon upon the Mount, in the fifth, sixth, and seventh
chapters of St. Matthew's gospel ; and having read over a most
complete (though compendious) Comment upon that Sermon, she
set forthwith upon the work of practising it, and began with those
virtues to which the beatitudes are annexed.
And her mercifulness was none of those virtues which she could
at all conceal from us ; much of her estate (we saw) given yearly
to those of her kindred, which were capable of charity from her :
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and some of her near neighbors, who were very old, and not able to
work ; or very young, and not fit for work, were wholly maintained
by her : to other poor children she contributed much, both for their
spiritual and their temporal well being, by erecting a school for them,
where they were to be taught both to read and to work : much care
she took, that no man, or woman, or child, should want employment;
that their own hands might bring them in a competent subsistence ;
and accounted that the best arrangement of her estate, which set
most poor people on work ; for if it were to their profit, she little
regarded her own detriment in it.
So that her principal care herein, was to keep them from idleness,
that root of all sin and wickedness; for by another method she might
have received more profit, and thereby have been better able to re-
lieve them, though by this only she was able to set them at work.
A most eminent piece of mercifulness this, where temporal and
spiritual mercy went together, and wisdom guided both.
And for the poor at home, and for strangers at the door, she was
very charitable in feeding the hungry, and refreshing the faint and
weak ; and for clothing the naked. In some extremities you might
see this lady herself go up and down the house, and beg garments
from her servants' backs, (whom she requited soon after with new,)
that the poor might not go naked or cold from her door : so that she
was not only a liberal almoner to the poor, but also an earnest solici-
tor for them : and when it was objected, that many idle and wicked
people were by this course of charity relieved at her house, her an-
swer was : "I know not their hearts, and in their outward carriage
and speech they all appear to me good and virtuous, and I had rather
relieve five unworthy vagrants than that one member of Christ should
go empty away." And for harboring strangers, the many inconve-
niences ordinarily ensuing upon it, could not deter her from it ; some-
times for some weeks together they were entertained by her.
And since her death, I hear of plentiful relief, here, at London,
and at Oxford, sent privately to prisons, and needy persons, with a
strict charge that it should not be known from whence it came ; she
would not have her left hand know what her right hand gave.
And this, her mercifulness, could not be bounded within the limits
of friends, it extended itself to her enemies too : when there were
many of them taken prisoners by the king's soldiers, and in great
need, she consulted how she might send relief to them : and when
it was answered, that such an act would raise jealousies in some, of
her loyalty to his majesty, she replied, "No man will suspect my
loyalty because I relieve these prisoners, but he would suspect my
Christianity, if he should see me relieve a needy Turk, or Jew :
however, I had rather be so misunderstood, if this my secret alms
should be known, than that any of my enemies, the worst of them,
should perish for want of it."
LADY FALKLAND. 89
And this one instance, and reason of hers, is ground enough to
believe, she failed not to relieve her enemies, as often as occasion
required.
But, beyond all, her mercifulness towards the sick was most lau-
dable : her provision of antidotes against infection, and of cordials,
and several sorts of physic for such of her neighbors as should need
them, amounted yearly to very considerable sums : and though, in
distributing such medicinal provisions, her hand was very open, yet
it was close enough in applying them : her skill, indeed, was more
than ordinary, and her wariness too.
When any of the poor neighbors were sick, she had a constant
care, that they should neither want such relief nor such attendance
as their weak condition called for ; and, if need were, she hired
nurses to serve them : and her own frequent visiting of the poorest
cottagers, and her ready service to them on their sick bed, argued
as great humility, as mercifulness in her ; yet the books of spiritual
exhortations she carried in her hand to these sick persons, declared
a further design she had therein, of promoting them towards heaven,
by reading to them, and by administering words of holy counsel to
them : "There is no season more fit," she would say, "for sowing
good seed, than this; while the ground of their hearts is softened,
and melting with sorrow and sickness." And to gain this advantage
it was that she was so frequent a visitor of the sick, going day after
day to their bed-side. This honorable lady hath been observed sit-
ting in a cottage, waiting the sick woman's leisure, till the slumbers
and fits were over, that she might read again to her, and finish the
work she had begun.
And of late, when she could not do this good office in her own
person, (she growing sickly and weak,) yet she would do it still by
proxy; for some of her friends or servants were deputed by her to
go to the sick, with her books too, daily; and now and then most of
her family, who were fit for such employment, were sent abroad on
this errand.
Thus ordinarily in all her works of outward mercy she added
works of spiritual mercy too ; relieving the wants of the body, and
of the soul together, instructing and exhorting, and earnestly per-
suading the poor and the sick to some virtue or other, for their soul's
health.
For meekness, also, she was most eminent. She was second to
none of her sex and age, I believe, among us, for perspicuity of un-
derstanding and clearness of judgment ; yet as far from self-conceit
as from ignorance : her way, indeed, was, upon debates, to object
till all arguments she could think of to the contrary were satisfied ;
and when that was once done, no cavil was heard, but her assent
readily given ; and this ready submission of her judgment to the
best reasons, I mention, for the meekness of her understanding :
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herein this lady excelled some of the chiefest rabbis, that her knowl-
edge did not puff up, but edify.
And her understanding leading the way in meekness, her will
cheerfully followed in it too : as soon as her understanding was satis-
fied, her will bowed presently and obeyed : she seldom refused to
do, what she was convinced was fit to be done.
The greater difficulty was with her affections : her natural temper
she would often complain inclined her to anger ; and being so well
aware of it, she most diligently observed herself, and did, in a great
degree, conquer that froward inclination ; and that good measure of
meekness, in this kind, which she attained to, was the more com-
mendable, because of the many great difficulties she met with in it.
And now after the exercise of all these virtues in this high degree,
such a poverty of spirit was apparent in her, as was most admirable :
upon all occasions bewailing her weaknesses, and lamenting her spir-
itual wants : there were some about her who had an holy emulation
to be like her, in these, and such like graces and virtues ; and she
hath now and then overheard them wishing, that they were as for-
ward as she ; and her constant reply was, "Oh, ye are not so back-
ward ! yet wish yourselves better ; ye know not how vile and cor-
rupt my heart is." So that in some respects she accounted herself
the greatest of sinners ; in no respect would she esteem better of
herself, than of the least of saints ; a well-wisher towards holiness,
and a beginner still.
Thus she daily practised these graces and virtues, to which our
Savior annexed such special blessings ; and studied to be still more
and more perfect in them, with as much diligence as the scholar doth
his lesson, and with as much success and good speed too.
And from this sermon of our blessed Savior she learned that
duty of prayer ; and her chief practice therein she could not con-
ceal from us neither, which was as follows :
First, she spent some hours every day in her private devotions
and meditations ; these were called, 1 remember, by those of her
family, her busy hours ; prayers, her business : Martha's employ-
ment was her recreation, she had spare hours for it ; Mary's was
her business.
Then her maids came into her chamber early every morning, and
ordinarily she passed about an hour with them, in praying, and cate-
chising and instructing them ; to these secret and private prayers, the
public morning and evening prayers of the Church, before dinner
and supper; and another form, (together with the reading scriptures,
and singing psalms,) before bed-time, were daily and constantly added.
To pray with David seven times a day or with Daniel three times,
is expected perhaps only from such persons as have leisure and op-
portunity : but with the sons of Levi to offer up morning and evening
sacrifice every day, this she required from the busiest servant in the
house, that at the outgoings of the morning and evening, every one
should praise God and call upon his name.
LADY FALKLAND. 91
Neither were these holy offices peculiar to her menial servants,
others came freely to join with them, and her oratory was as open
to her neighbors as her hall was.
On the Lord's-day she rose in the morning earlier than ordinarily ;
yet enjoined herself so much private duty with her children and ser-
vants, examining them in the sermons and catechising, &c. and with
her own soul, that oftentimes the day was too short for her ; and
th'en I have known her rise two or three hours before day on Monday,
to supply what was left undone the day before.
To dispose herself the better for the religious keeping of the
Lord's-day, as well as for other spiritual ends, I presume it was, that
she so solemnly fasted every Saturday ; that day she sequestered her-
self from company, and from worldly employment, and came seldom
out of her closet till towards evening, and then the chaplain must
double the sacrifice ; prayers she had and catechising both.
And her care to prepare herself for the receiving of the holy Sa-
crament of our most blessed Lord's Supper was most commendable
and most punctual : oftentimes scruples and fears arose in her, tend-
ing to keep her back from that heavenly banquet ; and she having,
upon examination of them, reason enough, as we thought, to con-
clude that they were temptations from the devil, whom she perceiv-
ed laboring amain to deprive her of that strength and comfort which
she hoped to receive from that sacred ordinance, neglected them all,
and presented herself with an humble and trembling heart, at that
blessed Sacrament ; and these fears and scruples in her occasioned
this peremptory resolution from her, that she would not, by God's
help, thenceforth omit any opportunity of communication. Thus
while the devil was undermining to weaken her, she was countermining
to strengthen herself more against him : which resolution she con-
stantly kept at home, and, I am told, at Oxford and London too, the
first inquiry almost after her journey thither, was, where and when is
there a communion ? And sometimes she would go to the other end
of the city for it.
At home her servants were all urged to accompany her to the
Sacrament ; and they who were prevailed with, gave up their names
to her two or three days before, and from thence she applied herself
to the instructing of them ; and she knew well how to administer to
every one their particular portion ; and several exhortations she had
for several persons whom she had power over.
Yet she trusted not in her own instructions of them, but desired
the chaplain's help also to examine them, and to instruct them far-
ther ; and her care was so to order her domestic affairs, that all
those servants, who were to receive the Sacrament, should have the
day before it free from their ordinary work, that they might have
better leisure for that spiritual work of preparing themselves for that
Sacrament.
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And after the holy Sacrament, she called them together again,
and gave them such exhortations as were proper for them.
And this very care and piety in family duties was so highly es-
teemed in Abraham, that God made him one of his privy coun-
cil, (as I may so say,) for that alone, Gen. xviii. 17. And might
not the singular wisdom and deep knowledge of divine counsels, and
heavenly mysteries, which this daughter of Abraham had, be a re-
ward of that care to instruct her children and household in the ways
of God ?
Yet while she is thus religiously and piously employed in this good
proficiency, and far progress, going on from grace to grace, from vir-
tue to virtue ; God hath a further design upon her, another affliction
to quicken her yet more.
Her young and most dear son, Lorenzo, whom God had endowed
with the choicest of natural abilities, and to whom her affections were
most tender, by reason of those fair blossoms of piety she perceived
in him, God takes away from her.
This added to her former troubles of the loss of her husband, of
her crosses in the world, and of her spiritual affliction, which came
often upon her, makes the burthen most heavy ; she was bruised
with afflictions before, but now she fears being ground to powder.
Now she weeps and mourns all the day long, and at night also
waters her couch with tears; and weeping, saith, "Ah! this im-
moderate sorrow must be repented of, these tears wept over again:"
and this quick sense of displeasing God, by this deep grief, soon al-
layed the vehemence of it. And now she retires herself to listen
what the Lord God said unto her, in this louder call of affliction ;
and she seems to think that she was not yet weaned enough from
the things of this world, and that it is expedient for her, that some
of those worldly comforts she most delighted in, should be taken
away from her, that her conversation may be yet more spiritual and
heavenly, and therefore this affliction seemed to call her to a greater
disregard of the world, and to a nearer conformity to Christ her Lord.
Yet still her sorrow for her son is somewhat excessive, she fears,
and therefore she goes to her chaplain again, and acquaints him with
the violence of those fits of sorrow which of late had seized upon
her, for the death of her son ; and he with his healing counsel and
direction, by God's help, cured this her distemper; and antidotes he
prescribed too, to prevent a relapse into this malady of excessive
grief.
Now she confesses that this very affliction was most fit for her,
and that it would prove most beneficial to her, and therefore she la-
bors to put on joy instead of sorrow, and comfort instead of mourn-
ing, and returning home with perfect cheerfulness, every one there
observed a most notable though sudden change in her ; sad Han-
nah's countenance and conversation not more visibly changed upon
the good words of Eli the prophet to her, concerning the Samuel
she should obtain, than hers now is, after the loss of one.
LADY FALKLAND. 93
Thus God made the medicine most sovereign to her, and the anti-
dote too ; for I verily believe she never after felt any fit of that her
disease ; and though she wept often for her tears so profusely spent
formerly upon her son's hearse, yet after this, not a tear more was
shed over it.
And with this extraordinary cheerfulness she takes up a most firm
resolution of a further progress in holiness and piety, and addresses
herself to run these latter stages of her Christian race with greater
speed than she had shewed in any of the former : and thereupon
she begins with a most diligent endeavor to conform her life exactly
and universally to the most holy will of God.
But the devil, who before envied her beginning, and her proficien-
cy much more, is now most violent to hinder her perfection ; and
therefore upon this her renewed purpose of more exact obedience,
presently assaults her with fierceness and rage, strongly tempting her
to think that she had deceived herself all this while, and that she had
mocked God with a counterfeit repentance, which was no way ac-
ceptable to him.
And an argument was brought to this purpose, which was so fully
suitable to the tenderness of her own spirit, that it is hard to say
whence it proceeded.
And this it was; "my grief for my sins hath not been so vehe-
ment, as that, the other day, for the death of my son, I wept not so
bitterly for them, as I did for that ; and therefore, that my repent-
ance is not acceptable."
And in this anguish of spirit she hastens to her learned friend again,
and begs counsel and direction from him, and after devout prayers
and holy conferences, received full comfort and thorough satisfaction,
and returns home now as visibly lifted up from the deep pit of an-
guish, and disquiet of spirit, as she was the other day, from the val-
ley of sorrow : and with tranquillity of mind, and joy of heart,
shews to her friends, both how she sunk, and how she was raised
again.
And now having, by the help of her God, leapt over this wall,
and overcome this difficulty, with much cheerfulness of spirit she en-
ters upon the practice of what she had last resolved on. This oppo-
sition, though it staid her a while, yet set an edge upon her resolu-
tion, and she soon recovered that vigor and keenness. And she be-
gins, by a most sharp mortification, to obey the call of her last af-
fliction.
The vanity of apparel and dress she had cut off long before; and
after her husband's death, the richness of them too. These (and
her looking-glasses with the women in the law. Exod. xxxviii. 8,)
she had laid by, for the service of the tabernacle ; what she spared
in these, she bestowed upon the poor members of Christ, and now
she begins to cut off all worldly pomp also.
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In her house, in her retinue, and at her table, and otherwise, she
denies herself that state which her quality might have excused, that
with Dorcas the widow she might be full of good works ; and more
delight she takes to see her revenues now spent among a crowd of
alms-men and women at her door, than by a throng of servants in
her house : it was a greater joy to her that she could maintain poor
children at their books and their work, than to have pages and gen-
tlewomen for her attendants : these expenses she knew would be
better allowed, in her bill of accounts at the general audit, than those
other ; it was her pomp and joy to avoid all useless pomp of state,
and all delight in courtly vanities.
And now her anger too, which was crushed before, must be whol-
ly subdued; and to that purpose she solicitously avoids all inquiries;
and all discourse which she feared would provoke her to immoderate
anger; and when she feels it struggling to arise in her, then present-
ly, either by silence or by diverting to another matter, she labors to
stifle it.
And while she is suppressing the sinfulness of this passion, she
undertakes also that most difficult task of taming the tongue : and as
it is necessary with unruly beasts, she begins roughly with it, ties it
up with a most strong resolution, and scarce suffers it to speak, lest
she should offend with her tongue : thus for some while it was strait-
ened, and then she loosed it a little with these two cautions.
First, that it should never speak evil of any man, though truly,
but only upon a design of charity, to reclaim him from that evil : and
because it is not ordinary to reclaim any vicious person in his ab-
sence, therefore her charge is peremptory to her tongue, that it never
should speak evil of any man, were he most notoriously vicious, if he
were absent, and not like to be amended by it: a strict rule this; yet
verily I persuade myself, that for a long time before her death she
most punctually observed it ; she accounted it a crime to speak evil
falsely of any man ; and it went for a slander with her, as well it
might, to speak evil truly of any one, unless it were in love.
The second caution her tongue had, was, that, as much as was
possible, it should keep in every idle word, and speak out only that
which was to edification.
The Thessalonians were famous for speaking to the edification one
of another, (1 Thess. v. 11,) and this Thessalonian language our good
lady studied with as much diligence and earnestness, as we ordinarily
study a deep science, or a gainful mystery : and now she is very slow
to speak, as the apostle exhorts; and, where she cannot rule the dis-
course to edification, she sits silent, and refrains even from good
words, though it be pain and grief to her.
And of late she distinguished between civil and spiritual edifica-
tion, and scarcely allowed herself discourses for civil edification of
her friends or neighbors in worldly matters : spiritual edification in
heavenly things was all her aim.
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And her care was the same in writing as in speaking ; not a vain,
not an idle word must slip from her pen ; she thought not her soul
clean, if there were such a blot in her paper. In her letters, no sa-
vor of compliment at all ; and she judged herself guilty of a trespass
if she subscribed herself, Your servant, to whom she was not real-
ly so.
And for that other temperance in diet, as well as in speech, she
was very eminent. A small quantity of meat or drink, and of sleep
and ease, sufficed her.
She was most respectful to her superiors; and most courteous and
affable towards inferiors ; and very cautious lest she should give of-
fense to one or other, either in word or gesture; and as cautious too,
lest any of them should take offense at any speech, or look of hers,
towards them ; " for either way," said she, " in offenses given or
taken, God is offended."
More than once or twice of late she brought her gift to the altar,
was in her closet upon her knees towards prayer, and there she re-
membered that her brother might possibly have somewhat against
her, for such a word, or such a look, or a neglective silence a little
before ; and she left her gift at the altar, and went, and was recon-
ciled ; asked pardon, and then came and offered : so that her chief
care was still to lift up in prayer pure hands, without wrath ; if there
were any wrath in her against others, or any in others against her,
she would have it allayed before she offered her gift of prayer.
And though all these graces and virtues, by God's help, did thus
increase in her, yet a true poverty of spirit increased also in her.
The more holy, the more pious she was, the more humbly she walk-
ed with God : in her greatest abundance she complained most of
spiritual wants. Sure the bright lustre of her virtue gave her an ad-
vantage to espy many corruptions in herself which she could not be-
fore ; and these she lamented more sadly now than heretofore.
And now in the very last stage of her Christian race, she grows
so exact, that all times seems tedious to her, which" tends not to heav-
en ; and thereupon she now resolves to get loose from the multitude
of her worldly employments ; and provides to remove from her state-
ly mansion, to a little house near adjoining; and in that house and
garden, with a book, and a wheel, and a maid or two, to retire her-
self from worldly business, and unnecessary visits, and so spend her
whole time : and she took as great delight in projecting this humilia-
tion and privacy, as others do, in being advanced to public honors
and state employments.
Now toward the end of her race, all her strength seems weakness,
and her quickest speed seems slothfulness ; therefore at Christmas
last she prepared to be at the holy communion with the first ; and
after that, her soul still wanting the strength and vigor it aimed at,
she thinks of coming with the last too, the next Lord's-day : but that
very morning she had a very sore conflict, and great anguish in spir-
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it: onetime her unworthiness, another time her dulness, and dry-
ness, deterred her from approaching to the holy Sacrament ; and then
the singularity and unaccustomedness of receiving so often, dissuad-
ed her ; after an hour or two, some reason she found to presume this
might be from the devil, her grand enemy, who was unwilling that
the castle which he now besieged should be double-walled against
him, and thereupon she continues her resolution, and came to the
blessed Sacrament that second day also, and received with it much
comfort and peace. And not many days after, the devil brought his
strongest batteries and labored to take this castle by storm ; tempta-
tions again she had, and those vehement and fierce, to suspect her
whole course of life, as so full of weakness at best, and oftentimes so
full of gross corruptions ; her faith so weak, her repentance so faint,
that God would not accept of her : but her shield of faith in Christ's
merits soon repelled these darts, and her wonted sanctuary of prayer
secured her presently from this storm of temptation.
And in peace and tranquillity of mind, her piety, and zeal of jus-
tice, hurry her to London, in the bitterest season of this winter, to
take order for the discharge of some engagements : this she knew
was her duty, and that she herself should take that journey, was con-
ceived the necessary means to perform that duty, and therefore she
ventures upon it and leaves the success to God.
At London she strengthens herself yet more, for the final period
of her race, by receiving the holy Sacrament again ; but alas ! mad-
am, though her inward strength increases, her outward strength de-
cays, and her weak consumptive body, by a cold there taken, grows
weaker : yet thence she came homeward 5 and at Oxford her cough
and cold very much increasing, she with most earnest prayers, and
holy meditations, which a pious and learned divine suggested to her,
prepares herself for death.
After a while, they who were about her fearing the pangs of death
to be upon her, began to weep and lament ; the whole company grew
sad and heavy ; she only continued in her former condition, not at
all sorrowful, nor affrighted by these messengers of death : then the
physician coming, and, upon consideration, saying, "Here is no
sign of death, nor of much danger ; by God's help she may recover
again." The whole company was very much comforted, and cheer-
ed ; she only in her former indifferency ; no alteration at all could
be perceived in her, as if she had been the only party in the cham-
ber unconcerned in it ; neither fear of death could grieve nor trouble
her, nor hopes of life and health rejoice her : " I have wholly resign-
ed up myself to God," said she, " and not mine, but his will be done,
whether in life or death." She was not afraid to live, and still en-
dure the miseries of this life, and ever and anon encounter with Sa-
tan too, because she had a powerful God able to uphold her ; nor yet
afraid to die, and appear at God's judgment-seat, because she had a
merciful Redeemer, willing to save her.
LADY FALKLAND. 97
They who write of perfection, account it an high degree to have
u Vitam in patientid et mortem in voto, To be content to live, but
desirous to die :" yet surely, this, "In cequilibrio ad vitam, et ad
mortem, To be wholly indifferent, and to be most equally inclined to
either," to desire nothing, to fear nothing, but wholly to resign our-
selves to God, accounting that to be the best, whatsoever it is, which
he pleases to send. This, this is to be a strong man in Christ ; and
this in our most pious lady was a very near approach unto perfection.
It was related for a very great virtue in St. Cyprian, that, "Maluit
obsequi prceceptis Christi, quam vel sic coronari, He had rather live
and obey God, than die and reign in glory :" But this, to have no
propensity at all more to one than to the other, to be wholly indiffer-
ent, to work on still in God's vineyard, or to be called up to heaven,
to receive pay, this may be a greater virtue : and this perfect indif-
ference to do, or suffer God's will, in life, or death, appearing in this
servant of God, was such an act of self-denial, which they who ob-
served it in her, could not but set a special character upon, most wor-
thy to be commended to your ladyship.
Thus she was brought from Oxford home; and now being far spent
and near her end, she could speak little, yet expressed a great deal
of thankfuluess to God, who had brought her safe to die in her own
house, among her dearest friends.
And there she shewed those friends a rare pattern of patience in
the extremity of her sickness.
But the tranquillity of mind, which she had in these her last days,
was most observable ; that the devil, who had so often perplexed her
with violent temptations, should now leave her to rest and ease : she
was wont to fear his most violent assaults on her death-bed, as his
practice commonly is ; but now God, it seems, had chained him up,
andrfenabled her by his grace to tread Satan under her feet, not a
word of complaint, nor the least disturbance, or disquiet, to be per-
ceived by her, which is a sufficient argument to us, who knew how
open a breast she had to reveal any thing in that kind, especially to
divines, whereof she had now store about her, of her exceeding great
quietness and peace : and this tranquillity of mind more clearly now
appearing at her death, than ordinarily in the time of her health, is a
great evidence to me, of God's most tender mercy and love towards
her, and of some good assurance in her, of her salvation.
This quiet gave her leave, though now very faint and weak, to be
most vigorous, and most instant at prayers : she calls for other help
very faintly ; but for prayers, most heartily and often, in those few
hours she lived at home ; and after the office of the morning was
performed, she gave strict charge, that every one of her family, who
could be spared from her, should go to church and pray for her; and
then in a word of exhortation to them who stayed by her, saying,
" Fear God, fear God," she most sweetly spent her breath ; and so
most comfortably yielded up her spirit to him who made it ; and was,
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we doubt not, admitted into heaven, into the number of saints of God,
there to reign in the glory of God for evermore.
Your servant in Christ Jesus,
I. D.
April 15, 1647.
Note. — The above beautiful Memoir, supposed to have been writ-
ten by Lady Falkland's chaplain, gives no account of her family or
husband, which of course were well known to those for whom it was
first intended. To supply this desideratum, the following sketch of
her husband is here subjoined from Lord Clarendon's History.
"In the unhappy battle of Newbury was slain the lord viscount
Falkland ; a person of such prodigious parts of learning and knowl-
edge, of that inimitable sweetness and delight in conversation, of so
flowing and obliging a humanity and goodness to mankind, and of
that primitive simplicity and integrity of life, that if there were no
other brand upon this odious and accursed civil war, than that single
loss, it must be most infamous and execrable to all posterity.
"Before he came to twenty years of age, he was master of a no-
ble fortune, which descended to him by the gift of a grandfather,
without passing through his father or mother, who were then both
alive, and not well enough contented to find themselves passed by
in the descent. His education for some years had been in Ireland,
where his father was lord deputy; so that, when he returned into
England, to the possession of his fortune, he was unentangled with
any acquaintance or friends, which usually grow up by the custom
of conversation ; and therefore was to make a pure election of his
company; which he chose by other rules than were prescribed to
the young nobility of that time. And it cannot be denied, though
he admitted some few to his friendship for the agreeableness of their
natures, and their undoubted affection to him, that his familiarity and
friendship, for the most part, was with men of the most eminent and
sublime parts, and of untouched reputation in point of integrity; and
such men had a title to his bosom.
" He was a great cherisher of wit, and fancy, and good parts in
any man ; and, if he found them clouded with poverty or want, a
most liberal and bountiful patron towards them, even above his for-
tune ; of which, in those administrations, he was such a dispenser,
as, if he had been trusted with it to such uses, and if there had been
the least of vice in his expense, he might have been thought too
prodigal. He was constant and pertinacious in whatsoever he re-
solved to do, and not to be wearied by any pains that were necessa-
ry to that end. And therefore having once resolved not to see Lon-
don, which he loved above all places, till he had perfectly learned
the Greek tongue, he went to his own house in the country, and
pursued it with that indefatigable industry, that it will not be believed
in how short a time he was master of it, and accurately read all the
Greek historians.
LADY FALKLAND. 99
" In this time, his house being within ten miles of Oxford, he con-
tracted familiarity and friendship with the most polite and accurate
men of that university; who found such an immenseness of wit, and
such a solidity of judgment in him, so infinite a fancy, bound in by
a most logical ratiocination, such a vast knowledge, that he was not
ignorant in any thing, yet such an excessive humility, as if he had
known nothing, that they frequently resorted, and dwelt with him, as
in a college situated in a purer air ; so that his house was a university
in a less volume ; whither they came not so much for repose as study ;
and to examine ana refine those grosser propositions, which laziness
and consent made current in vulgar conversation.
" Many attempts were made upon him by the instigation of his
mother, (who was a lady of another persuasion in religion, and of a
most masculine understanding, allayed with the passions and infirmi-
ties of her own sex,) to pervert him in his piety to the church of
England, and to reconcile him to that of Rome ; which they prose-
cuted with the more confidence, because he declined no opportunity
or occasion of conference with those of that religion, whether priests
or laics; having diligently studied the controversies, and exactly read
all, or the choicest of the Greek and Latin fathers, and having a
memory so stupendous, that he remembered, on all occasions, what-
soever he read. And he was so great an enemy to that passion and
uncharitableness, which he saw produced, by difference of opinion,
in matters of religion, that in all those disputations with priests, and
others of the Roman church, he affected to manifest all possible ci-
vility to their persons, and estimation of their parts ; which made
them retain still some hope of his reduction, even when they had
given over offering further reasons to him to that purpose. But this
charity towards them was much lessened, and any correspondence
with them quite declined, when, by sinister arts, they had corrupted
his two younger brothers, being both children, and stolen them from
his house, and transported them beyond seas, and perverted his sis-
ters : upon which occasion he wrote two large discourses against the
principal positions of that religion, with that sharpness of style, and
full weight of reason, that the church is deprived of great jewels
in the concealment of them, and that they are not published to the
world."
" He had a courage of the most clear and keen temper, and so
far from fear, that he was not without appetite of danger ; and there-
fore, upon any occasion of action, he always engaged his person in
those troops, which he thought, by the forwardness of the command-
ers, to be most like to be furthest engaged ; and in all such encount-
ers he had about him a strange cheerfulness and companionableness,
without at all affecting the execution that was then principally to be
attended, in which he took no delight, but took pains to prevent it,
where it was not, by resistance, necessary : insomuch that at Edge-
hill, when the enemy was routed, he was like to have incurred great
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peril, by interposing to save those who had thrown away their arms,
and against whom, it may be, others were more fierce for their hav-
ing thrown them away : insomuch as a man might think, he came
into the field only out of curiosity to see the face of danger, and
charity to prevent the shedding of blood. Yet in his natural incli-
nation he acknowledged he was addicted to the profession of a sol-
dier ; and shortly after he came to his fortune, and before he came
to age, he went into the Low Countries, with a resolution of pro-
curing command, and to give himself up to it, from which he was
converted by the complete inactivity of that summer : and so he re-
turned into England, and shortly after entered upon that vehement
course of study we mentioned before, till the first alarum from the
north ; and then again he made ready for the field, and though he
received some repulse in the command of a troop of horse, of which
he had a promise, he went a volunteer with the earl of Essex."
" When there was any overture or hope of peace, he would be
more erect and vigorous, and exceedingly solicitous to press any
thing which he thought might promote it; and sitting among his
friends, often, after a deep silence and frequent sighs, would, with a
shrill and sad accent, ingeminate the word Peace, Peace; and would
passionately profess, "that the very agony of the war, and the view
of the calamities and desolation the kingdom did and must endure,
took his sleep from him, and would shortly break his heart." This
made some think, or pretend to think, "that he was so much ena-
mored of peace, that he would have been glad the king should
have bought it at any price ;" which was a most unreasonable ca-
lumny. As if a man, that was himself the most punctual and pre-
cise in every circumstance that might reflect upon conscience or
honor, could have wished the king to have commited a trespass
against either. And yet this senseless scandal made some impres-
sion upon him, or at least he used it for an excuse of the daringness
of his spirit ; for at the leaguer before Gloucester, when his friends
passionately reprehended him for exposing his person unnecessarily
to danger, (as he delighted to visit the trenches, and nearest ap-
proaches, and to discover what the enemy did,) as being so much
beside the duty of his place, that it might be understood against it,
he would say merrily, " that his office* could not take away the privi-
leges of his age ; and that a secretary in war might be present at the
greatest secret of danger;" but withal alleged seriously, "that it
concerned him to be more active in enterprises of hazard than other
men ; that all might see, that his impatience for peace proceeded not
from pusillanimity, or fear to adventure his own person."
" In the morning before the battle, as always upon action, he was
very cheerful, and put himself into the first rank of the lord Byron's
regiment, who was then advancing upon the enemy, who had lined
* He was secretary of war, under Kirjg Charles I.
LADY FALKLAND. 101
the hedges on both sides with musketeers ; from whence he was
shot with a musket in the lower part of the belly, and in the instant
falling from his horse, his body was not found till the next morning ;
till when, there was some hope he might have been a prisoner ;
though his nearest friends, who knew his temper, received small
comfort from that imagination. Thus fell that incomparable young
man, in the four and thirtieth year of his age, having so much des-
patched the business of life, that the oldest rarely attain to that im-
mense knowledge, and the youngest enter not into the world with
more innocence : whosoever leads such a life, need not care upon
how short warning it be taken from him."
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MRS. LUCY HUTCHINSON.
WRITTEN BY HERSELF.
The Almighty Author of all beings, in his various providences,
whereby he conducts the. lives of men from the cradle to the tomb,
exercises no less wisdom and goodness than he manifests power and
greatness in their creation ; but such is the stupidity of blind mortals,
that instead of employing their studies in these admirable books of
providence, wherein God daily exhibits to us glorious characters of
his love, kindness, wisdom, and justice, they ungratefully regard them
not, and call the most wonderful operations of the great God the com-
mon accidents of human life, especially if they be such as are usual,
and exercised towards them in ages wherein they are not very capable
of observation, and whereon they seldom employ any reflection ; for
in things great and extraordinary, some perhaps will take notice of
God's working, who either forget or believe not that he takes as well
a care and account of their smallest concerns, even the hairs of
their heads.
Finding myself in some kind guilty of this general neglect, I thought
it might be the means to stir up my thankfulness for things past, and
to encourage my faith for the future, if I recollected, as much as I
have heard or can remember, the passages of my youth, and the
general and particular providences exercised towards me, both in
the entrance and progress of my life. Herein I meet with so many
special indulgences as required a distinct consideration, they being
all of them to be regarded as talents intrusted to my improvement
for God's glory. The parents by whom I received my life, the
places where I began and continued it, the time when I was brought
forth to be a witness of God's wonderful workings in the earth, the
rank that was given me in my generation, and the advantages I re-
ceived in my person, each of them carries along with it many mercies
which are above my utterance; and as they give me infinite cause
of glorifying God's goodness, so I cannot reflect on them without
deep humiliation for the small improvement I have made of so rich
a stock ; which, that I may yet by God's grace better employ, I shall
recall and seriously ponder ; and first, as far. as I have since learnt,
set down the condition of things in the place of my nativity at that
time when I was sent into the world. It was on the 29th day of
January, in the year of our Lord 16 j|, that in the Tower of Lon-
don, the principal city of the English Isle, I was about four of the
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clock in the morning, brought forth to behold the ensuing light. My
father was Sir Allen Apsley, Lieutenant of the Tower of London ;
my mother, his third wife, was Lucy, the youngest daughter of Sir
John St. John, of Lidiard Tregoz, in Wiltshire, by his second wife,
My father had then living a son and a daughter by his former wives,
and by my mother three sons, I being her eldest daughter. The land
was then at peace, it being towards the latter end of the reign of King
James, if that quietness may be called a peace, which was rather
like the calm and smooth surface of the sea, whose dark womb is
already impregnated of a horrid tempest.
Whoever considers England, will find it no small favor of God to
have been made one of its natives, both upon spiritual and outward
accounts. The happiness of the soil and air contribute all things that
are necessary to the use or delight of man's life. The celebrated
glory of this Isle's inhabitants, ever since they received a mention in
history, confers some honor upon everyone of her children, and with
it an obligation to continue in that magnanimity and virtue which hath
famed this Island, and raised her head in glory higher than the great
kingdoms of the neighboring Continent. Britain hath been as a gar-
den enclosed, wherein all things that man can wish, to make a pleas-
ant life, are planted and grow in her own soil, and whatsoever for-
eign countries yield to increase admiration and delight, are brought
in by her fleets. The people, by the plenty of their country, not be-
ing forced to toil for bread, have ever addicted themselves to more
generous employments, and been reckoned, almost in all ages, as val-
iant warriors as any part of the world sent forth ; insomuch that the
greatest Roman captains thought it not unworthy of their expeditions,
and took great glory in triumphs for imperfect conquests. Lucan
upbraids Julius Caesar for returning hence with a repulse, and it was
two hundred years before the land could be reduced into a Roman
province ; which at length was done, and such of the nation, then
called Picts, as scorned servitude, were driven into the barren coun-
try of Scotland, where they have ever since remained a perpetual
trouble to the successive inhabitants of this place. The Britons that
thought it better to work for their conquerors in a good land, than to
have the freedom to starve in a cold and barren quarter, were by de-
grees fetched away, and wasted in the civil broils of these Roman
lords, till the land, almost depopulated, lay open to the incursions of
every borderer, and were forced to call a stout warlike people, the
Saxons, out of Germany, to their assistance. These willingly came
at their call, but were not so easily sent out again, nor persuaded to
let their hosts inhabit with them, for they drove the Britons into the
mountains of Wales, and seated themselves in those pleasant coun-
tries, which from the new masters received a new name, and ever
since retained it, being called England 3 on which the warlike Dane
made many attempts, with various success; but after about two or
three hundred years' vain contest, they were for ever driven out, with
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shame and loss, and the Saxon Heptarchy melted into a monarchy,
which continued till the superstitious prince, who was sainted for his
ungodly chastity, left an empty throne to him that could seize it. He
who first set up his standard in it, could not hold it, but with his life
left it again for the Norman usurper, who partly by violence, partly
by falsehood, laid here the foundation of his monarchy in the peo-
ple's blood, in which it hath swam about five hundred years, till the
flood that bore it was ploughed into such deep furrows as had almost
sunk the proud vessel. Of those Saxons that remained subjects to
the Norman conqueror, my father's family descended ; of those Nor-
mans that came in with him my mother's was derived ; both of them,
as all the rest in England, contracting such affinity, by mutual mar-
riages, that the distinction remained but a short space, Normans and
Saxons becoming one people, who by their valor grew terrible to all
the neighboring princes, and have not only bravely quitted themselves
in their own defense, but have shewed abroad how easily they could
subdue the world, if they did not prefer the quiet enjoyment of their
own part above the conquest of the whole.
Better laws and a happier constitution of government no nation
ever enjoyed, it being a mixture of monarchy, aristocracy, and de-
mocracy, with sufficient fences against the pest of every one of those
forms, tyranny, faction, and confusion ; yet it is not possible for man
to devise such just and excellent bounds, as will keep in wild ambi-
tion, when princes' flatterers encourage that beast to break his fence,
which it hath often done, with miserable consequences both to the
prince and people ; but could never in any age so tread down popu-
lar liberty, but that it rose again with renewed vigor, till at length it
trod on those that trampled it before. And in the just bounds where-
in our kings were so well hedged in, the surrounding princes have with
terror seen the reproof of their usurpations over their free brethren,
whom they rule rather as slaves than subjects, and are only served for
fear, but not for love ; whereas this people have ever been as affec-
tionate to good, as unpliable to bad sovereigns.
Nor is it only valor and generosity that renown this nation ; in arts
we have advanced equal to our neighbors, and in those that are most
excellent, exceeded them. The world hath not yielded men more
famous in navigation, nor ships better built or furnished. Agricul-
ture is as ingeniously.practised ; the English archery were the terror
of Christendom, and their clothes the ornament; but these low
things bounded not their great spirits, in all ages it hath yielded men
as famous in all kinds of learning, as Greece or Italy can boast of.
And to complete the crown of all their glory, reflected from the
lustre of their ingenuity, valor, wit, learning, justice, wealth and boun-
ty, their piety and devotion to God and his worship, hath made them
one of the most truly noble nations in the Christian world ; God having,
as it were, enclosed a people here, out of the vast common of the world,
to serve him with a pure and undefiled worship. Lucius, the Brit-
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ish king, was one of the first monarchs of the earth that received the
faith of Christ into his heart and kingdom : Henry the Eighth, the
first prince that broke the antichristian yoke off from his own and
his subjects' neck. Here it was that the first Christian emperor* re-
ceived his crown : here began the early dawn of gospel light, by
Wickliffe and other faithful Witnesses, whom God raised up after the
black and horrid midnight of antichristianism, and a more plentiful
harvest of devout confessors, constant martyrs, and holy worshippers
of God, hath not grown in any field of the church, throughout all
ages, than those whom God hath here glorified his name and gospel
by. Yet hath not this wheat been without its tares. God, in com-
parison with other countries, hath made this as a paradise ; so, to
complete the parallel, the serpent hath in all times been busy to se-
duce, and not unsuccessful, ever stirring up opposers to the infant
truths of Christ.
No sooner was the faith of Christ embraced in this nation, but
the neighboring heathens invaded the innocent Christians, and slaugh-
tered multitudes of them ; and when, by the mercy of God, the con-
quering pagans were afterwards converted, and that there were none
left to oppose the name of Christ with open hostility ; then the sub-
tile serpent put off his own horrid appearance, and comes out in a
Christian dress, to persecute Christ in his poor prophets, that bore
witness against the corruption of the times. This intestine quarrel
hath been more successful to the devil, and more afflictive to the
church, than all open wars ; and I fear, will never happily be deci-
ded, till the Prince of Peace come to conclude the controversy,
which at the time of my birth was working up into that tempest,
wherein I have shared many perils, many fears, and many more mer-
cies, consolations, and preservations, which I shall have occasion to
mention in other places.
From the place of my birth I shall only desire to remember the
goodness of the Lord who hath caused my lot to fall in a good
ground, who hath fed me in a pleasant pasture, where the well
springs of life flow to all that desire to drink of them. And this is
no small favor, if I consider how many poor people perish among
the heathen, where they never hear the name of Christ ; how many
poor .Christians spring up in countries enslaved by Turkish and anti-
christian tyrants whose souls and bodies languish under miserable
slavery ! None knows what mercy it is to live under a good and
wholesome law, that have not considered the sad condition of being
subject to the will of an unlimited man ; and surely it is too universal
a sin in this nation, that the common mercies of God to the whole
land are so slightly regarded, and so inconsiderately passed over :
certainly these are circumstances which much magnify God's loving
Constantiue.
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kindness and his special favor to all that are of English birth, and
call for a greater return of duty from us than from all other people
of the world.
Nor is the place only, but the time of my coming into the world,
a considerable mercy to me. It was not in the midnight of popery,
nor in the dawn of the gospel's restored day, when light and
shades were blended and almost undistinguished, but when the Sun
of truth was exalted in his progress and hastening towards a meridian
glory. It was indeed early in the morning, God being pleased to al-
low me the privilege of beholding the admirable growth of gospel
light in my days : and oh ! that my soul may never forget to bless
and praise his name for the wonders of power and goodness, wisdom,
and truth, which have been manifested in this my time.
The next blessing 1 have to consider in my nativity is my parents,
both of them pious and virtuous in their own conversation, and care-
ful instructors of my youth, not only by precept but example :
which, if I had leisure and ability, I should have transmitted to my
posterity, both to give them the honor due from me in such a grate-
ful memorial, and to increase my children's improvement of the pat-
terns they set them ; but since I shall detract from those I would
celebrate, by my imperfect commemorations, I shall content myself
to sum up some few things for my own use, and let the rest alone,
which I either knew not, or have forgotten, or cannot worthily ex-
press.
My grandfather by my father's side was a gentleman of a compe-
tent estate, about seven or eight hundred pounds a year, in Sussex.
He being descended of a younger house, had his residence at a place
called Pulborough ; the family out of which he came was an Apsley
of Apsley, a town w.here they had been seated before the conquest,
and ever since continued, till of late the last heir male of that eldest
house, being the son of Sir Edward Apsley, is dead without issue,
and his estate gone with his sister's daughters into other families.
Particularities concerning my father's kindred or country I never
knew much, by reason of my youth at the time of his death, and
my education in far distant places only in general I have heard that
my grandfather was a man well reputed and beloved in his country,
and that it had been such a continued custom for my ancestors to
take wives at home, that there was scarcely a family of any note in
Sussex to which they were not by intermarriages nearly related ; but
1 was myself a stranger to them all except my Lord Goring, who
living at court, I have seen with my father, and heard of him, be-
cause he was appointed one of my father's executors, though he de-
clined the trouble. My grandfather had seven sons, of which my
father was the youngest : to the eldest he gave his whole estate, and
to the rest, according to the custom of those times, slight annuities.
The eldest brother married a gentlewoman of a good family, and by
her had only one son, whose mother dying, my uncle married himself
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again to one of his own maids, and by her had three more sons,
whom, with their mother, my cousin William Apsley, the son of
the first wife, held in such contempt, that a great while after, dying
without children, he gave his estate of inheritance to my father, and
two of my brothers, except about £100 a year to the eldest of his
half brothers, and annuities of £30 a piece to the three for their
lives. He died before I was born, but I have heard very honora-
ble mention made of hirn in our family. The rest of my father's
brothers went into the wars in Ireland and the Low Countries, and
there remained none of them, nor their issues, when I was born,
but only three daughters, who bestowed themselves meanly, and
their generations are worn out except two or three unregarded chil-
dren. My father at the death of my grandfather being but a youth
at school, had not patience to stay the perfecting of his studies, but
put himself into present action, sold his annuity, bought himself good
clothes, put some money in his purse, and came to London ; and
by means of a relation at court, got a place in the household of
Queen Elizabeth, where he behaved himself so that he won the love
of many of the court but being young took an affection to gaming,
and spent most of the money he had in his purse. About that time
the Earl of Essex was setting forth for Cales voyage, and my father,
who had a mind to quit his idle court life, procured an employment
from the victualler of the navy, to go along with that fleet : in which
voyage he demeaned himself with so much courage and prudence,
that after his return he was honored with a very noble and proper
employment in Ireland. There a rich widow, that had many chil-
dren, cast her affections upon him, and he married her ; but she not
living many years with him, and having no children by him, after her
death he distributed all her estate among her children, for whom he
ever preserved a fatherly kindness, and some of her grandchildren
were brought up in his house after I was born. He, by God's bless-
ing, and his fidelity and industry, growing in estate and honor, re-
ceived a knighthood from King James soon after his coming to the
crown, for some eminent service done to him in Ireland, which hav-
ing only heard in my childhood, I cannot perfectly set down. After
that, growing into a familiarity with Sir George Carew, made now by
the king, Earl of Totness, a niece of this Earl's, the daughter of
Sir Peter Carew, who lived a young widow in her uncle's house,
fell in love with him, which her uncle perceiving, procured a mar-
riage between them. She had divers children by my father, but
only two of them, a son and daughter, survived her, she died
whilst my father was absent from her in Ireland. He led all the
time of his widowhood a very disconsolate life, careful for nothing
in the world but to educate and advance the son and daughter, the
dear pledges she had left him, for whose sake he quitted himself of
his employments abroad, and procured himself the office of victual-
ler of the navy, a place then both of credit and great revenue. His
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friends considering his solitude, had procured him a match of a very
rich widow, who was a lady of as much discretion as wealth ; but while
he was upon this design, he chanced to see my mother at the house of
Sir William St. John, who had married her eldest sister, and though
he went on his journey, yet something in her person and behavior he
carried along with him, which would not let him accomplish it, but
brought him back to my mother. She was of a noble family, being
the youngest daughter of Sir John St. John, of Lidiar Tregoz, in the
county of Wilts ; her father and mother died when she was not
above five years of age, and yet at her nurse's, from whence she
was carried to be brought up in the house of Lord Grandison, her
father's younger brother, an honorable and excellent person, but
married to a lady so jealous of him, and so ill-natured in her jeal-
ous fits to any thing that was related to him, that her cruelties to my
mother exceeded the stories of step-mothers : the rest of my aunts,
my mother's sisters, were dispersed to several places, where they
grew up till my uncle Sir John St. John being married to the daugh-
ter of Sir Thomas Laten, they were all again brought home to their
brother's house. There were not in those days so many beautiful
women found in any family as these, but my mother was by most
judgments preferred before all her elder sisters, who, something en-
vious at it, used her unkindly, yet all the suitors that came to them
still turned their addresses to her, which she in her youthful innocen-
cy neglected, till one of greater name, estate, and reputation than the
rest, happened to fall deeply in love with her, and to manage, it so
discreetly, that my mother could not but entertain him ; and my un-
cle's wife, who had a mother's kindness for her, persuaded her to
remove herself from her sister's envy, by going along with her to the
Isle of Jersey, where her father was governor ; which she did, and
there went into the town, and boarded in a French minister's house,
to learn the language, that minister having been, by the persecution
in France, driven to seek his shelter there. Contracting a dear
friendship" with this holy man and his wife, she was instructed in
their Geneva discipline, which she liked so much better than our ser-
vice, that she could have been contented to have lived there, had
not a powerful passion in her heart drawn her back. But at her
return she met with many afflictions ; the gentleman who had pro-
fessed so much love to her, in her . absence had been, by most vile
practices and treacheries, drawn out of his senses, and into the mar-
riage of a person whom, when he recovered his reason, he hated :
but that served only to augment his misfortune ; and the circumstan-
ces of that story not being necessary to be here inserted, I shall only
add, that my mother lived in my uncle's house, secretly disconten-
ted at this accident, but was comforted by the kindness of my un-
cle's wife, who had contracted such an intimate friendship with her,
that they seemed to have but one soul. And in this kindness she
had some time a great solace, till some malicious persons had wrought
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some jealousies, which were very groundless in my uncle, concerning
his wife ; but his nature being inclinable to that passion, which was
fomented in him by subtile, wicked persons, and my mother endeav-
oring to vindicate her injured innocence, she was herself not well
treated by my uncle, whereupon she left his house, with a resolution
to withdraw herself into the island, where the good minister was,
and there to wear out her life in the service of God. While she was
deliberating, and had fixed upon it in her own thoughts, resolving to
impart it to none, she was with Sir William St. John, who had
married my aunt, when my father accidentally came in there, and
fell so heartily in love with her, that he persuaded her to marry him,
which she did, and her melancholy made her conform cheerfully to
that gravity of habit and conversation, which was becoming the wife
of such a person, wit) was then forty eight years of age, and she not
above sixteen. The first year of their marriage was crowned with a
son, called after my father's name, and born at East Smithfield, in that
house of the king's which belonged to my father's employment in the
navy : the next year they removed to the Tower of London, whereof
my father was made lieutenant, and there had two sons more before
me, and four daughters and two sons after : of all which, only three
sons and two daughters survived him at the time of his death, which
was in the sixty third year of his age, after he had three years be-
fore languished of a consumption that succeeded a fever which he
got in the unfortunate voyage to the Isle of Rhe.
He died in the month of May, 1630, sadly bewailed by not only
all his dependants and relations, but by all that were acquainted with
him, for he never conversed with any to whom he was not at some
time or in some way beneficial ; and his nature was so delighted in
doing good, that it won him the love of all men, even his enemies,
whose envy and malice it was his custom to overcome with obliga-
tions. He had great natural parts, but was too active in his youth to
stay the heightening of them by study of dead writings, but in the liv-
ing books of men's conversations he soon became so skilful, that he
was never mistaken but where his own good would not let him give
him credit to the evil he discerned in others. He was a most indul-
gent husband, and no less kind to his children ; a most noble master,
who thought it not enough to maintain his servants honorably while
they were with him, but for all that deserved it provided offices or
settlements, as for children. He was a father to all his prisoners,
sweetening with such compassionate kindness their restraint, that the
affliction of a prison was not felt in his days. He had a singular
kindness for all persons that were eminent either in learning or arms;
and when, through the ingratitude and vice of that age, many of the
wives and children of Queen Elizabeth's glorious captains were re-
duced to poverty, his purse was their common treasury, and they
knew not the inconvenience of decayed fortunes till he was dead :
many of those valiant seamen he maintained in prison, many he re-
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deemed out of prison, and cherished with an extraordinary bounty.
If among his excellencies one outshined the rest, it was the generous
liberality of his mind, wherein goodness and greatness were so equal-
ly distributed, that they mutually embellished each other. Pride and
covetousness had not the least place in his breast. As he was in
love with true honor, so he contemned vain titles ; and though in his
youth he accepted an addition to his birth, in his riper years he refu-
sed a baronetcy, which the king offered him. He was severe in the
regulating of his family, especially would not endure the least im-
modest behavior or dress in any woman under his roof. There was
nothing he hated more than an insignificant gallant, that could only
make his legs and prune himself, and court a lady, but had not brains
to employ himself in things more suitable to man's nobler sex. Fi-
delity in his trust, love and loyalty to his prince, were not the least
of his virtues, but those wherein he was not excelled by any of his
own or succeeding times. The large estate he reaped by his happy
industry, he did many times over as freely resign again to the king's
service, till he left the greatest part of it at his death in the king's
hands. All his virtues wanted not the crown of all virtue, piety and
true devotion to God. As his life was a continued exercise of faith
and charity, it concluded with prayers and blessings, which were the
only consolations his desolate family could receive in his death. Nev-
er did any two better agree in magnanimity and bounty than he and
my mother, who seemed to be actuated by the same soul, so little
did she grudge any of his liberalities to strangers, or he contradict
any of her kindnesses to all her relations ; her house being a com-
mon home to all of them, and a nursery to their children. He gave
her a noble allowance of 300/. a year for her own private expense,
and had given her all her own portion to dispose of how she pleas-
ed, as soon as she was married, which she suffered to increase in her
friend's hands : and what my father allowed her she spent not in
vanities, although she had what was rich and requisite upon occa-
sions, but she laid most of it out in pious and charitable uses. Sir
Walter Raleigh and Mr. Ruthen being prisoners in the Tower, and
addicting themselves to chemistry, she suffered them to make their
rare experiments at her cost, partly to comfort and divert the poor
prisoners, and partly to gain the knowledge of their experiments, and
the medicines to help such poor people as were not able to seek to
physicians. But these means she acquired a great deal of skill,
which was very profitable to many all her life. She was not only to
these, but to all the other prisoners that came into the Tower, as a
mother. All the time she dwelt in the Tower, if any were sick she
made them broths and restoratives with her own hands, visited and
took care of them, and provided them with all necessaries ; if any
were afflicted she comforted them, so that they felt not the inconven-
ience of a prison who were in that place. She was not less bounti-
ful to many poor widows and orphans, whom officers of higher and
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lower rank had left behind them as objects of charity. Her own
house was filled with distressed families of her relations, whom she
maintained and supplied in a noble way. The care of the worship
and service of God, both in her soul and her house, and the educa-
tion of her children, was her principal care. She was a constant
frequenter of week-day lectures, and a great lover and encourager
of good ministers, and most diligent in her private reading and de-
votions.
When my father was sick she was not satisfied with the attendance
of all that were about him, but made herself his nurse, and cook,
and physician, and, through the blessing of God and her indefatiga-
ble labors and watching, preserved him a great while longer than the
physicians thought it possible for his nature to hold out. At length,
when the Lord took him to rest, she showed as much humility and
patience, under that great change, as moderation and bounty in her
more plentiful and prosperous condition, and died in my house at
Owthorpe, in the county of Nottingham, in the year 1659. The
privilege of being born of and educated by such excellent parents,
I have often revolved with great thankfulness for the mercy, and hu-
miliation that I did not more improve it. After my mother had had
three sons she was very desirous of a daughter ; and when the wo-
men at my birth told her I was one, she received me with a great
deal of joy; and the nurses fancying, because I had more complex-
ion and beauty than is usual in so young children, that I should not live,
my mother became fonder of me, and more endeavored to nurse me.
As soon as I was weaned, a French woman was taken to be my dry
nurse, and I was taught to speak French and English together. My
mother, while she was with child of me, dreamed that she was walk-
ing in the garden with my father, and that a star came down into her
hand, with other circumstances, which, though I have often heard, I
minded not enough to remember perfectly ; only my father told her,
her dream signified she should have a daughter of some extraordina-
ry eminency ; which thing, like such vain prophecies, wrought, as far
as it could, its own accomplishment :* for my father and mother fan-
cying me then beautiful, and more than ordinarily apprehensive, ap-
plied all their cares, and spared no cost to improve me in my educa-
tion, which procured me the admiration of those that flattered my pa-
rents. By the time I was four years old I read English perfectly,
and having a great memory, I was carried to sermons, and while T
was very young could remember and repeat them exactly, and being
* This is an ingenious way of accounting for the fulfilment of superstitious pre-
dictions and expectations, which might frequently, with close attention, be traced
to their source, as is here done. It is clear that in the present case it occasioned a
peculiar care to be taken of her education; and this again caused her mind and
disposition to take that singular stamp which attracted the notice of Mr. Hutchin-
son, and led her to the highest situation that she could wish for.
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caressed, the love of praise tickled me, and made me attend more
needfully. When I was about seven years of age, I remember I had
at one time eight tutors in several qualities, languages, music, dancing,
.writing, and needlework ; but my genius was quite averse from all
but my book, and that I was so eager of, that my mother thinking it
prejudiced my health, would moderate me in it ; yet this rather ani-
mated me than kept me back, and every moment I could steal from
my play I would employ in any book I could find, when my own
were locked up from me. After dinner and supper I still had an
hour allowed me to play, and then I would steal into some hole or
other to read. My father would have me learn Latin, and I was so
apt that I outstripped my brothers who were at school, although my
father's chaplain, that was my tutor, was a pitiful dull fellow. My
brothers, who had a great deal of wit, had some emulation at the
progress I made in my learning, which very well pleased my father,
though my mother would have been contented I had not so wholly
addicted myself to that as to neglect my other qualities : as for music
and dancing I profited very little in them, and would never practise
my lute or harpsichord but when my masters were with me ; and for
my needle, I absolutely hated it ; play among other children I de-
spised, and when I was forced to entertain such as came to visit me,
I tired them with more grave instructions than their mothers, and
plucked all their babies to pieces, and kept the children in such awe,
that they were glad when I entertained myself with elder company,
to whom I was very acceptable, and living in the house with many
persons that had a great deal of wit, and very profitable serious dis-
courses being frequent at my father's table and in my mother's draw-
ing room, I was very attentive to all, and gathered up things that I
would utter again to the great admiration of many that took my memo-
ry and imitation for wit. It pleased God, that through the good instruc-
tions of my mother, and the sermons she carried me to, I was con-
vinced that the knowledge of God was the most excellent study, and
accordingly applied myself to it, and to practise as I was taught. I
used to exhort my mother's maids much, and to turn their idle dis-
courses to good subjects ; but I thought, when I had done this on the
Lord's day, and every day performed my due tasks of reading and
praying, that then I was free to any thing that was not sin ; for I was
not at that time convinced of the vanity of conversation which was
not scandalously wicked ; I thought it no sin to learn or hear witty
songs and amorous sonnets or poems, and twenty things of that kind,
wherein I was so apt, that I became the confident in all the loves that
were managed among my mother's young women ; and there was
none of them but had many lovers, and some particular friends be-
loved above the rest.
Here Mrs. Hutchinson's story of herself abruptly breaks off; but,
from the memoirs of Col. Hutchinson, we learn some further inter-
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esting particulars. Mr. Hutchinson was in his twenty second year
when he conceived a romantic prepossession in favor of Miss Aps-
ley, from what he heard of her in a large party; and at their first
interview, this prepossession became a fixed and ardent attachment.
Mrs. Hutchinson piously refers the impression made on his mind to
Divine Providence. That he should have so strong impulses to-
wards a stranger whom he never saw, was "certainly," she says, "of
the Lord, though he perceived it not." It were dangerous, in many
cases, to draw such a conclusion; but, in this instance, the event jus-
tifies such a view of the whole transaction. The passage in which
Mrs. Hutchinson, speaking of herself in the third person, describes
the warmth of Mr. Hutchinson's attachment, and ascribes to his in-
fluence the formation of her own character, is too beautiful and char-
acteristic to be passed over.
" Never was there a passion more ardent and less idolatrous. He
loved her better than his life, with inexpressible tenderness and kind-
ness, had a most high obliging esteem of her, yet still considered
honor, religion, and duty above her ; nor ever suffered the intrusion
of such a dotage as should blind him from marking her imperfections.
These he looked upon with such an indulgent eye, as did not abate
his love and esteem of her, while it augmented his care to blot out
all those spots which might make her appear less worthy of that res-
pect he paid her. And thus indeed he soon made her more equal
to him than he found her ; for she was a very faithful mirror, reflect-
ing truly, though but dimly, his own glories upon him, so long as he
was present ; but she that was nothing before his inspection gave her
a fair figure, when he was removed, was only filled with a dark mist,
and never could again take in any delightful object, nor return any
shining representation. The greatest excellency she had, was the
power of apprehending, and the virtue of loving his : so, as his
shadow, she waited on him every where, till he was taken into that
region of light, which admits of none, and then she vanished into
nothing. 'Twas not her face he loved ; her honor and her virtue
were his mistresses, and these (like Pygmalion's) images of his own
making ; for he polished and gave form to what he found with all
the roughness of the quarry about it; but meeting with a compliant
subject for his own wise government, he found as much satisfaction
as he gave, and never had occasion to number his marriage among
his infelicities."
They were married July 3, 1G38. In October, 1641, they took
up their residence at Mr. Hutchinson's seat at Owthorpe in Notting-
hamshire, where they had passed but a few peaceful and happy-
months, when " the kingdom began to blaze out with the long-
conceived flame of civil war." From this period, the life of Mrs.
Hutchinson is identified with the narrative she has given of the pub-
lic transactions in which the Colonel, her husband, took so distin-
guished a part. Although her own brother, Sir Allen Apsley, and
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the greater part of her relations, took part with the King, Mrs.
Hutchinson warmly concurred in the patriotic devotion of her hus-
band to the cause of his country. When Sir Richard Byron, his
relative, endeavored, through the medium of a friend, to gain over
the Colonel, then governor of Nottingham Castle, to the royal inter-
est, using as an argument, that the loss of his whole estate was in-
evitable if he persisted in the engagement he was in, the Governor
returned the following answer : " That except he found his own
heart prone to such treachery, he might consider there was, if noth-
ing else, so much of a Byron's blood in him, that he should very
much scorn to betray or quit a trust he had undertaken ; but the
grounds he went on were such, that he very much despised such a
thought as to sell his faith for base rewards or fears, and therefore
could not consider the loss of his estate, which his wife was as wil-
ling to part with as himself, in this cause, wherein he was resolved
to persist, in the same place in which it had pleased God to call him
to the defence of it." On many occasions, the heroic, and at the
same time amiable character of this extraordinary woman, was illus-
triously displayed, too often in contrast with the spirit of those dark
and troubled times. The following passage from the Memoirs, af-
fords a striking instance.
"There was a large room, which was the chapel, in the castle.
This they had filled full of prisoners, besides a very bad prison,
which was no better than a dungeon, called the Lion's Den. And
the new Captain Palmer, and another minister, having nothing else
to do, walked up and down the castle-yard, insulting and beating the
poor prisoners as they were brought up. In the encounter, one of
the Derby captains was slain, and five of our men hurt, who, for
want of another surgeon, were brought to the Governor's wife; and
she, having some excellent balsams and plasters in her closet, with
the assistance of a gentleman that had some skill, dressed all their
wounds, whereof some were dangerous, being all shots, with such
good success that they were all cured in convenient time. , After
our hurt men were dressed, as she stood at her chamber door, see-
ing three of the prisoners sorely cut and carried down bleeding into
the Lion's Den, she desired the marshal to bring them in to her, and
bound up and dressed their wounds also; which while she was do-
ing, Captain Palmer came in and told her, his soul abhorred to see
this favor to the enemies of God. She replied, she had done noth-
ing but what she thought was her duty, in humanity to them, as fel-
low creatures, not as enemies. But he was very ill-satisfied with
her, and with the Governor presently after, when he came into a
large room where a very great supper was prepared, and more room
and meat than guests ; to fill up which, the Governor had sent for
one Mr. Mason, one of the prisoners, a man of good fashion, who
had married a relation of his, and was brought up more in fury than
for any proof of guilt in him, and I know not whether two or three
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others the Governor had called to meat with him. For which Cap-
tain Palmer bellowed loudly against him, as a favorer of malignants
and cavaliers. Who could have thought this godly, zealous man,
who could scarce eat his supper for grief to see the enemies of God
thus favored, should have after entered into a conspiracy against the
Governor, with those very same persons who now so much provoked
his zeal ? But the Governor took no notice of it, though he set the
very soldiers a muttering against him and his wife for these poor hu-
manities."
Mrs. Hutchinson's singular magnanimity appeared on another oc-
casion, when, having discovered a conspiracy against the Colonel,
during his absence from Ovvthorpe, in which the family chaplain, her
own waiting-woman, and two more servants, were implicated, she
contented herself with taking active measures to defeat the plot, dis-
missing the principal accomplices with impunity. Ivie, the author
of the plot, had attended on the Colonel. Him, Mrs. Hutchinson,
not being willing to cast him into prison as he deserved, took with
her immediately to London, and said nothing till he came there.
" Then she told him how base and treacherous he had been ; but,
to save her own shame for having entertained so false a person, and
for her mother's sake, whom he had formerly served, she was willing
to dismiss him privately, without acquainting the Colonel, who could
not know but he must punish him. So she gave him something, and
turned him away, and told her husband, she came only to acquaint
him with the insurrection, and her own fears of staying in the coun-
try without him." On their return, having ascertained that the chap-
lain had been Ivie's confederate, Mrs. Hutchinson "told him private-
ly of it, and desired him to find a pretence to take his leave of the
Colonel, that she might not be necessitated to complain, and procure
him the punishment his treason deserved. He went away thus, but
so far from being wrought upon, that he hated her to the death for
her kindness." Conduct like this stands in no need of comment : it
shewed her to be indeed one who had drunk deep into the spirit of
the Gospel.
At the Restoration, Colonel Hutchinson was chiefly indebted to
the exertions of his admirable wife, and the good offices of her
brother, Sir Allen Apsley, for the favor extended to him in the first
instance. She saw that he was ambitious of being a public sacri-
fice, and " herein only in her whole life, resolved to disobey him,
and to improve all the affection he had to her for his safety." In
compliance with her entreaty, he concealed himself, till she had, by
a letter written in his name to the Speaker, ascertained the temper
of the House of Commons, who voted the Colonel free without any
engagement : his only punishment being a discharge from the pres-
ent parliament, and disqualification for any office, civil or military.
"Although he was most thankful to God, yet he was not very well
satisfied in himself for accepting the deliverance. His wife', who
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thought she had never deserved so well of him, as in the endeavors
and labors she exercised to bring him off, never displeased him more
in her life, and had much ado to persuade him to be contented with
his deliverance." But all her solicitude for his safety could not in-
duce her to listen for a moment to any measure which would secure
it at the expense of honor. When a kinsman of hers, of the court
party, after disclosing to her the secret resolution of the ministry to
exclude the Colonel from the benefit of the indemnity, told her, "to
draw her in by examples, how the late statesmen's wives came and
offered all the information they had gathered from their husbands,
and how she could not but know more than any of them, and that,
if yet she would impart any thing that might shew her gratitude, she
might redeem her family from ruin ;" Mrs. Hutchinson disdained to
turn informer, replying, that " she perceived any safety one could
buy of them, was not worth the price of honor and conscience ; that
she knew nothing of state managements, or, if she did, she would not
establish herself upon any man's blood and ruin." She tried, in-
deed, to persuade the Colonel to leave England, which, if he had
done, he would probably have lived to see the happy re-establishment
of our constitutional liberty, and to be again a blessing to his coun-
try; but he considered that his flight would betray a distrust of God's
providence, and would not take this timely step. They retired to
Owthorpe, where they were suffered to pass a winter and a summer,
unmolested, observing the greatest privacy, enjoying themselves
" with much patience and comfort, not envying the glories and hon-
ors of the court, nor the prosperity of the wicked." But, on the
1 lth of October, 1663, the Colonel was put under arrest, by order
of the Duke of Buckingham, upon alleged suspicion of being con-
cerned in a treasonable plot. After eight days, he was set at liberty,
on engaging to stay a week at his own house ; but was again taken
up on the 23d, and after a week's illegal close imprisonment, was
brought up to London, and committed, without having undergone
any examination, to the Tower. After making an ineffectual per-
sonal application to Secretary Bennet, afterwards Earl of Arlington,
to obtain for the Colonel leave to see persons on private business,
Mrs. Hutchinson now submitted to suffer with her high-minded hus-
band, according to his own will and express injunctions, in patient
resignation. On his being transferred, still without trial or legal cause
of imprisonment, to Sandown Castle, his wife, when she "understood
his bad accommodation, made all the means she could by her friends,
to procure liberty that she might be in the Castle with him ; but that
was absolutely denied ; whereupon she and her son and daughter went
to Deal, and there took lodgings, from whence they walked every
day on foot to dinner, and back again at night, with horrible toil and
inconvenience ; and procured the captain's wife to diet them with
the Colonel, where they had meat good enough, but, through the
poverty of the people, and their want of all necessaries, and the
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faculty to order things as they should be, it was very inconvenient to
them. Yet, the Colonel endured it so cheerfully that he was never
more pleasant and contented in his life. His wife bore all her own
toils joyfully enough for the love of him, but could not but be very-
sad at the sight of his undeserved sufferings ; and he would very
sweetly and kindly chide her for it, and tell her, that if she were but
cheerful, he should think this suffering the happiest thing that ever
befel him." On the 3d of September, Mrs. Hutchinson being gone
to Ovvthorpe, to fetch her children, the Colonel was seized with the
ague which carried him off. His wife had left him "with a very sad
and ill-presaging heart :" she returned only to see his corpse, and to
receive through his brother his dying message : " Let her, as she is
above other women, shew herself on this occasion a good Christian,
and above the pitch of ordinary women." He expired on Lord's
day evening, Sept. 11, 1664, and was buried at Ovvthorpe; being,
to use Mrs. Hutchinson's words, " brought home with honor to his
grave through the dominions of his murderers, who wrere ashamed
of his glories, which all their tyrannies could not extinguish with
his life."
Of her feelings on this trying occasion, Mrs. Hutchinson observes
a silence which speaks more loudly than the most impassioned lan-
guage. Here closes the record, nor is it known how long she sur-
vived this overwhelming calamity. The Owthorpe estate she sold,
with the concurrence of her eldest son, to Charles Hutchinson, Esq.
a half-brother of the Colonel's ; but there is reason to believe, that,
after selling the estates, the sum to be divided, left each member of
the family in straitened circumstances. Col. Hutchinson left four sons,
of whom the youngest only, John, left issue two sons. One of these
emigrated to America, where his descendants yet venerate the
memory of their great ancestor. The other is said to have gone out
as commander of a ship of war given by Queen Anne to the Czar
Peter, and to have been lost at sea. Of the four daughters who also
survived Colonel Hutchinson, the youngest lies buried at Owthorpe,
in the same vault with her father, whom probably she soon followed
to the grave. Little more is known of her sisters, than that one, to
whom Mrs. Hutchinson addressed one of her books of devotion,
married a gentleman of the name of Orgill.
The " Memoirs of Colonel Hutchinson," have raised his biogra-
pher to a high niche among the literary and mora] ornaments of her
country. The eminent qualities of heart and mind which are dis-
played in that work, have won the admiration of the public, notwith-
standing what many persons regard as the Puritanic cast of her piety.
In her religious writings,* the same qualities are not less conspicuous,
united with a degree of acquaintance with the learning then most in
*"On the Principles of the Christian Religion; and, On Theology. By Mrs.
Lucy Hutchinson. 8vo. London, 1817.
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vogue, reputable to a scholar, and distinguishing in a female, together
with a considerable superiority to the prejudices of the times. Those
which have been published by the Editor of the " Memoirs," are,
a tract " On the Principles of Religion," addressed to her daughter,
Mrs. Orgill ; and one " On Theology," composed apparently for her
own improvement, and, it is conjectured, at an earlier period of her
life. The latter is the more labored and scholastic of the two,
abounding with learned references to the Greek and Roman clas-
sics, and to Jewish as well as Christian writers ; but it is less prac-
tical than the other, and though it contains abundant proofs of the
Author's intuitive good sense, and many very striking passages, is
less generally interesting. The former treatise displays all the sim-
plicity, genuine humility, liberality, and exalted piety of the writer's
character. Some extracts from this work will form the most appro-
priate conclusion to the present memoir.
In the dedication to her daughter, Mrs. Hutchinson thus states her
design in the work.
" If any attempts have been made to shake you in principles, I
bewail it as my neglect of fixing them by precept and example, and
have written this little summary for you ; not that I think it is any
thing but what you may, more methodically collected, find in many
books already writen, and as usefully gather for yourself out of the
same spiritual garden where I had them ; but that it may lie by you
as a witness of those sound truths I desired to instruct you in, and,
as my last exhortation, that you take heed you be not seduced to
factions and parties in religion, from that catholic faith and universal
love, wherein all that are true Christians must unite.
" There never was a time when the truth was more clouded with
the mists of error, than at this day ; so that it is very difficult for
young converts not to be infected with some of them ; all the old
ones, against which the Church of God in and immediately after
Christ's time so powerfully contended, being renewed in our days,
and many new stalks growing upon every old poisonous root, the
broachers and sect-masters coming, many of them, forth in the ap-
pearance of angels of light. And it is Satan's policy at this day,
when the gilded baits of the world, and the sweet allurements of the
flesh will not prevail, then to tempt with a wrested scripture, as he
dealt even with Christ himself; and if some one opinion draw men
into a sect, for that they espouse all the erroneous practices and opin-
ions of that sect, and reject the benefit they might have by spiritual
converse with Christians of other judgments ; at least receive noth-
ing from them without it pass the verdict of that sect they incline to.
But I must, having been very much exercised concerning this thing,
hold forth to you the testimony that I have received of God, whether
you will receive it from me or not. Sects are a great sin, and Chris-
tians ought all to live in the unity of the Spirit ; and though it can-
not be but that offences will come in the Church, yet, wo be to them
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by whom they come. Love is the bond of perfectness, and they
that break the communion of saints, walk not charitably, and will be
highly accountable to God for it. Those that make divisions, and
those that follow dividing seducers, keep not close to the indisputa-
ble precept of Christ. In his name, therefore, I beg of you to study
and exercise universal love to every member of Christ, under what
denomination soever you find them.
" You may, perhaps, when you have read these common princi-
ples and grounds which I have here collected for you, think I might
have spared my pains, and sent you a two-penny catechism, which
contains the substance of all this ; and it is true, here is nothing but
what in substance you will find in every catechism. But though we
ought to be taught these things the first that we are taught, yet they
will hold us learning all our lives, and at every review we shall find
our understanding grow in them. The want of having these grounds
well laid, is the cause of so many wavering and falling into various
sects. The Apostle reproaches the weakness of our sex more than
the other, when, speaking of the prevalency of seducers, he says,
'they lead about silly women, who are ever learning, and never able
to come to the knowledge of the truth.' Therefore, every wise and
holy woman ought to watch strictly over herself, that she become not
one of these. But, as our sex, through ignorance and weakness of
judgment, (which in the most knowing women is inferior to the mas-
culine understanding of men,) are apt to entertain fancies, and per-
tinacious in them, so we ought to watch over ourselves in such a day
as this, and to embrace nothing rashly; but, as our own imbecility is
made known to us, to take heed of presumption in ourselves, and to
lean by faith on the strength of the Lord, and beg his protection, that
we may not be led into error. I have had many distractions in spirit
and interruptions in setting down these things, which I send you as a
testimony of my best and most tender love to you, who cannot con-
sider the age and temptations you are cast upon, without great
thoughts of heart and earnest prayers for you many times when you
sleep, and dream not of the spiritual loving care I have for you.
" It is life, not notion, that God requires. If you live in your first
light, God will enlarge it, and give you eternal light and life in our
Lord Jesus, which is the most fervent prayer of your truly affection-
ate mother."
We shall give two extracts from the body of the work ; one on
the love of God, the other on the fear of God.
" As faith apprehends God to be the chiefest good, and not only so
in himself, but our sovereign and only felicity, we cannot so believe,
but our souls must love him above all, and long after him, and seek
their supreme joy in the fruition of him ; which since we can no
way arrive to but by Christ, hence he becomes the chiefest of ten
thousand to our poor souls, exceeding precious, excellent, and ad-
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mirable, far above all that the tongues of men and angels can ex-
press him.
"All men pretend a love to God, but there are few in whom it is
sincere. Therefore, to discern our love, I shall only here insert a
few notes of true love :
"1. None truly love God, but those who love God only : they that
let any creatures share their heart with God, deceive themselves, and
give God none of it.
"2. As God is to be loved only, so he is to be loved constantly;
as well when he strikes as when he strokes ; as well when he takes
as when he gives. Whom Christ loved, he loved to the end ; and
they that love Christ, love him to the end.
" 3. He that truly loves God, loves him for himself, more than for
the good he expects from him.
"4. He that loves God, loves all things that are his as his, and
those most that have most impression of his holiness.
" 5. He that loves God, loves all those that love him, and delights
in their conversation, especially when they contend in the praises of
God, and endeavor to magnify his name.
" 6. The love of God makes true believers to love all his ordi-
nances, to love his word, and the messengers of it.
" 7. Further, the love of God makes a true believer to love all his
dispensations, even his chastisements, so far as they are destructive to
that sin which hath procured them.
" 8. Again, the love of God makes believers love his interest, and
be willing to part with all things that are dear to them for the ad-
vancement of his glory.
"9. The love of God makes true believers to hate all things that
are contrary to his holiness, even in themselves and their most belov-
ed relations.
" 10. He that truly loves God, delights to meditate of him, and
to discourse of him, and to hear the mention of his name, and is
weary of that conversation where God is seldom, slightly, or never
remembered. Do we not see that even in creature loves, whatever
the heart is set on, men take all occasions to admire it, to consult how
to attain the enjoyment of it, and delight to hear the object of their
love praised and commended by others; love those that love it, and
hate those that hate it, and use all endeavors to make others admire
and love what they do ? And are we not ashamed to pretend to the
love of God, when a little discourse of him is tedious to us ; when
those that hate the mention of him, whose mouths are full of lies
and vanity, whose hearts are full of the world, and whose conversa-
tions savor nothing of God, are our beloved and delightful compan-
ions ? This is a sore evil, and deserves a deep consideration and re-
flection. Even the saints themselves, in their conferences of God
at this day, are rather fortifying each other in particular opinions that
they affect, than magnifying the name of God for his excellency and
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his wonders manifested to the sons of men in his great works of
creation, providence, redemption, sanctification. Wh odeclare to
each other the goodness of God daily exercised to their souls, and
call on their friends and neighbors to bless the Lord with them and
for them ? Ah ! we live in such a world, that a true lover of God
cannot do it, without casting pearls before swine that would turn and
rend them ; and therefore are fain almost in all company to keep si-
lence, or else have their hearts disturbed from the contemplation of
the dear object of their souls, and led astray in the wilderness of the
world."
The other passage occurs in speaking of the slavish fear of God
felt by the wicked.
" This fear, bondage, and terror, believers and true worshippers
of God are delivered from, through the redemption that is in Christ;
but that gentle curb which the love of God puts, as a bridle, on our
wild affections, is the delight of the saints, who count the service of
God perfect freedom. These are affected with a reverential, filial
awe in his presence. They dread his displeasure more than hell,
and seek his face and favor more than heaven. Heaven would not
be heaven to a true child of God, if God were not there in his grace
and favor ; and were it possible there could be a hell where God's
favor could be enjoyed, a true lover of God would choose it before
paradise without him. But God cannot be separated from heaven :
he is the heaven of heaven ; and where he is present in grace and
favor, there is no hell in the greatest tortures imaginable. This
made Lawrence's gridiron a bed of roses. This made the stones
that were hurled at Stephen, only to beat away the gross air from
about him, and bring the glorious heaven into his view, with the sight
of which he was so ecstasied, he felt not the pain of the strokes,
xhis reverential fear begets a holy care and watch in the soul, sus-
pecting and crying out to God to keep his citadel there, at every
small motion and appearance of the enemy, in any suggestion or any
rising mist. 'Tis a holy frame of spirit that keeps us always in a
reverent awe and dread of the majesty of God, and in a humble pos-
ture of soul before him, yet cuts not off, but aggravates our delight
in him, our joy and our singing before him : it is our wall of defense,
and not our prison ; our badge of honor, and not our chain of bon-
dage ; herein our love is exercised ; and this is one of God's sweet
embracings, whereby he holds in our souls, and keeps them close to
him. He that fears not God, loves him not; as 'tis to be suspected
too many do, that unreverently approach his throne in all their filthy
pollutions, and dread not to come so undecently into his presence."
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MRS. CATHARINE CLARKE,
WIFE OF THE REV. SAMUEL CLARKE.
Catharine Overton (for such was her former name) was born
at Bedworth, in the county of Warwick, four miles from Coventry,
Feburary 25, 1602, of religious parents. Her father was Mr. Val-
entine Overton, Rector of Bedworth, where he lived a constant and
diligent preacher of God's holy word, till he was almost 82 years of
age. Her mother was Mrs. Isaverton, a most excellent woman, who
took the whole burthen of family affairs, both within and without
doors, from off her husband, that he might with more freedom at-
tend his holy calling.
It pleased God betimes to plant the seeds of grace in her heart,
which first discovered themselves when she was about fifteen years
old ; at which time God discovered to her the corruption of her na-
ture, and some common miscarriages which are incident to youth.
These made such a deep impression upon her tender years that
whereas she was naturally of a cheerful, sanguine constitution, she
now became serious, and somewhat melancholy. Hereupon Satan,
that old serpent and enemy of our souls, assaulted her with many
and various temptations, whereby he sought to quench these heaven-
ly sparks, and to stifle this new creature in its first conception. But
by frequent reading the sacred Scriptures, diligent attending to the%
word preached, and secret prayer, it pleased the all-wise God to
support and strengthen her against him and all his devices. Yet did
these conflicts continue the longer, because she had none to whom
she durst unbosom herself, and make her case known.
When she was about seventeen years old, she was, by her parents,
sent to Siwel, in Northamptonshire, to wait upon a young lady that
was somewhat related to her.
But this kind of life was so tedious and irksome to her, that at the
end of six months she prevailed with her parents to send for her home
again. Hear the narrative of it in her own words, as they were found
written in her cabinet after her decease. "When," saith she, "I
was but young, my father being at prayers in his family, I many times
found such sweetness, and was so affected therewith, that 1 could
not but wish that my heart might oftener be in such a frame. But
childhood, and the vanities thereof, soon cooled these heavenly
sparks. But my father caused me to write sermons, and to repeat
the same ; as also to learn Mr. Perkins's catechism, which I often
repeated to myself when I was alone, and therein especially I took
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notice of those places wherein he had set down the signs and marks
of a strong and weak faith, being convinced in my conscience that
without faith I could not be saved, and that every faith would not serve
turn to bring me to heaven.
" Hereupon I fell to examination of myself, and though T could
not find the marks of a strong, yet, through God's mercy, 1 found
the marks of a true, though but weak faith, which was some comfort
and support to me. And that God which began this good work in
me, was pleased to quicken and stir me up to a diligent use of such
means as himself had ordained and appointed for the increase thereof,
as hearing the word preached, receiving the Sacrament of the Lord's
Supper, and use of other private duties.
But when I was about seventeen years old my parents sent me
to wait upon a young gentlewoman in Northamptonshire, the only
daughter of Sir W. W. ; at which time, being sent so far from my
near and dear relations, and meeting with some other discouragements
in the family, through want of the means of grace which I formerly
enjoyed, I grew very melancholy. I began also to have great work-
ings of conscience in me ; and Satan that deadly enemy to the
health and welfare of our souls, who like a roaring lion walks about
continually, seeking whom he may devour, took his advantage,
through my ignorance of his devices, to raise up fears, doubts, and
terrors of conscience in me, by reason of my manifold sins, and for
walking so unworthy of God's mercies whilst I did enjoy them, and
for being so unfruitful under the means of grace, and so unable to
obey God, and to keep his commandments ; and by reason hereof
I had no peace nor rest in my soul, night nor day, but was persuaded
that all the threatenings contained in the book of God against wicked
and ungodly men did belong unto me, and were my portion, as being
one of them against whom they were denounced ; insomuch as when
I took up the Bible to read therein, it was accompanied with much
fear and trembling; yet being convinced that it was my duty frequent-
ly to read God's word, I durst not omit or neglect it.
" Thus I continued a great while, bearing the burden of grievous
temptations and inward afflictions of conscience, yet durst I not open
the wound, nor, reveal my condition to any, as thinking and judging
my condition and case to be like no body's else ; but God, who is
rich and infinite in mercy, and Jesus Christ, who bought his elect at
so dear a rate, would not suffer any of his to be lost, and therefore
he was graciously pleased to preserve, strengthen, and uphold me by
his own power from sinking into hell through despair, and from run-
ning out of my wits. Thus, by reason of my continual grief and an-
guish of heart night and day, I was so weakened and changed within
the compass of these six months, that when I came home my dear
parents they scarce knew me."
Some years after her return, she, for the most part, continued in
her father's family, where by a diligent and conscientious use of the
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means, both public and private, she did thrive and grow in grace and
in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, as she in-
creased and grew in days and years ; and therewith also learned and
exercised all parts of housewifery, which might fit her for government
of a family, when God should call her thereto.
February 2, 1625, which was the same day on which King Charles
the First was crowned, she was, with the consent of parents on both
sides, married to Mr. S. Clarke, who at that time was minister at
Shotwick, four miles beyond West Chester, who looked upon this
match as the greatest outward temporal blessing that ever God be-
stowed upon him ; whereby he could experimentally say, " that a
prudent wife is the gift of God," and that in the possession of her he
enjoyed more mercies than he could well enumerate. But we must
descend to particulars, and to take notice of some of those virtues and
graces wherewith God had beautified and adorned her soul.
Her piety was signal and exemplary : from her first conversion to
the hour of her death, her life was not stained with any scandalous
sin, which might be a blemish either to her person, profession, or re-
lations. She was a constant and diligent attendant upon the public
ministry of God's holy word ; and when she lived where she had the
opportunity of hearing lectures in the week day, she made choice
to attend upon those who were most plain, practical, and powerful
preachers : from whose sermons, and God's blessing upon them, she
always sucked some spiritual nourishment, and came home refreshed ;
and when days of humiliation or thanksgiving came, she never failed
to make one among God's people in the celebration of them.
The Lord's-days she carefully sanctified, both in public and in pri-
vate, rising earlier upon them than upon others, especially when she
had many young children about her, that so she might have oppor-
tunity as well for secret as for family duties, before she was called
away to the public. She was, like David's door-keeper, one of the
first in and last out of God's house. Her constant gesture at pray-
er was kneeling, thinking that she could not be too humble before
God. Her usual manner was to write sermons, to prevent drowsi-
ness and distractions, and to help memory ; whereof she hath left
many volumes ; and her practice was to make good use of them, by
frequent reading and meditating upon them ; and if at any time she
was cast into such places and company as were a hindrance to her
in the strict sanctification of this holy day, it was a grief and burden
to her.
There was no day that passed over her head, except sickness or
some other unavoidable necessity prevented, wherein she did not
read some portions of the Sacred Scriptures, both in the Old and
New Testament, and of the Psalms ; and in reading, she took spe-
cial notice of such passages as most concerned herself: she was fre-
quent and constant in secret prayer and meditation : she also read
much in other good books, especially in the works of those eminent
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and excellent divines, Mr. Ambrose and Mr. Reyner : and in read-
ing of them, she used to transcribe such passages as most warmed
her heart.
She never neglected any opportunity of receiving the Sacrament
of the Lord's Supper, and before her coming to it was very strict
and serious in the duty of self-examination; and for her furtherance
therein, at. such times, she read some of those books that treated up-
on that subject. a The fruits of her holiness manifested themselves
in the exercise of those graces which God required of her : she was
not a wordy, but a real Christian ; a true Israelite, in whom was no
guile. Her endeavor was to yield universal, constant, cheerful, and
sincere obedience to all God's commandments, and wherein she fail-
ed and came short it was her grief and burden. Her meditations
upon what she heard and read were frequent ; and her heart having
" indited a good matter, her tongue was as the pen of a ready wri-
ter," taking opportunities to speak to the edification of those with
whom she conversed.
She filled every relation with the exercise of such graces and du-
ties as were suitable thereto, knowing that where relative duties are
neglected, and not made conscience of, there also our pretended re-
ligion is in vain. As a wife, she was singular and very exemplary
in that reverence and obedience which she yielded to her husband,
both in words and deeds. She never rose from the table, even when
they were alone, but she made a courtesy ; she never drank to him
without bowing ; his word was a law to her ; she often denied her-
self, to gratify him ; and when in her sickness and weakness he men-
tioned her case in particular to God in his prayers, the duty being en-
ded, she would make him a courtesy, and thank him. Tn case of
his absence she would pray with her family morning and evening,
the like she would do in his presence, in case of his sickness and in-
ability to perform the duty himself. Her modesty and chastity were
rare and remarkable; but fitter to be conceived by those who know
what belongs to them, than to be expressed in words ; for there is a
conjugal as well as a virginal chastity.
In case of her husband's sickness, she was a tender and diligent
nurse about him, skilful and careful in making him broths and what
else was needful for him. If at any time she saw him in passion,
with sweet and gentle words she would mollify and moderate it.
She was often a spur, but never a bridle to him in those things which
were good. She was always well pleased with such habitations, as in
their many removes, he provided for her ; and with such apparel
and diet as his means, which was sometimes short would allow. She
never murmured at any of those dispensations which God's all wise
Providence carved out to them.
As a mother to her children, whereof God gave her nine, four
sons and five daughters, she nourished them all with her own breasts;
and knew how to order them both in health and sickness. She lov-
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ed them dearly without fondness ; was careful to give them nurture
as well as nourishment, not sparing the rod when there was just oc-
casion ; and as soon as they were capable, she was vigilant and dili-
gent to season their tender years with grace and virtue, by instilling
into them the first grounds and principles of religion : and as they
grew up, she did more freely discover her tender affection to them,
by instruction, advice and good counsel, as there was occasion ; and
when they were disposed of abroad, by her gracious letters, and
hearty instructions at their meetings, she labored to build them up in
grace and godliness ; and God was pleased to let her see to her
great joy and comfort, the fruit of her prayers, and pains in keeping
them from scandalous courses, and in working grace in most of their
hearts. When they were married and had children, she was fre-
quently making one thing or other for them.
As a mistress she was careful, as far as she could, to bring such as
were religious, at least seemingly, into her family ; and having occa-
sion to be much in their company, she would take all occasions and
opportunities to manifest her love and care of their souls, by fre-
quently dropping in good counsel and wholesome instructions, by
catechising, inquiring what they remembered of the sermons they
heard, reading her notes to them, encouraging them in what was
good, and with the spirit of meekness blaming them for what was
evil : and, for housewifery and household affairs, she instructed their
ignorance, commended and encouraged what they did well ; and
herself being of an active disposition, and having her hand in most
businesses, set them a pattern and gave them an example how to or-
der the same. She was careful, so far as possibly she could, to pre-
vent all spoil, and to see that they did not eat the bread of idleness.
Towards her friends, and her own and her husband's relations,
she was courteous and amiable in her deportment, free and hearty in
their entertainment. She would have plenty without want, and com-
petency without superfluity ; and all so neat and well ordered, that
none who came to her table, wherof some were persons of honor
and quality, but commended her cookery, and were well pleased
with their entertainment.
In her household furniture she loved not to want nor desired more
than was needful. It was, though not costly, yet cleanly, and she
was frequent in repairing and mending decays and what was amiss.
For her apparel she was never willing to have that which was costly
for the matter, or showy for the manner ; rather under than above
her rank. For the fashion of it, it was grave and exemplary, with-
out levity. She followed Peter's directions which he gave to Chris-
tian women in his time, 1 Peter, iii. 3, &c. " whose adorning, let it
not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of
gold, or of putting on of apparel ; but let it be the hidden man of the
heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek
and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. For
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after this manner, in old time, the holy women who trusted in God
adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands."
She was very charitable to the poor wherever she lived, accor-
ding to that estate wherewith God had intrusted her. She was rea-
dy to relieve such as were objects of charity with meat or drink, and
to lend them money, and to minister some physical things, whereof
her closet was never empty, according as their necessities required.
She had a very melting heart, and truly sympathized with the church
and people of God, whether at home or abroad, in all their suffer-
ings and rejoiced in their prosperity.
Her humility was not inferior to her other graces. She had al-
ways a very low esteem of herself, and was ready to prefer others
before herself, and would not take it ill when her inferiors were set
above her. She well remembered the Apostle Peter's charge : "All
of you be subject to one another, and be clothed with humility. For
God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble." And
that of St. Paul, Rom. xii. 10. "In honor prefer one another."
Her love to God, to his ordinances, and to his children was hearty
and without dissimulation. " She abhorred that which was evil, and
clave to that which was good." She was of so sweet and meek a
disposition, that she never used to speak evil of any, but was ever
prone to forgive and forget wrongs.
She was very prudent in managing her household affairs to the
best advantage. ' She would have divers dishes of meat with little
cost, yet so dressed and ordered as made them grateful and pleasing
to all. She was careful to see that nothing was lost or spoiled. By
her wise and frugal managing her household, though her husband had
never much coming in, yet at the year's end he could always save
something : so that her price to him was far above rubies. His heart
trusted in her : for she did him good, and not evil, all the days of her
life." Prov. xxxi. 10, 11, 12.
In her younger days she was healthful, of a cheerful and active
spirit, and abhorring idleness ; she would have her hand in every
business. In her old age, though she was infirm, yet whilst she
could stand she would be about one kind of work or other. She
bore her weakness and afflictions with much patience and holy sub-
mission to the will and good pleasure of God : she was so uniform in
the frame of her spirit, and so maintained her peace with God through
her holy and humble walking, that when death, many times in her
sickness, threatened to seize upon her, she feared it not, as knowing
that it would be gain and advantage to her. Concerning which,
hear what she herself left in writing, which was found after her de-
cease.
" In my younger days my spiritual afflictions and inward troubles
continued long before I could attain to any assurance of my salva-
tion ; but of late years it hath pleased God, of his infinite mercy and
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free grace, to give me more assurance of his unchangeable love
through faith in his rich and free promises of life and salvation, through
Jesus Christ, who is precious to my soul, and who is the author and
finisher of my faith, God blessed for evermore : to whom be praise
and glory, world without end. Amen."
In her converse with her friends " she opened her mouth with wis-
dom, and in her tongue was the law of kindness," Prov. xxxi. 26,
which made her company grateful to all, and burdensome or under-
valued by none. Divers years before her death, upon catching cold,
she had many fits of sickness and weakness, and some of them
were so violent as brought her near unto death ; yet the Lord had
mercy upon her husband and family, in raising her up again almost
beyond hope and expectation : and she was always a gainer by her
afflictions, God making good that promise to her, Rom. viii. 28. " All
things shall work together for good to them that love God, to them
who are called according to his purpose :" for after those fits she
walked more humbly, holily, fruitfully and faithfully, both in her gen-
eral and particular calling, as one that waited daily for the appearing
of her Lord and Master. The winter before her death she enjoyed
better health than she had done for some years before.
May 25, 1675, some friends came from London to dine with her;
and that morning according to her usual custom in such cases, she
was careful and busy in providing for their kind entertainment : but it
pleased God, whilst they were at dinner, to strike her with a kind of
shivering, which made her look paler than ordinary ; and after din-
ner her distemper continued, so that she was soon confined to her
chamber, and not long after, for the most part to her bed. But
herein God shewed her great mercy, and had respect to her weak-
ness, in that during all the time of her languishing she was free from
sickness and pain, only sometimes she was troubled with some stitch-
es, which yet were tolerable, not violent ; she was also troubled with
some vapors, which made her breath very short ; yet had she a pretty
good appetite, and relished her food well till about two days before
her death ; but then though she did eat yet she found little taste in
her meat. Her sleep was pretty good, and always very quiet; she
was never ill after food or sleep : only two days before her departure
she slept little, by reason of the continual rattling of phlegm in her
throat, when she wanted strength to expectorate.
As to the state of her soul, during all the time of her sickness she
enjoyed constant peace and serenity, and had, through God's mercy,
much joy and peace by believing ; Satan, that roaring lion, who uses
to be most strong when we are most weak, being so chained up by
God that he had no power to molest her. She often cried out,
" Hold out, faith and patience." She told her nearest relation,
when she saw him mourning over her, that she was going to be joined
to a better husband.
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Her youngest son taking his leave of her (he day before her death,
she gave him much heavenly counsel for the good of his soul, and
blessed him, and all his, as she did the rest of her children and
grand-children. She earnestly desired to be dissolved, and breathed
after a fuller enjoyment of Jesus Christ, which she accounted best of
all. She would sometimes say, " that it was a hard thing to die ; "
and " this is a hard work." Her understanding, memory, and speech
continued till within two minutes of death ; and a little before, her
daughter speaking to her of Jesus Christ, she replied, " My God
and my Lord;" and so, June 21, 1675, about five o'clock in the
morning, she fell asleep, exchanging this life for a better, without any
alteration in her countenance, but only that her color was gone. She
closed up her eyes herself, as who should say, "It is but winking,
and I shall be in heaven." She " changed her place, but not her
company." She was seventy-three years old and about four months,
and had been married almost fifty years.
Thus did this holy woman wear out, not rust out : she served God
in her generation, and then retired into that place where is health
without sickness; day without night; plenty without famine ; riches
without poverty ; mirth without mourning ; singing without sighing ;
life without death; and these, with infinitely more, to all eternity.
There is unspotted chastity; unstained honor ; unparalleled beauty ;
there is the tree of life in the midst of this paradise : there is the
river that waters the garden : there is the vine flourishing, and the
pomegranate budding : there is the banqueting-house, where are all
those delicacies and rarities wherewith God himself is delighted.
There shall the saints be adorned as a bride, with rare pearls, and
sparkling diamonds of glory, a glory fitter to be believed than possi-
ble to be discoursed : " an exceeding, excessive, eternal weight of
glory," 2 Cor. iv. 17. Even such a weight, as if the body were not
upheld by the power of God, it were impossible but that it should
faint under it, as an eminent divine speaketh.
After Mrs. Clarke's decease, there was found in her cabinet a pa-
per which, by frequent using, was almost worn out. It contained a
collection of these several texts of Scripture, which she had recourse
to in times of temptation or desertion.
" Who is among you that feareth the Lord ; that obeyeth the
voice of his servant; that walketh in darkness and hath no light: let
him trust in the name of the Lord, and stay upon his God." Isa. 1,
10.
" For the name of the Lord is a strong tower : the righteous run
unto it, and are safe." Prov. xviii. 10.
"Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on
thee, because he trusteth in thee." Isa. xxvi. 3.
" Blessed is the man that maketh the Lord his trust." Psal. xl. 4.
"Blessed is the man to whom the Lord imputeth not sin." Psal.
xxxii. 2.
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Though our hearts may fail us, and our flesh may fail us, yet
God will never fail us. Psal. lxxiii. 26. "For he hath said, I will
never leave thee nor forsake thee." Heb. xiii. 5.
And again : " I will be a father unto you, and ye shall be my sons
and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty." 2 Cor. vi. 18.
"I, even I, am he that blotteth out thy transgressions for mine own
sake, and will not remember thy sins." Isa. xliv. 25.
" My grace is sufficient for thee : for my strength is made perfect
in weakness." 2 Cor. xii. 9.
" By grace you are saved through faith, and that not of your-
selves." Eph. ii. 8.
" I give unto them eternal life, and they shall not perish, neither
shall any man pluck them out of my hand." Job, x. 28.
" Who are kept by the power of God, through faith unto salva-
tion." 1 Peter, i. 5.
" The foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal : the
Lord knoweth who are his." 2 Tim. ii. 19.
" There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in
Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh but after the spirit." Rom.
viii. 1.
" Christ is the end of the law for righteousness to every one that
believeth." Rom. iv. 10.
" It is God that justifieth ; who is he that condemneth ?" Rom.
viii. 33, 34.
" The promise is to you, and to your children, and to all that are
afar off; even as many as the Lord our God shall call." Acts,
ii. 39.
" The gifts and calling of God are without repentance." Rom.
xi. 29.
These texts of Scripture having been as so many cordials to her
in times rf temptation, it is hoped that they may prove so to others,
and tl ore for their sakes they are here set down. And hereby
it appears that she was not without some shakings ; but, through
God's mercy, they were such as made her strike root the faster : and
by her prudent and seasonable holding forth the shield of faith, and
the sword of the Spirit, she became more than a conqueror through
him that had loved her.
In another little book, which was found after her death, she gives
this account of herself, and of God's gracious dealing with her.
From the beginning of God's shewing me mercy in my conversion,
I here set down God's gracious dealings with me, not for mine own
praise, but for the glory of God, and to stir up my heart to true
thankfulness for such invaluable mercies. And then she set down
the time, manner, and means of her conversion, and afterwards pro-
- %r thus : —
. hat have been my experiences of God's gracious dealings
. me at several times, under afflictions ?"
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" As when personal afflictions have lain upon me, in regard of bo-
dily sickness or spiritual distempers. Or, family afflictions, when
God hath taken away my dear children. Or, when I have been
under fears that God would take away my dear husband, by some
dangerous sickness which he lay under. Or when I have been un-
der great fears, in the time of our civil wars. Or, when I have been
under spiritual desertion, by God's hiding his face and favor from me.
Or, by reason of weakness and wants in grace. Or, by reason of
strong and prevailing corruptions. Or, by reason of Satan's tempta-
tions." In all which cases she left a memorial of God's gracious
dispensations towards her. I shall set down only a few of them.
" It pleased God for many years to keep me for the most part in
a sad and disconsolate estate and condition, not clearly evidencing
the certain assurance of his love to my soul ; so that many times I
questioned whether I was a child of God or no ; whether I had part
in Jesus Christ or no ; whether 1 should ever attain to life and salva-
tion or no : and this made me walk with a drooping and disconso-
late spirit, so that I could take no true comfort in any thing. But
though ' heaviness endured for a night, yet joy came in the morn-
ing,' when the Lord caused the light of his countenance to shine
upon me, which was better than life.
" It pleased God upon the death of my youngest child that it lay
very heavy upon my spirit, insomuch that 1 was brought oft upon my
knees to beg support from God, and to crave his grace and assist-
ance that I might not break out to speak or act any thing whereby
God's name might be dishonored, or the gospel discredited ; and
that he would be pleased to make up this outward loss with some
more durable and spiritual comforts. And I found a seasonable,
gracious, and speedy answer to these my requests : for though I lay
long under the burden of that loss, yet in this time did the Lord
sweetly manifest his special love to my soul, assuring me that he was
my gracious and reconciled Father in Christ, whereby my love to
him was much increased, and even inflamed ; so that, by his grace,
it wrought in me more diligence and carefulness to maintain and pre-
serve these evidences of his love, and to yield a holy submission unto
his will, as well in suffering as in doing; as also by avoiding whatso-
ever might provoke him to withdraw the evidences of his love from
me, without the sense whereof I could take little or no comfort in
any thing.
" And furthermore I bless God for it, and speak it to the praise
and glory of his rich and free grace, my prayers and earnest desires
have been answered by God's giving me comfortable assurance
both from the testimony of his holy word and the witness of his
blessed Spirit, of my eternal and everlasting salvation, in and by Je-
sus Christ. Yet have I not been without fears and doubtings many
times, through want of looking over my evidences, or by neglecting
to keep a narrow watch over my heart; or from weakness of my
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faith ; and all through my own fault and negligence. The Lord par-
don it, and make me more circumspect for the time to come."
By all these I have gained this experience :
" First: That God is true and faithful in making good all his pro-
mises seasonably unto us ; as, that all things shall work together for
our good : and that God will never fail us nor forsake us, he.
" Secondly : That it is not in vain to wait upon God, and to seek
unto him in our straits, who is more ready to hear than we are to ask.
" Thirdly : That I desire to see, yea, and the Lord hath shewed
me the vanity and uncertainty of the most satisfying comforts that
this world can afford, and what an emptiness there is in them, that
so I may, and I desire so to do, keep weaned affections towards
them, and to sit loose from them, that I may be ready to part with
them when God calls them from me, or me from them."
Again, in regard of bodily weakness and sickness, my experiences
have been these :
" First : That as a broken shoulder can bear no burden, so the
least distemper, when the heart is not in an holy frame and temper,
is a burden insupportable. If God hides his face from us, and with-
draws the evidences of his love, and denies to assist us by his
strength, we can neither do nor suffer any thing : and on the con-
trary I found, by experience, that I could with much cheerfulness,
holy submission and willingness, bear great distempers, when I en-
joyed the favor of God in them ; so that then I could readily say,
good is the work of the Lord as well as his word. And, ' I will
bear the indignation of the Lord, because I have sinned against him.'
Micha. vii. 9. And, * though he slay me, yet will I trust in him.'
Job, xiii. 15.
" Secondly, I found by experience also, that by my pains and sick-
ness I was the better able to sympathize with, and to pity and pray
for others, in the like case.
" Thirdly, hereby I learned the more to prize health ; and that,
because in health we have liberty and opportunity to enjoy the pub-
lic ordinances with others of God's people, whereby the graces of
God's people are quickened, strengthened, and increased in us;
which otherwise, by reason of our corrupt natures, are apt to grow
cold and languish, as will our bodies when they want food. Because
in health we enjoy the benefit and comfort of sweet and quiet sleep,
which much refreshes and cheers, and which commonly we want in
sickness. Because in health we find sweet satisfying comfort in the
use of God's good creatures; whereas in sickness the daintiest food
is loathsome and troublesome. The consideration of these things
made me the more to prize health ; to be very thankful for it, and
the more careful to employ and improve health and strength to God's
glory, and the furtherance of mine own salvation."
In regard of public dangers I have had a great deal of experience
of God's goodness towards me and mine, several ways, and at several
times. For,
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" First, When in the beginning of our civil wars and distractions I
was sometimes overwhelmed with base and distrustful fears, occa-
sioned by my not acting faith upon the promises, and not remember-
ing my former experiences, nor considering God's love, power, and
fidelity to his children, in performing his so many gracious promises,
made unto them in all estates and conditions, and to me among the
rest : hereupon I resolved, by God's grace and assistance, not to
give way to this distrust and diffidence, praying God to assist me
therein, and found more courage than formerly, so far as I know
mine own heart ; though truly the heart is very deceitful, as I have
found by sad experience. The Lord teach and enable me to rely
upon him with more courage and constancy, and more to live by faith
upon his promises than formerly I have done.
" Indeed I have been apt to fall into new fears upon approaching
dangers ; yet upon successes and glorious deliverances, I have oft
resolved never to distrust God again, and yet my naughty heart hath
deceived me and made me ready to faint. But this I found by ex-
perience, to the praise of my God's free grace, that as troubles have
abounded, my consolations have much more abounded : for God
brought seasonably into my mind many precious promises, which
were as so many sweet cordials, which much supported and comfort-
ed my heart, and upheld my spirit : when also new storms have aris-
en and unexpected deliverances have followed, I have resolved, and
do by God's grace, not to distrust him any more. Yea, though more
and greater dangers shall arise, yet will I trust in and stay myself up-
on him, though, as Job said, ' he should slay me.' The good Lord
establish my heart in this good and holy resolution, who is able to
keep us to the end, and hath promised that he ' will preserve us by
his power, through faith, to the salvation of our souls.' "
In regard to Satan's temptations, especially concerning my coming
to the Sacrament of the Lord's Supper, my experiences have been
these :
" Finding often that I was very unable to fit and prepare myself
for a comfortable approach to that sacred ordinance, I used to desire
the prayers of the congregation unto God in my behalf, and I used
the best endeavors 1 could in private, as God enabled me, though I
came far short of what was required, and of what I desired ; so that
I did trust and hope, through God's mercy, to find a comfortable day
of it, and to have it a sealing ordinance to my soul. But, on the
contrary, I found much deadness and little spiritual taste, relish, and
comfort in the use of it ; so that my spirit was oft much troubled and
cast down in me, fearing lest I had some secret sin undiscovered and
unrepented of, which caused the Lord thus to hide his face from me.
" But then my gracious God brought this into my mind, that the
Lord doth sometimes afflict us for the exercise and improvement of
our graces, as well as to humble us for our sins. I also considered,
that as the Lord doth tender great mercies to us in this Sacrament
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renewing his covenant of grace, and sealing unto us the pardon of
our sins in the blood of Christ ; so he gives us leave to engage our-
selves, by renewing our covenant with him, to believe in him, and to
trust upon Christ for life and salvation : and it pleased God to give
me faith to apply this in particular to my own soul ; and a while aft-
er to shew me and to make good to my soul that precious and com-
fortable promise, that though ' he hide his face from us for a little
moment, yet with mercy and loving kindness he will return to us
again.' This was a wonderful comfort and support to my dejected
heart : blessed be the Lord for ever, I desire to treasure up these
experiences, that for the future I may resolve in the like case to put
my whole trust and confidence in him, that so Satan may not entrap
me in his snares through unbelief, but that I may resist ' him stead-
fast in the faith :' for I am not altogether ignorant of his devices.
God's promise is, that ' in all these things we shall be more than con-
querors, through him that hath loved us ; and hath said, that ' this is
the victory which overcometh the world, even our faith.' " 1 John,
v. 4.
In the year 1669, there came to us the sad news of the death of
my second son, Mr. John Clarke, a godly and faithful minister, rec-
tor of Cotgrave, in Nottinghamshire, who died the 18th of September.
Thus as the waves of the sea follow one another, so God is pleas-
ed to exercise his children with one affliction after another. He sees
that whilst we carry about with us this body of sin, we have need of
manifold trials and temptations, as saith the Apostle. 1 Pet. i. 6,
" Now for a season ye are in heaviness, if need be, through manifold
temptations;" to keep us under, and to make us the better to remem-
ber ourselves.
Indeed it hath been the Lord's course and dealing with me ever
since he stopped me in the way as I was posting to hell, to raise up
one affliction or other, either inward or outward, either from Satan,
the world, or from mine own corrupt heart and nature, not having
grace and wisdom to behave and carry myself as I ought under his
various dispensations and providences, as appeared at this time by
his laying so great and grievous an affliction upon me, in taking away
so dear a son, from whom I had much soul-comfort, and ardent af-
fections, which he manifested by his fervent prayers for me, and by
his spiritual letters and writings to me, wherein he applied himself
suitably to my comfort in those inward troubles of heart and spirit
which lay upon me. This caused my grief and sorrows to take the
greater hold of me, upon the loss of one who was so useful to me :
yet hereby I do not derogate from my elder son, from whom I have
the like help, and comfort.
Upon this sad occasion my grief grew so great that I took no
pleasure of any thing in the world : but was so overwhelmed with
melancholy, and my natural strength was so abated, that little food
served my turn, and I judged that I could not live long in such a
condition.
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Here 1 began to examine my heart why it should be so with me,
and whether carnal and immoderate affections were not the great
cause of my trouble, which I much feared ; and having used many ar-
guments, and laid down many reasons to myself to quiet and moderate
my passions, and yet nothing prevailed to quiet and calm my heart,
and to bow me to the obedience of his revealed will : and withal, con-
sidering that it was God only that could quiet the heart, and set our
unruly and carnal affections into an holy frame and order, and that he
was a "present help in times of trouble," I often and earnestly sought
unto the Lord with many prayers and tears, beseeching him to quiet
my heart, and to overpower and tame my unruly affections, so as to
be willing to submit unto him, and to bear his afflicting hand patiently
and fruitfully, and to be ready and willing to submit, either in doing
or suffering, to whatsoever he pleased to impose upon me, and to be
ready to part with the best outward comfort I enjoyed, whensoever he
should please to call for the same.
And it pleased God seasonably to hear my prayer, to regard my
tears, and to grant my requests, by calming and quieting my heart
and spirit, and by giving me much more contentedness to submit to
his holy will and good pleasure, who is a "God of judgment," and
knows the fittest times and seasons to come in with refreshing com-
forts, and who "waits to be gracious" unto those that trust in him.
Yet surely I was not without many temptations in this hour of dark-
ness, from that subtle adversary, who always stands at watch, to insin-
uate and frame his temptations answerable to our conditions, and like
a "roaring lion walks about continually, seeking to devour" poor, yet
precious souls. Then I "called upon the Lord in my distress, and
he answered me and delivered me."
"Bless the Lord, O my soul ! and all that is within me praise his
holy name!" For he hath remembered me in my low and troubled
estate, because "his mercy endureth forever."
Having thus had new experience of God's readiness to hear and
help when I called upon him ; and having found that it is not in vain
"to seek to and to depend upon God in all" our straits, I could not but
record these things, that so "every one that is godly may seek unto
him in a time wherein he maybe found," who is a "present help" in
times of trouble, and who doth for us "abundantly above what we
can ask or think."
The Lord knows that I write these things for no other end, but that
God may have the glory, and that others, especially my relations, may
be encouraged to seek God in their straits, and to trust in him at all
times. Amen.
After her decease there was also found in her cabinet a paper with
this superscription : — My will and desire is, with the leave of my
husband, to bestow upon my children these things as tokens of my
motherly affections, and that I may be remembered by them. She
began with her husband ; and what she gave* to him and all the rest,
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were all wrapped up in several papers, and each name endorsed on
the outside to whom it did belong. And then concludes all thus : —
"But above all, my prayers unto God are, that he would especially
bestow upon you all needful saving graces, whereby you may be ena-
bled to glorify his great name in those several places and callings
wherein he hath set you. Amen, amen."
She left also legacies to some poor neighbors, as also ten shillings
to Mr. W. the minister of the place, to buy him a mourning ring,
concluding thus :
"If God shall please to bring me to my grave in peace, let this be
the text at my funeral, Eph. ii. 8. ' for by grace ye are saved, through
faith. ' This Scripture I was oft put upon to have recourse to in
times of temptations and desertion."
Thus she lived, adorning in all things the doctrine of the Savior ;
and died in the joyful expectation of that rest which remaineth for
rhe people of God.
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THE COUNTESS OF CARBERY
The following character is extracted from a sermon preached at
the funeral of the Countess of Carbery, (the lady of Richard, Earl
of Carbery, who died in the prime of life, in the year 1650,) by
the pious, learned, and eloquent Dr. Jeremy Taylor, and published
in a collection of his discourses in folio.
I have now done with my text but am yet to make you another
sermon. I have told you the necessity and the state of death ; it may
be too largely for such a sad story ; I shall, therefore, now with a
better compendium teach you how to live, by telling you a plain nar-
rative of a life which if you imitate and write after the copy, it will
make, that death shall not be an evil, but a thing to be desired, and to
be reckoned amongst the purchases and advantages of your fortune.
When Martha and Mary w7ent to weep over the grave of their broth-
er, Christ met them there, and preached a funeral sermon ; discours-
ing of the resurrection, and applying to the purposes of faith, and con-
fession of Christ, and glorification of God : we have no other, we can
have no better precedent to follow ; and now that we are come to
wreep over the grave of our dear sister, this rare personage, we can-
not choose but have many virtues to learn, many to imitate, and some
to exercise.
I choose not to declare her extraction and genealogy ; it was, in-
deed, fair and honorable ; but having the blessing to be descended
from worthy and honored ancestors, and herself to be adopted and
ingrafted into a more noble family, yet she felt such outward appen-
dages to be none of hers, because not of her choice, but the pur-
chase of the virtues of others, which although they did engage her to
do noble things, yet they would upbraid all degenerate and less honor-
able lives than were those, which began and increased the honor of
the families. Accordingly, myself have been a witness of it, how
this excellent lady would, by an act of humility and Christian abstrac-
tion, strip herself of all that fair appendage of exterior honor which
decked her person and her fortune ; arid desired to be owned by
nothing but what was her own, that she might only be esteemed hon-
orable according to that which is the honor of a Christian and a wise
person.
She had a strict and severe education, and it was one of God's gra-
ces and favors to her. For being the heiress of a great fortune, and
living amongst the throng of persons in the sight of vanities and empty
temptations, that is, in that part of the kingdom where greatness is too
often expressed in great follies and great vices, God had provided a
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severe education to chastise the forwardness of a young spirit and a
fair fortune ; and intending to secure this soul to himself, would not
suffer the follies of the world to seize upon her by way of too near a
trial, or busy temptation.
She was married young ; in passing through which line of prov-
idence she had the art to secure her eternal interest, by turning
her condition into duty, and expressing her duty in the greatest emi-
nency of a virtuous, prudent, and rare affection ; which I note in her
as that which I would have exemplar to all ladies and to all wo-
men : and although this was a great enamel to the beauty of her
soul, yet it might in some degrees be also a reward to the virtue of
her lord ; for she would often discourse it to them that conversed with
her, that he would improve that interest which he had in her affec-
tion to the advantages of God and of religion ; and she would de-
light to say, that he called her to her devotions, he encouraged her
good inclinations, he directed her piety, he invited her with good
books ; and then she loved religion, which she saw was not only
pleasing to God, and an act or state of duty, but pleasing to her lord,
and an act also of affection and conjugal obedience.
As she was a rare wife, so she was an excellent mother; for in
so tender a constitution of spirit as hers was, and in so great a kind-
ness towards her children, there hath seldom been seen a stricter and
more curious care of their persons, their deportment, their nature,
their disposition, their learning, and their customs ; and if ever kind-
ness and care did contest, and make parties in her, yet her care and
her severity were ever victorious ; and she knew not how to do an
ill turn to their severer part, by her more tender and forward kind-
ness.
But if we examine how she demeaned herself towards God, there
also you will find her not of a common, but of an exemplary piety.
She was a great reader of Scripture, confining herself to great por-
tions every day ; which she read, not to the purposes of vanity and im-
pertinent curiosity, not to seem knowing or to become talking, not to
expound and rule, but to teach her all her duty, to instruct her in the
knowledge and love of God and of her neighbors, to make her more
humble, and to teach her to despise the world and all its gilded van-
ities ; and that she might entertain passions wholly in design and or-
der to heaven. I have seen a female religion that wholly dwelt upon
the face and tongue ; that like a wanton and undressed tree spends
all its juice in suckers and irregular branches, in leaves and gum;
and after all such goodly outsides, you shall never eat of the fruit, or
be delighted with the beauties or the perfumes of a hopeful blossom.
But the religion of this excellent lady was of another constitution ; it
took root downward in humility, and brought forth fruit upward in
the substantial graces of a Christian, in charity and justice, in chastity
and modesty, in fair friendships and sweetness of society. She had
not very much of the forms and outsides of godliness, but she was
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singularly careful for the power of it, for the moral, essential, and
useful parts; such as would make her be, not seem to be, religious.
She was a very constant person at her prayers, and spent all her
time, which nature did permit to her choice, in her devotions, and
reading and meditating, and the necessary offices of household gov-
ernment, every one of which is an action of religion, some by nature,
some by adoption. To these also God gave her a very great love to
hear the word of God preached ; in which, because 1 had sometimes
the honor to minister to her, I can give this certain testimony, that
she was a diligent, watchful, and attentive hearer, and to this had so ex-
cellent a judgment, that if ever I saw a woman whose judgment was to
be revered, it was hers alone. But her appetite was not soon satisfi-
ed with what was useful to her soul ; she was also a constant reader
of sermons, and seldom missed to read one every day ; and that she
might be full of instruction and holy principles, she had lately design-
ed to have a large book, in which she purposed to have a stock of re-
ligion transcribed in such assistances as she would choose, that she
might be readily furnished and instructed to every good work. But
God prevented that, and hath filled her desires not out of cisterns and
little aqueducts, but hath carried her to to the fountain, where "she
drinks of the pleasures of the river," and is full of God.
She always lived a life of much innocence, free from the violences
of great sins; her person, her breeding, her modesty, her honor, her
religion, her early marriage, the guide of her soul, and the guide of
her youth, were so many fountains of restraining grace to her, to
keep her from the dishonors of a crime. It is good to bear the yoke
of the Lord from our youth ; and though she did so, being guarded
by a mighty Providence, and a great favor and grace of God, from
staining her fair soul with the spots of hell, yet she had strange fears
and early cares upon her; but these were not only for herself but in
order to others, to her nearest relatives. And because she knew
that the sins of parents descend upon children, she endeavored by
justice and religion, by charity and honor, to secure that her channel
should convey nothing but health and a fair example and a blessing.
And though her accounts to God were made up of nothing but
small parcels, little passions, and angry words, and trifling discon-
tents, which are the allays of the piety of the most holy persons,
yet she was early at her repentance ; and toward the latter end of
her days grew so fast in religion, as if she had had a revelation of
her approaching end, and therefore that she must go a great way in a
little time : her discourses were more full of religion, her prayers
more frequent, her charity increasing, her forgiveness more forward,
her friendships more communicative, her passions more under disci-
pline ; and so she trimmed her lamp, not thinking her night was so near,
but that it might shine also in the day-time, in the temple, and before
the altar of incense.
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But in this course of hers there were some circumstances, and
some appendages of substances, which were highly remarkable.
1. In all her religion, and in all her actions of relation towards
God, she had a singular evenness and untroubled passage, sliding to-
wards her ocean of God and of infinity with a certain and silent mo-
tion. So have I seen a river deep and smooth passing with a still
foot and a sober face, and paying to the great exchequer of the sea
the prince of all the watery bodies, a tribute large and full ; and
hard by it a little brook skipping and making a noise upon its unequal
and neighbor bottom ; and after all its talking and bragged motion, it
paid to its common audit no more than the revenues of a little cloud
or a contemptible vessel ; so have I sometimes compared the issues
of her religion to the solemnities and famed outsides of another's
piety. It dwelt upon her spirit, and was incorporated with the period-
ical work of every day : she did not believe that religion was inten-
ded to minister to fame and reputation, but to pardon of sins, to the
pleasure of God, and the salvation of souls.
2. The other appendage of her religion, which also was a great
ornament to all the parts of her life, was a rare modesty and humility
of spirit, a confident [resolute] despising and undervaluing of her-
self; for though she had the greatest judgment and the greatest ex-
perience of things and persons that I ever yet knew in a person of
her youth, and sex, and circumstances, yet, as if she knew nothing
of it, she had the meanest opinion of herself, and like a fair taper
when she shined to all the room, yet round about her own station
she had cast a shadow and a cloud, and she shined to every body
but herself. But the perfection of her prudence and excellent
parts could not be hid, and all her humility and arts of conceal-
ment made the virtues more amiable and illustrious.
I know not by what instrument it happened, but when death drew
near, before it made any show upon her body, or revealed itself by
a natural signification, it was conveyed to her spirit ; she had a strange
secret persuasion that the bringing this child into the world should
be her last scene of life, and so it was that the thought of death
dwelt long with her, and grew from the first steps of fancy and fear
to a consent, from thence to a strange credulity and expectation of it,
and without the violence of sickness she died ; and in this I cannot
but adore the Providence, and admire the wisdom and infinite mer-
cies of God ; for having a tender and soft, a delicate and fine consti-
tution, she was tender to pain, and apprehensive of it, as a child's
shoulder is of a load and burden, and in her often discourses of death
which she would renew willingly and frequently, she would tell that
she feared not death, but she feared the sharp pains of death. The
being dead and being freed from the troubles and dangers of this
world she hoped would be for her advantage, and therefore that was
no part of her fear ; but she believing the pangs of death were great,
and the use and aids of reason little, feared lest they should do vio-
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lence to her spirit and the decency of her resolution. But God that
knew her fears and her jealousy concerning herself, fitted her with a
death so easy, so harmless, so painless, that it did not put her pa-
tience to a severe trial. It was not (in all appearance) of so much
trouble as two fits of a common ague ; so careful was God to de-
monstrate to all that stood in that sad attendance, that this soul was
dear to him ; and that since she had done so much of her duty to
him, he that began would also finish her redemption by an act of a
rare Providence and a singular mercy.
Blessed be that goodness of God, who does such careful actions of
mercy for the ease and security of his servants. But this one in-
stance was a great demonstration that the apprehension of death is
worse than the pains of death ; and that God loves to reprove the
unreasonableness of our fears, by the mightiness and by the arts of
his mercy.
She had in her sickness, if I may so call it, or rather in the solem-
nities and graver preparations towards death, some remarkable and
well-becoming fears concerning the final estate of her soul. But
from thence she passed into a deliquium, or a kind of trance, and as
soon as she came forth of it, as if it had been a vision, or that she had
conversed with an angel, and from his hand had received a label or
scroll of the book of life, and there seen her name enrolled, she cried
out aloud, " Glory be to God on high : now I am sure I " shall be
saved." Concerning which manner of discoursing we are wholly
ignorant what judgment can be made ; but certainly there are strange
things in the other world, and so there are in all the immediate pre-
paration to it ; and a little glimpse of heaven, a minute's conversing
with an angel, any ray of God, any communication extraordinary
from the spirit of comfort which God gives to his servants in strange
and unknown manners, are infinitely far from illusions ; and they
shall then be understood by us when we feel them, and when our
new and strange needs shall be refreshed by such unusual visitations.
But I must be forced to use summaries and arts of abbreviature in
the enumerating those things in which this rare personage was dear
to God, and to all her relatives. If we consider her person, she was
in the flower of her age, of a temperate, plain, and natural diet, with-
out curiosity or an intemperate palate ; she spent less time in dress-
ing than many servants ; her recreations were little and seldom, her
prayers often, her reading much; she was of a most noble and chari-
table soul ; a great lover of honorable actions, and as great a despiser
of base things ; especially loving to oblige others, and very unwilling
to be in arrear to any upon the stock of courtesies and liberality ; so
free in all acts of favor that she would not stay to hear herself thank-
ed, as being unwilling that what good went from her to a needful or
an obliged person should ever return to her again ; she was an excel-
lent friend, and singularly dear to very many, especially to the best
and most discerning persons, to all that conversed with her and could
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understand her great worth and sweetness ; she was of an honorable,
a nice and tender reputation, and of the pleasures of this world,
which were laid before her in heaps, she took a very small and in-
considerable share, as not loving to glut herself with vanity, or to
take her portion of good things here below. If we look on her as a
wife, she was chaste and loving, discreet and humble. If we remem-
ber her as a mother, she was kind and severe, careful and prudent,
very tender, and not at all fond, a greater lover of her children's souls
than of their bodies, and one that would value them more by the strict
rules of honor and proper worth, than by their relation to herself.
Her servants found her prudent and fit to govern, and yet open-
handed and apt to reward ; a just exacter of their duty, and a great
rewarder of their diligence.
She was in her house a comfort to her dearest lord, a guide to her
children, a rule to her servants, an example to all.
But as she was related to God in the offices of religion, she was
even and constant, silent and devout, prudent and material [solid] ;
she loved what she now enjoys, and she feared what she never felt,
and God did for her what she never did expect. Her fears went be-
yond all her evil ; and yet the good which she hath received was,
and is, and ever shall be, beyond all her hopes. She lived as we all
should live, and she died as I fain would die —
" Et cum supremos Lachesis pervenerit annos,
" Non aliter cineres mando jacere meos."
The preceding character is drawn in so striking and comprehen-
sive a manner, and' its peculiar beauty and excellence are pointed
out with so correct and discriminating a judgment by the pious and
eloquent author, that but little need be added, to recommend it to
the notice and imitation of the reader ; the following brief observa-
tions, however, will not be thought wholly superfluous.
The elevated rank of the subject of the foregoing eulogium is, first
deserving of attention. Lady Carbery moved in that sphere of life
which is exposed to peculiar dangers and temptations from the allure-
ments of the world; and in which "greatness" (as it is admirably
observed in the preceding passages,) is, in consequence, " too often
expressed in great follies and great vices." Hence, the example
of her piety and virtue shines with a lustre proportioned to the emi-
nence on which she was placed, and to the difficulties with which she
was surrounded. She had, indeed, the singular advantage of " a
strict and severe education ;" by which we are evidently to under-
stand, an education conducted upon the genuine principles of Chris-
tianity, which, under the divine blessing, tended to correct the false
views and expectations which her situation would naturally produce,
and to set before her the good and perfect will of God, as the rule
of her sentiments and conduct, and conformity to it as the source
of all true greatness and happiness. Thus wisely brought up " in
the nurture and admonition of the Lord," she came forth into the
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world well qualified to adorn her exalted station. It is, however,
greatly to the honor of the age in which she lived, that Lady Carbery
was by no means a singular example of piety united to high rank
and fortune. Many others, of equal condition and of either sex,
grace the annals of that period by a similar display of religious excel-
lence : and this is a circumstance which deserves to be particularly
noticed. If in the present day we look to the characters of the
higher orders of society, we shall find but very few who resemble
that of Lady Carbery. Doubtless,
" We boast some rich ones whom the Gospel sways ;
M And one who wears a coronet and prays !"
Nay, more perhaps, than one. But still, as the same truly Christian
poet adds,
" Like gleanings of an olive-tree, they show
" Here and there one upon the topmost bough."
And that only: yet why should this be so? True religion is so far
from being an enemy to human greatness or prosperity, that wherev-
er it is found in conjunction with them, it is seen to add grace and
dignity to the one, and to lessen the dangers and increase the happi-
ness of the other. Should this Memoir, therefore, fall into the hands
of any who are thus highly favored by this world's good, let them
learn from the example of Lady Carbery, that to be truly noble,
they must be " born of God ;" that to possess real wealth they must
be " rich towards him, rich in faith, and " heirs of a kingdom which
cannot be moved."
But there are two or three features in the religious character of
this lady to which we would particularly direct the attention of our
readers of every description. What we have principally in view may
be denominated the solidity of her piety. The religion of Lady
Carbery was founded in humility before God, and was richly pro-
ductive of the substantial graces and virtues of a christian ; the love
of God and of her neighbors ; subdued and well-regulated affections
and desires respecting the things of this world 5 and a daily prepara-
tion for the employments and pleasures of a better. Her chief care
and anxiety seem to have been directed towards the attainment and
exercise of the power of godliness. For this she read the word of
God, prayed in public and in private, and listened to the instructions
of the pulpit. Religion, in short, appears to have been considered
by her, not so much as intended to procure her any particular charac-
ter amongst men, as " to teach her all her duty," to make her perfect
and complete in all the will of God.
As a striking proof of the truth of these observations, we request
our readers, especially the female part of them, to consider the ex-
emplary and amiable conduct of Lady Carbery in every domestic
relation and duty, more particularly in her conduct towards her
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children. This is a part of her character which is well deserving of
imitation. " Her religion," adds her pious eulogist, " dwelt upon
her spirit, and was incorporated with the periodical work of every
day." This is pure and undefiled religion. May its influence be
more widely diffused throughout the religious world ; for this is good
and profitable unto men, and redounds to the glory of God !
Conformably to such a life was the death of Lady Carbery, calm
and peaceful; and honored by a remarkable token of the divine pres-
ence and favor. The account which the right reverend author of her
character gives of this circumstance, is no less judicious than it is
beautiful and interesting. And there is something peculiarly satis-
factory in the evidence by which it is attested. It is greatly to be
feared that the want of more frequent instances of this kind in the
present day, is owing to our low attainments in the knowledge and
love of God. Hence it is, that the promise, amongst others of a
similar nature, which is recorded John xiv. 23, is so seldom accom-
plished in life, and at the hour of death.
What has thus been added to the character of Lady Carbery will
tend to recommend to the notice of our readers that kind of religion
of which she was so eminent an example; retired, yet substantial;
elevated in its principles, yet chiefly discernible in the moral regula-
tion of the heart and life, by the precepts of the gospel.
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LADY RACHEL RUSSELL.
This lady was born about the year 1636, and was the daughter
of Thomas Wriothesley, Earl of Southampton, by his first wife, Ra-
chel, daughter of Henry de Massey, Baron of Rovigny, and sister
to the Marquis of Rovigny, father of Henry, Earl of Galway. She
was married first to Francis, Lord Vaughan, eldest son of Richard,
Earl of Carbery, and afterwards, about the year 1669, to William,
Lord Russell, son of William, Earl of Bedford, by whom she had
one son and two daughters. Lady Rachel, the eldest, was married
to William, Lord Cavendish, afterwards Duke of Devonshire ; and
the Lady Catharine, the youngest, to John Manners, Lord Roos,
afterwards Duke of Rutland. Wriothesley, the son, married Eliz-
abeth, only daughter and heir of John Howland, Esquire, was crea-
ted Baron Howland of Streatham, June 13, 1695, and succeeded his
grandfather in 1700; became Duke of Bedford, and died May 26,
1711, in the thirty-first year of his age. By this lady he had three
sons and two daughters.
It is well known, and is an event which can never be forgotten,
that the husband of this lady, William, Lord Russel, was beheaded
July 21, 1683. How worthy a man he was, how true a friend to
the liberties of his country, how undeserving of his bitter treatment,
and with what an invincible fortitude he met his cruel doom, the In-
troduction to the Letters of Lady Rachel Russel, his widow, partic-
ularly shews, and to that we refer our readers.*
As our concern is only with his relict, we shall turn our thoughts
entirely to her. We own we are not furnished with any considera-
ble materials for our Memoirs of her before the dismal period of her
illustrious husband's sufferings. At this juncture she conducted her-
self with a mixture of the most tender affection, and the most surpri-
sing magnanimity. She appeared in court at the trial of her hus-
band ; and when the Attorney-General told him, " he might use the
hands of one of his servants in waiting to take notes of the evidence
for his use ;" Lord Russell answered, " that he asked none, but that
of the lady that sat by him." The spectators at these words turning
their eyes, and beholding the daughter of the virtuous Southampton
rising up to assist her lord in this his utmost distress, a thrill of an-
guish ran through the assembly. After his condemnation she threw
" Letters of Lady Rachel Russell from the manuscript in the Library at Woo-
burn-Abbey ; to which is prefixed an Introduction, vindicating the character of Lord
Russell against Sir John Dalrymplc, &c. third edit, printed 1774.
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herself at the king's feet, and pleaded, but, alas ! in vain, with his
majesty the merits and loyalty of her father,* in order to save her
husband. And without a sigh or tear she took her last farewell of
him, when it might have been expected, as they were so perfectly
happy in each other, and no wife could possibly surpass her in affec-
tion to an husband, that the torrent of her distress would have over-
flowed its banks, and been too mighty for all the powers of reason
and religion to have restrained it. Indeed the affection of Lord
Russell and his lady to each other, and their behavior in the season
of their extremity of distress were very remarkable, and well deserve
a particular mention. On the Tuesday before Lord Russell's exe-
cution,! after dinner, when his lady was gone, he expressed great
joy in the magnanimity of spirit he saw in her, and declared, " the
parting with her was the greatest thing he had to do ; for," he said,
" she would be hardly able to bear it ; the concern about preserving
him filled her mind so now, that it in some measure supported her,
but, when that would be over, he feared the quickness of her spirits
would work all within her." On Thursday, while his lady was gone
to try to gain a respite till Monday, he said, " he wished she would
give over beating every bush, and running so about for his preserva-
tion ; but when he considered that it would be some mitigation of her
sorrow that she left nothing undone that could have given any prob-
able hope, he acquiesced." Indeed his heart was never seen so near
failing him as when he spake- of her. Sometimes a tear would be
seen in his eye, and he would turn about, and presently change the
discourse. The evening before his death he suffered his children,
who were very young, and some of his friends, to take leave of him ;
in which interview he preserved his constancy of temper, though he
was a very fond parent. He parted with his lady at the same time
with a composed silence, and she had such a command of herself,
that when she was gone, he said, " the bitterness of death was past,"
for he loved and esteemed her beyond expression. He ran out into
a long discourse concerning her, declaring, " how great a blessing-
she had been to him, and what a misery it would have been to him
*" The Earl of Southampton," says Clarendon, "was a great man in all respects,
and brought very much reputation to King Charles the First his cause. He went
to the king to York, was most solicitous for the offer of peace at Nottingham, was
with him at Edge-Hill, and came and stayed with him at Oxford to the end of the
war." Burnet calls him, " a man of great virtue and good parts, of a lively imagin-
ation and sound judgment, who had merited much by his constant adherence to the
king's interest during the war, and the large remittances he made him in his exile,
and styles him a fast friend to the public — the wise and virtuous Earl of Southamp-
ton— vvho deserved every thing the king could give him." — " The king," says Old-
mixon, " saw the virtuous and lovely Lady Russell weeping at his feet, imploring
but a short reprieve for her condemned lord, with dry eyes and a stony heart, though
she was the daughter of the Earl of Southampton the best friend he ever had in his
life." — See the Introduction to Lady Russell's Letters.
t See the Introduction to Lady Russell's Letters.
LADY RACHEL RUSSELL. 147
if she had not had thai magnanimity of spirit joined to her tender-
ness, as never to have desired him to do a base thing for the saving
his life." He added, " there was a signal providence of God in giv-
ing him such a wife, where there were birth, fortune, great under-
standing, great religion, and great kindness to himself; but her car-
riage," said he, " in my extremity was beyond all. He was glad
that she and his children were to lose nothing by his death, and it
was a great comfort to him that he left his children in such a moth-
er's hands, and that she had promised him to take care of herself for
their sakes." As to Lady Russell, she bore the shock of his death
with the same magnanimity she had shewn at her lord's trial. When
in open court, attending at her lord's side, she took notes, and made
observations of all that passed on his behalf, and when prostrate at
the king's feet, and pleading with his majesty in remembrance of her
deceased father's services, in order to save her husband, she was a
spectacle of the most lively compassion ; but now, when without sigh
or tear, she took her last farewell of him, she was an object of the
highest admiration.
After this most distressing event, the death of her lord upon the
scaffold, this excellent lady, though encompassed round with the dark-
est clouds of affliction, seemed to be absorbed in a religious concern
to behave herself aright towards her God under his mighty hand, and
to fulfil the duties now devolved upon herself alone in the care, edu-
cation, disposal, and happiness of her children, those living remains
of her lord, and which had been so dear to him, and were for his
sake, as well as her own, so dear to herself.
In proof of this pious and maternal spirit which animated her lady-
ship during the residue of her days, the following Extracts from her
Letters are laid before our readers. Extracts we call them, for they
are by no means the whole of her Letters, which, if they had been
all given, would have been too large to have been comprised under a
single article in our work, and at the same time would not have di-
rectly fallen in with our design, that of exhibiting her as an eminently
pious personage, as some, and indeed several of her Epistles relate,
at least in a great part, to matters of public intelligence, business, and
other inferior concerns.
EXTRACTS FROM THE LETTERS OF LADY RACHEL RUSSELL.
Lady Russell to Doctor Fitzwilliam.*
1 need not tell you, good doctor, how little capable I am of such
an exercise as this.f You will soon find how unfit I am still for it,
* A divine for whom Lady Russell had a great esteem and friendship. He had
been chaplain to her father, "as lie was afterwards to the Duke of York, was Rector
of Cottenham, in Cambridgeshire, and Canon of Windsor, which preferments he lost
after the Revolution, upon refusal of the oaths. Ke died in or about the year Hiyti,
having appointed all the Letters which Lady Russell wrote to him to be* returned to
her Ladyship, that they might be printed; but many of them, says the Editor of her
Letters, do not appear. — See her Letters, p. 307.
t Lord Russell, her husband, was beheaded July 21, 1683.
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since my yet disordered thoughts can offer me no other than such
words as express the deepest sorrows, and confused as my yet amaz-
ed mind is. But such men as you, and particularly one so much
my friend, will, I know, bear with my weakness, and compassionate my
distress, as you have already done by your good letter, and excellent
prayer. I endeavor to make the best use I can of both ; but I am
so evil and unworthy a creature, that, though I have desires, yet 1
have no dispositions or worthiness towards receiving comfort. You,
that knew us both, and how we lived, must allow I have just cause to
bewail my loss. I know it is common with others to lose a friend,
but to have lived with such an one, it may be questioned how few
can glory in the like happiness, so consequently lament the like loss.
Who can but shrink at such a blow ; till, by the mighty aid of his Ho-
ly Spirit, we let the gift of God, which he hath put into our hearts,
interpose ? That reason which sets a measure to our souls in pros-
perity, will then suggest many things which we have seen and heard,
to moderate us in such sad circumstances as mine : but, alas ! my
understanding is clouded, my faith weak, sense strong, and the devil
busy to fill my thoughts with false notions, difficulties, and doubts :
but this I hope to make matter of humiliation, not sin. Lord, let me
understand the reason of these dark and wounding providences, that I
sink not under the discouragement of my own thoughts ! I know I
have deserved my punishment and will be silent under it; but yet
secretly my heart mourns, too sadly I fear, and cannot be comforted,
because I have not the dear companion and sharer of all my joys and
sorrows. I want him to talk with, to walk with, to eat and sleep with. All
these things are irksome to me now: the day unwelcome, and the night
so too. All company and meals I would avoid, if it might be ; yet all
this is that I enjoy not the world in my own way, and this sure hin-
ders my comfort. When I see my children before me, I remember
the pleasure he took in them. This makes my heart shrink. Can
1 regret his quitting a lesser good for a bigger ? O ! if I did steadfastly
believe, I could not be dejected ; for I will not injure myself to say I
offer my mind any inferior consolation to supply this loss. No, I most
willingly forsake this world, this vexatious, troublesome world, in
which I have no other business but to rid my soul from sin, secure my
eternal interests, with patience and courage to bear my eminent misfor-
tunes, and ever hereafter be above the smiles and frowns of it; and,
when I have done the remnant of the work appointed me on earth,
then joyfully wait for the heavenly perfection in God's good time,
when by his infinite mercy I may be accounted worthy to enter into
the same place of rest and repose where he is gone, for whom only J
grieve. From that contemplation must come my best support. Good
doctor, you will think as you have reason, that I set no bounds,
when 1 let myself loose to my complaints ; but I will release you, first
fervently asking the continuance of your prayers for your infinitely
afflicted, but very faithful servant, R. Russell.
Wouburn Abbey, September 30, 1683.
LADY RACHEL RUSSELL. 149
Lady Russell to Doctor Fitzivilliam.
It is above a fortnight, I believe, good doctor, since I received
your comforting letter, and it is displeasing to me that I am but now
sitting down to tell you so ; but it is allotted to persons under my dis-
mal title, and yet more dismal circumstances, to have additional cares,
from which I am sure I am not exempt, but am very unfit to dis-
charge well or wisely, especially under the oppressions I feel , how-
ever, it is my lot, and a part of duty remaining to my choicest friend,
and those pledges he has left me. That remembrance makes me do
my best, and so occasions the putting by such employments as suit
better my present temper of mind, as this I am now about, since, if
in the multitude of these sorrows that possess my soul, I find any re-
freshments, though, alas ! such as are but momentary, it is but cast-
ing off some of my crowded thoughts to compassionate friends, such
as deny not to weep with those that weep, or in reading such discours-
es and advices as your letter supplies me with, which I hope you
will believe I have read more than once, and if I have more days to
pass upon this earth, I mean to do so often, since I profess of all those
that have been offered me, in which charity has been most abound-
ing to me,* none have in all particulars more suited my humor. You
* That eminently great and good man, the Reverend John Howe, wrote a most
excellent letter to her Ladyship in this season of her distress, which well deserves
in the whole of it a place in our work, but it is too long for insertion. However,
some passages we shall take leave to select, which arc as follow : — "The cause ot
your sorrow, madam, is exceedingly great. The causes of your joy are inexpressi-
bly greater. You have infinitely more left than you have lost. Doth it need to he
disputed whether God be better and greater than man? or more to be valued, lov-
ed, and delighted in ? and whether an eternal relation be more considerable than a
temporary one ? was it not your constant sense in your best outward state, ' whom
have I in heaven but thee, O God ! and whom can I desire on earth in comparison of
thee ?' Psalm lxxiii. 25. Herein the state of your Ladyship's case is still the same
if you cannot rather with greater clearness, and with less hesitation, pronounce'
these latter words. The principal causes of our joy arc immutable, such as no su-
pervening thing can alter. You have lost a most pleasant, delectable, earthly rela-
tive. Doth the blessed God hereby cease to be the best and most excellent good ?
Is his nature changed ? his everlasting covenant reversed, and annulled, ' which is
ordered in all things, and sure, and is to be all your salvation, and all your desire
whether he make your house on earth to grow, or not to grow ? 2 Sam. xxiii. 5'
That sorrow which exceeds the proportion of its cause, compared with the remain-
ing and real causes of rejoicing, is in that excess causeless, i. e. that excess of it
wants a cause, such as can justify or afford defense unto it.
"Again, we ought to consider in every case principally that which is principal
God did not create this or that excellent person, and place him for a while in the
world principally to please us; nor doth he therefore take him away principally to
displease, or punish us, hut for much nobler and greater ends, which he hath propo-
sed to himself concerning bun. Nor are we to reckon ourselves so little interested
in the great and sovereign Lord of all, whom vvc have taken to be our God, and to
whom we have absolutely resigned and devoted ourselves, as not to be obliged to
consider and satisfy ourselves in his pleasure, purposes, and ends, more than our Own
apart from his. Such as he hath pardoned, accepted and prepared for himself, are
to serve and glorify Inm in an higher and more exalted capacity than they ever could
in this wretched world of ours, and wherein they have themselves the highest sat-
isfaction When the ble^ed God is pleased in having attained and accomplished
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deal with me, sir, just as I would be dealt withal ; and it is possible 1
feel the more smart from my raging griefs, because 1 would not take
them off but upon fit considerations, as it is easiest to our natures to
have our sore in deep wounds gently handled, yet as most profitable I
would yield, nay desire to have mine searched, that, as you religious-
ly design by it, they may not fester. It is possible that I grasp at too
much of this kind for a spirit so broken by affliction, for I am so
jealous that time, or necessity, the ordinary abater of all violent pas=
sions, nay even employment, or company of such friends as I have
left, should do that my reason or religion ought to do, as makes me
covet the best advices, and use all methods to obtain such a relief, as
the end and intendments of his own boundless love, too great to be satisfied with
the conferring only temporary favors in this imperfect state, and they are pleased in
partaking the full effects of that love, who are we that we should be displeased ? or
that we should oppose our satisfaction to that of the glorious God, and the glorified
creature ?
"Therefore, madam, whereas you cannot avoid to think much on this subject, and
to have the removal of that incomparable person for a gYeat theme of your thoughts
I only propose most humbly to your honor, that you would not confine them to the
sadder and darker part of that theme. It hath also a bright side, and it equally be-
longs to it to consider whither he is gone, and to whom, as whence and from whom.
Let, I beseech you, your mind be more exercised in contemplating the glories of that
state into which your blessed consort is translated, which will mingle pleasure and
sweetness with the bitterness of your afflicting loss, by giving you a daily intellec-
tual participation through the exercise of faith and hope in his enjoyments. He
cannot descend to share with you in your sorrows; but you may thus every day
ascend, and partake with him in his joys. He is a pleasant subject to consider; a
prepared spirit made meet for an inheritance with them that are sanctified, and with
the saints in light now entered into a state so connatural, and wherein it finds every
thing most agreeable to itself. How highly grateful it is to be united with the true
center, and come home to the Father of Spirits ! to consider how pleasant a wel-
come, how joyful an entertainment, your consort hath met with above ! how de-
lighted an associate he is with the general assembly, the innumerable company of
angels, and the spirits of just men made perfect ! how joyful an homage he continu-
ally pays to the throne of the celestial King !
" Will your ladyship think that an hard saying of our departing Lord to his mourn-
ful disciples, ' If ye loved me you would rejoice that I said, I go to the Father, for
my Father is greater than I?' John, xiv. 28. As if he had said, ' He sits enthroned
in higher glory than you can frame any conception of by beholding me in so mean a
condition on earth.' We are as remote, and as much short in our thoughts as to
conceiving the glory of the supreme King, as a peasant, who never saw any thing
better than his own cottage, from conceiving the splendor of the most glorious
princes' court. But if that faith, which is the substance of things hoped for, and the
evidence of things not seen, be much accustomed to its proper work and business,
the daily, delightful visiting and viewing the glorious, invisible regions; if it be of-
ten conversant in those vast and spacious tracts of pure and brightest light, and
among the holy inhabitants that replenish them, if it frequently employ itself in con-
templating their comely order, perfect harmony, sublime wisdom, unspotted purity,
most fervent mutual love, delicious conversation with each other, and perpetual,
pleasant consent in their adoration and observance of their eternal King, who is
there to whom it would not be a solace to think I have such and such friends and
relatives, some perhaps as dear as my own life, perfectly well pleased, and happy
among them! how can you love, madam, so generous a love towards so deserving
an object, how can it but more fervently sparkle in joy for his sake, than dissolve in
tears for your own ?
" Nor should such thoughts excite over-hasty, impatient desires of following pres-
ently to heaven, but to the endeavors of serving God more cheerfully on earth for
our appointed time, which I earnestly desire your ladyship to apply yourself to, as
LADY RACHEL RUSSELL. 151
I can ever hope for, a silent submission to this severe and terrible
providence, without any ineffective unwillingness to bear what I must
suffer, and such a victory over myself that, when once allayed, im-
moderate passions may not be apt to break out again upon fresh oc-
casions and accidents offering to my memory that dear object of my
desires which must happen every day, I may say every hour of the
longest life I can live ; that, so, when I must return into the world so
far as to act that part that is incumbent upon me in faithfulness to him
I owe as much as can be due to man, it may be with a great strength
of spirits, and grace to live a stricter life of holiness to my God, who
will not always let me cry to him in vain. On him I will wait till he
have pity upon me, humbly imploring that by the mighty aids of his
you would not displease God, who is your only hope, nor be cruel to yourself, nor
dishonor the religion of Christians, as if they had no other consolations than this
earth can give, and earthly power can take from them. Your ladyship, if any one,
would be loath to do any thing unworthy your family and parentage. Your high-
est alliance is to that Father and family above, whose dignity and honor are, I
douht not of highest account with you."
" I multiply words, being loath to lose my design. I shall only add that conside-
ration, which cannot but be valuable with you, upon his first proposal, who had all
the advantages imaginable to give it its full weight, I mean that of those dear pledges
left behind. My own heart even bleeds to think of the case of those sweet babes,
should they be bereaved of their other parent too : and even your continued visible
dejection would be their unspeakable disadvantage. You always naturally create
in them a reverence of you, and I cannot but apprehend how the constant mien, as-
pect and deportment of such a parent will insensibly influence the temper of dutiful
children, and if they be sad and despondent, depress their spirits and blunt and take
off the edge and quickness, upon which their future comfort and usefulness will
much depend. Were it possible their now glorious father should visit and inspect
you, would you not be troubled to behold a frown in that bright and serene face ?
You are to please a more penetrating eye, which you will best do by putting on a
temper and deportment suitable to your weighty charge and duty, and to the great
purposes for which God continues you in the world, by giving over unnecessary sol-
itude and retirement, which, though they please you, do really prejudice you, and
are more than you can bear. Nor can any rules of decency require more. Noth-
ing that is necessary and truly Christian ought to be reckoned unbecoming. Da-
vid's example, 2 Sam. xxii. 20, is of too great authority to be counted a pattern of
indecency. The God of heaven lift up the light of his countenance upon you, and
thereby put gladness into your heart, and give you to apprehend him saying to you,
' Arise, and walk in the light of the Lord ?"
" That I have used so much freedom in this paper, I make no apology for ; but do,
therefore, hide myself in the dark, not judging it consistent with that plainness which
I thought the case might require, to give any other account of myself, than that I
am one deeply sensible of your and your noble relatives' deep affliction, and who
scarce ever bow the knee before the mercy-seat without remembering it, and who
shall ever be, madam, your Ladyship's
" Most sincere honorer, and
" Most humble devoted servant."
Though Mr. Howe, says Dr. Calamy,thc writer of his Life, did not put his name
to this his consolatory epistle, yet the style, and several particularities in it, soon dis-
covered who was the author. Her ladyship sent him a letter of thanks, and told
him that he must not expect to remain concealed. She promised to endeavor to fol-
low the advice he had given her, and often wrote to him afterwards ; some of which
letters, says Dr. Calamy, I have seen and read, and they show that his freedom was
taken kindly, and that his pains were well bestowed.— See Dr. Calamy's Life of Mr.
Howe, prefixed to his Works, p. 33.
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Holy Spirit he will touch my heart with greater love to himself,
Then shall I be what he would have me. But I am unworthy of such
a spiritual blessing, who remain so unthankful a creature for those
earthly ones I have enjoyed, because I have them no longer. Yet
God, who knows our frames, will not expect that when we are weak
we should be strong. This is much comfort under my deep dejec-
tions, which are surely increased by the subtile malice of the great
enemy of souls taking all advantage upon my present weakened and
wasted spirits, assaulting with diverse temptations, as, when I have in
any measure overcome one kind, I find another in the room, as when
I am less afflicted, as I before complained, then I find reflections
troubling me, as omissions of some sort or other, that if either great-
er persuasions had been used — he had gone away — or some errors at
the trial amended — or other applications made, he might have been
acquitted, and so yet have been in the land of the living, though I
discharged not these things as faults upon myself, yet as aggravations
to my sorrows, so that my heart shrinks to think his time possibly
was shortened by unwise management. I believe I do ill to torment
myself with such unprofitable thoughts.
Lady Russell to Doctor Tillotson.
Your letters never trouble me, Mr. Dean*. On the contrary,
they are comfortable refreshments to my, for the most part, overbur-
thened mind, which, both by nature and accident, is made so weak,
that I cannot bear with that constancy I should the losses I have
lately felt. I can say, friends and acquaintance thou hast hid out of
my sight, but I hope it shall not disturb my peace. These were
young, and as they had begun their race of life after me, so I desired
they might have ended it also. But happy are those whom God
withdraws in his grace. I trust these were so, and then no age can be
amiss. To the young it is not too early, nor to the aged too late.
Submission and prayer are all we know that we can do towards our
own relief in our distresses, or to disarm God's anger, either in our
public or private concerns. The scene will soon alter to that peace-
ful and eternal home in prospect. But in this time of our pilgrim-
age, vicissitudes of all sorts are every one's lot. —
About the middle of October, 1690.
Lady Russell to Lady Sunderland.^
Your kind letter, madam, asks me to do much better for me and
mine than to scribble so insignificantly as I do on a piece of paper ;
but for twenty several reasons yours must have the advantage you of-
fer me with obliging earnestness a thousand times greater than I de-
*Then Dean of St. Paul's, afterwards Archbishop of Canterbury,
t Daughter of George Digby, Earl of Bristol.
LADY RACHEL RUSSELL. 153
serve, or than there can be cause for, but that you have taken a reso-
lution to be all goodness and favor to me : and, indeed, what greater
proof can you ever give than remembering me so often, and letting
me receive the exceeding advantage of your doing so by reading
your letters, which are all so edifying ? when I know you are contin-
ually engaged in so great and necessary employments as you are ;
and have but too imperfect health, which would unfit any other in
the world but Lady Sunderland, for at least so great dispatches as
you are charged with. These are most visible tokens of Providence
that every one that aims to do their duty shall be enabled to do it.
I hope your natural strength is so great, that it will in some time,
if you do your part, master what has been accidentally in the disor-
der of it. Health, if one strictly considers, is the first of earthly
blessings ; for even the conversation of friends, which, as to spiritual
-profits, as you excellently observe, as it is the nearest approach we
can make to heaven while we live in these tabernacles of clay, so it
is in a temporal sense also the most pleasant and the most profitable
improvement we can make of the time we are to spend on earth.
But, as 1 was saying, if our bodies are out of tune, how little do we
enjoy what in itself is so precious ! And how often must we choose,
if we can attain it, a short slumber that may take off the sense of
pain, rather than to accept what we know in worth excels almost to
infiniteness ? No soul can speak more feelingly than my poor self on
this subject, who can truly say my friendships have made all the joys
and troubles of my life ; and yet, who would live and not love ? Those
who have tried the insipidness of such a life would, 1 believe, never
choose it. Mr. Waller says, " it is with singing all we know they do
above." And it is enough, for if there is so charming a delight in the
love, and suitableness in humors to creatures, what must it be to our
clarified spirits to love in the presence of God ! Can there be a
greater contemplation to provoke to diligence in our preparation for
that great change, when we shall be perfected, and so continue for
ever ?
Her ladyship appears to have been a faithful guardian of her lord's
reputation, and to have shewn his memory every honor that lay in
her power. A few days after her lord's death, she, in vindication of
his character, and indeed of Doctor Burnet's who was supposed to
be the author or adviser of Lord Russell's speech upon the scaffold *
wrote the following letter to the king.
N. B. This letter is thus indorsed by her :
My Letter to the King a few days after my dear Lord's death.
• May it please your majesty,
" I find my husband's enemies are not appeased with his blood,
"Burnet's History of his own time, Vol. II. p. 209, edit. 1815.
20
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but still continue to misrepresent him to your majesty.* It is a
great addition to my sorrows, to hear your majesty is prevailed upon
to believe that the paper he delivered to the sheriff, at his death, was
not his own. I can truly say, and am ready in the solemnest man-
ner to attest, that [during his imprisonment] f I often heard him dis-
course the chiefest matters contained in that paper in the same ex-
pressions he therein uses, as some of those few relations that were
admitted to him can likewise aver. And sure it is an argument of no
great force that there is a phrase or two in it another uses, when no-
thing is more common than to take up such words as we like, or are
accustomed to in our conversation. I beg leave further to avow to
your majesty, that all that is set down in the paper read to your ma-
jestyo n Sunday night, to be spoken in my presence, is exactly true,J
as I doubt not but the rest of the paper is, which was written at my
request ; and the author of it, in all his conversations with my hus-
band that I was privy to, shewed himself a loyal subject to your ma-
jesty, a faithful friend to him, and a most tender and conscientious
minister to his soul. I do therefore humbly beg your majesty chari-
tably to believe that he, who in all his life was observed to act with
the greatest clearness and sincerity, wrould not at the point of death
do so disingenuous and false a thing as to deliver for his own what
was not properly and expressly so : and if after the loss, in such a
manner, of the best husband in the world, I were capable of any con-
solation, your majesty only could afford it by having better thoughts
of him, which, when I was so importunate to speak with your majes-
ty, I thought I had some reason to believe I should have inclined you
to, not from the credit of my word, but upon the evidence of what I
had to say. I hope I have written nothing in this that will displease
your majesty. If I have, I humbly beg of you to consider it as com-
ing from a woman amazed with grief, and that you will pardon the
daughter of a person who served your majesty's father in his greatest
extremities (and your majesty in your greatest posts,) and one that is
not conscious of having ever done any thing to offend you (before.)
I shall ever pray for your majesty's long life, and happy reign, who
am, with all humility, may it please your majesty," &c.
Upon the Duke of Monmouth's insurrection, || her ladyship thus
writes to Doctor Filzwiliiam, in which letter, as there are the lender-
* Burnet's History of bis Own Time, Vol. II. p. 209, edit 1815.
1 The words included in the brackets are crossed out.
i The paper contained an account of all that passed between Doctor Burnet and his
lordship during his attendance upon him. This account Doctor Burnet calls a jour-
nal, which he read before the kino- and council, at his majesty's command, on the day
after Lord Russell's execution. — Burnet's History of his Own Time, Vol. II. p. 209,
edit. 1815.
|| The Duke of Monmouth was son to King Charles the Second, by Lucy Barlow,
alias Wallers, in his declaration against James the Second, among other things, be
accuses him of the barbarous murder of Arthur, Earl of Essex, in the Tower, and of
several others, to conceal it ; of the most unjust condemnation of William Lord Bus-
LADY RACHEL RUSSELL. 155
est accents of grief for her loss, her wounds still bleeding-, so there
is the most honorable testimony borne to her lord's character. " And
now, doctor, I take this wild attempt to be a new project not de-
pending on or being linked in the least to any former design, if there
was then any real one, which I am satisfied was not any more than
(my own lord confessed) talk ; and it is possible that talk going so
far as to consider if a remedy to supposed evils might be sought,
how it could be formed ? But, as I was saying, if all this attempt
was entirely new, yet the suspicion my lord must have lain under
would have been great, and some other circumstances I do confess
must have made his part an hard one, so that from the deceitfulness
of the heart, or want of true sight in the directive faculty, what would
have followed, God only knows. From the frailty of the will I
should have feared but little evil, for he had so just a soul, so firm,
so good, he could not warp from such principles as were so, unless
misguided by his understanding, and that his own, not another's, for
I dare say, as he could discern, he never went into any thing consid-
erable upon the mere submission to any one's particular judgment.
Now his own, I know, he could never have framed to have thought
well of the late actings, and therefore most probably must have sat
loose from them. But I am afraid his excellent heart, had he lived,
would have been often pierced from the time his life was taken away
to this. On the other hand, having, I trust, a reasonable ground of
hope he has found those mercies he died with a cheerful persuasion
he should, there is no reason to mourn my loss, when that soul I loved
so well lives in felicities, and shall do so to all eternity. This [ know
in reason should be my cure, but flesh and blood in this mixed state
is such a slave to sense, the memory how I have lived, and how, as
I think, I must ever do for the time to come, does so prevail and
weaken my most Christian resolves, that I cannot act the part that
mere philosophy, as you set down many instances, enabled many to
an appearance of easiness, for T verily believe they had no more than
me, but vainly affected it. As T began the day with your letter, and
the sheets of discourse, both enclosed in one paper, so I conclude it
with some prayers you formerly assisted me with. Thus, doctor,
you see you have a special right to those prayers you are pleased I
should present, for the same effect on your spirit, if a portion of suf-
sell, ami Colonel Algernon Sidney, being only accused for meeting, in discharge of
their duty to God and their country, to consult of extraordinary yet lawful means to
rescue our religion and liberties from the hands of violence, when all ordinary means,
according to the laws, were denied and obstructed : concluding, " And we do appeal
unto the great God concerning the justice of our cause, and implore his aid and assist-
ance that he would enable us to go forth in his name, and to do valiantly against his
and our enemies, for he it is that know? that we have not chosen to engage in arms
for corrupt and private ends or designs, but out of a deep sense of our duty; we
therefore commit our cause unto him, who is the Lord of Hosts and the God of bat-
tles." The Duke of Monmouth was taken, tried, and, on the 15th of July, 1685, be-
headed.
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fering should be your lot, as you now wish on mine, which after my
poor fashion I will not be wanting in, that am,
Sir, your obliged, and faithful
Friend and servant,
Rachel Russell.
Southampton-house, 21 July. 1685."
Her ladyship also, in the same affectionate regard to her lord's
memory after the Revolution, made use of her interest in favor of his
chaplain, Mr. Samuel Johnson, who calls Lord Russell " the greatest
Englishmen we had," and was very instrumental in procuring him
the pension, and other bounties, which he received from that govern-
ment. It may be also added, that, as she had promised her lord to
take care of her own life for the sake of his children, she was reli-
giously mindful to perform that promise, and continued his widow to
the end of her life, surviving him above forty years, for she lived to
the 29th of September, 1723, dying in her 87th year. Indeed the
series of letters during her long widowhood are the most tender and
honorable testimonies of her respect to her husband's memory, and
we may observe in them an almost unabating sorrow for the loss of
him, united with an eminent piety, and profound submission to the di-
vine will, at least no murmurs against it.
It is observable concerning Lady Russell, that in the free effusions
of her heart to her intimate friends, with the constant moans of grief
for the loss of her dear husband, that we remember not upon a dili-
gent perusal of her Letters so much as one trace of keen resentment
or reflection upon any person whatever that had any concern in her
husband's death, if rather it may not be called murder. If the
Duke of York was so malignant as to instigate his brother, King
Charles, to be inexorable to the applications that were made for Lord
Russell's life,* and even to propose that he should be executed at his
* The kins;, ?ays Bishop Burnet, could not bear the discourse of shewing any favor
to Lord Russell ; and the Duke of York would bear the discourse, though he was re-
solved against the thing. But, according to Dr. Wellwood, the king was not only
inclined to pardon him, but suhvred some words to escape on the very day he was ex-
ecuted, as sufficiently shewed his irresolution in that matter, in the Duke of Mon-
mouth's journal it is said, that the King told him that he inclined to have saved the
Lord Russell, hut was forced to consent to his death, otherwise he must have broken
with his brother, the Duke of York. The Duke of York descended so low in his re-
venge, (originating not improbably from Lord Russell's having proposed the bill in
16S0, to the Commons, to prevent a popish successor, and having carried it, when
passed, to the House of Lords, for their concurrence,) as to desire that Lord Russell
might be executed before his own door : an insult the king himself would not consent
to. — Introduction to Lady Russell's Letter? p. (50. — But though Lady Russell, as far
as we remember, calls not up, in a single hint, in all her Letters, the Duke of York's
asperity against her husband, who was so dear to her, yet it seems that he was by
another person, the father himself of Lord Russell, reminded to his face of the hard
fate his son had met with. King James the Second, in his distresses in 1688, addressed
himself to the Earl — " My lord, you are an honest man, have great credit, andean
do me signal service." — "Ah, sir," replied the earl, "I am old and feeble ; I can do
you but little service, but I once had a son that could have assisted you ; but he is
no more." James was so struck with this reply, that he could not speak for some
minutes. Introduction to Lady Russell's Letters, p. 73.
LADY RACHEL RUSSELL. 157
own door, the good lady drops no censure upon him ; and even after
James the Second was no more king, but a wanderer in a foreign
land, there is nothing like a triumph over him, or an intimation from
her ladyship that she thought he was justly punished for his bloody
crimes.
Even the inhuman JefTeries himself, who distinguished himself by a
flaming speech against Lord Russell at his trial, is passed over in si-
lence by her, and she takes not the least notice of his disgrace, im-
prisonment, and death in the Tower, owing, as it has been thought
by some, to the blows he received while in the hands of an enraged
populace.*
In fact her ladyship's Letters discover a mind in close connexion
with her God, or earnestly laboring to enjoy this inestimable blessing,
and bleeding with the incurable wound she had felt in the loss of the
best of friends and husbands ; but there are not the least traces of a
sour or angry spirit against the unkind instruments that had brought
such overwhelming sorrows upon her.
It appears from some of her ladyship's Letters, that she was afflict-
ed, some years after her lord's death, with great weakness or dim-
ness of sight. " My eyes grow ill so fast," says she in one of her let-
ters, I resolve to do nothing of this sort by candlelight."f And in
another : "For the chat of the town I will not venture to hurt my
eyes for it."| From this complaint we find her happily relieved, for
on June 28, 1694, Archbishop Tillotston wrote to Doctor Burnet,
Bishop of Salisbury, "That he could not forbear telling him that La-
dy Russell's eye was couched yesterday morning with very good suc-
cess.'^ From this time to her death, from what we can gather, she
seems to have enjoyed her sight without any impediment, for her last
two letters to the Earl of Gal way, written about the years 1717, or
1718, appear, says the editor of her Letters, || by the largeness of
the text to have been written without spectacles, as Lady Russell was
sometimes accustomed to do in extreme old age. This circumstance of
her disorder upon her eyes we the rather take notice of, that we may
communicate to our readers the resignation she discovered even in
the apprehension that she might shortly be deprived of the invaluable
blessing of the light of the day. "While I can see at all," says she,
writing to Doctor Fitzwilliam, 5th Nov. 1692,1T "I must do a little
more than I can when God sees best that outward darkness shall fall
upon me, which will deprive me of all society at a distance, which I
esteem exceedingly profitable and pleasant ; but still I have full hope
I shall rejoice in that he will not deny me his great grace to strength-
* See Rapin's History of England, Vol. xii. p. 162, 8vo. edit. This historian adds,
"never man had better deserved a public punishment, as an atonement for all the
mischiefs done to his country, and for all the blood spilt by his means."
t See her Letters, p. 289." t Ibid. p. 291.
§ See her Letters, p. 304, in a marginal note.
|| Ibid. p. 331. H Ibid. p. 293.
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en me with might by his Spirit in the inner man. Then I shall walk
in the right way until I reach the joys of eternal endurance. "
And again, to the same friend :* — " Alas ! my bad eyes serve me
now so little, that I could not read your papers, and tell you that I
have done so, in one day. It is mortifying, yet I hope I do not re-
pine, but, on the contrary, rejoice in the goodness of my God to me,
that, when I feared the utter loss of sight, has let me thus long see
the light, and by it given me time to prepare for that day of bodily
darkness, which perhaps must soon overtake me."
* See her Letters, p. 295.
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MRS. ELIZABETH BURY
Mrs. Elizabeth Bury was born about the second of March,
1644, at Clare, in the county of Suffolk, and was baptized the
twelfth. Her father was Captain Adams Lawrence, of Lynton, in
Cambridgeshire, a person of good character and great integrity.
He died June 13, 1648. Her mother was Mrs. Elizabeth Cutts,
daughter of Henry Cutts, Esquire, of Clare, a gentleman learned in
the law, a great peace-maker among his neighbors, and a zealous
promoter of the interest of the gospel. He died August 23, 1657,
and his most eminently religious consort after him, August 5, 1667.
His daughter, the mother of the subject of our Memoirs, was a re-
markably serious, heavenly, and experienced Christian, an ornament
to her family, a blessing to her children, and the delight of all her
friends. She died full of grace and years, October 6, 1697, aged 78.
Such were the truly respectable and heavenly roots whence Mrs.
Bury sprung !
The freedom, ingenuousness, and pleasantness of Mrs. Bury 's tem-
per, were ordinarily known to all who conversed with her. She
never was reserved but when she thought her company was disagree-
able, or she could profit herself more by her own thoughts than the
discourse of others.
She has been often taken notice of as a person of uncommon parts,
ready thought, quick apprehension, and proper expression. She
was always very inquisitive into the nature and reason of things, and
greatly obliged to any that would give her information.
In writing letters she had a great aptness and felicity of language,
and was always thought so close and pertinent, and full to the pur-
pose, and withal so serious, spiritual, and pungent, that her correspon-
dence was greatly valued by some of the brightest minds, even in
very distant countries.
Her genius led her to the study of almost every thing ; and, hav-
ing a fine understanding, accompanied with a very faithful and reten-
tive memory, and taking a continual pleasure in reading and conver-
sation, she soon became a proficient in whatever part of knowledge
she was desirous to attain.
She often entertained herself with philology, philosophy, and an-
cient and modern history. Sometimes she diverted herself with mu-
sic, vocal and instrumental ; sometimes with heraldry, the globes,
and mathematics ; and sometimes with learning the French tongue,
principally for the sake of conversing with French refugees, to whom
she was an uncommon benefactress ; but she especially employed
herself in perfecting her acquaintance with the Hebrew lan£iiagp;
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which by her long application and practice she had rendered so fa-
miliar and easy to her, as frequently to quote the original in common
conversation, when the true meaning of some particular texts depen-
ded upon it. Very critical remarks upon the idioms and peculiarities
of that language were found among her papers after her decease.
Another study in which she took much pleasure was that of anato-
my and medicine ; being led to it partly by her own ill health, and
partly by a desire of being useful among her neighbors. In this
branch of knowledge she improved so much, that many of the great
masters of the faculty have been often startled, by her stating the
most nice and difficult cases in such proper terms as could have
been expected only from men of their own profession ; and they
have often owned that she understood an human body, and the mate-
ria medica, much better than most of her sex, with whom they had
ever been acquainted.
But however she diverted herself with these parts of her litera-
ture, yet her constant favorite, and darling study was divinity, espe-
cially the Holy Scriptures, having from her very childhood taken
God's testimonies for the men of her counsel. In the latter part of
her life she devoted most of her secret and leisure hours to the read-
ing of Mr. Henry's Exposition of the Bible, whose volumes she
would often say were the most plain, profitable, and pleasant books
she ever read, and the last books, next to the Holy Scriptures, she
would ever part with. She honored the author, for finding so much
of God in him, and for speaking the case of her own heart better
than she could speak it herself. He always surprised her with
something new, and yet so natural, and of such necessary consequence,
and unobserved by others, that she still read him with fresh gust and
pleasure. Next to the Bible, her chief delight lay in reading prac-
tical divinity ; and the plainer and closer, and more penetrating any
author was, he was always the more acceptable to her.
But notwithstanding all her knowledge, and unusual improvements
in such a variety of learning, and her deep acquaintance with the
spiritual and most interesting truths of religion, she would always con-
fess and bewail her own ignorance, and that she knew little to what
others did, or what she ought to have known in any of those matters.
The certain time and particular means of her conversion she
could not positively determine, but she thought that blessed event
took place about the tenth year of her age. She had been under
many convictions some years before, but she apprehended the ef-
fectual work was not accomplished till that time ; but then she judged
it was indeed performed, for though she had many suspicions and
jealousies of her state towards God after that period, yet upon the
most serious searches she concluded with herself that she had more
ground for hope than fear.
Her entrance upon a life of religion so young gave her many op-
portunities of glorifying God, of doing much good to others, and of
MRS. ELIZABETH BURY. 1C1
enjoying large experiences of the divine grace and faithfulness to-
wards her : and from the benefit and comfort she found in early re-
ligion herself, she always recommended it with much seriousness, af-
fection, and importunity, to others. There was something very pe-
culiar in the disposition of her mind, and turn of thought, that adapt-
ed itself to the capacity, temper, genius, and relish of most children.
Her first and principal attempt upon their tender minds, was to bring
them in love with their Bibles, to teach them some short sentences
and prayers, and the pleasant histories of the Scriptures, especially
such as concerned children, and then to insinuate herself into their
affections, and so instruct, persuade, and oblige them, by discoursing
with them in their own phrase and dialect, as to render her company
very acceptable and delightful to them ; and, by the grace of God,
she by these methods was made very useful to many.
Having set out thus early in the way to Sion herself, and allured
and persuaded all she could into the same path, she held on her own
heavenly course with great steadiness, resolution, and pleasure ; pro-
ceeded from strength to strength ; and for the joy that was set before
her, went before many of her fellow Christians. She thought it not
enough to begin her work in the morning of life, but she diligently
attended to it all the day. She was always aware of the vigilance of
her spiritual enemies, and this kept her upon her watch. She would
always say, " she had much to do, and that which must be done, and
that she knew not how short her day would be, and therefore she had
no time to lose." She often observed what was said of Jacob, that
after he had met with God, "he gathered up his feet,"* and went his
way ; and she thought that she herself ought to imitate his example.
Having set out for heaven thus soon, and continuing her resolu-
tions for God, and religion, and the eternal interests of her soul, she
often considered with herself, and advised with others, upon the proper-
est and most effectual means to promote and carry on her spiritual and
pious designs, and at last determined upon this as one, to keep a daily
memorial of what she did, which should be, as she expresses it, a wit-
ness between God and her own soul. It cannot be ascertained when
she began her Diary, but it is conjectured it was about the eighteenth
or twentieth year of her age. In it both morning and evening she
strictly observes, with very great beauty and happy variety of ex-
pression, the most remarkable providences of God with respect to
herself and others, and sometimes in the minutest circumstances of
them — the solemn transactions between God and her own soul in
her closet, in her family, in the sanctuary, and in her daily walk and
converse with others — the substance of what she had read or heard
that was most affecting in her present case, or might direct her future
* What is rendered in our Translation, Gen. xxix. 1. "Jacob went on his jour-
ney ;" in the original is, " He lifted up his feet ;" to which this good lady, who was
acquainted with the Hebrew language, evidently refers.
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practice— her preparations for holy duties — the influences, impres-
sions, assistance, withdrawings, and consolations of the Spirit of God
in them — her daily infirmities, afflictions, supports, self-examinations,
evidences, and foretastes of eternal life — her advances in religion,
and her suspected decays — the matter of her prayers for herself and
others, and the manner, time, and seasonableness of God's answers
— the temper of her soul, especially on Sabbaths, and at sacraments,
and on days of solemn fasting and humiliation, and thanksgiving,
public, private, or secret, and on days she set apart for the trial of
herself, and searches into her own soul — the various scenes of her
life, and her comforts and exercises in each of them — her special re-
marks upon days of mercy either to herself or family — the manner
of her entrance upon a new year, &c. But it would be almost im-
possible to enumerate the several heads and articles which make up
her Diary. Enough, however, from the particulars that have been
mentioned, may be said, to shew its pious nature, and excellent
design.
In this method she found singular advantage. She would often
say, " that was it not for her Diary she should neither know what she
was, or what she did, or what she had ;" and by recourse to it in all
her afflictions, temptations, and surprises, she generally found great
relief. Let her mind be never so much embarrassed, and the exer-
cise of reason and grace never so much interrupted, yet the review
of her former experience was an extraordinary help to future confi-
dence, and thus was she brought again to her great rock, refuge, and
rest, and recovered her usual cheerfulness. Hence also it was that
she often recommended the keeping a diary to others, that so God
might not lose the glory, nor they themselves the comfort of their
lives.
It was easy to observe a very lively impression of the image of
God upon her soul, and the whole train of graces exhibited in a beau-
tiful exercise through the whole course of her life and actions.
Her humility shewed itself in her courteous carriage towards the
poorest persons, and her conversation with them, especially where
she thought she could have any advantage for doing good. When-
ever she appeared before God, her Diary discovers how exceeding
vile she was in her own eyes, and how much she abhorred herself by
reason of the Lerna malorum* as she often calls it, which she found
in her sinful nature, and which made her a burden to herself. She
was also greatly humbled by observing the condescensions of divine
grace under all her infirmities. " What grace, and such grace, to
me. to " unworthy me, to vile ungrateful me !" There was nothing
that so much affected her heart as the grace of God to such a sinner.
* The infinity of sins, as this Latin proverb may be rendered. Lerna was a lake
near Argos, in Peloponnesus, where Hercules slew the Hydra, or great water-snake,
whose heads grew again as last as they were cut off. Hence Lerna malorum.
MRS. ELIZABETH BURY. \&3
Her patience was admirable under all ibe chastisements of her
heavenly Father. She would often profess her unfeigned submission
to all his discipline. " This," says she, " or any other method, Lord,
to take away sin. This flesh shall bear it, and this spirit shall not
repine at it. This is a part of thy covenant, and I am thankful for
it. Thou hast done me good by afflictions, and wilt do me more,
and therefore I will glory in them." Under the unkind treatment of
some, whom she had studied to oblige to the utmost, and whose in-
terests she had often espoused to the prejudice of her own, she mani-
fested a very exemplary carriage, by keeping the possession of her
mind, and rendering them good for all their evil. Indeed these trials
stuck close to her, but, by the grace of God, she was superior to them
all; she eyed God in all, and ever referred her cause to him.
As to this world, she was very thankful to her divine Benefactor
for the good provision he had made for her in it ; but she often pro-
tested, "that she would never take it for her portion, since God had
tendered heaven, and himself, to her." The cares, and incumbran-
ces, and vexations, and especially the sinfulness of the world, had
weaned her affections from it, and raised many restless and almost
incessant cries for her deliverance out of it. She was never eleva-
ted with its smiles, unless in thankfulness to God ; and never de-
pressed by its frowns, unless she apprehended that sin was the cause.
Her mind for the most part was equal in every state, because she
was ever aspiring and longing after her heavenly country and inherit-
ance. How often would she wish, " O for those realms of light, and
love, and purity !"
Her zeal for God was shewn by promoting his worship, and en-
couraging every probable method for public service. She had the
interest of God and religion much more at heart than any private or
personal interest whatsoever.
Her charity to the poor was known to many, especially to the
household of faith, whether natives of her own country, or foreign-
ers. She spared no pains, and grudged no expenses, in her state of
widowhood, for carrying on her designs for the relief of destitute
families exiled for the sake of religion, for erecting charity-schools
for the education of the poor, for the maintenance of ministers, and
candidates for the sacred office, and for a provision of Bibles, and
practical books, to be distributed as she should see occasion. So
many long and expensive journeys had she taken for promoting these
charitable designs among her acquaintance, that she sometimes pleas-
antly remarked upon herself, " that she had acted the part of a beg-
gar so long, that she was now almost really one herself." She very
much approved of every person's devoting a certain part of then-
estates to pious and charitable uses ; " for then," says she, " they
will not grudge to give out of a bag that is no longer their own."
And as to such as had no children, she thought it was reasonable
they should appropriate a fourth part of their nett profits or incomo
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if they could allow it, as she herself did, to such valuable and neces-
sary purposes.
She considered walking with God in general as implying a living,
as in his sight, in conformity to him, and in communion with him.
She esteemed it requisite in walking with God that a person should
be humble under a sense of his own vileness and the great conde-
scension of his God to him, and that he should be close, and steady,
and persevering, and lively, in opposition to sluggishness and melan-
choly ; and her own practice very much corresponded with her right
apprehension of the duty, for it is observable from her Diary that she
lived in a daily awe of the omniscience of God, in holy meditation of
him, in humble expectations from him, and in constant devotedness
of herself entirely to him.
She always began her day with God, by consecrating her first and
freshest thoughts to him, that she might guard against vanity, tempta-
tion, and worldly discomposures, and keep her heart in tune for the
following duties of the day. She always accounted the morning not
only a friend to the Muses, but also to the Graces, and found it the
fittest time for the best services. She never, or very rarely, entered
upon any worldly business till she had begun with God, and given the
first-fruits of the day to him in her closet, by reading, meditation,
and prayer, before the worship of the family, often urging on herself
the words of the Psalmist, " My voice shalt thou hear in the morn-
ing. O Lord, in the morning will I direct my prayer to thee, and
will look up.*"
When reading, singing, and prayer in the family were over, she
constantly returned to her closet, and generally spent most of her
morning there. She first lighted her lamp, as she expressed it, by
reading the holy Scriptures, for the most part with Mr. Henry's An-
notations. She diligently compared parallel texts, and took a great
pleasure in reducing what she met with in the History of the Bible to
its proper time. She then poured out her soul to God in prayer,
with a constant regard to the intercession of Christ ; would often bit-
terly bewail the wanderings of her heart in that duty, and plead cov-
enant grace and faithfulness, and to finish her morning's work with
some hymn of praise, and write down an account of all in her Diary.
Through the rest of the day she walked with God, and carefully
observed her goings, avoided the occasions of sin, watched over her
heart, set a guard upon her lips, accustomed herself to holy confer-
ence with others, and was frequently lifting up her heart in ejacula-
tory prayers or praises upon any occurrence. When at any time
she had been surprised by sin, she presently reflected, confessed, re-
pented, had fresh recourse to the blood of Christ, and solemnly en-
gaged herself to God for greater circumspection in the time to come.
Psali
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In the evening, as early as she could, she called herself to an ac-
count for all that had passed in the day, and again inserted the rec-
ords of herself in her Diary. Having poured out her heart to God,
and committed herself and her all to him, she then cheerfully joined
in the devotions of the family.
Though the people of God were always the people of her choice,
she was often obliged to keep company with others. When she ex-
pected to make a visit to any such, or to receive a visit from them,
she frequently begged of God grace that she might order her con-
versation aright, and that she might not be a partaker with others in
their sins, but know how to reprove them, and that she might not suf-
fer others to trifle away their time, but know how to employ them.
She quickly observed the gifts and graces of others, and endeavored
to draw them out to her own advantage. She always valued the
conversation of ministers, physicians, and persons of reading and in-
genuity, especially such as had the greatest savor of religion.
She often visited the sick, and relieved the poor, and blessed God
that she was in circumstances to give rather than to receive. When
in her state of widowhood she had sometimes given to the last penny,
through the delays of tenants in their payments, she often observes,
that speedy supplies were sent in a very unexpected manner, as if
giving to the poor were the readiest way to bring in the payment of
her debts.
Of all company there was none more offensive or painful to her
than tatlers and talebearers. She could not forbear reproving them,
and often frowned them out of her house. " She had business
enough," she would say, " of her own, and therefore did not desire
" to intermeddle with her neighbors." She durst not defame others,
or take up an evil report against them, or countenance those who did.
She was never more palled in conversation than in hearing what oth-
ers did, and what they had, and what they said, what dresses were
worn, what entertainments were given, what company were present,
and what discourse passed among them, and therefore would often
say, " How happy would it be if we might talk of things rather than
of persons !" Both her own good sense and the power of religion
carried her soul above such trifles and impertinencies, and they ra-
ther gave her disgust than any degree of pleasure.
Her worldly losses, especially in the latter part of her life, were
many and very great ; but she would say, " the world is not my por-
tion, and therefore these losses cannot be my ruin. I have all in
God now, and shall have all this restored by one mean or another, if
not to myself, yet to those who shall survive me, if God sees it good
for us." She was frequently exercised with afflictions, even from
her youth. The inclemency of the air, where her own estate lay,
and many of her pious friends and relatives lived, often laid her un-
der a necessity of removing to distant places. She was also no stran-
ger to very sharp bodily disorders ; but, under extremity of pains in
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her head or breast, her usual complaints, she ever submitted with ex-
emplary patience and silence to the sovereign will of God, justifying
him in his severest discipline, and often saying, " she would not for
all the world but she had been afflicted."
She set an high value upon her time, and especially on those sea-
sons and opportunities in which the interest of her soul was so nearly
concerned, and she thought she never could abound enough in that
work which afforded her the greatest satisfaction. She would often
say, " that she would not lose her morning hours with God, though
she was sure to gain the whole world by it." She grudged that the
poorest laborer should ever be found at his work before she was at
hers. Even from her youth she agreed it with her servant, under
great penalties upon herself, that she would rise every morning at
four o'clock for her closet ; " which was her practice," says her bi-
ographer and husband, " as I have been told, from the eleventh year
of her age; and at five, to my own knowledge, if sickness or pain
did not prevent her, for betwixt twenty and thirty of the last years of
her life." "
She carefully endeavored to improve the day, in company and
conversation with her friends. She was always well furnished with
matter for useful conversation, and could make very happy transitions
from worldly to serious discourse. But yet she would often complain
of the loss of much precious time in giving and receiving visits, and
say, " she could not be satisfied with such a life, in which she could
neither do good, nor receive good, but that she must keep to her clos-
et, and her book." She often remarked in her Diary, " that she was
entertained very kindly at such and such houses, but no good done
to herself, or others."
It was her frequent prayer, that affection might never bias her judg-
ment, but that reason and religion might govern her in every state
and change of life.
Her first marriage was to Griffith Lloyd, Esquire, of Hemingford-
Grey, in Huntingdonshire, on the first of February, 1667, in the
twenty-third year of her age. He was a gentleman of good reputa-
tion and estate, of great usefulness in his county, while he was in
commission of the peace, and afterwards as a reconciler of differen-
ces, and common patron of the oppressed. He was a person of a
very active and generous spirit, of great piety, of a singularly good
temper, and steady faithfulness to his friends. They lived together
about fifteen years, to April 13, 1682, when death dissolved the near
relation by removing him from our world. This worthy pair were
such patterns of love and harmony, as to be taken notice of by all
their neighbors ; and, if they were envied by some, they were gloried
in by others, and especially by their own relations.
Her second marriage was to the Rev. Samuel Bury, on May 29,
1697, who appears to have been a very worthy and excellent minis-
ter ; and who happily survived her, to communicate the Memorials
of her for the instruction and benefit of the world.
MRS. ELIZABETH BURY. 1G7
As to her relative duties she made great conscience of them, and
was very exemplary in their observance.
As a mistress and governess of a family, she was very careful in
the choice of her servants, where she could have a choice. She was
always afraid of strife aud contention in her family, lest she should
be discomposed in her own spirit, and the common interest of reli-
gion should be obstructed by intestine jars and disaffection. She
never took any person into her service till she had solemnly prayed
to, and pleaded with God, and submitted herself to his direction,
Whenever she treated with any, she not only acquainted them with
the business of their place, but also with the religious orders of the
family, to which she had their explicit consent. When they were
once admitted into her house, it was her first and constant care to
inquire into the state of their souls, to instruct and catechise, to re-
prove and encourage them ; to warn them of the snares and dangers
of their age and place, and to enjoin them to take time for secret
prayer, reading the Scriptures, meditation, and self-examination.
She always charged it as a duty upon herself to discourse over with
her servants every sermon they heard together, especially on Sab-
baths, and to inculcate that upon them in a particular manner, in
which she thought they were much concerned. She sometimes took
an account of them together ; but at other times, when her strength
and health would allow, she examined them singly and apart, that
such who could remember but little, might not be discouraged by
those that could do better, and that she might have a fairer opportu-
nity of closer application to their particular state, as she saw occa-
sion. By these means she became a servant to her servants, and
she took pleasure in all her pains with them, though oftentimes to
her own extreme faintness. Her servants themselves are witnesses
what tender care she took of them in sickness, as well as in health ;
and her Diary will abundantly prove how incessantly she prayed for
them, and suited her prayers to the particular exigencies of their sev-
eral states. Often does she there mourn over the unteachableness
of some, melting into tears on their account, and lodging her appeals
with God as to the sincerity of her endeavors to have done them
good. And in her Diary also we shall find her rejoicing over others,
that God had answered her prayers, blessed her instructions, and
brought them under the bonds of the covenant, planted them in fam-
ilies, and made them blessings there. " I cannot remember," says
her husband, writing concerning her, " any servants that were ever
brought under her care who had not learned something of the meth-
od of a sermon before they left her ; and very many had their mem-
ories improved so far, as to bring home all the particular heads,
though numerous, of the two sermons on the Lord's-day. He adds,
that when ever she inclined to part with a servant, she always con-
sulted God in it, and that she would take the person into her closet,
and very pathetically advise and teach a proper conduct of life, in
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order that the servant might be acceptable in other families. " And
such was the success," says her historian, " of these her religious
methods, that I know not of any one servant she ever had but what
was first or last under some awakenings of conscience, and spiritual
convictions, and seeming resolutions for God and religion, however
they wore off afterwards. It is common with some of them still, up-
on every occasion, to speak of their mistress's care of them, and pray-
ers for them, when the family was left with her, as in the necessary
absence of others was frequently the case."
If we view her in regard to her relations, we shall find her a con-
stant sharer with them in all their joys and sorrows. A more sympa-
thetic spirit is very rarely to be met with. She never ceased to pray
for them as parts of herself. She often mourned for their sins and
afflictions. She rejoiced in the piety of some, and longed after the
conversion and return of others. When at a distance from her
relatives she had a happy talent in writing to them ; and such were
the pertinency, pathos and pungency of all her letters, that every one
valued them, and was greatly pleased with them. When she was
present with her relatives, she was ever feeling how the pulse of their
souls beat, she ingratiated herself into their regard, and instilled some-
thing proper into their minds, observing, persuading, warning, and
directing, as she thought necessary. " She has an honorable testimo-
ny," says Mr. Bury, " I believe in the consciences of all her relations,
who respect her memory, and own her to be a pattern of great in-
tegrity, piety, ingenuousness, and faithfulness. Her animadversion
upon her friends, in the manner she used to do it, was so very far
from offending them, that it was oftentimes very pleasing to them,
and begat in them some awful regard to her person, and a true de-
corum in their own lives.5*
Besides her common concern for the good of all men, and her
special regard to her family and relations, she would show upon all
occasions, when her own health would allow it, a very compassionate
concern for the sick and afflicted. Though in some cases it was
very noisome and dangerous, yet she took a pleasure in visiting the
sick, as it gave her an opportunity of inquiring into the state of their
souls, and impressing upon their minds the concerns of religion, and
improving the alarms of God upon their consciences for future watch-
fulness and reformation. However matters appeared to her upon
such private inquiries and conversation with any,, she would always
afterwards bring their cases into her closet, spread them before the
Lord, pray them over, and observe what answers were given to her
supplications. How much knowledge and skill soever she attained in
the practice of physic by long observation, conversation, and experi-
ence, yet she was always very distrustful of herself in any chronical
cases, and could hardly be persuaded to direct without better advice,
till the poverty of her patients, and their great importunity, compel-
led her to it. When God gave her success, she always acknowledged
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it with great thankfulness to him, that he should own so weak an in-
strument for the peservation of human lives. The instances of such
successes, in most places where she had lived, were not easily num-
bered.
She always called the Sabbath a delight, holy of the Lord, and
honorable. She was very uneasy if worldly business was not dis-
patched in time, that the Sabbath might be remembered before it
came. She endeavored to awake with God, and possess her mind
at first with proper thoughts, that might prepare her for the work
that was to follow. She presently engaged in secret prayer, to be-
speak the divine presence and assistance through the day. She
then read and sang, as she had time, before family worship began.
When that was over, she retired again to read, sing and pray ; and,
as has been before observed, had a constant remembrance .of the
minister, that God would grant him assistance, and success to his la-
bors. As she was up early on the Sabbath, so she was not only al-
ways out early, but her whole family with her ; not so much regard-
ing the dressing of her own dinner as the advantage of her servants'
souls. When public ordinances were over, she always withdrew for
meditation : she next examined her servants, and inculcated upon
them what they had heard, then she prayed in her closet before fam-
ily worship, and after that filled up the spaces of the evening with
spiritual and edifying discourses.
She was never more pleased in any ordinance than that of singing,
as she had a natural taste for music, and a good understanding and
skill in it. But yet a concord of voices could not satisfy her without
an agreement and harmony of heart with what was sung. Hence a
severe remark upon herself in her Diary : "In such a place I was
so charmed with the novelty and sweetness of the tune, that I had sung
several lines before my heart was concerned in what I was doing."
As to sacraments, she always shewed a most religious regard to
them, in obedience to the precept, and in a sense of interest ; " and
for twenty-three years together," says Mr. Bury, who was that time
married to her, " I never knew her absent from one, if bodily illness
did not prevent her."
She was truly a praying person, and one who gave herself to pray-
er ; and in the Scripture sense, she prayed always. She would of-
ten say, " she would not be hired out of her closet for a thousand
worlds." She never enjoyed such hours of pleasure, and such free
and intimate communion with God, as she experienced there. She
wondered how any persons could live without prayer, and deprive
themselves of one of the greatest privileges that was ever vouchsafed
to the children of men.
Her gift in prayer was very extraordinary, as many have observ-
ed, when the care of the family devolved upon her ; and as her ex-
cellent husband and biographer observed, when upon some peculiar
occasions they have prayed together in secret. " He has been struck
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as he declares, with wonder, at the freedom and aptness of her lan-
guage ; at the warmth and vigor of her affections ; at her humble
confidence in God ; and her strong expectations of blessings from
him, when she poured out her soul to him in that duty." With satis-
faction and cheerfulness she would leave all her own complaints, and
all the difficulties, grievances, and distresses of others with her God,
thus casting her burdens upon the Lord, and finding rest for her soul
in him.
She never determined any doubtful cases with respect to herself,
her friends or her family, till she had first asked counsel of God,
and then whatever she resolved in her closet, upon that direction she
was always unalterably fixed.
Many merciful returns of prayers she observes in her Diary.
Sometimes God answered her upon her knees, while she was pray-
ing, either in the recovery of the sick, whose lives were despaired of
by others ; or in ease to the pained, when in their paroxysms and
acutest agonies; or in comfort to the dejected, when under the gloom-
iest apprehensions, and most afflicting confusions ; or in relief to the
poor, when in the deepest distresses ; or in extinguishing the vio-
lence of flames, when the towns where she lived had been in the
greatest danger of being laid in ashes. In the last case, that of fire,
she always retired upon the first alarm, "being incapable," as she
used to say, " of giving any other assistance in that calamity than by
prayer." At other times she observes in her Diary how long she
waited for God's answers. " At such a time," she notes, " I prayed,
and at such a time God graciously heard my prayer; and concludes,
surely this was mercy worth praying and waiting for." She would
often remark the seasonableness of the divine mercies, and how
much better they were in God's time of giving them, than they
would have been at the first time of her asking them ; and some-
times she would very thankfully own the wisdom and goodness of God,
when in the result of things she found she had prayed for what had
not been honorable for God to give, and would have been hurtful to
herself or others to receive.
It is not to be told upon how many occasions she thus addressed
herself to God, or how often she opened the treasures of grace by
this key of prayer. It is most certain that an application to the
throne of mercy was her daily refuge, and her daily relief in every
distress. If she did not always obtain what she asked in temporals,
she owns she had an equivalent, or better, and God fully satisfied her
of the reasonableness of his denials. As to her trials and tempta-
tions, she acknowledges with great gratitude to God, " that she had
either present deliverances, or grace sufficient, for the most part, to
resist, and power at last to overcome."
The motto in her closet for many years, in Hebrew characters,
was, " Thou, God, seest me ;"* hereby plainly intimating her aw-
'*n Sk nnx *
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ful adoration of the omniscience of God, that her eye of faith
should be always upon him, and that she would ever act under the
influence of that persuasion, that God was present, whether in rea-
ding, prayer, meditation, self inquiry, or in recording the solemn
transactions that passed between him and her soul in her closet.
She had this motto always before hei\ that as often as she entered
into her closet, and as long as she continued there, and in every duty
she performed, it might be a memorial to her, that every sin, and folly
and instance of her departure from God, was perfectly known to him ;
that every penitent confession, tear, and groan, were in his sight,
and under his hearing ; and that every prayer, and purpose, and vow,
and solemn obligation made, and renewed, and ratified in her closet,
was sacred and awful, as under the eye and notice of an all seeing
and heart searching God. This motto, she often found, had greatly
restrained her from sin, had excited her to duty, had disposed her
for comfortable communion with God, and kept her from trifling in
the place of her sacred retirement.
For some of the last years of this exemplary Christian's life, she
found herself in a declining state, and was always wailing for her dis-
mission. The clearness of her thought, the vigor of her mind, and
the strength of her memory, continued to the last ; but, as she was
often oppressed with bodily infirmities, and had many wearisome
days and nights appointed her, she was the more desirous of entering
into her eternal rest. And now, after a course of such eminent pi-
ety, vigilant and daily preparation for death, and fervent desires for
her dismission from the body, let us attend her to her closing scene.
On the third of May, 1720, as she and Mr. Bury, her husband,
had just entered into a friend's house, where they were to have
dined, she was immediately struck with an exquisite pain in one of
her ears, which presently caused such a deafness, as to render her
unconversable : upon this she desired to withdraw, and went home.
Her deafness continuing, a pleuritic fever soon followed, and, after
that, a lethargy, which in part deprived her friends of that heavenly
discourse they promised themselves they should have heard from her
upon her death-bed.
In former illnesses, when she herself, and every one else, thought
her under the sentence of death, she was always so far above it,
though she was naturally of a very timorous spirit, that she triumphed
over it, and sang, " O death ! where is thy sting ? O grave ? where
is thy victory ? thanks be to God, who gives me the victory, through
our Lord Jesus Christ!"
In this, her last illness, she had the same steadfast faith and strong
consolations she had before experienced, but a more difficult passage
out of life than what was expected. It was concluded, by her lam-
entable groans for some days together, that her pains had been quite
exquisite ; but when she was asked concerning herself, she generally
answered, " I feel but little pain, only am restless." Her cold and
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excessive sweats continued for many hours together, and were not
more profuse in themselves, than affecting to others.
Though the nature of her distemper prevented her from speaking-
much, yet what she did speak was always rational and spiritual. Her
mind was, not only calm and sedate, but very placid and cheerful, as
oft as she awoke. — " O my God," said she, "I wait for thy salva-
tion ! — This day I hope to be with Christ in paradise.— The prom-
ises of God are all yea and amen in Christ Jesus ; and here my faith
lays hold, and here it keeps its hold."
On die 1 1th of May, she prayed her friends with much entreaty
to detain her no longer by their prayers but to resign up her soul to
God, " which," says Mr. Bury, " we did with as much earnestness
as ever we had asked her life before. Such are God's ways to
wean us from our dearest enjoyments in this world." About ten
o'clock that night the prisoner was released from all her bonds, and
obtained a glorious freedom. Her heaven-born soul took wing for
the realms of light, and was bid welcome into the joy of her Lord.
She had often made it her prayer to God that she might come off
honorably in her last encounter, so that neither religion might be dis-
credited, nor her friends discouraged by any thing that should then
be observed in her : and, as God had abundantly answered so many
of her prayers before, so he very graciously answered her in this re-
quest, for such were the free and lively exercises of her faith and
love, that they entirely triumphed over all fears, and carried her with
a full sail into the port of glory ; and to the great comfort of her sur-
viving friends she left this world at last " without either sigh, or groan,
and with " the pleasantest smile that was ever observed in her coun-
tenance before."
Mr. Bury, her husband, who drew up an account of her life, has
made a very large collection of excellent passages from her Diary.
We must content ourselves with only some few extracts from what
he has more diffusely communicated. To have published all that
he has given to the world from her private papers, would have taken
up more room in our volume than we could conveniently spare ;
and on the other hand, to have entirely passed over such divine me-
morials would have been withholding what may be both highly enter-
taining and edifying to our pious readers. We have thought proper
to select the following passages.
1690, Sept. 27. When I was nine or ten years old 1 first began
the work of self-examination, and begged the all-searching God to
try, and discover me to myself; and I think I may date my conver-
sion about that time.
I have kept an account of my trials of myself since 1670; and
though my undutiful, ungrateful returns have filled each examination
svith just and bitter complaints ; yet upon twenty years' review, to
the glory of free grace, I take it the case has stood thus with me :
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My judgment has esteemed God, even his holiness, the most desi-
rable good, and I would be a partaker of his holiness, whatever it
cost me, and I have generally been willing and thankful for the
smartest discipline in hope of that desired effect, and I would still
be more holy, though by sickness, pain, or any other affliction, hav-
ing always accounted sin the greatest evil, and now for many years
my bitterest affliction, though in some hurries I have not felt the
most sensible mournings for it.
As I have chosen God for my portion, so I stand by my choice,
and rejoice in it above all the world ; and, through his grace assist-
ing me, 1 resolve never to forsake him, though I die for it, which I
shall never do without extraordinary aids, having no natural courage.
I have chosen the path of God's precepts as the means to this end,
and have deliberately, entirely, and joyfully given myself to Jesus
Christ, the way, the truth and the life, and his love I prefer to all the
world ; and by many sweet, though too short experiences, I have
found his love lifting up my heart above all earthly enjoyments, and
sometimes making it joyful under pain and trouble, which has hinted
the power of his prevailing love, and made me hope it will cast out
fears, if he calls me to martyrdom.
My hope is in God through Christ ; and all 1 have I would part
with rather than his love, and the interest I hope I have in it.
My desires are after him above gold, health, friends, honor, &c.
I long to have fuller communion with Father, Son, and Holy Spirit
here, and the uninterrupted communion of heaven.
My sorrow and anger are usually most intense against sin, though
too violent torrents of them have been often spent on my sufferings.
My hands, feet, head, and heart, follow not as I would. My life
is stained and blotted with daily sins, yet God knows 1 loathe them.
I find daily defects in my duties, yet I have a respect to all God's
commandments. O wretched creature ! sin still dwells in me. I
cannot do the things I would, but I would upon any terms be rid of
sin. I sin daily, but I daily sorrow for, and hate sin, and fly to the
fountain opened, which alone can cleanse me.
I forsake and renounce the devil's dominion ; and as I have re-
ceived the Lord Jesus Christ, so I watch, and pray, and strive to
walk after his will, and holy example.
The world gets near me, and about me, and I am too ready to
follow and serve its pleasures and conveniences ; but it is more solid
joy to my soul to say " that Christ is mine," than to be able to say,
u this kingdom, this world, yea all that I ever loved, are mine."
My own righteousness I abhor. The best, the most perfect, the
most sincere service I ever did, or hope to do, gives me no hope of
acceptance but in and through Christ.
O Lord, Jehovah, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, thou art my por-
tion. Whatever this flesh would have, Lord, let me be thine at anv
rate. Truly I am, and would, and will be thy servant by choice
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and consent, whatever thou givest me, or whatever thou deniest me.
0 how bountifully has God dealt with me, while he has loved me
from death to life !
Lord Jesus ! thou art my way to the Father ; my only Mediator.
1 have accepted thee to teach and rule, as well as save my guilty
soul. I cry as loud for purifying as for pacifying grace. I am will-
ing to be kept from mine iniquity. I except no darling sin from
thine iron rod. I ask no mercy for it, nor would shew it any.
I approve and subscribe to all thy precepts, as holy, just, and good ;
as best for me at all times, and in all conditions. Let my heart be
searched, and I will love the word that searches it. I account thy
law my liberty. Thou hast drawn, and I have run. Thou hast
made thy word my love, delight, and study, and it is the sincere bent
of my life to keep it. O that I might keep it to the end !
1692, February 19. Ashamed, and sad in the consideration of
the- wonderful structure of my house of clay, inhabited by an immor-
tal spirit, capable of reflection, &tc. yet both so long utterly useless to
my Creator's glory, still so little answering the noble intentions to
which body and soul were most wisely and righteously directed, yet
adoring the divine bounty, pity, and patience, that pardon, adopt, and
sanctify such an unworthy creature, 1 resigned body and soul entirely
to him w7ho made them, begging a willing, happy dissolution.
1692, March 20. Faint, yet pursuing; dull, yet adoring; im-
pure, yet loathing; wandering, yet returning, going to the fountain
opened to be purified from all sin. O that this day may begin my
eternal Hallelujah !
1712, June 17, to July 9. In the evening (June 17,) about seven
or eight o'clock, I was seized with a violent rigor upon my nerves,
which lasted all night, and next morning a fever succeeded, which
so much affected my head, that I was incapable of directing those
about me what to do with me ; yet so graciously did God hear my
daily and last supplication in secret, that I was willing rather to de-
part, and be with Christ, and had not one cloud, doubt, or fear of
death, through the whole sickness. The disease appeared desperate,
and no hope of my life from human help remained. But my dear
relations ceased not to pray, and call on others to join ; and many,
from whom I expected not so great share of affection, were much
enlarged in prayer for me ; and the Lord was entreated to spare a
poor, sinful, unworthy, unprofitable creature, and say, Return ; while
strong men bowed under the same disease, and fell down slain,
though they had the same physicians, and had the same means used
for them as myself. So, Father, it has seemed good in thy sight !
Thy will be done ! But what shall I render, what shall 1 do ? I am
thankful for life. It is the gift of God. It is given in answer to
prayer. But, Lord, if 1 improve it not for thy glory, how sad shall I
be ? Thou knowest I had no desire to live but for better service ; and
shall I be called from a seeming abundant entrance into glory, again
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to struggle with flesh and blood, the world, and the devil, and not be
made more than conqueror through the Captain of my salvation ! O
Lord, on thee, through thy assistance, did I cast my sinful soul, and
diseased body, when I thought them parting asunder without any re-
luctant thought, and shall I distrust thy power or love in what thou
hast yet for me to do or suffer ? Strengthen my faith by this experience
of thy power and goodness, for the sake of Jesus whom thou hearest
always.
Such is the style of this lady's Diary. Large is the collection
which her husband has drawn from her Memoirs, and whence the
above extracts have been made ; but yet Mr. Bury says, so copious
is her Diary, " that it had been as easy to have collected many hun-
dreds more of such like passages from her original manuscripts,
would it not have swelled the volume he published concerning her
beyond common use. " We shall only observe, that the same vein
of piety and holiness, which flowed in such a full and strong current
for such a number of years, abated not in the last months and days
she spent on earth, but appears to have run on without interruption
till she entered into her Master's joy ; for thus she writes in the four
last months of her sojournment in our world :
1720, January 1 and 2. I ended the last, and began the present
year in the extremity of pain. After a long waking night, I could not
fix my mind on any thing with comfort till past four in the morning,
when I surrendered myself afresh to God, and begged healing for
my diseased soul. I rose at six in much pain, entreated God to
reconcile me to his discipline, and shew me wherefore he thus con-
tends with me. Not long after I had some ease, and was carried in
a chair to the house of God, where I gave thanks, and experienced
a joyful day. Lord, pity, and heal my soul, and prepare me for glo-
ry ! O make haste, my beloved, and end these days of sin and sorrow
to a poor distressed worm, that longs to be with thee !
1720, February 21. Sweet entertainments! How excellent is
thy loving-kindness, O Lord ! How gracious was thine assistance to
thine ambassador in public, and to a poor worm in family- worship !
1720, March 6. I went out and heard the sermon in great pain,
and renewed my solemn dedication to God, with firm resolution in
his strength to acquiesce in his all-wise discipline as best for me,
however grievous to my flesh. I returned in great torture, but with
submission to the rod, though its strokes are very sharp.
1720, April 18. The Lord has hitherto helped me under bodily
infirmities. I pray, and hope, and wait, for his gracious aids under
all my spiritual complaints and maladies. Thou, Lord, knowest my
hunger and thirst for more righteousness, and thou hast said I shall be
filled. (Matt. v. 6.) I rely on thee, O thou eternal Amen, and on thy
power, compassion, and faithfulness for what I want, and am longing for.
1720, May 1. (Two days before she was struck with her last
sickness.) While I looked inward I was overwhelmned with sorrow
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for the sad remainders of vain and evil thoughts, pride, selfishness,
&c. which damped my joy and praise. O Lord, accept my broken
heart, which thou hast said thou wouldst not despise. Teach me
better how to rejoice and mourn together, and give me victory over
my heart-sins.
The husband and biographer of this excellent gentlewoman ac-
quaints us, "that she wrote often to her intimate friends, and espe-
cially to such as wTere young, to persuade them of the reasonableness
and benefit of the great duties of religion — to warn them against the
temptations of their age and stations — to improve their education — to
excite them to an early and exemplary piety — to confute their cavils
— to impress upon them the obligation of their baptismal covenant —
to satisfy their spiritual doubts, and encourage their hopes in God,
and perseverance in their Christian course. The most of these,"
says Mr. Bury, " and the most considerable, are supposed to be in
the hands of such whom they immediately concerned. Some part
of the very few that are come to my knowledge since her death are
these that follow."
Out of this number we shall communicate only a part, and so con-
clude our Memoirs of this eminently pious Christian.
LETTER I.
To a Parent on the Death of a Child.
— I know your tender love to your children must make a wound
in your heart, when you lose any : but I hope grace and long experi-
ence of God's all-sufficiency, eternity, and the unchangeableness of
his love and covenant, are better to you than your own or children's
lives. The good assurance your daughter left behind her of her en-
tering into immortal glory, has set her above our pity ; and as to our-
selves, our short remaining moments here, and good hope through
grace of being very soon with all our departed perfected friends,
should greatly moderate our sorrows ; for why, for so short a time,
should we be so much concerned whether we meet them next on
earth, or in the heavenly mansions, since the last only can afford us
that joy and pleasure which are without alloy or mixture ? If to hear
that your children are well on earth rejoices you, why not to know
any of them are well, and can never be otherwise, in heaven?
LETTER II.
On the death of an intimate Friend.
— I came hither to close the eyes of my dear friend ; and since
she might shine no longer among sinful worms here, I bless God, who
brought me to her instructive death-bed, where faith, submission, pa-
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tience, and almost uninterrupted joy in breathing after her dear Re-
deemer, more than equalled all I ever saw in one who lay so long in
sight of the last ghastly enemy : and, though 1 cannot yet pray
against sudden death, yet her steadfast hope and glorious conquest
have given me more tolerable thoughts of languishing sickness, since
in her I saw that neither the strength of pain, nor weakness of the
patient, can hinder a triumphant exit, when God will make his joy
our strength.
LETTER III.
Directions how to instruct a Child.
— I am glad your brother can so prettily divert you. I wish
you wisdom and love to instruct him. Be very watchful of his con-
versation, and whatever you find faulty in him, shew him the evil of
it, rather than charge him with it, lest you put him upon lying to hide
his guilt. Let him see you love him before you chide him, and that
you are ready to conceal or excuse his tolerable faults. Be very fre-
quent, but not tedious, in your instructions. Often open the nature,
and inculcate the necessity, of prayer for all we want, and the en-
couraging promises of God that he will hear us. Lisp to your broth-
er, in his own language, what he prays for by his form, and labor to
excite in him a sense of his sad state by sin, greater desires after
grace, and fuller resolutions and endeavors after the life and power
of godliness. Let some part of his catechism be daily recited, and
what he most imperfectly repeats, be said at his going to sleep, and
at his first waking. Talk over the sermons you hear together in lan-
guage adapted to his capacity, and fail not to beg of God a blessing
upon all your labors, or else you will do little to the purpose. If God
makes you instrumental in the conversion of your brothers and sisters,
it will be a great honor and comfort, and produce the strongest un-
ion among you. Take special care of them who are in the greatest
danger. Imitate your godly, impartial mother, who, though she lov-
ed all her children alike, yet would often say, " U she knew to which
child she had conveyed most of her sinful nature, she would pity and
endeavor the help of that child most." —
LETTER IV.
Cautions to a friend about marrying.
— It is very odd, when you ask my opinion in the matter propo-
sed, that you only give me an account of the gentleman's circum-
stances, and not of his character. So far as I know, 1 must freely
own that I fear the estate is loo great, and likely to prove a snare to
you. Bishop Hall affirms, "that riches have made many worse, but
never any better." I hope you would rather choose to be better than
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richer, and that you will never be biassed by an estate to an indiffer-
ent choice. You know I have ever cautioned you, and I must cau-
tion you still, against too great a fondness for wealth. Alas ! should
you have it, how many things may embitter it to you ! Should you
have a churlish Nabal, and you could only behold your riches with
your eyes, and not be suffered to do any good with them, how uneasy
would that be to your charitable, generous mind ! Or should your
partner's temper be good, yet, if debts, or provision for younger chil-
dren, should cripple a man's estate, it is but the name, and not the
thing which you enjoy. But if neither of these disagreeables should
happen, yet may not worse ? Supposing there is no piety, no warm
devotion in your husband, but an aversion against your attendance on
private altars, where you found more than all this world can afford
you, what perplexity are you then tied to for life ! I know what troub-
les you have met with ; but might you not, by avoiding present,
plunge yourself into future difficulties ? It is better to be in distresses by
necessity than by choice. What evil God inflicts is easier borne than
that which we bring upon ourselves. Let me entreat you to moder-
ate your desires after worldly grandeur. Pardon my freedom. If
I am apt to be too jealous of you, it is because I love you. —
LETTER V.
On the Death of a good Lady and Friend.
— I am heartily concerned for my own, and for the country's loss of
that excellent lady, and condole with you especially who had the honor
of her friendship, I believe as much as could consist with the ine-
quality of your stations in this world ; and that the goodness of the de-
ceased levelled more than is usual even in pious ladies. A friend,
wise, godly, compassionate, secret, &c, is a rarity while it is enjoy-
ed, and a loss seldom repaired in this world. But O what a friend is
our dear Redeemer ! He is not limited to one, or a few, like our con-
tracted minds, but condescends to the titles and offices of a friend to
all his faithful followers. I am thankful for the tastes of his goodness
in creature-friendship ; but in its utmost perfection it is but a faint
shadow of that which is divine, and what I find in my eternal lover
and friend the Lord Jesus Christ, whose friendship has not the dis-
paragement which all creature-enjoyments have, of being but a short
and uncertain pleasure. —
LETTER VI.
Unon the death of a Sister,
I thought I could with less discomposure have parted with a sister
than I find 1 can. I hoped that death would not have begun at the
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wrong end of the register book ; but they are seniors in the best sense,
who have soonest done their work, and are first fit for glory. Though
I could not have parted with a sister without tears to any distant
country upon earth, though it had been to her advantage, yet reason
would have blamed, and soon overcome such a fond and foolish pas-
sion: and surely religion then should not only do no less, but even more,
when my sister is in a far higher and happier preferment than all this
world can pretend to offer. Our all-wise Creator first formed our
bodies, and then inspired them, and when he is pleased to dissolve
the compositum, it is not that either of the constituent parts should be
destroyed : but the dissolution, as to the righteous, with regard to their
souls is immediate glory ; and with regard to their bodies, but a refi-
ning in order to a reunion. The forsaken mansion is indeed a mel-
ancholy object, and it is very affecting to close the dear eyes that
were wont to delight us with their silent rhetoric : but we more than
water the body sown in dust, while we dim our prospect of the glo-
ry of our friends who have died in the Lord. Why should I wish
the soul in this body still, merely to say I have a sister in such a place ?
What if heaven, where she is, is farther off? I am sure, as that is more
suitable, so it ought to be nearer to my immortal part ; and may I not
still have communion with her, and the glorious company she keeps,
by loving, praising, admiring, and adoring the same God, though I am
yet on earth ? May I not rejoice in the thoughts of meeting her among
the spirits of the just made perfect ? Surely they have more courage,
better success, or less difficulty, than I, who can wish the spiritual
war protracted. — But she has passed the pikes. O happy soul ! her
body indeed is sown in corruption, it cannot defend itself from worms,
and is at present putrifying and loathsome, but it will not always be
so. If the innate desires of reunion could not persuade me of a res-
urrection, yet the infallible word of God has assured me of it, and
that it shall arise, not as it was sown, a natural and sluggish body,
but agile and sprightly, and fit to serve its superior and vigorous soul.
It is a pleasure to me sometimes to think of the lustre and activity of
glorified bodies, which rest not either day or night, nor suffer any de-
cays, imperfections, pauses, or interruptions in their high and happy
employments, but the greatest pleasure of all is to think of being for-
ever with the Lord. —
LETTER VII.
To a friend under great Afflictions and spiritual Fears.
— I cannot forget my promises of praying for you, and writing to
you. I daily attempt the one, and wish I could perform it better;
and as to the other, I should be glad if my pen could assist your
faith and patience under the smarting rod of, I hope I may say, your
heavenly Father ; for so it may be, though accompanied with angry
frowns. It is true afflictions in themselves cannot be proofs of son-
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ship ; but we are fully assured by the sacred Sriptures, that the sor-
est trials are very consistent with that privilege. The experience of
many of God's favorites confirms it. All the promises of support
under, benefit by, and deliverance from such troubles, suppose it ;
yet our souls are too apt to misconstrue fatherly chastisements for the
revenges of an enemy, or to think there is more anger than love in
them, and to murmur that they are so long and heavy. But the all-
wise Father of spirits cannot mistake in measuring, timing, and ap-
pointing his methods of healing souls. If guilt makes you fear his
wrath rather than taste his love in your afflictions, you should cast
your guilty soul upon him for promised rest, and may be well assured
that God will not exact the debt from the offender and the surety too.
Fly daily to that refuge, that sure hope, that justifying righteousness,
and then you will find no fury in God, how grievous soever your af-
flictions are. You have liberty to pray for pity and help as well as
David, who, when he had aching bones, had a sense of guilt also,
even of scandalous sins. If your own, or the cries of others for you
seem to be yet unheard, it might be our mistake to urge for present
ease without a due respect to future cure. Sin is the worst disease ;
its cure is to be sought, though by the roughest methods. The chil-
dren of God are agreed in this, and yet can scarce submit the means
to the infallible Physician. Though we can trust a surgeon to apply
a caustic, though oUapis infernalis, and let it lie his lime, if there be
any hope of a cure ; yet how hardly can we submit, on higher reason,
surer hope, or happier experience, to him, whose word of truth as-
sures us that every thing he does shall do us good, and both purge
away our sins, and make us partakers of his holiness ! I must confess
these lines upbraid my own foolish choice oftentimes for myself and
friends, but I pray and wait for better submission to the heaviest
strokes, either on myself or them. —
LETTER VIII.
Various Dispensations of Providence argued and justified.
— I have been long your debtor for a very kind and comfortable
letter, which came seasonably to hand, as I was groaning under great
pain, and sympathizing with others in bitter affliction. Since then, I
bless God, [ have seen brighter days ; but clouds have returned aft-
er rain upon others ; and may not all this, put together, commend
the variegated dispensations of Providence ? Had all our days been
halcyon, would they have been so safe or useful ? Had all been sa-
ble, how disconsolate ! Were all the children in equal smart under
the rod together, we should be too ready to make some unworthy re-
flections on the all-wise discipline. Were not all alternately so, we
should be ready to suspect their sonship. O the depth of wisdom,
that poor shallow mortals can never fathom ! Yet how proud and
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)eevish are we when any thing is denied, at our own time, which we
ancy to be good for us ! Had I been always well and at ease, how
shill a sympathy should I have had with the dear afflicted members
)f Christ 1 Had you never been so, I had wanted your experimental
consolations. Now if the brief hints of this beautiful variety in the
lispensations of Providence can afford us such pleasure here, how
)right and glorious, how sweet and ravishing will they appear when
infolded in eternal glory ! And why should I be impatient of, or fear
he darkest scene that shall end in the brightest glory ? Yet with
>hame and sorrow I confess the fear of what I may feel has been as
ifflictive to me as most I have felt, yea, when I have found a good
iope of an interest in God, and after a thousand experiences of his
lever-failing compassions confuting my guilty fears. This childish,
>r rather unchildlike distemper, I think increases with years, and is
Dartly occasioned by frequent and close converse with many of my
superiors in grace under bitter afflictions living and dying ; and when
[ see what is done to the green trees, I am apt to run into an excess
}f fear what shall be done to the dry. Fain would I cherish an aw-
ful, while I subdue a slavish fear ; but this I cannot do of myself,
md therefore beg it of the God of all grace, in which I crave your
assistance.
Such are the threads (the above extracts of her Diary and Let-
ters) of the mantle Mrs. Bury left behind her, when her spirit as-
cended to the celestial glory : how rich and heavenly its texture, our
readers will judge.
We add a few lines of a Poem, which Dr. Watts wrote on the oc-
casion.
She must ascend : her treasure lies on high,
And there her heart is. Bear her through the sky
On wings of harmony, ye sons of light,
And with surrounding shields protect her flight ;
Teach her the wond'rous songs yourselves compose
For your bright world ; she'll learn them as she goes ;
The sense was known before ; those sacred themes
The God, the Savior, and the flowing streams,
That ting'd the cursed tree with blood divine,
Purchas'd a heaven, and wash'd a world from sin :
The beams, the bliss, the visions of that place,
Where the whole Godhead shines in mildest grace,
These are the notes for which your harps are strung, .
These were the joy and labor of her tongue
In our Dark regions ; these exalted strains
Brought Paradise to earth, and sooth'd her pains.
Souls made of pious harmony and love
Can be no strangers to their work above.
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But ne'er shall words, or lines, or colors paint
Th' immortal passions of the expiring saint.
What beams of joy, angelic airs, arise
O'er her pale cheeks, and sparkle in her eyes,
In that dark hour ! how all serene she lay
Beneath the openings of celestial day !
Her soul retires from sense, refines from sin,
While the descending glory wrought within,
Then in a sacred calm resign'd her breath,
And, as her eye-lids clos'd, she smil'd in death.
O may some pious friend, who weeping stands
Near my last pillow with uplifted hands,
Or wipes the mortal dew from off my face,
Witness such triumphs in my soul, and trace
The dawn of glory in my dying mien,
While on my lifeless lips such heavenly smiles are seen !
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QUEEN MARY II.
MARY, QUEEN OF GREAT BRITAIN, WIFE OF KING WILLIAM THE THIRD.
She was the daughter of James, Duke of York, afterwards King
James the Second, and the Lady Anne Hyde, daughter of the Earl
of Clarendon. They were privately married at Worcester House,
September 5, 1660, by Dr. Joseph Crowcher, the duke's chaplain.
She was born April, 30, 1662, and in the sixteenth year of her
age was married at St. James's, November 4, 1677, to William,
Prince of Orange, afterwards King William the Third.
She appeared to be most happily disposed from her very birth.
She was good and gentle, before she was capable of knowing that it
was her duty to be so. This temper grew up with her in the whole
progress of her childhood. She might need instruction, but she wan-
ted no persuasion. And it is said, that she never once in the whole
course of her education gave any occasion to reprove her. She
went into every thing that was good, often before she knew it, and
always after she once understood it.
She was but growing out of childhood when she went among
strangers, and removed from her own country to Holland ; but she
went under the guard of so exact a conduct, and so much discretion,
she expressed such a gentleness, access to her was so easy, and her
deportment was so obliging, her life was such an example, and her
charity was so free, that perhaps no age could furnish a parallel.
Never were there such universal love and esteem paid to any as she
received from persons of all ranks and conditions in the United Prov-
inces. They were like transport and rapture. The veneration was
so profound, that, how just soever it might be, it seemed rather ex-
cessive. Neither her foreign birth, nor regal extraction, neither the
diversity of interests or opinions, nor her want of power and treasure
equal to her bounty, diminished the respect that was offered her,
even from a people, whose constitution gave them naturally a jeal-
ousy of too great a merit in those who are at the head of their gov-
ernment.
It may well be considered as a very happy event, not only to our
country, but to Christendom itself, that the princess did not imbibe
the popish religion, the religion sooner or later in life both of her fa-
ther and her mother. She was a protestant upon principle ; and
when her father, then upon the throne of Great Britain, wrote her a
letter in favor of popery, she returned him an answer, drawn up by
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herself, to the following purport. " She acquainted him, that she
had taken much pains to be settled in religion ; that those of the
Church of England who had instructed her, had freely laid before
her that which was good in the Romish religion, that so, seeing the
good and bad of both, she might judge impartially, according to
the apostle's rule of proving all things and holding fast that which
was good ; that though she had come young out of England, yet
that she had not left behind her either the desire of being well in-
formed, or the means for it ; that she had furnished herself with
books, and had those about her who might clear any doubts to her ;
that she saw clearly in the Scriptures that she must work out her own
salvation with fear and trembling, and that she must not believe by
the faith of another, but according as things appeared to herself;
that it ought to be no prejudice against the Reformation, if many of
them who professed led ill lives ; and if any of them lived ill, none
of the principles of their religion allowed them in it ; that many of
them led good lives, and that more might do it by the grace of God,
but that there were many devotions in the Church of Rome, on which
the Reformed could set no value. She acknowledged, that, if there
was an infallibility in the church, all other controversies must fall to
the ground ; but that she could never yet be informed where that infalli-
bility was lodged, whether in the pope alone, or in a general council,
or in both ; and she desired to know in whom the infallibility rested,
when there were two or three popes at a time acting one against
another with the assistance of councils, which they called general ;
for at least the succession was then much disordered. She observ-
ed, that as for the authority that is pretended to be given to St. Peter
over the rest, that, that place which was chiefly alleged for it,* was
otherwise interpreted by those of the Church of England, as importing
only the confirmation of an apostle, when in answer to that question,
' Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me?' He had by a triple confession
washed off his triple denial ; that the words which the king had cited
were spoken to (concerning) the other apostles, as well as to him;f
that it was agreed by all, that the apostles were infallible, who were
guided by God's Holy Spirit, but that, that gift, as well as many
others, had ceased long ago ; that St. Peter had no authority over
the rest of the apostles, or otherwise St. Paul, understood our Lord's
words ill, who withstood St. Peter to his face, because he was
to be blamed ; and she further took notice, that if St. Peter himself
could not maintain that authority, she could not see how it could be
given to his successors, whose bad lives had ill agreed with his doc-
trine. She also alleged, that she did not see why the ill use that
some made of the Scriptures ought to deprive others of them ; that
it was true that all sects made use of them, and found something in
Matt. xvi. IS. { Acts, xv. 28.
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them which they drew out to support their opinions, and yet, that
for all this our Savior bade the Jews search the Scriptures ; and that
St. Paul ordered his epistles to be read to all the saints in the chur-
ches, and that in one place he says, ' I write as to wise men, judge
what I say ;' and if they might judge an apostle, much more any
other teacher. She likewise observed, ' that under the law of Mo-
ses the Old Testament was to be read not only in the hearing of the
scribes and the doctors of the law, but likewise in the hearing of the
women and children ; and that, since God had made us reasonable
creatures, it seemed necessary to employ our reason chiefly in the
matters of the greatest concern ; that, though faith was above our
reason, yet that it proposed nothing to us that was contradictory to
it ; that every one ought to satisfy himself in these things, as our Sa-
vior convinced Thomas, by making him thrust his own hand into the
print of the nails, not leaving him to the testimony of the other
apostles, who were already convinced. She added, that she was
confident that, if the king would hear many of his own subjects,
they would fully satisfy him as to all those prejudices that he had
against the Reformation, in which nothing was acted tumultuously,
but all was done according to law ; that the design of it was only to
separate from the Romish Church, so far as it had separated from
the primitive church, in which the Reformers had brought things to
as great a perfection as those corrupt ages were capable of.
" Thus, she concluded, she gave him the trouble of a long ac-
count of the grounds upon which she was persuaded of the truth of
her religion, in which she was so fully satisfied, that she trusted, by
the grace of God, that she should spend the rest of her days in it,
and that she was so well assured of the truth of our Savior's words,
that she was confident the gates of hell should not prevail against it,
but that he would be with it to the end of the world. All ended
thus, that the religion she professed taught her, her duty to him, so that
she should ever be his most obedient daughter and servant." Bishop
Burnet tells us, that he set down very minutely every particular that
was in those letters, that of the king, and this of the princess, and
very nearly in the same words ; and adds, " That he had an high
opinion of the princess' good understanding, and of her knowledge
in these matters before he saw this letter, but that the letter surprised
him, and gave him an astonishing joy, to see so young a person, all
on the sudden, without consulting any one person, to be able to write
so solid and learned a letter, in which she mixed with the respect
which she had paid her father, so great a firmness, that by it she cut
off all further treaty ; so that her repulsing the attack that the king
had made upon her with so much resolution and force, let the popish
party see that she understood her religion as well as loved it."*
Burnet's History of his Own Time, Vol. II. p. 411—414. edit, of 1815.
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After the princess had lived several years in Holland, the orna-
ment of her sex and station, upon the wonderful success of her hus-
band the Prince of Orange, in his great enterprise to rescue our
country from popery and slavery, both which were endeavored with
his utmost power by James the Second her father, she ascended the
throne of these realms in conjunction with her husband, at the joint
invitation of both houses of parliament ; and they were accordingly
proclaimed king and queen, February 13, 1668, to the great joy of
the nation.
In this step of hers, that might carry a face, which at first appear-
ance seemed liable to censure, as her father was now king no more,
and herself and husband reigned in his room, she weighed the rea-
sons on which she went, with a caution and exactness that well be-
came the importance of them, the bias lying still against that which,
to vulgar minds, seemed to be her interest. She was convinced that
the public good of mankind, the preservation of that religion which
she was assured was the only true one, and those real extremities to
which matters were driven, ought to supersede all other considera-
tions. She had generous ideas of the liberty of human nature, and
of the true ends of government; she thought it was designed to make
mankind safe and happy, and not to raise the power of those into
hands it was committed upon the ruins of property and liberty ; nor
could she think that religion was to be delivered up to the humors of
misguided princes, whose persuasion made them as cruel in imposing
on their subjects the dictates of others, as they themselves were im-
plicit in submitting to them ; but yet, after all, her inclinations lay so
strong to the duty, that of honoring her father, which nature had put
upon her, that she made a sacrifice of herself in accepting that high
elevation of being queen of these realms, that perhaps was harder to
her to bear than if she had been to be made a sacrifice in the severest
sense. She saw that not only her own reputation might be eclipsed
by her taking the throne, but that religion too might suffer in those
reproaches which she must expect. These considerations were much
more with her than crowns with all the lustres that adorn them ; but
yet the saving whole nations determined her in the matter, as her ac-
ceptance of the royal dignity was the only visible means left to pre-
serve the Protestant Religion, not only in Great Britain, but every
where beside.
Though her mind discovered no tincture of enthusiasm, yet she
could not avoid thinking that her preservation during her childhood
in that flexibility of age and understanding, without so much as one
single attempt made upon her, was to be ascribed to a special Provi-
dence watching over her. To this she added her early deliverance
from the danger of all temptations, and the advantages she enjoyed af-
terwards to employ much privacy in so large a course of study, which
had not been possible for her to have attained, if she had lived in the
constant dissipation of a public court. These things concurring, con-
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vinced her that God had conducted her by an immediate hand, and
that she was raised up to preserve that religion which was then every
where in its last agonies; but yet when these and many other conside-
rations, to which she had carefully attended, determined her to take
the throne, nature still felt itself loaded. She bore her elevation with
the outward appearances of satisfaction, because she thought it became
her not to discourage others, or give them an occasion to believe that
her uneasiness was of another nature than it really was, but in the
whole matter she put a constraint upon herself, that is, upon her tem-
per, (for no consideration whatsoever could have induced her to have
forced her conscience,) that was more sensible and violent to her
than any thing that could have been wished her by her most virulent
enemies.
Her sense of religion and duty not only operated in this great
step of life, of such moment to herself, and benefit to the world, but
the whole of her character and behavior abundantly evinced what an
extraordinary piety and virtue possessed her soul. Her punctual
exactness not only to public offices, but to her secret retirements, was
so regular, that it was never put off in the greatest crowd of business,
or little journeys ; for then, though the hour was anticipated, the duty
was never neglected. She took care to be so early on these occa-
sions, that she might never either quite forget, or very much shorten
that devotion upon which she reckoned that the blessings of the
whole day turned. She observed the Lord's day so religiously, that,
besides her hours of retirement, she was constantly thrice a day in
the public worship of God, and for a great part of the year four times
a day, while she lived beyond sea. She was constant to her month-
ly attendances at the Sacrament of the Lord's Supper, and withdrew
herself more than ordinary in preparation for some days before them.
In them, as well as in all the other parts of the worship of God, an
uncommon seriousness ever appeared in her, without one glance al-
lowed for observation. She spread a spirit of devotion among all
who were about her, who could not see so much in her without being
affected in something of the same manner themselves, though few
attained to such a steady application as they beheld in her. In her
demeanor in the house of God there was nothing theatrical, nothing
given to show. Every thing was sincere as well as solemn, and gen-
uine as well as majestic.
Her attention to sermons was so entire, that as her eye never wan-
dered from a good preacher, so she discovered no weariness at an
indifferent one. When she was asked, how she could be so atten-
tive to some sermons that fell remarkably below perfection, she would
answer, " that she thought it did not become her by any part of her
behavior to discourage, or so much as seem to dislike one, who was
doing his best." The hardest censure that she passed upon the poor-
est preachers was to say nothing to their advantage, for she never
withheld her commendations from any who deserved them. She
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was not content to be devout herself, but she strove to infuse the
same temper into all who came near her, and chiefly into those whom
she took into her more immediate care, whom she studied to form to
religion with all the love and watchfulness of a mother. She charm-
ed them with her instructions, and won them with her kindness.
Never was mistress both feared and loved so entirely as she was.
She dispersed good books of instruction to all who were around her,
and gave frequent orders that they should be laid in places of attend-
ance, that such as waited might not be condemned to idleness, but
might profitably entertain themselves, while they were in their turns
of service.
The raising the reputation and authority of the clergy, as the chief
mean for advancing religion, was that to which she intended to apply
herself with the utmost diligence. She knew that the only true way
to secure this point was to engage them to be exemplary in their lives,
and abundant in their labors, to watch over their flocks, and to edify
them by good preaching and diligent catechising. She was resolved
to have the whole nation understand, that by these methods only, di-
vines were to be recommended to favor and preferment. She made
it visible that the steps were to be made by merit, and not by friend-
ship and importunity. She charged those whom she trusted most in
such matters to look out for the best men, and the best preachers,
that they might be made known to her. She was under a real anxi-
ety when church preferments, especially such as were most eminent,
were to be disposed of. She reckoned that the disposition of them
was one of the main branches of her care. When she apprehended
that friendship might give a bias to those whom she allowed to speak
to her on those heads, she told them of it with the authority that be-
came her, and which they well deserved. She could deny the most
earnest solicitations with a true firmness, when she thought the per-
son for whom they were made did not merit them, for desert was
superior with her to all other considerations. But when she denied
applications of this sort, she did it with so much softness, and upon
such good reason, that they who might be mortified by the repulse,
were yet obliged to confess that she was in the right, even at the
time, for the sake of a friend, they wished for once she had been in
the wrong.
It grieved her to hear in what a condition many of the churches
in England were, which were sunk into such extreme poverty, that
it was scarce possible, even by the help of a plurality, to find a sub-
sistence in them. She had formed a design to bring them all to a
just state of plenty, and to afford a due encouragement to ministers
among them. But pluralities and non-residence, when not enforced
by real necessity, were so odious to her, that she determined, to
throw such perpetual disgraces upon them, as should oblige all per-
sons to let go the hold they had gotten of these cures of souls, over
whom they did not watch, and among whom they did not labor. In
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a full discourse upon this very subject, the day before she was seized
with her fatal disease, she said, "She had no great hopes of rectify-
ing matters, but that she was resolved to go on, and never suffer her-
self to be discouraged, or lose heart. She would still try what could
be done, and pursue her design, how slow, or insensible soever the
progress might be."
No intimation was ever let fall before her in any discourse that
offered a probable mean of reformation which was lost by her, and
she would call upon persons to turn the motion over and over again,
till she had formed her own thoughts concerning it. It was amazing
to see how well she understood such matters, and how zealous she
was in promoting them.
She rightly judged, that the true end of power, and the best ex-
ercise of it, was to do good, and to make the world the better for it.
She often said, that she found nothing in it to make it supportable,
not to say pleasant, besides that consideration ; and she wondered
that the true pleasure which accompanied it did not engage princes
to pursue it more effectually. Without this she thought that a pri-
vate life with moderate circumstances, was the happier as well as
safer state. When reflections were once made before her of the
sharpness of some historians, who had left very dishonorable imputa-
tions on the memory of some princes, she answered, "That if those
princes were truly such as their historians represented them, they had
well deserved that treatment; and that others who tread in their steps
might look for the same, for that truth would be told at last, and that
with the more severity of style for being so long restrained. She
observed, that it was a gentle suffering for such princes to be exposed
to the world in their true colors, much below what others had suffered
at their hands. She thought that all such sovereigns ought to read
Procopius;* for how much soever he may have aggravated matters,
and how unbecomingly soever he may have written, yet by such
books they might see what would be probably said of themselves,
when all terrors and restraints should fall off with their lives." She
encouraged those whom she admitted to frequent access, to lay be-
fore her all the occasions of doing good that might occur to their
thoughts and was always well pleased when new opportunities were
offered to her, in which she might exercise that which was the most
esteemed by her of all her prerogatives. So desirous was she to
know both how to correct what might be amiss, and to promote
every good design, that she not only allowed of great freedom in
bringing propositions of that kind to her, but she charged the con-
sciences of some with a command to keep nothing of that nature
from her, which they thought she ought to be acquainted with. Nor
were such motions ever unacceptable to her, even when circumstan-
ces made it impossible for her to put them in execution.
* An historian who flourished Anno Doin. 530.
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She was the delight of all who knew her, by the obliging tender-
ness with which she treated all those who came near her. She
made the afflictions of the unhappy easier to them, by the share she
took in them, and the necessities of the miserable the more Support-
able, by the relief she gave them. She was tender of those who
deserved her favor, and compassionate to those who wanted her pity.
It was easy for her to reward, for all sorts of bounty came readily
from her hands ; but it was hard for her to punish, except when the
nature of the crime made mercy become a cruelty, and then she was
inflexible not only to importunity, but to the tenderness of her own
disposition.
Her bounty and her compassion had great matter given them upon
which to exert themselves. And how wide soever her sphere may
have been, she rather went beyond than confined herself within it.
Those worthy confessors and exiles, whom the persecution of France
sent over hither, as well as to the United Provinces, felt the tender-
ness as well as the munificence of the welcome she gave them. The
confusions of Ireland drove over multitudes of all ranks, who fled
hither for shelter, and were soon reduced to great straits from a state
of as great plenty. Most of these, by her means, were both sup-
ported during their stay, and enabled to return home after the storm
was over. The largeness of the supplies that were given, and the
tender manner of giving them, made their exile both the shorter and
the more tolerable. The miserable among ourselves, particularly
those who suffered by the accidents of war, found a relief in her
that was easily obtained, and was copiously furnished. She would
never limit any from laying proper objects for her charity in her way,
nor confine that care to the ministers who were her almoners. She
encouraged all about her, or who had free access to her, to acquaint
her with the necessities under which persons of true merit might lan-
guish. And she never was uneasy at applications of that kind, nor
was her hand ever scanty, when the person was worthy, or the ex-
tremity great. She was regular and exact in this her bounty. She
found that even a royal treasure, though dispensed by an hand that
was yet more royal, could not answer all demands; for which reason
she took care to have a just account both of the worthiness and the
necessities of those who were candidates for her liberality, and in
the conducting of her charity shewed as great an exactness, and as
attentive a regard, as much memory, and as much diligence, as if she
had no cares of a higher nature lying upon her. But what crowned
all, was her exact conformity to the rule of the gospel in her munifi-
cence, so that none knew to whom, or what she gave, but those whom
she was forced to employ in the communication of her bounty.
When it was to fall on persons who had access to her, her own hand
was the conveyance. What went through other hands was charged
on them with an injunction of secrecy; and she herself was so far
from speaking of her charities, that, when some persons were men-
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tioned as objects, who had been already named by others, and re-
lieved by herself, she would not let those who spake to her under-
stand any thing that had been done ; but either she let the matter
pass over in silence, or, if the necessity was represented as heavier
than she had apprehended it, a new supply was given without so
much as an hint of what had gone before.
The piety of this excellent person, as it was a noble support to her
under some kinds of trouble, so it gave the sharper edge to others.
The deep sense she had of the judgments that seemed to be hang-
ing over the nation, often broke out in many sad strains to those to
whom she gave a free vent to her thoughts. The impieties and blas-
phemies, the open contempt of religion, and the scorn of virtue,
which she heard of from so many hands, and in so many different
parts of the nation, gave her a secret horror, and presented her with
such a black prospect, as filled her with melancholy reflections.
She was the more sensibly touched, when at any time she heard that
some, who pretended to much zeal for the Crown and the Revolu-
tion, seemed thence to think they had some sort of right to be indul-
ged in their licentiousness and irregularities. She often said, "Can
a blessing be expected from such hands, or on any thing that must
pass through them ?" She longed to see a set of men of uprightness
and probity, of generous tempers, and public spirits, in whose hands
the concerns of the crown and people might be lodged with reason-
able hopes of success, and a blessing from heaven on their services.
She had a just esteem of all persons whom she found truly religious
and virtuous ; nor could any other considerations weigh much with
her, when these excellencies were not to be found. Next to open
impiety, the want of heat and life in those who pretended to religion^
and the deadness and disunion of the protestants in general, very
sensibly affected her; and she often said, with feeling and cutting
regret, " Can such dry bones live ?" When she heard what crying
sins abounded in our fleets and armies, she gave such directions as
seemed practicable, to those who she thought might in some meas-
ure correct them ; and she gave some in very eminent stations to un-
derstand, that nothing could both gratify, and even oblige her more,
than that care should be taken to stop those growing disorders, and
to reduce things to the seriousness and sobriety of former times. The
last great project that her thoughts were working upon, with relation
to a noble and royal provision for maimed and decayed seamen, was
particularly designed to be so constituted, as to put them in a proba-
ble way of concluding their days in the fear of God. It gave her a
sensible concern to hear that Ireland was scarce emerged from its
abyss of miseries, before it was returning to the levities, and even to
the abominations of former times. She took particular methods to
be well informed of the state of our plantations, and of those colonies
that we have among infidels. But it was no small grief to her to
hear, that those colonies were but too generally a reproach to the re-
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ligion by which they were named. She gave a willing ear to a prop-
osition that was made for erecting schools, and the founding of a col-
lege among them. She considered the whole scheme of it, and the
endowment which was desired for it. It was a noble one, and was
to rise out of some branches of the revenue, which made it liable to
objections : but she took care to consider the whole matter so well,
that she herself answered all objections, and espoused it with such
an affectionate concern, that she digested and prepared it for the
king ; and as she knew how large a share of zeal his majesty had for
good projects, she took care also to give him the largest share of the
honor of them ; nor, indeed, could any thing inflame her more than
the prospect of advancing religion, especially where there were hopes
of working upon infidels.
Her concern and charity were not limited to that which might
seem to be her peculiar province, and was more especially put un-
der her care. The foreign churches had also a liberal share of her
regard and munificence. She was not insensible of the kindness of
the Dutch. She remembered it always with a tender gratitude, and
was heartily touched with their interests. The refugees of France
were considered by her as those whom God had sent to sit safe un-
der her shadow, and to be made easy through her favor. Those
scattered remains of our protestant brethren, that had been hunted
out of their vallies in Piedmont, were again brought together by their
majesties' means. It was the king's powerful intercession that re-
stored them to their seats as well as to their edicts ; and it was the
queen's charity that formed them into bodies, and opened the way
for their enjoying those advantages, and transmitting them down to
succeeding ages. She took care also for preserving the little that
was left of the Bohemian churches. She formed nurseries of reli-
gion in some of those parts of Germany which were exhausted by
war, and were disabled from carrying on the education of their youth,
that they might secure to the next age the faith which they themselves
professed.
If we consider the subject of our memoirs more particularly as a
queen, and sometimes at the head of government, we shall be struck
with admiration, and shall behold her on a summit of greatness, in
which she appeared with the highest glory to herself, and the great-
est benefit to her people. She was punctual to her hours, patient in
her audiences, gentle in commanding, prudent in speaking, cautious
in promising, soft in reprehending, ready in rewarding, and diligent
in ordering, and she had an ear open to all that was suggested to her.
That there might be a fulness of leisure for every thing, the day was
early begun. Nothing was done in haste. There were no appear-
ances of hurry or impatience. Her devotions, both private and pub-
lic, were not shortened, and yet she found time enough for keeping
up the cheerfulness of a court, and the admission of all persons to
her, whom it was proper for her to receive. She was not so entirely
possessed by the greatest cares that she forgot the smallest.
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If any thing was ever found in her that might seem to fall too low,
it was that her humility and modesty really depressed her too much
in her own eyes, and that she might too soon he made to think that
the reasons which were offered to her hy others were better than her
own. But this diffidence only took place in those matters in which
the want of practice might make a modest distrust seem more reason-
able, and when she saw nothing in what was before in which con-
science had any share, for whensoever that appeared, she was firm
and immoveable.
Her administration of public affairs had a peculiar felicity attend-
ing it. There was something in her that disarmed many of her ene-
mies. When they came near her, they were soon conquered by her ;
while the wisdom and secrecy of her conduct defeated the designs of
such of her adversaries as were restless and implacable. The na-
tion seemed once, while she was at the helm, to be much exposed.
Unprosperous events at sea afforded the French the appearance of a
triumph. They lay along the British coasts, and were sometime
masters of the British seas. But a secret guard seemed to environ
our country. All the harm our enemies did us, except in one in-
stance of barbarity,* which might shew what our general treatment
might probably have been, if we had become their prey, was
but small, and seemed rather permitted by Heaven to unite the na-
tion against them. The people lost no courage by it. Their zeal
was the more inflamed. This was the queen's first essay of govern-
ment ; in which she, who upon ordinary occasions was not out of
countenance to own a fear that did not misbecome her, now, when a
visible danger threatened her, shewed a firmness of mind, and com-
posure of behavior, that made even men of the greatest courage
ashamed of themselves. She covered the inward apprehensions she
had, with such an equality of conduct, that she seemed afraid of
nothing, when she had reason to fear the worst that could happen.
She was resolved, if things should have proceeded to extremities, to
have ventured herself with her people, and either to have saved
them, or to have perished with them.
This was such a beginning of the exercise of royal power, as
might for ever have given her a disgust of it: but she appeared all
the time to possess her soul in patience, and to live in a constant re-
* The French fleet ('ays Bishop Burnet, History of his Own Time, Vol. iii. p. 69,
edit. 1SI5, after he had related the unsuccessful engagement oar fleet had with it
near Beachy, in the year 1690) lay for some davs in Torbay ; hut before
tbey sailed they made a descent on a miserable village called Tinmouth, that hap-
pened to be! rogto a papist. They burnt it, and a few fisherbdats that belonged to
it, but the : la a body of militia vfcas marching thither, the
French ma. Is great haste bank to their ships. The French published this in their
gazettes with much pomp, as if it had boon a great trading town, that had many
ships, with some men of war in port. This both rendered them ridiculous, and
served to raise the hatred of the nation against them, for every town on the coast saw
what they must expect if the French should prevail.
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signation of herself to the will of God, without any anxiety concern-
ing events. The happy news of the signal victory at the Boyne,
where King James's army was routed by King William's, and the
preservation of his majesty's person from the surest instruments of
death, which seemed to be sent with that direction that it might shew
the immediate watchfulness of Providence about him, soon reversed
the scene, and put another face on public affairs. The queen only
seemed the least changed. She looked more cheerful, but with the
same tranquility. The appearances of it had never left her. Nor
was it a small addition to her joy, that her father, for whom she still
retained profound regard, was preserved.* Though she was no part
of the cause of the war, yet she would have willingly sacrificed her own
life to have preserved either of those lives (her husband's or father's,)
who were in danger. She spoke of that matter two days after the
intelligence came, with so tender a sense of the goodness of God to
her, that it drew tears from her eyes, and then she freely confessed,
" that her heart had trembled, not so much from the apprehension of
the danger that she herself was in, as from the scene that was then in
action at the Boyne ; that God had heard her prayers, and she bles-
sed him for it, with as sensible a joy as for any thing that had ever
happened to her."
The next season of her administration concluded the reduction of
Ireland. The expectations of success there were once so much sunk,
that it seemed that that island was to be yet, for another year, the field
of blood, and an heap of ashes. The good queen laid the blame of
this, in a great measure, on the licentiousness and other disorders
that she heard had rather increased than abated among them. A
sudden turn came from a bold, but necessary resolution, which was
executed as gallantly as it was generously undertaken, and in the
face of a great army ; a handful of men passed the river Shannon,
forced Athlone, and made the enemy to retire in haste. A great
victory followed a few days after, that of General Ginkle over St.
Ruth, at Agrem. From which time success was less doubtful. All
was concluded with the happy reduction of the whole island. The
reflections the queen made on this happy event, was of the same tinc-
ture with that of all her thoughts, namely, " that our forces else-
where, both at sea and land, were thought to be considerable, and
so promising, that we were in great hopes of somewhat that might be
decisive, only Ireland was apprehended to be too weakly furnished
for a concluding campaign ; yet so different," said she, "are the
* The Earl of Nottingham told me, that when he carried the news to the queen,
and acquainted her in a few words that the king was well, that he had gained an
entire victory, and that the late king had escaped, he observed her looks, and found
that the last article made her joy complete, which seemed in some suspense, till
she understood that.— BurneV s History of his Own Time, Vol. ill. p. 70, edit. 1815,
QUEEN MARY II. 195
methods of Providence from human expectations, that nothing me-
morable happened any where except in Ireland, where little or noth-
ing was expected."
She was again in the administration of affairs when the nation was
threatened with a descent and an invasion, which was conducted with
that secrecy that the kingdom was in danger of being surprised by it,
when the preparations at sea were not finished, and the force by land
was not considerable. The struggle was like to have been formida-
ble, and there was a particular violence to be done to herself by rea-
son of him, her father who was to have conducted it. A long unin-
terrupted continuance of boisterous weather, that came from the
point that was most contrary to the designs of our enemies, made
the project impracticable. A succession of changes of weather fol-
lowed after, as happily to ourselves, and as fatal to our foes. The
same wind that stopped their fleet joined ours. The wind went not
out of that direction till it ended in one of the most glorious actions
that England ever saw ; that of the victory over the French fleet, by
Admiral Russell, at La Hogue, in the year 1692, when those, who
were brought together to invade our kingdom, were forced to be the
melancholy spectators of the destruction of the best part of their
fleet, on which all their hope was placed.
The queen bore success with the same decency in which she ap-
peared, when affairs were perplexed and clouded. So firm a situa-
tion of mind as she had, seemed to be in a good measure above the
power of any events whatever.
So far was she from entertaining a high opinion of herself, that
she had a tender sense of every thing that looked like miscarriage un-
der her conduct, and was afraid lest some mistake of hers might
have occasioned it. When difficulties grew too great to be surmount-
ed, and she felt an uneasiness in them, she made God her refuge,
and she often owned that she found a full calm upon her thoughts,
after she had given them a free vent before him in prayer.
When melancholy events came from the immediate hand of Heav-
en, particularly a great loss at sea, she said, "That though there was
no occasion for complaint or anger upon these cross events, yet there
was a juster cause of grief, since God's hand was to be seen so par-
ticularly in them." Sometimes she feared there might be some se-
cret sins at the root, and blast all ; but she soon went off from that,
and said, " that where so much was visible, there was no need of di-
vination concerning that which might be hidden."
When the sky grewer clearer, and in her more prosperous days,
as we have before observed, she was never lifted up. A great reso-
lution was taken, which not only asserted a dominion over those seas
which Great Britian claimed as her own, but assumed a more ex-
tensive empire, by our becoming masters both of the ocean and Med-
iterranean, having our enemies' coasts as well as the seas open to us.
The queen had too tender an heart to take any real satisfaction in the
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destruction of any of her enemies' towns, or in the ruin of their poor
and innocent inhabitants. She spake of such proceedings with true
indignation against those who had begun such practices, even in full
peace, or after protections had been given. She was sorry that the
state of war had made it necessary to restrain another prince from
such barbarities, by making himself feel the effects of them, and
therefore she said, " She hoped that such practices should become
so odious in all that should begin them, and by their doing so force
others to retaliate, that for the future they should be forever laid
aside."
In her brightest seasons she grew not secure, nor did she withdraw
her dependence upon God. In all the pleasures of life she maintain-
ed a true indifference as to the continuation of them, and she seemed
to think of parting with them in so easy a manner, that it plainly
appeared how little possession they had got of her heart. She
had no occasion for these thoughts from any other principle but a
mere disgust of this life, and the aspiration of her soul to a better.
She apprehended she felt once or twice such indispositions upon her,
that she concluded nature was working toward some great sickness,
and accordingly she set herself to take full and broad views of death,
that hence she might judge how she should be able to encounter her
enemy. But she found so quiet an indifference upon the prospect,
leaning rather toward the desire of a dissolution, that she said,
" Though she did not pray for death, yet she could neither wish nor
pray against it. She left that before God, and referred herself to
the disposal of Providence. If she did not wish for death, yet she
did not fear it."
As this was her temper when she viewed death at some distance,
so she maintained the same calm when in the closest struggle with it.
In her sickness, that of the small pox, she only was serene, when all
was in a storm about her. The dismal sighs of all who came near
her could not discompose her. She was rising so fast above mortali-
ty, that even her husband, who was more to her than all the world
besides, and rb all whose thoughts she had been upon every other oc-
casion entirely resigned, could not now inspire her with any desires
of returning back to life. Her mind seemed to be disentangling it-
self from her body, and so she arose above that tenderness, that had
a greater influence upon her than all other earthly things whatever.
It seemed indeed that all that was mortal was falling off, when even
that could give her no uneasiness. She received the intimations of
approaching death, with a firmness that neither bent nor softened un-
der that which has made the strongest minds tremble. Then, when
even the most artificial grow sincere, when the mask of hypocrisy
drops and opens the full soul to view, it appeared what a perfect
calm, and how sublime a piety possessed her. A ready willingness
to be dissolved, and an entire resignation to the will of God, did not
seem to forsake her so much as one minute, nor had any thing been
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left to be dispatched by her in her last hours. Her mind was in no
hurry, but soft as the small voice that seemed to be calling her soul
away to the regions above. So that she made her last steps with a
stability and seriousness that, how little ordinary soever they might be,
were, indeed, the correspondent harmonious conclusions of such a
life as she had led. In her heavy disease she felt no inward depres-
sion, nor sinking of nature. She then declared, " that she experien-
ced the joy of a good conscience, and the powers of religion giving
her supports, which even the last agonies could not shake." Her
constant gentleness to all about her never left her. That was indeed
natural to her ; but by its continuance with her in her sickness, all
visibly perceived that nothing could put her mind out of its natural
situation, and usual state. A few hours before she breathed her last,
when he who ministered to her in the best things had continued in a
long attendance about her, she was so free in her thoughts, that appre-
hending he might be weary, she commanded him to sit down, and re-
peated her orders till he obeyed them : a thing too trifling in itself to
be mentioned, but that it discovered her presence of mind, as well as
the sweetness of her disposition. Prayer was then her constant ex-
ercise, as often as she was awake : and so sensible was the refresh-
ment that her mind found in it, that she said she thought it did her
more good, and gave her more ease, than any thing that was done to
her. Nature sunk apace. She received the blessed Sacrament
with a devotion that inflamed as well as melted all who saw it. That
being over, she gave up herself so entirely to meditation, that she
seemed scarce to regard any thing beside. She was then upon the
wing. Such was her peace in her latter end, that though the symp-
toms shewed that nature was much oppressed, yet she scarce felt any
uneasiness. It was only from what she perceived was done to her,
and from those intimations that were given her, that she judged her
life to be in danger ; but she scarce knew herself to be sick by any
thing that she felt at heart. Her bearing so much sickness with so
little emotion, was for a while imputed to that undisturbed quiet and
patience in which she possessed her soul. But when she repeated it
so often that she felt herself well inwardly, it then appeared that there
was a particular blessing in so easy a conclusion of a life, that had
been led through a great variety of events, with a constant equality of
temper. And thus this most excellent princess put off mortality, and
passed from an earthly to a heavenly crown, a crown of glory that
shall never fade away.
The above account of this most amiable woman, is in substance
extracted from Bishop's Burnet's Essay on her Memory, who had
more than common advantages of knowing her, first in Holland, and
afterwards in England, who has not been reckoned an historian by
any means redundant in his praises, and who declares that he said
nothing but what he knew to be strictly true, without the enlargement
of figure or rhetoric. That we might do full justice to the character
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of the queen, or at least make our best attempts for the purpose, we
shall collect from the same writer, — from Dr. Edward Fowler,
Bishop of Gloucester, and from Dr. William Bates, an eminent non-
conformist minister, who preached a sermon on her death, — some
further memorials and descriptions of this very extraordinary person.
In most people, even those of the truest merit, a studied manage-
ment, will sometimes appear with a little too much varnish, like a noc-
turnal piece that has a light cast through even the most shaded parts ;
some disposition to set one's self off, and some satisfaction in being
commended, will at some time or another shew itself more or less.
No person who had the honor to approach the queen, and not
even such as were admitted to the greatest nearness, and the most
constant attendance, ever discovered any thing of this nature in her.
When due acknowledgments were made, or decent things were
said upon occasions that well deserved them, they seemed scarce to
be heard. They were so. little desired, that they were presently
passed over, without so much as an answer that might seem to enter-
tain the discourse, even when it checked it. She went off from it to
other subjects, as one who could not bear it. In her were seen the
most active zeal for the public, and a constant delight in doing good,
joined with such unaffected humility, and indifference to applause,
that the most critical observers could never see reason to think, that
the secret flatteries of vanity or self-love wrought inwardly, or had
any power over her.
An open and native sincerity, which appeared in genuine charac-
ters, in a manner quite free and unconstrained, easily persuaded all
who were about her that all was uniform and consistent, and was at
the same time united with a charming behavior, a most amiable
sweetness, and the sprightliness as well as the freedom of a true good
humor. A fresh and graceful air more turned to seriousness, but al-
ways serene, that dwelt upon her looks, discovered both the perfect
calm within, and shewed the force as well as the loveliness of those
principles, which were the springs of so cheerful a temper, and live-
ly a deportment.
The freedom of cheerfulness is not always under an exact com-
mand. It will make escapes from rules, and be apt to go too far,
and to forget all measures and bounds. It is seldom kept under
a perpetual guard. The openness of the queen's behavior was
subject to universal observation ; but yet it was under that regulari-
ty of conduct, that they who knew her best, and saw her otfenest,
could never discover her thoughts or intentions, further than as
she herself had a mind to let them be known. No half word, or
change of look, no forgetfulness, or career of discourse, ever drew
any thing from her further or sooner than she designed it. This
caution was managed by her in so peculiar a way, that no distrust
was shewn in it, nor distaste given by it. It appeared to be no other
£han that due reserve which became her elevation, and suited those
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affairs which were to pass through her hands. When she saw reason
for it, she had the truest methods to oblige others to use all becoming
freedom with herself, while at the same time she kept them at a
proper distance from her own thoughts.
She would never borrow any assistance from those arts, which are
so common to great stations, that some, perhaps, may imagine them
necessary. She did not cover her purposes by doubtful expressions,
or such general words as, taken strictly, signify little, but in common
use are understood to import a great deal more. As she would not
deceive others, so she avoided the saying of that which might give
them an occasion to deceive themselves ; and when she did not in-
tend to promise, she took care to explain her meaning so critically,
that it might be understood that no construction of a promise was to
be made from general words of favor. In a course of several years,
and of many turns, when great temptation was given for more artifi-
cial methods, and when, according to the maxims of the world, great
advantage might have been made of them, yet she maintained her
sincerity so entirely, that she never once needed explanations to jus-
tify either her words or actions.
What was good and what was great in human nature were so
equally mixed, and both shone with such a full brightness in her, that
it was hard to tell in which of the two she was the more eminent.
She maintained that respect that belonged to her sex without any
of those mixtures which, though generally speaking they do not much
misbecome it, yet seem a little to lessen it. She had a courage that
was resolute and firm, mingled with a mildness that was soft and at-
tracting. She had in her all the graces of her own sex, with all the
greatness of the other. If she did not affect to be a Zenobia, or a
Boadicea, it was not because she was destitute of their courage, but
because she understood the decencies of her sex better than they did.
A desire of power, or an eagerness of empire, were things so far be-
low her, though they generally pass for heroic qualities, that per-
haps the world never yet beheld so great a capacity for government
joined with so little affection to it ; so unwillingly assumed, so mod-
estly managed, and so cheerfully laid down.
She was distinguished for a clearness of apprehension, a presence
of mind, an exactness of memory, a solidity of judgment, and a
correctness of expression. No one took things sooner, or retained
them longer. No one judged more truly, or spoke more exactly.
She wrote clear and short, with a true beauty and force of style.
She discovered a superiority of genius, even in the most trifling mat-
ters, which were considered by her only as amusements, and so gave
no occasion for deep reflections. A happiness of imagination, and
a liveliness of expression, appeared upon the commonest subjects on
a sudden, and in the greatest variety of accidents. She was quick,
but not hasty : and, even without the advantages which her rank
gave her, she had an exaltation of mind, which subdued as well as
charmed all who came near her.
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A quickness of thought is often superficial. It easily catches, and
sparkles with some lustre : but it lasts not long, nor does it strike
deep. In the queen a bright vivacity was joined with an exploring
diligence. Her age and her rank had denied her opportunities for
much study, yet she had made no inconsiderable advances in knowl-
edge, having read the best books in the three languages (English,
Dutch, and French,) that were almost equally familiar to her. She
gave the most of her hours to the study of the Scriptures, and of
books relating to them. She had an uncommon understanding in
matters of divinity ; and particularly she had so well considered our
disputes with the Church of Rome, that she was capable of mana-
ging debates in them with equal degrees of address and judgment.
Next to the best subjects, she bestowed much of her time on
books of history, principally of the latter ages, particularly those of
her own kingdoms, as being the most proper to afford her useful in-
struction. She was a good judge as well as a great lover of poetry.
She liked it best, when it was employed on the best subjects. So
tender she was of poetry, though much more of virtue, that the pros-
titution of the Muses among us gave her a more than ordinary con-
cern. She made some steps to the understanding philosophy and
mathematics, but she stopped soon ; only she went far in natural his-
tory and perspective, as she was also very exact in geography. Upon
the whole, she studied and read more than could be imagined by
any who had not known how many of her hours were spent in her
closet. She would have made a much greater progress if the fre-
quent returns of ill humors in her eyes, had not compelled her to
spare them. Her very diversions gave indications of a mind that
was truly great. She had no relish for those lazy entertainments,
if they may deserve the name, that are the too common consumers
of most people's time, and that make as great waste of their minds,
as they do of their fortunes. If she sometimes used them, she
made it visible it was only in compliance with forms,, because she was
unwilling to offend others with too harsh a severity. She gave her
minutes of leisure with the greatest willingness to architecture and
gardening. She had a fruitfulness of invention, with a felicity of
contrivance, that had airs in them which were nobler than what was
more stiff, though it might be more regular, She knew that these
things drew an expense after them ; but she had no inclinations be-
yond these to any diversions that were costly, and since these em-
ployed many hands she was pleased to say, " That she hoped it
would be forgiven her.53
When her eyes were endangered by reading too much, she betook
herself to the amusement of work ; and in all those hours that were
not given to better employment she wrote with her own hands, and
that, sometimes, with as constant a diligence as if she had been to earn
her bread by her labor. It was a new thing, and seemed a strange
sight, to see a queen work so many hours a day. But she consider-
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ed idleness as the great corrupter of human nature, and believed that
if the mind had no employment given it, it would create some of the
worst sort to itself; and she thought that any thing that might amuse
and divert, without leaving any ill effects behind, ought to fill up
those vacant hours that were not claimed by devotion or business.
Her example soon wrought not only on those who belonged to her,
but upon the whole town, to follow it ; so that it became, in her time
as much the fashion to work as it had been to sit idle. In this par-
ticular, which seemed to be nothing, and was made, by some a sub-
ject of raillery, a greater step was taken than, perhaps, every one
was aware of, towards bettering the age. While the queen thus diver-
ted herself with work, she took care to give an entertainment to her
own mind, as well as to those who were admitted to the honor of
working with her. One was appointed to read to the rest ; the choice
was suited to the time of the day, and the employment ; some book
or poem that was lively as well as instructive. Few of her sex, not
to say of her rank, gave ever less time to dressing, or seemed less
curious about it. Those parts of it which required more patience
were not given up entirely to it. She read often all the time herself,
and generally aloud, that those who served about her might be the
better for it. When she was indisposed, another was called to do it.
The whole was mixed with such pleasant reflections of her own, that
the gloss was often better than the text. An agreeable vivacity diffu-
secj that innocent cheerfulness among all about her, that whereas, in
most courts, the hours of strict attendance are the heaviest part of
the day, they were, in hers, of all others, the most delightful.
Her cheerfulness might well be termed innocent, for none was
ever hurt by it. No natural defects, nor real faults, were ever the
subjects of her mirth ; nor could she bear it in others if their wit
happened to glance that way. She thought it a cruel and barbarous
thing to be merry at other people's cost, or to make the mis-
fortunes or follies of others the matter of diversion. She scarce
ever expressed a more entire satisfaction in any sermon that she
had heard, than in that of Archbishop Tillotson against evil speak-
ing. When she thought some were guilty of it, she would ask
them if they had read that sermon. This was understood to be a
reprimand, though in the softest manner. She had, indeed, one of
the blessings of virtue, but which does not always accompany it ; for
she was as free from censures as she was from deserving them.
When reflections were made on this her felicity, she said, " That
she ascribed it wholly to the goodness of God to her; for she did
not doubt but that many fell under hard censures that deserved them
as little." She also gave the matter this further turn, " That God
knew her weakness, and that she was not able to bear some imputa-
tions, and therefore he did not try her beyond her strength." In
one respect, she intended never to provoke censure. She was con-
scientiously tender of wounding others, and said, " she hoped God
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would still bless her in her good name as long as she was careful not
to hurt others." But as she was exact in not wronging any other
while she diverted herself, so, upon indifferent subjects, she had a
spring of cheerfulness in her that was never to be exhausted : it nev-
er sunk by repetition, nor degenerated into a forced mirth.
Dr. Bates's character of the queen may be considered as an
abridgment, not without some very acceptable additions, of what
has been already more diffusively said concerning her. There is
an elegance and beauty in his thoughts and language that cannot fail
giving pleasure to our readers.
" The descent of our queen was royal : but this is only an exter-
nal circumstance, and derives no moral virtue to a person. The
splendor of extraction, like varnish in a picture, that gives more
life and luster to the colors, makes the virtues or the vices of a per-
son more conspicuous.
" Her body was the beautiful temple of a fairer soul.* Her
graceful presence inspired reverence and love in those who saw her,
and appeared worthy of empire. But we have much greater things
to speak concerning her.
" I shall begin with her piety towards God. This is the first duty
of man in order and dignity, and the most considerable in its conse-
quences. It is the foundation of all royal virtues. In the public
worship of God, she was a bright example of solemn and unaffected
devotion. She prayed with humble reverence, heard the word with
respectful silence, and with serious application of spirit, as duly con-
sidering the infinite interval between the supremacy of heaven and
princes on earth ; that their greatness in its lustre is but a faint and
vanishing reflection of the Divine Majesty. One instance I shall
specify in this kind. When her residence was at the Hague, a lady
of noble quality coming to the court to wait on her on a Saturday, in
the afternoon, was told she was retired from all company, and kept
a fast in preparation for the receiving the Sacrament the next day.
The lady staying till five o'clock, the princess came out, and con-
tented herself with a very slender supper, it being incongruous to
conclude a fast with a feast. Thus solemnly she prepared herself
for spiritual communion with her Savior. When Moses was surpris-
ed by the sight of the burning-bush, and intended to come near to it,
he was warned by a voice from heaven, ' Draw not nigh hither : put
off thy shoes from thy feet, for the place whereon thou standest is
holy ground.' By the familiar figure of putting off the shoes is sig-
* Mr. Boyer gives this more particular description of her. Her person was tall,
and well proportioned. Her shape, while Princess of Orange, easy and genteel ;
her complexion light brown ; her visage oval; her eyes quick and lively; and the
rest of her features regular. Her stately port and native air of greatness command-
ed respect from the most confident: but her sweet and graceful countenance tem-
pered the awfulness of majesty, and her affable temper encouraged the most timo-
rous to approach her.
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nified the purifying ourselves from all defilements. And certainly
the presence of the Son of God is more peculiar in that sacred mys-
terious ordinance than it was in the burning-bush : accordingly we
should sanctify ourselves, and approach with holy fear.
" Her religion was not confined to the chapel, but every day she
had chosen hours for communion with God ; of which He is the on-
ly discerner and rewarder. Some who are high in the world think
it sufficient to pay a com pli mental visit to God once a week, and con-
tent themselves with the external service, though destitute of holy af-
fections, which are the life of religion ; or, at best, are satisfied with
a few expiring acts of devotion : but the good queen's conversation
was in heaven. She was constant in those duties in which the soul
ascends to God in solemn thoughts and ardent desires ; and God de-
scends into the soul by the excitations and influences of his Spirit.
" Her religion was not only exercised in divine worship, but was
influential into practice. The law of God was written in her heart,
and transcribed in her life, in the fairest characters.
" She had a sincere zeal for the healing our unhappy divisions in
religious things, and declared her resolution upon the first address of
some ministers, that she would use all means for that blessed end.
She was so wise as to understand the difference between matters
doctrinal and ritual; and so good as to allow a just liberty for dis-
senters in things of small moment. She was not lettered with super-
stitious scruples ; but her clear and free spirit was for the union of
Christians in things essential to Christianity. The holiness of her
life was universal. She was born and lived in a court that shines in
pomp, and flows in pleasures, and presents charming temptations to
all the distempered appetites. Pride, that destroyed both worlds,
and cleaves so close to human nature, reigns there. The love of
pleasure is a soft seducer that easily insinuates itself through the sens-
es, and captivates the soul. It is an observation of St. Chrysostom,
that the preserving the three Hebrew martyrs unpolluted in the court
of Babylon, was a greater miracle than the preserving them unsing-
ed in the firy furnace. In the absence of temptations the corrupt,
nature is sometimes so concealed that it is hardly known to itself;
but when tempting objects, armed with allurements, offer themselves,
the corrupt nature is presently discovered, especially if a person
comes to the license of a sceptre, that swells pride, and authorizes
the exorbitant desires. To be humble in such a high elevation, to
be temperate in the midst of the freest fruitions, is the effect of pow-
erful grace. But who ever saw in the queen an appearance of pride
and disdain ? How grateful was the condescendence of her great-
ness ! Who ever saw any disorder in her countenance, the crystal
wherein the affections are visible ? Her breast was like the Pacific
Sea that seldom suffers, and is disturbed by a storm. She was so
exempt from the tyranny of the angry passions, that we may have
some conjecture of the felicity of the state of unstained innocence, ol
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which one ray is so amiable. She had such an abhorrence of the
sensual passions, that nothing impure durst approach her presence.
" She had an excellent understanding, that qualified her for gov-
ernment. Of this her presiding in council in times of danger, and
preserving the tranquility of the kingdom, were real proofs.
" Her charity, that celestial grace, was like the sun : nothing with-
in her circuit was hid from its refreshing heat. Love is the clearest
notion we have of the Deity. God is Love. A prince in no per-
fection resembles God more than in his communicative goodness. I
will mention one act of her pious charity, and the noble manner of
her doing it. A lord of great honor and piety proposed to her a very
good work that was chargeable. She ordered an hundred pounds
should be paid to him for it. Some time interposing before the re-
ceipt of the money, he waited upon the queen, and pleasantly told
her, that interest was due for the delay of payment. She presently
ordered that fifty pounds more should be given, which was done ac-
cordingly. If it were known what this good queen did, and what she
designed to do, among all her resplendent virtues, Charity would be
illustrious.
" Her wise redemption of time from unconcerning vanities for
domestic affairs, was the effect and indication of her tender and vigi-
lant conscience. She considered her glass was continually running,
and all the sands were to be accounted for. How should this great
example correct those who are lavish of nothing so much as of time,
which being lost, is irrecoverable ! The sun returns every day but
time never returns.
In her sickness, patience had its perfect work. Her disease was
uncomfortable, yet with resigned submission she bore it. When the
danger of it was signified to her, she had no fearful thoughts about
her future state. It is a cruel respect to sick persons, especially to
princes, to conceal from them their danger till death steals insensibly
upon them. Indeed considering their past lives, and their present
anxieties, the advice of approaching death is an anticipation of it.
But the spirit of this excellent saint was not afraid of evil tidings, but
was fixed, trusting in the Lord. Her care had been to secure the
love of God in the best time of her life ; and this mixed cordial drops
in the bitterness of death.
" In short, all the blessed virtues were eminently seen in her that
might render her government an entire happiness to the kingdom.
This erected her a throne in the hearts of her subjects, and the
honor the wise poet attributes to the Emperor Augustus,
Victorque volentes
Per populos datjura-
that she ruled a willing people, may more truly be said of this excel-
lent princess. She was queen of the affections of the people, and
governed them without constraint. Her praiseworthy actions will
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eternize her memory, when other princes, divested of their secular
pomp, shall either be buried in dark oblivion, or condemned in
history."
There is a point of light in which we have not as yet considered
this most excellent princess ; her affection and conduct as a wife to
that great man, the Prince of Orange, afterwards King William the
Third, to whom she was married about seventeen years. Such as
have given an account of her character have bestowed, and we doubt
not with sufficient reason, the highest praises upon her in this relation.
" She was" says Bishop Burnet, " so tender and so respectful a wife,
that she seemed to go beyond the most perfect idea to which wit or
invention has been able to rise. The lowest condition of life, or the
greatest inequality of fortune, has not afforded so complete a pattern .
Tenderness and complacency seemed to strive which of them should
be the more eminent. She had no higher satisfaction in the prospect
of the greatness that was descending on her, than that it gave her an
occasion of making her husband a present worthy of himself; nor
had crowns or thrones any charm in them that was so pleasant to her,
as that they raised him to a greatness which he so well deserved, and
could so well maintain. She was all zeal and rapture, when any
thing was to be done that could either express affection, or shew re-
spect to him. She obeyed with more pleasure than the most ambi-
tious could have when they command." That the bishop's account
of her in this view, and other such representations of her in the
same exalted strain by other writers that might be mentioned, do not
surpass the truth, but are only a justice to her memory, we may well
conclude from what both the king said and did during her sickness,
and after her decease. When Dr. Tennison, upon her death, went
to comfort the king, his majesty answered, " That he could not but
grieve, since he had lost a wife who in seventeen years, had never
been guilty of an indiscretion." — "On the third day of her illness,"
says Bishop Burnet, " the king called me into his closet, and gave
a free vent to a most tender passion. He burst out into tears, and
cried out, that there was no hope of the queen, and that from being
the happiest, he was now going to be the miserablest creature on
earth." He said, " that during the whole course of their marriage he
had never known one single fault in her ; that there was a worth in her
that nobody knew beside himself; though," he added, " I might know
as much of her as any other person did." Presently after, the same
historian adds, " that the king's affliction for her death was as great
as it was just. It was greater than those who knew him best thought
his temper capable of. He went beyond all bounds in it. During
her sickness he was in an agony that amazed us all, fainting often,
and breaking out into most violent lamentations. When she died,
his spirits sunk so low, that there was great reason to apprehend thai,
he was following her. For some weeks after he was so little master
of himself, that he was not capable of minding business, or of seeing
company."
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MRS. ELIZABETH BURNET.
The subject of our Memoirs was born November 8th, in the year
1661. She was the eldest daughter of Sir Richard Blake, Knight,
the fifth son of Thomas Blake, of Earontoun, in the county of South-
ampton, Esquire, of an eminent family, and of Elizabeth, daughter
of Doctor Bathurst, a physician in London, a person of distinguished
piety, and among the most considerable men of his profession in his
time.
At eleven years old she began to have a true sense of religion, and
read, with great application, the books that were put into her hands,
but was not entirely satisfied with them, aspiring after more solid and
sublime sentiments than what she met with in them. On this account
it was that more than ordinary care was taken to make her think
meanly of herself, she being bred up in the greatest privacy possible.
When she was but a little more than seventeen years of age she
was married to Robert Berkely, of Spetchly, in the county of Wor-
cester, Esquire, grandson of Sir Robert Berkely, who was a judge
in the reign of Charles the Second. The match between this young
gentleman and her was principally procured by the means of Doc-
tor Fell, then Bishop of Oxford, who was Mr. Berkely's guardian,
and had taken the care of his education. The bishop thought that the
assisting his friend in that match was the greatest service he ever per-
formed for him.
When the young lady came into the family, she found her hus-
band's mother a zealous papist, and a woman of a good life. This
put her upon taking particular care to study her own religion in a
larger compass, in order to understand the controversies between the
protestants and papists, that she might be able to preserve her hus-
band and herself from the artifices and insinuations of the popish
priests, and the influence of his mother, who had great interest in
him. But yet, considering the particular turn of her husband's mind,
and the great deference she owed to his mother, she found herself
obliged to be very tender and careful, that she might not be disturbed
with unnecessary disputes about religion ; in which, and in her whole
management in this respect, there appeared a discretion admired by
all who knew her.
At the same time, this young lady obliged herself to a more than
ordinary strictness in all the offices of piety, and in her whole con-
duct, that she might adorn her own profession by a suitable practice,
constantly governing herself by the rules of true religion, and the se-
verest virtue. Accordingly, living in the country, where she enjoy-
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ed much leisure, she spent great part of her time in devotion and
reading. When she was inclined to divert herself with work, she
generally had some persons to read to her ; and when her poor
neighbors came to visit her, which, upon her encouragement, they
often did, she would frequently read good books to them herself, that
she might instruct them without seeming to take too much upon her.
In this manner she lived for six years, being esteemed and loved by
all who knew her, even by those who, on account of different opin-
ions in religion, were likely to be most prejudiced against her.
In King James's time, when the fears of popery began greatly to
increase, and Bishop Fell died, who had great influence over Mr.
Berkely, to prevent his being wrought upon by his relations, at the
time they conceived mighty hopes of the popish religion being set-
tled in these kingdoms, Mrs. Berkely prevailed upon her husband to
go to Holland ; and accordingly they travelled together over the
seventeen provinces. In the popish provinces, on the account of his
relations, they met with an unusually kind reception, letters being
sent, without their knowledge, to Brussels, Ghent, Liege, and other
considerable places, recommending Mrs. Berkely in a very partic-
ular manner, as one whose piety and virtue, had she been of the cath-
olic church, as they called it, were great enough to entitle her to the
character of a saint.
After these journeys, Mr. and Mrs. Berkely fixed at the Hague,
where she was soon known, and grew into the esteem and friendship
of persons of the highest rank. Here they continued till about the
time of the Revolution, when they returned into England, and went
to Spetchjy, their country seat.
Here Mrs. Berkely went on in the happy course of life she had at
first engaged in, making continual increases in knowledge and good
works. She had generally some young persons in her family, whom
she well improved both by her instructions and example, so that there
was quickly a visible alteration made in them.
Her knowledge and virtue made her every day more and more
taken notice of in that country. She contracted an intimate friend-
ship with the eminent Doctor Stillingfleet, Bishop of Worcester, who
to his death maintained an high esteem of her ; and upon several
occasions has been often heard to say, " that he knew not a more
considerable woman in England than she was." Thus she continu-
ed to live with Mr. Berkely till the year 1693, when it pleased God
to remove him from her by death.
In her widowhood, as she had more leisure than in her married
state, so she applied it wholly to devotion, to reading, to acts of chari-
ty, and the offices of friendship ; particularly she took upon her the
care of her late husband's protestant relations, as if they had been
her own ; and indeed she was a mother to them all, as long as she
lived, and shewed a great concern and kindness for them at her
death. She was also very good, and obliging to all the rest of his
family.
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She then had a very plentiful income, which she managed with
great prudence, as well as in a large exercise of charity ; and indeed
she was uneasy at all other kind of expenses but what went in that
way.
While she continued at Spetchly she kept a hospitable table, to
which the neighboring clergy were always welcome. She paid true
respect to such of them as were in low circumstances, cordially es-
teeming them for their functions and labors. She frequently made
them presents of the most useful books, and to some she generously
lent money, without requiring any security, expecting only to be paid
when, by the providence of God, they might be put into more easy
circumstances.
She spent some time at Worcester, with Bishop Stillingfleet and his
lady, with whom she had a most particular friendship ; and at the
house of Robert Wylde, Esquire, who took a particular care of her,
and of her concerns ; for whom, and his whole family she retained,
as they well deserved them from her, a very high esteem and friend-
ship.
Mr. Berkely ordering in his will a great sum of money to be rais-
ed out of his estate, to erect a hospital at Worcester for poor people,
she had it much at heart to see the design brought to perfection as
soon as possible, and it pleased God to continue her life till she saw
it accomplished. Besides the care of this business, she took upon
her several charges in relation to his affairs, more than the law requi-
red, in the payment of debts and legacies. She also still continued
one eminent instance of charity, to which she had engaged Mr.
Berkely in his life-time, a kind of charity which is now, by the di-
vine blessing, spread almost all over England, the setting up schools
for the instruction and education of poor children ; which she after-
wards increased to a far greater number.
She spent a good part of her time at London with her only sister,
the wife of Mr. Justice Dormer, who was always very dear to her,
and she had a high value for the great integrity and worth of that
judge.
Mrs. Berkely had early an inclination to employ her pen in sever-
al sorts of composition, which she was thought by her friends to do
to such very good purpose, that it encouraged her to spend much of
her time in that way. While she was a widow, she made the first
draught of that excellent book of hers, entitled, " A New Method of
Devotion, or Rules for Holy and Devout Living, with Prayers on
several Occasions, and Advices and Devotions for the Holy Sacra-
ment," for her own use only, consisting of such rules and directions
as she resolved to conduct herself by, and which indeed had been all
along the measure of her practice.
She continued a widow near seven years, and then was married to
Doctor Gilbert Burnet, Bishop of Salisbury. She found in the bishop's
house a family of children, whom she treated not with a false indul-
MRS. ELIZABETH BURNET. 209
gence on the one hand, nor an unnatural severity on the other, but
with all that care and true concern for their education, as if they had been
her own ; and indeed she was loved and respected by them as if she
had brought them into the world : of which the bishop was so sensible,
that he had by his will, then made, left them under her direction and
authority in so absolute a manner, that it has been seldom known that
so much power was ever intrusted even to the real mothers of any
children. The bishop, rightly judging that he brought blessing and
happiness enough into his family by bringing such a mother into it, desi-
red her to secure all her own estate and income to herself, with a power
to make such a will as she pleased, to which he bound himself to
consent.
Thus she continued the mistress of all that was her own, allowing
for her own entertainment what did not exceed the rate of a board-
ing-house, that so she might the more abound in good works, which
the bishop accepted, though he was willing, as he often told her,
" that nothing at all should be allowed on that account," for she had
in herself a treasure of more value than any riches. And, indeed,
the bishop was desirous that all the world should see what an esteem
he had for so much true worth, and that of the sublimest kind, as he
found in his lady.
After this she extended her charity further than she had done be-
fore : and, indeed, instead of giving a fifth part of her income, which
would have been no small proportion, she was very uneasy at taking
only a fifth part to her own use. She seldom went beyond it, and
was much oftener restrained within it, by which means she was able
to employ considerable sums in charitable uses, and particularly the
number of children taught at her expense, in and about Worcester
and Salisbury, amounted to above a hundred.
She now grew into a more general acquaintance, and was contin-
ually rising higher in the esteem of the world in proportion as she
became more known. She entered into friendships with some per-
sons of the greatest quality which made no other alteration in her
than that of increasing her zeal of doing more good as her interest
was enlarged. To be rich in good works was visibly the reigning
design of her whole life, and that in which she most of all delighted
herself.
Notwithstanding the interruptions which a more diffusive acquaint-
ance gave her, she spent as much time as she could secure to her-
self, in writing upon divine and moral subjects, and was prevailed
with to consent to the printing of the first edition of the above-men-
tioned book, which, as well as the second, was entirely her own
composition, without any assistance or addition by any person what-
ever.
The book being very much approved of by many of her friends,
she apprehended she could make it more useful by a large addition
out of many other papers she had by her. Upon this she printed
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a second edition at her own expense, that she might dispose of it
among those whom she thought most likely to be improved by it.
This excellent woman kept a constant journal of her life, and ev-
ery evening employed no inconsiderable time, in recollecting her ac-
tions and discourse in the day ; and she would call herself to an ac-
count in every particular, that the errors of every day past might be
avoided in those that should follow.
She continually labored under a weak habit of body, which at
length grew upon her to such a degree that it was thought she could
not easily overcome it. On this account she was advised to go to
the Spa, for the recovery of her health. She undertook a journey
thither in the year 1707, and wheresoever she went she was received
with great marks of esteem and respect by persons of the most emi-
nent rank.
After her return she seemed to be in a much better state of health,
and bore the severity of the beginning of the winter of 1708 so well,
that her friends hoped her constitution was grown stronger than it
had been : but it pleased God, upon the breaking up of the frost,
January 27, 1708-9, that she was seized with a pleuritic fever, the
symptoms of which were not violent at first, nor were her friends at
first apprehensive of her danger; but, her lungs being weak, she sunk
under the disorder in a few days, and died February 3, 1708-9.
She was buried at Spetchly, by her former husband, according to a
promise she had made him, as appears by the following clause in her
will. " I will that my body be buried in the parish church of Spetch-
ly, in the county of Worcester, in a vault made for me by my former
husband, Robert Berkely, Esquire, and myself. I order this to fulfil
a promise I made to him, and not out of any want of respect or kind-
ness to my present husband, who has by his great kindness and con-
fidence deserved from me all the gratitude and acknowledgments of
love and respect 1 can testify."
"After this brief account," says the writer of her Memoirs,* '"of
some of the most remarkable circumstances of her life, in which she
must appear a bright example of the most eminent virtue in a private
station, I should not do justice either to her, or to the world, if I did
not enlarge a little more upon her character ; in which if I should be
thought to have said too much by them that were not acquainted with
her, I am confident what I say will be judged by them who knew her,
to fall below her character."
She knew exactly how to distinguish between the means and end
of religion ; and was well aware of the necessity of joining them both
together in her practice ; so that, as she came up to the strictest rules
of piety in her devotions both in private and public, especially in her
frequent receiving the sacrament of the Lord's Supper, she was also
* The Hev. Dr. T. Goodwyn, Archdeacon of Oxford.
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fully persuaded that she was to maintain a strict government over her
passions, to observe a constant care and watchfulness over her whole
conduct, and to abound in every good work.
Though she had no skill in the learned languages, yet by making
the understanding the Scriptures her chief study, with the help of
English commentators, and the assistance of those clergy with whom
she most frequently conversed, and with whom she often discoursed
about texts of Scripture that were obscure to her, she attained to a
great knowledge in the divine writings. Though her mind was nat-
urally inquisitive, her apprehension quick, and her judgment solid,
yet she confined her inquiries to a few things. Accordingly, when
she had made some progress both in geometry and philosophy, she
laid those studies aside, though she had a genius and relish for them.
She considered the " one thing needful," and applied herself wholly
to what related to it ; and even in that she valued knowledge only as
it purified the mind. Her chief care was to govern her passions ; to
moderate her affections to created objects ; and to elevate her soul to
an entire resignation and conformity to the holy will of God.
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MRS. ELIZABETH ROWE.
Mrs. Elizabeth Rowe, a gentlewoman not more admired for
her fine writings by the ingenious who did not know her, than esteem-
ed and loved by all her acquaintance, for the many amiable qualities
of her heart, was born atllchester, in Somersetshire, Sept. 11, 1674,
being the eldest of three daughters* of Mr. Walter Singer a gentle-
man of a good family, and Mrs. Elizabeth Portnell, both of them
persons of distinguished merit and piety. Mr. Singer was not a na-
tive of Uchester, not so much as an inhabitant, before his imprison-
ment there for his nonconformity, in the reign of King Charles the
Second ; but being confined there, Mrs. Portnell, thinking herself
obliged to visit those who suffered for the sake of a good conscience,
as a testimony of her regard, not only to them, but to our common
Lord, in this way commenced an acquaintance with Mr. Singer,
which afterward proceeded to a union that death alone could dis-
solve ; and this it did too soon for the mournful surviver, if the tender-
est affection might be judged, and for the world also, which can badly
bear to lose any, and especially the eminent examples of virtue and
religion, in the several scenes and stations of life. Till her death
Mr. Singer resided at Uchester, but not long after removed into the
neighborhood of Frome, in the same county, where he became so
well known and distinguished for his good sense, primitive integrity,
simplicity of manners, uncommon prudence, activity and faithfulness
in discharging the duties of his station, inflexible adherence to his
principles, and at the same time truly catholic spirit, as to be held in
high esteem even by persons of superior rank ; the Lord Weymouth,
who was reckoned a very good judge of men5 not only writing to him,
but honoring him with his visits, as did also the devout Bishop Ken,
and that very frequently, sometimes once a week.
Mr. Singer was religiously inclined, as he said himself, when
about ten years old, and declared that he never from that time neg-
lected prayer ; and as far as be knew his own heart, had sincerely en-
deavored to keep a good conscience. He died as he had lived, April,
1 9, 1719, in a blessed calm and peace of mind, and humble confidence
in the mercy of God through a Redeemer. A worthy and intimate
friend of his, and witness to the heroic and christian manner in which
* One of the other two daughters died in her childhood, and the other survived to
her twentieth year, a lovely concurrent with her sister in the race of virtue and
elory. She had the same extreme passion for books, chiefly those of medicine, in
which she arrived at a considerable skill. Both the sisters frequently studied till
midnight. — Biograph. Britannica.
MEMOIRS, &C. 213
he finished life, observes, " that he settled his affairs, and took leave
of the world with the same freedom and composure as if he had
been setting out on a journey, was peculiarly careful that the widows
and orphans with whose concerns he was intrusted, might not be in-
jured after his decease ; conversed, though under great bodily disor-
ders, with those who came to see him, who were not a few, in the
easiest, freest manner, spent his time in praising and blessing God,
praying to him and giving good counsel to those about him ; shewed
an uncommon sweetness and patience in his behavior, and was ex-
ceeding thankful to those who did the least kind office for him,
though they owed him a great deal more." In a memorandum re-
lating to her father's last sickness and death, Mrs. Rowe herself
has these words. " My father often felt his pulse, and complained
that it was still regular, and smiled at every symptom of approaching
death. He would be often crying out, Come, Lord Jesus, come
quickly ; come, ye holy angels, that rejoice at the conversion of a
sinner, come and conduct my soul to the skies, ye propitious spirits ;"
and dien would add, "but thy time, Lord, not mine, is best."
Such as were acquainted with Mrs. Rowe from her earliest years,
could not but observe a great many things, not common at that time
of life, which promised that bright day that afterwards ensued ; and
it must have been with peculiar satisfaction that Mr. Singer, in whom
parental affection concurred with a penetrating discernment to height-
en the pleasure, beheld the dawnings of a great and good mind in
his young daughter.
When she received the first serious impressions of religion, does
not appear. Undoubtedly they were made while she was very young
for in one of her pious addresses she herself thus speaks to God :
" My infant hands were early lifted up to thee, and I soon learned to
know and acknowledge the God of my fathers."*
She loved, such was her taste for painting, the pencil, when she
had hardly strength and steadiness of hand to guide it ; and one
might almost venture to say, that even in her infancy she would
squeeze out the juices of herbs to serve her instead of colors. Mr.
Singer, perceiving her fondness for this art, was at the expense of a
master to instruct her in it, and it never ceased to be her amuse-
ment till her death.
She was also very much delighted with music, chiefly of the grave
and solemn kind, as best suited to the grandeur of her sentiments,
and the sublimity of her devotion.
But her strongest bent was to poetry. So prevalent was her gen-
ius this way, that her very prose has all the charms of verse without
the fetters; the same fire and elevation, the same bright images,
bold figures, and rich and flowing diction. She could hardly write
* Devotional Exercises, p. .')'.].
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a single letter but it bore the stamp of the poet. One of her ac-
quaintance remembered to have heard her say, " that she began to
write verses at twelve years old," which was almost as soon as she
could write at all. In the year 1696, the 22d of her age, a col-
lection of her poems on various occasions was published at the de-
sire of two of her friends, which we may suppose did not contain all
that she had by her, since the ingenious prefacer gives the reader to
hope, " that the author might in a little time be prevailed with to ob-
lige the world with a second part, no way inferior to the former."
Though many of these poems are of the religious kind and all of
them consistent with the strictest regard to the rules of virtue, yet
some things in them gave her no small uneasiness in advanced life.
What she could not absolutely approve, so quick was her moral
feeling, appeared unpardonable, and not satisfied to have done no-
thing that injured the cause of virtue, she was displeased with her-
self for having written any thing that did not directly promote it.
What first introduced her to the notice of Lord Weymouth's fam-
ily, was a little copy of verses of hers, with which they were so
highly delighted as to express a curiosity to see her ; and the friend-
ship that commenced from that time, subsisted ever after, not more to
her honor, who was the favorite of persons so much superior to her-
self in the outward distinctions of life, than to the praise of their
judgment and taste, who knew how to prize, and took a pleasure to
encourage such blooming worth. She was not then twenty years of
age. Her paraphrase of the 38th chapter of Job was written at the
request of Bishop Ken, who was at that time in the family, and
gained her a great deal of reputation.
She had no other tutor for the French and Italian languages than
the Hon. Mr. Thynne, son to Lord Viscount Weymouth, who will-
ingly took that task upon himself, and had the pleasure to see his
fair pupil improve so fast under his lessons, that in a few months
she was able to read Tasso's Jerusalem with great ease.
In the year 1710 she was married to Mr. Thomas Rowe, son
of the Rev. Benoni Rowe, a non-conformist minister of a reputable
family. This young gentleman, for he was but three and twenty
when he married, was possessed of a very fine understanding, had
largely enriched his mind with learning, and was remarkably devoted
to knowledge and improvement. Mr. Rowe well knew how to value
the treasure which Providence had given him, in a woman of such
exalted merit and amiable qualities, and accordingly made it his stu-
dy to repay the felicity with which she crowned his life. The es-
teem and tenderness he had for her are inexpressible. It was some
time after his marriage that he wrote to her a very tender ode under
the name of Delia, full of the warmest sentiments of connubial
friendship and affection, in which the following lines may appear
remarkable, as it pleased Heaven to dispose events in a manner so
agreeable to the wishes Mr. Rowe expresses in them.
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Long may thy inspiring page
And great example bless the rising age !
Long in thy charming prison may'st thou stay,
Late, very Jate, ascend the well-known way,
And add new glories to the realms of day !
At least Heav'n will not sure this pray'r deny,
Short be my life's uncertain date,
And earlier far than thine the destin'd hour of fate !
Whene'er it comes, may'st thou be by,
Support my sinking frame, and teach me how to die,
Banish desponding nature's gloom,
Make me to hope a gentle doom,
And fix me all on joys to come !
With swimming eyes I'll gaze upon thy charms,
And clasp thee, dying, in my fainting arms :
Then gently leaning on thy breast,
Sink in soft slumbers to eternal rest ;
Without a groan resign my breath,
Nor shrink at the cold arms of death ;
The ghastly form shall have a pleasing air,
And all things smile, while Heav'n and thou art there.
Mr. Rowe had not a constitution naturally robust, so that his intense
application to study might perhaps contribute to that ill state of health
which allayed the happiness of his marriage state, during the greater
part of it. In the latter end of the year 1714 his weakness increas-
ed, and he appeared to labor under all the symptoms of a consump-
tion. This fatal distemper, after it had confined him some months,
cut off the fair hopes of his doing great honor and service to his
country ; and put a period to his life, May 13, 1715, when he was
but just past the twenty-eight year of his age. He died at Hamp-
stead, near London, where he had for some time resided for the
benefit of the air, and was buried in the vault belonging to his family
in the cemetery in Bunhill Fields, where on his tomb are only written
his name, and the dates of his birth and death.
It was only out of regard to Mr. Rowe, that with his society Mrs.
Rowe was willing to reside in London during the winter season. Ac-
cordingly, as soon after his decease as her affairs would permit, she
indulged her invincible inclinations to solitude, by removing to
Frome, in Somersetshire, in the neighborhood of which place the
greater part of her estate lay. When she left town, she determined
to return to it no more, but to spend the remainder of her life in an
absolute retirement ; yet on some few occasions she thought it her du-
ty to violate her resolution. In compliance with the importunate re-
quests of the Honorable Mrs. Thynne, she passed some months with
her at London, after the death of her daughter, the Lady Brooke ;
and on the melancholy occasion of the decease of Mrs. Thynne
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herself, she could not dispute the solicitations of the Countess of
Hertford, afterwards the Duchess of Somerset, who earnestly desired
her to reside some time with her at Marlborough, to soften, by her
conversation and friendship, her severe affliction in the loss of her
excellent mother ; and once or twice more, it is apprehended, the
power this last lady had over Mrs. Rowe drew her, by an obliging
kind of violence, to spend a few months at this or some other of her
ladyship's country seats. Yet even on these occasions, Mrs. Rowe
never quitted her silent retreat without very sincere regret, and al-
ways returned to it as soon as ever she could with decency disengage
herself from the importunity of her noble friends.
In this recess she composed her pieces entitled " Friendship in
Death," and the several parts of the letters " Moral and Entertain-
ing." The drift of the letters from the dead is, as the ingenious au-
thor * of the preface expresses it, " to impress the notion of the
soul's immortality ; without which, all virtue and religion, with their
temporal and eternal good consequences, must fall to the ground :
and to make the mind contract, as it were, unawares, a habitual
persuasion of our future existence by writings built on that founda-
tion." It may be added also, that the design of both of these, and
the letters " Moral and Entertaining," is, by fictitious examples of he-
roic virtue, and the most generous benevolence, to allure the reader
to the practice of every thing that ennobles human nature, and bene-
fits the world ; and by the just and lively images of the remorse and
misery attendant on vice, to warn the young and unthinking from be-
ing seduced to ruin by the enchanting name of pleasure : the piety
of which intention is the more worthy of the highest panegyric, as it
is so uncommon in witty and polite writers.
In the year 1736, the importunity of some of Mrs. Rowe's ac-
quaintance, who had seen the "History of Joseph" in manuscript,
prevailed on her, though not without real reluctance, to suffer the po-
em to be made public. She wrote this piece in her younger years,
and, when first printed, had carried it no farther than the marriage of
the hero of the poem ; but, at the request of her friends, particularly
an illustrious lady f to wThom she could scarce refuse any thing, she
added two books, to include the relation of Joseph's discovery of
himself to his brethren; the composing of which, as it is said, was
no more than the employment of three or four days. This addition-
al part, which was her last work, was published but a few weeks be-
fore her death.
This grand event, the preparation for which she had made so
much the business of her life, befell her, according to her wish, in her
beloved recess. She enjoyed an uncommon strength of constitution,
and had passed a long series of years with scarcely any indisposition
* Dr. Young. i The Duchess of Somerset.
MRS. ELIZABETH ROVVE. 217
severe enough 10 confine her to her bed. But about a half a year
before her decease she was attacked with a distemper which seemed
to herself, as well as to others, attended with danger. Though this
disorder, as she expressed herself to one of her most intimate friends,
found her mind not quite so serene and prepared to meet death as
usual]; yet when, by devout contemplations of the atonement and
mediation of our blessed Redeemer, she had fortified herself against
that fear and diffidence, from which the most eminent piety may not
always be secure in that most solemn hour ; she experienced such
divine satisfaction and transport, that she said with tears of joy, "that
she knew not that she had ever felt the like in all her life ;" and she
repeated on this occasion Mr. Pope's verses, entitled, " The Dying
Christian to his Soul," with an air of such intense pleasure, as evi-
denced that she really felt all the elevated sentiments of pious ectasy
and triumph which breathe in that beautiful piece of sacred poetry.
After this threatening illness, Mrs. Rowe recovered her usual good
state of health ; and though at the time she was somewhat advanced
in age, yet her exact temperance, and the calmness of her mind,
undisturbed with uneasy cares and passions, encouraged her friends
to flatter themselves with a much longer enjoyment of so valuable a
life than it pleased Heaven to allow them. On the day in which she
was seized with that distemper, which in a few hours proved mortal,
she seemed to those about her to be in perfect health and vigor ; and
in the evening, about eight of the clock, she conversed with a friend
with all her wonted vivacity, after which she retired to her chamber.
A^out ten, her servant hearing some noise in her mistress's room, ran
instantly into it, and found her fallen off her chair on the floor speech-
less, and in the agonies of death. She had the immediate assistance
of a physician and surgeon, but all the means used were without suc-
cess ; and after having given one groan, she expired a few minutes
before two of the clock on the Lord's-day morning, Feb. 20, 1736-
7, in the sixty-third year of her age, her disease being judged to be
an apoplexy. A pious book was found lying open by her, as also
some loose papers on which she had written the following uncon~
nected sentences.
O guide, and counsel, and protect my soul from sin !
O speak and let me know thy heav'nly will !
Speak evidently to my listening soul !
O fill my soul with love, with light, and peace,
And whisper heavenly comforts to my soul !
O speak, celestial Spirit, in the strain
Of love and heav'nly pleasure to my soul !
Thus it appeared that in reading pious meditations, or forming
devout ejaculations for the divine favor and assistance, Mrs. Rowe
made the last use of the powers of her reason below the skies ; though
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little, it may be, did she think in these her last moments how near
she was to that blissful hour, when all her prayers would be complete-
ly answered, and be exchanged for eternal enjoyment and praise.
As she was greatly apprehensive that the violence of pain, or the
languors of a sick bed, might occasion some depression of spirits and
melancholy fears unsuitable to the character and expectations of a
Christian, it was her earnest and daily prayer to Heaven, as appear-
ed from her manuscript-book of devotion, that she might not in this
manner dishonor her profession ; and she often expressed to her
friends her desires of a sudden removal to the skies, as it must ne-
cessarily prevent any such improper behavior in her last moments :
so that as the suddenness of Mrs. Rowe's death must be numbered
among the felicities with which she was favored by Providence, it
may be interpreted also as a reward of her singular piety, and a to-
ken of the divine favor in answer to her prayers.
Mrs. Rowe seemed, by the gaiety and cheerfulness of her temper,
to be particularly adapted to enjoy life, and all its innocent satisfac-
tions ; yet, instead of any excessive fondness for things present and
visible, her contempt for what she used to term a low state of exis-
tence, and a dull round of insipid pleasures, and the desires with
which she breathed after the enjoyments of the heavenly world, were
great beyond conception. When her acquaintance expressed to her
the joy they felt at seeing her look so well, and possessed of so much
health as promised many years to come, she was wont to reply, " that
it was the same as telling a slave his fetters were like to be lasting, or
complimenting him on the strength of the walls of his dungeon :" and,
indeed, the fervor of her wishes to commence the life of angels irre-
sistibly broke from her lips in numberless other instances.
She was buried, according to her request, under the same stone
with her father, in the meeting-place at Frome ; on which occasion,
her funeral sermon was preached to a very crowded auditory, by the
Rev. Mr. Bowden, her minister. Her death was lamented with very
uncommon sorrow by all who had heard of her virtue and merit, but
particularly by those of the town where she had so long resided, and
her most intimate acquaintance. Above all, the news of her death
struck the poor and distressed with inexpressible affliction ; and at
her doors and over her grave they bewailed the loss of their benefac-
tress, poured blessings on her memory, and recounted to each other
the gentle and condescending manner with which she heard their re-
quests, and the numerous instances in which they had experienced
her goodness and bounty.
In her cabinet were found letters to several of her friends, for
whom she had an high esteem and affection ; namely, the Countess
of Hertford, the Earl of Orrery, Mr. James Theobald, and Mrs.
Sarah Rowe. These letters Mrs. Rowe had ordered to be deliver-
ed to the persons to whom they were directed immediately after her
decease. They are published in her life, drawn up by Mr. Theoph-
MRS. ELIZABETH ROWE. 219
ilus Rowe, and prefixed to her miscellaneous works in prose and
verse, and discover a most pious spirit, a most tender and affection-
ate friendship ; and, were it not that they would carry us beyond our
proposed limits, we might lay them before our readers.
Besides these letters, she wrote also another to Dr. Watts, accom-
panying her papers, containing the devout Exercises of her Heart in
Meditation, Soliloquy, Prayer, and Praise, which the doctor, accord-
ing to her desire, soon after her decease communicated to the world.
To the Rev. Dr. Watts, at Newington.
Sir, — The opinion I have of your piety and judgment is the reason
of my giving you the trouble of looking over these papers in order to
publish them, which I desire you to do as soon as you can conven-
iently, only you have full liberty to suppress what you think proper.
I think there can be no vanity in this design, for I am sensible that
such thoughts as these will not be for the taste of the modish part of
the world, and before they appear, I shall be entirely disinterested in
the censure or applause of mortals.
The reflections were occasionally written, and only for my own
improvement ; but I am not without hopes that they may have the
same effect on some pious minds, as the reading the experiences of
others have had on my soul. The experimental part of religion has
generally a greater influence than its theory ; and if when I am sleep-
ing in the dust, these soliloquies should kindle a flame of divine love
in the heart of the lowest and most despised Christian, be the glory
given to the great spring of all grace and benignity !
I have now done with mortal things, and all to come is vast eterni-
ty— Eternity — how transporting is the sound ! As long as God exists,
my being and happiness are secure. These unbounded desires,
which the wide creation cannot limit, shall be satisfied forever. I
shall drink at the fountain-head of pleasure, and be refreshed with
the emanations of original life and joy. I shall hear the voice of un-
created harmony speaking peace and ineffable consolation to my soul.
I expect eternal life not as a reward (of merit,) but a pure act of
bounty. Detesting myself in every view I can take, I fly to the
righteousness and atonement of my great Redeemer for pardon and
salvation. This is my only consolation and hope. " Enter not into
judgment, O Lord, with thy servant, for in thy sight shall no flesh be
justified."
Through the blood of the Lamb I hope for an entire victory over
the last enemy, and that before this comes to you I shall have reach-
ed the celestial heights ; and, while you are reading these lines, 1
shall be adoring before the throne of God, where faith shall be turn-
ed into vision, and these languishing desires satisfied with the full fru-
ition of immortal love. Adieu. Elizabeth Rowe.
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Besides the compositions of Mrs. Rowe which have been already
mentioned, namely, Friendship in Death, Letters Moral and Enter-
taining, The History of Joseph, and The Devout Exercises of the
Heart, there are also two more volumes that go under the name of
her Miscellaneous Works ; the first of which is a collection of her
poems written at various times, and on various occasions ; and the
other a long series, to the number of 167, of her familiar letters to
her friends. To the last volume are added, according to Mrs. Rowe's
order, that these poems of her husband's should be joined with her
own, several essays in poetry of Mr. Rowe's, which " though," as
the writer of her life observes, " they were deprived, by the imma-
ture death of the author, of his corrections, yet shew so much strength
of genius as will easily atone for any slight inaccuracies." — " She
had no other view," says the editor of her Miscellaneous Poems, (Mr.
Theophilus Rowe, her brother-in-law,) " in their publication, to use
the words of the letter in which she intrusted them to my care, but
the profit or innocent entertainment of the reader. I hope, contin-
ues she, all my present design is abstractedly the interest of virtue ;
for a reputation among mortals is a very insignificant thing to me,
who hope, before these papers are published, to be above their cen-
sure or applause, and to receive the approbation of the Supreme
Judge : but if they may be of any advantage to the cause of virtue,
it will be a great satisfaction to me." These volumes, with the
compositions just recited, may be reckoned to complete her works,
in which we may venture to say, a pious and polite reader will not
seek in vain for instruction and entertainment. " The softness of
her sex, and the fineness of her genius," says the ingenious Mr. Mat-
thew Prior, " conspire to give her a very distinguishing character ;"
and this character is still more distinguishing, as it is mingled with
such uncommon piety and virtue, as we have seen in part, but as will
be more conspicuously shewn, while we communicate the picture, if
we may so style it, of the amiable excellencies of her mind, as drawn
by the just-mentioned writer of her Life, as well as editor of her Mis-
cellanies.
She had the happiest command over her passions, and maintained
a constant serenity of temper, and sweetness of disposition, that could
not be ruffled with adverse occurrences, nor soured by the approach-
es of old age itself. It has been questioned whether she was ever
angry in her whole life, at least with those little infelicities and dis-
pleasing incidents that fell out in common life, which, though really
of a trivial nature, frequently prove too powerful temptations to in-
decencies of passion, but with her they were rather the subjects of
mirth and agreeable raillery. It ought also to be observed, as per-
sons are apt to be least on their guard against excesses of this kind
towards inferiors and domestics, that her servant, who lived with her
near twenty years, scarce ever discovered in her mistress any ten-
dency to anger towards herself, or any warmth of resentment against
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others, except in the cause of Heaven against impiety and flagrant
crimes; on which occasions some degree of indignation is not only ir-
reproachable, but truly deserving the name of commendable and vir-
tuous zeal.
Together with the most manly elevation of genius, Mrs. Rowe
possessed all that gentleness and softness of disposition which are so
peculiarly the ornaments of her sex, and was entirely free from that
severity of temper which has made the character of a wit unamiable,
if not quite infamous. Next to impure and profane writings, she ex-
pressed the strongest aversion against satire, as it is usually so replete
with personal malice and invective. No strokes of this kind can be
found in her works ; and her conversation was no less innocent of
every appearance of ill-nature than her writings. She fortified her
resolutions against evil-speaking by particular and solemn vows, as
appears by the following sacred engagement, transcribed from her
manuscript.
October 6, 1726. — O let me once again bind myself to the Lord,
never, by thy grace, to speak evil of any person. O help me to gov-
ern my tongue by the strictest rules of charity and truth, and never
to utter any evil surmises, or make the least reflection to the dishon-
or of my neighbor. Let me in the minutest circumstances do to oth-
ers as 1 would they should act to me. Let me hope, let me believe
all things to the advantage of others. Give me thy divine assistance
to perform this great duty, and set thou a watch on my words, and
keep, O strictly keep the door of my lips, that I offend not with my
tongue. Now let thy grace be sufficient for me, and thy strength be
manifest in my weakness. In thy strength, in the name of the Lord,
my Redeemer, let me engage with all my future temptations. Look
graciously on ihis petition, and remember me when I am in any sus-
pense, any exigence, and am ready to forget my engagements. In
the moment when I shall waver strengthen me, restrain me when the
malignant thought arises ; and, while the yet unuttered words are
ready to issue from my lips, set thou a bridle there, and govern my
rebellious faculty.
Mrs. Rowe strictly regulated her conduct by the solemn vow, and
could hardly think any occasion would justify the report of what was
prejudicial to the reputation of another. " I can appeal," says she,
in a letter to a lady with whom she had lived in a long and most in-
timate friendship, " if you ever knew me make an envious or an ill-
natured reflection on any person upon earth. Indeed the follies of
mankind would afford a wide and various scene, but charity would
draw a veil of darkness here, and choose to be for ever silent, rather
than expatiate on the melancholy theme." Scandal and detraction
appeared to her such extreme inhumanity, as no charms of wit and
politeness could make tolerable. If she was forced to be present at
such kind of conversation, she had sometimes, when the freedom
might be decently used, the courage openly to condemn ii, " and,"
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says her biographer, " I believe always the generosity to undertake the
defense of the absent, when unjustly accused, and to extenuate even
their real faults and errors."
She had few equals in her excellent turn for conversation. Her
wit was inexhaustible, and she expressed her thoughts in the most
beautiful and flowing language ; and as these uncommon advantages
were accompanied with an easy goodness and unaffected openness of
behavior, she powerfully charmed all who conversed with her. A
peculiar elevation of understanding made her despise those trifles
which so frequently dwell on the lips of the fair sex, and she would
always have chosen to talk on important and instructive themes ; yet,
lest constant discourse of a serious kind should prove distasteful and
wearisome, she sometimes entertained her friends on more gay and
indifferent subjects. But, as soon as a transition could be made
without the appearance of affectation, she returned to her favorite
topics, on which she exerted all her exquisite talents to recommend
the most exact morality and sublime piety, so that it seemed impos-
sible to be in her company without growing wiser and better, or to
leave it without regret.
Mrs. Rowe's wit, beauty,* and merit, had even from her youth
conciliated to her to much compliment and praise, and these from
such judges of worth as might have given some tincture of vanity
to her mind. Yet amidst all these temptations to pride she retained
all the humility of the meanest and most obscure person of the hu-
man race. She rarely mentioned any of her writings, even to her
most intimate friends, nor ever discovered the least elation of mind at
their great success, and the approbation they received from some of
the finest writers of the age. The praises with which her works
were honored only led her to ascribe the glory to the original of all
perfection on whose power she maintained a constant sense of her de-
pendence, and with the most grateful piety owned her obligations to
his goodness. " It is but for Heaven," said she, " to give a turn to
one of my nerves, and I should be an ideot." She assumed no in-
decent share in conversation, and has been frequently known to
be silent on subjects she well understood, and on which she could
have displayed her capacity to great advantage.
Mrs. Rowe was exemplary in every relative duty. Filial piety
was a remarkable part of her character. She loved the best of fa-
* Her person is thus described by the writer of her life. " Though she was not
a regular beauty, yet she possessed a large measure of the charms of her sex. She
was of a moderate stature, her hair of a fine auburn color, and her eyes of a darkish
grey, inclinable to blue, and full of fire. Her complexion was exquisitely fair, and
a natural rosy blush glowed in her cheeks. She spoke gracefully, and her voice
was exceeding sweet and harmonious, and perfectly suited to that gentle language
which always flowed from her lips. But the softness and benevolence of her aspect
were beyond all description. They inspired irresistible love, yet not without some
mixture of that awe and veneration, which distinguished sense and virtue apparent
in the countenance are wont to create."
MRS. ELIZABETH ROWE. 223
thers as she ought, and repaid his uncommon care and tenderness by
all just returns of duty and affection. She has often been heard to
say, " That she could die rather than do any thing to displease him ;"
and the anguish she felt at seeing him in pain in his last sickness was
so great, that it occasioned some kind of convulsion, a disorder
from which she was wholly free in every other part of her life.
When she was entered into the marriage state the highest esteem
and most tender affection appeared in all her conduct to Mr. Rowe,
and by the most gentle and obliging manners, and the exercise of
every social virtue, she confirmed the empire she had gained over his
heart. She made it her study to soften the anxieties, and heighten
all the satisfactions of his life. Her capacity for superior things did
not tempt her to neglect the less honorable cares, which the laws of
custom and decency impose on the female sex in the connubial state,
and much less was she led by a sense of her own merit to assume
any thing to herself inconsistent with that duty and submission which
the precepts of Christian piety so expressly enjoin. Mr. Rowe had
some mixture of natural warmth in his temper, of which he had not
always a perfect command. If at any time this broke out into some
little excesses of anger, it never awakened any passion of the like
kind in Mrs. Rowe, but on the contrary, she always remained mis-
tress of herself, and studied by the gentlest language and tenderest
endearment, to restore Mr. Rowe's mind to that calmness which
reason approves ; and she equally endeavored, in every other in-
stance, by the softest arts of persuasion, and in a manner remote
from all airs of superiority, to lead him on towards that perfection of
virtue, to which she herself aspired with the truest Christian zeal.
During the long illness which ended in his death, she scarce ever
stirred from him a moment, and alleviated his severe affliction, by
performing with inconceivable tenderness and assiduity, all the offices
of compassion suited to his melancholy situation. She partook of
his sleepless nights, and never quitted his bed unless to serve him or
watch by him ; and as she could scarcely be persuaded to forsake even
his breathless clay, so she consecrated her future years to his mem-
ory with resolutions of perpetual widowhood, which she inviolably
maintained. Her conduct in this last instance, on the review of it,
after an interval of several years, and in the near prospect of death,
afforded her great satisfaction ; for she thus expresses herself in a
letter intended after her own decease to be delivered to Mrs. Ara-
bella Marrow, if that lady had survived her. " The solitude in
which I have spent my time, since Mr. Rowe's death, has given me
leisure to make the darkness of the grave, and the solemnity of dy-
ing, familiar scenes to my imagination. Whatever such distinguish-
ed sense and merit could claim, I have endeavored to pay my much
loved husband's memory. I reflect with pleasure on my conduct on
this occasion, not only from a principle of justice and gratitude to
him, but from a conscious sense of honor, and love of a virtuous
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reputation after death— but if the soul in a separate state should be
insensible of human censure or applause, yet there is a disinterested
homage due to the sacred name of virtue."
She mourned over the deaths, first of her husband, and afterwards
of her father, with all that becoming tenderness and sensibility, which
ought to touch every human and generous heart at the loss of the
dearest persons on earth ; yet her submission to the determinations of
Divine Providence was exemplary, and she never presumed to
breathe any criminal murmurs against the will of Heaven, which is
ever just and good, nor behaved in these dark hours of distress and
temptation in a manner unsuitable to that eminent piety which appear-
ed in every other part of her life.
She was a gentle and kind mistress, treating her servants with
great condescension and goodness, and almost with the affability of a
friend and equal. She caused due care to be taken of them when-
ever they were ill, and did not think it misbecame her to sit by the
bed of a sick servant to read to her books of piety.
The tenderness of her humanity would not suffer her to be offen-
ded with light faults ; and as she never dismissed any one from her
family, "so," says her biographer, "I think none of her servants
ever left her, but with a view to the changing their condition by mar-
riage." She knew when she was well served, and reposed so much
trust in those whose fidelity she had experienced, that it might verge
to excess.; "yet even such great confidence," continues her historian
" was due to that servant who was with Mrs. Rowe at the time of her
death, whose long and faithful duty to her mistress, and remarkable
sorrow for her loss, deserve to be mentioned with honor."
Mrs. Rowe was a warm and generous friend, just, if not partial,
to the merit of those whom she loved, and most gentle and candid
to their errors. She was always forward to do them good offices ;
but in a distinguished manner she studied with infinite art and zeal
to insinuate the love of virtue into all her acquaintance, and to pro-
mote their most important interest, by inciting them to the practice
of whatever was pleasing in the sight of God and would be crowned
with his peculiar favor. This she proposed as the best end of friend-
ship.
She was not entirely free from the attacks of malice, that she
might not be without the opportunity of exercising the divine spirit
of forgiveness ; yet one could scarce learn from her discourse that
she had an enemy, for she was not wont to complain of any inde-
cent conduct or injuries done to herself. So that it was apparent
that such treatment made light impressions on her mind, or that she
had endeavored to suppress them with the happiest success.
Her charities were so great, that if we consider the mediocrity of
her fortune, that they can scarce be paralleled. They were indeed
only limited by the utmost extent of her power, for she devoted the
whole of her income, besides what was barely sufficient for the ne-
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cessities of life, to the relief of the indigent and distressed. This
her manuscript acquaints us with in the following vow, which as it
evinces a heart glowing with the love of God and mankind, is worthy
of the highest praise : but as this solemn engagement involved Mrs.
Rowe in some perplexities, it seems peculiarly fit to add, that her
example ought not to influence pious minds to fetter themselves in
things not absolutely commanded, since the observation of such vows
may be attended with unforeseen difficulties, injurious to the future
peace of their lives.
I consecrate, says Mrs. Rowe, in this her solemn vow, half my
yearly income to charitable uses. And though by this according to
human appearances, I have reduced myself to some necessity, I
cast all my care on that gracious God to whom I am devoted, and
to whose truth I subscribe with my hand. I attest his faithfulness,
and bring in my testimony to the veracity of his word. I set to my
seal that God is true, and O ! by the God of truth I swear to per-
form this, and beyond this ; for if thou wilt indeed bless me, and en-
large my coast, all that I have beyond the bare convenience and ne-
cessity of life shall be the Lord's ; and O grant me sufficiency, that
I may abound in every good work ; O let me be the messenger of
consolation to the poor ! Here am I, Lord, send me. Let me have
the honor to administer to the necessities of my brethren. I am in-
deed unworthy to wipe the feet of the least of the servants of my
Lord, much more unworthy of this glorious commission ; and yet,
O send me, for thy goodness is free ! send whom thou wilt on em-
bassies to the kings and rulers of the earth, but let me be a servant
to the servants of my Lord. Let me administer consolation and re-
lief to the afflicted members of my exalted and glorious Redeemer.
Let this be my lot, and I give the glories of the world to the wind.
Pursuant to this sacred vow, which as she expresses herself in
another place of her manuscript, was not made in an hour of fear
and distress, but in the joy and gratitude of her soul, she not only
avoided all superfluous expenses in dress and luxury, but through an
excess of benevolence, if there can be any excess in such a godlike
disposition, to enlarge her abilities of doing good to her fellow crea-
tures, she denied herself what might in some sense be called the ne-
cessaries of life.
Misery and indigence were a sufficient recommendation to her
compassionate regard and assistance, yet she showed a distinguished
readiness to alleviate the afflictions of persons of merit and virtue;
and one, who had the best opportunity of making the observation, de-
clared, that she never knew any such apply to Mrs. Rowe without
success. The first lime she accepted of an acknowledgment from
the bookseller for any of her works, she bestowed the whole sum on
a family in distress, and there is great reason to believe that she em-
ployed all the money that she ever received on such an account in as
generous a manner : and once, when she had not by her a sum large
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226 MEMOIRS OF
enough to supply the like necessities of another family, she readily
sold a piece of plate for this purpose. It was her custom, on going
abroad, to furnish herself with pieces of money of different value, that
she might relieve any objects of compassion who should fall in her
way, according to their several degrees of merit or indigence. Nor
was her munificence confined to the neighborhood of the place where
she lived, but, during her residence in the country, she sent large
sums to London, and other distant parts. She contributed to some
designs that had the appearance of charity, though she could not ap-
prove of them in every respect, observing, that it was fit sometimes
to give for the credit of religion, when other inducements were want-
ing, that the professors of Christianity might not be charged with
covetousness ; a vice which she so much abhorred, that scarce any
grosser kind of immorality could more effectually exclude a person
from her friendship. " I never," said she, " grudge any money but
when it is laid out upon myself, for I consider how much it would buy
for the poor." Besides the sums which she gave away, and the dis-
tribution of books on practical subjects, she employed her own hands
in labors of charity to clothe the necessitous. This she did not on-
ly for the natives of the Lower Palatinate, when they were driven
from their country by the rage of war, which appeared a calamity
peculiarly worthy of compassion, but it was her frequent employment
to make garments of almost every kind, and bestow them on those
who wanted them. She discovered a strong sense of humanity, and
often shewed her exquisite concern for the unhappy, by weeping
over their distresses. These were the generous tears of virtue, and
not of any feminine weakness, for she was rarely observed to weep
at afflictions that befell herself. She was indeed so sensibly affected
with the miseries of the poor, as not only to send her servants ta ex-
amine what they stood in need of when they were sick, but often vis-
ited them in person, when they were so wretched that their houses
were not fit for. her to enter into, and even when their distempers
were highly malignant and contagious. One kind of munificence in
which she greatly delighted, was causing children to be taught to
read and work, These she furnished with supplies of clothing, as
well as bibles, and other necessary books of instruction. This she
did not only at Frome, but also at a neighboring village, where part
of her estate lay : and when she met in the streets with children of
promising countenances who were perfectly unknown to her, if upon
inquiry it appeared that through the poverty of their parents they
were not put to school, she added them to the number of those who
were taught at her own expense. She condescended herself to in-
struct them in the plain and necessary principles and duties of reli-
gion ; and the grief she felt when any of them did not answer the
hopes she had entertained, was equal to the great satisfaction she re-
ceived, when it appeared that her care and bounty had been well
placed. She was also a contributor to a charitable institution at
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Frome, of a more public nature, though, according to the general
custom of such schools, all who were educated in it, were obliged to
worship God in that one particular form from which she herself took
the liberty to dissent. In truth, her charities were not confined to
those of her own party or sentiments, but bestowed on indigent per-
sons of almost all the sects into which Christianity is divided ; and
even those whose religious opinions seemed to her of the most dan-
gerous consequence, were large recipients of her bounty. Nor was
her beneficence limited to those who in strict terms might be called
poor, for, as she was wont to say, "It was one of the greatest bene-
fits that could be done to mankind, to free them from the cares and
anxieties that attend a narrow fortune ;" in pursuance of which gen-
erous sentiments she has been often known to make large presents to
persons who were not in the last extremes of indigence. With re-
gard to those whose circumstances were such that the acceptance of
alms might have put their modesty to some pain, she studied to spare
their blushes while she relieved their wants. When one such person
of her acquaintance was in some distress, she contrived to lose at
play a sum of money sufficient to supply the necessity of the case,
which was perhaps the only time she touched a card in her whole
life. She possessed in an eminent degree the art of giving, [for she
knew how to heighten every favor by the ready and obliging man-
ner in which she conferred it. Indeed to the poor she seemed a
ministering angel. Her goodness prevented their requests ;* and
smiles, gentle language, and the warmest expressions of good-will,
always accompanied her substantial acts of mercy. The distressed
were encouraged to d^close all their wants by the kindest assurances
of relief, and she treated them with the sweetness and easy goodness
of a friend rather than the superiority of a benefactress ; nor was
she inclined to take offense at the appearance of ingratitude in her
dependents. When she chanced to overhear some unthankful poor,
who sat down at her servants' table, murmur at their food, though
she had fed upon the same herself, she only put this gentle construc-
tion on their behavior, "That they expected something better than
ordinary at her table;" and she was so far from resenting this inde-
cent delicacy of appetite, that she did not even at that time omit the
alms she usually gave when indigent persons were entertained at her
house.
It is truly astonishing how the moderate estate Mrs. Rowe possess-
ed could supply such various and extensive benefactions ; and her
own sense of this once broke out to an intimate friend. " I am sur-
* " These hands will shortly be stiff and useless in the grave, that are now capa-
ble of distributing to the necessities of the poor and afflicted, if thou wouldstgive
me the glad commission. 0 send me the ready messenger of consolation to then-
wants and distress! Hear their blessings and prayers for me! Betbre they asked I
have heard their wants." — A passage in her manuscript Devotions.
228 MEMOIRS, &C.
prised," said she to her, " how it is possible my estate should answer
all these things, when I consider what I do, and yet I never want
money." This she only spoke to give honor to the divine blessing,
which, as she was wont to acknowledge with great piety, protect-
ed her from losses, and succeeded all her affairs ; for it would be
extreme injustice to interpret her expressions of gratitude to the good-
ness of Providence in a different manner, since her great care to
conceal her charities from the observation of mortals, gives the high-
est evidence that no love of human applause tainted the purity of her
benevolent dispositions.
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THE COUNTESS OF SEAFIELD
Anna, Countess of Seafield, the eldest daughter of Sir William
Dunbar of Durn, son to the Laird of Grangehill, and Janet Brodie
his wife, grandchild of the Lord Brodie, was born in the year 1672,
and bred up virtuously from her infancy by her parents, and particu-
larly by her grandmother, Lady Dunbar, who was a virtuous and pi-
ous woman, and took care to instil into her grandchild's mind a sense
of piety and devotion from her very infancy. There appeared in her,
from her childhood, a sweetness of temper and disposition which
made her agreeable to all that saw her, and which was always ob-
servable in her to the last.
When she was a young girl with her parents, her mother wonld
have had her learn housewifery ; but her inclination led her rather to
read, and therefore she stayed mostly in her closet, and gave herself
much to reading, and still avoided the company of the servants, hav-
ing an abhorrence of the profaneness and ribaldry with which they
are ready to defile one another's ears, and pollute their hearts. And
in this sense, one's great enemies are oftentimes those of one's own
house ; and children, in their younger years, are greatly corrupted
by the example and speeches of servants.
Her parents, knowing how ready young people are to corrupt one
another, and that one of the best means to keep them from evil is to
preserve them from the occasion of it, chose not to send her to the
city, to the women's schools, according to the ordinary custom, there
to be trained up in the things which become those of her own age
and quality to learn ; but to keep a virtuous woman within their
house to attend their daughter, and instruct her in such things as
were fit for her to learn.
She began very early to read good and devout books, and took de-
light to hear them read to her ; and when a portion of some of them had
been read, she would retire to her closet, and was often observed
there on her knees in prayer to God. When she was about eight
years of age, while reading the Holy Scriptures, she happened to
read these words, " the wicked shall be turned into hell, and all the
nations that forget God." On which, reflecting on her own sinful
state, she was struck again with great terror, looking on herself as
one of those against whom this is threatened. In this state her
grandmother did greatly comfort her ; and when she would be in the
greatest anguish, these two passages of holy Scripture gave cure and
relief to her spirit : " One day with the Lord is as a thousand years :
and a thousand years as one day. When the wicked turneth away
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from his wickedness which he hath committed, and doth that which
is lawful and right, he shall save his soul alive." However, the deep
impression of this threatening remained on her spirit for several years.
When she was with her parents, her mother happened to be visit-
ed with a severe and long sickness, during which she constantly at-
tended her, and ministered to her in every thing, sitting up by her in
the night to serve her ; and the seeing her mother so afflicted, and
the apprehensions of her death, and the solitary nights she spent in
attending her, made her very thoughtful ; so that she employed them
much in reading the Scriptures and devout books, and came thereby
to have a deep sense of her duty to God, and received her parent's
blessing for her so pious care of her ; of the good of all which she
was afterwards very sensible.
In the sixteenth year of her age she was married to the Hon.
James Ogilvie, second son to the Earl of Findlater, who was after-
wards created Earl of Seafield, and whose eminent parts appeared
in the discharge of two great offices of state, that of secretary of state,
and that of lord high chancellor, to which he was advanced in this and
the last reign, first to the one, and then to the other; and that for
two several times, continuing in the last till the late union of both
kingdoms into one, of Great Britain.
When he came first to ask her for his wife, her father having told
her of it the night before, some of her acquaintances pressed her to
look out of her window to see him while he alighted, for she had nev-
er seen him, but she would not do it. When he first addressed her,
she gave him no other return but that she was to obey her parents,
and be directed by them. When all was agreed to, he made her
a present of a rich diamond ring, but she would by no means accept
of it till the marriage was solemnized : she considering that many
have been contracted, who have not been married together : and
that if it should so happen with her, such a present could not be
kept, and therefore she chose rather not to accept of it.
The entering into the married state so young, where she foresaw
so many difficulties, made her very thoughtful, and therefore she had
recourse to God, and begged earnestly counsel and direction from
him. And this she said she did afterwards in all her difficulties, and
that she found God was pleased to direct her and bring her through
them, she knew not how.
When she was first married, her husband had no plentiful fortune
in the world, although he had the prospect of being his father's heir,
his elder brother, though alive, being very infirm ; yet the estate of
the family was under such burdens, that it was scarcely better than
none at all. This made her give great application to a careful and
prudent management ; and their worldly wealth still increasing, and
God blessing them with a plentiful fortune, and her husband being
for the most part from home, and committing to her the care and
management of his own estate, she did it with great application and
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fidelity. She looked on herself as the steward of it for her husband,
and that she was obliged to be faithful to her trust.
When her first son was born, being of a thin body, she was pre-
vailed with to give him to be nursed by another woman, who proving
a very bad nurse, occasioned much sickness to the child, which
brought him to the gates of death, for which the mother had deep re-
morse ; and having met with the same affliction in her second child,
for which she was touched with like trouble, she resolved afterwards
to nurse her own children, which she accordingly essayed in the next
child, her present eldest daughter; but, after two months' suckling,
she became so weak that she was forced to give it over.
Though her husband was for the most part, always abroad, being
employed in the public affairs, yet she kept still at home, being care-
ful to educate and bring up her children in virtue and piety, and
looked well to the ways of her household, and ate not the bread of
idleness : a rare example for the ladies of this age.
She was most careful to nip the first buds of vice that appeared in
her children, and to pull them up by the root. She still inculcated
to them the heinousness of their disobedience to God, and their sin-
ning against him, and would not forgive them the offense they had
done, till they had first earnestly begged pardon of God. And she
made them still conceive that the reason of their obedience to her
commands, was because it was the will of God, and he commanded
it. Her eldest son, in his childhood, when about five or six years of
age, having learned from the servants to take the name of God in
vain, she wrought in him such a sense of the baseness and heinous-
ness of that crime, that ever afterwards he had a horror of it. At
another time, about the eighth or ninth year of his age, she having
given him a little money to carry to a beggar whom she saw at the
gate, he was tempted by a boy of the same age with himself, to buy
figs with it. This coming to her ears, she so laid before him the
heinousness of this sin, the greatness of the theft he had committed in
robbing the poor, the dreadfulness of the account he must have to
give at the last judgment for this uncharitableness, when we shall be
judged by Jesus Christ according to our charity or want of it ; and
did so inculcate upon him the thoughts of death and judgment, heav-
en and hell, as made him to tremble, and gave him a deep sense of
that charity and compassion which we ought to have for the poor and
miserable. There was nothing she was more careful to curb in her
children than the least inclination to lying or deceit. She was also
careful to suppress in them the least inclination to pride and self-con-
ceit. And when she found them lifted up, she would take occasion
to humble them, and so to point out to them their faults as to mortify
their pride.
Though it was still her care to make no shew in her devotion, and
not to be seen of men ; yet, for the most part, she constantly retired
thrice a day for prayer and meditation on the holy Scriptures ; and
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and in particular on the Lord's-day in the afternoon ; and frequently
took in some one of her children with her, keeping her child under
her arm while she prayed with great devotion ; and afterwards would
sit down and speak seriously to the child of the obedience and love
he owed to God, the duty of depending upon him, and having re-
course to him by prayer on all occasions, repenting and confessing
his sins before him. And she would then reprove him mildly of any
particular faults she thought he was guilty of, and recommend to
him the particular duties he ought to perform ; and especially to em-
ploy the Lord's-day in reading and meditating on the holy Scrip-
tures and in prayer. She would then dismiss the child to get by
heart a portion of a psalm, or some other part of the holy Scripture ;
and after she had ended her own devotions, would call in the child
again, and take an account of it. She accustomed the children,
from their infancy, to pray morning and evening, and recommended
to them, before they fell asleep, to call to mind some passage of
Scripture, and meditate upon it ; and when they awoke in the morn-
ing, to do the same.
About a year after their marriage, they came to live with the Earl
of Findlater, her husband's father, at his house of Cullen ; where,
the Countess of Findlater being deceased, the whole care of the fam-
ily was committed to her ; in the management of which she discov-
ered a wonderful prudence and discretion, far beyond what could
have been expected from a young lady of eighteen years of age.
There were in the family, besides the lady and her own husband,
the Earl of Findlater, his eldest son Lord Deskfoord, the earl's
two daughters, both of them older than herself, and a younger son :
and these were of such different tempers and interests, that it was
not easy to oblige one without disobliging the other ; and yet this
young lady so lived among them, as to obtain the esteem and good-
will of all, and to avoid a concern in their little quarrels and resent-
ments. She heard them complain of each other, without offending
the person complained of, and was displeasing to none of them.
The Earl of Seafield had been in public office several years, both
in Edinburgh and London, before he obliged his lady to leave her
country-house to come to live with him at court or in the city. The
ladies used to express their surprise why she lived still in the coun-
try, and concluded her lord was ashamed to bring her to the court
and the city, because of her rural breeding. They earnestly pres-
sed him to bring her up, and they pleased themselves with the fan-
cy of the sport and divertisement they should have in the manners,
speech, conversation, and behavior of a country lass, and how odd
she would look when she was out of her element. She knew not
what it was to disobey her husband ; and as she was well pleased to
live in the country as long as he saw it fit, so she made no scruple,
upon his call, to come to the city. Before she came first to Edin-
burgh, she had never been in a town so remarkable as Aberdeen,
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and therefore one would think everything might seem strange to her;
but, on the contrary, she did not appear at all affected with the nov-
elty of things. When the ladies and others came to visit her, they
were surprised to find how much they had been mistaken in their
opinion of her, and that, instead of rural manners, they beheld a lady
endued with all the valuable accomplishments of the breeding of a
court and city, and tainted with none of their vices. Her behavior
towards others was so courteous, that never any one who saw her,
of what quality soever, thought her wanting in the respect due to
them. Whatever occasions offered of doing good offices to others,
she was ready to embrace them. In conversation she had an easi-
ness of expressing herself in proper words, without the least affecta-
tion. She was so well versed both in ancient and modern history,
and in the present state of Europe, and in matters of religion, that no
subject of conversation did usually occur to which she was a stran-
ger. She had nothing of the coquetry of the age ; her behavior in
all things was perfectly modest and unaffected ; and both in Scotland
and England, in the opinion of the most discerning persons, she ob-
tained the character of one of the most accomplished ladies in Brit-
ain, and had the good will and esteem of all ranks of people.
The Earl of Seafield being engaged in the interest and service
of the court at the time when the discontents of the nation swelled to
a great height, he became one chief butt of their displeasure, which
is the ordinary fate of ministers of state. His lady on all occasions
stood up for the honor and interest of her husband, and to vindicate
him from the reproaches cast upon him ; and yet, nevertheless, re-
tained the general good will, so that when the rabble arose at Edin-
burgh with respect to Darien, and broke the glass windows, and did
other indignities to houses which wanted illuminations ; though there
were none in the Earl of Seafield's house, where his lady then was,
and though they were on their march to commit insolencies there ;
yet, upon a suggestion made them that none was there but this virtu-
ous lady, and that it would be ungenerous to treat her indiscreetly,
they turned their course another way.
In the year 1706, her lord being then Chancellor of Scotland, and
about to return from court, and having desired her to meet him at
Edinburgh against such a time, while she was making ready for the
journey, she was seized suddenly in her closet, at the moment when
she was employed in preparing to receive the sacrament on the next
Lord's-day, with a violent vomiting of blood, which returned more
than once, and brought her to the very gates of death. God was
pleased to call her, not only by this sudden and unexpected stroke,
but by the checks and motions of his Holy Spirit; and she was struck
with a deep sense of God's wonderful mercies to her, and of her
abuse of them. She had before her the prospect of death and eter-
nity, and felt how unfit she was to enter into it. On the review of
her whole life, though she had not been guilty of what the world
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would account heinous crimes, yet she found that she had been seek-
ing herself and her own reputation more than God ; and saw what a
difference there was between that virtue which is founded on true hu-
mility and the sincere love of God, and is the work of his grace and
Spirit, and that which is only the effect of self-love. She was struck
with deep remorse that in all things she had sought herself more than
God, and by ardent prayers implored his mercy and compassion for
Christ Jesus' sake. And while she was in the extremity of weak-
ness, she caused her eldest daughter to read to her the fifth chapter
of Matthew, and made so excellent a discourse on the eight beati- .
tudes therein contained, that it greatly affected and left a deep im-
pression on the spirits of all who were present. She devoted herself
wholly to God, and begged earnestly, if it were his holy will, that
he would be pleased to spare her yet awhile, even but for one year
more. The Lord heard her prayer, and, beyond the expectation of
all, she was restored to health, and had the least she desired grant-
ed her, so that her soul was full of devout adoration. And in this
divine frame and disposition of spirit, she wrote meditations on the
Lord's prayer, which, when she perused them, served to enkindle her
devotion.
The whole of these meditations are inserted in the manuscript. A
few extracts from them will serve to mark their character.
" O holy Lord God, come then and rule in my heart. Be my
king, and establish thyself a throne in my affections ; and govern my
will, that I may be a most obedient subject unto thee. O hasten the
day when all knees shall bow before thee, and all tongues shall con-
fess thy name, when the gospel shall shine gloriously, and Jew and
Gentile shall, in their heart and practice, acknowledge the Messiah,
and turn their affections to the great and mighty God."
" O God, I desire to give up my will unto thee, and let thy will
be done in and by me ; and not only in me, but in all that is mine.
0 pull down every thought that raiseth itself in disobedience to thee,
and every base imagination, that thy will may be fully obeyed, not
only by me, but in all the earth. Give thy enlightening Spirit, that
thy will may be known, and that it may dissipate the thick clouds of
iniquity that darken or go between thee and us. Lord, let me no
longer satisfy myself with praying, Thy will be done ; but by an ac-
tual giving myself to be guided by thy revealed will, and by submis-
sion to thy providential will, may I follow thee in all thy steps."
" Lord Jesus, thou art the bread of life : give me that bread which
shall feed me to life everlasting ; and grant, that as I cannot live with-
out a dependence on thee, so may I never desire to live without it,
but that the eyes of my soul may be always looking towards thee,
and receiving with thankfulness my temporal and spiritual food from
thy hands. O that I could give my heart entirely to thee ! Lord,
1 am a poor defiled wretch ; but it is by thy blood I must be cleans-
ed, whose I am, and to whom I do resign myself, soul and body, and
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all that is mine. This is but what gratitude obliges me to, since he
gave himself for sinners, of whom I am the chief."
" O holy Lord Jesus, grant that my passions may be subdued to
thee, and that all my revenge and anger may be against sin ; that I
may strive, through thy strength, to root it out of my heart, that I may
be a declared enemy to the devil, the world and the flesh, whom I
renounced in my baptism, and have declared war against often in
the vows which I have made to thee."
" O keep me from relying on any thing but Christ, and him cru-
cified, and on thy abounding mercy. O holy Lord God, purge me
from sin, and pardon the sins of my holy duties, my wandering and
vain thoughts in prayer. O take away my hardness and stupidity of
heart ; possess my will, and fill my affections ! Thou art the only ob-
ject that is worthy of all love ! Thou only canst satisfy a right placed
affection !"
These are the excellent meditations which this lady then formed
on this divine prayer ; and they manifest not only the clearness and
exactness of her thoughts, but also the deep sense and feeling of her
heart with respect to the greatness and goodness of God, and the
infinite obligations she had to love him with all her heart, and her
great undutifulness to so good a God, and the hopes she had in his
mercy through Jesus Christ, to which she flies, yielding up her will
wholly unto his, and resolving in the strength of his grace to live
from henceforth wholly unto him, that he might reign and rule in her
heart, and no idol might find any place there. Nothing of this was
known till a few days before her death, when she desired one of her
maids to look for such a paper in her cabinet, and bring it to her, that
some parts of it being read to her she might the more reproach herself
for not having walked answerably to such powerful calls, and such
solemn engagements.
The Countess of Seafield continued in a tolerable state of health
for about a year after her former sickness; and she was then seized
again with the same malady, and had the sentence of death in her-
self, that she might not trust in herself, but in God who raiseth the
dead. She was deeply sensible how far short she had come in an-
swering her former call from God, and her engagements to him ; and
she had recourse to his infinite mercy, begging he would yet spare
her to recover strength, before she went hence. Her prayer was
again heard and her spitting of blood was stayed. Recovering some
degree of bodily health, and being desired by her lord to see him at
Edinburgh, public affairs requiring his return to court, she went thith-
er and staid for some time. She was here seized with a violent
cough, which continued till she was delivered of a son. For a few
days after this, she was more easy ; but in a little time the cough and
the hectic returned with more violence than ever.
Soon after her return home, being low in health and in agony of
mind, she happened to read that passage of holy Scripture, 1 Thcss
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v. 16. "Rejoice evermore, pray without ceasing, in everything
give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning
you." She was thereby greatly comforted ; and the duty of contin-
ual resignation to the will of God, and of continual prayer to him,
was thereby so pressed upon her, that she was led to more frequent
prayer, and to the entire surrender of her heart to God. She com-
plained indeed, of frequent distractions, but she begged that He would
accept the will for the deed ; and in all her agonies and troubles she was
enabled to resign herself to the divine will, and to comfort herself thus :
" His wrath endureth but for a moment. In his favor is life. Weep-
ing may endure for anight, but joy cometh in the morning."
Some weeks after she was brought to bed, being under great pain
and weakness of body, and agony of spirit, she asked her son, what
apprehensions he had of death, when of late he was so low in his
health at London and given over by the physicians, whether he
thought he should then die ? be replied, that he had not at that time
any positive impression on his spirit that he should then die, as she
seemed to have, but was very uncertain what the event might be.
On this, she asked what he then thought of himself in case he should
die ? To which he answered, that when he considered his own great
impurity, and called to mind many instances of it, and also of his great
ingratitude to God, notwithstanding God's tender and continual care
of him, he judged that it was hardly possible he should ever be ad-
mitted into his presence, or have any communion with him ; but that
when he was in these thoughts, he happened, in reading his Bible,
to meet with this passage of Scripture : " But let us who are of the
day be sober, putting on the breast plate of faith and love, and for
an helmet the hope of salvation ; for God hath not appointed us to
wrath, but to obtain salvation by our Lord Jesus Christ, who died for
us that we may live with him ;" that this immediately encouraged him
to hope that, through the merits of Jesus Christ, his sins might be
done away, and greatly comforted him ; and that afterwards, look-
ing a little farther, he observed these words : " Rejoice evermore :
pray without ceasing : in every thing give thanks : for this is the will
of God in Christ Jesus concerning you :" which words suggested to
him how great reason he had to be thankful for whatever might be
the will of God concerning him, since God had ever been so good to
him, notwithstanding his ingratitude and impurity ; and since his will
could not but be the best, that therefore he should never let grief or
melancholy prevail over him, but should comfort himself with his
being commanded to rejoice evermore, and in every thing to give
thanks ; and that in all his infirmities of body and heaviness of mind,
and temptations from the devil, the world, and the flesh, he should
always have recourse to the remedy which God himself had prescri-
bed to him, viz. to pray without ceasing. He added that on many
occasions afterwards, when he happened to be in any of those cir-
cumstances, the remembrance of these passages of Scripture had
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comforted and supported him. On this his mother expressed a great
deal of joy and said, that when she herself, in the last winter, had
been weak in health, and in great anguish of mind on his account,
the same passages of Scripture had greatly refreshed her spirit. She
confessed she had been far from rejoicing in God's will, and praying
without ceasing ; but she hoped God would mercifully look upon her
infirmities, while she resolved, forgetting what was past, to do the
best for the future.
She had now a prospect of her approaching end, and applied
wholly to prepare for it. She abandoned the concern of all other
things and was taken up wholly with the thoughts of death and eternity.
She often said, that it was quite a different thing to meditate on death
at a distance, and to behold it just at the door. She was struck with a
deep sense of her undutifulness to God, of the misspending of her
time, of her having been an unfaithful steward of what he had com-
mitted to her trust, of her unfaithfulness to her former calls and sol-
emn engagements, and that now, when the cry was to go out and
meet the Bridegroom, she might have had oil in her lamp but she
had slumbered and slept. She continued for several days in great
distress of mind, judging and condemning herself, confessing that
she had sought to please herself more than God, and that self-love
and the cares of the world had occupied her thoughts more than God
and that she was not worthy of any regard from him. Thus she
poured out her soul before God day and night, through a deep sense
of her sins and a dread of the divine judgment; often saying, " There
is no peace to the wicked, saith my God." And being told by some
who visited her, that no repentance was acceptable to God, but that
which flowed from the true love of God, and not from self-love and
the dread of hell, and she, doubting if hers was any thing else, was
ready to despond. And when to comfort her it was told her that
she had led a very virtuous life, and so had no reason to entertain
such fears, she said it was far from being so, and that she had sought
only to please herself.
Being in this state, and bewailing to one her sinful condition, and
that although God had preserved her from gross and scandalous sins,
yet when she placed herself in God's presence, and beheld his puri-
ty, she saw in herself nothing but vileness, having sought only to
please herself, and not God ; it was said in reply, that she had rea-
son to bless God, who had opened her eyes to see her own sinful-
ness, and that this was a token of his great mercy to her ; though
her sins were great and many, yet the Lord was " not willing that
any should perish, but that all should come to repentance." " He
came not to call the righteous but sinners to repentance." She saw
with what compassion Jesus treated sinners, while he was upon
earth. " Daughter, be of good comfort, thy sins are forgiven thee."
" But," said she, " I have misspent all my life ; and now no more
time remains for inc." It was told her that neither the greatness nor
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the multitude of sins would exclude from God's mercy those who
should seek him and turn to him with all their hearts ; and that al-
though her time was now short, yet she ought to consider that not
only they who were called at the third, sixth, aud ninth hours receiv-
ed their penny, but he also who was called at the eleventh. She
said, that " God had some years ago mercifully called her, and had
she answered that call, she might have been a grown Christian before
now, but she had slumbered and slept." It was told her that she
had great reason to deplore this ; but such was the infinite goodness
and mercy of God, that he continued yet to call her : " Behold, I
stand at the door and knock ; if any man will hear my voice, and
open the door, I will come unto him." — " O my God," she said, "I
would open my heart wholly to thee : come and take possession of it."
Some, it was further argued, who had been powerfully called, and yet
had afterwards not only slumbered but fallen into grievous sins, have
been again called and found mercy. David had been called in his
youth, yet afterwards fell into grievous sins ; but God had mercy
on him, and granted him the grace of repentance and pardon. Pe-
ter was called to be our Lord's disciple, and followed him, but yet
afterwards denied his Lord ; and when his Lord looked on him, he
went out and wept bitterly : and we see with what compassion our
Lord treated him : he did not so much as upbraid him with his sin,
but said, " Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me ? feed my sheep."
" I do not," she observed, " in the least distrust the mercy, the
boundless mercy and compassion of God, but the deceitfulness of
my own heart, which makes me think I am penitent, when perhaps
it is only the fear of hell which affects me ; and should I recover
again, I should again slumber and sleep." You have indeed reason
to distrust yourself, it was said to her, and we are bid to work out
our salvation with fear and trembling ; but he that will judge you is
the Lord who died for you. Therefore you are to resign yourself
wholly to your merciful God and Savior, and to labor, by his grace,
to have the present temper of your heart all contrition, all love, all
adoration. God of his mercy has given you this disposition at pres-
ent, and he will not break the bruised reed, nor quench the smoking
flax, until he bring forth judgment unto victory. He now has given
you a heart to adore and love him, and to abhor and hate yourself
for having been so undutiful to him. It is God who worketh this ho-
ly disposition in your heart, and will perfect it unto the end : and as
to your fear, in case your health be restored, of returning to a state
of slumber, the Lord will either strengthen you to resist temptations,
if he see it is for his glory to continue you longer in this life, or he
will remove you out of the hazard of temptation. " His will," she
said, " be done ! I have often entreated the Lord to give me a token
of his favor before I go hence ; but he leads me through this dark
path of the valley and shadow of death." It was replied to her,
you have no reason to murmur at this, but to bear it with patience.
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You are not worthy of any comfort here ; and therefore, if he think
not fit to grant you any in this dark path, his will be done. If he see
it expedient for you, he will not fail to grant it at last ; but this is the
time of your trial, and God sees it fit to visit you, not only with bodi-
ly afflictions but also with affliction of spirit, for your greater purifi-
cation, and to wean your heart from the love of the world and of your-
self, and to make you more humble, and to let you see the vanity of
all earthly things, which can give no ease to a wounded spirit, and to
make you thirst the more earnestly for God, and feel that nothing can
satisfy you without him. Besides, the graces you are to labor after
are Faith, Hope (not Assurance,) and Charity. So in the midst of
this darkness, you must still hope in God, even against hope, resign
yourself wholly to him, and ardently love him. They tell of one of
the fathers of the desert, that a devout young man having committed
himself to his conduct, to be trained up by him in a divine life, the
devil, transforming himself into an angel of light, appeared to the fa-
ther, and bid him be no longer solicitous in training up that youth,
for he was ordained for eternal torment. The old man was exceed-
ingly distressed at this ; which the youth observing, entreated to
know the cause of his grief, and having learnt it, he said, " O let not
this trouble you, good father ; for whatever may become of me here-
after, I will only set myself to love my God the more ardently while
here, and to praise him and rejoice in his goodness." At last the
old man was convinced it was a delusion, and was comforted. The
countess then said, " O my good God, I will ever praise thee ; I
will never cease to praise thee ; I hope only in thy mercy, and in the
merit of my blessed Redeemer ; I resign myself wholly to thee ; I
will never cease to love thee ; O take the full possession of my heart,
and never let any creature enter there any more !" You must not,
it was again said to her, be discouraged if the Lord should not pres-
ently grant your request. Remember the Canaanitish woman. Je-
sus at first seemed to take no notice of her, and, when prevailed
upon to speak to her, he seemed to deny her request. Yet this was
but to make her faith and prayer the more ardent. Be not then dis-
couraged, but wait for God : blessed are all they that wait for him.
" O what reason have I," she said, " to wait for my God, who has
waited for me so long, whose patience and long suffering have been
so great towards me! Yes, my God, I will wait: thy will be done,
not mine !" Besides, it was added, you must not despond, though
God should not think fit to grant you any token of his favor in this
world ; for our Lord Jesus, to support his followers under such in-
ward darkness and trials, was pleased, even upon the cross, to suffer
the eclipse of the light of his Father's countenance, so that this in-
ward cross of spirit was more painful than the outward one ; which
made him cry out, " My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me ?"
If he who knew no sin yet became sin for us, underwent such ago-
nies to bring us to God, why should we think it strange if God should
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see fit thus to bruise us, that the old man, self, and corrupt nature,
may be crucified in us ? On this, the countess said, " O my Savior,
was this thy state ; O why should I complain, who deserve not the
least favor ? Did Jesus on the cross cry out, as one forsaken of his
God, and shall I complain at wanting the sense of his favor ? O my
God, I resign myself wholly to thee : thy will be done, not mine.
Thou canst do nothing amiss. I cast myself down at his feet : if I
perish it shall be there. Though he slay me yet will I trust in him.
I will never cease to praise him, never cease to love him."
These conversations passed about ten or twelve days before her
departure out of this life ; and it pleased God to give her from that
time a more quiet resignation to his will, and a humble hope in his in-
finite mercy, and her heart seemed always with God and in a divine
frame. She had a profound view of the purity of God, combined
with a deep sense of her own vileness ; and these considerations made
her sometimes despond, as being wholly unfit for communion with
God. But she would be again comforted, and say, " yet my tongue
shall never cease to praise him while I have a being." She had
deep views also of the approaching judgment ; so that when spoken
to about worldly affairs, she would say, " what signifies all this to
me ? I am shortly to appear before my Creator and Judge."
After having been asked about her spiritual taste, or after silent
prayer to God, she would sometimes express great spiritual delight ;
but she would then check herself under an apprehension that she was
deluding herself, and say, that it was nothing but passion (meaning
natural emotion) in her, and not a true settled principle of religion,
for she had often had such fits of devotion before. She therefore
begged earnestly that God would settle a solid principle of religion in
her heart ; that Christ might dwell in her heart by faith, and she
might be rooted and grounded in divine love. She never tasted any
thing without begging God's blessing, or having some ejaculation, as,
" Most blessed God, I do not deserve this, who am an unworthy
wretch : but thou art good and dost good : Lord, give me thy bles-
sing with it !"
She had a deep sense of her sins, and was desirous to take shame
to herself, and to acknowledge them before all, expressing great in-
dignation against herself on account of them. " What value I," said
she, " my reputation ? I will confess my sins for they are great and
many. I am sorry that any one should have thought me good. I
loathe and abhor myself for my sins." There were two sins which
she especially acknowledged with great grief and indignation against
herself. One was, the misspending of her time, in being so much
taken up about the cares and concerns of the world ; the other, in
extending her pity and her hands so little in the relief of the poor.
She said, that when first married to her husband, their circumstances
were but mean in the world ; yet God had since blessed them with a
plentiful fortune, and that she had not, as she ought to have done3
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clothed the naked, and fed the hungry, and relieved the miserable ;
and though it was true she looked upon herself as intrusted with all
by her husband, yet both of them ought to have considered that they
were but stewards intrusted by God, and she might have relieved the
necessitous without wronging her husband. She entreated, that
whoever thought themselves wronged by her, they would let her
know it, and she would make reparation according to her power.
When any of the neighbors came into the room where she was, she
would ask them if she had wronged them in any thing, and desired to
know it, that she might repair it. She called for some written obli-
gations she had received of several persons, and cancelled them, de-
livering them up to them.
She was most patient in her trouble, had nothing of fretfulness, but
was calm and easy to all about her. She refused no medicine that
was offered to her, however disagreeable to the taste, and although
she had a strong aversion to all drugs. She labored in every thing
to deny herself.
She expressed an ardent love to God, and desired to be wholly
his, and prayed that he might take the entire possession of her heart.
She would often say, " O my God, take thou the full possession of
my soul : shed abroad thy love in my heart : fill it with thy love : let
there be no room for the world : let nothing of this world obtain ad-
mission, O thou my God, my Lord, my all!" She often repeated
these words, " Peace on earth, good will to men : O how great is thy
good will towards men !" She said she loved all the world, all man-
kind, all her neighbors, and only hated herself.
About six or seven days before her death she sent for her children,
that she might give them her last advice and blessing. To her
son, Lord Deskfoord, she said, that he must be as a mother to the
rest, and see to their education ; and prayed that God would bless
him and direct him in all his actions. If there were any worldly
thing she desired, it was that the family might stand in his person.
But, checking herself, she said, " we ought not to seek worldly things
of God, and that she was not worthy that there should be the least
remembrance of her after death." She only begged, therefore, that
God would give him a heart in every thing to love and fear him.
To the Lady Betty she said, she had been her idol from her infancy,
and that she had loved her but too well. As she must now be mis-
tress of the family, she bid her labor for a serious and compos-
ed temper of mind. She urged it upon her never to be idle, but
always to be employed, and to spend much of her time in praying
and reading devout books. She bid her also be kind to her sister,
as, notwithstanding the badness of her temper, she had a particular
kindness for her. Above all things, she charged her continually to
love and fear God, and both in great things and in small to seek
counsel from Him ; and she would see that all her difficulties, on all
occasions, would vanish, and God would give her wisdom without
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her knowing how : and this, she said, she had proved by her own
experience. To the Lady Janet she said, that she had to complain
of her temper as stubborn and perverse. She charged her to be-
come more gentle and kind, and in particular to be affectionate and
attentive to her sister and to seek God with all her heart, and to look
on all the advice given to her sister, as given to herself. To Master
George she said, that as he could not understand any advice she could
give him, she should only pray to God to bless him, and to make him a
good man ; and, calling for his tutor, she charged^ him to instruct
him in spiritual as well as temporal things, and earnestly to inculcate
them on him. Then, looking on them all, she said, " Ye are no more
mine ; ye are God's." After which, turning towards hermother, who
was leaning on the back part of the bed, and observing her very sor-
rowful, and bitterly lamenting her approachingdeath, she said, "Mother
part willingly with me, for you see I have parted willingly with mine."
She was very anxious that her heart should have no attachment
but to God. When some inconsiderate person told her hastily that
my Lord Seafield would be there in a few hours, she felt considera-
ble emotion; but, recovering herself, she said, "What! shall the
creature yet interpose between me and God ? Begone, all ye crea-
tures. I have vowed it. I have renounced you all, and given up
myself to God. I have vowed, O Lord, that I will be entirely
thine. Lord, take thou the full possession of my heart : fill every
part of it with thy love." Formerly, when her husband had returned
home after a|long absence, at the first meeting, her spirits would have
been in such a commotion that she would have fainted away. She
was afraid lest any such weakness should have seized her now, and
therefore still lifted up her heart to God, begging that he would per-
mit no creature to share in it. When her husband came first into the
room where she lay, she received him in a manner which did not dis-
cover any emotion, asked him of his welfare, excused herself as to
conversation because of her deafness, and entreated him to retire to
his chamber to refresh himself after such a wearisome journey ; and
when he had retired, she renewed her ejaculations to Heaven, and
said, " Lord, strengthen my spirit, and preserve my heart from stray-
ing one hair-breadth from thee to any created thing, from thee, my
God, my all." She would often say, " the day of my union with
thee is at hand ; Lord make me ready. If I perish, I will perish at his
feet. I will hold him fast. Though he should slay me, yet will I love
him. My tongue shall never cease to praise him while I have a be-
ing." The second time her lord came to see her, she held out her
hand to him with a smile, and said, "I am no longer yours; lam
God's : God bless you, and make you entirely his."
She was still affected with a deep sense of her having been wanting
in due compassion and charity towards the poor. She therefore
begged of her husband that he would be pleased to erect a hospital
for the maintenance of four poor widows, of good reputation, who
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had children, where they might be maintained, and live with their
children, till those were capable of being put to service or a trade ;
and on the decease of any one of them, another might be put in her
room. To this he readily consented, which gave her no small satis-
faction. She blessed God, who had disposed him to consent to it
so readily. She was in great hopes that her husband, through the
divine grace, should become truly good, which she earnestly begged
of God ; and to this end she urged him to be rid of all public affairs
and attendance on a court, as being the bane of all inclinations to true
and solid virtue.
Her heart was now wholly turned to God and to eternity ; and day
and night, while she waked, for she slept but little, she spent her time
in ardent ejaculations, or in reading or hearing some portion of the
holy Scriptures with great devotion. Her son having about this
time read a letter concerning the love of God, was desirous it might
be read to her, as being well suited to the present disposition of her
heart. Having heard it with great attention, she said she had read it
over two several times before, and wished nothing more than to have
her heart wholly moulded into the love of God : she had always re-
garded the love of God as the essence of religion.
Her fever increasing much at night, on Thursday night she could
get no sleep, and so fell into a little delirium. After a time, how-
ever, she fell asleep, and awoke free from any delirium. Express-
ing the sense she had of her unworthiness and ingratitude to God, a
lady who was present said, she could see no reason why she should
have so ill an opinion of herself, as all who knew her were persuad-
ed that she had led a very good life. To this she replied, that that
arose from their not knowing her. She could wish that all might
know her real character, and might learn, from her example, not to
defer their repentance, but to turn unto God while in health. The
same lady observing that she had great reason to bless God who had
given her such a son, she replied, that she did bless God for what he
was, and prayed that he might be made better, and not to be as those
who put their hand to the plough and look back again. While she
was speaking of her approaching end, and that it was now not far off,
her mother said, she hoped she might still recover. She answered,
" God forbid that I should flatter myself by thinking either that 1
shall live long in this world, or that I have a full assurance of a blessed
eternity ; for I stand I know not how." And turning to her younger
sister she said, " O Jane, Jane, be wise ; deny yourself, take up your
cross, and follow Christ."
That night she caused them to read to her our Savior's farewell
sermon, and then said, " I shall shortly bid farewell to the vanities
of the world, and enjoy him whom my soul loveth." When she
awaked from her slumberings, during which she had been troubled
with vain dreams, she said she should shortly behold the glory of
God : and she begged earnestly that she might have no thought but
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of him, and that he would inspire her with his holy Spirit, that, nei-
ther sleeping nor waking, she might have any unholy or unprofitable
thoughts.
Friday night, the fever still increasing, she fell again into a little
delirium, sleeping none that night. However, in the morning the
delirium left her, and she became quite composed. She had before
been much affected with the parable of the rich man and Lazarus,
and was sensible that God did not always bestow on those he most
loved, plenty of the good things of this life, and that she had not
made that good use of them that she might and ought to have done ;
and therefore, thinking that the meanest things were too good for her,
she desired to be buried in the meanest manner that is used in this
country.
In the afternoon, her fever still increasing, she was seized again
with a slight delirium. During its continuance, prayers were made
for her, of which she seemed insensible. A little time after, one
prayed over her, blessing God that he had turned her heart wholly
unto him, and had taken possession of it, and begging earnestly that
God would rebuke Satan, and cause him to depart from her : her
spirit was immediately composed, and she broke forth into a most
devout prayer and ardent adoration of God, at which all who were
present were greatly surprised. Her husband drawing near to her,
she held forth her hand to him, and then fell into a little delirium again.
It was thought that she was calling for the young infant ; but when
brought she took no notice of him. She was heard to say, " Come,
shew me the way." One present reminded her that Jesus had said,
" I am the way, the truth, and the life ;" and added, that He was
now come to lead her to the Father, and to guide her through this
dark path. And then-he earnestly prayed, that Almighty God, the
Creator of the world, would have mercy on the work of his own
hands; that Jesus Christ, the Redeemer of the world, would save
the soul that he had bought ; that the Holy Ghost, the Comforter,
would support and comfort her in this her last agony. When he had
ended, she broke forth into a divine rapture of adoration and praise
with her last breath : " My Redeemer liveth : praise to the Lord :
Amen. Thou hast promised mercy ; thou wilt not leave me : praise
to the Lord : Amen. Take me by the hand, O my Savior, and lead
me through the dark path unto the Father. O my God, leave me
not. I know, O Christ, thou wilt not leave me. Thou never didst
forsake a soul that was wholly given up to thee : praise to the Lord :
Amen. Heavenly Father, into thy merciful hands I commend my
spirit. Thou knowest that I have forsaken the world, and given my
heart wholly unto thee. Come, and take possession of it. All I had
in the world, they are thine : I give them unto thee ; do thou accept
of them. I trust only in thy mercy, and in the merits of my blessed
Redeemer : praise to the Lord : Amen. Come, Lord Jesus, and
ead me to the Father. Heavenly Father, into thy merciful arms I
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commend my spirit. Amen." With these words she closed her
eyes, and seemed to all present to be yielding up her last breath ;
and thus she continued for some time, her pulse being quite gone.
But in a little time she opened her eyes again, and with an air, as it
seemed, of joy and wonder, she continued looking upwards with a
fixed gaze for near half an hour. By degrees she let her eyes fall,
shut them, and yielded up her last breath. Those who were present
were not a little affected both with her last words and her last looks,
which they all beheld with silent admiration ; and they were led to
think that God had been pleased to grant her the desire of her heart,
some special mark of his favor, in her passing out of this world, and
that she was entered into the joy of her Lord.
From the funeral sermon which was preached on the occasion of
this lady's death, I shall extract a few concluding observations.
" Adored be the infinite mercy and goodness of God for this fresh
instance of a sinner who hath caused joy in heaven by true penitence.
She was a great ornament to her family, sex, and country ; a virtuous
woman, whose price was far above rubies ; — the heart of whose
husband might trust in her ; — who looked well to the ways of her
household, and ate not the bread of idleness; — whose children
rise up and call her blessed ; her husband also, and he praiseth
her ; — who was not vain of her favor, which is deceitful, and beau-
ty, which is vain ; but truly feared the Lord, and therefore ought
to be praised ; — but who, especially in her latter years, and in the
last days of her life, gave such evidences of a truly penitent spir-
it. She then felt the difference between that virtue which has a
vain shew in the world, and yet is founded too much on self-love and
self-seeking ; and that which is founded on a deep and true humility,
divine love, and self-contempt ; — between a heart divided between
God and the world, and a heart wholly devoted unto God. How
much did she abhor herself! How profoundly penitent was she for
her sins ! How was her heart totally weaned from this world, and
wholly resigned unto God ! How ardent were the breathings of her
soul to him ! How humble was her hope in his infinite mercy ! How
often did she say, ' I will cast myself at his feet : if I perish, I will
perish there !' And what an earnest had we of her blessed acceptance
with her heavenly Father and Redeemer, in her last joyful and rap-
turous breathing out of her spirit into the hands of her heavenly Father!
O may we be stirred up to follow such a blessed example of true peni-
tence ! May the children trace this path of their excellent mother !
May they ever remember and practice her last dying counsel ! May
her widowed husband give joy to her spirit, by being united to her in
this spirit of true penitence ! And may we all forsake our evil ways
and unrighteous thoughts, and turn unto the Lord, and he will have
mercy upon us, even to our God, for he will abundantly pardon !
Amen."
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Though this woman, who was born in Edinburgh towards the
close of the seventeenth century, moved in the humble sphere of a
servant, she was rich with respect to vital religion, a star of the first
magnitude. We shall give some extracts from her diary, which dis-
cover lively, fervent godliness. The style is plain and homely, but
the matter substantial and sweet.
" Though I cannot tell the time and place, when and where the
Lord did me first good ; yet this I know, that he began with me very
early, when I was young in years, to incline my heart to seek the
Lord. I wanted not good education from my mother, and likewise
from my aunt, who was a pious woman and took much pains on me.
When I was conversing with my comrades, I would be telling them
what my mother was saying to me, that if I were good, I would
get to heaven. Now, thought I, heaven was such a place, where I
should get fine clothes, and every thing that was excellent.
" This so allured me, that I could have been content to do any
thing to get to heaven : I resolved I would neither swear nor lie, nor
do any thing that was ill; but I would pray and seek the Lord, then
I would be sure to get to heaven ; yet I found a strong inclination in
my heart to break all my resolutions : for, the first temptation that
came in my way to sin, I embraced it cheerfully. I was extraordi-
narily given to play of all sorts, which took my heart wholly up, so
that I thought it a melancholy thing to be religious ; but when I had
gone to my bed I would think, what if I go to hell, where I shall
never come out ? That word never wrought strongly on me : but the
remedy I took to still my conscience was, I would say my prayers 1
learned at the school ; then I was well enough. I cannot distinctly
give an account how 1 spent my time : for some years I satisfied my-
self with the Pharisee's religion, that 1 was not so bad as others ;
but, in the Lord's own time, when he was pleased to send the gospel
among us at the Revolution, then I began more seriously to seek the
Lord ; I left off my form of prayer, and betook me to another way,
which I thought would please God better. I was for a considerable
time under the ministry of Mr. William Erskine : all that I can ob-
serve, during the time he preached among us, was, that I attained to
a great delight in hearing the word, which wrought upon my affec-
tions, that I durst not neglect secret prayer ; where sometimes I
would be very tender, and shed some tears, then I thought there
was no doubt but I was converted. It pleased the Lord soon to re-
move Mr. William Erskine.
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" Then I frequently heard Mr. James Kirkton with a great deal of
delight ; for his sermons were very taking, and I had a good memo-
ry ; so gained applause with those among whom I conversed. This
pleased me extremely, though I knew never what it was to make ap-
plication of any thing I heard. O how great reason have 1 to ad-
mire the goodness of the Lord, that did not send me to the pit in
this selfish condition ! seeking justification by works, never remem-
bering what 1 was by nature. Jn this case I remained until it plea-
sed the Lord to send Mr. George Meldrum to be our minister, in
place of Mr. William Erskine, who was the Lord's messenger to me
indeed : the first time I heard him, I thought I felt something I never
felt before, but knew not what it was : that word was made out
to me, Hos. xi. 1,2, 3. He preached on these words, Joshua,
xxiv. 15. ' Choose you this day whom ye will serve.' — Where he
besought us earnestly, with tears, that we should choose presently,
whom we should serve. He said, ' Many will say, I will do that after-
wards; but few will say, I will choose presently.' He protested he
would not go out of the pulpit till we would give our consent presently to
the bargain without delay. If I rightly remember, this was the first
time that ever I could observe the Lord speaking to me in public.
At this time I thought the Lord made me willing in a day of his pow-
er to choose and consent to serve the Lord. O that I may never for-
get this day !
" After this, I found corruption begin to stir in me ; but, whatever
troubled me, I got it spoken to on the Sabbath day, which struck
me with wonder. I several times resorted to Mr. Meldrum and told
him my case, (though very confusedly) : his converse to me was both
meek and comfortable ; but, particularly, he exhorted me to keep a
record of all the Lord's dealings with my soul, if I could write. I
thought this a strange command ; but I heard the same exhortation
from Mr. John Flint, at Lasswade, on these words, Isa. xliv. 5,
' One shall say, I am the Lord's : and another shall call himself by
the name of Jacob ; and another shall subscribe with his hand unto
the Lord.' This being on a communion Sabbath, he exhorted every
one to write with their hands to be the Lord's. I would fain have
put this exhortation in practice, but knew not how to begin ; it being
presently before the Sacrament in Edinburgh, which was the first af-
ter the Revolution, and the first ever I was partaker of.
. "December 25, 1694. — As all the Lord's ways with me have
been as so many wonders, so I think it my duty to record one dispen-
sation of Providence which I met with this night ; and in so doing,
O that I were as a beacon set up, that others may be aware of these
rocks on which I had almost split, if God had not prevented it; This
night I was sitting alone, thinking on a sermon which I had heard,
and of three remarkable observations, from Matt. viii. 31, 32.
" The first was : The devil will take little before he wants all ; he
lost the man, he is content with the swine. The second is : They
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run fast that the devil drives. The third : The devil brings all his
hogs to an ill market, they ran violently, and perished in the waters.
In the mean time, when I was thinking on these observations, I for-
got one of them ; I desired that God would bring it to my memory
again, which was not granted to me presently. Immediately I was
tempted to atheism, and that strongly ; the temptation was this, there
is no God : it is a vain thing to believe in Christ. And this was
pressed on me by arguments of such a nature, that it is not conven-
ient to record. This temptation struck in me a strange consternation
what to do. If there be no God, from whence proceedeth my being?
In this desperate case I went to prayer, crying, What shall I do,
what shall I do, O Maker of heaven and earth ? I am in a great strait
about thy being : once I thought that thou wast the God of my sal-
vation ; but now it seems that all has been in vain. But while I was
on my knees, musing like one out of their senses, drowned in the
deeps of unbelief; then did the Lord step to my help, and had pity
on me when he saw me sinking. Yea, he took not advantage of my
weakness to destroy me ; but he let his power appear in holding me
up. He brought the observation to my memory which I forgot ; and
then he convinced me of my sins, which filled me with wonder and
admiration. What! might not the Lord have thrown me into hell
for entertaining such hellish thoughts ? Then I betook myself to God
by prayer, that for Christ's sake he would pardon my sin of enter-
taining such a sinful temptation. O but the Lord was condescending
to me ; for he surprised me with his presence ; I got a new confirma-
tion of my interest in Christ, and was made to plead the promise that
he was my God, and my King, and my Redeemer. I dare say it, as
in his sight, I never experienced a sweeter time than this was. It
well becomes me to record it, both for my own comfort and the
good of others. O that I could praise the Lord in my conversation,
and that from this time I might be set apart to serve the Lord for
ever and ever ! This was the strongest assault that ever I met with ;
but glory, glory to God the Father (the offended,) to God the Son
(who was in the offender's stead,) to God the Holy Ghost who
strengthened me with strength, so that Satan got not his will of me
this night, though it was the beginning of sorrow to me indeed, for
this battle of atheism began this night, yet I seemed to get some
victory over it ; but I found the remainders to lie still in my bosom
ready upon every temptation to break forth. After this I fell into an
extraordinary deadness of spirit ; I was sensibly deserted ; I wist not
what to do ; I could tell my case to none, it was so extraordinary :
I had some Christian comrades with whom I frequently conversed to
my great satisfaction ; but I could find none of them in my case,
which made me bemoan the more.
"January 1, 1695. — I was with them in the morning, when they
were conversing about the love of Christ : this wrought a strong de-
sire in me again to know more of this Jesus. Alas ! I was perfect-
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\y ignorant ; I came home, but O I would fain have been at Christ's
school to learn the first lesson of religion ; for I thought I was noth-
ing but a hypocrite, and that all the promises I had got were but
upon condition that I should walk up according to my receipt of mer-
cies ; and, as far as I came short, the promises were not to be made
out to me ; then that word came in mind, where Moses was reprov-
ing the chiding of the children of Israel, he tells them from the Lord,
' That because they had not walked in the ways of the Lord, there-
fore they should know his breach of promise.' Then I thought this
message was expressly to me, which increased my trouble ; think-
ing now, God is at enmity with me, none of the promises belong to
me. In this case I remained till the 12th day, being Saturday ; at
night I went to prayer, but very sadly lamenting my condition, and
crying, O for another offer of a reconciled God in Christ, I would
give all the world ! Upon the morrow, being the Sabbath, our min-
ister, Mr. George Meldrum, took that text, Col. i. 21. ' And you
who were sometime enemies in your minds by wicked works, yet
now hath he reconciled.' Where indeed I had a Christ freely offered
to me ; and he told us, that God had sent him with this message, we
then as ambassadors for Christ, as though God did beseech you by
us, we pray you in Christ's stead, be ye reconciled to God. I must
confess, this minister was many times God's messenger to me, but
especially this day : it was my duty to love and pray for him, that
his Master's message may prosper in all places where he shall be
sent. He delighted in nothing but in preaching Christ, and him cru-
cified. If my heart deceived me not, I thought I got favor with God
this night, and that very comfortably ; but, alas ! it was but a blink
before a shower. Then the tempter came on me again, to make me
misbelieve, and that I was mistaken about favor with God, for all that
I had met with was but mere delusion ; for I was still ignorant ; and
that which grieved me was my sin that I lived under such a clear
gospel-ministry. O ! my ignorance of God and Christ stared me in
the face in such a manner, that it made me cry, I am undone ! I
have been born to be a monument of his displeasure ! O what shall
I do ! God has forsaken me ! O that I had never been born ! for I
get no leave to come to God in prayer as I was wont. Then 1 began
to debate myself out of Christ by many arguments which are not con-
venient to name, but especially that I was but an outside Christian,
for I had nothing but a bare profession ; indeed I had show enough,
and name enough, and tongue enough ; but the inwards of religion I
wanted : I was like a body without a soul. I saw myself lost and
undone ; but, which was worst of all, it did not affect me as it would
have done another ; some would not have slept a sound sleep, but
as for me it never had that effect on me. Notwithstanding all this,
I saw much of God's love to me ; in this especially, that whatever
troubled me through the week, Mr. Meldrum spoke suitably on the
Sabbath, which struck me with admiration ; for if I had told my case
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to him or any other, I should have thought he had got notice of me
some way, but I revealed my mind to none : so that I saw it was the
Spirit of God speaking to me by him. O how sweet and refreshing I
found the Sabbath-days !
"Edinburgh, April 14, 1695. — Being the Sabbath-day. — I may
remember this day with wonder and praise. In the morning, when
I was at secret prayer, I got near access to the throne of grace, and
poured out my heart before the Lord with a great deal of sweetness
and composure of spirit : then that word was brought to my mind,
Deut. xvi. 1. ' Observe the month of Abib ; for in the month Abib
the Lord brought you out of the land of Egypt.' This word was very
suitable to my present circumstance, and I was helped to make ap-
plication.
" After this I came to the place of public worship, where that ser-
vant of Christ, Mr. George Meldrum, preached on Rev. iii. 20.
' Behold I stand at the door and knock ; if any man will hear my
voice, and open the door, I will come in and sup with him, and he
with me.' He observed these four things from the words.
" First, That, by nature, we were all holding Christ at the door,
and would not let him in. 2dly, That it was Christ's work to stand
and knock, though we were obstinate in keeping the door fast. 3dly,
That many unkind answers we give him, and yet he takes not the
first refusal. 4thly, That he is yet willing to make a new offer to all
that will accept of him on his own terms. My memory cannot serve
me to set down every word he spoke distinctly ; but this I am sure,
I thought he told me every thing that I did or thought ; how I had
kept Christ at the door with my unholy carriage and deportment. I
thought nothing, but that I should burst within myself the time 1 was
hearing, it touched my case so near. This was a day of power to
me indeed, as ever I felt.
" It pleased the Lord to give me another occasion of renewing my
former engagements, which were dreadfully broken on my part. I
saw that I could not walk with the Lord ; therefore I must not let
any opportunity pass of giving myself to the Lord. I also was at the
time laboring under the power of a body of sin and death, and saw no
remedy but in Christ.
" There was word of a communion at Prestonpans ; at the hear-
ing of which there arose a vehement desire in my heart to be there,
having experienced the manifestations of his presence formerly. I
was persuaded I had the Lord's call to go there, from these two
scriptures ; ' Seek and ye shall find, knock and it shall be opened
unto you.' The other was, ' Follow the Lamb whithersoever he go-
eth.' I met with some oppositions, which had a tendency to hinder
me to go there ; but the Lord overcame them all. I cannot but re-
mark two of these hindrances : in the first place, I had a tooth-ache,
which distressed me mightily. There was none that thought I would
be so cruel to myself as to adventure on such a journey to-morrow,
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and yet I was firmly resolved I would be there. The other hinder-
ance was, that the weather was extraordinarily boisterous, with great
rains, terrible winds, and thunder ; so that I thought the house would
have been blown down about me that night.
11 On the morrow, when I awaked, the pain of my tooth was quite
gone from me, which I reckoned no small mercy ; but still the wind
continued loud and bitter, which made all the family plead with me
to forbear my going there, but I gave a deaf ear to them all, and
away I came to Prestonpans. When I met with the poor women,
with their burdens of coals and salt on their backs, coming to the
market at Edinburgh, then I thought the badness of the weather does
not hinder these from their earthly market : O what a fool would I
have been, if any thing should have hindered me from the heavenly
market!
" When I came to the place, O how sweet and refreshing were
these Saturday's sermons to me! Mr. John Moncrief was on Exod.
xx. 24. 'In all places where I record my name, I will come unto
thee, and bless thee.' He observed, that ordinances were the trys-
ting-places between Christ and his people : and whoever there was
that had been trysting Christ to come to this communion, if they were
come to keep the tryst on their part, he was also come to keep it on
his part.
"When the minister came to serve the first table he said, 'What
is thy request, queen Esther, and it shall be granted thee?' O then,
my heart cried out, my request is, that the Savior's image may be
stamped on my heart presently. Come, Lord, here is a temple for
thee to dwell in, such as it is ; but do thou to it as thou did to the tem-
ple, whip out all buyers and sellers, and every thing that defileth it.
I have great idols unmodified ; corruptions, which, Haman-like,
strive to overcome me. O make me more holy than ever I was be-
fore, that the image of my Lord may appear in my converse with
others in the world !
" Let me have as near a conformity to thee as ever any attained
to. I this day request for more light in reading thy holy word ; for
as yet it is the darkest book I ever read upon. I also request for my
poor parents, as formerly, and all my Christian acquaintances, min-
isters and people, and for our land in general : and that the gospel
may never depart from Scotland. Come purge thy house of every
thing that hinders thy appearance among the golden candlesticks.
O Lord grant me greater degress of humility, both outward and in-
ward ; for I find my self-conceit sometimes like to overcome me. I
here this day promise, as in thy sight, to stand to thy interest, though
persecution should arise ; and to lay down my life, if thou call for it.
Come, Lord, tie both me and my resolutions to thyself fast, and I
slide not back in trying times, and be not like that son, that said, ' He
would go to work in the vineyards, but went not.' I must confess to
the glory of God, I got great liberty in seeking all these things, both
in public and secret.
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" O but it was a comfortable day to me, wherein my interest in
Christ was as visible to me, as if it had been written in golden letters
before my eyes ! It is impossible for the tongues of men or angels to
declare the joy and comfort I experienced, and wherein I gave my-
self to the Lord ; and in testimony hereof I take myself to witness,
and all in heaven and earth, that I am not my own, but the Lord's."
Written and subscribed at Prestonpans, October 9, 1697.
" The next sacramental occasion I heard of was at Largo in Fife.
I met with oppositions from without to hinder me to go ; but they
were no more to me than the blowing of a feather in the air ; for to
Largo I must go. Another and I took our journey on Friday morn-
ing, and the way was very pleasant, for the Lord helped us to suit-
able converse, inquiring at one another, what our errand was at
Largo ?
" On Saturday morning when we came to the place, Mr. John
Moncrief was on these words, Zech. ix. 9. " Behold thy King Com-
eth unto thee.'
" Then Mr. George Hamilton spoke on these words, Col. ii. 6.
c As ye have received the Lord Jesus Christ so walk ye in him.' As
the one was telling us ' the King was coming ;' so the other exhorted
us i to receive him :' the Spirit of the Lord bearing witness with them
both, that they were sent expressly from their Master, Christ.
" On Sabbath morning the tempter was not idle with me, to dis-
courage and disquiet my spirit, and began to suggest, whether it was
my duty to communicrtte or not ? I answered, I was persuaded it was
my duty, for I got a sharp reproof last communion 1 was at, and did
not partake. But did the devil leave me so ? No, no ; he took
another way with me ; for it was against his will I should communicate
that day ; he wakened up all the devils and corruptions of my heart ;
and when I saw them, I presently concluded I would not communi-
cate that day : and as for my unbelief, it mastered me to such a de-
gree, that 1 could believe nothing, I was so struck with stupidity.
Mr. William Moncrief, who was the minister of that parish, (it being
the first communion that was given there,) being on Matt. xxii.
' Come to the marriage ; for all things are ready ;' in the time he was
delivering these great truths (and wonderful and large were the offers
he made of King Christ that day) there arose the greatest frame
upon the spirits of the people that ever my ears heard or eyes saw :
notwithstanding of all this I remained a stupid, hard hearted creature,
and still the temptation ran with me, it is not true the minister is say-
ing ; and many such suggestions were whispered in my ears by the
tempter.
" When he came to fence the table, I thought he cut me off; for
there was not one sin he mentioned but that I was guilty of it ; yet
there was a secret word borne in on me, ' This is the voice of my be-
loved.' But how shall I testify what a change was wrought in a mo-
ment ? And O that my recording this were for the glory of God, and
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the edification of those that hear of it ! how the Lord suddenly sur-
prised me, when I was not thinking on it, so that 1 was never so sen-
sible of an immediate call from the Spirit of God, as at this time.
" When the minister had declared faithfully who were not worthy
to come to his Master's table, then he came to open his commission,
whom his Master had warranted him to call in ; in which number ]
was, for I heard my name and surname there, and was persuaded of
it, the Spirit of the Lord bearing witness with my spirit to the call,
so as it could not be resisted. And that word came with force and
power, ' Now this is the voice of my beloved ; Arise, my love, my
fair one, and come away.' With that there arose such a vehement
desire in my heart to be at Christ, that I had no patience, but to the
first table I went, where immediately that word came, ' I in you, and
you in me, as the branches are in the tree.' What a frame of spirit J
was in is better felt than told; where my vehement desire was, that
the Lord might imprint his image on my heart, and that the Holy
Spirit might take up an everlasting abode with me, and that I might
have sympathy with the church in all her distresses.
" I cannot but set down some of the words Mr. John Moncrief had
at the table he served : he said, ' Communicants, what hath made all
this weeping among you to-day ? O say some, we are weeping with
Mary, because of an absent Christ. Is this the cause of thy weep-
ing, poor soul ? I shall tell thee, may be ye shall meet with Mary's
comfort : Jesus may be nearer thee than thou knowest of; when she
thought her Lord was gone, he says, Mary ; and presently she was
comforted : Rabboni ! Is this my Lord ? O, but says another, I am
weeping with Peter, because I have denied him. Well, let me say
this to you, may be it shall fare with thee as it did with Peter : Christ
says to Mary, go tell my disciples, and Peter that I am risen. Poor
mourning Peter, he must be comforted. But says another, I am
weeping with Christ himself at Lazarus's grave for love ; the love of
Christ makes me weep. If it be so, may not I then say of you, as
the Jews said of Christ, Behold how the folks of Largo love Christ
to-day !'
" Edinhvrgh, September 11, 1698. — O Lord, this day being set
apart for humiliation and supplication, I desire to join with the rest,
to humble myself under the sense of my own provocations, that I
have had a hand in provoking thee to lay the land desolate. There-
fore, great Lord, though thou make me to perish in the common ca-
lamity, 1 must acknowledge thou art right, for I have sinned. Also
I desire to be humbled under the sense of the family sins in which 1
live ; and that because thou art not worshipped in it by my parents
as thou oughtest to be : therefore, although thou arise in particular
against us with visible judgments, ' thou art righteous, O Lord.' Al-
so I desire to be humbled under the land's sins ; for from the
highest to the lowest, all flesh hath sinned, and made public defec-
tion from thy ways ; and especially in breach of solemn covenam.
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which was the glory of our land, and in shedding the blood of the
saints ; for which we have all reason to mourn : by this thou hast
been provoked, and that justly, to send dreadful plagues among us.
I desire to be humbled for the sins of the real godly amongst us ; and
that because they are not adorners of religion, neither are we bring-
ing forth fruit suitable to the pains taken on us; but thy way is evil
spoken of by the wicked, when they see among the people of God so
much pride, passion, and worldly-mindedness, selfishness, division,
and many other evils; therefore, O Lord, just art thou, though thou
shouldest proclaim over us, what thou proclaimedst over the barren
vineyard, Isa. v. Now, O Lord, justly art thou contending with
all of us : yet let me supplicate thy throne this day, in the name, and
for the sake of the Lord Jesus Christ, with whom I entered into cov-
enant last Lord's day, at Prestonpans, that the judgments thou art
threatening by thy servants, and by thy providential dispensations,
may be done away : nevertheless, if it seem thee good to bring them
on us, O Lord, fit and make us ready for them ; give us strength to
bear the burden, that we do not apostatize and fall away when the tri-
al comes. I supplicate this day, that if thou send thy sore judgments
among us, that they may be mixed with mercy; if thou send famine
among us, and break the staff of bread, then, Lord, give thy Holy
Spirit unto us, that we may learn to feed by faith on the bread of
life. Or, if thou send the sword among us, with a cruel enemy to
avenge thy quarrel ; then, Lord, grant that we may stand stedfast
and faithful to thy cause and interest, that we may not turn aside
for their threatenings. I here this day give myself to thee : my life,
my name, my natural enjoyments, if thou shalt call for them : only
make my call clear, that I be not confused when the trial comes.
And then, if thou give strength, I am content, though thou call me to
a gibbet, or a stake to be burnt, or any other way thou seest meet to
try me with : here I am, do with me what thou pleasest. I have
sinned, be thou glorified, and let me enjoy thee for ever, is all my
desire. Or if thou shalt send that sore judgment of pestilence
among us, then be thou our Physician to heal all our diseases, espe-
cially spiritual ones : only, Lord, whatever be the rod thou art go-
ing to lay upon us, come with it thyself, and then welcome, welcome
is the cross, in whatever sort it be. Now, O Lord, give me the vic-
tory over myself, this weary body of sin and death, which holds me
daily in spiritual bondage; there is no enemy or judgment I am so
afraid of, as this woful natural disposition of mine to all things con-
trary to thy holy law. O let my sinful, selfish nature, from this day,
be like the house of Saul, growing weaker and weaker ; and let the
new nature, which belongs to thee, be like the house of David,
stronger and stronger ; so that I may be strengthened to carry the
cross cheerfully, rejoicing and unweariedly, when thou callest me to
it. Let not my resolutions be like that man's, who came to Christ
and would do any thing to be saved ; and yet, when the cross was
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spoken of, he went away sorrowful ; but I lay my resolutions in thy
hand, to keep them for me against the time of need, acknowledging
my own weakness, for I have neither strength nor will to do any thing ;
but I have chosen thee for my all, and in all, from this time forth,
and for ever ; so let it be. Amen.
" O Lord, thou knowest my requests this day, and at other times,
put up for my father, that thou wouldest work a second conversion on
his spirit, that may send him to Jesus ; for I am afraid that to this day
he is sleeping in a very dangerous condition ; but yet I believe, that
thou hast put words in my mouth for him, so I hope against hope.
As also for my mother, that if thou hast begun the good work in herf
let it appear in her conversation, in changing her affection from things
below, and setting them on things above. As also for my brother,
that a work of grace may thrive in him : Lord, let him see the folly
of spending so much time in seeking this world's trash, and set him
more in seeking the kingdom of heaven. I commit them all to thee,
do with them as seems thee good ; only be thou glorified. As also,
for thy glory's sake, remember this sinful church and nation ; and
when thou comest with thy sore judgments, let them be for purging
and purifying both ministers and people, that they may come out of
the furnace all glorious, that other nations may see thou lovest to
dwell in thy covenanted Scotland. Now, Lord, for Christ's sake,
when thou in wrath visit this land, and although I should fall into the
common calamity, yet let my soul be united to thee in peace ; keep
my faith, and do not suffer me to flinch from the least article of thy
truths, but speak thou for me, when I shall be called to own thee
publicly before the enemy. O let not my self-ends get more room
there than thy glory ! I must end this day with a song of praise, that
the Lord hath been pleased to countenance and accept of an offering
of mine hand ; and that he would put me in a disposition for such a
solemn day, to pour out my requests in the bitterness of my soul.
Let this day be remembered by me, that I may sing glory and praise ;
and that, to eternity, my song may be, to Father, Son, and Holy
Ghost, one God, to him be endless praise and glory, for now and
evermore. Amen.
11 About this time the condition of my father lay very near my
heart, and that because I could see nothing like a change on him to
the better, but particularly on the 7th of January, 1706, it being
Sabbath, I was strangely weighted with it, and was made to plead
the out-making of the promise on his account, that he would shew
wonders to the dead, I having the impression of his death on me,
though at that time he was well in health. I often made use of that
word in prayer, Psal. cxix. ' It is time to work, Lord, it is time for
thee to work.' He is growing old, and wearing near his grave ; O
Lord, let free grace be glorified in his salvation, according to thy
promises.
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" On Thursday next, of a sudden he had a purging of blood ;
and in the afternoon he vomited excessively, so that none thought he
could put off this night ; I knowing nothing of it, for I was not at this
time in my father's house.
" On Friday morning they sent and told me my father was not
well. No sooner I heard this, but I concluded it was his death !
which immediately put me in a praying posture for him, ' that now
free grace might be exalted in his salvation, according to the
promise.'
" The first time I saw him, I told him with tears, that it was death
approaching, and besought him to lay it to heart. He made me little
or no answer, but grievous were the looks he gave me, which sent me
to the throne of grace, inquiring of the Lord what could be the mat-
ter I was sent so many errands for him, both at communions and oth-
er solemn occasions, and so loaded with him for ordinary in prayer,
where I would have got liberty for him, when I could have sought no
other thing, since now they were all like to come to nought ; he on a
death-bed, and no appearance of a work of grace begun yet. This
tossed me up and down in a terrible manner as ever any was. It
was not the loss of him as my parent, that so troubled me ; no, no ;
in this respect I could have parted with him freely ; but the thing that
troubled me was, fearing he would be a cast-away. The thoughts
of this made me utter these words before the Lord in prayer, O
Lord, in the days of thy flesh, some came to thee for their servant,
some for their son, some for their daughter, some for themselves,
and they got all good answers. Now I come for my father ; O de-
ny me not for thy own name's sake !
"About nine o'clock he grew very weak, and his speech failed
him ; then I cried to the Lord to hear my last request for him : I
continued pleading with a troubled and vexed spirit, until it pleased
the Lord, in his great Condescendence, to bear that word in my
mind, Mai. iii. 16. 'He shall be mine in that day that I make up
my jewels ; and I will spare him as a man doth his son that serveth
him.' This brought with it a sweet calm and composure of spirit to
me, so that I came patiently, and saw him depart this life, about
eleven of the clock at night, being the 13th of January, 1700.
" About this time there happened a very lamentable providence in
the city : the 3d of February, about ten at night, a fire broke out in
the Meal-market, the like of which, I believe, was not seen in many
generations : it burnt so vehemently, that it was thought the most
part of the city would have been consumed ; the flames were so ter-
rible, that none durst come near to quench it ; it was also a very
great wind, which blew to such a degree, that, with the sparks that
came from the fire, there was nothing to be seen through the whole
city, but as it had been showers of tire like showers of snow, they
were so thick ; it was to me an emblem of hell, and oftentimes Sod-
om came in my mind that night. O but it was a sad and lamentable
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sight to look upon, to see the most populous place in the city, the
Parliament-square, in a red flame, the flames flying in the elements,
and no hands endeavoring to put them out. I cannot but remark,
that this night these words were fulfilled, which I heard pronounced
against the city by Mr. John Moncrief, in the College-kirk, Sabbath
after the fire in the Canongate-head ; the words were these, Micah
vi. 9. ' God's voice crieth to the city, and the man of wisdom shall
see thy name ; hear ye the rod, and who hath appointed it.'
"I left my place, and went to Jerviswood's family in Edinburgh ;
but Providence so ordered it, that I was sent to the country house,
which was at Melistoun in the south : this was unexpected, but yet I
willingly complied with it. As we were in the way going there, about
the middle of the day I retired a little to the fields secretly, in which
place the Lord gave me a sweet promise that he would be with me,
and revive me as the corn, and as the dew upon Israel ; that I should
grow as the lily, and send forth branches as Lebanon : this encouraged
me in my journey there, where I was kindly received and entertained.
" Now, as for the Lord's way with me in that place, I cannot but
remark, some few days after I came there, the Sacrament was given
at Stichel : to which place I went, and on Saturday I met with very
much sweetness in the sermons, for it was soul comforting news I
heard there. The first text was on these words, in Isaiah, ' I will
pour water on the dry ground, and floods on the thirsty ;' where the
very desire of my soul was spoken to, and I was made to apply it.
The other text was, ' to this man will I look, who is of a broken and
a contrite heart.' This was also a blessed sermon to me, where I
thought the Lord was giving me an invitation to come to his blessed
table to morrow : and accordingly I went ; and blessed be God, he
was not altogether a hiding God : but I got not what I would have
been at. We were very much exhorted to watchfulness, and to be
on our guard, which was very sweet to me in hearing ; but, I may
say it", to my great shame, I had not so much delight in putting it in
practice ; for I soon let my heart wander on trifles of no value ; so
that I soon lost my good motions by my own neglect. But, what
shall I say ? My winter season was lengthened out in a great meas-
ure ; sometimes a fair day and a warm blink ; then presently a storm
on the back of it from Satan, my own corruptions, and a wicked
world ; sometimes light breaks in so as I could read the love of God
in Christ Jesus to my poor soul, and that there shall be an accomplish-
ment of these long delayed promises to my comfort; but then, ere
ever I was aware, darkness came and overshadowed all? so that I
was a prey to unbelief and discouragement. Through this summer
season I had several occasions of communions in that place, for
which I bless the Lord ; and also for our ordinary Sabbath day's ser-
mons, which were very refreshing to me.
" There is another thing I cannot forbear to remark, concerning
my outward affairs in this family : I must acknowledge everyone was
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more civil to me and kind than another, except a French woman who
was in the family ; she was one that was visibly void of religion, as
also her outward behavior was most unsavory and unbecoming ; not-
withstanding of this, I put the best construction upon her I could,
because she was a stranger. This person seemed to have a very
great esteem of me ; and many times she would bless the Lord that
ever she was in company with me : yet I never noticed any thing she
said, knowing her to be a very great liar. But there was one day,
being Sabbath morning, she coming down stairs, singing to a little
dog in her arms, at this I could not wink, but reproved her for so
doing : at which she seemed to be displeased, and wist not what way
to be revenged on me ; but, to make amends for a fault, when we
went to church, she was wholly employed in mocking the minister,
and shooting out her finger in time of sermon, so that a great many
in the kirk took notice of her, were mightily offended, and told me,
they wondered that such a person should be allowed to dwell in a
family where better things were expected. I considering that the
heads of the family were from home, I took it upon me to reprove
her sharply : on the back of this she turned the most outrageous,
mischievous spirit against me, that she contrived the most horrid lies
which could be invented : but the Lord of his goodness turned her
malice to her own shame, and nowise to my hurt, but rather to the con-
trary : yet this trial was somewhat weighty to me, considering this
woman's reproachful tongue ; but I was helped, first by the Lord,
and then by all those among whom I dwelt, who, though they were
strangers to me, yet their sympathy was beyond expression.
"I left this family in November, and returned back to the family
out of which I came at last at the Inch ; where I was received with
very much kindness by all in it, and particularly by those who were
my enemies before ; in which I saw much of the wisdom and wise
conduct of the Almighty, who does all things well : and this my
soul knows to its experience : there being many things in my charge
in this family, that now were made more easy in many respects.
0 the depths of his wisdom ! I saw in this providence, beyond what
1 can express : yet, even at this time, I wanted not a strong body of
sin and death weighing me down, and making me cry out many
times with bitterness of spirit, ' O that I had wings like a dove ! then
would I fly away, and be at rest,' from a tempting devil, a corrupt
heart, a wicked world, and the sin that does so easily beset me.
" These things I would not so particularly record, but it is to let
us see the care and concern the Lord hath about his poor people
when in trouble, even with respect to their external concerns : he
hath a fatherly and tender heart, he pities and helps in the most
convenient seasons. I must acknowledge, that this dispensation
of Providence to me, the vilest and unworthiest of all his creatures,
was so remarkable, and exactly the return of prayer in all the cir-
cumstances of it ; that I am more and more every day made to won-
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der at his wise conduct of Providence, not only toward my soul, for
which he hath done great things, but also with respect to my lot in
the world. But I may say with the Psalmist, ' He is the God. that
performeth all things (well) for me, spiritual and temporal.' I get
nothing but what he makes me first cry to him for by prayer, and
then in his own time and way he answers and performs what he hath
made me believe. O happy are they that have so good a God to
trust in !"
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THE RIGHT HONORABLE THE
LADY ELIZABETH HASTINGS.
The Lady Elizabeth Hastings was born April 19, 1682. Her
father was Theophilus, Earl of Huntingdon, and her mother was
the daughter of Sir John Lewis, of Ledstone, in the county of York,
Bath, one moiety, and more, of whose very large estate came to hev
by inheritance.
There was a fine dawn of her future excellences in her tender
age. A countenance that united in it something great, and something
condescending; an ingenuous temper; a quickness of understan-
ding ; a benevolent spirit ; a flexibility of nature ; a devout frame
and a solemn sense of divine things ; were observable in her first de-
parture out of her infancy, and her footsteps slipt not in the danger-
ous ascent of life, so that she was not only free from every stain of
vice in her early days, but superior to the world, and its vain and tri-
fling amusements.
Before she launched into life, she was fond of privacy and retire-
ment, and was much in devotional exercises in her closet. In some
contests between the Earl, her father, and Lord Hastings, her broth-
er, she observed such a prudence in her conduct, that she preserved
the kindness and affection of both, and after the death of the former,
and till the decease of the latter, she would be doing good things
with her substance, when her abilities were not so great.
Her ladyship's active life most conspicuously commenced soon
after the death of her brother by the whole blood, the Right Honorable
George, Earl of Huntingdon, already mentioned under the title of
Lord Hastings, when her excellent virtues shone out by what has
been the eclipse of virtue in others, the accession of a large fortune.
Then it was that she became known, and was observed to be some-
thing more than a lady of great beauty and fine accomplishments, of
affability, and easy access, of condescension, and good nature, and
of regular motions in religion. Her aims were set high, and no
attainments in piety and goodness would content her soul short of
perfection.
When she had not many months finished her twenty-seventh year,
her singular accomplishments and merits were celebrated by Sir
Richard Steele, the ingenious author of the paper called the Tatler
under the name of Aspasia.
" But these ancients," says our writer, " would be as much aston-
shed to see in the same age so illustrious a pattern to all who love
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things praiseworthy as the divine Aspasia. Methinks I now see her
walking in her garden like our first parent, with unaffected charms,
before beauty had spectators, and bearing celestial conscious virtue
in her aspect. Her countenance is the lively picture of her mind,
which is the seat of honor, truth, compassion, knowledge, and in-
nocence.
" ■ There dwells the scorn of vice, and pity too.'
" In the midst of the most ample fortune, and veneration of all that
behold and know her, without the least affectation, she consults re-
tirement, the contemplation of her own being, and that Supreme
Power which bestowed it. Without the learning of schools, or
knowledge of a long course of arguments, she goes on in a steady
course of uninterrupted piety and virtue, and adds, to the severity
of the last age all the freedom and ease of this. The language and
mien of a court she is possessed of in the highest degree, but the sim-
plicity and humble thoughts of a cottage are her more welcome enter-
tainments. Aspasia is a female philosopher, who does not only live
up to the resignation of the most retired lives of the ancient sages,
but also to the schemes and plans which they thought beautiful,
though inimitable. This lady is the most exact economist, without
appearing busy ; the most strictly virtuous, without tasting the praise
of it ; and shuns applause with as much industry, as others do re-
proach. This character is so particular, that it will be very easily
fixed on her only by all that know her ; but, I dare say, she will be
the last that finds it out.*"
In order to assist her endeavors to reach the sublimest heights of
honor and virtue, our lady commenced an acquaintance with persons
eminent for religion, Doctor John Sharp, Archbishop of York, Rob-
ert Nelson, Esq., and Doctor Richard Lucas. Many years after the
decease of all of them she has been heard to felicitate herself upon
the privilege of her friendship with them, and how much she was es-
teemed and honored by Mr. Nelson in particular; and we have no
reason to think but she had a like esteem from the others, is evident
from a letter of his yet remaining, in which he applies to her the fol-
lowing text, Prov. xxxi. 29, " Many daughters have done virtuously,
but thou excellest them all."
In the place (Ledstone-house,) where her ladyship spent the great-
er part of her life, almost every eye beheld her with wonder. The
higher ranks of mankind were by her acquaintance some of them
charmed into the love of virtue, while others found their virtues
heightened and improved. As to the lower part, they were guid-
ed by her wisdom, and, if they wanted it, were cherished by her
bounty.
Tutler, Number 42, dated July 16, 1709.
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Such was the superiority of her understanding, that in matters of
high moment hundreds would ask counsel of her, who were them-
selves well qualified to give it to others, for she was blessed with a
rectitude of judgment, and could readily penetrate through perplexi-
ties, unravel them, and mark out the wisest and safest conduct, hav-
ing ever for her ground the interests of truth, fidelity, honor, and re-
ligion. Her end was the glory of God, and the good of all men,
keeping all her capacities, all her powers, and all her fortune contin-
ually upon the stretch for the benefit of her fellow-creatures; weep-
ing with them that weep, rejoicing with them that rejoice ; given to
hospitality, distributing to the necessities of the saints, and to others
that were less so ; having joy at the conversion of a sinner, or any the
smallest appearances of it.
Besides the wisdom which is called secular, as having for its 6b-
jects the affairs of this life, her ladyship's mind was endowed with
that wisdom which comes from above, and was so influenced by it,
that whether she wrote or spoke, it was ever in consistency with it.
Her will was in full subjection to the precepts of the gospel. She
took her measures from them, and observed a close conformity to
them. Her will also bowed to the Divine Will in her afflictions.
Because they were the pleasure of God, they were hers too; and,
when his arrows stuck fast within her, and his hand pressed her sore,
she possessed herself in these painful parts of life with great cheer-
fulness, and preferred them in her whole judgment, and upon the
most important considerations, to the days of health and ease. As to
her affections, they were set upon things above, panting and longing
after the pleasures that are there ; or attaching herself to such em-
ployments as infallibly lead to them.
Her ladyship's attendance and apparel were such as became her
place and station. Her body she knew was the temple of the Holy
Ghost, and she possessed it in sanctiflcation and honor. Her support
of it by meat, and drink, and sleep, was ever bounded by necessity.
The intervals that happened as to the last were improved in pious
meditation or prudent deliberations what better measures to take in
the duties of her Christian calling.
The word of God was a lamp to her feet, and a light unto her
paths. Her delight was in his law, and she made it her every day's
study. She held her Bible to her heart to receive its quickening
virtue, and used it at the same time as she would a mirror to her
face, to discover every spot and blemish. The other books that she
used were well chosen, and they were much in her esteem, and oft-
en in her hands, in order to learn from them to examine herself by
them, and to see what she had in common with the children of God,
and if in any thing she fell short of them. She compared spiritual
things with spiritual, she pondered with her own heart, and searched
out her spirit, weighing herself as it were in a balance.
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She used her pen much, sometimes for her own service, but more
for the service of others. Besides what papers went abroad, great
numbers remained, but were unhappily destroyed by a severe sen-
tence of her own. By them she would have been more fully and
better known, and more excellent things might have been spoken of
her than what could have been gathered by any other information.
She began every day with supplications, and prayers, and inter-
cessions in private ; addressing herself to her God with all diligence
and earnestness, and with a recollected spirit, and fervency. True
it is that she allowed herself little intermission in this duty of prayer,
every where attending to the all-seeing eye of God upon her, and
having her soul winged, and carried up with holy pantings and aspi-
rations towards him. So well did she know the mighty importance
of prayer, its gracious acceptance with the Almighty, and its power-
ful help to enlighten, relieve, strenghten, and purify the soul, that she
made most public provision for the practice of it, as for herself, so
also for her family, collecting all the members of it, excepting such
as were necessarily detained, four times a day, for the exercise of
this duty. Happy was it for those servants who came under her
roof, for there was every thing for them that might do them good, in
a gentle, gracious, considerate, bountiful, compassionate mistress,
presiding over them with the disposition of a parent, providing for
the improvement of their minds, for the decency of their behavior,
and the inoffensiveness of their manners, and using every possible
means and methods to bring them to true religion. And as her great
talents were every way fitted to turn many to righteousness, so they
were as successful, and she both near and afar off much enlarged the
borders of God's kingdom.
She much delighted in public worship, and constantly attended it.
Her behavior in the house of God was solemn, and grave, and awful,
and clear of all pharisaical affectation, and no doubt much quickened
and animated the devotions of others.
She was ever mindful of every jot and tittle of the law. In this
spirit her care extended even to her cattle, because that it is declar-
ed to be a property of mercy. She would have the skill and contri-
vance of every artificer used in her house employed for the ease of
her servants, and that they might suffer no inconvenience or hardship.
Besides providing for the order, harmony, and peace of her family,
she kept great elegance in and about her house, that her poor neigh-
bors might not fall into idleness and poverty for want of employment;
and, while she thus tenderly regarded the poor, she would visit the
higher part of the world, lest those who sought after her friendship
should complain of her, or fall into uncharitableness concerning her,
or censure her for being proud and supercilious.
A just display of her ladyship's art and manner in company would
be to place her in one of the most amiable lights. Her talents for
conversation were most shining and great, and more in truth than
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she would allow herself to use ; accordingly, she would restrain a
brisk and lively imagination, and give the demonstrative proofs of a
deep and sound understanding, and to flourishes of wit and humor
would prefer the much better ornaments of courtesy and complais-
ance. It was her great care that they with whom she conversed
should be convinced of the honor and esteem she bore them, to ob-
serve a carriage by which none should be awed or made uneasy at
the superiority of her condition, to see that she failed not in any part
of right decorum, that none might think themselves neglected or
overlooked by her, and to hear and speak according to what occur-
red, or was before her, watching all the while with penetration and
eagerness for a happy transition of the discourse to religion ; and,
when that was once gained, she was then in the true enjoyment of
her spirit, and was got into her natural element : for, to say the truth,
in all her intercourses she was never rightly at ease unless religion
had some place in the conversation, and she thought the spirit of it
was dead, in the majority of the company at least, if there was an
utter neglect and silence as to the one thing needful.
At her table her countenance was open and serene ; her voice soft
and melodious, her language polite, and seasoned with salt, treating
of things useful and weighty, and bringing out of her rich treasures
of wisdom things new and old. Here she displayed all the elegan-
ces of good breeding, addressing herself to all with great meekness
and condescension, and adapting herself to every one's respective
talents and capacities. The smiles of her benevolence were enjoyed
by all, and every one felt the sweetness of her company.
As her house and table were rarely destitute pi one or more of
her family, so she made them all the parts of herself, and embraced
all her relations, according as they stood in the several degrees of
consanguinity, with true and tender affection. She would also in-
quire and seek after any of the withering and drooping branches of
her family, and would kindly support and cherish them, directing
her aim by kindnesses of this nature to serve their best interests, and
lead them into the paths of godliness.
But what shall we say of her care of all cares, the strangers, the
fatherless, and the widow ; the needy, and him that hath no help-
er ; the lame, the halt, and the blind ? These objects drew out the
compassions of her soul. She had a share in all their sufferings ;
she would often converse with them, and inquire into their history
with the utmost condescension. She would study their particularca-
ses, and put them in the way of a better condition. She would visit
them in sickness, and bear the expenses of it. Some of them were
ever in her court-yard, or in her house, and frequently in great num-
bers; and it was not chargeable upon any neglect of hers, if any one
went away unrelieved with meat, physic, clothing, or money, accord-
ing to their several necessities, and many times a single person would
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receive all four. Many of those that lived remote had yearly al-
lowances, and large sums frequently were sent into distant parts of
the kingdom.
Her still larger applications of her substance were fixed pensions
upon reduced families, exhibitions to scholars in the universities, the
maintenance of her own charity-school, her contributions to other
schools, disbursements to religious societies for the propagation of the
gospel in foreign parts, and for promoting Christian knowledge at
home, and the erection and augmentation of churches. To which
may be added, free and frequent remission of debts, in cases of strait-
ness or insolvency ; together with a noble plenty and all becoming
magnificence in her house, and mighty acts of generosity to relations,
friends, and even to those who were neither. Her ladyship's declar-
ed and most admirable rule was to give the first place to justice, the
second to charity, and the third to generosity. Of this third method
of applying her substance, surprising instances might be produced,
as in five hundred pounds a year given to one relation, three thousand
pounds in money to another, three hundred guineas, all the money
that at the time was within her reach, and large promises of more,
to a young lady who had very much impaired her fortune by engag-
ing in the South-Sea scheme.
At the same time there were these visible glories that adorned her
ladyship's life, and spread holiness around her; she well knew that
the great scene of religion lies within, and in the right government
there, called the hidden man of the heart : accordingly her eye was
ever upon her heart, to see that all its principles were cleansed from
evil mixtures, that they had no taint of self-love, and were not sulli-
ed with vain-glory, to observe the tendency of all its motions, which
way the bias of it was set, and how its struggles weakened towards
sinful excursions ; and she would continually cherish the divine life
by acts of faith in the blood of her Redeemer, by rating her own
righteousness as nothing, and by marking well, and daily committing
to writing all her slips, and penitentially mourning over them.
Such were the diligence and circumspection which this lady used
in her Christian calling. In this practice of piety did she walk close-
ly with her God, and in this manner, through a series of almost thirty
years, did she shine, the bright example of every virtue, at the same
time that she gave a clear demonstration on how right a basis every
thing stood, and by what principles she was governed, in that she
could never endure to hear one word spoken in her own praise.
We shall now accompany her to the closing scene. As was her
day such washer evening, if indeed her sun did not go down with an
improved and redoubled lustre. Her ladyship, in early life, had re-
ceived a contusion upon her right breast, which left behind it a small
inward tumor, attended with little or no disturbance, and, for that
cause, probably not much regarded. This continued several years
without any sensible increase, till about twenty months before her
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death it gave her cause of complaint, upon which application was
made to a reverend gentleman, (Dr. Johnson,) very eminent for his
skill in surgery, who, upon sight and examination, was clear in his
judgment, that there was an absolute necessity that the affected part
should be separated from the body.
" What her ladyships's first impressions were upon hearing of this,
I will not," says the author of her historical character, " undertake
to relate : perhaps nature might flinch at first." But a neighboring
clergyman, who had a correspondence with one in the family, being
made acquainted by his friend what afflicting sorrow the family was
in, and his friend in particular, without being informed from what
cause, he imagined that it was no common matter, but something of
a very distressing nature, and something, too, in which her ladyship
had a very large share, this clergyman immediately wrote back, as
suitably as he could, upon no other grounds than his own conjecture,
and happily touched upon the necessity of sufferings, setting forth
briefly those which Christ endured in the flesh, and observing that
he will bring all his followers in conformity to himself in all things,
and that sufferings were the way to his perfection, and must be so to
ours, and that they are the expressly declared condition of our being
glorified with him, the marks and characteristics of our adoption, and
the most sovereign medicines sent from heaven to heal our spiritual
diseases.
Her ladyship beforehand saw into the truth of all this, as she had
well explored and digested every other truth in the whole system of
our holy religion, and would often express some uneasiness that her
own sufferings, in the account she made of them, should in a manner
be little or none. And it was the sentiment of one, who had a station
under her, and was not unskilled in this kind of knowledge, that the
mighty torrent of sufferings, which broke in upon her at the last,
was designed by her heavenly Father for this end among others to
solace her spirit, and to strengthen her assurance that she had every
mark and token of her favor and acceptance with him.
The letter mentioned above was shown to her ladyship, who, with
an emotion beyond what was usual with her, declared, " that she
would not wish to be out of her present situation for all the world,
nor exchange it for any other at any price ;" and accordingly with
great meekness and tranquillity, without any change in her temper,
with a cheerfulness scarce to be believed, in perfect serenity and
freedom, she went through every day till the time appointed for the
operation, as one who sat loose to, and was indifferent for life or
death.
When the day came for the excision of her breast, great skill and
wisdom were used in all things, every bad event was guarded against,
and her hands were held by men of strength — but her hands might
have been held by a spider's thread. She shewed no reluctance,
no struggle, or contention, nor did she even make any complaint ;
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only, indeed, towards the end of her bloody baptism, she drew such
a sigh, as any compassionate reader may do to be told this. Though
even this small expression of anguish has been denied by a clergy-
man of great worth, who assisted at the operation, and was one of
the number who held her ladyship's hands, and from his account
one would think that her flesh was as insensible of pain as her spirit
was superior to it.
The following night was not indeed a night of much sleep, but it
was a night of truly celestial rest ; a night of thanksgiving to her God
for the visible demonstration of his power in and about her, for his
stretched out arm in her great deliverance, for the bountiful provis-
ions he had made for all the occasions of her body and soul, and, in
a word, for all his blessings, holding all the powers of her spirit in
tuneful employment, and exercising them in acts of love, gratitude,
and adoration ; so that some doubt may be made whether the Israel-
ites, with their heavenly-commissioned captain at the head of them,
offered more acceptable melody to their Almighty Deliverer, after
their escape from Pharaoh and his armies at the Red Sea, than did
this lady at this juncture, under distresses, one would think, superior
to what theirs had been.
Her ladyship, sooner than was expected, was restored; and, with
every improvement that could be made, returned into the same tenor
of life which she had so long observed before, in some variety of em-
ployments indeed, but such as were calculated for the glory of God,
and the good of mankind.
She saw what an excellent and serviceable handmaid learning was
to religion, and upon that account was a great lover of it, and indeed
was far from being destitute of learning herself, for she was able to
compose and judge well, and could mark out the beauties, excellen-
cies, errors, and defects in authors, and whether they were written
in taste or not ; and as to practical divinity, and thingsbelonging to the
direction of conscience, she rarely ever made an erroneous deter-
mination.
Impressed with these sentiments, and possessed of these talents,
she thought provision made for the better state of learning, as it is
begun and carried on in schools, and further promoted and finished
in universities, was a right exercise of her attention and care, and a
proper object for her munificent donations ; and how suitable and pro-
portioned to the magnificence of her spirit these were, may be found
in the codicil annexed to her will, containing the devise of her ma-
nor of Wheldale to the provost and scholars of Queen's College, Ox-
ford, for the educating students for the ministry.
In the weakly condition in which she now must be, it was very
much her employment to provide that all her settlements should be
secured from prostitution, and guarded against spoil and depredation,
and that all her good purposes might be followed with execution and
effect. To this end, with an indefatigable industry, she digested,
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improved, enlarged, and altered several schemes, rules, orders, and
provisions, and all this very much from her own ability and wisdom.
But this care, this work, this labor of love, to which she dedicated
a large share of her estate, and for many years a large stock of her
health, were shortly to be exchanged for tranquillity and rest. The
distemper, only repressed for a time, broke out with new malignity,
to the much greater affliction of thousands in the world, than of her
that bore it for she had now been for some time in the school of afflic-
tion, had been exercised with its sharpest discipline, and had found
its salutary effects, and, as she had lost one part of her body without
being shaken or hurt, so she trusted in God that, if there was need,
as in reality there was an expectation, she might with safety lose
another, and she knew that her own sufferings were infinitely short
of what her Savior endured for her on the cross, and that there was
great probability that the last draught of her cup might not be so
bitter as was the first. Under these views and sentiments her
hope was full of immortality, and the eternal weight of glory now
in full prospect, made all her afflictions light. Her faith was not
to be diverted from it, though her condition would not allow her for
several months, for obtaining any ease, to turn herself in her bed,
and therefore she would hold to her long-established purposes, and
strive to enter in at the strait gate, and excel every thing that
was past as much as she could, not looking back at the things
that were behind, but pressing forward to the things that were be-
fore. Though she had little appetite to eat, she could find strength
to pray, and, as the author of her historical character verily believes,
she suffered not any one hour of the day to pass without prayer.
But every other duty is to be attended to as well as this, and doing
good to the souls of others was ever the same with her doing good to
her own; and because her family mourned, and refused to be com-
forted, some of them perhaps having less acquiescence in the divine
will than she had, she would therefore be cheerful, that they might
cease to weep ; and for a pattern for them, when in like circumstan-
ces with hers, she made no complaints among them which a mortal
creature could suppress, and accepted all their kindness and services
with condescending acknowledgments, passing by without observa-
tion any errors, mistakes, neglects, or inadvertences, into which any
of them might fall.
In this near and certain approach of death, her cherishing warmth,
like that of the sun, though it might be most felt by those of her fam-
ily, yet reached those of greater distance. Witness the great num-
ber of letters she wrote and dictated to others, when she became un-
able to write herself, full of sweet counsel, having for their argument
the blessedness of piety, setting forth its true nature and pressing
home the necessity of it, and witness also the great resort to her house
of parsons of all conditions to behold the living power of religion in
her, and to be partakers of, and be benefited by, her wisdom, whom
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she would instruct herself, or engage those who had any talent that
way to do, having them in great numbers about her, and continuing
in heavenly conversation and conferences with them as long as she
had strength to speak, and keeping up her attention to others when
her strength was gone. At other seasons she would seek out for,
and draw to her, the company of holy persons, refreshing and warm-
ing her spirit with them, as her great delight was ever in them; she
and they mutually giving and receiving light, heat, comfort, and
strength from the words of the wise, and their divine sayings. She
and they at the same time having their spirits mingled and holding
mystical communion with all the saints upon earth, and in heaven ;
as her alms all along, in the same series of days, under the great and
necessary expenses upon herself, under every other increase of ex-
pense still driving on, and carried with a like impetuous succession
as the waves of a swelling tide. " Where," would she often say to
those about her, " is there a poor member of Christ's whom I can
comfort and refresh ?" Silver and gold were given to many who very
rarely had seen so much which they could call their own, and in
this period forty guineas were issued in one sum for the enlargement
of a gentleman who was a prisoner for debt at Rothwell, though she
had never seen him, or heard any thing of him, except some few
words of his case, and in his favor, in all her life before.
Her ladyship was for several months separated from public wor-
ship, of which she was a great lover, and to observe which she held
herself under sacred and inviolable obligations. So great and exem-
plary was her zeal in this respect, that she could not excuse herself
from an attendance at the house of God for having had a bad night,
or for having taken a little cold, or because the roads were deep, and
there was some danger that the coach would be overturned, but she
continued to go under great want of sleep, and great cold taken, and
even under afflictions worse than these, even after her coach had
been overturned, and after part of her body was mouldering in the
church yard : but now impediments were thrown in her way which
she could not possibly overcome. What must she do in this dis-
tress ? Her expedient was, now she could not go to the church, to
bring the church as far as she could to herself. Accordingly she
had in this season the established service, as formerly, daily read,
and the holy sacrament administered to her every Lord's day.
She was now in a very tottering state, though with less pain, or at
least less complaint, than ever could be thought of, or rationally ex-
pected. The skill of the reverend gentleman already mentioned
cannot be praised according to his merit. Under God he kept her
pains moderate, and gave her relaxation and relief under every dis-
tress. But her firmest support was her faith in Christ, which fifty
years ago being only as a grain of mustard seed, had now grown up
into a spreading tree, and shy could refresh herself under its sha-
dow. By the virtue of this grace she had overcome the fears of
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death, and taken out its sting ; and neither the sight of death, nor
the rigor of the law, could in the least dismay her soul. She had
walked by the rule the law of God had set her; and, though she
had not perfectly obeyed it, yet her Redeemer had, and his right-
eousness was hers, and wrought for her, and he spoke peace to her
spirit, and strengthened her with assurance that, as he had long
brought her up in his nurture and admonition, and was now putting
his last hand for the finishing his own work, so the gates of his king-
dom were opened for her entrance into his joy.
But she knew she must wait his pleasure, and desired nothing but
it ; though it must not be admitted that her ladyship had a willingness,
consistent enough with her full resignation to the divine will, to trav-
el still in the wilderness till such time as her durable charities were
established by law. Dr. Johnson, at once the physician of her body
and soul, knew this and directed all his skill for the continuance of
her life, till her benevolent wishes were accomplished ; and so indul-
gent was the Almighty to her in this respect, that she survived the
legal and necessary time by seven or eight days ; when with triumph
she entered into the joy of her Lord.
We shall add to the above account of this most excellent lady
what may be called its epitome, as it was published in the Gentle-
man's Magazine for January, 1740, p. 36, in the list of deaths for
the year 1740. The first of them is the following article : — "De-
cember 22, 1739. The Honorable the Lady Elizabeth Hastings,
at her seat at Ledstone, Yorkshire, sister to George late Earl of Hun-
tingdon, and half sister to Theophilus the present Earl. Though
the splendor of her birth was truly great, it seemed as it were eclip-
sed by her shining qualities. She was amiable in her person, gen-
teel in her mien, polite in her manners, and agreeable in her con-
versation. Her judgment was solid, her regard to friendship sacred
and her sense of honor strict to the last degree ; and she was of so
rare modesty and humility, that a more disagreeable thing could not
be done than publishing her good deeds, and rendering her due
praise. She was, above all, a sincere Christian. Her piety towards
God was ardent and unaffected, and her benevolence towards man-
kind was such as the good angels are blessed with. Thousands had
she comforted and relieved, many enriched and advanced. Her pa-
tience and resignation under her last, long and tedious sickness, her
mourning for the sins of men, her unwearied endeavors for their
eternal welfare, her generous and charitable apppointments, her ten-
der expressions to her relations, friends and servants, and her grate-
ful acknowledgments to her physicians, require whole pages to set
them in a proper light. In short scarce any age has afforded a great-
er blessing to many, or a brighter example to all. Her corpse was
interred, with great funeral solemnity, in the family vault at Ledstone,
near her grandfather, Sir John Lewis, Bart., the following inscrip-
tion being put upon her leaden coffin, &c."
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The Right. Hon. the Lady Elizabeth Hastings,
Daughter of Theophilus, Earl of Huntingdon,
By Elizabeth his first wife
Daughter and co-heir of Sir John Lewis,
Knight and Baronet.
From whom descended to her the manors of
Ledstone, Ledsham, Thorparch, Collingham, Weldale,
Wyke, and Shadwell.
In the four first she erected charity schools,
And for the support of them and other charities,
She gave, in her life time, Collingham, Shadwell,
And her estate in Burton Salmon.
She was born the 19th of April, 1682.
Died the 22d of December, 1739.
A pattern to succeeding ages
Of all that's good, and all that's great,
(
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LADY HUNTINGDON.
Selina, Countess of Huntingdon, was the daughter of Washing-
ton, Earl of Ferrers; was born Aug. 24, 1707, and married June 3,
1728, toTheophilus Earl of Huntingdon.
In her early youth, when about nine years old, the sight of a corpse
about her own age, carried to the grave, engaged her to attend the
funeral, and there the first impressions of deep seriousness about an
eternal world laid hold of her conscience ; and with many tears she
cried earnestly on the spot to God, that whenever he was pleased to
call her hence, he would deliver her from all her fears, and give her
a happy departure; she often afterwards visited the grave, and al-
ways preserved a lively sense of the affecting scene.
Though no clear views of evangelical truth had hitherto been open-
ed to her mind, she frequently retired to her closet, and poured out
her heart to God. When she grew up and was introduced into the
world, she continued to pray, that if she married, it might be into a
serious family. None kept up more of the ancient dignity of Eng-
lish nobility than the house of Huntingdon, or were more amiable in
a moral view, and with the head of that family she became united.
Lady Betty and Lady Margaret Hastings, his lordship's sisters, were
women of singular excellence.
Her sister-in-law, Lady Margaret, was brought to the saving
knowledge of the gospel under the preaching of the zealous method-
ists of that time. Conversing one day with Lady Margaret on this
subject, Lady Huntingdon was very much struck with a sentiment
she uttered, " that since she had known and believed in the Lord
Jesus Christ for life and salvation, she had been as happy as an an-
gel." To any such sensations of happiness, Lady H. felt that
she was yet a stranger. A dangerous illness having soon after this
brought her to the brink of the grave, the fear of death fell terribly
upon her, and her conscience was greatly distressed : under these
affecting circumstances the words of Lady Margaret returned strong-
ly to her recollection, and she felt an earnest desire, renouncing all
other hope, to cast herself wholly upon Christ : she lifted up her
heart to Jesus the Savior in prayer, her distress and fear were remo-
ved, and she was filled with joy and peace in believing. Her dis-
order soon took a favorable turn, and she was not only restored to
perfect health, but, what was infinitely better, to newness of life, and
determined thenceforward to present herself to God as a living sacri-
fice, holy and acceptable, which she was now convinced was her rea-
sonable service.
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The change which divine grace thus wrought upon her ladyship,
soon became observable to all around her, by the open confession
which she made of the faith once delivered to the saints, and by the
zealous support which she gave to the cause of God, amidst all the
reproach with which it was attended : she had set her face as a flint,
and was not ashamed of Christ and his cross. There were not want-
ing indeed some, who under the guise of friendship wished Lord
Huntingdon to interpose his authority: but however he differed from
her in sentiment, he continued to shew her the same affection and
respect, and on his demise left her the entire management of her chil-
dren and of their fortunes.
Some of the dignified clergy were not so candid and liberal, as
appears from the following authentic anecdote. Her ladyship one
day in conversation with Dr. Benson, bishop of Gloucester, (who
had been the tutor of Lord H. and had ordained Mr. Whitefield,)
pressed him so hard with the articles and homilies, and so plainly and
faithfully urged upon him the awful responsibility of his station, that
his temper was ruffled, and he rose in haste to depart, bitterly la-
menting that he had ever laid his hands on George Whitefield, to
whom he imputed, though without cause, the change wrought in her
ladyship. Calling him back : " My lord," said she, " mark my
words : when you come upon your dying bed, that will be one of the
few ordinations you will reflect upon with complacence." It de-
serves remark, that bishop Benson on his dying bed sent ten guineas
to Mr. Whitefield, as a token of his favor, and begged to be remem-
bered by him in his prayers.
During Lord Huntingdon's life, his countess warmly espoused the
cause of God and truth, though her means of usefulness were neces-
sarily circumscribed, and her family engagements occupied much of
her time and attention. Having become her own mistress, she re-
solved to devote herself wholly to the service of Christ, and the souls
redeemed by him. Her zealous heart embarced cordially all she
esteemed as real Christians, whatever their denomination or opin-
ions might be ; but being herself in sentiment more congenial with
Mr. Whitefield, than the Mr. Wesleys, she favored those who were
the ministers of the Calvinistic persuasion, according to the literal
sense of the articles of the Church of England. And with an in-
tention of giving them a greater scene of usefulness, she opened her
house in Park-street for the preaching of the gospel, supposing, as a
peeress of the realm, that she had an indisputable right to employ,
as her family chaplains, ihose ministers of the church whom she pat-
ronised. On the week days her kitchen was filled with the poor of
the flock, for whom she provided instruction ; and on the Lord's-day
the great and noble were invited to spend the evening in her draw-
ing-room, where Mr. Whitefield, Mr. Romaine, Mr. Jones, and oth-
er ministers of Christ, addressed to them faithfully the word of life,
and were heard with apparently deep and serious attention.
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For the supply of her chapels, Lady Huntingdon first confined
herself to the ministers of the established church, as her preachers,
many of whom accepted her invitation, and labored in the places
which she had opened : but her zeal enlarging with her success, and
a great variety of persons throughout the kingdom begging her assis-
tance, in London, and many of the most populous cities, she pur-
chased, built, or hired chapels for the performance of divine service.
As these multiplied through England, Ireland and Wales, the min-
isters who had before labored for her ladyship, were unequal to the
task ; and some unwilling to move in a sphere so extensive, and
which began to be branded as irregular, and to meet great opposition :
yet many persevered in their services, when summoned to the work,
and were content to bear the cross.
In order to provide proper persons for the work, her ladyship now
retired to South Wales, and erected a chapel and college in the pa-
rish of Talgarth, Brecknockshire. The chapel was opened in 1768.
The college was provided with able teachers, and soon filled with
students. From that retirement Lady Huntingdon despatched the
requisite supplies for the increased congregations under her patro-
nage ; and as the calls were often urgent, her students were too fre-
quently thrust forth into the harvest, before they had made any con-
siderable proficiency in the languages, or sacred literature, in which
it had been her intention they should be instructed. Few of them
knew much more than their native tongue ; yet being men of strong
sense, and real devoted ness to God, their ministry was greatly bless-
ed, and the accounts of their success animated her to greater exer-
tions. They were itinerant — moved from congregation to congrega-
tion in a rotation established ; and her correspondence with them to
regulate and provide a constant supply, was a labor to which her ac-
tive spirit alone was equal.
The seminary in Wales ceased at her ladyship's death, the lease
having just expired, and no endowment left, her income dying with
her : but a new college on a plan more promising for literature, has
been established at Cheshunt, in Hertfordshire, near London : and
under the superintending care of trustees, appointed for that purpose
a number of students have already been educated there ; and many
are gone forth, now preaching the gospel, from this seminary.
Her ladyship still devising plans for the diffusion of the gospel, es-
pecially in places where Satan had his seat, erected, in the year
1769, a chapel at Tunbridge Wells, so much frequented for many
years by the great and gay of the metropolis, and yet a place of
fashionable resort. Nor was the metropolis itself, that emporium of
error and dissipation, forgotten by her benevolent and ardent mind.
A large building in Spa Fields called the Pantheon, had been erect-
ed for entertaining and amusing parties of pleasure, especially on the
Lord's day. The Rev. Herbert Jones and William Taylor, two
clergymen under the patronage of Lady Huntingdon, took the place
LADY HUNTINGDON. 275
for religious worship; and it was opened, July 6, 1777, with a ser-
mon by the former clergyman, on the very appropriate text, Gen.
xxviii. 19, " And he (Jacob) called the name of that place Bethel;
but the name of that city was called Luz, at the first." The place
will contain more than two thousand, and its local situation is highly
favorable. This chapel, however, soon became an object of dislike
to the strict members of the Establishment. Accordingly, a suit was
instituted by the minister of the parish of Clerkenwell, in the con-
sistorial court of the Bishop of London, against the two clergymen
who officiated there. To that spiritual court they were summoned,
and were forbidden to preach there any longer, on pain of expul-
sion from the church. They chose to obey God rather than man ;
and Lady Huntingdon, having purchased the chapel, several clergy-
men seceded from the established church, and put themselves under
the protection of the toleration act. These clergymen drew up and
subscribed a confession of faith ; which was afterwards signed by
all the ministers in her ladyship's connexion, and by candidates for
ordination. The first six were ordained in Spa Fields Chapel,
March 9, 1783, by the Rev. Messrs. Wills and Taylor. The doc-
trines taught in all the countess's chapels are strictly evangelical,
while the episcopalian mode of worship is used, though some altera-
tions are made in the liturgy, particularly respecting baptism and bu-
rial.
Some years afterwards, Lady Huntingdon purchased another
large place in Whitechapel, which had been intended for a theatre,
and was constructed accordingly. No material alterations were
deemed necessary ; and it was perhaps proper to shew by substan-
tial and permanent signs, the triumph of wisdom and goodness over
folly and vice. The dressing rooms for the actors were converted
into a vestry, and the pulpit is erected on the front of the stage.
The pit is filled with the poor, to whom the gospel is preached ; and
the galleries exhibit decent, serious hearers of the word of life.
The place, which is in the form of a low, yet wide spread taberna-
cle, will hold five thousand persons, and bears the name of Sion
Chapel.
Such are her ladyship's principal chapels. There are several
others of less note, which our limits prevent us from specifying and
describing.
Though Lady Huntingdon devoted the whole of her substance
to the gospel, yet it is not a little surprising how her income sufficed
for the immensity of expense in which she was necessarily involved.
Her jointure was not more than twelve hundred pounds a year : and
only after the death of her son, a few years preceding her own, she
had the addition of another thousand. She often involved herself
in expenses for building chapels, which she found it burthensome to
discharge ; but the Lord brought her always honorably through her
engagements, and provided a supply when her own was exhausted.
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Lady Huntingdon's person, endowments and spirit, were all un-
common. She was rather above the middle size, her presence noble
and commanding respect ; her address singularly engaging ; her in-
telligence acute ; her diligence indefatigable ; and the constant labor
of her thought and correspondence inconceivable. During forty five
years of widowhood, she devoted her time, talents and substance to
the support and diffusion of the gospel.
To the age of fourscore and upwards, she maintained all the vig-
or of youth ; and though in her latter years the contraction of her
throat reduced her almost wholly to a liquid diet, her spirits never
seemed to fail her ; and to the very last days of her life, her active
mind was planning still greater and more extensive schemes of use-
fulness, for the universal spread of the gospel of Christ.
Her most distinguishing excellence was, the fervent zeal which
always burned in her bosom, to make known the gospel of the grace
of God ; which no disappointments quenched, no labors slackened,
no opposition discouraged, no progress of years abated ; it flamed
strongest in her latest moments. The world has seldom seen such a
character — thousands and tens of thousands will have reason, living
and dying to bless her memory, as having been the happy instrument
of bringing them out of darkness into marvelous light ; and multi-
tudes saved by her instrumentality, have met in the regions of glory
to rejoice together in the presence of God and of the Lamb.
But it may be said by some was she a perfect character? No. This
is not the lot of mortals on this side of the grave. When the moon
walketh in her brightness, her shadows are most visible.
Lady Huntingdon was in her temper warm and sanguine — her
predilections for some, and her prejudices against others, were some-
times too hastily adopted — and by these she was led to form conclu-
sions not always correspondent with truth and wisdom.
The success attending her efforts seemed to impress her mind
with a persuasion, that a particular benediction would rest upon
whomsoever she should send forth, and rendered her choice not al-
ways judicious ; though seldom were there ever less offenses in so
extended a work.
She had so long directed the procedures of her connexion, that
she too seldom asked the advice of the judicious ministers who la-
bored with her ; and bore not passively contradiction.
For many years Lady Huntingdon had two female companions
who lived with her on terms of the most cordial friendship, Miss
Scutt and Lady Ann Erskine ; the latter sister to the Earl of Bu-
chan, and to the two famous counselors of that name. These la-
dies, and particularly the latter, co-operated with the Countess in net-
work and labor of Christian love, and were constantly present during
her last illness.
In the month of November 1790, Lady Huntingdon broke a
blood vessel, which was the commencement of her last illness. On
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being then asked how she did, by Lady Ann, she replied, " I am
well ; all is well ! well for ever ! 1 see, wherever I turn my eyes,
whether I live or die, nothing but victory." As death drew nearer,
though it was delayed for some months, she often repeated with
great emphasis, " The coming of the Lord draweth nigh ! O Lady
Ann, the coming of the Lord draweth nigh !" adding, " the thought
fills my soul with joy unspeakable, whether I shall see his glory
more abundantly appear, or whether it be an intimation of my own
departure to him." At another time : " All the little ruffles and
difficulties which surround me, and all the pains I am exercised with
in this poor body, through mercy, affect not the settled peace and
joy of my soul."
To a friend who called on her a few weeks before her death, she
said, " I see myself a poor worm drawing near to Jesus : what hope
could I entertain if I did not know the efficacy of his blood, and
turn as a prisoner of hope to his hold ? — How little could any thing
of mine give a moment's rest to a departing soul ? So much sin and
self mixed with the best, and always so short of what we owe ! —
'Tis well for us that he can pity and pardon : and we have confidence
that he will do so. — I confess, my dear friend, I have no hope, but
that which inspired the dying malefactor at the side of my .Lord ;
and I must be saved in the same way, as freely, as fully, or not
at all."
He replied, " Madam, I cordially join you, and feel with you,
that though our lives may be devoted to the work of Jesus, and our
deaths the consequence of his service, it is not to these sacrifices we
should look for comfort in a dying hour." She replied, " No, ve-
rily :" — and enlarging on the idea of the mixture of infirmity and
corruption which tarnished all our best meant services, she added.
"That a sinner could only rest satisfactorily on one foundation, and
would find nothing in the best works of his best days, that he could
dare to produce before God for its own sake — sufficiently blessed and
secure, if he could but cry, God be merciful to me a sinner, and
let me be found in the beloved, and complete in him." To these,
in the course of a long conversation, were added many like words
of truth and grace.
During the whole of her illness, her pains never made her impa-
tient ; but she seemed more concerned about those who attended her
than about herself. She said, tenderly, to Lady Ann Erskine and
Miss Scutt, whose long, faithful, and tender attachment to her is well
known, " I fear I shall be the death of you both," (alluding to their
constant watching with her) ; — " it will be but a few days more."
But a few days before her decease, Lady Huntingdon said to a
friend, " I cannot tell you in what light I now see these words : ' If
a man love me, he will keep my words, and my Father will love
him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.' —
To have in this room such company, and to have such an eternal
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prospect, I see this subject now in a light impossible to be described.
I know my capacity will be then enlarged, but I am now as sensible
of the presence of God, as I am of the presence of those I have
with me."
On the very day of her death she conversed about sending mis-
sionaries to Tahiti. She had often in her lifetime mentioned, that
from the first moment that God set her soul at liberty, she had such
a desire for the conversion of souls, that she compared herself to a
ship in full sail before the wind, and that she was carried on by such
a divine influence as was not easily to be described.
An abundant entrance, suitable to a life so influenced, was minis-
tered to her into heaven ; for almost her last words were, " My work
is done, I have nothing to do but go to my Father." Her ladyship
died at her house in Spa Fields, next door to the chapel, June 17,
1791, in the 84th year of her age.
The body according to a direction somewhat whimsical, was clo-
thed in a suit of white silk, with the same head dress which her la-
dyship usually wore, and in that attire was buried in the family vault,
at Ashby-de-la-Zouch in Leicestershire : her funeral sermon was
preached at Spa Fields Chapel, on the Lord's day, July 3, 1791, by
the Rev. David Jones of Langan, on Genesis li. 24. " And Joseph
said unto his brethren, behold I die, and God will surely visit you."
We shall subjoin a letter respecting Lady Huntingdon from an
excellent judge, Dr. Lettsom, who, though of a different religious
persuasion, paid a just tribute to her memory. The letter was writ-
ten on occasion of her death, and addressed to Lady Ann Erskine.
" Dear Lady A. E. — I deeply sympathize with thee and all the
family in Christ, in the removal of that evangelic woman so lately
among us, the Countess of Huntingdon. Your souls were so united,
and your affections so endeared together, that I cannot but feel in a
particular manner on thy account, lest the mournful state of thy mind
may undermine thy constitution, and endanger a life spent in mitiga-
ting the painful sufferings of body of our deceased friend while living.
Her advanced age, and debilitated frame, had long prepared my mind
for an event which has at length deprived the world of its brightest
ornament. How often have we, when sitting by her sick-bed, wit-
nessed the faithful composure with which she has viewed this awful
change ! Not with the fearful prospect of doubt ; not with the dread-
ful apprehension of the judgment of an offended Creator. Hers was
all peace within, a tranquillity and cheerfulness which conscious accep-
tance alone could convey. How often have we seen her, elevated
above the earth and earthly things, uttering this language : ' My work
is done, 1 have nothing to do but to go to my heavenly Father.' Let
us, therefore, under a firm conviction of her felicity, endeavor to
follow her, as she followed her Redeemer. Let us be thankful that
she was preserved to advanced age with the perfect exercise of her
mental faculties ; and that under long and painful days and nights of
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sickness she never repined, but appeared constantly animated in
prayer and thankfulness for the unutterable mercies she experienced.
When I look back upon the last years of my attendance, and connect
with it the multitudes of others whom my profession has introduced
me to, I feel consolation in acknowledging, that, of all the daughters
of affliction, she exhibited the greatest degree of Christian com-
posure that I ever witnessed ; and that submission to divine allot-
ment, however severe and painful, which nothing but divine aid could
inspire."
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THE RIGHT HONORABLE
LADY ANN AGNES ERSKINE,
Genuine greatness and nobility, a heathen observed, were to be
found alone in exalted virtue ; and we know that those great in the
sight of the Lord, are not usually to be found in high rank, or enti-
tled ; " not many mighty, not many noble, are called." Yet some
singular exceptions are happily seen, demonstrating that the Lord
hath in his hand the hearts of all men ; and where such rare instan-
ces occur, they necessarily stand on an eminence, and engage more
particular attention.
The noble lady, who is the subject of this Memoir, was the daugh-
ter of the Earl of Buchan, by a lady of the House of Stuart, and
the eldest of a numerous family ; some of the branches of which,
were lately the first ornaments of the Bar in England and Scotland ;
and more distinguished by their talents and integrity than even by
the nobility of their descent. The names of Thomas and Henry
Erskine need only be mentioned to be universally known and hon-
ored. But these with all the numerous branches of the house of
Buchan, are gathered to a lamented and an honored tomb. Such is
the lot of mortality, — no greatness nor excellence can stay the de-
parting spirit ! Happy are they who are always waiting their appoint-
ed change, and ready to welcome it ! Surviving relatives have a pe-
culiar call to remember, what we are all so ready to confess and to
forget, — that to morrow we die !
As our memorials especially embrace the faithful in Christ Jesus,
it may be pleasing to remark, that the great grandfather of Lady Ann
was a man of distinguished piety, of Kirkhill, and a considerable suf-
ferer in the cause of religious profession in the days of Charles the
Second : and as the names of Ralph and Ebenezer Erskine have re-
ceived a stamp of especial reverence in the religious world, it may
not be uninteresting to observe, that they were (as we are informed)
branches of this family ; and that the house in which they lived, is
preserved by the present Lord Buchan, in its primitive state, as a
relic and memorial of them.
Her early days were spent in Scotland ; and she mentioned to a
lady, her acquaintance, the gracious dealings of the Lord, when she
was only about seven or eight years old. Her maid was reading to
her a little book of the nature of Janeway's Token for Children ; and
the Life of Amelia Geddie, a little girl remarkable for early piety,
made a deep impression on her mind, which she for a while retain-
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ed; and at times prayed with fervor and feeling; and, as she then
thought, with real answers to her prayer in repeated instances, hoth
of childish infirmity and desires. A guitar, which she preserved to
the day of her death, and sometimes amused her, though far from a
proficient, was one of the instances she mentioned. Her mother,
Lady Buchan, was on a visit from home at Edinburgh, and was to
bring her something. Ann was waiting her return ; and one day
praying, she thought, What shall I ask to be brought me ? and a
guitar struck her mind, though she had never learned, nor thought
of it before ; and she prayed this might be brought her. Her moth-
er, just coming through the street, thought of Ann as she passed a
music-shop, and preferring a guitar to a toy, went in and bought it.
" What have I got for you, Ann?" said she. — "A guitar." Trifling
as this may seem, it left an abiding impression that there was a God
that heard and answered prayer.
As she grew up, her early impressions wore off; and for some
years she lived like too many of her rank and sex, in fashionable fol-
lies, and in the company of those who were strangers to themselves,
little affected about the eternal world into which they were going,
whose frivolity and love of pleasure left no place for matters of more
solemn consideration. About this time the Earl of Buchan, for his
family convenience, removed to Bath ; and there commenced her ac-
quaintance with the great and excellent Lady Huntingdon, whose life
was spent in endeavoring to do good ; and her efforts especially, di-
rected, at that time, to those of her own rank and station. An ac-
quaintance formed about this time with the elder branches of the
Hawkstone family, eminent for their excellence, whom she visited,
contributed to fix the sense of divine truths on her mind ; and she
became a professor of the principles of evangelical religion. A grow-
ing intimacy with Lady Huntingdon contributed to confirm her mind;
and some congeniality of spirit probably engaged Lady Huntingdon
to invite Lady Ann to be with her as her friend and companion; and
as this was equally pleasing to both, for many years of the latter part
of Lady Huntingdon's life, she was her constant friend and intimate.
During these years, as a helper in the truth, she walked with her
aged friend in great affection, making herself useful in assisting to
discharge the burthen of cares and engagements in which Lady
Huntingdon was involved : and how well she approved herself, may
be concluded from the disposition that good lady made of her affairs
to such as she thought would most faithfully pursue the line she had
so successfully drawn.
At Lady Huntingdon's decease, Lady Ann Erskine, with several
other persons, were appointed trustees and executors of her will.
During Lady Huntingdon's life, Lady Ann was only known as
zealously disposed to promote the cause of truth, without appearing
in any prominent character, not being by Providence favored with
the liberal provision which her predecessor enjoyed, and which died
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with her. Indeed, her zeal always outran her income ; and though
no person ever spent so little on herself as Lady Huntingdon, she
left such incumbrances as her estate was unequal to discharge, un-
less some of her chapels were disposed of. These incumbrances
her executors and other friends immediately undertook to discharge,
and preserve them for the purposes to which they had been devoted.
It was on this occasion that Lady Ann Erskine was called forth to a
more distinguished station than she had yet filled.
When Lady Huntingdon's disposition was known, a consultation
of the trustees agreed, that as Lady Ann was better acquainted with
Lady Huntingdon's mode of procedure than any other, and readily
offered to devote herself to any active service ; they, therefore, de-
sired her to occupy part of Lady Huntingdon's house in Spa Fields,
and be in constant residence there, to carry on all the needful cor-
respondence, which was indeed immense, always advising with the
trustees, and rendering an account to them, when required, of her
procedure. To her, with Dr. Ford and Mr. Best, therefore, it was
agreed the administration should be intrusted.
Lady Ann now became the prominent person ; and though all La-
dy Huntingdon's income died with her, and Lady Ann possessed a
mere pittance, there has hitherto appeared no lack of support to the
cause. By wise and prudent management, the places have not only
been supported, but many new chapels, raised, and a considerable
number of persons in addition employed ; many of whom come from
the college at Cheshunt, managed by trustees united with the con-
nexion of Lady Huntingdon. Indeed, in every view, Lady Ann
was eminently qualified for her place, not only by an intimate knowl-
edge of the manner in which her predecessor moved, but by a meas-
ure of ability, hereditary in the family of Erskine, as well as a devo-
tedness of heart, that made it her pleasure to undergo any labor and
difficulties for the sake of .the work in which she was engaged.
Those who were always consulted in emergencies, and knew the
complicated nature of the service, will witness how greatly she strove
to please all for their good to edification ; but none but herself knew
the many heart-aches, and the need of patience in dealing with such
a number of persons as managers of places, or employed in itinera-
ting, where, as in a complicated machine, some wheel or tooth being
out of order, rendered the uniform motion difficult to be preserved.
To please every body was hardly possible, in her situation : that some
might be dissatisfied, to whose wishes she could not accord ; and that
others slighted her, who were incompetent judges of her excellen-
ces, is not to be wondered at. That she was enabled to go on, with
almost perfect satisfaction to her colleagues, and without the slightest
breach for twelve years between them ; that all cordially concurred
in one great object, and pursued it ardently ; that these are no mean
proof of a Christian spirit, will be allowed by all who are acquainted
with the difficulties to be encountered.
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That during these last twelve years, when her most active life
commenced, she was indefatigably employed in the work of God, is
known beyond all contradiction. Those who knew her best, will
witness the life of prayer and meditation on the word which she led.
The very marks in her Bible will speak the deep attention she paid
to it. Her correspondence was immense. Her room was hardly with-
out visitors from morning to night, giving account of commissions ful-
filled, or taking directions where to go, and what to do. It has been
often said to her, by one of her active colleagues, that her departure
would leave a void, which there was scarcely a prospect of again fil-
ling with like activity and intelligence. They indeed hoped it would
be very distant ; but her great Master ordained otherwise.
Her conversation was always heavenly ; and, speaking of God's
dealings with her own soul, none could express a deeper and hum-
bler sense of her own unworthiness and nothingness. Nothing can
speak more feelingly in this respect than the sentiment she uttered
the last evening of her life : " The most holy are the most humble
in their own eyes." She improved every opportunity of converse
with her friends, especially the young, that visited her : hundreds
are living witnesses, that if they were not the wiser and better for
having conversed with her, they must be much to blame, and will
have an awful account to make for abused blessings. Indeed her
whole time and thoughts seemed to be engaged in endeavoring to fill
her place, conscious of being highly honored in the service, and feel-
ing it her delight as well as duty to discharge her trust, as she must
answer to the great Shepherd and Bishop of souls. She never set
up for a preacher, she knew her place ; but many a preacher will
own now how much his spirit has been quickened by her example
and converse. She was placed in a situation of some considerable
authority ; but her directions were counsels, and her orders entreat-
ties. She is gone to her reward, and has finished her course with
joy ; and the work of Lady Huntingdon's Establishment was never
better consolidated, or more apparently prosperous, than the day she
left it ; and nothing will more powerfully speak for her than such a
testimony.
But this is not our home, nor our rest; it remaineth in a better
world for those who are found faithful unto death. Lady Ann had,
for sometime, complaints wThich alarmed those who knew how much
they should feel her loss ; and though she struggled with ill health,
and hardly suffered it to interrupt her labors, yet it seemed evident
the mortal tabernacle was failing. Her constant call to business pre-
cluded her from exercise ; and the stooping to write, and the sed-
entary life she led for weeks together, only moving from her room to
the chapel, increased the dropsical tendency to which she had been
for some time liable ; and the natural conformation of a strait chest,
rendered her respiration often laborious, and on any quick motion
asthmatical. Yet her spirits so quickly rose, and her conversation
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became so enlivened, the apprehensions went off; and seeing it so
frequently the case, led to hope that she might yet prolong her course.
Those around her had often seen her apparently worse, and more
feeble, than on the day preceding her dissolution.
The frame of her mind indeed seemed in a preparation for an
eternal world ; and two or three mornings before her departure, she
came much refreshed from her room, and said to a friend with her,
" The Lord hath met me this morning with so much sweetness of
mind, that I seemed as if surrounded of God :" on which she added,
with fervor, " My Lord and my God !" The. day before her death
she took an airing in a coach, and did not seem affected by it, but
conversed as usual. The evening of that day she was visited by a
gentleman of her acquaintance, and spoke in her usually spirited
manner, as if nothing ailed her ; and her health being the subject,
she said, "I have no presentiment of death upon my mind : but she
added, " Be that as it may, God is faithful ; and I feel unshaken con-
fidence in him :" with many other expressions of the hope that maketh
not ashamed. About ten she took her usual supper, an egg ; and
soon after retiring to bed, took a composing draught, (having >had no
good sleep for the two preceding nights,) and prayed over it, that if
the Lord had more work for her to do, he would bless it to the pro-
moting a good night's sleep, and restoring her strength : and speak-
ing to her attendant, who slept in the room with her, she added, " How
happy am I that my soul is not in hell, where I might have been !"
And on going out of the room, Lady Ann added, as if under some
doubt and difficulty, " The Lord will reveal himself to me to-morrow !"
The person asked if any outward matters made her uneasy ? She re-
plied, " No in those respcts I am perfectly easy." These were the
last words she was heard to utter ; and lying down in her bed, appa-
rently fell asleep. About five o'clock the attendant heard her cough
slightly, and supposed her again composed. At six she got up ; and
going to her bed-side, saw her reposing, her head on her hand, and
thought her asleep ; — on a nearer approach, it was the sleep of
death !
So finished her course another faithful follower of the Lamb that
was slain ; and added one more to the list of honorable and devout
women, whose memory is deserving of being held in everlasting re-
membrance. She lived to the age of sixty-five years ; more than
forty of which she had spent in the works of faith and labors of love,
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Wilhelmina Maxwell, Viscountess Glenorchy, was the
younger of two daughters left by Dr. William Maxwell, of Preston,
a gentleman of high respectability and large fortune in Galloway,
Scotland; and was born at Preston, September 2nd, 1741. Dr.
Maxwell died four months before the birth of his youngest daughter ;
and his widow, afterwards Lady Alva, wishing to perpetuate the
name of a husband so dear, called the fatherless child, Wilhelmina.
She watched over the education of both daughters with maternal
solicitude, and endeavored to preserve them from the vortex of fash-
ionable pleasure. The eldest was married at Edinburgh, 1761, to
William Earl of Sutherland : the youngest, who is the subject of
these memoirs, was married at London, some months afterwards, to
John Lord Viscount plenorchy, only son of the Earl of Breadal-
bane.
Lady Glenorchy was only in her twentieth year, when dazzled
with the fascinations of grandeur, she complied with the wishes of
her friends, who had pushed on this splendid match. With fine tal-
ents, which had been improved by a liberal and expensive education,
she combined an agreeable person, a temper vivacious and peculiarly
formed for hilarity, a considerable share of wit and pleasantry, and
every accomplishment which could render her an object of admira-
tion in the circles of fashion. She was esteemed one of the first
amateur musicians of the day, and had a charming voice. The
year after her marriage, she accompanied Lord Glenorchy in a tour
through France and Italy, where they spent about two years. On
their return, she became involved in all the dissipation of high life,
till her health began to suffer, and seasons of indisposition brought
leisure for solemn reflections. Early in the summer of 1765, while
at Taymouth castle in Perthshire, the seat of the Earl of Breadal-
bane, she was seized with a dangerous malignant fever. On her
convalescence, a train of serious thoughts and reasonings was produ-
ced, followed by convictions and purposes, which ended in a com-
plete renovation of heart and conduct. She had been taught in ear-
ly youth that form of sound words which is contained in the Assem-
bly's Catechism ; and now the first question and answer occurring to
her, " What is the chief end of man ?" — "The chief end of man is
to glorify God, and to enjoy him forever" — she was involuntarily led
to muse on the words, and to put to herself the important questions:
Have 1 answered the design of my being ? Have 1 glorified God ?
Shall 1 enjoy him for ever ? On reviewing her life of thoughtless
gayety, she could come to no other conclusion than that there was
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no connection between such conduct, and the glorifying and enjoying
of God, and that consequently, hitherto, she had not answered the
chief end of her existence. The result will best be given in her
own words, as contained in her diary. They occur in the memoran-
dum made on her first birth day after the period at which her man-
uscript commences.
" September 2. — I desire this day to humble myself before God,
and to bless him as my Creator, who called me into being at first ;
who hath been my preserver in the midst of many dangers ; and
who hath ever since my birth, loaded me with tender mercies and fa-
vors. But above all, I would bless his holy name, that he hath not
left me in the state of alienation from him in which I was by nature,
but that he hath of his free grace and mercy, brought me out of
darkness, and shown me the glorious light of his gospel, and caused
me to hope for salvation through Jesus Christ. Many a time was he
pleased to convince me of sin in my early years ; but these convic-
tions were as the morning dew that soon passeth away. A life of
dissipation and folly soon choked the good seed. Carnal company
and diversions filled up the place in my soul that belonged alone to
God. The first twenty years of my life were spent after the fashion
of this world. Led away by vanity and youthful folly I forgot my
Creator and Redeemer ; and if at any time I was brought by sickness
or retirement to serious reflection, my ideas of God were confused
and full of terror : I saw my course of life was wrong, but had not
the power to alter it, or to resist the torrent of fashionable dissipation
that drew me along with it. Sometimes I resolved to begin a godly
life, — to give all I had in charity, and to live only to God ; — but I was
then ignorant of God's righteousness, and went about to establish a
sort of righteousness of my own, by which I hoped to be saved.
God was therefore gracious in letting me feel how vain all my resolu-
tions were, by allowing me to relapse again and again into a life of
folly and vanity. My ignorance of the gospel was then so great,
that I did not like to hear ministers preach much about Christ; I saw
neither form nor comeliness in him, and thought it would have been
more to the purpose, had they told us what we should do to inherit
eternal life. My idea of Christ was, — that after I had done a great
deal, he was to make up the rest : this was my religion ! How mar-
vellous is thy grace, O Lord ! to pardon such a worthless creature,
who thus depreciated thy great sufferings and meritorious death, and
endeavored to rob thee of the glory which belongs to thee alone.
But this was not the only way in which I tried to rob God of his glo-
ry. I claimed great merit in the patience with which he enabled me
to bear the severe trials and afflictions he was graciously pleased to
send upon me, to bend my stubborn heart to his will. I thought I
had not deserved such a lot ; — and thus I secretly rebelled against
the Lord. About this time I got acquainted with the Hawkstone
family, some of whom had the reputation of being Methodists. 1
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liked their company and wished to be as religious as they were,
being convinced that they were right ; but still I loved the world in
my heart, and could not think of secluding myself from its pleasures
altogether. I would gladly have found out some way of reconciling
God and the world, so as to save my soul and keep some of my favo-
rite amusements. The Lord however followed me with convictions.
My own thoughts became very uneasy to me, the burden of my mis-
fortunes intolerable. My health and spirits at last sunk under them
and for some time before I left off going to public amusements,
(where I appeared outwardly gay and cheerful,) my heart was in-
wardly torn with anguish and inexpressible grief. The enemy now
suggested to me, that I had no resource left, but to give myself up
entirely to the gayeties of life, and seek consolation in whatever way
it presented itself without paying any regard to those maxims of wis-
dom, which hitherto had kept me within some bounds. To the best
of my remembrance it was the very same night on which the thought
was suggested, that I was seized with a fever which threatened to
cut short my days ; during the course of which, the first question
of the Assembly's Catechism was brought to my mind, — What is
the chief end of man ? as if some one had asked it. When I con-
sidered the answer to it, To glorify God and enjoy him forever, I
was struck with shame and confusion. I found 1 had never sought
to glorify God in my life, nor had any idea of what was meant by
enjoying him forever. Death and judgment were set before me, —
my past sins came to my remembrance. I saw no way to escape the
punishment due unto them nor had I the least glimmering hope of
obtaining the pardon of them, through the righteousness of another.
In this dismal state I continued some days, viewing death as the king
of terrors, without a friend to whom I could communicate my dis-
tress, and altogether ignorant of Jesus the friend of sinners. At
this time the Lord put it into the heart of Miss Hill to write to me.
I received her letter with inexpressible joy, as I thought she might
possibly say something that would lessen my fears of death. I im-
mediately wrote to her of my sad situation, and begged her advice.
Her answer set me upon searching the Scriptures, with much prayer
and supplication, that the Lord would show me the true way of sal-
vation, and not suffer me to be led into error. One day in particu-
lar I took the Bible into my hands, and fell upon my knees before
God, beseeching him with much importunity to reveal his will to me
by his word. My mouth wras filled with arguments, and I was en-
abled to plead with him, that as he had made me, and given me the
desire I then felt to know him, he would surely teach me the way in
which I should walk, and lead me into all truth, — that he knew I
only wished to know his will in order to do it, — that I was afraid of
being led into error ; but as he was truth itself, his teaching must be
infallible. I therefore committed my soul to him to be taught the
true way of salvation. After this prayer was finished, I opened the
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Bible then in my hands, and read part of third chapter of the Epistle
to the Romans, where our state by nature, and the way of redemp-
tion through a propitiatory sacrifice are clearly set forth. The eyes
of my understanding, were opened, and I saw wisdom and beauty
in the way of salvation by a crucified Redeemer. I saw that God
could be just, and justify the ungodly. The Lord Jesus now ap-
peared to me as a refuge, and I was glad to flee to him as my only
hope. This was in the summer of 1765. Since that time, I have
had many ups and downs in my Christian course, but have never
lost sight of Jesus as the Savior of the world though I have often had
my doubts of my own interest in him. I can safely say, that I would
not give up the little knowledge I have of him, for any thing on earth.
And although I have already suffered reproach for observing his pre-
cepts, and shortly expect to be scoffed at by all my former acquain-
tances, and to have my name cast out as evil, yet I rejoice in that he
thinketh me worthy to bear his cross. And I now beseech thee, O
Lord, to accept of my soul, body, reputation, property and influence,
and every thing that is called mine, and do with them whatever
seemeth good in thy sight. I desire neither ease, health nor pros-
perity, any further than may be useful to promote thy glory. Let
thy blessed will be done in me, and by me, from this day forth. O
let me begin this day to live wholly to thee. Let thy grace be suffi-
cient for me, and enable me to overcome the world. And to thee
be ascribed the honor and glory, now and forevermore. Amen and
amen."
Great Sugnal in Staffordshire, where Lord and Lady Glenorchy
sometimes resided, is at no great distance from Hawkstone ; and
the families had by means of this nearness become acquainted with
each other, so far as to exchange visits. At this period, several of
the younger branches of the Hawkstone family, Mr. Richard Hill,
the Rev. Rowland Hill, Miss Hill, and a younger sister, afterwards
Mrs. Tudway, were decidedly pious ; and they bore and braved
the reproach ordinarily drawn by a religious character, from the
thoughtless, the formal and the profligate. Lady Glenorchy was not
yet twenty four, and Miss Hill not much older, when by this corres-
pondence, their slight intimacy was ripened into a warm and perma-
nent friendship. Nothing could be more judicious, faithful and af-
fectionate, than the first letter which Miss Hill wrote in answer to
the unexpected communication from Lady Glenorchy, in which her
once gay friend laid open the agitated and anxious state of her feel-
ings under deep religious convictions. By the blessing of God that
letter was attended by the happiest effect : it was the means employ-
ed by divine grace to rescue her from despondency, and to direct
her to " the city of refuge." From that moment, without conferr-
ing with flesh and blood Lady Glenorchy resolutely turned her back
on the dissipated world, and devoted herself, and all that she could
command or influence, without reserve, to the service of her Re-
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deemer, and the glory of God. The correspondence between these
friends, which was carried on without interruption from 1765 to
1768, was doubtless of the utmost benefit to both. None of Lady
Glenorchy's letters, however, have been preserved : they were prob-
ably destroyed by Miss Hill, who survived her only a few years, on
account of their containing much delicate communication.
Lady Glenorchy passed the winter of 1765, 6, in London and
Bath, where every means was employed to induce her to return to
the circles of dissipation : but neither severity nor artifice, both of
which were put in practice, could divert her from her stedfastness.
We find Miss Hill, in one of her letters, congratulating her on the
resolution and fortitude she had displayed in resisting all invitations
to places of public amusement at Bath, from a consciousness of the
great danger she was in of being again entangled with the world.
Lord Breadalbane, her father in law, though he did not enter into
Lady Glenorchy's views in matters of religion, highly respected her
integrity and talents, and entertained for her to his latest hour the
warmest esteem. But she was exposed to much that was painful
and trying from other quarters and was visited with some severe do-
mestic trials. The loss of her only sister Lady Sutherland in 1766,
must have been aggravated by the melancholy circumstances attend-
ing it. The death of their eldest daughter had so deeply affected
Lord and Lady Sutherland, that leaving their seat at Dunrobin, they
repaired to Bath, to seek relief in a change of scene and the amuse-
ments of the gay world ; but they found it not. Soon after their ar-
rival, his Lordship was seized with a malignant fever, with which he
struggled with for fifty four days and then expired. The first twenty
one days and nights his Countess never left his bed side ; but at
length overcome with fatigue and anxiety, she sunk a victim to her
affection and fidelity, seventeen days before the death of her Lord.
Lady Alva, her mother, uninformed of the event, was on her way to
join her daughter at Bath, when, alighting from her carriage at an
inn, she saw two hearses standing. On inquiring whose remains they
contained, she was told they were those of Lord and Lady Suther-
land, on their way to the royal chapel of Holyrood house, Edinburgh.
The winter of 1766, 7, Lady Glenorchy passed in the country,
at a distance from all her religious friends, deprived of almost every
outward means of religious instruction and comfort; and exposed
thus singly to all the odium and unkind accusation which the singu-
larity of consistent piety never fails to provoke. Every effort ap-
pears to have been made to reason or laugh her out of her convic-
tions. She was charged with hypocrisy and superstition ; and she
felt these reproaches with an acuteness which occasioned the most
poignant distress. Her health appears at length to have been affec-
ted by the conflict of her feelings. But her mild perseverance and
resignation appear to have met with thei reward. She never lost
her influence over Lord Glenorchy, and at length obtained his tacit
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acquiescence in her plans. On her return to Taymouth, in the
summer of 1767, she frequently invited clergymen to the castle to
conduct domestic worship and to preach on the Lord's day, after
canonical hours, to the household and as many of the neighbors as
chose to attend. When in Edinburgh, she formed one of a select
religious party, who used to meet at first in each other's houses, and
afterwards at the house of the Rev. Mr. Walker, then senior minis-
ter of the High Church at Edinburgh, and colleague to the celebra-
ted Dr. Blair. Among the distinguished ladies who used to assemble
there, were the Marchioness of Lothian, the Countess of Leven
and Northesk, Lady Banff, Lady Maxwell, Lady Ross Baillie, and
others of rank and fortune. Mr. Walker on these occasions usually
either expounded the Scriptures, or delivered a sermon ; and these
meetings were continued weekly by him to the close of his life.
It was about this period, probably at these meetings, that Lady
Glenorchy contracted that intimacy with Lady Maxwell, which con-
tinued unbroken to the close of her life. In the year 1770, Lady
Glenorchy first conceived the design, in union with Lady Maxwell,
of opening a place of worship at Edinburgh, in which ministers of
the Gospel of every denomination that held its essential truths might
preach. With this view she hired St. Mary's chapel, which was
opened by the Rev. Mr. Middleton ; one of the six students, who,
a year or two before, had been expelled from Oxford, for attending
private religious meetings. This gentleman having received orders
in the church of England, officiated at this time in a small Episcopal
chapel at Dalkeith.
It was Lady Glenorchy's intention, that Divine service should be
performed on Sunday evenings, alternately or indifferently by Pres-
byterian and Episcopal ministers, and that one day in the week, Mr.
Wesley's preachers should be allowed the use of the chapel. The
different opinions of the persons employed to officiate, however, in
the nature of things never could coalesce. Large congregations
were collected, and good was done to individuals ; but the design
which at that time was quite novel in Scotland met with much disap-
probation from the religious public.
The ministers of the Established (Presbyterian) Church, refused
to preach in it, on account of the admission of Mr. Wesley's preach-
ers who were by no means generally acceptable. And at length soon
after the Rev. Mr. De Courcy had accepted the appointment of do-
me**.ic chaplain to Lord Glenorchy and minister of the chapel, her
ladyship gave up all connection with the Wesleyan preachers.
In the year 1771, Lady Glenorchy became a widow. Lord Glen-
orchy had been seized with a fit in October of that year ; alarming
symptoms returned in the beginning of November, and on the elev-
enth, while Mr. De Courcy, was praying for him he expired. He
was aware of his situation, and "his last days afforded evidence that
the religious sentiments with which Lady Glenorchy had labored to
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impress his mind, had not been lost upon him. Nothing could show
more unequivocally his Lordship's confidence in her, and his affec-
tionate sense of her real worth, notwithstanding any difference in
their religious views, than the disposition which he had made of his
property. His will gave Lady Glenorchy his whole real or landed
estate of the Baronies of Barnton and King's Cramound, and oth-
er lands, and all things belonging to him, in full right, constituting
her sole executrix and legatee ; with full power to convert the whole
into money, and to employ or bestow the whole or any part " for en-
couraging the preaching of the gospel, and promoting the knowledge
of the Protestant religion, erecting schools, and civilizing the inhab-
itants in Breadalbane, Glenorchy and Netherhouse, or other parts of
the Highlands of Scotland," in such a way and manner as she shall
judge proper and expedient. Of the existence of these deeds, Lady
Glenorchy was completely ignorant till they were produced after his
Lordship's death. She was thus at the age of thirty, left her own
mistress, with an independent fortune of between two and three
thousand pounds a year, under circumstances which called for all
her prudence, firmness and discretion.
The first use which Lady Glenorchy made of the wealth, with
which she found herself thus unexpectedly endowed, was the erec-
tion of a chapel at Edinburgh, which she designed to be in commu-
nion with the established church of Scotland. The first stone was
laid in the month of August, 1772. It was, however, many years
before her design was fully realized by the settlement of a stated
pastor. Early in the following year it having been represented to
her, by the minister of the parish, that the district of Strathfillan,
was in urgent need of additional means of religious instruction, her
ladyship lost no time in repairing the chapel there, endowing it, and
placing it under the patronage of the Society in Scotland, for propo-
gating Christian knowledge. The chapel still remains and continues
to be useful. She also procured two missionary preachers of the
Scottish establishment, under the sanction of the same society, to go
at her own expense through the Highlands and Islands of Scotland.
The state of her health rendering it necessary for her to pass the
winter in a warmer climate, she spent the close of 1776, and a great
part of the following year, in various parts of the west of England,
where her zeal displayed itself in constant efforts to promote the
spread of the gospel. At Exmouth, she purchased a house, and
fitted it up as a chapel, in which a congregation of some hundreds
was soon collected. She returned to Edinburgh, in the summer,
but from this period, continued to spend part of every year in the
west of England. In the year 1781, Lady Henrietta Hope, on the
death of her father, the Earl of Hopetoun, took up her abode with
Lady Glenorchy ; and the two friends, who were of one heart and
mind in all things, went hand in hand in their labors of benevolence
and works of charity. Though an invalid like herself, Lady Hen-
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rietta's happy temper, prudence and sagacity, rendered her society
an invaluable acquisition to her friend. In passing through Carlisle
that year, on her way to Buxton, observing an old Presbyterian
church shut up, Lady Glenorchy, after due inquiry, purchased and
endowed it, taking care to provide an evangelical minister. The
church has since been enlarged and continues to flourish. Some
years after, being compelled to remain at Matlock over Sunday, in
consequence of her carriage having broken down, she found the
state of religion in that village, on inquiry, very low, and immedi-
ately determined on the purchase of a chapel and house adjoining,
which she ultimately accomplished. This chapel ha§ also been the
means of much good to the neighborhood. Hope chapel, erected at
Bristol Hot wells, was undertaken at the joint expense of Lady Glen-
orchy and Lady Henrietta Hope : but the latter did not live to see
her design carried into execution. She bequeathed £2500, how-
ever for this purpose, and Lady Glenorchy gave it that name in
memory of her friend regarding it as her most suitable monument.
Lady Glenorchy appears also to have been instrumental in opening
a place of worship somewhere in Devonshire.
She also built a manufactory for the employment of the poor,
where the education of children was strictly attended to : even the
porter's lodges on each side of her gate were occupied as schools
for the neighboring poor. Her pleasure-grounds were thrown open
for the accommodation of the numbers who usually come from a dis-
tance to attend a communion season in Scotland. In a year of scar-
city the same grounds were planted with potatoes for the supply of
the poor. She distributed with great judgment various sums of mon-
ey in aid of families who were poor, yet deserving. She never en-
couraged idleness or pride, and often remarked that it was better to
assist people to do well in the sphere which Providence has assigned
them, than to attempt to raise them beyond it. There was so much
wisdom in the active application of her benevolent charities, as to
render them both efficient and extensive. She seldom was seen in
these works of beneficence ; her object was to do good : the grati-
tude of those on whom she bestowed benefits, was no part of her mo-
tive, or even of her calculation. What she did, she did unto God,
and in obedience to his commands : her faith and hope were in
God. She contributed largely to the public spirited Institutions es-
tablished at Edinburgh in her day. One or two of the most useful
she was the first to suggest the idea of, always accompanying her
recommendation with a handsome donation in money to encourage
the work.
She indulged the hope of seeing a union of exertion amongst all
Christian denominations, for sending the Gospel to the Heathen.
How delighted would she have been with the Missionary Societies
of London and elsewhere, had her life been spared to behold their
extensive operations ! She sold her estate of Barnton, that she might
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apply the money to a more disinterested object than her personal ac-
commodation, and that her fortune might be expended with her life.
" I recollect here," said Saurin in one of bis sermons, " an epitaph
said to be engraven on the tomb of Atolus of Rheims : He export-
ed his fortune before him into Heaven by his charities — he is gone
thither to enjoy it." This might be truly said of lady Glenorcby.
In her manners she discovered great dignity of character tempered
with the meekness and benevolence of the Gospel. Her family was
arranged with much economy, and a strict regard to moral and reli-
gious habits. She usually supported some promising and pious young
minister as her chaplain, which served him as an introduction to res-
pectability in the church. With very few exceptions, all those who
entered her family as servants, were in the process of time brought
under religious impressions. So far it pleased the Lord to honor her
pious endeavors to render her family one of the dwellings of the God
of Jacob.
She carried on an extensive correspondence with the agents of
her charities in various places, as well as with characters in the high-
est walks of life. The late celebrated William Pitt, whom she had
known when a boy, was pleased with her letters, and replied in the
most respectful terms to the counsel which she at times had given
him, on the higher concerns of his spiritual and eternal welfare.
Lady Glenorchy had drawn much information concerning the most
useful subjects, from reading, from conversation, and correspondence
with a numerous circle of worthy friends, and from acute observation
of what passed within and around her. She entered into conversa-
tion with much affability, and communicated ideas with uncommon
perspicuity and readiness. The vivacity of her temper, the justness
and sweetness of her remarks, could not fail to render her compa-
ny acceptable to any society. But important obligations of a spirit-
ual kind afforded her little leisure or inclination for mixed company.
Her courage in avowing and endeavoring to promote on every occa-
sion an attachment to the Gospel, was truly admirable. None had
more boldness, nor more ability in introducing religious discourse,
and directing the attention of those with whom she conversed to sub-
jects that were spiritual and edifying. None could sit for any time
at her table, or in her company, without hearing some truths, which
might be profitable to their souls. In her, religion wore no morose
or forbidding appearance. Her temper was cheerful, her conversa-
tion and manners, though remote from the dissipation of the age, ex-
hibited piety in a pleasing form, and conveyed the idea that, " Wis-
dom's ways are ways of pleasantness, and that all her paths are paths
of peace." She was indeed an enemy to the theatre, cards, and
some other amusements, in which multitudes waste much precious
time. She spoke from experience of their hurtfulness to our best
interests : she thought it her duty to warn others of their danger, and
to urge them to employ their time in a manner more suitable for im-
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mortal creatures, more improving to themselves, and more useful to
society.
Those who have had opportunity to see any of her ladyship's let-
ters or writings, know with what facility and propriety she expressed
herself. She had those abilities as a writer, which qualified her not
only for being an improving private correspondent, but conveying
useful instruction to the public, though modesty restrained the free
use of her pen for this purpose. While backward in this respect her-
self, she exerted her influence with success in exciting her friends to
publish religious tracts, that were adapted to the times and calculated
for public usefulness. She often defrayed the expense of them in
whole or in part, gave them in presents to her friends and the poor,
and was at much pains to promote their extensive circulation and util-
ity. At her desire and expense was composed and published a Gael-
ic translation of "Alleine's Alarm to the Unconverted," which has
been highly useful in the Highlands, as the original work has been to
many in other places.
She has been often heard to say that she considered herself as a
steward of the gifts of God, and as accountable for the discharge of
the important trust committed to her. Her life indeed was spent un-
der the influence of this important truth. She considered her for-
tune and her possessions not as her own, but God's, and to be em-
ployed for his glory. She retrenched many personal expenses, and
denied herself those luxuries which were likely to interfere with her
schemes of doing good. It was to enlarge the sphere of her use-
fulness, that she disposed of a considerable landed property, of the
beauties of which she was abundantly sensible : and arranged her af-
fairs for carrying on with success, after her decease, those useful de-
signs, in the prosecution of which her life was employed.
Her charities were very extensive, but many of them were distrib-
uted with such secrecy, that the benefactress could hardly be traced.
She sometimes expended hundreds of pounds in relieving indigence,
and placing the families of those of the household of faith in situations
of comfort and usefulness.
Her ladyship's attention was much directed to the most useful of
all charities, the religious education of youth. For this purpose she
employed different teachers of acknowledged piety and abilities, by
whom hundreds of children have been trained up in the knowledge
of our holy religion, and fitted for useful stations in society. Ma-
ny of them are already doing honor to their noble benefactress, and
teachers in different departments. Some of them, we trust, are reap-
ing the happy fruits of a pious education in the heavenly state. And
many, very many indigent youth shall, we hope, be educated by the
means which she has provided, for serving God and their generation
faithfully, in this age and in future times.
In private, the widow and the fatherless, the stranger and the dis-
tressed, experienced her abundant beneficence. To enable her to
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prosecute these schemes of benevolence, she herself carefully look-
ed into all her affairs, and studied the strictest economy : and though
her dress, her table, her attendants, her equipage, always correspon-
ded to her station ; yet she denied herself the splendor which her
fortune and rank could well have afforded and excused.
Deeply was Lady Glenorchy sensible of the necessity of watchful-
ness and prayer, and spent much of her time in the duties of secret
devotion. She was careful to have her servants, duly instructed in
religion, as well as the worship of God regularly maintained in her
family. She failed not to give her frequent advice and assistance
to all under her roof, as to the concerns of their souls and eternity.
She was never absent from the devotions of the family, nor from the
public ordinances of religion, when health permitted. Indeed from
these, when dispensed by faithful ministers, she derived the highest
delight, and under the increasing infirmities of a valetudinary consti-
tution, she felt the animating hopes and consolations which religion
inspires.
Her breast glowed with the most fervent love to the divine Re-
deemer of a lost world. His unparalleled condescension and grace
were the favorite subjects of her attention and discourse. She
thought she could never do enough to testify her gratitude to this
most generous benefactor, and her attachment to the gospel. It was
this principle, which excited an affectionate concern and many kind
endeavors for her relations and friends. It was this motive, which
influenced her to devote her substance to the purposes of piety and
beneficence. It was this which induced her to erect the commodi-
ous chapel in Edinburgh, where some hundred poor persons are
properly accomodated gratis for hearing the gospel, as well as fur-
nished with alms to alleviate the calamities of poverty, sickness, and
declining age. It was love to Jesus and to the souls of men, which
influenced her to build or purchase chapels in different places, and to
make a suitable provision for the faithful administration of the ordi-
nances of the gospel. In short, this was the grand governing impulse
of all her godly and benevolent exertions.
Lady Glenorchy knew the world too well, not to expect its hatred
and reproach for a zealous and consistent profession of the gospel ;
but her natural fortitude, and greatness of soul, and the force of reli-
gion on her heart, rendered this of small consequence in her estima-
tion : more than most Christians, she gloried in the cross of Christ.
The falsehood and ill nature which for some time were propagated
against her, she made the subject of the most refined and innocent
pleasantry.
We intend not, however, to hold forth Lady Glenorchy's character
as a perfect one. She had doubtless her infirmities, as well as others.
Her natural temper was quick, and at times she seemed to feel too
sensibly her own importance. But her ladyship's weaknesses, which
she readily acknowledged, were few and inconsiderable, when com-
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pared with her virtues, or with the imperfections in the bulk of pro-
fessors. The age has scarcely exhibited a character more exempla-
ry, or a life more useful. Indeed so excellent a character, such a
union of ability and will to do good, has seldom been seen in any age.
Full of plans for the glory of God, and the good of men, and
busy in the prosecution of them, this excellent lady arrived in Edin-
burgh from Bath, where she had spent the winter, in the beginning
of the summer 1786. Her friends observed, with concern, her de-
clining state of health. She spoke much to them of death, and of
her persuasion that, to her, it was near ; and uniformly expressed
her satisfaction and joy at the prospect. Her conversation was
nevertheless as easy, pleasant, and cheerful as ever. Religion, in
her, was not the production of gloom, either during the progress of
life, or in the near views of its termination. On the 14th of July, she
was seized with the first symptoms of an alarming illness. In the
forenoon of the following day, the curtains of her bed being drawn, a
relative approaching as softly as possible to ascertain whether she
slept, heard her say, " Well if this be dying it is the pleasantest thing
imaginable." She spoke but little after this, continuing to sleep softly
through that night and most of the following day, till, near noon of the
next, she expired, in the forty-fourth year of her age, at the house of the
Countess of Sutherland, George's square, Edinburgh, on Monday
the 17th of July 1786. Of her may be said in truth, what with
equal propriety cannot be said of every departed Christian, " her
path was as the shining light, which shineth more and more to the
perfect day."
Her life we bewail as short, but her attainments and usefulness
were much greater than many christians have reached in double her
age. In the best sense of the phrase, Lady Glenorchy lived fast, as
she was eager to redeem time for the most valuable purposes. She
had a mind uncommonly active, and was fervent in spirit, serving the
Lord. This angelic woman often said, that the first question in the
Assembly's Catechism with the answer, which had been the mean
of exciting her serious attention, was a strong spur to her in a re-
ligious course.
Lady Glenorchy was interred, July 24th, agreeably to her own re-
quest, in a vault in the centre of her chapel, Edinburgh. Next
Lord's-day, two funeral sermons were preached in her ladyship's
chapel to a very crowded and sorrowful audience ; the one by the
Rev. T. S. Jones, the pastor of that church — and the other by the
Rev. Dr. Andrew Hunter, professor of divinity in the university of
Edinburgh. Mr. Jones chose for his subject, Luke xii. 42 — 48,
" And the Lord said, who is that faithful and wise steward ?" Sic.
Dr. Hunter's text was equally suitable, and was taken from PsaL xii.
1. "Help, Lord," he.
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LADY HENRIETTA HOPE.
La.dy Henrietta Hope, whose name is mentioned in the preceding
memoir, was the third daughter of John, Earl of Hopetoun.
There can hardly be a stronger, and certainly not so amiable a
criterion of a person's worth and good qualities, as his being the
object of general affection and esteem in the particular place of his
habitual residence. Estimating by this rule, Lady Henrietta Hope
possessed indisputable pretensions to the most favorable representa-
tion ; for she was universally beloved by all around her where she
resided. This affection from superiors and inferiors, is a circum-
stance always honorable, and rendered peculiarly so in some situ-
ations.
Lady Henrietta Hope was formed for eminence. Possessed of
a strong, clear understanding, and sound judgment ; much improved
by reading, conversation, deep thought and observation, she gave
early presages of proving highly useful and ornamental to society, if
permitted to see those years necessary for maturing the powers of
the human mindl and the great expectations formed by her friends
were not disappointed. She possessed the nicest moral sense, a
heart for friendship, a keen sensibility of human pain, with an un-
ceasing desire to relieve or at least alleviate in every possible way,
the numerous distresses of her fellow creatures.
Yet, though favored with a mind thus enriched with every virtue
of the moral character, united to the most amiable disposition and
engaging manners, it was not till her twenty fifth year that Lady Hen-
rietta Hope began to inquire about the great realities of eternity.
At that time an impression concerning the one thing needful was
made upon her mind, which never afterwards was effaced. Her
own words upon this subject, at that memorable period are, " O to
grace how great a debtor ! Called at first out of nothing : and after
twenty five years obstinacy and rebellion, awakened from a state of
sin and misery, and death, and brought to the light of the glorious
Gospel, to the knowledge of Jesus Christ revealed therein, and
(though by slow degrees, through various mazes, manifold tempta-
tions, and sundry trials, may I not, in all humility say) to good
hopes through grace : how shall I praise the riches of that grace
which has abounded towards me !"
Being thus brought from darkness to light, and her mind relieved
from anxiety respecting her own state, the language of her heart was
that of the royal Psalmist : " What shall I render unto the Lord ?"
Believing it her duty, and viewing it as her privilege, she made an
entire dedication of herself, with all she had, or ever should stand
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possessed of, to that great and gracious Being, who had dealt so
bountifully with her. Nor did she ever breathe a wish to recall the
solemn deed : no, the residue of her life, by its uniform tenor, pro-
ved the sacrifice not only sincere, but universal, in so far as her situ-
ation would permit.
The deepest humility marked Lady Henrietta Hope's character,
almost to excess. From principle she courted the shade ; though
her mind, formed by natural and acquired abilities, fitted her for
shining as a bright example of the transforming power of sovereign
grace, united to every requisite for filling the most useful station in
the Christian line. From this excess of the most amiable virtue, the
public eye discovered but a few of the numerous instances of her
generous and judicious exertions for the cause of religion in particu-
lar, and the general good of her fellow creatures at large, as she usu-
ally acted through the medium of others, who she believed (from
overrating their abilities as she depreciated her own) were better
qualified to appear on the stage of life, as the witnesses of Jesus ;
but, though unknown to many, they are ail noted in the divine records
and will, ere long, be read aloud before the assembled world.
Suffice to say, Lady Henrietta Hope, on many occasions, united
with others, and gave largely both of judicious counsel and pecuniary
aid, towards erecting chapels, building schools, and endowing them,
together with extensive (both occasional and stated) provision for the
poor and distressed of every description ; while she used her influ-
ence with those in the higher walks of life, to gain them over to the
interests of vital, experimental religion : for which she was well qual-
ified, not only as holding forth by example the word of life in the
most amiable light, but also from a thorough acquaintance with the
doctrinal and preceptive parts of the holy religion she professed, to-
gether with no inconsiderable degree of elocution and command of
her pen. Availing herself of these advantages with a single eye to
the glory of God, and with that extreme modesty and winning soft-
ness peculiar to her, she often carried captive the minds of those she
addressed, at least so far as to gain approbation. Nothing short of
the interposition of a divine agent can produce in the human mind
that belief of the important truths of the Gospel, termed by the apos-
tle, " the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not
seen." Yet the divine blessing often renders effectual the feeble at-
tempts of Christians to effect this great purpose ; and there is rea-
son to believe this eminent servant of God did not labor in vain. If
to what is already said of this amiable lady, we add, her unwearied
attention to every relative duty, her faithful discharge of every trust
reposed in her, we must say, the portrait is pleasing, the character
exemplary.
But as no degree of moral excellence, or strength of grace, can
procure the Christian an exemption from trials in this probationary
state. Lady Henrietta Hope3 though possessed of the favor of her
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God, the esteem of the world, the affection of her relations, and
the love of her Christian friends, yet suffered much in the last years
of her life, from a very delicate frame, which gave rise to many dis-
tressing complaints; all which she endured with that calm fortitude
and unbroken resignation, that nothing but true religion can inspire.
In autumn 1785, Lady Henrietta Hope went to Bristol Hot wells,
where, after every medical exertion proving ineffectual, and the med-
dicinal virtue of the wells yielding no relief, she meekly rendered up
her ransomed soul into the hands of her gracious God, who called
her home to receive her great reward, eternal life, the free gift of
the most High, upon the 1st of January 1786, more full of honor
than of days ; leaving behind her a fair copy of every thing praise-
worthy, and of good report. A considerable part of her fortune
she left for pious and charitable purposes.
Of humble spirit, though of taste refin'd,
Her feelings tender, though her will resign'd ;
Call'd by affliction, every grace to prove,
In patience perfect, and complete in love ;
O'er death victorious, through her Savior's might,
She reigns triumphant with the saints in light.
Having thus made as copious a selection of the Lives of the pious
women of Britain as our limits will admit, we here close the record
of English female worth, and turn to the pages which honor our
country's name, by the recorded virtues of American women. Un-
graced by titles, and seldom privileged with the immense wealth of
the high-born ladies of Britain, female Christians on this side of the
Atlantic have not been enabled to make so grand a display in the
way of charities, but they have not been wanting in the active and
earnest labors of Christian love. The testimony of many of our
great and good men, who have traced the first source of their emin-
ence in a mother's gentle nurture, tells how and where their influence
has been felt. And the green graves, that hallow the shores and isles
of Eastern India and the Pacific, or bloom amid our western wilder-
ness, show that high devotion and deep feeling have sent them forth
in labors of love, as far as man's mightier soul has led the way, in
the fulfilment of the last charge and promise of the ascending Re-
deemer.
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>IRS. SARAH EDWARDS
WIFE OF THE ELDER PRESIDENT EDWARDS.
This lady, illustrious by her parentage, and by her connection
with the most renowned theologian of the last century, honored too-
by the eminence of many of her numerous descendents, owes her
rank among the good and noble of her sex, however, not merely to
the circumstances of birth and relation. In the laborious discharge
of the important, unpretending duties of a wife and mother, she had
a merit that was all her own, and in the high sphere of Christian
virtue, she shone with no borrowed light. Gifted by nature with
more than common mental powers, she might claim a place, also,
among those whose example has demonstrated the high faculties and
susceptibilities of the female mind. This brief record of her life
will show, that though she was not of the number of those females
who have attained the glory of a rank on the lists of science and
literature, yet to her belongs a noble though modest fame; — "Her
children rise up and call her blessed ; her husband also, and he prais-
eth her."
She was born at New Haven, on the 9th of January, 1710. Her
paternal grandfather, John Pierpont, who came from England and
resided in Roxbury, Massachusetts, was a younger branch of the
noble family of the dukes of Kingston. Her father, the Rev. James
Pierpont, was an eminent, pious and useful minister, at New Haven.
He married Mary, the daughter of the Rev. Samuel Hooker, of Far-
mington, who was the son of the Rev. Thomas Hooker, of Hartford,
familiarly denominated "the father of the Connecticut churches," and
well known, in the churches of England, for his distinguished talents
and most ardent piety. Mr. Pierpont was one of the principal
founders, and one of the Trustees of Yale College : and, to help
forward the infant seminary, read lectures to the students, for some
considerable time, as Professor of Moral Philosophy. The Plat-
form of the Connecticut churches, established at Saybrook, in 1708,
is ascribed to his pen. Miss Pierpont was a young lady of un-
common beauty. Not only is this the language of tradition ; but
Dr. Hopkins, who first saw her when the mother of seven children,
says she was more than ordinarily beautiful ; and her portrait, taken
by a respectable English painter,* while it presents a form and fea-
■ The Rev. Dr Erskine, the warm friend and the correspondent of Mr. Edwards,
being desirous of procuring a correct portrait, both of him and his wife, and hearing
that Smibert a distinguished painter was in Boston, forwarded to his agent in that town
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tures not often rivalled, exhibits also that peculiar loveliness of ex-
pression, which is the combined result of intelligence, cheerfulness
and benevolence. The native powers of her mind, were of a supe-
rior order ; and her parents being in easy circumstances, and of lib-
eral views, provided for their children all the advantages of an enlight-
ened and polished education. In her manners she was gentle and
courteous, amiable in her behavior, and the law of kindness appear-
ed to govern all her conversation and conduct. She was also a rare
example of early piety ; having exhibited the life and power of reli-
gion, and that in a remarkable manner, when only five years of age;*
and having also confirmed the hopes which her friends then cherish-
ed, by the uniform and increasing excellence of her character, in
childhood and youth. So warm and animated were her religious
feelings, in every period of life, that they might perhaps have been
regarded as enthusiastic, had they not been under the control of
true delicacy and sound discretion.
She was married at New Haven, when only in the eighteenth year
of her age, to the Rev. Jonathan Edwards, then minister of the Con-
gregational church in Northampton, Massachusetts. Mr. Edwards
had known her several years before their marriage, and from the
following passage, written on a blank leaf, in 1723, it is obvious, that
even then her uncommon piety, at least, had arrested his attention.
" They say there is a young lady in [New Haven] who is beloved
of that Great Being, who made and rules the world, and that there
are certain seasons in which this Great Being, in some way or other
invisible, comes to her and fills her mind with exceeding sweet de-
light, and that she hardly cares for any thing, except to meditate on
him — that she expects after a while to be received up where he is,
to be raised up out of the world and caught up into heaven ; being
assured that he loves her too well to let her remain at a distance from
him always. There she is to dwell with him, and to be ravished
with his love and delight forever. Therefore, if you present all the
world before her, with the richest of its treasures, she disregards it
and cares not for it, and is unmindful of any pain or affliction. She
has a strange sweetness in her mind, and singular purity in her affec-
tions ; is most just and conscientious in all her conduct ; and you
could not persuade her to do any thing wrong or sinful, if you would
give her all the world, lest she should offend this Great Being. She
is of a wonderful sweetness, calmness and universal benevolence of
the sum requisite, not only for the portraits, but for the expenses of the journey.
They were taken in 1740 ; and after the death of Dr. Erskine, were very kindly
transmitted by his executor, to Dr. Edwards. Smibert, the painter of these portraits
was an Italian by birth, extensively patronised in England, and was eminent in his
art, as many fine paintings by him will show. The fine family picture of Bishop
Berkeley in the Yale College collection is by him.
* Hopkins' Life of Edwards. Dr. H. resided in the family a considerable time.
MRS. SARAH EDWARD b. 303
mind ; especially after this Great God has manifested himself to her
mind. She will sometimes go about from place to place, singing
sweetly; and seems to be always full of joy and pleasure; and no
one knows for what. She loves to be alone, walking in the fields
and groves, and seems to have some one invisible always conversing
with her." After due allowance is made for animation of feeling,
the reader will be convinced, that such a testimony, concerning a
young lady of thirteen, could not have been given, by so competent
a judge, had there not been something unusual in the purity and ele-
vation of her mind, and the excellence of her life. Few persons,
we are convinced, no older than she was at the time of her marriage,
have made equal progress in holiness ; and rare, very rare, is the
instance, in which such a connection results in a purer or more unin-
terrupted happiness. It was a union, founded on high personal es-
teem, and on a mutual affection, which continnally grew, and ripened,
and mellowed for the time of harvest. The station, which she was
called to till at this early age, is one of great delicacy, as well as res-
ponsibility, and is attended with many difficulties. She entered on
the performance of the various duties to her family and the people,
to which it summoned her, with a firm reliance on the guidance and
support of God ; and perhaps no stronger evidence can be given of
her substantial worth, than that from the first she discharged them in
such a manner, as to secure the high and increasing approbation of
all who knew her.
In the midst of the remarkable and complicated labors to which
Mr. Edwards was called, he found at home one, who was in every
sense a help meet for him ; one who made their common dwelling
the abode of order and neatness, of peace and comfort, of harmony
and love, to all its inmates, and of kindness and hospitality to the
friend, the visitant and the stranger. " While she uniformly paid a
becoming deference to her husband, and treated him with entire res-
pect, she spared no pains in conforming to his inclinations, and ren-
dering every thing in the family agreeable and pleasant : accounting
it her greatest glory, and that wherein she could best serve God and
her generation, to be the means, in this way, of promoting his use-
fulness and happiness. As he was of a weakly, infirm constitution,
and was necessarily peculiarly exact in his diet, she was a tender
nurse to him, cheerfully attending upon him at all times, and in all
things ministering to his comfort. And no person of discernment
could be conversant in the family, without observing, and admiring,
the perfect harmony, and mutual love and esteem, that subsisted be-
tween them. At the same time, when she herself labored under
bodily disorders and pains, which was not unfrequently the case, in-
stead of troubling those around her with her complaints, and wearing
a sour or dejected countenance, as if out of humor with every body,
and every thing around her, because she was disregarded and neg-
lected ; she was accustomed to bear up under them, not only with
patience, but with cheerfulness and good humor."
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Devoted as Mr. Edwards was to study, and to the duties of his
profession, it was necessary for him at all times, to be relieved from
attention to all secular concerns ; and it was a most happy circum-
stance, that he could trust every thing of this nature to the care of
Mrs. Edwards, with entire safety and with undoubting confidence.
" She was a most judicious and faithful mistress of a family, habitu-
ally industrious, a sound economist, managing her household affairs
with diligence and discretion. She was conscientiously careful, that
nothing should be wasted and lost ; and often, when she herself took
care to save any thing of trifling value, or directed her children or
others to do so, or when she saw them waste any thing, she would
repeat the words of our Savior — "that nothing be lost;" which
words, she said she often thought of, as containing a maxim worth
remembering, especially when considered as the reason alleged by
Christ, why his disciples should gather up the fragments of that
bread, which he had just before created with a word. She took al-
most the whole direction of the temporal affairs of the family, with-
out doors and within, managing them with great wisdom and pru-
dence, as well as cheerfulness ; and in this, was particularly suited
to the disposition, as well as the habits and necessities, of her hus-
band, who chose to have no care, if possible, of any worldly busi-
ness."
But there are other duties, of a still more tender and difficult na-
ture, which none but a parent can adequately perform ; and it was
an unspeakable privilege to Mr. Edwards, now surrounded by a
young and growing family, that when his duties to his people, espe-
cially in times of revival, necessarily occupied his whole attention,
he could safely commit his children to the wisdom and piety, the
love and faithfulness, of their mother. Her views of the responsi-
bility of parents, were large and comprehensive. " She thought
that, as a parent, she had great and important duties to do towards
her children, before they were capable of government and instruc-
tion. For them, she constantly and earnestly prayed, and bore them
on her heart before God, in all her secret and most solemn addresses
to him ; and that, even before they were born. The prospect of her
becoming the mother of a rational immortal creature, which came into
existence in an undone and infinitely dreadful state, was sufficient to
lead her to bow before God daily, for his blessing on it — even re-
demption and eternal life by Jesus Christ. So that, through all the
pain, labor and sorrow, which attended her being the mother of chil-
dren, she was in travail for them, that they might be born of God."
She regularly prayed with her children, from a very early period,
and, as there is the best reason to believe, with great earnestness and
importunity. Being thoroughly sensible that, in many respects, the
chief care of forming children by government and instruction, natu-
rally lies on mothers, as they are most with their children, at an age
when they commonly receive impressions that are permanent, and
MRS. SARAH EDWARDS.
have great influence jki forming the character for life, she was very
careful to do her part in this important business. When she foresaw,
or met with, any special difficulty in this matter, she was wont to
apply to her husband, for advice and assistance; and on such occa-
sions, they would both attend to it, as a matter of the utmost impor-
tance. She had an excellent way of governing her children ; she
knew how to make them regard and obey her cheerfully, without
loud angry words, much less heavy blows. She seldom punished
them; and in speaking to them, used gentle and pleasant words. If
any correction was necessary, she did not administer it in a passion ;
and when she had occasion to reprove and rebuke, she would do it
in few words, without warmth and noise, and with all calmness and
gentleness of mind. In her directions and reproofs, in matters of
importance, she would address herself to the reason of her children,
that they might not only know her inclination and will, but at the
same time be convinced of the reasonableness of it. She had need
to speak but once ; she was cheerfully obeyed : murmuring and an-
swering again were not known among them. In their manners, they
were uncommonly respectful to their parents. When their parents
came into the room, they all rose instinctively from their seats, and
never resumed them until their parents were seated ; and when
either parent was speaking, no matter with whom they had been
conversing, they were all immediately silent and attentive. The
kind and gentle treatment they received from their mother, while
she strictly and punctiliously maintained her parental authority, seem-
ed naturally to beget and promote a filial respect and affection, and
to lead them to a mild tender treatment of each other. Quarrelling
and contention, which too frequently take place among children, were
in her family wholly unknown. She carefully observed the first ap-
pearance of resentment and ill will in her young children, towards
any person whatever, and did not connive at it, as many who have
the care of children do, but was careful to show her displeasure, and
suppress it to the utmost ; yet, not by angry, wrathful words, which
often provoke children to wrath, and stir up their irascible passions,
rather than abate them. Her system of discipline was begun at a
very early age, and it was her rule, to resist the first, as well as every
subsequent exhibition of temper or disobedience in the child, how-
ever young, until its will was brought into submission to the will of
its parents : wisely reflecting, that until a child will obey his parents^
he can never be brought to obey God.
Fond as Mr. Edwards was of welcoming the friend and the stran-
ger, and much as his house was a favorite place of resort, to gentle-
men both of the clergy and laity ; it was absolutely necessary, at all
times, and peculiarly so in seasons of religious attention, that some
one, well knowing how to perform the rites of hospitality, and to pay
all the civilities and charities of life, should relieve him from these
attentions, during those hours which were consecrated to his pro-
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fessional duties; and here also, he could most advantageously avail
himself of the assistance of Mrs. Edwards. Educated in the midst
of polished life, familiar from childhood with the rules of decorum
and good breeding, affable and easy in her manners, and governed
by the feelings of liberality and benevolence, she was remarkable
for her kindness to her friends, and to the visitants who resorted to
Mr. Edwards ; sparing no pains to make them welcome, and to pro-
vide for their convenience and comfort. She was also peculiarly
kind to strangers, who came to her house. By her sweet and win-
ning manners, and ready conversation, she soon became acquainted
with them, and brought them to feel acquainted with herself; and
showed such concern for their comfort, and so kindly offered what
she thought they needed, that while her friendly attentions discovered
at once that she knew the feelings of a stranger, they also made their
way directly to his heart, and gaining his confidence, led him imme-
diately to feel as if he were at home, in the midst of near and affec-
tionate friends.
" She made it her rule, to speak well of all, so far as she could
with truth and justice to herself and others. She was not wont to
dwell with delight on the imperfections and failings of any ; and
when she heard persons speaking ill of others, she would say what
she thought she could, with truth and justice, in their excuse, or
divert the obloquy, by mentioning those things that were commend-
able in them. Thus she was tender of every one's character, even
of those who injured and spoke evil of her ; and carefully guard-
ed against the too common vice, of evil speaking and backbiting.
She could hear injuries and reproach, with great calmness, without
any disposition to render evil for evil ; but, on the contrary, was
ready to pity and forgive those, who appeared to be her enemies."
This course of conduct, steadily pursued, secured, in an unusual
degree, the affection and confidence of those who knew her.
She proved also, an invaluable auxiliary to Mr. Edwards, in the
duties of his profession, not only by her excellent example, but by
her active efforts in doing good. "She was," says Dr. Hopkins,
" eminent for her piety, and for experimental religion. Religious
conversation was her delight ; and, as far as propriety permitted,
she promoted it in all companies. Her religious conversation show-
ed at once, her clear comprehension of spiritual and divine things,
and the deep impression which they had made upon her mind." It
was not merely conversation about religion — about its truths, or du-
ties, or its actual state — its doctrines or triumphs — or the character
and conduct of its friends and ministers : it was religion itself; —
that supreme love to God, to his kingdom and his glory, which,
abounding in the heart, flows forth spontaneously, in the daily con-
versation and the daily life.
The friends of vital Christianity, those who delighted in its great
and essential truths, who showed its practical influence on their
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lives, and who were most engaged in promoting its prosperity, were
her chosen friends and intimates. With such persons, she would
converse freely and confidentially, telling them of the exercises of
her own heart, and the happiness she had experienced in a life of
religion, for their encouragement in the christian course. Her
mind appeared to attend to spiritual and divine things constantly, on
all occasions, and in every condition and business of life. Secret
prayer was her uniform practice, and appeared to be the source of
daily enjoyment. She was a constant attendant on public worship,
and always exhibited the deepest solemnity and reverence in the
house of God. She always prized highly the privilege of social
worship, not only in the family, but in the private meetings of chris-
tians. Such meetings, on the part of females only, for prayer and
religious conversation, have at times been objected to, as, both in
their nature and results, inconsistent with the true delicacy of the
sex. Her own judgment, formed deliberately, and in coincidence
with that of her husband, was in favor of these meetings ; and ac-
cordingly, she regularly encouraged and promoted them, during the
remarkable revival of religion in 1734 and 1735, as well as at other
times ; attending on them herself, and not declining to take her
proper share in the performance of their various duties. In this
way, she exerted an important influence among her own sex, and
over the young : an influence always salutary in promoting union,
ardor and spiritual-mindedness, but especially powerful, in seasons
of uncommon attention to religion.
One circumstance, which served essentially to extend and increase
this influence, was the fact, that her religion had nothing gloomy or
forbidding in its character. Unusual as it was in degree, it was em-
inently the religion of joy. On the testimony of Mr. Edwards, it
possessed this character, even when she was a little child of about
five or six years of age, as well as customarily in after life. At the
commencement of this remarkable work of grace, she appears to
have dedicated herself anew to God, with more entire devotion of
heart to his service and glory, than she had ever been conscious of
before ; and during its progress, as well as afterwards, she experi-
enced a degree of religious enjoyment, not previously known to her-
self, and not often vouchsafed to others.
Near the close of the year 1738, according to the testimony of
Mr. Edwards, she was led, under an uncommon discovery of God's
excellency, and in an high exercise of love to God, and of rest and
joy in him, to make a new and most solemn dedication of herself to
his service and glory, an entire renunciation of the world, and a re-
signation of all to God. After this, she had often such views of the
glory of the Divine perfections, and of Christ's excellencies, and at
times, for hours together, without any interruption, that she was over-
whelmed, and as it were swallowed up, in the light and joy of the
Jove of God. In the summer of 1 740, after a new and more perfect
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resignation of herself to God, with yet greater fervency, her views of
the glory of God, and of the excellency of Christ, became still more
clear and transporting ; and in the following winter, after a similar,
but more perfect resignation of herself, and acceptance of God as the
only portion and happiness of her soul, God appeared to vouchsafe
to her, for a long period, a degree of spiritual light and enjoyment,
which seemed to be, in reality, an anticipation of the joys of the heav-
enly world. There was so much that was unusual and striking in
this state of mind, that her husband requested her to draw up an ex-
act statement of it ; which, having been preserved, is now presented
to the reader.
"On Tuesday night, Jan. 19, 1742," observes Mrs. Edwards,
u I felt very uneasy and unhappy, at my being so low in grace. I
thought I very much needed help from God, and found a spirit of
earnestness to seek help of him, that I might have more holiness.
When I had for a time been earnestly wrestling with God for it, I felt
within myself great quietness of spirit, unusual submission to God,
and willingness to wait upon him, with respect to the time and man-
ner in which he should help me, and wished that he should take his
own time, and his own way, to do it.
" The next morning, I found a degree of uneasiness in my mind,
at Mr. Edwards's suggesting, that he thought I had failed in some
measure in point of prudence, in some conversation I had with Mr.
Williams of Hadley, the day before. I found, that it seemed to be-
reave me of the quietness and calm of my mind, in any respect not
to have the good opinion of my husband. This, I much disliked
in myself, as arguing a want of a sufficient rest in God, and felt a
disposition to fight against it, and look to God for his help, that I
might have a more full and entire rest in him, independent of all oth-
er things. I continued in this frame, from early in the morning until
about 10 o'clock, at which time the Rev. Mr. Reynolds went to pray-
er in the family.
" I had before this, so entirely given myself up to God, and re-
signed up every thing into his hands, that I had, for a long time, felt
myself quite alone in the world ; so that the peace and calm of my
mind, and my rest in God, as my only and all sufficient happiness,
seemed sensibly above the reach of disturbance from any thing but
these two : 1st. My own good name and fair reputation among men,
and especially the esteem and just treatment of the people of this
town ; 2dly. And more especially, the esteem, and love and kind
treatment of my husband. At times, indeed, I had seemed to be
considerably elevated above the influence of even these things ; yet
I had not found my calm, and peace and rest in God so sensibly,
fully and constantly, above the reach of distnrbance from them, un-
til now.
" While Mr. Reynolds was at prayer in the family this morning, f
felt an earnest desire that, in calling on God, he should say, Father,
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or that he should address the Almighty under that appellation : on
which the thought turned in my mind — Why can I say, Father*! —
Can I now at this time, with the confidence of a child, and without
the least misgiving of heart, call God my father ? — This brought to
my mind, two lines of Mr. Erskine's Sonnet :
" I see him lay his vengeance by,
" And smile in Jesus' face."
" I was thus deeply sensible, that my sins did loudly call for ven-
geance ; but I then by faith saw God " lay his vengeance by, and
smile in Jesus' face." It appeared to be real and certain that he did
so. I had not the least doubt, that he then sweetly smiled upon me,
with the look of forgiveness and love, having laid aside all his dis-
pleasure towards me, for Jesus' sake ; which made me feel very
weak, and somewhat faint.
"In consequence of this, I felt a strong desire to be alone with
God, to go to him, without having any one to interrupt the silent and
soft communion, which I earnestly desired between God and my own
soul ; and accordingly withdrew to my chamber. It should have
been mentioned that, before I retired, while Mr. Reynolds was pray-
ing, these words, in Rom. viii. 34, came into my mind " Who is
he that condemneth; It is Christ that died, yea rather that is risen
again, who is even at the right hand of God, who also maketh inter-
cession for us ;" as well as the following words, " Who shall sepa-
rate us from the love of Christ," etc. ; which occasioned great sweet-
ness and delight in my soul. But when I was alone, the words came
to my mind with far greater power and sweetness; upon which I
took the Bible, and read the words to the end of the chapter, when
they were impressed on my heart with vastly greater power and
sweetness still. They appeared to me with undoubted certainty as
the words of God, and as words which God did pronounce concern-
ing me. I had no more doubt of it, than I had of my being. I
seemed as it were to hear the great God proclaiming thus to the
world concerning me ; " Who shall lay any thing to thy charge"
etc. ; and had it strongly impressed on me, how impossible it was for
any thing in heaven or earth, in this world or the future, ever to sep-
arate me from the love of God which was in Christ Jesus. 1 can-
not find language to express, how certain this appeared — the ever-
lasting mountains and hills were but shadows to it. My safety, and
happiness, and eternal enjoyment of God's immutable love, seemed
as durable and unchangeable as God himself. Melted and overcome
by the sweetness of this assurance, I fell into a great flow of tears,
and could not forbear weeping aloud. It appeared certain to me
that God was my Father, and Christ my Lord and Savior, that he
was mine and I his. Under a delightful sense of the immediate pres-
ence and love of God, these words seemed to come over and over
in my mind, " My God, my all ; my God, my all." The presence
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of God was so near, and so real, that I seemed scarcely conscious of
any thing else. God the Father, and the Lord Jesus Christ, seem-
ed as distinct persons, both manifesting their inconceivable loveliness,
and mildness, and gentleness, and their great and immutable love to
me. I seemed to be taken under the care and charge of my God
and Savior, in an inexpressibly endearing manner ; and Christ ap-
peared to me as a mighty Savior, under the character of the Lion
of the Tribe of Judah, taking my heart, with all its corruptions, un-
der his care, and putting it at his feet. In all things, which concern-
ed me, I felt myself safe under the protection of the Father and the
Savior ; who appeared with supreme kindness to keep a record of
every thing that I did, and of every thing that was done to me, purely
for my good.
"The peace and happiness, which I hereupon felt, was altogeth-
er inexpressible. It seemed to be that which came from heaven ;
to be eternal and unchangeable. I seemed to be lifted above earth
and hell, out of the reach of every thing here below, so that I could
look on all the rage and enmity of men or devils, with a kind of ho-
ly indifference, and an undisturbed tranquillity. At the same time, I
felt compassion and love for all mankind, and a deep abasement of
soul, under a sense of my own unworthiness. I thought of the min-
isters who were in the house, and felt willing to undergo any labor
and self-denial, if they would but come to the help of the Lord. I
also felt myself more perfectly weaned from all things here below,
than ever before. The whole world, with all its enjoyments, and all
its troubles, seemed to be nothing : — My God was my all, my only
portion. No possible suffering appeared to be worth regarding : all
persecutions and torments were a mere nothing. I seemed to dwell
on high, and the place of defence to be the munition of rocks.
"After some time, the two evils mentioned above, as those which
I should have been least able to bear, came to my mind — the ill treat-
ment of the town, and the ill will of my husband ; but now I was car-
ried exceedingly above even such things as these, and I could feel
that, if I were exposed to them both, they would seem comparative-
ly nothing. There was then a deep snow on the ground, and I could
think of being driven from my home into the cold and snow, of being
chased from the town with the utmost contempt and malice, and of
being left to perish with the cold, as cast out by all the world, with
perfect calmness and serenity. It appeared to me, that it would not
move me, or in the least disturb the inexpressible happiness and peace
of my soul. My mind seemed as much above all such things, as the
sun is above the earth.
" I continued in a very sweet and lively sense of divine things, day
and night, sleeping and waking, until Saturday, Jan. 23. On Satur-
day morning, I had a most solemn and deep impression on my mind
of the eye of God as fixed upon me, to observe what improvement
I made of those spiritual communications I had received from him ;
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as well as of the respect shown Mr. Edwards, who had then been sent
for to preach at Leicester. I was sensible that I was sinful enough
to bestow it on my pride, or on my sloth, which seemed* exceedingly
dreadful to me. At night, my soul seemed to be filled with an inex-
pressibly sweet and pure love to God, and to the children of God ;
with a refreshing consolation and solace of soul, which made me mh
lin°* to lie on the earth, at the feet of the servants of God, to declare
his gracious dealings with me, and breathe forth before them my love,
and gratitude, and praise.
" The next day, which was the Sabbath, I enjoyed a sweet, and
lively and assured sense of God's infinite grace, and favor, and love
to me, in taking me out of the depths of hell, and exalting me to the
heavenly glory, and the dignity of a royal priesthood.
" On Monday night, Mr. Edwards, being gone that day to Lei-
cester, I heard that Mr. Buell, was coming to this town, and from
what I had heard of him, and of his success, I had strong hopes
that there would be great effects from his labors here. At the same
time, I had a deep and affecting impression, that the eye of God was
ever upon my heart, and that it greatly concerned me to watch my
heart, and see to it that I was perfectly resigned to God, with res-
pect to the instruments he should make use of to revive religion in
this town, and be entirely willing, if it was God's pleasure, that he
should make use of Mr. Buell ; and also that other christians should
appear to excel me in christian experience, and in the benefit they
should derive from ministers. I was conscious, that it would be ex-
ceedingly provoking to God if I should not be thus resigned, and
earnestly endeavored to watch my heart, that no feelings of a con-
trary nature might arise ; and was enabled, as I thought to exercise
full resignation, and acquiescence in God's pleasure, as to these
things. I was sensible what great cause I had to bless God, for the
use he had made of Mr. Edwards hitherto ; but thought, if he never
blessed his labors any more, and should greatly bless the labors of
other ministers, I could entirely acquiesce in his will. It appeared
to me meet and proper, that God should employ babes and sucklings
to advance his kingdom. When I thought of these things, it was
my instinctive feeling to say, " Amen, Lord Jesus ! Amen Lord Je-
sus !" This seemed to be the sweet and instinctive language of my
soul.
11 On Tuesday, I remained in a sweet and lively exercise of this
resignation, and love to, and rest in God, seeming to be in my heart
from day to day, far above the reach of every thing here below.
On Tuesday night, especially the latter part of it, I felt a great ear-
nestness of soul and engagedness in seeking God for the town, that
religion might now revive, and that God would bless Mr. Buell to
that end. God seemed to be very near to me while I was thusstri-
ving with him for these things, and I had a strong hope that what I
sought of him would be granted. There seemed naturally and un-
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avoidably to arise in my mind an assurance, that now God would do
great things for Northampton.
On Wednesday morning I heard that Mr. Buell, arrived the night
before at Mr. Phelps's, and that there seemed to be great tokens and
effects of the presence of God there, which greatly encouraged
and rejoiced me. About an hour and a half after, Mr. Buell came
to our house, I sat still in entire resignedness to God, and willingness
that God should bless his labors here as much as he pleased ; though
it were to the enlivening of every saint, and to the conversion of
every sinner, in the town. These feelings continued afterwards,
when I saw his great success ; as 1 never felt the least rising of heart
to the contrary, but my submission was even and uniform, without
interruption or disturbance. I rejoiced when I saw the honor which
God put upon him, and the respect paid him by the people, and the
greater success attending his preaching, than had followed the
preaching of Mr. Edwards immediately before he went to Leicester.
I found rest and rejoicing in it, and the sweet language of my soul
continually was, " Amen, Lord Jesus ! Amen, Lord Jesus !"
" At 3 o'clock in the afternoon, a lecture was preached by Mr.
Buell. In the latter part of the sermon, one or two appeared much
moved, and after the blessing, when the people were going out, sev-
eral others. To my mind there was the clearest evidence, that God
was present in the congregation, on the word of redeeming love ;
and in the clear view of this, I was all at once filled with such intense
admiration of the wonderful condescension and grace of God, in re-
turning again to Northampton, as overwhelmed my soul, and imme-
diately took away my bodily strength. This was accompanied with
an earnest longing, that those of us, who were the children of God,
might now arise and strive. It appeared to me, that the angels in
heaven sung praises, for such wonderful, free and sovereign grace,
and my heart was lifted up in adoration and praise. I continued to
have clear views of the future world, of eternal happiness and mise-
ry, and my heart full of love to the souls of men. On seeing some
that I found were in a natural condition, I felt a most tender compas-
sion for them ; but especially was I, while I remained in the meeting-
house, from time to time overcome, and my strength taken away, by
the sight of one and another, whom I regarded as the children of
God, and who, I had heard were lively and animated in religion.
We remained in the meeting-house about three hours, after the pub-
lic exercises were over. During most of the time, my bodily strength
was overcome ; and the joy and thankfulness, which were excited in
my mind, as I contemplated the great goodness of God, led me to
converse with those who were near me, in a very earnest manner.
" When I came home, I found Mr. Buell, Mr. Christophers, Mr.
Hopkins, Mrs. Eleanor Dwight, the wife of Mr. Joseph Allen, and
Mr. Job Strong, at the house. Seeing and conversing with them on
the Divine goodness, renewed my former feelings, and filled me
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with an intense desire that we might all arise, and with an active,
flowing and fervent heart, give glory to God. The intenseness of
my feelings again took away my bodily strength. The words of one
of Dr. Watts's Hosannas powerfully affected me ; and in the course
of the conversation, I uttered them, as the real language of my heart
with great earnestness and emotion.
" Hosanna to King David's Son,
<•' Who reigns on a superior throne," &c.
And while I was uttering the words, my mind was so deeply impres-
sed with the love of Christ, and a sense of his immediate presence,
that I could with difficulty refrain from rising from my seat, and leap-
ing for joy. I continued to enjoy this intense, and lively, and re-
freshing sense of Divine things, accompanied with strong emotions,
for nearly an hour ; after which, I experienced a delightful calm, and
peace and rest in God, until I retired for the night; and during the
night, both waking and sleeping, I had joyful views of Divine things,
and a complacential rest of soul in God. I awoke in the morning of
of Thursday, June 28th, in the same happy frame of mind, and
engaged in the duties of my family with a sweet consciousness, that
God was present with me, and with earnest longings of soul for the
continuance, and increase of the blessed fruits of the Holy Spirit in
the town. About nine o'clock, these desires became so exceedingly
intense, when I saw numbers of the people coming into the house,
with an appearance of deep interest in religion, that my bodily
strength was much weakened, and it was with difficulty that I could
pursue my ordinary avocations. About 11 o'clock, as I accidentally
went into the room where Mr. Buell was conversing with some of
the people, I heard him say, " O that we, who are the children of
God, should be cold and lifeless in religion !" and I felt such a sense
of the deep ingratitude manifested by the children of God, in such
coldness and deadness, that my strength was immediately taken away
and I sunk down on the spot. Those who were near raised me, and
placed me in a chair ; and from the fulness of my heart, I express-
ed to them, in a very earnest manner, the deep sense I had of the
wonderful grace of Christ towards me, of the assurance I had of his
having saved me from hell, of my happiness running parallel with
eternity, of the duty of giving up all to God, and of the peace and
joy inspired by an entire dependence on his mercy and grace. Mr.
Buell then read a melting hymn of Dr. Watts,* concerning the loveli-
ness of Christ, the enjoyments and employments of heaven, and the
christian's earnest desire of heavenly things, and the truth and reality of
the things mentioned in the hymn, made so strong an impression on my
* Probably the 91st Hymn of the 2d Book, beginning with
" O the delights, the heavenly joys,
" The glories of the place.
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mind, and my soul was drawn so powerfully towards Christ and
heaven, that 1 leaped unconsciously from my chair. I seemed to be
drawn upwards, soul and body,- from the earth towards heaven; and
it appeared to me that I must naturally and necessarily ascend thith-
er. These feelings continued while the hymn was reading, and du-
ring the prayer of Mr. Christophers, which followed. After the
prayer, Mr. Buell read two other hymns, on the glories of heaven,
which moved me so exceedingly, and drew me so strongly heaven-
ward, that it seemed as it were to draw my body upwards, and I felt
as if I must necessarily ascend thither. At length my strength failed
me, and I sunk down ; when they took me up and laid me on the
bed, where I lay for a considerable time, faint with joy, while con-
templating the glories of the heavenly world. After I had lain a
while, I felt more perfectly subdued and weaned from the world,
and more fully resigned to God, than I had ever been conscious of
before. I felt an entire indifference to the opinions, and representa-
tions and conduct of mankind respecting me ; and a perfect willing-
ness, that God should employ some other instrument than Mr. Ed-
wards, in advancing the work of grace in Northampton. I was en-
tirely swallowed up in God, as my only portion, and his honor and glory
was the object of my supreme desire and delight. At the same
time, I felt a far greater love to the children of God, than ever be-
fore. I seemed to love them as my own soul ; and when I saw them
my heart went out towards them, with an inexpressible endearedness
and sweetness. I beheld them by faith in their risen and glorified
state, with spiritual bodies re-fashioned after the image of Christ's
glorious body, and arrayed in the beauty of heaven. The time
when they would be so, appeared very near, and by faith it seemed
as if it were present. This was accompanied with a ravishing sense
of the unspeakable joys of the upper world. They appeared to my
mind in all their reality and certainty, and as it were in actual and
distinct vision ; so plain and evident were they to the eye of my faith,
I seemed to regard them as begun. These anticipations were re-
newed over and over, while I lay on the bed, from twelve o'clock
till four, being too much exhausted by emotions of joy, to rise and
sit up ; and during most of the time, my feelings prompted me to
converse very earnestly, with one and another of the pious women,
who were present, on those spiritual and heavenly objects, of which
I had so deep an impression. A little while before I arose, Mr.
Buell and the people went to meeting.
" I continued in a sweet and lively sense of Divine things, until
I retired to rest. That night, which was Thursday night, Jan. 28,
was the sweetest night I ever had in my life. I never before, for so
long a time together, enjoyed so much of the light, and rest, and
sweetness of heaven in my soul, but without the least agitation of
body during the whole time. The great part of the night I lay
awake, sometimes asleep, and sometimes between sleeping and wa-
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king. But all night I continued in a constant, clear and lively sense
of the heavenly sweetness of Christ's excellent and transcendent
love, of his nearness to me, and of my dearness to him ; with an in-
expressibly sweet calmness of soul in an entire rest in him. I seem-
ed to myself to perceive a glow of divine love come down from the
heart of Christ in heaven, into my heart, in a constant stream, like
a stream or pencil of sweet light. At the same time, my heart and
soul all flowed out in love to Christ ; so that there seemed to be a
constant flowing and re-flowing of heavenly and divine love, from
Christ's heart to mine ; and I appeared to myself to float or swim,
in these bright sweet beams of the love of Christ, like the motes
swimming in the beams of the sun, or the streams of his light which
come in at the window. My soul remained in a kind of heavenly
elysium. So far as I am capable of making a comparison, I think
that what I felt each minute, during the continuance of the whole
time, was worth more than all the outward comfort and pleasure
which I had enjoyed in my whole life put together. It was a pure
delight, which fed and satisfied the soul. It was pleasure, without
the least sting, or any interruption. It was a swreetness, which my
soul was lost in. It seemed to be all that my feeble frame could
sustain, of that fullness of joy, which is felt by those, who behold
the face of Christ, and share his love in the heavenly world. There
was but little difference, whether I was asleep or awake, so deep was
the deep impression made on my soul ; but if there was any differ-
ence, the sweetness was greatest and most uninterrupted, while I
was asleep.
" As I awoke early the next morning, which was Friday, I was
led to think of Mr. Williams of Hadley preaching that day in the
town, as had been appointed ; and to examine my heart, whether
I was willing that he, who was a neighboring minister, should be ex-
traordinarily blessed, and made a greater instrument of good in the
town, than Mr. Edwards ; and was enabled to say, with respect to
that matter, " Amen, Lord Jesus !" and to be entirely willing, if
God pleased, that he should be the instrument of converting every
soul in the town. My soul acquiesced fully in the will of God, as to
the instrument, if his work of renewing grace did but go on.
" This lively sense of the beauty and excellency of divine things,
continued during the morning, accompanied with peculiar sweetness
and delight. To my own imagination, my soul seemed to be gone
out of me to God and Christ in heaven, and to have very little rela-
tion to my body. God and Christ were so present to me, and so
near me, that I seemed removed from myself. The spiritual beauty
of the Father and the Savior, seemed to engross my whole mind ;
and it was the instinctive feeling of my heart, " Thou art ; and there
is none beside thee." I never felt such an entire emptiness of self-
love, or any regard to any private, selfish interest of my own. It
seemed to me, that I had entirely done with myself. I felt that the
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opinions of the world concerning me were nothing, and that I had no
more to do with any outward interests of my own, than with that of
a person whom I never saw. The glory of God seemed to be all,
and in all, and to swallow up every wish and desire of my heart.
"Mr. Sheldon came into the house about 10 o'clock, and said to
me as he came in, " The Sun of righteousness arose on my soul this
morning, before day;" upon which I said to him in reply, "That
Sun has not set upon my soul all this night ; I have dwelt on high in
the heavenly mansions ; the light of divine love has surrounded me ;
my soul has been lost in God, and has almost left the body." This
conversation only served to give me a still livelier sense of the reality
and excellence of divine things, and that to such a degree, as again to
take away my strength, and occasion great agitation of body. So
strong were my feelings, I could not refrain from conversing with
those around me, in a very earnest manner, for about a quarter of
an hour, on the infinite riches of divine love in the work of salva-
tion : when my strength entirely failing, my flesh grew very cold,
and they carried me and set me by the fire. As I sat there, I had a
most affecting sense of the mighty power of Christ, which had been
exerted in what he had done for my soul, and in sustaining and
keeping down the native corruptions of my heart, and of the glorious
and wonderful grace of God in causing the ark to return to Northamp-
ton. So intense were my feelings, when speaking of these things,
that I could not forbear rising up and leaping with joy and exultation.
I felt at the same time an exceedingly strong and tender affection for
the children of God, and realized, in a manner exceedingly sweet
and ravishing, the meaning of Christ's prayer, in John xvii. 21,
" That they all may be one, as thou Father art in me, and 1 in thee,
that they also may be one in ws." This union appeared to me an in-
conceivable, excellent and sweet oneness ; and at the same time I
felt that oneness in my soul, with the children of God who were
present. Mr. Christophers then read the hymn out of the Peniten-
tial cries, beginning with
M My soul doth magnify the Lord,
" My spirit doth rejoice ;"
The whole hymn was deeply affecting to my feelings : but when
these words were read,
" My sighs at length are turn'd to songs,
" The comforter is come :"
So conscious was 1 of the joyful presence of the holy Spirit, I could
scarcely refrain from leaping with transports of joy. This happy
frame of mind continued until two o'clock, when Mr. Williams came
in, and we soon went to meeting. He preached on the subject of
the assurance of faith. The whole sermon was affecting to me, but
especially when he came to show the way in which assurance was
obtained, and to point out its happy fruits. When I heard him say,
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that those, who have assurance, have a foretaste of heavenly glory, I
knew the truth of it from what I then felt : I knew that I then tasted
the clusters of the heavenly Canaan : My soul was filled and over-
whelmed with light and love, and joy in the Holy Ghost, and seemed
just ready to go away from the body. 1 could scarcely refrain from
expressing my joy aloud, in the midst of the service. I had in the
mean time, an overwhelming sense of the glory of God, as the Great
Eternal All, and of the happiness of having my own will entirely
subdued to his will. I knew that the foretaste of glory, which I then
had in my soul, came from him, that I certainly should go to him,
and should, as it were, drop into the Divine Being, and be swal-
lowed up in God.
11 After meeting was done, the congregation waited while Mr.
Buell went home to prepare to give them a Lecture. It was almost
dark before he came, and in the mean time, I conversed in a very
earnest and joyful manner, with those who were with me in the pew.
My mind dwelt on the thought, that the Lord God Omnipotent reign-
eth, and it appeared to me that he was going to set up a reign of
love on the earth, and that heaven and earth were, as it were, coming
together ; which so exceedingly moved me that I could not forbear
expressing aloud, to those near me, my exultation of soul. This
subsided into a heavenly calm, and a rest of soul in God, which was
even sweeter than what preceded it. Afterwards Mr. Buell came
and preached ; and the same happy frame of mind continued during
the evening, and night, and the next day. In the forenoon I was
thinking of the manner in which the children of God had been trea-
ted in the world — particularly of their being shut up in prison — and
the folly of such attempts to make them miserable, seemed to sur-
prise me. It appeared astonishing, that men should think, by this
means, to injure those who had such a kingdom within them. To-
wards night, being informed that Mrs. P had expressed her
fears least I should die before Mr. Edwards' return, and he should
think the people had killed his wife ; I told those who were present,
that I chose to die in the way that was most agreeable to God's will,
and that I should be willing to die in darkness and horror, if it was
most for the glory of God.
11 In the evening, I read those chapters in John, which contain
Christ's dying discourse with his disciples, and his prayer with them.
After I had done reading, and was in my retirement, a little before
bed time, thinking on what I had read, my soul was so filled with
love to Christ, and love to his people, that I. fainted under the in-
tenseness of the feeling. I felt while reading, a delightful acquies-
cence in the petition to the Father — " 1 pray not that thou shouldst
take them out of the world, but that thou shouldst keep them from
evil" Though it seemed to me infinitely better to die to go to
Christ, yet I felt an entire willingness to continue in this world so
long as God pleased, to do and suffer what he would have me.
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" After retiring to rest and sleeping a little while, I awoke and had
a very lively consciousness of God's being near me. 1 had an idea
of a shining way, or path of light, between heaven and my soul,
somewhat as on Thursday night, except that God seemed nearer to
me, and as it were close by, and the way seemed more open, and
the communication more immediate and more free. I lay awake
most of the night, with a constant delightful sense of God's great love
and infinite condescension, and with a continual view of God as near,
and as my God. My soul remained, as on Thursday night, in a kind
of heavenly elysium. Whether waking or sleeping, there was no in-
terruption, throughout the night, to the views of my soul, to its heav-
enly light, and divine, inexpressible sweetness. It was without any
agitation or motion of the body. I was led to reflect on God's mer-
cy to me, in giving me, for many years, a willingness to die ; and
after that, for more than two years past, in making me willing to live,
that I might do and suffer whatever he called me to here ; whereas,
before that, 1 often used to feel impatient at the thought of living.
This then appeared to me, as it had often done before, what gave
me much the greatest sense of thankfulness to God. I also thought
how God had graciously given me, for a great while, an entire re-
signation to his will, with respect to the kind and manner of death
that I should die ; having been made willing to die on the rack, or at
the stake, or any other tormenting death, and, if it were God's will,
to die in darkness : and how I had that day been made very sensi-
ble and fully willing, if it was God's pleasure and for his glory, to
die in horror. But now it occurred to me, that when I had thus
been made willing to live, and to be kept on this dark abode, I used
to think of living no longer than to the ordinary age of man. Upon
this I was led to ask myself, Whether I was not willing to be kept
out of heaven even longer ; and my whole heart seemed immediate-
ly to reply, " Yes, a thousand years, if it be God's will, and for his
honor and glory :" and then my heart, in the language of resignation,
went further, and with great alacrity and sweetness, to answer as it
were over and over again, "Yes, and live a thousand years in hor-
ror, if it be most for the glory of God : yea, I am willing to live a
thousand years a hell upon earth, if it be most for the honor of
God." But then I considered with myself, What this would be, to
live a hell upon earth, for so long a time ; and I thought of the tor-
ment of my body being so great, awful and overwhelming, that none
could bear to live in the country where the spectacle was seen, and
of the torment and horror of my mind being vastly greater than the
torment of my body ; and it seemed to me that I found a perfect
willingness, and sweet quietness and alacrity of soul, in consenting
that it should be so, if it were most for the glory of God ; so that
there was no hesitation, doubt or darkness in my mind, attending
the thoughts of it, but my resignation seemed to be clear, like a light
that shone through my soul. I continued saying, " Amen, Lord Je-
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sus ! Amen, Lord Jesus ! glorify thyself in me, in my body and my
soul," — with a calm and sweetness of soul, which banished all reluc-
tance. The glory of God seemed to overcome me and swallow me
up, and every conceivable suffering, and every thing that was terri-
ble to my nature, seemed to shrink to nothing before it. This resig-
nation continued in its clearness and brightness the rest of the night,
and all the next day, and the night following, and on Monday in the
forenoon, without interruption or abatement. All this while, when-
ever I thought of it, the language of my soul was, with the great-
est fullness and alacrity, "Amen, Lord Jesus! Amen, Lord Jesus !"
In the afternoon of Monday, it was not quite so perceptible and live-
ly, but my mind remained so much in a similar frame, for more than
a week, that I could never think of it without an inexpressible sweet-
ness in my soul.
" After I had felt this resignation on Saturday night, for some time
as I lay in bed, I felt such a disposition to rejoice in God, that I wish-
ed to have the world join me in praising him ; and was ready to won-
der how the world of mankind could lie and sleep, when there was
such a God to praise, and rejoice in, and could scarcely forbear call-
ing out to those who were asleep in the house, to arise, and rejoice,
and praise God. When I arose on the morning of the Sabbath, I
felt a love to all mankind, wholly peculiar in its strength and sweet-
ness, far beyond all that I had ever felt before. The power of that
love seemed to be inexpressible. I thought, if I were surrounded
by enemies, who were venting their malice and cruelty upon me, in
tormenting me, it would still be impossible that I should cherish any
feelings towards them but those of love, and pity and ardent desires
for their happiness. At the same time I thought, if I were cast off
by my nearest and dearest friends, and if the feelings and conduct of
my husband were to be changed from tenderness and afFection, to
extreme hatred and cruelty, and that every day, I could so rest in
God, that it would not touch my heart, or diminish my happiness. I
could still go on with alacrity in the performance of every act of du-
ty, and my happiness remain undiminished and entire.
" I never before felt so far from a disposition to judge and censure
others, with respect to the state of their hearts, their sincerity, or their
attainments in holiness, as I did that morning. To do this, seemed
abhorrent to every feeling of my heart. I realized also, in an unu-
sual and very lively manner, how great a part of Christianity lies in
the performance of our social and relative duties to one another.
The same lively and joyful sense of spiritual and divine things con-
tinued throughout the day — a sweet love to God and all mankind,
and such an entire rest of soul, in God, that it seemed as if nothing
that could be said of me, or done to me, could touch my heart, or
disturb my enjoyment. The road between heaven and my soul seem-
ed open and wide, all the day long ; and the consciousness I had of
the reality and excellence of heavenly things was so clear, and the
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affections they excited so intense, that it overcame my strength, and
kept my body weak and faint, the great part of the day, so that I
could not stand or go without help. The night also was comforting
and refreshing.
" This delightful frame of mind was continued on Monday. About
noon, one of the neighbors, who was conversing with me, expressed
himself thus, " One smile from Christ is worth a thousand million
pounds," and the words affected me exceedingly, and in a manner
which I cannot express. I had a strong sense of the infinite worth
of Christ's approbation and love, and at the same time of the gross-
ness of the comparison ; and it only astonished me, that any one
could compare a smile of Christ to any earthly treasure. — Towards
night, I had a deep sense of the awful greatness of God, and felt with
what humility and reverence we ought to behave ourselves before
him. Just then Mr. W came in, and spoke with a somewhat
light, smiling air, of the flourishing state of religion in the town ;
which I could scarcely bear to see. It seemed to me, that we ought
greatly to revere the presence of God, and to behave ourselves with
the utmost solemnity and humility, when so great and holy a God
was so remarkably present, and to rejoice before him with trem-
bling.— In the evening, these words, in the Penitential Cries, — "The
Comforter is come !" — were accompanied to my soul with such
conscious certainty, and such intense joy, that immediately it took
away my strength, and I was falling to the floor ; when some of those
who were near me caught me and held me up. And when I repeat-
ed the words to the by-standers, the strength of my feelings was in-
creased. The name — "The Comforter" — seemed to denote that
the Holy Spirit was the only and infinite Fountain of comfort and
joy, and this seemed real and certain to my mind. These words —
" The Comforter" — seemed as it were immensely great, enough
to fill heaven and earth.
" On Tuesday after dinner, Mr. Buell, as he sat at table, began to
discourse about the glories of the upper world ; which greatly affec-
ted me, so as to take away my strength. The views and feelings of
the preceding evening, respecting the Great Comforter, were renew-
ed in the most lively and joyful manner ; so that my limbs grew cold,
and I continued to a considerable degree overcome for about an hour,
earnestly expressing to those around me, my deep and joyful sense
of the presence and divine excellence of the Comforter, and of the
glories of heaven.
" It was either on Tuesday, or Wednesday, that Mr. W came
to the house, and informed what account Mr. Lyman, who was just
then come from Leicester, on his way from Boston, gave of Mr. Ed-
wards's success, in making peace and promoting religion at Leices-
ter. The intelligence inspired me with such an admiring sense of
the great goodness of God, in using Mr. Edwards as the instrument
of doing good, and promoting the work of salvation., that it immedi-
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diately overcame me, and took away my strength, .so that I could no
longer stand on my feet. On Wednesday night, Mr. Clark, com-
ing in with Mr. Buell and some of the people, asked me how I felt.
I told him that I did not feel at all times alike, but this I thought I
could say, that I had given up all to God, and there is nothing like it,
nothing like giving up all to him, esteeming all to be his, and resign-
ing all at his call. 1 told him that, many a time within a twelve-
month, I had asked myself when I lay down, How I should feel, if
our house and all our property in it should be burnt up, and we
should that night be turned out naked ; whether I could cheerfully
resign all to God ; and whether 1 so saw that all was his, that I could
fully consent to his will, in being deprived of it ? and that I found,
so far as I could judge, an entire resignation to his will, and felt that,
if he should thus strip me of every thing, I had nothing to say, but
should, I thought, have an entire calm and rest in God, for it was
his own, and not mine. After this, Mr. Phelps gave us an account
of his own feelings, during a journey from which he had just re-
turned ; and then Mr. Pomeroy broke forth in the language of joy,
and thankfulness and praise, and continued speaking to us nearly an
hour, leading us all the time to rejoice in the visible presence of
God, and to adore his infinite goodness and condescension. He con-
cluded by saying, " I would say more, if I could ; but words were
not made to express these things." This reminded me of the words
of Mrs. Rowe :
" More I would speak, but all my words are faint :
" Celestial Love, what eloquence can paint ?
" No more, by mortal words, can be expressed ;
" But vast Eternity shall tell the rest ;"
and my former impressions of heavenly and divine things were re-
newed with so much power, and life and joy, that my strength all fail-
ed me, and I remained for some time faint and exhausted. After
the people had retired, I had a still more lively and joyful sense of
the goodness and all-sufficiency of God, of the pleasure of loving
him, and of being alive and active in his service, so that, I could not
sit still, but walked the room for some time, in a kind of transport.
The contemplation was so refreshing and delightful, so much like a
heavenly feast within the soul, that I felt an absolute indifference as
to any external circumstances ; and, according to my best remem-
brance, this enlivening of my spirit continued so, that I slept but little
that night.
" The next day, being Thursday, between ten and eleven o'clock
and a room full of people being collected, I heard two persons give
a minute account of the enlivening and joyful influences of the Holy
Spirit on their own hearts. It was sweet to me, to see others before
me in their divine attainments, and to follow after them to heaven.
I thought I should rejoice to follow the negro servants in the town to
heaven. While I was thus listening, the consideration of the blessed
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appearances there were of God's being there with us, affected me
so powerfully, that the joy and transport of the preceding night were
again renewed. After this, they sang a hymn, which greatly moved
me, especially the latter part of it, which speaks of the ungrateful-
ness of not having the praises of Christ always on our tongues. Those
last words of the hymn seemed to fasten on my mind, and as I re-
peated them over, I felt such intense love to Christ, and so much de-
light in praising him, that I could hardly forbear leaping from my
chair, and singing aloud for joy and exultation. I continued thus
extraordinarily moved until about one o'clock, when the people went
away."
It is true indeed, that very different views will be formed of the
preceding narrative, by different individuals. Those, who have no
conception of what is meant by the religion of the heart, will doubt-
Jess pronounce it the offspring of a diseased body, or a distempered
brain. Others, who profess the religion of Christ, but whose minds
usually come in contact with nothing which is not merely palpable —
with nothing but what they can either see, or hear, or feel, or taste,
— will probably regard it as the effects of mere enthusiasm. While
others, who are both more intellectual and more spiritual in their
objects of contemplation, will at once perceive, that the state of mind
therein described, is one to which they themselves are chiefly or
wholly strangers ; and will therefore very naturally, and rationally
wish to learn, somewhat more minutely, the circumstances of the in-
dividual who was the subject of these spiritual discoveries, as well
as their actual effects upon her character. On these points, the tes-
timony of Mr. Edwards is full and explicit ; and from his authority,
we state the following facts.
At this time, Mrs. Edwards bad been long, in an uncommon man-
ner, growing in grace, and rising, by very sensible degrees, to high-
er love to God, weanedness from the world, and mastery over sin
and temptation, through great trials and conflicts, and long continued
struggling and fighting with sin, and earnest and constant prayer and
labor in religion, and engagedness of mind in the use of all means,
attended with a great exactness of life ; and this growth had been
attended, not only with a great increase of religious affections, but
with a most visible alteration of outward behavior ; particularly in
living above the world, and in a greater degree of steadfastness and
strength in the way of duty and self-denial ; maintaining the christian
conflict against temptations, and conquering from time to time under
great trials ; persisting in an unmoved, untouched calm and rest, under
the changes and accidents of time, such as seasons of extreme pain,
and apparent hazard of immediate death. These transports did
not arise from bodily weakness, but were greatest in the best state of
health. They were accompanied with a lively sense of the greatness
of God, and her own littleness and vileness ; and had abiding effects,
in the increase of the sweetness, rest and humility, which they left
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upon the soul, and in a new engagedness of heart to live to the hon-
or of God, and to watch and fight against sin. They were attended
with no enthusiastical disposition to follow impulses, or supposed
revelations, nor with any appearance of spiritual pride ; but on the
contrary, with a very great increase of meekness, and humility, and
a disposition in honor to prefer others, as well as with a great aver-
sion to judging others, and a strong sense of the importance of mor-
al, social duties. They were accompanied with an extraordinary
sense of the awful majesty of God, so as frequently to take away the
bodily strength ; with a sense of the holiness of God, as of a flame
infinitely pure and bright, so as oftentimes to overwhelm soul and
body; with an extraordinary view of the infinite terribleness of his
wrath, of the exceeding sinfulness of her own heart, and of a desert
of that wrath forever ; with an intense sorrow for sin, so as entirely
to prostrate the strength of the body ; with a clear certainty of the
truth of the great things revealed in the Gospel ; with an overwhelm-
ing sense of the glory of the work of redemption, and the way of
salvation by Jesus Christ, of the glorious harmony of the Divine at-
tributes appearing therein, as that wherein mercy and truth have met
together, and righteousness and peace have kissed each other ; with
a sight of the glorious sufficiency of Christ, a constant immoveable
trust in God, an overwhelming sense of his glorious unsearchable
wisdom, a sweet rejoicing at his being infinitely and unchangeably
happy, independent and all-sufficient, at his reigning over all, and
doing his own will with uncontrollable power and sovereignty; with a
delightful sense of the glory of the Holy Spirit, as the great Comfor-
ter ; with intense desires for the honor and glory of God's name, a clear
and constant preference of it, not only to her own temporal interests,
but to her spiritual comfort; with a willingness to live and die in spir-
itual darkness, if the honor of God required it, a great lamenting of
ingratitude, intense longings and faintings after higher love to Christ,
and greater conformity to him — particularly to be more perfect in hu-
mility and adoration ; with great delight in singing praises to God and
Jesus Christ, a desire that this present life might be one continued song
of praise, and an overcoming pleasure at the thought of spending eterni-
ty in that exercise ; with a living by faith in a very unusual manner;
with a uniform distrust of her own strength, and a great dependence
on God for help ; with intense longings that all christians might be
fervent in love, and active in the service of God ; with taking pleasure
in watchfulness and toil, self-denial and bearing the cross ; with a
melting compassion for those who were in a state of nature, and for
christians under darkness, a universal benevolence to all mankind,
a willingness to endure any suffering for the conversion of the im-
penitent— her compassion for them being often to that degree, that
she could find no support nor rest, but in going to God and pour-
ing out her soul in prayer for them ; with earnest, desires that the
then existing work of Divine grace might be carried on with greater
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purity, and freedom from all bitter zeal, censoriousness, spiritual
pride and angry controversy, and that the kingdom of Christ might
be established through the earth, as a kingdom of holiness, peace,
and joy ; with unspeakable delight in the thoughts of heaven, as a world
of love, where love shall be the saints' eternal food, where they shall
dwell in the light of love, and where the very air and breath will be
nothing but love ; intense love to the people of God, as to those who
will soon wear his perfect image ; with earnest desires that others
might love God better than herself, and attain to higher degrees of
holiness ; with a delight in conversing on the most spiritual and
heavenly things in religion, often engaging in such conversation, with a
degree of feeling too intense to be long endured ; and with a lively
sense of the importance of charity to the poor, as well as of the
need which ministers have of the influences of the Holy Spirit, and
earnest longings and wrestlings with God for them in prayer. She
had also, according to Mr. Edwards, the greatest, fullest, longest
continued, and most constant Assurance of the favor of God, and of a
title to future glory, that he ever saw any appearance of, in any per-
son ; — enjoying, especially near the time in which he made this state-
ment, to use her own expression, the riches of Full Assurance ;
as well as an uninterrupted, entire resignation to God, with respect
to health or sickness, ease or pain, life or death, and an entire resig-
nation of the lives of her nearest earthly friends. These things were
attended with a constant, sweet peace and serenity of soul, without
a cloud to interrupt it, a continual rejoicing in all the works of nature
and providence, a wonderful access to God by prayer, sensibly con-
versing with him, as much as if Christ were here on earth ; frequent,
plain, sensible and immediate, answers of prayer, all tears wiped away,
all former troubles and sorrows of life forgotten, excepting sorrow
for sin, doing every thing for God and his glory, doing it as the ser-
vice of love, with a continual, uninterrupted cheerfulness, peace and
joy. " O how good," she once observed, "is it to work for God in
the day time, and at night to lie down under his smiles." Instead of
slighting the means of grace in consequence of these discoveries, she
was never more sensible of her need of instruction ; instead of re-
garding herself as free from sin, she was led by her clearer sight of
the Divine holiness, to perceive more fully the sinfulness of her own
heart ; instead of neglecting the business of life, she performed it
with greater alacrity, as a part of the service of God — declaring
that, when thus done, it was as delightful as prayer itself. At the
same time, she discovered an extreme anxiety to avoid every sin, and
to discharge every moral obligation, was most exemplary in the per-
formance of every social and relative duty, exhibiting great inoffen-
siveness of life and conversation, great meekness, gentleness and be-
nevolence of spirit, and avoided, with remarkable conscientiousness,
all those things, which she regarded as failings in her own character.
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To those, who, after reading this statement of facts, still regard the
preceding narrative as the offspring of enthusiasm, we shall draw
our reply from Mr. Edwards himself: "Now if such things are en-
thusiasm, and the offspring of a distempered brain ; let my brain be
possessed evermore of that happy distemper ! If this be distraction ;
I pray God that the world of mankind may all be seized with this
benign, meek, beneficent, beatific, glorious distraction ! What no-
tion have they of true religion, who reject what has here been descri-
bed ? What shall we find to correspond with these expressions of
Scripture, The peace of God, that passeth all understanding : Re-
joicing with joy unspeakable, and full of glory : God's shining into
our hearts, to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in
the face of Jesus Christ : With open face, beholding as in a glass
the glory of God, and being changed into the same image, from glory
to glory, even as by the Spirit of the Lord : Being called out of dark-
ness into marvelous light: and having the day-star arise in our
heart: What let me ask, if these things that have been mentioned
do not correspond with these expressions ; what else can we find that
does correspond with them ?"
Mr. Edwards adds, that he had witnessed many instances, in
Northampton and elsewhere, of other persons, which were in general,
of the same kind with these, though not so high in degree, in any in-
stance ; and, in many of them, not so pure and unmixed, or so well
regulated. In some individuals, who discovered very intense religious
affections, there was obviously a great mixture of nature with grace,
and in some a sad degenerating of religious affections ; yet, in most
instances, they were uniform in their character, and obviously the re-
sult of fervent piety.
The character of Mrs. Edwards's piety, which led her to secure
to others as well as herself, the enjoyment of the peace of God, is
exhibited in the following anecdote, related by Dr. Hopkins in his
life of President Edwards.
" In the month of December," he observes, "being furnished with
a horse, I set out for Northampton, with a view to live with Mr. Ed-
wards, where I was an utter stranger. When I arrived there, Mr.
Edwards was not at home ; but I was received with great kindness by
Mrs. Edwards and the family, and had encouragement that I might
live there during the winter. Mr. Edwards was absent on a preach-
ing tour, as people in general were greatly attentive to religion and
preaching, which was attended with remarkable effects, in the con-
viction and supposed conversion of multitudes. I was very gloomy,
and was most of the time retired in my chamber. After some days.
Mrs. Edwards came into my chamber, and said, " As I was now be-
come a member of the family for a season, she felt herself interest-
ed in my welfare ; and, as she observed that I appeared gloomy and
dejected, she hoped I would not think she intruded, by her desiring
to know, and asking me what was the occasion of it," or to that pur-
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pose. I told her the freedom she used was agreeable to me ; that
the occasion of the appearance which she mentioned, was the state
in which I considered myself. I was in a Christless, graceless state,
and had been under a degree of conviction and concern for myself,
for a number of months ; had got no relief, and my case, instead of
growing better, appeared to grow worse. Upon which we entered
into a free conversation ; and on the whole she told me, that she had
peculiar exercises in prayer respecting me, since I had been in the
family; that she trusted I should receive light and comfort, and
doubted not that God intended yet to do great things by me."
President Edwards himself was fully sensible of the value of his
amiable and excellent consort. Much of the tender and affection-
ate was expressed in his conversation with her, and in all his con-
duct towards her. He was often visited by her in his study, and
conversed freely with her on matters of religion ; and he used com-
monly to pray with her in his study, at least once a day, unless some-
thing extraordinary prevented. The season for this was commonly
in the evening, after prayers in the family, just before going to bed.
As he rose very early himself, he was wont to have his family up be-
times in the morning ; after which, before they entered on the busi-
ness of the day, he attended on family prayers ; when a chapter in
the Bible was read, commonly, by candle light in the winter ; upon
which he asked his children questions, according to their age and
capacity ; and took occasion to explain some passages in it, or enforce
any duly recommended, as he thought proper.
Under the guidance of such parents, laboring unitedly and harmo-
niously for their offspring's best good, it would naturally be expected
that the children, who enjoyed their instructions, would profit by it in
an eminent degree. Such was the case, and many of their eleven
children were distinguished for piety and usefulness. Jerusha, the
second daughter, who died at the age of nineteen, had been the ob-
ject of the sincere regard and affection of all who knew her, and
particularly of the eminent David Brainerd, who died at Mr. Ed-
wards's house but a few months before her. Her father, in a note
to the Memoirs of Brainerd, thus alludes to this distressing event.
" Since this, it has pleased a holy and sovereign God, to take away
this my dear child by death, on the 14th of February, next follow-
ing, after a short illness of five days, in the eighteenth year of her
age. She was a person of much the same spirit with Brainerd. She
had constantly taken care of, and attended him in his sickness, for
nineteen weeks before his death ; devoting herself to it with great
delight, because she looked on him as an eminent servant of Jesus
Christ. In this time, he had much conversation with her on the
things of religion ; and, in his dying state, often expressed to us, her
parents, his great satisfaction concerning her true piety, and his con-
fidence that he should meet her in heaven, and his high opinion of
her not only as a real christian, but as a very eminent saint : one
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whose soul was uncommonly fed and entertained with things which
pertain to the most spiritual, experimental and distinguishing parts
of religion ; and one, who, by the temper of her mind, was fitted
to deny herself for God, and to do good, beyond any young woman
whatsoever whom he knew. She had manifested a heart uncom-
monly devoted to God in the course of her life, many years before
her death ; and said on her death-bed, that she had not seen one
minute, for several years, wherein she desired to live one minute long-
er, for the sake of any other good in life, but doing good, living to
God, and doing what might be for his glory."
The third daughter, Esther, afterwards became the wife of the
Rev. Aaron Burr, President of New Jersey College, at Princeton.
President Burr died at Princeton, September 25, 1757, and im-
mediately after that event, Mr. Edwards was chosen to succeed his
son-in-law, in the presidency of the college. He accepted the call,
and in the beginning of the next year went to Princeton, to enter on
the duties of his office.
" The small pox had now become very common in the country,
and was then at Princeton, and likely to spread. And as Mr. Ed-
wards had never had it, and inoculation was then practised with
great success in those parts, he proposed to be inoculated, if the
physician should advise to it, and the corporation would give their
consent. Accordingly, by the advice of the physician, and the con-
sent of the corporation, he was inoculated February 13th. He
had it favorably, and it was thought all danger was over ; but a
secondary fever set in, and, by reason of a number of pustules in
his throat, the obstruction was such, that the medicines necessary to
check the fever, could not be administered. It therefore raged till
it put an end to his life, on the 22d of March, 1758, in the 55th
year of his age.
The physician, who inoculated and constantly attended him, in
his sickness, addressed the following letter to Mrs. Edwards, on this
occasion :
"To Mrs. Sarah Edwards, Stockbridge.
"Princeton, March 22, 1758.
" Most dear and very worthy Madam,
" I am heartily sorry for the occasion of my writing to you, by
this express, but I know you have been informed, by a line from
your excellent, lovely and pious husband, that I was brought here
to inoculate him, and your dear daughter Esther, and her children,
for the small pox, which was then spreading fast in Princeton ; and
that, after the most deliberate and serious consultation, with his
nearest and most religious friends, he was accordingly inoculated
with them, the 23d of last month ; and although he had the small
pox favorably, yet, having a number of them in the roof of his
mouth and throat, he could not possibly swallow a sufficient quantity
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of drink, to keep off a secondary fever, which has proved too strong
for his feeble frame ; and this afternoon, between two and three
o'clock, it pleased God to let him sleep in that dear Lord Jesus,
whose kingdom and interest he has been faithfully and painfully
serving all his life. And never did any mortal man, more fully and
clearly evidence the sincerity of all his professions, by one continu-
ed, universal, calm, cheerful resignation, and patient submission to
the divine will, through every stage of his disease, than he ; not so
much as one discontented expression, nor the least appearance of
murmuring, through the whole. And never did any person expire
with more perfect freedom from pain ; — not so much as one distort-
ed hair — but in the most proper sense of the words, he fell asleep.
Death had certainly lost its sting, as to him.
" Your daughter, Mrs. Burr, and her children, through the mer-
cy of God, are safely over the disease, and she desires me to send
her duty to you, the best of mothers. She has had the small pox
the heaviest of all, whom I have inoculated, and little Sally, far the
lightest ; she has but three in her face. I am sure it will prove ser-
viceable to her future health.
" I conclude, with my hearty prayer, dear Madam, that you may
be enabled to look to that God, whose love and goodness you have
experienced a thousand times, for direction and help, under this
most afflictive dispensation of his providence, and under every other
difficulty, you may meet with here, in order to your being more
perfectly fitted for the joys of heaven, hereafter.
" I am, dear Madam,
" Your most sympathizing
"And affectionate friend,
"And very humble servant,
"William Shippen."
This letter reached Mrs. Edwards, while in a feeble state of
health, when she was preparing to pay a visit, first to her sister,
Mrs. Hopkins, at West Springfield, and then to her mother, Mrs.
Edwards, of Windsor, in consequence of the death of Mr. Edwards's
father. What her feelings were, and those of her family, under this
unexpected and overwhelming dispensation, can be more easily con-
ceived than described.
" She had long told her intimate friends, that she had, after long
struggles and exercises, obtained, by God's grace, a habitual wil-
lingness to die herself, or part with any of her most near relatives.
That she was willing to bring forth children for death ; and to resign
up him, whom she esteemed so great a blessing to her and her
family, her nearest partner, to the stroke of death, whenever God
should see fit to take him. And when she had the greatest trial, in
the death of Mr. Edwards, she found the help and comfort of such
a disposition. Her conduct on this occasion, was such as to excite
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the admiration of her friends ; it discovered that she was sensible of
the great loss, which she and her children had sustained in his death;
and, at the same time, showed that she was quiet and resigned, and
had those invisible supports, which enabled her to trust in God with
quietness, hope, and humble joy."
A few days afterwards, she addressed the following letter to
Mrs. Burr.
" Stockbridge* April 3, 1758.
"MY VERY DEAR CHILD,
" What shall I say ! A holy and good God has covered us with
a dark cloud. O that we may kiss the rod, and lay our hands on
our mouths! The Lord has done it. He has made me adore his
goodness, that we had him so long. But my God lives ; and he
has my heart. O what a legacy my husband, and your father, has
left us ! We are all given to God ; and there I am, and love to be.
" Your ever affectionate mother,
" Sarah Edwards."
On the same sheet, was the following letter from one of her
daughters.
"My dear Sister,
" My mother wrote this, with a great deal of pain, in her neck,
which disabled her from writing any more. She thought you would
be glad of these few lines from her own hand.
" O, sister, how many calls have we, one upon the back of an-
other. O, I beg your prayers, that we, who are young in this fami-
ly, may be awakened and excited to call more earnestly on God,
that he would be our Father and friend forever.
" My father took leave of all his people and family as affection-
ately, as if he knew he should not come again. On the Sabbath
afternoon, he preached from these words, — We have no continuing
city, therefore let us seek one to come. The chapter that he read
was Acts the 20th. O, how proper ; what could he have done
more. When he had got out of doors he turned about, — " I com-
mit you to God," — said he. I doubt not but God will take a father-
ly care of us, if we do not forget him.
" I am your ever affectionate sister,
"Susannah Edwards."
"Stockbridge, April 3, 1758.
" Mrs. Burr and her children were inoculated, at the same time
that her father was, and had recovered when he died. But after
* Mr. Edwards, after his dismission from Northampton, in 1750, removed to Stock-
bridge, where he labored as a pastor of the church and a missionary among the In-
dian-, till he was railed to Princeton. He left his family there for a short time, till
he should make arrangements for their removal.
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she was perfectly recovered, to all appearance, she was suddenly
seized with a violent disorder, which carried her off in a few days ;
and which, the physician said, he could call by no name, but that
of a messenger, sent suddenly, to call her out of the world. She
died, April 7, 1758, sixteen days after her father, in the 27th year
of her age. She was married to Mr. Burr, June 29, 1752. They
had two children, a son and a daughter. This son was Aaron Burr,
afterwards Vice President of the United States ; — the daughter be-
came the wife of the Hon. Tapping Reeve, of Litchfield, Judge of
the Supreme Court of Connecticut.
" Mrs. Burr exceeded most of her sex, in the beauty of her
person, as well as in her behavior and conversation. She discov-
ered an unaffected, natural freedom, towards persons of all ranks,
with whom she conversed. Her genius was much more than com-
mon. She had a lively, sprightly imagination, a quick and pene-
trating discernment and a good judgment. She possessed an un-
common degree of wit and vivacity ; which yet was consistent with
pleasantness and good nature ; and she knew how to be facetious
and sportive, without trespassing on the bounds of decorum, or of
strict and serious religion. In short, she seemed formed to please,
and especially to please one of Mr. Burr's taste and character, in
whom he was exceedingly happy. But what crowned all her ex-
cellences, and was her chief glory, was Religion. She appear-
ed to be the subject of divine impressions, when seven or eight
years old ; and she made a public profession of religion, when
about fifteen. Her conversation, until her death, was exemplary,
as becometh godliness." She was, in every respect, an ornament
to her sex, being equally distinguished for the suavity of her man-
ners, her literary accomplishments, and her unfeigned regard to re-
ligion. Her religion did not cast a gloom over her mind, but made
her cheerful and happy, and rendered the thought of death trans-
porting. She left a number of manuscripts, on interesting subjects,
and it was hoped they would have been made public; but they
are now lost.
Mrs. Edwards did not long survive her husband. In Septem-
ber, she set out, in good health, on a journey to Philadelphia, to
take care of her two orphan grand-children, which were now in
that city ; and had been, since the death of Mrs. Burr. As they
had no relations in those parts, Mrs. Edwards proposed to take
them into her own family. She arrived there, by the way of
Princeton, Sept. 21, in good health, having had a comfortable
journey. But, in a few days, she was seized wtth a violent dysen-
tery, which, on the fifth day, put an end to her life, October 2d,
1758, in the 49th year of her age. She 'said not much in her
sickness ; being exercised, most of the time, with violent pain. On
the morning of the day she died, she apprehended her death was
near, when she expressed her entire resignation to God, and her
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desire that he might be glorified in all things ; and that she might
be enabled to glorify him to the last : and continued in such a tem-
per, calm and resigned, till she died.
Her remains were carried to Princeton, and deposited with those
of Mr. Edwards. Thus they, who were in their lives remarkably
lovely and pleasant, in their death were not much divided. Here,
the father and mother, the son and daughter, were laid together in
the grave, within the space of a little more than a year ; though a
few months before, their dwelling was more than one hundred and
fifty miles apart : — two Presidents of the same College, and their
consorts, than whom, it will doubtless be hard to find four persons,
more valuable and useful !
Note. — This memoir of Mrs. Edwards, is extracted and abridged from The Life
of President Edwards, by Sereno E. Dwight. Those parts which are marked by-
quotation points, when not otherwise explained, were taken from The Life of Presi-
dent Edwards, by Dr. Hopkins. The rest was mostly borrowed from a memoir of
Mr. Edwards, appended to an edition of Edwards's Life, published at Northampton.
We are indebted to Dwight's work, merely as a collection of valuable documents,
which had previously existed in a scattered state.
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MRS. SARAH OSBORN.
Mrs. Sarah Osborn, was born in London, on February 22,
1714. Her father was Mr. Benjamin Haggar. Her mother was
Mrs. Susanna Haggar, whose maiden name was Guyse. She was
sister to the Reverend Doctor John Guyse of London. Mrs. Os-
born came to America, with her mother, in the year 1722, in the
ninth year of her age, her father having been here for some time be-
fore. They lived in Boston a short, time, and then moved to Free-
town, on the east side of Taunton river, near fifty miles south of
Boston, and above twenty miles from Newport. In the year 1729,
they moved to Newport on Rhode Island, where she lived till her
decease.
The following is an extract from an account of the first thirty years
of her life, written by herself.
Having been for some years strongly inclined to write something
of what I can remember of the dealings of God with my soul from a
child, I now, being about thirty years old, atttempt to do it; hoping
it may consist with the glory of God, at which I trust, through grace,
I sincerely aim : And the good of my own soul, as a msan to stir up
gratitude in the most ungrateful of all hearts, even mine, to a glori-
ous and compassionate Savior, for all his benefits towards so vile a
monster in sin as I am : And for the encouragement of any who may
providentially light on these lines after my decease, to trust in the
Lord, and never despair of mercy, since one so stubborn and rebel-
lious as I have been, has obtained it, through the sovereign riches of
free grace. But Oh, let all tremble at the thought of abusing a Sav-
ior so, lest God should say, " Let them alone, they shall never enter
into my rest."
Lord, humble me for my base ingratitude; and help me, by af-
fording me the influences and assistance of thy blessed Spirit, that I
may be impartial in this work, declaring the truth, and nothing but
the truth ; and in all that, have a single eye to thy glory. O, for Je-
sus' sake, suffer me not to do any thing that will tend to puff up self.
O, remove all spiritual pride, and keep me low at the feet of Jesus.
Fill me with adoring and admiring thoughts of thee, O God the Fa-
ther, God the Son, and God the Holy Ghost, who has so wonderfully
contrived and wrought out my redemption ; and though thou hast,
through infinite wisdom, hid these things from the wise and prudent,
yet hast revealed them unto babes ; and even to me, the most igno-
rant and vile of all creatures : Whose deep rooted enmity against
thee and thy laws broke out into action, as soon as I was capable of
any. The first that I can remember of actual sins, of which I was
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guilty, was telling a lie. And then that text of scripture often rang
in my ears, "All liars shall have their part in the lake which burnetii
with fire and brimstone."
I was frequently under the strivings of the Spirit of God, pressing
me to forsake sin, and repent and perform duties : But sometimes
found them very burdensome to me ; such as praying and saying
many good things, which I was frequently taught. Blessed be God
for such instructions. Sometimes I loved them, and was much af-
fected with them : But my corruptions prevailed dreadfully, an an-
gry temper stirring in me ; especially when corrected by my mother.
But I acknowledge, to the glory of God, that he preserved such a ten-
derness of conscience in me, that if at any time rny mother convinced
me that she did it because it wras her duty, and for my sin against
God, I could bear it patiently, and willingly, yea thankfully.
Thus I continued till I was about seven or eight years old ; when,
my father being in New England, my mother put me to a boarding
school, about three miles from London, where every thing was de-
lightful to me. I was constantly taught things that wTere religious,
and they all became sweet to me, so that I verily thought I lived a
heaven upon earth. O, how sweet were Sabbaths ! And for secret
prayer, I would not have omitted it for all the world ; nay, the sin of
omitting it appeared so monstrous, and such a dreadful thing, that I
dare not lie down without it : In this I was doubtless governed by a
legal spirit. I was frequently much enlarged in that duty, and used
to weep much when confessing my sins, and pleading for the pardon
of them, and for an interest in Christ. The name of Christ was
sweet to me, and sin appeared more hateful. I often used to re-
prove others, when guilty of it. But once in particular, I remem-
ber, when I was at Hertford, where my grandmother lived, and my
brother with her, a little time before we came to New England, my
brother did something which I thought was wTicked, and I reproved
him sharply for it ; but was much perplexed, after I had done it, with
these words of scripture, " Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam
out of thine own eye ; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the
mote out of thy brother's eye." This frighted me exceedingly. I
thought I was a vile hypocrite, and should never dare to reprove any
body again. And, I suppose, a hypocrite I was. But at last I told
my grandmother of it, who encouraged me to go on, telling me it was
my duty so to do ; and if I was faithful, God would bless me, and
love me.
So I continued for a while, as I thought, to delight in the ways of
holiness. But alas ! alas ! how soon was it over ! My goodness was
like the morning cloud and the early dew, which soon passeth away ;
for wlien I was in my ninth year my father sent for my mother and
me to come to New England to him. And on board the ship I lost
my good impressions, and grew vile, so that I could then play upon
the Sabbath. But was convinced of that sin by an accident* which
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befel me ; or rather what was ordered by infinite wisdom for that end.
For as I was busy in boiling something for my amusement, I fell into
the fire with my right hand, and burnt it all over ; which I presently
thought came justly upon me for playing on the Sabbath day : And I
was ashamed and sorry I had done so.
But after this I do not remember any particular conviction for
some years; but was changeable and inconstant, sometimes quite
careless, and then more diligent in the performance of prayer. I
had always, as I thought, a great love for those who I believed were
good people, especially ministers. My very heart would leap with
joy, when I could see, or come near enough to touch them. I men-
tion this as a childish notion, that I took such pleasure in touching
them. I used to go secretly behind them for that purpose. I thought
I could do any thing in my power to serve them.
About two years and an half after we came to Boston, my parents
moved to Freetown, and I with them. And when I was about thir-
teen years old, my mother went from thence to Newport on Rhode
Island, and went to visit Mr. Clap, who gave her a little book of spir-
itual songs for me, and desired her to give it to me, and tell me that
it came from one who was a hearty well wisher to my soul. These
words immediately seized me, and filled me with shame to think
that one whom I never knew should take such care of my precious
soul, while I was so careless myself. And from that minute I thought
I had a grateful love for Mr. Clap, and longed to sit under his minis-
try. I was then for some time under strong convictions. Had such
a sense of the hardness of my heart, that I often thought it was im-
possible for me to be sufficiently awakened by any ordinary means ;
and prayea1 that God would do any thing with me, though ever so
terrible, so that 1 might be driven from my evil courses, and turned
to God. Some change I thought must be wrought in me, or I should
never get to heaven ; but after what manner, I knew not. Howev-
er, I resolved to persist in the way of duty, as I called it, and to for-
sake my sins, and lead a new life. But, fool that I was, I made res-
olutions in my own strength, and built upon my own works ; and so
soon fell again. O, amazing grace, that God should spare such a
wretch as me, such an abuser of mercy !
After this I found myself dead, and to have no heart, as I thought,
to pray, nor any sweetness in it, when I did. Then, O how I long-
ed for the return of the spirit of God, imagining he was withdrawn
from me. Sometimes I did agonize in prayer, and plead with God
that he would return to me by his Spirit once more. But was often
answered by these words, " My Spirit shall not always strive with
man." Then I would beg, and promise that if God would try me
this once, I would never grieve or resist his Spirit again. O, wretch
that I was ! thus to lie to the glorious God, who was then striving
with me, to bring me to his Son ; for I did, 1 did quench his mo-
tions, and soon forgot my promises. O, deceitful and dreadfully
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wicked heart ! who can know it ? Lord, I am amazed at thy patience
that I am out of hell.
Sometime after this, contrary to my parents' commands, I got into
a canoe to paddle about in the river,* and could not get on shore
again. It being in the night, though the moon shined bright, %I ex-
pected no other but to be drowned. Once I thought to get out, and
pull the canoe to the shore ; but I tried first if I could reach the
bottom with my paddle : and finding I could not, durst not venture.
Then I could see no probability of escaping death. So I kneeled
down and prayed, and all my former convictions revived : and the
sin of disobedience to my parents especially appeared odious. I
thought that it was just that God should bring me into this distress
for this sin ; and with great vehemence and self-abhorrence confess-
ed my sins, with their aggravations before God, pleading for an inte-
rest in the blood of Christ, and for pardon for his sake, for that, and
all my other sins. And while I was praying, I felt a secret joy, ver-
ily believing that I was forgiven, and that Christ had loved me with
an everlasting love, and that I should be happy with him and longed
for the time. I was immediately resigned, as I thought, to the will
of God, quite willing to die, and willing to live ; begging that God
would dispose of me as most consisted with his glory. Ana1 after I
had thus resigned myself, as I thought soul and body into the hands
of God, to do with me as seemed good to him, I was as calm and
serene in the temper of my mind, as ever in my life.
But at length I bethought myself, that self preservation was a
great duty, and therefore I ought to try to get on shore. So I hallo-
ed as loud as I could to the neighbors, who with much difficulty
were made to hear, and came to me some hours after. There was
not another canoe within two or three miles ; for I had been driven
by the tide some miles, first up and then down the river.
How it would have been with my soul, if God had taken me out
of the world at that time, he only knows. Some christians have
thought, a saving change was then wrought, and that I should have
been happy.
After this, I was more diligent in pursuing, as I thought, the ways
of holiness in the way God had appointed : and more watchful
against sin. My life was pleasant and sweet. I had great enlarge-
ments in duties. But at length grew cold again. O ungrateful soul
to forget such a remarkable deliverance from death.
The next winter I was as wonderfully preserved. The weather
being exceeding cold, the river was frozen, so that people, horses,
and teams went over on the ice. But while it was hard and slippery, I
durst not venture on it, for fear of falling. But after a great thaw,
so that the ice looked quite black, I contrary to my parents' orders
* The house stood by Taunton river, which was navigable.
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again, they being from home, went quite over to the other side, which
was a mile. But the tide was rising, so I could not get on shore :
and when I looked around me, I could see nothing but great holes, as
large as houses, or larger, some of them. There was no way for
me, but to go straight back again ; which I did. But the water was
almost over shoes all the way ; and the ice, it seemed to me, bent
every step I took. And when I got back, the water was so risen,
that I was much beset to get on shore : and it was in the dusk of
the evening. But at last, with much difficulty, I found a strip of ice
as narrow as a bridge which reached the shore, by which I got to
land. But when I had got off, and saw the imminent danger to
which I had exposed myself, by my folly and presumption, it made
me tremble exceedingly. I presently thought again, how just God
would have been, if I had been drowned for my disobedience to my
parents ; and wondered at his patience in sparing me : But do not
remember, that I felt any abiding impressions; so great was my wo-
ful stupidity : though I think I kept on praying, &c. As to the river,
the wind rose presently, and blew very hard from the south, so that
it with the tide, broke it up, that before bed time there was not a
piece of ice of any bigness within sight of our house, which stood
close by the river. 1 am amazed, when I consider how wonderfully
God preserved me, a poor sinful worm, so unworthy of the least
mercy.
The next March, we removed to Dighton,* where we lived one
year. I remember but one awakening in that time; and that was by
hearing of the death of one of my former associates in Freetown,
a young girl, about my age.
Then I was again astonished at the patience of God, in sparing
me alive and out of hell. Then I renewed my resolutions to lead a
new life. But instead of that, in the spring we moved to Rhode
Island, where I soon got into company, and was full of vanity. But
my conscience would not let me be easy.
After some sore trials and temptations, I was more comfortable,
and had a great desire, I thought to forsake all sin, and to comply
with every commanded duty. I longed to join to the church; but
thought I was unworthy. I thought I thirsted for communion with
God in the ordinance of the Lord's Supper, and used to think, if I
came to that, it would certainly be a restraint upon me, so that 1
should not dare to sin as others did. And when I stayed to see the
ordinance administered, I used to think I could give all this world, I
were fit to attend it. My spirit would even sink within me for the
longings I had. Sometimes I would weep so that I could not con-
ceal it. One sabbath, I went to hear Mr. Clap preach at his own
house, where I inclined to go constantly ; but my parents went to
* A town on the other side of Taunton river.
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the other meeting, and were not pleased I should go from them : so
I went but seldom. But at this time there was a girl about fourteen
years old baptized, which so affected me that I could hardly refrain
from crying out in the meeting, when I thought how I had broken the
covenant engagements, which my parents had made with God, in my
behalf, in my infancy, and so long abused so great a privilege, as
being a child of the covenant : and she, who had not had so much
done for her, should now come to desire it herself! I saw, as I
thought, such a beauty in her, that I loved her entirely, and wished
to be as as I thought she was. I made new resolutions to live an-
swerable to the mercies I had received ; but being made in my own
strength I soon fell again. I thought I trusted in God ; and used
frequently, in times of trial, to go and pour out my complaints to him
thinking he was my only support. But I dare not now be positive,
or really conclude, that I knew what it was to put my trust in God ;
for my conduct after this seems so inconsistent with grace, that I dare
not say I had one spark of it then ; but rather think I was only un-
der a common work of the Spirit : though sometimes 1 think I had
true grace, though very weak. God only knows how it was. O
that he would enable me now to give diligence to make my calling
and election sure, that I may not be deceived in a matter of so
great importance. But to go on. After this (O that with deep hu-
mility of soul, with sorrow and shame, I could speak of it) I relap-
sed again, and was full of vanity. I kept company with a young
man, something against my parent's will. But that was owing to
false reports raised of him ; for at first they liked him. I made
resolutions, that, after I was married, I would lead a new life, flatter-
ing myself that then I should not have the hinderances which 1 now
had. I used bitterly to reflect upon myself, when I had given myself
liberty to be merry ; for though I appeared outwardly so, I had no
real pleasure : but still put off repentance, or an entire breaking off
from vanity, till a more convenient season ; and so resisted the Spi-
rit of God. O Lord, how just hadst thou been, if thou hadst left
me entirely to myself! and if thou hadst, nothing would have been
too bad for such a vile wretch as I to have committed. But blessed
be God, who withheld me from such sins as would have brought me
to open justice, and exposed myself and family to shame and dis-
grace.
In process of time, I was married to Mr. Samuel Wheaton, being
in my eighteenth year, October 21, 1731, and went with my husband
the next winter to see his friends in the country ; where I stayed al-
most five months ; and was almost all the time under strong convic-
tions. Oh, how I did sweat and tremble for fear my convictions
should wear off again, and plead with God to set home strong convic-
tions, and never, never suffer them to cease, till they ended in a
sound and saving conversion ; till I knew and was sure that I had a
saving interest in Jesus Christ, and was freely forgiven for his sake '
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and this was the substance of my frequent prayers ever after, when
I could pray at all with earnestness ; that 1 might never rest more,
till I was sure iny peace was made with God.
From this time I had a hope again, at times, that Christ was mine.
But it was some years after before it pleased God to answer it fully,
by giving me an assurance of it. But then I longed again for the
ordinance of the Lord's supper, though sometimes shocked by that
awful text, " He who eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and
drinketh damnation to himself." But resolved at last, if I lived to
get home, I would venture, in obedience to the commandment of
Christ ; and throw myself into the arms of mercy. I longed to
commemorate the death and sufferings of a crucified Jesus. 1 thought
nothing should tempt me to delay any longer. But, oh my sinful
soul, must I yet add to the number of thy backslidings 1 Could not
the time past suffice, that thou hadst provoked a compassionate God I
Was it not enough, and more than enough, that thou hadst rebelled
so long against a glorious Christ, and grieved his blessed Spirit ! But
must I go on again, after such awakenings as these, which one would
have thought impossible ! But, oh deceitful heart, thou didst, thou
didst! Lord, I blush and am ashamed, when I remember my noto-
rious ingratitude. O break this heart of flint, dearest Lord, that it
may melt into tears of contrition : And never suffer me to forgive
myself, because thou hast forgiven me.
After I came home, I met with much affliction in many respects.
It seemed to me that the whole world were in arms against me. I
thought I was the most despised creature living upon earth. I used
to pray to God in secret to relieve me ; but did not, as I ought, see
his hand in permitting it so to be, as a just punishment for my vile
sins : and therefore was not humbled under it as I ought ; but let
nature rise, and acted very imprudently, in many respects. I was
then with child, and often lamented that I was like to bring a child
into such a world of sorrow : but sometimes found a disposition to
dedicate my babe to God, while in the womb ; and did so at all sea-
sons of secret prayer. And, after it was born, my husband being at
sea, I could not rest till I had solemnly given it up to God in baptism.
And I thought that I did indeed give up both myself and it to God.
I met with many trials in my lying in, it being an extreme cold
season. My child was born on Oct. 27, 1732. The next spring,
my husband returned home ; but went to sea again, and died abroad
in November, 1733. I was then in my twentieth year. The news
of my husband's death came to me on the first of the next April.
And I was prepared the evening before to receive it, by being un-
commonly exercised in my mind about spiritual things: and that text
in Hebrews was continually in my thoughts, " How shall we escape,
if we neglect so great salvation ?" This put me upon pleading with
God, that I might not be found among the neglecters of it. I went
to bed in a house all alone, my ehild being at my father's. And
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about eleven or twelve o'clock at night was awaked to hear the
heaw tidings. But God appeared wonderfully for my support. I
saw his hand, and was enabled to submit with patience to his will.
I daily looked rouud me, to see how much heavier the hand of God
was laid on some others, than it was on me, where they were left
with a large number of children, and much involved in debt. And
I had but one to maintain ; and, though poor, yet not involved. Oth-
ers, I saw, as well as myself, had their friends snatched from them
by sudden accidents. The consideration of these things, together
with the thoughts of what I deserved, stilled me so, that though the
loss of my companion, whom I dearly loved, was great; yet the veins
of mercv, which I saw running through all my afflictions, were so
great likewise, that, with Job, I could say, "The Lord gave, and the
Lord hath taken away, and blessed be the name of the Lord." I
had then the promises of the widow's God to plead, and seemed to
cast myself more immediately upon his care, verily believing, as I
thought, he would provide for me, with my fatherless babe ; for whom
I often pleaded for covenant blessings, since he had been cast upon
God from the womb.
O, how much comfort do those parents lose, who never gave their
children up to God in baptism in their infancy ! And how sad for
children themselves to be deprived of the privilege of pleading with
God for covenant blessings ! My being dedicated to God in my in-
fancy always put an argument into my mouth, to beg of God that I
might not cut myself off, since I was a child of the covenant, and
from a child given to him in baptism. But, to return :
As before this affliction every one seemed to be enemies to me,
so from that time, all became friends. My parents treated me very
tenderly ; and God inclined every one who saw me to be kind to
me. My brother was come into New England : and being a single
man, we went to housekeeping together. But in three months after
he married, and I soon found it would not do to live as before ; and
began to be thoughtful how I should do. I could see no way in
which I could get a living. All doors seemed to be shut. But I
verily believed that God would point out a way for me. And accord-
ingly, the very day I came to a resolution to move as soon as I could,
a stranger to my case, who kept a school a little way off, came to me,
and told me that she only waited for a fair wind to go to Carolina ;
and, if it would suit me, I should have her chamber and scholars ;
which I joyfully accepted. Thus the widow's God remarkably pro-
vided for me. This was on Nov. 19, 1734. I was then placed in
a family, who discovered a great deal of affection for me ; and in all
respects used me as tenderly as if I had been a near relation.
It pleased God the next May to lay his afflicting hand on me, by a
sharp humor, which broke out in my hands, so that, for three months,
every finger I had was wrapped in plasters ; and I could help myself
but very little, and was under the doctor's hands. In the fall I was
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taken with violent fits, and was quite deprived of sense by them five
days. I was blistered almost all over by the doctor ; and my hands
and arms were all raw, from my fingers' ends, up above my elbows,
attended with a high fever. But all my friends were exceedingly
kind to me, and those in the house took care of me, and of my chil-
dren too ; so that my school was not broken up, till I was able to
take care of it myself again. But the sharp humor continued very
violent, at times, for some years: and still continues at some seasons.
But, in all this time of illness, God wonderfully provided for me. I
wanted for none of the comforts of life : neither was I cast down ;
for his mercy held me up.
The instances of the remarkable hand of God in his providence,
in ordering my temporal affairs, are innumerable. But, oh vile
wretch ! after all this I grew slack again, and got into a cold, lifeless
frame. As I grew better in bodily health, my soul grew sick. I
daily laid up a stock for repentance. But, through rich grace, I was
again convinced of my stupidity, and began to be more diligent in
attending on the means of grace. But I found I could not profit by
the wTord preached : nothing reached my heart; all seemed but skin
deep : and the more I went to meeting the more I found it so. Then
I began to think I must take some other course.
Not long after I went to hear Mr. Clap ; who told me the very
secrets of my heart in his sermon, as plain as I could have told them
to him, and indeed more so. His sermon was very terrible to me.
My sins, from my cradle, were ranked in order before my eyes, and
they appeared dreadful. I saw the depravity of my nature ; and how
I had stifled the motions of the blessed Spirit of God, and resisted
all the kind invitations of a compassionate Savior. I was heart-sick
of all my works. And as it had been often suggested to me, I be-
lieve from Satan, that it was time enough for me to repent hereafter,
it was now strongly impressed on my mind, that it was now too late
for me to find mercy. Once I might have had Christ ; but now my
day was past. And it was suggested that I had committed the unpar-
donable sin ; because I had sinned against light and knowledge, even
against the convictions of my own conscience. This I knew I had
done ; and therefore believed I had committed that sin which could
never be forgiven.
But, O ! what shall I say, or how, with gratitude enough, express
the wonderful goodness of that God, who preserved me, even when
I was, in my own apprehension, upon the very brink of hell, welter-
ing in my blood ; when no eye pitied me, and no created arm could
save me : Even then did he spread his skirt over me, and said to me,
Live. After I had been near a week in this distress, my very soul
racked with fear of what I must undergo to all eternity, those words,
" Depart from me" sounding in my ears, and I uttering the language
of hell, " There is no hope ! There is no help ! The door of mercy
is shut against me forever !" all at once, I was alarmed with these
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thoughts, which seemed to be conveyed to my mind in the following
words. . " Who has told you, that your day of grace is over ? Are
not the doors of the meeting house open ? Cannot you hear the
offers of salvation ? Have you not your Bible to read ? And you
may pray : therefore, you see your external day of grace is not over.
And how do you know but you may yet obtain mercy ! It is the
devil who has suggested all this to you ; and he is a liar from the
beginning." I was then convinced, that it was the devil who had
been tempting me to despair of the mercy of God, which I did not
perceive before, but verily thought what he suggested to me was
true, viz. That there was no hope for me.
After I saw that I was tempted by Satan to despair, and knowing
that he was a liar, I began, for a few minutes, to have some glim-
mering of hope that it might possibly be, that Christ would receive
me, because he had spared me hitherto, on this side the grave, and
out of hell. Who knows, thought I, but I may yet be a child of
God. Immediately upon these thoughts, I was furiously assaulted
with new temptations by Satan, I believe, not to flatter myself with
the thought that I should be a child of God ; for I was not elected,
and therefore could not be saved. Besides, God did not leave his
children to be tempted by him, as I had been. I might be sure, if
I was one of God's chosen, he would not have suffered me to be
tempted so; but I belonged to Satan, and he was sure of- me. And
I, like a fool, yielded to these suggestions, and at once cast off my
hope again, verily believing it was impossible that I could ever be a
child of God. Now I was brought to the greatest extremity, and
plunged into as deep an agony as ever. 1 saw myself utterly lost
without a Christ. I thought I could have suffered all the torments
in the world for an interest in Christ. If 1 could have purchased
him by doing any thing, though ever so hard, I should then have
thought it nothing. But oh, base, proud, unbelieving heart! I could
not take him freely, upon his own terms; because, though I had no
doubt that he was able to save me ; yet I could not see him willing
to receive so vile a wretch. In this dreadful agony, I opened my
Bible, and the first words I cast my eye upon were these : 1 Cor.
x. 13. "There hath no temptation taken you, but such as is com-
mon to man : But God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be
tempted above that you are able ; but will, with the temptation, also
make a way for your escape, that ye may be able to bear it." These
words were accompanied with those powerful influences of the spirit
of God, which excited in me a sense of the excellence, glory and
truth of God, and I had a pleasing confidence and rest in the divine
faithfulness, and embraced the promises in these words. As it is
not possible for me to express the greatness of the distress, in which
I was before ; so it is as much impossible for me to make any one
sensible of the joy, with which I was instantly filled by this gracious
promise; except those who experimentally know what it is; for God
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was pleased, at that moment, to give me faith to lay hold on it. O,
how did it fill my heart and mouth with praises, and my eyes with
floods of tears ! I was humbled to the dust, and amazed, as I para-
phrased upon every branch of the text. It surprised, and comforted
me too, to find that there had no temptation taken me, but such as
is common to man, when but a few minutes before I had been think-
ing that none had ever been tempted as I was. But as I perused
the other part, viz. That God was faithful, and would not suffer me
to be tempted above that I was able ; but would, with the tempta-
tion, make a way for me to escape, that I might be able to bear it;
my transport of joy was so great, that it was more than my poor
feeble frame was able to sustain ; for my nature even fainted with
excessive joy. Then I saw Christ not only able, but willing to re-
ceive me ; and could freely trust my soul in his hands.
Thus I continued for some time, rejoicing and resolving, by assist-
ing grace, to press forward, and by all means to make my calling and
election sure. Then I wrote my experience to be communicated to
the church ; and I was admitted, February 6, 1737, to partake of
that holy ordinance of the Lord's Supper. But it is impossible for
me to express the ecstacy of joy I was in, when I saw myself there,
who was by nature a child of wrath, an heir of hell, and by practice
a rebel against God, a resister of his grace, a piercer of the lovely
Jesus, unworthy of the crumbs that fall ; yet, through free grace,
compelled to come in, and partake of children's bread. It was in-
deed sweet to me to feed by faith on the broken body of my dear-
est Lord. Surely it did humble me to the dust and filled me with
self abhorrence, as I meditated on his sufferings and death, and knew
my sins to be the procuring cause. But when I came to take the
cup, and by faith to apply the precious properties of the blood of
Christ to my soul, the veil of unbelief seemed to drop off, and I was
forced to cry out, "My Lord, and my God," when I beheld the hole
in his side, and the prints of the nails. And I could not but, in the
words of Peter, appeal to him, " Lord, thou knowest all things, thou
knowest that I love thee." O then I was admitted, with the beloved
disciple, to lean on his breast ! O, what a feast is this, when inti-
mate communion with the glorious God is thus obtained ! When
strong covenant engagements with him are renewed ; I being assured
that he was my God, and giving myself, body and soul, to him for-
ever, and rejoicing in him as my only portion forevermore. Surely,
I thought, I could never enough adore the lovely Jesus for appoint-
ing such an ordinance as this.
But I cease to say any more of this ; for it is impossible for me
to describe the thousandth part of what I then felt. O, that I could
always live as one who had thus been on the mount with God ! The
next morning I was as much refreshed by meditating on the 32d
psalm, from the first verse to the end of the fifth. This caused me
yet more to adore distinguishing grace, and even to be swallowed up
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with love to the immaculate Lamb ; and resolve more and more,
with full purpose of heart, to cleave to the Lord. The frequent
language of my soul was this, " Whom have I in heaven but thee ?
And there is none upon earth that I desire besides thee."
I could not avoid, when there was opportunity for it, expressing
my love and thankfulness to God, for snatching me as a brand out
of the burning : and when I did this once to my mother, with tears
of joy running down my cheeks, she said to me, " Ah, child, you
will not always find your love thus flaming to the blessed Jesus.
After a while you will be more cool again.*' But I hastily answered,
too much like Peter, It was impossible I could be such a monster for
ingratitude. But she told me, she did not mean that I should in
reality love him less, but compared the first espousals of a soul to
Christ, with that of a husband and wife, which was generally attend-
ed with more fondness and joy, than afterwards, though the love
might be the same, or stronger.
I continued to go on my way rejoicing for some time, without
knowing what it was to be deserted one hour together, or entirely to
lose sensible communion with God in any duty or special ordinance,
or ever to lie down without God ; or to awake without some sweet
and refreshing portion of the word of God in my thoughts. My very
sleep was filled with pleasant thoughts of divine things. Surely I
enjoyed some foretaste of heaven at this season.
These were happy days. But now how shall I speak ! Oh that
I may do it with a heart truly broken for my sins ! After all this, I
began to grow more conformed to the world. Things which, when
I was thus lively, appeared insipid, and indeed odious to me, began
to grow more tolerable, and by degrees in a measure pleasant. And
depraved nature and Satan together pleaded for them thus, " That
there was a time for all things; and singing and dancing now and then,
with .a particular friend, was an innocent diversion. Who did I see,
besides myself, so precise and strict ? Other christians allowed them-
selves in such things, who, I had reason to think, were far superior
to me in grace ; especially one with whom I was very intimate. Sure,
if it was sin, she would not allow herself in it. It was for extraordi-
nary christians, such as ministers, and others who were eminent for
piety, to avoid the practice of such things, and not for me. Who did
I think I was, that I should pretend to outdo other christians? They
could talk of worldly things. What ailed me ?" Thus the devil and
carnal reasoning argued me out of a great part of my resolutions for
strict godliness ; and, in short, made me, in a sort, believe that it was
only pride and hypocrisy, and to be seen of men, that had ever made
me pretend to it.
Thus I sunk by degrees lower and lower, till I had at last almost
lost all sense of my former experiences. I had only the bare re-
membrance of them, and they seemed like dreams or delusion, at
some times. At others again, I had some revivals. I still constantly
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attended the means of grace, and Sabbaths were sometimes very
sweet to me. At times I had access to the throne of grace, and
obtained some communion with God, and resolved to be more cir-
cumspect, and renewed my covenant engagements with God. But I
knew I was a dreadful backslider, and had dealt treacherously with
God, and sometimes dare not with any boldness, look up to him j
guilt would stop my mouth. At other times gracious invitations to
backsliders to return, would revive me. Thus I continued, for a
great while, sometimes revived, and sometimes sunk, and dejected.
In September, 1740, God in mercy sent his dear servant White-
field here, which in some measure stirred me up. But when Mr.
Tennent came soon after, it pleased God to bless his preaching so to
me, that it roused me. But I was all the winter after exercised with
dreadful doubts and fears about my state. I questioned the truth of
all I had experienced, and feared I had never yet passed through the
pangs of the new birth, or ever had one spark of grace. And what
confirmed this to me, my dear aged pastor, Mr. Clap, frequently
preached, that they who had real grace had growing grace. This
used to make me tremble, because I could not perceive my growth;
but thought I rather went back, and grew worse. Thus I was cover-
ed over with thick clouds for months together. Oh, the dreadful
fruits of backsliding ! At last, I applied to Mr. Clap, and begged
of him, that if he knew of any thing which I had left undone, by
what I had told him, or wrote for my admission into the church, he
would let me know it, that the mistake might be rectified before it is
too late. I was indeed possessed with the thought, that he saw so
clearly into my state, that he knew I was a hypocrite, though I did
not till then. I told him of this. But he said, he never thought so ;
and put me upon renewing covenant engagements with God, and
giving myself up to him then; and perhaps I should find I had done
so before. This I endeavored to do, and did get some relief; but
was not yet satisfied. The tokens of a woful backslider were upon
me. I had forsaken my first love, and God justly deserted me.
Sometimes that text would refresh me, " Return, ye backsliding
children, and I will heal your backslidings." My heart would an-
swer, " Behold I come unto thee ; for thou art the Lord my God."
And sometimes that passage, "I, even I am he, that blotteth out thy
transgressions, and as a cloud thy sins : Return unto me ; for I have
redeemed thee." But yet all this time I could not get clear of
doubts ; but thought such dreadful formality and hypocrisy, as I per-
ceived to be in my heart, could not consist with grace. I labored
along thus all the winter, unresolved how the case stood between God
and my soul : and an uncomfortable dreadful life it was. At some
times I was so covered with darkness, that I seemed to be sure I had
not one spark of grace : at other times afraid of ingratitude, afraid
to deny what God had done for my soul. Oh, these were the dread-
ful fruits of backsliding, and losing my first love ! The Lord in
mercy preserve me, that I may never do so any more !
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I continued thus till March, 1741. And then it pleased God to
return Mr. Tennent to us again, and he preached twenty one sermons
here. But while he was here, I was more than ever distressed. I
had lost the sensible manifestations of Christ's love. I had no more
but a bare remembrance of some things, which I had experienced ;
and yet I was afraid to draw up a conclusion, one way or the other.
I applied to Mr. Tennent, and he discoursed very suitably with me.
But still I was not quiet, but exceedingly distressed.
I had some light and refreshment under his preaching the next
day; but my darkness returned again, and 1 sunk very low. I was
so afraid of presumption, that I dare not conclude my state was good.
And he struck directly at those things, for which I had so foolishly
and wickedly pleaded christian example, such as singing songs, dan-
cing, and foolish jesting, which is not convenient. He said, he would
not say there was no such thing as a dancing christian, but he had a
very mean opinion of such as could bear to spend their time so, when
it is so short, and the work for eternity so great. Then, and not till
then, was I fully convinced what prodigal wasters of precious time
such things were. And, through grace, I have abhorred them all
ever since. And to the glory of God be it spoken ; for it is only
from his sovereign wonderful goodness to me.
I still continued in very dark and melancholy circumstances, be-
tween hope and fear, afraid to conclude one way or the other. And
having no opportunity to speak with Mr. Tennent again, I wrote to
him as well as I could, briefly relating what I had experienced, and
begged of him to try it by scripture rules, and judge of it according-
ly, and give me his opinion; that I might not sin by denying the grace
of God, if I had it, nor speak peace to my soul, if God did not. To
which he returned the following answer.
"My dear friend, — I like your experiences well. They seem to
me to be scriptural and encouraging ; and I think you may humbly
take comfort from them, and give God the glory of his pure grace.
They who have been so humbled and distressed for sin, as to be
divorced from the governing love and practice of it ; and have been
by the Spirit of God made willing to embrace the Redeemer delib-
erately, unreservedly, and resolutely, upon his own terms, have a
sure interest in the great salvation. John i. 12. To as manv as re-
ceived him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even
to them that believe on his name. And whatever involuntary defects
they are guilty of, they shall not break the everlasting covenant be-
tween God and their souls. Though they have played the harlot with
many lovers ; yet they may return to their first husband. Though
God may hide his face for a moment, yet with everlasting loving
kindness will he return. Though they be sometimes easily beset
with sin ; yet he, who was the author, will be the finisher of their
faith. I add no more but love, and remain, your real friend,
March 22, 1741. G. T."
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I have transcribed this letter, that, if Providence should ever cast
these lines into the hands of any in like circumstances, it may, if the
Lord will, have the same happy effect on them, as, by the blessing
of God, it had on me; which was this — The letter itself was exceed-
ing sweet and refreshing ; but the precious texts of scripture, which
wTere quoted, were so powerfully set home on my mind, that they
scattered all my clouds immediately, and I was as one restored from
the grave. Then with life and courage I again renewed my written
covenant engagements with God, and became more lively and zeal-
ous for God than ever. O the amazing goodness of God to me ! I
have heard of some christians who never recover such backslidings
all their days. But I have not since lost my evidences of grace.
Though I have been sometimes under desertion, yet I could frequent-
ly say, " Why art thou cast down, O my soul, and why art thou dis-
quieted within me ? Hope in God, for I shall yet praise him, who is
the light of my countenance, and my God."
After I was thus revived, my longings to be made useful in the
world returned, and I earnestly pleaded with God that he would not
suffer me to live any longer an unprofitable servant ; but would point
out some way, in which I might be useful : And that I might now
be as exemplary for piety, as I had been for folly. And it pleased
God so to order it, that I had room to hope my petitions were both
heard, and in a measure answered. For soon after this a number
of young women, who were awakened to a concern for their souls,
came to me, and desired my advice and assistance, and proposed to
join in a society, provided I would take the care of them. To which,
I trust with a sense of my own unworthiness, I joyfully consented.
And much sweetness we enjoyed in these meetings. (And blessed
be God, they are yet kept up.)
About this time it pleased God to lay his afflicting hand upon me
by the removal of my only brother by death. As to the loss of his
person, I found I could quietly submit, and say, " The Lord gave,
and he has taken away, and blessed be the name of the Lord." But
I had a sinful curiosity to know how it was with his precious soul :
And being filled with fear about it, I was very much dejected. But
I knew my curiosity was sinful. And I pleaded earnestly with God,
that he would not suffer me to pry into the secrets of his will ; but
give me a quiet submission. I continued wrestling with God for re-
signation to his will, till about two o'clock in the morning, and then
I went to bed, still begging that I might never spend another day un-
resigned. And just about break of day I awaked with the following
words strongly impressed on my mind, " Secret things belong unto
God, but those which are revealed belong unto us. The will of
God is done, the will of God is done." These words quieted me,
so that I arose as cheerful, composed and thankful, as if I had met
with no affliction at all, and I think more so ; and never did from
that hour, nor could mourn as I had done. This I considered as a
remarkable answer to prayer.
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After this my business failed, and 1 found I could not keep my
room where I lived ; and which way to turn I knew not. But was
persuaded God would point out some way for me. I had several of-
fers to go into the country to keep school in creditable families, where
I had a prospect of wanting for nothing of the necessaries of this
life. But I could not bear the thought of going from the means of
grace, and other precious privileges, which 1 then enjoyed. And
the society of young women often entreated me not to leave them.
I had double ties every way, and knew not what to do. But I wras
not distressed, believing God would provide for me. Accordingly he
did so; though by an afflictive dispensation. It pleased him to re-
move a dear friend by death, with whom I was very intimate. Her
husband was a very sober good sort of a man, and wanted me to
keep his shop for my board, and wash for myself. This offer suited
me very well ; for hereby I was not likely to be deprived of any of
my religious privileges. So on the first day of July, I went there to
live,, and indeed had much comfort. Dear Mr. Clap met with the
society at his house twice every week, which I constantly attended ;
and religion seemed to be the chief business of my life. Had much
comfort in all the duties of religion, public, private, and secret: And
had as much time to spend in them as I could desire.
About this time I had the offer of a second marriage, with one
who appeared to be a real christian (and 1 could not think of being
unequally yoked with one who was not such.) I took the matter
into serious consideration. I foresaw there were difficulties which I
must unavoidably encounter ; and many duties would be incumbent
on me, to which 1 had been a stranger : particularly, in my being a
mother in-law to three sons, which my proposed husband had by a
first wife. But after weighing all circumstances, as well as I could,
in my mind, and earnest prayer which God enabled me to continue
in for some time, I concluded it was the will of God, that I should
accept of the offer, and was accordingly married to Mr. Henry Os-
born, on the 5th day of May, 1742.
The next July after I was married, I went with an intimate friend,
to Little Compton, on purpose to join in a fast which was appointed
there to implore the outpouring of the Spirit of God on that place ;
which was attended with much solemnity. The next day which was
the twenty ninth day of the month, my friend and I were riding to a
private religious meeting, and my horse stumbled and threw me over
his head. My stomach came first to the ground ; and yet was com-
paratively but little hurt ; and close by the spot where my .head
came was a large rock, which must in all probability, have ended
my days, if I had fallen upon it. This gave me a sense of the
goodness of God in preserving me. I got safe to the house to
which I proposed to go. And in the evening Mr. Tyler preached a
sermon, which greatly affected the people, who were under concern,
before : but they with much difficulty kept silence, till the sermon
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and prayer were ended ; and then cried out in vehement agonies,
lamenting their lost condition without a Savior, and pleading with
God to have mercy on them, and give them an interest in Christ.
At this time I had an awful sense of the state of the damned, who
were crying out under their torments ; but past remedy.
Then a number of young women with myself withdrew into a
chamber, in order to form a religious society. There we spent
some time in praying, reading, conversing and singing. At the same
time a company of young men were engaged in another room in the
same exercises. We happened to sing in both rooms at the same
time. The melody was very sweet, and gave me lively apprehen-
sions of the glorious employment, and blessed enjoyment of the
saints in the New Jerusalem ; and filled my soul with adoring
thoughts of God.
But in my return to the place where I lodged, it being late in the
night, we were overtaken in the most awful storm of thunder and
lightning that I ever heard or saw. During the terrible claps of
thunder my horse stood trembling ; and as soon as they ceased, ran with
full speed. I was then filled with a greater sense of the awfulness and
majesty of a God, than I had ever experienced before ; and more
realizing thoughts of the solemnity of the last day. I did not im-
agine that was the time ; but thought it a great resemblance of it.
And I expected every moment to be called to appear before my
judge, either by the thunder and lightning or a fall from my horse.
This put me upon examining myself, to see where the foundation of
my hope was laid ; and whether I had real grace, and a sure inte-
rest in Christ that he might then be my advocate. I earnestly plea-
ded that this might be my very case. Upon strict search I found
such evidence as kept me from all fears of hell. Though I did not
then feel the manifestations of the love of God, as at some other
times ; yet I found Christ was my only refuge. But just after the
last hard clap of thunder, my horse turning suddenly round a corner,
threw me off backward. My right temple came first to the ground.
As I fell, I committed my spirit into the hands of my Savior, expec-
ting death : but was wonderfully preserved ; so that I was but little
hurt. Thus God shewed me, in this day and night of large experi-
ence, what he could do with me in a way of judgment ; and what
for me, in a way of mercy, in preserving me, when in imminent
danger of death. Lord, for thine own name's sake, write a law of
gratitude in my heart for this, with all my other mercies. O Lord,
what am I, the chief of sinners, that thou art thus mindful of me !
Soon after this, we fell into disagreeable and difficult worldly cir-
cumstances, with respect to living and paying the debts we owed.
My greatest concern was with respect to the latter, lest we should
not be able to do justice, and so wrong our creditors, and bring dis-
honor on God, and our profession. Under this pressure and distress,
I was relieved and supported by the following words of Scripturej
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" Let your conversation be without covetousness ; and be content
with such things as ye have ; for he hath said, I will never leave
thee, nor forsake thee." I lived cheerfully, upon this promise, for a
considerable time. And God ordered things so that our creditors
were paid to their satisfaction.
I have often thought God has so ordered it throughout my days
hitherto, that I should be in an afflicted, low condition, as to worldly
circumstances, and inclined the hearts of others to relieve me in
all my distresses, on purpose to suppress that pride of my nature,
which doubtless would have been acted out greatly to his dishonor,
had I enjoyed health, and had prosperity so as to live independent of
others. I will therefore think it best for me ; for the tenderness of
my friends to me, has always had a tendency to humble me greatly,
and cause me to admire the goodness of God to me, that while
others were daily complaining, that the rich have many friends, but
the poor is despised by his neighbor, I could never say 1 had not as
much love and respect showed me, as if I possessed great riches,
and that by the rich, as well as the poor. So that, on the account of
my poverty I never was despised.
And now I have, according to my desire, committed some of the
many thousands of my experiences to writing. And I will give my
reasons for doing it. The first motive, as I mentioned in the intro-
duction was, that I might be excited to praise and glorify that God
who has wrought such wonders for me. And through the influence
of his blessed Spirit, moving me thereto, it has had this effect, in
some measure, throughout the time of my writing it. The Lord
grant I may continue so all my days ; and then my first great end
will be answered. Secondly,
I have always reaped much benefit myself, by reading the lives
and experiences of others. Sometimes they have been blessed to
convince me of sin — sometimes, to scatter doubts — and sometimes,
to raise my affections into a flame. When expressions have been
warm, they have put me upon imitating them as well as I could, by
"breathing out my soul in like manner. And though 1 fall ever so
short of the excellencies with which others have been endowed ; yet
I know all things are possible with God. He can bless a word from
the weakest, meanest, and unworthiest of all creatures, even me.
If a word in these lines ever prove useful to one soul,' after my de-
cease, it will be ten thousand times more than I deserve from the
hands of a bountiful God : To him alone be all the glory. It is his
glory, I trust, through rich grace, at which I sincerely aim. And if
it does not consist with that, to have these lines seen by any, either
before or after my decease, I heartily desire, so far as I can possibly
fathom that unfathomable deep, my own deceitful heart, and know it
that they may be all buried in oblivion. Surely, I had rather my
name, and all belonging to me, should be forgotten among men, than
remembered to the dishonor of my God. J am an ignorant short
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sighted creature : but God knows what will be for the best. To him
I commit it, praying that in his allwise providence, it may be dispo-
sed of as he sees meet.
N. B. Finished writing this Dec. 18, 1743, in the 30th year of
my age."
The parents of Mrs. Osborn were never in affluent worldly cir-
cumstances ; and had little or nothing to give to her when she marri-
ed : And perhaps did not give her all the assistance which they were
able to do, as they were not pleased with her marrying to the person
whom she chose. He was young, and a seaman and had nothing be-
forehand, and died in the second voyage after he was married, and
she was left a poor widow with one young child before she was twenty
years old. She continued a widow more than eight years. In which
time she did no more than just support herself and son, by her indus-
try, in keeping a small school part of the time ; which business she
was at length, obliged to relinquish, by sickness, in which she needed
and had the assistance of some of her kind friends. Thus she continu-
ed a poor widow, till she married the second time, in the twenty
ninth year of her age.
Her second husband was in some trade and business when she
married him ; but soon appeared to owe to his creditors more than he
was able to pay. They gave up all they had, and their creditors were
paid, so that they were all made easy, and gave them a discharge.
From that time he did but little or no business, by reason of bodily
disorders, and other infirmities. At the same time he had children
who were poor, and wanted assistance. In these circumstances,
Mrs. Osborn began to keep school again in May, 1744. In which
business she continued about thirty years, till her eyesight and bodily
strength failed, so that she was obliged to give it up. She was, during
this whole time, attended with bodily weakness, pains and infirmities;
her constitution being greatly injured by taking mercury in an improp-
er manner and degree, which was prescribed by her physician when
afflicted with the distressing disorder, which she mentions in the ac-
count she has given of her life, the weakening and painful effects of
which attended her to the day of her death. Under these disorders,
which were at times very distressing, she persevered in her business,
which in her circumstances required a diligence, circumspection and
resolution, which have been equalled by few or none, until she lost
her sight and strength, to such a degree as obliged her to desist.
For this space of about thirty years she presided in a school, which
was most of the time so large that she was obliged to employ assistants.
The whole number of children in her school amounted sometimes to
seventy or more, some of whom, at times eight or ten, she boarded.
But, having a considerable family of her own to maintain, and other
dependents which she thought it her duty to help, and the price for
schooling and boarding being low, she, through this whole time, was
not able to lay up any thing ; but was reduced to great straits and
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difficulties ; and at the end of the year she frequently found herself
in the rear, rather than to have gained any overplus or stock for the
next ; this kept her in a constant state of peculiar trial, and tempta-
tion to worldly solicitude and anxiety, which required an uncommon
degree of faith and piety to surmount. And sometimes, under the
darkest sppearances, her faith would so far fail that she would sink
into gloom and dejection, especially in the former part of this time.
But she evidently made advances in her faith and cheerful resignation
to the divine will, and happy contentment with the allotments of Di-
vine Providence, while her trials and worldly straits, continued as
great as ever : So that she appeared, at length, to have got the victory
over the world to an uncommon degree, and to have enjoyed a calm,
sweet resignation and contentment in her worldly circumstances, which
was the source of high religious enjoyment, in the constant and strong
exercise of that piety, by which she enjoyed God as her only and
eternal portion. This appears from her diary ; and was especially
manifest to her intimate friends, after she was obliged to give up all
business, and was wholly dependent on her friends for support; of
which a more particular account will be given, before these memoirs
are finished.
Mrs. Osborn began to keep school the second time, as has been
observed, in the month of May, 1744, in the thirty first year of her age.
With respect to which some things are noted in her diary, which may
be properly transcribed here.
" Saturday, April 28, 1744. — This day I am determined, if the
Lord will, to enter again into the calling of keeping school. Will the
Lord in mercy bless my endeavors, and prosper the work of my hands,
and overrule this for his own glory, by making me instrumental in pro-
moting the good of souls. O Lord, if thou wilt again employ me,
and make me faithful, my tongue shall sing aloud of thy righteousness.
Oh, preserve me from making dependence on any thing I can do, ei-
ther for soul or body : But if it may consist with thy will, O bless me
in this lawful undertaking. But above all, O Lord, go on to resign
me to thy will. Not mine, but thine be done. Lord, I desire to
leave it with thee. O undertake for me, and deal graciously with
me, for thine own sake, as thou usest to do to those who love thy name.
Help me to eye thee in all thy dispensations of providence, and be
thankful to thee for every temporal mercy. Dear Lord, order it so
that thine own honor may be secured, and thou mayest be glorified in
me, and it is enough. Once more, I beg to be resigned, and to take
all things well at thy dear hand. Whether thou smile or frown, let
me bless and love ; for this is my duty, and what thou justly expectest
of me. Lord, thou art worthy of infinitely more love and praise than
I am capable of giving : But oh, accept my attempts to love and praise,
for Jesus's sake alone. In his name I come to thee for all blessings,
spiritual and temporal.
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" Thursday, May 10. — I desire to record it with thankfulness, thai
God in his providence gave me an opportunity last evening to advise
with my dear aged pastor (Mr. Clap) about praying with my scholars.
He rejoiced much in the proposal ; and advised me, by all means, to
proceed, and let nothing discourage me, and fear no scoffs ; for it
was* God's cause, and he who put it into my heart to do it, would
take care of his own glory. He likewise reminded me how highly
Christ resented it, when his own disciples would have deprived little
children of privileges. He advised me to be brief and plain, and
often to mention those words in Matt. vi. "Ask, and ye shall re-
ceive ; seek, and ye shall find ; knock, and it shall be opened unto
you." And those in Prov. " I love them that love me, and those
that seek me early shall find me." And to make confession of sin,
and plead for pardon for Christ's sake. Endeavor to follow him in
plainness, so that the little ones might understand what I meant, &c.
"As I think I never saw him more joyful, and pleased with me,
so I know not when I have come away more comforted : for my
scruples all vanished. And now, by assisting grace, I determine to
proceed, as God shall enable me. Blessed be God, that I enjoy so
great a privilege as my dear pastor, who has thus encouraged my
faith, obedience and joy; and helped me in my strait. And now,
O my God, I am convinced it is my duty to pray with my dear chil-
dren, I fly to thee again for assisting grace. Lord, without that it
will be only a piece of formality, and will never prove serviceable to
any. J beseech thee, O Lord, pour out on me a spirit of prayer,
and fill me with bowels of compassion to poor little ones."
Mrs. Osborn not only prayed daily with the children in her school;
but was constant and careful to instruct them in the principles of re-
ligion, and in their duty to God and man ; and at certain times, and
on particular occasions, seriously addressed them on the concerns of
their souls, urging their attention to the Bible, to Jesus Christ, and
the way of salvation by him ; and to give themselves up to him, to
fear and serve him, &c. Her discourses with them on these sub-
jects frequently appeared to make impressions on their minds, and
greatly to affect them : and most of the many hundreds who were
instructed in her school, retained a love and esteem for her in the
future part of their life, and numbers of them, bow many cannot be
now known, have never lost the serious impressions, which they re-
ceived by her instruction and admonitions; but they have issued in
their saving conversion to God. And we may reasonably consider
some of them now in heaven with her, as her glory, and joining with
her in mutual joy.
A few months after Mrs. Osborn began to keep school the second
time, her only son, Samuel Wheaton, died, being near twelve years
old, who was an apprentice in the country, above twenty miles from
Newport, and was a promising youth. She has recorded some of
her exercises under this trial, part of which will be here inserted.
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"Friday morning, Sept. 22, 1744. — On Thursday afternoon, the
sixth day of this month, I had the sorrowful news that my only son
was sick unto death. God in his providence provided presently for
me — my dear Susa Anthony to keep my house — a horse for my hus-
band and myself to ride, and all other things comfortable. And on
my way, God gave me such a sense of his goodness to me in a thou-
sand instances, that instead of sinking under my sorrow, my mind
was employed in attention to, and blessing God for my mercies.
Sometimes, that he was not snatched from me in a moment, by some
awful accident — that he was not at so great a distance, but I might
be allowed to go to him, with hopes of finding him yet alive. And
those precious promises which in the morning had supported me,
still continued as a refreshing cordial; even these. "Call upon me
in the day of trouble, and I will hear thee. This poor man cried,
aud the Lord heard him ; and saved him out of all his troubles."
" On Friday morning we got to Rehoboth, where I found my son
much swelled with a dropsy, and pined to a mere skeleton with the
jaundice, scurvy and consumption, all combining. He rattled in his
throat, like a dying person, laboring for every breath. He was given
over by the doctors and all friends, who lamented him, and did the
best for him in their power, as to the body. But alas ! my great
concern was for that precious jewel, his immortal soul. I endeavor-
ed to improve every opportunity to discourse with him, and read to
him such portions of scripture, as I thought suitable, with passages
out of Mr. Alleine's Alarm, &c. And I was enabled to pray all the
day, by ejaculatory breathings, and sometimes to plead and wrestle
with God on his behalf: though alas ! God was pleased to hide his
dealings with him altogether. For I could discern no evidence of a
work of grace wrought on his soul, for which I did plead from day
to day. I did not so much as once, in all his sickness, pray for his
life ; but for some evidence that his soul might live. And for want
of this, I sometimes seemed to be crushed down, having a sense of
his doleful case, if not reconciled to God. On Thursday, Sept. 13,
the day before he died, I was just ready to give up, and sit down
discouraged. My heart even almost died with fear of what would
become of him. But just in this juncture, God in his providence
ordered it so that I received a letter from my dear Susa, which was
a cordial to my drooping spirits.
" In his dying moments I had an awful sense of his deplorable
condition, if his naked soul should launch into a boundless eternity,
without a God to go to. I had also a view and sense of his and my
utter inability to help ourselves, and utter unworthiness that God
should help us. And with the woman of Canaan, I cried out, Truth
Lord, I am as unworthy as a dog ! But I pleaded for the crumbs
that fell, one of which would be sufficient for me and mine. I had
a clear discovery of the fullness and sufficiency of Christ to make
satisfaction. I pleaded that he would have mercy, as on the thief
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on the cross, then at the eleventh hour ; apply but one drop of his
precious blood, and it was enough. Thus I was enabled to fill my
mouth with arguments, and in bitter agony of soul I wrestled with
God for mercy for him. Surely the pangs I then endured for his
soul far exceeded those that brought him into the world. But as
soon as the soul had taken its flight, I was eased of my burden.
I immediately cast myself, and my burden too, on God. I adored
him as a sovereign God, and blessed his name ; for he had given,
and it was he who had taken. Surely he was better to me than
ten sons.
"I then arose from my dead child, and was quieted, for the will
of God was done, and my work was done, as it respected my child.
And God was pleased to give such evidence of his love, that my
mouth was filled with praises. But when I looked on the young
people who stood round lamenting him, I felt bowels of compassion
for them, and besought them to take warning, and make their speedy
flight to the blessed Jesus, before sickness and death overtook them.
" While friends were putting on his grave clothes, I went out into
the field and walked, where, with more secrecy and freedom, I could
breathe out my soul to God. And the sweetness of that season I
cannot express. God discovered himself to be my God, my cove-
nant God, my Father, my Friend, my only portion and happiness,
my sovereign, my all in all, my infinite fountain of all fulness. And
these were some of the breathings of my soul after him. " Lord,
I adore thee as my all. I rejoice in thee as my only portion. Lord,
if I have thee, I have enough. Though all the streams were cut
off; yet the fountain remains ; I cannot be poor. Whom have I in
heaven but thee ? And there is none on earth I desire besides thee.
Though my flesh and my heart fail ; yet God is the strength of my
heart and my portion forever. Blessed God, though death separate
from all things here below, it cannot separate between thee and me."
O, here I rejoiced again, chose my God again, and again renewed
the dedication of myself to him, my whole soul and body, with all
I have, am, or can do. O, his word comforted, his rod comforted
me. I saw no frown in it : no, but the kind chastisement of my in-
dulgent Father. This portion of scripture was very sweet, "If ye
be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bas-
tards, and not sons. For whom the Lord loveth, he chasteneth."
Therefore I cried out, "I know, O Lord, thy judgments are right,
and in very faithfulness thou hast afflicted me."
" But I must cease. — For such blessed seasons are better felt
than expressed. I continued so composed and comfortable, that 1
feared those who knew not the cause would think me void of natu-
ral affection ; till my taking my last farewell at his funeral. And
then I found the bonds of natural affection very strong ; and I wept
much. But as I followed to the grave, I pleaded thus with God,
"Lord, I adore thee still as my sovereign. I do not repine at thy
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hand. But, dear Lord, pity me, and suffer me to weep under the
smart of thy rod ; it is my only son." Then I thought on Psalm ciii.
"As a father pitieth his children, so the Lord pitieth them that fear
him." This comforted me. But as I inquired again, if my tears
were not sinful, and the effect of an unresigned will, which 1 dreaded
most of all, I was comforted again by reflecting, that when Martha
and Mary wept for their brother Lazarus, the blessed Jesus was not
angry, but wept with them. O, then I again adored a sympathizing
Savior, a glorious high priest, who was sensibly touched with the
feeling of my infirmities. These and such like were the exercises
of my mind, while following and laying my dust into the grave.
And ever since I have been kept composed and cheerful.
11 The Lord in mercy grant that I may more and more glorify
him in this affliction. O that my sins may be more mortified.
Lord, grant I may come out of this furnace as gold purified and fit-
ted for my master's use. If I have behaved in any measure as be-
comes a child of God, and any resignation has appeared in me,
Lord, it is all owing to the riches of thy glorious and special grace :
For hadst not thou by that compelled me to act otherwise, I should
have flown in thy face, murmured, fretted and repined at thee ; cast
away all my other comforts and mercies, and said I had none left,
because thou hadst taken one from me. Lord, these, and more
than these, would have been the effects of my perverse nature.
Therefore, not unto me, not unto me; but to thy glorious name, be
all the glory forever and ever. Amen."
In the year 1741, a religious, female society was formed under
the care of Mrs. Osborn, they having chosen her to be their head ;
of which she makes mention in her account of her own life. This
society met for some time twice every week, viz. on Tuesday and
Friday evenings. Afterwards they agreed to meet but once a week,
on the afternoon of Wednesday or Thursday. Mrs. Osborn was
continued and considered the head of this society from that time to
her decease, which was above fifty years.
This society met constantly once every week, during the whole
time of its existence, excepting a few interruptions, by some extra-
ordinary occurrences. They also observed four whole quarterly
days in every year, as days of fasting and prayer, confessing their
sins, and seeking God for spiritual blessings on themselves, on the
church of Christ, and on all nations. They also were wont to spend
the afternoon of every first Thursday of each month in prayer to-
gether ; and the afternoon of every Saturday before the monthly ad-
ministration of the Lord's Supper. They had a box, which stood
in the room where they met, into which money was put by each one,
as she was able and inclined. And at the end of the year, or any
other time, when they thought proper, the box was, by their consent,
opened, and the money contained in it counted, and generally given
for the support of the gospel.
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They agreed upon a number of articles and rules, which were
committed to writing, to be observed by the society and by each in-
dividual, and to be signed by every member, and by every one who
should afterwards be admitted. The substance of these is as fol-
lows : —
At the weekly meeting of the society, when the appointed hour
arrives, and a number are convened, the exercise shall begin by
reading in some profitable book, till all have come in who are ex-
pected. Then a prayer shall be made by one of the members ;
and after that, a chapter in the Bible shall be read, and religious
conversation be attended to, as time shall allow. The meeting to
be concluded by another prayer. Four quarterly days in the year,
in January, April, July and October, beginning on the first day of
every January, to be observed as days of solemn fasting and prayer.
We promise not to ridicule or divulge the supposed or apparent in-
firmities of any fellow member ; but to keep secret all things rela-
ting to the society, the discovery of which might tend to do hurt to
the society or any individual. We resolve to be charitably watchful
over each other, to advise, caution and admonish, where we judge
there is occasion, and that it may be useful. And we promise not
to resent ; but kindly and thankfully receive such friendly advice or
reproof from any one of our members. We will endeavor that our
discourse, while together shall be on the serious and important sub-
jects of religion ; and when separate, that our speech and behavior
shall be such as become christians, that we may be holy in all con-
versation. _ — -""
If any member commit any scandalous sin, or walk unruly, and after
proper reproof continue manifestly impenitent, she shall be excluded
from us, until she give evidence of her repentance. Each one shall
pay her proportion to defray the necessary expenses for wood, or any
thing else, unless excused by the society.
When any person shall manifest to any one of us a desire to join
the society, it shall be mentioned in one of our meetings, that all
may have opportunity, who desire it, to satisfy themselves, respecting
the character and conversation of the person offering to join. And
if at the meeting of the next week, there be no objection to her be-
ing admitted, she may apply to the head of the society, who will read
our articles to her, and if she is willing, and do sign them, she shall
be considered as a member of the society, regularly admitted.
As to any other matters, which we shall hereafter find conducive
to the benefit and good regulation of our society, we engage to leave
to the discretion and decision of a major part of us, to whose deter-
mination we promise quietly to agree and submit.
This society was found to be of great advantage to many if not
all the members of it, to the church and congregation to which most
of the members belonged, and to the interest of religion in gen-
eral, especially in Newport, by their prayers and apparent sincerity
and engagedness in religion, and exemplary conduct.
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Mrs. Osbom was by unanimous consent the head of this society
above fifty years, as has been observed, even from the first institution
of it, to the day of her death ; and a great part of the time their meet-
ings were attended at her house. And she was distinguished in her
usefulness in this station and capacity, by her prayers, her conversa-
tion, advice, judgment, prudence and example; by which she was a
principal medium of the long and happy existence and union of the
society. Her influence apparently reached to every member, and
her steady, prudent zeal and activity, and her amiable character,
were very much the means of their continuance and edification. The
society continued to meet in the room in which she lived, till her
bodily infirmities were so increased that she was no longer able to
sustain their company, and the exercises of the meeting. They then
withdrew into another room in her house, where she was tenderly re-
membered in their prayers ; and she was present in spirit with them,
and partook largely with them in their exercises and enjoyments.
Mrs. Osborn was esteemed as an eminently pious, exemplary
christian, by all who knew her. And even the irreligious and pro-
fane had a degree of veneration for her, as a remarkably good woman.
Few or none have obtained this character more universally than she
did, among all sorts of people, who knew her or heard of her: and
not many women had a more numerous acquaintance, or more exten-
sive fame. Many educated in her school were afterwards settled in
distant parts, and spake in favor of her character and school to their
friends and acquaintance. And as she had a great respect for the
ministers of the gospel, she corresponded with some of them ; and
many others visited her, agreeable to her inclination and desire, when
they came to Newport, as did many other religious persons. By this,
as well as what has been before mentioned, her name and character
was spread abroad, as few or none who visited her, went away unim-
pressed in her favor, as amiable in her conversation and behavior,
and eminently pious and benevolent. In conversation she appeared
remarkably mild, pleasant and cheerful, and discovered a modest,
meek, humble, tender and benevolent mind, impressed with the se-
rious, important and pleasing truths and duties of Christianity. The
law of kindness was in her tongue to an uncommon degree. She
had a strong, habitual aversion to any thing like aspersing the charac-
ter of others, being careful to speak evil of none ; and when occa-
sion offered, was disposed to say all that could be said with truth in
favor of the worst. She was often greatly grieved and rendered very
uncomfortable, in companies where slander and detraction took place,
and would endeavor, when there was opportunity, to divert the con-
versation from topics so disagreeable to her. This part of her char-
acter, of which the above is an imperfect sketch, rendered her agree-
able, and recommended her to the esteem and affection of all re-
ligious persons who were acquainted with her, or heard a true report
of her. And this procured to her the general approbation of all, of
every denomination and character, as an eminently good woman.
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In the years 1766, 1767, there was an uncommon attention to re-
ligion, which turned the thoughts of many to Mrs. Osborn. They
repaired to her as a known pious, benevolent christian, to whom they
could have easy access, that they might enjoy her counsel and
prayers. This was the occasion of numbers resorting to her house.
When she saw this, and that the number increased, she was at a great
loss what to do. She trembled with fear that if she encouraged their
meeting at her house, it would be going beyond her sphere, offend
some of her christian friends, and give occasion to some not friendly
to religion, to speak evil of her and of religion, and so do much more
hurt than good. On the other hand, she was afraid to discourage
them, and refuse to let them come to her and meet at her house, when
under apparent concern about their souls, lest, by this, their attention
and concern should abate and cease. She advised with her christian
friends, and some ministers ; and upon their advising her to encour-
age them and attend to them, she granted them liberty to come, and
appointed particular times for their coming. The poor Blacks ap-
peared more generally concerned and engaged, than others. They
agreed to meet at Mrs. Osborn's on the evening of the Sabbath. She
admitted them, on condition that they should behave orderly in com-
ing and retiring, and always break up seasonably, and that those who
were not free should not come without the consent of their masters,
and that they should not make any acknowledgment to her by at-
tempting any compensation by presents, or any other way ; declaring
that she would not receive any thing of this kind from them. On
these conditions they convened in great numbers, commonly to the
amount of sixty or eighty, and sometimes more. Mrs. Osborn, find-
ing their attention was so much to her, was greatly cautious, fearing
to go beyond her line, as a woman, in endeavoring to promote their
instruction and religious impressions for the good of their souls. She
used to select passages of scripture, which she thought would be
most useful to them, and from other religious books, and read to them :
and when she had opportunity, she would invite some christian man
to pray with them. She took opportunity to converse with individ-
uals, and sometimes would give a word of advice to them all. And
where she could, she obtained some minister to preach to them, and
converse with them; the pastor of the church, to which she belonged,
not being able to attend.
These meetings continued a year or more, and were the means
of the apparent reformation of many, and of the hopeful conversion
of a number.
The bodily infirmities of Mrs. Osborn increased so much ; and
her eyesight failed to such a degree for above twenty years of the
last part of her life, and her whole bodily frame was so weakened and
worn out, that she was obliged to give up her school, and was not able
to do any thing to support herself. And as she had nothing laid up
to live upon, she was wholly dependent on Divine Providence and
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her friends for daily supplies, during the whole of this time; and was
the greatest part of it, confined to her room. This was in many re-
spects the happiest part of her life. She was free from worldly anx-
iety and care. She enjoyed a calmness and serenity of mind, the
attendant of resignation to God, and humble trust and confidence in
him, contented with the allotments of Divine Providence, seeing the
hand of God in every thing which took place — constantly thankful to
him for the mercies she was daily and every hour receiving — full of
gratitude to those whom God inclined to show kindness to her — spend-
ing the chief of her time and strength in devotion, in contemplating
the divine perfections manifested in his works of creation and provi-
dence, and in his word — adoring and praising the Father, Son, and
Holy Ghost, praying to him for the church and the world ; for her
acquaintance, relations, friends, benefactors and for herself; with
constant, humble confession of unworthiness, aggravated sins, and de-
pravity of heart, making the daily occurrences respecting herself, and
others, the matter of prayer and praise.
Mrs. Osborn often said to her friends in this time, that she consid-
ered her situation and circumstances in life, to be the best for her ;
and that she knew of none, with whom she could wish to exchange
outward circumstances, were it left to her option. She expressed a
particular satisfaction in living sensibly dependent on the providence
of God, for daily supplies for the body, living with God by the day,
as she used to express it, having no store of her own, and not able to
do any thing to supply her returning wants, and not knowing how
and by whom they would be supplied, till it was sent in to her, com-
monly in ways, and by persons not thought of by her. This was
suited to excite a constant sense of her dependence on God for daily
and hourly supplies, and the exercise of trust in him, and constant
application to him, and acknowledgment and admiration of his good-
ness in supplying her wants, in a way and at times suited to discover
his hand and particular care of her ; and to excite her gratitude to
her friends, and prayers for them, who sent or brought to her the
things she wanted.
In this manner she lived more than twenty years, and often de-
clared to her friends that her daily wants were fully supplied, and
that she was never destitute of the necessaries of life, and common-
ly had a fullness, and often abounded. Her wants were not great.
She stood in need of daily food, washing, candle light, fire wood,
and some clothing, and money to pay the rent of her house, which
was five dollars every three months. All these wants were constant-
ly supplied, while no particular person was engaged to do it; so that
she had none to depend upon but God. While the British had pos-
sessions of Rhode Island in the time of the war, which was near three
years, the inhabitants of Newport were driven to great straits, by
the scarcity of provision, fuel, he. and many suffered to a great de-
gree. Mrs. Osborn lived in a great degree of quiet, and had a con-
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stant supply of the necessaries of life 5 and received no abuse from
the British officers or soldiers, as most others did. Though a num-
ber of soldiers were quartered near the house in which she lived,
none were obtruded on her, as they were on others. And as to
those who were quartered near her ; it was remarked by her and
others, that they made less disturbance and noise, than they did else-
where ; and were particularly careful not to do any thing on the Sab-
bath to disturb that good woman, as they called her. And they took
care to avoid all profane words when near her. Which she used to
mention afterwards to her friends, as a remarkable instance of the
tender care and protection of heaven.
In the year 1778, while the British soldiers had possession of New-
port, Mr. Osborn, her husband, died ; and a grand daughter of his,
with her husband, who lived in her house, on whom she had some
dependence for protection and assistance, moved into the country,
by which she appeared more destitute and exposed, than before, be-
ing left alone.
In this time of particular danger and trial, Mrs. Mason, a person
who gave good evidence that she was a real friend to Christ, and to
his followers, manifested peculiar friendship and generosity towards
her, by her constant attention to her, and supplying many of her
wants ; and continued her special kindness in ministering to her as
long as she (Mrs. Mason) lived, which she did till March, 1792.
Mrs. Osborn often said, that Mrs. Mason never failed her in one in-
stance, as a peculiar friend and constant benefactor, to the day of her
death. We have no reason to doubt that they, both the giver and
the receiver, are peculiarly happy together now ; and that the form-
er is rewarded a thousand fold for all her kindness to the latter, as a
dear disciple of Jesus Christ. Others have distinguished themselves
in their kindness to Mrs. Osborn in ministering to her, whom it is
improper to mention, as they are yet alive. We have the pleasure
of being assured that they, and all who have ministered to her, be-
cause she belonged to Christ, will have an ample reward at the resur-
rection of the just.
There was something peculiar and extraordinary in her being able
punctually to pay the rent of her house in this time, which is worthy
of particular mention. She depended wholly upon the unsolicited
benefactions of her friends for this, as she did for her daily support.
And no one was engaged to assist her in doing this, or to take any
care about it. She had therefore no particular person to look to for
it, or to make up any deficiency by which she should be unable to
pay what was due at the end of each quarter. It was therefore a
very precarious matter, to human appearance, whether, when she
had paid the rent of one quarter, she should ever be able to pay
another. She could not conjecture from whence it would come, as
she had none to look to for it, but that God, whose is the world, and
the fullness thereof. Her intimate friends were sometimes concern-
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ed for her, when her quarter was near at an end, and she had receiv-
ed but part of the five dollars which would he soon due, and there
was a great scarcity of money, and all appearances that she would
not be able to pay. When this was suggested to her, she would re-
ply nearly in the following words. "I desire to be thankful to God,
I do not feel in the least anxious about it. I do not doubt of my
having the whole of the money at the time in which it will be due,
or near it. God has given me a constant and earnest desire to do
justice, and pay when any thing is due. This is a just debt, and
God has been pleased hitherto to gratify me by enabling me to pay,
when it is due ; and I believe he will still continue to do it. Per-
haps I shall not live to the end of the quarter. I shall then leave
enough to pay this debt. I desire to leave it with God." She gen-
erally had the money in her hand by the time it was due, and never
failed being able to pay with punctuality. She frequently did not
receive much, if any part of the money, till just before the quarter
was ended, and knew not from whom, or from whence it would
come ; yet before the time to pay came, as much as was necessary
to answer her end at that time, would be brought or sent to her, by
persons who knew nothing of her present strait. And it was often
sent by persons who lived at a distance, which would come to her
just at the time in which it was wanted. She had money sent her
from Quebec, from the West Indies, and from various parts of the
United States.
This is related as a remarkable instance of humble trust in God,
and resignation and acquiescence in his will ; and of the tender care
and faithfulness of God, and loving kindness towards one devoted to
his service, and trusting in his promises : and that it may serve as an
example and encouragement to all, to " trust in the Lord, at all times
and pour out their hearts before him/'
Mrs. Osborn was, in the last twenty years of her life, stripped by
degrees, and deprived of many privileges and enjoyments, which to
her had been very great and precious. She had esteemed public
worship, attending on the preaching of the gospel and public institu-
tions, as far more desirable and important than all worldly good, in
attending on which she had great enjoyment. But her bodily in-
firmities were so great and increasing, that for near twenty years she
was unable to attend public worship. Her eyes failed her to such a
degree, that she wTas obliged to lay by her pen, not being able to
write any thing considerable, which she had done before this with
great pleasure and profit to herself, having written more than fifty
volumes, the least containing near one hundred pages, the bigger
part above two hundred, and a number three hundred, and more,
besides letters to her friends, and other occasional writing. The
failing of her sight also deprived her of the pleasure and profit of
reading ; especially of reading the Bible, which she had before dai-
ly perused with great pleasure and advantage. She had the Bible,
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indeed, read to her daily ; which she considered as an unspeakable
favor. But this did not equal the privilege of being able to have
access to it, at all times, and on every particular occasion. But she
paid such attention to the Bible, read it so much, and so treasured it
up in her memory, while she could read, that she found great plea-
sure and benefit in being able to recollect so much of it, when she
was not able to read ; which she frequently mentioned to her friends
as a matter of thankfulness.
As she drew near the close of her life, she was a proof of the
strength and hope of the righteous ; was an instance of the mysteri-
ous example of flourishing virtue, with the decays of nature ; of
satisfaction in the prospects of future good, when from the world she
could derive no pleasure. "My physician," she said, " has seriously
intimated, that I cannot live long ; but I am not alarmed. Unless my
heart deceive me, and the heart is deceitful above all things, and
desperately wicked; but unless mine greatly deceive me, I have no
reason to be apprehensive for the future state. It appears to be the
will of God that I should go hence. I ought to submit to his will, and
I do, with cheerfuness. May his will be done." In another season,
she said, " The trials of my situation are great ; to be in want of
breath, is very distressing ; pray for me, that I may have patience
and resignation : I desire them above all things. O pray for me that
in these last hours of my life, I may not cause you all to blush that I
have professed Christianity." It being remarked, that God was faith-
ful, and would never forsake those who had loved and served him.
"Yes," she replied, " I know, by experience, that he is a faithful
covenant keeping God, and he will never leave those who love and
serve him ; though without his grace I should immediately sink, and
my mind be filled with darkness and repining." In this temper of
humility and reliance on God, she continued, and gave no sign of im-
patience, more than saying, a day or two before her death, when she
heard the bell toll, that somebody had got the start of her.
She continued to sink by degrees, till after a distressing turn, she
appeared more comfortable, and they who attended her, helped her
to lie down, at her desire, hoping she might get some rest and sleep.
They left her for a few minutes, and when they returned, they found
her breath was gone, and she a lifeless corpse ! Thus she left the
world, and passed that death which she had so often desired, calm
and serene, without the least perceivable struggle or groan, and, we
doubt not, entered into that rest to which the righteous go, on the 2d
day of August, by an uncommon concourse of people. The corpse
was carried into the meeting house, and a funeral sermon was preach-
ed, by the Rev. Dr. Hopkins, from Ephesians iv. 1. 1 therefore the
prisoner of the Lord, beseech you, that ye walk worthy of the voca-
tion wherewith ye are called.
Note — From the Life of Mrs. Osborn, by the Rev Samuel Hopkins, D. D. of
Newport, authotof the life of President Edwards.
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MISS SUSANNA ANTHONY.
Miss Susanna Anthony, was born at Newport, Rhode Island,
on the 25th clay of October, 1726. Mr. Isaac Anthony her lather,
was a native of Rhode Island. When he was young, he went to
Boston to learn the trade of a goldsmith. There he became ac-
quainted with Miss Mercy Chamberlin, whom he afterwards married
and settled in Newport, where they lived about sixty years together.
They had seven daughters, five of whom survived their parents, but
no son. Susanna who was their youngest daughter except one, lived
with her parents until they died, which was between forty and fifty
years. She was never married. Her parents were of the denomi-
nation called Friends or Quakers, in which way she was educated,
until she was about fifteen years old, when she was the subject of a
series of remarkable exercises, of which she has given a particular
account, which we here insert.
" Some observable passages in my life especially the first seventeen
years of it; which 1 have collected from some memorandums, and
by the help of my memory ; and now set them down, that I may
with more ease peruse them. And as they are designed for my
own use, 1 am no ways solicitous to omit any thing that may look
trifling, if I think the recording it may serve to animate me, and
excite that praise in my soul, which is everlastingly due to the great
Author and Finisher of my faith. A desire to revive a sense of
this in my soul has led me to review what I had formerly written ;
and to recollect what my memory did retain ; and now to put them to-
gether, in the order of their dates, so that being in this compass,
I might readily look over them, when I inclined or needed it. And
here I have begun from my early days. O, may that same Divine
Spirit, which has worked all my works in me ever excite the warm-
est sentiments of gratitude, love and wonder, whenever I review
these records of the divine unmerited displays of his grace !"
I was early taught to love, fear and serve the Lord. My dear
mother took great pnins to form my mind for God. And blessed
be God, who by his Spirit, followed the good advice, counsel and
warnings ; early convincing me of my sinful state, of the corrupt
fountain in my soul. The first sin that I remember to have been
convinced of was pride : and this 1 saw to be in my heart, and from
thence it had proceeded into act. I think 1 was then between five
and six years old. And 1 r.cmember I was very anxious to know
whether, if I grew good then, God would forgive me : and inquired
ol some of my friends, as to this matter. In the general they resol-
ved my question, and read the eighteenth chapter of Fzekiel to mc.
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This put me with working with all my might ; and keeping up good
resolutions. But conviction wore off, and I remember but little of
these concerns, until 1 was about seven or eight years old. Then
conviction did revive. I saw more of the sinfulness of my heart ;
but r?ad no clear knowledge of the way of salvation by Jesus Christ.
I knew Christ died for sinners ; but how we became interested in his
death, I was confused. I had, though young, a set of notions of my
own, and was excessively superstitious. I worked hard. I quarrel-
led with the sovereignty of God. I remember, I felt my heart rise
and my enmity worked violently, to find there was more joy over one
sinner that repenteth, than over ninety and nine just persons ; for I
had worked up myself into such a good conceit of myself, that 1
really thought I was one of the just persons. O shocking ignorance
and presumption ! but God, who, I trust, was determined to bring
me home, would not suffer me finally to persist in this scheme ; but
did multiply conviction. I forsook God, and fell into sins, and was
roused again by convictions.
But as to the particular circumstances of a change, which I sup-
pose to be about this time, I cannot remember them. The most
that I can remember is, that I was in great distress about my soul ;
that I saw the insufficiency of any thing I could do to save me.
And about this time, had my heart much carried out after Christ,
and the way of salvation by him. And I remember to have been
filled with comfort and joy in religion. I should not think these
things sufficient evidences that I had experienced a work of grace in
my soul, had I experienced nothing more since that time ; but what I
trust I have since known of a work of God in my soul inclines me to
think my soul was then brought home to God ; that I then had true
faith in God, if I now have. I can much better remember the effects
than the circumstances of these things. And they were such as these :
knowledge, faith and love, and hatred of sin.
As to my knowledge, though to this day I have reason to be hum-
bled to the dust that I know no more : and am often ready to cry out
of my ignorance, that I am ignorant as a beast before the Lord.
Ah ! woe is me, that I know no more of God, and divine, spiritual
things. Yet my knowledge, however weak, is an evidence to me,
that God did then work a work of grace in my soul. For now I
began more clearly to see my wretched state by nature and practice
my need of a Savior, and the way of salvation by him. My mind
was enlightened, and drank in many of the precious truths of the
gospel, about this time. And from this time 1 had a clearer knowl-
edge of Christ as mediator, one chosen by the Father for sinners
than before.
As to my faith, which is an evidence of my change. After this
time, which I suppose to be about the eighth or ninth year of my age, I
did frequently endeavor to give myself up to God, casting all my con-
cerns on him ; embracing Christ a? my only Redeemer ; resting on
MISS SUSANNA ANTHONY. 365
him as my only high priest before God the Father. And though at
this age, and under some disadvantages, I had not a thorough doctri-
nal knowledge, which renders my experiences, at this time, far less
clear, than otherwise they might have been, yet the actings of my
soul towards God then, appear since to me, as far as I can discern,
to be the real actings of true faith.
Again, as to my love. Now was my soul taken up in admiring the
glorious way of salvation by Christ. He appeared truly amiable, as
the Redeemer of lost man. Nor was the Father's love less wonder-
ful, in giving his Son to die. I can remember to have been even
wrapped up in ecstacy of love and wonder. For some time my
thoughts seemed only to dwell and live on the admirable views of
these things. I wondered they wTere no more admired and spoken
of by others. I loved the word of God, took great delight in rea-
ding it, and in all the exercises of religion. My greatest delight was
to pour out my soul before God. I brought before him the minu-
test concerns of my life, and sought his direction and blessing. It
was sweet to me to eye God in all I did. And God did graciously
indulge my love and sincerity, (though attended with many childish
weaknesses) and witnessed that he heard my prayers. O ! what en-
largement did I now receive from a kind and gracious God ! and
how was my soul taken up in love to God and religion ! and in hatred
of sin ! which is another evidence. I found a hatred of all sin, as
sin, as contrary to a holy God. And remember to have examined
myself by that mark, and found it was so as far as I could find out;
that I did hate sin, for sin's sake, and love holiness, for holiness sake.
Thus I went on for some time, in the comforts of religion, and in
the practice of the duties of it, weary of the world, and longing af-
ter God ; desirous of the salvation of others. In particular, 1 re-
member to have the soul of my youngest sister much on my heart.
She was about six years and a half yonnger than I was ; and I used
to put her to bed. And I made it my practice, when I had done, to
kneel down undiscovered, and seek God's special blessing, and
constant protection for her. O that God may fulfill my earnest re-
quests for her.
But after some time I began to lose these good impressions, and
get in love with childish vanities and plays. And thus my heart de-
clined from God and duty. Yet, forever blessed be God, who did
not suffer me wholly to lose these religious impressions : but followed
me with his Spirit, though I strove to disregard him, and follow my
sports and plays, for which my mother reproved me ; and I resolved
against them ; yet fell again. And thus I continued, often afraid and
ashamed to pray, until forced to it by some distressing providence :
and then I would continue steady for a while ; as when by a sudden
stroke, God took from me my eldest sister whom I greatly loved. 1
then flew to God for relief and support ; and that the blow might be
sanctified to the whole family. Thus, when trouble was near, !
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poured out my prayer to God. But alas ! I was not steady and con-
stant with God. My heart, after all that God had done for me, and
all I had engaged for God, was now bent to backslide from God, and
would have fatally apostatized from him, had he not kept me by his
mighty power, from which none shall be ever able to pluck his chil-
dren ; he having engaged to carry on the work he has begun, will
assuredly fulfil his purpose. This I verily believe ; for otherwise I
had never been recovered from such foul ungrateful wanderings.
O, how long did God wait to be gracious ! how many mercies did
he bestow on me ! how many gentle reproofs ; how many kind calls
and entreaties did he use ! but still I forsook the Lord my Redeemer.
And now he began to hide his face from me, and suffer Satan to
beset me. My sins appeared great and I was covered with darkness
and confusion. I appeared to myself amazingly ignorant. And here
Satan strove to persuade me that I had better let religion alone, until
I was older. Then I should know how to engage in it. And 1 was
tempted to believe all the darkness and trouble I found was owing to
my being so young, that I had not sufficient knowledge to engage
in any thing of religion. O, what distress was I now in ! I found I
could not now cast off God, and the concerns of my soul ; nor could
I seem to pursue them to any purpose. I had set my hand to the
plough, and dare not resolvedly look back, and cast off all thoughts
of God and my soul ; nor would God suffer me thus to do. No,
adored be the blessed God, who was now about to bring me near
himself. Satan had often suited his temptation to my childish
thoughts, and suggested that 1 could not be contented if I went to
heaven ; for I could not be contented here always in one place. I
returned the question, how I should be contented in hell ? but here
he suggested the variety of company, I remember. This tempta-
tion followed me closely. But the other concerning my being too
young to engage in religion, was now very powerful. I found my-
self entangled in a labyrinth of darkness and confusion. God had
justly hid himself from me. The teachings of his Spirit seemed to
be gone, and as I groped in the dark, I found not a fixed reliance on
Christ, to carry on his work in my soul ; but often engaged in my
own strength ; and then was foiled. I was often ready to think, I
never would advise one so young as I was, to set about religion ;
for I greatly feared I never should obtain the favor of God ; but
should make shipwreck of faith; not considering Christ's care of his
young, inexperienced disciples ; that these have a peculiar interest
in his most tender care ; and that his promise is to such as seek him
early, that they shall find him. Nor was I sufficiently humbled un-
der my wicked departure from God.
O, had God now left me, what had I done, but joined with Satan,
and utterly forsaken the Lord ? but thus he followed me with the con-
victions of his Spirit, sometimes reproving ; sometimes enlightening
and encouraging me ; sometimes suffering Satan to assault me, until
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the year 1740,* when the Rev. Mr. Whitefield came here. I at-
tended his preaching, and was quickened to give more diligence to
make my calling and election sure. I read more, and listened
more attentively to the truths of the gospel. And there being more
talk of religion now, I got more acquaintance with the work of God
in the souls of his people, and resolved more diligently to labor after
a life of holiness, and inward conformity to God.
Thus I continued. In the year 1741, the Rev. Mr. Gilbert Ten-
nent came here. He had been here before ; but I had never heard
him. But now 1 went. And some of my friends, being much af-
fected under the word, expressed their concern to me, telling me,
they wished they had been as much concerned for their souls, as
they thought I was. This roused me. I burst into tears, and told
them they did not know what a dreadful creature I was; what dread-
ful thoughts I had. And exclaimed against myself most terribly;
assuring them they could not once think how bad I was. But, O,
how was I harassed and worried, after I had told this to them !
Satan worked on my pride, to make me ashamed that I had let any
body know how bad 1 was. I thought they would not think me fit
to live. I was ready to think every one would look on me to be
such a monster, as was never heard of before. With many entreat-
ies I was prevailed on, in the evening, to visit Mr. Tennent. But
my mouth was shut. I dare not speak a word, only yes, or no.
But I gained light by this worthy minister's preaching and conversa-
tion. Forever blessed be God that I saw him.
I wonder at, and adore the love of God in regarding any of the
fallen apostate race of rebelling man. I am surprised at his con-
descensions, when I read of his dealings with his eminent servants,
who are as pillars in his house, and such from whom may reasonably
be expected some suitable returns, though none can compensate the
least act of his grace. But, O, how does my wonder rise, even to
astonishment, when I review but what my treacherous memory yet
retains of his dealing with unworthy me ! O, my soul, God knew
thee to be a helpless, worthless, depraved worm. He knew thy sta-
tion and capacity were low and mean, and thy ingratitude, sloth and
negligence great, and unbecoming thee. He knew what poor re-
turns thou wouldst make. And yet, O surprising grace ! I believe
there are many of the former to whom he never afforded more
speedy succor and relief, than to me. Verily, O God, it is like thy
nature, immense and boundless. For thou hast chosen the base
things of this world, babes and sucklings ; yea, things that are not,
to shew forth thy power and grace. O, the height and depth of un-
searchable grace and love !
But to return. Now I engaged to be the Lord's, and bound my-
self to him in a short written covenant, which I find dated Oct. 19,
She was then in her fourteenth year.
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1741." And I enjoyed some more freedom from those violent dis-
tresses, which I had suffered ; but was not wholly delivered. For
my fear and temptation returned at times, though not so constant as
formerly. And God graciously allowed me some near access to
him in prayer. A very little after this I was seeking God for a par-
ticular temporal mercy; and was powerfully quieted by those words,
Matt. vi. 33, " Seek first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness,
and all these things shall be added unto you." This gave my mind
a calm turn. And though I had no prospect of the speedy accom-
plishment of my request; yet I believed in the promise; and left it
with God, and was as well satisfied as if I had seen it done. And,
before night, to the wonder of many, it was accomplished. I was
filled with such a humbling sense of the goodness of God, and my
own vileness, that I sat as one not concerned in the matter ; while
others were rejoicing, and calling on me, to know if I was sorry.
But rny soul was engaged in adoring God as the author of all my
mercies, and in sealing to the truth of his word, that he was a God
hearing prayer.
I now began more strictly to examine those principles of religion
in which I had been educated. But to find Christ, and be found in
him, was the prevailing concern of my life. For I was so often
plunged into new distresses, that I could not pursue any thing stead-
ily. Yet I embraced those principles, which I thought most agree-
able to divine revelation, without changing my profession. f But,
when I had light and hope about my own state, I wTas disposed to
look into these matters. But I feared to be too much engaged in
any thing that did not immediately concern my getting into Christ,
by a true and vital union to him. Now my soul longed after him,
and the language of my whole heart was for a Christ, a whole Christ,
in all his offices, on his own terms ; and that he would manifest him-
self to me ; giving up myself to him ; engaging to be his ; afraid of
every thing that might offend him. I had some discovery of Christ
as a complete Savior.
Numberless were the mistakes and errors, into which I ran at this
time. However, though Satan urged me on to things, to an extreme,
yet, I trust, God brought good out of it, and taught me much of a
gospel, self-denying spirit.
About this time, the Rev. Mr. Wheelock came here, and preach-
ed from those words, 2 Cor. xiii. 5, " Examine yourselves, whether
ye be in the faith," he. This put me on a serious inquiry into the
state of my soul ; which I had scarce allowed myself to do before :
but rather inclined to fix in my mind that I had no true faith, than
to admit a thought that possibly I had. But now I made some in-
* She then -wanted six days of being fifteen years old.
t She was educated in the profession of the Quakers, as her parents were of that
denomination.
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quiry ; and dare not deny those evidences, which were mentioned
from the scriptures. And, by a sermon of the Rev. Mr. Dickinson
on the witness of the Spirit, I found, as I thought, farther ground to
hope I had experienced a work of grace in my soul. But I had
greater discoveries of the corruption of my heart : and was often
amazed and confounded ; especially under Mr. Wheelock's preach-
ing : but not so as to lose my hope ; though it was often very low.
But now, as I had some hope and relief, I set myself to pursue
the inquiry into the principles of religion. I read Barclay's Apolo-
gy, Mr. Vincent's Exposition of the Assembly's Catechism, and sev-
eral other authors on the same subjects; with some treatises on the or-
dinances, and especially, I still compared them with scripture. And,
upon the whole, after prayer and supplication to God for direction,
according to the best light I could get, without applying to any per-
son, on one side or the other, I was convinced that the ordinances of
Baptism and the Lord's Supper were of divine appointment at first.
And I found they had been kept up in the church by the apostles;
and could find no proof from scripture that they were ever abolish-
ed, as the ceremonial law was: and therefore still were in force, and
ought to be practised by christians. I was now convinced they were
the positive commands of Christ, and not to be slighted or neglected.
As to the doctrines of grace, the imputation of Adam's sin ; the
corruption of our nature ; justification by the imputation of the right-
eousness of Christ, through faith in him ; the divine sovereignty, that
grace was absolutely free and sovereign, without any foreseen merit
or worth in the creature, according to Rom. ix, 1 Pet. i, and many
other passages of the scripture to the same purpose ; and the other
doctrines of the gospel, as set forth by the assembly of divines at
Westminster, I did verily believe them to be most agreeable to the
word of God ; which I believe to be the only rule of faith and prac-
tice ; by which the Spirit of God doth lead us into all truth. I did
embrace these doctrines, according to the best light I had, (after a
diligent inquiry after the truth,) as most worthy of God, and warrant-
ed by his word, for me to receive and walk in ; not condemning
others, who did not see as I did. Yet I still continued in the way
in which I had been educated, waiting on God for farther light and
establishment. This was in the beginning of the year 1742.*
And thus I continued until about June or July; when the Rev.
Mr. Fish of Stonington came here. He preached from these words,
"Wherefore, he is able also to save them to the uttermost, that come
unto God by him." He observed, that here none were excluded,
but such as had committed the unpardonable sin. It was a sermon
full of encouragement. But Satan set in to persuade me that was
my case ; and therefore there was no hope for me; for I had, under
these violent temptations, certainly done it. O, how was my dis-
* When she had entered on the sixteenth year of her age.
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tress now increased ! I seemed now as one shut up in despair.
However, I went in the evening to hear him again : but seemed
hardened, as one given over of God. Whatever he said of terror,
I seemed to disregard, as so far below what I should soon feel, in its
full weight and measure, that it was but trifling. And what he said
of comfort was not worth my regarding ; for I had no lot or portion
in that matter. Never did I before sit under a sermon, in such wild
distraction and horror ; yet so hardened, as I now appeared to my-
self, in absolute despair. It is shocking to me now to reflect on the
abandoned frame I then seemed to be in. I thought I feared noth-
ing. No expressions of terror moved me to bewail my misery; but
was ready to wish to know the utmost of it. In this situation of
mind I remained most of the night. But towards morning, falling
asleep, I awaked speaking these words, O, when shall this mortal
put on immortality ! And my mind was much more calm. I had
some impressions of a religious dream. But the dream soon entire-
ly vanished from my mind. However, I felt so much encourage-
ment, as prevailed on me to go again to hear Mr. Fish give a word
of exhortation, notwithstanding all my dreadful conclusions on the
night past. And he spoke from these words, Col. iii. 11, "Where
there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcision nor uncircumcision,
Barbarian, Scythian, bond nor free : but Christ is all, and in all."
I cannot remember exactly the method he took : but he spoke of
Christ as the Alpha and Omega, as the author and finisher of the
believer's faith ; and, as such, the true Christian did esteem and
prize him.
And now, I trust, the Spirit of God did powerfully apply these
truths to my soul. Thus, thus, infinitely lovely did Christ appear
to me. And now I was enabled to choose him for my almighty
Savior. And while I acted faith in him, the blessed Spirit, I trust,
did witness with my spirit, that thus and thus I had before beheld
and embraced him ; and that he was precious to me, as he is to all
those who believe. Much of the day I spent in the company of
Mr. Fish, and some other christian friends. But I said little. My
soul was taken up in admiring the glorious Redeemer, and the riches
of divine grace; renewing my choice of him. Setting the crown on
his head. Proclaiming Jesus King in and over my whole soul. I
sat calm and serene ; and every act of my soul was rational and
solid : but not in any transport or ecstacy of joy all the day. But
in the evening God was pleased to fill my soul with unspeakable
consolation and joy. The great Redeemer appeared transcendently
amiable ; and my interest in him clear and undoubted. Such were
the surprising alterations in me, that some did conclude that was the
time of my first espousals ; that was the happy moment of my con-
version. But I could not find any difference in kind, though there
was in degree, between this and what I had before experienced.
From this time, I was never in such deep distress. My temptations
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fled at the rebuke of the Almighty ; and my hope was, in the gen-
eral, above my fears.
And, as my hope now prevailed that I had true faith, however
weak, my desires after universal obedience to the commands of
Christ were strong. And firmly believing the ordinances of bap-
tism and the Lord's supper were appointed by Christ, and all believ-
ers commanded to attend on them, I applied myself to a minister,
who gave me some light as to their nature and design. The only
person to whom I had revealed my mind. For I was determined
to be fully persuaded in my own mind and conscience ; and not to
be persuaded thereto by others. Some of my most intimate friends,
as they have since told me, really thought me settled in the way in
which I had been educated. Nor did they attempt to persuade me
to change ; leaving me to my own reason, or rather to the word and
Spirit of God, for direction. This has often since been a great sat-
isfaction to me. For by this means I was the better able to see in-
to these matters, and have my judgment established.
And now I resolved directly to acquaint my dear mother with my
design. But, O, the struggle I had here with my affections ! I
feared it would grieve my tender parents. I knew their tender
affection for me : and certainly, if they loved their children, they
must desire to see them walk in their way, which they thought
most right. Here I found indeed a hard trial. It grieved me to
my inmost soul to think of grieving them : yet I dare not neglect
my duty. I have often thought the trial would not have been so
great, to have to struggle with their anger, as their love. But, bless-
ed be God, I had not that to fear, as to any severity in matters of re-
ligion. It is impossible to express how my heart bled at the thought
of wounding them. And nothing but the fear of incurring the di-
vine displeasure, could have prevailed on me to have done this vio-
lence to my affection. But this prevailed ; the fear of offending
God. I poured out my soul to him for them, that they might be
comfortably supported under it. And then told my mother my con-
cern and intent. She, with the utmost tenderness, assured me, that
neither my father, nor she, would force my conscience. Only she
entreated me not to be rash or hasty in what I did ; but consider
well of it. Which I told her I had done, he. Once or twice after
this, I discoursed with her upon it. She reasoned with me a little
upon the subject; but I was now so fully established, that it did not
move me from my purpose.
After I had discoursed with my mother, being in secret, pleading
with God for grace and strength to carry me through, if it was agree-
able to his will ; if not, that I might never engage ; I had a scruple
arise concerning my faith, lest it should not be true and saving : and
then perhaps I should fall away ; and so bring great dishonor on God
and religion. And it was suggested to my mind, that it was a great
thins: to forsake father and mother for Christ, and not have an inter-
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est in him at last. And that it was indeed a great thing for one so
young to engage in such an affair; to forsake the profession in which
I had been educated, and make such a high one, as none in the fam-
ily had ever ventured to do. This put me upon wrestling with
strong cries to the Father of mercies for direction and assistance.
And I was quieted by the following words of scripture, which were
very powerfully set home on my soul. " Verily, there is no man,
that hath left father or mother, brethren or sisters, he. for my sake,
but he shall receive an hundred fold here ; and in the world to come
eternal life." And again, " My grace is sufficient for thee. My
strength is made perfect in weakness." Again, " Lest a promise
being left us of entering into his rest, any of you should seem to
come short of it. O, thou of little faith, wherefore didst thou doubt?"
These words were impressed on my mind with such power, that had
all the world stood up to oppose, I thought I could fearless venture
to go on, against them all, in the strength of my Redeemer. O,
how powerfully did they establish and invigorate my soul, in the pur-
suit of my duty !
I was then determined to proceed, relying on Christ, in the prom-
ises. If his grace was sufficient for me ; and his strength might be
made perfect in my weakness, it was enough ; which I then believed
it would be, according to his word. It was ground sufficient for me
to engage in this concern, however difficult, great and singular it
might appear, for one of my age.* O, how did Christ now appear
for me ! At once, dispelling all my doubts and fears, confirming and
establishing me, both as to my own good state, and his certain pres-
ence and assistance in my following him in the way of his appoint-
ment, to which he had called me. I saw the call was his, and the
promise his, and the duty mine to comply. I now believed him com-
manding me to seek his face in this way, and my heart returned, Thy
face, O Lord, will I seek.
And having made some search into the scriptural mode of baptism,
I was well satisfied as to sprinkling. It appeared from scripture and
reason to be right. I then went to the Rev. Mr. Clap; and, after
discoursing with him, gave up my name to be taken into his church.
The day before this was to be completed, I was under some dark-
ness and fears: and therefore was afraid lest God should hide his
face from me, in the solemn transaction. And by this means Satan
took the advantage to make me question whether I had done right,
in what I had done. I knew the subtilty of Satan to perplex my
soul, and make me fear all was wrong, when God did not afford light
and evidence. I was now ready to conclude to send the minister
word, that I should not go out the next day. But now, even noiv
was God pleased to speak to my soul by his Spirit, in those words,
" I said not unto the seed of Jacob, Seek ye me in vain !" Here I
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* Not quite sixteen years old.
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was led to review my calls to these ordinances ; and was powerfully
convinced they were from God. That it was God, and only he, who
had bid me seek his face in these duties ; and then the blessed Spirit
assured me, from the word of God, that he had not bid me seek his
face here, in vain. 1 then determined to do my duty, and leave the
event with God : if he saw best to own his own institutions, by afford-
ing his sensible presence and grace, well : but if he saw best to deny
his sensible comfort, it was my duty to submit ; but not to omit my
duty by not going. Thus I cast my burden on God, pleading, if it
was his will, that he would welcome me there, by the light of his
countenance, and the joy of his salvation. But, above all, that I might
approve myself to him in the devout, solemn, humble and faithful
discharge of my duty, though I felt not that joy which was sweet to
my soul.
And thus, on October 24, 1742,* I was baptized, and taken into
the church. My soul was, in a most solemn manner, engaged to ap-
prove myself to God. And never had I more sensibly exercised
faith, than now. While the covenant was read, I was enabled to give
up my whole soul and body to God, taking him for my own, only
covenant God. And, indeed, the whole time was taken up in the
most solemn transaction between God and my soul, and in this so
solemn engagement, sealed on both sides. I sealed to be the Lord's;
and here God sealed to be mine, my Father, my Redeemer, and my
Sanctifier ; my only, everlasting refuge and hope. O, how happy
did I now appear to be, under these solemn vows, calling on saints
and angels to witness the solemn transaction !
" Here in thy courts I leave my vow,
And thy rich grace record ;
Witness, ye saints, who hear me now,
If I forsake the Lord."
The 121st Psalm was sung in Dr. Watts's version. The title,
" Divine protection." Which did then, and ever since, appear very
precious to me ; especially the two first, and two last verses. The
two last are these :
" Should earth and hell with malice burn,
Still thou shalt go, and still return,
Safe in the Lord ; his heavenly care
Defends thy life from every snare.
" On thee foul spirits have no power,
And in thy last departing hour,
Angels, that trace the airy road,
Shall bear thee homeward to thy God.''
I was now fully satisfied in what I had done ; and never since, so
far as I can remember, have had one doubt or scruple about the doc-
trines or ordinances which I then embraced ; which is now above
■ The day before she was sixteen years old.
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eleven years ago.* I have often found cause to bless God for the
many trials I had concerning the changing my religion, as to these
things. For by this my judgment was more enlightened, and more
fully confirmed, that I was right in what I then did. It was with de-
liberation and solid determination of my judgment ; free from con-
straint, persuasion or prejudice, that I proceeded in these matters, as
what, from the best light I then had, or now have, in the word of
God, I think to be most clearly revealed. Yet, I still love and honor
those, who, I hope, are truly pious, among that people, though differ-
ing from me in some sentiments ; and I firmly believe God has his
chosen ones among them. My acquaintance with some, of exem-
plary lives and conversation, and christian experiences, so agreeable
to the word of God, forbids my censuring them, merely because they
do not see or profess just as I do.
But to go on with my own experiences. My faith began evidently
to increase under these means and ordinances. And for some weeks
after this solemn transaction, I enjoyed more solid steady peace in
my soul, than ever I had done before : and was often melted down
before God, to see those who had been educated in these principles,
and had all outward helps to forward them in coming up to these sa-
cred institutions of Christ ; yet fearing to take the vows of God upon
them : and I, who was called to engage with so many difficulties, com-
pelled to come in to this marriage supper. It was truly affecting,
and often caused me to cry out, Why me, Lord, why me ? O. bless-
ed be God, that I was thus young brought to an open, public pro-
fession of him ; and had the seals of the covenant set on me ! It was
a day of the gladness of my heart. A day forever to be remem-
bered with joy. A day, in which God took me near himself. And
I trust I shall ever find a solid satisfaction in what I then did.
Nothing should have tempted me to have wished myself from under
these bonds and seals.
Thus was my soul daily established in God. Every outward re-
proach that was cast on me, was improved, either to put me on see-
ing that my foundation was right, or studying how I might more glo-
rify God, and honor the sacred profession I had made. My soul was
built up under the word and ordinances of God, on which he had
taught me to set a high value, as being his own institutions.
And though God has since sometimes corrected my backslidings,
and hid his face for a small moment ; yet his loving kindness has he
not taken from me, nor suffered his faithfulness to fail : but has gra-
ciously led me along by still waters ; and in green pastures has he
caused me to feed. His rod and his staff have comforted me. In
and by every affliction, he has taught me his tender care over me.
In every cross and disappointment, he has, sooner or later, made me
to adore his wisdom, and see his kind designs of love, and mercy.
* Hence it appears that she was twenty seven years old, when she wrote this.
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And though he has sometimes called me into the field of battle ; yet
he has harnessed me for the battle, and fought for me. Innumerable
evils have compassed me around. Satan, the world, and my own
wicked, deceitful heart, all combined to devour me quick ; yet his
arm alone has sustained me. Even when every refuge failed, and
my faith was ready to stagger, my extremity has been his opportu-
nity. He has never left me unsuccored or without relief.
After I had enjoyed great peace in my soul, and had sat under the
droppings of the sanctuary of God with vast delight, he was pleased
awfully to bereave me of both my ever dear and Rev. Pastors :
which was a very sore affliction : yet, under this trial, he taught me
much by what I experienced.
Then was he pleased to visit me with many and great bodily dis-
orders, whereby I have been often brought, to appearance, to the
gates of the grave ; and every outward comfort of food or physic
rendered a terror, and an aggravation of my pain. Yet by all these
things have I been taught the riches of his grace and love ; and in all
has he been my comforter, and my only all-sufficient refuge. How
hath he borne me, and my burdens ! And it is with pleasure that I
now recount the most distressing trials of my life : For by these has
God bound me faster to himself; laid me under renewed obligations
to live devoted to him, and his glory.
And when Satan has been permitted, as he has been in later years,
most furiously to rally all his forces against the foundation of my
hope, as to all religion : By which I have been led into the most ter-
rible conflicts and combats, with the united powers of hell, so that I
have even chosen strangling and death, rather than an encounter with
these legions of foul spirits. How dreadful the wrar ! Yet, how glori-
ous the victory, which my Redemer has gained ! How wisely has he
defeated Satan, and put him to flight, and filled my soul with songs
of deliverance ! O, howT hath he defeated every hellish plot, that has
been laid for my entire destruction.
I am surely bound by the most sacred obligation to live to his glo-
ry. His right in me is indisputable. The flesh, the world, and the
devil, must all give back, and own his sovereign right in and over
me. His arm alone has rescued my soul from hell ; and his shall
be the glory. O my soul, remember the victories and triumphs of
thy most kind and gracious Redeemer, over sin, Satan and the world,
when they have all united for thy utter ruin. What infinite wisdom,
what almighty power, what irresistible grace, what glorious goodness,
what uncontrollable sovereignty, and what amazing condescension,
have been displayed towards thee ! Can I, O, can I, ever forget the
loving kindness of the Lord, and slight his tender mercies ! How had
my faith utterly failed, had not the unseen arm of Jehovah sustained
it ! How often have my hopes been at the lowest ebb, when speedy
relief has been brought to me !
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And how often, when my sin and folly has exposed me to the rage
of hell and the malice of men ; yea, to my Savior's severe rebukes,
as well as to my own accusing conscience, has Jesus engaged for
me, and delivered me from all my fears ! How slow has his anger
moved ! How swift his grace ! How innumerable are these in-
stances !
How tenderly has he been untwisting my heart from the world, to
which it has dinged ! How much wisdom has he ever manifested
in all the methods he has taken with my rebellious heart ; and made
me to adore it, in some of the sorest trials. How has he conde-
scended to instruct and teach me ; kindly showing me, wherefore he
did correct me ; as though he would not suffer me to suspect his
kindness. O unparalleled goodness ! Thou, Lord, hast been my
refuge, my support and comforter, in every time of trouble. And in
almost every trial and affliction have I vowed to the Lord, that if he
would then deliver me out of my distress, I would use my most stu-
dious endeavor to trust more firmly in him. And he has, sooner or
later, brought me to cast my cares and burdens on him ; giving up
every, even the most minute concern of mine, to his allwise disposal.
And on every deliverance have I been led to renew the sacred en-
gagements which I have made in distress.
And now I am no more my own. I am the Lord's, by all the
bonds and obligations of a rational, redeemed , devoted creature.
God has been long teaching me his absolute right in me, and all my
services and enjoyments ; that I can call nothing my own ; that he
has a sovereign right to these, as the creator and bestower of all ;
and by my own most voluntary surrender of all to him ; renouncing,
in the most solemn manner, all hope, expectation, and desire, from
the creature, and choosing him alone for my portion, desire and
delight.
And as it has been the ardent desire, the importunate request, and
the grand pursuit of my life, to lay up all my good in God, and re-
ceive all from him ; so I now find an habitual disposition of soul to
rest, in a measure, satisfied with all his dispensations towards me.
And, through grace, believing I am his ; that I have a covenant right
to that most gracious Being, who doth all things according to the
counsel of his own will, which are for his own glory : And in full
agreement with this is the highest good of his chosen people : And
having a thousand, and a thousand times solemnly subscribed to these
terms : That his will and his glory may have the governing influence
and disposal of me, and all that relates to me : I have esteemed it
my highest' felicity thus to have myself, and all my actions and con-
cerns disposed of. And, now it is my joy and crown of rejoicing,
that it is and shall be so, by the firm and unalterable decree of him
who cannot change.
And this belief I find powerfully prevailing to reconcile me to all
the divine dispensations of providence. For, when the glory of God
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is my highest end and desire ; and I firmly believe that God, who
has the ordering of all my affairs, has this in view ; namely, his own
glory, well may I rejoice : For I have nothing to fear. He has in-
finite wisdom to direct, and almighty power to effect what he pleas-
es : And therefore can never fail of his purposes. All his dispensa-
tions towards me, I would always realize, as the result of infinite wis-
dom and eternal counsel ; and therefore most perfect. And, though
my proud rebellious heart dare rise up in opposition, and impiously
call in question his ways ; yet, through grace, I never leave strug-
gling, until the conquest is gained, and my soul submits to the scep-
ter of Jesus, and signs its former engagements.
And this conquest is his. It is he who exerts his almighty pow-
er, and subdues my remaining corruptions ; or I should never over-
come. All the glory is his, forever his : For, without him, I can-
not do any thing. I still find such remains of sin in this depraved
heart, that were it not for the prevailing intercession, and daily inter-
position of the great God-Man-Mediator, with the Father, and against
Satan and my own wicked heart, I should despair of ever gaining the
victory. But, thanks be to God, through Jesus Christ, wTho giveth
the victory. And through him I hope ere long to receive the end
of my faith, the salvation of my soul ; the open vision and full frui-
tion of this best of Beings. When sin and Satan shall no more de-
file and vex my weary soul. All these fiery conflicts shall then be
remembered with endless acclamations to Jesus, my only almighty
Savior. To him, to him alone, shall all the redeemed ascribe the
glory of their salvation. Thine, O my eternal, incarnate God, shall
be the praise. And now, what wait I for ? All my expectations are
from thee, and all my hopes are in thee. Come, Lord Jesus, come
quickly. Amen and Amen.
The following paper is transcribed and inserted here, as it was
written in her youth, when she was but seventeen years old, and ex-
presses the views and exercises which she then had ; and affords ad-
monition and instruction, especially to those young persons who shall
read it.
Oct. 25, 1743. I am just now entering into the eighteenth year
of my age. And does the tempter tell me, that I chose religion
when I was a child, and knew no better; when I knew nothing of
the pleasures of this world : And that it may be, when these enjoy-
ments and pleasures appear delightful, I shall forsake strict and solid
religion, and run with the young, giddy multitude, into the excesses
of vanity ? Then, O my soul, sit down again, and make another de-
liberate choice ; even now I am entering the prime of all my days :
And let me picture the world with its brightest side outmost; and re-
ligion in a solitary dress; and then choose my portion. If my former
choice has not been free and noble enough.; come now, my soul, and
make one. Let there be nothing in it mean and low; but let it be
great, noble and free.
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As to religion : Can I sacrifice my name, and all that the world
calls delightful, now in the prime of my age ; and be accounted a
fool and mad, by the wise, rich and polite world ? Can I withstand
a thousand temptations to mirth and pleasure ; and be a despised
outcast among men ? Now, if I conform to the world, I shall be a
pleasing object to many, and a delight to them, who now despise me.
What pleasure that the world can afford shall be withheld from me,
if I once give myself up to sensual pleasure, and the gratification of
my whole inclination ; allowing myself all that mirth and jollity, that
my youthful age will now admit of? If I now give a loose to my
youthful appetites, and satisfy my carnal desires ; what can then de-
prive me of pleasure, now I am free from pain and the infirmities of
old age, which might give a disgust to these pleasures. Now I have
life, health and liberty. If I yield to these desires, and seek to sat-
isfy them by a thousand new and fresh delights ; take my swing in
the world ; cast away sorrow, and indulge self in ten thousand new
pleasures ; what then can cross me ?
And, on the other hand, if I choose strict religion now, I may ex-
pect reproach, disdain and contempt, from the world, as not fit for
common society, or scarce to live. I shall be accounted a poor,
mean, ignorant, despicable creature, unworthy the notice of mortals :
And, it may be, despised by formal professors, as being religious
overmuch : They watching for my halting, and rejoicing at my falls.
And besides, I must expect many dark and doubting hours, filled
with bitter sighs and groans ; denying myself, and taking up my
cross ; plucking out a right eye, and cutting off a right hand ; daily
meeting with crosses, and losses, and afflictions ; and, it may be,
with persecutions, imprisonment and death, with the utmost distress.
While the sensual libertine lives in pleasure, flourishing like a green
bay tree, and has no bands in his death.
What a wide difference is here, between the strictly religious, and
the sensual worldling ! Come, then, my soul, and view them both
as far as death ; and now make a solemn and deliberate choice, ei-
ther religion, or carnal pleasure. Come, my soul, and choose for
Eternity.
Sovl. Upon considering the nature and properties of each, I am
brought to a free and full choice. I see nothing in this pleasure that
can satisfy an immortal soul ; nothing worthy my notice ; nothing but
an empty sound. Nor can it have any part in my affections, for a
portion. They are but mean trifles, unfit to attract and busy an im-
mortal soul. But religion, though it have its troubles with it ; yet it
hath a sacred sweetness in all. I feel an inward pleasure and satis-
faction, which gives a relish, as it were, to this kind of religious pain
and sorrow.
Objector. Come, Soul, lay aside prejudice. What ! Nothing in all
this pleasure, to delight thee. Search a little deeper. Or what can
be in this melancholy religion, to allure thee to choose its ways ?
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Soul. I have found what it is. For in all those pleasures, the soul
has no God, and no happiness, suited to its immortal nature ; without
which, all is but a sickening trifle. Wherefore, the soul which hath
God for its portion, attended with ever so much sorrow, is unspeaka-
bly more happy.
Objector. But if you indulge yourself in pleasures, and strive to di-
vert your company with mirth and jollity, you will gain the esteem of
many, aud they will greatly prize you, and seek your company.
Soul. I value the approbation of the most high God, before all the
esteem of poor mortals ; and deliberately make choice of him, and
his way of strict religion, for my portion, pleasure and happiness.
I do now, with my whole soul and all my powers, choose God for
my portion ; taking his cross as well as his crown ; esteeming the
sorrows of religion greater riches than the pleasures of sin ; looking
on it a pleasure to be crucified with Christ. I despise every world-
ly enjoyment, compared with one smile from the lovely Jesus. I do,
with my whole heart and soul, choose God and religion, though it
may be through a sea of sorrow and distress, rather than the world
in all its pomp and splendor, with ten thousand enjoyments. O most
great and glorious God, I now choose thee as my sufficient, and eve-
ry way suitable portion. I solemnly take God, the Father, Son, and
Holy Ghost, for my all, in life, death and eternity ; and resign myself,
soul and body, into thy hands. And I take all the holy angels in
heaven ; and even the Most High God, the possessor of heaven and
earth, himself, to witness that I do.
And now, Lord, I am thine. Do with me as thou wilt. I am
thy clay, feeble, helpless, and hopeless. 1 throw myself, soul and
body, life and health, liberty and pleasure, on thee, the boundless,
infinite fullness of heaven, the immutable God. Lord, God, Fa-
ther, Son and Holy Ghost, I this day and minute subscribe with my
heart and hand, to be the Lord's. Even so, Lord Jesus, Amen and
Amen. Susanna Anthony.
Now I have again made my choice. A choice which, I trust, I
shall stand by throughout eternity. And amidst ten thousand flat-
tering temptations, I refuse them all, and esteem it greater pleasure,
to mourn for sin, and mortify one lust, than to indulge a thousand.
I now despise all youthful vanities, and sensual gratifications ; and
choose a life of self-denial, resolving henceforth to take up my whole
and entire delight and happiness in God, in the way of holiness; at
whose right hand are rivers of pleasure, and that forevermore.
And now, let me consider those objections against religion. What
is that applause, which a carnal world can give ? Nothing but what
is too mean to influence and actuate a truly noble mind. Mortal
flatteries die with mortal worms ; and cannot live beyond this dung-
hill earth. Besides, Truth hath said, " The friendship of the world
is enmity with God." And it cannot be set in competition with the
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approbation and favor of Jehovah, the great eternal Sovereign of
heaven and earth. And, should I indulge my carnal desires, what
peace and joy would a tormenting conscience afford, amidst these
vanities ? How often have I seen such persons, as soon as they had
a moment to reflect, ready to run wild ; nor dare long to reflect.
Surely their pains have been more than their pleasures. But, sup-
pose I could still the perpetual sting of conscience ; are all those van-
ities commensurate to the desires of an immortal soul ? Can I have
such mean, such sordid, base, vile thoughts of that immortal spirit,
with which the great almighty Creator hath invested me, as to think
such mean trifles can suffice a never dying soul, which must exist,
as long as God himself? Surely there is nothing but an infinite good
that can satisfy its boundless cravings. It is horrid barbarity to feed
it on such insipid husks, since it is capable of immortal boundless de-
lights in God.
And what are these mighty frights in a life of religion, which
should affright a truly great and immortal soul, since the joys only
are real, lasting and perpetual ? Who shall dare to inscribe Eternal
on any of the sorrows of a religious life ? What is any sorrow, re-
proach or disdain, that admits of God to be the portion of the soul ?
What if I be despised as poor, mean and ignorant, not fit for society,
if Christ be mine ? He is rich, great, full of wisdom and knowl-
edge ; and in him I may be complete, who is the head of influ-
ence. And what greater honor can a mortal have, than to be a child
of the King of kings and Lord of lords. God shall honor the soul
with his presence. He will condescend to reside and dwell in the
gracious soul : A guest infinitely preferable, as his nature is trans-
cendent.
And as to dark and doubting hours, some of these may proceed
from my own sin and folly. But, as far as they are sent from God,
they shall only prepare me for immortal joys, and make heaven the
sweeter when I arrive there. These shall make my soul shine bright-
er, and add new lustre to my glory. These shall all be remember-
ed with joy, and every tear be put into a bottle, and add to my crown
of joy and triumph.
As to denying myself, and taking up my cross ; when it is to fol-
low Jesus, it should be most pleasant : For his yoke is most easy,
and his burden is light to the soul that truly loves him. And will
not such a soul most freely and cheerfully pluck out, tear off, and
crucify that which has wounded his Lord ? I should count nothing
too dear to part with, for my Jesus, since he hath not for me. What-
ever I do out of love, is sweet : and he rewards it a thousand fold
with the consolation of his blessed Spirit.
In fine, as to all crosses, and losses, and afflictions ; whatever I
lose for Jesus, is gain. If I meet with crosses, I know they come
from a compassionate God : and so will surely be for the best : And
he cannot wrong me. If I give myself to him, he has bound himself to
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be my God ; which implies in it the utmost blessedness : And had
he not bound himself, 1 trust his love would do it. The loss of all
things, even life itself, shall be a happy gain, when the soul finds God.
Let afflictions, persecutions, imprisonment, and even death come, if
Jesus stand by, and strengthen, I am not afraid I shall suffer too much
by or for him. All my care is, that he may strengthen me to endure
the last extremity : For without him, I know the flesh will shrink
back, and I shall indulge that carnal principle of ease. But God
hath said, As thy days, so shall thy strength be ; and, My grace is
sufficient for thee. How sweet is it for the soul not to count the life
dear, and to resist unto death for Jesus and his truth ! O, what a
truly noble soul does it discover in a christian, to wage war with hell,
earth and his own heart ; and fight against all, rather than be over-
come by them, and made a slave to his base, sordid lusts!
After she had made a public profession of religion, she felt a strong
desire to serve Christ, in an entire and constant devotedness to him,
in promoting his interest and kingdom, the good of his people, and
the salvation of men. This led her seriously to consider in what way,
and by what means, she, in her situation, and circumstances, could
best answer these ends. She was a poor, obscure person, and had
no prospect of obtaining much of the things of this world, so as to
do much good by supporting the gospel or distributing to the relief of
the indigent. She did not expect to rise into general repute, or to
any public station, by which she could have opportunity of exten-
sive influence ; and her natural capacity she considered as small, and
she was destitute of the advantages of education, which many had.
After a careful and conscientious attention to this subject, and
much earnest prayer for direction, daily crying to God, in the lan-
guage of Saul, when he was converted, "Lord, what wilt thou have
me to do ?" she was led to conclude that she could serve the inter-
est of Christ, and of his church, and promote the good of her fellow
men, more, by devoting herself to prayer, than in any other way, of
which she was capable. And as, in her circumstances, she was in
a great measure free from domestic cares, and had opportunity to
spend much time in retirement, she thought it was her duty to devote
as much time as could be spared from her particular employment,
and necessary avocations, in prayer, not only for herself, and all her
particular friends and near connexions ; but more especially for the
prosperity of the church of Christ, and the advancement of his king-
dom in the world, until all nations, Jews and Gentiles, should be con-
verted and brought into it ; in which, prayer for the ministers of the
gospel was included, that they might be filled with the spirit of Christ,
and abundantly assisted and succeeded ; and that the head of the
church, and Lord of the harvest, would raise up and send forth faith-
ful laborers into his harvest, he.
For this exercise she frequently set apart whole days, when her
circumstances would admit of it, and especially when there appear-
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ed to her to be a particular call for prayer : and spent them in secret
fasting and prayer. And she used to spend the afternoon and eve-
ning of the last day of the week in this exercise, when not prevented
by some uncommon circumstance ; also the morning of the Sabbath.
Before she was sixteen years old, she joined a society of women,
who met once every week, for prayer, reading, and religious conver-
sation ; and who devoted the afternoon, once in a month, to this ex-
ercise ; and spent, at least, four whole days in a year, in fasting and
prayer together.* Of this society she was a distinguished member,
as long as she lived ; by whom she was greatly beloved and esteem-
ed ; and they received much comfort and edification from her con-
versation and prayers. In the latter, especially, she was distinguish-
edly eminent; and, at particular times, had such enlargement and
access to the throne of grace, that she would pray an hour and a
half, or more, with such engagedness and fervency, without any rep-
etition, with a flow of words expressing the most pertinent and affect-
ing ideas, and with such a natural connexion, and progression from
one to another, that none who joined with her would appear to be
tired, but all pleased, affected and edified : and felt a consciousness
that none could have an adequate idea of what passed at such times,
who were not present, as a full description of the holy fervor, the
clear view of invisible things, and that nearness to God, while she
poured out her heart before him, which she discovered, cannot be
made by any narration of them.
She appeared wholly, and in* a distinguished degree, devoted to
the cause of Christ and pure religion ; and was a remarkable exam-
ple of devotion, benevolence, and christian friendship; of self-denial,
sobriety, modesty, humility, industry, and of a careful circumspection
and conscientiousness in all her concerns and conduct. She being
greatly attentive to her Bible, and all other means of instruction
which she enjoyed, attained an eminent degree of discerning and
knowledge of the distinguishing doctrines and duties of Christianity.
And, as she was greatly attentive to practical religion, and constantly
studied the Bible in this view, always exercising herself to have a
conscience void of offense, both towards God and man, she was re-
markably judicious as a casuist, and greatly helpful to her friends, who
applied to her in doubtful and difficult cases of conscience. All this
has been already very particularly exhibited by the extracts from her
writings, which have been produced in the preceding sections: but
cannot, even in this way, be fully expressed, or set in that clear, af-
fecting, and amiable light, before the public, in which she was seen,
loved, and admired, by her particular and intimate friends.
Her bodily frame and constitution were so feeble and delicate, from
her youth, that she was not equal to any business, which required a
* This is the same society mentioned in the preceding memoir, as having been
founded by Mrs. Osborn, and her friends,
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considerable degree of strength and exertion. She was, therefore,
chiefly employed in the use of her needle, in which she was expert
and skilful, and by which she was able to support herself, when she
enjoyed her health, of which she was deprived for a number of years,
from about the twentieth year of her age, and fell into very painful
and distressing disorders of body ; so that she appeared to herself and
others, many times, to be dying, or near to death ; and her physician
and friends thought she could not survive her disorders, which at-
tended her several years, excepting some short intervals of respite.
But she was, in a great measure, relieved from these distressing dis-
orders, and enjoyed a degree of ease and health in the latter part of
her life ; though she was always feeble, and subject to turns of painful
maladies.
When the war, between Britain and America, commenced, she
left Newport, and went into the country, where she spent a great part
of her time, until that war was nearly closed ; part of which time she
spent in teaching the children in the families in which she lived, and
in keeping a small school; in which she appeared to be greatly ser-
viceable, and obtained the approbation, gratitude, and esteem, of those
who employed her.
After the war, she lived at Newport to the time of her decease, a
comfort, and greatly useful to her friends, earnestly endeavoring, in
her sphere, to promote the cause of truth and Christianity in the
world, and more especially in the religious society with which she
was connected ; by whom her death was justly considered as an un-
speakable loss. But, with respect to the people in general, the words
of the prophet may be applied, in this instance : " The righteous
perisheth, and no man layeth it to heart ; the merciful are taken
away, none considering that the righteous is taken away from the evil
to come."
In the month of June, 1791, her youngest sister was taken sick
with a peripneumony ; and as she had but one more sister then living,
who was out of town, she went and attended her in her sickness*
which proved mortal, and she died in about a week. On the day in
which her sister died, she was seized with the same disorder, which
put an end to her life also in one week. The disorder, with which
she died, was violent from first to last, and uncommonly distressing;
so that she was not able to say much in this her last sickness. She,
however, said to her christian friends, that she desired to bless God,
that she had nothing of those conflicts, which she had before some-
time feared ; but her soul did, with a sweet calm and confidence, rest
on Jesus Christ, without the least doubt of her union to him, and of
her happiness in his kingdom for ever. Thus she died, on the 23d
of June, 1791.*
From the Life of Miss Anthony, by Dr. Hopkins.
384
MRS. MARTHA LAURENS RAMSAY.
Martha Laurens Ramsay was bora in Charleston, S. C. on the
3d of November, 1759. She was the daughter of Henry Laurens
and of Eleanor Ball, and born in the ninth year after their marriage.
By the father's side, she was of French extraction. Her great
grand parents were born in Rochelle, and suffered in the famous
siege of that place. They were Huguenots or Protestants. Being,
by the revocation of the edict of Nantz, compelled to leave their
native country, they came to America in the latter end of the 17th
century. Her maternal ancestors migrated from Devonshire, in
England, and settled in South Carolina about the same time.
In the first year of her life, she had the small pox so severely
that she was supposed to be dead, and as such was actually laid out
preparatory to her funeral. This was done under an open window,
instead of the close room in which she had been kept, according to
the absurd mode of treating the small pox in 1760. Dr. Moultrie,
coming in at this crisis, pronounced her to be still alive, probably re-
called to life by the fresh air of the open window. Under other
circumstances she would shortly have been buried, as was then
commonly done, with persons who died of the small pox in that
year of extensive mortality. A valuable life was thus providentially
saved for future usefulness.
Martha Laurens early discovered a great capacity and eagerness
for learning. In the course of her third year she could readily read
any book, and, what is extraordinary, in an inverted position, with-
out any difficulty. In youth her vivacity and spirits were exuberant.
Feats of activity, though attended with personal danger, were to her
familiar; great exertions of bodily labor; romantic projects; ex-
cesses of the wildest play were preferred to stagnant life ; but from
all these she could be turned off in a moment to serious business.
As she grew up, the same activity was exerted in acquiring the use-
ful and ornamental parts of female education. She very soon ac-
quired a grammatical knowledge of the French language ; a con-
siderable eminence in reading, writing, arithmetic, English grammar,
geography, the use of the globes. She even acquired a considera-
ble acquaintance with geometry and mathematical science. At the
same time, she was indefatigable in cultivating an acquaintance with
books ; and, by means of abridging, transcribing, and committing to
memory, was very successful in retaining much of what she read.
In accomplishments and the ornamental parts of education, she ex-
celled, and in the exercise of them took great delight.
memoirs, he. 385
In the eleventh year of her age, she sustained an immense loss
by the death of her excellent mother ; but this was in some meas-
ure made up by the maternal care of her good aunt, Mary Laurens,
the wife of James Laurens, whose sound judgment, refined manners,
and, eminent piety, well fitted her for training up her orphan niece
for both worlds. To her care, and to that of his brother, Henry
Laurens committed the charge of his two daughters, while he went
to superintend the education of his sons in Europe. There he con-
tinued till the end of the year 1774, when love for his country
brought him back to its defence against the aggressions of Britain.
Thus, while Providence deprived Miss Laurens of the instructions
and example of her natural mother, it raised up another friend, who
performed the maternal duties, with equal capacity, fidelity, and af-
fection. Though she was deprived of the company of her wise and
virtuous father, for almost the whole of that interesting period, which
extended from the eleventh to the twenty second year of her age,
she continued to receive letters from him. From 1771 till 1775 his
paternal instructions, communicated by letter, were calculated to for-
ward the virtuous education of a beloved daughter, growing up with
fair prospects of an ample fortune ; but in and after 1775 he warned
her of the probability that his estate would be forfeited, and that her
father and brother in arms would lose their lives, and that she must
prepare to maintain herself by her own exertions. These anticipa-
tions were not fully realized ; but the expectation of them had a di-
rect tendency to assist in forming the solid education of the person
to whom they were addressed.
Miss Laurens, in her twelfth year, began to be the subject of se-
rious religious impressions. She was well instructed in the great
gospel mystery of salvation by the atoning sacrifice of Jesus Christ
for the sins of the world. And there is good reason to believe, that
at a very early period she was brought, by the grace of God, cor-
dially to accept of salvation freely offered, though dearly purchased.
In the fifteenth year of her age, in conformity to the advice of
Dr. Doddridge, and in a form of words recommended by him, she
prepared, and solemnly executed an instrument of writing, called by
her, with great propriety, "A self dedication and solemn covenant
with God." In this, after a suitable introduction, " she presents be-
fore her Maker the whole frame of her nature, all the faculties of
her mind, and all the members of her body, as a living sacrifice
holy and acceptable unto God." And "not only consecrates all that
she was, and all that she had to his service, but humbly resigns to
his heavenly will all that she called hers, to be disposed of as he
pleased." In the Old Testament, we several times read of the ru-
lers, priests, and people among the Jews solemnly covenanting be-
fore God, to renounce their transgressions and to adhere to his ser-
vice. In the ninth and tenth chapters of Nehemiah there is a par-
ticular account of a covenant to this effect, drawn up in writing, and
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ratified by the names and seals of the persons who consented to it.
Whether, in addition to these examples from holy writ, and the re-
commendation of Dr. Doddridge, there were any particular circum-
stances, which, at that time, induced Miss Laurens to enter into this
written engagement to be the Lord's, is unknown. It is behaved
that she kept the transaction secret from all the world, and that the
paper in question was never seen by any human being before her
death, thirty seven years afterwards. At the time of its execution,
she was exactly fourteen years and seven weeks old, was in possession
of all the comforts of life, and had as brilliant prospects before her
as any of her sex in Carolina. The only serious affliction she had
then met with was the loss of her mother. This had taken place
three years and seven months before, and the keen sensations occa-
sioned thereby must, in the ordinary course of things, have been
nearly worn off by time. The engagements thus solemnly entered
into by Miss Laurens were in unison with her subsequent conduct
through life. Of the sincerity of the transaction, on her part, on a
view of all its circumstances, no doubt can exist.
In the year 1775, James Laurens, his wife and two nieces, Martha
Laurens, and Mary Eleanor Laurens, afterward the wife of Charles
Pinckney, went to England. Martha Laurens was received on her
landing by her elder brother, John Laurens, from whom she had
been for some years separated. Being older, he had taken great
delight in forwarding her education, and particularly, in forming her
mind to be superior to the common accidents of life, and the ground-
less fears of some of her sex. To ascertain whether his labors had
been successful or not, he bribed the postillion to drive very rapidly,
and at the same time, without discovering his views, narrowly watch-
ed her countenance, to observe whether there were any changes in
it expressive of womanish fears, at the novel scene, so totally differ-
ent from all her former travelling in the low, flat, stoneless country of
Carolina. On the termination of the experiment, to his satisfaction,
he announced to his unsuspecting sister his congratulations, that "he
had found her the same Spartan girl he had left her."
During the first years of the American Revolution, and for a short
time after its termination, Miss Laurens resided in various parts of
England, improving her mind, and preparing herself for meeting the
contemplated loss of her father, brother, and fortune, by the events
of the war, and at the same time doing every office of love to her
uncle, who for the last ten years of his life labored under a painful
complaint. While residing in England, she formed an acquaintance
with many persons eminent for their piety, and particularly with the
Countess of Huntingdon, by whom she was very much noticed.
She highly prized the company of such persons, and from them re-
ceived both pleasure and improvement.
After the treaty of France with Congress, in 1778, and particu-
larly the rejection, in the same year, of the offers of Great Britain,
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for a reunion with her late colonies, the situation of the Carolina
Laurens family in England was unpleasant. Henry Laurens was at
that time president of Congress, and had officially conducted the
correspondence of that body with the British commissioners, which
terminated in a rejection of their offers. Miss Laurens was often
obliged to hear her native country abused, and to read and hear her
beloved father calumniated as a fomenter of the disputes between
Britain and her colonies, and as an aspiring, ambitious man, wishing
to rise to consequence at every hazard ; but taught by his sage ad-
vice, and her own good sense, she shunned all political controversy.
Unable to render her suffering country any other service, she daily
offered up her fervent prayers in its behalf.
Mr. James Laurens, his two nieces, and their aunt, finding it ex-
pedient to leave England, passed over to France, and lived there till
the re-establishment of peace. During the greatest part of this pe-
riod, of six or seven years, and the whole of the time of their resi-
dence in England, they were almost wholly cut off from their usual
means of support, for their property was in America, three thousand
miles distant. War raged, and the Atlantic ocean rolled between
them and it. In this forlorn situation they found ample occasion for
all the comforts of the religion which they professed. The greatest
economy was necessary. A residence in Vigan was preferred on
account of the cheapness of living. There Miss Laurens spent her
time usefully to her uncle, profitably to herself, and as pleasantly as
straitened circumstances, anxiety for her friends and native country
would permit. She had many opportunities of improving her mind
by reading and conversation, of which she availed herself. She and
the family of her uncle received great civilities from the French for
the same reasons that occasioned the slights they received from the
English. But nevertheless, they had all abundant scope for the ex-
ercise of faith, patience, and trust in that Being to whom they had
committed all their concerns.
In the year 1780, Miss Laurens's father was taken prisoner at sea,
and confined on a charge of high treason in the tower of London,
and his life thus staked on the success of the American Revolution.
If that had failed, it would have been easy to have convicted him of
the crime with which he was charged, and not easy to have saved
him from the penalty annexed to it. The disorder of her uncle
became daily worse, and required unceasing attention by night and
by day ; Charleston was taken by the British ; Carolina overrun by
their armies ; remittances were not only rendered impossible, but the
loss of the whole capital extremely probable. The alarms of her
father, at the beginning of the war, seemed to be on the point of be-
ing realized. About the same time intelligence was received that
her dearly beloved brother, John Laurens, had fallen in battle. Un-
der this complication of distresses, she found the wisdom and com-
fort of having secured a friend in her maker, bv a solemn covenant
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entered into with him in the morning of life, in the full enjoyment of
health, and in the fair prospect of every worldly blessing. From this
source she drew much consolation, and bore up under every trial,
trusting in him, to whom she had, in a most solemn manner, conse-
crated herself. In due time the clouds of adversity began to disperse ;
the prospects of America brightened. Her father was discharged
from confinement, and after a separation of seven years, she joined
him in Paris, and presided over his domestic concerns, while he as-
sisted in the negociations which terminated in peace and the acknowl-
edged independence of the United States. The transition from the
nurse's chamber, in a remote country place, to the head of the table
of a minister plenipotentiary in the metropolis of France, was great
and sudden. Amidst the gayeties of Paris, in which she occasionally
indulged, her Bible was her companion and counsellor. She read it
by day and meditated on it by night. It had taught her to bear ad-
versity with patience, resignation and fortitude ; and now kept her
from the intoxication and follies which are too apt to grow out of
prosperity.
The restoration of peace to Carolina in 1783, pointed out the
propriety of the return of the inhabitants. Miss Laurens, with her
aunt and sister, arrived in Charleston in 1785, after a long absence,
comprehending something more than the whole period of the Ameri-
can revolution. Their joy on finding their native country at peace,
and raised from the humble rank of a dependent colony to that of
an independent state, was inexpressible. Now, for the first time,
after leading an unsettled life for ten years, they found themselves at
home. On the 23d of January, 1787, Miss Laurens was married
to Dr. David Ramsay, and in the course of the ensuing sixteen years,
became the mother of eleven children. Of these eight survived.
Mrs. Ramsay now displayed the same virtuous habits, and the same
energy of character, in taking care of her children, in promoting her
husband's happiness, and making a well ordered home his chief de-
light, that had formerly distinguished Miss Laurens in acquiring use-
ful knowledge, and discharging the duties of a daughter, a sister, and
a niece. Soon after she became a mother, she studied with deep
Interest most of the esteemed practical treatises on education, both in
French and English, that she might be better informed of the nature
and extent of her new duties. She gave a decided preference to
the writings of Mr. Locke and Dr. Witherspoon on that subject.
The object she proposed to herself was to obtain for her children,
health of body and a well regulated mind. To secure the former,
they were from their birth daily washed in cold water, and through-
out the whole period of infancy, permitted to expose themselves
with uncovered feet, to wet and cold, and all the varieties and sud-
den changes of Carolina weather. To favor the latter, they were
taught to curb their tempers; to subject their passions to the su-
preme dominion of reason and religion ; to practise self denial ; to
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bear disappointments ; and to resist the importunity of present pleas-
ure or pain, for the sake of what reason pronounces fit to be done
or borne. She suckled all her children without the aid of any wet
nurse; watched over them by night and day; and clung to them
every moment of sickness or pain. They were the subjects of her
prayers before they were born, and every subsequent day of her
life. With one exception, she devoted them all to God in baptism,
publicly in churfch, at a time when private baptisms were common;
for she rejoiced in every proper opportunity of declaring to the world
her firm belief of the christian religion, and her respect for all its in-
stitutions. As soon as they were capable of receiving religious in-
struction, she liberally imparted it; and early taught them their mis-
erable and corrupted state by nature ; that they were born into a
world of sin and misery ; surrounded with temptations, and without
a possibility of salvation, but by the grace of God, and a participa-
tion in the benefits procured for sinners, by the atoning sacrifice of
Jesus Christ, and at the same time, that God was the hearer of
prayer, the tenderest of fathers, and the best of friends to all who
put their trust in him. She early taught them to read their Bibles.
That this might be done pleasantly, she connected with it Mrs. Trim-
mer's prints of scripture history; that it might be done with under-
standing, she made them read, in connection with their Bibles,
Watts's short view of the whole scripture history, and, as they ad-
vanced to a proper age, Newton on the Prophecies ; and such books
as connect sacred with profane history, and the Old with the New
Testament ; so that the Bible, though written in periods widely re-
mote from each other, might appear to them a uniform, harmonious
system of divine truth. Of this blessed book she enjoined upon
them daily to read a portion, and to prize it as the standard of faith
and practice; as a communication from heaven on eternal concerns;
as the word of God pointing out the only way to salvation ; as a let-
ter of love sent from their heavenly Father to direct their wandering
feet to the paths of truth and happiness.
As her children advanced in years, she conducted her sons through
a course of education fitting them to enter college, and with the help
of her tried and accomplished friend, Miss Futerell, she carried her
daughters at home through the several studies taught in boarding
schools. In every period of her adult age, whether married or sin-
gle, when, from accidental circumstances, she was the head of the
family, and in health, she daily read to her domestic circle, a portion
of the holy scriptures, and prayed with them ; and frequently on par-
ticular occasions, with one or more individuals of it, and regularly,
every Sunday, with her young white and black family, in addition to
catechetical instructions given to both at the same time.
Mrs. Ramsay was uncommonly economical of time. She suffer-
ed none of it to be wasted. By rising early she secured the most
raJuable portion of it for devotion and business. A reasonable part
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of every day was spent in religious exercises. Much in reading well
chosen books, and also in copying original papers for her father and
husband ; much in working for the accommodation of her family ;
and much in teaching her children, and forming their minds to virtue,
and knowledge, and often a considerable part of it in writing letters
to her absent friends. With a few exceptions she declined all visits
during the day, as destructive to her plans, making every hour turn to
the best account. ' When the business of the day was ended, she in-
dulged her social habits. The number of books she read was as-
tonishingly great, and her memory uncommonly strong in retaining
the substance of their contents. She could recite nearly the whole
of Young's Night Thoughts without book. With the Holy Scriptures
she was intimately acquainted, and could readily turn to any text, or
passage, bearing on the subject of the conversation. The Latin and
Greek Classics she had read in translations, at a very early period. By
catching from her brother, by studying occasionally his Latin gram-
mar and books, and by the aid of an accurate knowledge of the
French language, and the general principles of grammar, as applied
to the English and French languages, she laid such a foundation, that
when she became the mother of children, for their sakes she ran over
the Latin and Greek classics, in the short method recommended by
Mr. Locke, so as to make her a profitable instructor to them, in these
languages. With the same views, she began, and prosecuted to a
considerable extent, the study of Botany. From the same versatility
of genius, and habits of industry, after she was married, she read
with attention, most of the practical writers on medicine, that were
then usually put into the hands of medical students, and studied with
particular interest such of them as treat of the diseases of women
and children. In times of general sickness, when her husband was
full of business, she frequently shortened his labors, in studying cases
of peculiar difficulty, by running over his books, and finding similar
cases ; and collecting in one view for his inspection, the opinions and
practice of standard medical authors, on diseases of the same nature.
She was familiar with most of the modern works of genius, taste and
imagination, written in the English and French language, and enjoy-
ed them. In solid learning she was not deficient. Locke's Essay
on the Human Understanding, Watts's Logic, Improvement of the
Mind, Philosophical Essays, and other works of science, were the
studies of her youth. To these, as she grew up, she added natural
and civil history, biography, astronomy, chronology, voyages and
travels, he. In divinity, she read much that was practical, but rare-
ly looked into any thing that was controversial. A few fundamental
doctrines, such as free salvation by the atoning sacrifice of the co-equal
Son of God, and sanctification by the Spirit, she considered as essen-
tial, and worth contending for ; but disputes on minor, unessential
points, she considered as injurious to the peace, harmony, and best
interests of religion, and would not waste her time in studying them,
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any farther than making up her own opinion on particular points,
from what appeared to her own mind, to be revealed in the word of
God. If that was silent, or did not decide for or against any opinion
or practice, she took no farther pains in the investigation.
In discharging relative duties, Mrs. Ramsay was exemplary. As
a child, she had a high opinion of parental authority ; and to it she
conceived herself as owing implicit obedience in every case not
plainly inconsistent with her duty to God. It was, therefore, a stand-
ing order to her servants, without a moment of delay, and without
announcing the circumstance, to call her, not only from business but
from her most private retirement whenever her father had occasion
for her services. Never was there a daughter more devoted, attach-
ed and obedient to her parent than she was : and her conduct flowed,
not from instinct, accident or example but from principle. In the
same manner she had determined what were her conjugal duties.
She was well acquainted with the plausible reasonings of modem
theorists, who contend for the equality of the sexes; and few females
could support their claims to that equality on better grounds than she
might advance ; but she yielded all pretensions on this score, in con-
formity to the positive declarations of holy writ, of which the follow-
ing were full to the point, and in her opinion outweighed whole vol-
umes of human reasoning. " In sorrow thou shalt bring forth chil-
dren, and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over
thee." Gen. hi, 16. "Wives submit yourselves unto your own hus-
hands as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife,
even as Christ also is the head of the church ; and he is the Savior of
the body. Therefore as the Church is subject unto Christ, so let the
wives be to their own husbands in every thing." Eph. v. 22, 23, 24.
In practice as well as theory she acknowledged the dependent, sub-
ordinate condition of her sex; and considered it as a part of the
curse denounced on Eve, as being " the first in the transgression."
1 Tim. ii. 13, 14. The most self denying duties of the conjugal re-
lations being thus established on a divine founda'tion, and illustrated
by those peculiar doctrines of revelation on which she hung all her
hopes, the other duties followed by an easy train of reasoning, and
were affectionately performed. In this manner, the subject of these
memoirs used her Bible as a system of practical ethics, from which
she acquired a knowledge of her true station, and also deduced such
excellent rules of conduct in life, as might be expected from correct
principles. As a parent who had brought children into a world of
sin and misery, without their consent, she considered herself as
bound, in common justice, to do every thing in her power for their
comfort in passing through it. She thought no pains too great, no
sacrifices too hard, provided her children were advanced by them.
In addition to her steady attention to their education, she exerted
herself to keep them constantly in good humor ; gave them every
indulgence compatible with their best interests ; partook with thern
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in their sports ; and in various ways amused their solitary hours so
as often to drop the mother in the companion and friend ; took a
lively interest in all their concerns, and made every practicable ex-
ertion for their benefit. From the Bible she was taught, " Fathers,
provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged."
Col. iii, 21. On this text, she often commented verbally, and every
day practically. From it she drew several rules of conduct in her
behavior toward her children. As a child, she was for implicit obe-
dience ; but as a mother, was very moderate in urging her parental
rights, and avoided, as far as consistent with a strict education, every
thing which might " provoke her children to anger." Under this
general head she considered as forbidden, unnecessary severity, sar-
casms, and all taunting, harsh, unkind language ; overbearing con-
duct, high-toned claims of superiority; capricious or whimsical ex-
ertions of authority, and several other particulars, calculated to irri-
tate children or fill them with terror. On the other hand, she con-
sidered parents as required by this precept to curb their own tem-
pers ; to bridle their passions ; to make proper allowances for indis-
cretions and follies of youth ; and to behave toward their offspring
in the most conciliatory manner, so as to secure their love and affec-
tions on the score of gratitude. These and several other rules of
conduct in the discharge of relative duties were not taken up at ran-
dom, but derived from reason and reflection, and especially from an
attentive consideration of the preceptive part of the word of God.
Happy would it be for society, if all its members used their Bibles
for similar purposes.
Her maxim was, not to complain of God, but to God. To him
she went with all her burdens and cares, and sweetly reposed on his
almighty arm. Her unabated confidence in her Maker; her uncon-
ditional submission and cheerful resignation to his will, took away
from adversity its gloom, and threw over it a cheerful light. The
workings of her mind, under these pressures, as recorded in her
manuscripts, prove her high attainments in the christian life, and
were probably one cause of them. In all her distresses, the burden
of sin lay heavier on her mind than the burden of outward troubles.
She was much more reconciled to death as closing the scene of her
sinning, than that of her suffering. She found great satisfaction in
reading Drelincourt on Death, and Watts's World to Come. Short-
ly before her last sickness, she brought to her husband and request-
ed him to read a speech delivered more than a hundred years ago at
the grave of a pious person, by the Rev. Mr. Peter Sterry, which is
preserved in the 352d page of Watts's World to Come. In it she
had underscored the following sentiments, as expressive of her feel-
ings, with respect to the contemplated approaching commitment of
her body to the grave, and its consequent dissolution therein.
" We do for ourselves and for this our dearly beloved in the Lord
accept of thee, O grave, and readily deliver up her body to thee
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It is a body that hath been weakened and wearied with long afflic-
tion and anguish ; we freely give it unto thee ; receive it, and let it
have in thee a quiet rest from all its labors ; for thus we read it writ-
ten of thee, ' There the wicked cease from troubling, and there the
weary are at rest.'
" But we know thee, O grave, to be also a devourer, and yet we
can freely deliver up the body unto thee. There was in it a con-
tracted corruptibility, dishonor, and weakness; take them as thy
proper prey; they belong to thee, and we would not withhold them
from thee. Freely swallow them up for ever, that they may appear
no more.
" Yet, know, O grave, that there is in the body, considered as once
united to such a soul, a divine relation to the Lord of life, and this
thou must not, thou canst not dissolve nor destroy. But know, and
even before thee, and over thee be it spoken, that there is a season
hastening wherein we shall expect it again from thee in incorruption,
honor, and power.
" We now sow it unto thee in dishonor, but expect it again return-
ed from thee in glory. We now sow it unto thee in weakness ; we
expect it again in power. We now sow it unto thee a natural body;
we look for it again from thee a spiritual body."
The life of Miss Carter was one of the last books Mrs. Ramsay
read ; and she indulged the pleasing anticipation of speedily forming
an acquaintance with a woman of her fervent piety and great attain-
ments. But of all the inhabitants of heaven, she longed most for the
acquaintance of Dr. Watts, whose divine songs, most of which she
had committed to memory, had administered much to her comfort
by night and by day.
From the first moment of her last sickness, she had a presenti-
ment that she would not survive it. This gave her no alarm. She
made preparations for, and arranged the circumstances of her fu-
neral, with the same calmness and self possession she would have
done in the days of her best health, when preparing for a journey or
voyage. She directed that her funeral should be private ; her coffin
plain and without a plate ; that Dr. Hollinshead should perform his
ministerial duties on the occasion in her own house, before a few of
her most particular friends. Her coffin was accordingly made of
Carolina cedar. After she had given these directions, her disease
seemed to yield ; but she insisted that her feelings convinced her to
the contrary. She suffered grievous pains in sundry periods of her
last illness. To assist her in supporting under them, she deliberate-
ly surveyed her manifold sins as the procuring cause of all pain, and
also took a distinct view of the sufferings of Christ, and then asked
herself, shall not I who have so grievously sinned, quietly submit to
pain, which I deserve, since the innocent Jesus suffered so much for
me ? On the last day but one of her life, she lay for some consid-
erable time in a warm bath. While there, she directed the following
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394 memoirs, &c.
hymn, from a collection of hymns presented to her by the Countess
of Huntingdon, to be read to her.
When languor and disease invade
This trembling house of clay,
'Tis sweet to look beyond our cage,
And long to fly away.
Sweet to look inward and attend
The whispers of his love ;
Sweet to look upward to the place
Where Jesus dwells above.
Sweet to look back and see my name
In life's fair book set down ;
Sweet to look forward and behold
Eternal joys my own.
Sweet to reflect how grace divine
My sins on Jesus laid ;
Sweet to remember that his blood
My debt of suff'ring paid.
Sweet in his righteousness to stand.
Which saves from second death ;
Sweet to experience day by day,
His Spirit's quick'ning breath.
Sweet on his faithfulness to rest,
Whose love can never end ;
Sweet on his covenant of grace
For all things to depend.
Sweet in the confidence of faith
To trust his firm decrees ;
Sweet to lie passive in his hands
And know no will but his.
If such the sweetness of the streams.
What must the fountain be,
Where saints and angels draw the bliss
Immediately from Thee.
She repeated the two last lines of every verse with eyes directed
to heaven, as expressive of their coincidence with her views. She
had frequently, in the course of her sickness, given animated ex-
hortations to her children and others, to make choice of God for
their portion, and also particular directions how to manage the family
after she was gone. About 4 o'clock, P. M. June 10th, 1811, she
asked her husband and children if they were willing to give her up.
They evaded the question ; but she in direct terms informed them
that she had sometimes felt a repugnance to death on their accounts,
but assured them that God had now made her entirely willing to
give them all up ; and in about an hour after expired.
From The Life of Mrs. Ramsay by her husband, David Ramsay, M. D.
395
MRS. ISABELLA GRAHAM.
Isabella Marshall, (afterwards Mrs. Graham,) was born on the
29th of July, 1742, in the shire of Lanark, in Scotland. Her grand-
father was one of the elders who quitted the established church with
the Rev. Messrs. Ralph and Ebenezer Erskine. She was educated
in the principles of the church of Scotland. Her father and mother
were both pious : indeed, her mother, whose maiden name was Ja-
net Hamilton, appears, from her letters, yet extant, to have possessed
a mind of the same character as her daughter afterwards exhibited.
Isabella was trained to an active life, as well as favored with a su-
perior education. Her grandfather, whose dying bed she had as-
siduously attended, bequeathed her a legacy of some hundred pounds.
In the use to which she applied this money, the soundness of her
judgment thus early manifested itself. She requested it might be
appropriated to the purpose of giving her a finished education.
When ten years of age, she was sent to a boarding school taught by
a lady of distinguished talents and piety. Often has Mrs. Graham
repeated to her children the maxims of Mrs. Betty Morehead.
With ardent and unwearied endeavors to attain mental endowments,
and especially moral and religious knowledge, she attended the in-
structions of Mrs. Morehead for seven successive winters. How
valuable is early instruction ! with the blessing of God, it is proba-
ble that this instructress has laid the foundation of the exertions and
usefulness of her pupil in after life. How wise and how gracious
are the ways of the Lord ! Knowing the path in which he was af-
terwards to lead Isabella Marshall, her God was pleased to provide
her an education of a much higher kind than was usual in those
days. Who would not trust that God who alone can be the guide
of our youth ?
Her father, John Marshall, farmed a paternal estate, called the
Heads, near Hamilton. This estate he sold, and rented the estate
of Eldersley, once the habitation of Sir William Wallace. There
Isabella passed her childhod and her youth. She had no precise
recollection of the period at which her heart first tasted that the
Lord was gracious. As long as she could remember, she took de-
light in pouring out her soul to her God.
In the woods of Eldersley she selected a bush, to which she re-
sorted in seasons of devotion ; under this bush, she was enabled to
devote herself to God, through faith in her Redeemer, before she
had attained to her tenth year. To this favorite, and to her sacred
spot, she would repair, when exposed to temptation, or perplexed
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with childish troubles. From thence she caused her prayers to as-
cend, and always found peace and consolation.
Children cannot at too early a period seek the favor of the God
of heaven. How blessed to be reared and fed by his hand, taught
by his Spirit, and strengthened by his grace !
The late Rev. Dr. Witherspoon, afterwards President of Prince-
ton College, was at this time one of the ministers of the town of
Paisley. Isabella sat under his ministry, and at the age of seven-
teen she was admitted by him to the sacrament of the Lord's sup-
per. In the year 1765, she was married to Dr. John Graham, then
a practising physician in Paisley, a gentleman of liberal education,
and of respectable standing.
About a year after their marriage, Dr. Graham was ordered to
join his regiment, the Royal Americans, then stationed in Canada.
Before they sailed for America, a plan had been digested for their
permanent residence in that country. Dr. Graham calculated on
disposing of his commission, and purchasing a tract of land on the
Mohawk river, to which his father-in-law, Mr. Marshall, and his
family, were to follow him.
The regiment was quartered at Montreal for several months, and
here Jessie, the eldest daughter of Dr. and Mrs. Graham, was born.
They afterwards removed to Fort Niagara, on Lake Ontario, and
continued in garrison there for four years ; here Joanna and Isabella
Graham were born. Mrs. Graham always considered the time she
passed at Niagara as the happiest of her days, considered in a tem-
poral view. The officers of the regiment were amiable men, and
attached to each other. A few of them were married, and their la-
dies were united in the ties of friendship. The society there, se-
cluded from the world, exempt from the collision of individual and
separate interests, which often create so much discord in large com-
munities ; and studious to promote the happiness of each other, en-
joyed that tranquillity and contentment, which ever accompany a
disinterested interchange of friendly offices. This fort being in a
situation detached from other settlements, the garrison were conse-
quently deprived of ordinances, and the public means of grace ; the
life of religion in the soul of Mrs. Graham was therefore at a low
ebb. A conscientious observance of the sabbath, which throughout
life she maintained, proved to her at Niagara as a remembrance and
revival of devotional exercises. She wandered, on those sacred
days, into the woods around Niagara, searched her Bible, communed
with her God, and herself, and poured out her soul in prayer to her
covenant Lord. Throughout the week, the attention of her friends,
her domestic comfort and employments, and the amusements pur-
sued in the garrison, she used to confess, occupied too much of her
lime, and of her affections.
Here we behold a little society enjoying much comfort and happi-
ness in each other, yet falling short of that pre-eminent duty, and
MRS. ISABELLA GRAHAM. 39T
superior blessedness of glorifying, as they ought to have done, the
God of heaven, who fed them by his bounty, and offered them a full
and free salvation in the gospel of his Son. No enjoyments, nor
possessions, however ample and acceptable, can crown the soul with
peace and true felicity, unless accompanied with the fear and favor
of Him, who can speak' pardon to the transgressor, and shed abroad
his love in the hearts of his children : thus giving an earnest of spir-
itual and eternal blessedness, along with temporal good.
The commencement of the revolutionary struggle in America,
rendered it necessary, in the estimation of the British government,
to order to another scene of action, the sixtieth regiment, composed
in a great measure of Americans.
Their destination was the island of Antigua ; Dr. Graham, Mrs.
Graham, and their family, consisting now of three infant daughters,
and two young Indian girls, crossed the woods from Niagara to Os-
wegatche, and from thence descended the Mohawk in batteaux to
Schenectady. Here Dr. Graham left his family, and went to New
York to complete a negociation he had entered into for the sale of
his commission, to enable him to settle, as he originally intended, on
a tract of land which it was in his power to purchase on the banks
of the river they had just descended. The gentleman proposing to
purchase his commission, not being able to perfect the arrangement
in time, Dr. Graham found himself under the necessity of proceed-
ing to Antigua with the regiment. Mrs. Graham, on learning this,
hurried down with her family to accompany him, although he had
left it optional with her to remain.
At New York they were treated with much kindness by the late
Rev. Dr. John Rodgers, and others, especially by the family of
Mr. Vanbrugh Livingston. With Mr. Livingston's daughter, the
wife of Major Brown of the sixtieth regiment, Mrs. Graham form-
ed a very warm friendship, which continued during the life of Mrs.
Brown.
On their arrival in Antigua, Mrs. Graham was introduced to the
families of two brothers, of the name of Gilbert, gentlemen of prop-
erty, and great piety. They were connected with the Methodists,
and by their pious exertions and exemplary lives, with the blessing
of God, became instruments of much good, to many in that island.
Dr. and Mrs. Graham participated largely in the hospitality and
friendship of many respectable families at St. Johns.
Dr. Graham was absent in St. Vincents for some months; having
accompanied, as surgeon, a military force, under Major Etherin^tcn,
sent thither to quell an insurrection of the Caribbeans.
On his return to Antigua, he found Mrs. Graham almost inconso-
lable for the loss of her valuable mother, the tidings of whose death
had just reached her. He roused her from this state of mind, by
saying, that "God mighl perhaps call her to a severer trial, by taking
her husband also.'' The warning appeared prophetic. On the 17th
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November, 1774, he was seized with a feverish disorder, which did
not appear for the first three days to be alarming in the estimation of
attending physicians ; yet it increased afterwards with such violence,
as to terminate his mortal existence on the 22d. The whole course
of the Doctor's illness, produced a most interesting scene. He cal-
culated on death ; expressed his perfect resignation ; gave his testi-
mony to the emptiness of a world, in which its inhabitants are too
much occupied in pursuing bubbles, which vanish into air ; and died
in the hope of faith in that divine Redeemer, who is able to save to
the uttermost all that come unto God by Him. At the commence-
ment of her husband's illness, Mrs. Graham entertained no appre-
hensions of danger to his life. When hope as to continuance of
temporal life was extinguished, her anxiety for his spiritual and eter^
oal welfare exercised her whole soul. When he breathed his last,
gratitude to God, and joy at the testimony he had given of dying in
the faith of Jesus, afforded a support to her mind, which the painful
feelings of her heart could not immediately shake : but when the
awful solemnities were over — earth to earth, dust to dust — and the
spirit gone to God who gave it — when all was still, and she was a
widow indeed — that tenderness of soul, and sympathy of friendship,
for which Mrs. Graham was ever remarkable, were brought into se-
vere and tumultuous exercise. Her husband, companion, protector,
was gone ; a man of superior mind, great taste, warm affection, and
domestic habits. She was left with three daughters, the eldest of
whom was not over five years of age ; and with the prospect of
having another child in a few months. Of temporal property, she
possessed very little : she was at a distance from her father's house :
the widow and the fatherless were in a foreign land. The change
in her circumstances was as sudden as it was great.
She had now no sympathizing heart, to receive and return the
confidence of unbounded friendship ; and thus, by reciprocal com-
munion, to alleviate the trials and enrich the enjoyments of life. All
the pleasing plans, all the cherished prospects, of future settlement
in life, were cut off in a moment. Whilst sinking into a softened
indifference to the world, in the contemplation of her severe loss,
she was, on the other hand, roused into exertion for the sustenance
and support of her young family, whose earthly dependence was
now necessarily upon her.
Not satisfied with the custom of the island, in burying so soon af-
ter life is extinct, her uneasiness became so great, that her friends
judged it prudent to have her husband's grave opened, to convince
her that no symptoms of returning life bad been exhibited there.
The fidelity of her heart was now as strongly marked as her tender-
ness. She dressed herself in the habiliments of a widow, and sur-
veying herself in a mirror, determined never to lay them aside.
This she strictly adhered to, and rejected every overture, afterwards
made to her, of again entering into the married state. She breathed
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the feelings of her heart in a little poem, in which she dedicated
herself to her God as a widow indeed.
On examining into the state of her husband's affairs, she discover-
ed that there remained not quite two hundred pounds sterling in his
agent's hands.
These circumstances afforded an opportunity for the display of
the purity of Mrs. Graham's principles, and her rigid adherence to
the commandments of her God in every situation.
It was proposed to her, and urged with much argument, to sell
the two Indian girls, her late husband's property.
No considerations of interest, nor necessity, could prevail upon
her to make merchandise of her fellow creatures, the works of her
heavenly Father's hand ; immortai beings. One of these girls ac-
companied her to Scotland, where she was married ; the other died
in Antigua, leaving an affectionate testimony to the kindness of her
dear master and mistress.
It may be profitable here, to look at Mrs. Graham, contrasted
with the society in temporal prosperity around her. Many persons
then in Antigua, wTere busy and successful in the accumulation of
wealth, to the exclusion of every thought, tending to holiness, to
God, and to heaven. The portion which they desired they possess-
ed. What then ? they are since gone to another world. The mag-
ic of the words, " my property," " an independent fortune," has
been dispelled ; and that for which they toiled, and in which they
gloried, has since passed into a hundred hands : the illusion is vanish-
ted, and unless they made their peace with God through the blood of
the cross, they left this world, and alas ! found no heaven before
them. But amidst apparent affliction and outward distress, God was
preparing the heart of this widow, by the discipline of his covenant,
for future usefulness ; to be a blessing, probably, to the thousands of
her race, and to enter, finally, on that rest ivhich remaineth for the
people of God.
Her temporal support, was not in her esteem, " an independent
fortune," but a life of dependence on the care of her heavenly Fa-
ther : she had more delight in suffering and doing his will, than in
all riches. " The secret of the Lord, is with those who fear him,
and he will show them his covenant." To those who walk with God,
he will show the way in which they should go, and their experience
will assure them that he directs their paths. ': Bread shall be given
them, and their water shall be sure." She passed through many tri-
als of a temporal nature, but she was comforted of her God through
them all ; and at last was put in possession of an eternal treasure in
heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, nor thieves break
through and steal. May this contrast be solemnly examined, and
the example of this child of God made a blessing to many !
Previously to her confinement, and the birth of her son, Mrs.
Graham set her house in order, in the probable expectation of he\
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decease. She wrote a letter to her father in Scotland, commending
her young family to his protection ; also a letter to her friend Mrs.
G — , giving the charge of her affairs, and of her family, to her and
her husband Captain G — , during their stay in Antigua.
In this letter she expressed her full confidence in the friendship of
Mrs. G — , but at the same time declared her solicitude about her
indifference to spiritual concerns ; and dealt very faithfully with her
conscience, as to the propriety and necessity of her being more en-
gaged to seek the favor of God, through the mediation and atone-
ment of the blessed Redeemer.
It pleased God, however, to preserve her life at this time ; and
she soon after dedicated her infant son to her God in baptism : giv-
ing him the name of his father John.
Having now no object to induce her to stay longer at Antigua,
she disposed of her slender property, and placing her money into the
hands of Major Brown, requested him to take a passage for herself
and family, and to lay in their sea stores.
Mrs. Graham, after seeing a railing placed around the grave of
her beloved husband, that his remains might not be disturbed until
mingled with their kindred dust, bade adieu to her kind friends, and
with a sorrowful heart, turned her face towards her native land. No
ship offering for Scotland at this time, she embarked with her family in
one bound to Belfast in Ireland. Major Brown and his brother offi-
cers saw her safely out to sea ; and he gave her a letter to a gentle-
man in Belfast, containing as he said a bill for the balance of the
money she had deposited with him. After a stormy and trying voy-
age, she arrived in safety at her destined port. The correspondent
in Ireland of Major Brown, delivered her a letter from that officer,
expressive of esteem and affection ; and stating, that as a proof of
respect for the memory of their deceased friend, he and his brother
officers had taken the liberty of defraying the expenses of her
voyage.
Consequently, the bill he had given was for the full amount of her
original deposit ; and thus, like the brethren of Joseph, she found
all her money in the sack's mouth. Being a stranger in Ireland,
without a friend to look out for a proper vessel, in which to embark
for Scotland, she and her children went passengers in a packet; on
board of which, as she afterwards learned, there was not even a
compass. A great storm arose, and they were tossed to and fro for
nine hours in imminent danger. The rudder and the mast were
carried away ; every thing on deck thrown overboard : and at length
the vessel struck in the night upon a rock, on the coast of Ayr, in
Scotland. The greatest confusion pervaded the passengers and
crew. Amongst a number of young students going to the Universi-
ty at Edinburgh, some were swearing, some praying and all were in
despair. The widow only remained composed. With her babe in
her arms, she hushed her weeping family, and told them, that in a
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few minutes they should all go to join their father in a better world.
The passengers wrote their names in their pocket books, that their
bodies might be recognized, and reported for the information of
their friends. One young man came into the cabin asking, " is there
any peace here ?" He was surprised to find a female so tranquil ;
a short conversation soon evinced that religion was the source and
hope to them both in this perilous hour. He engaged in prayer,
and then read the 107th Psalm. While repeating these words, "he
maketk the storm a calm, so that the waves thereof are still" the ves-
sel swung off the rock by the rising of the tide. She had been
dashing against it for an hour and a half, the sea making a breach over
her, so that the hold was now nearly filled with water. Towards
morning the storm subsided, and the vessel floated until she rested
on a sand bank. Assistance was afforded from the shore, and the
shipwrecked company took shelter in a small inn, where the men
semeed anxious to drown the remembrance of danger in a bowl of
punch. How faithful a monitor is conscience ! this voice is listened
to in extreme peril ; but oh, infatuated man ! how anxious art thou
to stifle the warnings of wisdom in the hour of prosperity ! thou-
sands of our race, no doubt delay their preparation for eternity, until
by sudden death, scarce a moment's time is left to perform this solemn
work.
Mrs. Graham retired to a private room to offer up thanksgiving
to God for his goodness, and to commend herself and her orphans
to his future care.
A gentleman from Ayr, hearing of the shipwreck, came down to
offer assistance; and in him Mrs. Graham was happy enough to re-
cognize an old friend. This gentleman paid her and her family much
attention, carrying them to his owTn house, and treating them with
kindness and hospitality.
In a day or two after this, she reached Cartside, and entered her
father's dwelling ; not the large ancient mansion, in which she had
left him, but a thatched cottage, consisting of three apartments.
Possessed of a too easy temper, and unsuspecting disposition, Mr.
Marshall had been induced to become security for some of his friends
whose failure in business had reduced him to poverty. He now ac-
ted as factor of a gentleman's estate in this neighborhood, of whose
father he had been the intimate friend, with a salary of twenty pounds
sterling per annum, and the use of a small farm.
In a short time, however, his health failed him, and he was depri-
ved of this scanty pittance, being incapable, as the proprietor was
pleased to think, of fulfilling the duties of factor.
Alive to every call of duty, Mrs. Graham now considered her fa-
ther as added with her children, to the number of dependents on her
industry. She proved, indeed, a good daughter ; faithful, affection-
ate and dutiful, she supported her father through his declining years ;
and he died at her house, during her residence in Edinburgh, sur-
al
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rounded by his daughter and her children, who tenderly watched
him through his last illness.
From Cartside, she removed to Paisley, where she taught a small
school. The slender profits of such an establishment, with a wid-
ow's pension of sixteen pounds sterling, were the means of subsis-
tence for herself and her family. When she first returned to Cart-
side, a few religious friends called to welcome her home. The gay
and wealthy part of her former acquaintance, flutterers who, like the
butterfly, spread their silken wings, only to bask in the warmth of a
summer sun, found not their way to the lonely cottage of an afflicted
widow. Her worth, although in after life, rendered splendid by its
own fruits, was at this time hidden, excepting to those whose reflec-
tion and wisdom, had taught them to discern it more in the faith and
submission of the soul, than in the selfish and extravagant exhibi-
tions of that wealth, bestowed by the bounty of providence, but ex-
pended too often for the purposes of vanity and dissipation.
In such circumstances, the christian character of Mrs. Graham
was strongly marked. Sensible that her heavenly Father saw it
good, at this time, to depress her outward condition, full of filial ten-
derness, and like a real child of God, resigned to whatever should
appear to be his will, her conduct conformed to his dispensations.
With a cheerful heart, and in the hope of faith, she set herself to
walk down into the valley of humiliation, leaning upon Jesus, as the
beloved of her soul. 1 delight to do thy will, Oh my God, yea, thy
law is ivithin my heart, was the spontaneous effusion of her genuine
faith. She received, with affection, the scriptural admonition, Hum-
hie yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may
exalt you in due time : casting all your care upon him ; for he careth
for you.
She laid aside her children's fine frocks and clothed them in home-
spun. At Cartside, she sold the butter she made, and her children
were fed on milk. It was her wish to eat her own bread, however
coarse, and to owe no person any thing but love. At Paisley, for a
season, her breakfast and supper was porridge, and her dinner pota-
toes and salt. Peace with God, and a contented mind, supplied the
lack of earthly prosperity, and she adverted to this her humble fare,
to comfort the hearts of suffering sisters, with whom she correspond-
ed at a later period of life, when in comfortable circumstances.
Meantime the Lord was not unmindful of his believing child ; but
was preparing the minds of her friends for introducing her to a more
enlarged sphere of usefulness.
Her pious and attached friend, Mrs. Major Brown, had accompa-
nied her husband to Scotland, and they now resided on their estate in
Ayrshire. Mr. Peter Reid, a kind friend when in Antigua, was now
a merchant in London. This gentleman advised her to invest the
little money she had brought home, (and which she had still preserv-
ed,) in muslins ; which she could work into finer articles of dress j
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and he would ship them in a vessel of his own, freight free, to be
sold in the West Indies. His object was partly to increase her little
capital, and partly to divert her mind from meditating so deeply on
the loss of her lamented husband.
She shed so many tears while at Cartside, as to injure her eye-
sight, and to render the use of spectacles necessary : she adopted
his plan ; the muslin dresses were shipped ; but she soon afterwards
learned that the ship was captured by the French. This a severe
blow to her temporal property, and more deeply felt, as it was receiv-
ed at the time when her father was deprived of his office.
Mrs. Brown, after consulting with the Rev. Mr. Randall, of Glas-
gow ; the Rev. Mr. Ellis, of Paisley ; lady Glenorchy and Mrs.
Walker, of Edinburgh ; proposed to Mrs. Graham to take charge of
a boarding school in the metropolis.
The friends of religion were of opinion, that such an establishment,
under the direction of such a character as Mrs. Graham, would be of
singular benefit to young ladies, destined for important stations in so-
ciety. Her liberal education, her acquaintance with life, and her
humble, yet ardent piety, were considered peculiarly calculated to
qualify her for so important a trust.
Another friend had suggested to Mrs. Graham the propriety of
opening a boarding house in Edinburgh, which he thought could,
through his influence, be easily filled by students.
She saw obstacles to both ; a boarding house did not appear suit-
able, as her daughters would not be so likely to have the same ad-
vantages of education as from a boarding school. To engage as an
instructress of youth on so large a scale, with so many competitors,
appeared for her, an arduous undertaking.
In this perplexity, as in former trials, she fled to her unerring
counsellor, the Lord, her covenant God. She set apart a day for
fasting and prayer. She spread her case before the Lord, earnestly
beseeching him to make his word a light to her feet, and a lamp to
her path; and to lead her in (he way in which she should go; es-
pecially, that she might be directed to choose the path, in which she
could best promote his glory, and the best interests of herself and
her children. On searching the scriptures, her mind fastened on
these words, in John xxi, 15, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me
more than these? He saith unto him, yea, Lord ; thou Jcnoivesi that
I love thee; he said unto him, feed my lambs.
Never, perhaps, was this commandment applied with more energy,
nor accompanied with a richer blessing since the days of the Apostle,
ihan in the present instance.
Her determination was accordingly made. She resolved to un-
dertake the education of youth, trusting that her Lord would make
her a humble instrument to feed his lambs. Here was exhibited an
instance of simple, yet powerful faith in a believer, surrounded by
temporal perplexities; and of condescension and mercy on the part of
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a compassionate God. Light, unseen by mortal eyes, descended on
her path.
Although her faith was strong, yet her mind was under such agita-
tion, from her total want of funds to carry her plan into effect, and
from other conflicting exercises, as to throw her into a nervous fever,
which kept her confined to her bed for some weeks. On her recov-
ery, she felt it her duty to go forward, trusting that He who had di-
rected her path, would provide the means that were necessary to
enable her to walk in it : she sold her heavy furniture, packed up
all her remaining effects, and prepared to set out from Paisley for
Edinburgh on a Monday, sometime in the year 1780.
On the Saturday previous, she sat by her fire, musing, and won-
dering in what manner the Lord would appear for her at this time,
when a letter was brought to her from Mr. Peter Reid, enclosing a
sum of money which he had recovered from the underwriters, on
account of Mrs. Graham's muslins, captured on their passage to the
West Indies. Mrs. Graham had considered them as totalrjTtost, but
her friend had taken the precaution to have them insured.
With this supply she was enabled to accomplish her object, and
arrived in Edinburgh with her family. Her friend, Mrs. Brown, met
her there, and stayed with her a few days, to comfort and patronize
her in her new undertaking. Mrs. Brown was her warm and con-
stant friend, until her death, which happened at Paisley it 1782, when
she was attending the communion. She bequeathed her daughter
Mary to Mrs, Graham's care. But in 1735 the daughter followed
the mother, being cut off by a fever in the twelfth year of her age.
It may be proper here to introduce the name of Mr. George An-
derson, a merchant in Glasgow, who had been an early and particu-
lar friend of Dr. Graham. He kindly offered his friendly services,
and the use of his purse, to promote the welfare of the bereaved
family of his friend. Mrs. Graham occasionally drew upon both.
The money she borrowed, she had the satisfaction of repaying with
interest.
A correspondence was carried on between them after Mrs. Gra-
ham's removal to America, until the death of Mr. Anderson in 1802.
Such was the acknowledged integrity of this gentleman, that he was
very generally known in Glasgow by the appellation of " honest
George Anderson."
During her residence in Edinburgh, she was honored with the
friendship and counsel of many persons of distinction and piety.
The viscountess Glenorchy ; lady Ross Baillie ; lady Jane Belches ;
Mrs. Walter Scott, (mother of the poet ;) Mrs. Dr. Davidson ; Mrs.
Baillie Walker, were amongst her warm personal friends. The Rev.
Dr. Erskine, and Dr. Davidson, (formerly the Rev. Mr. Randall, of
Glasgow,) and many respectable clergymen, were also her friends.
She and her family attended on the ministry of Dr. Davidson, an
,;;bJc, evangelical, useful pastor.
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Her school soon became respectable, in numbers and character.
Her early and superior education now proved of essential service to
her. She was indefatigable in her attention to the instruction of her
pupils. While she was faithful in giving them those accomplishments
which were to qualify them for acting a distinguished part in this
world, she was also zealous in directing their attention to that Gospel,
by which they were instructed to obtain an inheritance in the eternal
world. She felt a high responsibility, and took a deep interest in
their temporal and spiritual welfare. As a mother in Israel, she wish-
ed to train them up in the ways of the Lord.
She prayed with them morning and evening, and on the sabbath,
which she was careful to devote to its proper use, she took great
pains to imbue their minds with the truths of religion. Nor did she
labor in vain. Although she was often heard to lament of how little
use she had been, compared with her opportunities of doing good,
yet when her children, Mr. and Mrs. Bethune, visited Scotland in
1801, they heard of many characters, then pious and exemplary,
who dated their first religious impressions from those seasons of
early instruction which they enjoyed under Mrs. Graham, while in
Edinburgh.
Mrs. Graham's manner in the management of youth, was peculiar-
ly happy. Whilst she kept them diligent in their studies, and strictly
obedient the laws she had established, she was endeared to them by
her tenderness ; and the young ladies instructed in her school,' re-
tained for her in after life a degree of filial affection, which showed
itself unequivocally wherever opportunities offered to test it. This
was afterwards remarkably the case with her pupils in America.
Her little republic was completely governed by a system of equitable
laws. On every alleged offence, a court martial, as they termed it,
was held, and the accused tried by her peers. There were no arbi-
trary punishments, no sallies of capricious passion. The laws were
promulgated and must be obeyed. The sentences of the courts
martial were always approved, and had a salutary effect. In short,
there was a combination of authority, decision and tendernes, in Mrs.
Graham's government, that rendered its subjects industrious, intelli-
gent, circumspect, and happy. She enjoyed their happiness ; and
in cases of sickness, she watched her patients with unremitting soli-
citude and care, sparing no expense to promote their restoration to
health.
A strong trait in her character was distinctly marked by one rule
she had adopted, viz. to educate the daughters of pious ministers at
half price. This was setting an example worthy of imitation. It
was a conduct conformable to scriptural precept. Said Paul, If we
have sown unto you spiritual things, is it a great thing if ive shall
reap your carnal things ? Do ye not know that they which minister
about holy things, live of the things of the temple? Even so hath the
Lord ordained that they which preach the gospel should live by the
gospel.
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It was customary with lady Glenorchy to remark, that two of Mrs.
Graham's friends held a band around her waist, when she approach-
ed the boundaries between religion and the world, to prevent her from
falling over.
Lady Glenorchy being in a delicate state of health, made frequent
use of Mrs. Graham as her almoner to the poor. On one of these
visits, Mrs. Graham called on a poor woman, with a present of a new
gown. " I am obliged to you and her ladyship for your kindness,"
said the poor woman, rich in faith ; " but I maun gang to the right
airth first, ye wad na hae come, gin ye had na been sent ; the Lord
hath left me lately wi but ae goon for week day and sabbath, but now
he has sent you with a sabbath day's goon." Meaning in plain Eng-
lish, that her thankfulness was first due to the God of providence,
who had put it into the hearts of his children to supply the wants of
this poor disciple.
It being stated as a matter of regret, that poor people, when sick,
suffered greatly, although while in health their daily labor supported
them ; Mrs. Graham suggested the idea of every poor person in the
neighborhood laying aside one penny a week, to form a fund for re-
lieving the contributors when in sickness. Mr. Douglas undertook
the formation of such an Institution. It went for a long time under
the name of " The Penny Society." It afterwards received a more
liberal patronage, has now a handsome capital, and is called " The
Society for the relief of the Destitute Sick."
In July 1786, Mrs. Graham attended the dying bed of her friend
and patroness, lady Glenorchy : this lady had shown her friendship in
a variety of ways during her valuable life ; she had one of Mrs. Gra-
ham's daughters for some time in her family ; condescended herself
to instruct her, and sent her for a year to a French boarding school
in Rotterdam. She defrayed all her expenses while there, and fur-
nished her with a liberal supply of pocket money, that she might not
see distress without the power of relieving it. So much does a per-
son's conduct in maturer years depend upon the habits of early life,
that it is wise to accustom young people to feel for, and to contribute
in their degree to the relief ol, the afflicted and the needy.
Mrs. Graham had the honor of attending the death bed, and of
closing the eyes of this distinguished child of God. It had been
lady Glenorchy's express desire that Mrs. Graham should be sent for
to attend her dying bed, if within twenty miles of her when such at-
tendance should be necessary.
When Dr. Witherspoon visited Scotland in the year 1785, he had
frequent conversations with Mrs. Graham, on the subject of her re-
moval to America. She gave him at this time some reason to calcu-
late on her going thither as soon as her children should have comple-
ted the course of education she had proposed for them.
Mrs. Graham had entertained a strong partiality for America ever
since her former residence there, and had indulged a secret expecta-
tion of returning thither.
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It was her opinion, and that of many pious people, that America
was the country where the Church of Christ would eventually flour-
ish. She was therefore desirous to leave her offspring there.
After some correspondence with Dr. Witherspoon, and consulta-
tion with pious friends, she received the approbation of the latter to
her plan. She had an invitation from many respectable characters in
the city of New York, with assurances of patronage and support.
She arranged her affairs for quitting Edinburgh. The Algerines be-
ing then at war with the United States, her friends insisted on her
chartering a small British vessel to carry herself and family to the
port of New York. This increased her expenses ; but providence,
in faithfulness and mercy, sent her at this time a remittance from Dr.
Henderson ; and a legacy of two hundred pounds bequeathed her by
lady Glenorchy as a mark of her regard, was of great use to her in
her present circumstances.
Thus in the month of July, 1789, Mrs. Graham once more pre-
pared to go into a land which the Lord seemed to tell her of; and
after a pleasant, though tedious voyage, she landed in New York on
the 8th day of September.
At New York she and her family were received with the greatest
cordiality and confidence. The late Rev. Dr. Rodgers and Dr.
Mason were especially kind to her. She came eminently prepared
to instruct her pupils in all the higher branches of female education :
the favorable change effected by her exertions in this respect, was
soon visible in the minds, manners, and accomplishments of the young
ladies committed to her care. She opened her school on the 5th of
October, 1789, with five scholars, and before the end of the same
month, the number increased to fifty. She not only imparted knowl-
edge to her pupils, but also by her conversation and example, pre-
pared their minds to receive it in such a manner as to apply it to
practical advantage. Whilst she taught them to regard external ac-
complishments as ornaments to the female character, she was careful
to recommend the practice of virtue as the highest accomplishment
of all, and to inculcate the principles of religion as the only solid
foundation for morality and virtue. The annual examination of her
scholars were always well attended, and gave great satisfaction.
General Washington, whilst at New York, honored her with his patron-
age. The venerable and amiable Bishop of the Episcopal church
in the state of New York, then the Rev. Dr. Benjamin Moore, never
once was absent from those examinations. She was sensible of his
friendship, and always spoke of him in terms of great esteem and
respect.
She united in communion with the Presbyterian Church under
the pastoral care of the late Rev. Dr. John Mason. This excellent
man was her faithful friend, and wise counsellor. Under his ministry
her two daughters, Joanna and Isabella, joined the church in the year
1791. Her eldest daughter Jessie, who had made a profession of
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religion in Scotland, was married in July, 1790, to Mr. Hay Steven-
son, merchant of New York, and she became a member of the Pres-
byterian Church under the care of Dr. Rodgers where her husband
attended.
In the year 1791, her son, who had been left in Scotland to com-
plete his education, paid his mother a visit. Mrs. Graham, consider-
ing herself as inadequate to the proper management of a boy, had at an
early period of his life sent her son to the care of a friend, who had
promised to pay due attention to his morals and education. The boy
had a warm affectionate heart, but possessed, at the same time, a
bold and fearless spirit. Such a disposition, under proper manage-
ment, might have been formed into a noble character ; but he was
neglected, and left in a great measure to himself by his first preceptor.
For two years of his life, he was under the care of Mr. Murray,
teacher of an academy at Abercorn. He was a man truly qualified
for this station. He instructed his pupils with zeal ; led even their
amusements ; and to an exemplary piety, added the faithful counsel
of a friend. He loved, and was therefore beloved. Under his super-
intendence, John Graham improved rapidly, and gained the affections
of his teacher and companions. Happy for him had he continued
in such a suitable situation. He was removed to Edinburgh to receive
a more classical education. Being left there by his mother and
sisters, the impetuosity of his temper, and propensity for a sea-faring
life, induced his friends to place him as an apprentice in the mer-
chant-service. He was shipwrecked on the coast of Holland, and
Mr. Gibson of Rotterdam, a friend of Mrs. Graham, took him to his
house, and enabled him to come to the United Stales. He remain-
ed at New York for some months. His mother deemed it his duty
to return to Scotland to complete his time of service. His inclina-
tion tended evidently to the profession of a sailor ; she therefore
fitted him out handsomely, and he embarked for Greenock in the
same ship with Mr. John M. Mason, the only son of the late Dr.
Mason, who went to attend the theological lectures at the Divinity
Hall in Edinburgh.
Mrs. Graham's exercises of mind on parting with her son, were
deep and affecting. She cast him upon the covenant mercy of her
God, placing a blank, as to temporal things, in her Lord's hand, but
holding on with a fervent faith and hope to the promise of spiritual
life, Leave thy fatherless children, 1 mill preserve them alive : and let
thy widows trust in me.
Three months afterwards, she learned that a pressgang had boarded
the ship in w7hich her son had been, and although he was saved from
their grasp by a stratagem of the passengers, yet all his clothes were
taken away from him. Reflecting on this event, she says, " shall I
withdraw the blank I have put into the Redeemer's hands? has he
not hitherto done all things well ? have not my own afflictions been my
greatest blessings? Lord I renew my blank." After undergoing
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many sufferings, this young man wrote to his mother from Demerara
in the year 1794, that he had been made a prisoner: had been re-
taken ; and then intended to go to Europe with a fleet which was soon
to sail under convoy. His letter was couched in terms of salutary re-
flection on his past life, and a hope of profiting by past experience.
This was the last account which Mrs. Graham had of her afflicted
son. All inquiries instituted respecting him proved fruitless, and she
had to exercise faith and submission, not without hope towards God,
that the Great Redeemer had taken care of, and would finally save,
this prodigal son. She had known a case in her father's family, which
excited their solicitude, and encouraged her hope. Her younger
brother, Archibald Marshall, a lad of high temper, though possessed
of an affectionate heart, had gone to sea, and was not heard of at
all for several years. A pious woman who kept a boarding-house in
Paisley, found one of her boarders one day reading Doddridge's
Rise and Progress of Religion in the Soul of Man, with Archibald
Marshall's name written on the blank leaf. On inquiry the stranger
told her he got that book from a young man on his death-bed, as a
token of regard. That young man was Archibald Marshall — he was
an exemplary Christian ; "and I have reason," added he, " to bless
God that he was ever my messmate." The woman, who heard this
account, transmitted it to Mr. Marshall's family, who were known to
her. Mrs. Graham had no such consolatory account afforded to
her ; but under much yearning of heart, she left this concern, as
well as every other, to the disposal of that God who doeth all things
ivelL
In July 1795, Mrs. Graham's second daughter, Joanna, was mar-
ried to Mr. Divie Bethune, merchant in New York. In the follow-
ing month her eldest daughter, Mrs. Stevenson, was seized with a
fatal illness. Of a most amiable disposition and genuine piety, she
viewed the approach of death with the composure of a Christian
and the intrepidity of faith.
She had been in delicate health for some years before, and now a
complication of disorders denied all hope of recovery. She sung a
hymn of triumph, until the struggles of death interrupted her. Mrs.
Graham displayed great firmness of mind, during the last trying scene,
and when the spirit of her daughter fled, the mother raised her hands,
and looking towards heaven, exclaimed, " I wish you joy, my darling."
She then washed her face, took some refreshment, and retired to rest.
Such was her joy of faith at the full salvation of her child ; but
when the loss of her company was felt, the tenderness of a mother's
heart afterwards gave vent to feelings of affectionate sorrow : nature
will feel, even when faith triumphs.
Mrs. Graham made it a rule to appropriate a tenth part of her
earnings to be expended for pious and charitable purposes : she had
taken a lease of two lots of ground on Greenwich-street from the
corporation of Trinity Church, with a view of building a house on
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them for her own accommodation : the building, however, she never
commenced : by a sale which her son, Mr. Bethune, made of the
lease in 1795 for her, she got an advance of one thousand pounds.
So large a profit was new to her. "Quick, quick," said she, "let
me appropriate the tenth before my heart grows hard." What fidelity
in duty! what distrust of herself! Fifty pounds of this money she
sent to Mr. Mason in aid of the funds he was collecting for the es-
tablishment of a Theological Seminary.
In the year 1797, a society was instituted at New York, for the
relief of poor widows witli small children ; a society which rose into
great respectability, and has been productive of very beneficent effects.
The Lord, in his merciful providence prepared this Institution, to
grant relief to many bereaved families, who were left widows and
orphans by the ravages of the yellow fever in the year 1798.
It took rise from an apparently adventitious circumstance. Mr.
Bethune, in the year 1796, was one of the distributing managers of
the St. Andrew's Society. The distribution of this charity was of
course limited to a certain description of applicants. Mrs. Bethune,
interested for widows not entitled to share in the bounty of the St. An-
drew's Society, frequently collected small sums for their relief. She
consulted with a few friends on the propriety of establishing a Female
Society for the relief of poor widows with small children, without
limitation. Invitations in the form of circular letters, were sent to
the ladies of New York ; and a very respectable number assembled
at the house of Mrs. Graham. The proposed plan was approved,
and a society organized. Mrs. Graham was elected first Directress
which office she held ten years.
At the semi-annual meeting in March, 1798, Mrs. Graham made
a very pleasing report of the proceedings of the managers, and of
the amount of relief afforded to the poor. The ladies of New- York
rendered themselves truly deserving of applause for their zeal in this
benevolent undertaking.
In the month of September 1798, Mrs. Graham's daughter Isa-
bella was married to Mr. Andrew Smith, merchant of New York,
(afterwards of Richmond, Va.) Her family being thus settled to
her satisfaction, she was prevailed upon to retire from business, and
to live with her children.
Miss Farquharson, her assistant, to whom she was much attach-
ed, declined to succeed her, choosing rather to enjoy the society of
her patroness and friend. She was a young lady of genuine piety
and worth. The Lord had designed her for another important sta-
tion. She is now Mrs. Loveless, of Madras, the help-meet of the
London Society's excellent missionary there. Mrs. Graham main-
tained a correspondence with Mrs. Loveless, and always regarded
her with much affection.
During the prevalence of the yellow fever in 1798, it was with
much difficulty Mrs. Graham was dissuaded from going into the city
MRS. ISABELLA GRAHAM. 411
to attend on the sick : the fear of involving her children in the same
calamity, in the event of her being attacked by the fever, was the
chief reason of her acquiescing in their wish to prevent so hazardous
an undertaking. During the subsequent winter, she was indefatiga-
ble in her attentions to the poor : she exerted herself to procure
work for her widows, and occupied much of her time in cutting it
out, and preparing it for them. The managers of the Widow's so-
ciety had each their separate districts ; and Mrs. Graham, as first
Directress, had a general superintendence of the whole. She was
so happy in the execution of her trust, as to acquire the respect and
confidence of the ladies who acted with her, as well as the affec-
tions of the poor.
Her whole time was now at her command, and she devoted it very
faithfully to promote the benevolent object of the institution over
which she presided. The extent of her exertions, however, became
known, not from the information given by herself, but from the ob-
servations of her fellow laborers, and especially from the testimony
of the poor themselves.
In the summer of 1800, she paid a visit to her friends in Boston.
When she had been absent for some weeks, her daughter Mrs. Be-
thune was surprised at the frequent inquiries made after her, by per-
sons with whom she was unacquainted : at length she asked some
of those inquirers what they knew of Mrs. Graham ? they replied,
" we live in the surburbs of the city, where she used to visit, relieve
and comfort the poor. We had missed her so long that we were
afraid she had been sick : when she walked our streets, it was cus-
tomary with us to come to the door and bless her as she passed."
Until January 1803, she lived alternately with her children, Mrs.
Bethune and Mrs. Smith ; at this period Mr. Smith having removed
from New York, Mrs. Graham resided with Mr. and Mrs. Bethune,
until her departure to a better world. They loved her, not only
from natural affection, but for her superior worth ; they valued her,
for they believed that many blessings were vouchsafed to them and
their family in answer to her prayers.
The Society for the relief of poor widows with small children
having received a charter of incorporation, and some pecuniary aid
from the Legislature of the state, the ladies who constituted the
Board of Direction, were engaged in plans for extending their use-
fulness : Mrs. Graham took an active part in executing these plans.
The society purchased a small house, where they received work of
various kinds, for the employment of their widows. They opened
a school for the instruction of their orphans, and many of Mrs. Gra-
ham's former pupils volunteered their services, taking upon them-
selves by rotation, the part of instructors. Besides establishing this
School, Mrs. Graham selected some of the widows, best qualified
for the task, and engaged them for a small compensation, to open
day schools for the instruction of the children of widows, in distant
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parts of the city : she also established two Sabbath Schools, one of
which she superintended herself, and the other she placed under
the care of her daughter. Wherever she met with Christians sick
and in poverty, she visited and comforted them ; and in some instan-
ces opened small subscription lists to provide for their support.
She attended occasionally for some years at the Alms House for
the instruction of the children there, in religious knowledge : in this
work she was much assisted by a humble and pious female friend,
who was seldom absent from it on the Lord's day. In short, her
whole time was occupied in searching out the distresses of the poor,
and devising measures to comfort and establish them to the extent of
her influence and means. At the same time, far from arrogating any
merit to herself, she seemed always to feel how much she was de-
ficient in following fully the precepts, and the footsteps of her belov-
ed Lord and Savior, who went about doing good.
It was often her custom to leave home after breakfast, to take with
her a few rolls of bread, and return in the evening about eight
o'clock. Her only dinner on such days was her bread, and perhaps
some soup at the Soup House, established by the Humane Society for
the poor over which one of her widows had been, at her recommen-
dation, appointed. She and her venerable companion, Mrs. Sarah
Hoffman, second Directress of the Widow's Society, travelled many
a day and many a step together in the walks of charity. Mrs. Gra-
ham was a Presbyterian, Mrs. Hoffman an Episcopalian. Those
barriers, of which such a thundering use has been made by sectarians
to separate the children of God, fell down between these two friends
at the cry of affliction, and were consumed on the altar of Christian
love. Arm in arm, and heart to heart, they visited the abodes of
distress, dispensing temporal aid from the purse of charity, and spi-
ritual comfort from the word of life.
At each annual meeting, Mrs. Graham usually made an address
to the society, with a report of the proceedings of the managers,
through the preceding year. In April 1800, she stated that " again
the pestilence had evacuated the city ; again every source of indus-
try was dried up ; even the streams of benevolence from the coun-
try failed. Those storehouses from which relief was issued to thou-
sands in former calamities, now disappointed their hopes, and those
spared by the pestilence, were ready to perish by the famine." These
distresses were relieved by the energetic benevolence of the mem-
bers of the society.
The winter of 1804-5 was unusually severe : the river Hudson
was shut by frost as early as November : fuel was consequently
scarce and dear ; and the poor suffered greatly. Mrs. Graham vis-
ited those parts of the city where the poorer class of sufferers dwelt ;
in upwards of two hundred families, she either found a Bible their
property, or gave them one ; praying with them in their affliction.
She requested a friend to write, first one religious tract, and then
another, suited to the peculiar situation of those afflicted people.
MRS. ISABELLA GRAHAM. 413
And lest it might be said, it was cheap to give advice, she usually
gave a small sum of money along with the tracts she distributed.
There was, at this time, neither a Bible nor Tract Society in New
York. Mrs. Hoffman accompanied her in many of her excursions.
In the course of their visits, they discovered a French family from
St. Domingo, in such extremity of distress, as made them judge it
necessary to report their case to the Honorable Dewitt Clinton, then
mayor of the city. The situation of this family being made public,
three hundred dollars were voluntarily contributed for their relief.
Roused by this incident, a public meeting was called at the Tontine
Coffee House, and committees from the different wards were ap-
pointed to aid the Corporation, in ascertaining and supplying the im-
mediate wants of the suffering poor. The zeal of Mrs. Graham and
Mrs. Hoffman paved the way for this public spirited exertion, which,
probably, was the means of saving the lives of some of the destitute
and friendless.
In the month of August, 1S05, Mrs. Graham paid another visit to
her friends in Boston, and spoke of them with much affection and
esteem. She used to mention with peculiar approbation, a society 3*
of pious ladies there, who met once in every week, for prayer and
mutual edification.
On the 15th of March, 1806, the female subscribers to proposals
for providing an Asylum for Orphan Children met at the City Hotel;
Mrs. Graham was called to the chair, a society organized, and a board
of direction chosen. Mrs. Hoffman was elected the first directress
of the Orphan Asylum Society. Mrs. Graham continued in the of-
fice of first directress of the Widow's Society, but took a deep inter-
est in the success of the Orphan Asylum Society also : she or one
of her family taught the orphans daily, until the funds of the institu-
tion were sufficient to provide a teacher and superintendent. She
was a trustee at the time of her decease. The wish to establish this
new society, was occasioned by the pain which it gave the ladies of
the Widow's Society, to behold a family of orphans, driven, on the
decease of a widow, to seek refuge in the alms-house ; no melting
heart to feel, no redeeming hand to rescue them from a situation so
unpromising for mental and moral improvement.
The Society have received a charter of incorporation from the
Legislature ; they have a handsome seal, with this inscription : in as
MUCH AS YE HAVE DONE IT UNTO ONE OF THE LEAST OF THESE,
YE HAVE DONE IT UNTO ME.
For several years it wTas customary with Mrs. Graham to visit the
Hospital. Before the erection of the edifice adapted to the recep-
tion of deranged persons, and called " the Lunatic Asylum," she
paid a particular attention to patients of this description.
To the apartments appropriated to sick female convicts in the State
Prison, Mrs. Graham also made many visits. She met with some
affecting circumstances amon^t tins class.
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In the winter 1807—8, when the suspension of commerce by the
embargo, rendered the situation of the poor more destitute than ev-
er, Mrs. Graham adopted a plan best calculated in her view to de-
tect the idle applicant for charity, and at the same time to furnish
employment for the more worthy amongst the female poor. She
purchased flax, and lent wheels, where applicants had none. Such
as were industrious, took the work with thankfulness, and were paid
for it; those who were beggars by profession, never kept their word
to return for the flax or the wheel. The flax thus spun, was after-
wards wove, bleached, and made into table-cloths and towels -for
family use.
Mrs. Graham used to remark, that until some Institution should be
formed to furnish employment for industrious poor women, the work
of charity would be incomplete. It was about this time, that deem-
ing the duties too laborious for her health, she resigned the office of
First Directress of the Widow's Society,* and took the place of a
manager. She afterwards declined this also, and became a trustee
of the Orphan Asylum Society, as more suited to her advanced pe-
riod of life.
The delicate state of health to which one of her grand-daughters
was reduced in 1808, made it necessary for her to spend the sum-
mer season for five successive years at Rockaway for the advantage
of sea-bathing. Mrs. Graham went with her, it being beneficial to
her own health also. In this place, she met with many strangers :
the company residing there, treated her with much affection and res-
pect. She always attended to the worship of God morning and
evening in her room, and was usually accompanied by some of the
ladies wrho boarded in the house. Her fund of information, vivaci-
ty of manner and the interest which she felt in the happiness of all
around her, made her society highly valued and pleasing. Few of
those ladies who stayed with her at Rockaway, for any length of time,
failed to express, at parting, their esteem for her, and they generally
added a pressing invitation for a visit from her, if ever she should
travel near where they dwelt.
In the year 1810, whilst bathing, she was carried by the surf, be-
yond her depth, and for some time there was scarcely a hope of her
regaining the shore. Her grand-children were weeping on the beach,
and the company assembled there were afflicted but hopeless spec-
tators of her danger. At that moment of peril, she prayed to the
Lord for deliverance, but acquiesced in his will, if he should see fit
to take her to himself in this manner. Able to swim a little, she kept
herself afloat for some time ; she became at length very faint ; and
when her friends on the beach apprehended her lost, they perceived
that the wave had impelled her somewhat nearer to them. A gen-
tleman present, and her female attendant stepped into the surf, and
extending their arms for mutual support, one of them was enabled to
lay hold of Mrs. Graham's bathing gown, and to pull her towards
MRS. ISABELLA GRAHAM. 415
them. When they brought her ashore, she was much exhausted-,
and had swallowed a considerable quantity of water. It was some
hours before she revived, when she addressed the company in a very
serious and impressive manner, that affected them to tears. Her
health during the following winter was much impaired by the shock
it had received.
In the year 1811, some gentlemen of New-York established a
Magdalen Society : they elected a Board of ladies, requesting their
aid to superintend the internal management of the Magdalen House.
This Board chose Mrs. Graham their presiding lady, which office
she held until her decease ; the duties attendant on it she discharged
with fidelity and zeal. In 1812, the trustees of the Lancasterian
School solicited the attendance of several pious ladies, to give cate-
chetical instruction to their scholars, one afternoon in every week :
Mrs. Graham was one of those who attended regularly to this duty.
During the last two years of her life, she found her strength inad-
equate to so extensive a course of visiting the poor, as formerly ;
there were some distressed families, however, that experienced her
kind attention to the last. She would occasionally accompany the
Rev. Mr. Stanford on his visits to the State Prison, Hospital, and to
the Magdalen House. This gentleman is the stated preacher, em-
ployed by " the Society for the support of the Gospel among the
poor." He devotes his time to preaching in the Alms House, Hos-
pital, State Prison, Debtor's Prison, he. with great assiduity and ac-
ceptance. Mrs. Graham now spent much of her time in her room,
devoted to meditation, prayer, and reading the Scriptures; she seem-
ed to be weaning from earth, and preparing for heaven.
In the spring of 1814 she was requested to unite with some la-
dies, in forming a Society for the promotion of Industry amongst
the poor.
The Corporation of the city having returned a favorable answer,
to their petition for assistance and provided a house, a meeting of the
Society was held, and Mrs. Graham once more was called to the
chair. It was the last time she was to preside at the formation of a
new Society. Her articulation, once strong and clear, was now ob-
served to have become more feeble. The ladies present listened to
her with affectionate attention ; her voice broke upon the ear as a
pleasant sound that was passing away. She consented to have her
name inserted in the list of managers, to give what assistance her age
would permit in forwarding so beneficent a work. Although it pleas-
ed God to make her cease from her labors, before the House of In-
dustry was opened, yet the work was carried on by others, and pros-
pered. Between four and five hundred women were employed and
paid during the following winter. The Corporation declared in strong
terms their approbation of the result, and enlarged their donation,
with a view to promote the same undertaking for the succeeding
winter.
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In the month of May, 1814, a Report was received from Mr. S.
P — , of Bristol, in England, of the Society for establishing Adult
Schools. Mrs. Graham was so delighted with a perusal of it, as
immediately to undertake the formation of such a school in the vil-
lage of Greenwich. She called on the young people who were at
work in some neighboring manufactories, and requested them to at-
tend her for this purpose every Sabbath morning at eight o'clock.
This was kept up after her decease, as a Sunday School, and con-
sisted of nearly eighty scholars. She was translated from this work
of faith on earth, to engage in the sublimer work of praise in heaven.
For some weeks previous to her last illness, she was favored with
unusual health, and much enjoyment of religion : she appeared to
have sweet exercises and communion in attending on all God's ordi-
nances, and appointed means of grace.
She was greatly refreshed in spirit by the success of Missionary
and Bible Societies. She used to speak with much affection of Mr.
Gordon, Mr. Lee, and Mr. May, with whom she had been acquaint-
ed when in New York, on their way to missionary stations in India.
For Dr. Robert Morrison, whom she had seen in 1807, on his way
to China, she entertained a very high regard. She wag much pleas-
ed with the solid talents, ardent piety, and persevering zeal* which
she discerned in his character.
On Tuesday, the 19th of July, she complained of not feeling well,
and kept her room; on Thursday, her disorder proved to be a cholera
morbus, and her children sent for a physician. She said this at-
tack was slighter than in former seasons. On Saturday however,
she requested that Mrs. Chrystie might be sent for ; this alarmed
Mrs. Bethune, knowing there existed an understanding between those
two friends, that one should attend the dying bed of the other : Mrs.
Chrystie was a very dear friend of Mrs. Graham. For upwards of
twenty four years they had loved each other, feeling reciprocal sym-
pathy in their joys and their sorrows : the hope of faith was the con-
solation of both, and oftentimes it had been .their delightful employ-
ment to interchange their expressions of affection towards Him,
ivhom having not seen, they loved, and in ivhom, though they saw him
not, yet believing on him, they rejoiced with joy unspeakable and full
of glory. On Mrs. Chrystie's entering the chamber of her friend,
Mrs. Graham welcomed her with a sweet expressive smile, seeming
to say, " I am going to get the start of you, I am called home before
you ; it will be your office to fulfill our engagement." When she
sat by her bedside, Mrs. Graham said, " your face is very pleasant
to me my friend." During Saturday night a lethargy appeared to be
overpowering her frame. On Sabbath morning she was disposed to
constant slumber ; observing Mr. Bethune, looking at her with agita-
tion, she was roused from her heaviness, and stretching her arms to-
wards him, and embracing him, she said, "my dear, dear son, I am
going to leave you, I am going to my Savior." " I know," be re-
MRS. ISABELLA GRAHAM. 417
plied, " that when you do go from us, it will be to the Savior ; but
my dear mother, it may not be the Lord's time now to call you to
himself.', " Yes," said she, " now is the time, and Oh ! I could
weep for sin." Her words were accompanied with tears. " Have
you any doubts then, my dear friend ?" asked Mrs. Chrystie. " Oh
no," replied Mrs. Graham : and looking at Mr. and Mrs. Bethune,
as they wept, " my dear children, I have no more doubt of going to
my Savior, than if I were already in his arms ; my guilt is all trans-
ferred ; he has cancelled all I owed. Yet I could weep for sins
against so good a God : it seems to me as if there must be weeping
even in heaven for sin." After this, she entered into conversation
with her friends, mentioning portions of scripture, and favorite hymns
which had been subjects of much comfortable exercise of mind to
her. Some of these she had transcribed into a little book, calling
them her victuals prepared for crossing over Jordan : she committed
them to memory, and often called them to remembrance, as her songs
in the night, when sleep had deserted her. She then got Mr.
Bethune, to read to her some of these portions, especially the eighty
second hymn of the third book of Newton's hymns, beginning thus :
Let us love, and sing, and wonder;
Let us praise the Savior's name !
He has hush'd the law's loud thunder;
He has quench'd Mount Sinai's flame ;
He has wash'd us with his blood ;
He has brought us nigh to God.
Mrs. Graham then fell asleep, nor did she awaken until the voice of
the Rev. Dr. Mason roused her. They had a very affectionate in-
terview, which he has partly described in the excellent sermon he
delivered after her decease. She expressed to him her hope, as
founded altogether on the redemption that is in Jesus Christ. Were
she left to depend on the merit of the best action she had ever per-
formed, that would be only a source of despair. She repeated to
him, as her view of salvation, the fourth verse of the hymn already
quoted :
Let us wonder, grace and justice
Join, and point at mercy's store;
When thro' grace in Christ our trust is,,
Justice smiles, and asks no more ;
He who wash'd us with his blood,
Has secur'd our way to God.
Having asked Dr. Mason to pray with her, he inquired if there was
any particular request she had to make of God, by him ; she replied
that God would direct : then as he kneeled, she put up her hands,
and raising her eyes towards heaven, breathed this short, but express-
ive petition, " Lord, lead thy servant in prayer."
After Dr. Mason had taken his leave, she again fell into a deep
sleep. Her physicians still expressed a hope of her recovery, as her
pulse was regular, and the violence of her disease had abated- One
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of them, however, declared his opinion, that his poor drugs would
prove of little avail against her own ardent prayers to depart, and
be with Christ, which was far better for her than a return to a dying
world.
On Monday the Rev. Mr. Rowan prayed with her, and to him she
expressed also the tranquillity of her mind, and the steadfastness of
her hope, through Christ, of eternal felicity.
Her lethargy increased ; at intervals from sleep, she would occa-
sionally assure her daughter, Mrs. Bethune, that all was well ; and
when she could rouse herself only to say one word at a time, that
one word, accompanied with a smile, was " Peace." From her,
there was a peculiar emphasis in this expression of the state of her
mind ; Peace 1 leave with you, my peace 1 give unto you, had been
a favorite portion of scripture with her, and a promise, the fulfilment
of which was her earnest prayer to the God who made it. She also
occasionally asked Mr. Bethune to pray with her, even when she could
only articulate, as she looked at him, " Pray." She was now sur-
rounded by many of her dear Christian friends, who watched her dy-
ing-bed with affection and solicitude. On Tuesday afternoon she
slept with little intermission. This, said Dr. Mason, may be truly
called " falling asleep in Jesus." It was remarked by those who at-
tended her, that all terror was taken away, and that death seemed
here as an entrance into life. Her countenance was placid, and look-
ed younger than before her illness.
At a quarter past twelve o'clock, being the morning of the 27th of
July, 1814, without a struggle or a groan, her spirit winged its flight
from a mansion of clay to the realms of glory, whilst around the pre-
cious remnant of earth, her family and friends stood weeping, yet el-
evated by the scene they were witnessing. After a silence of ma-
ny minutes, they kneeled by her bed, adored the goodness and the
grace of God towards his departed child, and implored the divine
blessing on both the branches of her family, as well as on all the Is-
rael of God.
Thus she departed in peace, not trusting in her wisdom or vir-
tue, like the Philosophers of Greece and Rome ; not even like Ad-
dison, calling on the profligate to see a good man die ; but like
Howard, afraid that her good works might have a wrong place in the
estimate of her hope, her chief glory was that of " a sinner saved by
Grace."*
* This was Howard's epitaph, dictated by himself.
From the life of Mrs. Graham, by her daughter Mrs. Bethune.
419
MRS. HARRIET NEWELL.
The subject of these memoirs, was a daughter of Mr. Moses At-
wood, a merchant of Haverhill, Massachusetts, and was born Octo-
ber H)th, 1793. She was naturally of a cheerful disposition, and in
early life was distinguished for her love of books, and a taste for
reading, which led her to the acquisition of much useful knowledge.
To secure to her the advantage of a liberal and solid education, she
was, in her thirteenth year, placed at an academy of high reputation
at Bradford, not far from her native town. At this place, distin-
guished in the religious experience of many eminent Christians, as
the place where they first obtained a saving knowledge of divine
things, her attention was turned, with several of her companions in
study, to the importance and necessity of that change of purpose
and feeling, by which alone the soul is fitted for the joys of heaven.
This was in the summer of 1806, at a time of genera] attention to
religion. A large number of her companions of L>oth sexes, with
whom she had associated, were in deep distress for their immortal
souls. Many who were formerly gay and thoughtless were now in
tears, anxiously inquiring what they should do to be saved. Her
mind was still more earnestly fixed on these things by the perusal of
Doddridge's Sermons to Young People. These she much admired,
and spoke with delight of the benefit she derived from them.
But before she indulged a hope that she was a subject of spiritual
renovation, she had a long season of distressing conviction, careful
self-examination, and earnest prayer. She could not admit the com-
fortable conclusion that she was born again, before she was conscious
that she had given herself to the Lord, and yielded sincere obedi-
ence to his holy commands. And when at length she felt that she
had secured the one thing needful, in gratitude for the fruition of
that true joy never found but in the exercise of religion, she resolved
to devote the remainder of her life entirely to the service of God.
Long before she thought her own salvation secure, she began to ex-
ercise an enlarged affection for the kingdom of Christ, and to be fer-
vent in her prayers for the building up of Zion, and the salvation of
the heathen. And now that all her views and wishes were turned,
this became the prominent feature of her religion — the supreme ob-
ject of her pursuits.
Though not yet thirteen years old, the deep religious impressions
here made on her mind, were never effaced, and in them was laid
the foundation of her Christian life. She remained in Bradford
Academy about one year and three months, and while there retain-
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ed her first religious feelings in full strength. The warmth of her
first sentiment was doubtless kept up in her heart by the influence
and example of many of her companions in the academy, who had
begun the Christian course at the same time with her, and who went
on together mutually cheered and encouraged. It was customary
for those in the academy whose thoughts were turned to religious
subjects, to maintain a familiar correspondence with each other, com-
municating to each other the substance of their meditations, in epis-
tolary style. Among the friends at Bradford, with whom Harriet
Atwood loved to correspond, and mingle sacred discourse, was Miss
Fanny Woodbury, whose eminence for piety has occasioned a brief
sketch of her life in the pages of this work. A very frequent and
affectionate correspondence was continued between the two friends,
after they left the academy, and returned to their respective homes.
The ardent piety which distinguished them both was no doubt
strengthened and enlarged by the interchange of sympathetic feeling
on the subject.
From some passages in her diary and letters, it appears, that dur-
ing the year 1808, she was in a state of religious declension and
darkness. According to the statement of one who was competent
to testify, " She appeared gradually to lose her fondness for retire-
ment, and her delight in the scriptures, and associated more freely
with her former gay companions. Yet nothing was manifested,
which afforded any just ground for suspecting her sincerity."
But this lamb, which had once been gathered to the fold of Christ,
was not thus left to wander back into the world's wilderness. In her
diary, under date of July 1, 1809, she says,
" God has been pleased in infinite mercy, again to call up my at-
tention to eternal realities. After spending more than a year in the
vanities of the world — thoughtless and unconcerned respecting my
eternal welfare ; he has, as I humbly trust, showed me my awful
backslidings from him, and my dependence on his grace for every
blessing.
" I do now, in the strength of Jesus, resolve that I will no longer
sacrifice my immortal soul for what I have hitherto deemed my tem-
poral happiness. O that I might be enabled to come out from the
world, and to profess Christ as my Redeemer before multitudes.
I now see that I have enjoyed no happiness in my pursuit of world-
ly pleasure. Not in the play-room — not in the vain and idle con-
versation of my companions — not in the bustle of a crowded life,
have I found happiness. This heaven-born guest is found only in
the bosom of the child of Jesus. How awfully aggravated will be
my condemnation, if I do not, after this second call, awaken all my
drowsy faculties, and become earnestly engaged for God !"
She did not neglect this second call, but arose in the strength of
new life, and turned again to the path which she had so early trod,
in the following month3 she joined herself to the church in her na-
MRS. HARRIET NEWELL. 421
tive place, publicly professing her faith in Christ. We here subjoin
the following summary account of her religious exercises, found
among her private papers.
11 August 21th, 1S09. — A review of past religious experience 1
have often found useful aud encouraging. On this account, I have
written down the exercises of my mind, hoping that, by frequently
reading them, I may be led to adore the riches of sovereign grace,
praise the Lord for his former kindness to me, and feel encouraged
to persevere in a holy life.
" The first ten years of my life were spent in vanity. I was en-
tirely ignorant of the depravity of my heart. The summer that I
entered my eleventh year, I attended a dancing school. My con-
science would sometimes tell me, that my time was foolishly spent,
and though I had never heard it intimated, that such amusements
were criminal, yet I could not rest, until I had solemnly determined
that, when the school closed, I would immediately become religious.
But these resolutions were not carried into effect. Although I at-
tended every day to secret prayer, and read the Bible with greater
attention than before, yet I soon became weary of these exercises,
and, by degrees, omitted entirely the duties of the closet. When I
entered my thirteenth year, I was sent by my parents to the Acade-
my at Bradford. A revival of religion commenced in the neighbor-
hood, which in a short time spread into the school. A large num-
ber of the young ladies were anxiously inquiring, what they should
do to inherit eternal life. I began to inquire, what these things
meant ? My attention was solemnly called to the concerns of my
immortal soul. I was a stranger to hope ; and I feared the ridicule
of my gay companions. My heart was opposed to the character of
God ; and I felt that, if I continued an enemy to his government, I
must eternally perish. My convictions of sin were not so pungent
and distressing, as many have had ; but they were of long continu-
ance. It was more than three months, before I was brought to cast
my soul on the Savior of sinners, and rely on him alone for salva-
tion. The ecstacies, which many new-born souls possess, were not
mine. But if I was not lost in raptures on reflecting upon what I
had escaped, I was filled with a sweet peace, a heavenly calmness,
which I never can describe. The honors, applauses, and titles of
this vain world appeared like trifles light as air. The character of
Jesus appeared infinitely lovely, and I could say with the Psalmist,
whom have I in heaven but thee ? and there is none on earth I de-
sire besides thee. The awful gulf I had escaped, filled me with as-
tonishment. My gay associates were renounced, and the friends of
Jesus became my dear friends. The destitute, broken state of the
church at Haverhill prevented me from openly professing my faith
in Jesus ; but it was a privilege, which 1 longed to enjoy.
But alas ! these seasons so precious did not long continue. Soon
was T led to exclaim, Oh that I were as in months past ! My zeal
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for the cause of religion almost entirely abated ; while this vain
world engrossed my affections, which had been consecrated to my
Redeemer. My Bible, once so lovely, was entirely neglected.
Novels and romances engaged my thoughts, and hour after hour was
foolishly and sinfully spent in the perusal of them. The company
of Christians became, by degrees, irksome and unpleasant. I en-
deavored to shun them. The voice of conscience would frequently
whisper, " all is not right." Many a sleepless night have I passed,
after a day of vanity and sin. But such conflicts did not bring me
home to the fold, from which, like a stray lamb, I had wandered far
away. A religion, which was intimately connected with the amuse-
ments of the world, and the friendship of those who are at enmity
with God, would have suited well my depraved heart. But I knew
that the religion of the gospel was vastly different. It exalts the
Creator, while it humbles the creature in the dust.
" Such was my awful situation ! I lived only to wound the cause
of my ever blessed Savior. Weep, oh my soul ! when contempla-
ting and recording these sins of my youth. Be astonished at the
long suffering of Jehovah ! How great a God is our God ! The
death of a beloved parent and uncle had but little effect on my
hard heart. Though these afflictions moved my passions, they did
not lead me to the fountain of consolation. But God, who is rich in
mercy, did not leave me here ! He had prepared my heart to re-
ceive his grace ; and he glorified the riches of his mercy, by carry-
ing on the work. I was providentially invited to visit a friend in
Newburyport. I complied with the invitation. The evening pre-
vious to my return home, I heard the Rev. Mr. McF. It was the
2Sth of June, 1809. How did the truths, which he delivered, sink
deep into my inmost soul ! My past transgressions rose like great
mountains before me. The most poignant anguish seized my mind ;
my carnal security fled ; and I felt myself a guilty transgressor, na-
ked before a holy God. Mr. B. returned with me the next day to
Haverhill. Never, no never, while memory retains her seat in my
breast, shall I forget the affectionate manner in which he addressed
me. His conversation had the desired effect. I then made the
solemn resolution, as 1 trust, in the strength of Jesus, that I would
make a sincere dedication of my all to my Creator, both for time
and eternity. This resolution produced a calm serenity and com-
posure, to which I had long been a stranger. How lovely the way
of salvation then appeared ! Oh how lovely was the character of
the Savior ! The duty of professing publicly on which side I was,
now was impressed on my mind. I came forward, and offered my-
self to the church ; was accepted ; received into communion ; and
commemorated, for the first time, the dying love of the blessed Je-
sus, August 6th, 1809. This was a precious season, long to be re-
membered ! Oh the depths of sovereign grace ! Eternity will be
too short to celebrate the perfections of God.
Harriet Atwood."
MRS. HARRIET NEWELL, 423
Thus she continued after this new consecration of herself to God,
growing each day in grace and strengthening in the resolution to de-
vote herself to his cause, till she became acquainted with Mr. Sam-
uel Newell, a licensed preacher of the gospel, who had resolved to
labor among the heathen, as soon as funds could be raised to support
a foreign mission. Miss Atwood thus mentions the incident in her
o
diary.
Oct. 23, 1810.— Mr. M. introduced Mr.' N. to our family. He
appears to be an engaged Christian. Expects to spend his life, in
preaching a Savior to the benighted pagans.
Oct. 31. — Mr. N. called on us this morning. He gave me some
account of the dealings of God with his soul. If such a man who
has devoted himself to the service of the gospel, has determined to
labor in the most difficult part of the vineyard, and is willing to re-
nounce his earthly happiness for the interest of religion ; if he doubts
his possessing love to God ; — what shall 1 say of myself V
The acquaintance thus begun soon ripened into an intimacy, which
a few months after resulted in a proposal of marriage from Mr.
Newell. We give the account of it in her own words.
April 17, 1S11. — How shall I record the events of this day ! how
can I tranquilize my disturbed mind enough to engage in the once
delightful employment of writing ? I returned from Boston in the eve-
ning, after spending three days very agreeably with my friends C,
and N. M. handed me a letter with an appearance that indicated
that something unusual was contained in it. I broke the seal, and
what were my emotions, when I read the name of . This was
not a long wished for letter, — no, it was a long dreaded one, which,
I was conscious, would involve me in doubts, anxiety and distress,
Nor were the contents such, as I might answer at a distant pe-
riod ; — they required an immediate answer. And now what shall I
say ? how shall I decide this important, this interesting question ? —
shall I consent to leave forever the Parent of my youth ; the friends
of my life ; the dear scenes of my childhood, and my native coun-
try ; and go to a land of strangers, " not knowing the things that
shall befal me there ?" O for direction from heaven ! " O for
that wisdom which is profitable to direct !" 1 go to God, and with
an unprejudiced mind, seek his guidance. I will cast this heavy
burden on him, humbly trusting that he will sustain me, and direct
me in the path of duty.
April 19. — The important decision is not yet made. I am still
wavering. 1 long to see and converse with my dear mother ! so
delicate is my situation, that I dare not unbosom my heart to a single
person. What shall I do ! could tears direct me in the path of duty,
surely I should be directed. My heart aches ;— I know not what to
do ! — " Guide me, O thou great Jehovah."
April 21. — Have now retired to my chamber, once more to vent,
in silence, my unavailing sighs, and with an almost bursting heart,
implore divine relief and direction.
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I shall go home on Tuesday.-— Never did I so greatly long to visit
the dear native dwelling.
April 22. — Perhaps my dear mother will immediately say, Harriet
shall never go. Well if this should be the case, my duty would be
plain. I cannot act contrary to the advice and express commands
of a pious mother.
May, 1811. — Returning to Haverhill, I found my dear mama
calm and composed. So completely was she filled with a sense of
the shortness of time, the uncertainty of life, and the duty of giv-
ing up our dearest comforts to the Lord, that she never raised one
objection, but wished me to act as my conscience directed. I felt
an unspeakable consolation in committing the disposal of this event
to God. I thought I could willingly renounce my own opinion, and sit-
ting at the feet of Jesus, be guided entirely by him. Mr. N. has vis-
ited us frequently. He wishes not to influence me ; he would not if
he could.
Should I refuse to make this sacrifice, refuse to lend my little aid
in the promulgation of the Gospel among the heathen, how could I
ever expect to enjoy the blessing of God, and peace of conscience,
though surrounded with every temporal mercy? it would be pleasant
to spend the remaining part of my life with my friends, and to have
them surround my dying bed. But no ! I must relinquish their so-
ciety, and follow God to a land of strangers, where millions of my
fellow sinners are perishing for lack of vision. I have professed, for
these two years past, to derive comfort only from God. — Here, then
is a consoling reflection, that the ever blessed Jesus is able to support
and comfort me, as well in the sultry climes of India, as in my dear
native land. I trust that he will make his promise good, that as my
day is, so shall my strength be. The wintry storms of life will soon
be over ; and if I have committed my immortal interest into the
hands of God, I shall shortly find a sweet release from every woe. —
So visibly have I beheld the hand of Providence in removing some
obstacles, which once I thought almost insurmountable, that I dare not
object. All my friends, with whom I have conversed since my re-
turn to Haverhill, advise me to go. Some Christians, who were for-
merly opposed, after obtaining a more extensive knowledge of the
subject, think females would be useful. The people of this world
probably view this subject as they do others. Those who have nev-
er felt the worth of their own souls, account it superstition and hypo-
critic zeal, for Christians to sacrifice their earthly pleasures, for the
sake of telling the heathen world of a Savior. But all the ridicule
that the gay and thoughtless sinner can invent, will not essentially in-
jure me. If I am actuated by love to the Savior and his cause, no-
thing on earth or hell can hurt me. Perhaps my views of this sub-
ject may be altered ; and God may yet prepare a way for me to con-
tinue in America. O, that I might be submissive, and humbly wait
on God. He can direct me at this eventful crisis, and glorify him-
self.
MRS. HARRIET NEWELL. 425
After her engagement, she remained at home for several months,
while Mr. Newell was in Philadelphia gaining some knowledge of
medicine that might be useful to him. The following extracts from
a letter which she wrote to him while there, expresses her views of
the undertaking to which she was pledged.
Haverhill, July 16, 1811. — " With respect to the mission, my
mind has never been so solemnly impressed, as since you left me.
Various indeed have been my feelings. I fear I have not thought
enough of the most important qualification of all, viz. a heart wholly
devoted to God. Sometimes, when reflecting on this subject, I
think I shall welcome the day, which will land me on India's shores,
that I may have an opportunity of telling those dear benighted fe-
males, what I have felt of a Savior's love, and of the worth of his
blessed gospel. At other times, a sense of the dangers and hazards
of a missionary life quite depresses my spirits, and deprives me of
every enjoyment. Is it a delusion, or do I really feel willing to sac-
rifice the pleasures and comforts of life, which I might enjoy in my
native country, and unite with the few dear brethren and sisters, in
using my feeble efforts to christianize the heathen ? — but I cannot
bear the idea that my going should be attended with so many anxie-
ties on your part.*
"You fear that I shall lose my courage, and look back with longing
desires towards America. — This I likewise fear. But that God who
has said that his grace shall be sufficient for his children, will in an-
swer to sincere prayer, grant me new resolution, and fresh supplies
of strength. " From God is all my aid." O pray for me, that
I may be furnished with every needful qualification."
July 23. — I have just read a passage in Thomson's Seasons,
which I thought I could adopt as my own language.
"Should fate command me to the farthest verge
Of the green earth, to distant barbarous climes,
Rivers unknown to song ; where first the sun
Gilds Indian mountains, or his setting beam
Flames on the Atlantic Isles ! 'tis nought to me,
Since God is ever present — ever just,
In the void waste as in the city full,
And where he vital breathes, there must be joy."
* The following note to this letter, afterwards written by Mr. Newell to his friends
explains the language here employed.
" My mind, you all know, was much tried on this subject before we left America.
I once communicated my anxieties on this point, to a confidential friend, to which he
replied in these words : " a little slender female, may endure losses and sufferings as
cheerfully and resolutely as an apostle. The lovely humility and meekness of a
christian woman, are sometimes connected with a tranquillity of mind that no ca-
lamities can ruffle, and a firmness that no danger or distress can subdue. The time
may come when your courage will sink, and when the cheerfulness and resolution
of your Harriet will at once astonish and animate you."— I have to acknowledge
that these predictions, (if I may so call them,) have been more than once literally
fulfilled" *
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426 MEMOIRS OF
She was married to Mr. Newell, in the beginning of February
1812, who was ordained as a missionary to India, with Messrs. Jud-
son, Nott, Hall and Rice, at Salem, Feb. 6. On the 19th of the
same month, Messrs. Newell and Judson, with their wives sailed
from Salem in the brig Caravan for Calcutta.
After a voyage of one hundred and eighteen days, they landed at
Calcutta, where they were cordially welcomed by the English mis-
sionaries, Carey, Marshman and Ward ; and soon after, by invitation,
fixed their temporary residence at Serampore, the head quarters of
the English Baptist mission in India. The American missionaries
expected to begin their labors among the heathen natives, as soon
as they could find a convenient place for a beginning. But by the
tyrannical conduct of the English East India company, so infamous
as the despots of India, they were forbidden to proceed and were
ordered to return to America in the same vessel in which they came.
But they were determined that they would not thus give up the noble
work to which they had solemnly dedicated their lives, and though
driven from British India, they sought other fields where there was
need, and room for the gospel.
The missionaries separated to different fields of labor, and Mr. and
Mrs. Newell embarked for the Isle of France, on the fourth of Au-
gust, 1812. The narrative of the distressing events of the voyage
is best given in the words of Mr. Newell's letter to Mrs. Atwood,
the mother of his wife.
" Harriet enjoyed good health from the time we left you, until we
embarked on our voyage from Calcutta to the Isle of France. The
fatigue of riding in a palanquin, in that unhealthy place, threw her
into a fever which commenced the day after we were on board. She
was confined about a week to her couch, but afterward recovered
and enjoyed pretty good health. We left Calcutta on the 4th of
August, but on account of contrary winds and bad weather, we were
driven about in the bay of Bengal, without making much progress
during the whole of that month. On or about the 27th, it was dis-
covered that the vessel had sprung a leak ; and on the 30th the leak
had increased to such an alarming degree, as to render our situation
extremely perilous. A consultation of the officers was called, and
it was determined to put about immediately, and make the nearest
port, which was Coringa, a small town on the Coromandel coast,
about sixty miles south of Vizigapatam. We got safe into port on
Saturday, September 5th."
[On the 19th of September they re-embarked, and Mrs. N. en-
joyed comfortable health, till nearly three weeks after leaving Coringa,
and about three weeks before reaching the Isle of France, when she
became the joyful mother of a daughter. Four days after, in con-
sequence of a severe storm of wind and rain, the child took cold,
and died on the evening of the next day.]
" About a week after Mrs. N.'s confinement," says Mr. N., " I
first perceived the symptoms of that disorder, which terminated in
MRS. HARRIET NEWELL. 427
her death. She immediately recognized the disease of which her
father, and several other of her family connexions died, and was con-
fident she should never recover. I endeavored to raise her hopes,
and encouraged her to expect much from a change of situation.
But she wished me to dismiss all expectations of her recovery, and
to prepare my mind, and help her to prepare her own, for the sol-
emn event. She told me she had some doubts respecting her state.
Yet she was by no means alarmed at the idea of death, but was calm,
patient, and resigned. During the last week of our passage she read
through the Book of Job, and, as she afterwards told me, ' found
sweet relief from every fear in submitting to a sovereign God ;' and
could not refrain from tears of joy, that God should give her so com-
fortable views of death and eternity. Her health continued uniform-
ly in a declining state, and the symptoms of a settled consumption
grew every day more and more apparent."
[Though Mr. N. feared the worst, he did not consider her case
as fatal, till the last fortnight of her life, which commenced about ten
days after their arrival at the Isle of France. Mr. N. immediately
on their arrival, called in the aid of Dr. B., the chief surgeon of the
British army in that island, and Dr. W., a Danish physician, a friend
with whom they had become acquainted at Serampore. There was
but little alteration in Mrs. N.'s health, (excepting that she gradually
lost strength,) till about a fortnight before her death, when she de-
clined more rapidly, and all hope of her recovery was extinguished.
About four o'clock, P. M., on Monday, Nov. 30, 1812, her eyesight
failed her, soon after which, she calmly, and with apparent ease, ex-
pired, seven weeks and four days after her confinement. These
events, with all the attending circumstances, are related by Mr. N.
with great tenderness and particularity. He then proceeds as follows :]
" There, my dear mother, I have finished the story of Harriet's
sufferings. Let us turn from the tale of wo to a brighter scene ; one
that will gladden your heart, as I am sure it does mine. During this
long series of sufferings, she meekly yielded to the will of her Heav-
enly Father, without one murmuring word. ■ My wicked heart,' she
writes, is inclined to think it hard, that I should suffer such fatigue
and hardship. I sinfully envy those, whose lot it is to live in tran-
quillity on land. Happy people ! Ye know not the toils and trials
of voyages across the rough and stormy deep. O for a little Indian
hut on land. But hush, my warring passions ; it is for Jesus, who
sacrificed the joys of his Father's kingdom, and expired on a cross
to redeem a fallen world, that thus I wander from place to place, and
feel nowhere at home. How reviving the thought ! How great the
consolation it yields to my sinking heart ! I will cherish it, and yet
be happy."
" In the first part of the sickness which succeeded the birth of our
babe, she had some doubts which occasionally interrupted her spirit-
ual comfort ; but they were soon removed, and her mind was filled
with that peace of God, which passeth all understanding.
428 MEMOIRS OF
" I finally became convinced that she was far gone in a consump-
tion, and told her I feared she would find a grave in the Isle of
France. She seemed to be relieved of a heavy burden, when I gave
her this intelligence. From this time we conversed constantly, and
with the greatest freedom and plainness, respecting her death, which
we now considered as certain, and near at hand. When she per-
ceived me sorrowful, she would, with a smiling countenance and
cheerful voice, endeavor to animate me with the prospect of a speedy
reunion in a world where we should part no more.
" When 1 asked her, a few days before she died, if she had any re-
maining doubts respecting her spiritual state, she answered with an
emphasis that she had none. During the whole of her sickness, she
talked in the most familiar manner, and with great delight, of death,
and the glory that was to follow. When Dr. B. one day told her,
those were gloomy thoughts, she had better get rid of them, she re-
plied, that, on the contrary, they were to her cheering and joyful, be-
yond what she could express. WThen I attempted to persuade her
that she would recover, (which I fondly hoped,) it seemed to strike
her like a disappointment. She would say, 4 You ought rather to
pray that I may depart, that I may be perfectly free from sin, and be
where God is.'
" Her mind was from day to day filled with the most comforting
and delightful views of the character of God and Christ. She often
requested me to talk to her on these interesting subjects. She told
me that her thoughts were so much confused, and her mind so much
weakened, by the distress of body she had suffered, that she found
it difficult steadily to pursue a train of thoughts on divine things, but
that she continually looked to God, and passively rested on him. She
often spoke of meeting her friends in heaven. ' Perhaps,' said she,
6 my dear mother has gone before me to heaven, and as soon as I
leave this body, I shall find myself with her.' At another time she
said, c We often talk of meeting our friends in heaven; but what would
heaven be with all our friends, if God were not there ?'
" She longed exceedingly for the brethren to arrive from India,
that we might form ourselves into a church, and celebrate the dying
love of Jesus once more before she died. Her desires to enjoy the
benefit of this ordinance were so strong, and our situation so peculiar,
that I thought a deviation from the usage of our churches in this in-
stance would be justifiable, and accordingly on the last Sabbath in
November, the day before she died, I gave her the symbols of the
body and blood of our Lord ; and I trust it was a comfortable sea-
son to us both.
" A few days before she died, after one of those distressing turns of
coughing and raising phlegm, which so rapidly wasted her strength,
she called me to come aud sit on her bed beside her, and receive her
dying message to her friends. She observed, that her strength was
quite exhausted, and she could say only a few words ; but feared she
MRS. HARRIET NEWELL. 429
should not have another opportunity. ' Tell my dear mother,' said
she, c how much Harriet loved her. Tell her to look to God, and
keep near to him, and he will support and comfort her in all her trials.
I shall meet her in heaven, for surely she is one of the dear children
of God.' She then turned to her brothers and sisters : ' Tell them,'
said she, ' from the lips of their dying sister, that there is nothing but
religion worth living for. O exhort them to attend immediately to the
care of their precious, immortal souls. Tell them not to delay re-
pentance. The eldest of them will be anxious to know how I now
feel with respect to missions. Tell them, and also my dear mother,
that I have never regretted leaving my native land for the cause of
Christ. Let my dear brothers and sisters know I love them to the
last. I hope to meet them in heaven ; but Oh, if I should not' — ■
Here tears burst from her eyes, and her sobs of grief at the thought
of an eternal separation, expressed feelings that were too big for utter-
ance. After she recovered a little from the shock, which these strong
emotions had given to her whole frame, she attempted to speak of
several other friends ; but was obliged to sum up all she had to say
in ' Love and an affectionate farewell to them all.' Within a day or
two of her death, such conversation as the following passed between
us:
" Should you not be willing to recover, and live a while longer here?
" ' On some accounts it would be desirable. I wish to do some-
thing for God before I die. But the experience I have had of the
deceitfulness of my heart leads me to expect, that if I should recov-
er, my future life would be much the same as my past has been, and
I long to be perfectly free from sin. God has called me away before
we have entered upon the work of the mission, but the case of David
affords me comfort. I have had it in my heart to do what 1 can for
the heathen, and I hope God will accept me.'
" But what shall I do, when you are gone ? How can I bear the
separation ?
" ' Jesus will be your best friend, and our separation will be short.
We shall soon, very soon, meet in a better world ; if I thought we
should not, it would be painful indeed to part with you.'
" How does your past life appear to you now ?
" ' Bad enough ; but that only makes the grace of Christ appear
the more glorious.
" c Jesus, thy blood and righteousness,
My beauty are, my heavenly dress;
Midst flaming worlds, in *hese array'd,
With joy shall I lift up my head.'
As I stood by her bedside, about nine in the evening previous to
her decease, perceiving that she was failing very fast, I told her I
wished to take my leave of her, before her speech and recollection
left her. She raised her eyes to look at me one mere, gave me her
hand, already chilled with death, and with a feeble voice, said,
' Farewell — we shall soon meet again—Jesus will be your friend.'
430 MEMOIRS, &C.
" When I told her she could not live through the next day, she
replied, " O joyful news ; I long to depart.' Sometime after, I said
to her, ' How does death appear to you now ?' She replied : Glori-
ous ; truly welcome.' During Sabbath night she seemed to be a
little wandering ; but the next morning she had her recollection per-
fectly. As I stood by her, I asked if she knew me. At first she
made no answer. I said to her again, ' My dear Harriet, do you
know who I am ?' ' My dear Mr. Newell, my husband,' was her
reply ; but in broken accents, and a voice faltering in death.
" The last words which I remember, and which I think were the
last she uttered, relative to her departure, were these — ' The pains,
the groans, the dying strife,' — c How long, O Lord, how long.'
" But I must stop ; for I have already exceeded the bounds of a
letter, though I have come far short of doing justice to the dying de-
portment of this dear friend. O may my last end be like hers. I
would now proceed to discharge the duty, which Harriet's dying re-
quest imposed on me, of administering consolation to you, and of
beseeching the dear children to make a right improvement of this
afflicting dispensation ; but I hope the God of all consolation will
himself wipe away your tears, and fill your heart with comfort, and
that Harriet's dying entreaties, and tears, and sighs, may be carried
by the Spirit of truth to the hearts of the children, and of her other
young friends, and may fasten conviction on their minds, and engage
them to follow her so far as she followed Christ. With these hopes,
I must bid them all an affectionate farewell.
"Her remains were conveyed, on the 1st of December, to the
burying ground in Port Louis, followed only by myself and another
gentleman, and interred in a retired spot beneath the shade of an
evergreen.
Till Christ shall come to rouse the slumbering dead,
Farewell, pale, lifeless clay, a long farewell !
Sweet be thy sleep beneath that green tree's shade,
Where I have laid thee in thy lowly cell.
Adieu, dear Harriet ; thou shalt sigh no more ;
Thy conflict's ended, and thy toils are past ;
Thy weary pilgrimage on earth is o'er,
And thou hast reach'd thy wish'd for home at last."
The homeless, sorrowing, lone writer of the above, soon after the
interment of his beloved Harriet, left the Isle of France for Ceylon.
After a residence of ten months in this Island, he departed to join his
American brethren in Bombay, and united with them in laboring for
the salvation of the surrounding heathen. Here, after seven short
years, his compassionate Savior drew near, and called him to his rest
in heaven, where we trust he enjoys a happy reunion with her, whose
Christian walk and godlike converse, while on earth, did much to
ripen him for Heavenly bliss.
" Short toils, short woes, loved friends, were thine,
Now, joys eternal and divine."
Note.—- From the Life of Mrs. Newell, by the Rev. Dr. Woods.
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MISS FANNY WOODBURY.
This lady was the daughter of Mr. Isaac and Mrs. Anna Wood-
bury, and was born at Hamilton, Mass., September 10, 1791. In
her infancy, she was dedicated to God in baptism.
Being from her birth of a slender constitution, she rarely enjoyed
good health ; and was often brought apparently very near to death.
When about three years old, her sense of hearing was greatly im-
paired by a fever ; and her deafness, which sometimes very much
increased, was one of her greatest trials through life.
In the spring of 1807, when in the sixteenth year^of her age, she
became a member of Bradford Academy. Here her natural dispo-
sition to acquire knowledge and her taste for books were fully grati-
fied ; and duly estimating the importance of cultivating the female
mind, she improved to the utmost the facilities which she enjoyed
for study. By constant application and great exertions, she secured
an uncommon degree of information, and the advantage of her ef-
forts was manifest in the high refinement which afterwards marked
her mind.
But the improvement of her intellectual powers was not the only
important benefit which she derived from her residence at Bradford.
It was there tnat she was brought to feel that she was a sinner — " that
her heart," in her own words, "was exceedingly sinful and opposed
to God, and her will so stubborn that it would not submit to him."
Her attention, however, had been roused to the subject of religion
the summer before, while at home in Beverly, by an account of the
revival of religion among the members of Bradford Academy, which
she received in a letter from her sister, then a member of that insti-
tution. The narrative of the dealings of God there, brought her to
a deep and solemn consideration of the subject, but it was not till
she herself came under the influence of the same causes, and into
the company of religious acquaintances of her own age, as she did
there, that she secured an interest in the great salvation. "After
this," she writes, "my feelings were changed; I saw God to be
holy, just and good, and as such I loved him." After her return
home in the fall she made a public profession of religion, by joining
the second church in Beverly, of which the Rev. Moses Dow was
pastor. Previous to this, at the time of her being propounded for
admission, she privately made a solemn dedication of herself to God
in writing, using the form of words given by Doddridge, in Chap. 17
of his " Rise and Progress of Religion in the Soul."*
* See Memoirs of Mrs. Ramsay, p. 385.
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On the occasion of her admission into the church, she says in her
diary, under date of Sept. 27, 1807,
" I have now made a profession of the Christian religion, and
given myself up to God in my youthful years. I trust I shall ever
find satisfaction in what I have done. I have done it in the vigor of
health, in the prime of my age. I choose to take up the cross, and
daily to follow the blessed Jesus, rather than indulge myself in
youthful pleasures. Indeed, I have not the least wish for the vain
amusements of life. Religion alone is capable of giving that happi-
ness, which will remain when every earthly comfort fails. If we
are destitute of this, we are destitute of every thing which can ren-
der us truly amiable in life, and happy through death and eternity.
Among those whose friendship she secured in Bradford, was
Harriet Atwood, whom she found of congenial sentiments and feel-
ings, and capable of all the sensibilities and refinements of friend-
ship ; and with her commenced that intercourse of heart and heart,
and interchange of mutual endearments, which . many years and
many vicissitudes served but to cement, strengthen, and improve.
While they continued together at Bradford, they were much in each
other's society — "they took sweet counsel together, and walked to
the house of God in company." After their separation they fre-
quently corresponded, and their intimacy continued till death inter-
rupted it. Of Miss Woodbury's numerous letters to this her dear-
est friend, but one has been preserved, which is here inserted. It
was written after hearing of her determination to devote her life to
the cause of Christ in India.
Beverly, July 7, 1811. — Sabbath morn.
My dear Miss Atwood,
I have just laid down the Memoirs of Pious Women, which I am
re-perusing, for the sake of answering your truly kind and valuable
letter, for which I return you many thanks. Reading the life of the
illustrious Countess of Warwick, in the book above mentioned, I re-
cognized with heartfelt delight the blessed effects of genuine reli-
gion. How does it purify the heart, refine and elevate the affection^
and influence and adorn the deportment ? Let the enemies of our
religion substitute a better in its room, and we will acknowledge they
have done something. But this they never have done, nor ever will
do. How amiable the portraiture, " First pure, then peaceable, gen-
tle, easy to be entreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without par-
tiality, and without hypocrisy." Has this religion, my beloved friend,
a seat in our hearts ? and do we at all times act under its sacred in-
fluence ? Have we imbibed the spirit of the meek and lowly Jesus?
and do we emulate his bright example ? Do our affections, our
hopes and our desires concentre in the unchangeable God ? Have
we risen superior to the puerile and insipid delights of this lower
world ; and learnt with humble Mary, to sit at Jesus' feet, and with
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avidity treasure up his words in our hearts ? Do we possess a faith
in Christ, which is prolific of good works, and an ardent love to him,
as the chief among ten thousands and altogether lovely ? If this is
not the case, an inspired apostle would say of us, " Let them be
Anathema, Maranatha." Let us examine ourselves, and see wheth-
er we be in the faith. Let us bring our views, our feelings and our
actions to that infallible criterion, the word of God, and endeavor to
ascertain whether they comport with what it requires. I am more
than ever impressed with the importance of a frequent, impartial and
critical investigation of our hopes, characters, dispositions, and lives.
T think it would be well every evening to take a retrospect of the
day, and inquire, how we have performed the business of it, what
duties neglected, what mercies received, and what sins committed.
We have a great and arduous work to do ; and our time is short.
We have evil tempers and propensities to subdue, and stubborn wills
to conquer. We have an invisible and malicious adversary ever
ready to annoy us. We have a battle to fight, a race to run, a
crown to win. " The kingdom of heaven suffereth violence ; and
the violent take it by force." It is obvious, our souls' cannot be
saved, and heaven obtained by a few indolent formal wishes, and
heartless duties. No, sedulous care and unremitting vigilance, and
circumspection, are necessary. We must place our whole depen-
dence on Jesus. He is all-sufficient, and, if we repair to him for
grace and strength to do his will, he will not deny us. It is desira-
ble to feel our own helplessness and nothingness, that we may value
him the more, and place a more perfect reliance on his merits.
Sabbath eve. — I have just returned from the house of God, where
I have been indulged with hearing Mr. E. Oh that I could but ap-
preciate my privileges as I ought, and make a wise improvement.
How many of our dear fellow creatures are groping in horrid dark-
ness, destitute of the heavenly light of the gospel, and enveloped in
a gloomy labyrinth of Jewish, Mahometan, or Pagan superstition.
Oh that the Sun of Righteousness would arise, and illumine those
benighted corners of the earth with his benignant rays. I rejoice to
hear there are a few, who are determined to quit their native land,
to preach the everlasting gospel to illiterate, perishing Pagans. I
have been apprised of your intention of going, and wish you had
communicated some of your feelings, as it respects that subject. I
am confident, my dear Miss Atwood, you will sit down and seriously
count the cost, before you make any engagement. You have un-
doubtedly revolved in your mind the trying sacrifices you must make;
the hardships and distresses you must probably endure. If you go,
I hope you will be enabled to do great and lasting good in those dis-
tant climes, and give many a poor native reason to bless God through
eternity that you came among them. When we consider that they
have souls to be saved or lost, we are filled with amazement that no
greater exertions have been made for the promulgation of the gospel
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among them. Surely Jesus has done much for us ; and now can-
not we do something for him ? We should consider no sacrifices too
great to be made, no trials too great to be endured, if thereby we
can advance his cause and promote his glory. " It is the only cause
on earth worth an anxious thought," says the excellent Dr. G. And
what great matter is it in which quarter of the globe we reside, for
an " inch or two of time," whether in Asia, or America, if we can
be doing good? The idea of parting with you is extremely painful;
but, if you go, I shall still have the rich consolation of thinking of
you, and reading your letters, all of which I have preserved. In
imagination I shall often visit Hindostan, and with ineffable delight
behold you instructing the poor Hindoos. I shall participate in your
joys and sorrows, and wish you the presence and the smiles of the
prince of peace. May you live eminently devoted to Him here on
earth, and enjoy an eternity of consummate bliss and unfading glory
with him in heaven.
You will perceive I have adverted to the difficulties and trials,
which you must encounter in your intended migration ; but I hope
they will be no discouragement. No situation in life is exempt from
trouble. I trust you will have wisdom from above, to direct you in
this and every important undertaking. I wish you would favor me
with a visit. I long to see you. You must write. I shall inquire
for a letter from you, when I see Bradford friends, and I hope I
shall not be disappointed. Present my respects to your mother, and
love to all dear friends. While I trust you are all engagedness in
religion, and enjoying times of refreshing from the presence of the
Lord, oh do remember your vile, worthless, stupid friend,
Fanny Woodbury.
When the news of the death of her beloved friend, on a distant
island, reached her, it may well be imagined that no common feel-
ings were roused to action. Her journal records a train of interest-
ing and pathetic reflections on the event, which, after a glance at
the happy and peaceful state of her friend in heaven, she thus con-
cludes.
" Well, my dear Harriet, I leave you there, and when all the
transient joys and sorrows of this mortal life shall cease to interest
me, when my spirit is just ready to part from earth, and commence
its flight through space, may you hail its entrance into that bright
world, where you have already arrived, to spend endless ages in re-
hearsing the wonders of redeeming love.
" Ah, how many fervent prayers have been lodged in the court of
heaven for my dear Harriet, while she was beyond their reach, em-
ployed in cheerful praise. Well, they shall not be lost, if offered in
real faith and sincerity. But though I supplicate for her no more,
yet let me not cease to remember the little mission in which she was
so ardently interested, and which she bore on her heart, when almost
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overwhelmed with personal trials. Let me not forget perishing Pa-
gans, whose hapless state she so pathetically deplored, and whose
immortal salvation she longed to secure. Let me not forget to de-
posit her letters in my heart, as the surest pledge of our reciprocal
affection, and the living transcript of the inward recesses of her
breast. Farewell this theme — I drop my pen and sigh, adieu."
Similar emotions were afterwards excited by the perusal of the
memoirs of Mrs. Newell.
"May 12, 1814. — Last night was chiefly spent in reading the
writings of my departed Harriet, and sweetly melancholy it was to
my soul. " Safe is she lodged above these rolling spheres," far dis-
tant from this land of sorrow and region of death. After many a
struggle and many a tear, she has arrived at the mansion of uncloud-
ed bliss, and peacefully rests in Eden's bower. And does she not
from her golden seat cast a pitying look on her dear Fanny, wander-
ing forlorn in this vale of tears ? Does she not witness the mourn-
ing tears and tender sighs of bereaved affection, and gently whisper,
"Weep not for Harriet, but redeem the time, fulfil your work, and
come and join me in our Father's blest abode ?" O Harriet, my
much loved Harriet, shall our spirits one day meet and be blest with
a friendship, which separation cannot wound, nor death destroy ?
which shall glow with seraphic fire in endless day ? Tossed to and
fro on the tempestuous sea of life, distressed with fears, assaulted by
temptation, oppressed with iniquities, shall I ever find my way to a
brighter world ? O why tarry I here, seeing I groan day after day
over an unprofitable life, and spend my time in vain ? Is not the
hour of release at hand, and shall I not soon drink abundantly of
the wine of my Father's kingdom, and feast on fruit, dropping sweet-
ly from the tree of life ? Haste, my beloved, shorten these inter-
posing days, and receive my parting spirit to thy glorious rest.
"May 13,-^The years that are past arise to my view, and pre-
sent cause for deep humiliation, self-abasement and contrition. Ah !
they are recorded in the annals of eternity, with all their numerous
misimprovements, imperfections and sins. Not one moment of them
can ever be recalled; not one action ever be undone. As I kneeled
before the throne this eve, as usual, I ruminated on what 1 have been
and what I now am, and the tears of sorrow stole gently down ; and
when I was engaged in supplication, I was blest with some fixedness,
ardor and importunity, and found the season grateful to my soul."
Although she had a high relish for social intercourse, especially
for social worship, yet her dearest, sweetest, noblest comforts, she
found in solitude. There, in her beloved chamber, which she seem-
ed to regard as a little sanctuary — there, secluded from every mortal
eye and mortal care, she could most freely and fully enjoy her pen,
her Bible, and her God. Three times a day, like Daniel, did she
retire, to hold sweet intercourse with Him, in whom her soul de-
lighted ; and sometimes she continued the employment for hours.
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When her friends desired an interest in her prayers, she was deeply
impressed wkh the importance of complying with their requests. A
few months before her death, a friend said to her, " I have a cousin,
whose situation is peculiarly favorable to self-examination. Do pray
for him, Fanny, for he is very stupid." About six weeks afterwards
there was some reason to hope that he had found Christ, as his all
in all. It was said to Miss Woodbury, " Have you ever prayed for
him ?" She replied, " I have not once attempted to supplicate the
throne of grace, without pleading on his behalf."
She had a very deep sense of the worth and preciousness of time.
But holy time was in her esteem by far the most precious. Very
few, if any, could more feelingly "call the Sabbath a delight." Not-
withstanding her difficulty of hearing, she had a remarkable fondness
for public worship. To one, who often walked with her to the house
of God in company, she was accustomed to say, when about to enter
the sanctuary, " Now I do hope our souls will be richly fed." "Do
let us hear as for eternity," and the like.
Her religious sentiments were decidedly evangelical. The great
doctrines of the cross were her meat and her drink, her joy and her
glory. She often lamented the abounding errors of the day, espe-
cially that which robs the Savior of his divinity, by reducing him to
the level of a dependent being.
Deeply imbibing the spirit of the doctrines which she loved and
advocated, she seemed constantly to breathe forth love to God, and
good will to mankind. As a child, she was respectful and obedient;
as a sister, affectionate and kind ; as a friend, sincere and constant ;
as a a correspondent, punctual and faithful.
Although, in consequence of her natural diffidence and inability
of hearing, she was in general rather reserved, yet to a few intimate
friends, whom she tenderly loved as the friends of Immanuel, she
was remarkably open and communicative. Of the two principal
characteristics of true friendship, tenderness and faithfulness, it may
be difficult to ascertain for which she was most distinguished. When
about to part with her friends, she was accustomed to give them
some warm exhortation, such as, "Do live near to God ;" " Fray
much and fervent;" "Press forward with all speed."
With regard to the poor, she was by no means disposed to dismiss
them with " Be ye warmed, be ye filled," when it was in her power
to relieve them. So far from stopping her ears at the cry of the
poor, or turning away her eyes from beholding the needy, she sought
them out in their dreary cells, and there she caused the heart of the
widow and the fatherless to sing for joy. Nor was she satisfied with
relieving their temporal wants. It was her ardent prayer and exer-
tion, that they might be fed with the bread of life, and clothed with
the garments of salvation.
The sick and the afflicted had a share in her tender sympathies;
and it was her melancholy delight to visit, assist, and console them.
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She was a striking example of industry and economy. A large
part of her time was spent in discharging the duties of the domestic
circle. When her eyes were occupied with reading, her hands were
generally employed to some useful purpose. Like Dorcas, she made
garments for the poor. After her death, several garments, suitable
for the approaching season, were found, which she had carefully pre-
pared, and laid by for distribution. Almost the whole of what she
bestowed in charity was the fruit of her own industry. She often
expressed her astonishment, that Christians would suffer so much of
their time to be lost in idleness ; adding, that if their own circum-
stances did not require the fruit of their labors, the poor were ever
needy.
The extension of Christ's kingdom was a subject which peculiarly
affected her heart. To hear of a revival of religion, was to her like
life from the dead. The poor heathen were much upon her mind.
She took a very lively interest in exertions, to spread the gospel, and
evangelize the world.
Perhaps the most remarkable trait in her character was a realizing
sense of future scenes ; especially during two or three of the last
years of her life. It really seemed, that the world was dead to her,
and she to the world. She manifestly felt, that she wrote for eter-
nity, and lived for eternity. Eternity, with all its tremendous reali-
ties, seemed present to her view. It was remarked by those, with
whom she met for social prayer, that she appeared to feel a strong
impression, that her time on earth was short. They observed an
unusual fervor in her petitions. She seemed already an inhabitant
of the heavenly world.
The last passage recorded in her journal seems the aspiration of a
soul already weaned from earth, purified from its corruptions, and
made meet to be a partaker of the inheritance of the saints in light.
" Oct. 2. — Have this day been permitted to sit down at the table of
my divine Redeemer, and again renew my engagements to be his.
But ah, what coldness, what indifference, what amazing stupidity
usurp their sway over my heart, and paralize every rising emotion of
piety. What infinite reason have I to abase myself below all man-
kind, and freely confess, I am of sinners the very chief. I need true
humility, a deep and abiding view of my own depravity, while faith's
enlightened eye fastens on the bleeding Lamb of God, and points to
a region where perfection flourishes in immortal charms. Beauteous
indeed must be that house not made with hands, eternal in the
heavens, filled with holy inhabitants, and abounding with every bless-
ing its maker can devise. May I be so favored as to find some hum-
ble mansion there, when this earthly tenement shall be dissolved by the
chilling blast of death, and sink beneath the sod. O my Redeemer,
be thou my Sun to illumine my path through this benighted world,
and to gild the lonely vale of death with some heavenly ray. Let
the precious blood with which thou didst once crimson the rugged
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nails and accursed cross, be efficaciously applied to my polluted soul,
that it may be a temple fit for thee. Come, my Savior, remove
this interposing veil, and disclose to me those bonndless charms of
thine, which inflame the bosom of the most exalted seraph with ec-
stasy, and tune his heart to celebrate thy praise."
These were, probably, the last words she ever wrote. About the
middle of October she was seized with an inflammation of the brain,
which in a few weeks showed fatal symptoms, and removed all hope
of recovery. On her death-bed her spirit was moved with tender
regard and anxiety for those whom she left behind her, and on this
solemn occasion, feeling that the subjects were too awfully interesting
and affecting to be presented by her verbally, she dictated a farewell
address to all her relatives, friends and correspondents, and to the
church, full of gentle warning, and affectionate counsel, which came
to them like the words of "a spirit already on the wing for immor-
tality."
Through the whole course of her very distressing sickness her
appearance was such as we might reasonably expect from a person of
her character. It is thought that very few have ever exhibited clearer
evidence of living the life, and dying the death of the righteous.
From " the writings of Miss Fanny Woodbury ; selected and edited by the Rev,
Joseph Emerson, of Beverly."
439
MRS. SUSAN HUNTINGTON.
Mrs. Susan Huntington was a daughter of the Rev. Achil-
les Mansfield, of Killingworth, in the State of Connecticut. In
this place her father was ordained to the ministry of the Gospel in
the year 1779, and continued the Pastor of the First Church until
death closed his labors in 1814. This gentleman was a native of
New Haven, a graduate of Yale College, and a respectable, useful,
and much esteemed minister of Christ ; and for many years previous
to his death, was a member of the Corporation of the College at
which he had received his education. On the maternal side, Mrs.
Huntington was descended from that pious man, so illustrious in the
annals of the New England churches, the Rev. John Eliot of
Roxbury. Mass., who will bear, to future ages, the honorable title
of "the Indian Apostle." Mrs. Mansfield was a daughter of Jo-
seph Eliot of Killingworth, whose father, Jared Eliot, D. D.,
minister of Killingworth, was a son of the Rev. Joseph Eliot, of
Guilford Conn., and grandson of the venerable John Eliot of Rox-
bury.
Susan Mansfield was the youngest of three children. She
was born January 27, 1791. Her childhood was marked by sensi-
bility, sobriety and tenderness of conscience, and a taste for reading.
Her education was chiefly, under the paternal roof, and at the com-
mon schools in her native town. The only instruction she received
from any other source, was at a classical school kept in Killingworth,
during two seasons. Her parents, however, devoted much of their
time and attention to her instruction. And as her constitution was
delicate from infancy, she was suffered to gratify her inclination, in
devoting most of her time to the cultivation of her mind, by reading
and efforts at composition.
In reference to the formation of her religious character, a friend
of her youth remarks in a letter to the compiler, "blessed as she
was with a tenderness of conscience, very, unusual from her earli-
est years, which was exhibited in all her intercourse, at home and
abroad, and with the faithful instructions of her parents, who were
living examples of what Christians ought to be, and were constantly
endeavoring to instil into the minds of their children sentiments of
piety, of the deepest reverence towards God, of love to the Savior,
and of universal benevolence and good will towards men — it is diffi-
cult to fix on any precise time when her serious impressions com-
menced. She appeared to have been, in a measure sanctified from
her birth, and from the first dawn of reason, to need only to be in-
formed what her duty was, to perform it." There is evidence, how-
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ever, that, for a time at least after she was capable of understanding
her duty and her obligations to God, her heart was not devoted to
him. In a letter to her son dated Jan. 13, 1823., she speaks of hav-
ing a distinct remembrance of a solemn consultation in her mind,
when she was about three years old, whether it was best to be a
Christian then, or not, and of having come to the decision that it
was not. But the God to whom she had been dedicated, and whose
blessing her parents had so often and fervently supplicated in her be-
half, did not suffer her long to rest in this sinful determination.
When about five years of age, she was brought by the Holy Spirit
to consider the duty and consequences of becoming a Christian, in-
deed more seriously, and in the opinion of her parents and of other
pious acquaintances, to choose God for her portion. Of the correct-
ness of this conclusion of her parents and friends she always enter
tained doubts, and regarded a season of deepest, and in her view,
more scriptural, religious impression, when about ten years of age,
as the commencement of holiness in her heart. She made a public
profession of her faith in Christ, and joined the church of which her
father was pastor, on the 19th of April, 1807; having just entered
her seventeenth year.
About this time she commenced a private Journal, which was con-
tinued till her marriage, but which she destroyed a short time before
her death. Of her other writings during the period just mentioned,
which were numerous, there remain only some lettters, and a few
pieces of poetry. The following are extracts from the letters of
this early date which the compiler has been able to obtain.
TO A FRIEND AT N. H.
Killingivorth March, 4, 1808.
I have read the sweet little poem,* whose admirable author you
so much admire, and am happy that we are alike pleased with it.
Some of his descriptions are inimitably charming and picturesque,
and some of his observations concerning the ways of providence very
just, especially when he says
One part, one little part we dimly scan, &c.
in which he is condemning us for doubting the wisdom and goodness
of providence. My ideas correspond with his on this interesting
subject, for I firmly believe that
Oft from apparent ill, our blessings rise.
All things, we are assured, work together for good to them that
love God. And as we are ignorant of the manner in which our
heavenly Father is pleased to overrule events for our happiness, it is
extremely reprehensible in us to be dissatisfied with any of his ap-
Beattie's Minstrel.
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pointments. The prayer of the true Christian is, ' make me happy
with prosperity ; but, above all, give me conformity to, and content-
ment with thy will.'
I have been reading Cowper also, and love his sentiments, his ex-
pressions, and his works entire, dearly. Perhaps you will think I
speak with the rapture of an enthusiast, rather than with the reason-
able animation of a reasonable creature. But how can one fail to be
delighted with the mild, delicate and pious sentiments which contin-
ually flow from the amiable author of the The Task ? in all his ex-
pressions he is " simple, grave, sincere ;" his style, alike removed
from the turgid and the weak, and particularly free from that affec-
tation which was his " perfect scorn."
I cannot sufficiently express the value I place upon this excellent
work. Some of his " winter evening" descriptions fill me with plea-
sure, I, in fancy, visit the lonely spots he describes, and wander with
him over each heath and plain. I love the man for his meek and be-
nevolent spirit. His writings are entirely free from that acrimony
(which distinguishes some of the English poets) of satire against any
class whom he disliked.
The intelligence that the Lord is visiting you with the showers of
his grace, and causing the Sun of righteousness to shine on N. H.,
and the neighboring towns, affords me unspeakable pleasure.
If I know my own heart, I ardently long for the universal promul-
gation and reception of that religion which alone can make men hap-
py. And blessed be the God of mercies ! he will not leave his work
unfinished. I rejoice that so many are hopefully turned from dark-
ness to light. May this happy state of things long continue, and
your light shine more and more unto the perfect day.
TO MISS L. AT NEW HAVEN.
Killingworth, Sept. 21, 1808.
In writing to you, my dear M., I shall, with a confidence which
our friendship justifies, throw away all unnecessary reserve, and use
the freedom of a friend and sister. In communicating every inci-
dent which is interesting to me, and seeking in you, when I am in
trouble, that sympathy and consolation which I hope to find in one
whose mind is so congenial with my own, I shall enjoy your society,
though I am separated from you. And in such correspondence — ■
which it is my wish may be maintained between us while life shall
last — we shall find much pleasure, and, I hope, some profit. When
I go to Boston, I do not expect to have any regular correspondent
but you ; as other necessary and unavoidable engagements will prob-
ably, prevent my retaining more than one. I shall therefore wish
you to write me frequently, that we may not cease to think of and
love each other.
I received a letter last week from Gen. Huntington. He informs
me of the melancholy death of his daughter-in-law, at N., of whom
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you have heard me speak in terms of affection and admiration. She
was one of the excellent of the earth ; an ornament to her sex, and
to the religion of Christ. Her usefulness here is now at an end.
God had prepared her for glory, and he has taken her to himself.
In the misdst of life we are in death. Oh ! that we, my dear M.,
would learn to consider ourselves as pilgrims and strangers on the
earth, and to live with a constant reference to eternity ; that when the
solemn hour of death shall come, we may
look back on every sorrow past,
And meet life's peaceful evening with a smile.
TO A FRIEND AT N. Y.
Killingworth; February 19, 1809.
What, my dear N., would be our sensations did we suppose, like
many learned infidels, that this narrow sphere of being was the whole
of our existence ? Dreadful indeed would be the thought ; that man
was destined only to tread for a few short days this speck of crea-
tion, and then sink to nought ! What could ever have induced cul-
tivated and aspiring minds, to imbibe notions so degrading to our
nature as these ; notions which make us but a little higher than the
beasts that perish, and which preclude all desires and exertions for
nobler joys than those of time and sense ? Futurity is the Chris-
tian's hope. In the gospel, life and immortality are brought to light.
Death shall be swallowed up of victory. Then grace shall be per-
fected, and glory consummated. Then shall we know even as we
are known ; whatever appeared mysterious and incomprehensible to
our finite capacities, shall be elucidated ; God will be seen to have
done all things well, and to be just in justifying them that believe.
On the eighteenth of May, 1S09, Miss Mansfield was married
to the Rev. Joshua Huntington, son of Gen. Jedidiah Hunt-
ington of New London, Conn., and junior pastor of the Old South
Church in Boston, Mass., which became, immediately after, the place
of her residence.
The letter, of which the following is an extract, was written soon
after her removal to Boston.
TO A SISTER-IN-LAW, AT N. L.
Boston, May 30, 1809.
Our ride was very pleasant. I am delighted with the country
around Boston, and think the town is handsomely situated, and I
doubt not I shall be pleased with the inhabitants. But, my dear
friend, flattering as is the prospect before us, I cannot contemplate
the responsibility of the station in which I am placed, its total dissim-
ilarity to that to which I have been accustomed, and the arduous du-
ties resulting from it, together with my own inability to perform them
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as I ought, without feeling a degree of anxiety lest 1 be found wholly
unqualified for the situation. Did I not believe that the bounds of
our habitations are not accidental, but determined by the providence
of God, I should sink under the weight of responsibility which now
rests upon me. But I do believe that the Lord has placed me here;
he it is who calls me to the arduous duties in which I am now to en-
gage, and I desire — I think I feel in some degree enabled, to trust in
him for wisdom and strength to guide and sustain me.
I have as yet seen but few of Mr. H.'s congregation. But, if I
may form a judgment from those who have called, I think I shall find
among them many who cherish an ardent attachment to the doc-
trines, and maintain a consistent practice of the duties, of the Gos-
pel, unmoved by the prevalence of error, — many real disciples of
the blessed Jesus. I do not doubt therefore, but I shall be happy,
for it is chiefly the society which renders a place agreeable or un-
pleasant.
In July of this year Mrs. Huntington made a visit to her parents.
While with them, she wrote several letters to her friends in different
parts of the country, from some of which the following extracts have
been taken.
TO A SISTER-IN-LAW, AT N. L.
Killingworth, August 1, 1809.
It is a week to day, my dear E., since I bade adieu to your pleas-
ant town ; and I am the more desirous of taking this early opportuni-
ty to write you, as I suppose you will be anxious to know whether
I reached home in safety. That I left your family with regret, you
will not doubt ; but that the parting would have been so painful as it
was, I could not have imagined. It was justifiable in me to suffer
myself to become attached to you ; situated as I was, it would have
been unpardonable if I had not. But I believe that if we would not
suffer our affections to become so ardent, as we sometimes do, for
those whose society we cannot long enjoy, the separations we must
experience in this life would be far less distressing. Some however
would say, and perhaps not without reason, this would be the philos-
ophy of a stoic.
Our ride was as pleasant as could be expected, and our sail as
agreeable as high and adverse winds would permit. I found our
family well, and happy to see me, and my dear little native village
appeared very lovely, after my short residence amid the noise and
bustle of a giddy metropolis. Did I not believe, with Milton, that
the mind is its own place, and in itself can make every circumstance
and situation, merely temporal, productive of happiness or misery,
and did I not also believe the more consolatory doctrine, that all
things and events are under the direction of One who cannot err, I
should sometimes be almost disposed to sigh for the solitude to which
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my mind and feelings are so well adapted. But I trust that the sit-
uation in which providence has placed me, if it exposes me more to
temptation than my former one, will also lead me to more watchful-
ness and caution ; and that I shall be enabled to fill properly that sta-
tion which is " a call to duty, not a discharge from care."
TO MISS L., OF N. H.
Boston, January 1, 1810.
Through the kindness of providence, I reached this place in safe-
ty ; and now you doubtless wish to know where and how I am situa-
ted. We have been keeping house seven or eight weeks, and as I
have for company one to whom the management of a family is famil-
iar, I get along very well. Happiness, I find, is confined to no par-
ticular state or place : and I can say with the Psalmist, (I wish it
were with the same pious gratitude,) Goodness and mercy have fol-
lowed me all the days of my life. I also find, as I have always found,
that no situation is exempt from trouble ; and, while surrounded by
blessings which demand my thankful acknowledgments, I see and
feel, in myself, and in those about me, numberless evils which excite
pain, and should produce humiliation. To the soul which can, with
unshaken faith, repose, not only its own cares, but those of others in
whom it is interested, on the arm of Him who is mighty to save, and
which can view every event, whatever be its nature or effects, as ne-
cessary to answer some wise design of providence, nothing can be so
distressing as entirely to break its peace.
The truth of this remark is, I think, evinced by the conduct of
some Christians in this place, who, though they mourn the sad de-
clension of vital piety here, are filled with joy and confidence in God,
and feel that, should the times grow darker and darker, they could
still trust in Him who is able to dispel the clouds of ignorance and
sin which hang over us, and cause the righteousness of Zion to go
forth as brightness, and the salvation thereof as a lamp that burneth.
Nor does the persuasion that when God sees it most for his glory to
pour out his Spirit upon us he will do it, lead them to indulge in su-
pineness and indifference in requesting it and using the means to ob-
tain it ; for they remember that the promise is made to those who
ask and knock and seek and strive, and that God has said he will be
inquired of by the house of Israel to do these things for them. I be-
lieve, however, that this high degree of grace is acquired, and retain-
ed without interruption, by very few ; though it is the duty, and, but
for our wickedness, might be the privilege, of all believers to acquire
and preserve it.
When are S. and E. to be married ? Dear girls ! I hope they will
be happy in this state, which must be very happy, or very miserable.
I am no advocate for cold esteem only, between those who are to
live together, and in so close a connexion, through life. But I be-
lieve extravagant, misjudged attachment misleads more than that of
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an opposite character. If the understanding and judgment condemn
what the passions only approve, and if this is the substance of the
love which is to unite husband and wife, there is great danger of its
proving like a fire of dry stubble, which, though it may burn to the
skies for the present moment, soon dies away, to be enkindled no
more.
TO A FRIEND AT
Boston, August 15, 1811.
It gives me great pleasure, my dear friend, to learn that you are
so well pleased with your new situation, and that your society are so
well pleased with you ; which I learned from a friend of yours.
The approbation of those with whom you are connected, is desira-
ble, if it does not interfere with, or divert us from duty. Our influ-
ence depends upon the opinion others entertain of us; and influence,
rightly used, may promote the glory of God and the best interests of
men. I have no doubt but my dear will improve every advan-
tage she may have from the estimation of her friends, to advance His
kingdom and cause, to whose glory our every talent should be devoted.
The wife of a clergyman is more narrowly watched, than almost any
one else. Her deviations from duty are very seldom overlook-
ed ; her opinions are minutely examined and often repeated. She
is thought to take her notions of things to a considerable extent,
from her husband ; and of course he suffers if she is imprudent.
When I reflect on the responsibilities of this situation I tremble ; and
should faint, had not One, whose strength I sometimes feel as if I
could lay hold upon, said, " my grace is sufficient for thee."
TO MISS L., OF N. H.
Boston, March 20, 1812.
It will give you pleasure to hear that for some time before the birth
of my child, I enjoyed a degree of spiritual comfort scarcely ever
felt before — not as high overflowings of natural feeling, but a sweet
and delightful calm, arising from the consciousness of the infinite in-
tegrity, faithfulness, holiness and goodness of God ; and that these
feelings were continued, for the most part, during my sickness. I
am only astonished, and I hope grieved, that 1 love and serve the
blessed Jehovah no better. When I reflect on his unbounded good-
ness to me who deserve nothing, on the infinite excellence and holi-
ness of his character, and my obligations as a ransomed sinner and
a lawful subject, I wonder at myself; I wonder that heart, soul and
life, and all, are not unreservedly yielded to Him who deserves more
than I can give. Oh, my friend, remember me at the throne of
grace. Pray that my soul may not be, as it were, the grave of
God's mercies ; that I may not be entirely dead in the vineyard
of my gracious Lord, who has, as I humbly trust, redeemed me to
God by his own precious blood. How sweet a passage is this, " the
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love of Christ constraineth us, &c"? How desirable to be thus con-
strained to live, not to ourselves, but to Him who died for us and rose
again ?
In May of this year Mrs. Huntington commenced a second Jour-
nal, which was continued till near the time of her death, and has
been preserved.
Her motives in commencing this record of the Lord's dealings
with her, are thus stated by herself, in an introductory paragraph :
" having of late been impressed with a conviction of the expediency
of taking down written memorials of special mercies, I shall, from
this time forward, endeavor to do it. My reasons for it are these,
1. The remembrance of mercies will lead me to extol the goodness
of God. 2. I shall always have them before me as delightful incite-
ments to duty. 3. Such a remembrance will lead me to trust in
God in seasons of doubt and distress. 4. It will ever shew me the
weakness and wickedness of yielding to despondency, my besetting
sin. And, oh ! may the record of the gracious dealings of my
God ever serve to quicken, enliven and encourage me and make me
faithful, for Christ's sake, Amen."
In the subsequent part of these Memoirs, extracts will be made
from this Journal, and from her letters, promiscuously, in the order
of their respective dates, without any other distinction than the mode
of entering them, which will at once indicate to the reader from
which they are taken.
March 21, 1812. — Deeply impressed with a sense of the vast im-
portance of a mother's duties, and the lasting effect of youthful im-
pressions, 1 this day resolve to endeavor, at all times, by my pre-
cepts and my example, to inspire my children with just notions of
right and wrong, of what is to be avoided and what pursued, of
what is sacredly to be desired, and what unreservedly deprecated.
And, as my firm opinion is that we are formed to glorify God, and
that to enjoy him is our highest happiness, I will endeavor, by a life
corresponding with this belief, to convince my children that God's
glory is my ultimate aim in all that I do, and the enjoyment of him
my most ardent desire, my unremitted pursuit, and my unspeakable
comfort. I will endeavor, by avoiding all superfluous concern about
dress, furniture, worldly accomplishments, &c, not to counteract
my precepts, and thus inspire my children with the idea that, what
I say, I think the highest good, I really view but as a secondary con-
sideration ; to act uniformly as if a desire after the one thing need-
ful, was an abiding, influential principle in all my conduct and pur-
suits. May God give me grace to keep these resolutions !
23. — Indulged in many anxious anticipations. Did not sufficiently
realize that all is at the disposal of a Being of infinite wisdom, and
was therefore careful about many things. Well might the prophet
say, " thou wilt keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on
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thee." The doctrines of the holy Scriptures are calculated to main-
tain the soul in uniform serenity. It is our unbelief that counteracts
their influence. Oh ! for grace to view futurity as the only consum-
mation of life and happiness, and to see that every, thing, however
to present gratification, has an ultimate reference to it, that there
is a " need be" for all these things, and that the time is coming when
every dark providence shall be cleared up, and it shall be made
manifest that every event of this mortal state has been necessary in
the great operations of the director of all things, to perfect the work
of redeeming grace ! how sweet it will be to trace the blessed con-
catenation of causes and effects, and give glory to him who hath in
all things made us more than conquerors !
Oh, may I bear some humble part
In that immortal song!
Wonder and joy shall fill my heart,
And love inspire my tongue.
January 22. — When I hear females, as I sometimes do, depreca-
ting the connectedness of domestic life, and eagerly panting after the
employments and publicity of philosophers, statesmen and legislators,
I am led to think that my life, in the little sphere of my family, must
be more varied than theirs, or they could not consider the duties of
the domestic circle as unimportant, or devoid of excitements. It is
true, if the meed to be obtained were mere human applause, the fe-
male part of the world would have but little opportunity to shine ;
and might justly complain of the narrowness of their sphere, and the
insignificance of their lot. But when it is considered that the qual-
ity of actions is determined by God, and that, in his view, the per-
son who tears from his bosom a right-hand sin, or performs a self-
denying duty, is greater than the hero or the conqueror, considered
only as such ; how is the case altered ? how does it dignify any sta-
tion which is calculated to produce these effects ? The woman,
therefore, who complains of the obscurity of her condition, feels and
talks like a heathen. She virtually professes to value the praise of
men more than the praise of God ; and is likely, by her impiety and
folly, to forfeit both. In performing the duties of private life, no
Christian will have reason to complain that he has not sufficient ex-
citement to duty, or sufficiently numerous calls for the use of all his
intellectual and moral powers. The various and complicated vexa-
tions and trials, pains and sufferings, privations and disappointments,
which perpetually occur in the best organized and most favored fam-
ily, are enough to convince him, that there is no time to sleep, that
much is to be done, and that he has need of all his strength and wis-
dom to decide, and resolve, and act. If the end of all that we set
ourselves about ought to be to mend the heart, (and no Christian will
deny that it ought ;) what situation is so favorable for this, as that
which teaches the soul what are its besetting sins, and offers no il-
lusive temptations to self-delusion, no poisonous reward to virtues
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which our consciences tell us are defective at the core ? The nat-
ural effect of public applause is to produce self-ignorance and decep-
tion, for the standard of morals is extremely low and defective in the
world; and the popular man will give himself credit for virtues
which, either are worthless in the sight of God, or he does not pos-
sess. How awful, when death shall turn him from the decisions of a
world blind and partial, to Him who looketh on the heart ! Oh, that
in humility of mind, I may ever prefer that condition which leads me
to the most intimate knowledge of myself! that I may be enabled to
profit by such a knowledge, and rejoice to become nothing that God
may be all in all.
February 7. — There is scarcely any subject concerning which I
feel more anxiety, than the proper education of my children. It is
a difficult and delicate subject ; and the more I reflect on my duty
to them the more I feel how much is to be learnt by myself. The
person who undertakes to form the infant mind, to cut off the distorted
shoots, and direct and fashion those which may, in due time, become
fruitful and lovely branches, ought to possess a deep and accurate
knowledge of human nature. It is no easy task to ascertain, not on-
ly the principles and habits of thinking, but also the causes which
produce them. It is no easy task, not only to watch over actions,
but also to become acquainted with the motives which prompted
them. It is no easy task, not only to produce correct associations,
but to undo improper ones, which may, through the medium of those
nameless occurrences to which children are continually exposed,
have found a place in the mind. But such is the task of every moth-
er who superintends the education of her children. Add to this the
difficulty of maintaining that uniform and consistent course of con-
duct which children ought always to observe in their parents, and
which alone can give force to the most judicious discipline ; and,
verily, every considerate person must allow, that it is no small mat-
ter to be faithful in the employment of instructors of infancy and
youth. Not only must the precept be given, Love not the world ;
but the life must speak the same. Not only must we exhort our in-
fant charge to patience under their little privations and sorrows, but
we must also practice those higher exercises of submission which,
they will easily perceive, are but the more vigorous branches of the
same root whose feeble twigs they are required to cultivate. Not
only must we entreat them to seek first the kingdom of God, but we
must be careful to let them see, that we are not as easily depressed
by the frowns, or elated by the smiles, of the world, as others. In
short, nothing but the most persevering industry in the acquisition
of necessary knowledge, the most indefatigable application of that
knowledge to particular cases, the most decisive adherence to a con-
sistent course of piety, and, above all, the most unremitted supplica-
tions to Him who alone can enable us to resolve and act correctly,
can qualify us to discharge properly the duties which devolve upon
every mother.
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June 4. — Yesterday I went to the meeting at Mrs. M.'s* as usu-
al, but was in a very stupid frame. I did not feel a sense of the
divine presence, or scarcely any desire to seek it. Jn the night I
awoke about two o'clock ; and was led, first, to reflect on my insen-
sibility, the preceding day ; and then, on the sufficiency of Christ to
atone for my sins, and strengthen me for the future day. I did not
have as deep a sense of my guilt as I desired ; but I seemed to feel
sensibly what I ought to be — that I ought to live for God, that I ought
to maintain a constant spirit of prayer, for myself, my children and
this miserable world ; and it seemed as if I could get up and go to
work, to some purpose, about my Master's business. Oh, it is de-
lightful to feel as if the first wish of our hearts was to fulfil the great
purpose of our existence, as if we had caught something of the spirit
of the heavenly world, and desired principally to be, and do, and suf-
fer, just what God pleases.
Oct. 25. — What a delicate office is that of a mother ! How wa-
ry should be her footsteps, how spotless her example, how uniform
her patience, how extensive her knowledge of the human heart, how
great her skill in using that knowledge, by the most vigilant and stren-
uous application of it in every variety of occurring circumstances, to
enlighten the understanding and reform the heart ! Legislators and
governors have to enact laws, and compel men to observe them ;
mothers, have to implant the principles, and cultivate the disposi-
tions, which alone can make good citizens and subjects. The form-
er have to exert authority over characters already formed ; the lat-
ter, have to mould the character of the future man, giving it a shape
which will make him, either an instrument of good to the world, or
a pest in the lap of society. Oh that a constant sense of the impor-
tance and responsibility of this station may rest upon me ! that grace
may be given me faithfully to discharge its difficult duties !
November 5. — What a great, what a blessed thing, to be a Chris-
tian indeed ! Surely, after evidence of having attained this glorious
character I do pant and strive. I would rather be a Christian than
the monarch of the world. That blessed name embraces and sup-
poses principles more elevated, and joys more exalted, than all oth-
er names combined. Men may talk of honor, of integrity, and of
moral rectitude ; they may dream of pleasure, and follow the phan-
tom till they die ; but the Christian alone possesses dispositions cal-
culated to make us either truly good or truly happy. So long as
man is supremely bent on his own interests, his morality must be de-
fective. None but a principle embracing universal good, and loving
supremely what is supremely excellent, will do for creatures formed
for happiness; for in loving ourselves supremely we love what is in-
* A stated female prayer meeting- established in 1741, and continued to the pres-
ent time. See Memoirs of Mrs. Abigail Waters.
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finitely unlovely ; and in seeking our own interest as our highest end,
we virtually take up arms against all that is excellent in the universe.
Oh for the precious spirit of the Gospel, which makes us willing to
be nothing ourselves, that God may be all in all.
TO A SISTER-IN-LAW, AT N. L.
Boston, .April 22, 1814.
Have you seen the Memoirs of Mrs. Harriet Newell ? It is a very
interesting book. Such unreserved and disinterested devotedness
to the cause of Christ, in so young a person, appears very extraor-
dinary in these times of religious indifference and sloth. There was
an elevation and spirituality in her character, seldom met with at the
present day. No one can help admiring her excellence. Christians
will be humbled by its contemplation, and stimulated to greater ac-
tivity in the service of Christ.
June 19. — My friends are very desirous that I should take a jour-
ney into Connecticut for my health, under the protection of an ac-
quaintance who is going on in an empty carriage. The prospect of
leaving my children is distressing. Dear little creatures ! they cling
to me with the utmost tenderness. I sometimes feel it to be myste-
rious that 1 should be, to such an extent, disqualified, by the fee-
ble state of my health, to do my duty to them, when those duties
are so important. But I do not complain, for it is God who orders
it thus. If he were to deal with me according to my deserts, I
should be swept away with the besom of destruction. I long to
have no will of my own ; to live as an humble child at the feet of
Jesus. God is wise, and righteous and good. I commit my way
unto him.
July 4. At Killingworth, Conn. — O God, my soul is bowed down
to the dust under this burden of sin ; a grievous load, too heavy to
be borne ! Oh, who shall deliver me from the body of this death ?
Thou blessed Jesus, who art able to bruise sin and Satan under my
feet, I fly to thee ! I humbly implore thy aid, to strengthen me to
perform and keep this resolution which I this day make. I solemn-
ly resolve to endeavor, in the strength of the Lord, to be more
watchful over myself, to maintain a constant sense of the divine pres-
ence, to take time to meditate, and think how Jesus would have act-
ed in my situation, before I act, that I may not rashly say or do those
things which, afterwards, I could weep the bitterest tears to recal.
Blessed Redeemer, do thou assist me ; or rather, do thou work by
me and for me, or I shall be swallowed up in the mighty flood of cor-
ruption which threatens to overwhelm me. Help, Lord ! or I must
perish !
20. — I am in great distress. My dear father is apparently on the
brink of the grave, with a dreadful fever. My hand trembles so I
can scarcely write. It seems as if my feeble frame could not sup-
port me through the trial. Dearest of earthly friends, husband and
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children excepted ! Were it not for the consolation of knowing that
God reigns, what should I do ? Heaven spare him ! Heaven prepare
us, and especially my dear mother, for what is before us ! Heaven
support me, or 1 shall not bear the trial which God seems about to
send !
22. — The conflict is over. My dear father, who loved me as
himself, is gone, never to return ! I may say, with the Apostle, I am
"troubled, but not forsaken ; cast down, but not destroyed." But
the wound is deep, it can never be healed. Dear man ! I dwell
too much on the merely earthly circumstances of this afflicting event.
I ought to look beyond the veil. His sufferings were great ; it pier-
ces my heart to think of them. But what were they to the glory
now revealed ? Blessed be God for the satisfactory evidence he gave
of preparation for the great change, and for the spiritual comfort he
enjoyed, amid his bodily pains, and in prospect of death ! I would
bow at the solemn rebuke, and say, Thy will be done ! God of mer-
cy, support, comfort and sanctify me !
Aug. 4. — I (eel, I hope, sincerely desirous that this solemn provi-
dence may be sanctified. How can I again, lean upon such a bro-
ken staff as this world ? How can I ever again, think myself secure
in the possession of any earthly good ? Oh that I might feel here-
after, that I am indeed living as a probationer for eternity ! Now I
ought to shake myself from the impure adhesions of this wretched
world, and be more engaged in the work I was created to do. Now
it is high time to awake out of sleep. But I am too much like the
sluggard who is roused by the accusations of conscience, but still
is too indolent to rise. I am clogged, paralyzed, by " this body of
death." I cannot excuse my supineness. I can only cry, God be
merciful to me a sinner ! 1 feel that it is only because Jehovah is
infinite in mercy, that I am not beyond the reach of hope. I have
reason to bless his holy name for the supports he vouchsafed me in
the hour of trial. I think I* had some precious views of his charac-
ter, and of the rectitude of his government; some earnest desires
that my sins, my idols, should all be buried in my beloved father's
grave ; some sense of the evil of sin, on account of which a merciful
God was compelled in faithfulness to inflict so severe a chastisement
upon me. But, alas ! how is it with me now ? My dear husband is
come ; and I find I still lean to the creature, and am wickedly re-
posing on one who, like myself, is crushed before the moth ; one
whom God sent to comfort me, a blessing which He kindly lent me,
but which I, wretched creature ! am disposed to put in the place of
God ! O how treacherous is my heart ! What a miracle of mercy
that my heavenly Father spares so perverse a child ! I can only
bring my soul to the efficacious fountain which grace has opened for
sin and uncleanness. Here must I lie, for it is my only hope.
5. — What a changing, dying world ! How does every relic of
departed joys whisper to my soul, This is not your rest ! On every
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side I behold memorials of my departed father. They loudly speak
the vanity of earthly comforts and pursuits, and bid me lay up treas-
ure in heaven. I hear, and mourn ; but do I hear and profit ?
For us he languished, and for us he died.
And shall he languish, shall he die, in vain ?
September 2. At Boston. — I was quite well when I left Connec-
ticut, but feel, since my return, much that appears wrong at my
breast, and an almost constant pain in my side. At times 1 am al-
most discouraged, and think these complaints will terminate in a
consumption.
I had hoped to have been spared to my darling children ; to have
used my humble exertions to guide their infant minds in the paths of
truth and holiness ; to have watched over their early associations,
and directed those propensities which a mother best understands,
and on the judicious management of which so much of their future
usefulness and happiness depends. I had hoped to have directed
their early studies ; to have put into their hands such books as I
know to be useful, or accompanied with my own observations such
as I know to be dangerous, if they were greatly inclined to peruse
them. I had hoped to have gone with them over the instructive
pages of history, to have drawn their minds from an undue regard
to riches and worldly endowments, by pointing them to the noble
and virtuous conduct of statesman and generals taken from the cot-
tage and the plough. I had hoped to have shewn them, that ambi-
tion is not always successful, that pride is never productive of hap-
piness, that outward greatness does not always involve magnanimity.
And, above all, I had hoped to have shewn them, from the history
of past ages, that the lusts and passions of men produce wars and
fightings, turmoil and misery and death ; and to have drawn them
to behold the difference, manifested in the spirit of the Gospel of
Christ, from this picture of wretchedness and sin ; and thus to have
taught them to cultivate the dispositions which that Gospel requires,
and on which the happiness of individuals and society depends. O
how many ways may the mother seize, to teach the offspring of
her love of the way of truth, which no one else can perceive.
But what if this office of maternal tenderness, dear to my heart
as life, should be denied me ; have I any complaint to make ? no
none. Is not God able to take care of my children without me ?
yes, infinitely able. Let me not then be unreasonably anxious how
it may be with my poor body. God governs, infinite rectitude is
on the throne of the universe ; and why should I fear ? if it is
for his glory that I should live he is able to preserve me ; if it is not
ought I to desire it? oh that I may ever stand in a waiting posture ;
not looking upon this world as my home, but desiring that all my will
should be, that the Lord's will should be done !
MRS. SUSAN HUNTINGTON, 453
TO A SISTER-IN-LAW, AT N. L.
Boston, September 11, 1814.
We have been forming a Female Bible Society here, upon the
plan of the one in Philadelphia, and in consequence of letters re-
ceived from that society. What an honor for us, to be permitted to
be co-workers with God in spreading that Gospel, which bringeth
glad tidings of great joy to this miserable world. And those women
whose whole attention is not necessarily devoted to their families,
ought to embrace such opportunities of usefulness, with joy. How
much do our sex owe to the Gospel. And should we not testify our
thankfulness, by extending its blessings to those who are strangers to
them? were we faithful to redeem the time, we might all do much
more than we do for the promotion of the kingdom of Christ. And
is not the object worthy of such an effort ?
TO A FRIEND AT A.
Boston, January 3, 1815.
Do you find as much leisure for public charities, as you used to
before your marriage ? young ladies should consider the talent which
is intrusted to them of time, disencumbered of domestic cares, as a
precious deposit, and devote it faithfully to the service of Christ.
They may not always have so much influence (though it is far from
being always so) as married ladies, but they have more time and op-
portunity for action, in the various fields of christian benevolence which
it is proper for females to cultivate ; they can do more for the the pro-
motion of the various charities of the present day. Yet our situ-
ation, my dear friend, is not without opportunities for doing good. A
married lady can exert a greater influence in her own family than
any where else ; she may be more useful there than she could be any
where else. It is indeed in a silent unobserved way ; but not on that
account, the less acceptable to God, or the less beneficial to the
world. Besides, industrious women may redeem much time from
their families for more public duties. But in saying what might be
done, 1 condemn myself.
January 5. How difficult, how hopeless is the task of pleasing
every body ! a fortnight since a lady said to me, with a tone and
manner which gave peculiar emphasis to the words, " how is it pos-
sible you can go out so much, visit your people so frequently, and be
engaged in so many charitable societies, without neglecting your
family?" this week a different imputation has been attached to my
conduct. I am censured for doing so little in a public way, and con-
fining myself so much to my family. 1 am accused of want of inte-
rest in public charities, because I give to them so little of my time
and attention. Such different opinions ate formed of the same con-
duct ! but the voice of wisdom bids me, cease from man whose
breath is in his nostrils, and study to approve myself to God. As to
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rny conduct, I am very sensible that I do little good in the world, in
comparison with what I might do. But whether I could, with propri-
ety, devote more time to the active duties of public charities, I have
serious doubts. More of the charity of prayer, to Him who can
effectually ameliorate the calamities of the world by subduing its cor-
ruptions, I might, I ought, to bestow. Alas ! here how I fall short!
but my opinion is, that her^own family has the first claim to the atten-
tion and active exertions of a married lady. So much time as can
be redeemed, (and she should feel it her duty to redeem as much as
possible,) from the ordering of domestic affairs, the care and culture
of children, the duties of personal religion the improvement of her
own mind, and the perusal of works from which assistance may be
derived in the all important business of education, may be, and much
of it ought to be devoted to the duties of public charity.*
TO A FRIEND AT A.
Boston, December 20, 1816.
You inquired, what is my method with my children at prayers,
&c. I am ashamed that you should ask advice of me, who need
counsel so much myself. But if I can suggest to you any new
thoughts, I shall be very glad ; and expect the same friendly office
irom you in return. I begin to have my children in the room at
prayers, within the month after their birth : and they always continue
to be present, unless they are sick, or are excluded the privilege as
a punishment for having been very naughty. It is difficult, when
they are quite young, to keep them perfectly still. But the habit
of thinking they are too young to be present at family devotions, is
a bad one. And besides, if they do not come in, some one is
obliged to remain out with them, and is thus deprived of a precious
privilege and an important means of grace. After they get to be
two years old, and are able to understand the meaning of your con-
duct, if they play, or in any other way make a disturbance, they
may be taken out, and compelled to remain by themselves till the
service is over ; which will generally be felt by them to be so great
a punishment, that they will not soon commit a similar offence. I
would not do this, however, on every slight deviation from perfect
order, as children cannot be expected to conduct like men.
* It may be well to state in this place, that, at the time of her death, Mrs. Hunt-
ington, was a life member of the Female Orphan Asylum, and of the Fragment So-
ciety, a life member, and Vice President of the Graham Society : a life member,
and a director of the Corban Society, and of the Female Society of Boston and vi-
cinity for promoting Christianity among the Jews.; a life member, and the corres-
ponding Secretary, and one of the visiting and distributing committee, of the Female
Bible Society of Boston and vicinity ; an annual subscriber, to the Widows Society,
and to the Boston Female Education Society ; an annual subscriber to, and the Vice
President of the Old South Charity School Society ; an annual subscriber to, and a
Director of the Boston Female Tract Society : and a member of the Boston Mater-
nal Association.
MRS. SUSAN HUNTINGTON, 455
As to government, I have always made it a rule never to give a
child what it is passionately earnest to have, however proper the
object may be in itself; because, otherwise, an association would
immediately be formed in the mind between importunity and success.
Were a child always told, when he cries for a thing, ' You shall have
it when you shew a proper temper,' it would soon learn him to be
reasonable. I think it the destruction of government to be capricious,
to refuse one day, what in circumstances not seen by the child to be
different, is granted in another ; to let fretting and teazing carry a
point at one time, when at another, they would bring punishment.
Children very soon see whether we are consistent; and little deviations
from an established rule, afford great encouragement for the next
time. These little deviations do great mischief, and are often slid-
den into very imperceptibly by the parent, though the child is quick-
sighted enough to observe them.
One thing, my dear friend, I think of the greatest importance,
and that is, that children be made always to mind, and consider the
parent's word as their law. Giving up once after a command has
passed, may lay the foundation, and lead to insubordination as trouble-
some as unconquerable. For this reason, absolute commands should
be as few as possible. I also think it dangerous to play with children
in the way of command, saying do this or that, when you do not
mean that the thing must be done. It weakens parental authoity.
I never like, to tell very small children to kiss strangers, as they often
feel a degree of backwardness very difficult to overcome ; and if
they refuse, it is necessary to pass it over without compelling obedi-
ence, which should not be, or to have a combat with them before
the company, which hardens them to reproof. It is better to say, if
a stranger offers to kiss them and they refuse, and it is thought best to
say any thing, ' Your kisses are of no great consequence, they may
be dispensed with I dare say.' This leads the child to think he is
not of so much importance, as he might otherwise be led to suppose.
It is also very necessary to good government that punishments
should be proportioned to offences. If we make no distinctions be-
tween intentional and complicated offences, and careless inadvert-
ences, the child, by frequent recurrence of these latter faults and the
sharp rebukes they bring upon him, will become so accustomed to
severe reproof that he will not mind it. Tenderness of heart is the
most powerful human engine of parental government; and when
this is lost, it seems to me all is lost, unless the grace of God interpo-
ses. The inevitable consequence of frequent reproof is a heart blunted
in its sensibilities, and unmoved by the parent's displeasure. Of
course, all temptations should, as much as possible, be put out of the
way of children. Many little things should not be observed, which
if you vvere conscious the child knew you had observed, ought to be
reproved. A harsh and angry tone should never be used, unless a
gentle one has previously failed. And I believe, where the authority
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of the parent is early established by the mild and gentle means, to
some of which I have alluded, severe measures need be resorted
to very seldom.
February 26, 1817.- — I never felt as if I had more cause for grati-
tude, than now; every trial is so mercifully tempered. I enjoy the
exhibitions of reason in my other children a thousand times more
on account of dear Elizabeth's situation. God is very gracious to
me, even in respect to her. She seems to suffer but little, and is
a sweet, quiet child. This heart of stone, this flinty, stubborn heart,
which can requite love so great with ingratitude, is, I think, my great-
est trouble. I shall begin, the sixth of next month which will be
Elizabeth's birth day, to observe a quarterly fast on her account.
March 15. — Heaven looks very sweet. But I am sometimes led
to fear, that such a vile creature, so little inclined to improve under
the culture of the Gospel, can never enter it. Where the christian
religion a delusion, it would be the most blessed delusion that ever
smiled on the heart of man. But it is not, it cannot be, a delusion.
Oh no : blessed be God ! there is an inheritance, incorruptible, unde-
nted, and that fadeth not away, reserving in heaven for those who
obey the calls of his word ; and their afflictions, however severe,
shall all be made to work for them a far more exceeding and eter-
nal weight of glory.
TO A FRIEND IN BOSTON.
Saratoga Springs, June 20, 1817.
We have been brought thus far on our journey in safety. My
health is good, and Mr. Huntington's evidently improving. We shall
continue here a few days, and then set out for the Falls.
In the society of such a place as this, a Christian, while he finds
much ihat is pleasant, sees many things that give him pain. To hear
one complaining of sorrows, for which, we feel, there is a balm which
he knows not of, and another regretting past disappointments, and
vainly promising himself ample remuneration in future gratifications,
when we know there is a hope sure and stedfast of which he is
ignorant, without being able to speak of either, is a revolting to the
spirit of philanthropy as well as of Christianity. He is the wise man
who is able to seize the " time to speak," and employ it properly.
And it certainly argues a criminal indifference to the interests of our
fellow creatures, or a deplorable fear of man, to be habitually and
totally silent on those subjects, in such circumstaces.
TO ANOTHER FRIEND IN BOSTON.
Auburn, June 28. 1817.
We are surprised to find, how universally this State is peopled,
upon this road. It is quite amusing to think, how little I was pre-
pared to find a country, thirty years ago a wilderness, more generally
settled than some parts of our own State, for instance, between Brook-
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field and Northampton. Thus far we have, every mile, seen cul-
tivated lands, fine orchards, and good houses. Many of the buildings
are constructed with a neat and simple elegance, which is very grati-
fying to the traveller. We have been much pleased with some of
the houses of worship. The land appears, generally, to be very fer-
tile, and seems to promise a liberal return for the labors of the
husbandman.
We passed the settlement of the Oneida Indians yesterday. You
recollect that Mr. Kirkland was formerly Missionary among them.
Their present minister is a Mr. Williams, who I hear, is a very wor-
thy man. It is curious to see, how scrupulously they adhere to their
ancient dress and customs, though in the midst of a civilized people.
Auburn is quite a pretty village, something city-like in its appear-
ance. Mr. Huntington has gone to call on the Presbyterian minister,
while I am writing. We are told there is a revival in his congrega-
tion, and that his house is filled, on the sabbath, with anxiously
attentive hearers. As to-morrow will be the sabbath, we expect to
hear him preach, and see his congregation.
Canandaigua, July 2. — I intended to have finished my letter
before, but could not. We were much pleased with the appearance
of the congregation with which we worshipped, at Auburn, on the
sabbath. There is evidently a work of the Spirit among them.
Between forty and fifty have obtained a hope, since the commence-
ment of the revival. The subjects of the work are, as usually the
case, mostly young people. The minister seems to be much engaged.
It was truly delightful to spend a sabbath in such circumstances.
The roads have been so bad the last few days, that I feel quite
fatigued, but hope I shall hold out to the end of our journey.
TO ANOTHER FRIEND IN BOSTON.
Herkimer, July 18, 1817.
Our journey has been a very pleasant one. We have been highly
gratified with the appearance of things, in many parts of this State,
in a religious point of view. We did not expect to see flourishing
churches of two and three hundred members, and to behold the
people flocking in crowds to the sanctuary, three times on the sabbath
in this wilderness, as we had considered it. In many places religion
is almost the only topic of conversation. I was particularly interested
in our visit at Geneva, a most beautifully situated village, sixteen
miles this side of Canandaigua. The good people there, seemed to
think religion was in a dull and languid state among them. But I
thought I found there a great deal of the life and soul of it. Some
of the ladies will I hope, follow our example, and form a Maternal
Association. At Buffalo there is more than a usual attention to
religion.
Buffalo is a delightfully situated place, on the bay, or whatever
else it is called, where the waters of lake Erie enter the Niagara
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river. It is really very pleasant to see such a city-like place, grown
up, as if by enchantment, on the extremity of our western frontier.
There is but one house, a log one, standing now, which survived
the fire two years ago. The whole village besides was consumed.
The people are still rather depressed by their late calamities, and
have been somewhat straitened in building a house for public wor-
ship. They hope to receive some remuneration for their losses from
the government. — Canandaigua is an elegant village ; there is scarcely
a poor house in the place.
TO HER MOTHER, AT KILLINGWORTH, CONN.
Boston, August 8, 1817.
We arrived at home last night, and had the great comfort of find-
ing our dear little ones in usual health ; which is a peculiar mercy,
for I am told, it is quite sickly in town. I hope this will find you
more comfortable than you were when I left Killingworth.* Oh my
dear mother, I did not expect to see you so much altered and en-
feebled. But I hope that God is dealing with you in covenant love;
and if so, all your trials will be the means of fitting you more per-
fectly for the kingdom of heaven. It is a great thing to grow better
by suffering. God sends judgments upon his children, to wean them
from the world and from sin, and to make them more like himself.
I hope you will find that God is an unfailing refuge in every time of trial.
My dear mother, do not be discouraged, but carry all your sorrows
to Him by whose power all things are controlled. He will not suf-
fer you to be tried above what he will enable you to bear. Trust
in the Lord Jehovah, with whom is everlasting strength. Those that
wait on him, shall renew their strength, they shall never faint. Though
he may see that his children need the rod, and, if I may use the ex-
pression in reference to him, be constrained, in faithfulness, to visit
them with it ; yet blessed be his name, to them, he always tempers
the stroke with mercy.
Mrs. Huntington was duly sensible of the high responsibilities of
her station, as wife of the pastor of a large church, and was un-
commonly successful in the discharge of her important duties. She
secured the love of the people, in an eminent degree ; and by her
usefulness in various institutions, in which she was called to take a
part, has left a name that will not soon fade from the memory of those
who knew her value.
But Mrs. Huntington was now called upon by the greatest earthly
bereavement with which she could be afflicted, to leave the relation in
which she stood to them, though she ever after held her place in their
affections and respect. In the autumn of 1819, her husband, re-
* Her mother was at, this time, afflicted with great bodily weakness, and with
unusual spiritual darkness. From theflatter, she was soon mercifully delivered, and
continued to enjoy peace of mind till the close of life.
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turning from a journey to the north which he had taken for his health,
weakened by fatigue, was taken sick on the way at Groton, Mass.,
where he died on Saturday, Sept. 11, 1819.
On the succeeding Monday the mortal remains were interred in
in Boston, with appropriate exercises, and great solemnity. A ser-
mon was delivered on the occasion, by the Rev. Mr. Dwight,* in
the Old South Church; where an immense concourse was assembled,
to express their interest in the solemn event, and to pay a public
tribute to distinguished worth. The clergy of Boston and the vicin-
ity, the members of the church and congregation of which the de-
ceased had been pastor, and a multitude of other acquaintances and
friends, united with the bereaved family and relations in deploring
their common loss, while they praised God for the bright example
of Christian virtue which they had witnessed. The spacious house
of worship where the last sad offices were performed, was so crowded,
that many hundreds tried in vain to obtain admittance. The tokens
of unaffected mourning were so numerous, and so impressive, that it
could not be doubted in what high and affectionate estimation the
character of the departed minister and friend, was held.
In relation to the state of Mrs. Huntington's mind, under this heavy
trial, an intimate friend, who was constantly with her, during the first
week after her husband's death, observes, in a letter to the compiler,
written March 1, 1824, "There was, in her whole deportment, the
most convincing and pleasing evidence of humble, child-like sub-
mission to the divine will. Most of her conversation with me at that
time, worthy of being recorded as I felt it to be, I regret that I am
compelled to say, has escaped my memory. I will, however, add a
few particulars, in the unconnected manner in which they occur to
my recollection.
" I remember asking her, on the day succeeding the death of Mr.
Huntington, if it required an effort to be submissive. She answered,
c I am enabled to bless God, that I have not had to contend with an
unbelieving thought. I would rather have endured the agony of sep-
aration, than that my dear husband should have borne it. I can truly
say, ' Tis the survivor dies.' '
" On another occasion she said to me, "The bitterness of my grief
can be known only to God and my own soul. But I think I can say,
1 Though he slay me, yet will T trust in him,' and can lay hold on
the hand that smites, for support. But, oh the loneliness of widow-
hood ! I am as Peter, sinking in deep waters.'
"The resignation and calmness she was enabled to feel, she
ascribed * to the mercy of God, in answer to the prayers of his dear
people,' many of whom, she knew, constantly remembered her in
their supplications."
Then pastor of the Park Street Church, in Boston.
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But the most interesting and satisfactory details, in relation to this
important period of her life, are found in her journal, from which the
following passage is taken.
" I have long intended, for the sake of my children, to describe
some of the exercises of my mind at the time of my blessed hus-
band's sickness and death ; but have not before felt able to do so.
" The last part of my stay at Bridgewater, I experienced at times,
a peculiar flagging of my animal spirits, and a sense of horror which
can never be described. There was no particular cause for this that
I am aware of. On Saturday, August 28, 1819, I heard that Mr.
Huntington had stopped at Groton, fatigued ; and was not much
alarmed, supposing that he did not come to Boston so late in the
week, to avoid the labor of preaching immediately after so long and
fatiguing a journey ; and, overruled by the solicitations of my friends,
and the consideration of the yellow fever being in Boston, I remain-
ed at Bridgewater until Wednesday. On Tuesday I sat watching at
my window, to see the well known chaise, the sound of which, on
similar occasions, had always delighted me. Toward evening I ex-
pected the stage, and possibly, my husband in it. The stage appear-
ed. Instead of my husband, the driver threw me out a letter. It
struck a pang to my heart. When I had opened it, through the mis-
taken kindness of my friends, I was still informed that " he was fa-
tigued." Distracted with apprehension and suspense, I waited for
morning ; and, at nine o'clock, left Bridgewater in the stage, with a
heart tortured with apprehensions, alas ! soon and certainly realized.
During my ride home, this passage of Scripture was upon my mind,
and comforted me, " All things work together for good to them that
love God." I was feeble, but wished to go to Groton that night.
Mr. assured me, however, that Mr. Huntington was not very
sick. He had seen him on Monday. Miss was with me.
Mr. 's assurance of my precious husband's being only slightly
feverish, had, in a great measure, lulled my fears.
" On Thursday morning I set out, in a chaise, accompanied by a
friend for Groton. During the ride, the first answer of the Assem-
bly's Catechism was strongly impressed upon my mind, "Man's chief
end is to glorify God and enjoy him forever." I felt that, for the
last twelve years I had, in a great degree, misunderstood the great
object for which I was made ; that, if not my chief, a very high end
with me had been, to be happy in my husband, and make him happy
in me. I felt that the highest happiness of a rational mind ought to
arise, from answering the purpose for which God made it; and there-
fore that I ought to be happy in glorifying God, not in enjoying
myself.
" We reached the public house in Groton. I inquired if they
knew how Mr. Huntington of Boston was. The answer was, "Very
sick indeed ; the doctor has been there all day ; he is a very sick man."
My limbs would scarcely support rne to the house. Upon our arri-
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val there, we went into the parlor alone. The first object that met
my eye, was the hat of the blessed sufferer above stairs. It struck
me with fearfulness and trembling, as the herald of death. I asked
for the physician ; and in reply to my agonized interrogation, " Is
there no hope ?" he said, " Mr. Huntington is very sick. I should
have some hope, were it not that all fevers this summer have been
unusually fatal." — The overwhelming agonies of that moment can
never be described. The language of my heart was, { Oh that God
would redeem his life with mine !' The doctor told me I must com-
pose myself, as to see me agitated might destroy the object of my
solicitude.
" Mr. Huntington was apprised, by the physician, of my arrival.
There was an increase of ten to the number of his pulse upon this
intelligence. When I entered the room in which he lay, he was
gasping for breath ; but his countenance glowed with an expression
of tenderness I shall never forget, as he threw open his arms, ex-
claiming, " My dear wife !" and clasped me, for some moments, to
his bosom. I said, with perfect composure, "My blessed husband,
I have come at last." He replied, " Yes, and it is in infinite mercy
to me." I told him, all I regretted was, that I could not get to him
sooner. He said, with a tender consideration for my health, which
he always valued more than his own, " I am glad you could not ; in
your present circumstances, it might have been too much for you."
" From that time, owing to the insidious nature of his disease, I had
considerable hope. I had seen him. I was with him. He was as
sensible of my love, and of my attentions, as ever ; and I could not
realize the stroke which was impending. Never shall I remember,
without gratitude, the goodness of God in giving me that last week
of sweet, though sorrowful, intercourse with my beloved husband.
" The days and nights of solicitude drew near a fatal close. I
could not think of his death. At that prospect, nature revolted. I
felt as if it would be comparatively easy to die for him. But the
day before his death, when all spoke encouragement, I felt that we
must part. In the bitterness of my soul, I went into the garret. It
was the only place I could have without interruption. Never shall I
forget that hour. Whether in the body or out, I could scarcely tell.
I drew near to God. Such a view of the reality and nearness of
eternal things, I had never had. It seemed as if I were somewhere
with God. I cast my eye back on this life, it seemed a speck. I
felt that God was my God, and my husband's God ; that this was
enough ; that it was a mere point of difference, whether he should
go to heaven first or I, seeing we should both go so soon. My mind
was filled with satisfaction with the government of God. " Be ye
followers of them who, through faith and patience, inherit the prom-
ises," seemed to be the exhortation given me upon coming back to
this world. — I do not mean that there were any bodily or sensible
appearances. But 1 seemed carried away in spirit. I pleaded for
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myself and children, travelling through this distant country. It seem-
ed as if I gave them, myself, and my husband, up, entirely. And it
was made sure to me, that God would do what was best for us.
" From that time, though nature would have her struggles, I felt
that God had an infinite right to do what he pleased with his own ;
that he loved my husband better than I did ; that if He saw him
ripe for his rest, I had no objections to make. All the night he was
exercised with expiring sufferings, and God was pouring into my soul
one truth and promise of the gospel after another. I felt it sweet for
him to govern. There was a solemn tranquillity filled the chamber
of death. It was an hour of extremity to one whom Jesus loved. I
felt that He was there, that angels were there, that every agony was
sweetened and mitigated by One, in whose sight the death of his
saints is precious. I felt as if I had gone with the departing spirit to
the very utmost boundary of this land of mortals, and as if it would
be easier for me to drop the body which confined my soul in its ap-
proach toward heaven, than retrace all the way I had gone. When
the intelligence was brought me that the conflict was over, it was
good news, I kissed the clay, as pleasantly as I ever did when it was
animated by the now departed spirit. I was glad he had got safely
home, and that all the steps of his departure were so gently ordered.
" It would be in vain for me to attempt a description of my feelings
the next morning. I had never seen such a sun rise before. It be-
held me alone. Were I the only created being in the universe, I
could not, perhaps, have felt very differently. I went into the cham-
ber in which he died. There, on the pillow, was the print of his
head. The bed of death was just as when it resigned forever, the
body of him who was all the world to me. His portmanteau, comb,
brush, &lc. lay in sight. God wonderfully supported me.
" But why do I dwell on a description which, even now, is almost
too much for me ? How did God sustain a creature who was weak-
ness itself! How mercifully he has carried me through all my suc-
cessive trials ! Truly it was the Lord's doing ; and it is marvellous
in my eyes.
" And now ; O, how is it now ! Not so much comfort ; laboring
with sin; afraid almost to live in this wicked world; dreading a thou-
sand evils in my present lonely state. But all this is wrong. God
hath said, "Who shall harm you, if ye be followers of that which is
good ?" How kindly my beloved husband used to remind me of this
text."
The few remaining years of Mrs. Huntington's pilgrimage were
years of deep sorrow, but not of despair. The wound made by
this blow of Providence never closed, but her sorrow was not that of
those who have no hope. The consolations of that religion which
had comforted her under former trials were with her still, and though
she lamented she did not repine. In August, 1821, she was called
upon to give up to God her youngest child, a little boy born less than
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three months after the death of his father. And in a fortnight after
the death of her son, her youngest daughter was taken away. Her
own description will give the best idea of her affliction.
TO A SISTER IN LAW AT N. L.
Boston, November 6, 1821.
You wish to be informed more particularly of the circumstances
of my sweet Joshua's death. When I left him on Saturday he ap-
peared as well as usual. The heat of the weather had made him
rather thin and pale ; but he was not otherwise unwell. He contin-
ued well until Wednesday morning, when he was seized with a diar-
rhea. This continued, sometimes apparently abating, till Friday
morning; when it became apparent that his disease was the dysen-
tery. The Doctor came to see him, and advised his removal to
Mr. W.'s, where he could have all my friends near him. I think he
must have fallen away greatly on Friday night, as the doctor did not
speak of him as in a dangerous state, at the time of the visit just al-
luded to. On Saturday morning, the little sufferer was accordingly
removed, forever removed. After he arrived at Mr. W.'s, he was
by the direction of the physician, put in a warm bath. But no one
seemed to be aware of his real situation. Early on Saturday morn-
ing, I was sent for, and arrived at about half past one o'clock in the
afternoon. Light of heart, I sprang out of the carriage to inquire
for my child ; for I had been told that he was not very sick, and his
being at Mr. W.'s, confirmed me in the opinion. Mrs. W. told me
that he was now very sick. Still, however my infatuation prevailed.
I thought he could not be very sick, and be there. Judge then of
my agony, when I entered the chamber, and saw my child, the dar-
ling of my soul, not as I left him, but engaged in his last conflict. I
instantly recognized the hand of death, for I had seen it too often to
be mistaken. Never shall I forget that look. Changed he was, but
beautiful. There was a composed look of meek and patient suffer-
ing; he looked, as if he had quieted himself to die. His little eyes
were already fixed. He did not know me. Oh, what a moment!
about an hour and a half after this, the last struggle commenced. I
took him in my arms ; and in a few minutes, he breathed his last
sigh as sweetly as ever a spirit disencumbered itself of its earthly
habitation ; and before I knew it he was in heaven.
The greatest shock was the first. But my mind was unsettled all
that, and the next day. I hardly knew where, or what I was. So
little sensible had I been, how this darling babe had entwined himself
about every fibre of my heart. On Monday, however, I was re-
lieved and comforted. But that was one of the most solemn weeks
of my life. The strong and intense excitements of it were almost
too much for my feeble frame. So that when Elizabeth was taken
sick, which was on the next Sabbath, I sunk at once. She was soon
released from all her sorrows. And I live to tell the tale — who
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knows how much he is capable of enduring ? I have since spent a
few weeks at Andover, and am now quite well.
Sister Mary's health is exceedingly delicate. Her situation is in my
opinion, very critical. With unwearied care, she may live some
years ; or she may soon be taken from us.
Our family, my beloved sister, seems to be dissolving. God smote
the head when he called your and my dear father, (for I loved him as
a father :) and the shock seemed to extend itself to the branches,
one after another of which has, since that time, withered and fallen.
But how sweet, to be permitted to believe, that, of all the dear num-
ber removed, not one is lost ? all safe, safe forever. God grant that
we may meet them where there is no more death.
During the last two years of her life Mrs. Huntington was troub-
bled with an affection of the lungs from which she never recovered,
and which preyed upon her health almost continually. She lived in
constant preparation for death, and loved life more for the sake of her
surviving children than for her own. In them all her earthly anxieties
centered, and for them she lived, till the summer of 1823, when in
consequence of her taking cold on Saturday, July 5th, her cough be-
came much worse and her disease assumed a more painful and
alarming character.
The change, and her feelings in relation to it, are thus described
by herself in a postscript to a letter commenced June 29th. " Since
I wrote the above, my dear Mrs. S., my health has changed a good
deal. You recollect my troublesome cough. Day before yester-
day, I spit a little blood, and every day since I have raised a little.
A blister and a slight fever have reduced my strength, so that I feel
that I am a frail, dying creature.
Dr. is very anxious to get me from Boston. He hopes a
change of air will benefit me. I hope so too, and think of Connecti-
cut, if I can get there. But, Oh, how lonely I feel ! Whom shall
I look to ? But hush every word that looks like complaining. The
Lord has written me, widow and desolate ; and he has done well.
Oh, for a heart to bless him now, to bless him forever ! I need strong
faith. I cannot write much. You must all love and pray for me.
But we all want love to, and confidence in the blessed God, a thou-
sand times more than any thing else."
A second postscript to the same letter, written by another hand,
and dated " Wednesday evening, July 9th," is as follows, " Dear
Madam. Thus far our beloved friend had written to you. She is
now unable to finish ; and has requested me to do it, and to inform
you of the particulars of her case. It is painful indeed to know it,
but you would consider it cruel to keep you in ignorance of it. Last
evening, and but a short time after she had written the above, she
was taken with raising blood to a degree which alarmed us very
much. The physician took nearly a pint of blood from the arm?
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and she was considerably relieved from the irritation on the lungs,
Another blister has also been applied, and has drawn very well.
The doctor thinks there is no immediate danger, and hopes she will
recover. He wishes her to keep entirely quiet, and not to speak a
word. She is very much exhausted, and the weather to-day has
been oppressively warm. We hope that the means which are using,
will be blessed of Him in whose hand is the breath of every one,
and that this precious woman may long be continued to her children,
her friends, the church, and the world. Many fervent prayers are
ascending for her ; and she will not be forgotten by you and her oth-
er dear friends in Connecticut. She is in a very quiet and happy
frame of mind, sweetly feeling that she is in the hands of her cove-
nant God."
These hopes in regard to her health were not realized. Every
effort which skill and kindness could make, was made, for the remo-
val of her complaint. Prayer was continually offered, by numerous
and ardently attached Christian friends, for her restoration. But
she continued gradually to decline.
In the latter part of August, she was removed to the house of a
friend in the country, about. ten miles from Boston, with the hope
that a change of air and scene might be beneficial. And, for a time,
she was more comfortable than while in the city ; but the progress
of her disease was not interrupted. While here, she wrote two or
three short notes to her children, none of whom were with her. The
following extracts are from one to her son at Andover.
"September 19, 1823.
"My beloved child. Though I am very feeble, I feel a great de*
sire to write you a few lines. My love and anxiety for you, are great-
er than any but a parent can know ; and yet I tell you your faults.
I want you to settle this truth in your mind for life, my J., that he
is your best friend who takes the most pains to correct your errors.
Beware of the person who tries to make you think well of yourself,
especially when your own conscience is not quite satisfied.
20. — Always love your sisters. Consider yourself as, in a sense,
their protector and guardian. Write to them often : pray for them.
You are likely to be left alone in a strange world. So have I been ;
and
Thus far the Lord hath led me on,
so that I have never lacked any good thing. The way has been bois-
terous sometimes,
Cut Judah's Lion guards the way.
And guides the travellers home.
Make this friend yours. — But 1 must close. Love Mr. C, always
love him. He is one of your best friends ; and faithful friends are
not very plenty in this treacherous world, my J. But, oh 1 that I
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could see you securing the friendship of your God. Remember, hh
vows are upon you, and you cannot, must not, go back. Farewell,,
beloved child. The Lord be with you continually."
About the close of the month of September, she desired the phy-
sician then attending her to inform her, definitely and frankly, wheth-
er there was, in his opinion, any prospect of her recovery. His an-
swer was in the negative. She received it, with some feeling, but
with submission, and thanked him for his kindness in being so ex-
plicit.
On the third of October, she was removed again to her residence
in Boston ; and proceeded immediately, to set her house in order,
in preparation for death. She had an interview with the gentleman
who has since, in compliance with the request then made, been ap-
pointed guardian to her children. She saw, or wrote to, the friends
who have kindly undertaken the charge of their education. The fol-
lowing is an extract from one of her letters on this subject, dated
October 20, 1823. " My dear M. How I have longed to see you.
Your mother said you would be here, and I have expected it with
great anxiety. She said you would take S. Will you be her moth-
er ? Will your husband be her father. ? Will you watch over this
dear child ? — Yes, you will, and I shall die easy on this point. God
helps me to trust the promise, " Leave thy fatherless children, I will
preserve them."
" My strength decays. I have scarcely any appetite. But my
Savior lays under me his everlasting arm ; and I trust that all is well,
and will be well forever. Pray that I may have his presence, and
that I may glorify him to the end. Farewell, beloved friend."
During her illness, her pastor had frequent interviews with her.
She at one time, about a fortnight after the first bleeding from her
lungs, had some doubts and fears in regard to the genuineness of her
religious experience. Her apprehension was, that she might never
have been truly humbled for sin. But the feelings which this ap-
prehension excited, were of such a character as to furnish to others,
the most satisfactory evidence of her piety ; as they clearly evinc-
ed a deep and practical conviction, that, without the light of God's
countenance, there can be no real happiness. The cloud was, how-
ever, soon dissipated ; and, from that time till her death, she was fa-
vored with uniform peace of mind.
Her pastor, usually when other engagements did not prevent, made
brief minutes, upon returning home from visiting her, of the conver-
sation during the interview. A few of these, as a specimen, will be
here inserted.
" Tuesday, October 28, 1823. — Called on Mrs. Huntington about
half past nine in the morning, found that she had failed considerably
since my last visit. To an inquiry in relation to the state of her
mind since Friday, she replied, " I think I have felt more of the
presence of Christ than I did when I saw you last. I have not had
MRS. SUSAN HUNTINGTON. 467
those strong views and joyful feelings, with which I have sometimes
been favored. My mind is weak, and I cannot direct and fix my
thoughts as I once could. But I think 1 have fled for refuge to lay
hold on the hopes set before me in the precious Gospel ; and He,
who is the foundation of that hope, will never forsake me." Then,
with a most interesting expression of countenance she said, "I trust
we shall meet in heaven, and spend an eternity in praising our dear
Redeemer." It was replied, " we shall, if we give him our hearts,
and continue faithful to him unto the end." " I feel," she answered
" that I have been very, very unfaithful. But he is merciful, his
blood cleanseth from all sin, and 1 trust he has blotted my sins from
the book of his remembrance. Oh, what should we do without
Christ?" " As much debtors," it was remarked, " to free grace at
the end of our course as when we begin it." " More," she replied,
" far more ; for we sin against greater light and love, after we are
born again. Yes, it is all of free grace. If it were not what would
become of me?" It was answered, "you would have perished,
justly perished ; but now, when you enter heaven, you will stand be-
fore the angels, a monument of God's justice as well as of his free
grace, for he is just in justifying those that believe in Jesus." "Yes,"
she replied ; " what a glorious plan ! what a precious Savior I oh,
that I could love him more ! pray that I may love and glorify him
forever."
" On Friday October 31st, at nine o'clock A. M. found her more
comfortable than on Tuesday last. She said, " my mind has gene-
rally been in a peaceful frame since I saw you. But I want to rea-
lize the presence and preciousness of Christ, more distinctly and
constantly than my great weakness permits me to do." Some re-
marks were made respecting the provisions of the covenant of Grace
as adapted to all our weaknesses. " The bible," it was said, " tells
us that, ; he knoweth our frame, he remembereth that we are dust ;'
'a bruised reed shall he not break, and the smoking flax shall he not
quench ;' ; we have not an high priest which cannot be touched
with the feeling of our infirmities, but was in all points tempted like
as we are, yet without sin. Let us therefore, come boldly unto the
throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help
in time of need.' " She said, " glorious covenant ! precious promises !
I have given myself, soul and body, to Him in whom they are all
yea and amen, and I do not fear. I desire to have him do with me
as it shall please him."
" Friday, November 7.- — To the usual inquiry respecting the state
of her mind, she said, Mrs. Graham accurately describes my feel-
ings, when she says, " thus far has the Lord brought me through
the wilderness, bearing, chastising, forgiving, restoring. I am near
to Jordan's flood. May my blessed high priest, and ark of the cov-
enant lead on my staggering steps the little further I have to go."* I
* See Life and Writings of Mrs. Isabella Graham, p. 161, third New York edition.
468 MEMOIRS, &C.
have had no rapturous views of the heaven to which I hope I am
going, no longings to depart. But I have generally been enabled to
feel a calm submission, and to realize the fullness and the precious-
ness of the Savior. I desire to feel perfect resignation to the will of
God, because it is his will. O how sweet, to be willing to be
just where, and just what God pleases ; to rejoice that the Lord God
omnipotent reigneth, and worketh all things after the counsel of his
own will. This, in its perfection, is I think, a principal source of
the happiness of heaven. Pray that God would enable me to he]
thus while suffering from weakness and pain, and entering the dark
valley."
Frequently, during her sickness, she had expressed to her pastor,
a desire that he would, if possible, be with her in her last moments.
On Thursday December 4th,'^ he was informed, about three o'clock
in the afternoon, that she had failed greatly since morning, and would
probably survive but a little longer. He immediately repaired to her
residence and found her sleeping, but very restless and breathing
with great difficulty. She continued in this state, except that respi-
ration became constantly more difficult, through the . afternoon and
evening. About eleven o'clock the difficulty of breathing became
so great, as to overcome the disposition to slumber. Intelligence, it
was found, still remained. She was asked " if she knew that she
was near her end." She answered by a sign in the affirmative. It
was said, " I hope you feel the presence of the Savior sustaining and
comforting you." She assented. "Your faith and hope in him are
unshaken ?" Her reply was in the affirmative. — A few minutes after,
her sight failed ; and, at twenty minutes past eleven, her spirit enter-
ed into rest.
Her end was full of peace,
Fitting her uniform piety serene,
'Twas rather the deep humble calm of faith,
Than her high triumph; and resembled more
The unnoticed setting of a clear day's sun,
Than his admired departure in a blaze
Of glory, bursting from a clouded course.
From the Memoirs of Mrs. Huntington, by the Rev. B. B. Wisner, D. D., late-
pastor of the Old South Church in Boston, now Secretary of the American Board of
Commissioners for Foreign Missions,
469
xlIISS CAROLINE ELIZABETH SMELT*
Miss Caroline Elizabeth Smelt, the subject of the following
narrative, was born in the city of Augusta, in the state of Georgia,
on the Lord's day morning, December 28th, 1800. Her ancestors,
so far as is known, were respectable. Her father, Doctor Dennis
Smelt, was born in Essex county, in the state of Virginia, on the
23d day of November, 1763. His father, the Rev. John Smelt,
was a clergyman of the Episcopal church ; he was born in England,
educated at Oxford, and emigrated to America in early life, where
he married a lady of Virginia, who gave birth to the Doctor.
Doctor Smelt was educated at William and Mary College, in his
native state. In the year 1786 he went to England, for the purpose
of completing his medical studies; where he remained three years,
and then returned to his native land. The state of Georgia, at that
time, offered many attractions to young men of talents and enter-
prise. Accordingly, the Doctor determined on removing thither,
and selected Augusta as the place of his future residence, where he
settled in 1789. Here his medical skill and industrious attention to
the duties of his profession, soon procured him a large share of pub-
lic confidence, as well as an extensive and lucrative practice.
In the year 1806, he was elected, by his fellow citizens, as a mem-
ber to represent them in the Congress of the United States. After
acting five years in this capacity, he retired from the service of his
country, to repose in the bosom of his family.
In the year 1798 he received in marriage the hand of Miss Mary
Cooper, an amiable and accomplished young lady of Augusta.
Miss Caroline was not the first child of her parents. A son, named
John, was the first pledge of their wedded love. This son afforded
his parents all that happiness, in prospect, which a promising infant
could possibly furnish, during thirteen months. It pleased Him who
"blessed little children," to take this interesting child from his earth-
ly parents, at that early age, to be with himself.
About four months after this bereavement, the hearts of these par-
ents were gladdened by the birth of a daughter ; and this daughter
was Caroline Elizabeth. From early childhood, she discovered
strong marks of an intelligent mind, blended with much meekness,
modesty, and benevolence of disposition. At the age of eighteen
months, she was uncommonly engaging and interesting. She could,
even then, repeat many little prayers with such a distinct articulation
as is not usual at that tender age. When only two years old, she
could repeat a number of short instructive lessons, which she had
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committed to memory, and deliver them with such pathos, propriety
of emphasis, and expression of countenance, as to surprise and grati-
fy all who heard her.
In her eighth year, she was called to experience a most afflictive
dispensation of Divine Providence, in the death of a darling little
sister, who was three years younger than herself. She was greatly
grieved, but displayed much resignation to the will of God ; and di-
rected her sympathy and affectionate condolence, to the consolation
of her afflicted mother. Mrs. Smelt had enjoyed but feeble health
for several years, and her mind had been deeply exercised, in seek-
ing to secure the best interests of her own soul. This bereavement
laid her low in the valley of humiliation. She was visited by many
pious friends and ministers of the gospel. When her mother was
engaged in conversation with them, reading the Scriptures, or other
religious works, little Caroline would give her whole attention to the
subject, and she has since told her mother, that from that period she
dated the first perceptible operations of divine grace upon her heart.
For, said she, " so clear was my comprehension of the plan of sal-
vation through a Redeemer, that I understood it as well, and believ-
ed in it as firmly, at eight years of age, as I do now on my death
bed." She also observed, " that it had often been a matter of as-
tonishment to her, even at that early period, that she should have
had such clear conceptions of a subject which caused so much in-
vestigation and doubt in the minds of older persons." She was al-
ways attentive to religious instruction, and at the age just mentioned
particularly so. Her mother never asked her to retire with her, for
the purpose of private prayer, without finding her ready and imme-
diately willing to attend, let her little engagements be what they
might. She would bow on her little knees, with so much sweet hu-
mility, and so silently and patiently engage in this solemn duty, as to
afford her affectionate mother the greatest delight, particularly when
she could see her, at the close of the duty, wiping the precious tears
from her infantile cheeks.
She was early distinguished for her love of truth ; insomuch, that
she was frequently called upon to decide little disputes in school ; it
being generally admitted by the contending parties, that Caroline
Smelt would not tell a falsehood, even to screen herself from cen-
sure. Her friends have no recollection of her ever having deserved
a reproof for deviating from strict veracity. She viewed falsehood
as one of the most degrading and unprofitable vices, and a very high
offence against Him who knoweth all things. Neither did she coun-
tenance or practice tale-bearing. So far did she carry this princi-
ple, as to suffer herself sometimes to be grossly imposed upon, rather
than make a complaint, lest she might be called a tell-tale.
To her relations she was affable and companionable, while yet a
child ; but her extreme diffidence, or timid modesty, prevented her
from communicating her ideas on any subject, with freedom, except
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to those with whom she was well acquainted. To such she was
tree and communicative, and her conversation frequently afforded
them instruction and delight. Her language was pure ; her expres-
sions select ; and her observations far beyond her years.
She appeared to attach no importance to herself on account of
her being an only child ; nor did she infer from this, that she had
any claim to extraordinary indulgence. On the contrary, she said
" it humbled her; for it became her duty to strive to be every thing
to her parents, that they might not grieve too much after those chil-
dren they had lost."
When she was twelve years old, she was highly gratified by the
birth of a little sister. On this occasion her joy was beyond de-
scription. A certain female neighbor expressed her surprise at see-
ing Caroline so delighted, as " it might have been expected that she
would have been disappointed, rather than pleased, that the child
was not a boy; for now, the little stranger would stand on equal
ground with herself, and her importance would probably be dimin-
ished." She replied, she was very sorry that any person should en-
tertain so contracted an opinion of her heart. She could, with great
sincerity, declare that she was much happier than she should have
been if it had been a boy; and gave her reasons at full length, which
silenced the friend. Some time afterwards she said to her mother,
" Mamma, do you think our neighbor was in earnest when
she gave such an opinion ? I do not approve of jests, at any time?
or on any subject; and I never have taken, nor ever will, if I can
help it, take such a liberty with any one. I am sure I feel so much
gratitude to Providence for blessing me with a beautiful little sister,
that I would be willing that you, even you, should love her a great
deal better (if that is possible) than you do me."
She now proved that she did indeed love living babes ; for greater
tenderness or affection perhaps was never witnessed than she testified
towards this little treasure. But, alas ! in rather less than a year
after its birth, it was called to the arms of that Savior who had con-
descended to bless such little ones while he sojourned here on earth.
This was the second time Caroline had felt the pain of separation
from an only sister ; but her grief was tempered with sweet submis-
sion to the decree of unerring wisdom. She, nevertheless, discov-
ered great sensibility whenever this child was mentioned, and could
seldom suppress her tears on such occasions.
At the close of her thirtenth year, Caroline had attained the stat-
ure of a woman. Being tall and slender, her close application to
study, and the death of her little sister, occasioned her health (which
had always before been good) to become rather delicate. A journey
was advised ; and accordingly, in the spring of 1814 she set out, ac-
companied by her mother, on a journey to New York, to visit a num-
ber of beloved relations who resided in that city. On this journey
she was also accompanied by her cousin, Cornelia Walker, who had
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been as a companion and sister to her, from early childhood. A de-
tail of the incidents which occurred during that journey, will not be
attempted.
They travelled by land ; and before they had proceeded three
hundred miles, Mrs. Smelt had the happiness to see her daughter's
health improving daily. They spent some time, for the purpose of
rest, in all the principal towns and cities which lay on their way to
New York ; but^ made a considerable stay near Richmond, in Vir-
ginia, as they had relations in its neighborhood. The young ladies
were delighted with all they saw. Every city opened upon their
youthful vision, like a new world ; Caroline's health still improving,
and her mind expanding more and more.
When they reached New York, it was about the last of May.
Her friends there considered Caroline's health still rather delicate ;
but her mother regarded it as sufficiently restored to qualify her for
resuming her studies. Accordingly, as soon as she was perfectly
rested, after the fatigue of the journey, Mrs. Smelt placed her at an
excellent school, designing to leave her there a year or two, if she
could receive greater advantages for education in that city than she
could at home. To this scheme Caroline could not willingly assent;
and offered such reasons for her opposition as determined her mother
to bring her home with her.
Having spent eight months in travelling and visiting their friends,
they returned home by the same route by which they had gone ;
after which, Caroline resumed her studies partly under private in-
structors. At this period she manifested an increasing ambition to
acquire literary knowledge, which her mother feared would occupy
her whole attention, to the exclusion of every other consideration.
Mrs. Smelt frequently admonished her, at least to equalize her atten-
tion, and not devote the whole of her time to that, which, however
laudable in itself, she was carrying to an extreme. To this Caroline
would reply, that she was desirous of obtaining all the useful knowl-
edge she could ; that she wished to meet the expectations of her
friends, and to lay up for herself a plentiful store of information while
she was young, and unincumbered with cares or pleasures. She has
since confessed, that the thirst for human knowledge had excited in
her mind so much ambition to be considered learned, and to be dis-
tinguished for her intellectual attainments, that she frequently feared
her desires to be a Christian were suffering considerable abatement ;
that her judgment was not sufficiently matured to enable her rightly
to divide her time ; that she stood in great need of the admonitory
cautions, which she used to receive from her mother, as they gener-
ally tended to humble her aspiring notions, and bring her to serious
reflections. She, at the same time, observed that she could with
great truth declare that she had never felt the least tincture of vani-
ty in her nature, except what arose from the compliments which her
friends had paid to her understanding. "But," said she, "the good-
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ness of Providence soon quelled this foolish spirit, by showing me,
that to whom much is given, of the same much will be required."
And resuming the conversation at another time, she said, " My be-
loved mother, how thankful do I feel that I was brought, through
grace, to see there was time for all things ; that the improvement of
my youthful mind need not exclude piety, but that both could sweet-
ly harmonize ; and every talent intrusted to my care, when properly
exercised, might redound to the glory of God. Instead of being
vain, I now feel a double weight of responsibility ; but I desire that
my friends may never compliment me again ; it may prove unprofit-
able. I would thank them much more, if they would kindly tell me
of my faults. I fondly hope my vanity and foolish ambition were
buried at the same time ; and that too, before any, but a mother's
eye, had discerned them ; but I wish to avoid every thing that might
rouse their ashes."
Thus employed, in pursuing such an education as became her
birth, her fortune, and future prospects in life, she continued to de-
light her parents, and increase the number of her friends, by exhib-
iting every virtue, and performing every filial duty which the fond
solicitude of parental affection could desire or expect from a daugh-
ter of her age, until she had completed her fifteenth year.
She had now arrived at the period when she was about to be
ushered into society as a young lady. Her principles were pure, her
manners dignified, and extremely modest. She was unaffected, in-
telligent, and inoffensive ; graceful, meek, and affectionate. Her
mother saw much to gratify her fond heart, but her mind was not
free from maternal anxiety. The eternal welfare of this beloved
daughter lay near her heart.
Mrs. Smelt had long ere this time cherished a hope that her be-
loved Caroline was a child of grace ; but she now feared that she
might be drawn into various temptations, be allured by worldly
amusements, contract a fondness for gay society, and thereby lose
her religious impressions. She regretted the want of a regular min-
istry. The ill health of Dr. Thompson, who was their pastor at that
time, subjected his congregation to many privations. Therefore, the
only resource of her mother's mind, in her then trying circumstances,
appeared to be a steady application to a throne of grace in her child's
behalf, together with the use of such methods and admonitions as
might appear most proper to counteract the influence of the world.
She was soon surprised to see her daughter show no fondness for
parties of pleasure, and to hear her express great wonder, that ra-
tional beings could be so delighted with them. She several times
observed to her mother, that she did not think it profitable or right
in serious people, to countenance so much folly and extravagance in
what were termed social parties ; and as to her own feelings, she
could truly say they afforded her neither pleasure nor improvement ;
that she enjoyed the society of a few friends around her father's
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fireside, or the perusal of a good book, more than she did any gay
amusement.
Notwithstanding these were her sentiments, she was often allured
to participate in fashionable follies, and for eight months previous to
her acquaintance with the Rev. Mr. J., she had been much engaged
in worldly amusements.
There are, no doubt, many who will ever regard it as a token of
the goodness of Divine Providence, that this ambassador of Christ
was directed to visit Augusta at this time. His visit was short, but
long enough to afford a number of persons an opportunity of becom-
ing acquainted with him, of hearing him preach several times, and
of laying the foundation of a friendship which, it is hoped, will con-
tinue through eternity. He left them in July, 1816, intending to visit
the Western country, and uncertain whether he would return to Au-
gusta. Mrs. Smelt requested an interest in his prayers, but particu-
larly, that he would remember her beloved Caroline at a throne of
grace ; and she felt a pleasing confidence that he did not forget her
request.
Shortly after this, the Presbyterian church of Augusta being then
destitute of a pastor, Caroline retired to the country to spend the
residue of the summer about twelve miles from town. There, in the
society of her sister-cousin, Cornelia Walker, she promised herself
much satisfaction. She had enjoyed this retreat but a few days when
she was attacked with a slight indisposition, but which continued until
the month of October. During this indisposition both her parents
were frequently with her. Her mother observed, with deep concern,
the decline of her Caroline's health ; but neither she nor Dr. Smelt
could discover any symptoms to justify an apprehension of immediate
danger. She was not confined, nor did she complain of any thing
but want of appetite and consequent debility. Her parents knew
her attachment to study, and advised her to exercise more in the
open air ; to put away, for the present, her books, globes, maps, &c.
and to substitute walking, riding, and swinging, until her strength
should be restored. She complied with their wishes, and in a few
weeks appeared considerably improved in health, but not entirely welh
She returned home from the country late in October, her health
being considerable improved, yet still rather feeble. The church
which she had usually attended was still destitute of a pastor. She
was soon surrounded by her gay young friends and an extensive ac-
quaintance ; but she seemed resolved not to be allured into what she
then considered to be criminal amusements, and took a decided stand
against them. Within a few weeks after her return, the Rev. Mr.
J. again visited Augusta, and was prevailed on to tarry there six or
eight months. Caroline now regularly attended on his ministry, and
appeared to grow in the knowledge and love of evangelical truth.
Doctor Smelt's family were frequently favored with the social visits
of their pastor, and a pleasing hope was once more entertained by
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Mrs. Smelt, that her Caroline would soon make a profession of her
faith in Christ. She could seldom prevail on her daughter to con-
verse freely about herself. Whenever this subject was touched upon,
which lay nearest to her heart, tears would begin to flow without one
word accompanying them.
In the course of the winter, Miss Caroline engaged in a Scripture
class, composed of young ladies, for the improvement of their knowl-
edge of the Holy Scriptures. This institution was projected and
patronized by Mr. J., and was of incalculable advantage to Miss
Caroline. During the winter she resisted every invitation and solici-
tation to attend the dancing assemblies, except one; and but once did
she attend the theatre. On her return from the ball she informed
her mother, that she had made a solemn resolution never to attend
another. This she carefully kept, and never did attend another ball,
though she frequently engaged in private parties, but seldom, if ever,
with her own consent.
About this time Mrs. Smelt felt unusually exercised about the eter-
nal welfare of her daughter, and frequently retired with her to hold
secret prayer. She felt oppressed with apprehensions for the life of
her child, and to many of her friends expressed a fear that she should
lose her soon. To one she said, "I fear that the worm is already at
the root of my gourd : I feel an awful presentiment that my Caroline
will descend to an early tomb." To another she said, " O that my
child were but right in the sight of the Lord, I should then feel more
comfortable, and less reluctant to part with her." To a pious friend
she frequently mentioned her apprehensions, and intreated him to lay
her case before the Lord. She saw that Caroline was serious, that
she had very correct views of religion ; was remarkably tender, and
read the Scriptures. She had also good reason to believe that she
was attentive to secret devotion. She listened attentively to pious
instructions, while the tears would flow down her cheeks ; but she
never could draw her out in conversation, so as to obtain a knowledge
of her views as it respected herself, nor could any of her pious
friends succeed any better.
She was asked several times by her mother, why she observed so
much reserve on this all-important subject, and could be so commu-
nicative on any other ? She once replied, " My dear mamma, I have
no confidence in myself; I hope to do that which is right when J
shall have more experience. \ desire to belong to the little flock,
but I am too unstable." On another occasion, she said to her mother,
" I was very much impressed under the discourse of Mr. J. last Sab-
bath, and thought that he was preaching to me exclusively. I felt
very solemn, and made a number of good resolutions, and hoped I
should be enabled to keep them. I thought that I would, and deter-
mined to begin that day. But alas ! I had scarcely left the church
when I was surrounded by a number of my gay young friends, sev-
eral of whom walked with mc, and introduced a great deal of small
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light chat ; and before I reached home, I found all the solemnity oc-
casioned by the sermon so nearly effaced, that scarcely an impres-
sion was left. I feel very guilty as it is, but if I were a professing
Christian, what dishonor should I bring on the church ?"
The winter and spring passed away without any very remarkable
occurrence. One circumstance, however, seems worthy of notice, as
it was referred to afterwards. Some time late in that winter Mr. J.,
accompanied by a minister of the Gospel who was a stranger, came
to Doctor Smelt's house, in order to spend the evening with the fam-
ily. In the course of the conversation, Mrs. Smelt mentioned some
of the difficulties which she had experienced when she was about to
be made a subject of the new birth. Caroline had often heard of
those difficulties before, and always discovered much sensibility on
such occasions; but this evening she appeared unusually impressed,
insomuch that she took no part in the conversation afterwards. Mr.
J. observing that she was dejected, approached her seat, and with
affectionate solicitude said to her, " Miss Caroline, you must not be
discouraged at what your mamma has stated ; the Lord, I hope, will
draw you by the cords of love. Very few experience as severe ex-
ercises of mind as she did." He then put into her hand a small re-
ligious tract, which she read before she retired to rest, and which ap-
peared to comfort her, though she said nothing. Doctor Smelt being
on a visit to a sick lady in the country, and Caroline intending that
night to sleep with her mother, the latter considered it a good oppor-
tunity to converse freely with her daughter on the necessity of ob-
taining a saving interest in Christ. Caroline wept ; they went to
prayer ; she sobbed aloud, but still said nothing. After retiring to
bed, neither of them could sleep until a very late hour.
From this period Mrs. Smelt discovered a great change in her
child. She was often pensive ; attached herself more closely to her
mother than before, and appeared more disgusted with the world than
ever ; more anxious for religious instruction, and more zealous in the
performance of every duty.
Her birth-day arrived ; she was sixteen years old. Mr. J. called
in on that day to visit the family. Before leaving the house he en-
gaged in prayer, and particularly in behalf of Miss Caroline. She
was much agitated, but still observed her usual taciturnity. Twelve
months afterward, precisely at the same hour of the day, he was en-
gaged in preaching her funeral sermon !
A few months before this Doctor Smelt and his family had changed
their residence, in order that their dwelling house might undergo
some repairs. Miss Caroline began to express her anxiety to return
to the house in which she was born. She said she was attached to
every part of it, but particularly to one room ; she longed to occupy
that. Hearing her frequently express a desire to see the house fin-
ished, that they might return to it, her mother one day said to her,
*> What has become of your patience, my child ? The work cannot
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go on faster than it does." She replied, "O mamma, I wish to take
possession of my own little room, it is sweetly adapted to study and
contemplation ; and then I shall be on the same story with you and
papa, and we can so conveniently visit each others' apartments ; for
I want always to be near you."
In a short time she was gratified, and took possession of this fa-
vorite apartment. Her health was better than usual ; indeed her
parents considered her perfectly well, and all things appeared to go
on prosperously for a few weeks.
It was now the month of July, the sickly season approaching fast,
and Mr. J., their pastor, about to set out for the North, to visit his
relations and recruit his own health. These united considerations
contributed to depress the mind of Mrs. Smelt. She was still im-
pressed with a presentiment, that some great trouble awaited her in
a short time ; and she could not banish the apprehension from her
mind, that the loss of her only living child, would be that trouble»
The prospect of such an event was so distressing, that she mention-
ed her uneasiness to several friends, and to Mr. J. in particular,
and became more than ever engaged for the eternal welfare of her
daughter.
Mr. J. called to take leave of the family before his departure,
After he left the house, Mrs. Smelt retired and left Caroline in the
room by herself. On her mother's return, she was found sitting in
the same spot where she had been left, still holding a book in her
hand, which she had just received as a parting gift from her pastor.
She appeared much dejected. Her mother seated herself by her,
and entered into a detail of the advantages that might result from
their acquaintance with Mr. J. if they followed his counsels, and im-
proved them as they ought. Caroline then expressed her deep re-
gret that the church would again be shut up ; and wished that Mr. J.
could have been prevailed on to stay the year out, for she was very
sure he could not be more wanted any where else.
While the Presbyterian house of worship was shut up Mrs. Smelt
and her daughter determined to attend the Methodist chapel, the
worthy pastor of that congregation being a man of exalted piety.
For several Sabbaths they attended the Sunday-school, which af-
forded Caroline the highest satisfaction. She resolved to make ap-
plication for instructing a female class, but on the 13th of August
her mother was taken sick, and she never afterwards had an oppor-
tunity.
When Mrs. Smelt was taken ill, the first symptoms gave reason
to believe that she would have a severe attack. The fever which
had appeared in the city was raging with great violence. She had
been much exposed to it, and for four or five days and nights pre-
vious to her attack, she had been sitting up and attending to an or-
phan child, who died that evening, in the fourteenth year of her age.
Finding herself unwell, and the child dying, she returned home, sta -
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ted the little sufferer's situation to her daughter, but did not mention
her own symptoms. Caroline expressed a desire to see the dying
orphan, as she had never seen any person die. Apprehensive that
she might take the fever, or be greatly alarmed, her mother hesitated.
At length she committed her to the care of a merciful God, and, with
uncommon fervor, implored that He would sanctify this visit to the
chamber of death, to the heart of her beloved daughter. The result
evinced that her prayers were heard and answered.
Caroline went : the distance was only to the next door. She
staid some time ; returned, and reported the little girl to be in con-
vulsive agonies. She could not stay to see the end ; such sufferings
she had never before witnessed. She was bathed in tears, and over-
whelmed with sorrow. Her fears were immediately excited on her
mother's account, because she saw that she was ill. She afterwards
informed her mother, that she had never tasted the bitterness of sor-
row until that night ; that her soul was in deep anguish, and her heart
near bursting. On this occasion, her appearance was peculiarly in-
teresting.
After this Caroline appeared to throw off all restraint in conver-
sing with her mother on the subject of experimental religion ; and in
the course of five or six days Mrs. Smelt was restored to a comfort-
able measure of health.
Caroline now appeared to attach herself to her mother more than
ever — seemed reluctant to leave her, even to attend to common du-
ties— would often invite her into her room, in order to have social
conversation, or that they might read to each other. When Mrs.
Smelt was obliged to leave her, she would entreat her to return as
soon as possible ; and on returning, her mother would frequently
find her reading the scriptures.
A short time before she was taken sick, she engaged with two
other ladies to make a collection for the poor. Very many of that
class in the city bounds were in great affliction, and required some
public effort to be made for their relief. On the morning of that
day on which they were to commence their benevolent operations,
she hesitated — indeed shed tears, and said that she felt such reluc-
tance and timidity, she wished to be excused. Her father and mo-
ther both gave her every encouragement — desired her to lay aside
her fears, and to look only at the magnitude and importance of the
object. She wiped away her tears — summoned up resolution to go
forth, and in a few hours they collected more than six hundred dol-
lars from the charitable inhabitants of the city. When Caroline saw
the success which had attended this, their first effort of the kind, she
said, " well mamma, how delightful is the path of duty ! my poor
timid nature shrunk from the task before me this morning ; and if
you and papa had not encouraged me as you did, I should have staid
at home and done nothing for the poor this day. I am now thankful
that I went, though I am very sure I did not aid the cause much, for
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I asked but one person to contribute his mite, and that was an inti-
mate acquaintance. I carried the purse and left all the begging to
the other two ladies. However I feel pleasant this evening in reflec-
ting on the events of the day, and hope I may be more useful in fu-
ture." She appeared in better health than usual, from this period to
the day on which she was attacked with the fatal fever, which termi-
nated her life. Indeed, her health for several preceding months had
been considered by her parents as being very good.
On the morning of the 28th of August, somewhat more than a
fortnight after her painful exercises about her mother, Caroline was
sitting in her own room, in cheerful conversation with her mother and
another female friend. She after some time, laid down her sewing
and walked into her mother's room. Mrs. Smelt, finding that her
daughter did not return immediately, after some delay, followed her
and found her extended on her bed. She observed that Caroline look-
ed very pale, and inquired the cause. Caroline very calmly replied
that she felt very unwell — that she had been seized with a sudden ver-
tigo— that she found the bed a very timely relief, for she could not bal-
ance herself — that she then felt much better and would soon get up.
Mrs. Smelt then called her husband, the doctor, into the room, who ex-
amined her pulse, and applied some volatiles to his daughter's head ;
after which, she was soon so much relieved, as to be able to get up,
dress herself, and join the family at dinner, in her usual spirits.
But, in the course of that night a most violent fever came on, which
was never perfectly subdued.
September 1st. — This was a day never to be forgotten by Mrs.
Smelt : her feelings were such as cannot be described — no language
can convey an adequate idea of them. She saw her child ill and
feared the worst. She strove repeatedly to entreat the Lord to spare
her daughter's life ; but seemed as if she could not pray. At length
she prostrated herself before God time after time, and implored the
God of mercy to wash her child in the blood of the Lamb ; and if
she were about to be removed by death, to enable her to leave her
friends some comforting token of her acceptance with God. The
mother's agonies were great and distressing on this subject. She-
pleaded for this blessing to her daughter, in the name and for the
sake of the blessed Redeemer. She pleaded various promises in
the word of God. At length she promised that if the Lord would
be gracious to the soul of her child, she would give her up without
a murmur. Towards evening she was more composed, had strong-
er faith ; but her daughter was no better.
Caroline was sensible of her mother's distress, and said all she
could to comfort her. The friends, as well as the physicians who
were present, were surprised to see her so composed and submis-
sive. They ascribe this, in a great degree, to her tenderness for her
mother.
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It was remarked by all who visited her, that they never saw a
countenance expressive of so much heavenly serenity, and such
celestial beauty, as appeared in hers during this and the succeeding
part of her sickness. Her face frequently reminded some of her
pious friends of what was said of the patriarch Moses, when he
came down from converse with his Maker on the mount, for it in-
deed appeared to shine with a sacred radiance, which suffered no
change throughout her whole confinement.
One morning she spoke much of death, and longed for its ap-
proach. She admonished many of her young friends, and entreat-
ed them to seek an interest in Christ, in preference to all other attain-
ments. Believing her departure to be very near, she took a solemn
leave of many who visited her on that day. With a countenance
beaming with divine love and a voice most harmonious, she said to
her mother, " O my beloved mother ! weep not for me. My suffer-
ings will soon terminate. Blessed be God ! who hath not turned away
my prayer, nor his mercy from me." Through the blood of the cross,
death is disarmed of all his terrors ; the grave, to which I am has-
tening, is deprived of all victory. Oh the boundless goodness of
God ! thus to support a frail worm of the dust ; for what is man,
that he should be mindful of him? or the son of man, that he should
visit him ? I am going — yes I am going to that happy land, so finely
described by Dr. Watts ;" repeating the following lines with great
emphasis :
" 1 There is a land of pure delight,
Where saints immortal reign;
Infinite day excludes the night,
And pleasures banish pain.
2 There everlasting spring abides,
And never with'ring flowers ;
Death, like a narrow sea, divides
This heavenly land from ours.
3 Sweet fields beyond the swelling flood
Stand dress'd in living green ;
So to the Jews old Canaan stood,
While Jordan roll'd between."
She did not finish the hymn ; but addressed some young friends
who had just entered the room. "You see before you," said she,
" a young, timid, delicate female, not yet seventeen years old — the
only child of my beloved parents — surrounded with all the comforts
of life — nurtured with pecular tenderness, in the bosom of parental
affection from my earliest infancy, and always sheltered from the
rude blasts of misfortune — blessed with the friendship of an exten-
sive acquaintance, and beloved by all my dear relations. I could add
many other considerations calculated to attach me to this world ; but
I can say, with holy joy, farewell to all ! yea, I desire to depart and
be with Christ, which is far better. I am going to my Redeemer's
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kingdom : his arms are open to receive me. O ! the incalculable
benefits resulting from the religion of Jesus, the once crucified, but
now gloriously exalted son of God. What but this, my friends,
could sustain me in this trying hour? my sensibility is not blunted.
My heart was formed for sympathy and the sweets of friendship. I
am sensible of the sorrow which my departure will occasion in the
breasts of those wThom I tenderly love ; but I commit them to the
care of one who is able to console them, and who will, I trust, pre-
pare them to join me in the regions of eternal glory, where we shall
part no more. O ! my dear young friends allow me to entreat you
to embrace this religion. To a bed of death you will all have to
come ; and at the bar of judgment you will have to give an account
of all the deeds done by you in this world ; and if the Savior is not
then your friend, I tremble to think of your fate. O ! close with
the offers of mercy. Now is the accepted time ; to-day is the day
of salvation. When I am gone, will you ever think of me ? will
you strive to remember the displays of God's mercy to me ? and will
you endeavor to obtain his favor also ? that you may finish your
course, as I hope to finish mine, rejoicing in redeeming love, com-
forted and sustained against every fear ? I feel peace in my heart,
and joy unspeakable and full of glory."
After being some time silent, she said to Mrs. Smelt, " My mother,
let me see you put on the Christian's beautiful robe — holy submission.
You will not be left alone : for the Lord is your friend, and he can be
more to you than ten sons and daughters. Your case is by no means
a new one. Recollect the trials of your name-sake, the mother of
our blessed Redeemer. She wTas called upon to give up her only
child — she did so. He died a most cruel and ignominious death.
He had none of the temporal comforts which I enjoy — no friends to
soothe his sorrows — no bed on which to rest his weary limbs — no
kind attendants, to administer a cooling draught to quench a parching
thirst — no — He had to drink vinegar and gall. His blessed mother
was not allowed to sit by him, as you sit by me, and receive divine
comfort from his sacred lips. O my dear mother ! think of these
things and believe yourself blessed. Let your faith rise in lively
exercise, to the sufferings of the Son of God. View him in the
garden ; go with him to Pilate. See his patient meekness ! like a
lamb dumb before his shearers, so he opened not his mouth. He
suffered, the just for the unjust, and by his stripes I am healed. He
died that we might live. He bore our sins in his own body. He
was God over all blessed forever, and yet he submitted to the death
of the cross, that a perishing world might be saved. When I take a
view of his compassionate mercy to rebellious sinners, I am lost in
wonder. When I see his sacred temples perforated, and encircled
with a crown of thorns, I am ready to cry out, and did my Savior suf-
fer thus ? for whom and for what yvas he thus afflicted and scourged ?
In a moment, I answer, for me — poor unworthy me ; and not only for
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sinful me, but for you, my mother, and for as many as will believe in
bis all sufficient atonement. When, with the eye of faith, I see my
immaculate Savior extended on the cross, my heart dissolves with
tenderness and gratitude. I feel humble and submissive — ready and
willing to suffer any thing ; yea, feel happy in being thought worthy
to suffer ; for you know, whom the Lord loveth, he chasteneth, &tc
The physicians entered her room ; after which, with a sweet smile
on her countenance, she said to them, " My kind friends and broth-
ers, you have striven hard to raise this frail tenement ; but it will all
be in vain. You have done much for me. I have not been unmind-
ful of the deep interest and tender solicitude, which you have dis-
covered in my case. I have sensibly felt for the fatigue and loss of
rest, to which you have so willingly submitted, during my protracted
illness ; but I think it will soon draw to a close. In return for so
much kindness, allow me to bid an affectionate farewell to you all,
but not before I strive to impress a few important truths on your
minds." Then raising her eyes, she said, " may the God of mercy
write them upon your hearts !"
She then said much to them concerning the truth of the scriptures—-
the necessity of being prepared for death, &c. and obtained a prom-
ise from them all, that they would not forget what she had said, and
would comply with the request which she had made. She then bade
them farewell, and said, " I hope to see you again ; yes, 1 hope to
see you in my Redeemer's kingdom."
Her mother having retired for a few minutes, in order to conceal
the emotions of her grief, which she felt unable to control, now re-
turned, and found all in the room in tears except her daughter.
With a celestial mildness in her countenance, she then addressed her
mother thus : " Now, my mother, the conflict will soon be over. I
wish you to put on the whole Christian, and carry my most affec-
tionate regard to my beloved father. Tell him, farewell. Tell him,
I loved him in life, and loved him in the hour of death. Request
him, from me, to pray frequently and fervently for regenerating grace.
Tell him that I commit him, soul and body, to the Lord Jesus. Let
it comfort him to know that I have unclouded prospects of an imme-
diate entrance into my heavenly Father's kingdom." Her mother
then rose, went to Dr. Smelt, who was sick in another room, and
delivered the message of Caroline to her father; who, in return, sent
to her, by Mrs. Smelt, a similar expression of his warm affection,
accompanied by a fervent prayer that her life might be continued
many years. On receiving this information, Caroline said "lam
sorry that my dear parents do not feel more resigned to the will of
God ; but he will comfort them in his own time, and in his own way."
After pausing for some minutes, as if to gather strength to speak, she
called her mother to her and said, " my blessed mother, I have been
praying that your faith may be strengthened, and that the Lord may
be your friend in life and in death. I now wish you to take a pleas-
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ant view of your daughter — bid her farewell ; and if you cannot,
with composure, witness her departure, retire to another room. The
conflict will soon be over, and the Lord will not forsake you." Her
mother's heart was deeply penetrated with that voice, which she
thought she was now hearing for the last time. She regarded her
daughter with affectionate admiration, and lingered in suspense, hesi-
tating whether to remain or retire. Although she spoke not a word,
yet Caroline seemed to conceive correctly what her feelings were,
and continued her address in these words, "yes, my precious mother,
the Lord will enable you. Only cast yourself upon him — look to
him for strength, and plead with him for faith. Divine faith can
enable us to perform every duty — to overcome mountainous difficul-
ties. Faith in the Son of God enables me to part with you, my
mother, without feeling one pang, on my own account." She then
made an effort to extend her arms to embrace her mother ; who
folded her to her bosom and said, " farewell, my beloved daughter."
Caroline then exclaimed, " I feel clothed with the whole armor of
God. Farewell, my blessed mother ; the Lord will be your com-
forter."
One day, after being visited by some pious persons, she observed
to her mother, that it afforded her great pleasure to converse with the
children of God ; " for to them," said she, " I speak in a known
tongue. They know the import of every word, having been taught
in the same school. O mother, I now understand that passage in
the Holy Scriptures, which tells us, the iirisdom of man is foolishness
ivith God. It is indeed foolishness — perfect folly. All that I ever
knew is but as a drop in the ocean, in comparison with what I now
feel and know. The holy Comforter is indeed a divine teacher.
Oh ! that all the world would seek after true wisdom, for her ways
are ways of pleasantness, and all her paths are peace.
September \0th. — She was still better, her fever light, and all her
symptoms favorable. On this day she conversed freely and frequent-
ly with her mother, and referred, with great pleasure, to her acquaint-
ance with the Rev. Mr. J. She said "she had often felt very solemn
under the preaching of the Rev. Dr. Thompson ; but these impres-
sions would soon pass away; they were like the early cloud and the
morning dew. But under Mr. J.'s preaching, she had been made
to see, and to feel the necessity of having an interest in Jesus. Oh,
mother ! if you live to see that man of God, tell him what the Lord
has done for my soul. Tell him, he was one of the happy instru-
ments employed by my heavenly Father to bring me to Christ.
Tell him all ; it will fill his heart with joy and gladness." Mrs.
Smelt then observed to her daughter, that she hoped she would live
to tell him herself. Caroline replied, " my mother, you must not
wish or hope ; leave the event to God, who doelh all things well.
When I reflect," said she, "on my deportment towards Mr. J., 1
ihink how great must his discouragements have been. I wonder
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that he did not give me up ; but he did not. How often has he
said, come out from the world, Miss Caroline, O come out! and on
one occasion he observed, if you will come out from the world, Ifeel
as if a host would follow. Nothing but his engagedness in his Mas-
ter's work could have made him so anxious for my eternal welfare.
Oh ! if I could now see him, I would speak to him without reserve.
I should be delighted to receive the sacrament of the Lord's supper
from his hands ; and I am resolved, if I am raised from this bed,
the first place I shall go to, will be the church. I will there present
myself in the presence of the congregation, and make a public pro-
fession of my faith in Christ. Oh how I lament that I have so often
neglected opportunities of doing this, when I was in health ! Now I
should delight to take my mother by the hand, and in the presence
of seven millions of people, take a seat with her at the table of the
Lord."
September 11th. — She appeared so much better, that little doubt
was entertained of her recovery. This day she was visited by
many friends, and was uncommonly zealous and feeling in her con-
versation with them. A very intelligent female friend, who heard
her on this occasion, afterwards observed that she was the most di-
vine preacher she had ever heard— that her eloquence and fervor
far surpassed any thing she had ever witnessed — that her voice
seemed to partake of the nature of heaven. Her prayers astonished
every one. The same friend, at another time, expressed her sur-
prise at the extraordinary powers which she exhibited. To this
Caroline replied, " my mental powers are exceedingly enlarged —
the Holy Spirit is my teacher — of myself I could do nothing ; but a
new tongue hath been given me, and a new spirit put within me.
Give God the praise ; for he hath said, out of the mouths of babes
and sucklings shall praise be perfected. Behold what he has done
in my case ! I who could not, a few weeks ago, raise my voice to
be heard without embarrassment, particularly if the religion of Jesus
was the subject, can now speak with holy boldness and inexpressible
delight. My kind physicians try to impose silence ; but I must
speak. I have perhaps but a short time to labor — my master's work
I must do. His commands are more important than theirs, and I
delight to do his will. O! that all the world could feel as I do.
O! that the Lord would make me the happy instrument of turning
one soul to Christ. O! that my dear young friends would come out
from the world, as my friend and brother, Mr. J., used to say
to me."
She then addressed some young persons, who were present, in a
most pathetic and eloquent manner, expressive of her most affec-
tionate attachment and earnest solicitude, for their present and future
felicity. Of this part of her exercises, it is not believed that any
complete or just representation can be given here ; therefore it will
aot be attempted.
MISS CAROLINE ELIZABETH SMELT. 4S5
On the subject of worldly amusement, she was uncommonly ear-
nest and forcible. In speaking on this subject to some friends, she
said " let no person, endowed with rational powers, call them inno-
cent or harmless. How can that be innocent, which leads to a pro-
digal waste of precious time ? How can that thing be called harm-
less, which leads to an unnecessary exposure of health ? How can
that amusement be innocent, which has not the glory of God for its
object ? How can that amusement be harmless, which has a direct
tendency to unfit the mind for devotional exercises ? We are such
frail creatures that we constantly require some excitement to lead us
to God, and not to estrange us from him. Will any venture to say,
that they have been brought to love the Lord Jesus better, by hav-
ing attended a theatre or a ball-room ? I presume not. I can say
from my own experience, that 1 never derived solid improvement or
real pleasure from either. From neither of them, have I ever de-
rived any thing, which could afford my mind the least satisfaction in
hours devoted to self-examination, nor any thing to strengthen the
soul against the terrors of death and judgment. I consider them
worse than vanity — they are exceedingly sinful."
She spoke much of her absent relatives and friends, and desired
that particular messages might be delivered to them. She observed
that it would afford her inexpressible satisfaction to see them once
more — to tell them all that the Lord had done for her soul, and to
encourage them to rest their hopes on him. " But," said she, " if
it be decreed that we shall not meet again in this life, tell them, it
will be their own fault if we do not meet in another and a better
world — tell them, there is room enough for all, in my Redeemer's
kingdom — and he will give them a gracious reception, if they will
only take up the cross and follow him." Then addressing herself
particularly to her mother, she said, " O my mother ! it would give
rne such happiness to see my pious friend, Mr. J. I feel as if he
was my spiritual father, my dear brother in the Lord. Could he
see me now, I trust he would not be ashamed to own me as his child,
his sister ; no, he would gladly own the relationship." It was re-
marked by the many friends who saw her, that they never witnessed
stronger filial affection in their lives. She was ever on the watch
to pour the balm of consolation into the heart of her sorrowing
mother ; and omitted nothing that she thought calculated to relieve
her feelings.
September 12th. — On this day she felt so much better, though she
still had some fever, which never went entirely off, that several friends
did not hesitate to tell her, that she was getting well very fast. Her
mother, standing by her bedside, said, "yes, the beloved of my heart
is indeed recovering; and I do hope the Lord has heard my prayers,
and will prolong her precious life many years." Caroline looked
concerned. Someone observed, " I have no doubt of it; I think
she will be able to ride out in a few dayb." She immediately gave
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the friend a gentle rebuke. Mrs. Smelt then turned from the bed.
In an instant Caroline called her back, and said, " my blessed
mother, I did not intend that for you. I know your maternal ten-
derness induces you to hope, and I conceive those hopes are per-
fectly natural when kept under proper restrictions. I should be very
sorry if you should think me capable of departing from my duty as
a child, so far as to rebuke you, my mother. No ; I have too high
a sense of that sacred command, which says, ' honor thy father and
mother J he. and too much love and gratitude to you, ever to speak
unbecomingly. I thought our friend (pointing to the person) spoke
rather presumptuously, and needed a rebuke. But I did not intend
the least offence to him, only to remind him that the secret designs
of God were known only to himself, and that the event of my case
was known only to my heavenly Father."
The visiting friends having all retired, Caroline and her mother
were left alone for an hour or two. The daughter then communi-
cated many of the exercises of her mind, since she had been con-
fined to that bed. " Mother," said she, " let no one call it a bed of
affliction; it has been to me a heavenly bed. I wish I could des-
cribe the visitation I had on the second r night of this month, and
which I still feel with a grateful recollection. How mercifully did
the Lord deal with me ! I was oppressed with a heavy burden : I
felt guilty, self-condemned, and bowed down ; the passage of scrip-
ture which I mentioned constantly ringing in my ears. I felt ill,
extremely ill. I was not afraid of death in itself, but I feared the
displeasure of God. I derived no comfort from the reflection that I
had not been guilty of great crimes 5 no comfort from the recollec-
tion that I had never, in conversation, or in any other way, used my
Maker's name irreverently. I have always held it sacred ; for even
in prayer or reading, I felt solemn whenever I repeated it. I knew
my situation in life and a pious education had kept me from being
exposed to gross temptations ; but I felt that I had lived in the neg-
lect of many known duties, and in the abuse of many distinguished
blessings ; that I had stifled many strong convictions, and grieved
the Holy Spirit of God, who had been striving with me in various
ways, ever since I was seven years old. I tried to draw comfort
from the recollection, that I had for some months past resolved to
take a decided stand to serve the Lord ; but how did I know that
he would accept my imperfect services after such rebellion against
him? I remembered the anxiety which I felt to return to this house.
The Lord had gratified me sooner than I expected. I had resolved,
as soon as we got settled, to commence a new system of devotion,
and was impatient to begin. The first night on which I returned to
the occupancy of my chamber deserves to be remembered. An
soon as I found myself alone, I prostrated myself on the carpet, and
poured out my soul in prayer to my heavenly Father. I resolved,
by his assistance, to make it an important period in my life ; and
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from that moment to give up all worldly amusements. I made a
solemn promise never to dance another step ; never to enter a thea-
ter again, nor to resort to places of festivity and mirth. I considered
them as all belonging to the same family, and injurious to a growth
in grace. I then pleaded, with tears and great fervency, that my
God and Savior would condescend to consecrate my chamber ; that
he would make it a little Bethel, where he would often meet me.
I then felt so comforted and strengthened in my good resolutions,
that 1 had no doubt of my prayer being answered. But on the sec-
ond day of this month, I received no consolation from a review of
those circumstances ; no, not a ray of light from any quarter.
Worlds would I have given for an interest in the redemption pur-
chased by the blessed Redeemer. Without this, I felt I was forever
lost. 1 strove to be fervent in prayer ; but many friends called, and
I was much interrupted. I was enabled all the forepart of the day
to appear composed, for I felt very unwilling, my dear mother, to in-
crease your sorrows by telling you I was unhappy; but in the eve-
ning I could not restrain my feelings ; I was compelled to let you
know all. You then prayed for me, and repeated many precious
promises. I felt a sudden heat pass over me ; it surpassed any
thing which I ever felt before. My whole system seemed as if in a
furnace. I was alarmed. I desired you to engage with me in silent
prayer. O! then my wrestlings commenced, and for one hour, one
short hour, they continued, at the end of which period, I was most
wonderfully blessed. What I felt at that moment can never be de-
scribed. The Spirit of God was in my soul, nor can I express the
half of what he then revealed to me. Indeed, I dare not attempt
to describe the manifestation which I then received. I felt the power
of the Holy Ghost ; I felt that my soul was ransomed by the blood
of the cross ; every sin washed away, and my name recorded in the
Lamb's book of life. Love to God, and love to his people filled my
heart. I knew of a truth that Jesus was mine, and I was his ; and
from that moment to this, my faith, my views have been the very
same, though my ecstacies have not always been equally great.
One small cloud or temptation, and one only, has Satan been per-
mitted to cast in my way, and that only for a few minutes. The
Hearer of prayer soon removed it. I believe it was permitted, to
show me my weakness, and to try my faith ; but the Lord soon said
to my soul, \fear not, for 1 am with thee? O my mother ! do you
wonder that I should be patient and happy, when I have such divine
support, such holy comforts ?"
She then desired that her position in the bed might be changed.
This was done ; by which means she had a commanding view of the
garden, from a window near her bed. It was then near sunset, and
a most beautiful evening. As soon as she saw her flowering shrubs,
(several of which were loaded with rich flowers,) she broke forth in
the most exalted strains of admiration, and adoring ejaculations, to
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the great Architect of the universe. She commented sweetly on the
particular time of the evening. It was admirably adapted to sacred
contemplation — then on the serenity of the azure vault of heaven — -
then on a floating white cloud ; and remarked the harmony which
subsisted, and was apparent, in all the works of God. She then ask-
ed, " why do frail mortals seek pleasure in noisy, tumultuous amuse-
ments, when such an ample volume lies open to their view ?" She
then took leave of a favorite shrub, saying, " farewell, my innocent
friend ; your fragrant blossoms have often regaled my senses, while
my thoughts have ascended to him that made both you and me. I
have often plucked your flowers, and ran with delight to present them
to my mother ; but other hands will now gather your blossoms : fare-
well, my tree, I long to be in the garden above.
" The finest flower that ever blovv'd
Open'd on Calvary's tree,
When Jesus' blood in rivers flow'd,
For love of worthless me.
Its deepest hue, its sweetest smell
No mortal can declare,
Nor can the tongue of angels tell
How bright the colors are.
But soon, on yonder banks above,
Shall every blossom here
Appear a full-blown flower of love,
Like him, transplanted there."
Her countenance beamed with radiance when she said, " fare-
well, garden, delightful spot for innocent amusement ! My infant
feet have often trod your walks" — and smiling when she repeated,
" they will never walk them again." She then listened, with appar-
ent rapture, to the notes of a little bird, that was perched on a tree
near her window, until her soul seemed transported almost to heaven.
She soon afterwards desired her mother to bring the Bible to her,
and read the 121st psalm, the whole of which she was enabled to ap-
ply to herself. Mrs. Smelt then read to her some passages in Isaiah.
Caroline exclaimed, "it is the word of God : I feel it in my very soul.
Isaiah is a divine prophet ; he is my prophet."
A friend entered soon afterwards, to whom Caroline said, " my
dear aunt, I have taken leave of the garden this evening, and have
felt so happy, so entirely filled with divine love, that my room has
appeared like a little Bethel, or the gate of heaven." She then de-
sired her mother to read to her aunt the same psalm over again, say-
ing, " every word of that psalm is applicable to me, for the Lord
has preserved, and will keep me to the end, even for ever and ev-
er." She then repeated to her friend many of the sentiments which
she had just before uttered to her mother, on the subject of the gar-
den, he. After which, she said, she had never before seen nature
dressed in so beautiful a robe- — that a peculiar brightness or lustre
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appeared to rest upon every flower, and upon every leaf — that the
whole sky, and even the little cloud seemed to bear a strong im-
press of her Maker's glory, and concluded with the following beau-
tiful lines :
" The spacious firmament on high,
" With all the blue ethereal sky,
" And spangled heavens, a shining frame,
" Their great original proclaim."
At this time, all her friends thought her much better, except her
mother, whom the faculty considered unreasonable for indulging a
doubt of her recovery. But she thought her daughter too ripe for
glory to be long continued here ; and she wished to be submissively
prepared for that dispensation of Divine Providence, which she
thought would shortly remove " the joy of her heart, and desire of
her eyes." That night Caroline enjoyed considerable quietude, but
very little sleep.
September 15th. — On the morning of this day she appeared, for
some hours, much as she had been the day before. A friend hear-
ing she was getting well, sent her twelve varieties of choice flowers.
She appeared unusually delighted, as soon as she saw them. She
requested her mother to spread them out before her on the bed, and
then to present them, one by one, to her view, which was done ac-
cordingly. There was one which was conspicuous for its size and
color, which she requested to be handed to her first. On taking it
in her hand, she called all her friends then present, to view its beau-
ties. Her admiration of that flower excited the wonder of her
friends ; for it did not strike them, at the moment, as being equal to
the others in beauty, nor was it thought to accord with her general
taste, as the flower in question was of a crimson hue. Her mother
remarking this to her, she replied, " O mother ! then you do not see
what I see, for it reflects beauty on all the rest. The rich crimson
color reminds me of the precious blood of Christ — its size, transpa-
rency, and fulness, remind me of the love, purity, and all-sufficiency
of my blessed Redeemer. Examine its petals ; view the vast num-
ber of veins in each ! how expressive of the channels of divine grace I
What entire perfection is impressed on every leaf!" Her mother,
fearing she would exhaust herself, proposed to take the whole of the
flowers and put them in water. Caroline sweetly asked permission
to examine the others also, which was granted. She then commented
with great eloquence on each one, and concluded by repeating, "Sol-
omon, in all his glory, was not arrayed like one of these." These
flowers were then gathered up to be removed, but she desired they
might be put in a flower pot, and placed where she could view them.
After the removal of the flowers, it was observed that she had re-
tained the bud of a small white cluster-rose, which she held in her
fingers. After a silence, which lasted for some Considerable timeT
Caroline at length said, " mother, look at this," holding the rose bud,
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She paused as if she wished her mother to say something. Mrs,
Smelt replied, " my daughter, I suppose you discover some similari-
ty between that bud and yourself." Caroline smiled. Mrs. Smelt
observed, that the rose bud was an emblem of youth and innocence,
Caroline again smiled, and said, "no, my mother, your thoughts and
mine have not been the same this time, though we very generally
think alike. But this little bud is emblematical of the grace that is
now in my soul"— she then exclaimed, " to bloom, to expand in
the garden of heaven !" In a short time afterwards, her mother
discovered that Caroline was not so well as she had been, in which
opinion, their friends did not agree with her. In the evening the
fever increased, and her rest that night was not so good as for some
nights immediately before.
Towards the evening of the next day she had more fever, and little
or no sleep that night. She evidently endured considerable pain ;
but no complaint escaped from her lips.
September 11th. — About nine o'clock of this day, a most violent
chill came on, which was succeeded by a higher fever than she ever
had before. Her sufferings were great, but not a murmur was she
heard to utter.
September \9th. — This morning she appeared rather better until
the chill returned. When she felt the first symptoms of it, she ob-
served to her mother that she was well pleased. Mrs. Smelt was
much alarmed, because she apprehended that her daughter had not
strength sufficient to enable her to live through it, but Caroline en-
deavored to comfort her.
Within a short time afterwards symptoms accompanying the fever,
pointed to the necessity of blistering her head. When her hair was
removed she expressed great satisfaction. She observed that many
persons might suppose she would feel some mortification at the loss
of her hair, but that she felt none. " I wish," said she, " my dear
father may feel as composed as I do." She then desired a friend
to hold it up to her view. She said, as she looked on it, " I did not
think there was such a quantity." (It was more than a yard long,
of a dark, glossy, brown color, and very thick.) " Well, it will
never again fatigue my poor arms to comb, curl, and dispose of it
fancifully. Had I kept it, I should never, I hope, have spent so
much precious time in that way again ; but it is all over now. Put
it away ; my parents will wish to see it." She soon afterwards fell
asleep, and did not awake till near bed time. She then expressed
her regret that she had slept so long, but was too feeble to speak
much. She appeared very composed through the remaining part of
the night.
September 20th. — This morning she appeared to revive a little.
She desired her mother to read a portion of God's word to her.
After reading sundry passages, her mother said to her " my beloved
Caroline, you are very ill ; how are your feelings to-day ? is your
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faith as strong in the Lord Jesus as ever ? are you as willing to depart,
and are your views of divine mercy as great, as clear as they have
been? She replied, with a countenance beaming with divine love,
"just the same, just the same. My heavenly Father has never left
me ; and whether 1 live or die, it will be to the glory of God." She
said much more, which cannot be accurately recollected ; but every
sentiment which she expressed breathed the strongest confidence,
and sweetest resignation to the will of God.
It was soon discovered that her speech began to fail. Her mother
took leave of her with forced composure. She shortly afterwards
fell asleep, and never spoke again. She continued in this state for
several hours ; after which, on Sabbath evening, the 21st September,
her happy spirit was released from " the earthly house of its taberna-
cle," and took its flight to the arms of Jesus. Not a single struggle
— not the smallest distortion of features, nor even the movement of
a single limb, appeared in her last moments. She was gone some
seconds, before the many kind friends who surrounded her dying
couch had ascertained that her spirit had indeed departed.
It is deemed worthy of remark, that she told many of her friends,
before her departure, that she had prayed that her end might be just
as in the event it proved to be. She observed to them, that she
" knew her dear parents would feel much distressed to see her die
in hard struggles; or even to know that this was the case, if they
did not witness it ; and she knew that her heaveniy Father would
grant her petition, and temper the Providence, as much as was right,
to their feelings." This was realized in a most remarkable degree.
Her father, during the remission of his fever was enabled to visit her
chamber, in company with her mother, during the lime of her sleep,
which immediately preceded her decease. They saw it was the
sleep of death ; for to their repeated calls she made no answer.
Once, and only once, when standing by her bed-side, they united
their voices in calling " Caroline, Oh Caroline ! our beloved daugh-
ter, shall we never more hear the sound of your harmonious voice ?
it is your father and mother that thus call you ;" she made an effort
to open her eyes, and to move her lips to speak, but could not. How-
ever, she was enabled to smile. She lay like one reposing in health,
perfectly calm. They impressed a kiss of affection on her lips, re-
peating, " It is yonr father — it is your mother." She made no signal of
sensibility, except another smile. Mrs. Smelt repeated her visits
again and again to her before she departed. She viewed her dying
daughter with a solemn pleasure, and found herself frequently breath-
ing " O may my last end be like hers !" The fervent prayers of
two friends, who called in a little before she fell asleep in Jesus, con-
tributed much to her comfort. She felt indeed that the cup which
she had to drink was bitter ; but she was enabled to say with submis-
sion, " not my will but thine, O God, be done."
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On the following day her earthly remains were attended to the
place of interment by as large a number of her afflicted and sympa-
thizing friends as the distressing situation of their families at that time
would admit. At the grave the thirty first hymn of Dr. Watts's 2d
book, which she had often repeated during her illness, was sung,
after which the mourning friends retired to reflect on the solemnities
of that scene, which had engaged their attention for such a length
of time.
Thus lived, and thus died Caroline Elizabeth Smelt. By the ex-
ercise of the numerous amiable qualities which she possessed, she
had endeared herself to an extensive circle of friends of all ages,
sexes, and ranks in life. It is asserted that she was never seen to
be in a passion, although her disposition has been visibly tried. She
was affectionate, meek, dutiful, and modest. She has been seen to
be displeased, and to suffer momentary mortification ; but never al-
lowed herself to utter an indelicate, harsh, or hasty expression.
She possessed great independence of principle, and would support
her opinions with great firmness and propriety ; but, if convinced of
error, would never hesitate to retract and acknowledge it. To ser-
vants she was particularly mild ; and as she made her request to
those of her father's household with the utmost softness, they always
served her with the greatest alacrity. When they did so, she would
often thank them as politely as if she had had no claim to their obedi-
ene. When they disobliged her, she was always ready to frame and of-
fer an apology for them. She would say, " prehaps it proceeds from
forgetfulness. — I know I am too thoughtless myself, and omit many
important duties ; and why should I condemn, in those poor, ignorant
beings, faults that are less than my own."
In a word, reverence towards God, and filial submission and re-
spect towards her parents — affability and benevolence towards all
with whom she was acquainted, seem to have been united in her
temper and practice through life, and "in her death they were not
divided,11
From the Memoirs of Miss Smelt, by the Rev. Moses Waddel, D. D,
493
MRS. SUSAN POOR,
Of the birth and education of Mrs. Poor, we have been unable
to procure any account. In the year 1816, she proceeded with her
husband, the Rev. Daniel Poor, an ordained missionary of the
American Board, to Tillipally in the island of Ceylon, which con-
tinued her residence, and the scene of her missionary labors till her
death, in 1821. The following affecting and instructive account of
her death is from a communication of her husband to the secretary
of the American Board.
Mrs. Poor's last illness commenced on Monday evening, the 23d
of April. On Tuesday evening, Mr. and Mrs. Spaulding came to
our assistance and continued with us. As Mrs. Poor continued ill,
and medical advice appeared necessary, we sent, on Wednesday
morning, for Dr. Scudder. On his arrival, he found that her symp-
toms were in some degree alarming. Powerful remedies were used
for several days without any favorable issue. During this time she
was affected with severe pain. Her mind, as appeared from the
frequent recital of passages of Scripture, and of parts of hymns
adapted to her suffering state, was turned to God and divine subjects.
On Thursday, A. M. in consequence of some unusual sensations
of body, and more especially of some peculiar exercises of her mind
that morning, she apprehended that the time of her departure was
at hand. Under this impression, she began to address me. Having
freely spoken of the strong consolations God had given her, she
stated to me the views and feelings she had recently had, concern-
ing the family and station.
" I have been enabled," said she, " this morning, to make a for-
mal and entire surrender of husband and children, and of all the
affairs of the station into the hands of God. The strong desires,
which I have heretofore had, for continuing a few years longer, have
been so entirely taken away, that even my beloved husband and
children cease to be ties that bind me to the earth. Every cord is
now broken. This is a victory that I scarcely dared to hope for,
and it is to my mind, a sure indication that I shall not long be con-
tinued with you."
She then spoke of our past intercourse with each other, — and of
God's gracious dealings with us since we were united, especially in
the work of the mission ; and expressed a confident belief, that God
would be with me, and comfort me, in my solitary state, and bless
ny labors among the heathen. She appeared to take firm hold oi
promises, respecting the children of believers. She expressed
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strong confidence in the belief, that, though her children were left
motherless in a land of idolaters, God would be their Protector, and
would raise up such friends as were necessary to watch over them.
She urged the propriety of this belief, from the views she entertain-
ed of that covenent, which is well ordered in all things and sure, and
which she thought had been established with our house.
She expressed her thoughts concerning God's designs of mercy
towards the heathen. The substance of her remarks on this subject
was, that in view of what he had already done, and of the present
indications of his Providence, she believed he would soon come
down by his Spirit, like rain upon the mown grass, and gather a peo- ,
pie to the praise of the glory of his grace.
The earnest and confident manner in which she spoke on the two
last mentioned subjects, was new and unexpected. Formerly, the
idea of leaving her children, in this land of moral darkness, was ex-
tremely painful to her. Although she had been abundant in her
labors and fervent in her prayers to promote the salvation of the hea-
then, she was ever fearful and doubtful, as to what God would do
for those of the present generation; but now her language was that
of triumphant hope, and joyful anticipation.
As we assured her, that she had no reason to apprehend an im-
mediate departure, she did not proceed to particulars ; but observed,
that what she had to say or do must be done before the hour of death
came, as she could not expect then to be able to say any thing. It
was rather unpleasant to her to know, that she only was of the opinion
that the hour of death was near.
She continued in a quiet state of mind, speaking often of the great
goodness of God, in entirely weaning her affections from her family,
and in giving her strong desires to depart and be with Christ.
" For some weeks past," said she, " I have dwelt with much in-
terest upon the word Immanuel, as applied to Christ. But within
a few days my thoughts have turned to him with peculiar delight, as
bearing the name Jesus." She many times quoted the passage,
And his name shall be called Jesus, for he shall save his people from
their sins.
On reviewing her conduct for several months previous to her late
illness, I can now discover many reasons for believing that the Lord
was, in a special manner, preparing her by his grace for this season
of trial. One of the many circumstances to which I here refer,
was, that several weeks before her death, she proposed that we
should regard every Friday, as a season of special prayer.
As I stood by her bed side with a Bible in my hand, while she lay
in a suffering state, she took the Bible, and directed me to the 118th
Psalm, 14th verse and onward, as expressing her feelings. Many
times, in the course of the day, she required those present to unite
in prayer and thanksgiving to God on her account. In the afternoon
we were happy to welcome Mr. Richards and Mrs. Scudder.
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Friday, P. M. we continued the active use of powerful medicines
with much hope of her recovery. Her corporeal sufferings were
great, arising from spasms of the stomach. Her mind was tranquil,
and she had a strong desire to hear appropriate portions of Scrip-
ture. Most of the twenty-ninth chapter of Doddridge's Rise and
Progress was read to her. It afforded her much pleasure, as it ac-
corded with her own experience. About 4 o'clock, an unfavorable
change took place, which she considered a sure indication of the
approach of death, and a special call to her to set her house in
order.
At this time, Dr. Scudder was absent, having been called to
Manepy, to attend Mr. Woodward. Mr. Richards, though in some
degree alarmed by the change to which I have here alluded, did not
express to us his fears. Mrs. Poor, after speaking of the quietude
and peace of mind she felt, began to address me as from the bor-
ders of the eternal state. She repeated, with some additions, the
same sentiments she had expressed on the morning of the preceding
day. She commended me to the kindness of the brethren and sis-
ters of the mission, and to God, — and rejoiced in the prospect of our
being soon united in the mansions above.
She then spoke of her own life and conduct ; of her numerous
offenses ; how unfaithfully she had served her God and Savior; and
how undeserving she was of the numerous blessings he had bestow-
ed upon her ; but that, notwithstanding her guilt and unworthiness,
she indulged confident hopes of pardon and acceptance with God7
through the blood of Christ. She expressed a lively sense of God's
goodness in manifesting himself to her in a special manner, at this
hour of extremity ; in his taking away the sting of death ; in giving
her peace of mind : and in filling her soul with precious foretastes of
the joys of heaven. It did indeed appear, from her observations?
especially from the manner in which they were made, that her fel-
lowship was with the Father and with the Son Jesus Christ. She
begged us to be faithful with her in that critical hour, if we perceiv-
ed that she was in danger of deceiving herself.
After a short interval, she spoke of those dear babes she was
about to leave. She adverted, with expressions of gratitude, to the
exercises of her mind concerning them, on the preceding day, and
observed, that she had committed them into the hands of God, and
had no desire to see them again. She then pointed out the good
and bad qualities of each of them ; commended them to the kind
care of the sisters present; and intreated them to bear with their
defects, and to watch over them while they continued in this heathen
land, adding, " God will reward you for all you do for them." She
told with what feelings she had desired a son, and what were her
hopes concerning him ; viz. that he might perpetuate his father's
name ; that he might early become a child of God, a preacher of
the Gospel, and a helper in the mission.
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She then addressed the brethren and sisters present, and sent
messages to some who were absent. She observed, that she had a
good hope that they were all the dear children of God, that she
had a love for them all ; and left them with the expectation of being
united with them in the world to come. She pointed out some par-
ticulars wherein she thought, that, as a body of missionaries, or a
church of Christ, we had all been deficient in duty toward each
other. She advised to the use of some special means for watching
over each other's souls, and for promoting the growth of divine grace
in the heart. She urged the importance of our making it one dis-
tinct object of pursuit, to grow in the knowledge of the word of God,
This she did, in view of what she considered to be her own neglect
of this duty, and of her present convictions of its importance.
She then spoke of her father, brothers, and sisters, and of many
dear friends in America, to several of whom she sent particular mes-
sages, and requested me to write to them.
I observed to her, that, as some of her friends were opposed to
her engaging in the work of the mission, they might wish to know
how she viewed the subject at the last. " What they said by way of
opposing," she observed, " was mere talk. Their objections arose
principally from their unwillingness to part with me." Shortly after
she said, " But in answer to what you have suggested, you well
know that I have no enthusiastic notions on the subject. I had no
expectations of doing great things. On the contrary, my expecta-
tions were low, though I wished to do what I could. I think the
opportunities for a female's usefulness here should be considered as on
a level with those enjoyed in America. Many females there move
in a more important sphere than they could in a heathen land. I
never should have thought that I had any duty to do among the hea-
then, had you not invited me to come. I am satisfied with the
course I pursued." For several years past she has often expressed
the idea, that she did not originally expect to do more, or to see more
accomplished in the furtherance of the object of this mission, than
she had already witnessed. Several months ago, when we were en-
deavoring to establish Tuesday schools for females, in villages near
the station, and when it was in contemplation to admit several per-
sons, the first fruits from the heathen in this place, to the ordinance
of Baptism, and the Lord's supper, she observed, " that if she saw
these two objects accomplished, she should be ready to say with
Simeon, Now lettest thou, fyc. She witnessed the latter the day be-
fore her last sickness commenced. The schools had been previously
established.
During the time of her remarks on the subjects abovementioned,
she was more free from pain than she had been for several days be-
fore. Her mind was composed and active as usual ; though on ac-
count of her weakness of body, she was obliged often to desist from
speaking and to take cordials*
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After lying quiet for some time, she requested me to bring from
her writing desk, her covenant, which she wished to have read.
This paper, I discovered, for the first time, a few weeks previous to
her last illness. It contains a formal dedication of herself to God,
and an enumeration of the blessings she wished him to bestow
upon her. Having read the covenant, she observed, " The Lord
has been faithful on his part : he has done all things well ; but I
have been unfaithful ; I have many times broken my engagements ;
I have forfeited all claim to the blessings of the covenant ; yet it is
a covenant well ordered in all things and sure." " Yes," said she,
(repeating the words of the covenant,) " He does look down with
pity upon his languishing, dying child ; he does embrace me in his
everlasting arms, &c." The date of this paper is Salem, January
11th, 1811.
Towards evening Dr. Scudder returned from Manepy, in compa-
ny with Mrs. Winslow. The brethren Scudder and Richards
thought it their duty to inform us, that they could indulge little or no
hope of her recovery. She received the information with a smile,
observing that " it was a confirmation of her own opinion." A new
excitement appeared to be given to her mind. " Now," said she,
" I think I can see my children once more ; where are they ?" Af-
ter they were called in, she gave each of them a parting embrace
and kiss, and made some observations similar to those already re-
lated. She then commended them to God, in a fervent prayer,
beginning with " Lord Jesus, receive these Lambs, he. In this
prayer she expressed much confidence in the belief that God would
not forsake them.
She then expressed a wish to have the servants called around her.
As this occasioned some alarm, the native boys and girls connected
with the family hastily entered, and filled the room. Addressing the
servants in their own language, she told them that she should soon
leave them. She reminded them of what she had often said to
them, concerning their souls, and exhorted them to prepare for
death, by turning from their idols, and by repentance and faith in
Christ the only Savior. She spoke to the native school girls to the
same effect. Then taking Nicholas, my native assistant, by the
hand, she addressed him as a brother of the church ; — pointed out
his duty and obligations to the heathen, and exhorted him to do what
he could to aid me in the work of the mission. Afterwards she took
Niles and Jordan by the hand, (two native boys who joined the
church on the preceding Sabbath,) and addressed them in Tamul as
her children, and as babes in Christ ; solemnly warned them against
drawing back ; encouraged them to persevere ; and expressed a hope
that she should meet them at the right hand of Christ. Both of
them were deeply affected. The other boys appeared desirous of
taking her hand ; but as she was then quite exhausted, she told
Nicholas, to go and address them in her name. She again expres-
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sed her belief, in strong terms, that God would soon visit the heathen
in mercy. She prayed fervently for their salvation and for the pros-
perity of Zion.
Soon after, in the course of the evening, she gave many directions
concerning the temporal affairs of the family and station. Her
mind continued to be in a sweet and heavenly frame. Frequently
she would abruptly exclaim, " What a wonder, what a wonder, what
a wonder ! that even I should have such joy and peace at this hour.
It is more than I prayed for. I can say with brother Warren,* " Is
this death?" Yes, this is death. O that was a good exhortation
which he sent to us, ' Be ye faithful unto death.' But I do not see
the kind angel, whom he saw. Yet I can trust in Jesus."
On being raised up in bed to take some refreshing drink ; " My
Master," said she, " in his last extremity, had gall and vinegar to
drink ; he was forsaken by his friends, and even by his heavenly
Father ; but I have every comfort, am surrounded by beloved breth-
ren and sisters," [here she embraced them,] " and have the light of
God's countenance. Oh, he graciously smooths the way through the
dark valley."
She was more free from pain during the night, and had more quiet
sleep than she had enjoyed for four days previously. Whenever she
awoke from a short season of repose, she spoke as one very near
the heavenly state. She often repeated some parts of " The dying
Christian." Once on waking she whispered with much emphasis,
" Lend, lend your wings."
At midnight we thought her departing, and called the brethren and
sisters to witness the solemn scene. Her pulse nearly cased to beat.
She however revived, and appeared to have a little more strength.
During the night she had an unusual degree of tenderness and
sweetness of spirit. She continually expressed a lively sense of
gratitude towards every one who rendered her the least assistance,
and toward God for providing for her such friends. She was also
tenderly alive to the danger of sinning. When she suddenly moved
herself in bed, or declined any thing that was offered her, she would
often say, " I hope this is not sin ; tell me when I am in danger of
doing wrong ; help me to keep from sinning."
On Saturday morning about ten o'clock, Mr. Chater, Baptist mis-
sionary from Columbo, who has kindly favored us with a visit of sev-
eral weeks at our stations, — came to Tillipally. Immediately on his
arrival, she requested, as was her practice when Christian friends
came, to unite with him in prayer and thanksgiving. As Mr. Chater
was about to lead in prayer, she requested us to sing the hymn,
" Jesus with all thy saints above," &c.
in the tune of Arlington, At this time many of the natives, having
heard of her dangerous illness, had assembled around the house.
* The Rev. Edward Warren, Missionary in Ceylon, who died there a short time
before.
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After we had sung a part of the first verse, Mrs. P., to the astonish-
ment of all, joined with much elevation of spirit in singing. Though
her voice was tremulous and weak, it was as loud as usual, and to
our ears much more melodious. It appeared that every strain must
be the last effort she could possibly make. She, however, continued
through the hymn, and sung the last verse with more animation than
the preceding. The last line of the hymn is,
" Or saints to feel his grace."
Her mind appeared to fasten upon the last word, which she protract-
ed a little in singing, and then exclaimed. " O to grace how great
a debtor," — " do sing." But here she sunk down, being quite ex-
hausted. We, who commenced the singing, were so deeply affect-
ed, by the scene before us, that several times no voice of the com-
pany was heard but that of Mrs. Poor.
The circumstance of our singing induced the natives to crowd into
the house, and about the windows. They also were deeply affected,
and it was a season of weeping to all present. We, who knew her
case, wept for joy ; others, many of them no doubt, by the power of
sympathy, and in consequence of the strangeness of the scene. As
we were about to kneel down by her bed side. Mr. Chater observ-
ed, " Let us not pray but praise" He then gave most hearty thanks
to God, for the special manifestations of his grace to his dying child,
in which she evidently joined with great delight. When he gave
thanks to God for giving her the victory, she interrupted him, saying,
" I have much for which to praise him, but the victory is not yet com-
plete. I am still on the enemy's ground, and we must watch unto
prayer." Afterward, when he gave thanks that Christ appeared to
be present to take his handmaid home, she, with much feeling and
many tears said, " But I can't see him ; is he here ? Why then do
I not see him ?" Several times afterward she observed, " I can't see
him," meaning that she could not see Christ with her bodily eyes.
On being told, that she could not expect to have such a view of him.
She quickly replied, " But do you not believe that our dear brother
Warren saw Christ, when he said, " O thou kind angel, conduct me,
conduct me." " " We cannot say," said brother Richards, " that he
saw any thing with his mortal eyes." " O yes," said she, " he did,
I fully believe it." After a little reflection, she seemed to doubt the
propriety of expecting any thing like a vision. Though she seemed
to triumph in hope, she several times complained that the tempter
was present, and that he suggested evil thoughts to her mind, against
which she frequently called upon the brethren to pray.
Previously to Mr. Chater's arrival, (as I should have before men-
tioned,) Mr. Winslow came. When Mrs. Poor requested him to
pray, she said, she had petitions for him to offer on her account; one
of which was, that she might have an easy departure ; the other, that
God would leave a blessing behind her. She afterwards requested
him to find and read to her the psalm, which contains the words,
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"Yet in the midst of grief and death." [See Psalm 103, L. M.
first part.]
About eleven o'clock, Mr. Meigs, and Mr. Knight, Church Mis-
sionary from Nellore, came to see us. After leading in prayer, at
her request, we sung the hymn,
" And let this feeble body fail,
And let it faint and die," &c.
in the tune of St. PauVs. Mrs. Poor's feelings strongly prompted
her to join in singing, which she several times attempted to do, but
her strength would not permit. At twelve o'clock we thought her
departing ; but she again revived, and at four o'clock P. M. her
symptoms in a most important respect, became more favorable. We
had a gleam of hope that she would be spared to us. When she
understood that this was her case, she expressed by her countenance
much disappointment, and regret; but soon observed, that she had
given herself to the Lord, and would endeavor to be resigned to his
will. She did not, however, herself believe, that she should be
brought back again to the world.
In the evening our kind friend, Mr. Mooyart, came, to whom she
made several remarks expressive of the joyful state of her mind, in
prospect of a speedy departure.
In order to prevent repetition, and to give some just idea of Mrs.
Poor's case, it may be observed that, during almost the whole season
of her illness, her bodily sufferings were great. It rarely happens
that a sick person requires so great and constant attention as she re-
quired. Four watchers, besides native attendants, were requisite
every night. Two were needed at a time, but could not, without
much inconvenience to themselves, sit more than five or six hours at
once. It also rarely happens, that it is practicable for a sick person
to be so constantly attended by so many beloved brethren and sisters,
as were with her on this occasion. The means of contributing to
her comfort were in proportion to her wants. Two skilful physicians
belonging to our own mission were almost constantly with her ; and
many articles of bedding and clothing, which were greatly needed,
were furnished from our several stations. Nor were her spiritual
necessities less numerous, or less abundantly supplied. She needed
to be fed almost constantly with the milk of the Word, — with the
bread and water of life. She very frequently spoke to herself, to
those around her, and to God, in psalms and hymns and spiritual
songs, — and requested those present to read to her select portions of
the word of God, to which she directed. Her mind never appeared
to be more active and energetic. She spoke freely on a great variety
of subjects, ana" her remarks, though often in a whisper, were em-
phatic and impressive.
On Sabbath morn she observed, " This is a delightful day. I
think I shall go to day, and that my everlasting Sabbath will begin."
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After lying some time in a low and sinking state, she exclaimed, with
much expression of feeling, " Now I see my Jesus." Do you see
him, said I? "O yes, — all bright and glorious ;" and then repeated,
" all bright and glorious." She then covered her eyes and said,
" O keep me from beholding these earthly things. I wish to see
only spiritual objects." After a little repose, " Perfect love," said
she, " casteth out fear. I have not perfect love, and yet fear is
almost, and sometimes quite cast out."
In the course of the forenoon, she spoke Tamul with the native
female servants around her, and said, " I am now going, I am very
happy, I am going to be with Jesus. You also must prepare to die.
If you would die happy, you must receive Jesus." Other remarks
she made of a similar nature. •
Shortly after this, on hearing a clap of thunder, she observed,
" sweet sound." Soon after, being a little agitated in mind, " O,
that day ;" — then appeared to be in pain to express something, but
said, faintly, " can't think, — can't take in the idea." But immediate-
ly exclaimed, "Glory, glory, I see him; — his chariot wheels, how
bright they are." She was quiet a few minutes, and then repeated
several times with a low tone of voice, but with much emphasis, " How
bright and glorious." A few hours after, having watched for a favor-
able opportunity, I asked what she saw, when she uttered the ex-
pressions which I have here noticed. She replied, that she had a
distinct view of a part of the train of the Son of God, coming in
the clouds of heaven to judge the world, agreeably to the description
of that event in the word of God.
After being a little refreshed by taking some wine, she repeated,
or rather adopted as her own, most of the Apostle's prayer in Ephe-
sians iii, 16, he. Strengthen me with might, by thy Spirit, fyc. fyc.
then forcibly added, " Strengthen me, O Lord, by thy word, — thine
own precious word, — that blessed word, which this people despise,
but in which thou hast caused thy servant to hope." On her waking
from sleep, I asked her whether she still kept her bold on Jesus ?
" O yes," said she, " I have a sweet frame. I think it will be con-
tinued to the end. It appears but a very little way across the river."
In the afternoon she expressed some fears, lest the servants and the
people around her, would not distinguish between her cries occasion-
ed by bodily distress, and her singing, which was expressive of the joys
of her mind. She requested me to call them and explain the sub-
ject, and to give them a word of exhortation, such as the occasion
suggested. Soon after, eight or ten women, with whom she had
been much acquainted, came to see her. She often expressed the
gratification she felt on being able to converse with the natives who
visited her, in their own language. They expressed much surprise,
that we were so quiet and cheerful. It is their practice on such oc-
casions, to roll, beat themselves, and scream aloud. The reasons of
our being peaceful and quiet in such trials were fully explained by
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Mr. Chater, who preached in the church from 1 Thess. iv, 13. But
1 would not have you to be ignorant, fyc.
As we hourly expected the coming of the Lord to take his hand-
maid home, we had special prayer several times in the day, that
while present on such an occasion, he would scatter some spiritual
blessings around, and thus leave abiding evidence, that he had been
in a special manner with us. In the evening, Mr. Mooyart came into
the room, and asked her if she still trusted in Christ. lil am rest-
ing," said she, " In his arms.-— Some sinful thoughts ; — much bodily
distress." Several times, in the course of the day and evening, she
observed faintly, " Why this lingering — why this lingering—hush — -
patience, patience."
Her corporal sufferings greatly increased. She seemed, however,
to have remarkably clear and lively views of divine truth. About 12
o'clock at night, while lying in a state of extreme suffering, almost in-
sensible to every thing around her, she broke out with a loud voice in
a long prayer. She began by praying that the Lord would show her
wherefore he contended with her. " Has not Jesus suffered enough ?
Why then should I thus suffer ? O Lord, look down upon thy lan-
guishing, dying child. But if it be necessary for me to be conform-
ed to my suffering Savior, O Lord, grant me patience to endure it.
I fly to thee, O my beloved. ' Other refuge have I none.' I seek
no other. I have sought no other. Thou art my beloved. Otake
me from this suffering state. Receive me to those mansions of peace,
and joy, where the Father dwelleth ; where the Son dwelleth ; where
the Holy Ghost dwelleth ; where the four and twenty elders dwell ;
where with united heart and voice they sing, " Unto him that loved
us, and washed us in his own blood, fyc." These were but a part
of her expressions.
As this prayer, which was heard in every apartment of the house,
was evidently occasioned by great bodily distress, and was the lan-
guage of an overcoming faith and triumphant hope, it produced im-
pressions upon our minds unusually solemn, that God was present
both to afflict and to console. Soon after, she was almost entirely
relieved from her distress, and slept quietly till morning.
Monday — She lay in a weak and languishing state, having a de-
sire to depart. It appeared from her occasional remarks, and quo-
tations from Scripture, that her thoughts were directed with interest
to divine subjects, particularly to the doctrine of the resurrection,
Several time, during her sickness, she repeated the verse,
"Corruption, earth, and worms
Shall but refine this flesh,
Till my triumphant spirit comes
To put it on afresh."
About one o'clock P. M. she roused from a slumbering state, and
appeared to have an unusual degree of vigor, both of body and mind.
She requested me to read to her from the Word of God. I (old
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her, she doubtless recollected the rich provision for passing Jordan,
which Mrs. Graham made, and that I would read those extracts from
Scripture, which are contained in her life. She was pleased with
the proposal ; and as I read and paused at short intervals, she mado
many short but striking comments upon the passages read. Her re-
marks at this time, were indicative of a mind exquisitely alive to
perceive the moral beauty, and to feel the supreme importance, of
divine truth. Those passages which most clearly brought to view
the atoning sacrifice for sin, by the blood of Christ, attracted her at-
tention with the deepest interest. She regarded them as the foun-
dation stones of that building, in which she had taken refuge and in
which she could quietly rest, even in view of the great day of the
wrath of the Lamb.
In the course of this reading and conversation, which continued
some hours, "We all are, I think," said she, " deficient in our thanks-
giving to God, in not particularly remembering those exhibitions of
his character, which were made in his devising and commencing the
wonderful plan of redemption. We appear to regard it as a thing
of course, and to have our thoughts occupied mainly with the con-
sequences of the plan." From her remarks on this subject, it would
seem, that in her reflections she carried her mind back to that aw-
fully interesting period, when God displayed his justice in the ever-
lasting destruction of the fallen angels, and then started the question^
What shall be done to the rebellious race of man ? The proceedings
of Jehovah at that time ought to be particularly remembered, she
thought, in our seasons of praise and thanksgiving. She repeatedly
requested us to sing.
After I had read nearly all the extracts from Scripture, which
Mrs. Graham made, Mrs. Poor observed, "Brethren, do again ex-
amine me. For is it not possible that I may be under a mistake ?
I wish you to repeat what you consider real evidences of grace, or
proper qualifications for heaven." As she and I had recently read
Dr. Dwight's Sermons on the evidences of regeneration, I followed
nearly his order, in bringing to her view the evidences she wished to
hear stated. As they were proposed to her one by one, she with
great discrimination, as in the light of eternity, and tremblingly alive
to the danger of being deceived, applied them to herself, and drew
the conclusion, often with confidence, in her own favor. The follow-
ing is a specimen of the manner in which she treated this subject : — -
" Love to the brethren," said I, " is another evidence much in-
sisted on by the inspired writers." " Here," said she, " I must
think. I cannot say, that I have loved all who are in reality the
disciples of Christ. I can conceive that the image of Christ may
often be obscured in a real Christian ; or owing, it may be, to some
fault in us, perhaps for the want of proper knowledge or intercourse,
we may not clearly see the image which really exists. But examin-
ing myself on this point, I can with confidence say, that I have con-
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sidered the saints to be the excellent of the earth; and that in them
has been all my delight ; and that those in whom I have seen the
brightest evidences of piety, have been the friends dearest to my
heart."
I then asked her, whether she could adopt the language of the
Psalmist, Whom have 1 in heaven but thee, fyc. " Here," said she,
" I cannot doubt." She then repeated those words in the form of
an address, or rather as an appeal to God. It may be considered
some proof of her sincerity to observe, that several times during
her sickness, when perfectly quiet, both in body and mind, she ob-
served, " Much as I have loved, and do still love, my dear husband
and children, 1 wish to remain with them no longer." As I was re-
moving her from one bed to another, she gave me a kiss, and ob-
served with an affectionate but solemn tone of voice, " I wish to be
in your arms no more, but to rest in the arms of my Savior." Her
mind often turned with much interest to the subject of our being re-
united in the worship and service of God above.
After remaining quiet for a short time, she said, " I have a great
degree of calmness and peace of mind, but no ecstacies. Did he
promise to give ecstacies in this hour? I feel that I am near heaven."
She many times observed, with expressions of gratitude, that God
had abundantly answered the many prayers which had been offered
on her account ; that he had relieved her from her bodily distress ;
and had given her joy and peace in believing.
In the evening, George Kock, a young man from Jaffna, who had
formerly resided in the family for some years, came to see Mrs. Poor.
She gave him her hand, and expressed some pleasure on seeing him.
He said, that he wished to improve the opportunity of expressing his
obligations to her, for all she did for him while residing in the family;
and said that he now indulged the hope, that he knew something of
the preciousness of that Savior whom she so often and earnestly
urged him to seek. She then exhorted him to beware of self-decep-
tion— to be watchful, humble, and persevering. When he expressed
his many obligations to her, she replied, "If you think you owe me
any thing, pay it to the heathen;" and then said, with more empha-
sis, " If any think they owe me any thing, let them pay it to the
heathen."
Between nine and ten o'clock, both Mrs. P. and all present,
thought she was about to depart. Her whole deportment was that
of a person held between this and the heavenly state. " Last Sab-
bath," she observed, (meaning the Sabbath preceding the last, when
the first fruits from the heathen in this place were received into the
church,) " With desire I desired to eat the passover once more, and
God permitted me to do it. I thought it would be the last time. I
wish now to have a glass of wine with you, and to take my leave of
you all." As she repeatedly made this request, we improved the
first favorable opportunity. The brethren and sisters present, being
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seven in number, besides myself, stood around her bed, and brother
Richards invoked a blessing. Being then raised up, by several per-
sons, she took the glass, and said, " This wine, emblematical of that
blood which was shed for the remission of sins, even my sins, I now
share with you for the last time, till we meet in our Father's king-
dom." After her, each of the brethren and sisters drank, and ex-
changed with her the parting kiss. As she embraced us, she invoked
a blessing upon each, or made some pertinent remark by way of ex-
hortation. Perceiving that she was failing, we were obliged to has-
ten. Her last words at this time, and which we thought would be
the last she would utter, were "thanks for all, — thanks for all." She
then lay for some lime unable to speak. Soon after she revived a
little, and it being between twelve and one o'clock, most of the com-
pany retired to rest. Mrs. Poor became more wakeful, and was
much inclined to converse. Her conversation and whole deport-
ment were unusually interesting. On seeing some one eating grapes,
she asked, whether she might be permitted to taste one. A cluster
was then brought, from which she took some. "Do you know," we
inquired, "of what you should be reminded by these clusters?" "O
yes," she replied, nodding her head and smiling. "Well of what?"
said Mr. Richards. After a short pause, she said, "May the Lord
give you the spirit of Caleb and Joshua. It is your business to search
out the goodly land, to bring back the clusters, to hold them up to
the view of the people, and allure them forward to Canaan." "And
so give them a taste for the fruit ?" " That you can't do," said she,
"that is God's work."
This question concerning the grapes, was asked in reference to
the habit of mind, which in a remarkable manner attended her
during her sickness, of making use of the objects around her to
bring to remembrance divine truths. The following are specimens
of this.
On being raised up in the night to take medicine in front of a
window which was open, " Surely, said she, with much solemnity,
"there is outer darkness, but I think I shall not dwell there." On
seeing the dry leaves fall from a tree near the house, " That tree,
whose leaves are for the healing of the nations, shall never wither."
She was greatly delighted with the frequent small showers of rain
that fell, as she felt confident that the Lord, ere long, would come
in like manner, by his Spirit. On hearing a dog howl in the night,
as she lay apparently asleep, " Without," said she, " are dogs, and
sorcerers," &ic. On bathing her feet in water, "Soon I shall bathe
in the pure fountain." On drinking, water, "Shortly, I shall not
need this, — there will be in me a well of water springing up into
everlasting life." At another time, " He giveth the water of life."
Many times, on receiving wine, or other drink, " These are not the
cordials that I shall soon have." " He will give me more refreshing
cordials," he. Allusions of this nature were numerous.
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1 had no desire for sleep, but sat with her during the night. She
slept at short intervals. Her mind, when she was awake, was very
active, both on temporal and spiritual subjects. She conversed with
great particularity respecting persons and things, and gave many di-
rections on various subjects. " I think," said she, " I ought to do
every thing I possibly can do, that may, in any way, tend to promote
friendship — the welfare of the mission, — or the future comfort of
my dear husband." She whispered several things to me relative to
the state of my affairs, after her departure. Several times during
the night, after settling some small matters, she composed herself to
rest, saying, " That is all. I have now done with this world ; I
have done with it. I have nothing more to say." But after laying
a few moments, " I have one other thought. I have one or two
things more which I must mention, then I have done." Thus she
continued speaking on a variety of subjects, during the greater part
of the night. Once, on waking, she repeated the verse,
" This life's a dream, an empty show," &c.
and then added, "I am now dreaming, but soon I shall see realities."
About four o'clock, (Tuesday,) her pulse nearly ceased to beat,
and we were again alarmed. A few hours after, being a little re-
vived, she expressed some surprise on finding herself here on earth,
with a prospect of continuing even another day. She referred to
the parting embrace she gave us the preceding evening, and observ-
ed, " I thought life would go out, before I could take leave of all."
At morning prayers, we sung the hymn founded on the words of
Simeon, JYow lettest thou thy servant depart, &c. She joined in
singing a part of several verses. As I sat by her bed side, and was
not careful to suppress the rising tear, she gave me a look of sur-
prise, and said, " But will you faint now? Having witnessed how
bountifully the Lord has dealt with me, and having yourself experi-
enced such a special support !" She then observed to brother Rich-
ards, that as I had had no sleep during the night, my nerves were
weak, and that I needed some refreshment, which she requested me
to take. She appeared so deeply to feel that her services were no
longer necessary, either for the station or for her family, and she had
such confidence that God would supply every deficiency, that she
thought the occasion called only for thanksgiving and praise. She
continued better through the day, and we began to indulge hopes of
her recovery. I think she observed to me, "The Lord continues
my life a little, that I may arrange some affairs which will contribute
to your comfort." At another time, referring to the same subject,
t: Hezekiah had fifteen years added to his life, that he might settle
the affairs of his kingdom. Perhaps fifteen days will be added to
my life, that I may settle my small affairs." She continued quiet
through the night, and the physicians were active in the use of
means, with increasing hopes of her restoration.
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On Wednesday morning she requested us to read the 116th Psalm,
as being expressive of her feelings in view of God's dealings with
her. " I can say," said she, " that in reference to my sufferings on
Sabbath eve, and at some other seasons, the pains of hell got hold
upon me ; but the Lord was very gracious to my soul." As she
appeared to be better, most of the brethren and sisters left us. At
one o'clock, it being our stated season for prayer, she requested us
to read some of the predictions relative to the rising glory of the
church ; saying, that her thoughts had been much turned to that
subject. We read the 60th chapter of Isaiah, in which she appear-
ed to be deeply interested.
In the afternoon, she was very weak, — her mind a little disturbed.
Some indications of delirium excited our fears. She, however, had
a quiet night, and was in a happy state of mind, though she said but
little.
On Thursday morning, her mind was again turned, with deep in-
terest, to the promises relative to the church. We read, at her re-
quest, the 52nd chapter of Isaiah, and sung the 23d Psalm, L. M.
But little alteration appeared in her case during the day. At night
she was very restless, and most of the time exercised with acute
pain.
Friday morning I was waked from sleep by her singing. Per-
ceiving something peculiar in her voice and manner, I rose up hast-
ily, and was deeply affected on learning that her singing was the ef-
fect of delirium. About nine o'clock she was relieved from her dis-
tress, and was in a most joyful state of mind. The very name of
Jesus was truly transporting to her soul. He was indeed in her view
the chief among ten thousand, and altogether lovely. She requested
me to read some hymns to her, and directed me to those beginning
with the following lines, and some others.
God, my Redeemer lives, &c.
Father, I long, I faint to see, Sac.
He lives, the great Redeemer lives, &c.
My God, my life, my love, &c.
My God, my portion, and my all, &c.
Afterward she fell into a drowsy state, and thus continued, through
the day.
On Saturday morning she had some alarming symptoms. But as
she was free from pain, and had a little strength, she set about set-
tling some small affairs, agreeably to the directions she gave when
she thought herself departing. During her sickness, a silver urn,
designed for a sacramental vessel, was brought home in an unfinish-
ed state. She called for that, and gave particular directions how she
would have it finished. She then told what had induced her to set
apart money to purchase such an article. " I have often thought,"
said she, " that if we could furnish our own tables as we do, it is
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wrong that the table of the Lord should appear so mean. I wished
to have it furnished in a manner suitable for the King. I hope he
will not despise my offering." The price of the urn will be about
twenty five dollars. She expressed a wish to attend to several other
matters, particularly to explain some things relative to the accounts
of the family and station, that her books might appear fair and intel-
ligible ; but her want of strength would not permit her to do more
till Monday.
P. M. " To-morrow," said she, " will be the Sabbath ; you must
now leave me, and prepare to meet the people. See that you pro-
vide for them things new and old." During the night, she was in
some respects more unwell. Toward morning she had some pecu-
liarly elevated views of divine things. It was a source of uneasiness
to her, that she could not keep herself fully awake, to enjoy these
heavenly views, which, without any effort on her part, appeared to
break in upon the soul. She spoke with much animation of its be-
ing a joyful Sabbath, that it very aptly represented that everlasting
Sabbath of rest, which she expected to enjoy in the New Jerusalem.
Her mind was much directed to the state of the mission, and to the
peculiar duties of the brethren and sisters as missionaries. " Though
I feel myself," said she, " to be a weak woman, I have strong de-
sires to speak freely with the brethren on the importance of diligence
and fidelity in the service of Christ among the heathen. I can now
lay aside every feeling of restraint, and say all that is in my heart."
She spoke freely with those who were present, and expressed a
wish to see others who were absent. The substance of her conver-
sation was to point out in what manner she thought the different tal-
ents of individuals might be improved to the best advantage in the
mission, — and in what respect she thought we were in danger of not
doing all that might be done.
As our arrangements had been unexpectedly made for brother
Spaulding to preach in the church, I thought to spend the day with
Mrs. Poor. But after the conversation to which I have referred,
" I think," said she, " that no one who has a heart and tongue to
speak for Christ, should be idle on the Sabbath, and I cannot con-
sent to your remaining at home with me." Perceiving how she felt
on the subject, I went out and preached from house to house. On
my return, between twelve and one o'clock, she inquired with much
earnestness, " Have you preached the word in faith ? Yo\i can have
no success without faith." She made similar observations to brother
Spaulding when he came from the church. She then told me how
great her joys had been ; — that she never had such a Sabbath be-
fore. " I can say with brother Warren, I have had as great joys as
this weak frame could endure. I can now understand what Brain-
erd means by his strong expressions of devotion to God in all cir-
cumstances, whether in life or death." Soon after she said, " I
wish you this afternoon to take a pen and ink, and I will dictate a
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few lines to my dear Harriet,* that she may know how bountifully
the Lord hath dealt with me at the last, in this dark land." Some
time before this she observed, " Draw near, ye that fear the Lord,
and I will declare what he hath done for my soul." She several
times spoke of two bright views, which she had in the forenoon, and
which she wished me to relate. At this time, i. e. on Sabbath
noon, our hopes of her recovery were stronger than they had been
for nine days previously. The tone of her stomach, the disordered
state of which had been one principal cause of her sufferings, was
so far restored to its natural state, that she ate with good relish a
piece of roasted mutton.
I am here reminded of some observations she made after we be-
gan to indulge more favorable hopes concerning her. " I think,"
said she " I may have occasion to say Benoni, before I depart ; and
the Lord appears to be saying, " Arise and eat, because the journey
is too great for thee." (See Gen. xxxv. 18, and 1 Kings xix. 4 — 8.)
As brother Richards was about to take leave of us, some unfa-
vorable symptoms appeared in Mrs. P.'s case. It was soon evident
that our fears were well founded. Such was the nature of her case,
that we were obliged to consider her present symptoms a sure prelude
to a speedy departure. On being told, that she could expect to con-
tinue but a few hours, it was evident the information afforded her
much pleasure. She appeared to gird on anew the armor of God,
and to put herself in a waiting posture for the coming of her Lord.
At intervals she conversed with freedom. In her observations she
manifested a great degree of tenderness and affection for those around
her. When speaking with me of the many worldly cares in which 1
might be involved after her decease, she quieted herself by saying,
" But I think you will not be called to leave the preaching of the
Gospel to serve tables. The Lord will, I trust, raise up some
deacon to relieve you." As she had made it one principal object of
her life, to stand between me and those cares which did not imme-
diately relate to giving instruction to the people, she well knew how
great was the burden which would devolve upon me in consequence
of her departure. The success of the Gospel among the heathen
was a subject which continued to engage her attention with much in-
terest. She several times observed, that as she had something fur-
ther to say, which might affect our mission, she hoped to continue
another day. She expressed a wish to see the brethren and sisters
once more, especially some of those who had not been able to be
with her during her sickness. Her whole appearance was very dif-
ferent from what it had been before on such occasions.
* Mrs. Putnam, wife of Rev. J. W. Putnam of Portsmouth. This lady died
he triumph of Christian faith, in the summer of 1832.
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About nine o'clock, the brethren, Scudder and Winslow, came.
Between one and two o'clock on Monday morn, after Mrs. Poor had
slept a short time, we made several unsuccessful attempts to arouse
her. From her manner of breathing, we thought she must soon
sleep the sleep of death. After we succeeded in awaking her, she
appeared to have something of great importance to communicate to
to us. She spoke, as nearly as can be recollected, in the following
manner : — " Brother Richards, you have been very near the eternal
world ; but not so near as I have. I know things which none of
you know. I do think I shall not depart till I have been permit-
ted to relate what I have seen. Mr. Tennent was permitted to do
this. The Apostle Paul also ; whether in the body or out, I know
not. Who are present to be the witnesses of what I relate ?" She
then requested us to call over the names of those present. She at
the same time noticed how many there were, and wished to know
who of our number were absent. It appeared from some of her
remarks at this time, that her mind was in a wandering state. When
however, she was by any means diverted from this subject, she
would immediately return to it again with interest. She several
times, requested, that we would bring a pen and ink ; but we as-
sured her we could well remember all she had to say. After speak-
ing for sometime on the subject in an incoherent manner, respecting
some things before mentioned, she observed with much emphasis, —
" but I must go on to relate : — and first, there is an immortal state."
She repeated this several times ; but appearing to find it extremely
difficult to confine her thoughts on any subject, she soon fell asleep.
A few hours after this she was more wakeful, more restless in
body, and less in possession of her reason. She had, however, sev-
eral short seasons of quietude, in which she expressed her confidence
in Christ, and requested to join with us in prayer.
As we stood watching her symptoms, — " a steward, "said she,
" should be just in small matters, as well in those of more import-
ance." She then called for some cloth which had been recently
purchased, and told what part she had charged to the boarding
school, and what to the lamily. She also made a present of cloth
to a native female servant, who had faithfully attended her in her
sickness.
As she lay quietly upon her bed, she suddenly exclaimed, " The
tempter is here ! I feel that he is here !" I told her we would
unite in prayer, and that he would flee at the name of Jesus. Many
times during her sickness she spoke of the importance of praying
against the intrusion of the tempter ; not that she feared being over-
come by him ; but because he suggested sinful thoughts to her mind.
While we were engaged in prayer at this time, she broke out with
a triumphant tone of voice, " Glory be to God the Father, — to God
—the Father,— to God the Holy Ghost !" She then lay quiet for
some minutes and said again.. " the tempter is here !" We again
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united in prayer, but soon found, that she was unable to speak or to
hear what we said to her. She breathed shorter and shorter, and in
the course of fifteen minutes quietly fell asleep in Jesus. This
event took place on the 7th of May, a kw minutes before seven
o'clock, A. M.
At six o'clock in the evening we interred her remains in a spot of
ground near the church. The missionaries in the district, who had
assembled at Batticotta to observe the monthly prayer meeting, were
present at the funeral. On the following Monday evening, brother
Chater preached an occasional sermon at Jaffna, in the Wesleyan
Chapel, from Psalm cxvi, 15. . Precious in the sight of the Lord
is the death of his saints.
From the Missionary Herald, Vol. 18.— 1822.
512
MRS. ELIZABETH DOLiSON.
Elizabeth Ridley, (this was her maiden name) was born of
respectable parents in Detroit, 1st of January 1785. Her father
was an English merchant, but dying when Elizabeth was young, the
care of her education devolved on her mother, who being a mem-
ber of the Roman Catholic Church, took much pains to have the
mind of her daughter early imbued with the tenets of that church.
At this period, and for a long time after, the inhabitants of the De-
troit country (then principally French) had no means of religious in-
struction, except from the Romish clergy, who had taken very little
pains to cultivate even the lower branches of literature among the
people of their charge. The consequence was that great ignorance
prevailed, so that very few of the common people knew any thing
about reading. A happy exception it was Elizabeth's good fortune
to enjoy, for she was taught to read, and the fluency which she ac-
quired in reading the French marked her superior genius, and which
with other circumstances of improvement, shewed her possessed of
a capacity beyond the ordinary children of her age.
She remained in the belief and practice of all the tenets of the
Roman Catholic religion till the age of fifteen, when she was married
to John Dolson, Esq. and settled on the river Thames, where she
spent the remainder of her life. After her marriage she was in-
structed by her husband to read the English, which gave her access
to the Bible ; and in which she took much delight. As she read
the word of God she compared with it the articles of her faith, and
was surprised to find that the bible seemed to condemn some of
them.
As she took a deliberate and leisurely review of the articles of her
faith, she became more and more convinced that some of them were
inconsistent with the word of God, and with sound reason. The
first of which she doubted was the practice of praying to saints and
angels. These she thought are created beings as well as ourselves, and
are principally employed around the throne of God. Their knowl-
edge therefore must be principally of a heavenly nature. How then
shall I know that any of them are acquainted with my wants. If,
indeed, God please to send them to minister to his saints on earth,
how shall I know which of them to pray to, unless 1 may know which
of them is commissioned to minister unto me ? but this is no where
revealed ! but if I knew this, is it not God alone " from whom com-
eth every good and perfect gift," " and there is but one God, and
but one mediator between God and men." Thus she thought, and
thus she reasoned in her inquiries after the great truths of her salvation .
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In the bible she also read this awful prohibition, " thou shalt not
make unto thee any graven image," — " thou shalt not bow down
thyself to them, nor serve them, for J, the Lord thy God, am a jeal-
out God." Exodus xx. 5, 6.
But notwithstanding the discovery of these errors in her church of
praying to saints and angels, and bowing down to images, yet she
had no idea of leaving the communion in which she had been raised,
for she had strong prejudices against every system but the Roman
Catholic. Such was the sanctity which she attached to the name
that she thought every thing else in religion must be wrong ; not
considering that it was truth, and not the outward appearance or
name that unfolds the kingdom of Christ to the believer. Indeed,
when the force of education is considered, this is not to be wondered
at. — Even the apostles of our Lord were so prepossessed in favor
of the errors prevailing among the Jews, that Christ's kingdom was
to be a temporal one, that it was not till after his resurrection, that
they understood that his kingdom cometh not with observation (in
outward appearance) but that it would be established in the power of
the Spirit, producing " righteousness., peace and joy in the Holy
Ghost." Mrs. Dolson, however, as yet enjoyed no means by which
her prejudices might be removed. For though the settlement on the
river Thames was made soon after the American Revolution, and
consisted principally of English inhabitants, yet it was more than
twenty years before any religious society was formed, and but rarely
that the people had the opportunity of hearing a protestant ser-
mon.— The consequence was that a careless indifference about all
religion was manifest throughout the settlement, and few if any in
the acquaintance of Mrs. Dolson knew any thing of experimental
religion. The deep depravity of the heart — and consequently the
importance of the new birth — justification by faith in the atonement
made by Jesus Christ — a sense of pardon by the witness of the Spi-
rit— the consolations of the Holy Comforter, and victory over sin
and the fear of death. — These precious truths and privileges of the
gospel she had never heard properly stated and enforced. Doubting
many things in the system of her own religion, and being dissatisfied
with her own state, she was at times greatly troubled, and related
the trials of her mind to her husband, adding, " if I am wrong, I
hope God will by some providential event, shew me my errors and
the way to amend."
I must here be indulged in a little digression, that the reader may
perceive that God is not unmindful of those who sincerely desire to
know him, and the way which the great shepherd takes to lead the
sincere inquirer to his own fold.
The destitute state of Canada had twenty years before, excited
the attention and Christian sympathy, of the New York Conference,
and missionaries had been sent out by Bishop Asbury into almost all
the settlements in the Upper Province ; but from its remote and isu-
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lated situation (being nearly eight hundred miles from New York,
and separated by a wilderness from any other settlement) this part
of the country remained unsupplied, though for years several of our
preachers nad felt the spiritual interest of this people deeply im-
pressed on their minds. At length, such was the concern felt by a
Methodist preacher for the salvation of these people, that in the spring
of 1809* he wrote Bishop Asbury on the state of the country, and
offered his services at the ensuing conference. Accordingly, at the
New York conference in May, he was appointed as a missionary to
the Detroit country. He arrived on this river in July 1809. At
first he had little hopes of success, for in traveling through the set-
tlements he found that great ignorance of the nature of religion per-
vaded all ranks, and in some places the greatest immoralities were
practised. A view of these things afforded but a gloomy prospect,
and the heart of the missionary was greatly affected with the moral
condition of the people. Prejudices too had been formed by va-
rious false reports unfavorable to the methodists, so that in the com-
mencement he had no small difficulties to encounter. But by a pa-
tient perseverance in duty, and by a conciliatory address, prejudices
gave way, and the friendship and affection of the people generally
were gained. Mrs. Dolson, however, with some others, remained
prejudiced against the methodists, and she supposed it wrong (from
the reports she had heard) to shew them any countenance. At
length she was prevailed upon to hear for herself. The doctrine of
the preacher she could not but assent to : it was the language of
scripture, and the advice was suited to her case. From this time her
prejudices gave way, she became more and more alarmed at her
sinfulness. Her awakened mind now felt the importance of this
question, and the inquiry became her own, " what shall I do to be
saved ?" this question was soon solved, Jesus Christ was set forth
as the only mediator, and as one altogether willing and able to save
to the uttermost. Having given up the mediation of saints and an-
gels, she now began earnestly to pray to God for his mercy through
Jesus Christ who died for sinners. She did not long mourn for him
who was waiting to be gracious. She was soon enabled to cast her
burden on the Lord. In his all sufficiency to save from guilt and
sin, she found that " peace which is like a river," and her joy in the
Holy Ghost became unspeakable. Thus, notwithstanding the strong
prejudices she had imbibed, the impressions which the first discourse
made upon her mind were lasting and led to a happy conversion.
* This writer is under a mistake in respect to the time when this settlement was
first visited by a Methodist missionary. In 1805, four years previous to the time
when the missionary above referred to went there, a Methodist preacher under the
sanction of Bishop Asbury, volunteered his services, and actually visited that settle-
ment; and he continued with them about four months, faithfully preaching in every
town and neighborhood where the English language was spoken and with no little
satisfaction to himself and profit to the people. — Editor of Meth. Magazine.
MRS. ELIZABETH. DOLSON. 515
She now remembered her former desire and prayer that God would
show her all her errors, and lead her into the way of truth. She be-
lieved her petitions were answered, and that her heavenly father
would now guide her in a scriptural and consistent way of serving
Him. After her conversion the bible became her closet companion,
and she read the blessed truths of her salvation with tears of grati-
tude and joy.
The change which was wrought on the mind of Mrs. Dolson was
remarkably manifest in her whole deportment. Her conscientious
observance of all the duties of religion — the advances she made in
christian experience, as well as the Christian benevolence she always
shewed towards the poor and the suffering, were highly creditable to
religion, and tended much to establish and confirm the truths of the
gospel among her neighbors and friends. After her conversion she
began to prove the truth of our Savior's words to his disciples, " in
the world ye shall have tribulation," but she endured as seeing him
who is invisible, and at last overcame with a triumphant victory.
Soon after her conversion, she wrote to her priest the reasons of
her change, and requested a formal dismission from the church.
This she never obtained ; but it produced considerable excitement
among some of her Roman Catholic friends, especially after she be-
came a member of the Methodist church. The part she had taken
in " changing her religion," as they termed it, roused their displea-
sure, and very considerably influenced their conduct towards her.
This new and unexpected scene was the cause of much grief and
trial to her mind. Being a person of amiable disposition and agree-
able manners, she had been always greatly esteemed and caressed
by her friends ; but now their countenances and words were changed
and the treatment she received was the occasion of many tears.
The opposition which was shewn her, however, was not altogether
from her Romish friends. Whether in Papist or in Protestant the
carnal mind is enmity, as other endeavors were made not only to
destroy her influence in religion generally, but they even endeavored
to lessen her in the estimation of her affectionate husband. Happy
indeed for the peace of the family, this artful device proved unsuc-
cessful. He perceived the grounds of their wicked devices, and he
repelled with suitable indignation their malicious insinuations. These
painful circumstances, instead of discouraging, seemed to strengthen
her resolution. She saw with deep concern the influence which big-
otry has over the benighted mind, and she fled with horror from the
spirit of violence to the religion of Jesus, whose kingdom is righteous-
ness and peace. The more opposition raged against her, the more
she was invigorated to pursue the blessed cause she had espoused ;
and she has often since remarked that some of the sweetest mo-
ments in her religious experience were in the midst of this oppo-
sition and abuse. Being persecuted for righteousness' sake, she
could flee for support to the promises. " If ye be reproached for
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the name of Christ, happy are ye ; for the spirit of glory and of
God resteth upon you : on their part he is evil spoken of, but on your
part he is glorified." 1 Peter iv. 14. The society to which Mrs.
Dolson had united herself, as yet, was but small and by some few
who appeared to desire its downfall, it became an object of ridicule
and even of prophecy. It was confidently predicted that the metho-
dists there would, like a morning cloud, soon pass away. But acting
from principle, she was not discouraged by such predictions ; she
took no anxious thought for the morrow, trusting that he who had
begun this good work would not suffer his people to be confounded,
but would carry it on to the day of Jesus Christ. The more posi-
tively it was asserted that the society would fall, the more ardently
did they beseech God for its prosperity and extension. And she
lived to witness the gospel spreading its delightful influence on the
Thames and neighboring settlements. The spirit of prayer and sup-
plication, and of awakening, was poured out on the people ; many
were added to the society, and walking in the fear of the Lord, and
the comforts of the Holy Ghost, were multiplied.
In April, 1818, a pulmonary consumption, of which she died,
began to produce its symptoms. It was soon found to be too deeply
seated to be removed. But though feeble she still attended the sick
and the place of worship. This she continued to do till July, when
she was confined to her house. Having derived much spiritual com-
fort from the public ministry of the word, and being greatly united
in affection to the society, it was not without a struggle in her mind,
that she could deny herself the privilege of meeting with her breth-
ren for the worship of God. — The last time she met with them, she
seemed confident she should enjoy their society no more in that
place, and the parting was with much weeping. Their union having
been formed in Christ — the sacrifices which she had made for the
sake of christian society, together with the crosses they had borne to-
gether for the sake of Christ, had very much endeared them to each
other, so that the parting was both painful and afflicting. During
her confinement she was placed in circumstances calculated further
to prove the solidity of her christian experience. It was the divine
pleasure that she should enter the kingdom through much tribulation.
She suffered considerably from the nature of her complaint ; and at
times, in mind by powerful temptations. But as often as she was
assaulted, she called on God in prayer, when he was pleased power-
fully to deliver her mind, by which blessed manifestations of love
her faith was strengthened,, and her consolations increased in sweet
and heavenly foretastes of everlasting joys to come.
In these hours of conflict, her knowledge of the holy scriptures
was of unspeakable satisfaction to her mind. In this sacred volume
she found inexhaustible sources of truth suited to her every circum-
stance of warfare and conquest — of affliction and comfort — of life,
death and immortality. At one time while in much pain she was
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disappointed that some christian friends did not visit her as she was
expecting, and being very weak, she was tempted to think that they
neglected or had forgotten her, on which account she became uneasy
and wept considerably. At length these words were applied with
great sweetness to her, " cast all your care on him, for he careth
for you." She called for the bible, and when the words were found
and read, she was greatly comforted. Her mind was much employ-
ed in meditating on the truths of the gospel, and she would some-
times sweetly expatiate on the peculiar care which God in his provi-
dence had shewn towards her from her infancy. Various instances
she mentioned as that of his protection in dangers — that of her hap-
py marriage and other providences which led to, and were made the
means of her conversion : sometimes while in much pain, she would
exclaim, " what should I now do if it were not for the blessed promi-
ses of the gospel."
While Mrs. Dolson was in health, she was attentive to the ordi-
nances of the gospel ; she could not understand how professors could
expect to advance in the knowledge of Christ without attending to
his plain commands. So when she became too feeble to attend the
usual meetings, by request of her husband, meetings were held in
her room. The writer frequently attended, and at times administer-
ed to her the Lord's Supper. On these occasions she was much
affected at the remembrance of her Savior's sufferings, and grati-
tude and love seemed frequently and fervently to flow from both
heart and tongue.
After suffering in her complaint for near sixteen months, the symp-
toms of approaching death began to appear, and failing fast, her
pious friends began to be apprehensive that she might not have
strength in her last moments to bear a testimony to the power of re-
ligion. They therefore united in prayer to the God of all grace,
beseeching that for the honor of his cause, he would grant to his dy-
ing handmaid, the use of her reason and strength to declare his lov-
ing kindness in death. Accordingly a little before she expired, she
revived as from the shades of death, and spoke in such an impress-
ive and melting manner as greatly affected all who were present.
After a weighty charge to her friends, then to her family, she added.
" I have not served God for nought. He is faithful to his promises ;
and now I do not repent any sacrifice I have made for him and his
service." Having thus finished her last advice to her friends, she
desired for the last time to commemorate, in the Holy communion,
the sufferings of her Savior. Her minister attended on the occa-
sion, but she was so much exhausted by her late exhortations, that
some time passed before she recovered strength to receive the sacra-
mental bread. After performing this service, her husband came
near, and she very gratefully acknowledged the kind attention which
he had always shewn her ; as their union had been marked by ex-
traordinary attachment, so the last parting was extremely affecting,
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being rendered more so by these expressions of grateful endear-
ment in a dying partner. She enjoyed her reason for the few re-
maining minutes of her life, and she spent them in mingled express-
ions of prayer and praise, frequently repeating these words, " bless-
ed Jesus ! blessed Jesus !" Her last words were " come, Lord Je-
sus, come !" and ceased to breathe the 26th of August, 1819.
Thus lived, and thus died our beloved sister, Elizabeth Dolson,
an ornament to the christian character. Her death was a loss to the
church, especially in her neighborhood. But
" Hosanna to Jesus on high,
Another has enter'd his rest ;
Another has 'scap'd to the sky,
And lodged in Immanuel's breast.
The soul of our sister is gone,
To heighten the triumphs above ;
Exalted to Jesus's throne,
And clasp'd in the arms of his love."
Many were her excellencies, but those which are an example to
her sex, should not be forgotten.
Her conversation, though familiar, was conducted with reserve.
She considered it a crime to remain in company where slander was
served up for the entertainment of the guest, and though pleasant,
her words shewed that her sentiments w7ere formed before they were
expressed. In the economy of her house she was also a valuable
pattern. As contentment and peace were, her companions in her do-
mestic circle, so she seldom left it without a call from duty. Em-
ploying her time in the care of her family, instances of industry arid
economy were seen in every department of her house. Thus hap-
pily avoiding that confusion, for " want of time" of which the indo-
lent and frequent visitor is heard to complain. By diligence in bu-
siness also she redeemed the more time for purposes of religion, as
that of visiting and ministering to the sick of her neighborhood, as
well as attending the common and special means of grace. In a
word it might be said of her, " she layeth her hands to the spindle,
and her hands hold the distaff. She stretcheth out her hand to the
poor, yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. She open-
eth her mouth with wisdom ; and in her tongue is the law of kind-
ness. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not
the bread of idleness. Give her of the fruits of her hands ; and let
her own works praise her in her gates." Prov. xxxi.
From the Methodist Magazine, Vol. 4.— 1820,
519
MRS. SALLY AGAR)),
Sally Agard was the daughter of John and Lowly Stone, of
Litchfield, Connecticut, and was born Sept. 25, 1785. She was
blest with a religious education, and was much respected by her ac-
quaintance. She gave, however, no evidence of religious impress-
ions, which were lasting, until July 1, 1808, when she attended a
camp-meeting in Sharon, Connecticut. Though led to this place
merely from curiosity} it proved the means of her conversion. The
morning after the meeting commenced, she was persuaded by her
pious sister to join in a prayer-meeting. Here the Spirit of the
Lord so operated upon her heart, that, under a sense of condemna-
tion, she cried aloud to God for mercy, while others were engaged
in ardent intercessions at the throne of grace on her behalf. In a
few hours her soul was delivered from the burden of guilt, and she
was enabled to rejoice in God her Savior. On her return home,
she freely declared what God had done for her soul, thus, " with
the mouth making confession unto salvation." Soon after she joined
the Methodist Church, of which she proved a worthy member.
About this time her health began to decline. She continued
steadfast in the faith, and diligent in the use of all the means of
grace. At a camp-meeting in Rhinebeck, state of New York, the
Lord deepened His work of grace in her heart, so that her joy ap-
peared to be full. From this time she seemed ripening for glory.
In November following, according to a previous engagement, she
was married to Mr. Samuel Agard, of Catharine, New York, to
which place she was shortly removed. She was now called to ex-
emplify the Christian principles and character, in a new relation of
life; and, as her husband did not profess experimental godliness, she
had to encounter trials of a new kind ; but her trust was in God, to
whom she cleaved with full purpose of heart, and was accordingly
abundantly supported and comforted. It ought, however, to be ob-
served, that notwithstanding Mr. Agard did not enjoy religion, he
manifested a regard for it, and assisted his wife in attending upon
the stated ordinances of God ; but, in consequence of ill health, and
other reasons, she was, in some measure, prevented from enjoying
those privileges as often as she wished. She, nevertheles, was
faithful in her private devotions, and in discharging the various du-
ties of life. In this she enjoyed consolation.
Feeling much for the moral and eternal state of her unconverted
husband, she was excited to pray often for his salvation. She fre-
quently told him, that if any thing made her desire to live, it was to
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see him happy in the love of God. For this, therefore, she ardent-
ly prayed, and her prayers were finally answered.
The disease with which she was afflicted, the consumption, caused
her to suffer much pain and distress; but in the midst of all, she
evidently increased in faith and love, and was truly a pattern of
piety and patience. Her zeal for God, and her activity, as far as
her declining health would permit, in His service, made her very
useful to society. Though her bodily strength was much exhausted,
on Sept. 26, 1811, she, in company with her husband, attended a
camp-meeting which was held in the town where they resided.
Here she labored hard for the salvation of souls, and great was her
faith in God. Some remarkable instances of answers to her prayers
were witnessed at this memorable meeting. Among others, I will
relate the two following.
A young man of her acquaintance was suddenly convicted of sin,
and in anguish of soul, cried to God for help. While in this keen
distress, many prayed for him, seemingly to no purpose. In the
mean time our departed sister was earnestly engaged in his behalf.
She at length arose from her knees, and said, " Brethren, God has
given us the victory !" This she repeated three times. In a few
moments, the young man himself arose, and declared that God had
given him the remission of his sins. The other was her husband ;
who, on the last morning of the meeting, found him of whom Moses
and the prophets did write. Although extremely weak in body, she
had wrestled in prayer for him almost the whole night. The Lord
answered her importunities, by putting a new song into his mouth,
and giving her the participation of his joys. Several others, through
her instrumentality, as they have since acknowledged, were power-
fully awakened to a sense of their lost condition.
It was now evident that she was fast verging towards the eternal
world ; and she witnessed the silent approaches of death with the
utmost fortitude and calmness, often speaking of her approaching
dissolution with Christian composure, in the full hope of a blooming
immortality. Death, indeed, had no terrors for her. Her conver-
sation was chiefly concerning religion and heaven. A cheerful so-
lemnity was visible upon her countenance, and sweetened her society
to her friends and acquaintance. Holiness was her constant theme.
It was her motto. She often said that her time on earth was short.
The last love-feast she attended, she observed that she should never
attend another. Though her spiritual conflicts were at times severe,
and thereby tested the genuineness of her faith, yet she triumphed
in God her Savior in the midst of them all.
When suffering great pain and distress, she would sing,
" The more my sufferings here increase,'
The greater is my future bliss," &c.
" So be it then, if thou ordain ;
Crown all my happy life with pain,
And let me daily die," &c.
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For three weeks before her confinement, she declined fast, and on
the morning of that day she assisted in preparing breakfast, and then
observed it would be the last time she should assist in that work,
which proved true ; for the day following her friends were alarmed
by witnessing the blood issuing from her lungs, which so weakened
her as to confine her to the bed. On being asked if she were willing
to die, she replied, "O yes!" Her husband asked, if deprived of
her speech, what signal she would give to denote her happiness in
God, and prospects of glory? She said, "I will raise my finger."
Accordingly, a short time before her death, the neighbors being call-
ed in to witness her last struggle, being speechless, to their great joy
she repeated the signal several times.
Contrary to all expectation, her speech returned ; and being in
an ecstacy of joy, she exclaimed in rapturous triumph, "O precious
Jesus! O glorious Redeemer! O glory to God ! I am going home!
I am glad I have borne the cross, for now I see a crown of glory re-
served for me. O glory ! glory ! I am going. O Jesus, why do thy
chariot wheels delay? He is coming! Come, Lord Jesus, come
quickly, and receive me to thyself. After a few moments of pause,
she broke forth again in lofty strains, giving glory to God. She
spoke with an audible voice, frequently clapping her hands, saying,
" my joys are inexpressible."
She then desired them to send for a family who denied the power
of religion. When they came, she addressed herself to one of them
as follows : — " O Susan — Susan — look at me, and prepare to die !
I am happy — Glory ! glory ! glory ! I am going to my Jesus !"
Those Christian friends who were present, rejoiced from a feeling
sense of the presence of God ; while unbelievers wept, and acknowl-
edged it must be the power and work of God.
From this time she advanced rapidly towards the termination of
her mortal existence; and on Sabbath morning they thought her dead,
and accordingly sung, "Happy soul, thy days are ended," he. But
she again revived, and exhorted them all to be faithful. Though they
watched her departing breath, and waited to witness the flight of the
immortal spirit from its expiring partner, yet she said to them, "I shall
not die to-day; but on Thursday I shall finish my work." Accord-
ingly on that evening she closed her eyes in death, and no doubt but
her ransomed soul ascended to the regions of the blessed. The text
which was used as the foundation of her funeral sermon, will apply
to her, it is thought, with great truth — " Blessed are the dead, who
die in the Lord." She ended her days upon earth in her 29th year.
From the Methodist Magazine, Vol. IV. — 1821.
66
522
MISS ELIZABETH FECK*
The following short account of the conversion of Miss Elizabeth
Peck, was written by herself.
"I was born in the town of Danbury, Conn. July 22, 1792.
When I was two years of age, my parents removed to the town of
Middlefield, Otsego county, N. Y. where I spent about twenty years
of my life. Here I wasted the morning of life, and experienced the
decay of youthful vigor, through a lingering sickness. My parents
were religious and brought up their children strictly moral, teaching
them to attend public worship at least once a week, which was the
means, under God, of so enlightening my understanding, that since
my first remembrance I have been followed with serious impressions
relative to a future state. Soon did I learn that my happiness here-
after depended on the right use of the means of grace put into my
hands. I was therefore induced to form many resolutions to become
pious, but would soon find my resolutions not sufficiently grounded,
to withstand the allurements of the world and the vanity of my youth-
ful mind. For being fond of gay company and amusements, my
heart was often betrayed into sin, which in my moments of reflec-
tion caused me to lament the depravity of my heart, and the incon-
stancy of my zeal for the salvation of my soul. At the age of six-
teen I joined a singing school. As I possessed a tolerable voice
and a great taste for music, I made considerable proficiency. But
though the diversion in itself was innocent and improving, the gen-
eral spirit of the company which it introduced me into, was such as
served to draw my mind from serious things. But blessed be God
for his awakening mercy, which pursued me closely, and sometimes
in dreams and visions of the night. One of which cannot be easily
erased from my memory. I thought that one of my companions at
school was taken sick with the typhus fever, and I with several oth-
ers went to visit him. We found him just expiring in the most fright-
ful appearance, and in all the horrors of a guilty conscience. This
awful scene so alarmed me that I awoke. The sensation was so
strongly impressed upon my mind, that I thought I had taken the
fever from him, and so fancied myself sick. This, with conviction
for my past disobedience rolling upon me, so depressed my spirits
that I left school. And so it fell out, even as I dreamed. In a few
days poor J. C. was violently seized with the typhus fever, which
in about two weeks terminated in his death. A few days before
which, I was called to go with some friends to see him, I started in
haste not thinking of my dream until I opened the door. When m
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an instant all the affair was opened to my mind. I looked around
and saw every circumstance exactly as I dreamed. The weeping
friends with the departing son bereft of his reason, and without hope
in Christ. My feelings were now harrowed up anew. I also took
the fever, and soon became sick in reality. Means however were
blessed so that the fever found a crisis before it run to its common
height. But oh ! how can I paint the anxiety of my mind. It far
exceeded my bodily distress. The desperate case of the young
man was constantly before me. I fancied I could see his dreadful
situation and hear him upbraid me in language like this : 'You have
Christian parents and every spiritual advantage, but alas ! how stri-
king the contrast between us ! I have been early taught to make a
jest of religion, and break the commands of God. Why did you not
tell me better ?' I was now brought into a strait. I strove to look
to God for pardoning mercy ; but such crowds of temptations pres-
sed me on every hand, that I was almost prevented raising one de-
sire to heaven. In this state of mind I continued for several months.
A certain passage of scripture lay with much weight upon my mind.
' For which of you intending to build a lower sitteth not down first,
and counteth the cost whether he be able to finish it.' These words
were opened, and set home to my heart. I thought that a tower
must cost much labor, and it would be necessary to collect a suffi-
cient quantity of materials fit for the purpose, and then to choose a
good situation on a firm foundation. The application was obvious.
I found that my mind was carnal and sold under sin. A great work
lay before me, and until it was accomplished, I should be exposed
to destruction from the incursions of my enemies. In short, that I
must have an interest in Christ, to the expense of all my pride and
self-righteousness — That I must be careful to build on the sure foun-
dation, or the winds and the floods would prove destruction, and all
my labor be in vain. Thus did I try to count the cost. In retro-
specting my life I found that it had been filled up with disappoint-
ment, and that my master whom 1 had served, had but ill paid me
for all my toil and pain. At length I learned that a Camp-meeting
was to be held in the town of Munden about ten miles distant. I
had heard much of such meetings, though never witnessed any for
myself. It appeared to me that I ought to attend — that if I did it
was probable that I should see or hear something that would prove
a consolation to my mind. Accordingly I attended ; and found the
order of the meeting good. The preaching and praying came like
thunder to my soul ; and instead of wearing away the disease, seem-
ed to make it still more burdensome and afflictive, until I concluded
that it was high time wholly to lay down the weapons of my rebell-
ion, and venture upon Christ, the rock of my salvation. Although
this seemed exceedingly difficult, yet as nothing short could possi-
bly save me from the rage of a guilty conscience and the wrath of
God — trembling, sick and wounded as I was, being slain by the law
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and every way cut off — resolving if I must perish to perish at the
feet of a crucified Savior, I plead : Gracious Heaven ! permit me,
even me to approach thee. And in this critical period, when my heart
labored under a load intolerable to be borne, between hope and fear,
I raised my feeble heart if happily I might see Jesus with a token of
peace. And Oh ! who can tell the joy of my heart when suddenly
I viewed him by faith swaying the golden sceptre within my reach.
Instead of finding him at so great a distance as I imagined, I found
him near at hand, speaking peace to my soul ; saying, go in peace
and sin no more. Glory to God for redeeming goodness. My soul
exults in the recollection of that triumphant hour, when my sorrow
was turned into joy.
" Thus I continued praying and praising, until it pleased the Lord
to manifest his love to me in showing me the frailty of human nature,
by visiting me with a lingering fever, the effects of which no doubt
will follow me down to the shades of the silent tomb. This affliction,
I humbly trust, has measurably answered the design of Providence.
He who knows my proneness to wander, knows also what would ter-
minate in my good. This state of debility has served to wean my
affections from this fading world, and place them on things heavenly
and sublime."
The affliction which she mentions was a nervous fever, which left
her in a state of debility, and occasioned a weakness of the stomach
of which she never found a radical cure. She spent one season at
Ballston springs. The use of the water and the warm bath, afford-
ed her much relief, but did not wholly restore her : yet she was gen-
erally able to attend to some useful employment, which did not re-
quire very great exertions. She did not fail to improve this affliction
to the best advantage. Ever after its commencement she let go her
hold on the world, and as she ceased to expect happiness from it, so
she ceased to conform to its maxims and principles. She lived with
a constant reference to the world of spirits. While she enjoyed in-
timate communion with God, she gave the fullest evidence for sever-
al years that she was a subject of sanctifying grace, though her deep
humility prevented her making many professions of it. This grace
supported her under all the troubles of life, and gave her a pleasing
hope of immortality in the hour of death.
The earliest of her letters extant is dated Feb. 2, 1817. In this
she observes : " You will please pardon me, my dear brother, if I go
on a little farther and inform you, that while I have been reviewing
my past reflections, I have not forgotten to apply a share of them to
myself.
" I have found by experience that there is no better way for me to
live than to be a sincere beggar at the feet of Jesus. To sit in the
dust, and if possible, get lower still and learn of Christ, to be meek
and lowly in heart. I often find my heart impressed with a sense
of the danger of an almost Christian, and think what a pity it would
MISS ELIZABETH PECK. 525
be to well nigh reach heaven, and for want of a little more faith and
good works, to be cast off. Oh ! that God would revive his work
in my heart, and enable me to be a Christian in the fullest sense of
the word. I do thank the Lord for the measure of his Spirit which
I have enjoyed of late. But I still feel the want of a more intimate
union with God. I sigh in pain for living bread. I long for your
prayers day and night, that I may be faithful to the grace already
given, and happily meet you with all the Israel of God to praise him
to all eternity."
" November, 1817.
" I shall now proceed to inform you of my exercises on the sub-
ject of professors of religion viewing the world. I think I never had
such inferior views of what is called the riches of the world, as I
have at present. I see nothing here worthy of my affections. Ev-
ery thing I behold preaches loudly to me, saying, ' Be diligent in
doing thy work, for ere long thou wilt be called to thy long home.'
And considering the adversity through which I am at present and
shall continue to be called to pass, I do feel that if it should please
God, it would be far better for me to depart, believing that I should
certainly rest with the people of God. Oh ! for some guardian angel
to convey my spirit to a happier clime, while the grave kindly opens
to receive my mortal body, until the morning of the resurrection.
How gladly would I resign myself to its bosom. But all the days of
my appointed time will I wait till my change come.
" I am yours with much respect, "
"Hamilton, Nov. 11, 1818.
" How sweet the intercourse where hearts agree,
Thought meeting thought in perfect harmony ;
Whilst here our hearts agree in truth and love,
We share in part the bliss of saints above."
" But I find my trembling hand too weak to paint our former
friendship either in verse or prose. And may I not say with proprie-
ty that the same is still existing between us, although we are sepa-
rated at present by many miles. And were it possible for me to
exchange this opportunity for verbal intercourse, how quickly would
I lay aside my pen and tell you all my heart.
" My mind is constantly employed in making observations as I
pass from scene to scene, and I conclude from the whole that it is a
matter of the greatest importance that I act up to the dignity of
my character as a moral agent, filling up the rounds of duty during
my short co-partnership with flesh and blood ; and that I consider
who hath placed me here, and for what end I am sent into this
world of discipline and trial ; and whether I have found my par-
ticular allotment on this stage, and am acting the rational part, where
angels and men and the Great God, are my spectators. Ah ! what
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shall I do to secure the favor of the King Eternal ? Should we give
our goods to feed the poor, or our bodies to be burned, without
charity we are nothing. It is love that unites the soul to God, and
induces unfeigned obedience to his law. Oh ! for more love to God
and man, that I may be enabled to accomplish the business of life,
and finish my course in peace.
" We have just received your kind letter, and are all much pleas-
ed to hear of your health and the prosperity of Zion. Bless the
Lord for what he has done for us as a family. When I reflect upon
the goodness of God toward us, I am lost in astonishment, and am
ready to fall prostrate at his feet and offer oblations of praise and
thanksgiving to God for all his benefits. It is my prayer that God
may prosper you — the secret closet, the grove, and the field, witness
to my prayers in your behalf. But I forbear lest I should weary
your patience with my long story.
Still yours, he. "
Hamilton, October 31, 1819.
" To Mrs. Mary Peck, >
" I am a soldier enlisted under the King Eternal, to fight against
the powers of darkness. It is nine years since I have been intrusted
with the spiritual weapons of the Christian warfare, in which time
I have been enabled to gain many glorious victories to the confusion
of the armies of the aliens. And bless the Lord, time is swiftly
rolling. And this mudwall cottage being under the pressure of con-
tinual disorder, beaten with winds and storms will soon fall and return
to the dust. Then I shall have no need of this spiritual armor, but
shall rest from my labors. And in the morning of the resurection
I humbly trust, that he who has led captivity captive will raise un-
worthy me to sound an eternal anthem of praise to God for redeem-
ing goodness ; where I shall meet my beloved Christian friends and
relations with the Israel of God,
"Yours he. "
"Hamilton, May 13, 1821.
" My dear Brother and Sister,
" After much anxiety of mind respecting you, we received your let-
ter, which afforded us a degree of consolation, especially to learn from
it that your health is improving. Truly health is the greatest earth-
ly blessing heaven is pleased to bestow upon us. From experience I
am prepared to condole with those who are deprived of good health.
They are unable, without a great deal of grace, to relish the enjoy-
ments of life, or to have correct views of their situation. The spirits
becoming depressed, earth wears a gloomy aspect, and the miseries
of human life are presented to the mind with their melancholy train
of woes, and if not checked in the first stage, it soon terminates in a
derangement of the believing faculties and causes us to entertain
MISS ELIZABETH PECK. 527
erroneous views of things. To have just views of myself and the
objects around me appears important. I wish not to rate things too
high or too low. Either of those errors is attended with embarrass-
ments. I want to be able to say in prosperity and adversity, that
" none of these things move me." I desire to be regulated by the
gospel rule in all my conduct through life, so that my being on earth
prove not in vain to myself, nor a prejudice to others.
" It is a dull time in religion among us, the people are careless
about their souls or secure on an old hope. There has been a great
deal of sickness, and several deaths in our town. But through di-
vine goodness we have escaped with a few accidents, which, no doubt,
are hints for us to prepare for greater events. Oh ! my brother, I
feel the need of being like an evergreen whose leaves wither not in
time of drought or frost. I long to give glory to God for the movings
of his Spirit on my heart while I write. I do expect ere long to
meet my dear friends in a more delightful country, where our songs
of prabe will be eternally without interruption.
" I should say much more, but the bearer of this is waiting. I
must just remind you that it has been a great while since we have
seen you, and we are looking forward to the time of the Conference,
hoping then to receive a visit from you. I hope you will not fail.
Yours, &c. "
"Hamilton, Nov. 14, 1822.
" My very dear Brother and Sister,
" With a trembling hand and heart, I attempt to give you informa-
tion of the late afflictive Providence in our family, hoping you are pre-
pared by grace to receive the tidings of sorrow and grief, and yet of
joy and gladness. Death has entered our dwelling ! ! ! Mary, our
sister, has just taken her everlasting flight to the skies. We should
be glad to have you come and mourn with us, and if possible, con>-
fort us. But I forbear enlargement, and shut up my feelings within
my own breast.
Yours, &c. "
She spent the forepart of last summer with her brother. Dur-
ing which time, her conduct and conversation afforded sufficient evi-
dence, that she was fast ripening for heaven and immortal happiness.
She returned home the first of August. After which it was observ-
ed by the family, that she conversed on the subjects of death and
eternity, with unusual freedom and interest. The following lines she
repeated and sung so frequently, even while about her daily employ-
ment, that it was remarked by several not belonging to the family.
" Let this vain world engage no more,
Behold the opening tomb ;
Its bids us use the present hour.
To-morrow death may come.*'
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On the death of her sister, (as may be observed in the last letter)
her feelings were considerably excited. This letter was written but
a few moments after the event happened, while her heart was bleed-
ing with the wound occasioned by the departure of one of her dear-
est earthly friends. But she soon recollected herself, and became
resigned to the will of Providence. When her sister was interred,
she fell upon her knees by the side of the grave, and continued |in
this posture for some minutes, lifting up her heart to God in silent
adoration and praise. But the malignant fever which carried off
Mary, continued its ravages in the family. Previous to her being
attacked herself, several were brought down to the borders of the
grave. She spared no attention or labor. She even seemed to go
beyond herself, forgetting the weakness of her constitution. For
one of her brothers she felt a peculiar degree of anxiety. When his
life was almost wholly despaired of by all, she brought his case to
the Lord. She besought God to give him to his parents a little
longer, to comfort them in their declining years. Many were the
petitions which she offered up to God upon her knees by his bedside.
And here it was that she was first seized with the fits of ague, which
warned her of an attack of the fever. At first she was almost un-
willing to give up, and be seemed lost by this means, as others she
thought more needy would be neglected. Though her symptoms
were not very alarming till two days before her death, yet she calcu-
lated but little upon recovering. Her brother was with her in her
sickness, and she informed him that she thought it not probable that
she should ever recover. Though such was the state of the family
by this time, every one sick (eight in all) the case of some very
doubtful, if not quite desperate. Knowing that such intelligence
would create great uneasiness in her afflicted friends, which would
very much distract her own feelings, besides being an injury to them,
she made no such professions openly, but seemed to labor hard to
conceal the real state of her case. But this could not be done long.
In about eight days after she was taken, her disorder took a very un-
favorable turn, inflammation suddenly taking place it was soon dread-
ed that she must die. As she saw herself hastening to the place
appointed for all living, her mind was in perfect peace. If she
manifested any anxiety of mind at all, it was on account of the ef-
fect that her death would have on her surviving friends. " I have no
doubt," said she, u but it will be well with me, and I have never
seen a time since I experienced religion, but if I had been called to
die, I believe I should have been happy. But I fear that my death
with what has already befallen them, will be more than my aged pa-
rents will be able to bear." Being inquired of, whether she thought
she was about to leave the world, she answered, " Yes ; and glory
heaves in view." As she continued to fail, and experienced a great
difficulty in breathing, she requested one of her friends to " pray
that she might have some relief before she died." She soon closed
MISS ELIZABETH PECK. 529
her eyes on all things below the sun, and raised her heart to heaven,
her house — her home ; and when she could not articulate a word so
as to be heard, she whispered her prayers and praises, and her lips
were observed to move until her breath ceased. She died on the
30th Nov. 1822, after walking twelve years in the ways of obedi-
ence to her heavenly Master, with but ten days illness, in the 31st
year of her age, in hopes of immortality. She fell to rise — she di-
ed to live forever.
In the character of our departed sister, we shall, I think, see
something worthy of our imitation. She had a strong desire to be
useful. And as her employment, some part of every year for sev-
eral years, was teaching a school, she had an extensive opportunity
of teaching the youth, the principles of morality and religion. This
opportunity she did not fail to improve, always praying in her school
once a day, and giving such advice to her scholars, and imposing
such restrictions upon them, as would tend to form their minds to
virtue and happiness. She possessed the principles of government
in a greater degree than is common, and was very successful in
managing the affairs of her school.
In her intercourse with her fellow creatures, she endeavored always
to act consistently with the dignity of her profession- She was seri-
ous to a degree that commanded respect, and yet her sociability ena-
bled her to make herself agreeable in conversation. Her counsel
was generally safe, and her reproofs salutary. They were always so
seasoned with the pious effusions of her heart, that they rarely failed
of a favorable reception. Her pious examples, and her godly admo-
nitions will long be remembered, especially by her family connections.
She prayed without ceasing. Nothing prevented her visiting her
closet at her stated times. Often she visited it many times in a day.
She watched over her spirit, words and actions. By grace she was
enabled to rule her own spirit, and even to conquer herself, which
" is better than to take a city." For several years she made it a rule
to fast every Friday. This she found a great means of spiritual im-
provement. She possessed that deep humility whose language is,
" Make me little and unknown,
Loved and prized by God alone."
She labored to shun every appearance of pride in her manners and
dress. Her Christian patience was remarkable. Though for sev-
eral years she labored under the pressure of bodily infirmities, she
never murmured ; but patiently suffered the will of God, in hopes
of receiving the promises. Her zeal and Christian diligence, furn-
ished an example to others who were in other respects her superi-
ors. She diligently attended all the means of grace. The house
of God was her home ; in it she took great delight. She frequently
overcame great difficulties in attending places of worship, desiriDg
never to be absent when it was possible for her to attend. She dili-
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gently read the Holy Scriptures, and labored to understand them.
Though her reading was considerably extensive, yet the Bible was
her principal book. She took it with her to her closet, and while
employed with her needle, she often kept it by her side, and would
frequently read small portions, as she said, to assist her meditations.
But her zeal for the salvation of souls, induced her to use every
proper means, both public and private, to save sinners. Her public
prayers and exhortations have, in various instances, been made the
means of conviction to the wicked. The broken hearted penitent
particularly interested her attention ; she was ready to take such by
the hand and lead them to Jesus Christ, who makes the wounded
whole.
Finally — She cultivated with assiduous care the peculiar virtues and
graces which adorn her sex, wearing as her chief ornament, that
"meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.'5
From the Methodist Magazine, Vol. 6.— 182S,
531
MISS LYDIA B. LEAVITT
Miss Lydia B. Leavitt was the daughter of Col. Gilman Lea-
vitt, Portsmouth, N. H. She was born in the year 1798, and died
July 16, 1821, in the twenty third year of her age.
She appeared to have possessed a very tender and delicate mind,
naturally thoughtful, and much inclined to reading and reflection.
From her infancy, it has been observed by her family relatives, she
has manifested a scrupulous regard to truth ; so that it is not recol-
lected that she ever told an untruth. She seldom needed reproof or
correction ; and if at any time reproof was given with marks of pa-
rental disapprobation, it produced such excessive grief as to render
it necessary to be extremely cautious as to her general treatment.
She also possessed a mild, and peaceable disposition, and was not a
little remarkable for her patience under circumstances of deprivation,
trial, and affliction. But however she might have been endued with
many mental excellencies, and acquired accomplishments, to render
her estimable and beloved ; it was early piety which sanctified, and
gave an inestimable value to her character.
Her family attending the Episcopal Church, she was confirmed,
and attended the Church services and the holy communion. She
appears to have been very early and frequently under the operations
of the Spirit of God, and was much in the habit of making serious
reflections on the passing occurrences of providence, on hearing the
Gospel, and on seeing its ordinances administered. These reflec-
tions, with her views and feelings on religious subjects, are to be met
with in most of her letters written to her young female friends ; a few
extracts from which, we doubt not, will be read with interest, and will
furnish the best views which can be given of her general character.
When about 15 years of age, she writes thus, after mentioning seve-
ral cases of sickness and death : " When so many are sick and dying
around us, should it not remind us of our own end ? Perhaps we
shall be called ne^xt, — are we prepared ? If we are, it will be well
with us, if not, why do we sit still? Let us arise, and delay no longer;
for death may be near. Perhaps you will say ' Lydia has forgotten
herself.' No, I have not. I am writing to one for whose spiritual,
as well as temporal welfare, I am interested. I long to have you
love God ; who is so worthy of our love as our Maker ? How hard
must be our hearts not to love Christ, who, for the love he had for us,
suffered and died an ignominious death. It was our sins that cruci-
fied the Lord of glory. O my friend, do taste and see how gracious
the Lord is ; he is infinitely gracious, he is willing to receive the
532 MEMOIRS OF
greatest of sinners. Fly then, my dear friend, to Christ without de-
lay, for he is standing with open arms to receive you. If you go
to him you will never be sorry. O, what are the pleasures of this
world, when compared with those of religion ? They are nothing but
vanity."
On another occasion she writes thus : " I do feel that life is short.
In a moment I may be called to exchange worlds. Happy should
I feel if I could say, I am prepared to meet my God, whenever he
should be pleased to call for me. God has long been sparing us,
long reaching out to us the hand of mercy. Shall we, can we be so
ungrateful ? Shall we dare disobey his commands, who is able to de-
stroy the soul and body forever ? Do we not daily feel that there is
no peace, no happiness to be found in the world ? Why then not
seek it where it is to be found ? We see those who are interested
in Jesus are happy. They speak of the goodness of their God, and
show by their happy countenances that they possess something that
the world knows not of. O that it were in my power to say some-
thing to impress you more with eternal things. O the love of Christ,
it is wonderous ! And can our hearts remain unmoved by such love ?
O let us resolve to spend the rest of our days in his service."
The following serious reflections were made on hearing a sermon
from Isaiah xxxviii. 1. " Set thy house in order, for thou shalt die,
and not live." " It has been some time since my heart has been so
much affected. O my dear friend, are we prepared to die ? Are our
hearts renewed by the Holy Spirit? Have we chosen the one thing
needful ? Are we the friends of God, or of the world ? These are
questions which ought to be asked by every one. Is it not strange
we should spend so much of our time in frivolous pursuits ? O let
us devote much of our time to prepare to meet the king of terrors.
He may come in an hour we look not for him — Let us flee the wrath
to come."
From about this time she resolved to enter more fully, and undivi-
dedly into the service of God. She began to attend social, as well as
public meetings among the Methodists, and found much encourage-
ment from hearing others speak of the dealings of God with their
souls ; and it was not far from this time that she received a full and
satisfactory evidence of her acceptance with God, and the witness of
the blessed Spirit that her heart was renewed by grace. Whatever
might have been her former state and enjoyment, this had been want-
ing to afford her permanent and constant satisfaction and enjoyment
in the way of religious duty. In a letter dated June 18, 1819, she
writes as follows : — " I derive much benefit from attending class-
meetings. It is encouraging to hear others speak of God's dealings
with their souls. O for more engagedness, for more zeal. If Chris-
tians remain in supineness they cannot expect to prosper. I have too
much of a man-fearing spirit, am too unwilling to take up my cross.
When I can take it up, I feel so happy I think I shall never shun it
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again. But I am prone to forget my blessed Savior, to look for help
from creatures. Yet I do bless the Lord for his goodness to one so
ungrateful. I must, I will devote myself more to his service, and give
him my whole heart." That she experienced trials and temptations
in common with other Christians, will also appear from her letters to
the same female friend, "You have no idea how I feel — Can it be
possible I have been deceived, that I have no religion? Can I rest in
this situation ? O no, I cannot, I will not rest without an evidence that
my sins are pardoned," &c. Although grievously tempted, she did
not give up her hope in the Savior, but appears to have obtained a
full and satisfactory confidence in him. In her letters after this she
generally expresses a deep sense of dependence on God, and a long-
ing desire for a deeper work of grace in her own heart, and to see it
revive among those around her. Her reflections on the lives and
duties of professors, show a mind deeply impressed, and well inform-
ed with gospel truth. — The following extracts will give her views and
feelings on these subjects. " I see more and more the need of con-
stant prayer and watchfulness. If I for a moment trust to my own
strength, I am gone. O, how dependent are we on God for every
mercy. Hold thou me up, O God, and I shall be safe. Save,
Lord, or I must perish. What great danger there is of building on
false hopes, of trusting in something short of Christ the only true
foundation. How close, how diligent should we be in self-examina-
tion, and in comparing ourselves daily with the word of God. How
dreadful would be our condition were we to pass through life suppo-
sing ourselves safe, but at last find ourselves deceived. But I think
it almost impossible for one who truly desires to know the truth, who
dreads deception, who prays, and carefully examines his own heart,
to remain long without knowing his true state." — " How strange, how
lamentable is the conduct of many who profess to be interested in
Christ. How little do most professors do for the glory of God. Can
it be possible for such to be sincere, who remain inactive, or go in
opposition to the commands of God, who indulge in trifling and van-
ity, and rarely ever speak of the goodness of God ? May I not apply
this to myself? O when will the time come when I shall be entirely
devoted to religion ? When feel the continual witness of the Spirit,
and rejoice continually in the light of my Father's countenance ?"
Yet again — " O when shall we be more like our blessed Savior?
When shall we live as we ought ? Is it not high time to awake out
of sleep ? How soon we may be called to give up our accounts, we
know not — perhaps ere the light of another day ; let us then give all
diligence to make our calling and election sure."
Towards the close of life, before her last sickness, she appears to
have had a deep and almost constant sense of the dissolving nature
of our earthly tabernacles, which connect time with eternity, the vis-
ible with the invisible world, and often expressed this to her Chris-
tian friends, and that the root of all her religion, all her hopes, war.
534 MEMOIRS, &C.
in Jesus Christ, the divine and glorious Savior. When sickness
came it did not find her unprepared, but she viewed it as a prelude
to the fall of the earthly tabernacle, and the entrance on the blessed
scenes of her immortal existence. Patience had its perfect work.
Faith was in constant exercise. Hope remained firm and unshaken.
Love became more and more evidently perfected. It was indeed
a very affecting sight to her friends, to see her patiently enduring her
severe afflictions without murmuring or complaint, and expressing no
other desire but that the will of God might be done. Her advices
to her family relatives and her Christian friends, were deeply inter-
esting and impressive, and we trust will long be recorded in their
memories, and prove a comfort and benefit to them through life, and
in their dying moments. When she was thought to be near her end,
she desired a Christian friend and neighbor might be called in to
sing that hymn which begins thus — " In hope of seeing Jesus, when
all my conflicts cease," &c.
Her happy soul was transported with a view of that glory which
unfolded itself to her ravished eyes, and she passed serenely the
iron gates of death to the portals of everlasting bliss. As she pos-
sessed so many amiable qualities and accomplishments, some thought
she could not need a change of heart to be a good Christian. But
happily such were not her own views. Although the change might
not appear as visible as in many, yet her happy soul felt, and humbly
acknowledged the power of changing grace. From her intimate
knowledge of the doctrines and precepts of religion, and her close
walk with God, proceeded that uniform spirit and practice of piety
which caused her to be beloved by the pious, to be revered by the
irreligious, and to be esteemed by all ; and which has caused many
to exclaim, " Let my last end be like hers."
From the Methodist Magazine, Vol. 5.— 1822,
535
MISS ELIZABETH HOUGH.
Miss Elizabeth Hough was born in Fayette county, Pennsyl-
vania, on the 30th of May, 1797, of highly respectable parents, of
the society of Quakers. Her father, the late Benjamin Hough, Esq.
of Chilicothe, a gentleman of amiable character, and greatly respect-
ed by his extensive acquaintance, filled various important offices in
in the State of Ohio ; particularly as a member of the Legislature,
and as Auditor of the State. On his appointment to the latter office,
in the year 1808, Mr. Hough, with his family, removed from Steu-
benville to Chilicothe, at that time the seat of government of the
State.
Of the early life of Miss Hough, nothing remarkable is recollect-
ed. She often suffered much from a peculiar affliction in the glands
her mouth and neck, to which she was subject from her birth. She
was thereby frequently prevented from partaking of the pleasures and
amusements, in which her useful associates and acquaintances were
engaged ; and sometimes felt a disposition to repine at her lot, and
murmur on account of it — particularly as she had not even the hope
of obtaining relief from her affliction. She occasionally attended the
public worship of God in the Presbyterian Church ; but the truths
of the gospel do not appear to have made any lasting impression on
her mind. It is not known that she felt any unusual concern for the
salvation of her soul, until she was in the twenty first year of her age.
It was in the summer of the year 1818, a short time before the
commencement of the memorable revival of religion in Chilicothe,
that the spirit of God wrought in the mind of Miss Hough, a convic-
tion of her lost and dangerous state by nature, and she was brought
to feel her need of a Savior. The manner of her conviction may
afford additional encouragement to Christians, to recommend religion
by precept as well as by example. There lived at this time, in the
family of Mr. Hough, as a boarder, a young gentleman who had
recently been made a subject of divine grace, and obtained a knowl-
edge of Christ through the remission of sins. Feeling an earnest
desire for the salvation of others, particularly his intimate acquain-
tances, he sought opportunities to converse with them about religion.
With a countenance and voice which bespoke his anxious concern
for Miss Hough's spiritual welfare, he remarked to her, one day, as
she passed him in the entry of her father's house, " What a pity it
ivould he, if, after suffering so much affliction in this life, you should
be miserable to all eternity /" These few words were the most ef-
fectual sermon she had ever before heard. She heard them with
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apparent indifference ; but after retiring to her room, the Spirit of God
applied them with force to her heart and conscience. She endeavored
to banish the thought; yet still the words seemed to be sounding in her
ears — " What a pity ! if, after suffering so much affliction in this lifej
you should be miserable to all eternity .'" She tried to divert her
mind, and shake off those serious reflections ; but her efforts were
unavailing. The Spirit of God had fastened conviction on her mind ;
and the rays of Divine light which shone into her soul, gave her a clear
discovery of her lost and undone condition, without a Savior. She
saw and felt that she was a sinner, and that, as such, the wrath of
God was hanging over her; and now she was brought to cry, in the
bitterness of her soul, " God be merciful unto me a sinner !" Tears
of penitence and sighs of distress evinced the anguish of her soul.
Feeling now her need of spiritual instruction, and of religious so-
ciety, she attended the public worship of God in the Methodist Epis-
copal Church, where she heard the doctrines of free grace — repen-
tance, and salvation by faith, illustrated and enforced greatly to her
encouragement and comfort. About three weeks after her convic-
tion, being satisfied with the doctrines and discipline of the church,
she united herself to it. A few days after this, while prostrate before
God in her room, praying and crying to Him in the deepest anguish
of mind, for deliverance from the guilt and burthen of sin, she was
enabled by faith to venture her all upon Christ for salvation, and in-
stantly experienced the pardoning mercy of God. Her distress and
anguish were in a moment removed, and her soul truly filled with that
joy which is " unspeakable and full of glory." In the fulness of her
soul, she immediately proclaimed to her friends and acquaintances,
what great things God had done for her — the change which she ex-
perienced— the happiness she felt. She rejoiced greatly in God her
Savior, and
" Jesus all the day long,
Was her joy and her song."
From the time of her conversion, she entered with delight upon
the practice of the duties of religion ; and from thenceforth, to the
day of her death, continued to adorn her profession by a " Godly
walk and chaste conversation ;" attending on all the ordinances of
God's house ; and recommending, by precept and example, that
religion which was now
" The joy and delight of her heart."
Her faith was strong, and in continual exercise : whereby she was
enabled to walk in the light of God's countenance, and to " ask and
receive that her joy might be full" Ofttimes has she been so over-
whelmed with a sense of the presence and love of God, as to sink
nerveless to the floor. In the ardor and fervency of her soul, she
experienced how inadequate language is to describe the fulness of
MISS ELIZABETH HOUGH. 537
joy, the " peace which passeth all understanding," which she felt,
As " out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh ;" so it
was her delight to converse about the things of God and of eternity.
She regularly attended her class-meetings, whenever practicable.
She greatly loved this excellent means of grace ; and the rational
account which she gave, from time to time, of her experience in the
things of God, was rendered a blessing to her classmates. Thus it
appeared that God in His wisdom was preparing our afflicted young
sister, gradually for that " rest which remaineth for the people of
God," and into which she was shortly to enter.
Tn the early part of the year 1819, Mr. Hough, with his family,
removed from Chilicothe to his seat in the country, about two miles
distant ; where, in the month of September following, he died leav-
ing a large family of children, most of them young. — This was a
very painful dispensation of Divine Providence to the whole family,
but peculiarly so to Elizabeth, who from her affliction, seemed more
dependent on the protection and support of her father than any of
the family. But her religion taught her submission to the will of
Heaven.
In the month of August, 1821, she was attacked with a bilious
intermitting fever, which in a few days brought her down to the gates
of death. The violence of the disease then somewhat abating, and
some favorable symptoms taking place, hopes were entertained by her
friends for her recovery. But the vital functions were too far im-
paired ; her constitution, which had always been delicate, received a
shock from which it could not recover. She lingered until the fifth
of October, when life, as it were, gradually ebbed out, and she ex-
pired without any apparent pain, in the twenty fifth year of her age.
In the beginning of her affliction, she passed through some painful
exercises of mind, concerning her spiritual state. The adversary of
souls thrust sore at her, and for some days her mental conflicts were
severe. But He who " knoweth how to deliver the godly out of
temptation," delivered her. About four weeks before her death,
while struggling in the strength of faith and prayer, the " snare of
the fowler" was in a moment broken ; her captive soul was liberated,
and filled with that " love which casteth out fear," — with " all the
fulness of God" She instantly raised her feeble hands and voice
in shouts of praise to God. She seemed truly overwhelmed with a
sense of the presence and love of God ; and ceased not, when her
strength would permit, to talk in rapturous strains of the wonders of
redeeming love, and the glories of a future state of blessedness,
Many of her friends and acquaintances in Chilicothe went out daily
to see her, to all of whom she spoke with such earnestness and
sweetness concerning their souls, and of the love of God, as failed not
to touch their hearts.
She continued in this happy frame of mind till the day of her
death ; although for the last (ew days, her strength was so far ex-
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hausted that she talked but little. During her illness she was visited
occasionally by the Rev. James Quinn, stationed preacher in the
Chilicothe station. Of those interviews the following account will
conclude this memoir.
" I made two or three visits to our dear sister, Elizabeth Hough5
during the lime of her last affliction, and always found her mind
calmly stayed on God, 6 knowing in whom she had believed.' On my
first visit, when I entered her room, with a heavenly smile on her
countenance, she said, — ' Oh brother Quinn, how I longed to see
you, to tell you how good the Lord is to my poor soul. I have suf-
fered great pain, but have had glorious times. My mind has been
stayed on God, and he has kept my soul in perfect peace.' I said,
* do you feel, my sister, that the sting of death is drawn ?' She re-
plied, ' O yes ! and thanks be to God, 1 have the victory through our
Lord Jesus Christ? Whilst we sung a hymn and joined in prayer,
it seemed as if her happy soul was filled with divine raptures, and lost
in the vision of God. Stephen like, she seemed to be looking up
steadfastly into heaven. Never shall I forget the expressive, yet in-
expressible lustre which shone in her countenance, while she ex-
pressed herself to this effect : — ' Oh ! it is better to depart and be
with Christ— I have a better and an enduring substance — I love my
blessed Lord, and He loves me — He is mine and I am His — Oh
glory ! glory \ — praise the Lord, O my soul.'
" On my second and third visits, I found her still in the same tran-
quil, happy frame of mind. She observed, on my last visit, that she
had not such soul ravishing views at all times ; but that her soul rested
in peace, resigned ; and that her confidence in God her Redeemer,
remained firm and unshaken !' I was not with her when she took
her exit ; but learn from her mother, that she contiuued in the same
serene and happy frame, until, without a struggle or groan, she slept
in Jesus."
From the Methodist Magazine, Vol. V.— 1822.
539
MRS. SALLY RUNDAL.
Mrs. Sally Rundal was born Dec. 27th, 1798. Her parents
were among the first who embraced the religion of Jesus, in that part
of the country, under the great revival of religion which has been
progressing under the Methodist ministry for upwards of fifty years
in America. Notwithstanding the opposition they then encountered
from almost all sorts of people, the obloquy thrown upon them by
the thoughtless and designing, the parents of Mrs. Rundal, being
convinced of the truth as it is in Jesus, broke through every oppos-
ing barrier, and steadfastly persevered bearing the cross of Jesus
Christ. They endeavored to educate their children in the same
principles by which they regulated their own conduct ; and they
have had the happiness of seeing most of them, who have arrived to
a mature age, become the followers of Christ.
She embraced religion in her youth, and evinced the sincerity of
her profession by walking blamelessly in the ordinances of Christ.
In her twenty-first year she commenced a Diary, noting in a very
particular manner the secret exercises of her heart, and the dealings
of God, in his Providence and grace, towards her. A few extracts
follow : —
" May 2, 1819. — I have this day been privileged with hearing
the word of God preached from these words — c So run that ye may
obtain.' But the stupidity of my heart, how great ! Lord help me
from this evening to arise, and so to run that I may obtain the bles-
sed crown which is prepared for the righteous. If I ever felt a de-
sire to be holy I do now. O Lord, grant me the answer of my
prayer, and conform me in all things to thy will.
" May 7. — I feel this evening that Jesus is mine and I am his.
O that I may enjoy His smiles continually, and ever look to Him
for strength to withstand the temptations of the adversary, and the
besetments of this vain world."
" May 23. — I have again had the privilege of meeting with the fol-
lowers of Jesus, and glory be to His name, He condescended to be
one in our midst ; and T felt that it was none other than thehouse of
God and the gate of Heaven."
" July 8. — I have an unshaken confidence in God this mornings
and his Spirit bearing witness with my spirit, that I am His. But 1
do not feel satisfied without the witness of perfect love.
' l want thy life, thy purity,
Thy righteousness! brought in !
1 ask, desire, ami long to be,
Redeemed from all sin "*
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This appears to have been the continual language of her heart un-
til her marriage, which took place Dec. 6, 1820, after which she
kept no regular record of her experiences. She gave her hand in
marriage to Mr. Jacob Rundal, and she became, in consequence, the
step-mother of three children, which he had by a former wife.
This sudden transition from a single state, in which she enjoyed all
the comforts of life without any forethought of her own, to a married
state, and to the duties of a mother, gave her an opportunity to dis-
play the virtues of her character to still greater advantage ; and such
were her qualifications for this new station, which involved such deli-
cate and nice responsibilities, and such her conscientious diligence,
that her Christian graces shone out with increased lustre, and fully
confirmed the hopes of her friends, and satisfied the expectations of
her husband. Neither did she enter into this state heedlessly, but
" deliberately and in the fear of God." Previous to her marriage
with Mr. Rundal, but while the match was pending, she observes in
her Diary as follows : —
" I have had some trials of late respecting my situation in life.
Twenty-two years of my short life, have been spent in peace with
my dear parents ; and I am now called to change it for one in which,
if I do my duty, I can be more useful; but I feel that I need more
of every grace to help me. O Lord ! I come to thee for direction.
Make my duty plain before me, and guide my steps aright. It has
been my prayer for some time that I might be more useful, and I
feel it of importance to walk circumspectly before the world, that I
may not bring a reproach upon the cause of God ; and if it is His
will that I should take one who is worthy of my affections for my
companion, I hope to resign myself entirely to His will in all things."
Though she believed her marriage to be signally marked by divine
Providence, she much regretted having to leave the neighborhood
where she had enjoyed so many religious privileges, especially that
of prayer-meetings, which she highly prized, because they had been
the means of great good to her soul. But though in consequence
of her removal from the scene of her youthful days, doubly endear-
ed to her on account of her religious enjoyments, she continued in
the faith of the Gospel and the fellowship of the saints. The domes-
tic circle in which she moved was adorned by her propriety of de-
meanor, the sweetness of her temper and the urbanity of her man-
ners ; and her value was enhanced by the assiduity with which she
attended to the conjugal and maternal duties. She marked, with
scrupulous exactness, any spiritual declension, which she at any
time suffered, and immediately " flew back to Christ the way :" and
whenever her circumstances did not forbid it, she attended the wor-
ship of God with the same ardor of devotion by which she was be-
fore distinguished c Here, in the sanctuary of the Lord, she found
great delight.
MRS. SALLY RUNDAL. 541
She lived three years after her marriage, and became the mother
of two children ; the last of which was ushered into this world but a
few days before its mother, by an inscrutable, but just and merciful
Providence, was summoned out of it. The morning after her con-
finement she seemed unusually comfortable, and continued so until
Tuesday, the third day of her illness, when symptoms of an ap-
proaching fever became evident ; and on Thursday morning they
became somewhat alarming, the fever increasing with great violence.
Although suffering most exquisitely from bodily pain, her mind was
kept, by the grace of God, in great tranquillity. On being asked by
one of her sisters, if she felt resigned to the will of God, her reply,
with much emphasis, was, " O yes, Come life or death." In this
enviable state of mind she continued through the day, frequently ex-
pressing her gratitude to God for His condescension to her, saying,
" I find it good to suffer the will of my Heavenly Father."
On Friday morning she said to her physician, " You have no idea
that I shall live long, have you, Doctor !" He answered, Very little.
" Well," said she, " Let the Lord do with me as it seemeth to Him
best." Observing one of her sisters weeping, she said, " Why do
you weep for me ? I never expect to shed another tear — for sor-
row and sighing have fled away." On Saturday morning her coun-
tenance assumed a death-like appearance, and it was evident it
could not be far off. At her request the members of the family
were called together, and she spoke to them individually, exhorting
them with great fervor, pressing upon the children especially the ne-
cessity of seeking an interest in Christ in the days of their youth.
About twelve o'clock of this day Satan was permitted for a season
to interrupt her tranquillity, it being suggested "you are deceiving
yourself." She seemed for a few moments in a mental agony, ex-
claiming, " O my unfaithfulness ! surely the Lord would be just, in
banishing me from his presence. Perhaps I am deceiving myself
in a dying hour." She entreated her father and others present, to
unite their prayers in her behalf, that the Lord might restore her
peace. It seemed, indeed, as if the powers of darkness were now
permitted to exert all their diabolical influence against this child of
grace, this heir of glory. But their malice was vain. The Lord
who sitteth in the heavens laughed to scorn their cruel power. In
answer to prayer, the clouds in a few moments were dispersed from
her mind, and she joyfully exclaimed, " Jesus is mine, and I am his !
O ! how I want strength to shout the praises of my God. This is the
last conflict I am to have with the adversary. Oh ! could I tell you
but one half of what I feel, how you would rejoice !"
One of her sisters with her husband being arrived, he said, " I am
glad to see you, but sorry to sec you so distressed in body." She
seemed somewhat surprised, and said, " I never was so happy in my
life. I am just going to lake possession of my inheritance." This
was about one hour previous to her death. Being informed that she
542 MEMOIRS, &C.
could live but a short time, she observed, smilingly," " Tell all
my friends, when they see the breath leave the body, to shout glory !
for I shall then be in glory." She remained perfectly sensible to
the last moment of her existence. To her father she said about fif-
teen minutes before her spirit departed, " Soon papa you will have
another child in heaven." With a countenance beaming with joy,
she raised her hands, and clasping them together, exclaimed — and
these were the last words she was heard to articulate — " O ! blessed
Jesus," and so fell asleep in the arms of her Beloved, Nov. 1, 1822,
From the Methodist Magazine, Vol. 7—1824.
543
MISS CATHARINE BROWN,
A CHEROKEE FEMALE.
ma -^ c»
Catharine Brown was born about the year 1800. The place
of her nativity was a beautiful plain, covered with tall forest trees,
in a part of the Cherokee country now called Wills-Valley, within
the chartered limits of Alabama. Her father's Cherokee name was
Yctu-nu-gung-ycih-ski, which signifies the drowned by a bear ; but he
was known among the whites by the name of John Brown. Her
mother's Indian name was Tsa-luh : the whites called her Sarah. Nei-
ther of her parents understood the English language, and of course
could neither read nor write ; when the missionaries first saw them they
had few ideas on the subject of religion.
It is natural to suppose that Catharine possessed no more religious
knowlege than her parents. She was, indeed, until her removal to
Brainerd, deplorably ignorant.
Her ideas of God extended little further than the contemplation
of him as a great Being, existing somewhere in the sky ; and her
conceptions of a future state were quite undefined. Of the Savior
of the world, she had no knowledge. She supposed that the Cher-
okees were a different race from the whites, and therefore had no
concern in the white people's religion : and it was some time before
she could be convinced, that Jesus Christ came into the world to die
for the Cherokees. She has been known, also to remark, subse-
quently to her conversion, that she was much afraid, when she first
heard of religion ; for she thought Christians could have no pleasure
in this world, and that, if she became religious, she too should be
rendered unhappy.
Her morals, however, were always irreproachable ; which is re-
markable, considering the looseness of the manners then prevalent
among the females of her nation, and the temptations to which she
was exposed, when, during the war with the Creek Indians, the army
of the United States was stationed near her father's residence.
Were it proper to narrate some well authenticated facts, with
reference to this part of her history, the mind of the reader would
be filled with admiration of her heroic virtue, and especially of the
protecting care of Providence. Once she even forsook her home,
and fled into the wild forest, to preserve her character unsullied.
These occurrences took place before the establishment of a school
at Brainerd, while Catharine was young, ignorant of the world, with-
out any clear views of morality, and destitute of the knowledge and
love of God : Strange that so great a sense of character should then
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have influenced her resolutions ! But she was a chosen vessel of
mercy, and a hand, which she then knew not was doubtless extended
for her preservation.
In the autumn of 1816, the Rev. Cyrus Kingsbury made his ap-
pearance before a general council of the Cherokees, and offered, in
behalf of the American Board of Commissioners for Foreign Mis-
sions, to establish schools among them. This offer was favorably
received, and early in the following spring, a school was opened at
Chickamaugah, since called Brainerd. Tidings of this came to the
ears of Catharine, then a hundred miles distant, and excited in her a
desire to attend the school. She besought her parents to send her,
and they granted her request. Accordingly, on the 9th of July 1817,
being about 17 or 18 years of age she became a member of the
establishment.
Thus was she brought, for the first time, within the sphere of
Christian instruction. Even then she was an interesting girl ; her
complexion blooming; her features comely; her person erect, and
of the middle stature ; her manners easy ; her demeanor modest
and prepossessing.
" It was however, manifest," says Mr. Kingsbury, " that with all
her gentleness and apparent modesty, she had a high opinion of her-
self, and was fond of displaying the clothing and ornaments, in which
she was arrayed. At our first interview, I was impressed with the
idea that her feelings would not easily yield to the discipline of our
schools, especially to that part of it, which requires manual labor of
the scholars. This objection I freely stated to her, and requested
that, if she felt any difficulty on the subject, she would seek admis-
sion to some other school. She replied, that she had no objection to
our regulations. I advised her to take the subject into consideration,
and to obtain what information she could, relative to the treatment
of the scholars, and if she then felt a desire to become a member
of the school, we would receive her. She joined the school, and
the event has shewn, that it was of the Lord, to the end that his name
might be glorified."
Some time before going to Brainerd, it is not known precisely
how long, while residing at the house of a Cherokee friend, she had
learned to converse in the English language, on common subjects and
to read words of one syllable.
These acquisitions, which were of no particular service at that
time they were made, are to be noticed with gratitude to God, as
the probable means of leading her to Brainerd. They excited de-
sires which she could gratify no where else.
Her teachers declare, that from her first admission to the school,
she was attentive to her learning, industrious in her habits, and re-
markably correct, in her deportment. From reading in words of
one syllable, she was able, in sixty days, to read intelligibly in the
Bible, and, in ninety days, could read as well as most persons of
MISS CATHARINE BROWN. 545
common education. After writing over four sheets of paper, she
could use her pen with accuracy and neatness, even without a copy.
Catharine had not heen long in the school, before divine truth be-
gan to exert an influence on her mind. This was manifested by a
tenderness of spirit, and an increased desire to become acquainted
with the Christian religion. The same effects were also observed
in two or three other Cherokees. She did not seem to be greatly
influenced by a fear of the punishment threatened against sin. She
rather seemed to be anxious to know the will of God and to do it.
The reading of the Scriptures, singing and prayer, occupied much
of her time, and often was she affected to tears ; while her whole
deportment, as a member of the family, was unexceptionable. In
December IS 17, she indulged a hope, that she had been pardoned
and accepted, through the Lord Jesus Christ. Of her own accord,
she began very soon to pray with her associates, and to assist in
teaching the Lord's Prayer and the catechism to the younger girls in
the school. Greatly did she desire the salvation of her people. For
them she wept and prayed, in secret places, and in the company of
her female friends at their weekly prayer-meetings.
Among the rest, the case of her brother David, then on the Ar-
kansas river, was specially interesting. One morning, having retir-
ed to the neighboring woods for devotion, she became so deeply en-
gaged in prayer for this dear brother, that the time passed insensi-
bly, and she remained in her sacred retreat till the sun was near set-
ting. She had been favored with unusual nearness of access to her
heavenly Father, and returned home with an humble confidence, that
He would fully answer her prayers. After David had gone to New
England to complete his education, having previously given satisfac-
tory evidence of piety, she related these facts to a confidential friend,
and said she wished to remember them with gratitude.
At the commencement of the year 1818, an event occured, which
shewed how much Catharine was attached to the society and the
privileges enjoyed at Brainerd. Her father, designing to remove
with his family beyond the Mississippi, came to take her from the
school. The prospect of a separation was equally painful to Cath-
arine and to the misssionaries. They regarded her as the first fruit
of their missionary labor, and loved her not only on that account, but
also on account of her pious and amiable conduct. On her part, the
affection was not less stroiis; ; and besides, she felt herself too weak
to leave the society of God's people, and go into the howling wilder-
ness alone.
She desired to receive, before her departure, the seal of the cov-
enant of grace, in the holy ordinance of baptism. This request was
cheerfully granted ; and, on the 25th of January 1818, in the pres-
ence of a large and solemn assembly, she consecrated herself to the
service of Christ. She then accompanied her father to his distant
abode.
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But circumstances prevented the immediate removal of her par-
ents, and she was permitted to revisit Brainerd for the purpose of
spending a few months more on that hallowed ground. Her re-
turn furnished an opportunity to admit her to full communion in the
visible church, which was done on the 19th of March, and the sol-
emn covenant with the Most High was ratified at the communion
table.
In this abstract, many facts worthy of insertion must be omitted.
We have space only for the more prominent events in her interesting
career.
The time subsequent to her return fled rapidly away, in pious
employments and Christian intercourse, and brought the expected,
dreaded separation. It shall be described in the words of those3
who, next to the lovely sufferer, felt it most.
" November 4. — The parents of Catharine Brown called on us.
They are on their way to the Agency. The old grey-headed man,
with tears in his eyes, said he must go over the Mississippi. The
white people would not suffer him to live here. They had stolen
his cattle, horses, and hogs, until he had very little left. He expect-
ed to return from the Agency, in about ten days, and should then
want Catharine to go home, and prepare to go with him to the Ar-
kansas. We requested him to leave his daughter with us yet a little
while, and go to the Arkansas without her ; and we would soon send
her to him, with much more knowledge than she now has. To this
lie would not consent ; but signified a desire, that some of us would
go along with him. It is a great trial to think of sending this dear
sister away with only one year's tuition ; but we fear she must go.
The Lord can and will order otherwise, if, on the whole, it is for
the best."
While her parents were gone to the Agency, she made a farewell
visit to Springplace, the seat of the Moravian mission, thirty-five miles
distant. She returned to Brainerd on the 9th; and, on the 20th the
missionaries thus describe her removal.
"We had a very affectionate scene, in the departure of our sister
Catharine. Her father and mother, returning from the Agency to
go to the Arkansas, stopped yesterday for the purpose of taking her
with them. She knew that she needed more information to be pre-
pared to go alone into the wilderness, and intreated them to leave
her with us a little longer. She is their only daughter,* and they
would not consent on any terms. The struggle was very severe.
She wept and prayed, and promised to come to them, as soon as
she had finished her literary education, and acquired some further
knowledge of the Christian religion. We engaged that she should
* Catharine had half-sisters, but was the only daughter of Mr. Brown by this
marriage.
MISS CATHARINE BROWN. 547
be provided for while here, and assisted in going to them. Her
mother said, she could not live, if Catharine would not now go with
them. Catharine replied, that to her it would be more bitter than
death to leave us, and go where there were no missionaries. Her
father became impatient, and told her, if she would not mind him,
and go with them now, he would disown her for ever, but if she
would now go, as soon as missionaries came to the Arkansas, (and
he expected they would be there soon,) she might go and live with
them as long as she pleased. He wished her to have more learning.
" Never before had this precious convert so severe a trial ; and nev-
er, perhaps, did her grace shine so bright. She sought for nothing
but to know her duty, and asked for a few minutes to be by herself
undisturbed. She returned, and said she would go. After she had
collected and put up her clothing, the family were assembled, a part-
ing hymn was sung, and a prayer offered. With mingled emotions
of joy and grief, we commended her to the grace of God, and they
departed.
" Precious babe in Christ ! a few months ago brought out of the
dark wilderness ; here illuminated by the word and Spirit of God ;
and now to be sent back into the dark and chilling shades of the for-
est, without one fellow traveler, with whom she can say, ' Our Fa-
ther !' O ye, who with delight sit under the droppings of the sanc-
tuary, and enjoy the communion of saints, remember Catharine in
your prayers."
She departed, expecting to return no more. How like a Chris-
tian she felt in view of this event, will further appear in extracts from
her letters.
To Mrs. Williams, who had removed from Brainerd to Elliot, she
says :
" I feel grieved when I think of leaving my Christian friends, and
of going far from all religious people, into a wild howling wilderness,
where no star shines to guide my wandering feet to the babe of
Bethlehem ; where no warning voice is heard to keep me in the
straight path that leads to heaven. When I look to that dark re-
gion, I start back ; but when I think of my two brothers there, and
my dear parents, who are soon to go, I feel reluctant to stay behind,
and leave them to perish alone."
To Mr. and Mrs. Chamberlain, at Brainerd, she writes, in a letter
dated Fort Deposit, Dec. 12, 1818 :
" I just sit down to address you with my pen. But is this all ? Am
I so soon called to bid you adieu, and see your faces no more in this
world ? O my beloved friends, you know not the love 1 bear to that
blessed spot, where I have spent so many happy hours with you ; but
it is past never to return.
" Dear friends, J weep; my heart is full; tears flow from my eyes
while I write; and why is it so ? Do T murmur? God forbid. Ought
I not to praise the Lord for what I have received, and trust Him for
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every thing ? O yes, his ways are best, and he ha? graciously prom-
ised, that i all things shall work together for good to them that love
him.' But do I love him ? Have I that love to him, which will ena-
ble me to keep all his commandments ? Do 1 love him with all my
heart ? O that the Lord would search me, and lead me in the way
of eternal life.
" Since I left you I have led a very lonesome life, and not heard the
gospel preached but once ; that is when father Hoyt was here, and
Milo. They came here on Tuesday evening. I was sitting in my
room, and heard a knocking at the door. I bade them come in ;
and who but Milo appeared. I inquired if any body was with him.
He said his father was at the door. That rejoiced me very much,
and I enjoyed very much while they were here. Blessed be God
for sending them here to instruct us.
" I am here amongst a wicked set of people, and never hear prayers,
nor any godly conversation. O my dear friends, pray for me. 1
hope you do. There is not a day passes but I think of you, and the
kindness I received during the time I staid with you. It is not my
wish to go to the Arkansas; but God only knows what is best for
me. I shall not attempt to tell you what I have felt since I left you,
and the tears I have shed when I called to mind the happy moments
we passed in singing the praises of God. However, I bear it as well
as I possibly can, trusting in our dear Savior, who will never leave
nor forsake them, that put their trust in him.
"It may be possible, that I may see you once more; it would be a
great happiness to me if I don't go to the Arkansas ; perhaps I may ;
but if I should go, it is not likely we shall meet in this world again : —
but you will excuse me, for my heart feels what I cannot express
with my pen."
The precise influence of this trial upon herself, cannot be perhaps
be determined, though doubtless it increased her faith and patience.
But it was a great blessing to others, as it led the way to the for-
mation of schools, and to the stated preaching of the gospel, at Creek
Path, the place of her father's residence, arid to the hopeful conver-
sion of nearly all her family ; thus illustrating the maxim, that our
greatest blessings may spring from our severest afflictions.
Her return was scarcely expected by the missionaries, when, on
the 23d of May, 1819, her father brought her again to Brainerd,
and committed her to their care until her education should be com-
pleted, intending to remove immediately, with the remainder of his
family, beyond the Mississippi. This purpose, as has been previous-
ly intimated, was not executed. Mr. Brown did not proceed to the
Arkansas country until more than four years after this time, and not
till the beloved daughter, for whose society he was so desirous, had
been laid in the dust. The causes of this delay are unknown to the
author of this memoir.
MISS CATHARINE BROWN. 549
In 1819 Cathraine was joined by her brother David, who soon
became seriously inclined, and before many months cordially assisted
her in the work of doing good. In March 1820, a school having
been requested by the chiefs at Creek Path, the Rev. Daniel S.
Butrick repaired to that place. In May his school had so increased
that there was no more room for other applicants; and the people de-
sired another school.
They said, if a female would come to instruct their daughters,
they would build a school house for her. At the same time it was
evident that a spirit of deep seriousness and anxious inquiry was be-
ginning to prevail among them.
These facts being known at Brainerd, the missionaries thought it
their duty to advise Catharine to go and take charge of the contem-
plated school. In this advice she acquiesced, though not without a
painful diffidence of her qualifications for such a service. When it
was known at Creek Path, that she was to take charge of the school,
the most enthusiastic joy was occasioned among the people. They
seemed to feel, that the preparations could not be made too soon.
Not less than fifty Cherokee men, besides negroes and boys, assem-
bled immediately to build a house which in two days, was nearly
completed according to their stipulation.
Every thing being in readiness, Mr. Brown came for his daughter,
and on the last day in May, a little less than two years and eleven
months from her first entering the school, as an untaught heathen
girl, she bade an affectionate adieu to Brainerd, to take charge of
the school for females near her paternal home. In her diary she
thus briefly describes her journey.
" May 31. — This morning I set out for Brainerd, with my dear fa-
ther. Traveled about twenty miles. Thought much of my belov-
ed christian friends. Whether I shall ever see them again is uncer-
tain. The Lord only knows.
"June 2. — Have been very sick to day; but, blessed be God, am
now a little better. Hope I shall be able to travel to morrow. The
Lord is very kind and merciful to all those, who put their trust in
him. Last night I slept on the floor without any bed. Felt quite
happy in my situation. Though very sick in body, yet I trust my
heart was well.
" 5. — Have arrived at my father's but am yet very unwell. Have
a bad cold. Am sometimes afraid I shall not be able to leach
school at Creek Path. We slept two nights on the ground with our
wet blankets, before we reached our home."
Catharine's school commenced with about twenty of the daugh-
ters of the forest, and the number was speedily augmented.
Not only the daughters but the mothers also manifested a strong de-
sire to receive instruction. Several of her pupils, in consequence of
previous tuition, could read in the Now Testament, when they came
under her care= These it was her delight to lead to a more perfect
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acquaintance, with that sacred volume. But most of the children
began with the rudiments of learning. This school she continued
three quarters of a year, much to the satisfaction of her scholars,
their parents and the missionaries. She finally relinquished it only
because the arrival of Mr. and Mrs. Potter gave her an opportunity
to surrender her charge into other hands, and at the same time open-
ed the way for her prosecuting higher studies, with a view to greater
usefulness to her people.
The spirit of serious inquiry at Creek Path, to which there was
an allusion at the close of the last chapter, increased after the arrival
of Catharine, especially among her own kindred. Doubtless she
was not backward, with the meekness of humility and with the ear-
nestness of affection, to warn and exhort. And she had the joy of
beholding her father, mother, a brother and two or three sisters, uni-
tedly seeking the pardon of their sins, and that peace which the
world giveth not. After a suitable trial, and due instruction, all
these her relatives, with others of their countrymen, publicly pro-
fessed faith in Christ, and were united to his visible church.
In the spring of 1821, Mr. and Mrs. Potter spent two months in
the family of Mr. Brown. Speaking of Catherine, Mrs. Potter
says:
" For sweetness of temper, meekness, gentleness and forbearance,
I never saw one who surpassed her. To her parents she was uncom-
monly dutiful and affectionate. Nothing which could contribute to
their happiness, was considered a burden : and her plans were read-
ily yielded to theirs, however great the sacrifice to her feelings.
The spiritual interests of the family lay near her heart and she some-
times spent whole evenings in conversation with them on religious
subjects.
" Before our arrival, she had established a weekly prayer meeting
with the female members of the family, which was also improved
as an opportunity for reading the word of God, and conversing upon
its important truths. Such was her extreme modesty, that she did
not make this known to me, until more than a week after my arrival ;
and the usual period had passed without a meeting. She at length
overcame her diffidence, and informed me what their practice had
been, in a manner expressive of the most unfeigned humility. These
meetings were continued while we remained in the family, and I be-
lieve they were highly useful. A monthly prayer meeting among
the sisters of the church was soon after established, in which Catha-
rine took a lively interest ; nor did she ever refuse when requested
to take an active part in the devotional exercises.
" Soon after we removed to our station, Catharine became a mem-
ber of our family, and of the school. All her energies were now
bent towards the improvement of her mind, with a view to future
usefulness among her people. Both in school, and in the family, her
deportment was such as greatly to endear her to our hearts, and she
was most tenderly loved by all the children."
MISS CATHARINE BROWN. 551
On the 2d of February 1822, her brother John died in the faith
and hope of the Gospel. She had watched over him with great af-
fection, on his journey to the grave, and has inserted in her diary, a
simple but beautiful narrative of his sickness and death.
In the fall of this year she left the family of Mr. Potter, to reside
with her parents. Here she was seen by the Rev. Mr. Bascom,
while on his journey through the Cherokee country, who thus speaks
of his visit to her family.
" We arrived after the family had dined, and she received us and
spread a table for our refreshment, with the unaffected kindness of a
sister. The gracefulness of her figure, and the sweetness of her
expression, have often been the subject of remark ; and I was the
more delighted with her humility, as I greatly feared I should discov-
er an unhappy influence from the misjudged praise, which had been
heaped upon her. The fact was, she gave me evidence, by her ha-
bitual behavior, of being a sanctified child of God."
Soon after this, the disease of which she died, began to assume
an aspect, which excited some alarm.
In consequence of this, she took a journey to Brainerd, in Febru-
ary 1823, with the view of consulting Dr. Butler, a medical gentle-
man residing at that station. She hoped also, to derive benefit from
the journey. These hopes were disappointed. A cold, tempestu-
ous storm arose, soon after she left home, to the whole of which she
was unavoidably exposed ; and the slight cough to which she had
for some time been subject, was very much increased. She spent
three weeks at Brainerd, and then returned to Creek Path, intending
to obtain permission from her parents to place herself again under
the care of Dr. Butler. But her increased illness rendered her un-
able to encounter the fatigues of another journey.
We now come to the closing scenes in the life of Catharine, where
her faith in her Savior was signally triumphant over the terror of the
grave.
After her return from Brainerd, she spent much time in reflecting
on death and its consequences, and these subjects she not unfre-
quently made the topics of conversation. One instance of this kind
is described by Mrs. Potter.
" Entering her room one evening at an early hour, I found she had
retired with unusual debility. She requested me to read from some
medical author the symptoms of consumption. I complied, and after
comparing them with her own, she expressed a belief that she had
that disease. I inquired what were her feelings in view of this con-
clusion. She replied with tears, ' I am not prepared to die.' You
have a hope, I said, of happiness beyond the grave? 'yes, I have a
hope resting on the promises of the Savior : but I have been un-
faithful !'
" We were both too much affected to say more, and remained for
some time silent. At length Catharine sweetly raised her voice and
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said, < Sister Potter, how beautiful is this hymn :' and then she re-
peated
' Why should we start and fear to die !
What timorous worms we mortals are !
Death is the gate of endless joy,
And yet we dread to enter there.
' The pains, and groans, and dying strife
Fright our approaching souls away ;
Still we shrink back again to life,
Fond of our prison and our clay,
' Oh, if my Lord would come and meet,
My soul should stretch her wings in haste
Fly fearless through death's iron gate,
Nor feel the terrors as she passed.
' Jesus can make a dying bed
Feel soft as downy pillows are,
"While on his breast I lean my head,
And breathe my life out sweetly there.'
" I inquired if she could adopt this as the language of her heart,
and she answered with great meekness, that she hoped she could."
It does not appear that after this, her mind was again seriously
disturbed by apprehensions respecting her own future well being.
But when she saw her aged parents in an infirm state of health,
and needing all the attention of an affectionate daughter, and when,
moreover, she reflected how many of her dear people remained ig-
norant of the only Savior of sinners, she clung to life, and her ear-
nest prayer was that she might recover. We are informed that her
trials, from these sources were at one time very severe.
She said to a beloved friend, * I know that it is my duty to submit
entirely to the will of God. He can carry on his work without me.
He can take care of my parents. Yet I am anxious to recover. I
wish to labor more for my people.'
On the 15th of May she was reduced very low by a hemorrhage
from the lungs, and for a few days was viewed as being on the bor-
ders of the grave. Remedies, however, were administered, which
gave a temporary relief. The Rev. Mr. Bascom, who saw her
again at this critical period, thus describes her appearance :
" I have rarely, if ever, seen a more lovely object for the pencil,
than she appeared to me on her dying bed. The natural mildness
of her features seemed lighted with a beam of heavenly hope, and
her whole aspect was that of a mature Christian, waiting, with filial
patience, the welcome summons to the presence of her Lord."
A request was immediately sent to Dr. Campbell, a kind friend
of her family, that he would visit her immediately. He could not
come till the 21st, by which time she was so enfeebled as to be un-
able to raise herself without assistance. He gave it as his opin-
MISS CATHARINE BROWN. 553
ion, that she could live but a lew days, unless she were removed to
Limestone, it being impossible for him to attend on her at so great a
distance.
Catharine could not endure the motion of a carriage. She was
therefore carried in a litter six miles to the Tennessee river; thence
she was taken in a boat, forty miles, to a village called Trianna ; and
from thence, on a litter again, five miles to Limestone. Her people
gave strong manifestations of affection for her, when she was about
leaving Creek-Path.
" Numbers," says Mrs. Potter, " assembled to take, as they fear-
ed, and as it proved, a last look of their beloved friend. After a
prayer, in which she was commended to the divine protection, the
canoe was announced to be in readiness, and we followed the litter,
borne by her affectionate people, to the river. Old and young were
bathed in tears, and some were obliged to use their influence to pre-
vent a general and loud lamentation. Catharine alone was calm,
while she bade farewell to those she tenderly loved."
Mr. Leech says, that small groups of her acquaintance were fre-
quently seen on the road, waiting her approach. When she arrived
where they were, they would hasten to the side of the litter, take her
by the hand, and often walk away without speaking a word, the tears
all the while rolling down their cheeks.
Under the skilful care of Dr. Campbell, she soon began to amend,
and hopes were entertained that she would even partially recover.
She herself seemed desirous only that God might be glorified. Her
friend Mrs. Potter, who visited her in this closing scene of her suffer-
ings, thus speaks concerning her.
While at Dr. Campbell's, I wrote a letter to her brother David,
informing him of her illness. When about to close the letter, I went
to her bed-side and said, ' Catharine, what shall I say to your broth-
er for you ?'
After a short pause, she replied, ' If you will write, I will dictate
a short letter.'
Then raising herself in the bed, and wiping away a tear, that was
falling from her eye, she, with a sweet smile, began to relate what
God had done for her soul while upon that sick bed.
To my partial eye, she was, at that moment, an interesting spec-
tacle, and f have often wished, that her portrait could then have been
taken. Her countenance was softened with the affectionate remem-
brance of an endeared brother, her cheek was a little flushed with
the exertion of speaking ; her eye beamed with spiritual joy, and a
heavenly smile animated the whole scene. I shall never forget it,
nor the words she then whispered in my ear.
The reader will naturally desire to see the letter, which was dic-
tated and penned under circumstances so interesting. It was writ-
ten in exact accordance with Catharine's dictation, and was as fol-
lows :
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554 MEMOIRS OF
" Limestone, June 13, 1823.
" My dear Brother, — Mrs. Potter has told you the particulars of
my illness. I will only tell you what I have experienced on my
sick bed.
"I have found, that it is good for me to be afflicted. The Snv-
ior is very precious to me. I often enjoy his presence, and I long
to be where I can enjoy it without sin. I have indeed been brought
very low, and did not expect to live until this time. But I have had
joy, such as I never experienced before. I longed to be gone ; was
ready to die at any moment.
" I love you very much, and it would be a great happiness to me
to see you again in this world. Yet I don't know that I shall. God
only knows. We must submit to his will. We know, that if we
never meet again in this world, the Lord has prepared a place in his
heavenly kingdom, where I trust we shall meet, never to part. We
ought to be thankful for what he has done for us. If he had not
sent us the Gospel, we should have died without any knowledge of
the Savior.
"You must not be grieved, when you hear of my illness. You
must remember, that this world is not our home, that we must all
die soon.
" I am here under the care of Dr. Campbell, and his very kind
family. My mother and sister Susan are with me. Since I came
here, I have been a great deal better, and the doctor sometimes gives
encouragement of my getting well. But we cannot tell. I am will-
ing to submit myself to the will of God. I am willing to die, or live?
as he sees best.
"I know I am his. He has bought me with his blood, and I do
not wish to have any will but his. He is good, and can do nothing
wrong. I trust, if he spares my life, he will enable me to be faithful
to his cause. I have no desire to live in this world, but to be enga-
ged in his service.
" It was my intention to instruct the people more than I had done,
when I returned from Brainerd ; but when I got home, I was not able
to do it.
" It was a great trial to me not to be able to visit our neighbors^
and instruct them. But I feel that it is all right. It is my prayer
that you may be useful, and I hope the Lord will make you useful
to our poor people.
" From your affectionate sister
Catharine."
The hopes of her recovery were of brief duration.
Though every attention, which an unwearied kindness could be-
stow, was given her, and prayer was offered continually on her be-
half, her Lord and Master was pleased to hasten her departure. She
had entered the last six weeks of her life, and thenceforward her de-
scent towards the grave was regular and unremitted.
MISS CATHARINE BROWN. 555
Dr. Campbell now thought it his duty to inform her parents and
herself, that his hopes, even of her partial recovery, were gone.
Upon communicating this intelligence to her father, who a little
before had come to Limestone, the good old man, after a solemn si-
lence of several minutes, observed, " The Lord has been good to
give me such a child, and he has a right to take her when he thinks
best. But though it is my duty to give her up, it is hard to part
with her."
Catharine received the notice without manifesting the least alarm,
only requesting the doctor to inform her, how long she might proba-
bly live.
On the morning of July 17th, she was supposed to have commen-
ced her last agonies, and Dr. Campbell was immediately called to
her bed-side.
I found, says he, some appearance of anxiety on her countenance,
which was the result of new sensations of bodily distress, and not of
any agitation of mind. As soon as she could speak, (for she was
sometimes speechless,) extending her hand to me, she calmly observ-
ed, " I am gone."
Some hours after this, when her distress returned, and her res-
piration became very difficult and painful, she said, in reference to
her sufferings, " What shall I do ?" I enquired, if, in this trying
hour, she could not confidently rely on her Savior ? She answer-
ed, "Yes."
Through the day her mind was perfectly tranquil, and though sev-
eral times, when her mother and friends were weeping about her,
the tears would start into her eyes, she would quickly suppress them.
She seemed to spend most of the time in prayer.
The night was one of considerable distress, owing to her difficulty
of breathing. In the morning she looked toward the window, and
asked me if it was not day. I replied, that it was. She then turn-
ed her eyes towards heaven, and an indescribable placidness spread
over her countenance.
Perhaps she thought, that the next morning she should behold,
would be the morning of the resurrection.
As death advanced, and the powers of nature gave way, she fre-
quently offered her hand to the friends around her bed. Her moth-
er and sister weeping over her, she looked steadily at the former, for
a short time, filial love beaming from her eyes ; and then, she
closed them in the sleep of death.
She expired without a groan, or a struggle. Even those around
the bed scarcely knew, that the last breath had left her, until I in-
formed them she was gone.
Thus fell asleep this lovely saint, in the arms of her Savior, a little
past six o'clock, on the morning of July 18th, 1823.
Her afflicted relatives conveyed her remains to Creek Path, where
fhey were, on the 20th, deposited near the residence of her parents,
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and by the side of her brother John, who had died about a year and
a half before, in the triumphs of the same faith.
Her age was about twenty-three ; and six years had elapsed from
her first entering the school at Brainerd. She was then a heathen.
But she became enlightened and sanctified, through the instrumen-
tality of the Gospel of Jesus, preached to her by the missionaries of
the cross ; and her end was glorious.
A neat monument of wood, erected by her bereaved relatives, cov-
ers the grave where she was laid. And though, a few years hence,
this monument may no longer exist to mark the spot where she slum-
bers, yet shall her dust be precious in the eyes of the Lord, and her
virtues shall be told for a memorial of her.
Such was Catharine Brown, the converted Cherokee. Such, too
were the changes wrought in her, through the blessing of Almighty
God on the labors of missionaries. They, and only they, as the in-
struments of divine grace, had the formation of her Christian char-
acter ; and that character, excellent and lovely as it was, resulted
from the nature of their instructions. Her expansion of mind, her
enlargement of views, her elevated affections, her untiring benevo-
lence, are all to be traced, under God, to her intercourse with them.
The glory belongs to God ; but the instrumental agency, the effective
labor, the subordinate success, were theirs.
In her history, we see how much can be made of the Indian char-
acter. Catharine was an Indian. She might have said, as her
brother did to thousands, while passing through these States. " Ab-
original blood flows through my veins." True, it was not unmixed ;
but the same may be affirmed of many others of her people. Her
parentage, her early circumstances and education, with a few un-
important exceptions, were like those of the Cherokees generally.
She dwelt in the same wilderness, was conversant with the same
society, was actuated by the same fears, and hopes, and expectations,
and naturally possessed the same traits of character. Yet what did
she become ! How agreeable as an associate, how affectionate as a
friend, how exemplary as a member of the the domestic and social
circle and of the Christian church, how blameless and lovely in all
the walks of life ! Her Christian character was esteemed by all who
knew her, while she lived, and will bear the strictest scrutiny, now
she is dead. To such an excellence may the Indian character attain ;
for, to such an excellence did it actually attain in her.
And why may it not arrive at the same excellence in other Indians?
Are there no other minds among them as susceptible of discipline
and culture ? no other spirits, that, in the plastic hands of the Divine
Agent, can receive as beautiful a conformation? Are there not dis-
positions as gentle, hearts as full of feeling, minds as lively and strong?
And cannot such minds be so fashioned and adorned, that heavenly
grace shall beam as charmingly from them, as it did from hers ?
MISS CATHARINE BROWN. 557
The supposition, that she possessed mental and moral capabilities,
which are rare among her people, while it adds nothing to our re-
spect for her, does injustice to her nation. In personal attraction and
in universal propriety of manner, she was, undoubtedly, much dis-
tinguished. But, in amiableness of disposition, in quickness of ap-
prehension, in intellectual vigor, it is believed there are hundreds of
Cherokee youth, who are scarcely less favored.
Catharine was not the only convert from her people. There have
been others, both among the old and young, in whom similar trans-
formations have been wrought. Her brother John was an instance.
Her aged and venerable parents, who are much and justly respected
by all who knew them, are instances. Others still might be named,
were it not probable that these pages will fall under their notice.
More than fifty Cherokees were added to the church, the first year
after the decease of Catharine, the great proportion of whom adorn
their profession in a manner resembling what we admire in her.
It is hardly possible, indeed, that any of these converts should be-
come so well known to our community as she was. Circumstances
have changed. The novelty of Indian missions is gone. The mul-
tiplication of converts diminishes our curiosity respecting individuals.
But excellence and worth of character are none the less real for be-
ing unnoticed and unknown.
Here, then, we find encouragement. The success of past efforts
has been rich in its nature, and animating in its amount ; and the
same kind of instruments, increased in number, are still employed,
and employed, too, upon similar materials. The course of divine
grace, moreover, is, in some sense, uniform, like the course of nature;
so that what Almighty God has done, in past time, is an earnest and
a pledge (circumstances being the same,) of what he will do, in time
to come. Upon these accounts, among others, we may cherish
raised expectations. Should the enterprise which has been com-
menced so auspiciously, be prosecuted with prudence, zeal, and in
the fear of God, we shall not be extravagant if we look for the gene-
ral prevalence of pure religion among a people, in the midst of
whom, at die breaking up of their long night of paganism, this inter-
esting female shone as a morning star.
The present is emphatically the time for vigorous Christian effort.
Probably it is the only time when great success is possible. Various
unpropitious causes press heavily upon the poor Indians; and it is
believed, that nothing will save them from extinction, as a people,
but the general prevalence of true religion. All things else will be
vain without this.
The position, that civilization must prcecde Christianity, is so un-
supported by facts, i^ so opposed to all experience, that one would
hardly he advanced by enlighl med philosophers, or be received by
rational Christians. What is civilization ? In Pagan and Moham-
medan countries, it is, it ever has been, a state of society, where
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moral excellence is little known, and domestic and social happiness
little enjoyed ; where man is a lordly tyrant, and woman is a slave.
True civilization is found only in Christian countries ; and no where,
but as the result of Christianity ; of Christianity, too, planted, in the
first instance, by missionary enterprise.
Bring this religion to act strongly upon the Indians. Give them
the full enjoyment of Christian ordinances. Then their ' winter will
be past, the rain will be over and gone.' Agriculture, art, science,
legislation, and literature, the germs of which already appear, will
grow in rich luxuriance, and the Indian character will be respected
by the nations of the earth.
Let the life of Catharine Brown operate as an appeal to the be-
nevolence of the Christian community. Though dead, she speaks :
and oh, let her voice fall with persuasive and irresistible eloquence
upon every ear.
Shall her people, of whom, by the purifying and ennobling influ-
ences of the Gospel, so much can be made, be abandoned to igno-
rance and wo ? Shall beings who are capable of knowing God, of
understanding the grand economy of his grace, of enjoying the im-
perishable blessings of his salvation, be shut out eternally from such
wisdom, and debarred forever from such enjoyment?
Are they not susceptible of whatever is useful, and beautiful, and
even sublime, in character ? Can they not appreciate, and will they
not use, the means of Christian civilization, if placed within their
reach ?
And may we not expect an abundant reward ? Nay, have we
not already been amply rewarded ? To say nothing of the impulse
given to the intellect, the industry, and the enterprise, of the nation,
to which the subject of this memoir belonged ; or of their accele-
rated progress in legislation and government ; or of the amelioration
in the habits and manners of their domestic and social life ; or of
the rudiments of learning imparted to a multitude of children and
youth ; or of the amount of sacred truth, the only means of conver-
sion and sanctification, instilled into their minds ; or of an inheritance
in the heavens secured to many souls : — to say nothing of all this,
Were not the holy life and triumphant death of Catharine Brown, an
ample remuneration for all the labors and expenditures of the mis-
sion to her tribe ?
Say, ye missionaries of the cross, should ye repent of your self-
denying toils, if this had proved your only reward ? Say, ye churches
of the Redeemer, would you recall her sainted spirit from the skies,
if what ye have expended for her nation could be refunded ? A
thousand worlds would not be worth what you have, through the
grace of God, secured to her, as is humbly believed, in the regions
of the blessed. And when ye, also, stand on the heights of the
Zion above, and behold her ransomed spirit " filled with all the ful-
ness of God," and exulting amid the host of heaven, will ye have
MISS CATHARINE BROWN. 559
any regrets for the sacrifices it cost you to send the Gospel to her
people ?
O let sloth be driven away ; let the grasp of avarice be loosed ; let
benevolence assume the dominion ; let a spirit of enterprise be kin-
dled ; let the messengers of salvation be quickly sent to every tribe
that roams the western wilds.
Then " the wilderness and the solitary place shall be glad for them3
and the desert shall rejoice and blosson as the rose."
From the Missionary Herald, Vol. XXL— 1825.
5C0
TAHNEH,
A CHEROKEE FEMALE.
Perhaps nothing places more clearly before the mind of the
public the character of missionary labors among the heathen, and
the success which attends them, than biographical sketches of those
who become hopefully pious, and exemplify their piety in their life,
and at the hour of death. The change of feeling and conduct, in
all the relations of life, under sufferings and reproaches, and the new
hopes which spring up and sustain them in sickness and death, be-
come manifest. The reader, by knowing the moral character of
unevangelized nations, may estimate, almost as by a measure, what
Christianity is adapted to do, and does in many cases do for them.
The subjoined account of Tahneh, who at her baptism was called
Naomi, was drawn up by one of the missionaries at Dwight; some
slight alterations only having been made in the arrangement and :
shape of a few paragraphs.
Tahneh was a full-blooded Cherokee, the daughter of a consider-
able chief and warrior of Wills- Valley, in the old nation. She came
to this country in the year 18 IS. At that time she was, as nearly as
we could ascertain, fifty eight years old. Previous to our acquaint-
ance with her, we know very little of her history, or of any events
concerning her. By her former neighbors, who are now in this
country, she was reputed an honest, industrious, persevering, and
kind woman ; generally respected and ever beloved. The marked
defect in her character, however, was great irritability and peevish-
ness. Much of this, doubtless, was attributable 'to ill health.
In the winter of 1822-3, she removed to the lower settlement on
Point Remove, where she was placed under the sound of the Gos-
pel, which, till that time, she had never heard. Her first attendance
on public worship, was at the request of one of her near neighbors
and early acquaintances. According to her desire, an abstract was
given of the life, miracles, sufferings and death of the Savior. This
was followed by a personal application to herself. With the whole
she was deeply interested, and expressed a desire that the same gra-
cious words might be spoken to her whenever opportunity offered.
From that moment it was manifest that divine truth had reached her
heart, and was exerting its influence there. She became deeply dis-
tressed ; and as it appears from our journal of November, 1823, her
mind was greatly perplexed with some of the doctrines of the Gos-
pel. In vain did she try to reconcile the sinner's entire helplessness
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and dependence with his moral freedom and his duty to use the
means of grace. Her heart was evidently hostile to these truths.
When told that a condemned heathen would be punished with less
severity in the world of retribution, than a rejecter of the Gospel,
she very fervently expressed the wish that she had never heard it ;
as she was sure she should be among the condemned, and must
suffer for having abused her privileges, and rejected the offered sal-
vation.
She continued for several weeks after this very much distressed,
and opposing her only deliverer, until she felt herself wholly lost, her
strength entirely spent, and that she must have a Savior, or perish.
Then she turned to the Lord Jesus Christ, and found him a precious,
a willing, a sufficient Savior. We trust that like Mary, she sat down
at his feet and bathed them with tears of deep and real penitence ;
that she cast herself upon him as her only hope. In July, 1824,
while on a visit at Dwight, she expressed a desire to receive Chris-
tian baptism. We embraced an opportunity to converse with her
respecting her knowledge and experience of the truths of religion,
and found her deeply serious, and, we hope, truly humble. Her
appearance and conversation exhibited good evidence of a renewal
unto spiritual life, especially when we took into consideration the pre-
vious circumstances of her life. At a church meeting during the
same month, she was examined relative to her fitness to be received
as a candidate for baptism, and the privileges of the church. The
examination was very particular, and every answer gave entire satis-
faction to all the members of the church. The graces of meekness,
penitence, and humble trust in God our Savior, were prominently
manifested, and gave us reason to hope that she would be enabled
to exhibit the best of all proofs of a new heart, — a holy life.
In September following, Tahneh presented herself before the con-
gregation, and solemly entered into covenant with God and his people.
At her baptism, she was called Naomi. She afterwards presented
for baptism an orphan boy, of whom she had the care.
Not long after this, some grievous charges were brought against
Naomi by those who opposed Christians and Christianity : but so far
as could be ascertained, they were utterly groundless; and it appear-
ed that she had adorned her Christian profession, and borne the cruel
persecutions with which she had been honored, with the gentleness
and patient forbearance of primitive Christianity. She was also, at
that time visited with other severe affliction, in the sickness of her
only son, whose disease, a pulmonary consumption, seemed rapidly-
drawing to a fatal termination. The young man was afterwards
brought by her to the station, as he wished to spend the short rem-
nant of his life with us, that he might receive Christian instruction
and consolation while he lived, and Christian burial after his decease,
In March, 1825, he died, not without giving us ground to hope that
he was enabled, though with a weak and trembling faith, to trust his
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soul in the hands of the Redeemer. We rejoiced greatly to see, at
that time of sorrow, the triumph of Christian principle, and the con-
solations of Christian hope, in the case of Naomi. Had her son
been taken from her two years before, she would have been inconso-
lable, and her heart and her tongue would have risen in rebellion
against the appointments of heaven. " When," said she, " about
nine months ago, I was permitted to embrace my only and long ab-
sent son, I thought I was a poor, feeble, helpless old woman, and
that my Savior had sent my son to be a stay and a comfort to me,
as I walked down the decline of life to the grave. I certainly re-
joiced, and I hope I was thankful. And now when I think how soon
my son was laid aside by sickness, how he suffered and languished
away, and now is gone, to come back to his mother no more, I some-
times feel my heart say, it is hard, it ought not to be so. But then
I remember my sins, what 1 deserve, how many comforts are yet left
to me, and that my Savior has done this, my heart says it is well.
We shall not long be parted. I feel I shall soon follow him, and that
my Savior will take me to himself forever.
About the middle of the same month, Naomi became ill herself.
Her disease appeared to be a violent inflammation of the liver, and
soon became very alarming. She continued to decline, and on the
27th became deranged, and on the 31st breathed out her soul into
the hands of her Savior. She died in the Lord, and as we have
every reason to believe, went to rest in the blessedness of heaven.
During the whole of her sickness, until she lost her senses, she bore
tier pains, which were very severe, without a murmur, saying, " It
is my Savior's hand ; I am resigned and happy." Even after her
delirium commenced, many of her expressions indicated that her
soul was stayed on God.
Her life on earth was a life of sorrow. Almost every dispensation
of providence towards her, since we have known her, has seemed to
say, " This is not your rest." But we doubt not that she is now in
a world where all tears are wiped from her eyes, and where she has
found by experience that they who humble themselves shall be ex-
alted. This was the first breach made in our little church. We
can add, that the memory of Naomi is affectionately cherished by-
all the mission, family, and especially by the native brothers and sis-
ters. Even her enemies are now at peace with her, and often speak
most respectfully of her, and of the evidence which she gave of true
piety. One of her daughters is now a member of our church ; and
it is believed that the example and affectionate instructions, exhorta-
tions, and prayers of her mother, had an important influence in lead-
ing her to embrace the hope of the Gospel.
Such was the life, the character, and the death of this christian-
ized Cherokee. The change was wrought in her by hearing the
truths of the Gospel. The case of this woman is not a solitary one.
Many are now living who show in their conduct the same power of
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conscience, the parental solicitude for their children, and the same
kind social affection. Many have died with the same hope. At the
death of the members of his church, the missionary con estimate the
value of the work which he has been the happy instrument of doing.
Instead of seeing those, whom he has labored to instruct in the way
of salvation, dying in utter darkness and apathy as to the future, he
is animated with the hope, that, in the instance before him, the end of
his labors has been attained : one individual has begun a holy life, has
gone through the dangerous temptations of this world, has continued
steadfast to the end : and he now delivers over the soul which he
lias been watching for, into the hands of the Redeemer, saying to
himself, as he thinks on the dying scene, there is one soul rescued
from eternal death — one gone into joy unspeakable and full of glo-
ry— surely my labors have not been in vain to the Lord.
From the Missionary Herald, Vol 24.— 182S.
564
MRS. JANE CLARK.
Mrs. Jane Clark, the subject of the following pages, was the
daughter of Reuben and Ruth Mitchell of Dorchester county, east-
ern shore of Maryland. She was born December the 14th, 1787.;
her parents were among the first in that county who received the
gospel of Christ, as taught in the ministry of the Methodist Episco-
pal Church, and to whose souls it became the happy power of God
to salvation : from that time forward, and for many years, their house
was occupied as a place of public preaching, and as an asylum for
the messengers of Christ in the hour of trial and danger ; and to
which many fled to hear the words of life and salvation in the name
of Christ. Their constant care and attention at all times were, to
bring up their children in the fear and favor of heaven, and in this
their efforts were crowned with the most distinguished blessings of
God ; several of their children have long since died in the triumphs
of the Christian's faith, while they themselves are left to toil on the
shore of time. Their other children, four sons and two daughters,
are members of the Methodist Episcopal Church, and the happy
partakers of the grace and favor of heaven.
About the age of fourteen, the subject of these lines, (as she has
often declared,) became acquainted in some measure with the
depravity and corruption of her nature, while attending the closing
scene of one of her most intimate and affectionate female compan-
ions, whose soul was happy in her God. From this time forward
she became much interested with the nature and tendency of the
Christian religion ; while her tears, her groans, her sighs, and her
prayers, conducted her broken and desponding heart to the cross of
Christ. In this state she continued for some time, gazing on the
bleeding, crucified Son of God by faith ; and as she thus gazed,
light broke into her soul, the darkness which before had surrounded
her mind gave way. While she, in the transport of joy, and the as-
surance of love, was enabled to say, " I have found him, 1 have
found him." From this time forward, even to the closing scene of
her life, she retained her confidence in her God : and although cast
upon a rough and boisterous sea of affliction for years, she could
still adopt the language of the poet and say,
" Yet will I in my Savior trust.
And glory that he died for me."
In the month of April, 1817, she was arrested with a severe attack
of the inflammatory rheumatism, which for nearly twelve mouths
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deprived her of the use of all her limbs. After continuing in this
state for some time, she was attacked with a severe coughing, ac-
companied with a discharge of blood from the lungs, which con-
tinued, at times, to the day of her death. So that for the last nine
years of her life, she never enjoyed one month's health at a time,
so that life, in some measure with regard to her, had lost all its
charms, if any it possessed. In the month of October 1826, in re-
turning from an evening's visit to a friend, she was arrested with a
chill which was shortly after succeeded by a fever, so as to confine
her to her bed and room, at which time she stated to me that she
should not recover the attack, but that in a short time she should re-
turn to her Father and her God.
From this time she became more than ever engaged in abstract-
ing her mind from her family and the cares of the world, and fixing
it on the interests of the soul, and so continued until the day in
which God signed her release from earth to heaven, so that when
the messenger came she was ready to go. As a wife, she was at all
times affectionate, and cautiously studied the interests of her family.
As a mother, she was tender and much interested for the welfare of
her children : as a neighbor she studied the peace and harmony of
society, and as a Christian, she was warmly attached to the doctrines
and discipline of the Methodist Episcopal Church, of which she was
a member from early life. Her piety was of that character, that
she would often " weep with those that wept, and rejoice with those
that rejoiced." For several of the last years of her life, her closet
and her God could witness the sincerity of her tears, shed for the
cause of her Savior and the salvation of men. At times, all hours of
the night, as well as those of the day, could find her retiring to her
closet with her God, until she was compelled to yield to the severity
of her increasing affliction. She was always much pained, whenever
I was prevented from attending any of my regular appointments,
(which was often the case during the last six months of her life,) in
consequence of her indisposition ; and although my attention was
wanting, she would endeavor to press me into the work of calling
sinners to repentance.
The last six months of her life she was altogether confined to her
bed and room ; during which time her affliction, of a complicated
character, was extremely severe : but in the midst of all, her soul
was kept in peace, although the enemy at times would thrust hard at
her. So that at one time she called her husband, and said, " My dear,
it seems as if the Lord deals hard with me, that I should be thus af-
flicted and cannot die, although 1 wish to go." He endeavored to
encourage her, by telling her it was the enemy of souls that was striv-
ing to destroy her comfort, and to look to the Lord for deliverance :
after pausing for some time, she said to him, " I now know why I
am thus afflicted, it is for my unfaithfulness." From this time, her
•:onfidence seemed to increase, and so continued, mixed with a pa-
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tience and resignation such as few have never been called to wit-
ness.
A few weeks before the closing scene arrived, she said to an old
saint of God, that called to visit her, " My dear sister 0***s, I shall
get to glory before you. Oh how good the Lord is to me." On the
Sunday week before she was called to take her departure, she sup-
posing her end drawing near, called her husband, and said, " I wish
you to send for sister B****r, I fear she has something against me,
and I wish to know if she has." At night she appeared much
worse, but her confidence growing stronger and stronger in her God,
so that her soul became truly happy. She then turning her head,
and looking her husband in the face, as he sat by her bed, said,
" My dear, will you meet me in glory, will you meet me in glory ?"
After giving her an assurance that he would endeavor so to do, she
then raised her voice to such an extraordinary degree, as to be
heard in every part of the house, and said to her weeping friends
who came to see her, one by one, " Oh sister S*****d, will you
meet me in glory ?" " Sister H*****y, will you meet me in glo-
ry ?" and then said to her sister, " Oh Harriet, will you meet me in
glory ?" After resting awhile, she turned to a young lady who came
to stay the night with her, and said, " Oh Maria, do get religion, get
your soul converted, and meet me in glory. Oh how good is the Lord
to me !" She then said to me, " My dear, you have not sent as yet
for sister B****r." I then told her I would : at which time two
of the sisters present went to bring her. She then said I " fear I
I shall not have strength to speak to her when she comes. About
10 o'clock she came into the room, when I said, my dear, sister
B****r, is come, when she raised her feeble and trembling arms,
and caught her round the neck and said, "Sister B****r, have you
any thing against me ?" when she, bathed in tears, replied, " No,
my dear sister Clark, I never had, but I have always loved you."
" Now," said she, " I can die in peace, but not before. Oh sister
B****r will you meet me in glory ?" She continued in this happy
state of mind from that time until within a few days of her death,
when her mind for a short time appeared to be oppressed by the
tempter of souls. At this time, brother Guest, the preacher in
charge of the station, called in to see her ; after which her mind be-
came composed and happy in God. On my coming into the room,
she said to me, " Oh how I wish to die and to be with Christ." And
although tenderly attached to her children, she gave them up into
die hands of her God, and appeared to have lost sight of them alto-
gether; knowing that he, into whose hands she had committed them,
" was able to do abundantly above all that she could ask or think,"
for them. The evening before she died, she said to me, " Unless I
get better I shall not survive till morning ; do you think 1 shall ?" to
which I made no reply, owing to the feelings of my heart upon the
solemn event about to transpire. Her coughing with a severe vom-
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iting, continued from this time, with scarcely any intermission, until
within a few minutes before she died ; when her yielding spirit could
say —
" Thee will I love, my joy, my crown,
Thee will I love my Lord, my God,
Thee will I love, beneath thy frown,
Or smile, thy sceptre or thy rod.
What though my flesh and heart decay,
Thee will I love in endless day."
About half past one o'clock in the morning, she complained of
the dimness of her sight. A few minutes before she died, she said
to me, " My dear, how weak I feel, I am almost gone ;" she then
desired to be raised a little in the bed, which was done : when she
said, with her soul transported with the prospect of immortality and
eternal life, " I am going :" and as she uttered these words, and
while the balm was applied to her lips, her head reclined in the
arms of sister L******b, and her anxious spirit took its flight to her
God and Savior, a quarter before two o'clock, on Wednesday morn-
ing, April the 19th, 1826, in the 39th year of her age. We may
now adopt the language of the poet and say —
" This languishing head is at rest,
Its thinking and aching is o'er;
This quiet immoveable breast
Is heaved by affliction no more."
From the Methodist Magazine, Vol. 10 — 1827, for which it was written by he?
husband.
568
MRS. ELIZABETH BISHOP.
Mrs. Bishop was a native of Marlborough, Mass., and was born
in June, 1798. Her family name was Edwards. She was early-
deprived of both her parents ; her father having died before she was
two years old, and her mother when she was about fourteen. Left
an orphan at this early age, she became dependent for support, upon
her own exertions. At this trying period she found faithful friends
who counselled and protected her. Of their kindness she was
deeply sensible, and repaid it with gratitude and warm affection.
While attending school at Bradford, she became decidedly pious,
and was ever after very exemplary, in the performance of all reli-
gious duties. She was deeply interested in the cause of missions ;
and though she felt her incompetency to engage personally in a work
of such magnitude as missionary labors among the heathen, yet
when that seemed to become her duty, she would cheerfully yield
up herself to the service. Her marriage with Mr. Bishop, and em-
barkation at New Haven, Conn., for the Sandwich Islands, took
place in November, 1822, and she arrived at the latter place in
April 1823. From 1824 till her decease she resided at Kairua.
Mrs. B. was possessed of a very cheerful and amiable disposition
and strong powers of mind. She also possessed a great desire for
intellectual improvement, and carefully availed herself of every op-
portunity of acquiring knowledge. She was uncommonly persever-
ing in surmounting difficulties which stood in her path. She seems
to have been eminently qualified for her labors among the heathen,
and secured the confidence and affection of all her brethren and
sisters in the same field. That she was much beloved by the peo-
ple of the Islands, appears from their assiduous attentions during her
sickness. She was peculiarly successful in teaching the females and
gaining their affections.
Mrs. Bishop was taken ill in August, 1827 ; and immediately be-
came unable to perform the ordinary labors in her family. She
seemed at first to suffer from no particular disease, but from a gene-
ral debility, with occasional slight pains in different parts of her sys-
tem. As her illness increased, various remedies were resorted toy
without giving any permanent relief. She removed into the moun-
tains to enjoy the cooler and purer air ; but the desired effect not
being produced, she accompanied Mr. Bishop to Honoruru, on the
island of Oahu, to try the effect of a voyage, and with the hope also
of finding at that island, some foreign physician, whose advice she
might avail herself of. For a time she was somewhat benefited by
memoirs, he. 569
the voyage ; and Dr. Ford, of the English whale ship, Elizabeth,
and the surgeon of a Russia discovery ship, which were then in port,
paid the kindest attention to her case, until they perceived that their
prescriptions produced little or no good effect. They pronounced
her disease to be an obstinate dyspepsy. After spending about three
months at Honoruru, she returned to Kairua. In the mean time
her debility had greatly increased, and her pains had become exceed-
ingly severe. The irritation of her nervous system, had become
such, that the slightest noise would agitate and distress her. The
voyage to Kairua exhausted her still more ; and after her arrival
there, she wasted away rapidly. While at Honoruru, besides the
medical aid of the two physicians mentioned above, she shared in
the sympathy and care of the mission families at that place ; and
while at Kairua she received from Mrs. Thurston the kindest atten-
tion. The native females of both places, and especially the latter,
where she finished her course, were constantly solicitious to testify
their esteem and affection. Mr. B. remarks on this point. —
" The christian females in this place were not backward in their at-
tentions at this hour of trial. With the tenderest sympathy for the
sufferings of their beloved teacher, they vied with each other, who
should be foremost in waiting upon her and administering to her
comfort. Two in rotation, came each morning, and sat by her bed-
side through the day, fanned her, bathed her aching head in wa-
ter, and chafed her cold limbs with their hands : thus affording the
clearest evidence, that her labors with them had not been in vain.
After I had become nearly exhausted with watchings and anxiety,
they continued their visits during the night, alternately administering
to her wants."
All hope of Mrs. B.'s recovery died away. Her strength was
exhausted but her pains were not mitigated. She bore them, how-
ever, through all her decline, with exemplary patience and resigna-
tion to the divine will. She continued to grow feeble, until the % 1st
of February, 1828, when she ceased from her labors and sufferings
on earth, to enter into that rest which remains for the people of God.
A communication from her husband contains a statement of her feel-
ings in view of approaching death, and affords ample evidence of
her humility, the high standard by which she estimated the Christian
character, and her confidence in the salvation of the gospel.
From the first of her sickness, Mrs. Bishop became impressed
with the belief, that she had not long to live, and often expressed to
me, the necessity of setting her house in order for the event of death.
At that time I considered it as the effect of melancholy, brought on
by anxiety and a declining state of health. While residing at Kua-
hewa, with the family of Mr. Bingham, she one day walked out to
a solitary spot, where she supposed no human footsteps would often
tread, and selected the place as one where she could wish to repose
after her decease.
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She was constantly impressed with a sense of her unfaithfulness,
and the little good she had accomplished during the few years of her
missionary life, and often prayed that she might be spared in order
to make amends for past neglect. As I may have occasion fre-
quently to advert to the low estimation in which she held her services
in the cause, and the opinion, which she entertained at times, that
her neglect of the heathen had even been a reproach, I would take
this occasion to bear my testimony, in accordance with my brethren,
that her active mind when not occupied in necessary domestic con-
cerns was ever employed in doing something for the spiritual or tem-
poral good of the people around her. She was daily in the habit of
receiving the females into her house, to instruct them in reading,
writing and domestic arts. And the reason why she could not fully
appreciate this, during her last illness, was doubtless owing to the
melancholy state of her mind, springing out of her disorder. She
was never, when in health, prone to think highly of her religious
attainments ; but possessing the highest charity for others, she would
often propose them to herself, as models for imitation. She never
could feel, when she had done for the heathen what was in her pow-
er, that she had so done her duty, as to merit the approbation of her
Master. In health, her spirits were usually buoyant and cheerful ;
but in regard to her religious duties, she was ever humble, and sel-
dom appealed to them, as an evidence of her piety. She often used
to lament that she could find no secluded spot in or about the house
where she could retire at stated seasons for secret devotion ; and
gave that as a reason why she had no more religious enjoyment.
But in her late sickness, the thought that she had not always been
punctual in the secret duties of the closet, gave her the deepest sor-
row. Often she would in the most solemn manner charge me, as I
valued my peace of conscience, and desired to avoid the pangs of
remorse on a dying bed, to be ever punctual in secret devotions.
She desired me also to tell it to others, when she was gone, that
they too might learn from her to avoid what she then suffered. It
may be proper to remark here, that in the duties of the closet, her
conscience was ever tender ; and in my opinion, she did always en-
deavor to be punctual in this respect : but it is probable that the duty
was sometimes omitted by her, owing to the interruptions to which
she was subjected every hour in the day, by the intrusion of natives
into a house, where there is no upper chamber, or inner door, un-
less a curtain may be so called.
Mrs. B. was one who ever felt the most lively concern for the
welfare of her children, situated in this land of strangers, and wit-
nessing the corrupt manners that surrounded them. It was one
great burden of her daily prayers, that they might be preserved from
the influence of pernicious examples. It can well be imagined,
therefore, what must have been her feelings, in the prospect of leav-
ing them in their infantile state. Many Meed were the tears which
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she shed, and the prayers which she offered up on their behalf, that
if possible her life might be spared for their sakes. But God was
gracious to her in this also, and gave her strength to resign them into
his hands, and assurance that he would raise up kind friends to pro-
vide for them, when she was no more. I was both much surprised
and comforted to find her, who had scarcely been absent from them
one hour, so willing to commit them to the future care of others
whom she knew not, assured that God would be their protector and
better portion.
It was a source of great grief to her mind, that she could find no
one of all that visited her in her sickness, who seemed to think with
her, that she would not recover. The subject of death was one upon
which she desired to converse often ; but those with whom she spoke
on the subject, felt that such an event was improbable ; and instead
of sympathising in her feelings, would usually request her for the
sake of her health, not to indulge in those reflections, for there was
no probability that she would die under this complaint. " It is try-
ing," she would reply, " that none can be found who feel with me
that death is nigh : but," she would add, " it is all right : I must
pass the Jordan of death alone : there none can bear me company,
and why not learn the way alone, since it is the will of my heavenly
Father." Indeed it was our ignorance of the full extent of her dis-
order, supposing it was dyspepsy merely, that induced us all to think
that her sickness though severe, would eventuate in her restoration
to health. But no assurances from physicians or friends could alter
her views of this subject: she would lay her hand upon her heart
and say " here it is ; I feel that death is near and has already be-
gun his work. The sensations of my own breast tell me that I shall
not recover."
She would often express the liveliest gratitude to those who atten-
ded upon her to administer to her comfort. " May the Lord bless
you," she would say, " I am not worthy of your kindness, nor can I
ever repay you; but I pray God to bless you, and reward you.
Should I recover, I am sure I should be willing to wash the feet of
you all." At other times she would say, " O you know not how it
humbles me to see your concern for one so unworthy: if you knew
but half of my sins, you would not, I am sure you could not, waste
your precious time upon me so undeserving." But the greatest
grief of all, and that which caused her deep humiliation of heart,
was, that I should be called from my appropriate work to attend up-
on her. " When souls are perishing for lack of knowledge," she
would say to me, " is it right that you should forsake your work of
preaching and translating the Word of God, to attend upon me, who
have merited nothing but displeasure from the hands of my heavenly
father ? I fear I am answerable for all this." When I assured her it
was not so; that she was not more answerable for my attendance up-
on her, than she was accountable for her illness, she replied,, "I fear
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that it is my own imprudence that has brought me here ; and if so, am
I not accountable for the consequences ?"
In all her religious views, even in the darkest hours, I observed
that her faith in the word and Providence of God, in the fulness
and all-sufficiency of the Savior, remained unshaken. She felt no
doubts concerning the truth of what God had revealed : there all was
clear, and the only difficulty that remained was, the inability to ap-
propriate the promises to her own case. During the hours of her
spiritual darkness, it was truly edifying to see with what earnestness
she sought after the evidences of a true faith, and with what jealousy
she watched over her heart and conscience, lest she might mistake the
shadow, and lose sight of the reality. " This," she would say, " is
not an hour for me to sit down and be satisfied with past attainments,
and past experience : I must go back again to the first principles of
faith : I must feel something more than the hope arising from what
I have done : I must have stronger evidence of acceptance than that
arising from love to the brethren. My love to them may have been
only natural affection, common to all towards those with whom they
associate, and with whom they are in the interchange of kind offices.
I must feel the spirit of Christ within me, subduing my sinful heart
and implanting holy affections, and an overcoming faith."
These seasons of doubts and fears, and expressions of great con-
cern lest her religion had been hypocritical, used regularly to return
with the paroxysms of her disorder : but as these passed away, her
mind would again become tranquil, and hope would again revive.
Still there was no ecstasy, no assurance that her foundation stood
strong : it was the trembling hope of one who felt that pardon
was wholly unmerited, and granted solely for the sake of Christ.
After her return from Oahu to Kairua, and while sinking fast to-
wards the grave, her mind was more at rest. The fears and doubts
that had so distracted her mind, passed away, and cheerful hope
succeeded in their stead. She would often say, " I feel that Jesus
is mine ; that he has accepted me, and will take me to himself, when
I go hence." She spent much time, during the intervals of pain, in
prayer for herself, her husband and children, her brethren and sisters
of this mission, and for the whole church of God. It was at this
time, that the pains, which heretofore had been confined to her body
and limbs, attacked her head, and at times almost deprived her of
reason. She had often expressed her thankfulness, that in all the
pain she endured, her head had been quite free ; but now the trial
of her patience was come. Agonies to which she had before been a
stranger, racked her brain. We bathed her head in cold water
night and day, and some one constantly held it with both hands, " to
keep it," as she expressed it " from falling to pieces." She had
often expressed to me a desire to remove into the country, where
she -thought the cold air and bathing her temples in the mountain
water would give her some relief. We felt the difficulty of making
MRS. ELIZABETH BISHOP. 573
the attempt : for at this time she was exceedingly reduced, and
could not even turn herself in bed. She was accustomed to be laid
upon a litter every morning and evening, and carried out by two men
to take an airing. One morning, during her usual airing, she ordered
her bearers to ascend with her toward the mountain. They did so,
bore her nearly half the way thither, and then returned. On her
arrival she expressed herself refreshed by the excursion. The next
morning, therefore, we undertook to remove her on her litter ; and
much to our satisfaction, she endured the excursion with little fa-
tigue. She remained in the country six days, but she suffered al-
most incredibly from the effect of the cold nights upon her emaciated
frame ; so that the object after which we sought, was defeated.
It was while in the country, separated from the society of every
brother and sister, and in the near prospect of eternity, that she
seemed to gird on anew her armor for the coming foe. I had until
this time indulged hopes, that by the blessing of God, she might
eventually recover, but these hopes had for sometime been dimin-
ishing, and now they were quite gone. The pallid, sunken cheek,
the hollow eye, the diminished pulse, and wandering reason, evinced
clearly to my mind, that death was near. When I informed her of
my apprehensions, she seemed relieved in her mind, and replied, "It
is well : death has no terrors : it is what I have long looked and wait-
ed for, as a release from the pains that assail my frame. I have
long given up all thoughts of recovery, and death only appears de-
sirable. And you, my dear husband," she added, " the Lord will
comfort and bless you under your bereavement, and give you many
souls for your hire. Remember the promise, " they that go forth
weeping, bearing precious seed, shall return again rejoicing, bringing
their sheaves with them." Take care to continue faithful, steadfast,
and abounding in the work of the Lord, and this promise is yours."
A little after, having lain some time with her eyes closed, she opened
them and said to me, " I have been praying for an overcoming faith,
that 1 may come off a conqueror in the hour of conflict. Pray for
me, O pray for me, that the everlasting arms may be my support,
when heart and flesh shall fail." She then desired me to sing to
her the words of the dying Christian, " Vital spark of heavenly
flame," &c.
I had scarcely commenced, when she interrupted me by saying
that her nerves could not bear singing, and requested me only to re-
peat it. After I had finished, and asked her how she felt, I found
that her reason was again wandering, and I said no more.
At another time, during an interval of pain, she spoke to me of
her children now about to be left orphans. She said she had resign-
ed them into the hands of God ; charged me to be kind to them,
and to leave no suitable means untried to procure for them a good
home in America. " I, also," she added, " was once an orphan,
and know too well the ills of orphanage not to be solicitous for my
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dear children." It was about this time, as near as I remember, that
I asked her whether she had any message to leave in my charge to
her friends, either here, or in America. " Yes," she replied, " tell
my brethren and sisters of the mission, that I love them unto the
end ; that I have nothing to bestow in return for their kindness to
me, but my thanks and my prayers for their prosperity in their labor
of love. Tell my dear American friends, that they will neither see,
nor hear from me again in this life, but that 1 hope hereafter to meet
them again, to part no more forever. And tell my dear pupils at
Kairua, that after a few days, they will see me no more ; but that
it was my hope to live long, and have met with them for many days
to come. Tell them to forgive whatever they have seen in me, that
they thought amiss : to listen to the words of their teachers, and
above all, to seek earnestly after the word of life and the way of sal-
vation : to hold fast to the right way unto the end. Charge them to
remember my dying words that we may all meet again in heaven."
About one week before her death, when revived a little, after a
season of great exhaustion and fatigue, she called for her children.
When they were brought, she laid her emaciated hands upon the head
of each and said, " The Lord shield this defenceless head under-
neath the shadow of his wings." She then kissed them and wept.
Each day now presented some new symptom of approaching dis-
solution. Three days before her departure, she became entirely
bereft of her reason, and ceased to know her friends and attendants.
About the middle of the night when the afflictive event took place, I
seated myself by her. The pulse by this time was scarcely per-
ceptible. I held her cold hand in mine for some time, when I heard
her say, in a broken, inarticulate voice, " Let me depart in peace."
Thinking she might wish me to leave her a little to quietude, I re-
moved my chair to the door, and thought upon the glories that would
open on her soul, when released from its crumbling tenement. In a
little time, I inquired of the female attendants bow she appeared ;
and they motioned to me that she was asleep. I immediately caught
a lamp and hastened to her ; but she was gone. Without a struggle
or a groan, she gently breathed forth her spirit into the arms of her
Savior.
The funeral services were attended on the Saturday morning fol-
lowing, when a numerous procession of females all dressed in
mourning followed her to the grave. She rests in peace, in the
church-yard, there to await the joyful summons of the last trumpet,
to rise and ascend to the bosom of the Savior, whom she served and
owned on earth.
From the Missionary Herald, Vol. 25—1829.
575
MRS. ANN HASSELTINE JUDSON*
Mrs. Jddson was the daughter of Mr. John and Mrs. Rebecca
Hasseltine, and was born December 22, 1789, at Bradford, Massa-
chusetts.
In her earliest years, she was distinguished by activity of mind,
extreme gayety, a strong relish for social amusements, and unusually
ardent feelings. She possessed that spirit of enterprise, that fertility
in devising plans for the attainment of her wishes, and that indefati-
gable perseverance in the pursuit of her purposes, of which her sub-
sequent life furnished so many examples, and created so frequent
occasions. Her restless spirit, while a child, was often restrained by
her mother ; and the salutary prohibitions which this excellent parent
was sometimes forced to impose, occasioned so much grief, that Mrs.
Hasseltine once said to her, " I hope, my daughter, you will one day
be satisfied with rambling."
An eager thirst for knowledge is commonly the attendant, and
often the parent of a restless, enterprising disposition. It was so in
the case of Mrs. Judson. She loved learning, and a book could
allure her from her favorite walks, and from the gayest social circle.
The desire for knowledge is often found in connexion with moderate
intellectual faculties ; and in such cases, with favorable opportunities,
the individual may make a respectable proficiency in learning. But
this desire is almost invariably an attribute of eminent mental powers t
and the person thus happily endowed, needs nothing but industry
and adequate means, to ensure the attainment of the highest degree
of literary excellence.
Mrs. Judson's mind was of a superior order. It was distinguished
by strength, activity, and clearness. She has, indeed, left no memo-
rials, which can be produced, as fair specimens of her talents and
literary acquirements. She wrote much, but her writings have per-
ished, except letters and accounts of missionary proceedings, written
without any design to exhibit her abilities, or display her learning.
But no one can review her life, and read what she has written and
published, without feeling that her mind possessed unusual vigor and
cultivation.
She was educated at the Academy in Bradford, a seminary which
has become hallowed by her memory, and by that of Mrs. Newell,
the proto-martyr of the American Missions. Here she pursued her
studies with much success. Her perceptions were rapid, her mem-
ory retentive, and her perseverance indefatigable. Here she laid
the foundations of her knowledge, and here her intellect was stimu-
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lated, disciplined and directed. Her preceptors and associates ever
regarded her with respect and esteem : and considered her ardent
temperament, her decision and perseverance, and her strength of
mind, as ominous of some uncommon destiny.
At this seminary, hallowed as the place where others of the emi-
nent of her sex have caught the first rays of light which they after-
wards scattered so far, she too first sought and found a Savior. In
the revival at Bradford in 1806, already noticed in the life of Mrs.
Newell, she was roused to a sense of her danger, and after many
days of deep distress under a strong conviction of sin, she finally ob-
tained a good hope, through grace, of that salvation which is by Jesus
Christ alone. In the account of her religious experience, recorded
in her private journals, she thus expresses her feelings after her
conversion.
" I now began to hope, that I had passed from death unto life.
When I examined myself, I was constrained to own, that I had feel-
ings and dispositions, to which I was formerly an utter stranger. I
had sweet communion with the blessed God, from day to day ; my
heart was drawn out in love to Christians of whatever denomination ;
the sacred Scriptures were sweet to my taste ; and such was my thirst
for religious knowledge, that I frequently spent a great part of the
night in reading religious books.
" Sin, in myself and others, appeared as that abominable thing,
which a holy God hates — and I earnestly strove to avoid sinning, not
merely because I was afraid of hell, but because I feared to displease
God, and grieve his Holy Spirit. I attended my studies in school*
with far different feelings and different motives, from what I had ever
done before. I felt my obligation to improve all I had to the glory
of God ; and since he in his providence had favored me with advan-
tages for improving my mind, I felt that I should be like the slothful
servant, if I neglected them. I therefore diligently employed all
my hours in school, in acquiring useful knowledge, and spent my
evenings, and part of the night in spiritual enjoyments.
" While thus recounting the mercies of God to my soul, I am par-
ticularly affected by two considerations ; the richness of that grace,
which called and stopped me in my dangerous course, and the un-
grateful returns I make for so distinguished a blessing. I am prone
to forget the voice which called me out of darkness into light, and
the hand which drew me from the horrible pit and miry clay. When
I first discerned my Deliverer, my grateful heart offered him the
services of a whole life, and resolved to acknowledge no other mas-
ter. But such is the force of my native depravity, that I find my-
self prone to forsake him, grieve away his influence from my heart,
and walk in the dark and dreary path of the backslider. I despair
of making great attainments in the divine life, and look forward to
death only, to free me from my sins and corruptions. Till that bless-
ed period, that hour of my emancipation, I am resolved, through the
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grace and strength of my Redeemer, to maintain a constant warfare
with my inbred sins, and endeavor to perform the duties incumbent
on me, in whatever situation I may be placed.
' Safely guide my wandering feet,
Travelling in this vale of tears ;
Dearest Savior, to thy seat
Lead, and dissipate my fears.' "
The change in her feelings and views, which she has thus deseri-
bed, was a thorough and permanent one. She immediately entered
on the duties, and sought for the pleasures, of religion, with all the
ardor of her natural character.
Mrs. Judson, early in • her religious life, showed her desire to be
useful to her fellow men. Her active mind was not satisfied without
some effort to benefit those around her. She accordingly engaged,
soon after this period, in the occupation of instructing a school, im-
pelled mainly by the desire to be useful. There are few situations,
which furnish better opportunities of imparting permanent benefit,
than that of the instructor of a school. In New England, this office
is regarded with a good degree of the honorable estimation to which
it is entitled ; and it is to be wished, that a larger number of educated
young ladies would employ themselves in a service so beneficial to
their own minds, and so vitally important to the rising generation.
The following extract from Mrs. Judson's journal, dated May 12,
1807, shows the conscientious principles which actuated her; and
proves that her mind was thus early swayed by the resolution to live
not unto herself, but to Him who died for her, and rose again. Her
zeal for the spiritual welfare of others, and her decision of character,
are here seen, in a very striking light.
" Have taken charge of a few scholars. Ever since I have had a
comfortable hope in Christ, I have desired to devote myself to him,
in such a way, as to be useiul to my fellow creatures. As Provi-
dence has placed me in a situation of life, where I have an opportu-
nity of getting as good an education as I desire, I feel it would be
highly criminal in me not to improve it. I feel, also, that it would
be equally criminal to desire to be well educated and accomplished,
from selfish motives, with a view merely to gratify my taste and rel-
ish for improvement, or my pride in being qualified to shine. I
therefore resolved last winter, to attend the Academy, from no other
motive, than to improve the talents bestowed by God, so as to be
more extensively devoted to his glory, and the benefit of my fellow
creatures. On being lately requested to take a small school, for a
few months, I felt very unqualified to have the charge of little im-
mortal souls ; but the hope of doing them good, by endeavoring to
impress their young and tender minds with divine truth, and the ob-
ligation I feel, to try to be useful, have induced me to comply. I was
enabled to open the school with prayer. Though the cross was very
great, T felt constrained, by a sense of duty, to take it up. The lit-
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tie creatures seemed astonished at such a beginning. Probably-
some of them had never heard a prayer before. O may I have
grace to be faithful in instructing these little immortals, in such a
way as shall be pleasing to my heavenly Father."
She was engaged, at intervals, for several years, in teaching schools
in different towns. She was always diligent and faithful in her en-
deavors to enlighten the minds and to form the manners of her pupils ;
but she regarded the fear of the Lord as the beginning of wisdom;
and she strove to guide her dear pupils to the Savior. She felt her-
self to be intrusted, in some measure, with the charge of their souls ;
and she watched for them as one that must give an account.
In June, 1810, Miss Hasseltine became acquainted with Mr.
Adoniram Judson, who was then a candidate for a mission to the
heathen. The result of this acquaintance in a short time, was an
offer of marriage on his part, including of course a proposition to
her, to accompany him on his missionary enterprise.
She was thus placed in a situation of peculiar difficulty and deli-
cacy. The influence which her affections ought to have, in decid-
ing a question of this kind, it would not, in ordinary cases, have been
difficult to determine. But in this case, her embarrassment was in-
creased, by the conflict which might arise between affection and
duty. A person so conscientious as she was, would wish to form a
decision on the important question of her duty, respecting missionary
labors, uninfluenced by any personal considerations. Hesitation to
assume an office so responsible, and so arduous, would spring up in
any mind ; but Miss Hasseltine was required to decide on the point,
in connection with another, itself of the utmost consequence to her
individual happiness. It was impossible to divest herself of her per-
sonal feelings ; and she might have some painful suspicions, lest her
affections might bias her decision to become a Missionary ; while
female delicacy and honor would forbid her to bestow her hand,
merely as a preliminary and necessary arrangement.
There was another circumstance which greatly increased the diffi-
culty of a decision. No female had ever left America as a Mis-
sionary to the heathen. The general opinion was decidedly opposed
to the measure. It was deemed wild and romantic in the extreme,
and altogether inconsistent with prudence and delicacy. Miss H.
had no example to guide and allure her. She met with no encour-
agement from a greater part of those persons, to whom she applied
for counsel. Some expressed strong disapprobation of the project.
Others would give no opinion. Two or three individuals, whom it
might not be proper to name, were steady, affectionate advisers, and
encouraged her to go. With these exceptions, she was forced to
decide from her own convictions of duty, and her own sense of fitness
and expediency.*
* The remark of one lady respecting Mrs. J. would express the feelings of many
others, " I hear," said she, " that Miss H. is going to India, Why does she go ?**
MRS. ANN HASSELT1NE JUDSON. 579
It was well for the cause of Missions, that God assigned to Miss
Hasseltine the honorable, yet difficult office of leading the way in this
great enterprise. Her adventurous spirit and decision of character
eminently fitted her to resolve, where others would hesitate, and to
advance, where others might retreat. She did decide to go, and
her determination, without doubt, has had some effect on the minds
q[ other females, who have since followed her example.
The resolution of Mr. and Mrs. Judson, to devote themselves to
the service of their Savior as Missionaries, was not formed in the ar-
dor of youthful enthusiasm. It was not the impulse of an adven-
turous spirit, panting for scenes of difficulty and danger. They had
cherished no romantic views of the missionary enterprise. They had
calmly estimated its hazards and its toils. They foresaw what it
would cost them, and the issue to which it would probably lead them
both. They knew well what they must do and suffer ; and they
yielded themselves as willing sacrifices, for the sake of the far distant
heathen.
They were married on the fifth of February, 1812, and on the
next day he was ordained to the work of evangelizing the heathen,
with his brethren in the mission. Soon after, Mr. and Mrs. Judson
sailed in the same vessel with Mr. and Mrs. Newell, to Calcutta.
On their arrival at Calcutta, the difficulties already alluded to in the
life of Mrs. Newell, prevented a permanent missionary establish-
ment in that part of India. After the departure of Mr. and Mrs.
Newell for the Isle of France, Mr. and Mrs. Judson, resided in Cal-
cutta two months, during which time, from a serious consideration of
the subject, they were led to renounce some of their former religious
tenets and to adopt the opinions of the Baptists. In consequence of
this change, their connection with the American Board of Commis-
sioners for Foreign Missions, was necessarily dissolved, and they,
with Mr. Rice, another missionary, who had altered his sentiments,
were compelled to look to some other quarter for support. Mr.
Rice returned to the United States, and by his efforts, and earnest
appeals, a large portion of the Baptist denomination were roused to
action in the cause of Missions, so that a Baptist General Convention
was soon organized, and a Board of Missions appointed, under whose
patronage Messrs. Rice and Judson were called to labor, with liberty
to choose the field. Mr. and Mrs. Judson had removed to the Isle
of France with Mr. Rice, before his departure to the United States,
and there they remained till May, 1813, when they sailed for Mad-
ras, hoping there to find a passage to the island of Penang, on the
coast of Malacca, where they intended to labor among the heathen
natives. On their arrival at Madras however, they were unable to
«« Why, she thinks it her duty; would not you go, if you thought it your duty !"
" But," replied the good lady, with emphasis, " I would not think it my duty"
Many questions of duty, it may be suspected, are decided in this summary manner.
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obtain a passage to Penang, and at length sailed to Rangoon in
Burmah, which thenceforth, became the scene of their missionary
labors. Here unfriended and alone, they commenced their no-
ble work in July, 1813; and as their prospects opened before
them, they felt a momentary gloom and dejection at the darkness of
the future. But they were not left despairing. Their helper God,
in whom they had trusted, was present still, upholding them by the
consolations of his grace in that dark hour of trial, and by the sure
promise of his aid through all their labors yet to come. There the
missionaries labored through dangers and trials for six years, before
their hearts were gladdened by the conversion of a single Burman.
And at length when their labors were rewarded by success, the con-
verts were few and feeble ; but still they neither despaired nor de-
sisted while life or strength lasted.
The health of Mrs. Judson was considerably enfeebled by the cli-
mate of Burmah and her labors, so that it was found necessary for her
in the latter part of the year ] 821, to revisit her native country. Be-
fore coming to the United States, she passed some time in England,
where she was received with the kindest attention by many of the
friends of Missions. After a stay of some months she went over to
America, where she spent more than half a year, surrounded by
Christian friends. Her health being in a great measure restored by
repose in her natural climate, in the summer of 1823, she sailed for
India, and in December rejoined her husband at Rangoon.
During the war between the Burmans and the British, which was
commenced in 1824, and carried on for two years, the situation of
the missionaries was dangerous in the extreme, and many times their
lives were threatened. The sufferings to which the cruelty of the
heathen subjected them, were almost beyond human endurance, and
the shocks which Mrs. Judson received, so weakened her constitu-
tion, from sickness and anguish of body and mind, that she did not
long survive the termination of the war. On the 24th of October,
1826, while her husband was at Rangoon, she died at the British
colony of Amherst, where she now rests in a missionary's grave,
from a missionary's labors.
This brief sketch of the life of Mrs. Judson is abstracted from her memoirs by
the Rev. J. D. Knowles, a book so well known, and extensively circulated, that a
notice of her life here was unnecessary, except that the list of eminently pious
American women would be incomplete without her.
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MRS. ESTHER BUTLER.
Mrs. Butler was a native of Connecticut, and was born Sept.
1798. She was married to Doct. Elizur Butler in Oct. 1820, and
with him proceeded immediately to the Cherokee nation, to join the
mission there* under the direction of the Board. They commenced
their labors first at Brainerd, and afterwards resided for a season at
Creekpath. In the spring of 1826, they took the charge of the
station at Haweis, where the last three years and a half of Mrs.
Butler's life were spent. Her constitution seemed to have been se-
riously impaired by a severe cold taken on her way to her field of
labor, and she never after enjoyed good heath ; though she was gen-
erally able to manage the concerns of her family and teach a small
school. In April last, Doct. Butler having been called away more
than thirty miles to attend Mr. David Brown, who had been attacked
with bleeding of the lungs, was unexpectly summoned to return to
the case of his own wife, who had experienced a similar attack.
Spasms of the stomach followed, and became extremely severe and
obstinate. By this attack she was reduced to a very feeble state
although hope was long indulged that it would not prove fatal. The
disease, however, was making progress, and the the attacks becom-
ming more severe.
The following passages are from a letter of Doct. Butler.
" On the morning of the 21st of Oct. 1 told her I hardly expected
she would live through the day. But she obtained considerable re-
lief from medicine, and was more comfortable until evening, when
her symptoms became quite alarming. That evening a kind Provi-
dence very unexpectedly brought Messrs. Worcester and Proctor to
comfort and assist us. About eleven o'clock P. M. sunken eyes, a
cadaverous countenence, with unfavorable symptoms, indicated her
speedy departure. The family were called together. She gave
each individual, whilst grasping her hands, a short address and a fare-
well. She then seemed ready to fall asleep in Jesus. Her speech
was reduced to a whisper and her eyes became dim. Her pulse
died away and revived repeatedly. She ceased to breathe ; then
gasped and revived, and about light said, " Is it possible that I have
come back again to this world to fill up my cup? I thought I had
gone to heaven. But if it is the Lord's will-, J will acquiesce."
The following remarks from Mr. Worcester, who, as just stated,
witnessed the solemn and interesting scene, will afford a further ex-
hibition, of the feelings of Mrs. Butler in the near view of death.
"During the night, she was supposed by herself and by all present,
;o have arrived at her last struggle. At first, for a short time, she
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appeared somewhat solicitious respecting her final state. "O," said
she " to appear before the bar of God, after a life so unfaithful in
his service !" In a few minutes after, however, she said, " Yes, I
know that my Redeemer liveth, though Satan did try to persuade
me that there was no mercy for me." The remainder of that night
was passed in excruciating pain of body, but with peace of mind.
The family and others who were in the house were called to her bed-
side, and she bade each one an affectionate farewell ; recommending
them all to the mercy of God in Christ, and expressing the hope
of meeting them once again in heaven ; and repeating to her children
and to some Cherokee girls who had been under her instruction, the
exhortations which she had formerly given them, to believe in the
Savior of sinners. During the night she repeatedly said, " I long to
depart and be with my blessed Savior." If any thing wrong appear-
ed in the state of her mind, I should think it was a small degree of
impatience to be gone. Respecting her missionary labors she said,
" It appears to me that I have done little, very little for the good of
this people : but I leave it as my dying testimony, that I have never re-
pented of coming and doing what little I have."
The night was one of much interest. Mrs. B. said many things
which it would be gratifying and worth while to relate ; but I do not
recollect them with sufficient accuracy. In the morning her distress
was relieved and the prospect of immediate dissolution removed.
I then left her and afterwards was with her only a part of the nights
of Oct. 28 — 29 when she was still in a very tranquil state of mind,
but indulging the hope of recovery."
Her husband has given a brief sketch of the state of her mind
during the interval which elapsed between the time of her obtaining
relief from the almost fatal attack just noticed, and the time when her
spirit was released from the body.
" She seemed so near heaven, that she doubted the propriety of
using any more means for her recovery. She still continued and
we had her happy society thirty days longer. She looked on me
and her children as no longer hers. She had parted with us and
given us into the hands of her covenant God. She viewed us in a
different light from what she ever had before done. She still loved
us, and rejoiced and mourned widi us ; but we were in the world, and
she was on the threshold of heaven. During the last thirty days of
her life, her mind was in a very happy frame. She gave various di-
rections respecting her children and spoke of her burial, and her de-
parture for heaven, with the utmost composure. She said she never
regretted engaging in the mission and comming to labor for the good
of the Cherokees : she only regretted she had been no more faith-
ful, and done the Cherokees no more good."
The remaining statements respecting the closing period of Mrs.
Butler's life are from Mr, Chamberlin, who was much with her.
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" At the time, Mr. Worcester left Haweis, and for several days af-
terwards, Mrs. Butler was anxious to die. She did not wish her
Christian friends to pray for her continuance in this world, and she
was doubtful whether it was right for her to take medicine. Her
symptoms, however, became much more favorable, and some faint
hopes were entertained of her recovery. As she found herself re-
viving, she turned her eyes again to the world, and became much
too anxious to live. This anxiety was greatly increased, if not caus-
ed by a letter which was received from her sister, informing her that
she was about to set out for this country. She considered this anxi-
ety as a temptation of the adversary, and prayed against it, and de-
sired her Christian friends to pray that this temptation might be re-
moved. After a few days, this anxiety was succeeded by remarka-
ple resignation to the will of God, which continued to the last. Of
her sister she said, " I have been very anxious to see her, but can
now freely give her up : I have not one anxious thought respecting
her. The Lord knows best about all these things : as for me, I am
willing to lie on this bed of sickness, suffer pain, die, or get well, just
as he pleases." Upon her husband and children she cast an affec-
tionate look and said, " You are no longer mine : I feel that I have
given you up." To her husband when speaking of the children, she
said, " I leave you with a great charge ; but the Lord will be with
you." To us who knew her strong attachment to her family, the
triumph of grace, which enabled her to give them up so unreserved-
ly, appeared very remarkable, and indeed it was a source of aston-
ishment to herself. It was what she had never expected ; nor could
she attribute it to any thing short of rich and sovereign grace.
She expressed great confidence in the Savior, and joyfully resign-
ed herself into his hands. When, conversing with Mrs. E. one of
the female members of the mission, on the preciousness of the Chris-
tian's hope, especially in such a time as this, Mrs. E. repeated the
words of the poet ;
" These lively hopes we owe
To Jesus' dying love."
With a remarkable glow of animation on her countenance she re-
plied " O yes, yes, dear sister, say on." She expressed much feel-
ing for the poor Cherokees in their present affliction; but said, "they
are in the hands of God, and he will order all things right." Speak-
ing of her missionary brethren and sisters, she said, "I love them all
truly, and trust I shall meet them in heaven." She expressed warm
affection and gratitude towards those who were with her in her sick-
ness. She said, " surely there never was a poor soul that had so
much reason to be grateful for kind friends as I have."
When she was dying she was asked if she could then say with the
Psalmist, " though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I will fear no evil, for thou art with me : thy rod and thy staff they
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comfort me." With great animation she replied, " Yes altogether.' ?
When she was again asked if her faith still held out, she said, " yes, I
view my Savior on the cross and am supported." After her speech
was gone she whispered " come Lord Jesus, come quickly, come,
come." And soon fell asleep.
By her death her husband has lost a prudent and affectionate wife.
Her children have also lost much. As a mother she was eminently-
qualified to bring them up in a respectable and religious manner.
Her missionary associates have lost an active and judicious assistant,
and the Cherokees a warm hearted and valuable friend. It is true
our departed sister never enjoyed good health while on mission
ground, yet she had a remarkable faculty of accomplishing much with
little strength."
The closing scene and the circumstances of the funeral are thus
described by Dr. B.
" On the morning of Nov. 21st she fell asleep in the arms of the
Savior. On the next day her funeral was attended by a very solemn
and orderly, but weeping concourse. The funeral sermon was
preached by Mr. Chamberlin, from Rev. xiv. 13. "Blessed are the
dead which die in the Lord from henceforth." Great kindness and
sympathy were manifested by the members of the mission families
from other stations, during her sickness and at the time of the death
of Mrs. B. Many of them spent much time at Haweis. I feel this
to be a heavy and sore affliction, but God has only taken away a bles-
sing which was lent. Though the loss is great to me, she has gained
everlasting bliss."
From the Missionary Herald, Vol. 26—1830,
»S5
ELIZA,
AN INDIAN FEMALE.
The Indian name of Eliza was O-dah-be-tuh-ghe-zhe-go-quai,
signifying in English the Mid-way-sky woman, or the place of the
sun at noon. She was born near the Annee, about 300 miles up the
south shore of Lake Superior ; and is by blood of the Ojibeway
tribe. She did not know her age, but was probably born not far
from the year 1783.
Being of influential connections, (her uncle a principal chief,) she
was selected to become an interpreter of dreams. This took place
when she was probably about 16 or 17 years old. Her merits for
this rank or honor must, according to their superstition, be decided
by her living ten days in a separate lodge, without any other nour-
ishment than a little water each night. She faithfully observed the
prescribed abstinence, although it nearly cost her her life. Her
bodily strength was almost exhausted ; and on being brought out of
the lodge, and probably being too plentifully fed, she fell sick and
did not recover for several moons. And yet, of her own accord,
soon after she got well she fasted nine days more. From this time
she was considered an extraordinary being. The clan would not
permit her to work, but provided with a wigwam of distinction, she
constantly received from them the best of their every thing, both
food and clothing.
She was also furnished with a large otter skin, or medicine sack,
stored with every necessary article, either for magical cure of the
sick, or for interpreting dreams. This sack, which she carefully
preserved, was her badge of honor ; and in all their medicine dances
she was greatest among the great. One proof of which was taking
the lead in drinking whiskey. In this way she became so exces-
sively intemperate, that in one of these scenes she lost her sack.
This was during the last war, at the commencement of which she
came from Lake Superior and resided on the main land west of
Mackinaw. Another sack was provided her ; this she kept only
about two years. Near this lime she lost one of her children, which,
together with the loss of her second sack and the neglect of the In-
dians, so dispirited her that she abandoned herself to every vice.
About nine years ago she lost another child, the third of four. Then
for awhile she listened to advice and stopped drinking. But it was
not long before she was allured away into the woods by an Indian
man and woman, where whiskey had been previously carried, and
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there those two persuaded her to drink with them. In this drunken
frolic, through jealousy, as she supposes, but without any just provo-
cation, the other woman fell upon her and cut off her nose. This
was the greatest disgrace, in her estimation, that she could possibly
suffer. And for a long time her friends had to watch her to prevent
her from destroying her life. Once she tried to hang herself. At
another time, returning from Mackinaw, where she with other Indians
had been for whiskey, she threw herself into the lake, but the In-
dian in the stern caught her by the hair and drew her again into the
canoe. After this she began to think that the unknown Indian, who
as she supposed, had the care of her life, was unwilling that she
should kill herself, and she gave up all further attempts to effect it.
Having but one child left, she now stayed sometimes on the island
of Mackinaw, and sometimes on the main land, with no fixed object
but to get whiskey by every possible means.
Five years ago this fall, was the first knowledge I had of her.
Soon after our family was open to receive children, I one day met
her boy, and on ascertaining who he was, I went with an interpreter
to the lodge of the mother. A wretchedly destitute and miserable
scene we witnessed. At that time no persuasion could induce her
to let me have her son. But going the second time, and the boy
himself being willing, she at length reluctantly gave her consent.
However, in a few days he ran away, and though I obtained him
again, yet through the winter the mother wratched for opportunities
to get him. The following spring, more out of pity than for our
convenience, I employed her, first in the kitchen, and afterward at
the sugar camp, on Bois Bleau, on condition that she would drink
no whiskey and conduct herself properly. By much counsel and
care she did so much better than my fears, that I finally told her,
that provided she would be steady and do such work as she was
able, she might have a home with us. From that time, I believe,
she never had but three or four seasons of intoxication.
It is now about three years since her serious attention to religion
commenced, the amount of which for some length of time was very
fluctuating. While under the sound of instruction she would be
more or less affected, sometimes to tears. For several years, dur-
ing the hours of Sabbath school we have had a separate school for
Indian women and others, mostly under the care of Mrs. F., for the
purpose of reading and explaining the Scriptures, tracts, &c. It
was at these meetings that E. was often affected ; though after-
wards, as she says, she would throw the subject off and become in
a measure indifferent. Again, perhaps, impressed with the idea that
there could be no mercy for such a creature as she was, and the
thought of her religious state making her unhappy, she would avoid
being present at these meetings. Under this same impression she could
not think it right for her to come with us to family worship, or to the
evening meetings of the females. Yet she says she often felt so
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strong a desire to hear the sound of prayer and singing, that she has
gone to the door and remained there as long as she thought she
could, without being discovered — sometimes till nearly frozen. Most
of that winter passed with such uneasiness of mind, that, when not
daring to look to God herself for mercy, because she was such a sin-
ner, she would feel it a kind of relief to overhear the worship of
others, as if God might possibly hear their prayers, though she was
unworthy to be present.
During the spring, while at the sugar camp, she says she was great-
ly distressed during the whole time. When gathering sap, she often
had feelings like these — Here I am going the same round daily from
tree to tree, and can find no relief — I must always carry this wicked
heart, and when I die, be miserable forever. — The pious Indian wo-
man who had charge of the sugar camp, used to talk some with her ;
and after seasons of prayer, would perhaps ask her if she did not
feel the importance of joining in heart with her. She said she did.
And though there was to her mind no prospect of ever being better,
yet she would, as she says, forget herself, and feel strong desires for
mercy. After her return, she thought, as she says, that every one
must look upon her condition as a hopeless one ; and as before, she
often stayed away from meetings because she thought it unfit for her
to be there. Most of the following summer she spent at the farm,
where at times she seemed to awake to an affecting view of her
dreadful state, and with such feelings that she would go off from the
house and pray and weep much alone : but for the most part she in-
dulged in despair without relief.
The next fall we had unusual sickness in the family, and E. and
her son were left at the farm alone for two or three weeks. They
also were both taken sick ; and probably suffered somewhat for the
want of nursing, before we were aware of it and could bring them
home. In reference to this time she says, that after she was taken
sick, she thought with herself, that she had found no relief to her
mind in our way, meaning that of Christians, and that she would
again try her old way of medicine songs ; and that she spent the
greater part of several nights in songs and her former Indian mum-
mery. After she was brought home, she discontinued this ; but she
thinks she lost nearly all anxiety about her soul, and seemed to have
no feeling further than to take care of her son as he failed. He talk-
ed with her for sometime, but she said she did not feel it much, that
she was like one who had lost her senses, and nothing seemed to
move her feelings. A few days before Joseph's death, he had a
long conversation with her ; told her that he should die soon, and
that he wanted her to promise him never to drink any more whiskey,
to remain with the mission family, listen to their instructions, and
pray every day to God : then, when she died she would go to God
with him. At first she told him that if he died she would die too.
But Joseph said that was wrong ; that it would not be as she said
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when to die ; but that God only had a right to have her die when
he wished. At length she promised him that she would remember
and do as he had requested.
During the whole scene attending Joseph's death and funeral, her
behavior was singularly calm and solemn : so much so, that it was
noticed by all. Many a professing Christian mother might have re-
ceived from E. in that afflictive scene, a silent, though awful reproof,
for immoderate grief. When she perceived that his spirit was really
gone, the tears rolled and she exclaimed, " My son ! my son I" in
Indian : but farther than this, not a complaint nor groan was heard to
escape her lips.
After the funeral I sat down with her and had a long conversation.
Among other things I asked her why it was that she appeared as she
had done : whether it had been so at the death of her other children ?
To this last she said no : and gave some account of her feelings and
conduct— -how she had, as is common among the Indians, wailed and
mangled her own body in self-affliction. In answer to the former
part, she said, " I have no such feelings now — God is good, and I
feel that what he has done must be right." Although she expressed
no consciousness of the love of God in her soul ; yet she furnished
comfortable evidence to my mind, that her feelings were under the
sanctifying influence of the Holy Spirit. On the following night, as
she now relates, while fixing her bed, all which had passed between
her and Joseph a few days before his death rushed upon her mind
like a torrent, awakening at the same time an impression, that there
was no hope for her soul : but in a moment she involuntarily resolv-
ed to pray once more that God would have mercy. For the pur-
pose of greater retirement she started to go to the cellar ; and while
descending the stairs, as if she could go no further, she settled down
and began to pour out her desires. This is the last distinct recollec-
tion she has of any thing that took place then. How or when she
got back she has no knowledge. Between 11 and 12 o'clock, I
heard a distressed noise, and lighting a candle, immediately I went
to her and found her apparently asleep ; and upon awaking her, I
asked her if she was sick, she said No ; and I went back. The first
that she remembered was seeing me with a candle in my hand.
She afterwards, as she says, engaged in prayer again, and was then,
for the first time conscious of enjoyment in the love of Christ. The
next morning, her soul was so filled with love to all the members of
the family, that as she saw one and another, she says, she felt that
her own children had never been so near her heart as they. Now
she felt so entirely reconciled to the death of Joseph, that she had
no inclination to grieve. At times, she says, her mind would recur
to the scene of his death ; but to use her own expressions literally
interpreted, " 1 felt as if I was in a narrow happy way, and if a
thought came to me about Joseph, it seemed like being drawn out of
this way, and I longed to get back again immediately." With these
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happy feelings towards God and Christians, she now for the first
time thought a great deal of her own people. " Oh if they could
only see as I do, how happy they would be !"
When asked about the state of her mind afterward, she said, "I
have always been happy in God since then. The more I have had
a view of the love of God in Christ since, and the longer I have liv-
ed, the more I have desired to love him, and to love him more and
more, and to be more and more like him in my soul. I do not
know that I have since ever had any sorrow of soul so great as I have
had for those who are ignorant of God. Much sorrow I have often
had for them. Sometimes when going into church, or while there,
it has made me weep to think of those who do not love God. There
has never been one day since 1 found peace to my soul, when I did
not feel mat God was with me." The reason which she assigns for
this mercy is, that God will soon take her out of the world, and that
he is pleased thus to be preparing her for his presence. " Every
Sabbath," she says, " I have felt that this leaves me one Sabbath
less to be in this world, and brings me one Sabbath nearer the time
when I shall be with Christ."
Here, on being particularly questioned, she related three instances
when for a time her mind was troubled. A year ago she was reduc-
ed quite low, and one evening word was brought that E. was dying.
On going to her room she was found to be very languid, but after
some time revived, so as to be able to converse. She was question-
ed relative to her views and feelings, to which she gave answers ex-
pressive of joy in prospect of being soon with God. She answered
one of the sisters to this effect, " I long to be gone : I want to have
the time come." Afterwards she felt that she had expressed impa-
tience, and it grieved her exceedingly; so that she had several seasons
of weeping between that and the following Sabbath morning.
Another time to which she referred, she had gone to bed and as
she supposes, had not slept long when she awoke and felt a desire to
pray. She rose and knelt down, but had been engaged but a few
moments before she drowsed. This occurred again ; but awaking
the second time, she was alarmed at herself, and feared that her love
to God was all dying; and so great was her distress, that it banished
every sleepy feeling. With fears and a burdened heart she set about
prayer in earnest ; nor did she leave until her tears of sorrow were
turned into tears of joy. Then was her soul so full that she could
not sleep, and the remainder of the night was spent in prayer, and
joy that God was with her.
The other instance was on an occasion, when the girls had made
some remarks to her, from which she thought, as she was always sick
they and the rest of the family considered her as burdensome, and
wished her away. This made her fell unhappy for a few hours, but
before night she obtained that relief in prayer, which restored peace
to her soul.
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I afterwards put several questions to her which follow, together
with her answers.
You have said that before you found peace in Christ, you did for
a long time — for many months—feel yourself miserably wretched,
and that you often prayed ; was it for the sake of these prayers that
God gave you peace? or was there any good in them? "No, it was
because of Christ's pity to my soul ; because he died for poor sin-
ners; and it was of God's mercy that missionaries were sent to teach
me." — Do you mean to have me understand from all you have said,
that you never had any fears that you were deceived : no time in
which you have doubted whether you had a part in the Savior or
not? "I have always felt sure that God has had mercy on my soul ;
and the more I have thought of my old wicked life, it has been like
one pushing me nearer to God : it has made me feel more humble in
myself, and a strong desire to live only for him." — But should God
take away his Spirit from your heart and leave you to yourself, what
do you think would become of you ? " I should be good for nothing."
Have you any fears that God will ever take away his Spirit from your
soul ? "No." — Why ? " from what I have heard of his word, be has
promised to keep those that trust in him ; and I believe he is faithful
to his word."
There have been several times when in your sickness you have
been very low, and have had reason to think you would live but a few
hours or days ; have you at none of these times been unwilling or
afraid to die ? " No." — Have you always felt, if it were God's will,
that it would be a privilege to die, and you would be glad to have the
hour come ? " Yes ; I have. This fall, when I was very sick for two
days and nights, and felt that God only could make me better or take
me away, I thought, if it were his will, how glad I should be to be
sure that I was dying, that I might be with God." — A year ago last
spring you was baptized and received into the church ; can you tell
me any thing of your feelings at that time about the ordinances ?
" after I understood their design, that Christ had commanded them
and why he had done it, I had a very strong desire to be baptized
and to receive the sacrament; nor is there any thing in this world
that I have felt to be so great a privilege. When at the table I was
baptized and promised solemnly to be for God, I really felt in my
heart every word, and that I was now all the Lord's, and no more for
myself or for any other. I was happier than I can express, in the
privilege of being there with the love of God in my heart ; and when
receiving the bread and wine, I felt that I could not be thankful
enough to God for bringing me to the table once. I thought I should
come there no more ; but that the next time I should be at God's
table in heaven." — You see that it has not been as you thought.
You have communed several times : have those always been pre-
cious seasons to your soul? "Yes, every one of them." — Have they
been as precious as the first one ? " Yes : as I have heard more of
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the Savior, and have learned more of his love from the bible, I have
felt each time, if possible, more and more near and happy in him."
What good do you think that baptism or the sacrament could do you
without a heart to love the Savior ? " None. There would be no
joy to my soul in them." — Could you have this joy and peace of
which you have told me, if you did not as far as you know strive to
obey God in all things ? " no ; I could not. Though unable to do
any thing with my hands to help the family and to labor for God, it
is my sincere desire daily to have my heart much in prayer for them
and for the salvation of their souls ; and because God lets me live, I
believe he wishes me to be devoted in spirit to this. — Do you think
you love God and souls as much as you ought ? "no: I try to love,
but do not feel so much as I ought. — When do you expect to have
perfect love to God and souls? at first she answered, " never;" think-
ing that I meant while in the body. Afterwards she said, " when I
get to heaven."
Respecting the foregoing narrative, Mr. Ferry, the missionary
remarks, —
I have written it as taken from the woman through an interpreter,
and as having in part fallen under my own observation. I have scru-
pulously avoided any thing like a more favorable coloring than facts
would justify. The statements have been read by those who have
had most knowledge of the subject of them, and of her exercises,
and they believe that the impression which will naturally be left on
the mind of the reader will be less striking than the reality. In res-
pect to uninterrupted peace and spirituality of mind, the case of this
woman is unlike any other which I ever knew. Aware that some
will at once set it down as untrue or a delusion, I have faithfully tried
but in vain, to draw from her something which would warrant me in
truth to cloud some part of her christian life with doubt, but you
might as well attempt to make her disbelieve her existence, as to
convince her that she has been left to go mourning the hidings of
God's countenance from her soul. She is indeed a favored child,
ripening fast for glory : sick or well, in pain or at ease, she always
meets us with a placid, and most commonly with a smiling counte-
nance. She is afflicted with consumptive complaints, and for many
months has raised blood freely : we have expected that before this
she would have been at rest.
She died at the mission station, Nov. 23, 1830, By the blessing
of God on the religious instruction given her, she had been rais-
ed from uncommon debasement to a degree of Christian knowledge
and piety, seldom attained by persons in her circumstances. At the
time of her decease, "she exhibited," says Mr. Ferry, "the charac-
ter of the believer triumphing in death. For many months she had
been almost daily looking for her departure. Though suffering much
in body, yet she was uniformly patient and happy. She repeatedly
said on the day of her death, ' I think I shall go to day.' At night sbe
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shook hands with some of the members of the mission family, and
with a smile spoke of it as the last time. But a few minutes before
her death, in allusion to David's words, she said she feared no evil.
Surely no unbeliever, observing her course down the dark valley,
could any longer doubt the reality of religion, or deny the importance
of carrying the tidings of the gospel to the unlettered savage."
From the Missionary Herald, Vol, 25—1829; and Vol, 27—1831.
593
MRS. MYRA Wo ALLEN.
Mrs. Allen was born in Westminster, Massachusetts, on the 7th
of December, 1S00 5 and was the youngest daughter of colonel Abel'
Wood. She enjoyed the unspeakable advantage of a religious edu-
cation ; and her parents had the satisfaction of seeing all their chil-
dren, nine in number, members of that church with which they were
walking in the fear of the Lord. She was also favored, both at home
and in a neighboring town to which she was sent for the purpose at
the age of about seventeen years, with facilities for cultivating her
mind and storing it with useful knowledge. She obviously availed
herself of these advantages with much diligence. The following
paragraphs taken from a paper written by herself, give an account of
the beginnings of spiritual life in her soul. The paper is without date,
but must refer to the period between her eighteenth and twenty-sec-
ond year.
" As long as I have any recollection, I have been the subject of
serious religious impressions. I was early instructed in the truths of
religion — the government of a holy, sovereign God, who had an in-
finite hatred of sin, requiring perfect obedience of his creatures, and
punishing every transgression of his holy law with eternal death — the
duty of repentance — the necessity of a change of heart, and the way
of salvation through a crucified Redeemer. I was convinced of the
truth and importance of these things, but they were wholly uncon-
genial with my carnal affections. 1 intended some time to attend to
them, but could not think them calculated to afford happiness to the
youthful mind. Thus I practically said ' Go thy way,' &c. In this
manner I quieted my conscience, not, however, without being fre-'
quently roused by a solemn providence or a searching impressive
sermon — sometimes to be almost persuaded to become a Christian.
About the age of thirteen, I was much interested in reading the life
of Mrs. Newell. I admired her amiable and engaging disposition,
and was much affected with her early piety. This I was persuad-
ed was the source of those lovely virtues which so highly adorned
her character. I believed she was happy, and almost wished my-
self possessed of that which could render her so cheerful amidst so
many trying scenes. But I could not endure the idea of renouncing
my worldly pleasures and companions, and of bearing the reproach
which I thought I should meet from the gay and thoughtless. I re-
mained in a slate similar to this till the 17th year of my age, when I
think my attention was a little more excited.
" About this time a number of my companions became seriously
impressed with a sense of their dangerous situation as sinners, and
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began to inquire with solicitude, what they must do to be saved. I
had often thought that if my young friends would seek religion, I
would join in the pursuit. Now I had the trial of my sincerity. It
occasioned at first some severe struggle in my mind to become will-
ing to renounce the world and its vain pleasures, * to meet the world's
dread laugh' and endure the sneers of some whom I loved ; but I
soon resolved that notwithstanding all these, 1 would make religion
my business, and that, through divine assistance, I would persevere in
this resolution, though all my days should be spent in the search.
" I desire to bless the Lord that he did not suffer me to be again
ensnared by the vanities of youth, and lured from the path I was re-
solved to tread. I was led to hope, that, though long left to wander
in darkness, without any light, even ' darkness that might be felt,5
there might still be mercy for me ; but if I never obtain comfort, I
choose to spend my life thus, rather than engage in worldly amuse-
ments and pleasures. Nearly four years passed without bringing me
any lasting relief."
After spending a few months in a neighboring town where there
was a revival of religion, she remarks—
" Shortly after my return, however, I began to view things in a
different light. I began to feel there might be hope, even for me.
The promise, c Him that cometh to me, I will in no wise cast out,5
I found included all ; and the passage, ' He is faithful that promis-
ed,' &c. increased my confidence. I clearly saw that my heart was
exceedingly polluted ; but those scriptures, ' Behold the Lamb of
God that taketh away the sins of the world,' and ' The blood of
Christ cleanseth from all sin,' appeared to meet my case, and they
were to me sweetly refreshing. The character of the Savior ap-
peared lovely, and no longer as l a root out of a dry ground :' yet my
apprehensions of divine things were quite obscure. I often thought
of the blind man who, after once washing his eyes, could discern
* men as trees walking.' I remained thus, sometimes hoping, some-
times not daring to hope, through the winter."
She continued in this state'of darkness and doubting during three
or four months ; but at length, having obtained clearer views of the
great truths of the gospel, and acquiescing mere fully in them, she
was enabled to add —
" A tranquil serenity now took possession of my breast, such as
had long been a stranger there. The plan of salvation opened to
my view in a lovely engaging light, and I felt that there was safety
in committing myself wholly to sovereign mercy. If left to perish, no
injustice would be done, yet I fully believed that none who did trust
in the Savior unreservedly would be cast off.
" I had long regarded it as a privilege of which I was utterly un-
worthy, to be admitted to the Lord's table. I now saw, that unwor-
thy as I was, it was a duty I ought not to neglect. After serious de-
liberation, therefore, I gave ray name to be proposed to the church
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for admission, and on the 8th December, 1822, entered into solemn
covenant engagements to be the Lord's. It was a day of solemni-
ty and joy to my soul, and one which I felt called for the most live-
ly gratitude, not only for the mercy I experience myself, but that
others received the same with me — a dear brother and niece being
received to church-fellowship at the same time. For a considerable
time I was scarcely troubled with a serious doubt. I had no ecsta-
sies of joy, but a peace and tranquillity such as I never before expe-
rienced."
In a journal which Mrs. Allen kept, and in which she made en-
tries with more or less regularity, she records her feelings on the day
when she offered herself a candidate for admission to the church, and
on that when she first sat down at the table of Christ.
"JVbw. 24, 1822. — After repeated self-examination and earnest
supplication for the aid of the Holy Spirit to direct in the path of du-
ty, I have at length come to a decision— ^and this day offered myself
in a public manner for admission into the church. What lively grat-
itude ought 1 to exercise for the distinguishing goodness of God to
so stubborn a rebel. To the praise of sovereign grace I would re-
cord it. I humbly hope and trust that I have tasted of the love of
Christ, and, though long left to wander in darkness, that I have at
length enjoyed the cheering beams of the Sun of Righteousness, and
been led to consecrate myself to the service of my Creator. If,
however, I am deceived — how dreadful ? O Lord, discover to me
my true state. Grant me the light of thy countenace, whatever else
thou deniest, for Jesus' sake.
" Dec. 8. — The solemn scene is past. I have publicly avouched
the Lord to be my God and portion — my teacher and sanctifier —
my prophet, priest, and king; and am 'witness against myself that
I have chosen the Lord to serve him.' Now, if I should go astray
and wound this precious cause, I must be without excuse. O Lord,
look graciously upon me, and grant that my resolutions of new obe-
dience, made I trust in reliance on thy divine aid, may not prove
transient as the morning dew ; but may I have grace to be faithful.
Suffer me not to break the solemn covenant engagements into which
I have entered ; but make me useful in the spiritual vineyard. Look
in compassion on my dear companions. O revive thy work in this
place ; especially among the youth. The spiritual interest of a num-
ber lies near my heart in a special manner. And may I never, by
a careless walk or an unchristian temper, prove a l stumbling block'
to them ; but may I recommend the religion of Jesus by exempli-
fying its pure, peaceable, humble, compassionate, self-denying spir-
it. I am weak in myself — may thy grace be made perfect in my
weakness.
A few additional extracts will be taken from this journal, illustra-
tive of some conspicuous traits in her character.
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Mrs, Allen was tenderly attached to her young companions and
friends, and most earnestly longed for their welfare, and especially
their conversion to God. On returning home from the school where
she had spent some months, she thus gives vent to her pious solici-
tude for those with whom she had been associated.
"Sept. 4, 1822. — I have now taken my leave of those compan-
ions with whom I have spent so many pleasant hours in literary pur-
suits, and returned to my native place. To many of them I have
probably bid the last adieu, no more to meet them on the shores of
time. It is a solemn and affecting consideration. It is painful to
the heart possessed of any degree of sensibility to separate from those
whom we love ; to sever the tender ties of friendship. But separa-
tion is needful in this imperfect state.
" Friends must part and friendship sigh,
Although it knows not how to die."
" How much would the pangs of parting be mitigated, could we
indulge the pleasing hope that we should all meet at last on Canaan's
happy shore, no more to endure a separation. But how dreadful is
the idea of a final separation ! How heart-rending the thought, that
any of us should be finally cast off and be banished from all good,
to dwell with everlasting burnings ! Merciful Savior, prepare us by
thy grace to appear before thy throne, clad in the robes of thy right-
eousness, and to spend an eternity in thy presence ! Follow each
member of that seminary with thy special blessing, and may both
teachers and pupils become ornaments to society, and useful mem-
bers of the church of Christ."
On another occasion she writes —
"May 29, 1823.— A tribute of gratitude and praise is due to the
Almighty Redeemer for his abundant grace displayed in the recent
conversion of two dear friends, and I embrace this early opportunity
to record it. Situated so favorably as they were for embracing re-
ligion, I have felt much anxiety for their spiritual welfare ; and often
have attempted to commend their cases to him whose sovereign
grace alone can change the flinty heart, and bestow that peace which
springs from believing in Jesus, and a hope full of immortality.
" My most sanguine hopes are now realized. 1 have abundant tes-
timony in proof of the happy change, and though deprived of the
privilege of being a personal witness, yet 1 do rejoice, yea and will
rejoice in the glorious event. Shall the angels of God rejoice over
the conversion of sinners, and shall not his professing children min-
gle their more feeble notes with the general songs of praise ? Oh
yes ; the sacrifice of thanksgiving, rising from a truly contrite and
pious soul, we have encouragement to believe, will find acceptance
with our gracious Sovereign. I do indulge the hope that if our lives
are prolonged, I shall yet behold with my eyes and hear for myself,
wljat I have heard from other; : that 1 shall mingle Christian con-
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gratulations with them, and offerings of grateful praise to him who
has caused us to hope in his mercy."
This solicitude for her friends whom she could not regard as the
followers of Christ was especially conspicuous when the period ar-
rived that was to separate her from them forever in this world. With
many of them she conversed with much affection and solemnity ; to
others she wrote during her passage to India ; and for all she cher-
ished the most tender attachment, and often remembered them in
her prayers. After arriving at Bombay, she made the following en-
try in her journal.
"June 27, 1828. — I have just received letters from America, and
have been rejoiced in recognizing the hand writing of dear friends
with whom I have often, in years past, enjoyed Christian communion.
But far greater has been my joy in hearing that many, who are en-
deared by the ties of nature and friendship, have embraced the Sa-
vior by a living faith, and are devoting themselves to his service.
The description of such a season of refreshing from the Lord, in my
native place, brings vividly to mind similar scenes which I once wit-
nessed, and in which I so much rejoiced. Such scenes will yet be
witnessed in this dark part of the world. Blessed be the Lord, his
power is not restrained, and he is able to save as well in heathen as
in Christian countries."
The journal of Mrs. Allen shows that she humbly and diligently
examined herself; that she made it her business to grow in holiness;
that she carried on the warfare with sin vigorously ; and that she
had such a familiar acquaintance with her own heart, and with the
difficulties and comforts of a Christian life, as constitutes a distinct,
palpable Christian experience, On the 8th of December, 1823, she
writes —
" ' Grow in grace and in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior
Jesus Christ.' This is a positive command of the inspired volume :
I select it as suitable for meditation to-day, as it completes a year
since I publicly took the covenant of God upon me. 1 desire to put
the question to my heart and conscience, what advances in the di-
vine life have I made during this year? The Lord has been pleas-
ed to plant me in a well cultivated vineyard, and has watched with
a scrutinizing eye to behold what fruit I would bring forth. But 1
have not surely made that improvement I ought, and might have
made. I have not sought out and improved opportunities for doing
good according to the ability I possessed. Let this be for my con-
stant humiliation. And if I have been enabled to do any thing for
the glory of God ; his shall be all the praise. I would now form
some new resolutions for my future conduct, and strive to give a
strict adherence to them. Should my life and health be spared, L
intend to select a chapter each morning for a subject of meditation,
committing to memory one or more important verses to employ the
vacant moments through the day I would also be more strict in
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the government of my thoughts, and watchful over my general con-
duct; particularly when likely to be exposed to temptation. I would
also be more strict and constant in self-examination, and strive to be
more fervent in secret devotion.
"March 27, 1825. — I would now review my exercises during the
past winter. The Lord has been in this place, reviving, I trust, the
languishing graces of his children, pouring out a spirit of prayer, and,
by the still, small voice of his Spirit, convincing unbelievers of their
danger and guilt, and giving them a hope in his pardoning grace.
My heart, if it does not deceive me, has been deeply interested in
this work. At times I have felt a joy inexpressible — and still I have
ardent desires for its continuance and spread — till all shall unite in
praising and loving and serving the dear Redeemer. I have felt
that he is indeed a ' Refuge in the time of trouble.' The promises
have afforded me sweet consolation ; and though at times nature has
been ready to repine, yet I have earnestly sought his grace to sub-
due my will and make me wholly submissive. I have sometimes
found sweet peace in committing all my interests into his hands for
time and eternity — my views of futurity have been brightened — and
I have felt desirous to live more like a pilgrim, passing through a
desert land, ' seeking a better country, even an heavenly.' May he
perfect his work of grace in my soul, and enable me to receive the
allotments of his providence with submission, rejoicing that his wis-
dom overrules all things for good to them that trust in him.
"Jan, 24, 1826. — It is near the hour of midnight. The stillness
of the house, the calmness of nature, the lustre reflected from the
new-fallen snow by the light of the almost full-orbed moon, the
lengthened shadow of the trees, stript of their verdure, the clearness
of the sky, displaying the starry gems of heaven, or losing itself in
mellowing clouds, all combine to tranquilize the mind, to fill the soul
with solemnity and awe, and raise the thoughts in holy adoration.
The day is past — its transactions closed — its account sealed up for
eternity. And thus our mortal days will all fleet away, and soon
the last will arrive. And can I be regardless for one moment of the
solemn consequences that will be the result of my daily conduct ?
Jesus Savior, to thee again I flee ; Oh pardon the sins and follies of
the past day. Grant me sanctifying, quickening, preventing grace ;
and while I am permitted to continue in this state of trial, let me not
live in vain."
It is evident from the journal of Mrs. Allen that she took great de-
light in the Sabbath, as a day of holy rest. On the 9th of March,
1823, she writes —
" With emotions of sacred pleasure would I hail the return of the
holy Sabbath— gracious appointment of heaven for the refreshment
of weary pilgrims, wandering through the mazes of sin and wicked-
ness in the desert wilds of this world, and directing their course tow-
ards the heavenly Canaan, the mansion of eternal rest. How sweet
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to find in the sanctuary a sacred retreat from the cares and perplex-
ities which attend us through the week — to unite in the solemn pray-
ers and sacred songs of praise, and to listen to the faithful dispensa-
tion of the word of life ! O gracious Father ! may I this day expe-
rience these divine joys in thy house ; may I be washed from my in-
numerable sins in the fountain of redeeming blood ; be delivered from
wandering thoughts, and attend with solemn reverence to the minis-
trations of thy word."
In May, 1S27, Mrs. Allen was married to the Rev. David Oliver
Allen, and with him embarked at Boston for Calcutta, on the 6th of
June following. She arrived at Bombay on the 28th of the next
November. On the first of May, immediately after deciding to be-
come a partner in the trials and labors of a mission to the heathen,
she made an entry in her journal, which shows with how much
anxiety and prayerfulness she labored to ascertain her duty on that
point, and how firmly and cheerfully her mind was made up to the
work.
" For several days the conflict of my mind was so great as to de-
stroy my relish for food, and almost to deprive me of sleep. But I
desire to bless God that he has, if I rightly interpret the indications
of his providence, shed light on my path, and shewn the way in
which he would have me go, for I trust he has enabled me to lift up
my soul to him for direction."
" And now I am decided. Yes, I will offer myself a living sacri-
fice, to assist, so far as he shall give ability, in the arduous labors of ex-
tending a knowledge of salvation to the heathen. And in making this
surrender, I feel most happy. Yes, I will bless my covenant God
and Savior for the high privilege of enduring hardships and priva-
tions for " him, who, though he was rich, for our sakes became poor."
Yet I know that his grace alone can sustain me. I would not " trust
in my own heart," nor neglect to " count the cost." I would not,
I trust I do not rush into this work uncalled."
On the fifth of February, 1831, it pleased the Lord, in a sudden
and afflictive manner, to remove Mrs. Allen by death. She had
entered on her missionary labors with much zeal, and had applied
herself to the attainment of the Mahratta language with much suc-
cess ; and in the formation and superintendence of female schools,
in the direct religious instruction of the scholars connected with them,
and other adults who were attracted by her influence and exertions ;
in the visitation of the sick and afflicted, in administering counsel to
those who viewed her as a friend, and in many other ways, which
need not be mentioned, she accomplished much good. Her mission-
ary course was short, extending to less than three years and a quar-
ter. But she has left evidence that she was habitually ready for her
departure. About a year after her arrival at Bombay, on the anni-
versary of her birth-day, she made the following entry in her journal*
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" Many years have passed away since I have occupied a place in
the vineyard of the Lord, and many mercies have I received. To
me there must ere long be a last yea?*, a last day, a last moment.
1 hear the admonitory voice, " Do with thy might what thy hand
findeth to do, the night cometh, when no man can work." Perhaps
it may be near to me, even the night of death. But the dawn of
eternal day is discovered by the eye of faith ; and, though the black-
ness of darkness awaits all unbelievers, yet they who trust in Jesus
shall be saved from that awful state. Though many and dark be the
stains of sin, yet the blood of Christ cleanseth from all sin, and robes
of glory shall forever adorn those who have washed in that precious
fountain. I have given myself in covenant to God to be his for time
and eternity, and if I am his in life, I shall be also in death."
Mrs. Allen died in great peace, and in the exercise of an over-
coming faith, deeply beloved and lamented by her associates in labor5
and by many of the natives to whom her kindness had much en-
deared her.
The funeral was attended from the mission chapel on the same day,
when numerous friends testified their respect for the character of the
deceased. On the evening of the day following, the Rev. John Wil-
son, Scottish missionary, and author of the valuable Life of Eliot, the
apostle to the Indians, which has been re-published by the American
Sunday School Union, preached a sermon on occasion of her death,
from Heb. xi. 13. The subjoined extract from his sermon gives a
just view of her character.
" My brethren, the circumstances and character of the beloved
friend, whom God in his adorable Providence has so lately removed
from us, and whose loss we so deeply lament, were in many respects
similar to those of the witnesses, mentioned in the chapter from which
our text is taken. She possessed that " faith, which is the substance
of things hoped for, and the evidence of things not seen." Like
Enoch, she "walked with God," enjoying his favor, and delighting
in his service. Like Abraham, she looked to this land of spiritual
promise, and, with fervent and holy desire of being a coadjutor in
the great work of making known to its benighted inhabitants the glad
tidings of salvation through a crucified Redeemer, she left her kin-
dred and her father's house — the scenes of her tender association
and holy impression, and sojourned in a land, whose attractions are
not those of ease and worldly enjoyment, but to which she was at-
tached by deep compassion and ardent sympathy for the lost children
of the family of man, and by zeal for the divine glory. In this situ-
ation in which she was placed, and in the labor which she was called
to perform, she found something more than contentment and resigna-
tion—she found occasions of gratitude, and sources of the highest
joy. The work was congenial to her mind, and dear to her soul.
She hallowed it with her prayers, and devoted to it, without reserva-
tion, her time, her strength, and her talents. With the most commen-
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dable diligence she made herself acquainted, in a degree seldom ex-
hibited by her sex, with the language and customs of a large portion
of the natives, who at first appeared to her as a people of a strange
countenance and a strange tongue. The degraded females around
us, both old and young, heard from her lips the doctrine of salvation.
They observed her holy walk, and the operation of that principle by
which she condemned the world. Those who were acquainted with
her know her excellence and appreciated her worth. They witness-
ed her deadness to the world, and her desire for an entrance into that
city which hath foundations, and whose builder and maker is God.
They knew the meekness of her spirit and her unwearied benevo-
lence. They saw the peace of the gospel, which passeth all under-
standing, sustain her in the hour of affliction and trial. They heard
her, in view of her dissolution and her solemn entrance into eternity,
express her humble reliance on the Redeemer. And in the exercise
of faith they traced her ascent to that great cloud of witnesses, who
urge us to lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth most easily
beset us, and to run with patience the race that is set before us."
From the Missionary Herald, "Vol. xxvii. — 1S31, and Vol. xxviii. — 1832.
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MISS HANNAH ADAMS.
For an account of this eminent lady, we are indebted to her own
history of her life, the only document that contains the materials of
her biography.
I was born in Medfield, a country town about eighteen miles from
Boston. My father early imbibed a love of literature, and prepared
to enter the university. But as his constitution then appeared to be
very infirm, and he was an only son, his parents were strenuously
opposed to his leaving them. Accordingly, to his inexpressible dis-
appointment, he was obliged to settle upon their large farm, without
a suitable knowledge of, or taste for, agricultural pursuits. This in-
duced him to open a shop, for the sale, principally, of English goods
and books. His taste for reading continued unabated till his death,
which took place at the advanced age of eighty eight years.
From my infancy I had a feeble constitution ; in particular, an
extreme weakness and irritability in my nervous system. Hence I
can recollect uneasiness and pain previous to any pleasurable sensa-
tions. My mother was an excellent woman, and deservedly esteem-
ed and beloved ; but as her own health was delicate, and she pos-
sessed great tenderness and- sensibility, I was educated in all the
habits of debilitating softness, which probably added to my constitu-
tional want of bodily and mental firmness.
My father's circumstances then appeared affluent, and it was not
supposed I should be reduced to the necessity of supporting myself
by my own exertions. Partly from ill health, and an early singular-
ity of taste, I took no pleasure in the amusements to which children
are generally much attached. My health did not even admit of at-
tending school with the children in the neighborhood where I re-
sided. The country schools, at that time, were kept but a few
months in the year, and all that was then taught in them was read-
ing, writing and arithmetic. In the summer, the children were in-
structed by females in reading, sewing, and other kinds of work.
The books chiefly made use of were the Bible and Psalter. Those
who have had the advantages of receiving the rudiments of their
education at the schools of the present day, can scarcely form an
adequate idea of the contrast between them, and those of an earlier
age ; and of the great improvements which have been made, even
in the common country schools. The disadvantages of my early
education I have experienced during life ; and, among various oth-
ers, the acquiring a very faulty pronunciation ; a habit contracted so
early, that I cannot wholly rectify it in later years.
memoirs, ho. 603
In my early years I was extremely timid, and averse from appear-
ing in company. Indeed, I found but few with whom I could hap-
pily associate. My life, however, was not devoid of enjoyment.
The first strong propensity of my mind which I can recollect, was
an ardent curiosity, and desire to acquire knowledge. I remember
that my first idea of the happiness of Heaven was, of a place where
we should find our thirst for knowledge fully gratified. From my
predominant taste, I was induced to apply to reading, and as my
father had a considerable library, I was enabled to gratify my inclin-
ation. I read with avidity a variety of books, previously to my mind's
being sufficiently matured and strengthened to make a proper selec-
tion. I was passionately fond of novels; and, as I lived in a state
of seclusion, I acquired false ideas of life. The ideal world which
my imagination formed was very different from the real. My pas-
sions were naturally strong, and this kind of reading heightened my
sensibility, by calling it forth to realize scenes of imaginary distress.
I was also an enthusiastic admirer of poetry; and as my memory,
at an early period, was very tenacious, I committed much of the
writings of my favorite poets to memory, such as Milton, Thomson,
Young, he. I did not, however, neglect the study of history and
biography, in each of which kind of reading I found an inexhausti-
ble fund to feast my mind, and gratify my curiosity.
Another source of my enjoyments in early life was an ardent ad-
miration of the beauties of nature. This enthusiasm was heightened
by the glowing descriptions of poetic writers, and I entered into all
their feelings. This taste has continued through life. At the pres-
ent time, when age and experience have in some measure repressed
the warmth of my feelings, and while I am now writing, I should be
more delighted with beautiful rural prospects, and fine flowers, than
when in early life I used to be enraptured with contemplating the sub-
lime and beautiful in the works of creation.
My early life was diversified with few events, and those of a pain-
ful nature. The loss of my excellent mother, which happened when
I had reached my tenth year, was the first severe trial I was called
to suffer. When her death took place, I was at an age when ma-
ternal direction is of the greatest importance, particularly in the ed-
ucation of daughters. Soon after, 1 was bereaved of an aunt, who
was attached to me with almost maternal fondness. A few years
after, my father failed in trade, in consequence of which I was redu-
ced to poverty, with a constitution and early habits which appeared
invincible obstacles to my supporting myself by my own exertions.
Instead of that gayety, which is often attendant on youth, I was ear-
ly accustomed to scenes of melancholy and distress ; and every mis-
fortune was enhanced by a radical want of health, and firmness of
mind. My life passed in seclusion, with gloomy prospects before
me, and surrounded with various perplexities from which I could not
extricate myself. The solitude in which I lived was, however, to
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me, preferable to society in general ; and to that, and to my natural
singularity, I must impute that awkwardness of manners, of which I
never could divest myself at an advanced period of life. A con-
sciousness of this awkwardness produced a dislike to the company
of strangers. Those who have been accustomed to genteel society
when young, can scarcely imagine the trembling timidity I felt, when
introduced to my superiors in circumstances and education. I, how-
ever, enjoyed society upon a small scale. I had a few dear friends,
(for novels had taught me to be very romantic,) who were chiefly in
indigent circumstances, and like myself had imbibed a taste for read-
ing, and were particularly fond of poetry and novels. Most of them
wrote verses, which were read and admired by the whole little cir-
cle. Our mutual love of literature, want of fortune, and indifference
to the society of those whose minds were wholly uncultivated, serv-
ed to cement a union between us, which was interrupted only by the
removal of the parties to distant places, and dissolved only by their
death. Yet I soon experienced this melancholy change. One aft-
er another became victims to the King of Terrors, till our little so-
ciety was greatly diminished ; and I deeply felt these bereavements
which were irreparable.
Sill, however, I was blessed with a sister of similar taste and sen-
timents, but very different in her disposition. I was warm and irri-
table in my temper ; she, placid and even. I was fluctuating and
undecided ; she, steady and judicious. I was extremely timid ; she
blended softness with courage and fortitude. I was inclined to be
melancholy, though sometimes in high spirits ; she was uniformly
serene and cheerful. I placed the strongest reliance upon her judg-
ment, and as she was older than myself, she seemed the maternal
friend, as well as the best of sisters. In short, " she was my guide,
my friend, my earthly all."
As I was too feeble to engage in any laborious employments, I
found considerable leisure for reading; and as my happiness chiefly
consisted in literary pursuits, I was very desirous of learning the ru-
diments of Latin, Greek, geography and logic. Some gentlemen
who boarded at my father's offered to instruct me in these branches
of learning gratis, and I pursued these studies with indescribable
pleasure and avidity. I still, however, sensibly felt the want of a
more systematic education, and those advantages which females en-
joy in the present day. Yet as I always read with great rapidity,
perhaps few of my sex have perused more books at the age of
twenty than I had. Yet my reading was very desultory, and novels
engaged too much of my attention. Though my seclusion from the
world preserved me from many temptations which are incident to
young people, I was perhaps more exposed to errors of the under-
standing, than those who in early life have mixed more with the
wrorld. Time and experience have led me to see the falsity of many
of my early opinions and ideas, and made me sensible that they were
the source of a large share of the misfortunes of my following life.
MISS HANNAH ADAMS. 605
The habits of reading and study in which Miss Adams lived for
many years, had the effect of unfitting her for ordinary occupations ;
while her circumstances rendered it necessary that she should in some
way labor for her own support. These reasons induced her to at-
tempt the difficult and uncertain business of authorship, which be-
came her employment for a great part of her life. Her first effort
in this way was her View of Religions, a work which afterwards was
eminently successful, and procured her no little credit as well as a
handsome profit in the end. Her attention had been first directed
to the subject by reading an account of the doctrinal differences be-
tween Arminian, Calvinists, and several other common sects. This
awakened her curiosity, and she arduously engaged in perusing all
the books which she could obtain, that gave a fuller account of the
subject. The style and tone of most of those authors whom she
consulted, however, disgusted her, by the uncharitableness and preju-
dice which characterized them, and from this she was led to form a
plan of the subject for herself, and arranged the facts, for her own
improvement, in a blank book which she prepared for that purpose.
This she did at first merely with a view to her own instruction, but
after a while, finding herself obliged to procure some means of sup-
port, she was led by the difficulty of finding employment to attempt
the preparation of the work for the public. With immense labor
and trouble she prosecuted her undertaking, which was rendered still
more difficult by the scarcity of proper materials that her situation
prevented her procuring, till after various perplexities, she succeeded
in putting the book to press in 1784. The profit which she received
from the first edition was small, but from a second and third, she was
able to acquire more of that emolument which was the just reward
of her labor.
The work which she gave to the world in these inauspicious cir-
cumstances has justly had the reputation of being the most complete
and important work of the kind ever before produced, and fixed her
reputation high and permanently.
While she was preparing the second edition of her View of Re-
ligions, she suffered a most afflicting bereavement in the loss of the
beloved sister, whom she has mentioned in her own account of her-
self. She then experienced the keenest anguish the human heart
can feel in losing a friend, and for a long time did not recover from
the shock caused by the removal of one so precious and valued.
Under this calamity Miss Adams drew her support from religion
alone, as her manuscripts written at the time very clearly show. She
employed herself when unable to compose, in making extracts from
the Scriptures, which she applied to her particular state of mind.
These she arranged in a little book which she preserved till her death.
The next literary work in which Miss Adams engaged was her
History of New England, which she published, without any profit
to herself, however, though it went through two editions. When
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she compiled this work, there was no history of New England extant,
except such as related to the earliest periods of its annals. She
was, therefore, obliged to go through with much laborious examina-
tion of public records which was very fatiguing to her, and very
exhausting to her eyes, which was the more unfortunate as she was
thus for a time deprived of the means of employing her pen, while
the work on which she bestowed so much pains never properly re-
warded her exertions.
She formed the design of writing the History of the Jews, which
she executed accordingly, after much laborious and faithful investi-
gation of facts relating to the subject. In this work she was much
assisted by the kindness of the Rev. Mr. Buckminster, of Boston,
whose friendship and regard for her continued till his death.
The only other works which she ever published were, " The truth
and excellence of the Christian Religion exhibited," a valuable work
containing short sketches of the lives of eminent laymen who have
written in defence of the Christian religion, with extracts from their
writings ; and in her more advanced age, a little book entitled " Let-
ters on the Gospels," which passed through two editions.
Though her character was marked by some inoffensive peculiari-
ties, Miss Adams passed through life respected and honored by the
public, and loved by all who knew her. During a long life of use-
fulness, she exemplified the Christian virtues in an eminent degree,
and at last in the decline of old age, sunk to eternal rest in a calm
and humble if not triumphant hope.
That she perfectly understood her weaknesses, and moral expo-
sures, and guarded in her heart the avenues to temptation, the follow-
ing resolutions found among her papers, are a sufficient proof.
Serious Resolutions.
I resolve to read the bible more attentively and diligently, and to
be constant and fervent in prayer for divine illumination and direction.
2d. To read less from curiosity, and a desire to acquire worldly
knowledge, and more for the regulation of my heart and life ; con-
sequently, to have my reading less desultory, and to read more
books of practical divinity.
3d. In choosing my friends and companions, to have a greater re-
gard to religious characters than I have hitherto had.
4th. To avoid such company as has a tendency to unsettle my
mind respecting religious opinions.
5th. To endeavor to preserve a firm reliance on Divine Provi-
dence, and to avoid all unreasonable worldly care and anxiety.
6th. To pray and guard against loving my friends with that ardent
attachment, and that implicit reliance upon them, which is incom-
patible with supreme love to, and trust in God alone.
7th. To endeavor to obtain a spirit of forgiveness towards my
enemies, and to banish from my mind all those feelings of resent-
ment, which are incompatible with the spirit of the gospel.
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But little remains to be added to this short sketch, and that little
perhaps is expressed in the obituary notice which we subjoin.
Died at Brookline, near Boston, on the 15th inst. Miss Hannah
Adams, aged seventy six. Her literary labors have long been be-
fore the public, and have made her name known in Europe as well
as in her native land. Her first work, the ' View of Religions,' was
published at a time when this country had few authors, and when a
book from a female hand was almost without a precedent. She was
not impelled by any desire of fame ; and though the hope of useful-
ness, was undoubtedly a strong motive to her literary exertions, yet
this would not have availed, without the prospect of contributing by
her pen to her own support, and the comfort of her nearest friends.
It is gratifying to know, that she has left behind a simple and inte-
resting memoir of her early life, which precludes ihe necessity of
saying more of her literary history. Indeed, literary claims are
perhaps among the last that, at a moment like this, present them-
selves to the minds of her friends. The virtues and excellences of
her character, her blameless life, her sensibility, the warmth of her
affections, her sincerity and candor, call forth a flow of feeling that
cannot be restrained. To an almost child-like simplicity, and single-
ness of heart she united a clear and just conception of character ;
to a deep and affecting humility, a dignity and elevation of thought,
that commanded the respect and veneration of those around her.
Amid many infirmities she retained the freshness and enthusiasm
of youth. Society never lost its charms. To the aged she listened
with submission and gentleness ; to the classic and highly gifted, with
a delight almost amounting to rapture. The young, and there were
such who felt it a privilege to ' sit at her feet,' she viewed as ' minis-
tering angels' dispensing joy and gladness. Her love of nature was
exhaustless. The first beam of morning, the glory of noon, the
last rays of the setting sun, were objects which through a long life
were never contemplated with indifference. Those who were in
the habit of visiting her, will recollect how constantly her apartment
was decorated by flowers of the field, or the garden. It was her
object to gather round her images of natural and moral beauty. In
many respects her mind seemed so truly constituted for enjoyment,
that to those who knew her but slightly, she might have appeared
to be exempted from that mental discipline, which is gradually lead-
ing the pilgrim on to the land of promise. But her friends knew
otherwise ; they knew how keen was her religious sensibility, how
tremblingly alive her conscience, how high her standard of excel-
lence, and how great her timidity and self-distrust, and they felt that
this was not her haven of rest.
Though Miss Adams's faith was fervent and devout, it partook of
the constitution of her sensitive mind, rather than gave the tone to
it. Yet amidst moments of doubt and despondency, a passage from
scripture, or a judicious observation, would disperse the clouds that
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had gathered around her, and the brightest sunshine would diffuse it-
self over her mind and countenance. There are many who will sor-
row that they shall see her * face no more ;' but those who knew the
peculiar delicacy of her constitution, ought rather to rejoice that she
has escaped from the present inclement winter ; from the stormy
wind and tempest ; that her eyes have opened upon one eternal
spring, a season that always awoke the enthusiasm of her nature,
and which she said seemed to her ' like the first freshness of creation.'
It was her happiness to have been conversant with some of the
most enlightened and gifted men of the age. From many she re-
ceived essential benefit ; and the universal sympathy and respect,
as well as the individual kindness which she excited, are testimonies
honorable to human nature. Many in whom she delighted have
passed away. To those she has gone, and to the Father and Sa-
vior whom she loved.
From the Memoir of Miss Hannah Adams written by herself, with additional no-
tices by a friend. Boston, 1832.
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