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PROVERB LORE
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PROVERB LORE
MANY SAYINGS, WISE OR OTHERWISE,
ON MANY SUBJECTS, GLEANED
FROM MANY SOURCES
F.<^^EDWARD HULME, F.S.A.
AUTHOR OF
"WAVSIDB SKBTCMBS," " MYTHLAND," *' NATURAL HISTORY
LORB AMD LSGBMD," "SYMBOLISM IN ART,"
" WILD FRUITS OF THB COUMTRYSIDB,"
"familiar wild FLOWBXS,** BTC
CHEAPER EDITION
LONDON
ELLIOT STOCK, 62 PATERNOSTER ROW, E.C.
1906
CONTENTS
CHAPTER I
PAGS
Value of Stttdy of Proverbs — Difficulty of exact Definition — Defini-
tions by various Writers— The Saw— The Adage — The Essen-
tials of a Proverb — The Value of Brevity — Legitimate Use
of Hyperbole — Proverbs often one-sided Views of Truth —
Sometimes contradict each other — Figurativeness of Language
— A very characteristic Feature — Parables of our Lord —
Proverbs often condensed Parables — Examples of Word-
Pictures — Commonest Objects supply Lessons — Interesting as
referring to Usages that have passed away — Some Proverbs
enduring, some transient — May have more than one Signifi-
cance — Some palpable Truisms and Platitudes — Great
Antiquity of Proverbs — On Jewellery, Pottery, Furniture, etc
— Rustic Conservatism — The Aid oSf Alliteration — Rh3nne as
an Aid to Memory i
CHAPTER n
Ancient Collections of Proverbs — The Proverbs of Solomon —
Ecdesiasticus — ^The Work of D'Anvers on Solomon's Proverbs
— The Collections of De Worde, Trevisb, and Lydgate — ^The
"Adagia" of Erasmus— Tavemar's ** Garden of V^sdom"—
He3rwood's Collection of Proverbs — Camden's "Remaines"
— Davies, the "Scourge of Folly"— The "Apophthegms" of
Lord Bacon— The "Outlandish Proverbs" of G. H.— Her-
bert's "Jacula Prudentum"— The Work of Howell and Cot-
grave— The "Gnomologia" of Fuller — The Difficulties of
Proverb-classification, by Country, by Leading Word, by
Subject, etc— Ray's "Collection of English Proverbs "—The
"Paraemiologia" of Walker— Palmer on Proverbs— The Say-
ings of "Poor Richard" 26
V
vi CONTENTS
CHAPTER III
PAOB
''The Book of Merry Riddles" — Introduction of Proverbs in oar
Literature — A Surfeit of Proverbs — " The two Angrie Women
of Abington " — Fuller on the Misuse of Proverbs — The Say-
ings of Hend3mg — Proverbs in Works of Chaucer, Lydgate,
Spenser, Dryden, Shakespeare, and other Writers — The
'* Imitation of Christ *' — Glitter is not necessarily Gold — The
Cup and the Lip— Comparisons odious — The Rolling-Stone
—The «• Vision of Piers Plowman "—Guelph and Ghibelline
— Dwellers in Glass Houses — A Spade is a Spade — Chalk
and Cheese — Silence gives Consent — A Nine Days' Wonder
—The little Pot soon Hot— Weakest to the Wall— Proverb-
Hunting through our old Literature 65
CHAPTER IV
National Idiosyncrasies — The Seven Sages of Greece — Know Thy-
self—The Laconic "If" — Ancient Greek Proverbs — Roman
Proverbs — The Proverbs of Scotland : Strong Vein of Humour
in them — Spanish and Italian Proverbs — The Proverbs of
France— The "Comddie des Proverbes "— The Proverbs of
Spain: their Popularity and Abundance; Historic Interest:
their Bibliography — Italian Proverbs: their Characteristics —
The Proverbs of Germany — Chinese Adages : their Excellence
— Japanese Proverbs: their Poetry and Beauty — Arab Say-
ings : their Servility : their Humour — Eastern Delight in
Stories — African Sayings : their pithy Wisdom — The Proverb-
philosophy of the Tahnud 90
CHAPTER V
Proverbs that are misunderstood — The Cheese — Raining Cats and
Dogs— Cattle-harrying— The Bitter End— By Hook or Crook
— Proverbs of Evil Teaching — Necessity has no Law — The
Peck of Dirt — Howl with the Wolves — Sarcasm in Proverbs —
The Fool— Selfishness— The Praise of Truth— The Value of
Time — Death— The Conduct of Life — Occupations that supply
Proverbs — The Barber, Tailor, Cobbler, Physician, Lawyer,
and others— The Cowl and the Monk— The Long Bow— The
Meditative Angler — Sayings associated with particular Indi-
viduals — Hobson and his Choice — Plowden's Law — Mortimer's
Sow— The Wisdom of Doddipol— The Fear of Mrs Grundy's
Opinion — Locality Proverbs — Rustic Humour — Local Products
—Tenterden Steeple 124
CONTENTS vii
CHAPTER VI
pIgb
Proverbs suggested by Animals — Animal Cbaracteristics : Sagacity,
Fidelity, Cunning, Greed, etc.— The Horse— The Dog— The
Cat : her Nine Lives; the Catspaw; falling on Feet; in Mittens
—The Ass— Pearls before Swine — A Pig in a Poke — The
Wrong Sow by the Ear— The Sheep— The Shorn Lamb— The
Bull— The Goose— The Hen— Roasting E^gs— The Bird and
her Nest— Birds of a Feather— Catching with Chaff— Roasted
Larks— The Fox— The Wolf; in Sheep's Clothing— The Bear—
The Mouse— Belling the Cat— Fish Proverbs— The Laborious
Ant — The Worm that turns — Similes : from the Animal King-
dom ; from Household Surroundings ; from various Callings ;
from divers Colours i6i
CHAPTER VII
The Power of the Tongue — Speech and Silence — Knowledge and
Wisdom not Interchangeable Terms — Truth and Untruth —
Travellers' Tales — Flattery — Industry and Sloth— Youth-
Friends, True and False — Riches and Poverty — The Ladder to
Thrift— The Influence of Womankind— The Good Wife— The
Shrew — The Testimony of Epitaphs — The Grey Mare — Home
— Hope — Forethought — Excuses — Good and 111 Fortune —
Retribution — Detraction — Pretension — Self- Interest — Bribery
and Corruption— Custom and Habit — The general Conduct of
Life— The Weather— The Moon made of Green Cheese-
Conclusion 194
PROVERB LORE
CHAPTER I
Value of Study of Proverbs — DiflSculty of exact Definition — Definitions by
various Writers— The Saw— The Adage — The Essentials of a Proverb
— ^The Value of Brevity — Legitimate Use of Hyperbole — Proverbs
often one-sided Views of Truth — Sometimes contradict each other
— Figurativeness of Language — A very characteristic Feature —
Parables of our Lord — Proverbs often condensed Parables — Examples
of Word-Pictures — Commonest Objects supply Lessons — Interesting
as referring to Usages that have passed away — Some Proverbs
enduring, some transient — May have more than one Significance —
Some palpable Truisms and Platitudes — Great Antiquity of Proverbs
— On Jewellery, Pottery, Furniture, etc. — Rustic Conservatism — ^The
aid of Alliteration — Rhyme as an Aid to Memory
The study of proverbs is one of exceeding interest and
value. By means of it our thoughts travel back through
the ages to the childhood of the world, and we see at
once how amidst the surroundings that vary so greatly
in every age and in every clime the common inherent
oneness of humanity asserts itself : how, while fashions
change, motives of action remain ; how, beneath the
burning sun of Bengal or Ashanti, in the tents of the
Crees, or amidst the snows of Lapland, the thoughts of
men on the great problems that confront the race are
strikingly at one. Hence, while the outward garb and
phraseology of these proverbial utterances must neces-
sarily greatly vary, we find, when we pierce below the
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surface, a remarkable similarity of idea. When we
desire to point out the foolishness of providing any
place or person with anything that they are really
better able to procure for themselves, the absurdity of
"carrying coals to Newcastle" is pointed out, and we
might at first sight very naturally say that surely here
we have a popular saying that we can specially claim
as a piece of English proverbial wisdom. We find,
however, in the Middle Ages the popular saying,
"Send Indulgences to Rome"; while even before the
Christian era the Greeks were teaching the same lesson
in the formula, " Owls to Athens," the woods of Attica
yielding these birds in abundance, while the city itself,
under the special guardianship of Pallas Athene, had, as
its device and symbol, on its coinage and elsewhere, the
owl, the bird associated with that goddess — coals, owls,
indulgences, so different in outward seeming, teaching
the self-same truth. Any attempt at classification of
proverbs by nationality is exceedingly difficult, and in
many cases impossible, since the more one looks into
the matter the more one realises what a cosmopolitan
thing a proverb is. Gratifying as it would be to
patriotic feeling to gather together all the best pro-
verbs in circulation in England and claim them as the
product of English wit and wisdom, we should at once
on investigation find that in great degree they were,
perhaps in actual wording, and certainly in significance,
the property of humanity at large.
The necessity of curbing the hasty tongue, the dis-
praise of folly, the value of true friendship, the watch-
fulness that enmity entails, the influence of womankind,
the fabrication of excuses, the vainglory of boasting
and pretension, the exposure of hypocrisy, the evil of
ingratitude, the golden irradiation of the pathway of
life by hope, the buoyant strength and confidence of
youth, the sad decrepitude of old age, the retribution
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that awaits wrongdoers, were as keenly understood
three thousand years ago as to-day, and the trite
expression of these verities, crystallised into warning,
encouragement, or reproof, is as much a part of the
equipment of life to the date-seller of Damascus as to
the ploughman in an English shire.
Proverbs have been handed down from generation to
generation from the remotest ages, and were in cir-
culation from mouth to mouth long before any written
records, since in the earliest writings extant we find
them given as obvious quotations. By means of them,
primitive peoples entered upon a heritage of sound
wisdom and good working common-sense, and had
ready to hand counsels of prudence, hints for the con-
duct of life, warnings of its pitfalls. Much that is
interesting in history, in manners and customs, is also
preserved in them, and though times change it is
scarcely safe to say that any proverb is obsolete. A
local allusion may be understood by some old country-
man that to the philosopher and savant is nought
Time after time as we travel onwards through life we
find our knowledge somewhat nebulous, our ideas in need
of precision and sharpness of definition. We accept
so many things, almost unconsciously, on trust, and
should find it almost impossible in many cases to give
an exact reason for the belief that is in us. The
nature and construction of a proverb appears a thing too
self-evident for any question to arise, the definition of it
one of the simplest of tasks, and we do not at all realise
its difficulty until we are fairly brought face to face with
the problem, pen in hand, and a sheet of blank paper
before us. Waiving a personal definition, we will
endeavour by means of the statements of others, men
whom we may more or less recognise as authorities and
specialists, to arrive at a satisfactory conclusion.
Dr Johnson, in his noble dictionary, a splendid mass
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of erudition,* defines a proverb as "a short sentence
frequently repeated by the people ; a saw ; an adage,"
but this definition, as it stands, is scarcely sufHcient.
Having already a fair though nebulous notion of what
a proverb is we may perhaps accept it, since we auto-
matically fill in what is wanting, but if we could
imagine the case of one who had no previous notion
' of the nature of a proverb the definition of Dr Johnson
would not fill the void, since there are many colloquial
phrases in constant use that are not proverbial in their
nature at all.t The Doctor points out, under a second
clause in his definition, that a proverb may also be a
byeword of reproach, but it would appear needless to
dwell specially on this. A proverb may exert its
influence on us in many ways, by encouragement, by
derision, by warning, and so forth, and there seems no
occasion to make a special section of those that yield
their lesson to us by way of reproach. As an example
of the use of this class we may instance the passage of
Milton, from his " Samson Agonistes " —
" Am I not strong and proverb'd for a fool
In ev*ry street : do they not say, how well
Are come upon him his deserts ? "
Our readers will doubtless recall, too, how in Holy Writ
it is declared that '* Israel shall be a proverb and a
byeword among all people."
* "A dictionary of the English language, in which the words are
deduced from their originals, and illustrated in their different significations
by examples from the best authors." This early edition is in two massive
quarto volumes, and the later abridgments that are now alone seen give no
conception of the value of the original work.
t The two illustrative quotations appended are from the writings of
Bacon and Addison respectively. The first runs as follows: — "The pro-
= verb is true that light gains make heavy purses; for light gains come thick,
whereas great come but now and then " ; while the second, from Addison,
declares that "the proverb says of the Genoese that they have a sea
without fish, land without trees, and men without fisiith." This latter
would appear to be rather an epigram than a proverb.
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The word saw is Saxon in its origin, and is defined
by our great lexicographer as " a saying, a maxim, a
sentence, an axiom, a proverb." Shakespeare writes —
" From the table of my memory
111 wipe away all saws of books,"
and elsewhere of another of his characters he says that
" his weapons " were " holy saws of sacred writ" Per-
haps, however, the best and best-known Shakespearian
instance is in his graphic description of the seven ages
of man in " As You Like It," where we are presently
introduced to the portly Justice with eyes severe and
beard of formal cut, " full of wise saws and modem •
instances," a well-bound encyclopaedia of legal axiom,
precedent, and practice.
Milton writes, somewhat more forbiddingly, of
" Strict age and sour severity
With their grave saws."
The word proverb is Greek in its inception, and means,
literally, a wayside saying. Adage, a fairly equivalent
word, is also of Greek birth. The reference in " Mac-
beth " will at once be recalled —
*' Letting I dare not wait upon I would.
Like the poor cat i* the adage." *
Synesius, a Christian writer of the early part of
the fifth century, affirms, in quoting from a work of
Aristotle that is now lost, that " A proverb is a remnant
of the ancient philosophy preserved amid many destruc-
* We shall later on, when we deal with proverbial philosophy suggested
by the various traits of animal life, find that the cat furnishes material for
several popular sayings. The particular facts here brought out are the two
antagonistic points in the feline economy — a great liking for fish, and a
great disliking to getting wet, so that '*I dare not" becomes the insur-
mountable obstacle to *' I would." In a sixteenth century manuscript this
adage is given as *' a cat doth love the fishe, but she will not wett her
foote," and, with various slight modifications of diction, the proverb is an
oft-quoted one.
PROVERB LORE
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tions on account of its brevity and fitness for use," and
in like strain Agricola declares proverbs to be "short
sentences into which, as in rules, the ancients have
compressed life." Cervantes puts this yet more pithily
. in his definition, "Short sentences drawn from long
*h I experience." Howell, too, is happy in his declaration,
^ "Sayings which combine sense, shortness, and salt."
Russell declares a proverb to be " the wisdom of many
and the wit of one " — the one being the man who puts
into happy form a truth that many had already felt, and
thereby crystallised it for the use of all future time.
Bacon, less happily, declares proverbs to be " the genius,
wit, and spirit of a nation " ; but this definition mani-
festly covers a far wider area than can be justly claimed
for them. We need scarcely here point out that the
word spirit does not mean the courage and resolution
that summon a nation to the defence of its rights. It
is but the Anglicised form of the French esprit^ a word
that has no entirely satisfactory English equivalent.
Chambers hath it that " proverbs are pithy, practical,
popular sayings, expressive of certain more or less
general convictions," and this is a definition that really
seems to cover very satisfactorily the whole ground.
That of Annandale is like unto it, "A proverb is a
short and pithy sentence forming a popular saying, and
expressing some result of the experience of life in a
keen, quaint, and lively fashion." Popularity is an
essential feature, an absolute necessity. A saying of
some wise man may strike us at once as one of the
happiest of utterances, but if from any cause it does
not find acceptance and adoption into the common
speech, the absence of this popular recognition of
its work debars it. It may richly deserve a place
amongst the proverbs, being as pithy, as wise as any of
them, and possess every essential of a proverb save the
one. This one essential of general acceptance being
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wanting, we have left to us a golden sentence, a striking
aphorism, a soul-stirring utterance. This is a point
that some of the compilers of lists of proverbs have
overlooked, and they have been tempted to insert in
their pages brilliant wisdom-chips from the writings of
divers clever men, or to coin them for themselves.
Worcester, in his dictionary, defines a proverb as " a
common or pithy expression which embodies some
moral precept or admitted truth," but we find in
practice that some few of these popular sayings are
not altogether moral in their teaching. Hazlitt affirms
that this popular diction is " an expression or combina-
tion of words conveying a truth to the mind by a
figure, periphrasis, antithesis, or hyperbole." Here, again,
the soundness of the teaching is taken for granted.
Cooper, in his Thesaurus, A.D. 1584, translates /r<7-
verbium as "an old sayed sawe," and this really, in
spite of its great brevity, very nearly touches the root
of the matter. Being " old," the popular utterance has
the stamp and dignity of antiquity : it is no new-
fangled thing that may or may not find a lasting
resting-place in the minds and consciences of men ;
while, being " sayed," it is not merely a golden maxim
buried deeply in the pages of some venerable tome, it
has passed into the daily life and struggle for existence,
and become incorporated in the popular speech. It
has borne the test of time ; generation after genera-
tion of the sons of men have recognised its value and
accepted it.
In the "Encyclopaedia Metropolitana " a proverb is
defined as " a common saying, sentiment, or sentence in
which all agree " ; but while so common a saying, a sen-
tence that all can agree upon, as " twice two make four,"
comes entirely within this definition, it is in no sense a
proverb. Slavery we all feel to be an evil, and we deplore
its existence, but while the sentiment does credit to our
8 PROVERB LORE
hearts, and unanimous as we may all be on the point, it
is in no degree proverbial. The definition, moreover,
requires from us a unanimity of acceptance, but this is
by no means always forthcoming, as regards the moral
teaching, for example, of some of our ancient adages.
If we take, for instance, so well recognised a proverb as
" Honesty is the best policy," some persons will see in it
a mine of shrewd wisdom, while others will decide that
the man who is honest because he thinks that it will
pay best is at heart a rogue. Our acceptance or rejec-
tion of its teaching does not alter the fact that for good
or ill the utterance ranks as a proverb.
The Rev. John Ward, the vicar of Stratford-on-Avon
in the reign of Charles the Second, was a great collector
of these items of proverbial wisdom, and his stipulations
as to the correct structure of a proverb were very de-
finite, though perhaps a little too severe. He declared
that in each such utterance six things were essential.
It should be short, plain in its language and teaching,
in common use, figurative in its expression, ancient, true.
When all these requirements are met we have, doubtless,
an ideal proverb, but many excellent adages are current
that cannot be thus bound in.
Horace declares, wisely enough, in his "Art of
Poetry," in favour of brevity :
" Short be the precept which with care is gained
By docile minds, and faithfully retained,"
and it is a very valuable feature. How happy in ex-
pression, for instance, are such proverbs as " Fast bind,
fast find," " Forewarned, forearmed," " Haste is waste."
That a proverb should be plain in language and
teaching is, we take it, by no means an essential. It
rather owes often somewhat of its value to the fact that
there is something in it that compels analysis, possibly
awakens doubt or resistance, startles us by an apparent
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contradiction, and compels us to delve at some trouble
to ourselves before we grasp its significance. Ray, one
of the best known students of proverb- lore, realises
this when he stipulates for " an instructive sentence in
which more is generally designed than expressed" as
his ideal.
Quaint exaggeration of statement, the use of hyper-
bole, is often employed, and very happily, to compel
attention. Some men seem to be so specially the chil-
dren of fortune that they from the most untoward events
gain increased advantage, and after a submergence that
would drown most men emerge buoyantly from this sea
of trouble and go cheerily on their way. Such are very
happily described in the Arab proverb, "If you throw
him into the sea he will come up with a fish in his
mouth." To those who would attempt great tasks with
inadequate means how truly may we say, "It is hard to
sail across the sea in an eggshell." Of those who labour
hard for results that bear no proportion to the effort
made we may equally truly say, "He dives deep and
brings up a potsherd." In France, if a man attempts a
prodigious, or possibly impossible, task, it is said of
him, "11 a la mer i boire," while the thoughtless or
reckless man, who to avoid a slight and passing incon-
venience will run imminent risk of grave misfortune, is
said to jump into the river that he may escape the rain,
" II se jette i Teau, peur de la pluie." The hyperbole
employed startles and arouses the attention and drives
the lesson home. It is especially characteristic of the
Eastern mind, and the Bible, a book of the East, is full
of examples of its use.
Proverbial wisdom, it must be borne in mind, deals
sometimes with only one aspect of a truth. The neces-
sary brevity often makes the teaching one-sided, as the
various limitations and exceptions that may be neces-
sary to a complete statement of a truth are perforce left
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unsaid. One proverb therefore is often in direct contra-
diction to another, and yet each may be equally true.
Solomon, for example, tells us to " answer a fool accord-
ing to his folly, lest he be wise in his own conceit," and
\ he also tells us to " answer not a fool according to his
i folly, lest thou also be like unto him."* These two
directions are placed one immediately after the other
of deliberate forethought that the sharp contrast may
force itself on the attention. The two modes of action
are in direct contradiction, yet each is equally valuable
in its place, and according to circumstances one or other
of them would be the right course to pursue. To the
restless, unstable man we may well quote the well-known
; adage, " A rolling stone gathers no moss " ; t but, on the
other hand, it is equally true that "A tethered sheep
(I soon starves." While one villager is content to remain
in the little hamlet where he was bom, living hardly
throughout his life, the recipient of a scanty wage, of
soup and blankets from the vicarage or the hall, and,
finally, of a pauper grave, his schoolmate, the rolling
stone, goes out into the big world and fights his way
into a position of independence.
The fourth stipulation of Ward — figurativeness of
expression — while it may appear to somewhat clash
with his second, the demand for plainness of utterance,
is undoubtedly of great value ; but it is not an essential
Such proverbs as " Plough, or not plough, you must pay
your rent," " The receiver is as bad as the thief," " The
child says what father says," " Misfortunes never come
singly," "Extremes meet," "111 doers are ill deemers,"
* A great use is made in the Bible of this thought-compelling antithesis.
One illustration will suffice : ** There is a shame that bringeth sin, and
there is a shame that is glory and grace.''
t '* The stone that is rouling can gather no mosse,
Who often remooueth is sure of losse,
The riche it compelleth to paie for his pride ;
The poore it vndooeth on euerie side."
PROVERB LORE ii
are direct statements to be literally accepted, and to
these scores more could be added. The figurative treat-
ment is, nevertheless, still more in evidence, and very
justly so. By its employment the attention is at once
arrested and the memory helped. This love of picture
language is specially characteristic of early days and of
primitive peoples, and those who would turn away from
an abstract discourse in praise of virtue, temperance, or
strenuous endeavour will gladly accept the teaching if
presented in more concrete form — the fairy tale, the
fable, or the parable.
This figurativeness of language was a marked char-
acteristic of the teaching of our Lord, and the common
people, who would have been repulsed by dogma or ex-
hortation, thronged gladly to the Teacher who reached
their hearts through the beautiful and simple stories that
fascinated them and awoke their interest. The sharp
experiences of the wayward son in the far-off land, the
story of the anxious housewife seeking at midnight for
the lost piece of silver, the lonely traveller sore beset by
thieves, the withering grain that fell amidst the roadside
stones, the goodman of the house so stoutly guarding
his belongings, the sheep that had strayed afar into the
perils of the wilderness, the useless tares amidst the fruit-
ful grain, the house upon the shifting sand, the widely-
gathering net, the pearl of great price, have been a delight
to countless generations, and will ever continue to be so.*
A proverb that is figurative in its construction may
be considered as really a condensed parable. Hence
Chaucer, in the prologue of " The Wife of Bathe," refers
to " eke the paraboles of Salomon."
Numerous examples of these word -pictures will at
* '* In manye suche parablis he spak to hem the word, as thei mjghten
here, and he spak not to hem withoute parable." — Wiclifs translation of
tke Bible.
"The holye scripture hath her figure and historye, her mysterye and
▼eritie, her parable and playne doctryne." — Bale.
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once occur to us. How expressive of the reproductive
power of evil is the well-known proverb, "111 weeds'
(grow apace." In one of the Harleian MSS. of about
the year 1490 we find it given as " Ewyl weed ys sone
y-growe " ; or, as another writer hath it, —
" III weede groweth fast, ales, whereby the come is lome,
For surely the weed overgroweth the com."
In France it is " Mauvaise herbe croit toujours," and in
Italy "Erba mala preste cresce," and in some kindred
form it appears in the proverb lore of almost all people.
How telling, again, the picture and the lesson in " Still
• waters run deep."
" Small griefs find tongues : full casks are ever found
To give, if any, yet but little sound ;
Deep waters noiseless are, and this we know,
That chiding streams betray small depth below." — Herrick,
In Germany it is " Stille Wasser sind tief " — " Still waters
are deep" — or " griinden tief," " are grounded deep." In
its English and German dress we learn that the silent
man is a thoughtful man, but in France it is rendered as
" II n'y a pire eau que Teau qui dort" — " There is no worse
water than that which sleeps" — making the consider-
ably stronger assertion that a thoughtful man becomes
thereby a distinctly dangerous member of society !
While we are reminded of the restless turmoil of the
babbling brook, and gain in its contemplation a hint of
the fussy activity that in shallow minds ends in little
but outward show, we must nevertheless learn that the
day of small things must not be despised, for " Little
brooks make great rivers." Recalling the fable of the
ensnared lion and the kindly and industrious mouse
that came to his rescue, we learn afresh that the weak
may often help the great, for "When large ships run
aground, little boats may pull them off." How true,
too, to experience is it that " To a crazy ship all winds
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f are contrary," when in many lives there seem times
when everything goes wrong, and the unfortunate victim
of circumstances is buffeted from all directions. Another
of these aqueous proverbs reminds us how in such case
the most desperate remedies may be tried, for "A ;
* drowning man will catch at a straw." To profit, too,
by seasons of good fortune is no less needful, for " Every
^ tide will have an ebb," and we may not assume that the
opportunities we neglect to-day will be always open to
our embrace.
" There is a tide in the affairs of men,"
we are told by Shakespeare, who doubtless knew this
proverb, and transmuted it by his genius into fine
gold—
" Which, taken at the flood, leads on to fortune ;
Omitted, all the voyage of their life
Is boimd in shallows and in miseries."
In the day of prosperity friends appear to be numerous,
but adversity tries their worth, and it is too true for
the credit of human nature, that " Men shut their doors'
n against the setting sun." " Strike/' then, " while the ^
'\ iron is hot" — "Batti il ferro quando h caldo," say in
like manner the Italians. This is a proverb, however,
that is met with almost universally, seeing that the
necessity for prompt decision is also almost equally
universal. Chaucer tells us how
^' Pandarus, whiche that stode her faste by,
Felt iron hotte, and he began to smite."
Yet, remember, would one prosper, " Have not too many '
I irons in the fire." These proverbs suggested by the
smithy recall yet one other, and a very ancient one,
"Inter malleum et incudem" — "Between the hammer-
r and the anvil " — a position so hemmed in with danger
that no way of escape seems possible.
When a continuous use of any advantage blinds us
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to the need of caution, we must remember that " The
^ pitcher goes oft to the well, but is broken at last," and
what we have grown careless in the use of we may
presently find that we have lost* When this day comes
another proverb — as to the folly of " shutting the stable
' door after the horse is stolen " — may be too late recalled.
How picturesque and how true to life the well-worn
adages, "A new broom sweeps clean," "A creaking
door hangs long on its hinges," "One nail drives out
another," as portrayed in the new-born diligence that,
mayhap, will not last ; in the career that drags along
despite all probabilities of its survival ; in the fickle
heart and mind that lightly supplant old friends with
new, or drop some hobby that a week ago seemed all-
absorbing in favour of some other thing of no greater
value, but possessing the attraction of novelty.
To those who live in constant nervous dread of im-
pending misfortune it should be some little comfort to
remember that " Every mote doth not blind a man." '
Things often work out better than the anticipation of
them suggested. No action is unimportant, and all
have their consequences, seeing "There is no hair so'
• small but hath its shadow." If the action be wrong the
results will accord, for " A crooked stick throws a
' crooked shadow." As one sows, so must they reap;
thistles will never yield figs, nor thorns grapes.
' As the pains so the gains ; and " He that will eat the
1 kernel must crack the nut." For everything the price
must be paid, and " One cannot make pancakes without -
^ breaking eggs."t We cannot all be of high position,
whatever our zeal and industry, and in every army the
rank and file are far in excess of the leaders, and are yet
• "Or the golden bowl be broken, or the pitcher broken at the dstem."
— Eeclesiastes xii. 6.
t " Ou ne £ut point d'omelettes sans casser les oeufs," says the French-
man, and the Spaniard agrees, "No se hacen tortillas sin romper
huevos."
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as indispensable as they. The French saying, "Toute
chair n'est pas venaison " — " All meat is not venison " — ,
comes in very happily here. When we recall how one
revolts against " toujours perdrix," and how the London
apprentices rebelled against being expected to eat sal-
mon four days a week, we see that there is abundant
welcome in the world for the steady workman, the dili-
gent official, the succulent sirloin, the fragrant bloater.
That merit shall not go unrewarded, that fitness for
duty may fairly hope to meet full and fair recognition
is suggested in the proverb, " A stone that is fit for the
wall is not left in the way," and men, sooner or later,
receive the recognition of their worth that they deserve,
for "The turtle, though brought in at the back door,
takes the head of the table." A little influence, a friend
at court, and a bribe to blind his eyes therewith have
ere now been tried as an aid to fortune, for " A silver key ^
^ can open an iron lock " in this fallen world it has been
found. While this prescription is working the expectant
suitor may amuse himself by "building castles in the |
^ ^air.:'
The commonest objects yield their lesson and are
worked into the great mass of proverbial philosophy at
the service of those who were daily using them, and could
thus most fully realise the point of the utterance. The
cooper soon found out that " Empty vessels make the •
I most sound," and that every tub may well be expected
to stand on its own bottom ; and the miller early
grasped the truth that " A little barrel gives but a little
\ ineal." He saw, too, that "A torn sack will hold no
1 corn," and that " An empty sack cannot stand upright"
The soldier was warned, "Draw not thy bow before
thine arrow be fixed," and did not shoot before he had
some definite aim. He knew, too, how prudent it was
to have " two strings to one's bow," and that " A bow
long berit at la^t waxeth weak." The woodman's ex-
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perience added to the store of proverbial wisdom, " A
' blunt wedge will sometimes do what a sharp axe
cannot"; that "Willows are weak, but yet they bind
other wood " ; that " Oaks may fall while reeds remain " ;
and that " Great trees keep down little ones " ; while the
gardener saw that " Ripe fruit may grow on rough wall " ;
^ and even the nursery yields the declaration that "A
burnt child dreads the fire " ; and the tailor grasps the
wisdom of the advice, " Measure thy cloth thrice ere
' thou cut it once." Other homely adages are — " At open
doors-dogs come in," " A spur in the head is wortlTtwo
in the heels," " The rotten apple injures its neighbour,"
" Dams are bad, but better than debts."
Proverbs are of immense value, as they furnish an
inexhaustible store of epigrammatic utterances, and
many of them are of considerable archaeological and
folk-lore value as keys to usages, beliefs, and so forth,
that have now passed away. The many proverbs, for
illustration, that deal with bows and arrows are sur-
vivals from remote antiquity or mediaeval experience.
All proverbs, we need scarcely point out, are not of
equal value or popularity. Some, from their going
down to the solid bed-rock of human nature and com-
mon experience, have lasted for centuries, and will
continue, doubtless, while time shall last, their appeal to
humanity, while others are transient, local, restricted.
While some collections of proverbs run into thousands
of examples, it is astonishing how few in these latter
days are really in use. If our readers, to test this
matter, will turn their thoughts inwards, or consult any
of their friends, they will probably find that half a sheet
of note-paper will very comfortably suffice to put down
their stores, and if a hundred people did this their lists
would be curiously alike, showing that only a very
limited number have really nowadays found popular
acceptance. One hundred per cent, of these lists would
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include " All is not gold that glitters," " There is a silver
lining to every cloud," and "Those who live in glass
houses should not throw stones," all, it will be noted,
being word - pictures. "A rolling stone gathers no
moss," and "A bird in the hand is worth two in the
bush," are also very popular proverbs, and greatly for
the same reason.
Proverbs may have more than one significance, and
smite as two-edged swords. Like the old-fashioned
flail, that has now so largely been superseded by the
thrashing-machine, they may very smartly return on
the head of the careless user of them. If, for example,
we quote the adage, " Set the saddle on the right horse,"
it may signify our intention to see that those whose
action in some matter is blameworthy shall be duly
held up to execration, or it may with the utmost kindli-
ness desire that the "willing horse," human or equine,
shall not be imposed on, and that those shall bear the
burden that are most fit to do so.
Some proverbs are merely palpable truisms, and have
little or no claim on our consideration. They have
largely arisen from the mistaken zeal of some of the old
writers in endeavouring to force into their lists anything
that could be got together with any semblance of pro-
priety, and in such a case the sharp dividing line that
should be in evidence between proverb and platitude
was often overstepped. Should A publish a select list
of one hundred proverbs, the book of B, which contains
two hundred examples — the hundred of A, plus axioms^
platitudes to make up the double amount — is not twice
as good ; it is only half as good, because one has to
spend time and energy in separating the gold from the
dross. The following may be taken as illustrations of
the sort of thing we are protesting against : — " He that
•, does no good does evil," " The act proves the intention,"
" Defernot charities till death," " Diligence is the mother
B
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of good luck," " Books should inspire thought, not super-
sede it," "Learn first to obey before proceeding to
govern," "Great designs require great consideration,"
"Self is a poor centre," "Affected simplicity is but
imposture," " Yield graciously or oppose firmly," " Good
cause gives stout heart and strong arm," "It is good to
begin well, better to end well," "Procrastination often
brings repentance." These, all culled from various collec-
tions, are perfectly harmless, and, indeed, praiseworthy.
As copy-book headings they might render good service,
but they want the "salt" to make them popular or
acceptable. As truisms they are superb.
The antiquity of many of our proverbs is very great,
and their parentage is enveloped in mystery. Howell,
an old writer on the subject, likens them to "natural
children legitimated by prescription and long tract of
ancestriall time," and these foundlings have certainly
been made very welcome. While the name of the
coiner is not transmitted with it, the gift he bestows on
posterity enjoys an unending popular appreciation that
the authors of soul-stirring appeals, of learned treatises,
of exquisite poems, sometimes fail to reach. It is a
piece of proverbial wisdom that " liars should have good
memories," and there is a very modern ring about it,
but St Jerome, writing in the fourth century, intro-
duces it to clinch an argument, and refers to it as an
old proverb. Quintilian, a contemporary of Martial,
Juvenal, Tacitus, during the reigns of Titus and
Domitian, some three hundred years before the days
of Jerome, also introduced it How many centuries
before this the proverb was in use, who can say ? The
rule it lays down would be a valuable one any time this
three thousand years or more, and as political economists
tell us that supply and demand act and react upon each
other, we may reasonably assume that in the earliest
ages the demand for such an axiom would give it birth.
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There is a homely ring in the saying that " He who lies
down with dogs will rise up with fleas," and we could
well imagine it starting into circulation somewhere
about the time of our great-grandfathers, when manners
were a little coarser, or at all events, a little more
coarsely expressed, and when, without circumlocution,
a spade was a spade ; but over eighteen centuries ago
Seneca quoted this proverb, and we find it in his
writings in all its homely directness — " Qui cum canibus
concumbunt cum pulicibus surgent."
Hesiod introduces many proverbs in his writings, and
we find them again referred to by Plutarch, Cicero, and
others. When St Paul warned his hearers that " Evil
communications corrupt good manners," he was quoting
a saying doubtless well known to them. It may be
found again in the writings of the poet Menander. In
^e Edda we meet with many striking Scandinavian
proverbs, and one of the books of the Bible, compiled
about a thousand years before the Christian era, is
wholly devoted to proverbial teaching.
Proverbs form a branch of that great mass of folk-
lore that is more especially the possession of the
humbler denizens of our towns and rural districts, and
seem to have comparatively little sympathy with the
great ones of the earth. In " Eastward Hoe," written in
1605, we have a quaint illustration of their use — where
Touchstone declares, " I hired me a small shop, fought
low, tooke small game, kept no debt-booke, and gar-
nished my shop, for want of plate, with good whole-
some thriftie sentences, as * Touchstone, keepe thy
shoppe and thy shoppe will keepe thee,' * Light
gaines make heavie purses,' *'Tis good to be merrie
and wise.*" A great use was made of proverbs and
mottoes during the middle ages on jewellery, pottery,
furniture, and in fact wherever they could be applied.
" Proverbs," Whateley very happily says, " are some-
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what analogous to those medical formulas which, being
in frequent use, are kept ready made up in the chemists'
shops, and which often save the framing of a distinct
prescription." The uneducated are quite willing to be
supplied with happy arguments ready made,* and
having tested their efficacy, are well content to abide
by them. Motherwell very aptly observes that " A man
whose mind has been enlarged by education, and who
has a complete mastery over the riches of his own
language, expresses his ideas in his own words, while
a vulgar man, on the other hand, uses these proverbial
forms which daily use and tradition have made familiar
to him, and when he makes a remark which needs con-
firmation, he clinches it by a proverb." It is of course
obvious here that the word vulgar is not used in the
offensive sense that has in these latter days been
associated with it
With the uneducated and poorer folk an axiom never
becomes hackneyed. In all such matters they are very
conservative, and do not readily forsake the old paths.
Rustic humour, rustic customs, rustic remedies, all
conform to this well-nigh immutable law. Years ago,
when we lived in a little Wiltshire village, the leading
farmer had a black horse with a broad blaize of white
running from between its ears to the nostrils, and any-
one meeting the carter leading this animal to plough
or stable would accost him as follows : " That harse
of yourn looks pretty baad ! " to which the carter would
reply, "Yees, he looks pretty white about the faace,
doant he ? " Should this horse, or such a horse, be still
to the fore, we do not for a moment doubt — it is only
eighteen years since we left — that this formula is still
flourishing in perennial youth. Everyone knew just
• " My reasoning your reason setteth nought by,
But reason for reason yee so stiffly lay,
By proverbe for proverbe that with you doe way." — Heywood,
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what to say and when to slowly chuckle, and so
everybody was entirely satisfied, and the sally was a
guaranteed success. It had ripened with age, and
had long passed the troublesome experimental stage.
Lord Chesterfield declared that "a man of fashion
never had recourse to proverbs," but after all his
opinion is not final. The utterance is often quoted,
but proverbs still survive his anathema, and the ban
under which he would place them has had no binding
force. It is, moreover, a matter quite immaterial what
the man of fashion thinks of them at all. They yet
remain interesting objects of study for the philosopher,
and are for the man of the busy world a storehouse
of practical wisdom.
The Divine Teacher did not scruple to employ this
form of speech. In the synagogue of Nazareth He
reminds them of the popular proverb, " Physician, heal
thyself," and at the Well of Sychar He declares that
saying true, " One soweth, another reapeth."
There is reason in all things, and the "happy
medium " is one of the most valuable objects one can
strive after in almost every direction. A man who was
continuously firing off adages and axioms would be as
terrible an infliction as the inveterate anecdotist or the
everlasting pun-producer. Shakespeare freely intro-
duces this proverb-lore, and the titles of two of his
plays, "Measure for Measure," and "All's Well that
Ends Well," owe their titles to popular proverbs of the
day. Fuller uses it very largely and effectively in his
writings. Butler's " Hudibras " is overflowing with pro-
verbial allusions, and so, too, are the writings of
Rabelais, Montaigne, Cervantes, and many another who
might be instanced. We shall have occasion, however,
later on to dwell at length on their introduction into
literature.
" Apt alliteration's artful aid " is sometimes invoked.
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Such precepts as "Live and let live," "No silver, no
servant," " Like likes like," " Out of debt, out of danger,"
• " Time tryeth troth," * and " No cross, no crown," and
the Latin, "In vino Veritas," t are the more easily
retained in the memory in consequence.
Another valuable aid to remembrance is found in
rhyme, and many of our most widely current proverbs
owe, no doubt, some at least of their popular acceptance
to the catching jingle that fixes them on the ear. The
following are examples : — " Who goes a borrowing goes
a sorrowing," " Store is no sore," " The counsels that are
given in wine will do no good to thee or thine," " Little
strokes^ fell great oaks," "One drop of ink may make a
million think." Very famllFar examples are these —
i " Little pot, soon hot," " A stitch in time saves nine,"
" Many a little makes a mickle," " No gains without
pains," and " Man proposes, God disposes." How true
to life is it in a censorious world that " When I did well
I heard it never, when I did ill I heard it ever." There
is a touch of sarcasm in the following : — " As a man is
friended so the law is ended," and the old saying, " In
vino Veritas," reappears in this, "What soberness
' conceals, drunkenness reveals." The equally well-
known "Bis dat qui cito dat" is seen in the adage,
"He giveth twice who gives in a trice," "He that by
the plough would thrive, himself must either hold or
drive," for "Well begun is half done," and "By hawk and
by hound small profit is found." There are " No gains
without pains," and it is " Better small fish than empty
dish," " He that leaves certainty and sticks to chance,
when fools pipe he may dance." He will find it true
enough that " Great spenders are bad lenders," and so it
* Nearly equivalent to the delightful saying of classic times, '* Veritas
temporis filia.''
t To some extent preserved in the modern equivalents, *' La verdsui esti
en el vino," ** Dans le vin on dit la v6rit6."
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is a case of " Help, hands, for I have no lands," and " Be
the day never so long, at last it cometh to evensong."
"Easy fool is knave's tool," but "He that mischief
hatcheth mischief catcheth." "He has wit at will
that with an angry heart can hold him still," but far
better yet, " A little house well filled, a little land well
tilled, a little wife well willed," for " A good wife and
health is a man's best wealth."
Naturally, as rhyming proverbs are found to be
valuable as aids to memory in England, they are
equally esteemed elsewhere ; thus in France we have
" L'homme propose et le Dieu dispose," ♦ and " Ami de
table est variable " — " The friend of one's table is of very
little value," — while the Spaniard says, " A malas hadas,
malas bragas" — "111 fortune is shabbily attired" " Asi es
el marido sin hecho, como casa sin techo" — "A husband
without ability is like a house without a roof." " El que
lleva la renta que adobe la venta" — "Let him who
receives the rent repair the inn." Those who take the
profits should also bear the expense. In Latin we
have "Durum et durum not faciunt murum,"f that is
to say, two hard materials do not come well together
in building a wall, we must have some soft yielding
substance to soften their asperities, and to bind them
together. In other words, two headstrong, domineering
people will never get on well alone : there must be the
intervention of some gentler spirit to palliate, to excuse,
to be a peacemaker, and avert friction. " Nocumentum,
documentum " is another illustration. Its significance
is that trouble teaches a man and opens his eyes, the
wise course being to profit by our misfortunes. " Via
crucis, via lucis," and " Qualis vita, finis ita " are other
examples of the rhyming proverb. Portuguese examples
are, " De ora em hora Deus mellora," " Agua molle em
* In modem Portuguese, *' O homem impoem, Deus dispoem."
t In modern Portuguese, ** Duro com duro nao faz bom muro."
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pedra dura tanto dk at^ que fura;" "Quern do alheio
veste na pra^a o despe." Greek, German, Italian and
other proverbs equally conform to this custom of aiding
the memory by a rhyming treatment ; but enough has
been brought forward to indicate the point
Sometimes actual rhyme is absent, but there is never-
theless a certain catch or jingle in the wording that
attracts the attention ; as, for example, " The law of
love is better than the love of law," " Look rather on
the good of evil men than on the evil of good men,"
" It is better to suffer without cause than to have cause
for suffering," and " Take heed when thou seest no need
of taking heed." A Latin example is, " Praemonitus,
praemunitus," being forewarned one is forearmed, and
prepared to defend oneself from a threatened mischief.
Such rhymes, alliterations, and quaint turns of diction
have at all times had a great attraction to children and
to primitive people, and to the great mass of mankind.
That " Peter Piper picked a peck of pepper " is of over-
whelmingly more interest, for instance, in the nursery
than that George Piper should have ground a pound of
coffee. When Caesar reported his success to Rome in
the words " Veni, vidi, vici," there can be little doubt that
by both sender and recipients it was considered that
he had put the matter very neatly, and the kindly
Gregory and his hearers no doubt equally felt that a
decidedly happy remark had been made when he hailed
the fair-haired Saxon children as "Non angli sed Angeli."
A very interesting Greek inscription that reads the
same either backwards or forwards is found in many
English and foreign churches — " Nipson anonemata me
monan opsin." In the Greek lettering the reversal is
complete, but in English characters the **ps" is two
letters instead of one, and when read backwards
becomes "sp." The significance is, "Cleanse thy sins
and not thy face only." It appears ordinarily on the
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25
font, and, less usually, on the sacred vessels, and may
be taken as a fair equivalent of the scriptural precept,
" Rend your heart and not your garments." Examples
will be found in England in Hadleigh Church, Suffolk ;
West Shefford, Berks ; Clipston Church, Northampton ;
Worlingworth Church, Suffolk ; Harlow, in Essex ;
Melton Mowbray, in Leicestershire, and other places.
One notable and interesting example of its introduc-
tion was on the font of the Basilica of the Heavenly
Wisdom at Constantinople, but on the conversion of
this building into a mosque this font was destroyed.
CHAPTER II
Ancient Collections of Proverbs — The Proverbs of Solomon — Ecclesiasticus
—The Work of lyAnvers on Solomon's Proverbs— The Collections of
De Worde, Trevisis, and Lydgate— The "Adagia" of Erasmus—
Tavemar's " Garden of Wisdom" — Heywood's Collection of Proverbs
—Camden's "Remaines"— Davies, the "Scourge of Folly"— The
«Apophthegms"of Lord Bacon— The "Outlandish Proverbs" of G. H.
—Herbert's "Jacula Prudentum "— The Work of Howell and Cot-
grave— The "Gnomologia" of Fuller— The DiflSculties of Proverb-
classification, by Country, by leading Word, by Subject, etc — Ray's
"CoUection of English Proverbs "—The " Pancmiologia " of Walker
—Palmer on Proverbs— The Sayings of " Poor Richard "
The collecting of proverbs appears at almost all periods
to have exercised a great fascination, and even in classic
times we find writers either amassing stores of them or
introducing them freely into their writings. Many of
these sayings arose, there is no doubt, in the leisurely
and sententious East, and from thence found their
way to the widely-spreading colonies of Greece and
Phoenicia, and in due course to Rome, where a still
greater area of diffusion was thrown open for their
dispersal. The Jewish proverbs used by our Saviour, or
by St Paul and the other apostles, can be traced -back
to India, where they were in use centuries before they
found their way through Babylonia and Persia to the
shores of the Mediterranean Sea. Hesiod, Homer,
Pindar, ^Esop, Solon, Aristotle, Phaedrus, and many
other ancient writers introduced them. Menander
made a fine collection of them under the title of
Sententice Monosticha, Pythagoras drew up a collection
26
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of adages for his disciples, and Plato, Theophrastus, and
Chrysippus accumulated stores of them. During the
Roman Empire collectors of antiquarian tastes carried
on the work, Zenobius and Diogenianus, during the
reig^ of Hadrian, being perhaps the most notable and
enthusiastic in this pursuit, and to these, though of
much later date, we may add the names of Gregorius,
Cyprius, and Macarius.
Zenobius made an epitome of the proverbs collected
by two older writers, Tarraeus and Didymus, in number
five hundred and fifty- two, and Diogenianus, living
about the same time, the beginning of the second
century, accumulated seven hundred and seventy-five.
Andrew Schott edited these two lists, plus fourteen
hundred from Suidas and some few others from various
sources at Antwerp in the year 161 2.
The Biblical book known as the Proverbs of Solomon
must certainly not be overlooked, as it is a collection
of quite inestimable worth, having a counsel for every
emergency in the troublous life of man, an encourage-
ment for the weak, a reproof for the froward. To the
conceited man it cries " Be not wise in thine own eyes,"
" Cease from thine own wisdom," while man swollen up
with pride is warned that " Pride goeth before destruc-
tion and an haughty spirit before a fall," so that " When
pride cometh there cometh shame." The value of
friendship is very fully enforced : we are warned that
" A man who hath friends must show himself friendly" in
turn, that we must not resent the honest counsel prof-
fered, for " Faithful are the wounds of a friend," and we
must not too hastily assume that all who profess to be
our friends are really so, for " Every man is a friend to
him that giveth gifts," and only adversity could prove
their real value. The mischief done by the hasty
tongue is repeatedly dwelt upon — "A fool's mouth is
his destruction," "The words of a tale-bearer are as
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wounds," and " Death and life are in the power of the
tongue." The man of business is warned that " Divers
weights are an abomination to the Lord," while the man
who honestly endeavours is encouraged to believe that
his labours shall not be lost to him, for "Whoso keepeth
the fig-tree shall eat the fruit thereof, while the slothful
man " excuses his idleness and apathy, and " saith there
is a lion without" The vindictive man is admonished
that " Whoso diggeth a pit shall fall therein," while the
value of forethought and common-sense is enforced in
the hint, " Surely in vain is the net spread in the sight
of any bird." That we should read those counsels
aright, and not draw false conclusions, we are reminded
that ''The legs of the lame are not equal: so is a parable
in the mouth of fools." *
The priceless gift of wisdom, far in value above rubies,
is dwelt upon and enforced, and its saving strength re-
ferred to time after time. The wisdom enshrined in this
book, if incorporated in the heart and illuminating the
life, would suffice as a complete vade mecum.
The writings of the son of Sirach are worthy of atten-
tive study : they will be found in the apocryphal book
of Ecclesiasticus, and are of very similar character to
the proverbs of Solomon, t That the one writer should
appreciate the work of the other was most natural, and
the wisdom of Solomon is thus eulogised : — " How wise
* "A wise sentence shall be rejected when it cometh out of a fool's
mouth ; for he will not speak it in due season." — Ecclesiasticus xz. 20.
t The following illustrate the nature of these precepts : <* Gold is tried
in the fire, and acceptable men in the furnace of adversity." '* Change
not a friend for any good." *'Of a spark of fire a heap of coals is kindled."
**How agree the kettle and the earthen pot together?" **He that can
rule his tongue shall live without strife." '* As the climbing up a sandy
way is to the aged so is a wife full of words." "The furnace trieth the
potter's vessels." " Better is the life of a poor man in a mean cottage
than delicate fare in another man's house." "He that taketh away his
neighbour's living slayeth him." " Every counsellor extolleth counsel."
" Bountifiilness is as a most fruitful garden."
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wast thou in thy youth, and as a flood filled with under-
standing. Thy soul covered the whole earth, and thou
filledst with dark parables. Thy name went far into the
islands, and for thy peace thou wast beloved. The
countries marvelled at thee for thy songs, and proverbs,
and parables, and interpretations."
^ O Salomon, richest of all richesse,
Fulfilled of sapience and worldly glorie,
Ful worthy ben thy wordes to memorie
To every wight that wit and reason can."
Chaucer, Tke Marckantes Tale,
This book, though spoken of as one and as the work
of Solomon, is really divided into several sections, and
was doubtless the work of different authors and the
product of different times. All was finally collected
into a single book, but there is absolutely no clue as to
how much is the fruit of the wisdom of Solomon and
how much sprang from the experience of others. Two
other contributors are mentioned in the book, Lemuel
and Agur, writers of whom nothing is elsewhere known.
The first nine chapters are chiefly a description and
commendation of wisdom, and these are followed by
others that are largely made up of sentences very loosely
strung together. The proverbs of Agur are much more
artificial in style than the others, while the proverbs of
King Lemuel are in commendation of chastity, temper-
ance and justice, and the praise of the ideal wife.*
In the year 1676 one Henry D'Anvers collated these
proverbs, and arranged them in alphabetical sequence
as an aid to the memory. He entitled it "A Pre-
sentation of the Proverbs of Solomon in English
Dress." At the opening of the book the writer, as in
* Amongst the various commentators on this book the works of Ewald
Berthean, Hitzig, Elster, RosenmuUer, Hirzel, Stuart, Umbreit, and Noyes
may be commended to the reader who would desire detail and analysis.
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the Biblical original, seeks wisdom. His search is at
first fruitless: —
" Fare wel (said I), for yet it don't appear,
That Wisdom (whom I seek for) dwelleth here.
So I departed thence with speedy feet,
When as I found that was not Wisdom's seat."
At last, however, he seeks it in the Bible, and his per-
severance is here rewarded : —
" She's glorious within, enlightened eyes
Do see such beauty which they can't but prize.
She hath one room all hung with Pearls (you'll see).
King Solomon's Proverbs, full of dignity."
This simile of the pearls is to the compiler a very
attractive one, and we find it repeated more than once
in the book, as, for instance : —
" Who searches oft in small things worth descries.
A Pearl is small and yet of a great price :
A Proverb is a Pearl then, rich though small.
But Scriptural most precious is of all.
King Solomon hath left Posterity
A rich and everlasting Legacy :
A cabinet of Pearls, which all may take
Nor shall they yet their fellows poorer make ;
You may perhaps be owner oft, and yet
I also may enjoy the Cabinet
Who will not then this Cab'net prize and keep ?
They're precious Pearls, although they're in a heap.
You'l say, perhap, they're mixt together ; well,
Loke here, each Jewell hath its proper Cell ;
And as your use requires, you may repair
To such a Cell, and have a Jewell there."
This latter part refers to the alphabetical arrangement
under such headings as honour, diligent, slothful. On
the right-hand page all through his book he gives the
same proverbs in Latin.
The definition of proverbs by D'Anvers is a happy
one, "Short, wise sentences, containing much in a
little." He goes on to say that " they are in the Scrip-
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tures sometimes called the Sa>nngs of the Antients
(l Sam. xxiv. 13), because delivered by the wise antient
Fathers or Elders, and therefore called the words of the
wise (Prov. i. 6] ; and sometimes the sayings of old
(2 Sam. XX. 18, Ps. IxxviiL 2), because the approbation
and consent of Ages went to make them the usage of
a Nation, being brought by Custom and Tradition to
every mouth."
D'Anvers carefully calls attention to a point that is
sometimes overlooked, that such figurative language is
sometimes of intent employed to veil rather than to
reveal. Hence sometimes " an obscure and enigmatical
way of speaking" and therefore called "the word of the
wise and their dark sayings," and "dark sayings of
old." And therefore it is said to our Saviour upon His
explanation of some teaching that had not been grasped
by His hearers, "Now speakest thou plainly and speak-
est no proverb," opposing plain speaking to proverbial
and parabolical.
The comprehensiveness of the book of Proverbs is
very happily brought out by D'Anvers when he speaks
of it as " containing not only the true Wisdom (in teach-
ing the fear of the Lord) but all other necessary
learning as well — Ethicks, viz., matters pertaining to
moral virtues, as Prudence, Temperance, Justice. As
Oeconomicks, viz., matters of Domestick and Family-
concerns, relating to the duties of Husbands, Wives,
Parents, Children, Masters and Servants, and Politicks,
also, relating to Government and matters of State."
We may therefore, on recognition of this, find no
difficulty in assenting to his declaration that " Plato,
Aristotle, Cicero and other Heathenish School- Authors
are not to be named with Solomon who so instructs to
every good word and work."
A manuscript preserved in the Library of Trinity
College, Cambridge, is of considerable interest in the
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bibliography of proverbs. It was written in the begin-
ning of the thirteenth century and is a translation into
Latin of some of the more popular sayings of the time.
Thus, for example, the well-known adage, " A bird in
the hand is worth two in the bush," appears as " Plus
valet in manibus avis unica quam dupla silvis." *' When
the dog eats his bone he loves not company," is given
as " Dum canis os rodit, sociari pluribus odit" In an old
French collection we find the equivalent of this, " Chen
en cosyn compagnie ne desire " — " The dog while in the
kitchen desires no fellow."
Another is the interesting collection got together by
Wynkyn de Worde and Peter Trevisis early in the
sixteenth century. The wording is very quaint, but we
are able to recogpiise many proverbs that are still in use,
the difference of their wording often making them still
more attention-compelling. How delightful, for example,
is the variation on the well-worn theme as to the
impropriety and want of delicacy in looking in a gift-
horse's mouth, " A gyuen hors may not be loked in the
tethe." The fate that may attend unasked-for offers
of assistance is graphically brought before us in the
rendering, " Profred seruyce stynketh." The difference
in result between the idle aimless wish and the strenuous
endeavour is excellently brought home to us in
" Wysshers and wolders ben smal housholders." "Be ye
dayes neuer so long at ye last cometh euensonge," when
"the ploughman homeward plods his weary way." It is
very refreshing, too, to meet another old friend, " Thou
hyttest the nayle on the heed," though in these latter
days we make a point of its being " the right nail." The
collection is entitled " Vulgaria Stambrigi."
The " Prourbes of Lydgate," a black letter-treatise of
about the same date as the book just referred to, may
also be consulted. Many of the proverbs, though some
are good, appear to have now passed out of use. We
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have for instance a somewhat selfish motto, " Payne thee
not eche croked to redresse," a counsel not to worry over
other people's troubles. "Galle under suger hathe
double bytternesse," is expressive and suggestive. It
tells of lost friendship, of confidence treacherously be-
trayed, of bright hopes dashed. The advice to look at
home and to mind primarily one's own business is
brought out in the line, " Loke in thy mirrour and
deme none other wyghts." There is, as will be noted in
the examples we have given, a certain tone of cynicism
and selfishness that is not a pleasant feature and which
we would fain hope is at least one reason for many of
them having gone out of service.
Michael Apostolius of Byzantium in the middle of the
fifteenth century compiled a book of ancient proverbs,
on which he made comments and gave explanations
where he deemed it needful. The collection contained
2027 examples. The man, however, who in these
earlier days did most in this direction was Erasmus, and
his labours supplied for subsequent writers a mass of
very valuable material, for the work was one of gigantic
toil. Erasmus largely contributed in many ways to
the advancement of learning in Europe. The first
edition of his book, the " Adagia," was published in
Paris in the year 1 500. The work was at once greeted
with acclamation, and fresh editions were repeatedly
called for. On each occasion Erasmus made additions,
until at length the book contained over 4000 examples.
These were mostly the proverbs to be found in the early
Greek and Roman writers. The book is a monument of
perseverance and erudition ; it still remains unrivalled,
and it became on its issue the medium through which
the knowledge of many proverbs was disseminated
throughout Europe: the similarity of many of the
proverbs of England, Holland, Grermany, Italy, Spain,
was at least in some measure owing to the fact that the
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Latin treatise of Erasmus supplied an abundant store for
general appropriation.
Erasmus was one of the many who sought to reform
the Church. The dissolute were denounced whatever
their rank, and abuses were fulminated against with
unsparing zeal, so that the people were prepared for
some great change either of mending or ending. Hence
it has been said that Erasmus laid the egg of the
Reformation and Luther hatched it. Great enmity was
aroused, and the divines who had had cause to wince,
endeavoured to persuade the Pope, Leo X., to have the
" Adagia " condemned. The morals and comments
added to some of the proverbs told very heavily against
the clergy, and they very naturally did not take kindly
to the issue of such a book. The ecclesiastics, however,
in session at the Council of Trent, before whom the
matter was brought, liberally decided that the book was
of too great value to be wholly suppressed, so they con-
tented themselves with ordering its strict revision,
everything which they deemed offensive to the papal
sway and the influence of the priesthood being under
their ban. This garbled version was published in
Florence in the year 1575, the name of the author being
suppressed, but the book had ere this passed through so
many editions and had been scattered so far and wide
over Europe that any action of this kind came alto-
gether too late to be of any efficacy.
Tavemer, an Englishman, issued a book of proverbs,
axioms, and epigrams in the year 1539. It is in black-
letter, and has avowedly been largely constructed " with
newe addicions" out of the monumental work of Erasmus.
1 1 is " the Garden of Wysdome, conteyning pleasant floures,
that is to saye, propre and quycke sayinges of Princes,
Phylosphers, and other sortes of men, Drawen forth of
good Authours by Rycharde Tauerner." His comments
on the various adages are often very shrewd. " Lawes,"
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he says, " be lyke spyders webbes, wherein the weakest
and most feble beastes be catched and stycke faste,
but the strongest breake out. So lawes do bynde the
poore and meane persons but the rich cobbes escape
vnpunyshed " ; and again, " An angrye bodye dothe no-
thynge dyfTer from a mad man, but in the tariannce
of tyme, sygnifyeng that wrathe is a short frensye.**
Many of his " quycke sayinges " * are very happy, thus,
" Demanded what is a frend, Zeno answered an other I,
sygnifyeng that an entyer and hartye frende no lesse
loveth his frende then hymselfe." We read, too, with
interest, of " a certayne person which rose erly in the
mornynge and found his hose knawen and eaten of the
rattes, and being troubled wyth this syght, thynkyng
it a prognosticatio (a toke of some misfortune) he
Cometh to Cato to aske his cousaile and to know of
hym what euyl thys thyng portended. Cato maketh
hym thys answere, Certes my frend it is no mostrouse
syght to se rattes eat mens hose, but yf thy hose had
eaten the rattes that had been a monstrouse syght"
This answer was so entirely to the point that one
would fain hope that the man of the knawen hose
went on his way rejoicing that he knew the worst
Books of like nature with that of Taverner will be
found in the works of Florio — one of these is entitled
" Merie proverbes, Wittie Sentences and golden
Sayings," and another is the " Garden of Recreation."
This latter contains some six thousand Italian
proverbs. They doubtless passed through divers
editions; the copies that came under our own notice
were dated 1578 and 1591 respectively.
A valuable sixteenth century collection of proverbs
* Quick is here used in its original sense of having life. These therefore
were lively sayings. In the Apostle's creed the quick and the dead are
referred to, and a quick set hedge is one of growing plants as contrasted
with a mere fencing or line of palings.
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may be found in a rhyming treatise written by John
Heywood. The first edition that we have seen is a
black-letter quarto of the year 1547. It is entitled
"A Dialogue, contayning in effect the number of
al the Proverbs, in the English tongue, compact in
a matter concerning two Marriages." In an issue in
1598 that has come under our notice the title is,
"A dialogue wherein are pleasantlie contrived the
number of all the effectuall proverbs in our English
tongue, compact in a matter concerning two marriages.
Together with three hundred epigrams upon three
hundred proverbs." Heywood always refers to the
proverbs as already old sayings and praises them,
though he at times dressed up as proverbs some of his
own ideas, and altered others, depriving them of some-
what of their rugged directness. He says of them :
" Our common, plaine, pithie proverbes olde
Some sense of some of whiche beying bare and rude.
Yet to fine and fruitfiill effect they allude.
And their sentences include so large a reache
That almost in all thinges good lessons they teache.
This write I not to teach but to touch : for why ?
Men know this as well or better than I.
But this and that rest : I write for this,
Remembering and considering what the pith is.
That by remembering of these, Proverbs may grow."
This poem on marriage may make an excellent
vehicle for the introduction of these old English say-
ings, but as a poem it is in itself most cheerless and
disagreeable, the view taken being a most unfavourable
one. One gets no notion of anything like conjugal
felicity being possible, the rhymes being a snarl and
a wrangle all through.
John Heywood was a friend of Sir Thomas More.
His book at once sprang into popularity, and was ten
times reprinted during the sixteenth century. He also
wrote the " Mery playe betwene the Pardoner and the
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Frere, the Curate and Neybour Pratte." The whole
tone of this is as hostile to the clergy as the other to
Hymen. Another of his productions was the " Play of
the Wether," where a " gentylman, wynde-miller, mar-
chaunt, launder/' and others all fall foul of the weather,
and at last appeal to Jupiter. The gentleman, for
instance, "wants no wynde to blow for hurt in hys
huntynge," while "she that lyveth by laundry must
have wether hot and clere her clothys to dry." He
wrote several other plays and other things.
The following extracts from Heywood give an
illustration of his rhyming treatment : —
" The cat would eat fish and would not wet her feete.
They must hunger in frost that will not worke in heate.
And he that will thrive must aske leave of his wife,
But your wife will give none, by you and her life."
" Haste must provoke
When the pigge is proffered to hold up the poke.
When the sun shineth make hay : which is to say
Take time when time com'th, lest time steale away.
And one good lesson to this purpose I pike
From the smith's forge, when th* iron is hot, strike."
The reasons may be sound enough, but the rhymes
are deplorable. Thus " pike " is no doubt an example
of " poetic license," as pick, the word he really wants,
would not rhyme with strike 1
" From suspicion to knowledge of yll, for sothe,
Coulde make ye dooe but as the flounder dothe —
Leape out of the frying-pan into the fyre,
And chaunge from yl peyn to wurs is smal hyre."
For badness of rhyme it would be hard to surpass
this —
' But pryde she sheweth none, her looke reason alloweth.
She lookth as butter would not melt in her mouth."
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That "newe broom swepth cleene" is the text for
another atrociously bad rhyme. It limps as follows : —
'* But since all thing is the worse of the wearing
Decay of cleene sweeping folke had in fearing."
In the year 1586 appeared the first edition of
Camden's Britannia. The book was a very popuUr
one, and repeatedly issued. The author accumulated a
vast store of information, more than he found himself
able to utilise in his book, the result being yet another
book, the " Remaines." This, like the first, was received
with much favour. The title was " Remaines concern-
ing Britaine; but especially England and the In-
habitants thereof, their Languages, Names, Surnames,
Allusions, Anagrams, Armories, Monies, Impresses,
Apparell, Artillarie, Wise Speeches, Prouerbs, Posies,
Epitaphs." William Camden was Clarenceaux, King
of Armes, sumamed " the Learned " by some of his
contemporaries, and his heraldic and archaeological
tastes are clearly seen in his choice of subjects when
dealing with so vast a theme as the thousand and one
interests that divers Englishmen would look for in such
a book ; the sportsman, the botanist, the merchant, for
example, each having their special interests quite
outside those that seemed to Camden so specially
characteristic and essential to a right comprehension
of England.
The book is a very interesting one, and full of
valuable matter, but it is with one section alone, that
on proverbs, that we now deal. His reason for their
insertion is as follows : — " Where as proverbs are con-
cise, witty, and wise Speeches grounded upon long
experience, containing for the most part good caveats,
and therefore profitable and delightfull: I thought it
not unfit to set down here, alphabetically, some of the
selectest and most usuall amongst us, as being worthy
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to have place amongst the wise Speeches." In the book
they immediately succeed these wise speeches.
We give a selection from these proverbs, held to be
worthy of such commendation. " An ynche in a miss
is as good as an ell." " Looke not to hie least a chip
fall in thine eie." " It is euill waking of a sleeping
dogge." " Many stumble at a strawe and leape over
a blocke." " Of little medling commeth great ease."
" Poore and proud, fy, fy." " Saue a thiefe fro the
gallowes and heele cut your throat" " So long goes
the pot to the water that at length it comes home
broken." " Tread a worme on the taile and it must
tume againe." "Where be no receauers there be no
theeues."* "When the skye falleth we shall have
larkes."
Though the exigencies of space prevent anything like
individual comment, we trust that our readers will not
hurry through these as a mere list to be got through.
Each is excellent, and well worthy of quiet thinking
over ; while a second theme of interest may, we think,
often be discovered in the recognition of proverbs well
known to us in a somewhat different wording, as, for
instance, Camden's version — "A man may well bring
a horse to the water, but he cannot make him drinke
without he will," and " An inche in a misse is as good
as an ell," — proverbs in common use still, but given
here with a certain quaintness of variation that has a
charm.
Other happy utterances in the Camden collection
are : " A friend is not so soon gotten as lost" t "A
leg of a lark is better than the body of a kyte." " A
man far from good is near to harm." " A man may
* *' It is a comon sayinge, ware there is no ryceyver there shoulde be no
thefe." " A Christian exhortation unto customable swearers/' 1575.
t A more modem utterance shrewdly says, " There b a scarcity of friend-
ship, but none of friends."
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buy golde too deare." " One piece of a kid is worth
two of a cat." " It is a proud horse that will not bear
his own provender." " As good sit still as rise up and
fall." " Blind men should judge no colours." " He
that will have a hare for breakfast must hunt over-
night" " It is hard to teach an old dog tricks." " It
is not good to have an oare in every man's boat."
" One ill weede marreth a whole pot of pottage."
This latter is in an especial degree, in its literal
wording, a proverb of the past, though its inner sig-
nificance will hold good till the end of time. . It
clearly refers to a time when the herbs of the field
were utilised, and vegetable gardens did not supply
the needful requisites for the table. In these present
days well-ordered ranks of beans, onions, lettuce, and
other crops are to hand, and a mistake is scarcely
possible, but in these earlier days, when the wild
growths of the hedgerow were utilised, one can
readily see that a little ignorance in the gathering
might contribute an ingredient that would mar all — a
touch of hemlock, for instance, in lieu of parsley.
It is strikingly true, too, that as on the one hand a
soft answer tumeth away wrath, so, on the contrary,
" one ill worde asketh another," and probably does not
ask in vain. It is equally true in one's experience of
life that not uncommonly " One beateth the bush and
another catcheth the birds." The necessity of caution
in permitting innovations is well brought out in, " Once
a use then ever a custom " ; and the fact that there is
more skill in even the simplest art than the onlooker
quite realises is very effectively brought out in, " There
is craft in daubing." The motto of the Order of the
Garter has prepared us for "Shame take him that
shame thinketh." Other happy renderings in the
collection under consideration are, " Such an one hath
a good wit if a wise man had the keeping of it." " No
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penny, no paternoster." " The beggar may sing before
the thiefe," for, having no property to lose, the high-
wayman or the burglar have no terrors for him. " Three
may keepe counsell if two be away." " Who medleth
in all things may go shoe the gostlings." We have by
no means exhausted the list The only one amongst
the whole collection that appears unworthy of a place
is "Struggle not against the streame." This appears
to point to a cowardly surrender, a floating easily down
when a stout resistance should be made. A policy of
** Do as the others do ; ask no questions ; raise no
difficulties; make no protest; keep quiet, or shout with
the majority ; we are no worse than other people." We
cannot recall the name of any man or woman whose
life shines bright in history whose principles were built
up exactly on these lines.
John Davies, a native of Hereford, in the year 161 1
or thereabouts wrote a book which he called the
" Scourge of Folly." The work is now a scarce one,
and the world is no great loser in consequence. He
was a versifier at once prolific and drearily dull. The
first edition we have not seen, but that of 1620 is en-
titled, "The Scourge of Folly, consisting of satyricall
Epigrams and others in honour of many noble Persons
and worthy Friends, together with a pleasant (though
discordant) Descant upon most English Proverbs and
others." The epigrams are, most of them, of a most
offensive character. The references to the names of the
persons satirised carry now no meaning, but at the time
they were written they must have been of the most
grossly personal character. " Against Formias brauery
and unceessant prating," "against Cleophus, the Time
observer," "against faint-hearted bragging Bomelio,"
" against wordy Classus," are examples of the headings,
and the lines that in each case are appended are grossly
insolent There are two hundred and ninety-two of
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these scoundrelisms. His proverbs are four hundred
and nineteen in number, and he adds to each a rhyming
comment of his own. They are mostly very feeble, and
many of them much too gross for quotation.
'* Fast binde, fast finde, but Rufiis, bound as fast
As bonds could do, to pay a debt he ought,
Stole quite away, ere quite the day was past,
And nowhere can be found, though he be sought."
He lengthens and shortens the proverbs as rhythmical
exigencies call for, and his great idea throughout seems
to be to show that these old proverbs were quite absurd
and valueless, and that John Da vies was the real fount
of wisdom.
We append a few of these couplets, the first line
"being a proverb and the second the comment of Davies
upon it. Anything more feeble and pointless than
the latter could scarcely be imagined.
" A Mouse may in time bite in two a cable —
That may she at once if she be able.**
" No more can we have of the fox but his skin ;
Yes, Bones to make dice, which now is no sin."
" Three may keep counsell if two be away.
And so may all three if nothing they say."
" A dead Bee will make no Hony,
But from dead Bees it's had for money."
" 111 newes are commonly true.
Not if a Iyer made them new."
" The Cat would eat fish but for wetting her feete.
To eat ere she wash is fowle and unswecte."
" Throw no Guift at the Giver againe ;
Yes : if he give me a blow He thanke him with twaine."
" A scabbed Sheepe will marre a whole flocke,
Faith, then the Shepherd's a Knave or a Block."
" Who is worse Shood than the Shoomaker's wife ?
Faith, Geese, that never wore Shoes in their life."
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About this time also was published a book called
" The Crossing of Proverbs." The copy before us as
we write is, we see, dated 1616. It is on the same lines
as the preceding book, except that it is not in rhymes.
" It is far to the bottom of the sea," says the old proverb,
" Not so," says the author, " 'tis but a stone's cast." We
will spare our readers any further extracts. To give
several extracts from the " Scourge of Folly " and then
to merely add that "The Crossing of Proverbs " is just
such another book, will give a quite sufficient measure
of justice to both.
In the year 1625 the " Apothegms new and old " of
Lord Bacon made their appearance. The study was a
favourite one with him, and he often in his writings and
discourses made a very judicious use of the material he
had collected. He affirms that "Apothegms are not
only for delight and ornament but for business also and
civil use," for " they are, according to Cicero, mucrones
verborum, pointed speeches." He also calls them
Salinas, salt pits from whence one can draw the salt of
discourse. " By their sharp edge they penetrate the knots
of business, and serve to be interlaced in continued speech
or recited upon occasion by themselves." He regrets
greatly that Caesar's book was lost. " I imagine these
apothegms were collected with judgment and care ;
for as his history, and those few letters of his which
we have and those apothegms which were his own
excel all others so I suppose would his collection of
them have done. As for those which are collected by
other writers either I have no taste in such matters, or
else their choice has not been happy." Elsewhere he
declares that the modern writers on the subject
" draw much of the dregs."
With all possible respect to the erudition of Bacon
we find his book a somewhat heavy one, the subject
appearing to call for a lightness and delicacy of touch
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that he would very possibly have considered beneath the
dignity of literature. If we turn, for instance, to his
comments on friendship, we are referred to verse 14 of
tt;V^'A «3 Ps^Jn^ xxvii. We read, " He that blesseth his friend
with a loud voice, rising early in the morning, it shall
be counted a curse to him,'* and this calls forth
the following comment : " Moderate and seasonable
praises uttered upon occasion, conduce much to men's
fame and fortune ; but praises immoderate, noisy, and
importunately poured out, profit nothing : nay rather,
do a good deal of hurt. First, they manifestly betray
themselves to proceed either from excess of love and
kindness, or that they are designed and affected, so that
they may rather ingratiate themselves with the person
commended by false encomiums rather than set him off
by just and deserved eulogisms. Secondly, sparing and
modest praises commonly invite such as are present to
add something of their own to the commendation ; on
^the contrary, profuse and immoderate ones detract and
take away something. Thirdly, which is the principal
point, too much magnifying a man stirs up envy ; since
all immoderate praises seem to tend to the reproach
of others, who are no less deserving." This is quite
Baconian, almost Johnsonian, in its weighty precision
and formal enunciation, but a thousand proverbs thus
handed over to the commentator would be a ponderous
tome that few would dare to open, and the esprit and
quaintness of these familiar utterances would be utterly
lost, buried, in such a flow of exposition.
In the year 1640 was published a volume entitled,
" Outlandish Proverbs." The name of the author was
not given, " selected by Mr G. H." being all the infor-
mation vouchsafed. As these proverbs were those in
common use, the title strikes one as being particularly
inappropriate. The collection was a somewhat meagre
one. All gross sayings were omitted, or softened down.
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That anything objectionable should be left out seems
to our present ideas so entirely a matter of course that
the mention of the fact appears uncalled for, neverthe-
less this omission differentiated the labours of Mr G. H.
from much that had gone before. The softening down
process is perhaps not quite so justifiable. A proverb,
like a hymn, should not be edited. All that seems fair
and justifiable is to accept it as it stands or else refuse
it admission.
Some considerable time after the appearance of this
book on "Outlandish Proverbs" a second edition ap-
peared, but this time the title was " Jacula Prudentum,
or outlandish proverbs, sentences, etc.," and the author-
ship was no longer veiled by mere letters but stands
revealed — " selected by Mr George Herbert, Late Orator
of the University of Cambridge." This second issue
contains a great many more proverbs than the first,
and the title, Jacula Prudentum, " javelins of the wise,"
indicates the value placed by Herbert upon these
popular sayings.
The mystery of the anonymous publication, like that
of the Waverley novels, and other cognate cases, ex-
cited some little public interest, one writer of the day
advances we see the somewhat startling thesis, " It
is not a thing that, hastily regarded, one would have
expected from Herbert, hence the genuineness is the
more probable ! " This is a very sweeping and far-
reaching argument, that because a thing appears well-
nigh impossible there is much to be said in favour of
its probability. It seems so unlikely that Bala lake will
ever flood out Westminster that all prudent persons resi-
dent there will at once provide themselves with life-belts.
A well-known proverb warns us against letting the
cat out of the bag, and this seems to have been just what
Herbert very nearly did, another book of his, of more
devotional type, " A priest to the Temple," supplying to
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critical eyes a clue. In it he says that "the Country
Parson doth bear in mind in the morning the outlandish
proverb that prayers and provender never hinder a
journey." Also in one of his letters that he wrote to
his brother he added, " Take this rule, and it is an out-
landish one, which I commend to you now as being a
father, * The best bred child hath the best portion/ " The
introduction of the title of the book and the liking for
the use of proverbs were held strong proofs in favour of
his being the Mr G. H. who was being sought for. As
we are told that nothing succeeds like success, we are
invited to admire the sapience of the mystery-hunter,
but there really seems no reason why, the title of the
book being in men's minds, some other person might
not have thus referred to it and introduced into his book
or letters proverbs that this book had brought before him
and that had attracted his notice.
Most of the proverbs in the Jacula Prudentum are
admirably chosen, and as many of them are now passing
away from the minds of men we make no apology for
quoting freely from the book.
The re-appearance of old proverbs in a slightly altered
setting than that we are now familiar with, is a point of
interest in these old collections that we have already
referred to, but each author we consult gives us anew
this pleasure. How refreshing, for instance, is Herbert's
version, " Whose house is of glasse must not throw stones
at another," or this, " You may bring a horse to the river,
but he will drinke when and what he pleaseth," or this,
yet again, " A feather in hand is better than a bird in
the ayre." A proverb that is often used at the present
time amongst us in its French dress is found here as "It
is a poore sport that's not worth the candle."
How true and how pithily put are these, " He that
studies his content wants it." " Not a long day but a good
heart rids worke." " Hearken to Reason and shee will bee
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heard." " He that stales does the businesse." " Prosperity
lets go the bridle." " Still fisheth he that catches one."
"Give a clowne your finger and he will take your
hand." ♦ And this one like unto it, " Let an ill man lie
in the strawe, and he looks to bee thy heire." " The back-
dore robs the house." " One sword keeps another in the
sheath." An excellent motto this last The Peace
Society may have its uses, but there is no doubt that
this side the millennium efficient army corps and mag-
nificent navies supply yet more cogent arguments. " Si
vis pacem parn bellum."
How sound again the teaching, " He is not poor that
hath little, but he that desireth much." " God provides
for him that trusteth." " A cheerful look makes a dish a
feast" " Sometimes the best gain is to lose." " He that
sows trusts in God." " Divine ashes are better than
earthlie meale."
How excellent the prudence that gives value to the
following : " Send a wise man on an errand and say
nothing unto him." "Although it rain cast not away thy
watering-pot" " Who hath no more breade than nede
must not keepe a dog." " The best remedy against an ill
man is much ground between." " Love your neighbour,
yet pull not down your hedge." " Send not a catt for
lard." It is well, too, to remember that " Courtesie on
one side only lasts not long," that a commensurate price
has to be paid for everything, and so " a lion's skin
is never cheape," that one's position must be frankly
accepted and its duties adequately met, for "he that
serves must serve," that gentle measures will often
succeed better than rough ones, for " he that will
take the bird must not skare it" It is at once a
comfort and a warning that " none is a foole alwaies,
everyone sometimes," and that the crafty at last over-
* Somewhat similar proverbs to this are, ** If you play with boys you
must take boy's play," and if you *' play ¥rith a fool at home he will play
with you abroad."
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reach themselves and in the end Nemesis awaits them.
" At length the fox is brought to the furrier," and the
farmyard knows him no more.
What an excellent lesson against jumping to con-
clusions is seen in this, " Stay till the lame messenger
come, if you will know the truth of the thing," against con-
cluding too hastily that the work we are engaged upon is
finished, for "One flower does not make a garland."
The evil wrought by the tongue is a constant and peren-
nial theme of the moralist, and the makers of proverbs
are in complete accord, " The tongue talks at the head's
cost." " More have repented speech than silence." Those
who suffer at the hands, or rather the tongues, of others
may learn how effectually to avenge themselves, for " Par-
don and pleasantnesse are great revengers of slanders,"
and the experiment is one that is well worth trial. In any
case, " Neither prayse nor disprayse thyself : thy actions
serve the turne." " The effect speakes, the tongue need
not." How full of wisdom is this final cluster of pearls,
this sheaf of javelins : " A gift much expected is paid,
not given." "Pleasing ware is half sould." " The hole calls
the thief" — a warning against putting temptation in the
way and thereby causing a brother to offend. The man
who has gone far on the path of reformation is not safe
so long as any relic of the past yet clings round his heart,
for " The horse that draws after him his halter has not
altogether escaped." " Whither shall the oxe goe where
he shall not labour ? " How can one hope to evade the
responsibilities of his position ? The proverb is an in-
teresting reminder of the custom once common enough,
and which we ourselves have seen in Sussex' and Wilt-
shire, on the Heavy down-lands, of ploughing with a yoke
of oxen. There is quaint humour in this, " The chicken
is the countrey's, but the citie eateth it" " If the old
dog barke he gives counsell." " A married man turns
his staffe into a stake," his wandering days are over.
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A not unpleasant cynicism gives point to the asser-
tion that " Nothing dries sooner than a teare," while it is
equally one's experience of life that " When the tree is
fallen all goe with their hatchet/' and that " Men speak
of the fair as things went with them there." It is a
rather touching assertion that ** The reasons of the poor
weigh not," and it is too true. Their poverty makes the
poor despised and their words unheeded by many who,
richer in this world's goods, treat with contempt the
struggling and the unsuccessful. Poverty is not a crime:
it may be a badge of shame if the result of vice, or it
may be a badge of honour where a man has scorned to
stoop to shuffling dishonesties that may have enriched
some who presume to despise him.
In 1659 James Howell issued a series of proverbs,
and some of these were incorporated in Randle Cot-
grave's dictionary in the following year. This latter
has been deemed " that most amusing of all dictionary
makers." He quotes many French proverbs, and then
gives English adages that more or less match them.
Thus under faim he gives " A la faim il n'y a point de
mauvais pain," which, he explains, means that " To him
who is hungry any bread seems good " — not quite a suf-
ficiently literal translation, we should have thought, for a
dictionary-maker — and adds, "We say hungrie dogs love
durtie pudding." * Howell's proverbs were, as a whole,
not very judiciously selected, and he had the presump-
tion and bad taste to spin out of his own imagination a
series of what he called " New Sayings which may serve
for Proverbs for posterity." These were very poor, and
posterity has declined to have anything to do with them.
In this same year, 1659, a small volume of adage^,
compiled by N. R. (Nathaniel Richards), appeared.
* " The messenger (one of those dogs who are not too scornful to eat
dirty puddings) caught in his hand the guinea which Hector chucked at
his fiwc."— " the Antiquary."
D
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They are all in English, but are mostly of foreign
origin, and are of no great interest or value.
A much more notable book is the "Gnomologia:
Adagies and proverbs; wise sentences and witty sayings,
ancient and modern, foreign and British, collected by
Thomas Fuller, M.D." As the compiler gives over six
thousand proverbs, we may regard the book as a fairly
adequate one. He gives in it no indication of the
sources from whence the adages are derived, adds no
explanatory notes, and works on no system. This is
equivalent to writing a natural history and leading off
with panther and earwig. It is, as a matter of fact,
very difficult to classify a collection of such discon-
nected units as proverbs. If we attempt to do it by
countries we may soon find that it is in most cases
quite impossible to guess where the adage originated,
and the general borrowing that has been going on for
centuries makes anything like a local claim to exclusive
possession impossible. It would be quite easy to write
out a list of fifty proverbs, illustrating them exclusively
by passages from Cervantes and other Spanish writers,
and, on the strength of this, claiming them as Spanish,
but it would be equally easy afterwards for Dane,
Russian, and German, Englishman, Italian, and Greek
to come and each claim so many of these items that
the speedy outcome would be an almost absolute dis-
appearance from our list of anything purely Iberian.
There is a good deal to be said in favour of the
alphabetical arrangement, but only on condition that
the leading word of the adage be taken. It is a mere
absurdity to take the first word. How can we reason-
ably put under letter A, "A rolling stone gathers no
moss"? It may be objected that we are putting an
extreme case, but extreme cases have to be considered
as much as any others. In one book before us we find
that the old author in scores of instances produces
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results as grotesquely inadequate. Under the letter D,
for instance, we find, "Do not spur a willing horse,"
though surely everyone, with the exception of the com-
piler of the list, would at once realise that the pith of
the adage does not in any way rest in " do." We may
at once'see this if we take the proverb in another of its
popular forms, " Spur not a willing horse."
The classification of these old saws according to their
subject, such as friendship, pride, industry, and the like,
is sometimes adopted, and it has many advantages ; but
we very soon find that we come to something that de-
dines to be thus pigeon-holed. If we take the Russian
proverb, for instance, "The burden is light on the
shoulders of another," how shall we classify it? It
will clearly not come under "friendship," and it is
equally not at home in the section on "industry."
While some adages decline to fit into any section,
others we find* might with almost equal appropriate-
ness find a home under three or four headings.
Fuller defines a proverb as "much matter decocted
into a few words," and a very good definition it is. He
declares that " six essentials are necessary for the com-
pleating of a perfect Proverb. Namely that it be —
1. Short
2. Playne
3. Common
4. Figurative
5. Antient
6. True
Otherwise it is not
a proverb at all
but a
1. Oration
2. Riddle
3. Secret
4. Sentence
5. Upstart
6. Libel."
As he was evidently a little nervous that some persons
might Ithink the subject a little beneath the dignity of
Dr Fuller, he allows an imaginary objector to have
his fling, and then proceeds to demolish him. The
" objection " raised by this anonymous disciple of Mrs
Grundy is that " it is more proper for a person of your
profession to imploy himself in reading of, and com-
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meriting on, the Proverbs of Solomon, to know wisdome
and instruction, to perceive words of understanding.
Whereas you are now busied in what may be pleasant,
not profitable, yet what may inform the fleshlie not
edifie the inward man." As many proverbs do un-
doubtedly build up the inner man this judgment is
wanting in charity, and as a student ourselves in the
subject we are gratified to find that the doctor declines
to accept this vote of censure, and is able to make out
a good case for himself His reply is somewhat longer
than a quotation permits, and one must give all or none.
In his preface, also, he alludes to " snarling persons '*
who have deprecated his labours. This preface of his
is distinctly interesting.
" All of us," he writes therein, " forget more than we
remember, and therefore it hath been my constant
Custom to note down and record whatever I thought of
myself, or received from Men or Books worth preserv-
ing. Amongst other things I wrote out Apothegms,
Maxims, Proverbs, acute Expressions, vulgar Sayings,
etc., and having at length collected more than ever any
Englishman has before me I have ventured to send
them forth to try their Fortune among the People.
In ancient Times, before methodical Learning had got
Footing in the Nations and instructive Treatises were
written, the Observations that were from Experience
were us'd to be gather'd and sum'd up into brief and
comprehensive Sentences, which being so contriv'd as
to have something remarkable in their Expressions
might be easily remembered and brought into Use on
Occasions. They are call'd Adagies or Maxims.
" Also the Men of Business and the common People,
that they might in their Affairs and Conversation signify
and communicate this Sense and Meaning in short,
with Smartness and with Pleasantness fell into cus-
tomary little Forms of Words and trite Speeches, which
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are call'd Proverbs and common Sayings. The former
of these are from Judgment, and are us'd by Men of
Understanding and Seriousness ; the other are from
Wit, and are accommodate to the Vulgar and Men of
Mirth. I conceive it is not needful for me accurately
to determine which are to be call'd Adagies and Pro-
verbs ; nor nicely to distinguish the one from the other.
All that I here take upon me to do is only to throw
together a vast confus'd heap of unsorted Things, old
and new, which you may pick over and make use of,
According to your Judgment and Pleasure. Many of
these are only plain bare Expressions, to be taken
literally in their proper Meaning : others have some-
thing of the Obscure and Surprize, which, as soon as
understood, renders them pretty and notable.
"It is a matter of no small Pains and Diligence
(whatever lazy, snarling Persons may think) to pick up
so many independent Particulars as I have done. And
it is no trifling or useless thing neither : it being what
many of the most learned and wisest Men of the World
have in all Ages employed themselves upon. The Son
of Syrac will be held in everlasting Remembrance for
his Ecclesiasticus, but, above all, that most glorious
of Kings and wisest of Men, Solomon, wrote by Divine
Appointment and Inspiration, Proverbs, Precepts and
Counsels.
" No man ought to despise, ridicule, or any ways dis-
courage the Diligence and Kindness of those that take
Pains to bring home to others without Price those
things of Profit and Pleasure. I picked up these Sen-
tences and Sayings at several times, according as they
casually occurred, and most of them so long ago that
I cannot remember the Particulars : and am now (by
reason of great Age and ill Sight) utterly unable to
review them ; otherwise I would have struck out all
such as are not fit for the Company, or are indecent
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to be spoke in the Presence of wise, grave, virtuous,
modest, well-bred people." These closing words one
can hardly accept. Years before age and failing sight
had come these various items had been growing bit by
bit, and the striking-out process might well have been
going on at the same time as the collecting.
"Our excellent Mr Ray," as a contemporary writer
terms him, was another gjreat collector of proverbs, and
he, too, made a book of them. The first edition of this
work appeared in 1670, and a second in 1678. The
first was altogether too gross, so that the second edition
gave an opportunity, which was embraced, for some
little amendment. This is beyond all doubt the
coarsest set of proverbs that has come under our
notice.
Ray was a Master of Arts and a Fellow of the Royal
Society. The title of his book is as follows: — "A
Collection of English Proverbs Digested into a con-
venient Method for the speedy finding any one upon
occasion : with short Annotations. Wherunto are added
Local Proverbs with their Explications, old Proverbial
Rhythemes, Less known or Exotick Proverbial Sen-
tences and Scottish Proverbs." The second edition
was enlarged by the addition of several hundred more
English Proverbs, and by an appendix of Hebrew say-
ings. The annotations of Ray on various proverbs are
often very feeble. Thus to the adage, or saw, or what-
ever it may be, " I would not trust him though he were
my brother," he adds to a thing sufficiently tame in
itself the comment, "This is only a physiognomical
observation." The truth is, our learned author, or com-
piler, seems to have heaped together all the old " saws,"
whether wise or not, and all the "modem instances"
that came in his way, and to have strung at random
the precious gems in company with the worthless
beads.
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His "convenient method" was the alphabetical one,
based on the leading word of the saying. Thus, under
A, for example, we get " Adversity makes a man wise,
not rich," " There is no Alchemy like saving," " He that
is Angry is seldom at ease," " For that thou canst do
thyself rely not on Another," " Make a slow Answer to
a hasty question," " The best Armour is to keep out of
gun-shot"
Robert Codrington added yet another to the pile of
proverb lore in his "Collection of many Select and
Excellent Proverbs out of Several Languages." These
he declared to be " most useful in all Discourses and for
the Government of Life." He gives no preface or any
kind of introductory matter, but begins at once with
number one, and goes straight on till he gets to fourteen
hundred and sixty-five. His adage, " You may not lose
your friend to keep your jest," is a curious variant on
the familiar present-day assertion that some men would
rather lose a friend than a joke. His selection is on the
whole a very good one. Such sayings as, "A young
man old maketh an old man young," "A drunkard is
not master either of his soul or his body," and " Curses
prove choke-pears to those that plant them," are thought-
compelling, and many such may be encountered.
A book of somewhat different character is the
" Parcemiologia Anglo - Latina " of William Walker,
B.D. The sub-title was "English and Latin proverbs
and proverbial sentences and sayings matched together
in a collection of them made out of Plautus, Petronius,
Terentius, Horatius, and other authors." The particular
copy that came under our notice bore the date of 1676.
He concludes his short preface by the following depre-
catory passage: "What will be the advantage and
benefit hereof to the Commonwealth of learning I leave
to others to judge and try, as not willing to show the
Sun by the light of a Candle. And so, that I may not
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set up a great Gate before a little House I commit the
Work to You, and You to God, and rest your humble
Drudge, W. W."
As the author has himself raised the question as to
the benefit of his book to others, one can only reply that
the advantage to the Commonwealth would probably
not be very great, since the translation of the old classic
authors is so exceedingly free that it is practically no
translation at all. It gives those who do not know the
original writings no adequate idea of them, while the
English is of so very colloquial a character that all the
dignity of the original is lost, the result being that
both the Latin and the English languages suffer in the
process.
If we take, for example, "Versutior es quam rota
figularis," we find that he cites three so-called equi-
valents, and none of them at all giving the beautiful
image of the original ; the first of these being, " You
are as inconstant as the wind," the next, " As wavering
as the weathercock," and, thirdly, " One knows not where
to have you." The "Non habet plus sapientiae quam
lapis " of Plautus he renders fairly enough as " He hath
no more wit than a stone," but he adds to this, "No
more brains than a burbout He is a very cod's head " ;
while " As wise as Solomon " cannot at all be accepted
as a rendering of "Plus sapit quam Thales." The
striking "Verba fiunt mortuo" has lost all its dignity
when we are invited to accept as a translation, " It is
of no purpose to talk to him : he'll not hear you speak :
you may as well talk to the wall."
The well-known " Parturient montes, nascetur ridiculus
mus " is thus Anglicised by Walker, " Great boast, little
roast ; Great cry and little wool, as the fellow said when
he shore his hogs " ; and the equally familiar "Ad Graecas
calendas " is given as, " At Nevermass, when two Sun-
days come together." The striking " Leporis vitam vivit"
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loses much when we are invited to accept as an equi-
valent, " He is afraid of the wagging of a straw." The
absurdity of teaching a fish to swim, "Piscem natare
doces," is scarcely adequately rendered by, " Tell me it
snows." How pleasant a glimpse of ancient customs we
get in the " Stylum invertere." The waxen tablet — the
stile at one end sharpened for writing, at the other flat-
tened for erasing — rise before us. But all this is entirely
lost when we are invited to accept, in place of the classic
allusion, " To turn the cat in the pan," " To sing another
tune " ; and certainly the pith and rhythm of " A minimo
ad maximum" suffers woful deterioration in such ren-
derings of it as " Every mother's son of them, tag and
rag, all that can lick a dish."
The refining influences that are associated with a
study of good classic writers seem to have rather failed
when this ancient schoolmaster came beneath their
sway. Such expressions as, "Your brains are addle,"
" As subtle as a dead pig," " Chip of the old block,"
** Lean as a rake," " A cankered fellow," " A scurvy
crack," scarcely rise to the dignity of his subject We
cannot help wondering how the school prospered in his
hands, and what sort of boys he turned out after a year
or two under his tuition.
The " Moral Essays on some of the most Curious and
Significant English, Scotch, and Foreign Proverbs," of
Samuel Palmer,* " Presbyter of the Church of England,"
deserves some little notice. The edition before us, we
note, is dated 1710. His definition of a proverb strikes
one as being an entirely satisfactory one. He tells us
that it is "an Instructive Sentence, in which more is
generally Design'd than is Expressed, and which has
• Our author must not be confused with a namesake, Charles Palmer,
who was Deputy Serjeant of the House of Commons, and who published
" A Collection of Select Aphorisms and Maxims extracted from the most
Eminent Authors." He gives eighteen hundred and thirteen of these : the
copy that came into our hands was dated 1748.
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pass'd into Common Use and Esteem either among the
Learned or Vulgar. I take this to be its Genuine
Definition, for though the Incomparable Erasmus takes
Elegance and Novelty into the Character of a Proverb
it seems to be an Error: for a Proverb has not only
more Honour and Authority from Antiquity, but a
Sentence never comes up to that Title till it has pass'd
for Sterling some Competent time, and received its
Dignity from the Consent of an Age at least 'Tisn't
in a Single Author's Power to convey this Reputation
to any Saying, but the Dignity grows up in the Use of
it" This appears excellent common-sense, and the dis-
tinction that he draws between the use of a saying by
the learned or the vulgar is a very happy one, and one
that no other writer appears to r^ard. A proverb need
not, to establish its position, be in use by all classes.
There are certain sayings from the classics or elsewhere
that find general acceptance amongst the educated, such
as the "Ad calendas Graecas," "A la Tartuffe," "Aut
Caesar aut nullus," " Facilis est descensus Averni." These,
either in the original tongfue or Anglicised, are current,
and have a full claim to recognition as proverbial sayings,
though four-fifths of the population never heard them ;
while many homely sayings that come freely to the lips
of the carter or the village blacksmith find no welcome
or recognition from the professor, the bishop, or the
banker, and yet are as truly of proverbial rank.
Our old author goes on to say : " Tis the Use, not
the Critical History or Notion of Proverbs I am con-
cerned in. To see People throw 'em at each other by
way of Jest or Repartee, without feeling their Weight,
tasting their Wit, or being better'd by the Reflection,
wou'd vex a man of any Spirit, and the Indignation
forces him to write somewhat that might Redeem these
Fragments of Wisdom from the Contempt and III
Treatment of the Ignorant For as they are now us'd
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they make up more of the Ridiculous Conversation than
the Solid and Instructive. To this Abuse some of our
Authors of the first Rank have very much contributed :
for the Modern Poets and Novelists have put 'em in the
Mouths of their lowest Characters. They make Fools
and Clowns, little and mean People speak Sentences in
Abundance, string 'em like Necklaces and make Sport
with 'em, and Ridicule the Remains of our Ancestors.
By this Means 'tis esteem'd Pedantry if we find one in
the Mouth of a Gentleman, and an Author of Honour
and very fine Parts has made the Reciting an Adage
or Two the Sign of a Coxcomb. Thus they are con-
demn'd to the Use of the Mob, thrown out of the Minds
of our People of Birth, and the Influence of 'em lost in
the Manage of Education."
While Palmer was engaged upon his book, a work
called " English Proverbs, with Moral Reflections " was
published by a writer named Dykes, a poor production
enough. " This," said Palmer, " put me on the Thought
of Suppressing the whole, not doubting but an Ingeni-
ous Gentleman whose Imployment isn't only to teach
Hie Haec Hoc, but to Instruct Youth in Learning and
Vertue, and convey the Notions of Religion and Good
Manners while he is managing the Ferula, wou'd have
managed the Proverbs to the best Purpose and without
Exception. But upon a View I find my self extreamly
disappointed : His Collection is so very short, being but
Fifty Two, and most of 'em so Lean, Trite, and Insigni-
ficant that the Greatest Excellence of the Work is that
he has been so happy as to fill up Four or Five pages
upon Nothing. 'Tis not my Design to Note all his
Indecencies, but I have scarce seen anything under the
Name of Moral more out of Order. Execrable Rant,
Curses, and little dirty Language are one Part of the
Entertainment, and tho' it might perhaps be tolerable
enough to cite Billingsgate when he was speaking of
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Scolds, yet to introduce the Dialogue of Two Fish
Women, with their Curses, Lewd Epithets, and Brutish
Reflections is Insufferable: 'tis opening a Sink and
spreading the Infection." Palmer therefore saw no
cause to discontinue his labours, the work of Dykes
not at all trenching on his own ideal of what such a
book should be.
Palmer is struck with " the Likeness of many which
are in Modern Use to the most Sacred Apophthegms,"
a similarity which "forces us to show *em very great
Respect, and engages us to think *em either of the same
Original, or else deriv'd from Divine Proverbs by Wise
and Pious Men, who have only given 'em a different
Turn according to the Language and Genius of the
Nation wherein they liv'd."
These essays of Palmer's are each some three or four
pages long, the page being that of a quarto book. In
some of these he takes a single adage as his theme,
but very often he brackets together two of like sense.
Thus, one is based on " A Mouse that has but One
Hole is soon Catch'd," or, "Don't venture all your
Eggs in one Basket" Another is, "Fly the Pleasure
that will Bite to Morrow," or, " After Sweet Meat comes
Sour Sauce," while yet another is, " Don't throw away
Dirty Water till you have got Clean," or, "He that
changes his Trade makes Soop in a Basket" One
readily sees in each case what the drift of the essay
based on the coupled adages must be.
As an example of Palmer's exposition, we will give
that based on two adages of like import " A baited
Cat may grow as Fierce as a Lyon," or, " Tread on a
Worm and it will Turn." " No Enemy," he tells us,
" is so Mean and Impotent but at One Time or Other
he becomes sensible of his own Force, knows how to
Exert It, feels an Injury, and has a proportionable
Resentment : for Nature can't easily be Conquer'd : is
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very Rarely Forc'd, but will Struggle after all the
Discipline either of Power or Principles. This made
Solomon say that Oppression makes a Wise Man
Mad. Now this shou'd be considered, and a Wise
Man ought to foresee how far 'tis fit to press the
most contemptible Enemy: for though his Opposition
be Wicked or Ridiculous yet it may hit the Pursuer
and do him a Mischief. To drive a Coward to the
Wall recovers his Spirits, and fear of being shot thro'
the Back makes him turn his Face. The certainty
of being quite lost by Flight gives a new Turn to the
Spirits, and Naturally prompts to a Sudden and
Desperate Defence : and tho' this be not true Courage,
nor don't act up to the Regularity that Valour is dis-
tinguished by: yet it may exceed in Face, and give a
Home Thrust. He that is eager in the Pursuit may
be struck through by that Hand which trembled till it
was reinforced by Necessity. In Armies this is a
known Rule. He that Beats a Brave Enemy ought
to be glad to be Rid of him. Let him Retreat as
quick as He can, provided the Main Victory be
secure. In Private Quarrels, Just and Vnjust, this
must be heeded : in the One Case to be Implacable
is Infamous, and in the other Wicked and Dangerous.
In Both, Rashness : and if Pity don't move us to for-
bear and abate in our Revenge, Caution and Regard
to our own Safety Shou'd." A rat, if driven into a
corner, will fly at a man.* And it appears that even
♦ " For a flying foe
Discreet and provident conquerors build up
A bridge of gold. "—Massingbr, The Guardian.
"Ouuerez tousiours a voz ennemys toutes les portes et chemins et
plustost leur £uctes ung pont d'argent, affin des lesrenvoyer." — Rabelais,
Gargantua,
See also the Italian proverb — *'A nemico che fugge un ponte d'oro.**
"Le Comte de Pitillan en parlant de la guerre soulouit dire quand ton
ennemy voudra fuir, fais luy un port d'or.'* — Extract from Les divers propos
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in baiting a cat there is a right and a wrong way of
going to work. It is said by old sportsmen that the
fox enjoys the sport as much as anybody, but there
comes a time with baited rats and cats and most other
creatures when they tire of that sort of thing, and have
a very definite way of indicating the fact to all whom
it may concern.
The proverbial utterances of " poor Richard " were
once in great vogue. They were written by Benjamin
Franklin under the nam de plume of Richard Saunders.
" Poor Richard's Almanack " was issued for twenty-six
years, from 1733 to 1758, and with constantly increased
acceptance. These calendars excellently combined
entertainment with useful knowledge and terse concen-
trated wisdom. All available spaces that occurred
between notable days in the months were filled in with
wisdom-chips, some of them of true proverbial rank,
and others the offspring of the brains of Dr Franklin.
Franklin was born on January 6th, 1706, at Boston,
and there is no doubt that his sterling common-sense
and quaint philosophy must have had a considerable
influence in moulding the character of the early in-
habitants of the United States. These almanacks
were largely reprinted in Great Britain and France,
and very freely quoted from, so that the area of their
influence was very extensive. In the preface to the
first of this long series he quaintly gives the reasons
that influenced him, poor Richard, to issue it. " I
might, in this place," he writes, "attempt to gain thy
favour by declaring that I write Almanacks with no
other view than that of the publick good, but in this I
should not be sincere; and men are now-a-days too
wise to be deceived by pretences. The plain truth of
memorables des Nobles et Illustres HomnusJ*^ — Gilles Corrizot Paris,
1571.
** Press not a falling man too far."— Shakbspbarb, King Henry VIII.
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the matter is, I am extremely poor, and my wife, good
woman is, I tell her, excessive proud ; she cannot bear,
she says, to sit spinning in her shift of tow while I do
nothing but gaze at the stars, and has threatened more
than once to bum all my books if I do not make some
profitable use of them for the good of my family."
Next year he writes, " Your kind and charitable
assistance last year in purchasing so large an impres-
sion of my almanack has made my circumstances much
more easy in the world, and requires my most grateful
acknowledgment. My wife has been enabled to get a
pot of her own, and is no longer obliged to borrow
one from a neighbour; nor have we ever since been
without something to put in it. She has also got a
pair of shoes and a nice new petticoat, and for my
part I have bought a second-hand coat, that I am
not now ashamed to go to town or be seen there.
These things have rendered her temper so much
more pacifick than it used to be, that I may say I
have slept more and more quietly within this last year
than in the three foregoing years put together."
There is much excellent wisdom in the sayings that
he got together. How full of wise warning the utter-
ance, " There is no little enemy," or this, " There's small
revenge in words, but words may be greatly avenged."
Or these warnings against covetousness, "If you desire
many things many things will seem but a few."
" Avarice and happiness never saw each other, how
then should they become acquainted ? " How quaintly
sarcastic are these, "Lawyers, preachers, and tomtits*
eggs, there are more of them hatched than come to
perfection." " None preaches better than the ant, and
she says nothing." How true again that "Poverty
wants some things and luxury many things," and that
" No man was glorious who was not first laborious."
How valuable the counsel, " Deny self for self s sake,"
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and that " It is less discredit to abridge petty charges
than to stoop to petty gettings " ; and as a hint as to
the value of concentration, "Don't think to hunt two
hares with one dog." Others that we marked for
quotation are, "Ever since follies have pleased, fools
have been able to divert " ; " He that can have patience
can have what he will " ; " Strange that he who lives
by shifts can seldom shift himself," and to these many
more of equal shrewdness could be added.
We make no claim that this list of ours is complete
as a bibliography of proverb-writers. All references to
the works of more recent men. Trench and others, are
entirely omitted, as they are so easily accessible, that
all who care to do so will have no difficulty in con-
sulting them. Amongst the earlier men's works some
are good, and some are good for nothing, but we trust
that our readers will feel that this excursus is not
without interest, while somewhat may be added to
the dignity of our subject when it is seen to how
many minds it has been a fascinating study.
CHAPTER III
** The Book of Merry Riddles" — Introduction of Proverbs is our litera-
ture — A Surfeit of Proverbs — " The two Angrie Women of Abington "
— Fuller on the Misuse of Proverbs — The Sayings of Hendyng — Pro-
verbs in Works of Chaucer, Lydgate, Spenser, Dryden, Shakespeare,
and other Writers — The "Imitation of Christ " — Glitter is not
necessarily Gold — The Cup and the Lip — Comparisons odious —
The Rolling-Stone— The *• Vision of Piers Plowman"— Guelph
and Ghibelline — Dwellers in Glass Houses — A Spade is a Spade
— Chalk and Cheese — Silence gives Consent — A Nine Days'
Wonder— The little Pot soon Hot— Weakest to the Wall— Proverb-
Hunting through our old Literature.
Throughout the Middle Ages a great use was made,
as we have seen, of these popular adages on tapestries,
rings, and in fact wherever they could be employed.
Shakespeare, it will be recalled, writes of a but mode-
rately good poetaster as one "whose poetry was
For all the world like cutler s poetry
Upon a knive, *Love me, and leave me not,'"*
and we shall therefore naturally expect to find
numerous allusions to this wealth of proverb-lore in
the writings of the day. The works of the Elizabethan
dramatists are brimming over with them. Such a fund
of material as the " Book of Merry Riddles " must have
been often drawn upon. The first edition was printed
in 1600, and contained, amongst other entertaining
material, a collection of " choice and witty proverbs.**
It was often re-issued, and our last chapter has revealed
* " Love me little, love me long " is found in the writings of Christopher
Marlowe : ** Pray, love me little, so you love me long," in Herrick.
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to US how many other collections of like nature were
issued and immediately became available.
We propose to devote now some little space to
exploring in search of proverbial allusions a little of
the literary wealth of our country, and we may say at
once that proverbs, like everything else, require discreet
use, and it is not difficult to overdo the thing. A
person who would be always dragging in these adages
would be a terrible nuisance in conversation, and no
less so in literature. In such a case " Enough is as good
as a feast." One would quickly weary of a page or two
of this sort of thing — a brochure during the days of a
suggested invasion of England by " Boney " —
*' Our foes on the ocean sent plenty of ships.
But * It's not the best carpenter makes the most chips' ;
They promise to give Britain's sailors a beating.
Though * the proof of the pudding is found in the eating.'
The French have big armies, but their threats are but fix)th.
For ' too many cooks do but spoil good broth ' ;
They are welcome Britannia to catch when they get her.
But though ' Brag is a good dog yet Holdfast's a better.'
For their threats of invasion we ne'er care a rush—
* A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush ' ;
They may think, open-mouthed, to devour us like sharks.
But 'Till the sky falls we must wait to catch larks.'"
" The pleasant historie of the two angrie women of
Abington " * is, despite its self-assertion of its pleasant-
ness, rendered very tedious by this abuse and super-
abundance of proverbs — one of the characters in the
play, one Nicholas Prouerbes, introducing them ad
nauseam. To give any notion of the drift of the play
is beside our present need. We will content ourselves,
* " The Pleasant Historie of the two Angrie Women of Abington, with
the humerous mirthe of Dick Coomes and Nicholas Prouerbes, two seru-
ingmen. As it was lately played by the Right Honourable the Earl
of Nottingham, Lord High Admirall, his Servants. By Henry Porter,
gent Imprinted at London for Joseph Hunt and William Farbrand, and
are to be solde at the comer of Oilman Street, neere Loathburie. 1599."
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therefore, with some few extracts that will suffice to
indicate the point before us, the excessive use of these
popular adages:
^^ Nicholas. O maister Philip forbeare. You must not leape
ower the stile before you come to it ; haste makes waste ; softe
fire makes sweet malte ; not too fast for falling ; there's no hast
to hang true men.
^^ Philip, Now will I see if my memorie will seme for some
prouerbes too. O, a painted cloath were as well worth a shilling
as a theefe worth a halter ; wel, after my heartie commendations,
as I was at the making therof. He that trots easilie will indure.
You have most learnedly proverbde it, commending the virtue of
patience and forbearance, but yet you know forbearance is no
quittance.
" Nich, I promise ye, maister Philip, you have spoken as true as
Steele.
" Phil, Father, there's a prouerbe well applied.
'* Nich, And it seemeth vnto me that you mocke me ; do you not
kno mocke age and see how it will prosper ?
^Phil, Why ye prouerbe booke bound up in follio, have ye no
other sense to answere me but euery word a prouerbe, no other
English?"
Presently a dispute arises outside, and Nicholas is
asked, " Wilt thou not go see the fraye ? " to which this
inveterate proverb-monger replies :
" No indeed, even as they brew so let them bake — 1 will not
thrust my hand into a flame and neede not — ^Tis not good to
have an oare in another man's boat — Litde said is soone amended,
and in a little medling commeth great rest. 'Tis good sleeping
in a whole skin — so a man might come home by weeping-crosse.
No, by Lady, a friend is not so soone gotten as lost— blessed
are the peace-makers — they that strike with the sword shall be
beaten with the zcabberd."
To this flow of wisdom Philip replies :
" Well said, Prouerbes, is ne're another to that purpose ?"
The too ready Nicholas makes reply:
"Yes, I could have said to you, Syr, take heede is a good
reede."
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His fellow serving-man at one portion of the play sees
well to call Nicholas " tripe-cheeke, fat asse," and other
epithets of like nature ; upon which he replies:
''Good words cost nought, ill words corrupt good manners,
Richard, for a hasty man never wants woe, and I had thought you
had been my friende, but I see alle is not golde that glisters, time
and truth tryeth all, and 'tis an old prouerbe and not so olde as true,
bought wit is the best I can see day at a little hole. I knowe
your minde as well as though I were within you : goe to, you seeke
to quarrell, but beware of lead I wist ; so long goes the potte
to the water at length it comes home broken. I knowe you are
as goode a man as ever drew sword, as ere lookt man in the face,
as ere broke bred or drunke drinke ; but he is propper that hath
propper conditions, be not you like the Cowe that gives a good sope
of milke and casts it downe with his beeles. I speak, plainely, for
plaine dealing is a Jewell, yet He take no wrong, if hee had
a head as big as Brasse and lookt as high as Poules steple."
Coomes, not quite liking the tone of these remarks,
replies :
*' Sirra, thou grashoper, thou shal skip from my sword as fix)m
a sithe. He cut thee out in collops and steakes and frye thee
with the fier I shall strike from the pike of thy Bucklet"
To this appalling threat, not best adapted to soothe
matters over, or pour oil on the troubled waters, Nicholas
replies :
'* Brag's a good dog : threatened folkes Hue long."
Further quotation is quite needless ; enough, amply
enough, has been brought forward to convince us how
terrible a bore the inveterate quoter of proverbs can
readily become. We are prepared after this to
sympathise entirely with the sentiments of old Fuller :
" Adages and prouerbs are to be accounted only as Sauce
to relish Meat with, but not as substantial Dishes to
make a Meal on ; and therefore were never good but upon
proper Subjects and Occasions, where they may serve
to give a lively Force and pleasant Turn to what is said :
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but to apply them wrong and crack them off too thick,
like Sancho in * Don Quixote/ is abominably foppish,
ridiculous and nauseous." We had our eye on Sancho
Panza, but any comments that we might have made on
his conduct in cracking off proverbs so thick become
needless, since Fuller has already said all that need be
hurled against so hardened an offender.
A very curious early manuscript has come under our
notice, in which the common proverbs of the time are
quoted by one of the villains. It is arranged in stanzas
of six lines, each being then followed by a proverb.
This latter is sometimes in two lines and sometimes in
one, but is in every case attributed to the villains, " Ce
dit li vilains." It deals with the proverbs current in
Bretaigne, and commences :
"Qui les proverbes fist
Premierement bien dist
Au tans qu'alors estoit
Or est tout en respit.
En ne chante ne lit
D'annor en nul endroit
'Que a la bone denr^
A mauvaise oubli^'
Ce dit li vilains."
This quaint old French may be thus Anglicised : " He
who first made proverbs spoke well to the people of
his time ; now all is forgotten, people neither sing nor
read of honour in any place. He who has the good
ware has forgotten the bad — so says the villain." The
moral does not seem somehow to quite fit, unless indeed
we read it to mean that when people had abundant
supply of this proverb-law they had the good, and
were so enamoured of it that it had supplanted in
their hearts all desire for what they once preferred —
the evil that was now quite driven from their hearts
and forgotten.
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Another verse terminates thus :
** Qui n'aime son mestier
Ne son mestier lui
Ce dit li vilains " —
" Who likes not his business his business likes not him."
Another proverb that remains a very familiar one, as to
the folly of not taking full precautions, and only shutting
the stable door when the horse has already been taken,
appears as
"Quant le cheval est emble
Dounke ferme fols Testable
Ce dit li vilains."
The date of this poem is about the year 1300. How
long the proverbs given therein date before its appear-
ance — centuries possibly — ^we cannot say ; but even if
we took this poem as a point to start from, it is very
interesting to reflect that this stolen horse and his
unlocked stable have been for hundreds of years a
warning to the heedless, and as well known to the
men of Cressy and Agincourt as to those of this present
day. However men, as Cavaliers or Roundheads, Lan-
castrians or Yorkists, priests or presbyters, differed from
each other in much else, all agreed in this recognition
of the folly of not taking better care of the steed they
all knew so well.
We have an imitation of this old French poem in an
English one that was almost contemporaneous, and, as
in the preceding poem, each stanza is an amplification
of the idea in the proverb that immediately follows,
though in either case this gloss or development is not
always very much to the point
The first verse is dedicatory, invoking the Divine
blessing :
" Mon that wol of wysdom heren
At wyse Hendyng he may leraen
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That wes Marcolmes sone :
Gode thonkes out monie thewes
For te teche fele shrewes
For that wes ever is wone
Jhesu Crist al folke red
That for us all tholede ded
Upon the rode tre
Lene us all to ben wys
Ant to ende in his servys.
Amen, par charite.
God biginning maketh god endyng
Quoth Hendyng."
"Of fleysh lust cometh shame," and "if thou will
fleysh overcome " the wisest course is flight from the
temptation :
" Wei fytht that welflyth
Quoth H endyng."
If you would avoid the evils that follow hasty speech
keep the tongue with all diligence in subjection, for
though one's tongue has no bone in it itself it has been
the cause of many a broken bone in the quarrels that
it has fostered :
" Tonge breketh bon
Ant nad hire selve non
Quoth Hendyng."
" Al too dere," he warns us, "is botht that ware that we
may wythoute care," gather at a terrible risk to ourselves.
It is the grossest folly to find a momentary pleasure in
any act that will bring misery in its train, for
" Dere is boht the hony that is licked of the thome
Quoth Hendyng."
Where counsel fails, experience may step in and exact a
higher price for the lesson taught :
" So that child withdraweth is bond
From the fur ant the brond
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That hath byfore ben brend
Brend child fur dredeth
Quoth Hendyng." *
The Italians still more powerfully say that ''A scalded
dog dreads cold water," the meaning of this clearly
being that those who have suffered in any direction have
an exaggerated fear in consequence, and are afraid,
even when there is no cause, really, for terror. This idea
is even more strongly brought out in the old Rabbinical
adage, " He who has been bitten by a serpent fears
a piece of rope," a quite imaginable state of mind to
arrive att
Up till now we have shown how one writer may use
many proverbs ; we will turn to the other alternative
and seek to show how one proverb is used by many
writers. In doing so we are at once struck by the
variety of garb in which it may appear. The inner
spirit and meaning, the core, remains inviolate naturally,
but its presentation to us is by no means in one set
formula. We are warned not to judge alone by out-
ward appearance, nor to assume too hastily precious
metal in what may pfove to be but dross or a poor
counterfeit of the real thing. Hence Chaucer warns
us, " All thing which that shineth as the gold He
is no gold, as I have heard it told." Lydgate,
writing on " the Mutability of human affairs," declares
truly enough that "all is not golde that outward
showeth bright " ; while Spenser, in his " Faerie
Queene," hath it that " Gold all is not that doth golden
seem " ; and Shakespeare, in the " Merchant of Venice,"
* ** Why urge yee me ? My hart doth boyle with heate
And will not stoope to any of your lures:
A burnt child dreads the ffyre." — Timon, c. 1590.
t Ovid writes: " Tranquillas etiam naufragus horret aquas" — the man
who has been wrecked dreads still water. The Portuguese make the cat
the subject of their proverb — << Gato escaldado d'agua fria tern medo.*'
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writes, " All that glisters is not gold." ♦ Dryden's
version, in the " Hind and Panther," is very similar, " All,
as they say, that glitters is not gold "; and Herbert, in the
" Jacula Prudentum," reverses the wording into " All is
not gold that glisters." In " Ralph Roister Doister " we
find the reading, " All things that shineth is not by and
by pure gold " ; while the Italians have the equivalent,
" Non 6 oro tutto quel che luce."
In Greene's " Perimedes," published in the year 1588,
we find the passage, "Though men do determine the
gods doo dispose, and oft times many things fall out
betweene the cup and the lip." The first portion of this
passage is almost invariably cited in French — " Thomme
propose et le Dieu dispose " — giving the impression that
the saying is of Gallic origin. How far back into the ages
this proverb goes we cannot trace. We find it in the
"Imitation of Christ " of Thomas k Kempis as, " Nam
homo proponit sed Deus disponit" It is possible that
the French rendering became current in our midst
because the " Imitation," when first translated from the
original Latin, was rendered into French. The book
at once sprang into notice and esteem, and the passages
under our consideration would be noticeable not only
from its declaration of a great truth but from its rhythm
— a rhythm that was well preserved in its French
rendering. The French translation of the " Imitation
of Christ" appeared in 1488, while the first English
version was not produced till the year 1502. In the
" Vision of Piers ploughman," written somewhere about
the year 1360, we find the saying given in Latin, while
George Herbert, who died in 1633, introduces it as
" Man proposeth, God disposeth."
* We need scarcely point out that any reference to the use of any proverb
is not intended to imply that this is the only use of it by that writer. " Yet
gold is not that doth golden seem " is equally Shakespeare with the quota-
tion given above. One passage will ordinarily suffice, but not because it is
the only one available.
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The possibilities that may exist in the short interval
of time between raising the cup to the lips and setting
it down again are made the subject of a warning pro-
verb that is of immense antiquity. The Samian king,
Ancaeus, while planting a vineyard was warned by a
diviner that he would not live to take its fruits. Time
passed on and the vineyard prospered, until at length
one day the king, goblet in hand, was to taste for the
first time the wine it had yielded. He recalled the
prophecy, and derided the power of the seer as he stood
before him. At this moment a messenger arrived with
the news that a wild boar was ravaging the vineyard,
and Ancaeus, hastily putting down the cup, seized his
spear and rushed out to slay the boar, but himself fell a
victim to the onslaught of the furious beast* Thus, to
quote a considerably more modem authority, Jonson's
"Tale of a Tub," "you see the old adage verified — many
things fall between the cup and lip."
It is a wise rule of conduct to bear in mind that great
offence may be given by comparing one thing with
another, as the process is almost sure to end to the
more or less detriment of one or the other, or possibly,
when the spirit of criticism is rampant, in the de-
preciation of both. Hence Lydgate writes in 1554,
"Comparisons do oftimes great grevance," and in
More's "Dial" the idea recurs — "Comparysons be
odyouse." Gascoigne, in the year 1575, declares in
his " Posies," " I will forbear to recyte examples by
any of mine owne doings, since all comparisons
are odious." Dr John Donne in an "Elegy" has
the line, "she and comparisons are odious," and we
find the same idea in Burton's " Anatomy of Melan-
choly," in Heywood's play, "A Woman Killed with
Kindness," in " Don Quixote," and many other works.
* The story is told by Pausanias : " Multa cadunt inter calicem supre-
maque labra." — Horcue,
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Shakespeare, in his " Much Ado about Nothing," puts
into the mouth of Dogberry the variation " comparisons
are odorous." Swift, in his "Answer to Sheridan's
Simile," writes:
"We own your verses are melodious.
But then comparisons are odious."
Lilly, in the "Euphues," seems to think that com-
parisons may at times be an offence when the objects
of such a scrutiny are incomparable in their excellence ;
that each is so perfect that any suggestion of com-
parison becomes necessarily a depreciation and a de-
thronement. Hence he writes — " But least comparisons
should seeme odious, chiefly where both the parties be
without comparison, I will omitte that," and he returns
to this idea in his " Midas," where he distinctly lays
down the proposition that "Comparisons cannot be
odious where the deities are equall."
The picturesque adage, "a rolling stone gathers no
moss," is still popular amongst our people. In Turner's
"Five hundred pointes of good husbandrie," a book
written between three and four hundred years ago, we
find the same precept:
" The stone that is rouling can gather no mosse ;
Who often remoueth is sure of losse.
The rich it compelleth to p>aie for his pride ;
The poore it vndooeth on euerie side."
Marston, in " The Fawn," written in the year 1606,
has an allusion to this proverb :
" Thy head is alwaies working : it roles and it roles,
Dondolo, but it gathers no mosse."
In the " Vision of Piers Plowman " we appear at first
sight to have a quaint and interesting variant — " Selden
mosseth the marbelston that men ofte treden." But it
will be seen that in thus altering the wording from the
type-form we have also varied its significance ; it is, in
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fact, a new saying, and of different application. To
point out to a restless and aimless ne'er-do-well, throw-
ing up one position after another, that no moss will
be found growing on the doorstep of some busy office
would be an entirely pointless proceeding not tending
to edification.
Another familiar proverb is "well begun is half
done." We find its equivalent in Horace and the
severer Juvenal. Many of our proverbs were as
familiar to Horace as to ourselves. "Money in purse
will always be in fashion," and to " harp on the same
string" are expressions, for instance, that were very
familiar to the ancient Romans, and which are quite
as intelligible to-day.
In the " Confessio Amantis " of Gower we find :
" A prouerbe I haue herde saie.
That who that well his worke beginneth.
The rather a good ende he winneth."
This proverb has historic interest, as its use on one
fateful occasion was the final cause of desolating civil
war that long ravaged Tuscany. When Boundel-
monte broke his engagement with a lady of the family
of the Amadei, and married into another, the kinsmen
assembled in council to consider how the slight should be
avenged, and atonement made for their wounded honour.
Some of the more impetuous demanded the death of
the young cavalier as the only possible reparation ; but
others hesitated, not from any particular regard for the
traitor, but because of the great issues involved — conse-
quences which in the after-event proved so disastrous to
the Florentines. At length Mosca Lamberti, tired of
this hesitation, sprang to his feet, and declared that
those who talked were not likely to do anything else
but talk, that the consideration of the matter from
every point of view would lead to no worthy result, and
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make them objects of contempt, and then quoted the
adage familiar to them all — " Capo a cosa fatta " — well
begun is half done. This sealed the fatal determination,
the die was cast, Boundelmonte was murdered, and thus
was Florence at once involved in the strife between
Guelph and Ghibelline, and the fair land of Tuscany
became the battlefield of those contending factions.
The incident is referred to by Dante in the " Inferno.'*
Amid his wanderings in these gloomy shades he pre-
sently arrives where
" One deprived of both his hands, who stood
Lifting the bleeding stumps amid the dim
Dense air, so that his face was stained with blood,
Cried — ' In thy mind let Mosca take a place.
Who said, alas ! " Deed done is well beg^n,"
Words fraught with evil to the Tuscan race.' "
It is a widely recognised principle that those who
live in glass houses themselves should be very careful
how they throw stones at others, as retaliation is so
fatally easy.* In a collection of " Proverbes en rimes,"
published in Paris in 1664, we find —
" Qui a sa maison de verre
Sur le voisin ne jette p/erre."
In the "Troilus" of Chaucer we find the same prudent
abstinence from stone-throwing advocated, but in this
case it is the stone-thrower's head and not his house
that is in danger of reprisals.
" Who that hath an hede of verre
Fro caste of stones war hym in the werre."
The use of the word " verre " instead of glass seems
to suggest that the French version was so far current
in England that all would know it, and that it was
immaterial whether the rendering was in French or in
English. When James of Scotland succeeded, at the
* " Stones and idle words are things not to be thrown at random.**
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death of Elizabeth, to the English throne, one of the
first results was that London became inundated with
Scotchmen, all anxious to reap some benefit from the
new political position. This influx caused a consider-
able amount of jealousy, and the Duke of Buckingham
organised a movement against them, and parties were
formed for the purpose of breaking their windows, and
in a general way making them feel the force of an
adverse public opinion. By way of retaliation, a
number of Scotchmen smashed the windows of the
duke's mansion in St Martin's Fields, known as "the
Glass House," and on his complaining to the king
His Majesty replied, "Steenie, Steenie, those who live
in glass houses should be carefu' how they fling stanes."
The story is told in Seton's "Life of the Earl of
Dunfermline," and it will be appreciated that the
quotation by our "British Solomon" of this ancient
adage was very neatly put in.
Those who pride themselves on a certain blunt
directness of speech, and who declare that they always
speak their mind, further define the position they take
up by declaring that they call a spade a spade. There
certainly are occasions when such a course is the only
honest one, when a man has to make his protest and
refuse to connive at any circumlocution or whittling
away of principle. There are other occasions when a
regard for the feelings of others makes such a pro-
ceeding sheer brutality, and it is, we believe, a well-
established fact that the audience of those who pride
themselves on speaking their mind ordinarily find that
they are the victims of a somewhat unpleasant ex-
perience. Baxter declares, " I have a strong natural
inclination to speak of every subject just as it is, and
to call a spade a spade, so as that the thing spoken of
may be fullest known by the words. But I unfeignedly
confess that it is faulty because imprudent" "I am
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plaine," we read in Marprelate's " Epitome," " I must
needs call a spade a spade," and Ben Jonson advises to
" boldly nominate a spade a spade."
In the year 1548 Archbishop Cranmer was busily
engaged on a design for the better unity of all the
Protestant churches by having one common confession
and one body of doctrine drawn out of Holy Writ, to
which all could give their assent Melancthon, amongst
others, was consulted by the archbishop, and was very
favourable to the idea, but he strongly advised him, if
the matter were to be carried to a successful issue, " to
avoid all ambiguities of expression, call a spade a
spade, and not cast words of dubious meaning before
posterity as an apple of discord." Wise and weighty
words that never fructified.
John Knox, who was not by any means the man to
go out of his way to prophesy smooth things or palliate
wrong-doing by any euphuism or a prudent turning
away of the head, declares, " I have learned to call
wickedness by its own terms, and to call a fig a fig
and a spade a spade"; while Shakespeare, in his
" Coriolanus," goes equally straight to the mark : " We
call a nettle but a nettle, and the faults of fools but
folly." Erasmus writes : " Ficus ficus, ligonem ligonem
vocat" of a certain man.
Boileau in like manner writes, " J'appelle un chat un
chat " ; and Rabelais, " Nous sommes simples gents,
puisqu'il plaist k Dieu : et appellons les figues figues,
les prunes prunes, et les poires poires."
In the pages of Plutarch we read that Philip of
Macedon, in answer to an irate ambassador, who com-
plained to him that the citizens on his way to the palace
had called him a traitor, replied : " My subjects are a
blunt people, and call things always by their right names.
To them figs are figs, and they call spades spades."
The adage is one of unknown antiquity, and may be
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found in the writings of Aristophanes, Demosthenes,
Lucian, and other classic authors. Erasmus, in his
" Apophthegmes," published in 1 542, tells the story of
the discomfiture of the embassy to the Macedonian
court very quaintly : " When those persons that were at
Lasthenes found themselfes greued and toke fumishly
that certain of the traine of Phillipus called theim
traitours, Phillipus answered that the Macedonians
were feloes of no fine witte in their termes, but
altogether grosse, clubbish, and rustical!, as the whiche
had not the witte to cal a spade by any other name
than a spade, alluding to that the commen vsed pro-
uerbe of the Grekes calling figgues figgues, and a bote
a bote. As for his mening was that they were traitours
in very deede. And the fair flatte truthe that the
vplandishe or homely and play-clubbes of the countree
dooen use, nameth eche thinge of the right names."
In Taverner's "Garden of Wysdome," published in
1539, the Macedonians are described as "very homely
men and rudely brought vppe, which call a mattok
nothing els but a mattok, and a spade a spade" — a
very right and proper thing for Macedonians or anyone
else to do on most occasions, but sometime a little too
much like the unconscious brusqueness of children, who
have in such matters no discretion, and who forget, or
have never been taught, the more cautious precept that
" all truths are not to be told on all occasions."
Those who, avoiding one difficulty, rashly run into a
still greater dilemma, are warned, as in More's " Dial,"
that "they lepe lyke a flounder out of the fryenge
panne into the fyre." Tertullian, Plato, and other early
writers vary the wording to " Out of the smoke into the
fire," but the pith of the matter is the same. Fire and
smoke play their part in several adages. One of these,
"If you will enjoy the fire you must not mind the
smoke," recalls the days when the domestic arrange-
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ments were somewhat cruder than in those more lux-
urious days, but it still remains a valuable reminder
that whatever advantages we may enjoy we must also
be prepared for certain drawbacks. The Latin " Com-
modatis quaevis sua^fert incommoda secum" covers the
same ground ; and the French, " Nul feu sans fumte " —
no fire without smoke, no good without some incon-
venience — echoes the same idea. On the other hand,
" Where there is smoke there is fire," the appearance of
evil is a warning that the evil exists, the loose word
implies the loose life. As the efTect we see cannot be
causeless, it is a danger-signal that we must not ignore.
The present whiflT of smoke, if disregarded, may be the
herald of half an hour hence a raging conflagration,
spreading ruin on every side.
When a strong comparison, the expression of a
marked difference, is called for, we may, in the words
of Shaclock, in his " Hatchet of Heresies," published in
1565, exclaim, "Do not these thynges differ as muche
as chalcke and chese?" or, turning to the "Confessio
Amantis" of Gower, find for our purpose, "Lo, how
they feignen chalk for cheese!" while Hey wood
hath it:
"That as well agreeth the comparison in these,
As alyke to compare in tast, chalk and cheese."
Another popular proverb of our ancestors was " Fast
bind, fast find." Hence, on turning to the " Merchant
of Venice," we find the admonition, "Do as I bid
you. Shut doors after you : fast bind, fast find — a
proverb never stale in thrifty mind " ; and the counsel
is found repeated in the "Jests of Scrogin," published
in 1565: "Wherefore a plaine bargain is best, and in
bargaines making, fast bind, fast find " — a certain busi-
ness shrewdness, a legal document, even the turning of
a key in a door, will at times preserve to us unimpaired
property that carelessness would have lost to us.
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"The more the merrier" is an adage that has a
pleasantly hospitable ring about it, though we are
reminded in addition that the multiplicity of guests
may lead to a certain pinching in the supplies. Hey-
wood reminds us how
"The more the merrier we all day here see,
Yea, but the fewer the better fare, sayd he" ;
while Gascoigne, in his "Poesies," while he quotes with*
approval the old adage, "Store makes no sore" — no
one is the worse for having a little reserve laid by —
yet "Mo the merier is a proverbe eke" that must
not be overlooked. "More the merrier" is the happy
title of a book of epigrams published in 1608, and we
may come across the sentiment in two or three of
the plays of Beaumont and Fletcher, and in many
other directions.
Our readers will recall Spenser's eulc^ium on
" Dan Chaucer, well of English undefyled,
On Fame's eternal beadroU worthie to be fyled."
The proverb - seeker finds in his picturesque pages
abundant store. The "nonne preeste" exclaims,
"Mordre wol out, that see we day by day," and in
the Reve's prologue he reminds us that "Yet in our
ashen cold is fire yreken " ; or, as a later writer hath
it, " E'en in our ashes live our wonted fires." Chaucer
again reminds us that "The proverbe saith that many
a small makith a grete"; or, as it is sometimes given,
"Many a little makes a mickle." The French tell us
that even the drainage of the great deep is possible if
only there be sufficient patience: "Goutte k goutte la
mer s'egoute." * Every heart knows its own bitterness,
knows all about that skeleton in the cupboard that the
world has no suspicion of, knows just where the shoe
* ** Petit i petit Toiseau £ut son nid.''
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pinches. Hence Chaucer exclaims, "But I wot best
when wryngeth me my scho " ; * and in his " Testament
of Love," where he writes, "Lo, eke an old proverb,
he that is still seemeth as he granted," or, as we should
say now-a-days, "Silence gives consent"! Another
well-known adage and piece of worldly wisdom is,
"Of two ills choose the least," a proverb found in
, the "Imitation of Christ" of A Kempis, in Hooker's
"Polity," and elsewhere. Chaucer is to the fore with
the saying, " Of harmes two the lesse is for to cheese."
The saying appears as "E duobus malis minimum
eligendum" in the pages of Cicero, so that it is not
by any means an adage of yesterday's creation. It
was, doubtless, a venerable saying long before Cicero
employed it. When the idea got compacted into a
recognised wisdom-chip, who can say? The rule of
conduct is so clear and so in accordance with common -
sense that we may well believe that the practice, if
not the precept, would date from about the year one.
A " nine days' wonder " appears in the pages of the
"Troilus" of Chaucer, as "Eke wonder last but nine
daies never in towne." A thing makes a great sen-
sation for a few days, and then something else arises,
and the former matter is quite forgotten. Chaucer's
addition to the adage of the limitation to town is
curious, though on consideration a good deal can be
said for it, since in towns incidents succeed each other
quickly, and aid this obliteration of the past. Sometimes
the proverb is extended into "A nine days' wonder,
and then the puppy's eyes are open" — in allusion to
* ** What cloke for the rajme so ever yee bring mee,
Myselfe can tell best where my shoee doth wring mee." — Heywood,
t In **Cymbeline" Shakespeare writes —
"But that you shall not say I yield, being silent, I would not speak."
It was a proverb of Ancient Rome, " Qui tacet consentire videtur," and in
Modem Italy it reappears as " Chi tai^e confessa.'* In France it is " Assez
consent qui ne dit mot"
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the fact that dogs, like cats and several other animals,
are bom blind. One may read this as referring to
those who make a wonder of an ordinary thing ; the
blindness of these little new-born puppies, or, in some-
what less literal sense, the puppies whose eyes are
presently open, are those people who are blind and
puzzled over some incident which they presently see
through and unravel, and then lose all interest in.
As an encouragement to those who seem to be the
victims of one misfortune after another, of continued
ill fortune, the ancient saw is quoted, "'Tis a long
lane has no turning." The expression is a picturesque
one, and no doubt carries comfort and teaches patience.
In the pages of Chaucer it appears as " Som tyme an
end ther is on every deed." The only time we knew
it absolutely to fail was in the case of an old man
named Lane, who had his full share of the worries
of life, and to whom one kindly well-wisher after
another quoted this well-worn saying. Each thought
that he had hit upon a happy idea, and applied it
there and then, in full faith that it would be of
soothing efficacy, but as, in the aggregate, the old
fellow had had it fired off* at him some hundreds of
times, it acted instead as a powerful irritant! It was
one trouble the more to carry through life.
One might, in the same way, though we have by
no means exhausted the Chaucerian wealth of proverb-
lore, hunt through the pages of Shakespeare, Milton,,
Pope, and other writers, and should reap an abundant
harvest. It may be somewhat of a shock that Milton's
name should appear in such a connection, since the
stately dignity of his work would appear entirely alien
to the general tone of the popular adage ; but one sees
in this passage from " Comus " —
"Was I deceived, or did a sable cloud
Turn forth her silver lining to the night?" —
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a beautiful allusion to a well-known proverb. The
plays of Shakespeare abound with these proverbial
allusions. In the "Taming of the Shrew," for instance,
we find, " Now, were I a little pot and soon hot," a
proverb applied to short-tempered people who on slight
cause wax wroth. The homely pot plays its part in
homely conversation. The man whom Fortune has
thwarted " goes to pot," waste and refuse metal to be
cast into the melting-pot. The man on hospitable
thoughts intent may invite his neighbour to pot-luck,
to such chance repast, good or bad, as the " pot au feu "
may yield. People who deride or scorn others for
matters in which they are at least as much concerned
are compared to the pot that called the kettle black,*
while the rashness of those who, insufficiently pro-
vided with this world's goods, seek to rival others
better provided and come to grief in the experiment,
are reminded how the brazen and earthen pot swam
down together on the swirling flood and collided to the
detriment of the pitcher.t In "King Henry VI." we
have " 111 blows the wind that profits nobody ,"t and
" Smooth runs the water where the brook is deep." In
" Hamlet " the familiar adage, " Murder will out,"
appears as "Murder, though it have no tongue, will
* Or, to quote another expressive and homely English proverb, " The
chimney-sweep told the collier to go wash his face." In France they
say " La p^le se moque du foorgon," the shovel makes game of the poker.
t ** Burden not thyself above thy power, and have no fellowship with
one that is mightier or richer than thyself. For how agree the kettle and
the earthen pot together? For if one be smitten against the other it
shall be broken." — Ecciesiasticus ziii. 2.
X " An yll wynd that blowth no man good."— Heywood, Song agaimt
Idleness, 1540.
'* It is an old proverb and a true,
I sware by the roode,
It is an il wind that blows no man to good."
— " Marriage of Wit and Wisdom," 157a
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speak." " Every dog has his day " ; we say : every man
his chance, so in " Hamlet " we find —
" Let Hercules himself do what he may,
The cat will mew, and dog will have his day."
In "Othello" we come across an equally well-known
proverb, " They laugh that win," so quaintly curtailed
by Heywood into " He laugth that winth." Another
familiar adage is that '' Use is second nature," and this
Shakespeare, in the "Two Gentlemen of Verona,"
refines into " How use doth breed a habit in a man ! "
In "As You Like It" another well-known saw presents
itself in the lines, " If it be true that good wine needs no
bush, 'tis true that a good play needs no epilogue."
The bush in question was an ivy-bough, the emblem of
Bacchus, and the custom of marking the wine-shop by
this dates from Roman days. " Vino vendibili hedera
non opus est" The custom was continued throughout
the Middle Ages ; but a good article, the proverb tells
us, needs no advertisement, or, as the French proverb
hath it, " Au vin qui se vend bien il ne faut point de
lierre."
In the days of our forefathers the streets were nar-
row, and there were no pavements ; while discharging
pipes and running gutters by the sides of the walls
made the centre of the road the more agreeable place
for the traveller. Wheeled conveyances of divers sorts
passing and repassing forced the foot-passenger to the
side of the road, and any tumult or street fight would
drive the conquered pell-mell to take refuge in the
houses or to the shelter of the wall out of the rush.
Hence the proverb, "The weakest goes to the wall."
In "Romeo and Juliet" Sampson and Gregory are
found in the market-place of Verona, and the former
declares, " I will take the wall of any man or maid of
Montague's"; to whom the latter unsympathetically
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replies, "That shows thee a weak slave, for the weak-
est goes to the wall."
The wisdom of our ancestors discovered that " He
who is bom to be hanged will never be drowned," and
our readers will recall how in the "Tempest" Gonzalo
comforts himself in the contemplation of the villainous
ugliness of the boatswain. "I have great comfort,"
he says, " from this fellow : methinks he hath no drown-
ing mark upon him ; his complexion is perfect gallows.
Stand fast, good fate, to his hanging ! Make the rope
of his destiny our cable, for our own doth little advant-
age ! If he be not bom to be hanged our case is miser-
able."
To make our list of quotations exhaustive, and there-
fore probably exhausting, is by no means necessary;
we give but samples from the bulk, and in conclusion
of our present chapter give some few of our commoner
saws and one, or at most two, references to some old
writer's work where it may be encountered. Naturally,
the wording of some of the more ancient quotations is
not always quite that of to-day.
" The potte may goo so longe to water that atte
the last it is broken" we found in a manuscript of
about the year 1545, entitled, "The book of the
Knight of La Tour." The very ancient proverb,
familiar to us in its Biblical garb, about the folly
of the blind leading the blind, will be found in
Grower's "Confessio Amantis" —
"As the blinde another ledeth.
And, till they falle, nothing dredeth."
The constant dropping that wears at length away
a stone we found referred to in a manuscript of
the time of Henry VIII. "So long may a droppe
fall that it may perse a stone."
'*The common proverb, as it is read.
That we should hit the nail on the bead,"
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is a couplet in a little book, "Wit Restor'd," issued
in 1 568, and we also find Skelton writing, " He hyt
the nayle on the hede."
A caution to those who try and steer a deceitful
course between those of opposing interests, treacher-
ously allowing each to think they have exclusive
support, has duly been crystallised into a proverb,
and Lily introduces it in the following passage: —
" Whatsouer I speake to men, the same also I
speake to women. I meane not .to run with the
Hare and holde with the Hounde." "By hook or
by crook " will be found in Spenser's " Fairie Queene."
" Diamond cut diamond " is in Ford's play of " the
Lover's Melancholy." "Every tub must stand upon
its own bottom" occurs in the "Pilgrim's Progress."
" He must have a long spoon that would eat with
the devil" is found in Chaucer and Shakespeare,
amongst other writers. That "The moon is made
of green cheese" is re-asserted by Rabelais and in
the pages of " Hudibras."
In Swift's " polite conversation," proverbs are thickly
strewn. We find the old statement that "You must
eat a peck of dirt before you die," the well-meant
impertinence of "teaching one's grandmother to suck
eggs," the communistic doctrine that "Sauce for the
goose is no less sauce for the gander," and many
other w^ll-worn scraps of ancestral belief and practice.
The wisdom of suiting your position to your circum-
stances, of cutting one's garment according to the
material available, is emphasised in a " Health to the
gentlemanly profession of Serving-Men," a brochure
issued in 1598, where these worthies are warned,
"You, with your fratemitie in these latter dayes
cannot be content to shape your coate according
to your cloth." In Marston's play of "What you
Will," written in 1607, we have a familiar and
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homely caution borrowed from the experience of
the kitchen — " Faith, Doricus, thy braine boils ; keele
it, keele it, or all the fatts in the fire," a proverb
employed when by some inadvertence a man brings
against himself a sudden blaze of wrath.
Proverb-hunting is a very pleasant recreation. We
have left a vast field practically untrodden. We
cannot do better than conclude in the quaint words
of a little pamphlet that we once came across — "a
collection of the Choycest Poems relating to the
late Times" (1662). "Gentlemen, you are invited
here to a feast, and if variety cloy you not, we are
satisfied. It has been our care to please you. These
are select things, a work of time, which for your
sake we publish, assuring you that your welcome
will crown the entertainment. Farewell."
CHAPTER IV
National Idiosyncrasies— The Seven Sages of Greece— Know Thyself—
The Laconic **If" — ^Ancient Greek Proverbs — Roman Proverbs —
The Proverbs of Scotland: Strong Vein of Humour in them —
Spanish and Italian Proverbs — The Proverbs of France — The
'' Com6die des Proverbes " — The Proverbs of Spain : their
Popularity and Abundance ; Historic Interest : their Bibliography
— Italian Proverbs : their Characteristics — The Proverbs of Germany
— Chinese Adages: their Excellence — Japanese Proverbs: their
Poetry and Beauty — Arab Sayings: their Servility: their Humour —
Eastern Delight in Stories — African Sayings : their pithy Wisdom —
The Proverb-philosophy of the Talmud.
While we find a striking similarity existing between
the proverbs of various peoples, many being absolutely
identical, and others teaching the same truths under
somewhat different external guise ; there is also in
many cases a certain local and individual colouring
that g^ves added interest.
We see, too, national idiosyncrasies coming to the
front in the greater prominence given to proverbs
having a bearing in some particular direction. Thus,
a poetic and imaginative people will specially dwell
on proverbs of a picturesque and refined type, while
a thrifty and cautious race will hold in especial
esteem the inculcation of saving, of early rising, of
steady labour, the avoidance of debt and suretyship.
A more impulsive people will care but little for such
thraldom, and will teach in its sayings the delights
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of the present, the pursuit of the pleasures rather than
the duties of life, and the wild doctrine of revenge
against those who thwart their desires ; while an
oppressed and downtrodden race will very faithfully
reflect the oppression under which they lie by the
sayings that find most favour amongst them.
Our English proverbs, like our language, have come
to us from many sources; and while we have some
little store that we may claim as of home-growth,
the greater part has been judiciously borrowed. We
may fairly ascribe to our changeable climate such a
warning adage as the advice to " Make hay while the
sun shines " ; and when a settler on the prairies of
the West clothes the excellent doctrine that every
man for himself should perform the disagreeable
tasks that come in his way, and not seek to transfer
them to other people, in the formula, "Every man
must skin his own skunk," we feel the sentiment to
be redolent of the soil of its birth. The picture it
presents to us is so entirely American that it is
quite needless to search for its origin in the folk-
lore of Wessex or on the banks of the Indus.*
The greater number of the proverbs of ancient
Greece were fraught with allusions to the mythology,
poetry, and national history of Hellas, and thus form
a valuable testimony to the general high level of
intellectual training of this wonderful people. The
"Adagia" of Erasmus contains, as the result of the
search of many years amongst the literary remains
of the classical authors, some five thousand of these
ancient sayings. Many that, from their Latin dress
we ascribe to the Romans, were really derived from
Greek or still earlier sources.
♦ The warning, " We know not under which stone lurks the scorpion,"
could not, for example, have had its birth in England, as it points to a
peril from which we are wholly exempt.
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It will be recalled that those who, from their pre-
eminent wisdom, were entitled, the Seven Sages of
Greece, each inscribed in the Temple of Apollo one
sentence of concentrated wisdom. The best known
and most freely quoted of these was the "Know
thyself," the contribution of Solon of Athens; and
the more we reflect on this the more we realise its
profundity. To know thyself — to know, for example,
thy possibilities of health and strength for strenuous
bodily or mental labour, to know thy worldly status,
and what of influence is there open to thee or closed
against thee ; to know thyself, not as the crowd regards
thee, but in all the secret workings of thy heart, con-
trolling thy actions, biassing thy thoughts, influencing
thy motives ; to step aside out of the bustle of life and
quietly take stock of thyself; to know how thou
standest in view of eternity — that is wisdom. The
maxim of Chilo of Sparta was "Consider the end,"
and that of Bias of Priene the sad indictment, " Most
men are bad." Thales of Miletos declared, and the
yet greater and wiser Solomon was in accord — "Who
hateth suretyship is sure." Periander of Corinth sang
the praise of honest work in "Nothing is impossible
to industry " ; * and Pittacos of Mitylene warned his
hearers and pupils to "Seize Time by the forelock."
The seventh, Cleobulos of Lindos, pinned his faith on
the golden mean, "Avoid extremes." These maxims
passed into general circulation and adoption, and
thus became of proverbial rank. They do not strike
one as being of at all equal value, but there is no
doubt that a man who was fortified, not only by the
knowledge of these precepts, but, more important
yet, by their practice, would be equipped to face
unscathed all the possibilities of life.
In our ordinary English word " laconic " is preserved
* Or in less classic phrase — " It's dogged as does it."
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a curious little allusion. The Lacones or Spartans were
noted amongst the other Greeks for their brusque and
sententious speech, the practice of expressing much in
little. Hence our word laconic, meaning concise, pithy.
Plato wrote that "If anyone desires converse with a
Lacedaemonian he will at first sight appear to him
wanting in thought, in power of utterance, but when
the opportunity arrives, this same man, like a skilful
hurler of the javelin, will hurl a sentence worthy of
the greatest consideration." A good example of this
trait of the Spartans will be seen in their reply to
Philip of Macedon when he threatened them, "If I
enter Laconia I will level your city to the dust"
Their rejoinder was, " If" !
The prostrate Saul was warned that it was hard
for him to "kick against the pricks," to resist the
Higher Power, to rebel against the guiding goad,
and the utterance was a very familiar one in his ears.
It will be found in the Odes of Pindar, the tragedies
of Euripides and iEschylus, and in the writings of
Terence. Another familiar Biblical text is that " One
soweth and another reapeth."* This, too, would
appeal at once to the hearers as a piece of their
own proverbial lore. It is at least as ancient as
Hesiod, who wrote his "Theogony," and introduced
this proverb therein, some nine hundred years before
the Christian era.
It is in all countries an accepted belief that the
Higher Powers, under whatever name worshipped,
help those who help themselves. Thus, the Spaniards
say, "Pray to God and ply the hammer," while the
* "The preaching of the Word is in some places like the planting of
woods, where, though no profit is received for twenty years together, it
Cometh afterwards. And grant that God honoureth not thee to build His
Temple in thy parish, yet thou mayest, with David, provide metals and
materials for Solomon, thy successor, to build it with." — Thomas Fuller,
Ifoly Stoic,
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Greeks taught, " Call on Athene but exert yourself as
well." Another very expressive Greek proverb was " A
piped-out life," as applied to one who, in rioting and
dissipation, in feasting and drunkenness, had carried
out that grim ideal, " A short life and a merry one,"
who to lulling siren song, the harp, the tabret, and
the viol, sailed swiftly down the stream of Time. A
graphic picture again is this — "You have burst in
upon the bees," applied to one who causelessly, need-
lessly meddled with matters that were no concern of
his, and thereby brought swift retribution on himself.
The proverbs bom on Roman soil were considerably
fewer in number than those of Greek birth, and this is
a result that we should naturally anticipate, since the
Romans had not the strong religious feeling, nor the
poetic afflatus, nor the subtle thought of the Greeks.
The Romans in this, as in much else, were borrowers
rather than producers. At the same time the sterling
common-sense and energy of the Roman people is
seen in their proverbs. They are business-like and
practical, inculcating patience, perseverance, independ-
ence, and frugality; dealing in a wise spirit with the
affairs of life, marriage, education, agriculture, and the
like. How true, for instance, to all experience is the
" Aliquis in omnibus est nuUus in singulis," while in
some, heathen as they were in origin, a high moral
sense is reached, as, for example, " Conscientia, mille
testes."
How expressive is " Res in cardine est." The matter
is on the hinge, it must soon now be settled one way or
the other, for, as another proverb hath it, " A door must
be open or shut " — there can here be no middle course of
procrastination and uncertainty. How good, again, the
oft-quoted "Qui cito dat bis dat" — "He giveth twice that
giveth in a trice," as an old English version rhymingly
renders it, or the "Quot homines tot sententiae." " I see
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wel the olde proverbe is true," quoth Gascoigne in his
" Glasse of Government," which saith, " So many men
so many mindes." The French reading is "Autant
dTiommes, autant d'avis."
Our old English proverb about the difficulty of getting
blood out of a stone is paralleled in the ''Aquam a
pumice postulare" of ancient Rome, and the saw,
" Extremis, ut dicitur, digitis attingere " — to touch, so to
speak, with the tips of the fingers — is of special inter-
est to us, as it will be recalled that it is quoted in
the New Testament, and applied to the Pharisees who
laid on others burdens that they themselves would
not touch with one of their fingers.
Our adage, " Opportunity makes the thief," is but the
old Roman " Occasio facet furem."
The brief " Latum unguem " is expressive of those
who cavil and split hairs* over trifles, when not the
breadth of a nail of difference exists between them, and
yet sharp contention is stirred up.
It is needless to dwell at any length on these proverbs
of ancient Rome. Their character and tone of thought
are very English, and therefore many of them we shall
find incorporated in English guise in our midst, while
others find a place in our literature in their original
setting. Amongst these latter we may name, by way
of illustration, "Ab ovo," "Ad captandum vulgus," "Dum
vivimus vivamus," "Ex cathedra," "Facilis est descensus
Averni," " Humanum est errare," " De mortuis nil nisi
bonum," "Carpe diem," "Argumentum ad hominem,"
" Ars est celare artem," " Petitio principii," " Per fas et
nefas," "Ne sutor ultra crepidam," "Vox populi vox Dei,"
and " Festine lente." t
* *' But in the way of bargain, mark ye me,
I'll cavil on the ninth part of a hair."—" Henry IV."
t *< Festina lente, not too fast ;
For haste, the proverb says, makes waste." — " Hudibras."
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While many of the proverbs of Scotland are identical
in significance with our own, and only vary from them by
some slight dialectic influence, there are not a few that
are the special possession of the Scottish people. These
have a very distinct individuality. There is rarely
much grace or tenderness in them, but they contain
abundant common-sense. There is scarcely one that
is pointless, while in most the point is driven home
mercilessly. As maxims of prudence and worldly
morality they are admirable, and have a certain
roughness of expression that is often taking. They
are distinctly canny, and not uncommonly have a
strong touch of saturnine humour.
Many examples are easily recognisable as identical
in spirit with the parallel English adages, the slight
differences of setting giving them an added interest
One gets so used to things when always presented
to us the same way that their value gets dulled, and
a new reading then comes very opportunely. The
Scottish version, "A bird in the hand is worth twa
fleeing bye"* is, we think, a good example of this.
The leading idea in both this and the English declara-
tion that "A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush "
is the greater value of a small certainty than a larger
possibility ; but, while the twittering of the free birds
in the bush may be provoking, there is at least the
possibility of their capture, while the Scottish version
gives a still greater value to our possession, seeing that
even as we grasp it the possibility of increasing our
store is rapidly passing away. In a collection, gathered
together in 1586, we find " It is better to haif ane brede
in hand nor twa in the wood fleande."
Other examples of this practical identity are these :
"Before you choose a friend eat a peck o* saut wi' him";
* The Portuguese is identical : " Mais vaile um passaro na mao do que
dous voando."
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" It's no easy to straucht in the oak the crook that grew
in the sapling." The "sour grapes" of our English
proverb are at once suggested in this northern version :
" Soor plooms, quo' the tod, when he couldna' climb the
tree " ; " 111 weeds wax weel."
The value of this change of diction as an aid to
appreciation is also felt still more when it arises from
some little antiquity. Our most familiar adages, for
instance, seem to possess an added charm when we
find them embedded in the quaint English of the
poems of Chaucer and others of our earlier writers,
and in like manner many of the proverbs given in this
collection of the year 1586 have a special interest The
mere setting is a very secondary point, though not
without importance, since we readily see that what we
need is, in the first and foremost place, the sterling
truth, and then this truth enhanced in value by the
happy way it is presented to our notice. The following
extracts from this collection, gathered together over
three centuries ago, will be of interest: — "The fische
bred in durtie pooles will taiste of mude," " Whane the
sunne schyneth the lyt of the starres ar not seene,"
"All the praise of wertew consisteth in doing," "Wit
is the better gif it be the dearer bocht," "The foull
taide hath a faire stoine in his hede," "The sweite
kirnell lyeth in the harde schell," "The glass anes
crazed will wt the leist clap be crackt," "The fairest
silke is soonest soylede," " He quhilk walde gather
frwite sould plant treis," " Bargaines maid in speid are
comonlie repented at leasure," " Thair is no smoke but
quhair thair is sum fyre," "In grettest charge ar grettest
cares," " A kyndome is more esilie gotten than keipit,"
"Quhen the sone schyneth the cloudis wanish away,"
" The fyne golde must be purified in the flamyng fyre,"
" Greiwous woundes must have smarting plasters,"
"Many thingis happen betwene the cupe and the
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lyp,"* " Thair is no clayth so fine bot mothes will eit it,"
" He that lepeth or he looke may hap to leip in the brook."
Scottish proverbs, despite the assertion that the only
way to get a joke into a Scotchman's head is by a
surgical operation, have a strong vein of humour in
them — a feature that is much more characteristic
of them than of those of any other nationality the
wide world over. What could be happier than this
caution to those whose presence is not desired : " A
weel-bred dog goes out when he sees them going to
kick him out!" "They're keen o' company that tak'
the dog on their back," " Friends are like fiddle-strings^
they maunna be screwed ower tight."
The national shrewdness and mother-wit is naturisilly
reflected in the national proverb-lore. A very quaint
example of this is seen in the warning that "Ye'll
no sell your hens on a rainy day." Drenched and
wretched-looking, no one will look at them ; it is not
at all making the best of things. How excellent is
this hint against avarice: "Greed is envy's auldest
brither, scraggy wark they mak thegither " ; f or this :
" Ne'er let your gear o'ergang you " ; or this : " A
greedy e'e ne'er got a gude pennyworth."
How shrewd such adages as: "Changes are light-
some and fools like them " ; " He that gets gear before
he gets wit is but a short time master of it " ; " He is no
the fool that the fool is, but he that with the fool deals";
" Oft counting keeps friends lang thegither," the English
equivalent being, "Short reckonings make long friends";
" A wise man gets learning fra' them that hae nane i*
* In French: "Entre la bouche et le verre, le vln souvent tombe k
terre."
+ Yet it must be remembered that —
** When I hae saxpence under my thumb,
Then I get credit in ilka toon,
But when I hae naethin' they bid me gang by,
Hech ! poverty parts gude company."
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their ain " ; " Better a gude fame than a gude face " ;
" He that seeks motes gets motes " ; * " 111 payers are
aye gude cravers " ; " He speaks in his drink what he
thinks in his drouth." Prosperous people can afford to
listen to envious remarks, for "A fu' sack can bear a
clout in the side," and be never the worse for it.
There is a sharp touch of sarcasm in many of these
northern adages: "The deil's journeyman ne'er wants
wark." How true to life the feeling,yet how deftly pointed
the satire, " They are aye gude that are far awa," or this
very similar utterance, "They're no a' saints that get the
name o't" A valuable lesson, too, to people consumed
with a sense of their own importance is this : "The king
lies doun, but the world runs round." The point
becomes sharper yet in the statement that a "Green
turf is a gude mother-in-law " — that is to say, this par-
ticular member of the family is best in the churchyard.
An old Engish proverb says that " Almost and very
nigh save many a lie " ; but the Scotch say, " Amaist
and very near hae aye been great liars." The two dicta
are in direct opposition, yet both may be accepted.
The power of money to make money is very pictur-
esquely expressed by " Put twa pennies in a purse and
they'll creep thegither." Down south we say that
"Experience is a dear school, but fools will learn in
no other " ; but the Scottish method is wiser, if prac-
ticable, though there is a touch of selfishness in it:
"Better learn frae your neebor's skaith (misfortune)
than frae your ain."
It is very true that " His you are whom you. serve," t
and "They that work i' the mill maun wear the
livery." How full, too, of wise teaching : " When you
* He who mixes with unclean things becomes unclean.
t " Quien sirve no est libre," say the Spaniards — " He who serves is
not free " ; while an old English proverb reminds us that " He who rides
behind another does not saddle when he pie
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dance ken who you talc' by the hand," and realise what
the association involves. The mighty power of in-
fluence, and the responsibility that rests on us for our
actions, the impossibility of arresting the ever-widening
circle is well seen in the hint : " If the laird slight the
lady sae will the kitchen boy." The saying, "Ye hae
gude manners, but ye dinna bear them about wi' ye,"
is a very delicate way of saving the amour propre of the
reproved while indicating evident shortcomings. How
quaintly picturesque the adage, again, "Like a chip
amang parritch, little gude, little ill," to describe some
wholly immaterial thing.
The proverbs of the three great Latin races — French,
Italian, and Spanish — are naturally very similar, and
are practically interchangeable, all having sprung from
the same stock, and thrown into one great store-house.
We cannot too distinctly bear in mind that, because a
proverb greets us in French, or Italian, or Danish, we
must not at once class it as a French, an Italian, or a
Danish utterance alone. The inner idea is probably
cosmopolitan, and its outer garb is of very little im-
portance ; yet, as we have already said, the idiosyncrasy
of each people affects their borrowing from the common
store, and greatly influences any additions they may
make. Instead, therefore, of classifying certain proverbs
as French or German, which ordinarily they are not, we
should really think of such a gathering as merely French
or German individualism, selecting to taste from the
general hoard. An old writer says : " The Spanish and
Italian proverbs are counted the most Curious and Sig-
nificant — the first are remarkable for Gravity and fine
Instruction, the Latter for Beauty and Elegance, tho'
they are a little tinctured with Levity and have too
much of the Amour. This last Variety is the Imper-
fection of many of the French, tho' otherwise they are
very Fine and Bright, and solemnly Moral as well as
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Facetious and Pleasant" This verdict, though some-
what quaintly worded, is a very discriminating and just
one : we should be inclined to add to it in the case of
the typically French proverbs a rather characteristic
touch of conceit and gasconade. The Frenchman
ordinarily studies effect a good deal.
Despite a certain unpleasant sneering at women, as in
the proverb, " A deaf husband and a blind wife make
the best couple," and others that affect to hold feminine
virtue, constancy, truthfulness and the like in poor
esteem, the Frenchman appears to preserve a perennial
spring of affection for his mother and a fervent belief in
its reciprocity on her part. Hence, in all proverb-lore,
dramatic representation, poetry, oratory, this special
relationship is a sacred one, and we get in an arid desert
of cynicism so sweet an oasis as, " Tendresse maternelle
toujours se renouvelle."
Such proverbs in common use in France as " A cheval
donn6 il ne faut point regarder k la bouche," " Les
murailles ont des oreilles," " II n*y a que le premier pas
qui coute," " II ne faut pas parler de corde dans la maison
d*un pendu," are but cosmopolitans in French garb. In
England we find that " A bad workman finds fault with
his tools," but in France this is softened down a little
and becomes, " Mechant ouvrier jamais ne trouvera bons
outils." Our picturesque declaration that it is some-
times advisable to "Throw away a sprat to catch a
herring," loses somewhat in "II faut hazarder un petit
poisson pour prendre un grand." The Gallic "A
beau jour beau retour," is a very pleasant variant of
our saying, " One good turn deserves another." There
is in the English version a somewhat unpleasant
suggestion of barter and bargain in this exchange of
help, " Nothing for nothing, and not much for a half-
penny." ♦ On the other hand, our " Diamond cut
• " Donner est mort et prater est bien malade.*'
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diamond " is pleasanter in expression than the cruder
" Ruse contre ruse."
We have already seen how an English playwright
once wrote a comedy in which he introduced English
proverbs ad nauseam, and we find, in like manner, in
France, a French author, Adrien de Montluc, writing in
the year 1615 or thereabouts, a play called the "Com^die
des Proverbes," where we find strung together dialogue-
wise all the most familiar adages then current in France.*
The proverbs of Spain are very numerous, and are
often distinguished by a stately sententiousness, much
thoughtfulness, a strong sense of chivalry and honour,
and very frequently, with these good qualities, a very
happy dash of humour or irony. Ford declares that
this abounding proverb-lore "gives the Spaniard his
sententious dogmatical admixture of humour, truism,
twaddle, and common-sense." A proverb aptly intro-
duced is a decisive argument, and is always greeted
with approval by high and low, an essentially national
characteristic. It will be recalled how Sancho Panza
has an adage for every emergency. The Don uses his
own words, being a man of fine fancy and good breeding,
to express his own ideas, but the vocabulary of his
Squire is almost entirely composed of the well-nigh
inexhaustible proverbs of his country. The Arabs,
whose language is rich in such wisdom, doubtless
furnished numerous contributions to this very marked
feature of the national literature.
Many of the Spanish proverbs are of very great
antiquity. One interesting example to the historian
is connected with an incident that happened at the
• Those interested may turn for fuller treatment of the proverbs of
France to the ** Six mille proverbes" of C. Cahier, published in Paris in
1836, to the ** Lavre des proverbes Fran9ais " of Le Roux de Lincy, 1859,
or the ** Petite Encyclop^e des proverbes Fran9ais" of Hilaire le Gais,
i860.
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beginning of the twelfth century. It is very rarely that
one can trace the actual birth of a proverb, but in the
present example, "Laws go where kings please to
make them," the origin is known. The Church of
Spain was in these early days greatly disturbed by a
contest as to whether the Roman or the Gothic liturgy
should be adopted, and at last the king, Alfonso VI.,
gave orders for a decisive test and definite settlement.
A fire was lighted and duly blessed by the Archbishop,
and then a copy of each of these liturgies was dropped
into it, it being decided that whichever escaped
destruction should be recognised as the true rite. The
Gothic text emerged unconsumed from this fiery test,
but the king, displeased at the way things had gone,
tossed it back again into the fire, and thus arose
the proverb, " Alia van leyes adonde quieren reyes."
Many proverbs again will be found in the "Chronica
General," one of the oldest Spanish books.
The Marquis of Santillana collected some 700 proverbs
— " such," he says, " as the old women were wont to use
in their chimney-comers." These were published in
the year 1 508. The " Cartas " of Blasco de Garay
appeared soon after this, and went through many
editions. The author was one of the cathedral staff at
Toledo, and his book was thrown into epistolary form,
almost every sentence being a popular adage. The
"cartas" concluded with a devout prayer that his
labours might tend to edification.
In the year 1549 we have an alphabetical collection
of over 4000 adages compiled by Valles, while a famous
scholar and professor at the University of Salamanca,
Hernan Nufiez de Guzman, accumulated over 6000.
These were published in 1555, by a brother professor,
two years after the death of Nufiez. While acting as
literary executor he somewhat ungraciously declared
that respect for his friend and not for the dignity of the
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task was his motive. In 1568, Mai Lara selected from
the compilation of Nuftez 1000 of the best examples,
added some explanatory or appreciative comments to
each, and sent them out into the world under the title
" The Philosophy of the Common People."
Caesar Oudin published in Paris in 1608 the " Refranes
o Proverbios Castellanos." These were translated into
French, and form a very interesting and valuable book.
While the gleanings of Mai Lara were especially
intended to foster a practical working philosophy of life,
Juan Sorapan de Rieros, in his ** Medicina Espaftola
en Proverbios Vulgares," took up the medical side,
dealing alone with such utterances of popular wisdom
as bore on the healing art
Bartolom^ Ximinez Paton, in the year 1567, published
a collection of over 1000 Greek and Latin proverbs, with
a translation into Spanish, and, where practicable, the
addition of a parallel or illustrative Castilian proverb.
The book passed through many editions. The trans-
lations into the vernacular were in terse rhymes. Other
collections, needless to particularise, though good to see,
are those of Palmer ino, Juan de Yriarte, and Cejudo,
all of considerable antiquity, while so recently as 181 5
was published in Barcelona the " Refranes de la Langua
Castellana," and to this list others could no doubt be
added. It will have oeen observed that the word,
" Proverbios " is not employed, but " Refrane," a term
derived from a referendOy because it describes a thing
that is often repeated, an idea that we are familiar with
in our common word " refrain."
How happily does this Spanish proverb satirise the
readiness to resent what may have been, after all, a
quite innocent remark, " He who takes offence has
eaten garlic." The cap, as we say in English, fits. How
happy again the sarcasm against awkward and
inexpert helpers, " She tucked up her sleeves and over-
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turned the kettle." The deference paid to wealth, the
smoothing of the path, is graphically hit off in the adage,
" An ass loaded with gold overtakes everything." The
man who can perhaps scarce write his name will find
many to flatter him if his coffers be full.* On the other
hand how good the counsel, " Seek not for a good man's
pedigree," t or this, " Advice whispered is worthless," for
anything secret may well be regarded with suspicion,
and sincerity needs no veil. How happy again the
saying, " I have a good doublet in France," as applied
to those who boast of something that cannot be come
at ; or the advice to avoid over-familiarity, " Shut your
door and you will make your neighbour a good one." t
A somewhat similar saying is this, " When the door is
shut the work improves," for gossiping means dis-
traction and neglect of duty. "Do not go every
evening to the house of your brother." There is sound
common-sense in the statement that " An indolent
magistrate will have thieves every market-day," since
his easy-going neglect of his duties will produce
a goodly crop of knaves. Those who solemnly tell as
news what all can learn for themselves are happily
ridiculed in the assertion that "When the spouts run
the streets will be wet," or they are described as
"guessing at things through, a sieve," § making a
mystery of what anyone can see at a glance.
" Those that fly may fight again.
Which he can never do that's slain,"
we learn in " Hudibras," and the sentiment re-appears in
* In France they say, ** Clef d*or ouvre toutes sortes de serrures."
t " I weigh the man, not his title : 'tis not the king's stamp can make
the metol better."— Wycherley, 7'A< F/ain Dealer.
J The Germans happily say, **Liebe deinen Nachbar, reiss, aber den
Zaun nicht ein" — "Love your neighbour, but do not pull down the hedge."
§The sieve re-appears very graphically again in this : ** A grain does
not fill a sieve, but it helps its companion to do so."
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the Spanish adage, "It is better they should say, here
he ran away, than here he died." The English dictum
" Charity begins at home," is paralleled in this, " My
teeth are nearer to me than my kindred," while our
" Well begun is half done " re-appears in " A beard well
lathered is half shaved." The well-known English pro-
verb, "One cannot make a silk purse out of a sow's ear,"
is happily rendered in Spain by the assertion, " A pig's
tail will not make a good arrow"; while our advice to the
cobbler to stick to his last, to attend to what he under-
stands, has its counterpart in "Fritterman, to thy fritters."
The temptation to quote is great, but we will, in
conclusion, set down but half-a-dozen more, leaving their
interpretation to the sapience of our readers. " A
friend to everybody and to nobody is the same thing,"
"Truth and oil are ever above," "Words and feathers
are carried away by the wind," "A little gall makes
bitter much honey," " It is better to accept one than to
be promised two," " When we have crossed the sea the
saint is forgotten."
The proverbs of fair Italy are very numerous. While
not a few are sound in teaching and justly extol the
ways of truth and uprightness, of honour and righteous
dealing, others are too often merely the advocates of
unmitigated selfishness, are strongly imbued with
cynicism, and teach a general distrust and suspicion and
the glorification of revenge. The political condition of
the country, split up for so many centuries into petty
principalities and republics, in an almost constant state
of jealousy and feud, has no doubt greatly influenced its
proverb-lore. Thus, " Who knows not to flatter, knows
not to reign," tells of a government at the mercy of
cabals, while the saying, "An open countenance, but
close thoughts," indicates the wisdom in an atmosphere
of suspicion of a seeming content and the importance
of great reticence of speech; while the ingratitude of
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princes is summed up in the adage, " He who serves at
court dies on straw."* Fierce insurrection and
sanguinary suppression have fed the fiery Southern
temperament with burning hatred. Hence we get
utterances so terrible in their vindictiveness as these:
"He who cannot revenge himself is weak, he who will not
is contemptible"; "Revenge of a hundred years old hath
still its sucking teeth " — is yet but at its commencement.
What internecine strife becomes under such influence is
seen in the utterance, " When war begins hell opens."
The soft Italian tongue lends itself readily to musical
rhythm and pleasing alliteration, features that are
ordinarily entirely lost in translation. This attractive
cadence may be seen, for instance, in " Chi piglia
leoni in assenza suol temer dei topi in presenza," or
" Chi ha arte da per tutto ha parte." There is often,
too, a pregnant brevity, as " Amor regge senza legge,"
and a very happy use of hyperbole.
The proverb-literature of Italy is very extensive.
In the year 1591 Florio, by birth an Englishman,
by extraction an Italian, published in London " II
giardino di Ricreatione," a collection of some 6000
Italian adages; and a little later another Italian,
Torriano, followed his example, he also being resident
in England. Angelus Monozoni, in the year 1604, P"^"
lished in Italy another book on the subject, and in
1642 Julius Varini gave to the world his "Scuola del
Vulgo." A much more recent and altogether excel-
lent series is the "Raccolta di Proverbi Toscani" of
Guiseppe Guisti, issued at Florence in 1853, ^^^ con-
taining over 6000 examples.
" It is a foolish bird," we say, " that fouls its own
nest," a sentiment that the Italians reproduce in their
* Another expressive proverb tells that, " Courtiers are shod with water-
melon rind," a somewhat slippery and uncertain foot-gear, rendering one's
footing not particularly safe.
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adage, "Mad is the priest who blasphemes his own
relics." A higher point is reached in this, "We are
all clay and God is the potter," and this, " Who has
God for a friend has the saints in his pocket." Their
intervention is needless. Another fine proverb is
found in " Who doth not burn doth not inflame " — he
must himself be on fire who would kindle ardour in
others. "The favour gained, the saint derided,"
appears needlessly strong — "neglected" would have
been trujpr to human nature.* "Sin (confessed is half
*^i (^ pardoned^' is true and good. "Everyone cannot have
; liis house on the piazza," all cannot expect the best
^ "" ' position, is quaint and of sound philosophy. " He
who flings gold away with his hands seeks it with
his feet," wandering forth in beggary and want. To
such we may commend the warning, "Work in jest,
want in earnest" In every nation the virtue of silence
is upheld, and the Italians have many proverbs that
deal with this : thus the gain of quiet listening is seen
in this — " Talkers sow, the silent reap," reap rich wis-
dom from the words of the wise, prudence and caution
from the loquacity of the thoughtless. The undigni-
fied flow of explanation, the lack of reserve in face
of misfortune, are rebuked in the saying, "Words in
plenty when the cause is lost."
In that mine of wisdom, the book of EcclesiasteSy
we are warned that " He that observeth the wind shall
not sow, and he that regardeth the clouds shall not
reap," and the Italians in like manner declare that
" He that looks at every cloud never makes the journey."
The intuitive gift of womankind to realise the best
course of action is the subject of proverbs the wide
world over. In Italy it appears as " Women, wise on
a sudden, fools on reflection." Every nation, too,
appears to have some little tinge of self-righteousness,
* '* In prosperity no altars smoke " is like unto it. This too is Italian.
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some sarcasm to spare for those outside its borders.
Thus we are told that if one scratches a Russian we
get at once to the Tartar beneath ; and the Spaniard
says, " Take away from a Spaniard his good qualities
and there remains a Portuguese." The Italian in like
manner has a proverbial rebuke for those who " drink
wine like a German — in the morning, neat ; at dinner
without water ; at supper, as it comes from the bottle " ;
and says, "May my death come to me from Spain,"
for so it will be long in coming — a hit at the Spanish
habit of procrastination and the wearisome delays that
thwart the despatch of business in that easy-going land
where " manana " (to-morrow) is one of the commonest
of expressions.*
Many of the proverbs of Italy are, naturally, not
exclusively Italian, but when the Florentine declares
that " Arno swelleth not without becoming turbid," we
have a distinctly local application of the broad truth
that they who would acquire riches quickly may fall
into a snare, and that a sudden prosperity may be
achieved at the expense of a soiled conscience. " II
remedio e peggio del male " is but an Italian version
of the generally-accepted adage, " The remedy is worse
than the disease," and " Una rondina non fa primavera "
is their rendering of a truth familiar to us in the state-
ment that "One swallow does not make a summer,"
a proverb of wide acceptance. In France it is " Une
hirondelle ne fait pas le printemps " ; in Holland, " Een
swaluw maakt geen zomer " ; in Spain, " Una golondrina
no hace verano." We find it, too, equally at home in
Germany, Sweden, and many other lands. Its sig-
nificance is repeated in another Italian proverb that
tells us that " One flower does not make a garland."
A very characteristic utterance is that "Summer is
* The old English proverb declares that ** By the Street of By-and-by
one arrives at the House of Never."
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the mother of the poor," life in sunny Italy being then
less arduous to the indigent, and the problems of exist-
ence appear by no means so exacting.
The thorough-going character of German work is
itself almost proverbial, and the treatment of the
national proverbs in the "Deutsches Sprichworter-
Lexicon" is an excellent illustration of this German
thoroughness, the editor having managed to gather
in over 80,000. Another excellent compilation is that
of Dr. Wilhelm Korte.
The proverbs, native or imported, that find most
favour in the Fatherland are ordinarily excellent in
quality and full of sterling good sense. We occasion-
ally meet with rhyming examples, as in " Mutter treu
wird taglich neu," a mother's love is ever fresh ; or the
less tender "Ehestand, wehestand," marriage state,
mournful state ; or " Stultus und Stolz wachset aus
einem Holz," stupidity and pride grow on one bush ;
or again, in " Wie gewonnen so zerronen"; our " Lightly
come, lightly go." But these rhyming adages do not
appear to be so characteristic a feature in German
proverb-lore as in some other nationalities. The Eng-
lish protest as to the absurdity of carrying coals to
Newcastle* is in Germany the equally needless task
of carrying water to the sea — " Wasser ins Meer tragen."
Another picturesque proverb is " Die siissessten Trauben
hangen am hochsten," the sweetest grapes hang the
highest. The greedy are rebuked in the adage — " The
eyes here are bigger than the stomach," and the
thoughtless and thriftless are warned that " One may
in seeking a farthing burn up three candles." The
difficulty in pleasing some people is felt as much in
* ** To send you any news from hence were to little purpose, ours being
little else but the translation of English or French ; and to send you our
news from England were to carry coals to Newcastle." — "Thoresby Cor-
respondence," 1682.
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Grermany as elsewhere and is expressed in the proverb,
" No tree will suit the thief to be hung on " ; and there
is the equally true remark, "There are many more
thieves than gallows," many escape detection and
punishment. "Woman and the moon," we are told,
"shine with borrowed light," and the wife, in "die
Hausfrau soil nit sein eine Ausfrau," is advised that
her duties lie within the home and not outside it. It
is, however, evident that to treat at any length on the
proverbial lore even of Europe would mean .not a
volume alone but a shelf of goodly folios, a prospect
much too overpowering. We pass then at once to a
quite different sphere, and seek in widely different
peoples some expression of their modes of thought
and principles of action, as revealed to us in their
popular dicta, and we may at once say that the search
will result in the decision that, however much the outer
envelope may differ, the inner thought will reveal to
us that man, wherever we find him, is swayed by
much the same impulses and guided by much the
same motives, as he thinks over the problems of life.
The resident in a mansion in Mayfair, in a kraal in
Zululand, in a sanpan on some Chinese river, differ
widely enough in extemab and in much else, but we
would venture to say that any good collection of
proverbs, if rendered in the vernacular of each district,
might travel round the world and find appreciation in
every land. The burnt child dreads the fire in Samoa
as in Salisbury, and that prosperity makes friends,
and adversity proves them, is a piece of world-wide
experience.
Chinese proverbs do not appear to be very numerous,
but they are often very happily phrased and thought
out. •'As the twig is bent so the tree is inclined,**
we say, and in China they have the same idea, " The
growth of the mulberry tree is as its youth." Filial
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respect and the duties of friendship and hospitality
are often enforced in this Celestial teaching. Thus,
" At home respecting father and mother, what need at
a distance to burn incense?" so only the heart be
right, no need of ceremonial and formal observance.
**To meet an old friend is as the delightfulness of
rain after drought." On the other hand, " If a man
does not receive guests at home he will meet with
very few hosts abroad." The upholders of the " spare
the rod and spoil the child " system of education of
which Solomon was so distinguished an exponent will
be in full sympathy with the Chinese view, "Pitying
your child, give him much cudgel."
On our journey through life we may find, as they
have done in the far East, that "If you do not entreat
their assistance all men will appear good-natured,"
but " The sincerity of him who assents to everything
must be small." "Master easy, servant lazy," is only
too true. It is again a common experience that, as
we say in England, " One man may steal a horse while
another may not look over the gate," a state of things
that they yet more forcibly express in China as " One
man may set the town in a blaze, another may not
light his lantern." What graceful lessons of trust in
a Higher Power are these : " Every blade of grass has
its share of the dews of heaven," " Though the birds of
the forest have no garners the wide world is before
them." To avoid even the semblance of evil we are
quaintly told, " In melon patch tie not shoe, under
plum-tree touch not cap," actions innocent in them-
selves, but possibly giving rise to misapprehensions !
The exigencies of the Chinese language make a
literal translation often scarcely endurable or possible,
while a lengthened paraphrase gives a wordiness that
is not a true reflection of the epigrammatic pithiness
of the original. Thus in Chinese "Yaou chi sin fo
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sze tau ting kow chung yen " is " Wishing to know
heart's thoughts listen to mouth " — that is to say, if you
would desire to find out what most engages a man's
thoughts you have only to listen to his conversation,
for a man's words reflect his disposition, and he will
thus, surely though unconsciously, reveal himself to
you. The wisdom of knowing oneself, of offering
something more than a formal service, are admirably
enforced in these two heathen proverbs, redolent with
the teaching of the New Testament : " If a man be not
enlightened within, what lamp shall he light?" "If
a man's intentions are not upright, what sacred book
shall be recite? " " By a long journey we know a horse's
strength, and length of days shows a man's heart" How
beautiful, again, the imagery in this description of the
swift flight of the days and years of human life : " Time
is like an arrow, days and months as a weaver's shuttle."
How excellent the lesson of contentment with one's
lot, " All ten fingers cannot be of the same length," yet
all have their work to do. How good the lesson of
forethought, of prevision of coming needs in this:
"The tiles which protect thee in the wet season
were fabricated in the dry." How prudent the
advice: "He who wishes to know the road across
the mountains must ask him who has trodden it,"
must be willing to profit by the experience of the
experienced, and take counsel. There is a rich mine
of wealth for the social economist, for the agitator
who would set one class against another, in the follow-
ing: "Without the wisdom of the learned the clown
could not be governed, without the labour of the clown
the learned could not be fed."
The mischief that may be wrought by evil speaking,
the impossibility of recalling a hasty word, of cancel-
ling a false judgment, is emphasised in the picturesque
declaration that "A coach and horses cannot bring
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back a spoken word." How true the economic
warning, " Who borrows to build builds to sell." How
equally true the moral warning, " The forming of resent-
ments is the planting of misery." How needful often
the caution, "A single false move loses the game," a
single false step may wreck a life.
Nothing can afford a better insight into the character
and thoughts of a people than a consideration of their
every-day utterances. If we were told a hundred
things that a man had said we should have an excel-
lent knowledge of the man, and if we read a hundred
sayings that a nation accepts as guides, the nation
stands revealed before us. Judged by this standard,
and it is an entirely reasonable and just one, the
Japanese come excellently out of the ordeal. Many
suffer much in translation — the beauty of their outward
presentment, as apart from their inner meaning, their
manner as apart from their matter, consists often in
an untranslatable play of words. Many are like ours,
for God made of one blood all nations, thus : " Cows to
cows, horses to horses," is practically our " Birds of a
feather flock together." We append some few illustra-
tions of the wealth and beauty of this Japanese
proverb-wisdom ; and while we forbear to make any
comment, we would ask our readers to ponder on
each one: "The frog in the well knows nothing of
the great sea " ; " Overdone politeness is but rude-
ness " ; ** A famous sword may be made from an iron
scraper"; "The mouth is the door of mischief";
"Impossibility is a good reason"; "More words, less
sense " ; " Making an idol does not give it a soul " ;
"To submit is victory"; "The spawn of frogs will
become but frogs " ; " Sword-wounds may be healed,
word-wounds are beyond healing " ; " Enquire seven
times before you doubt anyone " ; " Good medicine
may yet be bitter to the taste"; "If you handle
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cinnabar you will become red"; "Too much done
is nothing done"; "Who steals money is killed, who
steals a country is a king " ; " Good doctrine needs
no miracle."
The Arabs delight in figurative language and happy
comparisons and allusions ; hence proverbs are con-
stantly in use. Many of them have a strong touch
of humour and sarcasm. John Lewis Burckhardt,
after a very long residence in Cairo, made a collection
of these, and they were published under the title of
" The Manners and Customs of the Modern Egyptians,
illustrated from their proverbial sayings." In this he
was greatly assisted by native helpers, and the book
is a most valuable one. The examples are 999 in
number, the author adopting a notion prevalent
amongst the Arabs that even numbers bring mis-
fortune, and that anything perfect in its quantity is
especially affected by the evil-eye. By this means he
doubtless received much valuable help from the natives
that would otherwise have been withheld. Many of
these proverbs are rhythmical in structure in their
original form, but this feature is lost ordinarily in a
translation. Long centuries of misrule have had their
influence on the people, and the oppression of the
strong, the insecurity of the weak, the power of
bribery, the denial of justice, the imprudence of any
independence of spirit, are revealed in these maxims.
Such a saying as "What does heaven care for the
cries of the dogs?" has a sadly hopeless ring about
it, while the depth of servility is reached in this:
"When the monkey reigns dance before him," in
utter abasement of spirit "If thou seest a wall
inclines run from under it" — that is to say, shout ever
on the stronger side, and fly from him whose rule is
tottering. Another striking adage is " He strikes me,
and says why does he cry out?" the surprise of the
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unjust overseer that anyone should presume to raise
any objection to his injustice and tyranny ; while the
prudence of being on the stronger side is seen again in
this: "If the moon be with thee thou needest not to
care about the stars." We would fain hope that a
brighter day has now risen on this ancient land.
We have in the adage, "Truly the sword inspires
dread even in its scabbard," a further suggestion of the
fear inspired by those in authority; while the depth
of misery, of callous brutality, is seen in " Thou takest
from the sore-footed his sandal," the man is hopelessly
crippled. Double-dealing and the evil of a sham
friendship inspires the idea in "He said to the thief,
steal, and to the householder, take care of thy goods " ;
while the selfish man is warned that in the day of
trouble he need look for no assistance from others, for
" He who eats alone chokes alone." " Three," another
proverb tells us, "if they unite against a town, will
ruin it," for while "Union is strength" for good, it is
no less powerful for harm.
A quaint and delightful humour, as we have said, is a
frequent attribute of these Arab utterances ; thus the
generosity of those who only give away what they
have no need for is very happily satirised in the
saying that "The dogs had enough, and then made
presents to each other out of their leavings." How
pithily, too, the braggart is brought before us in the
saying, "If they had not dragged me from underneath
him I should have killed him ! " The sense of supreme
self-importance is capitally illustrated in the saying,
"They came to shoe the pacha's horses, and the
beetle stretched out his leg." The liberties that
some people venture on with impunity when they
think it safe are very happily brought home to us
in the saying, " The captain loves thee, wipe thy hand
on the sail." There is a good deal of quiet humour.
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too, in this, "He fled from the rain and sat down
beneath the waterspout," a case of what in England
we should call "Out of the frying-pan into the fire."
How true, again, the proverb, "The camel has his
schemes, and the camel- driver has his schemes," the
interests of the driven and the driver being ordinarily
very different; or this again, "The barber learns his
art on the orphan's face," on the poor and the friend-
less who cannot resent an indignity or adequately
protect themselves from maltreatment* Of people
who receive a piece of good fortune that they neither
desire nor appreciate, the proverb, " A rose fell to the
share of the monkey," holds good. It is also a warn-
ing against a thoughtless distribution of good things
without heed to their appropriateness.
The picturesque expression, "Hunting dogs have
scratched faces," is a wholesome recognition of the
honour of the scars gained in honest labour; while
the adage, " He walks on top of the wall and says I
trust in God," is a reproof to those who needlessly and
deliberately place themselves in positions of peril or
temptation and then expect providence to step in and
save them from the consequences of their folly. " God
grant us no neighbour with two eyes " is the cry of the
knave who would prefer that those around him should
be a little blind to his proceedings.
"If they call thee reaper, whet thy scythe"; en-
deavour so far as may be to rise to the position, and
show the title deserved. Inculcating the lesson of
gratitude, we read, " A well from which thou drinkest,
throw not a stone into it." Our proverb that declares
that " The shoemaker's wife is the worst shod " has its
Arab counterpart in the adage, "She went to sleep
hungry, though her husband is a baker." The mischief
* The French sulage, ** A barbe de fou on apprendre i raire " is very
similar.
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done by careless speech in the land of the scimitar is
enforced in the saying, "The tongue is the neck's
enemy." " A single grain makes the balance heavier,"
and when two courses of action seem of almost equal
importance, a very slight difference will turn the scale
in favour of one or the other. The lesson of inter-
dependence, the power of the small to assist the great, is
indicated in " The date-stone props up the water-jar."
" He left off sinning but never asked forgiveness " very
graphically describes those who think reformation
sufficient, and take no heed of bygone days, make no
atonement for the old wrongs, solicit no pardon from
those they have injured. " It is a fire, to-morrow it will
be ashes," the fierce heat of passion will have subsided,
the glowing sense of wrong will have burnt itself out,
and calm or apathy will take its place. The stronger
the emotion the less likely is it to be lasting.
The delight in stories is a very marked feature of the
Arab, and many of their proverbs are the pith and
point of some narrative that their use at once recalls.
Thus, when they say " Dust is good for the eyes of the
wolf," it recalls the hyprocrisy of the wolf who was
asked why he was following after those poor sheep?
He explained that he had found that the cloud of
dust they created was good for his poor eyes ! When
a business is found to be somewhat risky they tell how
one said to the mouse, "Take these two pounds of
sugar and go carry this letter to the cat." "The fee
is good enough," she replied, "but the business is
tiresome." The wisdom of keeping one's own counsel
is seen in the dialogue between master and servant.
The former said, "O slave, I have bought thee."
"That is thy business," he replied. "Wilt thou run
away?" "That is my business," he answered — a
policy of non-committal.
Even amongst the savage tribes of Africa the proverb
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is greatly esteemed, and many of the maxims in com-
mon use are abundantly shrewd, while not a few of
them have a very homely ring in them. Our English
experience that " Fine words buttef no parsnips " runs
on all-fours with the West African savage's discovery
that " The best words give no food " ; while our bad
exchange from the frying-pan to the fire is paralleled
in the saying, " He fled from the sword and hid in the
scabbard." The desirability of not too hastily trusting
plausible strangers is very effectively taught in " Make
not friends by the way, lest you lose your knife."
Over 2000 of these popular proverbs were col-
lected by Richard Burton and given to the world
as " Wit and Wisdom from West Africa," and a very
interesting collection it is. Another good store will
be found in the "Dahomey and the Dahomans" by
Commander Forbes, R.N., and various missionaries
have added to our fund of knowledge,* so that even
stay-at-home people have abundance of interesting
material brought within their ken.
That unreachable date of classic folk-lore, the Greek
Calends, has its quaint counterpart in the African
saying, " I will pay thee when the fowls cut their
teeth." A lesson on the importance of keeping up
one's dignity, even in Yoruba circles, is given in the
hint, "If thou husketh corn with the fowl it will not
esteem thee." The animal life all around the village
is naturally pressed into the service and made to con-
tribute its share of proverb-lore. How quaintly happy,
for instance, is this, "If stretching were wealth, the
cat would be rich." How many a man in West Africa
and elsewhere would be well content to find so easy
* As, for instance, " The Oji Language, with a G)Ilection of Native Pro-
verbs," by the Rev. H. N. Riis. The sketch of the Akra language by
the Rev. J. Zimmerman, of the Efik language by the Rev. Hugh Goldie,
of the Yoruba by the Rev. J. Bowen, all give many examples of proverbs.
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a road to affluence. How equally happy this, "If
there were no elephant in the jungle the buffalo would
be a great animal " ; or this, " One who has elephant's
flesh does not search for crickets." What a shrewd
humour again in the statement that " When the mouse
laughs at the cat there is a hole near." By continuous
effort much may be accomplished,* for "String added
to string will bind a leopard" — a lesson taught again
in this saying, "By going and coming the bird builds
its nest"t How true again the statement that " One
cannot deceive a baboon by tricks"; in all such he
is more than one's match, and the trickster must be
foiled by quite other methods. To try and outwit
a knave is a hopeless task and is, moreover, bad for
one's self-respect It is well to see some return for
one's outlay; it is bad enough to "buy," in English
parlance, " a pig in a poke," but in Africa they carry
the idea yet further and declare that "It is not well
to buy the foot-prints of a bullock," while another
caution as to the disposal of one's property is very
aptly given in the reminder that " No one gives his
pig to the hyena to keep," this keeping being in such
case all too thoroughly seen to.
The Akra-man tells us that "The thread follows
the needle " ; in other words, certain consequences will
naturally follow certain actions, and these results, good
or bad, may be confidently anticipated when we have
once set the machinery to work. He tells us, too,
that " Food you will not eat you do not boil " ; people
will not willingly work at any task unless in some
way or other they see their advantage in it. Another
illustration of consequences following upon a certain
line of action is seen in the proverb, " A stick that
* The Italians say, ** Piuma a piuma se pela I'occha," feather by feather
the goose was stripped.
t This recurs in the French, ** Petit k petit Toiseau £Eut son nid."
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goes into the fire begins to bum " ; a deliberate entry
into any temptation will scarcely leave one unscathed.
Another quaint little piece of worldly wisdom is that
"If you lay your snare in company you go in com-
pany to look at it " — if you avail yourself of the help
of others, they in turn will expect a share of any
resulting good fortune.
The Yoruba-man warns you that "When a man
says he will give you a gun, ask his name " — that is
to say, when a stranger displays a quite unexpected
interest in you, and develops a quite unlooked-for
generosity, it would be well before you accept his
gift to find out something about him, and what his
motive may be for this sudden friendship. "Lay
on, lay on, makes a load," a fact that the man or
beast that has to carry it realises sooner than the
person packing. The repeated addition of small
things soon mounts into a considerable burden. "A
canoe is paddled on both sides," — no half-measures, no
want of unanimity, will suffice when some joint task
has to be formed ; it must be " a long pull, a strong
pull, and a pull altogether," if any good is to come
of it. We see the sudden impulse, the overmastering
temptation, forcibly expressed in this, "When gold
comes near you it glistens " ; the eye and the desire
are strained and dazzled, the desire to possess it is
overmastering and "opportunity makes ther thief"
Another very characteristic utterance is that " A slave
does not show the timber." This at first sight is
enigmatical, but Burton in his comment on it explains
clearly enough that if the slave points out suitable
trees that he knows of in the dense forest, his only
return would be that on him would fall the labour of
felling them and dragging them to where they were
wanted ; he therefore maintains a discreet silence.
Another woodman proverb is that "The split tree
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still grows," calamity is not so crushing but that
much good may yet be done in the life.
The importance of being on good terms with the
ruler is as great in West Africa as elsewhere; hence
we get the happy saw, " To love the king is not bad,
but to be loved by the king is better." In the last
that we shall quote, though the temptation to extend
our list is great, we find ourselves quite in the opposite
scale of savage society, in the touching proverb, " When
a poor man makes a proverb it does not spread." This
is Oji experience, but it is certainly not Oji alone.
The man is poor and friendless, overridden and
despised. The writer of Ecclesiastes saw the matter
as clearly, for he tells us that " There was a little city
and few men within it, and there came a great king
against it and besieged it, and built great bulwarks
against it Now, there was found in it a poor wise
man, and he by his wisdom delivered the city, yet
no man remembered that same poor man. Then said
I, wisdom is better than strength ; nevertheless the
poor man's wisdom is despised, and his words are not
heard." As it was in Palestine in the days of old, so
it is in Oji-land to-day, and so in all lands will it
ever be. The jokes of the judge will convulse the
court and his wisdom enthral it, but no meaner
authority therein, either as humorist or sage, will be
heard, under pain of expulsion.
Another valuable store of proverb-philosophy will
be found in the pages of the Talmud. The teaching
is excellent : " A myrtle among nettles is still a
myrtle " ; " He who prays for his neighbour will be
heard for himself" ; " Prepare thyself in the hall, that
thou mayest be admitted into the palace"; so pass
through these things temporal that a welcome may
be thine in the presence of the King. If offence must
come, "Be thou the cursed, not he who curses," and
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"Let the honour of thy neighbour be to thee as thine
own."
Scorn ingratitude and "Throw no stone into the
well whence thou hast drunk," and bear ever in mind
the difficult lesson, "Teach thy tongue to say I do
not know." He who professes to know all things
shuts himself out of much opportunity for gaining
knowledge. "In two cabs of dates is one cab of
stones," much that is profitless will ever be mixed
with the good. How true too the caution, " He who
is suspicious should be suspected." To the pure all
things are pure, and the honest man thinks no evil,
but the man of evil heart lives in a beclouded atmo-
sphere and sees all things through a distorted medium.
How wise and charitable, how just, the counsel, " Do
not judge thy neighbour until thou hast stood in his
place." The Arab proverb about standing on the
wall and trusting to Allah is re-echoed in this Tal-
mudic precept, "Do not stand in a place of danger,
trusting in miracles."
Others, and these we must simply put down with-
out comment, are — "One thing acquired with pain is
better than fifty with ease"; "When the thief has
no opportunity of stealing he thinks himself honest " ;
" Let the grapes pray for the welfare of the branches " ;
"Who is strong? he who subdues his passion"; "If
I had not lifted the stone you had not found the
jewel " ; " Whosoever does too much does too little " ;
" In his own house the weaver is a king " ; " Iron
sharpens iron, and scholar scholar " ; " The way man
wishes to go, thither his feet will carry him." It will,
we trust, be seen from these examples that our com-
mendation of the Talmud as a mine of proverbic
wealth has full justification.
CHAPTER V
Proverbs that are misunderstood — The Cheese — Raining Cats and Dogy —
Cattle-harrying— The Bitter End— By Hook or Crook— Proverbs of
Evil Teaching— Necessity has no Law— The Peck of Dirt — Howl
with the Wolves— Sarcasm in Proverbs— The Fool— Selfishness— The
Praise of Truth— The Value of Time— Death— The Conduct of Life-
Occupations that supply Proverbs — The Barber, Tailor, Cobbler,
Physician, Lawyer, and others — The Cowl and the Monk — ^The Long
Bow — The Meditative Angler — Sayings associated with particular
Individuals — Hobson and his Choice — Plowden's Law — Mortimer's
Sow — The Wisdom of Doddipol — The Fear of Mrs Grundy's Opinion
— Locality Proverbs — Rustic Humour — Local Products — Tenterden
Steeple.
Though in the great majority of cases the signifi-
cance of a proverb is more or less apparent on con-
sideration, and when discovered is more or less helpful
to the conduct of life, we from time to time encounter
adages that have achieved some considerable popular-
ity and yet are quite misunderstood, or are entirely
unsound in teaching. Comparatively few proverbs
reach the highest plane ; they are mostly content to
supply good work-a-day maxims for a man's prosperity
and easy passage through this life, but occasionally
self-interest is carried to a point where principle is
lost sight of, and the result is wholly evil.
The proverbs that are misunderstood are ordinarily
sound enough in their teaching, and are freely used
by all — a meaning, not the correct one, having been
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tacked on to them and found to be a good working
one. This is a philological principle that we meet
with in all directions. Asparagus, for instance, is so
called from the Greek word to tear, many of the species
being armed with spines that lacerate,* but the coster-
monger knows nothing of this, so he drops the word
that has no meaning to him and calls it sparrow-grass,
a much more meaningless word really. A somewhat
common expression amongst a certain class is '' That 's
the ticket," meaning " that is the proper course to pur-
sue." Why it should carry this significance is not on
the face of it obvious, but the whole matter is cleared
up when we find that it is a corruption of "C'est
I'etiquette." Another popular expression of approval
takes the form of "That's the cheese." Familiarity
makes such an expression accepted without demur,
but one moment's consideration suffices to convince
us that what it says cannot really be what it means.t
If we turn it, for instance, into "C'est le fromage,"
and so get rid of the old formula, we realise this
better. What we are to put in its place is quite
another matter. One authority suggests that cheese
is really the French word " chose," and would bid us
accept " C%st le chose " as the true rendering. Another
informs us that "chiz" is Bengalee for "thing," and that
the expression has been imported from the East ; while
a third, and he is the man that we would personally
pin our faith on, reminds us that "choice" was in Anglo-
Saxon times "chese." In the "Vision of Piers Plow-
man," for example, we read —
* A South African species of this genus is called by the settlers and
natives, " Waht en beetje" — wait a bit, because its crooked thorns catch
their clothes as they journey.
t A quaint and true old proverb that says cheese and means it too is
this, "The king's cheese goes half away in parings," so many dependants
being ready to help themselves to a share of it.
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" Now thou might chese
How thou cal me, now thou knowst al mi names.''
"That's the cheese," then, if we accept this explanation,
is " That's the choice," the satisfactory result that one
would have chosen to happen.
Another misconception is the familiar saying, " Rain-
ing cats and dogs." Such a meteorologico-zoological
phenomenon never really takes place ; no instance of it
has ever been known, and yet people go on using the
expression as though the experience was of very ordi-
nary occurrence. The word we want is "catadupe" — Kara
6ovjros. AovjTos is a word used by Homer to express the
crash of falling trees, and it is applied, too, to certain falls
of the Nile. Thus Pliny writes : " Here and there, and
ever and anon, hitting upon islands, and stirred as it
were with so many provocations, and at last inclosed
and shut within mountaines, and in no place carrieth
he (the Nile) a rougher and swifter streame, while the
water that he beareth hasteneth to a place of the
^Ethiopians, called Catadupa, where in the last fall
amongst the rockes that stand in his way he rusheth
downe with a mightie noise."* Catadoupe is also a
French word for waterfall, though it is now obsolete ;
and Ralph Thoresby, is his "Diary," describes Cold-
warth Force in the Lake District as "a remarkable
catadupa." When, then, we say that it is ** raining cats
and dogs " we mean that there is a tremendous down-
pour, a perfect catadoupe.
Another old country proverb, "Hurry no man's
cattle, you may have a horse of you own some day,"
appears on the face of it a protest against over-driving,
but the first word is a corruption of harry or steal.
To carry a thing through " to the bitter end " seems
to imply that, come what may of opposition, the matter
shall be forced through, no matter whose heart breaks
* Holland's translation.
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in the process, but nothing so terrible as this is in-
volved. The expression is a nautical one. Bite is a
turn of a cable, and the bitter end is that part of the
cable which is wound round the bitt The bitter end
is therefore the extreme end. We read, for instance,
in " Robinson Crusoe," that during the storm his vessel
encountered, the cables were " veered out to the bitter
end " ; and, if we turn to Admiral Smyth's " Sailors*
Word Book," we find the bitter end defined as "that
part of the cable which is abaft the bitts, and therefore
within board when the ship rides at anchor. When a
chain or ro|:>e is paid out to the bitter end no more
remains to let go." The popular expression, therefore,
that we are considering implies a determination to carry
a thing through to a finish, but no bitterness of feeling is
a necessary element in the process.
The expression "By hook or by crook" has grown
into the idea of a dogged determination to effect a
certain purpose — honestly, it may be — but at all events
to effect it ; but its origin carries no such idea, the most
that is involved being a choice of alternatives. Those
who by ancient manorial privilege had the right to col-
lect wood for burning were allowed a hook and a crook,
the former cutting the green wood, and the latter break-
ing off the dry ; hence, one way or the other, by hook or
by crook, they effected their purpose.
In Ra/s collection of proverbs we find, " Reckon right, ,
and February hath thirty-one days." What the signifi-
cance of this can be utterly baffles us. " A little chink
lets in much light," but this necessary chink is not as yet
forthcoming. " They are well off that have not a home
to go to " is another enigma. It sounds distinctly silly.
Denham, we see, in his collection of proverbs, has the
boldness to declare it " an apposite remark, often quoted
by those who, sitting comfortably by their *ain ingle-
side/ hear the pelting of the pitiless storm without"
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We would fain hope, for the credit of human nature,
that this adage is not quite so apposite as this Denham
would have us believe.
Bad-hearted proverbs are, fortunately, not very numer-
ous in proportion to the sound ones, but there are yet
too many of them when we remember how the clinching
of a matter by a proverb is to some people almost equi-
valent to supporting it by a text In some cases an evil
meaning that is not justified is read into a proverb;
thus, to declare that "Charity begins at home" is to
enunciate a great truth, for he that careth not for his
own flesh, we are told, is an infidel. Too often, how-
ever, this adage is made the excuse for withholding
any wider sympathy, a meaning that it really gives
no warrant for. " Honesty is the best policy " is an
oft -quoted saying, and it is, as far as it goes, a true
one, but it fails becausd it puts the matter on too low
a footing. Honesty for the sake of right, one's duty
to God, to one's neighbour, and to one's own conscience
and self-respect, is a right worthy aim, but honesty be-
cause on the whole it pays best is an ignoble thing.
The man whom such a maxim helps is a poor creature,
and one whom we should be unwilling to trust very
far. The saying, "Every man for himself, and God
for us all," while it clothes itself in sham invocation to
Providence, is at heart bad — a mere appeal to selfish-
ness — the weakest going to the wall and trodden under
foot, or what is more deftly called " the survival of the
fittest." The French put it more unblushingly as "Better
a grape for me than a fig for thee." How scoundrel
a maxim is the declaration that "It is not the offence,
but the being found out, that matters " ; and how mean
a view of integrity and uprightness is shown in the
statement that "Every man has his price" — only bid
high enough, some perhaps requiring a little more than
others, and truth and honour and righteousness become
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mere merchandise. " As well be hung for a sheep as a
lamb " is an utterance equally unsound.
Such proverbs are found in all lands, human nature
being what it is. The Bengalis say, "He that gives
blows is a master, he that gives none is a dog," whole
centuries of tyranny, of cringing to the strong, being
revealed in these few words. The Spaniard says,
"Draw the snake from its hole by another man's
hand" — throw upon another the danger. The Dutch-
man says, "Self is the man for me." The German
says, " Once is never " — some little sin may be allowed
to all and never be counted. The Italian says, "At
the open chest the righteous may sin " — the opportunity
given to theft being a sufficient justification for availing
oneself of it. Thus might we travel round the world,
finding in every land some maxims of evil import
To " look at home " is, however, a sufficient task, for
no amount of depravity in a Swede or a Zulu will
mend matters in Sussex or Yorkshire. " Necessity has
no law" is one of the utterances quoted as though
gospel truth, but it is a doctrine that will not bear
investigation, and "Better a bad excuse than none at
all " is not much better. The slovenly housekeeper
gravely declares, as a palliative of her untidiness, that
"Everyone must eat a peck of dirt before they die,"
and, indeed, appears to feel somewhat virtuous that
her operations are assisting this great natural law!
"To accept an obligation is to sell your liberty" is a
double-edged adage.* If we consider it as encouraging
self-reliance it is good, but if we take it as a churlish
disinclination to accept a kindness, it cuts at the root
of all kindly mutual help and sympathy.
The proverb that "The wholesomest meat is at an-
other man's cost " is despicable, but the adage " Up the
♦ The Italians have it, "Chi prende, si vende" — "He sells himself
who accepts a gift."
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hill favour me, down the hill beware thee " is atrocious,
diabolical. That a man should be willing to accept
every possible help in his upward struggle, and then,
when he has attained success, trample on those who
befriended him, and that a proverb approving the pro-
ceeding should pass from mouth to mouth, seems almost
impossible of credence. Another atrocious saying is,
" If I see his cart overturning I will give it a push " ;
and yet another runs, "Better kiss a knave than be
troubled with him." A fair parallel in abominable
teaching to these may be found in the saying, "A
slice off a cut loaf will not be missed";* and for a
flat denial of all honourable and manly action it would
be hard to beat the teaching, "One must howl with
the wolves" — make no protest against evil, take no
stand for righteousness, but band oneself with the
powers of evil in craven fear of them.
Not fiendish, like some we have quoted, but lament-
ably weak as a rule of life, is the old adage, "For
want of company, welcome trumpery," and this motto
of the idler, "If anything stay, let work stay." One
could not imagine a very noble character to be built
up on such nutriment as this. Another adage that
"Good ale is meat, drink, and cloth" must be taken
with considerable limitations. Good ale, instead of the
good food, the warm clothing, has much to be said
for it as a corrected reading, as the sad experience of
thousands of empty homes can testify.
Some proverbs have a strong touch of sarcasm in
them, and this, when not too bitter and uncharitable,
is a quite legitimate feature, as it may drive in a home
truth where a gentler treatment would fail, while others
have a touch of wit that helps to impress them on the
memory. The line between the wit that makes us
♦ "Easy it is
Of a cut loaf to steal a shive." — " Titus Andronicus."
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laugh and that which makes us wince is often rather a
fine one. We propose to give some few examples of
proverbs on these lines, and we may very well com-
mence our series with the two adages that " Wise men
make proverbs, and fools repeat them," and that " The
less wit a man has the less he knows he wants it"
The fool, from the days of Solomon, and probably
long before them, has supplied the basis of many a
proverb; how happy, for instance, the hit at pompous
self-conceit * is this : " A nod from a lord is a breakfast
for a fool " ; or the suggestion of the utter hopelessness
of his condition, for "Heaven and earth fight in vain
against a fool " ; t or his recklessness and want of pre-
vision, for " The chapter of accidents is the bible of the
fool " ; and his want of brains, for " A wager is a fool's
argument." The only ray of hope for him is in the
French saying, " Tous sont sages quand ils se taisent "
— fools are wise, or may at least be so reputed, when
they are silent
It is for the help of the fool that such a maxim as
this canny Scotch proverb is floated — " Dinna gut your
fish till ye get them." As these unfortunate people
appear to be cosmopolitan, the Dutch have very similar
advice for them, " Don't cry your herrings till they are in
the net" The Italians warn them not to " Sell the bird
on the bough," nor "Dispose of the skin before the bear is
caught"; while even the sensible German appears to need
the caution that " Unlaid eggs are uncertain chickens."
The lamentable condition of the fool being only too ob-
vious, " What good can it do an ass to be called a lion?" J
* " Every man has just as much of vanity as he wants understanding."
t Another old English proverb says, " Send a fool to market and a fool
he will come back." The Italians have it, ** Chi bestia va d Roma bestia
retoma," and the ancient Romans made the discovery that **Coelum non
animam mutant qui trans mare cumint."
X ** The man that once did sell the lion's skin while the beast lived, was
killed with hunting him." — Shakrspkarb, Nenty V,
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The selfishness and scheming of certain people has
been made the target for many shafts. The Romans had
the adage, " Ficos dividere," to satirise those who strove
too cheaply to gain credit for their liberality by cutting
up a fig into portions and distributing these. An old
English proverb says of such a man, "He would
dress an egg for himself, and give the broth to the
poor." How true, again, "He that is warm thinks
all are so," and is careful not to raise the ques-
tion. Have we not all seen, too, how the weak are
imposed on, and that "The least boy always carries
the greatest fiddle," and that "Those who can deny
others everything often deny themselves nothing." The
Italians have found out that "He who manages other
people's wealth does not go supperless to bed." The
way these artful people hang together (not, unfortunately,
in a literal sense)* has not escaped attention, the old
Roman declaring : " Ait latro ad latronem " — another
rogue always being ready to say "Yes" to what the
first rogue says. On the other hand, it is some little
comfort to know that "When the cook and the maid
fall out we shall know what has come of the butter " !
How true, again, is the assertion that " We confess our
faults in the plural, but deny them in the singular," and
many a man who calls himself a miserable sinner would
warmly repudiate any assent that others might make to
this assertion of his.
A happy sarcasm is that " He refuseth the bribe, but
putteth out his hand" — seeking to save appearances, and
yet anxious not to lose in the process. "A bribe enters,'*
we are told, "without knocking," no special publicity
in the matter being desirable, and " He that bringeth
a present findeth the door open," no obstacle being
* "Kleine Diebe henkt man, vor grosser zieht man den Hut ab" —
" Petty thieves are hanged,'* say the Germans, " but people take off their
hats to great ones.*'
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placed in his way. It must, however, be remarked
that "Favourites are like sun-dials." Why? Because
no one regards them any longer when they are in the
shade. " Those that throw away virtue must not expect
to save reputation," and "None have less praise than
those who hunt after it." The Spaniards have a severe
proverb on the corruption of the law-givers : " To the
judges of Gallicia go with feet in hand " — a delicate way
of advising the law-seeker to bring with him a brace of
pheasants or some poultry to help his cause.
Things that all may well remember for their guidance
are, that " Form is good, but not formality" ; that " Re-
spect is better secured by deserving than by soliciting " ;
that "Candour is pleasant, rudeness is not"; that "Popu-
larity is not love"; that "Desert and reward seldom keep
company"; that "Many suffer long who are not long-
suffering " ; that " Good reasons must give place to
better " ; that " Favour is no inheritance " ; that " He
who sets his timepiece by everyone's clock will never
know the hour " ; that " Things intended are not of the
same value as things done"; that "Many complain
of want of memory and few of lack of judgment " ;
that "Too much learning hinders knowledge." The
Spaniards say that "A fool, unless he know Latin, is
never a great fool " — a severe hit on pompous pedantry.
A room may be so full of furniture that one can hardly
find a chair to sit down upon, and a man's brain may
be so stuffed with recondite lore that common work-a-
day knowledge is crowded out.
The direct appeal to religion is, naturally, not often
met with in proverb-lore, such appeal being somewhat
outside its functions, and on a higher plane than is
ordinarily reached. The wisdom of proverbs concerns
Itself more with time than with eternity, though the
advocacy of truth and honour, the exposure of knavery,
the importance of a right judgment, and many other
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points that make for the right, are contributory to the
higher life. The beacon light for those steering for
the Celestial City must, nevertheless, be sought else-
where. The old and beautiful adage, "The grace of
God is gear enough," is very striking, and is, further-
more, interesting from the Shakespearean reference to
it in the " Merchant of Venice," where Launcelot Gobbo
says to Bassanio : " The old proverb is very well parted
between my master, Shylock, and you. Sir; you have
the grace of God, Sir, and he hath enough."
To " Tell the truth, and shame the devil," is one of
our well-known popular sayings. Though often quoted
lightly enough, it is a noble advocacy for standing up
for the right at all hazards. The French proverb tells us
that "Truth, like oil, must come to the top," and the
Swiss, in like spirit, declare that "Truth cannot be
buried." The old Roman adage also affirms, "Great is
the truth and it shall prevail." This, in turn, reminds
us of the old saw : " A lie has no l^s." Nevertheless,
unfortunately it has, and may travel gaily enough for
awhile, but it contains within itself the seed of its own
dissolution, and sooner or later its vitality has gone, and
it perishes discredited ; for "Truth," as the Spanish pro-
verb beautifully has it, " is the daughter of God," and its
final victory is thereby assured. Forgiveness of injuries
is the lesson taught in the Bengali proverb: "The
sandal -tree f)erfumes the axe that fells it";* and an
equally beautiful Persian saying is this : " Cast thy
bread upon the water, God will know of it if the
fishes do not." Another non-Christian proverb is the
Greek saying: "Many meet the gods, but few salute
them" — borne down by the cares of time, fail to re-
cognise their presence, and suffer them to pass un-
heeded, or receive blessing at their hands, yet thank
them not
* Or again : '* If you crush spice it will be the sweeter."
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It is often too true that " The vow made in the storm
is forgotten in the calm," for promises made readily
enough in the time of trouble require a better memory
than people ordinarily possess, and gratitude seems to
be one of the most short-lived of emotions. Another
old saying is also too painfully true : " Complaint is the
lai^est tribute heaven receives" — the sincerest part of
our devotion — and to this we may add, "If pride were
an art how many graduates should we have."
The value of Time is appreciated in such sayings as
"He that has most time has none to lose"; "Time is the
stuff that life is made of." Our ancestors counsel us that
we " Use the minutes wisely, then will not the hours
reproach," for "Like as the waves make toward the
pebbled shore, so do our minutes hasten to their end,"
lE,n|d " Every day in thy life is a page in thy history."
An ancient adage warns us : " Take time while time is,
for time will away " ; or, as we find it in " The Notable
and Antient Historie of the Cherrie and the Slae'
(1595):—
" Yet Wisdom wisheth thee to weigh
This figure in Philosophie,
A lesson worth the lear.
Which is, in time for to take tent,
And not, when time is past, repent.
And buy repentance dear."
In Howell's " Old Sayed Sawes " it is given as " All
time's no time when time's past." Hence we are
warned to take Time by the forelock. Life is a loan
to man, and, while we complain that our days are few,
we act practically as though there could come no end to
them. " The shortest day is too long to waste," there-
fore " Do not squander time, for that is the stuff life is
made of." The French say : " II n'est si grand jour qui
ne vienne i vespre." So that it becomes us well, in the
words of a fifteenth century poem, to
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" Thinke on the end or thou begyn,
And thou schalt never be thral to syn." *
The Italians very graphically and poetically say :
" La notte h la madre di pensieri " — night is the mother
of thoughts, a quiet resting time, a pause in life when
we can honestly take stock of ourselves.!
Death hath its special proverbs and warning saws :
thus one warns the young and careless that "The
churchyard graves are of all sizes," while another dwells
on its inevitableness, declaring that " Death is deaf and
takes no denial," and that all, fit or unfit, must face
the fact, for " Death is the only master who takes his
servants without a character." The Romans had the
proverb, " Finis coronat opus," and an English proverb
hath it: "Tis not the fight that crowns us, but the end."
The Italians say : " A ogni cosa h remedio fuora qu'alla
morte " — there is a remedy for everything save death ;
but " Men must endure their going hence, even as in
their coming hither ; ripeness is all," and what death has
of terror is what the life has made to be terrible, A
well-known proverb will be recalled as to the folly of
waiting to step into dead men's shoes. Thomas Fuller,
in his essay on " Marriage," very happily says : ** They
that marry ancient people, merely in expectation to
bury them, hang themselves, in hope that one will
come and cut the halter" — a sufficiently painful
position.
* A poem full of suggestive thoughts, as, for instance : —
** He that in southe no vertu usit,
In age alle honure hym refiisit."
" Ever the hiere that thou art,
Ever the lower be thy hert."
" Deme the best of every doute,
Tyl the truthe be tryed out."
t "'Tis greatly wise to talk with our past hours, and ask them what
report they bore to heaven." "Think nought a trifle, though it small
appear, sands make the mountain, moments make the year, and trifles
life."
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Though it seem impossible that the place of some
great philanthropist or statesman could ever, on his
removal, be adequately filled up, we soon learn that
no one is really indispensable. The torch is handed
on : " God buries his workman, but carries on his
work."
The trials of life are many, and their lessons have
their place in the proverbial wisdom of our forefathers,
and we learn thereby how best to face them, and to see
in them not evil but good. " The worse the passage the
more welcome the port," and " Bitter to endure may be
sweet to remember." How excellent, too, the advice :
" Make a crutch of your cross " — no longer a thing to
harass but to support and help. It is well, too, to
remember that, in any real and high sense, " *Tis not
the suffering but the cause that makes the martyr."*
The deliberate offender is warned that "He who
thinks to deceive God has already deceived himself,"
and "That sin and sorrow cannot long be separated."
He is reminded that " He that sins against his own
conscience sins with a witness," and that " Trifling with
sin is no trifling sin." How true, again, that " Few love
to bear the sins they love to act." He who offends
against Heaven hath none to whom he can plead. In
ancient days it was held that in such a case Nemesis
was inevitable, and a proverb in use before the Christian
era declared that "Fate moves with leaden feet, but
strikes with iron hands" — that punishment might be
long in coming, but was no less sure — a later proverb,
in like manner, teaching that " The mill of God grinds
slowly but it grinds exceeding fine." The mere hypo-
crite — one of the most despicable of mortals — has a
special adage for his warning, that " Religion is the
* "To wilful men the injuries which they themselves procure must be
their schoolmasters"; or, in more colloquial phrase, "Experience is a
dear school, but fools learn in no other."
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best armour in the world, but the worst cloak" — an
altogether excellent utterance.
Proverbs cast their nets far and wide, and gather in
materials from many sources of inspiration. Speech
and silence, wisdom and folly, truth and falsehood,
friendship and enmity, wealth and poverty, industry
and idleness, youth and age, moderation and excess,
are all pressed into the service ; even the divers
occupations of life have their varying lessons, and
to these we now give attention.
All who, even in the most amateur way, have tried
their hands at carpentry will at once understand the
point of the saying, " To go against the grain," when a
task that has been undertaken is in some way distaste-
ful ; and carpenters, like other handicraftsmen, have
opportunity of testing the truth of another very
common remark, "A bad workman finds fault with
his tools," or yet another happy criticism, "A man
is known by his chips."
The loquacity of the barber has grown into a
generally recognised feature of his calling. He is
the "middle man," the cause of much dissemination
of news, receiving and imparting it freely during the
day's business. This is no reputation of yesterday ; in
ancient Rome the citizens said, "Omnibus notum
tonsoribus," and we see in the old English adage,
"Every barber knows that," that some few centuries
afterwards the matter was as much in evidence
as ever, and it is by no means out of date to-
day.
The occupation of the tailor, as he sits all day
cramped up in some room, has been held to be so
enfeebling that it has been thought to justify the adage
that " It takes nine tailors to make a man." This
certainly is a great number. In a poem of the year
1630 we read —
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'' Some foolish knave, I thinke, at first began
The slander that three taylers are one man."
Nine, however, is the generally accepted figure, and
the poet shows such a strong animus that we can
scarcely accept his counter-statement. Nine would
have suited the requirements of his metre as well as
three, and we can only conclude that the fraction
he took was one of his own devising. "The three
tailors of Tooley Street " achieved lasting fame, it will
be remembered, by sending a petition to Parliament
commencing, "We, the people of England."
The cobbler, and eke his wife, share in the im-
mortality that popular proverbs go far to confer. It
will be remembered how, as an illustration of the
general inconsistency and unexpectedness of things,
"The cobbler's wife is the worst shod." "She goeth
broken shoone and tome hoses," says a mediaeval
bard, "but," as may be expected from the general
unaccountableness of such matters, "Who is worse
shod than the shoemaker's wife. With shops full of
new shooes all the days of her life?" Cobblers
pursue a steady and somewhat monotonous business
which seems to favour reflection, and the followers
of the craft have supplied from their ranks not a few
famous men. It will be remembered, however, how in
one case a rebuke became necessary, when the cobbler
in question criticised adversely a shoe-latchet in one
of the pictures of Apelles. The great painter accepted
the criticism and repainted the fastening, whereupon
the critic extended his self-imposed functions, and
objected to the drawing of the foot. Apelles felt
the time had come to put down his own foot, and
advised the cobbler to stick to his trade. The
ancient proverb that this little incident evoked has
its modern counterpart in the saying, " Let the cobbler
stick to his last," a proverb as valuable to-day as it was
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of service in the studio of Apelles, when people will
insist in talking about what they do not understand.
The brewer would find a dictum after his own heart
in the old lines —
** He that buys land buys many stones,
He that buys flesh buys many bones,
He that buys eggs buys many shells,
But he that buys ale buys nothing else."
The kitchen realm has supplied a very expressive
proverb in "The fat is in the fire," and such sayings
as " Sweep before your own door " ; " The pitcher goes
oft to the well, but is broken at last " ; "If you enjoy
the fire you must put up with the smoke " ; "A
watched pot never boils " — all suggested by the
service of the house ; while even the breakages so
common in these regions are found, by those who
do not have to pay for them, to have a bright side,
for "Were it not for breakage there would be no
potter's trade." It is so fatally easy to be generous
at another person's expense.
Ready though people be to avail themselves at need
of the skill of the physician, when they are in, shall we
say, rude health, they regard him as very fair game for
banter. " He that wants health wants all," but while
they are enjoying this happy condition of rampant well-
being they cry cheerfully enough, "Throw physic to
the dogs, ril none of it." * Another proverb, however,
declares that " Physic always does good — if not to
the patient then to the doctor." This is a bit of
German sarcasm ; and this Spanish saying, " The
earth covers the mistakes of the physician," is equally
unappreciative and — dare one say it? — equally true.
• This side of the question may be seen somewhat forcibly put in
John Halle's "Historick Expostulation against the beastlye Abuses of
Chynirgeric and Physicke," 1565.
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The issues of life and death are not the physician's
to control. One proverb on the faculty, "Physician,
heal thyself," has a special interest, being quoted in
one of His discourses by our Lord ; while another
biblical reference, that of the woman who had spent
all her living on doctors and was no better, but rather
the worse, is sometimes rather maliciously quoted
against our medical practitioners. A proverb for
the patient's benefit will be found in "Much meat,
many maladies," or in the statement that "English-
men dig their graves with their teeth," a genial way
of asserting that the Briton eats and drinks too much,
which in many cases is probably true. He is also
reminded that " If pills were pleasant they would
need no gilding."*
The man of law has always been the subject of
satire and his work derided, the difference between
law and justice being often too conspicuous. A man
who flourishes on the dissensions of others can scarcely
expect to be a very popular member of society. Their
clients are warned that "Better is a lean agreement
than a fat lawsuit," and that " In a thousand* pounds
of law there is not an ounce of love." We are
instructed to mark that no lawyer ever goes to law
• " Aske Medicus counsell ere medcine ye make,
And honour that man for neccssitie*s sake,
Though thousands hate physick because of the cost,
Yet thousands it helpeth that else should be lost."
"FiTC hundred pointes of good husbandrie," by Tusser, 1573. It will
be noted that it is "ye make''; nowadays it would have to be written
** ye take." The verse is from a section on "Good huswifelie physicke."
The fiurmer's wife herself cultivates a goodly store of
" Cold herbes in her garden for agues that bume,
That ouer strong heate to good temper may turne,"
such as "Endiue and Suckerie," "Water of Fumentorie, liver to coole."
<* Conserve of the Barbaric, quinces as such, With Sirops that easeth the
sickly so much,'* must also be provided, to say nothing of " Spinnage
yooiigh.
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on his own account, and as a warning to their victims
we are invited to take note that " Lawyers' gowns are
lined with the wilfulness of their clients." A thing
may be entirely lawful and yet not honourable, tech-
nically right and wanting in all else. In Swaffam
Church we find an epitaph commencing —
" Here lieth one, believe it if you can.
Who, tho' an attorney, was an honest man ;
The gates of heaven shall open wide.
But will be shut 'gainst all the tribe beside."
Another lawyer was the subject of the following
couplet : —
" Here lieth one who often lied before.
But now he lies here he lies no more."
The ecclesiastic is the subject of many proverbs,
and these mostly of an unfavourable character. It
is said, "Woe to those preachers who listen not to
themselves," and the caution is a very just one, but
we have to realise that while the message from God
to man is beyond all criticism, " we have this treasure
in earthen vessels" that may be very much open to
criticism, and yet not necessarily hypocrites, knaves,
fools, as some would have us believe. "He who
teaches religion without exemplifying it loses the ad-
vantage of its best argument," a criticism again most
just. An epitaph that may be seen in Wallesley
Churchyard, on the tomb of one of the vicars of the
church, shows a lofty ideal fully attained : —
" Led by Religion's bright and cheering ray.
He taught the way to Heaven, and went that way ;
And while he held the Christian life to view.
He was himself the Christian that he drew."
It is not those who talk righteousness but those who
live righteously who are the light of the world, while
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those who are false to this incur a tremendous re-
sponsibility when they assume the position of guides
and bring discredit on their mission. The Spanish
proverbs are of especial bitterness: "Do by the friar
as he does by you"; "A proud friar requires a new
rope and a dry almond tree," in other words, deserves
hanging. Again we are warned that "A turn of the
key is better than the conscience of a friar"; what, then,
of honour, reputation, or possession is held of value
must be protected from his malign influence. Again,
we are warned to " Take care of an ox before, an ass
behind, and a monk on all sides." Their greed is
satirised in such popular sayings as these: "Priests
eat up the stew and then ask for the stewpan " ; " The
covetous abbot for one loaf loses a hundred " ; " The
abbot gives for the good of 4iis soul what he cannot
eat." In like manner the Russians say, "Give the
priest all thou hast, and thou wilt have given them
nearly enough " ; and the Italians declare that " Priests,
monks, nuns, and poultry never have enough " ; while
in England we have the adage, " As crafty as a friar."
We are warned, too, that " It is not the cowl that makes
the monk." Appearances may be deceitful : " They
should be good men," writes Shakespeare in " Henry
VI I L," "their affairs are righteous ; but all hoods make
not monks." It was in mediaeval England a common
expression, " The bishop hath blessed it," when the food
was burnt in preparation ; a reminder of the days of
fiery persecution. Tyndale, for instance, writes in his
" Obedyence of a Chrystene Man," " When a thynge
speadeth not well we borow speache and say, *The
byshope hath blessed it,' because that nothynge
speadeth well that they medyll withall. If the
podech be burned or the meate over rosted, we
say, 'The byshope has put his fote in the potte,'
because the byshoppes burn who they list and whoe-
iTrf
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soever displeaseth them." The Marian persecutions
appear to us mere ancient history, but they were real
enough when this sarcasm on the episcopal benedic-
tion passed from mouth to mouth.
The French attack the craftiness that has too often
been a characteristic of the ecclesiastic in the saying :
" Le renard prfiche aux poules " ; while in England we
find the adages, " Reynard is reynard still, though in a
cowl," and "When the fox preacheth then beware of
your geese," and to these many other sayings of like
import might be added.
The miller was the target for considerable adverse
comment An epitaph in Calne churchyard over one
of the fraternity reads —
" God worketh wonders now and then,
Here lies a miller, and an honest man,"
and this would appear to be about the popular view of
the craft Thus Chaucer writes of his " Wei cowde he
stele, and tollen thries," and he describes him as having
" a thomb of golde," in itself a proverbial expression.
The miller tests the fineness of the grinding by taking
up a portion of the meal and rubbing it between his
thumb and fingers, in itself a most harmless and
necessary operation. Another well-known proverb is,
" All is grist that comes to his mill," good or bad, all
is used and turned to advantage ; while an Italian
proverb declares that " Millers are the last to die of
famine" — the process of grinding the corn of other
people leading, it is suggested, to a considerable
quantity being transferred from the bag of the farmer
to the bin of the miller, no question of mutual consent
arising.
Army service suggested as a proverb based on experi-
ence and observation, "The blood of the common
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soldier makes the glory of the general," an adage not
yet out of date ; while such proverbs as, " Two strings
to one's bow," " To draw the long bow," and " A fool's
bolt is soon shot " * recall the days when archery was
the national defence and recreation. To " Draw not your
bow till your arrow is fixed," is another old English
proverb ; it is tantamount to another wise saw, " Look
before you leap."
The pursuit of the angler appears to those not of the
craft so dreary and monotonous that one hesitates to
call it a recreation. It is at least an excellent school
for patience and such virtues as may be taught by
hope deferred. The French say, "Still he fishes,
that catcheth one"; while an English proverb bluntly
declares that "An angler eats more than he gets."
For everything in this world a price has to be paid,
and the fisherman is warned that " He who would
catch fish must not mind a wetting." A very familiar
saying that derives its inspiration from the pursuit of
the fisherman is that "All is fish that comes to the
net," a parallel saying to the one that has just been
referred to concerning the grist of the miller.
The innings of the cricketer supplies the saying,
"Off his own bat," to describe the results in any
direction achieved by a man's own exertions, while
the chess-player's board suggests the moral, " At
the end of the game the king and the pawn go into
the same bag," one lot befalls all ; and to this we
may add, " The die is cast," when the irrevocable step
is taken —
" I have set my life upon the cast
And I will stand the hazard of the die."— "Richard III."
•In Shakespeare's ** Henry V." we read how the Constable of France
and the Duke of Orleans thus bandied proverbs : " Orl, 111 will never
said well. Con, I will cap that proverb with — there is flattery in friend-
ship. Orl, And I will take that up with — give the devil his due. You
are the better at proverbs, by how much ? — a fool's bolt is soon shot."
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The busy pursuits and pleasant recreations of life
would doubtless yield much more material for the
searcher after proverb-lore thereon. We are content
but to indicate something of the interest that the
subject may be made to evolve, and leave it to the
reader to amplify, if he so will.
Maxims that apply equally to all callings are to
be found in abundance. Of these we may instance, as
examples : " A useful trade is a mine of gold," " Sell
not thy conscience with thy goods," " He that
thinks his place below him will certainly be below
his place," "Mind what you do and how you do it."
To these we would add, " Nothing is little," a proverb
of far-reaching significance and deep import ; for we
need at times to consider how, from actions small in
themselves, from a few words hastily spoken, from
the pressure of a hand when hearts are breaking, from
the neglect of a little duty or precaution, how great
may be the outcome.
Personal proverbs are very numerous: a list of
over a hundred could readily be compiled. Many of
these we cannot now really attribute to any particular
individual. They often refer to some local cir-
cumstance, some story that has been forgotten. In
some cases, as in " Hobson's choice " or " the case
is altered, quoth Plowden," we are dealing with real
individuals ; in other cases we may reasonably as-
sume that we are, though we cannot prove it ; while,
in a third section, the matter is considerably more
doubtful. Proverbs, for instance, that deal only with
Christian names probably do not allude to any
particular individual, and it may be assumed that
these names are there to give a concrete realism such
as the rustic loves, and are of no more definite
existence than "Tom, Dick, and Harry," or "Tag,
Rag, and Bobtail" — all representative of the units
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forming some gathering. In some cases it is a passing
skit on some local character who has laid himself
open in some way ; while in others, such as " Madam
Parnell, crack the nut and eat the kernel," or " Mock
not, quoth Mumford," the things owe all the brilliancy
they possess to the attraction of rhyme or alliteration.
The "Jack Sprat, who could eat no fat" was doubtless
a myth, created to gratify the poetic instincts of the
creator of the character. The well-known nursery
characters, "Jack and Jill, who went up the hill"
supply, no doubt, another illustration. It would be
quite hopeless to search for their baptismal registers.
" As wise as the Mayor of Banbury " is an example
of a local proverb. These civic authorities were often
made the butt of a good deal of banter. What particular
mayor was thus honoured it is, of course, impossible
to determine; his individuality has been absorbed in
his mayoral dignity. Small local jealousies between
one village or town and a neighbouring one are often
responsible for this sort of thing, the provincial mind
loving to score over the people in the next parish or
the next county.
Where no real option is given to a person the
proverb "Hobson's choice" is suggested. One Tobias
Hobson was an innkeeper and carrier at Cambridge,
and a man of considerable local influence. He was said
to be the first man in England that made a business
of letting out horses for hire. However this may be,
his custom, a custom that supplies the material for
the adage, was that when anyone wanted a horse he
was led into the stables, where some forty animals
were ready for use, but the inexorable rule was that
there should be no picking and choosing, a necessity
being laid upon the customer that he took the horse
which stood nearest the stable door. He had Hobson's
choice and no other. This procedure placed all on an
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equal level and ensured a rough justice for the horses
themselves, as the last horse entering from a journey
was put at the far end and was only again liable for
service when all the others had first done their turn.
" The case is altered, quoth Plowden," was a very
popular adage with our ancestors, and especially in
Shropshire. Edmund Plowden was an eminent lawyer
in the reign of Queen Elizabeth, bom at Plowden, a
little village in Shropshire. The following circumstance
is said to have given birth to the adage : — A neighbour
asked him what remedy he had in law against a
person whose hogs had broken into his field, and he
was assured that the law would amply protect his
rights. Whereupon the farmer replied that they were
his (Plowden's) hogs. "Nay then, neighbour," quoth
Plowden, "the case is altered." We learn hereby
that it is hardly well for a man to be both defendant
and judge, but it is due to Plowden's memory to add
that in choosing the name of some lawyer to tack on
to the proverb they merely took the name of one
exceptionally well known. He was by a distinguished
contemporary writer described as " A man second ta
none in his profession for honour and integrity."
Plowden or no Plowden, the adage points to the duty
of doing as we would be done by, and is a fair satire
on the general readiness of lawyers to argue on either
side at short notice, and to take very special care of
"number one."
The old saying, "As coy as Croker's mare," may
refer to some incident of which all knowledge is now
lost ; but as we sometimes find it rendered, " As coy
as a Crocker's mare," it has been, with great reason,,
suggested that this crocker is simply a crock-dealer, a
retailer of earthenware round the country, to whom
the possession of a restive animal would mean the
smashing up of his stock and his consequent ruin. In
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a play of the year 1566, where a widow of somewhat
flippant mood appears, we are told that " Of auncient
fathers she took no cure nor care, She was to them
as koy as a croker's mare."
A proverb that has a curious history is, " Two heads
are better than one, said Weymark." Three-fourths
of this is of great antiquity, and, we may take it, rank
in significance with " In the multitude of counsellors
there is safety," and other proverbs of that type.
Whence, then, came the added fourth, and why? One
theory is that it is a mere accretion, but this probably
everyone, except the broacher of the idea, will feel to
be very unlikely. Weymark is a distinctly peculiar
name, and there must surely be some allusion to some
one so called. It has been suggested that we should
read it as way-mark,* a mark to guide the traveller:
that we should understand that two heads are better
than one to guide us on our earthly journey, but in
this case why the word " said " ?
In the " Anglorum Speculum," A.D. 1684, we get on
to firmer ground ; we there read that " One Wiemark
was called to account for saying the head of Sir Walter
Raleigh (beheaded that day) would do very well on
the shoulders of Sir Robert Naunton ; and having
alleged in his own justification that two heads were
better than one, he was for the present dismissed.
Afterwards Wiemark being, with other wealthy persons,
called on for a subscription to St Paul's, first subscribed
a hundred pounds at the Council Table, but was glad
to double it after Mr Secretary had told him two
heads were better than one." We can readily under-
stand that this jeering addition to the old saw
* Set thee up waymarks."— ;/(Cr<g»ifaA xxi. 21.
** Is this the path of sanctity ? Is this
To stand a waymark in the road to bliss ? "
— COWPER, Progress of Error,
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quickly found acceptance when the incident got
abroad.
The expression, "Backare, quoth Mortimer to his
sow," has an extended range over our old literature,
but its meaning is very enigmatical. Heywood writes,
" Backare, quoth Mortimer to his sow. Went that sow
back at that bidding, trow you?" In John Grange's
"Golden Aphroditis" (1577) we read, "Yet wrested
he so his eflfeminate bende to the siege of backwarde
affection, that both trumpet and drumme sounded
nothing but baccare, baccare." Wherever we find
this baccare — in " Roister Doister," ** The Dial,"
" Repentance of Mary Magdalene," the " Scourge of
Folly," "My das," or elsewhere — its significance is
always "Stand back." Its spelling is very variable.*
Who Mortimer was, it is hppeless to conjecture, or
on what occasion he found it necessary to curb the
impatience of his sow.
The expression, " As wise as Dr Doddipol," is of sar-
castic significance. The name of this doctor is spelt in
many ways, but in all its variations the saying preserves
its depreciatory character. Skelton in "Colin Clout"
has Dr Daupatus and Doddypatis. Hoddypoule,
Huddypeake, Dotypoll, Noddipole, are other readings
one encounters in old plays and the like. In Fox's
" Book of Martyrs " we have, " I will contemne these
dastardly dotipoles." Latimer in his sermons used the
plainest language. In preaching before King Edward,
he said, "But some will say our curate is nought, an
asshead, a dodipoll, a lacklatine," while in another of
his discourses he breaks out, " Ye brainsicke fooles,
ye hoddy-peakes, ye doddy poules." We may perhaps
explain that these epithets were not applied to his
audience ; they were words put by the preacher into
* In some cases it is *' backer," as. though the comparative, ''more
back."
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the mouths of the Pharisees in their disgust at the
flocking of the common people to the teaching of the
Messiah. In the works of Sir Thomas More, 1557,
we find him declaring of something that, concerning
it, " a verye nodypoll nydyote might be ashamed." ♦
Sterne in " Tristram Shandy " is quite Latimeresque.
He writes : " Here, without staying for my reply, shall
I be called as many blockheads, numsculls, doddy-
poles, dunderheads." Thompson uses the expression
" doddering mast " in his description of a storm, while
Dryden writes of a rotting "doddar'd oke" falling
piecemeal to the ground. The idea all through is
clearly weakness, feebleness, physical or mental.
Another proverb, "Bate me an ace, quoth Bolton," has
a certain historic interest. A collection of proverbs was
presented by its compiler to Queen Elizabeth, with the
declaration that it contained every proverb in the Eng-
lish language. To test the matter, she asked if he had
this one, and he was obliged to confess that he had not.
Without the surname appended it may often be found
in various old authors ; in Beaumont and Fletcher's
"Prophetess," for instance, we find the passage, "Nor
bate ye an ace of a sound senator." We are told that
this Bolton was one of the courtiers in attendance on
Henry VHL, who, in card-playing with his Sovereign,
was discreet enough to beg to be allowed an ace, or
some such considerable advantage, that he might have
some little chance against so skilful a player. The
proverb was ordinarily used as an appeal for some
little advantage, or, ironically, as a hint to some one
whose statements were held to be a little beyond
credence to abate them somewhat.
It will readily be noted that most of these name-
proverbs are obsolete, but one of them, " What will Mrs
* <* Nydyote " is really an idiot, even as ** naddere *' in old books is really
an adder.
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Grundy say?" is still in use. It is found in the old
play of "Speed the Plough," and was thence trans-
ported into general service. A Mrs Ashfield was there
represented as always in terror of the opinion of this
old lady, until at length her husband, a bluff old farmer,
can stand it no longer, and bursts out: "Be quiet,
wool ye? Always ding, dinging Dame Grundy into
my ears, What will Mrs Grundy say ! " The influence
of the old lady is yet strong in the land.
In the west of England we encounter the adage,
" He will live as long as old Ross of Potteme."
Potteme is a village near Devizes, and this venerable
Ross was probably a genuine centenarian, though all
clue to him is now lost. The proverb is sometimes
rather unkindly amplified into, " Who lived till all the
world was a-weary of him," a very unhappy state of
things for all parties.
A proverb long current in Shropshire and the ad-
joining counties is, " Ahem ! as Dick Smith said when
he swallowed the dishcloth." The moral here clearly
is that troubles should be borne bravely and with as
little fuss as possible. Another old saw is, " My name
is Twyford ; I know nothing of the matter " — a state-
ment that would mean, " I object to enquiry ; I decline
to be bothered." A sarcastic saying on pretentiousness
is seen in, " Great doings at Gregory's ; heated the oven
twice for a custard." The futility of attempting to stop
proceedings after they had got to a certain point was
illustrated in the adage, "Nay, stay, quoth Stringer,
when his neck was in the halter." One can imagine
the depth of scorn that might be thrown into " Don't
hurry, Hopkins," when fired off at some notorious lag-
gard ; but the legend goes that a certain, or uncertain,
Hopkins gave a creditor a promissory - note, having
previously written on it, "The said John Hopkins is
not to be hurried in paying this amount." Of course,
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in all these explanations we have to wonder whether
some incident led to the adage, or whether the process
has been reversed — the popular saying, its real origin
forgotten, having a fictitious explanation tacked on to
it. " Credit is dead ; bad pay killed him," is a popular
adage with those who believe in ready- money trans-
actions* — a sentiment that the creditors of the late
John Hopkins would readily appreciate.
Locality proverbs, like personal proverbs, are natur-
ally more in vogue in the places named than of general
usage, though some of them travel far outside their
place of origin. Others of them, and those generally
of a derisive cast, do not originate in the place itself,
but are conferred on it by outsiders. "Go to Bath,"
for instance, was a reference to the fact that lunatics
used to be sent there for the benefit of its waters,
and the inference was that the person addressed was
a fit subject for a stay there. Had the proverb origi-
nated in the city, it would have been " Come to Bath."
" Cheshire bred, strong in the arm, weak in the head,"
is a saying that scarcely originated in that county.
Another county saying is, "You were bom at Hog's-
Norton." This was a reproof to a boorish person, but
there is no such place ; the village referred to is that
of Hock-Norton, in Oxfordshire, rustic humour readily
making the change of spelling to fit it for its purpose.
Such saws as, " Grantham gruel, nine grits and a bucket
of water," or "Like Banbury tinkers, that mend one
hole and make three," we may be sure did not originate
in the places designated. If the adage be complimen-
* *' Many, when a thing was lent them, reckoned it to be found, and put
them to trouble that helped them. Till he hath received he will kiss a
man's hand ; and for his neighbour's money he will speak submissively :
but when he should repay he will prolong the time, and return words of
grief, and complain of the time." — EcclesiasticuSy B.C. 200.
An old English proverb declares that '*Lent seems short to him that
borrows money to be paid at Easter."
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tary, it probably arose in the place, as, for instance,
"True as Coventry blue," an allusion to an excellent
dye for which the town was noted ; or " Diamond cut
diamond, I am Yorkshire too," a testimony to the
Yorkshireman's brilliancy and keenness.
The allusion is sometimes topographical. Thus,
"Crooked as Crawley brook" is suggested by a little
stream in Bedfordshire that has a course of twenty
miles between two points that are actually five miles
apart. "When Dudman and Ramhead meet" — in a
word, never. These are two conspicuous headlands
in Cornwall, miles apart. In Norfolk is a saying,
" Arrested by the bailiff of Marshland," when the un-
acclimatised stranger succumbs to the ague, the product
of the local aqueous surroundings.
Rustic humour is responsible for the somewhat blunt
point of many of these local sayings. A play upon
words is very popular. Thus Beggar's Bush, near
Huntingdon, suggests that a man "Goes home by
Beggar's Bush" when his means are dwindling away.
"On the high road to Needham," a place in Suffolk,
is of similar import, the idea of need being the point
of the adage. Tusser, for instance, writes :
"Toiling much and spoiling more, great charge smal gains or
none,
Soon sets thine host at Needham's shore, to craue the begger's
bone."
On the contrary, if he would prosper, let him "Set
up shop on the Goodwin sands," a most unpromising
locality, one would imagine, until we realise that the
saw-maker means " good win." " As plain as the Dun-
stable road " sounds straightforward enough, especially
when we recall that Dunstable is on Watling Street,
one of the noble main roads of the Romans ; but the
humour (save the mark!) of the thing is in the play
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on the idea of " dunce." In " Redgauntlet " we read :
"If this is not plain speaking, there is no such place
as downright Dunstable " — t,e, the meaning of the re-
mark is so plain that even a mere fool, the veriest
dunce, could not fail to grasp it.
In Lincolnshire, when anyone is not over -acute,
they delicately say, " He was bom at Little Wittham,"
hence the cause of his having so little wit : the actual
spelling is Witham. On the decease of anyone it is
said, ** He is gone to Deadham." In Sussex, if a man
were slow over his work, they would say, " He is none
of Hastings," the idea of haste being somehow involved.
The dwellers in the little town of Ware were pleased
to say that it was "worth all London." Fuller, who
wrote a delightful folio on the counties of England,
says: "This, I assure you, is a masterpiece of the
vulgar wits in this county, wherewith they endeavour to
amuse travellers. The fallacy lieth in the homonymy
of Ware, here not taken for that town so named, but
appellatively for all vendible commodities." In the
fen districts the frogs are called "Cambridgeshire
nightingales." At night, and especially before rain,
the frogs make a tremendous croaking. At Ripley,
in Surrey, where there is a pond near the village, we
have heard them called "The town band."
To be "stabbed with a Bridport dagger" was a
delicate way of saying that a man had been hanged.
The best hemp used to be grown round this Dorset-
shire town, and the place was famous for its manu-
facture of rope ; in fact, an ancient statute was long
in force requiring that the cables for the royal navy
should be made there.
To be " As thin as Banbury cheese " was a favourite
simile with our ancestors. Bardolph, it will be recalled,
in the " Merry Wives of Windsor," compares Slender to
a Banbury cheese. In "Jack Drum's Entertainment,"
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1 60 1, we find: "Put off your cloathes and you are
like a Banbury cheese, nothing but paring " ; while, in
a pamphlet issued in 1664, on "The Sad Condition of
the Clergy," we read, " Our lands and glebes are clipped
and pared to become as thin as Banbury Cheese."*
Another cheese that became proverbial was that of
Suffolk. It was locally called "Bang" or "Thump."
" UnrivalPd stands thy county cheese, O Giles I
Whose very name alone engenders smiles.
Whose fame abroad by every tongue is spoke.
The well-known butt of many a flinty joke ;
Its name derision and reproach pursue,
And strangers tell of three times skimm'd sky-blue."
—Blomfield,
" Hunger will break through stone walls, or anything
but Suffolk cheese," was one depreciating proverb, and
Mowbray says that " It is only fit to be cut up for
gate-latches, a use to which it is often applied." Other
suggestions for its use are the making of millstones or
grindstones or the wheels of barrows. The mention of
a wheelbarrow reminds us of the saying, " A Coggleshall
job." The residents in Coggleshall were the butts of
the country round, and one of the tales against them
is that a mad dog running through the place snapped
at a barrow, and the people, fearing it might go mad
as well, chained it up in a stable till they saw how
things would go with it. " The wise men of Gotham,"
in Nottinghamshire, were similarly made the victims of
many stories reflecting on their sagacity. A Gothamite,
Andrew Boyde, wrote the " Menye Tales of the Wise
Men of Gotham," wherein many of the follies that
have been fathered on them are duly set forth. Men
* This thinness would appear to have been of bulk, not of quality.
"Some preferre Cheshire Cheese, and others also commend the cheese
of other countries; but Banbury Cheese shall goe for my money." —
Cogan's Haven of Health, 1612.
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in all ages have made themselves merry with singling
out some place as the special seat of stupidity; thus
the Phrygians were accounted the fools of all Asia,
and the anvil for other men's wits to work upon.
The men of Gotham were so enamoured of the singing
of a cuckoo, we are told, that a number of them joined
hands round the hawthorn bush in which it was perched
to prevent its escape ; while, on another occasion, they
endeavoured to divert the course of their river by
putting a line of hurdles across.
Local products sometimes figure in these proverbs :
thus " a Yarmouth capon " is a bloater,* and " Col-
chester beef" is a dish of the sprats that are caught
abundantly in that neighbourhood, while the language
of " Billingsgate " is a local growth that has attained
to proverbial fame. Dryden refers to it in the line,
" Parnassus spoke the cant of Billingsgate."
When a man of Newcastle-on-Tyne suspected his
companion of anything doubtful he would say, " Let's
have no Gateshead," marking the popular local opinion
of the folks in the sister town — a case of "the pot
calling the kettle black," and no doubt duly resented
by a Gateshead sarcasm of equal strength.
The "fair maids of Suffolk" and the "Lancashire
beauties "t were recognised, by their respective counties
at least, as worthy of proverbial recognition for their
special charm ; while the men of Essex, doubtless
unfairly, were dubbed " As valiant as an Essex lion,"
these lions being the calves for which this county is
famous. "As wise as a Waltham calf" was another
ironical reference to the Essex folk. In a book
* ''Few capons, save what have more fins than feathers, are bred
in Yarmouth. But to countenance this expression, I understand that
the Italian Friers, when disposed to eat flesh on Fridays, call a capon
'piscem e corte,* a fish of the coop." — Fuller.
t A Doctor of Divinity, fearing, we may presume, that such high
praise might turn a head here and there, improved the occasion for
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written in 1566 we find a man called in to mediate
between man and wife declaring —
"Ye will me to a thanklesse office heere, '
And a busy officer I may appeare,
And Jack out of office she may bid me walke,
And thinke me as wise as Wsdtam's calf to talke."*
In "Dyet's Dry Dinner," 1599, after dispraise of
veal as an article of food, the author says that " Essex
calves the proverb praiseth, and some are of the mind
that Waltome calfe was also that countrey man."
A common proverb in Yorkshire is, " A Scarborough
warning," equivalent to "a word and a blow and a
blow first" Several explanations have been given of
this adage. One explanation was that if ships passed
the castle without saluting it a shot was fired into
them, but in an old ballad another theory is started —
"This term, Scarborow warning, grew, some say,
By hasting hanging for rank robbery theare,
Who that was met, but suspect in that way.
Strait he was trust up, whatever he were."
We need scarcely point out that when several reasons
are given for anything it is an indication that nothing
very satisfactory is forthcoming.
That ** Tenterden Steeple is the cause of the Good-
win Sands" is a proverb that was at one time often
brought forth when any ridiculous cause was assigned
as an explanation of anything. We have already
the benefit of these ladies — " I believe that the God of Nature, having
given fBXK complection to the Women in this County, Art may spare
her pains in endeavouring to better them. But let the Females of this
County know that, though in the Old Testament express notice be
taken of the beauty of many Women — Sarah, Rebekah, Rachael, Abi-
gail, Thamar, Abishag, Esther — yet in the New Testament no mention
is made at all of the £umess of any Woman, not because they wanted,
but because Grace is chief Gospel-beauty, and this is far better than
skin-deep Fairness."
* A proverb of like import is this, *'He talks in the bear-garden
tongue."
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seen how very colloquial Bishop Latimer could be
on occasion, and he tells us that a "Mr Moore was
once sent with commission into Kent to try out, if
it might be, what was the cause of Goodwin's Sands
which had stopped up Sandwich Haven. Thither
Cometh Mr Moore, and calleth all the country before
him, such as were thought to be men of experience,
and men that could of likelihood best satisfy him of
the matter. Among the rest came one in before him,
an old man with a white head, and one that was
thought to be little less than a hundred years old.
When Mr Moore saw this aged man he called him
unto him and said. Father, tell me, if you can, what
is the cause of the great arising of the sand here
about this harbour, which stops it up, so that no
ships can arrive here. You are the oldest man I can
espy in all the company, so that if any man can tell
the cause of it you in all likelihood can say most of
it. Yea, forsooth, good Mr Moore, quoth the old
man, for I am well-nigh one hundred years old, and
no man in this company anywhere near my age.
Well then, quoth Mr Moore, how say you to this
matter, what think you to be the cause? Forsooth,
sir, I think that Tenterden Steeple is the cause of
Goodwin's Sands. I remember the building of Tenter-
den Steeple, and before that was in building there
was no manner of talking of any flats or sands that
stopped up the haven, and therefore I think that the
Tenterden Steeple is the cause of the decay and
destroying of Sandwich Haven." This was the tale
as the bishop told it, and the explanation seems par-
ticularly far-fetched ; but one story is good until
another is told, and though this as it stands supplied
the material for the proverb, there is really a supple-
ment Time out of mind money was constantly col-
lected to fence the eastern shore of Kent against the
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inroads of the sea, and such sums were deposited in
the hands of the Bishop of Rochester. For many
years, the work being so well done, no irruption took
place, and the bishop diverted some of the money
to the building of a steeple to Tenterden Church.
People dwelt in a false security, and the dykes were
gradually growing weaker, until at last the cata-
strophe came. The old man's tale was quite rational,
had he been allowed to finish it, but the audience,
impatient of his garrulousness, and ready for a laugh
at his expense, did not give him an opportunity to
do so. It was not the ignorance of the speaker but
the impatience of the auditors that supplies the true
moral of the story.
Any extended reference to old collections of pro-
verbs, to county histories, to old plays, and such-like
sources of information would readily yield a lai^e
harvest of these local allusions, but enough has been
brought forward to illustrate the nature of them, and
for our purpose a specimen twenty is as satisfying
as an illustrative hundred.
CHAPTER VI
Proverbs suggested by Animals — Animal Characteristics : Sagacity,
Fidelity, Cunning, Greed, etc.— The Horse— The Dog— The Cat :
her Nine Lives ; the Catspaw ; filing on Feet ; in Mittens —
The Ass— Pearls before Swine — A Pig in a Poke — The Wrong
Sow by the Ear— The Sheep— The Shorn Lamb— The Bull— The
Goose— The Hen— Roasting Eggs— The Bird and her Nest— Birds
of a Feather— Catching with Chaff— Roasted Larks— The Fox—
The Wolf; in Sheep's Clothing— The Bear— The Mouse— Belling
the Cat— Fish Proverbs— The Laborious Ant— The Worm that
turns — Similes : from the Animal Kingdom ; from Household Sur-
roundings ; from various Callings ; from divers Colours
The animal life around him has always been an object
of interest to man. Some creatures, like the horse, the
dog, or the camel, he has trained to minister to his
wants — for man is at his lowest level of sympathy and
intelligence, the lowest type of savage, when we find
him absolutely alone — while others, like the fox or
the wolf, have necessarily become of concern to him
in their power of molestation, disturbing his peace and
thwarting his interests. In either case the very vary-
ing nature of the animals amidst which he dwelt has
attracted his notice, since the fidelity of the dog, for
example, the cunning of the fox, the sagacity of the
elephant, could not fail to impress themselves upon
his mind. Far away in the mist of a great antiquity
the Old Testament has numerous allusions to the
lessons that may be derived from the observation of
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animals, while /Esop and many other writers have made
the various creatures the subject of their writings and
evolved lessons for the benefit of mankind from their
varying dispositions. We are, therefore, entirely pre-
pared to find that in proverb-lore also the animal
kingdom has been largely drawn upon, and we pro-
pose to give some few example3 of this.
We are told that "It is a good horse that never
stumbles," a proverb that reminds us to make allow-
ance for others and to take heed to ourselves. We
are warned, too, that "Boisterous horse must have
boisterous bridle," that those who incline to resist
authority have no cause for complaint if the hand
of authority press somewhat hardly upon them. A
fairly analogous adage is that "Mettle is danger-
ous in a blind horse." That "A horse is neither
better nor worse for his trappings " teaches us to look
below the surface in forming our judgments, and
then again there is the well-known and excellent
warning that "One may take a horse to the water
but you cannot make him drink," a hint that one
cannot always have one's own way, and that the
co-operation of the other party in the arrangement
is an essential point. To " Get upon the high horse "
is to take up a needlessly dignified position, and
make oneself somewhat unpleasant in the process ;
while "Putting money on the wrong horse," a saw
suggested by the race-course, implies that one has
supported the wrong side and helped on, through
folly or ignorance, a matter that we had much better
have left alone.* The caution, " Do not lash a willing
* This is sometimes rendered "saddling the wrong horse." Cicero,
before the Christian era, thus quoted it. His writings and orations
teem with proverbs — the foolishness of trying to kill two birds with
one stone, the undignified spectacle of a tempest in the classic equiva-
lent of a tea-cup, the statement that while there is life there is hope,
and many other such adages familiar to ourselves being introduced.
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horse," is often necessary, and the hopelessness of
" Flogging a dead horse," endeavouring to infuse life
into a defunct cause, sometimes needs a reminder;
while the " Working for a dead horse " is almost as dis-
heartening a process. The Spaniards in such a case
say, " When the money is paid the arms are broken."
That " One must ..not look a gift-horse in the
mouth" is a lesson in the proprieties of immense
antiquity; we find it, for instance, in the writings of
St Jerome in the fourth century. A mediaeval writer
tells us that "A gyuen hors may not be loked in
the tethe." Rabelais says it must not, and the author
of " Hudibras " says it must not ; in fact there is an
abundance of testimony to this effect, extending over
centuries. The Frenchman says, "X cheval donn6
il ne faut pas regarder aux dens"; the Portuguese
says, "Cavallo dado nao se repara a idade"; and
the Spaniard says, "Caval donato non guardar in
bocca " ; and all over the world we find this delicacy
of feeling advocated. In the proverb, " He is a proud
horse that will not carry his own provender," we
have a good lesson quaintly put In Puttenham's
"Arte of Englishe Poesie," 1589, we are instructed
that "When we misplace our wordes and set that
before which should be behind, we call it in English
proverbe, *The cart before the horse.'" The unequal
way in which Fortune appears to work is borne home
to us in the strong, yet scarcely too strong, statement
that " One man may steal a horse while another may
not look over the gate"; or, as Lily, in his "Endi-
mion," hath it, " For as some man may better steale a
horse than another looke over a hedge." In the
"Paradise of Daynty Devices," 1578, we find this
couplet —
" To whom of old this proverbe well it serves.
While grasse doth growe the silly horse he sterves."
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In the more modern guise this is "While the grass
is growing the steed is starving." It may at first sight
appear a little hard to brand the horse as silly, since
he can in no way be held responsible for the back-
ward condition of the meadow, but we must remind our
readers that " silly " is one of the words that has greatly
changed its significance — it originally meant harm-
less or innocent.
" Money," we are told, " will make the mare to go,"
and the finding of "a mare's nest" is a feat that is
still now and then performed.
" Why docst thou laugh ?
What mare's nest hast thou found?"
—Beaumont and Fletcher, Bonduca.
In France it is the rabbit's nest, "nid le lapin," that
people sometimes discover.
It is a curious thing that the fidelity and affection
of the dog get little or no recognition in proverb-
lore. This may possibly arise from the fact that in
the East, the original source of many of our proverbs,
the dog is held in no esteem. He is an outcast, the
scavenger of the streets. " Him that dieth in the
city shall the dogs eat"; and "Is thy servant a dc^
that he should do this thing?" was the indignant
outburst of Hazael. In classic days it was said of
a morose, ill-conditioned person, "A black dog has
walked over him," and at the present day such a
person is said to have " the black dog on his back."
The dog of the fabulist that dropped the substance
for the shadow was held up as a warning in his
greed and folly, and "to dog" a person is not to
lavish canine affection on them by any means ; while
a favourite piece of nursery teaching was, and per-
haps still is, that "Dogs delight to bark and bite."
"Every dog," we are told, "has his day," and "Love
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me, love my dog," has sometimes been made a
stipulation. Latimer puts it more pleasantly, "Who-
soever loveth me loveth my hound " — from his regard
for me he will for my sake look kindly on what he
knows to be dear to me.
To him who is hungry any food is welcome — "A
la faim il n*y a point de mauvais pain," and there-
fore "Hungry dogs will eat dirty pudding." "Let
sleeping dogs lie " is excellent counsel ; the precept
is not in the interest of the sleepers but of those
injudicious enough to disturb their slumbers. " It is
nought goode," writes Chaucer in his "Troylus and
Cryseyde," " a sleping hound to wake," and again in the
" Frankeleine's Tale," " Wyf, quod he, lat slepen that is
stille " ; while Shakespeare writes, in " Henry VHI. " : —
" This butcher's cur is venom -mouth'd, and I
Have not the power to muzzle him ; therefore best
Not wake him in his slumber.''
In Italy and Germany we hav6 the same proverb, but
it becomes in France "N'as tu pas tort de reveiller
le chat qui dort," a much less formidable proceeding ;
and in Spain we find the variant, " When sorrow is
asleep do not awaken it" Another Spanish proverb,
and one of excellent wisdom, is " Though your blood-
hound be gentle do not bite him on the lip." It is,
by the way, remarkable how gentle big dogs are, mas-
tiffs, retrievers, Newfoundlands, and the like, while
being mauled and hauled by small children. Little
Bessie, aged five, might venture to any extent on
her great companion's forbearance and magnanimity,
while we, reader, must exercise much more discretion.
"Give a dog a bad name and then you may as
well hang him " * is a true and very oft-quoted adage.
* "Give a dog an ill name and hang him, and it may be added, if
you give a man, or race of men, an ill name, they are very likely to
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One less well known is " He that would hang his dc^
gives out first that he is mad/'* He who is about
to do something dubious first bethinks himself of
some plausible excuse that appears to justify his action,
and when this is accepted he is free from all fear of
interference. The Greeks say that "He who keeps
another man's dog shall have nothing left but the
line." If he endeavour to keep it dishonestly — in
fact, to become a dog-stealer — he cannot complain if
such care as he has bestowed comes to nought and
nothing is left to him but the cord and the food-bill.
One old commentator would tell us that the meaning
is that "He who bestows a benefit upon an ungrate-
ful person loses his cost" This is a common enough
experience, but it scarcely appears to be a moral
springing from this proverb. The dog, stolen, tied up,
amongst strangers, has no particular reason to feel
grateful I The following proverb, " Wash the dog
and comb the dog, still the dog remains the dog,"
indicates that externals do not affect the real nature.
Other doggy sayings are : " Two dogs agree not
well over one bone," " Brawling curs have torn ears,"
" A scalded dog dreads cold water." Those who,
having a good staff of assistants, find that much of the
burden and responsibility yet weighs on them, will ap-
preciate the point of the adage, "What, keep a dog,
and bark myself?" a proceeding that certainly seems
unreasonable. The Turks have a happy proverb that
"The dog barks, but the caravan passes," its fussy inter-
ference being simply .ignored. The Spaniards declare,
do something that deserves hanging." — Waltbr Scott, Guy Mannering,
The French say, " Le bruit pend Thomme."
'* Clown, Oh, Maister, you are half-hanged !
^'Nobody, Hanged. Why, man?
*< Clown, Because you have an ill name : a man had almost as
good serve no master as serve you." — "Nobody and Somebody," 1606.
* **Qui veut noyer son chien, Taccuse de rage."
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in like manner, that "More are threatened than are
stabbed," while the Dutch with equal wisdom advise
us that "No one dies of threats." The Danes very
happily warn us against judging too hastily in the
hint that "An honest man is none the worse because
a dog barks at him."
The cat takes its place in our proverb-literature.
The " Kilkenny cats " that fought so desperately have
often been quoted as a warning to warring factions,
and tenacity of purpose gone mad and self-destructive.
The old belief that a cat has nine lives has also got
embalmed in an adage, and the question will be
recalled, in "Romeo and Juliet," "What wouldst thou
have with me ? " the reply being, " Good king of cats,
nothing but one of your nine lives."* Yet "Care,"
we are told, "will kill a cat" While we may accept
this saw on its moral side, and learn from it a lesson
against despondency, its zoological side is open to
grave question. A cat dying of anxiety may fairly
be bracketted off with the broken-hearted oyster
crossed in love. The "Grinning like a Cheshire cat,"
in a continual state of mirthful good humour, suggests
a quite opposite phrase of feline nature. To " let the
cat out of the bag " is another old saying that will at
once occur to the reader ; a less known, but very
good one, Scotch in its birth, is, "He that puts the
cat in the pock kens best how to tak' her oot" An-
other good proverb of like nature is, " Who will carry
the cat to the water?" — t.e, who will endeavour to
carry the plan through, undeterred by the difficulty
of its accomplishment? To be made "a catspaw
of" is also a very expressive saying; it arose from
* A school-boy, writing an essay on the cat, put down that it was
said to have nine lives, but he added that he did not now need them,
because of Christianity. This, quaint as it is, has a great truth wrapped
up in it — the love of mercy, including kindness to animals, that is one
of the points of the teaching of Christ
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the old fable of the monkey using the cat's paw
instead of his own to rake out chestnuts from the
glowing embers. To live "a cat-and-dog life" is to
lead such an existence of strife and snarl as one
ordinarily sees in the aversion felt by these two
animals for each other. The old saw, "A cat may
look at a king/' has, too, ordinarily been used as an
impertinence.* In France its equivalent is " Un chien
regarde bien T^vfique."
"Where window is open cat maketh a fray,
Yet wilde cat with two legs is worse, by my fay.^t
The cat utilised as an excuse for other people's
shortcomings has always been a favourite subject.
Thus — " How can the cat help it if the maid be a
fool?" On the other hand, the cat's larcenous pro-
pensities must be reckoned with, so we have the dis-
heartening thought for the thrifty housekeeper, " What
the good wife spares the cat eats," and " It's easy
learning the cat the way to the churn." The Arabs
say, " He trusted the keys of the pigeon-house to the
cat," but on the other hand, " Honest is the cat when
the meat is on the hook." Of him who declines to
be turned aside by trifles, the Scottish proverb may
be quoted, "He's ower auld a cat to draw a strae
before." The man whose affairs, big and little, run
smoothly, and whose ventures, however speculative
they may be, are successful, may be said to be " Like
a cat, he always falls on his feet." This power of
falling on her feet from any height is a most valuable
gift for pussy, and saves her from many a mishap.
The cat has her enthusiastic admirers, but as a
friend of man she is ordinarily held in no great
* John Dunton, for instance, wrote in the year 1705, "A cat may
look on a Queen, or a Satyr on her present Majesty."
t Tusser. "Fray" may be taken as foray, while "fay" is fiuth —
i.e, by my faith.
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esteem. "Make much of the cat, and she will fly in
your face." She is too commonly treacherous, selfish,
and unreliable. We have more than once seen, and
our experience cannot be unique, a cat fondled and
stroked and made much of, suddenly savagely bite
or scratch the hand that has been caressing it
Pussy as a follower of the chase has suggested the
proverb, "The cat that is always crying catches no-
thing," and the better known saw, " A cat in mittens
catches no mice." "Fain would the cat fish eat, but
she's loath her feet to wet " ; and in Chaucer's " House
of Fame" we find an interesting reference to this —
"Ye be like the slepie cat •
That would have fish ; but wost thou what ?
He will nothing weate his clawes."
The "slepie cat," dormant on the hearth-rug, is, of
course, like its confreres of the jungle, a nocturnal
animal, and in the hours of darkness often becomes
a little more wakeful than is altogether appreciated.
As a songster of the night, instead of receiving merely
barren compliments on its performance, it often gets
the much more tangible reward of a boot, lump of
coal, cake of soap, or such-like little token of ap-
preciation as the auditor may find most readily come
to hand.
A very venerable proverb indeed tells us that "The
ass and his master do not always think alike." Phaedrus,
living nearly nineteen hundred years ago, had a fable
in his collection to illustrate this. He pictures to us
a man resting by the road-side, and his ass grazing
near him. The man, suddenly catching sight of an
advancing enemy, says that they must at once decamp
that they be not captured, whereupon the donkey
asks, "Will they clap on me a double load?" and
the man can only reply that he does not suppose
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that they will. "Then," said the donkey, "what
matters it to me to whom I belong?"
"He that makes himself an ass must not mind if
men ride him," truly says the old English proverb,
and another is like unto it, "When all men say you
are an ass it is time to bray." It is no less true that
"If an ass goes travelling he will not come back a
horse." The locality changes, but under every sky
the traveller remains much as he started. The ancient
Romans declared that "One ass rubs another," a
lesson in mutual help. When a coward boasts what
great things he will do, or a fool assumes the philo-
sopher, "An ass in a lion's skin" is suggested — from
the fable that an ass once decking himself in the skin
of the lion, was so elated at the terror he created that
he could not forbear braying his delight, a perform-
ance which entirely altered the whole complexion of
things and the animal stood revealed, the mere ass
that he really was.* "The ass is wagging his ears"
is a hit at those who, understanding little or nothing
of the matter in question, assume a grave demeanour
and an attitude of close attention. Two German
proverbs may be quoted here, as they are both good :
"The ass dreams of thistles," and "One ass nick-
names another. Long-ears." The Spaniards have a
very expressive adage, "The ass knows well in whose
face he brays," a warning against too great a famili-
arity with unsuitable companions, or we shall infallibly
find ourselves exposed to great liberties and a free-
and-easy " Hail fellow, well met " manner that give
us cause for repentance.
The Arabs have a happy reflection on those who,
when we are in an intricate business, raise additional
* The Germans vary this into, **Wenn der Esel auch cine Lowcn-
haut tragt, die Ohren gucken vor" — " Even when the donkey wears the
lion's skin its ears peep out and betray it."
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difficulties instead of smoothing our path, " A narrow
lane and the ass kicking."
A lesson of contentment is found in this homely saw :
" Better the head of an ass than tail of a horse " — to
be valued in a low position is far preferable to being
the fag-end of a higher. We once heard a man of
some considerable influence in a country town declare
that he was there a whale amongst the minnows, but
that if he moved to the metropolis, as his family were
desiring him to do, he should be but a minnow amongst
the whales. Such a man would entirely appreciate this
proverb. Another lesson of very similar import is seen
in this : " Better an ass that carries us than a horse that
throws us." A very quaint and shrewd utterance is:
" Now I have got a donkey, everyone says. Good
morning, John." Things are looking up, and friends
are beginning to come in.* Finally, the Spanish
caution : " He who wants an animal without fault
may go afoot," that particular kind not often coming
into the market.
The Sermon on the Mount and other discourses of
our Lord afford us numerous examples of the national
Jewish proverbs.f " Sufficient unto the day is the evil
thereof," is one illustration of this kind of popular folk-
lore, and "Cast not your pearls before swine," is another;
and in the old Greek proverb, "A scorpion for a perch,"
we have practically, " If he asks a fish will he give him
a serpent?"
The Spaniards say, " Echar magaritas a puerco s,"
* " As long as I am riche reputed
With solemn voyce I am saluted ;
But wealthe away once worne,
Not one wyll say *Good mome.'"
— HarlHan MS, , sixteenth century,
t "Jesus did vouchsafe to aunswere by a riddle and a prouerbiall say-
ing: teaching that it was an other manier of kyngdome whereof the
prophetes had spoken." — UdalL
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and this throwing of pearls before swine re-appears in
English proverb-lore, and, indeed, much further afield.
To "buy a pig in a poke" is to make a purchase
without knowing really what one is buying. The
alliteration has, no doubt, given the saying an added
popularity. In France it is, "acheter chat en poche,"
or " acheter le chat pour le li^vre," a cat being palmed
off as a hare on the incautious purchaser. We see now,
too, how a determination to see for oneself would " let
the cat out of the bag," and expose the trickery of the
proceeding.
When a man has heedlessly made a bad bargain he
is said, ironically, to have " brought his pigs to a pretty
market " — the advantageous sale of his pig being a very
important matter to the country cottager, meaning the
payment of his rent, the clearing of the score at the
village shop, and his general rehabilitation in the
ranks of the solvent.* The generally unsympathetic
and unsociable nature of the pig and his human
counterparts is expressed in such sayings as : " Feed
a pig and you will have a hog," and "What can you
expect from a hog but a grunt?" while its "wallow-
ing in the mire," and being well content to have it so,f
has also been utilised as a warning.
A bit of homely advice, quaintly put, is found in this
— " Do not drive black hogs at night." " Much cry and
no wool" is the result of shearing swine, a hopeless
task. The adage is often met with. In Fortescue's
treatise on " Absolute and Limited Monarchy," written
over four hundred years ago, we find a reference to
"the man that scheryd his hogge, moche crye and no
* A quaint old English proverb warns us that "A hog upon trust
grants until he is paid for," a very discomposing habit.
t " For thilke verrei prouerbe befelde to him — The hound tumyde
agen to his castyng, and a sowe to waischen in walewing in fenne." —
2 Petery chap. ii. Wyclif 's translation.
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wulL" In a book published in 1597 it runs: "Of the
shearing of hogges there is great crie for so little wolle,"
and we find the saying again in " Hudibras " and many
other books, and in old plays.
In " Hudibras," too, may be found the equally familiar
expression, " wrong sow by the ear," a proverb of great
antiquity that occurs frequently in the old dramas. We
are told by some etymologists that the sow in question
is not porcine at all, but is a large tub with handles.
Sowsed meat is meat that has been in pickle in one of
these sows. To have got the wrong sow (by the ear
or handle for facility of moving) is to have brought the
wrong vessel. To confirm this view they quote the
old Latin proverb, "Pro amphora urceolus" — instead
of the great amphora you have brought me a small
pitcher. Either reading will serve the turn, and is of
like significance in application — the warning against
getting hold of an entirely wrong idea and hammering
away at it.
To "cast sheep's eyes" on one is to snatch a hasty
glance, looking askance with sheep -like timidity on
some fair object whose regard has not been won or
as yet appealed to. The idea that " One black sheep
infects the flock and poisons all the rest" has, we
need scarcely say, no warrant in actual fact, though,
morally, a black sheep is a dangerous addition to any
flock, a something to be promptly eliminated from regi-
ment, workshop, school, or whatever other body he may
be infecting or exposing to risk of contagion. A much
more attractive adage is the well-known declaration,
" God tempers the wind to the shorn lamb." The
French say, "A brebis tondue Dieu mesure le vent," and
the English proverb, as we find Herbert using it in
1640, is a repetition of this — "To a close-shorn sheep
God gives wind by measure." This shearing process
suggested eighteen hundred years ago, or possibly long
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before this,* the proverb, " Boni pastoris est tondere
pecus, non deglubere" — "It is the duty of a good
shepherd to shear his sheep, not to skin them." Thi?
note of warning is repeated in the reminder that "The
orange that is too hard squeezed yields a bitter juice,"
both proverbs teaching moderation.
It is a pleasant little saying that " He who has one
sheep in the flock will like all the rest the better for
it" In these happy islands the fear of the wolf has
long been extinct, but in other lands the sheep and
the wolf are often bracketted together in their pro-
verbs; thus in France one is warned against a too
self-effacing humility in this world in the words, " He
that maketh himself a sheep shall be eaten of the
wolf"; while another lesson of worldly prudence is
taught in the Italian proverb, "It is a foolish sheep
that makes the wolf his confessor." The Spaniard
says, "Oveja que bala bocada pierde" — "The sheep
loses a mouthful when it bleats," a proverb which
seems to encourage mere greediness at the expense of
social converse, but which we may take more favour-
ably to imply that it is better to stick steadily to
one's work than break off" for useless interruptions
and, possibly, querulous complaints.
A "bull in a china shop" calls up a picture of
tremendous uproar and devastation. The ancient
Greeks substituted " An ass peeping." Menander,
three hundred years before the Christian era, refers
to it, as do Lucian and others. The story upon
which it is founded is, that an ass, being driven along
the road, put its head into the shop of a potter. This
potter was a great lover of birds, and had many of
them in his shop, and the sudden appearance of the
ass's great head frightened them and led to a big
* The date we have given is that of Suetonius, from whose writings
we quote it It was probably an ancient saying in his day.
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smashing up of the crockery. The moral may be found
in another ancient saying — "A mad beast must have a
sober driver." The Latin "Bovem in lingua habet" —
" He has an ox on his tongue " — is a hint that the
man has been bribed to silence or false speech, an
ox being a favourite device on the coins. Another
saying of like significance is that, "The man has a
bone in his mouth." A valuable lesson to the dis-
contented, a warning that necessary troubles must be
endured, that duties may not be shirked, is this — " To
what place can the ox go where he will not plough ? "
That the malicious cannot do all the harm they
would is happily suggested in the adage, " Curst cows
have curt horns." This proverb is centuries old, and is
merely a translation from an ancient Latin* original —
if indeed it be safe to suggest any date when this
proverb sprung into birth — for it is quite possible that
Noah quoted it as a bit of the good old wisdom of
his forefathers.
It is scarcely necessary to remind our readers of,
and niuch less to expound for their benefit, so familiar
a saying as, "A regular John Bull."
The goose appears in several adages, one rather
severe one being, that "If all fools wore white we
should look a flock of geese." One could readily
acquiesce in this if the adage said "they"; it is the
i^we" that is so pajnful. It is held that the goose
is a foolish bird,t but how much more foolish was he
* " Dat Deus immiti comua curta bovi."
t Pliny, in speaking of the goose, says that ** It may be thought
there is visible in the creature some sparks of wisdom, for Lacydes,
the philosopher, is said to have had one of them attached to him as a
constant companion, which would never leave him night or day, neither
in the open street nor in the baths." One does not quite see where
the wisdom comes in. It appears either to suggest that the bird
showed great fidelity, or, as some might think it, became an intolerable
nuisance. However that may be, Pliny points to a remedy for the
latter when he adds quaintly — "But our countrymen are wiser, who
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who, having a goose that laid him a golden egg each
day, cut the bird open to get at once the whole store.
" Much would have more, and so lost all." The man
who cannot say " Bo ! to a goose " is rightly regarded
as a poor creature. A very sarcastic adage is that
which satirises the man who, having gained great
wealth by dubious means, endeavours to buy over
Heaven and his own conscience by a little cheap
almsgiving in the words — "He steals a goose and
gives away the giblets to the poor." We must not
overlook, either, the great charter of freedom and
equality enshrined in "What is sauce for the goose
is sauce for the gander." "To shoe the goose" is
now quite obsolete as a saying, though it was at one
time very popular as a suggestion to those people,
fussy busybodies, who will keep meddling in other
people's affairs. It was a task that would take them,
at all events, some little time, give their energies some-
thing to work on, and was no more useless than many
of their toils. In the " Parliament of Byrdes," written
about 1650, we read that he "Whowyll smatter what
euery man doos maye go helpe to shoo the goose."
There is a useful word of warning in the following : —
" A goose-quill may be more dangerous than a lion's
claw " to one attacked by it
There is homely wisdom in the hint that "If
you would have a hen lay you must bear with the
cackling"; and, of course, the need or otherwise of
teaching one's grandmother to suck eggs must not be
forgotten. The Greeks phrased the idea as "Teach-
know how to make a dainty of their liver ! " He then goes on to
describe the cramming to which they are exposed. Polladius says that
they were chiefly fed on powdered figs. Martial also mentions the
great size to which the liver was developed — all of which goes to show
that ** There is nothing new under the sun," and that the equivalent
of Strasburg pat^ has been an appreciated delicacy for many years
before Derby hampers were dreamt of.
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ing a dolphin to swim," while the French say: "The
goslings want to drive the geese to pasture." Two
useful proverbs in this connection are that " There
is reason in roasting eggs," a right and a wrong way
for almost everything, and " Don't carry all your eggs
in one basket."
A crotchety, fanciful individual, regarded by most
people as a little peculiar, has, in English proverbial
phrase, " A bee in his bonnet," or " Is bitten by a
maggot," while the French say, " He has a rat in his
head," and the Dutchmen account for his eccen-
tricities by crediting him with a mouse's nest in his
brains.
The Italians say : " Si prendono piu mosche col
miele che coll' aceto " — " More flies are caught by
honey than by vinegar." To arrive at any desired
result, sweetness of manner will carry matters on
much more efficaciously than the reverse.
"Where there are industrious persons there is wealth,"
and " Where bees are there is honey." Steady industry
must reap a reward. On the other hand, we find a
proverb, "To poke one's hand into a hornet's nest,"
and receive the painful reward of indiscreet meddling
thereby.
An old English proverb hath it that " It is an ill bird
that bewrays its own nest." Skelton, writing in 1520,
declares how
" Rede and leme ye may,
Howe olde protierbys say
That byrd ys not honest
That fylyth hys owne nest"
While Heywood gives it as : " It is a foule byrde that
fyleth his owne nest" As a member of a family, of a
trade or profession, as the citizen, or the denizen of
any country, each should bear in mind this adage,
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and beware of bringing reproach on himself or his
surroundings.
The Italians say : " Ad c^^i uccello suo nido h belle "
— every bird thinks its own nest beautiful — ^and in a very
old French book we found the equivalent of this : " A
chescun oysel son nye li semble bel." A quaint little
adage is this one from Spain : " A little bird must
have a little nest " — a lesson in contentment, a warning
against pretension and undue importance; while the
Turkish saying, " The nest of a blind bird is made by
God,'' is a beautiful lesson of resignation and faith.
The Italians say : " Better be bird of the wood than
bird of the cage." This is rightly enough the bird's
point of view ; but the owner of the cage puts things
rather differently, and declares : " Better one bird in the
hand than ten in the wood." The Italians say that " It
is better to have an egg to-day than a hen to-morrow " ;
but this, surely, is rather overdoing the thing. Even
though present gain may outweigh future grander pos-
sibilities, the policy may be too narrowly pinched, and
does away then with legitimate hope.
Those troublous little robbers, the quarrelsome spar-
rows, supply the material for some few proverbs. Of
these we may instance a couple: "For fear of the
sparrows the hemp is not sown" — a saying directed
against the over -cautious, for necessary things must
be done, even though there be some little risk in the
doing ; and " Two sparrows on one ear of corn cannot
agree," though, if they would only be wise enough to
let the other alone, there would be ample provision for
both.
The French have a very true saying : " Chacun aime
son semblable" — our English equivalent being "Birds
of a feather flock together." Hence it is a saying :
"Tell me with whom thou goest, and I will tell thee
what thou doest" Burchardt, in his collection of Arabic
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proverbs, gives the following very graphic one: "He
who introduces himself between the onion and its peel
goes forth with the onion smell " ; but, on the other
hand, we have in the Spanish, "Associate with the
good and thou shalt be one of them."
When some matter comes unexpectedly and incon-
veniently to general knowledge, the explanation of the
informant as to his or her source of information some-
times takes the form of " A little bird told me." The
probable origin of this will be found in the Biblical
warning : " Curse not the king, no, not in thy thought,
and curse not the rich in thy bed-chamber, for a bird
of the air shall carry the voice, and that which hath
wings shall tell the matter." Another very familiar
saying, and still in use amongst our people, is that
" One swallow does not make a summer," * and yet
another adage, and one equally well known, is the
reminder that " Fine feathers make fine birds," almost
always quoted disparagingly, but at least a hint
that even externals have their value, and are worth
consideration.
Another well-known adage is that "An old bird is
not to be caught with chaff*." The art of the bird-
snarer has supplied several other useful contributions
to the cosmopolitan ingathering of proverbial wisdom :
thus, for instance, we are cautioned that " Drumming is
not the way to catch a blackbird," and, again, that " An
empty hand is no lure for a hawk " — that is to say, if
we are unwilling to risk anything we shall probably also
not obtain anything. There is yet again another, the
warning voice against temptation and the snare, in this :
" The fowler's pipe sounds sweet till the bird be caught."
The Arabs declare that " A thousand cranes in the air
are not worth one sparrow in the fist." This, with due
* " One swallow proaeth not that summer is neare." — "Treatise against
Dauncing," 1577.
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allowance for Eastern exaggeration and hyperbole, we
recognise as but over again the familiar estimate of the
repective values of the so well-known bird in the hand
as compared with that of the bird in the bush.
When folks are looking for some special and excep-
tional interposition of fortune that is going to put
everything straight for them, and lead them by a
delightfully lazy route to an easy affluence, we may not
unfairly remind them that " When the sky falls we shall
catch larks ready roasted." Only the little "when,"
that will call for no labour at all, and then a glorious
abundance to at once follow.
The Scotch remind us that " A craw is nae whiter for
being washed " ; but then, on the other hand, this
washing process seems needless, for another saw tells
us that " The crow thinks her young ones the fairest."
Elsewhere, though, we find that " The rook said to the
raven. Stand aside, blackamoor" — an ornithological
version of the same derisive spirit that led to the jeering
pot calling the kettle black. It has been suggested that
it would be a happy thing if some power would " the
giftie gi*e us, to see oursel's as others see us," but we
fancy it would be but a doubtful blessing after all.
An old proverb, with much good sense in it, says that
" The woodpecker loses itself by its bill," the continuous
tapping calling attention to its presence, and making
its life depend on the gamekeeper's forbearance. The
scream of the jay and the fussy cry of the blackbird
often, in like manner, betray their presence in the wood-
lands, and thus, also, chatterers expose themselves, and
are the cause of their own downfall. In many cases
it is what other people are saying that works mischief
to a man ; but in the case of the blatant and thought-
less chatterer he works his own woe — all that other
people have to do being to let him do his own
summing-up, and be his own executioner. Other bird
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proverbs are: "One raven will not pluck out another
raven's eyes," and " He greatly needs a bird that gives
a groat for an owl." We are told, too, and it is a capital
saying, that "An eagle does not catch flies";* that
" The hawk is not frighted by the cry of the crane " —
greater size being not necessarily greater courage. Yet
another true, too true, proverb is, that "If you breed
up a crow he will pluck out your eyes" — a lesson to
prepare one for the base ingratitude that may follow
great kindness shown, and of the still sadder returning
evil for good.
The cunning of the fox has been a never - failing
subject for the writer of fables, and has supplied the
material for scores of popular sayings. Of these we
need quote but a few as samples of the many, since
they are almost all constructed on the same lines, the
subject being nearly always more or less of admiration
for successful trickery. Not a very good moral this, we
may say, yet if, in its outcome, it teaches to beware of
putting oneself in the power of such particularly artful
and shifty characters, it will not be without its use.
Absolutely the only proverb that we can recall that
takes up entirely different ground is one of jubilation
on the final downfall of this arch-trickster, and, curiously
enough, it is of wide appreciation. In Italy, it is :
"Tutte le volpi si trouvano in pellicaria." In France
it is : " En fin les renards se trouvent chez le pelletier "
— the fox at last finds his way to the furrier's.
When he would conceal the real object in view, " We
are going for a little music, said the fox." We are told,
too, that " An old fox needs not to be taught tricks,"
and that "He would cheat the fox must be an early
riser." The Germans say: "Wenn der Fuchs Richter ist
gewinnt schwerlich eine Gans den Process " — if the fox
♦ ** The eagle suffers little birds to sing,
And is not careful what they mean thereby."
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be judge the goose is hardly likely to win the case.*
" Wenn der Fuchs sie todt stellt so sind die Hiihner
in Gefahr" — when the fox feigns death the poultry
are in danger.
The wolf is often introduced in proverb-wisdom, but
he is, as his nature is, always a cruel, cheerless beast,
quite wanting in the debonair attractiveness of the fox
— ^who is as big a rascal really as he is. " To put one's
head into the wolfs mouth " is to needlessly court great
risks. The proverb is based on the old fable of the
crane putting its head down the wolfs throat to extract
a bone that had stuck there. The operation was entirely
successful, and, on asking for his reward, the wolf told
him that it was reward sufficient to have safely with-
drawn his head. " To keep the wolf from the door " is .
to keep starvation at bay, and "To eat like a wolf" is to
eat ravenously.
The Italians say that "Who keeps company with
the wolf will learn to howl." Deliberate association
with evil characters will make one as bad as those they
associate with.t "Though the wolf may lose his teeth
he does not lose his inclinations" — he is at heart as
wolfish as ever. The Persians give the caution : " Keep
the dogs near when thou suppest with the wolf," while
the Romans had a saying, "Auribus lupum teneo."
This having the wolf by the ears is a most dangerous
position to be in, for the furious creature is so difficult to
hold, and yet one dare not let go on any consideration.
Thus do unfortunates at times get entangled in some
bad business — the beginnings of a lawsuit, or the like —
where advance or retreat seem equally alarming. The
* " Pheasants are fools if they invite the hawk to dinner.
And wer't not madness then
To make the fox surveyor of the fold."
— Shakespeare,
t On the other hand, the Portuguese warn those who do not want to be
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" Wolf in sheep's clothing " is a still more objectionable
beast than the wolf in propria persond^ since he thereby
adds treachery to all his other evil qualities :
" And by these guileful means he more prevailed
Than had he open enmity profest.
The wolf more safely wounds when in sheep's clothing drest"
The bear has not so distinctive an individuality in
fabledom as the fox or wolf. The best proverb that
we have met with in which he figures is the declaration
that "A man without restraint is a bear without a ring ; "
and then there is, of course, the well-known caution to
the over-sanguine, " Sell not the bear's skin before you
have caught him," or, as it is also phrased, " Spending
your Michaelmas rent at Midsummer noon," not con-
sider what may arise to mock your present confidence.
In our list of wild beasts it is a considerable drop
from the wolf and bear to the mouse ; but the mouse
claims his place on our list, and is a much better known
wild beast in England than the wolf, and therefore more
in evidence in our proverbs. "The mouse that hath but
one hole is easily caught," says an old adage, and we
meet with it again in Chaucer's " Wife of Bath," in the
couplet,
" The mouse that always trusts to one poor hole
Can never be a mouse of any soul " ;
or, at all events, of any great enterprise.
A very true and impressive proverb is that "A
mouse may stir what a man cannot stay " — a very small
commencement may lead to an incalculable ending;
a momentary slip unarrested may hurl half-a-dozen
mountaineers over a precipice ; a little trickle of water
unregarded may be the solvent that will melt away
taken for wolves not to wear the skin : "Quem nao quer ser loubo nao che
vista a pelle."
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all barriers, and sweep all living things to destruction
in the swirling torrent as it breaks its bonds.
There is a note of caution in the picturesque state-
ment, " I gave the mouse a hole, and she has become
my heir." The Spanish, "Give me where I may sit
down and I will make a place for myself to lie
down" is like unto it, showing in each case that if
we "Give an inch, they will take an ell," and that
we may, too late, repent of our first assistance when
it has led in the end to our effacement
The Chinese say, with quaint common-sense, "A
mouse can drink no more than its fill from a river."
Beyond a certain point that is soon reached all else
is needless superfluity.
The strained relations between the cat and the
mouse form the subject of divers popular adages.
How good is the Scottish, "Weel kens the mouse
when the cat's oot o' the house," paralleled in our
English version, "When the cat's away the mice will
play," or in the French, "Les rats se promenent a
I'aise la ou il n'y a point des chats," and there is a
pleasant vein of truth and humour in the assertion
that "Mice care not to play with kittens."
In the " Order of Poles," a manuscript of about the
year 1450, we find the graphic declaration that " It is
a hardy mouse that is bold to breede in cattis eeris " ;
and Skelton writes, in 1520, "It is a wyly mouse that
can build his dwellinge house within the cattes eare." ♦
Heywood and other later writers also refer to this
proverb in their various works.
The query, " Who shall bell the cat ? " may be called
a fable abridged, for it contains the point of one. The
mice held a consultation how to secure themselves from
the too marked attentions of the cat, and someone
* ''That's a valiant flea that dare eat his breakfast on the lip of a lion."
— Shaksspsarb, King Henry V.
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suggested that it would be an excellent plan to hang
a bell round her neck, so as to give warning of her
approach. The idea was taken up warmly, but then
the point arose — Who shall do it?
"Quoth one mouse unto the rest,
Which of us all dare be so stout
To hang the bell cat's neck about :
If here be any let him speake.
Then all replide. We are too weake;
The stoutest mouse and tallest rat
Doe tremble at a grim-fadd cat**
The above is from "iDiogenes Lanthorne," issued in
the year 1607. Hey wood writes:
"Who shall ty the bell about the cat's necke low?
Not I (quoth the mouse) for a thing that I know."
To " smell a rat " is to have one's suspicions aroused
as to something concealed, and is suggested by the
eagerness of dog or cat to follow scent. The saying
will be found in Ben Jonson's "Tale of a Tub," in
Butler's " Hudibras," and elsewhere.
The art of the fisherman supplies material for some
few wisdom-chips. " All is fysshe that cometh to net "
we read in * Colyn Cloute" and other old sources of
information.* " To swallow a gudgeon " is to be caught
by some designing schemer's bait, some lying pros-
pectus of the "All-England Aerated Soap Company,
Limited," in which it is shown that the profits must
necessarily warrant a dividend of sixty-five per cent,
after six hundred thousand pounds have been set
aside for working expenses. " To throw away a sprat
to catch a herring" is a popular adage and of much
good sense. "All fish are not caught with flies" is
a useful hint too — ^all people that we would influence
• As, for instance, in Gascoigne's " Steele Glas," 1575, where we read :
" Where &vor sways the sentence of the law,
Where al is fishe that cometh to net."
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are not open to the same considerations. " It is a silly
fish that is caught twice with the same bait" To err
is human, and to be once entrapped may easily happen,
but it is mere folly not to profit by bitter experience.
The French say, "C'est la sauce qui fait le poisson,"
and the way in which a thing is presented to one is
often of great importance. The use of proper means
to effect our purpose is enforced in the warning that
"Fish are not to be caught with a bird-call."
It is excellent advice to "Never offer to teach
monkeys to climb up trees" — another variant on in-
struction in ovisuction. It is very true, too, that
" Monkeys are never more beasts than when they
wear men's clothes" and "ape" humanity.
The laborious ant has not escaped the notice of the
moralist, fabulist, and adage-employer. That they store
up a mass of grain for winter service is entirely untrue,
but it was at all events thought that they did ; hence
Juvenal writes, " Some men, instructed by the labouring
ant, provide against the extremities of want," while
Ovid declares that " Ants go not to an empty granary."
The Arabs say that "If God wills the destruction of
an ant He allows her wings," a hint that sudden ele-
vation above the capacity and beyond the experience
of anyone will very probably cause their downfall.
Another Arab proverb is, "The beetle is a beauty in
the eyes of its mother." Whatever the rest of the
world may think, maternal affection is all-embracing.
The French adage, " Faire d'une mouche un elephant,"
is a needed caution, equivalent to our reproof of those
who would "make a mountain out of a mole-hill."
Such exaggeration is most profitless ; it is soon de-
tected, and thenceforth even true statements are sub-
jected by the hearers to a liberal discount.
That "Even the worm will turn" is an oft-quoted
saying to rightly justify a limit to endurance of injus-
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tice. " Tread a woorme on the tayle and it must tume
agayne," quotes Heywood ; and Shakespeare, who
clothes with beauty the commonest sayings of his
day, writes:
"The smallest worm will turn, being trodden on.
And doves will peck in safeguard of their brood."
A great proverbial use is popularly made of similes
or comparisons, and observation of the very varying
characteristics of the animals around them soon sup-
plied our forefathers with an abundant store of these.
" All that is required," as Bland, an old proverb-col-
lector, states, " in forming this species of adage is that
the person or thing used as a comparison be generally
known or reputed to possess the property attributed
to it."
As examples of the sort of thing we find amongst
similes suggested by various beasts : " As greedy as a
pig," " as surly as a bear," " as cunning as a fox," " as
quiet as a mouse," "as poor as a church mouse," "as
obstinate as a mule," " as sharp as a weasel," " as fierce
as a lion," "as timid as a hare," "as mischievous as a
monkey," "as faithful as a dog," "as quiet as a lamb,"
" as playful as a kitten," " as sly as a cat," " as patient
as an ox," or "as weak as a rat," and "as wet as a
drowned rat" "As drunk as a rat" may have arisen
from an idea that the creature imbibed too freely from
the liquors often stored in the cellars it frequented. In
Horde's " Book of Knowledge," 1 542, we find the pas-
sage, " I wyll be dronken other whyles as a rat" These
sayings sometimes refer to old beliefs that are now
exploded. "As uneven as a badger" arose from an
idea that the badger's legs are shorter on one side than
on the other. " As melancholy as a hare " was a saying
that sprang from the belief that the flesh of a hare
engendered melancholy in those who partook of it, and
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that this effect was naturally produced from the un-
happy disposition of the animal itself Another saying,
and one that has come down to the present day, is,
"As mad as a March hare."*
Amongst the similes derived from bird nature we
find : " As hoarse as a raven," " as stupid as an ostrich,"
" as innocent as a dove," " as chattering as a jay," " as
plump as a partridge," "as proud as a peacock," "as
bald as a coot," "as black as a crow," "as giddy as a
goose," " as dull (or as wise) as an owl," " as blithe as a
lark," and "as rare as a black swan." To our fore-
fathers the idea of a black swan seemed an absolute
contradiction, and to say, as was said in classic days,
" Rara avis in terris, nigroque simillima cygno," was to
express at once the greatest impossibility the speaker
could imagine.! Many things have happened since
then, and amongst them the discovery of Australia
and its singular fauna.
" As slippery as an eel," " as flat as a flounder," " as
dead as a herring," "as round as a roach," are other
well-used similes. " As thirsty as a fish," " as busy as
a bee," " as blind ^s a bat," " as spiteful as a toad," are
also in common use. The spitefulness of the toad arose
from an old belief in his venomous nature and his
promptitude in spitting poison on those who molested
him. We also hear, "as merry as a cricket" or "as
a grig." It has been conjectured that this latter
should be, "as a Greek," and in support of this the
Shakespearean passage, "Then she's a merry Greek,"
may be brought forward, and others of like tenor
* " Contrary to reason ye stamp and ye stare,
Ye fret and ye fume, as mad as a March hare." — Heywood,
•*Thou madde Marche hare."— 5>6^//<7«, 1520.
t *' He that worse may must holde the candle, but my Maister is not
so wise as God might have made him : hee is gone to seeke a Hayre
in a Hennes nest, a Needle in a Bottle of Haye, which is as sildome
seene as a black Swan." — **Angrie Women of Abington."
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might be cited. "As blind as a beetle" doubtless
arose from the way that some species have of blunder-
ing into the wayfarer in the dusk of the evening. The
common dor-beetle, the cockchafer, the stag-beetle, and
others supply us with illustrations of this. Sir Thomas
Brown, in his interesting book on "Vulgar Errours,"
writes : " Slow worms are accounted blind, and the like
we affirm proverbially of the beetle : although their eyes
be evident." Udall writes : " Proude lerusalem deserued
not to haue this pre-eminence, which, albeit she were in
every dede as blynde as a betell, yet thought herselfe to
haue a perfect good syght, and for that cause was more
vncurable"; while in the "Mirror for Magistrates" we
find : " Say not the people well, that Fortune fauours
fooles? So well they say, I thinke, which name her
beetle-blind."
To compare a man out of his element to a fish out
of water is a well-worn and familiar simile. Chaucer
writes that " A monk whan he is cloysterless is likned
till a Fissh that is watreles." This illustration of the
unhappy condition of the monk outside his cloister is
found not uncommonly, the earliest perhaps being in a
Greek " Life of St Anthony," that is certainly not later
than the year 373. Wyclif, for instance, writes : " For
as they seyn that groundiden in these cloystris thes men
myghten no more dwelle out therbf than fiss mighte
dwelle out of water." Some fish, as the tench, are
much more tenacious of life when removed from their
native element than others, and the saying that we have
already quotod, " as dead as a herring," originated from
the fact that this fish is in a marked degree unable
to survive a very short removal from the sea.
The household surroundings of our ancestors readily
supplied them with many apt similes readily under-
stood by all. Of these we may instance : " As thin as
a rake," "as round as a tub," "as cold as ice," "as
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dull as ditch-water," ''as rough as a nutmeg-grater,"
"as hard as iron," '"as smooth as a pebble," ""as deep
as a well," " as cool as a cucumber," ** as soft as wool,"
"as hard as nails," "as stiff as a poker," "as light as
a feather," " as flat as a pancake," " as dry as a bone,"
and "as fresh as paint." "As naked as a needle"
occurs in "Piers Plowman," the only place we have
come across it "As dead as a door-nail" no doubt
owes some of its popularity to its alliteration ; it is
sometimes " as dead as a dore-tree." In " Wit Restored,"
1658, we find, "As dead as a dore-nayle"; and in
" 2 King Henry IV." Falstaff exclaims, " What ! is the
old king dead ? " and Pistol replies, " As nail in door."
In a much older work than either of these we find,
in the description of a tournament : " Thurth the bold
bodi he bar him to the erthe as ded as domayl";
while another manuscript reads: "Feith withoute fait
is feblere than nought, and as ded as a dorenail" —
faith without works is dead. Piers Plowman says on
this, " Feith withouten the feet is right nothyug worthi,
and as dead as a dore-tree." The door-tree is the
door-post, once part of a living tree, but now dead ;
while the door-nails are the equally moribund nails
that in mediaeval days studded the surface of the door.
Other similes from the furniture or other details
of the house or its surroundings were, "as clear as
a bell," referring to its tone, or "as sound as a bell,"
referring to its freedom from cracks that would destroy
its sounding powers. We also have " as hot as toast,"
or " as crusty as a houshold loaf." " As clean as a
whistle," or perhaps "as clear as a whistle." Those
who have seen a country boy making a whistle from
a bit of elder or other pithy or hollow wood, and
then seen the final peeling of the bark and the re-
vealing of the light green of the spotless underwood
thereby, would give their vote probably in favour of
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"clean." It has been suggested again that the word
means empty, a whaler that returns unsuccessfully from
the fishing-ground being technically called "clean." On
the other hand, the word "clear" may suggest either
the quality of the sound or the necessity for their
being no stoppage or impediment in the tube. Some
will brush aside both explanations and say that the
thing in question is not a whistle at all but a whittle,
the big knife that butchers use, and that the notion
really is that the thing in question, whatever it may
be that calls forth the comparison, is cut off as
cleanly and clearly as if it had been done by a
whittle.
To be " as like as two peas " is a very happy simile,
as all who have ever shelled peas will recognise. " As
right as a trivet" is still an expression that may be
heard from time to time. What those who use it
• quite mean by it it might perhaps puzzle them to
explain. Some tell us that the trivet is a three-
legged thing and must therefore necessarily stand
firm, while we know by experience that a four-legged
article will not always do so. Others tell us that
this valuable quality of rightness depends on its
being truly rectangular, as if it be not accurately
made it will not fit the bars to which we would
attach it, and will not give a level surface to stand
pot or kettle on. Whatever the true explanation may
be the rightness of a trivet is an article of popular
faith, and no theorising will have any power to upset
our firm belief in its rectitude. " As big as a par-
son's barn " refers to the olden time when the minister
of the parish received his tithes in kind instead of
in cash, and had to find sufficient stowage -room
accordingly for these contributions.
Various callings were also laid under contribution
in the quest for similes. Thus are : " As hungry as a
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hunter," " as dusty as a miller," " as black as a sweep,"
or a coal-heaver or a collier, "as sober as a judge,"
and " as drunk as a lord " — this latter being a relic of
the old times when men of wealth and influence
thought it no shame to give way to intoxication, and
one of the duties of the butler, having supplied them
with wine, was to loosen the cravat of any gentle-
men who showed any signs of apoplexy, and to
generally make their stay beneath the table as com-
fortable as possible. " As mad as a hatter " is really
a corruption of the French, "II raisonne comme une
huitre " — he reasons like an oyster, and has no associa-
tion with the gentlemen who provide our head-gear.
The French proverb, we need scarcely point out, is
sarcastic. The oyster when crossed in love, it will
be remembered, is thus again made mock of and its
feelings derided.
The various colours of the objects that meet our
view are also pressed into the service of the seeker
after similes ; thus we have the excellent one, " as
white as snow." We also find "as yellow as a
guinea," a coin we rarely see, but familiar enough
when this saying was to the fore. "As red as a
rose" was common enough as a popular saying, but
it is not so happy as many, seeing that roses are not
by any means always red. "As red as a lobster"
is above reproach if only we come across the creature
after he has passed through the boiling stage, and
" as white as a sheet " will pass muster. " As green
as grass" is admirably descriptive, and "as grey as
a badger " will do very well. " As brown as a berry "
is more open to question, unless indeed it be a
roasted coffee-bean. Berries are white, red, yellow,
green, purple, orange, black, but we really cannot
at this moment recall a brown one, so that it seems
as though to be true we should say " as un-brown as
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a berry!" Black invites many comparisons. "As
midnight," "as coal," "as ink," "as pitch," "as jet,"
are a few of these.
We were gratified to learn from a Brazilian that
they have a simile, "as reliable as an Englishman."
Job is of course the model of patience, Solomon of
wisdom, Croesus of wealth, and we have also "as
true as Troilus," though the simile never took hold
of the popular fancy. He was the Shakespearean
ideal of unshaken constancy, and he declares that,
" After all comparisons of truth,
As truth's authentic author to be cited,
As true as Troilus shall crown up the verse."
"As true as steel" is the more ordinary simile that
rises to one's memory. Other qualities, good and
bad, that have supplied material for the makers of
similes are: "Swift as an arrow," "deaf as a post,"
"ugly as sin," "cold as charity," "bright as the sun,"
"changeable as the moon," "sweet as sugar," "sour
as vinegar," "hard as a diamond," "good as gold,"
"changeable as a weathercock," "quick as lightning,"
"firm as a rock," "soft as silk," "clear as crystal,"
"bitter as gall," "as rosy as an apple," "as cross as
two sticks," "as bright as a new pin." Our list has
no pretension to be complete — doubtless many others
might be recalled ; we have, as we write these words,
remembered that we have overlooked "as plain as a
pikestaff" and "as tight as a drum." Many such
omissions will be duly noted by our readers, but our
full justification will be found in the fact that we
have had no desire or intention to make our list all-
embracing. If those we have given are sufficiently
representative of the sort of thing we have had under
consideration, our object is gained.
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CHAPTER VII
The Power of the Tongue — Speech and Silence — Knowledge and Wis-
dom not Interchangeable Terms — Truth and Untruth — Travellers'
Tales— Flattery— Industry and Sloth— Youth-Friends, True and
False— Riches and Poverty— The Ladder to Thrift— The Influence
of Womankind— The Good Wife— The Shrew— The Testimony of
Epitaphs — The Grey Mare — Home — Hope — Forethought — Excuses
— Good and 111 Fortune — Retribution — Detraction — Pretension —
Self-interest — Bribery and Corruption — Custom and Habit — The
General Conduct of Life— The Weather— The Moon made of
Green Cheese— Conclusion
Speech, wise or otherwise, and silence, under the
same limitations, have supplied the material for count-
less wisdom-chips, the power of the tongue in what
it says and how it says it being recognised as of
vital importance, and this has been admitted at every
period and under every sky. It has been said that
"More have repented speech than silence," and the
assertion has much experience in its favour. Though
times arise when prompt speech is needful, and
cowardice and a poor expediency prevents the words
being uttered, it is, perhaps, more ordinarily the experi-
ence that one unavailingly regrets having spoken, and
would give much to be able to recall the hasty and
inconsiderate utterance.*
It has been truly said that he knows much who
* The Portuguese warn us that great talkers make many mistakes, in
the adage, ** Quern muito falla muito erra."
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knows when to speak, but that he knows yet more
who knows when to be silent, and that the good
talker is known by what he says, and also by what
he does not say. It has been very happily declared
that " Flow of words is not always flow of wisdom,"
and that "Quality is ever better than quantity," so
that " Words should be delivered not by number but
by weight." * Another very true adage is that " Talk-
ing comes by nature, silence by understanding."
The Italians say: "Great eloquence, little conscience,"
and it is certainly true that "Great talkers fire too
fast to take good aim." Speech has been declared to
be the portraiture of the mind, so that as the man
talks to us he is quite unconsciously depicting him-
self "A close mouth catches no flies" says the old
saw, and modest merit that trusts to its deserving is
likely enough to be supplanted by the boldly impor-
tunate. Many would prefer to let these others do
the impudent begging, and would surrender the flies,
but keep their self-respect Young tells us that
"Thoughts shut up want air,
And spoil like bales unopened to the sun" —
which is very true; while Shakespeare's advice is no
less so:
" Have more than thou showest,
Speak less than thou knowest"
A very homely saw declares, " Least said, soonest
mended," and certainly "Speaking silence is better
than senseless speech " ; but the assumption that the
speech is of such a quality that it is best left unsaid
is a little severe, and the mental atmosphere in which
the less said implied the less to be mended would be,
* **They have spent theyr tyme lesse fruitfiilly heretofore in ouer
runnyng a multitude of wordes with small consideracion or weyghing
of them."— Fisher, A Godfye TVeatise.
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we would fain hope, a very exceptional one. We
shall all agree that *' Say well is good, but do well is
better," and in the value of the caution that "In
lavishing words one wears out ideas." An old
rhyme hath it that "A man of words and not of
deeds Is like a garden full of weeds," and a grave old
writer advises us on this that " The way of God's com-
mandments is more in doing than in discourse."* "Great
talkers are ill doers " is another version of the saying.
It has been said, and very justly, that "Silence
often expresses more powerfully than speech the ver-
dict and the judgment," and to one who comes
beneath its sway it must be more eloquent and more
crushing than any audible denunciation that can be
repudiated or challenged. It is a very common say-
ing that " Silence gives consent," but one readily sees
that this is much too sweeping. Nevertheless, the
adage is of venerable antiquity and of wide distribu-
tion. We find it quoted by Euripides long before
the Christian era. The Romans said, " Qui tacet con-
sentire videtur," while the modern Frenchman believes
that "Assez consent qui ne dit pas mot" In Psalm
L. V. 21, things are presented on an entirely different
footing. " Silence," says Shakespeare, " is the per-
fectest herald of joy ; I were but little happy if I
could say how much." The tongue, "the unruly
member," has been the subject of countless discourses
and essays, and also of warning adages beyond number..
The writer of Ecclesiasticus tells us that "The pipe
and the psaltery make sweet melody, but a pleasant
tongue is above them both," and a French proverb
runs that "Douces paroles ne scorchent pas la langue."
* ''There are perilous times at hande by reason ot some that ynder
pretence of godlynesse tume true godlynesse vp side down, and so prate
boastynglye of themselues as thoughe the Christian religion consisted in.
wordes and not rather in purenesse of herte." — UdalL
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Richard Tavemer, writing in 1539, tells us that being
"demaunded what in a man is the worst thyng and
the best, Anacharsis answered — the tonge. Meanyng
that the selfe same parte of a manne bryngeth most
utilitie y{ it be with ryght reason gouvemed, and
agayne is most perylouse and hurtfull yf otherwyse."
This testimony may be accepted as being about the
truth ; but, as it is much less necessary to commend the
good than to denounce the evil, the general set of pro-
verb teaching is strongly in the latter direction. An old
Roman proverb runs, " Lingua quo vadis ? " — ^** Tongue,
where goest thou ? " The hint, to stop a moment and
see in what direction we are being taken, the journey
and its ending, is an excellent one.
" The first vertue, sone, if thou wilt lerc,
Is to restreine and kepen wel thy tonge,"*
writes Chaucer, in the " Manciple's Tale," and he re-
peats this in "Troilus and Creseide," and refers to
this control of the tongue as part of the valuable
practice and precept of the wise men of old :
" For which these wise clerkes that ben dede
Have euer this prouerbed to us young
That the first vertue is to kepe the toung."
Hence, " If you keep your tongue prisoner your body
may go free." Another old proverb of similar import
is, "Confine your tongue, lest your tongue confine you";
while the Spaniards throw even more force into their
version, " Let not the tongue say what the head shall
pay for." "Life and death are in the power of the
tongue " — self-destruction, or that of others. " A fool's
tongue may cut his throat " is a homely English saw,
and very much to the point.
A very quaint old MS. in the Harleian collection
* *'The tunge is but a litel menibre, and reiseth greet thingis. Lo
hou litel fier breuneth a fill greet word: and our tunge is fier, the
unyversitie of wickidnesse." — Si Janus. Translation of Widif.
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deals with the faults and failings to which men are
liable. Thus, for instance:
" With thy tong thou mayst thyself spylle,
And with tong thou mayst haue all thy wylle.
Here and se, and kepe thee stylle,*
Whatsoever ye thynk avyse ye wele."
This call to reflection terminates each verse. The
whole poem is so quaintly refreshing that we cannot
forbear quoting, at all events, one more verse — the
caution against insobriety ; and as this particular evil
has, amongst its other bad eflects, that of provoking
strife, angry discussion, and foul language, we may
still feel that it comes within our scope — the influence
of the tongue :
"And thow goo vnto the wyne
And thow thynk yt good and fyne,
Take thy leve whane yt ys tyme,
Whatsoever ye thynk avyse ye wele."
An ancient proverb reminds us that " It is good
sleeping in a whole skinne," and thereupon Heywood
comments and advises: "Let not your tong run at
rover, since by stryfe yee may lose and can not winne."
To " Teach thy tongue to say, I do not know " is also
an excellent discipline. The young, especially, shut
themselves off" from much valuable knowledge rather
than admit their ignorance.f
In a manuscript of the fourteenth century we found
the following: —
* In the "Parlament of Byrdes," written somewhere about 1550, the
chough, or Cornish crow, is thus admonished, in very similar strains to
the above:
" Thou Comysshe, quod the Hauke, by thy wil
Say well, and holde thee styll."
t The following wisdom-chips may be commended to these unfortu-
nates: "Affectation of wisdom often prevents our being wise"; ''The
man who knows most knows his own ignorance"; "Knowledge is
proud that he has learned so much : wisdom is humble that he knows
no more."
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"Wykkyd tunge breket bon, the first
Thow the self haue non "—
This is the first reference that we have come across to
a proverb commonly encountered in the form of "The
tongue breaks bones, though she herself has none."*
It is no doubt based on the passage in Ecclesiasticus,
declaring that " The stroke of the whip maketh marks
in the flesh, but the stroke of the tongue breaketh the
bones. Many have fallen by the edge of the sword,
but not so many as have fallen by the tongue." The
book of Ecclesiasticus is an overflowing treasury of
wisdom. What could be wiser counsel, for example,
than this? — "If thou hast understanding, answer thy
neighbour: if not, lay thy hand upon thy mouth.
Honouf and shame is in talk, and the tongue of man
is his fall. Be not called a whisperer, and lie not in
wait with thy tongue." "Where there is whispering
there is lying" says one of our proverbs, and it is
in the main true. The honourable and straightfor-
ward thing can ordinarily be proclaimed in the ears
of all.
The Spaniards declare that "La lang^ua del mal
amigo mas corta que el cuchillo" — "The tongue of a
false friend is sharper than a knife." "Mors et vita
in manibus linguae " : it is the arbiter of life and death,
and yet it has been necessary to remind men that "It
is better to lose a jest than a friend." A quick sense
of humour, a talent at repartee, the power of seeing
the ridiculous side of things, are dearly bought when
their display is at the expense of the feelings of
others.t A happy conceit may be the beginning of
an unhappy strife, and it must be remembered that
" He who makes others afraid of his wit had need be
* '* Thou hast hearde of many a man,
Tongue breaketh bone and it selfe hath none."
—The *• Parlament of Byrdes," c, issa
t '< Raise not the credit of your wit at the expense of your judgment."
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afraid of their memories" — the sarcastic speech, the
little touch of ridicule rankling in the mind of the
victim long after the utterer has entirely forgotten them.
We are reminded, too, that "A fool, when he hath
spoken, hath done all"; and the Spaniard tells us
that "A long tongue betokens a short head" — the
braggart tells us much of what he is going to do, but
the performance is not at all in proportion.*
"The price of wisdom is above rubies" we read in
one of the most ancient of books, dating some fifteen
hundred years before the Christian era; and Baruch,
also writing in far-off time, exclaims: "Learn where
is wisdom, where is strength, where is understanding,
that thou mayst know also where is length of days
and life, where is the light of the eyes and peace."
The apocryphal books of the Bible include Ecclesi-
asticus and the Book of Wisdom, and in each of these
the praise of wisdom is the dominant theme, as, for
example : " Wisdom is glorious, and never fadeth
away"; "She is a treasure unto men that never
faileth " ; " All gold of respect of her is as a little
sand, and silver shall be counted as clay before her " ;
" All wisdom cometh from the Lord, and is with Him
for ever " ; " The parables of knowledge are in the
treasures of wisdom " ; " Wisdom exalteth her children,
and layeth hold of them that seek her." We need
scarcely stay to point out that in the book of the
Proverbs of Solomon wisdom is again exalted in many
striking passages full of poetry and beauty.
We are all familiar with the adage, "Experientia
docet"; but the following, equally true, is less well
known — " He that loses anything and gets wisdom by
it is a gainer by his loss." Another very happy saying
is, that " A wise man has more ballast than sail," and
* ** Beaucoup de bruit, peu de fruit," as the expressive French jingle
has it.
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yet another is that "Wisdom is always at home to
those who call." It is very true, too, that "By the
thoughts of others wise men may correct their own,"
for a wise man gets learning even from those who
have none themselves; and "He is the true sage,"
says the Persian proverb, "who learns from all the
world" — a wide field, but not too wide for profitable
service.
We must be careful to bear in mind that knowledge
and wisdom are not necessarily interchangeable terms ;
a man may have a far-reaching knowledge, and be a
perfect encyclopaedia of useful and useless facts, and
yet be wofully deficient in wisdom. "Learning is but
an adjunct to oneself," writes Shakespeare, in " Love's
Labour's Lost," a sentence luminous and golden. We
see the essential difference perhaps the better if we
append to each its opposite — knowledge and ignorance,
wisdom and folly.
The fool has supplied material for countless proverbs.
Solomon tells us that "A foolish son is the heaviness
of his mother"; that "A prating fool shall fall"; that
" It is as sport to a fool to do mischief" ; that " The
fool shall be servant to the wise of heart " ; that " He
that is soon angry dealeth foolishly " ; that " Folly is
joy to him that is destitute of wisdom " ; that " He
that begetteth a fool doeth it to his sorrow " ; that " A
fool returneth to his folly"; that "A fool uttereth all
his mind " ; that " Fools die for want of wisdom " ; that
" The legs of the lame are not equal, so is a parable
in the mouth of fools " ; ♦ while the writer of Ecclesi-
asticus says — "Weep for the dead, for he hath lost
the light; and weep for the fool, for he wanteth
understanding. Make little weeping for the dead, for
* **By a fole in the prouerbes is pryncypally vnderstande him that in
folowynge his awne councell defendeth infydelyte and the vnknowing of
God for trueth and hyghe wysdome." — Matthew.
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he is at rest; but the life of the fool is worse than
death. Seven days do men mourn for him that is
dead, but for a fool all the days of his life." Many
other Biblical references may very readily be found.
In the domain of secular literature and proverb-lore
the material at our service is equally lavish in amount
and definite in its pity and scorn of these unfortunates.
The following may be accepted as samples from the
bulk: "Wise men learn more from fools than fools
from wise men " ; " Folly, as well as wisdom, is justi-
fied in its children"; "Little minds, like small beer,
are soon soured " ; " Wise men make jests, and fools
repeat them " ; " He is a fool who makes his fist a
wedge " ; " On the heels of folly shame treads " ; " To
promise and give nothing is a comfort to a fool " ; "A
foolish judge passes a quick sentence " ; "A wise man
shines, a fool would outshine " ; " Cunning is the fool's
substitute for wisdom " ; " The fools wonder, wise men
ask " ; "A fool and his money are soon parted " ; *
"The fool says. Who would have thought it?"; "Folly
jumps into the river, and wonders why Fate lets him " ;
"Wit is folly, unless a wise man has the keeping of
it"; "A fool can ask more questions than a wise
man can answer, but a wise man cannot ask more
questions than a fool is ready to answer " ; "A fool
shoots without taking aim." These proverbs are severe,
but one feels, on full consideration of them, one after
another, that there is not one that is exaggerated.
They all describe people whom we have all met, and
who are still living.
There is some considerable compensation in the fact
that "The less wit a man has, the less he knows he
wants it." The French say that "Un sot trouve
* <' A foole and his monie be soone at debate
Which after with sorrow repents him too late."
—Tusser's Husbandries is8a
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toujours un plus sot qui Tadmire" — a fool always finds
a bigger fool to admire him — and that, too, must be very
comforting .♦ As writer and reader alike happily feel
beyond any uncomfortable misgiving that these various
proverbs refer to quite other folk than themselves, we
may pick up a few hints from yet other proverbs as
to our dealings with these unfortunate people. One
point that we need to remember is that '' He who has
to deal with a blockhead has need of much brains."
It is expedient, too, to remember that "If you play
with a fool at home, he will play with you in the
street"; and the caution may be given that "A fool
demands much, but he is a greater fool that gives it."
It is painful to know that " Knaves are in such repute
that honest men are counted fools," though to be
counted a fool by a knave is, after all, of little moment
We must bear in mind, too, that " No one is so foolish
but may give another good counsel sometimes," and
the true wisdom is to value good, from whatever
quarter it comes.
The value of truth and the meanness of falsehood
find due place in our proverb literature. "Truth," we
are told, " hath always a fast bottom," a firm anchorage.
" Truth hath but one way, but that is the right way."
Esdras tells us that, "As for the truth, it endureth,
and is always strong: it liveth and conquereth for
evermore." Even in the old classic days, before Chris-
tianity influenced the lives of men, the beauty of truth
was recognised, for Plautus wrote, two hundred years
before the coming of Christ, " That man is an upright
man who does not repent him that he is upright";
and Seneca declared that "He is most powerful who
has himself in his power." It has been beautifully
said that "Truth is God's daughter," and that "It
may be blamed, but it may never be shamed."
♦ "No creature smarts so little as a fool."— -ft;^.
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The following sayings will bear consideration: —
"Truth begets trust, and trust truth/* "The use-
fullest truths are the plainest," "He who respects his
word will find it respected," " Craft must have clothes,
but truth can go naked," "No one ever surfeited of
too much honesty," "A straight line is the shortest in
morals as in mathematics," "It is always term-time
in the court of conscience," " Character is the diamond
that scratches every other stone," "Truth is the
cement of society," " Sell not thy conscience with thy
goods," " Smart reproof is better than smooth acqui-
escence." Truth, then, must necessarily make enemies,
for " Honest men never have the love of a rogue,"
and "Truth is always unpalatable to those who will
not relinquish error" — to those who love darkness
rather than light.
In the Library of Jesus College, Cambridge, in a
manuscript of the fifteenth century we find the fol-
lowing excellent teaching :
" Of mankynde thou shalt none sle
Ne harm with worde, wyll, nor dede ;
Ne suffir non lorn ne lost to be
If thow wele may than help at nede.
Be thou no thef, nor theves fere
Ne nothing wyn with trechery ;
Okur ne symony cum thow not nere.
But conciens clere kepe al ay trewely.
Thou shalt in worde be trewe alsso ;
And fals wytnes thou shalt none bere :
Loke thow not lye for frende nor foo
Lest thow they sauU full gretely dere.
Hows, ne land, ne othir thyng,
Thow shalt not covet wrangfully ;
But kepe ay wele Goddes biddyng
And Cristen fayth trow stedfastly."
Another writer gives the very wise advice to take
some little care of what goes into the mouth, but
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much more of what comes out of it. Bacon, in his
" Advancement of Learning," speaks of " The sun
which passeth through pollutions and itself remains
as pure as before," and Milton adopts the thought
but modifies it into this : " Truth is as impossible to
be soiled by any outward touch as the sunbeam." It
has been said that "Ridicule is the test of truth,"
but one scarcely sees why, and we see that Carlyle,
referring to it in one of his books, says, "We have,
oftener than once, endeavoured to attach some
meaning to that aphorism." Another adage, which
we find in France as well as in England, is that
" All truth must not be told at all times." Expediency
is a somewhat doubtful guide, but expediency at its
best is good common-sense, and common-sense
admits the truth of this adage. A much more doubt-
ful saying is that, " That is true which all men say,"
practically an echo of " Vox populi, vox Dei," though
in the highest and deepest sense a great truth is
involved in it. To assert that the clamour of the
mob is necessarily inspired by the wisdom of Heaven
is mere blasphemy; self-interest, prejudice, passion,
are too evidently factors, and what all men are saying
at a certain period may be but a passing emotion
built on the shifting sand. Such a proverb so
employed may serve well enough as a plea for drift-
ing with the stream and shouting with the' crowd,
but if we go deeper the proverb is profoundly true.
Man, born in the image of God, marred as that
image now is, preserves yet something of the divine,
and far below popular clamour and waves of passion
is the seed of truth and righteousness; and where
this throughout humanity blossoms into detestation
of slavery, unjust war, or other outrage against the
conscience of mankind, and the cry goes to Heaven
against the iniquity, the Spirit of God is dwelling in
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the souls of men, and they become co-workers with
Deity.
Falsehood, like truth, has its attendant proverbs.
How true, for instance, is this, "Subterfuge is the
coward's defence," or this, "Falsehood stings those
who meddle with it"
" O what a tangled web we weave,
When first we practise to deceive."
Hence the French say, " II faut qu'un menteur ait bonne
m^moire " — " Liars need to have good memories " ;
while the Scotch say very happily, "Frost and fausehood
hae baith a dirty wa'-gang." Other adages are : ** To
conceal a fault is to add to it another,"* "The
credit that is got by a lie only lasts till the truth
comes out," " 111 doers are ill deemers," " No poverty
like poverty of spirit," "Better lose good coat than
good conscience," "Half a truth is often a whole
falsehood," " He who breaks his word bids others be
false to him." " Almost, and very nigh, saves many a
lie," is a saw that is somewhat difficult to classify ;
it appears to be on the side of truth, and yet it
seems to suggest a way of coming nearly to the
boundary-line without actually crossing into the
domain of falsehood. In an old book of morals we
find the precept, " In relating anything extraordinary
it is better, in case of doubt, to be within rather
than beyond the line of fact" — a somewhat half-
hearted precept this!
" Travellers' tales " have long been under suspicion,
and certainly some of the earlier explorers did expose
the credence of their auditors and readers to a severe
strain in some of their narrations. On the other hand,
♦ ** A fiiult denied is twice committed,
And, oftentimes, excusing of a fault
Doth make the fault the worse for the excuse." — Shakespeare,
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we must have the grace to admit that later explorers
have verified many statements that were long held
impossible. The Persians say that "Whoso seeth
the world telleth many a He " ; while human nature
is so essentially the same all the world over that
in the sayings of a savage tribe in West Africa we
meet with this, " He who travels alone tells lies." The
common experience of mankind is unfortunately
against the traveller, and he must sometimes be
content to wait, years or centuries maybe, before his
wonderful experiences are fully accepted.
It is a true and far-reaching proverb that "Error,
though blind herself, sometimes brings forth seeing
children." Thus from alchemy, with its e/ixtr viUB and
aurum potabile^ has sprung the science of chemistry ;
and astrology, a farrago of superstitious rubbish, had yet
within it the seed that should afterwards develop into
the grandest of all sciences, astronomy.
" Flattery," Swift tells us, " is the food of fools,"
and Gray speaks of " Painted flattery with its serpent
train," while Goldsmith dwells on the
" Flattering painter who made it his care
To draw men as thy ought to be, not as they are."
The lines in "Julius Caesar" will also be recalled,
where Shakespeare writes, " But when I tell him he
hates flatterers, He says he does, being then most
flattered."* These various passages sufiiciently indi-
cate that when we tag on flattery to the end of our
section on falsehood, the arrangement is not far
wrong. Those only are the recipients of flattery
from whom some benefit may be obtained ; hence
"Flatterers haunt not cottages" we are told, with
* And again in another passage —
" O that men's ears should he
To counsel deaf, but not to flattery."
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quaint humour. That such incense is appreciated by
its objects rather than plain truths may be gathered
from another quaint old adage, "Flattery sits in the
parlour when plain -dealing is kicked out of doors."
Perhaps this is a little the fault of plain-dealing, its
directness being not always tempered with courtesy.
The man who boasts that he always speaks his mind
is not invariably the pleasantest of companions.
There must be a happy medium somewhere between
acidulated brutality of frankness and the sugared
seductiveness of flattery.
The virtue of industry and the vice of sloth are
factors in life that have not by any means escaped the
notice of the builders-up of our proverb lore and store.
The praise and inculcation of industry may very happily
be seen, for example, in this gleaning : " Every man's
task is his life-preserver," for rust consumes more than
use wears. " He who serves well need not fear to
ask his wages " ; " Those that trust to their neighbours
may wait for their harvest " ; "It is better to do the
thing than to wish it done " ; "A wise man makes more
opportunities than he finds"; "He that will eat the
kernel must crack the nut"; "Learn to labour and to
wait, but learn to labour first " ; " Well begun is half
done " ; * " God calls men when they are busy, Satan
when they are idle"; "Work provides easy chairs for
old age " ; " Time wasted is existence, used is life ";
" Save yourself pains by taking pains " ; " Things don't
turn up, they must be turned up " ; "If you don't
open the door to the devil he goes away " ; " One
grain fills not the sack, but it helps " ; " Prudence is
not satisfied with maybe " ; " Nothing venture nothing
have"; "It is working that makes a workman";
* In France they say, ''II est bien avanc^ qui a bien commence." In
both English and French versions there is a certain ring that helps the
memor}'.
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" Industry is Fortune's right hand " ; * "A willing
helper does not wait till asked " ; " We must not spend
all the time whetting the scythe " ; " Love labour, for
if you want it not for food you may for physic";
"Bustle is not necessarily industry"; "The deeper the
ploughing the heavier the reaping " ; " He that begins
many things finishes but few " ; " Grood beginning
makes good ending." To these one could readily add
one hundred more.
It is a true saying that "Every man is the son of
his own works," and another good old saw is that
"The burden which one likes is not felt" The
labour is then wonderfully lightened, and those who
are fond of their calling think little of the attendant
toil, but perform as a pleasure what others consider
a weariness.
A proverb still in common use is that " Many
hands make light work " ; while sometimes one can do
better work by not working at all, for " The master's
eye will do more than his two hands," the super-
vision being of more value than the sharing in the
toil.
An interesting old relic and reminder of old times,
when the spinnmg-wheel was in daily use, is seen
in the saying, "I have tow on my distaff" — in other
words, I have work all ready to engage my attention.
Chaucer and other old writers introduce this proverb,
but now the lapse of time, or, rather, the change of
customs, has made it obsolete, a distaff being as
• ** Industrie b a qualitie procedying of Wytte and Experience by whyche
a man perceyveth quickely, inuenteth freshely, and counsayleth spedily :
wheribre they that be called industrious do most craftely and depely
▼nderstand in al affayres what is expedient, and by what meanes or
wayes they may sonest exployte them. Those thingis in whome other
men trauayle these lighUey and with fitdlitie spedeth, and findeth new
wayes and meanes to bring to effecte that he deseyreth." — Sir Tkamas
Efyoi.
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utterly out of date as a battle-axe or a pair of
snuffers.
The entirely accepted, and very justifiable, belief that
" Satan finds some mischief still for idle hands to do,"
is seen in such proverbs as, "If the devil catch a man
idle he will set him to work," and its parallel, " Our idle
days are Satan's busy days." It has been said, again,
that " An idle brain is the Devil's workshop," and that
"It is an ill army where the Devil carries the colours."
Chaucer is in full agreement, and says that " Idlenesse
is the gate of all harmes. An idel is like to a place
that hath no walles ; theras deviles may enter on every
side," while Bishop Hall declares that " The idle man is
the Devil's cushion, upon which he taketh his free ease."
Amongst the many proverbs that have the dispraise
of idleness as their theme we may quote the fol-
lowing : — " Easy it is to bowl down hill " ; " He is but
idle who might be better employed " ; " They must
starve in frost who will not toil in heat " ; " Idleness is
the greatest prodigality " ; " Idleness always envies in-
dustry " ; " Business neglected is business lost " ; " He
that maketh his bed ill must be content to lie ill";
"Better to do a thing than wish it done"; "More
die of idleness than of hard work " ; " There is more
fatigue in laziness than in labour " ; " Shameful craving
must have shameless refusing"; "Fish are not caught
in one's sleep"; "Like a pig's tail, going all day,
and nothing done at night " ; " Lie not in the mud
and cry for Heaven's aid " ; " Were wishes horses
beggars would ride " ; " One of these days is none of
these days"; "Wishing is of all employments the
poorest paid " ; " Accusing the times is excusing our-
selves " ; " There belongs more than whistling in going
to plough." Life, however brief, is made yet shorter by
waste of its opportunities, and it has been very truly
said that " He who will not work until he feels himself
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in the proper mood will soon find himself in the proper
mood never to work at all." For years we have had
illuminated round our study walls the stirring words:
"Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy
might ; for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge,
nor wisdom in the grave," and they have lightened
for us many a burden, and given an impulse to many
an undertaking.
A Spanish proverb says that " She that gazes much
spins little " — the distraction caused by externals being
fatal to concentration of thought on the work. " No
mill, no meal," is an old English proverb, signifying
that if the necessary rattle of the machinery and the
supervision of it is an offence one must be content to
forego the benefits. " Black will take no other colour,"
is to be read as a hint that vicious people are seldom
or never satisfactorily reclaimed. Camden, writing in
1 614, tells a story of" A lusty gallant that had wasted
much of his patrimony, seeing a gentleman in a gowne,
not of the newest cut, tolde him that he had thought
it had beene his great-grandfather's gowne. * It is so,'
saith he, * and I have also my great-grandfather's lands,
and so have not you.*" We see that Fuller declares
" Oil of whip to be the proper plaister for the cramp
of lazinesse " ; while Cowper compares the idler to " A
watch that wants both hands. As useless if it goes as if
it stands " — a very happy idea.
One Smart, whom we may without offence class
amongst the lesser poets, wrote an ode on "Idleness,"
in which he declares that that is the goal, and work
merely its means of attainment. He thus apostrophises
his ideal :
" For thee, O Idleness, the woes
Of life we patiently endure ;
Thou art the source whence labour flowes,
We shun thee but to make thee sure."
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The aspirations, the temptations, the duties of youth,
form the subject of divers proverbs. These we may
illustrate sufficiently by a judicious selection from the
great mass of material available. How excellent the
advice: "Be true to the best of yourself"; or this,
"Rather set than follow example"; or yet, again,
this, " Take care to be what thou wouldst seem to be."
How good the teaching: "Liberty is not the freedom
to do as we like, but as we ought " ; that " Golden age
never was present age"; that "Trinkets are no true
treasure"; and that "In seeking happiness we may
overlook content " — the first may perhaps be ours, but
the second should always be obtainable.
The very familiar adage, " As the twig is bent so is
the tree inclined," remains as true as ever ; therefore
"Guard well thy thoughts, for thoughts are heard in
Heaven." * Another writer very aptly declares that "It
is better to hammer and forge one's character than to
dream oneself into one " ; while the old adage, " Keep
good company and be one of the number," is excellent
advice, pithily put
Tusser, some three hundred or more years ago,
declared that
" The greatest preferments that childe we can giue.
Is learning and nurture, to traine him to liue."
It has been well said that " Ignorance is a voluntary
misfortune," and that "If the brain sows not com
it plants thistles." Were a farmer to leave a field a
year untilled, not only would the corn supply that it
might have yielded be lost, but the ground would pro-
duce in abundance useless weeds that would scatter
their seed on the wind over the whole country-side;
* «To dread no eye, and to fear no tongue is the great and blessed
prerogative of the innocent life" ; ** Man is a thinking being, whether he
will or not — all he can do, then, Is to turn his thoughts aright."
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neither brain nor cornfield will remain neutral and
dormant; a crop of something or other is inevitable.
"If a man empties his purse," says the proverb, "into
his head no man can take it from him ; " and other good
adages are : " Not the studies, but the study, makes the
scholar"; "Inquirers who are always inquiring never
learn anything " ; " It is less painful to learn in youth
than to be ignorant in age " ; while the doctrine of plain
living and high thinking was admirably foreshadowed
in this : " Cater frugally for the body, but feed the mind
sumptuously " — an altogether excellent precept, and we
must remember that, when all is done, the best and
most important part of a man's education is that which
he gives himself, and which fits him in this great
workshop of the world to use his tools to the best
advantage, and contribute something of value to the
general store.
It is a wise counsel to "Read not books alone but
men, and chiefly to be careful to read oneself" — to take
stock of oneself from time to time ; that youth should
remember what seems too difficult then to realise, that
a day will come when youth has fled, when the de-
mands of life will continue, and the power to meet
them will have weakened. Such proverbs as these
should be pondered over: "Reckless youth makes
rueful age"; "If youth knew what age would crave,
it would both get and save " ; "A young man negligent,
an old man necessitous." The same truth is put
as clearly, but not so lugubriously, in the quainter
saying : " He that saveth his dinner will have the
more for his supper" — ^he that spares, that is, when
he is young may the better spend when he is old.
We have this, again, in a slightly varied and more
intense form in the French, " He sups ill who eats all
at dinner."
When the youth goes forth into the world his know-
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ledge of the trials and temptations of life is small, while
his faith in himself is great, and he sadly needs, far
more than he knows, guidance, human and divine.
What of counsel and of warning will our proverbs
yield here?
The following precepts answer this weighty question,
and all are rich in wisdom and guidance : — " No one is
mighty but he that conquers himself" ; " As we sow
the habit so we reap the character " ; " Let others'
shipwrecks be your beacons " ; " Careless watch invites
vigilant foe " ; " Every day is a leaf in our history " ;
"We live in the body, not as the servant but as the
master"; "One vice is more expensive than many
virtues " ; " Consider not pleasures as they come, but
as they go " ; " Wade not where you see no bottom " ;
" The path of virtue is the path of peace " ; " Clean
glove may hide soiled hand " ; " Satan promises the
best and pays the worst " ; " Those that would be
kept from harm must keep out of harm's way " ; " One
bad example spoils many good precepts"; "The day
has ey^Sy the night has ears"; "He who makes light
of small faults will fall into great ones " ; " He that
Cometh into needless danger dies the Devil's martyr."
Each of these will amply repay quiet pondering
over.
We give two verses of a very striking poem from
a manuscript of the fifteenth century. It is en-
titled, "Man his own Woe," and is fifteen verses
long :
" I made covienaunte trewe to be
When I fiyrste crystened was,
I wente to the worlde, and turned fro Thee,
And folowede the fend and his trace.
Fro wrathe and enuye wolde I not passe.
With covetyse I was bawte also,
My flesh hadde his wyll, alas,
I wyte myselfe myne owene woo.
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" Ryche manne a thefc ys another,
That of covetyse woU not slake,
What he with wronge begyle his brother.
In blysse fill sone shall he forsake.
Byfore God for thefte hit ys take.
All that wyth wronge he wynneth so ;
But he the radure amends make
He shall wyte hymeself hys owen wo."
We have seen that rhymes are commonly used as a
means of impressing proverbs on the memory. The
four couplets — one from Gower's " Confessio Amantis " ;
one from Bums, from his " Tam 0*Shanter " ; one from
" An Honest Man's Fortune," written by John Fletcher
three hundred years ago ; and the fourth from " The
Lady's Dream" of Hood — that we now quote are
equally worth remembrance:
" Lo now, my son, what it is,
A man to caste his eyes amis."
'* Pleasures are like poppies spread,
You seize the fk>wer, its bloom is shed."
" Our acts are angels, for good or ill.
Our fatal shadows that walk by us still."
" Evil is wrought by want of thought,
As well as want of heart"
Other good proverbs for those at the commencement
of life, are : that " A man is valued as he makes himself
valuable " ; " Crises form not character, but reveal it " ;
" He that finds it easy to repent will not find it hard to
sin " ; " Wine neither keeps secrets nor carries out pro-
mises " ; " Bacchus has drowned more than Neptune " ;
and, happy truth, "Every slip is not a fall." It must
be remembered that, while a man may have enough of
the world to drag him down, he will never have enough
to satisfy him — peace and satisfaction being found in a
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quite other direction than what by a strange misnomer
is called " life." " A sound conscience is a triple Ifence
of steel," so " Better keep evil out than turn it out"
" Character is property," and " A good conscience
makes an easy coudi"; "Complaining is a contempt
upon oneself" ; " Thanksgiving is good, thanks-living is
better."
Friends, true and false, have made their mark on our
proverb, store, and counsels of encouragement and of
warning are abundantly at our service. How to re-
cognise the true friend, how to detect the counterfeit
article, is invaluable knowledge, and if we could only
at all times be as wise as our rich mass of proverb-lore
would fain have us to be, we should in matters of friend-
ship, and in most other things, make a very prosperous
voyage on the sea of life. One seems to detect several
grades or qualities of friendship in these adages. There
is that, for instance, which is unfailing, which in sickness
and health, poverty or wealth, is always true and real ;
then at the other end of the scale a sham article that
soon has all the gilt rubbed off; and then in between
these a less obvious failure, which has many of the
marks of the real thing, and which will stand by one
bravely when all is going smoothly, but which must not
be put to any severe strain or it may snap. Then, again,
we detect another variety of the article, who appears to
be merely some one to be worked on, as, for example,
"He is my friend that grindeth at my mill" — who
comes to our help in our necessity, lends us money,
tools, and so forth, and of whom we presently tire
because he loses his yielding properties, or who pre-
sently tires of us and our multitudinous wants. Then
there is the candid friend, who is theoretically such a
helpmate, but who in practice grows unbearable. This
by no means exhausts the types one meets with, and
we soon find that " friend " is a noun of multitude and
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stands for many things, from pure gold down to the
veriesf brass or pinchbeck.
The touchy people who are easily offended are not
the people to make friends, or to keep them long if
they do make them. "Who would be loved must
love," or, with a slightly different shade of meaning,
"That you may be loved, forget not to be lovable."
To love and to be lovable are both essential if you
would be loved. " A man is little the better for liking
himself if no one else like him," since self-sufficiency
means selfishness, and love does not prosper on that.
A very good hint against selfishness is found in the
Spanish, "Who eats Kis dinner alone must saddle his
horse alone," for no one will go out of their way to
help curmudgeons. It is an excellent maxim, too, that
" He who receives a good turn should never foi^et it ;
he who does one should never remember it."
All have not the tact of him whose praises Moore
sings :
"Whose wit in the combat as gentle as bright
Ne'er carried a heart-stain away on its blade."
An old adage says, "Leave jesting ere it ceaseth to
please " ; while another warns us that " A joke never
gains over an enemy, but often loses a friend." * Some
folk have a bantering manner that is disastrous, and if
not held sternly in check will presently turn a warm-
hearted friendship into indifference and repulsion.
The part of the candid friend is a very difficult one ;
nothing short of transparent honesty and abounding
sympathy will make it possible. "Few there are,"
says the adage, " that will endure a true friend " ; while
another runs, " I will be thy friend, but not thy vice's
* Similar wise counsel is found in the warning that "A jest driven
too fiur brings home hate," and that "Jeerers must be content to taste
of their own broth."
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friend," but we should imagine that the recipient would
scarcely take kindly to such a remark. " Better a little
chiding than a great deal of heart-break," but few can
bear it On the other hand, " Toleration should spring
from our charity, and not from our indifference." " Re-
proach is usually honest — the same cannot always be
said of praise " ; but the happiest proverb is, " Charity,
is greater than all." Those who live their lives in the
light of that will need no lessons in the art of friendship,
but will be already in the midst of friends, and them-
selves of that happy company.
Some people's notion of acquaintance seems to be
what they can get out of it, and though they talk freely
of "my friend," such folk have little notion of friendship.
The following proverbs, though not exclusively theirs,
point to this state of mind : " A friend in need is a
friend indeed," "Short reckonings make long friends,"
" The begging of a courtesy is selling of liberty," " He
is not charitable that will not be so privately," " Lenders
have better memories than borrowers," " He is my friend
that succoureth me, not he that pitieth me," " Promises
may get friends, but performance keeps them," "He that
gives his heart will not deny his money," " He loseth
his thanks who promiseth and delayeth." Chaucer, in
the " Romant of the Rose," writes :
"Soth to saic
Of him that loueth trew and well
Frendship is more than is cattell.
For frend in Court aie better is
Then penny in purse certis " ;
while one of our old proverbs declares, " As a man is
friended, so the law is ended." This seems to imply
that in the case of the man who has friends on the
bench Justice will be a little blinder than usual, but it
is evident that an unknown and friendless culprit must
necessarily start under a disadvantage.
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The following proverbs we see we have classed in
our rough notes as pertaining to "friends you have
not proved,"* and this classification may very well
stand. It includes such sayings as " Friends got with-
out desert will be lost without cause," "A friend is
never known till one have need," "Before you make a
friend eat a bushel of salt with him." Heywood seems
to have got very near to the root of the matter in
these lines of his :
" Many kinsfolke and few friends, some folke say :
But I find many kinsfolke and friend not one.
Folke say it hath been sayd many yeares since gone
Prove thy friend ere thou hast neede : but in deede
A friend is never knone till a man have neede.
Before I had neede my most present foes
Seemed my best friends, but thus the world goes.**
The experience, we suppose, of all men, if ever this
testing time really comes, is a twofold surprise — how
entirely some they had trusted failed them, and how
splendidly others came out of whom it was not ex-
pected.
Seneca declares that "Our happiness depends upon
the choice of our company," and we may, we suppose,
take it that we all of us get about such friends as we
deserve. " Our friends are the mirror in which we see
ourselves." Other excellent adages pertaining to friend-
ship are these : " Be slow in choosing a friend, slower
yet in changing " ; t " Friendship multiplies joy and
divides grief" ; " Wherever you see your friend trust
yourself" ; " The way to have a friend is to be one " ;
* '* Myne ease is builded all on trust.
And yet mistrust breedes myne anoye." — Gascoigne,
t " I love ever)rthing that is old— old friends, old times, old manners,
old books."— "She Stoops to Conquer."
"What find you better or more honourable than age? Take the pre-
eminence of it in everything: in an old friend, in old wine, in an old
pedigree."— "The Antiquary."
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" Hearts may agree though heads differ " ; " Wise and
good men are friends, others are but companions " ;
"Search thy friend for his virtues, thyself for thy
faults"; "Love sought is good, but given unsought is
better"; "God divideth man into men, that so they
may help each other " ; "A man is valued as he makes
himself valuable." The Spaniards declare that " Eggs
of an hour, bread of a day, wine of a year, a friend
of thirty years, are best."
"The friends thou hast, and their adoption tried,
Grapple them to thy soul with hooks of steel **;
and in another passage Shakespeare writes of kindly
" Words of so sweet breath compounded,
As made the things more rich" ;
and it certainly appears to us that if we had reached
the lowest depth of destitution we would yet rather
have the gracious inability to help that some would
express to us than the brusque brutality of some donors.
When one would seek fine thoughts admirably pre-
sented one naturally turns in the first place to Shake-
speare, but Chaucer makes an excellent second. How
charming this line from " The Gierke's Tale," " He is
gentil that doeth gentil dedis," and this passage again
from the " Romant of the Rose " :
" Loue of fi'endshippe also there is.
Which maketh no man dou amis,
Of wil knitte betwixt two.
That wol not breke for wele ne wo."
Tusser, in his quaint directness, says in his "Five
Hundred Points of Good Husbandrie " :
"The quiet friend all one in worde and dede
Great comfort is, like ready golde at nede
With bralling fooles that wrall for euerie wrong
Firme friendship neuer can continue long.
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Oft times a friend is got with easie cost,
Which vsed euill is oft as quickly lost.
Hast thou a friend, as heart may wish at will?
Then vse him so to haue his friendship still.
Wouldst haue a friend, wouldst knowe what friend is best ?
Haue God thy friend, who passeth all the rest."
The following sayings of warning and experience
have their valuable lessons : — *' Trust not new friend
nor old enemy " ; " Though the sore may be healed
yet the scar may remain " ; * " Small wounds, if many,
may be mortal " ; " Vexation is rather taken than
given " ; " At the gate which suspicion enters friend-
ship departs " ; " False friends are worse than open
enemies " ; " He that ceased to be a friend never was
a good one " ; " An unbidden guest knoweth not where
to sit " ; " All are not friends that speak us fair " ;
" Every one's friend, no one's " ; "A friend that you
buy will be bought from you."
An old saw bluntly says, " To make an enemy lend
money, and ask for it again " ; and it is certainly an
excellent rule to have as little to do with money matters
as one can help with one's friends and relatives. To
appeal for help and to be refused, to lend and to see
very little chance of repayal, to receive and to be under
a heavy sense of obligation, are all destructive of frank
and hearty friendship. Chaucer declares that
" His herte is hard that woU not weke
When men of meeknesse him beseeke.**
An excellent man, most kindly in all his dealings,
told us that he never lent money. The borrower is
ordinarily in such straits that he has little chance of
ever repaying. If he never intends to pay he is a
• "Geflickte Freundschaft wird selten wieder ganx," lay the Germans
— patched up friendship seldom becomes whole again.
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knave,* and if he has more honourable thought he is
crushed by the burden of the debt Anyone who came
to our excellent friend with a true and touching story
was sympathetically received, and his request for the
temporary loan of twenty pounds promptly declined!
As an alternative he was offered a somewhat smaller
sum, the half or, mayhap, the quarter of this, as a free
gift, which he never failed to accept joyfully. In one
of the Harleian manuscripts, dating from the reign of
Edward IV., the writer's experience is a very common
one, and his decision sound :
" I wold lend but I ne dare,
I have lent and I will beware
When I lant I had a fiynd,
When I hym asked he was unkynd.
Thus of my frynd I made my foo,
Therefore darre I lend no moo."
The writer was evidently a kindly man, desiring to do
the best he could, and he touchingly appeals to us
not to judge him harshly :
" I pray yo of your gentilnesse
Report for no unkyndnesse."
Some one has very wisely remarked that many of
the disappointments of life arise from our mistaking
acquaintances for friends, and then when some little
testing incident arises they break under the strain.
"Prosperity makes friends, adversity proves them."
One sarcastic adage hath it that "Friends are like
fiddle-strings: they must not be screwed too tight";
but the Scotch say, and justly, that "He that's no
my friend at a pinch is no my friend ava." Some
* Tusser writes of such :
" His promise to pay is as slipprie as ice,
His credit much like the cast of the dice,
His knowledge and skill is in prating too much,
His compianie shunned, and so be all such.
His friendship is counterfeit, seldome to trust."
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centuries ago, human nature being then evidently very
similar to what it is to-day, a wise man wrote : " If thou
wouldst get a friend, prove him first, and be not hasty
to credit him. For some man is a friend for his own
occasion, and will not abide in the day of thy trouble ;
and there is a friend who, being turned to enmity and
strife, will discover thy reproach ; again, some friend is
a companion at the table, and will not continue in the
day of thy affliction."
In Chaucer's "Romaunt of the Rose," we find the
poet using the expression, " Farewel fieldfare," a vale-
diction on summer friends that, like the wild and
migratory fieldfare, take to themselves wings and
depart An old rhyming adage declares that ".In
time of prosperity friends will be plenty, in time of
adversity not one in twenty"; or, to quote Tusser:
" Where welthines floweth, no friendship can lack.
Whom pouertie pincheth, hath friendship as slack" ;
while Goldsmith, it will be remembered, bitterly sums
all up in,
" What is friendship but a name,
A charm that lulls to sleep,
A shade that follows wealth and fame,
But leaves the wretch to weep."
Another adage declares that "Compliments cost
nothing but may be dearly bought," while another
candidly warns, " I cannot be your friend and your
flatterer too." The flatterer has ordinarily " an axe to
grind,"
" His fetch is to flatter, to get what he can.
His purpose once gotten, a fig for thee then."
In the "Rambler" No. 155, Johnson sapiently remarks,
" Flattery, if its operations be nearly examined, will
be found to owe its acceptance, not to our ignorance,
but to our knowledge of our failures, and to delight us
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rather as it consoles our wants than displays our
possessions." Swift asserts that
" 'Tis an old maxim in the schools,
That flatter/s the food of fools,
Yet now and then your men of wit
Will condescend to take a bit."
Bacon tells us, however, that "There is no such flat-
terer as is a man's selfe, and there is no such remedie
against flatterie of a man's selfe as the libertie of a
friend." It has been said that "A friend's frown is
worth more than a fool's smile," but a cynical writer
has affirmed, with some little truth, that " Most of
our misfortunes are more supportable than the
comments of our friends upon them," and it was long
since discovered that " Whoso casteth a stone at the
birds frayeth them away, and he that upbraideth his
friend breaketh friendship." The duty of remonstrance
is one of the most difficult that the friend can under-
take, and " Save, save, O save me from the candid
friend !" is the cry of Canning in " The New Morality,"
a cry that many have been inclined to echo.
Our ancestors, with blunt directness, asserted that
" Fish and guests stink in three days," while the Arabs
have the picturesque proverb, " A thousand raps, but
no welcome " — a pertinacious hammering at the closed
door but no response from within ; a fruitless
endeavour to thrust an intimacy on those who do
not desire it.
We have seen that the friend lost is never really
recovered and may become very readily an implac-
able enemy. Shakespeare warns us to "Trust not
him that hath once broken faith," and we most of
us know by experience how true are the lines of
Dryden :
" Forgiveness to the injured doth belong.
But they ne'er pardon who have done the wrong."
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The ancient Romans had a proverb that the
French have adopted in the words, "Jeter de Thuile
sur le feu." We have no identical English proverb,
but its meaning is clearly a reference to those evil
spirits who foment a quarrel, add fuel to the fire,
irritate rather than soothe, and who have no part or
lot in the blessing promised to the peace-makers.
The following adages are here worthy of our
consideration : — " He that does you an ill turn will not
forgive you " ; " Pardon others often, thyself seldom " ;
" We are bound to forgive an enemy, but we are not
bound to trust him " ; ♦ " Better ride alone than have
a bad man's company " ; " Haste is the beginning of
wrath, iind its end repentance " ; " It is wiser to
prevent a quarrel than to revenge it " ; "If thou
wouldst be borne with, bear with others." To these
we may add the oft-used saw, " The absent are
always wrong," without at all endorsing its truth.
The absent are often quite as right as the other people,
and are merely unable through absence to protect
themselves from defamation.
Poverty and riches naturally find a place in proverb-
lore. "Poverty," says an old author, "is no crime,
and it is no credit " ; but the truth is, it is impossible
to generalise quite so dogmatically as this — for poverty
may be a crime when a lazy ne'er-do-well allows his
wife and children to come to rags, and, on the other
hand, it may be a credit when a man has done his
best and foresworn all the dirty little tricks that have
enriched his trade rivals. It is sometimes too readily
and sentimentally assumed that poverty is itself a
benediction ; hence such sayings as " The poor are
* " The book sayeth that no wight retourneth safely into the grace of
his olde enemie, and Ysope sayth, ne troste not to hem, to which thoa
hast some time hed werre or enmitee, ne telle hem not thy counseil."
— Chaucbr, The Tale of Melibeus,
P
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God's receivers and the angels are His auditors," but
the real state of the case is excellently well put in
the proverb, "There are God's poor, and the devil's
poor."
" Honour and shame from no condition rise ;
Act well your part, there all the honour lies."
Everywhere in life, some one has admirably said,
the true question is not what we gain, but rather
what we do. " Poverty need not be shame, but being
ashamed of it is," poverty of spirit being a more
distressing state of things than emptiness of pocket
Let us turn to the wisdom of those who have gone
before us, and see what teaching for our edification
we may find. " Nothing is to be got without pains
except poverty " ; " Dependence is a poor trade to
follow " ; " Opportunities do not generally wait " ;
" Enough is a plenty, too much is pride " ; " The groat
is ill-saved which shames its master " ; " Providence
provides for the provident " ; " To bear is to conquer " ;
" Poverty craves much, but avarice more " ; " Gain
ill-gotten is loss " ; " Poverty is the mother of all
arts " ; " Content is the true philosopher's stone " ;
"If honesty cannot, knavery must not"; "Poor and
content is rich " ; " Flatterers haunt not cottages " ;
"Thrive honestly, or remain poor."
In a manuscript of the fifteenth century we found
the following excellent precepts amongst many others,
the whole being much too long to quote :'
" If thou be visite with pouerte
Take it not to hevyle
For he that sende the adversite
May turn the agen to wele.
Purpose thy selfe in charite
Demene thy worschip in honeste
Let not nygardschip haue the maystre
For schame that may befalle
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Faver not meche thy ryechcs,
Set not lytel by worthyncs
Kepe thyn hert from dowblenes
For any manner thyng."
Another budget of excellent precepts will commend
itself to the thoughtful reader in the following : — ^** He
who buys what he does not want will want what he
cannot buy"; "Winter finds out what summer has laid
up " ; " Sleeping master makes servant lazy " ; " Thrush
paid for is better than turkey owed for"; "Better
small fish than empty dish"; "He that borrows binds
himself with his neighbour's rope"; "A man must
plough with such oxen as he hath"; "He goes like
a top, no longer than he is whipped"; "Better half
a loaf than no bread"; "Better do it than wish it
done"; "He that goes borrowing goes sorrowing";
"Better say here it is, than here it was"; "If you
light the fire at both ends the middle will take care
of itself."
Some three hundred years ago an old writer thought
out what he called "the ladder to thrift," and these
were some of his hints :
" To take thy calling thankfully
And shun the path to beggary.
To grudge in youth no drudgery,
To come by knowledge perfectly.
To plow profit eamestlie.
But meddle not with pilferie.
To hold that thine is lawfullie
For stoutness or for flatterie.
To suffer none live idlelle
For feare of idle knaverie.
To answere stranger ciuilie,
But show him not thy secresie.
To vse no friend deceitfully,
To offer no man villeny.
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To leame how foe to pacifie,
But trust him not too trustilie.
To meddle not with vsurie
Nor lend thy monie foolishlie.
To loue thy neighbor neighborly
And shew him no discurtesy.
To leame to eschew ill company
And such as Hue dishonestlie."
Though quaintly put — and their quaintness is accen-
tuated by spelling such as would not at all pass muster
in these iron-bound days of examinations for high and
low, rich and poor — these halting couplets contain a
full modicum of excellent common-sense.
It is not really the man whose possessions are few who
is poor as he whose desires are great, and it has been
well said that if we help some one who is worse off
than ourselves we soon realise that we are more afflu-
ent than we thought. The helping to bear another's
burden does not add to our own, but lightens it
The French say, "Vent au visage rend un homme
sage," a proverb fairly paralleled in an English adage,
"Adversity makes a man wise, not rich." A quaint
and serviceable proverb, quoted by Ray and others^
though it has now passed quite out of use, is the
assertion that "A bad bush is better than the open
field," whether in sultry sunshine, piercing gale, or
heavy downpour. It is better to have some friends,
even though they can do little or nothing for us,
than to be thrown quite destitute on a pitiless world ;
and it is wiser to make the best of what is than to
scorn the small amount of help that it is able to
give.
Wealth has its store of proverb-wisdom even in more
abundance than poverty has, and it is only reasonable
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that this should be so, for it is a position of great
responsibility, and its proper use requires all the wis-
dom that a man possesses, and sometimes, as we see,
more than he possesses. Let us turn, then, to the
precepts of the past and see what of value we can
find in them for the present and the future. The
following are a few of these: — "If a good man thrive,
all will thrive with him";* "Riches riather enlarge than
satisfy appetite"; "Possess your money, but do not let
it possess you"; "Reputation is often measured by the
acre"; "Great spenders are bad lenders"; "Liberality
is not giving largely, but giving wisely"; "One may
buy gold too dearly " ; " He gives but little who gives
only from a sense of duty"; "No estate can make
him rich that hath a poor heart"; "Lavishness is not
generosity"; "Great receipt renders us liable to great
account"; "Wealth is not his that gets it, but his that
enjoys it";t "Worth has been under-rated ever since
wealth was over - rated " ; " Covetous people always
think themselves in want"; "He is alone rich who
has contentment"; "God reaches us good things by
our own hands"; "Slow help is very little help at
all"; "Bounty is more- commended than imitated";!
"Spare well that you may spend well"; "The liberal
* "To become rich is a good thing, but to make all rich about you
is better."— K Bu^,
t •* They call'd thee rich, I deem'd thee poor,
Since, if thou dar*dst not use thy store,
But sav'd it only for thy heirs,
The treasure was not thine, but' theirs."
"The prodigal robs his heir; the miser himself."
t *' Bountifulness is as a most fruitful g^den, and mercifulness endureth
for ever." "Of great riches there is no real use, except it be in distri-
bution, the rest is but conceit."
"Who shuts his hand hath lost his gold.
Who opens it, hath it twice told."
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hand gathers."* It has been said that "Some men
give of their means and others of their meanness/'
and the statement has copious experience either way
to fully justify it
Plutarch declared "E tribus optimis rebus tres
pessimge oriuntur," — that from three things excellent
three very bad things were produced ; truth begetting
hatred, familiarity contempt, and success envy. Another
old Roman saying is, "An dives sit, omnes quaenint^
nemo an bonus " — all want to know if a man be rich,
but no one troubles to inquire if he be good ; yet
" Great possession is not necessarily great enjoyment,**
and the moralist warns us —
"Put not in this world too much trust,
The riches whereof will tume to dust."t
" As a means of grace prosperity has never been much
of a success." The Spaniards say, " Honor y provecho
no capen en un saco": "Honour and profit cannot be
contained in the same bag," rather too sweeping a
statement. Another Spanish adage is, "El que tra-
baja y madra, hila oro": "He who labours and strives
spins gold," reaps the reward of his industry. The
French say, in praise of the thriftiness that is so
characteristic of them, that " Le petit gain remplit la
bourse": "Light gains make a full purse." Those
who sell dearly sell little, and the small margin of
profit oft repeated is the more advantageous. The
Spanish proverb affirms that " He who would be rich in
a year gets hanged in half a year," the pace being too
* " If lyberalyte be well and duely employed it acquireth pepetuelle
honour to the gyuer, and moche frute and syngular commoditie thereby
encreaseth. " — ElyoL
t "A little wealth will suffice us to live well, and still less to die
well." "Seek not proud riches, but such as thou mayest get justly, use
soberly, distribute cheerfully, and leave contentedly.'*
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great for honesty to keep up with. Another maxim
of thrift is that "If you make not much of three-
pence you will never be worth a groat" The moral
atmosphere, however, is getting a little stifling, and
we are reminded of the lines of Gower on the over-
frugal man :
" For he was grutchende euermore.
There was wyth hym none other fare
But for to pinche and for to spare
Of worldes mucke to gette encres."
Let us " Take care of the pence that the pounds may
take care of themselves,"* but having got the pounds
let us remember that "Judicious saving affords the
means of judicious giving," and that " The best way
to expand the chest is to have a large heart in it."
" Money is a good servant but an ill master," and
"He is not fit for riches who is afraid to use them";
" To a good spender God is treasurer."
Woman's influence on mankind is the subject of
many proverbs, some of them kindly enough in tone,
but the greater number of them characterised by satire
and bitter feeling. As a sample of the first method
of treating the subject may be instanced the testimony
borne by this old rhyming adage : " Two things do
prolong thy life — a quiet heart and a loving wife."
It has been truly said that " A man's best fortune,
or his worst, is a wife," and another excellent saying
is this: "Men make houses — women make homes."t
* "But then their saying p>ennie proverbe comes." — "Two Angry
Women of Abington," 1599.
t "Who so fyndeth an honest £aythfull woman she is moch more
worth than perles. The hert of her husband maye safely trust in her,
so that he ^lall have no nede of spoyles. She wyll do hym good and
not euill all the dayes of her lyf. Strength and honoure is her clothynge
and in the latter daye she shall reioyce. She openeth her mouth with
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Another wise old saw tells us that a man should
" Choose a wife rather by ear than eye," judging her,
not by personal charms, that are at best evanescent,*
but by the kindliness of her nature and by the testimony
of her worth that others declare. "Beauty," we are
warned, " is but skin-deep," a truth that the old moral-
ists and painters sometimes made more of with their
paraphernalia of skulls and other symbols of mortality
than was altogether seemly. St Chrysostom writes:
" When thou seest a fair and beautiful person, a comely
woman, having bright eyes and merry countenance, a
pleasant grace, bethink with thyself that it is but earth
that thou seest." t
Another piece of sound proverbial teaching is this :
"Choose your wife on a Saturday, not Sunday," that
is to say, be drawn to her rather by what you see of
her industry and power of management than be merely
fascinated by a triumph of the milliner's art ; choose
her rather when her sweetness of temper carries her
smoothly through turmoil and worry than when the
Sunday rest gives no test of her power to stand this
strain. Saturday manners may be very different to
Sunday manners.
" Good husewife good fame hath of best in the towne,
111 husewife ill name hath of euerie clowne."
Amongst popular proverbs we find the cautious —
wysdome, and in her tonge is the lawe of grace. She loketh well to
Che wayes of her housholde, and eateth not her bred with ydelnes.
Her children aryse and call her blessed : and her husband maketh
moche of her."—" Matthew's Version of Bible," 1537.
" La beaut^ du visage est un fr^le ornement,
Une fleur pas^^re, un ^lat d'un moment" — Moliire,
t "But admitting your body's finer, all that beauty is but skin-deep."
—'•The Female Rebellion," 1682. "All the beauty of the world, 'tis
but skin-deep, a sunne- blast defiaiceth it." — "Orthodoxe Paradoxes,"
1650.
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"Marry in haste and repent at leisure,"* and "Love
and lordship like not fellowship," and the advice—
" Marry for love, but only love that which is lovely."
It is very gracefully true, too, that " When the good-
man's from home the good-wife's table is soon spread,"
while there is quaint sarcasm in this: "Next tp no
wife a good wife is best";t and the value of influence
is brought before us in the adage, "A good Jack
makes a good Jill."
In Torrington churchyard we find the following high
testimony to a wife : —
" She was — my words arc wanting to say what —
Think what a woman should be — she was that " ;
while in Chaucer's "Shipmanne's Tale" we find the
following quaint appeal : —
** For which, my dere wife, I thee beseke,
As be to every wight buxom and meke,
And for to kepe our good be curious.
And honestly goveme wel our hous."
The following Italian proverb is a very happy one,
and accords entirely with general experience: — "La
donna savia h all' impensata, alia pensata h matta":
"Women are wise ofThand and fools on reflection";
while the advice of the Spaniard, though ungracious
enough in its utterance, is valuable — ^"El consejo de
la muger es poco, y quieu no le toma es loco": "A
* ** Daughter, in Uiis I can thinke none other
But that it is tnie thys prouerbe dd,
Hastye loue is soooe hot and scone cdd."
— •• Play of Wyt and Sdence," c 1540.
t ••Whosoever lives unmarried lives without joy, wiUioiit comfort,
without Messing. Love your wife like yourself, honour her more Una
joorself. It is woman alone through whom God's blessings are ▼oqdi.
safed to a house. She teaches the children, speeds the YmAmaA, and
welcomes him when he returns, keeps the house godly and poie and
God's blessings rest upon these things." — Td/mud, *
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woman's counsel is no great thing, but he who does
not take it is a fool." An old English proverb goes
so far as to declare that " A man must ask his wife's
leave to thrive," and there is not a little wisdom in
the counsel. A very ungracious proverb, indeed, is
the German — ^ Es giebt nur zwei gute Weiber auf der
Welt : die Eine ist gestorben, die Andere nicht zu
finden": "There are only two good women in the
world ; one of them is dead, and the other is not to
be found."
Some would tells us that marriages are made in
heaven,* but a sapient saw reminds us that "There is
no marriage in heaven, neither is there always heaven
in marriage."
Gossip, and the mischief-making that may too often
accrue from imprudent loquacity, have at all times been
so commonly attributed to the fair sex that we naturally
find many such proverbs as these : " Silence is not the
greatest vice of a woman " ; " A woman conceals what
she does not know " ; " He that tells his wife news is
but newly married." The words of Hotspur will be
recalled :
"Constant you are.
But yet a woman, and for secrecy
No lady closer; for I well believe
Thou wilt not utter what thou dost not know.**
The writer of Ecclesiasticus declares that "As the
climbing up a sandy way is to the feet of the aged,
so is a wife full of words to a quiet man " ; while in
a MS. of the time of Henry V. we find the following
quaint statement : —
* "You see marris^e is destinie, made in heaven, though consummated
on earth." — Lely, Mother BombUy 1594. Shakespeare, too, in the ** Mer-
chant of Venice," declares that " hanging and wiving go by destiny." In
"The Cheats," written by Wilson in 1662, Scruple remarks, "Good sir,
marriages are made in heaven." Many similar passages to these might be
cited.
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"Two wymen in one howse,
Two cattes and one mowse,
Two dogges and one bone
Maye never accorde in one."
Udall writes that " As the kynde of women is naturally
geuen to the vyce of muche bablynge there is nothyng
wherein theyr womanlynesse is more honestlie garnyshed
than with sylence " ; but a Welsh proverb declares that
"A woman's strength is in her tongue,"* and we can
scarcely be surprised that she is at times reluctant to
forego the use of this weapon.
The Spaniards sarcastically assert that " He who is
tired of a quiet life gets him a wife " ; and Solomon,
we recall, declares that "It is better to dwell in a
comer of the house-top than with a brawling woman " ;
while another proverb bitterly, but truly, declares that
" He fasts enough whose wife scolds all dinner-time " ;
and yet another hath it that " He that can abide a
curst wife need not fear any"; so that an old writer
breaks out:
"Why then I see to take a shrew
(As seldome other there be few)
Is not the way to thriue :
So hard a thing I spie it is,
The good to chuse, the shrew to mis,
That feareth me to wiue."
This bitter feelings against womankind is seen not only
in our proverbs, but very largely also in epitaphs, as
for example:
" Here lies my wife, a sad slattern and shrew.
If I said I respected her I should lie too."
" Here lies my wife, and, Heaven knows.
Not less for mine than her repose."
* ** He is a fool who thinlcs by force or skill
To turn the current of a woman's will."
TUKK, Advmturts of Fiv Hours y 1673.
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"Here lies my poor wife, much lamented;
She is happy, and I am contented."
"Here rests my spouse; no pair through life
So equal lived as we did;
Alike we shared perpetual strife.
Nor knew I rest till she did."
" Here lies my poor wife,
Without bed or blanket;
But dead as a door nail:
God be thanked."
At Prittlewell Church a man buried his two wives in
one grave, and then placed over their remains this
callous rigmarole:
"Were it my choice that either of the twaine
Might be restored to me to enjoy again.
Which should I choose?
Well, since I know not whether,
rU mourn for the loss of both.
But wish for neither."*
On the tomb of a man at Bilston we get the other
side, as the widow selected as a text the words: "If
any man ask you, why do you loose him, then shall
ye say unto him, because the Lord hath need of him."
Those who recall the occasion on which these words
were first used will see that her husband was, by im-
plication, an ass.
* The following, from Wycombe Church, is an agreeable variation :
** Here lies one, whose rest
Gives me a restless life,
Because IVe lost a good
And virtuous wife."
In Milton Abbot Church we find a memorial to one Bartholomew Doidge
and Joan, his wife. The wife was buried on the ist of February 1681, and
the husband on the 12th, and the inscription goes on to say :
" She first deceased : he a little tried
To live without her, liked it not, and died."
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Mere loquacity is satirised in the two following: —
" Here lies, returned to Clay,
Miss Arabella Young,
Who, on the first of May,
Began to hold her tongue."
*' Beneath this silent stone is laid
A noisy, antiquated maid.
Who from her cradle talked till death,
And ne'er before was out of breath."
Other proverbs that deal with womankind are the
following :—" He that has a wife has strife"; "Of all
tame beasts sluts are the worst"; "If a woman were
as little as good, a peascod would make her a gown
and a hood " ; " He that loses his wife and a farthing
hath great loss of the • farthing " ; " Every man can
tame a shrew but he that hath her " ; " Lips, however
rosy, must be fed " ; " Women, wind, and fortune soon
change." The feminine readiness to take refuge in
tears is responsible for the following cynical adage: —
"It is no more sin to see a woman weep than to sec
a goose go barefoot"* Another well-known proverb
is that " No mischief in the world is done, but a woman
is always one " ; while the French say, if any inexplic-
able trouble breaks out, " Cherchez la femme " — in the
assured belief that a woman is in some way or another
at the bottom of it Lamartine, on the other hand,
declares that "There is a woman at the beginning of
all great things." There is considerable truth in both
statements, antagonistic as they are.
In the household where the unfortunate husband
has allowed the control to slip into the hands of his
* " By thys tmle ye may se that the dde pronerbe ys trew that yt is as
gret pyte to le a woman wepe as a gose to go barefooCe." — '* Mery Tayls,"
c 1525. Patteoham, in ''The Arte of English Poesie," 1589, gives a
nUher different rendering, a satire on feminine gosh and misplaoed sym-
pathy, " By the common pronerbe a woman will weepe for pitie to see a
gosling goe barefoote."
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wife, " The grey mare is the better horse." The French
call this "Le marriage d'epervier" — a hawk's weddii^,
because the female hawk is the bigger bird. In ''A
Treatyse Shewing and Declaring the Pryde and Abuse
of Women Now a Days," c. 1550, we find:
'^What! shall the graye mayre be the better horse.
And be wanton styll at home?
Naye, then, welcome home, Syr Woodcocke,
Ye shall be tamed anone."
Hey wood, writing in the year 1546, has the couplet:
''She is, quoth he, bent to force you perforce,
To know that the grey mare is the better horse,"
and in many of the old plays the saying crops up :
" 111 thrives that hapless family that shows
A cock that's silent and a hen that crows ;
I know not which live more unnatural lives,
Obeying husbands, or commanding wives."
" The whistling maid " and " the crowing hen " are alike
held objectionable, these masculine performances being
considered entirely out of place and of bad omen.
The perils of matrimony would, according to the
proverb-mongers, appear to be so great that we can
scarcely wonder at the counsel :
''If that a batchelor thou bee
Keepe the same style, be ruled by mee,
Lest that repentance all too late
Rewarde thee withe a broken pate.
Iff thou be yonge then marye not yett,
Iff thou be olde thou hast more wytt :
For yonge men's wyves wyll not be taught,
And olde men's wyves bee good for nought"
The home-life has goodly store of proverbial wisdom
associated with it. The French say: "Chaque oiseau
trouve son nid bien," and the Italians, " Ad ogni uccello
il suo nido i bello," while the Englishman says, " East,
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west, home is best."* Monckton Milnes very truly
says, "A man's best things are nearest him, He close
about his feet"; and a charming old saying is this,
that "Small cheer, with great welcome, make a big
feast." Proverbs, it must be confessed, are ordinarily
very worldly wise, and much more frequently see the
worse than the better side of things, and most of
the adages about the home are very materialistic in
tone; the sweet sentiment that is associated with the
idea must be sought elsewhere. " The suit is best that
fits me best," says an English adage, and the comfort
of content is seen again in the Scottish saying —
"Better a little fire that warms than mickle that
burns." Socrates, passing through the markets, cried:
" How much is here I do not want." " He who wants
content," says an old proverb, "cannot find an easy
chair."
Prudential maxims are very numerous ; thus, we are
warned that "Wilful waste makes woful want," that
"Silks and satins put out the kitchen fire," and that
"If you pay not a servant his wages he will pay
himself ; " while caution in another direction is ad-
vised in the saying, "The child says in the street
what he heard at the fireside," and in this: "One
bad example spoils many good precepts," The
Grermans say that " It is easier to build two hearths
than to keep a fire in one," while the Portuguese
* ** The shuddering tenant of the frigid zone.
Boldly proclaims the happiest spot his own,
Extols the treasures of his stormy seas,
And his long night of revelry and ease.
The naked savage, panting at the line,
Boasts of his golden sands, and palmy wine,
Basks in the glare, or stems the tepid wave,
And thanks his gods for all the good they gave.
Nor less the patriot's boast, where'er he roam.
His first, best country, ever is at home."
—Goldsmith, The TravelUr.
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advocate a judicious blending of prudence with senti-
ment in the adage : " Marry, marry, but what about
the housekeeping?" — a by no means unimportant con-
sideration. Love in a cottage will fare the better if the
larder be not too bare.
The writer of Ecclesiasticus describes very happily
the plight of the unwelcome guest — the man or woman
who, as we say in English, is sitting all the while on
thorns. "Better is the life of a poor man in a mean
cottage than delicate fare in another man's house. For
it is a miserable life to go from house to house, for
where thou art a stranger thou darest not open thy
mouth. Give place, thou stranger, to an honourable
man ; my brother cometh to be lodged, and I have
need of mine house" — a sufficiently humiliating dis-
missal. It has, we presume, been the lot of most
people to find themselves the objects of a special
and not quite disinterested friendship ; to feel that one
is being used, and one's kindness abused. Such people
in the end defeat their own object, since one soon
learns to avoid the risk of an invitation for a week
when we remember that the last acceptance of such
an invitation meant a two months' sojourn, and the
upsetting of all our plans. Proverbs relating to this
state of things will be seen in " An unbidden guest
knows not where to sit " ; " Who depends on another's
table may often dine late " ; and the advice to " Scald
not your lips with another's porridge " — all warnings of
excellent value and weight.
Our readers will long ere this have discovered that
the book of Ecclesiasticus is ever at our elbow when
we would find words of wisdom, and we turn to it now
afresh in our search for caution as to the tale-bearer and
the breaker of confidences. " Love thy friend and be
faithful unto him ; but if thou bewrayest his secrets
follow no more after him. For as a man hath de-
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stroyed his enemy, so hast thou lost the love of thy
neighbour. As one that letteth a bird go out of his
hand, so hast thou let thy neighbour go, and shall
not get him again." And elsewhere, in the same
treasury of wisdom, we read : " Whoso discovereth
secrets loseth his credit, and shall never find friend
to his need." In the Book of Proverbs * we find : " He
that repeateth a matter separateth very friends" — loss
of faith implying loss of friend.
Chaucer, it will be remembered, says that "Three
may keep a counsel if twain be away." Another old
writer tells us that "Curiosity is a kernel of the
forbidden fruit, which still sticketh in the heart of
the natural man," and this is seen almost at its worst
when endeavouring to find out a matter that the person
most concerned would desire to leave unknown, and
quite at its worst when knowledge thus gained is made
general property. " None are so fond of secrets as
those who do not mean to keep them." There is no
more trying person to deal with than he or she who
continually punctuate their conversation with cautions
that they " wish this matter to go no further," and warn
us that that detail is " entirely between ourselves." They
are an unmitigated nuisance.
A very quaint old proverb is that which tells us that
" He was scarce of news that told that his father was
hanged," and a very excellent rule of conduct is this :
" Whether it be to friend or foe talk not of other men's
lives." We are warned, too, that " He who chatters to
you will chatter also of you," and the experience of
most of us will confirm the wisdom of the adage.
Other happy sayings are these: "No one will repeat
the matter if it be not said " ; " Sudden trust heralds
* The Book of Proverbs is no less rich in wisdom than the Book of
Ecclesiasticus, but the latter being somewhat less familiar to many readers
we prefer to draw upon its pages in illustration of our English adages.
Q
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sudden repentance " ; " More have repented of speech
than of silence " ; "A fool will neither give nor keep
counsel "; " He that tells all he knows will also tell what
he does not know " ; " To tell our own secrets is folly,
to tell those of others treachery " ; " Thy friend has a
friend, and thy friend's friend hath a friend" — great
discretion is therefore necessary.
Hey wood warns the man who thinks himself secure :
*' Some heare and see him whom he heareth and seeth not
For fieldes have eies and woods have eares ye wot,**
an idea that we find yet earlier in a manuscript,
"King Edward and the Shepherd," written about the
year 1300:
" The were bettur be styll,
Wode has erys, felde has syght"
So gracious a gift of Heaven to the sons of men as
hope must necessarily find recognition in our proverbial
wisdom. Our readers will recall the lines in Pope's
" Essay on Man," where he declares that
** Hope springs eternal in the human breast ;
Man never is, but always to be, blest.
The soul, uneasy, and confin'd from home
Rests and expatiates in a life to come."
And in "Measure for Measure" we read that "the
miserable have no other medicine, but only hope";
hence the saying: "Quench not hope, for when hope
dies all dies." The Italians say : " L'ultima che si
perde h la speranza" — the last thing lost is hope,*
♦ ** To speed to-day, to be put back to-morrow ;
To feed on hope, to pine vrith feare and sorrow ;
To fret thy soule with crosses and with cares ;
To eate thy heart through comfortlesse dispaires.'*
— Spenser,
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and the terrible words in the "Paradise Lost" recur
to us :
"So farewell hope, and, with hope, farewell fear.
Farewell remorse : all good to me is lost.
Evil, be thou my good."
Lord Bacon, being in York House garden, looking
at some fishermen as they were throwing their nets
in what was then the pellucid and silvery Thames,
asked them what they would take for their catch.
They mentioned a certain price, and his lordship
offered them somewhat less, which they declined to
accept. They drew up their nets and in it were but
three small fishes, and Lord Bacon said that it had
been better for them had they closed with his offer.
They replied that they had hoped that the catch
would have been much greater, and his lordship in
response reminded them of the proverb, " Hope is a
good breakfast, but a bad supper" -* and an admirably
true saying it is.
A pithy old adage has it that "Hope is as cheap
as despair," and it is certainly pleasanter; while
another proverb tells us, as we lament departed
opportunities, "When one door shuts another opens,"
a comforting state of things that the experience of
many will confirm. How strong the encouragement
to look forward with courage when cares seem over-
whelming is the reminder that "When the tale of
bricks is doubled Moses comes." Philosophy, good as
*In the following passage Bacon shows us hope as a veritable life-
preserver. " Hope, being the best of all the affections and passions, is
very powerful to prolong Ufe, if, like a nodding muse, it does not fall asleep
and languish, but continually feeds the fancy: and therefore such as
propose certain ends to be compassed, thriving and prospering therein
according to their desire, are commonly long-lived ; but having attained
to their highest hopes, all their expecutions and desires being satisfied, live
not long afterwards.*'
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it is, breaks under the strain, and is, when most wanted,
but a broken reed. Goldsmith, in his play of "The
Good-natured Man," says that "this same philosophy
is a good horse in the stable, but an arrant jade on a
journey," and Rochefoucauld equally happily declares
that "Philosophy triumphs easily over past and over future
evils, but present evils triumph over philosophy." We
are remindjud here anew of that definition of a proverb,
" The wit of one voicing the experience of many," for
certainly here Rochefoucauld supplies the esprit while
the rest of mankind can in this matter supply the
experience.
A quaint little French p^verb is this, " L'espoir
du pendu que la corde casse," when they wish to
express the idea of a very faint ground indeed for
hope. When all that a man who is already hanging
can hope for is that the cord may perchance break,
his chance of a reprieve is but small. He has most
legitimate ground for hope who has already done
what in him lay to deserve success, hence foresight
and forethought are a valuable possession : the one to
see in advance the possibilities, the other to think
how best to turn them to account :
" When all is done, lerne this my sonne
Not friend, nor skill, nor wit at will.
Nor ship, nor clod, but onelie God,
Doth all in all.
Man taketh paine, God giueth gaine,
Man dolh his best, God doth the rest,
Man knew well intendes, God foizon * sendes
Else want he shall.**
The value of forethought in various directions is
enforced in the following wisdom-chips : " A wise man
will make more opportunities than he finds " ; " Hasty
* In Cotgrave's Dictionary defined as "store, plentie, abundance, great
fulnesse, enough."
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climbers have sudden falls " ; * " Count not your
chickens before they are hatched " ; " He that would
enjoy the fruit must not gather the flower"; "Short
reflection may save long regret " ; " From bad to
worse is poor exchange " ; " Haste makes waste " ;
" Leave not to hazard what forethought may provide
for " ; " Cast not away the dirty water till thou hast
clean " ; " Little chips will kindle a large fi^ " ; " Look
before you leap " ; " Beware of — had I known this
before " ; " Better be sure first than sorry after " ;
" Be wisely worldly, not worldly wise " ; " Take
heed that the relish b^ not spoiled by the cost " ;
" Heaven is a cheap purchase, whatever it costs " ;
" Ask thy purse what thou shouldest buy " ; " He that
measureth not himself is measured " ; *' When a fool
hath bethought himself, the market is over " ; " If
things could be done twice all would be wise";
" Small beginnings may have great endings " ; "A
forest is in an acorn " ; " Every maybe hath a maybe
not " ; " While it is fine weather mend your sails " ;
** Measure thrice before cutting once " ; " Haste trips
up its own heels " ; " Take more time, that you may
have done the sooner"; "Wisdom not only gets but-
retains " ; " Defer not till to-morrow to be wise " ;
" Safe bind, safe find " ; "A little wariness may save
much weariness " ; " Haste is a poor apology " ; " That
which the fool has to do in the end the wise man does
at first" ; and even then the dilatory man may never
compass the task, for our position in life on the
morrow depends largely upon our attitude of to-day,
*"Babel*s projectors, seeking a name, found confusion; and Icarus,
by flying too high, melted his waxen wings and fell into the sea." '' Grey
cap far a green heacL** Gray express the idea very forcibly :
" Ambition this shall tempt to rise,
Then hurl the wretch from high,
To bitter scorn a sacrifice,
And grinning infamy ! '*
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and the remedy of to-morrow may come too late.
** Our deeds determine us as much as we determine
our deeds/' It has been said that if we cannot go
backward and change what has been we can go for-
ward and change what is, but even this unfortunately
is only partly true, and the shadow of the past may
darken the future, do what we will* Hence the
adage, " To-morrow is untouched," cannot be accepted
without reservation.
Other proverbs that may well be quoted in praise
of forethought are these : " Little stumble may save
big fall " ; " He who begins and does not finish, loses
his labour " ; " Put out your arm no further than your
sleeve will reach " ; " To change and to better are not
always the same thing " ; " Quick choice, long repent-
ance."
" Take warning at once, that a worse may not hap,
Foresight is the stopper of many a gap."
The French say truly enough that " Tout le monde
est sage aprfes coup," an equivalent saying to our, " After-
wit is everybody's wit"; and the Portuguese declare
that " An empty purse makes a man wise, but too
late," — a most unfortunate state of things. Another
well-known adage is "Festina lente" — tarry a little
that we make our end the sooner. ** Presto et bene
non conviene" — hastily and well rarely meet A
Ciceronian maxim was, " Certis rebus certa signa prae-
currunt " — certain signs are the forerunners of certain
events, or, as we say in English, "Coming events
cast their shadows before."
" Often do the spirits
Of great events stride on before the events.
And in to-day already walks to-morrow." t
* " Life is like wine, he that would drink it pure must not drain it to
the dregs."— i'lr William Temple.
t Coleridge.
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"Chi va piano va lontano" — he who goes gently
travels far. A quaint old proverb tells us that "It
is good to have a hatch before your door" — in order,
that is, that one may not rush out too impetuously,
but that a momentary pause may give opportunity for
a moment's consideration. One of the most startling
proverbs on this need of forethought is the Arab
" Live, thou ass, until the clover sprouts " — a better day
is coming, despondency must give place to patience
and to hope.
The manufacture of excuses has not escaped the
notice of the proverb-makers and users. These ex-
cuses take two forms — the excuses that omission calls
for, and those that commission needs — that black may
look at least grey, if not absolutely white. A very
good example of the former is this, " Am I my brother's
keeper ? " — originally the plea of a murderer, and ever
after the excuse of those who would wrap themselves
up in their selfishness, and shut their eyes, their hearts,
their consciences, their pockets, to the needs of the suf-
fering. It has been well said that "Apologies only
account for that which they do not alter." In some
few cases, such as " A bad workman finds fault with his
tools," or "The creaking wheel blames the badness of
the road," the utterance is quaint and not unwholesome,
and very true to human nature ; but in most of these
proverbs dealing with excuses there is an actual incite-
ment to evil, a justification of wrongdoing, an implica-
tion that people are only honest because it pays better
or because the chance of knavery is for the time being
debarred to them. We have so often heard the de-
claration that "Opportunity makes the thief," that it
has lost its meaning; but if we really think it out a
moment, how abominable in teaching it is ! A similar
saying is this, "A bad padlock invites a picklock,"
an insinuation that we would all be dishonest if we
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got the opportunity ; while the Spaniards say, " Puerta
abierta al santo tiento" — an open door tempts a
saint Shakespeare's utterance, "How oft the sight
of means to do ill deeds makes ill deeds done," may
express a sad truth, but after all we would fain believe
that things are not quite so bad as not a few of our
proverbs would imply : there is surely yet some little
virtue and honesty left.
Fortune, good or ill, is not by any means overlooked.
Thus we fifid the philosophic reflection, "Fortune can
take nothing from us but what she gave " ; and the
warning, "Fortune is constant in nothing but incon-
stancy." We are warned yet again that " When fortune
comes smiling she often designs the most mischief."
All, however, is not blind chance; the hand of God
is guiding ; " There's a divinity that shapes our ends,
rough hew them how we will." Nor is the hand of
man without its influence, for " To him that is willing
ways are not wanting," and "If you weave your web
God will find the thread." The Italians say, "Vien
la fortuna a chi la procura " — good fortune is to
him who earns it; while the French declare, "Qui
ne se lasse pas lasse Tadversit^" — he who does not
tire tires adversity, and steady perseverance will con-
quer ill-fortune. "La fortune aide aux audacieux,"
say the French again, while the Romans declared,
"Fortes fortuna adjuvat" — fortune assists the brave,
the classic reading of our more homely version, " No-
thing venture, nothing have."
The victim of ill-fortune is reminded that " It is
a long lane that has no turning " ; or, as Gower
puts it:
" Sometime I drew into raeraoire
Howe sorowe maie not euer last."
The French have a saying, "The wind in a man's
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face makes him wise," equivalent to the English adage,
"Adversity makes a man wise, not rich," and so the
Psalmist sings, "It is good for me that I have been
afflicted, that I might learn thy statutes." Trouble
works, however, in a twofold way, and while some it
softens, others it hardens.
It is a matter of common observation that misfor-
tunes often fall most unexpectedly, and that they
seldom come singly.
"O soden hap, O thou fortune unstable,
Like to the scorpion so deceivable.
That flatrest with thy hed whan thou wilt sting."*
" Mischiefs," says an old proverb, " come by the pound
and go away by the ounce," and the Italians have a
practically identical saying. These calamities come
sometimes in such a flood that no resistance to their
attack seems of any avail, hence the quaint and homely
adage, " There is no fence against a flail." The Romans
had the saw, "Mustelam habes" — you have a weasel
in your house, which they applied to those with
whom everything seemed to turn out unfortunately:
to meet a weasel being considered by the Romans an
ill-omen.
It has been said that each man is the architect of
his own fortune.t The statement is not wholly true,
but it is sufficiently so to justify such proverbs as
" As you have made your bed, so you must lie " ;
" As you brew, so must you drink " ; and we must be
prepared to take the consequences of our own fault.
Zeno, the philosopher, having detected his servant in
a theft, ordered him to be whipped ; the servant, in
excuse for what he had done, said it was decreed by
• Chaucbr, The Marchaunfs Tale,
t"Men at some time are masters of their fates." — Shakkspeare,
fuHus Casar.
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the fates that he should be a thief, alluding to the
doctrine of fatalism which his master maintained. And
so, too, it was decreed, said Zeno, that you should be
whipped. It has been well said that "Presumption
first blinds a man, and then sets him running." The
Germans say, "Wer da fallt, iiber ihm laufen alle
Welt " — he that falls down all the world runs over. All
are ready to bear a hand in beating the man whom
fortune buffets ; and, as an old proverb says, " When
the tree is fallen every man goeth to it with his
hatchet" This kicking a man when he is down would
appear a mean and contemptible proceeding were it
not dignified by being termed the survival of the fittest
in the struggle for existence, and this somehow throws
a halo of philosophy on the proceeding, and the kicker
is seen to be working out a law of the universe, in
which the kicked also has an essential place.
We are told, truly enough, that "Half a loaf is
better than no bread," that "A man had better be
half-blind than have both his eyes out." Burke de-
clares that " He that wrestles with us strengthens our
nerves and sharpens our skill ; our antagonist is our
helper " ; and the French say, " On apprend en faillant "
— one learns by failing. Riches entail responsibility
and anxiety, and a poet of the reign of Queen Elizabeth
would have us believe that they are on the whole more
trouble than gain :
"Take upp thy fortune wythe good hape,
Wyth rytches thou doste fyle thy lappe^
Yet lesse were better for thy store,
Thy quyetnes sholde be the more."
One compensation of poverty is perhaps seen in the
adage, " He that is down need fear no fall." We are
told, too, that "A threadbare coat is armour against
the highwayman"; and Chaucer, in "The Wif of
Bathe's Tale," tells how
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"The poure man whan he goth by the way,
Before the theves he may sing and play/'
since he has nothing to lose, and therefore nothing
to fear.
The sad but just law of retribution finds its due
recognition in our proverb lore. The following may
be taken as a few examples of this : " He that toucheth
pitch shall be defiled therewith " ; " Over-reachers most
ordinarily over -reach themselves"; "A guilty mind
punishes itself"; "He that will not be saved needs
no preacher"; "He who sows thorns must not go
barefoot " ; " He who sows the wind shall reap the
whirlwind " ; " Hoist with his own petard." Shake-
speare tells us how
" Diseases, desperate grown,
By desperate appliance are relieved,
Or not at alP ;
and of one elsewhere who cries : " I have lost my
reputation! I have lost the immortal part, sir, of
myself, and what remains is bestial." Do we not see
again the dread law of retribution in the passage :
" Suspicion always haunts the guilty mind :
The thief doth fear each bush an officer,"
and Gay tells us how at last all has to be faced, and
the responsibility of one's actions has to be realised —
" Then comes a reckoning when the banquet's o'er.
The dreadful reckoning, and men smile no more.*"
As an alternative to a picture so sombre, we may
quote the declaration, that " Chastisement is the knife
that tells we still abide in the Vine."
Detraction, hypocrisy, ingratitude are all scourged
by proverbs, but one feels over and over again how
very much the proverbial wisdom of our ancestors
seemed to dwell on the darker side of things. One
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may find a dozen adages that have ingratitude as their
theme, but scarcely one that sings the praise of sweet
thankfulness, and in like manner pretension, boasting,
time-serving, self-interest have their attendant pro-
verbs, while the praise of gentle modesty and sweet
self-surrender finds little or no place. It may, per-
haps, be said that this latter end is reached practic-
ally by the denouncing of the evil, but this is scarcely
so — a scathing attack on falsehood is in its time need-
ful, but there is still place and need for the recogni-
tion of the spotless beauty of truth. Denunciation
may do much, but sweet persuasiveness yet more.
Shakespeare, in his "Cymbeline," writes of deadly
slander —
" Whose edge is sharper than the sword ; whose tongue
Outvenoms all the worms of Nile";
and again, in "Much Ado about Nothing," we find
the line — " Done to death by slanderous tongues " ; and
yet again warns us that " No might nor greatness in
mortality can censure 'scape,'* and that " Back-wound-
ing calumny the whitest virtue strikes." Byron writes
in his "Childe Harold's Pilgrimage" of those whose
evil task is "Sapping a solemn creed with solemn
sneer," and Thomson tells how " Still the world pre-
vailed, and its dread laugh," — a laugh "which scarce
the firm philosopher can scorn."
The following adages may be quoted: — "Envy
shoots at others and wounds itself"; "Envy never
does a good turn but when it designs an evil one " ;
" Malice seldom wants a mark to aim at " ; " * They
say ' is a poisoned arrow." The Welsh say — " Faults
are thick where love is thin." Other sayings are —
" One jeer going forth brings back another " ; " Once
in people's mouths, 'tis hard to get out of them again " ;
" Those who have most need of credit seldom get
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much " ; " The evil which issues from thy mouth falls
into thy bosom " ; " The sting of a reproach is in the
truth of it " ; * " He that prepares a net for another
should not shut his own eyes " ; " Respect is better
got by deserving than by exacting"; "Little minds,
like weak liquors, are soon soured"; "Suspicion, like
bats, fly by twilight"; "In a little mind everything
IS little " ; " Despise none and despair of none " ;
" Faint praise is disparagement " ; " A blow from
a frying-pan blacks, though it may not hurt";
" Truth is truth, though spoken by an enemy " ;
" Harm set, harm get " ; " Envy never enriched any
man."
In a curious manuscript of the fifteenth century
may be found " the answere which God gave to a cer-
tyn creture that desired to wit whate thinge was moost
plesure to hym in this worlde." The answer is a
very full one, fuller than we can quote, but it includes
the following precepts : — " Suffre noysous wordis with
a meke harte, for that pleseth me more than thow
beate thy body with as many roddys as growen in
an hundred wodys. Have compassion on the seeke
and poore, for that pleaseth me more than thow fast-
eth fifty wynter brede and water. Saye no bakbyt-
ing wordis, but shon from them and love thy nayghber
and turne alle that he saithe or dothe to good, me
onely love and alle other for me, for that pleseth me
more than if thowe every daye goo upon a whele
stikking fulle of nayles that shulde prik thy bodye."
Another manuscript of the same date that has come
under our notice, in the Library of Jesus College, Cam-
bridge, introduces a personification of the deadly sins,
* The friends of a Roman patrician condemned by Tiberias to death,
dwelt strongly on the injustice of the sentence. "That," said he,
« my friends, is my greatest consolation, you do not surely wish that
I had been guilty ! '*
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and each is treated with much graphic power, thus,
under the heading of " Invidia " we find —
" I am full sory in my hert
Of other mens welefare and whert :
I ban and bakbyte wykkedly,
And hynder all that I may sikerly."*
The sneaking treachery of the envious man, grieved
to the heart at the welfare of others, and doing them
what evil he can safely compass, is very forcibly
painted, and this of " Ira," in its picture of down-
right brutality, is as graphic —
" I chide and feght and manas fast ;
All my fomen I wylle doun kast,
Mercy on thaym I wylle none haue
But vengeance take, so God me saue.^
Revenge, however sweet it may appear, always costs
more than it is worth, so that to be of this mind is
to scourge oneself with one's own flail. Thus the
adage says truly enough, " To be angry is to revenge
the faults of others on ourselves." Another useful
hint is that " Anger is danger, and even the anger of
the righteous is not always righteous anger." How
full, too, of wisdom the precept that " Anger should
set with the sun but not rise with it," carrying on
with vindictive perseverance into the present and the
future the evil of the past. Other proverbs are : —
" Anger begins with folly and ends with repentance " ;
" Anger makes a rich man hated, and a poor man
scorned " ; " Anger is more hurtful than the injury
that caused it " ; "A man in a passion rides a horse
that runs away with him " ; " Anger may glance into
the breast of a good man, but rests only in the
bosom of fools " ; " An angry man opens his mouth
and shuts his eyes"; and to these many others bear-
ing on the subject might be added.
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Other excellent wisdom chips are these : — " Religion
is the best armour in the world, but the worst cloak " ;
"Imitate good but do not counterfeit it"; "Roguery
with pretext is double roguery " ; " Better the blame
of the just than the praise of the wicked." Of all
the virtues it has been said that gratitude has the
shortest memory — "Eaten bread is soon forgotten."
The Spaniards have, too, a very graphic proverb :
"Cria el cuervo y sacarte ha los ojos" — breed up a
crow and he will tear out your eyes ; while the French
say : " Otez un vilain, du gibet, il vous y mettra " —
save a thief from the gallows and he will place you
there.
Pretension is exposed in many proverbs. An excel-
lent one is this: "The best horseman is always on
his feet." This is sometimes varied into "The man
on the wall is the best player." It is in either ver-
sion an obvious satire on the looker-on, who always
tells how he could have done the thing better. Other
good saws are these : " In a calm all can steer " ;
" Vainglory blossoms but does not bear " ; " All his
geese are swans " ; " We cannot all do everything " ;
" Not even the youngest is infallible " ; " Conceit in
weakest bodies strongest works " ; " Presumption blinds
a man and then sets him running " ; " Vanity has no
greater foe than itself" ; " A small mind has usually
still room for pride"; "Insolence is pride with her
mask pulled off"; "Arrogance is a weed that grows
on poor soil."
Sir Thomas More reminds us that "Pride, as the
proverb is, must needs have a shame," while a yet
older writer declares that " Loste and deignouse pride
and ille avisement mishapnes oftentide," and centuries
even before this we find the warning that " A haughty
spirit goes before a fall." Shakespeare puts the matter
very pithily — "Who knows himself a braggart (let
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him fear this: for it will come to pass), That every
braggart shall be found an ass." "Brag is a good
dog, but hold-fast is a better," we are told ; a less
familiar version found in old collections of proverbs
being, " Brag is a good dog, but dares not bite." A
very quaint old saw against boasting and pretension
is this, "We hounds killed the hare, quoth the lap-
dog " ; while another good doggy adage is the warn-
ing that " A snappish cur must be tied short" " Great
boasters," we are told, "are little doers,"* even as
"Great promisers are bad paymasters." It is equally-
true, the statement that "One sword keeps another
in its sheath." A quaint proverb hath it that " My
father's name was Loaf, and I die of hunger," a
Spanish satire on those who, in poorest circumstances,
yet boast of their kindred,t while a very true Italian
saw is that "Many are brave when the enemy is
running." On the other hand, "A brave retreat is a
brave exploit" Throughout our pages we have made
but slight reference to Biblical sayings since these are
so readily accessible to all, and are, we may presume,
so well known, but we cannot here quite forbear, for
the counsel — "Let not him that girdeth on his har-
ness boast himself as he that putteth it off" — seems
so particularly happy a termination to our proverbs
on pretension and boasting. Having thus broken
through our procedure, we are tempted to add yet
one more reference from the same source, the splen-
did irony on the man, "Wiser in his own conceit
/?
* '* But did this boaster threaten, did he pray,
Or, by his own example, urge their stay?
None, none of these, but ran himself away.*'
— Drydbn, Oznifs Metamorphoses^ Book xiiL
t The Spanish reyel in these proyerbs of sarcastic nature. Another,
for instance, is, '* Praise me, friends, I love my daughters," applied to
those who expect commendation for fulfilling the most obvious duties.
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than seven men that can render a reason" — a race
not yet extinct
The following proverbs, dealing with various phases
of self-interest, have more or less of worldly wisdom
in them, and are worth quotation : — " Better go round
than fall in the ditch"; "Better say here it is than
here it was"; "Better cut the shoe than pinch the
foot"; " If you wish a thing done — ^go ; if not — send ";
"Light not a blaze that you cannot extinguish"; "A
hook's well lost to catch a salmon"; "Buyers want
a hundred eyes; sellers, two"; "All is lost that is
poured into a cracked dish " ; " Those who put on
livery must put on patience"; "Of two evils choose
the less " ; " Better one's house too little one day
than too large all the year beside " ; " Sometimes it
is better to give your apple than to eat it your-
self"; "Venture not all in one bottom"; "A man's
gift makes room for him"; "An ass laden with gold
overtakes everything"; "If you grease a cause well
it will stretch " ; " Praise the bridge by which you
pass over"; "It is wit to pick a lock, but wisdom to
let it alone " ; " Those disposed for mischief will never
want occasion"; "A petitioner that spares his purse
angles without his bait"
In "The Ship of Fools," 1570, we find the line,
"Aungels worke wonders in Westminster Hall," the
angel being a coin of that period, and the Hall the
great seat of Justice, or at all events, of Law. The
Romans had a proverb — "Bos in lingua" — an ox
on the tongue. As some of the ancient money was
stamped with the device of an ox, the proverb was a
delicate way of saying that a man had been bribed
to be silent. We are told that Demosthenes, having
received a present from some who wished to obtain
a privilege that they were fearful he would oppose,
appeared in the court with his throat muffled up,
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pretending that he had so violent a cold as to be
incapable of speaking ; but one of the members of the
court suspected the matter, and quoted this proverb,
intimating that it was not the cold but the bribe that
had debarred him from speech. Another of these old
Roman proverbs was, " Argenteis hastis pugna et
omnia expugnabis" — if only one fights with silver
spear they will be all-conquering. A similar cynical
maxim appreciative of the power of bribery and cor-
ruption is that, "Where gold avails argument fails."
Another old Roman adage was, "Oleum et operam
perdere" — to lose both oil and labour. This was
applied to those who had spent much time, given
much labour, made considerable pecuniary sacrifice,
to attain some object, and had, after all, failed in
doing so. Those who contended in the public g^anies
freely anointed their limbs with oil to make them
supple ere entering on the contest, and so if, after all,
they were conquered they lost both oil and labour.
In like manner, the student poring over his books and
burning the midnight oil, if he failed in the acquisition
of knowledge, lost oil and labour. The ancients tell
how a man, having a suit at law, sent to the judge
a present of a vessel of oil, but his antagonist sent
a fatted pig, and this turned the scale in his favour,
and he gained his cause. Justice may well be repre-
sented as blind when such proceedings are possible.
The first man complained and reminded the judge of
his gift, but the judge told him that a great pig had
rushed in and overturned the oil, so that it and his
labour in bringing it had been lost Whether the
proverb grew out of the story or the story out of the
proverb it is now impossible to pronounce any opinion
upon.
Other keen proverbs are : — " He that finds a thing
steals it if he restores it not"; "What will not make
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a pot may make a lid"; "The best patch is off the
same cloth"; "Break not eggs with a hatchet"; "Ease
and honour are seldom bedfellows"; "Stretch your
l^s according to your coverlet"; "Pin not your faith
on another's sleeve"; "As a man is finded so the law
is ended"; "Live and let live"; "An ill agreement
is better than a good judgment"; " Misreckoning is no
payment"; " Name not a rope in his house that hanged
himself." A very marked example of this delicacy
of feeling is seen in the saying, " Father disappeared
about assizes - time, and we asked no questions I "
" Take away fuel and you take away fire " ; " No
man is impatient with his creditors " ; " Command
yourself and you may command much else."
Turning our attention awhile in other directions, we
find the Spaniard's warning, " Cada cuba bucele al
vino que tiene" — the cask smells of the liquid it
held ; a man's surroundings stamp him, and he is
known by the company he keeps. Self-interest is
blatant in the Spanish saying that " People don't give
black puddings to those who kill.no pigs"; and the
same cynical teaching is found in the French adage,
"To one who has a pie in the oven you may give
a piece of your cake."* The French version of " To
him that hath shall be given," is, " He who eats
chicken gets chicken." t The Spanish proverbs, as we
have seen, have a strong tinge of mocking sarcasm
in them ; here are two more examples : " Give away
for the good of your soul what you cannot eat";
" Steal the pig but give away the feet in alms." There
is a delightful touch of human nature in the French
saying, "No one is so open-handed as he who has
* In Germany they say, <* Siedet der Topf, so bltthet die Freundschaft "
— while the pot boils the friendship blooms.
t In Welsh proverb lore, " Have a horse of your own and then you
can borrow another."
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nothing to give," or its Scotch equivalent, "They are
aye gudewilly o' their horse that hae nane." Another
canny Scotch experience is that " He that lacks (dis-
parages) my mare would buy my mare." Self-interest
degenerates into self-abasement in the Arab counsel,
" If the king at noon-day says it is night, behold the
stars." The Persian warning, "It is ill sport between
the cotton and the fire," is very graphic. The old
Roman, "Aliam quercum excute," the advice to go
and shake some other tree, since enough has been
gathered here, is expressive. It is equivalent to tell-
ing one's importunate neighbour that he must really
try fresh ground at last ; to advise one's friend to
cease from the pursuit they have been following, since
they have reaped from it all the advantage it is likely
i to yield to them. A dignified and noble saying is
this, " Deridet sed non derideor " — he laugheth, but
I am not laughed at; the impertinence is suffered,
is passed unregarded, and falls flat and dead.
Custom and habit exercise their influence on our
proverb lore ; thus we are told, wisely enough, that
" Custom is the plague of wise men, the idol of fools."
Kelly tells a good story, in illustration of this bowing
to custom, of a captain's wife whose husband the South
Sea Islanders had eaten, being consoled by a friend :
" Mais, madame, que voulez-vous ? Chaque peuple a ses
usages." The power of habit is immense ; an old saying
tells us that "Habit is overcome by habit," but ordinarily
the habit in possession fights hard, and is not readily
dispossessed. Hence it is of solemn warning to " Kill the
cockatrice while yet in the ^gg'' It is one of the most
familiar of truisms that " Habit becomes second nature,"
and that " What is bred in the bone will never come out
of the flesh." To check at the beginning may be diflS-
cult, but to overcome in the end may be impossible.
«*Can the Ethiopian," asks the prophet, "change his
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skin or the leopard his spots? Then may you also do
good that are accustomed to do evil." As the bough
of a tree bent from its usual direction returns to its
old position so soon as the temporary force to which
it yielded is removed, so do men return to their old
habits so soon as the motives, whether of interest or fear,
which had influenced them, are done away. " Nature,"
says Lord Bacon, " is often hidden, sometimes overcome,
seldom extinguished. Let not a man trust his victory
over his nature too far; for nature will be buried a great
time and yet revive upon the occasion or temptation,
like as it was with iEsop*s damsel, turned from a cat
to a woman, who sat very demurely at the board's end
till a mouse ran before her." The same philosopher
gives the following admirable caution : " A man's
nature runs either to herbs or weeds: therefore let
him seasonably water the one and destroy the other."
The Spaniards say : " Mudar costumbre a par de
muerte" — to change a habit is like death.
" 111 habits gather by unseen degrees.
As brooks make rivers, rivers run to seas.''
And Shakespeare, in the " Two Gentlemen of Verona,"
exclaims: "How use doth breed a habit in a man!"
The ancient Romans declared : " Fabricando fit faber,"
which we find in French as "En forgeant ou devient
forgeron"; in Spanish, as "El usar saca oficial"; in
German, as "Uebung macht den meister"; and in
English, as "Use makes the craftsman."
Boys catch the habit of stammering if thrown with
those who stammer, and the Dutch declare: "Die bij
kreupelen woont, leert hinken" — he that lives with
cripples learns to limp. Fortunately, there are good
habits as well as bad ones ; hence the Romans taught :
" Boni principii finis bonus," and the French say, " De
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bon commencement bonne fin " — we insensibly imitate
what we habitually admire.
Experience teaches, and we propose to quote some
few of the proverbial lessons that are of value in the
conduct and wear and tear of life, and we commence
with the homely bit of wisdom that, if realised, would
save so much of worry and heartache: "What can't
be cured must be endured."* Another good saying
is : " Well begun is half done " — poetically rendered
by the Italians in the counsel, "Begin your web, and
God will find you thread." "Procrastination is the
thief of time," is another well-worn and excellent
adage. How valuable, again, are these : " Teaching
of others teacheth the teacher " ; " He teaches ill that
teaches all " ; " He that seeks trouble rarely misses
it " ; " He that is surety is not sure " ; " Look before
you leap " ; " The horse that draws is most whipped " ;
" Blow first and sip after " ; " At open doors dogs come
in " ; " He that is angry without cause must be pleased
without amends"; "It is but lip- wisdom that lacks
experience " ; " Fetters, though of gold, are fetters
still " ; " Without danger, danger cannot be overcome " ;
" Experience is a dear school, but fools learn in no
other " ; " Some advice at fourpence is a groat too
dear " ; " The counsel that we favour we most scrutin-
ise " ; " He that sits to work in the market-place shall
have many teachers " ; " Valour that parleys is near
surrender " ; " As you salute you will be saluted " ;
" Responsibility must be shouldered, you cannot carry
it under your arm " ; " One eye-witness is better than
ten hear-say s " ; "If you pity knaves you are no friend
to honest men " ; " Every man is a pilot in a calm sea *' ;
" Plant the crab-tree where you will it will never bear
• ** Things without all remedy
Should be without regard : what's done is done."
Macbeik,
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pippins" ; "Wide will wear, but narrow will tear." This
last, homely as it sounds, is excellent in its counsel in
praise of a wise liberality.
The ancient Roman, "Bis dat qui cito dat," that
is so often quoted in advocacy of prompt aid, re-
appears in modern Italy in the version, "A gift long
waited for is not given, but sold." "Say not to your
neighbour. Go, and come again, and to-morrow I will
give, when thou hast it by thee." "Hope deferred
maketh the heart sick," * and ready help at the critical
moment might have averted a catastrophe. Another
very true classic adage is, " Beneficium accipere, liber-
tam est vendere" — accept a favour and you sell your
freedom. Excellent counsel is in the twin proverbs,
"Deliberating is not delaying," and "That is a wise
delay which maketh the road safe." An old writer t
very sagely puts it thus: "When we are in a strait
that we know not what to do, we must have a care
of doing we know not what," and thus save time by
giving time.
Advice for the conduct of life is freely bestowed
on us by our proverbial wisdom. We may well head
the examples we propose to give with the caution^
"In vain does he ask advice who will not follow it.'*
* '* Is not a patron," says Dr Johnson to the Earl of Chesterfield,
'*one who looks with unconcern on a man struggling for life in the
water, and when he has reached the land encumbers him with help?
The notice which you have been pleased to take of my labours had
been kind: but it has been delayed until I am indifferent, and cannot
enjoy it ; till I am solitary, and cannot impart it ; till I am known, and
do not want it."
t One Richard Nichols, of Warrington, writing in 1670 or thereabouts.
Many of his sayings are admirable; here are half-a-doxen of them:
'* Self-denial makes a poor condition easy, and a rich one safe"; "A
good intention will not justify a bad action " ; " Though time be not
lasting, yet what depends upon time is everlasting"; "The weak, when
watchful, are more safe than the strong when secure"; "He that has
all his religion in his prayers has no religion at all" ; "The best way to
wipe off reproaches is to live so that none will believe them."
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"Few things," says Dr Johnson, "are so liberally be-
stowed, or squandered with so little effect, as good
advice." Another reading is that "He that will not
be counselled cannot be helped." Some few speci-
mens of counsel tendered are these : " At great bargains
pause awhile"; "The best throw of the dice is to
throw them away " ; " Raise up no spirits that you
cannot lay " ; " Rather suffer a great evil than do a
little one"; "Agree, for the law is costly"; "Avoid
the pleasure that will bite to-morrow " ; " Let the ship-
wrecks of others be your beacons " ; " Let every man
praise the bridge he goes over." Speak not ill of him
who hath done you a courtesy, or whom you have
made use of to your benefit. The Arabs in like spirit
teach, "A well from which thou drinkest throw not
a stone into it." An Italian saw sarcastically says,
" Does thy neighbour annoy thee ? lend him a zechin "
— he will then keep out of the way. A Danish proverb
wisely advises to "Take help of many, and counsel
of few " ; while a homely German proverb — " Henke
nicht alles auf einen Nagel" — warns us not to hang
all on one nail ; or, as our equally homely English
proverb has it, " Do not carry all your eggs in one
basket" — have not all your ventures in one vessel.
The weather in this our changeable climate has
supplied abundant store for popular lore ; it would
indeed suffice in itself to yield material for a goodly
volume, and the result would be a collection of great
literary and antiquarian interest.
One very familiar adage is the comforting statement
that " It is an ill wind that blows no pne any good."
Shakespeare quotes it more than once ; in one case
it is rendered as " 111 blows the wind that profits
nobody," and elsewhere, " Not the ill wind which blows
no man good," while Tusser gives us the rhyming
version —
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"Except wind stands as never it stood.
It is an ill wind turns none to good.""
Another old saw teaches that "111 weather is seen
soon enough when it comes," but this is indefensible,
for while it is a wise counsel not to meet troubles half
way, to exercise no forethought at all is mere lunacy.
Such a proverb, again, as this, " Though the sun shine
leave not your coat at home," is much too rigid in
its insistence, and the advice, whether taken literally
or metaphorically, would be at times absurd. If we
try it, for instance, in this guise — Though surrounded
by loving friends carry suspicion ever with you — we
feel that the tension is needless. A much truer say-
ing is this, " When the sun shines nobody minds him,
but when he is eclipsed all consider him," and we
realise at last on the withdrawal of the benefit of
how great value it had been to us.
A wise and helpful Latin proverb is, "Sequitur
Ver Hyemem " — spring succeeds winter, and sunshine
follows rain. " After a storm, calm," or, as the
French have it, " Apres la pluie vient le beau temps."
" What, man, plucke up your harte, bee of good cheere,
After cloudes blacke wee shall have wether clere."
"Heaviness mky endure for a night, but joy cometh
in the morning," is no discovery of yesterday.
"March winds and April showers bring forth the
May flowers," and the French recognise the welcome
assurance in their version, "Mars venteux, Avril plu-
vieux, font le Mai gai et gracieux," while across the
Rhine the saying is again, " Marzen Wind and
Aprilen Regen verheissen im Mai grossen segen."
The value of dry weather at sowing time is indicated
in the saying that "A bushel of March dust is worth
a king's ransom " ; while " February fill-dyke " is a
testimony to the abundant rain that is ordinarily
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characteristic of that month; in France it is said
that "Fevrier remplit les fosses: Mars les seche."
This rain is of great value, and '* All the months of
the year curse a fair Februeer," and "If the g^rass
look green in Janiveer 'twill look the worser alJ the
year." The exigencies of rhyme are responsible for
the miscalling of these month-names. A great many
of these rustic weather proverbs are thrown into
more or less, and ordinarily more, uncouth rhyme,
no doubt as an aid to memory; thus we are told
that "No weather's ill if the wind be still," that it
is well should "September blow soft till the fruit's
in the loft," and that "If the first of July be rainy
weather, 'twill rain more or less four weeks together."
We are taught again that " In February if thou hear-
est thunder thou wilt see a summer's wonder." Un-
doubtedly a thunderstorm in February might well
be regarded as one of the least likely things to
happen in July, while the hearing of its sonorous
peals would certainly be a remarkable feat of vision.
As the literal acceptance is so impossible we must
perforce look a little below the surface, and when we
recall that our ancestors were great at prognostics
we see that we are expected to regard this ill-timed
storm as an omen of coming events of startling
nature. Thus Willford, in his "Nature's Secrets,"
teaches that " Thunder and lightning in winter is
held ominous, portending factions, tumults, and bloody
wars, and a thing seldome seen, according to ye old
adigy. Winter's thunder is ye Sommer's wonder."*
* '* Sondayes thundre should bryng ye death of learned men, judges,
and others : Mondayes thundre ye death of women : Tuesdayes thundre
plentie of graine : Wednesdayes thundre ye death of ye wicked : Thurs-
dayes thundre plentie of sheepe and come : Fridaies thundre ye slaughter
of a great man and other horrible murders: Saturdayes thundre a
generall plague and grate deathe." — Leonard Diggbs, A FrognosHca^
tion Everlasting of Ryght Good Effecte^ '556.
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The countryman has abundant opportunity of study-
ing the varying aspects of Nature, hence he has dis-
covered that "An evening red and morning grey will
set the traveller on his way";* though he seems to
have also observed that "If the sun in red should set,
the next day surely will be wet" The two statements
appear to directly contradict each other. On the other
hand we are told that when the reverse happens,
"The evening grey and morning red make the shep-
herd hang his head"; and that "If the sun should
set in grey the next will be a rainy day"; the sun
setting in a bank of clouds — the west in this country
being the direction in which we ordinarily look for
wet weather — the result on the morrow will probably
be rain. Hence, "A rainbow in the morning is the
shepherd's warning, a rainbow at night is the shep-
herd's delight"; or in Germany, "Regenborgen am
Morgen macht dem Schafer sorgen : Regenborgen am
Abend ist dem Schafer labend."
The statement that "The moon is made of green
cheese" may be mentioned in passing. Shacklock, in
the " Hatchet of Heresies," written in 1565, says, "They
may make theyr blinde brotherhode, and the ignorant
sort beleeve that the mone is made of grene chese,"
and many old writers introduce this venerable belief
in their plays and other works. We now-a-days
associate the idea with age, the green suggesting
mouldiness, but the word here means the very oppo-
site, and refers really to a chesse not matured ; the
moon being new every month, the material of which
it was composed never got beyond the green or un-
ripe stage.
It is popularly held that " When the wind is in the
* Sometimes rendered as, "Evening red and morning grey, tokens
of a bonny day"; or, "An evening red and a morning grey are the
two sure signs of a fine day."
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east 'tis good for neither man nor beast," and a quaint
Spanish proverb advises, " Ask no favour during the
Solano." This Solano is a wind that blows over from
Africa, and is exceedingly hot and dry. It is also
known as the sirocco. The moral clearly is that when
people are in a state of irritation it is not advisable
to lay one's needs before them, the time being in-
opportune.
Many of our weather proverbs are very naturally
associated with various saints' days. Thus we get
" St Martin's Summer " and " All Saints' Summer " in
reference to the bright clear weather that we occa-
sionally get in the late autumn, All Saints' Day being
on the first, and St Martin's Day on the eleventh of
November. Allusions to both will be found in Shake-
speare ; thus, in " I. Henry VI." — " Expect St Martin's
Summer, halcyon days." The eighteenth of October
was in like manner called "St Luke's little Summer."
Another old adage was, "If the day of St Paul be
clear, then shall betide a happy year"; this day, the
festival of the conversion of the saint, was in the
calendar ascribed to January the 25th.
Another well-known belief is summed up in the old
rhyme : " St Swithin's day if it do rain, for forty days
it will remain." This date is July isth, and it may not
be generally known that, taking the year round, July is
often a very rainy month. The Saint was Bishop of
Winchester, and when he died, in the year 862, he
desired to rest where the sweet rain of heaven might
fall. His desire was respected, but later on the monks
thought it beneath his and their dignity that he should
be laid to rest in the graveyard, and so they proposed
to re-inter the body in the choir, but when the day
came the rain was so terrific that they had to postpone
matters till the next day. This, however, was no better,
nor was the next, or next, till at length, after forty such