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"HOW GREAT REASON WE HAVE TO REJOICE" (Alma 26:1)
TN the brief hour which heralds the beginning of a new year we stand on
a vantage point which enables us to look backward to the year just
passed and forward into the year to come. Joyously we say with the
Prophet Ammon ''How great reason we have to rejoice/' Humbly we ask
''Could we have supposed . . . that God would have granted unto us such
great blessings?" In our hearts is the secure knowledge that we have been
"encircled about in the matchless bounty of his love" (Alma 26:1-2).
"What great blessings has he bestowed upon us?" The blessing of
the gospel of Jesus Christ and membership in his Church is our great bless-
ing. Relief Society membership and the opportunity to serve together as
sisters is a blessing. We have been recipients of light and wisdom. Our
hearts have been touched with compassion, and our minds have been given
added knowledge. Testimonies have been nurtured and strengthened.
Our prayerful efforts to be instruments in his hands to do the work he
would have us do have been successful in a large measure. As individuals
and as a society we have been blessed.
The General Board extends love and warm appreciation to our sisters
throughout the world. With you, gratitude to our Father in heaven is
our foremost thought. Now, looking into a new year, we are one with
you in the sincere desire to be worthy of his blessings; to merit their con-
tinuance is our prayer.
May happiness and joy come to each of us. May peace come to
the world. May we increase our efforts to live in righteousness and observe
the commandments of God.
"Now have we not reason to rejoice? Yea, I say unto you, there
never were men that had so great reason to rejoice as we, since the world
began . . ." (Alma 26:35).
The Cover: The Cahfornia Mission Home With the Los Angeles Temple in the
Background, Reproduced from a Transparency by Harold Winn
Submitted by Alta H. Taylor
Cover Design by Evan Jensen
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As we were planning our trip through
the Northwest, we were dehghted to find
that wonderful article about the Olympian
Rain Forest (by Dorothy J. Roberts, July
1958). We read it over and wondered
if we might stretch our time so we might
also see the wonder of this place. We
did, and enjoyed all the beauties that are
so \\ell \\'ritten by one who also had seen
nature with the loving look and the joy
of God's great handiwork. We urge every-
one to read about our Nation and enjoy
the wonderful things we have placed here
for our joy and remembrance. The Reliei
Society Magazine always has a place of
honor in our home.
— Louise J. Scott
Salt Lake City, Utah
The September Magazine was most en-
joyable. As usual, I always read the poems,
then the fiction, then the articles.
— Maude Rubin
Santa Ana, California
I especially liked the poem "As Tangi-
ble As Grass," by Eva Willes Wangs-
gaard, in the November issue of The
ReUef Society Magazine. Mrs. Wangs-
gaard superbly depicts beauty in her lines.
Like ever\thing she writes, this poem is
of high quality. She is a real poet. I have
read and admired her poetry ever since
she started to compose poems. Mrs. Cole's
poem ''On the Rim," (frontispiece in the
same issue) is also an exquisite creation.
It is graphic. I want to congratulate those
who created the November Magazine cov-
er design. All of the covers have been
interesting and lovely, but this one is
especially beautiful. Having done some
painting through the years, I appreciate
the fine use of color. Thanks for this
lovely Magazine.
— Grace Ingles Frost
Pro\o, Utah
My prime interest has always been the
Relief Society lesson material, because our
classes are so glorious. But even without
the lessons, the stories and poetry alone
are worth the price of the Magazine.
— Mary M. Smoot
Salt Lake City, Utah
I have just finished reading the story
"The Right Climate," by Vera H. May-
hew, in the November issue of the Maga-
zine, and I found it most enlightening.
I have not been able to attend Relief So-
ciety for the past three years, as I have
been working to help put my husband
through school at the University. I have
kept up my subscription to the Magazine,
though, and it has helped me to keep
in touch with the women of the Church.
Each month I find stories that seem to
fit into my life, and to lift my spirits.
Thank you very much for such a wonder-
ful little Magazine.
— Mrs. Elden Liechty
Logan, Utah
I couldn't resist the most colorful, at-
tractive Magazine (November 1958) I
have ever seen — that wonderful plaque
inside the Relief Society Building. Also,
it seems to me there were more poems
in November. I always hunt out the
poems. ... I teach them to my grand-
children. The one "Like a Kernel," by
Vesta Nickerson Lukei, is good. I love
poetry, especially the poems that appeal to
mothers and children.
— Mrs. Laura R. Merrill
Logan, Utah
The Post and The Journal are publish-
ing some more of my poems soon, and
I have been thinking how much I owe
to you editors and to The ReUef Society
Magazine for helping me to reach this
goal. So I just wanted to say thanks and
best wishes. ... I haven't had much time
to write lately, with all the work of being
a grandmother.
— Margery S. Stewart
Pacific Palisades
California
]\lay I say that we enjoy our Magazine
in Airdrie Branch very much. Almost all
of the sisters take the Magazine. Lesson
participation is much easier when we
have a chance to study the material before
class.
— Marjorie G. Foote
Glasgow, Scotland
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford ._--_-- President
Marianne C. Sharp ------ First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen --------- Second Counselor
Hulda Parker ------ Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Aleine M. Young Edith P. Backman Mary V. Cameron
Edith S. EUiott Josie B. Bay Winniefred S. Afton W. Hunt
Florence J. Madsen Christine H. Robinson Manwaring Wealtha S. Mendenhall
Leone G. Layton Alberta H. Christensen Elna P. Haymond Pearle M. Olsen
Blanche B. Stoddard Mildred B. Eyring Annie M. Ellsworth Elsa T. Peterson
Evon W. Peterson Charlotte A. Larsen Mary R. Young Irene B. Woodford
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor ----.---_--- Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor ---------- Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager ---.-.-_.. Belle S. Spafford
VOL 46 JANUARY 1959 NO. 1
e
ontents
SPECIAL FEATURES
A New Year's Greeting 1
■ - - - - 4
6
Relief Society — An Aid to the Priesthood Joseph Fielding Smith
Mountain Peaks _.Celia Luce
Award Winners — EHza R. Snow Poem Contest 7
The Telling — First Prize Poem Lael Woolsey Hill 8
Portrait of Lincoln's Second Mother — Second Prize Poem Mabel Law Atkinson 10
Parting on the Prairie — Third Prize Poem Sylvia Probst Young 12
Award Winners — Annual Relief Society Short Story Contest 14
Good Bye and Good Luck, Mrs. Kelsey — First Prize Story Norma A. Wrathall 15
Exploring New Frontiers in Health Basil O'Connor 21
The California Mission Preston R. Nibley 22
No, Thank You! 35
The Rewarding Time Elsie Sim Hansen 41
FICTION
The Silver Leash — Chapter 1 Beatrice Rordame Parsons 24
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 2
Sixty Years Ago 30
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 31
Editorial: Strengthening Community Virtues Belle S. Spafford 32
Four Color Covers — A New Feature for The Relief Society Magazine 33
Notes to the Field: Relief Society Assigned Evening Meeting of Fast Sunday in March 34
Award Subscriptions Presented in April 34
Bound Volumes of 1958 Magazine 34
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 42
Birthday Congratulations 72
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Recipes From the California Mission Alta H. Taylor 36
You Can Sew — XI — Bound Buttonholes Jean R. Jennings 38
Celestia Chadwick Tracy's Quilts Have Made Many Homes Beautiful 40
LESSONS FOR APRIL
Theology — The Sacrament Roy W. Doxey 49
Visiting Teacher Messages — "Pray Always, and I Will Pour Out My Spirit Upon
You" Christine H. Robinson 55
Work Meeting — Managerial Aspects of Food Planning and Preparation Vesta Barnett 57
Literature — Young Jonathan Edwards Briant S. Jacobs 59
Social Science — "A Principle With Promise"" John Farr Larson 64
POETRY
Every Good Gift Elsie McKinnon Strachan 6
Cloud Feathers Eva Willes Wangsgaard 21
Quiescence June N. Ashton 29
Deserted Farm Yard Maude Rubin 37
January Christie Lund Coles 71
Song of Subsequence Dorothy J. Roberts 71
Winter Tree Bernice Ames 72
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Relief Society-An Aid to
the Priesthood
Piesident Joseph Fielding Smith
Of the Council of the Twelve
(Address Delivered at the Oflficers Meeting, Relief Society General Conference,
October 8, 1858)
I REGRET that other duties re- needed. It has a place as an aid to
quire that I depart before the the Priesthood of God. And while
close of this meeting, in fact the sisters have not been given the
when I get through speaking to Priesthood, it has not been con-
you. It is a wonderful sight to look ferred upon them, that does not
into the faces of you good sisters mean that the Lord has not given
from all parts of the Church, then unto them authority. Authority and
to realize the great and important Priesthood are two different things,
duties that devolve upon you, and A person may have authority given
how perfectly and faithfully you are to him, or a sister to her, to do cer-
doing your part. tain things in the Church that are
The Church of Jesus Christ of binding and absolutely necessary for
Latter-day Saints would never have our salvation, such as the work that
been finished without the organ- our sisters do in the House of the
ization known as the Relief Society Lord. They have authority given
which embraces the sisters of the unto them to do some great and
Church. There is no other organ- wonderful things, sacred unto the
ization, as we have already heard Lord, and binding just as thorough-
in the prayer, like it. The world ly as are the blessings that are given
could not duplicate it. There are by the men who hold the Priest-
other organizations of women, I hood. And you sisters who labor in
suppose, I've heard of such; but I the House of the Lord can lay your
am sure there is no organization that hands upon your sisters, and with
could assemble as you have as- divine authority, because the Lord
sembled here with the same inspira- recognizes positions which you oc-
tion and hopes and aspiration and cupy. He honors you and blesses
faith and love of truth as you sisters you in your labors in your various
manifest in your lives. stakes, and you go forth with
The Prophet was inspired. And, authority. You can speak with
by revelation in March 1842 on the authority, because the Lord has
17th day, he called the sisters to- placed authority upon you.
gether and organized the Relief So- Now, today, we live in a different
ciety. It has grown to be a power age, a wonderful age in the restora-
in the Church. Absolutely neces- tion of the gospel. As far as I know,
sary— we speak of it as an auxiliary, in former years or former dispensa-
which means a help, but the Relief tions of the gospel, our sisters were
Society is more than that. It is not called upon to do very much.
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RELIEF SOCIETY— AN AID TO THE PRIESTHOOD
Even in the days of Paul, they were
counseled to be silent in churches
and other restrictions were placed
upon them. But that was not
necessarily in accord with the plan
of salvation. The plan of salvation
had nothing to do with those re-
strictions. They were due to the
prevailing conditions among the
peoples, the customs of the times.
Today, our sisters take part in the
various organizations that are as-
signed to them. They give service
in the training of our youth, our chil-
dren, and what they do is done by
authority. And when the Prophet
Joseph Smith chose the sisters in
1842, he gave them authority.
Authority to administer, even, if
necessary, the laying on of hands in
behalf of the sick. Not to seal and
anoint, but by the prayer of faith
to plead with the Lord for the heal-
ing of the sick. I have often
thought in reading our scriptures,
the old scriptures, of the restrictions,
apparently, that were placed upon
women which the Lord in his wis-
dom in the dispensation of the ful-
ness of times removed.
TT isn't necessary today for our sis-
ters to be silent. They can be
called upon to teach the gospel of
Jesus Christ, to bear their testi-
monies and bear witness of the truth
in our sacrament meetings or other
meetings of the Church. They have
their own meetings, such as the Re-
lief Society, in which they have been
given power and authority to do a
great many things. The work which
they do is done by divine authority.
The Lord through his wisdom has
called upon our sisters to be aids to
the Priesthood. Because of their
sympathy, tenderness of heart, and
kindness, the Lord looks upon them
and gives unto them the duties and
responsibilities of being ministers to
the needy and to the afflicted. He
has pointed out the path which they
should follow, and he has given to
them this great organization where
they have authority to serve under
the directions of the bishops of the
wards and in harmony with the bish-
ops of the wards, looking after the
interest of our people both spiritual-
ly and temporally.
And the Lord can call upon our
sisters to go into the homes to com-
fort the needy, to aid and assist the
afflicted, to kneel with them and
pray with them, and the Lord will
hearken to the sisters' prayers when
they are offered sincerely in behalf
of the sick, just as he will listen to
the prayers of the elders of the
Church.
We could not get along without
this organization. I don't know
what some of our bishops would do,
if a bishop could not call upon the
president of the Relief Society of
his ward in cases of need. Maybe
sometimes a bishop finds it rather
convenient to put something off on-
to the shoulders of the sisters of
the Relief Society when maybe he
ought to shoulder a few of the
things himself, I don't know.
(Laughter.) But you have been
very helpful, and the Lord ap-
preciates the work that you do.
You, through your faithfulness and
your obedience, will find your place
in the kingdom of God when it is
established in its fulness and
righteousness. Think of it! It is
within the privilege of the sisters of
this Church to receive exaltation in
the kingdom of God and receive
authority and power as queens and
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JANUARY 1959
priestesses, and I am sure if they
have that power they have some
power to rule and reign. Else why
would they be priestesses?
The Lord is pleased with your
labors. You, through your service,
have helped to build up and
strengthen the kingdom of God.
Just as necessary is the labor of the
Relief Society in the Church as it
is, shall I say? with the quorums
of the Priesthood. Now some may
feel that I am expressing this a lit-
tle too strongly, but my own judg-
ment is that the work that you, our
good sisters, are doing, finds its place
and is just as important in the
building up of this kingdom,
strengthening it, causing it to ex-
pand, laying a foundation upon
which we all may build, just as much
as it is for the brethren who hold
the Priesthood of God. We can't
get along without you.
Now I am sorry, but I have to
leave. I hate to go, because I would
like to stay with you and hear the
remarks of Brother Petersen and the
other exercises that are before you.
But I leave my prayer and my bless-
ing with you, and I want to say to
you that I honor you and those who
labor with you, who are not here, in
your faithfulness and your integrity
to the truth, the gospel of Jesus
Christ.
May the Lord continue to bless
you with his Holy Spirit abundantly,
I pray in the name of Jesus Christ,
Amen.
*^
Elsie McKinnon Strachan
Every good gift is a gift from our Father,
All that we have and love and own,
Is given by him: bird-song and weather,
The silent dusk, the singing dawn.
The bread of each day — life-building goodness,
The hearth of e\'ening, sun-seasoned wood,
The circle of love in an hour of darkness —
All are gifts from our Father, God.
The home-glow of lamplight, children's sweet laughter.
All that we have and hold and love.
Family and friendship, freedom and shelter.
Are gifts — all gifts, from God above.
77?
ountain
(Peak
Celia Luce
MOST mountain peaks have to be climbed. If you want the breathtaking view, the
heady feeling of being on top of the world, you have to work for it. Oh, there
are smooth roads to the top of a few peaks, and roads part way up others. There are
roads with lovely views that carry you into the mountains. But few roads lead to the
mountain peaks.
Life is like that. Some happiness seems to be handed to us \\ith very little
effort on our part. But most happiness, like the view from a mountain peak, has to
be earned by hard work on our part.
Kyiward vi/i
inners
ibliza U\. Snow LPoetn Looniest
npHE Relief Society General Board
is pleased to announee the
names of the three winners in the
1Q58 Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest.
This contest was announced in the
May 1958 issue of The Relief So-
ciety Magazine, and closed August
15/1958.
The first prize of forty dollars is
awarded to Lael Woolsey Hill, Salt
Lake City, Utah, for her poem 'The
Telling." The second prize of
thirty dollars is awarded to Mabel
Law Atkinson, Dayton, Idaho, for
her poem 'Tortrait of Lincoln's
Second Mother." The third prize
of twenty dollars is awarded to
Sylvia Probst Young, Midvale, Utah,
for her poem 'Tarting on the
rairie.
This poem contest has been con-
ducted annually by the Relief So-
ciety General Board since 1924, in
honor of Eliza R. Snow, second
General President of Relief Society,
a gifted poet and beloved leader.
The contest is open to all Latter-
day Saint women, and is designed to
encourage poetry writing, and to in-
crease appreciation for creative writ-
ing and the beauty and value of
poetry.
Prize-winning poems are the prop-
erty of the Relief Society General
Board, and may not be used for
publication by others except upon
written permission of the General
Board. The General Board also
reserves the right to publish any of
the poems submitted, paying for
them at the time of publication at
the regular Magazine rate. A writer
who has received the first prize for
two consecutive years must wait
two years before she is again eligible
to enter the contest.
Mrs. Hill appears for the second
time as an award winner in the
Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest; Mrs.
Atkinson is a second-time winner;
and 1958 marks the third time that
Mrs. Young has placed in the con-
test.
There were 156 poems submitted
in this year's contest. Entries were
received from thirty-one states, with
the largest number coming, in
order, from Utah, California, Idaho,
Arizona, Colorado, Washington,
Oregon, Wyoming, and Texas.
Entries were received also from Can-
ada, Mexico, Scotland, England,
New Zealand, and Australia.
The General Board congratulates
the prize winners and expresses ap-
preciation to all entrants for their
interest in the contest. The Gen-
eral Board wishes, also, to thank the
judges for their care and diligence in
selecting the prize-winning poems.
The services of the poetry com-
mittee of the General Board are very
much appreciated.
The prize-winning poems, togeth-
er with photographs and brief high-
lights of the prize-winning contes-
tants, are published in this issue of
the Magazine.
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[Prize- v(/i
lamw
g iPoeras
ibuza LK. Snow LPoem (contest
LAEL WOOLSEY HILL
First Prize Poem
cJne cJelUng
Lad W. Hill
\ . . she went and told them that had been with him . . ," (Mark 16:10).
How kingly to the rising day
Where I had lowly come, he came
Along the ferned, unfolding way
Of morning golden as his name.
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PRIZE-WINNING POEMS
I felt the look he looked on me
Like spring in willow-wanded green,
I saw his smile begin to be,
Like birds with sudden sky between.
And how a breathless word was I—
An almost fear, an almost flight
But for those birds upon that sky
Where he stood tall with light!
He came to me in sun-up glow,
As trees leaf out from dust and stone,
As winds that orchards breathe and blow,
Warm flesh on living bone.
Time spun around me green and blue,
The world was all a garden room.
And when he spoke my name, I knew
Why stone gives way, and lilies bloom.
Lael Woohey Hill, Salt Lake City, Utah, was awarded second prize in the Eliza R.
Snow Poem Contest last year, and has frequently contributed poems to the Magazine.
She tells us that she would truly appreciate having this year's biographical sketch "make
most mention of the original verse form (so far as I have been able to determine) in
which my poem 'The Telling' is written. I have called this form 'the Voweled Quin-
tet.' It is written in five stanzas, whose rhymes use the vowel sounds in alphabetical
order: first stanza, all "A" rhymes; second stanza, all ''E" rhymes, etc. Though all
the poems I have tried in this form are in quatrains, in four-foot lines (tetrameter,
usually iambic), I have set no rigid rules except for the order of the rhyme vowels. Even
these can be varied by long and short vowels, different or same consonant endings, etc.
The pattern seems naturally to progress to a lesser climax at line twelve, and to a
greater final climax at line twenty. It would please me to have other poets try this
form, as I find it makes a musically pleasant poem, and I feel it has good possibilities
for development."
MABE;L law ATKINSON
Second Prize Poem
Lrortrait of JLincoln s Second ll iother
(Sarah Johnson Lincohi)
Mabel Law Atkinson
December Planting
Tall and strong she was, her gray-bine eyes
Held steadiness and kindness, firmness, too.
Before Tom Lincoln's cabin in surprise
She noted how the wind could whistle through
The chinks between the logs, and saw no door
To close against December— just a hole
Wide-gaping; moist, foot-printed earth, the floor.
Why had she come? As panic touched her soul,
She turned and saw young Abe: a wordless pleading
Was in his face. His eyes, deep-set and gray.
Hungry for mothering sought hers. Love-heeding,
She sensed Divinity had marked her way.
Holding him close, there on the frozen sod,
She knew her task: to keep him close to God.
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PRIZE-WINNING POEMS 11
April Promise
Abe lay in silvered quietude, the moon
Of promise shining through the attic door,
For love and willing work had wonder-strewn
His worl^d. Light footsteps on the new pine floor
Below intoned the stillness. Reverently
He touched the softness of his feather tick—
''Not cornhusks, Ma/' he whispered. 'Tou should see
Our cabin now, all whitewashed, with a thick,
Smooth door from our own pines. . . . But best of all
She loves us. Ma, and keeps us near to you.
She says someday when I am strong and tall
God has a work for me— Can this be true?"
Asleep when Sarah came and smoothed his head,
He dreamed of angels by his prayer-sweet bed.
Golden Harvest
Sarah was regal still, and Abe, full grown.
Stood towering above her. Awed, in pride.
She viewed the harvest from her seeds, love-sown:
A Mmi oi Godl When Thomas Lincoln died
And Abe, his arms about her, gently said,
''Ma, V\\ take care of you," in his embrace
Again she felt his greatness; once more read
The prophecy within his craggy face.
Fulfillment came: The Nation's President!
Her Abe! Once more as long ago— in tears—
His eyes sought hers and found, with wonderment,
The mother love that had enriched his years.
Through her had God prepared him? Need she ask?
Enough to know she had fulfilled her task.
Mabel L^w Atkinson, Davton, Idaho, is a third-time winner in the Relief Society
contests, having placed third in the Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest in 1951, and second
in the Relief Society Short Story Contest last year. The author of three published
\'olumes of poetr}^ she is a member of seven writers' organizations, among them the
"American Poetry League," "Idaho Writers' League," and the "Gem State Authors'
Guild." This last year she has added to her long Hst of winnings since 1950, several
awards in regional, national, and international contests, the most outstanding being
first prize in the Minnesota Statehood Centennial Poetry Contest in which 520 poets
from thirty-six states and Hawaii and Canada participated. The wife of Earl J. Atkinson,
she is the mother of five children and grandmother to five grandsons. She is a sister
to Dr. Reuben D. Law, President of the Church College of Hawaii. During her long
illness (since 1935), she has lived her philosophy that man, attuned to the Infinite,
can rise above all handicaps and keep the mind and spirit inviolate; that life is beautiful,
and earth can be heaven.
SYLVIA PROBST YOUNG
Third Prize Poem
[Parting on the IPrairie
Syhia Probst Young
The clouds hang low above this fallow plain,
How icy-fingered was the wind at dawn-
Good Captain, snow will fall before the night,
Yet wait a little while to say, ''Move on."
Apart she stands beside the new-made mound,
Her eyes are burned with grief, she does not heed
The strong man's gentle arm about her waist-
Bowed by her sorrow as a storm-bent reed.
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PRIZE-WINNING POEMS 13
The boy was life and laughter at her side,
Finding the trail adventure day on day,
How much the freckled face, the clear blue eyes
Could give her courage on the toilsome way.
This morn his singing lips are mute and cold—
And she must leave him in this barren land.
He who loved beauty— greening blade and tree—
The feel of crvstal water on his hand.
Her cart will hold a torn brimmed hat, a knife,
A wood-carved horse, a little treasure sack.
These must she keep though each will tear her heart —
And ever will her eyes be looking back.
The winds of morn are threatening and chill,
But let her stay a little longer there.
She cannot come again to bring a flower.
Or meditate beside his lonely bier.
The handcart train will travel on its way,
While here the lone wolves roam, the coyotes cry-
She shall push on through long, heart-breaking days —
But wait a little— let her say goodbye.
Sylvia Vioh^i Young, Midvale, Utah, has been several times an award winner in the
Rehef Society contests. She placed first in the Ehza R. Snow Contest in 1952, and
second in 1953. In 1957, she placed first in the Relief Society Short Storv Contest.
Mrs. Young tells us: ''To be a winner in this contest is always a thrill. Mv poem
'Parting on the Prairie' was inspired by the pathos depicted in Avard Fairbanks'
'Tragedy at Winter Quarters.' I have been a contributor to ThQ Reliei Society Maga-
zine for twenty years, and have also written for all of the other Church magazines;
The Salt Lake Tribune, Deseiet News; a national magazine, and several anthologies.
Being a homemaker and a schoolteacher is quite a full schedule, but I manage some time
in between for writing, flower raising, and reading. I am married to Reid W. Young,
bishop of the Midvale Fourth Ward, and we are the parents of four wonderful boys."
Jrinnual uielief Society Short Story (contest
npHE Relief Society General Board
is pleased to announce the
award winners in the Annual Relief
Society Short Story Contest, which
was announced in the May 1958
issue of the Magazine, and which
closed August 15, 1958.
The first prize of seventy-five
dollars is awarded to Norma A.
Wrathall, Sunnyvale, California, for
her story ''Goodbye and Good
Luck, Mrs. Kelsey/' The second
prize of sixty dollars is awarded to
Dorothy S. Romney, Stockton,
California, for her story ''We Can't
All Be Generals." The third prize
of fifty dollars is awarded to Sarah
O. Moss, Salt Lake City, for her
story "The House on Cherry Lane
Drive."
Mrs. Wrathall is a third-time
winner in the Relief Society Short
Story Contest. Mrs. Romney and
Mrs. Moss are first-time winners,
although others of their stories have
previously appeared in the Maga-
zine.
The Annual Relief Society Short
Story Contest was first conducted
by the Relief Society General Board
in 1941, as a feature of the Relief
Society centennial observance, and
was made an annual contest in 1942.
The contest is open only to Latter-
day Saint women who have had at
least one literary composition pub-
lished or accepted for publication
in a periodical of recognized merit.
The three prize-winning stories
will be published consecutively in
the first three issues of The Relief
Society Magazine for 1959. Forty-
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five stories were entered in the con-
test for 1958.
The contest was initiated to en-
courage Latter-day Saint women to
express themselves in the field of
fiction. The General Board feels
that the response to this opportun-
ity continues to increase the literary
quality of The Rehei Society Maga-
zine, and will aid the women of the
Church in the development of
their gifts in creative writing. Wom-
en who are interested in entering
the short story contest are reminded
that each year, in the May or June
issue of the Magazine, a helpful
article on storywriting is published.
Prize-winning stories are the prop-
erty of the Relief Society General
Board, and may not be used for
publication by others except upon
written permission from the Gen-
eral Board. The General Board
also reserves the right to publish any
of the stories submitted, paying for
them at the time of publication at
the regular Magazine rate.
A writer who has received the
first prize for two consecutive years
must wait for two years before she
is again eligible to enter the contest.
The General Board congratulates
the prize-winning contestants, and
expresses appreciation to all those
who submitted stories. Sincere
gratitude is extended to the judges
for their discernment and skill in
selecting the prize-winning stories.
The General Board also acknowl-
edges, with appreciation, the work
of the short story committee in
supervising the contest.
Cjirst [Prize- vi/inmnq Q>tory^
K/innual Uxelief Society Snort Story Looniest
Good Bye and Good Luck,
Mrs. Kelsey
Norma A. WrathaJJ
IT was the summer after I, Alice
Norris, had my gall bladder
operation that the Kelseys
moved into the old Forrester place
adjoining my property. I hadn't
been able to work as hard as usual
that year, but my son-in-law had set
out my tomato and pepper plants,
and I planted the cucumbers my-
self. Between us, we put in the
dahlia bulbs, with a tall stake beside
each one. As president of the Lin-
wood Flower Society, I just about
had to get in a few new flowers,
although my yard is already planted
nicely to perennials and roses. And
I had a secret hope of exhibiting my
deep maroon dahlia, the Star of
Persia, at the State Fair.
Mine is a large corner lot, with
old Mrs. Bates' home on the east
and the Forrester place at the back.
It was once one of the finer homes
of Linwood, but the Forresters had
moved away, and the old frame
house had fallen into disrepair.
Weeds were rampant in the door-
yard, and the field beyond, once a
pasture, had become a tangle of wild
grass and morning glory. Verner
Hals, owner of Linwood's Men's
Clothing Store, had the renting of
the house to a succession of fami-
lies that moved in and out of town.
NORMA A. WRATHALL
I had told him, "You'd get a better
class of renters, if you'd fix up the
house a bit." He said he couldn't
on the small commission he collect-
ed. As it was, I tried to be a good
neighbor to the renters, friendly, but
distant. However, it was soon ap-
parent that the little Kelsey boys
didn't know the meaning of dis-
tance.
I was working in my back yard
on the afternoon that the Kelseys
drove their dilapidated car along the
adjoining driveway. Through the
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cloud of dust, I caught a glimpse of
the top piled high with parapher-
nalia, the two little boys leaning out
at the side, and the trailer bumping
along behind, all but spilling bed-
steads, bedding, pots and pans, and
what-not. A few minutes later, as
I knelt to fasten a tomato plant to
its prop, a clod of dirt sailed over
the fence and landed with a plump
beside me.
The very next morning, as I start-
ed toward the yard to turn on the
sprinklers, I heard ''~sss-sss-tt~" and
the scampering of feet. A frowzled
black top, which I learned later be-
longed to Benny, and a carroty
thatch which proved to be Pete's,
disappeared from view down behind
my fence. I hurried to the garden,
to find green and ripe tomatoes
thrown about, vines uprooted, cu-
cumbers stepped on and smashed.
I looked over the fence in time to
see them scuttling for home. As I
cleaned up my garden, I got to
wondering how they had climbed
over my straight high fence, unless
they were part demon and part fly.
Mrs. Bates agreed that they were
part demon, all right, on the day
they pulled the wire from her hen-
house, chased the setting hens from
the nests, smashed the eggs, and
pulled out the rooster's tail feathers.
npHINGS went from bad to worse.
Almost every day there was new
mischief. We talked it over, and
decided that something would have
to be done. I wondered if it would
be best to try kindness, coupled with
a grim attitude, of course. They im-
mediately assigned me the task of
making the complaint.
I started out one afternoon with a
loaf of fresh raisin bread.
Mrs. Kelsey was on the sagging
back porch, washing clothes in a
large tin tub. She was a tall, large-
boned woman, her face tanned and
deeply lined. She pushed a strand
of straight brown hair from her
damp forehead, and greeted me.
"Hot, isn't it?"
After I had introduced myself,
and she had thanked me for the
bread, she pulled a backless chair
from under a pile of boxes in a
corner. I sat gingerly on the edge
of it.
''I . . . suppose you're getting set-
tled by now?" I ventured.
She began sudsing some towels
on the washboard. ''Well, good as
we ever will, I guess ... I mean,
Mr. Kelsey hasn't got work right
now. Thought he had a job at the
railroad yard when we came, but
turned out they didn't need him. . . .
Haven't seen anything of Benny and
Pete, have you?"
''I hope he gets some work soon,"
I said. ''And I wanted to talk to
you about Benny and Pete." I
cleared my throat, and could feel
my face getting red as she stopped
washing, and turned suddenly to
look at me.
"Er ... I wouldn't mind if the
boys took some vegetables, Mrs. Kel-
sey. In fact, I'd be glad to give
them some. But I don't want them
to tear up the vines and destroy
things."
She said nothing.
"Several other neighbors have
complained, too," I pushed on.
"But maybe when they get better
acquainted, they'll have more play-
mates, and not get into so much
mischief?"
She shrugged. '"Taint likely.
Seems like wherever we go, it's hard
GOODBYE AND GOOD LUCK, MRS. KELSEY
17
for them to get playmates. Have
they done anything real bad?"
''Well . . . unless you count
smashing eggs and tomatoes and
pulling out rooster's tail feathers!"
Her gaze shifted to the sprawling
apple tree which dropped its wiz-
ened crop to the yellowed tickle
grass in the yard. 'They're such
lively little boys . . ." she said.
Abruptly, she turned back to the
tub. "Have to get on with my
washing, if you'll excuse me . . .
nearly supper time," and she re-
sumed her vigorous scrubbing.
I understood that the visit, such
as it was, had ended. As I walked
home, I felt frustrated and more
than a little vexed with myself. I
was sure that old Mrs. Bates would
take me to task for my failure.
/^NE day, at the end of the month,
I saw Verner Hals driving away
from the Forrester place, so I hailed
him as he came around the corner.
"Well, did you collect any rent
from them?" I asked him, smiling to
soften the impertinent question.
"Alice. . . ." He sighed, and
leaned back in the car seat. His
round, firm face was more flushed
than usual, his small straight mouth
set resolutely into his cheeks, and
his shrewd eyes, behind the thick
lenses, had a harassed expression.
"I will admit that I certainly made
a mistake with them. I was down
with the flu when they came —
didn't take the time to check their
references, if they had any. They
paid their deposit — and since you
asked, yes, she scraped up the rent
money from various little places.
Said he'd got a couple of weeks'
work at the cemetery, but he isn't
working now. So, I can't force them
to move. Anyway, I hate to evict
people, except as a last resort. It
makes such unpleasant publicity."
"Maybe so, but those little boys
are the scourge of the neighborhood.
I should think you'd consider the
rest of us!" I flared.
"As far as that goes, they have
broken two windows in the house
and pulled the front gate loose," he
said. But as he left, he said he'd
see what he could do.
Then came the morning that I
found the Star of Persia uprooted,
wilting in the blistering sun.
"Oh, those wretched, wretched
boys!" I muttered, kneeling beside
my stricken beauty. My vegetables,
maybe. But not my dahlia! I hur-
ried to the house, the drums of bat-
tle beating in my ears, combed my
hair, took off my apron, and pre-
pared to sally forth.
I almost bumped into Mrs. Kel-
sey coming up the back walk.
Apparently, she didn't notice my
belligerent expression, although old
Mrs. Bates says that I never look as
fierce as I think I do.
"Thought I'd come over and tell
you the news," she began, not wait-
ing for me to invite her in. I
thought that her face was more re-
laxed than usual.
"We got a letter from Pa's broth-
er up in Oregon. Wants us to come
up there. Says he has a steady job
lined up. So . . . we'll be moving
right away."
It took me a moment to find
words. "That's wonderful. For
you, I mean. But — that's a long
trip. Will your old car make it?"
"Oh, very likely it will. Pa's out
there working on it now. He's
pretty good at fixing things, if you
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can get him at it." She started
away, then paused and hfted her
head, a thin flush spreading up un-
der her cheeks. "Guess the neigh-
bors will be glad w^e're moving.
Guess it might be the best news
they've had!"
''Oh . . . why . . . no . . ." I
fumbled; but she was already half-
way down the path.
The news ran like quicksilver over
the party lines. A sort of glad relief
surged over the neighborhood, and
with it a trickling of belated good
will. We had all snubbed the Kel-
seys, and as far as I know, no child
had been allowed to play with Ben-
ny or Pete But guiltv feelings bring
out strange behavior sometimes.
One after another of us took over
some little friendly offering. Dorothy
Driggs took some good cotton T-
shirts which her boys had outgrown;
old Mrs. Bates took a blanket she
had stored awav and never used.
The wound still hurt when I
thought of my dahlia. But, after
some deliberation, I gave Mrs. Kel-
sey a new dress which my sister in
Chicago had sent me the previous
year. I had never worn it, because,
as my sister should have known, I
can't wear yellow. I'll never forget
the look on her face when she held
it up. ''New," she breathed, ''brand
new. . . ."
Even Verner Hals stopped by to
tell me that he had found four good
retreads for their car at his brother's
garage. "Couldn't risk having the
trip fall through for lack of trans-
portation," he said.
"That's a kind act, but it lacks a
charitable motive!" I told him.
He raised an eyebrow, "Who's
calling the kettle black?" he said^
and laughed.
npHEY were scheduled to leave on
Saturday. On Friday morning,
Mrs. Kelsey was again at my door.
She's come to say goodbye, I
thought, and resolved to send her
away with a kind feeling.
I asked her to come in and sit
down, and passed a plate of oatmeal
cookies. As she talked, her large,
strong hands, usuallv still, pleated
the side of her dress.
"Mrs. Norris, if I'd had to tell
you this a week ago . . . well, I just
couldn't have, that's all. I thought
everyone was down on us then. But
now . . . everyone's changed. Or else,
we're just getting acquainted bet-
ter."
Premonition struck me. "Has —
anything happened?"
"Yes, I guess you might call it
that. We got another letter from
Pa's brother in Oregon. Air mail.
Says the job fell through. Says to
come on up, anyway, if we want
to." Her wide mouth lifted in a
smile. "But I guess he didn't want
us very bad. And the neighbors
here have turned out to be so nice.
I said to Pa — 'Why leave? Just as
we've got to liking it?' "
I knew that my mouth was hang-
ing open, but I couldn't seem to
get it shut. I must have said some-
thing, and, presently, she left.
Bv midaftcrnoon, this new de-
velopment had spread like a pall
over the neighborhood. For some
reason, thev all seemed to hold me
responsible. As if I could help it!
"It's all your do-good ways, Alice!"
". . . If vou'd been more firm in the
first place ... I should think you'd
learn, at your age. . . ."
By the time I turned on my lawn
sprinklers, my ears were burning,
and I was in no mood to be pleas-
GOODBYE AND GOOD LUCK, MRS. KELSEY
19
ant when Verner Hals appeared at
my front door.
'1 don't want to hear any more
blame!" I snapped.
''Now, simmer down, Alice. No
one's blaming you." He put his hat
on the floor by his chair, and
mopped his balding head with his
handkerchief. I gave him a glass
of ice water, and he sipped it as he
talked.
''Alice, I realize that this new
development is a blow to you, as it
is to all of us — you, particularly,
because of your proximity. And
that's what I want to talk to you
about." He pressed his mouth in
carefully. "At last, after many let-
ters back and forth, IVe convinced
the Forresters that they should sell
their property. That way, there
won't be this moving in and out.
So, Fve got to have it vacant, reno-
vate, and put it up for sale. I was
just getting to the point of asking
them to move, when they an-
nounced that they were leaving.
But now — think what a spot Fm
in! How will I get them out?
Short of eviction?"
"Why ask me? I can't get them
out, either!"
He held up his hand. "Alice,
you're probably better acquainted
with them than any of us. And
they view me in the somewhat
dubious light of landlord. Some of
our interviews have been — unpleas-
ant. I would find it very difficult
to "
"Now, see here, Verner. If you
think that Fm going to tell them."
". . . to come to an understand-
ing, Alice, I want you to go to them
this evening. Before they get un-
packed. Tell them the property has
been put up for sale. They will have
to move to Oregon. I will not press
for the rent they owe, nor damages
to the windows. Just do it in a
calm and dignified way. Wish her
a goodbye and good luck, something
of that sort. . . ." He picked up his
hat.
"Coward!" I choked. But there
was no use arguing with him.
A N hour later, my feet dragged the
short distance to the Kelseys.
My arm was heavy as stone as my
knock stilled the clamor within.
Mrs. Kelsey opened the door, and
I saw that they were just sitting
down to supper.
"Come right in, Mrs. Norris. It's
nice of vou to come over."
"Good evening. I . . . don't want
to interrupt your meal. But if I
could speak to you for just a min-
ute or two. ..."
"Why, sure. They can go ahead
and eat without me. Let's go out
on the porch. It's cooler."
We sat on the sliverv top step.
"You'll have to excuse how the
house looked," she began, before I
could speak. "We haven't got
everything unpacked yet."
"That's just what I . . . that
is. . . ."
"It's real nice of you to come
over, soon's I told you we're staying.
Like I told Pa, 'All good neighbors;
that's something you don't always
find.' This is the first town where
people have treated us decent.
When you get kicked around from
place to place, you get so you don't
care. But now, we feel different.
Even the boys do." She talked on,
while I tried to get my tongue loose
from the top of my mouth.
"I'm ashamed to admit that we
haven't been too good neighbors
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ourselves. Fm right sorry about the
way those kids have pestered you.
Today, Pa whaled them good. 'Don't
go into her yard again, understand?'
he said. Benny yelled, 'Okay!' but
Pete didn't say anything, so Pa
whaled him again, until he yelled
'Okay!' too." Sudden anxiety
creased her forehead. "Haven't
been over there today, have they?"
"Why, no. No, they haven't."
I realized that in all the excitement,
I hadn't missed the Kelseys.
QHE was saying, "Pa's promised to
fix Mrs. Bates' hen-house. He was
over there today. That's when she
told him about your dahlia. I'm so
sorry. I know how I'd feel. But
things will be different now. You'll
see, Mrs. Norris." She went on
talking, saying that Pa had got his
old job back as caretaker at the
cemetery and that they'd promised
him it would be permanent work,
that she was going to pay all their
bills up, and hoped the boys
would be better. As she talked, her
voice lifting and falling, I felt small-
er and smaller. She had been in
need of bread, and we had offered
her a stone.
When I got home, I called Ver-
ner Hals on the phone. I told him
all that had happened, and that if
he wanted them to leave, he could
take care of it himself. Then I hur-
ried over to visit old Mrs. Bates be-
fore she could ring me back.
Verner stopped by next morning.
Said he'd been thinking it over, and
that things had probably turned out
for the best. He'd decided to buy
the old Forrester place himself; said
he probably had intended to all the
time but didn't realize it. The old
house wasn't worth much, but he
was buying it for the land at the
back. Maybe it would be all right
to have the Kelseys live there for
awhile; maybe they'd clean up the
place. He drew one of his deep
sighs, and said that by some miracle,
maybe Kelsey would even fix up the
fences and look after the field.
I looked at him, wondering if he
didn't know that we'd already had
a miracle, one that we wouldn't for-
get in awhile.
He turned his head suddenly, and
his eyes met mine. The straight
mouth lifted and softened, and as
he turned his gaze quickly aside
again, I saw something glisten, and
I knew that he had shared my
thought.
Norma A. WrathaU tells us that she appreciates The Relief Society Magazine and
the opportunities it offers for writers. "We have lived in Sunnyvale, California, for
more than five years, having moved here from American Fork, Utah, in 1953. I am a
native of Grantsville, Utah. During the past few years I have not done much writing
until just recently I have tried to get started with it again. It makes me very happy
and thankful to be published in The Rehef Society Magazine once more. My husband
is Morris Wrathall. We have four children, all of whom are quite grownup now. Don
is serving in the Eastern States Mission; Carolyn is married and has two children;
Camille and Robert are at home. I am employed as a secretary by the Sunnyvale School
District, and, with my home, this keeps me quite busy. However, I plan to do as much
writing as possible. I am interested chiefly in the short story." Mrs. Wrathall placed
first in the Relief Society Short Story Contest in 1943, second in 1950, and third in
^953-
ibxploring /tew c/rontiers in uiealth
Basil O'Connor
President, The National Foundation
"VS/ITH paralytic polio on the down grade because of the Salk vaccine,
The National Foundation is moving forward into a challenging new
program of vast significance to everyone concerned with the problem of
human disabilitv.
The National Foundation, originally the National Foundation for
Infantile Paralvsis, will now launch a broad scientific assault on some of
the Nation's other major health problems. . . . Hope is bright that March
of Dimes-supported research, which yielded the powerful polio prevention
weapon, may some dav soon remove the aura of mystery from other mala-
dies that have long puzzled and pained mankind. . . .
We have set our sights on full investigation of virus diseases, ex-
ploration of disorders of the central nervous system and, initially, on two
specific new targets — arthritis and congenital malformations, or birth de-
fects. These afflictions annually cripple millions of Americans. No pre-
vention is known for either, nor is there a cure.
This broad concept is a direct tribute to the American people, to the
volunteers like yourselves who forged the victory over paralytic polio. It
is an affirmation of belief that you will continue and increase your sup-
port of the bigger fight to score equally great victories in other health
fields. . . .
For the past twenty-one years, people of all ages, in all walks of life,
have given voluntarily to the March of Dimes to speed the conquest of
polio. Medical history undoubtedly will record the Salk vaccine as the
first preventive measure ever achieved through the co-operation of science
and the public and put into immediate, effective use through the efforts
of a nation's medical and lay population. . . . The need for equally full
understanding of the new program is one of the impelling reasons why the
March of Dimes will continue to make its own annual appeal direct to
the American public.
C/oi/a QJeath
ers
Eva. Willes Wangsgaard
How cold
These feathers are!
Snow geese nest high on wind
Which plucks their down to cover earth
In white.
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cJhe California ii iission
Pieston R. NibJey
Assistant Church Historian
'TPHE first members of the Latter-day Saints Church to arrive in Cahfornia
were 230 men, women, and children who had sailed from New York
City in the ship ''Brooklyn/' on February 4, 1846, and who, after rounding
Cape Horn, arrived in San Francisco Bay on July 31st.
Six months later, in January 1847, the members of the Mormon Bat-
talion, consisting of about 300 men and a few women, arrived at San
Diego, after an overland journey.
In 1851 a large colony of Latter-day Saints, approximately 500 in
number, settled at San Bernardino. Thus the Latter-day Saints were
prominent in the early history of California. Missionary work was carried
on by them to a considerable extent, under the leadership of Parley P.
Pratt, Amasa M. Lyman, Charles C. Rich, George O. Cannon, and other
Authorities of the Church; however, in 1857, at the time of the coming of
Johnston's Army, President Brigham Young counseled the members of
the Church to return to Utah. The great majority of them responded to
this call.
Actual missionary work in California was not resumed again until
1892, when Elder John L. Dalton was called to labor in the San Francisco
Bay region. He performed several baptisms and organized small branches
Photograph by Ted Richardson
Submitted by Leo J. Speirs
SCENE IN THE DESERT, NEAR TWENTY-NINE PALMS, CALIFORNIA
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THE CALIFORNIA MISSION
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A "Frashers"' Photo
Submitted by Richard F. Oyler
MT. WHITNEY, CALIFORNIA (14,496 feet high)
Highest summit in the United States, King of the Sierra Ne\'acla Range
in Oakland and San Francisco. He was followed by Elder Karl G. Maeser,
who continued the work during 1894. Mission presidents who succeeded
him were: Henry S. Tanner, 1894-96; Ephraim H. Nye, 1896-1901; Joseph
E. Robinson, 1901-1919; Joseph W. McMurrin, 1919-32; Alonzo Hinckley,
1932-35; Nicholas G. Smith, 1935-37; ^^* ^^^^ Macdonald, 1937-41; Henry
H. Blood, 1941-42; Elijah Allen, 1942-46; Oscar W. McConkie, 1946-50;
David I. Stoddard, 1950-51; Bryan L. Bunker, 1951-55; Henry D. Taylor,
1955-58; Jesse A. Udall, 1958-.
The California Mission, which included parts of Arizona and Nevada,
was divided in January 1942. The dividing line was established at the
northern boundary lines of San Luis Obispo, Kern, and Inyo counties.
The northern portion was designated as the Northern California Mission.
The southern portion retains the name of the California Mission.
On September 30, 1958, there were 3,777 members of the Church in
the California Mission, located in eighteen branches. Converts baptized
during the year numbered 1,557.
Twenty-six Relief Society organizations, with 752 members, were re-
ported in December 1957. Alta H. Taylor is former president of the
California Mission Relief Society, and Lela Lee Udall is the present presi-
dent.
Note: The co\er for this Afagazine, "The California Mission Home, W'^ith the
Los Angeles Temple in the Baekground," is reprodueed from a photograph by Harold
^^'inn, and was submitted by Sister Taylor. See also "Reeipes From the California
JMission/' by Sister Taylor, page 36.
The Silver Leash
Chapter i
Beatrice Rordame Parsons
THE bus rolled steadily along
the dark strip of asphalt
which seemed to unwind
itself under the wheels. The desert
was unending. LaRue Harding
stared out of the window and
shivered.
Fm a stranger, she thought.
Not only a stranger to this corner
of Arizona, but a stranger to her
brother-in-law, Herbert Vetterly.
He had married LaRue's sister,
Amelia, seventeen years ago.
I don't even know their children,
except as names, LaRue thought un-
happily. Erma would be sixteen,
now. Joel must be fourteen. Con-
nie, only nine.
'They are my nieces and neph-
ew," LaRue spoke softly to herself,
''yet they are as distant from me as
those eroded peaks which unfold to
let the bus go through."
Her sister Amelia had written,
year after year, asking LaRue to
come to Arizona. Now it was too
late. Amelia was dead!
Her mind went back. . . .
5i« * * *
She had been five when their par-
ents died. She and Amelia, ten
years older, had left Arizona and
gone to San Francisco to live with
a distant relative, whom they called
Aunt Mettie.
Amelia had been homesick for
their home in Fivelakes, for her
friends and acquaintances. She had
often talked about it to LaRue, even
though LaRue was too small to
understand.
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"I remember the houses, the
streets. I can still see the oldest
house in the valley. Hillhigh House,
they called it because it was built
on a knoll overlooking the town.
The hospital is named after our
great-great-grandfather, Jonas Hard-
ing."
LaRue was proud to know that
Jonas Harding had driven his small,
gray burro into the rugged moun-
tains prospecting for gold. She
talked about it to LaRue. But
LaRue, being a child, saw the small
gray burro more clearly than the
man. She did not remember Five-
lakes.
As they grew older, Amelia teased
Aunt Mettie to let them return to
Arizona for a visit. But Aunt Met-
tie didn't have money enough to
send them. It wasn't until Amelia
was nineteen, and had saved enough
money to make the trip, that she
was able to visit old friends for an
extended stay. She renewed ac-
quaintances, and wrote about meet-
ing a Herbert Vetterly. Love began
to glow between the lines of her
letters to LaRue and Aunt Mettie.
"Herb's a wonderful man. He's
good, honest. He's going to be an
architect. ..." A few months lat-
er, she wrote that they had fallen
in love; that they were to be mar-
ried in the Mesa Temple. She
asked Aunt Mettie to let LaRue
come for the wedding.
But Aunt Mettie had been ill and
LaRue, at nine, could not go alone.
Later on, Amelia's letters were
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filled with longing to see her sister.
'Tou are growing up, LaRue. We
two are the last of the Hardings.
Fd like my friends to know you."
And as the years passed: "Herb and
I would like you to know our chil-
dren."
But it had seemed impossible for
LaRue ever to leave Aunt Mettie.
Her duty seemed to be there. Even
as a child going to school, she had
things to do that Aunt Mettie could
not do. As LaRue went through high
school and on to the university,
Aunt Mettie grew more and more
feeble, but LaRue had managed to
graduate. She found an excellent
position in one of the large banks
in San Francisco. By then Aunt
Mettie was bedfast, and the money
LaRue earned kept the dear old
lady in comfort. When she died,
LaRue, who had always had so much
to do, found herself on the verge of
a breakdown. It was soon after, that
Amelia was killed in the accident
which crippled her husband.
Herbert Vetterly's letter, written
six months after his wife's sudden
death, was painfully compelling:
I am of little use to myself or the chil-
dren. I sit in my wheel chair in my room.
The children are alone too much. People
are kind. Mrs. Jonstone, a neighbor, as-
sists with the housework, does the cook-
ing. We manage, day by day. But the
children and I are drifting apart. I worry
about them a good deal. . . .
LaRue immediately had written
Herb that she would take three
weeks leave from the bank, and
come for a visit during the month
of June. She assured her coworkers
that she would return by the first
week in July.
Although there had been no an-
swer from Herb, LaRue felt she
must go. She got several tourist
folders and read about Arizona:
Area 113,956 square miles. Water, 329
square miles. State Flower, the Saguaro.
. . . The town of Fivelakes ... in that
corner of Arizona where so much of West-
ern history began, is fast becoming a tour-
ist center. The climate is ideal . . . the
altitude contributing to not-too-warm days
and desert-cooled nights ... on the Lost
Padre River . . . where the Lost Padre
Dam contributes acres of water for irriga-
tion ... a lush green valley . . . four
dry lakes and Blue Lake nearby gave the
town its name. . . .
jjc j!c jj: sj: jjj
AS the bus rolled along, LaRue
strained her eyes for a glimpse
of the valley. It was hard to believe
that somewhere — behind the weird
arrangement of pink and yellow
cliffs, a lush, summertime land of
blue lakes and fertile fields would
appear.
There were miles and miles of
barren land to which gray tufts of
grass clung stubbornly. She studied
the wind-etched patterns in an ocean
of sand, and wondered why Amelia
had longed to go back to Arizona.
As the bus crossed the miles of
arid Indian Reservation country, she
studied the rude hogans of the
ancient peoples, and wondered that
they could survive on sand and sun.
LaRue was glad she did not have
to stay in Arizona!
Then, suddenly, the valley ap-
peared, cupped between towering
mountains. She could scarcely be-
lieve her eyes. She thought, amazed-
ly: It's like those desert plants Fve
read about — lifting their heads to
blossom when the rain has passed.
No wonder Amelia had found it a
good place to live!
Yet, even as she made this small
concession to her sister's judgment,
LaRue could not accept the valley
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as her own. The pastry-Hke contours
of the hills made her think of a cake
— baked eons before — to rise on
one side and fall on the other, as if
the oven had been imperfect.
She saw yucca and Joshua trees
that looked like odd-shaped Mars-
men. There were saguaro and tall,
straight cacti which looked like the
pipes of an organ. In some places
they were actually planted to form
a sort of fence. There were small,
spiny cacti crouched menacingly
among gray boulders as if waiting to
spring out upon the unwary. She
saw tiny green lizards slithering into
the sand to escape the turning
wheels. She did not see, but her
vivid imagination painted in her
mind, pictures of tarantulas and
Gila monsters.
LaRue shivered again. Home-
sickness tugged at her like a leather
thong. Tlie beauty and fascination
of San Francisco rose in her memory
and she could almost smell the
Pacific breezes, almost hear the roar
of the skyscraper canyons. She
knew with uneasy clarity that she
could never make this oasis in Ari-
zona her home!
When the bus rolled into the
station, she wanted to keep her seat
and return to the Coast. But her
baggage — one suitcase and an
overnight bag — was being unload-
ed by a rough-looking, scraggly-
bearded young man in a plaid shirt
and Levis. He saw her staring at
his face, and grinned, scratching his
thin beard. "You'll see a lot of 'em,
Lady. Every man around here is
getting ready for the Founding
Festival. By the time it rolls around,
ril have one of the best beards in
the county!" He whistled as he
set her bags inside the station.
When her bus disappeared in
muted distance, LaRue followed
her bags. The station was un-
pretentious. There was a cafe
with green plastic-covered counter.
There were Mexican and Indian
dolls with intricately decorated cos-
tumes, ranged on shelves. Aztec
gods glowered down at her from
brass and tin masks, and she remem-
bered that Fivelakes was close to
the Mexican border. On the walls
she saw murals of pink and orange
cliffs which reminded her of castles
and fortresses. As the one or two
fellow passengers disappeared into
waiting cars, LaRue realized that no
one had come to meet her. Panic
seized her. It had been almost two
weeks since she'd written Herb that
she would come. She had not heard
from him. Could all of them be
ill? Or moved away? Or. . . .
Something was surely wrong.
OHE looked out of the window at
the road which ran like a gray
artery into the town of Fivelakes. The
highway was being widened. From
where she stood it seemed that the
town would surely be gobbled up
by the machines which sent clouds
of acrid dust into the air. The
chugging of scoop-shovels, the
pounding of rollers beat dully into
the cafe. She gazed through the
brilliance of the blazing sun, and
her head ached.
The man behind the counter —
bearded, frightening almost, in his
western garb — watched her quietly.
When he spoke, she jumped. "Get
you a cab. Lady?" At her nod he
went to phone. "Be here in a min-
ute," he assured her lazily, running
his fingers through his dark beard.
"Raising this beard for the Found-
ing Festival," he explained smiling-
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She thought it was awful, but she
didn't say so. She wasn't really in-
terested in the festival. She'd read
about such things. There'd be a
Kangaroo Court, of course, in the
middle of town, where frontier
justice would be handed out. Wom-
en would wear the traditional swirl-
ing skirts of their Mexican neigh-
bors, or the traditional sunbonnets
of the pioneers. It would be a
fiesta!
The taxi, which had been a spin-
ning, orange fleck in the distance,
arrived at last in a cloud of dust.
The driver put LaRue's bags into
the back. When she gave him
Herbert Vetterly's address he stared
at her in frank amazement.
'AVhv, vou're the sister Mrs.
Vetterly talked about! You're not
a bit like her. Your hair is red."
He amended quickly, ''I mean,
auburn."
LaRue laughed. ''Red hair and
freckles," she said, and was glad
that wide-spaced grav-blue eyes,
dark brows, and long, dark lashes,
compensated for the row of freck-
les across her nose. Amelia used
to call them ''sun-kisses." Oddly
enough, she hadn't thought of the
word for years!
The taxi lurched back towards
the town, the driver skillfully avoid-
ing loose gravel and hot oil. He
chatted easily.
"Mrs. Vetterly was a very fine
woman. She worked in the Church,
in Relief Societv. She belonged to
the Genealogical Society. She was
very proud of her family and of the
fact she "was a Harding."
"I know very little about the
Hardings," answered LaRue weakly.
She thought, I know so little about
my sister. Even her taxi driver knew
more!
LaRue could remember Amelia,
as she had been seventeen years be-
fore, when she left Aunt Mettie's
to marry Herb. But all the years
between were closed to LaRue.
Trying to see Amelia's face as it
had been during later years, was like
looking at the wrong side of the
negative, misty, blurred.
Fm a Harding, she thought con-
fusedly, yet not one of them at all!
She tried to shake away the feel-
ing that she was just a pinprick of
personality, with no beginning, no
end, floating aimlessly into a place
called Fivelakes. The driver was
explaining how the town had got
its name.
"Four of the lakes dry up during
the summer." He pointed. "But
Blue Lake is deep and clear, fine for
swimming and fishing." It lay like a
silver tureen in the distance. He
advised LaRue, smilingly: "Stay for
the Founding Festival and see some
fun!"
LaRue smiled politely. But her
mind refused to think of remaining
so long. The driver was still giving
her a tourist's glimpse of the valley.
"Over there, just under the shad-
ow of Coyote Peak is the Lawson
Dairy Farm. Frank and Ellen Law-
son are wonderful people. They've
adopted five children. Now they
are expecting one of their own."
T ARUE looked at the neat, white
buildings outlined against the
gray of the mountain, and smiled.
But again her mind turned down
the possibility that the Lawson farm
would ever — could ever — mean
anything to her!
On one side of the highway the
land rose in a rolling knoll, topped
by a very old, yet dignified house.
LaRue had a queer feeling that she
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had seen it before. Then she rea- After a long, embarrassing scru-
hzed that she was probably remem- tiny, the child spoke. ''Are you my
bering it because Amelia had talked Aunt LaRue?" Then, as LaRue
about it. It was two stories high, managed a smile and a nod, she
with small attic windows. There added critically: ''You don't look at
were wide, comfortable porches, and all like my Mommy looked!"
so much gingerbread trim that La- LaRue swallowed nervously. "You
Rue thought of gingerbread cookies, must be Connie?"
The driver saw that she was in- She held out her hand. But the
terested and explained, "It's almost child did not move to take it. She
one hundred years old. The oldest called to the dog.
house in the valley. It used to be- "Come here, Atlast." At LaRue's
long to one of the Hardings. But frank look of puzzlement, she ex-
now it belongs to Clyde Rutherford, plained: "He was a stray. Daddy
Everyone^ calls him 'Grandie,' be- let me keep him. So I have a dog
cause he's Dr. Alan Rutherford's _ at last!"
grandfather. He does not live in l^r^^^ ^^^^^j^^^ - Where is everv-
the old house. It's for sale. Gran- one?"
die lives with the aid of a day-house- r> • i • j . • i.
1 • .1 . 11 Tu ■ 1 . Connie did not answer, lust
keeper m that small red- brick cot- . ,i i i i i
, ^ , „ oiDcned the screen and beckoned
taee nearby. t r) • • i
>ri 17 J i-i ij 1 LaKue inside.
1 hev had passed the old house, . t^ 1 1 , n yy i
but LaRue could still see it raising . I^addy can t walk, she said
its proud old head to look out over simply.
the valley. It had belonged to a LaRue found the house neat,
Harding, and for that reason she comfortable, with the bedrooms on
promised herself that someday she one side of a long hall, the living
would see it close up. rooms on the other. She looked
The taxi turned abruptly into a around,
tree-lined street and stopped before So this is where my sister lived,
a neatly kept white bungalow with she thought painfully, these are the
maroon trim. The driver took La- things she touched. Her heart was
Rue's bags from the car and put heavy with questions. How many
them on the porch. Then he times did Amelia's hands polish this
touched his cap, and the taxi disap- furniture? How many times did her
peared around a corner. laughter ring through these quiet
LaRue stood there, feeling rooms?
strange, awkward. Was no one ex-
pecting her? She put out her finger /^ONNIE was tugging at her sleeve,
to reach the doorbell, but before she They went into the living room,
pushed it, a small girl with flying At first LaRue thought it was
brown braids, came racing from the empty. Then a man with wide
back yard, followed by a tan and shoulders, very dark, crisp hair,
white dog. rolled his chair from the shadows,
She stood there, her hands loosely and she saw Herbert Vetterly for
clasped behind her, her large, blue the first time. His dark eyes, sunk-
eyes wide open, curious. The dog en with pain and distress, surveyed
sniffed at LaRue's red sandals. her carefully. It was a moment be-
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fore he put out his hand. ''Ameha
would be glad to know that you
have come."
He tried to hide it, but LaRue
caught a tense criticism in Herb's
voice. She wanted to make him
understand. Wanted to make him
know those long, busy years with
the aunt who had taken the place
of her mother. But they were over.
No need to speak of them now.
Perhaps some other time. . . .
T ARUE was aware that someone
else had entered the room. She
turned. For an instant she thought
it was Amelia. The same soft pale
hair, the same lovely blue eyes. . . .
''How are you Aunt LaRue?"
asked the girl, and LaRue knew her
to be Erma. She would have put
out her arms, but Erma's blue eyes
were unfriendly, her tone distant.
LaRue kept her arms at her sides.
Then Joel came in. He was tall,
dark like his father.
'Til take your bags. Aunt La-
Rue," he said politely. His coolness
chilled his aunt. He went out upon
the porch, came back with her bags
swinging easily from his large hands.
He carried them to one of the bed-
rooms.
LaRue stood there awkwardly.
Herb pushed his chair back into the
shadows. Erma moved out of the
room. Joel left the bedroom door
ajar. He tweaked one of Connie's
brown braids and she followed him
out.
'Terhaps you'd like to unpack,"
said Herb from the shadows.
LaRue crossed the hall, feeling
the temporary briefness of her un-
welcome visit, ni only stay a little
while, she told herself, swallowing
hurt, angry tears. Yet she did not
blame any of them for not wanting
her.
She knew by the daintiness of
the curtains and furniture that this
had been Erma's room. She had
moved, no doubt, into Connie's
room. LaRue felt more than ever
the intruder.
She decided to unpack only the
most necessary things. Almost
surreptitiously she hung one or two
of her cotton frocks in the empty
clothes closet.
Her hands shook as she put her
handkerchiefs into an empty drawer
and a small, amber cut-glass bottle,
with a tiny golden cap. Her move-
ments were unsteadv as she un-
screwed the cap. The fragrance of
white carnations flooded the room.
Amelia had given LaRue the pret-
ty bottle the day she had left for
Fivelakes. The words she had said,
then, were engraved on LaRue's
mind:
". . . so you'll never forget me,
darling, and always remember that
love is everlasting. . . ."
[To be continued)
Quiescence
June N. Ashton
The wind,
Sweeping, swirling,
Raising dunes of powder
Across lonely prairies of snow
Ceases.
Sixty LJears J/igo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, January i, and January 15, 1899
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the
Women of All Nations"
RELIEF SOCIETY IN OMAHA, NEBRASKA: Sister Jane S. Richards ex-
pressed her ]o\ and satisfaction in being present. . . . Referred to the time when the
society ^^'as organized with but a few members, in the days of the Prophet Joseph Smith.
Then they endured many hardships . . . subsequently finding a peaceful home in the
valleys of the mountains where the society was reorganized by President Brigham
Young and has spread and grown until now a society is found in almost e\'ery branch
and ward of the Church, numbering in all about thirty thousand. Sister Richards said
Sister Zina D. H. Young who now presides over the society in all the world, would be
pleased to hear of an organization in Omaha. . . .
—J. L. Hatch
SARAH E. CARMICHAEL: As lofty mountains whose crests e\'er glisten with
eternal snow and hear strange and \\eird music ... so with the poet who hears music
in the floating wind \^'hispers in the forest; to whom the sea tells its wonderful secrets,
seeing glorv in the sunset, feeling peace in the moonlight, and intuitively understanding
the melody of birds. . . . Such a beautiful mind was Sarah E. Carmichael's ... to her
inspired soul the Bible \\as an open book. . . . She need not to go to Switzerland to
see the majestv of God displayed in her wondrous sno\\'clad mountains, her wild scenery,
her ra\'ishing sunsets. ...
— Lydia D. Alder
WORDS THAT BLESS
. . . The world of hope in which you live.
The words of comfort you often give.
The kindly letters your hand has penned
To son or brother or distant friend.
Not only brighten the jeweled crown
Which you in heaven will wear.
But help to swell the throng who hope
To meet and lo\'e you there.
— Alofa
HOME OWNERSHIP: Homes of their own for the common people was the
sentiment Brigham Young tried to inculcate and practically to demonstrate in these
mountain vales during the period of early settlement here. Who does not know that
the home is the center from \\'hich springs the best in life and in government? . . . The
home which is our own is the ideal one, the children enshrine it in their memory. , . .
— Editorial
GRADUATION EXERCISES FOR A NURSES' CLASS: The nurses' class
taught by Dr. Margaret C. Roberts ... for the last six months or more, held its
graduating exercises on Tuesday, December 20th .... Dr. Roberts gave the instruc-
tions free in the interest and under the auspices of the Relief Society. . . . The mem-
bers of the class acquitted themselves admirably, and the Dr. herself read a very able
and highly constructive paper. Counselor Annie T. Hyde on behalf of the Stake
Board presented to Dr. Roberts in a neat and happy speech a handsome rocking
chair in appreciation of her labors. . . and the class presented a silver cake dish filled
with lo\ely flowers.
— News Note
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
"IIT'EST Germany has encouraged
women (whose civil rights and
opportunities were drastically cur-
tailed during the war) to develop
themselves to the highest degree
possible. Many now fill top posi-
tions in the fields of law, medicine,
education, journalism, industry, and
the arts. In May and June of 1958
the Government acted as host to
ten outstanding women from
America, selected and invited by
the German Parliament. They rep-
resented a wide cross section of
American women's achievement. A
mutually beneficial exchange of
ideas and national understanding
and friendship resulted.
QALLY CARRIGHAR'S exciting
travel book "Moonhght at Mid-
day (Knopf, New York), describes
Alaska as a land of ''enormous invi-
tation," where the native people are
the world's supreme example of
co-operation and skill in mastering
a difficult environment. Many
thoughtful suggestions are offered
for helping the Eskimos through a
time of transition as they adjust to
the ways of the Forty-ninth State.
jyt ISS MARGARET L. COIT is
the author of Mr. Baruch,
chosen by the National Gouncil of
Women as its Book of the Year for
1958. The author gave almost six
years of work to this 784-page vol-
ume, fellowships from Brown Uni-
versity and some assistance from the
publishers, Houghton MiffHn, aided
with the problem of financing. Miss
Coit had previously written John C.
Calhoun: American Portrait, a Pul-
itzer prize winner in biography.
Mr. Baruch is a portrait of a later
period of American history.
r\R. LOIS HIGGINS, internation-
ally recognized Director of the
Illinois Crime Prevention Bureau,
while completing a world-wide sur-
vey of crime and delinquency con-
ditions, spent two hours with Queen
Frederica in Greece. King Paul and
the Queen give much attention to
improving delinquency in their
country. Both devote much time
to a school for delinquent boys,
which is under the personal super-
vision of the King. It has no barred
doors or windows, but of 1200 boys
placed there, only one has gone
astray.
jyiRS. LOUISE W. ILSE, As-
sociate Manager in charge of
sales and communications for the
Equitable Life Assurance Company,
has been named ''Business Woman
of the Year," by the National Fed-
eration of Business and Professional
Women's Clubs, Inc. She has a
Doctor's Degree in history from
Columbia University; she does oil
paintings, plays the piano, and as a
photographer she has won many
trophies for her colored slides.
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EDITORIAL
VOL 46
JANUARY 1959
NO. 1
(Strengthening (community Virtues
AT the recent General Relief So-
ciety Conference, Elder Mark
E. Petersen of the Council of the
Twelve and one of the advisors from
that Council to Relief Society, im-
pressively called to the attention of
Relief Society officers and members
one of the original assignments
given to Relief Society by the
Prophet Joseph Smith, namely, ''to
assist by correcting the morals and
strengthening the virtues of the
community." Elder Petersen de-
clared that in his opinion the need
for this service was greater at the
present time than at any other time
within his recollection. He said we
are passing through the worst moral
breakdown of our generation, and
he admonished the sisters to be alert
to evil conditions within their re-
spective communities and to meet
their responsibilities toward the
important assignment given them by
the Prophet.
It is of interest that at the time
the Prophet gave to the sisters of
Relief Society the injunction to cor-
rect the morals and strengthen the
virtues of the community, there
was no particular wave of crime or
delinquency in Nauvoo, such as we
have in many communities today,
to evoke such mandate. Nauvoo
was a beautiful, prosperous city that
had been reclaimed from the wilder-
ness by an industrious people led by
a Prophet of God. While, un-
doubtedly, there were some of the
people whose conduct was at vari-
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ance with the teachings of the
Church, the community as a whole
was one of highest moral recti-
tude. Nauvoo was a city of broth-
erly love, a righteous city, a city of
the saints.
It is of interest, also, that, at that
same time, women were not gen-
erally identified with community
life. Why, then, would the Proph-
et give such an assignment to the
Relief Society? Certainly he knew
the ways of men. He had prophetic
insight into the evils that would
thrust themselves upon the world.
He had a divinely inspired compre-
hension of the influence of women
and the place of Relief Society in
helping them to make a better
world.
Now, with world problems cre-
ating an age of tensions and inse-
curity, with crime and delinquency
on the rise, with the general break-
down of moral integrity in public,
as well as in private life, it is well
that Relief Society shall be remind-
ed of its responsibilities in these
matters. It is time that serious con-
sideration be given to how best we
are to meet our responsibilities.
To achieve a virtuous community
we must first develop virtuous citi-
zens, for the community is but a
body of individuals living together
in one place. No community can
be any stronger morally than the
combined moral strength of the in-
dividuals who comprise it. There-
fore, there is no sounder approach
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EDITORIAL
for Relief Society in meeting its
responsibilities toward good com-
munity life, than vigorously to func-
tion in the building of citizens of
strong moral character.
The place where good character
is most effectively built is the home.
This has always been true; it is true
today. If attention is not con-
scientiously and continuously given
to this important matter in the
home, it is not to be expected that
it will be accomplished elsewhere.
Good character is developed
through love, acceptance, and feel-
ings of security. It is engendered in
children through wise teachings and
through discipline that leads toward
self-discipline. It is tremendously
influenced through parental atti-
tudes and examples. A lack of re-
straint and self-discipline on the
part of the parents can outweigh all
their good precepts and adversely
affect children throughout their en-
tire lives.
As Relief Society helps its mem-
bers toward proper attitudes, as it
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guides them in their homemaking,
as it teaches them the doctrines of
the Church particularly with regard
to home and family life, as it awak-
ens in them a sense of responsibil-
itv to maintain their homes and
guide their children in harmony
with Church teachings, as it helps
them to see the relationship of what
they do to what their children are
most apt to do— to this extent the
Society will help them to be indi-
viduals of strong moral character
themselves, and it will also be an
effective agent in helping them to
rear children of strong moral charac-
ter. Thus, Relief Society best meets
its responsibilities to assist in cor-
recting the morals and strengthen-
ing the virtues of the community.
Ours is not necessarily the role of
the campaigner against one or an-
other of the existing community
evils; ours is the role of the steady,
consistent builder of men and wom-
en of integrity and moral fortitude
who will uphold and promote virtu-
ous community life.
-B.S.S.
C/Oi/r- Co/or Leavers — Jr /Lew QJeature for the
LKelief Society 1 1 iagazine
npHE General Board of Relief Society calls attention to the use of four
colors on the covers of The Relief Society Magazine. This feature was
initiated in November 1958, with the use of the plaque in the Relief
Society Building, the same picture which was used for the program of
the Relief Society General Conference. In December, a reproduction of
the lovely painting "The Rest on the Flight Into Egypt," by Gerard
David, was used as the cover for the Magazine.
Beginning with this issue, January 1959, the missions of Continental
United States will be represented by cover pictures in four colors. Follow-
ing the plan commenced in January 1956, featuring the foreign missions,
the Spanish-speaking missions, and the Southwest Indian Mission, each of
the other missions of Continental United States will be represented by
cover pictures in four colors. A brief history of each mission, with illustra-
tions, will be presented, and recipes from each mission will be featured.
TO THE FIELD
ijielief (bocietif J/issigned ibvening II ieeting of
QJast (bunaay in II Larch
npHE Sunday night meeting to be held on Fast Day, March i, 1959, has
again been assigned by the First Presidency for use by the Rehef
Society. A suggestive program for this meeting has been sent to the stakes
in pamphlet form. It is suggested that ward Relief Society presidents
confer with their bishops immediately to arrange for this meeting. Sug-
gested songs for the Singing Mothers are: 'How Lox'cly Are Thy Dwell-
ings," by Liddle; 'The Lord's Prayer," by Gates, or 'The Lord's Prayer,"
by Malotte. If music is not available in your local stores, it may be
purchased from music dealers advertising in this issue of the Magazine.
Kyiwara Suoscnptions Lrtesentea in J/Lpril
TpHE award subscriptions presented to Magazine representatives for hav-
ing obtained 75 per cent or more subscriptions to the Magazine in re-
lation to their enrolled Relief Society members, are not awarded until
after the stake Magazine representatives' annual reports have been audited.
Award cards for these subscriptions for the year 1958 will be mailed to
ward and stake Magazine representatives about April 1, 1959.
Ujouna Volume of ig^S 1 1 iagazines
"DELIEF Society officers and members who wish to have their 1958 issues
of The Relief Society Magazine bound may do so through The
Deseret News Press, 31 Richards Street, Salt Lake City 1, Utah. (See
advertisement on page 70.) The cost for binding the twelve issues in a
permanent cloth binding is $2.50, leather $3.80, including the index. A
limited number of the 1958 Magazines are available at the offices of the
General Board of Relief Society, 76 North Main Street, Salt Lake City 11,
Utah, for $2 for twelve issues. It is recommended that wards and stakes
have one volume of the 1958 Magazines bound for preservation in ward
and stake Relief Society libraries.
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I to, cJhank LJoii!
The First And Great Decision
1\7"HEN once we have charted
our course, and have decided
on a hfetime goal, the results of
which are even more far-reaching,
even into the unlimited boundaries
of eternity — then all the small de-
can try to maintain the strength and
vigor which is originally given to
us, and in many cases we can great-
ly increase that health and energy
by obeying the laws of well-being —
instructions which are simple and
plain in their implications and in
their purpose.
The cultivated lands, and even
the untilled earth, provide for us a
great abundance of wholesome food
and drink. Recall the gold expanse
of wheatfields, reaching to far
horizons; the orchards bending with
a harvest of fruit; the garden rows
in green splendor. Think of autumn
and the squash and pumpkins
heaped high, corn drying in the
sunlight, apples ready for the frozen
months of winter. Perhaps we
should think more often of ''Every
herb in the season thereof, and every
fruit in the season thereof; all these
to be used with prudence and
cisions that must be made each day thanksgiving. ... All grain is or-
dained for the use of man ... to be
the staff of life. ... All grain is good
for the food of man." (D & C 89:
11, 14).
It is our privilege and our bless-
ing to rejoice in the richness of the
earth and to select the foods and
the drinks that will make our bodies
strong and beautiful.
We should be able to say ''No,
are but the unit building stones in
the structure of our lives. Each ac-
cessory decision becomes, with prac-
tice, almost automatic, and requires
less and less weighing of alternate
possibilities.
It is the solving of the first prob-
lem, and the setting of our direc-
tion that is most important. The
realization that our bodies are the
temples of our spirits, and that they thank you!'' for it is not a character-
are most precious to us, leads us to istic of wisdom nor an attribute of
a desire to keep them as beautiful happiness, to barter the lasting bless-
and as healthy as may be within
our power. It is true, as must be
known to us, if we are observing,
that all are not given equally strong
bodies to begin with, but all of us
mgs, and the great rejoicing, for
some temporary compliance with
the offerings of those who do not
know of the discipline and the
promise.
BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF!
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LKecipes cJrotn the K^alifornia I liission
Submitted by Alia. H. Taylor
THE Southland, comprising the Cahfornia Mission, is truly a melting pot, with many
nationalities living in the area. No matter where one's homeland may be, he can
find his native foods being featured attractively in many restaurants. Because of this
mingling of peoples, there are no dishes typical of the mission. In this land of sunshine,
sea foods, fresh fruits, vegetables, and nuts abound in all seasons.
Within the boundaries of the mission, are centers for the production of some of
these foods. Indio is the date center of the world, with grapes and citrus fruits also being
produced on a alrge scale. The area around Fallbrook, Vista, and Escondido is famous
for a^'ocados, fruits, and vegetables.
The recipes we have selected as representative of the California Mission feature
these foods we enjoy in such abundance.
Fruit Salad
2 c. fresh pineapple (diced)
1 c. fresh orange sections
1 c. shredded coconut
1 c. miniature marshmallows
1 c. commercial sour cream
Prepare fruit, drain, and chill. Just before serving, combine quickly with soured
cream. (Canned pineapple chunks and canned mandarin sections may be substituted
for fresh fruit.)
Pecan Pie
3 eggs
c. pc
1 tsp. vanilla
Yz c. pecans
Vz c. sugar (scant)
1 c. white syrup
Whisk eggs lightly, don't beat. Add vanilla, nuts, sugar, and syrup. Pour into un-
baked crust. Bake lo minutes at 450 degrees, reduce to 350 for 30 minutes.
Frozen Lemon Dessert
1 c. crushed vanilla wafers 2 tbsp. butter (melted)
2 tbsp. sugar
Combine and press into refrigerator tray. Reserve some for the top.
Filling:
1 1 5-ounce can of sweetened condensed milk
Yi c. lemon juice
1 tsp. grated rind
Vz tsp. almond flavoring
2 eggs, separated
Beat egg yolks until thick, add to milk, stir in lemon juice and rind, add flavoring.
Beat egg whites until stiff. Fold into milk mixture. Pour into tray and freeze.
Broiled Avocados
Choose medium-sized avocados, peel, and quarter them. Make a filling of diced
ham, shrimp, or crab meet, combined with chopped celery and hard boiled eggs. Moisten
with mayonnaise or white sauce. Sprinkle with buttered bread crumbs and broil 2
minutes, or until crumbs are browned.
Spiced Nuts
Mix together in saucepan:
1 c. sugar
Vz tsp. cinnamon
% c. diluted canned milk
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Boil until a soft ball forms in cold water. Remove from fire and add i c. nuts
(almonds, walnuts, or pecans), i tsp. vanilla. Turn gently until well coated. Pour
onto wax paper and break into pieces.
Orange Date Nut Bread
% c. orange juice /4 tsp. salt
/4 c. boiling water i tsp. baking powder
1 c. chopped dates Yz tsp. soda
2 tbsp. melted shortening i c. sugar
1 tsp. vanilla i c. chopped nuts
1 beaten egg i Yz tbsp. grated orange peel
2 c, sifted flour
Pour orange juice in bowl and add hot water. Add beaten egg, melted shortening,
dates, and vanilla. Then add the dry ingredients which have been sifted together. Beat
well and stir in chopped nuts and orange peel. Bake in loaf tin at 350 degrees for
one hour.
LOeserted CJarin Ljard
Maude Rubfn
Their red boards dulled by the brush of years.
The barn doors idle on rusted hinges;
The creek runs free through fallen weirs.
The water-wheel stilled. When carmine tinges
The western sky, six half-grown quail
Follow their mother out of the grass —
Their sheltered lee near the old fence rail —
And pecking briskly while shadows mass,
Finish their peaceful meal . . . No cock-crow wakes
Next morning's hush. No lowering call;
No milk-pail swings; on the cedar shakes
White frost; empty the old corral . . .
Only the creak of the old red doors
Reminds me again of morning chores.
HANDY HINT
Use a tail or wing feather of a chicken or waterfowl to clean lint from the sewing
machine. — Mabel S. Cordon
ijou Can (bew, A1 — [Jjoand iuutton notes
Jean R. /ciiufngs
T\0 you always shy away from
making bound buttonholes,
even though you know they are the
best kind of closing for the dress or
suit you want to make? Many
women do so, feeling that they are
too hard to make or too much
trouble.
Bound buttonholes need not be
a stumbling block in your dressmak-
ing. With this new easy and sure
method, it is possible to have pro-
fessional buttonholes every time.
Remember, though, that this is pos-
sible only when care is taken to
have absolute accuracy at all times.
Some garments lend themselves
to the use of bound buttonholes
more than others. They are hard to
make successfully in fabrics that
have a loose or open weave. Nor
are they successful in dresses that
are to be laundered repeatedly. The
agitation of washing tends to cause
the corners to fray out. Make them
in fabrics that will not find their
way to the washing machine.
Practice making your buttonholes
in a sample of material until you are
sure of yourself and know how to do
them right. Never try making them
the first time on the garment itself,
for you cannot do them over to cor-
rect any mistakes.
The section of the garment in
which the buttonholes are to be
made should be reinforced. The in-
terfacing on a jacket front is not
always satisfactory for this purpose.
Such interfacings as tailor's canvas
and pelon are too stiff. It is better
to use a strip of fine muslin or cot-
ton wigan underneath the button-
holes to reinforce and support them.
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INTERFACING
FIGURE 1
LOCATION LINES FOR
BUTTONHOLES
The First Step
After the backing has been basted
in place, mark on it two parallel
lines indicating the length of the
buttonholes. Transfer these to the
right side by stitching over them
with machine basting in a contrast-
ing thread. Cross the parallel lines
with location lines as illustrated in
Figure i.
Cut a lengthwise strip of fabric
1 1/2 inches wide and twice the
YOU CAN SEW— XI— BOUND BUTTONHOLES
39
length of the total length of but-
tonholes. For six one-inch button-
holes, the strip for binding should
be 12 inches long. Now fold the
strip over 1/2 inch and stitch a tuck
1/8 inch from the fold. Repeat on
the other side of the strip. You
will now have two 1/8 inch tucks
which are 1/4 inch apart. (See Fig-
ure 2.) Cut into sections twice as
long as the marked buttonhole size.
Second Step
Now shorten the machine stitch
and stitch the right side of the bind-
ing to the right side of the garment
by placing one fold of tuck on the
location line, marked bv the ma-
chine basting. Stitch the marked
length of the buttonhole on the
original tuck stitching, fastening
thread securelv on each end bv re-
tracing stitches (Figure 3). Repeat
stitching on other tuck, making
parallel lines.
On the wrong side, cut between
parallel lines of stitching to 3/8 inch
from each and clip diagonally to
each end of the stitching. (Fig-
ure 4.)
Turn the binding strip to the
wrong side. Pull ends to square
corners. On the wrong side stitch
back and forth over triangle (formed
by cutting), and strip at end of but-
tonhole. Do not stitch through the
body of the garment. Repeat at
other end. (Figure 5.)
Finish buttonholes off on the
wrong side by slashing the facing
and hemming edges down against
stitching at the back of buttonholes.
Things to Remember
Buttonholes should follow the grain line
of the material. They should be placed so
that they run back from the center front
or center back line of the garment. Start
FIGURE 2
L
L
INSIDE
OUTSIDE
FIGURE 3
j iNSlDE__ I
FIGURE 4
FIGURE 5
them Vs inch o\er toward the raw edge
or to the left of the center line. This
makes allowance for the space taken up
in sewing on buttons. When the gar-
ment is fastened, the buttons and inside
corner of buttonholes should meet on
the center line.
A \ery attractive variation of bound
buttonholes can be made by inserting a
small cord or drawing yarn through the
tucks that form the binding. Pull the
yarn through with a large blunt-end needle
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after bindings have been sewed in place.
This treatment is espcciahy useful on ma-
terials that are soft and press very flat.
It helps to make the binding stand out
firmly.
In planning the size of buttonholes,
remember that they must be long enough
to allow the button to slide through eas-
ily. Measure the width of your button
and add to it the measure of its thick-
ness. Thus, a one-inch button that is Ys
inch thick would require a buttonhole
that measures i Ys inches in length.
L^lestia K^hadwick cJracii s kluilts uiave 1 1 Lade
1 1 La nil uLonies {Joeaatiful
"1 1 riTH needle and thread as her most beloved tools, Celestia Chadwick Tracy, Brig-
'' ■ ham City, Utah, now eighty-seven years old, has made hundreds of quilts — for her
children and grandchildren, for her friends and neighbors, for Relief Society, and for
her own home.
Her useful hobby, begun in girlhood, flowered in the early years of her marriage,
when she lived in the isolated ranching country of Raft River Stake. She made her
home beautiful by covering the beds with intricately pieced quilts, and the children's
cots were decorated with quilts made in exquisite stitching designs.
She learned that a true homemaker can create beauty in any place and under diffi-
cult circumstances. At the age of forty-five she was left a widow with eight children
to support. She managed most of the affairs of the ranch, caring for livestock, making
butter and cheese; she raised a large garden and cooked and sewed for her family — and
in the evenings she pieced quilts, braided rugs, embroidered pillowslips, and crocheted
many decorative articles.
In 1896, she joined the Relief Society and has served since that time in executive
and teaching capacities, and in the work meeting, giving freely of her time, her skill
and knowledge; she has always manifested a neighborly concern for her sisters. She has
been a visiting teacher for more than sixty years, and her gracious personality has been
a blessing to hundreds of homes, where she has found her field of service enlarged by
sharing her many blessings.
cJhe LKewardifig cJime
Elsie Sim Hansen
WHILE waiting impatiently earth for a newness of life. Instead
for a bus one crisp autumn of autumn being a period when
morning, a red and orange some people feel sad, it should be a
maple leaf came floating gently time of great rejoicing," she said,
down from the maple tree across her face lighting like a child's,
the street, and for a few brief sec- "Perhaps you are right, but to me
onds it paused on the brim of my spring always has, and always will
brown felt hat. be the most refreshing and delight-
''What a delightful trimming," a ful time of the year," I stated em-
pert, little, gray-haired lady stand- phatically.
ing beside me said, as she carefully The woman smiled a warm, com-
removed the leaf and held it in her forting smile, and then said, 'That
hand. is because you are young. Spring
I smiled and nodded briefly, and is for youth. It is a period of be-
then again became absorbed in my ginnings. But to older people, the
thoughts. autumn may seem a rewarding time.
'It's beautiful isn't it?" With the coming of the fall, we
''What?" I asked absent-mindedly, receive just payment for all the ef-
'This leaf I have in my hand. A forts we have put forth. If we have
person would never suspect that made thorough preparation during
these rich autumn hues were pres- the preceding months, our harvest
ent in this leaf all summer, but were is bountiful."
so dominated by the green of the ''And what if we fail to make
chlorophyll in the leaf that they thorough preparation for the har-
could not be seen. Now for a vest, what then?" I asked the older
short period of time we have been woman.
permitted to enjoy these gorgeous She looked at me quizzically for
colors before the tree discarded the a moment, and then said, "There
leaf," she remarked, glancing up in- is always hope for a better year, if
to my face to see if I was listening, we do not lose faith. Nature is
"How interesting, and also how our most ardent and patient teach-
depressing," I said, surprised into er. In the spring she gives us a
answering by the elderly lady's time of planting. Summer is our
knowledge. time of application and cultivation.
Encouraged by my remark, she Autumn a time of recompense and
rejoiced. "It really isn't depressing adjustment, for autumn sends her
at all. It is merely fulfiUing the promise long before fulfillment."
measure of its creation." Just then the bus came into view
"Yes, I suppose so, but I dislike and, placing her hand on my arm,
to see the leaves and flowers turn she said quietly, "Try and learn to
brown and die every fall, as if na- love the autumn my dear, for it is
ture no longer had any interest in autumn that tints the earth with
the earth." colors from every season, and it is
"That is because you do not un- the promise and accumulation of
derstand. Instead of nature losing the earth's treasures."
interest, it is quietly preparing the Page 4]
FROM THE FIELD
HiiJcIa Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Soeiety presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Ifandbook of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Velma N. Simonsen
SOUTH AUSTRALIAN MISSION, TASMANIAN DISTRICT, IIOBART BRANCH
RELIEF SOCIETY
Seated, center front: Elizabeth Allen; seated left to right: June Allen; Cecily Bell;
Fay Docking, First Counselor; June King, President; Charlotte Sheffield, Miss U. S. A.;
Mabel Prichard.
Back row, standing, left to right: Olive Sellars; Nancy Mitchell; Muriel Woolley;
Phyllis White, Second Counselor; Gwendoline Spong, Secretary; Francis Travers;
Mavis Hill.
Velma N. Simonsen, President, South Australian Mission Relief Society, reports:
"The Hobart Branch is probably located one of the farthest from Church headquarters
of any Relief Society in the Church, yet they feel a close sisterhood to all the sisters
of the Church. This branch entertained Miss Charlotte Sheffield, Miss U. S. A., and
Miss Sheffield was proud to be associated with these lovely sisters."
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NOTES FROM THE FIELD
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Ph(iii.t',rajjli subinitted by Edna J. Broadbent
NORTH CARBON STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC
FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, August 31, 1958
Front row, left to right: Vesta Morgan, organist; Geraldine Thomas, chorister;
Edna J. Broadbent, President, North Carbon Stake Relief Society.
Sister Broadbent reports: "Our enrollment of Singing Mothers is fifty-five mem-
bers, but due to the holiday when this picture was taken, the number represented is
fewer. We sang for the August quarterly conference, and have presented the music
for other conferences."
Photoj^raph submitted by Orah Van Wagoner
PROVO STAKE (UTAH) RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE ON THREE
DIFFERENT OCCASIONS
Mrs. Mary Dav, chorister, stands in the center (in dark dress); Arnolene Snow,
organist, stands at Sister Day's left (in light-colored dress).
Orah H. Van Wagoner, President, Provo Stake Relief Society, reports: "Six
wards comprise the Pro\o Stake. These Singing Mothers have been together for the
past three years, singing for morning and afternoon sessions of stake conference on
three different occasions, the last time being in June 1958. They also sing at many
other Church meetings. Many of them have sung in the Tabernacle at general con-
ferences under the direction of Florence J. Madsen."
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Photograph submitted by Martha B. Richards
FRESNO STAKE (CALIFORNIA) SINGING MOTHERS FURNISH MUSIC FOR
STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE
Martha B. Richards, President, Fresno Stake Rehef Society, stands at the right
on the front row; Jean H. Brink, First Counselor, is fourth from the left in the third
row; Viorene Wardle, Second Counselor, fifth from the right in the second row;
Marguerite Davis, Secretary-Treasurer, fifth from the left in the fourth row; Leida
Anderson, chorister, third from the right in the front row; Mary Thompson, organist,
second from the right in the front row.
Pliotograph '•ubmitted b\ Atfon Andoison
WEISER STAKE (IDAHO) RELIEF SOCIETY ANNUAL BRANCH
CONVENTION, NEW MEADOWS, IDAHO,
August 26, 1958
Front row, seated, left to right: Clara McMurdie; La Vina Yardley, President, New
Meadows Branch; Bertha Curry; Jeannette Hadley, Second Counselor, Weiser Stake
Relief Society; Jessie Thomas, President, Cascade Branch Relief Society; Dora Thomas;
Mary Larsen, stake visiting teacher message leader; Norma Engen, President, McCall
Branch Relief Society.
Second row, standing, left to right: Kate Hadley, stake literature class leader; Effa
Campbell; Grace Burt; Gertrude Stephens; Afton Anderson, President, Weiser Stake
Relief Society; Irene Winegar, stake Magazine representative; Mae Hulse; Lenora Piper,
President, Council Branch Relief Society.
Back row, standing, left to right: Violet Dewey; Martha Engen; Helen Manley;
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45
Bessie Blackburn; Jane Ellis; Lavenia Bybee; Veda Brown, stake theology class leader;
Anona Burt, stake social science class leader; Helen Cannon, Secretary, Weiser Stake
Relief Society; Olga Poro; Ruth Armstrong.
Sister Anderson reports: "Each summer the Weiser Stake Relief Society Board
holds a branch convention in the northern part of our stake for four branches which
are located at least one hundred miles from our stake union meetings. Because of this
great distance, and because of the icy roads in the wintertime, the sisters of these
branches are seldom able to attend union meeting. The purpose of this convention
is to become better acquainted with the sisters in the branches and to introduce them
to the material for the coming year in all departments. We hold sessions both in the
morning and afternoon, with a special program given on visiting teaching. This year
there was an excellent display of the articles that had been made on work meeting
day by the branches. The total attendance was forty-eight (some of the sisters had
to leave before the picture was taken)."
r ">as>'-'j! s& •sf"^
Photograph submitted by Winona U. Stevens
LETHBRIDGE STAKE (CANADA), BARNWELL WARD ANNIVERSARY
PARTY, March 17, 1958
Seated at the left, Mabel Howells, social science class leader; seated at the right,
Francis Bullock, visiting teacher message leader.
Standing, left to right: Lucille Pierson, Secretary -Treasurer; Myrl Jensen, work
meeting leader; Hazel Jensen, Magazine representative; Ellen Johnson, Work Director
Counselor; Ela Mercer, President; Erma Nielsen, Education Counselor; Merril Hough,
literature class leader; Hazel Tanner, chorister.
Sister Mercer reports: "The picture is of our officers and teachers taken with
the table decorations for our 17th of March partv. The flowers were yellow daffodils
and blue iris. The dolls were dressed in foam rubber to represent each department. A
miniature piano stood in front of the organist and a music stand in front of the chorister.
The dolls were in yellow and blue. Not present when the picture was taken: Virginia
Johnson, organist, and Ruth Anderson, theology class leader."
Winona U. Stevens is president of Lethbridge Stake Relief Society.
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Photograph submitted by Ev>ln Ki(hai(l'-im
UINl'AII STAKE (UlAII) WOOD CRAFTS DISPLAY AT SEMIANNUAL
WORKSHOP FOR W^ARD LEADERS
Seated, left to right: Aleda Heiner, Secretary-Treasurer, Uintah Stake Rehef Soeiety;
Doris \\^alker, First Counselor; E^'yln Richardson, President; Mildia Jones, Second
Counselor; Mary Freeman, work meeting leader; LaVar Anderson and Josephine Taylor,
who collected and decorated the articles.
Standing in the back row are: Nancy Havin, who gave a demonstration on can-
ning; Hazel Stevens, Utah State nutritionist; Jessie Eller, Home Demonstration Agent;
Alta Rist and Helen Stexens, county nurses, \\ho gave a demonstration on personal
h\giene and beauty care.
Photograph submitted by Delia H. Teeter
DEm^ER STAKE (COLORADO) PRESENTS DRAMATIZATION "SHAKE-
SPEARE IN OUR LI\^ES" AT VISITING TEACHERS CONVENTION,
May 22, 1958
Maralyn Hess, stake literature class leader, \\ho was in charge of the dramatization, is
seated in the front row, second from the right; Madelyn Silver, Third Ward literature
class leader, who directed the dramatization, is seated sixth from the right in the front
row.
Chorister, Reta Beck, stands fourth from the right on the second row; Manita
Fowler, organist, first on the left in the back row; Delia H. Teeter, President, Denver
Stake Relief Societv, stands third from the right on the second row, with her Counselor
Mollie E. Richardson standing at Sister Teeter's left, and Counselor Ilah Smith, next
to Sister Richardson.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
47
I
President Teeter reports: "The dramatization 'Shakespeare in Our Lives/ adapted
from a play by Alberta H. Christensen of the General Board of Relief Society, was
presented by stake literature class leader Maralyn Hess and directed by Madelvn Silver.
The stake Singing Mothers furnished the music for the convention and the dramatiza-
tion under the direction of stake chorister Reta Beck, accompanied by stake organist
Manita Fowler. The summer messages were presented by stake visiting teacher class
leader Gladys Rusk, and a message and instructions to the visiting teachers were given
by Delia H. Teeter. A social hour followed the convention, with refreshments ser\'ed
under the direction of Gounselors Mollie E. Richardson and Ilah Smith."
Photograph submitted by Evelyn N. Binns
RICHLAND STAKE (WASHINGTON) RELIEF SOCIETY OFFICERS AT
VISITING TEACHERS CONVENTION, August 1958
Left to right: Jeanette Bell, Education Counselor; Edna Reynolds, W^ork Director
Counselor; Evelyn N. Binns, President; Dorothy Dyring, Secretary-Treasurer.
Sister Binns reports: "We were very proud of the outcome of our evening, as we
had two hundred visiting teachers in attendance. The program was very well received,
and the reception was lovely. We felt that the convention was outstanding and a
success. The theme for this year's \isiting teaching was used as our theme for the
evening — 'Truths to Live By.' Grapes and wheat were used in our decorations. Posters
were sent to the wards two weeks in advance of the convention, the heart on the
poster signifying visiting teaching to be the heart of Relief Society. The one hundred
per cent visiting teaching program was started in our stake four years ago, so this year
we felt it important to recognize our one hundred per cent visiting teachers from each
year of the wards by giving them ribbon awards, one color for each year. Next year an
additional color will be added."
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Photograph submitted by Elnora T. Loveland
WEST BOISE STAKE (IDAHO) VISITING TEACHERS CONVENTION
May 19, 1958
Elnora T. Loveland, President, West Boise Stake Relief Society, reports: "A lovely
program was presented with the assistance of the stake visiting teacher message leader,
Jane Naylor. Corsages were presented to all visiting teachers with twenty-five or more
years of service, after which refreshments were served."
Photograph submitted by Kathleen S. Farnsworth
BEAVER STAKE (UTAH), BEAVER FIRST WARD VISITING TEACHERS
HONORED AT CONVENTION AND SOCIAL, August 1958
Seated, left to right: Effie White; Emma Baldwin; Emma Limb; Maria Willeson;
Nettie Stoney; Jane Gale.
Standing, left to right: Hilma Sly; Ida Riley; Etta Atkin; Louise Willden; Mary
Akin; Rose Bradshaw.
Kathleen S. Farnsworth, President, Beaver Stake Rehef Society, reports that these
twelve visiting teachers, all of them over seventy years of age, were honored at a con-
vention and social. Each was presented with a corsage. Most of these teachers have
achieved a one hundred per cent visiting teaching record during all the years that
they have served. The twelve have a total of 392 years of service as visiting teachers,
ranging from ten to sixty-three years of service.
Ward Relief Society officers are: President Zona Gillies; Hazel Baldwin and Mary
Miller, Counselors; Leona Limb, Secretary.
LESSJON DEPARTMENT
cJheologyi — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 15— The Sacrament
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Sections 27:1-4; 20:75-79)
For Tuesday, April 7, 1959
Objective: To emphasize the reason for partaking of the sacrament, and of the
necessity to be worthy to receive it.
Histoiicd Background of Section 27
Under date of August 1830, the
Prophet Joseph Smith recorded the
following circumstance which re-
sulted in his receiving the first four
verses in Section 27. The remaining
part of this revelation was written
in the following month of Septem-
ber 1830. (See D. H. C. I:io6).
According to the history of the
Church, Newel Knight and his wife
came to visit the Prophet and his
wife at Harmony Township, Penn-
sylvania. Inasmuch as neither
Newel Knight's wife nor Emma
Smith had been confirmed members
of the Church, it was deemed ad-
visable that in the religious service
where this confirmation would be
performed, the sacrament of the
Lord's supper would be administer-
ed. In order to prepare for this, the
Prophet wrote that 'T set out to
procure some wine for the occasion,
but had gone only a short distance
when I was met by a heavenly
messenger, and received the follow-
ing revelation":
Listen to the voice of Jesus Christ, your
Lord, your God, and your Redeemer,,
whose word is quick and powerful.
For, behold, I say unto you, that it
mattereth not what ye shall eat or what
ye shall drink when ye partake of the
sacrament, if it so be that ye do it with
an eye single to my glory — remembering
unto the Father my body which was laid
down for you, and my blood which was
shed for the remission of your sins.
Wherefore, a commandment I give un-
to you, that you shall not purchase wine
neither strong drink of your enemies;
Wherefore, you shall partake of none
except it is made new among you; yea, in
this my Father's kingdom which shall be
built up on the earth (D & C 27:1-4).
Obedient to this commandment,,
wine of their own making was
prepared, and the confirmations
attended to in the meeting. Of the
occasion, the Prophet stated that:
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The Spirit of the Lord was poured out
upon us, we praised the Lord God, and
rejoiced exceedingly (D. H. C. L108).
KeveJatioii to Explain Piohlems
From the information provided in
the above account, it is clear that the
Prophet did not specifically make
a request of the Lord concerning
the sacrament. The heavenly being
communicated the message because
of the circumstances which were
present, principally that the enemies
of the Prophet might well take
opportunity to harm him. There are
other revelations in The Doctrine
and Covenants where there is no
indication that the Prophet had
made a specific request for enlight-
enment on the problem or informa-
tion received. The idea suggested by
this fact is that the Lord did not al-
ways wait, as it were, for his Prophet
to make a request for guidance and
the direction of the kingdom, but
that revelations were given when the
need was present. Some might
suggest that the Prophet received
revelations only because he was
aware of a specific need. This point
of view does not seem to be con-
sistent with the fact that the Church
is literally the kingdom of God and
the Law Giver of the kingdom
knows the direction his kingdom
should go. The Lord knows the
end from the beginning. This truth
is the basis of prophecy, as well as
the fact that the Lord operates by
law and, thereby, man may have
security by faith in his word. An
example of these thoughts is this
verse from the "Lord's Preface" to
The Doctrine and Covenants:
Search these commandments, for they
are true and faithful, and the prophecies
and promises which arc in them shall all
be fulfilled.
Wliat I the Lord ha\e spoken, I have
spoken, and I excuse not myself; and
though the heavens and the earth pass
a\^•ay, my word shall not pass away, but
shall all be fulfilled, whether by mine own
^'oicc or by the \oice of my servants, it
is the same.
For behold, and lo, the Lord is God,
and the Spirit beareth record, and the
record is true, and the truth abideth for-
ever and ever. Amen (D & C 1:37-39).
It certainly is true that the
Prophet was a prayerful man and
one who was constantly desirous of
receiving divine help in his grave
responsibilities. Lie was an instru-
ment through whom the Lord did
work that his purposes would be
accomplished in behalf of his
children. (See 2 Nephi 3:6-15.)
Problems in connection with the
building up of the kingdom on the
earth were many, and the Prophet
did go before the Lord with these
problems and questions; but the
Lord does not leave his work to
man who by reason alone would
give direction to the Church.
Sacramental Prayers
Although Latter-day Saints may
be present in two meetings of the
Church each Sunday when the sacra-
ment is administered and they hear
the sacramental prayers spoken, it
is well to study them and benefit
from that analysis. They are re-
corded in Moroni chapters 4 and 5,
as well as The Doctrine and Cove-
nants as follows:
O God, the Eternal Father, we ask
thee in the name of thy Son, Jesus Christ,
to bless and sanctify this bread to the
souls of all those who partake of it, that
they may eat in remembrance of the body
of thy Son, and witness unto thee, O
God, the Eternal Father, that they are
willing to take upon them the name of
thy Son, and always remember him and
keep his commandments which he has
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given them; that they may always have
his Spirit to be with them. Amen.
O God, the Eternal Father, we ask thee
in the name of thy Son, Jesus Christ, to
bless and sanctify this wine to the souls
of all those who drink of it, that they may
do it in remembrance of the blood of thy
Son, which was shed for them; that they
may witness unto thee, O God, the
Eternal Father, that they do always re-
member him, that they may ha\'e his
Spirit to be with them. Amen (D & G
20:77, 79)-
Meaning oi the Sacrament
From both revelations— Sections
20 and 27— quoted above, one's at-
tention is drawn to the fact that the
sacrament serves the purpose of
keeping the true follow^er of Jesus
in remembrance of the atonement
made by the Savior. His body and
blood were offered voluntarily that
mankind might be rescued from the
power which Satan would have over
all human beings in keeping them
in misery forever. (See 2 Nephi
9:5-27.) As repeatedly stated, how-
ever, the cleansing, remitting of sins
for entrance into the kingdom of
God comes by strict obedience to
the full gospel plan. (See 2 Nephi
9:18, 21; Alma 34:15, 16; D & C
29:17; 76:40-44, 50-53.)
After all is said concerning the
mission of Jesus on this earth, the
fundamental reason for his mortal
life was to become the Savior of
men. All gospel principles and
ordinances are related to the atone-
ment of Jesus Christ.
The sacrifices instituted in the
very beginning were intended to be
a memorial or type of sacrifice of
Jesus, that the people of God might
be kept in remembrance of what he
would do for them in the meridian
of time.
As President John Taylor wTote:
As from the commencement of the
world to the time when the Passo\er was
instituted, sacrifices had been offered as a
memorial or type of the sacrifice of the
Son of God; so from the time of the
Passo\er until that time \\hen He came to
offer up Himself, these sacrifices and types
and shadows had been carefullv obser\'ed
by Prophets and Patriarchs; according to
the command gi\en to Moses and other
followers of the Lord {The Mediation and
Atonement, page 125).
When Jesus met with his disciples
to eat the Passover, he also ate the
sacrament of the Lord's Supper; for,
as President Taylor said:
. . . the two ceremonies centered in
Him, He was the embodiment of both.
... in \ie\v of what was almost imme-
diately to take place. He instituted the sac-
rament of the Lord's Supper in commem-
oration of this great crownmg act of
redemption . . . and now we, after the
great sacrifice has been offered, partake of
the Sacrament of the Lord's Supper in
remembrance thereof. Thus this act was
the great connecting link between the past
and the future . . . [Ihid., pp. 124-125).
The Sacrament, an Emblem
The bread and wine (water) of
the sacrament of the Lord's Supper
are declared in scripture to be ''. . .
the emblems of the flesh and blood
of Christ . . ;' (D & C 20:40).
Other Purposes of the Sacrament
Unlike baptism — which is per-
formed once for each person to
remit sins and to enter the Church,
the sacrament is to be taken often.
(See D & C 20:75.) ^^^ ^^^^ ^^^ ^^^
this commandment the wisdom of
the Lord for the repetitive act of
partaking of these sacred emblems,
because it allows the member to
reflect frequently upon what the
Savior has done for him.
We are reminded of covenants
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Otto Done
AERIAL VIEW OF THE HILL CUMORAH
made when we entered the waters
of baptism which put every sincere
member of the Church on the way
to becoming sanctified or God-hke.
It is for this purpose the Lord has
provided an opportunity for his
people to renew their covenants.
What are these covenants? We have
akeady considered one of them—
that we will always remember the
Savior. The remaining two cove-
nants, as indicated in the sacra-
mental prayers, are that we will take
upon us the name of Jesus Christ,
and that we will always keep his
commandments which he has given
us. These two covenants mean that
we will be called by his name and
never bring shame upon that name,
and that we will obey all of his
commandments.
The Piomised Blessing
The sacramental prayers end with
these words: '\ . . that they may
always have his Spirit to be with
them" (D & C 20:77). ^^t is it
the partaking of the sacrament
which brings this promised blessing?
No, it is the keeping of the
commandments, including the ob-
servance of the commandment to
partake of the sacrament often.
The Saciament Meeting
The importance of the command-
ment to meet together often to
partake of the bread and water of
the sacrament emphasizes the need
for all Latter-day Saints to attend the
sacrament meetings. The Lord has
specifically stated that a proper ob-
servance of the Sabbath day includes
attendance at this meeting. (See D
& C 59:8-12.)
Those who regularly absent them-
selves from partaking of the
sacrament find it easier to commit
sin, and to criticize the leadership of
the Church. If this course is con-
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tinued they may lose the spirit of
the Lord and depart from the faith.
In keeping with the purpose of
the sacrament meeting, the First
Presidency, consisting of President
George Albert Smith, J. Reuben
Clark, Jr., and David O. McKay,
under date of May 2, 1946, answered
these two questions for presidents
of stakes and bishops of wards:
Should music be played during the
administration of the sacrament?
To whom should the sacrament first
be given in a meeting?
Their answers follow:
There is no objection to having ap-
propriate music during the preparation of
the emblems, but after the prayer is of-
fered, perfect silence should prevail until
the bread and the water have been partaken
of by the full congregation. . . . The sac-
rament should be first given to the presid-
ing authority in the meeting. This may
be the bishop, perhaps one of the stake
presidency, or one of the visiting General
Authorities. . . . When the sacrament is
given first to the presiding authority, those
officiating may pass the sacrament con-
secutively to members of the Church who
are sitting on the rostrum and in the
audience.
The importance of and the proper
attitude to be maintained during the
administration of the sacrament
were emphasized by the First Presi-
dency in this way:
. . . careful consideration of the institu-
tion and purpose of the sacrament will
lead to the conclusion that anything which
detracts the partaker's thought from the
covenants he or she is making is not in
accordance with the ideal condition that
should exist whenever this sacred, com-
memorative ordinance is administered to
the members of the Church.
Reverence for God and for sacred things
is fundamental in pure religion. Let every
boy and girl, every man and woman in
the Church, manifest this principle by
maintaining perfect order by self-com-
munion whenever and wherever the sac-
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rament is administered {The Church
News, May 11, 1946.)
Sacrament ioi Church Members
It should be self-evident to all
that since the sacrament is a cove-
nant-renewal opportunity for the
partaker, only those who have
entered into a covenant relationship
with the Lord are eligible to receive
these sacred emblems.
When the resurrected Savior met
with his disciples upon the Ameri-
can Continent, he commanded that
they partake of the sacrament.
Upon their obedience to his com-
mand, Jesus said:
And this shall ye always do to those
who repent and are baptized in my name;
and ye shall do it in remembrance of my
blood, which I have shed for you, that ye
may witness unto the Father that ye do
always remember me. And if ye do always
remember me ye shall have my Spirit to
be with you.
And now behold, this is the command-
ment which I give unto you, that ye shall
not suffer any one knowingly to partake
of my flesh and blood unworthily, when
ye shall minister it;
For whoso eateth and drinketh my flesh
and blood unworthily eateth and drinketh
damnation to his soul; therefore if ye know
that a man is unworthy to eat and drink
of my flesh and blood ye shall forbid him.
Nevertheless, ye shall not cast him out
from among you, but ye shall minister
unto him and shall pray for him unto the
Father, in my name; and if it so be that
he repenteth and is baptized in my name,
then shall ye receive him, and shall min-
ister unto him of my flesh and blood (3
Nephi 18:11, 28-30).
Childien and the Sacrament
The Lord has said that children
are not accountable to him until
they are eight years of age. (See
D & C 68:25-28.) This means that
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they are blameless before him,
they are of the kingdom of heaven.
(See Mt. 19:14.) Children are
already members of the Lord's king-
dom and therefore they are worthy
to receive the sacrament.
Woithiness and the Sacrament
As indicated already, worthiness
to partake of the sacramental
emblems requires that one be a
member of the Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints. Worthi-
ness includes cleanliness in thought
and action, absence of enmity toward
fellow man and a desire to do the
will of our Father and to keep all
of his commandments.
The Prophet in this dispensation
as instructed by the Lord has
admonished that those who partake
of this ordinance should be worthy.
(See D & C 46:4.) In verse 69 of
Section 20, we learn that previous
to the partaking of the sacrament,
the members shall manifest before
the Church, and also before the
elders, by a godly walk and conver-
sation, that they are worthy of it,
that there may be works of faith
agreeable to the holy scriptures-
walking in holiness before the Lord.
Forgiveness oi Sins
Mistakenly, some members of the
Church seem to believe that by
partaking of the sacrament one
receives forgiveness of sins. On the
contrary, forgiveness is received
upon the principle of genuine
repentance. A purpose of the sacra-
ment is to allow the Church member
to self-examine himself that he may
strive diligently to overcome his
failings and weaknesses. Partaking
of the sacrament does not remit sins,
but it will give spiritual strength to
worthy members who are sincerely
endeavoring to live the command-
ments. Brigham Young said:
It is one of the greatest blessings we
could enjoy, to come before the Lord, and
before the angels, and before each other,
to witness that we remember that the
Lord Jesus Christ has died for us. This
proves to the Father that we remember
our covenants, that we lo\e his Gospel,
that we love to keep his commandments,
and to honor the name of the Lord Jesus
upon the earth (Discourses of Brigham
Young, 1941 Edition, page 172).
Water or Wine.^
This lesson began with a quota-
tion from Section 27:1-4 wherein
the Lord revealed by an angel that:
... it mattereth not what ye shall eat
or what ye shall drink when ye partake
of the sacrament, if it so be that ye do
it with an eye single to my glory . . .
(D & C 27:2).
To the saints of the latter days,
the Lord has spoken authorizing the
use of water in place of wine. This
re\'elation is a good example of the
functioning of continuous revelation
in a divinely directed organization.
Consistent with the principle is the
following comment:
The New Testament churches used wine
diluted with water. In our day the Lord
has commanded the use of pure water
instead of adulterated wine, and this is
by no means contrary to the Scriptures.
In their accounts of the institution of the
Sacrament, Matthew, Mark, Luke, and
Paul — the latter having received his in-
formation of the Lord Himself (I Cor.
11:23) rnake it clear that it is the eating
of the broken bread and the partaking of
the common Cup — the contents arc not
once mentioned — that constitute the
essential elements of the sacrament. Com-
pare I Cor. 11:26 {Doctrine and Covenants
ConinientaTy , Re\ised Edition, page 134).
Pertinent to the thinking of
Latter-day Saints about alcoholic
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be\erages because of the Word of
Wisdom (D & C 89:5-6), this com-
ment is appropriate:
The Lord in His infinite wisdom, di-
rected the Saints not to buy wine or any
other strong drink, of enemies, and, con-
sequently, not to use wine in the Sacra-
ment, unless they themselves had made it;
and then it should be "new wine." Dr.
F. W. Farrar says that "new wine" (Luke
5:37) means unfermented wine, or "must"
— a beverage which impro\es with age;
it is "a rich and refreshing, but non-in-
toxicating beverage" (Doctrine and Cove-
nants Commentary, Rc\ised Edition, page
134)-
Questions foi Discussion
1 . Give some reasons whv Doctrine and
Covenants 27:1-4 contains information
which is important to Latter-day Saints.
2. Name the three covenants contained
in the sacramental prayers.
3. In what way does the sacrament keep
the worthy partaker in remembrance of
the atonement of Jesus?
4. What is meant by an "emblem" and
what is its relationship to the sacrament?
5. The worthy partaker of the sacra-
ment is promised the Lord's Spirit. Of
what importance is this to a Latter-day
Saint?
6. What reasons would you give for
attendance at the sacrament meeting?
7. Why is silence admonished during
the passing of the sacrament?
8. Why should the sacrament be given
only to members of the Church?
9. Justify the recei\'ing of the sacrament
by little children?
10. What constitutes worthiness to par-
take of the sacrament?
11. If partaking of the sacrament does
not give remission of sins, what related
purpose does it ser\'e?
viSiting cJeacher 11 iessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 15— "Pray Always, and I Will Pour Out My Spirit Upon You, and
Great Shall Be Your Blessings . . ." (D. & C. 19:38).
Chiisiine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, April 7, 1959
Objective: To emphasize the importance of constant, sincere prayer.
/^UR Father in heaven, in his
deep, eternal lo\e for his chil-
dren, has given us a special, price-
less blessing. This blessing is the
right and privilege to communicate
with him in prayer. Through prayer
we have a constant opportunity of
calling on him for guidance, inspira-
tion, and wisdom. Through this
divine communication we can
strengthen our courage to meet,
understand, and solve life's many
problems. The Lord has invited us
to partake of the spiritual strength
which comes from constant, sincere
communication with him. He has
promised us:
Ask and it shall be given you; seek, and
ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened
unto you (Mt. 7:7).
Many of us, however, go through
life without taking full advantage
of this wonderful invitation. Even
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those of us who pray regularly, too
often allow our prayers to develop
into stereotyped rituals. We allow
them to become repetitive and im-
personal. We fall into the habit of
going through the physical motions
of prayer without really communi-
cating with God. Such prayers, un-
fortunately, consist chiefly of mean-
ingless words which lack the real
spirit of divine communication. In
''Hamlet/' Shakespeare decries this
tendency as follows:
My words fly up, my thoughts remain
below.
Words without thoughts never to Heaven
go-
III. 3. 97-98
Another weakness some of us ex-
hibit in our prayers consists in the
habit of coming to the Lord only
under urgent circumstances when
we are in frantic need of his help.
We tend to forget him when things
move along pleasantly and success-
fully.
In order for the Lord to pour out
his spirit upon us, our prayers must
be offered in faith and sincerity
and must come from our hearts. We
must approach our Heavenly Father
with a contrite and humble spirit,
feeling and expressing our complete
dependency upon Him. Someone
has said that when we feel the least
like praying, that is when we should
pray the most.
President Heber J. Grant ex-
pressed the need for constant sin-
cere prayer when he said :
The minute a man stops supplicating
God for His spirit and direction, just so
soon he starts out to become a stranger
to him and his work. When men stop
praying for God's spirit, they place confi-
dence in their own unaided reason, and
they gradually lose the Spirit of God just
the same as dear friends, by never writing
to or visiting with each other, will become
strangers . . . {The Improvement Era,
Editor's Page, August 1944, page 481).
The importance of constant prayer
was vividly emphasized by the great
Book of Mormon prophet Amulek
who said: 'Tea, humble yourselves,
and continue in prayer unto him"
(Alma 34:19); also, 'Tea, and
when you do not cry unto the Lord,
let your hearts be full, drawn out in
prayer unto him continually for your
welfare, and also for the welfare of
these who are around you" (Alma
34:27). (See Alma 34:19-29.)
In a recent conference with mis-
sionaries in Great Britain, one of
our present-day apostles remarked
that he had observed that many of
the missionaries had not learned the
simple secret of carrying a prayer
always in their hearts not only for
their own welfare but for the wel-
fare of those around them. Conse-
quently, these missionaries were
experiencing only a taste of the great
blessings and rich guidance in store
for them.
The story is told of a man who
had traveled extensively and had
seen the beauties and wonders of the
universe. He had met and made
friends with influential and inter-
esting people throughout the world
and felt that his life was full. Then
he embraced the gospel. For the
first time in his life he learned to
pray. Gradually he learned the
meaning of true prayer, and the hap-
piness which comes to those who,
at all times, carry a prayer in their
hearts. He said:
In retrospect my life was dark and
empty compared to the real beauty and
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meaning of life today. Now I have
learned the joy which comes to those
who keep in close communication with the
Lord. My life before was like the flicker
movies of the 1920's compared with the
colorful cinemascope of today.
Constant prayer results in rich
and radiant living. It generates
spiritual strength and courage
which can be attained from no other
source. What greater blessing ex-
ists in this world than the choice
opportunity of enjoying constant
companionship with the Lord's
spirit? This wonderful privilege is
ours if we follow the simple admo-
nition:
Pray always, and I will pour out my
Spirit upon you, and great shall be your
blessing . . . (D. & C. 19:38).
Work 7Tleeting—^^^^^^% a Home
(A Course Recommended for Use by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 7— Managerial Aspects of Food Planning and Preparation
Vesta Bainett
For Tuesday, April 14, 1959
Objective: To recognize the importance of good management in planning, purchas-
ing, and preparing nutritious food for the family.
STUDIES have shown that approx-
imately one-third of the time de-
voted to homemaking duties goes
into some phase of meal planning
and preparation. Other studies have
shown that, on the average, thirty
cents out of every dollar in moderate
and low-income families is used for
food.
Food management embraces all
activities connected with planning,
securing, preparing, and serving nu-
tritious foods.
Although America has the great-
est abundance of food in the world,
far too many of her people are starv-
ing nutritionally. A daily diet of
hamburgers, French fries, malted
milks, and candy bars may give
enough calories, but empty calories
so far as good nutrition is concerned.
Many of us are getting enough food
—often too much— but not always
the right kind.
Good nutrition has been empha-
sized for so many years that most
people have a basic background of
information concerning the classifi-
cation of foods and their functions.
Stock oi Foods on Hand
Most Latter-day Saint families
that have experienced the satisfac-
tions of operating from a stockpile
of stored foods would never go back
to any other method. We have been
counseled to keep a supply of foods
on hand and replace foods as used.
This method not only makes it pos-
sible to save money by purchasing
in larger quantities, but it also makes
it possible to do a better job of meal
planning. Latter-day Saint women
have always canned and dried fruits
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and vegetables for future use, espec-
ially women on the farm where an
abundance of food is raised by the
family.
Avoidance of Waste
The homemaker who does a good
job of planning her meals cuts waste
to a minimum by cooking the
amount of food she thinks her fam-
ily will eat. When there are left-
overs, she plans to use them in at-
tractive and appetizing dishes. She
utilizes dried pieces of bread in
dressing, meat loaves, and other
ways. Many women today have
freezing units which help consider-
ably in the avoidance of waste.
LIST 1
Beef rib roast, 5-6 lbs.
Sweet potatoes, 4 lbs.
Asparagus, 2 bunches
Head lettuce, 2 heads
Oranges, 1 doz.
Pineapple, 1
Watching the Sales
It is an accepted fact that all
homemakers can stretch the food
dollar by shopping once a week and
by checking and buying the week-
end specials. When one has some
knowledge of the comparative nu-
tritive values of foods, many substi-
tutes to fit market conditions can
be made when shopping. The flex-
ible market list is especially helpful
when shopping for perishable foods.
An example of the use of a rigid
versus a flexible list follows. Many
savings can be made when list two
is substituted for the more rigid list
one.
LIST 2
Roast, 5-6 lbs.
Potatoes, 4 lbs.
Green vegetables
Salad vegetable
Citrus fruit
Other fruit
PRICES OF FOOD AT MARKET
Beef rib roast at 90c lb
Sweet potatoes at 19c lb.
Asparagus at 29c lb.
Head lettuce at 21c lb.
Navel oranges $1.05 per doz.
Pineapples at 63c each
vs.
vs.
vs.
vs.
vs.
vs.
Quantity buying can be economi-
cal ii adequate storage is available.
The amount purchased should be
based on the quantity that can be
stored without waste.
Another factor in good manage-
ment is learning to use cheaper
grades of food when little sacrifice
in the quality of the finished prod-
uct will result. For example, dried
milk can be substituted for whole
milk in many cooking recipes. From
a standpoint of nutrition, the
Pork loin at 39c lb.
Irish potatoes at 49c for 10 lbs.
Green beans, 2 lbs. for 25c
New cabbage at 5c lb.
Grapefruit — 7 for 39c
Rhubarb at 20c lb,
cheeper cuts of meat provide the
same food value as the more expen-
sive ones.
TimGy Energy, and Work Hahits
An experienced food manager
usually finds that time management
and development of efficient work
habits are her biggest worries. Plan-
ning ahead is the best help for this
problem. The beginner may find a
detailed plan, listing the order and
time needed for preparation of foods
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for a single meal, helpful in enabl-
ing her to co-ordinate activities so
that time is used effectively and all
foods for the meal are ready at the
same time.
Knowledge and skills are needed
in order to manage food successfully.
Although one of the most time-con-
suming homemaking tasks, it may
also be one of the most enjoyable
and satisfying. Time, patience, and
study, combined with practice, help
in meeting the challenge of three
meals a day successfully.
Discussion Thoughts
1. Discuss possible money saving substi-
tutions on your shopping list.
2. Dicuss advantages and disadvantages
of weekly shopping.
JLiterature — America's Literature-
Meet the New World
Lesson 7— Young Jonathan Edwards
Elder Briaiit S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 83-84)
For Tuesday, April 21, 1959
Objective: To understand Puritanism more fully as revealed in young Jonathan
Edwards.
A LTHOUGH scarcely into his greatest, he retrenched the Calvin-
teens, young Jonathan Edwards istic concepts of God and man into
(1703-1758) was already writing American soil with such a firm hand
down his reflections, that he might that their place in our tradition is
thereby study his inward self and still secure, even if not often domi-
become more worthy. Among other nant. His life was the embodiment
mixims for his self-guidance he of integrity, both intellectual and
penned the following, "To live with spiritual. If, unfortunately, he has
all my might while I do live." So become the caricature of the harsh,
eminently did he fulfill his resolve, uncompromising ''hell-fire and dam-
that today's critics of American cul- nation" preacher (and not without
ture grant him unquestioned substantial justification), in fairness
superiority as the greatest theo- to him, he must not be judged only
logical philosopher America has yet by those of his beliefs and actions
produced, one of our most original which are least congenial when com-
thinkers, among the top half-dozen pared with our own. In this in-
of our greatest minds, and the in- troductory survey of his life and
tellectual and spiritual nucleus of works, our purpose is to seek out
his age, instrumental both in shap- good, regardless of where it is
ing and mirroring it for posterity. found. In his busy life and writings
Both the last Puritan and the there is much.
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Paul's Photos
JONATHAN EDWARDS
Edwards' Outward Life
The real Jonathan Edwards is not
to be found in the events shaping
his physical existence but in his
sermons and writings. Throughout
his hfe he had but httle interest in
personahty, particularly in his own,
but, instead, an insatiable drive to
illumine the human mind and spirit.
He wanted to know men, not any
individual man, and gave his con-
siderable genius and the years of
his maturity to the search. Edwards
was entirely aware of this fact, for,
throughout the twenty-six years of
his ministry, he never spent his
precious weekdays taking tea in the
best rooms of his parishioners
(though he gladly attended the sick
whenever summoned); instead, he
rode or walked alone into the woods
to think and to commune, to make
ready for what he considered his
highest responsibilities: his Thurs-
day evening lecture, his Sunday
sermon, and his writings. If his
contemporaries found him haughty
and austere, probably they saw him
truly, even though he was much
aware of these weaknesses and strove
to overcome them. Yet so great a
power was he in their lives, that he
was the highest-paid minister in
interior Massachusetts, and people
regularly traveled from neighboring
towns to pack his meetinghouse.
Born in 1703 to a ministerial
family living in the Connecticut
Valley, Edwards was completely the
product and the fulfillment of rural
New England. Instead of attend-
ing Harvard, he entered The Col-
legiate School in Connecticut, a
small rural establishment founded
by a group of conservative ministers
who feared Harvard's tendencies to-
ward liberalism. This school was
renamed Yale College while he was
still an undergraduate student.
Edwards' precociousness made
him a legend in his own day. As a
child he had mastered Hebrew, Lat-
in, and Greek, tutored by his father
who delighted in guiding his son
through difficult writers who re-
quired of readers the most exacting
attention and self-discipline. He
was only a lad when first he read
John Locke's difficult Essay on the
Human Undeistanding. From it he
received a delight ''greater than the
most greedy miser finds when gath-
ering up handfuls of silver and gold
from some newly discovered treas-
ure." He entered college soon after
his twelfth birthday. Either that
year or earlier he had written a
lengthy essay which organized his
observations of spiders. This, his
first writing to be preserved, is equal-
ly astonishing both for his keen eye
as for the beauty and clarity of his
prose:
. . . But I have seen that which is much
more astonishing. In very calm and serene
days in the forementioned time of year.
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standing at some distance behind the end
of a house or some other opaque body, so
as just to hide the disk of the sun and
keep off his dazzhng rays, and looking
along close by the side of it, I have seen
a vast multitude of little shining webs, and
glistening strings, brightly reflecting the
sunbeams, and some of them of great
length, and of such a height that one
would think they were tacked to the vault
of the heavens, and would be burnt like
tow in the sun. . . . But that which is
most astonishing is, that very often ap-
pears at the end of these webs, spiders
sailing in the air with them.
He and his playmates built a
''booth'' near a swamp in a meadow.
Here they discussed the mysteries of
divinity, and prayed together.
While still in college and still
under Locke's influence, he arrived
at one of his basic philosophic con-
cepts: that truth or reality lies in
the seeing, not in the thing seen.
For Edwards, who so loved the
mind and its mysteries, ''all exist-
ence is mental," and mentality is
ideal — that is, it exists only so far
as it is an idea perceived in some-
one's mind. But the idea of the
universe is so vast that it can exist
only in the mind of God; therefore
everything physical in the universe
is God: "Space is necessary, eternal,
infinite, and omnipresent. But I
had as good speak plain. I have
already said as much as that space
is God." In another early essay,
"The Place of Minds," he writes
that we must not attempt to use
dimensions or figures in an attempt
to describe spiritual things; instead:
... If we would get a right notion of
what is spiritual, we must think of
thought, or inclination, or delight. How
large is that thing in the mind which they
call thought? Is love square, or round? Is
the surface of hatred rough, or smooth?
Is joy an inch, or a foot, in diameter?
These are spiritual things; and why should
we then form such a ridiculous idea of
spirits, as to think them so long, so thick,
or so wide. . . .
These ideas are basic in his
essay "Existence" (text, page 92).
Though we perceive things through
the senses, he believed they exist
only as an idea; thus "Colours are
not really in the things, no more
than pain is in the needle." Since
from the beginning of existence the
only reality of things, which is its
idea, must have existed to give order
to the universe, we "therefore learn
the necessity of the Eternal Exist-
ence of All-comprehending Mind."
And if we desire to know the work-
ings of the physical world around
us, we are "only to find out the pro-
portion of God's acting."
Interest in Science
Thus we can understand this
young Puritan's zeal in attempting
to explain the mysteries of his
physical environment: since the
physical world is God, to learn its
secrets is to know God more fully.
Inspired by the beauty of nature,
but awed by its mystery, he probed
into many problems then unre-
solved. More nearly than any other
American's his explanation of thun-
der and lightning predicted Frank-
lin's in its accuracy; he predicted
that water can be compressed (a
fact not demonstrated until thirty
years later), and that when it
freezes it loses its specific gravity.
He proved that fixed stars are suns,
and studied evaporation, the growth
of trees, the phenomena of sound,
and the refraction of light. He thus
paid the budding scientific spirit of
his day more than its due. Yet, it
is somewhat ironical that he who
in our time is most generally be-
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littled for preaching stern Calvin-
istic predestination with such fervor,
died because he trusted in science.
He received the injection w^hich
caused his premature death at age
fifty-five after having been barely
installed as president of Princeton
College— in setting the example of
having himself inoculated for small-
pox.
Influence of Locke s
and Newton s Ideas
To define basic changes in non-
tangible ideas is difficult, since
never can we see an idea pulsate,
feel its temperature, or count its
corpuscles. Yet it is ideas and be-
liefs that ultimately men live by,
then as now. Both Locke and New-
ton, the great influences on young
Edwards' thinking, thought in pat-
terns so revolutionary that as much
as any they have made possible the
ideas modern men live by. On first
exposure, young Jonathan recog-
nized their value, and incorporated
them into his own thinking.
Locke freed Edwards from think-
ing of things as bases for argument,
or for their classification in the
''mind of God" or the ''ocean of
being.'' Instead, said Locke, man
achieves reason and knowledge
through his own everyday experi-
ence.
When Sir Isaac Newton pub-
lished his Principia Mathematica in
1687, he laid the foundation of mod-
ern physics with his basic laws of
motion, his law of gravity, and his
mathematical proof that the uni-
verse is an ordered, perfect whole.
He proved once and for all that no
effect in nature happens without a
cause, the principle which became
central in Edwards' theology. Like-
wise Newton stated the theory of
the atom, pointing out that through-
out all substance the relation of the
atom to itself and to others of its
own kind is similar. These find-
ings he proved by reason, mathe-
matics, and observation of things as
they are, by drawing upon experi-
ence. Thus we summarize hastily
Newton, the scientist.
From his college reading of New-
ton, and throughout his maturity,
Edwards incorporated into his re-
ligious thinking the following New-
tonian ideas: (1) that in nature
every effect has a cause; (2) that
God exercises absolute domination
over his ordered universe, and that
(3) the evidence to prove these
facts is demonstrable to man
through his experience of the world
around him.
When Edwards' readings of
Locke and Newton are combined
with those of Calvin and the Bible,
the ingredients of his philosophic
system are finally assembled.
Edwards' Own Ideas and Beliefs
During his years of greatest pro-
ductivity, Edwards devoted his ener-
gies to writing his ideas and beliefs,
and to fighting against various evils
as they arose. Only in his younger
years did he find time to analyze
himself before God, and prescribe
remedies for his own sinfulness. A
glimpse into these private evalua-
tions yields rewarding insight into
the Puritan mind: its constant drive
toward industry and self-improve-
ment, particularly in spiritual
growth; its merciless probings to
reveal its most intimate weaknesses;
its dedication to noblest goals of
personal and spiritual excellence.
The first part of his self-discipline
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consisted of seventy ''Resolutions,"
which were to be reviewed each
week. The final resolution is dated
in 1723, his twentieth year. Ex-
cerpts follow:
5. Resolved, Never to lose one moment
of time, but to improve it in the most
profitable way I ean.
6. Resolved, Never to do any thing,
which I should be afraid to do, if it were
the last hour of my life.
10. Resolved, \\nien I feel pain, to
think of the pains of Martyrdom, and of
Hell.
13. ResoJved, Never to do any thing
out of Rc\'enge.
20. Resolved, To maintain the strictest
temperance, in eating and drinking.
43. Resolved, Never, henceforward, till
I die, to act as if I were any way my own,
but entirely and altogether God's.
56. Resolved, Ne\er to give over, nor in
the least to slacken, my fight with my
corruption, howe\'er unsuccessful I may be.
70. Let there be something of benevo-
lence in all that I speak.
Saturday night, June 6. This week
has been a very remarkable week with me,
with respect to despondencies, fears, per-
plexities, multitudes of cares, and distrac-
tions of mind: it being the week I came
here to entrance upon the office of Tutor
of the College. I have now, abundant
reason to be convinced, of the trouble-
someness and \'exation of the world, and
that it ne\'er will be another kind of
world.
Jan. 1728. I think Christ has recom-
mended rising early in the morning, by
his rising from the grave very early.
Jan. 22, 1734. I judge that it is best,
when I am in a good frame for divine
contemplation, or engaged in reading the
Scriptures, or any study of divine subject
that ordinarily, I will not be interrupted
by going to dinner, but will forego my
dinner, rather than be broke oflf.
June 11. To set apart days of medita-
tion on particular subjects: The Great-
ness of my Sins; to consider the Dreadful-
ness and Certainty, of the Future Misery
of Ungodly men; at another time, the
Truth and Certainty of Religion; and so,
of the great Future Things promised in
the Scriptures.
As we shall see in the following
lesson, Edwards' definition of the
highest virtue is to approach nearer
to the divinity of God by seeing in
the beauties of nature the shadow
of its Creator, and, then, to culti-
vate within oneself the beauty yield-
ed up by possessing the great relig-
ious affections. Through affection
and sensation, believed Edwards,
we can come nearest God, and when
he found these qualities in Sarah
Pierrepont, he wrote a hymn of
praise for her godlike attributes. He
was twenty, she was thirteen. They
were married in 1827, four years
later, and eleven children blessed
their deep and affectionate mar-
riage. After reading the following
we can more nearly understand why.
Certainly it is one of his most beau-
tiful paragraphs, and quite justly
his best known:
They say there is a young lady in New
Haven who is beloved of that Great Being,
who made and rules the world, and that
there are certain seasons in which this
Great Being, in some way or other invis-
ible, comes to her and fills her mind with
exceeding sweet delight, and that she
hardly cares for any thing, except to medi-
tate on him — that she expects after a
while to be recei\'ed up where he is, to
be raised up out of the world and caught
up into heaven; being assured that he
loves her too well to let her remain at a
distance from him always. There to
dwell with him, and to be ravished with
his love and delight forever. Therefore,
if you present all the world before her,
with the richest of its treasures, she dis-
regards it and cares not for it, and is un-
mindful of any pain of affliction. She has
a strange sweetness in her mind, and sing-
ular purity in her affections; is most just
and conscientious in all her conduct; and
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you could not persuade her to do any
thing wrong or sinful, if you would gi\'e
her all the world, lest she should offend
this Great Being. She is of a wonderful
sweetness, calmness and universal benevo-
lence of mind; especially after this Great
God has manifested himself to her mind.
She will sometimes go about from place
to place, singing sweetly; and seems to be
always full of joy and pleasure; and no
one knows for what. She loves to be
alone, walking in the fields and groves,
and seems to have some one invisible
always conversing with her {Jonathan Ed-
wards, by Perry Miller, pp. 201-202).
As a student, as philosopher, as
soul-searcher, and as poet, Jonathan
Edwards had found himself, and his
spiritual, believing foundations were
firmly in place for the momentous
years ahead.
Thoughts foi Discussion
1. Do you believe Edwards' speculative
powers which were revealed so early in life
made him a better or a weaker person?
2. What is the great unifying idea in
Edwards' life and thought?
3. Do you think Edwards came nearer
his God in his resolutions and his diary
entries or in his description of Sarah Pier-
repont?
Soaai Science — Latter-day Saint Family Life
Lesson 20— ''A Principle With Promise''
Eldei John Fan Larson
For Tuesday, April 28, 1958
Objective: To illustrate the importance of health and recreation in finding "a full-
ness of joy."
npHE Latter-day Saint religious
philosophy represents an un-
usual combination of the temporal
and the spiritual. We believe that
man's temporal life is a vital part of
his spiritual progress; that the body,
though mortal, will be eternally as-
sociated with the spirit in its resur-
rected state.
. . . spirit and element, inseparably con-
nected, receive a fulness of joy (D & C
93:33).
The warmth and glow of the in-
dividual's personality are heightened
with good health and satisfying rec-
reation. In this lesson we shall con-
sider how each of these contributes
to the development of the individ-
ual.
Because th^ Lord is interested in
our temporal welfare, he gave to us,
his children, a 'Vord of wisdom,"
one of the best prescriptions for
good health ever written. (See
D & C 89.) Although this "prin-
ciple with promise" was ''adapted to
the capacity of the weak and the
weakest of all saints," many of us
have never yet taken the time and
trouble to have this prescription
filled in its entirety. To the extent
that we have used it, we are a
healthier, happier people. Because
of its wise provisions, we are more
''health conscious" than we would
otherwise be.
To achieve and maintain good
health we should have:
1. Proper food and nutrition
2. Regular health habits
3. Physical and moral cleanliness
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4. Exercise — including work and play
5. SufiFicient sleep and rest
6. Protection from evils (products or
practices) which make us susceptible to
disease and accident.
7. Good mental health — a peaceful
mind
8. Regular medical and dental checkups.
Prudence in Health Practices
The Word of Wisdom admon-
ishes us to follow its teachings with
"prudence" (D & C 89:11). Pro-
dence is the ability to regulate and
discipline oneself through the exer-
cise of reason. It contemplates the
use of caution, circumspection,
knowledge, skill, and wisdom in dis-
cerning the most suitable course of
action and in avoiding rash or ill-
advised decisions. With the spe-
cific ''do" and ''don't" aspects of
the Word of Wisdom as a basis,
the Lord expects that our prudence
will guide us the rest of the way in
planning a substantial health pro-
gram for our families. If such is
the case, we will seek and apply ad-
ditional health truths.
The scriptures often suggest rules
of good health:
Cease to be idle; cease to be unclean;
cease to find fault one with another; cease
to sleep longer than is needful; retire to
thy bed early, that ye may not be weary;
arise early, that your bodies and your
minds may be invigorated (D & C 88:124).
Do not run faster or labor more than
you have strength . . . (D & C 10:4).
(This advice was given to the Prophet
while translating The Book of Mormon.)
Knowledge and wisdom concern-
ing good health practices will fortify
our households against useless or
harmful products offered by design-
ing men for family consumption.
The use of proved knowledge con-
cerning food, its balance and prep-
aration, in avoiding illness and de-
veloping strength and vigor, should
be an integral part of family pro-
cedures. The wise use of rest should
be a part of each person's health
program.
Growing Up With Ease
A happy, normal life requires
good health, which begins at home.
Health of the parents lays the
foundation for family health. If
sickness curtails the routine, the
household must adjust and work
harder to build a health program.
Generally speaking, if a "healthy at-
titude toward health" is developed
early, our emphasis will be on stay-
ing well, not on being sick. If sound
health habits are practiced from the
beginning, family members are
equipped to meet the strain of mid-
dle and later life more adequately.
Too often as we grow from one
stage of development to another, we
have difficulty accepting physical
changes as a part of the normal
growing-up process. Some stages
of growth and maturity can serious-
ly warp the personality unless un-
derstandingly accepted as part of
nature's plan. The toddler who is
ever moving during his waking hours
must move for proper muscle growth
and co-ordination. The awkward-
ness and distortions of adolescents
will not become causes of youthful
unhappiness or maladjustment, if
parents and others deal with them
wisely. The lovely prelude to
motherhood, while often accom-
panied by discomfort and anxiety,
can be a choice experience for all
family members. The slowness of
pace and the lessened resistance to
bodily ills of the aged call for special
family understanding. Physical
changes and differences should be
accepted in a natural, comfortable
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way, so no one feels self-conscious,
awkward, or embarrassed. When
this is the case, people mature and
age gracefully without dread of the
future, but with an intelligent out-
look and zest for living. Good health
can mean lengthened }ears and use-
ful old age.
What is age? A perfectly well man of
sixty lias a body made up of tissues, or-
gans, and cells that have seen many years
of service. All these suffer bodily changes
which, added together, result in "aging."
A man ages as a whole and he ages in
parts. Organs age unevenly. A sixty-
year-old man may liaxe a forty-year-old
heart, fifty-year-old kidneys, and an eighty-
year-old liver. And he may try to live a
thirty -year old life {Public Affairs Pamph-
Jet No. 130, page 6) .
A Part of Prudence
The wise family will take preven-
tive steps to lessen their chances for
illness and accident, and to prepare
for emergencies that may arise.
The regular medical and dental
checkups can curtail both sickness
and expense by locating trouble at
its outset.
Choosing a family doctor who is
competent and in whom the family
has confidence is an important safe-
guard.
Immunization and isohtion
against disease should become a
routine procedure. A record should
be kept of type and date of immun-
ization of every family member.
Hospital and medical insurance
on a pre-payment plan is a wise in-
vestment for any family.
Home safety is a part of family
health, for to be healthy we must
be relatively free from accidents.
Many accidents occur at home be-
cause of poor management of "time
— space— and traffic."
Special Health Problems
Overweight and underweight
problems of an extreme nature con-
stitute special health problems. The
body does not function best under
these conditions. Most people are
overweight because they overeat.
This may be due to habit, family
tradition, sociability reasons, con-
valescence, or emotional problems.
If the overeating stems from lone-
liness, lack of love, worry over mon-
ey, job, family relationships, or
social standing, the emotional
problem must be solved before the
diet can be successfully controlled.
Some unknown physical condition
may need attention, as is often the
the case with underweight cases. In
either situation, a physician should
be consulted and the problem cor-
rected under his prescribed diet and
exercise. Family co-operation can
greatly help in such projects. Food
should be purchased and prepared
with such needs in mind.
The physically handicapped mem-
ber of a family presents a singular
problem. Such cases call for a skill-
ful diagnosis and the best possible
treatment. If the patient can remain
in the home, he should be accepted
wholeheartedly as part of the normal
life of the household. If institu-
tional care is required, close contact
with family members should be
maintained to give encouragement
and incentive for recovery.
Alcoholism is an increasing health
problem which may touch most of
us only indirectly, but as a com-
munity problem it affects everyone.
It is estimated that 70,000,000
Americans drink — including 4,500,-
000 alcoholics. This does not in-
clude so-called "hidden alcoholics."
The cost of wages lost, crime and
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accident involved, hospital and med-
ical care, and jail maintenance can-
not be estimated. Six men to one
woman fall victims to this illness,
and eighty-five per cent of those
men are between thirty-five and
fifty-five years of age, with children.
Drinkers become alcoholics when
they lose their '^choice" powers. This
disease is not caused by a bug or
germ, but by emotional or psycho-
logical factors.
Alcohol's victims are now being
approached as sick folk worth help-
ing. Research, knowledge, and un-
derstanding have been combined in
an effort to achieve complete recov-
ery. Clinics are now available where
medicines, psychotherapy, and psy-
chiatry can assist and supplement
the patient's own efforts in con-
quering this handicap.
Mental illness is a health concern
which is increasing much too rap-
idly, and we are well aware that if
mind and body are to work well to-
gether, good mental health is a must.
The Lord suggested the importance
of good mental attitude in the
Word of Wisdom when he cau-
tioned us to guard our health and
take proper nourishment with a
spirit of "thanksgiving." The need
for a cheerful, happy, grateful at-
mosphere in the home cannot be
overemphasized in building good
mental (and physical) health.
When this is found, confusion is
reduced to a minimum and chil-
dren are free from worry and ten-
sion. Opportunity should be given
for family members to talk prob-
lems through and ''let off steam"
through proper channels, rather
than bottle up emotional tension
and resentments. All of us need
creative outlets, both physical and
Religious Music
recommended for use by
Relief Societies
to accompany course on
America's Literature
BEAUTIFUL SAVIOUR 16
NOW THANK WE ALL OUR GOD .20
O BREAD OF LIFE 10
O SACRED HEAD NOW
WOUNDED 15
PRAISE TO THE LORD 16
I LOVE THY KINGDOM 16
ALL MY HEART THIS NIGHT
REJOICES 20
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mental, if we are to avoid emotion-
al stress. Working with the hands
is healthy for the mind, if the work
is enjoyable.
Actual mental illness is brought
about by a number of factors. Only
the experts should attempt the diag-
nosis, which should be made as
earlv as possible to insure recovery.
Emotional difficulties can generally
be handled effectively before a com-
plete breakdown occurs. We must
recognize this health problem as an
illness which is being treated more
successfully all the time. Rehabili-
tion of those cured and discharged
depends on the co-operation of fam-
ily, friends, neighbors, and associ-
ates.
Family Recreation
The family fun is another impor-
tant part of its overall health pro-
gram.
Latter-day Saints are fortunate in
Tiaving a complete spiritualized rec-
reational program offered by the
Church. Parents are well repaid
who make the effort to help their
families take advantage of these
wholesome activities. A choice bill
of fare is found within the auxiliary
programs for every age group. The
M. I. A. sport and social calendars
should be a must for teen-agers.
President Joseph F. Smith once
suggested the following safeguards
in planning amusements for our
youth :
We should know that the pleasures
which we enjoy are such as have upon
them the stamp of divine approval. . . .
In the first place they [our amusements]
should not be excessive. . . . Too frequent
dances are not only injurious to stability
of character, but they are highly detri-
mental to good health. . . . Home parties,
concerts that develop the talents of youth,
and public amusements that bring togeth-
er both young and old, are preferable to
the excessive practice of dancing.
In the second place, our amusements
should be consistent with our religious
spirit of fraternity and religious devo-
tion. . . .
In the third place, our amusements
should interfere as httle as possible with
the work of the school-room. . . .
Lastly, it is to be feared that in many
homes, parents abandon all regulation re-
specting the amusement of their children,
and set them adrift to find their fun
wherever and whenever they can. Parents
should never lose control of the amuse-
ments of their children during their tender
years, and should be scrupulously careful
about the companionship of their young
people in places of amusements (Joseph
F. Smith: Gospel Doctrine, Ninth Edi-
tion, pp. 320-321 ) .
Family fun will vary from home
to home, but the following basic
suggestions are helpful in making
recreational plans:
1. Good planning and preparation are
as necessary for successful good times as
for more serious endeavors.
2. Make sure all members of the family
participate in planning fun. The demo-
cratic approach keeps interest high.
3. Make family home night a frequent
habit. It need not be limited to one
night a week! Watch current publica-
tions for new ideas to add variation and
sparkle to these occasions.
4. Play with and take the family out-
of-doors. Nature jaunts, outings, pic-
nics, and vacation trips are healthful and
informative.
5. Look for points of excellence in fam-
ily members and provide opportunities
for them to develop their talents. En-
courage hobbies. Remember creative out-
lets are wholesome and contribute to good
mental health.
6. Make play out of working together.
A bit of merriment and humor can often
change drudgery into recreation. Strive
for a balance of the artistic and practical
tasks.
7. Create an atmosphere of hospitality
by inviting guests into the home. Give
each child a chance to "give" a party and
assist others in doing so.
LESSON DEPARTMENT
69
8. Don't overlook the art of conversa-
tion. Mealtime and evenings by the fire
are excellent moments for this! They
will be long cherished.
9. Singing and playing together lessen
emotional tensions. Join in family sings.
10. Allow some quiet time for individ-
ual relaxation and individual preferences.
Reading, thinking, and reflection spell
actual fun to many.
Rewards
Sound, well-balanced family
health and recreation programs will
bring rewards surprisingly similar to
promises given by the Lord in the
Word of Wisdom. They may be
listed as strength and vigor of body;
knowledge and clearness of mind;
self-discipline; control of appetite;
protection against disease; temporal
salvation; spiritual power and wis-
dom; and family unity and solidar-
ity.
And all saints who remember to keep
and do these sayings, walking in obedience
to the commandments, shall receive
health in their navel and marrow to their
bones;
And shall find wisdom and great treas-
ures of knowledge, e\en hidden treasures;
And shall run and not be weary, and
shall walk and not faint.
And I, the Lord, give unto them a
promise, that the destroying angel shall
pass by them, as the children of Israel,
and not slay them. Amen. (D & C
18-21).
Questions ioi Discussion
1. How does good health contribute to
economic security in the home?
2. How can family confusion be elimi-
nated at mealtime?
3. Discuss good health as a beauty aid.
4. Cite examples of family recreation
which have been most successful in your
home.
5. Suggest variations for Family Hour
plans. Should guests be included on such
occasions? Give reason for your answer.
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Supplementary References
1. Gospel Ideals, David O. McKay,
chapter 27, page 360.
2. Latter-day Prophets Speak, Daniel
H. Ludlow, Bookcraft Publishing Com-
pany, chapter 31, page 310.
3. "A Fireside Chat on a Burning Ques-
tion," The ReUef Society Magazine, Janu-
ary 1958, page 35.
4. "Mental Illness a National Disaster,"
F. Barry Ryan, The Rehef Society Maga-
zine, June 1957, page 373.
5. "Conquering New Frontiers in Child
Health," James A. Shannon, M.D.,
National Parent-Teacher, March 1957,
page 8.
6. "Those Physical Changes of Adoles-
cence," Harold E. Jones, National Par-
ent-Teacher, September 1957, page 8.
7. "What the Polio Vaccine Can Do,"
Thomas M. Rivers, M.D., National Par-
ent-Teacher, January 1957, page 7.
8. "Children Don't 'Just Outgrow' Al-
lergy," Justin M. Andrews, M.C, Na-
tional Parent-Teacher, January 1958, page
7-
9. "Live Long and Like It," Public
Affairs Pamphlet No. 139, 22 East 38th
Street, New York 16, New York, 25 cents.
10. "Meeting the Costs of Medical
Care," Cunningham, Public Affairs Pam-
phlet No. 218.
11. "Alcoholism, a Sickness That Can
Be Beaten," Blakeslee, Public Affairs
Pamphlet No. 118. (See above address.)
12. Your Children s Health, J. Roswell
Gallagher, M.D., Science Research As-
sociates, Inc., 57 West Grand Avenue,
Chicago 10, Illinois.
Recreation
1. Gospel Doctrine, Joseph F. Smith,
chapter 17, pp. 320-336.
2. "Your Child Is a Music Lover,"
Helen Morris, The Relief Society Maga-
zine, July 1957, P'^ge 45--
3. "Family Unity," Dantzel W. Nel-
son, The Relief Society Magazine, Febru-
ary 1958, page 76.
4. "Sparkling Family Hour," Shirley
B. and Monroe J. Paxman, The Relief
Society Magazine, October 1957, pp.
644-649.
LESSON DEPARTMENT
71
5. "Learn to Play/' The Improvement
Era, July 1957, page 532.
6. Many good suggestions for the Fam-
ily Hour are found in issues of The Chil-
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I greatly enjoy all the poems in the
Magazine.
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Your new color cover (November
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RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
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VOL. 46 FEBRUARY 1959 NoT^
(contents
SPECIAL FEATURES
Our Homes — An Individual Responsibility Mark E. Petersen 76
The Central Atlantic States Mission Preston R. Nibley 88
A Fireside Chat on a Burning Question 99
FICTION
We Can't All Be Generals — Second Prize Story Dorothy S. Romney 81
Contentment, Thou Art Priceless! Leone O. Jacobs 90
The Silver Leash — Chapter 2 Beatrice Rordame Parsons 109
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 74
Sixty Years Ago 94
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 95
Editorial: Obligations of a Mother's Authority Marianne C. Sharp 96
Birthday Congratulations to Amy Brown Lyman 97
Notes to the Field: Food at Funerals No Longer a Regular Service of Relief Society 98
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 116
Birthday Congratulations 114
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Recipes From the Central Atlantic States Mission Lovell W. Smith 100
Cooking With Dry Milk Marian Bennion 102
You Can Sew — XII — Plackets Jean R. Jennings 106
Chloe V. Hatch Daines Makes Rose Design Quilts 114
My Loveliest Valentine Mabel Law Atkinson 115
LESSONS FOR MAY
Theology — The Revelation to Emma Hale Smith Roy W. Doxey 123
Visiting Teacher Messages — "Be Patient in Afflictions, for Thou Shalt Have Many. . . ."
Christine H. Robinson 128
Work Meeting — Managerial Aspects of Clothing the Family Vesta Barnett 130
Literature — Jonathan Edwards, Puritan Briant S. Jacobs 132
Social Science — How Do I Rate? John Farr Larson 138
POETRY
Hills Made Low — Frontispiece Alice Morrey Bailey 73
Generosity Jane B. Wunderlich 80
Winter Comes to the Hills Elsie McKinnon Strachan 87
When Greatness Beckoned Iris W. Schow 93
Illimitable Grace Barker Wilson 97
The Leaven of Laughter Maude Rubin 97
Reasons Manifold Margaret B. Shomaker 98
An Untold Tale June N. Ashton 108
The Pyracantha Christie Lund Coles 131
A Listening Face Alice R. Rich 142
Unseen by Camera Cherry McKay 144
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Our Homes — ^An Individual
Responsibility
Elder Mark E. Petersen
Of the Council of the Twelve
(Address Delivered at the Officers Meeting, Relief Society General Conference,
October 8, 1958).
IT surely is inspiring, my dear I was glad we sang as our opening
sisters of the Relief Society, to song, ''How Firm a Foundation, Ye
be with you here today. It is Saints of the Lord." It is always
wonderful to catch the inspiration good to look back to the foundation
of this meeting. I have been so of things. It is always wonderful to
thankful for the contact I have had refresh our minds concerning the
with Relief Society. I am sure that basic fundamentals of our organiza-
President Smith and I both feel tion and the reasons for our exist-
that you have remarkable and extra- ence. Every time I sing that song,
ordinary leadership in your General I am reminded of many of these
Presidency and in your General basics which are so important to us.
Board. We are grateful for these May I quote to you briefly from the
sisters, and for the remarkable co- address of the Prophet Joseph Smith
operation given to them by the as he organized the Relief Society,
stake officers as represented by all We hear a great deal about his re-
of you here. It was really thrilling mark that the sisters were to pro-
to see the wonderful response to the voke the brethren to good works,
roll call, and as the sisters arose, as When the Prophet spoke about
Sister Parker called for them, and this, however, he said that the sis-
they came from such widely scat- ters were to provoke the brethren to
tered areas and were in such splen- good works in looking to the wants
did numbers, it was a mark of great of the poor, searching after objects
loyalty on their part. of charity, and in administering to
I am thankful for the music that their wants, as Sister Spafford has
we have had here. I am always very explained. But then there was an
proud of the stake in which I live, additional clause in that sentence.
This is the Bonneville Stake, and The Prophet said that the sisters are
today is no exception as we listen to assist ''by correcting the morals
to the beautiful music of these love- and strengthening the virtues of the
ly ladies. I would like, for one, to community." It is that about which
thank them for their being here. As I would like to speak briefly with
I visit the various stakes and listen you today. I mention it to you as
to the Singing Mothers in so many individual Latter-day Saint wom-
of our stake conferences, my heart en to consider, not on an organiza-
always swells with pride because of tion basis, but for individual consid-
the remarkably good work being eration in your private family life,
done by these sisters musically. I believe there is a greater need
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for strengthening the virtues and Nation of the high school age and
correcting the morals of our com- up? What of the rise of drinking
munities, now, than at any other and smoking among teenagers?
time in my recollection. I believe What about the rise of the gang
we are passing through the worst spirit among both boys and girls?
moral breakdown of our generation. What about the ever-increasing
This breakdown is striking into spirit of taking a dare which leads to
homes in all parts of the Nation, the breaking of most of our stand-
It is beginning to reach into the ards, including the loss of virtue?
homes of the Latter-day Saints. There is the delinquency also
In the spirit of the words of the among young married people, some
Prophet Joseph Smith, are you will- of whom engage in drinking parties
ing as a homemaker to interest your- in their own homes and patronize
self in this problem, and then do public taverns, and there violate the
something to protect your own fam- standards of the Church. Some of
ily? these young married people organ-
ize into card clubs of various kinds,
UPPOSE your child was involved and it is not long until there is, at
in some great difficulty. Suppose least, minor gambling going on. Bet-
it was the young married couple next ting and other forms of gambling
door. If we bring these matters in the bridge clubs, and canasta
close to home, they become more clubs, and other types of card clubs
real to us. Many of us live such are prevalent in the United States,
sheltered lives so far as the evils of One of the great difficulties with
the world are concerned, that we do this type of partying going on among
not realize what goes on about us. young married couples is that it
We read about some instances in often leads to dating with each oth-
the newspapers, and too frequently er's husbands or wives, leading to a
we feel that such things cannot hap- breakdown of the sanctity of mar-
pen to us. But now, in the midst riage.
of these new conditions, we must Then there is the problem of
awaken to the facts, and we must obscene literature. Some of the
meet them. worst obscenity you can imagine is
When we talk about juvenile de- now being peddled to the young
linquency, we comfort ourselves people throughout the Nation. In
with the thought that, after all, only the United States there are no pub-
about six to seven per cent of all lications which are considered ob-
the juveniles in the United States scene, and yet they are all being
ever get arrested. But what about widely distributed. About twenty-
those whose sins are of a kind for five of these, and they're some of
which arrests are not made? For the worst, are being distributed in
instance what about the intimacies the Mountain States. In Utah only
that develop in the wake of young three out of the twenty-five, thus
people dating too steadily at too far, have been banned from the
early an age? What about the ever- newsstands. In one large eastern
growing menace of petting, a ter- city where the women particularly
rible perversion which is spreading worked on this problem as private
among the young people of the citizens, 107 out of the no maga-
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zines were banned from the news- employment in places where they
stands. learn perversions of the worst kind.
Then there is the problem of
television programs and movies W/^ could go on and list other
which have an evil influence. The modern problems, but, of
condition is made worse by an un- course, time will not permit,
willingness on the part of many par- What are some of the causes of
ents to supervise what their children these difficulties? May I mention
see. a few? They all come directly to
Then, too, there is the problem our homes. Among them are lack
of the relationship of school activi- of parental restraint and discipline;
ties to Church activities. At a re- lack of parental example; lack of in-
cent stake conference which I at- terest on the part of parents in
tended, I was talking with some of character building activities; lack of
the sisters about their problems in religious faith in the home with its
the MIA— the problem of getting attendant lack of obedience to the
participation on the part of the boys commandments. Then there is the
and girls of the teenages and the absence of interest in the minds
early twenties. The sisters said that of parents with respect to such
some young people of that stake community evils as the obscene
just did not have time for Church literature I have mentioned; the
work any more, they were so busy increasing patronage at taverns and
in their sororities and fraternities, nightclubs even by many of the par-
They were perfectly willing to ac- ents themselves; and the rise of
cept the proposition that the sorori- gambling, an acceptance for which
ties and fraternities took first place, is created in the minds of people
and that the Church would have to who begin to learn to gamble and
fit in secondarily. And if it was a love it at their card clubs. As a re-
situation in which young people suit of this, when proposals are
were so busy with sorority activities brought forth to be put on the bal-
that they couldn't bother with the lots (as will be put on ballots in two
Church at all, then it was quite all of our states here in the Mountain
right, they thought, for the young West this year), there is less resist-
people to discontinue Church ac- ance to them. Parents fail to realize
tivities until they got out of school, that what they do becomes a pattern
And then we have the increasing for what their children will do, and
problem of rural parents sending to especially is this the case if the
the large cities their boys and girls examples are evil,
of tender age, either to find jobs or Nearly every one of these diffi-
to go to school. Some of these culties is related in one way or an-
young people are sent to Salt Lake other to the family circle. Each one
City and Ogden and other centers contributes to a breakdown of the
without any thought of supervision, home. You, the mothers, are the
and without any effort on the part homemakers. Our homes are pret-
of the parents to establish them in ty much what you make of them. I
homes that are clean and suitable, realize the part the father must
Some of the young people, upon take, but I realize too, that, in most
coming to the larger centers, obtain cases, fathers want to please their
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79
wives. I believe that with proper
co-operation between husbands and
wives, good home conditions may
develop.
Our communities are reflections
of our homes. If all homes in our
communities were good ones, we
would have only good communities.
It has been said that the hand
that rocks the cradle is the hand
that rules the world. The hand that
rocks the cradle also molds the com-
munity life of our towns. The hand
that rocks the cradle is the hand that
develops our home life. The hand
that rocks the cradle is the hand
which builds our defense against the
infiltration of evil in our family
circle.
But w^hat if the hand that rocks
the cradle is lax and never disciplines
and never trains?
TltTHAT are some of the things we
can do in our own homes to
correct the morals and strengthen
the virtues of our communities?
How can family life be rebuilt to
achieve these ends?
First and foremost, we must set
our houses in order. There must be
love and harmony in the home.
There must be a conversion to the
principles of the gospel on the part
of the parents, to be followed by a
conversion on the part of the chil-
dren. There should be daily living
of the gospel in the home, the
establishment of Christian Latter-
day Saint habits in the home. We
should endeavor to make the home
a temple, and we should so live,
and so train our children to live,
that, when we are out of the home,
we also will live the gospel as well
as we do in the home, making con-
sistent our life in the home and out
of the home.
We must develop a great willing-
ness to stand for the right, a determi-
nation to uphold our standards re-
gardless of social, business, political,
or any other pressures. We must
develop good character traits by our
living the gospel, stressing cleanli-
ness of life, honesty, loyalty, devo-
tion. And we must build respect-
self-respect, respect for each other,
respect for the Church, its leaders,
and its standards, respect for law
and order.
We must try to develop a closer
family unity, a ''togetherness" in
family life. We must do all we
possibly can to see to it that our
outside activities do not divorce us
from our children and our homes.
We must preserve the daily habit,
night and morning, of family prayer
in the home. We should have a
regular Family Hour, or home eve-
ning, as we used to call it. We should
observe the Word of Wisdom in
the home. Let none of us discount
the Word of Wisdom. I want vou
to know that there are many who
begin the moral breakdown of their
own children by themselves setting
an example in violating the Word
of Wisdom.
We should develop group attend-
ance of the entire family at the meet-
ings in the ward and at stake
conferences. We should develop
within the home a uniform under-
standing of family discipline. This is
something which could well come
out of our Family Hour where the
children can participate in estab-
lishing the rules and the regulations
of the home. When they help to
make the rules, they will be more
likely to live up to them.
Sometimes we are horrified at
instances of desertion where a man
will desert his family, or occasionally
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where a mother, falhng in love with
some other man, will desert her
husband and her children and go to
live with the other man in another
town. These instances do not hap-
pen often, and they shock us when
we hear of them or read of them in
the newspaper. But I would like
to ask you, what is it that constitutes
desertion of the family? Are there
other means of desertion than walk-
ing out on them? For instance, is
failure to uphold Church standards
in the home a form of desertion? Is
failure to teach our children properly
a form of desertion? Is failure to
set the proper example a form of
desertion? Is lack of discipline? Is
failure to give direction? What
kind of person do we want our
child to be? We must then be that
kind of person ourselves. Your
child's habits of living begin with
you. Your child's attitude toward
the home and the community begins
with you. Your child's faith begins
with you. Your child's love of God
begins with you. " 'Tis the set of the
sail and not the gale that determines
the way he goes." And we set the
sail.
The home itself is the founda-
tion of morals and virtue. There-
fore, if we are to correct the morals
and strengthen the virtues of our
communities, we must do something
about the preservation of wonderful
homes in our communities. If we
build genuine Latter-day Saint
homes, if, in our homes, we convert
ourselves to the principles of the
gospel and live those principles our-
selves, if we convert our children to
these same principles, if we teach
them to love truly the Lord Jesus
Christ and what he stands for, then
our children will resist evil. They
will grow up to be a righteous gen-
eration. They will build strength
into the Church. They will lift the
morals of our community. They
will save their souls. And that we
may do this is my humble prayer
in Jesus' name, Amen.
■ ♦
(generosity
Jane B. Wundedich
Oh, let me give
Freely, as a flowering tree
Gives to all who wish to see
When through years of growth, from searching root
The joy of spring blooms triumphantly;
Compassionately as a bearing shoot
Bends low to lay the summer fruit
In every hand reached up to take,
Though growing wants and thanks be mute;
Abundantly as boughs that shake
And yield their leaves in autumn's wake.
Golden gifts all scattered wide
For someone's heart, for someone's rake;
And humbly, remembering buds that hide.
Rocked in silence, unespied
In snow-draped limbs, must work and bide
God's touch to live, God's time to give.
Second Lrnze Story
^yinnuai uielief Society Snort Story L^ontest
We Can't All Be Generals
Dowthy S. Romney
DOROTHY SPANDE ROMNEY
HALLIE Evans relaxed under
the trained fingers of the
beauty operator. She had
come here at her sister Karin's sug-
gestion.
At exactly eight o'clock that
morning the telephone bell had
shrilled through her quiet house.
''Hi! I'm glad you're up," Karin's
voice held its usual authority.
''Hello/' Halhe had managed to
squeeze in, before Karin's hurrying
voice continued: "You're to come
here for dinner tonight. I'm hav-
ing the most stimulating group in —
two of the new university staff, and
— now that you have all that beau-
tiful freedom," Karin sighed, "for
goodness sake stop in and have
something done with your hair. Be
here at six, Hallie dear, so you can
help me with the last minute prep-
arations."
"Thank you, Karin, I'll be there,"
Hallie assured her.
"See you then. 'Bye," said Karin.
"Goodbve," Hallie heard the click
of the receiver.
My baby sister, she mused, as
though the idea were new to her,
and she orders me around as if she
were a four-star general.
Well, why not? her thoughts con-
tinued. I've always been handy
when she needed me. Ever since
they had lost their parents some
years ago, Hallie, who was eight
years her sister's senior, had cared
for her, and she admitted, spoiled
her.
Karin had married young, and
now had two handsome little sons.
Tommy and Frank, Jr., while Hal-
lie had passed up her chance to
marry to maintain the family home
until Karin grew up.
After that she'd taken a job as
town librarian, and never once in
the past five years had she taken
time off until now.
"You're in a rut," Karin had told
her. "Now that you have Mary Lou
Lacey nicely trained to run the li-
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brary, you must take the whole sum-
mer off."
It was a challenge, and Hallie
had taken it, much to her own
amazement. This was the first day
of her ''beautiful freedom/' as Kar-
in called it.
My hair does need grooming,
she had decided, as she washed up
her breakfast dishes after the call
from Karin.
She felt herself growing drowsy
to the hum of the drying machines
outside her booth.
''Let me give you a 'Hilite'
rinse," the operator said. "You have
lovely brown eyes — and your skin
is really clear. A rinse is all you
need."
It sounded exciting, but a rinse,
well, Hallie didn't know. The girl
stood poised, waiting.
"Oh, no, not today," Hallie finally
decided.
"Fll use a spray, that will bring
out some lustre," the operator said,
disappointed.
Hallie was wide awake again.
She began making plans for the
summer. She would go out of town
for a few weeks— get a new per-
spective.
With this small decision out of
the way, she felt better.
Spring was definitely in the air,
and as Hallie left the shop she de-
cided to look for a suitable dress to
wear tonight. Something bright
and springlike.
She found an inexpensive dress
shop close by. She looked at prints,
then wondered if something darker
wouldn't be better after all.
Oh, dear, she thought, why can't
I be more like Karin, who never
wavers on a decision?
Hallie walked home, carrying her
purchase, and as she let herself into
the house, she thought, it's much
too quiet and empty. Fll never get
used to being here all day.
r> Y five-thirty that evening she was
dressed and ready to go to
Karin's. As she drove toward her
sister's house she wondered vaguely
what these new co-workers of
Frank's would be like. Of course,
they would have wives, and Hallie
would find herself feeling vastly un-
important again as she always did
— a mere onlooker.
Karin greeted her breathlessly.
She was already dressed, and Hallie
found herself thinking, she couldn't
possibly crush that beautiful dress
by tying on an apron. But she
won't have to, she has me here.
"I've the flower arrangements to
do," Karin told her immediately,
"would you mind finishing up in
the kitchen?"
"Not at all," Hallie answered,
kissing Karin lightly on the cheek.
"You look sweet."
She really hated to cover up the
new dress with the huge apron Karin
always kept on the kitchen door for
her.
There were more details to be
taken care of than she had expected.
Karin had made a list — "make
gravy, cook peas," etc.
The time must have passed rapid-
ly, as it seemed no time at all until
the low murmur of voices from the
front of the house told her Karin's
guests had arrived.
Karin came in. "If you'll dish
things up, Fll carry them in," she
said.
Everything was ready. Hallie re-
moved her apron and followed her
sister into the dining room.
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83
'Trofessor and Mrs. Fuller/'
Karin said, ''and Dr. Barton, Fd
like you to meet my sister Hallie."
Introductions over, the conversa-
tion immediately turned to the diffi-
cult problem of bringing up a fam-
ily in these modern times.
The Fullers, it was soon estab-
lished, had an energetic foursome,
while Dr. Barton was the father of
six-year-old twin boys and a baby
daughter of three. His wife had
died two years ago, Hallie learned
from the conversation, and he had
a matronly housekeeper looking
after his brood.
Hallie listened, making no com-
ment. She was beginning to won-
der if they thought her completely
tongue-tied, when Dr. Barton turned
to her. 'This must be a very dull
conversation to you,'' he said.
"Oh, no," she protested, "it's very
enlightening. I've taught a Sunday
School class for years, and even
though I have no children of my
own . . ." she hoped no one noticed
the wistfulness that crept into her
voice, "I welcome firsthand infor-
mation on child psychology."
Dr. Barton was thoughtful for a
moment, then said, "I feel guilty
not having more time to spend with
my children."
The conversation turned to lit-
erature and music, about which
Hallie knew a great deal, and could
discuss with full confidence of her
own knowledge.
She was thoroughly enjoying her-
self when the time came to serve
the dessert. Karin looked in her
direction. Hallie nodded and rose
from the table. She cleared plates
and served the dessert, one of Kar-
in's masterpieces. She had made it
earlier in the day from one of her
favorite Relief Society cookbook
recipes.
^^OOW can anyone cook a de-
licious meal like this," Profes-
sor Fuller asked Karin, "and still
look as fresh as an unpicked tulip?"
By having a sister named Hallie,
Hallie thought, and was immediate-
ly sorry. She loved doing things for
Karin.
The company moved into the liv-
ing room. Usually Hallie would
slip away into the kitchen and wash
up the dishes. But tonight there
was no need to hurry with this task.
She had forgotten how very pleas-
ant it was to sit in a room full of
people and enjoy good talk. The
time passed swiftly. At about ten
o'clock Professor Fuller arose, "We
really must be going," he said,
"eight o'clock classes, you know."
"It's a good thing you reminded
me," Dr. Barton agreed, "I'm en-
joying myself so much." He shook
hands all around, and Hallie won-
dered if she only imagined he held
her hand an extra long time. "I
hope I see you again soon," he said.
The door closed on the guests.
Halhe sat down on a hassock. She
watched as Karin almost danced
around the room, her blond hair
and yellow dress making a bright
splash of color in the softly lamplit
room. Like a golden butterfly look-
ing for a place to light, she thought,
and then smiled at her poetic frame
of mind. She needn't have worried
about too-bright a print, she reflect-
ed. Karin's glory would have out-
shone the very gayest.
"I have papers to correct," Frank
told them, "so I'll say goodnight
to you now, Hallie."
"Good night, Frank/'
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He went into the den.
Karin finally found a place to
light. She looked at her sister.
''Well, how do you like the new
faculty members?" she asked, breath-
lessly.
'They're all very nice/' Hallie re-
plied. "And now we'd better do
those dishes, so I can get home and
pack. I've promised myself a little
trip."
"A trip," Karin repeated, as
though somewhat amazed. "What
kind of a trip?" Then, without
waiting for an answer, "Frank and
I had sort of planned a week end
away from the children. He's been
working awfully hard."
Hallie opened her mouth to say
that she could put off her trip until
next week, and then closed it firmly.
"Yes," she said, "I believe a trip
will do me good."
jjc )J: sj: sj: jjc
npHE first week of Hallie's vaca-
tion passed pleasantly. She had
taken along a volume of Keats and
one of Browning, her favorite poets,
and was reading "Ode to a Nightin-
gale" one afternoon for the hun-
dredth time.
'Tis not through envy of thy happy lot
But being too happy in thy happiness ....
She glanced up from her chair on
the wide, shaded veranda and saw
a car stop in front. Guests were
few, and each one arriving afforded
a small bit of excitement.
She saw "Hey Boy," the Oriental
houseboy rush down the steps to
welcome the visitors, and to carry
in their luggage.
She was about to return to her
poetry when her heart leaped. With
quickened interest she saw that the
visitor was Dr. Barton, and that he
had his children with him. She not-
ed that the only luggage he had was
a large picnic basket and some straw
mats.
The arrival of the Barton family
must be a coincidence, not a visit
to her, she reasoned.
"Hallie," Dr. Barton greeted her,
coming up the steps, "I hope we
didn't take you too much by sur-
prise."
"You did," she answered, honest-
ly. It was no coincidence, after all,
her heart rejoiced.
He sat down next to Hallie. The
children stood politely quiet while
their father introduced them. The
twins — Don, with mischievous-
looking blue eyes and blond curly
hair, and Rohn, solemnly dark-eyed,
dark-haired like his father.
They shook hands with Hallie,
then sat down on the steps.
"A busy pair, when they're in
their native habitat," their father
remarked fondly.
He drew his daughter onto his
lap. "This is Julie," he said. "Say
hello to Miss Evans."
"Not Miss Evans, please," Hallie
said. "Call me Hallie."
"Hello, Halhe," Julie said. "We've
come to take you on a picnic."
"Hello, Juhe," Hallie replied. "I'd
love to go on a picnic with you."
"I called Karin to find where
you'd disappeared to, when your
telephone didn't answer," Dr. Bar-
ton explained. "Had to threaten
her before she'd tell me. Said you'd
gone away to plan your future, and
didn't want any intruders," he
teased. He looked at her search-
ingly, suddenly serious. "And have
you made your plans for the future?"
he asked.
"No, Dr. Barton," she replied
simply, "not a single plan." It was
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85
strange how she could talk so hon-
estly to this man whom she scarce-
ly knew.
''Must we be so formal?" he
asked. ''My name is David."
npHEY found just the right spot
for the picnic, within walking
distance of the lodge. There were
trees and a sparkling brook, with
enough level, grassy ground to make
for comfort.
David set the picnic basket down
in front of Hallie. ''Here you are —
this is your department. Hope we
didn't forget the salt."
Hallie opened the basket and
started spreading the tablecloth.
She felt a warmth around her heart
— what better way could David have
found to make her feel an integral
part of the little group?
David spread the mats, all the
while keeping an eye on his chil-
dren, who had gone to the brook's
edge, and were busily tossing small
pebbles into the water. Hallie could
hear their shouts and happy laugh-
ter over the faint tinkling of the
brook.
After lunch, as Hallie was clear-
ing up, the boys asked their father
to take them out exploring. ''Go
ahead," Hallie offered when she saw
David hesitate, "Julie and I will stay
here."
"No, we'll wait," David answered.
"This family always does things to-
gether."
The balance of the week passed
slowly for Hallie. She received sev-
eral notes from David. The last
one, which arrived the day before
her departure ended: 'Hope we see
you soon," and it was signed,
"David, Don, Rohn, and Julie." The
last three in childish scrawls. "The
family that does things together,"
Hallie thought, with quickened
heartbeat.
Early the next morning she board-
ed the bus for home.
jZARIN met her at the station.
"Why, Hallie," she exclaimed,
"you look different."
"I have a slight sun-tan," she ad-
mitted.
"No, it isn't that." Karin inspect-
ed her sister closely.
Possibly that happy look that she
isn't used to, Hallie told herself.
She was only mildly surprised
when Karin headed her car in the
direction of her own home. "Aren't
you going the wrong way?" she
asked. "I've loads of things to do
at home."
"Oh, but Hallie," Karin protest-
ed, "my appointment is at two, and
there isn't time for you to stop off."
As though Hallie knew all about her
commitments and was responsible
for the care of the children.
Hallie looked at her sister. Poor
child, she does look tired, she
thought. "All right, dear," she said,
"I can begin my work just as well
tomorrow."
It was five-thirty before Karin re-
turned home. In the meantime
Hallie had fed the boys their dinner
and helped them get ready for bed.
"Oh," Karin said, tossing her
spotlessly white gloves and purse on
the divan, "I forgot to tell you. Dr.
Barton called this morning and left
word for you to call him. Tickets
for the concert tonight— or some-
thing."
"Oh, Karin, Karin," Hallie la-
mented, "why didn't you tell me
sooner?"
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'Tm sorry, it simply slipped my
mind/' Karin said, apologetically.
She might still catch him at his
office. What on earth shall I say?
she thought — 'This is Hallie, who
isn't important enough to receive
messages before it's too late — sor-
ry." Then scolded herself, I'm be-
ing childish — Karin simply forgot.
She reached for the telephone just
as it rang.
It was David. He greeted her
warmly, then asked if he could pick
her up for the concert. She would
have to shower and dress right here,
she decided quickly.
"I'll be at Karin's," she told him.
'Tine. About seven-thirty."
David came, but instead of driv-
ing toward the concert hall, drove
toward his home. He had bought
the old Atherton place, Hallie
knew. It was considered one of
the most gracious dwellings the
town afforded.
''I promised the children we'd
stop off so they could see you," he
explained. ''We've plenty of time.
I hope you don't mind?"
"Mind?" she said, "I'd love it."
The children came tumbling
down the stairs, as soon as David
showed her in. They were rosy-
cheeked and scrubbed looking, and
in their night clothes.
"Hallie, Hallie," Julie cried, and
ran into Hallie's arms.
She caught her up and held her
tight, feeling the warmth of the
chubby arms around her neck.
The boys were more formal. They
shook hands and said "Hello."
After a few moments, their father
ordered: "Now off you go upstairs,
all of you. Mrs. Busby will read you
a story."
"No, I want Hallie to read to me,"
Julie demanded.
She tightened her hold around
Hallie's neck. Her father came over
and gently disentangled her grip.
"Off you go," he repeated. "Hallie
will read to you some other time.
Perhaps we might even persuade her
to go on another picnic with us—
say this Saturday afternoon." He
looked questioningly at Hallie over
the top of his daughter's head.
She nodded, then kissed Julie on
the cheek.
"Oh, goodie, a picnic!" Don and
Rohn exclaimed in unison, and
Hallie watched as the trio pattered
up the stairs, Julie turning as she
reached the top to throw them a
goodnight kiss.
TT was several weeks after they had
met at Karin's that David told
her one evening — half apologetical-
ly — half hopefully— "We can't
seem to get along without you a
single day any more, Hallie."
There had been picnics, dinners
at which Hallie was asked to pre-
side, storytime, and endless other
good times together.
It was wonderful to feel that she
was needed, she thought.
Then one evening after a happy
afternoon spent at the zoo, with the
children safely delivered into the
capable hands of Mrs. Busby, David,
driving her home, said: "I hope you
are no longer making plans for the
future — plans that don't include
the Barton family, that is. We need
you, Hallie, and want you."
Hallie hadn't known there could
be this much joy in the world.
There would be no announce-
ment as yet, but Karin and Frank
should be told, they decided to-
gether.
Early the next morning Hallie
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87
drove to her sister's house. Karin
was already out weeding the flower
beds.
"Hi!" she looked up at Hallie,
and the sun made a circlet of gold
through her bright curls. 'I'm glad
you came. There's work to be
done."
"I didn't intend to stay/' Hallie
said. ''I just dropped by to tell you
something."
Karin dropped her weeding fork
and sat back on the grass.
"Oh, Hallie, you're not?" she
cried, then without waiting for an
answer — "you're not going to give
up your wonderful freedom to take
care of someone else's children?"
"Karin, dear," Hallie began gent-
ly, "try to understand. I don't in-
tend to think of David's children as
someone else's — I hope I can think
of them as my own. Besides, simply
having nothing to do isn't truly
freedom — freedom is of the heart."
Suddenly she and Karin were in
each other's arms.
"Oh, Hallie, how selfish and blind
I've been. David is a wonderful per-
son, and I know you'll be very hap-
"I'm sure we will — all five of
us," Hallie agreed.
Life was wonderful, she reflected,
even though you were just a march-
ing soldier. A life of service was
what her individual nature required,
she was sure of that.
She looked at Karin fondly.
Bless her stout little heart, she
thought, we can't all be generals.
Doiothy S. Romney, Stockton, California, has been represented in The Relief
Society Magazine by two serials and a short story. "I attended the University of Utah,"
she tells us, "and I have taken one six-weeks writing course since coming to California
in 1936. I have sold over seventy short stories, a few plays, around twenty articles, and
two serials. I belong to a small writing group here in Stockton, and have been invited
to join the Sacramento Branch of the Pen Women, which I intend to do shortly. I
have one son, Douglas, a high-school student. He is an ardent science fan, a good
athlete, and an all-around good student. My current Church position is that of his-
torian for the Stockton Second Ward Primary Association, work that I thoroughly
enjoy. I also act as a visiting teacher for the Relief Society organization."
Viyinter (^omes to the uTills
Elsie McKinnon Strachan
This soundless dawn, the wind lies still-
Like silence held to make a wish,
And winter quiet cloaks each hill;
The woods stand mute in silver hush.
The new snow glistens, mile on mile;
And none but my early footprints mar
The hallowed whiteness of this aisle —
For I, alone, am trespasser.
cJhe K^entral J^tiantic States 1 1 iission
Pieston R. Nihhy
Assistant Church Historian
T^HE Central Atlantic States Mission was formed on October 26, 1947,
at Roanoke, Virginia, under the direction of Elders Albert E. Bowen
and Henry D. Moyle, of the Council of the Twelve, by a division of the
East Central States Mission. The new mission comprised the States of
Virginia and North Carolina, except that part of Virginia that had been
included in the Washington Stake. It also included the following coun-
ties in West Virginia: McDowell, Mercer, Summers, Greenbrier, and
Monroe.
Elder James R. Price of Phoenix, Arizona, was chosen as the first presi-
dent of the new mission. Headquarters was established at Roanoke, Vir-
ginia, where a mission home was purchased.
During the month of November 1947, Elder Bowen and President
Price made a tour of the mission and held meetings in Petersburg, Norfolk,
Elizabeth City, Harker's Island, Wilmington, Goldsboro, Durham, and
Colfax. During this visit Elder Bowen set apart David L. Hiatt of Mount
Airy, North Carolina, as first counselor to President Price. Later in the
month, Rudger G. Smith of Phoenix, Arizona, was set apart as second
counselor.
President Price presided over the Central Atlantic States Mission a
little more than four years, during which time all phases of the missionary
Photograph by Hugh Morton
Submitted by Lovell W. Smith
GREENFIELD GARDENS, WILMINGTON, NORTH CAROLINA
Poge 88
THE CENTRAL ATLANTIC STATES MISSION
89
Courtesy Chamber of Commerce, Roanoke, Virginia
Submitted by Lovell W. Smith
MONTICELLO, HOME OF THOMAS JEFFERSON
Charlottesville, Virginia
work were greatly stimulated and increased. In January 1952, he was suc-
ceeded by Claude W. Nalder of San Francisco, California.
President Nalder continued the work that had been initiated by
President Price and labored with great diligence, until the second week of
August 1955, when he was admitted to a hospital in Roanoke, following a
severe chill. On August 18, 1955, he passed away. The cause of his death
was given as uremic poisoning. His passing brought great sorrow to the
missionaries and saints of the Central Atlantic States Mission.
Elder Henry A, Smith, former President of Pioneer Stake and for many
years a member of the staff of the Deseret News in Salt Lake City, arrived in
Roanoke during the latter part of September 1955, having been appointed
to take charge of the mission. He is presiding at the present time.
In September 1958 it was reported that there were 10,073 niembers
of the Church in the Central Atlantic States Mission, located in fifty-seven
branches.
Sixty Relief Society organizations, with 1192 members, were reported
in December 1957. Lovell W. Smith presides over the Central Atlantic
States Mission Relief Society.
Note: The cover for this Magazine, "Sunset on the James River, Virginia, from the
site of Jamestown Landing of 1607, showing William Couper's statue of Captain John
Smith," is from a transparency by Frank Dementi, and was submitted by Lovell W.
Smith. See also "Recipes from the Central Atlantic States Mission," page 101.
Contentment, Thou Art Priceless!
Leone O. Jacobs
ARIAN Cooper was still
irritated at herself for coming
on this family excursion at
all. After all, she had never been
sentimental about her forebears, and
there were many other things she
should have been doing. It was
only because of her brother's insis-
tence that she finally had been per-
suaded to make the trip to Wells-
ville to see the ancestral Bennett
home.
Here they were, all six of the
grandchildren and their spouses,
gathered on the lawn in front of
the old rock house built by Grand-
father Bennett. The house was still
sturdy and in fairly good repair,
after loi years of occupancy. Mar-
ian marveled that Grandfather
could have built such a well-pre-
served structure. She supposed his
early life had given him experience
in many types of work. An old
couple named Olsen had bought
the home several years ago and were
still living there. Jess, Marian's
brother, had written them and re-
ceived permission to have this fam-
ily outing at the old homestead.
'A family reunion is long over-
due/' he had written, 'and I think
the old home would be a fine set-
ting."
Marian was not by nature a senti-
mentalist. Yes, she was proud of
her pioneer heritage, but she was
not one to live in the past. The
present and future were her chal-
lenge, her interest. There was so
much she wanted to do to improve
their situation in life. True, she
and George had a nice home and
had reared three fine children to
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maturity, but though Marian Coop-
er would never have admitted it to
anyone, she was far from being a
contented person. Twenty-eight
years ago, when she married George
Cooper, she had been confident they
could realize every dream of their
hearts. With her ambition and
drive, and George's ability to make
friends, the future seemed bright
indeed. But George had been a
disappointment in some ways. He
made many friends, and received
much enjoyment from life, but he
was too easygoing, not aggressive
enough to get ahead as she had
hoped. His family, his Church,
and his friends satisfied his desires
completely. Marian was sure he
could have been taken into the law
firm as a partner if he had asserted
himself more. And, if he had only
campaigned more vigorously, he
could easily have received the twenty
additional votes he needed for elec-
tion into the House of Representa-
tives. He was just too content, that
was all!
After the bounteous luncheon
had been served under the trees, the
Bennett clan stretched and lounged
and visited, and then Jess brought
out the history of Grandfather and
Grandmother Bennett, written by
their mother. Jess explained that
since he was the eldest of their fam-
ily, he felt obligated to take the
initiative in refreshing their mem-
ories concerning the lives of their
grandparents. So he unfolded the
manuscript and began to read.
Marian was only slightly inter-
ested. The names and places
sounded vaguely familiar, though
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she surmised it must have been in year of 1865. As the three lay
her father's home before she was critically ill, the elements combined
married, that she had last heard this to hold them in an icy grip. Snow
history given. piled up to the window sills, and
''Born Liberty Falls, Sullivan the sharp north wind blew drifts
County, New York. Not far from over the fence posts. It was bitter
the home there were maple groves, cold December 26, as sweet little
which lent beauty to the landscape honey-haired Alice passed away out
as well as material support to the of mortality. The families were
people of the neighborhood. Each snowbound, so there could be no
spring they drained the trees and service nor burial in the cemetery,
boiled down the sap into maple and little Jim and Martha were sink-
sugar. At nights attendants went ing slowly. With Alice laid out in
from tree to tree with a torch to the downstairs bedroom, the be-
change the kettles when they were reaved Mother continued her vigil
full ... A beautiful lake, called the and her kindly ministrations with the
Neversink, was nearby. . . . other two. But it was no use. Each
day they lost strength, and outside
^^npHEY heard the gospel preached the elements continued to rage—
by two Mormon missionaries, four feet of snow on the level, and
accepted it, and prepared to come so frigid that the snow made a
West. . . . Margaret gave birth to a crunching noise as one walked."
second daughter while in Council
Bluffs, and two weeks later they jyi ARIAN found herself gripping
started the long march westward
The baby, it was afterward said
cried for a thousand miles. . .
They settled in Wellsville, Utah
and built a two-story rock home. . .
To them were born ten children
her hands tensely. She had
not remembered the details of this
sad story. She knew only that two
children had died in childhood, but,
oh, what a pitiful tale this was!
Imagine a mother's feelings at being
four sons and six daughters." so helpless to stay the destroyer!
Jess's voice droned on and on, and Jess went on:
Marian was beginning to feel drowsy, ''On New Year's day little Jim
when, suddenly, her attention was slipped quietly away, and the par-
roused, ents' grief knew no bounds. The
"During the winter of 1865 the storm had locked them in, as with
dread disease, diphtheria, struck the a vise, and as the cemetery was over
home. Three of the children, a mile away, the burial there was
Martha, fifteen, Alice, eleven, and out of the question. So out into
little Jim, two years, were laid low. the orchard went Father and the
Terror struck the hearts of the par- two boys with picks and shovels, and
ents, as there was at that time no after hours and hours, they had pre-
known cure for the terrible afflic- pared a place for their loved ones,
tion. But with all the faith and The rude pine boxes Father made
prayers at their command, they from lumber he found around the
nursed them and applied the rem- place. And what of Martha? Was
edies of the day. But to no avail. she to leave them also? On Jan. 2
"It was a sorrowful Christmas that a kind providence saw fit to turn
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the course of the disease and she be-
gan slowly to mend, though she was
weak for months to come."
Marian was surprised to feel two
tears sliding down her cheeks, but
she did not bother to brush them
aside. ''Imagine losing two loved
ones between Christmas and New
Years. Wasn't that enough to
break the faith of Grandmother and
Grandfather?"
''Oh, no," replied Alice, her eld-
est sister, "I remember Mother say-
ing it was very hard for them to
bear, but it seemed to cement the
family ties even more closely and
give them determination to go on
walking uprightly in the ways of
the Lord. Bless the memory of
those dear ones, our forebears! I
wonder if we could go through such
trials without becoming bitter?"
"I doubt it," was Marian's whis-
pered answer. "Are the little graves
still in evidence?" she asked, with
a note of keen interest in her voice.
"Why, of course they are," an-
swered Jess. "You mean you
haven't remembered them during
all these years? I know you saw
them as a child. It's only about
half a block from here. I'm sure I
can remember the place."
A ND so the twelve Bennett adults,
touched by the tender story
of their predecessors, wandered out
into the orchard. For, yes, it was
still an orchard, though perhaps
three or four plantings had taken
place since Grandfather Bennett's
trees were there, and since that sad
winter of 1865. After searching a
short time and pulling apart a tangle
of wild rosebushes, they found a
cement slab and the two wooden
headstones, marked faintly: "Alice,
11 yrs." and "James, 2 yrs."
"Yes, Grandfather stipulated in
his will," said Jess, "that the graves
were never to be molested, and so
the Olsens, years ago, cemented
them over and have plowed and
harrowed and watered around them
all these years."
"See how the wild roses twine
themselves around the place," said
Alice. "They seem so very appro-
priate for children's graves, don't
they?"
Marian was deeply moved and she
contemplated seriously the meaning
of life. "What is true greatness,
Jess?" she finally asked, voicing the
thought that had come to her in
that moment of contemplation.
A long pause ensued, then her
stalwart brother lifted his head and
answered, "A good father and a
good mother are great. I am sure
Grandfather and Grandmother were
great people. If a man and woman
are honest and dependable, if they
love others and are loved in return,
if they sincerely try to keep the
commandments of God, helping
their neighbors, then I think they
are great. If they rear a fine family
that is a worthy contribution to so-
ciety, they are great. And to be
content with what the Lord in his
mercy metes out to us is greatness."
The grandchildren stood for some
time in silence around the two
graves, engaged in as solemn and
important thoughts as they had had
for many a day.
"I'm so glad we came here today,"
said Marian at last. "I think I have
been needing this for a long time."
That night, as she and George
prepared for bed, she turned to him,
and out of the fulness of her heart,
she said, "George, my dear, you are
a truly great man. And I am con-
tent."
A Perry Picture
WASHINGTON AT VALLEY FORGE
vl/hen Cf4
\en y^reatness
[Beckoned
Ins W. Schow
On Mount Vernon's long veranda one may turn
His back to the estate, and dreamily
Look out upon the river that leads down
In gentle undulations to the sea.
Once Washington, the boy, ignored the land.
Adventure-drawn by waters rippling by,
And dreamed a brave career called from the deck
Of some tall ship, poised between sea and sky.
Yet, mindful of a mother's fears, he turned
Back from the sea, gave up his youthful schemes,
To find adventure beckoned from the land.
And greatness far beyond his boyhood dreams.
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Sixtyi ijears KjLgo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, February i, and February 15, 1899
A WONDERFUL AGE: Women have in this present generation taken hold of
some of the problems of the day and wrestled with them with the intuitive spiritual
strength that seems to be a part of the feminine nature. . . . Combined efforts are mul-
tiplying, and necessarily must increase the power against tyranny and oppression of all
kinds, and where men and women unite for high purposes, intelligently waging war
against wrong-doing, the victory so long looked for must eventually be expected.
— Editorial
PERSEVERANCE AT CENTERVILLE: The Centerville Relief Society owned
two lots of its own and desired to build, as they had no place of their own to meet in,
but on inquiring the cost they found it would be more than they could afford, not wish-
ing to go into debt too much. On the adjoining lot from theirs was a school house
which they were advised to purcha'se if it could be bought on reasonable terms, . . . They
found they could buy it for five hundred dollars. Through the perseverance of the com-
mittee, and prayers and help of the brethren and sisters who responded nobly to the
cause, they bought it. So now we own two thirds of a block. The school house was
cleared and repaired and . . . was dedicated June 1, 1898.
— Mary Rockwood, Sec.
Tho' clouds of disappointment
May gather in life's sky.
Do not despair, the sun is there.
And soon will be so bright and fair.
And then those dearest hopes of thine
Like sunlight in thy path will shine. . . .
— Nina Winslow Eckhart
VIRGIN CITY, DIXIE: The past year has been a very dry one. In August we
had ,a vert severe storm which did but little good and a great deal of harm. The health
of the people as a rule is pretty good. Our Relief Society is doing a good work taking
care of the sick and looking after the worthy poor and feeling after the aged. On the
morning of January 11, the people awoke finding a happy surprise, the snow being about
three inches deep, the first wet storm for the winter, which made everybody rejoice.
— Emily A. Stratton
THE TRIENNIAL: The women of Utah who went to Washington in February
to attend the Triennial sessions of the National Council of Women of the United States,
have had a«n interesting experience to say the least, especially those who went as presi-
dents, (proxies), delegates and members of the Resolution Committee. As everyone
knows who has been connected with such great national bodies, the hard work and
really the most important is done in committees. Speech making is comparatively easy,
more especially so when prepared beforehand, which the addresses certainly should
be on any given subject. . . . The papers for discussion were of very great interest,
especially upon vital questions. . . . "The Women of Hawaii," by Susa Young Gates,
was a very ably written and exhaustive paper on the conditions, customs and ethics of
the natives, and some expression of real hfe by Hannah Kaepapa, the pretty custom of
the laie was given in an object lesson on the platform. . . .
— Editorial
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
P
OELLE S. SPAFFORD, General
President of Relief Society, has
been named a member at large on
the executive committee of the
National Council of Women. She
recently attended the annual meet-
ing of the council in New York City,
accompanied by Marianne C. Sharp,
Second Counselor in the General
Presidency.
AULA COHEN, twenty-three-
vear-old astronomer, who has a
Master's Degree from the University
of California at Los Angeles, is a
member of the Douglas Aircraft
Research Department, where she
plots possible orbits for artificial
satellites.
]Vf ICHIKO SHODA, twenty-four,
is betrothed to Crown Prince
Akhihito of Japan. She is the first
commoner to share the throne of
Japan since the world's oldest dynas-
tv took it over in 660 b.c.
QARNER DODSON, wife of
a geologist, has written a helpful
and practical volume. Making iht
Most oi Every Move, in which she
offers advice on packing, the finan-
cial aspects of moving, selecting
new homes and disposing of the
old ones. The author, from her
rich and varied experiences in mov-
ing, and from extensive research,
believes that the psychological
problems of moving require care-
ful consideration.
PELESTIA TERRY PETER-
SON, ninety-eight, of Fairview,
Utah, has been married for eighty
years. She and her husband Peter
Peterson, ninety-eight, celebrated
this important anniversary in De-
cember 1958. They are said to be
the oldest married couple in the
United States.
lyrRS. HELEN DUPREY BUL-
^ ^ LOCK, Washington, D. C,
makes a specialty of planning ''Din-
ners with the Presidents" at the
famous Mayflower Hotel. The men-
us and the recipes are secured from
the families of the Presidents, or
from descendants of those deceased.
This year the dinner honors go to
James Monroe, and the menu con-
sists of roast duckling, deviled eggs
with anchovy on water cress, green
pea soup with mint, grilled toma-
toes, sweet potatoes, patty pan
squash, purple plum jelly, and other
delicacies.
lyfRS. GELSOMINA DEL VEC-
^ ^ OHIO, of Paterson, New Jer-
sey, recently celebrated her 107th
birthday by taking her two cats for
a walk. She is hale, hearty, and
happy.
T\R. CHIEN SHIUNG WU, Co-
lumbia University physics pro-
fessor, is the first woman to win the
Research Corporation award. She
received the 1958 prize for her out-
standing research on the parity law.
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 46
FEBRUARY 1959
NO. 2
y:ybligations of a 1 1 iother s J^uthonty
npHE term General Authorities in
the Church has a meaning pe-
cuhar to itself, and hkewise the
different degrees of authority exer
the Lord for the exercise of the
authority of the Priesthood in Sec-
tion 121 of The Doctrine and Cove-
nants—to influence by persuasion,
cised by stake, ward, branch, and gentleness, and meekness, and by
mission officers. There is also the unfeigned love, reproving with
personal authority of a man bearing sharpness betimes, then afterward
the Priesthood in his own home. showing forth an increase of love
Then there is the authority of a toward the one whom she has re-
mother in the home. In her sphere proved, lest the child should con-
of service she must assume its obliga- sider his mother to be his enemy,
tions and know the duties required The mother herself must set an
of her before she can fulfill her example of obedience to authority,
obligations. Church authorities for there are two facets— the author-
constantly teach the obligations of ity a mother wields and the authority
parents, and in Section 69 of The to which she yields. Obeying that
Doctrine and Covenants, the Lord authority over her enlarges her soul
commands parents to teach their and assists her in exercising her own
children, when eight years old, to authority. Nor will she ever criti-
understand the doctrine of repent- cize those over her.
ance, faith in Christ, of baptism. President Joseph F. Smith de-
and the gift of the Holy Ghost, and clared, 'There never should be a
to pray and to walk uprightly before day pass but all the people compos-
the Lord. This law applies to moth- ing the Church should lift up their
ers as well as fathers. Mothers must voices in prayer to the Lord to sus-
assume authority in this training, tain his servants who are placed to
for the sin of not training will be preside over them."
upon the heads of parents, not their Teaching children in the home
childrens', the Lord warns.
The acceptance and exercise of
this authority by a mother lays the
foundation in her children of a love
the absolute necessity of obeying
gospel principles and the Authori-
ties of the Church, and of the heav-
en to be inherited eternally by those
and respect for authority resulting obedient to authority, will reward a
in an obedience to authority. The
children who are trained to see the
blessed results of obedience to
authority will not give mere lip serv-
ice to it.
A mother who wishes to exercise
authority properly, may apply to the
training in authority of her children
many of the attributes set forth by
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mother for any sacrifice she may
make in order to fulfill daily and
hourly the obligations of authority
which are inherent in her role of
mother. In days to come she will
realize the promise ''Her children
arise up, and call her blessed . . ."
(Proverbs 31:28).
-M. C. S.
UJirthdaii (congratulations to J^m^ iurovon JLy^man
Former General President of Relief Society
February 7, 1959
TT has been well said that life is enriched and fulfilled by the development
of one's inherent abilities, and by a reaching out into the lives of others
to uplift and comfort them. Sister Amy Brown Lyman, since her early
youth, has exemplified in a wide field of service this spirit of dedication
and devotion. As a young woman she became interested in Relief Society
by observing the spiritual solace and practical ministrations given by the
sisters who were joined together in love and service to each other and to
their communities. Sister Lyman has long served Relief Society in many
capacities — as General Secretary-Treasurer, as First Counselor in the Gen-
eral Presidency, and as General President. She continues to serve as a
ward literature class leader.
Relief Society women throughout the Church are grateful for the
continuing influence of her inspiration and far-reaching leadership. The
General Board and tl^e members of the world-wide sisterhood extend birth-
day congratulations to a beloved leader and wish her much happiness.
Kj^Uimitable
Grace Barker Wilson
I cannot measure outer space,
For it extends beyond the stars;
And yet infinity must reach
Beyond the farthest scimitars.
I cannot fathom human minds,
Nor bound the hmits of a soul,
But I can chart a steady course
With heaven for its goal.
cJhe JLeaven of JLaughter
Maude Rubin
Who drowns his laughter in a flood of fear
Shall hear no bird at dawn —
Nor see soft-footed dusk walk through the land —
Nor smell the petaled snow of apple-bloom.
Oh, may I keep that lifting leaven.
Hoard it through the heavy hours. . . .
Let not the nearing darkness blind my eyes
To softness of gray clouds, the peace of night,
Or day's recurring triumph!
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^yiohidu TO THE FIELD
QJooa at C/unerais ilo JLonger a Lriegular Service
of LKeiief S octet if
"\yl7E call to your attention the following statement with regard to the
policy of Relief Society providing food at funerals which appeared in
the November-December 1958 copy of The Messenger issued by the Presid-
ing Bishop's office:
There appears to be a need among bishops and Relief Soeiety presidents for clarifica-
tion of the responsibihty of Rehef Society with regard to providing food for famihes
at time of funerals.
In the early days of the Church, methods of transportation were slow, making it
difficult for persons from out of town who attended funerals to return to their homes
by mealtime; in many communities public eating places were not available or were in-
adequate. In view of this, the custom of Relief Society providing food at time of
funerals developed into a regular practice in most Latter-day Saint communities. Today,
however, conditions have changed to the extent that it is no longer considered necessary
for Relief Society to provide this service as a regular practice. In those instances in
which it is deemed necessary or advisable for the Society to give this service, it is
given as a special service. The need for the service is determined by the ward Relief
Society president in consultation with the bishop, taking into account the circumstances
of the individual family, available community eating places to serve persons attending
the funeral who may be unable to return to their homes by mealtime, and the desire
of the family for the service.
To give this service indiscriminately could be both burdensome to the Society and
distasteful to the family.
Bishops of wards in which the Relief Society as a regular practice is providing
food at time of funerals, are requested to call to the attention of their respective Relief
Society presidents the present policy as stated above.
This does not mean that Relief Society shall withhold, in any measure, the custom-
ary loving, tender services given to families at time of death. To comfort the sorrowing
and tenderly minister to families at time of death continue among the foremost of
the compassionate services of Relief Society.
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LKeasons 1 1 La nl fold
Margaret B. Shom^ikei
Embers charred upon a hearth,
Naked trees defying cold.
Fertile land cloaked white with snow.
A puff, and embers gleam
Bright in their rebirth.
Time and leaf-green trees
A thousand songs will hold.
Rest and barren land
New harvest will bestow.
Growth, fire, earth
Hold reasons manifold;
Life has its afterglow.
uestion
nji CJireside L^hat on a iourmng kli
A Sabbath evening in a home where faith abides, with young friends
gathered to engage in pleasant and prayerful discussion and song — this
is "A Fireside."
What beautiful images the word suggests: home, hospitality, friend-
ship, security.
Fire, the key word, has been man's friend or his foe through the ages.
It is heat for his home, elemental source of light, refiner and purifier
of coarse materials, energy for machines.
The word ''fire" has enriched our language: ''fired with imagination";
fired with enthusiasm"; "the fire of faith."
When God wanted to speak to Moses, he spoke with fire . . . "out of
the burning bush."
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Fire is man's friend — but it also can be his enemy.
One of today's most destructive forms of fire is the tiny flame from the
strike of a match or the flick of a lighter to start each year in America the
slow burning of 400 billion cigarettes.
Light up? Just a minute, young friends of our ''Fireside." Let's not
play with this fire.
Beware of the burning tobacco leaf and its fickle promises which, like;
one's 'pipe dreams," can't come true.
BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
LKeapes CJrom the L^entral fyitlantic estates 11 iission
Submitted by LoveJI W. Smith
Butter Pecan Pie
Recipe from Wilmington, North Carolina
3 eggs, beaten i tsp. vanilla
Vz c. sugar % c. butter, melted
1 c. dark corn syrup i c. pecan meats
!4 tsp. salt 1 unbaked 9-inch pastry shell
Put first six ingredients together in order listed. Then sprinkle one half the nut
meats in the bottom of the unbaked pie shell. Pour in the pie mixture. Sprinkle re-
maining half of nut meats over top. Bake in 350° oven about 45 minutes, or until set.
Crackling Bread
1 Yz c. corn meal 1 tsp. baking powder
Vi c. flour 1 '/4 c. ground pork cracklings
1 tsp. salt
Mix all ingredients together with just enough milk to make a very stiff batter
(soft dough). Bake in square pan at 450° until brown. Cut in squares to serve.
Hush Puppies
1 c. corn meal 1 tsp. sugar
% e. flour 1 egg
1 tsp. salt enough milk to make dough like
2 tsp. baking powder drop-biscuit
Mix all ingredients together and drop by teaspoons into deep fat. Cook at 375°
until golden brown.
A little onion salt, added to above ingredients before baking, gives a delightful
flayor. Serve hot with any food.
Crusty Pound Cake
When baked, a rich, crusty top forms on this cake.
1 ^ c. butter 4 c. flour
8 eggs 2 c. sugar
Ya tsp. salt 1 tsp. baking powder
1 tsp. vanilla extract 1 tsp. lemon extract
RECIPES FROM THE CENTRAL ATLANTIC STATES MISSION 101
Cream butter and work in flour until mixture is of a fine, mealy texture. Beat
eggs until lemon-colored; combine with sugar. Add to flour mixture. Add salt, baking
powder, and extracts. Beat 15 minutes with rotary beater, or five minutes with electric
beater. Bake in greased tube pan in slow oven (250°) 40 minutes, then in moderate
oven (325°) 40 minutes.
Crust wfll form making frosting unnecessary.
Cheese Apple Crisp
6-8 apples (or two cans) 1 tsp, each, cinnamon, allspice,
1 c, sugar and nutmeg
Pare apples and cut in pieces. Mix sugar and spices together, mix with apples.
Put in pan without crust.
Topping for apples
1/4 to 2 c, flour 1 4-0Z, can American cheese
% lb, butter (powdered)
1 c. sugar about Vz c. water
Mix flour, butter, sugar, and cheese until it looks like meal. Put this on top of
apples. This amount makes a thick topping. Sprinkle water over topping and bake
about 45 minutes at 400°. Serve hot or cold. Serves 12,
(This recipe from North Carolina has been handed down through several gen-
erations).
Virginia Baked Ham
Wash a Smithfield* ham in hot water with a stiff brush. Put in boiler of water large
enough for ham to float. When it gets to boiling point, turn heat down, so it does not
even bubble. Cook until bone on large end leaves ham (about 1 inch). Then take it out
of fat. Sprinkle Vi cup or more of brown sugar over the ham and add spices, if
desired. Put ham in hot oven, so it will brown in 10 minutes.
* ''Smithfield" hams come from animals fattened on peanuts. It is thought by the
Virginians that the feeding of peanuts gives a very special flavor to the ham.
Southern Spoon Bread
(Recipe from Roanoke, Virginia)
1 Vz c. corn meal 5 eggs
Va lb. butter 2 c. milk
1 tsp. sugar 1 H c. boiling water
1% tsp. salt 1 tbsp. baking powder
Mix corn meal, salt, and sugar together. Add boiling water. Add butter melted.
Beat eggs and add milk to eggs. Put the two mixtures together. Add baking powder.
Pour into dripper baking pan and bake 30 to 40 minutes in oven at 350°.
Southern Fried Chicken
1 medium-sized fryer, cut into Vz c. sweet milk
desired pieces salt and pepper
1 egg flour as needed
Beat egg lightly; add approximately Vi cup sweet milk, salt, and pepper to taste.
Dip chicken into this mixture, then roll in flour. Cook in piping hot grease. Arrange
chicken in wire frying basket, place in hot grease, and fry until golden brown. You may
add French-fried potatoes to grease and cook along with chicken. Drain and serve.
(^ooRing Viyith Jjr^ llldk
Dr. Marfan Bennion
Chairman, Department of Food and Nutrition, Brigham Young University
YOU, as today's homemaker, than six months unless it is in an
find on your grocer's shelves airtight glass, metal, foil, or polye-
many new products and also thylene-lined container, as otherwise
many old products in new forms, it may become off-flavored and
One such food which can be put to caked. If the dry milk is kept
very good use in your kitchen is non- in air-tight containers at 40° F., it
fat milk solids, often called dry milk, will keep as long as two years. Use
Most of the water is removed from from your stored supply and add to
fresh, liquid skim milk to obtain it, so that none of it gets too old be-
nonfat dry milk. This, then, is a mix- fore it is used,
ture of protein, milk-sugar, minerals. Dry milk is convenient to use.
and some of the water soluble vita- It may be reconstituted with water
mins, especially riboflavin. The use and used as any hquid milk if it is a
of dry milk in many dishes may be grade A product and clean utensils
an excellent way of stepping up the are used in the mixing process. It
nutritive value of your family's may also be used in many cases as
meals. Newer methods of processing the dry product. In recipes for
have made it possible to preserve breads, cakes, and other baked goods,
maximum fresh milk flavor, also, the dry milk may simply be added to
and to give you a product that is or sifted with the other dry ingredi-
readily soluble and easy to use. ents in the recipe. Then, water may
Economy may be the keynote in be used for the required liquid. Oth-
your food budget. If so, dry milk er liquids, as stock, fruit juice, or
will fit nicely into your plan. It is even additional milk, may also be
one of the most economical forms used, depending upon the recipe,
of milk you can buy, costing only You may adapt most of your favor-
about one half as much per quart ite baking recipes for the use of dry
as comparable fluid skim milk. Re- milk in this way. A good general
member, however, that the fat has rule to follow in deciding how much
been removed from the dry milk dry milk to substitute is to use three
solids, so the price cannot be strictly to four tablespoons of dry milk and
compared to fresh whole milk. one cup of water as the liquid to re-
These are the days of modern con- place each cup of milk called for in
veniences, and the use of dry milk a recipe.
in cooking blends in well with this You may like to add an additional
theme. It is convenient to store amount of dry milk to many of
since it does not require refrigeration your old favorite recipes or to new
and takes very little shelf space. It ones you are trying. Since dry milk
should be kept, however, in a tightly is high in food value, you may mark-
covered container, so that it is not edly increase the nutritive value of
left open to the air. Storage tem- a product in this way without seri-
peratures no higher than 75° F. are ously affecting the flavor or texture,
preferable, also. It is unwise to in most cases. If you have a mem-
keep dry milk over a period of more ber of your family who does not like
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103
to drink milk, this may be an excel-
lent way of getting into his diet the
valuable nutrients furnished by one
of nature's most perfect foods— milk.
Perhaps you have not yet tried
adding dry milk to meat or fish
loaves. As much as one-fourth
cup for each pound of meat or
fish should give satisfactory results
in flavor and will, certainly, increase
the nutritive value of the dish, as
well as stretch that food dollar spent
for meat. Other casserole dishes
may also adapt themselves well to
the addition of nonfat dry milk.
TT may be well to mention here
that if the proportion of milk in
a recipe is being increased very
much, a few modifications may be
necessary. A higher proportion of
dry milk may make a product less
tender, so the fat in the recipe may
need to be increased a small amount.
You may notice that extra dry milk
solids seem to thicken as they ab-
sorb more moisture, so the liquid
in a recipe may need to be increased
or the flour decreased somewhat.
Milk solids contain milk-sugar and
may produce a product which is
too sweet, unless the sugar in the
recipe is slightly decreased. The
additional milk-sugar from the non-
fat milk solids may also cause
the baked food to become too
brown, unless the oven temperature
is decreased a little.
There will be differences in the
compactness of packing of various
types of nonfat dry milk, espec-
ially instant dry milk, and it is there-
fore best to follow package direc-
tions when mixing with water to
reconstitute. Usually three-fourths
cup of non-instant powder or one
and one-eighth cup of instant pow-
der to one quart of water is recom-
mended. When mixing, it is best to
sprinkle the powder on top of the
water and beat or mix thoroughly.
The mixture may be shaken in a
tightly covered jar. Water at room
temperature or slightly warmer, will
make it possible to mix the milk
more easily and completely. If
the milk is used for drinking,
either alone or mixed with varying
proportions of liquid whole milk, it
will be improved by chilling in the
refrigerator overnight. The newer
processing methods have produced
a very palatable instant product for
drinking purposes, as well as for use
in cooking.
A light and airy product for top-
ping may be made by whipping non-
fat milk solids. Equal measures
of dry milk and water are usually
satisfactory for this purpose. Make
sure that your bowl is the right size
for the amount of mixture you are
whipping so that thorough mixing
can take place. The bowl, beaters,
and water should be icy cold. Place
the water in the bowl, sprinkle the
milk solids over the top, and beat,
first at low speed and then at high
speed, until stiff. Scrape down the
sides of the bowl occasionally. A
little lemon juice may be added for
stability. Sugar may be added after
the mixture is stiffly beaten. The
topping will not hold up for long
periods of time, but makes a pleas-
ant, economical product when used
immediately.
The use of dry milk, then, offers
you nutrition, convenience, and
economy. Make the most of it.
You really need no special recipes.
Often only a simple substitution is
necessary. However, a few recipes
are offered here to help you get
started and to stimulate your spirit
of adventure in trying new things.
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Pineapple Breakfast Cake
% c. sugar
!4 c. soft shortening
1 egg
Vz c. water
1 Vi c. all-purpose flour
2 tbsp. nonfat dried milk solids
1 /4 tsp. baking powder
Vi tsp. salt
Mix sugar, shortening, and egg together thoroughly. Stir in gradually Vi c. water.
Sift dry ingredients together and stir into sugar and egg mixture — do not beat. Spread
batter in greased 9-inch square pan and sprinkle with pineapple topping. Bake at 375"
for 25 to 30 minutes.
Pineapple Topping
% c. drained crushed pineapple
3 tbsp. softened margarine or butter
3 tbsp. brown sugar
Mix together thoroughly and sprinkle on top of batter before baking.
Whole-Wheat Bread
1 tbsp. salt
V', c. soft shortening or oil
% c. nonfat dried milk solids
5 14 -6 c. whole-wheat flour
iVi c. warm water
Va c. brown sugar or molasses
1 pkg. active dry yeast ( 1 cake com-
pressed yeast may be used)
Measure water and sugar into large mixing bowl; add yeast and stir. Add salt and
shortening. Mix milk solids and 2 c. of the flour together; add to yeast mixture and
stir. Add additional flour to form a soft dough. Turn dough onto lightly floured board
and knead until smooth and elastic and dough does not stick to board. Return to clean
mixing bowl; lightly grease top of dough to prevent drying, cover, put in a warm place,
and allow dough to double in bulk — about 1 — 1 Vi hours. Push dough down. Turn
out on very lightly floured board and shape into two loaves. Place in greased standard
size loaf pans, 7'/4x3V2X2/4 inches. Let rise until doubled in bulk — about 45 minutes.
Bake in preheated oven at 400° F. for 35 to 45 minutes. Yield: 2 loaves.
Fluffy Lemon Chiffon Pie
Vi tsp. grated lemon rind
/4 c. water
Vi package lemon flavored gelatin
Vi c. boiling water
!4 c. sugar
/4 c. lemon juice
Dissolve gelatin in boiling water. Add sugar, lemon juice, and lemon rind and stir
until dissolved. Place in refrigerator until gelatin mixture begins to thicken. Have % c.
water, bowl, and beater very cold. Sprinkle dried milk on top of water and beat mix-
ture until stiff. Beat gelatin mixture into whipped milk. Pour into 8-inch pie pan
lined with baked pastry shell or graham cracker crust. Chill until firm. Yield: Filling
for one 8-inch pie.
Pudding Mix
1 Vi c. sugar
\Vz c. corn starch
1 tsp. salt
7 c. dry milk
Combine ingredients thoroughly and store in covered container.
Pudding
% c. pudding mix
\Vi c. water
1 egg yolk, beaten
/4 tsp. vanilla
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105
Add water gradually to pudding mix, stirring until smooth. Bring to a boil over
gentle heat. Then add egg yolk and vanilla. Cook an additional minute. This recipe
makes three or four servings.
Pudding Variations
Use one of the following:
1 tbsp. chocolate syrup or Vi square
bitter chocolate
V4 tsp. vanilla and 1 tsp. butter
!4 c. chopped fruit, fresh, canned or
dried
K c. cinnamon drops or crushed
peppermint candies
/4 c. chopped nuts
Vi c. toasted cake cubes
!4 c. toasted coconut
If desired, pudding may be served \\ith topping of chocolate or butterscotch sauce,
honey, jam, or whipped cream. Or pudding may be used to fill pie or tart shells, or
as filling between layers of cake. Consistency of pudding may be varied to taste by
increasing or decreasing the amount of water added.
Corn Chowder
4 c. diced raw potatoes
2 c. boiling water
4 tbsp. diced salt pork
1 onion, chopped
2 c. canned, creamed
corn
style or frozen
1 c. dry milk
1 c. water
1 Vi tsp. salt
dash pepper
2 tbsp. chopped parsley
Cook potatoes in water for ten minutes. Saute salt pork and onion gently for five
minutes or until pork is crisp; add to potatoes. Add corn and cook gently until
potatoes are done. Mix dry milk to a smooth paste with water, add paste, salt, and
pepper to soup. Heat thoroughly over boiling water, add chopped parsley and serve.
Serves six to eight.
Macaroni, Cheese, and Eggs
1 '/
c. macaroni, broken into pieces
c. water or fluid milk
c. dry milk, whole or nonfat
tbsp. flour
tsp. salt
1 Vi tbsp. fat
1 Vi c. grated cheese
4 hard cooked eggs, sliced crumbs
mixed with melted fat
For added milk value, use % c. dry milk and 1 Vi tbsp. flour, in place of amounts
given above.
Cook macaroni in boiling water until tender. Drain and discard cooking water.
Put the water or fluid into a pan; add dry milk, flour, and salt. Beat until smooth.
Add fat and cook over very low heat or boiling water until thickened, stirring as
necessary to prevent sticking or lumping. Remove from heat and stir in cheese. Place
macaroni in a greased dish, cover with the eggs, and add the cheese sauce. Sprinkle
crumbs over top. Brown in moderate oven 350° F. for about twenty minutes. Serves
six servings.
Lipst
ream
TN a turbulent stream, a fish must swim hard to stay in the same place. But only a
-■- little extra effort will take him upstream. — Celia Luce
LJou Lyun Sew — Xll — Lrlackets
Jean R. Jennings
]V/fOST dresses and skirts, many
blouses, and various other
articles of clothing require some
type of neat and, usually, incon-
spicuous closing. Since the advent
of zippers, not too many years ago,
they have been by far the most pop-
ular means of finishing openings
used to make our clothing easy to
put on or take off.
Not all articles of clothing lend
themselves to the use of zippers.
Some of the garments that do not
are baby clothes and those used for
very small children; night clothes
of all kinds; undergarments such as
petticoats and panties; and dresses
made of such sheer and delicate
fabrics that zippers would be too
heavy and obvious. All clothing in
these classifications, as well as some
others, need special types of neat
and inconspicuous closings. Here
is where some form of sewed placket
comes into use.
There are several ways of making
plackets for successful closings with-
out zippers. One of these, the faced
placket, was discussed previously in
the article on fitted facings. Others
commonly used include the continu-
ous bound placket, the hemmed
placket, and the faced underarm
placket.
Continuous Bound Phcket
This type of placket is especially
useful for light weight and sheer
materials, being used especially for
lingerie. It is suitable for children's
clothing as well as in straight gath-
ered skirts. It is frequently used to
finish a sleeve opening above a tai-
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CONTINUOUS PLACKET
IN SLASH
IN SEAM
« * * * «
lored, applied cuff; and can finish
an open seam as well as a slash.
1. Cut a straight strip of material
two inches wide and twice the
length of the opening plus one inch.
(On baby clothes and other dainty
materials, make the strip narrower
so the placket will be dainty.)
YOU CAN SEW— XII— PLACKETS
107
2. Baste and stitch strip to the
opening, right sides together. If
the opening occurs in a seam, chp
the seam allowance at top and bot-
tom. Hold the opening as straight
as possible. Taper to a sharp point
when applying to a slashed open-
ing. Continue sewing all around
the opening.
3. Turn in the free edge to en-
close the seam, as on a binding, and
hem to the line of stitching.
4. Finish by stitching the two free
ends together and overcast raw
edges. Sew on snaps with a hook
and eye at the waistline. In baby
clothes use buttons and button-
holes. In slacks, children's clothes,
or pajamas, gripper fasteners are use-
ful.
Hemmed PJacket
This placket is used most fre-
quently on baby dresses to finish the
back neck opening. It is also a
simple and practical type for gath-
ered skirts.
Slash the center back of dress or
skirt on the grain of the material, to
the desired length. For the under the bottom. For the top side of
side of the placket, stitch a narrow the placket, make a hem from V2 to
hem, by hand or machine, on the 1 inch wide. This is lapped over
raw edge, tapering off to nothing at the under side of the placket to
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form a pleat at the bottom. Stitch Hue. Stitch the strips to the gar-
hem. At the end of the placket, ment, backstitching at the ends,
stitch twice across the pleat to stay 3. Steam press the placket seams
the opening. open and trim allowances on facings
to V4 inch. Allowances on a dress
Faced Underarm Phcket may be left wider for possible alter-
A faced or a faced and hemmed ation. Turn facings to the wrong
placket gives a flat, smooth closing side and press well to insure thin
with snaps or hooks. It may be edges along the opening,
used on light wools or silks in situa- 4. Finish raw edges to prevent
tions where zippers are not practical fraying.
or not desired. It is also frequently 5. Anchor seam tape behind front
used on the bottom of tight-fitting facing through which to sew snaps
sleeves. and hooks and eyes. Fasten front
In making this placket, both front facing to dress with an invisible
and back edges are faced with a hemming stitch,
lengthwise strip of matching fabric. 6. On the back edge, clip through
Stitch, press, and edge finish the seam allowance at top and bottom
side and waistline seams then: so they will turn forward under
1. Cut two strips on the length- front edge. Hand stitch to front at
wise grain 1V2 inches wide and 2 top and bottom. Overcast raw
inches longer than the opening. edges.
2. Place the strips on the front If seam allowances are wide
and back placket edges with right enough, one or both raw edges may
sides together. Using a V4 inch be hemmed back instead of faced,
seam allowance, and leaving one In this case edges must be rein-
inch above and below placket ends, forced with seam tape to prevent
place the strip for the front edge so stretching.
that it can be stitched on the seam Remember always that every
line of the garment. The strip for placket should be made to fit as
the back edge can be stitched at smoothly as a seam in order to re-
least V2 inch from the side seam tain a perfect fit.
^n LLntold cJale
June N. Ashton
These things
Have a story
To tell: tepee rock rings . . .
Broken arrows without feathers . .
The Sioux.
The Silver Leash
Chapter 2
Beatrice Rordame Parsons
Synopsis: LaRue Harding, an orphan,
who has lived since childhood in California
with an aunt, goes to Fivelakes, Arizona,
after the death of her sister Amelia. La-
Rue finds that her brother-in-law Herbert
Vetterly is confined to a wheel chair and
his children seem hostile towards LaRue.
THE huge, silver-platter moon
which rolled itself out from
behind Coyote Peak during
the night, found LaRue crying
miserably into her pillow. She felt
grief-stricken not to have seen
Amelia before her death, and to
know her children.
But Aunt Mettie had needed her.
There had been very little money
for a nurse, even if Aunt Mettie had
agreed to have one, and Aunt Met-
tie had been kind, thoughtful, see-
ing that LaRue went to school, to
college. LaRue had repaid her
aunt-mother by doing the hundreds
of daily kindnesses which kept Aunt
Mettie happy. Yet, LaRue's mind
kept nagging, seventeen years is a
long time.
When dawn brought a turquoise
sky with a great, yellow ball of sun
to drench the chill from the desert-
cooled night, the icy coldness in
LaRue's heart did not melt. Even
though Aunt Mettie was no longer
a prisoner of ill-health in the neat
apartment in San Francisco, LaRue
felt the tug of homesickness. She
longed for familiar sights and odors
—great steel bridges spanning miles
of water; cloud banks running in
from the Pacific to smell of fog.
Erma put her questions into
words later, when she and LaRue
were alone. ''Why didn't you come?
Mother wanted to see you so badly.
You were a Harding, and she was
proud of that. She felt that you
belonged here. . . .'' Her voice shook
and she left the room, not waiting
to hear LaRue's explanations.
Joel was youthful, inarticulate, but
he broke out: 'Tou didn't come."
She tried to tell him her reasons.
But he grunted rudely.
"Seventeen years is a long time."
'Too long," she cried painfully,
but she was talking to his back as
he went out.
She tried to talk to Herb. But
he had grown silent, morose. He
ate the meals which Mrs. Johnstone
prepared and said little to the chil-
dren. He had closed his architect's
office as Amelia's death had closed
his life. He told her: "I have a
small income. Enough. I used to
build things. Now I build no
more. . . ."
Watching the way he rolled his
chair along the hall to his room,
LaRue learned that the chair, and
the bedroom door which he always
closed tightly behind him, had be-
come the only security he knew.
LaRue found that the things he
had written in his letter were true.
He and his children were drifting
apart. Once they had been a fam-
ily, close, happy, loved and beloved.
They were a family no longer.
Just four hurt, bewildered people,
separated by the bits of their shat-
tered world!
LaRue longed to help them. But
she didn't know how, in the face
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of their anger and resentment. Tears
welling into her throat warned her
that she was an outsider. That she
had no place in their lives.
She did try to coax Herb from
the house. Paying no attention to
the way his body tensed, the way
his hands gripped the wheels of his
chair, she spoke casually, 'Td like
to drive your car, Herb. See the
town. Come with me. We'll put
your chair in the back and. . . ."
npHE roughness of his refusal
jarred her. ''I never go any-
where. I don't like people staring
at me. . . !' He was ashamed of
his outburst, and said more quietly:
'Tve only been out of the house
once or twice since the accident."
His pale face was indrawn, fright-
ened. ''Dr. Alan Rutherford want-
ed to take some X-rays. He's never
given up the idea that an operation
might help."
LaRue caught at a straw, saying
eagerly: ''It might, Herb. Why
haven't you?"
He brushed the matter away' with
a violent wave of his hand. ''I could
be a great deal worse off, if the op-
eration failed."
LaRue understood. He had suf-
fered so much pain. He could not
take a chance on more.
He returned to the matter of the
drive. 'Tou are welcome to take
my car. I'd like you to meet peo-
ple. See Fivelakes. We're pretty
proud of our town." He paused,
then said pleasantly: ''Erma can
show you around."
Erma's face was still as her eyes
met LaRue's. She pleated a corner
of her napkin and her voice was
forced. 'Tm sorry, Father. I'm
very busy."
Herb felt the rudeness of her re-
fusal and turned to Joel. "You go
with her. . . ."
But Joel was already shaking his
dark head. 'Tm going over to Ed-
le s.
LaRue's expression must have
told Connie how hurt she was, for
the child spoke cheerfully.
'Til go. Aunt LaRue. I know
lots of people. I'll take you to see
Harding Hospital. Introduce you to
Dr. Alan Rutherford. Maybe we'll
meet Gladys Drew. She's engaged
to Dr. Alan. We could go up to
Hillhigh House. Grandie would be
there. He's terribly old. More than
a hundred, I'll bet."
Erma corrected her with unneces-
sary sharpness. "He's eighty-two,
Connie. Do you always have to
exaggerate?"
Connie lifted her chin. "You
don't have to scold me, Erma.
You're not my mother." There were
tears on her lashes.
LaRue spoke hurriedly: "Where
else could we go, Connie?"
"To the Supermarket," cried Con-
nie, with a sidelong glance in Er-
ma's direction. "Erma's boy friend,
Bob Powers, works in the fresh
vegetables." She found Erma scowl-
ing at her, and added: "I'll go
change into my best dress."
She ran to her room, and in a
few minutes Erma and Joel drifted
out of the house. Herb looked apolo-
getic.
"It wasn't this way when their
. . . mother . . . was here." He
paused, drew a deep, unsteady
breath and went on. "They never
used to bicker. Now the slightest
thing brings harsh words."
LaRue tried to reassure him.
"Children often quarrel. Herb."
THE SILVER LEASH
m
He shook his dark head, a wor-
ried Hne drawing tight about his
mouth.
'This is different, LaRue. I don't
understand it. The children have
changed. Erma and Joel have too
much time on their hands now that
school is out. Half the time they
don't bother to tell me where they
are going. I know very little about
their companions."
''Why not have Erma and Joel
bring their friends home?" asked
LaRue. "They could play records.
Have barbecues."
'Tve suggested those things/'
said Herb tensely, "but they simply
don't bring their friends home. Bob
Powers takes Erma out. But I do
not know him. Joel's friend, Eddie
Parrat, has been in trouble about
cars. . . ." He was frankly at a loss.
'Tve told Joel not to associate with
Eddie and his crowd, but. . . ." He
lifted his hands helplessly from the
wheels of his chair. He looked
beaten, afraid. His voice trembled:
"My sister lives in another part of
the State. She'd be glad to take
the children. They need someone
who . . . cares!"
"You care," cried LaRue loudly.
"Oh, Herb, they'd be miserable
away from you and their home. If
you'd only try. . . ."
H
E lifted his hands from the
wheels of his chair and grated:
"Look at me, LaRue. Fm a cripple!
Physically and mentally! Without
Amelia Fm . . . nothing!"
He turned his chair abruptly and
swept out of the room. His door
closed loudly. LaRue looked at the
panel in pity and distress.
If I could only help, she thought
bitterly. But the children had shut
her out. All except Connie, who
was coming along the hall, dressed
in a fresh blue cotton dress, her
long, brown braids tied with blue
ribbons.
She looked at LaRue in surprise.
"I thought you'd be getting ready!"
There was disappointment in her
small face. "Aren't we going. Aunt
LaRue?"
LaRue got quickly up from her
chair. "I'll go and change," she
said. But she wished she hadn't
asked for the car. She felt moody,
depressed by her conversation with
Herb. Her hands were unsteady as
she fastened a golden-linked belt
about the waist of her becoming
leaf-green cotton frock. "You're
the official guide," she told Connie
in forced merriment as she turned
the car into the highway. "Let's go
see the old house, first."
"Let's," cried Connie eagerly,
"we're sure to see Grandie. He's
always there. ..."
But when they came to the place,
huge machines blocked the road up
the steep incline.
"Never mind, Aunt LaRue," con-
soled Connie in her elderly manner,
"someday, before you go home, you
can walk up to the house."
LaRue didn't know why she felt
so disappointed. It couldn't pos-
sibly matter if she didn't visit the
old house. She drove slowly along,
seeing brown, auburn, gray, and
black beards on most of the men
who were growing them for the
celebration.
Connie giggled, saying: "It's lots
of fun, Aunt LaRue. The carnival's
at Blue Lake, but there's a parade
in town, and a lot of other things.
Fm going to have a new dress. So
is Erma. Our dressmaker makes
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them. But Erma's going to sew
lots of sequins on her skirt hke a
Mexican Senorita. She's going to
wear pink, because Bob hkes it. She
hkes Bob, awful much! He's only
got the littlest beard, but she likes
it."
They drove into the part of the
valley which had reminded LaRue
of a prehistorically baked cake. Jut-
ting boulders of pink and yellow
sandstone had been left undis-
turbed, and houses, patios, and
swimming pools had been built in
their midst, giving the lovely ranch-
type homes a look of the wilder-
ness.
'Tou have to be awful rich to
live in Maple Park," explained Con-
nie. 'That's why Grandie is giving
Dr. Alan the money to build his
house. Grandie is always telling
people that Dr. Alan might as well
have it now, as later!" She was
very grave. ''Grandie believes in
giving things to people while he's
here to see them enjoy them. So
he can enjoy them, too. He asked
Daddy to design a nice house, but
Daddy. . . ." Her face fell as her
voice trailed away.
Suddenly she motioned for LaRue
to turn into the huge, black-topped
parking lot at the Supermarket.
"I'll introduce you to Bob Powers."
\ S they walked across the lot with
its hundreds of cars, Connie
said: "It's bigger than the open-air
pavilion at Blue Lake where they
hold the square dancing." She
looked expectantly into her aunt's
face. "Will you be staying for the
Festival?"
LaRue shook her head. "I'll
have to go back to the bank long
before that!"
She didn't know that her voice
revealed her anxiety to get away.
She followed Connie into the huge
shopping center, and through the
aisles to the fresh \egetable depart-
ment. Bob Powers was cutting the
tops from carrots and arranging them
in a colorful triangle.
Connie introduced them. "This
is my Aunt LaRue, Bob. I've told
her about you being Erma's friend.
I told her how you're trying to raise
a beard."
There were a few wheat-blond
strands of beard on his chin, and
when LaRue shook hands he colored
slightly. "If my hair was dark,
they'd show up better." He was
young, tall, and his wheat-blond
hair was crew-cut. He said: "I
think Erma's pretty swell!"
LaRue smiled. She liked him for
that. "The next time you come to
take Erma out," she suggested,
"drop in and see her father. He
would like to know you. . . ." Her
voice failed, remembering that Herb
was shy before people. Yet she
liked this young man very much.
"Come for dinner some evening,"
she said. "Mrs. Johnstone is a good
cook." She felt awkward, knowing
that she had overstepped her privi-
leges in her brother-in-law's home.
He did not promise, as he turned
back to his carrots. "Maybe, some-
day, if Erma asks me." He picked up
his knife and whacked the top from
a carrot with undue vigor, as if he
was angry about something, thought
LaRue.
When they left the market, Con-
nie and LaRue drove up a quiet
street. "There's the hospital," cried
Connie, excitedly. "We'll be sure
to meet some of the patients that
Dr. Alan brings out in the sunshine.
THE SILVER LEASH
113
Gladys doesn't like to go inside. She
says the smell of antiseptics makes
her ill. But she comes each day to
bring magazines and things."
LaRue studied the three-story,
benign old gray stone building.
There was a name carved into
ancient stone over the portal. She
read it silently: Jonas Harding Hos-
pital.
Harding, she thought, feeling a
tiny prick of pride. It looked nice,
printed there. She thought of how
little she knew of the Hardings.
Jonas Harding seemed a figure out
of a book or a movie. She thought:
Fve missed so much! then won-
dered at the thought. The Hardings
were of no importance to her. She
had only known one, her sister,
Amelia. She had almost forgotten
her!
Connie was bouncing up and
down on the front seat. She opened
the door. ''Come on, Aunt LaRue.
I told you we'd meet Dr. Alan and
Gladvs. There they are, over there
on the lawn." She skipped quickly
ahead of LaRue, smiling, and greet-
ing some of the patients who sat in
wheel chairs or on benches in the
sun. She called their names. ''Dr.
Alan! Gladys! I w^ant you to know
my Aunt LaRue."
A tall man in white turned and
smiled down at LaRue. He had
slightly irregular features, which
gave him a distinguished look, and
his dark eyes under his brown crew-
cut were friendly.
"Fm pleased to meet you, Miss
LaRue Harding," he said^ shaking
her hand. His fingers were firm,
strong, the fingers of a surgeon.
'Tve heard a lot about you from
your sister."
He drew a beautiful, green-eyed
girl a little forward, saying: *'My
fiancee, Miss Gladys Drew."
She had very dark hair, green eyes,
and she wore a white, sleeveless
frock, which set off her deep tan.
CHE touched LaRue's fingers, then
looked at her with wide, inter-
ested eyes.
''Are you going to make your
home in Fivelakes, Miss Harding?"
LaRue did not mean to be rude,
but she said quickly: "Oh, no, Fm
going back to San Francisco."
Dr. Alan Rutherford smiled, said
a little stiffly: "You don't like it
here! Your sister loved it."
LaRue was silent. She was glad
that Connie was chattering in a
lively tone. "How is Mrs. Lawson,
Dr. Alan? When is she going to
have her new baby?" She sounded so
grown-up, so elderly.
"She's fine," saidDr. Alan. "Fve
been keeping her in the hospital
for a while. But she's going home."
To LaRue he explained: "The baby
seems determined to arrive before
schedule."
They talked for a little while long-
er. Then LaRue said they must be
getting home for dinner.
Back in the car, Connie sighed
happily. "I just love Dr. Alan.
You'll love him, too. Aunt LaRue,
when you get to know him better."
It was silly, but LaRue found her
cheeks warm. She had liked Dr.
Alan Rutherford very much.
Connie asked eagerly: "Aunt
LaRue, I just love babies. Can I
tend yours when they come?"
LaRue had to laugh. "Fm not
even engaged, darling. But when
I meet the right man and settle
down, I'll send you a ticket to San
Francisco. . . ."
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Connie was shaking her brown
head. There was a wistful look in
her soft blue eyes.
'1 don't want to come to San
Francisco, Aunt LaRue! I want
you to stay in Fivelakes. Then I
could tend your baby every day!"
LaRue hated to dash that wistful
look from Connie's face, but she
said firmly: "My vacation ends by
the first week in July. Fve got to
get back to the office."
She was not aware of the relief
in her tone.
{To he continued)
L^hloe v. ulatch ^Jjaines I Hakes LKose Jj
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"V^^RS. Chloe V. Hatch Daines, Logan, Utah, specializes in making rose design quilts.
-^ *• These unusually beautiful quilts, stitched with superior artistty are made as
special gifts for the grandchildren. Whenever a marriage approaches, she has her rose
quilt ready.
Mrs. Hatch's handwork hobbies began when she was a young girl, pioneering
with her family in New Mexico, Arizona, and in the little community of Diaz, Mexico.
The settlers in these communities made most of their clothes and household goods.
Mrs. Hatch made straw hats for herself and family and was awarded prizes at the fairs
for her handiwork. She wove cloth, designed and sewed dresses, cutting her own pat-
terns. In later years she made crocheted bedspreads, tablecloths, and doilies, as well as
many beautiful articles of hairpin lace. She is an excellent cook and lo\'es all the home-
making arts.
Now eighty-seven years old, she is still actively interested in her hobbies, in her
family, and in Church activities. She has held many positions of responsibility in Relief
Society and is well known and greatly loved for her many works of charity.
///|/ JLoveuest Valentine
Mabel Law Atkinson
TT was Valentine's Day. I sat in
my city apartment and nos-
talgically recalled the groups of chil-
dren I had taught in a country
school, as they gathered with shin-
ing eyes and eager voices about the
beautiful valentine box they had
helped make bulging with valen-
tines. Always, one of my own chil-
dren was among this group at my
desk before the bell rang for school
to commence.
I smiled as I remembered the
knocking on our door Valentine
nights, and the sound of running
footsteps which told us the children
had placed their valentines, 'To
Mother and Dad,'' on the porch
and were scampering to hide behind
the two large lilacs, one on each
side of the house, to watch our de-
light as we received them. With
mellowed tenderness, I recalled the
time, years ago, when I tried to pick
up the valentine left us by our first-
born son— only to find he had paint-
ed his heart on the porch with col-
ored chalk. I smiled even more ten-
derly as I remembered his boyish
laugh of triumph echoing through
the bare lilac limbs at my repeated
attempts to pick it up before I final-
ly fathomed the reason I could not.
'Valentine Day in the city can
never be as delightful as in the
country," I said to no one in par-
ticular, for I was alone.
I was recalled from my memories
by a gentle knock on my door. For
a moment I even wondered if it
could be someone leaving a valen-
tine. My smile broadened as I said
to myself, ''Don't get foolish ideas,
here in the loneliness of this city,
and in an upstairs apartment at
that."
I walked across the room and
leisurely opened the door, to find no
one there, closed it again, and sat
down to read.
Was I dreaming or did I hear
velvet footfalls in the hall? Again
came a gentle knock, then soft, but
quickened footsteps retreating.
Eagerly I opened the door, this
time to catch a glimpse of a bright
skirt just disappearing around the
corner of the hall leading to the
stairway. The unmistakable frag-
rance of spring came to me. Then
I saw them — a bouquet of a dozen
yellow dafl^odils laughing up at me,
thumb-tacked to the outside of my
door, and hanging from them in
their cellophane wrappings were two
large chocolate hearts.
Quickly I went to the head of
the stairs, and there stood a radiant
young girl much like a daffodil her-
self with her yellow curls and sun-
shiny smile. She was fairly burst-
ing with the joy of her errand. Mine
was the twelfth place she had quiet-
ly visited, leaving the cheery daffodil
valentines, as gifts of a lovely, gra-
cious lady in her eighties who had
found, during her lifetime of serv-
ice, that the sun she gave to others
also warmed her own soul.
Now, whenever I get a little
homesick for country joys, I recall
my loveliest valentine and know the
delightful friendliness of city hearts.
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FROM THE FIELD
a
Hulda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for ''Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Handbook of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Margaret R. Jackson
NEW ENGLAND MISSION, HARMON BRANCH RELIEF SOCIETY,
STEPHENVILLE, NEWFOUNDLAND, DISPLAYS QUILT
Left to right: Rayola Keeler, Second Counselor; Johanne Griffith, Secretary-Treas-
urer; Ranee Mabry, organist; Kathy Odekirk, chorister; Mildred L. Anderson, President;
Faye S. Munson, First Counselor; Pearl Spear.
Margaret R. Jackson, President, New England Mission Relief Society, reports a
communication from this small but active branch: "We are so proud of our little
Relief Society here at Harmon, Newfoundland, as it is the first ever to be organized in
this part of the Northland. We have made two welfare quilts, and anticipate one
more for next year. Due to the large amount of snow we get here, we have questioned
whether or not we would be able to meet every week, but our Heavenly Father has truly
blessed us, for we hold Relief Society regularly. We are all here because our husbands
are serving in the United States Air Force at this base. We are a big, happy family
and enjoy and love the friendship with each member."
Sister Jackson comments on this organization: "We, too, are very proud of this
dauntless little group who so well exemplify what Relief Society can mean."
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Photograph submitted b> Ada K. Sneddon
RENO STAKE (NEVADA), RENO WARD RELIEF SOCIETY DISPLAYS
EARLY AMERICAN HAND-BRAIDED RUG
Front row, left to right: Gladys Jamieson, President; Beatrice Ditty, Second Coun-
selor.
Back row, fifth and sixth from the left: First Counselor Yerda Robertson; work
meeting leader Doris Thornton.
Ada K. Sneddon, President, Reno Stake Relief Society, reports: ''Combining wool
and sentiment, with sixteen months of hard but pleasant work, members of Reno Ward
Relief Society have created a masterpiece in an Early American designed rug. The
scalloped oval measures more than thirteen by eighteen feet. Discarded all-wool cloth-
ing, and some souvenirs and heirlooms, were used. Every piece was ripped and
thoroughly washed. Much of the wool was then dyed to work out the selected color
scheme of shades of beige, brown, and green. This phase of the work required over
ten dollars worth of dye. When dry, all the wool was pressed, then cut into measured
two-inch strips. These were sewed together on the bias so that no seam bulges would
appear in the braids. Braiders folded the strips to conceal all raw edges. More than
twenty-five dollars worth of waxed linen and fiber threads was used in sewing the braids
together. The very sharp three-sided leather needles required to penetrate the heavy
fabrics also penetrated the fingers of the sewers occasionally.
''By-products of the rug project are friendships sewed as firmly as the rug; several
shut-ins became happy participants, thus exchanging lonely idleness for happy useful-
ness; ward newcomers and inactive members were drawn into the work circle; and many
burdens and worries were shared and thereby lightened."
This unusually beautiful and serviceable rug was made especially for the Relief
Society room in the Reno Ward chapel. "So with wool and work, a new room has
been transformed into a homey abode already rich with love and memories." It is-
estimated that, with normal use, the rug will wear seventy-five years.
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Photograph submitted by Ada J. Taylor
FARR WEST STAKE (UTAH), LITTLE VALLEY BRANCH OPENING SOCIAL
September 30, 1958
Second row, right to left: President Juanita Cooley; First Counselor Phyllis Ander-
son; Second Counselor Marilyn Zollinger.
Ada J. Taylor, President, Farr West Stake Relief Society, reports that this branch
was organized in February 1956 and is participating in Relief Society work in an out-
standing manner. A complete organization is maintained despite the branch being
composed entirely of construction workers and their families, which creates a problem
in keeping the branch functioning when there are so many transient members. "We are
so thrilled with this Relief Society, and are pleased with the participation of so many
young mothers."
Photograph submitted by Ruth atapiey
PHOENIX STAKE (ARIZONA) VISITING TEACHERS CONVENTION
September 26, 1958
Ruth Stapley, President, Phoenix Stake Relief Society, reports: "The theme
^Tonic for Visiting Teachers' was carried out in the invitations in a little booklet given
to each visiting teacher and in the refreshment table. Each visiting teacher was pre-
sented with a booklet made in the form of a tonic bottle which contained inspirational
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
119
messages and a letter from Elder Delbert L. Stapley of the Council of the Twelve,
to the visiting teachers. On the back cover of the booklet were the words: 'Add years
to your life! Add life to your years through Relief Society activities.'
"Over loo women, grandmothers, mothers, and great-grandmothers enjoyed the
day renewing old acquaintances and meeting new friends. The inspirational talk en-
titled Tills for Precious People' and the beautiful music rendered by our sisters from
Ajo, who came 125 miles to sing for us, made the day complete.
"Delicious punch was served from a large cake of blue ice carved to resemble a
tonic bottle and decorated with yellow chrysanthemums. The visiting teachers were
honored through their presidents, as each president was presented a very lovely clear
vase with blue stones inside and net on the outside."
Photograph submitted by Rowena J. Warr
CASSIA STAKE, GROUSE CREEK WARD (UTAH) VISITING TEACHERS
ACHIEVE OUTSTANDING RECORD
Front row, left to right: Counselor Rhea Toyn; President Ella Tanner; Counselor
Martha Kimber.
Second row, left to right: Bishop Hughie Thompson; Marjorie Thompson; Opal
Kimber; Archie Toyn, Counselor in ward bishopric.
Third row, left to right: Delbert Tanner, Counselor in ward bishopric; Winifred
Paskett; Elmer Kimber, member of the stake high council; Annie Kimber; Amanda
Paskett; Launa Richins.
Back row, left to right: Vera Tanner; Lorna Tanner, visiting teacher message leader;
Wilda Kimber; Naomi Kimber; Oreta Lee; Jenny Richins; Louisa Roberts.
Rowena J. Warr, President, Cassia Stake Relief Society, reports that the Grouse
Creek Ward Visiting Teachers have completed eight years of one hundred per cent
visiting teaching. "One reason for their successful record is the support of their Priest-
hood authorities."
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Photograph submitted by Fannie B, Hatch
JUAREZ STAKE (MEXICO) VISITING TEACHERS CONVENTION
July 3, 1958
Back row, standing, fourteenth and fifteenth from the left: Fannie B. Hatch, Presi-
dent, Juarez Stake Relief Society; Willa T. Wagner, Counselor; seventh from the left:
Louisa M. Wilson, visiting teacher message leader.
Sister Hatch reports: "Our stake convention for visiting teachers was held July 3,
1958, in Colonia Dublan, The theme of the day was 'Visiting teachers, a beacon-
light, sending out rays of wisdom, prudence, and sympathetic understanding.' We felt
the occasion to be inspiring, in that it brought attention to the advancement made in
the program and set up goals for the coming year. Better attendance at report meetings
and sacrament meetings was stressed, and we are hoping for improvement in this respect.
Those with outstanding records of achievement were honored. We are happy to report
that we have real devotion to the cause of Relief Society in our stake."
Photograph bubmitted by Virgie Shuman
ATLANTA STAKE (GEORGIA) VISITING TEACHER CONVENTION
May 17, 1958
Front row, left to right, beginning with the fifth sister: Pauline Gilbert and Lucille
K. Brown, stake board members; Virgie Shuman, President, Atlanta Stake Relief So-
ciety; Margaret Yarn, Second Counselor; Flossie Nicholls, First Counselor; William L.
Nicholls, President, Atlanta Stake; Jane Noe and Ann Holloman, stake board members.
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121
Sister Shuman reports: "We were very proud of our visiting teachers convention.
We have 121 visiting teachers in the stake, and ninety-two were present. We felt
that the attendance was remarkably good, as the sisters had to travel from forty to 350
miles, the farthest branch being 175 miles one way. Forty-six of the visiting teachers
achieved a one hundred per cent record for the year. We hope to do better this year.
The stake board furnished a smorgasbord dinner for the sisters, which was followed
by a meeting where President Nicholls and I spoke, encouraging the sisters to keep the
work going, as the sisters of the stake needed their visits. The Singing Mothers sup-
plied the music for the evening. Church books were presented to the teachers who
made one hundred per cent records."
Photograph submitted by Nellie Gleed
MALAD STAKE (IDAHO) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR
STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, August 31, 1958
Front row, left to right: Carol Eliason; Leora Brown; Thelma Gibbs; June Ward^
chorister; Margaret Laws, organist.
Second row, left to right: Carol Dawn Willie; June Crowther; Eliza Knudson; Ora
Hoskins; Mary Crowther; Leah Waldron; Mary Gleed; Ruth Davis.
Third row, left to right: Hazel Williams; Cora WilHams; Mabel Dyring; Lizzie
Edwards; Wanda Napier; Thelma Price; Margaret Richards; Verene John.
Fourth row, left to right: Blanche Budge; Villa Facer; Esther Hall; May Richards;
Hope Price; Roma Facer; Robbie Raymond; Eunice Tovey.
Fifth row, left to right: Deloria Price; Mattie John; Maurine Gibbs; Marteal Hen-
dricks; Nellie Gleed, President, Malad Stake Relief Society; Mary Alice Williams; Viola
Thomas; Ada Smith.
Sister Gleed reports: "These women are all active and successful workers in the
Relief Societies. There are nine wards represented."
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Photograph submitted by Lesslie Stubbs
SACRAMENTO STAKE (CALIFORNIA) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE,
June 29, 1958
Director Julia Larson stands at the right; the accompanist Wilma Richardson
stands in the first row at the right.
The following selections were presented: ''Come Unto Me/' by Franz Liszt;
''Beside Still Waters," by Bernard Hamblen; "Forth in Thy Name, O Lord, I Go," by
Florence Jepperson Madsen; "The Lord's Prayer," by B. Cecil Gates.
Lesshe Stubbs is the former stake president. The new president is Emily Burr.
Photograph submitted by Mary Stirk
EAST OGDEN STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR
STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, February 2, 1958
Front row: second from the left, Alice Thorsted, soloist; tenth from the left,
Dorothy Koldewyn, chorister; thirteenth from the left, Mary Lund, Second Counselor;
fourteenth from the left, Erma Piatt, First Counselor.
Mary Stirk is president of the East Ogden Stake Relief Society.
^,^ , LESSJON DEPARTMENT
cJheolog^ — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 16— The Revelation to Emma Hale Smith
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Section 25)
For Tuesday, May 5, 1959
Objective: "And verily I say unto thee that thou shalt lay aside the things of this
world, and seek for the things of a better" (D & C 25:10) .
Emma Hale Smith 25 points out that Emma was yet
Section 25 is the only revelation to receive the Holy Ghost by the
in The Doctrine and Covenants laying on of hands. The latter cir-
that is directed to a woman. The cumstance forms a part of the back-
revelation is prophetic in calling ground of Section 27. (See Lesson
Emma Hale Smith to a position of 15.) By reason of Emma's becoming
honor and responsibility. It also a member of the kingdom of God
admonishes her to a life of con- and enjoying the blessings of the
secrated devotion to duties de- Holy Ghost, she would be prepared
manded by reason of her position as to fulfill some of the specific duties
the Prophet's wife. indicated in this revelation.
The first verse of the section Emma Hale (born July 10, 1804)
points out that '\ . . all those who became the wife of Joseph Smith on
receive my gospel are sons and January 18, 1827. They were married
daughters of my kingdom" (D & for approximately seventeen and
C 25:1 ). Although this fact is made one-half years before the martyrdom
known in many subsequent revela- of the Prophet. There followed
tions (D & C 34:3; 35:2; 45:8), it three and one-half years of widow-
is significant in this revelation hood, when she married (Major)
because Emma had been baptized Lewis Crum Bidamon with whom
during the last week of June 1830, she lived until her death on April
and confirmed a member of the 30, 1879.
Church in August. In the meantime When the saints moved West
(July 1830) she was the subject of under the direction of the Twelve
this revelation. Verse eight of Section Apostles with Brigham Young as
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their President, Emma Smith did
not acompany them. She did not
continue in the faith for which her
husband and his brother Hyrum
gave their hves as martyrs.
There were born to Joseph and
Emma nine children. The first
three, two of whom were twins, died
at birth; one other child was born
dead and another one died at the
age of fourteen months. The other
four grew to adulthood. Of these
children eight were sons, and the
only girl was one of the twins who
died at birth. Their last child was
born after the Prophet's martyrdom.
After the death of their twins, they
adopted the motherless twins of
John Murdock, one of whom, a boy,
died at one day less than eleven
months of age, only a few days after
the Prophet was tarred and feath-
ered by a mob at Hiram, Ohio.
(SeeD.H. 0.1:265.)
Emma has been described as a
woman of exceptional intelligence,
refinement, and culture. She was
neat in appearance and an immacu-
late housekeeper. Into her home
came such visitors as Stephen A.
Douglas and Josiah Quincy, Mayor
of Boston, not to mention the great
many faithful Latter-day Saints who
also came to visit the Prophet.
As the wife of the Prophet,
Emma was called upon to undergo
many hardships due to the persecu-
tions the Prophet underwent. There
were times when the Prophet was
imprisoned, in exile, on missions, and
discharging his many duties in
organizing and directing the Church.
Persecution drove the Smith family
from one place to another so that
their children were born in four
different states. It was during some
of these trials and persecutions that
Section 25 was received. (I am
indebted to the research of Ray-
mond T. Bailey for much of the
foregoing material.)
The Lord's Counsel to Emma
Her first duty, Emma was told
in Section 25, was to be a comfort
to her husband in his afflictions by
giving '\ . . consoling words, in the
spirit of meekness" (D & C 25:5).
Where the Prophet was to go she
was to be with him, and in the
absence of Oliver Cowdery to act as
his secretary or scribe (D & C.
25:6).
In the fourth verse the Lord
admonishes Emma to murmur not
concerning things which she had
not seen. This counsel may arise
out of the fact that she and also the
''world" were not to see The Book
of Mormon plates, which the Lord
declared was his wisdom. Regard-
less of how people may feel about
the ways of the Lord, if we accept
him as an all-wise Being, we will
recognize, as did Isaiah, that his
ways are not always the ways of liian
nor are his thoughts the thoughts
of men. (See Isaiah 55:8-9.) This
revelation sets forth a principle
which is indicated in other scrip-
tures; namely, that the Lord calls
imperfect people into his service,
although he does require that they
show forth fruits of repentance.
An Elect Lady
Verse three states that Emma is
". . . an elect lady, whom I have
called." The way in which this
honor was to come to her is indi-
cated in verse seven:
And thou shalt be ordained under his
hand to expound scriptures, and to exhort
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the church, according as it shall be given
thee by my Spirit (D & C 25:7).
When the Rehef Society of the
Church was organized on Thursday,
March 17, 1842, Emma's call as an
". . . elect lady . . /' was fulfilled.
Of this expression, the Prophet
Joseph Smith said on that occasion:
I assisted in commencing the organiza-
tion of "The Female Relief Society of
Nauvoo" in the Lodge Room. Sister Em-
ma Smith, President, and Sister Elizabeth
Ann Whitney and Sarah M. Cleveland,
Counselors. I gave much instruction, read
in the New Testament, and Book of Doc-
trine and Covenants, concerning the Elect
Lady, and showed that the elect meant
to he elected to a certain work, &c., and
that the revelation was then fulfilled by
Sister Emma's election to the Presidency
of the Society, she having previously been
ordained to expound the Scriptures. Emma
was blessed, and her counselors were or-
dained by Elder John Taylor (D. H. C.
IV:552-553). (Italics, the Author's.)
In her capacity as President of
the Relief Society, Emma certainly
could expound the scriptures and
exhort the women of the Society to
good works by the inspiration of the
Holy Ghost.
The term ''ordained" as used in
this revelation and in the days of
the Prophet was used synonymously
with ''set apart." Today, we
"ordain" male members of the
Church to an office in the Priest-
hood, and we "set apart" men and
women to offices and callings in the
Church. And so with Emma, she
was, as we would say today, set apart
to her callings by the Priesthood
who rule in the kingdom of God.
The Piiesthood Rules
The apostle Paul is reported in
the New Testament to say that a
woman is not to "speak" in the
Church. According to the Prophet
Joseph Smith, as given in the
inspired version of the Bible, Paul's
counsel was that women should not
"rule" in the Church, "but to be
under obedience," that is, they are
under the direction of the Priest-
hood authorities and receive their
instructions from them. (See I Cor.
14:34-35.) This principle was stated
by the Prophet to the members of
the Relief Society the month follow-
ing their organization:
You will receive instructions through
the order of the Priesthood which God
has established, through the medium of
those appointed to lead, guide and direct
the affairs of the Church in this last dis-
pensation; and I now turn the key in your
behalf in the name of the Lord, and this
Society shall rejoice, and knowledge and
intelligence shall flow down from this
time henceforth; this is the beginning of
better days to the poor and needy, who
shall be made to rejoice and pour forth
blessings on your heads (D. H. C.
IV:6o7).
We have an example of the
Priesthood directing the affairs of
the Church in the circumstances
that led to the organization of the
Society. Notwithstanding certain
sisters had drawn up a constitution
to organize a society, it is reported
by Sarah M. Kimball:
In the spring of 1842, a maiden lady
(Miss Cook) was seamstress for me, and
the subject of combining our efforts for
assisting the Temple hands came up in
conversation. She desired to be helpful,
but had no means to furnish. I told her
I would furnish material if she would make
some shirts for the workmen. It was then
suggested that some of the neighbors
might wish to combine means and efforts
with ours, and we decided to invite a few
to come and consult with us on the sub-
ject of forming a Ladies' Society. The
neighboring sisters met in my parlor and
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decided to organize. I was delegated to
call on Sister Eliza R. Snow and ask her
to write for us a constitution and by-laws
and submit them to President Joseph
Smith prior to our next Thursday's meet-
ing. She cheerfully responded, and when
she read them to him he replied that the
constitution and by-laws were the best he
had ever seen. "But," he said, "this is not
what you want. Tell the sisters their
offering is accepted of the Lord, and He
has something better for them than a writ-
ten constitution. Invite them all to meet
me and a few of the brethren in the
Masonic Hall over my store next Thurs-
day afternoon, and I will organize the
sisters under the priesthood after a pat-
tern of the priesthood." He further said,
"This Church was never perfectly organ-
ized until the women were thus organized"
{The Rdiei Society Magazine, vol. VI.,
March 1919, page 129).
The Prophet's Counsel
to the Rehei Society
Pertinent to the subject matter
of this revelation and to the Relief
Society is the counsel given by the
Prophet in some of the later meet-
ings of the Society he attended. In
addition to the important truth that
the sisters, with their officers presid-
ing over them, were to be directed
by the Priesthood authorities, the
following counsel was given by
Joseph Smith:
He spoke of the disposition of many
men to consider the lower offices in the
Church dishonorable, and to look with
jealous eyes upon the standing of others
who are called to preside over them; that
it was the folly and nonsense of the hu-
man heart for a person to be aspiring to
other stations than those to which they
are appointed of God for them to occupy;
that it was better for individuals to mag-
nify their respective callings, and wait pa-
tiently till God shall say to them, "Come
up higher. . . ."
He exhorted the sisters always to con-
centrate their faith and prayers for, and
place confidence in theii husbands, whom
God has appointed for them to honor,
and in those iaithful men whom God has
placed at the head of the Church to lead
His people; that we should arm and sus-
tain them with our prayers. . . .
. . . you must put down iniquity, and
by your good examples, stimulate the
Elders to good works; if you do right,
there is no danger of your going too fast.
He said he did not care how fast we
run in the path of virtue; resist evil, and
there is no danger. . . .
This is a charitable Society, and accord-
ing to your natures; it is natural for iemales
to have feelings of charity and benevolence.
You are now placed in a situation in which
you can act according to those sympathies
which God has planted in your bosom. . . .
You must not be contracted, but you
must be liberal in your feelings. Let this
Society teach women how to behave to-
wards their husbands, to treat them with
mildness and affection. When a man is
borne down with trouble, when he is per-
plexed with care and difficulty, if he can
meet a smile instead of an argument or
a murmur — if he can meet with mildness,
it will calm down his soul and soothe his
feelings; when the mind is going to de-
spair, it needs a solace of affection and
kindness (D. H. C. IV:6o3-6o7). (Italics,
the Author's.)
. . . put a double watch over the tongue:
no organized body can exist without this
at all. All organized bodies have their pe-
culiar evils, weaknesses and difficulties, the
object is to make those not so good reform
and return to the path of virtue that they
may be numbered with the good, and even
hold the keys of power, which will influ-
ence to virtue and goodness — should
chasten and reprove, and keep it all in
silence, not even mention them again;
then you will be established in power,
virtue, and holiness, and the wrath of God
will be turned away.
. . . search yourselves — the tongue is
an unruly member — hold your tongues
about things of no moment. . . .
I do not want to cloak iniquity — all
things contrary to the will of God, should
be cast from us, but don't do more hurt
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than good, with your tongues — be pure
in heart. Jesus designs to save the people
out of their sins {Ibid., V:2o). (Itahcs,
the Author's.)
The First Latter-day Saint Hymnal
Another assignment given to
Emma Smith was that of making a
selection of sacred hymns for the
Church.
And it shall be given thee, also, to make
a selection of sacred hymns, as it shall be
given thee, which is pleasing unto me, to
be had in my church.
For my soul delighteth in the song of
the heart; yea, the song of the righteous
is a prayer unto me, and it shall be an-
swered with a blessing upon their heads
(D & C 25:11-12).
In accordance with this call,
Emma made a selection of hymns
which appeared in two volumes. W.
W. Phelps was appointed to revise
and arrange them for printing. The
first hymnal was published in 1835,
with ninety selections, and the sec-
ond in 1841, with three hundred
forty selections.
The first hymnal classified the
selections as morning hymns, eve-
ning hymns, farewell hymns, hymns
on baptism, on the sacrament, on
marriage, and miscellaneous. The
authors of the words of many of
these hymns were Latter-day Saints.
The principal contributor was
William W. Phelps who wrote
many well-known Latter-day Saint
hymns. Parley P. Pratt was another
contributor to this volume. Among
some of the songs included in
Emma's compilation are favorites of
many in the Church today. Some
of these are: 'The Spirit of God
Like a Fire Is Burning"; ''Redeemer
Of Israel"; "Gently Raise the Sacred
Strain"; ''Earth With Her Ten
Thousand Flowers"; "How Firm a
Foundation, Ye Saints of the Lord";
"He Died! The Great Redeemer
Died!"; and "I Know That My
Redeemer Lives."
The Lord revealed that the songs
which would be pleasing unto him
would be those that came from the
heart. The song of the righteous
is indeed a prayer unto the Lord, for
those who live his laws are truly the
righteous of the earth.
Brother George D. Pyper once
wrote concerning the hymns selected
by Emma Smith:
It is said that the character of a people
may be judged by the songs they sing. If
this be true then an examination of those
selected by Emma Smith prove that the
Latter-day Saints were a reverential, peace-
loving, worshipful. God-fearing people.
After a hundred years it is acknowledged
that the songs selected for that first Lat-
ter-day Saint Hymn book are among the
best of all Christian hymns {Stones of
Latter-day Saint Hymns, by George D.
Pyper, page 195).
My Voice Is Unto All
In closing the revelation to Emma
Smith, the Lord stated a principle
which has application to Emma and
also to every person in The Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Keep my commandments continually,
and a crown of righteousness thou shalt
receive. And except thou do this, where
I am you cannot come.
And verily, verily, I say unto you, that
this is my voice unto all. Amen (D & C
25:15-16).
Questions for Discussion
1. In what way was Emma Smith an
"elect lady"?
2. Why do you think the Priesthood
should "rule" in the Church?
3. What do you personally find in
some of the Prophet's teachings to women
that are of profit to you?
4. Why was it necessary for a selection
of hymns to be made for congregational
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singing in Latter-day Saint meetings? 6. In what way or ways do you think
5. Emphasis has been given in this les- Emma's call to compile a hymnal was suc-
son to duties and responsibilities of wives cessful?
to their husbands. What counsel did Jo- 7. In what ways does The Church of
seph Smith give to husbands concerning Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints honor
their wives? (Consult D. H. C. 2:264.) the women of the Church?
ViSiting cJeacher 1 1 iessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 16— "Be Patient in Afflictions, for Thou Shalt Have Many; But
Endure Them, for Lo, I Am With Thee, Even Unto the
End of Thy Days" (D. & C. 24:8).
Christine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, May 5, 1959
Objective: To show that afflictions are a normal part of life's experiences and can
be the basis of great blessings, if we trust in the Lord.
TF we keep his commandments, the of all mankind. Although, un-
Lord has promised that we will doubtedly some carry heavier bur-
find much joy in this life. Yet, he dens than others, none who trusts in
has never implied that this joy may the Lord is called upon to bear his
be earned without troubles and burdens alone,
afflictions. In fact, without the bit- There is a well-known legend
ter we cannot fully appreciate the about a traveler whose load of
sweet. Full enjoyment of our bless- troubles and sorrows was so heavy
ings cannot be realized without the that he complained he no longer
contrast of adversity. could carry it. A certain wise man
Affhction, if we meet and bear it invited him to rest awhile and de-
wisely, can bring us closer to the posit his burden in a place where
Lord. It has been said that 'Tou others had temporarily laid theirs
are never at any time nearer to God aside. After his rest, the traveler
than when under tribulation, which was invited to take his choice of
he permits for the purification and the burdens and to carry it away as
beautifying of your soul" (Golden his own. After lifting several of
Nuggets oi Thought by Molinos, his neighbors' loads of cares and
page 8). It is by our Father in sorrows, he decided that, by com-
heaven's own design, that, along parison, his own burden was not so
with our joys and successes, we must heavy after all.
meet failures, disappointments, and Another fact we must remember
afflictions. In bearing these afflic- about our afflictions is that, actually,
tions, it is important for us to re- they can be the source of great
member two basic facts. First, blessings to us. Out of the crucible
affliction is universal. It is the lot of adversity we can mold the great
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129
character qualities of courage, forti-
tude, understanding, and obedience.
In Hebrews 5:8-9, we read that even
the Savior:
Though he were a Son, yet learned he
obedience by the things which he suffered;
And being made perfect, he became the
author of eternal salvation unto all them
that obey him. . . .
Many of the great accomplish-
ments in the world have been made
by people who have suffered heavy
burdens and whose rising above their
afflictions has been responsible, to
a large extent, for their outstanding
accomplishments. To name a few,
Helen Keller is both deaf and blind.
Beethoven was deaf much of his life,
and Milton was blind. Lord Byron
and Sir Walter Scott were lame.
Someone has wisely said that af-
flictions are God's educators. It is
not the afflictions themselves which
count, but, rather, it is what they
do to us. Our difficult experiences
are often most profitable if:
... we regard every hardship, no matter
how severe, as a stepping stone to some-
thing higher; every disappointment, no
matter how keen, as a means of molding
courage; every adversity, no matter how
bitter, as something to make us valiant;
every sorrow, no matter how penetrating,
every affliction, no matter how poignant,
as something to sanctify and exalt the soul
(Jesus of Nazareth, by Bryant S. Hinckley,
page 75).
In this Doctrine and Covenants'
message, we are exhorted to be
patient in afflictions and endure
them, for the Lord has promised
that he will be with us unto the end
of our days. What a marvelous
promise! One of the greatest bless-
ings we can enjoy in this life is to
have the comforting assurance of
the presence of the Lord's spirit.
How wonderful it is to know that
if we put our complete trust in the
Lord, he will not forsake us, but
will be ever near to uphold and sus-
tain us. Surely this great promise
will support us in our afflictions and
give us courage and patience to en-
dure them. Alma in The Book of
Mormon expressed this thought
beautifully when he said:
. . . remember, that as much as ye
shall put your trust in God even so much
ye shall be delivered out of your trials,
and your troubles, and your affhctions,
and ye shall be lifted up at the last day
(Alma 38:5).
cJhe llieasure of d^yur (greatness
Wflma Boyle Bunker
MAN is, and must be rated not by his hordes of gold, not by some temporary influ-
ence, but by his character and integrity, sweetened by consideration and under-
standing. The highest order of any man is distinguished by human goodness, by self-
sacrifice, and self-forgetfulness.
Greatness in any one of us is the power and will to serve others. And perhaps the
truest greatness is that which is unseen and unknown. It is ever insensitive to popular
clamor and accepts the good deed as its own reward.
The true measure of our greatness depends on our invincible integrity, on what we
give to others, and how we serve.
vi/ork 1 1 ieetiag — Managing a Home
(A Course Recommended for Use by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 8— Managerial Aspects of Clothing the Family
Vesta Barnett
For Tuesday, May 12, 1959
Objective: To consider the management problems involved in providing adequate
clothing for each family member.
npHERE is no norm or guide for
choice in cloth as there is in
nutritional needs of the body. Style,
fashion, and fad need to be adapted
to individual differences within the
financial limits of the family. Being
well dressed for the occasion and
being aware of it can be of benefit
to each member of the family
psychologically, physically, and so-
cially.
For the majority of families, an
adequate wardrobe for each mem-
ber is possible only by intelligent
management. Here are some prac-
tical suggestions for planning the
family clothing needs:
1. Know the maximum amount of
money available for the family clothing.
2. Analyze the characteristics of each
member of the family as applied to cloth-
ing needs.
3. Anticipate the clothing needs of the
family two to three years in advance.
4. Select the best stores for values, and
shop at the sales.
5. Use all available information con-
cerning quality, workmanship, shrinkage,
colorfastness, suitability, care, and up-
keep of clothes.
6. Train children to take good care
of their clothing.
7. Do as much home sewing as possible
and practical.
Read the Label
New materials are constantly com-
ing onto the market, and new fin-
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ishes are given to old fabrics. Today,
even the experts can be confused as
to the type of material used in a
garment. For most of us, our best
help is to read the label and follow
the manufacturer's suggestions for
care of the fabric. A good label
should give the type of fiber used in
the garment, the probable shrink-
age, the color fastness to various
causes of fading, resistance to wrink-
les, and best type of care for fabric.
General Care oi Clothing
If clothes are to have that fresh,
immaculate look, they should be
cared for daily, weekly, and seasonal-
ly. Good clothes deserve good care.
Here are some suggestions for
general care:
1. Buy good, shaped hangers for suits
and coats.
2. Remember "a. stitch in time saves
nine."
3. Mend before laundering.
4. Broken threads in sweaters and knit
wear should be caught and crocheted in
again. A hole in a sweater should be
darned.
5. The life of a pair of shoes is
lengthened with proper care and a rest
between wearings.
Occasional Care oi Clothmg
1. Stains should be removed as soon as
possible after they occur and always be-
fore laundering.
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131
2. Follow directions on labels for laun-
dering or dry cleaning.
Seasonal Care of Clothing
1. Repair and clean all clothes before
they are stored for the season. Cotton,
linen, silk, and rayon clothing should be
washed and put away unstarched, unblued,
and unironed. Non-washable articles
should be dry cleaned before being stored.
Wool garments that are not moth-
proofed should be washed in soapsuds or
dry cleaned, since all stages of moth life
are killed by these processes.
Good Buying Principles
The first requirement for a satis-
factory wardrobe is to take stock of
what you have, then plan for those
things you really need. One hundred
well-planned dollars can bring more
satisfaction than two hundred un-
planned dollars.
The following shopping principles
can help all of us get more satisfac-
tion from our purchases:
1. Compare values. Experienced pro-
fessional comparative shoppers say it is
advisable to stop at several stores before
purchasing expensive clothing items, such
as a coat, suit, or a good quality dress.
2. Select basic or classic styles.
3. Buy clothes that fit your needs.
Nothing is a bargain unless it fits in with
your clothing plans.
4. Purchase middle-priced items.
5. Know store brands.
6. Shop regular store sales.
7. Pay cash.
Home Sewing
Most homemakers know the satis-
faction that can come from com-
pleting a home sewed article that
turns out well. Skill in sewing can
pay big dividends in the life of the
average homemaker not only in divi-
dends as far as money is concerned,
but also dividends in terms of satis-
faction and pride of accomplish-
ment.
Discussion Thoughts
1. Choose two or three new fabrics or
new finishes for fabrics and show how
each has simplified the care of clothing.
Contrast the care necessary for these fab-
rics with those they have replaced.
2. Make a comparison of a garment
purchased ready-made and one made at
home (children's clothes, shirt, blouse or
dress). Consider cost in time, energy,
money, quality of fabric, enjoyment of
garment. (Perhaps some of the women
who sew could be asked in advance to
bring some of their articles for study.)
3. Recall purchase of clothing you have
made recently, one you feel was a good
buy and another a poor buy. See if you
can pinpoint the reasons why you con-
sider one good and the other bad.
cJhe Lryracantha
Chiistie Lund Coles
There have been few poems
Penned to you, and yet
What shrubs more greenly grow.
All through the summer,
(Glossy — warm or wet — )
Then flaunt red berries through the snow?
oLiterature — America's Literature —
Meet the New World
Lesson 8— Jonathan Edwards, Puritan
Elder Briant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 84-95)
For Tuesday, May 19, 1959
Objective: To see in Jonathan Edwards a harmonizing of various phases of New
England Puritanism.
"li^HILE performing the office of compromise measure which no one
tutor at Yale College for his liked, yet one which many felt neces-
second year, Jonathan was seized by sary, if the churches were to
an illness which kept him in bed for perpetuate themselves. Within each
almost three months. Upon his community were three groups: those
recovery in 1726, at age twenty-three, who came to New England for ad-
he was offered the great opportunity venture, profit, and freedom, but
of serving as a colleague of his dis- were members of no church. Second,
tinguished grandfather, the Rev- those who attended church but who
erend Solomon Stoddard, who had had never been granted member-
been minister in the far western ship. Third, actual members of the
Massachusetts town of Northamp- church body, or 'Visible saints,"
ton for fifty-four years, and soon to who could partake of church sacra-
retire. Solomon Stoddard was loved ments and who could vote in church
and respected throughout the entire council which was also town coun-
Connecticut Valley. So directly had cil. To be eligible for church mem-
he defied the wishes of the Boston bership a person had to have
clergy that he was known more received a personal spiritual mani-
familiarly as 'Tope" Stoddard. Par- festation. Few second-generation
ticularly during recent decades, as children had had such an experi-
the influence of the Mothers de- ence, and even fewer grandchildren
clined, he had become the most of the original founders. While the
powerful single force in New Eng- churches were full, the number of
land Puritanism. And Jonathan actual members had become alarm-
Edwards was to be groomed as his ingly small. The Half- Way Covenant
replacement. of 1662 granted membership to
second- and third-generation Puri-
The Half- Way Covenant tans who attended regularly and
In 1662, ten years before Solomon who believed the basic creed, but
Stoddard had come to Northampton who had not received spiritual illu-
as a young man, violent dissension mination. Many fervent believers
had arisen in New England churches felt this liberalizing compromise to
over the Half -Way Covenant, a be the beginning of the end.
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133
Doctrine oi Self-ReJfance
By contrast, Solomon Stoddard
felt the Half-Way Covenant didn't
go far enough. He established a
policy, strongly opposed by his fel-
low churchmen in eastern Massa-
chusetts, which did go far enough.
He believed that all who desired
membership should be admitted, re-
gardless of whether their family had
been church members or not. His
liberalizing policy brought him a
wider popularity and influence than
any other minister of his day en-
joyed. By sheer power of his per-
sonality and through his powerful
belief in the basic Puritan doctrine
of self-reliance, Stoddard freed his
followers from complete domination
by their ancestors:
And it would be no humility but base-
ness of spirit for us to judge ourselves in-
capable to examine the principles that
have been handed down to us, ... If the
practices of our fathers in any particulars
were mistaken, it is fit they should be re-
jected; if they be not> they will bear
examination.
Among many other lessons taught
him by his predecessor, Edwards
learned this one well.
Crusade Against ''Surface-Religion"
After Jonathan Edwards had
served Stoddard as apprentice and
co-worker for but two years, Solo-
mon Stoddard died, in 1729, and
Edwards began his more than twen-
ty years of service to his Northamp-
ton congregation. Naturally, he was
anxious to prove that he was fol-
lowing in ''the Pope's footsteps."
Despite such a normal desire, how-
ever, it was not too long until he
began preaching views directly oppo-
site those he inherited.
Increasingly during the next de-
cade, young Edwards found in
Northampton more and more evi-
dence that to more and more of the
wealthy, powerful, and smug towns-
people, the true Christian religion
meant less and less. Though never
once did he mention anyone by
name, he rebuked them for their
lewd language and tavern-hunting,
their rampant gossiping and quarrel-
ling among families, economic fac-
tions, their bitter differences over
common land to be divided amongst
them, and, most of all, for their
worshiping comfort and wealth rath-
er than God. Alarmed at their com-
placency and "surface-religion," he
accused them even more firmly of
being unconscious Arminians.
Stemming from the beliefs of the
Dutch theologian Jacobus Arminius
(1560-1609), the doctrines of Ar-
minianism softened and liberalized
the teachings of Calvin by offering
atonement to all men, making pre-
destination conditional rather than
absolute, and enabling man to resist
both sin and grace through freedom
of the will. The special problem in
Northampton was that many had
come to feel God, not themselves,
to be responsible for evil.
The faction which most resented
Edwards' constant attacks on local
Arminianism was a group of mer-
chants and landowners led by his
own cousins whom he had early of-
fended. He preached his concepts of
God and man to them in sermons
rarely less than two hours long,
sometimes extending to five, yet so
great was his insight into the hearts
of his audience and so great was his
skill in holding his audience that,
rarely, did he lose a listener. He
lectured each Thursday evening in
an effort to meet the midweek de-
mand for religious leadership. He
spoke slowly but distinctly in a low
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voice, reading from sermon notes should we ever seek to attempt to
or Bible in his left hand, his elbow tell him whom he may save or
resting on the pulpit, and rarely damn. True love of God is to love
moving his right hand except to him and not to judge him. Before
turn the page, yet withal impressing man, God need not stoop to justify
his audience with his ^'habitual and his ways. Finally, is man predes-
great solemnity, looking and speak- tined to sin or has he freedom to
ing as if in the presence of God.'' choose, as the Arminians maintain?
Central in Edwards' theology is Edwards believed that if we accept
the concept of a God-centered uni- God's sovereignty, we must also be-
verse. For him, God is all, man lieve that all reality lies within the
nothing. Edwards believed thus mind of God; therefore every event
not because tradition or authority must have a cause. As our text
dictated it to him, but because it points out (page 85), ''We are able
was logically inescapable according to do what we choose, but what we
to his thinking. elect to choose is determined by
According to Edwards' beliefs, God."
mankind had erred into all forms This summary of Edwards' theo-
of Covenant Theology because New logical system includes ideas taken
England had forgotten the divinity from his major writings. Condensed
of the Divine. and partial though it is, once it is
For Edwards the most vital re- digested we can more fully under-
ligious experiences, indeed the most stand his other writings, the unity
vital of all experiences in life, were of Edwards' life, and the Puritan
emotional rather than rational or movement as purified by him. For
intellectual. Or to put it in other Edwards himself is the best defini-
words, the best logical means for tion of Puritanism,
proving God and worshiping him
was through the emotions. The Great Awakening
The big problem which Edwards At a time when religious indiffer-
tried to resolve remained: what ence was at its height, the Great
about sin? Because God permits it. Awakening was the first movement
and because his house is one of which spread from colony to colony
order, therefore sin must be good in and, for the first time, bound them
the overall harmonious plan. And all together into a common cause,
if evil is allowed by God, it will It was the American version of a
exist. Edwards defined evil as the similar contemporary movement
''property of the species" and cited known in Germany as Pietism and
man's record of brutalities through- in England as Evangelicalism, and
out history as irrefutable evidence, had its origin in Edwards' meeting-
Therefore, when man sins, a just house at Northampton.
God can only punish. SeeiHg his congregation straying,
Rather than blaming God for de- Edwards' problem was one of com-
fining sinful man as his enemy, municating to them the experience
Edwards taught that we must only by which they could return to true
praise him for his justice and stand religion. Firmly convinced from
before his unknowable sublimity in his reading of Locke that man can
even greater awe and fear. Nor gain knowledge only through his
LESSON DEPARTMENT
135
senses, he felt that the people lacked
the sensation of the hell toward
which they were heading; if only
he could create for them such a
sensation through a word-experi-
ence, he might frighten them into
repenting. Or, as he explained it:
Some talk of it as an unreasonable thing
to fright persons to heaven, but I think it
is a reasonable thing to endeavor to fright
persons away from hell. They stand up-
on its brink, and are just ready to fall
into it, and are senseless of their danger.
Is it not a reasonable thing to fright a
person out of a house on fire?
Quite conscious of what he was
doing, he invited the English Evan-
gelist George Whitefield to visit his
congregation. Whitefield had proved
to be a tremendous success in Lon-
don where he wept and roared and
screamed before crowds of twenty
to thirty thousand sinners, all of
them ''affected and drenched in
tears."
Though Edwards disliked White-
field personally, he brought about
the effect Edwards desired. From
1740-43 the emotional enthusiasm
was at its height. Edwards described
Northampton's reaction, in 1743, to
a fellow minister in one of the most
widely circulated pamphlets in
Protestantism, Some Thoughts Con-
ceining The Present Revival oi
ReUgion m New-Enghnd, from
which the following is taken:
About the middle of the summer of
1741 I called together the young people
that were communicants, from sixteen to
twenty-six years of age, to my house; which
proved to be a most happy meeting: many
seemed to be very greatly and most agree-
ably affected with those views, which ex-
cited humility, self-condemnation, self-
abhorrence, love and joy: many fainted
under these affections. ... It was a very
frequent thing, to see an house full of
out-cries, fainting, convulsions, and such-
like, both with distress, and also with ad-
miration and joy . . . and after great
convictions and humblings, and agonizing
with God, they had Christ discovered to
them anew, as an all sufficient Saviour,
and in the glories of his grace, and in a
far more clear manner than before; and
with greater humility, self-emptiness and
brokenness of heart, and a purer, a higher
joy, and greater desires after holiness of
life; but with greater self-diffidence and
distrust of their treacherous hearts. . . .
Conversions were frequently wrought more
sensibly and visibly. . . . the transitions
from one state to another were more sen-
sible and plain; so that it might, in many
instances, be as it were seen by bystanders.
In the final lines above, Edwards'
use of sensible refers not to its being.
*'of good sense,'' but of being avail-
able to the senses as Locke used the
word. It was a sensate awareness to
man's own evil which Edwards was
most anxious to obtain, and which
he achieved with such success in
his own most famous sermon, ''Sin-
ners in the Hands of an Angry
God," delivered in 1741.
The power of this sermon lies in
the direct imagery which Edwards
used with his considerable literary
skill. It should be pointed out that
he follows the traditional sermon
pattern, couched in the traditionally
controlled plain style, of first citing
a text from the Bible, next enlarg-
ing the text in a section called the
argument, to be finally followed by
the application. Text for this ser-
mon is 'Their foot shall slide in due
time," Deuteronomy 32:35. The
following excerpt is from the argu-
ment of this sermon:
The use of this awful subject may be
for awakening unconverted persons in this
congregation. . . . That world of misery,,
that lake of burning brimstone, is extend-
ed abroad under you. There is the dread-
ful pit of the glowing flames of the wrath
of God; there is hell's wide gaping mouth
open; and you have nothing to stand upon,.
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nor any thing to take hold of; there is
nothing between you and hell but the
air; it is only the power and mere pleas-
ure of God that holds you up. ... It is
to be ascribed to nothing else, that you
did not go to hell last night; that you was
suffered to awake again in this world, after
you closed your eyes to sleep. There is
no other reason to be given why you have
not gone to hell, since you have sat here
in the house of God, provoking his pure
eyes by your sinful wicked manner of at-
tending his solemn worship. Yea, there
is nothing else that is to be given as a
reason why vou do not this very moment
drop down into hell.
It is impossible to escape experi-
encing such writing, and how unfair
to expect one such tidbit to stand
in lieu of the accumulative power
of the entire composition.
Edwaids' Closing Years
It is not difficult to understand
how no one was indifferent to Jona-
than Edwards, and those who were
against him were so impassioned in
their opposition that in 1750 their
''packed" ecclesiastical court voted
him out of their community — and
out of any sustenance for his eleven
children, his wife, or himself, over-
worked and weary. Yet only one
of his accusers ever gave any indica-
tion of remorse. Edwards took an
appointment at Stockbridge in
frontier Massachusetts where several
were murdered by Indians during
his stay there. Here he lived for six
years, grateful for the free time it
gave him to write his most creative
works. Reluctantly he left his true
delight to direct the affairs of Prince-
ton College, chosen for his status as
the most courageous crusader, the
keenest theologian of his day. While
his wife was preparing to move, she
received word of his sudden death
by smallpox. Knowing that he was
to die, he had asked friends to ''tell
her that the uncommon union
which has so long subsisted between
us has been of such a nature as I
trust is spiritual, and therefore will
continue forever." She in turn said:
What shall I say? A holy and good
God has covered us with a dark cloud. O
that we may kiss the rod and lay our
hands on our mouths! The Lord has
done it. He has made me adore his good-
ness, that we had him so long.
Unpublished at his death were
numerous manuscripts. One of
them. Images or Shadows oi Divine
Things, contains some of his love-
liest images. He contemplates na-
ture as an image or shadow of God's
beauty which is ever accessible to
us. It is fitting that, of the various
tunes he sang so effectively, we allow
Edwards to speak for himself
through this hymn to nature's beau-
ty, in its essential philosophy rep-
resentative of the heavenly ideal-
ism which has always been central
to the Puritan mind.
70. If we look on these shadows of
divine things as the voice of God purpose-
ly by them teaching us these and those
spiritual and divine things, to show of
what excellent advantage it will be, how
agreeably and clearly it will tend to convey
instructions to our minds, and to impress
things on the mind and to affect the mind,
by that we may, as it were, have God
speaking to us. Wherever we are, and
whatever we are about, we may see divine
things excellently represented and held
forth. And it will abundantly tend to
confirm the Scriptures, for there is an
excellent agreement between these things
and the holy Scriptures. . . .
How great a resemblance of a holy and
virtuous soil is a calm, serene day. What
an infinite number of such like beauties is
there in that one thing, the light, and how
complicated an harmony and proportion
is it.
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137
Hidden beauties are commonly by far
the greatest, because the more complex a
beauty is, the more hidden is it. In this
latter fact consists principally the beauty
of the world, and very much in light and
colours. Thus mere light is pleasing to
the mind. If it be to the degree of
effulgence, it is very sensible, and mankind
have agreed in it; they all represent glory
and extraordinary beauty by brightness.
. . . And each sort of rays play a distinct
tune to the soul, besides those lovely mix-
tures that are found in nature. Those
beauties, how lovely is the green of the
face of the earth in all manner of colours,
in flowers, the colour of the skies, and
lovely tinctures of the morning and
evening.
Corollary: Hence the reason why
almost all men, and those that seem to
be very miserable, love life, because they
cannot bear to lose sight of such a beauti-
ful and lovely world. The ideas, that every
moment whilst we live have a beauty that
we take not distinct notice of, brings a
pleasure that, when we come to the trial,
we had rather live in much pain and mis-
ery than lose. (From Perry Miller's ver-
sion of Jonathan Edwards' Images or
Shadows of Divine Things, 1948, used
with permission of Yale University Press.)
Place in American Culture
Jonathan Edwards was far from
being a simple man; neither he nor
his impact on American culture can
be judged simply. In the final bal-
ancing and reckoning, he must be
seen as one who fought valiantly for
his version of God's truth, and made
a major contribution of stalwart
courage. In an optimistic land, his
constant emphasis on the evil in
man's nature has not been popular,
yet he provided a secure foundation
for those of the Founding Fathers
who insisted that checks and bal-
ances be built into the Constitution
of the United States as protection
for both the weak and the wealthy.
Edwards stimulated the founding of
several universities, and was a pio-
neer advocate of co-education. Nor
was he too proud to give his best
years to the still-murdering savages,
thus furthering the cause of hu-
manitarianism. Finally, he deserves
to be remembered as one of our
most lofty idealists, both for his defi-
nition of God as love and as beauty
and for the poetic prose he created,,
that we might know at firsthand
how he expressed his ''religious
affection" he felt towards his God..
(See text, ''Personal Narrative," pp.
86-92.)
It is interesting to trace, through
the history of the Renaissance and
of the Reformation and in the re-
ligious controversies of this period^
a preparing of the way for the res-
toration of the gospel.
Thoughts ioi Discussion
1. Why did Jonathan Edwards oppose
the pattern set by Solomon Stoddard and
oppose the Half-Way Covenant?
2. Why does an awareness of beauty in
nature hold religious significance for Ed-
wards?
3. Why did he employ his literary skill
so effectively in shaping his sermon, '"Sin-
ners in the Hands of an Angry God?""
What was he trying to do?
Soaai Science — Latter-day Saint Family Lif(
Lesson 21— How Do I Rate?
Elder John Fan Larson
For Tuesday, May 26, 1959
Objective: To provide an inventory for self-evaluation in family living.
nPHE following self-analysis chart
has been developed to help par-
ents, particularly mothers, to re-
evaluate their role in the family. It
is also designed to serve as a review
of social science lessons of the past
three years. No attempt has been
made to develop a score nor to
weigh the importance of one part
over another. It should also be
l<:ept in mind that many important
aspects of the Latter-day Saint fam-
ily have not been included in the
current lessons and many aspects
included in the lessons are not in-
cluded in this review because of
space and time limitations. We
hope you enjoy rating yourself.
How Do I Rate as a
EamiJy Member.^
(Indicate your thinking by marking
"T" for True or "F" for False.)
1. The Latter-day Saints philosophy of
family living is different from that of the
world and should be preserved.
2. The primary responsibilities of all
present-day families include:
a. Attending parent-teacher meetings.
b. Physical care and support.
c. Teaching children personal virtues.
3. The effectiveness of family influence
is measured entirely by the amount of
time family members spend together.
4. In considering plans for aging and
aged family members only two things need
to be considered, i.e., food and warm
clothing.
5. The home gives each family member
Page 138
a sense of belonging, a feehng of security,
of love and opportunities for growth, re-
gardless of age.
6. Each family member sees the family
in the same light.
7. While most fathers stand as a pillar
of strength, and symbol of security, yet
all fathers unconsciously resent supporting
their children.
8. It is the mother, largely, who creates
the atmosphere from which husband and
children receive emotional security.
9. A newborn infant should only be
touched by his mother and then only after
she has sterilized her hands and clothing.
10. We are entirely fair, if we treat
each family member exactly the same.
1 1 . Mother should determine what is
to be purchased in the home and father
should pay the bills.
12. The best way to remain friends
with in-laws is to stay away from them
except at family reunions.
13. When a child leaves the home, he
severs all ties with the family.
14. Family members should all par-
ticipate in play, but only with persons of
similar age.
15. Every family has the responsibility
of establishing a way of life which will
develop a stable sense of values for its
members.
16. In this day of modern invention
and conveniences, a change of activity
and time for mental and physical relaxa-
tion are relatively unimportant.
17. Family Hours and family councils
are a waste of time.
18. Children should be seen and not
heard.
How Do I Rate as a
Marriage Partner.^
(Which alternative best describes me?)
1. I consider that the marriage cove-
LESSON DEPARTMENT
139
nant, when properly solemnized, is an
eternal relationship which:
a. greatly colors present-day attitudes
between husband and wife, or
b. has significance only after death.
2. I believe marriages fail because:
a. individuals who marry fail, or
b. one spouse seeks divorce.
3. Success in my marriage began:
a. at the time I was married, or
b. early in life.
4. As my spouse and I grow older we
think we should :
a. spend less time on personal groom-
ing, or
b. give personal grooming more at-
tention.
5. I maintain success in marriage is
more likely if:
a. the marriage partners come from
similar backgrounds, or
b. the marriage partners come from
different backgrounds, thus bring-
ing diversity to the marriage.
6. To me marital happiness is enhanced
if both spouses:
a. talk about their differences, or
b. keep their problems to themselves.
7. I find conflicts in marriage are nor-
mal. When problems arise my marital
partner and I ask:
a. What do our differences mean to
my spouse? or
b. Why worry about what it means
to my spouse?
a. How can I hold my ground? or
b. What can I suggest as a step to-
wards the solution of the problem?
a. How can I embarrass my partner
further?
b. Am I permitting my partner to
save face?
a. Notwithstanding our disagreement,
does my partner understand I have
great love for him? or
b. Should I frankly tell him I don't
love him in order to shock him
into being different?
8. When my husband invites me out for
an evening without the children do I :
a. say I'm too tired and have nothing
to wear? or
b. accept readily and dress in my
best?
9. Do my husband and I:
a. give up all social interest while
rearing our children? or
b. cultivate common social interests
and friends who will fill our lives
after children are married?
How Do I Rate as a Parent?
1. Which of the following do I con-
sider important to further the intellectual
or spiritual growth of my child?
a. the child's right to choose without
interference.
b. the child's right to choose with
parental guidance.
c. the acquisition of knowledge.
d. a religious atmosphere in the
home.
e. desire for learning.
f. parental refusal to accept child's
failure.
g. parental comfort to child who has
not succeeded.
h. patience,
i. safety-tread shoes,
j. a working knowledge of compara-
tive religions.
k. goals.
1. parents with a ''hands off" atti-
tude on the evaluation of current
pubhcations and events.
m. status with associates.
n. a sense of being a person whose
worth is recognized.
0. love of family members.
2. Do my children have:
a. proper food and nutrition?
b. regular health habits?
c. clean bodies and minds?
d. proper exercise in work and play?
e. sufficient sleep and rest?
f. regular medical and dental check-
ups?
g. protection against disease and ac-
cident?
h. good mental health?
i. a hospitalization plan?
3. Do I feel and show a closeness to
my children and grandchildren?
4. Do I express my parental love en-
tirely by giving things to my children?
5. Do I introduce my friends to my
children and teach them to do the same?
6. Does my love instill confidence in
my children?
7. Does telling my child no constitute
a lack of love?
8. Does the love existing between me
and my marriage partner have anything
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to do with our child's emotional security?
g. Do I make play out of work for my
children?
10. Do I hear my children out when
they bring problems to me?
11. Do I "nag" or do I discuss?
12. Do I view my child's problems in
his setting or with a "I didn't do that
when I was young" approach?
With Which Statement
Do I Agree.^
1. a. Every person needs to know the
limits of permissible behavior.
b. Most children do not need disci-
pline.
c. Children are born with self-con-
trol.
2. a. Punishment is the best way to
discipline.
b. Punishment is one way to disci-
pline.
c. A child should never be punished.
3. Discipline is made more effective, if
(check as many as you wish)
a. you count to twenty before strik-
ing a child.
b. you know some behavior ex-
presses a need.
c. you have a warm affectional feel-
ing for your child.
d. you seek to understand your child.
e. it is always administered at meal-
time.
f. handled by father with the "wait
till your father gets home" ap-
proach.
4. When I punish my child:
a. is it brief?
b. is it soon after the misbehavior?
c. am I fair?
d. am I consistent?
e. does my child understand why?
f. do I express my sorrow to the
child?
g. do I embarrass him in front of
others?
5. When my child asks to bring friends
home or have a party, do I:
a. say it's too expensive?
b. say I haven't room?
c. say it's too much work?
d. agree — ^and do all the work my-
self?
e. agree without apologies and let
LESSON DEPARTMENT
141
the child assist me in giving the
best party we can afford?
Here's How I Stand!
1. All children should be educated in
the same way.
2. Parents should not stimulate their
young children to learn at home since
they must relearn everything in school.
3. Expressed confidence in a child's
potential is unwise, for it "puffs" him up
before he deserves praise.
4. The acquisition of knowledge is of
little real value or significance without its
wise application.
5. Knowledge acquired in this life goes
with us into eternity.
6. I should discourage my family on
reading the newspaper.
7. I should subscribe to good magazines
for my children's age levels,
8. I should be receptive to new books.
Q. My children don't care whether I
keep growing mentally.
10. I should never attend a public gath-
ering where my children perform.
11. It is important to seek knowledge
and wisdom concerning good health prac-
tices.
How Do I Rate as a
Community Member?
DO I
1. Have a sense of responsibility for
what goes on in my community?
2. Continually think of ways I can be
a better neighbor?
3. Overlook the mistakes of my neigh-
bors and refrain from speaking evil of
them?
4. Rejoice in the accomplishments and
success of my neighbors?
5. Ever invite neighbors or their chil-
dren into my home?
6. Visit my neighbors only when bor-
rowing or asking favors?
7. Encourage neighborhood projects?
8. Make friendly overtures to new
neighbors?
9. Obey, honor, and sustain the law?
10. Consider it my responsibility to
help shape the law and its administration
through orderly processes?
11. Defend the right to free exercise
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property, and the protection of Hfe?
12. Recognize that my freedom under
the law is to act within the law?
13. Believe that obedience to law in-
sures protection for the individual, family,
community, state, and Nation?
How Do I Rate as a Grandparent?
1. I remain an interesting family mem-
ber by:
a. relying on others to entertain and
wait on me.
b. cultivating interests and hobbies
of my own.
c. making myself as useful as pos-
sible.
2. I keep myself in demand as a guest
a. declining most invitations because
I'm too old to fit in.
b. accepting and returning social
invitations.
c. being a good conversationalist.
3. I stay as young as possible by:
a. observing good, sound health prac-
tices.
b. looking my best.
c. keeping abreast of the times
through radio, TV, newspapers, and other
current reading.
d. following the interests and ac-
complishments of my children and grand-
children.
4. I am a well-adjusted personality
because:
a. I think as much as possible of
other people.
b. I go more than half way in try-
ing to cultivate friends.
c. I magnify my troubles and mini-
mize my blessings.
d. I always try to Hve in the past.
e. I remain active in my Church.
f. I have high regard for the spiritual
things of life.
How Do I Rate in Tianslating the
Gospel Into Living?
A. As a Parent
1. Do I speak to my children:
a. as though they were children of
God?
b. as if they were a piece of property?
2. When my child asks a question about
a gospel principle he does not understand,
do I:
a. say it will all clear up as he grows
older? or
b. take time to explain it in the
child's own language?
3. When my children are baptized, con-
firmed, or advanced in the Priesthood,
do I:
a. treat it as a matter of course? or
b. make it a special occasion and
discuss its importance in a family
circle?
4. Do I teach my children:
a. that everything they pray for will
be granted? or
b. that they should pray for the
things which the Lord considers
for their best good — then accept
his will?
5. When my children repeat criticisms
of Church leaders, do I:
a. agree with them, saying I have
heard of or observed the same
faults? or
b. emphasize the good character-
istics of the same leaders?
6. When my child suddenly refuses to
attend Sunday School, Primary, or MIA,
do I:
a. force him to go without any dis-
cussion?
b. attend the auxiliary and help
solve his problems with his teach-
ers?
7. When members of my family rebel
against sacrament meeting attendance,
do I:
a. encourage them to remain at
home?
b. invite them to go together as a
family?
c. ask them to list reasons for and
against such attendance, then dis-
cuss their reasons adroitly?
d. suggest I enjoy the senaces more
when they are with me?
e. propose a treat following church?
f. suggest they invite their friends
to go along?
g. remind them it is a command-
ment of the Lord?
8. When I leave my home to fill a
Church assignment, do I
a. refer to the effort as drudgery?
LESSON DEPARTMENT
143
b. speak of it as a privilege and an
opportunity?
B. As an Individual
1. Do I realize that when the Prophet
^'turned the key":
a. greater rights and opportunities
came to women? or
b. feel that it was done too long
ago to affect my life?
2. Do I understand my position as a
wife in:
a. sharing the blessings of my hus-
band's Priesthood?
b. honoring the Priesthood in our
home?
3. Do I accept my responsibility
a. for my own eternal progression? or
b. believe my husband's Church
work will save me?
4. Have I learned to avoid:
a. self-righteousness?
b. intolerance?
c. judging others?
d. gossiping?
5. Have 1 learned to guard my tongue?
6. Have I striven to follow the Proph-
et's admonition.
a. to be merciful?
b. to be kind?
c. to do good and to be good?
d. to be prayerful?
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greater length, the aspects most interesting
to them.
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VOL. 46 NO. 3
Lessons for June
MARCH 1959
cJhe Kbdge of Spring
Renie H. Littlewood
Our trail lay on the very edge of spring,
Where, riding high, the flushed late-winter sun
Had warmed the greening blades of grass that fling
Themselves down every deep and rock-scarred run.
The road curved right, curved left, went up, then down,.
And with it ran our winter-prisoned hearts,
For we had tired of waiting in the town
And gone to meet the springtime where it starts.
Atop the hill where winds had cleanly swept
The melting snow, we found the first faint prints
That told us spring had, oh, so lately, stepped
Upon its destined path; and now the tints
Of promised bloom would clearly mark the way.
And we? Content to wait the first spring day.
The Cover: "Scene in the Ozark Mountains, Arkansas/' Photograph by
Fred H. Ragsdale, Free Lance Photographers Guild, Inc.
Frontispiece: "View on the Eastern Slope of Mount Timpanogos, Utah,"
Photograph by Willard Luce
Cover Design by Evan Jensen
CTrom I i
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a die
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It was such a wonderful thrill to find
a beautiful orchid for my poems published
in The ReUei Society Magazine (January
1959) from Grace Ingles Frost. It is
such a wonderful satisfaction to kno\\' that
what you loved to write has touched an-
other's heart and mind. And it is still
more wonderful to learn that they cared
enough to write and let you know. . . .
As I have said so often, "I love my read-
ers." To write is a great joy, but the task
is only half done until one finds a reader.
There is so much that is excellent in the
Magazine, as it comes slipping through
the mail slot ever}^ month, that I am lifted
with both joy and pride to read it and to
know that it is our own. It is doubly
gratifying then to be numbered among
the contributors. The prize-winning ma-
terial in the January issue is \ery worthy,
and, while I enjoyed Lael Hill's rhyme
scheme . . . what I really loved most about
her poem 'The Telling" is its pure poetic
feeling and the light grace of its move-
ment.
— Eva Willes Wangsgaard
Ogden, Utah
The January issue of the Magazine came
one cold afternoon last week. How pleas-
ant it was to sit comfortablv near the
glowing flames from the fireplace and en-
joy the excellent prize-winning poems and
stories. I was so thrilled to see that
Mabel Law Atkinson was again one of
the winners. Her work has always
touched a responsive cord. Last summer,
after re-reading her ''Fifty Singing Aprils"
(Second Prize Story, February 1958), and
on the spur of the moment, I wrote tell-
ing her how much I had enjoyed the story.
The biographical sketch stated that she
had graduated from two poetry classes, by
correspondence, after she was fifty. I
asked about these classes. Imagine my
surprise when, soon after, I received a
friendly letter from her with the request-
ed information. It was her encourage-
ment, so graciously given, that prompted
me to begin my present study of poetic
techniques.
— lona Goold
Page 146
Burley, Idaho
I was so pleased to find the lovely pic-
ture of the General Board of Relief So-
ciety in the January Magazine. I hope
you will make this an annual feature. It
is with excitement that I look through my
Magazine for familiar names and faces.
Each month brings a reunion with sisters
I have known and loved. I have yet to
be disappointed.
— Alfarette Liddle
Arlington, Virginia
When I caught my first glimpse of the
cover of The Relief Society Magazine for
December, I thought of Keats' words "If
eyes are meant for seeing, then beauty is
its own excuse for being." The cover is
beautiful and affects the heart and soul
as well as the eye — how very lovely! So
far, I've read only the poems. "Even a
Christmas Tree," by Eva Willes Wangs-
gaard, is magnificent. Also, I especially
like the poem "Winter Morning," by
Sylvia Probst Young, and "Grannies," by
Ethel Jacobson — for their sweet, homev
beauty, and "Who Gan Know the Stars?"
by Maude O. Gook is a fine poem, for
its eternal loveliness. Truly these, and all
the contents of the Magazine will be "a
joy forever."
— Mabel Law Atkinson
Dayton, Idaho
Lael Hill's prize-winning poem "The
Telling" (January 1959) is a truly master-
ful piece of lyric writing. I love it, as I
also love Dorothy Roberts' fine poem on
"Mary Magdalene" (April 1947) which
ended "Faithful and unafraid, to fly into
the ages with her cry." How proud I am
to know and love these fine writers, and
I do appreciate the Magazine.
— Ghristie Lund Goles
Provo, Utah
I have read our women's magazines ever
since the Woman's Exponent, and I have
loved them all, and I now enjoy The ReUef
Society Magazine. I am always looking
for it when the time is near for it to ar-
rive. The poems and stories and all the
lessons are wonderful.
— Miss Anna Bider
Logan, Utah
THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford President
Marianne C. Sharp -___-_ First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen --------- Second Counselor
Hulda Parker ------ Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Aleine M. Young Edith P. Backman Mary V. Cameron
Edith S. Elliott Josie B, Bay V/inniefred S. Alton W. Hunt
Florence J. Madsen Christine H. Robinson Manwaring Wealtha S. Mendenhall
Leone G. Layton Alberta H. Christensen Elna P. Haymond Pearle M. Olsen
Blanche B. Stoddard Mildred B. Eyring Annie M. Ellsworth Elsa T. Peterson
Even W. Peterson Charlotte A. Larsen Mary R. Young Irene B. Woodford
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor -._-___---__ Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor ---------- Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager _-__----_- Belle S. Spafford
VOL 46 FEBRUARY 1959 NO. 2
e
ontents
SPECIAL FEATURES
Let Us Cherish One Another Hulda Parker 148
The Central States Mission Preston R. Nibley 156
The Old Man of the Mountain Martha Robeson Wright 164
A Fireside Chat On a Burning Question 175
The American National Red Cross and Its Field of Service O. C. Duckett 178
The Second Mile Effie K. Driggs 182
FICTION
The House on Cherry Lane Drive — Third Prize Story Sarah O. Moss 150
"Not of This Fold" Frances C. Yost 156
Rachel Goes to Relief Society Elizabeth C. McCrimmon 179
Love Me Tomorrow Rosa Lee Lloyd 184
The Silver Leash — Chapter 3 Beatrice Rordame Parsons 193
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 146
Sixty Years Ago 168
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 169
Editorial: "Now, Let Us Rejoice" Vesta P. Crawford 170
Notes to the Field: Organizations and Reorganizations of Stake and Mission
Relief Societies for 1958 172
Index for 1958 Relief Society Magazine Available 174
Dramatization "Women of the New World" Available to Relief Society 174
Announcing the Special April Short Story Issue 174
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 198
Birthday Congratulations 208
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Recipes From the Central States Mission May E. J. Dyer 176
What Is a Home For? Leona F. Wintch 183
The Angel Tree Helen S. Williams 188
Hold Everything Sylvia Pezoldt 189
You Can Sew — XIII — Selection of Children's Clothes Jean R. Jennings 190
The Value of a Smile Myrtle S. Hyde 191
Lily E. A. Minner Makes Satin Quilts for Her Grandchildren 192
A Mother's Prayer Verio R. Hull 197
Security Vernessa M. Nagle 204
POETRY
The Edge of Spring — Frontispiece Renie H. Littlewood 145
Our Chapel — The Grove, by Joyce Wahlburn, 149; The Prairie Wind, by June N. Ashton, 155;
A Prophet Spoke, by Ruth H. Chadwick, 155; Mountain Born, by Maude Rubin, 163; Old Home,
by Helen M. Livingston, 171; Twilight, by Mabel Law Atkinson, 178; Song of a Tree, by
Dorothy J. Roberts, 181; Silhouette, by Mabel Jones Gabbott, 183; Window Lilies, by Evelyn
Fjeldsted, 187; Grandma's Crazy Quilt, by Elizabeth MacDougall, 189; Faith, by Iris W. Schow,
192; The Urge of Spring, by Etta S. Robbins, 197; Boy With a Book, by Christie Lund Coles, 203,
They Tell Me Your Name Was Clarissa, by Elsie McKinnon Strachan, 203; The Silver-Fingered,
by Ethel Jacobson, 206; Sanctuary, by Vesta N. Lukei, 206; Weeds, by Hattie B. Maughan, 207
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Page 147
Let Us Cherish One Another
Hulda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer, Relief Society
(Delivered at the Annual General Relief Society Conference, October 8, 1958.)
/^N March 24, 1842, at the second
meeting of Relief Society, Sis-
ter Lucy Mack Smith, the mother
of the Prophet, said, 'This institu-
tion [referring to Relief Society] is
a good one. . . . We must cherish
one another, watch over one an-
other, comfort one another, and
gain instruction, that we may all sit
down in Heaven together."
This statement has impressed me
as one which aptly portrays the spirit
and purpose of Relief Society — ''to
cherish one another, to watch over
one another, to comfort one another
and to gain instruction," or we
might say, gain an understanding of
the principles of the gospel in order
that we might all work out our sal-
vation and exaltation. In the midst
of the anxieties, unhappiness, lone-
liness, physical and spiritual sick-
ness, and insecurities that exist in
the world today, how needed are
those influences of which Sister
Smith spoke!
I recently had occasion to call at
the home of an elderly sister. She
had lived in her home ward for
many years. It was where the
youngest of her children had grown
up, and all had been active in the
Church. During the past few years,
in her less active condition, her chil-
dren, wanting to make sure that
their mother was properly cared for,
had arranged for her to close up her
home, which to her was indeed
"home," and to live for two or three
months in turn with each of them.
This sister appreciated the love and
Page 148
consideration of her children, but
she was not fully happy because she
yearned to be in her own home. So
the family took her back to her
home and arranged for her sister,
who was also elderly but more
active, to come and live with her.
It was shortly after, that I called on
them. Upon inquiring if they were
happy, their answer was "Oh, yes,
but we wish that we could go to
Relief Society meeting. It would
be so good to mingle with the sis-
ters there, but even those two blocks
are too far to walk."
Here were two sisters who were
not in need physically, except for
transportation, but, as Lucy Smith
said, they needed to be cherished,
they needed to feel that they be-
longed, they needed to be built up
—they needed Relief Society.
Not long ago, I went into the
home of a young mother, a girl from
a good Latter-day Saint home, but
who for some reason had not taken
a very active part in the Church
herself. She had four lovely young
children, but the children were dis-
turbed; they were insecure; they
were starving for love, for the secur-
ity that comes through prayer and
the assurance that even a child may
have that a loving Heavenly Father
is watching over him. The mother
was frustrated, was complaining
about her husband, and scolding the
children. The home was disorderly
and confusion and strain seemed to
reign within its walls.
As I left that home, my heart
LET US CHERISH ONE ANOTHER
149
ached, and I thought if only that
sister could be reached through Re-
lief Society and enjoy the blessings
and influences there that would help
her to find herself, and to be the
real strength in her home that a
wife and mother of Israel should be.
Again, I thought of the words of
Lucy Mack Smith in 1842.
These are but two examples of
sisters who need Relief Society. I
am sure there are many more. These
sisters may be neighbors, friends, or
even relatives. They are our Heav-
enly Father's daughters. He is
vitally interested in their welfare,
and, in his great wisdom, he has
caused to be organized this great
organization of Relief Society to
help meet the needs of the women
of the Church.
May we as leaders in that organ-
ization not leave a stone unturned
to see that the blessings and influ-
ence of Relief Society are carried
into the lives of every mother and
homemaker in our wards and
branches. May we truly do as Sis-
ter Smith said, ''cherish one anoth-
er, watch over one another, comfort
one another and gain instruction"
together, I pray humbly in the name
of Jesus Christ, Amen.
(!:yur (chapel — cJhe (^rove
Joyce Wahlhum
Durban, South Africa
The gates swing wide at a touch,
To open on the forepath — an emerald sea,
And mirrored in its depths, by hght of moon,
The stately palms — graceful in their watchful majesty
Keep guard over the house of God —
Haven of peace and calm serenity.
Squarely it stands, wrapped about in its mantle of green.
Bordered by hedge-row embossed with trailing bloom
And trailing evergreen.
Embraced by the night-shadows, and psalmed by the night-sounds
Of myriad tiny creeping things.
Within his house, the Father waits — a kindly host to all
Who enter in, with faith and love.
Hush! Hear now — he calls to you — your place is set.
Step within these portals — no longer roam,
Behold the unseen hand of love held out.
And feel the smile of welcome,
As the Father bids thee stay, for here is home!
cJhird [Prize Story
*ytnnuai LKeuef Society Snort Story L^ontest
The House on Cherry Lane Drive
Sarah O. Moss
SARAH O. MOSS
EVALYN had arrived for her
visit at the home of her
daughter and son-in-law, Mai-
da and Charles Spence. She stood
at the ironing board, pressing a
scarf, while her daughter sat at the
table, sipping her orange juice in
the crowded little kitchen. The
two small children had gone out to
play.
''Sure you can manage by your-
self. Mother?" asked Maida. "I
could drive you around and perhaps
save your strength, if you have to do
too much walking."
''Don't worry about me, dear,"
answered Evalyn hastily. "Fll just
catch a bus up here at the corner,
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and go right to the bank. From there
—well, I have a few scattered er-
rands about town. I shouldn't be
too long."
She felt a little guilty. It didn't
seem quite fair to the children, to
put over such a big thing as buying
a house, all by oneself, thought
Evalyn, but she wanted everything
settled before she told Maida and
Charles that she had bought herself
a home on Cherry Lane Drive. At
fifty four, and a widow, Evalyn Day
was going to be a home owner, and
all because Uncle Benjamin had
remembered her in his will. If she
mentioned the venture to Charles,
he would take time from his studies
to look for property for her. And
Maida, with her keen sense of dollar
values, might not approve of the
picture on the folder that Evalyn
had received through the mail,
while living at her sister's boarding
house in California. But how she
wanted that house!
An hour later, when she actually
stood before the structure, she knew
it was all that she wanted it to be-
early American with gray-blue clap-
boards combined with old brick and
a pink trim. It had triangle win-
dowpanes, and with ruffled curtains,
a braided rag rug, and early Ameri-
can furniture, Evalyn could see her-
self welcoming her children. The
youngsters would say, "Let's go to
THE HOUSE ON CHERRY LANE DRIVE 151
Grandma's." Maida and Charles stairs. She also noticed the thread-
could say, ''We'll go to Mother's." bare carpet on each step.
There would be Sunday night sup- Getting finally to her room, she
pers; there would be long Saturday put her bag and gloves in the dresser
afternoons; and all the holidays that drawer, and with effort took off her
they could be together. There would tight dress and slipped into a robe.
be that third bedroom where the Exhausted, she dropped onto the
children could sleep, anytime Maida bed. It must have been hours later,
and Charles wanted to go out. that she woke, to see Maida lower
As Evalyn tucked the newly the west blind a little, smile, and
acquired papers in her bag, she felt tiptoe gently out of the room. How
dizzy and weak. She sat down on wonderful, thought Evalyn, to have
the bench to wait for the bus, but a daughter like Maida. People
the faintness persisted, eventually around you who cared and loved you
passing, so that she felt light and so dearly,
gay again as she walked into the
hall of Maida's home. Voices came JT was dusk when Evalyn woke
from the next room. up. She slipped into a casual
''Don't say anything," she heard dress, ran a comb through her gray
Maida say, and Evalyn felt a slight hair, and prepared to go down to
discomfiture, as she saw her daugh- the family. The weakness seemed
ter and her friend, Betty Kane, vis- to have gone, but she went shakily
iting. down the stairs, the carpet absorb-
"Hello, Betty." The older woman ing every sound. She sat down on
gave the young matron a friendly the bottom step of the stairs, to
handshake. "You're looking just read a postcard that had come with
wonderful," she said. the mail delivery. She must have
''Except for being pale, I was go- sat there longer than she had in-
ing to say the same thing to you," tended, as flashes of dizziness re-
said Betty. "Sure you're all right, turned. Then from the kitchen
Mrs. Day?" came cautious words:
"Mother! You look exhausted," "But, Charles, I don't think Moth-
said Maida. "I'll get you a cold er intends to stay very long, still I
drink." should ask her— without offending
The sick feeling returned, but her, I mean." The words were
with the cold drink to refresh her, Maida's.
Evalyn looked toward the stairs. "No, don't," said Charles. "She
"I think I'll go up to my room and might think we are trying to rush
rest awhile," she said. "It's been her off to California again."
rather a strenuous morning." "But we have to sign up for the
"We'll have lunch soon," smiled unit in Stadium Village. That's low
Maida. "I'll call you, Mother. But rent, compared to this— it's just a
you do need the rest." third of what we pay here, and you
Climbing each step was an effort, with another year in school. . . ."
Evalyn went so slowly that she had Maida's voice broke on a deep sigh,
time to notice the heavy accumula- "Yes, you're right, honey, but
tion of dust in the corners of the there's another thing to consider.
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Suppose your mother does go to
California for now. There's Christ-
mas and other hohdays when we
all want to be together. Where
will we put your mother if we move
from here? We couldn't offer her
anything better than the living-room
couch in Stadium Village."
Evalyn heard Maida sigh again.
"Oh, Charles! Don't think I haven't
thought of it. What are we going
to do? With another baby in the
spring. ... I love my Mother, but
what can we do, Charles?"
''And so do I, honey, love your
mother. That's just the point. I
like to have her here. You know
she's a person everybody feels good
around. I'd hate like everything
not to give her a room of her own
if she wanted to come."
I7VALYN crept back up the stairs.
The dizzy feeling had now pro-
gressed to a nausea as well, and her
limbs felt like lead. She stopped to
rest. Suddenly she didn't want the
house on Cherry Lane Drive! If she
had only talked things over with
these two struggling young persons,
instead of enjoying every moment
of her smugness. Loneliness en-
veloped her. Maida, Charles, and
the children, way across town. With
another baby coming, Evalyn knew
the reason for the dusty stairs, and
the threadbare carpet. There could
be very few Sunday night sup-
pers, or holiday get-togethers. Maida
would be tied with small children.
Charles would have to spend every
minute earning extra money for
bread and butter to feed a family of
five, besides going to school. Evalyn
made an effort to rise, but fell limp
at the top of the stairs. She groaned,
then a blessed oblivion enveloped
her.
As Evalyn came out of the faint,
Charles and Maida stood over her,
their anxious, worried faces dimly
outlined in the room. 'The doctor
will be here in a little while," said
Charles. "You were out quite a
while, and you gave us a scare."
Maida wiped her face with a cold
cloth.
Evalyn remembered she had fal-
len at the top of the stairs. Now
she was in her own bed. They must
have carried her in. 'Tm so ill,"
she said weakly.
The sickness lasted a week. In-
fluenza and pneumonia, the doctor
pronounced it. He came and went
often, staying when she seemed the
worst. Evalyn knew that the crisis
was near. Maida and Charles stood
behind the doctor, their worried,
anxious faces waiting, as the cold,
weakening sweat left her limp-
then sleep.
As Evalyn improved, she worried
as Maida ran up and down the
stairs. She knew she shouldn't, with
the baby on the way. She brought
trays of food, liquids in-between
meals, and she bathed and waited
on her as a hospital nurse, without
complaints or ever mentioning the
tiredness she must feel.
Charles, too, hovered near, when-
ever he was home from his busy
routine. He brought Evalyn the
mail and read the evening paper to
her. He helped her into the easy
chair, when she felt strong enough
to sit up. He did a thousand things
for her comfort.
It was Evalyn's first day down-
stairs. With her returning strength,
she felt equal to babysit with Diane,
the two-year-old girl, while Maida,
with four-year-old Bobby, drove over
to Betty's for lunch at Betty's invi-
tation. Evalyn walked around the
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153
rooms as Diane slept, grateful that
she was alive and well on the way
to health. If only she didn't worry
so about the house on Cherry Lane
Drive.
And, as if to still her worries, sud-
denly there was the agent when she
answered the doorbell. ''Why, come
in, Mr. Anderson," said Evalyn, re-
lief in her voice.
''Sorry I took so long with these
deeds, Mrs. Day," he said, dropping
into a chair at Evalyn's invitation.
"I wouldn't have known the dif-
ference," said Evalyn. "Fve been
ill." She took the packet of legal
papers. She read the important in-
scriptions, which proclaimed her
the legal owner of the house on
Cherry Lane Drive. She scowled as
she read. She wasn't happy about
being a home owner, now that it
was really true.
"Anything wrong, Mrs. Day?"
"C^VALYN hesitated a moment.
"I've just decided," she said sud-
denly. "I would like you to take
these papers back, Mr. Anderson.
Make a new deed to my daughter
and son-in-law. They are young,
struggling, and they will love being
home owners. As for myself, I just
want to live with them. With them
I'm really wanted."
Mr. Anderson took the papers
with misgivings. His look implied
that you can't tell a thing about
women, but he ogligingly took down
the necessary information for the
new deeds. Then he left.
Evalyn walked about as though
she were walking on air. Now
everything seemed right again. The
worry slipped from her mind, and
intense happiness filled her heart.
It was a week before Mr. Ander-
son came again. This time all de-
tails for the transaction were com-
pleted. Evalyn held even the keys
to the new, little house. Waiting
anxiously for Maida and Charles to
return from the market, where they
had gone grocery shopping, she won-
dered just how she would spring the
dehghtful surprise on them. To
pass the time she took a walk around
the block. She walked slowly, en-
joying the crispness of the air, and
the smell of cold rain. On the last
stretch, she hurried, as she saw the
car in the driveway.
"I've really gained strength," said
Evalyn, entering the hall. "I went
all around the block." Her face
shone with exuberance. She felt
joyous.
Maida's troubled face smiled into
hers, wanly, as she sat on the small
chair by the table. Charles sat on
the stairway, holding a letter in his
hand.
"You're looking wonderful. Moth-
er," said Maida, casting her eyes
downward, as Diane slept in her
arms. "We have news to tell you—
news you might not like," she
added.
"What's wrong? What news?"
Evalyn sensed the tenseness about
her.
"Come now," said Charles, ad-
monishing Maida. "It's not bad
news. It's really good news. It's an
offer for a new job. We should
really be thankful."
"A new job?" asked Evalyn. "But
where?"
Maida's eyes filled. "In Phila-
delphia," she said. "There's no
other way, Mother. Maybe after a
few years, we can come back, but
with three children by spring, we
just can't make it, the way we're
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going here. And you're coming
with us/' Maida hastened to add.
''We wouldn't go and leave you
out here, you know that, Mother."
''But what about your Doctorate,
Charles? It's so close." Evalyn was
still in the dark.
By degrees they told her of the
necessity of the delay in Charles'
education, and about the offer of
the new position that had just come
in the mail. It was too good to
pass by— equal to the security that
would come with a Doctorate.
"With rent and utilities the way
they are, besides a living to make,
tuition, and doctor bills— it's no
use," said Maida unhappily.
Evalyn knew that the time had
come. She left the room, returning
in a moment. She handed Charles
the crisp, blue legal document, and
then handed Maida the keys to the
house on Cherry Lane Drive.
"Deeds!" said Charles. "Property
in our name/ What is this?" He was
on his feet, while Maida could only
look blankly at the keys in her hand.
pVALYN enjoyed the scene. She
enjoyed telling them all the
procedures she had gone through to
obtain the house, since that first day
that she received her gift from Uncle
Benjamin's estate.
"But, why?" insisted Charles,
"why not have kept the property in
your own name? Why hand every-
thing over to us?"
Evalyn smiled as she looked up
at him. "I didn't want a house,
Charles," she said sincerely. "I
think I just wanted you and Maida
and the children. To be near you
is enough. To be wanted is more
than enough, and I think you both
proved that, through my illness.
Now that you know everything, per-
haps I can show you a practical so-
lution to your problem. Since I
had planned on furnishing the
house, why not use those funds to
complete your education? Have the
full year, without worry over bread
and butter."
Maida gave a happy little scream.
"Mother!" she said, going to Evalyn
with the baby still sleeping on her
shoulder. "Oh, Mother! That is
the best part of all, giving poor
Charles a rest. He must be the
most tired man in the world. Thank
you. Mom. You're so wonderful!"
Evalyn smiled as she took little
Bobby by the hand, as he came into
the room. "You have a house," she
said to Charles and Maida. "Don't
you want to see it?"
Charles grinned for a moment.
He threw the Philadelphia letter on
the table. "I won't need that," he
said gratefully.
"You'll need this, though," said
Maida as she handed him the key.
Charles took the key and the
small child.
"Your mother is certainly tops,"
he said.
Evalyn heard him as she went out
the door. It was all she wanted to
hear. With children like that, one
couldn't ask for more. Life was
complete.
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Sarah O. Moss, Salt Lake City, Utah, is a talented and enthusiastic writer whose
work has appeared in the Church magazines over a period of twenty years. Several of
her stories have been published in The Reliei Society Magazine. She is best known in
the field of juvenile writing. Her stories have appeared often in The Children s Friend,
as well as in many juvenile magazines of national circulation. She is a member of the
League of Utah Writers, a former member of the Barnacles Writers Club, and a work-
shop writers group in Salt Lake City. She is the wife of Don W. Moss. They are
members of the Garden Heights South Ward, and are the parents of three daughters,
Joyce and Mary Sue Moss, students at the University of Utah, and Mrs. Carol Donna
Voss, of Pomona, California, also one grandchild. Mrs. Moss was born in Brooklyn,
New York, coming with her parents to Logan, Utah, at an early age. She received her
education at Brigham Young College and Utah State University.
cJhe Lrraine Viyind
June N. Ashton
Today, from the glacier-bedded mountains
Wails the lonely wind, home to the prairie.
"Winter and death I bring with me," she shrieks.
Her words are ice-covered, fearful, dreary.
Yesterday the wind was mellow and mild.
Yellow, orange, and red colored the scene.
As autumn leaves floated to rest on earth,
A rich harvest was yours and mine to glean.
Tomorrow a greater change she will bring;
Spring will be on her gay breath, and laughter.
The warm prairie wind will not give
Winter death, but hope to life thereafter.
♦ ■
t/t Lrrophet Spoke
(March 17, 1842)
Ruth H. ChadwicJc
A Prophet spoke in these the latter-days,
And turned the keys that women, too, might grow
In knowledge, wisdom, and in kindly ways
To serve mankind as Christ did long ago.
From his own lips their earliest teachings came —
To care for all, the needy, sick, and those
With hearts bowed down with sorrow, or the lame
And weary, spirits crushed by countless woes.
He taught them truth, a bulwark sure and strong,
Against the powers of darkness and of sin;
That they might always know the right from wrong
And live to gain that peace of soul within.
A Prophet spoke and pointed out the way;
And blessed are those who listen and obey!
oJhe Lyentrai States 1 1 it
ission
Pieston R. Nihley
Assistant Church Historian
'T^HE Central States Mission is the outgrowth of two earher missions—
the Indian Territory and the Southwestern States. The Indian Terri-
tory Mission was organized in April 1855, and Elders Henry W. Miller,
Robert C. Petty, Washington W. Cook, John A. Richards, and William
A. Richey were sent there to labor as the first missionaries. In 1866 Indian
Agents requested the missionaries to leave the Indian Territory and the
mission was closed.
The mission was again opened in 1883 by Elders George Teasdale,
Joseph H. Felt, and William Dalton. Two years later Elder Andrew
Kimball was called to preside, and he held the position until 1897, when
he was succeeded by Elder William T. Jack. In 1898 the name of the
mission was changed to the Southwestern States Mission, and it was
formed to include Arkansas, Texas, Missouri, Louisiana, and the terri-
tories of Oklahoma and Indian Territory. President Jack was succeeded
as president, in April 1900, by Elder James G. Duffin. In 1904, the name
of the mission was again changed to the Central States Mission and the
headquarters was moved to Independence, Jackson County, Missouri.
In 1906 Elder Samuel O. Bennion was called to preside over the
Central States Mission. Under his direction a substantial mission home
otto Done
REMAINS OF STONE ALTAR AT ADAM-ONDI-AHMAN, MISSOURI
(See Doetrine and Covenants 78:15, 107:53, 116, 117:8, 11.)
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THE CENTRAL STATES MISSION
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Marshall Settle Photography
Submitted by Douglas Traywick
THE NATIONAL HALL OF FAME FOR FAMOUS AMERICAN INDIANS
Anadarko, Oklahoma
Across the highway to the left is the ten-acre tract where the Anadarko chapel of
the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is being built, and also the Bureau of
Information for the Anadarko Branch.
and chapel were erected at Independence. Also a printing plant was built
to house Zion's Printing and Publishing Company, which published tracts
for all the missions of the Church in the United States. In addition a
magazine was published in the interest of missionary work, called the
Liahona, the Eldeis Journal.
Samuel O. Bennion presided over the Central States Mission until Jan-
uary 1934, a period of almost twenty-eight years. Prior to this time, on April
13, 19337 he was sustained a member of the First Council of Seventy.
President Bennion was succeeded in the Central States Mission by Elias
S. Woodruff; President Woodruff was succeeded in June 1939 by John F.
Bowman; President Bowman was succeeded in June 1943 by Thomas C.
Romney; President Romney was succeeded in October 1946 by Francis W.
Brown; President Brown was succeeded in March 1950 by J. Orval Ells-
worth; President Ellsworth was succeeded in March 1954 by Alvin R.
Dyer; President Dyer was succeeded in July 1958 by Samuel R. Carpenter,
who presides at the present time.
On November 30, 1958, there were 11,614 members of the Church
in the Central States Mission, located in fifty-eight branches.
Sixty-five Relief Society organizations, with 1089 members, were re-
ported in December 1958. May E. J. Dyer is former president of the
Central States Mission Relief Society, and Catherine R. Carpenter is the
present president.
Note: The cover for this Magazine "Scene in the Ozark Mountains, Arkansas/' is
reproduced from a color transparency by Fred H. Ragsdale, Free Lance Photographers
Guild, Inc. See also "Recipes From the Central States Mission," by Sister Dyer,
page 176.
4 4
Not of This Fold"
Frances C. Yost
EVELYN Handy's fingers
worked with the ceramics.
Carefully she spooned the
moistened plaster of Paris into the
molds, and watched it take form.
It was fun doing things creative,
working with her hands. It re-
minded Evelyn of Relief Society
work meeting back home in Utah.
She missed Relief Society more than
any one thing since Russell had
been transferred and they had come
East to live. Sunday wasn't so bad,
they almost always drove the long
distance to the nearest Latter-day
Saint branch and attended meetings.
But Evelyn couldn't get to Relief
Society on Tuesdays, as she used to
do back home.
Evelyn thought of her new
friends. Sue Reynolds, for one, who
lived close by. She was friendly
enough, had invited her over, want-
ed her to join her own friends, but
Evelyn knew they played cards. But
she did need friends. . . .
''Ding/' the door bell sang.
''Coming," Evelyn answered.
"Wonder who could be calling at
nine a.m.?" she murmured, wiping
her hands and hurrying to the door.
"Why, Sue Reynolds, welcome to
the Handy manor this bright fall
morning." Evelyn held the door
open, and Sue whisked in. "Fm
making ceramics, you know, fig-
urines." Evelyn pointed to her work
spread out on the dining-room table.
"That looks fun to do!" Sue
sparkled with delight. "Where on
earth did you learn how to make
these?"
"They taught us back home
at "
Page 158
"What do you call this figurine?"
Sue interrupted, holding up one
which Evelyn had completed.
"I call that a Pioneer Madonna,"
Evelyn explained. "See her cloth-
ing is simple, and she has a child
clinging to her skirts."
"It's lovely. I didn't know people
made these, I mean ... I thought
they were artist sculptured." She
picked up another figurine. "This
one is so colorful in its bright yel-
low dress, and carrying a basket over-
flowing with bronze flowers. Re-
minds me of Indian summer. Does
this one have a name?"
"I call it Autumn Glory," Evelyn
explained.
"Well named. What's this little
one, an elf?" She asked, picking up a
third ceramic.
"Well it could be an elf," Evelyn
laughed, "but I call him a 'Little
Imp.' See, he neither sits nor lies,
but does a combination of both."
"Honestly, Eve, have you actually
made all these figurines yourself?"
Sue Reynolds seemed amazed.
"Yes, they taught us back home
at "
"Tell you what! These things,
these figurines you've made will
make the cleverest prizes for a card
game. Your Pioneer Madonna will
be first prize; Autumn Glory, sec-
ond; and the Little Imp will be the
consolation prize!" Sue warbled de-
lightedly.
"But I've never. . . ." Evelyn
started to explain that she didn't
want them used for prizes, that she
didn't play cards, but it was hard
to get a word in with Sue Reynolds.
"Evelyn Handy, face the facts.
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You're letting yourself rot away
here staying home, and not getting
out and meeting people. Now Tm
taking you in hand and seeing that
you know the nicest people in town.
Next Tuesday I'll bring a group of
friends here to your home."
''But. . . ." Evelyn interluded.
"Don't worry about a thing, Eve.
ril furnish the refreshments, bring
the guests, and all you'll have to
do is furnish the prizes, and you
have them already.'' Sue rambled
on. ''Well, I just ran over for a
few minutes to put off doing the
breakfast dishes a little longer. See
you Tuesday at two, and I'll bring
along some other ladies. Time you
were worked into society here in
the East, Eve."
Sue was gone.
npHAT same evening Evelyn paint-
ed the figurines while Russell
read the paper.
"You know. Eve, I sort of envy
you. You can keep busy making
things, and all I seem to be able to
do is read in the evening. It seems
sort of like evenings back home
when you finished your Relief So-
ciety work before turning in."
"Making these figurines reminds
me of work meetings back home
too, Russ." Evelyn felt tears
moistening her lashes. She had
worried all day about Sue Reynolds'
plans. She did want to make
friends, but she didn't want to low-
er her standards, even for friends.
If she told Russ about it, perhaps he
could help her out of her predica-
ment.
Russell Handy looked at his wife,
he suspected her loneliness.
"Too bad you have to miss out
on so many things like Relief So-
ciety, but honestly, Eve, if you
hadn't come with me, been a good
sport about leaving your home, the
Church headquarters, and your
friends, well, I just couldn't have
made out on this new job. What
are you making the figurines for.
Eve?"
"Sue Reynolds came over this
morning, and she's inviting a group
of ladies here Tuesday afternoon
and. . . ."
Russ almost smirked. "I asked
what you're going to do with the
figurines. You talk in circles, Eve."
"Well, Sue, she's sort of forward,
or domineering or something, Russ.
She wants the figurines for
prizes. . . ."
"Just a bunch of sheep with no
leader." Russell stood up and
yawned. "Well, I guess I'll turn
in." He put the paper aside and
left the room.
Alone in the dining room, Evelyn
realized the problem was hers alone,
and hers to work out. She thought,
it would have been so much easier
if Russell had said, "Make an ex-
cuse, honey," or "Go ahead and
spend an afternoon with the girls."
But he hadn't said anything. Yes,
he had muttered something. What
was it? "A bunch of sheep with no
leader." What had he meant?
Evelyn wrestled with her prob-
lem, as her fingers worked artfully.
Surely a card game with only fig-
urines as prizes wouldn't be too bad.
"Too bad," Evelyn muttered the
words. Things were either good or
bad. They just couldn't be half
and half.
Evelyn pondered over the words
Russell had mumbled as he left
the room. The Savior had said
something himself about sheep,
what was it? "Other sheep I have,
which are not of this fold." Why
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these new friends here in the East carry things through as she had
were no doubt good people, it was planned.
just that they were . . . sort of . . . ''Well, where are the card tables?''
not of the fold. Sue peered about. ''Might as well
If I could only get to Sister Mur- get started. Fve already told the
ray, our dear Relief Society presi- girls about the prizes you make, Eve.
dent back home, and tell her my Oh, look, girls, here are the clever
problems, or if I could invite them figurines," Sue called joyously,
all to go with me to Relief Society, pointing to a small table,
but it's so far, and the traffic is so There followed a chatter of ad-
con jested during the week days, miration.
Finally, Evelyn arose and spoke:
q^UESDAY dawned clear, bright, "Sisters " She stopped. Why,
and golden, like an Indian maid- she shouldn't have addressed them
en of Indian summertime. Evelyn as sisters. She must apologize. . . .
loved autumn. She took a basket "You do all seem like sisters to me.
and went into the garden and gath- Back where I come from we have
ered bronze and yellow chrysan- a woman's organization which meets
themums. As she filled her basket each week just at this time. We
she felt like her figurine Autumn call it the Rehef Society. The name
Glory. The house must look its implies doing good to others, which
loveliest, surely these clean, beauti- we do when there is sickness or
ful flowers would help her see this need around. But the name means
through. Silently Evelyn said a even more, it means self-improve-
prayer, "Dear Father, help me to ment in so many ways."
... to carry on alone." The women were listening. Eve-
"Ding," the doorbell sang. lyn found she could modulate her
"Coming," Evelyn replied. voice. As she continued, her voice
"Well, here we are!" Sue Rey- held a sacred tone. "We members
nolds chuckled. "Seven of us con- of the Relief Society meet once each
gregated at my home and came over week and do things together. One
together. week we study something uplifting,
"Evelyn, I want you to meet Ruth a study of the scriptures. This les-
Ellis, the quiet type; Marva Reed, son is called theology. Another
the interesting type; Ginnie Brooks, week we study literature, you know,
the talkative one, if I'm not around; great writers, and their works. This
Cora Stephens, your neighbor in the particular course is much like going
next block; Connie Conrad, a friend back to college. Another week we
to everyone; Lydia Walters, a moth- study family relations or community
er to us all, not so much because problems. It helps us to get along
she is a bit older, but because she with each other, and rear a family
is so very wise." properly in these trying times.
"I'm glad to meet all of you," "Another week we do things with
Evelyn said warmly. Inwardly she our hands. We tie quilts for wel-
had dreaded meeting these women, fare, or quilt lovely ones to sell at
but she liked their appearance. They the bazaar, or do needlework, or
seemed nice, each one of them. If tear carpet rags. Other days we
she could only keep up her courage, learn to make something decorative
'NOT OF THIS FOLD'
161
or useful for our own homes. I
made those twin pictures of the
flamingos from sheet copper at Re-
lief Society/' Evelyn nodded at
two pictures hanging on her living
room wall.
''And this little sewing basket
here by my favorite chair, I made
it one day at work meeting. The
silver tray which holds the figurines
was another project which we made
at our regular monthly work meet-
ing. And, of course, the figurines
which Sue showed you, I learned
how to make those, too, at Relief
Society.
''I thought you might like to make
one of those ceramics today. I
have lots of molds and plaster of
Paris, and even the paints and glaze
you would need. If you would en-
joy making these ceramics today, we
could do as we do sometimes at
Relief Society, and don some old
shirts which I have here, to keep our
nice dresses protected. How about
it? Would you like to do some-
thing together like this. . . ?"
pVELYN realized she hadn't giv-
en such a long speech since she
gave a lesson back home in Relief
Society meeting. She waited, but
no one said anything. The women
had listened attentively, every one
of them, but had they listened with
their ears, not their hearts?
Evelyn found herself breathing a
little prayer as she stood before these
new friends, ''Dear Father, help me
to turn the hearts of these good . . .
good sisters who are not of the
fold "
The clock ticked away the sec-
onds. It seemed unusually loud.
Evelyn had hoped they would ask
questions about Relief Society. She
guessed she had been presumptive;
just because she herself had enjoyed
Relief Society meetings so much,
she had thought everyone would be
interested to know about them. She
had had the mistaken idea that the
women would bubble over with in-
terest at her first mention of it, but
this silence, complete silence, ex-
cept for the clock ticking away the
time, stilled Evelyn.
She recalled that the women had
been very talkative when they first
came. Before she had mentioned
Relief Society. They had laughed
and joked and talked all at the same
time and now . . . just silence. They
were indicating that they had come
for another reason, not to don old
shirts and play in clay. She had let
them come here to her home expect-
ing something else, but she had
meant well . . . she had tried. Eve-
lyn felt tears accumulating behind
her eyelids.
"Of course, if you would rather
not," Evelyn began. . . .
"Wait, Mrs. Handy ... Eve . . r
Lydia Walters spoke. Sue had said
Lydia Walters was wise. Probably
wise in the world's ways. Evelyn's
heart almost stopped beating, as she
waited to hear what Lydia Walters
had to say.
"I suggest we make ceramics this
afternoon, since you have gone to
all the trouble of getting the molds
and material. What do you say,
girls?" Lydia put the question to
the group.
"All right, for a change," they
murmured.
Evelyn's heart took up it's slow,
wary beating. "I'll get the things."
How strange that her voice should
sound so natural when her heart
was racing so.
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■pOR the next hour Evelyn was as
busy as a work meeting leader
on work day. Each woman decided
on a mold of her choice, and
spooned the softened plaster of
Paris into the forms. As they
worked, they chattered about their
work, just as the sisters did back
home on work day. It was fun talk,
and sounded sweetly familiar to
Evelyn. Time was completely for-
gotten, and the clock in the hall
could not be heard now.
''How're you coming with yours,
Sue? When you're through with
that mold, Ruth, may I use it?
Clever, Connie! Good work, Cora!
My, that's pretty, Ginnie!"
Later, while the ceramics were
setting, Evelyn and Sue served light
refreshments.
Then it was that Lydia Walters
asked: ''How often do you say your
Relief Society meets?"
''Every Tuesday afternoon/' Eve-
lyn replied.
"And a work meeting similar to
what we have had this afternoon is
held once each month?" Lydia in-
quired.
"Yes, once each month. On the
second Tuesday," Evelvn replied.
"But if the women don't want to
wait a whole month, can they finish
their work?" Sue Reynolds asked.
"Often a special day is held to
finish work, or sometimes it is taken
home and finished," Evelyn ex-
plained.
"I have still another question,"
Lydia Walters said.
The women became especially
quiet, and listened. "Do I under-
stand correctly that one can be a
member of Relief Society and not
be a member of your faith, Evelyn?"
"A Relief Society is always organ-
ized under the direction of the mis-
sion president, but one need not be
a member of our Church," Evelyn
explained.
"Are there dues in Relief So-
ciety?" Lydia asked.
"Fifty cents a year," Evelyn said
simply.
"So much for so little." They
sighed.
"I want each of you to take home
one of my Reliei Society Magazines
to read. I don't mind admitting it
is my favorite magazme, with stories,
poems, recipes, articles, and good
reading, besides the lessons for each
week." Evelyn passed out a Maga-
zine to each of the guests.
"Thanks so much," each one mur-
mured.
The women were leaving now, but
they were all taking her hand in
friendship and thanking her for the
wonderful afternoon.
It was Sue Reynolds who lingered
when the others had gone. "Honest-
ly, Evelyn, Fve never had such a
good, interesting afternoon in my
life. I've always wanted to know
how to do things with my hands,
but I never thought I could learn,
or enjoy it so much. You know.
Eve, when you started telling us
about your Relief Society, you
seemed sort of like an angel stand-
ing there, and we all knew you had
something we just didn't have and
we wanted it very much. It's just
as if you'd opened up a new world
for us."
It had been a wonderful after-
noon, Evelyn knew. She had so
much to tell Russ when he came
home. Later she must write to the
mission president and his wife and
invite them to visit their group.
Evelyn had a feeling there might
be a new Relief Society to be
organized.
Josef Muench
CRATER LAKE (OREGON) IN WINTER
m
ountain
[Born
Maude Rubin
These I remember: aspens' shimmering shadows:
Great granite boulders red with hchen rust;
Mariposa hhes in cool meadows;
And autumn mornings, white with fern-leafed frost.
I hear again the plaintive, endless bleating
Of sheep in alpine pastures' huddled flocks;
The raucous mountain jay; high call of pika.
Its bright-eyed wariness among the rocks.
These I remember: sudden drums of thunder —
And winter's deep-banked hush — its still white wonder!
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Trask's Studio, Franconia, New Hampshire
CLOSE-UP VIEW OF THE OLD MAN OF THE MOUNTAIN
The Old Man of the Mountain
Martha Roheson Wiight
WE stood beside the still
waters in the warmth of
the early June sun, and ex-
cept for the occasional chirp of a
bird, there was absolute peace and
quiet. On the opposite shore of
the small, tranquil Profile Lake,
1,060 feet above the green forest on
Cannon Mountain, the noble, gran-
ite profile of a man gazed ever south-
eastward, as he had been doing for
untold years, in solitary dignity. No
one spoke as we looked up at na-
ture's handiwork of classic grandeur.
For this was the Old Man of the
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Mountain, the Great Stone Face of
Hawthorne's famous allegory, in
the Franconian Notch Pass in the
heart of New Hampshire's White
Mountains, about which Whittier
wrote: 'The Great Notch Moun-
tains shone, watched over by the
solemn-brov/ed and awesome face of
stone."
The mountainous region of the
Great Stone Face in the north cen-
tral part of New Hampshire, in
Grafton County, may be reached
from United States Highway 3 run-
ning north from Boston, Massa-
THE OLD MAN OF THE MOUNTAIN
165
chusetts, or from U. S. 2 running
eastward from Montpelier, Ver-
mont.
New Hampshire, one of the New
England States known as ''the
Cradle of America," is one of the
beauty spots of this continent. The
White Mountains, high and in
places precipitous, with outcrop-
pings of granite in the heavily wood-
ed peaks, abound with rock for-
mations of weird shapes, like Can-
non Rock, Old Lady, Indian Head,
and The Watcher. In the White
Mountain Glacier Park, you will find
a menagerie of stone: elephant, sea
lion, polar bear, bear, camel, dog,
turtle, rabbit, and fish. Also a
^'giant's footprint" embedded in the
granite. As ''keeper of the zoo" is
the stone face of George Washing-
ton. The Polar Caves, the "rock
garden of the giants," are like noth-
ing else on the North American
continent, formed of granite, where-
as most caves are of limestone.
But to me, the most thrilling sight
was that of the Old Man of the
Mountain, viewed by over fifty mil-
lion people since its discovery by
white men in 1805. It brought back
Hawthorne's mythical village at the
base of the mountain, where the in-
habitants, year after year, sought to
find a man whose nobility of spirit
would cause him to resemble the
noble profile of the Great Stone
Face, only to realize that Ernest,
one of their own number, had be-
come the living counterpart.
It is believed that the likeness was
carved by the severeness of the
Franconian winters, after eruptions,
millions of years ago, of earthquakes
and glowing lava that spewed itself
over the region, where it cooled in-
to the rock now known as Conway
granite. Over the centuries, ero-
sion, landslides, and water, slowly
carried off the top-soil and exposed
the granite to the elements, leaving
the Notch and the peaks as they are
today. Then a mighty glacier cov-
ered them with ice and snow for
thousands of years. It left the high
southeast cliff of Cannon Mountain
bold and steep. Rain, sleet, and
snow of the severe winters seeped
into the cracks, expanding the rocks
and causing tons of them to slide
from the cliff. This left ledges
blending into each other and form-
ing the Profile. Finally, the frost
broke away a thirty-ton block of
granite that slid down to form the
Profile's forehead.
Thus, the Old Man of the Moun-
tain, forty-eight feet from the tip
of his forehead to the bottom of
the chin, stood for centuries, ap-
parently unnoticed by Indian tribes
in the region, for no mention of it
can be found in the Indian legends.
lyrEW Hampshire history records
that a narrow path had been
broken through the Notch by In-
dian war parties driving white cap-
tives to remote bases. As the colon-
ists drove the Indians back, the first
freight was transported through the
Notch in 1771, and the little town
of Franconia was settled in 1774,
but it was not until 1805 that a
road was built and the Great Stone
Face was discovered. Two parties of
surveyors claim to have this distinc-
tion. One is that Luke Brooks and
Francis Whitcomb stopped by Pro-
file Lake to wash and drink. They
straightened up, and one saw the
Old Man of the Mountain. The
other version is that Nathaniel Hall,
166 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MARCH 1959
also a road worker, went out early in 1915, he met E. H. Geddes, nian-
the morning to shoot partridges for ager of a Massachusetts stone quar-
breakfast. He happened to look up ry, who became interested and
and hurried back to camp to tell of climbed up with the Reverend Rob-
his discovery. erts to inspect the forehead. They
At first, the news spread slowly, found that if it slid four inches, it
Most of the visitors arrived on horse- would fall. Mr. Geddes anchored
back to see Mt. Washington, 6,293 *^^^ boulder, hoping it would hold,
feet high, but went on to view the Almost a year later, in June, upon
face after a guidebook was issued inspection, they found the forehead
in 1823. Hawthorne visited the had moved one and a half inches
Old Man in 1832 and wrote his between their visits.
famous story. Presidents Tackson rT«TTT7 . r n • j
JO- T r i-i. T £11 T^HL two men finally convmced
and Fierce, Lafayette, Longfellow, 1 ^ t^ n i o ^^^
Whittier, Emerson, Thoreau, and ,^ Governor Rolland Spaulding
Daniel Webster came to marvel. In ^^^^ something must be done before
i86qPresident Ulysses S. Grant came ., , , ., ,
to try the new cog railroad, the first FOvided and the work started be-
of its kind in this country, to the
it was too late. State funds were
provided, and the work started be-
fore winter came. Three sets of
top of mT Washington." He ^sited ^"^'^°^ ^f«"^, t'"^,^. t° ^'^ feet long
the Old Man and spread the word, f"'^, two ,nches thick were finished
He was followed by President Cleve- ^y ^^*.^ September. Nearly a ton of
land, William Cullen Bryant, Jenny §^^5' ^ckding anchors, tools, food
Lind, Mary Baker Eddy, and Henry and water was hauled to the top.
WardBeecher. As help was lacking Mr. Geddes
_ _^ , All- who was ntty years old, carried most
In 1880, when an Appalachian of it up himself . There was no trail.
Mountain C ub group climbed to ^^^ ^^^ ^^ ^^^ ^^ j^^ ^-^1^
the top of the Great Stone Face, ^^^^^ ^j^^^^^ ^^^^^ ^^^- ^^ 1^^^^.
they discovered that prying fingers ^^^^-^^ ^^ Geddes' fingers were
of frost were tilting the great stone frostbitten, and the slippery footing
that formed the forehead If the threatened to toss him to death
stone tumbled. It would break the hundreds of feet below, but with
nose, and the Old Man would be h^ig^ ^^iu^^ -^^ ^^e rock and the
ruined forever. Surveying experts j^jg^ behind, steel blocks were in-
decided It would be impossible to ^^^^ed and cemented. Anchor chains
avert the catastrophe. ^^^^ fastened to the eyes in blocks
The Reverend Guy Roberts, and drawn tight with turn buckles,
whose devotion and writings gave The work was finished in eight days,
him the title of ''Valet to the Old In 1927 and 1937 inspections were
Man of the Mountains," waged a made, and the last repair work was
successful campaign to save the done when Mr. Geddes, at seventy-
Profile. He climbed to the top in one, supervised the work.
1906, taking pictures and measure- By this time the State of New
ments, and searched for years for Hampshire had taken over,
someone who would believe the Old After the Profile House, the hotel
Man could be repaired. In August built to house the many visitors, had
THE OLD MAN OF THE MOUNTAIN
167
Trask's Studio, Franconia, New Hampshire
ECHO LAKE AND THE FRANCONIAN NOTCH PASS, NEW HAMPSHIRE
burned down in 1923, its operators,
who owned most of the Notch, de-
cided not to rebuild. Fearing that
the Notch might be stripped by
lumber firms who were eager to bid,
the people of New Hampshire
clamored to save it. An appropria-
tion of $200,000 was raised to buy
the Old Man of the Mountain and
its surroundings. But the hotel
owners wanted $400,000 for their
entire holdings of 6,000 acres, which
included the Old Man, Flume, Pro-
file Lake, Echo, and Lonesome Lake.
James Storrow of Boston, treasurer
of the Society for the Protection of
New Llampshire Forests, willed
them $100,000. The State House
would not give any more money.
Finally, the Women's Club in the
State took charge and raised the
balance with 15,000 contributions.
In 1928, Franconia Notch State
Reservation was dedicated as a War
Memorial. Ten years later the State
opened the Cannon Mountain
Aerial Tramway, the first of its kind
in North America. Other scenic
spots were developed. In 1954, a
State team, visiting the top of the
Great Stone Face, found the anch-
ors placed there by Mr. Geddes still
holding. A few loose stones were
cemented.
So the Old Man of the Mountain,
the Profile, or the Great Stone Face,
is preserved for future generations.
Whether the classic story by Haw-
thorne is still required reading in
the schools, I do not know. In this
present world of scientific knowl-
edge, strife, and conflict, it is an
imaginative tale of nobility and
grandeur found at home.
Sixty LJears J^go
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, March i, and March 15, 1899
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the
Women of All Nations"
RESOLUTION BY THE NATIONAL COUNCIL OF WOMEN: Beheving
that the two strongest unifying forces of organized effort are human brotherhood and
Divine Fatherhood, and rejoicing in the expression of humanitarian principles in the
manifold activities of American women, represented by the National Council of
Women; therefore, Resolved, That this universal faith in the Divine Fatherhood should
be expressed by either vocal or silent prayer at the opening of all sessions of the
Council.
— From the Triennial Report
A NOBLE RELIEF SOCIETY WOMAN: The day is quite emblematic, the
80th birthday of our beloved and respected Stake president. Sister M. I. Home . . .
the snow coming down so pure and white is like . . . her grand life has been . . . she
has been a model woman, thoroughly domesticated, but modest and unassuming, . . .
I well remember how gentle she seemed in conducting the affairs of the society, yet
firm in all her ways, but never any arrogance. ... I do not forget how she would inter-
cede with the sisters to do their duty and laid plans, and persevered in having the
society hall built . . . that being completed, paid for and dedicated, how she again
planned for the building of a granary. . . . Her family is an example to the com-
munity. What a heavenly blessing!
— E. J. S.
MY WARNING
Father, I daily plead, keep me from sin,
Help me a shining light to be.
To help those whom thou hast placed within my care.
That I may lead them back to Thee,
Back to the home from whence, so pure, they came.
This is the prayer I ask in Jesus' name.
—Nellie
MEMORABLE ANNIVERSARY: The 17th of March, anniversary of the first
organization of the Relief Society, will be generally observed throughout the organiza-
tion in some way commemorative of that auspicious occasion, and no doubt the sisters
will try to review in some way the work accomplished during the fifty-seven years,
though very few are living now who were present then. Only one that we can recall
at this present moment, that one is Sister Bathsheba B. Smith, who was at that time
not quite twenty years old. The assistant secretary appointed on that occasion, Sister
Phebe M. Wheeler, has died during the last few months at Bountiful at a great age. . . .
— Editorial
RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE IN WEBER STAKE: Sister Zina D. H.
Young addressed the sisters. Said the faces of the Saints were the most beautiful picture
she could look upon. Her desire was to comfort and bless the sisters. She had never
had a doubt of the divinity of this work, had received a testimony when a child, and
felt herself the happiest person in the world.
— ^Act. Sec.
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
'THE Fine Arts Committee of pHRISTIE LUND COLES, Pro-
Mesa, Arizona, choosing from vo, Utah, a contributor to The
among devotees of all the arts, has Relief Society Magazine, and prize-
named writer Mrs. Orson C. (Ber- winner in several Relief Society
tha) Kleinman ''Artist of the Year" literary contests, has published
for 1958. She received a very hand- seventy-six of her recent poems in
some plaque and the most flattering Some Spring Returning (Faucette
of citations. Now eighty-one, Mrs. Publications, Provo, Utah.) The
Kleinman is remembered among poems are representative of the
Latter-day Saints for her pageant lyrical gifts and heartfelt under-
''Message of the Ages." She has standing of this well-known poet,
since written ten other pageants and
is author of a great number of /^ERTRUDE MacLEAN, Lon-
poems, hymns, short stories, and don, England, in 1921, organ-
dramas, ized the ''Universal Aunts," a help-
ful society offering to do "anything
CAMILLA KOFFLER, the fam- for anybody at any time." They
ous photographer of animals tend babies, find employment for
known as Ylla, was the author of people, locate houses and apart-
Animals in India, just off the ments, reserve seats at theaters and
Harper press. The volume includes do research work. They do wash-
a diary of her recent trip in India, ings, wave hair, hang curtains, read
with entries recording what she saw to the ill or the aged, assist with
and photographed up to two days hobbies, and do catering for parties;
before an accident which killed her they arrange travel tours, buy trous-
— a fall from a jeep while she was seaux and layettes, act as companions
photographing a bullock-cart race. and nurses, and meet trains, air-
planes, and busses. "Token" prices
lyrRS. TORA SELANDER NEL- are charged for these services, plus a
SON, Teasdale, Utah, has 35c registration fee from all cus-
changed an abandoned schoolhouse tomers.
into a museum. Thirty-three years
ago, Mrs. Nelson, who was then a pRISCILLA J. MILITANTE is
citizen of Sweden, visited Utah's the first woman of Philippine
flaming canyon country, and was so ancestry to enter the field of ge-
impressed that she made up her ology. She received Bachelor's and
mind to return and make her home Master's Degrees from the Univer-
in the colored cliffs. Now she has sity of the Philippines, and at pres-
a home and museum filled with art ent is working towards a Doctor's
treasures from all over the world. Degree in Geology at Stanford Uni-
including an Eskimo blanket made versify. She is co-author with }o-
of Arctic duck down, and shawls seph J. Graham of an outstanding
from Kashmir. study on "Philippine Foraminifera."
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EDITORIAL
VOL 46
MARCH 1959
NO. 3
I Low, JLet Lis uiejoice
'For the traditions of the people shall become a legacy which they
shall evaluate with rejoicing. . . ."
r^NE hundred and seventeen years
have passed into the annals of
time since the organization of Relief
Society, March 17, 1842. More
than a century has gone, and we
come to another time of special
evaluation of our heritage as mem-
bers of Relief Society. It is a time
for us to contemplate, with historic
perspective, our traditions, our be-
liefs, the practices and principles
which have guided the lives of our
mothers in the generations past,
which are now our daily pattern,
and which will be the legacy of our
daughters.
The gospel came to the women
of the early Church as a cause for
great rejoicing. From a profound
and earnest searching, a glorious ful-
fillment had come. The generations
of the past, the wide and wonderful
vistas of their own day, and all the
frontiers of the future reaching into
the eternities, for them were linked
together in the great sunlight of
the restoration. Even hardships be-
came opportunities, and the women
felt a desire to enrich their individ-
ual potentialities and to unite with
their sisters that their hands might
be strengthened, their spirits uplift-
ed, and their services multiplied.
This rejoicing in the gospel be-
came the luminous horizon for the
divinely directed pathway of women.
The sisters of Nauvoo saw the
boats ruffling the waves of the wide
river, as families arrived day after
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day to unite with the Church, and
the women who were first in the
''City of Joseph" considered the
needs of the newcomers as "a loud
call for relief"— not for the provid-
ing of food and housing alone, but
for spiritual enlightenment and for
kindness and comfort in an alien
place.
Long before the formal organiza-
tion of Relief Society, the women
had hoped for a pattern and a de-
sign to guide them. When the
Prophet Joseph Smith turned the
key and gave direction to their
efforts, the women rejoiced, for they
knew that the blessings of the Lord
would be with them in their minis-
trations.
Thus, the restoration of the gos-
pel and the organization of Relief
Society by the Prophet became the
first great traditions of the Society,
and a beacon light for times to come
when membership would be multi-
plied, when responsibilities would
be diverse and far-reaching.
In accordance with instructions,
so well expressed by the Prophet,
and "in harmony with their
natures," the women looked first to
the needs of their households, the
honoring of their husbands, the
rearing of their children, and the
tasks of making their homes orderly
and beautiful, employing with ener-
gy all they possessed of time and
talents.
Then afterward they reached out^
EDITORIAL 171
with true charity, to serve their sis- reach the full extent of its glorious
ters, realizing the urgent and special destiny unless the governments and
needs of children, the aged, those the social systems of the earth will
who were ill, and the ones deprived permit the telling of the gospel
of close family associations. Their story. So the sisters willingly lend
quick and willing footsteps along their strength and their influence
the streets of Nauvoo were a bless- to the improvement of the larger
ing, and doorways were lighted by environment. It is a tradition
their faces. These women, as neces- among Relief Society women that
sity committees, were the first visit- they hold as a privilege and a duty
ing teachers, establishing a treasured their right to vote in elections, and
design for Relief Society. to accept and honor the opportunity
In the early days the women to help direct the affairs of the city,
realized the need, also, as we do the state, and the Nation, as well as
today, of a favorable environment in the world, where their children
outside the home in order that their must live and work out the tem-
children might grow strong and poral patterns of their eternal
beautiful and help to build a world destiny.
suitable for the coming of the The women of Relief Society
Savior. To meet this responsibility, cherish tenderly their sisterhood,
another tradition has become dear their concern for each other, their
to the hearts of Relief Society kind and loving charity, their
women — a feeling of devotion to blessed companionship. They think
all the auxiliaries of the Church, of their places of gathering as
active participation, and a spiritual havens for their singing and their
dedication to the ways of worship prayers, for their learning and their
of their children. giving — and for their rejoicing in
Relief Society women realize that the gospel,
the Church cannot prosper and —V. P. C.
(y/a aiome
Helen M. Livingston
The tree grown tall holds up long arms of shade,
Her leafy fingers spread against the sky.
The brook runs close around the old white wall,
And asters blossom in the field close by.
The wide, deep-seated chairs are on the porch;
The daisies still are growing in the grass.
The evening mists are on the balcony;
The dark-gray shadows linger there and pass.
And who will sit upon the porch tonight?
And who will walk upon the balcony?
The moon, slow-rising, dimly lights each pane;
A bird's low call pours softly, silvery.
Oh, mourning dove, once nestled with your mate,
Within the sheltered tree vou call — and wait.
^ofoA TO THE FIELD
Q:yrganizations ana iKeorganizattons of Staui
ana /ilission uielief Societies for ig^S
Stakes
Auckland
Bountiful North
Bountiful South
Cincinnati
Granger
Kearns
Kearns North
Lewiston
Monterey Bay;
Norwalk
Olympus
Orlando
Parleys
Phoenix North
St. Louis
San Antonio
San Diego East
Shreveport
Utah State
University
Weber Heights
West Sharon
Yuma
Missions
New Zealand South
NEW ORGANIZATIONS
FoTmeiJy Part of Appointed President
New Zealand
Mission
Bountiful and South
Davis Stakes
Bountiful and South
Davis Stakes
Great Lakes Mission
North Jordan Stake
Taylorsville Stake
Taylorsville Stake
Spokane Stake
and Northwestern
States Mission
San Jose Stake
East Long Beach
Stake
Holladay Stake
Southern States
Mission
Highland Stake
Phoenix Stake
Central States
Mission
Houston Stake
San Diego Stake
Gulf States Mission
and Dallas Stake
East Cache Stake
South Ogden Stake
Sharon Stake
California Mission
Formerly Part oi
New Zealand
Mission
Gertrude Grant
Dora P. Webb
Mar ilia H. Sessions
Judith Fish
Ella P. Bennion
Esther M. Dimick
Joyce S. Jensen
Norma M. Kunkel
LaVee Haws
Norma Schauers
Vera N.
Vela E.
Barber
Milton
Edythe Watson
Ida M. Steele
Lorene Tidlund
Kathryn K. Willis
Enid Miller
Evelyn B. Hill
Date Appointed
May 18, 1958
April 20, 1958
April 20, 1958
November 23, 1958
June 8, 1958
February 20, 1958
February 1, 1958
December 14, 1958
March 3, 1958
October 29, 1958
July 20, 1958
Febr-uary 23, 1958
December 7, 1958
January 20, 1958
June 1, 1958
March 13, 1958
April 20, 1958
January 26, 1958
Hattie B. Maughan May 18, 1958
Hilda T. Halverson
Oda Rasmussen
Louise S. Westover
Appointed President
Helen W. Anderson
December 3, 1958
November 30, 1958
April 27, 1958
Date Appointed
August 15, 1958
REORGANIZATIONS
Stakes
Blaine
Bountiful
Canyon Rim
Dallas
Deseret
East Phoenix
East Provo
Florida
Grand Junction
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Released President Appointed President Date Appointed
Louise Price
Marilla H. Sessions
Bertha H. Blonquist
Allene Bremer
Mary L. Henrie
Lola Green
Ethel M. Wilson
Vella V. Tilton
Evelyn T. McKinnon
Melba Thorne
Ivy W. Richins
Myrtle H. Rappley
Myrl B. Whiting
Ora M. Gardner
Wanda Walker
Fay P. Loveless
Vida P. Bennett
Josephine Prinster
July 18, 1958
April 20, 1958
November 23, 1958
March 30, 1958
October 5, 1958
April 27, 1958
January 12, 1958
September 21, 1958
June 22, 1958
NOTES TO THE FIELD
173
Stakes
Great Falls
Gunnison
Highland
Holladay
Houston
Houston
Idaho
Kanab
Klamath
Long Beach
Lost River
Morgan
New York
New York
North Idaho Falls
North Jordan
Oahu
Park
Pasadena
Raft River
Rose Park
Sacramento
San Diego
San Francisco
San Juan
South Blackfoot
South Los Angeles
South Ogden
South Ogden
Star Valley
Taylor
Uintah
Union
Walnut Creek
Wayne
Wilford
Willamette
Yellowstone
Missions
Brazilian
British
California
Central States
Finnish
Hawaiian
Mexican
New Zealand ;
Northern Mexican
South Australian
Southwest Indian
Released President
Mary W. Hansen
Rebecca M. Anderson
Marjory H. Eldredge
Elaine B. Curtis
Kathryn K. Willis
Zona M. Perry
Elizabeth W. Hatch
Elsie J. Brinkerhoff
Vesta M. Lewis
Lenore G. Merrill
Elva J. Beal
Eva H. Jensen
Margaret D.
Stephenson
Anna Laura Cannon
Ruby F. Olson
Ella P. Reunion
Eugenia N. Logan
Bernice R. Campbell
Thelma J. Nebcker
(deceased July 8,
1958)
Lona C, Hepworth
Betty Jo C. Reiser
Lesslie H. Stubbs
Enid Miller
Gladys R. Winter
Margie H. Lyman
Anna P. Wright
Rose B. Astle
Delora R. Hurst
Mattie G. Ray
Eliza L. Robinson
Margaret W. Ririe
Evyln G. Richardson
Mai B. Oveson
Ellen L. Cook
Thora T. Jackson
Lois Jensen
Erma L. Snowberger
Ida M. Swenson
Released President
Ida M. Sorensen
Irene P. Kerr
Alta H. Taylor
May J. Dyer
Hortense B. Robinson
Maurine H. Haycock
Jennie S. Bowman
Arta R. Ballif
Rhoda C. Taylor
Adelphia D. Bingham
Lavena L. Rohner
Appointed President Date Appointed
Cora A. Stanard
Naomi F. Jensen
Ruby M. Blake
Irene C. Lloyd
Zona M. Perry
Madalyn Corrigan
Cora S. Hogan
Esther W. Heaton
Helyn B. Hassell
Marian Bennett
Beatrice E. Sorensen
Hazel F. Durrant
Anna Laura Cannon
Dessie W. Thomas
Jeanette F. Naegle
Mary Lou Nielson
Lily D. Kama
Cora F. Hansen
Nell L. Ellsworth
April 27, 1958
April 27, 1958
December 7, 1958
June 29, 1958
February 21, 1958
June 22, 1958
September 14, 1958
September 28, 1958
May 8, 1958
August 31, 1958
April 20, 1958
July 10, 1958
March 2, 1958
December 3, 1958
May 25, 1958
June 15, 1958
August 31, 1958
December 14, 1958
September 26, 1958
Thera E. Harper
Ruth J. Harrison
Emily E. Burr
Ida Anderson
Lillian L. Collett
Ruth J. Nielson
Inez S. Pendlebury
Laura R. Shimp
Mattie G. Ray
Auretta G. Man waring
Hazel H. Chadwick
Phoebe H. Norton
Beatrice S. McConkie
Claire P. Ord
Genieve M. James
Emma A. Sorenson
Amelia S. McConkie
Dora I. Hines
Vera B. Tibbitts
May 25, 1958
September 14, 1958
June 29, 1958
April 20, 1958
September 22, 1958
May 18, 1958
July 22, 1958
November 2, 1958
September 14, 1958
November 30, 1958
September 21, 1958
May 25, 1958
December 14, 1958
June 22, 1958
October 5, 1958
September 9, 1958
August 24, 1958
October 26, 1958
June 1, 1958
Appointed President Date Appointed
Geraldine H.
Bangerter
Beulah B. Woodbury
Lela L. Udall
Catherine R.
Carpenter
Ruby E. Warner
Louise S. Brooks
Rhoda C. Taylor
Jelaire C. Simpson
Anna W. Bentley
Velma N. Simonsen
Wilma F. Turley
November 6, 1958
October 2, 1958
August 8, 1958
July 30, 1958
November 4, 1958
May 17, 1958
May 20, 1958
August 15, 1958
May 20, 1958
April 8, 1958
October 9, 1958
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Missions
Spanish-American
Tahitian
Uruguayan
Western Canadian
Western States
Released President
Nina N. Bowman
Dorothy P.
Christensen
Sharon Parry
Annie Ruth Larsen
Mildred P. Elggren
Appointed President Date Appointed
Juhe Bell Brown
Ruth R. Reeder
Lois Geniel Jensen
Lila A. Arave
Daisy R. Romney
October 30, 1958
October 1, 1958
March 7, 1958
May 28, 1958
January 17, 1958
fSlfidex for ig^S uielief Societif i/lagazines K/ivailable
/^OPIES of the 1958 index of The Reliei Society Magazine are available
and may be ordered from the General Board of Relief Society, 76 North
Main Street, Salt Lake City 11, Utah. The price is 20c, including postage.
Relief Society officers and members who wish to have their 1958 issues
of The Relief Society Magazine bound may do so through The Deseret
News Press, 33 Richards Street, Salt Lake City 1, Utah. (See advertise-
ment on page 207.) The cost for binding the twelve issues in a perma-
nent cloth binding is $2.50, leather $3.50, including the index. It is recom-
mended that wards and stakes have one volume of the 1958 Magazines
bound for preservation in ward and stake Relief Society libraries.
LUramatization vl/omen of the /lew viyorla
tyivauavie to uielief Society
An entertaining and educational dramatization ''Women of the New
World,'' by Madeline Silver, is available at the office of the General Board
of Relief Society. The dramatization portrays effectively important women
featured in the 1958-59 literature course. This dramatization could be
appropriately used by ward Relief Societies in a closing social. Nine
characters are represented, and the time required for presentation would
be thirty to forty-five minutes. Price 15c per copy
General Board of Relief Society, 76 North Main
Salt Lake City 11, Utah
tytnnouncing the Special Kjipril Short Story c/ssue
The April 1959 issue of The ReUei Society Magazine will be the special
short story number, with four outstanding stories being presented. Look
for these stories in April:
'The Day I Turned Eight," by Ilene H. Kingsbury
''Unto the Hills," by Helen Hooper
"Great-Grandmother's Notebook," by Arlene D. Cloward
^The Bishop's Wife," by Sylvia Probst Young
,yL ofireside L^hat (cyn a
iourmng Question
Fieedom and Discipline
IresideChat
Oil a
Bumf ng Question
A blessed security of direction in
our choice of life patterns may
be gained from a serious contempla-
tion of our heritage as daughters of
Zion. This legacy of physical and
spiritual wealth, wide and challeng-
ing in its implications, is still a pat-
tern of restraint and discipline.
A woman pioneer to the moun-
tain valleys once remarked, 'The
fireside and the flame seem always
to make a design of my life." She
recounted the memory of bright
flames leaping above a campfire in
the snows of Winter Quarters, and,
later, the flare of evening fires along
the lonely reaches of the Platte. Her
first evening in the wide valley be-
neath the Wasatch Mountains was
warmed by a fire that blazed beside
her wagon. The fire in her first
stove in her first cabin was the
heart of the home. And when she
was finally settled in an even more
distant place, the big, bulging stove
in the meetinghouse became the
center of her time of worship.
Always the flame and the fire were
beautiful to her, but always their
use required control and constant
watchfulness.
Our life patterns give us freedom
or bondage, according to the value
or the detriment which inevitably
accompanies each established habit.
We need to stand in our own tall
strength, and then to have a reserve
of energy and enthusiasm for offer-
ing to those who need us.
It follows, then, that we must
eliminate from our lives those hab-
its already acquired which detract
from our strength, and we must be
ever watchful that no beginning is
made on habits which cause us to
light a cigarette, "playing with fire''
which may lead us into bondage
rather than to freedom. It is often
necessary to be subject to discipline,
if we are to achieve freedom.
When we control our habits we
have power; when they control us
we are weak. It has been well said
that there is no infirmity of body or
mind that cannot be helped by
seeking the truth, and by reliance
upon the ever-available help of our
Heavenly Father. The light and
beauty of the hearth of home, and
the heritage of discipline and free-
dom, are ours to give direction and
purpose to our lives — to help us
make the most of our brief years
upon the earth.
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LKectpes CJrom the (central States lliission
Submitted hy May E. J. Dyer
Lemon Crumb Crunch
Step 1 —
Vi c. sugar 2 eggs, well beaten
2 tbsp. flour % c. lemon juice
V& tsp. salt 1 Vi tsp. grated lemon rind
1 c. hot water
Combine sugar, flour, and salt, then add water and mix well. Cook over hot
water until thick, stirring constantly. Remove from heat and add egg mixture; return
to stove and cook 2 minutes over hot water, stirring constantly. Next add lemon juice
and rind and continue cooking about 1 minute. Remove from stove and cool. Pour
over layers of crumb crunch.
Step 2 —
Crumb Crunch
Vz c. shortening Vi tsp. salt
1 c. brown sugar 1 c. wheat cereal flakes
1 c. flour Vz c. coconut
Mix shortening and brown sugar. Add flour, salt, cereal flakes, and coconut.
Place % of crumb mixture in greased 8-inch square pan, pour filling on top of it, then
place remaining % of crumb mixture on top.
Bake at 350° for 40 minutes. Serves 9. Serve hot or cold with whipped cream
or ice cream.
Boiled Raisin Cake
Jennie Jewkes
First Mixture —
1 lb. raisins 1 c. shortening (scant)
2^/2 c, water
Boil for 10 minutes slowly, and cool.
Second Mixture —
1% c. sugar 2 tsp. cinnamon
Vz c. sifted flour 1 tsp. nutmeg
1 tsp. soda (rounded spoon) Vz tsp. ginger
Add this to first mixture when cool. Bake at 350°. Time: 1 hour;
Pans: 2 greased loaf pans.
Rich Brownies
Margaretha Evans
1 c. pecans
1 tsp. vanilla
2 squares bitter chocolate (melted)
2
1
%
1
eggs
c. sugar
lb. butter
c. flour
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177
Cream butter and add sugar, eggs, melted chocolate, flour, nuts, and vanilla.
Bake in moderate oven (350°) for 20 minutes in flat greased pan.
Cream Puffs — Chocolate Eclairs
Gloria Dyer Kiein
1 c. flour
1 square butter or shortening
4 eggs
1 c. water
Let water and butter come to a bofl, then add flour quickly and mix, cool. When
cooled add eggs one at a time beating well with a fork after each addition. Drop bat-
ter on greased cooky sheet in shape of eclair or puff. Bake at 450° for Vi hour,
YiWmgs: For the cream puff, fill it with whipped cream and sprinkle a little
powdered sugar on top. For the eclairs fill them with ice cream or vanilla pudding
and frost with chocolate frosting.
Fruit Juice Crush
'Bt^siQ Martineau
large can of juice (pineapple, etc.)
pkg. jello (lemon, etc.)
Mix jello, adding one cup of hot juice in place of hot water. Now add to the
rest of the fruit juice and place in refrigerator. When partly set, beat with beater and
again return to the freezer to freeze. When ready to serve break in chunks and place
in electric mixer, beat until right consistency.
Pound Cake
May Dyer
1% c. sugar
1 c. butter or Vi c. butter and
Vi c. shortening
5 eggs
2 c. cake flour
pinch of salt
V\ tsp. mace
1 tsp. salt
1 tsp. vanilla
1 pkg. seeded raisins added to flour
mixture
Cream sugar, a little at a time, into butter. Add eggs one at a time, beating well
after each addition. Sift flour twice, add salt and mace, then add, a little at a time, to
creamed mixture. Bake at 350° for 1 hour in loaf or angel food cake pan.
Use lemon frosting made with fresh lemon juice. This icing may be prepared by
adding powdered sugar and a lump of butter to fresh lemon juice, and beating the mix-
ture until smooth.
cJhe J/Lmencan l iational Lfied C^ross and SJ^ts
of tela of Service
O. C. Duckett
Director, Public Information
^<'TN this world where we must continually combat materialistic, godless,
and selfish forces, it is not only our military strength but also our
spiritual heritage of selfless devotion to meeting the needs of our troubled
fellow man that is going to keep us from coming out second best in the
fast, tough league in which we are playing."
That was the declaration of General Alfred M. Gruenther, President
of the American National Red Cross, as the organization prepared to
launch its annual March campaign for members and funds.
It is this spirit of selfless devotion and of neighborly helpfulness that
motivates Red Cross volunteers, he pointed out.
''In my two years in this post as President of the Red Cross, I have
been tremendously impressed by the devoted service of our volunteers—
2,000,000 of them— who outnumber the Red Cross career staff 146 to
one," General Gruenther stated.
Although only a small part of what they do ever becomes known
to the general public, the Red Cross volunteers' great contribution to
human welfare has become proverbial and has instilled in the American
consciousness the trust that the organization enjoys, he declared.
'The strength of the Red Cross lies not solely in the fact that it is
an instrument to bind up the wounds of the suffering," General Gruenther
continued. "It is an avenue to better understanding between nations that
has thus far never been closed."
While there are sharp differences between nations in political and
diplomatic matters, there are wide areas of co-operation among the Red
Cross societies of the world in matters of human welfare, he pointed out.
"With the support of the American people in renewing their mem-
bership in the American Red Cross this year, I am certain that we are
going to be able to continue to make the contributions to human welfare
that our spiritual heritage demands of us," General Gruenther concluded.
QJv^uight
Mabel Law Atkinson
Sweet is the cool of meditation after
My task's completed in the sun's warm glow.
My silver hours hold music of young laughter;
I joy to watch my children's children grow.
Their love about me like an accolade,
I walk to meet the night all unafraid.
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Rachel Goes to Relief Society
Elizabeth C. McCnmmon
4 4 T DON'T see how I can go to already going in the kitchen range.
I Relief Society meeting to- Nice of Port to start it before he
day!" fretted Rachel John- went out. The world looked cold
son when she awoke that snowy and gray through the windows,
morning in late winter. She thought After the breakfast dishes were
of the two-and-a-half-mile drive to washed, Rachel kneaded the dough
the meetinghouse and all the things into loaves and left them to rise
she had to do at home. while she stuffed the chicken. She
As the only woman on a large made the dressing with stale bread
lanch southwest of Salt Lake City, crumbs, chopped onion, and celery,
she had too much work to do. So, with a dash of summer savory and
in the morning, she would plan the sage. The chicken and the bread
day's program, seizing on the most would both be ready for the noon-
pressing things, deciding what she time dinner, which on the farm, was
could let go. A good housekeeper, the main meal of the day.
she claimed, knew what to leave Fm glad I fixed the chicken,
undone. Farm folks get mighty sick of salt
Today, besides the regular chores pork by the end of the winter, she
of feeding poultry and washing the thought, as she built up the fire and
separator, she ought to mop the slipped the bread and chicken into
kitchen linoleum, make cabbage the oven.
relish, bake bread, and iron, if any The room was filled with fragrant
of the clothes thawed out enough to odors when Port came in and
be ironed. Right now the frozen washed up for his lunch. He tackled
underwear flapped on the line like the hot bread and a drumstick
a row of hanging men. Besides, she with satisfaction, although his wife
ought to roast the chicken she had noticed he seemed preoccupied and
dressed the day before. worried.
On the other hand, the Relief ''What's the matter, dear?" she
Society needed her. The members asked, as she filled his plate with
of Vista Ward, on the salt flats, were dressing.
mostly foreign-born women, Ger- "It's the fence. Unless I get it
man and Scandinavian. As an edu- built across the ice while this cold
cated American woman, Rachel had weather lasts, we're done for."
been the unanimous choice for His wife knew he had to stand
secretary. When she thought of her on the ice while he drove the stakes
assistant, Anna Weiss, she realized in. He couldn't do it after it
it would be difficult for the Swiss thawed. The 'lake" he referred to
woman to write the minutes in was a brackish pond into which the
English. surrounding land drained. The
I guess I'd better go, she decided couple had romantically named it
as she jumped out of bed and 'Take Mirage," just as they called
donned her clothes. The fire was their farm "Oasis Ranch."
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npHE new place had an insatiable
maw that swallowed up all
their resources. They eventually
hoped to get it on a paying basis.
With winter wheat and alfalfa fields
it was absolutely necessary to have
a secure fence. Port had worked on
it at odd times all the previous year.
The part across the water he had
left until it froze over so he could
string the wire while he stood on
the ice. Fencing in bad weather was
hard work. Rachel's heart had
ached over his bleeding hands when,
during the winter, he had finally
brought the fence up to the edge
of the lake.
''Why can't you finish it now?''
she asked, looking at him.
''Because I need more posts and
two bales of wire.''
RacheFs heart sank. She knew
they had no money for them.
Port was adamant about borrow-
ing. It was against his principles.
He had seen too many farmers
ruined by debt. What they couldn't
pay for they simply did without.
Although the Johnsons had never
actually suffered, they had been
hard put to at times to make ends
meet.
"You have to get these things
now?"
"Yes," he rephed.
The fence was an absolute neces-
sity. They needed it to keep
marauding cattle out and their own
few head of stock in.
To the young Johnsons, this green
spot was the fulfillment of a dream.
To make something grow on the
desert gave them supreme satisfac-
tion. Theirs was high ground and
somewhat better than the surround-
ing country, as it had drained
through centuries. This desert soil.
which had lain idle so long, rich in
minerals, was highly productive.
Fruit, grain, vegetables raised on it
were delicious in flavor, bright in
color, plentiful in seed.
They also discovered that the
desert was not deserted. Its hungry
denizens had moved in on their
oasis. The couple had waged war-
fare against flies, mosquitoes, grass-
hoppers, field mice, badgers, porcu-
pines, skunks, and coyotes — to say
nothing of migrating sheepherds and
neighbors' hungry and neglected
dogs!
"Can't you buy what you need on
credit?" Rachel asked hopefully.
"No."
"Will you hitch up old Wing so
I can go to Relief Society this after-
noon?" she changed the subject.
After clearing the table, Rachel
hurried to her room to get ready to
go to the meeting. Her eyes fell on
a small plaque by her dressing table.
It read "Prayer Changes Things."
She said a prayer that her young
husband would get what he needed.
When she went out and climbed
into the buggy, she discovered that
Port had put hot bricks in the bot-
tom to keep her feet warm. Despite
the cold, she felt exhilarated as she
flicked the whip over the flanks of
the Indian pony.
It's a beautiful country, she
thought, as she surveyed the vast
expanse of white snow in the center
of the Salt Lake Valley. To the East
loomed the blue - iced Wasatch
range, to the west the Oquirrhs
were dark and somber.
They are like a ring of steel! she
thought. Noticing tracks in circles
in the snow, she surmised: That is
where a dog has chased a rabbit.
Wonder if he caught it?
RACHEL GOES TO RELIEF SOCIETY
181
"Come on, Baldy/' she called to
her own dog, a black and white
shepherd-collie that raced by the
side of the horse. Theirs was a lit-
tle-used road, and her wheels made
the first track of the day. She won-
dered where they would get the
money for the fencing across the
pond before the ice melted.
^^T'M so glad you've come," Sister
Jensen greeted her when she ar-
rived at the meetinghouse.
'Isn't Anna here?" Rachel asked
the president.
"No. She's home with a cold."
"I'm glad I made it. Quite a lot
of women out, considering the
weather and how far they have to
come." It was cosy and warm in-
side.
After the meeting, while the
women were putting on their coats,
Sister Nelson asked: "You wouldn't
have any chicken feed to sell, would
you. Sister Johnson?"
"Why, we might," Rachel an-
swered, startled. Port stored their
grain in a makeshift granary, where
he kept it for their own use. "We
might have some to spare." They
had killed and cured the pigs holi-
day time. The culls had been weed-
ed out from the poultry. Of course
they had more than enough feed to
last until the grass would be green
again.
"I'd like Brother Johnson to
bring me ten bushels of wheat.
Here's the money." Sister Nelson
handed it to her.
"I'd like five."
"I could use three."
^ Sjc 5*5 Sjc ^
When Rachel arrived home, with
rosy cheeks and sparkling eyes, her
husband came to meet her. She
couldn't wait to tell him as he un-
hitched the horse.
"Guess what? I've got the money
for the posts." She drew the roll of
bills from her bag and held it out
to him. "Thirty-three dollars-
Count it."
"Where did you get it?"
"From the Relief Society women.
Several want you to bring them
some chicken feed. We can spare it,,
can't we?"
"I guess we can," he answered
slowly. "Funny, I never thought of
that!"
Song of a c7/
ree
Dorothy J. Roberts
Through the eyes' small wicket enter,
Tall tree garbed in the robe of spring.
Tell with the leaf-cut symbol and the swaying
Stamens hung with a distant death;
Speak in the kindest tongue of earth;
Whisper the wakening wonder, birth.
Murmur of the green shoot in the breath;
The rhythm, known, of spent and yearn —
Green voice singing in the choir of wood,
Till the song be bird on bough and understood.
cJhe Second If Lite
ESie K. Diiggs
Northwestern States Mission Relief Society President
TJAVE you ever flown low over the tundra, with the Bering Sea on your
left and reindeer herds below you, to make a visiting teachers' call?
That thrilling experience came to Sisters Calysta Stratford and Sonoma Y.
Toolson— two members of the Northwestern States Mission Relief Society
Presidency — on a recent trip to Alaska.
It was a ''first'' for the mission, when, under the direction of the Mis-
sion President Douglas H. Driggs and Mission Relief Society President
Sister Eff ie K. Driggs, it was decided to hold Relief Society conventions for
the six branches in the Alaska District. Our new Forty-ninth State has
in its confines some of the most faithful members of the Relief Society in
all the Church. Though far away and few in number, this district of the
mission has great spirit — the pioneer spirit which built this Church, and
which will build that great new State.
At the close of the last convention in Fairbanks, Sisters Stratford and
Toolson were told that in Nome, Alaska, there are only two members of
the Church — a man and wife — who keep their contact with the Church
by way of the Sunday morning radio program, and as the program ''sign-off"
comes from the "Crossroads of the West," these two people have a Sun-
day School service and read the scriptures.
COUNSELORS IN NORTHWESTERN STATES MISSION RELIEF SOCIETY
VISIT IN ALASKA
Counselors Calysta Stratford and Sonoma Y. Toolson in Juneau, Alaska
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THE SECOND MILE 183
Can you imagine how hungry that sister was to talk to another sister
of her own faith or to have the visiting teachers call?
With adventure and dedication in their hearts, Sister Stratford and
Sister Toolson boarded a plane for Nome to make a visiting teachers' call.
Nome, the land of storied adventure, land of the mighty Yukon, a long
way, yes, but when the plane landed, and they found this sister they were
paid a thousand fold. They had never seen each other before, but stran-
gers they were not, for they were all three Relief Society sisters.
The 'Visit" lasted five hours, surely a long time for one ''call," but as
they waved farewell a prayer rose heavenward, 'Tather, reward her for her
devotion."
Silh
ouette
Mabel Jones Gabbott
How shall I fashion this day — so new and near —
One day cut from the fabric of my life?
Will it have simple lines and grace, as clear
As sun-brushed skies in spring? Will inner strife
And clouded eyes distort the silhouette,
And blur all birdsong, fuse each fragile shade
Of budding tree, and grass, and violet
Into a futile dullness, somber-grayed?
Or will the pattern of this day seek high
And lilting contours unlike any other known.
Surprising nuances of soul that I
Knew not, like quaffs of apple-bloom, wind-blown?
Vi/hat its a criouse c7or?
Leona F. Wintch
"XT 7HEN Junior wants to play "choo-choo" train with your chairs, and Mary wants to
" ^ play house, do you send them over to Jane's to play? Are you spending your life
cleaning, and children must be kept out of the house so that it will be "just so"
for callers?
A well-ordered home is essential to well-being. But children can learn the rules of
the home game, and they will play fair. They will tidy up after playing, and put things
back where they belong, if you teach them well.
When the children grow to adolescence, they will be more likely to spend their
leisure time at home with the family, if they are allowed to live in the house when
they are small.
Love Me Tomorrow
Rosa Lee Lloyd
VIVIAN sped upstairs to read
David's special delivery letter.
''Dinner is almost ready,
Viv/' Julie called after her.
Vivian didn't answer. Closing
the bedroom door, she leaned back
against it, breathlessly. David had
promised not to write or telephone
until she decided to marry him and
go to the mountains of South
America for the next five years, a
big opportunity for a mining engi-
neer.
''Give me one week away from
you, David," she had coaxed him,
"and I will make up my mind. The
studio will give me a vacation."
"If you love me. . . /' he had
begun.
"But I do love you, David. So
much that I have to be fair with
you. I want to be sure I am willing
to give up my weekly singing spot
on TV to go with you."
So she had come to Springville,
her home town, to visit her school-
girl chum, Julie Hansen, her hus-
band Ken, and their three-year-old
twins. But it had only plunged her
deeper into doubt and confusion.
Touching David's letter brought
him close again; his honest eyes, his
deep persuasive voice, like warm
honey, his tallness and dark bushy
hair, defying popular style.
Vivian closed her eyes, holding
the letter against her cheek. Was
love enough? Would it compensate
for the success she had slaved for
and the satisfaction she knew each
week on her nation-wide program?
Sighing wistfully, she opened
David's letter.
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My darling:
I know I promised to let you have your
week undisturbed, but word came from
Haskin that I must leave a week earlier
than our original plans.
I don't want to go without you, Sweet-
heart, but you must make up your mind
by yourself. All I can say is that I love
you and will do everything I can to make
you happy. We will have to make ar-
rangements for our temple marriage earlier
than we had planned, if you say yes.
Waiting for your answer,
David
A week earlier! The thought
struck vividly across her heart. How
could she let him go to that faraway
place without her? Should she go
with him? Life there was almost
primitive, he had warned her. No
beauty salons or restaurants, no
laundries, only untrained native
women to help with housework.
"Oh, Vivy!" Julie called from the
hall below. . "Get a move on. Ken
is starving."
"I'm coming," she called back, as
she put the letter carefully in her
suitcase. She would answer it later
when she could think clearly. She
hadn't told Julie or Ken about David
because she didn't want them to in-
fluence her decision.
HTHE thump, thump of a ball
bouncing against the wall in the
next room meant that Sissy and Bud
had gotten out of bed, although
Julie had bathed and fed them an
hour ago. The adorable little ras-
cals, Vivian thought, indignantly.
All Julie does is cook and clean and
tend those children. No wonder
she looks so tired by the time Ken
comes home from his dental office.
LOVE ME TOMORROW
185
Marriage, she concluded, was a very
demanding job.
Her lips twisted as she hurried
downstairs. Julie did everything to
please Ken. Work, work, work
every minute, washing, ironing,
cooking, and tending romping, yell-
ing children. Ken took it all for
granted.
Sliding into her chair, she looked
across the dinner table at Julie. Her
dark, curly hair was limp and she
kept her hands folded which hid
her chipped nail polish. She was so
tired her eyes looked too big for
her face. Vivian's heart reached out
to her. Marriage had made a slave
of Julie, and if she married David,
she thought, fearfully, she would
become a slave, too.
''Would you like the wishbone?''
Ken asked Vivian as he served the
chicken. He flashed his white smile
at her, and she noticed how boyish
he looked with his fair hair in a
short stubble.
''Don't tempt me, Ken," she
pleaded. She must keep her twenty-
four-inch waistline.
Lifting her satiny blond head, she
smiled at Ken.
"Just give me some carrots. And
if Julie doesn't mind, I'll have a
slice of that lean beef in the refrig-
erator."
"Why, of course, Viv," Julie an-
swered. "I know you have to stay
thin."
Vivian hurried to the refrigerator,
hoping she hadn't hurt Julie; but
Ted Tolliver, her manager, wouldn't
permit her to gain weight. "Re-
member your audience," he had
warned her when she asked for a
week off. "They love you just as
you are. Don't let them down."
Hurrying back to the table, she
promised herself she wouldn't let
them down if she had to starve.
Ken had served Julie. Vivian
frowned at her heaped-up plate; two
potatoes, thick slice of chicken, and
a pool of gravy. Julie's figure was
small, but she had gained weight
lately.
Julie ate the plateful of hot rolls
besides.
"Look, honey," Ken was saying to
her. "How about this drumstick?"
"I really shouldn't . . ." Julie hesi-
tated. "Fm getting fat."
"Not you!" he laughed.
Vivian wet her lips. How could
Ken possibly believe that Julie
wasn't fat? He should have his eyes
examined.
"Say, Viv." He turned to her.
"How would you like to see our
colored slides after dinner? We
have some good ones of Julie and
the twins."
"Fd love it," she agreed. "But
first let's catch my TV show. I
want to see whom they substitute
in my spot."
"Okay," he answered. "Fll do
the dishes while you girls see that
program. Julie needs to relax."
Swallowing hard, Vivian bent her
head.
"Why, Ken!" Julie scolded. "You
must see Viv's program, too! We'll
let the dishes go."
"Oh, sure!" His face reddened.
"I didn't mean. . . ."
FITTING on the big sofa, Vivian
watched Ken adjust the tele-
vision set.
"I love your program," Julie said,
as the picture came on.
Vivian listened tensely when the
announcer explained that they were
introducing a new star, Sara Lym
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Wallace, who would substitute for
Vivian Burton.
Ted Tolliver had promised they
would not put a big name in her
spot, but, after the first glimpse of
Sara Lyn, Vivian wished they had!
It would have been kinder if they
had substituted a professional who
wasn't trying to make her first big
hit. Sara Lyn was seventeen; her
eyes had a twinkle, and her voice
was warm and vibrant. She was
slim as wire, too, and twice as elec-
tric!
The applause that followed at the
end of the program, almost shat-
tered Vivian. Even Ken, who would
rather have seen the fights, was
beaming admiration.
Julie touched Vivian's hand.
''She isn't as good as you are,
Viv," she consoled. "You are the
very tops. I have always envied you
so much. Just think of having a
nation-wide audience that adores
you!
Vivian shuddered. Didn't anyone
realize it was harder to stay at the
top than to get there?
"How about those slides now?"
Ken asked her.
"Anytime," she said, forcing a
smile.
At least she wouldn't have to talk
while Ken showed them. She could
sink down in this nice, soft lounge
and wallow in her misery. It's so
cruel, Vivian thought. She had
slaved to get that spot, and hadn't
eaten enough to feel alive. And she
had been foolish enough to give Ted
a chance to put someone in her
place. Now she would have to win
her audience all over again.
Absorbed in her own troubles,
Vivian hardly noticed the white
screen Ken had put up, but she
roused herself when he began to
speak.
"This is Julie in our garden," he
was saying, and his voice had tender-
ness in it, and pride. "Notice how
dark her hair looks against those red
roses. I always say I have the pret-
tiest wife in the world, Viv."
Vivian couldn't answer. That pic-
ture of Julie wasn't flattering. Her
hair was blowsy and needed a good
brushing.
During the next hour she looked
at slides of Julie and the children
taken in the mountains, in the
parks, beside the car, on the high-
way, and in every room in the house.
Ken's voice was a continual chant
of praise and love.
Vivian's eyes moved to Julie
curled up in a big comfortable chair.
Sissy and Bud had crept down-
stairs and were crowded in beside
her. Julie didn't look tired any-
more. Her eyes were star-drenched
with happiness. She radiated beauty,
and in spite of her straggly hair and
extra weight, there was a little aura
of enchantment about her that all
women have who are very sure that
they are truly loved.
TZEN turned around, smiling at
Julie. He was showing a pic-
ture of her hanging up Sissy's and
Bud's little shirts on the clothesline
in the back yard. She looked ready
to drop with fatigue.
"Remember that day, honey?" he
asked. "I brought Steve Benson
home for lunch unexpectedly. When
I saw you out there I ran for the
camera, yelling at you not to frown.
Have you really forgiven me?"
Julie smiled up at him. Their
eyes caught and held in a long,
LOVE ME TOMORROW 187
understanding moment. Vivian hours you had slaved and the things
watched them, fascinated. you had sacrificed to hold them.
Julie's eyes were saying: Of course A strangely quiet Vivian watched
I forgive you, darling. No work is Ken carefully roll up the screen and
too hard so long as you appreciate put it away. Julie has an audience
me. And Ken's eyes answered: all her own, Vivian thought, wist-
Thanks, Julie, for being my wife, fully; an audience that still applauds
Thanks for the babies and the wash- even though she has gained a little
day and the million things you do weight and doesn't have her hair
for us. just perfect. An audience that will
A wonderful new magic stirred in ^o^^ ^"^ appreciate her more and
Vivian's heart. She had just seen "^^^^^ ^'^^^^^ ^™^ ^^^^"§^5 her out-
.1 . r • • J ward appearance.
the meanmg or marriage poised on ^r • ^ i i • •
. . c .■ c-i ij Vivian took a long, quivering
a pinpoint ot time. She could r.i i 4.4.^1. 5
, \, \ , . , , , . breath as she got to her feet and
hardly breathe for the hot lump m ^^^^^^^ ^^ ^1^^ telephone to call
her throat. Julie had said she en- j^^^-^ ^f^er all, life in a mining
vied her; Julie thought it would be town couldn't be too hard when you
wonderful to have a television audi- had the gospel and a husband who
ence adore you. Julie didn't realize truly loved you. It might even be
the audience didn't remember the wonderful!
iVindi
ow oLiues
Evelyn Fjeldsted
Summoned by the valley lark
And compassed by spring shafts of light,
A brown bulb, vvakmg in the dark,
Sent new leaves to reach the window site.
And window lily gifts appeared,
Secret parcels numbering four.
Half-blown waxen blooms that cleared
A mystery of flower lore.
Morning came like candle glow
And lilies wearing claret dress.
Threw back their calyx wraps to show
Silent, regal queenliness.
Hal Rumel
ARRANGEMENT BY FLORENCE WILLIAMS
Qjlne ^/Lnciel c//
nge^
ree
(For a Baby Announcement Party)
Helen Spencer Williams
TATHAT could be sweeter for a
child's room or a baby an-
nouncement party than this little
angel tree?
This tree is a rustic branch of
scrub oak. Most any kind of tree
with tiny branches will do, and
Florence Williams broke hers from
a tree out in her garden, then she
sprayed it with white, quick-drying
enamel, and while the paint was
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drying she found a flower pot and
filled it with plaster of Paris then
placed the tree in it while the
plaster was still moist. Then the
tree was all ready for its branches to
hold baskets, baby dolls, and little
angels.
She had shopped at the five and
dime stores for baby dolls about
two and a half inches long and tiny
baskets with handles. Next she
THE ANGEL TREE 189
went to a display store for angel white glow and illuminate the gold-
hair and for the smallest of small en baskets.
flower lights with white wire to light The angel trees stands in a bed of
the tree. angel hair which catches the high-
The little baskets were sprayed lights from the tree and flower
with gold, and when thoroughly globes, giving an ethereal feeling as
dry, she lined them with the down- if the tree, babes, and angels were
like angel hair. Then she nestled a resting on a heavenly cloud,
baby doll in each basket and hung The angel tree, whether it is on
it on the tree. a table, mantle, or in a child's room
Over each one she placed an angel brings forth an irresistible ''oh'' and
doll with arms outspread as if to ''ah" from young and old alike, for
jDrotect and guard the babe sleeping there is nothing sweeter in the
so innocently in the golden basket whole world than a little babe asleep
cradle beneath. in a golden cradle with a guardian
The tree is lighted with little angel hovering near,
white lily globes which give a soft
(grandmas L^razy kluut
Elizabeth MacDougall
The crazy-quilt on Grandma's bed
Is eloquent
With memories of other years.
Each piece, a record carved with shears.
Recalls some well-loved home event
Or incident.
These patches, framed in catch-stitched thread.
With finished art,
Present mementoes, gay and stern,
Re-echoing days of no return,
Etched in nostalgic counterpart
Upon my heart.
utold ibver^thingi
Sylvia Pezoldt
\ package of plastic clothespins can be a "silent servant" around the house. Buy
-^*- them in assorted colors, assign a color to each member of the family, and the
novelty as well as convenience will pay off. Thus Johnny's overshoes can be clamped
together with a red clothespin; a blue one will hold Susie's gloves in pairs; father's mail
is secure in a green clip; and mother can have her grocery list handy in bright yellow
jaws.
Johnny can tell which are his handkerchiefs and which belong to his father, by
clips attached. Susie knows the stationery she can use will be marked with a blue pin,
even in the drawer with mother's best. Since most of the plastic pins have a hole
in the long side, one can be hung to hold a recipe handy for following. Another in
the hall or near the coat closet can carry reminders or letters to be mailed. Paper
dolls will be firm and unwrinkled if they rest in a clothespin clasp between sessions of
play. In fact, there is no limit to the possibiHties of these sparkling helpers.
ijou (^an Sew — Xlll — Selection of
(children s (glomes
Jean R. Jennings
SEWING for children of all Clothes for children can be made
ages is, no doubt, one of the just as attractive, just as becoming,
most important phases of the as the ready-made ones. Mothers,
home-sewing program. Fortunate, in their sewing, must pay attention
indeed, are children whose mothers to important little details to achieve
sew with skill and a flair for fashion this. Too often they are impelled
lightness. by economy to buy cheap fabrics,
Too much emphasis cannot be instead of buying the best available,
placed on the importance of fashion appropriate fabric. If these nicer
in children's clothing. Even though materials are styled with an eye to
there are always stable styles, such becomingness, fit, and fashion, they
as pinafores, smocked dresses, the could no doubt duplicate, at a frac-
standard frocks with full skirts and tion of the cost, the attractive gar-
tight-fitting bodices, there are new ments shown in the most exclusive
innovations in styles and materials shops,
which are noteworthy. Top designers of children's
Children can and should be as clothes never skimp on skirt full-
aware of good taste and good groom- ness. They use two full widths for
ing as their elders. Early training the perky look. They make deep
along this line can save much un- hems — the deeper the better. They
happiness and personal difficulty in make collars appropriately narrow
later years. The very young respond and, if tiny pockets and tinier puffed
to what they are wearing, and this sleeves are needed for a chic ap-
does not change as they grow older, pearance, that is the way the dresses
Many behavior problems stem from are made. They size clothes to fit
dull, drab, unbecoming, or un- when new, not for children to grow
comfortable clothing. into. Too many mothers make or
The selection of fabrics appro- buy clothes that never look their
priate for children's clothes and col- best because they are old and shabby
ors that are becoming should always before they fit. (Let-out possibili-
be a vital phase of sewing for chil- ties will be treated in a later lesson.)
dren. Clothes can be chosen with Designers say that mothers too
a view to suiting the child's person- often lose the style of their chil-
ality. His physical characteristics of dren's clothes in their desire to be
coloring and type must be taken practical. There should be no com-
into consideration, as well as his promise with becomingness at any
habits of action. The dainty, de- age. A grain of practicality is fine,
mure little girl will no doubt look if all style is not sacrificed for it.
her best in clothing different from
that worn by a sturdy, active type. HPHE actual savings accomplished
The influence of a mother's good by a mother who sews can be
taste and guidance can be of value of great importance in any budget.
to boys and girls all their lives. More clothes are possible and, in
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191
addition to this, clothes can be
made individually becoming. A
clexer seamstress can learn to ''fit
out'' physical defects in her chil-
dren and compensate for ''the awk-
ward age" when they are growing
up and nothing seems to fit.
Chest and waist measurements
are important in cutting clothes to
fit children. Rarely are individuals
of the same age exactly the same
size. Alter the size of pattern
pieces to fit the child's own measure-
ments. This is done in accordance
with pattern instructions.
Make sure that shoulders are not
too wide. Scarcely anything is as
annoying and conducive to bad
temper as a shoulder seam that
drops down and catches the arm
every time it is raised. It is equally
bad in appearance.
Waistlines look better on girls,
as well as boys, if they are properly
located — not too high and certainly
not too low. The length of a little
girl's skirt is every bit as important
to her smart appearance as is her
mother's.
There are certain fabrics that are
always favored for children. There
will be new designs and new colors
from season to season, but, in the
main, smooth surfaces that are easy
to iron and avoid picking up lint
and dirt are preferable to novelty
weaves. Sunfast colors are essential
in children's clothes, and fabrics
should be firm enough to hold but-
tons and buttonholes or hammer-on
snaps.
At a time when the choice of
fabrics is almost limitless, it seems
that the wise mother should choose
for her children the ones that are
easy to care for. Any child will be
happier in clothes he doesn't have
to worry about spoiling. All bud-
gets will be happier without big
cleaning bills. So why not dress
the children exclusively in clothes
that can be laundered easily? You
will find in this class plenty of sturdy
types, as well as those that are
dainty and very dressy in appear-
ance.
Start today to make the careful
selection of style, color, and fabric
the first important step in a success-
ful family sewing venture.
■ ♦ »
cyhe value of a Smiu
mile
Myrtle S. Hyde
T\/fY small son, only two and a half years old, looked up at me and said, "Smile,
-^ ■■■ Mommy." His request startled me, but I smiled.
I thought about his words for quite awhile, and realized that I was often too intent
upon getting the work done, the little, dirty hands washed, or the shoes tied to smile
at my child.
I have tried to smile more often, and it works wonders. We have more happy
moments, and the distance of years between us is made oblivious because, as we smile
at one another, I am not mother and he child; we are just two people who are happy
together.
JLilyi ib» ,yx. n Liner ii Lakes (batin Guilts for
crier (^ranachuaren
LILY E. A. Miner, Salt Lake City, Utah, at the age of seventy-eight, has thirty-three
grandchildren and six great-grandchildren. Nearly all of them have been given
a satin crib quilt, beautifully designed and stitched with meticulous care. Mrs. Miner
has made hundreds of doilies, centerpieces, tablecloths, and many other pieces of fancy-
work. She loves to work on quilts at Relief Society work meetings. In fact, Mrs.
Miner and Relief Society have been inseparable for many years. She has been a Relief
Society visiting teacher for more than forty-five vears and has continuously made a
one hundred per cent record, except for one year when she spent part of the time in
California. She was born in Fairview, Sanpete County, and still loves that beautiful
valley with its borders of high mountains and its wide green meadows. She is still busy
crocheting and making quilts. Last spring she made a "Signature" quilt, embroidering
the name of her husband, her own name, and the names of their nine children, each
on a separate block, with quilted blocks alternating. She is now making a red, white,
and blue, star quilt.
QJaith
Ins W. Schow
Faith is the crocus at the snowdrift's edge;
The unfelt hand laid on the heart that grieves;
The gleam of light beyond the blackest dark;
The stanch white rose among the cypress leaves.
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The Silver Leash
Chapter 3
Beatrice Rordame Parsons
Synopsis: LaRue Harding, an orphan,
who has lived since childhood in Cali-
fornia with an aunt, goes to Fivelakes,
Arizona, after the death of her sister
Ameha. LaRue finds that her brother-
in-law Herbert Vetterly is confined to a
wheel chair and his children seem to be
alienated from him, and hostile towards
LaRue. She tries to make friends with
the children, and Connie shows her the
town, including the Jonas Harding Hos-
pital, where she meets Dr. Alan Ruther-
ford and his fiancee Gladys Drew.
A few mornings later, LaRue
awoke to find shadows
moving against the outside
of the Venetian blinds. She thought
fearfully of Gila monsters and small
green lizards, then was ashamed of
her vivid imagination as she realized
that the shadows were nothing more
than the branches of trees stirring
sleepily in the desert wind.
But she was sure that something
had awakened her. An unaccus-
tomed sound. She listened tensely.
There it was again, a timid rap at
the panel of her door.
She found her voice to call, shak-
ily: '^Who is it?"
Connie's brown, tousled head ap-
peared in the open door. She wore
a blue robe, blue scuffs, and she
smiled when she saw LaRue.
She asked, plaintively: *'Aunt
LaRue, Erma won't talk to me.
Mommy always talked to me when
I woke so early in the morning. Can
I talk to you?"
LaRue glanced at the clock. It
was a little after five, but the dawn
was already pink in the sky outside
the blinds. She found something
pathetic in Connie's words, and
made a place beside her.
"Fll be glad to talk, darling."
Connie crept up on the bed and
arranged her blue robe closely about
her. Her eyes caught the amber,
cut-glass bottle on the empty dress-
ing table, and she wrinkled her
brows.
''It's very pretty. Aunt LaRue. It
looks very old. Why did you bring
it with you?"
''Because," said LaRue with a
smile, "Fve had it a long time. Since
I was about your age. Your mother
gave it to me when she went away
from San Francisco. Fve kept it as
a symbol. . . ."
"Symbol?" Connie didn't know
the word.
LaRue explained: "A symbol is
something ... a dream, per-
haps. . . ." Was Amelia really only
a dream? "It's something we
want. . . ." She was conscious of
how much she wanted Amelia's
love. She hurried on: "A symbol
is something or someone we love
very much. We all have symbols,
Connie."
Connie shook her head sadly.
"Daddy doesn't. Not since Mom-
my died."
The child's words cut into La-
Rue's heart. She drew her closer
and nestled Connie's brown head
against her cheek. Her words came
tenderly.
"Your Daddy has three symbols,
darling. Erma, Joel, and you!"
Connie laughed, and her eyes
sparkled for a moment. "Funny
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symbols'/' Then the sparkle fled and ''Good morning/' and sat down at
she said: ''Daddy has forgotten us, the table.
Aunt LaRue." Joel came in. His brown crew-
LaRue tried to deny it. "He cut was still damp from his morning
hasn't forgotten you. It's just that shower. He, too, was surprised to
he. . . y How could she tell Con- see LaRue turning eggs in the fry-
nie that her father was like a hurt, ing pan. But he just grunted his
wounded creature hiding from life? "Hi," and took his place.
Connie said softly: "Aunt LaRue, Herb rolled his rubber-tired chair
does God hear our prayers?" to the table and asked for the bless-
LaRue could assure the child of ing. Connie bent her head until
that. "He always hears them. Con- her long braids fell over her shoul-
nie, if we have faith. He always ders and said the words,
gives us what is best for us." As soon as she was finished, she
The child's face was pinched, cried happily: "Aunt LaRue cooked
doubtful. Her voice was tremulous. French toast. She always cooks it
"But I've prayed and prayed that when she's in San Francisco."
Daddy would listen to Dr. Alan. Erma and Joel ate in silence. Herb
That he would have an operation, said: "It's very good." But he ate
But Daddy is . . . scared!" Connie very little,
was scared, too, LaRue knew. LaRue thought painfully: They
She also knew that Herb would are all so quiet. As though they were
be taking a chance. It seemed point- strangers. Breakfast, she told her-
less to raise Connie's hopes by self, should be a family time. The
promising that her father would time when a family, rested, calm,
soon get well. LaRue felt that they meets for the first time in the day
should change the conversation. She feeling happy, for family prayers.
hit upon an idea. But there was no more prayer—
except, perhaps, the ones which each
T ET'S you and I surprise Mrs. uttered in silence. Erma and Joel
Johnstone and get breakfast lost no opportunity to be sharp with
ready this morning." each other and Connie. Connie
"Oh, let's," cried Connie, clap- chatted continually, filled with gos-
ping her hands, sunshine breaking sip which she had overheard. She
out in her small face. She rushed to had been too much with older peo-
her bedroom to get dressed, and pie since her mother died. She was
joined LaRue in the kitchen. whispering to her aunt in a tone
Sun-ladders climbed the pretty that carried around the silent table,
wallpaper in Amelia's neat kitchen "Aunt LaRue, did you know that
as the light came through the snowy Gladys Drew was engaged to Earl
curtains. LaRue found a blue table- Meeghan before Dr. Alan?" She
cloth, and Connie set yellow- looked proud of her knowledge. "I
sprigged dishes at each place in the heard one of the neighbors telling
breakfast nook. Janice's mother that Gladys and
Erma came in, her eyes wide with Earl had had a fight. He rushed
astonishment to find LaRue at the out of town because he's a salesman,
stove. She gave her aunt a brief, Then Gladys got herself engaged to
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THE SILVER LEASH
195
Dr. Alan out of spite. But Earl's
coming home for the Festival. Then
maybe Gladys will change her mind
and. . . .''
Her father's tone was loud, im-
perative. ''Connie, that's only gos-
sip. I wish you wouldn't evesdrop
on the neighbors' conversations. Be-
sides, your aunt isn't interested
m. . . .
''She is so!" Said Connie insistent-
ly. ''She's asked a lot of questions
about Dr. Alan."
T ARUE flushed, confessed: "I did
ask questions. About the hos-
pital. . . ." Her voice failed. She
had asked other things. "Please
don't blame Connie. Perhaps I've
encouraged her to gossip. . . ."
"Nobody needs to encourage her,"
snapped Erma crossly. "She tells
everything she knows."
"I like to tell," said Connie
shamelessly. "People are interested
when I talk." Her smile was tri-
umphant. "I know you went out
with Bob Powers last evening. I saw
his car waiting around the corner.
He didn't come in."
"I didn't ask him," said Erma
angrily.
Connie turned to LaRue, said
conversationally: "I think they prob-
ably went to the drugstore for a
soda. Bob goes to the U, and he
doesn't have much money. He can't
afford. . . ."
"Father!" For the first time
Erma appealed to Herb. "Does
that awful child have to tell every-
thing? It's nobody's business. . . ."
"It's my business," said her father,
levelly. "I wish you'd bring Bob in.
I'd like to get acquainted." He
turned to Connie, said with author-
ity: "Connie, after this, don't tattle
on your sister. She can explain."
Connie, close to angry tears, said
raggedly: "But you haven't asked
Joel to explain about those things
that got stole from the used car lot.
The police were asking questions. I
heard Mrs. Johnstone talking about
it to one of the neighbors, and. . . ."
"What is this, Joel?" His father's
voice was explosive. "I've heard
nothing of it!"
There was a stubborn line to Joel's
chin. "It wasn't I!" He grew bel-
ligerent. "Connie doesn't have to
tattle. What if some kids did take
some things? I can't blame them.
They need things. They don't have
much money. . . ."
"Joel," his father's tone was
thunderous, "you're losing your
sense of value. You know it's
wrong to steal."
"I said it wasn't I," muttered Joel.
"I want you to stay away from
those boys," said his father angrily.
Joel sulked. "A fellow's got to
have a pal, hasn't he?"
LaRue saw by Joel's face that he
was remembering that his father
had not been his pal for a long time.
Silence stretched about the table.
The children sat there, hurt, angry,
without looking at each other.
Herb's face was pale and strained as
he excused himself and wheeled his
chair into his bedroom.
Erma folded her napkin and left
the table. Joel tossed his at the side
of his plate and left the house. Only
Connie remained, anger going slow-
ly out of her face. As LaRue
cleared the dishes, Connie tagged at
her aunt's heels, spreading gossip
like jam on bread.
LaRue spoke sharply: "Connie,
you've been too much with older
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people. Don't you have anyone to
play with?"
Connie's face was suddenly still.
''Of course. There's Janice and
Ethyl, lots of other girls. But I like
to be with you."
LaRue's heart was touched, but
she said: ''Connie, your father
doesn't like you to gossip. It's a
very bad habit to get into. After
this, please go out and play with the
other girls." She saw that Connie
was hurt, and said quickly: "Try to
understand, darling. It's only that
"You don't love me," said Connie
harshly. "You don't love any of us.
Aunt LaRue. You just want to go
home and leave us all alone." She
began crying passionately: "I wish
my Mommy was here!"
T ARUE knew she'd been clumsy
in her attempt to correct the
child. She hadn't meant to hurt
her. She tried to take her into her
arms. But Connie was too hurt.
She pushed her aunt away and ran
outside. LaRue went calling her
but she had disappeared.
"I haven't earned the right to cor-
rect her," she told herself. Connie
thinks I don't love her. I do! I do!
I'm beginning to love them all.
Especially Connie. The child
seems closer than the others. I'll
find her. Tell her.
She walked about the garden, but
Connie was not there. The
great, weird, stone-carved mountains
frowned upon her. The brilliance
of sun-flecked distances hurt her
eyes. The beautiful scarlet blossoms
of the cacti in Amelia's garden beck-
oned fragrantly, yet repelled her
with sharp spears. She longed for
Connie's elfin face to appear among
the fronds of the tamarisk. She re-
membered how close they had been
that morning, sharing confidences.
But Connie had flown away, just as
the huge orange-brown butterfly
which had sipped honey from the
flowers had flown away from the
garden.
LaRue was alone, lonely. She went
into the silent house. Herb, as
usual, was shut away behind closed
doors. If Erma was inside, she made
no sound. In her loneliness LaRue
longed for Aunt Mettie, for
Amelia! She thought of how Amelia
had loved her children. Had loved
her husband.
Though there was not a speck of
dust under Mrs. Johnstone's meticu-
lous housekeeping, memory spread
over everything in the room thicker
than any dust. How happy Amelia
must have been selecting the neat,
pretty things for her home. How
shining in her desire to make and
keep things fine, beautiful for her
family!
LaRue thought: Amelia was al-
ways so sure!
They had been different — these
two sisters. LaRue was timid, shy,
afraid of things. Perhaps a little
selfish. But Amelia had been so
sure!
The truths which the sisters had
been taught since childhood had
meant so much to Amelia. She had
never doubted. She had given her
sister a tiny symbol of her love in
an amber bottle. She had given her
husband the symbol of her love in
their three children.
Amelia's steadiness had helped
Herb in his guidance of the chil-
dren when they were little, but he
had lost Amelia's steady love. La-
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197
Rue had seen his confusion in try-
ing to make his son see that it was
wrong to steal. He had let himself
grow angry, as he would never have
grown angry before Joel's mother!
Herb needed Amelia's wisdom,
now. He must not let his children
drift. Erma and Joel were at a
dangerous point in their lives. The
three of them — Erma, Joel, and
Connie— needed their father's con-
fidence in them.
They needed their mother's love
—her closeness— now more than
ever before.
Her love is here! thought LaRue,
touching one of her sister's small
possessions with trembling hands.
''Amelia is gone. But she left her
lover
LaRue's heart swelled with hap-
piness. Suddenly she knew why she
had come to Fivelakes. She had
come to help Herb and his children
find Amelia's love. . . .
(To be continued)
cJhe Llrge of Spring
Etta S. Rohhins
Two neighbors stand across the street,
Eyes searching, hands on hips.
As they explore the ruffled sod
In search of verdant tips
Of early crocus, blades of grass
Peeping through damp mold.
They watch with breathless interest
The signs of spring unfold. . . .
Their dishes in the sink can wait,
Be later washed and dried. . . .
The urge of spring is everywhere
Why should they stay inside?
^ // to trier's LPra^er
Veria R. Hull
"T^EAR God, I pray — not for myself alone — but for the children thou hast given me
^-^ as a precious charge! Help me to infuse into my family the faith to combat each
failure, the pure intelligence to overcome temptation's lure, the love that will light
their way to real joy and fulfillment.
Encircle, O Lord, my children with thy protecting cloak, keeping them strong in
body and mind. And gird well my tempestuous teenagers with the armor of virtue,
that they may guard the sacred fountains of life from which generations will spring.
Help them, too, to help keep America free, to accept the obligations of freedom
along with its blessings, to realize thy transcendent mercy on behalf of America. Help
my children to remember, as they satiate themselves in the fruitage of our verdant land,
that "love thy neighbor as thyself," is the great commandment, second only to love
for thee.
FROM THE FIELD
Hulda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Handbook of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
photograph submitted by Zina R. Engebretsen
NORWEGIAN MISSION RELIEF SOCIETY, OSLO AND SKARPSNO
BRANCHES HONOR FORMER PRESIDENTS AND VISITING TEACHERS
AT OPENING SOCIAL, September 30, 1958
Seated, left to right: Jenny Friis; Mina Mork; Anna Marie Adner; Maren Selan;
Getta Wennemo.
Standing, left to right: Dagmar Porsboll; Zina R. Engebretsen, President, Nor-
wegian Mission Rehef Society; Martha Johannesen; Marit Arnesen; Magna Staavi; Aagot
Larsen; Anna Walfjord; Rosa Arveseter; Synnove Johansen, President, Skarpsno Branch
Relief Society; Laura Gaarder.
Absent when the picture was taken were Inger Johnsen, President, Oslo Branch
Relief Society; and Aase Gaarder.
Sister Engebretsen reports: "The Oslo and Skarpsno Branches of the Nerwegian
Mission, both located in the city of Oslo, combined for an opening social, and specially
honored were the visiting teachers who had served for thirty years or more, and also
the living former presidents. Out of six living former presidents, there were five pres-
ent at the social. A luncheon was served."
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NOTES FROM THE FIELD
199
Photograph submitted by Ida A. Gallagher
MURRAY STAKE (UTAH), MURRAY EIGHTH WARD VISITING TEACHERS
RETAIN HIGH RECORD FOR ATTENDANCE AT
VISITING TEACHER MEETINGS
Officers presiding during this time, front row, seated, beginning third from left:
President Irma Y. Fairbanks; Second Counselor Pearl S. Ohlwiler; Secretary Clara K.
Farnsworth.
First Counselor Olive Harding was not present when the picture was taken.
Ida A. Gallagher, President, Murray Stake Relief Society, reports: "For four years
the visiting teachers of the Murray Eighth Ward have maintained the highest percent-
age of attendance at visiting teacher meetings in Murray Stake."
Photograph submitted by Cora S. Jenkins
BONNEVILLE STAKE (SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS
PRESENT MUSIC FOR RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL CONFERENCE
October 8, 1958
Shirley Swenson, chorister, stands at the right of the podium in front; Elder Alex-
ander Schreiner, Tabernacle organist, stands at the left of the console.
Cora S. Jenkins, President, Bonneville Stake Relief Society, stands sixth from the
right in the front row.
Gladys Seely, Relief Society stake organist, stands ninth from the right on the
third row.
Sister Jenkins reports: "The opportunity for our Singing Mothers to sing in
the Relief Society General Conference this year was such a special one that we had a
picture taken."
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Photograph submitted by Lucy G. Sperry
NETHERLANDS MISSION, UTRECHT DISTRICT RELIEF SOCIETY OUTING
Lucy G. Sperry, President, Netherlands Mission Relief Society, reports a pleasant
summer outing and social: "The sisters in Holland look forward to summer outings
more than most people. Perhaps it is because they don't have too many warm, sun-
shiny days. It is the practice of the Relief Societies to have an outing in most every
district during the summer months. This summer (1958) the Utrecht sisters got
together for their holiday. They made it a full day from nine a.m. until nine p.m.
They traveled by bus with lots of singing and snacks along the way. As the cities are
close together in this country, they visited several of them . . . Zandvoort on the North
Sea being one of them. After a visit to one of the famous old Saint Bavo (Dutch Re-
formed Churches), they ate dinner at a lovely restaurant in Haarlem. Everyone had
a lovely day. The sun was shining brightly for the occasion. We have found that
these summer outings tend to bring these sisters closer together, and they are looking
forward from one summer to the next.
"Sister Alberdina van den Hazel, first row, second from the right, the district
supervisor of Utrecht, had charge of this outing."
Photograph submitted by Hilda Goucher
SANTA MONICA STAKE (CALIFORNIA) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
ANNUAL CONCERT, JUNE 13, 1958
Standing, in front, at the left: Lola Brimley, conductor; Nan Rains, organist; Odette
Coulam, assistant organist.
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201
Hilda Goucher, President, Santa Monica Stake Relief Society, reports: "This con-
cert, as usual, was an outstanding affair. The chorus has brought a great cultural enter-
tainment to the members of Santa Monica Stake as well as to many people who, as
yet, are not members of the Church. Nine of the twelve members of our Relief Society
Stake Board, including the entire presidency, participate in the chorus. On our pro-
grams this year was printed a tribute to the Singing Mothers composed by our dear
Ruth May Fox, who recently passed away. This poem was brought to us by her
granddaughter Blanche Clavton, who is second counselor in the stake Relief Society
presidency. Our Singing Mothers have given us outstanding service in our union meet-
ings, conventions, and all programs and activities. I can't think of words to show my
gratitude adequately for them and their splendid conductor and accompanist."
Photograph submitted by Ruby M. Nielsen
LEHI STAKE (UTAH), LEHI SEVENTH WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
SUMMER SEWING CLASS
Seated at the sewing machines at the left, in front: Tessa Allred and Joyce Karren;
and at the far right, in front: Second Counselor Ila Pulley.
Back row, standing, left to right: Hilda Bushman; First Counselor, Virginia Smith;
Secretary-Treasurer, Phyllis Covington; President Sarah B. Price; work meeting leader
Evelyn Yates; seated at the sewing machine, Geneva Bourne; Ann Bernall; Effie Gibbons.
Not present when the picture was taken: Eleanor Lund, Norma Powell, and
Vesta Jacob.
Ruby M. Nielsen, President, Lehi Stake Relief Society, reports: "This picture
was taken at one of the sewing classes held during the summer months by the Seventh
Ward Relief Society of Lehi Stake. The classes began with the June work meeting and
continued weekly until the finale, or fashion show held in September. Many hours of
patient instruction were given these beginning sewers. Six teenagers joined the class
and did sewing for themselves. At the fashion show the sisters modeled the dresses
they had made at the sewing class. A total of twenty-eight articles, including men's
and children's clothing, were completed. We are very proud of the work these sisters
have done. They not only taught Relief Society members to sew, but aided others to
learn to sew for themselves. It is felt that the classes were so successful that con-
tinued instruction will be given at each monthly work meeting. Even the 'experts' felt
that they could learn, as they exchanged ideas and shortcuts at these classes. We
are attempting to follow the instructions of the General Board and put more stress
on sewing and learning to sew at our work meetings."
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Photograph submitted by Grace Utley
MURRAY SOUTH STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC
FOR VISITING TEACHERS CONVENTION, May 16, 1958
First row, beginning ninth from the left, left to right: Melda Hale, chorister;
Venice Black, Second Counselor, Murray South Stake Relief Society; Cora Lee Rich-
ardson, organist.
Top row, standing, beginning tenth from the left, left to right: Hulda Parker, Gen-
eral Secretary-Treasurer of Relief Society; Grace Utley, President, Murray South Stake
Relief Society; Helena Evans, First Counselor; Hennie Heutter, Secretary-Treasurer,
Murray South Stake Relief Society.
Sister Utley reports: "This lovely group of Singing Mothers presented the music
for the Murray South Stake Visiting Teachers Convention, May 16, 1958. This was
the first visiting teachers convention for this new stake. This chorus has also pre-
sented music for other stake functions, including stake quarterly conference. Sisters
from each of the wards, in turn, present the music at the monthly union meetings."
Photograph submitted by Hortense Robinson
FINNISH MISSION, HELSINKI DISTRICT RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING
MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR MISSION RELIEF SOCIETY
CONFERENCE, November 1st and 2d, 1958
The chorister, Ulla Kerttula, stands in the front row at the right; Hortense B.
Robinson, President, Finnish Mission Relief Society, and accompanist for the chorus,
stands at the left.
Sister Robinson reports: "Sessions of the conference were held Saturday and Sun-
NOTES FROM THE FIELD 203
day. The Saturday sessions featured talks by the Rehef Society board members, the
mission president, as well as by the branch Relief Society presidents. On Saturday
afternoon special attention was given to work meeting activities. Representatives from
each of the seventeen branches were present. Seventy sisters attended the leadership
meetings on Saturday. Sunday featured a testimony meeting and the Helsinki District
Relief Society Conference conducted by Lea Minni, President."
Hortense B. Robinson was released as president of the Finnish Mission Relief
Society shortly after the above picture was taken. The newly appointed president
is Ruby E. Warner.
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Christie Lund Coles
We saw him sitting on the country porch.
Alone and still, a book between his hands.
Oblivious to us, the twihght's torch
Against the western sky; the nearby stands
Where fruit was sold, and people paused — as we-
To touch and purchase. For a moment, only,
I looked upon him, in his jeans, to see
If he apart there from us, could be lonely.
Then, suddenly, I knew it was not true,
For all the magic and the priceless joy
Of books that I had read, returned. I knew
They were incarnate now within this boy.
Oh, to be as young as he was there and then,
And for the first time, read each book again.
cJheyi cJeli llie LJour I iatne vi/as L^larissa
Elsie McKinnon Strachan
I knew you not at all, and yet I know
Your parlor was serene as shining siher,
Your bedroom curtains caught the wild-rose winds.
Like petals in a jar, for you to savor.
I knew you not at all, whose steps are gone
From these loved rooms, and yet it pleasures
Me to keep them lovely as you would,
Your little chairs, your faded books, your treasures.
In this clean kitchen where your man brought home
The taste of summer clover in his kiss,
I breathe the scent of bread, fresh -baked and warm,
And hear imagined words of yours and his;
And always at your hearth — which now is ours.
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STRANGE that tonight my
thoughts should drift to eve-
ning sounds that were so
much a part of my childhood's
country home.
I seem to hear Mother's sweet
soprano as she kept time to the
swish, swish of the churn dasher
as it made the innumerable revolu-
tions that promised golden, sweet-
flavored butter. I listen again to
Father's loud vocalizing, '*We
Thank Thee, O God, for a Proph-
et," vibrant and clear, as he threw
the final forkful of hay to the horses
stabled for the night.
Somewhat modified by time are
the remembrances of raucous sounds
of our kitchen during long winter
evenings when ''harness fixing" time
rolled around; but the image remains
focused sharply, as Father lugged
into the house the heavy hames and
tugs after the chores were all done
to deposit on Mother's immaculate
kitchen floor.
The weather always had some-
thing to do with the event. Most
generally the wind howled without,
and the window panes shook pro-
testingly with the impact of drift-
ing snow. With harness oil placed
at a convenient angle near the heap
of leather gear, a piece of steel rail
serving as the anvil, and the gleam
of the copper rivets in the soft lamp-
light, the evening's excitement be-
gan. The precision of each ham-
mer stroke always amazed me as
Father made rivet fastenings secure.
Mother generally found this event
an occasion to pop corn on the shin-
ing expanses of our kitchen range.
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It could have been that the httle
task took her mind from the for-
midable pile centering her kitchen
floor. On such nights she was also
prone to tantalize us with odors of
honey taffy that for interminable
lengths failed to reach the ''thread"
or ''crack" stage. Another of Moth-
er's little household tasks which in-
trigued us was her evening prepara-
tion of baked apples for next morn-
ing's breakfast. The dabs of but-
ter, spices, sugar, and pattings that
went into the operation!
"Now they'll just need warming
up in the morning." Mother would
smile with deep satisfaction. And
the teakettle agreed, as it sang
homey songs.
At length the repairing operations
of the evening were completed, the
harness heap moved to the porch,
and tiny shavings of leather swept
neatly into the coal shovel. Then,
at length, the time had arrived.
Father would read stories to us.
Oh! the book friends of my youth!
Even today I long to take time out
for a brief reunion with the Little
Shepherd of Kingdom Come, re-
membering so vividly young Chad
as my father introduced him to me.
Occasionally Mother added a bit
of explanatory narrative to the tales
Father read as she looked up from
her mending. Her "asides" were
not the kind that required mental
punctuating, for they were strikingly
restrictive.
But all too soon she intruded into
our realm of romance with threaten-
ing glances at the big mahogany
clock hung above the kitchen table.
With our usual mild protestations,
we watched Father close the story-
book and we reluctantly moved
closer to the kitchen range for a
final warming before we ventured
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Father and Mother are gone from
that circle now, but the memories
of our evenings around the old cook-
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The fingers of March
Are silver with frost.
They fret the larch,
Still leafless, lost
In dreams that now
Wear ragged and thin
As each chafed bough
Feels a pulse begin.
The fingers of March
Probe lingering snows
Where green shoots arch
And a trillium shows.
They part the rain.
Then, dazzling clear.
Paint a rainbow plain
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Two wheel tracks worn
Like furrows faint and brown and
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Amid the hillside weeds
And new spring green.
We know
This short, steep road
That ends by lichen-covered rocks
And weathered pasture fence.
We overlook a gentle valley
In the curve of hills.
We know,
Always and over all.
The benediction of sky.
We have been here before.
We shall come again.
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Thou hast not made the day
Less lovely, Lord,
Because I faltered at the
Battle's edge,
Or, by reason of small wounds,
Cast down my sword.
Tenderly, yet wildly beautiful
Thy burning sun
Winds through the morning
Mistiness;
Thy fleeing stars
Cast garments spun
Of silver on the unknowing world.
In fingers of the wind
The night's debris is flung
Far out beyond
Rims of this unscarred day.
The freshness is not thinned.
But my heart is wrung dry,
Seeing, this once, thine own
Invincible loveliness.
Thou wilt not make one dawn
Less wonderful, one rose less blown.
Though armies turn away.
Though nations choose the dark.
This hght falls softly on
The scorner's head, impervious
Sings thy lark.
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Congratulations on the February issue
of The Relief Society Magazine. We hope
you were happy with the cover picture.
We are naturally prejudiced, but we
think it one of the finest you have ever
had.
— Henry A. Smith
President
Central Atlantic
States Mission
Roanoke, Virginia
The four process coloring of the cover
for the February Magazine is the most
beautiful I ever saw, and I have watched
the development of printing, engraving,
and photography for eight decades. '*Sun-
set on the James River, Virginia, showing
the statue of Captain John Smith" gives
an effect of strength and delicacy unsur-
passed.
— Charles V. Worthington
Los Angeles, California
I enjoy the articles, lessons, stories, and
poems in the Magazine very much. But
there is one thing that I especially enjoy —
the beautiful covers and frontispieces. I
have noticed for several years that the
one responsible for the cover designs is
Evan Jensen. I would like to thank him
for the beautiful work that is done on the
covers.
— Lynn Benson
Salt Lake City, Utah
My husband and I are laboring here in
Mississippi as missionaries and are en-
joying our efforts very much. For Christ-
mas my children sent me money, as they
didn't know just what I needed. After
wondering what I could do with it that
would bring the most happiness, and also
the most blessings to the greatest number
of people, I have decided to use it to put
our Church publications in the homes of
the scattered members ... of course I
couldn't leave out The ReUei Society
Magazine, for the women here, as every-
where, need the help this Magazine gives
toward making better mothers, keeping
better homes, in fact, helping us to be
more as our Father in heaven wants us
to be. . . .
— Cora Shippen Anderson
Louisville, Mississippi
I like Mrs. Hill's prize poem (January
1959) very much. I must have read it six
times to date. I have profound admira-
tion for our Utah writers. There are a
number of fine craftsmen among them.
— Grace Ingles Frost
Provo, Utah
Congratulations on the new covers on
The Reifef Society Magazine. I have been
a reader of the Magazine since I was a
little girl and then was interested only in
the stories. Mother was an active worker
in Relief Society. Now I read the Maga-
zine from cover to cover. So much
information for such a small time spent
in reading!
— Goldie L. Stark
Pocatello, Idaho
In the five and a half years that I have
been in the South, I have looked forward
to receiving my Relief Society Magazine.
My husband, who is Bishop of the Biloxi
Ward, finds time to read the Magazine
as soon as it arrives. It has always been
his favorite. We are most grateful to
all the wonderful women who devote so
much of their time and effort to prepare
the poems, stories, lessons, and instruc-
tions. The new covers for the Magazine
are beautiful. I hope to sa\e my copies
and have them bound. I only wish that
every woman in the mission field could
have a subscription to The Relief Society
Magazine. We are too busy here to be
homesick for dear old Utah, our home
State, and The Relief Society Magazine
helps us to meet old friends, not only in
story and verse, but sometimes in pictures
of members who are Singing Mothers, or
who have appeared in programs and
dramatizations.
—Violet B. Coletti
Gulfport, Mississippi
My present study of poetic technique
is giving me a greater appreciation of the
art and a deep respect for all who labor
to create poems. I marvel at the skill
of Lael W. Hill ("The Telling," January
1959), the depth of thought and feeling
she can convey with such light, almost
weightless, musical lines.
— Mrs. lona Goold
Burley, Idaho
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
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VOL. 46 APRIL 1959 NO. 4
(contents
SPECIAL FEATURES
Messengers of Faith and Charity Spencer W. Kimball 212
The East Central States Mission Preston R. Nibley 220
The Right Circles 244
Guard Your Family — Fight Cancer With a Checkup and a Check Esther Allegretti 249
About Twilight Amy Viau 264
FICTION — SPECIAL APRIL SHORT STORIES
Unto the Hills Helen Hooper 222
The Bishop's Wife Sylvia Probst Young 228
The Day I Turned Eight Ilene H. Kingsbury 250
Great-Grandmother's Notebook Arlene D. Cloward 256
The Silver Leash — Chapter 4 Beatrice R. Parsons 265
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 210
Sixty Years Ago 238
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 239
Editorial: "'School Thy Feelings" Louise W. Madsen 240
Notes to the Field: Brigham Young University on Campus Leadership Week 242
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 268
Birthday Congratulations 280
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Seven Months of Color Eva Willes Wangsgaard 233
To a Friend Marion Winterbottom 243
Recipes From the East Central States Mission Marie Curtis Richards 246
Words Grace Ingles Frost 248
You Can Sew — XIV — Children's Clothes — Infants and Toddlers Jean R. Jennings 254
Rozella Dowdle Kingsford Makes Lace Tablecloths and Braided Rugs 260
"Easy Soap" Recipe Vera C. Stratford 260
"Now You Know You're Living" Mary Ek Knowles 261
Home Decorators Joyce K. MacKabe 263
The Hole in the Fence Dorothy Oakley Rea 278
POETRY
Above the Morning — Frontispiece Margery S. Stewart 209
April Evening Ida Elaine James 219
Nature's Prayer Helen Hurr 227
Wild Primrose Evelyn Fjeldsted 237
Wake Me Hazel Loomis 241
Song for Her Soul Ruth H. Chadwick 243
Old Logging Road Maude Rubin 245
Benediction Thelma Ireland 249
My Love Is Young Maixene Jennings 253
Grandma Reminisces Elsie McKinnon Strachan 255
This Year's Spring Vesta N. Lukei 263
Precious Token Rowena Jensen Bills 274
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Messengers of Faith and Charity
Elder Spencer W. Kimball
Of the Council of the Twelve
(Address delivered at a Monument Park Stake Visiting Teachers Convention,
September 16, 1958)
MY beloved sisters of the Relief
Society, I think one of my
first childhood experiences
was an awareness or consciousness
of the existence and the importance
of the Relief Society. We left Salt
Lake City when I was three years
old. My mother had six children,
and during much of the time that
she went through five more preg-
nancies, five more births, she was
president of the Relief Society— in
a time when compassionate service
had a little different meaning per-
haps, than it does today — at least
in its expression. We went to a
new world where water was drawn
out of open wells; where flies were
so thick that you could not see out
of the screen door in the evenings;
and where typhoid ran rampant,
summer complaint, and many other
diseases were ever present; where
medical skill was extremely limited;
where there were no hospitals, no
nurses, nor trained people, except
the country doctor who had more
than he could ever do.
I read in her journal not long ago
such expressions as these: 'T left the
little ones with Ruth, or with Del-
bert, or with Gordon, and went to
Sister Smith's home where the sec-
ond twin just died, and where they
had three others desperately ill with
typhoid fever." 'Today I spent the
day with other sisters making burial
clothes for the two children of Sister
Jones,'' and on and on and on. That
was my introduction to Relief So-
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ciety, and I am sure that that kind
of work is still going forward, for
as I understand your work, it in-
cludes not only the spiritual and the
moral, but also the physical well-
being of the people.
Whenever I think of visiting
teachers I think of ward teachers,
also, and think that certainly your
duties must be very much the same
as the ward teachers, which briefly
are ''. . . to watch over the Church
always," not twenty minutes a
month— but always, "And be with
them and strengthen them;" not a
knock at the door, but to be with
them, and lift them, and strengthen
them, and empower them, and
fortify them; ''And see that there is
no iniquity . . . neither hardness . . .
backbiting, nor evil speaking"
(D& 020:53-54).
What an opportunity! Some like
to talk critically about what is hap-
pening in the ward, the division of
it, the reorganization of a bishopric,
or of the Relief Society presidency,
or any other of the numerous things
done in the ward, which people
might question and criticize. How
glorious the privilege of two sisters
to go into a home neutralizing the
negative and the critical and build-
ing up the Authorities of the
Church, the Church itself, its doc-
trines, its policies, its practices,
''And see that the church meet to-
gether often . . . and ... do their
duty" (D&C 20:55).
There can be no force in this pro-
MESSENGERS OF FAITH AND CHARITY
213
gram as I see it. It must be a mat-
ter of encouragement and love. It is
amazing how many people we can
convert and inspire with love ". . . to
warn, expound, exhort, and teach,
and invite unto Christ" (D & C
20:59), the Lord said in his revela-
tions. This could be nonmembers
as well as members. The time may
come when you will put more em-
phasis on bringing the nonmembers
to your meetings, but at least all of
the members and the women of
part-member families.
To be successful, it seems to me,
a visiting teacher must have a high
purpose and remember it constant-
ly, desiring to have great vision. She
should have enthusiasm which can-
not be worn down; positive atti-
tudes, of course, and a great love.
In the 42d Section of The Doc-
trine and Covenants, the Lord said,
And the Spirit shall be given unto you
by the prayer of faith; and if ye receive
not the Spirit ye shall not teach (D & C
42:14).
I assume that your work is closely
allied to that of the Priesthood. We
read:
. . . the elders, priests and teachers of
this church shall teach the principles of
my gospel, which are in the Bible and
the Book of Mormon, in the which is
the fulness of the gospel (D & C 42:12).
YOU then will teach not mere
ethics, but turn to the standard
works of the Church and bring to
them the blessings which they may
be in need of by your inspiring mes-
sages.
The teacher, of course, must be
living all she teaches. That goes
without saying, though it is some-
times forgotten.
And I give unto you a commandment
that you shall teach one another the doc-
trine of the kingdom (D & C 88:77).
And they shall observe the covenants
and church articles to do them, and these
shall be their teachings, as they shall be
directed by the Spirit.
And all this ye shall observe to do as
I have commanded concerning your teach-
ing, until the fulness of my scriptures is
given (D & C 42:13, 15).
Don't let us be satisfied with
mere visits, with just making
friends. That, of course, has its
place. With our missionary pro-
gram, we have that constantly to
fight, especially in Lamanite mis-
sions. A missionary gets it in his
mind that he must have a great
bridge and so he builds ten miles of
approach to get over a quarter mile
stream, and he is worn out by the
time he gets to the bridge, and then
he may not accomplish his objective.
Friendship, of course, is important,
but how better can one make a
friend than to teach him everlast-
ing principles of life and salvation?
Karl G. Maeser said, ''I would
rather trust my child to a serpent
than to a teacher who does not be-
lieve in God." So, as expressed
already, your testimony is a power-
ful medium. As we tell mission-
aries, nobody can answer your testi-
mony, but there are many smart
people just as clever as you are who
know the scriptures just as well as
you do, and who can argue, and
probably outargue many of you.
Many of these ministers spend all
of their lives in studying the Bible,
and they can rationalize and they
know the scriptures, and they can
find passages better than many of
us, but not any one of them can
ever meet your testimony. It leaves
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them dumb. You do not always
have to bear it in the most formal
manner, there are so many approach-
es. Your testimony can have so
many different expressions.
Charles Burnap said, ''He then
who would command among his
fellows must excel them more in
energy of will than in power of in-
tellect.'' I would like to add an-
other word to visiting teachers: to
excel and to give leadership to the
women whom they visit. They must
excel in energy, and vision, and
thoroughness, and testimony is un-
answerable.
The 38th Section of The Doc-
trine and Covenants, starting with
the 23d verse, appealed to me as
1 glanced through it the other night:
But, verily I say unto you, teach one
another according to the office where-
with I have appointed you;
And let every man [and I think we can
say women, too] esteem his brother
[sister] as himself, and practice virtue and
holiness before me.
And again I say unto you, let every
man esteem his brother [sister] as himself.
For what man among you having twelve
sons, and is no respecter of them, and
they serve him obediently, and he saith
unto the one: Be thou clothed in robes
and sit thou here; and to the other: Be
thou clothed in rags and sit thou there —
and looketh upon his sons and saith I
am just?
Behold, this I have given unto you as
a parable, and it is even as I am. I say
unto vou, be one; and if ye are not one
ye are not mine (D & C 38:23-27).
npHERE are many of your sisters
living in this city who are living
in rags, spiritual rags. They are en-
titled to gorgeous robes, spiritual
robes, as in the parable. It is your
privilege, not duty, but it is your
privilege to go into those homes and
exchange robes for rags. We talk
about duty— ''I have got to go and
do my ward teaching." ''I have got
to go and do my visiting teacher's
work." We have lost already the
enthusiasm, the vision, and the ob-
jective when we say, ''I have got to
go this morning and do my visiting
teaching." Rather it could be—
'Today's the day I have been wait-
ing for. I am happy to go into the
homes of my sisters and lift them
to new heights." You have a re-
sponsibility. You have been called,
called of God through the properly
constituted authorities. You must
not just go to homes, you have
blood on your skirts to clear.
It says in the 88th Section:
''. . . purify your hearts, and cleanse
your hands and your feet before me,
that I may make you clean; That I
may testify unto your Father, and
your God, and my God, that you
are clean from the blood of this
wicked generation . . ." (D & C
88:74-75).
You cannot miss a home with
impunity; you must not pass a sis-
ter up even though she is a little
uncomplimentary, or not too happy
for your visit. "Also, I give you
a commandment that ye shall con-
tinue in prayer and fasting from this
time forth" (D&C 88:76).
In ]VIatthew, the 21st Chapter, we
have a beautiful example. The Lord
said:
But what think ye? A certain man had
two sons; and he came to the first, and
said. Son, go work to day in my vineyard.
He answered and said, I will not: but
afterward he repented, and went.
And he came to the second, and said
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likewise. And he answered and said, I go, they are just hitting at it a httle bit
sir: and went not. |^ere and there. They are not
,,., ^, r .^ . . J- 1 .1 n absorbed in the kingdom, so you
Whether or them twain did the will i i
of his father? They say unto him, The l^^ve a great work to do.
first. Jesus saith unto them, Verily I say It was Ezekiel who Said something
unto you. That the publicans and the about if the parents '\ . . have eaten
harlots go into ^the kingdom of God be- sq^j g^^pes . . . the children's teeth
ore you ( . 21.2 -31 j. are set on edge'' (Ezekiel 18:2).
Is that a bit harsh? It would be That is what happens if you miss
if it came from any other than the ^^^ mother and the mother misses
Lord's own voice. He or she who ^^e children. Their teeth are on
accepts a responsibility, and fails to edge because the mother is eating
magnify it, ignoring it - well, you sour grapes, but if you can give her
heard what he said, didn't you? sweet grapes, if you can give her
". . . That the publicans and the good food, if you can nourish her,
harlots go into the kingdom of God '^ Y^" can lift her, then, of course,
before vou " ^^cr children have a chance.
For you ward teachers or you visit- There is the old story you have
ing teachers to accept a responsi- heard so many times of the ques-
bility of four, five, six, or seven tions asked the builders, and the
homes, and leave the people in their first one when asked, ''What are you
spiritual rags and tatters is without doing here?" answered and said, "I
excuse; and when you go into the am working eight hours a day. I am
homes, there should be no 'vain putting in time. I am earning my
babblings" or "swelling words." You living this way." The second one
go to save souls, and who can tell said, "I am putting brick on brick,
but that many of the fine, active and I am building a structure here."
people in the Church today are The third, when he was asked, raised
active because you were in their himself up to full stature and said,
homes and gave them a new out- ''I am building a great cathedid."
look, a new vision. You pulled back So it seems to me that visiting
the curtain. You extended their teachers who just have to go and
horizons. You gave them some- do their teaching, who have to get
thing new to contemplate. Maybe in their reports, who have to an-
they will never tell you about it in swer to a call, who have to do any-
all their lives, but you did the work thing, they are just time watchers,
and will be blessed. clock watchers. I guess there could
be some of those clock watchers.
YOU see, you are not only saving Then there are those who have a
these sisters, but they also in- little better vision, "Why, it is all
fluence their husbands and children, right, and it is part of the work of
If the sister is a little inactive or a the Lord and, therefore, I guess I
little careless, quite likely she has a should set aside my own interests
husband who is a little more so, and go." But I am sure, most of
and she has children who are only the sisters in this stake are building
"dabbing" at the program, perhaps, great cathedrals.
There are exceptions, of course, but ". . . He which soweth sparingly,"
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said Paul, ''shall reap also sparing-
ly; and he which soweth bountifully
shall reap also bountifully (II Cor.
9:6).
We do not get far by just saying
words. We must put our hearts
into the words, and we must plan,
and prepare our minds. I wonder
if there are any sisters who fast the
morning they are going to do their
monthly visiting teaching. I do not
know that it is required. There are
many things in the Church that are
not required:
For behold, it is not meet that I
should command in all things; for he that
is compelled in all things, the same is a
slothful and not a wise servant; where-
fore he receiveth no reward (D & C
58:26).
/^NE who goes just to visit homes,
to knock on the doors, to pass
the time of day, and then goes back
and makes the report, is somewhat
like the one whom Paul spoke of
who was fighting, as ''one that beat-
eth the air" (I Cor. 9:26), not mak-
ing any progress. She is like one
whose wheels are spinning on the
ice. We need to get out and put
some gravel on the ice. We need
to get some tires that have treads
upon them, and then go forth and
do our job as we should do it.
I suspect that in almost every
district there are difficult situations,
women who will not let you in.
There may be women who do not
want you to come in, but permit it.
There are women who wish you
would leave before you do.
You remember the Savior had
troubles like that, too.
And it came to pass, when the time
was come that he should be received up,
he steadfastly set his face to go to Jerusa-
lem,
And sent messengers before his face:
and they went, and entered into a village
of the Samaritans, to make ready for him.
And they did not receive him, because
his face was as though he would go to
Jerusalem.
And when his disciples James and John
saw this, they said, Lord, wilt thou that
we command fire to come down from
heaven, and consume them, even as Elias
did?
But he turned, and rebuked them,
and said. Ye know not what manner of
spirit ye are of.
For the Son of man is not come to
destroy men's lives, but to save them.
And they went to another village (Luke
9:51-56).
At another time a man came to
the Savior and said:
Lord, have mercy on my son: for he
is lunatick, and sore vexed: for ofttimes he
falleth into the fire, and oft into the
water.
And I brought him to thy disciples,
and they could not cure him.
Then Jesus answered and said, O faith-
less and perverse generation, how long
shall I be with you? how long shall I
suffer you? bring him hither to me.
And Jesus rebuked the devil; and he
departed out of him: and the child was
cured from that very hour.
Then came the disciples to Jesus apart
and said, Why could not we cast him
out?
And Jesus said unto them. Because of
your unbelief: for verily I say unto you. If
ye have faith as a grain of mustard seed,
ye shall say unto this mountain, Remove
hence to yonder place and it shall remove
and nothing shall be impossible unto you.
Howbeit this kind goeth not out but
by prayer and fasting (Mt. 17:15-21).
When you have a woman who
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217
will not open her door, and you
know she is in the house, one who
opens her door and does not want
to, one who admits you and wishes
you had not come, next month
would it not be well to follow the
advice of the Lord, ''Howbeit this
kind goeth not out but by prayer
and fasting" (Mt. 17:21)?
You know the Lord has intangible
methods and ways and means and
forces that can touch hearts. Re-
member Alma? Alma was persecut-
ing the Church one day, and the
next day he was a great advocate of
it. Remember Paul? One day he
was arresting the saints and im-
prisoning them, and in a few days
he was preaching the gospel in every
synagogue with great power. What
was the difference? It was some in-
tangible force that had been brought
to bear on them by the Lord. He
touched their hearts. He did some-
thing else, too. We know what it
was, of course.
Now you say, ''Well, that woman
can never be touched." Of course,
she can be touched. She can be
brought in. John Taylor said there
is none who cannot be converted if
the right person makes the right ap-
proach at the right time in the right
way with the right spirit. He didn't
put all those lights in; I have added
them; but do not think that it is
impossible.
/^O back to the first book in The
Book of Mormon and read it
again. You remember when Nephi
said:
... I will go and do the things which
the Lord hath commanded, for I know
that the Lord giveth no commandments
unto the children of men, save he shall
prepare a way for them that they may
accomplish the thing which he command-
eth them (I Nephi 3:7).
The 17th Chapter, 3d verse, is
practically a repetition of it:
And thus we see that the command-
ments of God must be fulfilled. And if
it so be that the children of men keep
the commandments of God he doth nour-
ish them, and strengthen them, and pro-
vide means whereby they can accomplish
the thing which he has commanded
them; wherefore, he did provide means for
us while we did sojourn in the wilderness
(I Nephi 17:3).
It can be done! We must elimi-
nate entirely from our vocabulary
the word ''can't."
The Lord called you. Do you
accept that, or do you think that
your ward president called vou?
Now if only your ward president
called you, then it may be that it
can't be done, but if God called you
through these proper channels, in
the way you know you are called,
then it follows surely that you can-
not fail, if you do your full part.
It is easy to fail. It is easy to get
discouraged. It is easy to quit. You
remember how Nephi was confront-
ed with an impossible situation and
could not get the plates. His broth-
ers could not. They were unable to
buy them. They could not bribe
them out of the hands of Laban.
They could not force their way in,
and their lives were hanging on a
thread. In spite of all that, here
comes one unarmed boy who walks
into a city through a wall that could
not be penetrated, into gates that
could not be opened, into a garden
that was impenetrable, into a vault
that was locked, among soldiers who
could not be by-passed, and he came
out with his arms full of records to
keep his posterity and others from
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perishing in unbelief. He did what
was humanly impossible. But noth-
ing is impossible to the Lord. Any-
time we have him on our side, when
he has called us and given us a com-
mandment, then, if our energy and
our efforts and our planning and
our prayers are equal to the size of
the calling, the work, of course, will
be successfully completed.
A monk is said to have built a
tower sixty feet high and three feet
wide. On a certain day he would
climb up to the top of the tower
and pray, and the words of his
prayers were generally about like
this: "O God, where art thou?" No
answer. ''Come, O God, where art
thou?" No answer was heard. Final-
ly, there came a voice which said:
''I am down among the people."
We must be humble. Our wealth,
our affluence, our liberties, all that
we possess must never let us feel
above anyone. We must always
keep in mind a deep sincerity, a
great humility, and a total depend-
ence upon the Lord.
Most failures are made by those
who have found that good enough
satisfies them. There is the story
of Antonio Stradivarius with which
you are all familiar, I am sure. He
died at ninety-three. When he was
about seventy years old, he created
the greatest violin that has ever been
built. He had had some training
before, but the vision came to him
long, long after he had left all his
teachers. He made many changes.
He gave the violin a greater curva-
ture in the middle ribs, the four
corner blocks were made more mas-
sive. He lowered the height of the
arch of the belly of it. He made
the scroll more massive and promi-
nent. He reached his perfection
when he was about seventy.
^HEN Sister Kimball and I had
our little girl studying violin
we thought she might be a great
violinist someday. We bought her
a little violin. I think you would
call it a ''fiddle," because it cost us
only fifteen dollars. As far as I
could tell, it looked just like any
other violin — like a Stradivarius,
perhaps. It was a fifteen-dollar in-
strument, for her to start her work
on. If she had become a great
violinist, we would have purchased
a better one for her. I inquired the
other day down at one of our music
stores, and they said that Stradi-
varius violins sometimes go up as
high as two hundred thousand dol-
lars.
I once knew a rather odd family
and the father claimed to have a
Stradivarius. They wouldn't all go
to Ghurch at any one time. Always,
somebody had to stay home and
watch the violin, it was considered
so precious. Well, I tell you that
each one of you can be a fiddJe, or
you can be a Stradivarius, when you
go into the homes of the saints to
teach them the gospel.
You remember that love is the
greatest law. When the Lord was
asked which were the two greatest
laws, he said:
. . . Thou shalt love the Lord thy God
with all thy heart, and with all thy soul,
and with all thy mind.
And the second is like unto it. Thou
shalt love thy neighbour as thyself (Mt.
22:37, 39)-
He told us who our neighbors
are. They are the people next door,
the ones that are away; those who
are on their journeys; those injured,
the ill, the mean, the sinful. Every-
body is our neighbor, and these
MESSENGERS OF FAITH AND CHARITY
219
people in these homes are our neigh-
bors. If you go to fill assignments,
that is one thing, but if you go to
bring your neighbor to a full knowl-
edge of the gospel, then that is an-
other story.
Persistence is often rewarded,
especially if it is attended with love
and kindness. It is difficult to serve
where there is little appreciation;
but often obstinacy gives way and
receptiveness takes the place of re-
jection. Even nature exemplifies
this principle: A little moisture gets
into the rocks and freezes and cracks
the rock wide open; a strong wind
carves out the cliffs; a seed falls in
a crack in the stone and, waging a
slow, silent, but never-relaxing pres-
sure, finally splits the stone; a tiny
tree root under heavy pavement
finally cracks and lifts the enormous
weight.
You can succeed. Like the little
vine, the little root that can topple
a wall or split a rock, you can touch
hearts and break people away from
their improper moorings and bring
them into spiritual activity. It can
be done!
Now, in conclusion, let me quote
you one of my favorite little verses.
I have quoted it many times. Maybe
you have heard me quote it. It is
by Henry Van Dyke:
Let me do my work from day to day
In the field or forest, at the desk or loom,
In roaring market place or tranquil room;
Let me but find it in my heart to say,
When vagrant wishes beekon me astray,
This is my work; my blessing, not my
doom;
Of all who live I am the one by \^hom
This work can best be done in the right
way.
Then shall I see it not too great, nor small,
To suit my spirit and to prove my powers;
Then shall I cheerful, greet the labouring
hours.
And cheerful turn, when the long shadows
fall
At eventide, to play and love and rest.
Because I know for me my work is best.
(From 'The Three Best Things"
— 1, Work, by Henry Van Dyke)
God bless you sisters in your glori-
ous work, in your sweet personali-
ties, in the extended influence you
can pass to others, I pray in the
name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
KyLpnl ibvemng
Ida. Ehine James
Why do I linger, still, in dark and mist
Through which I cannot see, and still I strain —
Is there a lilac left I have not kissed
And drunk its breath with April's subtle pain?
How can I leave the dogwood here, unsung.
In darkness through the poignant April night.
Unwind my arms from blossoms where they've clun^
Bursting to give their hearts out, snowy-white.
The dogwood's little sisters, bridal-wreath.
Droop graciously to second place, in awe.
Mute to my listening heart that beats beneath
Their frail encircling arcs without a flaw.
With such pure beauty offered me, profuse,
Oh, April, let me stand without excuse.
cJhe (bast i^entrai States 1 1 it
ssion
Pieston R. Nihley
Assistant Church Historian
'T^HE East Central States Mission was organized in November 1928, under
the direction of Elder Stephen L Richards of the Council of the
Twelve. The states of Tennessee, Kentucky, North Carolina, and Vir-
ginia were taken from the Southern States Mission, and West Virginia
and part of Maryland from the Eastern States Mission, to form the new
mission. Miles L. Jones of Ogden, Utah, was chosen as the first president.
Headquarters of the mission was established in Louisville, Kentucky, where
a commodious mission home was purchased.
The total Latter-day Saint membership of the new mission at the
time of its organization, was i2,28q, which included 2,060 children.
President Jones served as president of the East Central States Mission
until June 1934, when he was succeeded by James M. Kirkham. President
Kirkham was succeeded in June 1937 by William T. Tew; President Tew
served until July 1940 when he was succeeded by James P. Jensen; Presi-
dent Jensen was succeeded in October 1943 by Graham Doxey; President
Doxey served until November 1946, when he was succeeded by Thomas
W. Richards; President Richards presided until May 1950, when he was
succeeded by John B. Matheson; President Matheson was succeeded in
Courtesy Department of Public Relations
Frankfort, Kentucky
Submitted by Marie C. Richards
BIRTHPLACE CABIN OF ABRAHAM LINCOLN
In the Memorial Building, National Historical Park
Near Hodgenville, Kentucky
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EAST CENTRAL STATES MISSION
221
Luoma Photos
LANDSCAPE NEAR ELKINS, WEST VIRGINIA
Headquarters for the Monongahela National Forest
in the Allegheny Mountains
October 1953 by Cornelius Zappey; President Zappey presided until Febru-
ary 1955, when he was released on account of illness. He was succeeded
by Melvin Ross Richards, who presides at the present time.
In 1947 the states of North Carolina, Virginia, and parts of West
Virginia, were taken from the East Central States Mission and given to
the Central Atlantic States mission.
Elder Sterling W. Sill, Assistant to the Council of the Twelve, made
a tour of the East Central States Mission, in company with President M.
Ross Richards, during May 1958. Chapels were dedicated in the McMinn-
ville, Bristol, Knoxville, and Hopkinsville branches. At the conclusion of
his tour, Elder Sill said: '1 am delighted with the quality of the people
who are being brought into the Church and the spirit that seems to be
among them."
On December 31, 1958, there were 13,607 members of the Church
in the East Central States Mission, located in forty-nine branches. During
the year 1958, five hundred converts were baptized in the mission.
Fifty-three Relief Society organizations, with 1003 members, were
reported in December 1958. Marie C. Richards presides over the East
Central States Mission Relief Society.
Note: The cover for this Magazine, 'The Hermitage," home of President Andrew
Jackson, near Nashville, Tennessee, is reproduced from a color transparency by Arthur
Griffin, Free Lance Photographers Guild, Inc. See also "Recipes From the East Central
States Mission," by Sister Richards, page 246.
Unto the Hills
Helen Hooper
4 4"]t yTAMA, Mama!" We came "Mama wants you to have this
IV I ^^""^"§ ^"^^ *^^^ kitchen one, too/' Blanche explained with
wide-eyed and shocked, strained solemnity,
with petticoats and pigtails flying ''We never took your chicken!"
behind us. ''Mama, Mrs. Haynes said Mrs. Haynes, her face getting
and Mrs. O'Hara just stoled our big all red and splotchy,
white rooster!" "Never mind, Belle, there's no
"What do you mean stoled?" use gettin' all heated up," said Mrs.
asked Mama calmly, as she lifted O'Hara. "Miz Whitehead just
the heavy sadiron from the shirt on plain knows we need it, and that's
the ironing board and set it back why she sent this one, too." She
on the hot stove, then hfted the turned to us. "Go on home and
other one from the stove, tested it tell your ma thanks." She took the
with a moistened forefinger, and chicken, and, as she shut the door,
went on ironing the shirt. we heard her continue, "She's a
"We saw them. Mama. Mrs. right good and understanding wom-
O'Hara shooed him over the fence, an in spite of her being a Mormon."
and Mrs. Haynes caught him in her This observation in no way sur-
apron, and they both ran into Mrs. prised us. We had grown accus-
Haynes' house. I bet they're gonna tomed to the fact that we were dif-
eat him, too!" ferent — a Mormon widow and her
Both of us were quivering with children hving in a non-Mormon
righteous indignation as we present- town,
ed the facts of the case. Unlike most of the towns in
Mama carefully finished the shirt Utah, Eureka had been settled by
and placed the iron back on the prospectors and miners who were
stove. interested only in the rich ore from
"My goodness," she said thought- its mountains. There were twenty-
fully. "That's too bad. Mr. O'Hara two business establishments on
must be drinking again, and that Main Street, and eighteen of them
rooster's as tough as sole leather, were saloons.
You go back out in the yard and
pick out the fattest hen you can T NEVER will forget the day Father
find. Catch it quick, and go knock was killed. He was sheriff of Juab
on Mrs. Haynes' door and tell them County and he'd been out with a
I want them to have that one, too. posse to capture some bank rob-
One rooster isn't nearly enough to bers. It was washday and when I
feed two families." heard Leland yell. I ran out with
Blanche and I looked at each oth- Mama to meet the men on horses,
er a moment, then, giggling with We saw father lying limp across his
delight, we ran to obey. I can still saddle. Mama gasped and ran
remember the faces of the two through the gate. She lifted his
women when we handed them that head in her arms. It took a whole
chicken. minute for her to realize that he
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223
was dead, then she turned and
walked dazedly into the house. She
went into her bedroom and shut
the door. It was the next morning
before she unlocked that door and
came out. Her face was white and
drawn, but she was quiet and com-
posed. We never saw her cry at all.
The Relief Society sisters had
been there most of the night and
the washing was done and the house
was in order.
All that day our house swarmed
with people who came to pay their
respect. Strange men, looking un-
comfortable in celluloid collars,
held their hats in their calloused
hands and bowed to Mama, saying
over and over that Jim Whitehead
was a real gentleman, and the town
would miss him.
After the funeral was over the
next day, all of our relatives gathered
together and agreed that we would
ha\'e to go back to Provo with them.
They reckoned, however, without
Mama. When they had all finished
talking and making arrangements
for us, she told them sweetly, but
firmly, that she had no intention
of allowing either herself or her
children to become a burden to
anyone.
"It isn't a matter of choice, as I
see it," said Grandfather. 'Tou
have no way of supporting eight
young children. You'll have to ac-
cept help from the family.''
"No," replied Mama. 'Til take in
boarders."
"But, Julia!" Aunt Mary's voice
was shocked. "You can't be serious-
ly intending to rear your children
among the riffraff of a mining town
without Jim's help and protection!
It was a dreadful mistake to come
here in the first place."
Mama's back stiffened slightly.
"Jim never made a mistake." Her
voice was soft but firm. "As far
as protection is concerned, I'm sure
the Spirit of the Lord dwells in the
mountains the same as in the val-
leys. We'll just have to put our
trust in him."
Winter came early in October
that year, before the rooms for the
boarders were finished. It was then
that I began to notice the silver
streaks in Mama's hair, as I brushed
it in the evenings while she read to
us. I couldn't help but remember
Aunt Mary's words. Could we
really manage without Father? I
tried to concentrate on Les Miser-
ables, but all the time I could hear
the wind rattling the windows,
while the coyotes howled up in the
hills, and the snow sifted thinly
through the crack under the door.
/^NE morning Lizzie Brady faint-
ed in school. She told me
afterwards that she hadn't had any-
thing to eat for three days. I gave
her most of my lunch and felt em-
barrassed when she ate ravenously.
The lunch wasn't much. Our
pantry and cellar were almost bare,
too. When I went home from
school that afternoon, I told Mama
about Lizzie.
She clucked her tongue behind
her teeth, and I could tell she was
calculating just how much she
could spare. "Mr. Brady's very ill,
and Mrs. Brady's not strong yet
from the birth of the twins, poor
thing."
She lifted the cellar door, and I
followed her down the stairs. She
picked up a gunny sack, and we
divided the remaining potatoes and
onions and carrots. To this she
added half of the last piece of salt
pork and half of the small piece of
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cheese. She scooped a pan of flour
out of the bottom of the barrel and
handed it to me to carry, along with
a loaf of bread. She sent Leland to
the coal shed with another gunny
sack and told Howard to pick up
all the wood he could carry. I saw
her glance briefly at the small pile
of coal left in the corner of the
shed as we passed.
Mrs. Brady was wrapped in a
shawl, and the children were shiver-
ing under thin quilts. While Mrs.
Brady sat and wept, Mama built a
fire. The children were so hungry
they could scarcely wait until the
food was cooked, begging to eat it
raw.
Their faces were like Christmas
when we left them gathered around
the table and the steaming bowls
of stew.
On the way home I looked at
Mama stepping lightly and quickly
through the snow and thought
about Mr. Brady's parting words.
She wasn't really one of God's an-
gels, but I had a feeling that she
knew him in a way I couldn't under-
stand.
VU'HEN I brought up the last
potatoes the following Satur-
day, I sat on the cellar stairs nib-
bling the white sprouts. What if
we didn't get any more? What
would it be like to starve to death?
That night we had finished say-
ing family prayers, and Mama was
tucking us in our beds, spreading
newspapers between the quilts for
greater warmth, when we heard a
great stomping and snorting and
then a pounding on the front door.
''My goodness," Mama said, ''who
can that be at this time of night?"
We all leaped out of bed and
followed her to the door. She op-
ened it up, and there stood Uncle
Bill from down on the farm in
Springville. His moustache and
hair below his hat and ear muffs
were white with frost, and his leath-
er gloves were frozen stiff on his
hands. He pounded them together
as Mama pushed him into the kitch-
en and fanned up the embers in
the stove and put in some more
wood. Soon she had his feet in a
tub of hot water and her warm
shawl around his shoulders.
The boys had dressed and gone
out to unharness the horses and put
them in the shed. When they
came in, Uncle Bill was warm and
relaxed and able to talk. He told
the boys to get the bale of hay out
of the wagon, feed and water the
horses, and be sure to put the blank-
ets over them; then he reached for
the teakettle and poured more hot
water over his feet. He sat back,
sighing with comfort.
"I don't know but I think that's
the coldest ride I ever had, except
the time we went out after Black-
hawk and his braves." He smiled
at Mama. "I don't want to hurry
you, Juha, but I could sure appreci-
ate something warm and satisfying
in my stomach."
Mama stood perfectly still, while
two big tears started down her
cheeks. I swallowed hard and the
tears started down my face in
sympathy.
"Oh, Bill," she said, "I . . . I'm
so sorry, I know you're hungry and
I . . . haven't a thing in the house
to give you to eat." By this time
we were all sniffling.
"Why, Julia, I don't want you to
fuss." Uncle Bill looked embar-
rassed. "Just a bowl of hot milk-
toast'll be fine."
Mama spread her hands emptily.
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225
'Toil don't understand. I haven't
anything. . . ."
Uncle Bill stood straight up in
the tub. He was a big man, and at
that moment he seemed to tower
above us. His face became white,
and he almost thundered, '7^^^^? ^^
you mean to tell me that you
haven't any food to eat?"
Mama could only nod.
Uncle Bill sat down again. He
seemed limp, like a shirt with the
starch all gone out of it. ''Well
Fm beat," he muttered, ''to think
I almost ignored it and didn't
come."
Mama took her handkerchief out
of her pocket and blew her nose
and wiped her eyes, then she
reached over and did mine.
Uncle Bill watched her a mo-
ment and then he said, "Julia, I
dreamed about you last night, and
when I woke up this morning it
seemed as if you needed me. I told
myself that dreams didn't mean a
thing, but I couldn't seem to for-
get it. I told Mollie and she said
maybe I'd better come on up and
see you."
He reached for the towel and
began drying his feet. "We butch-
ered a hog last week, and she said
I should bring you some fresh pork,
headcheese, and sausage. The root
cellar's still nearly full, and I figured
if you were going to feed boarders
you could probably use some extra
food, so I tossed in a few bags of
potatoes, carrots, onions, and par-
snips." Uncle Bill began to pull
on his socks and shoes. "There're a
few squash, some apples, some new
rendered lard, butter, and cheese,
some of Mollie's chickens, and
fresh eggs and a smoked ham." He
paused, shaking his head. "Julia,
why didn't you write and tell us you
needed help?"
Mama smiled tenderly. "I was
afraid I was going to have to, but
I kept asking the Lord and he told
you."
Uncle Bill just looked at her for
a long minute, then, as he started
for the door, he said, "You always
were mighty proud where other
folks were concerned, Julia, but, I
guess, if you're humble enough be-
fore God, that excuses it."
/^NE night the following spring
Mama and I were late coming
home from choir practice. Thinking
about Mama always makes me re-
member that night.
It was a reward for being good to
accompany her to choir practice. I
was nine vears old then, and I loved
to sit in the back of the meeting-
house, alone on the big bench, and
listen to the singing. I can still feel
those hymns in my very bones.
For the strength of the hills we bless thee,
Our God, our father's God;
Thou hast made thy children mighty
By the touch of the mountain sod ....
The sopranos climbed joyfully up
the scale.
Thou hast led thy chosen Israel
To freedom's last abode.
For the strength of the hills we bless thee,
Our God, our father's God.
That was my favorite song. It
seemed as if it had been written
for us.
We came out of the chapel and
walked up the board sidewalk. I
stepped eagerly, skipping over the
cracks. We came to Sulli vans'
corner and turned off the sidewalk
down the middle of the dirt road.
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I made my way, balancing carefully him fall down. Oh, please don't
in a narrow, wagon-wheel rut until let him hurt Mama."
we turned off into the alley by Mama's breath was coming in
Dunn's. deep gasping sobs, and her arms
Mama was humming softly, and were shaking from the terrible
I began humming with her. Sud- strain. Her liair had loosened from
denly her hand tightened on mine, its pins and was falling forward
I looked up and saw that she was over her face. I began to sob in
watching something in front of us. terror that she was going to be
It lowered its head and pawed the killed, and then, all at once, it was
ground, and I realized that it was finished. The steer's legs flipped
Mr. Redmond's yearling steer. I out from under him and he fell
sidled closer to Mama, and she said, heavily on his side.
''Don't be frightened. He probably Mama sank to her knees and fell
won't bother us at all." forward on top of him. For a
''Can't we run back?" I asked, moment they lay there panting to-
looking fearfully at the sheds lin- gether, then he gave a great heave
ing the sides of the alley. and staggered to his feet. Docilely
"No. I'm sure he could run he trotted off down the alley. I
faster than we could," she said, jumped down and ran to Mama,
"I'll boost you up on the shed and dropping beside her and hfting her
don't you dare get down until I head into my lap. Gently I stroked
tell you." Quickly she put her her tumbled hair back from her face
hands under my arms. "Now jump." and kissed her temple in the little
I jumped and caught hold of the hollow where it throbbed in and
top of the shed. She pushed me out. She opened her eyes and
again, and I was up on top. I smiled to reassure me. She rested
steadied myself and then looked a little while longer, until her
back just in time to see the steer breathing was nearly back to nor-
charge forward head down, its horns mal, then she stood up. She took
spearing the moonlight. a deep breath and let it go in a
Mama braced herself on her heels long, trembling sigh, as she
and lifted her hands, crouching straightened her dress and pinned
slightly as I'd seen the cowboys do back her hair,
at the rodeo. Just as the steer "Oh, Mama," I cried. "The Lord
reached her, he swung his head heard and answered my prayer."
intending to lift her on his horns, "Yes, Nettie," she answered. "He
but, instead, she seized them with did." Then she put her hands on
her two hands and turned him each side of my face and looked
quickly to the side, trying to throw into my eyes. "You must remem-
him to the ground. His head was ber, child, the Lord gives us strength
twisted up and back, close against and he expects us to help ourselves.
Mama's breast, and I could see the too."
whites of his eyes as they rolled She took my hand in hers and
round and round as he snorted. again we started home.
"Please, Heavenly Father," I Confidently I walked beside her.
prayed, "make him fall down. Don't Once again we began to sing, "For
let him hurt Mama. Please make the strength of the hills. . . ."
Josef Muench
SPRING IN SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA
Mount San Gorgoiiio in Background
I Lata re s LPt
^e s ^T^raiier
Helen Hun
Oh, human lips, be still awhile
And hear all nature pray.
The peaceful calm of twilight hour
Says more than words can say.
The silent whispers of its heart,
From orchard shadows rise,
The mighty praises of God's power.
No word can realize.
Oh, human heart, be humble here
Where nature sings his praise.
In peace and calm of twilight hour,
That tell of his kind ways.
The quiet stillness of this hour,
With sacred reverence.
Speaks softly of his tender love
And his great eminence.
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The Bishop's Wife
Sylvia Piohst Young
MARIAN, with a little smile of
amusement, watched her
husband eating breakfast
across the table. Apparently una-
ware of anything around him, he
masterfully managed the eggs and
bacon without taking his eyes from
the morning paper.
'Typical American husband," she
observed, 'without a paper in front
of his face he couldn't enjoy the
meal. Why, I could feed him
burned toast and scorched bacon,
and he wouldn't know the differ-
ence."
Abruptly the paper was lowered,
and two warm blue eyes smiled
across at her.
'1 don't advise you try it, Mrs.
C. Anyway, it's your fault for spoil-
ing me these sixteen years."
''I really have, haven't I?"
Contentment, warm as the early
morning sunlight stealing through
her kitchen window, filled Marian's
heart. She enjoyed the early break-
fast with Don before the boys were
up. It gave them a few minutes
alone in the busy day, minutes of
mutual understanding, whether for
serious contemplation or even light
banter as this morning.
''Guess I'd better go." Don rose
from the table, his glass still in
hand.
"Marian."
"Yes?"
"Will you be real busy today? I
need to have a stencil cut. We've
got to get a letter out about the
budget. I've written it. There on
my desk. And do you think you
could go over to the church and
run it off? We'll need about three
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hundred copies. I want to get it
out tomorrow, and I can't do it to-
night, it's stake Priesthood meeting.
"Oh, and will you call Dell and
Willis, tell them I'll pick them up
about 7:45? And, Marian, if you
have time, there're a couple of let-
ters of recommendation I should
write, for Dean Clayton and Jack
Sawyer. They want to become
Eagles. You know, like the ones
you've written before. They'll be
coming for them, and I haven't had
time."
He came to stand beside her a
moment then.
"You're a honey." He planted a
light kiss on the tip of her nose.
"What would I do without you,
Migs?"
Migs— the pet name brought a
rush of tender memories. It had
been a long time since he had called
her that. He had invented the
name back in those World-War
days when she had married him, a
slim, dark-haired Marine.
From the window she watched
him getting into the car. His hair
had slipped now, and was graying
at the temples, and his figure had
lost its boyish slimness. How often
she had teased him lately about hav-
ing just the right figure for a bishop.
But he was always quick to re-
mind her that her own hair had a
tint of gray, and that constantly she
was fighting to keep her waistline.
How perfectly they understood
each other. And how little the
physical changes mattered when the
depth of understanding and warmth
of heart continued to grow.
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229
lyt ARIAN turned from the win-
dow. Life had been good to
them. Temporally and spiritually,
they had been greatly blessed. She
gathered the dishes from the table
and put them in the sink.
"What's for breakfast, Mom?"
Tousle-headed and sleepy-eyed,
fifteen-year-old Dave stood tall and
blond in the doorway.
Marian smiled at him. It seemed
only yesterday that he was a mere
toddler.
''Get the other boys up," she said,
'Til feed you all at once."
As she cooked pancakes, Marian
wondered if she would ever be able
to fill her boys up. Fifteen, twelve,
ten, and seven — they were all alike
and yet so different.
''Mark, you and Tommy do the
dishes," she announced. 'Tve got
some work to do for Daddy, and
Dave you'd better get going. Dad
will be expecting you. Denny, you
play around here, now, so we'll
know where you are."
"Mama," it was Tommy calling
from the den, "telephone."
"He usually gets home about six-
thirty, but it's Priesthood meeting
tonight," she answered into the
mouthpiece. "No, I really couldn't
tell you. Why don't you call about
seven o'clock?"
Putting the phone back into its
cradle, Marian noticed a book laid
out upon the desk — Home Mem-
ories oi President McKay. She re-
membered Don saying he had
promised to lend it to old Brother
Marlow.
I could take it to him this morn-
ing after I've finished the mimeo-
graphing, she thought.
At half-past ten, with Denny at
her side so he wouldn't vex the
other boys all morning, Marian was
ready to go to the church to run
off Don's stencil. The scout letters
had been written, and she had called
the counselors' wives about the
Priesthood appointment.
Just as she she was ready to go,
the Relief Society president called.
Would Marian have the bishop call
her tonight if he could?
"You're about as busy as he is,"
Marian concluded, after she had
talked to Sister Franson a few min-
utes. "I'll have him call you for
sure."
She made a note of it. Beside
the memo pad was a thick envelope
she hadn't noticed before. Mary
Ann Parker's marriage license. Don
had married her and the Hayden
boy last week. It was ready to
mail except for a stamp. She would
stop at the post office.
With the letter and her other
things, Marian went out of the
house. It was a morning of sum-
mer loveliness — pink and gold, and
gently fragrant with the perfume of
blossoming honey locusts.
Mark and Tommy were working
on a bicycle in the garage.
"I'll be back in time to get your
lunch," she told them. "I'd like
you to do your practicing while I'm
gone."
"Do we have to?" Tommy pro-
tested.
"Well, thanks for taking Denny,
anyway," Mark called as she drove
out.
In the cool quiet of the bishop's
office, Marian sat at the table a
moment before getting to the
mimeographing. Here, in the quiet
of this office, Don, as the bishop,
made decisions and gave advice that
constantlv affected human lives. It
was a great and humbling responsi-
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bility to serve the Lord in such a
capacity.
Denny tugged at her arm. ''Let's
do the letters, Mama."
He was intrigued as the printed
sheets shd so quickly from under
the roller. In a few minutes they
had finished and were out again in
the bright sunlight.
/^LD Brother Marlow lived about
a mile from town. His house,
of stately gingerbread construction,
the color of overcooked tomato soup,
stood behind a row of tall Lom-
bardy poplars, cool and reminiscent
of a past generation.
Brother Marlow was working in
his petunia bed. He was a round,
jolly little man, who, Denny de-
clared, looked like Santa Claus.
It pleased him when Marian
wanted to know about his flowers.
He took her from plant to plant
explaining. Especially he was
proud of his roses— hybrids, a dozen
or more— he knew the name of
every one.
'Til set you out some slips, Sister
Crandall," he promised. Then he
begged her to sit on his old porch,
and he talked about his wife and
the yesteryears. His great apprecia-
tion for the book and the home-
made gingerbread that she brought
made her realize anew how much
personal satisfaction can be derived
from the smallest act of kindness.
The boys were clamoring for
lunch when she got home, so it
wasn't until later that she found
the note by the telephone in Tom-
my's round, boyish scrawl. "Mama
call IN 7-8926."
Carefully she dialed the number,
not remembering whose it was until
she heard the voice on the other
end.
"Allie," she cried, "how nice. It's
been ages since I've heard from
you."
"Marian, I've got the nicest sur-
prise. I just got an airmail letter
from the Bronsons. Howard has
some sort of a business convention
here in town on Saturday. They
have to go again on Sunday, but
Audrey would like us all to get to-
gether on Saturday night. Marian,
I thought we could go to that new
place up Pine Creek — Silver Lake
Lodge. Do you know it's been ten
years since we've seen Audrey?"
Audrey — the name brought back
memories of a summer at a Marine
base in South Carolina, before the
war ended. Audrey and Howard
Bronson, Allie and Raymond Ches-
ley, Don and she — the six of them
had lived at Parris Island. The boys
had served together in the same
battery in the Pacific, and although
the girls hadn't known each other
until that summer, it hadn't taken
long for them to become close
friends.
After the war, the Bronsons had
gone back to the East Coast. Allie
and Raymond lived only fifteen
miles away, but Marian and Don
hadn't gone out with them for more
than a year.
"Saturday night — that sounds
wonderful," Marian told her friend.
"Don doesn't have a thing that
night, I'm sure. It'll be like old
times, Allie."
"Marian, could you and Don
meet here at our place about seven
so we won't be too late? It takes
about half an hour to drive up
there."
"We'll be there," Marian prom-
ised. "I'll have Don leave the store
early. I know he'll be as anxious
to see you all as I am."
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231
A/f ARIAN was right in her predic-
tions, Don was enthusiastic
about the Saturday night plans. He
was home from the store at five
o'clock that night and helped Mar-
ian with a patio supper for the
boys. Relaxing with the newspaper
before getting ready, they recalled
old times.
''Remember the time we went to
Jacksonville in Howard's old car?"
''Do I!"
"I always thought we had fun at
the beach in Savannah, though.
Remember how Dave loved the
water. He'd have walked right into
the ocean if we hadn't held on to
him every minute."
"Speaking of Dave, remember
how our landlord spanked him for
spilling the watermelon seeds?"
Don laughed. ''Boy, wasn't I
mad! I was ready to spank the old
man."
"Dave was practically a baby —
say, we'd better get going."
Marian followed Don into their
bedroom. "What shall I wear?"
she asked. "I really haven't much
choice."
"But I like you in anything."
"That's comforting."
"How about that blue dress? I
think you look real cute in it."
"Okay. The blue it will be."
They were almost ready, Marian
was just helping Don with his cuff-
links, when the phone rang.
"Wonder who that is?'
"Probably someone for the kids."
"Dad," Dave called from the den,
"telephone."
"Know who it was, Dave?" Mar-
ian asked, following Don into the
den.
"I don't know, Mom. It was a
woman's voice, sounded real wor-
ried."
Marian looked at Don listening
at the phone. His face looked grave.
"I surely will," she heard him
say, "I'll come right away."
"What is it?" she asked, when he
turned from the phone. "Don,
where are you going?"
"Marian," he turned from the
phone, "Ronnie Decker was hit by
an automobile. Thrown from his
bike. They don't know just how
badly he was hurt. Sister Decker
would like me to come to the hos-
pital to administer to him."
"Don, can't you send someone
else? Dell and Willis could go."
He shook his head. "It's my duty
to go, Marian. She asked for me.
Look, honey, you call Allie and tell
her we'll be a little late, but I
should be back from the hospital in
half an hour. Tell them to go on
and we'll come soon as we can."
He cupped his hand under her
chin, reading the dark disappoint-
ment in her eyes.
"I'm the bishop, honey," he re-
minded her gently. "Sister Decker
and Ronnie are members of my
ward. I'll go get Dell, and I'll be
back soon as I can."
She watched him go and then
turned back to the phone to call
Allie. The voice that answered was
as filled with disappointment as her
own.
"We'll wait for you," Allie said.
"No, you mustn't do that. We'll
come just as soon as Don gets back.
He shouldn't be too long."
An hour later the phone rang. It
was Don calling from the hospital.
"Marian, the doctors are still
working with Ronnie. You don't
know how sorry I am, honey, I
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wanted to see the Bronsons, too.
But we just couldn't leave. See you
soon as I can/'
The boys were in the basement
playing Ping-pong and watching
television. Marian changed into a
robe and went out on the patio to
wait. A full moon was peeking
above Mt. Olympus, and a gentle
breeze stirred the locusts. Silly to
nurse a disappointment on such a
beautiful night. She turned her
thoughts to the vacation they were
planning.
When Don finally came, she met
him with a smile.
He put his arms around her.
Without saying a word, he knew
that she understood his appreciation
for her.
''Ronnie's going to be all right,"
he said. ''But he was badly bat-
tered up, several broken ribs, and
his right leg really smashed. He
looked so white and little when they
brought him into the room."
"Well, he's only about eight,
isn't he?"
"That's right. But do you know
what he said after we had admin-
istered to him? He said, 'Thanks,
Bishop, I know the Lord is with
you.'
"It made me feel so good, Mar-
ian. Sister Decker was so apprecia-
tive, and her husband — we had
quite a talk. I really believe he was
impressed."
"He very well might have been,
Don," she answered.
npHE next morning Marian learned
how right their impression con-
cerning Mr. Decker had been. It was
how right their impression concern-
ing Mr. Decker had been. It was
still early when the phone rang.
"Sister Crandall, this is Jean
Decker," she heard the voice on the
other end saying. "I want to tell
you how much we appreciated hav-
ing the bishop and Brother Walker
administer to Ronnie last night. I
know the Lord was with them.
"And, Sister Crandall, you don't
know what an impression they made
on my husband. He's always been
so disinterested in the Church. He
never would come to meetings or
anything. But last night he told me
that he had no idea that a Mormon
bishop was so devoted to his mem-
bers. 'Maybe your church is worth
investigating,' he said."
There was a catch in her voice,
"You don't know how much that
means to me. I want to thank you
so much for the sacrifices you make,
too. It must be hard to have your
husband gone so much, but I'll bet
you're really proud to be the bish-
op's wife."
Marian felt a sudden wave of love
and gratitude fill her heart. What-
ever sacrifices she made were doubly
compensated by the rich blessings
she enjoyed, she had always known
that.
"Oh, yes," she answered humbly,
"I'm very proud to be the bishop's
wife."
Seven 1 1 iontks of L^oior
Eva WiUes Wangsgaard
Ward Linton
EASTER LILIES
GARDEN plans and flower ar-
rangements are composed
with the same basic principles
— contrast of size, height, and shape
with harmony and unification, prop-
er use of color and tones with
balance for good composition.
Color means many things to many
people. You can get interesting
effects with foliage alone or with
brilliant blooms. There are thou-
sands of plants in the world and it
is fun to try everything you see,
but effective gardens are created
by planting a choice few. Often
the simplest designs are the most
attractive. Old favorite plants have
been so improved upon that one
can get a variety of stunning designs
by different combinations of the
same plant, for example, the old
standby marigolds or zinnias.
In landscaping a city lot the same
principles hold true for the whole
as for individual garden plots. A
sample landscape is on a long, nar-
row lot (42' X 132') with a south
front. Walking up the driveway
(not shown on the diagram) on
your right is a raised curb and three
feet of land. This plot is set in
narcissi.
Since my purpose from end to
end of my land-picture is to have
continuous bloom, abundance of
cutting flowers, and minimum labor,
I learned which bulbs would survive
the summer irrigating of plants
sharing the same area with them.
The King Alfred daffodils have to
be replaced almost annually, but
the '"paper-whites," ''golden dwarfs,"
and "Cheerfulness" live on pro-
lifically year after year.
In the spring planting period, I
divide my clumps of azalea chrysan-
themums and replant them between
the blooming bulbs. As the nar-
cissi ripen and die back, the chrysan-
themums grow and spread into
graceful domes of deep green foli-
age hiding the blades, then burst
into gorgeous bronze flowers in
July and bloom on until snowfall.
Facing the house, let us consider
the foundation planting. The house
is purple fire brick with a brick
porch wdth brick corner pillars
making an "L" with the front wall.
At the right of the porch in the
house wall is a seven-foot picture
window. Under the window the
cement walk is cut away leaving a
small semicircular garden spot. The
front walk also curves around the
lawn to the driveway. On the far
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left, bordering the lawn, is a hedge
of Peace roses. A curb also marks
this property line and continues
west of the porch and angles to the
house. In the plot made by the
right angle stands a juniper (pfitz-
er) chosen because it tolerates
shade, grows large and rapidly, and
so soon screened off the unsightly
area between the houses.
TN front of the porch I marked a
garden plot which forms a lazy
''S" with the curve in the cement
walk, then followed it with parallel
curves ending at the driveway. In
this area are the foundation ever-
greens — in front of each pillar an
upright, golden arborvitae. Between
these, well-centered, is a deep green
ball arborvitae, and filling the area
on either side are two spreading
arborvitae (Armstrong). Two other
upright, golden arborvitae follow
the swerve of the pathway and the
earth between hides under spread-
ing junipers known as ''tams.''
Against the wall of the porch we
attached a wire framework of non-
rusting fencing for support for pur-
ple clematis vines. Between the
vines and the evergreens we spaced
two broad-leafed evergreen shrubs
(Euonymus), because they fan out
well, grow rapidly, bear beautiful
glossy green broad leaves the year
around, screen the wire from sight,
and yield filtered shade from the
fierce midday sun which might tax
the strength of the slender vine
stems.
Another lovely fan of Euonymus
drapes the wall under the high-set
picture window and the curve be-
neath it is a wonderful place in
which to show off the flamboyant
''Emperor Red" tulips or the even
larger "Gloria." All across the front
of the house and porch, in the open
spaces between shrubs, are azalea
chrysanthemum roots ready to add
their bronze domes to the picture
as the summer progresses, covering
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PINKS
the unsightly dwindhng blades of
the tulips. Also there was room for
two tall-growing pink floribunda
rosebushes strategically placed to
fill in color between the height of
the purple effusion of the clematis
and the low-arching bronze of
chrysanthemums.
Walking past the house down the
driveway, you notice that privacy is
maintained by an upright golden
arborvitae set even with the house-
line. The area between the drive-
way and the neighbor's house is five
feet, green all year with periwinkle
(myrtle), and dotted with blue and
white blossoms in May. A curved
recess in the cement driveway per-
mits a hedge of floribunda roses
(set from slips) along the east
foundation of the house. There is
room for a border of ''Emperor
Red" tulips and chrysanthemums
planted against the wall behind and
between the roses which carry the
bronze and pink theme along the
house from tulip time to autumn.
The garage is set back eleven feet
from the house. On the right, the
myrtle garden gives way to a raised
plot of perennial phlox shaded by
Austrian copper sweetbriers and
backed by maroon and purple clem-
atis vines climbing the link fence.
On the left, connected with the
house, is a long patio (ii' x 28')
with an aluminum roof, white, to
match the woodwork on the house.
OINCE the lines of the house,
garage, and patio are all straight
and a curve lends itself to easier
artistry, I broke up the straightness
by cutting arcs in the lawn and
planting native junipers in the tri-
angles thus created, covering the ex-
posed earth with spreading junipers,
Armstrongs, and ''tams." The four-
foot garden west of the patio is
planted with shrubs, an English
yew which thrives on shade, Ameri-
can Beauty June roses, and climbers.
In spring, numerous tulips of the
great Darwin type come up between
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the Boston ivy leaves, grow to a
height from eighteen inches to
thirty-two inches and spread a riot
of color abroad, then creep back
under the ivy leaves during the sum-
mer. The roses follow the west
fence line all down the lot. We
chose a link fence to get a feeling
of spaciousness blending the gardens
of the neighborhood and achieved
privacy by planting taller shrubs,
lilacs, forsythia, and altheas where
necessary. The dense green of
hydrangeas fills in the shady places.
Behind the garage we described
another arc in the lawn, built a
slatted redwood canopy to filter the
high noon sun, and specially pre-
pared the soil for the begonia bed
with a backdrop of vetch ivy on the
garage wall. On the left, is a peren-
nial garden of irises, lilies, and pe-
onies partially shaded by two flower-
ing crab trees — a Hopi with its
single, deep-rose blossoms and jewel-
like fruits, and the Betchel, with its
clusters of appleblossoms — pink
Ward Linton
SNOW FLURRY IRIS
Don Knight
VIRGINIA STOCK
double flowers. There is still room
for a small rectangle of perennials
on the east end balancing with the
lilies on the west.
All the borders and vacant spots
between large perennials are car-
peted with Ballerina petunias as my
color-scheme for the rear garden
is set by the phlox in their luscious
pastel tones. A row of phlox be-
tween the peony rows holds tall
bushy racemes of gorgeous rose,
purple, salmon, and maroon florets
above the midsummer foliage of
the peonies.
All over the garden are natural-
ized clumps of hyacinths, tulips, and
daffodils that spring up early and
scatter generous cups of sunshine
for March and April pick-ups that
last well into May, then die down
modestly under the summer foliage
and abundant petunia blooms.
CHADE for the back lawn is pro-
vided by a Norway maple tree
which was a wind-blown seedling
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237
seventeen years ago, and an inter-
esting element of what's-around-the-
corner surprise is achieved by a mag-
nolia shrub which arches out grace-
fully to filter the afternoon sunshine
before it reaches the begonias. Its
heavy rose-washed white, tulip-like
blossoms are exotic in season, and
its glossy leaves are a full season's
delight.
The iris bed is a series of circles
of patented varieties surrounding a
circular raised garden in the center
between the crabtrees. They, with
the peonies, provide an abundance
of cutting bloom when we need it
most for Decoration Day, weddings,
and graduations, and their simple
foliage makes a fine carpeting be-
neath stands of planters filled with
summer bloom.
Between and among the back-
ground shrubs and lilacs, grow more
and taller, fall-blooming chrysan-
themums. These tolerate shade
well and add to the green tones of
the backdrop until autumn when
they flame out in reds, bronzes, and
golden tones upon the changing
scene.
In all shaded areas where flowers
are impractical, Boston and English
ivy trail their beautifully cut, broad
leaves under the shrubs, hiding
earthy spots and tying everything
together with their restful, pleasing
greenness.
A garden is a personal thing.
What best suits your home will be
determined by the architecture and
by what you like, because people are
seldom comfortable in uncongen-
ial surroundings. These rules are
general: plan as a unit, vary the
individual parts, keep a color
scheme, buy well, keep designs
simple, and keep gardens well-
groomed. Buy perennials, especial-
ly peonies, by catalogue name, and
choose only high-grade varieties.
Never plant inferior plants just be-
cause they are cheap. Fewer and
better specimens will yield more
quickly and with lasting returns. If
you cannot landscape a whole lot
at once, buy a few plants each year,
keeping the whole plan in mind
and placing plants where they will
be unified in the same growth cycle.
Let your garden rate high in enjoy-
ment and livability without sacri-
ficing either utility or beauty.
v(/ild [Primrose
Evelyn F/eldsted
Over furrowed fields beyond the town.
Sleeping under snowflake down,
The primrose wakes when winter wanes,
And alone a queenly flower reigns.
When sunset leaves a silver loom,
To weave the light through hillside aisles.
The evening primrose sends perfume,
Across the land of prairie wilds.
To the infinite design attuned,
Wielding beauty's unseen scepter,
A small, white flower tells of peace.
And of earth the true inheritor.
Sixty LJears KyLgo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, April i, and April 15, 1899
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
MARCH 17th CELEBRATION IN PARC WAN: I wonder if there are any who
care to read of the unpretentious ward of Parowan, or rather the Relief Society in this
ward? ... At two p.m. we had a program meeting, the time being occupied by a
number of the elderly sisters speaking on the object of the Relief Society. . . . some
very appropriate recitations by the younger sisters with some well chosen songs and
sentiments, making those present feel like saying, ''It is good to be here." In the
evening the organization gave a ball, the members of the society contributing a dainty
lunch. . . . Many of our members are young mothers whose first duty is to guard and
guide the precious jewels an indulgent Parent has entrusted to them. . . . there is a
certain magical link that seems to chain us together so that whenever we aim for
anything in righteousness we are sure to gain it. . . .
— E. Crane Watson
FREEDOM: The very air we breathe is redolent of freedom. For this precious
gift let us offer a tribute of praise from the altar of our hearts to the God of liberty.
We can scarcely be too ardent in our enthusiasm concerning this goodly land, these
beautiful vales in the desert where a band of weary Pilgrims found rest and peace after
a long and toilsome journey across the bleak and desolate plains, having been wanderers
like the children of Israel for an indefinite period because of their religious faith . . .
and finally made their resting place by America's Great Dead Sea. . . .
— Emmeline B. Wells
YOUR CHILDREN
Teach them your children round the hearth
When evening fires burn clear;
And in the fields of harvest mirth,
And on the hills of deer.
So shall each unforgotten word
When far their loved ones roam.
Call back the hearts which once it stirred
To childhood's holy home. . . .
— Selected
DR. ELLIS R. SHIPP'S GRADUATES: Sister Ellis R. Shipp is an M.D. and
graduated from Philadelphia . . . the whole class, eight in number, passed the written
examinations before the State Medical Board of Utah. They all averaged 80 per cent,
and two of the students, Mrs. Emily G. Cluff and Miss Olea Shipp, were specifically
mentioned as coming through with flying colors, these two getting ninety-five per
cent. . . . Dr. Shipp cannot receive too much eulogy for the good work she is doing, . . .
The students are scattered all through the country and do much good in the communi-
ties where they reside, in alleviating suffering, and what is better, instructing their
patients how to prevent it. . . . Our successes have only caused us to feel more humble
and thankful to our Heavenly Father, for we realize that he has given us the abihty
to understand and opened the way for us to devote our time to this gloriously interesting
study. . . .
—Emily G. Cluff
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
gELLE S. SPAFFORD, General
President of Relief Society, left
Salt Lake City, February 27th, for
London to study the programs of
the Women's Voluntary Service
Organizations of England. An-
nouncement of the trip came from
President David O. McKay of The
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-
day Saints. President Spafford was
invited to study these organizations
by Dowager Marchioness of Read-
ing, G.B.E. (Dame Grand Com-
mander of the Order of the British
Empire) and C.S.T. (of the Order
of St. John of Jerusalem). Lady
Reading is also a member of the
House of Lords in the British
Parliament.
jyiRS. MARY G. ROEBLING
has recently been elected to
the board of governors of the
American Stock Exchange. This is
the first time a woman has been a
member of a governing body of a
United States securities market.
"lyiRS. Eva Willes Wangsgaard,
well-known poet, and frequent con-
tributor to The Rehei Society Mag-
azine, has a new volume of poems,
her fifth, just off the Wings Press.
In this book. Shape of Earth, are
poems of nature and of the human
heart. Many have a deep religious
feeling. The poems show delicacy,
imagination, strength, and imagery.
"lyilSS Verla Birrell, assistant pro-
fessor of art. University of
Utah, is the author of The Textile
Arts, published in January by Harp-
er and Brothers. The volume is
designed as a text, a reference book
for anthropological, archaeological,
or historical research, or for studies
in home economics or art. It will
be equally useful as a guide to those
interested in weaving, braiding, fab-
ric design, fabric dyeing, and print-
ing. Miss Birrell, a Latter-day
Saint, has published poems and
has received citations for her paint-
ings.
jyrRS. MARY FRANCES MOSES
recently died at the age of
100 years. She was the first woman
appointed to a United States civil
service position, a Treasury Depart-
ment clerk at $900 a year — in 1883,
six months after President Chester
Arthur signed the Civil Service Act.
PLEANOR STOKER BOLL, so-
ciologist, in collaboration with
James H. S. Bossard, discusses inter-
faith marriages in the new book
Why Marriages Go Wrong ( Ronald
Press, New York). The authors
conclude that marriages involving
people of different faiths are several
times as likely to end in divorce as
marriages between people of identi-
cal faiths.
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EDITORIAL
VOL 46
APRIL 1959
NO. 4
School cJhu QJeelin
U
'gs
School thy feehngs, oh my brother;
Train thy warm impulsive soul;
Do not its emotions smother,
But let wisdom's voice control.
— Charles W. Penrose
6 6 Q CHOOL thy feelings" is
^^ the poet's gentle way of
^"^^ encouraging self-discipline.
Disciphne is not a severe word, yet
it has been so frequently used in
connection with punishment that
to some people it has no other mean-
ing than punishment. In reahty,
discipline is training that develops
self-control, and indicates some sub-
mission to authority. In fact, the
word discipline comes from the
same root word as disciple. ''Dis-
ciple" brings to mind the followers
of Christ. It follows, then, that
one might think of discipline as
training to be a follower of the
teachings of the Savior.
''Life is a gift of God and there-
fore divine. The proper use of this
divinity impels men to become the
master, not the slave, of nature"
(President David O. McKay).
When God granted to his chil-
dren the glorious privilege of the
right to choose, he did not leave
them without help in choosing the
right. He gave to each of them a
spark of divinity. Brigham Young
tells us that the will of man is the
divinity God placed in his intelli-
gent creatures. In another discourse
he said:
I have frequently said that the greatest
endowment God ever gave to man is
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good, sound, solid sense to know how to
go\'ern ourselves. , . . Let every person
be determined, in the name of the Lord
Jesus Christ, to overcome every besetment
— to be the master of himself, that the
Spirit God has put in your tabernacle shall
rule . . . (Discourses of Brigham Young,
pp. 265-266, 1941 Edition).
The power of self-denial and the
resultant self-mastery are guiding
principles in character building.
Some of the ordinary aspects of liv-
ing, if carried to an excess, can be
forces of evil. For example, a healthy
appetite can be a physical bene-
fit; but if this appetite becomes over-
indulgence in food the body suffers,
and greed, an evil characteristic, may
result. So it is with other instincts
and passions; carried to an excess
they may degrade instead of uplift.
Christ "taught, and modern physiol-
ogy and psychology confirm, that
hate and jealousy, and other evil
passions, destroy a man's physical
vigor and efficiencv" (President
David O. Mckay, Pathways to Hap-
piness, page 62).
The abundant life, the life that
leads to joy everlasting, is character-
ized by victory over self, and the
acquisition of spirituality.
All of the prophets have cautioned
the people in matters of self-restraint.
Some have taught that uncontrolled
anger can so cloud the mind that
EDITORIAL 241
one is led to do and say many things en rod could drive children away
that later cause regret. The Prophet from their parents. "Where there
Joseph Smith taught the early Relief is severity there is no affection of
Society sisters to be very tolerant of filial feelings." Love and understand-
the faults of others, but extremely ing are the tools of disciplinary ac-
intolerant of their own shortcom- tion.
ings. He was concerned with the Parents must recognize that chil-
evil that can result from gossip and dren will show some irritation at
counseled them to control their restraint. No doubt the parents
tongues and not to spread unhappi- have felt it themselves and should
ness. He showed them the beauty handle the situation with sympathy,
of meekness of spirit, of humility, Children welcome fair limitations
and of acting with loving kindness, of acceptable behavior, and profit by
The spirit of their homes, the hap- knowing what they may and should
piness of their husbands and chil- do. Firmness, not vacillation, pro-
dren, were of such importance as vides the right teaching. Lovingly,
to require unselfish thoughtfulness kindly, but firmly, children must be
of them, he taught. taught obedience. 'There can be
No one can teach others self-dis- no true happiness in the home with-
cipline unless he has achieved it out obedience— obedience obtained,
himself. In no other relationship not through physical force, but
with others is the necessity of being through the divine element of love"
exemplary so important. In his Let- (President McKay). When one
teis and Social Aims, Emerson sug- has learned to be obedient he has
gested: ''Do not say things. What learned an important aspect of self-
you are stands over you the while, control.
and thunders so that I cannot hear Self-control leads to a more rev-
what you say to the contrary." In erent living of the gospel; a real
no other instance is the effort to spirituality. Self-discipline lends
teach "Do as I say, not as I do" so strength and wisdom to leadership,
unavailing. Self-restraint aids in avoiding evil.
Our leaders teach that discipline All of them are parts of righteous
is not a rod. President Brigham living.
Young said that the use of the wood- — L. W. M.
WaL /7?<
Hazel Loomis
Linger, lilacs, linger,
Just a little longer.
While I breathe the fragrance
On the midnight air.
But if you go, oh, lilacs,
Go, while I am sleeping.
Then wake me gently, lilacs,
With a blossom in my hair.
O^iSLdu TO THE FIELD
\Jorignam Ljoung UniversUii on (^atnpus
JLeaaership Vi/eek
June 6-10, 1959
TUNE 6-10 of 1959 the doors of Brigham Young University will again open
^ to the guests of the outstanding Leadership Week on the Provo Campus.
Each year the Relief Soeiety members have found the events of Leadership
Week most interesting, enjoyable, and of great help in their year's pro-
gram. The General Board would like to direct the attention of the mem-
bers of the Relief Society to the following events which, along with many
others, will be of great value to Relief Society women:
Relief Society Theology Lessons — "The Doctrine and Covenants"
Relief Society Social Science Lessons — "Spiritual Living in the Nuclear Age"
Relief Society Literature Lessons — "America's Literature"
Demonstrations on Food Preparation: The Bread Basket, Food with a Foreign
Accent, Dress up Your Vegetables, Food Becomes You
Food Storage
Food for Large Groups
Bazaar Helps
Handicrafts and Work Day Helps
Planning the Home Grounds for Better Living
First Aid for the Home and Home Nursing
Record Keeping in the Home
Planning for Social Recreation
Teaching Adults
Family Hour Activities
Arts and Crafts for Teachers of Adults
Construction of Teaching Aids
Storytelling and Dramatization
Youth and Parents Share in Looking Ahead to Marriage
Fashion Trends
Bargains and Buys
It's the Fit That Counts
Stretching the Wardrobe
How to Conduct Our Hymns
Materials and Methods for Church Choirs
Organ Instruction
Writing for the Church
Book Bait for the Family
Every Home Should Ha\'e Three — Buy Wisely
Ward Librarians' Workshop
Chemistry, Electricity, Physics in the Home
Fashion Shows
Elder Roy W. Doxey, author of the theology lessons for the coming
year, will teach the course on the Doctrine and Covenants; Elder Brian t S.
Jacobs, author of the Relief Society literature lessons, will teach the classes
in America's Literature; and Elder Blaine M. Porter, author of the social
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NOTES TO THE FIELD 243
science lessons, will teach the course in Spiritual Living in the Nuclear Age.
Many outstanding lectures and demonstrations on family life, in addition
to the above list, will be given. Each day a devotional assembly will be
held with excellent keynote speakers, and evening entertainments will
climax each day.
Detailed programs and registration cards may be obtained by writing
to or calling at the Brigham Young University Adult Education and
Extension Services in Provo, Utah.
The information and teachings given at Leadership Week do not
substitute for the official Relief Society instructions, but the material is
beneficial as it supplements and enhances understanding.
Song for cHer Soul
Ruth H. Chadwick
I heard her singing, sitting there alone —
The words I knew by heart, and yet before
I saw her faee or stepped inside her door,
I felt a newborn grandeur in her tone.
She had not heard my footsteps as I came,
And so I watched and listened to her song.
Her fragile body, braced to make it strong.
Bent forward now above her quilting frame.
Her bony fingers shook; her shoulders twitched.
Then, gripping fast the frame, she forced her chair
On wheels to move along the side, to where
Another pattern waited to be stitched.
And all the while, she sang without a break
In melody or words, first soft and sweet.
Then full and strong, and with each new repeat
She sewed fresh courage there for her own sake.
Her pain was eased by the tune she loved so well;
The words, her testimony, "All is well!"
cJo a QJriend
Marion Wfiiterbottom
npHE haunting melody of a lute was casting its spell over me as I watched the lonely
■*• river winding its way out to the sea. Then, suddenly, a jubilant symphony seemed
to fill the land. The entire world seemed beautiful as I clasped your outstretched hand;
as we walked together the muddy river turned to dusky jade; the dark clouds vanished
from my sight, and I no longer was afraid. I knew that this perfect harmony would
never come to an end, because from that day until forever I had you for a friend.
theRlgiit CircTes
cJhe uiight (circles
Swing the corner like swinging on a gate —
Now your own if you're not too late;
Ring up four with all your might,
All join in and circle right.
/^AILY the dancers circle and swing to the beat of the band and the
command of the caller . . . every happy heart in tune.
What wholesome harmony; what wonderful fun . . . when everybody's
in step and in tune, and when your partners in the dance are clean, healthy,
wholesome people like yourself.
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THE RIGHT CIRCLES 245
And so it is in real life, too. The circle is gay or dull, good or bad,
as we find, or fail to find, the right partners and heed, or ignore, the com-
mand of the ''caller."
Life is a series of circles, beginning with the family circle. For this
happy circle, when love and faith abide in the home, we give thanks to
kind and wise parents. Working, playing, and praying together, the happy
family moves from round to round in perfect rhythm.
Next we widen our circles to include an ever-growing number of casual
or close associates: chums of our youth, neighbors, schoolmates, club, social,
business, and Church friends. Out of these circles come eventually our
more enduring friendships, our lovers and sweethearts, and the permanent
partners we will choose to help us start new family circles of our own.
These permanent circles of association and affection will become for
us, if we choose them wisely and keep in time and tune, the light circles.
In them we will find true harmony and happiness.
BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
(!:yld JLogging LKoad
Maude Rubin
Across this sun-baked hillock,
Along this rutted road,
Once a lunging bullock
Sweated and pulled his load. . .
Straight logs to build a cabin,
A root to shelter love,
Walls against winter's chilling,
A hearth-fire warm as clove.
Left scattered in wide defiance,
Among these quiet stones,
Were seeds of those needled giants,
Sleeping in resiny cones.
They woke to forgiving greenness,
Thickets of youngling trees,
Children of fir and hemlocks,
Where time and a rain-wet breeze
Unsealed each varnished pod —
Then left the rest to God. . . .
Uxecipes QJroin the ibast L^entrai States l! Lission
Submitted by Marie Curtis Richards
Alabama Pecan Pie
(Popular in Tennessee and Mississippi)
Martha /oe GcLuett, Memphis, Tennessee
Vi c. sugar 2 tbsp. melted butter
4 tbsp. corn meal 1 c. dark syrup
2 eggs 1 c. pecans
Line nine-inch pie pan with pastry and set aside. Measure and stir sugar and corn
meal together in mixing bowl. Mix in eggs, butter, and corn syrup. Stir in pecans,
and pour into unbaked pie shell. Bake at 375° for thirty-five to forty minutes.
If glass pan is used, reduce baking time five minutes.
Leather Britches
(Dried String Beans — Cooked)
Lucy Harmon, Chaileston, West Virginia
Choose good, full green beans. String (but do not break) on a heavy thread
with a darning needle. Hang up to dry inside away from insects. Let dry until com-
pletely dry. (This takes several days in humid climate and not so long in hot, dry
climate.) Then place in a container with lid and store in dry place.
To cook Leather Britches, either soak overnight or pour boiling water over them,
cover, and let stand a few minutes. Pour off water and put in pan with a little water,
salt to taste, season with ham hock or bacon. Cook over low flame for five or six
hours. Add a httle water as needed. Let the water all cook away before serving.
These are delicious in the wintertime with corn bread.
Squirrel With Pork Chops
(A Delicacy in the South)
Lucy Harmon, Chaihston, West Vuginm
Put a couple of pork chops in bottom of pan. Dress and cut squirrel and place on
top of pork chops. Cover with water. Salt and pepper to taste. Cook slowly until
tender and the water is cooked away, and pork chops fry. Let brown well. Pour a
little water (2 or 3 spoonfuls) and cover for a few seconds. This makes its own brown
gravy.
Fried Pies
Cook dried fruit in very little water until tender. Add sugar to taste. Cool.
Dough :
1 c. flour Vi tsp. salt
Vi c. shortening 2 tbsp. cold water
Mix flour, salt, and shortening until pieces are about the size of small peas. Add
cold water and mix. Handle as little as possible. Wrap in wax paper and chill. When
ready to use pinch off pieces to make about a three-inch circle when rolled. Roll on
floured board.
Put a tablespoon of fruit on one side and pull dough over and pinch edges together
with a fork. Fry in deep, hot fat. Brown on one side and then the other. When done,
drain on paper towels to remove excess fat.
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RECIPES FROM THE EAST CENTRAL STATES MISSION 247
Lazy Pie
Melt one-fourth pound butter or other shortening in casserole dish. (A deep dish to
prevent spilling should be used.)
Mix together the following ingredients:
1 c. flour 1 tbsp. baking powder
1 c. sugar % c. milk
Pour the above into melted butter. (Distribute evenly, but do not stir!)
Add: iVi e. cooked fruit with syrup (sweetened to taste).
T)o not mix fruit and syrup when adding to casserole, just pour it in as evenly as
possible. You will be surprised at how the fruit takes its place and the crust comes
to the top by itself.
Cook at 350° F. for forty-five minutes or until browned nicely.
Makes six large servings or eight small ones. Serve plain or with ice cream or
whipped cream.
(Note: With some canned fruit, if syrup is thicker, you may need to add one-half
cup of water.)
Sweet Potato Casserole
Mrs. Thompson Crawford, Fairmont, West Virginia
(Original Recipe)
1 medium-sized can sweet potatoes 4 tbsp. orange juice
Yz c. brown sugar 1 tsp. salt
4 tbsp. butter or other shortening !4 c. raisins
1 tbsp. grated orange rind nuts as desired
Mash sweet potatoes with fork. Add all other ingredients and mix well together.
Put into casserole and bake in 350° oven about thirty minutes.
Orange Sugar Cookies
Mrs. Thompson Crawford, Fniimont, West Virginia
(Original Recipe)
% c. shortening 3 tsp. baking powder
1/4 c. sugar 1 tsp. salt
2 eggs grated rind of 1 medium-sized orange
3 c. flour 4 tbsp. orange juice
Cream shortening, sugar, and eggs together. Add sifted dry ingredients to first
mixture along with orange juice and rind. Chill. Roll out or use cookie press. Bake
in 350° oven for ten to fifteen minutes.
Butterscotch Pudding
Franklin, West Virginia, Rehei Society
2 c. brown sugar J4 c. butter
1 qt. cold water
Boil down to a light syrup in a saucepan and then beat the mixture.
Second Mixture
2 eggs 1 c. sweet milk
1 c. white sugar 2 tsp. baking powder
2 tbsp. vanilla 2^2 c. sifted flour
Beat eggs and sugar and add vanilla and milk. Then add the flour and baking
powder. Put the dough in the syrup and set it in the oven to bake until brown.
Looks like a cake. Makes four to six servings.
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Old Fashioned Meat Pudding
Ruby Ederburn, C/arlcsburg, West Virginia
1 hog's head com meal (to thicken as desired)
1 hog's hver salt and pepper to taste
Skin hog's head and cut in pieces. Remove the tongue and scald to remove outer
layer. Cook in a large kettle until meat is tender. Cook liver in separate pan and
don't save broth off the liver. Grind the cooked meat together. In the broth left
from the hog's head, add enough corn meal to thicken and cook at least one hour.
After the hour, add salt and pepper to taste and add ground meat and boil another
hour, stirring frequently. When done, pour in pans and grease will cover top. When
cold slice and fry. Will keep for over a month if in cool place. Any other bones left
over from butchering may be cooked with the hog's head as it gives a better flavor.
Extra scraps of meat may be added.
Green Tomato Kraut
Samantha Hayes, Webster Springs, West Vhginia
Slice 1 peck green tomatoes and put in granite dishpan. Sprinkle three cups salt
over this and let stand over night. Next day drain the green water off and chop the
tomatoes fine. Then cut up enough cabbage to measure the same, and mix all to-
gether. Use a stone jar to pack it in. Put in a thin layer of coarse salt and a layer
of the mixture. Then another layer of salt and mixture, until you complete the
amount you want to make. Then put on weights to hold it under the brine. I use
a cloth bag to put it in and no mold can get to the tomato kraut.
This will soon sour and be ready to eat. The salt will raise the brine. Do not
add water.
When it is sour enough, you can take it out and heat it and can it in glass jars,
as you would any other food, and seal it.
Hot Pepper Kraut
Samantha Hayes, Webster Springs, West Virginia
Cut 12 hot peppers and i gallon of cabbage fine and mix together well. Sterilize
a stone jar. Use a cloth bag and put a thin layer of salt and then half of the cabbage
and peppers. Then another layer of salt and another layer of cabbage and peppers.
Place weights on mixture to hold it down in the brine. When the mixture sours, it
can be heated and canned and sealed, as other foods. Drain off green brine before
serving or canning.
If this recipe is too hot for your taste, use fewer peppers. I make both kinds,
and we hke both of them.
Viyords
Grace Ingles Fiost
HOW careful we should be of the words that we speak. Words resemble seeds. Good
seeds capable of producing a profitable harvest, are often destroyed by seeds with
wild tendencies. It is just so with words. Sow words of beauty in receptive minds and
they will bring forth a bounteous, beautiful harvest; but beware of the untamed word.
Like seeds, one wild word can destroy your entire planting.
y^uard LJour clamilii — QJight Chancer viyifh a
(checkup ana a (^heck
Suhmitted by Esther AUegietti
American Cancer Society, Inc.
TT is reassuring to know that today one cancer patient in three is being
saved. A few years ago only one in four was saved. But we can do
better. Half of those who get cancer could be saved if we guard ourselves
and our families with thoughtful attention to health checkups and speedy
medical attention at the earliest sign of a symptom. You can help the
American Cancer Society in its crusade against the disease by sending a
generous check to your local unit of the Society. Remember— the checkup
is to guard your family now— the check will guard their future.
No matter how diverse people may be in their attitudes and ways of
life, thev are united in a determination to banish one of mankind's worst
enemies — cancer.
Americans have backed this determination by working as volunteers
for, and by their contributions to, the American Cancer Society. Fight-
ing cancer costs money. In the last ten years the American people con-
tributed $211,441,437 to the American Cancer Society for this cause. It
has brought results. There are 800,000 Americans who have reason to
thank the ACS for the balanced research, education, and service programs
which helped save their lives. These 800,000 once had cancer and were
cured.
Cancer affects rich and poor, office, factory, and professional worker
alike. That's why they stand shoulder to shoulder in the great crusade
to wipe out cancer.
Men and women stricken with cancer lose many millions of dollars
in earnings and in hospital bills. Yet funds available for cancer research
are a fraction of this cost.
We have it in our power to hasten the greatest V-Day humanity will
ever know— the day when nobody has to die of cancer. Expensive? Yes,
but some of the best things in life are costly.
When you're asked for a donation this April, remember you have an
opportunity to acquire some dav, for your own family, and all families
everywhere, one of the greatest gifts of life — freedom from cancer.
[Joenediction
Thelma Ireland
She kneels beside her little bed,
Her wee hands clasped in prayer.
Then trusting him, she falls asleep.
There is a sermon there.
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The Day I Turned Eight
Ilene H. Kingsbury
THE rain beat on my head. It shone and the spot shower would
struck my braids until they soon move on down the valley, the
hung sodden. From my plans of yesterday went forward,
belted middle to my shoeless feet, All my life up to that day, I had
I was quivering as the aspen leaves been taught the magic of becoming
whose shade flickered over my face, eight. For then I could be bap-
This standing in a pond of spring tized. So, in the nurturing rain,
water was almost more than I had which did not cease its gentle fall-
bargained for. The ripples on its ing, we hurried to a leanto on the
clear surface answered to the pelt- north side of the deserted ranch
ing April rain with dancing splashes house to prepare ourselves for the
and ever-widening circles. The per- event.
suasive tug of the water almost Once under cover, my teeth be-
pulled me over on my face. Only gan to chatter, not with cold, but
the steady arm of my father kept with fear of the next few minutes,
me from floating away. This was I sneaked a glance at one of my
the moment of my baptism. cousins, and at four or five other
The day was warm for the season girls my age. They had already
or we would not have started out begun to peel off their dresses and
on this serious errand. Our home were down to their long underwear,
on the desert, nearly a hundred This ankle length garment of ribbed
miles away, had never given us the cotton, some of it combed soft on
luxury of enough water for outdoor the skin side, reached to the shoe
shower baths, let alone a swimming tops; and on the arms, to the
hole. And this was my first experi- elbows. The style had been de-
ence in deep water. No extravagant signed for a wrist length, but dur-
use of this precious substance was ing the winter most of us had
a maxim with us. For many years begged our mothers to cut them off
it was carried from artesian wells in short, meaning to the elbows. Where
wooden barrels. This, then explained this request had failed, some of us
our visit to Grandma's in time for had done it ourselves back of the
the spring baptismal day in the kitchen stove on bathing nights,
pond at the outskirts of her South- and then stood the consequences.
€rn Utah town. One could tell by our faces we
From Grandma's to the meeting- wished it were at least May the
house and from there, in converging first. On that great day we could
buggies, perhaps a dozen, we had shed this cocoon type encasement
headed for the pond. It was only and, for perhaps a half year, be
after the horses were tied to the lightly clad either in vest and bloom-
fence that we felt a little moisture ers of woven cotton, elastic thread-
on our faces and saw it fall in the ed at waist and knee; or in store
dust and kick up miniature clouds pants of white knit. But today,
at our feet. But, as the sun still April 25th, was a week before the
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THE DAY I TURNED EIGHT 251
historic change to hghter garments, In after years I asked the en-
and even this momentous occasion tangled one how she felt at the
hadn't warranted summer under- moment of desertion, and she said,
wear. ''So hopeless! What if I never got
Modesty took over the scene at loosened in time to be baptized,
this point, and each girl hid herself Then the Lord would never forgive
behind a towel while she changed me for stealing Grandma's candy
to a white dress, in two cases, sev- from the jar in her parlor."
eral sizes too big. Then, each She did unleash herself, however^
stepped cautiously over the board and came running, a bit tear-stained,
floor and stretched around the door to catch up, and pridefully clutch-
frame to see whether the great out- ing the torn hem to hide it. Then
side world was looking her way. what happened made someone
quote ''the last shall be first,"
SEVERAL mothers, solicitous of thought from a Sunday School les-
every detail, stood in the kitch- son. The girl's name was Adams,
en path and motioned us to hurry, and she headed the line!
didn't we know the rain might Here we were, tremblingly stand-
come down harder any minute? ing, a bit breathless, ready for the
Three of us made it safely out of great moment; but where were the
the house; but the fourth caught the boys? Sounds of a minor battle
hem of her gathered skirt on the over in the tool shed gave notice of
loosened wire screen. This had where they were, all right. But why
unwoven itself in long rippling ten- weren't they ready? One of the
drils, each hanging out at odd angles fathers hastened to the ruction —
as unbraided hair does when we it was hard to determine from his
say electricity is combed through face and stride whether by now he
it. This little girl, entangled in the wanted to quell the trouble or join
wire, became frantic as a caged in and beat up the noisy offenders,
squirrel. She snatched her dress so The upsurge of sound as he opened
quickly it billowed out around the the door was cut off with his stern
screen and curled against the frame, presence and, in short order, a half
One couldn't tell whether she was dozen boys came filing out, each
going out or coming in. looking temporarily guilty, or per-
The next two girls, stalled in their haps it was embarrassment at, for
ceremonial march, bent to help her once, being dressed all in white,
extricate the folds, but too many They, at least, wore better fitting
hands only made the matter worse, outfits than the girls, and only the
They shrugged off all responsibility color seemed odd.
then, and ran around her to catch Of course, we all knew what
up with the others. These first, we were about, this baptism by
prompt, unimpeded ones turned immersion, but a stranger to our
around to question the delay, ways would have been somewhat
couldn't decide where their duty puzzled. His enlightenment would
lay; but upon hearing their mothers have been less likely upon hearing
commanding them to come on, two bold remarks. The biggest boy,
they took to their steady course by a head, evidently long over the
down the path. eight-year limit, stated louder than
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boys ever realize they are talking, beauty's up-length — soggy cloth-
''I decided I'd get baptized today, ing clinging in shapeless drapes and
even if I had to do it myself in the utterly refusing to stand out from
bathtub!" His friend, standing near, our formless selves,
boasted, ''If they just don't hold Each looked at each w^ith the
me under more than two minutes, purest inward touch we would prob-
I can hold my breath!" ably ever have again. We knew our
One could see straight off that sins had been forgiven us, and we
someone along the line had neglect- solemnly believed we never could
ed to inform the lads that eight offend a soul, if we lived to be a
years was the time to know right hundred. Most of us felt consider-
from wrong. Immersion, complete ably older than we had an hour
for an instant only, was the com- earlier. Age eight is truly a mar-
manded form to symbolize a new vel in mankind's progress. We were
birth into a life of consecration to- all well launched on the path to
ward better ways. Also, the brief heaven, and we knew at the end
ceremony, packed with deep spirit- of the journey all of us would be
ual significance, was to be loved, there together,
not feared. Such was our faith, repentance,
As young as I was, I could see and baptism,
twelve children with as many hopes
and fears showing all over their /QUICKLY we ran to the leanto.
faces. That is, except for one, a ^ Now that it was all over, except
httle Indian boy, totally calm, abso- of course our confirmation on next
lutely noncommittal, always on the Fast Sunday, we were in haste to
outside of the group, alone in a join our parents and relatives who
white man's ceremony. I guessed already were roaming restlessly
his parents were the Pahutes, about the grounds. Some of the
motionless as totems, a ways off older ones named the year they,
under a cottonwood tree. I was too, had come here to be baptized,
grown before I realized how sensi- A couple of very little boys spoke
tive this race is to the eyes of out- up. They didn't think the pond
siders, white or red. was anything but a swimming hole.
My turn to enter the waters came The elder in charge hoped that one
before I could quite understand day a font would be built within a
why the biggest boy came on the new meetinghouse. His dream
bank blubbering, or why the littlest showed in his eyes,
girl seemed almost transported to As we entered the house, we
angelic bliss at her moment of pur- looked back just in time to see three
ity. Nor could I understand why boys racing for a surrey at the gate,
the pudgy blond girl should have And, still sopping wet, each with his
been shaking as with laughter; or dry clothes under his arm and his
for that matter, why in middle shoes tied together and slung around
age, she is still chuckling over life, his neck, off they drove for town.
All of us resembled soaked weeds— One boy yelled back, ''Why stop
hair streaming, straightened, tan- to dress when it is raining anyway?"
gled, eyelashes dewy and gathered in This seemed reasonable, except
THE DAY I TURNED EIGHT 253
that to little girls, in a chattering ma sitting in the front seat. They
state of wetness and excitement, the were happy to be on the way home
delay for getting dressed was more again. Their concern, then, was
urgent. And besides, we thought, about my birthday cake which they
what mother would let girls drive hoped someone had thought to take
about soaking wet! That was just out of the oven,
for boys, we guessed. It was then I knew I was still a
By the time we drew on our long little girl, and not so terribly grown-
stockings over our damp skin and up after all; for I got so hungry for
crumpled underwear and laced our that cake that I nearly jumped out
high-topped shoes, all the boys and of the buggy and ran ahead of the
their families had left, and most of horse.
the remaining parents were calling When the whole day was over:
us to hurry. rain, baptism, cake, and all, I tried
In a way, I hated to leave. I felt to think of the most wonderful
a little sad, just the way my spirits thing to remember when I got real
fell when we said goodbye to old, say twenty-five. I settled for
Grandma after a visit or when the moment in the pond, the deep
Christmas day was finally over, and water gently swaying me and the
it wouldn't happen again for a loving arms of my father steadying
whole, interminable year. me as he began to talk to the Lord
As we climbed in the buggy and in my behalf,
the harness slapped the mare to It all came back, each detail — as
signal motion toward home, we it has most of my numerous birth-
looked back at the pond. The April days — the next morning when
rain was strengthening its fall, a Mother combed my hair. My braids
gust of canyon wind ruffled its sur- were still damp from the rain and
face. With a little shiver I looked the water in the pond — that day
for comfort to Mother and Grand- I turned eight.
Iliyi JLove Us LJoung
Maixene Jennings
My love is young, and, oh, so filled with needing!
For comfort, warmth, and strength he turns to me;
His tiny voice that asks of me his feeding
Names me his orbit's queen, his certainty.
My love is small, but, oh, so full of growing!
His dimpled charm thrives on the racing days;
His shrinking clothes contrive to keep me sewing,
While healthy pounds revise his baby ways.
My love is mine, but, oh, so busy sleeping!
His waking hours most precious hours I've known!
My cup is full, but I am close to weeping —
The more he grows the less he is my own!
LJou Can Sew — XIV — Children s Clothes
— cJ^nfants ana cJoaaiers
Jean R. Jennings
IT is a wise woman, indeed, who dom and more comfort than set-in
approaches the making of a sleeves. Avoid tiny collars that
layette with a practical and not crumple up around the neck, no
a sentimental plan. matter how cute they are. Resist
Too often young mothers let garments that slip over the head,
their feelings run away with them They are hard to adjust and hard to
and buy entirely too many and too iron.
frivolous clothes for the coming Young mothers with growing
baby. The kinds and number of families can be kind to themselves
garments are matters of personal by keeping children's clothes simple
decision, but wise mothers plan for and uncluttered so they are easy to
very few infants' clothes. Babies launder. The fewer the frills for
grow fast and are soon too large for everyday clothes the better,
the first tiny clothes. Often friends When baby begins to crawl and
send gifts, and soon there is much learn to walk, his clothes need
more for the baby than can ever special consideration. Plan gar-
be needed. ments which allow the greatest free-
When selecting clothing for the dom for getting around on hands
infant, keep these three important and knees and taking the first steps,
points in mind: the garments must Both girls and boys fare better in
be comfortable; they must be easy a cover-all type of garment that is
to launder; they must be easy to buttoned at the crotch for easy
slip on and off. changing. At this stage they are
To insure perfect comfort in difficult to keep clean and frequent
infants' and small tots' clothing, changes are necessary, so simplicity
first make sure the fabrics are soft, is the keynote for comfort.
Fine nainsook, lawn, batiste, soft Make such garments in pretty
flannel, and soft crepe are satisfac- colors which can be washed often,
tory. Many of the new synthetic Soft, flexible fabrics, with smooth
fabrics are non-absorbent and do surfaces which do not pick up dirt,
not readily ventilate, so are, there- should be used. They should
fore, not as good for the wee ones, always be pre-shrunk and color-fast.
Do not use any materials that will, All seams should be narrow, flat,
in any way, irritate sensitive skin, and smooth. All stitching should
Rough textures and stiff or starchy be very secure as these clothes will
types are a very poor choice for receive hard wear. Buttons and
children. buttonholes must stay fast and keep
In most cases, especially for night their shape. They will be subjected
clothes, those that tie are better to a great deal of buttoning and un-
than those that button. Give pref- buttoning.
erence to a front closing and to To encourage self-reliance in chil-
raglan sleeves which will give free- dren, fastenings and plackets should
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YOU CAN SEW — XIV — CHILDREN'S CLOTHES — INFANTS AND TODDLERS 255
be in front within easy reach. Avoid not satisfactory for use in their con-
very large or very small buttons for struction. Two sturdier-type seams
the child who is ready to learn to that are most frequently used are
dress himself. Zippers and hooks the French seam and the flat fell
and eyes are taboo as they are too seam. For infants' and little girls'
difficult for tiny fingers. Gripper dresses, slips, and gowns, the French
fasteners are good as the child gets seam is best. For play clothes and
a little older. All garments should pajamas, the fell seam serves well,
have as few fastenings as possible. To make a French seam lay the
Pajamas or nightgowns are made fabric edges together, right side out.
on the same principle as daytime Pin or baste, then stitch, taking out
clothes. They should be sturdy, half the seam allowance. Trim raw
with firm fastenings, be easy to get edges, then press the seam open or
in and out of, and easy to launder, to one side. Turn to the wrong
They should be made in comfort- side and crease on the line of stitch-
able fabrics that wear well. ing. Stitch along the seam line and
Fashion should be important in so enclose the raw edges,
night clothes as in day clothes. To make a flat fell seam begin by
Children can look adorable in their pinning or basting the seam from
night things if fabrics are attractive the right side and stitch. Press flat,
and well chosen and the styles be- Trim away one edge to within 1/4
coming. Cotton crepe for summer inch of the seam line. Turn the
wear and cotton flannel and jersey other edge under and pin or baste
for winter are ideal fabrics. They flat so the raw edge is covered,
are easily washed and need little or Stitch close to the fold,
no ironing. Make extra long plackets in chil-
Because infants' and toddlers' dren's clothes, using methods dis-
clothes get hard wear and need fre- cussed in Article XII, in The Reliei
quent laundering, plain seams are Society Magazine for February 1959.
(grandma LKeminisces
Elsie McKinnon Stiachan
Sometimes, when loneliness offset my fear
Of horse and rig, I'd call the children in,
Would scrub each elbow, wash each earth-stained ear.
And dress them party-clean from toe to chin.
Then from the silent barn, I'd fetch Old Ned,
\Mio, waiting always, lonely and forsaken,
Returned my awkward words with toss of head
And gentle whinnies. . . . Fearful (but unshaken)
With trembling hands, I'd put the bridle on,
Gingerly fasten the tugs to whippletree —
Quieting the children's noise . . . my thoughts upon
That neighbor five miles west. Unwaveringly,
I'd call "Giddap!" jarring the buggy's load,
And leave my loneliness along the road.
Great-Grandmother's Notebook
ArJene D. Clowaid
IT had been one of ''those'' days his raise. They wouldn't be able
from the very beginning Janine to buy the lovely brick rambler
sighed heavily. First little Joey home up in the new section of
had awakened early with a slight town after all. The beautiful home
fever, cross and fretful, and all that that they had so wanted,
would pacify him was to rock him "I'm sorry," Dave murmured,
slowly in the rocking chair. Finally seeking her eyes for some answer.
he had fallen asleep, but Janine's Janine covered her mouth with
arm where his head had rested was her hand and fled quickly to the
stiff and tired. Then Jenny had kitchen sink, where she silently
spilled a whole quart of milk across turned on the water tap full force
the newly waxed kitchen floor and and began noisily rattling the dishes,
now, not fifteen minutes later, Jen- She had wanted that house so!
ny was skipping toward her, leaving Nothing ever seemed to turn out
behind a trail of muddy little foot- right.
prints. In her hands she was hold- Dave stood for a moment watch-
ing up a quart jar with a captive ing her, and then turned away, his
butterfly lifting lovely fragile wings broad shoulders bent dejectedly, his
to beat against the sides. eyes sad. "I tried. Well I . . . I'm
''Oh, lookee, Mommie," she ex- on my way now to meet a client."
claimed, her small five-year-old face Janine didn't reply and he left,
alight with excitement. "Down in his feet even heavier than when he
the garden I found this and I . . . ." had come. Just thinking about the
"Oh, Jenny, Jenny, I told you not disappointment brought new tears
to go down in that garden. I just to her eyes, and she rubbed an arm
watered last night. Now look at angrily across her hot forehead, let-
your shoes and my floor. What- ting a soapy dish slip with a crash
ever am I going to do with you? to the floor.
Go outside and sit down on the Just then, at as miserable and
porch this very instant. And stay untimely a pace as everything else
there!" that day, the telephone rang. Snatch-
Jenny's eager little face fell, and ing up a towel, she dried her hands
she glanced from the glossy-winged furiously, trying to blink back the
butterfly to her muddy footprints, tears and clear the sob in the mid-
and then she quietly turned and die of her throat,
slipped back out the door, clutch- At the sweet, familiar sound of
ing her jar tightly. her mother's voice, Janine broke
Janine was just wiping up the out into loud and uncontrollable
mud when she heard Dave talking sobs, telling the woes of her terrible
to Jenny outside. His voice and day somewhat incoherently into the
his step on the doorsill were heavier phone.
than usual, and when her e3'es met Right in the middle of telling
his she knew that he hadn't received about Dave's not getting the raise
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257
and the beautiful home that they
wouldn't be able to have, Mother
interrupted gently.
"It sounds, dear, as if today is
the day that I need to turn over
to you my grandmother's notes."
Janine sniffed. ''Notes?"
''Yes. I think perhaps it would
be of a great deal of help to you.
My mother gave this little notebook
to me when I was young and newly
married, and suggested that I pass
it on to you on a day that seemed
to be extra trying. Either you've
been very lucky darling, or very
secretive, because I haven't found
the right occasion until today. I'll
be right over. Just sit down and
wait for me."
The receiver clicked and Janine
sat staring at the instrument with
bewildered eyes. Whatever could
some notes written by her great-
grandmother have to do with her
and all the things that had gone
wrong! A notebook certainly
couldn't solve a thing.
Janine laid the phone back into
its cradle slowly and walked wearily
into the living room, sinking de-
jectedly into the nearest soft chair.
She shut her eyes, and a few hot
tears slid from beneath her eyelids
and down her cheeks. Today was
a day she wished that she could have
missed. Not one nice thing had
happened. She thought that she
would have been better to have
stayed in bed.
Janine was still there when her
mother arrived twenty minutes later,
carrying a very small cedar chest.
She set the little chest on Janine's
lap and smiled.
"Here, dear. This belonged to
your great-grandmother Elizabeth.
She came across the plains with a
handcart company in 1856, and with
her she brought this chest. I want
you to read the little notebook in-
side, and I promise you you will
reread it many times during your
life. See you tomorrow, Janine.
Goodbye."
Her mother was out the door be-
fore the astonished young woman
could open her mouth to protest.
After the sound of her mother's car
had died away down the street,
Janine looked curiously at the little
cedar chest. On the lid was a
beautifully carved rose, surrounded
by dainty leaf-like designs, and
through the pattern was engraved
"To My Beloved Beth."
Shyly, almost humbly, Janine un-
fastened the aging brass fastener and
lifted the lid. Inside lay an old,
yellowed notebook, and she picked
it up carefully. The first page was
so faded that she had to read slowly
in order to make out the words, but
as she did so, the tears left her eyes
and she became quite lost in the
words before her.
};< 5;t jj: jji jj:
<'^TT is the last of May, 1856, and
we are almost ready to begin
our long journey. Charles, my hus-
band, has the handcart packed to
the brim, and we are going to try
to take along our big beautiful
mahogany bedstead that was given
to us on our wedding day. We
hope to start our new home with
this dearly beloved bedstead, for
somehow a home wouldn't seem to
be a home without it. I've wrapped
it very carefully in the heaviest
quilt I could find to keep it free
from dust and scratches. All of
our other things, my china, and
the lovely maple dining set we have
given to our family and friends we
are leaving behind.
"Charles and the other men have
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floated the carts across the river on raindrops drumming steadily on the
the Council Bluffs ferry. The fer- canvas. The rain hasn't let up for
ry is a fascinating flat-bottomed almost a week. It is pitch black,
boat, built to convey travelers to except for my little tallow candle
the other side. They are returning which flickers so that it is difficult
now for the other women, myself, to write. My family is at last set-
our son Joseph, and our two daugh- tied for the night. Dear Joseph is
ters, Melissa and Mary. flopped out flat, with arms spread
''June — The heat is already op- above his head and his httle hands
pressive, and my calico dress is long open and relaxed. Melissa is curled
since faded from the sun. Dust up like a kitten with her thumb
rises in heavy clouds from the popped into her rosy mouth, and
wheels of the carts ahead of us and Mary sleeps, peacefully stretching,
coats our skin. Melissa's golden Charles is so tired. Even in sleep
curls are gray with it, and when I his bronzed face is lined — lines
shake my bonnet it makes a little around his eyes from squinting
dust storm of its own. I grieve for against the sun, tired lines, gentle
my baby, Mary. How uncomfort- lines, worried lines,
able and hot she is. Dear Mary, 'Two days ago, however, I lifted
who longs to kick and coo, and must a burden from his back. The mud
be held so tightly in my arms all day was so deep that it was over my
long. The blanket has to be held knees, and the cart wheels were so
so close about her to protect the caked that we could scarcely pull
soft, delicate skin from the blister- it. I laid my Mary deep in the cart
ing sun. and together we pulled and pushed
and scraped mud from the rims, but
^^^HARLES, dear Charles, strains it was no use, the cart was too
so hard at the cart to pull it heavily loaded to push any further,
over rocks and through the deep It had rained for four days then,
dust, and Joseph and Melissa are and showed no signs of letting up.
so often thirsty, with no water to We had to reach higher ground,
give them. Thank the dear Lord And so quietly I told Charles that
for the joy and love in our hearts, our bedstead must go, that I
and for the glorious light of his gos- wouldn't let him struggle with such
pel. For how, without this, could a heavy burden any longer for my
my children point out with glee the sake.
swift spring of the wild hare, the "Silently we lifted all of our bed-
beauty of the distant golden sunset, ding and provisions out of the cart
and then turn to see their father's onto a canvas until we came to the
back straighten and his eyes become big mahogany bedstead. How my
alert? Baby Mary, so sweet to smile heart cried to see Charles heave out
at the songs I sing. The songs that our precious little bit of home, re-
give wings to our weary feet. And move the quilt, and set it down so
Charles, so strong his arms, so re- painstakingly gentle into the deep
assuring his kind smile. black mud.
"July — It is finally night. As I "Rain pelted down our faces and
sit here in our tent I can hear the dripped off our clothes as we stood
GREAT-GRANDMOTHER'S NOTEBOOK 259
there, looking down at the shiny too engrossed in her own disappoint-
mahogany begin to ghsten with ment to reach out and help him
raindrops. Charles looked at me, with his. No, she thought, she
so deeply, and with such heart- would probably never be called up-
breaking sympathy that I had to on to leave a beloved bedstead along
show him that although it hurt a muddy trail, but, perhaps, she
terribly, it didn't really matter. might need to abandon a few too
"I touched his wet arm with my high-priced ideas for her husband's
hand, and I smiled through the rain broad shoulders to carry. In fact,
and said, ^Darling Charles, we were this very evening when Dave re-
wrong. That bedstead wasn't what turned she would try to show him,
it takes to make a home. We don't with the help of a wise great-grand-
need it really, after all. Home, my mother, that they were also really
darling, is where you and I and at home by being together and that
our babies are.' ^^^ ^^^ that mattered.
"And it is true. We left our beau- ^^?^\ F"t'y' .^^^ replaced the
tiful bedstead back along the muddy notebook in the little chest. She
trail in the rain, but we are all here, T." '^ '^^'^ '.* often as her mother
tucked safely within our tent with ^^^ promised her that she would,
the sound of soothing rain pattering ^}^^"^& ^'^^ chest upon the mantel
above us and we are really at home ^^ ^'P^oed to the screen door and
—together " opened it quietly. Jenny was still
sitting there, holding^ the jar, but
her eyes were uninterested now,
TANINE was crying when she ^^d her tiny feet drummed nervous-
•^ finished reading the yellowed ly on the step. Somewhere along
notebook, but now her tears were the way, Janine realized, she had
different from the tears that she had forgotten to see the beautiful things
shed earlier. She brought the small her children pointed out to her, and
book up caressingly against her she had also forgotten to bring joy
cheek. 'Thank you. Great-grand- to them,
mother. Thank you." She sat down upon the step be-
She stood up, clutching it against side the little girl and put her arm
her breast. Dave had heavy bur- about her. The child's face lighted
dens, too, although they were not in bewilderment, and then a smile
quite the same as a handcart. And spread across her face and lighted
what had she done to help to light- up her deep blue eyes again as
en them? What comfort had she Janine said gently, ''Darling, I'm
given him? None! She had been ready now to see your butterfly."
But let all those that put their trust in thee rejoice: let them ever shout for joy
because thou defendest them: let them also that love thy name be joyful in thee. For
thou, Lord, wilt bless the righteous; with favour wilt thou compass him as with a shield
(Psalms 5:11-12).
UxozeUa ^Jjowdie Jxingsford u lakes JLace
cJablecloths ana iuraiaea LKugs
"DOZELLA Dowdle Kingsford, Cove, Utah, has been busy with needles and crochet
■'■^ hooks since girlhood. She has made more than fifty braided rugs and many
articles of exquisite crocheting. For the Relief Society room in her ward chapel she
crocheted a lovely lace tablecloth and a lace cloth for the top of the piano. She also
crocheted hundreds of articles which were sold and the money given to help finance
the building of the ward chapel.
Mrs. Kingsford's "double hobby," as she calls it, is gardening. She raises raspber-
ries and strawberries, as well as a vegetable garden, and her flower garden is the pride
of the valley — presenting a picture of continuous bloom from earlv spring until late
fall. Her habits of industry and thrift were acquired early, for Rozella Dowdle lost her
mother when she, the eldest daughter, was only twelve. Soon after the mother's death,
Rozella's father said to her, "Be sure to have the bushel of wheat ready for the Relief
Society sisters when they call, even though your mother is not here." Relief Society
has been a beloved companion to Mrs. Kingsford for many of her se^■enty-eight years,
and she has been a visiting teacher for more than forty years. She is mother to eight
children and grandmother to twenty-seven.
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1 quart cold soft water
1 can lye
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Yz cup ammonia
2 tablespoons borax
Heat grease, add lye, which has been dissolved in water overnight. Stir 15 to 20
minutes. Add ammonia and borax which have been dissolved in Yz cup warm water.
Stir until thick. The grease need not be too warm. Mark the pieces as soon as soap
is cold enough. As soon as it will grate nicely grate it, and store in boxes or plastic
bags.
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/tow LJou Jxfiow LJou're JLiving
Mary Ek Knowhs
MY mother-in-law was the most
gifted person I have ever
known. Not gifted in the
usual sense. She couldn't paint a
picture, or compose a song, or write
a novel. She was gifted, rather, in
the art of living life to the fullest.
Never have I known a person who
got so much enjoyment out of the
simple, everyday things. A two-
block walk to the grocery store was
a thrilling experience. In her home
neighborhood that two-block walk
might take all morning, because she
must stop to visit a moment with
everyone: women, men, children,
dogs, cats, even the parrot on Mrs.
Alden's front porch.
And in a strange neighborhood —
but, come to think of it, there was
no such thing as a strange neighbor-
hood to Grandma, because any
neighborhood was made up of peo-
ple and people weren't strangers. A
fifteen-minute talk with a man she
had never met before, and she would
come away with his family back-
ground, his complete life's history,
a Hst of his physical ailments, and
the projects he hoped to succeed in.
For Grandma a trip across the
barren Nevada desert was an ad-
venture comparable to sailing
around the Horn. '''Isn't that an
awful stretch over the desert?" one
of my friends asked Grandma, when
she drove over with her daughter
to visit me when we were living in
Reno.
"AwfuP" Grandma said, swinging
happily in the lawn swing. "No,
now I can't say that it was. I
thought it was a beautiful trip."
"Beautiful! You're joking!" my
friend said. "What was beautiful
about it?"
"Why, the Joshua trees, and those
desert lilies and miles and miles of
clean sand sparkling in the sun, and
the jackrabbits standing up so sassy
on their haunches watching us go
by, and the sunset/ Why that sun-
set alone was worth the trip. It
was just like a big painting with
nothing to block our view."
Grandma took time out to do
things for people. One of my
fondest memories is the day she
taught four little boys, five and six
years of age, to embroider.
For over a half hour they had
watched fascinated while she skill-
fully embroidered a pink rose in
the corner of a blue luncheon cloth.
Then one of the Albright twins said,
"That looks like fun. Grandma
Knowles." And Grandma said, "It
is. Would you like to embroider
something?" "Yes," they all agreed
they would. "Well, go home and
get embroidery hoops and I'll show
you how."
They got embroidery hoops from
their bewildered mothers, and
Grandma drew designs and figures
on remnants of white cotton I had.
She provided the needles, the bright-
colored thread.
I can still see them, four freckle-
faced, tough-looking little boys sit-
ting on the steps of the big, shady
front porch, their Tomahawk-hair-
cut heads bent over their embroi-
dery hooks. I can still hear Grand-
ma saying: "You want to em-
broider the cat purple? Well, now
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that I think of it, I'll bet many a situation. I know she was plan-
cat's wished she could be purple." ning how she could best help me
But the point is that she enjoyed once the baby was quieted, but not
every minute of threading needles even that knowledge could lift my
and tying knots and unsnarling dragging spirits,
thread. ''Oh, Grandma," I wailed, ''isn't
everything a mess. Isn't life awful!"
lyjY mother-in-law had many ex- "No, I don't think it's awful at
pressions that exactly fit the all," she said brightly, happily, as
situation, but the one I remember she rocked back and forth. "Now
most vividly was "Now you know you know you're living."
you're living." Believe me, I didn't understand
I heard it first one hot August then what she meant. This, I
afternoon when — so to speak — thought, horrified, she calls Jiving/
life had me by the throat. Since Either my beloved mother-in-law
early morning things had been hap- had taken leave of her senses, or
pening, disasters like the toilet flood- she was trying to buoy me up with
ing over, and the rinse tub spring- false optimism,
ing a leak, and one clothesline
breaking with its load of sheets. R^^ ^ understand now. Life to
Now it was three o'clock, the hot- Grandma was living. It was as
test part of the day, and my six- simple as that. Life was meeting a
year-old daughter Janet was crying problem head on, grappling with it,
because she had skinned her knee; and solving it. It was taking a
fifteen-month-old Ernie had just bushel of peaches and turning it
broken out in red spots that Grand- into jars of golden fruit for winter-
ma diagnosed as "Chicken pox, sure time; it was the changing of a pile
enough. My isn't he covered, of dirty clothes into clean, starched
though? He will feel better now dresses and expertly ironed men's
they're out." Three-month-old Lar- shirts; it was taking three dirty-
ry was teething and cranky. faced, tousled-haired children and
There was a sink full of dirty transforming them into three clean
dishes, a bushel of peaches on the cherubs marching off to Sunday
back porch to be bottled, a basket School.
of clean clothes to be dampened Life was giving encouragement
and ironed. and praise to the tired man of the
Grandma had arrived just ten house. It was riding herd on a re-
minutes before. She had walked bellious teen-age son who towered
the two blocks from her house, over you, and ordering him to his
swinging along on her crutches — room for the rest of the day and
she had arthritis in both hips by night, your heart pounding as you
then, but she could cover distances prayed that you had reared him
faster than most people could with right and he would know he had the
two good legs — and now she sat discipline coming and would not
in the rocker, held the baby, patted storm out of the house, knowing
his back, said a few sympathetic that physically you could not stop
words to Janet, and surveyed the him. It was a prayer of gratitude
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265
when he pounded off to his room,
grumbhng, but going anyhow to
stay as you had ordered.
Life to Grandma meant not com-
plaining or bewaihng your lot, or
blaming your failures on a parent
who didn't give you the doll buggy
you cried for when you were three
years old. It was squaring your
shoulders and going on until your
strength gave out, and then draw-
ing on a deeper strength you didn't
even know you had, and going on
again.
That August day I didn't under-
stand what she meant, but I do now.
Now when the house is quiet and
clean and it stays that way, and
sometimes the hours drag. ''Now
you know you're living," she had
said. How wise, how right she was.
I wish I had appreciated it more
then.
cJhiS LJears Spring
Vesta N. Lukei
Over your shoulder, you loving me,
I see the slanting rain.
The dripping leaves of eucalyptus,
And spring's first green refrain.
Over your shoulder, you loving me,
I see gray clouds that fill
The curve of sky above the sweep
Of country road and hill.
Over your shoulder, you loving me,
I see the burgeoning
Of life. Here you and I, entwined,
Are part of this year's spring.
uiome Jjecorators
Joyce K. MacKabe
T don't have murals or oil paintings hanging on my walls. The decorators of my home
•■• are not trained, nor do they get paid for their work.
The bright paper truck cut laboriously in kindergarten from colored paper adorns
our living room wall. The mural on the refrigerator was made by little hands, brown
with cake batter licked from the mixing bowl. A trail of toys leads through the house
left by a toddler's tiny hands, a true free-form design from the modern school of art.
Crumbs encircle each of the twenty legs of our breakfast set, but their delicate
tracery means more to me than the careful pattern of the linoleum, for they recall the
smiles on the clean faces that were around the table such a short time before.
These are the decorators of my home, hardly professional, yet I am convinced
they are the best God has to offer, and I thank him for my children.
KyLbout cJwiught
Amy Viau
"\1 7HEN I first met twilight, long ago as a child, it was a very special time of evening.
^' During the long summer days, people seemed to look forward to it as a kind of
luxurious siesta.
Twilight on the farm of a Midwestern State, where great fields and distances
stretched, unchecked by mountains to horizon them, was a splendored prefix to night.
There, in its softened glowing of gray, the whole world was a charmed landscape.
In that land of level fields and reaching pastures, twilight stretched far beyond the
Toad running past our front yard. And often there was mentioning of the twilight,
as of the sunset.
''Isn't it a lovely twilight?" was almost as natural an exchange between neighbors
as was 'TIow are you?"
And in that day, before cars stirred the highways with speed, the thick, velvety
dust of the summer road yielded softly to every footstep of those who walked along
in the twilight, just for the joy of the evening.
There was the summer evening when a stranger came sauntering along past the
yard, as though he walked a royal pathway. And, though strangers did not often walk
that road, it seemed natural and fitting for him,
"Good evening, Sir," he called out to my father, sitting with the whole family
in the cool front yard. "A lovely twihght — a lovely twilight, if I ever saw one!"
Of course, father agreed, and the stranger leaned on the top rail of the rail fence,
with regular twilight friendliness. He explained that he was hiking to upstate and
loved walking at twilight and under the stars of night. When he was reminded by
father that it was eight miles to the nearest town, where he could get lodging — he
laughed, then explained what a pleasure it was when he was walk-tired, to take his coat
from the valise he carried and to lie down beside the road, or in some dewy field to
rest — with God's vastness all around him. And to my child mind, that was a heavenly
thing to do.
The two large sycamore trees across the road, responded to twilight with a stillness
of utter peace, until the night blackened them into indefinable shapes. But they were
a bit of trim to the twilight, worth mentioning.
The old, gray stable — not the real barn, just the squat stable, was a kind of
dwarfish castle in twilight, as the light went from subdued gray to a depth of blue
from which it slowly melted into night.
It was at the time of this bluish gray, that Father always seemed impelled to sing.
^'The Ninety and Nine" was his favorite song. He would start it with a twilight-kind
of humming, which finally became words that rose clear and distinct in the crescendo
of the verse. When the "wandering sheep" were finally safe in the Father's arms, and
Father's beautiful voice ebbed into the silent twilight — I felt happy and satisfied.
"Shall we take a little walk in the twilight?" was almost as usual in the family
as was the mentioning of supper being ready, or of lighting the indoor lights. How-
ever, lights spoiled the effect of twilight. Even the flashings of fireflies over the fields
and yard, which are comparable to flashes of fairy lanterns, to a child, can mar the
effect of twilight-glowing. Twilight needs only its own varied tones to make a world
of fairyland.
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The Silver Leash
Chapter 4
Beatrice Rordanie Parsons
Synopsis: LaRue Harding, an orphan,
who has Hved since childhood in Cah-
fornia with an aunt, goes to Fivelakes,
Arizona, after the death of her sister
Ameha. She tries to help and encourage
her brother-in-law Herbert Vetterly, who
is confined to a wheel chair. His children
gradually come to accept LaRue as a
friend and as a member of the family. She
meets Dr. Alan Rutherford, a surgeon at
the Jonas Harding Hospital, and his
fiancee Gladys Drew.
A WEEK or so later, LaRue
had the opportunity to speak
to Herb about her plans for
extending her vacation. 'Td like
to wire the bank and ask for a little
more time, Herb. That is, if you
and the children can put up with
me a little longer." She felt herself
flushing and took refuge in the
Founding Festival, adding: "Yd like
to stay for the celebration. Every-
one's talking about it."
''Of course, stay," said Herb, but
he could not hide the questioning
frown which crossed his forehead.
LaRue decided that she must be
completely honest. ''I didn't mean
to stay. Herb. I realize that Erma
and Joel resent me. Connie has
been offended ever since the day I
corrected her. . . ."
'The children are young," said
Herb, coming quickly to their de-
fense. "I shall speak to them. . . ."
"Please don't," said LaRue, stiffly.
"Oh, I know that it seems to them
that I came only for a vacation, that
I didn't want to come. But I had
to come. Herb."
Her voice failed. Silence stretched
within the pretty room with its
starched white curtains, its home-
like furniture. There was a crystal
bowl on a table. Amelia had loved
it because it had been given to her
by a good friend. Amelia had had
so many friends. Everyone had liked
her. Everybody LaRue met said
kind, loving things about Amelia.
And because they did, LaRue felt
lonely.
Herb was speaking haltingly: "I
have no right to ask you to stay,
LaRue. Yet I need you. We all
need you."
It was good to be needed. Yet
LaRue knew the limitations of that
need. After Herb had gone to his
room and closed his door, she
thought about it. When she sat
down to send a telegram to the
bank, she felt doubtful. Once her
hand paused, and she crumbled the
paper, deciding not to stay.
Then she heard Connie going
along the hall. She paused at her
father's door, called out to him:
"Daddy, Fm going out to play with
Janice and Atlast. If you need
anything, just call me."
Carol waited hopefully for an
answer. When it did not come, she
went slowly along the hall and out-
side.
LaRue felt anger rising hot in
her throat. He might have an-
swered, she thought, knowing the
depth of a small child's disappoint-
ment. She scribbled words on
paper, and went to the phone and
sent the message. Then she went
into the kitchen. There were a few
soiled dishes in the sink. She at-
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tacked them fiercely, then smiled at
her own display of spleen. She
scolded herself. Be fair to Herb.
The accident which broke his body,
broke his spirit, too. She knew that
Amelia's death had shattered the
faith he had lived by all during his
life. Amelia had been his other
self. Without her love he was lost.
Truth and knowledge had drifted
away.
T ARUE rinsed a shining glass and
set it in the cupboard. She
stared at it for a few moments see-
ing it filled with sparkling punch.
I don't know much about enter-
taining young folks, she thought
dubiously, but maybe I could try.
If Erma and Joel had a closer home
life, they would not always be away
from their home. If there was only
something. . . . Maybe a party. I
could ask Erma. But she still felt
a little frightened of Erma's scorn.
Anyway, she thought, relieved, I
could ask Bob Powers to suggest
something that would keep Joel
more at home.
Even as she planned, she felt un-
sure about how to go about things.
She decided to go for a walk. Maybe
it would help her think. She
changed her house-frock for a pink,
sleeveless cotton. She shaded her
grav-blue eves with a large hat.
She had no particular destination
in view. But when she came to
the knoll rising up to Hillhigh
House, she turned automatically and
began the climb. The walk was
steep and weed-grown. The lawn
sloped towards the new highway.
She stood in an old brick patio
gazing out upon a surprising pano-
rama. Below, the highway, under
the onslaught of the road-building
machines, stretched into the dis-
tance like an unwinding spool of
dark thread. Vehicles moved along
it like toys propelled by a childish
hand, to disappear between molded
pink cliffs. Far to the left. Blue
Lake danced and sparkled, holding
captive in its sapphire depths a
great golden ball of sun.
She pulled off her hat and let
the breeze ruffle her burnished
curls, there in the shadow of an
old willow tree. She was unaware,
until she heard a voice, that anyone
was near. Then she remembered
that Connie had said that Grandie
visited the old house daily. The
voice was ancient, mellow. It said:
"Matilda Harding!"
LaRue whirled, wondering how
anyone had ever learned her middle
name. She had never cared for it,
although it had been her grand-
mother's name. The old man was
sitting on the steps of the high
porch. His white hair was silver in
the breeze. He smiled, and she saw
that his eyes were dark, and very,
very shrewd with the lessons of
eighty- two years.
She smiled, correcting him: '1
am LaRue Harding, Sir."
'Tou're Amelia's sister." He
spoke complacently. ''My grandson.
Dr. Alan, said you were here. You're
very like your grandmother. We
were children together, Matilda and
I. She had that same red hair!"
LaRue hadn't known. Amelia
had known about her family, not
LaRue. So her grandmother had
had red hair! The knowledge
warmed her, somehow.
Grandie was staring at her crit-
ically. 'Tike the old house, LaRue?"
It was a friendly question, and
when she nodded, he grinned hap-
pily. "I like it, too. Have since I
was a kid. It was built by the
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267
Hardings, but my wife and I lived
here, after I bought it, until my
darling left me for a better place/'
His eyes were sad, but he kept his
smile. ''Amelia loved this old house.
She wanted to buy it. Fix it up.
The attic's filled with old furniture."
He broke off, shaking his head.
'Toung folks aren't interested in
old things," he said tiredly.
LaRue found, suddenly, that she
was more interested than she had
thought. She said quickly: ''Some-
day I'd like to bring Erma here and
look the house over. Connie would
love to come. Maybe, Joel. . . ."
npHE old man waved his hand to-
wards a garage that had once
been a carriage house. "There's a
car in there. Built long before Joel
was born. Hear he's interested in
cars."
LaRue's face was shining. "He'd
love to see it, Grandie." She said
the name as if she had been saying
it all her life, the way the others
did. She cried excitedly, looking
about: "This would be a lovely
spot for a cook-out. We could
bring a portable grill and chairs,
and. . . ."
"The old house would like that,"
cried Grandie, his old eyes bright
with happiness. Quite solemnly he
stated: "The house gets lonely, you
know."
There was something pathetic in
the thought. LaRue had known
loneliness. She asked: "Do houses
really get lonely, Grandie?"
"Why not?" The question was
eager. "People get lonely. Why
not houses? This house is used to
people. Crowds of people. It could
be quite an attractive place if. . . ."
He glanced at the crooked FOR
SALE sign nailed to one of the
pillars of the porch, and confessed:
"Guess I haven't tried very hard to
sell it. Guess I'm sentimental!
Wouldn't want to see the old house
fall into the hands of someone
who'd tear it down. Or abuse it."
He talked about the house as
though it were human. LaRue
knew how he loved it. He saw her
looking at him and said: "Gladys
wants a fine, ranch-type house in
Maple Park when she marries my
grandson. She wants me to build
him a fine office, too."
LaRue nodded. "She told me
about it once when she came with
Dr. Alan to call on Herb." She
wrinkled her brows doubtfully. "But
Dr. Alan told us of his plans for
adding a children's wing to the hos-
pital. He tried to encourage Herb
to draw the plans. But Herb didn't
seem interested." She remembered
how Dr. Alan had sketched what he
wanted on the back of a rumpled
envelope. "His face fairly shone
when he talked about it/' she fin-
ished.
Grandie's old face was still.
"Alan's dreamed of that wing ever
since he started medical college.
The hospital needs it. The chil-
dren's ward is too crowded. Sort of
out-of-date." He added, abruptly:
"Gladys says he'd be wasting his
life, staying on at the hospital when
he could have a fine, brand new
office, and a wealthy clientele."
"Wasting his life!" LaRue echoed
the phrase indignantly.
Grandie looked her straight in
the eye. "I've already told Gladys
I would give Alan the money for
the home and office. She was very
happy."
LaRue stared at the old man.
Just a second before he had been so
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FROM THE FIELD
HuJda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Handbook of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
■I. :H
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-U5i£ - Pii^Etb
Is^cmK V I NEC
Photograph submitted by Edna S. Walker
ALPINE STAKE (UTAH), AMERICAN FORK FIRST WARD OPENING
SOCIAL PRESENTS DRAMATIZATION "GET ABOARD THE RELIEF
SOCIETY SPECIAL," October 3, 1958
Seated, upper row, right to left: President Ethel Graff as engineer; Counselor Doris
Robinson as conductor; Counselor Catherine Hoglund as brakeman.
Edna S. Walker, President, Alpine Stake Relief Society, reports: " 'Get Aboard the
Relief Society Special,' was the theme of the opening social of the American Fork First
Ward. A large number of the sisters of the ward were in attendance and many brought
their husbands. The first feature of the evening consisted of an exhibit of handwork
and the announcement of the outcome of a food contest that was held earlier in the
day. The program began with a little skit which cleverly invited all sisters of the
ward to 'Get on the Relief Society Special.' The first to enter it were the executive
officers. The other officers and class leaders followed. As they passed the ticket office,
which was attended by the secretary, they paid their Relief Society membership dues.
"With the leaders in the background, a fashion show was presented, with Melissa
Robinson as commentator. About one hundred fifty people participated in the making
and modeling of clothing, which was the culmination of the Relief Society summer
sewing project."
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Photograph submitted b> Emma S. Longson
MONUMENT PARK WEST STAKE (UTAH) RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING
MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE
Standing, front row, left to right: Emma S. Longson, President, Monument Park
West Stake Relief Society; Hazel Swain, First Counselor; Leah Reynolds, Second Coun-
selor; Antoinette Daynes, Secretary-Treasurer.
Standing front row, second from right, with arm on organ, Phyllis Hansen, chor-
ister; at Sister Hansen's right, Bernice Engeman, organist.
Sister Longson reports: "All of the seven wards in the stake were represented by
members of the presidencies."
Photograph submitted by Gladys K. Wagner
CENTRAL AMERICAN MISSION, SAN PEDRO SULA, HONDURAS BRANCH
RELIEF SOCIETY DISPLAY OF DOLLS AT BAZAAR, November 1958
Gladys K. Wagner, President, Central American Mission Relief Society, reports:
"Dolls of various countries were designed, stuffed, and dressed. The dolls were made
artistically. Their faces radiated personality, and their costumes were typical of the
countries represented. Amparo Vasquez was president of this Relief Society of fifteen
members."
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Photograph submitted by Beth M. Sta]lman
INGLEWOOD STAKE (CALIFORNIA) RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING MOTHERS
PRESENT MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE
December 14, 1958
The director, June Eggleston, stands at the left in the back row; Lucille Peel,
organist, is seated at the piano.
Beth M. Stallman, President, Inglewood Stake Relief Society, reports: 'The group
includes members of each of our six wards, also five stake board members. The Singing
Mothers also presented the music for our Relief Society stake convention in May, and
many of them sang with the chorus from California, at the Relief Society Conference
in October 1958."
Photograph submitted by Elizabeth C. Hayward
EAST SHARON STAKE (UTAH) VISITING TEACHERS HONORED
AT CONVENTION, January 10, 1959
Front row, left to right: Lorena C. Fletcher, who has served thirty-five years as a
visiting teacher; stake social science class leader Pearl Stubbs, who has been a visiting
teacher for forty-five years; Annie Gillespie, forty years; Mina Marriotti, fifty years;
Amanda Crandall, twenty years.
Second row, left to right: Chloe Tayson, thirty years; Rachael Davis, twenty-five
years; Preal Jones, thirty years; Eva Gillespie, forty years; Ina Lewis, thirty years.
Third row, left to right: Lorena James, thirty years; Ivy Perry, thirty years; Margaret
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IVIcCracken, twenty-eight years; Winnifred Cannon, twenty-one years; Ida Ercanbrack,
thirty years.
EHzabeth C. Ilayward, President, East Sharon Stake ReHef Society, reports: "For
the purpose of giving renewed spiritual uphft and inspiration to our visiting teachers,
on January loth, 1959, our Visiting Teachers Convention was held. All visiting teachers
were recognized and honored at this time. Fifty-seven were given special honors for
ha\"ing been visiting teachers for ten years or more, and all those with records of forty
years or more of service were presented with Relief Society pins. Sister Mina Marriotti,
with fifty years of service, was given an African violet as well. For the main feature of
our program we used the presentation given at the last Annual Relief Society Confer-
ence, 'A Light Shining.' The sisters conducting and presenting it caught the spiritual
message the presentation so well portrays, and none of the beauty or emphasis of its
timely message was lost. We were well satisfied with the pleased, enthusiastic reaction
of the sisters, and feel that the visiting teaching program received rich new vigor and
importance as a result of this meeting."
Photograph submitted by Helen B. Pitcher
CALGARY STAKE (CANADA), RED DEER BRANCH RELIEF SOCIETY
DISPLAYS PRIZE-WINNING QUILTS
Left to right: Kathleen Taylor, President; Marie Service, visiting teacher; Johanna
Blades; Ellen McLean, Secretary-Treasurer; Sadie Soderberg, \'isiting teacher; Ruby
Lacey, theology class leader; Lola Malmberg; Farrold Service, work meeting leader; Ruth
Nielsen, Second Counselor; Jean Edwards; Hazel Guenther, First Counselor.
Helen B. Pitcher, President, Calgary Stake Relief Society, reports that these sisters
are seen displaying the quilts which won first and second prizes in competition at a
local fair. "These sisters are very de\oted and humble in their callings, and although
they travel a distance farther than any other members, they never miss."
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Photograph submitted by Thelma H. Sampson
SAMOAN MISSION CURIOS COLLECTED BY RELIEF SOCIETY AND SENT
TO THE BUREAU OF INFORMATION AT THE NEW ZEALAND TEMPLE
Thelma H. Sampson, President, Samoan Mission Relief Society, reports: "Enclosed
is a picture of Samoan curios which our Relief Society sisters collected and sent to the
Bureau of Information at the New Zealand Temple, so that people visiting the temple
might be able to see and enjoy some of the arts and crafts of the South Sea Islands.
Our sisters enjoyed this project and responded with enthusiasm. Now we are busy
getting ready for our year's work, as our Relief Society year here in Samoa is from
April to December."
Photograph submitted by Luana C. Healon
SOUTHERN FAR EAST MISSION, REPRESENTATIVES OF FIVE HONG
KONG BRANCHES MEET TO PLAN FOR BAZAARS
Shown is a tablecloth on which is embroidered a famous Chinese poem in ancient
style of writing.
Luana C. Heaton, President, Southern Far East Relief Society, reports: "We are
very pleased with the progress that has been made with the Relief Society program
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during the past year. At this time last year there was only one organized Relief Society,
However, due to the rapid growth in membership, it was necessary to divide the Relief
Society, and, as a result, we now have five well-functioning Relief Societies.
"During the month of December, five Relief Societies held bazaars in Hong Kong.
December is the month when most bazaars are held in the Colony. After the dividing
of the Relief Society, the members of the new branches were very eager to prepare for
their own bazaars. In preparing for the bazaars, it was suggested that the evening's
entertainment be divided into three sections: a handwork display, a food and cake
sale, and a program. Because American-type cakes cannot be purchased in Hong Kong,
the sisters thought it would be a good project to make cakes and sell them at their
bazaars. It was also decided to have a project of making tablecloths. These table-
cloths are very unusual in that they are made of twenty-five ten-inch squares. In each
square is embroidered a Chinese character about three inches in length. When the
squares are sewed together, they form a Chinese poem. The Chinese sisters are very
gifted in doing handwork, and the workmanship on the tablecloths is excellent.
"There is a Relief Society branch quite a distance from Hong Kong. In fact, the
ladv missionaries in charge travel each week to meeting by boat. The town in which
this branch is located is a refugee settlement, and because of this the people are very
poor. The Relief Socity sisters wanted very much to have a bazaar, but realized that
the members of the branch would be unable to support it. Therefore, they combined
with another branch and held a joint bazaar. Because of financial difficulties and the
long distance in traveling, only three sisters were able to represent their branch at the
bazaar. However, all the sisters helped with the preparations, and their efforts were
well rewarded, for the bazaar was very successful."
Photograph submitted by Norma Schavieis
NORWALK STAKE (CALIFORNIA) FIRST RELIEF SOCIETY PRESIDENCY
Left to right: Fern Marcroft, First Counselor; Norma Schauers, President; Irene
Hollands, Second Counselor.
Norwalk Stake was organized October 26, 1958, resulting from a division of the
East Long Beach Stake.
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Photograph sul)i)uU(.(.l In Lcali H. Lewis
CANADIAN MISSION, DISTRICT AND BRANCH RELIEF SOCIETY PRESI-
DENTS AT ANNUAL RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE, TORONTO,
ONTARIO, CANADA, October 18, 1958
Front row, left to right: Jean Shelton; Venice Hill; Emma Hillman; Mabel Taylor,
Mission Relief Society Secretary-Treasurer; Leah H, Lewis, President, Canadian Mission
Relief Society; Rebecca Bird; Ida Belfiglio; Lilly Scott.
Second row, left to right: Jean Gordon; Dorothy Gates; Mildred Smith; Doraine
Nagy; Ileen Ball; Davina Wright; Mildred Porter; Olive Butler; Dorothy Savin; Edna
Yeager; Grace Grossman.
Third row, left to right: Martha M. Marshall; Alta Ball; Ruth Jones; Irene Krist;
Elva Marie Adamson; Evelyn Connie; Bernice Clark; Delia Odendahl.
Back row, left to right: Hazel Tate; Elizabeth Courchesne; Rosalind C. Nve;
Isobel Renter; Doris Morrison; Janet Boucher; Hilda Crashaw; Kathleen Wilson; Emily
Ditty; Grace Dunlop.
Sister Lewis reports: "With 235 present, this Relief Society conference was the
largest ever held in the Canadian Mission. Some of the sisters traveled nearly 1,000
miles (round trip) to attend the conference. Highly informative and inspirational de-
partmental meetings were held. The work meeting articles, attractively displayed by the
branches, were the center of keen interest. The climax of the conference was the pre-
sentation of playlets by the Ottawa, London, and East Toronto Branches. These play-
lets all centered around the Relief Society and the home. The music of the combined
Singing Mothers chorus was inspiring. A delicious luncheon was served between ses-
sions by the West Toronto Branch."
(Pn
ecious
cJok
en
Rowena Jensen Bills
A gilded basket full of flowers —
Not the fragile kind,
Nor the delicate in scent
Lo\'ers have in mind,
But all the gay and bright profusion
Windy hillsides bring;
Buttercups and bluebells, daisies,
Laced through yellow string.
Baby hands had plucked one dozen
Blossoms — even more —
To bring to Mother all the grandeur
From a distant shore.
The Silver Leash
(Continued horn page 267)
sure that a children's wing was what
the hospital needed. Now he was
making the way easy for Dr. Alan
to lose his dream. LaRue's voice
was sharply critical. ''Dr. Alan will
be very unhappy in that brand new
office.'' There was scorn in her
gray-blue eyes.
Grandie regarded her passively.
''Well, well! So you seem to know
my grandson pretty well. Better
than his fiancee does!"
LaRue was furious with herself
for blushing. But she met the old
man's eyes and said honestly: "Fve
only met him a few times. But I
like him. He's a fine man. I know
he's a kind, considerate doctor. I've
heard him trying to convince Herb
that an operation might help him.
But Herb is afraid. Dr. Alan is let-
ting Herb make up his own mind."
She rose to the doctor's defense,
saying seriously: "I think Dr. Alan
should be allowed to make up his
own mind about where he lives,
where he builds his office, or wheth-
er he'd rather stay on at the hospital
and build that new wing."
The old man was grinning. Then
he said quizzically: "Some people
need a push in the wrong direction."
He chuckled softly. "Alan often
prescribes nasty-tasting medicine for
his patients. So nasty medicine is
good for doctors, too. Especially
when it's forced down their throats."
LaRue was confused. But the
old man was through talking. He
put on his hat and bowed low over
her hand, telling her that he and
the old house had enjoyed her visit.
He waved his cane and walked slow-
ly to his own red-brick cottage.
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T ARUE stared after him, trying to
puzzle him out, trying to under-
stand just what he had meant about
''nasty medicine." As she strolled
home she put his words down to
an old man's wandering memory.
She knew she shouldn't, but she
asked Connie questions. ''Doesn't
Grandie like Gladys Drew?"
Gonnie smiled. "Oh, he likes her
all right. But most people don't
think she's really in love with Alan.
Some people thing that she still
likes Earl. But Grandie promised
her a beautiful house, and a lot of
nice things, and. . . ."
LaRue stopped her, ashamed of
herself for wanting to share Gon-
nie's gossip. At dinner, she told
Herb and the others about her visit
to the old house. Gonnie, as usual,
bubbled over with words.
"Mommy used to visit Grandie,
too. She loved his house. If Daddy
hadn't got hurt she wanted to buy
it." The flash of pain in Herb's
face made LaRue interrupt, quickly.
"It's very nice up there on the
knoll. Gool, lovely. I've been won-
dering if we all couldn't go there.
Have a sort of cook-out. . . ?"
The look of derision in Erma's
face made her falter. But Joel
leaned across the table, interest in
his young face.
"Maybe Grandie would let me
see that old car."
LaRue smiled. "He told me he
would," she assured him quickly.
Then, with a side glance at Erma,
"He promised to show us the old
furniture. I thought it might be
fun."
Erma did not answer, though
there was a stirring of interest in
her pretty face.
Herb spoke quietly. "When I
was a kid, Hillhigh House used to
be the show place of the valley.
There were always parties. Surreys
and fine horses climbed the sloping
drive. There were roses along the
walks. Their red, pink, and yellow
petals made a sort of carpet. . . ."
He was lost in memories.
Gonnie laughed a little, and cried:
"Oh, Daddy, that was in the good
old days."
For a long moment there was
silence. Then Joel spoke loudly:
"Gould we have fried chicken, Aunt
LaRue?"
It was the first time he had ever
made a request. A faint glow
burned in LaRue's heart.
"Fried chicken, Joel," she prom-
ised, "and a lot of other good
things."
Gonnie bounced. "We'll invite
Grandie. And Dr. Alan and
Gladys," and with a glance at Erma,
she added, "Bob Powers."
Erma flushed hotly, but she didn't
speak angrily to her sister.
"Maybe Ed'd like to see that old
Lizzie," stated Joel hesitantly.
His eyes turned to his father, as
though expecting reproof for such
a suggestion, but LaRue spoke hur-
riedly. "Surely, invite Eddie! All
boys like fried chicken." She
thought, but did not add: Eddie
needs a little help. No boy's all bad.
Gonnie's eyes were shining. "I
just love Grandie," she cried. "Don't
you. Aunt LaRue?"
LaRue had liked the old man.
Even though she hadn't understood
his double-talk about nasty medi-
cine. She smiled at Gonnie, then
braced herself to face Herb. She
held her voice tight so it would not
waver.
"You're also invited," she said.
For an instant Herb's hands
THE SILVER LEASH
277
clenched on the wheels of his chair.
His face drained of color.
LaRue heard the quiet breathing
of the children as they waited polite-
ly for their father to speak. By their
faces, she knew that they expected
their father's customary rejection.
LaRue's clear eyes forced Herb's
dark ones to meet her look. She
knew how much courage it was tak-
ing for him to speak. When he
did, it was smiHngly.
'I'm very happy to accept."
LaRue heard the great sigh which
escaped in unison from the chil-
dren's lips. She knew they were
fighting to keep from showing their
surprise. But gratitude shone in
their faces. They began to make
plans about what should go into
the lunch basket. They talked in
low tones, as though they were
almost afraid to believe what they
had heard their father say. But they
could not hide the happy smiles
which raced into their faces.
T ARUE'S eyes met Herb's with
an approving smile. She knew
that he had understood what she
was trying to do and had wanted to
help her. There was an unuttered
'Thank you/' in Herb's face as he
slowly turned his chair towards his
room.
As soon as his door had closed,
the children broke into excited con-
versation.
'Til ask Bob to pick out the
freshest vegetables for our salad,"
said Erma happily.
'Til go tell Eddie what's up,"
cried Joel, and went away, whistling
brightly.
Connie spoke soberly. "I'll ask
Janice to come. And Atlast. He
loves picnics, though he can't have
any chicken bones. I'll take his
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leash so's he w^on't get into mischief
when Janice and I make a playhouse
and play with our dolls."
''What else shall we have to eat?"
asked LaRue, poising her pencil
above her notebook.
They planned the menu. When
Joel came back they set the day, and
the time. Joel said he'd get out the
folding aluminum chairs. They'd
take a table, and grill, and first thing
in the morning he and Eddie
would. . . .
LaRue didn't really listen to what
they all said. She felt warm and
happy, closer to Amelia's children
than she had felt since she arrived.
She wondered how she had ever
doubted them!
After all, she reminded herself
tremulously, they are part of their
dear mother. . . .
(To be continued)
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WHEN Papa finally fixed the
hole in the fence, it was
like writing the ending to
the happiest chapter in the story of
our lives in the old home.
He didn't fix it until after all the
high-school yearbooks had been
fondly tucked away in the attic, and
it was after the Nelson family had
moved away.
The hole in the fence was a solid
link in the friendship chain of the
neighborhood where we lived.
The slamming of the screen door
at the Nelson house next door told
us that, at that minute, one of the
Nelsons was coming through the
hole in the fence and would be at
our back door by the time we were
there to open it.
As we each passed back and forth
through the hole in the fence, we
carried with us the news of joys
and sorrows shared by the two
homes.
The news of a budding romance,
a poor report card, or a new pickle
recipe reached the house next door
as surely as did the news of wedding,
birth, illness, or death.
None could remember how many
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bread, or pans of newly picked gar-
den vegetables were exchanged
through the hole in the fence on
those summer days that stretched
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For each of the growing children
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near-age in the house next door . . .
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and Mrs. Nelson was Mama's dear-
est friend.
Each springtime when Papa pa-
tiently planted his garden, small
running feet would lay the new
plants low.
Then he would say at supper,
''Mama, tomorrow I will surely have
to fix the hole in the fence."
Mama would glance at our
alarmed faces with a silencing smile
because she knew Papa wasn't going
to fix the hole in the fence for years
to come.
As tides of time changed each of
our lives, the old hole in the fence
was almost forgotten . . . until the
day of Mama's funeral.
That's when Willard, the young-
est of the Nelson family, brought it
back to our minds with all the glow-
ing sweetness of those shining days
of sun and snow.
''I remember the day the Oakley
family moved into our neighbor-
hood," he said from the flower-lined
pulpit.
''It all began with a very small
boy and a very small hole in the
fence. In fact, the hole was smaller
than the boy, but even as a camel
might pass through the eye of a
needle, any small boy can pass
through a very small hole in a wire
fence. However, a miscalculated
wiggle and the seat of a pair of over-
alls was caught with a stray wire.
The boy's shout carried well to the
home of the new neighbor. The
neighbor came„ and with gentle
hands released the wire and pulled
the boy through the fence. . . . May
I repeat, pulJed the hoy through the
fence, not pushed him back through
the fence. That day, a young boy
as an ambassador from his own
family, wormed his way into the
lives, home, and thoughts of the
family next door."
In that sad and solemn hour, we
all looked back gratefully to a small
hole in the fence that grew with
growing children until at last, no
fence and no distance were great
enough to loosen the bond that was
securely welded before the children
went away and Papa finally fixed the
hole in the fence.
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The apple is but a pearly promise now
Inscribed in petals over twig and bough—
A word, revived by springtime's alchemy,
It scents the soft wind filtered through the tree.
Each blossom drawn above the wakening earth
Foretells the wonder of an apple's birth.
Spring fashions change and change again, save these
Worn each new season by the orchard trees—
This white replacing now the scentless snow;
This nest growing loud where the leaf-buds blow.
A promise is unfolding over leaf and wing
As syllables of summer climb the stems of spring.
The Cover: Brandywine Park, Wilmington, Delaware
Photograph by Fred H. Ragsdale, Free Lance Photographers Guild
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We are delighted with the cover pic-
ture for the February Magazine, the inside
pictures, the article by Brother Nibley,
and the recipes which were used. We are
grateful for the privilege of having our
mission featured, and we hope others will
enjoy this issue as we are enjoying it.
The Relief Society Magazine means so
much to us here in the mission. Our
sisters have an added feeling of sisterhood
with each contact we have.
— Lovell W. Smith
President
Central Atlantic States
Mission Relief Society
Roanoke, Virginia
I wish to express my gratitude for The
Relief Society Magazine which was sent
to me six years ago by Mrs. Leslie Burt,
my daughter's mother-in-law, as a Christ-
mas gift. I really think it is a wonderful
Magazine, and I enjoy reading it very
much. I like all the articles that are in it.
I wish to congratulate all for the time
and effort it must take to prepare such a
good, instructive, and spiritual Magazine.
I admire the cover for the November issue,
"Plaque in the Rehef Society Building,"
with the picture of three nice looking
ladies.
— Emona Jones Tamburini
Buenos Aires, Argentina
It's peculiar, but the Magazine has
always been ours in my mind. I can hardly
wait for the moment to come when I can
sit down and read it from cover to cover,
enjoy the thoughts of other women who
have the same way of life as mine. I
especially enjoyed the story ''Not of This
Fold," by Frances C. Yost in the March
issue. Since I saw her first story in the
Magazine, I always scan the pages quickly
to see whether or not she has a story in
the current issue. She tells of such hu-
man situations, it seems as if you might
be reading about yourself or someone in
your town.
— Jere Scott
Thatcher, Arizona
So many lovely comments on our Maga-
zine I have received from poet friends to
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whom I sent the January issue! Poets
from New York City, Grand Rapids,
Michigan, Los Angeles, and from the states
of Minnesota, Mississippi, Iowa, etc. —
one a poet laureate — have given high
praise for the quality of the poems and
stories, and for the scope of living and
education covered by our lessons. One
commented very favorably on the lesson
on Jonathan Edwards and said she didn't
expect to find such material in a church
publication. I am happy to report these
reactions, for I am proud of our Magazine
and thankful to be represented in it.
— Mabel Law Atkinson
Salt Lake City, Utah
Reading The Relief Society Magazine
is like finding an oasis in a desert after
reading many other magazines. I think
that all the prize stories and poems were
especially fine this year. Mrs. Hill's "The
Telling" is unique in technique. Its ap-
parent simplicity — which is not simple
at all — combined with its spiritual es-
sence, makes it outstandingly beautiful.
I don't know what I would do without the
Magazine. I have written for it ever
since "Aunt Susie Young Gates" was called
to be the editor. May it continue on in
its great mission.
— Grace Ingles Frost
Provo, Utah
I am grateful for the lesson on disci-
pline "The Restraining Hand," by Elder
John Farr Larson, in the November 1958
issue of the Magazine. It helped my hus-
band and me better to understand the
problems of our child and gave us new
courage towards our goal of making a
real home for our little family.
— Bessie L. Abbott
Kearns, Utah
I have taken The ReUei Society Maga-
zine almost ever since 1921. I have surely
enjoyed reading it and hope I can continue
taking it until my days are finished on
earth. I do enjoy the stories and the
lessons.
— Bertha G. Brown
Grants Pass, Oregon
THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford President
Marianne C. Sharp _--.-- First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen --------- Second Counselor
Hulda Parker ------ Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Aleine M. Young Edith P. Backman Mary V. Cameron
Edith S. Elliott Josie B. Bay Winniefred S. Afton W. Hunt
Florence J. Madsen Christine H. Robinson Manwaring Wealtha S. Mendenhall
Leone G. Layton Alberta H. Christensen Elna P. Haymond Pearle M. Olsen
Blanche B. Stoddard Mildred B. Eyring Annie M. Ellsworth Elsa T. Peterson
Evon W. Peterson Charlotte A. Larsen Mary R. Young Irene B. Woodford
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor ---__------- Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor -__-__---_ Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager ---------- Belle S. Spafford
VOL. 46 MAY 1959 NO. 5
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SPECIAL FEATURES
Abraham Lincoln — A Study in Adversity A. Hamer Reiser 284
The Eastern States Mission Preston R. Nibley 290
Contest Announcements — 1959 292
Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest 292
Relief Society Short Story Contest 293
Would You Write Poetry? Sylvia Probst Young 294
What's in a Story? Norma A. Wrathall 299
The Right Circles 310
FICTION
Louisa Helen M. Livingston 303
Gem of the Hills Lydia M. Sorensen 314
The Silver Leash — Chapter 5 Beatrice R. Parsons 320
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 282
Sixty Years Ago 306
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 30'7
Editorial: Books — Recorders for the Ages Vesta P. Crawford 308
Magazine Honor Roll for 1958 Marianne C. Sharp 325
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 335
Birthday Congratulations 343
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Recipes From the Eastern States Mission Florence S. Jacobsen 311
Weeds Celia Luce 316
You Can Sew — XV — Children's Clothing Jean R. Jennings 317
Maggie Richards Wood Specializes in Making Lace Tablecloths 319
POETRY
Promise — Frontispiece Dorothy J. Roberts 281
To My Daughter Camilla Woodbury Judd 298
Dream, Come True Ida Elaine James 309
My Mother Elsie McKinnon Strachan 309
Grandmother's Pinks Maude Rubin 316
Old Fishermen Ethel Jacobson 319
When Deserts Bloom in Arizona Ruth H. Chadwick 334
The Temple Winona F. Thomas 338
Spring's Golden Web Grace Ingles Frost 340
Sun in Bloom Eva Willes Wangsgaard 340
Temple Marriage Ann Barber Fletcher 343
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Copyright 1959 by General Board of Relief Society of The Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
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Abraham Lincoln
A STUDY IN ADVERSITY
A. Hamer Reiser
Assistant Secretary to the First Presidency
44
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IRCUMSTANCES have
made me, I have not
made them," This is at-
tributed to Abraham Lincohi as an
explanation of himself.
As a creature of adverse circum-
stances, Abraham Lincoln and his
life offer a rewarding study. It is
instructive to make a tally of the
successes and failures of his life, to
total them, and then to strike a bal-
ance and ponder the outcome.
Another way to see him is as one
wrestling with the dramatic forces
of conflict inherent in his times and
circumstances, to observe the pre-
ponderance of hindrances and the
tardy achievement of success.
If he had been notable for moral
cowardice, self-pity, or neurosis, he
would have succumbed early,
drowned in the deluge of adversity
which constantly washed over him.
He stood, however, like a sea-
battered rock, lashed by storms of
hurricane force, and survived the
elements of defeat.
He reduced himself to his lowest
terms and has survived to the great-
ness of one who would ''lose his life"
and save it.
He wrote: ''I was born February
12, 1809, in Hardin County, Ken-
tucky. My parents were both born
in Virginia, of undistinguished fami-
lies — second families, perhaps I
should say. My mother, who died
in my tenth year, was of a family of
the name of Hanks, some of whom
now reside in Adams and others in
Macon County, Illinois. My pa-
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ternal grandfather, Abraham Lin-
coln, emigrated from Rockingham
County, Virginia, to Kentucky about
1781 or 1782, where a year or two
later he was killed by the Indians,
not in battle, but by stealth, when
he was laboring to open a farm in
the forest. His ancestors, who were
Quakers, went to Virginia from
Berks County, Pennsylvania. An
effort to identify them with the New
England family of the same name
ended in nothing more definite than
a similarity of Christian names in
both families, such as Enoch, Levi,
Mordecai, Solomon, Abraham, and
the like.
"My father, at the death of his
father, was but six years of age, and
he grew up literally without educa-
tion. He removed from Kentucky
to what is now Spencer County, In-
diana, in my eighth year. We
reached our new home about the
same time the State came into the
Union. It was a wild region, with
many bears and other wild animals
still in the woods. There I grew up.
There were some schools, so called,
but no qualification was ever re-
quired of a teacher beyond readin',
writin', and cipherin', to the rule
of three. If a straggler supposed to
understand Latin happened to so-
journ in the neighborhood, he was
looked upon as a wizard. There was
absolutely nothing to excite ambi-
tion for education. Of course, when
I came of age I did not know much.
Still, somehow, I could read, write,
and cipher to the rule of three, but
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285
that was all. I have not been to
school since. The little advance I
now have upon this store of educa-
tion, I have picked up from time to
time under the pressure of neces-
sity.
"I was raised to farm work, which
I continued till I was twenty-two.
At twenty-one I came to Illinois,
Macon County. Then I got to New
Salem, at that time in Sangamon,
now in Menard County, where I re-
mained a year as a sort of clerk in a
store. Then came the Black Hawk
war, and I was elected a captain of
volunteers, a success which gave me
more pleasure than any I have had
since. I went the campaign, was
elated, ran for the legislature the
same year (1832) and was beaten—
the only time I ever have been beat-
en by the people. The next and three
succeeding biennial elections I was
elected to the legislature. I was not
a candidate afterward. During the
legislative period I had studied law,
and removed to Springfield to prac-
tise it. In 1864 I was once elected
to the lower House of Congress.
Was not a candidate for reelection.
From 1849 to 1854, ^^^^^ inclusive,
practised law more assiduously than
ever before. Always a Whig in poli-
tics; and generally on the Whig
electoral tickets, making active can-
vasses. I was losing interest in poli-
tics when the repeal of the Missouri
compromise aroused me again. What
I have done since then is pretty well
known.
'If any personal description of
me is thought desirable, it may be
said I am, in height, six feet four
inches, nearly; lean in flesh, weigh-
ing on an average one hundred and
eighty pounds; dark complexion,
with coarse black hair and gray eyes.
No other marks or brands recollect-
ed."
T^HE foregoing was written by
Abraham Lincoln himself in
1859 to a friend, Jesse W. Fell, of
Bloomington, Illinois, who wanted
the information to promote his
champion among his friends in the
East. They had become curious
about the homespun debater who
had aroused the people during the
epoch-making Lincoln-Douglas de-
bates. Fell had told his friends:
''We have two giants in Illinois;
Douglas is the little Giant, and Abe
Lincoln is the big one. . . ."
The debates with Stephen A.
Douglas mark a convenient meridian
before and after which Lincoln's life
can be divided. Before the debates,
observe how the tally of adversity
versus good fortune appears.
His ancestry and parentage he de-
scribed as "undistinguished."
At eight he was taken by his for-
tune-hunting, land-hungry, farmer
father, into the Indiana wilderness,
where he grew up, with a minimum
benefit of school and without the
normal amenities of children. At
ten he was orphaned of a mother,
and for a time was mothered by an
older sister, Sarah.
In his book Abraham Lincoln,
James Daugherty describes the lone-
ly cabin where the sweet spirit of
Nancy's love seemed to linger in
the midst of a sorrow that was slow
to heal. Yet, the children, without
the tender ministrations of their
mother went unkempt and undi-
rected, except for the efforts of
Sarah Lincoln, only fourteen years
old.
Tom Lincoln, sometime after
Nancy's death, left the children in
the Indiana woods and returned to
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Kentucky where he found a friend
of his youth, Sarah Bush (Johnston)
then a widow. She became the chil-
dren's stepmother. Abraham Lin-
cohi throughout his hfe, in simple,
thoughtful ways and visits expressed
his gratitude to this compassionate
woman for the care she gave the
forlorn children.
By 1830 the growing family was
beginning to scatter. Sarah married
and died in childbirth. Other
Lincolns and Hanks had found fair-
er fields in Illinois and Tom, ever
the wanderer, sought greener fields.
At twenty-one, Abraham was
emancipated and on his own. He
hired out to run a flatboat down the
Mississippi to New Orleans for
Denton Offut and later returned to
be Offut's storekeeper at New Sa-
lem. It was on the flatboat voyages
that Abe suffered the shock of ob-
serving the slave market where men,
women, and children were bought
and sold.
During the New Salem days,
Abraham Lincoln's popularity grew.
His friendly good humor and his
seemingly natural gift as a storyteller
and spinner of tall tales won him a
reputation which advertised him and
brought him easy and attentive aud-
iences wherever he went. This
should be counted on the ''asset"
or ''advantage" side of the tally
sheet in this battle of adversity
versus advantage.
Good storytellers have a natural
affinity for politics; or politics has
magnetic power to attract tellers of
tall tales. Abraham Lincoln's nat-
ural affection for people and his sin-
cere interest in the well-being of his
fellow men made him a natural
champion of the rights and benefits
of man in the arenas of law and
politics.
npHE story of his subduing the
bully. Jack Armstrong, affords
another glimpse of the force which
won him respect among the hardy
frontiersmen of the western wilder-
ness.
Self-taught Abraham, now an
adult, acknowledged guidance and
encouragement in learning from
Mentor Graham, the frontier school-
master; John Allen, the country
doctor; Old John Berry, the revival-
ist preacher; Judge Bowling Green,
and of Jack Kelso, Robert Burns,
and William Shakespeare in about
equal proportions. From such as
these, Abe gleaned the rudiments of
a love of learning.
Abe was defeated in the first elec-
tion at which he sought an office in
1832. Offufs store failed and Abe
tried storekeeping in partnership
with young Berry, the minister's son.
They borrowed money to buy out
Bill Greene, but the business was
scant and the mounting debts in-
exorable. Adversity drove his part-
ner to drink and early death, and left
Lincoln in debt and out of business.
For fifteen years he struggled to pay
off the debts of his lone venture in
business.
He was appointed postmaster of
New Salem and later deputy county
surveyor.
In 1834 he was elected to the
State Assembly of Illinois. Here he
had his first contact with the boister-
ous buffetings of frontier politics
and democracy on the loose.
The following year, legend says,
Abraham Lincoln and fair-haired
Ann Rutledge, daughter of James,
the mill owner, the tavern keeper,
became engaged, but sudden, fatal
illness took her away and thrust
Abraham into the gloomy depths of
despair.
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287
It was in this era of his career
that he began the practice of law as
junior partner to Judge Stewart and
in 1841 to Judge Stephen T. Logan.
The next year, November 4, he
married the ambitious, much sought-
after Mary Todd, who had vowed
that she would choose for her hus-
band ''the one that has the best
chance of being President/' In i860,
eighteen years later, her estimate
was fulfilled, when he was nomi-
nated to run for the office of Presi-
dent of the United States. Amidst
the rejoicing of his friends, he said:
'There is a little woman at our
house who is more interested in this
dispatch than I am." In Novem-
ber, after the election returns were
in, he announced to her, "Mary,
we're elected." Joy to her; gloom
and sorrow for him.
He could discern the darkness of
civil strife by that time, and the
gathering storm clouds on the
horizon.
For one term — 1847-1849 —
Lincoln was a Representative from
Illinois in the House of Representa-
tives. Mary and the family had a
brief taste of what life was in the
Nation's capital. Here he was
thrown into the midst of the po-
litical conflicts seething around the
issues of slavery.
His outspoken opinions on the
subject brought his defeat and froze
his immediate political future in
Illinois.
He returned to the practice of
law in Illinois. For nine years fol-
lowing 1849 he devoted himself to
his profession and built his fame as
a lawyer, riding circuit.
The Missouri Compromise of
1850 he thought would "lay the
ghost" of the slavery issue until by
moderate, gradual means of educa-
tion and freeing the slaves by Gov-
ernment purchase the issue could
be permanently buried.
npHIS idea of "gradual emancipa-
tion" of slaves by Government
purchase had evidently become a
deep-seated conviction with him.
Repeatedly he tried to win his sup-
porters to the idea. In February 1865,
he made one last great attempt to
use the principle to avert the further
disaster he could see for the country.
To his cabinet he proposed that
"Congress be asked to appropriate
$400,000,000 to compensate the
owners of slaves in such of the
Southern states as should have
ceased resistance by April 1," but
the proposal was unanimously dis-
approved by the Cabinet. He was
defeated again. Among his papers
was found a note dated February 5,
1865: "Today these papers which
explain themselves, were drawn up
and submitted to the Cabinet and
unanimously disapproved by them.
A. Lincoln."
Twenty-one years earlier. May
1844, in Illinois, less than two years
after Abe had married Mary, and
while he was practicing law in
Springfield, another young man in
Illinois, just four years Abe's senior,
was nominated by his friends for
the Presidency of the United States.
He had announced as one of the
principles of his political faith "to
rid so free a country of every vestige
of slavery . . . and give liberty to the
captive by paying the Southern
gentlemen a reasonable equivalent
for their property, that the whole
nation might be free. . . ." In his ad-
dress to the American people on
that occasion, among other things,
he said, "Pray Congress to pay every
man a reasonable price for his slaves
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out of the surplus revenue arising
from the sale of public lands, and
from the deduction of pay from the
members of Congress" (''History of
Joseph Smith/' D. H. C. VI, pp.
197-209).
The great debates with Stephen
A. Douglas brought Lincoln before
his countrymen where he expressed
in simple, clear, and forceful lan-
guage the convictions of millions
that the extension of slavery would
cause the collapse of Government
of, by, and for the people. It was
the essence of the betrayal of that
principle of government, he thought.
The Supreme Court decision of
1857 in the Dred Scott case, and
the repeal of the Missouri Com-
promise by the passage of the Kan-
sas-Nebraska Act projected him
again into the political strife, which
achieved its clearest expression in
the debates with Douglas. If these
debates are to be appraised as fur-
therances or hindrances to his ca-
reer, it is well to consider that the
outcome of the presidential election,
though nominally a victory for him,
showed that he had received
1,866,452 of the popular vote: Doug-
las, 1,375,157; Breckenridge, 847,953;
and Bell, 590,631. Though he re-
ceived a plurality, he was nearly a
million votes short of a majority.
He profited this time by the split
in the Democratic party.
His political career to this point
had been notable for defeats and
now at its peak, he barely squeezed
through.
Ahead rose the specter of bloody
civil war with embarrassment, re-
bellion, calamity, and military re-
verses. These are the connotations
of Fort Sumter, of the Battle of
Bull Run of July 1861; the vacilla-
tions of General McClellan; the
usurpation and premature actions of
General Fremont in the West; the
Trent incident, and the resulting
embarrassment of making amends
by the return of the Confederate
envoys Mason and Slidell on the
demand of Great Britain.
UE had painfully and impotently
awaited inauguration in 1861,
while the Union was disintegrating
under the bungling and inaction of
President Buchanan, who turned
over to him a Government and
country in the shambles of rebellion.
For four bitter, dark years the
menace of the disruption of the
Union haunted him and the Ameri-
can people. He was to taste the
bitterness of defeat in the outcomes
of the battle of Manassas, near Bull
Run; of the campaigns of Stone-
wall Jackson in the Shenandoah Val-
ley; Lee in the defense of Rich-
mond; the empty victory of Antie-
tam; the slaughter at Fredericksburg;
the shock of Lee's victory at Chan-
cellorsville; the desperate and costly
triumph at Gettysburg, and the
escape of Lee, to fight again.
When the tide began to turn with
the success of the Union Armies
under Grant at Vicksburg, and later
with the congregation of victorious
Union generals at Lookout Moun-
tain and Missionary Ridge, the stage
was setting for the fall of Richmond.
Yet there were tense days of awful
suspense while Sherman's army as-
saulted Kennesaw Mountain, then
marched through Georgia, disap-
peared for thirty-two newsless days,
and at last reached the sea.
Final victory at a staggering cost
came with the fall of Richmond and
Lee's surrender at Appomattox,
April 9, 1865.
Victory in sight, political conflict,
bitter criticism, and opposition
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289
swelled to a loud crescendo. The
Nation, exhausted, spent, and desti-
tute, in mourning, and crushed by
the ravages of civil war, in the South,
harbored the bitterness of defeat,
and in the North and everywhere,
empty victory and staggering losses,
which rebellion and successful re-
sistance had brought. The bleeding,
sorely wounded Nation gasped its
way painfully and slowly back to
life.
Abraham Lincoln had been re-
nominated and re-elected, this time
by a popular vote of 2,330,552, to
McClellan's 1,835,985.
The war was over. Armed resist-
ance had ceased. The destruction
of war was everywhere, in the lives
of the people, in the cities, and in
the war-torn countryside. Grief had
visited millions of homes. The bit-
terness of defeat and the widespread
suffering had taken heavy toll. Sor-
row and sacrifice had drained the
spiritual reserves of the people.
When President Lincoln was in-
augurated the second time he
expressed the spirit and purpose now
well known throughout the world,
in the classical statement of good
will:
With malice toward none; with charity
for all; with firmness in the right, as God
gives us to see the right, let us strive on
to finish the work we are in; to bind up
the nation's wounds; to care for him who
shall have borne the battle, and for his
widow and his orphan — to do all which
may achieve and cherish a just and lasting
peace among ourselves and with all
nations.
In a moment of relaxation when
he was about to take up the tasks
of rebuilding the shattered and
broken parts of the sundered Nation,
an assassin took his life.
Adversity again snatched away his
opportunity, but spared him the
knowledge in mortality of the tragic
madness which followed his Mary
to her grave.
Though stalked by hardship, fail-
ure, defeat, and tragedy through the
greater part of his life, with precious-
ly meager respite in a few successes,
Abraham Lincoln, the American
Job, is remembered and revered
throughout the world for vast pa-
tience, good will, and affection for
mankind, and for monumental firm-
ness in the right as God gave him
to see the right. These everlasting
qualities have survived the hatred
of men, the havoc of war, and death.
THE compassionate service which Relief Society women uni-
versally render so generously and stoically must bring them
constantly into situations where adversity of many kinds is suf-
fered by the people they serve. I expect that they observe that
adversity has a mellowing effect upon some people and an
embittering effect upon others. The reaction of people to
adversity, I have long thought, is a manifestation of spiritual
maturity.
Abraham Lincoln is one of America's most eminent examples
of the spiritual power required to overcome adversity. Joseph
Smith is America's pre-eminent example,
I offer this as an explanation of the reason for writing about
Abraham Lincoln in the somber, tragic vein of this essay. I
think his life is a classic of inspiration for all of us who must
at some time face adversity in some degree.
—A. HAMER REISER
cJhe ibastern States ll it
ission
Pieston R. Nihley
Assistant Church Historian
'T^HE Eastern States Mission may be said to be the oldest mission in the
Church. Shortly after the Church was organized, in April 1830, mis-
sionaries were sent out and branches were established in New York, Penn-
sylvania, and in the New England States. In January 1832 Orson Hyde,
Samuel H. Smith, Orson Pratt, and Lyman E. Johnson were called to
preach the gospel ''in the eastern countries."
When the Twelve Apostles were called in 1835, they filled their first
mission in the Eastern States. In 1837 a branch of the Church was estab-
lished in New York City by Parley P. Pratt. In May 1839 John P. Greene
was appointed by the Prophet Joseph Smith ''to go to the city of New
York and preside over the Saints in that place and in the regions round
about."
From that time on active missionary work in the Eastern States was
continued, until the coming of Johnston's Army to Utah in 1857, when
all the Utah missionaries in the United States were called by President
Brigham Young to return home. Then, following the Johnston's Army
episode, came the great Civil War, which prolonged the crisis. In fact
it was not until 1893 that a new mission president was appointed for the
Eastern States, Elder Job Pingree of Ogden, who established headquarters
in Brooklyn.
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NEW YORK CITY
Since the return of President Pingree in 1895 the following brethren
have served as presidents of this mission: Samuel W. Richards, 1895-97;
Alonzo P. Kesler, 1897-99; William H. Smart, 1899-1900; Edward H. Snow,
1900-01; John G. McQuarrie, 1901-08; Ben E. Rich, 1908-13; Walter P.
Monson, 1913-19; George W. McCune, 1919-22; Brigham H. Roberts,
1922-27; Henry H. Rolapp, 1927-28; James H. Moyle, 1928-33; Don B.
Colton, 1933-37; Frank Evans, 1937-40; Gustavo A. Iverson, 1940-44; Roy
W. Doxey, 1944-48; George Q. Morris, 1948-52; Delbert G. Taylor, 1952-55;
Theodore C. Jacobsen, 1955-59; Gerald G. Smith, 1959—.
In 1937 the great Cumorah Pageant was inaugurated, and since that
time it has become an important annual event in the Eastern States Mis-
sion.
In January 1959, there were 8,726 members of the Church in the
Eastern States mission, located in fifty-five branches. There were 547 con-
verts baptized during the year 1958.
Sixty-four Relief Society organizations, with 1287 members, were re-
ported in December 1958. Florence S. Jacobsen is former president of
the Eastern States Mission Relief Society, and Olive Lunt Smith is the
present president.
Note: The cover for this Magazine, ''Brandywine Park, Wilmington, Delaware,"
is reproduced from a color transparency by Fred H. Ragsdale, Free Lance Photographers
Guild, Inc. See also "Recipes From the Eastern States Mission," by Sister Jacobsen,
page 311.
Contest Announcements — 1959
CONTESTS CLOSE AUGUST 15, 1959
THE Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest and the Relief Society Short Story
Contest are conducted annually by the General Board of Relief So-
ciety to stimulate creative writing among Latter-day Saint women
and to encourage high standards of work. Latter-day Saint women who
qualify under the rules of the respective contests are invited to enter their
work in either or both contests.
The General Board would be pleased to receive entries from the out-
lying stakes and missions of the Church as well as from those in and near
Utah. Since the two contests are entirely separate, requiring different writ-
ing skills, the winning of an award in one of them in no way precludes
winning in the other. It is suggested that authors who plan to enter the
contests study carefully the articles on story writing and poetry which ap-
pear in this Magazine and similar articles in the May issue 1955, 19567 1957,
1958, and in the June issue for the preceding nine years.
ibliza LK. Snow LPoein (contest
npHE Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest
opens with this announcement
and closes August 15, 1959. Prizes
will be awarded as follows:
First prize $40
Second prize $30
Third prize $20
Prize poems will be published in
the January i960 issue of The Ke-
lief Society Magazine (the birth-
month of Eliza R. Snow).
Prize-winning poems become the
property of the Relief Society Gen-
eral Board and may not be pub-
lished by others except upon writ-
ten permission from the General
Board. The General Board reserves
the right to publish any of the other
poems submitted, paying for them
at the time of publication at the
regular Magazine rates.
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Rules for the contest:
1. This contest is open to all Latter-day
Saint women, exclusive of members of the
Relief Society General Board and em-
ployees of the Relief Society General
Board.
2. Only one poem may be submitted by
each contestant.
3. The poem must not exceed fifty
lines and should be typewritten, if pos-
sible; where this cannot be done, it
should be legibly written. Only one side
of the paper is to be used. (A duplicate
copy of the poem should be retained by
contestants to insure against loss.)
4. The sheet on which the poem is
written is to be without signature or other
identifying marks.
5. No explanatory material or picture
is to accompany the poems.
6. Each poem is to be accompanied by
a stamped envelope on which is written
the contestant's name and address. Nom
de plumes are not to be used.
7. A signed statement is to accompany
the poem submitted, certifying:
a. That the author is a member of The
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Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints.
b. That the poem (state title) is the
contestant's original work.
c. That it has never been published.
d. That it is not in the hands of an
editor or other person with a view
to pubhcation.
e. That it will not be published nor
submitted elsewhere for publication
until the contest is decided.
8. A writer who has received the first
prize for two consecutive years must wait
two years before she is again eligible to
enter the contest.
9. The judges shall consist of one mem-
ber of the General Board, one person from
the English department of an educational
institution, and one person who is a
recognized writer. In case of complete dis-
agreement among judges, all poems select-
ed for a place by the various judges will be
submitted to a specially selected commit-
tee for final decision.
In evaluating the poems, consideration
will be given to the following points:
a. Message or theme
b. Form and pattern
c. Rhythm and meter
d. Accomplishment of the pur-
pose of the poem
e. Climax
10. Entries must be postmarked not
later than August 15, 1959.
11. All entries are to be addressed to
Relief Society Eliza R. Snow Poem Con-
test, 76 North Main, Salt Lake City 11,
Utah.
iKeiief Societii Short Stofy (contest
npHE Relief Society Short Story
Contest for 1959 opens with
this announcement and closes Aug-
ust 15, 1959.
The prizes this year will be as
follows:
First pdze $75
Second prize $60
Third prize $50
The three prize-winning stories
will be published consecutively in
the first three issues of The Relief
Society Magazine for i960. Prize-
winning stories become the property
of the Relief Society General Board
and may not be published by others
except upon written permission
from the General Board. The Gen-
eral Board reserves the right to pub-
lish any of the other stories entered
in the contest, paying for them at
the time of publication at the regu-
lar Magazine rates.
Rules for the contest:
1. This contest is open to Latter-day
Saint women — exclusive of members of
the Relief Society General Board and em-
ployees of the General Board — who have
had at least one literary composition pub-
lished or accepted for publication.
2. Only one story may be submitted by
each contestant.
3. The story must not exceed 3,000
words in length and must be typewritten.
The number of the words must appear
on the first page of the manuscript. (All
words should be counted, including one
and two-letter words.) A duplicate copy
of the story should be retained by con-
testants to insure against loss.
4. The contestant's name is not to ap-
pear anywhere on the manuscript, but a
stamped envelope on which is written
the contestant's name and address is to be
enclosed with the story. Nom de plumes
are not to be used.
5. A signed statement is to accompany
the stoiy submitted certifying:
a. That the author is a member of The
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints.
b. That the author has had at least one
literary composition published or ac-
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cepted for publication. (This state-
ment must give name and date of
publication in which the contest-
ant's work has appeared, or, if not
yet published, evidence of accept-
ance for publication.)
c. That the story submitted (state the
title and number of words) is the
contestant's original work.
d. That it has never been published,
that it is not in the hands of an
editor or other person with a view
to publication, and that it will not
be published nor submitted else-
where for publication until the con-
test is closed.
6. No explanatory material or picture is
to accompany the story.
7. A writer who has received the first
prize for two consecutive years must wait
for two years before she is again eligible
to enter the contest.
8. The judges shall consist of one mem-
ber of the General Board, one person from
the English department of an educational
institution, and one person who is a rec-
ognized writer. In case of complete dis-
agreement among the judges, all stories se-
lected for a place by the various judges
will be submitted to a specially selected
committee for final decision.
In evaluating the stories, consideration
will be given to the following points:
a. Characters and their presentation
b. Plot development
c. Message of the story
d. Writing style
9. Entries must be postmarked not later
than August 15, 1959.
10. All entries are to be addressed to
Relief Society Short Story Contest,
76 North Main, Salt Lake City 11, Utah.
Would You Write Poetry?
Sylvia Piohst Young
WATCHING a setting sun
streak the summer sky with
crimson and gold, a friend
exclaimed, ''If I could put such
beauty in a poem!"
''Have you ever tried?" I asked
her.
"Once," she told me, "but it
didn't sound right."
A good poem is never written
with one trial. If you would write
poetry you must know what to strive
for, and then practice and practice
with the technique you have gained.
To be a writer of poetry, I be-
lieve that one must first of all be a
reader of it. Read the poetry of the
ancient writers, the poets of the
Bible, early English literature, Shake-
speare's poetry and other Elizabeth-
an masterpieces, poetry of the
romantic period, the great flowering
of Victorian literature, American lit-
erature, from colonial times to cur-
rent poetry. Analyze the types of
poems appearing in great variety in
modern magazines — literary publi-
cations, women's periodicals, and
Church magazines. Try to find the
elements which make poetry appeal-
ing and significant — find the se-
crets of the art of poetry writing.
Poetry, you will find, makes many
kinds of appeals, through the pic-
tures it creates; through the feelings
it stimulates; through its rhythm and
sound. It is a kind of window that
has power to illuminate the com-
monplace. It is a lifting, inspira-
tional thing, and through reading
it, many of our own thoughts are
born.
The inspiration or idea for a poem
comes first; it precedes everything
WOULD YOU WRITE POETRY?
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else; and every day brings inspira-
tion for poetry writing. It is all
around us, in the most ordinary
things — a baby's shoe, a favorite
chair, a child's upturned face. It is
in remembered experiences, and
those of which we have read. The
thoughts for a poem may come
through emotions we have experi-
enced, and, most surely, from the
fabric of imagination.
''Sometimes I have such beautiful
thoughts for poems," a neighbor
once confided. ''But when I get
time to write them down, Fve for-
gotten what I wanted to say."
Get your idea down on paper,
don't let it slip away, if you have to
turn off the iron or even get out of
bed at three a. m. Write it as it
comes to you, don't worry about the
meter or rhyme, you will come back
to that.
I like to keep paper and pencil
always with me because I never
know just when the idea for a poem
might be born.
After the inspiration, a poet must
transform the raw material for a
poem into a poem itself.
■piRST, let us ask, "Does the poem
I am writing have substance?"
A poem should tell something. It
should give a new light on some-
thing people already know. It must
be more than a description. It
should reflect life. Could anyone
possibly say after having read it,
"Well, what of it?"
"Does this poem have beauty?" is
the next thing we might ask. It
should be beautiful in its selfless
sincerity, a clear, crystal showing of
what has been experienced. It
should satisfy and content the heart
by the precision of its wording.
Emily Dickinson's choice of words
is one of her greatest charms. And
she often chooses words that have
become worn to a shadow in minor
verses, but she reveals them in new
strength, and allows them to per-
form duties which the poets have
not assigned to them for years. I
would recommend her works for
your reading.
Many times in The Reliei Society
Magazine I have found poetry that
gave me heart contentment by the
beauty of its wording.
Mabel Law Atkinson's "Decem-
ber Violets," The ReUei Society
Magazine^ December 1958, is such
a poem:
Love does not wait till blue wings flash
To bid the heart to sing;
Till fluting larks and swelling buds
Announce the proof of spring,
Love knows no season boundaries.
Gives lilacs in November
And gathers April violets
In crystal-cold December.
A good poem never generalizes.
Mrs. Atkinson does not say "Gives
flowers in November," she says
"Gives h'lacs." She does not say
"fluting birds," but "fluting larks."
Be specific. When you say tiee
you mean silver birch or oak. It
makes a significant difference wheth-
er you see in your mind's eye a
wisteria or an ivy when you say
vine.
Strength in a poem is often dimin-
ished because the author is too fond
of adjectives. How overworked and
trite are many of the adjectives we
use day by day— stately Uly^ endless
eons, winning ways, azure sky, beau-
tiful day. These are but a few of
the timeworn expressions that will
brand your poem as the work of
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an amateur. Try something new!
Much better than roaring stream is
furious stieam. Better than pale
moon is chalk-white moon. Red
wmgs of dawn is better than cnm-
son dawn.
Whenever possible substitute an
adjective with a verb. Verbs give
a poem strength, they put subject
material into action. Choosing the
right verb is very important, too.
Freshness of conception makes itself
known by our choice of verbs. Look
at these two lines from the song,
''Swing Low, Sweet Chariot":
A band of angels comin' for me,
Comin' for to carry me home —
Leave out the verb carry and use
take instead. At once you will see
that take does not have a tenth the
power that carry has.
Robert Louis Stevenson's ''Windy
Nights" is a very good example of
the power of verbs in a poem.
Nouns are necessary in a poem,
adjectives — sometimes. ''But by
their verbs shall ye know them."
Outdated words should never be
used in a poem; they will brand it
as the work of an amateur. Guard
against such words as 'tis, 'twas,
'hide, o'ei, yon, neath. Your poem
will gain in effectiveness if you let
it speak the natural language that
you and your readers understand.
I
MAGERY is another means of
making poetry poignant and ap-
pealing. Note the use of imagery
in these lines from Vesta P.
Crawford's prize - winning poem
"Drought" (The Reliei Society Mag-
azine, January 1935.)
And hollow like the dry and wrinkled fruit,
I grew to be as withered as the field.
Beholding the desert that leered untamed
After its ancient way and gave no yield.
Images are always based on mem-
ory. Ask yourself, "Of what does it
make me think?"
There are three musts in imagery:
1. Images should be true, true to
what most of us would feel under
similar circumstances.
2. Images should be vivid. To
make them vivid is to make them
appeal to the five senses. Eve senses,
not just sight alone. Give your read-
ers not only pictures to look at, but
sounds to hear, fragrance to smell,
textures to touch, and even things
to taste, and they will enjoy your
poems with compounding interest.
How appealing to the sense of
smell is this little poem by Grace
Barker Wilson (The ReUef Society
Magazine, June 1951):
FRAGRANT MEMORIES
Remembered things are poignant as today:
The scent of violet,
The young, green odor of a fresh cut lawn.
Essence of mignonette;
Elusive sweetness from the orchard trees
When apples are in flower,
The clean smell of a forest glade
After a summer shower.
3. Images should also be concrete;
no generalization is successful as
an image. By using similies and
metaphors, we can make our images
interesting, vivid, and concrete.
n^HE reader's point of view is very
important to the writer of
poetry. Ask yourself, "How will the
reader interpret this?" When you
are trying for a solemn mood in the
reader avoid words which have gay
connotations. Many times a word
which jars in a line is merely a word
in the wrong place.
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Repetition of pleasing vowel and
consonant sounds is an effective way
to attract attention to a particular
phrase, and provides a compelling,
haunting quality.
Note the repetition of sounds in
these lines:
The singing of a swallow on the summer
air.
Above the ruffles of the surf ....
Bright striped urchins flay each other
with sand.
But do not overuse repetition in
your poem or the mind of the reader
will be carried only on the surface
of the sound.
Rhythm, we are told, is funda-
mental to all the arts. In poetry the
rhythmical pattern consists of vari-
ous arrangements of stressed and
unstressed sounds. The meteiy or
measurable rhythm of a line of
poetry, is characterized by a repeated
pattern of stressed and unstressed
sounds. A stressed sound combined
with either one or two unstressed
sounds in called a foot^ and a de-
scription of a line of poetry is given
in terms of the basic metrical foot
and number of feet in the line.
The rhythmical pattern of poetry
must be studied to be understood.
You can teach yourself this tech-
nique. Any good book on the art
of poetry writing (I have recom-
mended several at the end of the
article) contains practical informa-
tion. If you are willing to study
and practice, you can learn to count
the feet of your poem and make it
rhythmically patterned.
The rhyme scheme of a poem may
fall into any one of many patterns,
from simple couplet rhyming to
complex stanzas, and a poet may try
almost any pattern that seems to
suit her subject material, and which
harmonizes with the mood and ef-
fect she wishes to convey.
While rhyme is an important and
effective embellishment of poetry,
care must be exercised in the selec-
tion of rhyme words. Do not per-
mit the rhymes to falsify the mes-
sage of the poem. Be very careful
of inversions, and do not use them
for the purpose of achieving rhyme.
When we say meadows gay, instead
of gay meadows, the reader know^s
that we were forced to make the
inversion for the sake of rhyme.
Then is the time to revise. Omit
the entire stanza if necessary and
try another rhyme pattern, but
do not use the inversion. Obvious
rhyming makes a poem common-
place and uninteresting. Such
rhymes as dove and Jove, wing and
sing, hliss and kiss, have grown stale
from overuse.
Many significant and enduring
poems have been written without
regularly recurrent rhyme, without
any rhyme, and without definite
metrical pattern or stanza form.
Poems written ''free of traditional
limitations'' are somewhat loosely
classified as free verse. The great
poet Milton (1608-1674) referred
to this type of expression as
"thoughts that involuntary move in
harmonious numbers." Some mod-
ern poets have spoken of their
''free" compositions as the "inevit-
able movement of emotion and
meaning." Many unpatterned poems
rely for their effect upon cadence,
or phrasing within the poem. The
Englishman, Matthew Arnold, wrote
some of his best poems in free verse,
and Walt Whitman, in America, is
often cited as an example of pro-
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ficiency in the wide range of free
verse. Others who might be studied
in this connection are: Amy Low-
ell, Archibald MacLeish, Conrad
Aiken, T. S. Eliot, and Carl Sand-
burg. The Biblical Psalms, the
Song of Solomon, parts of Isaiah,
the magnificent chapters thirteen
and fifteen from First Corinthians,
and many other parts of the Bible
are written in free flowing poetry
of great strength and spirituality.
However, the amateur poet, who
is interested in experimenting with
free verse, should be sure of his
background in poetry, and sure of
his purpose in a particular poem.
Writing free verse does not give a
poet license to express his thoughts
in prose and call it poetry. Free
verse, in spite of its freedom, places
great responsibility upon a poet,
and makes demands which are less
definable and perhaps less easy to
attain than the well-defined require-
ments of traditional patterns.
If you would write poetry, you
must be willing to study, to accept
the disciplines it involves; to be
critical of your own work; to revise
and revise, until you express to the
full intensity and creative rhythm
that which you felt.
Never ask yourself, ''Is what Fve
experienced important enough to
write about?'' Of course it is!
Poetry writing is soul satisfying,
and an effective poem in print is
worth all of the effort involved.
Why don't you try it?
Of the books I have found help-
ful, I would most particularly recom-
mend How to Revise Your Own
Poems. It is a practical and help-
ful book on poetry writing. With
it you can begin to teach yourself.
REFERENCES
Blackmuir, R. p.: Form and Value in Modern Poetry, Doubleday Anchor Books,
575 Madison Avenue, New York City 22, New York, $1.25.
FoucHAux, Madeline: First Aid foi Limping Verse, Camas Press, P. O. Box 3857,
North Hollywood, California, 75c.
Hamilton, Anne: How to Revise Your Own Poems, Writer's Digest, 22 East
12th Street, Cincinnati 10, Ohio, $1.50.
HiLLYER, Robert: Fiist Piinciples ot Verse, Writer's Digest, $2.00.
C/o ///|/ JUaughter
Camilla. Woodbury /udd
I have grown old, my daughter, since you went away.
Missing the radiance of your shining hair,
Missing your face of heavenly sweetness, cameo chiseled;
Your skin like velvet flower petals,
Your laughing eyes, your lips so tender;
The saucy tilt of your nose, the little dent in your forehead;
The long expressive hands, so deft and beautiful;
Your arms about me — your rare, sweet confidence.
Missing all these so much,
My heart grows young again at your returning.
What's in a Story?
Norma A. Wrathall
WHY don't you write a story You may wonder what events might
for The Reliei Society Mag- have led to it, what had happened
azine Short Story Contest? to the person to cause him to react
Maybe you have aheady started one. in that way. And you have the germ
Or maybe all you need is to get of a story. Or, you may know of
started. Let us begin with a defini- a series of events in which everything
tion, and then consider some of the worked out rather smoothly, even-
ingredients of the short story. tually turning out as planned. But
A short story has been defined as you might wonder, what if some-
a prose narrative which depicts thing had happened to change those
characters in processes of struggle plans? What if, at a certain point,
and complications. The narrative things had gone wrong? What then?
usually centers around a principal And you would begin to have a
character, with a special problem, story; you would think what the
against a specific background. A people (characters) might have done
dominant purpose or theme should in the emergency, how each would
be in evidence, and the effective have reacted to disappointment;
short story is marked by dramatic what would have been the outcome,
interest, involving significant human Or, you may have visited a place that
experience. fairly teemed with a story, such as
In every story, six elements are a remote house; an abandoned farm;
present: setting (place); persons a seemingly peaceful village with an
(characters); events (plot); idea undercurrent of turmoil. Or, you
(theme); emotion; and style. I have may have a belief that you want to
not listed them in order of their portray in dramatic action,
importance, for in any given story I have read much discussion as to
one element may predominate over whether one should begin with
the others. But in every story, all theme, character, or plot. It is like
are present to some degree. trying to decide the old question of
There are three main steps in the chicken or the egg? As far as
building the story: (i) finding the we are concerned, perhaps we should
story; (2) building the plot; and (3) begin with the element that sug-
developing the narrative. gested the story in the first place,
Perhaps you have noted an expres- and then build in the other parts,
sion on someone's face showing This means that if we start with
great joy, strong anger, or deep sor- character, we decide on a certain
row. The emotion seemed so in- characteristic in the person (such as
tense that you kept thinking about truthfulness). We then portray this
it. You wondered what could have quality by presenting the character
caused anyone to feel that way. You in incidents to which he will react
may remember a similar feeling in to reveal this quality. If we start
yourself, and recall the circumstance, with plot, we have in mind a series
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of significant incidents, then decide
what characters would be necessary
to bring to pass these events. In
the same manner, one might begin
with theme or setting.
We can't have a story at all with-
out people.
TN the short story, there is room for
only one leading character. This
person must be in focus most of
the time in the story, if not in actual
fact, then by reference. He should
be rounded out as much as possible
by his thoughts and feelings, his re-
actions to certain events, his reac-
tions to other people, his appearance,
the way he moves, walks, and talks.
One or two minor characters, not
so fully characterized, may be used
to bring out the main character. But
they must always be subordinate to
him. Don't have any ''scene steal-
ers" in your dramatic situations. If
you do, the story will be muddled
and the reader confused.
The character should be made
sympathetic to the reader, so that
the reader can identify himself with
the story-person, and will care what
happens to him. And before you
can cause the reader to identify
with the character, you, the writer,
must identify with him yourself.
You must be able to feel as he feels,
think as he thinks, before you know
how he will react to certain situa-
tions. Make your character natural
and human. Even an evil character
must be shown in such a way that
the reader will think, ''Well, I guess
that's what I'd do, if I were that
kind of person!" Everything that
you write about the character must
bring out the characteristic that you
are trying to portray.
Here are some steps in character
development:
( 1 ) Select an outstanding characteristic
and show (as early in the story as
possible) how the character acts to
portray that quality.
(2) Characterize by telhng or showing
the thoughts and feelings of the
person.
(3) Develop character in dialogue,
which includes the speech of the
characters in conversation, and also
what other people in the story say
about the main character.
In writing dialogue, train your ear to
listen to your characters speak. Speech is
one of the most difficult things in writing.
For if one is not careful, all the characters
will be talking alike, and chances are, in
the same way as the author!
(4) Appearance is important, especially
so if appearance can be made to show, by
comparison or contrast, the inner feelings
of the person. For example: Aunt Sade's
hair had always been held tightly at the
sides by two brown combs. It wound into
a smooth coil at the back, always in the
same place, with the same thickness and
smoothness. A lock had never been
known to escape either of the combs and
curl upon her high white forehead; it
would not dare!
(5) You can individualize your charac-
ter by some little trait — such as pulling
at his ear while thinking.
(6) Movement is a language in itself,
and sometimes shows far more than any
of the other ways. Examples: Diana's
bare toes skimmed over the dew-wet grass,
a naughty elf fleeing from the prosaic
morning ritual of getting dressed, . . .
Old Ernst placed one foot ahead of the
other with such calculated economy of
motion that one had to watch him a mo-
ment to know if he really moved.
Remember, you cannot characterize
your actor and then have done with it
once and for all. You must keep on
characterizing him right up to, and in-
cluding, the end of the story.
Now that you have the idea
for your story, and the characters
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well in mind, it is time to begin on
step two, building the plot.
Don't believe it if someone tells
you that she is not interested in
plot. As well try to bake a cake
without a recipe, or sew a dress with-
out a pattern. The plot is the frame-
work of the story, the skeleton upon
which is placed flesh and skin and
coloring. It consists of a series of
dramatic happenings, arranged in
climactic order, and containing strug-
gle or complication. The first part
of the plot is the situation. It con-
tains the want of the principal
character, and the problem which
seems to prevent him from getting
it. This part may end with the dra-
matic climax (the point at which
the character despairs of attaining
his desire). The second part is the
solution, in which the character
brings about, by his own eftoit oi
decision, the solving of the problem.
To avoid a ''forced result," it is well
to have treated in the situation every
factor used in the solution.
The want should be introduced as
early as possible in the story. It must
be strongly motivated, so that the
reader will be interested in knowing
how it turns out.
By complication is meant not
merely a series of obstacles or stum-
bling blocks which can be rather
easily overcome. For instance, we
might be writing about a young girl
who is going to college. We give
her a strong motive for wanting to
earn her degree in June. To do so,
she must get credit in French. She
is not hnguistic, and the subject is
hard for her, but by studying late at
nights, and taking many notes, she
thinks she can pass. But she loses
her notebook just before the test.
However, she finds it again in time
to ''cram'' for the exam. These
things would hinder her, but they
would not be complication.
Suppose that when the girl found
her notebook at the last minute, she
stayed up nearly all night to study.
But she was so tired and unnerved
that right in the middle of the test
she began to weep and ran out of
the room, thus flunking the course.
So, according to the rules, she w'ould
not be allowed to graduate in June.
Now, based upon what you might
have shown about her, what will she
do? Will she accept meekly the
ruling of the committee? Or will
she find some way out of the dilem-
ma? This would be complication,
because it would change the course
of action, and it would involve emo-
tional conflict in the leading charac-
ter.
SOMETIMES the character may
attain his original want, only to
find that it is not what he needed
or wanted after all, and a substitute
goal is found. This usually grows
out of, or is a variant of, the origi-
nal want; it may be in the nature of
a decision. Sometimes the struggle
exists almost entirelv in the mind
of the character, and a decision is
the outcome. But in any case, the
pattern is the same: the well-defined
want; the comph'cation which seems
to prevent its attainment; the solu-
tion to the problem.
Write out your plot in outline
form, in whatever way you like. I
usually write in short sentences,
double-spaced typing, then go over
it and see if the incidents lead
logically into each other.
After I have written my outline,
I often write the end of the story,
rapidly, just as it comes to me, and
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sometimes the first two or three Enghsh grammar and composition
paragraphs of the beginning of the for reference.
story. Then, even with all the in- Ask yourself these questions about
terruptions which happen to my the story: (i) Would the narra-
writing, I can go back and get into tive move along just as well and
the mood of it again. Each writer be just as true and interesting with-
must decide what is the best way for out this incident? If so, leave it
her. out. (2) What is the purpose of
Now we have finished for the time ^^ch incident? Does each one carry
being with steps one and two. We 0"^, or lead toward, the general pur-
are ready for the final step, the POse of the story? (3) Is each inci-
actual writing. dent, and the act of each character,
XTT m 1 1 \\n ' i. properly motivated? (4) Does the
Well, nearly ready. Who is to \ ^ i -^ ^y ^. -.
. n . 1 . -, ^ xr 1 , . n •. story have suspense and emotional
tell the story? Ir a character tells it, -^ -.^ ^
you will write in first person— the ^J-, '. j i. . • .i_ .
{,y„ , jr .1 .1 \ -ii .. Cutting and shortening the story
I story. If the author tells it, you , ° ^ r • • r ^
Ti i . . 1 • 1 rpV- 1 are also a part ot revision, tor you
will write m third person. Ihink ^^^ i r. a. L : •
.... 1 ^ will always have to meet certain
it out m several ways. j i ii. • j.
^ word-length requirements.
Now write your story. Write. As you see, there are many things
Keep going, to the end, if possible, to consider. But the best way to
without thinking of wording or learn to write is by writing. Read
construction or technique. published stories, and see how our
When you have finished, put the principles of the short story are car-
story away for several days, or even ^ed out by the authors. Read and
weeks. Forget it. This step is just study good reference books and
as important as any part of the articles in writers' magazines. And
writing ^^ sure to keep a notebook of ideas
_^„ . . . and characterizations, scribbled in
When you are ready to begin •^■^. ^^ ^^ ^^^^ ^^ ^-^^
agam, read it entirely through from ^^^ . ^^-^ ^^^.^^^ ^^-^^
beginning to end as if you had never ^^^^ ^^^^^ you will work, and
seen it before. dream, and despair over it. But
Now you begin the real work of whatever its fate, if you have given
writing, the revision. Be sure that it your best, you are a winner; for
you have your writer's tools at hand, ahead of success is achievement.
including your Roget's Thesaurus, You have achieved something, and
a good dictionary, and a book of the result is uphfting and rewarding.
REFERENCES
Bates, E. H.: The Modern Short Story, $3.00
Elwood Maren: Characters Make Your Story, $4.00
MiRRiELEES, Edith M.: Story Writing, $3.50.
The books listed above may be purchased from The Writer, Inc. Publishers,
8 Arlington, Street, Boston 16, Massachusetts
Roget's Thesaurus, $1.90
Writer's Digest, 22 East 12th Street, Cincinnati 10, Ohio.
Louisa
Helen M. Livingston
THE long train of handcarts closer over her face and pinned the
pushed on through the dusty neck of her dress a little higher,
afternoon. ''Keep moving. If only her foot would stop hurt-
Eight miles yet to go. We'll make ing, Louisa thought. The sturdiest
the Sweetwater tonight." This word shoes she could buy, too, and all out
came down the line from the leader at the sides! She had come on that
of the Enoc Company. cactus so suddenly the other day.
Louisa pushed along. The extra She had sat at the side for awhile
sack of flour from the provision and taken out the spines. But it
wagon made the pushing harder, still pained. It was getting worse.
Sometimes it seemed that that extra The heated rays of the sun shot right
fifty pounds were right on her down through her broken shoe like
shoulders. But she mustn't look sharp knives, and her whole foot
tired or Brother Thames next to her was throbbing. It felt like the great
would take the sack on his load, wheel of the cart was turning on her
Brother Thames was small and wiry. foot.
He had supervised linen looms and Once they came to a spring; no,
was not fitted for heavy pulling and not a spring, just a bog. But they
his load was twice as big as Louisa's, dug deep holes until the water
He carried for a family. His wife oozed in, then they gathered around
was ill and hardly able to get her- in groups and drank the water. Lit-
self along, and three-year-old Melin- tie Melinda broke loose from her
da had to sit on the load much of father's hand. She rushed toward
the time. the water and didn't wait until she
So the sun beat down. This was reached the hole. She just caught
strange dry country. When a breeze up a handful of black mud and
came it was not salty, nor cool, nor thrust it into her mouth, sucking
damp from the sea. It was dry and the moisture onto her dry lips and
crisp and took all the moisture out tongue.
of your skin, and out of your mouth. Louisa, cupping her hands,
Louisa saw buffalo tracks at the side brought water to Melinda. As it
of the trail. It might have been wet seeped through her fingers she put
when the huge animal walked there, out her throbbing foot to catch the
but those tracks were hard and dry cool drops. But time couldn't be
now. A scaly lizard at the side of wasted at the spring. Soon the
the trail looked at her with startled, Enoc train was pushing on again,
beady eyes, then slithered away in ''Keep your own place in your
the shadscale brush. Louisa touched own company." Each person tried
her hand to her face. Her own skin to follow the directions, but every
felt as brown and rough as the liz- now and then a cart would be
ard's. She pulled her big bonnet stopped at the roadside. One cart
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had a cover that fell over at the side, "Looks as if you need your bon-
making a little tent. As the carts net held tight." But Levi didn't
j)ushed past, Louisa heard the cry give the tie back. They left him
of a new baby. She thought of her tugging at his axle,
own mother back in England. She The sun dropped behind the west-
thought of her younger brothers and ern horizon. There was no singing
sisters. She wanted to leave the line along the long lines now. The
and rush into the crude tent, but tired bodies bent forward, pushing
she moved mechanically on, look- and pulling. The slow creaking of
ing into the dry distance. If you wheels continued. ''No stop until
walked this far in England you we reach the Sweetwater." They
would come to ocean, but there kept doggedly on.
were no oceans here, just desert and But when the sun sank the heat
the far distant mountains. But she went, too, and a cold chill came
mustn't think of England. It was over the plains. 'There are three
best her father and mother had graves to be dug when we stop."
stayed. They could come later. The word came to Brother Thames,
LIow her foot throbbed, but she re- but it was passed along up and
membered the words of the prophet, down the lines and settled with the
'Tet them gird up their loins and cold evening on the company,
walk through and nothing shall hin- Word came that snow was already
der them." She lifted her head in the mountains. There was no
higher. The load seemed lighter, time to waste. Brother Thames
Her sore foot eased. murmured, "May the Lord in his
mercy preserve us." The words
npHE afternoon wore on. Another were repeated like a prayer down
cart was stopped at the side of the line sounding much like a chant
the trail. It was Levi Andrus. as it echoed back. "May the Lord
Louisa brushed the dust from her in his mercy preserve us."
navy alpaca and straightened her At last the handcart company
brown hair under her bonnet. Levi could smell the Sweetwater River,
had danced with her the first night Dry nostrils sniffed the damp
they had camped. 'Til have to save breeze, and the train picked up
the axle," Levi told Brother Thames, speed. Shoulders lifted and pushed
as he fitted his only leather jacket harder, finally a shout went up from
around the axle. the front.
"You need something to tie it. The bank was soon lined with
Lad. Here, take my belt." carts. The people were drinking
Louisa untied the big bow under and dipping their hands into the
her chin and jerked off one of the water. Many fell upon the bank not
ties. "Take this, as well." Her bon- wanting to move. It was dark and
net fell back from her face. Levi's the water was cold, but the sacks
quick eye saw the white skin on her were removed from the feet of
forehead where her bonnet had cov- those whose shoes were gone and
ered. It made a pale border around they dipped their feet in the cold
the deep brown of the freckles on water.
her nose and chin. Louisa removed what was left of
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305
her broken shoe. Her foot was
swollen. It looked as if a fire were
inside it. She washed it and sat
holding it.
The carts that had lagged were
pushing up into their own places.
Levi's cart with the leather-wrapped
axle came creaking into view. He
stopped and dropped down by
Louisa. He noticed the swollen
foot. 'It needs to be opened."
Brother Thames bent over, too,
and examined the swelling as if it
were a flaw in a length of lovely
linen. ''Best get it cared for to-
night, so you can be on it tomor-
row."
I OUISA looked helpless. Levi
comforted, "It's not so bad. If
the pressure is relieved it will be
better." He shpped out his sharp
knife and handed it to her. She
shook her head. "Would you?" she
asked.
He hesitated. Then slid over to
the water. He scoured the knife in
the white sand. "Now," he said,
"put your foot here. Then I can't
see your face, and you can't see your
foot." It was done in a second.
Blood stained the white sand. "Do
you have something with which to
wrap it?" Louisa shook her head.
Levi took from his pocket a neat,
folded, bonnet tie, and with quick,
skilled movements, he wrapped the
foot and tied the bandage.
Many of the carts were already
being unloaded. The tired train of
emigrants was just getting ready for
the night when a loud call came
from behind. "We will push
through the river tonight."
Unrest filled the train. Sighs and
complaints filled the air. "We've
come fifteen miles today." "It's
cold; we can't take icy water to-
night." "Our cart is already un-
loaded." "It's dark; we'll slip on
the rocks." "Our feet are already
bleeding."
No one moved toward the water.
"How is your foot?" Levi asked.
He took her broken shoe and went
to his cart.
"We'll push through the water
tonight," the call re-echoed from
the captain.
No one moved. There was just a
low cough of complaining.
Then an axle squeaked. A cart
moved into the river. Then a clear,
vibrant voice rose over the water.
"Come, come, ye saints, no toil nor
labor fear." Other carts weie
moved. More voices were singing.
The whole company came in on
the chorus, "All is well, all is well."
The air vibrated. The carts were
moving on through the water. The
emptied ones were being filled. The
last verse echoed joyously out
through the valley.
The large camp fire was burning
on the other side as the last carts
came up the bank from the water.
Steam rose from wet clothing.
Camps were set for the night.
Levi brought her shoe back to
Louisa. "Did your foot make it
through the water?"
He called her Louesa. She cor-
rected him. "Louisa. My mother is
named Louisa. My grandmother is
Louisa. It has always been Louisa.
It has to be Louisa."
Levi looked deep into her face,,
by the light of the dying fire. "All
right," he said, "Blue-eyes."
Q>ixty[ LJears J/igo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, May i, and May 15, 1899
'Tor the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
OBEDIENCE WITHOUT SEVERITY: Law is the governing force of the
universe. . . . Nevertheless there are persons who hesitate to compel obedience lest they
might injure the child's will power. But we think this is not so. Too frequently
where there is strong will power displayed it is a manifestation of selfishness. Children
do sometimes have strong instinctive desires in the right direction; therefore their
motives should be most cautiously considered. ... A stubborn, unconquered child is
sure to develop into a man so self-centered and determined to have his own way that he
will forego pleasures and even success rather than retract, and will be as he was when
a child, his own greatest enemy. . . .
— ^Amy Brown Lyman
EDUCATION AND MOTHERHOOD: The knowledge stored in days of youth
can be brought forth from time to time, to enrich the minds of the children. They
must look up to the mother; feel that she possesses the very acme of wisdom; then they
are willing and respectful subjects. Mothers, live with your children, answer all their
manifold questions . . . you must retain and add to the education of early years. . . .
The education obtained in school days, is only the foundation on which to erect the
life structure. . . .
— Lydia D. Alder
Kytmerica
Religious freedom on thy soil.
Was born 'mid struggling bands,
And Liberty to light the world.
In New York harbor stands.
Shine on thou incandescent light.
Nor let thy rays grow dim,
Bring joy to earth's inhabitants.
With thy effulgent gleam.
— Lucy A. Clark
A FLOURISHING BRANCH: San Diego, Cahfornia. In this far off, beautiful
southern city of between twenty and twenty-six thousand, there is a little band of
Saints organized, numbering probably thirty-five souls, all told. . . . The Relief Society
is under the able management of Sister Amelia Jewell, at whose home the sisters con-
vene . . . for the purpose of testifying of God's goodness and blessings, and to lend
themselves physically for the relief and succor of those in need. . . .
— Rhoda Celestia Nash
NATIONAL WOMAN'S RELIEF SOCIETY: This society is so perfectly
organized that it is comparatively easy to carry out any plan formulated by the General
Board. . . . Thus there are divisions and subdivisions of the society, which consists at
present of thirty thousand members and more than six hundred branches scattered
through this and other countries and on the islands of the 8ea.
— E. B. W.
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
lyriSS MARY M. ROBERTS, who
died in January 1959, was
editor of the American Journal oi
Nuising from 1921 to 1949, and
editor emeritus until her death. She
regarded nursing as an 'all-encom-
passing service in response to a
universal human need." She was
cited and decorated for distinguished
service in many fields of nursing.
npHE Women's State Legislative
Council of Utah has received
international recognition because of
the Commitment Law, which it
spearheaded six years ago. This
legislation makes it easier for men-
tally ill people to be admitted for
observation or treatment at the
state hospital on a voluntary basis.
It also deletes the word insane so
frequently used in former legisla-
tion and makes several other en-
lightened improvements. This law,
it is said, will be the basis of similar
legislation in India and has been
copied by Arizona and New Mexico.
jyi RS. KATHERINE G. CAPT is
survey statistician. Division of
Statistical Research, United States
Bureau of the Census, Washington,
D.C. It is her responsibility to find,
through the research and experi-
ments of various workers, the most
accurate and effective ways of mak-
ing surveys to form a basis for gov-
ernmental action.
lyiRS. CATHERINE BYRNE,
Lord Mayor of Dublin, Ire-
land, was an honored guest in New
York City on St. Patrick's Day,
March 17, 1959, when 120,000 Irish-
men took over Fifth Avenue. Ac-
companied by Governor Nelson A.
Rockefeller, she reviewed the
marchers.
]y|RS. JOSEPHINE PERFECT
BAY was appointed recently
to the chairmanship of the board of
directors of the American Export
Lines. She is the first woman to
head a major steamship line. Mrs.
Bay was born in Iowa and inherited
extensive financial interests when
her husband, Charles Ulrick Bay,
former United States Ambassador to
Norway, died in 1955.
jyfRS. CLAIRE BOOTH LUCE,
former Ambassador to Italy
from 1953 to 1957, has been named
ambassador to Brazil. Mrs. Luce
won considerable acclaim for the
conduct of her office in Italy.
IMOGEN HOLST, musical secre-
tary to Britain's brilliant com-
poser, Benjamin Britten, is co-auth-
or with him of The Wonderful
World of Music (Garden City
Books). This volume explains
music to children imaginatively and
delightfully.
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DITORIA
VOL 46
MAY 1959
NO. 5
ujooks — LKecorders for the Kyiges
. . . seek ye out of the best books words of wisdom, seek learning, even by study
and also by faith (D & C 88:ii8).
/^AN it be that the wide and won-
derful world of books is being
lost to many of our generation? Each
year more and more good books be-
come available— the thoughts and
researches, the conclusions of great
minds of our time, and innumerable
new editions of the classics of the
past. History, science, hterature,
books on art, volumes of sacred
scriptures are easily secured. Books
are being circulated through libraries
in towns and cities, and, in some
areas, bookmobiles distribute books
even in isolated regions. Books on
myriad subjects, suitable for all age
groups, are available at small cost.
Books, the recorders for the ages,
companions of all generations, en-
compassing the tablets of the past
and foreshadowing the future, are
within reach for our information,
our entertainment, our inspiration,
and our spiritual advancement. Yet
there are many homes which lack
this illumined acquaintanceship, and
which seem to be unaware of these
treasures of knowledge.
Perhaps we value lightly the op-
portunities which are abundant. Our
fathers and our mothers, our grand-
parents, many of them rejoiced in
the few books they owned and the
ones they were able to borrow.
Books of poems, histories. Bibles,
were brought in covered wagons and
in handcarts to the valleys of the
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mountains, and the books were read
by evening firelight, by flickering
candles; they were read on Sabbath
afternoons, on long journeys; and
they were read by the farmer at
noontime rest beside his field; moth-
ers read to their children in shade
of poplar trees and on the cabin
porch. Isolation became union with
a world of faraway people and places.
Pioneer families on lonely ranches
companioned themselves with books.
Rejoicing in her measure of such
companionship, was a teenage girl,
living all summer at her father's
sheep camp on the mountain range.
Only one book was available, a
small, paper-bound book, filled with
words of lasting strength and beauty
. . . ''the light shineth in dark-
ness . . . the voice of one crying in
the wilderness. . . .There cometh a
woman of Samaria to draw water . . .
a well of water springing up into
everlasting life. . . ." There were
twenty-one chapters in the little
book, and each chapter was divided
and rationed, read over and over
again, so that there would be a little
reading for each of the long summer
days that stretched slowly to evening
on the high blue ridges. The small,
paper-bound book was the Gospel
of John, and when the girl became
a woman she still loved books and
rejoiced when other books and other
scriptures opened for her the illimit-
EDITORIAL 309
able vistas of this world and the and to our children. The books we
worlds to come. read to our little ones in this their
If we lose for ourselves the world day of tender impressions will be
of books, we lose much of our herit- their memories tomorrow, and they
age; we lose the selectivity that may will hold in high esteem and with a
be exercised in choosing those vol- lasting love, that mother or father,
umes that will embellish our that grandmother or grandfather,
thoughts and our ways with treas- that kind companion who sat beside
ures proved through the long years, the child and turned the pages of
and new delights that come to us in a book, opening for him the glorious
poem and story, in travelogues, in world of experience and inspiration
new light on ancient places, accounts —the world that is so wide and so
of the widening panoramas of wonderful, and yet so small that
change. books can capture much of it, for
The myriad rooms of wonderment books are the recorders of the ages.
that books open are available to us —V. P. C.
Ida Elaine James
My head is bent over blossom-white seams
No whiter, no sweeter than are my dreams.
Into the shining needle there goes
A vision of cuddly dimpled toes
And pink cheeks smooth as the summer's rose.
Into the web of my threads are run
Bird-like laughter and ghnt of sun —
The shimmering pathway of dreams begun.
Thread and needle, fly swift and free,
Make the dream that I hold come true to me.
Illy I i iother
Elsie McKinnon Strachan
A part of prairie land, I see her still
W^herever meadow grasses scent the air;
Wherever plain folk work a gentle hill,
A picture lives for me, undimmed and clear.
Bright picture of my mother as she came
Across the hayfield, bringing me warm bread.
Fresh-baked and sweet, calling out my name —
Wind billowing her dress of faded red.
And when our lunch was over, she would go,
Skirts full and blowing, sunlight in her hair.
Back through the cut hay, milk jug swinging low.
Her color ebbing on the bright blue air.
I'll see her always where wild sweet grasses bend.
My prairie mother walking in the wind.
cJhe LKiCfht (circles
The Right Circles
'9
And awake and arise . . . and strengthen thy stakes and enlarge thy borders forever,
that thou mayest no more be confounded, that the covenants of the Eternal Father
which he hath made unto thee . . . may be fulfilled (Moroni 10:31).
ed a group of early missionaries:
''And from this place [Kirtland,
Ohio] ye shall go forth into the
regions westward; and inasmuch as
ye shall find them that will receive
you ye shall build up my church
in every region'' (D & C 42:8).
Though all of us are not called
to special missions, we are all mis-
sionaries in one way or another. The
child who invites his playmate to
Primary is enlarging the circle of
joyful companionship. The older
son who takes a school friend with
him to Mutual gives this friend an
opportunity to see life as it pro-
gresses in the gospel circle.
The woman at home may be one
to lift her voice and share her herit-
age. If she is alert to the needs of
her neighbors, she may invite a
seamstress, or one interested in
handicraft, to the work meeting, and
open for her the blessings and op-
portunities of Relief Society. Young
mothers, through interest and invi-
tation, may be gathered into the
circle of homemakers who are en-
riched by participation in the lessons
that give them instruction and in-
spiration. Many women who love
literature may find this to be the
portal of their entrance into Relief
Society.
As the first Section of the Doc-
trine and Covenants so well express-
es the wideness of the gospel mes-
sage, it is forever an enlarging circle:
''Hearken ye people from afar; and
ye that are upon the islands of the
sea, listen together ..." (D & C
1:1).
PNCIRCLED, as we are, by the
gifts and blessings so freely
granted through the mission and
teachings of Jesus Christ, and
through the enlightenment and veri-
fication of the restored gospel, we
are heirs of the covenant. As such
we are entitled to as much progres-
sion and as much joy as our own
capacities and obedience will allow
us to receive.
It is a natural feeling for those
who have been given participation
in a rewarding earth life and in a
glorious promise for the eternities-
it is a natural wish for them to share
their riches with others and to
spread the tidings that many may
join in the blessings and participate
in "the right circles."
A formal missionary system was
established early in the history of
the Church. Through revelation
the Prophet Joseph Smith instruct-
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Uxecipes cfroin the ibastern States li Lission
Submitted hy Florence S. Jacohsen
FROM THE STATE OF PENNSYLVANIA
PENNSYLVANIA DUTCH RECIPES
In the early years of the eighteenth century, nearly all the first settlers in Eastern
Pennsylvania came from the Palatinate in Germany, They brought with them recipes of
famous German cooks. Life was hard in America, and it was not always possible to
secure the prescribed ingredients, so it became necessary to develop their own recipes
and to utihze plain foods in the creation of tasty dishes.
Sauerbraten
(Pot Roast)
4 pounds beef (chuck, rump, or round) i bunch carrots, cut in strips
1 pint vinegar 6 onions, sliced
water i tbsp. sugar
4 bay leaves lo gingersnaps
12 peppercorns salt and pepper
4 cloves
Wipe meat with damp cloth and then sprinkle thoroughly with salt and pepper.
Place in earthen dish and add vinegar and enough water to cover. Add the bay leaves,
peppercorns, and cloves, and let stand tightly covered for 5 days in a cool place (re-
frigerator). Put meat in a Dutch oven and brown well on all sides. Add the carrots
and onions and 1 cup of the spiced vinegar. Cover tightly and cook over low flame
about 3 hours or until meat is tender. When meat is cooked, add the sugar and crum-
bled gingersnaps and cook for 10 minutes. This makes delicious gravy. If necessary,
more of the spiced vinegar may be added.
Lemon Tarts
Sweet Pastr)/ Dough
1 c. flour Vs c. butter or other shortening
/4 c. sugar Vz tsp. baking powder
egg yolk
Mix flour, sugar, butter, and baking powder together. Moisten ingredients using
enough beaten egg yolk to make a dough just stiff enough to handle. Roll thin and
line two small tart pans (small pie tins) with dough. Prick the bottom with a fork and
bake in hot oven 20 minutes (400° ) .
Lemon Tart Filling
2 tbsp. cornstarch. grated rind of Vz lemon
1 c. brown sugar juice of 1 lemon (large)
2 c. boiling water butter, size of walnut
Yj c. molasses (mild)
Mix cornstarch and sugar together and slowly add to the boiling water, stirring
constantly. Cook until mixture thickens. Add molasses, butter, lemon rind, and juice.
Cook one minute longer. Cool slightly and pour into baked pie shell. Serve warm
or cold. Serves 6-8.
Page 31 1
2/2
c. flour
1
2
2
Vl
tsp. salt
tbsp. shortening
eggs, slightly beaten
c. warm water
312 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1959
Appelstrudel
1 c. brown sugar
Vl c. seedless raisins
Vl c. chopped nuts
3 tbsp. melted butter
Vl tsp. cinnamon
5 c. sliced apples grated rind of a lemon
Sift flour and salt together. Cut in the 2 tbsp. shortening, then add the eggs and
water. Knead well, then throw or beat dough against board until it blisters. Stand it
in a warm place under a cloth for 20 minutes. Cover the kitchen table with a small
white cloth and flour it. Put dough on it. Pull out dough with hands very carefully
to thickness of tissue paper. Spread with mixture made of the sliced apples, melted
butter, raisins, nuts, brown sugar, cinnamon, and grated lemon rind. Fold in outer
edges and form a roll about 4 inches wide. Bake in a very hot oven (450°) for 10
minutes, reduce the heat to moderately hot Oven (375°) and continue to bake about
20 minutes. Let cool. Cut into slices about 2 inches wide. Serve warm or cold.
Shoofly Pie
Make favorite pastry recipe and line two pie tins with dough rolled very thin
(makes filling for two 8-inch pies).
Crumbs for V'iq Liquid ior Pie
3 c. flour 1 Vl tsp. soda
1 c. sugar small amount cold water
pinch salt 1 c. light molasses
Vl c. shortening 1 c. boiling water
V4 tsp. grated nutmeg
Mix crumbs ingredients into a crumbly mixture. Take out handful of crumbs and
reserve for top of pies. Mix soda with a small amount of cold water. Mix hot water
and molasses until thoroughly dissolved. Add soda. Pour molasses mixture into the
crumb mixture. Mix thoroughly and pour into unbaked pie shell. Sprinkle the spare
crumbs on top and bake in a moderate (350°) oven about 60 minutes.
FROM THE STATE OF NEW JERSEY
Economy Prune Cake
Vl c. fat 1 c. nuts
1 c. sugar 2V1 c. flour
1 tsp. vanilla 1 tsp. cinnamon
2 tsp. soda % tsp. salt
2 c. cooked prunes cut fine, and enough V tsp. cloves
juice to fill measuring cup Vz tsp. nutmeg
Cream fat and sugar together. Add vanilla. Add soda to prunes and juice. Mix
dry ingredients together. Add nuts and prunes to creamed fat and sugar, and stir
thoroughly. Last add dry ingredients. Bake in greased cake pan at 300° F. for 60
minutes. (May bake in layers if desired — requires less baking time.)
Whipped Cream Frosting for Prune Cake
2 tbsp. flour % c. shortening
Vl c. milk V4 c. butter or butter substitute
Vl c. sugar
RECIPES FROM THE EASTERN STATES MISSION
3B
Mix flour and milk into a smooth paste and cook until thick, stirring constantly.
Cool. Mix shortening and butter together with electric beater. Add sugar and beat
4 minutes. Add paste and beat four additional minutes. Frost top and sides of prune
cake.
FROM THE STATE OF NEW YORK
Broken Glass Torte
1 pkg. each orange, lime, and
raspberry gelatine
1 Yi c. hot water for each package
1 envelope plain gelatine
Angel iood cake (Loaf cake cut in sHces)
14
1 c. hot pineapple juice
2 c. heavy cream (whipped)
c. sugar
1 tsp. vanilla
whipped cream for frosting
Dissolve each of 3 packages flavored gelatine in 1 Yz cups hot water. Keep sep-
arate. Turn into shallow pans about % inches thick, chill, and cut into cubes. Soften
plain gelatine in cold water and dissolve in hot pineapple juice. Cool thoroughly, then
fold into whipped cream into which has been beaten sugar and vanilla. Stir colored
gelatine cubes into the whipped cream mixture. Line a large pan with thin angel food
cake shces. Add gelatin mixture and cover with layer of angel food. Chill about 12
hours. When ready to serve unmold and frost torte with layer of whipped cream.
Slice and serve. 12-16 servings.
Golden Brown Bread
2 c. buttermilk or sour milk
1 c. dark molasses
-4 c. sifted all-purpose flour
2 tsp. soda
1 tsp. baking powder
2 tsp. salt
2 c. whole v/heat flour
1 c. uncooked rolled oats
/z c. yellow corn meal
1 c. seedless raisins
Combine milk and molasses, add all-purpose flour, soda, baking powder, and salt
sifted together. Mix thoroughly and add remaining ingredients. Pour into 2 greased
1 -pound tin cans or molds. Cover tightly. Place in steamer or on rack in large kettle.
Add water to depth of 1 inch. Cover. Place over low heat and steam 3 hours, adding
more hot water if needed. Remove from cans at once. Serve hot or cold. Makes
2 large loaves.
Sweet Roll Bread
1 pkg. dry yeast
2 tbsp. warm water
Yz c. scalded milk, cooled
Yz lb. melted butter or shortening
3 beaten egg yolks
3 tbsp. sugar
Yz tsp. vanilla
Yz tsp. salt
3 c. sifted flour
3 egg whites, beaten stiff
% c. sugar
1 c. chopped nuts
1 c. raisins
cinnamon
Dissolve 1 pkg. dry yeast in warm water. Add cooled, scalded milk. Add butter,
egg yolks, 3 tbsp. sugar, vanilla, salt, and flour. Mix thoroughly. Cover and let stand
two or three hours in refrigerator. Divide the dough into three portions. Roll thin
and spread each portion with the egg whites to which has been added % c. sugar.
Sprinkle egg white with cinnamon, raisins, and chopped nuts. Roll as a jelly roll.
Place in greased bread tin and let stand one hour at room temperature. Bake in a
300° F. oven 1 hour. Serve hot or cold.
(^em of the aiuls
Lydia M. Sorensen
ii
W
HY are you milking the
cow so early?" I asked.
''The sun's still 'way
up."
''We're going for a walk/' Mamma
answered.
"Couldn't we do the chores after
we come back?"
"No. Not tonight. We'll be
too tired." Her answers, cut short
with an intense earnestness in her
preparations, sharpened our curios-
ity.
After milking, she fed the cow.
With Papa away from home for sev-
eral days. Mama had the full re-
sponsibility.
"Where are we going?" I per-
sisted.
"You'll see.'^
My three-year-old sister and I
frequently walked up in the cedars
behind the corral. Mamma hardly
ever went with us. By all the
preparations she was making, she
must be planning a long walk, may-
be past the field to the west and
clear up into the cedars beyond on
the road up the ditch. It was miles
in either direction before the road
led by another home. But, as chil-
dren, we enjoyed exploring our
cedar-bound world. While it was
unusual for Mamma to go along,
this time the idea was hers.
Preparations complete, she placed
the baby in the buggy and led the
way south down the road. When it
turned east toward the dugway, she
left the road and continued south
across the stubble field. Having
crossed the field, we came to soft,
dusty soil. Here Mamma had to
carry the baby while we pushed the
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buggy. That soon became too diffi-
cult, so we turned it around and
pulled it. Being tired and hot, we
grumbled about it. To encourage
us for the task, she told us about
the trek of the pioneers. At the
moment pioneering held no charms
for us, but the prospect of being
left in this desolate place was even
less attractive. Since our erstwhile
considerate Mother determinedly
kept on going despite our entreaties
to go back, we had no choice but
to follow. When we reached the
sand knolls where the cedars grew,
the carriage had to be abandoned.
It was left under a tree and we girls
carried the baby's supplies. Trudg-
ing on, we arrived at the edge of
the hill.
A complete surprise awaited us
children. Far below in a natural
cove, like a jewel in its setting,
nestled a spot of vivid green. As we
studied the scene, we could make
out what appeared to be miniature
trees, a wee little house, and some
other diminutive buildings. And
then, would wonders never cease?
There were the tiniest people we
had ever seen.
"Look at the tiny little people
walking around!" I exclaimed. "I
could hold one in my hand."
I had never heard of Gulliver nor
his Lilliputian friends, but I had my
own variety of little people, colonies
of them. They were dry cedar twigs
of toothpick dimensions whom I
moved by hand and clothed with
imagination, giving them all the at-
tributes of the living which my
young mind could devise.
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315
In a flash I thought how dehght-
ful it would be to take these people
home to play with, care for, and pro-
tect. My sister was equally enchant-
ed. The fact that the people went
about their business in a purposeful
manner and seemed capable of look-
ing out for themselves was quite be-
side the point. If a dog should
come along, they might be glad to
have us keep him away from them.
''I didn't know there were any
real people that little/' I marveled.
'Those people are as big as we
are/' Mamma replied to our un-
believing dismay. 'They look little
because they are so far away. We're
going down there," she added.
A fear of strangers sprang up in
my mind, but I looked to natural
barriers for protection.
''We can't get down over the
ledges," I objected. "We'd fall off."
But she knew a trail.
"Maybe they're mean people," I
cautioned.
"No, they're good people," she
reassured us.
"Do you know them?"
"Yes."
As we made our way down, I kept
hoping that the people would re-
main at least a little smaller than
we. But they gradually increased
in size to knee high, waist high,
shoulder high, until some of them
outgrew all of us. By the time we
reached the level ground, the house
had become large enough for us to
enter and, approaching it, we were
glad for the cool shade of the tower-
ing trees.
/^UR disappointment in the loss
of our tiny people was compen-
sated for and our fears allayed by
the warmth of a full-grown welcome.
This was the family of our bishop.
They were most solicitous of us,
especially of our tired little mother.
Nevertheless, the combination of
fatigue and my sudden change from
the big potential protector of these
people to a little child dependent
upon their hospitality, along with a
little jealousy, made me a bit peev-
ish.
Perhaps one of the hardest les-
sons to learn in life is to achieve
contentment in going from strength
to weakness, whether real or imag-
ined. Is it possible?
First I wanted a drink of water
which was gladly given— cool and
delicious. Then I whimpered that
I was hungry. Supper would be
ready in about half an hour our
hostess assured us, and gave each of
us a peach from their orchard. Then
she suggested that I go out and play
with the children. Feeling shy, I
did not want to do that, but the
peach was good; so I whimpered
some more to Mamma, who was
paying no attention to me and was
getting more of the peach than I
was. This time we were given some
large blue plums which I did not
like as well as the peach, but I had
to be satisfied.
Their children had a playhouse,
the only real playhouse I ever saw.
I remember their tall father stooping
to enter as they had asked him to
examine something that needed fix-
ing. He said he would fix it.
In a little while we were called to
supper. It was good when we were
tired and hungry to find people so
graciously ready to administer to
our comfort. We stayed all night.
At bedtime, one after another,
the smaller children knelt at their
mother's knee to say their prayers..
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The other children having finished, When we were ready to go, the
the baby wanted to say her prayer, bishop carried the baby up the hill.
Kneeling on her mother's lap, she At the top Mamma thanked him
repeated a syllable or two each time warmly as she once more took the
her mother paused, and finished child.
with evident satisfaction. Later, in They were wonderful people,
the privacy of our assigned bedrooms They moved away, and I missed
we offered our own prayers. them in later years when I traveled
In the morning at breakfast, milk that trail many times on horseback
was poured from a brown and white or on foot herding cows or sheep,
pitcher, over a cereal made of bread The house and other buildings all
crumbs. As the brother and older disappeared from their places by the
sister set out on foot for school orchard and shade trees. Yet wher-
nearly two miles distant, their fa- ever they lived and wherever we
ther kindly admonished them not lived, that bishop's family were
to play on the way. always among our warmest friends.
(grandmothers Lrinks
Maude Rubin
Remember those carnations? How their spice
Perfumed the rain-washed stillness! Leafy loam
Was black and rich — and when the creek's glare ice
Began to sing, our grandmother's heart-home
Was out-of-doors, her floor the sun-warmed earth;
She left the indoor tasks, to help at birth
Of summer, hands as spring showers.
Then when carnation petals burst their tight
Green buds, to spill their spice on sun-rich air,
We went to Sabbath school in fresh-starched white-
She gave us each one crimson "pink" to wear!
vi/eeds
Celia Luce
IT seems that no matter how hard I work in the garden, some weeds will creep in.
I go after the big weeds with a will. I pull up redroot and wild lettuce and make
the garden a thing of beauty again.
But, often, in my fight with the large weeds, I fail to notice that stunted redroot
behind the bushes and that small wild lettuce on the dry spot. I go my way and leave
them there. Next year their seeds grow into huge wild lettuce and redroot, and I
have my battle to do all over again.
I am constantly fighting my faults, trying to pull them out and discard them as I
do the weeds. The large faults worry me a lot, and I go after them. But I often
forget little faults hidden in the background. Foolishly, I let them grow until they
are the seeds for large faults. My battle must be fought again.
ijou C^an Sew — -A-V — (children s L^iothing
Jean R. Jennings
SIMPLICITY is the keynote for
good styling in children's cloth-
ing, as it is for clothing of all
sizes and ages. Not only do our
young ones look better in clothes
not too fussy or elaborate, but they
will be more comfortable in them,
and there will be less time and
effort needed for their care.
Trimmings on girls' dresses should
not be heavy or ornate. Fine tuck-
ing, narrow, dainty ruffles, hand
stitches, smocking, narrow pipings,
cording, and binding are the desir-
able and natural finishes for chil-
dren's clothes. More often than
not, the trim that is most effective
is the easiest to use.
Mothers faced with the problem
of making children's clothing, re-
gardless of how simple or compli-
cated the project, can save a great
deal of time and effort by planning
carefully in advance of the start of
the actual sewing. As far as possible,
plan the season's work as a unit.
Make a careful list of things to be
purchased such as fabrics, trim-
mings, notions, etc. Keep the hst
with you in your handbag and pick
up an item here and there as you
pass by, instead of making many
special trips. Or better still, make
one trip do for all purchasing.
In families where there are sev-
eral children, there is much sewing
to be done, and an even greater need
for economy of time and energy.
One way to save time in sewing is
to cut several garments at once.
Make notes of any special things to
remember about each article, such
as piecing, etc. and attach it to the
proper article for reference when
machine sewing begins. Put every-
thing needed for each garment to-
gether in a separate roll so that you
can do all the machine work at one
time. Introduce assembly-line ef-
ficiency into your family sewing by
sewing several articles as one unit.
Sewing should be fun as well as
practical. Handwork can be done
in leisure moments while you visit
with the family or a neighbor, or
enjoy a radio or television program.
Once you get the habit of bundle
sewing, you will find it useful to
have several things to work on at
once so that just the right sewing
can be done while you enjoy some
other activity in your day or eve-
ning. Pick up your hand sewing as
you would pick up knitting or cro-
cheting. It will surprise you how
much you can accomplish this way.
Adjust to Growth
The problem of having clothes fit
children properly when new, and
still allow room for growth, is some-
times a difficult one. We feel it
can best be solved by carefully con-
cealed let-out areas.
In little girls' dresses, extra length
for later on may be supplied by lay-
ing a tuck on the inside just above
the waistline for additional waist
length and another tuck in the hem
of the skirt for easy let-down. Such
tucks can be put in with a long
machine-basting stitch so that they
are easy to remove.
All straps on overalls and play
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Figure i
suits should be made allowing sev-
eral extra inches for growth. But-
tons can be moved as added length
is needed.
In making clothes for children of
all ages, it is important to sew them
as carefully and firmly as possible.
Spare no effort to make them dur-
able, reinforcing points of strain.
Always use backing for buttons and
buttonholes as well as for pockets.
Extra time spent in the making will
help to keep them out of the mend-
ing basket.
INSTRUCTION on techniques
given in earlier lessons are ap-
plicable to all types of garments for
both adults and children. We do,
however, want to add suggestions for
gathering and cording, both of
which will be found helpful in mak-
ing dresses for the young.
Countless yards of material are
gathered each year for children's
dresses with varying degrees of suc-
cess. It can be done easily and
quickly with the correct method.
To machine gather, adjust the
machine stitch to eight stitches to
the inch. For the upper thread use
regular weight, but have heavier
Figure 2 ■"
thread on the bobbin, so it will not
break easily. Put in two rows of
large machine stitching, having the
first one on the seam line. (See
Figure 1.) Use your presser foot
as a gauge to keep rows even.
When applying the gathered edge
to a straight edge, divide both into
segments at equal distances and
mark with pins. Pin gathered edge
to plain edge at centers of front and
sides and midway between all
around. Do not pull up gathers un-
til they are pinned in place. Draw
up gathers, pulling both threads at
once. Fasten threads over last pin
by means of several laps. Baste and
sew between the two rows of stitch-
ing.
Cording is an attractive and easy
way to finish the waistline of small
dresses. Use cable cord or heavy
string of the desired thickness. To
cover the cord, cut material on the
true bias. Lay the cord in the fold
and stitch close to the cord, using
the machine cording foot (zipper
foot) . The strip should be cut wide
enough to cover the cord, plus seam
allowance. Insert the cord between
the seams of the waist and skirt and
stitch as close to the cord as pos-
sible. (See Figure 2.)
i/Laggie LKic hards Vlyood Specializes in // taking
JLace cJablecioths
MAGGIE Richards Wood, Fielding, Utah, has presented each of her five daughters
and the three daughters-in-law with a beautiful lace tablecloth, a chair back set,
and many other crocheted and tatted articles. During the past two years she has made
fifty-two quilt tops, including eight in the wedding-ring pattern, two in the lovers' knot
pattern, fourteen in the star pattern, and many appliqued quilts with original patterns.
At a family party two years ago her forty-five grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren
were present to see the quilt tops, and, as far as possible, were given the opportunity to
make an individual choice of the lovely quilt tops displayed. She now has forty-six grand-
children and eleven great-grandchildren.
Mrs. Wood has served the Ghurch in many capacities, including Primary president,
president of her ward Relief Society, theology class leader, and counselor in Relief
Society. She has been a visiting teacher for many years, Homemaking, handwork, and
Church service have made her life busy and beautiful.
Old Sflsh
ermen
Ethel Jacohson
So sat the huddled forms around
A storied sea;
So shone the sun on fishermen
Of Galilee,
Where carefully the nets were spread
On bare brown sands
And mended with such stiff and scarred
And patient hands.
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The Silver Leash
Chapter 5
Beatrice Roidame Parsons
Synopsis: LaRue Harding, an orphan,
who has hved since childhood in CaH-
fornia with an aunt, goes to Fivelakes,
Arizona, after the death of her sister,
AmeHa. She tries to help and encourage
her brother-in-law Herbert Vetterly, who
is confined to a wheel chair. His children
gradually come to accept LaRue as a
friend and as a member of the family. She
meets Dr. Alan Rutherford, a surgeon at
the Jonas Harding Hospital, and his
fiancee Gladys Drew. "Grandie," Dr. Ruth-
erford's grandfather, who now owns old
Hillhigh House, which was built by the
Hardings, invites them to a picnic there.
WHEN LaRue had first sug-
gested the cook-out at
Hillhigh House, she had
been doubtful of its success. But
Erma and Joel — to say nothing
about Connie — were so delighted
and surprised by the prospect of
their father accompanying them,
that they could not do enough to
help.
Though he didn't speak of it,
LaRue knew that Herb was still
frightened by the thought of leaving
the house in his chair. She knew
his shyness at being seen by his
friends and neighbors. She knew
his courage in deciding to go!
LaRue admired her brother-in-
law for that courage. She knew that
his love for his children had over-
shadowed his fear. But she knew
that deep inside he cringed at the
thought of what he would have to
face.
The children, however, did not
guess. They were glad, happy, too
excited to look for hidden mean-
ings in their father's actions.
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Connie had written carefully
printed notes on some flowered
stationery she had found, and had
sent them off to Dr. Alan, to
Gladys, Grandie, Janice, and Bob.
She had even sent one to Eddie
Parrat and had propped one up out-
side of Atlast's little dog house.
'Tve been teaching him to be-
have when I put him on his leash,''
explained Connie dubiously, "but
he's not very polite. He runs away
all the time, dragging his leash be-
hind him." As though she hated
to criticize her little pet, she added
hurriedly, ''It's only because he's
not used to a leash that he acts that
way. Aunt LaRue."
"I'm sure he'll be properly
trained by the time we go to Hill-
high House," LaRue assured her,
smilingly, but deep inside, she was
not entirely sure that the little tan
and white dog would take graciously
to his collar and leash. "At least,
darling, you can be sure he can't
find any very naughty mischief to
get into at Hillhigh House. There's
plenty of space in which to run."
Connie was comforted. She
didn't give up trying, however, and
when it was time to get ready, she
carefully packed Atlast's leash.
There were sundry other things
that she and Janice packed in order
to set up proper housekeeping for
their dolls; and when they were
ready, Joel clapped his hands to his
head and guffawed loudly.
"We look more like we're mov-
ing, than just going to a cook-out,"
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he declared, surveying all the fold- ''Of course not/' cried Erma ve-
ing chairs, the table and grill, the hemently. Then with more gentle-
picnic basket, and all the other ness: ''If there are any Harding
things that they were to take along, ghosts at Hillhigh House, they are
'It's good that Dr. Alan is calling all very nice ones. Grandie knew
for Dad. What with his chair and most of them, and he always tells
everything. . . ." He caught a quick, such kind stories about them. Fm
sidelong glance of his father's face, sure they were wonderful people."
and shouted at Eddie: "Grab some- LaRue saw Bob Powers beaming
thing, man. Don't just stand there at Erma, and she remembered how
with your tongue hanging out, sharp Erma's reply might once have
thinking about all that chicken." been to a thoughtless brother,
LaRue was relieved to see that frightening little girls with stories
in the bustle the boys made packing of ghosts.
the back of the car, Herb's color She's improving, LaRue told her-
had a chance to come back before self happily; and found that they
Dr. Alan, with Gladys in the front had reached their goal,
seat and Grandie in the back, lifted There were so many eager hands
Herb's chair into his car. to help with the unpacking and get-
LaRue, watching the shadows ting settled, that there was more
creep into Herb's face, grew worried, confusion than order, there under
'Terhaps I shouldn't have ... yes the old willow, on the brick patio.
. . . forced Herb to come," she told They arranged folding chairs,
herself fearfully. "If anything should tables, the grill, and the special
happen. . . ." But she turned that aluminum-and-nylon chaise lounge
thought away as Joel shouted for which Gladys had insisted on bring-
her to hurry. ing for her very own benefit in the
pool of shade cast by the great tree.
'T*LIEY laughed and chatted and Dr. Alan had made a huge chef's
made fun of their two-car cara- hat out of white paper. When he
van as it advanced up the steep tipped it over his dark hair and
road to Hillhigh House. waved his scepter — a long barbe-
Joel got quite a laugh as he re- cue fork for turning the chicken —
membered something his father had they all declared him 'The Ruler of
said. "Stately carriages, and spirit- the Feast."
ed horses were never like this!" he Grandie was happy to be with
declared, giving Eddie a great thump Erma and Bob, strolling over the
against his shoulder. 'Til bet the grounds, pointing out the old rock
clustered ghosts of long-gone Hard- spring house, which had once served
ings are staring down at us with the Hardings and the Rutherfords
disapproval in their . . . eyes?" as a natural refrigerator where round
Everybody laughed, but Connie pans of milk had been set until they
was worried. "There aren't any were golden with thick, sweet cream
ghosts in the daytime, are there, for the table.
Aunt LaRue?" She clutched at Janice and Connie made a fabu-
Janice's arm as she waited for an lous playhouse with bits of white
answer, and both small faces were stone, and a carpet of dried leaves,
pale. Atlast, unconfined by his collar
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and leash, thumped the dust, from
what they had decided was the front
porch, with his tail, until Connie
spoke firmly about the trouble of
housekeeping with a small dog.
Then he curled his paws under him
and dozed, keeping one ear well
cocked to hear what his young
mistress was up to.
Joel and Eddie climbed ancient
apple trees, but Herb sat in his
wheelchair, tense , shaken by his
journey to the old house. While
Dr. Alan turned the chicken over
the charcoal in the grill, Gladys
lazed in her chaise lounge and point-
ed towards the activity taking place
at Blue Lake.
'They're getting ready for the
celebration,'' she sighed contentedly,
crossing slim, tanned legs in a pool
of sunshine to add to their tan.
''Why, they are assembling a regular
mountain of steel and wood for the
amusement part of the carnival."
'There's the merry-go-round,"
cried Connie, turning Janice about
so that she could see, too. "I just
love those pink, green, and lavender
horses! I think I'm going to ride
them all!"
Erma turned to Grandie and
smiled. "Will you ride the Ferris
Wheel with Bob and me, Grandie?"
npHE old man slapped his knee
and grinned: "I'll even pay for
the tickets," he assured her teasingly.
Joel and Eddie were disdainful of
merry-go-rounds and Ferris wheels.
"We're going to ride the rocket to
the moon," said Joel, boastfully.
"And the atomic blockbuster. And
the satellite bomb."
Everybody giggled. But LaRue's
eyes were shining as she studied the
tall, dark-haired boy who would
soon be the man his father had once
been.
His head is full of wheels and
wings, she thought eagerly. So is
Eddie's. Boys of that age are me-
chanics. They need things to do
with their hands. They will be
flying those atomic-powered planes
of the future. They'll be riding the
earth satellites. She laughed aloud
at her own wild imaginings.
Glayds, lazily beautiful in a sleeve-
less raspberry-red frock, spoke scorn-
fully. "You can have those things!
I'll take the dancing. I'm going to
buy a new Mexicali frock — blue, I
think — with a cute little bodice
with a V-neck."
She looked to where LaRue was
helping Dr. Alan fry the chicken,
her dress protected with a big apron,
and asked: "What will you wear,
LaRue?"
For all she had told Herb that
she wanted to stay for the Festival,
LaRue had not consciously made
any plans. She remembered the
dresses she had left hanging in the
neat clothes closet back in San
Francisco and wished she had
brought something very special. But
she shook her head a bit ruefully.
"My yellow, I guess. It's not
new, but it's the only nice thing I
brought with me. Maybe it's a
little plain for. . . ."
"They wear anything. Aunt La-
Rue," said Erma quickly. "I'm sure
your yellow will be all right."
LaRue turned a piece of chicken,
saying thoughtfully: "I'll wear it,
if I go."
Dr. Alan waved a chicken leg
at the end of his barbecue fork.
He wore a dish towel to protect his
gray slacks, and his paper hat was
rakishly tilted over his twinkling
eyes.
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''Of course you're going. Even ly, fearing the floor might let her
if Gladys and I have to drag through, but Grandie laughed at
you. . . ." the idea.
''Dr. Alan Rutherford!'' It was 'This house was built to last,
Grandie's voice rising indignantly. Gladys." He led them up the
"Is that any way to invite a young curved staircase to the second floor,
lady to dance?" He gave his grand- LeRue peeped into the dormer-
son a withering glance, and bowed windowed bedrooms where so many
formally to LaRue. "Miss Harding," Hardings had slept. Then they
he asked most politely, "may I have went up a short staircase to the attic
the pleasure of escorting you to the where some lovely old furniture was
Founding Festival? Perhaps I'm not ranged against the rafters,
quite up to the jitterbug, but I'll be LaRue watched Erma's face as
glad to try." she and Bob walked about. The
LaRue's face was merry, her voice girl's hand went out to touch the
choked, but her acceptance was very old rosewood piano, and it gave off
formal. a sweet, mellowed tone. Erma's
"I'd be honored, Grandie. Very, eyes were shining. "I wish I'd come
very honored. Thank you. We can here with Mother," she said softly,
sit out the jitterbug." "No wonder she loved these things.
Everybody laughed then and scram- I can just see them in their proper
bled for their places as Dr. Alan an- place downstairs."
nounced that the chicken was ready. LaRue could see them, too. But
It was heaped on a large platter, Gladys sniffed daintily. "I'll take
crisp, golden brown, and it smelled modern," she said haughtily. "I
so delicious that Atlast took up his don't care for old things." She drew
place near Connie, where she could her skirt out of danger from dust,
surreptitiously feed him on bits of and caught possessively at Dr.
skin. Alan's arm, as they all trooped
down the stairs and back into the
"lyi ORE than once during the meal, shadow of the willow tree.
LaRue saw Herb's hand go Almost shyly, Joel begged, "If
out, offering Atlast a tidbit. They you're not too tired, Grandie, would
sat there, watching the workmen you show us the old car?"
build peppermint-striped booths Grandie looked into Joel's face,
along the shores of Blue Lake. 0th- and said brightly, "Not a bit tired."
er men were setting up frames for His eyes twinkled as he led the boys
the fireworks on a small island, to the garage which had once been
They ate until they could not hold a carriage house. "We used to call
another bite. Then they packed 'em Tin Lizzies, but they got us
away the remains of the feast and there, and back/"
followed Grandie for a tour of the They disappeared in the dusty
old house. garage. Gladys sighed and relaxed
LaRue had never been inside, yet, on the chaise lounge with Dr. Alan
somehow, she felt as if she belonged, sitting cross-legged on the patio be-
lt was very run-down, yet beautiful side her. Herb's chair was nearby,
and gracious. Gladys walked ginger- and LaRue settled into a chair not
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too far away. She remembered
about Mrs. Lawson's babv. She
asked Dr. Alan how things were
coming along.
'Tine/' he said, but his dark eyes
were somber, ''but the little scamp
seems determined to arrive a little
early." They talked about babies
for a moment, then Dr. Alan turned
to Herb. "Have you made up your
mind about going to the hospital?
Dr. Frame and I feel sure that the
new techniques in nerve opera-
tions. . . y
He was explaining them earnestly
when Gladys moved restlessly and
raised her voice. "Darling, must
you always talk shop? We're hav-
ing a holiday!"
Dr. Alan's voice hung in the air
in the middle of a word. LaRue
saw the hot flush that mounted to
his forehead. But he said: 'Tor-
give me, Gladys. Sometimes I for-
get that the thought of operations
makes you ill. I'll promise to re-
member."
Gladys gave LaRue a wry little
pout. "I can't stand the thought
of ... of ... ." She shivered, said
bluntly: "I suppose I shouldn't want
to marrv a doctor. But after we're
married, Alan can keep his office
and his home separate."
AN embarrassed silence followed
her words. LaRue knew that
Alan was glad to see Joel racing to-
wards them. Joel's face was alight
with pleasure. He went straight to
his father.
'That's some car, Dad! Grandie
says it will be all right if Eddie and
I try to make it run." He hesitated.
"I'm afraid my allowance. . . ."
"I'll give you the money," said
Grandie quickly.
Joel shook his head. "I couldn't
take it." Then, as Grandie began to
speak about loaning him the money,
his head shook more vehemently
than ever. "Dad doesn't approve
of kids going into debt."
Grandie considered, scratching his
head. "Maybe you could work it
out." He glanced about. "No won-
der this house hasn't sold. If
the lawns were cut, the shrubs
trimmed. . . ."
Joel and Eddie w^ere grinning
widely as they shook the old man's
wrinkled hand. "It's a bargain!"
Erma, standing at Bob's side,
spoke experimentally: "Maybe I
could fix things inside. A little
soap and water would do wonders.
Bob could do the ladder work. . . ."
Grandie was beaming. "Fll get
a brand new FOR SALE sign." He
gave his grandson a keen little
glance. "Now that that's settled,
we might as well talk about that
house Gladys wants to build in
Maple Park. . . ."
Dr. Alan interrupted quickly:
"We haven't quite made up our
minds. I realize that I could make
a lot of money, if I had my own
office. But tiie thought of that
new children's wing keeps running
through my mind, and. . . ."
Before he could finish, Gladys
said loudly: "Thanks, Grandie. I
know exactly what I'd like the house
to look like. I've been going over
all the modern magazines. I even
know where I'm going to place the
furniture."
Her words were so definite that
Dr. Alan flushed again, paiafully.
But Joel was shouting for Connie
and Janice to pack their dolls. Every-
one was relieved to have something
to do.
Connie and Janice ran eagerly
[Coniinvitd on page 339)
Magazine Honor Roll For 1958
Counselor Marianne C. Sharp
nPHE General Board congratulates of valuable knowledge, enjoyment^
stake and ward, mission and and growth, but she also deprives
branch Relief Society Magazine rep- her family, for as a mother gains
resentatives, with their respective saving knowledge, the benefit is felt
presidencies, for their sustained ef- by her family in her enhghtened at-
forts in 1958, which resulted in an titude and the added information
all-time high of 1 57,070 subscriptions she imparts to them,
to The Relief Society Magazine. There is a great responsibility
This is an increase of 6,182 over attached to the calling of a Maga-
1957. This large increase reflects zine representative to convert Lat-
earnest and zealous work on the part ter-day Saint women to subscribe
of Magazine representatives and an and read the Magazine. In addi-
awareness on the part of Relief So- tion to selling a year's subscription^
ciety members of the worth of The the Magazine representative may
Relief Society Magazine in their lives continue her interest in the sister
and the desire to have it in their to see that she is receiving and en-
homes to be read by their family joying the Magazine. With new
members. Letters constantly come subscribers, especially, she can in-
to the General Board in which quire if they have read certain
young mothers state that their articles and show a continued sister-
mothers always had the Magazine ly interest.
in their homes and how much it With all the means of instruction
means to them now to have the and entertainment offered today, a
Magazine in their own homes. Latter-day Saint woman must be se-
With over 193,000 members of lective and Relief Society has the
Relief Society, we find that the sub- responsibility to point out the bene-
scription number equals 81% of fits to be found in The Relief So-
the membership. However, since ciety Magazine, to bring an aware-
many non-Relief Society members ness that the entire contents reflect
subscribe to The Relief Society and are in harmony with the prin-
Magazine, the percentage of Relief ciples of the gospel. The Relief
Society members is probably not Society Magazine combines ma-
that high. There is a great differ- terial on the varied aspects of the
ence in the growth that can come life of a Latter-day Saint woman as
to two Relief Society members liv- does Relief Society itself. As Relief
ing side by side who attend Relief Society is a unique organization in
Society meetings together where one all the world, so the Relief Society
reads and studies the Magazine con- Magazine is unique among maga-
tents and the other does not. There zincs for women,
is a whole area of influence and As in the homes, so in stakes, cer-
knowledge which remains closed to tain patterns are set. In some stakes
the one sister. It is a closed book, high goals of achievement are set
Not only does she deprive herself and attained. The realization of
Page 325
326 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1959
them becomes the pattern of the of the Western States Mission
stake. This is attested by the fact achieved the high percentage of 220.
that year after year many of the Special commendation is extended
same stakes remain with the highest to these organizations.
percentages. Some new stakes at- t ^o 4.1, . i
f . T . ? 1 r XT, • -u • Iri iQt;8, there were 72 stakes
tarn hi2n goals from their begm- i ^ Z j erf j
X.. ^ T 111- which had 100% or over, and ig
nines. Others show remarkable gains .i • i,--un j-u- j
? • . • i.1 • • 1 stakes in which all wards achieved
and maintain their increased per- 0/ t-t, 1. ^
rv-x, r> 1 -n J 100% or over. 1 here are 247 stakes
centaees. Ihe General Board li, i, n i • i, •
^ if ^T_ r M A^ on the honor roll which is an in-
watches the progress ot the Maga- r i . t-i
, • x- • XT- XT K.1 crease ot 27 over last year. There
zine subscriptions in the stakes with „ ^ ^ ■, xi, t, h
1 . ^ X £ T xT, X r ar^ i?Qi2 wards on the honor roll,
keen interest, teehng that it mem- . ^ r o 1 x
T T- T- 1 1 x 1 xT an increase ot co over last year,
bers subscribe, read, and study the rpi /c • • .1, v
^ ^ .^ . ' .' J. ^. ^r ^. there are 16 missions on the honor
contents it is some indication ot the n i ^ o -u i,
, ^ ^1 ^1 1 ^1 • roU and K2q branches,
progress and strength they and their -^^
beloved Relief Society are gaining. The General Board extends its
For the twelfth consecutive year warmest thanks and appreciation to
South Los Angeles has the highest every Magazine representative whose
percentage— 222%. South Gate unselfish service has enriched the
Ward of South Los Angeles Stake lives of her sisters. Magazine repre-
again leads the wards and has a per- sentatives will be blessed for their
centage of 323%. The Western efforts, for The Relief Society Maga-
States Mission leads the missions zine may exert a great persuasive
with 114%. The highest percent- power for good with its readers and,
age of a mission district was achieved through magnifying their callings,
by the West North Dakota District Magazine representatives have per-
of the West Central States Mission formed a service and been the means
with a percentage of 127. Sidney of bringing enlightenment into
Branch of the Scottsbluff District countless lives.
cHonors for crtighest LKatings
Stake
South Los Angeles (California) 222%
Magazine Representative — Edna C. Stoutsenberger
Ward
South Gate Ward, South Los Angeles Stake (California) 323%
Magazine Representative — Bertha Whitehead
Mission
Western States Mission — 114%
Mission Relief Society Magazine Representative — Daisy R. Romney
Mission District
West North Dakota District, West Central States Mission — 127%
Magazine Representative — Viola Willmore
Mission Branch
Sidney Branch — 220%
Scottsbluff District, Western States Mission
Magazine Representative — ^Jean Goodell
MAGAZINE HONOR ROLL FOR 1958
327
Ten Highest Percentages in Stakes
South Los Angeles 222. ...Edna C. Stoutsenberger
Glendale 182. ...Elsie Weber
Burley 134.. ..Virginia Nichols
Rexburg 131.... Beth Moore
Inglewood 130.... Janet C, Medina
New York i24....Thyra Stoddard
North Idaho Falls i23....Eva J. Wilkins
Monterey Bay 122.... Lena Millitt
Oquirrh i20....Earlean W. McGee
Albuquerque 117.. ..Delia S. Miller
Missions Achieving Ten Highest Percentages
Western States 114.. ..Daisy R. Romney
Northwestern States i02....Effie K. Driggs
Northern California 101. ...Hazel S. Love
Canadian 101. ...Leah H. Lewis
Central States 94.. ..Peggy B. Sears
California 93....Lela L. Udall
West Central States 9i....Lucille R. Mills
Eastern States 89... .Florence S. Jacobsen
Great Lakes 86....Vonda H. Christensen
New England 86.. ..Alberta S. Baker
Ten Stakes With Highest Number oi Suhsciiptions
South Los Angeles
Glendale
North Davis
Ensign
Highland
No.
Subscriptions
2657
1258
979
947/2
946
South Salt Lake
North Idaho Falls
East Los Angeles
West Pocatello
Burley
No.
Sabscriptions
943
938
880
880
860
Ten Missions With Highest Number of Subscriptions
Eastern States
Central States
Northwestern States
Great Lakes
Central Atlantic
No.
Subscriptions
1061
959
942
934
898
Northern States
West Central States
Southern States
Western States
East Central States
No.
Subscriptions
885
846
720
707
692
Stakes in Which All the
American Falls Enid W, Thornton
Burley Virginia Nichols
East Long Beach ....Margaret Bryan
East Sharon Edna M. Hansen
Glendale Elsie Weber
Holladay Lucille B. Crowther
Inglewood Janet C. Medina
Kansas City Venna T. Witbeck
Monument Park ....Sara Stone
North Davis Thora A. Martin
Wards Achieved 100% or over
Norwalk Lorraine T. Brewer
Phoenix North Rose Openshaw
Pocatello Verna Gridley
Reseda Billie June Jube
Seattle Laura C. Bronner
Shelley Merle Young
So. Idaho Falls Violet K. Jaussi
So. Los Angeles Edna C. Stoutsen-
berger
South Salt Lake Hannah Dietrich
328
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1959
i/lission LPercentages on uionor LKoii
Western States
Northwestern States
Northern Cahfornia
Canadian
Central States
Cahfornia
114
102
lOl
101
94
93
West Central States 91
Eastern States 89
Great Lakes 86
New England 86
Western Canadian 86
North Central States
Northern States
Gulf States
East Central States
Central Atlantic
(b takes by[ Lrercentages — /pj^
84
83
79
77
76
South Los Angeles
222
Reseda
104
Los Angeles
98
Glendale
182
San Fernando
104
Santa Monica
98
Burley
134
North Davis
103
Columbia River
97
Rexburg
131
Blackfoot
103
West Utah
97
Inglewood
130
Bonneville
103
Bountiful North
97
New York
124
Uintah
103
East Millcreek
97
North Idaho Falls
123
San Diego East
103
Great Falls
97
Monterey Bay
122
San Francisco
102
Portneuf
97
Oquirrh
120
Santa Ana
102
Cache
97
Albuquerque
117
San Bernardino
102
Emigration
97
Long Beach
115
West Pocatello
102
Grand Junction
96
Shelley
115
Highland
102
Kolob
96
San Joaquin
115
Tacoma
102
Sacramento
96
St. Louis
113
Woodruff
102
Cottonwood
96
Holladay
113
Malad
101
Atlanta
96
Cassia
112
St. Joseph
101
North Box Elder
96
East Sharon
112
Calgary
101
Sevier
96
Gridley
112
Rigby
101
Olympus
95
Seattle
112
Mt. Graham
101
Bakersfield
95
Burbank
111
Palo Alto
101
Granger
95
Redondo
111
East Phoenix
100
Lake Mead
95
San Diego
110
Twin Falls
100
North Jordan
95
East Long Beach
109
Liberty
100
Oakland-Berkeley
95
Boise
109
Sugar House
100
Ashley
95
Norwalk
109
Union
100
Wasatch
95
Phoenix North
109
North Rexburg
100
Orlando
95
Portland
109
Wilford
100
Granite
95
Covina
108
West Boise
100
Franklin
95
Bear River
108
Raft River
99
Ensign
94
Kansas City
108
Pasadena
99
North Seattle
94
North Pocatello
108
Moapa
99
North Tooele
94
Monument Park
107
Cincinnati
99
Santa Rosa
94
Weber Heights
107
Humboldt
99
Park
94
Las Vegas
107
Weiser
99
Rose Park
94
South Idaho Falls
107
South Bear River
99
Lake View
94
Minidoka
107
Temple View
99
Young
93
Pocatello
106
Grant
99
Idaho
93
Bountiful
106
Nampa
98
Mt. Rubidoux
93
Idaho Falls
106
Monument Park West g8
Orange County
93
American Falls
106
Juarez
98
Valley View
93
South Salt Lake
105
Yellowstone
98
South Summit
93
Provo
105
East Rigby
98
Reno
92
Taylor
105
Wells
98
Panguitch
92
South Box Elder
105
East Mesa
98
Hayward
92
MAGAZINE HONOR ROLL FOR 1958
329
STAKES BY PERCENTAGES (Continued)
Nyssa
Bannock
Washington
East Provo
Kanab
Zion Park
Mesa
Phoenix
Southern Arizona
Spanish Fork
Maricopa
Mt. Jordan
Sharon
Ogden
North Sevier
Lethbridge
Millcreek
Taylorsville
Big Horn
Palmyra
South Blackfoot
Riverdale
Juab
Mt. Logan
Tooele
Star Valley
Tucson
University
Springville
St. George
Yuma
Nebo
New Orleans
Dallas
Virginia
San Luis
St. Johns
Butte
Detroit
Denver
South Davis
East Jordan
Kearns
Chicago
Salt Lake
South Ogden
Cedar
92
92
92
92
91
91
91
91
91
91
91
90
90
90
90
90
89
89
89
89
89
89
89
87
87
87
87
87
86
86
86
86
86
86
86
86
86
86
85
85
85
85
Salmon River
Spokane
Uvada
Willamette
Alberta
Benson
Lehi
Teton
Parowan
Roosevelt
Blaine
Oneida
Timpanogos
Montpelier
Walnut Creek
Millard
East Cache
Deseret
Lost River
Ben Lomond
West Jordan
El Paso
Grand Coulee
Pioneer
Garfield
Emery
Fresno
Gooding
San Antonio
North Weber
Florida
San Mateo
North Carbon
Bear Lake
South Carolina
Flagstaff
Carbon
Mt. Ogden
Riverside
East Los Angeles
Wayne
Beaver
Davis
Klamath
San Juan
Alpine
Murray
85
85
85
85
84
84
84
84
84
84
83
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83
83
l^
82
82
82
82
82
81
81
81
81
80
80
80
80
79
79
79
79
79
79
79
78
78
78
78
78
77
77
77
77
77
77
Murray South
Richland
Logan
North Sacramento
San Luis Obispo
Duchesne
East Ogden
Smithfield
Utah
Weber
Snowflake
North Sanpete
Lorin Farr
Bountiful South
Hillside
Santaquin-Tintic
Orem West
Summit
Grantsville
Midvale
Farr West
South Sanpete
Missoula
Gunnison
Hyrum
San Jose
Morgan
Houston
Lewiston
Lyman
Orem
Layton
Nevada
Canyon Rim
South Sevier
Honolulu
Cannon
Moroni
Shreveport
Kearns North
Santa Barbara
Oahu
Brigham Young
University*
Utah State University*
* (Limited Participation
77
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74
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65
64
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1959
MISSIONS ON THE HONOR ROLL-1958
Relief Society
California
Canadian
Central Atlantic States
Central States Mission
East Central States
Eastern States
Great Lakes
Gulf States
New England
North Central States
Northern California
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When (jb.
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ment
No.
Pet.
Representative
466
434
93
Lela L. Udall
627
632
101
Leah H. Lewis
1175
898
76
Lovell W. Smith
1024
959
94
Peggy B. Sears
895
692
77
Marie C. Richards
1194
1061
89
Florence S. Jacobsen
1084
934
86
Vonda H. Christensen
503
395
79
Emma A. Hanks
770
660
86
Alberta S. Baker
593
497
84
Diana F. Child
550
557
101
Hazel S. Love
1065
885
83
Vera C. Stratford
928
942
102
Effie K. Driggs
926
846
91
Lucille R. Mills
653
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Lila A. Ara\e
618
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Daisy R. Romney
?serts {jDioofn
in J^nzona
Ruth H. Chadwick
The rains had come to bathe the desert land
And soothe and quench the burning pangs of thirst.
The cooling raindrops washed the barren sand
And gave new life to dying things they nursed.
Revived, the plants in grateful recompense
Stirred the inner powers God gave to them —
Creation's need impelling confidence
To bring forth flower and seed upon the stem.
The white-belled yuccas raised their hooded heads
While yellow-misted Palo Verde trees,
Beside the plumes of ocotillo reds,
Wafted desert sweetness on the breeze.
The rains again had triumphed over gloom;
A glorious sight — the desert was in bloom!
FROM THE FIELD
Hulda. Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Handbook oi Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Mona H. Kirkham
COLUMBIA RIVER STAKE (OREGON), PORTLAND SIXTH WARD, PRE-
SENTS "SOME PURITAN WOMEN" FOR LITERATURE LESSON
Left to right: Margaret Garlock, representing Mary Rowlandson; Elita Lind as
Sarah Kemble Knight; Barbara Gilbert as Anne Hutchinson; Sharon Sims as Anne Brad-
street.
Mona H. Kirkham, President, Columbia River Stake Relief Society, reports:
"Costumes were made by the sisters, and the program was conducted by having the
sisters interviewed so as to bring in their biographies, and then each one gave some of
the poetry written by the Puritan woman she represented. We were happy to have
Sharon Sims representing Anne Bradstreet. She was the model who posed for the
painting of Anne Bradstreet which comes in the Brigham Young University literature
packet for this year. Sharon is a convert to the Church and lives in our stake. She is
active in Relief Society and was glad to wear her beautiful turquoise silk dress which
was used in the original painting. The hterature leader in the Sixth Ward is Lorraine
Silcox, and the stake literature leader is Ruth S. Smith."
Page 335
336
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1959
Photograph submitted by Hazel S. Love
NORTHERN CALIFORNIA MISSION, MENDOCINO DISTRICT SINGING
MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR DISTRICT CONFERENCE
Front row, left to right: Mission Relief Society President Agnes Mae Pace; Clara
Wolfe; Jeanette Allen; Jean D. Porter; Hazel S. Love, President, Northern California
Mission Relief Society; Katherine Davis; Grace Jones; Melba Scalmanini; Alma Grover.
Second row, left to right: Mildred Cloud; Phyllis Southwick; Donna Gardner;
Lucy Shupe; LaVaun Kinderknecht; Esther Mason; Lenna Hill; Pearl Evans; Lee March.
Third row, left to right: Anna Sundman; Eloise Lewis; Ida Middleton; Elsie Chris-
tensen; Almida Britton.
Sister Love reports: 'This picture was taken at the last District Conference held
in the Mendocino District. At this conference the Singing Mothers furnished all the
music for the conference and, although this district is small, they did an outstanding job,
and we were very proud of them."
'mhiImK
Photograph submitted by Gwen J. Miner
LOGAN STAKE (UTAH) RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, November 23, 1958
Front row, left to right, in dark dresses: Mira Baker, violinist; Agusta Bailey,
conductor; Alta Robinson, pianist; Virginia Rigby, organist.
Second row, third from the left: Mildred Meikle, Second Counselor, Logan Stake
Relief Society.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
337
Back row, seventeenth from the left: Lorna Bingham, Stake Secretary-Treasurer;
eighteenth from the left: Gwen Miner, President, Logan Stake Relief Society,
Sister Miner reports: "This chorus, made up of ninety-seven members from the
Singing Mothers groups from the wards, furnished music for both sessions of the
Logan Stake Quarterly Conference, held November 23d. The chorus was directed by
the stake Relief Society chorister Agusta Bailey, with stake organist Alta Robinson at
the piano."
Photograph submitted by Blanche S. George
MILLARD STAKE (UTAH), FILLMORE SECOND WARD
RELIEF SOCIETY SEWING CLASS
Left to right: Ilene Cooper, President; Lona Huntsman; Ulala Mace; Gladys
Warner; Mae Davies; Hortense Peterson; Leona Rickenbach, First Counselor and in-
structor in sewing; Ireta Bartholomew.
Absent when the picture was taken were Nellie Lambert, Laura Phelps, Judy
Melville, and Beth Whatcott.
Blanche S. George, President, Millard Stake Relief Society, reports: "The eight
women pictured above are beaming with satisfaction after completion of a sewing
course in the Fillmore Second Ward Relief Society. Classes started Monday morning,
January 26th, 1959, and continued through the week, with some of the women finishing
up that week. Sister Rickenbach, the instructor, gave much valuable assistance in
mastering the basic steps in sewing that were incorporated into a new 'Sunday dress'
which each woman completed. The women were so pleased with their handiwork
that already they are talking about another class."
338
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1959
Photograph submitted by Laura Shimp
SOUTH LOS ANGELES STAKE (CALIFORNIA) RETIRING PRESIDENT
ROSE B. ASTLE HONORED AT RECEPTION AFTER THIRTEEN
YEARS OF LEADERSHIP
Left to right: Rose B. Astle, retiring President; Laura Shimp, former First Coun-
selor, now newly appointed President; Alta Davis, former Second Counselor, now First
Counselor; Cula Magnussen, former Secretary-Treasurer, and now newly appointed
Secretary -Treasurer,
Sister Shimp reports: "In honor of the thirteen years of outstanding and devoted
leadership of Rose B. Astle, a delightful reception was held at the South Los Angeles
Stake Center by the Relief Society Stake Board members. In the receiving line with
Sister Astle were Laura Shimp, May Hodge (also a counselor for nine years); Alta
Davis, and Dorothy Rasmussen. The motif was the rose; gorgeous bouquets graced
the lounge. Refreshments were served to more than two hundred callers. A book of
memories, called 'Tetals of the Past" was presented to Sister Astle by her last board
members. Featured in the book were individual photos, each mounted on a rose,
of the six counselors, two secretaries, and thirty-four board members, and sixty-eight
ward presidents who served during the fruitful years that Sister Astle served as stake
Relief Society president. Sister Astle has always been an ardent Church worker, always
willing to go the extra mile. A sincere tribute for her untiring service was beautifully
expressed by William Noble Waite, former stake president, under whom she served
for many years."
cJhe cJeinpie
Winona F. Thomas
The temple stands in glory on a hill
Where its beneficence endows my soul
With myriad blessings that I might fulfill
My God-set mission and my self-set goal.
The Silver Leash
(Continued from page 324)
about, Atlast barking at their heels.
After a few minutes, Connie scolded
him.
''Nobody can pack with all that
noise. Now I want you to be a
good dog. Fm going to put on
your leash." She slipped on his
collar, fastened the leash and, as
usual, he jerked it from her hands
and went scampering across the
patio.
His leash tangled in the wheels of
Herb's chair. The little dog was
terrified to find it flying after him
down the long slope. He ran faster
in spite of Connie's cries.
They watched in horror as the
chair made its swift descent towards
the busy highway. Gladys screamed
shrilly and covered her eyes. It
seemed eons before Joel, racing after
the reeling chair, caught and stopped
it. Atlast, free of the spinning
wheels, returned penitently to Con-
nie's side.
LaRue found her face streaked
with remorseful tears. ''Oh, Herb,
it was my fault. I shouldn't have
made you come. I. . . /'
He quieted her with a gentle ges-
ture as Connie flung her arms about
his neck, crying: "Ah, Daddy, I'm
so glad you're all right. I love you
so much." She kissed him tenderly.
Erma kissed him, too, shyly. Joel
shook hands in a fine, grown up
manner, which made his father's
face glow with pride.
He circled them in his arms. "I
love you, too, my darlings."
It was a simple statement, but it
held more than words could express.
He lifted his head and met Dr.
Alan's eyes. "A few minutes ago
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1959
NORTHWESTERN TOURS
Leave July 1st for Portland Centennial
Tour via Columbia River Highway.
Leave July 15th for Portland Centen-
nial via Banff and Lake Louise, etc.
HAWAII
This beautiful tour leaves Salt Lake
City, Utah, on Saturday, July 11,
1959. Fly via United Air Lines from
Los Angeles. Visit all four Islands.
HISTORIC TRAIN
The original Historic Train leaves Fri-
day evening, July 31, 1959, Salt Lake
City, Utah, at 5:00 p.m.
See Nauvoo, Carthage, Kirtland,
Sharon, Vermont, etc., and witness
the HILL CUMORAH PAGEANT.
Historic Bus leaves Salt Lake City on
August 1st.
For free folders write or phone:
VIDA FOX CLAWSON
216 South 13th East
Sal Lake City 2, Utah
Phone DA 8-0303
Mason & Hamlin
The Stradivari of Pianos
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I would have given my life to walk.
Fm no longer afraid. My children
need me. Fll go to the hospital
whenever you say."
LaRue could feel Herb's love
binding his children closer. She
rememberd that Amelia had said
that love could never die. Amelia's
love lived within her children. Herb
had found it again. He would nev-
er be lonely, alone. He was una-
fraid. . . .
{To be continued)
(bpnng s (golden ti/^o
Grace Ingles Fiost
Spring has woven a golden web
And spread it over eardi;
It matters not which way I look.
Of it, there is no dearth.
All that was lost of loveliness.
To winter's chill embrace,
Is re-endowed with beauty
By spring's effulgent grace.
(bun in [JoL
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Eva Willes Wangsgaard
Oh, do you know the Doronicum —
The early daisy that holds the sun
Of all the goldenness born of petal,
Of summer sun, and precious metal.
Its gleaming radii purest yellow?
Uncertain air is bound to mellow,
And every corner the daffodils
Have left unsunned this daisy fills
With radiant rising suns of gold
Till spring is set in a sunny mold.
Dr. Crawford Gates, composer, and Dr. Harold I. Hansen, director, study model of
gigantic stage.
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A Spectacular Musical Play
Based on the Mormon Battalion
May 29, 30, June 1, 2, 3
BYU Stadium
Adults $1.50 Children $1.00
On a stage nearly as long as the football field, this gigantic show will present top
vocal and dramatic leads, supported by a cast of 700. Thrilling music is all original.
Choreography by Eugene Loring. Sound by Dr. Harvey Fletcher.
Get tickets from your bishop, stake president, or word representative
or write directly to:
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PROVO-UTAH
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Hope to see
Brigham Young University
Leadership Week
Workshops, lectures, and demonstrations especially
designed to aid Relief Society Sisters
• Theology Lesson Helps
(Doctrine & Covenants)
• Social Science Lesson
Helps
• Literature Lesson Helps
• Work Day Ideas
* Religion and Genealogy
Classes
* Bazaar Ideas
Helps for Home Life
And many other features
June 6-10, 1959
Prove, Utah
Clip and Mail
Last Nome First
Middle
Home Address City
State
Stake or Mission Year of Birth
$2.00 registration fee enclosed, payable to
BYU Extension Services.
HILL CUMORAH
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Leaving Salt Lake City, Utah, July 24,
1959. 23 Days. See Liberty, Carthage,
Nauvoo, Adam-Ondi-Ahman, Kirtland, etc.
Including Chicago, Boston, New York,
Washington, Niagara Falls, and the SONG
OF NORWAY Stage Show.
NORTHWESTERN TOUR
Leaving Salt Lake City, Utah, July 5th,
1959. Including Banff, Lake Louise, Van-
couver, and Victoria.
MESA VERDE
Labor Day weekend tour.
September 5-6-7, 1959.
HAWAIIAN TOUR
Leaving in November.
For Itinerary write or phone:
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460 Seventh Avenue
Salt Lake City 3, Utah
Phone EM 3-5229
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Pleasant Grove, Utah
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Salt Lake City, Utah
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Farmington, Utah
Ninety-two
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San Bernardino, California
Ninety-one
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Salt Lake City, Utah
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Nephi, Utah
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Gridley, California
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Ogden, Utah
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Vernal, Utah
Ninety
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Salt Lake City, Utah
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Salt Lake City, Utah
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June, or July.
Vacation Hawaii — eight days, seven
nights, transportation, hotel accommo-
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SCENIC NORTHWESTERN TOUR
Leaves June 27, 1959. Come join us
on this v/onderful vacation tour.
HISTORICAL TOUR
Leaves August 1, 1959, for the famous
HILL CUMORAH PAGEANT.
DISNEYLAND TOUR
Student tour to Disneyland on August
2d through August 8th. Includes
other sightseeing in California.
For further details write or phone:
MARGARET LUND TOURS
p. O. Box 20
Sugar House Station
Salt Lake City, Utah
Phone
IN 6-2909, AM 2-2339, CR 7-6334
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Who can say this love we share,
Like winged bird, transcending sight,
Ephemeral, like starry night.
Will hnger briefly, then take flight?
He who lifts his hand and sows
Looks to harvest what he grows!
Death the end of everything?
Of poets' words and songs to sing?
Of laughing child; of swift embrace.
And happiness upon the face?
We planned for more than fettered wing,.
Or faded flower, or parting sting.
Because we placed our trust in thee.
We saw beyond mortality.
And looked to span eternity!
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Deluxe hotels. Meals. Sightseeing
trips and cruises. Visit 4 islands,
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leaving regularly.
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Scotland, Norway, Sweden, Den-
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Austria, Switzerland, Italy, Monaco,
San Marino, Lichtenstein. (June and
September departures.)
AMERICAN
HERITAGE TOUR
Along the Mormon Trail — visit
Liberty, Carthage, Nauvoo, Adam-
ondi-Ahman, HILL CUMORAH
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Lesson Previews
JUNE 1959
I fill cJ noughts Jxneel ^Jjown
Elsie McKinnon Strachan
Here in this rose-blown afternoon,
My thoughts kneel down to offer praise
For this, the flowering month of June —
Marked by the chicory's golden blaze,
Marked by the hlac's fragrant gift. . . .
Oh, Father, my grateful thanks for these,
And for music of rivers, songs that lift
From nests and lullabying trees,
For winds that talk in the sun-warm grasses,
For little crickets' toneless voices.
For wild blue asters, and sweetbrier-air;
Oh, thank you, Father, that every\\here
Gladness spills from the joy of living —
Immutable is thy loving — thy giving!
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I really should find more time to write
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in memory into our beautiful Relief So-
ciety Building, . . . How we look forward
to The Relief Society Magazine each
month. I have read every issue from cover
to co\er for the past thirty-five years, but
never before with so much anticipation,
enjoyment, and satisfaction as I have done
since being so far away from headquarters.
It certainly is a medium which brings the
sisters of the world close together. How
beautiful the new covers are! They are
more beautiful than I had dreamed they
could be.
— Velma N. Simonsen
South Australian
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I have just finished reading Amy Viau's
page "About Twilight" in the April issue
of The Rehef Society Magazine. How
lovely it is! A page of pure poetry. Amy
Viau founded the Quill Pen Writers' Club
in Santa Ana; she was also a member and
past president of the Pierian Poetry Club.
She died a few months ago, and we who
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We Santa Ana writers do appreciate and
often mention the high literary standards
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also in the April issue.
— Elsie McKinnon Strachan
Santa Ana, California
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the Magazine — something like a new dress,
after having worn the old a long time.
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life and gives us all encouragement and a
desire for self-improvement,
— Katie Harris Lewis
Malad, Idaho
I would like to express my gratitude for
the story "Unto the Hills," by Helen
Hooper, in the April issue of The Relief
Society Magazine, The mother in that
story was such a wonderful and courageous
person, with such strong faith, I had to
feel ashamed of myself for getting upset
over minor difficulties. That evening when
I read the story to my husband, I could
see that he, too, felt deeply moved by it,
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— Millie Martindale
Bossier City, Louisiana
Thank you for the copy of the splendid
April issue, with its beautiful cover and
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this afternoon. I especially enjoyed "Great
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Page 346
THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford ------- President
Marianne C. Sharp ------ First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen --------- Second Counselor
Hulda Parker ------ Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Aleine M. Young Edith P. Backman Mary V. Cameron
Edith S. Elliott Josie B. Bay V/mniefred S. Afton W. Hunt
Florence J. Madsen Christine H. Robinson Manwaring Wealtha S. Mendenhall
Leone G. Layton Alberta H. Christensen Elna P. Haymond Pearle M. Olsen
Blanche B. Stoddard Mildred B. Eyring Annie M. Ellsworth Elsa T. Peterson
Even W. Peterson Charlotte A. Larsen Mary R. Young Irene B. Woodford
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor ------------ Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor ---------- Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager ---------- Belle S. Spafford
VOL 46 JUNE 1959 NO. 6
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SPECIAL FEATURES
A Tribute to Fathers Florence Jepperson Madsen 348
The Great Lakes Mission Preston R. Nibley 352
More Precious Than Rubies 369
Country Summer Rodello Hunter 373
Green-Willow Days Shirley Sealy 379
Relief Society for Mothers and Daughters Permella Haggard 414
FICTION
Dear Father Mabel Law Atkinson 354
Peach-Tree Poem Frances C. Yost 358
One of Them Christie Lund Coles 374
Granny Will Be Waiting Betty Martin 382
The Ladder of Love Margaret Russell 385
The Silver Leash — Chapter 6 Beatrice Rordame Parsons 391
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 346
Sixty Years Ago 364
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 365
Editorial: The 129th Annual Church Conference Vesta P. Crawford 366
Notes to the Field: Program for the November Fast Sunday Evening Meeting 368
Hymn of the Month — Annual List 368
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 395
Birthday Congratulations 416
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Recipes From the Great Lakes Mission Vonda L. Christensen 371
A Handy Pincushion Elizabeth Williamson 381
A Challenge to Mothers Leona Fetzer Wintch 386
The Wedding-Ring Tree Helen S. WiUiams 388
Carlota de Yalibat's Unique Hobbies 390
The Pansy-Picker Vernessa M. Nagle 401
Lesson Department — Previews for 1959-60
Theology — The Doctrine and Covenants Roy W. Doxey 402
Visiting Teacher Messages — Truths to Live By From the Doctrine and
Covenants Christine H. Robinson 404
Work Meeting — Physical Safety Factors in the Home Charlotte A. Larsen 406
Literature — America's Literature — A New Nation Speaks Briant S. Jacobs 407
Social Science — Spiritual Living in the Nuclear Age Blaine M. Porter 408
Notes on the Authors of the Lessons 411
POETRY
My Thoughts Kneel Down — Frontispiece Elsie McKinnon Strachan 345
The Handcart Child, by Orvene B. Holman, 356; The Superstition Mountain, by Ruth H. Chad-
wick, 357; Lilac's Journey, by Lula Walker, 363; For Grandmothers Who Baby Sit, by Camilla
Woodbury Judd, 370; Heart of a House, by Ethel Jacobson, 372; Blue Morning-Glories, by Josie
B. Bay, 378; The Hummingbird, by Winona Frandsen Thomas, 381; If This Is Peace, by Eva
Willes Wangsgaard, 387; So Thought Unfolds, by Maude Rubin, 389; Heritage, by Viola A.
Cornwall, 390; Where the Gull Goes, by Gwen Marler Barney, 410.
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Page 347
A Tribute to Fathers
Florence Jeppeison Madsen
Member, Relief Society General Board
ANXIOUSLY, we ^^'ait through
the last weeks of chilly wiuter
to greet the lovely, magical
days of spring — days that bring
sunshine and warmth to the earth,
and usher in a newness of life, that
give hopeful signs and promise of
forthcoming prosperity.
No season could be more appro-
priate, nor a month better chosen,
than that of May in which to pay
tribute to our precious mothers. The
very air we breathe is filled with the
fragrance of buds and flowers and
''there is beauty all around."
Father's Day comes in June, the
first month of summer, when days
are longer and warmer, and when
there is a profusion of bloom every-
where. In this choice and pictur-
esque setting, we pay tribute and
honor to our wonderful fathers.
Very early in childhood we are
taught to say the word ''Father,"
and to speak it reverently when offer-
ing our first simple prayers to
Heavenly Father. By this means
we learn to communicate with our
Divine Creator, and to hold sacred
his holy name. Likewise, we learn
to address, or speak of our earthly
father, whose name we bear, with
due esteem and sincere appreciation.
For the Lord hath gi\en the father glory
as touching the children . . . The glory
of a man is from the honour of his Father
(Ecclesiasticus 1:7).
We honor our dear fathers on
their "special" day — and on all
days. We respect and support them
Page 348
in their important position as head
of the family. Among the many
responsibilities that are theirs, we
mention but a few basic ones:
supplying the daily physical and ma-
terial necessities of life; giving di-
rection and guidance to the spiritual
needs of the family; offering support
to community projects; and render-
ing service to the Church.
Fathers who thus assume and
discharge graciously such responsi-
bilities grow in understanding, sym-
pathy, and kindliness. They fulfill
the scriptural injunction to "Gov-
ern your house in meekness, and be
steadfast" (D & C 31:9). These
words of instruction given in a reve-
lation through the Prophet Joseph
Smith to Thomas B. Marsh, in the
year 1830, are as timely and sig-
nificant today as they were then.
Children reared in a home en-
vironment of peace, understanding,
and love are given the opportunity
of developing normal physical,
mental, spiritual, and emotional
strength. This prepares them to
meet and solve, without frustration
and discouragement, many of the
problems they will encounter in
daily life.
Robert Schumann, one of the
world's great composers and critics,
asked this question:
Can we not have our heaven on earth,
if we take a simple, sober view of life, and
are not unreasonable in our demands?
This question might be consid-
A TRIBUTE TO FATHERS
349
ered to be answered by President
David O. McKay in his book,
Gospel Ideals (page 490) as fol-
lows:
I know of no other place than home
where more happiness ean be found in
this life. It is possible to make home a
bit of heaven; indeed, I picture heaven to
be a continuation of the ideal home.
The pattern of righteous living
exemplified by the father is ever a
guiding and determining influence
in the lives of the family members.
His love was like a shelter round us,
A guardian there to bless
The children and the hearth of home
In strength of tenderness. . . .
—V. P. C.
A word picture is drawn in the
preceding lines of one whose name
six children bear, two sons and two
daughters surviving, who honor
their father's name, that of Samuel
Hans Jepperson. The example and
influence of this great man will
always be remembered and treas-
ured.
TN the humble tribute I shall pay
to the memory of my beloved
father, and in the brief sketch high-
lighting characteristics and events in
his life, there will be portrayed a
likeness of other noble fathers who
have walked, or who now walk along
similar paths of worthy endeavor,
and in whom many of the same ad-
mirable qualities are to be found.
The parents of my father, Samuel
Hans Jepperson, heard and accepted
the gospel message in their native
country, Denmark, in the year 1853.
Like many other converts whose
lives had been changed through this
message of truth and light, a desire
burned deep in their hearts to go
to the New Land, America, then on
to Utah, where they could live
among those of the same faith.
After four years of planning,
working, sacrificing, and saving, the
parents with their child, Samuel,
age three, made the long voyage to
America. In Iowa City they joined
the saints, who were being organized
into a handcart company prepara-
tory to making the ''trek" to Utah.
In this hazardous mode of travel
they encountered many hardships
during the three months it took to
make the journey. Nevertheless,
though travel-worn and weary, they
arrived safely in the new Territory.
With undaunted courage and faith,
they went forth to meet the varied
challenges in their new environ-
ment.
Within a year the family moved
into the settlement of Provo, where
a work project was being started and
where there was opportunity for em-
ployment. Growing up, as he did,
in a pioneer settlement, Father
learned early in life to work with
his head, as well as with his hands.
He helped to design and make im-
plements and the pieces of furniture
they needed.
At an early age Father gave evi-
dence of pronounced talent in
music and art. Born with the soul
of an artist, he longed to capture
from nature the beauties of sight
and sound that were all about him,
and to find a medium through
which to reproduce and express
these beauties. But pioneer days
were days of survival; and time and
strength must be spent in grubbing
sagebrush and clearing ground so
crops could be grown.
The years moved on and, al-
though there were yet many of the
family needs that could not be sup-
350
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plied, and frugality must be main-
tained, still, life became a little less
strenuous for them. The ground
was more fertile; crops could be
produced more easily, and there
was, occasionally, a little leisure time
to enjoy.
■pATHER earned his first violin,
when a lad of thirteen. The
gentleman who owned the instru-
ment bargained with the boy to
haul four loads of logs for him
from the canyon in payment for the
very precious violin. Since there
was a lull in the season's work, per-
mission was granted the boy to take
the oxen and wagon. Plans for the
trip were about completed, when
the anxious mother exclaimed, "But,
my boy, you haven't any shoes!" To
a boy whose whole heart was set
on getting a violin, what did shoes
matter? Unafraid, and with jubi-
lant spirit, he went into the canyon,
barefooted, brought out the logs,
and claimed the violin.
We children often wondered how
Father, through those strenuous pio-
neer years, ever kept alive his desire
and inner urge to express his great
talents; however, he did, and his
mature years were rich with the ful-
fillment of his most cherished
dreams.
Father was fortunate and greatly
blessed in the choice of his life's
companion, Minnie Johnson Jepper-
son — our mother. She was tal-
ented, unselfish, and appreciative,
and recognized the many talents and
genius in her husband. No sacrifice
was too great to make, if it promot-
ed his artistic talents and interests.
She was a devoted companion, help-
mate, and inspiration throughout
his life. A woman with a great soul!
Father was by nature a refined
and cultured gentleman. He was
honest, considerate, sympathetic,
and affectionate. Words of criti-
cism or fault-finding were never
voiced by him. He was unselfish,
generous, and appreciative. He
loved his fellow man and was ever
ready to help him. One of the most
outstanding qualities of my father
was his deep-rooted spirituality and
his implicit faith in his Heavenly
Father. In times of sickness and
trouble he knew where to go for
inspiration and help. He had
learned the value and power of
prayer. His talents, including art
and music, were freely used in pro-
moting Church and civic projects.
No call was ever made of him to
which he did not cheerfully respond.
Father had a delightful sense of
humor. He would tell some inter-
ested listener a story about pioneer
days, and, with a twinkle in his eyes,
would end the story by saying, 'The
trek across the plains was very hard,
but I crossed by puJi-man."
n^HE happiest hours of our child-
hood were those spent together
as a family, playing in our home
orchestra, or out on a picnic and
sketching party. As Father went
about looking for a scene to paint,
we children followed along and
made our selections. Sometimes we
complained because the scene we
had chosen was spoiled by a fallen
tree, an old stump, or, perhaps, by
an ugly shed near to it. Smiling at
our complaints. Father would ex-
plain that one can put into a paint-
ing just what he wishes to have
there, and leave the rest out. Life
is much the same, he said.
Through the artist eyes of my
A TRIBUTE TO FATHERS
351
Father, we were taught to see the
inspiring scenic beauties of nature;
to observe and appreciate the color
variations, shapes of shadows and
cloud formations; to enjoy each
seasonal change and to note the
particular splendors peculiar to each
season, namely: winter with its vast
whiteness; spring in its delicate
shades of green; summer with its
deeper pastel colors; and autumn
with its reds, yellows, and gold.
Father possessed great ingenuity.
He could make most anything, from
a toy to a harp. How we loved those
homemade toys, and we learned to
play the harp!
Yes, he developed his musical tal-
ents parallel to those of his art. He
had both a theater and a dance
orchestra, and he organized and con-
ducted the Provo Citv Band for over
thirty years. One of the treasured
and lasting memory pictures of ours
is that of Mother rendering a con-
tralto solo. Father playing the violin
obbligato, and we children accom-
panying them on our various instru-
ments.
Wc love music for . . . the garnered
memories, the tender feelings it can sum-
mon at a touch (L. E. Landon).
Father expressed his art talent,
principally, in the medium of land-
scape painting. Among his paint-
ings are to be found a large variety
of subjects. Of particular signifi-
cance are those of historic interest,
which he re-created from the numer-
ous dramatic stories he heard from
pioneers through the years. Those
of special interest are:
The Handcart Company
The Covered Wagon Train
Fort Provo
The Indian's Happy Hunting Ground
With our walls adorned with his
beautiful art creations, into which
a part of his very soul has gone, he
is ever with us!
Nature, the wonderful handiwork
of God, never ceased being a great
miracle to my father. Much of his
time was spent out in its vast ex-
panse, observing its many wonders
and catching its fleeting moods. To
him it was a very sacred place where
one could go and feel very close to
his Creator.
The words of a friend, Professor
Harrison R. Merrill, regarding my
father are fitting:
But the best thing he did cannot be
counted in money. He was a light shining
in the wilderness to many other artistic
souls who might not, except for him, ever
have been developed. He gave to a raw
and more or less uncouth frontier a little
soul-heat from which whole communities
have been warmed.
Although we can never fully pay
our debt of gratitude to our fathers,
we can pay a little on the interest
over the three hundred and sixty-five
days of the year. Let us revere our
fathers on this special day, and
through our deeds, bring honor to
their names.
Hear, ye children, the instruction of a father, and attend to know understanding.
For I give you good doctrine, forsake ye not my law . . . (Proverbs 4:1-2).
cJhe i^reat JLakes fliission
Preston R. NibJey
Assistant Church Historian
npHE First Presidency announced, on October 14, 1949, the formation of
a new mission, to be known as the Great Lakes Mission. Three states,
Michigan, Indiana, and Ohio, were taken from the Northern States Mission,
to form the new mission. Carl C. Burton of Salt Lake City was chosen
as the first president. Headquarters was established at Ft. Wayne, Indi-
ana, where a new mission home was purchased. The membership in the
new mission was given as 6,563.
The Detroit Stake was organized from the Great Lakes Mission in
November 1952, under the direction of Elders Ezra Taft Benson and
Henry D. Moyle of the Council of the Twelve. Wards were formed in
Detroit, Toledo, Dearborn, Ann Arbor, Pontiac-Royal Oak, Flint, Saginaw-
Midland, and Lansing. Branches included were Jackson and Selfridge,
and also three branches from the Canadian Mission, Windsor, Sarnis,
Chatham.
President Burton was released as president of the Great Lakes Mission
in June 1953, and was succeeded by Lorin L. Richards. President Richards
Courtesy Michigan Tourist Council
Submitted by Vonda L. Christensen
BLOCKHOUSE OF HISTORIC FORT MACKINAC
MACKINAC ISLAND, MICHIGAN
This sentinel of history has kept faithful watch over the Straits of Mackinac
since 1780.
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353
Courtesy Chamber of Commerce
Fort Wayne, Indiana
Submitted by Vonda L. Christensen
STATUE OF GENERAL ANTHONY WAYNE, FORT WAYNE, INDIANA
The city of Fort ^^^avne was named for this general who built the wooden Fort
Wayne which was dedicated in 1794. The place was incorporated as a town in 1829,
and as a city in 1840.
served faithfully until December 1956, when he was succeeded by Ruel E.
Christensen, who presides at the present time.
A second stake, the Cincinnati Stake, was formed from the Great Lakes
Mission in November 1958, under the direction of Elders Mark E. Petersen
and LeGrand Richards of the Council of the Twelve. Wards were formed
in Cincinnati, Dayton, Fairborn, Hamilton, and Springfield, in Ohio, and
Covington, in Kentucky. There are also the Georgetown and Middletown
Branches in Ohio.
At the end of February 1959, there were 9,677 members of the Church
in the Great Lakes Mission, located in fifty branches.
Fifty-seven Relief Society organizations, with 1366 members, were
reported in December 1958. Vonda L. Christensen presides over the
Great Lakes Mission Relief Society.
Note: The cover for this Magazine is a "View of Cleveland, Ohio;" See also
''Recipes From the Great Lakes Mission/' by Sister Christensen, page 371.
Dear Father
Mabel Law Atkinson
^ ^ r I 1 HERE, Mary Emma, is has been your salvation. There is
J^ this clean enough to suit plenty to do, goodness knows! Get
you?" Eighty-two-year-old your gouty old hands busy/' Slowly
Cyril Roberts looked about his he moved the fingers of his hands,
kitchen as he spoke. Looked at the gnarled and knotted with their years
clean, old-fashioned, coal-burning of hard work and exposure to the
range, the clean breakfast dishes elements. He opened and closed
placed in the old-fashioned oak cup- them to relieve their stiffness,
board, with its mirror at the back 'There, that's better. They move
of the mid-section buffet, at the real tolerably now, and without too
clean-swept linoleum, and at the much pain and don't seem to trem-
geraniums blooming on the clean ble so."
window sills. He left the house and went to his
But there was no Mary Emma to workshop in the back yard. It was
answer, and there had been no Mary sheltered by a giant box elder like
Emma for thirty-six years, that is a great green umbrella. In summer-
no Mary Emma to be seen or heard, time he worked under this tree, save
but, somehow Cyril always felt her when he needed to use the equip-
nearness, and this sort of make-be- ment in the shop. He was making
lieve companionship— if you would a teeter for his grandchildren now.
call it that— kept him from being This morning he would saw and
too lonely, and, as he often admit- carve the horses' heads to be put
ted to himself, kept him doing his near each end of the long, thick
best and keeping the home neat and plank for the children to hold to as
clean. they teetered.
Cyril Roberts had lived alone One would have marveled at his
since his last daughter had married, skill, watching his trembling old
That is he was alone except when hands as he worked surely and con-
some of his children and grandchil- fidently at his task,
dren were visiting him or he was He worked steadily for an hour,
visiting them. then sat down to relax on a garden
This particular June morning, he seat he had fashioned from a stump,
felt his aloneness a little more keen- His eyes, focused far away, held a
ly than usual. Perhaps it was be- rather sad and nostalgic light as he
cause tomorrow was Father's Day, said, ''Seems I hanker to see the
and he longed to hear the laughter children this morning. Feel more
and noise of his seven sons and two lonesome than usual. Let's see,
daughters, as he and Mary Emma haven't seen any of them since
had those years ago together. Memorial Day. They all came
"Well, Cyril Roberts, better get then to put flowers on their moth-
to work," he said aloud to no one er's grave." He wiped away a tear,
but himself. "Through your long blew his nose vigorously, then con-
days and years of being alone, work tinned, "There now, I feel better.
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DEAR FATHER 355
Cy Roberts, you should be ashamed again for the grandchildren. There's
of yourself. Do you realize it's only no end of toys I can make for them,
been three weeks since Memorial Vm glad I have my craft to work at.
Day? How often do you expect Used to do blacksmithing as well as
them to come, I wonder? Guess I carpentry work. Loved to build
must be getting old and letting sen- barns, sheds, and even built a few
ility creep in. They have their own homes; but now Fm content to put-
families and can't be expected to ter at little things."
spend much time on an old fellow ''I don't see how you do it,
like me. But they're gsod children, Grandpa. It's a miracle what you
every one of them. Sometimes I accomplish with your crippled
wonder how they turned out so hands. But there's no crippling of
well with Mary Emma being gone." your mind, that is certain."
He sat silently for some time, the ''No credit or praise is due me. I
faraway look still in his kindly, dim- just do what I can each day to keep
ming old eyes. happy. Idleness is misery. You
know before Mary Emma left me,
/^YRIL was startled from his rev- when we both knew she was going,
erie by the merry whistle of the I said, 'What will I do, Mary Em-
postman, and his cheerful voice as ma, without you? How can I go
he called, 'There you are. Grand- on alone?' She smiled and an-
pa." (He was Grandpa to most of swered, 'Keep busy, Papa. Do things
the villagers.) "Say, that's a splen- for the children and later for our
did horse's head you're making, grandchildren as they come along.
Which of your grandchildren is this If ever you feel you can't go on an-
for?" other minute, do something for
"Oh, this teeter-totter is for Ed- somebody else. Then you'll be
win's children. I just finished the happy.' My own Mary Emma
little table and chairs for Ellen's charted my course for me, and it
girls last week. Like to see them?" has worked. It has worked, my
Grandpa led him into the shop boy, only right now I am lonely for
and explained, "The paint isn't dry my boys and girls. Been thinking
yet, not quite. And here's the little about them all morning."
cupboard for Mattie's kiddies. This "And they are thinking about
rocking horse is for Tom's. I've still you, judging by the nine letters I
got to finish this doll cradle for came to give you. I must be on my
Dick's girlies, then I'll have made way. Happy reading. Grandpa."
something for each family of chil-
dren." nPEARS rivered Gy's wrinkled old
"Wonderful!" was the postman's cheeks as he looked at the let-
comment. "Then, what will you do ters, one by one. They had all been
to keep busy?" thinking of him, perhaps even now
"I don't worry about that. Not they were thinking of him. Of
at all. I've decided to make each of course, that was the reason for his
my boys and girls something that's longing to see them,
needed in their homes. When that Which should he open first? He
project is finished, I'll start all over fingered each lovingly, then decided
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on Edwin's, since he was the oldest.
With fingers trembhng with joy,
as well as the infirmity of age, he
broke the seal, and read:
Dear Father,
All nine of us, your children, with our
children will be with you Sunday for
Father's Day. We made this appointment
among ourselves on Memorial Day. And
that is not all. You should receive nine
letters of appreciation, if all have remem-
bered their pledge.
''They remembered, my boy! They
remembered!" Grandpa wiped his
eyes then read on :
In beginning my letter, I want to say
this: There is something inherently fine
about a man who can successfully keep
a family together and be father and mother
both, and rear his children to be honorable
citizens and active Church members. And
this is what you have done. Father, and
you have done it remarkably well.
A dry sob arose in the old father's
throat, as he continued:
We, your children, will never forget the
gospel truths you taught us, the truths
you, yourself, lived. We love you, Father,
for bringing us up in love and kindness
and firmness; and for keeping alive in our
hearts our sweet, gentle little mother,
who, although she has been gone for so
many years, is very much alive to all of
us.
You have been young with us, Father.
Remember how \\hen we had done a
few rather destructive pranks that, after
you had counseled against them and
showed us our errors, you would relate to
us the foolish capers you did in your own
youthful days, such as racing with sleighs
and teams. You know, such stories made
us feel we could get close to you, and
made us desire to live as you advised. They
made you our best pal.
Do you remember the summer you
broke your leg just as the haying season
began? How three weeks later you were
mowing hay with your leg in a sling tied
to the mowing machine? You have
always been and still are a courageous man.
I am proud to be your son, and shall try
to be to my children what you ha\'c been
to me. You are a bulwark to us still, and
we need you.
Thanks for evervthing. Father. I could
go on and on, but will see you Sunday,
so goodbye for now.
With love and appreciation,
Edwin and Family
Cyril Roberts was silent for several
long moments, reliving past joys and
meditating on the richness of his
wealth. Why, his life had been
filled with joy! So many happy
memories, so many blessed hopes
for the future, and he was needed
still!
Gratefully he opened the letter
from his second son and began to
read.
Q/he uiandcart L^hild
Orvene B. HoJman
Oh, wagon girl, you cradled dolls of rag.
With button eyes and colored yarn for hair.
And, wagon boy, with dust you played your tag.
And kept the pace of wheels when skies were fair.
You snuggled on your quilts outside the carts,
And whispered, even laughed, when day was done,
I wish I knew what dreams were in your hearts
On nights when stars and desert seemed as one.
Josef Muench
THE SUPERSTITION MOUNTAIN, ARIZONA
oJhe Superstition /ilountain
Ruth H. Chadwick
Against the morning's opal sky
You lift a perfect silhouette.
Your spires and pinnacles hold high
Their scissor-edged horizon, \'et
Your firmly molded baseline stands
Securely anchored to the earth.
While jutting cliffs and desert sands
Shroud secrets muted from your birth.
Exciting tales and Dutchman's lore
Have cast weird spells on avid men.
But I'm content, and what is more,
I've found your treasure once again;
Not hidden gold and precious stones,
Nor phantom dreams that lead astray,
But artistry's bold overtones
That lift my soul to greet the day.
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Peach-Tree Poem
Fiances C. Yost
CONNIE Ziebarth turned hesi-
tatingly at the principal's
office door. Mr. Conklin
had asked her to come to do some
substitute teaching. She wondered
what grade and for how long.
''Good morning, Mrs. Ziebarth,
for the rest of the term, the seventh
grade." Phil Conklin was noted for
getting to the point. 'The former
teacher suddenly decided to wed
and honeymoon. With your experi-
ence, you won't have any trouble,
Mrs. Ziebarth. But there is one
problem child. Chuck. I believe
his name is Charles Moffitt."
''Subnormal, I assume."
"No, the problem isn't that sim-
ple. This Chuck Moffitt is smart
enough. He doesn't attend regu-
larly, and lacks interest. I might tell
you, his mother's a widow. Chuck
is the oldest of six children. They
have a farm up in the Cove. Chuck
does a man's work even though he
is but fourteen. I hope you can do
something for Chuck, he needs
school badly, Mrs. Ziebarth. He and
the last teacher didn't get along
well, sorry to say.
"Oh, another thing, the Literary
Guild sponsored a poetry contest in
the school. You know the type of
thing, every child is compelled to
enter and they hope to discover a
Longfellow or a Keats. Mrs. Ziebarth,
here are the seventh grade poems.
You are to go over them carefully,
pick the best, and award the book
prize at the forthcoming school as-
sembly. Simple as that."
"Simple! Mr. Conklin, I may be
qualified to teach, but I'm not quali-
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fied to be a poetry critic. Couldn't
someone else judge these verses?"
"It's part of the job, Mrs. Zie-
barth." Then Phil Conklin winked
and added, "I sincerely trust you
will be amused, if not enthused with
your seventh-grade poets."
Connie smiled, too. "I'm sure I
shall be." She picked up the sheaf
of verses and turned on her heel
and left the office.
Connie found the seventh-grade
students were as Principal Conklin
had stated, average, and eager to
learn for the most part. The prob-
lem child. Chuck Moffitt, was not
in attendance the first day. Perhaps
it is just as well, Connie thought,
I'll get adjusted to the other stu-
dents and tackle the big problem
when he gets here.
The clock finally struck the hour
of twelve, and the students raced
from the room. Connie sighed,
"Might as well look over the verses
while I eat my sandwich. The more
work I can do here at school the less
I'll have to do evenings."
"My Pet Turtle," by Peggy Stone.
"Although I'm poor, I went to the
store. I bought a turtle, I named
her Myrtle."
Clever, if she had stopped here,
Connie thought, but the next
eighteen lines were . . . terrible.
Connie picked up the second
theme: "My Horse," by Fred Hawks.
I guess this is normal work for
seventh grade, but a diet of doggerel
is hard to take. Connie bit into an
apple for a refresher. If I could
only find one with promise.
"My Dog Mitzy," by Mike Teer-
PEACH-TREE POEM
359
link. In fourteen lines Mike told
how he came to have his dog, and
how he had taught him tricks, and
the love the two had for each other.
Well this is some better at any
rate, Connie mused, setting it aside,
then continued through the pile of
poems.
'T^HEN it was she came to one
^ titled: "My Peach Tree."
Well, someone has bothered to
use a pen and write legibly. Neat-
ness should count here as much as
with a theme, and no misspelled
words! Go to the head of the class
whoever you are! What! No by-
line! Such modesty! Then it was
Connie noticed the name in the
upper left-hand corner of the page,
Chuck MoEitt.
MY PEACH TREE
Spring has touched my little tree;
My peach tree has bloomed.
Blossoms lavendery-pink
Delicate perfumed.
Yesterday it was obscene
Standing there neglected.
Now poised like a ballerine,
Beauty is reflected.
With a Cinderella grace,
Peach tree wears a dress of lace.
This stands out like a prince
among a swarm of wild beasts. Con-
nie glanced up at the clock. It's
time to start the afternoon grind,
better stop with the peach-tree
poem while I have a good taste in
my mouth. Fll finish this work to-
night. There's no question thus far
who gets the book prize in the
seventh grade. Chuck Moffitt's
poem is away out in the lead.
During the afternoon, as the stu-
dents prepared their assignments,
her mind kept going back to the
peach-tree poem. She found her-
self remembering complete lines.
Since Chuck has the makings of a
poet, Fll try to reach him through
the poetry channel. I hope Chuck
Moffitt comes to school tomorrow.
I can hardly wait to meet him.
^ ^£ ijt sji: 5lc
\ gangling boy, with a bored look
on his countenance, sauntered
into the schoolroom, minutes late
the following morning. At sight of
a new teacher his shoulders straight-
ened, then, as if he were thinking,
she'll be no different, he resumed
his slouch and took his seat at the
back of the room.
"So you're Charles Moffitt." Con-
nie Ziebarth smiled.
''Just call me Chuck/' he mum-
bled into his shirt.
''We missed you yesterday.
Chuck."
"Had to get the spring grain
planted Miss. . . ."
"I'm Mrs. Ziebarth, Chuck. I
used to live on a farm, years ago. I
like farms. Do you have most of
your spring planting done now?"
"I finished last night." He smiled
triumphantly, yet shyly.
"Good work, then you'll be able
to attend quite regularly for the rest
of the term. Chuck?"
"Well, it's hard to say. If nothing
goes wrong at the ranch . . . per-
haps." Then he looked up and
queried, "You going to teach the
rest of the year?"
"Mr. Conkhn asked me to."
The morning progressed beauti-
fully. English, spelling, arithmetic,
science, took their respective places.
Chuck Moffitt participated in every
class, but with an abstract attitude.
His vocabulary was outstanding for
the seventh grade. Connie thought,
he's much too mature for this group.
360 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JUNE 1959
That's why he lacks interest. She Chuck Moffitt before. Yet she had
wanted to talk more with Chuck, to admit he was a challenge. No
compliment him on his fine poem, wonder the former teacher suddenly
and offer to lend some poetry books decided to get married in mid-term
she had, and to ask him if he had and quit teaching.
written other poems besides the
peach-tree poem. 'TPHAT same evening, in the quiet
When the noon bell rang, Connie of her own room, Connie Zie-
made a point to be at Chuck's desk, barth went over the seventh grade
''Chuck, can you stay a moment? poems for the final judging. She
Fd like to speak to you." Connie must be fair about this. Again
halfway expected him to bolt and Chuck's poem stood out far better
run with the others. than any of the others. It was beau-
''Okay," he mumbled, as he tiful in feeling and full of imagery,
watched the others leaving the and the best in accent, rhythm, and
room. rhyme. Yes, she must admit it,
''Do you raise peach trees on your the poem seemed too good to be
farm, Chuck?" Chuck's. Yet Chuck wasn't an ordi-
"Fve been babying one along, nary boy. He was alone much of
just outside my bedroom window, the time in the fields, he could study
It bloomed this year, just like the nature, he had an imagination, a
poem says." vocabulary. He just might have
Well, Connie thought, we've ar- written it, but could she be sure?
rived at the subject of the peach- She must know before the school
tree poem much quicker than I had assembly next week. She must not
anticipated. "Of what does a peach make a mistake, giving the prize to
tree remind you. Chuck?" someone undeserving of it. Connie
"Why, Mrs. Ziebarth, just like shut her eyes, only to see a blossom-
the poem says, it reminds me of a ing peach tree,
ballerina dancer, as it shimmers and I've spent more than enough time
sways. Mom and I once went to judging verses, when I see them
a dance festival and a tiny slip of with my eyes closed. I believe I'll
a lady danced the ballerina. Our ask one of the other teachers to
peach tree is dainty like that, Mrs. help judge. Perhaps I have been
Ziebarth." partial.
"Thanks for staying and talking For relaxation before bedtime,
with me. Chuck. Want to make a Connie picked up the latest issue
run for the cafeteria and get in line of a magazine and started thumbing
with the others in the class?" through, reading the poetry at the
"I sure am hungry." He smiled end of each page. Toward the back
broadly and was gone. of the magazine she stopped short,
Alone at her desk, Connie chided "The Peach Tree!" There it was
herself. Why didn't you ask him in black and white. Her eyes tra-
right out if he wrote the poem, in- versed the ten short lines. It was
stead of hedging? the same, not a single word had
Connie never remembered com- been changed! What was the word
ing in contact with anyone just like for literary theft? Plagiarism! To
PEACH-TREE POEM
361
commit plagiarism was equal to
stealing.
Slowly Connie withdrew the
peach-tree poem from the others.
Her impulse was to tear it into
shreds. But what good would that
do? This boy must be told. This
time she wouldn't hedge about her
duty. She picked up her pen and
wrote across the bottom of the page:
plagiarism.
'This poem, as you very well
know, was copied verbatim from a
current magazine. Borrowing writ-
ten work from another is called
plagiarism, which is one form of
stealing."
"Well, that settles it. The prize
will go to Mike Teerlink for his
verse 'My Dog Mitzy!' "
Connie Ziebarth slipped off her
robe, turned out the light, and
crawled into bed. She couldn't re-
member when she had ever been so
tired. No, this thing she felt wasn't
tiredness. It was deep-down disap-
pointment, which shriveled her
heart. Try as she would, she could
not dismiss the thought of the boy
living up in the Cove, doing a man's
work and taking care of his widowed
mother and five little brothers and
sisters. He had looked her straight
in the eye and had told her he had
a peach tree, and that it bloomed,
and reminded him of a ballet dancer.
Had he lied about these things, too?
Tomorrow was Saturday and she
would drive up the Cove and check
on a few things.
jj: j^t jjc sjc jjj
T^HE day dawned clear and bright.
Spring was scented with lilacs,
and laden with bridal wreath . . .
a perfect day for a ride, but Connie
dreaded the task before her. Yet
before she left, she must clear her
conscience. She withdrew the peach
tree poem. She had been harsh,
overwrought, and disappointed last
night. Words on paper were cold
and cruel and lived long in the mem-
ory. What she must do she would
do verbally. Carefully with scissors,
Connie trimmed her note from the
bottom of the peach-tree poem.
Connie backed her car from the
garage and drove straight toward the
Cove. The car itself seemed eager
for the drive and purred merrily
and mockingly. At this early hour
even the bird calls held a rhythm,
a bit of poetry in each throated
sound. The Cove seemed to wear
a blossom on every stem. Ordi-
narily, Connie would have been
compelled to stop and gather a
bouquet of wild flowers growing
along the wayside, but she must not
stop. She had a job to do, and
loathsome as it was, she must see it
through.
She tried to decide just how to
handle the problem. Would it be
best to tell the whole sordid story
to Mrs. Moffitt? A mother should
know of her son's doings, his steal-
ing. Or would it be best to speak
to Chuck himself? What if the
mother and the boy met her at the
door?
My it's a long way to the Moffitt
ranch. No wonder Chuck comes
late so often, with cattle to feed and
cows to milk before he comes. Con-
nie's car rounded a curve in the
road, and a hidden valley opened
before her. A man on a tractor was
plowing in the field. Why it wasn't
a man, it was Chuck himself! This
was his environment, here on his
own farm he drank true harmony in
the fields he loved. Yes, it was best
to put the question to him here
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and now. He was too much the
man to tattle to his mother. His
mother's heart must never know
the hurt her own had known last
night. She stopped the car.
Chuck, seeing her, waved, turned
off the tractor, shook the dust from
his hat, dusted his face with his
handkerchief, and walked through
the freshly plowed field to the fence,
then like a deer sprinted over, and
up to her car.
''Nice of you to drive up, Mrs.
Ziebarth. We don't have much
company here in the Cove. Mother
would like to have you stay for din-
ner. I believe she's cooking some
friers and rhubarb pie."
Connie had steeled herself to
speak openly to a seventh grader,
but this man of the field, who had
invited her to dine at his table, how
could she call him a thief to his
face? Perhaps the note at the bot-
tom of the page was best after all.
'Tou will stay won't you, Mrs.
Ziebarth?" he repeated his invita-
tion.
''Chuck Moffitt, you're tempting
me!" Connie laughed in spite of
herself. She had to admit Chuck
was pleasantly interesting. But she
must . . . she simply must state her
problem. She could not live with
it a moment longer.
"Chuck, I was reading in a maga-
zine last night. I came upon the
peach-tree poem."
"You did, Mrs. Ziebarth! You
liked it, too, didn't you, Mrs. Zie-
barth?" His voice was enthusiastic,
with never a trace of guilt.
"Chuck, the poem contest was
for original poems. Didn't you un-
derstand?"
"I knew we were supposed to
write a poem of our own. Teacher
gave us some time in class. I could
hear the kids all around mumbling
about turtle and Myrtle, Mitzy and
ritzy, a horse of course, and cats and
bats. That's not real poetry, that's
jargon. So I just looked out of the
window and thought about how
pretty the Cove is, and about beau-
tiful poems I have read, then the
time was gone."
"Why didn't you take your as-
signment as homework?"
"I did figure to, honest I did, but
when I finally finished the chores
it was so late, and I was too tired
to think."
"Chuck, I guess you know signing
your name to someone else's poem
is a form of stealing." To look
Chuck squarely in the eyes now,
was most painful.
/^HUCK looked her squarely in the
eyes when he gave his reply. "I
didn't sign my name. I didn't say
I wrote it. I just handed it in as
an assignment, with my name in the
upper left-hand corner. Teacher
said if we didn't hand in a poem by
morning, we would get a failing
grade in English. I just have to
pass. I can't stand seventh grade
another year."
"When I talked to you yesterday,
you said you had a peach tree grow-
ing in your yard."
"That's the truth, I have a peach
tree. It's in bloom, I'll take you
up there this very minute."
"That isn't necessary. I do believe
you. Chuck. You must read lots
of poems or you wouldn't appreci-
ate one like the peach-tree poem."
"Oh, I like poetry all right, real
poetry. I get books from the li-
brary. I read Milton's Paradise
Lostf and I especially like Scott's
PEACH-TREE POEM
363
Lady of the Lake, and Tennyson's
Jdy]]s of the Kin^r
No wonder this boy was bored
with cat and bat rhymes. ''Chuck,
do you hke school?"
''Well, I can't say I honestly do,
Mrs. Ziebarth, though it's been lots
better since you came. Those les-
sons bore me so much. Fm always
glad to stay out and work on the
farm."
"How would you like to be in
high school?"
"I want to get in high school, but
the teacher told me that I probably
wouldn't be promoted, I didn't
come enough, and didn't pay atten-
tion."
"Chuck, I think I could arrange
for you to take the eighth grade
examination this year. If you pass,
and I'm sure you will, you could
start high school in the fall. Would
you like that?"
"Would I like it?" Then his face
faded. "But what if I don't pass?"
"I'll tutor you this summer, and
you can take the test again before
school starts."
"Do vou really mean it?"
"I really mean it."
"Say, you know those first little
peaches from my tree, well, they're
yours, Mrs. Ziebarth. They will be
little peach poems of my own cre-
ation."
cLilac s journey
LuJa Walker
She cherished it like miser's gold
Across the plains through heat and cold,
As wagons wound the tortuous road;
Nor tossed it out to ease the load—
This lilac root for her new home.
She hoped to find some rich dark loam
To pamper it. Her faith was strong
Though westward trek be cruelly long.
That sometime, in her cabin room.
She'd catch the scent of lilac bloom.
Steadfast she'd hold, keep root alive
Against the day they should arrive
To set it out, this fragile thing-
Reminder of an Eastern spring.
(bixtyi LJears J^go
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, June i, and June 15, 1899
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
QUEEN VICTORIA'S BIRTHDAY: Torrents of rain ushered in Queen Vic-
toria's birthday. . . . Windsor, where a general holiday is being observed, was decorated
with flags and the church bells \\ere rung ... a serenade by the Windsor and Eton
choral societies was given. . . . The scene was picturesque. They all sang the national
anthem . . . Finally the Eton boys gave three lusty cheers in honor of Her Majesty. . . .
A pretty incident was the presentation to the queen ... by each of her grand and great
grandchildren now at the castle, of a tiny bouquet of flowers. These descendants . . .
who were deeply touched, also kissed her. Her Majesty also attended the birthday
service held at the chapel Royal. . . . Birthday celebrations were held throughout the
provinces. The ships in the different ports were dressed for the occasion. . . .
• — News Note
A WINDY DAY (IN IDAHO) : The fourth of May was the day appointed for a
reunion at Idaho Falls, a reunion of the Relief Society workers in the Stake. In spite
of the dreadful storm that prevailed the meeting house was comfortably filled. For
my part, I would have gi\'en up the idea of driving the seven miles there, but for the
fact that I had promised to call for two other sisters on the way; so for that reason,
and as I had my picnic all prepared, I thought I would venture, hoping that the storm
would diminish before long. However, when I came within two miles of the Falls,
the clouds of dust were so thick and dense that twice I could not see the horses' heads,
and could not tell whether they were keeping the road or not. I do not know when
I was so surprised at anything as I was to see a few young mothers with babes in their
arms at that meeting. . . .
— Little Sister
AT THE FALL OF THE CURTAIN
Four anchors I cast out. Patience, Faith, Hope, Love!
O \\isdom infinite! O light divine!
How can I feel one fluttering doubt with anchors
such as these cast out?
— L. M. H.
MRS. ADDISON PRATT, A WOMAN MISSIONARY ON HER WAY TO
THE SOCIETY ISLANDS: We have music in the camp [on the Wyoming plains],
two violins and a flute. Besides there are many singing birds in this country which
delighted me very much. The evening was spent in singing hymns and spiritual songs.
How comforting to ha\e prayers in this lonely spot of earth! What an idle life to
travel with ox teams! And yet no other would do so well on such roads. I gaze around
me; see the wagons all coralled; cattle lying down at night. Scenes of other days come
vividly to mind. What wandering pilgrims we have been!
— From Mrs. Pratt's Account of Her Journey
RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE IN EMERY STAKE: Sister Caroline
Larsen, Castle Dale, reported the society in a prosperous condition. . . . They had sixty
bushels of wheat, a number of quilts and considerable carpet rags on hand. . . .
— Mrs. Stevens, Sec. pro tern.
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
jyriCHIKO SHODA, a sweet,
modest, intelligent, talented
Japanese giil, became the bride of
Crown Prince Akihito of Japan on
April 10, 1959, the only commoner
to wed a roval prince in more than
2,000 years. This event has shat-
tered other traditions: the prince
chose his bride; and he married for
love. (He met Michiko on the ten-
nis courts, and lost a game and his
heart to her.) Except for the cere-
mony, the couple wore western
clothing for the wedding.
lyrRS. ELIZABETH GRAY VIN-
ING, of Philadelphia, who
tutored Crown Prince Akihito of
Japan for four years after World
War II, was the only American
present at the wedding.
jyriSS A. MYRA KEEN, Assistant
Professor of Paleontology at
Stanford University, is the author
of Sea Shells of Tropical West
America, dedicated to the amateur
sea shell collector who washes to
identify molluscan material from the
Panamic marine provine, which ex-
tends from the Gulf of California to
Columbia, South America. This
book is the first attempt to hst and
provide illustrations of most of the
sea shells which occur in this large
province.
T INDA BABITS, teen-age New
York composer, who played her
''Western Star Concerto" in Salt
Lake City, Utah, at the annual Days
of '47 pops cctticert in 1958, has
presented to Salt Lake music teach-
ers, for their courtesies to her, her
latest composition, ''Sego Lilies,"
which was inspired by her trip to
Utah. Miss Babits won the John
Golden award of $1,000 in New
York last summer for her piano
suite ''Clinton Corner Delancey."
PDNA L. FURNESS and GER-
^ TRUDE A. BOYD, of the Uni-
versity of Wyoming, through a grant
in aid from the University of Wyo-
ming Graduate School Council,
have made an interesting survey of
all available material on the subject
of the poor spelling of American
high school graduates and college
students. They have narrowed
down the "spelling demons" that
overthrow students most frequently
to ninety-eight words. This would
be a list for everybody to possess and
study.
]y|ARJORIE WORTHINGTON,
in her recent biography Miss
AJcott oi Concord (Doubleday),
tells the life story of the author of
Little Women, based on the journal
which Miss Alcott carefully kept
from childhood.
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EDITORIAL
VOL 46
JUNE 1959
NO. 6
cJhe i2gth J/Lnnual L^hurch (conference
npHE 129th Annual Conference of
The Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints was held in the
historic Tabernacle in Salt Lake
City, April 4, 5, and 6, 1959, with
President David O. McKay conduct-
ing all the general sessions, and with
all the General Authorities present.
Radiant spring weather greeted the
throngs attending conference, and
the messages of reassurance, hope,
and spiritual advancement welcomed
those who joined together in prayer
and rejoicing.
The combined choruses from
Brigham Young University, the Tab-
ernacle Choir, the Choir Men's
Chorus, and the Ricks College
Choir furnished music for the meet-
ings. Twenty-seven television sta-
tions and twenty radio stations
throughout the Nation carried the
proceedings to listeners who shared
the prophetic counsel and the Spirit
of our Heavenly Father.
PRESIDENT McKay recalled the
anniversary of the restoration of
the gospel and its meaning to all
generations of mankind upon the
earth:
I think it would be well for us to have
in mind the fact that one hundred and
twenty-nine years ago ... in the house
of Peter Whitmer, Sr., in Fayette, Wind-
sor County, New York, six men bowed
in solemn prayer to their Heavenly Father,
and proceeded in accordance with the
previous commandment to organize the
Church. . . . They administered the sacra-
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ment. They reported that the Spirit of
the Lord was manifest in a very great de-
gree. Some of the brethren prophesied.
All praised the Lord and rejoiced exceed-
ingly. ... It will be well to have in mind
. . . that only a little over a century has
passed since those six men by revelation
organized the Church.
The dominant theme of the con-
ference was the advent of Jesus
Christ and his message to the world,
his gospel of righteousness and sal-
vation, and its eternal import in
the lives of all seekers after truth.
Emphasis was placed upon the
spiritual influence and the responsi-
bilities of those who have accepted
the gospel to live its principles and
to spread its everlasting tidings of
joy to the world.
In his address on Sunday, April
5th, President McKay addressed the
thousands of listeners on the subject
''Our Father's Glory Is in the Sal-
vation of His Children." Our be-
loved President spoke of truth as
''loyalty to the right as we see
it. . . /'
... it is courageous living of our lives
in harmony with our ideals; it is always
power. With the ideals of right living
before him, no member of the Church
can continually violate the Word of Wis-
dom with impunity. . . . One never de-
velops character by yielding to wrong
.... The mission of the Church is to
proclaim the truth of the restored gospel,
to uplift society that people may mingle
more amicably one with another; to create
in our communities a wholesome environ-
ment in which our children may find
strength to resist temptation and encour-
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367
agement to strive for cultural and spiritual
attainment. It is the binding duty of
leaders of youth, and particularly mothers,
by example to make ineffective the in-
fluence of designing men who would make
profit out of their fellows. . . . The
restored gospel is a rational philosophy
that teaches men how to get happiness in
this life and exaltation in the life to come.
The mission of the Church is to establish
the kingdom of God upon the earth. . . .
PRESIDENT Stephen L Richards
spoke to the question ''What
Does It Mean to Be a Christian?''
After describing some of the essen-
tials of a Christian life, President
Richards declared: 'The gospel as
a power unto salvation must em-
brace not only all the Christlike
characteristics of hving, but the
means essential to salvation."
I believe . . . that a careful survey of
all pertinent scriptures, as well as the
whole history of Christ's work among
men, will demonstrate that only by the
complete acceptance of the Christ as
our Lord, and subscribing to all the con-
ditions and requirements of his holy
gospel, including its sacred ordinances gov-
erning induction into his kingdom, can
a man fully justify a claim to the honor-
able distinction of being a Christian. . . .
It would seem beyond question that there
could not be more than one kingdom of
the Lord. So the concern of all who seek
Christian salvation must be: Where is
that kingdom? Where is it set up in
the earth that men may come to it and
receive its transcendent blessings? ... I
am convinced beyond the shadow of a
doubt that his gospel has been restored in
its fulness with all its ordinances, and the
powers authentically to administer them
in these last days.
PRESIDENT J. Reuben Clark, Jr.
reviewed in detail the resurrec-
tion of Jesus and the meaning of
that event to mankind. President
Clark spoke of those faithful men
and women who were privileged to
behold the resurrected Savior and
hear his words of assurance and
blessing. "Tliis is Easter time/'
said President Clark. "The celebra-
tion of the resurrection has just
passed, and sometimes there is a
tendency to think that thereafter
the Lord ascended and we have
nothing more to do about it." In
summarizing the teachings of Jesus,
after his resurrection. President
Clark said:
Finally, he called them together again
on a mount in Galilee, the disciples, and
at that time he gave them the great com-
mission, "Go ye into all the world, and
preach the gospel to every creature. . . ."
Those are the words of the Christ. Then
he told them of the signs which should
follow them that believed. We, brethren
and sisters, are the recipients of the great
blessings that attach to the work of the
Last Dispensation. We are also the obli-
gees of the great responsibilities which
have been placed upon those whom God
has called to lead this Last Dispensation
.... The Lord is good to us. He is giv-
ing us direction if we will take it, I urge
you to bring your thoughts back from
space . . . about which we know nothing
in comparison with what there is to know
— and fix our minds upon the great powers
and authorities which we have as mem-
bers of the Priesthood, representing our
Heavenly Father, endowed with a portion
of his authority to work out his purposes,
not ours.
At the closing session of confer-
ence. President McKay expressed
his fervent hopes and prayers: "God
help us to be true to our responsi-
bility and to our callings, and espe-
cially to the responsibility we bear
as fathers and mothers of the chil-
dren of Zion — heaven's treasures
given to us. O Father, bless those
who hold this Priesthood, who have
been married in accordance with thy
instructions, and God help all to
take advantage of this eternal bless-
ing, that we may be united together
and with thee forever. . . ."
-V. P. C.
TloiCA. TO THE FIELD
[Program for the ilovemoer CJast Sunaaii
ibvening I Heeting
npHE special program for the Sunday evening meeting on Fast Day,
November i, 1959, ''Relief Society Strengthens Testimonv," has been
mailed to stake and mission Relief Society presidents. We urge that these
programs be distributed to the wards and branches without delay.
criymn of the 1 1 Lonth — J/Lnnual JList
July 1959 — June i960
The Church-wide congregational hymn singing project, inaugurated
by the Church Music Committee, will be continued during the coming
year, and all auxiliary organizations have been invited to participate. The
purpose of this project is to increase the hymn repertoire of Church mem-
bers and to place emphasis on the message of the hymns. Stake Relief
Society choristers and organists are requested to give assistance at union
meetings to ward choristers and organists in carrying out this project.
An analysis and storv of the hymn will be printed each month in the
Church Section of The Deseiet News.
Following is a list of hymns approved for the twelve months July
1950 through June i960:
1959
July
August
September
October
November
December
iq6o
January
February
March
April
May
June
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Savior, Redeemer of My Soul
Hail to the Brightness
Oh Hark! A Glorious Sound
Is Heard
Welcome, Welcome Sabbath
Morning
Stars of Morning, Shout
for Joy
With Wondering Awe
God of Power, God of Right
Redeemer of Israel
Truth Eternal
Prayer Is the Soul's Sincere
Desire
Sing Praise to Him
Zion Stands With Hills
Surrounded
No.
Whitney-Dean-
155
Hastings-Parry
182
ROBINSON-ASPER
134
Baird-Beesley
190
Durham
164
209
36
Bennett-Cannon
Phelps-Lewis
195
Pratt-Schreiner
189
Montgomery-Careless
220
SCIIULTZ
158
Kelly-Smyth
212
More Precious
more 9>.
recious
cJhan U\ub
les
\ VIRTUOUS young man pledges his love and fidelity to the girl of his
dreams with a precious stone ... a diamond. And the happy girl
treasures the gift as she would her life, promising, in return, her own
fresh, virtuous love in marriage.
The ring — with its precious gem — becomes a symbol of fidelity for
the engaged couple . . . and a reminder of the priceless value of virtue
in them both.
Solomon said it centuries ago: ''A virtuous woman . . . her price is
far above rubies. . . ." For man it is equally true.
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A latter-day hymn writer composed these beautiful lines:
Cherish virtue! Cherish virtue!
God will bless the pure in heart.
Cherish — how beautiful and meaningful the word: to hold dear; to
trust or keep with tenderness.
And virtue: integrity of character; uprightness of conduct; chastity.
The Prophet Mormon, in his last affectionate message to his son
Moroni, called virtue and chastity ''the most dear and precious of all
things."
Modern prophets have reaffirmed this eternal truth.
So, young people of the Church, if you would deserve the confidence
of the clean young man or young woman you someday hope to marry — if
you would enjoy the fullness of happiness which belongs only to the pure
in heart, be clean, be chaste.
BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
CJor (grandmothers vi/ho iJOabii o^it
CsLiniWa Woodbury /udd
We must remember to keep well-filled cookie jars,
Some dough to fashion men of gingerbread;
Treasures to cuddle, eyes joy-lit with stars
For little ones who would be tender-fed.
There must be eager faces at the door
And loving arms to lift for an embrace,
A legacy of patterned story lore
And picture books to light a little face;
A game of make-believe for wee pretender,
Band-aids for wounds, a kiss for weepy eyes,
Old curtain lace to trail in gold-heeled splendor,
And rocking chairs for bedtime lullabies;
License to spoil a bit, reprove when rude —
Much patience and a prayer of gratitude.
ibrratum
Magazine Honor Roll Percentages for 1958
Attention is called to the correct figures for this report:
Relief Society
Enroll-
ment
Subscriptions
No. Pet.
Magazine
Representative
San Juan Stake
Weber Heights Stake
564
365
506
409
90
112
Anne B. Porter
Virgie P. Jensen
LKecipes QJrom the (^reat JLakes lliission
Submitted hy Vonda L. Chiistensen
Baked Beans
2 lbs. navy beans Vi lb. bacon
1 tsp. soda 3 tbsp. mustard
2 qts. water salt and pepper to taste
2 medium-sized onions i bottle catsup
Vi c. light brown sugar i small can tomato puree
Soak the beans in water overnight. In the morning boil them for twenty minutes
in water and soda. Drain and wash the beans in cold water. Put them in a baking
dish and add onions, sugar, salt, pepper, mustard, catsup, and tomato puree. Cut the
bacon into small cubes and spread over the top of the bean mixture. Cover well with
water and place in the oven with temperature turned to 250 degrees. Cook about six
hours, adding water occasionalh if beans become dry.
Cream Filling:
Icebox Pudding
1 medium-sized angel food cake
1 pt. milk 2 eggs
1 c. sugar Vi tsp. salt
2 tbsp, cornstarch 1 pt. whipping cream
Put one and one-half cups milk in kettle to boil. Add sugar, salt, and cornstarch
(which have been dissolved in one-half cup cold milk) to hot milk. Beat eggs and add to
mixture and cook until thick. Cut up cake. Put layer of cake on bottom of refrigerator
tray, then pour filling over cake, then another layer of cake, and another layer of filling
on top. Put in icebox until wanted for serving. Then whip cream and spread on top
of pudding.
RiNKTUM DiDDY
2 cans tomato soup K lb. cheese
8 slices toast
Place tomato soup in kettle. Do not add water to soup. Cut cheese into soup.
Cut toast into halves. Place in long, deep dish (2 inches high). Pour tomato soup
over toast. Season with salt according to taste. Serve hot. Very good for lunch. Makes
six servings.
Cheese Strata
1 2 slices bread 4 eggs
Vi lb. cheese K qts. milk
1 tsp. salt
Use baking dish about 10 to 12 inches long. Butter heavily. Cut crust from slices
of bread. Line pan or baking dish with half slices of bread. Cut cheese in slices.
Add a layer of cheese then add the bread over the cheese. Break eggs into milk, add
salt, and beat lightly. Pour over bread and cheese. This must be prepared four or five
hours before baking. Set in pan of water and bake forty to forty-five minutes in 350°
oven.
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Vi lb. bacon
1 large-sized onion, chopped
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Spanish Rice
salt and pepper to taste
1 no. 2 Vi can tomatoes
4 c. boiled rice
Cut bacon into small chunks and place in frying pan with chopped onion. Fry
until light brown. Add rice, tomatoes, salt, and pepper. Put in baking dish and bake
at 350° for forty-five minutes.
Scalloped Tomatoes
1 no 2 /4 can tomatoes
1 green pepper
1 medium-sized onion
1 c. sugar
3 or 4 slices bread
1 tbsp. butter
1 tsp. salt
K tsp. pepper
Put tomatoes in baking dish. Add green pepper and onion (cut up), butter, salt,
sugar, and pepper. Break bread into chunks and put into tomatoes. Bake one hour in
300° oven.
Glorified Rice
4 c. cooked rice
Vi c, sugar
1 small can crushed pineapple
14 c. marshmallows cut up
1 tsp. vanilla
1 c. whipping cream
Place cooked rice in a bowl. Add sugar and marshmallows and drained pineapple.
Then add cream which has been whipped until very thick. Add vanilla, and chill mix-
ture in refrigerator. Do not freeze.
uteart of a uiouse
The kitchen's the heart of a house.
The first thing in the morning
Its heavenly aromas
Are a most delightful warning
To any laggard sleepers
That blueberry buns await.
Or maybe orange muffins,
And it's risky to be late.
At lunchtime, steaming trayfuls
Are on the snack bar shelf.
EtheJ Jacohson
And all day long the kitchen
Announces, "Help yourself!"
To any busy workers
Who want a lift, a break,
And to kiddies, fresh from classrooms.
So hungry that they ache.
Then dinner's cheery bustle
Is shared by the whole brigade.
The kitchen's the heart of a house —
To the last lone midnight raid.
L^ountry Q^uininer
Rodello Hunter
I couldn't say just when we first knew about the sechidcd httle spot. We must ha\e
been very young, because my first memories inchide it, just as they incUide Beverly,
with her grave practicality, and Beth, whose wild enthusiasms and rebellion against con-
formity added excitement to what might have been something close to a life of
boredom.
Especially, I remember that one summer. Almost every afternoon the three of
us would meet under the twisted oak tree. It had stood for so long that it was bent
like an arthritic old woman, its branches sagged and hunched under the burden of years.
Its veined and knotted roots reached out and clutched the earth for support. We had
named the creek Willow Run for no other reason than that we liked the sound of the
name. It gurgled past the tree, and scolded in frothy impatience a root which dared
impede its determined progress.
Delightfully out of range of pursuing parental voices, we would lie on our backs
and listen to the soft rush of the water and the chiding of a disturbed chipmunk in the
trees above us. Thus situated, we would discuss with unvaried seriousness . . . life.
To the south and west, the mountains curved, mysteriously purple, ignoring with
dignity the subtle attempts of cloud fluffs to caress them. To the west, within walking
distance, were red ledges of sandstone, lesser in height than their eastern brothers, but
none the less awesome in their brilliant pinks and reds and auburns. Farther to the
south, and forming the last arc of the circle, more mountains rolled easily on their sides,
incurious and uncaring, driven into sleepy aloofness by the summer haze.
Directly behind, and hidden by the upward slope of our grassy bank, was a lucerne
field, and the drone of the rotating mower filled our frequent silences with comfortable
rhythm.
Only the occasional slow "clip-a-clop" of a team and wagon, or the faster "clippity,
clippity" of a loping horse and its unseemingly hasty rider disturbed the somnolence of
the dusty road. A too-inquisitive bee would sometimes flick us into concerted movement,
but this happened rarely. Tirelessly, we watched the clouds form into masses above us
and then gradually vanish into trailing untidy wisps to be swiftly swept away by a neat
broom of wind. We inhaled the sweetish scent of fresh-cut hay and listened to the
myriad sounds which formed the country quiet.
We felt full of power and invincibility and high integrity. The ominous creeping
headlines of the evening papers were just enlarged type on a background of gray news-
print, and the impending danger of death and destruction were very far away. Our
world was calm and serene. We felt the hovering guardians of the mountains around
the cuplike rim of the lush little valley, and we wondered at those who feared.
Bracing our backs against the tough, enduring bark of the oak tree, we watched
ants scurrying up and down the vertical cracks in its trunk working in a frenzy of prep-
aration for the coming winter. Silly ants! Winter was such a long way off! We had
all the time in the world, all the never-ending, lazy time in the world.
We posed hypothetical problems and solved them with wise solemnity. We
mapped our lives in exact detail and were absolutely certain of the map's accuracy. From
these superior heights we shook our heads in dismay at "those who should have done,
but didn't."
Even our little world could be upset, though. One night a mountain lion was
discovered crouching in our old oak, and it was with trepidation that we went back,
but there was no other place with quite the same aura as our "Willow Run." The
ground was scuffed a bit from the trampling feet of the hunters, and there were claw
marks on the oak's roughened skin, but in a few days it was the same again.
Perhaps the old tree conferred on us the sagacity of its age, or possibly it was the
timelessness of those long peaceful summer days, but we were very profound ... we
were seventeen.
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One of Them
Chiistie Lund Coles
PATRICIA steadied herself by
the sink. She was tired and
a httle blue — not being able
to do all the things she had planned
for the day. She should have
learned her limit, but she did not
realize it until she reached the point
of exhaustion.
Pulling her one crippled leg, she
reached a chair and sat down. Blaine
would be home, and she still had
the bathtub to scour, and supper
to get into the oven.
As Patricia rested, she knew her
discouragement was not merely for
not finishing her schedule. It was
more for the feeling of strangeness
in the neighborhood, how the neigh-
bors treated her — as though she
were an object of pity, not one of
them . . . just because she had had
polio! She clenched her fist, and
noted the strength she had had
once. She told herself, 'Tou fool-
ish girl. You're so much better."
But the words didn't help too
much now. They were just words
she had told herself many times.
After awhile, one got tired of giving
oneself pep talks. Tired of having
to do so.
But, after a moment of resting,
Patricia was ready for the potatoes
and the meat loaf. If she didn't get
the bathtub scoured she could do it
later when she took her own bath.
Blaine would understand. If he
noticed it, he would even do it him-
self. Still, that was what she didn't
want. She didn't want the other
young women saying, ''Her husband
has to do her work for her."
Of course, she knew that many of
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the husbands helped with dishes at
night, and even prepared meals if
their wives were ill, but it was dif-
ferent when they didn't actually
have to.
When the potatoes and meat
were in the oven, Patricia set the
timer, and, glancing up, caught a
ghmpse of herself in the mirror over
her little desk. Her hair was slight-
ly disheveled, and her nose more
than a little shiny. And she knew
it was more important that she look
as pretty as possible when Blaine
came home than it was that every-
thing be done.
He was about the handsomest
man on the street^ big and broad and
dark, with eyes that danced when
he spoke, and a tnouth that was
made to smile. Shfe couldn't under-
stand how he hdd fallen in love with
her. But he had. tit had. ^le had
come as a messenger of love, hope,
and promise, wfien things had
looked the most Hopeless for her.
As Patricia sat at her small vanity,
with the blue cretbiihe flounce, and
the glass top, she combed her au-
burn hair and tetliettibered how it
had all come aboM.
She had met Bkitie while visit-
ing friends in idalib. He had come
to her uncle's house to see her cousin
Jim, who had irttirbdtlced them. She
had been sitting at the ^iapo the
day Jim brought him in. Blaine
couldn't tell that she was crippled
then, and he had smiled at her hap-
pily, asking, ''Did I hear 'C|aire de
Lune' coming through th^ win-
dow?" -
*'Yes," she had answered, a little
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ONE OF THEM
375
shyly, since her experience with boys
had been rather hmited to those of
her own family.
''Would you mind playing it
again? It's my favorite/'
'1 like it, too/' she had assured
him, smiling, feeling at ease with
him, but wondering if the smile
would change when they brought
the wheel chair in (her mother was
greasing it while she played), and
Blaine would see that she almost
had to be lifted from the bench to
the chair, and wheeled about as a
child.
pATRICIA'S hands-which piano
playing had strengthened since
she had been able to practice again
—pressed harder upon the keys,
then automatically slowed as the
melody became pensive, gentle as
moonlight falling on a summer
night.
Blaine was asking, ''Why didn't
you tell me you had such an attrac-
tive cousin, Jim, and such a talented
one?"
"I don't know," Jim answered,
clumsily. "She lives in Salt Lake,
you know."
"And so?" asked Blaine, his dark
eyes, dancing, teasing.
"And so, if we don't get out for
that tennis match, we won't get the
court. Come on."
Patricia held her breath, fearing
that the young man was going to
ask her to go along, but he only
looked down at her, to say, "I'm so
glad to meet you . . . finally. See
you later."
"Yes," she whispered, hearing the
sound of the rubber-tired chair com-
ing from the kitchen, almost praying
that he would be gone before her
mother walked in with it.
And he was. The door closed just
before her mother came in, smiling
her wonderful, never-failing smile.
She said, "That last melody was
the best yet. You're really getting
to shade and modulate so much bet-
ter. I think it might do you good
to take a few students in the neigh-
borhood, as your teacher has sug-
gested."
"Little ones," the girl added,
almost bitterly.
But her mother didn't notice, she
nodded, "Of course, little ones."
"I think I'd like to rest for
awhile," Patricia almost whispered
the words.
Her mother, sensing her mood,
as she always seemed to do, smiled
and made small talk as she helped
Patricia into the chair, and wheeled
her toward the bedroom.
That same evening, Patricia was
sitting in the living room with her
aunt and uncle and mother and fa-
ther, when the front screen opened
and she heard voices— male voices.
It was Blaine and Jim. They came
into the room.
Blaine's eyes immediately came
across the room to her. She felt
them even if she didn't exactly look
at him. He was smiling, but it was
different now, as he spoke, saying,
"Hello, Patricia. You look so pretty
with that lamplight on your hair."
"Thank you," she told him, feel-
ing a bit resentful — as she always
did when she thought people were
going out of their way to be kind.
"DLAINE shook hands with her
father and the others and came
over to her. He seemed older than
he had that afternoon, more mature.
And when they had all talked
awhile, he suddenly faced her fam-
376 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JUNE 1959
ily, saying, "Do you know, I don't She taught their children piano
think we use the power of the Priest- lessons, and often gave them cookies
hood as much as we should. I feel and punch, and played with them,
sure Patricia is going to get well and Why couldn't she become as one
walk again." of the mothers?
As they administered to Patricia, The last hair was in place, her
chills went through her entire body, nose was powdered with the thinnest
even into the leg which seemed so skiff of powder, when she heard the
lifeless. Deep in her heart, in every front door open and Blaine calling
fiber of her being, Patricia felt that her — as he always did when he
she would walk again. didn't see her immediately.
Before she left Idaho she knew ''Where are you, honey?" he
that she loved Blaine with all her called in his deep, happy voice,
heart, and what was more wonder- ''where are you?"
ful than all, she knew that he loved "I'm in here, Blaine. Be out in
her. When he said goodbye, he a minute."
kissed her gently saying, "You are "Never mind, I'll come and get
the most beautiful woman I have you."
ever seen. If I had to carry you It didn't take him long to come
the rest of my life, I would marry through the small house into the
you. But I won't. Keep prayerful bedroom, where she was standing,
and have faith, and someday, you ready to walk to him.
will walk." But she had no chance, for he was
It was less than a year later that beside her, and swept her into his
she was able to walk and they were arms and was carrying her from the
married in the holy temple. room.
Her marriage had been good, and
Blaine always tried to treat her as T-T^R mood extended to him. Of
casually and normally as if she had a sudden, she said, "You really
two good legs. However, he ad- don't have to carry me, you know."
vised, "We mustn't hide your handi- "Oh, don't I, though?" he asked,
cap or ignore it. It is something mockingly, seeming unusually gay.
we must live with, and accept while "No," she insisted, "remember, I
we are thanking God that we have can walk now. Not too well, per-
each other. . . ." haps, but I can walk."
Blaine didn't say anything about He caught the caustic note in her
children, but as Patricia grew strong- voice and said softly, "I think any
er she began to hope they might man has a right to carry his wife in
have a child. his arms, especially when that wife
Patricia finished combing her hair, is going to be a mother."
hearing the children in the street "What do you mean?" she asked
playing, and a mother calling her softly. "What are you talking
young child in to dinner. She closed about?"
her eyes and prayed almost audibly, "I mean, my darling, that I met
"Oh, Father, let me be a mother, Doctor Sims, and he told me the
too, let me become as one of these news. He said there was no reason
women who are my neighbors." in the world why you shouldn't get
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along very well. Just be a little bit
careful. Oh, honey, why didn't you
tell me?"
She buried her tear-wet face on
his shoulder, sobbing, sobbing, ''Oh,
I was so afraid, afraid it couldn't be."
''Well, it could and it is. Now,
just for tonight, let me put you
here on the couch and serve your
dinner to you. Yes?"
'Tes," she nodded, dabbing at her
eyes with the inadequate hankie
from her apron pocket.
The next morning she felt radi-
ant. She was going to have a child!
Her very own child. She would stir
up a batch of her favorite brownie
recipe, make some of her best fruit
nectar, and invite her neighbors over
for an afternoon of sew^ing and visit-
ing. Maybe they thought she was
being aloof, wanted to be alone, that
she really wasn't able to take much
part in things.
She called each one in turn —
Carley Street, Faye Rich, Jan, Sue,
all of them. Everyone accepted,
some seemed surprised, others en-
thusiastic. That afternoon at two
o'clock Patricia saw them coming
down the street in groups from both
directions. She felt a little pang
when she saw that Ruth Marlow
wasn't there, for she was one for
whom she felt she could feel a real
friendship.
When all the women had arrived
and had insisted on helping to bring
in extra chairs, they spoke of how
artistically her house was decorated,
and were surprised to learn she had
done most of it herself. At their sur-
prise, she told them, "It's not diffi-
cult to sew on an electric sewing
machine, even if one leg won't co-
operate too well."
They laughed, surprised that she
spoke of it so casually, and they
were off to a good visit, sewing and
talking. When Patricia served the
brownies they all asked for her
recipe. Sue saying, "Mine never
taste quite like this, yum."
They were almost ready to leave
when someone remembered to tell
her, "The reason Ruth didn't come,
she has a sick little boy."
TT seemed she had no more than
said it than the telephone rang
and Patricia answered it. The fran-
tic voice of Ruth on the other end
of the wire cried, "Patricia, I know
the girls are all at your place, and
I'm frantic. Jimmie is so sick. He's
choking and can't get his breath.
Someone has to come, I can't get
the doctor."
Patricia answered calmly, "Ruth,
he will be all right. I'M be right
over."
"Hurry," the young woman cried,
hurry!
Patricia knew that if the others
went, too, the confusion would be
hard on Ruth and the child. She
said, "Ruth's boy is quite sick.
There's no need for all of us to rush
over, it would only complicate
things. I know what to do until the
doctor comes. I'll go right over.
One of you call for an ambulance."
Faye Rich, who was calm and
matter-of-fact, said quietly, "Patricia
is right. I'll go with her. You oth-
ers will be called if you can do
anything."
Sue cried, "But couldn't one of
us go instead of Patricia, she really
shouldn't. . . ."
Patricia was already at the door,
starting down the steps, pulling her
leg a little. She called over her
shoulder, "Oh, yes, she should. I've
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seen enough sickness that I don't something Fve wanted to tell you
lose my head, and I know what to for weeks. You know the day that
do." Kim came home from her lesson and
Once in the house, Patricia and had a copy of that song you had
Faye worked perfectly together as written called, 'Give God a Chance'
a team, Patricia telling Faye what mixed in with her music. . .?"
to do. Patricia said, 'Tes. . . ."
''I think he will be all right, now," 'Well, my mother had just been
Patricia finally told them. Even as dead for three months, and I didn't
she said it, the boy stirred, tried to seem to be able to get over it. I
turn his head, and, finally, opened just kept grieving. Then, I read
his eyes to see his mother and said, those words over and over . . . 'Give
''Mommie. . . ." God a chance to heal your heart . . .'
Ruth gathered him to her, her and so on, and they seemed written
tears falling in grateful and wonder- especially for me. I kept saying
ful relief. "Oh, thank you, thank them over and over. Finally, I was
you," she whispered looking up at able to pull myself out of it. I
the two of them, "I didn't know wanted you to know."
anyone could have such wonderful "Thank you," Patricia whispered,
friends." and she could have added, "they
Patricia breathed deeply, putting were written for myself," but she
her hand on the dark head. She had didn't, she merely went forward as
called her friend. And she knew if her leg didn't drag at all, to meet
that forever after the two of them her neighbors and her friends, and
would be very close. tell them in confidence and wonder
As Patricia and Faye came out of that she was going to have a child,
Ruth's house, they could see the that she was really going to be one
other girls a little way from the of them.
house. They started toward them, Patricia knew, suddenly, that one
but Faye stopped Patricia to say, must not only give God a chance,
"I'm not very good with words. But other people must be given a chance
you were wonderful. And there's as well.
iuiue n Lormng- (^ (ones
Josie B. Bay
Oh, the glory of the morning
When morning-glories rare
Lift their heads in satisfaction
While they drink the dew-kissed air.
They are filled to overflowing,
With cups of heavenly blue,
And they say to all who hsten
"Let me share my cup with you."
(^reen-viyiliow 'JJays
Shirley Sealy
IN my home, we all enjoy free rest of us put together. He says
agency. My mother and father that's why he turned out better,
are firm believers in free agency. Mother was quite young then and
Not since the green-willow days have more set on having a model child.
I been forced to do anything. You She was always glad in years to come
know what the green-willow days that she had trained him so well,
are, don't you? That is the time He helpfully kept the rest of us in
in your life when you are still too line. But, thinking back, even then,
young to understand reason, and it was free agency. We could either
your mother uses a little green wil- decide to do the thing that was
low to help you make up your mind, right, or feel the sting of the green
My mother used a little green willow. We always had our choice,
willow, she explained, because it It was free agency that helped us
would sting nicely but would never to develop our talents. Mother was
physically injure us. In this way a believer in the talents. She was
she was always sure of the safety of always so happy when we showed
her children, if she happened to be even the slightest interest in the arts,
a little overexcited when it became I remember when my sister wanted
necessary to use the willow. I can't to study piano. She innocently
remember ever feeling that willow, asked, one evening, if she could study
I suppose I must have felt its sting music and learn to play the piano,
at one time or another, or I wouldn't Mother was so enthusiastic. With-
have had such great respect for it. in a month we had a piano, and
But I do remember spending quite sister Ellen was studying like mad.
a lot of time looking at it as it sat Ellen wanted to play the piano in
quietly on the top of the refrigerator the worst way, but she didn't want
or the stove; and I was ever mind- to practice. However, it was a mat-
ful of its presence. ter of free agency. She could either
Mother had another rule of free practice her piano a reasonable time
agency that went with that little wil- every day or stay home from her
low. We each had to get our own. Saturday shows; and of course it
That way we could choose the size just wasn't logical that she had time
and length of the stick. Otherwise, to visit her friends if she had no
someone else would get it for us. time to practice. Ellen was blessed,
Of course, no one else is as careful fortunately, with a knowledge of
about such things as you yourself, how to choose. She is now an ac-
It worked pretty well, though, be- complished pianist,
cause by the time we hunted for Of all the things I did at home,
the right size and type of willow, I hated washing dishes the worst,
we usually had forgotten what it was You know how it is; you wash and
that we didn't want to do. rinse, wash and rinse, the water gets
My eldest brother maintains he greasier, and your hands get wrin-
was willowed more than all of the kled and . . . well, you know how
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it is. I could never find an end to
dishes in our house. With seven
children, we used a lot of dishes.
I was born third in line. My eldest
brother didn't think he should have
to do any girls' work when he had
five sisters. My eldest sister was
always busy doing things like mak-
ing salads for dinner, or sewing, or
ironing and scrubbing. All the fun
things.
Third children, especially if they
are girls, should never be born.
There isn't anything for them to do
but wash dishes.
Once I hit upon a real gem of an
idea as to how to get out of the
dishes. Immediately after dinner I
became very ill. Stomach pains,
headache . . . the works. Mother
was so thoughtful and tender, so
loving and concerned. She immedi-
ately put me to bed and insisted I
stay there until morning. She loved
me very much and didn't want to
take any chances. And she knew I
wasn't feeling well by the look that
came over my face when I eyed that
table of dirty dishes. When I pro-
tested, she commended me for my
bravery, but thought I was much too
ill to get out of bed. It was free
agency all the way. I could admit
the deceit and do the dishes or
remain silent and stay in bed.
'T^HEN there was the time I want-
ed to attend a show on Sunday
afternoon. A perfectly handsome
dream of a boy asked me to go. It
was a nice spiritual show. I thought
that fact might influence Mother,
so I told her that part first. She
was so thrilled! Her comments were
so enthusiastic you'd have thought
he'd asked her to go. Her reply was
full of excitement for my good for-
tune, and she said: ''Darling, that's
wonderful. I'm so happy to know
you're interested in good pictures.
It's nice to know you're so popular,
too. Is Sunday the only day the
picture is playing?"
In all truthfulness I had to tell
her ''No." To which Mother re-
plied with more enthusiasm than
ever: "That's extra special nice.
Now, you won't have to give up all
the blessings of the Sabbath Day,
will you? What day is this nice
young man taking you to the pic-
ture, honey?"
Again, it was free agency. I could
either admit that this nice young
man wasn't exactly perfectly, which
I was sure he was, or let her go on
believing that her sweet little daugh-
ter hadn't even thought of giving up
the blessings of the Sabbath Day.
Sometimes Mother carried free
agency too far. Like the time I had
a baby tending job and the girls
dropped by to take me skating. I
thought maybe it would be all right
to send my younger sister to baby
tend for me, and I could go skating
with the girls. My Mother's reply
was in the gayest of words. "That
might be nice for both of you. Susie
wants a little spending money, and
you want to learn to skate better.
Of course," she continued just as
I was beginning to feel all happy
inside, "Mrs. Backman did ask for
you when she called. And of course
she's expecting you. She had prob-
ablv planned on a big evening out,
knowing she wouldn't have to worry
as long as you were with her chil-
dren. But you have to make up
your own mind, dear. Do what you
think is best. I'm sure it will be
the right thing."
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381
If she had just demanded that I
stay or that I go; I could have had
a dehghtful time arguing the point
with her, but what can you do in
the face of such free agency?
Fm aware that in this country we
hve in a democracy. It's important
to learn to make wise decisions. Fm
happy to relate that, due to such
liberal parents, such believers in free
agency, I have learned to enjoy the
good things of life. I have grown
up knowing that if one is to have
money to spend, one must work.
To give the illusion of being beau-
tiful is a matter of style, good taste,
clean living, and good health habits.
To be a good hostess one must
know how to cook, think of others,
borrow enough chairs, make a fire,
and know how to feel and look hap-
py when one would much rather
shout and throw things. To be
loved one must give more love than
she receives. I have a lot to do yet,
I have a long way to go. But I have
learned all these things following
the rules of right that free agency
taught me. Everything that is dear
to me I owe, with gratitude, to my
loving parents who are such firm
believers in free agency, and to
those memorable green-willow days
that started me off in the right di-
rection on a wondrous path to true
happiness.
cJhe utuniniingbird
Winona Frandsen Thomas
It takes an eye that's infinite
To watch a hummingbird in flight
And see the jewels on his wings
Before he roekets out of sight.
My eyes are only finite ones.
The bird knows that. In recompense
He left off standing in the air
And rested on my wire fenee.
kJI uiandu Lr incus h
U
ion
Elizabeth Williamson
"VTEED a new pincushion for your sewing machine? Use a piece of eeUulosc sponge.
•*-^ Fasten it on the machine with Scotch tape. And why not ha\'e one in a kitchen
drawer for pins and thumbtacks? Mighty handy. Saves a trip to the sewing basket
when you need a pin in a hurry.
Granny Will Be Waiting
Betty Martin
AMY WILLIS poured some
warm milk in the old mother
eat's bowl and stood watch-
ing the eat lap up the milk hungrily.
'*It is a lonesome old life isn't it,
Tessie, old girl?" Amy mu»sed, half
to herself and half to the cat.
Amy was a short, slender woman
in her early sixties with shiny gray
hair that waved softly back from her
face emphasizing her gentle, deli-
cate features. Her kindly blue eyes
and her sparkling smile were evi-
dence of her lovely countenance. All
who knew Amy loved her and
sought her friendship.
Yes, it is a lonesome old life,
thought Amy. Now that she was
at the age in life where she should
be enjoying her grandchildren, she
had none. Her only son had been
killed during the war, and her be-
loved husband, Sam Willis, had
been dead for four years. She had
been alone in the large old house
on Oak Street since that time. Her
sister Clara, who was also a widow,
had wanted her to come and live
with her in Elmdale, fifty miles
away, but Applegate was Amy's
home town, and these were her
people. She would be even more
lonesome in Elmdale.
Amy and Sam had placed all their
hopes in their son Tim, when they
learned they would be unable to
have any more children. The ache
that filled Amy's heart was consoled
by Tim. They had given him every
advantage that they as lo\'ing par-
ents could, and Tim had responded
in a way befitting a son who is sin-
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cerely aware of the sacrifices that
his parents are making for him. She
had thought that Tim would one
day marry and bring his children
home to visit. . . .
Amy was jolted back to reality
by the slamming of her neighbor's
door. It is that little Dougie boy
again. Amy thought. Honestly, that
little boy is the liveliest little fellow
I have ever seen. Amy had been
warned about the little five-year-old
(he was commonly referred to as
that wild little Jessop boy) by some
of her friends. Bougie's mother,
Lillie Jessop, had been a widow for
two years, and she had moved next
to Amy only a week ago. Everyone
sympathized with Amy, to be living
so near to the Jessops.
''It isn't that Dougie isn't a smart
little fellow," they told her. "It is
just that Lillie won't take the time
to discipline him, and he runs wild
all the time."
Amy thought they were exaggerat-
ing, but within the short week Lillie
Jessop and Dougie had lived there,
Dougie had ripped out her prize
petunias, pulled up the onions in
the garden, and ripped her news-
paper to shreds two mornings in a
row. Amy hadn't said anything to
Dougie's mother, because she be-
lieved that a person should try to
get along with her neighbors. How-
ever, every time Amy heard a noise,
now, she jumped. She was afraid to
look outside for fear that she would
discover some other mischief that
Dougie had been in.
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383
npHE Jessop's back door slammed
shut once more, and Amy sur-
mised that LilHe Jessop was turning
Dougie loose to do as he pleased.
Maybe I shoud go see Clara, Amy
thought wearily at the anticipation
of putting up with Dougie's mis-
chievous tricks. But then I just
might not have a house left when
I return.
Amy put the cat outside and then
busied herself about the house. She
always tried to keep active; she
would not allow herself to indulge
in self-pity. She had seen many fine
people become enslaved to pity and
lose their friends. Amy would not
even allow her friends to pity her.
She and her good friend, Mildred
Carlyle, always spent one evening a
week together. They would go out
to dinner and a show, or they would
have dinner at one or the other's
home and spend the evening recall-
ing many happy memories. Amy
was very thankful for these mem-
ories and for the good life that she
had had.
Naturally, she could not say that
she wasn't lonely, but she felt that
she must do her best to make her
life rich. She did not expect to
cease being lonely for her loved
ones. To cease being lonely for
them would be, to Amy, to forget
them, and this she could never do.
Her friends, her Church, and her
everyday tasks, all helped to fill the
gap in her life.
Amy stirred up a cake, put it in
the oven to bake, and then, with
renewed gusto, went about her
cleaning. She had always prided
herself on her ability to accomplish
her household tasks in a systematic
and efficient manner.
Many times when a problem was
pressing her, she would find some
tedious job which required consider-
able physical exertion and throw
herself into the work with such
effort that soon the problem which
had been perplexing her grew faint-
er and fainter. Then, after finish-
ing the work, she would find that
she could think much more clearly
after giving her mind a rest. She
had often told her friends, after los-
ing her husband, that there was
nothing like good, hard work to help
relieve the tensions that build up
inside a person.
Having finished her cleaning,
Amy began to ice the cake, when
she heard a rap at the door. ''Why,
Dougie, hello there; what are you
doing with the cat?"
Dougie looked up at her with
twinkling blue eyes and a winning
little smile that turned Amy's heart.
Her son used to look at her like
that, and Dougie's hair was blonde
and curly as Tim's had been.
''Tessie was in the road, Mrs.
Willis; I thought she would get
runned over," Dougie replied as he
gazed curiously into the house.
Oh my. Amy thought, the little
rascal just wants to come in and
look around. But then he is just a
little boy. Amy opened the door.
'Thank you so much for bringing
Tessie back. I surely wouldn't want
anything to happen to her. You're
a good little boy, Dougie. I guess
that I should have you tend Tessie
for me, shouldn't I?"
Dougie looked past Amy to the
table where she had been icing the
cake. "Mommy never bakes cakes,"
Dougie said with his blue eyes
twinkling again.
"Why, Dougie, would you like to
clean out the frosting bowl after I
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finish icing the cake? Then, Fll
cut you a piece of cake, and you can
have a glass of milk, okay?"
AMY recalled how Tim had
always loved to climb up on the
old stool and watch her ice a cake.
Chocolate cake had been his favor-
ite.
''Chocolate cake is my favorite,
Mrs. Willis," Dougie said, intrud-
ing into Amy's thoughts, as he
climbed up on the stool by the
table. He chatted to Amy about
his pet bird, the fact that his Daddy
was never coming home any more,
and many things which Amy doubt-
ed very much that Lillic Jessop
would want to be known. Amy
couldn't help but smile at herself.
If only adults could be as honest
and outright as a little child, the
world would be a much more pleas-
ant place in which to live.
It was so pleasant to have Dougie
with her that Amy dreaded to send
the little boy home. She would
have enjoyed having him spend the
day with her so much. ''Maybe
you had better go home now, Doug-
ie; your Mommy will be worried
about you." She helped the little
fellow down from the stool and
watched him walk assuredly to his
home.
After Amy had had her lunch she
decided to lie down for a few min-
utes, and when she awoke and went
out into the living room, there
lying on the couch with Tessie in
his arms, both sleeping peacefully,
was Dougie. He stirred slightly,
opened his eyes and smiled at Amy.
"I was tending Tessie for you," he
said.
Amy smiled back at Dougie and
sat down on the couch beside him.
Without warning Dougie sudden-
ly threw his arms about her, say-
ing, "I love you Mrs. Willis, and
I want you for my Granny."
Tears of happiness welled up in
Amy's eyes as she gently held the
little boy in her arms. "Of course,
I'll be your Granny, Dougie. Now
we had better take you home."
"Okay, Granny, but I'll come
back tomorrow," Dougie assured her
as he marched triumphantly out of
the house, stopping only long
enough to give Tessie an affection-
ate pat.
Amy had never been happier, as
she followed Dougie to the door.
"Yes, Dougie, you come back to-
morrow; Granny will be waiting."
People passing through Applegate
would consider it a typical small
town, that is, if they bothered to
consider it at all. To Amy Willis,
however, it was her town and her
people. And Dougie, she thought,
had called her Granny!
(brratutn
Recipe for Boiled Raisin Cake
In the recipe for Boiled Raisin Cake, page 176, The Rdid Sockty Magazine, March
1959, the amount of flour should be 2/4 cups instead of Vi cup as printed.
cJhe JL adder of JLove
Margaret Russell
1AM a mother. I have a daughter.
A httle girl with a round head
and a fuzz of hair and a mouth
and nose and a bkie-black stare. I
can see Calvin in her forehead and
cheek bones, but her chin is mine.
And I become for a moment a
Biblical cup, overflowing with awe
and wonder and a welling, swelling
sense of fulfillment.
And I turn my head that the
other mothers may not see and
desecrate my emotion. . . .
I remember a doll I loved as a
child, a hairless, armless creature
that I washed and dressed and
wrapped in a blanket and held, at
mealtimes, to my breast.
And I remember my cat Timothy.
I remember the warmth of him as
he lay in my lap, the throb and
arch of his body when my hand
moved along his back. And I re-
member lifting him to my face and
looking long and searchingly into
his eyes, seeking for I knew not
what.
And I remember standing within
the circle of my mother's arms with
the grass at my feet and the sky
overhead, and trying to purr.
And I remember the wild excite-
ment of being flung high into the
air by my father and the joy of being
held close afterward.
And I think of the dearness of
Calvin and the vital, pouring
warmth that we share.
I turn again to my daughter. And
touch a tiny, translucent finger. And
experience a new kind of love. A
sort of apotheosis of the feeling I
have for Calvin when he is tired or
discouraged. And I know w^e have
created something very precious,
Calvin and I. Something to cherish
and love and care for. A daughter
... a daughter ... a daughter. . . .
The nurse says, ''I must take her
back now, Mrs. Davis."
And I cry, ''Oh, please! Please
no! Not yet. . . ."
But she smiles and reaches out
purposefully. So I drop a kiss on
the Calvin-like forehead and let the
little fingers curl around one of my
big ones until they are pulled away.
And the room is quiet and re-
laxed and peaceful.
I sleep in a crystal pool of hap-
piness.
•if. ■if. i:f. ■i)i Hf.
QOMEONE takes my hand, and I
know before I open my eyes
that it is Calvin, and that he is sad.
And my crystal pool of happiness
is roiled by a stick of foreboding.
'The baby!'' I whisper, while my
heart pounds. "The baby. . . ."
Calvin's face is twisted, the doc-
tor's grim. They push my bed out
of the room and down the hall to
another, smaller room. And they
tell me that the baby is dead, that
the few minutes I had with her are
all I will ever have.
And I reject their words. With
all the strength of my being I reject
them. I turn myself into a hard
little ball that nothing can pene-
trate.
Because I am a mother, and I
have a daughter. A sweet, living
baby whose tiny, delicate hands are
going to grow plump and dimpled.
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And dig dirt. And grip a pencil.
And accept a diploma. And wear
a ring.
I hear Calvin weeping, and I re-
ject that, too.
Let him cry. Let him be hurt.
Let him suffer alone.
Because I cannot comfort him
without acknowledging a horror that
cannot, must not be.
I squeeze my eyes shut, seeking
blackness, oblivion. But instead I
see again my armless, hairless doll;
my sleek, throbbing Timothy; my
parents; my husband; my child. And
love stirs within me and will not
be denied.
I hold out my arms to Calvin
and to grief.
And as he buries his head on my
shoulder I know that this, too, is
fulfillment.
J/l y^hallenge to 1 1 iothers
Leona Fetzer ^intch
SELF-fulfillment, the very core of life, is realized as we give of ourselves. It answers
the question asked since the days of Eve, ''What do you want out of life?" I can
hear our Church leaders say, "Women make their greatest contribution to the Church
and the nation, as mothers and teachers." Making this contribution also brings the
self-fulfillment we seek, if we work with skill and knowledge, and dedicate ourselves to
the lofty calling of motherhood.
This requires more than part time, rushed care of children. When Karl G. Maeser
said, "Don't be a scrub," he meant, "Don't be mediocre. This is a time for greatness."
But how can our children ultimately find their way to do great things, without the
constant tutelage of their mothers?
When many mothers leave small children to work for added earnings and satis-
factions, not because of necessity, we need to ask another pertinent question, "What
are the basic needs of children?" In supplying more wants, children are often en-
cumbered by more "things." When we make it too soft for them, their strength
and struggle fade, and we defeat ourselves. No matter how elegantly children are
dressed or how luxurious the rugs are in the home, personalities and character will not
grow and flourish without a healthful climate in the home which meets these basic
needs: Children need to love and to be loved. Thev need to belong to a family and
to friendship groups, because the feeling of being alone withers and warps human
beings. They need security, protection, and stability. They need to do at least some
things well, and receive praise and approval. They need new experiences, and fun.
Children should be taught early and often all we know of the right way of life,
and they should be helped to find this pathway. In all these matters we find direction
in a knowledge of the gospel, which some have called a map of the spirit. This is
something for which we cannot phone to the corner store for delivery, nor will it
materialize over the bridge table or the best seller. It is found in the continued quest
for wisdom, in prayer, in temples, in classrooms, in association and conversation with
the Lord's people, and in living the commandments. With this spiritual map, we
envisage the unbounded possibilities of the human spirit.
As mothers, we have the prime privilege of arousing in our children a thirst for
truth. While it is a privilege, it is also our duty to teach them to seek and love the
everlasting things. Even in early life, they should know some of the fundamental
truths about which there is no equivocation: that God lives, and that he loves his
children, that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God; that he is our Savior, and became the
A CHALLENGE TO MOTHERS 387
first fruits of the resurrection; that we, too, will be resurrected; that our good deeds will
be rewarded, and that we will have to account for evil doing; that we had an antemortal
existence; that Joseph Smith was a prophet of God, and that he saw the Father and
the Son, and was directed to restore the gospel in its fulness; that the Decalogue is
as efficacious now as when gi\en to ancient Israel, that the heavens are open, and that
our progression is eternal.*
When we inspire our children to pursue truth, we help them prepare themselves
to give something \\orth while to the world, and to give of themselves. The Master's
teachings are pervaded with the spirit of "It is more blessed to give than to receive."
It is the antithesis of, "What, and how much can I get out of the world?" Or, "How
can I bring friends and importance to myself?" But it says, "What can I give to the
world?"
If space-age educational demands are met, schools will have to return to the
home some of its functions. Mothers must help in the planning of a better world.
Good and great men have always built upon the foundations laid in the home. For
those of us with small children, our path is clear. Mothers, whose children are married,
can devote thought and time to grandchildren, to little neighbors, or to other children
who come "under the wing."
To have the capacity* to arouse in our children a thirst for truth, is a high achieve-
ment. It is no mean task, and it does not fit into the doldrums found at some firesides.
It requires divine aid and straight thinking. It challenges our courage, faith, vision,
resourcefulness, persistence, and multitudes of virtues. But on the way, and in the
end, it brings self-fulfillment, and the good life, too.
*Note: For a comprehensive treatise on ultimate truths, see "B.Y.U. Inaugurates
New President," Church Section, Deseret News, November 17, 1945, Charge given
new President, by President J. Reuben Clark Jr.
S/f c/his S/s [Peace
Eva WilJes Wangsgaard
So this is peace, reclining on a hill
In oakbrush shadows, coolness summer-kissed;
Feeling the pendulum of time distil
Pure crystal moments in a golden mist;
Watching an ant bring home its housefly load
Through forest trails of drying Jimson weeds,
Counting the cirrus cars on azure roads,
Gathering clover balls and mallow seeds.
W'hile far away there wags an anxious world
W^ith hearts too eager and with hands afraid,
The whispered tenderness, the hot word hurled
Against a cord too tough, the too-thin blade.
No battle rages here and no offense.
If this is peace, peace is indifference.
Hal Rumel
DECORATIVE ARRANGEMENT BY FLORENCE C. WILLIAMS
oJhe iX^edding-Uxing cJree
Helen S. Williams
UOW often have we wished for a
new and novel idea for an
announcement party for a bride-to-
be.
With a piece of scrub oak set in
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a round wooden base and sprayed
with white enamel, Florence Wil-
liams made a lovely wedding-ring
tree. For just such a party she fast-
ened golden curtain rings, finger
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389
size^ tied with pale pink satin rib-
bons to all the branches of the tree.
Each ring hung from a bow knot
with streamers about three inches
in length.
For place cards she tied a golden
ring to a white folded card with a
pink bow and wrote the name of
the guest in gold ink. Every guest
at the party went home wearing her
golden wedding band as a souvenir.
At the side of the wedding ring
tree, Florence placed one of her
beautiful flower trees. These can
be made with any kind of artificial
flowers and are lovely on tables or
mantels or to use for centerpieces
for parties, for they can be made any
size and of any color.
The stem is a dowel which can be
bought at any carpenter shop. It
should be in proportion to the pot
and the flower ball. For example, a
six-inch ball of styrafoam would take
a one-fourth to one-half inch dowel
stem, a nine-inch plasta-foam ball
would require a one-inch dowel. The
dowel is set in a pot of plaster of
Paris and is painted any color to
harmonize with the flowers used.
The flower tree pictured is a white
dowel and the styrafoam ball is cov-
ered with tiny white velvet blossoms.
The dowel or stem is wound with
small green leaves that have been
wired with fine florist wire around
it. These flower trees are beautiful
made of roses or any other kinds of
flowers. Florence has two large-
size ones standing on her mantle.
She calls them her rose trees, and
they are made in shades of pink in
satin and velvet artificial roses.
The flowers are held in place with
pins stuck through them into the
styrafoam and the flowers must be
close enough completely to cover
the ball.
At this announcement party
Florence presented the white velvet
flower tree to the guest of honor as
her announcement gift. Nothing
could be lovelier or more bride-like
as a reminder of the wonderful time
she had on this her special day when
the announcement was made that
she was a bride-to-be.
oo oJ nought Lin folds
Maude Rubin
As cereus petals open in the night,
So thought unfolds in solitude and peace;
Its flowering need not wait the early flight
Of morning larks — but, held in quiet's lease,
Its fragile beauty, opening serene
And pure as alabaster, soft as dove,
Illumes the problem darkness with a sheen
Gentle as whispered prayer, as bright as love!
CARLOTA DE YALIBAT
K^ariota de ijalibat s LLmque uiobbies
CARLOTA de Yalibat, Coban, Guatemala, embroiders unusually beautiful blouses in
designs native to her country. The blouse Mrs. de Yalibat is wearing in the picture
is made of white material woven on a hand loom by the women of her communit}'. The
border on the sleeves and around the neck is the work of Mrs. de Yalibat. The em-
broidery is done with rayon floss in vivid colors on a design of violets, orchids, butter-
flies, peacocks, and other motifs. In her hand Mrs. de Yalibat holds another example
of her unique hobbies — a Christmas greeting made of straw matting on which are
sewed Indian figures, Christmas trees, poinsettias, and other designs made of cloth.
Another hobby in which Mrs. de Yalibat excels is the growing of numerous potted
plants. Shown in the picture are various potted succulents and some lovely orchids.
Mrs. de Yalibat, mother of four daughters, is president of the Coban Branch Relief
Society, Guatemala, Central America.
■ ♦ ■
uientage
Viola A. Cornwall
Roots anchored well in love
Will leave the spirit free
To soar above the commonplace
And grow eternally.
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The Silver Leash
Chapter 6
Beatrice Rordame Parsons
Synopsis: LaRue Harding, an orphan,
who has lived since childhood in CaH-
fornia with an aunt, goes to Fivelakes,
Arizona, after the death of her sister
Amelia. She tries to help and encourage
her brother-in-law Herbert Vetterly, who
is confined to a wheel chair. His children
gradually come to accept LaRue as a friend
and as a member of the family. She meets
Dr. Alan Rutherford, a surgeon at the
Jonas Harding Hospital, and his fiancee
Gladys Drew. "Grandie," Dr. Ruther-
ford's grandfather, takes a liking to LaRue.
WITHIN three weeks after his
operation, Herb had taken
one or two shaky steps.
Dr. Alan and Dr. Frame were
pleased. Dr. Alan told LaRue:
'Time, and Herb's own desire to
be on his feet, will complete the
cure. The operation is a success."
LaRue was grateful. She had not
been as happy since she came to
Fivelakes. The children insisted she
go to the hospital with them at
visiting hours. Watching them
with Herb made her heart glow
happily. They had grown so close
to their father.
Each time they went, Dr. Alan
came to the room for a chat. LaRue
had seen him daily, and she had
grown to like and admire him very
much. He was a fine doctor, a fine
man.
*T don't have to ask how you feel.
Herb," he said teasingly. He stood
there, tall, handsome, in spotless
white, a stethoscope draped about
his neck.
"Like a million!" cried Herb. "A
million, million!" Herb had changed
so much. His laughter came more
easily. He made a place for Connie
on the bed beside him.
Erma said in a grown-up voice,
''We're having a time keeping him
in bed, Dr. Alan. If he had his way
he'd be out there on the lawn, romp-
ing with Atlast!"
Herb's grin was wide. "Why
not? I have Atlast to thank for a
lot of things."
Connie, quick to defend her pet,
cried soberly: "Daddy, Atlast didn't
mean it. He just didn't behave very
well, I guess."
Herb patted her hand. "Of course
he didn't mean it, darling."
"He did us all a good turn," said
Joel, and the glance he gave his
father was man-to-man.
Connie looked serious. "We have
Atlast to thank. And Dr. Alan.
And Dr. Frame. And the nurses,
and everyone!" She stared thought-
fully at the white bedspread, and
added quietly: "LaRue, God did
hear our prayers. He did give us
what was best for us."
A short while ago, LaRue knew,
Erma and Joel would have scoffed
at Connie's childish thoughts. But
now they only gathered closer to
their father's bed, and LaRue knew
that unshed tears of thankfulness
were burning close to their lashes.
Dr. Alan went to the door and
spoke over his shoulder in a light,
yet authoritative tone, "Mr. Vet-
terly, you listen to those children.
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They know what's good for you.
When they decide that you are well
enough to romp with Atlast, they
can ask my advice and maybe . . .
just maybe, Fll let you out on the
lawn." He added under his breath,
so LaRue could hear: 'They are
pretty nice people."
LaRue nodded, her eyes shame-
lessly damp. ''I think so/' she
whispered, knowing how much they
had come to mean to her.
''They get their niceness from
their mother," said Dr. Alan very
softly.
Herb who caught the words,
smiled tenderly. "Amelia was a
wonderful person," he said. It was
the first time, LaRue realized, that
he had spoken his wife's name with-
out a painful pause. But they could
all feel Amelia's influence among
them, warm, affectionate, real. She
had given her love to Herb, and
to her children, her sweet, enduring
love. Now the children were shar-
ing that love with their father. He
had lost Amelia, but he had not
lost her love.
LaRue knew, as they sat there
listening to their father's little jokes
about his "plaster jacket," that it
was good for them to laugh. It
would be a long time before Herb
would be entirely well.
But the children faced that knowl-
edge without fear. It was enough
for them to know that their father
had found the promise of a good,
full, busy life. They were content.
When the nurse came to shoo
them out because visiting hours
were over, they left the hospital and
strolled slowly home through the
beautiful summer afternoon.
LaRue remarked about how many
times she had walked by herself,
frightened, lonely, very much alone.
Connie, skipping along at La-
Rue's side, caught at her hand.
"Poor Auntie LaRue!"
Erma said, shyly: "We didn't
treat you very well, did we?"
LaRue wouldn't agree to that.
"Perhaps some of it was my own
fault. I felt awkward. . . ."
"No," said Erma decisively, "we
were horrible to you." She thought
a moment, then said: "I'm sure
neither Joel nor I understood just
why we wanted to hurt you. Per-
haps it was in retaliation for the
way we'd been hurt in losing our
mother. And our father!"
LaRue put her arm about Erma's
waist, and drew her close. "Let's
not think about that," she suggested
softly. She turned the conversation
as they came to the knoll upon
which Hillhigh House raised its fine,
old head.
She knew that they all had a
terrible mental picture of Herb's
chair racing down the slope. To
dispel it, she cried, "I'm sure the
old house is lonely. Shall w^e go up
and pay a call?"
The children took her suggestion
eagerly, laughing at the idea that
a house could be lonely. They
climbed quickly to the brick patio
and looked across the valley to
Blue Lake.
The opening of the Founding
Festival was drawing near. The
scene below them was one of excite-
ment and gaiety. The peppermint-
striped tents were gay with banners.
The framework for the fireworks
made the little island seem popu-
lated by odd little houses.
T ARUE drew in her breath,
remembering how she had
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promised herself that she would be Joel, it was a good way of life. Yet
back in San Francisco long before today is the good life. Tomorrow,
the fireworks scattered their fiery too, will be good, if we keep on
stars to the heavens. Yet she was building." His eyes were mellowed
reluctant to leave. She thought of with memories as he looked at the
herself as a queer, vacillating person, old house. All at once, he took the
A person who could not make up sign from Joel's hands and said:
her mind! Now that Herb was get- 'This house belongs to Fivelakes!"
ting better, she was free to go. All ''Sort of community property,"
she had to do was repack her suit- agreed Joel smiling,
cases and buy a ticket. Yet she "Belongs to all of us," added
couldn't make up her mind. Connie brightly.
As usual, Grandie was sitting on Joel's face fell. "It will take a
the front porch of the house, let- lot of fixing up."
ting the cooling breeze drift through For the first time, LaRue found
his snow-white hair. He was pleased her voice, yet she was scarcely aware
to see them, and showed them a that she was saying, "I could help!
paper-wrapped packet which he had I've got a little money in the bank,
brought along. I'd like you to let me share in. . . ."
"Now, maybe," he declared as "Why, Aunt LaRue!" Connie's
he unwrapped his bundle, "the old eyes were wide, astonished. "You're
house will sell!" It was a large, going back to San Francisco!"
shining black and gold sign with Before LaRue could speak, Erma
the letters FOR SALE printed plain- put her arm about her aunt's waist,
ly upon it. and said: "No matter where Aunt
LaRue looked approvingly around, LaRue lives, she'll remember this
Eddie and Joel had cut the weeds, old house. She loves it, now, just
mowed the lawn, and raked up the as Mother used to love it." She
willow leaves which had carpeted was silent for a long moment, then
Connie's and Janice's playhouse. It she said: "Maybe others will want
was certainly a vast improvement, to contribute. . . ,"
When Joel took the hammer which Grandie interrupted: "I'll see that
Grandie had brought with him to there's plenty of money."
remove the old sign and hang the Joel shook his head. "People will
new one, Erma spoke wistfully. want to have a part in this. They'll
"It seems a shame to see the old want to preserve the history of Five-
place go to strangers. I wish Daddy lakes."
was rich. Then I'd ask him to buy Grandie knew he was right. He
it and . . . well, maybe we could said quietly: "I'll do my part. At
restore it, and . . . and make it into least, I can help with the humps
a museum or something." and bumps."
Connie's brown braids bounced Connie, who was actually learn-
excitedly as she cried: "Tourists ing to be silent when others were
would pay to see it, especially if it speaking, waited until his words had
was fixed like the good old times!" died away. Then she said, "We
The old man beamed. "I'd like could put up one of those . . .
to see the old house as it was. Yes, those . . . ."
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'Tlaques!'' interjected Erma in- more enthusiastic people. Once
formatively. Erma said: ''Daddy can be the archi-
''One of those plaques/' finished tect. Vm sure he'll be glad to get
Connie patiently, 'with a name on back to his drawing board/'
it." "But/' said Joel, blankly, "we're
"Hillhigh House!" said Joel, ex- not going to rebuild the old house,
perimentally. Just restore it."
"The Harding Museum," said La- Erma was not impatient. She
Rue thoughtfully. spoke quietly, as they turned into
their own walk.
rpRMA'S face was lighted with a "There have been a lot of changes
lovely, inner glow. Her lips in the old house during almost a
curved tenderly as she suggested: hundred years, Joel. People tore
"The Amelia Museum." out walls, put new ones in. But
The name was what they had we want the house to look exactly
been seeking. They were delighted, as it did so long ago."
LaRue whispered, almost to herself, Joel nodded and opened the door.
"Amelia would be so proud." As LaRue followed the children
They stood there as the sun crept inside, she felt a little sad. It would
slowly over the edge of the knoll, be a long time before the Amelia
bathing the old house in golden Museum would be ready,
light. The dormer windows glowed She found herself wishing that
like smiling eyes. she didn't have to go back to San
Erma, already busy with plans, Francisco. Once she had thought
5aid: "Grandie, you'll have to tell of the neat apartment there, as a
us just how the old house looked refuge. But she had no need of
when you were a little boy. Just hiding, now. Her fears were gone,
what kind of wallpaper they used. The apartment seemed as distant as
just what. . . ." the stars. Almost a part of another
"I can do better than that," stated world,
the old man proudly. "I can show I'd like to stay until the house is
you pictures. Those trunks in the finished, she thought, wistfully,
attic are filled with scrapbooks. Then remembered her position in
There are bits of wallpaper, swatches the bank. Her leave of absence was
of material. There are letters, up shortly after the Founding Festi-
Clothes. A thousand little things val. She must go back to her job.
to tell the story of Hillhigh House." I don't really belong here, she
Connie clapped her hands and told herself. I'm no longer needed,
wanted to go immediately to the Amelia's family is all right. Their
attic to look. But the sun was future is bright. As soon as Herb
almost out of sight, and it was time can get along without me, I'll go
for dinner. They walked Grandie back. . . .
to his red-brick cottage and then She had meant to finish the sen-
went on to the white bungalow with tence with the word home. But
the maroon trim. she did not say it. It was hard to
LaRue listened to the chattering think of any place in the world, ex-
that went on about her as they cept Fivelakes, as home!
strolled along. She had never seen {To be continued)
FROM THE FIELD
HuJda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for ''Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Handbook of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Margaret W. Clarke
EAST LOS ANGELES STAKE (CALIFORNIA) ANNIVERSARY SOCIAL AND
VISITING TEACHERS CONVENTION, March 17, 1959
Left to right: Lilly Davis, stake visiting teacher leader; Doris C. Echols, chorister;
Flora B. Hansen, organist; Margaret W. Clarke, President; Genevive Anderson, former
president, East Los Angeles Stake Relief Society; Ruby Choate, former president. East
Los Angeles Stake Relief Society; Ruth H. Brown, Second Counselor; Rea Jorgensen,
First Counselor.
Sister Clarke reports: 'Tuesday, March 17, 1959, the East Los Angeles Stake
Relief Society presented a special anniversary party and visiting teachers convention.
All past and present ward and stake Relief Society presidents were honored. Each of
them was presented with a corsage and a pen engraved with the words: 'Relief Society
Anniversary, March 17, 1959.' A seventy-two voice Singing Mothers chorus from the
twelve wards in the stake sang beautifully and helped to make the presentation 'A Light
Shining' one of the finest programs ever presented. Lilly Davis, visiting teacher message
leader, directed the presentation. Doris C. Echols directed the chorus, which was ac-
companied by stake organist Flora B. Hansen. As the sisters entered the room, they
beheld a large and beautiful reproduction of the Relief Society emblem, made by Coun-
selor Rea Jorgensen. To the right were four large tables beautifully decorated with
flowers and decorated cakes, commemorating the 117th anniversary of the organization
of Relief Society. From these tables, following the program, approximately 750 sisters
were served a lovely buffet luncheon under the direction of Second Counselor Ruth
H. Brown." Since this photograph was taken East Los Angeles Stake has been divided
and the new Whittier Stake formed. Rea Jorgensen is president of Whittier Stake
Relief Society.
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Photograph submitted by Lily D. Kama
OAHU STAKE (HAWAII) RELIEF SOCIETY CONVENTION
January 31, 1958
Left to right: Marion Pokipola, First Counselor, Oahu Stake Relief Society; Eliza-
beth Keawe, Secretary-Treasurer; Victoria Kamakaokalani, Second Counselor; General
President of Relief Society Belle S. Spafford; First Counselor Marianne C. Sharp; Presi-
dent Oahu Stake Relief Society Lily D. Kama.
Photograph submitted by Edith C. Bennett
SHARON STAKE (UTAH), OREM TWELFTH WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
BIRTHDAY PARTY, March 17, 1959
Seated, left to right: Bernice Young as Sarah M. Cleveland; Thaola Tucker as
Emma Smith; Bula Swenson as Ehzabeth Ann Whitney; Robert Oliphant as John
Taylor; Floyd Johnson as the Prophet Joseph Smith; Rulon Craven as Willard Rich-
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
397
ards; Dixie James as Ehira A. Coles; Dorothy Weight as Ehza R. Snow; Hanna John-
son as Phebe M. \Mieeler.
Standing, left to right: Angie Warner as Phebe Ann Hawkes; Helen Peery as
Sophia R. Marks; Essie Howard as Desdemona Fulmer; Isabell Watters as Sophia Pack-
ard; Drueeal Oliphant as Sophia Robinson; Beth Smith as Martha Knight; Emma
Bown, director; Lavern Shecley as Margaret A. Cook; Joyce Bown, a singer; Ruth Car-
ruth as Philinda Merrick; Cleo Webb as Leonora Taylor; Veneese Woffinden as Sarah
M. Kimball; Luela Edholms as Elizabeth Jones; Matelda Elliott as Bathshcba W.
Smith.
Edith C. Bennett, President, Sharon Stake Relief Society, reports: ''This picture
was taken at the Orem T\\elfth Ward Relief Society March 17th birthday party. It
was so very charming that we had it presented as the opening exercises in our union
meeting which was held the same \^'eek. The script was written by one of the Twelfth
W^ard Relief Society members, Emma Bown. It depicted the organization of the Relief
Society."
Photograph submitted by Jane Larson
GRAND COULEE STAKE (WASHINGTON), MOSES LAKE WARD VISITING
TEACHERS RETAIN HIGH RECORD AND MAKE
OUTSTANDING ACCOMPLISHMENTS
Ward Relief Society officers, standing, back row, beginning eighth from the left:
Secretary Agnus Goodrich; First Counselor Marlyn Stevens; Second Counselor Ardith
Baker; work meeting leader Fern Zirker.
Beatrice Merrill, President, Moses Lake Ward Relief Society, was absent when
the picture was taken.
Jane Larson, President, Grand Coulee Stake Relief Society, reports: 'These visiting
teachers, who have achiexed a one hundred per cent teaching record for the past three
years, made quilts for the annual ward bazaar held in October 1958. Each of the
twenty-four districts was responsible for making a top for one quilt and quilting it.
The linings and the fillings were furnished by the Relief Society. Thirty-seven quilts
were made and turned in to the bazaar, and all were sold. The project was to assist
in raising funds for the new Grand Coulee stake and ward house. Proceeds from the
sale of the quilts went into the building fund."
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Photograph submitted by Vonda L. Christensen
GREAT LAKES MISSION, NORTH OHIO DISTRICT SINGING MOTHERS
PRESENT MUSIC FOR DISTRICT CONFERENCE
Front row, left to right: Bonnie Dalton; Velma Capener; Faye Connell; Vera
Stouffer; Margaret Wallis; Delma Stonely; Margaret Denton, pianist; Helen Ray; Naomi
Snow, chorister.
Second row, left to right: Delphia Jean Winters; Martha Starker; Lillian Jarrett;
Phyllis Walker; Katherine Edwards; Barbara Patton; Marilyn Morrison; Mary Lynn
Baer; Carol Richenbach; Arlene Walsh; Marie Grose.
Back row, left to right: Ruth Laney; Rebecca Miller; Fleta Wilson; Barbara Pont;
Geraldine Squire; Pat Behrend.
Vonda L. Christensen is president of the Great Lakes Mission Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Madge Christensen
NEBO STAKE (UTAH) VISITING TEACHERS HONORED AT SOCIAL
February 21, 1959
Front row, left to right: Ruth Lyman; Fredrica Wyler; Estella Jensen; Stena Dan-
iels; Leah Waters; Ella Sabin; Minerva Mayers.
Second row, left to right: Flora Reynolds; Susan Ashby; Eva Crook; Alice Hill;
Adelia Dixon; Geneva Wilson; Lillie Mitchell.
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399
Third row, left to right: Pamilia Mayer; Laura Elmer; Leilia Beck; Ruby Richard-
son; Geneva Sullivan; Ella Cowan.
Fourth row, standing, left to right: Laura Cloward; Ella Anderson; Vera Francom;
Minnie De Pew; Rebecca Twede; Tessie Drissel.
Madge Christensen, President, Nebo Stake Relief Society, reports: "The feature
entertainment was the dramatic presentation called 'A Light Shining.' Assisting in
this part of the program were: Rebecca Twede, Hazel Baird, Priscilla Baird, Madeline
Minnick, Gladys Clayson, Olea White, and Faye Elmer. Floral decorations and table
settings carried out the Relief Society colors of blue and gold. Carnations were pre-
sented to those women who have served thirty-five years or more as visiting teachers.
The stake board furnished special music for the program and served refreshments. All
arrangements were under the direction of our visiting teacher message leader Phyllis
Moon."
Photograph submitted by Hope S. Beus
RIGBY STAKE RELIEF SOCIETY, RIGBY FIFTH WARD PRESENTS "SOME
PURITAN WOMEN" AS JANUARY LITERATURE LESSON
Seated, left to right: Donna Harwood, Secretary; Agnes Poulsen, Counselor; Vonda
Rising, President; Pearl Eckersell, Counselor; June Bishop.
Standing, left to right: Arberella Adams, literature leader; Donetta George; Kath-
eryn Warner; Pauline Jones; Phyllis Wood as Mary Rowlandson; Elva Schuppenies as
Sarah Kemble Knight; Stella Brossard as Anne Bradstreet; Lettie Call as Anne Hutchin-
son.
Hope S. Beus, President, Rigby Stake Relief Society, reports: "Some Puritan
Women' was the literature lesson for January which called forth this picture of partici-
pants and ward officers in the Rigby Fifth Ward. In addition to costumed characters
and officers, there are shown those who assisted with narration, music, and quotations.
The table holds heirlooms representing American culture of an early day. The picture
holds added interest for the members of Rigby Stake because it includes Lettie Call
and Stella Brossard, two veterans in Relief Society work. Sister Call served six years
as counselor to Ehzabeth Hart in the stake Relief Society, and twelve years as president.
She has completed twenty-two years of visiting teaching. Sister Brossard was a mem-
ber of Rigby Stake Relief Society Board for a total of twenty-seven years, serving with
three presidents. For twenty-one years she served as secretary. She has also worked in
ward positions. Both women are known and loved throughout the stake. Their love
for Relief Society has never lagged, as witnessed by the fact that at the age of seventy-
nine years (for both) they still express an active interest."
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Photograph submitted by Vida P. Bennett
FLORIDA STAKE HONORS FORMER RELIEF SOCIETY PRESIDENTS AT
MARCH 17th ANNIVERSARY OBSERVANCE
Left to right: Hazel C. Coleman, Secretary, Florida Stake Relief Society; Ruth
Boone, Second Counselor; Effie Meeks, former president, Florida Stake Relief Society;
Vida P. Bennett, President, Florida Stake Relief Society; Alzada Chase, First Counselor.
Sister Bennett reports: "Our president and her counselors paid tribute to each
of the three former presidents at a luncheon March 17th. Only one former president
was able to attend the observance; the other two were ill at the time. This anni\ersary
observance was a lovely stake affair, and the program was very inspiring. . . . Beautiful
musical numbers were featured. The four-tier birthday cake was decorated with china
sea gulls and topped with a china pioneer woman. Over 100 sisters enjoyed this anni-
versary, and we were honored to have the stake presidency in attendance."
Photograph submitted by Cora S. Hogan
IDAHO STAKE RELIEF SOCIETY RETIRING PRESIDENCY HONORED AT
SOCIAL FOLLOWING TWELVE YEARS OF INSPIRATIONAL SERVICE
Left to right: Zina H. Balls, First Counselor; Elizabeth W. Hatch, President;
Myrtle E. Call, Second Counselor.
Cora S. Hogan, newly appointed President, Idaho Stake Relief Society, reports:
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"These sisters have an outstanding record of Rehef Society service. Sister Balls
served seven years as a ward counselor, six years as ward organist, four years as a Relief
Society class leader, and twenty-five years as a visiting teacher. Sister Hatch was a
ward Relief Society secretary-treasurer six years, a class leader ten years, stake secretary-
treasurer twelve years, and a visiting teacher for fourteen years, making one hundred
per cent visits, before her twelve years as stake Relief Society president. Sister Call
worked as a ward Relief Society counselor for two years, and was a visiting teacher for
seventeen years, with a record of one hundred per cent visits, before she became a
stake officer in 1946. A social was held in honor of these sisters, with an attendance
of about two hundred. The retiring presidency and five board members were each
presented with a book as a token of love and esteem for their many years of devoted
leadership."
cJhe LPans^-LPicker
Vernessa M. Nagle
IN our little town we have a Mary and a Martha. But what town doesn't have?
From each I have garnered wisdom, a degree of tolerance and patience, lessons in
community service, and faithfulness to the teachings of the gospel, and from one, a
smattering of humor.
But the philosophies of our Mary and our Martha are in such sharp contrast that
I am frequently challenged in my interpretation of the antitheses of their idealogies.
Our Martha is efficiency personified. She prides herself on the whiteness of her
wash. Hers is the first to appear on the clothesline come Monday morning. Her
home is immaculate; her children attired with perfection of detail. She is neighborly
and kindly, but occasionally a bit critical of the less efficient. Yet her disciplined
mode of life does not get in the way of her thoughtfulness in time of sorrow and
her awareness of the unfortunate about her.
Our Mary has been known to hang a wash on the line at a most unorthodox hour.
Her home shows signs of family living, but there is a solidarity of the group that is
heart-warming. She was once discovered, to her mortification, by our Martha, sitting
on the floor of her living room, sans dignity, sans dishes washed, cutting out paper
dolls with her young family, whose ecstasy in the experience was little affected by the
intrusion.
Her tolerance with the erring one is so worthy of emulation and her personality
so comfortable that she is compelled to listen to neighborhood woes, when she actually
should, according to local codes, be laundering the dusting cloth.
When our Martha recently suggested to our Mary, rather pointedly, that her
sheets would appear more attractive on the line if they were stretched a bit more uni-
formly, Mary smiled apologetically, remarking in her sweet, confident way, ''I suppose
I really am a trifle absent-minded this morning, for after I had hung my last sheet on the
line, I dawdled a bit. You see, I stopped to pick a pansy,"
We need more pansy-pickers in today's society to slow down the tempo of our
hectic living. Pansy-pickers are kindly folk. Their genuineness and sincerity radiate.
They are those who have found that "The beauty which old Greece or Rome sung,
painted, wrought, lies close at home" (John Greenleaf Whittier).
LESSON DEPARTMENT
cJheoloau — The Doctrine and Covenants
ogu
Preview of Lessons for 1959-60
Elder Roy W. Doxey
n^HE revelations for study in this
third year's lessons on The
Doctiine and Covenants were re-
ceived by the Prophet Joseph Smith
not long after the Church was or-
ganized, and during a period cover-
ing less than a year.
With the embryo kingdom of
God upon the earth, the Lord gave
instructions on how his Church
should function at that time, both
as to the Priesthood bearers and the
obligations of membership. Some
of these important truths were
learned from last year's lessons.
Opportunities were now present
for men to be called into the mis-
sionary work of the new dispensa-
tion. The Prophet Joseph Smith
was to devote more of his time to
the building up of the kingdom of
God. The newborn Church in-
creased in membership very rapidly,
particularly in Ohio. Among the
converts were men who subsequently
became leaders in the Church.
This was also a period when the
Lord gave a greater understanding
of his plan of salvation. We have
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learned from revelations already
studied that fundamental ideas and
doctrines were made known in prep-
aration for the restoration of the
Church upon the earth. As the
kingdom grew in numbers, more
revelations were given to provide
further enlightenment concerning
''the true points of my [Lord's] doc-
trine." The world had long re-
mained in a state of apostasy, but
now the light of the gospel was be-
ginning to shine forth that all might
eventually enjoy its teachings. The
Lord wanted his people to under-
stand their relationship to him. It
was time for the members of the
kingdom to know, in part at this
time, that there were events of the
future which had to be emphasized
in the missionary work. These mes-
sages consisted of warnings, reproofs,
encouragement, and hope.
Those who enjoy biographical
studies will find in this series of
lessons an opportunity to learn les-
sons of great worth from men who
became stalwart defenders of the
faith. On the other hand, men
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403
whose actions did not always con-
form to their rich opportunities for
full eternal advancement come into
discussion, and important lessons
are to be learned from their lives.
Some lives are to be emulated while
others serve to indicate the pitfalls
that occur along life's journey. For
the class leaders of these lessons it
would be well to avoid the tempta-
tion to emphasize biographical ma-
terial in a lesson at the expense of
great doctrinal truths and moral
lessons.
Beginning with the first lesson,
we learn the value of membership
in the Church and of the necessity
to be a true follower of the Savior.
After membership, there come the
servants of Satan to dissuade one
from the course of perfection. These
should be detected, labeled, and
understood for what they are. In a
world beset with many beliefs of
men, members of the kingdom are
given opportunities to understand
their true status in life, together
with that of the Lord's other cre-
ations. Problems of life are always
present, but the light of the gospel
gives us, if we will but follow that
light, answers of hope and encour-
agement. The Lord's point of view,
as he has made it known, is of para-
mount importance to the members
of the Church. The foregoing items
suggest the general content of this
year's lessons.
For general objectives of this
course on The Doctnne and Cove-
nants reference should be made to
either the June 1957 or June 1958
issues of The Rehef Society Maga-
zine.
The 1959-60 series of lessons have
been given the following titles and
objectives:
Lesson 17— "Magnify Thine Office"
(D & C, Sections 23 and 24)
Objective: To show the necessity of
magnifying one's calHng as a member
of the Church and also in a position
in the Church.
Lesson 18-". . . Thou Shalt Not
Command Him Who Is at Thy
Head . .." (D&C 28:6). (D & C,
Sections 28; 43:1-7; 27:5-18)
Objective: To show how a Latter-day
Saint may judge whether or not a
person who professes a revelation for
the Church represents the Lord.
Lesson 19— Some Future Events
(D&C, Section 29:1-29)
Objective: To indicate the emphasis
which the Lord has put upon future
events.
Lesson 20— Spiritual Creations
(D&C, Section 29:30-50)
Objective: To indicate the impor-
tance of fundamental gospel teachings
given to Adam relating to the Lord's
spiritual creations, and some of their
implications.
Lesson 21— Lessons in Obedience
(D&C, Sections 30 and 31)
Objective: "Be faithful unto the end,
and lo, I am with you . . ." (D&C
31:13).
Lesson 22— And the Kingdom Grew
(D & C, Section 32, 33, and 34)
Objective: To learn ways by which
the kingdom of God grew in the
beginning of this dispensation.
Lesson 23— A Trial of Faith
(D&C, Sections 35, 39, and 40)
Objective: To understand that only
those who live the gospel will receive
eternal life.
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Lesson 24— The Great I Am
(D & C, Sections 36, 37, and 38)
Objective: To understand the posi-
tion of Jesus in the plan of salva-
tion and of his concern for his saints.
Visiting cJeacher 1 1 iessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Preview of Lessons for 1959-60
Christine H. Kohinson
TN these latter days, we are signally
blessed to have for our guidance
and instruction the words of the
Lord given to his prophets not only
anciently, but also in modern times.
The Doctrine and Covenants con-
tains the word of the Lord given to
us in this day, through his Prophet
Joseph Smith, and, as stated by
President Joseph F. Smith, ''. . . con-
tains some of the most glorious
principles ever revealed to the
world . . ." (Eighty-Fourth Senii-
AnnuaJ Conference, October 1913,
page 9).
Our visiting teacher messages for
the year 1959-60 are, as for the
past two years, taken from this mod-
ern day scripture. These messages
are written for you and for me and
apply with equal impact to all. They
furnish us with the key to right-con-
duct patterns, which, if followed,
will assure us happiness in this life,
and will, eventually, lead us back
into the presence of our Heavenly
Father.
This year's messages 'Truths to
Live By From The Doctrine and
Covenants" place great emphasis
on the application of the Lord's
words in righteous living. We are
reminded that we will receive the
companionship of the Lord's spirit
and the rich blessings that result,
only if we live in accordance with
the gospel plan. We are instructed
that it is important to receive the
Lord's word, but equally important
to put his word into effect in our
lives.
In this year's messages, the Sav-
ior admonishes us to seek for wis-
dom. He reminds us that wisdom
comes from the Lord who will give
it to us liberallv, if we ask him with
unwavering faith. These messages
point out that meekness and stead-
fastness are important virtues to ac-
quire and exercise, if we would be
an influence for good. They further
declare that the Lord has given us
the holy scriptures for our enlight-
enment and instruction. However,
they stipulate that, if we would
benefit from the scriptures, we must
know them and put their teachings
into effect in our Hves.
In these "Truths to Live By," we
are admonished to put on the armor
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40S
of Christ as a protective shield
against the destroying influences
and temptations ever present in our
hves. We gain a better understand-
ing of the true meaning of brother-
hood. We learn that brotherhood
is built on the foundation of respect
for, and understanding of others.
Furthermore, the Lord counsels us
continuously to seek for a knowl-
edge of his truths and conscientious-
ly follow his teachings, if we would
be a free people.
The messages and their objectives
for the year 1959-60 are as follows:
Message 17—''. . • Take Upon You
My Whole Armor, That Ye May
Be Able to Withstand the Evil
Day . . ." (D & C 27:15).
Objective: To show that only when
we protect oursch'cs with the whole
armor of spiritiiahty can we be sure
of the constant companionship of
the Lord's Spirit.
Message 18— ''And Again I Say
Unto You, Let Every Man Esteem
His Brother as Himself' (D & C
38:25).
Objective: To understand the true
meaning of brotherhood.
Message 19— 'Tie That Receiveth
My Law and Doeth It, the Same Is
My Disciple ..." (D& C 41:5).
Objective: To show that in order to
enjoy the blessings and associations
of the Lord's Spirit, we must keep his
commandments.
Message 20— "Therefore, He That
Lacketh Wisdom, Let Him Ask of
Me, and I Will Give Him Liberally
and Upbraid Him Not" (D & C
42:68).
Objective: To show that wisdom
comes from God and unless we keep
his commandments, regardless of our
learning, wc cannot gain wisdom.
Message 21— ''Wherefore, Hear My
Voice and Follow Me, and You
Shall Be a Free People . . ." (D & C
38:22).
Objective: To show that freedom can
only be secured by hearing and fol-
lowing the Savior's teachings.
Message 22— "And The Book of
Mormon and the Holy Scriptures
Are Given of Me for Your Instruc-
tion . . ." (D &C 33:16).
Objective: To show that only by
studying and knowing the scriptures
and by putting them into action in
our lives can we benefit from the
Lord's instructions.
Message 23—". . . Govern Your
House in Meekness, and Be Stead-
fast" (D&C 31:9).
Objective: The virtues of meekness
and steadfastness applied in our lives
and homes will result in an influence
for good.
Message 24— "Be Faithful Unto the
End, and Lo, I Am With You . . ."
(D &G 31:13).
Objective: Only by enduring to the
end can we be with our Father in
heaven and hope to reap his choicest
blessings.
vl/ork llleeting — Physical Safety Factors
in the Home
Preview of Discussions for 1959-60
Charlotte A. Larsen
TN past years we have discussed
various aspects of homemaking
which contribute to the health and
happiness of the family members.
The discussions have included many
important subjects: such as finances,
home management, beautification,
and saving of time and energy.
Of great importance to the well-
being of those residing in the home
is a knowledge of the basic rules,
procedures, and practices of safety.
Whose responsibility is safety? The
responsibility lies heavily on my
shoulders, on your shoulders, on
the shoulders of each individual
in the community. Safety is every-
body's business and can only be
fully realized when each individ-
ual assumes that responsibility
himself, and learns and carries out
the rules for safety. Safety begins
with you in your home and with me
in my home. Only when everyone
feels that safety depends on him
alone, only if everyone feels that he
has a responsibility to others, can
we hope to avoid accidents. This
Tule cannot be learned too early.
Only when it is learned in child-
hood will it be carried out in
adulthood and keep the person safe
throughout his life.
The mother in the home is the
"Safety Director." Mothers, by
taking time to think about safety
in the home and by sharing in the
discussions with the children, can
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help them to become more con-
scious of hazards in the home and
on the street. This education is
primarily a function of the home.
Young people and adults become
much more safety conscious if,
occasionally, the family gather to-
gether for a safety council meeting
and delegate responsibility to each
member of the family. As each
individual, then, goes beyond the
home, the lessons taught around the
family council table have definite
effects on his behavior. They will do
much to establish the right attitude
towards removing hazards and learn-
ing how to live safely with those
that cannot be removed.
The discussions for the year 1959-
60 are as follows:
Discussion \— Child Safety
Discussion 2— Electricity
Discussion 3— Fire Hazards
Discussion 4— Household Hazards
Discussion 5— Hobby Hazards
Discussion 6— Safety Precautions in
Medicine and Household Items
Discussion j—Food Care and
Preservation
Discussion 8— Simple First Aid
Helps
cLiteratare — America's Literature —
A New Nation Speaks
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York)
Preview of Lessons for 1959-60
Elder Briant S. Jacobs
pVEN after a quarter of a century
had elapsed following the mo-
mentous days of 1776, when the
thirteen colonies first became a sep-
arate Nation, they were still separate
from each other within the whole.
After the first extended period of
shooting ended, a second revolution
within the budding Nation occurred.
A war fought with words rather
than with rifles, according to Thom-
as Jefferson, the revolution of 1800
was as severe as the first one. Once
the unity achieved in fighting a
common foe had passed, the diverse
interests and beliefs sought to have
themselves proved through contro-
versy and trial. Many of the knotty
problems which arose are eternal
ones, always to be faced, never to
be resolved finally.
Before 1775 no one sought sep-
aration and independence: how
could goals be sought of which no
one had yet conceived an inward
vision? From about 1773 on, how-
ever, to such perceptive minds as
Benjamin Franklin, the disagreeable
possibility of rebelling against the
dictates of English Parliament and
King became first a remote alterna-
tive, then more and more often
mentioned until events on both
sides made it finally a necessity. But
it was forced upon the colonists,
forced not so much by the acts of
Mother England as by their own
English-bred estimates of what
man's rights were and what his gov-
ernment's relations to him should
be.
In many ways the period was the
most imaginative, dynamic, and
creative in our national history, not
in culture, polite literature, and the
arts, but in erecting the solid uses
of land, property, education, gov-
ernment, and religion which ever
since have been the foundations
upon which our sustaining institu-
tions and philosophies have been
built. Once these were hewn out in
the rough and laid solidly in place,
the maturity which comes with the
years would produce our great litera-
ture of ripeness; meanwhile practical
writings produced by practical pens
recorded for our eyes a living cross
section of an emerging Nation. Save
for Byrd and mildly for Franklin,
the writers comprising this year's
course wrote because the compelling
and immediate truth must be told
now; the impact of their telling it
upon the present was necessary to
help shape the events of the mo-
ment. Thus these writers gain their
power through condensation, direct-
ness, and immediate application of
their subject material to their sur-
rounding realities. Or, in other
words, this year's writers are not
imaginative, but American.
The lessons and objectives for the
second year are as follows :
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Lesson 9— Introduction: Light
and Fiie
Objective: To sketch the background
for changes in the American mind
before and after the Revolutionary
War.
Lesson 10— Benjamin Franklin, Prin-
tei (1706-1790) (Text, pp. 95-122)
Objective: To review some of Frank-
lin's contributions to the American
character.
Lesson 11— Dr. Benjamin Franklin,
Retired (Text, pp. 95-122)
liter-
Objective: To review Franklin's
ary versatility and so better apprecia
ate his native endowments.
Lesson 12— Two Early American
Quakers: Penn and Woolman
(Text, pp. 123-127)
Objective: To understand more fully
the Quaker contribution to the
American mind and culture.
Lesson 1 3— Two Eighteenth - Cen-
tury Ohseiveis: Byid and Cieve-
coeui (Text, pp. 73-83, 127-136)
Objective: To contrast two evalua-
tions of early American character.
Lesson 14— Thomas Paine, Revolu-
tionist (Text, pp. 137-148)
Objective: To evaluate Thomas
Paine's contribution to the ideal of
freedom.
Lesson 15— The Fedeiahsts and the
Great Transition (Text, pp. 24-32)
Objective: To make preliminary ac-
quaintance with the Federahstic
concepts of man and government as
written by Timothy Dwight and
Alexander Hamilton.
Lesson 16— Thomas Jefferson (1743-
1826) (Text, pp. 149-154)
Objective: To understand and ap-
preciate Jefferson's contribution to
the American way of life.
Social Science — Spiritual Living
in the Nuclear Age
Preview of Lessons for 1959-60
Elder Blaine M. Porter
Course Objective: To consider the ways in which we can increase our emotional
and religious maturity and develop the personal characteristics which will enable us
more fully to live the abundant life as prescribed by Christ.
VU^HETHER we like it or not, and practices in terms of new en-
we are confronted by the vironmental and cultural conditions.
necessity of re-evaluating many of These new conditions were drama-
our personal and social attitudes tically ushered in by the first use
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409
of the atomic bomb on Hiroshima
in August 1945. This has been fol-
lowed by the development of hydro-
gen bombs^ jet airplanes, and the
satellite age, beginning with the
launching of Sputnik I on October
4, 1957. Now with satellites cir-
cling the earth and being fired past
the moon and sent into orbit around
the sun, we are forced to w^onder
what almost unbelievable accom-
plishments are to follow.
As a result of these spectacular
events an attitude of unrest has be-
gun to pervade our personal and
social thinking. We are suddenly
frightened as we realize that man
now possesses the power and me-
chanical devices to destrov himself
physically. More serious than the
prospect of nuclear war is the likeli-
hood that we may fail to defend and
perpetuate what remains of civilized
and happy living. A society not
nourished by unwavering devotion
to the values of the spirit will surely
go down to ruin.
Certain reappraisals have taken
place as a result of these frightening
events of our time. One might
question whether or not these re-
appraisals have been carefully and
objectively conducted, or if they
have taken place in a state of anx-
iousness and frenzy. It seems
unthinkable that training and re-
search in the area of physical sci-
ences should be expanded regardless
of the cost. Technological super-
iority alone will not determine the
winner of the world conflicts which
may lie ahead. It is more likely that
world conflicts will be finally won
only by nations of free men who
are free to think for themselves and
who have developed the capacity to
think and live in a mature fashion.
One might seriously question the
adequacy of a society which has
demonstrated its ability to preserve
its existence but has done so at the
expense of sacrificing its ability and
willingness to formulate and defend
cultural and spiritual values.
Wisdom, ethics, understanding, sym-
pathy, unselfishness, kindness, purity of
motive, love of justice, love of one's fel-
lowman — these are the emotions and at-
titudes for lack of which our spiritually
undernourished age is languishing. . . .
These unlock the door of human happi-
ness. These have the power to subordi-
nate our science and our discovery into
benign instruments for the service of man-
kind (Jensen, Ehis E., "Our Under-
nourished Philosophy Department," Phi
Kappa Phi Journal, Summer 1958, pp.
23-24, used by permission).
The challenge of living spiritually
in a nuclear age is before us, and it
is quite possible that the success
which we achieve in this direction
will be of far greater significance in
determining the peace of the world
in the future than will the accom-
plishments of being in first place in
the satellite race. It will be the
purpose of the series of lessons on
''Spiritual Living in the Nuclear
Age" to consider the ways in which
we can increase our emotional and
religious maturity and develop the
personal characteristics which will
enable us more fully to live the
abundant life as prescribed by
Christ. The importance of this lat-
ter achievement lies not only in the
significant role which it can play in
establishing a peaceful world, but
also in the contribution it makes in
helping us experience more gracious
and happy living as we move to-
ward our goal of perfection.
An attempt will be made to pre-
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sent the lesson material so that it
will seem sufficiently specific and
tangible to be of practical use and
not in the realm of theory and ab-
stractness. However, it should be
remembered that we cannot be led
by the hand all the way and have
someone point out each step. The
challenges of our time and of the
gospel of Jesus Christ require a ma-
turity of developing an understand-
ing of principles and a capacity to
interpret and apply these principles
to our own unique situation. We
wish you happy adventuring through
the following lessons:
Lesson i— The Spiritual Road
Objective: To appraise present world
conditions and to chart a course for
the spiritually minded person living
in the nuclear age.
Lesson 2— Developing Emotional
Maturity
Objective: To gain an understanding
of what emotional maturity is and
how it can be evaluated.
Lesson 3— The Role of Emotional
Maturity in Spiritual Living
Objective: To analyze some of the
factors influencing development of
emotional maturity; and to develop
an appreciation of the importance of
emotional maturity in living the ful-
ness of the gospel.
Lesson 4— The Individual and Re-
ligious Maturity— Part J
Objective: To consider some criteria
of religious maturity and the role of
religious maturity in spiritual living.
Lesson 5— The Individual and Re-
ligious Matuiity—Pait U
Objective: To consider some criteria
of religious maturity and the role of
religious maturity in spiritual living.
Lesson 6— Creative and Spiritual
Living— Pathways to Peace
Paitl
Objective: To explore the ways in
which creative and spiritual living can
add to the abundance and richness of
life.
Lesson 7— Creative and Spiritual
Living— Pathways to Peace
Part 11
Objective: To explore the ways in
which creative and spiritual living can
contribute toward building a world
of peace and good will toward men.
Viyhere the K^uli (^oes
Gwen Marler Barney
High as I want to go
Is where the gull flies in slow turning
Away from what I know, from call and care.
But look below and bird swiftly wheels to nest
As I to bungalow.
/totes on the ^yiuthors
of the JLessons
'T^HIS year two new writers are
represented among the authors
of the lessons and introduced to
readers of the Magazine. Biograph-
ical sketches of Elder Blaine M.
Porter and Charlotte A. Larsen fol-
low.
OLAINE M. Porter, author of the
social science lessons ''Spiritual
Living in the Nuclear Age/' was
born in Morgan, Utah, the second
son of Ernest and Edna Brough
Porter. He graduated from Morgan
High School and Morgan L.D.S.
Seminary. He attended Utah State
University and Weber College,
where he was in the first graduat-
ing class from the Institute of Re-
ligion at Weber College.
Dr. Porter served in the United
States Air Force as a pilot during
World War II, during which time
he was awarded both US and RAF
wings. He returned to Brigham
Young University, where he received
his Bachelor's and Master's Degrees.
His Ph.D. was received at Cornell
University, Ithaca, New York. He
was a member of the faculty at Iowa
State College for five years, and,
since the fall of 1955, he has been
professor and chairman of the De-
partment of Human Development
and Family Relationships at Brig-
ham Young University.
He served in the Sunday School
superintendency at B. Y. U., was
Sunday School superintendent in
the branch at Ames, Iowa, and a
member of the stake YMMIA super-
intendency in Long Beach, Cali-
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fornia. He recently served as chair-
man of a special research and ad-
visory committee for the General
Boards of the Primary and YWMIA.
Fie is presently a member of the
East Sharon Stake Sunday School
board.
He is a member of the executive
committee and board of directors
of the National Council on Family
Relations and chairman of its sec-
tion on marriage counseling. He
served as the president-elect of the
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on Family Relations and Child De-
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ried Elizabeth Taylor of Spanish
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dren, Claudia, Roger, David, and
Patty.
QHARLOTTE A. Larsen, author
of the work meeting lessons,
'Thysical Safety Factors in the
Home," has been a member of the
General Board of Relief Society
since 1953. One of nine children,
she was born in Logan, Utah, a
daughter of John H. and Anna
Eliason Anderson. She attended
Brigham Young College and Utah
State Agricultural College. She mar-
ried Joseph Reuben Larsen, and
they are parents of five children,
four of them living: Dr. L. C. Lar-
sen, Salt Lake City chiropodist; Mrs.
Bernice Larsen Robbins; John A.
Larsen, Assistant Principal, West
High School, Salt Lake City, Utah;
and Dr. J. R. Larsen, Jr., Professor of
Entomology, University of Penn-
sylvania. A daughter LaFaye Larsen
died at the age of nine years. There
are sixteen grandchildren and two
great-grandchildren .
The family members are all de-
voted to the Church and take an
active part in it. Sister Larsen has
been a Relief Society worker for
more than thirty years, and has also
worked in the other auxiliaries of
the Church, including the position
of drama director in Yale and Yale-
crest Wards, Salt Lake City, Utah.
For many years she was a teacher
of private groups in dramatic arts
and public speaking.
At present she is Second Vice-
President of the Salt Lake City
Safety Council, and for four years
she has represented the General
Board of Relief Society on this
council.
For biographical sketches of the
authors of the other lessons, see:
Elder Roy W. Doxey, author of the
theology lessons, The Relief Society Maga-
zine, June 1957, page 410.
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Peimelh Haggard
M
Y heart is full of thanksgiving
for the beautiful memories
I carry with me of my early
training, and for the habits acquired
as a small girl. When we were
young, we children went to Relief
Society with mother. She never
knew what it was to stay home be-
cause it happened to be nap time.
For that one day, we skipped our
naps. Biby-sitters were not heard
of then. Everyone went and took
their little ones — and for this I am
grateful. Now that I am older and
have a grown daughter with four
little ones of her own, I can see how
important good habits can be when
children are young.
I respect and love my mother for
setting the proper example for me,
and now my daughter, in turn, has
the habit of going to Rehef Society,
not because she thinks she should,
but because she wants to. And how
did she acquire that habit? Be-
cause while she was young and at
home, she saw the great good Relief
Society had done for me. In one
of her recent letters she wrote about
walking to Relief Society and taking
her babies. Her car was tied up for
the day, but that didn't keep her
home. In turn, her children are
getting the habit and know what
Tuesday has in store for them.
RELIEF SOCIETY FOR MOTHERS AND DAUGHTERS 415
Every young girl should have pensable, just remember, none of
praise and honor for her mother and us is indispensable, but we do want
encourage her to go to Relief So- to leave a good impression in the
ciety meetings and perform her hearts of all those who know us, and
duties. The things she learns there we can do that by developing our-
help her to be a better mother and selves spiritually. Relief Society of-
wife. fers this development.
Life is like climbing a mountain. I am sure all of you sometime
You know full well that on reaching have seen the beautiful flowers
the top there will be unfolded to blooming on the hillside in the
you blessings of which you never springtime. Maybe several years go
even dreamed. But, as you struggle by without a single blossom. What
upwards, pebbles get into your shoes is the reason for this? Seeds aren't
and hurt your feet, briars tear and planted just certain years. It takes
scratch you, and, suddenly, you trip God's refreshing and life-giving rain
and fall, having been unaware of a and lots of sunshine to make these
hidden rock in the ground. This seeds develop and mature into beau-
can be compared to difficulties we tiful plants and flowers. I firmly
meet with in everyday life. The peb- believe that the Relief Society can
ble which hurts our foot is that little help our members bloom into beau-
desire not to do all the things we tiful flowers. Our lessons in theology
know we should, thus hurting us where we learn our Lord's work; in
spiritually and physically; the briar culture where we study the best of
which scratches and tears is an un- the world's literature; in music
kind act to those who are trying so where we gain an appreciation of
hard to encourage and lead us along this lovely gift; in social science
the right path. And the hidden rock which we can apply to everyday af-
could be the criticism we make of fairs; in work meetings which pro-
our leaders. vide an opportunity for our young
But the stout of heart, obeying members all these things can
the Lord's commandments despite act as God's rain and sunshine upon
their many weaknesses, follow the our members. The seed is planted
path with increased love and obedi- in each of us and with an earnest
ence. desire on our part, God will make
it bloom.
npHE Relief Society was organized I used to think, what a nice person
to raise human life to its high- I am. So many wicked things I
est level, and, surely, it does just that didn't do. But now that I have
for all those who will let it. Most grown older, I sigh to think of the
people need improvement, but the many good things I didn't do.
place to begin is with ourselves. I make a special note on impor-
Sometime when you're feeling im- tant things to do and, although I
portant, sometime when your ego's struggle every day, I never get quite
in bloom, sometime when you take through
it for granted you're the best quali- And so it goes from day to day,
fied person in the room, sometime forever without end, no matter how
when you feel that you are indis- much energy I constantly expend.
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Bathe me in beauty, World,
Immerse me in your color and your sound.
Let all your greening hills envelop me
In loveliness immaculately found.
Weave me in wonder, World.
Let all your leaf-spun magic be a veil
Encasing me this hour in turquoise light,
Where nothing dark nor doubting can assail.
Mould me in music. World.
Circle me with chiming lilt of bird.
Let me be part of the most quiet sound,
My being song with all that it has heard.
Sate me with summer, World,
With tall, cool grass, with petal, and the high
Clouds moving endlessly. Let me be one
With the silent signature of sun and sky.
The Cover: Capitol Building, Baton Rouge, Louisiana
Photograph by Fred H. Ragsdale, Free Lance Photographers Guild
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Photograph by Don Knight
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Qjrom it
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I enjoyed verv much the article "Would
You Write Poetry?" by Syhia Probst
Young in the ]\Iay issue of the Magazine.
It appeared to me as one of the best I have
read on the subject. It is satisfying to
know that at last I have succeeded in
\\riting a stor\' ^^■orthy of publication in
the Magazine ("Gem of the Hills," May
1959). I have received many compli-
ments on it.
— Lvdia M. Sorcnsen
Emerw Utah
From deep in the heart of Texas, I'm
lost without mv KtM^i Society Magazine,
as the cowboy without his boots! Being
so far from the headquarters of the Church,
we here need all the words of wisdom
and inspiration we can get via our Church
publications. The good, clean, whole-
some stories, and other features of the
Magazine, arc a welcome relief from the
world of every da\ tension and rush.
— Mrs. Beatrice Foster
Arlington, Texas
Mr. Hale and I have returned to Japan,
and will be here for one more year. I \'ery
much appreciate the Magazine. ... I study
the lessons bv myself, but enjoy the
Magazine alwa^^s, and it seems like a breath
of home when the Magazine arrives. I
use the recipes to teach my young Japa-
nese friends how to cook. We have made
the "Orange Date Nut Bread" (from the
January issue ) . The girls are very much
surprised that a religious Magazine has so
much material for everyday living.
— Miriam C. Hale
Nagoya, Japan
I feel that I have missed a great deal
by not being brought up in the Church,
and am deeply thankful to be able to read
material in the Magazine to help me in
trying to rear a child who will be a credit
to the Church. I look forward to each
issue and often read portions aloud to my
husband, so that he, too, can share the
wonderful poems, stories, and articles. The
recipes help me to make meals more in-
teresting.
— Millie Martindale
Bossier City, Louisiana
Page 418
I have read the Magazine since I was a
child in my mother's home and have en-
joyed every story and lesson just a little
more than the last. It is really wonderful
to have a good Magazine coming into our
home now when there is so little material
of similar calibre a\ailable.
— Lorav C. Randall
Compton, California
I surely enjoy the Magazine and receive
much inspiration from it. The wonder-
ful messages that reach me while reading
the stories and articles help me so much
in the role as a wife and mother.
—Sharon B. Ballif
Phoenix, Arizona
My mother-in-law was so kind to send
me The Relief Society Magazine for our
stay here in the Netherlands while my
husband is studying plant breeding at
Wageningen. I am grateful for the Relief
Society organization and my membership
in it. Here in our small branch of the
Church I meet with six other members
for our meetings. I ride mv bicycle to
these meetings. The Magazine has so
many faith-building articles. I read it
from cover to cover and then pass it on
to the Rehef Society president here at the
Ede Branch.
— Mrs. Merilouisc H. Madsen
Bennehom, Netherlands
I have again sent in gift subscriptions
for three sisters, one daughter, and two
daughters-in-law. They all write heartfelt
thanks for the lo\'ely Magazine, "the
Christmas present that lasts all year." I
am truly grateful for the inspirational and
worthwhile subject matter I find in every
number,
— Etta S. Bobbins
Idaho Falls, Idaho
It is indeed a pleasure and a satisfac-
tion to be instrumental in bringing the
inspiration as well as the wealth of in-
struction The Rehef Society Magazine
brings into the homes.
— Jennie W. Erekson
Salt Lake City, Utah
THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford President
Marianne C. Sharp .___.- First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen --------- Second Counselor
Hulda Parker ------ Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Aleine M. Young Edith P. Backman Mary V. Cameron
Edith S. Elhott Josie B. Bay Winniefred S. Alton W. Hunt
Florence J. Madsen Christine H. Robinson Manwaring Wealtha S. Mendenhall
Leone G. Layton Alberta H. Christensen Elna P. Haymond Pearle M. Olsen
Blanche B. Stoddard Mildred B. Eyring Annie M. Ellsworth Elsa T. Peterson
Evon W. Peterson Charlotte A. Larsen Mary R. Young Irene B. Woodford
Fannie S. Kienitz
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor ------------ Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor -._.------ Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager _.-.-.---- Belle S. Spafford
VOL 46 JULY 1959 NO. 7
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SPECIAL FEATURES
In Memoriam — President Stephen L Richards 421
America's Challenge — Individual Righteousness A. Theodore Tuttle 424
Fanny Steenblik Kienitz Appointed to General Board of Relief Society Elsie M. Belliston 427
The Gulf States Mission Preston R. Nibley 428
' 'More Precious Than Rubies' ' 440
FICTION
Blue Voile for Dreams Norma Wrathall 430
Pretending Garden Helen H. Trutton 444
Such a Heavenly Secret Mabel Law Atkinson 450
The Silver Leash — Chapter 7 Beatrice Rordame Parsons 455
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 418
Sixty Years Ago 436
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 437
Editorial: Planning Summer Activities for Children Marianne C. Sharp 438
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 461
Birthday Congratulations 488
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Recipes From the Gulf States Mission Emma A. Hanks 441
Jewels for the Table Marian Gardner Nielson 448
Meletia Miles Makes Sweaters in Unusual Designs 454
Recipe for Cold Water Soap 488
LESSONS FOR OCTOBER
Theology — "Magnify Thine Office" Roy W. Doxey 468
Visiting Teacher Messages — "... Take Upon You My Whole Armor. . ."
Christine H. Robinson 474
Work Meeting — Child Safety Charlotte A. Larsen 475
Literature — Introduction: Light and Fire Briant S. Jacobs 477
Social Science — The Spiritual Road Blaine M. Porter 483
POETRY
Summer Cry — Frontispiece Christie Lund Coles 417
Summit Maude Rubin 423
To Benjamin Franklin Elsie McKinnon Strachan 435
First in the Valley Dorothy J. Roberts 439
Search Not Stars Leona Fetzer Wintch 447
Quoit Tower, San Francisco Margery S. Stewart 453
Elizabeth Ethel Jacobson 460
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Copyright 1959 by General Board of Relief Society of The Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
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PRESIDENT STEPHEN L RICHARDS
9n m
emonam
Wresident Stephen oc LKichards
(June 18, 1879— May 19, 1959)
PRESIDENT Stephen L Rich-
ards, First Counselor in the
First Presidency, died sudden-
ly on Tuesday morning, May 19,
1959. Fie would have turned eighty
years old on June 18th. The news
of his passing brought sorrow to the
membership of the Church whom
he had devotedly ser\'ed for forty-
two years— thirty-four years as a
member of the Quorum of the
Twelve and for the last eight years
as First Counselor to his loved and
esteemed friend. President David
O. McKay. During his service in
the First Presidency, President Rich-
ards has given special attention to
the direction of the missionary pro-
gram of the Church. To that work
he gave unsparingly of his great
powers and capabilities. The in-
creased missionary work during his
years of service bespeaks his influ-
ence and effectiveness.
President Richards lived those
things which he taught. The
sacredness of the home and its
perpetuity in the hereafter were
exemplified by his personal life. To
him and his dearly beloved wife,
Irene Smith Merrill Richards, there
were born nine children, seven of
whom survive him. Including those
who became a part of President
Richard's family through marriage,
there were eighty-four members in
the closely knit family circle at the
time of President Richard's passing.
President Richards and his wife,
Irene, have bequeathed a great
heritage to their children and to
their families and set high standards
of family life for the members of
the Church as well as for the world.
Relief Society acknowledges with
gratitude the interest which Presi-
dent Richards had in it. Preserved
in the pages of The Relief Society
Magazine for many years past are
words of counsel and admonition
from him. While his mortal span
has passed, the influence of his
teachings will continue to be felt.
It seems fitting to include excerpts
so that his own words may speak
to us.
The visiting teachers of Relief
Society and the work wdiich he en-
visioned for them engaged his atten-
tion particularly:
I pay my tribute of respect, admiration,
and love to the \isiting teachers of the
Relief Society of The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints. In my hum-
ble judgment, and to the best of my
knowledge, there has not existed in the
last hundred years, and there does not
now exist, any group of persons, male or
female, who have given and now give more
de\'Oted, altruistic, unselfish influence and
self-effacing service to the children of our
Father than this group of Relief Society
visiting teachers. They are the quiet, un-
obtrusive, faithful guardians of our homes.
Throughout the years their kindly ministra-
tions have been countless. They, with the
bishops, have been the first to appear
with offerings of help in times of sick-
ness, death, or other distress. They have
fed the hungry, they have clothed the
naked, they have comforted the bereaved,
and inspirited the hopeless. They have
ne\'er taken nor received a cent of pay.
I beliexe there is no other such social
service of record on a purely volunteer
basis {The Reliei Society Magazine, De-
cember 1954, pp. 796-797).
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I
N many of his addresses, President
Richards held up the lofty con-
cept of motherhood, decrying
present-day evils, and portraying in
beautiful language the love and
worth of hearth and home:
I believe that all people are by nature
endowed with something of a loxe for
the beautiful in their hearts, and it needs
but cultivation and encouragement to de-
velop it into one of the loveliest aspects
of living. Almost all are sensitive to color,
to form and symmetr}/, so that good archi-
tecture and good landscaping with trees,
flowers, shrubs and lawns ha\'e a very ap-
preciable effect, even though sometimes
unconsciously, upon all persons.
The love of home is one of the great
virtues of the race, and undoubtedly the
beauty of home has done much to stimu-
late that love. It is very fortunate that
it doesn't take much money to indulge
aesthetic tastes, particularly in the care
of the home. Cleanliness and neatness are
the chief requirements, and personal en-
ergy, ambition and pride can supply these.
The humblest cottage can be a lovely
place, a haven of refuge and a constant
delight, if it is but kept neat and tidy
and clean [The Relief Society Magazine,
January 1942, pp. 25-26).
In such a concept [of motherhood] duty
comes first. Duty is always rigorous and
exacting. It does not tolerate neglect,
and it will not permit itself to be subordi-
nated to pleasure and levity. It entails
seeming sacrifice, but sacrifice is a word
of many definitions and constructions. If
we mean by it foregoing many of the
quests and liberties for personal pleasure
outside family and home then there are
many sacrifices. If we include sleepless
nights, physical exhaustion, and incessant
toil, there is more sacrifice. But if our
vision is raised, and we look ahead to the
maturity and nobility of lives whom the
mother has nurtured and developed, then
we interpret all of the self-denial, all of the
patient labor and exertion as opportunity
for the fulfillment of the greatest mission
that can ever come to woman — mother-
hood, which brings into the \\'orld and
guides back to God the eternal souls of
men.
What such an exalted concept of
motherhood, if universally understood and
accepted, would do for the homes of men
and, through them, for the nations of the
world, no one can estimate. It makes a
home the mission of a lifetime; it deters
di\'orce; it pro\'ides its own rewards; it
makes for the safest sanctuary of all the
virtues; and, in its higher aspects, it serves
to create the prototype of the heavenly
status — the eternal home which awaits
the faithful of all of God's children {The
Relief Society Magazine, May 1951, pp.
296-297).
AT this time when hearts are heavy
over the loss of President
Richards, it is encouraging to read
his words of comfort and advice to
those who lost dear ones in the war:
If a great grief comes to your home,
you will need help. Nothing is more
precious than one's own flesh and blood,
and the loss of a manly son, a devoted
husband, or father, or a life mate-to-be is
not easily requited. Kinspeople, good
friends, and neighbors may come to bring
you sympathy, lo\e and kindness. This
will help, but it will not be enough. You
will tell yourself that he died in a great
cause — in the ser\ ice of his country. You
\\'ill con\'ince yourself that it was a noble
sacrifice. You will be proud of him, but
your heart will still ache and you will
have an irrepressible longing once more to
see his face, to hear his voice, and have
his arms around you and feel again the
warmth and tenderness of his loving em-
brace. Surelv you will need help. I know
of one source only from which that help
may be secured. It is from this selfsame
Jesus who ga\e His life for others and,
on the third da}% took it up again. E\en
with His help you will still weep, but
you will not ^^"ecp in \'ain. If you will
let Him, He will take away all bitterness
from your loss. He will touch your broken
heart and it will mend, not all at once
perhaps, but gradually and surely. If you
will listen to the voice of His Spirit and
His holy Word, He will convince you
that your loved one is not lost but only
separated from vou for a time, and that
you mav confidently look forward to a
happy companionship in the not-too-dis-
IN MEMORIAM — PRESIDENT STEPHEN L RICHARDS
423
tant future where there will be no more
war, no more cruelty, and no more sad
partings from those we love (The Relief
Society Magazine, April 1944, page 197).
SPEAKING of the love he bore
President McKay,
Richards wrote:
President
I have tried but never been able to ex-
press the gratitude I feel for the high
privilege of being admitted to the circle
of his intimate friends. If I may be
permitted to remain within that circle for
the period of this life, and for the life to
come, I shall feel that I haxe won a
blessing of incomparable \alue {Relief
Society Magazine, June 1951, page 368).
President Richards testified of
the divine mission of the Prophet
Joseph Smith, and in one discourse
he spoke of his contributions to the
world, closing with an earnest appeal
to all men to investigate the truth:
One of the features of temple work
should for emphasis be specially men-
tioned. It is the sealing of husband and
wife in the eternal co\'enant of marriage.
Joseph Smith taught that the family circle
is the foundation of exaltation and that its
projection into eternity is heaven itself.
He sanctified the association of loved ones.
He made the father a priest and the moth-
er a priestess in the temple of the home.
If his glorious interpretation of this divine
institution could have general application,
the ills of society would be cured and the
brotherhood of mankind established. This
contribution alone entitles him to a place
on the very summit of distinction among
the world's philosophers and benefac-
tors. . . .
If any man has received in his heart
the witness of the divine truth embraced
in the contributions of the Prophet Jo-
seph, I charge him to be true, — true to
his testimony, true to the Prophet, the
founder, true to the cause and its duly
commissioned leaders, true to the cove-
nants he has made in holy places, and
true to the brotherhood of man in the
service that he renders. If any man has
not recei\ed this witness, I appeal for his
thoughtful, prayerful, sympathetic consid-
eration. I offer to him, out of the ex-
periences of my life, a humble but certain
assurance that if he will recei\e and apply
the teachings of Joseph Smith he will be
made happy. Doubt and uncertainty ^^'ill
leave him. Glorious purpose will come
into life. Family ties will be sweeter.
Friendships will be dearer. Service will be
nobler, and the peace of Christ will be
his portion. I so testify in the name of
Jesus Christ, Amen {The Relief Society'
Magazine, December 1936, pp. 740-741).
Happiness and joy will come to
anyone who studies and follows the
teachings of the gospel so eloquent-
ly set forth by President Richards.
S,
ummtt
Maude Rubin
This mountain summit knows no gentle mouth
Of summer's kiss, nor warmth, nor tropic sun;
Though its foot is planted greenly in the south.
It lives with stars and clouds. ... All climbing done,
It stands alone; its tranquil brightness flares
White above white in layered winter snow.
Stillness to silence stillness, breathing airs
Of rarified aloofness. . . . Who can know
The everlasting loneliness of peaks
Where only God in slow creation speaks?
America's Challenge —
Individual Righteousness
Eider A. Theodore Tuttle
Of the First Council of the Seventy
Tn the souls of its citizens — will be found the likeness of the state — which if
they be unjust and tyrannical then \^•ill it reflect their vices. But if they be lovers of
righteousness confident in their liberties — so will it be — clean in justice — bold in
freedom.
THIS statement, carved in mar-
ble in the Oregon State
Capitol Building, embodies
the challenge for individual right-
eousness for all citizens of this land
—and particularly for Latter-day
Saints. They know that this great
land, the people who inherit it, and
those who govern the people have
a special responsibility to our Father
in heaven. Revelation has made
clear that through the blessings of
God this nation is ''choice above all
other lands," not only in physical
and national resources, but in the
type of constitutional government
that prevails in this land — giving
us freedom of opportunity and
growth. Latter-day Saints also know
that these marvelous blessings and
great promises are predicated upon
solemn and exacting obligations on
the part of the people of this land.
Few warnings are sounded more
clearly in The Book of Mormon
than the call to, and necessity for,
individual righteousness. In the
Book of Ether we read:
Behold, this is a choice land, and what-
soe\'er nation shall possess it shall be free
from bondage, and from captivity, and
from all other nations under hea\'en, if
they will but serve the God of the land,
who is Jesus Christ . . . (Ether 2:12).
Members of The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints believe
Page 424
that our country's Constitution is
no mere manmade document. The
Lord affirms, in the 101st Section
of The Doctrine and Covenants,
that he suffered the establishment
of the laws and Constitution which
govern this people, and he states
that ''for this purpose have I estab-
lished the Constitution of this land,
by the hands of wise men whom I
raised up unto this very purpose,
and redeemed the land by the shed-
ding of blood" (D & C 101:80).
One hundred and eighty-three years ago
this month our fathers brought forth on
this continent a new nation. It cost them
something — suffering, privation, destitu-
tion, blood — e^■er^'thing. They wanted to
breathe the air of independence and were
willing to pay the price that was exacted.
Theirs was a new experiment among the
nations of the world. The "new nation"
was to be different. It was to become
the American system. One may wonder
how and where the idea was born, since
there was no precedent for it anywhere
on the globe.
It seemed to spring out of the American
soil, and in course of time attained a
healthy growth, for here in the great open
spaces no old-world power could suppress
it (Sunshine Magazine, November 1956,
back cover ) ,
Latter-day Saints clearly under-
stand that God raised up men to
formulate such an idea and gave in-
spiration to them to do so.
Their ideas of government were em-
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425
bodied in the Constitution — of which
"we the people" were the authors. Thus
their rights were defined and safeguarded.
Freedom of speech and of the press and
the worship of God was guaranteed to
every citizen from the least to the greatest.
In that atmosphere of guaranteed liber-
ty our nation has become a common-
wealth of some one hundred and seventy-
five million people. Its independence
long has been taken as a matter of fact.
But in that independence can lie dan-
ger. If liberty is made to \\'ork, to realize
its aims, it becomes its own \indication,
and men will not willingly turn from it.
But woe unto those ^^■ho ^^•ould willingly
turn back from this plane of liberty to
become a mere gadget in a political ma-
chine {Ibid).
Each of us must be willing to
pay the price in effort, education,
and service to maintain this hard-
won independence.
If our liberty is lost to us it will
not be through invading armies, but
through the degeneration of the
people. Against that possibility our
forces must ever be mobilized and
our lives dedicated.
J. Edgar Hoover echoes this chal-
lenge to Americans to be full-time
patriots:
There is no place in America for part-
time patriots. If our nation is to live,
if we are to continue to enjoy the fruits
of liberty, we can do no less than follow
the example of the men \\ho won that
freedom for us. Freedom, while a herit-
age, must be rewon for each generation.
\\^ith complete selflessness and with
blazing intensity of spirit, our forefathers
dedicated their lives first to securing and
then to maintaining, freedom. They knew
at first hand that life without freedom is
intolerable. And so they dreamed of
freedom, fought for freedom, lived for
freedom, breathed it and spoke it, prayer-
fully and without self-consciousness.
Benjamin Franklin could say simply
and eloquently, "Where Liberty dwells,
there is my country." And when the sa-
lute of cannon in celebration of the Fourth
of luly reached his ears, a dying John
Adams could arouse himself long enough
to murmur "Independence forever!"
Independence, freedom, liberty — are
words that ring like exulting bells! Today
we need such bells to be rung. This
nation is face to face with the gravest
danger ever to confront it. The menace
of Communism is no simple, forthright
threat. It is a sinister and deadly con-
spiracy which can be conquered only by
an alert, informed citizenry dedicated to
the preservation of the principles on which
America was founded.
If our nation is to retain its liberty in
the future, now, as never before, its citi-
zens must understand that the inescap-
able price of freedom is eternal vigilance.
And eternal vigflance, with dedication to
its cause, brings unity and strength in time
of crisis (Used by permission of J. Edgar
Hoo\er, Director, Federal Bureau of In-
vestigation, and reprinted from This Week
Magazine, copyright 1956 by the United
Newspapers Magazine Corporation, re-
printed by permission ) .
Such unity and strength character-
ized the pioneers who came to these
mountain valleys and wrested from
a desert a flourishing empire. This
was not won, however, by reliance
on the Government, nor was it done
by some patronalistic scheme — it
was done ''on their own.'' It took
co-operation and individual effort.
Their faith in God was such that they
believed he had brought them here. And
they were right. And they believed too
that whatever he commanded them to do,
he would assist them in performing. So
in him, they had a mighty helping hand.
But he would only work through them.
It was their effort which must make the
desert blossom as the rose. They must
plow, and they must water. Then he
would give the increase.
It was a great faith. And the results
were equally great. On their own they
attacked the dried up land, flooded it,
plowed it, planted it, and flooded it again.
Crops grew, cities appeared, they produced
a beauty spot. . , .
They learned that there was no helping
hand to give them security. There was
no escape from want and fear except as
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they provided it for themselves. There
were no socialistic ideas in their minds.
They were individuals. They knew they
must work for what they got. Tliey knew
that the verv foundation of success for a
man, a family, or a nation, is in honest
toil, wherein every man gives honestly of
his effort for what he gets, and where all
expect to support themselves, and make
the best of their conditions ("Church
News," Deseiet News Editorial, July 18,
1951, page 16).
r\URING the month of July,
which is doubly significant to
Latter-day Saints, it would be well
for parents to teach the real mean-
ing of the ''Fourth'' and the 'Twen-
tv-Fourth." No doubt, occasion
should be taken during the family
hour in July to instil appreciation
for the dedication to the great ideals
of freedom and liberty and work
that made these events significant.
It would be well for parents to
clarify their thinking, as well as to
help their children understand that
God's purposes require adherence to
great ideals; and that the threat to
these ideals is often insidious and
hidden behind fine-sounding phras-
es actually opposed to God's teach-
ings.
Whereas at one time Americans were
self-reliant, each individual wanting to
work out his own welfare, now many talk
in terms of a "security" which they hope
to get very largely from someone else.
And where once a premium was placed
upon productive effort, there is now the
hope of doing as little as possible in order
to get as much as possible.
Artisans who once took pride in point-
ing to their high production, now have
become part of a regime which holds
down production to a certain maximum,
which generally is far beneath a man's
normal capacity. And yet full compen-
sation is asked for that type of service.
The "get something for nothing" atti-
tude is crowding out old-fashioned Ameri-
canism. It is entirely different from the
thinking that forged greatness into our
country. As a youthful nation, moving
forward, crossing old frontiers and mak-
ing new ones, for years we put a high
value on productivity. Now many are
slipping a^^•ay from it. Is it a wholesome
condition?
America is a Christian nation, built
largely upon Christian principles. Is this
new attitude in keeping with true Chris-
tianity?
The spirit of the gospel is the spirit
of productivity The Savior taught men
to "bring forth much fruit"; he told the
story of the "unprofitable servant"; he said
that branches which do not produce
should be cut off ("Church News," Des-
eret News, Editorial, July 25, 1951, page
16).
Fundamental to the maintenance
of our God-given freedom is the
necessity for religion and morality.
George Washington said:
Of all the dispositions and habits which
lead to political prosperit\% religion and
morality are indispensable supports. In
vain would that man claim the tribute of
patriotism, who should labor to subvert
these great pillars of human happiness,
these firmest props of the duties of men
and citizens.
The challenge to maintain free-
dom, liberty, and independence in
reality is a challenge to individual
righteousness. Mothers ought to
concern themselves with the basic
things that underlie morality and
religion.
Let us teach our children the
necessity of industry, temperance,
cleanliness in dress, person, and
ideals; generosity, co-operation, stu-
diousness, integrity, honesty, and
service.
These character attitudes incul-
cated into our children in their
youth will do more than all else to
maintain and perpetuate the great
ideals for which blood was shed and
sacrifice made by those who founded
and preserved this Nation.
QJanny Steenouk uxiemtz J^ppointed to
(general iuoara of uxeiief (b octet y
EJsie M. BeUiston
FANNIE STEENBLIK KIENITZ
pANNY (Fenneken) Steenblik
Kienitz was appointed a member
of the General Board of Relief So-
ciety May 13, 1959. In her life the
gospel has been in very deed a way
of life. The rich experiences it has
brought to her span the ocean and
reach into the mission field.
She was born in beautiful Arn-
hem, Holland, to Frederik and
Janna Tempelman Steenblik. Her
parents accepted the gospel and
came to America in time for Fanny
to enter kindergarten.
In Salt Lake City, Fanny's father,
the Dutch shop owner, became a
farmer and dairyman. His family
grew until it numbered eleven. They
understood the sacrifices that are
made by converts to the Church
who come to a strange land to make
their home.
Sister Kienitz grew up in the
schooling of the Church and assisted
in ward activities and entertain-
ments, and served in positions of
secretary, teacher, and counselor in
ward auxiliaries.
She married Willard Smith in the
Salt Lake Temple. They were
blessed with one son, Willard Steen-
blik Smith. She was sustained in
the long illness and death of her
husband by her faith and her loyal
family.
Two years later she was called to
the East Central States when that
mission was organized. She served
as mission Relief Society president
under the direction of Mission Pres-
ident Miles L. Jones, for the two
years of her mission. She returned
home to the care of her son and the
activities in her ward and stake.
Her son Willard Steenblik Smith
and his wife Emily Bringhurst
Smith are the parents of four chil-
dren.
When she married William H.
Kienitz she moved to Emigration
Stake, and, in 1950 when University
Stake was created, she became its
Relief Society president. In 1956
she was appointed group leader of
the Relief Society Presidents De-
partment of the Salt Lake Welfare
Region.
Sister Kienitz has great willing-
ness and capacity for work. She
is anxious to consider others' points
of view. She has a humble heart
and great faith in our Father and
the gospel of Jesus Christ.
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cJhe (^uif States llUssion
Preston R. Nihley
Assistant Church Historian
AT a meeting held in New Orleans, Louisiana, on June 19, 1955, under
the direction of Harold B. Lee and Mark E. Petersen of the Council
of the Twelve, the Gulf States Mission was formed. It included the States
of Texas and Louisiana, and all of Mississippi except seventeen counties
in the northern part of the state, Legrand F. Smith, who had been presid-
ing over the Texas-Louisiana Mission, was chosen as the president of the
new mission.
On the same day that the Gulf States Mission was formed, the New
Orleans Stake was organized, with a membership of 2,580. The member-
ship of the mission was given as 4,996.
Elder Alma Sonne, Assistant to the Twelve, visited the Gulf States
Mission in October 1956. On his return to Salt Lake City he reported
that there were eight districts and thirty-one branches in the mission, and
that baptisms of new converts would reach 400 during the year 1956.
President Legrand F. Smith served faithfully as president of the mis-
sion until August 1957, when he was released to return to his home in
Spanish Fork, Utah. Lincoln F. Hanks of Salt Lake City was called to
Submitted by Emma A. Hanks
Courtesy, Mississippi Agricultural and Industrial Board
THE HISTORICAL BILOXI LIGHTHOUSE BUILT IN 1848
Page 428
THE GULF STATES MISSION
429
Submitted by Emma A. Hanks
Courtesy, Louisiana Department of Commerce and Industry
EVANGELINE'S GRAVE IN THE GHURCHYARD OF ST. MARTINVILLE,
LOUISIANA
The near-life size bronze statue was given to the town by the actress Dolores del Rio
who played the title role in the film Evangeline which was made in this
locality a number of years ago.
succeed him. President Smith, reporting the mission on his return, said
that 'The future looks bright in the Gulf States Mission." He stated that
baptisms had increased from 168 the first year to 448 the last year he
served, and that during his tenure of office seven chapels had been dedi-
cated, and that others were under construction.
Elder John Longden, Assistant to the Twelve, made a tour of the
Gulf States Mission, in September 1958, with President Hanks. On his
return to Salt Lake City he reported that 'The mission is growing. As an
example, there are now six stakes in the area of the mission — Dallas,
Houston, San Antonio, El Paso, Shreveport, and New Orleans." He
pointed out that the mission membership was distributed among twenty-
seven branches and ten districts.
On March 30, 1959, it was reported that there were 4,255 members
in the Gulf States Mission, located in twenty-nine branches.
ThirtyTour Relief Society organizations, with 508 members, were
reported in December 1958. Emma A. Hanks presides over the Gulf
States Mission Relief Society.
Note: The cover for this Magazine is a view of the State Capitol Building in Baton
Rouge, Louisiana. See also ''Recipes From the Gulf States Mission," by Sister Hanks,
page 441.
Blue Voile for Dreams
Norma Wrathall
AT four o'clock that summer
afternoon, Janet Davis pulled
from the oven a pan of her
famous butterscotch-pecan rolls. Lit-
tle rivers of melting brown sugar
crusted over the luscious mounds of
nuts, and the fragrance of buttery
caramel and browning yeast-raised
dough drifted through the kitchen.
It tantalized Janet's nostrils and her
mouth became moist, for she was
hungry, having eaten nothing since
morning. She pressed one finger
lightly into the sirup and licked it.
M-m-mm- she knew that the rolls
were at their crunchy best when
fresh from the oven. She could eat
one or two and still have enough
left for the bake sale next day, as
promised. Almost without thought,
she opened a drawer and took out
a spatula. Then she flung it back,
shoved the drawer shut, pushed the
pan of rolls back onto the counter
and covered them with a clean
towel. She would not, she simply
would not, eat one more sweet
thing. If temptation assailed her,
she had but to recall her own image
in the full-length mirror at Mina
Dee's Dress Shop that very fore-
noon. She could remember all too
clearly how Mina had looked stand-
ing there, a black-sheathed blonde
willow, her lips pressed into polite
silence, as they both watched Jan's
efforts to pull up the zipper. She
could hear again the smooth little
voice— 'Tm so sorry, Mrs. Davis. I
don't have that dress in your size."
This, as Janet, having pulled up the
zipper at last, stared in dismay at
the bulges above her girdle. Just
in time, she had stopped herself
Page 430
from saying, ''But this is my
size. . . ."
Jan now glanced at the clock and
sighed. Time to start cooking an-
other enormous dinner for her hus-
band, Hal, and their two teen-age
sons. Hal would soon be home from
his work as a machinist, and the boys
from her father's farm where they
were working during the summer
vacation. All three were as lean and
muscular as race horses, and they
ate like horses, too, she thought, and
never gained an ounce. The boys
were tall and rangy and tanned; Hal
was tall and thick-shouldered and
brown, his large face always ruddy
and pleasant. Usually, Jan thought
of her menfolk with affection. But
this afternoon, a tiny line of annoy-
ance was between her eyebrows.
How could she diet when she was
everlastingly preparing food?
She decided that she would simp-
ly go all day each day without eat-
ing. Then, when night came, she
could sit down and eat a reasonable
amount, so that Hal and the boys
would not comment. She shuddered
to think of the jokes, the laughter,
the remarks, if it became known
that Mother was dieting. Then she
thought of her sister, Elizabeth, who
worked in an office in town. No
wonder Liz could stay so trim; she
was not exposed to food all day;
she had no one but herself to fix
for, and could eat what she chose.
Liz had been a widow for many
years. She lived alone in her apart-
ment in the city, now that her
daughter had married and moved
away. Often she would drive out
to see Jan, who lived at the edge of
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431
town, and remark how nice it would
be to have a place of your own and
a garden, and that big walnut tree
to shade the lawn in summer.
AS Jan scrubbed the potatoes and
put them into the oven at the
side of the meat loaf, she reflected
that it would be best to make a
green salad. She could eat a large
plate of it, with cottage cheese. Her
smooth cheeks glowed like pink sat-
in as she worked. Her brown hair
had a natural fluffiness that she se-
cretly bemoaned because she could
not make it lie flat and ''groomed"
the way Liz's hair always looked.
Jan was pleasant looking, with a
quick smile, color that flared warmly
in her cheeks, and the easy, effort-
less grace sometimes noted in plump
people.
While the food was cooking, she
went into her bedroom and rum-
maged around at the back of the
clothes closet. There in its plastic
bag, hanging safely out of the way,
was the blue \oile dress. She shook
it carefully from its wrapping, hold-
ing it in front of her, and posed be-
fore the mirror. It was what one
might call a love of a dress, with
tiny ruffles down the front of the
blouse and cascading down the full
push-up slee\'es. Her gaze went on
past the mirror and into the day,
three years before, that Hal had
given her the dress for her birthday.
She had put it on, and modeled it
for him, turning and laughing, her
cheeks flushed from his praise. And
then his face had gone sober, he
had pulled her close and kissed her,
and said, ''Dearest, you don't look a
day older than when we were mar-
ried. You're still my girl— and your
eyes are just the color— how did I
match them so well?" And then
they had looked at each other and
smiled, their lips tremulous, and had
kissed again.
Jan stroked the dress tenderly,
then put it back onto its hanger and
into the back of the closet. Of
course she couldn't begin to get in-
to it now. Her eyes filled with tears
and her lips trembled. No wonder
Hal had stopped looking at her in
that wonderful way. "I'm just a
tub — " she murmured aloud. Next
thing she knew her brown hair
would be streaked with gray and she
would be a fat, aging woman. Anx-
iously, she peered again into the
mirror. Yes, there was a gray hair.
She yanked it out. Just then, the
doorbell rang, and she heard Liz
call out cheerily "Anybody home?"
And then Liz came on back to the
bedroom without waiting for an an-
swer.
"I'm just tidying up a bit before
supper," said Jan. "You may as
well stay and eat. Did you ever see
such a hot day! And me with a
baked dinner. But I had to furnish
butterscotch rolls for the bake sale
tomorrow, so thought I might as
well go on with the oven."
"So that's what caused that
mouth-watering smell in your kitch-
en," Liz sat on the cretonne-covered
chair and kicked off her shoes.
"What a day we had at the office."
Liz was taller than Jan, older, her
gray hair waved back smartly, her
dark eves smiling through brown-
rimmed glasses. Her cheerful ex-
pression \^as overlaid with the fine
lines of years of self-discipline. She
was wearing a gray-and-white sheer
cotton dress with white organdy col-
lar.
Jan said, "I don't see how you
keep looking so cool, in this heat.
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And I could almost hate you for
being so thin."
"Thin? What brought that up?''
Liz laughed. ''Did you get your
new dress at Mina's sale?"
"No— I didn't find anything. Or
—well, if 30U want to know, she
didn't ha\e one that I could get
into— oh, I looked terrible! Those
full-length mirrors!" Jan hurried out
of the room.
T IZ picked up her shoes and fol-
lowed her sister to the kitchen.
Jan began putting the dishes on the
table.
She said, ''It makes me sick to
realize how fat I am. What can I
do? Hal never gives me a second
glance, anv more. I guess he can't
stand to. Fm nothing to him but
just a cook."
Liz was working her feet back
into her shoes. "Oh, Jan, don't
exaggerate. You know Hal thinks
the world and all of you. And you're
se\ cral kinds of luckv to have him."
She stood up, smoothing down her
skirt. "But thank you just the
same— Fm not staying for one of
your delicious dinners. Fd eat too
much. Apparently you haven't
noticed it, but Fve put on several
pounds myself. I had Mina put
away a pink suit for me the other
day. It's one whole size too small,
and I'm going to slim down to it.
My motive?" She leaned forward,
and moved a plate more exactly into
its place on the table. "I'm admit-
ting it to you Jan, and to you alone.
Remember Dan Owens, who worked
for our firm a year ago and then
left for Chicago? I went out with
him a bit, but nothing ever came of
it. Well, he's back, still single—
and he's asked me for a date. He's
older than I am— taller— I always re-
gretted that I didn't give him more
encouragement before. . . ." She
smiled, her cheeks warming. The
two women exchanged a long, un-
derstanding look.
"Liz, that's wonderful," said Jan.
After a few minutes of chatting, she
followed her sister to the door, and
stood for a moment looking out at
the shaded lawn, the roses along the
fence, the garden at the side. She
thought of the fruit trees in the
back yard, and of Hal's work in what
he called their "thumbnail farm,"
of his efforts to keep their home at-
tractive and secure. I am lucky, she
thought humbly.
As she turned back to her work,
she had made a resolve of her own.
She would wear the blue voile dress
to the Relief Society opening social
in September!
For a week, she held to her break-
fasts of dry cereal and weak milk
and unsweetened fruit juice, her
lunch of lettuce and cottage cheese.
But it seemed she was forever stop-
ping herself from tasting as she
cooked dinner. By the time night
came, she was famished.
At the end of the second week,
the sisters compared notes. Jan
sighed. "Oh, Liz, you look as if
you'd fallen away to a shadow. Fve
lost three pounds. Fm starved all
the time, and I can hardly see any
difference."
OUT Jan did not resent her sister's
slimness. Liz was the soul of
kindness and encouragement. It
was just that she must have been
born with great will power, Jan
thought.
"Well, I try not to think about
it. But for one thing, Fm always
cooking. And I'm hungry," said
Jan. "Besides, it seems to me that
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433
the whole world is in a conspiracy
to make people eat too much. Open
a magazine, and what do you see?
Gorgeous full-color illustrations of
delectable recipes. Luscious cakes
and pies and desserts, whipped top-
pings, cream, bananas, all the rest
of it. Then, on the next page, like
as not an article advising people
against gaining weight."
''I can see your point,'' Liz smiled.
Jan went on bitterly, ''It isn't fair,
the emphasis that's put on food.
Just the other day, I heard a friend
telling that she and her husband
were looking forward to a reunion
with a couple they hadn't seen for
years. And what were they planning
for entertainment? Eating, of
course. They'd saved enough mon-
ey to go to some swanky restaurant.
She was thrilled over food. It's de-
pressing."
Liz said, ^'It's true. But you don't
really look fat, Jan."
'That's sweet of you. By the
way, how's your romance coming
along? And what will you do if he
asks you out for dinner? Then you
won't be able to get away with
ordering limeade or fruit juice." She
asked the question with an air of
triumph, as if clinching a point.
'Til eat, of course. Then the next
day, I'll cut down to make up for
it."
There were times when Jan didn't
know if she really wanted to get
thin. Her nerves began to fray,
gnawed as they were by the pangs
of hunger. Her tongue sharpened,
too. A few times she caught Hal
looking at her thoughtfully. Once
he said, "Hon, you're getting awful-
ly nervous. Maybe you need a rest?"
And she had bit back an edgy reply.
One evening she had baked puffy,
brown-topped biscuits for supper.
She hadn't eaten much all day — a
slice of stale rye bread and some
soup for lunch — hunger pulled
at her stomach and destroyed her
will. Almost without thinking, she
broke open a biscuit, spread butter
onto it, and began to eat. She took
another.
Hal came into the kitchen.
"A— ha! Eating before meals. Some-
thing you won't let us do," he cried,
his square face one big teasing
smile.
"No — really. I was just — samp-
ling. ..."
"I'll have one, too, now that
you've let the bars down." He
plopped a whole biscuit into his
mouth. Butter oozed at the corn-
ers of his lips. "The boys won't be
home. Eating at your mother's.
Had to go to baseball practice over
on that side of town." His voice was
thickened by food. He began spoon-
ing out jelly.
"M-m-rnm — what a good cook I
married. This is the best grape jel-
ly you ever made." He set a plate
of steaming biscuits on the table.
Hastily, Jan set on the rest of
the meal. "You go ahead and eat,"
she said. "I— I'm going out on the
porch for a few minutes — my head
aches — I'll be right back." She fled,
unable to bear the sight of his eat-
ing.
OY the time school opened in
September, Jan felt that she had
developed a will of iron. All her
dresses were much looser; she had
lost seven pounds, though what she
referred to as her fringe weight
fluctuated up and down a pound or
two.
One Monday, the day before the
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opening social, she went to her room
and took the beloved blue dress
from its hanger. She held it up,
her hands trembling with eagerness.
Just to make sure, she could let out
the seams a little; there was plenty
of material at the sides. Carefully,
she basted and stitched and pressed.
At last she slipped it over her head.
Strange that it wouldn't come down
easier— she must have forgotten to
undo the side zipper — there — well,
it must be caught, or something. She
pulled gently. At last the dress came
down over her shoulders and hips.
She smoothed the skirt. She had
planned to get a new girdle, any-
way. This old thing was worn out.
She hummed a little tune, turning
sidewavs, holding her stomach in.
She lifted her hands, and let the
soft full sleeves drift back on her
arms. All at once, there was a sound
at the door.
''Why, Hal Davis. How long
have you been standing there?''
She let her hands fall onto her
head, and patted her hair.
''Just a minute or two. Why are
you trying on that old dress, dear?"
She looked up at him, smiling.
"Why, this isn't an old dress. It's
the one you gave me for my birth-
day— it's always been my favorite
dress. Vm planning to wear it to
the opening social tomorrow." For
some reason, her smile had begun
to feel tight in her flushed cheeks.
Hal had averted his eyes, and his
face had become a careful mask.
"I — uh— think you should get a new
dress for the social, Jan. You de-
serve something new, once in awhile.
You don't need to wear that old
one."
Jan sat on alone in the room after
she heard the front door slam. Hal
had kissed her hurriedly and left.
She heard the pick-up truck rumb-
ling out along the drixeway from
the back of the lot.
At last she took off the blue dress
and stuffed it into a bag of old
clothing hanging in the hall closet.
That's what you get for clinging to
something after you've outlived it,
she told herself.
She went into the kitchen and
began listlessly setting the table.
They would have to be satisfied with
cold cuts and bread and butter and
fruit.
AFTER supper, Jan sat on the
front porch in the gathering
dusk. The boys had gone to an
early movie, and Hal had not come
home. She looked out across the
lawn. The grass looked dry, and
there were little swirls of dust along
the path. She got up and dragged the
hose around to the front of the
house and had turned on the lawn
sprinkler when she heard the truck
return. She was making a little wat-
ering trench in front of the zinnias
when Hal came around the house.
He was carrying a large box.
"Hi, there, dear. Sav, I'll tend
to the watering. Why don't you—
uh— see what's in this box? Liz sent
it over."
Jan continued making a little fur-
row. She saw with exasperation that
it was crooked.
"Liz . . .?"
"Yes. I— ran onto her downtown.
She said she didn't have time to
come out here. Had a big date on.
And she said to tell you she was
wearing the pink suit, and that every-
thing looks rosy. Whatever that
means."
He took the stick from her hand.
BLUE VOILE FOR DREAMS 435
Jan bit her lip. She took the face. "It's just that Fve been too
box into the bedroom to open it. busy and tired lately to remember
There was a note enclosed. ''Dear that my best girl might need some-
Jan— I went down to Mina Dee's, thing new once in awhile." He
She had this dress— just came in. I kissed her.
couldn't resist getting it for you. Suddenly she drew back. "Hal
For the social, Liz." Davis. It's strange that Liz would
The dress was of brown and buy me a dress all of a sudden, when
brown-tone muted stripe polished she's so busv with her own affairs,
cotton, cut on trim lines. Jan And how come-now, just what did
slipped it on. How slim it made s^e tell you?"
her look. And her green earrings ^t • i ..^ i i t>
would be just right with it. She ^,"«, S"""^,''- O" Y /^at I m a
was putting them on when Hal blundering idiot, and I already knew
^n^o ;„ that. Well, I couldn t buy you a
CdlllC 111. - -.., I'lTl 1
"Say, that's mighty pretty on ^^^f • ^ f^°^ ^'f / 1^"°^ xyhat to
you." His eyes met hers in the mir- g.^'' ^o I asked her, if she d have
ror. He slid his arm around her t'"^^ ^/°'^ t'^^ ^'O'^e. ^ ^^ed - I
waist. "I couldn't have you going ^^'^"1^^ 5'°" ^o have it for tomor-
out in that old dress. Why, those ^^^'
women would think Fd lost my "Oh, Hal. How sweet— of both
job." of you." She leaned her cheek
"I didn't know you noticed how against his work shirt. The thought
I looked." flitted through her mind that she
"Any old time I don't." He took would never know exactly what Liz
the earring still in her hand and put had told him, but it didn't seem to
it on the dresser. Then he put one matter. "I'm hungry," Janet sighed,
hand under her chin and raised her and she relaxed against him.
cJo Ujenjatnin c/ranklin
Elsie McKinnon Strachan
I'm thinking of you, Benjamin, today.
I'm wondering, were you here, what would you say
About our ventures into outer space.
Our findings that exalted heights erase
The twinkhng of the stars? How would you view
The tracing of the jet plane's pearly quill
Above the crimson slope of e\'ening's hill?
What signs would crowd Poor Richard's Almanac —
What pithy proverbs, wisdom-sharing knack.
Would cushion air-borne hearts who probe the new?
As one "who seized the lightning" from the sky
With kite and string, how would you simplify
Our plans to reach where we've not been before —
To sound our knuckles on the moon's still door?
Q>ixty[ LJears ^/Lgo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, July i, and July 15, 1899
"For the Rights of the Woimen of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
f
RETURN VISIT TO NEW ENGLAND: Laurel Hill covered with blossoms
was a delight to the beholder, and buttercups, daisies and the hemlock with its grace-
fully sweeping boughs, and soft, young tendrils, as well as the old magnificent elms
that had stood for more than a century, withstanding the storms of New England
winters. There is nothing in nature perhaps dearer to the heart . . . than the woods
in full foliage as at this season, unless it is the sea . . . for it is past description and past
all comparison. . . .
—Mrs. E. B. Wells
LET US HAVE PEACE: Today not only our beloved nation, but the entire
world is in a great commotion. War and rumor of war is extant all over the surface
of the earth. . . . Fear has taken the place of content. . . . No more you hear from the
shop of the smith the clang of the hammer in his great brawny hands on the heated
steel at the forge, accompanied by his mirthful song. No more the happy farmer sings
all care away, as he gently turns the soil in preparation for the seed, and dreams a
dream of contentment in anticipation of a bounteous harvest. ... No more the wife
sings about her work preparing the frugal meal for her dear ones. All is changed!
— Mrs. Josie E. Childs
[An allusion, in part, to the Spanish-American War]
^"bUR GOD AND HIS PROPHET
No truer friend hath Prophets known,
No truer Prophet saints need seek,
Than he to whom Thy mind is shown.
And by whose mouth Thy voice doth speak. . . .
— L. L. Greene Richards
NEW ORGANIZATION (KNIGHTSVILLE, UTAH): Myself and Sister Dan-
iels visited Knightsville to organize a Relief Society in that branch. . . . Knightsville is a
pretty little nook in a rich mineral district. The people have nice homes, and there
are many of Provo's old settlers who have had extensive experience in the Church, and
will succeed in the Relief Society work. The ride in the railroad car was superb! The
scenery in the canyon was grand! It was my first visit in the Tintic District. The fol-
lowing names were nominated and unanimously sustained as officers of the Relief So-
ciety: Mrs. Mary Jane Wilkins, president; Mrs. M. A. McCullough and Mrs. R. Haws,
counselors; Mrs. Louise Ball, secretary. . . .
>^. — Mary John
TRIBUTE TO OUR WOMEN: Regarding the results [of the meeting of the
Women's International Council in London], the grand consummation has been reached
of welding together a cosmopolitan body of thoughtful women, prepared to educate
their fellow women. Twenty-five years hence the leaven of today will have leavened
the whole world, and the irresistible force of public opinion will have raised women
to their proper sphere.
— Lady Aberdeen
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
gELLE S. SPAFFORD, general
President of Relief Society, has
been appointed to the National Ad-
visory Committee for the 1961
White House Conference on Aging.
The appointment came from Dr.
Arthur S. Fleming, Secretary of the
Health, Education, and Welfare
Department.
President Spafford, also, was
recently elected Second Vice-Presi-
dent of the National Association for
Practical Nurse Education. She had
previously served as a member of
the National Board of this organ-
ization.
jyriSS MARGARET MEACHER,
the new Canadian Ambassador
to Jerusalem, presented her cre-
dentials to the Chief of State in the
presence of the Minister of Foreign
Affairs, Mrs. Golda Meir. These
credentials were signed by Queen
Elizabeth II. This is the first time
in history that a British monarch
has accredited a woman to head a
diplomatic post.
T OUISE LOCKRIDGE WAT-
KINS, director of the George
Walter Smith Art Museum in
Springfield, Massachusetts, is the
only woman in New England to
hold such a position.
TUDGE JENNIE L. BARON,
^ sixty-seven, of Brookline, Massa-
chusetts, whose parents came to
America from Russia, was named
''American Mother of the Year."
Mother of three children, she has
practiced law for many years with
her husband. She is known as the
''judge with a heart,'' particularly
because of her helpfulness toward
the young.
lyrRS. VICTOR a. carlson
(Eva Leona Hansen) of Rich-
mond, Cache County, was chosen
Utah "Mother of the Year." Twelve
of her fourteen sons and daughters
are living, all of them outstanding
in their accomplishments. In 1943
this Latter-day Saint family was
chosen ''National Farm Family" of
the year.
lyrRS. MARTHA ARDELIA
^ * HUNTRESS LONG, another
Latter-day Saint woman, was select-
ed New Hampshire "Mother of the
Year." Mrs. Long has given devoted
care to three of her own children
and three stepchildren. She has been
active in Church and community
activities, and at present she is a
Representative from Kingston, New
Hampshire, in the State Legislature.
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 46
JULY 1959
NO. 7
Lrlanrung Summer J/Cctivities for Cyhildi
A^ZHEN the schools of the land
close their doors for summer
vacation, mothers may look forward
to increased opportunity to super-
vise personally the activities of their
children. To use this time to the
best advantage is a responsibility for
every mother, and one which merits
careful and prayerful consideration
in consultation with the father. In
some rural communities it may not
be so difficult to find rewarding
training for children, but, in urban
centers, it often poses a real prob-
lem to keep children busy in worth-
while activities. Yet each child
needs to have assigned tasks to per-
form each day, whether it be house-
work, yard work, baby tending, or
running errands — tasks which can
supply a needed allowance and
which will bring satisfactions in
their accomplishment.
In addition to tasks, mothers will
wish to use the free time as a learn-
ing, training, and enrichment period
in their children's lives. Some schools
are now offering ha^idicrafts to cer-
tain age groups and languages and
science studies to older ones, but
the general pattern of a summer va-
cation remains. However, most
communities have summer play-
grounds, and, for relatively modest
fees, there are opportunities for chil-
dren to engage elsewhere in music
training, horseback riding, swim-
ming, hobbies, dancing, and other
interests. Latter-day Saint mothers
are fortunate that the Primary pro-
vides summer activities and mothers
Page 438
ren
should see that their children receive
this valuable training.
One of the most rewarding plans
is for a group of mothers to get to-
gether and plan activities for their
children of similar ages. One moth-
er may offer to teach the group sew-
ing, another cooking, a third may
take them for nature walks, or on
camping parties, another help them
to pass their scout tests or train
them as a chorus. Where they may
be taking swimming, one mother
could do the chauffering for the
group. There is no limit to these
and other worthy activities that a
group of mothers can plan and carry
out for their children. As a reward
for completing a course, a trip could
be taken to a museum, a library, or
local point of interest. Supervised
activity by an adult with a group of
children not only gives each child
more of an incentive for learning
but makes for better relationships
among the children.
But, in addition to experiences
with children outside the family, a
Latter-day Saint mother will wel-
come the added time with her chil-
dren to cement family ties closer.
A Familv Hour before vacation be-
gins could be devoted to planning
summer activities for the entire
family. Schedules could be drawn
up of things in which each child is
interested. The mother and father
could outline books which they feel
their children should learn to know
and love, and incentives could be
offered to older children to read
EDITORIAL
439
good books for themselves. Daily
reading by a mother and occasional
reading with the entire family pro-
\ide lasting memories of joyful
occasions. Not only should chil-
dren delight in the fantasy world of
books, but care should be taken to
ha\'e them know and lo\e books
telling of their Heavenly Father and
his Son, and great spiritual lead-
ers of the present and past. Presi-
dent Grant always gave credit to
the prophet Nephi as a great influ-
ence on his life. If children are not
introduced to great spiritual leaders
when young, they will not have
them as their heroes and models.
This would seem especiallv neces-
sarv in view of some of the present
tvpes of entertainment which invade
the very home and introduce un-
savory and even wicked characters.
Summertime may be a joyous
family experience if the mother in
the home plans carefully for the
interests of her children and sees
that the plans go forward. To make
a home where children feel free to
bring their friends — in spite of the
extra household work which it en-
tails — tightens family ties. A moth-
er who takes time to plan for and
with her children from their earliest
years and who enters into their
everyday activities, will encourage
them to look upon her as an under-
standing friend as well as a loving
mother, one to whom they will turn
for counsel and advice as their ex-
periences broaden and become a
part of the stream of adult living.
-M. C. S.
QJirst in the Valu
eij
For the Days of '47
Dorothy /. Roberts
The quaint rite of dawn's bell and blast are silenced,
That memoried, once, your coming, pioneer.
Yet, long since you came, homeless, stripped of treasure,
I still count blessings you earned for me here.
Never a summer deepens in the valley,
With loud light breaking over window sills.
But }'ou emerge from time and coxered wagon
To part the circle of these western hills.
July can ne\er arch in azure zenith.
But the lengthening shadow of your height
Monograms our city with your stature,
And I kneel solemn, prayerful in the night.
Never this festive time held in your honor
Moves unseen down my calendar of days;
Against the sacrifice that marked your coming
I test again the tenor of my ways.
irtore [P,
e CIO US
cJhan Lriuoii
tes
More Precious
Than Rubies
Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of
her husband doth safely trust in her. . , . She will do him good and not evil all the days
of her life. . . . Strength and honor are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to
come (Proverbs 31:10-12, 25).
her acts, in following the path of
integrity, make of her life an un-
divided pathway to a far-reaching
goal.
And this goal of a woman's life
is not hers alone, for none of us can
truly say that her life belongs to
herself alone and that her actions
have no effect beyond the results
which come to an individual. We
know that we live in a familv set-
ting. We are daughters with ideals
in the circle of home, and with re-
sponsibilities toward our parents and
our brothers and sisters. We share
in the family honor, and we con-
tribute to that integrity.
npHE strength and the beauty of And the woman in her own
virtue have been treasured and home, in that place of love and trust
found priceless over the long years —where husband and children look
of earth history — even from the to her for their ideals and their life
time of the commandment in stone, pattern — there the jewels of her
the ''words the Lord spake unto all virtue are as a shining light unques-
... in the mount out of the midst tioned by her loved ones who safely
of the fire, of the cloud, and of the trust her counsel and her example,
thick darkness, with a great For Latter-day Saints who under-
voice. . . .
Like all of the commandments of
our Heavenly Father, the require-
ment of chastity results in many
stand that earth life is more than
an interval between the premortal
existence and the time until mortal
death — for those who realize that
blessings and much comfort and they lived before their time upon
peace of mind. Freedom from re- the earth, and that they will live for-
gret — the joy of obedience — reflect ever afterwards, then the standards
upon the personality and are indeed of the Church and the command-
jewels of enduring radiance. The ments of the Lord have amplified
possessor of such treasure, though and eternal meaning,
humble, may walk as a proud Even as Paul, the apostle, spoke
woman all the days of her life, to the Corinthians: ''And whether
Unhampered by feelings of guilt one member suffer, all the members
or disobedience, the way of her suffer with it; or one member be
life becomes more blessed and more honoured, all the members rejoice
beautiful, and all her words and all with it" (I Cor. 12:26).
BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
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uiecipes QJrotn the ^ulf estates li iission
Submitted by Emma A. Hanks
Texas Barbecue Sauce
Nicki Bell
1 medium-sized onion, chopped
2 tbsp. brown sugar
1 tbsp. paprika
1 tsp. salt
1 tsp. dry mustard
^/4 tsp. chili powder
V?, tsp. cayenne pepper
2 tbsp. Worcestershire sauce
!4 c. vinegar
1 c. tomato juice
V^ c. catsup
Mix together and simmer for fifteen minutes. This sauce is a zesty sauce to pour
over ribs during the last forty-five minutes of baking. Recipe makes enough sauce for
three pounds of ribs.
Meat Loaf and Corn Pie
Mrs. Henry Barber
1 Vi lbs. ground meat
1 tsp. salt
tsp. black pepper
1 egg
1 bell pepper
2 slices bread
Vi c. milk
!4 square shortening
Mix meat with salt and pepper. Then add egg, bread, and bell pepper which has
been diced. Add milk and margarine which has been melted. Place meat loaf, which
has been rounded well, into casserole.
Sauce :
Vi c. corn meal
Vz tsp. salt
2 tbsp. flour
Vi tsp. baking powder
1 egg
Vi square shortening
1 No. 2 can whole kernel corn
catsup to taste
Mix flour, salt, and baking powder with corn meal. Then add shortening and egg
which has been well beaten. Now add the corn and stir until it is of a very thin
consistency. If the corn does not make it thin enough, add enough water to make it
the right consistency. Pour in casserole around the meat loaf. Bake in oven at 350°
until done. If desired, add catsup to meat loaf just before it is done and brown slightly.
Serve in casserole while it is hot.
Cottage Cheese Pie
1 c. sugar
3 tbsp. flour
1 c. milk
1 pt. cottage cheese
1 tbsp. melted butter
3 egg yolks
3 egg whites
1 unbaked pie shell
Combine ingredients in order given, with the exception of the egg whites. Stir
all ingredients together thoroughly, then add stiffly beaten egg whites. Pour into un-
baked pie shell and sprinkle with cinnamon. Bake for fifty-five minutes at 350°
temperature.
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Southern Corn Bread
Leta McChndon
2 c. corn meal i tsp. sugar
Vi c. flour Vi tsp. baking soda
2 tsp. baking powder i egg
1 tsp. salt 1 c. sour milk
4 tbsp. shortening
Sift all dry ingredients together. Add beaten egg, sour milk, and melted shorten-
ing. Beat to a thin batter. Pour into two greased pie pans and bake in a hot oven
at 400° until brown.
Chuck Wagon Limas
4 medium-si/ed onions
1 c. uncooked lima beans
4 c. water
1 tbsp. salt
Vz tsp. pepper
Quarter onions and add with beans, salt, pepper, and sage, to the water. Co\er
and simmer for one hour. Dredge the short ribs in flour and mustard and brown on
all sides in hot fat. Place ribs in \^•ith lima bean mixture and co\'er and simmer for two
hours. Makes four scr\ ings.
Peach Cobbler
Loia Jordan
Filling:
1 qt. peaches, fresh or canned 1 c. sugar (if peaches are unsweetened)
Dough :
1 c. flour 1 c. sweet milk
1 c. sugar 2 tsp. baking powder
Mix dough, pour in pan and dot with butter. Then pour heated peaches, mixed
with sugar, over this dough mixture and bake at 350° until golden brown.
PIerb Chicken
Jean Roth
1 frying chicken 1 lemon (juice)
flour, as needed 1 tsp. oregano
3 tbsp. olive oil 1 tsp. sweet basil
salt and pepper to taste 1 tbsp. water
paprika
Remove skin from cut-up frying chicken. Co\er with flour and quickly brown in
skillet with olive oil. Add salt and pepper and the lemon juice. Sprinkle lightly with
paprika, oregano, and basil. Add the water, cover, and let simmer for about forty-five
minutes.
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All-Purpose Mexican Sauce
Maijoiie Rickei
2 tbsp. butter 2 tbsp. flour
1 small-sized onion, chopped 2 tsp. chili powder
1 green pepper, chopped Vi tsp. salt
1 clove garlic, chopped Vi c. meat stock
1 c. tomatoes
Cook onion, green pepper, and garlic slowly in the butter until soft, stirring often.
Add flour, salt, and chili powder and stir until smooth. Add meat stock and tomatoes.
Cook until thick and smooth. Strain if desired.
This sauce is indeed magic. It works miracles in all manner of cookery. It is a
sauce that adds unbelievable succulence to chops, roasts, steaks, meat balls, and meat
loaves. It makes a marvelous gravy in which to reheat all manner of leftover meats. It
is a juice laden with flavor to pour over rice, spaghetti, and noodles. Make it in
quantities and keep it in the icebox. Its uses are myriad.
Chicken With Corn-Bread Dressing
Helen Sandifer
4-6 lbs. chicken Yz medium-sized dry onion
3 qts. water 1 stalk celery
2 green onions 1 tbsp. salt
Simmer hen (whole) in large covered pot to which has been added water. About
one hour before it is done add the chopped giblets, green onions, dry onion, celery, and
salt. When chicken is done remove from pot and put in shallow pan. Put into oven and
brown at 400° for twenty minutes.
Corn-Bread Dressing:
3 c. corn meal 1 tsp. salt
lYi c. flour 2 eggs
4 tsp. baking powder 2 c. milk
Mix dry ingredients together. Add milk, eggs, and beat well. Pour into well-
greased pan. Bake in oven at 450° for about twenty minutes. Bread should be cold
before making dressing.
Broth for Corn Bread Dressing:
1 c. chopped green onions 1 medium-sized chopped dry onion
1 c. chopped celery 4 eggs
salt and pepper 1 pt. oysters (optional)
Mix onions and celery well and add eggs and salt and pepper to taste. Add corn
bread. This mixture should be slightly soupy so don't add too much bread. Put in
large pan and bake for thirty minutes at 375°. Poultry seasoning or sage may be
added to taste, or dressing may be divided into two parts, one with seasoning, one with-
out. Oysters may be added just before baking if desired.
Pretending Garden
Helen H. Tiutton
LAURA stood watching the
young child rolHcking among
the flowers, occasionally pick-
ing a choice daisy, or chasing a
bright-winged butterfly. The hill-
side had been Darlene's playground,
Laura thought with resentment.
Darlene should be there now — not
a stranger.
Apparently the little girl, dressed
in a plaid dress that blended so
harmoniously with the many color-
ful flowers surrounding her, was not
aware of anyone's presence, for she
danced gaily among the wild flow-
ers, her blond curly head bobbing
up and down, her childish laughter
a merry sound on the silent hillside.
"I could almost pretend it was
Darlene again,'' Laura breathed.
''But I mustn't dream."
Vaguely conscious of the con-
tinued pantomime before her, she
stooped down and picked a flower
bud and whirled its stem between
her fingers. How many times had
she stood in about this exact spot
and watched Darlene play in such
a manner, or joined her with a bas-
ket of fancy cookies still warm from
the oven?
With trembling hands, Laura let
the flower fall to the ground as she
nervously brushed her long blond
hair from her face, and wiped
stubborn tears from her pale
cheeks. Finally, unbearable loneli-
ness prompted her to call out.
"Hello, there."
The youngster stopped abruptly
and looked about her.
'7 didn't mean to startle you,"
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Laura spoke, walking up to the lit-
tle intruder.
With a mark of shyness, the child
answered politely. ''Does this hill
belong to you? It's very pretty."
"My little daughter liked it, too,"
Laura found herself saying kindly.
The girl's face brightened. "Do
you have a little daughter just my
age?
Laura tried to control her voice.
"Yes," she answered simply.
"Then maybe we could play to-
gether. Fve been lonesome since
we moved here."
Any resentment Laura had ex-
perienced when she first saw the girl
on the hillside melted away when
she caught the look of happy an-
ticipation in the youngster's face.
Laura took a few short steps and
looked toward the house. She
imagined she was back in Darlene's
room — the room she had kept
exactly as Darlene had left it. Her
favorite doll, a shabby one, was seat-
ed at a small table, set for two, while
her best doll was tucked away in
a box in the closet. She recalled
Darlene's explanation of her choice
of the less attractive one. "I know
her better. Mommy."
"Fll be going now," the girl final-
ly remarked. "I didn't mean. . . ."
T AURA turned quickly back to the
forgotten girl, who was nervous-
ly fingering the bouquet she held
clasped in her hands. "Oh, Fm
sorry, dear." She placed her hand
on the youngster's head and spoke
softly.
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445
^'You see, she became very ill —
and she's gone away/'
'Tm awfully sorry about your
little girl. My Daddy is sick, and
I come here often and pick him
flowers, and I pretend he is well
again."
Laura reached out and took the
child's hand in hers. ''And I'm
very sorry about your father. And
your mother?"
The youngster waited a moment
before answering. She was wonder-
ing if she, too, like the lady, should
take a long time to reply. ''With
your little daughter, I suppose,"' she
finally announced. "Mrs. Riggs is
our housekeeper. She's pretty old,
though."
"What's your name?" Laura
asked, making herself comfortable
on a nearby large rock.
"It's Cynthia Kent, but everyone
calls me Cindy."
"I'm so glad to meet you, Cindy.
I'm Mrs. Carlson. You must live
in that house over there?" she
asked, pointing to the white house
a short distance down the lane.
"Yes, we moved here so Daddy
could be quiet and rest. Now I
must go home." With that remark,
she reached down and plucked one
more daisy and started down the
hill.
"But, you will come again?" Lau-
ra called after her.
"Oh, yes, every day if you don't
mind. I'm happy here, pretend-
ing," she shouted happily.
Laura watched her out of sight,
and then arose from the rock and
walked slowly down the hill toward
home.
"Pretending Garden," Cindy had
called the hillside. A suitable name,
Laura thought wistfully. Hadn't
she momentarily pretended the
child chasing butterflies was Dar-
lene?
OOBERT was descending from
the upstairs, probably from
Darlene's room, as Laura entered the
front door. "I've been looking all
over for you, darling. Where have
you been?"
"I went to the hillside. It's the
first time I've been there in a long
while." She sat down on the daven-
port and smiled at her husband. "I
met a little girl out there today,
Robert."
"Who was she?"
"Cindy Kent."
"I just heard about the Kent
family this morning," Robert added
as he joined her on the davenport.
"Did . . . you enjoy yourself?"
"She's very sweet." Laura shrugged
her shoulders and continued, "Oh,
I guess I felt a little resentment at
first, but she's such a lonely little
child."
Robert bowed his head, and after
a long silence spoke, "I don't sup-
pose they'll be here too long."
Laura turned pale. "Don't you
think so?"
"Mr. Kent is verv ill."
"I know," she answered. "Robert,
let's call on them. Maybe we could
help."
Robert slipped his arm around
her shoulder. "I think we should.
How about tonight?"
It was a short walk to the Kents
through the hillside trail. Neither
Robert nor Laura spoke as they
walked hand in hand until they
were near the home.
"I'm glad she found the hillside
lovely," Laura tried to sound casual.
"Darlene loved to play there, you
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remember?"
"I remember," Robert gave her
hand a squeeze, ''so very well."
Cindy greeted them at the door,
and taking Laura's hand, announced.
''Daddy's in the living room. Fm
glad you came."
As they entered the room, a tall,
thin man arose and extended his
hand. 'Tou're Mr. and Mrs. Carl-
son? How kind of you to come.
My daughter has talked of nothing
but the beautiful, friendly lady she
met today on the hillside."
"I think the admiration was mu-
tual," Robert grinned.
Mr. Kent motioned them to the
davenport. "Please sit down. I
hope my daughter didn't annoy you,
Mrs. Carlson."
"Oh, no," Laura answered quick-
ly. "Not at ah."
Robert leaned forward. "We'd
like to help, Mr. Kent."
"You alreadv have," the ill man
replied. "We've been a little lonely
since we moved here. And thanks
for letting Cindy play on your hill."
Laura smiled down at Cindy, who
had seated herself next to her on
the davenport. "I hope to see you
tomorrow in the garden, Cindy."
Cindy's eyes filled with tears.
^Tomorrow, I must pretend very
hard."
T AURA made no comment to
Robert about Cindv's statement
on their way home. But she kept
wondering if Mr, Kent were worse,
if they were moving, what the child
had meant? Perhaps the youngster
was only letting her imagination
run away with her. Darlene used to,
she remembered.
Finally, Robert broke into her
thoughts. "Why don't you invite
that little Kent girl here sometime?
Darlene had so many toys."
Laura didn't speak until they were
at the house, and then she turned
and spoke coldly. "I'm leaving the
room just as Darlene left it."
The next afternoon and every
afternoon during the summer, Laura
and Cindy met in their private hill-
side garden. Soon Laura was mak-
ing fancy cookies and lemonade, and
sometimes Cindy would come lug-
ging a basket of goodies Mrs. Riggs
had made.
On such occasions Laura would
call out happily to the approaching
youngster. "All must be well at
your home today."
Usually Cindy would answer,
"Daddy is better today." Once she
added, "I don't pretend so much
anymore."
"You're growing up," Laura gave
her a hug. "We all have to face
reality sometime. Some just do it
sooner than others."
Then one day Laura found Cindy
sitting quietly on the rock ledge.
"Daddy would like to see you and
Uncle Robert tonight if you can
come over."
"Is your Daddy worse?" Laura
asked, breathlessly.
"I think so. The doctor stayed a
long time yesterday and talked to
Daddy."
Together Laura and Robert had
made many trips to the Kent home,
but tonight was different. Laura
found herself wishing the distance
was further. She was certain the
news was bad, and she dreaded to
face facts.
"You'd really miss that little girl
wouldn't you?" Robert ventured,
"yet, you've never asked her to our
home."
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447
''No/' Laura replied simply. "I
haven't/'
Mr. Kent raised slightly on his
elbow as they entered the room.
'Tm sorry to bother you/' he re-
marked.
''No bother I assure you/' Robert
answered.
TV/fR. Kent leaned back on his pil-
low for support. "I'll be brief.
My doctor thinks with special treat-
ment at the hospital, I have a good
chance of getting well."
"That's splendid/' both Laura
and Robert exclaimed.
"I wondered if Mrs. Carlson
would write a letter for me. Mrs.
Riggs says she's too shaky, and I'm
not up to it."
"Of course/' Laura came forward
and picked up a writing pad and
pen. "I would be happy to."
"You see/' Mr. Kent continued,
"I want my cousin to take Cindy
while Fm in the hospital. Mrs.
Riggs has been needed by her older
sister for a long time, but she would
never leave us."
"Where does your cousin live?"
Laura cut in.
"In Detroit/'
"Is she, that is, would Cindy be
happy with her?"
"I have no choice, Mrs. Carlson.
She's our only living relative."
Laura laid the pen down. "Cindy
would be a long way from you."
"Yes," Mr. Kent answered simply.
Laura looked out the window to
where Cindy was busily making mud
pies. Cindy would be living with a
stranger — maybe with someone
who wouldn't love her. She
shouldn't be separated from her fa-
ther. And then Laura thought of
how she would miss the child.
Somehow that wasn't too important
right now. It was the little girl's
happiness that mattered most.
Finallv, Laura turned from the
window and faced Robert. He
smiled reassuringly at her and nod-
ded his head.
"Mr. Kent, could we keep Cindy
for you? She could visit you every
day."
Mr. Kent's face brightened for a
moment. "I couldn't ask so much
of you. I might be in the hospital
tor months."
"W'e ^^•ould love to keep her, Mr.
Kent," Laura said softly. "You see,
we ha\'e an extra room ... so suit-
able for a little girl Cindy's age."
Q>earch I Lot Stan
Leona Fetzer Wintch
Find skill to fly to Mars, you say?
Ah, no! Before you search the stars, stay:
Search the secrets of your inmost heart;
Find love, not power, the better part.
y^ewels for the cJahle
Marian Gardner Nidson
npHE colorful ritual of jelly making
was indispensable in those early
days on White Mesa. All the mar-
ried women — and some of the
about-to-be-married-women— quietly
plotted their jelly campaigns during
the long winter months, when they
sat knitting or carding wool in front
of the fireplace. The sweet-swelling
pine odor from the burning logs
heightened their memories of last
fall's jelly spree.
Recipes were chosen^ discussed,
remodeled, discarded. How many
grape leaves did Grandma Palmer
cook with her grapes? Did Char-
lotte Ann use three-fourths cup of
sugar to one of juice in her Paradise
quince jelly recipe? Were the Red
Astrachan apples Brother Burnham
used to bring in from Red Mesa,
better jelly apples than the ones
grown on Mancos Creek? Why,
Mary Jane actually used an old met-
al spoon to test her jelly, instead of
the one Andrew Peterson whittled
out of a cedar limb for her!
Aunt Mary enjoyed making jelly.
She liked the deep purple glow of
the Concord grape jelly, the delicate
pink of the crab apples from Brother
Mac's huge tree, the more sturdy
rose sheen from her own sour cher-
ries, the deep carmine of the tart
English currants from the bushes
under the hill at the ranch.
All these familiar fruits and ber-
ries were old friends, easy to relax
with while turning them into
jeweled jelhes and jams.
But the juice from the wild ber-
ries and fruits was the challenge;
its subtle flavor was enhanced by its
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pure, delicate coloring and fragrant
aroma which filled the kitchen and
tiptoed into the rest of the house.
It was a golden fall day when
Aunt Suzy and Aunt Tamar took
their lunch in the old wicker picnic
basket they had brought with them
from Old Mexico, and drove up to
the Blue Mountain. They spent
the afternoon picking the dull, mar-
ble-sized, purple-black chokeberries
from the fragrant bushes. They
salvaged a small bucket of late
serviceberries which were tucked in
under a clump of gnarled oakbrush.
It was fun standing on the sides of
the old wagon and reaching high for
the frosty-red Potawatami plums
which hung so temptingly almost
out of reach.
Then, on the way down from the
mountain, they stopped at the old
Hans Bogue field and found a whole
patch of groundcherries— plump,
pale-yellow, and ready for picking—
and just right for a batch of delicate-
ly colored preserves,
A Navajo squaw. Young Edith
Begay, helped Aunt Eliza pick the
black currants from the bushes at
the back of the house. She sat
cross-legged on the ground under
the cool branches, and scraped the
currants, leaves, bugs, and all into
her tin pail. When Aunt Eliza ad-
monished Edith to pick them
cleaner, the squaw very conveniently
could not understand English, and
only settled her heavy body more
firmly into the ground.
Uncle Jense Nielson took a wagon-
load of youngsters down to Bluff to
gather the bullberries from the few
JEWELS FOR THE TABLE
449
bushes hiding against the red chffs
in Cow Canyon. He had bragged
so much about the bullberry jelly
his mother used to make, and the
children had coaxed so hard to go,
that the weary mothers breathed
sighs of relief when the heavy wagon,
loaded with bedrolls, grub boxes,
and shouting children rumbled away
down the county road.
They did pick the berries, al-
though the bushes were not so heav-
ily loaded as Jense remembered
them when the ''Hole-in-the-Rock-
ers" first came to Bluff. Still, the
containers were nearly filled. In the
course of the day, Susan and Helena
climbed up into one of the caves
where they had picked cliff flowers
the spring before, and then were
too scared to come down and Deb's
shirt got caught while going through
the crack in the Locomotive Rock,
and part of it was left hanging on a
rock splinter.
It was the children who helped
wash the berries, but it took young
Frank Redd to invent a machine to
sort the ''pec-wees'' from the good
ones. Aunt Lou had to put a stop
to that, when the berries all came
through the machine mashed to
a pulp!
AX/HILE the jelly was in the
process of being made, every-
thing else stopped. Neighbors did
not visit; quilt blocks were left un-
touched; buttons were not sewed
on; torn overalls and shirts con-
tinued to be worn; houses became
cluttered; lamps were not cleaned
and polished, nor w^ere wicks
trimmed; dirty dishes were stacked
out of the way (an unheard of event
except at this time) . A hodgepodge
of crocks, odds and ends of bottles,
chipped but unbroken, were placed
on the kitchen table.
Then the crucial time of skim-
ming, testing, tasting, came. Chil-
dren stayed outdoors, careful to
avoid making any undue noise.
Husbands found work away from
the tense atmosphere, or met on
the store porch and exchanged small
talk.
But the result was worth every
effort! A beautiful mosaic was
formed with the sun shining
through the various colored jellies:
the cool green of mint, the sparkling
gold of quince and groundcherry,
the warm pink and red tones of
currants, crabapples, and raspberry,
the deep regal glow of grape, plum,
and wild berry.
Each woman made more jelly
than she needed for her own house-
hold. There would be sickness,
where a few jars would help ease a
crisis. There would be church ba-
zaars and special gifts for guests who
would appreciate a delicacy. Then
there was stake conference time
and week-end guests from all over
the stake: Bluff, Mancos, Red Mesa,
Monticello, and Moab.
Aunt Mary put her groundcherry
preserves in her best cut glass tum-
blers, and Aunt Eliza used her moth-
er's green hobnail glasses for her
Concord grape jelly, for these two
women entertained the apostles dur-
ing the conference week end, and
they wanted the very best and most
beautiful things on their tables.
It was this colorwheel of glowing
beauty that gave luster to frontier
life. It was the basis of friendliness
and love. It bound the pioneer
women to nature and the glories of
God, and may be sparkling jewels
in their crowns of immortality.
Such a Heavenly Secret
MabeJ Law Atkinson
4 4 T T OW about it, Doctor, will
I I I make it?" Grandpa Jen-
sen, as he was called by
all the children in the small country
town, forced a smile as he asked the
question.
''Of course you'll make it, Papa/'
It was diminutive Grandma Jensen
who assured him. ''Of course you
will. Why, he's simply got to get
better, Doctor. Home wouldn't be
home without Papa."
"Now, Mama, I didn't ask you,"
and looking into the kindly eyes of
their old family doctor. Grandpa
asked again, "Will I make it?"
Grandma, who reminded one of
Lavender-and-Old-Lace in moon-
light, with her white hair and
twinkling eyes, interrupted again,
"Should I send for the children^
Doctor?"
"Mama, darling, let the doctor
answer my question. We must face
reality, Mama."
"Yes, Grandpa, Fm sure you'll
make it." Dr. Hartley's voice was
reassuring. "Why you've been so
healthy all through the years, I don't
think even this siege of pneumonia
can ease you out of this world. Not
for ten or twenty years yet anyway.
And you are improving, you know.
You won't need to send for the chil-
dren, Grandma. You are managing
very well. In fact, it's better for
Grandpa to have it quiet for a
while." His eyes twinkled and he
winked at Grandma, then con-
tinued, "I wouldn't worry if I were
you. Grandpa, you'll make it, but
if you have any sins to confess to
Grandma here, you better do it and
get them off your conscience, old
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friend."
"Oh, Doctor, always ready with
the joking word at the right time,
just like when my babies were born
— all seven of them — such an indis-
pensable friend you have been,
Doctor!"
Doctor Hartley left smiling and
Grandpa dozed awhile. When he
wakened with a start. Grandma was
sitting in the old wooden rocker by
his bed knitting mittens for the
grandchildren.
"Mama, how do you suppose the
doctor knew I had a sin to confess?"
Grandpa's voice was almost a whis-
per.
"My land!" exclaimed Grandma,
dropping a stitch. "You must be
delirious. Papa. I'll get the thermom-
eter to see if your fever's going
up." And before Grandpa could
remonstrate or explain, the ther-
mometer was under his tongue.
"Your temperature is the same,
thank goodness! My, but you gave
me a scare, Papa. Whatever made
you delirious, talking about confes-
sing your sins?"
"But I do have a sin to confess,
Mama. A sin against you."
"I don't believe it, Papa. Why
you couldn't sin against me. You've
never so much as spoken a harsh
word to me in all our fifty-one years
together."
"I know. Mama, but the wrong
happened before we were married."
"Hush, Papa! You mustn't talk
so. It will make you worse. If you
did sin, it was such a tiny white one,
it would not even count. You bet-
ter quit talking and rest now, Papa
darling."
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451
''It will do me good to talk,
Mama. If I tell you, I can sleep
better tonight. Do you think you
can forgive me, Mama, for keeping
a secret from vou?"
"Oi course I can, Papa, but we've
never had secrets. Always we've
talked things over together. We've
worked together, met joy and sorrow
together. You know we've had no
secrets. So rest, Papa darling, while
I bring you a bowl of broth."
/GRANDMA was at the old wood-
burning stove when she heard
her name called softly, ''Sara Ellen."
Quickly she went to Grandpa, for
when he called her that way she
knew something new or important
or tragic was taking place, like when
he brought home the first bananas
she had ever tasted, or their first
washer, or when he came in carrying
little Alice who had drowned in
the river.
'AVhat is it. Papa darling?" she
asked almost breathlessly, placing
her hand tenderly on his forehead to
see if he was feverish again.
''Why, Papa, your forehead is
moist. You're better. Papa." She
kissed him lovingly and a tear
dropped on his cheek.
"Why Sara Ellen, you're crying!
Don't worry, Mama. It wasn't too
bad a secret, and I never even met
the other girJ."
"You foolish Papa! I cry because
you are better, really better. You
couldn't have a bad secret. Papa,
and keep it from me, and a good
secret doesn't matter. You needn't
tell me. Papa."
"But I want to, Sara Ellen. Will
you get my deed box? It's there in
the bottom dresser drawer. The
secret is in it."
"And what kind of a secret can
it be in this little tin box?"
Mama placed the box in his
hands and gave him the key which
they kept beneath it in the drawer.
She watched, her eyes bright, as
Papa opened the box and took out
a folded piece of notepaper, yellow-
ish with the years.
"I found this letter or part of a
letter eferly one morning near the
corral gate when I returned from
riding the range to bring the horses
in for the day. It was the summer
before I met you, Mama, when you
were visiting your sister and her
family whose place joined mine.
Remember, Mama?"
"Yes, I remember, Papa. How
could I ever forget meeting you. You
were on a load of grain talking to
Pete, my brother-in-law. I thought
I would never be interested in you,
Papa darling, for you had a red face
—from the sun and wind. And
I had always said I would never
marry a red-haired man."
"But my hair wasn't red, Mama.
It was never red." Papa smoothed
his snowy white locks as he spoke.
"Your hair was a glossy brown, I
learned later, but all I saw then was
your mustache— and your whiskers —
and they were red, Papa."
"Not red. Mama, just sandy."
"And I didn't like your name,
Papa. I remember I told Pete that
Frank was a horse's name."
"You never told me, Mama."
"And why should I? For when
I fell in love with you, it didn't mat-
ter, and you could shave your
whiskers. You always have, every
day, Papa, since we were married."
"To please you, my Sara Ellen. It
seems only yesterday that I first saw
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you. You were wearing a cartwheel
hat and a bustle. I had always said
I would never marry a woman who
wore a bustle."
''But you did, Papa. I wore one
on my wedding day. See, Papa,
there we are on the bureau in that
wooden frame you made yourself.
I remember I stood for a side view
on purpose so my bustle would show
to good advantage. How elegant I
felt in my wedding dress of heavy
twilled silk with rows of wide silk
lace around the skirt— do you re-
member the color, Papa?"
^'^Y'ES, Mama, a deep maroon.
The lace was cream color.
Wait! I still have a sample I found
on the floor when I called to see
you one night." And Papa took a
small piece of silk and a tiny triangle
of lace from a faded envelope he
kept in the deed box.
''And I was always so careful to
pick up every scrap so my dress for
the reception when we got home
from the temple would be a surprise
to you."
"You were queenly in it, Sara
Ellen."
"And you were kingly. Papa, be-
side me in your celluloid collar, your
new suit, and your button shoes. But
what about that letter? Who wrote
it, Papa?"
"I don't know. Mama. I don't
know. And it doesn't matter at all
now that I don't know. It's the fact
that I didn't tell you about it that
matters. I still think it strange I
should find it and yet not know how
it got there."
"Go on. Papa. Did you read it?"
Mama was just making conversation
to cover her interest, for she knew
Papa had read it.
"Of course I read it, and Sara
Ellen, when I had I said to myself,
Tm going to find that girl and mar-
ry her.' But I never found her, and
I fell in love with you. I tried not
to, Sara Ellen, for I wanted so to
find that girl I felt was meant for
me— the one girJ in all the world—
but I couldn't keep from loving you.
Mama. I tried to tell you about my
other love but, I couldn't. It didn't
seem right when I knew J loved you.
Guess I was afraid you might not
understand. Now you know, can
you forgive me. Mama darling?"
"There is nothing to forgive, Papa.
You were just being kind. May I
read the letter?"
"Yes, Sara Ellen. It's a lovely
message. I know now it was the
message I fell in love with. Read
it aloud, Mama darling."
^ARA ELLEN took the paper, un-
folded it, and read:
Somewhere you are waiting for me as
I am waiting for you. Someday we shall
meet and recognize the tie that hinds.
I shall bring to you a clean body and mind
and a loving, willing spirit, and you will
bring the same to me. Together we shall
strive to build beautiful and flawless tem-
ples for immortal souls, as many as God
shall send. We shall walk the road of
years together — always together . . . for-
ever ....
Sara Ellen ceased, and, almost in a
whisper. Papa asked, "Isn't it beau-
tiful, Sara Ellen! More beautiful
than ever before with your voice
saying the words. Why, my dear,
you are crying again. Don't cry.
Mama."
Sara Ellen smiled, and her eyes
were shining bright as a rain-washed
sky in the sun as she spoke softly,
"I am crying for gladness. Papa.
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453
How beautiful! Oh, how beautiful!
Surely 'our times are in his hand'!
I wrote that letter, Papa, watching
the sunrise one morning when I was
visiting Pete and Tillie the summer
before I met you. What a blessed
little wind it was that took it out
of my hand and carried it to you!"
Stars were in Papa's eyes as he
said in reverence, ''My own Sara
Ellen! So it was you all the time!''
"Yes, Papa darling. Now you
must go to sleep and tomorrow we
shall watch the sunrise together
through your window. Always we
shall be together." She kissed him
tenderly and he fell into a sound,
restful sleep.
''Dear, dear Papa," she crooned as
gently as though he were a sleeping
child. ''Dear, darling Papa. Such
a heavenly secret!"
kluoit cJower,
Q^an QJrancisco
Margery S. Stewart
The tower broods
Over the city,
Immobile dove.
Granite winged.
I, like a thought,
Lean from carved eyes
To the far descending
Roofs.
Blueness blows within.
Lapis lazuli of sky
And sea, white peace
Of immaculate cloud.
Under the soaring
Bridges ships come
Proudly from Singapore
And Malta, singing
Of the islands still
Scarved about them.
Hills lie under
My palms, blue earthed.
Hand of fog
On their shoulders.
The city populates
My heart, rocks
In the joyous cradle.
1 1 ieletia 1 1 Liles li Lakes Sweaters in Linusual 'jUesigns
"V/fELETIA Miles, Afton, Wyoming, knits sweaters for children and adults, following
"*■ -^ patterns of unusual design in attractive and appealing color combinations. In
two years, in her spare time, she knitted seventy-two sweaters and a pair of glo\es.
Her spare-time hobby has now developed into an interesting and successful business.
Her orders come from many cities of Continental United States and Hawaii. Most of
the sweaters are made in sports yarn, but a few are done in knitting worsted yarn.
Mrs. Miles' accomplishments with her knitting hobby are even more remarkable
because she is not a woman of leisure. Among other interests, she operates a beauty
shop. An active worker in Relief Society, she has served as secretary-treasurer, social
science class leader, and work meeting leader.
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The Silver Leash
Beatrice Rordame Parsons
Chapter y
Synopsis: LaRue Harding, an orphan,
who has hved since childhood in Cahfornia
with an aunt, goes to Fivelakes, Arizona,
after the death of her sister Ameha. She
tries to help and encourage her brother-
in-law Herbert Vetterly, who is confined
to a wheel chair. His children gradually
come to accept LaRue as a friend and as
a member of the family. She meets Dr.
Alan Rutherford, a surgeon at the Jonas
Harding Hospital, and his fiancee Gladys
Drew. "Grandie," Dr. Rutherford's grand-
father, takes a liking to LaRue. Herbert
Vetterlv, after a successful operation per-
formed by Dr. Rutherford, is able to walk
about the house, and he begins to take
more interest in his children and in his
architectural work. "Grandie" and the
Vetterly family decide to turn Hillhigh
House into the "Amelia Museum."
THE idea of the Amelia Museum
caught hke wildfire at the
hearts of the people of Five-
lakes. LaRue was amazed — yet
delighted — at the enthusiasm
which welcomed the idea.
People came to the house to talk
to Herb, almost the minute he came
out of the hospital. Dr. Alan said
it was all right, as long as Herb
didn't get overtired. He was still in
his wheel chair, but each day he did
a little walking about the house.
He was so changed that LaRue
felt the happy tears on her lashes
every time she looked at him. He
had no reluctance to meet his
friends.
Several times he had gone riding
ril give this to Erma. She's
with Dr. Alan and Gladys while the
doctor visited other patients. On
one occasion, when Gladys had an
appointment at the beauty salon,
LaRue went with Dr. Alan while he
called on Mrs. Lawson. Mrs. Law-
son, a pretty middle-aged woman in
a flowered smock, shook hands
cordially with LaRue.
While they were there, the other
children insisted on opening their
piggy-banks to donate to the build-
ing of the Amelia Museum. LaRue
took the pennies from their hands,
and smiled.
"We're keeping a list of names."
She took them down in a little note-
book,
taking care of everything."
Erma was a sort of self-appointed
secretary. Later, when the money
was in, there would be a committee.
Until that time, Erma worked with
her father, consulting with him ^or
hours at a time.
Joel and Eddie — constantly
grease-stained and dirty now — were
working hard on the engine of the
old car. They were polishing lamps,
sanding fenders, sparking the motor.
The first time it gave a small cough,
Joel and Eddie beamed excitedly.
''If we get it fixed," promised Joel,
''we're going to enter it in the old
cars division of the parade at the
Founding Festival."
The Festival was drawing near.
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There were banners across the
downtown streets, and the windows
in the shopping district blossomed
with dazzHng play clothes and
authentic Indian, Mexican, and
prospector's clothing.
Erma, who was going to wear a
frock designed from a Mexican
Senorita's costume, with glittering
pink and silver sequins on the huge
roses on the skirt, looked a little
guilty because it was so becoming.
"Am I vain," she asked, 'want-
ing to look nice for Bob?''
LaRue shook her head. ''Not
vain, darling. Just proud. It's
natural for a girl to want to be
pretty for her best beau. Perhaps
if I had a young and handsome
escort, Fd be thinking about a pink
or blue frock for the occasion." She
paused, remembering that Gladys
would be wearing blue. She said
gaily: ''But Fm sure Grandie won't
mind that my yellow dress is three
years old."
Erma nodded: ''Fm sure he
won't. He likes you, Aunt LaRue,
very much. He says that you're a
lot like Mother — like your sister —
though you don't look much like
her." She hesitated, "I heard Dr.
Alan say, a long time ago, that yel-
low was his favorite color."
LaRue was annoyed to find her-
self blushing a little. But she was
glad to know that Dr. Alan liked
yellow. She didn't mind wearing
the dress so much, knowing that!
Erma, staring at the glowing roses
on her dress, said simply, "Bob won't
be cutting the tops off carrots much
longer, LaRue. When he begins
his classes at the U, they're going to
let him work in the office. It will
be good training, you know. He's
taking business management." Her
eyes were bright. "Bob's very bril-
liant. He is going to amount to
something, one of these days." Pride
beamed in her face.
She looked like a pink rosebud, as
she slipped into the frock. LaRue
helped pin it here and there, and
after it was stitched, Erma hung it
away, ready for the square dancing.
T^HE morning of the Founding
Festival found the huge, golden
sun laced with cotton clouds which
kept the day from being too warm.
They all went to the parade and
sat on the curb to watch "The Sons
of Cochise," in weirdly feathered
costumes do the "Dance to the
Sun."
Other Indians — Pueblo and
Hopi — came in undulating proces-
sion carrying their gifts to their In-
dian gods. Some of their faces were
garishly painted, but every Indian
carried himself with the pride of
his tribe.
There were magnificent, flowered
floats, with beautiful girls. There
were little gray burros, and stream-
lined palomino horses. The history
of Fivelakes unraveled before La-
Rue's eyes, and everywhere she
found that history laced with the
name Harding.
After the parade they rode out to
Blue Lake, carrying their picnic
baskets. Herb in his chair, was hap-
piest of all. He could walk a little,
but he must not get overtired. Now
that his chair was no longer a
necessity, he did not mind having
Joel or Eddie push him around.
Connie and Janet rode the lav-
ender, green, and white horses on
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457
the merry-go-round as they had
promised. But Grandie, under his
grandson's insistence, had to be con-
tent to watch Bob and Erma sail
high into the sky in the Ferris
wheel.
Joel and Eddie — in plaid shirts
with cowboy boots tucked into
brand new Levis — tried out the
Earth Satellite, the Atomic Buster,
and several other devices which were
frighteningly realistic.
Gladys, very pretty in her new
blue frock, clung possessively to Dr.
Alan's arm until she sighted Earl
Meeghan in the crowd. She hailed
him, and finding that he was alone,
invited him to join them.
''Alan won't mind," she cried
flirtatiously, widening her large,
green eyes questioningly in his di-
rection. ''Besides, we brought
enough picnic for half the people at
the carnival."
Without the slightest anger, or
jealousy. Dr. Alan seconded the in-
vitation, and they all ate under
shady trees at a table which groaned
with goodies.
Herb, sitting in his chair at the
end of the long table, spoke in a
happy whisper to his sister-in-law.
"Fm a most fortunate man, LaRue,
to have such a family. Erma is very
like her mother." Herb had learned
to speak about Amelia, without ap-
parent emotion. He added soft-
tly: "I feel very close to Amelia
each time Erma enters the room."
T ARUE smiled happily as she
helped Grandie to another sand-
wich. He wore his Sunday-best suit,
and his concession to the festivities
was a perky string tie. He had
tucked a tiny red rosebud in the
lapel of his coat and explained it,
saying, "Since my date is the pret-
tiest lady in Fivelakes, I want her to
be proud of her escort."
LaRue thanked Grandie with a
kiss against his wrinkled cheek. She
was proud of the old man. She felt
as if she had known him since child-
hood.
After lunch, they strolled about,
Gladys with her hands linked in Dr.
Alan's and Earl's arms. Her high-
heeled sandals picked up rocks, and
she waited helplessly while one or
the other of her escorts shook the
rocks out of her small, slim shoes.
Blue Lake was a mirror for the
suds-white clouds above. The beach,
edged with colorful booths, swarmed
with people. Most of them stopped
to smile or speak to their doctor.
Gladys waited impatiently until they
were through, or strolled casually
away with Earl Meeghan.
Once, Grandie meeting LaRue's
eyes with his shrewd dark eyes, said
mysteriously, "Sometimes doctors
need a little of that nasty medicine.
I thought I might have to administer
it, myself. But now I'm not so
sure." His voice was drowned out
by the tinny calliope of the merry-
go-round which blended with the
cacophony of the "Dodge-em."
LaRue wasn't quite sure she had
heard him right. She was still puz-
zled over his meaning.
One moment he was like a
thoughtless young school boy, riding
a green horse beside Connie and
Janet. The next he was eating hot-
dogs with Joel and Eddie.
Gladys, scandalized, said sharply,
"Grandie, you're making a spectacle
of yourself!"
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He answered serenely, 'Tm old
enough to do whatever I please.
Young enough to enjoy it." He
linked arms with Connie and Janice
and marched defiantly towards the
''Cotton Candy" booth.
Alan's fond glance went after him.
''He's having the time of his life,
Gladys. He used to be pretty lone-
ly." They saw Mrs. Lawson and
her family waiting to ride the
"Showboat." Alan's eyes showed
sudden worry. "She shouldn't have
come."
Gladys tapped a blue sandal. "Oh,
darling, can't you stop being a doc-
tor for just an hour!" She was en-
tirely unconscious of the flush that
swept over Dr. Alan's face. She
linked her hand into his elbow, and
called to Earl, "Let's go buy a
panda bear for Connie. She'll love
it."
LaRue looked after them as they
strolled away, and her heart ached
slightly for Alan.
The day passed merrily. Erma,
in her pink frock, danced with Bob,
dressed in matching pink shirt and
dark trousers tucked into tooled
boots. They made one of the hand-
somest couples in the square dance,
and Herb smiled proudly as he
watched them.
"He's a very fine young man," he
told LaRue. "Good, steady." It
was plain that he liked Bob Powers.
nPHE day seemed to pass like light-
ning. All at once the sun dis-
appeared behind the cliffs, and night
came to blanket the carnival
grounds. Neon lights were dimmed,
and only the millions of stars were
left to sparkle over the little islands
before the fireworks began.
With the first shower of man-
made, fiery stars, there were sighs
of admiration. Sky rockets dazzled
the e}es with emerald and ruby
sparks. Fountains dashed their
gleaming sprays upwards, and cas-
cades of brilliance fell to the ground.
There were set-pieces authentically
recalling moments in the history of
the town. There were glowing red,
white, and blue flags, and the out-
lined faces of past and present Presi-
dents. When the last glowing
outline died, there was dancing in
the open-air pavilion.
Erma and Bob were almost the
first couple on the floor when the
strains of a waltz floated musically
over the lake. Joel and Eddie, and
some of the other boys who had
joined them, stood in the stag line
and looked anxiously at a group of
pretty young girls nearby.
Herb had insisted that Connie
and Janice go home, and Grandie
went, too, driving home in a friend's
car. Gladys fastened a proprietary
hand on Dr. Alan's arm and urged
him to dance. Earl cast them a
jealous little glance as they glided
out upon the floor, and said, "We
might as well join them, LaRue."
As they swept out into the crowded
dance floor, Earl said frankly, "I
guess you know I'm crazy about that
girl! But what man has a chance
against a handsome voung doctor
like Alan?"
LaRue said evenly: "I don't think
it matters whether or not a man is
handsome. As long as two people
love each other. That's what truly
counts. Earl."
She did hope that she didn't
sound too old-maidish. She'd had
very little experience with being in
love. Perhaps the nearest she had
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459
ever come to it was her admiration
and liking for Alan. But she was
honest as she added, ''Any girl
should be proud to marry Alan."
She knew she was blushing a little,
but she wasn't ashamed to praise
him.
When the music ended, they
stood waiting for Gladys and Alan
to cross the floor. LaRue saw one
of the older Lawson boys hurrying
into the pavilion. He came quickly
to Alan's side, his face pale, his eyes
worried.
''Daddy said for you to come. Dr.
Rutherford. Mom's sick. He took
her home. . . ."
Almost immediately Dr. Ruther-
ford's professional manner and anx-
iety made him turn to leave. He
touched Gladys' arm.
"Come with me, Gladys. I'll
need someone to help. This is an
emergency."
Gladys pulled her arm away, and
her face was filled with distress. Her
voice was close to hysteria. "Oh,
Alan, I can't! I'm no good with
sick people. Please don't ask
me. . . .
"But I need you," insisted Dr.
Alan bluntly. "It's too late to get
Mrs. Lawson to the hospital. Too
late to reach a nurse in time. Later,
perhaps, but not in time."
Gladys was shaking her head,
pouting angrily. "You're spoiling
things for me, Alan. Surely you
can't expect me to leave the dance.
I've planned on it for a long time."
Her eyes lifted to Earl Meeghan's
face, and she cried, "You go, Alan.
Earl will see me home, later."
I7OR an instant Alan's face was
pale with something like scorn.
Then he turned to LaRue and asked
sharply, "Are you afraid, too?"
She said, haltingly, "Not afraid,
Alan. It's just that I may not know
just what to do."
"I'll tell vou," he said.
Without another word, he led her
to his car, started it, and drove away.
He gave concise instructions as he
turned into the Lawson yard, telling
her exactly what to expect. His
face was pale, and his jaw was for-
bidding. She pitied him, but she
knew he did not want pity.
Mr. Lawson came out as they
parked the car. His face was
strained, frightened. "I sent the
children to their grandmother. I'll
phone Herb, LaRue, to tell him
where you are."
He took them into the neat
house, showed them where they
could scrub, then led them into the
bedroom. Mrs. Lawson was very
ill. Dr. Rutherford's movements
were kindly, soothing as he gave her
a hypodermic. He issued quiet in-
structions to LaRue, and she
brought the things he mentioned,
finding them with Frank Lawson's
assistance.
They worked speedily together,
with few words between them.
With a singleness of purpose that
was destined to bring a new life into
the world. Dr. Alan went about his
task.
At last Mrs. Lawson's tiny son
was born. "I can never repay you."
Mr. Lawson had difficulty in keep-
ing back the tears.
Alan and LaRue went into the
kitchen. He stood there digging his
strong fingers into the tight muscles
at the back of his neck. "Thanks,
LaRue," he said simply.
Her face glowed, but she said, "I
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only did what any woman could ''Everything is waking/' he said
have done, Alan." softly.
He shook his head, and his eyes For a moment she felt a swift
were clouded. ''Not any woman," happiness within. Then she told
he denied. herself that she was reading more
She came to his side, laid her into his words than he had meant,
hand against his. "Fm sorry, Alan." But she could not still the sudden
His eyes met hers without flinch- g^^^Y j" ^^' ^^^^^t, as they went out
ing. "It had to be this way, LaRue. ^^^^ *^^ mornmg together.
I guess Fve known almost from the The cool desert breeze pressed
first that Gladys . . ." He did not LaRue's rumpled yellow dress close-
finish, but LaRue saw hurt and dis- ly about her tired body as Alan
illusionment going out of his face. helped her into his car. He smiled
LaRue went to the window and ^^^^ ^* ^^^'^ wordlessly,
raised the blind. A soft pale dawn The sun was just a slice of golden
came into the room, fresh and clean thread behind the pink mountains
as a new world. He came to stand as the car thrust forward into the
beside her, not touching her, yet promise of a brand new day. . , ,
very close. -^ (To he concluded)
\biizabeth
Ethel Jacohson
So many treasured fragments day by day
Added a richness to the tapestry
She wove of each small strand that came her way:
A curlew's cry above a misty sea;
The purr of a stray kitten that she fed;
A spray of bittersweet against a wall;
Dried tears of all who left her, comforted;
The soft pink wool that was her mother's shawl;
A yellow plate upon a scrubbed pine shelf;
A bit of fragrant basil in a jar;
A well-loved hymn; a loaf she baked herself;
A walk in autumn woods; a wishing star. . . .
She lived alone, we knew, but few could guess
How brimmed with blessings and with thankfulness.
FROM THE FIELD
Hulda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society HandbooJc of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Irene T. Erekson
AUSTRALIAN MISSION, PARRAMATTA BRANCH HONORS RELIEF
SOCIETY PRESIDENTS AND COUNSELORS, March 17, 1959
Front row, left to right: present President Margaret Cheatle Gray; Alma Woollett
Schofield; Irene T. Erekson, former president, Australian Mission Relief Society; Helen
Craig Harker, the first president.
Back row, standing, left to right: Betty Anderson Fortune; Jean Fordham Hale;
Viola Grear Innis; Eunice Kneale Metcalf.
Sister Erekson reports: "This branch, Parramatta, used to be Harris Park. They
now have a lovely chapel, and these sisters are running a store, taking turns each day,
to pay for it. They are a very energetic group, and many of these women spent days
of hard work on the grounds while the building was being built. They all have a
strong testimony of the Church and of Rehef Society work. This small branch was
organized August 18, 1957, and has grown steadily ever since, until now they have
161 members."
Edith Josephine Moore is the new president of the Australian Mission Relief
Society.
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Photograph submitted by Mariom A. Woodhouse
SANTA ANA STAKE (CALIFORNIA) RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING MOTHERS
PRESENT MUSIC FOR ANNIVERSARY, March 14, 1959
Front row, left to right: Mary Chester, chorister; Lilhan Whetton, organist. Fifth
from the left, front row, Mariom A. Woodhouse, President, Santa Ana Stake Relief
Societ^ ; front row, extreme right, Nina Riley, First Counselor.
Sister Woodhouse reports that seven stake workers participated in the Singing
Mothers chorus. "The chorus has sung for stake conference twice since the organization
a \'ear ago."
Photograph submitted by Cora A. Stanard
GREAT FALLS STAKE (MONTANA) RELIEF SOCIETY HONORS VISITING
TEACHERS AT CONVENTION AND SPRING SOCIAL, April 18, 1959
Left to right: Ivy Stott, who has served as a visiting teacher for thirty-six years;
Mary Christenson, thirty-five years; Vera Nelson, forty-two years; LaVern McOmber,
forty years.
Back row, left to right: Rachelle Robinson, forty-two years; Minerva Molen, fifty
years.
Cora A. Stanard, President, Great Falls Stake Relief Society, reports that these
sisters were honored by each one having a Relief Society pin presented to her. Their
names were also placed on an honor scroll in the chapel during the program.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
463
Photograph submitted by Rose L. Moscon
TOOELE STAKE (UTAH), TOOELE ELEVENTH WARD FASHION SHOW
April 9, 1959
Rose L. Moscon, President, Tooele Stake Relief Society, reports: "These are the
little models who participated in 'Springtime Fantasy' ^^'hich was the theme of the
fashion show presented by the Tooele Eleventh Ward. It was under the direction
of the work department and was presented at the April work meeting. All of the
children modeled clothes that were made by their mothers. Members of the Eleventh
Ward Relief Society presidency are: Beth Atkin, President; Edna Dobson, First Coun-
selor; Iva Hamilton, Second Counselor."
Photograph submitted by Marie J. Monson
BUTTE STAKE (MONTANA), BUTTE WEST ^^^ARD RELIEF SOCIETY
HONORS FORMER PRESIDENTS AT ANNIVERSARY PARTY,
March 17, 1959
Seated, left to right: Lura Henderson; Helen Colvin; Harriet Millecam; Norma
Heinitz, President; Marie Evans; Eleanor Burt; Lavern Sessions.
Marie J. Monson, President, Butte Stake Relief Society, reports: "President
Heinitz presented each of the former presidents with a Relief Society pin."
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Photograph submitted by Evalyn B. White
MESA STAKE (ARIZONA) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR
STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE
Margaret M. Smith, the chorister, stands at the right; organist Ida S. Church is
seated at the left.
Evalyn B. White, President, Mesa Stake Relief Society, reports that these Sing-
ing Mothers presented music for stake quarterly conference on three different occasions,
the last time being on March 22, 1959.
Photograph submitted by Marilynn H. Pace
ARGENTINE MISSION, CENTRAL AND LA PLATA DISTRICTS OUILT
EXHIBITION, February 21, 1959
Marilynn H. Pace, President, Argentine Mission Relief Society, reports: "A long-
awaited occasion in the Argentine Mission took place in the Liniers Chapel, February
21, 1959. Relief Societies in the Central and La Plata Districts participated in a quilt
exhibition and sale and a special musical program. Quilt making by hand is not com-
monly done in Argentina, and the project proved to be challenging and stimulating to
the sisters who had never tried their hands at quilt making before. The quilts varied
greatly in size, color, and pattern, and demonstrated great originality, as all the patterns
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were designed by the sisters themselves. Interest and enthusiasm in quilting are high
in the mission at the present time, as most of the thirty Relief Societies in this mission
have initiated and completed quilt-making projects this past year. The sisters feel
happy with the success of their first quilt exhibition, but feel that next year their quilts
will be of even higher quality and better workmanship.
"The sisters pictured above represent the presidencies of the nine branch Relief
Societies which participated: Quilmes, Vicente Lopez, Caseros, Liniers, Deseret, Villa
Sarmiento, Floresta, Merlo, and Lomas de Zamora."
Photograph submitted by Myrl B. WhitinR
DALLAS STAKE (TEXAS), FORT WORTH WARD ANNIVERSARY PARTY
March 17, 1959
Front row, left to right: Alice Whipple, chorister; Myrl B. Whiting, President,
Dallas Stake Relief Society; Lydia Swanson; Lucille Ford, Second Counselor; Mary Had-
field. President; Karen Hoopes, organist; Jewell Walch, Secretary-Treasurer; Leila Langs-
ton, visiting teacher message leader; Sophia Bliss, literature class leader.
Second row, left to right: Mary Vadner; Bernice Matson, organist, Dallas Stake
Relief Society; Golda Silcox, Secretary-Treasurer, Dallas Stake Relief Society; Mary
Cornwall; Gloria Marchant; Rita Anion; Dorothy Titus; Lois Peterson; Dorothy Davis.
Third row, left to right: Eunice Borgholthaus; Ella Beck, visiting teacher message
leader, Dallas Stake Relief Society; Aria Beck; JoDene Porter; Beverly Curtis; Emogene
Combs; Margaret Gledhill; Ova Moorman, Magazine representative; Norma Vance;
Virginia Driscoll; Alma Curtis.
Irene Peterson, First Counselor, was not present when this picture was taken.
Sister Whiting reports: "On this delightful occasion a brunch was served, after
which a musical program and book review were enjoyed by the women. The members
of Relief Society made the tablecloth featured. It is blue net, with white motifs cov-
ered with silver sequins. The flowers are yellow roses. The oil painting in the back-
ground is a scene of Texas bluebonnets painted by President Mary Hadfield and pre-
sented to the Fort Worth Ward Relief Society at the anniversary party."
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Photograph submitted by Roma C. Esplin
ST. GEORGE STAKE (UTAH), SANTA CLARA WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
WINS FIRST PLACE FOR SEWING AND IIANDW^ORK DISPLAY
AP \\ ASniNGTON COUNTY FAIR
Center front, left to right; ward Relief Society presidency: Gwendolyn K. Frei,
First Counselor; Beulah S. Graff, President; Helen S. Hafen, Second Counselor; Roma
C. Esplin, President, St. George Stake Relief Society; Alta V. McConkie, First Coun-
selor, Mary Louise H. Hafen.
Back row: Elva D. Le-uitt; Sylva S. Graff; Ar\ina G. Hafen, Selina G. Hafen;
Lila H. Hafen; Dean S. Graff; Florence T. Graff, Secretary; Grace S. Stucki, chairman
of display; Valda B. Frei; Charmaine Frei; Vella Ruth M. Hafen.
Sister Esplin reports: "The Santa Clara Ward Relief Society won first place at the
Washington County Fair \\ith their group display. All the very beautiful articles were
made by the women of Relief Society."
Photograph submitted by Vivian R. McConkie
ENSIGN STAKE (UTAH), EIGHTEENTH WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
VISITING TEACHERS, April 1959
Front row, left to right: Lillian Covert; Mary Cluny; Margaret Brown; Elizabeth
Larson; Erma Larson.
Second row, left to right: Mary Rief; Ida Clark; Nettie Smoot; Ella Riter; Minnie
Welling; Mabel Lingard; Marie Kraus; Faith Woolf.
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Third row, left to right: EHza Christensen; Orena Tuclcett; Mary Kempton;
Adele Bird; Margaret Holten; Gertrude Wornham; Mary Hancock Dora Noble; Nancy
Drollinger.
Back row, left to right: Tessie Grosbeck; Louise Young; Vera Dotson; Susie
Ulrich; Mary Osborn; Fern Mitchell; Mabel Oldom; Edith Langlois; Florence Saxton;
Hazel Robertson.
Breta McBride, President, Eighteenth Ward Relief Society, reports that the South
Eighteenth West Ward (now the Eighteenth Ward) had thirty-four visiting teachers,
who each month visited 227 sisters, all making a 100 per cent record. The historic
Eighteenth Ward is one of the original nineteen which were organized within two
years after the Latter-day Saint pioneers entered Salt Lake Valley.
Vivian R. McConkie is president of Ensign Stake Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Fern T. Ilartvigsen
PORTNEUF STAKE (IDAHO) RETIRING RELIEF SOCIETY PRESIDENCY
HONORED AT SOCIAL, March 12, 1959
Left to right, former officers: President Emahne Marlev; First Counselor Mabel
Hatch; Second Counselor Virgia Cammack; Secretary-Treasurer Coral Fackrell.
Fern T. Hartvigsen, recently appointed President, Portneuf Stake Relief Society,
reports: "These sisters were released on February 1, 1959, following twelve years of
devoted service, except for Sister Coral Fackrell who has been Secretary-Treasurer for
two years, replacing Alda Anderson, who had moved from the stake. All four sisters
have outstanding records of service in the auxiliaries of the Church. They were hon-
ored at a stake social, attended by all the officers and class leaders and the stake Priest-
hood authorities. Each sister of the retiring presidency was presented with one of the
new Relief Society pins as a gift, and each was honored \^ ith words and special music
composed for the occasion. Luncheon preceded the program."
LESSON DEPARTMENT
cJkeoloqq — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 17— "Magnify Thine Office"
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Sections 23 and 24)
For Tuesday, October 6, 1959
Objective: To show the necessity of magnifying one's caUing as a member of the
Church and also in any position to which one may be called in the Church.
/^NE purpose of this lesson, as
noted in the objective, is to
show that although revelations were
directed to certain individuals as
members of the Church and also to
one nonmember, the application of
the truths in the revelations may be
made to others. These two revela-
tions also provide an opportunity
for us to become acquainted, insofar
as we can, with some of the people
who were called into the Lord's
service in the beginning of this dis-
pensation.
Jntroduction
Although consisting of only seven
verses. Section 23 of The Doctrine
and Covenants contains words of
admonition and counsel to five per-
sons, one of whom was not a mem-
ber of the Church. It is worthy of
notice that the four members of the
Church are declared by the Lord to
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be '\ . . under no condemnation . . ."
(verses 1, 3, 4, and 5). On the
other hand, Joseph Knight, Senior,
the nonmember, is not given this
assurance, nor is he told that he is
condemned. As we would look upon
this circumstance today with what
is given in verse 7 to Brother
Knight, who became a member of
the Church two months later, we
can see where he would come under
condemnation if he had not affiliat-
ed with the true Church. A revela-
tion was directed to Joseph Knight,
Senior, almost one year earlier. (See
Section 12.) This good man had
given material assistance to the
Prophet Joseph Smith and did be-
lieve that Joseph actually had the
Book of Mormon plates. He had
desires to assist in the work at that
time. Conditions had changed dur-
ing the year, and the kingdom of
God had begun to function on the
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469
earth under divine command. This
fact made a most significant differ-
ence in the message the Lord gave
to Mr. Knight in April 1830. He
again sought divine counsel through
the Prophet Joseph Smith. In ad-
dition to being told of the need for
prayer in his life, both vocal and
secret, this counsel was given:
And, behold, it is your duty to unite
with the true church, and give your lan-
guage to exhortation continually, that you
may receive the reward of the laborer.
Amen (D & C 23:7).
Reasons for Being a Member
of the Church — Reflection
What answer would you give to
the thought expressed to Joseph
Knight, Senior, that it was his
''duty" to become a member of the
kingdom of God? What reasons are
there for your believing that it
would be your obligation or respon-
sibility to join the kingdom of God?
(Before you read further, think for
a few minutes, write the reasons,
and read on.) Perhaps some of
these ideas may help you:
1. I am a child of God in the spirit and,
as his child, in my limited under-
standing, I am duty-bound to accept
his counsel.
2. Jesus our Lord gave himself that I
might live amid conditions which
provide the use of my highest po-
tentialities.
a. Jesus suffered intensely, giving his
life, that I might be saved from a
fate which is described as remain-
ing in misery with the father of
lies. (See 2 Nephigig.)
b. Jesus offered this atonement for
me that I might through faith-
fulness receive "all that the Father
hath."
3. From modern scriptures, especially,
I have received God's truth which
gives me opportunity to know more
about how I may receive blessings 'n
this life and also in the life to come.
4. I have received the gift of the Holy
Ghost which has given to me knowl-
edge (assurance) that The Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
is the only true and living Church
upon the face of the earth.
5. The fulness of the gospel has pro-
vided opportunities for service to my
fellow men, for personal develop-
ment, and many other joys and satis-
factions in life.
Under each one of the above
truths, and others which might be
listed, there are many reasons for
it being my duty to accept the bless-
ings which can come only by being
a member of the kingdom of God.
Why It Is a Duty to Join
the Church
If, however, you were now to
present reasons why Joseph Knight
or any other nonmember should
become a member of the Church
on the basis of ''duty," what, in
addition to the above reasons,
would you suggest?
It is his duty to accept The
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-
day Saints because:
1. It has been restored to the earth
after a long period of apostasy when
it was no longer present among men.
2. God has commanded that all men
repent and accept the message as
revealed in the restored gospel.
3. The gospel, as restored, is the same
gospel as taught by Jesus and, later,
by his apostles, as given in the Bible.
4. The teachings of The Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are
reasonable and consistent with the
reopening of the heavens by direct
revelation.
5. Evidence of modern scriptures veri-
fies the truth of other scriptures.
6. The fruits of the gospel, as restored,
have brought joy and happiness into
the lives of its adherents.
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Other reasons might be given
under each one of the foregoing to
confirm either by scripture or other-
wise, the vahdity of those general
reasons. If one who has not become
affihated with The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints were to
acknowledge the truth of the above
statements or even of some of them,
he would be duty bound to accept
membership in this Church.
Message to Oliver Cowdery
In connection with the Lord's
counsel to the members of the
Church mentioned in Section 23, it
is well to consider, briefly, the facts
made known concerning each one.
Oliver Cowdery is told to '*. . . be-
ware of pride, lest thou shouldst
enter into temptation" (verse 1).
Despite the great opportunities that
had already come to Oliver in being
with the Prophet Joseph Smith
when the Aaronic and Melchizedek
Priesthoods were restored, and, later,
when additional keys of the Priest-
hood were brought back to the
earth, as well as other privileges in
assisting to build up the kingdom of
God on the earth, Oliver permitted
pride to enter his heart with a con-
sequent loss of membership in the
kingdom. (See D. H. C. III:i6-i8,
for charges made against him and
his letter respecting his difficulties
in 1838 which brought about his
excommunication.) Although Oliver
Cowdery returned to the Church,
the great blessings that he once en-
joyed were not returned to him.
However, he died in full fellowship
in the kingdom, true to his testi-
mony of The Book of Mormon.
Hyrum Smith, the Prophet's
brother, received the blessing that
his calling was to strengthen the
Church continually. By revelation
the Lord called him to be a coun-
selor in the First Presidency in 1837.
Later, he was appointed Patriarch to
the Church. (See D & C
124:91-96.)
The office of Patriarch to the
Church is hereditary and is received
by the eldest sons born in the line-
age of Joseph Smith, Senior. (See
D & C 107:40.) In connection with
the call of Hyrum Smith to be Pa-
triarch to the Church, we again learn
of the power of prophecy possessed
by Joseph Smith. This revelation
states to Hyrum that ''. . . thy duty
is unto the church forever, and this
because of thy family ..." (D & C
Samuel H. Smith
Samuel H. Smith strengthened
the Church during his ministry as
the first missionary of this dispensa-
tion until his death on July 30, 1844.
How well this revelation was ful-
filled is borne out in the life of
Samuel as recorded in Church pub-
lications. [Doctrine and Covenants
Commentary, pp. 120-121; L. D. S.
Biographical Encyclopedia, I, pp.
278-282.) In keeping with the pro-
phetic spirit of this revelation,
Patriarch Joseph Smith, Senior, on
his deathbed gave this blessing to
his son Samuel:
Samuel, you lia\e been a faithful and
obedient son. By your faithfulness you
ha\'e brought many into the Church. The
Lord has seen vour dihgence, and you are
blessed, in that he has never chastised
you, but has called you home to rest; and
there is a crown laid up for you, which
shall grow brighter and brighter unto the
perfect day.
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471
Otto Done
THE SUSQUEHANNA RIVER, NEAR HARMONY, PENNSYLVANIA
\\nicn the Lord called you, he said,
''Samuel, I have seen thv suffering, and
heard thy cries, and beheld th}' faithful-
ness; thy skirts are clear from the blood
of this generation." Because of these
things I seal upon your head all the bless-
ings ^^'hich I ha\e heretofore pronounced
upon you; and this my dying blessing, I
now seal upon you. E\'en so. Amen
(History of Joseph Smith by His Mother,
Lucy Mack Smith, page 310).
The following excerpt from his
obituary notice appearing in the
Times and Seasons brings to our at-
tention the quality of cle\otion and
attributes of character of this good
man.
The exit of this worthy man, so soon
after the horrible butchery of his brothers,
Joseph and Hyrum, in Carthage jail, is a
matter of deep solemnity to the family,
as well as a remediless loss to all. If ever
there lived a good man upon the earth,
Samuel H. Smith was that person. His
labors in the Church from first to last,
carrying glad tidings to the eastern cities,
and finally his steadfastness as one of the
Witnesses to the Book of Mormon, and
many saintly traits of virtue, knowledge,
temperance, patience, godliness, brotherly
kindness and charity, shall be given of
him hereafter, as a man of God (L. D. S.
Biographical Encyclopedia 1 : 2 8 2 ) .
The Prophet's Father
Joseph Smith, Senior, received a
blessing similar to that given to his
son Hyrum.
Behold, I speak a few words unto you,
Joseph; for thou also art under no con-
demnation, and thy calling also is to
exhortation, and to strengthen the church;
and this is thy dutv from henceforth and
forever. Amen (D & C 23:5).
Specifically, the Patriarchal office
was conferred upon Joseph Smith,
Senior, and it was to continue in
his lineage as indicated above, and
thus forever the Church would be
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strengthened. One experience in
his hfe does show how his calHng
was to exhortation. A mission to
members of his own family, to
whom he bore a strong testimony
of the truth of The Book of Mor-
mon, eventually resulted in all of
that large family coming into the
Church, except one brother and a
sister. On one occasion he was un-
justifiably put into a ''dismal dun-
geon" where he declared that he
*'. . . was not the first man who had
been imprisoned for the truth's
sake; and when I should meet Paul
in the Paradise of God, I could tell
him that I, too, had been in bonds
for the Gospel which he had
preached . . ." {Histoiy of Joseph
Smith by His Mother Lucy Mack
Smith, page 185). When he was
released, thirty days later, he bap-
tized two persons whom he had con-
verted.
Section 24 and the Prophet
As indicated in the superscription
of Section 24, persecution of the
Prophet became intense shortly after
the organization of the Church. He
was brought before the court on
two separate charges and acquitted
both times. (See D. H. C. 1:86-
90.) Notwithstanding the bitter-
ness of mobs against the Prophet,
there were many times when words
of consolation were given and other
things occurred to strengthen his
faith and cheer the hearts of his
followers. One such instance is
given by the Prophet shortly before
this revelation (Section 24) was re-
ceived. The wife of Newel Knight
had a dream which enabled her to
say that Oliver Cowdery and Joseph
Smith would visit them that day.
That day found the fulfillment of
this dream. The Prophet recorded
'\ . . and thus was our faith much
strengthened concerning dreams and
visions in the last days, foretold by
the ancient Prophet Joel . . /'
(D.H.C. I:ioi).
Verse 1 of Section 24 is to be
understood in view of the persecu-
tions of the Prophet and Oliver,
while verse 2 points out that they
must continue to exercise the prin-
ciples of repentance in their lives.
Important for this lesson is the
significant admonition to Joseph,.
'\ . .Magnify thine office . . ." (verse
3). At this time the Prophet re-
turned to his small farm at Har-
mony, Pennsylvania, where he began
his labors in sowing his fields. This
was not the calling of the Prophet,
however, for he was commanded to
perform the calling which he had re-
ceived by divine appointment, ''And
in temporal labors thou shalt not
have strength, for this is not thy call-
ing . . ." (verse 9) ''. . . but devote
all thy service in Zion . . ." (verse
7). The three branches of the
Church mentioned in verse 3 were
to sustain him, and blessings instead
of a cursing were to be theirs. By
this temporal assistance, the Prophet
would be able to have sufficient to
magnify his office ". . . and to ex-
pound all scriptures, and continue
in laying on of the hands and
confirming the churches" [branches]
(verse 9).
"Magnify Thine Office . . r
When the Prophet Joseph Smith
was told to magnify his calling, the
Lord was definite that he had a
calling to which he should give his
time and talent. In The Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
the members have many opportuni-
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473
ties for service because of the nature
of its organization. These privileges
range from calhngs as teachers in
the auxiharies to offices of leader-
ship. In each calling, regardless of
what it may be, there are definite
responsibilities which pertain to
that calling. Every conxerted mem-
ber of the Church desires to make
his or her contribution to the king-
dom of God. In what way may
this be done? One definite way is
to magnify one's calling as a mem-
ber of the kingdom and in his spe-
cific calling in the Church.
How to Magnify One's Calling
What does it mean to ''magnify"
a calling? Basically, to magnify
means to enlarge or make great. As
applied to a calling in the Church,
one does not enlarge the office, but,
by faithfully carrying out the duties
of the calling, one "makes" or "en-
larges" the office in the eyes of the
membership. In this sense, then,
the dictionary definition which says
to "cause to be held in greater
esteem or respect" may be applied.
The important thing for us is to
know wherein the Lord, through his
prophets, indicated that an office
was being magnified. Some ideas
concerning this fact should be con-
sidered under these points:
1. Worthiness of life
Section 4 and 12. (See Lesson 6,
Reliei Society Magazine, December
1957-)
2. Study the scriptures and information
relative to the calhng.
This counsel addressed to mission-
aries was given that they might mag-
nify their calhng. (See D & C
88:78-80.)
And as all ha\'e not faith, seek ye
diligently and teach one another
words of wisdom; yea, seek ye out
of the best books words of wisdom;
seek learning, even by study and
also by faith (D & C 88:118).
3. Unselfish devotion
Now, my beloved brethren, I,
Jacob, according to the responsibility
which I am under to God, to mag-
nify mine office with soberness, and
that I might rid my garments of
your sins, I come up into the temple
this day that I might declare unto
you the word of God ( Jacob 2:2).
4. Follow the leaders placed over us
In speaking to Relief Society, the
Prophet Joseph Smith said:
. . . that it was the folly and non-
sense of the human heart for a per-
son to be aspiring to other stations
than those to which they are ap-
pointed of God for them to occupy;
that it was better for individuals to
magnify their respective callings, and
wait patiently till God shall say to
them, "Come up higher" (D. H. C.
IV:6o3).
5. Obtain the Spirit and keep it
And the Spirit shall be gi\en unto
you by the prayer of faith and if ye
receive not the Spirit ye shall not
teach (D & C 42:14).
When a Latter-day Saint woman
prepares herself for service in the
various ways mentioned above and
strives to magnify her calling in the
kingdom of God, the Lord will mag-
nify her. (See Joshua 3:7; I Chron.
29:25.) Paul felt that the works
which were done through the Priest-
hood magnified the name of the
Lord. (See Acts 19:13-17.) This
same apostle considered that by his
life of worthiness Jesus was mag-
nified in him. (See Philippians
1:20.)
Questions ioi Discussion
1. Qi\e some reasons for being a mem-
ber of the Church.
2. Why would you believe it is a per-
son's "duty" to join The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints?
3. What is there in this lesson which
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gi\es evidence that Joseph Smith received
revelation from the Lord?
4. In what ways may one magnify a
calling in the Church?
5. Discuss: Activity in the Church,
when possible, is necessary to receive exal-
tation.
ViSitifig cJeacher 1 1 iessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 17—". . . Take Upon You My Whole Armor, That Ye May Be Able
to Withstand the Evil Day . . ." (D & C 27:15).
Christine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, October 6, 1959
Objective: To show that only when we protect oursehes with the whole armor of
spirituality can we be sure of the constant companionship of the Lord's Spirit.
TN Greek mythology there is a
well-known legend which tells of
the mighty warrior Achilles. In his
infancy, Achilles' mother Thetis,
endeavoring to make him invulner-
able to all physical harm, bathed
him in the mighty river Styx. The
water washed over his body, form-
ing an impregnable shield, with the
exception of one small part — his heel
by which she was holding him. The
princely warrior grew to manhood,
and, because of his protective armor,
lived a charmed and secure life.
Not one of his enemy's weapons
could harm him. One day, however,
after a great and successful battle,
one last poisoned arrow was shot at
Achilles. This arrow found its way
to his one vulnerable spot, his heel.
And because of this small flaw in
his otherwise great armor, Achilles
was slain.
In The Doctrine and Covenants
27:15, Jesus admonishes us to
'\ . . take upon you my whole ar-
mor, that ye may be able to with-
stand the evil day. . . ."
The emphasis in this quotation is
on applying the whole armor of the
gospel. It stresses the importance
of building a strong protective
shield of spirituality in order to re-
sist the v^eapons of evil and the
temptations of the adversary, that
are likely to beset us throughout
our lives.
As in the legend of Achilles, most
of us have potential or actual weak-
nesses in our spiritual armor which
we must recognize and guard against.
These weaknesses, although they
may be relatively small, may open
the door for serious degenerating in-
fluences and may become an
''Achilles' heel" in our own lives.
Such weaknesses as selfishness, jeal-
ousy, intolerance, false pride, or
covetousness, even discouragement,
may be fla\\s in an otherwise strong
spiritual armor.
As Jesus exhorts us in the scrip-
tures, we should gird ourselves with
truth, make righteousness the breast-
plate of our armor, faith our shield.
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475
salvation our helmet, and the Lord's
Spirit our defensive sword. (See
D&C 27:16-18.)
Let us be sure that we take upon
us Christ's whole armor. Partial or
incomplete righteousness will not
give us the protection we need.
Where our spiritual armor is not
whole, Satan finds the weak spots.
It is these flaws in our protective
shield for which he is constantly
searching. With the complete pro-
tection of the Lord's Spirit, and
with his gospel, we can successfully
withstand the temptings of the evil
one and partake of the rich joys and
blessings which come to those who
stand faithful unto the end.
Viyork flleeting — Physical Safety Factors
in the Home
(A Course Recommended for Use by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 1— Child Safety
Ch^Lilotte A. Larsen
For Tuesday, October 13, 1959
Objective: To show the necessity in safety measures of extensive education of
parents and others responsible for child care.
rpVERY home should be a haven
not a hazard. Yet, today, acci-
dents, especially in the home area,
have become the number one killer
and crippler of children. Remark-
able progress has been made in de-
creasing childhood fatalities from
tuberculosis, pneumonia, scarlet fev-
er, diphtheria, diarrhea, and many
other contagious diseases, but there
is no vaccination, no surgery, or
form of medicine that can reduce
childhood accidents.
The only safeguard or prevention
for accidents in the home is inten-
sive education of parents and others
responsible for child care. Constant
vigilance and a true knowledge of
the ways of small children are the
answers to the never-ending accident
problem. Young children need to
touchy to feel, and to explore, but
should not be left unsupervised ex-
cept in safely planned play areas.
Day-to-Day Safety Teaching
It is important to remember that
children imitate adults; consequent-
ly, it is imperative that adults con-
form to high safety standards. Safety
principles should be taught at an
early age for children are active and
heedless. Parents can do much to
save them from injury and suffering
by following a few basic principles.
Preventing Accidents
The first step in making the home
a safer place for your children is to
study the leading causes of home
accidents involving children. The
most common accidents are:
1. Burns and explosions from matches,
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firecrackers, bonfires, lighters, unpro-
tected heaters, and stoves.
2. Scalding from hot liquids.
3. Falls from swings, trees, windows,
porches, and steps, and even falls out
of bed.
4. Electrocutions and burns from worn
extension cords, unprotected electric
outlets.
5. Cuts from knives, scissors, and other
sharp objects.
6. Drownings in bathtubs, unguarded
and unprotected swimming pools,
uncovered fish-ponds, and wells and
canals.
7. Poisoning caused from household
bleaches, detergents, medicines, and
insecticides.
8. Strangulations and other injury from
stuffing small objects in nose, ears,
and throat.
9. Gunshot wounds from "unloaded"
guns.
10. Vehicular accidents from cars backing
out from garages; bicycle accidents.
Safeguards
The following safeguards should
be taken to protect children:
1. Provide safe, attractive areas for chil-
dren, both indoors and outdoors, so that
they can be watched while mothers are
performing household duties. The safest
play area is a fenced yard. [Driveways,
streets, and highways are not safe places
for children to play.]
2. Select children's toys with care. Avoid
buying articles which can be easily swal-
lowed, which have sharp corners or rough
edges, or which have poisonous paint.
Lead paint used on baby's chair or crib
is dangerous, as the child may suck or
chew on some part of the furniture and
be poisoned.
3. Teach the children to stay away from
the stove as you prepare the meals. While
cooking, turn handles of all pots and pans
to the back of the stove. Use the back
burners whenever possible.
4. Keep sharp objects, such as scissors,
kni\es, ice-picks, etc., a\^•ay from small
children and train older children to use
them properly.
5. Keep electric cords out of reach.
Children should be taught the danger of
playing with electric cords. Children can
be seriously burned by chewing on cords.
Garage and Driveway Hazards
Be sure you can actually see all
children known to be in the vicinity
while you back your car. Looking
around first isn't enough. Knowing
the children were in the house a
moment ago isn't enough. Make
them stand where you can see them
while you're backing. Teach your
children the danger of playing near
parked cars and trucks. Delivery
men don't take time to look around
and under their vehicles before driv-
ing away. Every year has its pitiful
toll of little children killed or
maimed this way. Be sure it doesn't
happen to your youngsters.
Other Child Safety Reminders
During the past few years we have
seen newspaper and magazine re-
ports of the entrapment of small
children in discarded refrigerators
and other airtight cabinets. In most
cases these entrapments result in
death. A number of suggestions
have been made to correct this sit-
uation. The solution to this hazard
is education — education of par-
ents to make these cabinets harm-
less before discarding them, and to
educate children to stay out of such
places. This is a serious problem,
for there are over a million of these
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cabinets discarded each year.
Avoid placing a chair or couch
near a window where a child can
easily climb up and perhaps fall out
the window. (Windows should
have firmly secured screens.)
Take this child safety tip: Keep
in a safe, preferably locked place,
anything in your home or garage
that could harm a child if taken
without your supervision, such as
simple medicines, cleaning mater-
ials, furniture polishes, garden sprays,
and insecticides. To a little tot
gasoline or kerosene looks like a lot
of other things he drinks. He may
try it without hesitation, if you leave
it where he can get it easily. It
may very well be fatal. Take the
extra little care necessary to avoid
this tragedy on your premises.
A tot left alone in the bathtub
can turn the hot water on and scald
himself in an instant, or bump his
head and drown.
Many childhood accidents happen
in homes where there are no young-
sters. Here is a special child safety
tip to adults without children at
home: always be sure your scissors,
poisonous liquids, medicines, knives
— all things potentially dangerous to
small children — are kept carefully
out of the way, just in case friends
with youngsters stop in unexpected-
ly. Accidents to children, it seems,
happen when and where adults least
expect them.
Questions
1. When is the best time to teach our
children safety measures?
2. How are safety measures best taught?
3. How does the safety environment of
the home affect the child?
Suggested Reference
Foimuh For Child Safety,
Metropohtan Life Insurance Company
Home Office: New York.
jCiterature — America's Literature
A New Nation Speaks
Lesson 9-^ Introduction: Light and Fire
Elder Brian t S. Jacobs
For Tuesday, October 20, 1959
Objective: To sketch the background for changes in the American mind before and
after the Revolutionary War.
Seedtime oi the Nation
"DECAUSE few of us, previous to happening before then. Based per-
this course, had on tongue-tip haps on some "required" history
the name of any American who class that now lies flattened beneath
wrote before 1776, it becomes easy mountains of diapers and dishes,
to assume that little of import was this easy generalization would have
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our forefathers too busy landing on
Plymouth Rock, eating turkeys and
pumpkins, chopping down trees,
dipping candles, killing Indians, and
courting Priscilla Alden, ever to
read or write much. ''But now that
you've mentioned it," they might
well respond, ''just who is there,
anyway?"
During our first year we named
seven names; it could well have been
far more had we room enough and
time. Looking back on our study
of New England Puritanism, we can
now identify it as a period of vigor-
ous dissenting, noble dreaming, self-
righteous dominating, subtle yet
fundamental changing. Studied
carefully, it yields a fascinating
pertinence all its own. Viewed
from a deeper perspective, it be-
comes one of the great seedtimes of
our national heart and mind.
Save for Jonathan Edwards, who
died approximately twenty years
before Paul Revere's ride, most
aggressive believers in the Bible
Commonwealth were dead almost
fifty years before 1776. If theocratic
Puritanism ended in 1728, and Jef-
ferson began writing in 1776, what
happened in between? Much!
Literature of the American tradi-
tion has "bone in its nose" (because
it was written to instruct and edi-
fy). Before 1900 those of our great
authors who wrote only to please
the imagination or to delight, are
few in number. The half-century
preceding the Revolution was also
a time of seeding and of mixing its
seeds with those planted earlier.
This period, from 1763 on, was the
matrix which produced the fiery
issues of hatreds and death; firing
musketry but accelerated and intensi-
fied the work which "the silent pres-
sure of environment" had been
effecting upon transplanted Euro-
peans for decades.
Struggling for Economic
and Political Rights
As swelling numbers of individual
working-class Englishmen earned
themselves a new identity with their
lands and goods and expansive inner
freedoms, their status rose, at least
in their own minds; in reverse ratio,
the power of the theocracy shriv-
eled. Though not one in a thou-
sand attended a university, people
of colonial America were hungry to
read; in the decades before and after
the war, newspapers and magazines
multiplied tremendously. The tem-
per of the times changed. Men felt
within the scope of their attainable
futures new rights to be achieved;
reading and attending the com-
munity discussion groups which
sprang up verified their own new
hungers and convictions. As early
as 1717 the Reverend John Wise,
university trained son of an inden-
tured servant, put the new attitude
into ringing words:
... in the high and admirable Frame
and Constitution of Humane Nature the
Word Man, says my Author, is thought
to carry somewhat of Dignity in its sound;
and we commonly make use of this as
the most proper and prevailing argument
against a rude Insulter, I am Not a Beast
or a Dog, but am a Man as well as your-
self.
Increasingly the literate but non-
university w^orking classes came to
distrust the clergy and the educated
few. When Cotton Mather recom-
mended, in 1721, that the populace
submit themselves to smallpox in-
oculation, it was James Franklin's
Courant (as a voice for "Leather
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Apron men/' which would inckide
his younger brother Ben and him-
self) which spoke out against him.
The Franklin brothers' paper satir-
ized Harvard as a rich man's college
which qualified dunces for the min-
istry by teaching them graceful car-
riage and other foppish skills ''which
might as well be acquired at a
Dancing School." Surprising no-
tions the seventeen-year-old printer's
apprentice Ben Franklin printed,
under the name of Silence Dogood,
in the Couiantj as copied from a
London paper: ''Without Freedom
of Thought, there can be no such
Thing as Wisdom; and no such
Thing as publick Liberty, without
Freedom of Speech." Uneducated?
Perhaps, but surely self-taught, and
evidently very near the tenor of the
times in his thinking.
Voting, too, became more wide-
spread and influential in people's
minds. On her precarious trip
through Connecticut in 1704, Sarah
Kemble Knight observed how their
big red-letter day honored "St. Elec-
tion ... a blessing they can be
thankful enough for." As one might
expect, the ruling class feared such
goings-on and stood together to op-
pose their counterblasts.
But while the great majority of
Swedes in New Sweden (Delaware);
Dutch in New Amsterdam (New
York); ex-convicts in Georgia; An-
glicans throughout the South;
Quakers and Dutch in Pennsylvania;
Catholics in Maryland; Quakers and
staunch Puritans who replanted the
"New Ark" of their covenant the-
ology in New Jersey; Congregation-
alists and Presbyterians in New
England; and mongrels in Rhode
Island and throughout the whole —
while the many worshipped in quiet
tranquility or warmed to the New
Light religious fervors of the Great
Awakening, they were at peace re-
ligiously. The great battle centered
about their receiving their economic
and political rights as Englishmen.
The Influence oi Deism
In the meantime a new move-
ment began to influence the colo-
nies. The Enlightenment had be-
come a strong force in England dur-
ing the late seventeenth century
among the intellectual, educated
classes. Basically it was a reaction
against the severities of the Puritan
curbings, which ended in 1660,
when the Stuarts were restored to
the throne. Above all, the devotees
of the Enlightenment honored
man's reason as the key for unlock-
ing the mysteries of his physical
world and the universe, for solving
the growing complexities of men's
relationships with each other, and
for what they felt to be a more
reasonable approach to religion.
Puritan scholars had always be-
lie\'ed in the beneficent powers of
science, intellect, and the pursuit
of knowledge through books and
education. For them reason was
a tool or "faculty" to be mastered
in the manipulations of logic. Par-
ticularly after the charter was re-
newed in 1692, Reason began taking
on new significance, even in the
words of the New England Puritans
themselves. In 1700, Cotton Math-
er published his Reasonable Reli-
gion in which he wrote, "Did men
Act Reasonably, they would Live
Religiously." Gradually, for the
eighteenth-century Puritans, reason
became an inborn power in natural
man which proved to him the neces-
sity for God: in marveling at the
splendid mechanical smoothness
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with which the universe runs, wasn't
it reasonable that some Great Power
created it?
Deism (a behef in the existence
of God) was at the heart of the
American Enhghtenment, best ex-
emphfied in the credo of Benjamin
Frankhn, whose hfe span ahiiost
covered that of the eighteenth cen-
tury (1706-1790), and who was far
and away the best-known, best-
loved American of his time, both in
America and in Europe. He believed
in God, in immortality, in doing
good to all men, not because reli-
gious authority told him he ought
to, but because to him these things
seemed reasonable, hence good. The
leading antimystic of the age, he
prayed to God, not to have his
prayers answered but to give vent
to his feelings of veneration and
gratitude. As he wrote in his Auto-
biography.
. . . truth, sincerity, and integrity in
dealings between man and man were of
the utmost importance to the fehcity of
hfe. . . , Rexelation had indeed no
weight with me as such; but I entertained
an opinion that, though certain actions
might not be bad because they were for-
bidden . . . yet probably these actions
might be forbidden because they were bad
for us. . . .
Thus deism intellectualized or
reasoned religion. Never a formal
movement or an organized sect, it
was believed in only by a prominent
few, but it was those few who wrote
the ''great and marching words" for
both their age and ours: Franklin,
Jefferson, Paine, Washington, Eth-
an Allen, and others.
New Concepts of the
Enlightenment
The Enlightenment also found it
''reasonable" to believe in the per-
fectibility of man and in his innate
rights as a product of God's reason-
able nature. Therefore more of our
social challenges ( many of them still
unmet) have their origins in this
period than in any other. In con-
trast to the confining dogmatisms of
the past, which taught that a man
was starving or dying or being pun-
ished because it was God's will, the
new concepts of the Enlightenment
were based on benevolence and con-
cern for the welfare of all men. Ac-
cording to its teachings, the masses
were not born only to be ruled by
superiors; furthermore, the souls of
Negroes and Indians and women
were worth saving. And the great-
est single concept which the En-
lightenment has bequeathed to us is
the idea of progress. Not only can
man better himself in every way
here and now, but it becomes m-
evitahle that he do so. No idea is
more central to our present-day be-
liefs than this. Once each person
believes he is as good as any other,
and that by standing on the "Rights
of Man" he can not only maintain
such a station but cannot escape
from improving it, what is not pos-
sible? Results of such a belief are
everywhere about us, both inside
and out, both as Americans and as
Latter-day Saints.
These high ideals were birthed in
eighteenth-century America, draw-
ing heavily upon European sources,
but reworking them into textures
and emphasis peculiarly its own. But
we should not oversimplify. Yes,
the century produced its great sym-
bol-man Benjamin Franklin, but it
produced Jonathan Edwards, too,
living symbol of a core of beliefs
which, in large measure, Franklin
and the age inherited and incorp-
orated within themselves, but
which, in even larger measure, they
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repudiated as expendable values,
against which their new principles
were contrasted.
The War of Ideas
Wars are fought because each of
two factions believes its cause is
just. A man in uniform aims at
his fellow with loaded musket or
missile because, when words fail,
this act seems the best way of pro-
jecting into action what he believes
in his heart, much as men abhor it.
Thus, for centuries, Englishmen had
fought for their king, their living
symbol of the glorious English tra-
ditions and institutions which gave
their lives continuity and purpose in
time. They believed that back-talk
need not be taken; that authority
is not to be challenged.
But dearly as they loved their
motherland, Englishmen living in
America believed even more with
John Locke, Rousseau, Roger Wil-
liams, John Wise, Tom Paine, and
Thomas Jefferson, that man has
rights as a man, just as an English-
man has rights as an Englishman,
regardless of where he may live.
They believed in the social contact,
which at the time of the Glorious
Revolution in 1688, John Locke
had written as the true concept of
man's relationship to government:
that in return for capitulating his
priceless independence to the gov-
ernment, it, in turn, can repay him
this trust by legislating, with his
consent, for his own welfare.
We must not forget that during
the Revolution more than a third
of the Englishmen living in the
thirteen colonies could not conceive
of being anything but Englishmen,
and remained Tories or Loyalists
throughout the war and afterward.
While more than 70,000 fled to the
Indies, Canada, and England, rath-
er than commit what they felt to
be highest treason, large numbers
complied outwardly, probably doing
so rather than endangering their
lives and property, meanwhile pray-
ing that the rebels would be defeat-
ed and solid English government
restored. Realizing the grim truth of
Franklin's tart aphorism that "We
must hang together or we'll hang
separately," the survival of the col-
onists hinged entirely on their ability
to agree even while they differed.
The greatness of the fundamental
documents which they fashioned
lies not only in their purest ideahsm
coupled with commonsense reality,
nor only in the checks and balances
which predominantly pleased all
compromising factions without al-
lowing any one to dominate the
others; they are great because the
creative force of their vision made
their sentences some of the greatest
in our language. Thev achieved the
internal power which always signi-
fied great art.
Stemming from the two great
interrelated yet vastly differing defi-
nitions of man, as exemplified by
Jonathan Edwards and Benjamin
Franklin, these two views became
embodied in the two political parties
following the war. Jefferson, who
would trust the people, led one;
Alexander Hamilton led the Fed-
eralists. Though they differed in
favoring agriculture and rural areas
versus high finance, industry, and
urban areas, strong local govern-
ment versus centralized control,
such surface differences had their
origins in their views toward their
own kind. As much as any single
debate in our history, the more de-
tailed descriptions of what man is
in his true nature has been central
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from then until now; from such dis-
cussions cast in hterary form and
intensity has come American htera-
ture.
One of the most terrifying real-
izations which must have come to
our rebellious forefathers, somewhat
after the tensions of combat were
relaxed, was, that in gaining eco-
nomic and political freedom, they
had gained cultural and literary free-
dom as well, which might well have
proved more than they bargained
for. On July 5, 1775, Franklin
wrote one of his formerly dearest
friends in England:
Your area Member of Parliament, and
one of that Majority which has doomed
my Country to Destruction. — You have
begun to burn our Towns, and murder our
People. — Look upon your Hands! They
are stained with the Blood of your Rela-
tions!— You and I were long Friends: —
You are now my Enemy, — and I am,
Yours, B. Franklin.
After relationships were severed
so sharply, where was the infant
Nation to turn for fashions in
clothes, architecture, dancing, con-
versation, painting, drama, literature?
Aside from architecture, its one na-
tive art, it is an error to say this new
Nation was imitative of England;
it is much more accurate to say it
imported her. After humiliating
this greatest nation at Yorktown,
was this new Nation's humiliation
to be a fawning return to the metro-
politan delights of London, begging
for five thousand copies of ''the
latest?" It was, much as this was
hated. It was comparatively easy to
"declare" itself free, but free to
what? Politically and economically
growing pains had to be solved im-
mediately or the young Nation
would be wiped out; unfortunately
the people found to their sorrow
that they could not overnight ''de-
clare" themselves an accompanying
culture and a historical tradition,
both of which were needed desper-
ately to bind all American hearts
together in pride of a noble past,
and in great words and artistic ex-
pressions of an emerging identity.
Literarily and educationally this
process took almost a hundred 3^ears:
the first course in American litera-
ture was offered at Princeton in
1872 by John S. Hart. Before 1800
the Connecticut Wits were so heav-
ily imitative of English models that
they stultified what little creative
power they possessed, and a few
eighteenth-century American novel-
ists wrote imitations of the English
writers Samuel Richardson and
Laurence Sterne. After the Revolu-
tion, Royal Tyler and William Dun-
lap wrote a few American plays, but
by and large American writers re-
turned back into the comfortable
lap of Mother England and imitated
her unashamedly, even gratefully.
Meanwhile the great question, "If I
am not English, who am I?" was
scarcely to be nibbled at for several
decades, and not until the time of
the great writers of the American
Renaissance during the 1850's was
individuality to be stated in terms
of greatness and imaginative crea-
tivity.
Thoughts ioi Discussion
1. Why might it be significant of new
patterns that young Ben Franklin began
his career in a newspaper and printing
office?
2. What was the basic concept in the
American Enlightenment?
3. In their views of man and society,
what did Puritanism and the Enlighten-
ment ha\e in common?
4. In realms other than politics and
economics, how did "independence" cre-
ate many difficulties?
Social c5cimc^— Spiritual Living
in the Nuclear Age
Lesson 1— The Spiritual Road
Elder Blaine M. Porter
For Tuesday, October 27, 1959
Objective: To appraise present world conditions and to chart a course for the
spiritually minded person living in the nuclear age.
The
evi-
high
feel-
An Era oi Confusion and
Insecurity
npHESE are confusing times,
daily headlines carrying
dences of fear and anxiety in
places fill us with these same
ings of fear and anxiety. Their large
black banners of war, strikes, loyalty
oaths, traitors, mobilization, civilian
defense, atom and hydrogen bomb
experiments, guided missiles, price
controls and taxes, debates on aid
to foreign countries multiply this
confusion. Radio and television
programs discussing these problems,
often, in a passionate and pessimistic
manner, arouse feelings of uneasi-
ness and confusion in the minds of
children and vouth, as well as adults.
Parents are confused; teachers
perplexed; congressmen and states-
men disagree; and military person-
nel argue as to the size of the armed
forces and the speed of mobiliza-
tion. Authority is being questioned;
old modes of life are being displaced
by new and unfamiliar ones; and
the advancement of the jet age,
which is making of countries which
were history and geography book
fantasylands of yesterday our next-
door neighbors of today, is adding
new challenges in human relations.
It would be totally unrealistic not
to acknowledge that the problems
we face today often seem insur-
mountable and that tension and
anxiety exist among both children
and adults, such as:
1. The increasing complexity of modern
hfe with its specializations and its imper-
sonal interdependence and mechanical
aspects.
2. The broken homes and moral and
spiritual bankruptcy of many persons.
3. The struggle for power among the
great nations of the world, sometimes led
by men lacking in maturity and spirituality.
4. Overcrowded schools and inadequate
educational facilities.
5. Racial and religious prejudice and
discrimination and class stratification.
6. Inflation and rising prices in which
an individual's material needs and desires
seem always to outdistance the lag in
earning power.
7. The realization that we could wake
up any morning and find ourselves engaged
in a world-wide struggle for survival which
brings with it the threat of unimaginable
destructive weapons.
In some instances these are prob-
lems of our own thinking and our
own making, which we have failed
to solve to our own satisfaction.
Nevertheless, they are problems
about which almost all of us are
anxious and concerned.
An Era oi Great VoiQn\.i2[i\.iQS
So far we have sounded rather
pessimistic regarding the world in
which we find ourselves. Let us
now look at it from a more opti-
mistic point of view. If the peace
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of the world can be kept, and we are
able to develop sufficient skill in
getting along with one another, both
within our communities and among
the nations of the world, it is quite
probable that the last half of
the twentieth century will record
the greatest physical changes in
human history. If we are able ere-
atively to handle the problems men-
tioned abo\'e and be somewhat
philosophical about the unfinished
world in which we live, we could
quite honestly say that we are now
living in the most exciting era of
all time. What is more challeng-
ing, we face even more dramatic
changes in the years directly ahead.
Dr. Carl J. Christensen, discuss-
ing some of the impacts of the satel-
lite age, pointed out that man has
understood the principle of a rocket
engine since the Chinese first made
a rocket with gun powder, and that
the nature of a satellite orbit had
been fullv understood since the
time of Sir Isaac Newton. He then
went on to say:
This principle in celestial mechanics is
studied by every American boy and girl
who takes a course in high school physics.
Even though these principles have long
been understood, the achievement of a
man-made satellite was not expected by
the rank and file of humanity. They,
apparently, had tacitly assumed this to be
an act possible only to God in his crea-
tion. Perhaps many of us are only begin-
ning to comprehend the tremendous
things the Creator has in plan for us, his
spirit children, to aehie^'e. . . . (''Man's
3 Dimensional Future," Carl J. Christen-
sen, The Impiovement Era, August 1958,
page 579).
This is an age, too, in which the
advances made in the fields of nutri-
tion, health education, and medi-
cine are making it possible for men
to live longer and to be on the
threshold of conquering some dread
diseases. The fact that our physical
bodies respond more effectively is
evidenced by the almost consistent
annual breaking of athletic records.
Challenge to Develop Harmonious
Human Relationships
This is indeed an exciting age;
an age of great expectations. It is
a time that challenges a new way
of thinking with new ways of living.
The significant problem at hand is,
can we meet this challenge? In
order to arrive at the right answers,
it is essential that we ask the right
questions. Now that we have
acknowledged the greatness of the
accomplishments in the scientific
fields of sending atomic submarines
underneath the ice cap covering the
region surrounding the North Pole,
satellites circling the earth, and the
remarkable achievements of con-
quering many of our feared diseases,
it seems appropriate to suggest that
we diligently seek to discover the
secret of creative, harmonious hu-
man relationships.
Today, increasing numbers of
people are beginning to understand
that the fundamental problem of
the human race is to learn how to
live together in peace and harmony.
The knowledge of the universe as
revealed by astronomers shows us
that our planet is but a tiny island
floating in space so great that the
human mind cannot comprehend
its vastness. Is it not just as true
that man's hope of survival of all the
finer things of life rests on the
foundation of peace and brother-
hood and faith in God?
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If the remarkable advancements
which have been made in the area
of the physical and medical sciences
are to be put to use for the better-
ment of mankind rather than its
destruction, it seems essential that
we exert greater efforts to parallel
these advances with accomplish-
ments in the social science, humani-
ties, and religion. No matter how
many rockets we launch to the
moon, or how many scientific instru-
ments the rockets carry, they still
cannot teach us much about human
development and behavior. Guided
missiles or hydrogen bombs do not
pick themselves up in one city and
drop themselves on another city.
Such destructive actions occur
through the motivations and direc-
tions of human beings. As long as
we have leaders of nations who are
characterized by immaturity, jeal-
ousy, greed, and hostility, we will
continue to live in an anxious age,
threatened by the fear of suffering
and destruction.
Need to Kindle Faith
President McKay has observed:
The most ominous threat to the peace
and happiness of mankind in this the
twentieth century is not the probable mis-
use of the atomic bomb, but the dwin-
dhng in men's hearts of faith in God.
''Epochs of faith are epochs of fruitful-
ness; but epochs of unbehef, however glit-
tering, are barren of all permanent good"
("Faith Triumphant," Da\id O. McKay,
The Impiovement Era, August 1947, P^g^
507)-
General Omar N. Bradley, for-
merly Army's Chief of Staff, said on
one occasion:
With the monstrous weapons man
already has, humanity is in danger of
being trapped in this world by its moral
adolescence. Our knowledge of science
has clearly outstripped our capacity to con-
trol it.
We have too many men of science; too
few men of God. We ha\'e grasped the
mystery of the atom and rejected the
Sermon on the Mount. Man is stum-
bling blindly through a spiritual darkness
while toying with the precarious secrets
of life and death.
The world has achieved brilliance with-
out wisdom, power without conscience.
Ours is a world of nuclear giants and
ethical infants. We know more about
war than we know about peace, more about
killing than we know about living. (As
quoted by President David O. McKay, in
The Impiovement Era, June 1958, page
407).
Home to Inculcate
Christ's Teachings
A great responsibility falls upon
the home to produce loving person-
alities, individuals with feelings of
respect and value for mankind and
skills of putting into practice
Christian ideals and teachings. Our
world can only be as effectively safe
and secure as are the homes that
constitute it. Our challenge, then,
is to find a way in which parents
can join hands with each other and
their children and travel the spirit-
ual road.
Signposts of the Spiritual Road
President McKay, in his annual
conference address in 1958, pointed
out some of the signposts which we
might observe in order to find and
stay on the spiritual road.
Christ has asked us to develop the
spiritual within us.
Man's earthly existence is but a test as
to whether he will concentrate his efforts,
his mind, his soul upon things which con-
tribute to the comfort and gratification
of his physical nature or whether he will
make as his life's purpose the acquisition
of spiritual qualities.
Every noble impulse, every unselfish
expression of love, ever}^ brave suffering
for the right; every surrender of self to
something higher than self; every loyalty
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to an ideal; every unselfish devotion to
principle; every helpfulness to humanitv;
every act of self-control; every fine cour-
age of the soul, undefeated by pretence or
policy, but by being, doing, and living of
good for the very good's sake — that is
spirituality.
The spiritual road has Christ as its
ideal — not the gratification of the physical,
for he that \\i\\ save his life, yielding to
that first gratification of a seeming need,
will lose his life, lose his happiness, the
pleasure of living at this present time. If
he would seek the real purpose of life,
the individual must five for something
higher than self. He hears the Sa\ior's
voice, saving: "I am the way, the truth,
the life." (John 14:6.) Following that
voice he soon learns that there is no one
great thing which he can do to attain
happiness or eternal life. He learns that
"life is made up not of great sacrifices
or duties, but of little things in which
smiles and kindness and small obligations
given habitually are what win and pre-
serve the heart and secure comfort."
Spirituality, our true aim, is the con-
sciousness of victory over self, and of
communion with the Infinite. Spiritualitv
impels one to conquer difficulties and
acquire more and more strength. To
feel one's faculties unfolding, and truth
expanding in the soul, is one of life's
sublimest experiences. . . ,
With all our boasted civilization there
never was a time when spiritual awaken-
ing and spiritual ideals were more needed.
Civilization has grown too complex for
the human mind to visualize or to control.
Unless mankind come to a speedy realiza-
tion that the higher and not the baser
qualities of man must be developed, the
present status of civilization is in jeopardv.
Life on the animal plane has as its ideal
the survi\al of the fittest, crush or be
crushed, mangle or be mangled, kill or
be killed. For man, with his intelligence,
this is a sure road to anguish and
death. . . .
Spiritual a\Aakening in the hearts of
millions of men and women would bring
about a changed world. I am hopeful, my
brethren and sisters, that the dawning
of that day is not far distant. I am con-
scious, as I hope all of you are, that the
responsibility to try to bring about such
LESSON DEPARTMENT
487
a day rests upon the priesthood of the
Church of Jesus Christ and upon the
membership and upon husbands and wives
and upon children in Mormon homes.
May that message be felt throughout
the conference that we are now holding.
We cannot just come and meet and talk
about good things and then go home and
express our feelings, the feelings of our
carnal nature.
My faith in the ultimate triumph of
the gospel of Jesus Christ assures me that
a spiritual awakening must come. It will
come through the acceptance of Jesus
Christ and obedience to his gospel and
in no other way completeh. I believe
there never was a time in the history of
the world when there was such a need
for a united, determined stand to uphold
Christ and the restoration of the gospel
through the Prophet Joseph Smith as there
is today ("Something Higher Than Self/'
Da\id O. McKay, The Improvement Era,
June 1958, pp. 407-409).
Summary
The challenges which lie before
us are clear. Advances in the
physical sciences must be balanced
with achievements in the social
order and understanding of human
behavior. We must change our
way of thinking. We must change
our way of feeling. Instead of hat-
ing, fighting, and crushing one an-
other, we must seek to build our
lives upon the principles of right-
eousness as taught and exemplified
by our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
These challenges may not be easy
for some, because of the attractions
which the glitter and ease of follow-
ing other paths may have. The gos-
pel of Jesus Christ beckons us to
follow the high road wherein we
dedicate ourselves to the eternal
values of noble and righteous living.
Anything less than this may mean
the decline, if not the destruction,
of our civilization, and it obviously
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will result in a less abundant life
than is potentially within each of us.
Spiritual living becomes more and
more essential.
Devotion and loyalty that spring . . .
from the heart "for the common Father of
all mankind is the strongest and only uni-
versal bond that can bind up all men to-
gether." Only such a group looking as one
mind to heaven for guidance can eventually
transform human society {Gospel JdeaJs,
David O. McKay, page 104).
It is the duty of the members of
The Church of Jesus Christ of Lat-
ter-day Saints to hold aloft true
spiritual standards— to travel 'The
Spiritual Road/' and so to light this
pathway that others will seek to
follow.
Thoughts ioT Discussion
1. What are some of the specific fears
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and anxieties that Relief Society members
face?
2. Discuss the impact upon the indi-
vidual of a rapidly changing society.
3. Will leading a spiritual life aid or
hinder one's efforts to get along with
others and achieve vocational or profes-
sional goals? In what way? Why?
4. Discuss ways in which we may help
each other to get on and stay on "The
Spiritual Road."
Supplementary References
Evans, Richard L.: "The Courage to
Li\e With Uncertainty/' The Improve-
ment Em, February 1957, page 104.
McKay, David O.: "A Spiritual Re-
awakening— the Need of the Hour," The
Inipwvcment Era, January 1956, pp.
13-14.
McKay, David O.: "Peace in the Atomic
Age," The Instructor, January 1958,
pp. 1-2.
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\bnjOiding Quietude
Renie H. Littiewood
How deep the quietude enfolding hills
Where crystal lakes lie jeweled in the sun;
Where muted vespers of the stream-locked rills
Lull wearying cares into oblivion.
Here peace walks with a sure and tempered tread
Through purpling shadows cast by sunlit peaks,
Or rests in cool tranquilities that spread
In ever-widening circles as she speaks.
To ears grown overtired of raucous din,
Her soothing whisperings hold but healing powers;
With her pulsating heart all hearts are kin,
They garner strength to meet the thundering hours.
While dissonant living all its clamor spills,
Flow deep the quietude enfolding hills.
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I should like to pay a tribute to Preston
Nibley. our Assistant Church Historian,
for the excellent articles he contributes
about the missions of the Church. I read
them with much interest each month. His
article about the Central States Mission
in March 1959 was exceptionally interest-
ing because of a recent visit my husband
and I made there. Our party met with
Brother Dyer in the mission home and he
bore a strong testimony of the gospel. We
did not, however, haxe the pri\'ilege of
visiting Adam-ondi-Ahman. so I was hap-
py to see the picture of this sacred spot.
— Aletha Louc Handy
Franklin, Idaho
How splendid is every article, story, and
poem in the June issue of the Magazine.
And how good to get a glimpse of Cleve-
land, Ohio, on the cover! I correspond
with a poet friend there, but had never
pictured the city as it is. ''The Handcart
Child" bv Orvene B. Holman ga\e me
special pleasure, as did "For Grandmothers
Who Baby Sit" by Camilla Woodbury
fudd, and "The Humming Bird" by W^i-
Tiona Frandsen Thomas. I so loved "Coun-
try Summer" by Rodello Hunter — it
took me back to when my twin sister and
I were se\"enteen. "Green-\\'illow Days"
bv Shirlev Sealy is wonderful, and "The
Ladder of Love" by Margaret Russell is
poignantly sweet and strong and beautiful-
ly given. I am grateful to Verness'a M.
Nagle for "The Pansy-Picker," and to
Gwen Marler Barney for the truth so
Ivrically expressed in "Where the Gull
Goes."
— Mabel Law Atkinson
I do not want to miss a single copy of
the Magazine — especially the one for
July, as I am interested in the continued
story "The Silver Leash" (by Beatrice R.
Parsons). I particularly enjoy the beau-
tiful poems and also e\'ery article in the
Magazine.
— Mrs. L. J. Dozier
Odessa, Texas
What fine essays and what excellent
writing — "Green-Willow Days," by Shir-
ley Sealy, and "The Pansy-Picker," by
Vernessa M. Nagle, in the June issue of
the Magazine. Such interesting subjects
and such fine writing make the Magazine
a delight to me.
— Katherine S. Staples
Kanosh, Utah
The June Magazine is outstanding,
from its pretty front co\er to the luscious
strawberry and sugar adxertisement on
the back. Florence Jepperson Madsen's
tribute to fathers, and her own father, is
touching. One of mv friends up here
said she lived next door to the Jeppersons,
and in the article Brother Jepperson was
depicted very truly. Christie Lund Coles'
story ("One of Them") about the brave
little crippled mother is so touching. I
have always' liked Christie's stories. I could
mention each story and poem in the June
Magazine, for they are all first class, and
I am proud to ha\'e mine among them
("Peach-Tree Poem").
— Frances C. Yost
Bancroft, Idaho
Dayton, Idaho
"The Ladder of Love" by Margaret
Russell in the June Magazine appeals to
us^ as a gem of a story, beautifully written,
and expressing deep and fundamental
truth.
— L. Paul Roberts and
Dorothy J. Roberts
Salt Lake City, Utah
Thank you very much for placing my
hobby feature in The Reliei Society Maga-
zine (May 1959). I have taken the
Magazine for thirty-fi\e or forty years . . .
now I read it with a magnifying glass and
appreciate it very much and wish it con-
tinued success.
— Maggie R. ^^^ood
Fielding, Utah
Page 490
THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford - President
Marianne C. Sharp First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen _ . . - Second Counselor
Hulda Parker ._--.- Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Aleine M. Young Edith P. Backman Mary V. Cameron
Edith S. Elliott Josie B. Bay V/mniefred S. Alton W. Hunt
Florence J. Madsen Christine H. Robinson Manwaring Wealtha S. Mendenhall
Leone G. Layton Alberta H. Christensen Elna P. Haymond Pearle M. Olsen
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor ------------ Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor - Vesta P Crawford
General Manager Belle S. Spattord
VOL. 46 AUGUST 1959 NO- 8
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SPECIAL FEATURES
President J. Reuben Clark, Jr., First Counselor m the First Presidency ....Marion G. Romney 493
President Henry Dmwoodey Moyle, Second Counselor in the First Presidency. ...Harold B. Lee 499
How Can We Efiectively Delegate Responsibility? Belle S Spaftod 501
The New England Mission Preston R. Nibley 506
Fresh Up With Sunday ■■^---■^ -:,--, 516
Annual Report for 1958 Hulda Parker 526
FICTION
"A" Is for Apron— Part I Hene H. Kingsbury 508
The Silver Leash— Chapter 8 (Conclusion) Beatrice Rordame Parsons 522
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 490
Sixty Years Ago 512
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 513
Editorial: Reverence Louise W. Madsen 514
Notes to the Field: The Annual General Relief Society Conie.ence 516
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Pa.ker 536
Birthday Congratulations 568
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Recipes From the New England Mission Margaret Romney Jackson 518
Filing Photographs Elizabeth Williamson 520
Frances White Poulson Has Enriched Her Life With Hobbies 521
Of Royal Birth Kate Richards 567
LESSONS FOR NOVEMBER
Theology — "... Thou Shalt Not Command Him Who Is at Thy Head . . ."....Roy W. Doxey 543
Visiting Teacher Messages — "And Again I Say Unto You, Let Every Man Esteem
His Brother as Himself" Christine H. Robinson 549
Work Meeting — Electricity Charlotte A. Larsen 551
Literature — Benjamin Franklin, Printer (1703-179D) Briant S. Jacobs 553
Social Science — Developing Emotional Maturity Blaine M. Porter 559
POETRY
Enfolding Quietude — Frontispiece Rente H. Littlewood 489
Fair Exchange Maude Rubin 511
Beginning Gwen Marler Ba.ney 515
Delayed Homecoming Alice R. Rich 515
Jimmy Meets His New Sister Elsie McKinnon Strachan 520
Kitchen Glamour Camille C. Nuffer 521
Some Strange Reward Ida Elaine James 53S
Challenge Vesta N. Lukei 542
Staff for the Aged ....Mabel Law Atkinson 550
Builders Delia Adams Leitner 566
Jarring Note Ethel Jacobson 567
Philharmonic Undertones Lillian E. Miles 567
Seagulls Have Returned Christie Lund Coles 568
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PRESIDENT J. REUBEN CLARK, JR.
President J. Reuben Clark, Jr.,
First Counselor in the
First Presidency
Elder Marion G. Romney
Of the Council of the Tw eh e
FRIDAY, June 13, 1959, Presi-
dent J. Reuben Clark, Jr. was
called by President David O.
McKay to be his first counselor.
The whole Church is pleased with
this well'deser\'ed honor. The high
office to which he is now called will
not be strange to President Clark.
He has already ser\ed as first coun-
selor to two former Presidents of
the Church — President Grant
from April 6, 1933 until his death in
1945, and President George Albert
Smith from May 21, 1945 to April
Since April 6, 1933, he has served
continuouslv as a counselor in the
First Presidency of the Church —
a longer period of service in this
capacity than that rendered by any
other man in this dispensation. Dur-
ing these \ears of de\oted service,
he has become well known and
greatly loved by the entire member-
ship of the Church.
Because President Clark's bril-
liant record of able ser\ice in both
the Government of the United
States and the Church is so well
known, I shall not attempt to
review it here. I do desire, how-
ever, to point out some of the gifts
and virtues possessed by President
Clark which have made this service
possible and contributed to making
him the great prophet-statesman
that he is.
Mormon, explaining how the sons
of Mosiah '1iad waxed strong in the
knowledge of the truth," says that
''they were men of a sound under-
standing and they had searched the
scriptures diligently, that they might
know the word of God.
''But this is not all"; he continues,
"they had given themsehes to much
praver, and fasting; therefore they
had the spirit of prophecy, and the
spirit of revelation, and when they
taught, they taught with power and
authority of God" (Alma 17:2-3).
I ha\'e always thought that one
of President Clark's greatest gifts
was a sound understanding — the
product of a superior mind, an
abundance of common sense, and a
prodigious capacity for and will to
work. One must associate with him
to appreciate the power of his in-
tellect and the soundness of his
judgment. With incisive penetra-
tion his mind quickly cuts through
the irrelevant and superficial and
goes at once to the heart of the
matter at hand.
T ONG before he became a mem-
ber of the First Presidency,
these gifts were discovered and
appreciated by his associates in the
world of affairs. While he was yet
in school, his work on the CoJumhia.
Law Review was "... characterized
by a keeness of analysis and a vigor
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494
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of treatment coupled with a rigid
adherence to the rule of discussing
the single point for which a case is
treated. . . ."
Referring to President Clark's
work under him in the Department
of State, Secretary Philander Chase
Knox said, '1 am doing him but
justice in saying that for natural
ability, integrity, loyalty and indus-
try I have not in a long professional
and public experience met his su-
perior and rarely his equal. ... It
would be difficult to secure the
combination of sound judgment
(and) natural aptitude" he ''pos-
sesses." . . . *'In my judgment" he
"is perhaps the soundest internation-
al lawyer in this country." . . . ''Were
I President," he said, "I would make
(him) Chief Justice of the United
States Supreme Court," adding
"that no one could haye gone there
better equipped at the start." In
saying this "he did not exclude
Marshall."
During his presidential campaign,
Governor Landon said that, if elect-
ed, he would make President Clark
Secretary of State.
Such men as Presidents Coolidge
and Hoover of the United States,
Calles and Ortis Rubio of Mexico,
Secretary of War Newton D. Baker,
Attorney General T. W. Gregory,
Judge Advocate General E. H.
Crowder, Secretaries of State
Charles Evans Hughes, Henry L.
Stimson, Cordell Hull, Ambassador
Dwight W. Morrow, and countless
other prominent men ha\'e recog-
nized, and made public record of
their high appraisal of President
Clark's "sound understanding."
The eminent jurist and authority
on international law, John Bassett
Moore, wrote Ambassador Morrow,
"Clark is an able man. He works
hard, thinks straight, and has the
capacity of getting at the bottom of
things. He is one of the few men
to whom, after listening to their
statement of a case, I feel justified
in giving an opinion without read-
ing all the documents myself." On
another occasion Mr. Moore, as he
went over the files in the Depart-
ment of State said, "I was amazed
at the amount of creative work he
has done."
Mr. Morrow himself said that
"next to Mr. Moore" he considered
President Clark the most eminent
authority on international law in the
United States.
PRESIDENT Grant recognized
his abilities when he first called
him into full-time Church service.
President McKay at the time wrote
President Clark, "with your host of
other friends we are proud of the
excellent service you have rendered
our government, not only as Ambas-
sador to Mexico, but prior to that
appointment when you served the
United States in various capacities
in Washington. Yours is a record
of great achievement."
Dr. James E. Talmage in Tho.
Relief Society Magazine for May
1933, page 260, said, "A mighty man
has taken his place among the lead-
ers of this people. . . .
"Brother Clark has been and is a
profound student of both the his-
tory and doctrines of the Church
and he is justly recognized as one
of our able theologians. Among his
distinguishing characteristics are an
unusual capacity and an indomitable
desire for work. . . ."
In President Clark's more than
twenty-fi\e years of service in the
PRESIDENT J. REUBEN CLARK, JR.
495
First Presidency, he has devoted his
great powers unstintingly to the
building of "the kingdom." It is
amazing how much he has ac-
comphshed. At a time in hfe when
many men are in semi or total re-
tirement, he has consistently spent
a full working day in the office —
always carrying his full share of the
load. In addition, through indus-
trious research and painstaking
studv, mostly during the late hours
of the night, he has made a rich
contribution to the literature of the
Church. Tlie manner in \^■hich he
has done this calls to mind Long-
fellow's lines:
The heights by great men reached and
kept
\\^ere not attained by sudden flight,
But they, while their companions slept,
^^^ere toiling up^^■ard in the night.
AMONG his literary contribu-
tions are:
( 1 ) Wist Ye Not That I Must Be
About My Father's Business.^ Of
this work William J. Graham, Vice-
President of the Equitable Life
Assurance Society, wrote:
Since dictating this have had the profit-
able pleasure of reading your Aolume and
I found it so engrossing I nexer laid it
down. It is an engaging tale to me, high-
ly informative on the Passover about which
I craved information and uplifting through-
out as you are brought to see the whole
scene thru the eyes of the Holv Family.
Let me congratulate you on this readable
contribution to Christian literature.
(2) To Them oi the Last Wagon,
about which many of us feel as did
Sister Priscilla Evans when she sent
President Clark this message:
Alone at the farm during the closing
session of the recent Conference, I listened
to the addresses by radio. Aware that you
would be one of the speakers, I had note-
book and pencil before me, to take ver-
batim, as I have often done before, your
words of wise counsel, of warnings, of
exhortation, of testimony. But at the
close of your talk, book and pencil lay
untouched — no record was' there. But
within my heart and mind was recorded,
for as long as memory lasts, your soul-
stirring, imaginative tribute to all the un-
mentioned and unnoticed followers of the
"brethren wav out in front." As I lis-
tened, tears came unbidden, for you seemed
to be speaking for me, and I am sure this
is true of hundreds who listened.
(3) On the Way to Immortality
and Eternal Life. Arnold Cromp-
ton said of this book in The Chiist-
ian Register, April 1950:
Speaking simply and persuasively, he
shows himself to be an astute scholar of
Mormonism as \vell as careful thinker.
. . . singularly free of carping and bigoted
criticism. . . . The book is worthy of
careful study by Unitarians, because it
reveals the personality and the faith of
one of the outstanding religious leaders
in America today. It is an excellent in-
troduction to the contemporarv position
of one of the most influential religions
in the American scene.
Of the series of radio addresses
included in this book. President
Stephen L Richards, then Chairman
of the Church Radio, Publicity and
Mission Literature Committee said:
It was one of the most outstanding
presentations the Committee has ever spon-
sored and it brought, we believe, the
largest number of responses from the listen-
ing public we have received, at least in
recent times.
(4) Our Lord oi the Gospels, of
which Walter Mathesius, former
manager of Columbia Steel Mills,
and his wife, wrote President Clark:
Humbly we admit that to grasp the full
importance of your text may be a rather
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difficult task for our lay-minds. Yet even
a preliminan^ scanning re\eals the magni-
tude of vour labor of love and holds out
the promise of a clearer understanding for
the life of Jesus Christ, compared to \\hat
we ha\e had through unguided reading
of the New Testament.
(5) Why the King James Ver-
sion.^ This is an able, vahant, and
seholarly defense of the divinity of
the Lord Jesus Christ, his gospel,
and the re\ealcd scriptures as con-
tained in the Bible. It is a work of
great significance in combating the
faith destroying activities of the
"higher critics."
^^"lArORK is to be re-enthroned as
the ruling principle of the
lives of our Church membership,"
said the First Presidency in announc-
ing the purpose of the Welfare Pro-
gram. It would be difficult to
identifv one who, in his life, more
perfectlv exemplifies this redeeming
principle of work than does Presi-
dent Clark.
In addition to his ''sound under-
standing" — the product of an in-
herited superior mind, an abun-
dance of common sense and a pro-
digious capacitv for and will to work,
there are other virtues \^^hich have
contributed to the effectiveness of
President Clark's great service. One
of these is loyalty.
President Clark has an intense
love and lovaltv for his country.
For meritorious and outstanding
service during World War I, he w'as
awarded the Distinguished Service
Medal in 1922. His defense, ad-
vocacv, and reverence for the Con-
stitution are part and parcel of his
religion. He accepts as fact the
statement of the Lord that
... I established the Constitution of
this land, by the hands of wise men whom
I raised up unto this very purpose, and
redeemed the land by the shedding of
blood (D&C 101:80).
His strong loyalty and love flow
from him to his friends. Scores of
them have been cheered and com-
forted in times of sickness and dis-
tress by his daily solicitation for
their welfare.
Great is his lovalty to the Presi-
dents of the Church with whom he
has served. Their interests, desires,
and feelings are always his first con-
cern. Time and time again when
in their absence matters of im-
portance have been submitted for
decisions, he has said in effect, ''the
proposed solution seems all right,
but before taking action we must
find out how^ the President feels
about it."
Another mighty fortress in the
character of President Clark is his
abiding testimony, his fixed and
certain faith. The power and fre-
quency with which he bears witness
to the truth of the gospel and all it
entails is reminiscent of Peter's
statement to the saints in his day,
as recorded in the first chapter of
his second epistle.
Wherefore I wiW not be negligent to put
vou always in remembrance of these things,
though ye know them, and be established
in the present truth.
Yea, I think it meet, as long as I am in
this tabernacle, to stir you up by putting
you in remembrance , . .
Morco^•er I will endea\'Our that ye may
be able after m\- decease to have these
things always in remembrance (II Peter
1:12, 13, 15).
PRESIDENT J. REUBEN CLARK, JR.
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As an example of President
Clark's witness, I quote the follow-
ing from his October 1956 confer-
ence address.
My whole soul rebels against this emas-
culation of Christianity. Jesus did live.
First, there was the great plan in heaven;
that did actually occur. All that we know
about it took place there. There was the
plan; the earth was formed; Adam came;
the human family followed. We came
here to pro\'e ourselves. Finally, Christ
was born in the Meridian of Time. He
li\ed. He taught. He gave instructions.
He was crucified. Then on the morning
of the third day, he was resurrected, thus
bringing to each and every of us the
blessings of the resurrection. We all shall
be resurrected. . . .
I bear my testimonv as I have already
indicated to the truthfulness of the gospel,
to the restoration of its great principles,
to the restoration of the priesthood, to
the conferring of all of these things upon
the Prophet Joseph, to the passing down
from the Prophet Joseph through the
Presidents of the Church until the pres-
ent, that our President of the Church,
President David O. McKay, has all of
the rights and the prerogatives and the
powers and authorities that were conferred
upon the Prophet Joseph.
I bear vou this testimony in soberness
... in the name of Jesus. Amen ( Semi-
Ann uai Conference Report, October 5, 6
and 7, 1956, pp. 95-96).
In conclusion, I repeat that Presi-
dent Clark, like the sons of Mosiah
of old, is endowed with a sound
understanding and like them he
has searched the scriptures diligent-
ly, that he might know the word
of God. But this is not all; he has
given himself to much prayer, and
fasting; therefore he has the spirit
of prophecy, and the spirit of reve-
lation, and when he teaches, he
teaches with power and authority
of God. (See Alma 17:2-3.)
Such are some of the gifts and
virtues of J. Reuben Clark, Jr., First
Counselor in the Presidency of the
Church — a man of true nobility.
". . . he [Jesus] went down . . . and came to Nazareth.". . . So to
Nazareth where the grain fields were now yellowed with ripened crops,
the hills and valleys still covered with wild flowers; to Nazareth among the
white rocks and cliffs splotched with green, with goats and sheep lazily
grazing on the warm hillsides; to Nazareth with the houses climbing row
on row up and out from the little valley floor, to the brink of the cliff
from which His neighbors would one day seek to cast Him down; to
Nazareth, quiet, unperturbed, with its slender cypresses and fig trees, and
the evenness, frugality, and wholesomeness of a village life dominated by
the presence of divinity — to this Nazareth came Joseph and Mary and
Jesus who ''increased in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and
man" against the day and hour of His destiny (President J. Reuben Clark,
Jr., "Wist Ye Not That I Must Be About My Father's Businessr pp.82-83) .
PRESIDENT HENRY D. MOYLE
President Henry Dinwoodey Moyle,
Second Counselor in the
First Presidency
Elder Harold B. Lee
Of the Council of the Twehe
WHEN a vacancy occurs in
one of the presiding coun-
cils of the Church, it
undoubtedly becomes a concern of
the Head of the Church, even the
Lord, to inspire the President of his
Church to choose the man most
nearly qualified to perform the serv-
ice and to fill the need of the
Church at that particular time. ''No
man taketh this honour unto him-
self, but he that is called of God
as was Aaron," by prophecy and by
the laying on of hands by the Presi-
dent of the Church who holds the
keys of that authoritv.
With the passing of our beloved
friend, and leader. President Stephen
L Richards, there was an immediate
realization of the \oid which his
death had caused and of the diffi-
culty involved in finding a man
qualified to fill the \acancy in the
Presidency of the Church. It was
to this sacred duty that the Presi-
dent of the Church devoted himself.
When to the special conference of
youth leaders assembled in the Tab-
ernacle on Temple Square on June
14, 1959, President David O.
McKay announced his new second
counselor, Henry D. Movie — which
appointment, as the President ex-
plained, was inspired "from the
proper source'' — the Church real-
ized that, literally, the Lord had
put his hand upon the man needed
for the work to be done by the hand
of his servant. President David O.
McKay, and Henry D. Moyle was
that man.
The call of President Moyle to
this high service came as it had
come to another man in ancient
times through a prophet of another
day to whom the Lord had said,
''Look not on his countenance, or
on the height of his stature . . .
for the Lord seeth not as man
seeth; for man looketh on the out-
ward appearance, but the Lord look-
eth on the heart." The Lord knew
the heart of this man, also, because
he had been proved and tested and
had not been found wanting. Pie
was indeed the man of the hour!
Now, as never before, we are
being brought to realize that the
Church and kingdom of God is a
universal, world-wade organization
with new stakes, new temples, and
expanding missionary work, seeking
new frontiers in distant lands. Our
new counselor brings vision and ex-
perience gained from extensive
world travels and from dealing with
varied problems of Church and bus-
iness at home and abroad. Perhaps
no service is dearer to his heart than
missionary work, as witnessed by the
fact that he, himself, has served as
a missionary in Germany in his
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youth and has a daughter and two
sons who have served as mission-
aries (one presently serving in a
South American Mission). These
experiences, besides extensive tours
of missions in the United States and
foreign countries, have given him a
broad understanding of the prob-
lems of the missionary work to
which he has now been assigned in
the Presidency. Perhaps onlv the
Lord knows how many missionaries
he, himself, has assisted, financially,
from his own personal funds as he
has tra\'cled throughout the Church.
The great Welfare program of the
Church has come to its present de-
velopment under the able chair-
manship of President Movie w^ho
has been a courageous and forthright
champion of this movement de-
signed bv the Lord to bring bread
to the needy and succor to the un-
fortunate. It would not be an over-
statement to sav that this man
whom God delights to honor, has
practiced far beyond most men in
giving and sharing that with which
the Lord has blessed him that his
brethren and sisters might be one
with him in the kingdom of God.
To pay tribute to our new leader,
without including his lovelv, gra-
cious wiit and companion, Alberta
Wright Movie, would not be a com-
plete nor adequate appraisal of his
strength. She, who has been the
inspiration of his life and has given
him four lovely daughters and three
sons (one having died in infancy),
was given to know years before that
he would be called as an apostle of
the Lord and of the preparation that
she, herself, must make to be read-
ied to stand bv his side when that
time should come. Only a kind
Providence and those who intimate-
Iv know her realize how well she
has humbly accepted the high
Church responsibilities of her com-
panion as her mission also.
As this man of God now becomes
better known to the Church as one
of the three presiding High Priests
forming the quorum of the First
Presidency, the membership of the
Church will come to feel the great
driving power of his soul, which
was put in his own words on one
occasion as he once said of himself,
as he stood on a half-finished project
he was promoting amidst great diffi-
culties, ''Well, at least they can
never say of Henry Moyle that he
never tried." That statement could
well be the epitaph of his life.
With faith and vision and the cour-
age of his convictions, he counts
''All that is not infinite, too small;
and all that is not eternal, too
short.''
May the membership of the
Church now uphold with their faith
and prayers the newly organized
First Presidency which now includes
Henry D. Moyle, and be willing to
follow their counsel in righteous-
ness!
We may sometimes find satisfaction in sharing our material wealth with others.
But far greater satisfaction comes from sharing ourselves, our itme, our energy, our
affection, and particularly in imparting to others our testimony of God, the power of
God unto salvation, the kno\\ledge we possess of God and his purposes. When we
are truly con\erted, we realize that "... this is life eternal, that they might know thee
the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent" (John 17:3).
— Elder Henry D. Moyle, Annual Conference Report, April 1957, page 32.
How Can We Effectively Delegate
Responsibility?
Bdle S. SpaEoid
General President of Relief Society
(Address Delivered at the National Association for Practical Nurse Education,
April 29, 1959)
IN extending the invitation of the
program committee to speak to
you on the subject ''How Can
We Effectively Delegate Responsi-
bihty?" Miss Hilda Torrup wrote
(and I quote from her letter) :
These people carry a heavy responsibility
since many of them are officers of an
association numbering from one thousand
to five thousand members. They are
burdened with such responsibihties as
loyalty, unity, the responsibility of pro-
gramming for many divisions within a
state, the problems of getting and holding
members', in fact, all of the things that
make an organization go.
With this statement as my guide,
I shall attempt to bring to you a
few ideas based on my experience
in presiding over an international
woman's organization with a wide
variety of activities, and manned by
volunteer workers, as are your organ-
izations. This latter fact will color
much that I say, since in dealing
with volunteer workers, special prob-
lems are posed. The paid worker
must meet the requirements of his
job or he is discharged. He is pri-
marily controlled in his service by
his employer, who pays his salary.
The volunteer worker gives of his
time and talent purely for the satis-
factions accruing therefrom, and is
primarily controlled in his service
by his own will to serve.
Every organization exists for spe-
cific purposes. You are more fa-
miliar than am I with the purposes
of your state practical nursing
organizations, ancl their respective
subdivisions. It would seem to me,
however, that they must exist to
promote practical nursing as a pro-
fession; to promote the interests and
well-being of the licensed practical
nurse as an individual and collective-
ly, within the respective communi-
ties; to interpret to the community
the place and importance of the
licensed practical nurse in caring for
the sick. They should expand the
horizon of the nurse and increase
her usefulness. They should serve
as her servant and speak for her on
matters related to practical nursing.
If such values accrue to the
nurse and her profession from
the organization, one would think
there would be no nurse within
the community who would not
wish to identify herself with the
organization as a member. The
problem lies in the fact, I belie\'e,
that some nurses do not recognize
and appreciate the values to be
found within the organization. Of
course, there are always a few per-
sons who are content to be consum-
ers and not producers, who are
ready to benefit from the work of
the organization without making
any contribution to it. There will
always be a few such persons, but
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we must take satisfaction in the fact
that thev are greath' in the minority.
In building membership the
task becomes largely one of helping
the indi\'iclual nurse to see the func-
tions of the organization, the values
to be found within it for her as an
individual, and as a member of a
professional group, as well as to see
her indi\idual responsibility toward
the organization. This is a job of
interpretation. Interpretation is
most effectively accomplished
through personal contact among
the knowledgeable person, the en-
thusiastic converted person, and the
person \^hose membership enlist-
ment is sought. It is also accom-
plished through publicity, news-
paDcr articles, circular letters, the
distribution of organization litera-
ture. It may be done through open
sessions of conferences and conven-
tions. It mav be greatly helped
through the support of training
schools and hospitals. I commend
to those of you who would build
membership, the appointment of an
enthusiastic, persuasive membership
committee.
A LSO, I remind you it is human
nature to want to be identified
with a li\e organization, a going con-
cern, one that holds attention, con-
fidence, and respect within the com-
munity. No one wants to belong
to a struggling, weak, ineffective,
half-dead organization. The quality
of the organization, the manner in
which it is functioning, have tre-
mendous bearing on membership.
It has been said often that an
organization is no stronger than its
leadership. Therefore, it is of first
importance that an able adminis-
trator be chosen to head the
organization, one on whom the
membership can rely to conduct
affairs so that the organization will
accomplish the purposes set for it.
A recognition on the part of the
administrator of her trusteeship, her
moral responsibility to manage the
business of the organization prop-
erly, is fundamental to good leader-
ship. The leader is given certain
authority. The acceptance of
authority involves its concomitant
responsibility, and, it follows, that
administrative activity also includes
accountability, or the necessity of
being ready to answer for entrusted
powers.
A person who does not recognize
these things and wdio is not willing
to conform to them should never
accept administrative office.
Administrative proficiency has its
roots in the personal qualifications
of the administrator. The able
leader is one who attracts and holds
attention, and has the capacity to
win others to the cause in which
she believes and for which she is
working. She has clearness of vis-
ion and vigor of action. She ap-
proaches her job with confidence
(a modest confidence, to be sure,
but confidence nonetheless), and
with a determination to succeed.
Pity the organization whose newly
elected head approaches her job
with the attitude, "Well, I don't
expect to do anything very outstand-
ing. This organization has always
been weak, and I don't know that
anything much can be done to im-
prove it," or w^ho depreciates her-
self, thinking failure, talking failure,
always holding before herself and
others her shortcomings and inabili-
ties. Doubt in the ability of an
organization to succeed, or in one-
HOW CAN WE EFFECTIVELY DELEGATE RESPONSIBILITY?
503
self as a leader, spreads like a con-
tagion, and is damning, both to the
organization and the administrator
herself.
A\7HEN I was a little girl, we used
to sing a song in Sunday
School which said: ''If we fail, we
fail in glory/' How I loved that
song, and how I sang out those
words. It seemed so noble to fail
in glory. Recently, however, I read
a comment about this song by one
of the elders of the Church, Mr.
Sterling Sill, in his book on Leader-
ship. ''Ridiculous," he said. "No
failure is glorious. . . . The one busi-
ness of life is to succeed. We are
not placed here to waste our lives
in failure" (page 21 ).
Sir Winston Churchill has fur-
nished the world with perhaps one
of its most graphic examples of a
leader who would entertain no
thought of failure, even in the face
of what appeared to be almost in-
surmountable difficulties. England,
unready for war, was faced with pos-
sible annihilation as a nation by a
strong, ruthless enemy. Sir Winston
Churchill was named Prime Min-
ister. When he met the House of
Commons for the first time, he said:
''You ask, what is our policy? I will
say: to wage war by sea, land, and
air, with all our might and with all
the strength God has given us; to
wage war against a monstrous tyran-
ny. . . . That is our policy. You
ask, what is our aim? I can answer
in one word: victory . . . victory,
however long and hard the road may
be" (A Short History of Enghnd,
Edward P. Cheyney, pp. 841-842).
In approaching any job, the lead-
er must think in terms of success.
The administrator's work consists of
organizing, directing, controlling,
and supervising the operations of
the organization. It behooves her,
then, to acquire considerable knowl-
edge and understanding of the work
for which she is responsible.
Through study, conversation, obser-
vation, attendance at meetings such
as this, she gathers to herself many
types of knowledge. She draws upon
this knowledge as needed, recogniz-
ing always that administrative skill
calls for the application of sound
principles and procedures.
She makes sure that the organiza-
tion is fully officered; that meet-
ings are held regularly and as sched-
uled; that meetings are characterized
by businesslike procedures, yet that
they are maintained in a spirit of
warm friendliness. She recognizes
that programs are the media where-
by the purposes of the organization
are achieved. She makes sure, there-
fore, that programs are planned
which meet the interests, desires,
and needs of the members, and are
in harmony with organization goals.
She is aware of differences within
the respective divisions of the area
over which she presides. There-
fore, while holding to general poli-
cies, procedures, and aims, she
allows a reasonable degree of flexi-
bility in carrying out programs. She
wisely directs the financing of the
organization and gives careful atten-
tion to the proper recording of ac-
tivities and to financial accounting.
TT goes without saying, she cannot
do all this single-handed and
alone. She must call upon others
to help. In other words, she dele-
gates responsibility. No leadership
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is good that attempts to do the en-
tire job alone, nor, is it of highest
quahty when it gives the wilhng
worker three or four jobs and leaves
the others sitting on the sidelines in
idleness. Overloading some, be-
cause the abilities of others have not
been uncovered, is injurious to those
on both sides of the activity.
I have recently returned from
England, where I learned the story
of Samson:
Samson was a beautiful dapple-gray
horse with a splendid physique and such
height that he seemed to tower above all
the other horses. But, though large, he
was gentle and friendly and everyone was
attracted to him.
Samson was a chain horse and stood
daily at the foot of a steep hill waiting
for the heavy loads that had to be pulled.
Samson always' pulled in front of the
other horses. When the lorry with the
load would come, he would prick up his
ears and stamp his feet eagerly — it meant
an opportunity to show his strength.
Samson was an exhibitionist. When
his keeper led him to the load and
attached his chains to the shaft, he did
not wait for the other horses' — he was a
Samson. Head down, knees almost touch-
ing the ground, sparks flying from his
hooves, he practically pulled the whole
weight by himself. He would not allow
the other horses to pull their share.
Samson's keeper was asked why Samson
was not given a rest from his chain horse
position, and put into the shafts like the
other horses. He replied that Samson
wouldn't pull when back with the others;
he couldn't show off there. He didn't
seem to be able to co-operate, he had to
be out in front doing everything by him-
self.
One day Samson wasn't standing at the
bottom of the hill, but another horse was
in his place. Samson was' dead. He had
died of overwork. He had pulled too
hard alone.
Many leaders are like Samson, wanting
all the work and glory for themselves and
refusing to co-operate with others. The
power of any good organization is a com-
bined power, and it is wasted by those
who try to pull the whole load alone.
There is no place for Samsons in any
organization. Wise leaders share respon-
sibility {MiUenid Star, March 1959,
adapted with permission).
During my visit to England I at-
tended a training meeting for local
officers of a woman's volunteer wel-
fare organization. The group was
discussing the delegation of respon-
sibility. The instructor asked the
question: ''What do we mean by
delegating work?" Promptly a hand
went up and the woman, upon
being acknowledged, replied: ''Get-
ting someone else to do the work
for you." "Oh, no," wisely respond-
ed the instructor, "that is shelving
your work. Delegating is sharing,
not unloading. It is sharing knowl-
edge, understanding, ideals, aims,
loyalty, work, satisfaction, and the
glories of achievement."
Delegating responsibility has been
called "co-ordinated decentraliza-
tion" and must take place if any big
job is to be done. The wise ad-
ministrator shares his work with
enough persons to get the job done
right and on time without over-
burdening anyone.
TN delegating responsibility, it is of
first importance to pick the right
person for the job. Success is more
adequately served if persons are
selected whose qualifications fit the
desired accomplishments. The ad-
ministrator should know the indi-
vidual to whom she is giving
responsibility, and should be reason-
ably sure that the assignment comes
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505
within the individuaFs capacity, and
that he can and will devote the time
and energy necessary to carrying
out the assignment properly. The
importance of his full acceptance of
the assigned responsibility is a factor
in his success in fulfilling it.
Second, the way in which a re-
sponsibility is delegated is extremely
important to its successful fulfill-
ment. The process of giving an
assignment can be made a thrilling
experience. The job and its require-
ments are transferred, so are
enthusiasm for the job, conviction
of its importance, recognition of its
relationship to the bigger job. The
assignor can stimulate the mind and
the feelings of the assignee and so
direct them as to lead toward ac-
complishment.
Third, the person delegating a
responsibility must guide, direct,
and keep himself informed on pro-
gress, and adequately supervise, but,
at no time, should he take over the
job. Theodore Roosevelt is credit-
ed with saying that ''. . . the best
executive is the one who has sense
enough to pick good men . . . and
self-restraint enough to keep from
meddling with them while they do
it" (Leadership, page 213). While
the good administrator does not
meddle, he is always on hand as a
resource person, a consultant -— the
person who has a knowledge of the
job and how it can be done and a
willingness to share that knowledge.
He is the lifeline, so to speak. A
good administrator never slights or
ignores a person who is sharing his
responsibilities, nor does he take
credit unto himself which belongs
to his associate.
As people see that they have a
place in an enterprise, as they find
their contribution is valued, small
though it may be, as they see they
are fairly treated and justly dealt
with, as they see the organization
with which they have affiliated
functioning with integrity, there
develops within them a love for the
organization and a sense of loyalty
to it, as well as to those who pre-
side over it. Loyalty merely means
faithful allegiance. It is not hard
for people to give faithful allegiance
to that which they love and respect,
and from which they are benefiting.
As pride in the organization and
confidence in the leaders grow, as
loyalties become firm and true, the
members usually become a united
body, willing to harmonize minds
and efforts for the good of the
whole. With this unity comes es-
sential organization strength.
The building of an organization
to a position of strength is a chal-
lenge with many factors involved.
Success cannot be attained through
the efforts of any one individual.
Only through the combined efforts
of the many, wisely and well direct-
ed, is success attainable.
May I close by repeating a few
unsigned lines which I read in a
little leaflet I picked up on a com-
muter train rccenlty. They seemed
to me to summarize all that I have
tried to say:
With vision clear, ambition high —
With firm resoKe, and skill to lead —
With work that's shared, and loyalties
won —
An empire ma}' be built.
cJhe /lew ibngland /liission
Pieston R. Nib Jey
Assistant Church Historian
TTHE First Presidency announced, in May 1937, that a new mission would
be formed in the eastern part of the United States and Canada, to be
known as the New England Mission. It was to comprise the states of
Massachusetts, Connecticut, and Rhode Island, to be taken from the East-
ern States Mission, and Maine, Vermont, and New Hampshire, with the
provinces of Nova Scotia and New Brunswick, from the Canadian Mission.
On August 2, 1937, Dr. Carl F. Eyring of Provo, Utah, was appointed
president of the new mission.
In September 1937, President Eyring, accompanied by Elder John A.
Widtsoe of the Council of the Twelve, made a tour of the New England
Mission. The headquarters was established in Cambridge, Massachusetts,
and a commodious mission home was purchased. Twenty-two mission-
aries were transferred from the Eastern States Mission to the new mission,
and four from the Canadian Mission. The work of proselyting was thus
continued with vigor, in a section of country in which Latter-day Saint
missionaries had labored for over one hundred years.
President Carl F. Eyring served with success as mission president
until July 1939, when he was succeeded by Elder Levi Edgar Young, of
the First Council of Seventy, one of the General Authorities of the Church.
Courtesy, Massachusetts Department of Commerce
UNITED STATES FRIGATE "CONSTITUTION" (OLD IRONSIDES)
in Boston Na\\- Yard, Bunker Hill Monument in Background
Page 506
THE NEW ENGLAND MISSION
507
Courtesy, Vermont Development Commission
MAPLE ''SUGARING OFF" SEASON IN VERMONT
A curious springtime sight in New England is the gathering of the sap from the
sugar maples, v\hich cover the rolling hillsides. Thirty-fi\e to forty gallons of sap are
required to make one gallon of maple syrup. The sap is collected in large tanks and
drawn by sled over the snow.
President Young presided until January 1942, when he was succeeded by
Elder William H. Reeder of Ogden. During his last month in the mis-
sion, President Young purchased part of the Henrv W. Longfellow estate,
and the old Longfellow home on Brattle Street, to be used as a residence
for the mission president. President Reeder served as mission president
until May 1947, when he was succeeded by Elder S. Dilworth Young, of
the First Council of Sexentv, one of the General Authorities of the Church.
President Young served until March 1951, when he was succeeded by
Elder J. Howard Maughan of Logan. President Maughan served until
July 1955, when he was succeeded by Elder Junius M. Jackson of Salt
Lake City. President Jackson served until June 1959^ when he was suc-
ceeded by Dr. Edgar B. Brossard who presides at the present time.
On March 31, 1959, there were 5,899 members of the Church in the
New England Mission, located in thirty-eight branches.
Forty-eight Relief Society organizations, with 878 members, were
reported in December 1958. Margaret R. Jackson formerly was president
of the New England Mission Relief Society. The new president is Laura
P. Brossard.
Note: The cover for this* Magazine is a color view of the Minuteman Statue at
Concord, Massachusetts. See also "Recipes From the New England, ^^ission/' by
Margaret R. Jackson, page 518.
"A" Is for Apron
Part I
Ilene H. Kingsbury
Hey, old woman, with the long white
Apron!
What are }'Oii holding in it, your hands
all bundled up inside?
Why do you walk along the shade of the
poplars and pick your way so stoutly?
Hey, what are you thinking oi at all?
NUDGED from a memory, and
rudely, to say the least, this
aged woman, Clarissa by
name, slackened her pace, squared
her shoulders, and, for an instant,
felt the tug of a remembered burden
in her apron.
And she thought . . . how cold
are your shoulders when it is twenty
degrees below zero! How stiff are
your knees with frozen fixity as you
bend to push a cart! How numb
is your thinking as the chill from the
great river makes you and it solidify,
if you stand still a minute! And that
Mississippi did stop moving last
night. It became a bridge of ice.
Not just to hold a man and his dog,
but to support a man's wagon and
his oxen. It held itself in check
around a half -circle of bend, its flow-
ing and rushing, its ceaseless toil to
the sea halted in the deadly grip of
winter.
Yesterday, the first Wednesday in
February 1846, was the coldest
Clarissa could remember, and today,
the prairie held its own for frigid
bleakness. Mostly because they
were not on the move, was it arctic.
The camp was nine miles out
from their city called ''Beautiful"
by those who loved her. Quite
formally on the frontier maps, it
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was printed Nauvoo. They named
this spot a camp, not a settlement,
expecting to go on as soon as their
homeless, exiled band could be
organized to head West. In that
direction they would push to other
successive noonings, washdays, and
seed plantings for the late starters.
There would be the tender laying
away in the earth of those who no
longer walked beside them. There
would be repair stations and the one
night's lodge resembling an outpost
of civilization — next morning only
camp ashes to show the short tarry-
ing there.
But this camp on Sugar Creek —
sweet of name — bitter of memory!
No habitation had ever graced its
banks, no family had lovingly called
its soil a farmstead. Only Indians
marked its clod as a trail to better
hunting. In midwinter no one
challenged these hapless wanderers
who delayed for a space at this be-
ginning of their many temporary
encampments.
At sixteen Clarissa's was the
strength of two. Her ailing mother
called her to warm and feed the
two little boys in the family. In
her shivering, teeth-chattering con-
dition, every duty tested her
character for endurance and pa-
tience.
Camp one, night one, baby one!
Or may it be said babies nine at
camp one, night one? Of course,
Clarissa's mother hadn't counted on
having the baby so soon. Perhaps
neither had the other eight whose
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journey into the valley of shadow
had been rewarded with the cry of
protest, the quivering fists, and the
nuzzling of recent birth.
Excitement, emergency, concern
for the aged and the toddlers;
physical effort of a day's strain of
fleeing over frozen wastes from
violent danger — all enough to bring
on the effort of childbirth all too
early.
''Well, this is but a sampling of
the season's burden," one old wom-
an said.
Four sticks, head high, stuck in
the frozen mud were stout in hold-
ing aloft a bark roof. Four rugs,
one woven and three braided,
became welcomed walls to hold the
sticks together, and this was their
hut in the wilderness. A trundle
bed, which had been slung under
the wagon, was dragged to this crude
shelter. The rain fell as though
weeping for the courage of a woman
about to greet a new soul into life.
And as it fell, kind sisters held
dishes aloft to catch the dripping
moisture and thus keep dry their
friend in travail.
/^LARISSA would rather have
helped deliver the little one
than quiet the little boys and shield
them from the age-old scene. She
resolved, then, to learn the art of
midwifery. It would not be so hard,
she thought, with arms as strong as
hers, and heart as willing!
When her mother's hour was
spent, when the first cry of another
son was cast on the prairie wind,
when the loving sisters had hastened
to their own needy families, then
came Clarissa's turn to prove her
worth! From the oak chest in the
wagon she unfolded a paisley shawl
and wrapped it around her baby
brother. She hugged him to her,
and thought to keep him warm in
her arms. And shivering, and trem-
bling, and fearing she couldn't quite
measure up, she co\'ered her mother
with another quilt and huddled at
the bedside for the rest of the night.
A small stepstool had been left by
someone as an aid to keep her off
the ground, and there she sat wait-
ing for morning, the baby in her
arms.
Her mother slept, clothed in
exhaustion. The two little boys,
oblivious to the world and winter,
were curled up in a padded corner
of the wagon.
Be it cold enough — say at twenty
below, and pain has no meaning!
And where does an apron come
into this Sugar Creek story, this
saga of one of nine on the frost-
bitten prairie? But first we must
consider the winter scene minutely.
They came to tarry for a month,
or, should we sav, thev came to
suffer? Underfoot, with fluctuations
of temperature, their paths from
one campfire to another were
sloughs of mud deep to shoe tops;
or ra\'ines of running rain, or rigid
mounds of frozen sod, cold as stone.
The cutting winds and the glacial
air pierced one's bones and never
quite left. For those weeks Clarissa
carried her mother's infant in the
folds of her apron, the corners
tucked into the belt, tighter cinched
to stand the weight.
The little soul cried itself sick its
first day on earth. Clarissa's arms
gave comforting pressure to this new
person. But under the constant
weight, her shoulders sagged. As she
was under the necessity of moving
about to keep warm, and her neck
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gave way after the first dozen hours,
the apron arrangement seemed the
all-around best for both of them.
In no time, of course, kindly sisters
suggested a sling from her shoulders,
as some Indian mothers were ob-
served to use, particularly when
carrying older children. Or, there
was always a squaw's headboard to
be considered. But Clarissa want-
ed this little brother to be around
in front of her where she could see
him at a glance. Her apron became
a hammock which swayed to her
step, only one hand was needed to
steady the little one. The other
hand was left free to tend the fire,
stir the broth, button a coat for the
gro\^'ing boys, or prepare a warm
meal for her mother, still on the
trundle, slow to mend to wanted
strength.
The contented babe, sheltered
from prairie winds by a half turn
of Clarissa's body, thrived, slept, and
quieted to her loving touch.
npHE benediction of each day was
a triumph in endurance. At a
signal, every occupation was sus-
pended, e\ery knee was bent, every
head was bowed in prayer. A voice
from each family circle raised itself
in gratitude for preservation of life
and promise of a brighter day. At
such moments Clarissa smoothed the
the blanket around little William,
as they called him, and cinched her
apron string tighter to keep him
from falling out of his pouch in
front of her.
For a month the routine was
the same, except for the daily addi-
tion of refugees from over the river.
Then, on March first, with snow,
sleet, and rain falling, and tents
folded for another journey, they left
Sugar Creek with the ground swim-
ming with water and deep with
mud. Five hundred wagons some-
how got in motion from a ground
bogged with gravity. Slowly the
great wheels turned, caught the
mud, lifted it a quarter turn,
dropped it in clods to obstruct the
next sodden shoe of a walker. One
knew the wagon moved because the
shadow cast cooled the dav for a
pattern of spokes and oxen and can-
vas top gathered taut against the
storm.
Clarissa \\alked beside her moth-
er's wagon for five miles that first
day, to keep warm by forward mo-
tion. She scraped away the snow
to make a campfire. Alone, she
could not pitch the small army tent
meant for two men, so they slept
in the wagon that night. Huddled
together for mutual warmth, she
heard someone call out the tempera-
ture at midnight of twenty-eight
above zero. Sub-zero weather was
over!
But the lashing winds, the frost-
caked roughness, were not o\er. For
weeks on end, as thev encamped,
broke it up, and pushed on again
for hundreds of miles into the West,
warm spring came on haltingly. And
her apron, her baby brother, to-
gether, were as one with persistent
pushing forward.
She carried him one thousand
miles in her apron! Often, toward
evening, his protesting laments
mingled with the other eight of his
exact age in pulsing rhythm as do
crickets in an otherwise noncom-
mital evening.
In manhood he was tall and
strong and good. Then, often he
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511
rested his hands on her shoulders
in gratitude for protection on the
prairie wastes.
* *
TN her old, old age she habitually
walked with her hands in her
apron, bundled up. Her only yield-
ing to pride was framed under the
enveloping folds — blotched, knot-
ted knuckles, bespeaking endless
labor. But pride actually had little
chance with her. In most cases her
apron covered her charities: salt-
rising bread, a linsey piece, knit
mits, or a small sack of dried plums.
The return home was the only
empty-handed, empty-aproned one
she knew.
And if the distance was four miles
once a day for two months to the
next settlement to nurse a typhoid-
ridden family who had once be-
friended her mother, what cared she
for that ways on the road? Wasn't
she, after all, a veteran of a thou-
sand miles, little brother swinging
in her apron, one third of a conti-
nent slipping away under her feet?
(To be continued)
QJair ibxchange
Maude Kuhin
Grandmother's apron, starched and crisply neat,
Hung full in gingham folds about her waist,
Its strings bow-tied, unwilted by noon's heat
Or oven's blast. Delectable to taste,
Its pockets held hard candy— peppermints.
Or, tasting bitter-sweet, brown hoarhound drops,
Doled out with smiles at our transparent hints.
And slowly savored. . . . When robins tilted tops
Of willow trees, her apron bore white boughs
Of dogwood's petaled lucence; evening's chore
Was cradling downy chicks— or driving cows
Through pasture gates. Then, at a knock-on-door.
She untied checkered strings, composed her face-
Guests saw her snowy apron, edged with lace!
Sixty LJears ^yigo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, August i, and August 15, 1899
"For the Rights of the W^omen of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
A SPIRITUAL AWAKENING: The work is hastening on; the missionaries
abroad in the world are busy sowing good seed wherc\cr opportunities' can be made.
Distributing tracts from house to house is done by both men and women missionaries
also preaching in the public parks and elsewhere in the open air. Young women have
left good homes, and some of them who were receiving liberal salaries for teaching
in schools and academics, to labor in spreading the Gospel in foreign lands, not for
honor, nor for the sake of any remuneration in this world, but they might be in-
strumental in helping on the cause of truth, which will cNcntually redeem mankind from
sin. The \\riter rejoiced while in England in hearing these true and earnest young
women bearing testimony to the knowledge obtained through the Holy Spirit, v^'hich
leads unto all truth. . . .
— Editorial
RAISING MULBERRY TREES: Thinking it might interest you (the editor)
and our beloved president, Zina D. H. Young, to know of our success in planting
mulbcrr}' trees and cuttings this last spring ... I will tell you of our beginning in the
good work. Torrey Relief Society owns a city lot of an acre and a quarter, and they
ha\e planted seventy three -year-old trees . . . and about one thousand yearlings and
cuttings. Caineville Relief Society also owns a lot. . . . They have planted out fifty
thrce-jear-old trees, and four hundred yearlings and cuttings. Giles Relief Society also
owns a lot, not yet fenced. Brother White has planted out on his own premises, one
thousand cuttings and four hundred yearling trees for the Relief Society. . . .
— Jane S. Coleman
W^HEN I HAVE TIME
When I have time, the friend I lo\ e so well
Shall know no more those weary, toiling days,
ril lead her feet in pleasant paths always
And cheer her heart with words of sweetest praise,
When I have time, . . .
— Selected
COSTUMES AT THE INTERNATIONAL CONGRESS OF \\ OMEN: Lon-
don, England. Some of the pretty women present were the Duchess of Sutherland, in
pale blue satin and pearls; Lady Randolph Churchill, in pale pink with some pearl
ornaments in her hair; while Lady Ulrica Duncomb was looking quite lovely in pale
\ellow, with a necklace of pearls and diamonds. Among others there were Lady Aber-
deen, Lady Harcourt and Mrs. Asquith.
—Ex.
RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE IN ST. JOSEPH STAKE, ARIZONA:
Each of the branches was reported as in good working order, and all seemed to have a
desire to assist in the furtherance of the cause. Stake Counselor Adelia Curtis said she
would speak a few minutes to the teachers: '*You sisters who are called to labor in
this capacity- cannot afford to neglect your duty. . . . You must go in humility, with
a prayer in your heart. . . ."
— Sarah Webb, Cor. Sec.
Page 512
Woman's Sphere
Rnmona W. Cannon
pRANCES G. KNIGHT (Mrs.
Wayne Parrish ) , Director of the
United States Passport Office since
1955, ^^^^ made a remarkable record
of efficiency which has resulted in
fast service and a saving of two mil-
lion tax dollars in the last four years,
as well. Miss Knight attributes her
success to the application of a
''common-sense approach that any
intelligent woman uses in running
her home."
T\R JANET COOPER is the first
woman to be elected Mayor of
South Melbourne, Australia, and
the first to be on the municipal
council. She has practiced medicine
for thirty-three years and is presi-
dent of the Women's Club of Pro-
fessions and Trades.
T^ATHARINE ANTHONY in her
new biography of Mercy Otis
Warren, "First Lady of the Revolu-
tion" (Doubleday), traces the re-
markable career of a woman of
Puritan background who grew up
on ''a literary diet" of Dryden, Mil-
ton, Pope, Shakespeare, Moliere,
Homer, and Virgil. She was the
sister of the patriot James Otis and
married the eminent general James
Warren. Her remarkable mind and
fluent literary style were revealed in
numerous dramas, satires, and
poems, as well as an excellent His-
tory oi the American Revolution.
A NNA MOFFO, operatic soprano,
who was born in Philadelphia,
studied in Italy, and has been fea-
tured at the famous La Scala Opera
House, is receiving acclaim in
America. She has made several suc-
cessful appearances with the Chi-
cago Opera Company, and recently
made a recording of the role of
''Madame Butterfly" in Puccini's
opera, which has been rated by
critics as a remarkably outstanding
performance for a young singer,
conveying a strong dramatic image
with great clarity.
yOSHIKO MIBUCHI, Tokyo,
Japan, is a judge in the civil
court. Appointed in 1949, she was
the first woman lawyer to receive a
bench assignment in Japan. Now
she is one of sixteen women serving
in this capacity.
lyrRS. OLIVE ANN BEECH has
recently been appointed by
President Eisenhower as a member
for a two-year term of the Inter-
national Development Advisory
Board, which has the responsibility
of advising and consulting with the
President of the United States, and
such other officials as he may desig-
nate, on the policies and procedures
of the Mutual Securitv Act. Mrs.
Beech is president of the Beech Air-
craft Corporation, Wichita, Kansas.
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EDITORIAL
VOL 46
AUGUST 1959
NO. 8
LKeven
ence
ACCORDING to the Psalmist,
God created man ''a little low-
er than the angels" and
''crowned him with glory and hon-
our." One of the attributes of angels
that man also may possess is rever-
ence. Implanted in each mortal born
into this world is the desire to wor-
ship, and an innate need to express
reverence for Deity. In some persons
the seed so implanted is fostered and
developed, while in others it is sub-
dued and allowed to wither away.
God does not go away from man,
but man may go away from God.
Reverence is defined as profound
respect and esteem felt or manifest-
ed, and as deep or exalted veneration
mingled with love and awe, usually
associated with things of sacred na-
ture. It has two aspects: an inward
emotion, and an outward expression,
and may be said to be a means and
an end. Reverent feelings and ac-
tions may keep one from sinning,
and true reverence is the result of an
effort to keep from displeasing the
Heavenly Father.
Reverence embodies acceptance of
divine guidance, true devotion to
righteousness, an effort to under-
stand the principles of the gospel,
humility, meekness, obedience, and
a desire to ''praise God from whom
all blessings flow." Prayer is the
soul's expression of reverence. True
j.oy and sober reflection, happiness,
and sweet meditation are present in
the emotion of reverence.
It has been said that reverence is
Page 514
the highest of human feelings, and
one of the holiest attributes of the
soul. It is fundamental in religion
and spirituality. "Reverence for God
and sacred things is the chief charac-
teristic of a great soul" (President
David O. McKay, Pathways to Hap-
piness, page 261 ) .
The outward manifestations of
reverence are shown in one's con-
duct, and more particularly, one's
conduct in church. Churches are
dedicated as houses of worship. It
must, therefore, be assumed that
those who go to church do so with
the desire to get closer to the Lord,
to seek spiritual uplift, and to associ-
ate with others of like mind.
Confusion, noise, and talk during
church services are irreverent. Those
who contribute to such disorder de-
prive themselves and others of the
spiritual benefits of church attend-
ance. We associate reverence with
quiet, not the mere absence of noise,
but the quiet and peace that enable
the soul to experience a closeness
with heaven.
Reverence, like many other vir-
tues, is best taught in the home by
precept and example. The reverent
attitude of the mother as she teaches
her babies to pray, and the tender
guidance of the father as he directs
the spiritual activities of his children,
have influence throughout their
lives. Parents may not just assume
that their children wnll know how
to conduct themselves. They must
explain that respect for others and
EDITORIAL
515
reverence for Deity demand thought-
fulness and self-control. Proper par-
ticipation in church includes the ut-
most reverence as the sacrament is
passed. Talking takes place only in
a class as part of the process of
learning gospel principles. The ex-
planation of reverence by precept
is of great importance, but example
is significantlv greater. Many adults
need to be reminded of their duty
to be exemplary.
The sisters of Relief Society
should be the most re\'erent of all
women. Certainly gratitude for the
blessings flowing down, as the
Prophet promised, should be ex-
pressed in reverent actions. Relief
Society meetings should be conduct-
ed and attended in a spirit of rever-
ence. Nothing unseemly in conduct
or dress is representati\'e of the true
spirit of Relief Society.
Latter-day Saints have an obliga-
tion to make their homes and meet-
inghouses spiritual havens. A people
so blessed should manifest love, re-
spect, and veneration in the utmost
reverence to God.
-L. W. M.
®
eginning
Gwen Afarler Barney
Slo^^■ly as dawn fingers the night.
Still as a leaf that turns on the wind,
Stirs the beginning of dream in the heart
Stirs and wakens the curtained mind.
Jjela^ed cKoniecoming
Alice R. Rich
I walked again old paths toda}-, along a country road, narrow
Then through the small town streets;
Tall locust trees held out their shaggy arms
To shade my way.
I stepped across the low footbridge
That spanned the sidewalk stream.
The high \crminion cliffs that framed the eastern plain
Still wrapped their regal shawls of beauty.
Around the quiet town,
Within the \ illage walls, there breathed
A quietude, homespun and warm,
A hospitality, unfeigned and kind.
These findings, like the lure of autumn tints
Of crimson, bronze, and silver green.
Bring back to me a lore, a trcasure-tro\e of memories
To spice the fragrance of mv yesteryears,
To keep immutable mv dreams.
9lvi£A, TO THE FIELD
cJne ^yinnual (general Uxelief Society (conference
npHE Annual General Relief Soeiety Conference will be held Wednesday
and Thursday, October yth and 8th, 1959. The general session will be
held on Wednesday, October 7th, from 2 to 4 p.m. in the Tabernacle. It
is suggested that ward Relief Society presidents ask their bishops to an-
nounce in the wards the general session of the conference to which the
general public is invited. Attendance at the Officers Meeting on Wednes-
day morning October 7th, from 10 to 12 in the Tabernacle, and the de-
partmental meetings to be held Thursday morning and Thursday after-
noon, October 8th, is limited to stake board members and mission officers.
A reception to which stake board members and mission officers are invited
will be held on Wednesday evening, October 7th, from 7 to 10 in The
Relief Society Building.
QJresn Lip vl/itn Sunday
A LL the world needs Sunday, a day for physical, mental, spiritual re-
freshment.
Our Creator set the pattern and gave us this right-to-rest law — the
law of the Sabbath. He w^orked six days, rested the seventh, and, the
Good Book says, "He was refreshed."
Refreshed; relieved from fatigue; restored in strength and spirit. How
we need this blessing in our busy, modern world!
How to keep Sunday? Try this once-a-weck prescription:
Start on Saturday night. Retire early so you will arise, on the Sab-
bath, refreshed. Gi\"e thanks as you awaken that you are alive for another
day of glorious living.
Cleanse your body; dress in your go-to-meeting best; breakfast grate-
fully; and go to church.
\\'hile in church you will learn wisdom and faith with choice friends
and neighbors.
At mealtime add zest to your appetite and nourishment to your soul
by keeping a prayerful heart. On Fast Days, rest your digestion, refresh
your spirit, and give the savings to the needy.
Between meals and meetings, cultivate your mind with good reading
and pleasant visiting at home or with friends.
For good health and stimulating outdoor enjoyment, walk more, ride
less to church if you live nearby.
As a perfect nightcap, add an hour of good fellowship and faith with
a friendly fireside group.
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FRESH UP WITH SUNDAY
517
Time on your hands? No Sunday will be long enough for all the
appropriate and refreshing things you'd like to do.
As you prepare to retire, give thanks again that \ our Father in heaven
gave you this preeious gift — one day in seven — when man can rest and
be refreshed.
Let's keep the Sabbath — let's keep it beeause He gave it to us — and
because we need it!
BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
LKecipes QJroni the I Lew ibngland lliission
Sxihmittcd hy Margaret Komnex Jackson
New England Boiled Dinner
Anna Mae Burton
4 lbs. corned beef
1 small eabbage, quartered
3 carrots, quartered
2 small turnips
6 medium-sized onions
6 small parsnips
6 potatoes
^^^asll the beef in cold water and if very salty, soak in cold water for thirty minutes.
Drain the meat and place it in boiling water and cook from three to four hours or
until it is tender. One and one-half hours before serving, add the cabbage, carrots,
and turnips. One-half hour before serving add the onions, parsnips, and potatoes. Place
attractively on a large platter and serve.
' Blueberry Muffins
Anna Mae Burton
Yi c. sugar
2 '/: c. flour
Vz tsp. salt
3 tsp. baking powder
2 eggs, well beaten
3 tbsp. butter, melted
1 c. milk
blueberries
1 /2 C
Sift flour, sugar, baking powder, and salt together. Mix berries with one-fourth
■ of this mixture. Beat eggs and add melted butter. Add the flour mixture alternately
'with milk. Stir in the blueberries lightly. Bake in well-buttered muffin tins in a hot
loven at 450° for twentv-fi^e minutes.
[ ' ■■• ■ .
! Vermont Scripture Cake
Olga W
JA — 1 c. Judg'es". 5:2*5' (last clause)
IB — 2 c. Jeremiah 6:20
;C — 3 '/^ C; I Kings 4: 2 2 (first part)
(D — 3 tsp. Amos 4:5
'E — 2 e. I Samuel 30:12 (first claus,e)
.F — 2 c. I Samuel 30:12 (second clause'
SneJ]
G — 1 c. Genesis 45:11 (last'word)
H — 1 c. Judges 4:19 (last clause)
I — 6 Isaiah lO: 14
J — Yi tsp. L(!^iticus 2:13
K — 1 tbsp. Exodus 16:31 (last word)
L — to taste I Kings 10:2
Cream A, B, and K. Beat I and add H. Sift C, D, J; and L. Chop F and G,
and E, and add to mixture.
Follo\A- Solomon's advice for making good boys: Pro\erbs 23:14 (first clause).
Bake at 350° for one hour and fifteen minutes. Makes two large loaves.
New England Clam Chowder
2 c. cubed potatoes
1 qt. steaming clams
3 tbsp. flour
1 onion, chopped fine
Vz tbsp. salt
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Alexia O. Bigney
Vs tsp. pepper
1 !4 c. boiling water
3 tbsp. butter
2 e. hot milk
Yi c. cream
RECIPES FROM THE NEW ENGLAND MISSION 519
Steam clams in one cup cold water till shells open (about five minutes) and pull
off the skins and throw them away. Drain and preserve liquid and strain. Put in kettle
one cup cubed potatoes, the hard part of the clams chopped fine, and one tablespoon
of flour sprinkled over. Then add another layer of the remaining one cup potatoes
and another one tablespoon flour. Add the onion and salt and pepper. Add boiling
water. Cook until potatoes are done, about ten to fifteen minutes. Add milk, cream,
and 2 tbsp. butter. Reheat clam water to boiling point, thicken with remaining table-
spoon flour and one tablespoon butter mixed together. Add just before serving to
prevent curdling. Canned whole clams or canned minced clams may also be used.
Baked Stuffed Lobster
John N. Hinckley
Buv fresh li\e lobsters, preferably Canadian — the northern waters are usuallv colder.
Your lobsters should be li\'ely when you start to prepare them. At the wharf get plenty
of seaweed and place in the bottom of the basket with a layer of paper on top of the
lobsters. Cover paper with cracked ice.
In preparing the lobster use a sharp knife. Lay the lobster upside down on a
bread board and split lengthwise from head to tail. Remo\e the dark vein along the
back and the small sac behind the head. Arrange in a low pan or tray, cut side up,
and bake in a hot o\'en fifteen to twenty minutes until the shell has turned red.
While lobster is baking, prepare dressing. Roll one pound of Saltine crackers
for each eight and one-half pounds of lobster, into fine crumbs; mix with melted butter,
season with Worcestershire sauce. After the baking period, take lobster from thr o\'en
and remove tomalley (green liver) and the coral (if it's a female). Mix these well into
the dressing. Keep dressing light.
Fill the lobster's cavity with dressing, and put one pat of butter on top; sprinkle
with paprika. Place under broiler (low flame) until dressing is brown. Place on a
serving dish and serve with lemon quarters and melted butter.
Indian Pudding (Injun' Puddin')
OJga W. Snell
5 Yz c. milk Vi tsp. cinnamon
% c. dark molasses Vs tsp. nutmeg
Vs c. sugar 1 tsp. salt
Yz c. yellow corn meal 4 tbsp. butter
Use one-half cup milk to moisten corn meal. Heat four cups of the milk and
add moistened corn meal, molasses, sugar, salt, spices, and butter. Cook until mixture
begins to thicken. Pour into a buttered baking dish and add the remaining cold milk.
Do not stir. Put into slow oven, 275°, and bake for three hours without stirring,
uncovered. Serve warm with cream, hard sauce, or vanilla ice cream. Ser\es eight to ten.
Baked Beans
Olga \V. Snell
water (as needed) 4 tbsp. \inegar
1 lb. dried beans 4 tbsp. catsup
1 tsp. soda 1 large onion, sliced
1 tsp. salt 4 or more slices of bacon or salt pork
% c. molasses
Soak beans for several hours. Drain and co\er \\ith cold water, add soda, and
520 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— AUGUST 1959
bring to boiling point and boil one minute. Pour off \\ater and add fresh cold water
and boil until tender. Beans must be whole.
Plaee in baking dish salt, catsup, sliced onion, vinegar, and molasses. Add beans
and some of the water they were cooked in. Put slices of bacon on top, co\er and
bake in slow oven (250°) for two hours. Remove cover and bake one-half hour longer.
Sa\e water in which the beans were cooked, and, if they become too dry, add a little
while baking.
New England Fish Cakes
Alexia O. Bigney
2 qts. water 1 onion
1 lb. salt codfish 3 tbsp. butter or pork fat
5 medium-sized potatoes 1 egg
pepper to taste
Soak the codfish o\ernight in cold water. In the morning drain and add peeled
potatoes cut in chunks, co\cr \\'ith water, and cook until potatoes' are done. Drain.
Add onion sauted in butter or pork fat. Mash all ingredients together, cool, and make
round cakes one-half inch thick. Fry in fat until brown, turn and brown on the
other side.
^itnniii 1 1 Leets GTis I Lew Sister
Elsie McKinnon Strachan
Two-thirds baby, one third boy:
Ivy leagues and corduroy.
Jam -sweet face and droop\' toy,
Come, touch your tiny sister gently.
Study her pink toes intently.
Kiss her cheek experimentally;
And know, somehow, that though my arms
Are cradling her small new charms,
They, still, can quiet your alarms.
Oh, little boy, when jou \\'Ould be
My baby still, come wailinglv —
Or sleep\' faced, and climb my knee.
QJiling Lrhotographs
Elizabeth Williamson
ARE you wondering when you will e\er get around to organizing and mounting your
snapshots? A quick and easy \\a\' to get them in order is to put them in a letter
file. Buy a large-sized one at any stationery store. Decide how you want to segregate
pictures. A few suggestions are: Friends, Trips, Family, Children of Friends, Pets. You
may want to leave them in this container fore\er, when you see how easy it is to locate
a certain picture. Make an index in the front of the file.
cfrances vi/hite [Poulson uias ibnriched uier
Jiije vi/ith uioDoies
FRANCES White Poulson, Hailey, Idaho, beheves that a worthwhile hobby is a
two-fold blessing. It enriches the one who plies the hobby and is a blessing to
those who reeeive the gifts of lovely handwork.
In the past three years she has made twenty-four quilts in unusual and original
designs, beautifully stitehed. She has made several erocheted bedspreads, afghans, doilies,
pillowcases, and tablecloths. She is an expert with the knitting needles and loves to
make sweaters and knitwear for babies and children. She has eight children, fourteen
grandchildren, and eleven great-grandchildren.
Mrs. Poulson has been a Relief Society worker for fifty years, and has devoted
fifteen years to service as a visiting teacher. She is grateful for her ability to find
hobbies that bring contentment and joy to her and give pleasure to her family and her
friends.
Jxitchen (glamour
Camii/e C. Nuffer
I love the sunlight
Through my windows streaming,
Awakening each precious thing.
From night's sweet dreaming.
I'm sure a kitchen,
Is a place divine.
A sunbeam from heaven
Each morning visits mine.
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The Silver Leash
Chapter 8 (Conclusion)
Beatrice Rordame Parsons
LARUE knew that, now, there
was no longer any reason to
remain in Fivelakes. The
Amelia Museum had been estab-
lished and was moving steadily on
to becoming a beautiful tourist at-
traction. Committees had been
formed, and Herb was proud that
he had been selected to head one
of them.
He was out of his wheelchair most
of the time, nowadays, and back at
his office and his drawing board.
The children were fine, each busy
with a task in refurnishing Hillhigh
House. LaRue knew it was time to
go back to the bank, to her neat, yet
silent apartment, in San Francisco.
She no longer thought of it as a
refuge. Indeed, she was almost re-
luctant to take up her life away from
Fivelakes. She knew she would miss
everything and everyone terribly!
Herb was working on the plans
for the new children's wing, at the
hospital. When he showed her the
plans, LaRue saw the penciled
drawings, which Dr. Alan had made
upon the back of an envelope, com-
ing to life.
"Fll have to come back and see
the old house, and that new wing
during my next vacation," she said
wistfully, and went to finish her
packing. The little amber bottle
still stood on the dressing table. She
left it there, meaning to give it to
Erma before she left.
As usual, Connie crept into her
room, and sat cross-legged in the
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middle of the white bedspread
watching LaRue put her things into
her bags. Connie's small face was
wistful.
''I wish you didn't have to leave.
Aunt LaRue. We're going to miss
you." She looked as if she were
going to cry, and LaRue tried to
reassure her.
'Til be back next year, darling.
And every year. . . /'
''Not if you get married," stated
Connie gloomily. "Maybe your
husband will like San Francisco so
much he won't let you come."
LaRue laughed. "Connie, you're
priceless. First you want me to
get married and have a baby so that
you can tend it. Then you don't
want me to marry, at all!"
Connie looked at her dubiously.
"Well," she said slowly, "I wouldn't
mind, if you married someone I
knew."
'T'd have to know him, too," said
LaRue playfully. 'Td have to be
in love with him."
She scarcely caught Connie's tiny
whisper. "I think you already are,
Aunt LaRue!" But before she
could speak, Connie said loudly:
"Aunt LaRue, I don't gossip, now
do I?"
LaRue didn't quite understand
the question. But she praised the
child.
"You've improved a very great
deal, darling. I'm very glad."
"Well," asked Connie, a linger-
ing doubt in her tone, "do you think
THE SILVER LEASH
523
it would be awful if I told you some
gossip?" Then, as LaRue began to
shake her head, she added brightly,
''Some gossip you'd like to hear?''
LaRue wasn't quite sure. "I
wouldn't want to hear it, Connie,
if it was something that would hurt
someone. That sort of gossip is
cruel."
''But it isn't cruel," cried Connie
eagerly, bouncing up and down un-
til her brown braids whirled. ''It's
something terribly nice. About
Gladys and Dr. Alan."
I ARUE hid her face in the clothes
closet so that Connie could not
see how it glowed at the mention
of Alan's name. But she came stead-
ily out and met Connie's childish
gaze, though her heart was chilled.
She said definitely: "No, Connie,
even if it's very, very nicCy I can't
let you tell me." She wanted to ask
if Gladys and Alan had made up, if
Grandie and Herb were going ahead
on the plans for the house in Maple
Park. But she pressed her lips
tightly, still shaking her head. "I
can't go back on what I said, Con-
nie. It's wrong to encourage gos-
sip. Sometimes it's even cruel. . . ."
It would be cruel to listen to Con-
nie's gossip about the future plans
of Gladys and Alan. She didn't
want to think about them.
Connie got slowly down off the
bed. "All right. Aunt LaRue." She
walked slowly to the door. "I still
wish you didn't have to pack." To
hide her tears, she rushed outside
to play with Atlast.
The hours dragged until time for
the bus. Although Herb would have
driven her to the station, LaRue
insisted on calling for a cab. It
would be much easier, saying good-
by to the family at home.
She hid the hot tears on her lashes
as she walked out to the cab. The
driver who had brought her to the
house a few weeks before, greeted
her with a smile as he put her lug-
gage into the back of the taxi. His
face was now smooth-shaven, minus
the beard he'd worn to the festival.
He guided the cab skillfully along
the almost completed highway, and
LaRue saw that the huge machinery
had moved miles into the distance.
The gray artery into Fivelakes was
wide and smooth.
Like a ribbon tying my heart to
those I love, she thought whimsical-
ly, and knew that the days would
seem long and lonely until she re-
turned for a visit.
The old house on the knoll
seemed to smile down on her as
they passed it, and she saw the
beginnings of its rejuvenation in
fresh lumber and paint.
She stared at the giant moun-
tains, her mind photographing every
peak so that memory could not dim
them. She wondered that she had
ever found them cold, forbidding.
When the driver set her bags in-
side the station she looked around
at the green-plastic covered counter,
at the Hopi Indian dolls nudging
neighboring Spanish senoritas for a
place on the shelves.
The man behind the counter was
no longer frightening in his heavy
dark beard. He was clean-shaven,
and his white jacket was spotless.
They chatted for a few minutes, and
he told her that her bus was on
time. She had only fifteen minutes
to wait. He gave her a fresh glass
of ice water, and she sipped it,
watching the hands of the clock
move slowly into place.
(Continued on page 534)
ANNUAL REPORT FOR 1958
SELECTED DATA
I HE RELIEF SOCIETY of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
is a world-wide sisterhood. This was strongly evidenced as the annual reports
for 1958 from the 4,321 Relief Societies in the 270 stakes and forty-six missions
of the Church were compiled in the Church report. The societies are located in
each of the fifty states in the United States, the District of Columbia, and in
forty-seven other countries. Each of these organizations in the setting of its own
geographic conditions is, through the basic program of Relief Society, accomplish-
ing the purposes of the organization as set forth by the Prophet Joseph Smith in
his instructions at early meetings and as later developed in the Society, i.e.:
To manifest benevolence, irrespective of creed or nationality; to care for the
poor, the sick, and the unfortunate; to minister where death reigns; to assist in
correcting the morals and strengthening the virtues of community life; to raise
human life to its highest levels; to elevate and enlarge the scope of women's
activities and conditions; to foster love for religion, education, culture, and refine-
ment; to develop faith; to save souls; to study and teach the gospel (Relief Society
Handbook, page 8).
At the end of 1958, Relief Society had a total membership of 193,553 sisters
which was on increase of 10,117. Of this total membership, 158,583 are located
in the stakes of the Church, and 34,970 in the missions. In both the stakes and
the missions, a total of 126,381 sisters served as leaders or visiting teachers.
One of the most important services given by Relief Society is that of visiting
teaching, wherein the visiting teachers, in the spirit of sisterly solicitude, visit the
homes, taking to the wives and mothers a spiritual message and observing instances
of spiritual and physical need, illness, or distress that may exist within the home.
During 1958, 3,349,802 such visits were made, which was an increase of 223,989
visits over 1957. These visits were mode by 81,988 visiting teachers.
In the spirit of compassion and service typical of this great organization.
Relief Society sisters made 293,876 visits under the direction of word Relief Society
presidents to the sick and homebound, during 1958, to extend encouragement,
spiritual uplift, and compassionate service where needed. The equivalent of
35,787 eight-hour days core of the sick was provided by Relief Society sisters.
They also assisted at 8,737 funerals, and, in 783 instances, were called upon to
help dress the dead for burial. As a resource to draw upon, 2,716 Relief Societies
maintain a list of women living in the confines of their words qualified to give
registered or practical nursing services.
Relief Societies, as a contribution to the Church Welfare Program, have given
477, 896 hours of service in such projects as the canning and processing of foods
and the sewing of articles of clothing to be used in the Church Welfare Program.
As a port of the educational as well as service aspect of the work meeting,
Relief Society sisters, during 1958, completed 429,125 sewed articles, which repre-
General Presidency of Relief Society
CounsGlor Marianne C. Sharp President Belle S. Spafford Counselor Louise W. Modsen
sented an increase of 70,243 sewed articles over 1957. These include clothing
for men, women, and children, quilts, and household furnishings.
Increasing numbers of Relief Society sisters throughout the world have
attended the regular Relief Society meetings at which opportunity has been pro-
vided for participation and greater understanding of the subjects studied by the
sisters — a course in theology dealing with the doctrines of the Church as revealed
in The Doctrine and Covenants; discussions held at work meetings on home man-
agement; a course on American literature; and a social science course on the
Latter-day Saint family. In some foreign missions, specially prepared courses of
the literature of their respective countries have been substituted for the American
literature course.
Singing Mothers choruses in 2,564 wards and branches which, at times, have
been combined into stake or district choruses, have provided musical training and
cultural participation for 38,896 sisters.
Through the program of Relief Society, this world-wide sisterhood has con-
tinued to serve unselfishly and to be the recipient of the blessings referred to by
the Prophet Joseph Smith in his remarks at an early meeting of Relief Society in
1842, ot which time he said ". . . and this Society shall rejoice, and knowledge
and intelligence shall flow down from this time henceforth .... as far as knowl-
edge is concerned, it may extend to all the world."
General Secretary-Treasurer
1938 GEOGRAPHICAL DISTRIBUTION
OF RELIEF SOCIETY ORGANIZATIONS AND MEMBERS
In
Stakes
In
Missions
Totals
Location
Organi-
Organi-
Organi-
zations
Members
zations
Members
zations
Members
UNITED STATES
Alabama
15
252
15
252
Alaska
7
201
7
201
Arizona
140
7,894
10
142
150
8,036
Arkansas
7
100
7
100
California
370
24,411
38
1,130
408
25,541
Colorado
31
1,486
19
423
50
1,909
Connecticut
5
116
5
116
Delaware
3
63
3
63
District of Columbia
3
151
3
151
Florida
26
857
27
548
53
1,405
Georgia
14
421
12
227
26
648
Hawaii
18
955
40
807
58
1,762
Idaho
343
21,921
4
60
347
21,981
Illinois
9
397
26
534
35
931
Indiana
1
38
24
615
25
653
Iowa
16
263
16
263
Kansas
5
104
16
278
21
382
Kentucky
22
329
22
329
Louisiana
13
340
6
91
19
431
Maine
13
214
13
214
Maryland
6
289
1
30
7
319
Massachusetts
13
286
13
286
Michigan
9
349
5
122
14
471
Minnesota
16
400
16
400
Mississippi
9
144
11
196
20
340
Missouri
10
399
17
246
27
645
Montana
37
1,191
29
556
66
1,747
Nebraska
14
265
14
265
Nevada
47
2,767
1
18
48
2,785
New Hampshire
5
103
5
103
New Jersey
3
152
6
131
9
283
New Mexico
29
1,222
27
386
56
1,608
New York
6
276
21
475
27
751
North Carolina
2
43
39
880
41
923
North Dakota
5
77
5
77
Ohio
1
29
29
649
30
678
Oklahoma
26
465
26
465
Oregon
54
3,280
24
556
78
3,836
Pennsylvania
1
49
33
610
34
659
Rhode Island
2
24
2
24
South Carolina
13
503
10
164
23
667
South Dakota
10
144
10
144
Tennessee
16
329
16
329
Texas
50
1,541
48
724
98
2,265
Utah
1,046
76,977
1,046
76,977
Vermont
3
41
3
41
Virginia
12
508
21
410
33
918
Washington
81
3,768
10
180
91
3,948
West Virginia
10
229
10
229
Wisconsin
4
132
11
210
15
342
Wyoming
54
2,898
12
361
66
3,259
Total — United States
2,447 155,492
785
5,660
3,232 171,152
^ \f
r^
c^
/
RELIEF SOCIETIES REPORTED IN 1958 ANNUAL REPORT
Location
In
Stokes
In
Missions
Totals
Organi-
Organi-
Organi-
OTHER COUNTRIES
zations
Members
zations
Members
zations
Members
Argentina
28
564
28
564
Australia
31
823
31
823
Austria
6
201
6
201
Belgium
8
79
8
79
Bermuda
1
8
1
8
Brazil
26
346
26
346
Canada
57
2,658
79
1,719
136
4,377
Chile
1
22
1
22
China
5
71
5
71
Cook Islands
1
21
1
21
Costa Rica
3
25
3
25
Denmark
20
445
20
445
El Salvador
4
76
4
76
England
77
1,278
77
1,278
Fiji Islands
1
11
1
11
Finland
17
469
17
469
France
19
147
19
147
French Morocco
1
22
1
22
Germany
182
5,316
182
5,316
Guam
1
17
1
17
Guatemala
14
234
14
234
Honduras
3
73
3
73
Ireland
4
69
4
69
Italy
1
8
1
8
Japan
35
420
35
420
Korea
2
53
2
53
Libya
1
9
1
9
Mexico
4
147
87
1,548
91
1,695
Netherlands
28
331
28
331
New Zealand
9
286
73
809
82
1,095
Nicaragua
1
17
1
17
Norway
17
376
17
376
Okinawa
3
28
3
28
Panama Canal Zone
2
30
2
30
Philippine Islands
2
14
2
14
Paraguay
2
20
2
20
Peru
3
24
3
24
Puerto Rico
1
6
1
6
Samoa
57
658
57
658
Scotland
6
85
6
85
Sweden
36
558
36
558
Switzerland
28
398
28
398
Tahiti
14
278
14
278
Tonga
41
754
41
754
Union of South Africa
19
264
19
264
Uruguay
3
534
23
534
Wales
70
5
1,019
52
19,310
5
1,089
52
Totol — Other Countries
3,091
22,401
GRAND TOTALS
2,517
158,583
1,804
34,970
4,321
193,553
MEETINGS
TOTAL MEETINGS HELD
1958
Number
215,474
1957
Number
207,422
ncrease
8,052
Relief Society General Conference
Stake Relief Society Conventions
Stake and Mission Meetings (Total)
Stake and Mission District Board
Stake and Mission Leadership
(Union)
160
5,778
3,140
2,638
129
5,826
3 J 65
2,661
31
-48
-25
-23
Ward and Branch Meetings (Total)
Regular Meetings for Members
Visiting Teachers Meetings
Preparation Meetings
March, November Fast Sunday
and Other Special Meetings
Annual Relief Society Conferences
Officers Meetings Prior to Conferences
209,509
201,467
8,042
141,020
135,881
5,139
25,507
23,983
1,524
22,450
21,922
528
14,643
14,116
527
3,625
3,426
199
2,264
2,139
125
'Cancelled
AVERAGE ATTENDANCE AT MEETINGS
1958
1
1957
Num-
Per-
Num-
Per-
In-
ber
cent
ber
cent
crease
Regular Meetings for
Members (Total)
73,381
37.9
67,391
36.7
5,990
In Stakes
58,425
36.9
53,782
36.0
4,643
In Missions
14,956
43.0
13,609
40.1
1,347
Theology
79,741
41.1
73,825
40.2
5,916
Work
72,404
37.4
66,332
36.1
6,072
Literature
69,968
36.1
64,488
35.1
5,480
Social Science
71,415
36.8
64,912
35.3
6,503
Visiting Teacher Meetings
43,291
52.8
39,190
51.6
4,101
VISITS BY STAKE AND MISSION OFFICERS 1958
1957
Increase
Visits to Wards and Branches (Total)
31,138
29,006
2,132
To Wards by Stake Officers
24,665
22,625
2,040
To Branches by Mission and
District Officers 6,473 6,381 92
CONSOLIDATED FINANCIAL REPORT FOR STAKES AND MISSIONS
Receipts and Disbursements
Cash Balance on Hand, January 1, 1958 $1,375,710.71
Receipts 2,409,841.97
$3,785,552.68
Disbursements $2,276,527.63
Cash Balance on Hand, December 31, 1958 1,509,025.05
Assets — December 31, 1958
Cash Balance on Hand, December 31 $1,509,025.05
Wheat Trust Fund Deposited at Presiding Bishops Office 422,912.22
Other Invested Funds (Savings Bonds, etc.) 71,299.07
Real Estate and Buildings 1 1 8,243.22
Total Assets $2,1 21 ,479.56
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The Silver Leash
(Continued from page 523)
V)[7HERE once she had wanted to
turn and seat herself in the
bus to go back from where she had
come, now she wanted to run out
of the station and fly along the
highway to where a car was spinning
swiftly along.
Something about the car, as it
caught the sunshine, made her heart
tremble a little. Was that, oh,
surely that wasn't a . . . caduceus on
the front! She hadn't — purpose-
ly — said goodby to Dr. Alan. She
knew, now, that she had been very
rude. He was coming to tell her
so, coming to say goodby.
LaRue wanted to run outside to
meet him, but she forced herself to
sit casually at the green counter, sip-
ping her ice water. When he came
in, her heart pounded so hard that
she worried lest he hear it. He did
not speak, just took her arm and led
her to one of the tiny tables far at
the rear of the room. Then he
leaned across the table and looked
into her eyes. His voice came ten-
derly.
''Darling, why are you going
away? Don't you know you belong
here in Fivelakes?"
Her pulses hammered at the word
darling, but she managed to find
her voice, to say quietly, ''Every-
thing I came to do is finished, Alan.
I'm going back. Oh, perhaps not
forever. But for awhile. I really
do not belong in Fivelakes.''
He took her hand, his surgeon's
fingers firm and tense. His voice
was insistent. "Is there somehody
back there in San Francisco?"
She knew what he meant, and
shook her head. Her lips formed
the faint word, "Gladys?"
A smile flashed about his mouth,
making it soft, gentle. "Didn't
Connie tell you? Gladys gave me
back my ring. She and Earl are
getting married."
Happiness she could not hide
broke over LaRue's features. Her
smile was tremulous.
"Connie tried to tell me, Alan,
but I wouldn't let her." She lifted
her clear, gray-blue eyes to his face.
"I hope you are not too badly hurt."
He shook his dark head, and his
eyes were honest. "I guess I knew
almost from the beginning that
Gladys and I didn't really click. But
when Grandie tried to tell me, I
wouldn't listen. He tried to make
me see that she wouldn't make a
doctor's wife."
LaRue understood. Her lips
quirked. "Nasty medicine," she
said, and then had to explain the
things that Grandie had said.
They sat there, smiling into each
other's eyes, and were entirely un-
conscious of the huge bus which
waited outside the windows. The
man at the counter grinned and put
up his hand when they would have
loaded LaRue's bags. He could see
by their enchanted faces that any
other bus — or no other bus at all
— would do. The bus driver smiled,
too, and the bus chugged off into
the distance.
T ARUE had so many things to
talk about. First she had to
explain that she'd been frightened,
"But," she confessed happily, I'm
not afraid of things, now. I love it
here in Fivelakes."
Alan smiled as he lifted her ten-
derly to her feet. "You're going to
stay in Fivelakes," he assured her
gravely. "But this isn't the place
THE SILVER LEASH
535
for a proposal. First of all, Fm tak-
ing you back to the Vetterly's. I
think they all know just what I
have in mind."
He helped her into the car, got
in beside her, and together they
swept along the highway and into
the town. The sun was blinding,
but it did not make LaRue's head
ache. It draped her with a golden
canopy as she listened to Alan's
eager words, as he let her out where
all the family was waiting with hap-
py faces and moist eyes.
*'I have something to say to you,"
he promised. ''Something that
can't wait. Fll be here this evening
to take you for a ride." He leaned
down, kissed her shamelessly in
front of all of them. He whispered,
"Be sure and wear that yellow frock.
I remember a small, yellow angel
standing beside a woman's bed,
helping bring a new life to Five-
lakes. You can't escape, darling.
You belong here beside me."
LaRue's eyes held stars as she
promised to wear the yellow dress.
promised to listen to what Alan had
to say.
He was tall and proud and very
sure of himself as he marched to
his car. It was the same sureness
that Amelia had known and LaRue
loved him for it.
When his car had disappeared,
LaRue put her arm about Erma's
shoulder and they went into La-
Rue's bedroom. Happily, she put
the tiny amber bottle into Erma's
hands.
''I do not need it, now," she said
breathlessly, and knew that Erma
understood. She watched her carry
the tiny glass symbol of her moth-
er's enduring love into her own
room and her eyes were misty with
happiness.
Alan had said that she was part
of Fivelakes, that her roots went
deep. She would always love the
town and the people in it. It meant
Alan.
LaRue had come to know that
the words Amelia had said were
true. Love is everlasting. . . .
Q^ome Strange LKeward
Ida Elaine James
Where we conspired together here
I work alone,
Remembering your wishes, dear,
How you were prone
To sahage questionable weeds:
"Perhaps next year
Some strange reward from magic seeds!"
A falling tear
Now damps this dark and stony spot
When I think how
You gardened life's haphazard plot,
And then, as now.
Your valor led me, lighting hours
Whose barren yield
Would spoil a lesser faith in flowers
In life's hard field.
FROM THE FIELD
I
Hiilda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the A^agazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Handbook of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Jeanette F, Naegle
NORTH IDAHO FALLS STAKE (IDAHO) VISITING TEACHERS HONORED
AT CONVENTION, March 27, 1959
Visiting teachers who ha\'e served fifty years or more, seated, left to right: Nellie
Gardner and Lydia \\ bilker.
Back row, standing, left to right: Mable Fillmore; Edith Southwick; Ehza Mae
White; Lydia Thucson.
Esther Hammer, who has also served more than fifty years, was not present when
the picture was taken.
Jeanette F. Naegle, President, North Idaho Falls Stake Relief Society, reports:
"We presented 'A Light Shining' in our stake March 27, 1959. It was such an im-
pressi\e program that I am sure the visiting teachers won't forget its wonderful message.
Two hundred and fifty attended. Special recognition was given to forty-one visiting
teachers who had ser\ed thirty years or more. They were each gi\cn an attractiNC
emblem to pin on their dresses, showing the number of years of service. The women
who had served more than forty-five years were given potted blooming geranium plants,
along with the emblem."
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537
Photograph submitted by LaVerda O. Lloyd
iMT. JORDAN STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR
STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, April 12, 1959
LaVerda O. Lloyd. President. Mt. Jordan Stake Relief Society, reports: 'This
chorus sang at both sessions of stake conference upon special assignment by the stake
music committee, the occasion being the di\ision of our stake. The chorus consists
of 1 50 voices. Gertrude Kceler is chorister, and Regena Roden is the accompanist."
Sister Lloyd's counselors in the stake Relief Society presidency were Wanda L. Gull and
Jane F. Cartwright. On April 12, 1959, when Mt. Jordan Stake was divided. Sister
Llo\d remained as Relief Society president in Mt. Jordan Stake, and her counselor,
Sister Gull, was appointed Relief Society President in the new Sandy Stake.
Photograph submitted by Geraldine H. Bangerter
BRAZILIAN MISSION, JOINVILLE BRANCH, FIRST RELIEF SOCIETY
PRESIDENCY IN THE BRAZILIAN MISSION, APPOINTED IN 1933
Photograph taken March 1959
Left to right: President Toni Barsch; Second Counselor Margareta Buchli; First
Counselor Martha Otto.
Geraldine H. Bangerter, President, Brazilian Mission Relief Society, reports:
^'These women are still together in Relief Society service after twentv-five years, although
at present they are not serving in the branch presidencv. Thev are witnesses to the
program and growth of the Relief Society in the Brazilian Mission."
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Photograph submitted by Aha Fuhriman
NAMPA STAKE (IDAHO) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR
SPECIAL LITERATURE PROGRAM, February 27, 1959
Front row, left to right: E\elyn Clark as Anne Bradstreet; Charlotte Taylor as
Sarah Kemble Knight; psalm singers: May Drake, Nola Allen, Patty Hill, Yvonne
Simpson, Vilate Adams, Le^•a Newland, L\nn Norton, LaX^erda Young; Agnes Frank,
stake organist.
Second row, at the left: Gladys Egbert, narrator; Lucille \\'ilson, stake chorister.
Alta F'uhriman, President, Nampa Stake Relief Society, reports: "The presentation
\\-as a drama of carh- American literature and song, under the direction of our stake
literature leader Gayle Hales."
Photograph submitted by Norma W^inn
EAST JORDAN STAKE (UTAH) RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING MOTHERS
PRESENT MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE,
April 19, 1959
The chorister, LaRue Jeppson, stands eiglith from the left in the front row; the
organist, Nieoma Da\is, stands se\enth from the left in the front row .
Norma Winn, President, East Jordan Stake Relief Societ}-, reports: "This group
of sisters' de\ote a good deal of time and effort in preparing musical numbers for the
entertainment of our stake as a whole. They haye just finished the assignment of
pro\iding music for the quarterly conference, at which time the picture \\as taken."
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
539
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Photograph sr.bmirtcd bv M)rtle II. Rapple\e
CANYON RIM STAKE (SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH), CANYON RIM SECOND
^^^\RD ANNIVERSARY LUNCHEON, March 18, 1959
Left to rie:lit, front row: second from the left, Merna Glade, First Counselor,
Canyon Rim Stake Relief Society; Myrtle Rappleje, President, Can}'on Rim Stake
Relief Socict}-; Mary Wright, guest speaker; Wilma Merrell, Second Counselor, Canyon
Rim Stake Relief Societ)'.
Rub\^ Ihomas, President. Canyon Rim Second ^^Vard Relief Society, is seated in
the right foreground (wearing dark dress with pin on the shoulder); next to Sister
Thomas, at the right, facing to^^■ards the table, is Hazel Jackson, First Counselor, Can-
yon Rim Second ^^'^ard Relief Society; next to Sister Jackson, at her right, \\earing
glasses', is Bonnie Land\"atter, Second Counselor, Canyon Rim Second Ward Relief
Society.
Photngrapli submitted by Virginia C. Newbold
GRANT STAKE (SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, April 12, 1959
Front row, left to right, beginning fifth from the left: Reida Crook, chorister;
Maude Magelbv, accompanist; Ethel Bergeson, First Counselor; Virginia Newbold,
President; Rhea Simmons, Secretary-Treasurer; Marie Bradshaw, Second Counselor.
Sister Newbold reports: "This Singing Mothers chorus has a membership of 176
and an average attendance of 1 50 at each performance. The following selections were
presented: 'Calvary,' 'He That Hath Clean Hands/ 'Oh, How Lovely Are Thy Mes-
sengers/ and 'Oh, Lovely Land, America/ "
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Photograph submitted by Marian Mathewson
NYSSA STAKE (OREGON) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR
STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, May 24, 1959
Front row, seated, left to right: Mildred \\'ett,stein, eborister; Jane Jaeobs, organist;
Luraine Lee and Martha Taggart, Counselors; Marian Mathevvson, President.
Photograph submitted by Louise B. Johansen
NORTH SANPETE STAKE (UTAH) VISITING TEACHERS HONORED AT
CON\^ENTION, February 28, 1959
Front row, seated, left to right: Inez Rosenlof, who has a 100% visiting teaching
record for ten years; Annie Brotherson, for fifteen \cars; Pauline Seclev, for thirty years;
Mina Sorensen, for twelve years, all of Mount Pleasant.
Back row, standing, left to right: Isa Aldrich, for fifteen years; Tressa Anderson,
for ten years; Verla Marx, for thirteen years, all of Mount Pleasant. Clara Beck, Spring
City, for sixteen years; Bertha Christensen, Fair\icw, for twent}' years; Mareclla Graham,
Fair\iew, for twehe jears.
LESSON DEPARTMENT
cJheologg — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 18—''. . . Thou Shalt Not Command Him Who Is at Thy Head . . ,"^
(D & C 28:6)
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Section 28; 43:1-7; 27:5-18)
For Tuesday, November 3, 1959
Objective: To show how a Latter-day Saint may judge whether or not a person
who professes a revelation for the Church represents the Lord.
TT is important that every member
of The Church of Jesus Christ
of Latter-day Saints understands the
principles set forth in Sections 28
and 43. These revelations make
known an important aspect of reve-
lation. The dispensation in which
we live is a period during which
Jesus said that many ways would
be used to '\ . . deceive the very
elect, who are the elect according
to the covenant" (Pearl of Great
Price, Joseph Smith 1:22). If there
are any people on the earth whom
Satan is desirous of deceiving, it is
those who have become members
of the kingdom of God. It is our
opportunity to learn in this lesson
how the Lord's covenant people
may be able to detect false revela-
tors.
Hiram Page and Section 28
Hiram Page, a member of the
Church, had in his possession a
stone which he claimed aided him
in receiving revelation about certain
things, among which was the up-
building of Zion. Prior to an ap-
pointed conference of the Church
for September 1830, the Prophet
Joseph decided that it was neces-
sary to ask the Lord concerning the
purported revelations of Hiram
Page. It seems that the Whitmer
family and Oliver Cowdery were
believing much of what Brother
Page was claiming as revelation. If
we keep in mind these facts, we will
understand why the Lord declares,
in verse 11 of Section 28, that Oliver
Cowdery is to take ''. . . Hiram
Page, between him and thee alone,
and tell him that those things which
he hath written from that stone are
not of me and that Satan deceiveth
him" (D&C 28:11).
Why should nor Hiram Page
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recei\'C re\elation for the Church?
The \ersc which follows (verse 12)
informs us that it was not his privi-
lege because he had not been ap-
pointed, '\ . . neither shall anything
be appointed unto any of this
church contrary to the church cove-
nants" ( D & C 28 : 1 2 ) . In verse 1 3,
the further fact is made known that
all things must be done in order.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Lat-
ter-day Saints, or the kingdom of
God, is the perfect organization, for
it is the divine way in which man-
kind may work out its salvation, the
most important work which should
have man's attention in this life.
The Lord's Mouthpiece
During the meeting at which the
Church was organized, a revelation
was received setting forth an im-
portant truth relative to Joseph
Smith as the leader of the Church
and how that organization might
prosper:
Wherefore, meaning the church, thou
shalt give heed unto all his words and
commandments which he shall give unto
you as he receiveth them, walking in all
holiness before me;
For his word ye shall receive, as if from
mine own mouth, in all patience and
faith.
For by doing these things the gates
of hell shall not prevail against you; yea,
and the Lord God will disperse the pow-
ers of darkness from before you, and cause
the heavens to shake for your good, and
his name's glory (D & C 21:4-6).
It is apparent in these scriptures
that the Lord wanted the Church,
in the very beginning, to under-
stand that the Prophet was the
mouthpiece of the Lord and that
by obedience to that leadership the
Church would prosper. Darkness
would not prevail. With fhis truth
known, those who have become the
truly faithful covenanted of the
Lord will exercise patience and faith
in following the counsel of the
Lord's anointed.
One ReveJator for the Chuich
If the prophet, seer, and revelator
of the Church is the mouthpiece of
the Lord, then who else may speak
for the Lord's Church?
In Section 28, Oliver Cowdery,
although sustained as the second
elder of the Church, was told that
he should be heard by the Church
in whatsoever he should teach by
the Comforter concerning the reve-
lations and commandments which
had already been given. (See
verse 1.)
But, behold, verily, verily, I say unto
thee, no one shall be appointed to receive
commandments and revelations in this
church excepting my servant Joseph
Smith, Jun., for he receiveth them even
as Moses (D & C 28:2).
This fact — no one but the
Prophet is to receive revelation for
the Church — is emphasized fur-
ther by the Lord by informing
Oliver that:
And if thou art led at any time by the
Comforter to speak or teach, or at all
times by the way of commandment unto
the church, thou mayest do it.
But thou shalt not write by way of
commandment, but by wisdom;
And thou shalt not command him who
is at thy head, and at the head of the
church;
For I have given him the keys of the
mysteries, and the re\elations which are
sealed, until I shall appoint unto them
another in his stead (D & C 28:4-7).
Background of Section 43
There was another occasion when
it was necessary for the Lord to
LESSON DEPARTMENT
545
make known further information
about this principle of revelation for
the Church. It came about by these
circumstances — a woman, by the
name of Hubble, ". . . came mak-
ing great pretensions of revealing
commandments, laws and other
curious matters ... ( D. H. C.
1:154). Here, again, we learn that
the adversary was seeking to disturb
the minds of the saints.
Joseph Smith to Receive Revelation
In this revelation (Section 43),
the Lord again states that Joseph
Smith was ". . . appointed unto you
to receive commandments and reve-
lations . . . (D & C 43:2).
And this ye shall know assuredly — that
there is none other appointed unto you
to receive commandments and revelations
until he be taken, if he abide in me
(D&C43:3).
In other words, as long as the
Prophet remained faithful, he was
recognized as the Lord's mouth-
piece. But this was not all. There
is an unusual thought expressed in
the next verse which definitely
clarifies and strengthens the prin-
ciple of who is to receive revelation
for the Church. It is stated in this
way:
But verily, verily, I say unto you,
that none else shall be appointed unto
this gift except it be through him; for if
it be taken from him he shall not ha\c
power except to appoint another in his
stead (D & C 43:4).
Does this scripture mean that if
Joseph Smith were to become un-
faithful to his high calling and thus
lose the privilege to act as the Lord's
prophet, he could still 'appoint an-
other in his stead?'' The answer is
yes.
The revelation continues in re-
minding the saints that these truths
are being given in order that
". . . you may not be deceived. . . .
And this shall be the law unto you,
that ye receive not the teachings of
any that shall come before you as
revelations or commandments . . .
that you may know they are not of
me" (D&C43:6, 5).
In other words, only one may
receive revelation for the Church,
and that is the prophet, seer, and
revelator — in this case, Joseph
Smith. At this particular time
during the life of Joseph Smith,
provision was made for the continua-
tion of the keys of the Priesthood
on the earth by the process just
mentioned. This provision does
not operate today in the Church,
for the Lord provided another way
when the Quorum of the Twelve
Apostles was organized in 1835.
Joseph Smith nnd the
Keys oi the Priesthood
In order that we may not mis-
understand, it is important that we
know that two years later the Lord
declared to the Prophet Joseph
Smith :
\^erily I say unto you, the keys of this
kingdom shall never be taken from you,
while thou art in the world, neither in
the world to come;
Nevertheless, through you shall the
oracles be given to another, yea, even
unto the church (D & C 90:5-4).
The fact made know^n here con-
cerning the faithfulness of Joseph
Smith as the Prophet of this dispen-
sation was foreknown by Joseph, the
son of Jacob (Israel), and also to
Lehi as recorded in The Book of
Mormon. (See 2 Nephi 3:3-15,
especially verses 6-8.)
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The explanation of the quotation
from Section 90 is best expressed
in the following words:
In a revelation given in February 1831,
the Lord declared that Joseph Smith was
the only one appointed to receive revela-
tion and commandments for the Church
"until he be taken, if he abide in me,"
hut should the Prophet fail this gift would
be taken from him and gi\'en to another.
(D & C 43:3-4.) Now in March 1833,
after the Prophet had been tried and
proved, the Lord said that the keys,
through which direction, commandment
and re\elation come, "shall never be taken
from you, while thou art in the world,
neither in the world to come." Yet when
the Prophet should be taken the "oracles"
\^ould be given to another, "even to the
Church." Therefore after the martyrdom
the keys remained and were in possession
of the Church and exercised through the
presiding council, which at that time was
the council of the Twelve Apostles, and
in the Church the oracles are found and
will continue unto the end of time [Doc-
tnne and Covenants Commentary, Re-
vised Edition, page 577).
Keys of the Priesthood
to Be Continued
In what way has the Lord pro-
vided for the continuation of the
keys of Priesthood bestowed by
angelic personages, as Peter, James,
and John; Moses, Ehjah, and oth-
ers? By ordination the Twelve have
all the authority that was given to
the Prophet Joseph Smith. Every
key and every authority given to him
are conferred upon each new apostle
as he is ordained, but he does not
use all of those powers and author-
ity as a member of the Twelve. The
authority is inherent in him some-
time to become President of the
Church. The only man on the
earth who can exercise all of these
kevs and powers at once is the Presi-
dent of the Church. Consequently,
when a President of the Church
dies, the apostles, having already re-
ceived the keys and authority con-
ferred upon Joseph Smith, set apart
the newly appointed President of
the Church, empowering him to
exercise all of those keys and powers
as President of the Church.
Summary — One Revehtor
In the revelations studied in this
lesson we have learned that there
are certain ways by which the mem-
bers of the Church may know the
person to receive revelation for the
Church. Attempts have been made
by some to deceive the Latter-day
Saints into believing that a revela-
tion has been given to another per-
son than the President of the
Church for the benefit of the entire
Church membership. The two rev-
elations studied in this lesson set
forth the three standards by which
a Latter-day Saint may judge any
person claiming revelation for the
Church.
1. He must be called by revelation
through the proper authority or Priest-
hood of God. (See D & C 28:2-6; 43:2.)
2. He must be approved by the mem-
bership of the Church as the President of
the Church. (See D & C 28:12-13;
437-)
3. He must be set apart by those who
possess the authority. (See D & C 28:7;
43:7-)
These criteria or standards also
apply in the appointment of any
officer in The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints. An
example of this is given in the reve-
lation appointing Edward Partridge
as the first bishop unto the Church.
(See D & C 41:9.)
In the event that someone either
in the Church or from the outside,
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547
as some have done, were to present
a revelation to a member of this
Church as coming from God for the
instruction of the Church, the mem-
ber would immediately be able to
apply these three standards to the
person claiming the revelation. No
person in the kingdom of God
should be deceived, for the Lord
has spoken plainly on this matter
in these two revelations as well as
in other ways. It should ever be re-
membered that God's house is a
house of order, and this is one way
by which the Lord maintains the
necessary orderly procedure. (See
D & C 132:7-8.)
With this information before us,
it is pertinent to keep in mind the
truth spoken by President Joseph
F. Smith concerning the foregoing
points and also the limitations put
upon individual members of the
Church in receiving revelation for
their own guidance.
It is not the business of any individual
to rise up as a revelator, as a prophet, as
a seer, as an inspired man, to give revela-
tion for the guidance of the Church, or
to assume to dictate to the presiding
authorities of the Church in any part of
the world, much less in the midst of
Zion, where the organizations of the priest-
hood are about perfect, where e\erything
is complete, even to the organization of a
branch. It is the right of indi\iduals to
be inspired and to receive manifestations
of the Holy Spirit for their personal guid-
ance to strengthen their faith, and to en-
courage them in works of righteousness,
in being faithful and observing and keep-
ing the commandments which God has
given unto them; it is the privilege of
every man and woman to receive revelation
to this end, but not further. . . .
And thus his priesthood will ever be
found to be composed of the right men
for the place, of men whose backs will
be fitted for the burden, men through
whom he can work and regulate the affairs
of his Church according to. the counsels
of his own will. And the moment that
individuals look to any other source, that
moment they throw themselves open to
the seductive influences of Satan, and
render themsehes liable to become serv-
ants of the devil; they lose sight of the
true order through which the blessings of
the Priesthood are to be enjoyed; they
step outside of the pale of the kingdom
of God, and are on dangerous ground.
Whenever you see a man rise up claim-
ing to have received direct revelation from
the Lord to the Church, independent of
the order and channel of the priesthood,
you may set him down as an impostor
{Gospel Doctrine, Sixth Edition, pp.
41-42).
HistoiicaJ Setting oi Section 27
Reference may be made to Lesson
15 on the sacrament for historical
background material on Doctrine
and Covenants, Section 27 [Ke\iei
Society Magazine, February 1958).
In that lesson only the first four
verses of this revelation were con-
sidered. The revelation was given
to the Prophet Joseph Smith by an
angel. The Prophet said concerning
this revelation, '\ . . the first four
paragraphs of which were written at
this time [August 1830], and the re-
mainder in the September follow-
ing" {D.H.C. I:io6).
Other Dispensations and
the Fulness oi Times
The Prophet is told in the follow-
ing verses from The Doctrine and
Covenants, Section 27, of the time
when he and others will dine with
our Lord on our earth. In this mes-
sage we should notice its relation-
ship to the great events of the past
and of the present dispensation,
especially the source from whence
Joseph Smith received authority and
information.
Behold, this is wisdom in me; where-
fore, marvel not, for the hour cometh that
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I will drink of the fruit of the vine with
\ou on the earth, and with Moroni, whom
i ha\e sent unto you to re\eal the Book
of Mormon, eontaining the fulness of
mv e\crlasting gospel, to whom I have
committed the keys of the record of the
stick of Ephraim;
And also with Elias, to whom I have
committed the keys of bringing to pass
the restoration of all things spoken by the
mouth of all the holy prophets since the
world began, concerning the last days;
And also John the son of Zacharias,
which Zacharias he (Elias) visited and
gave promise that he should have a son,
and his name should be John, and he
should be filled with the spirit of Elias;
Which John I have sent unto you, my
servants, Joseph Smith, Jun., and Oliver
Cowdcry, to ordain you unto the first
priesthood \\hich vou have received, that
}'ou might be called and ordained even as
Aaron;
And also Elijah, unto whom I have
committed the keys of the power of turn-
ing the hearts of the fathers to the chil-
dren, and the hearts of the children to
the fathers, that the whole earth may not
be smitten with a curse;
And also with Joseph and Jacob, and
Isaac, and Abraham, your fathers, by
whom the promises remain;
And also with Michael, or Adam, the
father of all, the prince of all, the ancient
of days;
And also with Peter, and James, and
John, \\hom I have sent unto you, by
whom I ha^c ordained you and confirmed
you to be apostles, and especial witnesses
of my name, and bear the keys of your
ministry and of the same things which I
revealed unto them;
Unto whom I have committed the keys
of my kingdom, and a dispensation of
the gospel for the last times; and for the
fulness of times, in the which I will
gather together in one all things, both
which arc in heaven, and which are on
earth (D & C 27:5-13).
This account gives, among other
things, a resume of the way by which
Joseph Smith was called and re-
ceived his ordination to the Priest-
hood as indicated in our lesson. The
apostle Paul referred to the great-
ness of this dispensation when he
prophesied that the Lord:
. . . hath purposed in himself: That in
the dispensation of the fulness of times
he might gather together in one all things
in Christ, both which are in hea\en, and
which are on earth; even in him (Ephes-
ians 1 :9-io) .
Blessings Await You
Would you like to receive the
great blessing of being with the
Savior and of meeting and convers-
ing with the great persons of the
past and the prophets of our own
dispensation who have also made
their contribution to the advance-
ment of the Lord's work? The possi-
bility of your being in this great
assemblage is suggested in Doctrine
and Covenants, Section 27, verse 14:
And also with all those whom my Father
hath given me out of the world.
This is a wonderful promise given
to the saints of the latter days. But
how shall this great blessing come
to us? The remainder of the revela-
tion gives the answer. It is neces-
sary to
. . , take upon you my whole armor,
that ye may be able to withstand the evil
day, having done all, that ye may be able
to stand (D & C 27:15).
In taking upon oneself the full
armor of the Lord is meant to be
armored with ''truth/' ''righteous-
ness/' "faith/' the "Spirit/' and then
we shall have "peace" and eventual
"salvation."
Questions ior Discussion
1. Discuss: One should not command
him who is at the head of the Church.
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549
2. Give the three standards by which a
member of the Church may detect the
deceiver.
3. What relationship is there between
the objective of this lesson and Section
27:5-18?
4. Identify each personage mentioned
in Section 27:5-13 and indicate what serv-
ice, if any he has performed in our dis-
pensation.
5. How do verses 15-18 of Section 27
indicate the way by which we ma}' ha\'e
the blessing mentioned in verse 14 of
that revelation?
ViSiting cJeacher / iLessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 18— ''And Again I Say Unto You, Let Every Man Esteem His
Brother as Himself (D & C 38:25).
Christine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, November 3, 1959
Objective: To understand the true meaning of brotherhood.
A young girl was carrying a heavy
load in a basket on her back.
Someone who met her along the
way inquired if the load was heavy,
and if she needed help. As the
young girl lowered the basket she
answered with a smile, ''No, it's not
heavy, see inside, it's my brother."
Most of our troubles and burdens
in this life would disappear, if we
could learn the fundamental gospel
truth that our neighbors and all
mankind really are our brothers,
and if we could follow the Savior's
admonition to lo\'e our brothers as
ourselves.
The difficulties, differences, and
strife that, all too often, arise in
families, between neighbors, and
among the nations of the world, de-
velop because of our failure to rec-
ognize and accept the principle of
brotherhood. The central theme
of the Savior's message is the con-
cept of brotherhood. He knew that
if we would but love one another,
even as our Father in heaven loves
us, that peace and good will would
flourish throughout the world. Paul,
in his letter to the Galatians, ex-
pressed this thought when he said,
*\ . . by love serve one another. For
all the law is fulfilled in one word,
even in this; Thou shalt lo\'e thy
neighbour as thyself " (Gal. 5:13-14).
The concept of brotherhood is a
basic gospel ideal. We believe that
all men upon the earth are the literal
children of our Father in heaven,
and, as such, we are all brothers and
sisters. If we could all attain and
hold this concept and could learn
to love one another, our serious
problems would disappear and we
would learn the true meaning of
the Savior's statement, ''. . . Inas-
much as ve have done it unto one
of the least of these my brethren,
ye have done it unto me" (Mt.
25:40).
Our Lord, in The Doctrine and
Covenants' message (D & C 38:25),
exhorts us to esteem our brothers.
One who esteems another under-
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stands and respects him and holds
him in high regard. The founda-
tion of esteem and respect is under-
standing. It is an interesting fact
that we are often suspicious and
fearful of those we do not know.
Acquaintanceship and understand-
ing, however, can bring a knowledge
and an appreciation of the virtues
and good qualities they possess.
The story is told of two Arab
boys who saw an object moving to-
ward them over the horizon. Fear-
fully one said to the other, "It is a
beast. Come, let us hide in this
cave.'' As the object drew closer,
one of the boys exclaimed, "It is
not a beast, it's a man and our
enemv, let us be prepared to fight."
When the man drew close enough
to be recognized, the bovs both ex-
claimed joyfully, "He is not our
enemy, he is our brother!"
If we would try diligently really
to get acquainted with those we
misunderstand or dislike, we would
undoubtedly find that they possess
many qualities which we could learn
to esteem and respect. Jesus ad-
monished us to love our enemies.
Although this is extremely difficult
to do, it brings satisfying rewards.
Fulton Oursler once said:
To love an enemy is a kind of exquisite
common sense. Far from being naive or
foolish, it is the height of enlightened
selfishness, whose wisdom , nourishes the
well-being of body, mind, and spirit
(''Words to Li\e By," This Week Maga-
zine, February 26, 1950. Used by permis-
sion from the author and from This Week
Magazine) .
The spirit of the practice of
brotherhood should begin in the
home. If we make a conscientious
effort to understand each other in
the home and practice little acts of
courtesy and kindness, we will set
patterns which will reach out to our
neighbors and to our brothers and
sisters throughout the world. Paul,
in his letter to the Ephesians, in-
structed his brethren, ". . . be ve
kind one to another, tenderhearted,
forgiving one another, even as God
for Christ's sake hath forgiven vou
( Eph. 4:32). This, we should prac-
tice in our family relationships.
Our responsibility to esteem each
other as brothers is effecti\'ely ex-
pressed and summarized in this verse
which has been set to music:
No man is an island, no man stands alone.
Each man's joy is joy to mc, each man's
grief is my own.
We need one another so I will defend
Each man as my brother, each man as
my friend.
— Joan Whitney and Alex Kramer
(Copyright 1950 by Bourne, Inc., 136
West 52nd Street, New York, N. Y. Used
by permission of the writers and the copy-
right proprietor.)
Staff for the ^ged
Mabel Law Atkinson
Love is
The staff on which
The aged lean to walk
The quiet, silver-shadowed path
To night.
Vyork nfleeting — Physical Safety Factors
in the Home
(A Course Recommended for Use by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 2— Electricity
Charlotte A. Larsen
For Tuesday, November lo, 1959
Objective: To sho\\- that electricity is a wonderful convenience when it is kept
under control, but when used carelessly, it can be a most potent enemy.
PVERYONE should learn the
basic safety electrical rules and
then be diligent in carrying out
certain precautions. Electricity has
become such a commonplace thing
in our times, most people flick the
switch and take the results for grant-
ed. The lights go on, the washer
washes, and the thermostat triggers
the heating unit. We get into the
habit of thinking of power on the
basis of the individual functions it
accomplishes, and forget to evaluate
its overall effect.
Understand the Electric Power
in Your Home
The electric system w^orks on the
same principles as your w^ater system.
Volts, amperes, and watts are units
of electrical measure, just as quarts,
pounds, and 3^ards are also units of
measure. A yoJt represents electrical
pressure. For instance, the flow of
electric current in a wire is just
about the same as the flow of water
through a pipe. Pressure induces
flow in both instances. An ampere
is the quantity of electric current
that can flow through your wires.
Small wires restrict the flow of elec-
tricity, just as small pipes restrict
the flow of water. A watt is the unit
of power needed to do the work
electrically, and we are perhaps most
familiar with this term because it is
indicated on all the electrical ap-
pliances that we use.
Has Your House
Outgrown Its Wires.^
Many times we overlook the pos-
sibility that the wiring in our homes
may be in need of repair or it is not
up-to-date, not capable of carrying
the load our modern homes require.
Suppose one's home is fifteen years
old. When it was built it was wired
to take care of the simple appliances
such as irons, toasters, and waffle-
irons. The installation of larger ap-
pliances, using the same outlets,
dangerously overloads the wiring
system. One out of eight fires in
the homes is the result of misuse
of electricity. When too many ap-
pliances are operated at the same
time on an undersized wire, the wire
becomes overloaded and heated.
The insulation on the wires may
wear through, allowing live wires to
come into contact with each other.
This results in a ''short circuit" and,
possibly, a serious fire. The risk of
.fire is increased . by owners of in-
adequately wired homes who make
a practice of using oversized fuses
which allow wires to become serious-
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ly overloaded before the fuse blows
out and stops the current. Other
home owners go so far as to elimi-
nate fuse protection entirely by plac-
ing pennies behind blown-out fuses,
or by using pieces of tin foil.
Symptoms of Inadequate
Home Wiring
1. Lights flickering and dimming when
apphanccs are turned on.
2. Apphanccs operating slowly or not
as well as they should. Heat appliances,
such as toasters, irons, room heaters warm-
ing up too slowly.
3. Fuses blowing or circuit-breakers trip-
ping frequently.
4. Radios fading or sounding scratchy
when an appliance is turned on.
5. TV picture shrinking in size or
"wincing" when other appliances go into
action.
6. Too few outlets and switches where
needed.
7. Multiple ''octopus" connections used
for several appliances at once.
8. Long cords strung around rooms in
order to connect lamps or appliances.
9. Frequent overheating of motors.
Underwriters Laboratories
This is the principal ''safety organ-
ization" in the country, organized to
establish safety standards for ma-
terials and for inspection at the
factory level. Every man and wom-
an should be familiar with ''UL"
and demand electrical materials and
appliances bearing its label of ap-
proval for their protection.
Precautions in Use of
Household Electricity
1. Keep water away from electrical out-
lets.
2. Make certain hands are dr}' before
connecting or operating any electrical ap-
pliance; also make certain that appliance
is standing on dry surface.
3. Never use any type of electrical ap-
pliance while in the bathtub.
4. Keep all appliances out of the bath-
room.
5. Ne\er stick a foreign object into wall
outlets. A small child inserting a hairpin
could get a severe shock. Several kinds
of guards are available for wall outlets.
6. Never put your hand inside the radio
or TV when it is connected.
7. Always unplug an appliance before
tinkering with it.
8. Always disconnect cord appliances at
the plug end, grasping plug firmly and
pulling gently.
9. Do not store electric cords in
drawers where sharp-edged tools or knives
might cut them.
10. Do not use frayed cords. Tem-
porary tape repairs or exposed wires are
hazards for shocks and fires.
11. Never hang a cord over a nail; do
not wrap it around a pipe or bedpost or
run extension cords through doors to ad-
joining rooms.
12. Do not use an electric cord if the
plug is loose or a screw or bolt has fallen
out.
13. Do not tack cords to the wall. Use
insulated staples for this purpose which
can be bought at electrical or hardware
stores.
14. Electric fans should be out of reach
of children.
15. Use only weather-proof wire out-
doors.
16. Always disconnect any appliance
with exposed coils before cleaning.
17. Keep knives and forks out of the
toaster.
18. Always pull or open the main switch
to cut off current before doing any elec-
trical work,
19. Never tamper with a blown-out
fuse. The fuse is the safety-vahe on the
power line and is supposed to blow when
there is trouble.
20. Have an electrician or qualified per-
son show you and the children where and
how to replace burned-out fuses. Be sure
to know and use the right size fuse.
Questions
1. Name some evidences of inadequate
wiring.
2. Name some of the hazards of in-
adequate wiring.
JLiterature — America's Literature
A New Nation Speaks
Lesson 10— Benjamin Franklin, Printer (1706-1790)
Elder B riant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Golides,
Drydcn Press, New York, pp. 95-122)
For Tuesday, November 17, 1959
Objective: To review some of Franklin's contributions to the American character.
JONATHAN Edwards was born
^ three years earlier than Frankhn.
Just as we pointed out that Edwards
stands for American Puritanism,
with equal justice we may acknowl-
edge that Benjamin Franklin repre-
sents the Enlightenment in America.
Actually these two personal forces
have much in common, while at
the same time they exemplify con-
trasting extremes.
Although Franklin was a con-
temporary of Cotton Mather and
Jonathan Edwards, he also over-
lapped them. Discarding certain
phases of Puritanism, he adopted
part of the old Puritan core as nu-
cleus for his own life philosophy and
led a budding Nation into the pat-
tern of activity, communal responsi-
bility, and humanitarian ideals
which have provided enduring foun-
dations for its culture— and some of
its most humbling challenges.
The Timeless Fianklin
Of all American writers, none has
more nearly succeeded in annihilat-
ing time than has Franklin. Even
if an average present-day American
chose to shut out of his life every
evidence radiating from Franklin,
his would be a futile effort, for
Franklin has us surrounded, just as
he surrounded his own age and
every generation since. Throughout
the colonies it was Franklin who
was best-known and best-loved; in
personal influence no one else even
approached him. Within his own
lifetime he was accepted by his
countrymen as the living symbol of
a new era which could well be
named 'The Age of Franklin." He
was familiarly known as the grand-
father of his country long before
Parson Weems' biography of Wash-
ington began calling Washington
the country's father. In 1756, when
he was eight years ''retired" and in
his fiftieth year, he put into words
what his fellow men felt in their
hearts when he wrote a friend, 'The
people happen to love me. Perhaps
that is my fault." When he first
appeared before the King of France
as American Ambassador, dressed in
plain leather shoes, and almost
Quaker-plain garb, with no sword,
buckles, lace cuffs, or powdered wig,
the court burst into spontaneous
applause— the only time it ever did.
French schoolboys whom he had
never met sent him letters of adula-
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BENJAMIN FRANKLIN
tion, crowds followed him wherever
he walked until he was forced to
move his residence from Paris to the
village of Passy, and shopkeepers
even sold window space to those
who would pay for a good view of
this man, who seemed to them the
spirit of the new golden age. At
his death, the French National As-
sembly voted unanimously to wear
mourning for three days. And when
Thomas Jefferson was congratulated
on being chosen to replace Franklin
in France, Jefferson wisely answered,
''No one can replace him. Sir; I am
only his successor.''
The Versatile Franklin
For those who wear bi-focal glas-
ses, he is nearer to them than the
ends of their noses, for he invented
bi-focals. He had a lifelong enjoy-
ment from feeling a good tool in
his hand, and was always tinkering.
While it is doubtful that, as some
claim, he invented the rocking chair,
he perfected one in his study which
fanned him while he rocked. His
stove, which like the lightning rod
he refused to patent, since his mo-
tive was to do good rather than to
make profit, was to become the most
widely used of its day, not only
because of its increased efficiency
and more healthy circulation of air,
but because Franklin, America's first
great ''artist of the useful," designed
it to permit people to see the fire,
"which is in itself a pleasant thing."
He loved such scientific pranks as
electrocuting the turkey before the
astonished eves of those dinner
guests who were to consume it a
few hours hence. Ilis lifelong first
love was science: his life never
ceased being exciting because he
never ceased wanting to know why.
The kite experiment is deservedly
one of the great American myths.
In electrical research he was the first
great pioneer, making discoveries
which Robert A. Millikan has called
the most basic ever performed in
the field. As Carl Van Doren has
noted, he found electricity a curi-
osity and left it a science. Nothing
was too ordinary to evoke his inter-
est. It was he who brought to the
colonies the first Chinese rhubarb
and kohlrabi and Scotch cabbage
seeds. He discovered that Atlantic
storms progress against the wind
and that a storm pattern is circular,
thus laying the foundation for mod-
ern meteorology. In 1783 he wit-
nessed the ascent of the first hot-air
balloon sent aloft in Paris, and at
once wrote out a plan for offensive
aerial warfare. Carl Becker is cor-
rect in his assertion that "Nature
alone met him on equal terms."
Influence of Cotton Mather
Before Franklin ran away from
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Boston to Philadelphia at the age
of seventeen, Cotton Mather was his
minister. When young Ben re-
turned home a few years later, he
called on the Reverend Mather out
of respect and esteem. One of the
most influential books he exer read
was Cotton Mather's Essays to Do
Goody in which he found the phil-
osophy of work and wealth which
led to his worldly success. For Cot-
ton Mather, merely worshipping
God and contemplating the good
life was an empty husk: unless he
did good, religious man was noth-
ing. He likened man's struggles to
earn salvation to a man in a boat.
To reach eternal bliss he must pull
on both oars, the one oar being
prayer, the other ''some settled bus-
iness wherein a Christian would for
the most part spend most of his
time . . . that he mav glorify God
by doing Good for others and get-
ting of Good for himself." While
having a business was essential, he
must never enter one which he
"cannot comfortably \enture to pray
over."
The mature Franklin believed that
man truly worships God when he
does good for his fellow men; he
dedicated his life to such a worship.
At forty-two, so well had he fol-
lowed Poor Richard's advice of
keeping his shop until his shop kept
him, that he retired from active
business to devote the remainder of
his life to his interests in science
and to serving others. He followed
to the letter Cotton Mather's teach-
ing that:
'Tleasure was long since defined as
the result of some excellent action.
This pleasure is a sort of holy lux-
ury. Most pitiable are they who will
continue strangers to it."
Two years after his retirement,
Franklin wrote his mother: "I
would rather have it said of me, 'He
lived usefullv' than 'He died rich.' "
His great lesson to us is that the
truly wealthv man is not one who
has wealth, but one who uses it as
a means of helping others. This
Ben Franklin did so well that more
than two-thirds of the civic and hu-
manitarian movements in his home
town of Philadelphia during his stay
there were organized and pushed by
him. He organized the Junto, a
"club established for mutual im-
provement" among uneducated but
ambitious young tradesmen; he
established a circulating library be-
fore any such thing existed in Eng-
land; he organized a fire insurance
company, plus a volunteer fire bri-
gade; he reorganized the city police
force and succeeded in having streets
paved and trees planted to freshen
the city air; he started what were
to become the University of Penn-
sylvania, the Pennsylvania Hospital,
and The American Philosophical So-
ciety; he organized the defenses of
the colony, as he did all the fund-
raising drixes which made all the
above projects possible, and which
made Philadelphia's civic projects
the model for the Nation.
Franklin did it, but Cotton
Mather showed him the way. Later
in life Franklin wrote, "If I have
been, as you seem to think, a useful
citizen, the public owes the ad\an-
tage of it to that book {Essays to Do
Good).''
Some have seen Franklin as one
who worshipped worldly success for
its own sake. Unfortunately, many
Americans have thus misread him.
Actuallv, for Franklin, wealth was
a means for attaining a higher ^ood.
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nor was it an easy means, but one and made possible the adoption of
that constantly must be earned the Constitution,
through work and restraint. He Two years later, while in his
accepted word for word the basic eighty-third year, the public-spirited
point in Cotton Mather's Essays Franklin wrote a paper ''On the
to Do Goody namely, that ''since Legislative Branch," stating his
riches come from God, and are a views on the proposed Pennsylvania
mark of the divine favor," at least State Constitution. He worried
part of all one's profit is to be used that the upper house, designed to be
for the "happiness of mankind." chosen by the wealthy minority,
Thus, at his death, Franklin left a should ha\ e power equal to the low;
thousand pounds each to the cities er house chosen by the majority,
of Philadelphia and Boston, to be Then for the final time he spoke
loaned out to "young married arti- his attitude toward wealth:
ficcrs" who were to use the money
to impro\'e themselves, paving back ^' '^ supposed that wisdom is the
• , /i f 1 J. i.1 1 necessary concomitant or riches and that
mto the tunc one-tenth each vear ^ 4.1 ^i j i 1.
. -^ one man worth a thousand pounds must
plus five per cent mterest. Today a have as much wisdom as twenty who
Franklin Institute exists in each of have each only nine hundred and ninety-
these cities, still true to the found- ""^e; and why is property to be represent-
er's benevolent POals. f '"^ ?"• •. • • ^''r^"" property is a crea-
y Q fi -k £ 1 • ^^^^ ° society and is subject to the calls
In 1707, three years betore his of that society whenever its necessities
death, Franklin attended the Con- shall require it, even to its last farthing;
Stitutional Convention as one of its contributions are not to be considered
Pennsylvania's delegates. It was ^^ conferring a benefit on the public, en-
Franklm, deist and non-sectarian, ThLl!^\TlfTl '.' '\'i ^^^'r'^'"f
, ' 1 1 1 r> . ' ot honor and power, but as the return of
who suggested that the Convention an obligation previously received, or the
ask for God's guidance through payment of a just debt.
prayer, but since only three or four
agreed, his request was not fulfilled. If Franklin w^as loved it must
During seventeen days of the final have been, in part, because of his
debates, Franklin said nothing, civic conscience and his generous
Finally, when disagreement became spirit.
se\'ere, he asked for the floor, and
had a statement read reminding The Jomneymnn Printer
each delegate of his own fallibility Franklin was a lifelong devotee
bv referring to the evaluation of of science; it was always his hobby,
himself: "The older I grow, the He left business to free himself
more apt I am to doubt my own from its "tedious detail," and his
judgment, and to pay more respect public career he considered some-
to the judgment of others." While what an intrusion. From the time
"several parts" of the Constitution he became an apprentice printer at
he did not "approve at present," he the age of twelve until his death he
marveled "to find this system ap- considered himself a printer, and so
proaching so near to perfection as signed his will: "I, Benjamin Frank-
it does" and moved that it be adopt- lin, Printer, late Minister Plenipo-
ed. It ^^•as this plea for mutual com^ tentiary from the United States of
promise \^hich broke the deadlock America to the Court of France;
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557
now President of Pennsylvania. . . ."
Printing was his trade, and a man's
trade should be his pride. During
his European years he made friends
with the quality printers wherever
he went, and during his nine-year
stay at Passy he delighted his friends
(and himself) by printing his whim-
sical Bagatelles on his private print-
ing press.
Lacking privilege and influence,
liberty-loving workingmen of the
eighteenth century had no means of
getting their views before their fel-
lows, and thus achieving identity,
save through the public press. Every-
where in the colonies the local print-
er who put out the newspaper
became the champion of liberalism.
Leader in such a movement was
James Franklin's Courant, pub-
lished in Boston from 1721 to 1726
until it was suppressed for opposing
those who ruled the community
with a strong hand. Though less
than tactful in his attacks on local
authorities, James Franklin set the
pattern for his brother Benjamin
when he replied to Cotton Mather
that it is the function of a news-
paper to give both sides of a story,
and that to try to make all men
think alike is ''absurd in philosophy,
impious in Religion, and a faction
in the state.''
In 1731, Ben Franklin printed
his first Apology for Printers, which
he ran annually thereafter; in 1740
his second Apology appeared, in
which he stated his belief that ''It
is a principle among printers, that
when truth has fair play, it will
always prevail o\'er falsehood."
Therefore, he printed both sides
always, yet always avoided anything
libelous. In 1741 he established The
General Magazine, the first in the
colonies, dedicated to printing news
and "select pieces of poetry, essays,
controversial, humorous, philosophi-
cal, religious, moral or political." As
with his newspaper, its purpose was
to enlighten the public, but even
more to educate it.
Franklin's unqualified faith in the
beneficial powers of the printed
word is stated so well in the follow-
ing quotation that it is still displayed
in the print shops of America:
Deal with me and with all men accord-
ing to thv Holv Will, but let the printed
word which brings men light, and let the
printed word which makes men free, and
let the printed \\'ord, through which Thy
Word is spread, go on . . . and on . . .
forever.
While still a young man and a
full-time printer, Franklin com-
posed for himself an epitaph stated
in the jargon of the printshop. Un-
derstandablv it is one of the best-
known in the language:
The Body of
B Franklin Printer,
Like the Cover of an old Book
Its Contents torn out
And Stript of its Lettering & Gilding
Lies here, Food for \\'orms.
But the Work shall not be lost;
For it will, (as he believ'd) appear
once more,
In a new and more elegant Edition
Revised and corrected.
By the Author.
Poor Richard
Once Ben Franklin, homespun
philosopher on work, wealth, and
doing good, was given the widest
circulation of any local publication
in the colonies by Ben Franklin,
Printer, the combination was to
prove a memorable one. Used as
filler to surround the useful but dry
facts of the almanac, one of which
hung in practically every home, the
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savings of Poor Richard appeared
annually from 1733 to 1758. Indis-
putable evidence that this shrewd
printer knew his public was the sale
of more than ten thousand copies
within the first three months of
publication. From then on Poor
Richard Saunders became an Ameri-
can institution, the first well-known
character in American fiction, even
though onlv a sketch.
His sayings have become a part
of American folklore, as familiar as
the nursery rhymes or the Bible:
'*God helps those who help them-
selves"; '*Dost thou love life? Then
do not squander time; for that's
the stuff life is made of"; ''It is hard
for an empty sack to stand up-
right"; ''Experience keeps a dear
school, but fools will learn in no
other, and scarce in that"; "What
maintains one vice, would bring up
two children"; "If you would have
your business done, go; if not,
send"; "When the well's dry, they
know the worth of water"; "The
second vice is lying, the first is run-
ning in debt"; "Diligence is the
mother of good luck"; "He that ris-
eth late must trot all day, and shall
scarce overtake his business at
night"; "A ploughman on his legs
is higher than a gentleman on his
knees":
Then plough deep while sluggards sleep.
And you shall have corn to sell and to
keep.
And
Early to bed, and early to rise,
Makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise.
While many of these sayings
were borro\\ed from others, almost
all of them were carefully and ef-
fectively rephrased in Franklin's
own words, as in, "Having been
poor is no shame, but being
ashamed of it is"; or "Well done is
better than well said"; or "There
are three things extremely hard-
steel, a diamond, and to know thy-
self." Others seem to have no pred-
ecessors, and express directly his
personal beliefs: "Doing an injury
puts you below your enemy; reveng-
ing one makes you but even with
him; forgiving it sets you above
him"; and "The bra\'e and the wise
can both pity and excuse when cow-
ards and fools show no mercy"; and,
finally, his central credo, "The most
acceptable service of God is doing
good to man."
Through the sober Puritan vir-
tues of honesty, frugality, sincerity,
and industry, Franklin taught anew
the way to wealth; through the re-
sponsible Puritan virtues of respon-
sibility and humility he taught the
principle of stewardship of talents
which enables men to repay debts
both to society and to a benevolent
God; through the stern Puritan vir-
tue of self-discipline he taught how
to arrive at self-mastery and self-
knowledge. Surely, in turn, the
individual debt to him, as also the
national pattern of doing and shar-
ing, is not inconsiderable.
Thoughts for Discussion
1. What virtues of Puritanism did
Franklin re-emphasize in his own life and
philosophy?
2. How can you justifv Franklin's re-
tirement from acti\e business at age forty-
two?
3. In view of the printers' role in co-
lonial society, why did Franklin call him-
self a printer all through his life?
4. How do you account for the phe-
nomenal success of Franklin's sayings of
Poor Richard? Are they utilized in mod-
ern business practices?
Social Science — Spiritual Living
in the Nuclear Age
Lesson 2— Developing Emotional Maturity
Elder Blaine M. Porter
For Tuesday, November 24, 1959
Objective: To gain an understanding of what emotional maturity is and how it
can be evaluated.
npHE degree and quality of emo-
tional maturity which we possess
are central factors operating to
determine the extent to which we
may realize the goals of spiritual
living which have been discussed in
the past lesson and which will be
considered in future ones. The rich-
ness or poverty of our lives depends
upon our maturity. If we are suc-
cessfully to meet the challenges and
responsibilities of living meaning-
fully and spiritually in a nuclear age,
it is essential that we develop a
clear understanding of emotional
maturity and that we exert every
effort toward increasing the degree
and quality of our emotional ma-
turity and nurturing its growth in
our children.
An Eternal Frocess
An individual grows and develops
in many different ways, from the
time of conception, through in-
fancy, childhood, adolescence, adult-
hood, and, in some respects, as long
as he lives. In fact, we may be cor-
rect in saying that developing
emotional maturity is an eternal
process. Many of the changes which
come about by the growth process
are quite readily observable. For
example, some of the changes in
the physical structure of the indi-
vidual can be seen by the naked eye,
while those and many others not
so readily visible can be easily meas-
ured. Likewise, through the use of
intelligence scales, we believe that
w^e can quite accurately measure
mental traits and their growth.
Other changes, such as those which
come about as a result of emotional
development of the individual, are
less tangible and, therefore, more
difficult to measure.
It should be remembered that
growth takes place within the limi-
tations of certain principles and
laws. Failure to conform to these
laws or abide by these principles
may well cause a deviation in the
rate and the course of the develop-
ment. For example, the body has
certain minimum requirements
which must be met in order for
physical growth to proceed normal-
ly. Severe malnutrition may not
only affect the rate of growth but
may permanently affect the end
product. Similarly, a lack of neces-
sary experiences and/or correct guid-
ance may result in the slowing down
or deviation of one's emotional de-
velopment. This does not infer
that experiences and/or guidance
are the only factors which affect
one's emotional growth. It is used
only as an illustration.
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Conehtion of Matiiritv and Age
We might think of emotional
development as a process which
should be going on at all ages,
whether an individual is five years
old or fifty. Since one's behavior
patterns are directly related to the
level of one's emotional develop-
ment, we should expect a reasonable
correlation between these and one's
chronological age. To illustrate: a
two-year-old child may exhibit be-
havior which is mature for his age
but which would be immature if
judged on the basis of adult stand-
ards. On the other hand, a person
thirty or forty years of age may be-
have in a manner representative of
a twelve or thirteen-year-old. Some
variation is normal and is to be ex-
pected as long as it is not too pro-
nounced. However, we do have evi-
dence that an individual does not
always develop physically, socially,
intellectually, spiritually, and emo-
tionally at the same rate. If one's
emotional development lags far be-
hind one's physical and intellectual
development, it opens the door for
serious potentialities for harm. But
it is possible for an individual to be-
come an adult physically in eighteen
or twenty years and still have his
emotional development arrested at
six or ten or twelve.
By this standard we might say that a
person is properly maturing — whether he
be five years old or fifty years old — only
if his power over his environment is
matched by a growing awareness of what
is involved in what he does. If his powers
of execution forge ahead while his powers
of understanding lag behind, he is back-
ward in his psychological growth and
dangerous to have around (Overstreet,
Harry A., The Mature Mind, pp. 44-45,
W. W. Norton & Company, Inc., New
York, N. Y., used by permission).
Traits of Maturity
Determining whether or not an
individual is mature is not a quick
or easy job. However, there are
certain traits which seem to repre-
sent maturity that should be help-
ful to us. One should keep in mind
that probably very few individuals
will possess all of the traits or
characteristics which are to follow,
and the absence of any one or two
of these traits does not necessarily
imply that an individual is imma-
ture. If we assume that emotional
maturity exists in varying degrees,
then we should be in a position to
understand it more clearly. The
evaluation of emotional maturity
might be compared to the measure-
ment of intelligence. Individuals
are not simply classified as ''dull"
or ''bright" but are reported as to
their rank on a continuum. Let us
then proceed with this concept as
we try to review some criteria for
emotional maturitv.
One other precaution which we
should observe is that we base our
conclusions on traits or behavior
patterns which typify or represent
an individual's personality in order
to avoid the pitfall of passing judg-
ment on behavior which is exhibited
only rarely or only once. In connec-
tion with this, we should also at-
tempt to be as objective and scien-
tific in our thinking as possible. It
is not easy to look at ourselves and
try to answer the question: Am I
emotionally mature? Asking a per-
son if he is emotionally mature is
analogous to asking a comedian if
he is funny.
Let us examine some of the ques-
tions that we might ask ourselves,
some of the criteria that we might
use in evaluating the development
of our children, and some that we
might use as goals toward which we
may be working. We need to keep
LESSON DEPARTMENT
561
in mind not only what we have
achieved but where we are going.
As Mark Twain once said, "The
important thing is not where we
stand, but in which direction we are
moving." The following traits char-
acterize a mature individual:
1. Acceptance of self and others.
The mature person accepts his
chronological age, his body build,
his capacities and limitations for
what they are. He is able to accept
himself as he is without attempting
to deny, distort, or exaggerate quali-
ties or characteristics.
Consider the reaction of a person
between the ages of twenty-fi\'e and
sixty-fi\'e or se\'enty who is asked
how old he is. Think how often he
will either skirt the question, try to
avoid answering it, or distort the
truth. A mature person is able to
face the fact that you and I and
everyone else is a year older with
every passing year; therefore, to try
to deny one's own age and distort
it is a symptom of immaturity in
this respect.
This seems to be a part of our
conditioning in American culture.
There is a very narrow age range
which is really acceptable to us.
Until one reaches about the age of
eighteen, most indi\iduals are try-
ing to be and wish they were older
than they actually are; so, when they
report their age they push it up as
much as thev can. Some, because
of physical appearance, are able to
pass for a year or two or three older
than they actually are. We ha\e a
rather narrow range of acceptable
age— between about eighteen and
twenty-three. If someone asks,
''How old are you?" one can reply
twenty-one without any hesitancy
or apology, but soon after that it
is difficult for many people to let a
year pass with e\'ery twehe months.
Age is just one illustration. This
could apply to our social skills, our
intellectual abilities, our physical
build, etc. If we are really mature,
we look at what we are, and we
do the best we can with what ^^e
have, and we accept that.
In addition to accepting himself,
the mature individual accepts others
for what they are, granting them the
right to have different standards,
values, and beliefs, even though he
may not accept those standards and
values and beliefs for himself. He
can perceive and appreciate the hu-
manitv of those about him.
2. Adaptability and ilexihiMiy. The
mature person is flexible enough to
adapt himself to new situations
without an undue amount of frus-
tration or disorganization. In some
people, childhood patterns are so
firmly established that thcv domi-
nate the behavior, thus making it
difficult or impossible to participate
in the normal adult enjoyment of
loving, working, and creating. With
the increasing number and the
rapidity of changes in our time, this
particular characteristic appears to
assume more and more importance
in the proper development of an in-
dividual, because, in many respects,
we have more changes in a decade
than past generations had in a life-
time.
3. Orientation io our euYiion-
uieni. The mature person has an
appreciation of man's relation to the
universe and to his society. He has
worked out a philosophy of life
which gives him a clear-cut set of
values and ethical standards of be-
havior. It seems to me that we as
Latter-day Saints have an edge on
most other people in this respect
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because of the kind of philosophy
of hfe and orientation to environ-
ment which we are taught. It is
important, however, that we develop
one which is functional. We will
explore the area of religious matur-
it}^ in another lesson.
The mature individual balances
the past, present, and future accord-
ing to their own relative importance.
Many of you have known individ-
uals who are either living in the past
or the future. Take the middle-aged
businessman who has been only
moderatelv successful, who con-
stantly relates his experiences as a
star quarterback on his high school
football team. This kind of be-
havior suggests that life at present
is not as satisfying as he wants it
to be; therefore, he is constantly
reaching into the past for unusual,
exciting, and satisfying experiences.
We see this behavior represented on
the part of some veterans who are
constantly reliving war experiences
that happened several years ago. On
the other hand, we see some indi-
viduals who are always living for the
future. Note how a child will live
for his next birthday, for Christmas,
for when school is out, or when sum-
mer camp rolls around. It may be
appropriate for children, but not for
adults. It is desirable to plan wisely
for the future, but this is vastly dif-
ferent than living for sometime in
the future, when one hopes to find
life satisfying and rewarding.
As an illustration let us look at a
particular case. For a certain young
woman life was going to be happy
and good and satisfying when she
graduated from high school; but it
was not. Next, it was to be when
she found her marriage partner. But
marriage didn't bring the happiness
5he expected. Then, it was to be
when her husband received his
Ph.D. Finally, it was to be when
he was established in a job, but she
still has not found what she wants,
and she probably never will because
none of these experiences provides
the satisfaction she expects. But
she is always hoping that one will.
A mature individual is able to bal-
ance the past, the present, and the
future in the perspective in which
they should be, and find appropri-
ate satisfaction in all three of them.
He faces reality, accepting the facts
of his experience, whether they be
pleasant or unpleasant.
A distorted sense of realities im-
pairs the effectiveness and satisfac-
tion of work and life. We need to
be oriented to our environment. We
need to understand the nature of
people and what can be expected of
others.
4. Emotional independence. Life
begins with complete dependence
upon the parents, and the goal is
to achieve the capacity to live inde-
pendently of the parental organiza-
tion. Someone suggested that
human beings are children for so
long they never really get over it.
Most of us would admit that it is
more pleasurable and comfortable to
be free of responsibility and to be
dependent upon our parents or
someone else. The development of
independence is not any easy task,
and the struggle is not made any
easier by parents who insist upon
''hanging on" to their children. De-
veloping independence is a two-way
responsibility, and, in most cases,
it is more difficult for parents to
become independent of their chil-
dren than it is for children to
become independent of their par-
ents.
Some people never overcome the
LESSON DEPARTMENT
563
dependence upon others sufficiently
to make a go of life. Others are
able to struggle through life with all
kinds of supports from friends, rel-
atives, etc. Higher on the scale are
those who seem to manage fine until
some hardship strikes and then they
regress, perhaps resorting to some
escape mechanism such as neurosis,
alcoholism, daydreaming, etc. Still
higher on the scale are those who
meet life by repressing their desires
for help and probably generate seri-
ous tensions because of their repres-
sions. At the top of the scale is
the fully independent individual
who is able to meet and face life
under most any circumstance and
still maintain his efficient function-
ing.
Over - dependence, over - attach-
ments, extreme submissiveness are
all symptoms of immaturity in this
area of emotional independence.
5. Socialized behavior. The ma-
ture person is familiar with the
customs, folkways, mores, laws, and
restrictions of his society, and has a
reasonable degree of respect for tra-
dition and authority. He has an
understanding viewpoint regarding
other people and groups other than
those to which he belongs.
In general, he chooses his course
of action with reference to estimated
maximum long-term satisfactions
for himself and for the entire group
affected. His social behavior is de-
termined, in part, on the basis of
principles, rather than on selfish in-
terests or personal pleasure or gain
at the expense of others.
He is in harmony with his con-
science and this conscience should
be integrated with and should sup-
port the tendencies of growth to-
ward independence, responsibility,
productivity, and co-operation.
6. Healthy attitudes towards sex,
lovCy and marriage. The mature
person will have successfully passed
through the stages of sexual develop-
ment to the point of accepting his
own sex nature, and incorporate that
nature into a life plan, so that he
is able to make creative, mutually
fulfilling, heterosexual relationships.
The sexual feelings are important
in the emotional development of
the individual. In fact, if sexuality
does not evolve properly, the whole
process of emotional development
can be influenced. The mature
adult will have attitudes toward
sexuality which lead to the proper
balancing of need for love, self-love,
and self-interest, and which provide
for a high degree of enjoyment of
the loving, activity, interest, and re-
sponsibility involved in the relation-
ship with the loved one, work, and
friends.
7. An integrated philosophy oi
life. A mature person integrates
what he knows, and lives by that
integrated knowledge. He has an
appreciation for and sincere interest
in the welfare of the whole society
and is sincerely aware of the long-
range consequences of what he does.
There are certain basic values and
virtues that need to be preserved at
all costs. For example, he has the
feeling that life has a purpose and
believes that there is something in
one's judgment of justice and truth
which is in harmony with the nature
of the universe and with God. The
mature person need not be a con-
firmed conformist. He may be a
rugged individualist, but he will be
as rugged in his adherence to the
basic principles in which he believes
as he is in his own self-reliance..
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These principles contribute to his
maturity by enlarging his thinking,
by helping him to a\oid confusion,
by rescuing him from prolonged
debate. They give him a basis for
decision and action. ''They are like
the north star, a compass, or a light-
house to a sailor; they keep him on
his course despite winds and cur-
rents and weather." Some people
confuse principles with rules. A
principle is something inside one; a
rule is an outward restriction. To
obey a principle one has to use his
mental and moral powers. To obey
a rule one has only to do what the
rule says. Dr. Frank Crane pointed
out the difference neatly: ''A rule
supports us by the armpits over
life's mountain passes. A principle
makes us sure footed."
The mature adult has carefully
investigated, analyzed, and consid-
ered some of the major philosophies
regarding the world, the universe,
and its people, and worked out a
personal philosophy of life that is
compatible with his conscience, and
which resolves itself into a mean-
ingful whole.
8. Acceptance of Tesponsihility.
The mature adult accepts his role
as a human being, and he accepts
the fact that human experience is
a shared experience; human prob-
lems, shared problems. He accepts
the responsibility for his own acts
rather than trying to lay the blame
onto someone else.
9. Integration oi personality. The
mature adult is able to make adjust-
ments with a minimum of conflict.
He can gracefully accept praise and
recognition. He organizes and
orders his efforts in pursuing his
objectixes by using systematic meth-
ods as a means of achieving them.
He is not easily aroused to anger.
LESSON DEPARTMENT
565
The person who is frequently ''tell-
ing someone off," seeking ''to get
even" with someone, or crossing
people off his list, is immature in
this respect. As imperfect human
beings we must learn to control
angry feelings. Then we should
work toward the goal of mature
living wherein hostile feelings sel-
dom, if ever, exist. Christ set a
classic example of this kind of ma-
ture response when he was on the
cross being ridiculed, tortured, and
put to death and said, ". . . Father,
forgive them; for they know not
what they do . . ." (Luke 23:34).
There is no evidence of his control-
ling feelings of anger, but rather
de\'eloping true feelings of under-
standing and compassion.
The mature adult is relatively
free from feelings of inferiority,
guilt, hostilitity, egotisms, and com-
petitiveness. He can accept and
objectively evaluate criticism of
himself or of his behavior. He is
kind, considerate, creative, and un-
derstanding.
10. Knowledge. The mature per-
son has a store of knowledge which
he has been building upon during
the past and which he continues to
build upon during the future. One
can never know, probably, all that
he would like to know, but the ma-
ture person is well informed in the
specific areas of his immediate re-
sponsibilities. An indi\idual who
attempts to bluff his way, who pre-
tends to have knowledge he does
not have, or who attempts to justify
his ignorance on the basis that it
isn't worth knowing, is displaying
symptoms of immaturity.
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enough to understand this concept
of emotional maturity must assume
the responsibility of trying to evalu-
ate our maturity. The key to this
challenge is found in a recent theme
sponsored by the Church: "Be
Honest With Yourself." When you
ask yourself, ''How mature am I?"
it will not be very useful unless you
reallv answer as honestly and as
objecti\'ely as you can.
As has been implied throughout
this lesson on emotional maturity,
we are not here setting up a stand-
ard of perfection that any person at
any time of life can be expected
completely to attain. But it is prop-
er, nevertheless, when we speak of
emotional maturity to discuss not
only what is probable or actual, but
also what is possible and potential.
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ance of self and others?
2. The old timer said, 'T've seen many
changes come in my day and We been
agin' every one of 'em." What are some
other examples of the lack of adaptability
and flexibility?
3. Give illustrations of relationships in-
\olving dependence, independence, and
interdependence.
4. Contrast healthy with unhealthy atti-
tudes toward sex, love, and marriage.
5. Discuss how some people who lack
an integrated philosophy find it necessary
to do some reinterpreting and rationaliz-
ing in times of crises or disappointment.
6. Give additional illustrations of how
anger may represent immature behavior.
Supplementary Refereiiees
Menninger, \\'illiam C.: Self-Under-
standing, Chicago, Science Research
Associates. (Axailable from Extension
Division, Brigham Young University,
Provo, Utah. Approximately fifty cents.)
Skidmorc, Rex A., "Maturity — What
Is It?" The ImpTOvement Eid, May 1952,
pp. 368-569.
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I bake and bake, but somehow
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And oftentimes I wonder —
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The cookies straight in boy.
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That I share with all who are
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A hundred little Johnnies
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Long to haunt the swim pool
Where the other boys all go.
A hundred little Johnnies
Knew toil and discipline
To learn to make the music
We bathe our spirits in.
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Mo\e up the hillside furrows,
Coming inland from the waters
On their gray-white wings,
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Of sea and air and sky.
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uiarvest
Hazel Loomis
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Your streaming yellow ribbons!
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How wide your fields — your farms
Are miles — not acres — your big heart bursting
With the bounties of the land!
Rise elevators, rise, like men in armor!
Steel girders taut outside a heavy load.
Wise is the man, from youth, who garners.
Storing safely in a bin, weighing,
Harvesting the golden kernels.
Until all is sathered in.
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Tliank you so very much for the fine
articles in the "Woman's Sphere" (July
1 q -Q ) . Congratulations to President Spaf-
ford on the new high appointments.
— Lcona II. Carlson
Utah's Mother of the Year
Richmond, Utah
We all enjoy The Reiki Society Maga-
zine so \ery much and surely appreciate
the very real and lasting part it plays in
our lives. We have been so greatly en-
riched with the lovely stories and poetry
contained therein and look forward eagerly
to its coming every month. We have
many converts and many investigators here
in our ward, and the Relief Society lessons
and the Magazine are two of the most
con\incing arguments we have to offer.
— Sandra McDonald
Washington, D.C.
I enjoy reading every article in the
Aiagazine. The recent series of articles
on seeing (March 1958 - May 1959, by
Jean Ridges Jennings) has been especially
interesting to me, as I have six children
to sew for — two girls and four boys.
—Mrs. Lyle Murdock
Driggs, Idaho
\\nien my seventeen-year-old daughter
finished reading "Such a Heavenly Secret,"
by Mabel Law Atkinson in the July issue
of the Magazine, she said with the en-
thusiasm of youth, "Mother, this Maga-
zine has more bounce to the ounce than
anything else in print. The lessons are so
well written, they are just marvelous, and
the stories — well, there is nothing else
like them. They are all written on the
family plan, clean, wholesome, and up-
lifting. Even the poetry is outstanding."
I never attempt to read the Magazine
until she has finished it. If I want it for
something special, I will find it in her
room. I was pleased to know that she
was covering it so thoroughly,
—Eva N. Dalton
President
Panguitch Stake Relief Society
Circleville, Utah
Page 570
I feel I must let you know how mucf
I enjoy the new format of the Magazine.
The covers are so very beautiful. I have
always loved the Magazine and could not
see how it could be improved, but it cer-
tainly has'. The quality of the poems,
stories, articles, and pictures is something
to be proud of. I must comment on the
wonderful lessons. All the courses are so
interesting and worthwhile. As literature
class leader, I am especially happy with
the marvelous courses in American litera-
ture. For the first time, history, English
literature, American literature, and the
early beginnings of our country are falling
into place as a complete and unified whole.
I found the article "Would You Write
Poetry" by Sylvia Probst Young in the
May issue very helpful and would like to
see more on this subject.
— Erma Braack
Raymond, Washington
I am very glad for the Magazines. There
is a lot to learn in them, and it is very
kind of my cousin to send the Magazines
to me. I tell all my friends what is in the
Magazines, and they are very interested. I
would certainly miss my Magazines if I
didn't have them.
— Annie Elizebeth Kaehme
Kolding, Denmark
I have enjoyed so often the poetry in
The Relief Society Magazine. Of course
the Magazine is indispensable to me in
my Relief Society teaching which I have
been doing for several years. For the past
four or five years I ha\'e been teaching
the literature lessons, which have always
been my first love.
— Mrs. John Burns
Torrance, California
I have spent many pleasant hours read-
ing The Rehef Society Magazine and have
always found in it guidance and inspira-
tion for my life. Many thoughts I find
in this Magazine return when they are
most needed to help me acquire a cheer-
ful attitude toward everyday duties.
— Maralyn Hall
Emmett, Idaho
THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford __----. President
Marianne C. Sharp _--_-- First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen --------- Second Counselor
Hulda Parker ------ Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Josie B. Bay V/inniefred S. Alton W. Hunt
Edith S. Elliott Christine H. Robinson Manwarmg Wealtha S. Mendenhall
Florence J. Madsen Alberta H. Christensen Elna P. Haymond Pearle M. Olsen
Leone G. Layton Mildred B. Eyring Annie M. Ellsworth Elsa T. Peterson
Blanche B. Stoddard Charlotte A. Larsen Mary R. Young Irene B. Woodford
Evon W. Peterson Edith P. Backman Mary V. Cameron Fanny S. Kienitz
Aleine M. Young
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor .--_-------- Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor ---__---.- Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager ---.-..__- Belle S. Spafford
VOL. 46
SEPTEMBER 1959
NO. 9
Co
ntents
SPECIAL FEATURES
Birthday Congratulations to President David O. McKay 573
Care of the Aged in Relation to Eternal Values Delbert L. Stapley 574
The North Central States Mission Preston R. Nibley 582
The Real Worth of The Relief Society Magazine Daniel H. Ludlow 589
Fresh Up With Sunday 599
FICTION
Next Verona T. Bo wen 584
Mother's Late Day Elizabeth C. McCrimmon 603
"A" Is for Apron — Part II Ilene H. Kingsbury 610
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 570
Sixty Years Ago 594
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 595
Editorial: A Standard for Government Vesta P. Crawford 596
The Four Standard Works of the Church to Be Issued in New Edition 597
New Serial "The New Day" to Begin in October 604
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 614
Birthday Congratulations 640
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Recipes From the North Central States Mission Diana F. Child 600
Rocking-Chair Land Vernessa M. Nagle 605
Bulbs for Winter Blooming Vesta P. Crawford 606
Althea Bingham Bitton — Woman of Artistic Hobbies 609
LESSONS FOR DECEMBER
Theology — Some Future Events Roy W. Doxey 621
Visiting Teacher Messages — "He That Receiveth My Law and Doeth It,
the Same Is My Disciple" Christine H. Robinson 627
Work Meeting — Fire Hazards Charlotte A. Larsen 628
Literature — Benjamin Franklin, Retired Briant S. Jacobs 630
Social Science — No Lesson Outlined 638
POETRY
Harvest — Frontispiece Hazel Loomis 569
September Afternoon Dorothy J. Roberts 581
Enlisted Eva Willes Wangsgaard 588
The Edge of Summer Grace Ingles Frost 593
Summer Was Too Brief Mabel Law Atkinson 598
The Windows of Heaven Vera Geddes Merrill 609
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PRESIDENT DAVID O. McKAY
Page 572
[Birthdayi K^ongratulations to
Lrresiaent ^JJavia (y. li icJ\ay[
On His Eighty-Sixth Birthday, September 8, 1959
npHE General Board of Rehef Society and Rehef Society sisters in all the
stakes and missions of the Church extend birthday congratulations to
President David O. McKay on his eighty-sixth birthday. They are grateful
for his inspired spiritual leadership and for his wise counsel. Relief Society
sisters in many lands rejoice in their privilege of living upon the earth in
the days of the restored gospel, comforted and uplifted by tlie words and
the faith of the Prophet, Seer, and Revelator of the Lord.
The influence of President McKay's noble life and the power of his
teachings are a continued blessing to Latter-day Saint families. The sisters
of Relief Society give thanks for the direction he has given for the perfect-
ing of their homes, for rearing their children, and for spiritual enlighten-
ment. They are particularly grateful for the guidance he has given for
their development and service in Relief Society.
With seeking hearts they cherish his counsel:
''God can be and is everywhere present with his Spirit, but . . . there is
no one in life who can make us feel nearer heaven than can mother, a
true mother. . . .
''Wifehood is glorious, but motherhood is sublime. . . .
"Our children hunger for true religion, and there is no better place to
instill it into their hearts than in the home. ... I pray God's blessing to rest
upon each of you . . . upon your daughters and your sons. . . .
"I have nothing but commendation in my heart for the work of the
Relief Society. . . . Divine sanction was bestowed upon the Relief Society by
the Prophet of the Lord. No wonder you have wielded and will continue
to wield such influence in the Church and country. . . . There is not a
remote hamlet in any part of this Church but is benefited by the lifting
influence of the Relief Society. . . .
"God bless you mothers — home builders, angels of mercy. May your
influence continue to spread, and your sweet, tender services bring comfort
and consolation to those in need, I pray in the name of Jesus Christ. . . ."
Page 573
Care of the Aged in Relation
to Eternal Values
Delheit L. StapJey
Of the Council of the Twelve
[Address Delivered at the Roeky Mountain Regional Conference on Aging,
May 8, 1959]
MY assignment is to give an
inspirational message to this
conference of delegates, as-
sembled here in the interest of
improved care and increased oppor-
tunities for the aged of America.
Benefited by medical science, we
have learned much about the care
of people; therefore, the span of life
continues to be lengthened, which
adds daily to the growing number of
elderly folk. We have not, how-
ever, learned sufficiently how to
plan adequately and offer them sat-
isfying opportunities to enjoy life
productively and to the fullest for
beneficial blessings and happiness.
Their security and happiness are
the prime concern of this and fu-
ture generations.
As I meditated what I should say
to this group, the task assumed
challenging proportions. The pur-
pose of your gathering is most com-
mendable, concerned as you are
with humanities as it relates to the
care and future of the aged. You
are answering in a practical way
Cain's question to the Lord: 'Am
I my brother's keeper?" You are
also fulfilling the second great com-
mandment as enunciated by Jesus,
''Thou shalt love thy neighbour as
thyself." This admonition is sec-
ond only to the first and great com-
Page 574
mandment to '\ . . love the Lord
thy God with all thy heart, and
with all thy soul, and with all thy
mind." Love of brother or sister
or neighbor, then, is second only to
the love of God.
John the beloved apostle put it
this way: 'And this commandment
have we from him, That he who
loveth God love his brother also"
(I John 4:21). The apostle John
also asked this significant question:
"But whoso hath this world's good,
and seeth his brother have need, and
shutteth up his bowels of compas-
sion from him, how dwellcth the
love of God in him?" Then he kind-
ly admonished and counseled, "My
little children, let us not love in
word, neither in tongue; but in deed
and in truth" (I John 3:17-18).
This giving of ourselves in the
interest of others fulfills another
teaching of the Savior:
. . . but whosoever will be great among
you, shall be your minister: and whosoever
of you will be the chiefest, shall be serv-
ant of all. For even the Son of man
came not to be ministered unto, but to
minister, and to give his life a ransom
for many (Mark 10:43-45).
Now, why all this concern about
the social and economic problems
of the aged? What has inspired and
CARE OF THE AGED IN RELATION TO ETERNAL VALUES
575
motivated men and women like
yourselves to plan and program
happy environments and creative,
fruitful, and joyful living for the
evening years of mortal life? Could
it be we see more clearly with the
eye of faith the Fatherhood of God
and the brotherhood of man, and
perhaps more significantly compre-
hend the purpose of man upon the
earth and the obligation each of us
has for the other?
"Happiness," taught Joseph Smith,
whom the Latter-day Saints accept
as a true prophet of God, "is the
object and design oi our existence;
and will he the end theieoij if we
pursue the path that leads to itJ'
This is an exalted and significant
thought with hopeful assurance to
the faithful and devoted of God's
children. This statement accords
with the teachings of the Savior,
who said, ''I am come that they
might have life, and that they
might have it more abundantly"
(John 10:10).
\17HY should man be so favored?
Because man, according to re-
vealed knowledge, is a child of God,
and ''Men are," said an ancient
prophet, ''that they might have joy"
(2 Nephi 2:25). Man, of all Gods
creations, is his greatest miracle, for
he is created in the image and like-
ness of his eternal Parent and en-
dowed with the gifts, qualities, and
powers also characteristic of the
Eternal Father of the spirits of all
mankind.
If we were to break the human
body down into its component parts
and study its many and varied func-
tions and processes, we would stand
amazed at its beauty of form, its
glory of superior workmanship, its
perfection of performance, and pow-
er of reproduction! President J.
Reuben Clark, Jr., of the First Presi-
dency of The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints, speak-
ing to the theme, "Man, God's
Greatest Miracle," made this pro-
found observation:
It is not possible for me even to suggest
the infinity of physical detail known only
through the microscope that makes up
the universe of physical man. They form
worlds of marvels upon marvels of greatest
beauty and artistry. The mind stands
aghast at the microscopic immensity of
their creations. The wonders of our
majestic material universe, stretching out
through space across hiUions oi hght years,
with its hiUions of galaxies, seem to my
own mind with its great Umitations no
more wonderful and, as thus far discov-
ered and known, not so complex or so
intimateh related as the cellular {all hut
infinitelv small) universes that build up
this body oi ours. Each organ and gland
and circulatory system and bone and
muscle and sinew and tendon a galaxy,
all bound together in a most intimate
relation that baffles the human mind to
comprehend. To my own mind, the
majesty of the physical world is far over-
matched by the yet unsolved miracles in-
volved in the body and its operation
(President J. Reuben Clark, Jr., Man,
God's Greatest Miracle, Pamphlet, pp.
8-9).
A/f AN only, of all living things, is
created in the likeness and im-
age of his Creator and is a spirit child
of God. It is a lofty, dignifying, and
satisfying thought and concept that
man's beginning was in the image
of God and not from some lower
form of life, as some would have us
believe. The spirit, according to
Mormon concept, lived as an active,
intelligent entity in God's eternal
realm long before mortal existence
here on earth. God provided the
earth as a habitation for his spirit
children, where they could come
and receive bodies of flesh and bone,
576
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— SEPTEMBER 1959
and gave them this mortal hfe also
for a probationary state with the
right of free agency or freedom of
choice in the world with its oppo-
sites of good and evil, with prom-
ises of rewards for fulfilling the good
hfe.
When Adam and Eve fell that
men might be, it opened the door
for peopling the earth with God's
spirit children. One effect result-
ing from the transgression and fall
of Adam and Eve brought about
mortality and the blessing of chil-
dren. Mortal parents, however, as
agents of God, provide the physical
body only, beautifully formed, but
inanimate until God puts an as-
signed spirit into the body and
breathes into it the breath of life
and the individual becomes a living
soul.
Abraham, the father of the faith-
ful, had this knowledge revealed to
him:
And the Gods formed man from the
dust of the ground, and took his spirit
(that is, the man's spirit), and put it into
him; and breathed into his nostrils the
breath of life, and man became a living
soul (Abraham 5:7).
The Lord has revealed in our day
that the body and the spirit associ-
ated together constitute the soul of
man (D & C 88:15). The spirit,
according to revealed knowledge,
is in the same form as the mortal
body (I Nephi 11:11 and Ether
3:16), and is matter, "but it is more
fine or pure, and can only be dis-
cerned by purer eyes" (D & C
131:7). The body without the
spirit, which spirit is also the intel-
ligent entity, is lifeless. This ac-
cords with the teachings of the
apostle James who said: "For as the
body without the spirit is dead, so
faith without works is dead also"
(James 2:26). This teaching is also
confirmed by the Savior in these
words: "It is the spirit that quicken-
eth, the flesh profiteth nothing"
(John 6:63).
npHE spirit of man is the power of
life; therefore, the spirit of an
individual has the capacity to heal
and to restore the mortal body
when afflicted with sickness, wounds,
or physical ailments. Permit me to
give you two examples from the
scriptures supporting this thought:
When Jairus, a ruler of the syna-
gogue, sought out Jesus, beseeching
him to come to his home because
his twelve-year-old daughter lay dy-
ing, Jesus consented but was delayed
while en route to the ruler's home,
and word came to Jairus informing
him, "Thy daughter is dead; trouble
not the Master." Jesus heard this
announcement and said, "Fear not:
believe only, and she shall be made
whole." When Jesus informed the
mourners, "She is not dead, but
sleepeth . . . they laughed him to
scorn, knowing that she was dead."
After putting them all out of the
room, except Peter, James, and John
and the parents, he took the maiden
by the hand and commanded her
to arise. Luke, the physician, re-
cording this miracle, said: "And her
spirit came again, and she arose
straightway." Yes, the spirit of the
child came again, and with the add-
ed strength Christ gave it, her little
body was healed of the illness which
had claimed her life, and the child
was restored to her astonished par-
ents. The Savior then commanded
she be given meat to nourish her
body (Luke 8:49-56).
CARE OF THE AGED IN RELATION TO ETERNAL VALUES 577
Of the Christ it has been said, this approach for an inspirational
''In him was hfe; and the hfe was message, and what relationship these
the light of men'' (John 1:4). thoughts have to the purpose of this
The second example is the classic conference. I had hoped it would
case of Lazarus, the brother of Mary establish the dignity and the im-
and Martha. Mary and Martha had portance of man in his true perspec-
sent for Jesus to come because their tive, a child of God. Man, a spirit
brother was desperately ill. When child of God, is eternal because he
Jesus arrived he found that Lazarus is the son of an Eternal Father, and,
was dead and that his body had been as an heir, partakes of God's divine
in the grave four days. Martha said and eternal nature. The apostle
to him as they approached the grave, Paul declared to the Roman saints:
'Tord, by this time he stinketh: for
he hath been dead four davs." Nev- The Spirit itself beareth witness with
ertheless, the Lord, with authority our spirit that we are the children of God:
1 1 1 T J And it children, then heirs: heirs of God,
and power, commanded Lazarus to ^^^ jomt-heirs with Chnst; if so be that
come forth, "And he that was dead we suffer with him, that we may be also
came forth, bound hand and foot glorified together (Romans 8:16, 17).
with graveclothes : and his face was
bound about with a napkin. Jesus The Lord in modern scripture
saith unto them. Loose him, and let bas revealed this knowledge of his
him go." Jesus had called back the work and glory:
spirit of Lazarus, which on entering
the body - after decay and perhaps , ^^' ^^^°^^'. *^^^' '' "^Y work and my
c . 11 . ^ . ^ glorv — to orino; io pass tnt immortaiity
putrefaction had set m - was given and^eterna] Mit oi man (Moses 1 :39) .
the power to overcome every phys-
ical handicap and animate the body npHIS scripture clearly reveals that
to normal life and activity (John ^ all of God's works and marvelous
11:1-44). creations are but a means to an end
Christ's statement, 'Thysician, in the light of his announced ob-
heal thyself," is most significant and jective, that the purpose of his work
more far-reaching in its implication and glory is to bring to pass the im-
than we at first glance realize, for mortality and the eternal life of
the power of healing is in the spirit man; for God created man in his
of life which animates the body of own image and after his likeness,
man. The seeds of death are sown and gave him dominion over all the
in every mortal body, but medical earth and told him to multiply and
science has discovered medicines, replenish the earth and subdue it.
methods, and techniques which. To carry out this instruction, man
when skillfully and intelligently ap- must be richly endowed, or he could
plied, establish a favorable climate not rise to the heights of this com-
for the body, by the power of the mand. The evidence of these pow-
spirit which is in it, to heal itself, ers and abilities was attested by
if the person is not appointed unto the Lord after Adam and Eve had
death. fallen and just before they were ban-
Now, I am sure you are still won- ished from the Garden of Eden,
dering what is the significance of I quote:
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And the Lord God said, Behold, the
man is become as one of us, to know
good and evil (Genesis 3:22).
'The man is become as one of
us" is most significant and indicates
the great powers inherent in him as
a son of God. Man truly is endowed
with the attributes, quahties, and
traits characteristic of his divine
Parent. Da\id, the psahnist, ex-
claimed in a prayer to God:
\\'hcn I consider tliy hea\cns, the work
of thv fingers, the moon and the stars,
which thou hast ordained; \\'hat is man,
that tliou art mindful of him? . . . For thou
hast made him a little lower tlian the
angels, and hast crowned him ^^ith glory
and honour. Thou madest him to have
dominion o\er the works of th\- hands;
thou hast put all things under his feet
. . . (Psalms 8:3-6).
What a glorious endowment of
power and promise! Man, indeed,
is blessed with great powers of
achievement. It is e\ident in man's
present-day accomplishments in all
fields of human endeavor. The
things we accept as normal and en-
joy today were considered impossible
just a few years ago. Now we are
prepared for e\ery new invention
and achievement. Man has sent up
satellites \\hich circle the globe, he
plans to circle the moon, and thinks
feasible floating platforms in outer
space as intermediate stations for
interplanetary travel to mingle with
people of other planets. This is all
in keeping with the statement of the
Lord at the time the people at-
tempted to build a tower to heaven.
The Lord said on that occasion:
''And now nothing will be re-
strained from them, which they
have imagined to do" (Genesis
11:6). How true that is today! Joel
the prophet declared that in the
last days the Lord would pour out
his spirit upon all flesh (See Joel
2:28). This prophecv is now in
course of fulfillment. New knowl-
edge, new achievements are evi-
denced on e\cry hand. The minds
of men are not confined to this earth,
mjcl God so far is not restraining
their activities which they have
imagined in their minds to do, ex-
cept as man's knovvJedge is hmited:
As a son of God, he reaches out into
the unkno\Mi, searching for new
knowledge to gain increased ability
and po\^'er to achie\'e. Being a true
son of a di\ine Parent, pushing out
and up to achieve applies to his
divine nature. This is in harmony
with a choice statement by the late
Elder Mclvin J. Ballard, who voiced
this sublime thought:
Man is a child of God, therefore he
partakes of the divine nature of his Father.
\\'ithin him lie germs of infinite de^elop-
ment. Potentially he is a god-like being,
therefore he may rise eternally towards the
likeness of his Father in HeaNcn. Upward,
di\ine, unending is man's destinv (Bryant
S. Hinckley, Faith of Our Pioneer
Fathers, page 228).
npHIS is the man in his twilight
\ears \^ith whom your organiza-
tion is concerned. It is a noble
pursuit which can be rich and
rewarding. Someone has said, "Old
age is a blessed time. It gives lei-
sure to put off our earthly garments
one bv one and dress ourselves for
heaven." And, then, paraphrasing
one of the Beatitudes, continues,
"Blessed are they that are home-
sick, for thev shall get home."
Said Bulwer: "We should so
provide for old age, that it mav have
no urgent \\ants of this world to
absorb it from meditation on the
next. It is awful to see the lean
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hands of dotage making a coffer of by his brothers and became sep-
the grave." arated from his family, nevertheless,
The fifth great commandment of when opportunity presented itself,
the Decalogue which God gave he took care of his father's family
Moses on Mt. Sinai declares, ''Hon- in a generous way and did not fail
our thy father and thy mother: that to be helpful to his brothers and
thy days may be long upon the land their families, which example, in the
which the Lord thy God giveth great plan of God, is as applicable
thee" (Exodus 20:12). The apostle today as then.
Paul gave impressive significance to We cannot change God's edict
this commandment when he advised given in the beginning that, "In the
children to honor father and moth- sweat of thy face shalt thou eat
er, ". . . which," said Paul, ''is the bread, till thou return unto the
first commandment with promise," ground . . . "(Gen. 3:19) but we
and added, "that it may be well with can individually or together provide
thee, and thou mayest live long on for any segment of our fellow men
the earth" (Ephesians 6:1-3) . ^^^^ require a kind, loving, and help-
Some children fail to accept the ing hand,
responsibility of parents, leaving
their care for someone else to worry HPHE Church of Jesus Christ of
about and pay for. When Jesus Latter-day Saints, under the
chastised the Scribes and Pharisees leadership of President David O.
for transgressing the commandment McKay, and with the full en-
of God by their false tradition, he dorsement and encouragement of
said to them: himself and counselors, is moving
more actively into the field of care
For God commanded, saying, Honour for the aged. The Church has
thy father and thy mother: and He that ^^ emphasized the obligation of
CLirseth rather or mother, let him die i -i i ■ . i .i i 1,1
the death. But ye say, Whosoever shall children to parents and, through the
say to his father or his mother, It is a gift. Welfare Program, provides work op-
by whatsoever thou mightest be profited portunitics for the aged to chal-
by me; And honour not his father or his jenge their interests and talents,
mother he shall be free. Thus have ye ^j^^^j^ ^^^^ ^^ ^j^^^^ • happiness,
made the commandment or God or none , - . ' -^ ' , ^ ^ ,
effect by your tradition (Mt. 15:4-6). and peace of mmd. The temple
program also offers the elderly mem-
The emphasis, therefore, on care bers opportunities for service to
of the aged should first be one of both the living and the dead. The
children and family responsibility; nature and extent of this work be-
but others may supplement that come a real source of service and
help wherever necessary to assure joyful activity for many elderly peo-
them the full, healthy, and happy pie, giving purpose and satisfaction
life. Families should be tied to- to their lives.
gether and kept together insofar as The bishops of the Church pres-
possible through service and help- ently and for many years, as a func-
fulness to each other with joyful tion of the Welfare Program, have
and happy contacts. Although and are providing help and sus-
Joseph of old was sold into Egypt tenance to many deserving aged by
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placing them in private homes or
rest homes. Medical and hospital
care is not neglected where needed.
Many splendid dedicated doctors
and nurses are co-operating in a
most excellent way. We owe them
a debt of gratitude for this charitable
service.
The care of the aged is one of
the many responsibilities of a
Mormon bishop, but, in addition to
the welfare workers who assist him,
he also enjoys the very efficient help
of the women's organization of the
Church, the Relief Society, whose
charge from the Prophet Joseph
Smith, when setting up this wom-
en's organization in 1842, included
this field of dedicated service to the
aged. It is not our intention to
relax in this program of caring for
the aged in worthy homes with
wholesome environments and com-
panionships but to augment it, and
in such a way that their lives can be
useful, joyful, and happy.
One of the purposes of your
organization, it seems to me, is to
help the aged as children of God
to attain and enjoy the full measure
of their possibilities, to bring pur-
pose to their activities and /oy, satis-
hction, and peace to their hearts.
It is not in the economy of God for
mankind to retire altogether and
give up fruitful activity and wait
around for death. The years at
eventide, after years of devoted serv-
ice and choice experiences, can be
fruitfully productive and therefore
rich and rewarding. I can think of
many such living examples whose
contributions in their advanced
years have blessed our civilization.
Some men never seem to grow old,
always active in thought, always ready to
adopt new ideas, they are never charge-
able with fogy ism. Satisfied, yet ever dis-
satisfied; settled, yet ever unsettled; they
always enjoy the best of what is and are
the first to find the best of what will be.
Said Joubert, 'The evening of a
well-spent life brings its lamps with
it." And Richter added, ''As winter
strips the leaves from around us,
so that we may see the distant re-
gions they formerly concealed, so old
age takes away our enjoyments only
to enlarge the prospect of the com-
ing eternity."
With these thoughts in mind and
others unexpressed, concerning man,
his heritage, dignity, and destiny
as a son of God, I close with a state-
ment of an eminent scientist:
Strange is our situation here on earth.
Each of us comes for a short visit, not
knowing why, yet sometimes seeming to
divine a purpose. From the standpoint
of daily life, however, there is one thing
we know, that man is here for the sake
of other men. Above all, for those upon
whose smile and well-being our own hap-
piness depends and also for the countless
unknown souls with whose fate we are
connected by a bond of sympathy. Many
times a day I realize how much my own
outer and inner life is built upon the
labors of my fellowmen, both living and
dead, and how earnestly I must exert
myself in order to give in return as much
as I have received. My peace of mind
is often troubled by the depressing sense
that I have borrowed too heavily from the
work of other men.
God bless and inspire you to noble
achievements in this glorious field
of needed service to the aged of
America.
Leland Van Wagoner
VALLEY OF THE PROVO RIVER, UTAH
(beptetnoer J^fternoon
Dowthy J. Roherts
Old roads that part in mountains' final link
Have led us to the valley gowned in gold,
\\niere gray lambs, lined in light, still browse or drink.
And now the hills of dappled rose enfold
Us in their peace as once again we walk
With friend and fall, the stippled fields of home.
Each time we break offending twigs, or talk,
Or rustle the nap of leaves on rock or loam,
The bleat of lambs crescendos on the hill.
Once more we glean the glory of the year;
The bleating hushes, and the air grows still.
And only the haze hangs in the atmosphere.
Content, we look for nothing strange or new.
Yet breath grows still and lagging pulses race
Each time we see September's dome of blue
And autumn, come to glorify this place.
Paae 58^
cJhe I tort h (central States lii
ission
Pieston R. Nib Jey
Assistant Church Historian
npHE North Central States Mission was organized at a conference held in
Minneapolis, Minnesota, under the direction of Elder Rudger Clawson,
of the Council of the Twelve, on July 12, 1925. It was formed from parts
of the Northern States, Northwestern States, Western States, and Canad-
ian Mission, and included the States of Minnesota, North Dakota, South
Dakota, that part of Montana lying east of Great Falls, and the provinces
of Manitoba, Saskatchewan, and Ontario (as far east as Port Arthur) in
Canada.
John G. Allred of Salt Lake City was installed as the first president
of the new Mission, and headquarters was established in Minneapolis,
where a suitable mission home was rented. Thirty-two missionaries were
transferred from other missions to. the new mission.
The Latter-day Saints were fairly well established in the territory of
the North Central States Mission and chapels had previously been erected
in Minneapolis, St. Paul, Dalbo, and Springvale, Minnesota, and in Harlem,
Tyler, and Wolf Point, Montana. There were also chapels at Bergland
and Winnipeg in Canada.
Courtesy Minnesota State Centennial Commission
Submitted by Vadna C. Matson
GRAND PORTAGE (RESTORATION) ON THE NORTH
SHORE OF LAKE SUPERIOR
A national historic site which was the greatest fur depot in the country from
about 1783 to 1804.
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Miller Studio, Pierre, South Dakota
MISSOURI RIVER BRIDGES AT PIERRE, SOUTH DAKOTA
President Allred served as president of the Mission with diHgence
and success until June 1929, when he was released to return to his home.
He was succeeded by Arthur Welling, of Farmington, Utah, who presided
until June 1934, when he was succeeded by Wilford W. Richards. At the
end of 1930, it was computed that there were 2,600 members of the Church
in the North Central States Mission. Presidents who have served since
that time are: Wilford W. Richards, 1934 - 1937; David A. Broadbent,
1937 - 1940; George F. Richards Jr., 1940 - 1944; William L. Killpack, 1944 -
1949; John B. Hawkes, 1949 - 1954; C Eugene England, 1954 - 1957; Paul
C. Child, serving at the present time.
On March 31, 1959, there were 4,841 members of the Church in the
North Central States Mission, located in thirty-five branches.
During June 1959, Elder Alvin R. Dyer, Assistant to the Council of
the Twelve, made a tour of the North Central States Mission with Presi-
dent Child. On his return to Salt Lake City, he said, "The Mission is
making progress under the devoted leadership of President Child. Con-
vert baptisms are showing an increase over the previous year. I found the
missionaries all well and laboring diligently to carry on their responsi-
bihties."
Thirty-one Relief Society organizations, with 634 members, were
reported in December 1958. Diana H. Child presides over the North
Central States Mission Relief Society.
Note: The cover for this Magazine ''Farm Scene in Minnesota" was submitted by
Vadna C. Matson, First Counselor in the North Central States Mission Relief Society.
See also "Recipes From the North Central States Mission/' by Diana H. Child,
page 600.
Next
Verona T. Bowen
THE golden shaft of summer out of tonal quality. As Father
sunshine smiled on the small played, suddenly a mawkish screech
girl at the console of the or a thunderous belch would scream
great organ on this, her special day. out, instead of the usual gracious
Was she playing the organ? Hardly, song of the note, for the great organ
for she was yet only ten or twelve was like a barometer, sensitive to
years old, her feet only able to reach changes in the weather,
the foot pedals by hard stretching. In summer it was extremely tem-
*'Next,'' came a voice from the peramental. Its behavior could be
organ, and her fingers nimbly moved disastrous to the great master who
to the next key. *'Next," and she played it, had it not been for the
played the following note, ''next," tuner and his assistant. Father's at-
and again she played the next note, tuned ear found the flaws, consult-
What was she doing — this small ing with the young assistant, and
one at the world-famous organ? a new set of stops would be set.
This slight half-adult, half-child. Then Father would go back to the
with long golden braids above the great chamber of the organ, where
wide-set, deep, smiling eyes, was an thousands of wires and intricacies
assistant. Young? Yes, very young, awaited him, and with his tuning
but capable, most of the time, if forks, he would again be busy, ad-
she kept her two-track mind on both justing each note to perfect tone,
the book she was reading and the while the young daughter was at
organ she was helping to tune. the console playing the notes.
That voice with the sing in it was Tuning of this amazing, intricate,
the voice of Father, the technician delicate mechanism was a must,
of the great organ. ''Next," his voice daily, in preparation for the noon-
sang out to her, and her nimble day visitors and tourists who flocked
fingers touched the next note, to hear the great master in the
"Next," he called again and she noonday recital and see the fascinat-
pressed down the following note, ing, formidable, unique structure
"Next, next, next," and so it went that housed it. When tours of peo-
until all the voice of the organ was pie passed through the building just
in perfect tune. to eye the building and the organ,
Father would busy himself in the and to listen to the unbelievable
organ for a few minutes, then come acoustics, they were also amazed if
down to the console. Expertly he they saw the young assistant at the
would run his agile fingers over the keyboard. She was quite unaware
keyboard listening and selecting of them, however, wrapped up in
the off-key notes. Perhaps it was the her work and her book,
terrific heat wave or the sudden cold Father was calling now. His little
after the evening thunder shower assistant sat alert. They were go-
that put the great, sensitive organ ing to change the voice again. She
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585
was sharp and dexterous and could
change it without his coming down
to the console. She managed so
well that once they started to tune,
he seldom came down again except
to try the whole of the organ or
several voices together. Then he
would run his fingers over the key-
board or lose himself in a few mo-
ments of sweet harmony.
His melodious voice, that could
sing so well and was part of the
ward choir, was calling to her. ''Let's
get the echo organ now, and we
will be through for today. You get
it set while I go to the far back of
the building."
The assistant on the organ seat
closed her book. Expertly she ad-
justed the stops. When the voice,
distant now in the great structure
and hardly audible, called its ''Next,"
she was already reading in her book
and waiting. This was the last they
would do today, and the great mas-
ter would be there any moment now
to practice for the noonday recital.
"Next. Next. Next," came the far
distant voice.
^^VTEXT, next," came a voice in
her ear. Startled, her book
closed, she fumbled a half dozen
keys on the organ and then gained
composure.
The gentle, strong hands of the
master rested on her shoulders. "Did
I startle you?" he inquired. "And
how is our little assistant today?"
He looked at her warmly. He was
fond of this young lady who so
cleverly manipulated the voice of
this great instrument he played.
She put the book by her side on
the bench. "Good morning, Sir.
Are you early?" She spoke to him
in an unaffected, mature way with a
quiet hint of reserve in her manner.
He liked that well-mannered atti-
tude, 'Trobably the reflection of
her intellectual, nicely disciplined
home," he had often said to his
wife.
The organist patted her shoulder,
picked up the book by her side,
read the title out loud. World's
Greatest Literature. "Are these the
new books your father told me he
bought you children?"
She expertly moved her fingers
with each "Next," as she visited
with the organist. "This is one of
the books," she replied, watching
him as he turned the pages, noting
various titles out loud.
"How many books have you read
this summer, while you have helped
your daddy?"
"I could hardly say, but many. I
usually stop at the library several
times a week. A very nice person
there helps me select my reading.
We are great friends now because
I am there so often."
"Bless you, child, I wish my chil-
dren read just a small part of what
you do."
In the far distance. Father's voice
called, "That's all, now."
The master slid his big, well-built
frame in on the bench beside the
assistant. He gently pushed her
along to make room for himself,
but firmly put his arm around her
to hold her there.
"Stay, we'll try it out and see how
it sounds now that you have fin-
ished." His masterful hands ad-
justed many stops on different
voices, and the music of the perfectly
tuned organ, under his adept hands,
suddenly filled the great hall.
"Splendid!" he exclaimed. "Fine!
Perfect!" Swiftly his fingers flowed
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over the keyboard, and the music warm at the very thought of this
poured out over the empty taber- day. She twisted the ring on her
nacle, but his attention was still on finger with her other hand and
the girl. ^ savored her satisfaction.
''Are you going to spend all you
^^MOW that summer is over, will have made this summer?"
you be helping your father ''All/'
any more?" he was inquiring. He "Not even save a few cents. No
was thinking he would miss not see- ice-cream money?"
ing her around. "No, I am going to spend it all
A certain glow went through her, at once."
thinking of this, her last regular Shyly she looked up at him and
working day. "I will help my fa- felt his wonder. Then she looked
ther on Saturdays. Now and then out over the great structure, her
I may have to come after school, thoughts turning back to early sum-
if there is something special and mer.
daddy cannot get help." When Father had wanted her to
As she replied she thought how assist him all summer she had hesi-
resentful she had been when Father tated. It was such a tedious job.
had asked her if she would work for She must be freshly dressed and off
him. How silly she had been. She early each morning ... no loitering
looked at the master at her side and about. None of her friends worked,
thought of the interesting experi- and she would miss not being with
ences and adventures she had en- them. She would think it over, but
joyed all summer because she had of course she would do it because
worked. Her head was bulging with she loved her daddy so much and
stories from all the reading time it wanted to please him.
had afforded her. True, her friends On that very day she went to
had played all summer, but then town, and there in the store window
she had joined them in the after- she saw it. How she would love to
noons and that had been play have it. She had gone into the
enough, at her age, she thought, store and shyly asked the brittle
She had liked the challenge of her clerk the price. The clerk spoke to
regular job that none of her friends her sharply, but did give her the
had enjoyed. price.
The organist changed some stops. All the way home the wheels in
Father had not come from the organ her brain had turned double speed,
yet. He was probably doing some Father had said he would pay her,
finishing up in the organ case. and she was trying to settle at a
The master was playing again, price to charge Father, in order to
"Did you get paid for this summer make this beautiful purchase at the
work?" he inquired. end of summer. At home she got
"Oh, yes, my father paid me." pencil and paper and really figured
"What will you do with all your it out.
money?" The master was changing the
"Today is a special day. I am stops again and inquiring, "What
going to spend it." Inside she felt did your daddy pay you for your
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587
fine assistance?" His smile was on
her.
'Ten cents a morning."
'Ten whole cents?" Surprise was
in his voice.
'Ten cents/' she replied with
finality. She remembered how she
had made the financial bargain with
her father, but not to anyone did
she disclose her precious secret plans
for her ultimate purchase.
TOURING the summer she had
visualized her purchase. How
elegant she would feel. In her inner
self she imagined how it would seem
to be the owner of such a possession.
She must not be haughty or su-
perior. She would be happy —
happy she bought it herself.
The organ master looked down
at his little seat companion. She
was lost in thought, he could see.
He did not disturb that faraway
feeling, but played some mood
music and contagiously lost himself
in reverie, too.
All summer she had regularly
made trips to the store to be sure
it was still there. She noted with
satisfaction that it had not been
sold even up to August.
Then came the problem. That
wonderful invitation came for her to
go to the mountains with her dear-
est friend and her family. Mother
and Father were delighted she could
have the holiday. But it meant she
would lose three weeks' money and
could not do the shopping she had
planned the summer around. She
had been tortured inside with her
decision. Then Father told her the
stark, chilly truth. He had hired
the pupil of the great master to
assist him while she was gone. Tears
of frustration had welled in her eyes.
Her family thought, for happiness.
That night she had talked to her-
self. She would put out of her
mind forever the splendid, wonder-
ful, beautiful purchase she had in-
tended. She would take some of
her money and enjoy some of the
mountain trips by horse that she so
loved.
The mountain holiday had been
a feast of summer pleasure. She had
come home joyous, tanned, relaxed,
and bubbling with exhilaration.
The next morning she had been at
the organ console, the assistant
again, and it was good to be back.
She had been gratified with the hol-
iday and had been careful since her
return not to go to the store and
have any regrets about not being
able to make her purchase.
Only yesterday her world had
changed. She had gone shopping
with Mother for her winter school
needs. There she saw it! Not only
did she see it, but it had not sold,
and it was being closed out at
half price. Tears welled into her
eyes. Mother was quick to inquire.
Without restraint, she blurted out
her emotional summer entangle-
ment to a loving and understanding
mother, unaware of jostling shop-
pers and curious eyes on her.
Mother understood perfectly. She
had ample money for her purchase,
and Mother knew what to do and
how to handle brittle clerks. She
politely had her call the department
head and then had that splendid
object put away with the name of
the assistant on it, who would come
the following day with her father
to make the final monetary trans-
action and purchase. This was the
day! The Day/
"Hello!" Father was saying as she
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and the organist bounced back to
reality. 'The organ is in tune, ready
for you."
The assistant stepped down from
the organ and over by her father.
She put her hand in his, anxious
to go.
"Your daughter tells me she is
going to spend all of her hard-earned
savings." The master looked at the
happiness in both their faces. ''What
is this long summer earning going
to buy?"
Father looked at the assistant, but
he did not reply. He let her speak
expansive
for herself and her own
feeling of satisfaction.
"I am going to buy a gorgeous,
red, silk taffeta umbrella to carry to
school on rainy days. Good morn-
ing. Sir." She was anxious to be
away.
The master watched them as they
left the building, technician and as-
sistant — father and daughter. He
must ask his wife that night to shop
for a pair of red rubber overshoes
for him to send to the little assistant
to use with that "gorgeous, red, silk
taffeta umbrella."
Kbnlisted
Eva. WiWes Wangsgaard
Down the path my firstborn went.
Neither boy nor man.
Golden-leafed the poplars bent
And brushed him as he ran.
A purring car, a closing door,
A smooth and quiet start —
The leaves in turmoil but far more
Thundered in my heart.
The wind picked up the autumn leaves.
Lashed and whipped and whirled —
Time and Distance, two old thieves,
Shut me from his world.
Up the pathway slow and lost
My steps found their old line.
Who can say what must be crossed
Between his world and mine?
The Real Worth of
The ReKef Society Magazine
Elder Daniel H. Ludlow
Associate Professor of Religion, Brigham Young University
[Address Delivered at the Magazine Department Meeting, Relief Society
General Conference, October 9, 1958]
1 decided to accept Sister Sharp's
invitation for this assignment
even though I am not an expert
in salesmanship, nor do I know a
great deal concerning the problems
involved in the production and cir-
culation of a magazine. However,
I love the gospel of Jesus Christ and
am vitally interested in anything
which helps to develop in others the
testimony of the divinity of Jesus
Christ.
A few years ago, as a student at
Indiana University, I took a course
in magazine production in which I
was told there were two main ways
to measure the success of a period-
ical: 1. its circulation, 2. the reve-
nues it received from advertising.
According to these criteria, the real-
ly successful magazines are those
which have millions of subscribers
and those which ask for and receive
high rates for their advertising.
Perhaps these are the criteria of
success for a magazine so far as the
business world is concerned, but I
doubt very much that you can de-
termine the real value of a magazine
by any such method.
It seems to me the only logical
way of determining the real worth
of a magazine — or of any other
publication or any activity, for that
matter — would be to determine
the influence for good which that
magazine had on the essential and
important issues of life. Let us try
this procedure in an attempt to
determine the real worth of The
Relief Society Magazine.
If all of you took time to list the
things you consider to be most im-
portant in your life, I feel certain
each of your lists would include at
least the fohowing four items:
1. Your testimony of the gospel
2. Your family — husband and chil-
dren
3. The health and welfare of your
family
4. The development of your own tal-
ents
1. Your Testimony of the Gospel
I imagine all of you would list the
gospel as one of the most important
things in your life. In this connec-
tion I am reminded of the state-
ment of President Joseph F. Smith
when he said: ''My standing in the
Church is worth to me more than
this hfe — ten thousand times.
For in this I have life everlasting.
In this I have the glorious promise
of the association of my loved ones
throughout all eternity" (President
Joseph F. Smith, Gospel Doctrine,
page 108).
President George Albert Smith
used to say we have three major
responsibilities in life: 1. to learn
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— SEPTEMBER 1959
for ourselves that the gospel is true;
2. to live the gospel; 3. to teach the
gospel to others. I sincerely believe
The Rdief Society Magazine helps
the membership of the Church to
achieve all three of these goals.
It has been my privilege to know
intimately only one multimillionaire
on this earth, but I have learned a
great deal from that man. Among
other interesting statements for a
millionaire to make, he said this:
''Our most valuable possessions are
those which, when shared, multiply;
our least valuable possessions are
those which, when shared, dimin-
ish.'' This is certainly true of the
gospel of Jesus Christ; the gospel is
one of our most valuable posses-
sions, and when we share it with
others, it brings joy and happiness
not only to them but also to our-
selves.
Let us use the effective materials
at hand in teaching the gospel to
others. A subscription to The Re-
hei Society Magazine for a part-
member family or one of your
non-Latter-day Saint friends can help
serve as an effective missionary
almost every day of the year.
2. Your Family — Husband
and Children
Fm sure nearly every woman in
the world who is married and has a
family would agree her family is
one of her most important posses-
sions. This should be particularly
true among the women of the
Church who have been sealed to
their husbands and children for
time and all eternity. This doctrine
of the eternal nature of the family
relationship is one of the most
beautiful aspects of the gospel; it
increases the responsibilities we have
both as parents and children, how-
ever, for not only do our actions
influence generations yet unborn on
this earth, while they live on the
earth, but continue to influence
them throughout all the eternities
to come.
President McKay has said that
the love of a mother is more like
God's love than any other love on
earth. He said further:
The sweetness as well as the greatness
of motherhood lies in the overcoming of
self-love by Mother for her children. By
nature the true mother is self-sacrificing.
She is ever giving something of her life
to make another either happier or better.
Dying and giving — giving and dying —
the two great elements that make the
truly heroic — these are the Christlike
virtues that make motherhood sublime,
(President David O. McKay, Gospel
Idenh, page 455).
If, then, the family is so impor-
tant, it seems that anything that
would help make a woman become
a better wife to her husband or a
better mother to her children, or
in any way would help to strengthen
the ties of the home would be of
great value. I know of no magazine
which would even approach the
value of The Relief Society Maga-
zine in stressing and teaching the
importance of satisfactory home con-
ditions.
3. The Health and Welfare
oi Your Family
A few years ago a national survey
was undertaken to determine the
six major fears of the people of the
United States. The results indicated
Americans feared the following
things :
1 . death
2. lack of economic security
THE REAL WORTH OF THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
591
3. poor health
4. lack of social approval
5. war
6. the supernatural
I'm sure none of us would want
to claim that any one magazine —
or any one organization or country
— now provides the solution to all
of these fears. However, it seems
to me the true Church of Christ —
together with the auxiliary organiza-
tions which it supports and main-
tains — goes a long way towards
solving these problems. If we, as
members of this Church, really lived
the gospel — and could convince the
world to live it — these fears could
be removed from the hearts and
minds of mankind.
The Relief Society organization
was originally established to help
relieve the members of the Church
of some of these fears — in other
words, to help provide for the health
and welfare of the members.
4. The Development oi Your Own
Talents — the Broadening oi
Your Horizons
I am thrilled every time I study
the broad goals of your great Relief
Society organization. The scope of
your program reminds me very
much of the statement in Luke con-
cerning the formative period of
Christ's life. We don't know very
much about the life of Christ from
the time he was twelve until he
began his ministry at the age of
thirty, but the few things we do
know are very revealing. Luke tells
us ''And Jesus increased in wisdom,
and in stature, and in favor with
God and man." These few words
cover eighteen years in the life of
the greatest personality who has
ever lived or will ever live on this
earth. But perhaps they say enough.
To me they say that Jesus lived a
well-balanced life. He increased in
wisdom — that is, the mental side
of life; in stature — the physical side
of life; in favor with God — the
spiritual side of life; and in favor
with man — the social side of life.
I am happy to see that The Rehei
Society Magazine provides a well-
balanced offering for development
in exactly these same areas. Not
only does it provide the women of
the Church with an outlet for some
of their creative talents in the writ-
ing of poetry, articles, and stories,
but it is also concerned with the
other important facets of a woman's
life — the lesson materials in the-
ology, literature, and social science
— the special features for the home,
including regular sections on recipes
and cooking — biographical sketches
of famous leaders — the editorials
dealing with problems of the day —
the Notes From the Field which
help to tie the membership of your
local groups into a large, world-wide
sisterhood.
I believe The Relief Soeiety Mag-
azine truly helps us to keep this
commandment of Christ, as it is
recorded in The Doctrine and Cove-
nants:
. . . you shall teach one another the
doctrine of the kingdom. Teach ye dili-
gently and my grace shall attend you, that
you may be instructed more perfectly in
theory, in principle, in doctrine, in the
law of the gospel, in all things that per-
tain unto the kingdom of God, that are
expedient for you to understand; Of
things both in heaven and in the earth,
and under the earth; things which have
been, things which are, things which must
shortly come to pass; things which are at
home, things which are abroad . . , and
a knowledge also of countries and of
kingdoms. . . . seek ye diligently and
592 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— SEPTEMBER 1959
teach one another words of wisdom; yea, of the beliefs and actions of others,
seek ye out of the best books words of wis- j ^m grateful for the testimony of
dom; seek learning, even by study and .1 j- • •. r . i i i • i t
also by faith (D & C 88:77-79, 118). ^^^^ divniity of the gospel which I
have and for the help the articles
We can increase our talents ten- and stories in The Relief Society
fold by studying and living the gos- Magazine have given me in gaining
pel. There is no law of diminishing this testimony. I feel that we as par-
returns so far as the gospel is con- ents — and grandparents — have a
cerned — and we are assured those responsibility of placing desirable
things we learn will rise with us reading materials before our chil-
in the resurrection. No wonder the dren to help them grow and develop
Church puts such emphasis on edu- in the gospel.
cation! And no wonder the Relief The final experience Fd like to
Society places such importance on relate happened this week. When
its Magazine. the Brigham Young University
Stake was organized three years ago,
OEFORE closing, Fd like to relate I was called to serve as a member of
briefly two experiences which the stake high council. As many
have strengthened my personal tes- o^ Y^u know, this stake is comprised
timony concerning the value of the almost entirely of students at the
Relief Society organization and The B.Y.U., and now has twenty-four
Relief Society Magazine. wards completely organized with
The first one is a personal experi- Priesthood, Relief Society, Sunday
ence. When I was a young boy School, and Mutual groups,
hving on a farm, one of my duties My particular assignment on the
was to herd cows during the day- high council is to serve as advisor
time. This job was not particularly to the stake mission. In this capac-
hard — and it gave me plenty of ity I have noted that in proportion
time to read. Many weeks during to the number of non-Latter-day
the summer I would read as many Saint boys and non-Latter-day Saint
as twelve books a week, and al- girls on the campus, that our mis-
though much of the material I read sionary efforts have been much more
was worthless, I read many other successful among the girls. Undoubt-
things which have had a great in- edly there are many reasons for this,
fluence on my life. Among these but Fm sure one reason is the fine
worthwhile things were all of the examples set for the non-Latter-day
standard works of the Church and Saint girls by the Relief Society
every Relief Society Magazine sisters in our stake,
which had been published up to One of the girls who has been
that time. My grandmother had serving as Relief Society president
subscribed to the Magazine since it in her ward the past two years found
was first started and had faithfully herself living within the boundaries
saved every single issue. of a different ward when she re-
We frequently talk about the in- turned to school last week, and
fluence of other people on our lives therefore had to give up her position
— but frequently that influence is as Relief Society president. Our
received vicariously through reading stake mission president knew some
THE REAL WORTH OF THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
593
of the sterling qualities of this girl^
and so asked me to interview her
concerning the possibility of calling
her as a stake missionary. It was a
thrilling experience to observe the
poise and social maturity of the ex-
Relief Society president. Fm happy
to say that yesterday she received her
call to serve as a missionary in the
B.Y.U. Stake (she will not be
twenty-one until December). As
long as you have Relief Society
presidents of this caliber throughout
the Church, I have no fears for the
continued growth and development
of your great organization.
In closing, Fd like to wish you
the best in your Magazine campaign
this year. You are engaged in a
marvelous work and are selling a
great product. I hope you can go
forth with the spirit, enthusiasm,
and dedication of a true missionary.
If you are not as successful as you
would like to be in getting your sub-
scriptions, may I make one brief
suggestion. Every failure has a
cause — and the cause for failure
must be removed before you can
succeed. If you are not successful
in placing a subscription in one of
the homes to which you are as-
signed, encourage your potential
subscriber to list the things she con-
siders to be the most important in
her life; then point out how The
Reliei Society Magazine will help
her in realizing and achieving these
goals.
The objective of the Church —
and of the Relief Society — is to
prepare a people to live with Christ
on the earth during the millennium,
and to live with God in the celes-
tial kingdom in the eternities to
come. What a wonderful goal! And
The Rehef Society Magazine helps
all of us in the achievement of this
goal.
cJhe ibclge of Summer
Grace Ingles Frost
I stood on the edge of summer,
And harked to winged folk sing
Their homing songs and love-songs.
That they jubilantly fling
Forth from their throats as never
May I aspire to sing.
I stood on the edge of summer
And watched its beauty bloom,
Till my heart held such enchantment
W^ithin it was no room
For aught of hate or censure,
Or morbidness of gloom.
I stood on the edge of summer . . ,
Glad in its golden gleam . . .
I stood on the edge of summer,
And dreamed a lovely dream.
Q^ixtyi ijears ^yigo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, September i and September 15, 1899
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the
Women of All Nations"
MOUNT TABOUAI IN THE SOCIETY ISLANDS: On the 7th day of June
we took an all day march; climbed up the highest peak of the mountain. The scenery
below us was grand indeed! The sublimity of the mighty ocean, which lay stretched
out before our wondering eyes, inspired us with awe and reverence for Him who gave
it its bounds, and by His mighty power prevents it from deluging the earth! , . .•
We found plants and shrubs entirely new to us which interested us very much. . . .
The charming little grottoes and arbors seemed alluring almost sufficient to tempt a
lover of nature to seclude himself and live alone in palaces human hands had not
formed. . . .
— Mrs. Addison Pratt
A BRITISH WOMAN WRITES ABOUT AFRICA: The Transvaal is the all
absorbing question of the British gONcrnment at the present time. . . . Olive Schreincr,
a South African English woman, a writer of great force and immense popularity, has
reccntlv published a book giving her views of the entire situation. . . . She says: "A
new phenomenon has started up in South African life. The discovery of vast stores
of mineral wealth in South Africa, more especially gold, has attracted suddenly to its
shores a larger population, which is not and cannot, at least at once, be South
African. ..."
— Editorial
WE'LL MEET AGAIN IN ZION
(Missionary Hymn)
We'll meet again in Zion, fair Zion far away,
And clasp each friendly hand on that gladsome day;
We'll see the mountains rising, snow capp'd to the skies.
And the lake on whose fair bosom the evening sunset lies. . . ,
— Lydia D. Alder
THE RELIEF SOCIETY IN HAMBURG, GERMANY: The Relief Society
of Hamburg is in a very flourishing condition. It is presided over by Sister Reicht, with
Sister Ahers as first counselor. . . . They meet twice a month, a work meeting and a
testimony meeting alternately. They have not many poor, for they are nearly all poor,
but through untiring efforts they succeed in almost paying the rent of the hall where
the Relief Society meetings are held. They are earnest workers in the cause and desire
to do all they can to roll on the great work of the Latterdays. They entertain the
Elders all it is' possible for them to do, some inviting them to take a meal a v\eek with
them, some do part of their washing and others mend their clothes. . . . They knit
socks and stockings.
— News Note
THE OLD FOLKS REMEMBERED IN BINGHAM STAKE (UTAH) ....
After the dance Brother Bybee inquired who was the oldest sister, and Abigail Camp-
bell received a rocking chair. Brother Bybee then asked the oldest sister who had never
had her ears pierced to come forward. She was Sister Stokes, and was promised a
breast-pin. Then Brother Bybee inquired who had given birth to the most children.
Sister M. L. Bybee was the lady, having had fifteen children. I believe her prize was
a lamp.
— Little Sister
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
TT has been estimated by the
department of trades and profes-
sions of the National Council of
Women that female workers in the
United States constitute ninety-
eight per cent of the nurses, ninety-
four per cent of the dieticians and
nutritionists, eighty-nine per cent of
the librarians, seventy-five per cent
of the teachers, sixty-four per cent
of the social workers, fifty-one per
cent of the musicians and music
teachers, twenty-three per cent of
the college and university faculties.
More than a half million women
work for the United States Govern-
ment as civilian employees. Another
325,000 work for State and local
governments.
PONSTANCE WRIGHT is the
author of Madame Lafayette
(Henry Holt and Company, pub-
lishers ) , a biography of Adrienne de
Lauvois, of the French nobility,
who became the wife of Marquis de
Lafavette and shared with him his
brilliant but tragic career during
the American and French Revolu-
tions.
QJIX million Japanese women are
now wage earners, twice as many
as in 1958. There are twenty-six
women in the national legislature,
360 in local assemblies, and one
woman mayor.
lyf RS. CAROL HOVIK PETER-
^ ^ SON, Salt Lake City, Utah,
recently won the $2500 grand prize
sponsored by the National Doll
Dressing Institute for benefit of the
March of Dimes. Her entry was
entitled ''Saratoga Trunk" and con-
sisted of a doll dressed as a lady of
1880, and a trunk filled with authen-
tic apparel. She also received a
$150 Government E bond as first
prize for a Sleeping Beauty and
Prince Charming group in a Utah
State contest.
T lEUTENANT COLONEL
^ DOROTHY N. ZELLER, for-
merly chief nurse of the Alaskan Air
Command, has been appointed
deputy chief of the United States
Air Force Nurse Corps.
TyfRS. BLANCHE HALLA has
served as Chief of the Cor-
respondence Review Staff, executive
secretariat of the State Department,
under ten Secretaries of State. She
and a fifteen-woman staff handle
much of the department's import-
ant outgoing mail, knowing well
that blunders could cause inter-
national misunderstandings. Mrs.
Halla, a woman of beauty, refine-
ment, and culture, is married to a
retired brigadier general.
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EDITORIAL
VOL 46
SEPTEMBER 1959
NO. 9
Kyi (Standard for (government
I will make a man more precious than fine gold; even a man than the golden
wedge of Ophir (Isaiah 13:12).
/^NE hundred and seventy-two
years ago (1787), in this month
of September, the Constitution of
the United States was presented to
the Convention for ratification, and
since that epoch-making time, Sep-
tember has been known as ''Con-
stitution Month." On the twelfth
day of the month, the document
was placed before the representatives
''of the people." On September
17th, thirty-nine delegates voted ap-
proval, and on the twenty-eighth,
Congress resolved to submit the
Constitution to the legislature of
each State. In July 1788, announce-
ment was made that the requisite
nine States had ratified the Consti-
tution, and the last State, Rhode
Island, approved in May 1790. A
new Government appeared among
the nations of the earth.
This "standard of liberty" repre-
sented an enlightened answer to an
age-old problem — the government
of men in mortal life; the resolving
of the conflict between law and lib-
erty, between freedom and disci-
pline.
Preparatory to the restoration of
the gospel, in the land of America
not far from the region of the Hill
Cumorah, there was signed the Con-
stitution of the United States "Ac-
cording to the laws and Constitution
of the people, which I have suffered
to be established, and should be
maintained for the rights and pro-
Page 596
tection of all flesh, according to just
and holy principles ..." (D & C
101:77).
The Constitution, although form-
ulated and framed within a relative-
ly short period of time, was not "a
sprouting tree of sudden growth."
There had been a long prelude and
a preface of centuries, for the funda-
mental principles of that instrument
had long stirred the minds of men,
and some of its doctrines had
achieved a partial ratification among
the nations, "far brought from out
the storied past."
The Declaration of Independence
had placed "a firm reliance on the
protection of Divine Providence,"
and the Articles of Confederation
stated: ". . . it has pleased the Great
Governor of the world to incline
the hearts of the legislatures ... to
ratify said Articles of Confederation
and Perpetual union." And, in the
Constitution, the formulation and
the framing of the words were new,
the devotion and the dedication, the
foreshadowing of the wide frontiers
of the future were new and splendid
in their beckoning.
And this ensign in a "new world"
provided for the processes of gov-
ernment, a testament of ideals and
principles, a tower of security in the
midst of shifting values; as Wash-
ington said, "Let us raise a standard
to which the wise and honest can
repair." This covenant of free peo-
EDITORIAL
597
pie implied the exercise of judgment
and knowledge in the establishment
of a design for government, a direct-
ing code of ideals, an enduring pilot
light under which laws might be
established and administered in
equity and righteousness — seeking
to balance the forces of liberty and
law in full awareness of the consid-
eration that liberty can exist only in
the presence of righteous restraint.
And thus the tall tree of liberty
spread its many branches of laws
and statutes over the dominions of
a wide inheritance, and many able
and devoted men plied their strength
and courage to the "ennobling of
the structure and the timbers of en-
during government." Their words
and their work and the devotion of
the generations have enabled the
federation of States to advance in
the administration of laws and judg-
ments designed to protect the in-
herent rights of men as individuals
and at the same time to increase
the welfare and the human happi-
ness of fifty United States, and many
other areas of the earth as well.
In this time of fluctuating and
irresponsible governments in many
parts of the world, when anxiety and
uncertainty prevail in many lands,
in our times of turmoil, it becomes
increasingly essential that constitu-
tional law should be upheld as an
emblem and an anchor of stability
and justice, and as an enduring
example of such principles of law
and order as may find an ever-widen-
ing application in the earth.
-V. P. C.
cJhe QJour Standard vi/orns of the (church to iue
c/ssued in /lew ibdition
CINCE the time of the organiza-
tion of the Church, Latter-day
Saints have been urged to read and
contemplate the word of the Lord
as set forth in the holy scriptures.
It is of sacred significance that the
prelude to the restoration of the gos-
pel came in answer to a young boy's
diligent study of the Bible, regard-
ing the words of James ''a servant
of God and of the Lord Jesus
Christ. ... If any of you lack wis-
dom, let him ask of God. . . ."
The Deseret Book Company will
issue in the late fall (October or
November), a beautiful family edi-
tion of the Standard Works of the
Church — The Bible, The Book of
Mormon, The Doctrine and Cove-
nants, and The Pearl of Great Price.
The careful thought and planning
behind the new edition have been
directed towards a prayerful study
of scripture, a seeking ''out of the
best books words of wisdom. . . ."
A completely revised edition of
the ''Combination Reference'' by
Eldin Ricks is included to direct
readers to all four standard works
on major gospel subjects and to help
them prepare sermons on scriptural
texts. Twelve Bible maps are in-
cluded, which show in vivid color
the kingdoms of the Old Testament
and the journeys of Jesus and the
apostles.
A special section for keeping
family genealogical records and
distinctive Latter-day Saint events is
included.
598
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— SEPTEMBER 1959
The Old and New Testaments are
being illustrated by art masterpieces
by courtesy of art museums through-
out the world. A special section
will present all of the Presidents of
the Church, reproduced in full color
from portraits that hang in the Los
Angeles Temple. Coupled with
these will be tributes by authors who
speak from life-long personal ac-
quaintance.
Another section will show all of
the Latter-day Saint temples in full
color, and the dates when ordinances
were first performed. The dramatic
history of Mormonism will be de-
picted on a "wide screen" fold-out
reproduction of the Cody Mural.
The pages of The Book of Mormon
will contain the famous Friberg
illustrations of characters and epi-
sodes in The Book of Mormon.
The cover will be made of top
grain cowhide in deep blue. Against
this background will appear a gold-
en likeness of the Angel Moroni,
reproduced from an original oil
painting by Goff Dowding, and the
title, embossed in twenty-four carat
gold, will read: HOLY SCRIPT-
URES OF THE CHURCH OF
JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-
DAY SAINTS.
Books will be
through personal
assigned to various geographic re
gions of the Church.
This beautifully illustrated edi-
tion will be of particular value to
mothers in the home who wish to
teach their children to know and
love the scriptures and to learn the
words of the Lord as given in the
sacred records.
made available
representatives
But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of,
knowing of whom thou hast learned them; And that from a child thou hast known the
holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which
is in Christ Jesus. All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for
doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: That the man
of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works (II Timothy 3:14-17).
Summer Vi/as cJoo ujrief
Mabel Law Atkinson
The summer, waltzing in with hollyhocks,
Held sprays of long-stemmed lilies in her arms.
Their fragrance bade the dozing four-o'clocks
Lift high their heads to greet her lambent charms.
She ran with golden sandals through the fields
That bronzed to harvest glory at her touch.
{How gentle is the scepter summer wields!)
All lavishly she filled the emptied hutch;
Then quietly beside the slowing stream
She built an altar fire and bowed her head.
I closed my eyes a little while to dream.
And una^^'ares all noiselessly she fled.
I could not call her back, then in my grief,
I wept because her stay had been too brief.
QJresh Lip vi/ith (bun day
'esh up with
TN the swift passing of our busy
days, and in the muhiphcity of
our activities and our problems, we
are much in need of quiet con-
templation — in need of the sacred
hours of the Sabbath day. We need
to learn to know ourselves — our
shortcomings, our blessings, our
heritage, our ideals, and our ulti-
mate destiny as sons and daughters
of God. In this treasured segment
of eternity, our earth life, we need
the serenity of thoughtfulness re-
garding the purposes of our Heaven-
ly Father, his requirements of us,
and his promised blessings. We need
to ponder the commandments of
God as they have been given in the
holy scriptures in ancient days and
restored for later generations.
Many great and significant
thoughts that affect our lives eternal-
ly come to us in the stillness of
the Sabbath, and we are led to
acknowledge our inmost thoughts,
our hopes, our prayers, our prob-
lems. Perhaps with the psalmist,
we may be led to say: ''O ye sons
of men . . . how long will ye love
vanity, and seek after leasing? . . .
But know that the Lord hath set
apart him that is godly for himself:
The Lord will hear when I call
unto him . . . commune with vour
own heart. . . . Offer the sacrifices
of righteousness, and put your trust
in the Lord" (Psalm 4:2-5).
Strength and rejoicing come to
us when we meet with friends and
neighbors, our families and loved
ones, within the chapel walls and
partake of the sacrament together.
Words of instruction, command-
ments, and uplifting inspiration
come to us, and we are comforted
by communion and by worship with
others of our faith who have accept-
ed the gospel with rejoicing and
who are trying to observe the re-
quirements of spiritual participation.
The hymns come to us with a dedi-
cated, recurrent message and we
think of others in many lands who
meet together, even as we assemble,
who meet together, remembering
the Sabbath day and the command-
ments for its observance which are
made clear to us through the testi-
mony of our hearts — a testi-
mony which grows and flowers as
we accept and honor our own stead-
fast inclinations for spiritual sus-
tenance. "So shall the congregation
of the people compass thee about:
for their sakes therefore return thou
on high."
BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
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iVz
lb.
hamburger
iVi
tsp.
salt
%
tsp.
pepper
LKecipes Q/rom the I iorth (^entral States I Hission
Suhmitttd by Diana F. Child
Hamburgers With Barbecue Sauce
% c. dry bread crumbs
% c. evaporated milk
3 tbsp. chopped onion
Combine all ingredients. Mix well. Form patties, using one fourth cup mixture
for each patty. Brown in hot fat in skillet; pour barbecue sauce over or set into
barbecue sauce; simmer for thirty to sixty minutes. Serve in buns with one teaspoon
sauce on each. Makes twelve patties.
Barbecue Sauce
3 tbsp. vinegar 6 tbsp. chopped onion
1 c. catsup 1 bay leaf
Vi c. water Vi tsp. dry mustard
2 tbsp. sugar
Combine all ingredients in saucepan and simmer gently for five minutes. Remove
bay leaf. Pour over hamburgers and simmer thirty to sixty minutes. Serve.
Orange Rolls
Va c. lukewarm water 4 tbsp. sugar
1 tsp. sugar K c. scalded milk
2 yeast cakes 2 well-beaten eggs
4 tbsp. shortening 3 c. flour
1 tsp. salt
Dissolve veast cakes and teaspoon of sugar in water. Add shortening, remaining
sugar, and milk. Let cool, add eggs. Let mixture stand fifteen minutes. Add flour and
salt, and mix with spoon. Let rise one and one-half hours. Mix down and mold.
Cut dough in half. Roll out and spread with paste. Cut as cinnamon rolls and let
rise in muffin tins. Bake twenty minutes in 375° oven. Makes twenty-four rolls.
Paste for Orange Rolls
Grated rind of 1 orange 3 tbsp. soft butter
Vi c. sugar
Fattigmand
6 egg yolks 3 c. flour
4 tbsp. sugar 6 tbsp. sweet cream
V& tsp. salt V& tsp. cardamom
1 tsp. melted butter
Beat yolks well; add sugar and mix well. Add remaining ingredients. Roll thin,
cut in diamond shapes and fry in deep fat at 375° for two or three minutes until golden
brown. Dust with powdered sugar.
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RECIPES FROM THE NORTH CENTRAL STATES MISSION 601
Ground Raisin Cookies
1 c. shortening 2 tsp. soda
lYi c. sugar 2 tsp. salt
3 beaten eggs Vz tsp. baking powder
1 e. sour milk or buttermilk 1 tsp. nutmeg
5 c. sifted flour 2 lbs. raisins (washed, drained, and
1 tsp. cloves ground)
3 tsp. cinnamon
Cream shortening; add sugar and cream well. Add eggs and mix well. Add
sour milk (or buttermilk) alternately with dry ingredients. Add raisins. Drop by
teaspoonful on greased baking sheet. Bake in 350° oven for twelve to thirteen
minutes. Remove to rack and store in jar when cooled.
Rainbow Salad
Bottom Layer:
Dissohc one package lemon jcllo as directed on package. Add two tablespoons
crushed pineapple. (Use pineapple juice as part of liquid in the jello.)
Middle Layer:
Dissohe one package lemon jello as directed on package. Add two tablespoons
salad dressing, one small package cream cheese.
Top Layer:
Dissohc two packages strawberry jello as directed on package. When cool add
two packages frozen strawberries.
Let first layer set; then add second; then third.
Fruit Dressing
(May be used on any fruit salad)
1 c. powdered sugar (well packed) 1 c. cooking oil
Vz tsp. salt juice and rind of 1 lemon and orange
Vz tsp. mustard
Mix dry ingredients. Then add oil and juice alternately, beginning and ending
with oil.
Open Fresh Straw berry Pie
Pastry:
1 c. flour Vi tsp. salt
Vi c. shortening 1 tbsp. cold water
Blend ingredients. Roll out and bake in 425° oven for fifteen minutes.
Filling:
1 c. crushed fresh strawberries 1 tbsp. cornstarch
1 c. sugar
Boil ingredients. Lay whole fresh strawberries in pie shell to cover bottom. Pour
over them the hot berry syrup. Chill. Serve with whipped cream or ice cream.
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Tuna Fish Loaf
2 C. canned tuna (well packed) Vi tsp. paprika
1 c. cooked rice i tsp. salt or use owii judgment on
/4 c. milk amount, tuna is alrcad\' salted
2 eggs !4 c. bread cruml^s fried in butter
Put tuna in strainer. Pour cold \\ater o\er it. Break up witli a fork. Mix all
ingredients together; put bread crumbs on top. Bake loaf in 350° oven from twenty to
thirty fi\"e minutes. (Use a toothpick to see if it is done. Eggs should be set.) Make
a cream sauce, using a regular recipe, but adding one can mushrooms. Ser\e with mush-
room sauce poured o\Qi the top of the baked loaf.
Blueberry Boy Bait
2 c. sifted enriched flour 2 eggs, separated
1 '': c. sugar 1 c. milk
% c. butter 1 e. drained blueberries (fresh, frozen,
2 tsp. baking powder or canned)
1 tsp. salt
Sift flour and sugar. Cut in butter in bowl until size of pea. Save three-fourths
cup of mixture in reserye. Add baking powder, salt, t\\'0 egg yolks, and milk to remain-
ing mixture in bowl. Beat for three minutes — one hundred and fifty strokes per
minute. Beat two egg whites until stiff, but not dry. P'old gently into batter. Spread
into well-greased pan. Place blueberries o\er batter, then spread with reser\e crumb
mixture. Bake at 350° for fort\-fi\e minutes. Serve warm with thin cream. Serves
ten. (Bake in 12" x 8" x 2" pan.)
Princess Rice (Danish Desseri)
Vz c. rice Vi c. citrus peel
2 e. milk !4 c. almonds, blanched and chopped
1 tsp. ^anilla 1 tsp. dissolved powdered gelatine
!4 e. sugar 1 c. whipping cream
Cook rice in milk for about one hour, stirring frequently, ^^''hen rice is done,
add vanilla, sugar, gelatine, citrus peel, and blanched and chopped almonds. Warm
the mixture once more, then remo\e and set aside to cool, stirring occasionally. When
cool, fold in whipped cream and tip into a glass bowl. Serve with red, cold, sweet
fruit sauce, preferably with whole cherries floating in it.
Fruit Sauce
1 c. red fruit juice !4 c. sugar
1 e. water 2 tsp. cornstarch
Add the water and sugar to the juice and bring t(^ boil. Thicken with cornstarch
pre\ iously stirred up in a very little water.
Mother's Late Day
Eliza.beth C. McCnmmon
44
H
"ERE arc red carnations,
Mother. I know you like
them better than white
ones." Helen blew in, looking like
a May day herself in her spring out-
fit. Her mother smiled appreciative-
ly. Red carnations were her favorite
flower.
'There are lilacs in the garden for
a young mother/' she told her
daughter. ''Only Fm afraid you will
have to pick them yourself." The
older woman was lame. 'Tut the
flowers in the white vase, not the
blue."
"I met Professor Stearns," her
daughter said as she arranged the
blooms, "and he asked me if there
is a possibility you would rent your
upstairs to him and his wife. He
is retiring; they have sold their
house."
"I never thought of doing that,"
replied Mrs. Hughes slowly. "Of
course I don't use the upper story
since I sprained my ankle." She
hobbled around with a cane.
"I wonder what your father would
have said if he had seen our big
four-poster bed set up in the dining
room where we used to gi\'e state
dinners?" she exclaimed.
"You won't come and live with
any of us," urged Helen. "It might
be a solution. We worry about you
in this big house alone."
Grandma visited back and forth
among the younger generation, but
never for long. She dearly loved
her grandchildren, l)ut found she
had to conform to the ways of the
different households. Nor did she
wish to impose her ideas on the new
generation. Every age brought its
own problems, she found. She also
liked to keep the old homestead
functioning so they could come to
see her. It was her tower and her
refuge.
"As long as I can manage I like
to be independent. Besides, I like
to keep up the place in memory of
your father."
"It will run down in spite of every-
thing you can do."
"I know," sighed her mother,
"Pete, the boy who cuts the lawn,
has raised his price from a dollar
and a half an hour to two dollars.
Says he can't live on less."
OELEN persisted with her mother,
"The Stearns would take a lease
on the upper floor. John will ad-
vance the money to make the
changes, and you can pay him back
out of the rent. You'd have to wall
off the stairway with a partition to
make a separate entrance and con-
vert the back bedroom into a kitch-
en. Luckily, there are bathrooms
both upstairs and down!"
"Where would we serve a family
dinner, if I kept my bed in the din-
ing room?"
"In the summer, have it on the
back veranda. In the winter, in the
li\ing room as most people do,
nowadays."
The staircase she had loved so
nnich, with its gracious sweep, had
become an ogre of late years, the
doctor's widow admitted to herself;
especially since she had grown lame.
She never climbed it.
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''I guess the Stearns ha\'e their
own furniture?"
"Yes, they ha\e/'
"What would I do with mine?"
"You could sell it or give it away.
Dispose of it to suit yourself, while
vou are still ali\'e. I'd like to buy
the bird's-eve maple set. You could
apply it on the remodeling job.
Maggie likes antiques. She might
pick out some pieces. Ben's carpets
are badly worn. A rug would be a
bonanza to him, even if wall-to-wall
carpeting is the style. Some of the
young folks would be glad of any-
thing. Anything not wanted you
could give to the Deseret Industries.
It would be used, instead of lying
idle upstairs.
"Your weekly cleaning woman can
make a better job if she only has
the downstairs to do," suggested
Helen.
"Yes, she might even have time
to do some ironing," admitted her
mother. "How much would the
Stearns be willing to pay?"
"They said a good rent. Places
are hard to find, and this would suit
them. We can inquire how prices
run, then you could talk it over
with them."
LJELEN didn't know it, but her
mother's heart warmed at the
prospect of additional income. It
would help with several projects.
There were so many little things she
could do with it. Everv time she
went to the grocery store she was
appalled at the high cost of living.
She wondered how large families
existed.
"It'll really be a duplex. What
would vour father think of my liv-
ing in a duplex?"
"Believe me, Mother, you'd be
lucky to ha\'e a duplex!"
"I wonder how Professor Stearns
will take to retirement?" she mused.
He had been popular and busy.
"Not very well, I'm afraid. His
wife will have a hard time of it.
You could be of real help to them,
with your optimistic outlook."
"Yes, and they would be company
for me," said Mrs. Hughes. At tmies
she was lonely.
"All right. Tell them to come
over and see me about it. Tell John
to draw up a plan for the changes
needed. While we are about it, we
might get some painting done." No
one knew how depressed she felt as
the place grew shabby.
"I'm so glad you look at it cheer-
fuhy." Helen kissed her mother;
fixed her foot up on a cushion. "It
will be a change."
"Life is full of changes nowa-
days," the older woman sighed.
"It is all right if it is a change for
the better."
As she shut the door, Plelen felt
it would be a good thing for her
mother. How well she had taken
it. It was quite a "Mother's Day."
Tiew Serial ofke Tiew CQai/ to (Begin in (October
Anew serial "The New Day," by Hazel K. Todd will begin in the October issue of
The Relief Society Magazine. Watch for this dramatic story of a woman who
returns to her home town to find both disappointment and fulfillment.
LriocKiiia-L^hair JLand
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Vcrncssa M. Nagic
OOCKING-CHAIR Land is not far a^^•ay. It is just beyond the last tall lamppost.
■■■^ It is as wide as the imagination, as long as memory, as high as desire, and as lasting
as faith.
Borne on magic earpet or skimming high mountain tops in seven-league boots, the
young-in-heart soon reach the fairy city. To the magic words of "Open Sesame," the
city gates fling wide. Mage Merlin bows low to welcome young tra\elers. There in
the morning mist is Camclot. The faultless king and the phantom knights mount
fierv steeds and set off to right ancient wrongs. Minarets of age-old mosquGS gleam in
the golden sunrise as realistically as the sunny waterfronts of Singapore.
Here Orpheus charms the very trees and stones with the magic of his lyre. The
Bluebird nestles low so that e\en little boys and girls can touch tenderly the tiu\' form.
Magic swords, \\ishing cups, and the purse of Fortunatus are here. White mice become
prancing horses, and a pumpkin the coach of a beautiful princess. Here are Peter Pan,
\\'endv, and Titania, Oberon's fairy queen. Rosalind is writing love notes to Orlando,
and Alice has reached the eighth square in W^onderland to become a beautiful queen.
Bordering the nnstic citv are rolling seas and gleaming wharves. Great dragon
ships ply the ocean, and the graceful galleys toss free on surging tides. Beyond lie the
Islands of Spices.
It has been an exciting journey to Rocking-Chair Land, but now eyelids are hea^y
and the sandman whispers soft lullabies. There is time only for a breathtaking pause
on the soft, warm sands of Egypt's ancient Nile, a fleeting glance at tiny remote Alon-
golian villages nestled on the edge of a meadowland watered by streams from distant
blue mountains. The Hanging Gardens of Babylon demand a quick glance as the
twilight deepens.
Soon the romantic journey to the land of make-believe must end. I'in\- heads
droop drowsily, and little bodies snuggle tight in the security of loving arms.
ROCKING CHAIR LAND
Mrs. \^i\'ian Gro\cr Bcddcs and her children, left to right: Bonnie, Sally, and Connie
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(Bulk for Winter (Bh
ooniin
9
Vests. P. Ciawfoid
Associate Editor
Ihc Relief Society Magazine
DURING the darkest days of
winter, when the autumn
flowers are gone, and months
before the first springtime buds will
appear in the outdoor garden, there
is need for the color and fragrance
of indoor blossoms. If plans are
made during the autumn days, the
deep winter in the home can be
made beautiful with flowering bulbs.
They will bring delight to the house-
wife, joy to the children, and they
will be a comfort to the aged and
those who may be homebound. The
thoughtful woman may wish to
carry gifts of blossoms to her neigh-
bors and may find bulbs suitable for
taking to Relief Society meetings
and luncheons. The bright and
fragrant gift of a pot of flowering
bulbs makes an appropriate birth-
day remembrance or a ''flower-
thought" for a wedding anniversary.
Time for Phnting
Bulbs may be planted as soon as
they are available in autumn. Bulbs
of various kinds begin to arrive in
the garden stores during September,
or they may be ordered from the
catalogues. It usually takes at least
three months from the date of
planting for the blossoms to open.
However, this period of time is in-
fluenced by many factors — includ-
ing variety, size, and quality of the
bulbs; type of growing medium
used; type of container; depth of
planting; temperature and degree of
light in the place of storage; fre-
quency of watering; and other con-
siderations. If one wishes to have
bulbs in bloom for Christmas, it is
wise to plant them before the fif-
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teenth of September, and bulbs
planted later than the middle of
November might not be in bloom
before the time of competition with
the early outdoor flowers.
Bulbs Which May Be Forced
for Winter Blooming
Some experienced indoor garden-
ers declare that any bulb which will
bloom outdoors will also bloom in-
doors, if given suitable treatment.
This might be practical, if one
could be sure of the ''suitable" treat-
ment. Many gardeners love to ex-
periment, and this, to be sure, is
one of the joys of gardening — both
indoors and outdoors.
However, the following bulbs may
be regarded as "standbys" for the
indoor gardener. Many varieties of
the bulbs listed are suitable for in-
door cultivation, but only a few of
the most common varieties are
mentioned.
Hyacinths
L'Innocence (pure white)
City of Haarlem (yellow)
Pink Pearl (soft pink)
Ostara (deep blue)
Myosotis (light blue)
La Victoire (carmine-red)
Narcissi
Paper Whites
Soleild'Or (yellow)
Tulips
Scarlet Leader
La Tulipe Noire (dark purple)
Mamas (canary yellow)
Red Emperor
Mt. Tacoma (pure white, peony-
flowered)
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607
Fantasy (salmon-rose parrot
tulip)
Daffodils
King Alfred (golden yellow)
Mt. Hood (pure white)
Cheerfulness (double white)
Fieesias
Ox'aUs (Bermuda Buttercup)
Lih of the V-AJky
Muscarf (grape hyacinth)
Crocus
Scilhs (wood hyacinths)
Amaryllis
Proccc/urc for PJaiitiiig Bulbs
I'he directions for growing hya-
cinths, which follow, apply in a gen-
eral way to other bulbs, but the
procedure should be varied accord-
ing to the size of the bulbs and the
types of containers used. Some
gardeners have found that they have
better results by planting all small
bulbs at least one-half inch under
the soil. Narcissi are sometimes
planted in pebbles, in peat moss, in
commercial growing mediums, or
in specially designed vases.
Hyacinths for the IikIoot Garden
Because of their radiant color,
lavish bloom, fragrance, and depend-
ability, hyacinths are favorites with
the indoor gardener.
Sclcctmg varieties. For best re-
sults, choose the largest size and
finest quality bulbs available. The
smaller bulbs will usuallv produce
blossoms, but they will be later and
not so resplendent. In choosing
colors and color combinations, con-
sider the color scheme in your home.
\'ery few homes have furnishings in
colors which harmonize well with
the dark purple-blue hyacinths.
White and yellow and pink seem to
harmonize more beautifully with
the colors and furnishings in most
homes. Since hyacinths of different
colors have a different time for
blooming, it is not advisable to mix
colors in the same container, al-
though this can be done if you want
to take the risk of having some of
the blossoms beginning to fade at
the time others are coming into
bloom. Usuallv the pale pink hya-
cinths will be the first to bloom.
Containers foi hyacinth bulbs.
Here the choice is wide, for bulbs
will grow and do well in containers
which can be drained and also in
containers which have no drainage
facilities. Containers at least five
inches deep are preferred for the
large hyacinths bulbs, but more shal-
low pots can be used. Occasionally,
if a pot is too shallow, the hyacinth,
when rooted, will ''stand up" on its
roots and will have to be repotted.
Containers may be of glass, china,
earthenware, clay, copper, tin,
aluminum, brass, or other material.
You may find around the house
enough suitable containers for all
the bulbs you want to plant: pitch-
ers — bowls — glasses — vases —
cans. Some of the containers will
be suitable for a single bulb, and
others may be used for groupings.
Soil Alixtuies for Growing
Hyacinths
The mixture usuallv preferred
consists of one-half garden loam and
one-fourth each of peat moss and
sand. Add to this mixture about
one cup of bone meal and one cup
of charcoal to each c|uart measure
of soil.
Phnting the Bulbs
If a container which can be
drained is used, co\er the drainage
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— SEPTEMBER 1959
hole with a flat pebble. For un-
drained containers the bottom
should be co\'ered with a layer of
gra\el or pebbles about an uich or
more in depth. Sprinkle ehareoal
(which can be obtained at seed
stores and florist shops) over the
pebbles, in both types of containers.
I'he charcoal helps to keep the soil
fresh and aerated. Fill the con-
tainer with the soil mixture to about
one-half inch from the top, then
set the bulbs firmlv into the soil.
For early bloom leave the top of the
bulb above the soil. Some garden-
ers leave at least a third of the bulb
unco\'ered. Ilowexer, others prefer
to completely eo\'er the bulb, and
some place one-half inch of soil over
the top. It will be found, generally,
that the deeper the bulb is planted
the later will be the bloom. As
soon as the bulbs are planted, water
them thoroughlv, so that there will
not be any particles of dry soil in
the pot.
Storage oi Bulbs
The bulbs should be stored in a
cool, dark place. This may be a
cellar, an unheated basement room,
shelves on a back porch, or they
may be stored outdoors in a pit in
the garden area, or set under shrubs,
or placed against the foundation
of the house. If the bulbs are stored
outdoors, they should be protected
from frost by co\ering with wooden
crates or boxes with a rug placed
over the top. It is necessary to keep
the bulbs damp all the time, but
not soaking with water. The
amount of ^^'ater needed will depend
largely upon the humidity of the
place of storage.
The Thuc of Blooming
About four to eight weeks after
bulbs ha\e been planted, the green
shoots will appear, beautiful and
shining little pyramids. In about
two more weeks the flower buds will
begin to form, and at this time, or
later, the bulbs should be moved to
a cool, lighted window, and kept
there until the color is noticeable in
the flow^er buds. Then the plants
may be placed in a sunny window
for their blooming. If thev are re-
mo\ed to a cool place at nights, the
blossoms will last much longer. The
soil should be kept damp, but not
soggy, at all times.
Disposd of Bulbs
When the blossoms fade, cut
them off the plant and discard them.
Let the lea\es remain uncut, and
again place plants in a cool place.
Water them sparingly, and as soon
as the garden soil can be worked in
the spring, plant the hvacinths four
to five inches deep and about four
inches apart and let them grow un-
til the leaves wither. If the bulbs,
ujDon being removed from the pots,
show signs of infestation bv \\'orms
or other pests, soak the bulbs over-
night in a solution made bv dissolv-
ing one teaspoonful of Ivsol (cor-
rosive sublimate) in one quart of
water.
In the springtime, a year from
the time of placement in tlie out-
door garden, the hvacinths wih
bloom again, but it wih take se\ eral
years for them to acquire their
original size and vigor. Bulbs which
have ser\ed one season of indoor
bloom should not be potted again,
but, left in the garden, they will
bloom for many years.
KyClthea Ujtngha/n [Jtjitton
Kyirtistic dioooii
SP\
Oman
of
les
\ LTHEA Bingham Bitton, Blackfoot, Idaho, has developed so many artistic hobbies
-^^ that it is difficult for her to tell which activity is her favorite. She is an excellent
landscape artist and does still-life and china painting as well. Her paintings have won
many prizes at the Idaho State fairs. Her handwork is famous throughout her home
valley and adorns many homes of her relatives and friends. She crochets, embroiders,
quilts, does hand and machine sewing, and makes' hooked rugs. An entertaining and
informed speaker, she is in demand for giving talks and book reviews. She takes an
active part in the affairs of her community and has served long and faithfully in all
the women's auxiliaries of the Church. Her service in Relief Society includes twelve
years as a stake board member. Six years ago Mrs. Bitton and her husband celebrated
their golden wedding anniversary. They are parents of five children, grandparents of
twenty, and great-grandparents of three. Mrs. Bitton's life is a lovely blend of devo-
tion to home, family, Church, and community, and her hobbies have enriched and
beautified all these fields of service.
cJhe Viyindows of uieaven
Vera Geddcs Merrill
He promised to open the windows of heaven.
My own downcast eyes could not see.
That the shadows which darkened my vision
Were but new ways to enlighten me.
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A'' Is for Apron
Part II
Jleiie H. Kingsbury
Old woman! Old woman! Old apron
wonimi! Are you too tired to wnJk the
streets todnv? Whv are von rocking so
enlmly under your plum tree shade?
Haven't you noticed vour chair sinking
ever deeper into the grassy ground?
CLARISSA'S eyes, half closed
to the slanting, setting sun
scarcely acknowledged the
taunt of imprudent children. Old
apron woman, indeed! This starched
linen apron, crisp to a scratchy
crackle; this crocheted insertion six
inches deep; this ling mantle of
white was all she asked of heaven
for adornment.
And why not? For on the day
she turned eight she wore just such
an apron over her best linsey-wool-
sey, and by midnight it was in rags,
covered with printers' ink! Only
one corner was worth being cut off
to make a small handkerchief.
She now remembered that night
in October of 1838. The frontier
was a seething mass of six thousand
mobsters intent on death to an un-
armed community! No time to
harvest the fields, not a moment to
pack precious possessions, only an
hour to gather the children and start
with mother out on the prairie. Only
a hasty prayer to protect father gone
to negotiate with the wicked invad-
ers.
The start was made. Merging
families hastened together for mu-
tual aid. Like quail beneath a bush
they hovered. On down the street
they soon fled, sobbing, crying,
whispering, demanding, praying.
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grimly going like beasts before a
whiplash.
Up ahead was a shout of warn-
ing. Back through the ranks thun-
dered word of emergency within
this greater struggle. Then, so the
rabble would not miss a block of
refugees, the man in charge ran by
and pointed to one of a family for
this acute, quick, quiet, secretive
assignment. Now an old man, here
a boy, there a strong youth, and on
to Clarissa's family cart he came
calling.
As she looked up, the man nodded
his head in her direction. She
glanced backward, hoping she was
not the one he meant. But he fair-
Iv yelled her name and pointed
north to Brother Dawson's field, to
which the other called ones were
already running. Ller terrified gaze
sought her mother's, who only nod-
ded her consent. At eight years one
still minded one's parents without
question, so Clarissa chased after the
fleeing figures.
Years later Clarissa tried to de-
termine just where she changed
from wildly escaping danger to
meeting a duty eagerly. It could
not have been many rods. But once
she became part of this varied aged
group, she sensed she could be
thought of as a little sister from
just another fear-ridden household.
Those up ahead waved her onward,
past the field, and shortly they
entered the printing office. By the
time Clarissa caught up with them,
the leaders had about-faced some-
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where in the shop and were fairly made before the moon showed over
kicking the rest over as they crowded the trees. Each time the metal
out the door. clanked with others in a newly
Until Clarissa was pushed against turned hole; each time a ready shov-
a rain barrel she was not aware that el smoothed the field's furrows to
each person held something in his disguise its recent disturbance,
arms. In the darkening of night Quickly, the crew left the spot,
she just couldn't make it out. Her Orders were given to be silent on
own steps, now steady, took her in- this night's work. Two men were
doors. A sure-sounding voice charged to remember the spot, even
ordered, 'Tlold out your apron!" if it took years to come back, or if
Automaticallv she clasped its lower flood or fire should change the
corners and instantly a great weight scene. One boy whispered, 'Til
was thrown into the ample folds, come back all right! Fll dig up that
The jerk of gravity made her knees type, and help uncle set it again! I
buckle and her knuckles whiten to don't care if it takes ten years!"
the burden. Someone pushed her Well, it didn't take ten years, but
shoulders to an about turn and as eleven months did pass before the
she stumbled out, the order to the type was resurrected, carted four
next child was, 'Tut these in your hundred miles east to another state
bonnet!" and set up in a damp cellar through
which ran a spring!
^HIS automatic, violent course, But at eight, Clarissa was too
born of determined action, was young to think of the far future,
so abrupt and almost ruthless, that Her sudden remembrance of her
there was no time for thinking; only mother on up ahead in the stream
obeying. She staggered under her of men and women made her eyes
load, and trailed the old man in water and her heart jump to her
front. Back toward Dawson's field throat. She would have run swiftly
they tottered with their burdens. to find safety, but the command
Above the noise of hounded hu- was to allay suspicion, trail with her
manity out on the road, Clarissa fellow laborers of the field, try to
could hear the rasp, scrape, and grind appear calm, and give no clue to
of a shovel on reluctant soil. The the night's affairs. The picture was
plunk of the earth sounded at her to be of a belated party catching up
feet and a voice ordered, ''Dump with the whole fearing, fleeing set-
out the type, girl!" She guessed tlement.
she was already on the brink of a She cried a little, thinking all was
small pit, so, bracing herself, she lost — her mother, father, two little
flung her load out and ahead, heard brothers — where were they — gone
it fall with a metallic ring, then she forever?
clasped her hands to ease the ten- The march ended at dawn. The
sion of the apron hold. frontier miles powdered under their
Someone cried, "Don't stand feet. The eight-year-old peered
there, girl! Go back again!" through a morning mist to identify
Oh, she might lose her place in her fellow travelers. But so dirty
line if she halted! Three trips she were they, so unkempt, so inked
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from head to fingertips, who could
tell who they were?
Then, looking at her own hands,
as the sun came up, she knew that
she was one with them in this hid-
ing away of treasure. It was when
she picked up a corner of her apron
to wipe her tears that she cried out
in despair. It was ruined! Torn,
jagged, inked, oiled, snagged, creased
as beneath a crimping iron; oh,
never to be worn again. Then, as
she smoothed it over her knees she
remembered the hand-clutched cor-
ner and looked at it. Well, enough
cloth had been protected to keep
clean a small portion. Those eight
square inches were enough to sew
some lace to and make a handker-
chief for her wedding! And along
one edge, faintly showing, could be
read ''grace of God" — from the wet
type buried in a field!
/^LD apron woman, indeed/
Thoughtless children, out to
make fun of the aged, could not
crush her now . . . no, they only
hastened her memories to that night
eighty years ago, where, for a brief
time, she was in the thick of the
greatest excitement she was ever to
see.
Old, old apron woman/ Look our way.
Look at us little boys on the moist ditch
bank. To right or left, you do not notice
us! Ah, she is so ancient, so soft of step,
we guess nothing ever happened to her!
Nothing happened to me, indeed!
Once, age twelve, I crept scarcely
breathing to save sound, and fol-
lowed my mother to a great corral
of milling horses. Several hundred
animals, each stolen from such a
defenseless soul as was my mother,
had been driven mercilessly, and
now awaited day to be herded, in
all haste, to a market hundreds of
miles over the prairie. Their quiver-
ing, frightened, frantic bodies attest-
ed to tragic blows and tightened
ropes. Some were subdued to
wretched drooping of mouths to the
ground; others, still undaunted,
jerked raw necks upward as though
presently feeling the lash.
Mother, the gentle, the forgiving,
the anything-for-peace type, seemed
changed in her entire demean as
were the once fearless horseflesh be-
hind the bars. Neither woman nor
horse was in its normal element.
Mother represented a sort of con-
trolled fury. Even her voice was
tones lower. Her shoulders appeared
broader. Her bare hands, hanging
in rhythm to her determined stride,
looked as large as a man's!
I saw a wall of water once in a
dry wash that came on with the
same inexorable force as she now
strode toward the rails of the cor-
ral. Her long, full skirts dragged
back in the night breeze and crept
up a little above her high-top shoes.
Sorrow or adversity might bow some
people to the earth, never to rise;
but with Mother, if she was felled,
she sprang up more majestic. The
men who had run off her cattle and
horses could well beware of this
pioneer settler.
And so she marched toward that
cattle pen looking as if neither man
nor the devil could stop her. With-
out a pause she climbed the rails
and only stopped her course to call
the name of a mare, beloved by our
family. In the clear, cloudless night
she discerned an answering jerk of
a horse's head and heard a familiar
whinny. She grabbed her skirt,
threw her legs over the top rail, and
in a half vaulting motion cleared the
inner side of the fence. She gained
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613
momentum and ran kit claim her
horse. .^.
An oath crackedf in the air. A
hulk in human form lurched toward
her. A grip of iron shook her shoul-
der.
'T^HEN, through the aperatures of
the fence I saw majesty in all
its power and beauty. Mother
looked that evil man squarely in the
face. Her words were lost in the
ceaseless tramping of the captured
beasts, but the effect on that man
amazed me as much as seeing
Mother in that pen. He seemed
struck with an invisible whip, or
pushed away by a magnificent force, you?" — "Let's move these critters
I always meant to ask her what she out before any more women come
said to him; but never dared. m. . . .
At that instant other forms But by now we were running to
emerged from the gate of the cor- our wagon. Our cow was hitched
ral, and a wrangling ensued which to one side of the tongue, the three
showed that some of the thieves little children were bundled in the
could not understand how a woman back under a quilt, and the mare
got in the place anyway! All of backed into place as quicksilver
which didn't concern this desperate flows in a narrow trough in a refin-
pioneer woman for one instant. ing mill. I helped Mother harness
Again she called the mare, again this odd team of bovine and equine
along her property. A few clicking
sounds from the side of her mouth
signalled the animal to pace it out
of the corral with her.
By this time I had inched around
to the gate, and I reached for Moth-
er's hand as she came by. I guess
she knew I was there, for she had
ordered me to come along just in
case of trouble. But the look on
her face was so triumphant I scarce-
ly recognized her.
From the area of the horses came
shouts and quarreling — ''Bring her
back" — ''Shoot her down" —
"Can't you beat a woman better
than that?" — "What she say to
it answered her. Mother went to
it, the danger about her as mere
nothing. And when she came close
enough to stroke the animal's mane,
a great peace came over the creature.
Its nose, in her outstretched palm,
ceased its jerking to the sky.
A raucous noise grated on my
flesh. We stepped over the wheel
hubs and settled in the seat.
Later, I realized Mother hadn't
breathed a word since that man
grabbed her in the corral. What
she had said to him had sufficed for
quite a period of time.
Over her shoulder she lovingly
ears. A rough voice yelled, "Woman, glanced at her little ones. Over her
how you expect to get it back?" knees she smoothed her apron. She
Language is not so important slapped the reins and made that
sometimes; at least Mother didn't same side-of-the-mouth click of her
need any. Her hands jerked to the tongue we knew so well,
back of her waist, caught the ties of Our team leaned forward for a
her apron, yanked them apart, and puH to the open prairies — which
with one motion snaked that apron would lead, in a few years, to the
and its strings around the mare's Rocky Mountains — to a Valley of
neck, cast a slip knot, and with a Refuge in the Great Basin,
free end of cloth gently tugged . LXjsh^ooa^luded)
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FROM THE FIELD
HiiJda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publieation in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Soeiety Handbook' of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Ivy M. Brown
GRIDLEY STAKE (CALIFORNIA) RELIEF SOCIETY VISITING TEACHERS
CONVENTION PRESENTS DRAMATIZATION "A LIGHT SHINING,"
May 6, 1959
Front row, seated, left to right: Pansy Gardner; Lavaun Papa; Jeanie Lake; Janet
Meyers; Lois Dustin, representing a grandmother in the dramatization; Reva Payne,
a daughter; Betty Wright, a granddaughter; Orlean Dewsnup; Laura Richins; Ebba
Quist.
Baek row, standing, left to right: Dorothy L. Fife; Gerda Nielsen; Karen J. Young;
Edith M. Hemstalk; Sadie Harris; Margaret Hunter; Ivy M. Brown, President, Gridley
Stake Relief Society; Cecelia Johnson; Olive Johns; Rachel Bate; Margaret Atkinson;
Charlotte Davis; Tracie G. Jensen; Lucy McGuskie, stake visiting teacher leader.
Sister Brown reports: "Over 200 visiting teachers attended one of our most
inspiring activities at which 'A Light Shining' was presented under the direction of
Marvis Fife. The sisters pictured include several who ha\'e been visiting teachers for
nearly fifty years. The three sisters in the center front are a grandmother, a mother,
and a daughter, who are all visiting teachers and who took those parts in the dramatiza-
tion. Some were honored from each ward who had served for thirty-five years or
longer, and each was presented a lovely potted plant. The musical numbers were
given by Singing Mothers groups from Chico, Oroville, Yuba City, and Gridley Wards.
Refreshments were served from a beautifully decorated table. Each one present was
given a bookmark inscribed in gold with 'Charity Never Faileth!' "
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Photograph submitted by Anna M. Merrill
PORTLAND STAKE (OREGON) PRESENTS SKIT FOR SPRING FESTIVAL
May 1, 1959
Left to right: Mae Hinman, President, Oregon City Ward Relief Society, repre-
senting "the Voiee of the Magazine"; Jovee Hill, President, Portland Tenth Ward
Relief Society, representing "the Budget"; Margaret Watkins, President, Hillsboro
Ward Relief Society, representing "Time"; Otelia Hedman, President, Portland Seventh
Ward Relief Society, representing "Material"; Marilyn Young, Portland Second Ward
Relief Society, representing "the Bride"; Alberta Rider, President, West Hills Ward
Relief Society, representing "the Dinner Plate"; Carol Reunion, President, Portland First
Ward Relief Society, representing "Goals."
Anna M, Merrill, President, Portland Stake Relief Society, reports: " 'From the
Magazine' was the theme of the Portland Stake Relief Society annual spring festi\al
at which eleven ward Magazine representatives of the stake were honored guests. The
stage was beautifully and appropriately set with a large , . , Magazine, through which
passed the characters in the various skits presented by each of the four departments
in Relief Society. The cover for the Magaziiie, as shown in the picture, was' designed
and painted by the Portland Stake Relief Society literature class leader, Faye Olscn,
and her daughter, of the Gresham Ward. Each department, under the leadership of
a stake board member, developed a skit summarizing the year's lessons, as they came
to Relief Society members through the Magazine, and portraying the thoughts through
'music and the spoken word.' A four-voice choir, dressed attractively in dark skirts and
white blouses, gave soul-stirring scriptures with perfect harmony to remind us, through
the theology lessons, that 'the Lord hath spoken.'
"The literature characters which came from the Magazine wore authentic costumes,
as they vividly relived life in early America through an introduction to the literature of
that day. One of the stake's ideal Latter-day Saint families demonstrated the Family
Hour for the social science department. The work department skit featured a beautiful
young bride, shown in the picture, frantically searching for help with the household and
family responsibilities, which she realizes she has accepted without feeling fully qualified
for the position. With words written by Jessie Cooke, stake Work Director Counselor,
stake work leader Betty Shelton, and other ward leaders, ward presidents, representing
various phases of household management coxered in the home management lessons, told
the bride how The Relief Society Magazine will supply the help she needs.
"Mae Hinman served as 'the Voiee of the Aiagazine,' writing and giving the con-
tinuity for the entire program. A framed certificate of merit was presented to Clarice
Slaon, Magazine representative for the Portland First Ward, for having attained 154
per cent, the highest in the stake. A buffet luncheon concluded the day's activities,,
attended by 200 Relief Society members and friends."
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Photograph submitted by Lela L. Udall
CALIFORNIA MISSION, SAN GORGONIO DISTRICT SINGING MOTHERS
PRESENT MUSIC FOR DISTRICT QUARTERLY CONFERENCE,
May 17, 1^59
Director LaVirda Stuehser stands at the left (in dark dress), and assistant organist
Clara Toronto is seated at the organ.
Front row, seated, left to right: Neva Robertson; Lois Payne; Marthella Yoakum;
Ardell Hansen; Francis Moore; Essie Gardner; Mary Stucki.
Second row, standing, left to right: Lu Schwartwald; Virgie Denning; Bertha
Denning; Georgia Harris; Dorothy Groom; Cherie Pauley; Delores Modine; Sovina
Foster; Luella Smith; Eva Smith.
Back row, standing, left to right: Carol Grant; Crystal Crow; Myrtle Evelyn; Ida
Fuller; Clarine Lund; Murvil Pack; Cora Serymore; Gladys Harvey; Sharleene Clay;
Roberta Spiers; Herlen Harris; Joyce Wickham.
Lora Ford, organist, and Alice Higbee, pianist, were not present when this picture
was taken.
Lela L. Udall, President, California Mission Relief Society, reports that this is
the first Singing Mothers chorus of the San Gorgonio District.
Photograph submitted by Ardella H. Stevens
MOUNT OGDEN STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR CLOSING SOCIAL
Ardella H. Stevens, President, Mount Ogden Stake Relief Society, reports: "Sing-
ing Mothers from all eight wards of Mount Ogden Stake participated in a musical
for the closing social of Relief Society, in which they paid tribute and honor in words
of love, praise, and encouragement, in music written by our own sisters of Utah.
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617
"Ward choristers and organists who led individual groups were:
"Fifth Ward — Daisy Davis and Myra Froer; Twelfth Ward — Minnie Daines
and Athlene Tooms; Seventeenth Ward — Elizabeth Johnson and Alida Noorda;
Twenty-Third Ward — Ardella Nichols and Lucile Jackson; Twenty-Fourth Ward —
Alice Anderson and Mildred Pratt; Forty-Fourth Ward — Laurel Dickson and Gladys
Garwin; Fifty-Second Ward — Ellen Paul and Ruth Bott; Fifty-Third Ward —
Ortell Ferguson and Anna Rae Plougher.
"Tributes were paid to the following sisters who composed the music or words for
the songs presented in the musical: Minnie Warner, Gladys Rich, Lula Greene Richards,
Lucy May Green, Ida H. White, Alberta Huish Christensen, Florence Jepperson Mad-
sen, Beatrice Farley Stevens, Emmeline B. Wells, and Ruth May Fox.
"This musical, arranged by the stake music leaders Mathel Ridges, chorister, and
Louise Knight, organist, was unique and very outstanding, as well as being beautifully
rendered. The soloist was Minnie Daines and the reader, Lucile Jackson. Delicious
refreshments were served to two hundred sisters. Stake Work Director Gounselor
Rena B. Tree and Gladys Simpson, with the assistance of the ward work directors,
were responsible for a lovely display of the stake welfare sewing which is all com-
pleted."
Photograph submitted by Fern Horton
SANTAQUIN-TINTIG STAKE (UTAPI), GOSHEN WARD SINGING
MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE
March 1959
Front row, left to right: Madge Christensen; Naomi Jermain; Virginia Roberts;
Elva Okelberry; Eva B. Steele; Bertie Okelberry; Fern Horton, conductor; Barbara
Horton, pianist.
Second row, left to right: Sylvia Steck; Elaine Nelson; Mildred Branagan; Dale
Lindquist; Mardean Nelson; Rachel Jensen; Louise Thomas; Virginia Cloud.
Back row, left to right: Eva Helen Nelson; Mabel Morgan; Barbara Jensen; Wylma
Jasperson; Lazetta Carter; Winifred White; Jeanne Beck.
Fern Horton, President, Santaquin-Tintic Stake Relief Society, reports: "This
chorus is very active in Church work, both in ward and stake. They are very faithful
and give much of their time in service to others. They sing in every funeral service
in the ward, in all ward conferences, and in Relief Society Sunday evening services, in
many stake conferences, and they have put on many entertainments to raise money to
build the ward chapel. Some members of this group have been singing together for
over twenty-five years. They furnished the music for both sessions of the Santaquin-
Tintic Stake quarterly conference in March."
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Photograph submitted by Norma M. Kunkel
LEWISTON STAKE (WASHINGTON AND IDAHO) RELIEF SOCIETY
SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIG FOR STAKE QUARTERLY
CONFERENCE, May lo, 1959
Norma M. Kunkel, President, Lewiston Stake Relief Society, and guest organist
Phyllis' Smith are seated at the organ, center; director Fonda Eastman is standing third
from the left on the second row. Stake organist Lola Williams is not pictured.
Sister Kunkel reports: "Numbers presented were 'If With All Your Hearts' and
'Oh, May I Know the Lord As Friend.' "
This picture is the first submitted for inclusion in the "Notes From the Field"
department of The Relief Society Magazine by the Lewiston Stake, and the Singing
Mothers are a newly organized group.
Photograph submitted by Thera K Harper
RAFT RIVER STAKE (IDAHO) RELIEF SOCIETY HONORS VISITING
TEACHERS AT SOCIAL, June 2, 1959
Thera E. Harper, President, Raft River Stake Relief Society, reports: "The feature
entertainment was the dramatic presentation called 'A Light Shining,' under the direc-
tion of the stake board members Cloe Warr and Jennie Lee. Those helping with
this part of the program \\ere: Flossie Smith, Inez Barlow, JoAnn Hill, Sylvia Baker,
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619
Leone Bell, Clara Beyler, and Fontella Tracy. Small books were presented to the
sister from each ward who had served for the most years as a visiting teacher. All
other visiting teachers were given a beautiful dish as a token of their devoted and
faithful service through the year. Another part of the program was the fashion show
'The Magic Needle' under the direction of stake board members Lora H. Thompson
and Barbara Gardiner. The 'Magic Needle' theme depicted styles from 1842 to 1958.
The highlight was the showing of the lovely formal modeled by Jean Marie Miller, and
made by her mother; and the beautiful wedding gown modeled by Ann Taylor, and
made by her grandmother and aunt; also the 1909 wedding dress of Sister Ella Bucher,
modeled by her granddaughter Sybil Bucher. The stake Magazine representative Alice
O. Neddo presented copies of songs about our Relief Society Magazine to the audience
to inspire them with the importance of having the Magazine in their homes. Every-
one joined in community singing, realizing the worth of our own publication. The
stake board members furnished refreshments. The music for the day was under the
direction of Barbara Udy, stake chorister."
Photograph submitted by Rea Jorgensen
WHITTIER STAKE (CALIFORNIA) RELIEF SOCIETY BOARD
Front row, left to right: Edith Mitchell, Second Counselor; Rea Jorgensen, Presi-
dent (formerly First Counselor in East Los Angeles Stake); Alta Ellis, First Counselor.
Second row, left to right: Jean Reid, literature class leader; Juanita Singley,
Magazine representative; Doris Echols', chorister; Lucille Dimmick, Secretary-Treasurer.
Back row, left to right: Nelda Tanner, work meeting leader; Eleanor Hansen, the-
ology class leader; Elsie Folkerson, visiting teacher message leader; Helen Cox, organist.
Eula Mae Bowman, social science class leader, was unable to be present when the picture
was taken.
Sister Jorgensen reports: "The division of the East Los Angeles Stake on April 26,
1959, created the new Whittier Stake. There are five former Relief Society presidents
on the board, and three others have been Relief Society counselors. All are devoted
workers and teachers in Relief Society."
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Photograph submitted by Marjorie M. Ward
SALT LAKE STAKE (UTAH), RELIEF SOCIETY BOARD AND STAKE
PRESIDENCY AT RELIEF SOCIETY DINNER PARTY, May 8, 1959
Front row, seated, left to right: Gladys S. Winters, Counselor; Inez T. Hurst,
Counselor; Franziska L. Kooyman, Magazine representative; Zitelle M. Snarr, visiting
teacher message leader.
Second row, standing, left to right: Minnie A. Rossiter, chorister; Karine Kiepe,
literature class leader; Marriet M. Capel, theology class leader; Bessie B. Clark, work
meeting leader; Mabel H. Burgoyne, social class leader; Marjorie M. Ward, President;
Arrah B. Wood, Secretary; Hilda M. Harvey, organist.
Back row, standing, left to right: Wallace A. Wood, Counselor; President Glen P.
Umberger; Wm. M. Thomas, Counselor.
Sister Ward reports: ''The spirit of 'Aloha' was radiant at the Salt Lake Stake
Relief Society dinner party, May 8, 1959, in a tropical island setting, complete with
palm trees, anthurium, fruits, and other items of Hawaiian decor. Members of the
stake board were gay in their colorful Hawaiian Muu Muu's. Each one wore a hi-
biscus, the flower of Hawaii, in her hair. Seventy-five guests were presented with
vari-colored leis as they arrived and received the traditional 'Aloha' greeting from mem-
bers of the board. Sister Harriet Capel acted as toastmistress and delighted the group
with fascinating stories of the islands. Authentic Hawaiian dances, songs, and string
music further created a beautiful atmosphere for the affair. This is an annual party to
honor the ward Relief Society presidencies. Other guests bidden to this gala event
were members of the Salt Lake Stake presidency, their wives, and other stake repre-
sentatives, past and present. All members of the stake board were hostesses and
assisted with arrangements."
N DEPARTMENT
cJheoiogti — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 19— Some Future Events
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Section 29:1-29)
For Tuesday, December 1, 1959
Objective: To indicate the emphasis which the Lord has put upon future events.
TN the Prophet Joseph Smith's
history, he does not provide us
with information about the reason
for receiving Section 29 of The
Doctrine and Covenants except
that it was given prior to the con-
ference beginning September 26,
1830. The Church had been organ-
ized more than five months before
this. We know that the first time
the angel Moroni visited the Proph-
et considerable emphasis was given
by that holy messenger to what
would transpire in the latter days.
In his second appearance during the
night of September 21-22, 1823, the
Prophet said:
... he informed me of great judgments
which were coming upon the earth, with
great desolations by famine, sword, and
pestilence; and that these grievous judg-
ments would come on the earth in this
generation , . . (D. H. C. 1:14).
That part of Section 29 which is
reserved for this lesson deals, in
general, with some of these judg-
ments and events associated with
them. In many revelations to be
studied during this course, we learn
about future events, one of the im-
portant contributions of The Doc-
trine and Covenants.
Lesson Division
For this lesson the revelation is
divided into these parts: (1) intro-
duction and the gathering of the
elect (verses 1-8); (2) second com-
ing of Jesus and the millennium
(verses 9-11); (3) the judgment
(verse 12); (4) the first resurrection
(verse 13); (5) signs preceding the
second coming of Jesus (verses 14-
21); (6) events following the
millennium (verses 22-29).
It seems needless to say that all
of these subjects will not be given
extensive discussion in this lesson,
for they are found in subsequent
revelations.
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The Gathering oi the Saints
Attention is drawn immediately
in this revelation, as well as in oth-
ers, to the faet that this divine mes-
sage comes from our Redeemer who
has atoned for our sins. Because
Jesus has offered himself as the Sav-
ior, there is reason for his bringing
together ''. . . as many as will heark-
en to my voice and humble them-
selves before me ..." (D & C 29:2).
The allusion to a hen gathering her
chickens under her wings in verse 2
reminds one of the Savior's sorrow
concerning those of Jerusalem who
would not come into his fold be-
cause of wickedness. (See Mt.
23-370
In the dispensation of the fulness
of times the Lord again calls upon
all who will humble themselves in
mighty prayer to respond to his call.
Only those who hearken to his voice
will make up his people. (See Sec-
tion 45:28-29.) In the introduction
to this revelation, however, the Lord
directs his message to those who
have already received the gospel;
for, ''. . . your sins are forgiven you,
therefore ye receive these things . . /'
(D & C 29:3).
This is a thought which we
should keep in mind. Those who
have become members of the king-
dom of God and who truly humble
themselves in the manner suggested
receive great knowledge and guid-
ance. And thus the six elders who
were present when the revelation
was given and who were chosen to
declare the gospel were to be in-
structed in matters of great impor-
tance concerning the latter days.
These elders, if they did not suc-
cumb to the adversary's temptings
(verse 2) would enjoy the blessing
of:
. . . Whatsoever ye shall ask in faith.
being united in prayer aceording to my
command, ye shall reeeive.
And ye are ealled to bring to pass the
gathering of mine elect; for mine elect
hear mv voice and harden not their hearts
(D& C 29:6-7).
Faith, unity, prayer, and righteous
living continue to bring success to
the missionaries as they proclaim
the gospel courageously.
As one studies these few verses
(1-8), he discovers that there are
two aspects to the principle of gath-
ering. The first is being gathered
out of the world into the kingdom
of God, and this, it seems, is the
phase of the gathering the Church
is now in principally. Nephi saw
this period of the latter days in
vision:
And it came to pass that I, Nephi, be-
held the power of the Lamb of God, that
it descended upon the saints of the church
of the Lamb, and upon the covenant peo-
ple of the Lord, who were scattered upon
all the face of the earth; and they were
armed with righteousness and with the
power of God in great glory. . . .
there were wars and rumors of wars
among all the nations and kindreds of
the earth. . . .
Then, at that day, the work of the
Father shall commence, in preparing the
way for the fulfilhng of his covenants,
which he hath made to his people who
are of the house of Israel (I Nephi
14:14 ff.)
In the second phase of the prin-
ciple of gathering, Israel is to be
gathered in unto one place (Section
29:8; 45:64-71). The eventual cen-
ter place for the gathering of the
elect of the Lord will be in the New
Jerusalem, indicated by revelation
as the western part of Missouri.
In the meantime, there have been
other gathering places where the
saints have been brought together
to work out certain purposes of the
Lord in these latter days. As already
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indicated by prophecy, with the
growth of the Church in the world,
many places of gathering are ap-
pointed and may probably yet be
appointed. This fact was revealed
in a subsequent revelation, as fol-
lows :
Zion [New Jerusalem] shall not be
moved out of her place, notwithstanding
her children are scattered.
They that remain, and are pure in heart,
shall return, and come to their inherit-
ances, they and their children, with songs
of everlasting joy, to build up the waste
places of Zion —
And all these things that the prophets
might be fulfilled.
And, behold, there is none other place
appointed than that which I have ap-
pointed; neither shall there be any other
place appointed than that which I have
appointed, for the work of the gathering
of my saints —
Until the day cometh when there is
found no more room for them; and then
I have other places which I will appoint
unto them, and they shall be called stakes,
for the curtains or the strength of Zion.
Behold, it is my will, that all they who
call on my name, and worship me accord-
ing to mine everlasting gospel, should
gather together and stand in holy places;
And prepare for the revelation which
is to come, when the veil of the covering
of my temple, in my tabernacle, which
hideth the earth, shall be taken off, and
all flesh shall see me together (D & C
101 :i7-23).
The Lord declared that those who
enter his Church are gathered out
of the world. In the early part of
the dispensation in which we live,
calls were made upon the members
to come together to work out the
purposes of the Lord in Ohio, Mis-
souri, Illinois, and then in the west-
ern part of the United States. The
kingdom of God has flourished in
its growth and power bringing about
the continuing fulfillment of Ne-
phi's prophecy that the saints,
though scattered among the nations.
are armed with righteousness and
the power of God. These saints
remain in the missions of the
Church building up the work of the
Lord in their places of conversion,
exercising their power in affecting
for good the lives of their associates.
Moreover, stakes are continually be-
ing formed from mission areas.
The Second Coming oi Jesus
(D & C 29:9-11)
From the revelation quoted above
(Section 101), we learn a purpose
of the gathering of the saints — to
prepare for the second coming of
the Savior. This purpose is given
in Section 29, verse 8 ''. . . to prepare
their hearts and be prepared in all
things against the day when tribula-
tion and desolation are sent forth
upon the wicked." There follows
the plainly stated fact that the day
is coming soon when all the wicked
shall burn as stubble, in order that
when the Lord comes he will dwell
in righteousness with men on earth
for the thousand years of the mil-
lennium.
The Twelve and Judgment
(D &C 29:12)
It should be evident to all that
the coming of Jesus in great power
marks the beginning of the millen-
nial period of peace and righteous-
ness (verse 11). Preparation for
that period is now going on.
Associated with the Redeemer at
his coming will be the Twelve
Apostles '\ . . which were with me
in my ministry at Jerusalem . . ."
(D & C 29:12). These apostles
will come clothed with robes of
righteousness and with crowns upon
their heads to judge the ''. . . whole
house of Israel, even as many as
have loved me and kept my com-
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mandments, and none else" (D & C
29:12). After having proved them-
selves, the Twelve will receive their
blessing as indicated.
Does this mean that included
with the Twelve will be Judas, the
betrayer of the Lord? It seems not.
All this revelation states is that the
Twelve who will come with the
Lord will be those '\ . . which were
with me in my ministry at Jerusa-
lem" (D & C 29:12). In order to
fill the vacancy in that quorum, the
remaining eleven apostles met and,
under divine guidance, selected Mat-
thias. He qualified as an apostle of
that dispensation because he
''. . . companied with us all the
time that the Lord Jesus went in
and out among us, Beginning from
the baptism of John, unto that same
day that he was taken up from
us . . ." (Acts 1:21-22). Matthias
will come as a member of the
Twelve in filling the office '\ . . from
which Judas by transgression fell
" (See Acts 1:15-26.)
The power of judgeship will ex-
tend beyond those of Jesus* mortal
ministry to include other branches
of Israel led into other parts of the
world, as the Nephite Twelve. (See
1 Nephi 12:9-10.)
The Resurrection (D & C 29:13)
In this verse we learn that at the
second coming of Christ there will
be a resurrection of those who ''died
in me":
For a trump shall sound both long and
loud, even as upon Mount Sinai, and all
the earth shall quake, and they shall come
forth — yea, even the dead which died
in me, to receive a crown of righteousness,
and to be clothed upon, even as I am,
to be with me, that we may be one
(D & C 29:13).
Who are those 'Vhich died in
me?" This does not apply only to
those who, it has been said, will
judge the house of Israel — the
Twelve. The crown of righteous-
ness will also be received by those
who faithfully kept the command-
ments and they will be one with
Jesus their Redeemer. This fact is
indicated in other revelations, two
of which are:
And the saints that are upon the earth,
who are alive, shall be quickened and be
caught up to meet him.
And they who have slept in their graves
shall come forth, for their graves shall be
opened; and they also shall be caught up
to meet him in the midst of the pillar of
heaven —
They are Christ's, the first fruits, they
who shall descend with him first, and
they who are on the earth and in their
graves, who are first caught up to meet
him; and all this by the voice of the
sounding of the trump of the angel of
God (D & C 88:96-98).
And the graves of the saints shall be
opened; and they shall come forth and
stand on the right hand of the Lamb,
when he shall stand upon Mount Zion,
and upon the holy city, the New Jerusalem;
and they shall sing the song of the Lamb,
day and night forever and ever (D & C
133:56).
Signs of the Times
(D &C 29:14-21)
But, before the coming of the
Savior, bringing with him the
Twelve, the resurrected saints, and
the ushering in of his millennial
reign, certain signs will be seen and
known, in order that the nearness
of Jesus' coming may be known to
those who watch for that event.
These events of the last davs are
said to consist of certain phenomena
which will be observed in the heav-
ens, as well as in the earth beneath.
(See D & C 29:14.) In that day
there shall be '\ . . weeping and wail-
ing among the hosts of men; And
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there shall be a great hailstorm sent
forth to destroy the crops of the
earth" (D & C 29:15-16).
In connection with these events
heralding the Lord's coming, it
would seem that all Latter-day
Saints would desire and obey the
counsel of their divinely appointed
leaders by sustaining them in their
office, not only by the upraised
hand, but also by following that
counsel. For example, we have been
given counsel concerning the
Church Welfare Program instituted
by the Lord for the welfare of his
people. We are admonished to
participate in welfare projects that
surpluses might be available to the
saints when in need. All too often,
those who do contribute their time,
talents, and means, are those who
are already making contributions in
many other ways in building up the
kingdom of God. Is there not in
the Welfare Program an opportun-
ity for all to make a contribution
which will redound to their temporal
and eternal welfare?
And it shall come to pass, because of
the wickedness of the world, that I will
take vengeance upon the wicked, for they
will not repent; for the cup of mine in-
dignation is full; for behold, my blood
shall not cleanse them if they hear me not
(D & C 29:17).
We are informed in the above
verse that, because of the wicked-
ness of the world, and it is well to
notice that the world will not
repent, vengeance will come to the
inhabitants of the earth. The rebel-
lious, those who harden their hearts
in wickedness, must suffer. As the
time draws near to the end of this
dispensation, men may believe that
they can seek refuge in the blood
of Christ and be saved, but the
Lord here declares that ". . . the cup
of mine indignation is full; for be-
hold, my blood shall not cleanse
them if they hear me not'' (D & C
29:17).
"Wherefore, I the Lord God will
send forth [judgments in the form
of] flies . . . which . . . shall eat
their flesh" (D & C 29:18). We
may believe that diseases and
plagues are indicated in verse 18
through 20 causing the conditions
described there. All the abomina-
tions of the wicked world will not
continue when Christ comes. ". . .
the great and abominable church
. . . shall be cast down . . ." (D & C
29:21).
Events Following the Millennium
(D & C 29:22-29)
When the Savior comes to reign
upon the earth as Lord of Lords
and King of Kings, the period of
peace and righteousness will be
ushered in. Conditions existing on
the earth during the millennium are
to be considered in a future lesson,
but this revelation informs us of
certain things to happen after the
period of the millennium.
The first of these events is that
men will deny their God:
And again, verily, verily, I say unto you
that when the thousand years are ended,
and men again begin to deny their God,
then will I spare the earth but for a little
season (D & C 29:22).
Many persons will have been born
during this period, which raises a
question concerning the people who
will have lived on the earth during
the millennium. Will they be
tempted by Satan and tried because
they will not have had the same
kind of trial as did those who lived
before the millennium?
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Brother Orson Pratt has said con-
cerning this:
When the period called the Millennium
has passed away, Satan will again be
loosed. Now the query arises, Will Satan
have power to deceive those who have
lived on the earth, and ha^'e fallen asleep
for a moment, and have received their
immortal bodies? No, he will not. When
they have passed through their proba-
tion, and have received their immortal
bodies, Satan will have no power over
them. Thus generation after generation
will pass away, during the Millennium,
but by and by, at the close of that period,
unnumbered millions of the posterity of
those who lived during the Millennium
will be scattered in the four quarters of
the earth, and Satan will be loosed, and
will go forth and tempt them, and
overcome some of them, so that they
will rebel against God; not rebel in ignor-
ance or dwindle in unbelief, as the
Lamanites did; but they will sin wilfully
against the law of heaven, and so great
will the power of Satan be over them, that
he will gather them together against the
Saints and against the beloved city, and
fire will come down out of heaven and
consume them (Journal oi Y^i'icount^
16, page 322).
With the earth being spared for
a ''. . . httle season":
And the end shall come, and the heav-
en and the earth shall be consumed and
pass away, and there shall be a new heaven
and a new earth.
For all old things shall pass away, and
all things shall become new, even the
heaven and the earth, and all the fulness
thereof, both men and beasts, the fowls
of the air, and the fishes of the sea;
And not one hair, neither mote, shall
be lost, for it is the workmanship of mine
hand (D & C 29:23-25).
The final resurrection will come
after the events spoken of in Section
29 of the Doctrine and Covenants
and in Revelations, chapter 20.
Then after the foregoing events
— the loosing of Satan at the end
of the millennium and the ''. . . little
season" occur — there shall be the
last resurrection of the dead called
forth by Michael or Adam.
The closing event following the
millennium is revealed by the Lord:
And the righteous shall be gathered on
my right hand unto eternal life; and the.
wicked on my left hand will I be ashamed
to own before the Father;
Wherefore I will say unto them • —
Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlast-
ing fire, prepared for the devil and his
angels.
And now, behold, I say unto you,
never at any time have I declared from
mine own mouth that they should return,
for where I am they cannot come, for
they have no power (D & C 29:27-29).
The extreme ends of salvation,
eternal life (godhood) for the right-
eous, and everlasting condemnation
for the wicked, are indicated in the
foregoing verses. Notice how the
Lord places the wicked (sons of
perdition) in the place prepared for
the devil and his angels from
whence they shall not return, for
they have no power. Subsequent
revelations, to be studied, give us
information concerning the grades
of salvation intermediate between
these two extremes.
Questions for T>iscn^^ion
1. What are some of the future events
mentioned in this revelation?
2. Name the two phases of the gather-
ing of latter-day Israel.
3. Why is it necessary to follow the
leaders of the Church?
4. With what events do you associate
the second coming of Jesus?
5. What events are to occur following
the millennium?
Visiting cJeacher 1 1 iessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 19— "He That Receiveth My Law and Doeth It, the Same Is My
Disciple . . /' (D & C 41:5).
Christine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, December i, 1959
Objective: To show that in order to enjoy the blessings and association of the
Lord's Spirit, we must keep his commandments.
\ disciple is a student and follower
of his master's teachings. To
be Christ's disciples, we must study
and understand the Savior's teach-
ings and put them into effect in
our lives.
The great blessing that comes to
the Savior's disciples is the marvel-
ous opportunity to have the assist-
ance and association of his Spirit.
Those who enjoy the presence of
his Spirit have peace of mind. They
are given the power to meet and
overcome life's problems and,
through his help, enjoy the satisfac-
tions of achieving great accom-
plishments in the service of others.
How can we become Christ's
disciples? He has told us, ''He that
receiveth my law and doeth it, the
same is my disciple ..." (D & C
41:0.
The first step, then, in becoming
his disciple is to know, understand,
and receive his law. The Savior's
laws are the laws of the gospel. They
are the teachings he gave us during
his life here upon the earth. They
are also the teachings and com-
mandments given by inspiration
and revelation to all of his prophets,
both ancient and modern, as found
in the scriptures and in our leaders'
present-day instructions.
Understanding and receiving the
Savior's laws constitute a continu-
ous and lifetime challenge and op-
portunity. We must never cease
studying and learning.
Receiving the law, however, is
not enough. We must put the law
into action in our lives. The Book
of Mormon prophet. King Benja-
min, clearly expressed this truth
when he said, ". . . and now, if you
believe all these things see that ye
do them" (Mosiah 4:10). The
apostle James expressed this thought
when he said, ''But be ye doers of
the word, and not hearers only, de-
ceiving your own selves" (James
1 :22).
The gospel of Jesus Christ is a
gospel of work. We know that
through our good works we will be
saved and by our desires and works
we will be judged.
An ancient fable tells of a certain
farmer who had three friends. Two
of these friends he held in high
esteem and associated with them
constantly. The third, although or
genuine character, was neglected by
the farmer.
Accused wrongfully before the
law, the farmer was summoned to
court. He needed a character wit-
ness and went first to his preferred
friends. The first of these gave
many reasons why he could not pre-
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sent himself at court. The second
friend was willing to accompany
him, but could go no further than
the door. The third, whom he had
least esteemed, not only did ac-
company him but so ably defended
the farmer before the judge that he
was acquitted.
According to this fable, each in-
dividual during his lifetime makes
three friends. These are his world-
ly possessions, his family and neigh-
bors, and his good works. When he
leaves this life and faces the Great
Judge, his first friend, worldly pos-
sessions, must be left behind. The
second friend, his family and neigh-
bors, can accompany him only to
death's door. His third friend, how-
ever, the one he is inclined to
neglect— his good works— is the
only one who can go with him and
help him to plead his cause.
A true disciple of the Savior is a
performer of good works. He knows
that by his works he will be judged.
He not only receives Christ's words
but puts them into action and
writes them upon ''. . . the table of
thine heart" (Proverbs 3:3).
Jesus described a true disciple
when he said:
Therefore whosoever heareth these say-
ings of mine, and doeth them, I will lik-
en him unto a wise man, which built his
house upon a rock (Mt. 7:24).
Let us all earn the rich blessings
that come to true disciples of our
Lord.
Work Uieeting — Physical Safety Factors
in the Home
(A Course Recommended for Use by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 3— Fire Hazards
Charlotte A. Larsen
For Tuesday, December 8, 1959
Objective: To show that the best fire control is prevention.
Ej^VERY day 800 homes are struck
by fire. Don't permit your
home to become one of the 800.
Most fires in the home are
caused by carelessness; usually it's
a thoughtless act or a forgotten pre-
caution — just little things — but
too often they lead to destruction
and sometimes loss of life. Nearly
all fires in the home can be prevent-
ed, if the simple and common-sense
methods are followed. If you are
on your guard and do not let these
hazards occur, it will go a long way
in eliminating fire in your home.
Major Causes of Fire
Matches, smoking, and misuse of
electricity, account for forty per cent
of all fires of known origin. Their
real danger cannot be emphasized
often enough. Other causes of fire
are heating and cooking equipment,
rubbish in attic, flammable cleaning
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fluid, refrigerator motors without
ventilation, irons connected and un-
attended, fireplaces without screens,
lamp cords under rugs, rubbish in
basement, overloaded circuits, paint
thinner and varnish remover, and
grass clippings packed in containers
and left in garages. Magazines,
papers, and clothing left on radiators
or near kitchen stove, and lamp
shades coming in contact with light
bulbs are also frequent causes of
fire. Many of these things don't
have to touch flame to burn; they
will catch fire simply because they
are too close to the heat for too long.
Precautions:
1. Keep matches in a metal container
and out of reach of children and in a
cool place.
2. Employ a competent electrician to
repair and extend wiring when this is
necessary. (Use all of the safety pre-
cautions discussed in the lesson on Elec-
tricity.)
3. Discard stacks of magazines and
papers, old rags, and discarded furniture
from basements, attics', and storerooms.
4. Clean furnace regularly. Faulty con-
nections and pipes cause 50,000 fires a
year. Check entire heating system for
needed repairs.
5. Don't leave paints or turpentine near
the furnace or heat or flame of any kind.
6. If you smell gas or think there is a
gas leak in any part of the house, get your
family out of the house, open windows,
and call the gas company.
7. Guard against a grease fire in your
stove. Fire caused by food burning on
the stove can be best put out by placing
a metal cover on the pan containing the
burning food, or sprinkle ordinary baking-
soda or salt on it. Don't try to put out
such a fire with water; it splatters and
spreads the fire.
8. Make a habit to disconnect electric
irons immediately when interrupted by a
phone call, the doorbell, or a caller, etc.
9. Never keep flammable or explosive
cleaning fluid, such as gasoline, benzine,
naphtha, and similar fluids in the house.
One gallon of gasoline has the explosive
power of eighty-three pounds of dynamite.
Such cleansing fluids should never be used
indoors. When mixed with air, their
vapors can be ignited by the spark of a
light switch or any electric connection,
or the tiny flame of a pilot light. They
can also be toxic if the fumes are inhaled
to any great extent.
10. To prevent those mysterious fires
caused by "spontaneous ignition," never
put oily rags or cloths saturated with
furniture polish, paints, or wax in closets or
cupboards. These can catch fire by them-
selves. This happens when there is not
enough oxygen to carry away heat which
is caused when they give off vapors. When
these vapors get hot enough, they burst
into flame. If you intend to use them
again keep them in a covered metal con-
tainer.
11. Never throw flour, or dust from
a vacuum cleaner into a stove fire or
burning incinerator. Dust is explosive.
12. If your garage is attached to your
house, always keep the door between
them tightly closed. This will prevent
passage of gases' from garage to house. It
would also retard spread of fire.
13. Never start an outdoor fire on a
windy day. In burning trash or leaves,
use a covered wire mesh basket. Don't
start a fire near a building or fence. Keep
children away from bonfires or open fires.
14. Use flashlights instead of candles
if lighting should fail.
15. Instruct all responsible members of
your family how to act in case of fire
and how to call the fire department. It
is not wise ever to leave children unat-
tended or locked up in the house. Lighted
candles at children's parties can be danger-
ous. It is desirable for every home to
have at least one dependable fire ex-
tinguisher.
Fires From Holiday Hazards
The holidays, Christmas, Hal-
lowe'en, Fourth of July, and others
bring many hazards into the home
in the form of decorations, candles,.
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lanterns, or fireworks. Choose dec-
orations that will not burn readily.
MaJce Christmas a Safe Time
Christmas trees are combustible,
so be sure they are green and fresh
when purchased. They should not
be brought into the house until a
few days before Christmas. It is
wise to set the tree in the coolest
part of the room, away from radia-
tors or other sources of heat. Do
not use defective or frayed tree lights
or light sets not bearing the (UL)
Underwriters Laboratory label. A-
void the use of lighted candles for
decoration on the tree or in win-
dows near curtains. Pull the plug
on the tree lights when not at home.
Also avoid use of decorations that
are not flame-proof. Remove gift
wrappings from the home immed-
iately after opening the packages.
Supplementary References
The A.B.C. of Home Wiring,
Kennecott Copper Corporation
161 East 42d Street
New York 17, New York
Your Local Fire Department — Your
Fire Safe Home
National Board of Fire Underwriters
85 John Street
New York 38, New York
Questions
1. What are the fire hazards in your
home?
2. How many of you know how to reach
a fire department?
3. Discuss and hst the precautions
necessary to avoid fires made possible by
Christmas decorations and activities.
Jiiterature — America's Literature —
A New Nation Speaks
--v^ Lesson 11— Benjamin Franklin, Retired
Eider Brian t S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Liteiatuie, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 95-122)
For Tuesday, December 15, 1959
Objective: To review Franklin's literary versatility and so better appreciate his
mature endowments.
TN 1748, during his forty-second
year, Benjamin Franklin turned
over his successful printing business
to his partner, in return receiving
a substantial share of the profits
during the eighteen years following.
He owned several homes, and ac-
cumulated considerable land hold-
ings in the Ohio Valley. Freed by
his own ptst industry to a hfe of
leisure (which he defined as con-
trasting sharply with laziness), he
had a luxurious amount of time to
devote to whatsoever he chose.
Should he give his time to himself
or to others?
All the ancestors of golf, hunting
and fishing, horses, boating, travel,
luxurious food and clothing, elegant
society, he passed by without a
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thought. Soon after leaving his
print shop he bought a three-hun-
dred acre farm in New Jersey and
began experimenting with depth of
rootage and resistance to frost of
varying mixtures and concentrations
of seed. He speculated about the
source of mountain springs and
noted the varying rock strata. Find-
ing fossilized annuals imbedded in
rock high on a mountain, he re-
corded his observations that ''We
live on the wreck of a world." He
perfected a device for making dupli-
cate copies from a roller; by a simple
experiment he proved communica-
tive powers among ants; he an-
nounced the cvclonic theorv of
storms and conjectured that light
does not come from the sun in
particles. He now had time to
question, observe, and theorize on
myriad aspects of the physical world.
(See Relief Society Magazine, July
1959, p. 480.)
The Objective Scientist
All he asked was knowledge,
which it was his pleasure to earn.
And, in recording it, he was the
objective scientist. He never took
time to write up his famous kite
experiment, which to the unlearned
made him appear as a magician
while to his fellow-searchers in
France and Sweden and England
he was the leading investigator of
electricity of the day. His experi-
ments were translated into French,
German, and Italian, and in English
he originated the entire basic vo-
cabulary of electricity: positive,
negative, non-conductor, armature,
etc. He was invited to become a
member of various Royal Societies
of Science and Physics throughout
Europe; his electrical studies were
published in England.
Public Service
This most active period of his life
as a scientist came to an end in
1753, when he was appointed Dep-
uty Postmaster for continental Brit-
ish America. After he reorganized
the postal system and made it yield
a profit, he represented Pennsylvania
in England, served as member of
the Pennsylvania Assembly, then
from 1764 to 1775 was in England
representing Pennsylvania, Georgia,
New Jersey, and Massachusetts. He
returned, resigned to separation,
helped draft the Declaration of In-
dependence and later the Articles
of Confederation. He represented
the colonies at the court of France
for twelve years, returning to Phila-
delphia in 1785, after negotiating
the peace treaty with England. Dur-
ing the last five years of his life, he
lived in Philadelphia (text, page 96)
where he was elected President of
the Commonwealth of Pennsvlvania,
and was a delegate to the Consti-
tutional Convention in 1787, three
years before his death in 1790. If
we are justified in assuming that this
retired printer gave his time to the
place where his heart lay, we find in
him the archetype of selfless public
service and concern for his fellow
men.
From his earliest years, when he
read during his lunch period in the
print shop, until his last days, his
hunger for knowledge and books
never ceased. Reading was his life-
long companion. He knew not how
his personal library grew up the
walls of his study, both in England
and in France, but he cherished and
read all books "containing knowl-
edge that may hereafter be useful to
America." Yet learning for its own
sake was as foreign to him as indif-
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ference; learning was good because
it was useful; in his own words
''Learning whether speculative or
practical, is in popular or mixed
governments, the natural source of
wealth and honor." By the same
standard of value he became one of
our greatest masters of English
prose: he trained himself to write
well because such a skill, he be-
lieved, would assist him in ''getting
on."
Literarv^ Craftsman
Though he never considered him-
self a writer, and though he pub-
lished no books, his collected works
fill ten volumes. The bulk of his
writings consists of his newspaper
works and his personal letters. In
his political life he made very few
speeches, choosing always to let the
written page represent him. His
Autobiography, the most widely
read personal history written in
English, he dashed off during three
separate, miscellaneous periods of
his life. Apparently the present was
so exciting that he could not for
long dwell on the past.
Realizing that writing "is best
wrote which is best adapted for ob-
taining the end of the writer,"
Franklin's first friends in Philadel-
phia were poets, since he believed
that he could best master prose by
submitting himself to the discipline
of verse writing. He consciously
imitated the style of the Spectator
Papers by Addison and Steele and
captured in his own lines their qual-
ity of enameled smoothness. After
writing in verse he turned the same
thoughts in prose, and vice versa.
Always writing with greatest care,
he made many revisions of his
thoughts before achieving a final
draft. To his sensitive ear the ca-
dence of his lines was of extreme
importance; as a result, reading him
is always a pleasure to the reader's
imagination and inner ear.
Franklin is one of our greatest
masters of the "simple style" which
the Puritans so much admired.
Always choosing common words,
and making very few images or elab-
orate comparisons, he wrote in
simple sentences. Because he con-
trolled most carefully the uniform-
ity of his tone, his page always seems
"underwritten," or less emphatic
than what he is recounting. Thus
the reader is forced to supply his
share in the communicative process,
and, in so doing, Franklin's words
capture him completely.
The Autobiography
Because Franklin never consid-
ered himself a man of letters, it be-
comes an easy temptation to agree
with him; however, the evidence
points otherwise. No book can
speak to generation after generation
without possessing genuine literary
skill. His greatest ability, and a
most rare one, is the easy projection
of "self" onto the page, until the
reader becomes one with him. His
warmth for people and his keen
observation contribute to his ability
to characterize vividly and tersely.
His is a true feeling for dramatic in-
tensity, and by combining it with
his narrative powers, he impels the
reader to keep turning the page
"just to see what happens," always
the sure proof of imaginative word
power. As Carl Van Doren con-
cludes in his great study on Franklin,
he is "a harmonious human mul-
titude." Merely because he did
everything else extremely well is not
justification for belittling his
achievement as a writer. Franklin
LESSON DEPARTMENT
635
is never a ''long-hair" literary man;
he's just a writer almost everybody
likes enough to read and to recom-
mend to their children. Under the
spell of Franklin's art this greatest
of all ''rags to riches" story isn't
told— it's uncovered, since it has
always existed, so naturally is it
done.
The selections in our text (pages
98-122) are the most well-known:
how the runaway apprentice comes
to Philadelphia, friendless, almost
penniless, but ready to pay for his
passage even though he has rowed
all the way, and bestowing his great
puffy loaves of bread on those
whose need was greater than his.
Desiring to attain moral perfec-
tion, Franklin composed a catalogue
of moral virtues, which to him
seemed necessary or desirable. It is
the American Enlightenment's clas-
sic example of man's belief in his
own ability to improve himself and,
therefore, his society through self-
disciphne. Concerning this project
we read:
I wish'd to live without committing
any fault at any time; I would conquer
all that either natural inclination, custom,
or company might lead me into. As I
knew, or thought I knew, what was right
and wrong, I did not see why I might
not always do the one and avoid the
other. But I soon found I had under-
taken a task of more difficulty than I had
imagined. While my care was employ'd
in guarding against one fault, I was often
surprised by another; habit took the ad-
vantage of inattention; inclination was
sometimes too strong for reason. I con-
cluded, at length, that the mere specula-
tive conviction that it was our interest
to be completely virtuous, was not suf-
ficient to prevent our slipping; and that
the contrary habits must be broken, and
good ones acquired and established, be-
fore we can have any dependence on a
steady, uniform rectitude of conduct
(Text, page 110).
These names of these virtues^
with their precepts, are presented in
the text on pp. 110-111.
The great significance of his at-
tempt to achieve moral perfection
is not that he did not attain perfec-
tion, but that he tried.
Master oi hony
Jonathan Swift died when Frank-
lin was thirty-nine. An age which
venerated reason and brilliant and
subtle statement sharpened by sa-
tire had been ready to acknowledge
him as master, and so was Franklin.
In his Gulliver's Travels, one of the
fiercest books in literature. Swift had
satirized man's excessive faith in
science and education, in religion,,
and in his own perfectibility, while
his ''Modest Proposal," and attack
upon the British government for its
grinding administration of Ireland,
is justly the most famous use of
irony in the language. Franklin fol-
lowed such a model with his usual
skill.
Satire pokes fun at some human
foible, often with the hope of ex-
posing a weakness that it might be
corrected. A refinement of satire
is irony, which has the same tone of
subtlety and understatement as sa-
tire, but which says directly the re-
verse of what is intended. To remark
during a disastrous cloudburst,
"Lovely weather today, isn't it?" or
to welcome to breakfast some un-
combed, unawakened female with,
"Well, enter our vision of delight,"
is to use irony.
In such passages as the following,.
Franklin adopted not only Swift's
ironical tone but for a moment, his
dismal view of man's nature (and
woman's). In a letter to Joseph
Priestly, his fellow-scientist and free-
thinker, dated February 8, 1780,.
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Franklin dreams of what true
science might accomphsh in a
thousand years: gravity might be
annulled to make transportation
easy, the tillage of nature might
then yield twice as large a harvest,
and man might overcome disease
and old age. But then, as he sur-
veys man's moral state, the eternal
idealist, injured by his awareness of
present sufferings, cries out:
O that moral Science were in as fair a
way of Improvement, that Men would
cease to be Wolves to one another, and
that human Beings would at length learn
what they now improperly call Humanity.
After Franklin's first tour of rural
England and Scotland, like Swift,
he saw such degrading human suf-
fering among great masses of ten-
ant farmers caused by high rents and
absentee landlords that, for a mo-
ment, he doubts the values of Euro-
pean civilization:
Had I never been in the American
Colonies, but was to form my judgment
of Civil Society by what I have lately
seen, I should never advise a Nation of
Savages to admit of Civilization. For I
assure you, that in the Possession and
Enjoyment of the various Comforts of
Life, compared to these People, every
Indian is a gentleman.
Probably the most famous use of
irony in American Literature is
Franklin's ''Rules by Which a Great
Empire May Be Reduced to a Small
One," written in London, in 1773,
when Franklin was beginning to
despair of England's ever dealing
sympathetically with her colonies.
What a master-strategist was Frank-
lin, to get such a piece published in
London's most influential magazine,
to be read by England's increasingly
land-hungry, colony-hungry admin-
istrators. From this acknowledg-
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ment of his audience to the end,
irony is dominant. In his ironical
relation between tiny, complacent
England and the colonies, he an-
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petty laws, etc.
Wit and Humor
Long before Poor Richard began
to appear, Franklin was loved for his
humor, often poking fun at his own
weaknesses and laughing with the
reader at himself. Franklin was
never pompous or self-righteous; he
never took himself at all seriously,
and could always relieve tension
with a joke. No wonder he had
such influence and such hosts of
friends. We know that he wrote
an early draft of the Declaration of
Independence which burlesqued
England's ingratitude to Saxony,
her mother-country, and contemp-
orary rumor had it that Franklin
alone was not entrusted to write the
LESSON DEPARTMENT
637
Declaration because it would prob-
ably end with a joke.
Franklin loved people enough to
write them letters. His correspond-
ence was tremendous, in bulk as in
variety of interests. For example,
on August 22, 1772, he wrote at
least thirteen letters on such various
subjects as canals, antislavery propa-
ganda, obtaining workmen for a
glass factory, oath-taking, post office
accounts, silk culture, general busi-
ness conditions, selecting books for
the library company, establishment
of a nailery, problems dealing with
the Pennsylvania hospital and in-
vestments in England.
He told jokes and made puns in
all his writings (save his scientific
works). He often used humor to
relieve tension. In his plea for
unanimous support of the Constitu-
tion he told of the French lady who,
in justifying her own position in a
quarrel, said to her sister, ''But I
meet with nobody but myself that
is always in the right."
He wrote delightful satires on
those who took the game of chess
too seriously (it was his favorite
pastime ) , wrote parables on persecu-
tion and brotherly love in the style
of the King James version of the
Bible, then laughed silently at his
friends when they could not iden-
tify the book of the Bible in which
they appeared.
But best-known because best-
loved are his Bagatelles, his light-
hearted essays which he prepared
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2. Why do you suppose Franklin so
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Mrs. Kelsey" by Norma Wrathall in the
January issue of the Magazine, also Sylvia
Probst Young's poem "Parting on the
Prairie." My great desire is to continue to
read the Magazine until my days are fin-
ished on earth.
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Roosevelt, Utah
The splendid story "Granny Will Be
Waiting" (by Betty Martin, June 1959)
is wonderful. I enjoyed it \txy much.
The author must be praised for such a
beautiful, sweet story. I loved Dougie
and Tcssie, the cat. All the production
of our dear Magazine is truly wonderful
and a rich blessing to all who read it.
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Salt Lake City. Utah
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lished this year, is the height of artistic
perfection.
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I was limited in the books and maga-
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The ReUei Society Magazine, howe\ cr, is
with me constantly, a precious treasure
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temple, and so many historic and literary
names are becoming vividly real to me.
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Member, General Board
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London, England
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"Coit Tower," in the July issue of the
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she lifts pen to prove it? The new color
covers for the Magazine are a thrill and
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Chelmsford, Massachusetts
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VOL 46 OCTOBER 1959 NO. 10
Con
tents
SPECIAL FEATURES
". . . Seek Learning Even by Study and Also by Faith" Roy W. Doxey 644
The Northern California Mission Preston R. Nibley 650
Fair or False Faces 660
FICTION
The New Day — Chapter 1 Hazel K. Todd 652
"A" Is for Apron — Part III (Conclusion) Ilene H. Kingsbury 672
Quilts and Molhers-in-Law Mabel Law Atkinson 674
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 642
Sixty Years Ago 656
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 657
Editorial: Establishing Family Patterns Marianne C. Sharp 658
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 677
Birthday Congratulations 711
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Recipes From the Northern California Mission Hazel S. Love 662
Making Christmas Ornaments Can Be Fun Hannah Nowell 665
Margaret Pitts Finds Self-Expression in Crochet Work 671
The Watch Olive Peabody 708
LESSONS FOR JANUARY
Theology — Spiritual Creations Roy W. Doxey 684
Visiting Teacher Messages "Therefore He That Lacketh Wisdom. . . ."
- Christine H. Robinson 690
Work Meeting — Household Hazards Charlotte A. Larsen 692
Literature — Two Early American Quakers: Penn and Woolman Briant S. Jacobs 694
Social Science — The Role of Emotional Maturity in Spiritual Living Blaine M. Porter 701
POETRY
These Cool Acres — Frontispiece Dorothy J. Roberts 641
Yet Beauty Comes Iris W. Schow 649
Call Me a Squirrel If You Like Gwen Marler Barney 655
Distraction Winona F. Thomas 661
All Is Well ._. Elsie McKinnon Strachan 661
Baja California Ethel Jacobson 670
Last Borri Ora Pate Stewart 670
Auturnn Leaves Katherine B. Bowles 671
They Shall Find Peace LesUe Savage Clark 683
Open the Door of Your Heart Grace Ingles Frost 691
Sounds He Missed Lula Walker 708
Autumn Wind Eva Willes Wangsgaard 710
Bereft of Song Maude O. Cook 711
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. . . Seek Learning Even by Study
and Also by Faith"
Elder Roy W. Doxey
Assistant Professor of Religion, Brigham Young University
[Address Delivered at the Theology Departmental Meeting, Relief Society General
Conference, October 9, 1958]
ELDER B. H. Roberts once
related in a general confer-
ence of the Church an
experience he had with an intelligent
investigator who was provided by
ministers with literature containing
arguments against the origin of The
Book of Mormon to persuade the
investigator to give up her reading
of that book. When these ministers
returned to her home she said:
''I am somewhat confused in relation to
this Book of Mormon. The Mormon
elders tell one story of its origin, and you
tell another . . . but," she said, ''here is
another book that the Mormon elders
have presented to me, and which I have
read. They call it the Doctrine and Cove-
nants. It purports to contain a number
of revelations to Joseph Smith which he
is said to have received. It is nearly equal
in volume to the Book of Mormon, and
there is no question at all in relation to
the authorship of this book. None of
you question that Joseph Smith wrote it.
He is the author of it, and claims every-
thing in it to be inspired of God; and I
wish to state to you," said she, "that this
book, — the revelations that are in it —
contains as much evidence, and even more
evidence, that the man who produced it
was inspired of God than does the Book
of Mormon that it was written by inspira-
tion. Now what have you to say to
that, and how will you explain away that?"
Of course, they had no explanation. . . .
Brother Roberts continued, "I wish to
express a belief that there is evidence of
inspiration in it equal to that of the
Book of Mormon" (Conference Reports,
April 1929, page 119).
Only recently in a testimony
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meeting, a returned missionary re-
ported that after a learned person
had investigated the gospel through
the usual means employed by our
missionaries^ and after he had read
The Book of Mormon, he was ap-
parently still unconverted. When
he was given The Doctrine and Cove-
nants and had studied it, he applied
for baptism. The two books of
scripture — The Book of Mormon
and The Doctrine and Covenants
— are witnesses to the restoration
of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
The Lord has said that we are to
seek out of the ''best books words
of wisdom," to ''seek learning, even
by study and also by faith'' (D & C
88:118).
In November 1831, special con-
ferences were held in Hiram, Ohio,
about which the Prophet Joseph
Smith recorded that the revelations
in The Doctrine and Covenants
were "the foundation of the Church
in these last days, and a benefit to
the world . . . therefore the con-
ference voted that they prize the
revelations to be worth to the
Church the riches of the w4iole
earth, speaking temporally" (D.H.C.
1.235).
One of the most important things
about the revelations in The Doc-
trine and Covenants is the fact that
the Lord has spoken to the people
of this generation through the
Prophet Joseph Smith (D & C
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5:10). The revelations through
this great Prophet were not spoken
in some remote period of the world,
and handed down to us by the tra-
ditions of our fathers, but they were
spoken to his mouthpiece in our
generation. As President Joseph F.
Smith said:
They are, therefore, words of truth, and
of eternal hfe, words upon which we may
rely with the utmost confidence, without
doubt or misgiving, or fear of yielding to
the caprice of vain philosophy, for they
are not the words of man, but of God
{Journal of Discourses, 19:259).
TT seems to me that one of the
greatest needs for us in The
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-
day Saints is to teach our youth of
the divinity of the work which was
inaugurated by Joseph Smith under
the hand of God. We of an older
generation have the definite respon-
sibility to make this message known
to our families, and to also realize
that what we accomplish will, in a
large measure, be determined by
whether or not we have a strong
testimony of the gospel. Admitted-
ly, we are commanded to teach our
children from the beginning the
principles of the gospel, and to de-
velop in them the love of truth. If,
however, we are to attempt to do
this without the benefit of the great
evidences which the Lord has pro-
vided for us in these times, we shall
have lost our greatest opportunity to
give to ourselves and our children
the real motivation for living the
gospel. In other words, as I see it,
we cannot, as Latter-day Saints, rely
upon teaching the moral concepts
of the gospel without taking full
advantage of what the Lord has
made available in his books of scrip-
ture to first, Jearn the true way of
life; second, to understand that the
revelations bear witness of them-
selves; and third, to receive a
witness by the Spirit, that the revela-
tons are true. These are the oppor-
tunities available to all Latter-day
Saints. I consider it a great privilege
and blessing to participate with you
in these purposes in a study of The
Doctrine and Covenants. By study
I mean that we should ''study by
faith" the revelations themselves, in
addition to the lessons in The Relief
Society Magazine.
The revelations of the Lord in
The Doctrine and Covenants set
forth in plainness the gospel of
Jesus Christ. This book of scrip-
ture holds a unique position in
giving further emphasis to, and ex-
tending our knowledge of certain
subjects, as well as providing addi-
tional subject matter on the gospel
than is found in the other standard
works of the Church.
These revelations give us knowl-
edge that, if understood and made a
part of our living, will assist us in
our faith. Important to our under-
standing is the true knowledge of
the members of the Godhead. We
are informed in a simple, direct
statement of this doctrine from
Section 130, verses 22 and 23, that
the Father and the Son have bodies
of flesh and bones as tangible as
man's; but the Holy Ghost has not
a body of flesh and bones, but is a
personage of spirit. In view of this
truth, should there be confusion in
the mind of the Latter-day Saint re-
garding a proper unders4:anding of
the Godhead?
Concerning the Savior Jesus
Christ, we have the testimony of the
Lord himself in the Ninety-third
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Section, wherein he bears witness to
the remarkable testimony of the
apostle John: Jesus Christ lived as
a Spirit before he came into this
life — "He was in the beginning
with the Father"; that he is the cre-
ator of \^orlds; he is the Savior, 'a
messenger of salvation"; the life and
light of men; and bv his being the
Son of God in the Spirit and also
in the flesh, he thus fulfilled his
great role as the Redeemer. He re-
ceived a fulness of the "glory of the
Father" and aJ] power was received
by him. By understanding these
wonderful truths concerning Jesus
and accepting them literally in faith,
we then, as the revelation points
out: "mav understand and know
how to worship, and know what you
[we] worship, that you |we] may
come unto the Father in my [Jesus']
name, and in due time receive of
his fulness" (D & C 93:19).
ANOTHER segment of knowl-
edge which is so necessary to
understand is a true conception of
man and his destiny. From The
Doctrine and Covenants we are giv-
en to realize that every person is a
literal child of God, and as such
lived before he was born in mortal-
ity (D & C 93:29.) Since he is of
divine birth, man mav, through his
obedience to the plan of salvation,
reach a divine destiny (D & C
76:58-60; 132:20, 21). These im-
portant truths point up the purpose
of earth life. It is a place where the
spirit child of God is given oppor-
tunitv to "work out his salvation,"
a process of proving himself. A con-
nection is made between the spirit
and bodv in earth life, which,
through the resurrection, may give
a fulness of joy or exaltation (D & C
93-33. 34)-
As we continue our thinking along
these lines, we could in no wise
neglect the great revelation known
as 'The Vision," Section 76. With-
out doubt, this revelation provides
for man his greatest ''look" into the
future as a resurrected being. But
this particular revelation is not alone
in providing essential knowledge to
man. There are many others, such
as Sections 88, 93, 130, 131, and 132.
By these revelations, w^e have come
to know that for every soul there
is a just reward awaiting the eternal
child of God. Levels of opportunity,
beginning in pre-existence, continu-
ing in earth life, then the spirit
world, until eventually the resur-
rected being is either crowned with
the glory of the Eternal Father, and
as a joint heir with Christ in the
mansions of exaltation, or, on the
other hand, to receive, commensu-
rate with his obedience to eternal
law, a place of honor where there
may be further development.
''He saves all" says a revelation,
except the relatively very few who
become "laws unto themselves."
When this theological fact is con-
trasted with the narrow and intoler-
ant creeds of men in the days of
Joseph Smith and of our own times,
we can better appreciate the great-
ness of God's plan. Our Father in
heaven is solicitous for all of his
children and has provided the means
whereby they may receive, if not all,
a measure of his glory. But, in
order to do so, they must place
themselves in accord with divine
laws either in mortality or in the
spirit world. The truths of the gos-
pel, as made known to Joseph
Smith, far transcend anything which
man has uncovered in his attempt
to understand himself and his re-
lationship to Deity. Further an-
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alysis of some of these important
truths is not possible at this time,
but lessons yet to be developed in
our course of study will bring them
to our attention.
The element of foretelling or
prophecy is apparent throughout the
modern revelations. There are lit-
erally hundreds of ''prophecies and
promises'' given in The Doctrine
and Covenants. Of these the Lord
has assured his saints that:
What I the Lord ha\e spoken, I have
spoken, and I excuse not myself; and
though the heavens and the earth pass
away, my word shall not pass away, but
shall all be fulfilled, whether by mine own
voice or by the \'oice of my servants, it
is the same (D & C 1:38).
lyf ANY of these promises may test
our faith, but the great bless-
ings of the gospel come to him who
learns ''by study and also by faith/'
To the Lord's "elect," who are
such because of their answering the
call of his servants, there has come
guidance in how to live in fulfilling
the purpose of one's creation. Such
practical information as contained
in the Word of Wisdom is an ex-
ample. Although I am not one who
believes that the revelations have to
be verified by some external evi-
dence, we Latter-day Saints have
learned that, given sufficient time,
our books of scripture, where pos-
sible, receive confirmation by man's
research. An example of this kind
has come pointedly to our attention
in the past few years concerning the
already known harmful effects of
tobacco smoking. But, how mean-
ingful and important it is to know
that evidence is continuing to in-
crease in support of the fact that
lung cancer and cigarette smoking
are definitely associated. This is
but one evidence of the fulfillment
of a prophecy, and also the promise
of health and other blessings by
observing the commandments of
the Lord.
An insight into present world con-
ditions and the immediate future is
provided in the modern revelations.
Every Latter-day Saint knows that
we are living in a world which is
beset with tremendous problems,
especially that of the involvement
of the world in war. The Lord has
spoken and declared that peace
would be taken from the earth in
this dispensation. The history of
the past several decades certainly
should bring to our attention that
we are in such a period. In fact,
the Lord's Preface to The Doctrine
and Covenants declares that Joseph
Smith was divinclv commissioned,
in part, to warn the world of im-
pe:~ding judgments.
Wherefore, I the Lord, knowing the
calamity which should come upon the in-
habitants oi the earth, called upon my
servant Joseph Smith, Jun., and spake unto
him from heaven, and gave him com-
mandments . . . that it might be fulfilled,
which was written by the prophets . . .
that faith also might increase in the earth;
that mine exerlasting covenant might be
established (D & C 1:17, 18, 21, 22).
This same wonderful revelation
makes known that one of the prin-
cipal purposes of the revelations is
that they might be a "voice of warn-
ing" to the inhabitants of the world.
We may thus see that the Lord's
word is to go to all the people of
the earth in addition to those who
have accepted him.
The same assurance is given in
this great book of scripture, as in
others, that the testimony of the
Lloly Ghost is available to all who
will seek for that divine witness. The
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reality of the life beyond this earth
life is a part of the message of The
Doctrine and Covenants. Within
its pages one will find records of
the visitation of heavenly beings in
our generation, and thus it becomes
a witness of the reality of the resur-
rection. The testimony of Sidney
Rigdon and the Prophet Joseph
Smith stands out prominently, as
given in these words:
. . . the Lord touched the eyes of our
understandings and they were opened, and
the glory of the Lord shone round about.
And we beheld the glory of the Son, on
the right hand of the Father, and received
of his fulness; And saw the holy angels,
and them who are sanctified before his
throne, worshipping God, and the Lamb,
who worship him forever and ever. And
now, after the many testimonies which
have been given of him, this is the testi-
mony, last of all, which we give of him:
That he lives! For we saw him even on
the right hand of God; and we heard the
voice bearing record that he is the Only
Begotten of the Father (D & C 76:19-24).
The witness of the Spirit of God
even transcends sight-knowledge;
for, the witness, the Holy Ghost,
may continue as a day-by-day experi-
ence throughout one's life. One of
the objectives in this course on The
Doctrine and Covenants is to
''study ... by faith," believing these
revelations as the word of the Lord
for us of this generation. As I wrote
on another occasion: ''As one so
studies and becomes better acquaint-
ed with the revelations in The Doc-
trine and Covenants, his gratitude
and love for the Prophet Joseph
Smith deepen. . . ." One realizes
that through this divinely appoint-
ed seer the full rich stores of heaven
have been opened that men may be
guided back to their heavenly home.
One learns to appreciate more fully
that it is through Joseph Smith that
this generation has received the word
of the Lord. He becomes more
firmly convinced that:
Joseph Smith, the Prophet and Seer of
the Lord, has done more, save Jesus only,
for the salvation of men in this world,
than any other man that ever lived in it
(D&Ci35:3).
There is also full agreement with
what Joseph Smith and the mem-
bers of the conference convened
in November 1831, believed when
they said the revelations in The
Doctrine and Covenants were "the
foundation of the Church in these
last days" {D.H.C. L235). Wilford
Woodruff, fourth President of The
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-
day Saints, said that The Doctrine
and Covenants is "our testament,
which contains the most glorious,
Godlike, solemn, and eternal truths
ever recorded within the lids of a
book." Among the great number
of eternal truths which should be
remembered these two are worthy
of particular attention:
But learn that he who doeth the works
of righteousness shall receive his reward,
even peace in this world, and eternal life
in the world to come (D & C 59:23).
... if your eye be single to my glory,
your whole bodies shall be filled with
light, and there shall be no darkness in
you; and that body which is filled with
light comprehendeth all things (D & C
88:67).
The Lord has given these prom-
ises, the fulfillment of which is cer-
tain, if we study by faith and incor-
porate into our lives his teachings as
revealed in this the greatest of all
dispensations of the gospel. This is
my testimony to you in the name of
the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.
Leland VanWagenen
AUTUMN IN THE WASATCH MOUNTAINS, UTAH
LJet {jOeautii (^otnes
Ins W. Schow
We move, compliant to the strident voice
Of time, who neither looks nor turns his head.
While many words and many melodies
Are lost when duty points. Our daily bread
Is dearly bought with precious joys cut short.
The fragrant breath of roses must be brief
In mingling with our own. Doors close on stars.
The lily yields our senses to our grief.
Yet at the close of life we shall recall
How summer's trying days were edged with flowers.
And smile, remembering the tender words
With which we cheered each other's winter hours.
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cJhe I to it hern (^alifoniia liiission
Preston R. Nibley
Assistant Church Historian
npHE Northern California Mission was formed^ under the direction of
the First Presidency, in January 1942, when the Cahfornia Mission
was divided. 'The dividing line was set between Visalia, in the Fresno
District, and Porterville, in the Bakersfield District, and between King
City, in the Monterey Bay District, and Paso Robles in the Santa Barbara
District." The State of Nevada was made a part of the Northern Cali-
fornia Mission, and later on the Klamath Falls District in Southern Oregon
was added.
German E. Ellsworth, who had previously presided over the Northern
States Mission, was called from his home in Mesa, Arizona, to preside over
the new mission. Early in February, a mission home, at 5 Buena Vista
Terrace, San Francisco, was purchased, and headquarters was established.
In May 1947, President David O. McKay, accompanied by Mrs.
McKay, traveled to Klamath Falls, Oregon, in the Northern California
Mission, and dedicated a new and beautiful chapel. The writer of this
article, and Mrs. Nibley, had the privilege of accompanying President and
Mrs. McKay on this journey.
President Ellsworth served as president of the mission until June 1949,
when he was succeeded by Thomas W. Gardner of Salt Lake City. Presi-
dent Gardner served until June 1956, when he was succeeded by J. Leon-
ard Love.
Courtesy El Dorado County Chamber of Commerce
Submitted by Hazel S. Love
GOLD DISCOVERY SITE, COLOMA, CALIFORNIA
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THE NORTHERN CALIFORNIA MISSION
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Redwood Empire Association News Bureau
Submitted by Hazel S. Love
THE GOLDEN GATE BRIDGE, CALIFORNIA
In summing up his labors, and the labors of the missionaries and
saints, during the time of his presidency, President Gardner said: "We
have participated in the construction of twenty-two chapels and we have
witnessed the baptism of approximately 3,859 converts."
In May 1957, President Stephen L Richards, of the First Presidency,
visited the Northern California Mission and at Berkeley held meetings
with missionaries for two days.
Baptisms in the Northern California Mission have greatly increased
during recent years. President Love reported 1,659 baptisms for the entire
year of 1958, and for the first six months of 1959, converts baptized were
862, which led the missions of the Church.
In July 1959, President Love received word that he would be released
in the near future, and that he would be succeded by Warren E. Pugh of
Salt Lake City.
Twenty-three Relief Society organizations, with 642 members, were
reported in December 1958. Hazel S. Love is the recently released presi-
dent of the Northern California Mission Relief Society. Leta Curtis Pugh
is the new president.
Note: the cover for this Magazine "Farm Scene in Northern California," is repre-
sentative of the lovely countryside of this region. Sec also "Recipes From the Northern
California Mission" by Hazel S. Love, page 662.
The New Day
Hazel K. Todd
Chapter i
FOR quite some time now
Lynn had sat there by the
train window, her eyes on her
hands resting idly in her lap. The
sunlight streaming through, togeth-
er with the vibration of the stream-
liner, as it fled over the countryside,
brought vividly, now and then,
sudden glints of light from the
diamond on her finger. She had
been watching it half consciously,
wrapped in a lovely warmth for
David whom she had left yesterday
in Chicago.
Now she gazed curiously out the
window at the once familiar land-
scape. Nine years was a long time.
And yet how well she remembered
the long line of poplars. More real
now than the lost love it signified,
it stretched away to the high school
building at the top of the hill, still
too far away to be anything but a
vague red dot. The spring breeze
moved the leaves on the trees out-
side.
It had been just such a day as
this another time long ago. Warm
sunshine, and gentle wind, children
scattering papers and books, and
sing-songing:
No more pencils, no more books.
No more teachers' angry looks. . . .
And high school students pairing
off on the grass. Suddenly it was
only yesterday she was sitting be-
side Johnny under the lilacs, on the
grass by the tennis court. He was
writing in her year book. As she
peeked over his shoulder she gave a
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gay little laugh at the string of tiny
hearts drawn on the side of the
page, each with a cupid's dart pierc-
ing its center. The page was filled
with writing, and he was just begin-
ning the next leaf.
''But, Johnny,'' she laughed, ''there
won't be any place left for anyone
else. You're filling the whole book!
Besides, you must save something to
write in MayRee's book."
"So what?" he said, ignoring the
suggestion about MayRee, and mak-
ing a lacy valentine sort of thing at
the side of the page. (Johnny
always doodled on the margins of
her books.) "No one else matters
anyway. The truth is, Lindy, no
one else should be allowed to write
in your year book. I'm just to the
Valentine dance. There is still the
prom, the senior hop, and. . . ."
"Wasn't this your stop. Miss?"
Lynn looked up with a start. The
train had stopped. And the older
gentleman who sat beside her was
looking at her with a peculiar sort
of smile. Earlier in the day she had
talked a little with him and told him
about her home town she was com-
ing to visit after nine years of ab-
sence.
"Oh-h," she stammered. "I guess
I was dreaming."
And then, in a minute she was
standing beside her luggage, ignor-
ing the taxi waiting before her. She
was looking up the block at the old
familiar sign, "Jensen's Drug Store."
"Taxi, miss?"
She turned then, to the cab, a
THE NEW DAY
653
sudden impulsive decision formed
in her mind.
''Just to the drug store up at the
corner/' she said.
TT was hke some old dream, walk-
ing through the open door. And
then she was sitting in the booth
where she and Johnny had sat over
their sodas even when they were
sixth graders. She rubbed her hand
fondly over the table surface almost
as she would have done over a
beloved keepsake. Her eyes went
to the edge of the seat where she
sat. She gave a sharp little gasp.
Yes, they were there, hers and
Johnny's initials, where they had so
boldly carved them. And Mr. Jen-
sen had scolded them roundly. Good
old Mr. Jensen! He had scolded
them, but he had never sanded away
those initials!
'Xindy Marlow! Or is it a ghost!''
Mr. Jensen was rubbing his hand
excitedly over his chin exactly as he
used to do when something dis-
turbed him. Lynn recalled how she
and Johnnv once had spilled their
sodas over the floor and broken the
dishes when they had been scuffling
over a pink straw. It all came back
so vividly, how he had stood there
rubbing his chin, while they shame-
facedly cleaned up the mess.
''All you need," he said, "is
Johnny sitting there beside you, and
I would know I had been dreaming
all these vears."
For a brief moment Lynn's eyes
fell to the carved initials. "No, you
haven't been dreaming, Mr. Jensen,"
she said.
His eyes were on her diamond.
She felt embarrassed and slipped
her hand into her lap. He sat down
opposite her table.
As she looked into his dear,
familiar face, a flood of questions
rushed to the tip of her tongue. "Is
it like it used to be?" she asked
eagerly. "Do the students still come
for sodas after school? The Martin
twins, are they still freckled as turkey
eggs? Or have they all grown up
and gone away? Do the new ones
sit on the stools and sing, 'A root
beer float like a tippy boat,' and
'Pink ice cream that makes me
scream'?"
She was laughing gaily.
He looked at her so closely, she
suddenly stopped. "Now, Mr. Jen-
sen, don't tell me you didn't like
our songs?"
His eyes were twinkling merrily.
"Of course I liked your silly songs.
I still like them. I was just looking
to see if your nose still wrinkles up
like a prune when you laugh."
"You never told me that!"
"I didn't dare," he said with a
sly wink. And then he leaned over
the table toward her. "But, tell me,
what brought you to Springdale after
all these years of silence? Must
have been something very unusual."
"It was Aunt Polly." She was
quite sober now. "She has been
writing such peculiar letters. Is she
all right? Have you seen her late-
ly?"
He was rubbing his hand over his
chin thoughtfully. "Why, yes,
Lindy, as a matter of fact, she's been
in several times lately."
Lynn looked at him suspiciously.
"What for?"
"Oh, I didn't mean to frighten
you," he said quickly. "I just meant,
well -— she just comes in as she
always did."
"Mr. Jensen, I think Aunt Polly
is ill. Oh, she never said so exactly,
but her letters, they aren't the same.
They aren't filled with the things
654 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— OCTOBER 1959
that go on in Springdale like they sits in your seat. I have never seen
used to be. Just httle notes with him sit anywhere else. If someone
vague hints about things she doesn't is there, he waits."
do. I'm sure there is something It was so foolish to want to cry.
wrong." Long ago she had put the tears
''Now, don't fret yourself, Lindy. all away. But this place made the
I'm sure Aunt Polly will be all right dead past come back so vividly. She
when she has a nice long visit from looked down at the table again.
you." He looked at her fondly. ''Alone?" she asked, thinking vague-
"But here, you haven't given me a ly of MayRee Richins.
chance to answer all those questions "Not always. Sometimes he
you asked. Maybe you'd better brings his children. You know it
start all over one at a time." has been two years since their
"But I don't remember what I mother died."
asked. I just want to know about "Yes, I know."
everybody." "I used to be so sure it would be
"Well, let's see. The Martin you and Johnnv," he said. "What-
twins grew out of their freckles, ever happened?"
went away to school and married As she looked into his dear, sol-
somebody. MayRee Richins came emn face and saw the mist in his
back about a year ago. She's a nurse eyes, she remembered how, in the
at the hospital, got interested in her first of those }'cars gone by, she had
career, I guess, and never married, longed to throw her arms around
Who else?" her old friend's neck and sob out
Funny, how after all these years, the loneliness she had known. But
MayRee's name should touch a lit- that was long ago.
tie twinge of jealousy. She looked She said, "It's been so long, Mr.
down at the table. Jensen. That's the way things are
"Just anybody," she said. in life. You do one thing or you
He traced a pattern on the table do another. It doesn't really mat-
with his finger. "Don't you want to ter, does it?"
know about Johnny?" She sighed a little then, and
She was silent a second or two. pushed the hair back from her fore-
Her eyes dropped again to the head. "But I must get to Aunt
carved initials, and then through the Polly." She looked at Mr. Jensen
door at something across the street, with a suspicious look. "You are
"Yes, of course," she said. Then she quite sure there is nothing really
looked into his face. "Tell me how serious with Aunt Polly?"
he is, really — I mean, is he well? He nodded his head assuredly.
Does he get along all right? Does "Quite. In fact, I'll bet she can
he ever come here and. . .?" dri\ e the Chev to get you. Shall
I call her?"
T YNN stopped suddenly and "I was going to take a taxi and
looked down in embarrassment, surprise her," she answered. "But
His hand touched hers gently, please do."
'Tes, Lindy, he comes here quite And then, of a sudden, a bright
often, though I don't think he goes thought struck her. It may ha\e
anywhere else much. And, yes, he been something in the breeze float-
THE NEW DAY 655
ing through the door that was sug- job and everything, but there's still
gestive to her of other spring days, a lot of that same little child left
when she had walked home to Aunt in you that drank her first soda right
Polly's through the field along the there in that seat. Bet you even
path that followed the creek. Ma^^be pull off your shoes and wade in the
the wind told of willows just right creek. Maybe you'll catch the croup
for spring whistles, and of smooth and Aunt Polly will have to come
stones where the water gurgled. Or after croup medicine for you."
maybe it whispered to her of lovers' She went out the back way then,
walks along the winding path, with their laughter vibrating in her
Whatever it was, she suddenly had heart, across the vacant lot to the
an unconquerable longing to walk fence where the willows marched
along the path again as she had to the stream,
done in those years before. ''But I couldn't be the same girl,
''Wait, Mr. Jensen," she called could I?" she asked herself. "Too
impulsively, as he started for the much has happened to me."
phone. "Tell me, is the path still The little old gate was still there,
there, I mean along the creek its poles a little more worn, its wov-
through the willows?" en lattice bleached and weatherbeat-
He looked at her curiously, en, but still squeaking on its hinges
"Must be. Most things stay the as she opened it. She almost want-
same here, same fences, maybe sag- ed to talk with it about the secrets
ging a little, same people, a few it knew from her past, like the times
more wrinkles, a few more homes when she and Johnny met here in
along the upper highway. But I summertime. For a moment her
haven't heard of anything being hand rested lovingly on its rustic
done to the path along the stream." post and then she left it with the
She smiled at him with dreamy silent secrets, and went down the
eyes. "You know, I think I'd like path through the willow clumps,
to walk along that old path again. And as she walked, the years slipped
Would you mind if I left my lug- away. Two long pigtail braids hung
gage? I'll pick it up later." down her shoulders and she walked
He smiled at her. "Lindy, I was with bare feet over the soft dead
afraid you'd be a sophisticated city leaves of the path,
girl after all these years with a fancy {To he continued)
(^ail I lie a Squirrel cJ^f LJou JLike
Gvven Marier Barney
Yes, I must store in bottles
All the summer fruit in sight
Before the winter throttles
Harvest with its greedy bite.
Sixty LJears Kyigo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, October i, and October 15, 1899
'Tor the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the
Women of All Nations"
INSTRUCTION FOR NURSES: Dr. Margaret C. Roberts expects to open an-
other class for a Corps of Nurses in November of this year. It is ardently hoped that
under the auspices of the Relief Society in the several stakes of Zion near Salt Lake
County, suitable young and middle-aged women may be selected who have the ability
and aptitude for this employment, after taking a course of physiology and general nurs-
ing. The term will continue for seven months with three lessons a week. Each student
must be supplied with text books, note books and pencils, cost not exceeding $2.50. Dr.
Roberts will have some of the best surgeons and physicians of Salt Lake City to give
lessons during the course. As the course of instruction will be given free of charge, in
consideration of this free course of study, each sister taking it will agree for a certain
length of time to nurse under the direction of the president of the Relief Society in
the respective locality where she resides free of charge. . . .
— Editorial Note
RELIEF SOCIETY IN ST. JOHNS, KANSAS: Our society was organized July
8, 1899, by our mission president. Elder Wm. Jack, and we now have seventeen mem-
bers enrolled. We have in our treasury, twenty dollars. We have given one ice cream
social, from which we cleared five dollars and seventy cents. We have pieced two
quilts, and quilted three; also made three comforts and sewed carpet rags. We have
held twenty-five working and testimony meetings. . . .
— Lucy Breckenridge, Pres.
Margaret Budge, Sec.
FOR EVER
If I had thought our parting was for ever
I should have wept,
That day when 'twixt the low hill and the heather
The dead day crept —
If I had thought that no more should we linger.
Just you and I. . . .
If I had thought — Nay, rather thinking over
Of days long gone,
I can look back, remembering, though we sever,
Our hearts are one!
— C. E. C. Weigall
VISIT OF A NOTABLE WOMAN: The last week in November, we expect
Mrs. Charlotte Perkins Stetson, poet, author and lecturer. She is the granddaughter
of Lyman Beecher, and grand niece of Henry Ward Beecher, Harriet Beecher Stowe,
Isabella Beecher Hooker. Mrs. Stetson will be the guest of Mrs. A. W. McCune while
in Salt Lake City, and of Mrs. Susa Y. Gates in Provo, where she is expected to speak
under the auspices of the Brigham Young Academy. Arrangements are in progress
for a series of lectures in this city. Mrs. Stetson not only comes of the celebrated
Beecher stock, but is also descended from the remarkable New England Perkins family
.... Her book. Women and Economics, is everywhere regarded as the bravest, brightest,
most original and most readable volume on women. . . .
— Editorial Note
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
lyriSS ELAINE WHITELAW,
National Director for Wom-
en's Activities for the National
Foundation, at a luncheon in Salt
Lake City in June, presented the
Foundation's highest award, the
Silver Plaque, to two organizations.
Mrs. Marianne C. Sharp, First
Counselor in the General Presidency
of Relief Society, received the award
for that organization. Mrs. C. R.
Lomax, Vice-President of the Utah
Federation of Women's Clubs, re-
ceived the award for her group. The
awards were given for the support of
the polio emergency volunteer pro-
gram, the vaccination program, and
the annual March of Dimes.
gHIRLEY O'NEILL, nineteen, was
awarded a silver medal and $750
for rescuing a classmate who was
attacked by a shark at Baker's Beach,
California. The medal, given by the
Carnegie Hero Fund Commission,
was only the fourth such award to
be presented since 1955.
jyrARGUERITE MARY GAHA-
GAN, formerly a reporter for
the Detroit News, is now editing
and publishing a weekly newspaper
North Woods CalJ, "a paper for all
who enjoy the north country." It is
printed in the little town of Roscom-
mon, Michigan, and is known as one
of the most interesting and unusual
newspapers in the country.
SEVERAL eminent women players
of the harp participated in the
international harp festival in Jerusa-
lem in September 1959. Among
them were: Celia Gatt Androvandi
of Rome, Rosa Spier and Phia Berg-
hout of Amsterdam, Marie Korchin-
ska of London, Lily Laskine of
Paris, and Mireille Flour of Brus-
sels. The festival began with a pil-
grimage to the tomb of King David,
most renowned of all harpists, on
Mount Zion, and consisted of ren-
ditions of ancient and modern harp
music, contests, and a presentation
of the history of the harp.
lyiRS. AGDA VIOLA JADER-
^ ^ STROM ROSSEL is the first
woman to be appointed as a perma-
nent delegate to the United Na-
tions. She is a native of Stockholm,
Sweden, and the mother of two
teenage children. She studied at
the Swedish Institute of Political
Science and has served in many
civic and legal capacities in Sweden,
and is described as "very beautiful."
■RS. LOIS LAKE, a prominent
air lines executive, has recently
been transferred from her position
as district sales manager for West-
ern Airlines in Salt Lake City, Utah,
to Los Angeles, California, where she
will be regional manager of the
women's sales department. Mrs.
Lake is one of the few women air-
lines executives in the country.
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EDITOIIIAL
VOL. 46
OCTOBER 1959
NO. 10
ibstablishing CJanulyi [Patterns
UOW many a young girl has stood
embarrassed while her father
and mother have queried a young
man calling to take her out, "Let's
see, your father is Joseph, and was
his father Horace or James?" It is
a welcome relief to her to escape
outside and forget who his progen-
itors are. She isn't going out with
them!
But back home Father and Moth-
er pursue the conversation further,
commenting on the maternal fam-
ily side and, perhaps, recalling Cous-
in Harry who has turned out to
be a ne'er-do-well. Wise parents
consider every young person with
whom their son or daughter dates,
as a possible candidate for marriage,
and family backgrounds are con-
sidered in that light.
Latter-day Saint parents have
unusual opportunities to acquaint
themselves with the family back-
ground of other members of the
Church, even those who may live
far away. Because of the closely
knit activities of Church members,
a stake or mission president, ward
bishop or branch president can
usually supply desired information.
With some exceptions members of
a familv create a family pattern into
which the majority of family mem-
bers fit. Most Latter-day Saint fam-
ilies are descendants of Ephraim,
and we know that members of the
tribe of Ephraim were taught to
marry within that tribe, as were the
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members of the tribe of Manasseh
and the other tribes, descendants of
Jacob, so that tribal characteristics
were kept strong and pure. Thus
there are great common heritages on
which to build.
In seeking to learn of a family
pattern, it is not the worldly goods
on which the decision is to be based,
but on the industry, integrity, and
faithfulness to the gospel of the
family, with special application to
the individual in particular. Gen-
eration after generation in the
Church certain families are recog-
nized as stalwart families and the
number is continually being in-
creased by the addition of converts.
The Church teaches the need to
have pride in one's family and to
honor and uphold the family name.
A circumstance is recalled of an op-
portunity taken by a President of
the Church at a funeral when he
called upon remaining members of
a noted familv to be more faithful
and worthy of their great progeni-
tors. Pride in family must be a
righteous pride with the remem-
brance that the meek shall inherit
the earth.
It is well for a mother to teach
her children of the good deeds and
faithfulness to the Church of those
progenitors v^ho first joined the
Church, and of the persecutions
and trials which they underwent.
Where a familv is a first generation
family in the Church, the circum-
EDITORIAL
659
stances of the parents' conversion as
well as the worthiness of past gen-
erations not in the Church should
be stressed. Following the cherished
patterns of the past, a mother and
father can weave their own family
pattern ever stronger and more
beautiful through their daily ex-
amples and teachings. To a neigh-
bor child asking for a family mem-
ber to come out and go on a picnic
on the Sabbath, it becomes a
natural habit to reply, ''We don't
do that in our family on Sunday."
Setting and maturing such a pat-
tern may not always be easy, but
once it is attained there is cause
for a parent's heart to rejoice. Some
children are naturally more obedient
than others, but if the example of
hallowing the Sabbath day and other
righteous patterns begin in the
cradle and are persisted in, parents
are usually rewarded with children
who are obedient to family ideals.
There are instances, however,
when indifferent Church members
may remark, ''Well, I was forced to
go to Church when I was a child,
and Vm going to let my children
choose the Church thev want when
they are old enough to know what
they want." Such an attitude on
the part of parents may indicate a
lack of understanding between
themselves as children and their
parents. The family pattern was
evidently imprinted on a rebellious
heart, and when the imprint was
loosed by the child gaining inde-
pendence, it was broken and cast
aside. Outward compliance is not
enough to ensure the continuance of
a family pattern — gaining awards
and perfect attendance will not en-
sure righteous adult behavior. There
is need for love and understanding
between a mother and each child as
an individual. She must be sure
that the family pattern has taken
root and will grow independently,
nourished by each family member.
Where a child himself takes re-
sponsibility of cheerfully and will-
ingly adhering to the family pattern,
it will continue to set proper bounds
to his conduct even though he leaves
the home sanctuarv. Young men
are drafted into the armed services;
young women leave home to attain
independence. It is then that the
strength of the family pattern is on
trial. Will the young man continue
to follow his parents' teachings or
will he seize the opportunity to do
things which he has had to deny
himself while under his parents'
roof? Will the daughter continue
to live as if under her parents' sur-
veillance because she has decided
she wishes to build the same kind of
a life, or will false allurements lead
into evil ways?
When family patterns become
firmly established in each new gen-
eration, it testifies not only of a
family imprint exerting tremendous
pressure from without, but also of
an inward pliability and acceptance
by the child himself and his own
nurturing of the pattern until it has
an independent growth within his
own soul.
Wise parents realize this sacred
obligation not only to train and set
a proper pattern for their children,
but also to influence the inner
desires of their children in lovang
understanding to the end that their
children will learn to depend upon
their own convictions for righteous
living.
-M. C. S.
QJair or QJalse QJc
aces
npHE face is the mirror of the soul. It reflects your character, fair or false.
No mask of deceit, however clever its design, can hide for long your
true personality — your real self.
Fair: What a wonderful word! These are some of its dictionary
meanings: "pleasing to the eye; beautiful; gracious; courteous; desirable;
elegant; frank; honest; impartial; just."
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By contrast, let's look at the word ''false/' These are some of its
meanings: ''dishonest; not faithful or loyal; untrue; treacherous; hypo-
critical; sham; feigned; not trustworthy." How hideous this image of
that which is false!
Fair or false— which will you choose?
If you're smart, you'll choose the fair. You'll be fair in everything
you do. Whether it's in sports or in the more serious game of life, you'll
play fair; you won't cheat or chisel.
You'll be fair with friends and associates by being just and generous.
You'll cultivate a fair face and a fair figure by clean, healthy living.
For your own sake, be fair, be just, be genuine, if you would be
happy. Then, when you look in the mirror, your real face will reflect the
honest thoughts you think, the honest words you speak, the honest hfe
you live.
BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
LOistractton
Winona F. Thomas
I went to paint an autumn scene
With canvas, paints and brush.
Only the music of the stream
Disturbed the canyon's hush.
I meant to do a rustic hut
Beneath an old oak tree,
But a squirrel in search of nuts
Came and posed for me.
jr// ffs Well
Elsie McKinnon Strachan
Though this hour is folded in darkness —
No least moon lanterns the sky,
Though the clouds are hidden in shadow,
And no stars testify
That God dwells in his heaven;
We know, without doubt, he is there:
His gentle rain washes the midnight.
And pure is the wet, sweet air.
Lriecipes QJroni the I iorthern (^alifomia lliisslon
1 can crab
1 can shrimp
2 c. soft bread crumbs
1/4 c. tabic cream
1 Vi c. salad dressing
Suhimtt€d hv Hazel S. Love
Crab and Shrimp Shells
Vi
hard-boiled eggs
tbsp. chopped parsley
tsp. minced onion
tsp. salt
tsp. pepper
Remove stiff tendons from crab meat and black line from shrimps. Mix all in-
gredients together and put in patty shells and bake for fifteen minutes at 350°. Makes
ten servincs.
Shrimp Salad In Ring Mold
tbsp gelatine
1 c. cold water
1 c. mayonnaise
1 c. whipping cream
4 hard-boiled eggss, diced
juice of /4 lemon
c. celery diced
small green pepper diced
small bottle stuffed olives, diced
1 Vz tsp. salt
Dissolve gelatine in cold water and place over pan of hot water to finish dissolving.
Then cool. Add mayonnaise, mix with cream, whipped, and add remaining ingredients
and pour in ring mold. When it is set, unmold and fill center with shrimp sauce.
Shrimp Sauce:
1 c. whipping cream
1 Yi c. mayonnaise
Whip cream, add mayonnaise and catsup,
serving. Makes twelve ser\ings.
^ c. catsup
1 lb. fresh shrimp
Add shrimp. Make sauce Just before
Date Nut Bread
1 tsp. baking powder
1 egg
2 c. flour
1 c. nuts
1 tsp. vanilla
1 c. boiling water
1 tsp. soda
1 c. chopped dates
Yi tsp. salt
1 tbsp. butter
1 c. sugar (scant)
Add soda to boiling water and pour over chopped dates. Cream butter and sugar,
beat in egg, add liquid from date mixture, vanilla, and dry ingredients. Beat well, add
dates and nuts. Let stand five minutes in loaf pan. Bake at 350° for fifty minutes.
Makes one loaf.
Set Shrimp Salad
3 hard-boiled eggs
2 c. chopped celery
1 can shrimp
1 tsp. grated onion
1 pkg. lemon gelatine
1 Y' c hot w ater
Y?. c. whipping cream
Yi c. mayonnaise
1 small pkg. Philadelphia cream cheese
Dissolve gelatine in hot water, let set until soupy or mushy. Whip cream, add
mayonnaise and cream cheese. Then add this mixture to the gelatine. Add remaining
ingredients and put into molds to finish setting. Makes nine servings.
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RECIPES FROM THE NORTHERN CALIFORNIA MISSION 663
IcE-Box Rolls
1 c. milk 1 yeast cake
3 tbsp. shortening % c. water
2 tsp. salt 1 tbsp. sugar
3 eggs 4 c. flour
Vs c. sugar
Add shortening and salt to milk and scald. Cool to lukewarm. Beat eggs until
thick and lemon-colored. Add the sugar and beat well. Add yeast cake (after dis-
solving in lukewarm water and i tbsp. sugar). Add 3 c. flour and beat well. Sift re-
maining flour on pastry board, pour dough over it and fold in flour. Put in greased
bowl. Cover, and put in refrigerator overnight. Roll out about 2 hours before baking.
Bake at 400° for ten minutes. Makes about 3 dozen rolls.
Note: Use your electric beater, it saves time and energy. This is a rather soft
dough. When rolling out rolls take only part of the dough out of the refrigerator at a
time, as dough may be too soft to handle well. Use cooking oil to grease pan, as it
does not harden and crack when cold.
Date-Filled Cookies
Dough :
% c. shortening 1 % c. flour
1 c. brown sugar (pressed down) Vz tsp. soda
lYz c. rolled oats
Cream shortening and sugar. Sift and stir in flour, soda, and rolled oats. Mix
thoroughly. Place half crumb mixture in QX13 greased pan. Press down to cover bot-
tom of pan. Spread with cooled date filling. Coxcr with remaining crumi:) mixture.
Bake 25 to 30 minutes at 400° or until light brown. While still warm cut in bars
and remove from pan.
Date Filling:
3 c. dates (cut in pieces) iVz c. water
!4 c. sugar
Cook o\er low heat, stirring constantly until thick, about 10 minutes. Then cool
before pouring o\er dough mixture.
Orange Prune Filling (may be substituted):
3 c. cooked prunes (cut up) 2 tbsp. lemon juice
Vz c. orange juice 2 tbsp. grated orange rind
Cook over low heat, stirring constantly until thickened, about 10 minutes. Then
cool before pouring o\'er dough mixture.
Candied Nuts
1 c. sugar 8 marshmallows
Vz c. water peppermint flavoring, optional
1 tbsp. corn syrup 3 e. nuts
Vs tsp. salt
Boil to soft-ball stage sugar, water, corn syrup, and salt. Remove from heat, add
marshmallows, and dissolve. Add peppermint fla\'oring if desired. Add nuts. Spread
in pan and cool. Add one drop of green coloring if peppermint is used. It is effective.
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— OCTOBER 1959
Orange-Carrot Cookies
V4 c. shortening
1 c. sugar (scant)
1 egg
1 tsp. baking powder
1 tsp. vanilla
1 c. cooked mashed carrots
/i tsp. salt
2 c. flour
1 c. chopped nuts
Cream shortening and sugar, add egg and mix well. Add all ingredients but nuts.
Beat well. Add nuts. Drop by teaspoonfuls on greased baking sheet. Bake 375°
for fifteen minutes. Ice while hot.
Icing for Orange-Carrot Cookies:
1 orange, grated
3 tbsp. orange juice
1 c. powdered sugar
pinch of salt
Beat all together and spread on hot cookies.
Yam-Apple Casserole
4 5'ams
2 large apples
Cook yams in jackets, peel and slice. Pare and slice apples. Place in large shallow
casserole in alternate layers. Make sauce and pour over yams and apples. Bake for one
and one-half hours at 350°.
Sauce:
1 c. sugar
3 tbsp. cornstarch
2 c. water
Vs lb. butter
2 tsp. lemon juice
Combine cornstarch and sugar and add remaining ingredients. Heat until mixture
thickens, stirring constantly.
Lemon-Pineapple Ice-Box Dessert
1 pkg. gelatine
4 eggs (separated)
1 c. sugar
1 lemon (juice and grated rind)
% lb. vanilla wafers
1 small can crushed pineapple
Yz c. chopped pecans, if desired
Vi c. whipping cream
maraschino cherries for topping
Soak gelatine in Yi c. pineapple juice (drained from can of crushed pineapple).
Add enough water to make one-half cup. Whip egg yolks until thick, add Yz c. sugar,
juice of lemon, and grated rind. Beat until thick and lemon-colored. Put in double
boiler, cook until thick, beating continually. Add gelatine just before taking from
stove. Add crushed pineapple. Let stand until cool. Whip egg whites and other
Yz c. sugar until stiff. Fold cooled mixture into egg whites. Crumb vanilla wafers, put
layer in pan, pour mixture over crumbs. Sprinkle remaining crumbs over top. A layer
of chopped pecans may be added before the final layer of crumbs is added. Cut into
squares and serve with whipped cream and cherry.
Date-Nut Bars
3 eggs
1 c. sugar
1 c. flour
Yz tsp. salt
1 tsp. baking powder
1 % c. chopped dates
1 c. chopped nuts
Yz tsp. vanilla
Beat eggs until light and add sugar. Beat mixture until thick and lemon-colored.
Add drv ingredients and continue to beat. Add dates and nuts. Bake in 9 x 13 pan at
350° for 30 minutes. Cut into squares while warm and roll in powdered sugar.
Making Christmas Ornaments
Can Be Fun
Hannah Nowell
WHAT would be more fun
for the family hour than to
get the family together a
couple of evenings and make Christ-
mas decorations for your home?
With just a little instruction and a
few odds and ends of things you
may find about the house many
beautiful and interesting things can
be made. As you work many new
ideas will come to you, and it will
be most interesting to see what
imagination and ingenuity your fam-
ily has. Start collecting now some
of the things you will need and see
what a wonderful time you will
have.
Horn of Plenty Centerpiece
Materials to use:
1. Wicker horn ii inches long, 17
inches around opening.
2. Cardboard about 10 inches long, 3
inches wide.
3. Glue — a very good glue.
4. 6 to 9 burned-out flash light bulbs.
5. 3 burned-out electric light bulbs.
6. Tissue paper.
7. Oak leaves, holly (artificial), or
other leaves.
8. Pine cones — seed pods — balls
from the gum tree or other kinds
of dried materials you may be able
to find in your area. Wire cones
and pods that do not have any
stems. Use a wire stiff enough to
support them. (If you want to have
these pure white they should be
dipped into white paint and the
paint dry before putting arrange-
ment together. It is difficult to get
enough paint on them after the ar-
rangement is assembled.)
9. About 4 or 5 roses or other artificial
flowers. (Faded crepe or other
kinds may be used. If you do not
have some, you can make your own
by cutting crepe paper in strips
about 3 inches wide and long
enough to make a few rows of
petals. Fold paper and cut in the
shape of petals, but do not cut
completely through the paper.
Leave the petals attached. With
scissors curl the edges of each petal.
Start to roll the strip up, keep the
first rows tight to form the center
of the rose. After rose has been
formed, wind some wire around it.)
Spray your artificial flowers \\'ith a
number of coats of gold paint.
10. Non-tarnishable silver sparkles.
11. Flat white paint, gold paint
12. Lace painted with gold paint.
Instructions
Cut cardboard, shaping it like the
inner sole of your shoe, but at the
heel end cut off square. Glue leaves
around the edge of the cardboard to
about 3 inches from the heel end.
Glue one flashlight bulb just be-
yond point of cardboard, then glue
two bulbs at the sides of this one,,
but leave the first one out in front
a little. Rumple up a little tissue,
put glue on all sides. Place this
over ends of the bulbs. Place just
enough tissue to rest the end of the
next bulb on, but so it cannot be
seen from the outside.
Continue to add tissue with glue
and bulbs, resting each bulb on the
bulbs that have already been glued
until all the flashlight bulbs have
been used. Put the glue between
bulbs where they touch one another.
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and as you add bulbs, widen the
formation. Glue on 3 burned-out
electric light bulbs and build up
with tissue, as you did the flash
light bulbs. At this point more
leaves and small flowers can be
added to fill in around the bulbs.
Next add flowers, cones, seed
pods, leaves, or anything you might
want to use, but continue to use
tissue as you did with the bulbs. Use
lots of glue with the tissue and put
glue on stems and wires and push
these into the tissue. Also put some
glue between flowers, cones, etc. to
hold them together and make them
more compact.
Fill in around flowers with leaves.
This last part of the arrangement
should be shaped so that it will fit
into your horn. Bulbs, flowers, and
leaves should look as if they were
spilling out of the horn. About an
inch and half of cardboard can be
bent down, this will help to hold
the arrangement in the horn. Set
aside for glue to dry before paint-
ing.
If your flowers have been paint-
ed with gold paint and you do not
want the white paint to get on
them, cover with a little tissue paper
to protect them. Spray everything,
including the horn with white flat
paint (flat paint will stick to leaves
better than enamel and will not
peal off as quickly) . After paint has
dried, remove paper from flowers
and spray all with a little gold paint,
but do not cover white paint com-
Hal Rumel
HORN OF PLENTY CENTERPIECE
MAKING CHRISTMAS ORNAMENTS CAN BE FUN
667
Hal Rumel
TABLE DECORATIONS
CENTERPIECE AND CANDLE HOLDERS
pletely, and while paint is still wet,
sprinkle on non-tarnishable sparkles.
Paint lace gold and put around edge
of horn.
For a long table centerpiece, two
arrangements of bulbs and flowers,
etc., can be made, but instead of
using the horn, place together the
ends of the two arrangements where
the flowers are. To finish this group-
ing, melt household wax and pour
into star candle holders. Arrange
flowers and pods in wax, spray with
white paint, and when dry spray
with gold paint.
Ornaments Made from Bottle
Caps and Jar Lids
There are a few things to keep
in mind when making things with
metal and beads, shells, etc. House-
hold cement dries very quickly and
is clear and easy to use. There is a
drawback to its use, however. It
has the tendencv, after awhile, to
become brittle, letting the beads or
ornaments come off. This can be
corrected in applying the cement.
Take a small piece of cotton and
with a toothpick push the cotton
down into the cement. Don't add
so much cotton that it will be seen
through the beads. A little more
cement mav be added when the
beads are applied.
Round Jar-Lid Ornaments
Use lids from a quart jar of pea-
nut butter or other large jar lids.
Use a hammer and small nail and
make two small holes close together
in the side of the lid. Insert a
small wire through the holes by
which to hang up lid. If lid is
bright and undamaged inside, }ou
can decorate it without painting,
otherwise paint it the color desired.
Paint outside. Cut figure of angel
or girl from Christmas or other
cards. Fold small piece of paper
to form a hinge and glue one end to
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Hal Rumel
JAR LID CHRISTMAS ORNAMENTS (AT LEFT) AND BELLS
MADE FROM TIN CANS (AT RIGHT)
the back of the cut-out and the
other end inside the center of the
hd, or you can glue cut-out directly
to lid. String enough pearls or
Christmas beads (in any color you
wish) to go around the inside of
the lid.
Put cement where the beads will
be put and with a toothpick press a
small bit of cotton into the cement
as instructed above. Place the beads
in the cement and press down.
Around the edge of the lid cement
small flowers. Touch the edge of
the flowers with gold paint and
sprinkle with sparkles.
Other ways to decorate would be
to use stars, sequins, sparkles, shells,
instead of the beads. Instead of
using flowers around the edge, try
using shells, or try gathering lace or
other edgings and fit around the
edge of the lid. Cement into place,
then paint gold. These ornaments
can be hung on the Christmas tree,
or they can be hung by ribbons in
the small fry's bedroom.
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669
Two-Lid Ornament
Take two lids that are the same
size and about two inches across.
Make a hole in the side of each close
to the edge. Insert wire through
holes to hang ornament with. Put
cement around the rim of the lid.
Take lace or other edgings, gather,
and place in cement. Put cement
on rim of other lid and place this
on top of edging and directly over
the other lid. Let clrv. Lid can be
painted white or any color desired.
Lace can be gilded with gold or
silver paint. Decorate each side of
lid with cut-outs. Glue beads
around edge of the lid at the edge
of the lace. Stars, buttons, sequins,
sparkles, etc. can be used for dec-
orations.
Six-Lid Tiered Ball Ornament
You will need six lids, three sets,
each set smaller than the other one.
The larger the lid you begin with,
the larger the ball will be. Using
quart jar lids to start, the next size
to use would be a lid about two
inches across, and the next size
about one inch and a fourth. This
combination will make quite a large
ball. Another combination would
be to start with two postum lids
which are about two inches across,
then a medicine bottle cap about
one and one half inches across, and
then the cap from a cake coloring
bottle. This will make a small ball.
Prv-off lids mav be used, also the
caps off soft drinks. These lids make
a ball that will be more oval in
shape.
Make two small holes in one
of the smallest lids, put wire
through by which to hang ball. Put
cement on rims of the two largest
lids and press lids together. Put
cement on rim of next size lid and
place on top of the larger lid, then
cement the smallest lid to the
medium-size lid. Make the other
end of the ball the same way. Set
aside for cement to dry. Paint white
and let dry, then spray with a small
amount of gold paint. After this is
dry, put rows of Christmas beads
around each tier. Use cement and
cotton as you did for the other
ornaments. The rows of beads
could be different colors, such as
red, silver, and blue. At the end
of the ball, cement on a circle of
beads with a larger bead in the cen-
ter, if needed, to complete the shape
of the ball. Another suggestion for
decorating these balls is to cut the
edges from gold paper doilies and
combine these with beads and
sparkles. Also, a combination of
beads and small gilded paper flow-
ers can be glued on and sparkles
added. These balls can be used on
the Christmas tree, hung in clusters
in the room, or used as table ar-
rangements.
BeJIs Made From Tin Can Lids
1. Punch two holes in the center
of a can lid with a nail. Make a
square around holes. Cut to cor-
ners of square with scissors or tin
snips, clipping out four pie-shaped
wedges.
2. Bend each side down to form
bell shape.
3. For clapper, string a bead on
thin wire, twist wire, and bring it
up through holes in the bell, leaving
a few inches of wire on top of the
bell for tying it on a streamer of
bells, or for anchoring bows that
may be attached. These bells can
be painted any color you desire, or
left the natural color. Make a clus-
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ter of these, using different size lids
to hang on your door. They will
tinkle merrily each time the door is
opened.
We must not forget the small
ones of the family. Let them dec-
orate empty thread spools. Let them
cut colored foil to fit around the
spool, inside the flanges. Glue into
place, then glue stars or sequins on
foil, put glue on flange and top of
spool, sprinkle with sparkles. Put a
large bead on end of ribbon, string
through hole in spool, thread an-
other bead and push down next to
spool. Make a number of these in
different colors. These can be hung
on the Christmas tree or used to
decorate packages.
Have fun and happy holidays!
iJjaja Ca///(
ornta
Ethel Jncohson
Under an arch of blazing cobalt sky
The desert spreads this chaparral — a cloak
Of flame-tipped oeotillo and the dry
Thickets of manzanita and black oak.
It covers ancient mountain peaks w orn smooth
By slow milleniums. It fills each plain
And curving valley where its rough hands soothe
The wounds of flood — the temblor-scarred terrain.
This desert is no leveled waste of sand.
It climbs the tallest slopes, and makes a bridge
Of prickly cholla where parched boulders stand
That once were creek beds. Then from the last ridge
It gropes, and winds doxAii each decli\ ity
To dip its dusty feet in the \Miiting sea.
JLast Ujorn
Ora Pate Stewart
W^e thank thee, Father, for this youngest child.
So full of comfort for our after years,
Whose prattle fills the corners of our lives
With smiles and laughter, lo\c, and sometimes tears
Of utter gratefulness, of utter joy,
How much is packaged in this little boy!
I
liLargaret LPitts QJinds Self-ibxpression
cdn (^ rochet vi/ork
TV/f ARGARET Pitts, Marysvale, Utah, has completed more than five hundred articles
-^ •■• of crocheting in fi\'e years. These lovely gift and household articles consist of
ten tablecloths, many doilies, several baby sweaters, capes, hoods, bootees, mittens,
chair sets, rugs, hot pads, scarf ends, pillowcase edgings, and corners and edges for
luncheon sets. Her work shows much precision of detail and evenness of stitches, and
beauty of design.
Mrs. Pitts has been a member of Relief Society since she was sixteen years old,
and has served as counselor, Magazine representative, and ward president. She has
served as a visiting teacher for more than twenty-five years, traveling eighteen miles to
make some of her visits. She is mother of four children, grandmother of twelve, great-
grandmother of thirteen, and she has five step-grandchildren and thirteen step-great-
grandchildren.
K/i\
utumn oLeaves
JLe
Katheiine B. Bowles
Painted leaves upon the hillside,
Brilliant shades of every hue,
Reflect the beauty of the autumn-
Transient colors pass in review.
Painted by the artist paint brush
Guided by the master hand.
All their many tinted colors
Made to beautify the land.
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4 i
A" Is for Apron
JJene H. Kingsbury
Part III (Conclusion)
Old apron woman/ Do you have to
aJvvays be seen in a style so old-iashioned
that we smile as you walk by?
YES, indeed! For then around
my knees my children are
still playing, my loving hus-
band comes close to my side, old
friends call my name.
And Clarissa mused on a night,
half a century ago. Before a glow-
ing pine-knot fire she waited with
her husband for rescue in a long
storm, early arrived on the summer
range.
Somehow the conversation got
around to tools, clothing, and uses
of common things close at hand.
Her husband sat whittling a chip
and fell to saying that a man with
a pocket knife could survive under
any adversity. Not to be outdone,
she defended the most useful part
of a woman's apparel, her apron. All
of which led to a sort of debate.
Each recalled, in turn, the humor-
ous, the tragic, the useful. Each
must have won his point, for before
the time began to drag, the noise of
horses, sleighs, and men came over
the icy air; and they were safe again
in the companionship of friends.
As Clarissa recalled the apron-
knife evening, her mind cleared and
she could hear herself saying. . . .
I have worn them long and short,
gathered and skimpy, leather and
lace, linen and sailcloth, starched
and limp, clean and dirty! When I
walked across the plains I carried
my baby brother in my apron, and
when we made camp at night I
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changed to another one made from
a torn wagon cover, waterproof, and
gathered to its fold buffalo chips
as fuel for our fire. Once, I had a
black wool plaid apron, a sort of
divided prize from a Scotch clans-
man, and this was as often as not a
shoulder shawl for Mother, as we
sat outside the wagon at sundown.
In early days I had a part of an
Irish linen table cloth, just enough
to make a half-cover apron; but be-
fore I had worn it twice to church,
a little mother, fresh from the Old
World, was bereft of her firstborn,
so I offered my white linen apron
for a shroud to protect the dead and
comfort the living.
The gayest apron I ever owned
was made from a remnant end of a
red and white checkered tablecloth.
The joke was how could I tell I was
eating off the table or off my lap?
But it was that very apron that con-
cealed a child from prying eyes
when it was trembling and afraid.
How strong I felt then, wath the
little waif clinging to my knees, his
heart pounding on my shin with a
tattoo beat.
One time we camped out on a
pinenut hunt, and my six-vear-old
fell out of a tree. The only splint
we had with which to bind his brok-
en arm was a tent stake and my
apron strings. His bones mended
straight and strong. Later, when
someone said he really had been
tied to his mother's apron strings,
he laughed right out loud and didn't
mind at all.
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673
I have tethered out a child near
a berry patch with my apron strings,
and have had him tag along at a
safe jog as I picked a pail for dinner.
At least I knew where he was.
/^NCE I had a leather apron, a
sort of blacksmith's protection,
only scaled to my size. It hung on
a nail by the back door, quite near
the woodbox. When the chips ran
low, the chip apron came off the nail
and out to the woodpile I went for
a lapful. Some would say that was
work for boys, for girls, or for men,
instead of labor for a wafe already
overburdened. But I called it a
choice task as I stooped to gather
those pine-scented chips, each bear-
ing the scar of an ax blow, obliquely
cut. They bore the polish and pres-
sure of utility. Their designs of
rings resembled the ripples of
spring water in a basin, except they
were solid and were caught in an-
nual paths which might be seen for-
ever, e\'en until they turned to
stone.
Sometimes, as I scooped the chips
to my apron, often using a large, flat
shingle size for a shovel, I thought
to save one — a handsome piece.
Into my pocket it went, and I rested
it in style on a ledge of the chimney
corner. One long, indoor-weather
winter, my husband took out his
pocket knife and shaped the honey-
toned slivers and gnarled knobs and
palomino browns and golds of fra-
grant chips into a table top of inlaid
beauty. Laughingly, he called it my
chip-apron table. From wood lot,
to wood pile, to wood box, to wood
surface, it was a thing of glowing
wonder.
Old apron woman/ Your eyes grow dim.
You do not walk our Janes as you did last
season, and the last before that. In your
plum tree shade you stay so quietly, we
think you are sitting for your portrait —
lace cap on head, long white apron over
your knees, knotted fingers hidden in pro-
tecting folds. Are )'our thoughts far away
to other days?
A
H, child, yes — other times of
stress, of sorrow, of triumph.
And the theme — a piece of femi-
nine apparel — persisted in Claris-
sa's thoughts as the sifted summer
sun warmed her ancient frame.
* jj;
Yes, those aprons had been many
and varied: opaque, see-through-
lace; no bib; full-gathered to shield
the news of the coming of a child;
serviceable to protect the only dress
Clarissa had owned in four years.
Always there was a pocket on her
lefthand side to carry peppermints
or cloves to sweeten the smile. Plain
or fancy she remembered them:
knit lace insertion and edging dec-
orating the lower third, hand-stitched
tucks, deep as the lace, to give it
body. As the aprons wore out they
were turned to good use. Swad-
dling clothes, petticoat, or pinafore;
they fit the next one down in size
and youth. No usable fragment was
thrown away. Rag rugs, whose
pieces once graced her spare frame,
were of comfort to the feet.
These were aprons of memory.
The wrinkle, the crimp, the fabric,
the w^arp and woof, the crumple of
cotton or linen — all were part of
her wifery, her stewardship, her
harness.
Today, in the plum tree's shade,
she is wearing The Best Apion —
always white, always worn for
Company.
The odd thing about this Sunday
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apron, the one deserving of faney
decoration (but quaintly plainest of
all) was her initial in the lower left
hand eorner near the hem — or is it
an initial?
More of a map if you look close-
fy: a sketchy thing of a river's course
or a path over the Divide. Squint
your eyes: the westering sun has
\\armed the last stretches of earth
and may dazzle you to the details.
The trek is ended. Trail Scale: i" to
500 miles. It measures 3" along the hem.
Quilts and Mothers-in-Law
Mabel Law Atkinson
44^
ES, Fm looking forward to
having a daughter-in-law."
With a smile, Margaret
Brandley answered the question put
to her by one of the women quilting
in the home of her friend, Midge
Nelson.
It was Midge herself who shook
her he^d and said, "J^^^t wait till
you ha\'e had one for three years.
Honestly, sometimes I could take
mine by the shoulders and shake
her, the way she imposes on my
son."
"How does he feel about her
treatment of him?" Margaret Brand-
ley was still smiling.
"Oh, he's too much in love with
her yet to notice, but he will and
then.'"
"If he has endured three years of
it joyfully, he'll weather the storms
all right. But I doubt if storm
clouds ever come. I mean dark and
threatening ones," Margaret contin-
ued. "They seem so well mated."
"I just wish I had the chance to
be a mother-in-law to a son's wife."
Mild little Sarah Mather's eyes filled
as she spoke.
The women around the quilt
were silent in sympathy, for they
knew she was thinking of her onlv
son, Mark, who had died somewhere
in Korea.
It was Mrs. Swain, better known
as Aunt Martha, who broke the
silence by saying gently, "I think I
know why Margaret has no qualms
about being a mother-in-law and
welcoming a new daughter or a son
into her family, for I have been her
next-door neighbor ever since she
was married." Then, speaking di-
rectly to Margaret, Martha sug-
gested, "Why not tell us the reason
you anticipate and get only joy
from in-law additions to your fam-
ily?"
"Do tell us, Margaret. We can
quilt as we listen. I, for one, shall
be grateful for all the help I can
get in my new role. I so want
Tom's wife to keep on loving me."
It was quiet-voiced Mary Anderson,
whose son had been married but
two weeks, who spoke.
"And do make a production of it.
Then perhaps I can see what is
wrong with mv daughter-in-law, or
with nie." Midge was smiling rath-
er wryl).
Margaret smiled warmly at them
all as she began, still stitching on
QUILTS AND MOTHERS-IN-LAW
67S
the multi-colored quilt. 'There's
reallv not much to tell. It just came
to me that there is an analogy be-
tween this quilt and a mother-in-
law. This quilt didn't just happen,
nor was its beauty achieved in a day
or a week. Its tiny pieces weren't
placed haphazardly and sewed to-
gether any way. They follow a cer-
tain definite pattern which took
time and conscious effort in the
placing of each piece as to color
harmonv as well as design. Care
had to be taken in cutting each
piece accurately, so the seams would
join perfectly." Margaret turned to
Midge and asked, ''How long has
it taken you to make this quilt top,
and for whom are you making the
quilt?"
^^pOR myself. I've always wanted
a sunburst pattern, and now,
at last, I'm getting one." Midge an-
swered the last question first, then
went on, 'Tve been working on it
off and on for over a vear. At times
I've been so tired of it, I've felt
like chucking it in the waste bag."
''Why didn't you, I wonder?"
Margaret asked softly.
"Because I could see how beauti-
ful it would be when finished," was
Midge's answer.
"It is beautiful and altogether
lovely and artistic. I recall the
poet's words, 'A thing of beauty is
a joy forever. Its loveliness increas-
es. . . .
"I hope so," was Midge's com-
ment.
"So it is with a good mother-in-
law and son or daughter-in-law re-
lationship," Margaret continued.
"Its loveliness increases as time
passes, and little children weld the
link stronger with their love and
gentleness. But it takes much long-
er than a year to prepare to be a
good mother-in-law. Much, much
longer. The truth is, I began my
preparation when my first child, a
little daughter, was placed i:i my
arms. As I lay looking at the tiny
miracle of her, I prayed that some-
day she would know the same holy
happiness I was experiencing, that
she would be married to as worthy
a man as her father. I knew that
if she were to attain this joy, I must
constantly, throughout the years,
exercise all care to see that she de-
\'eloped in every way as a sweet,
lovable, capable, and intelligent per-
son, as a daughter of God, that she
might attract the right type of men
and choose for her husband a splen-
did young Latter-day Saint.
"As the years passed I found my-
self praying that some mother and
father were training their son for
her, as we were training our daugh-
ter for him. It was a joyous task and
and mv formula has worked, for
she married a man to whom it is
easy to be a good mother-in-law.
For over five years we have enjoyed
a rewarding mother-son relation-
ship."
"That is wonderful, Margaret,"
said Myrtle Eaton, who sat next to
her. "You haven't even needed to
work specifically toward the desired
result have 3^ou? Not directly with
your son-in-law, I mean?"
"Oh, yes, I think you would call
some of the things I did working
directlv, but it has all been so
natural that it hasn't seemed like
work at all. When Elna and Bob
were engaged, I talked with Bob
alone." Margaret smiled as she
continued, "I remember how sol-
emn he looked when Elna left us,
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saying, 'Mother has something to
say to you, Bob.' But he was soon
at ease and smihng."
"What on earth did you talk to
him about? Did you tell him how
you expected him to treat Elna?"
Midge asked with a mixture of curi-
osity and incredulity in her voice.
''No, I didn't even mention such
a thing. I simply told him I had
watched with approval the love de-
veloping between him and my girl
and that I would be proud to wel-
come him into the family. I con-
gratulated him on being a clean,
intelligent, and industrious young
man, a good Latter-day Saint, and
told him he was getting a sweet,
clean, and lovely Latter-day Saint
wife in my daughter. That was
about all. But through the years I
have given him an orchid of praise
whenever I have been especially
thrilled over his achievements in
his home with his family, in his
work of making a living, and in his
Church duties. Often for little
things like helping Elna by feeding
the baby, bathing the two little boys,
or just being kind and courteous
always."
'1 hope you are as successful with
your daughter-in-law." Midge gave
this comment feelingly.
'I'm sure I shall be, for I sort of
picked out Susan for Peter before
he had seen her."
"Tell us all about it, my dear."
Loved Aunt Martha's voice was low.
^^T met Susan several months be-
fore Peter did. She came home
with Bea— that's my youngest—
from college for a week end. She
was so gracious and lovely in every
way that I found myself indulging
in wishful thinking. I did some-
thing about it, too.
"The next summer when Peter
came home on vacation, I had Bea
invite her to go with us on a family
picnic up the canyon. That was
all I needed to do. Things pro-
gressed slowly but surely after their
meeting, and now in two weeks I
shall have a daughter Susan."
"Just the reaping of the harvest
from the seeds you'\'e sown through-
out your children's lives," spoke up
Aunt Martha gently. "I've watched
you, Margaret — with each one —
teaching them to be sweet and
wholesome and unselfish; training
them to be happy and efficient little
housekeepers, farmers, future wives
and husbands, fathers and mothers.
You have taught them the gospel,
my dear, and made it a living force
in their lives. You have done your
job well."
Margaret's eyes caressed her neigh-
bor lovingly and she answered,
"Dear blessed Aunt Martha!" Then
turning to Midge she concluded,
"That is all there is to tell. Was
it enough of a production?"
It was a thoughtful Midge who
answered, "Yes, Margaret. It was
wonderful. Thank you, dear friend.
I'm starting years too late in some
things, but I shall concentrate on
loving and appreciating Lisbeth
from now on, and as my beginning,
I'll give her this quilt when it's fin-
ished."
FROM THE FIELD
Hulda. Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Handbook of Instiuctions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by June I. Hunsaker
NORTH BOX ELDER STAKE (UTAH), CORINNE SECOND WARD PRESENTS
"WOMEN OF THE NEW WORLD," AT CLOSING SOCIAL
May 26, 1959
Left to right: Lila Wright as Mrs. Noyes; Donna Smoot as Mary Rovvlandson;
Karen Smoot, literature class leader; Selma Yagi as Pocahontas; Leona Rasmussen as
Anne Hutchinson; Ann Norman as Anne Bradstreet; Lozon Reeder as Sarah Pierrepont;
Elma Carter as Margaret Winthrop.
June I. Hunsaker, President, Box l^kkr Stake Relief Society, reports: "This second
ward of Corinne was organized this year, it is a very new ward and a small one, but the
sisters are working diligently to interest their sisters and carry out the plan of the
General Board, Karen Smoot, literature class leader, is a very young mother with t\\o
small babies and a 'well of energy.' "
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Photograph submitted by Pauline Stevens
BIG HORN STAKE (WYOMING), BYRON ^^'^ARD RELIEF SOCIETY
SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIG FOR I'HE SUNDAY
EVENING SERVICE, March i, 1959
Front row, left to right: Grace Ste\"cns, organist; Kav Ste\ens; Dola Hoffeling;
Rose Doty; Savanna Sessions; Fern W'olz; Fannie Wolz, chorister.
Back row, left to right: Pearl Ames; Ivadell ^\^illey; Ella May Hatch; Vivian Hop-
kinson; Martha W^irth; Florence Tanner; Norma Hassenthaler.
Photograph submitted by Helen H. Hawkins
SPANISH FORK STAKE (UTAH) VISITING TEACHERS HONORED AT
VISITING TEACHERS CONVENTION, June 3, 1959
Front row, seated, left to right: Louise Robertson; Irene Johnson; Luccen Jenkins;
Tressa Yates; Rosa Warner; Ellen Fillmore; Eliza Hales; Lillian Boyack; Emma Powell.
Second row, seated, left to right: Thelma Nielsen; Belle Jorgenson; Mima Ney;
Pearl Cloward; Minnie Hanks; Marguerite Taylor; Lucy Stone; Alice Lloyd.
Back row, standing, left to right: Dora Cloward; Effie Tavlor; Dora Hales; Flora
Pierce; Mary Simmons; Netta Sorenson; T\^ ila Isaac; Mary Marcuson; Hannah Chappie;
Tora Banks.
Helen H. Hawkins, President, Spanish Fork Stake Relief Society, reports: "All
of our Aisiting teachers were recognized and honored at our ^'isiting teachers convention,
June 3, 1959. Each ward president introduced those visiting teachers in her \\ard ^^■ho
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679
had a record of tliirty-six ^cars or more of scrviee. These women eame to the front of
tlie room, where they were each presented with a corsage. Special honors were given to
Ehza Hales for se\ enty ^cars of continuous scrxicc in Relief Society, and who still serves
as a visiting teacher in her ninetieth year. Sister Ellen Rose Fillmore was honored for
sixtv-six years as a \isiting teacher. These sisters were presented with a book as well
as a corsage. President Joseph Y. Toronto encouraged the sisters to attend their sacra-
ment meetings. . . . The dramatic presentation 'A Light Shining' was portrayed in
drama and music. Several beautiful numbers were presented by the stake Singing
Mothers under the direction of Emma Jex, with Blanche Nielson, accompanist. At the
close of the program, dainty refreshments were served at beautifully decorated small
tables."
Photograph submitted by Frances P. Andrus
NORTHERN FAR EAST MISSION, YOKOHAMA SERVICEMEN'S AND
JAPANESE BRANCH RELIEF SOCIETY CLOSING SOCIAL, May 25, 1959
Front row, seated, left to right: W'^atabe Ilisako and child; Suzuki Masako, Secre-
tary, and child; Ima Ilara San; Sato Shigeko, Counselor; Aramaki Toshiko, President;
Kura Sawa Hiroko, Counselor; Tabata Susan.
Back row, standing, left to right: Amino Kozuko; Carol Jester; Lucille Sims;
Mirian Sampson; Sasaki Masako; Madge Anderson; Myrtle Jepson, Secretary; Janice
Telford, Counselor; Veda Hales; Geneel Stewart, President; child; Fern Allen, Counselor;
Carol Rae Brown, missionary; Barbara Peterson; Arima Sachiko; Audrey Stevens, mission-
ar}'; Tanaka Shigeko.
Seated in front arc the children of the Suzuki, Watabc, Sasaki, and Jepson families.
Frances P. Andrus, President, Northern Far East Mission Relief Society, reports:
"The Yokohama Branch Relief Society held their closing meeting for the year in con-
nection with the Yokohama Servicemen's group. A delicious luncheon was prepared
and served by the Servicemen's Group. The Japanese sisters prepared the dessert.
These two groups ha\e worked closely together in the past in working on bazaars and
other projects, and a close friendship has developed between the American and Japanese
sisters. Though the language was at times a barrier, still the spirit of friendship and
love between sisters in the gospel could be felt in this gathering."
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Photograph submitted by Delia O. Taylor
EL PASO STAKE (TEXAS) RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, May 1959
Front row, seated, left to right: Second from the left, I\'a Iluish Jones, composer
(with Minnie Gonzalez) of song "A New Day Dawned for Women" which was sung
at the conference; fourth from the left, Delia O. Taylor, President El Paso Stake
Relief Society; sixth from the left, chorister Winnie H. Mortensen.
Second row, at the right: Second Counselor Mildred M. Nations.
Third row, at the left, stake organist Jennie N. Lawson; at the right, First Coun-
selor Ida W. Jackson.
Photograph submitted by Vera R. Cantwell
SMITHFIELD STAKE (UTAH) RELIEF SOCIETY PRESENTS DRAMATIZA-
TION '^A LIGHT SHINING," May 16, 1959
Front row, seated, left to right: Alta Allen, as the voice of President Belle S.
Spafford; Burdetta Harris, a ward Relief Society president; Mary Gregory, a grandmother;
Adeline Done, her daughter; Anna Brough, as a stranger; Livina Done, daughter-in-law.
Back row, standing, left to right: President Hazen Hillyard, Smithfield Stake,
representing the voice of the Prophet Joseph Smith; Roma Low, who presented the
introduction; Arlene Rigby, a ward first counselor; De Vonna Rindlisbacher, a ward
second counselor; Shirley McQueary, honored as being the youngest visiting teacher
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681
present; Emma Olney, honored for being a visiting teacher since 1904. Velda Rasmus-
sen, narrator, was absent when the picture was taken.
Vera R. Cantwell, President, Smithfield Stake Rehef Society, reports that the
following renditions were presented by the Singing Mothers: "How Beautiful Upon
the Mountain," by the Third Ward; '"Sweet Is the Work, My God, My King," by
the Amalga Ward; "The Spirit of God Like a Fire Is Burning," by the First Ward;
"More Hohness Give Me," by the Fourth Ward.
Photograph submitted by Louise S. Brooks
HAWAII MISSION, KAUAI DISTRICT RELIEF SOCIETY PRESIDENCY
AND OFFICERS DISPLAY HANDWORK
Front row, seated, left to right: Second Counselor Sarah Santos; President Ruth
Yorkman.
Back row, standing, left to right: chorister Jane Goo; First Counselor Anne Moa;
literature class leader Mary Ann Soong; Secretary-Treasurer Carolyn Kalauano; Magazine
representative Eleanor Battad; social science class leader Lily Ticala.
Louise S. Brookes, President, Hawaii Mission Relief Society, reports: "In the
picture there is a display of woodrose corsages, as well as the 'chicken feather' leis which
are made for the 'lauhala' hats. These leis are dyed beautiful colors and are very
attractive.
"In the Hawaii Mission for the past year we have been working very hard on the
project of haA'ing every member of the Relief Society learn each step in the art of
Hawaiian quilt making, as it was becoming a lost art. We are very happy to say that
some of our districts have reported 100 per cent in having a quilt in each home, and
those not having reported as yet have their quilts underway. ... It takes the tutoring
of the older sisters in this art to teach the younger ones, and they have responded so
well that I am sure it will be carried on by all now.
"We are very fortunate in having the 'lauhala' weaving in the mission. Several
of the branches have made the mats and runners for their chapels as well as their Relief
Society rooms. Of course, we would like to mention the beautiful and colorful
'muumuus' that all the sisters make and sell at the bazaar."
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Photograph submitted by Jessie S. Baldwin
SNOWFLAKE STAKE (ARIZONA) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC
FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE
Standing, center front: Anella Hall, organist, and Edna Smith, chorister.
Jessie S. Baldwin is president of Snowflake Stake Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Elva F. Richins
SUMMIT STAKE (UTAH) OLDEST AND YOUNGEST VISITING TEACHERS
HONORED AT CONVENTION, April 12, 1959
Left to right: Charlotte Beard, ninety-three years old, oldest visiting teacher in
Summit Stake, has served for sixty-five years; Louise B. Judd, one of the youngest visit-
ing teachers in Summit Stake, who presented a lovely corsage to Sister Beard.
Elva F. Richins, President, Summit Stake Relief Society, reports: "A highly suc-
cessful visiting teachers convention was held, April 12, 1959. Theme of the conven-
tion was 'A Light Shining.' Special recognition was given Sister Charlotte Beard of
Henefer for her sixty-five years of visiting teaching. Louise Judd of Hoytsville, one of
the youngest teachers in the stake, presented Sister Beard with a beautiful corsage.
Also honored were those sisters who had served forty years or more: Susannah Fowler,
Henefer; Ada Wilde, Nellie Wright, and Susie Wilde, Coalville; Mae McQueen, Emma
Pace, Caroline Sargent, and Delia Winters, Hoytsville; Arietta Davis, Wanship. The
convention was directed by the stake Relief Society presidency: Elva Richins, President,
and her Counselors Thelma Brown and Maxine Wright. The stake visiting teacher
message leader is Margaret Richins."
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Photograph submitted by Ruby M. Dobbins
PALO ALTO SIAKE (CALIFORNIA) RELIEF SOCIETY PRESENTS "BLOSSOM
TliME IN MUSIC AND FASHIONS/' April 24, 1959
Left to right: Commentator Colette Taylor, Palo Alto Second \\'ard; Lisa and
Wendy Watts; Yvonne Pendleton; Zella W^ood Clearly as the bride. Miss Clearly
made her own dress and was married shortly after this occasion; Donna Smith; Carol
and Sharon Spencer. The models are from Sunn\\ale Second Ward.
Ruby M. Dobbins, President, Palo Alto Stake Relief Society, reports: " 'Blossom
Time in Music and Fashions' was the title of the gala affair presented bv the Palo Alto
Stake Relief Society, April 24, 1959, climaxing a rewarding year. The stake Singing
Mothers, directed by Ann Thomas, presented a lo\ely musical carrying out the theme
'Blossom Time.' The fashion show under the direction of stake Work Director
Counselor Dagna Wheatley, and stake work meeting leader Dorothy Muir, was par-
ticipated in by all six wards of the stake. Modesty in dress was the keynote. All
creations shown were made by the sisters of the stake. In some instances young girls
made and modeled their own frocks. The fine workmanship, styling, selection of fab-
rics and colors by the sisters was truly inspiring. The hall, beautifully decorated in
boughs of spring blossoms, was filled to e\erflouing h\ a most appreeiati\e audience.
Dainty refreshments \\ere ser\ed by the stake Relief Society board. We are extremely
proud of the achievcmnts of the sisters in the stake."
cJlieyi Shall QJind LPeace
Leslie Savage Clark
They shall find peace who spend their days
Where mountains crowd the sky.
Where peaks catch dawn's first radiance
And dusk's blue shadows lie.
They shall find peace where twis'ted pines,
Undaunted by the scars
From sleet or lightning bolt, still keep
Their covenant with stars,
N DEPARTMENT
cJheoloqyi — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 20— Spiritual Creations
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Section 29:30-50)
For Tuesday, January 5, i960
Objective: To indicate the importance of fundamental gospel teachings given to
Adam relating to the Lord's spiritual creations, and some of their implications.
TTNDERSTOOD in relationship
to the material of the lesson
last month, we shall see that this
lesson, dealing with some of the first
principles of the plan of salvation,
has a very definite bearing upon
man's present and eternal welfare.
Spiritua] and Temporal Existence
In last month's lesson we learned,
among other things, about a judg-
ment to come upon the righteous
and the wicked. Verse 30 of Sec-
tion 29 points out that we should
remember that all of the blessings
for the righteous and the condem-
nation upon the wicked have not
been made known.
Most important for our consider-
ation is the fact stated in verses
31 and 32:
For by the power of my Spirit created
I them; yea, all things both spiritual and
temporal —
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First spiritual, secondly temporal, which
is the beginning of my work; and again,
first temporal, and secondly spiritual, which
is the last of my work (D & C 29:31-32).
When the Lord revealed that his
creations were both spiritual and
temporal and that the spiritual was
first, a most significant truth was
given. At this early period in the
restoration of the gospel, the faith-
ful members of the Church were be-
ing told something about their life
before this earth was organized.
About three years later (1833), the
Lord also made known that Jesus
was the Firstborn of his children
and the rest of the human race was
in the beginning with the Father.
(See D & C 93:21, 23).
Jesus Is Our Elder Brother
Because Jesus was the Firstborn
in the spirit, or the eldest of God's
children, he is our Elder Brother. It
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685
seems imperative that, as Latter-day
Saints, we understand the greatness
of the Redeemer as compared with
the rest of our Father's spirit chil-
dren. This difference is brought
out by the following statement of
the First Presidency and the Coun-
cil of the Twelve issued June 30,
1916, as follows:
There is no impropriety, therefore, in
speaking of Jesus Christ as the Elder
Brother of the rest of human kind. That
He is by spiritual birth Brother to the
rest of us is indicated in Hebrews:
"Wherefore in all things it behooved
him to be made like unto his brethren,
that he might be a merciful and faithful
high priest in things pertaining to God, to
make reconciliation for the sins of the
people" (Hebrews 2:17). Let it not be
forgotten, however, that He is essentially
greater than any and all others, by reason
( 1 ) of His seniority as the oldest or first-
born; (2) of His unique status in the
flesh as the offspring of a mortal mother
and of an immortal, or resurrected and
glorified, Father; (3) of His selection and
fore-ordination as the one and only Re-
deemer and Savior of the race; and (4)
of His transcendent sinlessness.
Jesus Christ is not the Father of the
spirits who have taken or yet shall take
bodies upon this earth, for He is one of
them. He is The Son, as they are sons
or daughters of Elohim (Jaaies E. Tal-
MAGE, Articles of Faith, pp. 472-473).
Man's Pre-Earth Life
Whereas, the Christian world
teaches that the individual's first
creation, or birth, was temporal
without a spirit life before entry
into this mortal world, the gospel of
Jesus Christ in its fulness gives a
true understanding of man's divine
origin.
The doctrine of man's spiritual
creation is explained in a statement
issued bv the First Presidencv com-
posed of Joseph F. Smith, John R.
Winder, and Anthon H. Lund:
Adam, our great progenitor, "the first
man," was, like Christ, a pre-existent
spirit, and like Christ he took upon him
an appropriate body, the body of a man,
and so became a "living soul." The doe-
trine of the pre-existence, — revealed so
plainly, particularly in latter days, pours
a wonderful flood of light upon the other-
wise mysterious problem of man's origin.
It shows that man, as a spirit, was begot-
ten and born of heavenly parents, and
reared to maturity in the eternal mansions
of the Father, prior to coming upon the
earth in a temporal body to undergo an
experience in mortality. It teaches that
all men existed in the spirit before any
man existed in the flesh, and that all who
have inhabited the earth since Adam have
taken bodies and become souls in like
manner ("The Origin of Man," Improve-
ment Era, Vol. XIII, November 1909,
page 80 ) .
Animal and Plant Qitziion
Not only was man created in the
spirit first, but also the rest of God's
creations. The revelations speak of
this spiritual creation as including
vegetation and animal. How clearly
this is spoken of in these verses:
And every plant of the field before it
was in the earth, and exery herb of the
field before it grew. For I, the Lord God,
created all things, of which I have spoken,
spiritually, before they were naturally up-
on the face of the earth. For I, the Lord
God, had not caused it to rain upon the
face of the earth. And I, the Lord God,
had created all the children of men; and
not yet a man to till the ground; for in
heaven created I them; and there was not
yet flesh upon the earth, neither in the
water, neither in the air (Pearl of Great
Price, Moses 3:5).
. . . that which is spiritual being in the
likeness of that which is temporal; and
that which is temporal in the likeness of
that which is spiritual; the spirit of man
in the likeness of his person, as also the
spirit of the beast, and every other creature
which God has created (D & C 77:2).
Creations Are Eternal
From the scriptures we learn
some important truths relative to
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the creations of God: (i) they con-
stitute an organizing of already exist-
ing eternal material (See D & C
131:7); and (2) that his creations
will therefore continue to exist as
a part of the resurrection. (See
D & C 29:23-25.) These truths are
pointed out in the statement made
by the First Presidency:
By His almighty power He organized
the earth, and all that it contains, from
spirit and element, whieh exist co-eternal-
Iv with Himself. He formed everv plant
that grows, and every animal that breathes,
each after its own kind, spiritually and
temporally — "that which is spiritual be-
ing in the likeness of that which is temp-
oral, and that which is temporal in the
likeness of that whieh is spiritual." He
made the tadpole and the ape, the lion
and the elephant; but He did not make
them in His own image, nor endow them
with Godlike reason and intelligence.
Nevertheless, the whole animal creation
will be perfected and perpetuated in the
Hereafter, each class in its "destined order
or sphere," and will enjoy "eternal felic-
ity." That fact has been made plain in
this dispensation (D & C 77:3) ("The
Origin of Man," Improvement Era, Vol.
XIII, November 1909, page 81).
Spiritual and Temporal
Basic to much of Latter-day Saint
teachings concerning how the spirit
sons and daughters of God should
understand the way they should liye
in mortality is found in these yerses:
Speaking unto you that you may natural-
ly understand, but unto myself mv works
have no end, neither beginning; but it is
given unto you that ye may understand,
because ye have asked it of me and are
agreed.
Wherefore, verily I say unto you that
all things unto me are spiritual, and not
at any time have I given unto 30U a law
which was temporal; neither any man,
nor the children of men; neither Adam,
your father, whom I created.
Behold, I gave unto him that he should
be an agent unto himself; and I gave
unto him commandment, but no temporal
commandment gave I unto him, for my
commandments are spiritual; they are not
natural nor temporal, neither carnal nor
sensual (D & C -9:53-35).
An understanding of many of
the reyelations which follow for
study in these lessons is based on
the proper interpretation of the fore-
going truth. Commandments to
build houses, sell or retain property,
and other similar actiyities will en-
gage our attention later. These
actiyities are the basis of many of
the accomplishments of our people
and also for \\hat may be done in
the future. These statements from
some of our leaders of the past ex-
press the Latter-day Saint point of
yicw:
Brigham Young:
\\'^ith God, and also witli those \\\\q
understand the principles of life and sal-
\ation, the Priesthood, the oracles of truth
and the gifts and callings of Cod to the
children of men, there is no difference in
spiritual and temporal labors — all arc
one. If I am in the line of my dutv, I
am doing the \\ill of God, whether I am
preaching, pra\ing, laboring with my
hands for an honorable support; whether
I am in the field, mechanic's shop, or fol-
lo\\"ing mercantile business, or whercxer
dut\' calls, I am serving God as much in
one place as another; and so it is v^ith all,
each in his place, turn and time (/ournai
oi Discourses 13:260).
Joseph F. Smith:
You must continue to bear in mind
that the temporal and the spiritual are
blended. Thc\ arc not separate. One
cannot be carried on without the other,
so long as we are here in mortality. . . .
The Latter-dav Saints believe not only
in the gospel of spiritual salvation, but
also in the gospel of temporal salva-
tion. . . .
The work that we are engaged in is
not designed to be limited by the spiritual
necessities of the people alone. It is the
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purpose of God in restoring the gospel
and the holy Priesthood not only to bene-
fit mankind spiritually, but also to benefit
them temporally {Gospel Doctrine, 6th
Edition, pp. 208-209).
Adam and the Devil
In continuation of our study of
''first things" as they are made
known in this important revelation,
we have our attention drawn again
to the pre-earth life.
The ''origin" of Satan's rebellion,
the number of the spirits who fol-
lowed him, the fact of free agency
as a principle in the pre-existence,
the eventual home of the devil's
miserable horde, and the place of
his operations in the lives of us
mortals, are all indicated in these
verses:
And it came to pass that Adam, being
tempted of the devil — for, behold, the
devil was before Adam, for he rebelled
against me, saying. Give me thine honor,
which is my power; and also a third part
of the hosts of heaven turned he away
from me because of their agency;
And they were thrust down, and thus
came the devil and his angels;
And, behold, there is a place prepared
for them from the beginning, which place
is hell.
And it must needs be that the devil
should tempt the children of men, or they
could not be agents unto themselves; for
if they never should have bitter they
could not know the sweet (D & C
29:36-39).
Adam and the Fall
It should be apparent to all Lat-
ter-day Saints that basic to an under-
standing of the purpose of life is an
acceptance of the account given in
the scriptures that Adam was a real
historical person, and of the rebel-
lion of Satan. (See Abraham
3:23-35; Moses 4:1-4-) Adam's
place in the plan of salvation is
such an important one that it was
formulated in the heavens before
the foundations of the earth were
laid. It seems that Adam's place in
the divine plan was necessary that
there be an opportunity for making
possible the union of the spirit of
man and a mortal body. What is
called the fall of Adam is but a
means of giving further opportuni-
ties for the progression of the spirit
sons and daughters of God. We ob-
tain knowledge from this modern
revelation of what happened to
Adam as a result of his partaking of
the forbidden fruit and also of the
effect of that act upon his posterity.
It is declared that Adam ''became
subject to the will of the devil, be-
cause he yielded unto temptation"
and:
Wherefore, I, the Lord God, caused
that he should be cast out from the
Garden of Eden, from my presence, be-
cause of his transgression, wherein he
became spiritually dead, which Is the first
death, even that same death which is the
last death, which is spiritual, which shall
be pronounced upon the wicked when I
shall say: Depart ye cursed.
But, behold, I say unto you that I,
the Lord God, gave unto Adam and unto
his seed, that they should not die as to
the temporal death, until I, the Lord God,
should send forth angels to declare unto
them repentance and redemption, through
faith on the name of mine Only Begotten
Son.
And thus did I, the Lord God, appoint
unto man the days of his probation —
that by his natural death he might be
raised in immortality unto eternal life,
even as many as would believe;
And they that believe not unto eternal
damnation; for they cannot be redeemed
from their spiritual fall, because they
repent not;
For they love darkness rather than
light, and their deeds are evil, and they
receive their wages of whom they list
to obey (D & C 29:41-45).
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With these scriptures before us,
we see that in yielding to tempta-
tion Adam became subject to two
penalties: (i) spiritual death, or
banishment from the presence of
God, and (2) temporal death, or
separation of his spirit and mortal
body.
In the process of time Adam died
the temporal death. By breaking
the commandment, he became
mortal and subject to sin; therefore,
he could no longer remain in the
presence of God.
So it is with us, Adam's posterity;
we die the temporal death, and we
also become spiritually dead when
we transgress God's commandments
after the age of accountability,
which is eight years. In order that
Adam and his posterity might know
of the way they might become
spiritually alive and become pre-
pared to enter into the Lord's pres-
ence, revelations were given to
Adam by angels. The gospel plan
was available to them that they
might exercise faith in Jesus, the
Only Begotten of the Father.
Through the atonement wrought by
the Savior, man is rescued from the
grave to immortality; and, if he has
been faithful to the covenants re-
ceived in the gospel, he may enter
into his exaltation, or eternal life.
But for those who do not repent,
either in this life or in the spirit
world, they must remain spiritually
dead. (Subsequent lessons will deal
with the salvation of mankind.)
In this revelation, it is pointed
out that those that believe not will
go to eternal damnation and cannot
be redeemed from their spiritual
fall, because they do not repent.
This is called the second death,
and is not to be understood as a
separation of spirit and body after
being resurrected.
Children and the Fall
Death of the body comes to all
by reason of the fall of Adam. Death
is as essential as is birth in the
eternal plan. (See Moses 6:59.)
It '\ . . hath passed upon all men,
to fulfil the merciful plan of the
great Creator ..." (2 Nephi 9:6).
Many who travel through life suffer
pain, sorrow, and the vicissitudes of
mortality. Often the mortal body
becomes decrepit and worn out. At
times there seems to be little reason
for continued existence, but in the
plan of our Eternal Father there is
reason.
The problem which is often
brought to parents' attention so
forcefully is the death of a little
child or the inability to bring a
child into mortal life after once the
biological processes of growth have
begun. These are problems for
which we do not yet have full and
complete answers. We do know,
as believers in the scriptures, that
the Lord has declared little chil-
dren to be blameless before him.
They come into this life innocent
(D & C 93:38). Therefore, the fall
of Adam does not affect their re-
lationship to their salvation before
the Lord. The Lord has also made
known that:
But behold, I say unto you, that little
children are redeemed from the founda-
tion of the world through mine Only Be-
gotten;
Wherefore, they cannot sin, for power
is not given unto Satan to tempt little
children, until thev begin to become ac-
countable before me;
For it is given unto them even as I
will, according to mine own pleasure, that
great things may be required at the hand
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of their fathers (D & C 29:46-48 cf.,
74:7)-
The atonement of Jesus Christ
redeems httle children whereby they
do not need the ordinance of bap-
tism for their salvation. (See Moroni
8:11-20.)
Those parents who lose a child
before the age of accountability, or
eight years (See D & C 68:25), may
be assured as to its salvation in the
celestial kingdom. Concerning this,
the Lord made known to Joseph
Smith '\ . . that all children who
die before they arrive at the years
of accountability, are saved in the
celestial kingdom of heaven . . ."
(D.H. 0.2:381). If one will keep
before him the truth that the most
important thing in life for those
little ones, and for us, is life itself,
the taking of a mortal body whereby
there is assured a resurrection of the
bodv joined with the spirit eternally,
much of the sting of death is re-
moved.
Prenata] Death
Closely associated with the prob-
lem of life and its importance in the
plan of salvation is the time when
the spirit enters the body, whether
before birth or when the breath of
life is taken at birth. If the spirit
enters the body before birth, then
we would believe that the resurrec-
tion will come to the so-called
"still-born."
In an article by the First Presi-
dency, consisting of Joseph F.
Smith, Anthon H. Lund, and
Charles W. Penrose, we find this
statement:
True, it is that the body of man
enters upon its career as a tiny germ or
embyro, which becomes an infant, quick-
ened at a certain stage by the spirit whose
tabernacle, it is, and the child, after being
born, develops into a man ("The Origin
of Man," Improvement Era, Vol. XIII,
November 1909, page 80).
In other words, the answer to the
problem is indefinite, and no at-
tempt was made by the First Presi-
dency to answer whether the spirit
enters the body before or after birth.
On the other hand, opinions have
been expressed, and they should be
known as opinions, but, in the main
they express hope and encourage-
ment to parents.
Mentally Retarded Persons
The revelation we are studying
ends with these words:
And, again, I say unto you, that whoso
having knowledge, have I not commanded
to repent?
And he that hath no understanding,
it remaineth in me to do according as
it is written. And now I declare no more
unto you at this time. Amen (D & C
29:49-50).
Those persons who are deficient
mentally, having not understanding,
seem to be in the same relationship
as children — blameless before God.
As children, they do not require the
ordinance of baptism for their sal-
vation, but they are in the hands
of the all-wise Father. They appar-
ently are in the class who are ''with-
out the law." Of these the prophet
Mormon wrote to his son Moroni:
For behold that all little children are
alive in Christ, and also all they that are
without the law. For the power of re-
demption cometh on all them that have
no law; wherefore, he that is not con-
demned, or he that is under no condemna-
tion, cannot repent; and unto such
baptism availeth nothing (Moroni 8:22).
Unto whom much is given, much
is required, but unto whom little is
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given, little is required, is the letter
and the spirit of the scriptures.
Questions ioi Discussion
1. What is the meaning of the title
''Elder Brother"?
2. Discuss four ways in which Jesus
is greater than the rest of mankind.
3. Discuss: The doctrine of the pre-
existence of man helps me to understand
many of the problems of life.
4. Express the Latter-day Saint under-
standing of the temporal and spiritual
phases of life.
5. What is taught in this lesson con-
cerning Satan?
6. What effect did the fall of Adam
have upon Adam?
7. How did Adam's fall affect us?
8. What effect docs the fall have upon
little children?
9. In terms of this lesson, what is the
meaning of this statement: "Unto whom
much is given, much is required, but
unto whom little is given, little is re-
quired"?
ViSiting cJeacher 1 1 iessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 20— ''Therefore, He That Lacketh Wisdom, Let Him Ask of Me,
and I Will Give Him Liberally and Upbraid Him Not" (D & C 42:68).
ChiistiuQ H. Robinson
For Tuesday, January 5, i960
Objective: To show that wisdom comes from God, and unless we keep his com-
mandments, regardless of our learning, we cannot gain wisdom.
CINCE the beginning of time,
man's greatest need has been for
wisdom. The progress of mankind
has depended upon the wisdom ap-
phed in the solution of its great and
small problems and decisions.
There has never been a period in
history when actions and solutions,
guided by wisdom, are more im-
portant than they are today. Man
has made great progress in the
acquisition of knowledge. Yet, with
all of his knowledge, problems have
mounted and multiplied until the
decisions with which we are now
faced are of such magnitude that,
perhaps, our very existence depends
upon their solution.
What is wisdom? The prophet
Job provides an interesting insight
into its meaning. He said, ". . . Be-
hold, the fear of the Lord, that is
wisdom . . ." (Job 28:28). Solomon
said, ''. . . the Lord giveth wis-
dom . . ." (Proverbs 2:6). The first
step in understanding the nature of
wisdom is to recognize that it comes
from the Lord and is a\ ailablc onlv
to those who live his command-
ments.
The dictionary defines wisdom as
the ability to judge soundly and deal
sagaciously with facts as they relate
to life and conduct. It involves in-
telligent discernment and judgment.
We should fully understand that
knowledge in and of itself is not
wisdom. W^isdom consists in the
right use of knowledge. This im-
plies knowledge used righteously in
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full application of the teachings and
commandments of the Lord.
How can we gain wisdom? Again,
the scriptures give us the answer. In
The Book of Mormon, the prophet
Jacob declared:
. . . When they are learned they think
thev are wise, and they hearken not unto
the counsel of God, for they set it aside,
supposing they know of themselves,
wherefore, their wisdom is foohshness . . ."
(2 Nephi 9:28).
The apostle Paul, in writing to
the Corinthians, said, ''Not that we
are sufficient of ourselves to think
any thing as of ourselves; but our
sufficiency is of God" (II Cor. 3:5).
To gain wisdom, then, we must
gain knowledge on the foundation
of spirituality and righteousness.
This means that we must hearken
to the counsel of the Lord. We
must study and pray diligently, hav-
ing faith that, if we work con-
scientiously, depending upon the
Lord, he will add to our knowledge,
wisdom.
The most wonderful example of
the application of The Doctrine and
Covenants' message in respect to
wisdom is the action taken and the
marvelous results experienced by the
Prophet Joseph Smith. He lacked
wisdom on a most important sub-
ject. He wanted to know which of
all the churches was the true one.
Reading in the Bible in the Epistle
of James, he discovered the passage
similar to the one in The Doctrine
and Covenants. The apostle James
said:
If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask
of God, that giveth to all men hberally,
and upbraideth not; and it shall be given
him (James 1:5).
We are all acquainted with the
wonderful manifestation that result-
ed. This application of simple, pure
faith was the starting point of the
great and marvelous work that is
the wonder of the world. These
inspired words, put into action by
Joseph Smith, gave him power to
rise to heights of intelligence and
wisdom and supplied him with the
divine help which enabled him to
serve as an instrument in the Lord's
hands through which his Church
was restored.
The ancient King Solomon said:
Happy is the man that findeth wisdom,
and the man that getteth understanding.
For the merchandise of it is better than
the merchandise of silver, and the gain
thereof than fine gold (Proverbs 3:13-14).
Certainly, each of us has a con-
stant need for wisdom. Let us re-
member that it is an attribute of
God which he generously shares.
However, each of us must first seek
it with full faith that the Lord will
give it liberally and '^upbraid him
not."
(cJpen the ^Jjoor of LJour uteart
Grace Inghs Fiost
Open wide the door of your heart,
And cast away the key.
That the light of love may enter in
And create charity.
Vi/ork nieeting — Physical Safety Factors
in the Home
(A Course Recommended for Use by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 4— Household Hazards
Charlotte A. Larsen
For Tuesday, January 12, i960
Objective: To recognize and correct hazards in the home.
^^npHE American home should
have ample space for happy,
healthful, spiritual family living —
but no room for accidents/' Moth-
ers shoulder the major responsibility
for the safe environment, safe main-
tenance, and the safe attitudes of
their children, their menfolk, and
themselves. When we learn that
home accidents cause about one-
third of all the accidental deaths,
and about fifty per cent of the in-
juries, it becomes apparent that
something must be done to prevent
home accidents.
Accident Pievention a Ma/or Issue
The importance of preventing
accidents in the home has been re-
garded as such a major issue that
grants were made by the W. K.
Kellogg Foundation, in 1953, to
eight states to study the home ac-
cident problem and take steps to
improve the situation.
United Effort Can Prevent
Accidents
A story is told about a small child
who was lost in the wheat fields of
North Dakota. The parents were
frantic from looking for their child
in the maze of wheat acreages and
called on the neighbors for assist-
ance. An alarm was sent out, and
the farmers responded from all
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neighboring communities to aid in
finding the lost child.
Finally, someone said, 'Tet's join
hands and make a great big circle
as we search." The several thou-
sands of people joined hands to
form a circle and covered all the
area in that vicinity. The child was
found sleeping in the wheat fields.
This was brought about because
people themselves decided to join
hands in an attempt to find the lost
child.
The same thing holds true in our
attempting to prevent the loss of
life. The more we join hands as
interested mothers, the greater the
possibility we have of reducing the
loss of life from accidents and fires.
Safe Environment—
How Do We Get It?
Each of us has the responsibility
to ask himself — is our home un-
safe? What can I do about it?
Check your own residence. You
may be surprised at how many
booby traps you maintain.
It is apparent that there are three
necessary procedures for making a
home safe:
1. Safety awareness on the part of peo-
ple in the home.
2. Thorough and intelhgent studies of
the why's and wherefore's of home acci-
dents.
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3. Homes engineered for safety.
According to Dr. Oakley Gordon
of the University of Utah Psychol-
ogy Department, the main cause of
accidents is from hurrying. The
following table shows why accidents
happen: 35% by hurrying; 22% not
paying attention; 11% excitement,
not including hurry or anger; 11%
doing wrong thing but knowing bet-
ter; 7% doing wrong thing but not
knowing better; 8% wanted to do
it, no apparent reason, just wanted
to; 4% in anger; and 2% attention-
getting or showing off.
Falls
Falls account for more accidental
deaths and injuries than any other
cause, with the exception of traffic.
Falls are due to unsafe things, such
as: makeshift ladders; overexhaus-
tion; overwaxed floors; spilled liq-
uids on floors; cluttered stairways-
skates, marbles, scatter rugs; curled
edges of linoleum or frayed carpets;
heavy lifting; poor furniture ar-
rangement; painted porch steps and
walks; slipping on bathtub; open
stairways; and dark passageways.
More fatal falls occur in the bed-
room than anywhere else in the
home. The biggest reason for this
is that folks get out of bed at night,
half asleep, and stumble over the
chair or trip on a rug and fall. This
is particularly true of older people.
The use of a bed lamp or flash light
will prevent many an accident.
Ways of Prevention
Do your household reaehing and climb-
ing on a steady, sturdy ladder with treaded
steps, don't over-reach, but move the
ladder.
If you are going to wax the floors, use
a non-skid wax. Apply floor wax in a
thin coat and buff it thoroughly to make
it less slippery.
Keep stairways uncluttered and well
lighted — skates and marbles on steps
could result in serious injury.
Have handrails for three or more steps.
Make it a rule to wipe up any grease,
water, or peelings spilled on the kitchen
floor as soon as you notice them.
Make sure your throw-rugs are anchored
with rubber matting, or finished on the
back with a non-skid treatment.
Tack down all curled linoleum or frayed
carpets. If you must paint your porch-
steps, use an outdoor or rough finish paint
or use rubber guards on each step. Place
a rubber mat in the bathtub and make
sure that there is a strong bar along the
wall to grasp.
Heavy lifting may be responsible for
falls and injuries. To lift a heavy object,
get close to it, bend the knees, keep the
back straight, and put one foot slightly
ahead of the other. Bending from the
waist may cause a strained back or rupture.
Remember the stairway to the base-
ment should never be used to store brooms,
mops, and other articles.
A common hazard in the home is the
enclosed stairway having a door at the
top which swings in over the stairs. This
action has the effect of allowing one to
enter without realizing the stairs are there,
and causing one proceeding up the stairs
to step back down to allow the door to
open. The door should always swing out
awav horn the stairs, causing one to pause
in opening the door to enter the stair-
way, and allowing the person proceeding
up the stairs to exit without having to step
back down a step or two to allow the door
to open.
Questions
1. How long has it been since you have
checked on possible booby traps in your
home? What corrections have been
made?
2. Name some of the main causes of
accidents in the home.
JLiteratiire — America's Literature —
A New Nation Speaks
Lesson 12— Two Early American Quakers: Penn and Woolman
Elder Biiant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's LitcTntiue, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 123-127)
For Tuesday, January 19, i960
Objeetivc: To understand more fully the Quaker contribution to the American
mind and culture.
npHOSE thousands on thousands
of early colonists who came
only for gain either fulfilled their
hopes or failed. In either case they
disappeared without great written
evidence that they were ever here.
It was those who came to the new
world and spent their lives here in
fulfillment of their own political or
religious idealisms who made sig-
nificant contributions to our litera-
ture. Because we devoted several
lessons to the Massachusetts Bav
Colonv and none to other religious
settlements, it might be assumed
that before the Revolutionarv War
no others were important. In a
partial sense this is true. Branchings
from Massachusetts settled all the
states north of New York save
Rhode Island; the New Amsterdam
Dutch wrote only in their own
tongue; the Catholics in Maryland
and Delaware remained an isolated
island, while the shaping word-
trends swept onward past and round
them. The Southern gentlemen
were for the most part Anglicans;
they read and wrote as whim dic-
tated, some of them quite widely,
but in their writings their religion
was not important. For the only
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religious writing of enduring value
outside the Puritan tradition, we
must turn to the Quakers.
Quaker Colonies
During the eighteenth and nine-
teenth centuries New York became
the commercial leader of the United
States, Boston, the cultural, but, at
the time of the Revolution, Phila-
delphia combined within herself
both qualities. Known as the ''Lon-
don of America," she was one of
our first great culture-cities, and the
first to be laid out in blocks with
wide streets. Although the Quak-
ers, through their most liberal atti-
tude toward peoples of all faiths or
no faith, ceased to have a majority
within the city as early as 1700,
Quakers were long predominant in
the vicinity, and to this day have
a concentration of their member-
ship, small though it is, within what
sometimes have been called the
Quaker Colonies: New Jersey, Del-
aware, and Pennsylvania. It was
their beliefs, as stated bv William
Penn, which were largely respon-
sible for the early thriving and domi-
nant influence of Philadelphia
throughout the new Nation.
LESSON DEPARTMENT 695
Willmm Penn (1644-1718) tion of a just government among a
Born in 1644 to Sir William plain and well-intending people/'
Penn, admiral of the royal navy, just When he received the Penn-
six years after the Society of Friends sylvania grant (named by the King
was founded by George Fox, young in honor of Penn's father— Penn
William was reared amid luxury had suggested Sylvania), the Dutch
and high society. Educated at Ox- and German immigrants came in
ford and in law in Lincoln's Inn, large numbers, founding German-
London, he was expelled from Ox- town and becoming known familiar-
ford for worshipping with non-con- ly as the ^'Pennsylvania Dutch."
formists; while there he sympathized though he spent only four years m
with Quakerism. His father wor- his colony, Penn's "Holy Experi-
ried about his dissenting religious nient" was one of the most success-
view and sent him to France to ab- ful of colonial times, largely because
sorb its gentlemanly way of life, it was well-planned and because
Later, while in Ireland administer- Penn's tolerance made it America's
ing his father's estates, he again earliest "melting pot," second only
learned of Quakerism, became a to New York City. It was Penn's de-
zealous member, and was soon im- sire that not only Jews, but the uni-
prisoned for publishing heretical re- versally hated Catholics as well, be
ligious tracts. The most important admitted as voting members of the
of his books was No Cross, No community, which they were. No
Crown, containing a defense of church, not even Quakerism, was
Quaker doctrines and an attack on given preference, and every man
the loose living of the Christian could own property, vote, and hold
clergy. office.
In 1670 he used his inherited
wealth to establish a Quaker settle- Quakerism Versus Puritanism
ment at Burlington, New Jersey. In many beliefs and practices
Eleven years later, in 1681, King Quakerism and Puritanism resemble
Charles II gave him a grant of each other. While primarily Penn
twenty-eight million acres of land, established his "Holy Experiment
the largest ever given one individual, for the Lord's sake," he also hoped
in payment of a debt of sixteen to blend practical things of life with
thousand pounds the Crown owed the spiritual, not so much to build
his father. houses and factories "as to erect
In 1671 and 1677 young William temples of holiness and righteous-
had visited the lower Rhine region, ness, which God may delight in."
Appalled at the suffering among For Quaker, as Puritan, laziness was
tradesmen and their families caused a great sin. Similarly, Penn con-
by the political and financial ex- demned plays, dancing, music, and
ploitation of their rulers, he encour- painting as sensualities detracting
aged them to emigrate to his lands from the purity of the Bible's mes-
in America, "there to earn a good sage. He emphasized character and
livelihood and worship as they honesty as the best assurance of
pleased among men of universal success and government, for if "men
spirits who understand the promo- are good the government cannot be
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bad; if it be ill, they will cure it/'
George Fox taught that each man
had direct access to God, and that
''each man should be his own
priest." Those attuned to God can
receive his illumination or ''Inner
Light" which gives them guidance
and peace. From such a concept of
man's relationship with God three
fundamental differences from Puri-
tanism arose: (i) Quakers believe
in complete separation of church
and state. Man's religious con-
science is sacred, and not to be
intermixed with such worldly affairs
as government and economics. (2)
Education for the Quakers should
be most practical, and derived from
the greatest of all books: Nature.
Because formal education brought
truth to the student at secondhand
it was somewhat suspect, even by
Penn himself, a university-trained
man. Where the Puritans honored
intellectual discipline, reason, and
logic, Quakers honored intuitive
knowing: "God stands in no need
of human learning." (3) While
Puritans feared toleration, Quakers,
with equal vigor, feared intolerance.
Said Penn:
And truly it is high Time, that Men
should give better Testimony of their
Christianity; for Cruelty hath no share
in Christ's religion, and Coertion upon
Conscience is utterly inconsistent with the
very Nature of his Kingdom ... no man,
nor number of men upon earth, hath
power or authority to rule over men's
consciences in religious matters. . . . God
hates persecution.
Believing that only God can
know each man's heart, Quakers
taught that no man may tell anyone
else how to believe or worship, since
"God will not give his honor to an-
other." This principle also explains
the Quaker attitude of humanitar-
ianism toward the ills of society, and
their gentle affection toward both
Indian and Negro.
Some Fruits oi Solitude
Published anonymously in 1693,
this collection of Penn's maxims was
written while he was in jail for pub-
lishing his religious beliefs. Though
space permits inclusion of but a few
quotations, it is fitting that from
Penn's own words we learn of his
gentleness, wisdom, practicality, and
deep belief.
59. Eat therefore to live, and do not
live to eat. That's like a Man but this
below a Beast.
60. Have wholesome, but not costly
Food, and be rather cleanly than dainty
in ordering it.
72. All Excess is ill; but Drunkenness
is of the worst Sort: It spoils Health, dis-
mounts the Mind, and unmans Men: it
reveals Secrets, is Quarrelsome, Lascivious,
Impudent, Dangerous and Mad: In fine,
he that is Drunk is not a Man; because he
is so long void of Reason, that distin-
guishes a Man from a Beast.
85. Men are generally more careful of
the Breed of their Horses and Dogs than
of their Children.
87. O how sordid is Man grown! Man,
the Noblest Creature in the World, as a
God on Earth, and the Image of him
that made it; thus to mistake Earth for
Heaven, and Worship Gold for God!
106-107. Friendship ... is a Union
of Spirits, a Marriage of Hearts, and the
bond thereof Virtue. There can be no
Friendship where there is no Freedom.
Friendship loves a free Air, and will not
be penned up in streight and narrow En-
closures. It will speak freely, and act
so too. . . .
227. Art is Good, where it is beneficial.
Socrates wisely bounded his Knowledge
and Instruction by Practice.
551. Did we believe a Final Reckoning
and Judgment; or did we think enough
of what we do believe, we would allow
more Love in Religion than we do; since
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Religion itself is nothing else but Love
to God and Man.
554. Love is indeed Heaven upon Earth;
since Heaven above would not be Heaven
without it: For where there is not Love;
there is Fear; but perfect Love casts out
Fear. And yet we naturally fear most to
offend what we most Love.
While most of these statements
lack the beautiful cadence or the
condensed power of literature, they
are well-turned, while as a selective
group they yield a true insight into
the Quaker mind and heart.
John Woo Jman (1720-1772)
''Simple plainness, for the glory
of God/' might well have been the
motto of this devout Quaker, whose
life corresponds so closely to the
dictates of his ''Inner Light," and
whose plain yet pictorial style of
writing blends with its content to
make an organic whole, and, there-
fore, enduring literature. Such "in-
ward purity and grace" as glow forth
from the pages of his Journal may
be accepted as justly representing
his own inward qualities of religious
experience. The spiritual reality of
the man, whether we are recalling
his life of worldly renunciation and
selfless missionary service or the
restrained, smooth style which
characterizes his writings, has made
him a classical Quaker, and a most
apt representative to us, both of his
sect and of his time.
He reduced his life (which was
his religion) to its lowest common
denominator, and in gentle sincerity
pleaded with his fellow Quakers to
do likewise. His denominator was
that quotation from Jeremiah to
Baruch, his scribe, which Woolman
quotes in his Journal as he discusses
the right, plain way of living: "Seek-
est thou great things for thyself?
Seek them not."
Early Life
Born and reared on a New Jersey
farm some twenty miles from Phila-
delphia, Woolman's quiet Quaker
family taught him to follow the
Bible and the promptings of his "In-
ner Light," and to believe in the
evil of war and all cruelty, the broth-
erhood of man, and the meaning-
less vanity of vanity in dress and
social distinction, and the blas-
phemy of taking any oath. As his
movingly simple account of his
youth tells us, he loved to read the
Bible, after age twelve never spoke
harshly to his parents; however, he
came to enjoy wanton company,
and, then, realizing the error of his
ways, he prayed for spiritual guid-
ance "until I felt that rise which
prepares the creature to stand like
a Trumpet, through which the Lord
speaks to his flock." He came to
realize within himself, as in all men,
a double quality: an animal selfish-
ness and love of fleshly things, and
the divine "Seed" or particle of
God. It was man's duty to mag-
nify this immortal Godness within
him through self- discipline of
tongue and action until it not only
dominated his life, but became it.
Thus Quakers worship by being
silent together and by distrusting
impetuous emotion, particularly the
"Spirit of Fierceness" which causes
malicious gossip, social cruelties, fi-
nancial greed and ruthlessness, and
finally wars.
Woolman's self-mastery was so
complete that his Inner Light be-
came the dearest companion of his
bosom; in his Journal he records
how he knew within himself that he
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''uttered words from an inward
Knowledge that they arise from the
heavenly Spring/' Thus triply
armed, he was ready to act on his
conviction that:
. . . true religion consisted in an inward
life, wherein the heart doth love and
reverence God the Creator, and learn to
exercise true justice and goodness not
only toward all men but also toward the
brute creatures (Text, page 126).
A successful tailor at twenty, his
prosperity worried him: if his pres-
ent trend continued, he might
come to love money and success
more than God and his fellow men.
Enjoying the competent skill of his
fingers when asked to make prac-
tical clothing, he came to loathe
working on fancy gowns and coats
which, he felt, could only flatter the
"creaturely'' impulses. Finally Wool-
man could no longer practice his
tailoring trade and maintain inner
peace, so objectionable did he find
the pursuit of wealth and the sym-
bols of wealth people sought after
with such unholy passion. Wool-
man believed that men should seek
after spiritual wealth by doing good
to their fellows in mortality. So firm-
ly did he abhor worldly display and
the labor necessary to creating it,
that on his trip to England he trav-
eled steerage, since he ''observed
sundry sorts of carved work and
imagery" decorating the better-
class cabins. Finally, in complete
contrast to Puritan philosophy (and
that of some of his wealthy fellow-
Quakers) he renounced all alle-
giance to the usual pattern of
wealth-seeking:
Wealth desired for its own sake ob-
structs the increase of virtue, and large
possessions in the hands of selfish men
have a bad tendency, for by their means
too small a number of people are em-
ployed in useful things, and some of them
are necessitated to labor too hard . , .
(Text, page 124).
Woolman, Self -Appointed
Missionary
Practicing tailoring intermittent-
ly, Woolman was also a scrivener,
or copier of public records, yet so
strongly did he oppose cruelty or
ungodliness in human relations that
he refused to copy bills of sale for
slaves. Once he attained his ma-
ture conviction that slavery was one
of the greatest evils in God's eyes,
he gave up the use of sugar, since
it was a product of slave labor in
the West Indies. On his own time
and at his own expense, he visited
Quakers throughout the thirteen
colonies to advocate a policy of
kindness and fairness toward the In-
dian, and against the practice of
slavery. So successful was he that
Rufus Jones, probably the strongest
Quaker leader of the twentieth cen-
tury, gives John Woolman the cred-
it for first causing wealthy Quakers
to give up their practice of slavery.
His opposition to slavery was not
caused by possibility that the slaves
might be mistreated, but that it
tended to extinguish the idea of
God, not only within the slave but
even more within the heart of the
slaveholder. In his book A Plea
For the Poor, published in 1763 in
his forty-third year, he opposes op-
pression— oppression of oxen by
overloading and overworking them;
oppression of Negroes by keeping
them enslaved; oppression of the
poor by overcharging them, for if
our great concern is to lay up riches,
and therefore our demands toward
the poor:
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. . . are such as requires greater Toyl, or
application to business in them, than is
Consistent with pure Love, we invade
their rights as Inhabitants of that World,
of which a good and gracious God is
proprietor, under \^•hom we are Tennants.
Woohiians Prose Stvle
Increasingly in his later maturity
John Woolman believed as he prac-
ticed, that if a thing is not useful
it cannot therefore be good. His
literary style incarnates this belief,
being so plain as to seem at times
almost austere. However, since
most of his manuscript he revised
with considerable care, such an ef-
fect of direct simplicity must have
best expressed his personality.
George Fox had written, ''Use plain-
ness of speech and plain words"—
to express a plain, simple devotion
to God. Woolman's words achieve
their classic beauty from their cal-
culated simplicity, not only of tone,
but of content. The organic blend-
ing of container with contained is
the source of his literary power,
best seen in excerpts from his Jour-
nal. Read aloud several times, his
first sentence sets the tone of belief
and inner peace:
I have often felt a motion of love to
lea^'e some hints of my experience of the
goodness of God; and pursuant thereto,
in the thirty-sixth year of my age, I begin
this work (Text, page 124).
After stating his place and date
of birth, he recalls an incident which
happened before his seventh birth-
day:
... as I went from school one Seventh
Day, I remember, while my companions
went to play by the way, I went forward
out of sight, and setting down I read the
twenty-second chapter of the Reveiation:
"He shewed me a pure river of water of
life, clear as crystal, proceeding out of the
throne of God and of the Lamb," etc.;
and in the reading of it my mind was
drawn to seek after that pure habitation
which I then belie\ed God had prepared
for His servants. The place where I sat
and the sweetness that attended my mind
remain fresh in my memory (Text, page
124).
Sometime after his ninth year an
event occurred which predicts his
later concern for kindness, both in
man's relations with his own kind
as in his treatment of animals:
... as I went to a neighbor's house,
I saw, on the way, a robin sitting on her
nest, and as I came near she went off but,
haxing young ones, flew about and with
many cries expressed her concern for
them. I stood and threw stones at her
till, one striking her, she fell down dead.
At first I was pleased with the exploit^
but after a few minutes was seized with
horror, as having in a sporti\e way killed
an innocent creature while she was careful
for her young. I beheld her lying dead,
and thought those young ones for which
she was so careful must now perish for
want of their dam to nourish them; and
after some painful consideration on the
subject, I climbed up the tree, took all
the young birds, and killed them, suppos-
ing that better than to leave them to pine
away and die miserably; and believed in
this case that Scripture proverb was ful-
filled: "The tender mercies of the wicked
are cruel." I then went on my errand,
but for some hours could think of little
else but the cruelties I had committed,
and was much troubled (Text, page 125).
Such simple and direct drama-
tization of his own tender experi-
ence, cast in pure and beautifully
cadenced prose, makes memorable
reading.
Growing older, he learned that
''true religion consisted in an inward
life, wherein the heart doth love
and reverence God the Creator, and
learns to exercise true justice and
goodness." Seeing God's presence
in visible nature, he felt "an awful-
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ness** cover him, followed by tender-
ness and universal love toward his
fellow creatures:
This will be understood by such who
have trodden in the same path. Some
glances of real beauty may be seen in
their faces who dwell in true meekness.
There is a harmony in the sound of that
voice to which Divine love gives utter-
ance, and some appearance of right order
in their temper and conduct whose pas-
sions are regulated; yet all these do not
fully show forth that inward life to such
as ha\'e not felt it, but this white stone
[Revelation 2:17] and new name is only
known rightly by such as receive it.
After defining those who wear
too costly apparel and who indulge
in "too liberal use of spirituous
liquors" as cases much to be pitied,
he sees luxuries as evils to be over-
come by using the self-discipline of
Christ:
Every degree of luxury hath some con-
nection with evil; for those who profess
to be disciples of Christ, and are looked
upon as leaders of the people, to have that
mind in them, which was also in Christ,
and so stand separate from every wrong
way, it is a means of help to the \^'eaker
.... I have felt an increasing care to at-
tend to that Holy Spirit which sets right
bonds to our desires, and leads those who
faithfully follow it, to apply all the gifts
of Divine Providence to the purpose for
which they were intended.
On his way to the Indians as a
solitary, self-appointed missionary
when word came that they had just
massacred some white men, he re-
fused to allow a companion to ac-
company him, and ''the Desire to
cherish the Spirit of Love and
Peace amongst these People arose
very fresh in me," he went on alone,
laboring among them for some
months. While on a mission to
England he died of the smallpox,
greatly loved and respected by all
who had known of his selfless, sin-
cere life.
Thoughts ioi Discussion
1. Why was Pennsylvania America's
first melting pot?
2. What do Quakerism and Puritanism
have in common? How do they differ?
3. To you what is most appealing in
William Penn's Fruits of Solitude?
4. What is the outstanding literary
quality of John Woolman's Journal?
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Social Science — Spiritual Living
in the Nuclear Age
Lesson 3— The Role of Emotional Maturity in Spiritual Living
Elder Blaine M. Porter
For Tuesday, January 26, i960
Objective: To analyze some of the factors influencing development of emotional
maturity and to develop an appreciation of the importance of emotional maturity in
living the fulness of the gospel.
The Poweiful Influence oi Home
'T^HE home is one of the most
powerful influences affecting
the development of emotional ma-
turity. President McKay once said:
In the homes of America are born the
children of America, and from them go
out into American life American men and
women. They go out with the stamp of
these homes upon them, and only as
these homes are what they should be,
will children be what they should be
(McKay, David O., Pathways to Happi-
ness, page 119).
The degree and quahty of emo-
tional maturity which are developed
in the home are closely related to
what is expressed in the behavior
of parents; for children identify very
closely with the feelings, attitudes,
and behavior patterns of their par-
ents. Emotional maturity, likewise,
is affected by the instruction which
children receive from their parents,
although what parents do undoubt-
edly influences their children more
than what they say.
Emotional maturity is influenced
by the way in which parents help
children face and solve problems,
develop skills in getting along with
people, accurately perceive the world
of reality, and objectively analyze
situations, find creative ways of
meeting new situations and develop-
ing flexibility and skill in meeting
and accepting change.
As was pointed out in last month's
lesson, there are many types of be-
havior which would be appropriate
during childhood which are com-
pletely inappropriate in adulthood.
During the early years, the home
plays a most significant role in de-
termining whether or not one is
helped to lay aside childish ways
of reacting and encouraged to de-
velop new and more mature ways of
behaving.
There are, of course, other forces
which affect maturity besides the
home. Many of these exert influ-
ences which are both good and bad.
There are economic forces that keep
some homes insecure. There are com-
munity forces that breed antagonism
and tensions between groups. There
are forces within some schools
which perpetuate various ignorances,
snobbishness, and emotional pro-
vincialism. Certain religious ele-
ments generate intolerance. Some
peer groups wield a great influence,
particularly during adolescence.
Such forms of mass media as radio,
television, magazines, and news-
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papers also make powerful influences
which come into the home. They
may be so powerful that individual
fathers and mothers, no matter how
mature they may be, may experience
real difficulty in trying to combat
them.
Influence oi Cultural Heritage
Another powerful influence in the
individual's development of emo-
tional maturity is his cultural herit-
age. Many of the practices of past
centuries and decades can be classi-
fied as evidences of social immaturity
rather than a lack of knowledge.
Consider, for example, such prac-
tices as the control of autopsies and
medical studies of the human body.
For many centuries those in the
field of medicine were not permit-
ted to treat an individual who was
sick unless he had permission from
the priest. Physicians were not per-
mitted to perform autopsies in
order to discover what had caused
death. Consider also the persecu-
tion of Galileo for having different
ideas, for putting forth some new
theories, most of which later on
were proved to be correct. In our
own American history, recall the
burning of witches at the stake. Per-
haps we could validly consider the
theory that cultures mature, too. If
we compare our modern culture
with the distant past, we see many
evidences of increasing maturity on
the part of cultures.
Manv of the contradictions of our
present culture are not only symp-
toms of immaturity, but they func-
tion so rigidly that they are forceful
perpetuators of these immaturities.
It is not easy, even at best, for the
individual to build sound knowl-
edge linkages with his world, and it
becomes e\en more difficult with
the inconsistencies and contradic-
tions which confront him. For
example, some parents send their
children to school and want them to
bring home grades they can view
with pride and at the same time talk
about the impracticabality of what is
learned in school, and admire peo-
ple less for \\hat they know than
for what thev own.
Professed Ideals vs. Actions
The modern society is one in
which the Sabbath day avowal of
the brotherhood of man is contra-
dicted by the weekday fight for his
own survival and enrichment; in
which political speakers repeat the
great phrases of Thomas Jefferson or
George Washington or Woodrow
Wilson — supposedly hones tlv be-
lieving them— and then make shady
political deals; in which the average
citizen expresses pride in the Ameri-
can Bill of Rights and then seeks to
protect his o\mi real estate by re-
strictive covenants. This, then, is
one view of the culture which pro-
duces our teachers, our parents,
administrators, school board mem-
bers, political leaders, presidents of
civic organizations, church leaders,
etc.
It is not surprising that in many of
our schools, students are insidiously led to
believe that the mature art of thinking
for themselves is dangerous. It is danger-
ous so far as tlieir own prospects are con-
eerned, at least, for who is going to want
to hire a person who is known to be "dif-
ferent" or "radieal" (Overstreet, Harry
A., The Mature Mind, pp. 248, 249, W.
W. Norton & Company, Inc., Publishers,
reprinted by permission).
Remember ^^hat happened to
the Savior, to Galileo, and to Joseph
LESSON DEPARTMENT
703
Smith? Their ideas were different
and radical in their day.
The Roh oi Emotional Maturity
The role of a mature adult living
in a nuclear age^ can never be one
of passive and uncritical acceptance.
It must be a role in which we par-
ticipate in creative and objective
evaluations of the many new forces^
alternatives, and decisions which we
surely must face. The mature adult
is one who thinks, meditates, values,
tries to foresee consequences, and is
actively confronting life and trying
to do what needs to be done to im-
prove life. The mature person is
not afraid of life, rather he actively
seeks to face it on as many fronts
as his capacities and limitations per-
mit. To live as an effective person
in our rapidly changing society of
today, the mature person must have
graduated from home and school
with an awareness of what will be
expected of him by society. He
should have successfully developed
from the stage of thinking, 'Tlease
help me,'' to "I can take care of my-
self," to 'Tlease let me help you."
Mature living must carry with it
the capacity to accept illness, disap-
pointment, and those things which
are beyond our control. It is as-
sociated with a sense of security, in
spite of the many doubts which
occur in a rapidly changing and
expanding world. If we are mature
we must accept responsibility for
our own acts, and not blame others
for our failures or assume credit for
success when we do not deserve it.
Results oi Maturity
There is an urgent need for ma-
ture leadership in our society and
communities. A mature person,
because he understands himself and
others, is better prepared to meet
the tasks of everyday living with
more confidence, and is, therefore,
more capable of wisely and intelli-
gently leading others.
Increasing emotional maturity
promotes and accompanies good
mental health. The individual who
acquires a sense of self-reliance be-
cause of the experienced conse-
quences of his own actions can
obtain great satisfaction in the
simple occasions of life and the
common experiences of men.
He does not have to rely on the
extraordinary, the unusual, or the
exotic. He searches for adequate
resolutions of more immediate prob-
lems, not for final answers; he wants
the respect of others, not their
praise, he wants their understanding,
not their adoration. He engages in
activities to satisfy himself through
his own participation in them, not
to impress others.
Results oi Immaturity
In contrast, the immature person
whose world is largely bolstered up
by the authority of others has built
his world upon sand. He has not
measured his own capacity of choice
in concrete situations; his value
judgments are not his own. He can
meet new situations only with blun-
dering or inappropriate reactions,
with scheming, with violence, or
with mounting frustrations due to
his own inactivity. The mature per-
son, however, has better mental
health because he has fewer fears
and anxieties and possesses a greater
sense of serenity and a functional
kind of peace of mind.
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Emotional maturity is essential
to the Latter-day Saint concept of
progression, for certainly this is one
of the ways in which eternal growth
and development have the potential
to occur. Many of the challenges
of the gospel of Jesus Christ require
the characteristics of an emotionally
mature person in order successfully
to accomplish them.
The following passages in The
Doctrine and Covenants emphasize
the importance of possessing emo-
tional maturity in order righteously
to administer the Priesthood:
Behold, there are many called, but few
are chosen. And why are they not chosen?
Because their hearts are set so much
upon the things of this world, and aspire
to the honors of men, that they do not
learn this one lesson —
That the rights of the priesthood are
inseparably connected with the powers
of heaven, and that the powers of heaven
cannot be controlled nor handled only
upon the principles of righteousness.
That they may be conferred upon us,
it is true; but when we undertake to cover
our sins, or to gratify our pride, our vain
ambition, or to exercise control or domin-
ion or compulsion upon the souls of the
children of men, in any degree of un-
righteousness, behold, the heavens with-
draw themselves; the Spirit of the Lord is
grieved; and when it is withdrawn. Amen
to the priesthood or the authority of that
man. . . .
We have learned by sad experience that
it is the nature and disposition of almost
all men, as soon as they get a little
authority, as they suppose, they will im-
mediately begin to exercise unrighteous
dominion.
Hence many are called, but few are
chosen (D & C 121:34-37, 39"4'^)'
These explanations of why many
are called but few are chosen de-
scribe symptoms of immaturity.
Such things as having ''. . . hearts . . .
set so much upon the things of this
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705
world . . ." (D & C 121:35) ^^^
". . . to cover our sins, or to gratify
our pride, our vain ambition, or to
exercise control or dominion or
compulsion upon the souls of the
children of men, in any degree of
unrighteousness . . ." (D & C
121:37) are all descriptions of im-
maturity.
Emotional maturity is likewise
essential in order for one to be ca-
pable of living such teachings as:
. . . Thou shalt love thy neighbor as
thyself (Mt. 19:19).
Love your enemies, bless them that
curse you, do good to them that hate
you, and pray for them which despitefully
use you, and persecute you (Mt. 5:44).
Be ye therefore perfect, even as your
Father which is in heaven is perfect
(Mt. 5:48).
. . . how oft shall my brother sin against
me, and I forgive him? till seven
times? . . .
Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto
thee. Until seven times: but Until seventy
times seven (Mt. 18:21-22).
Without enumerating further, let
us recognize that one cannot possess
the skill and ability genuinely to
love, forgive, be concerned about
the welfare and well-being of others,
etc., without being appropriately
mature for one's age. If we are to
live the teachings of Christ and be
prepared for leadership in our society
as well as in the kingdom of God,
it is important that we make a con-
certed effort toward increasing our
emotional maturity.
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tion, is achieved individually. No
one else can do it for us.
We cannot become mature all at
once. We advance toward it little
by little. Each step we take in this
direction will lead us and our fellow
men from a world in which there
is considerable chaos and confusion
because of the exploding horizons
around us towards a world which^
in spite of almost unbelievable ex-
pansion, will be characterized by
those elements which \^'ill make up
the kingdom of heaven on earth.
Thoughts for Discussion
1. Consider some of the specific in-
fluences which contribute to the develop-
ment of emotional maturity.
2. Consider some of the specific home
situations which hinder the development
of emotional maturity.
3. Discuss some of the specific ways in
which emotional maturity is essential to
the Latter-day Saint concept of progres-
sion.
4. It was suggested in the lesson that
emotional maturity is essential in order
for one to be capable of li\ing several of
the teachings of Jesus. List some other
teachings in addition to those which were
suggested in the lesson.
5. What are some of the things which
you might do to increase your le\cl of
emotional maturity?
6. What are some of the specific things
which yon might do within your home to
help other family members increase their
degree of emotional maturitv?
7. The lesson suggested that emotional
maturity is important in li\ing the ful-
ness of the gospel, \\niat is your opinion?
Be specific in defending your position.
Supplementary Refeiences
Evans, Richard L.: "The Courage to
Face Facts," The Improvement Ei^, Jan-
uary 1957, page 79.
Reinekt, Paul C: "Mature Minds in a
Mature America," National Parent-Teach-
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To recognize the screech of brakes
Or piercing sound of siren's wail.
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cJhe v(/atch
OlivQ Pea body
MY father's big gold watch
was one of the first objects
that became famiUar to all
of us as children. Every baby who
sat on Father's comfortable lap was
allowed the privilege of hearing the
watch tick and of running childish
hands across the shiny, gold-en-
graved surface of the outer cover.
Each one learned quickly that the
next treat was inside, and with ex-
citement would say, ''Open! See,
Mamma!"
A pleased smile always took form
around Father's mouth, and his in-
tense blue eyes softened as he
clicked open the cover in order to
THE WATCH
709
show the picture of her. The face
that smiled back at us belonged to
a beautiful girl of eighteen. She
wore a bow in her hair and one on
her dress, modifying the stiffness of
the high collar. It would never
make any difference what changes
time brought to this face, as the
watch ticked on in endless fashion,
Father would always see Mother as
she was in this picture that he
wore next to his heart.
It was odd, but as we grew older
the watch did not cease in impor-
tance to us. We learned from it in
turn — how to tell time, our Roman
numerals, a little about mechanism,
engraving, and jewels, punctuality,
unity, and the rates of speed.
Our nightly walks with Father
took us past the local jewelry store,
where we would pause while he
checked the accuracy of his time-
piece and wound it. After this
usual ritual, he would click the cov-
er shut and say, ''It is right by the
sun, moon, and stars and can tell
the price of wheat in Chicago."
When we were little, we didn't
understand this, but we accepted
the watch and anything in connec-
tion with it as a stabilizer in our
midst.
I7ATHER carried it until eleven
months past his seventy-first
birthday, when he passed away.
After that, the big heirloom was
always with Mother — by her bed at
night and in her purse when she
went out in the daytime. My broth-
er gave her an electric clock, but
she put it in the guest room.
Father's watch was her purveyor of
time — and we felt it was also a
comfort to her. She lived only a
short time after being separated
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from her life partner, but she kept
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Caroline Eyring Miner
I will turn home to mountain valley now
For I am mountain born, and the clear call
Has come from deep within, and I must bow
To it. rU take but little now of all
That here has cluttered up my restless days.
I will go back to quiet, simple things:
Primeval mountain peaks that hold a maze
Of stars aloft, and glass-clear streams; bird wings
That fan the purple mist against the glow
Of sunset fire; moon shimmering on the bay;
A quiet rustling of leaves. I know
That as I journey, someone points the way.
And this I know that it is God who leads
By trust, by faith, according to my needs.
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford ._._.-. President
Marianne C. Sharp ------ First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen --------- Second Counselor
Hulda Parker ------ Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Josie B. Bay Elna P. Haymond Elsa T. Peterson
Edith S. Elliott Christine H. Robinson Annie M. Ellsworth Irene B. Woodford
Florence J. Madsen Alberta H. Christensen Mary R. Young Fanny S. Kienitz
Leone G. Layton Mildred B. Eyring Mary V. Cameron Elizabeth B. Winters
Blanche B. Stoddard Charlotte A. Larsen Afton W. Hunt LaRue H. Rosell
Even W. Peterson Edith P. Backman Wealtha S. Mendenhall Jennie R. Scott
Aleme M. Young V/inniefred S. Pearle M. Olsen
Manwaring
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor -___-------- Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor _--___---- Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager - -^- - - - - - - - Belle S. Spafford
VOL 46 NOVEMBER 1959 NO. 11
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SPECIAL FEATURES
The Strength of Prayer Belle S. Spafford 716
"Study My Word" Marianne C. Sharp 721
Strengthening the Family Through Observance of the Sabbath Louise W. Madsen 724
Elizabeth Bennett Winters Appointed to the General Board of
Relief Society Edith S. EUiott 726
LaRue H. Resell Appointed to the General Board of
Relief Society Edith P. Backman 727
Jennie R. Scott Appointed to the General Board of
Relief Society Christine H. Robinson 728
Report and Official Instructions Belle S. Spafford 729
Fair or False Faces 740
A Message and an Answer 747
FICTION
The Shining Gift Rosa Lee Lloyd 741
The New Day — Chapter 2 Hazel K. Todd 752
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near end Far 714
Sixty Years Ago 736
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 737
Editorial: Thanksgiving Louise W. Madsen 738
Birthday Congratulations 784
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Diffusion Avonell S. Rappleye 739
Five Ways to Put "You" in Yuletide Barbara Williams 748
Selma Larson Spjut Makes Ski Sweaters and Crocheted Tablecloths 751
LESSONS FOR FEBRUARY
Theology — Lessons in Obedience Roy W. Doxey 757
Visiting Teacher Messages — "Wherefore, Hear My Voice" Christine H. Robinson 763
Work Meeting — Hobby Hazards Charlotte A. Larsen 764
Literature — Two Eighteenth Century Observers: Byrd and Crevecoeur Briant S. Jacobs 767
Social Science — The Individual and Religious Maturity — Part I Blaine M. Porter 775
POETRY
According to My Needs — Frontispiece Caroline E. Miner 713
Days - Grace Ingles Frost 735
Not Always Will They Come Elsie McKinnon Strachan 735
The Long Cold Maude Rubin 739
Mountain Climber Lula Walker 750
Frosty Verse Eva Miles Wangsgaard 751
Familiar Face Gwen Marler Barney 756
Cinf-Dwelling Mother Ruth H. Chadwick 756
Hope - Iris W. Schow 781
Free Gifts Alice Whitson Norton 782
The Little Musician Evelyn Fjeldsted 783
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The Strength of Prayer
Piesident Bdh S. SpaHoid
(Address Delivered at the Annual General Relief Society Conference,
October 7, 1959)
T is an inspiration and a responsi- These are important and glorious
bility to speak to a congregation purposes, and the programs and
of this size in this historic build- activities that have implemented
ing. It has been only a few years them through the years, have
more than a century since the brought untold blessings to the
Prophet Joseph Smith organized women of the Church and to our
the Rehef Society in Nauvoo, Father's children \vhere\er the So-
with eighteen charter members, ciety has functioned. Glorious,
Only prophetic vision could have however, as may be the purposes of
glimpsed the proportions to which Relief Societ}', lofty as may be its
the Society would grow. The group aspirations, great as may be the mag-
assembled here today represents but nitude of its accomplishments, Re-
a very small percentage of the Re- lief Society has not fully fulfilled its
lief Society membership. Today mission if its many activities do not
there are approximately 200,000 combine in making of its members,
women who call themselves Relief regardless of where they may be
Society sisters, and the strength and located or the circumstances under
influence of this body of righteous, which they may live, virtuous wom-
organized, Priesthood-directed wom- en and good wives, mothers, and
en, are reaching into the far corn- homemakers.
ers of the earth and are a power for I remind the sisters of the Church
good. that it is a fundamental duty of
It is of interest and significance Relief Society to help mothers to
that through the years the purposes have the proper concept of the
of the Society have remained eternahiess of the family relation-
constant. ''To manifest benevo- ship; to awaken in them high ideals
lence ... to care for the poor, the in their daily living; to inspire them
sick, and the unfortunate; to min- with the greatness and joy of their
ister where death reigns; to assist in mission as mothers and homemak-
correcting the morals and strength- ers; and, continually, to give unto
ening the virtues of community life; them constructive help in meeting
to raise human life to its highest the daily obligations of motherhood
level; to elevate and enlarge the and homemaking.
scope of women's activities and con- There are two important aspects
ditions; to foster love for religion, of motherhood and homemaking —
education, culture, and refinement; one is the physical, the other is the
to develop faith; to save souls; to spiritual. Both must receive atten-
study and teach the gospel" (Hand- tion in order to assure the comfort,
hook of Instructions of Relief So- peace, happiness, and eternal well-
ciety, page 8). being of family members. I think
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THE STRENGTH OF PRAYER
717
perhaps the physical aspects of our
homes have never seemed to en-
gage women more than they are do-
ing at the present time. A clean,
attractive, well-ordered home is
something toward which every
homemaker should strive. This
does not mean extravagance in ex-
penditures of money, but rather
thoughtfulness in planning, skill in
organizing, and wisdom in manag-
ing. The physical make-up of the
home has been said to play an im-
portant part in creating and en-
couraging the spiritual. In fact, we
are told by the Lord in The Doc-
trine and Covenants ''. . . all things
unto me are spiritual, and not at
any time have I given unto you a
law which was temporal . . ."
(D & C 29:34). It is a truth that
by her interest in the physical ap-
pearance of her home and through
the orderly arrangement and con-
duct of home activities, a mother
may make her sons and daughters
attach great importance to the
home.
Important as may be the so-called
physical aspects of the home, how-
ever, we must never lose sight of
the fact that the spirit of the home
is the lasting element. Its influ-
ence goes on long after the physical
is forgotten.
If mothers would have the spirit
of the home right, they must main-
tain homes in which the Spirit of
the Lord may dwell — homes that
daily meet the requirements of
righteousness. They must be obedi-
ent to the commandment of the
Lord to teach their children ''the
doctrine of repentance, faith in
Christ the Son of the living God,
and of baptism and the gift of the
Holy Ghost by the laying on of the
hands, when eight years old. . . .
And they shall also teach their chil-
dren to pray . . ." says The Doctrine
and Covenants (Section 68, verses
25, 28).
TT is my conviction that there is
perhaps no single factor more
important in the maintenance of a
spiritual home and in the building
of spiritual strength in our children,
than the teaching and practice of
prayer. Prayer is the medium
through which we offer supplica-
tion and thanksgiving for the bless-
ings bestowed upon us by the
Father. It is the means whereby
we confide in him the innermost
desires of our hearts and present to
him the needs of our li\'es as we
see them. It is the wav whereby
we seek his guidance and help.
President David O. McKay has giv-
en us this beautiful definition of
prayer: 'Traycr is the pulsation of
a yearning, loving heart in tune
with the Infinite. It is a message
of the soul sent directly to a loving
Father. The language is not mere
words, but spirit-vibration" (Path-
ways to Happiness, page 225).
In all generations of time men
have been admonished to pray. This
is not to satisfy the whims or de-
mands of an autocratic, imperious
God who would make his children
subservient unto him. Rather, it
is a choice privilege granted by a
kind and loving Father through
which his children may obtain
promised blessings. The Lord has
told us he will be sought unto by
his people for the blessings that
they need. He has further said:
''Ask, and it shall be given you; seek,
and ye shall find; knock, and it shall
be opened unto you. For every one
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that asketli receivetli; and he that
seeketh findeth; and to him that
knocketh, it shall be opened" (Luke
11:9-10).
Failure to comply with this com-
mandment has brought not alone a
withholding of blessings, but at
times severe chastisement, even to
God's chosen leaders. The brother
of Jared, a large and mighty man,
highly favored of the Lord, was vis-
ited by the Lord in the land of
Moriancumer, where his people had
dwelt for four years and, according
to the Book of Ether, the Lord
talked with him for three hours and
chastened him because he remem-
bered not to call upon the Lord
(Ether 2:14).
As to the manner of our praying,
the Lord has not left us in ignor-
ance. In Matthew we are told
"When ye prav, use not vain repeti-
tion, as the heathen do . . . for your
Father knoweth what things ye have
need of, before ye ask him" (Mt.
6:7-8). Also, we have been taught
the pattern of prayer in the simple,
brief, worshipful Lord's Prayer.
The scriptures further tell us that
our prayers shall ascend to our
Heavenly Father as from a holy
altar. In offering prayer, our hearts
must be right before him. As we
are humble, fervent, submissive,
yielding ourselves to the will of the
Lord, there is no danger but we
shall have his spirit to guide us and
our prayers will be heard and an-
swered by an all-wise Father for our
greatest ultimate good.
Nor do we need to wonder for
what we may properly pray, ques-
tioning in our own minds as to
whether we are justified in bringing
before the Father our everyday
temporal needs, as well as our spirit-
ual needs. Amulek, in his teach-
ings to his people, instructed them:
Cry unto him when ye are in your
field, yea, o\er all your flocks. Cry unto
him in your houses, yea, over all your
household, both morning, mid-day, and
evening. Yea, cry unto him against the
power of your enemies. Yea, cry unto
him against the devil, who is an enemy
to all righteousness. Cry unto him over
the crops of your fields, that ye may pros-
per in them. Cry over the flocks of your
fields, that they may increase. But this
is not all; ye must pour out your souls
in your closets, and your secret places,
and in your wilderness. Yea, and when
you do not cry unto the Lord, let your
hearts be full, drawn out in prayer unto
him continually for your welfare, and also
for the welfare of those who are around
you (Alma 34:20-27).
TN Hebrews, we read: ". . . he that
Cometh to God must believe that
he is, and that he is a rewarder of
them that diligently seek him"
(Hebrews 11:6).
Prayer, therefore, presupposes a
belief and faith in God. Faith in a
Supreme Being constitutes the very
foundation of all religious beliefs
and practices, and a knowledge of
the attributes and character of
Deity is essential to an intelligent
exercise of faith in him. Elder
James E. Talmage, in his book
Articles oi F^ith, declares: 'The
evidence upon which mankind rest
their conviction regarding the evi-
dence of a Supreme Being, may be
classified [as] ( 1 ) evidence of his-
tory and tradition; (2) . . . the ex-
ercise of human reason; (3) the
conclusive evidence of direct reve-
lation . . ." (Fourteenth Edition,
page 30).
Certainly, revelation gives us the
surest knowledge. In the present
dispensation, God has revealed him-
THE STRENGTH OF PRAYER
719
self to his people. The Prophet
Joseph Smith, while still a boy, in
answer to prayer, beheld the Eter-
nal Father and his Son, Jesus Christ.
This first vision was followed by
later manifestations. For example,
the manifestation in the Kirtland
Temple. The Prophet testified to
the world that God is a personal
being, possessing definite form, with
bodily parts and spiritual passions,
and that man is created in his im-
age-
''Nature is not God; and to mis-
take one for the other," says Elder
Talmage ''is to call the edifice the
architect, the fabric the designer,
the marble the sculptor, and the
thing the power that made it. . . .
Nature herself is a declaration of a
superior Being . . . [but] Beyond
and above nature stands nature's
God" (Ibid., page 34).
I sometimes wonder if, as Latter-
day Saint mothers, we frequently
enough contemplate what our
knowledge of the nature of God
means in our lives and the lives of
our children; how potently it af-
fects our prayers, and how great is
our responsibility to implant this
knowledge in the hearts and minds
of our children.
I recall being invited a few years
ago in New York City, to sit in with
representatives of other churches on
the reading of a script, from which
it was proposed that programs be
made for Nation-wide use on radio
and TV, designed to increase Sun-
day School attendance of children.
The opening scene of the script pre-
sented a majestic church building
set in a beautiful garden. As the
doors of the church slowly opened,
sacred music came forth, and the
music was God inviting the children
to enter the church. Then the
flowers spoke and they, too, were
God bidding the children to enjoy
the beauty of Sunday School. Last,
the singing birds called to the chil-
dren as God, urging them to hear
and love his voice. The entire pre-
sentation was beautifully written
and impressive. However, I felt I
could not endorse such a program.
I would not wish my children to
hear or to view it, since it would
give to them a faulty concept of
God as I know him, and as I knew
it would be vital for my children to
know him.
The present, accepted view of
the immateriality of God is entire-
ly at variance with the scripture and
contradicted by revelation. It must
not be allowed to enter into the
concepts of Latter-day Saint chil-
dren. Mothers must see to this.
TUST as we must teach our chil-
^ dren the true personality of God,
and that he is a kind and loving
Father, so also must we teach them
that he is omnipotent, unlimited in
power, ability, and authority, and
that they are accountable to him for
their every act. They must be
taught that they are in very deed
his children.
Too often today we hear parents
say, "Our lives are so complex. The
varied duties of family members,
with differing hours for performing
them, make it difficult, if not im-
possible, to bring family members
together at one and the same time.
Our work is driving us so that we
have not time for family prayer."
In a world beset with temptations
and the evils of designing men,
what mother with a sincere desire
for the right spirit to prevail in her
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home and a genuine concern for the
well-being of her children, would
not make every possible effort to
arrange a time for the family to
kneel together in prayer, asking the
Father for forgiveness of sins, with
peace and rest through the night,
and protection and preservation
from temptation through the day,
beseeching him for guidance in or-
dering their lives aright? An in-
scription on the motto scroll of the
coat of arms of Lady Reading,
a distinguished Englishwoman
whom it is mv privilege to know,
might well be applied with regard
to this. It reads: ''Not why we
can't, but how we can/'
An impressive quotation comes to
my mind relative to family prayer.
It reads:
All the duties of religion are eminently
solemn and venerable in the eyes of chil-
dren. But none will so strongly prove the
sincerity of the parent; none so powerfully
a\^•aken the reverence of the child; none
so happily recommend the instruction he
receives, as family devotions, particularly
those in which petitions for the children
occupy a distinguished place {The New
Dictionary of Thoughts, T. Dwight, page
487)-
Important as are our obligations
to family prayer, so also must we be
conscientious in teaching our chil-
dren, as individuals, to petition the
Father in prayer in the silence of
their own rooms for needed bless-
ings, and to acknowledge his good-
ness unto them.
Fortunate indeed is the child
whose mother, at times, kneels with
him in prayer to petition the Father
for help in meeting his little indi-
vidual problems which may appear
to him to be large and vexatious.
Shame, I say, on any Latter-day
Saint mother who puts her little
ones to bed at night without being
sure they have said a proper good-
night to their Father in heaven.
qpHROUGH the ages countless
honest and good men have
borne testimony as to the efficacy
of prayer. Abraham, Isaac, Jacob,
Moses, Noah, Peter, Paul, Lehi,
Enos, Alma, Amulek, to mention
but a few of earlier dispensations.
In this dispensation we have the
great testimony of the Prophet Jo-
seph Smith, as well as of the proph-
ets who have succeeded him, along
with those of countless other
righteous men and women. We
have the testimony of good men
and women not of our faith. There
is no testimony so convincing, how-
ever, as the testimony within our
own hearts. What mother among
us could deny the power and bless-
ing of prayer? Its fruits are too
great and too numerous to enumer-
ate at this time. Certainly we may
say prayer unites every heart within
the household. It brings compo-
sure to the home and peace to the
soul. It offers comfort and guid-
ance. It allays fears. It fortifies
against evil. Evil has always been
abroad upon the earth. The great-
est fortress against it and the strong-
est defense weapon one may possess,
has ever been and always will be
good character — character devel-
oped through continually seeking to
know and understand the will of
God, through daily communion
with him, and through obedience
to his counsel and commandments.
In the building of strong character,
one of mankind's most powerful
allies has always been prayer.
Brigham Young, early in the his-
THE STRENGTH OF PRAYER
721
tory of the Church, declared:
''Whether we are poor or rich, if
we neglect our prayers and our sac-
rament meetings, we neglect the
Spirit of the Lord, and a spirit of
darkness comes over us" (Discouis-
es oi Brigham Young, page 170).
What good mother would wish
her children to live in darkness? Let
her remember, then, that a person
does not, as a rule, suddenly become
a praying individual when he
reaches adolescence or maturity.
Prayer, born of faith, must be plant-
ed as a seed in infancy and carefully
nurtured through the years. The
mother is the person best positioned
to do this for her child.
In conclusion, may I read a few
lines, familiar to most of you, from
Alfred Lord Tennyson's Morte
d'Arthur.
More things are wrought by prayer
Than this world dreams of. Wherefore^
let thy voice
Rise like a fountain for me night and day.
For what are men better than sheep or
goats
That nourish a blind life within the brain.
If, kno^^•ing God, they lift not hands of
prayer
Both for themselves and those who call
them friend?
For so the whole round earth is every way
Bound by gold chains about the feet of
God.
In this age of mechanical won-
ders, when the material things of
life are absorbing the minds and
hearts of men, may our Latter-day
Saint mothers keep the spiritual bal-
ance and may this great God-given
organization for women help them
to do so.
; 4
Study My Word"
Counseloi Marianne C. Sharp
(Address Delivered at the Annual General Relief Society Conference,
October 7, 1959)
DO we ever stop to think of the
knowledge that would be left
to us as Latter-day Saints if
the scriptures were taken away? If
there were a catastrophe and our
copies of scripture were destroyed,
how much would remain in our
minds to serve as a guide to us
personally and as a reservoir of
knowledge by which we could guide
our children and strengthen family
ties? We may recall the importance
which the Lord placed upon the
Nephites having the Brass Plates by
the words which the spirit said to
Nephi: ''. . . It is better that one
man should perish than that a na-
tion should dwindle and perish in
unbelief" (I Nephi 4:13). And
Nephi then remembered the words
which the Lord had spoken to him
in the wilderness, that his seed
would prosper if they kept the
Lord's commandments. Nephi
writes in his record that he knew
they could not keep the command-
ments according to the law of Moses
unless they had the law, and the
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law was engraven upon the plates
of brass.
Today we do not live by the law
of Moses but by the law of the gos-
pel, and the Lord in his mercy has
provided us not only with the Old
Testament, but also with The Pearl
of Great Price, The Book of Mor-
mon, the New Testament, and The
Doctrine and Covenants. These
scriptures contain the law of the
gospel, and we need to study them
all for our salvation.
If we would gain individual sal-
vation we must not only read the
scriptures, but we must be obedient
to the Lord's commandment to
search the scriptures and to ''. . .
study my word . . ." (D & C ii :22).
Though \^'e may have all the scrip-
tures bound in our homes, . if they
are not studied, they are closed
books to us. I am sure we have all
realized that as we seek to study
the word of the Lord prayerfully,
our understanding may be suddenly
enlarged over a verse which we had
read many times previously. It has
been said that to learn to play a
piece of music one must learn and
forget it twice, but that the third
time one learns it, it will not be
forgotten. The need to study the
scriptures and not just read them
has been impressed on me as I have
read of the appearance of Moroni
to Joseph Smith on the night and
early morning of September 21 and
22, 1823. Not once, or twice, but
three times that night Moroni ap-
peared and rehearsed the same
scriptures with additional advice on
the second and third visits. The
next morning Moroni related for a
fourth time to the Prophet all that
he had related the night before and
commanded Joseph to tell his father
of the vision and commandments he
had received.
AS I see our obligation as mothers
in strengthening our families
through a study of the scriptures, it
falls into three parts. First, to
study so that we know the law of
the gospel by which we live today;
second, to apply the law in our own
lives and obey the commandments;
and third, to teach and train our
children both by the word and by
the living example. The law of the
gospel to parents instructs them to
teach their children '\ . . to walk
uprightly before the Lord" (D & C
68:28).
As mothers we are constantly
having to make decisions. I can
testify, as I am sure you can, that
through prayerful study of the scrip-
tures answers and solutions come to
us. I think of a woman whose hus-
band died painfully on the battle-
field. Words of scripture comforted
her. ''And it shall come to pass
that those that die in me shall not
taste of death, for it shall be sweet
unto them" (D & C 42:46). When
we suffer in righteousness, our own
misfortunes become dwarfed by the
patience Job manifested through his
sufferings and of his paean of
thankfulness and joy, 'Tor I know
that my redeemer liveth . . ." (Job
19:25).
If our suffering comes from un-
righteous conduct, the glories which
may be won through repentance are
exemplified in the life of Alma the
Younger. Whatever the trials and
tribulations we undergo in this
mortal life of testing, there would
seem to be a parallel in scripture
for our guidance. Paul has written
'Tor whatsoever things were writ-
"STUDY MY WORD'
723
ten aforetime were written for our
learning, that we through patience
and comfort of the scriptures might
have hope" (Romans 15:4). Of
course, the transcendent hope
comes from the study and con-
templation of the life and work of
the Savior, and seeking to do his
will.
A s we receive strength ,and under-
standing ourselves, we are better
able to train our children and
strengthen our families. A beauti-
ful example in scriptures is the train-
ing given to Paul's ''son in the
faith" Timothy. Paul writes to
him:
When I call to remembrance the un-
feigned faith that is in thee, which dwelt
first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy
mother Eunice; and I am persuaded that
in thee also (2 Timothy 1:5).
And later Paul wrote:
But continue thou in the things which
thou hast learned and hast been assured
of, knowing of whom thou hast learned
them;
And that from a child thou hast known
the holy scriptures, which are able to make
thee wise unto salvation through faith
\\ hich is in Christ Jesus.
All scripture is given by inspiration of
God, and is profitable for doctrine, for
reproof, for correction, for instruction in
righteousness:
That the man of God may be perfect,
throughly furnished unto all good works
(2 Timothy 3:i4-iy).
You will recall the faith of the
2,060 sons of Helaman who trusted
in the seemingly impossible, based
on their simple but unconquerable
faith. Of them Helaman wrote:
". . . yea, they had been taught by
their mothers, that if they did not
doubt, God would deliver them.
And they rehearsed unto me the
words of their mothers, saying: We
do not doubt our mothers knew it"
(Alma 56:47-48). Are we as moth-
ers of this last dispensation instill-
ing into our children a simple but
unconquerable faith? It is a ques-
tion each of us must answer for her-
self.
Let us ever remember, in con-
clusion, that all scripture is not
found bound within the volumes of
the four standard works of the
Church. We believe in continuous
revelation and that those scriptures
which come from our prophets to-
day "when moved upon by the Holy
Ghost shall be scripture, shall be
the will of the Lord, shall be the
mind of the Lord, shall be the word
of the Lord, shall be the voice of
the Lord, and the power of God
unto salvation" (D & C 68:4).
When the First Presidency issues
a statement, such as they did recent-
ly on keeping the Sabbath Day holy
— not only is it, in part, a restate-
ment of scripture given in earlier
dispensations, but it is the scripture
which inspiration directs us to obey
today. As mothers we have a keen
responsibility to accept current
scripture and teach obedience of it
to our children by word and
example.
My heart overflows with gratitude
to the Lord for the blessings which
are mine, as they are yours, to have
the scriptures which contain the law
of the gospel. May each sister in
the Church search the scriptures,
study the scriptures, and obey them,
and train her children to do like-
wise that family ties may be
strengthened to endure throughout
eternity.
Strengthening the Family Through
Observance of the Sabbath
Counselor Louise W. Maclsen
(Address Delivered at the Annual Relief Soeiety General Conference,
October 7, 1959)
IN these clays of lax observance of
the Sabbath, when the tempta-
tions to use it for our pleasure
are great, it is well to be reminded
that the Lord places great impor-
tance upon the proper observation
of the Sabbath, and that it has been
a law unto men from the begin-
ning. So great is the importance
that he, himself, established the pat-
tern of observance. In the history
of the creation, as recorded in Gen-
esis, we are told that he labored six
days, or periods of time, making the
heaven and earth, the sea and all
that in them is, and devoted the
seventh dav to rest.
Shortly after the children of
Israel were released from bondage
in Egypt, the Lord, in a great mani-
festation of his pov^er and glory,
gave to Moses the Ten Command-
ments, the fourth of which is, "Re-
member the sabbath day, to keep it
holy." The keeping of the Sabbath
was to be a sign throughout the
generations of Israel, that the peo-
ple continuously remembered that
it was the Lord who sanctified them,
through keeping his command-
ments. The Sabbath was to be a
perpetual covenant between the
Lord and the children of Israel.
''And the Lord spake unto Moses,
saying. Speak thou also unto the
children of Israel, saying. Verily my
Sabbaths ye shall keep: for it is a
sign between me and you through-
out your generations; that ye may
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know that I am the Lord that doth
sanctify you" (Ex. 31:12-13).
The Sabbath was instituted for
man's benefit. The most positive
and weighty reasons are recorded
throughout the scriptures for keep-
ing the Sabbath Day. That the
obligation is as binding upon Latter-
day Saints as it was upon their fa-
thers is made known in a revela-
tion to the Prophet Joseph Smith
appearing in The Doctrine and
Covenants:
And that thou mayest more fully keep
thyself unspotted from the world, thou
shalt go to the house of prayer and offer
up thy sacraments upon my holy day;
For verily this is a day appointed unto
you to rest from your labors, and to pay
thy devotions unto the Most High. . . .
But remember that on this, the Lord's
day, thou shalt offer thine oblations and
thy sacraments unto the Most High, con-
fessing thy sins unto thy brethren, and
before the Lord.
And on this day thou shalt do none
other thing, only let thy food be pre-
pared with singleness of heart that thy
fasting may be perfect, or, in other words,
that thy joy may be full (D & C 59:9-13).
Mothers must prepare their fami-
lies both physically and spiritually
for proper observance of the Sab-
bath. Certainly cleanliness and
order should characterize our homes
on Sunday, but the week days
should be used to bring them to
that state. The Lord allowed the
wandering children of Israel to
gather manna for six days, but on
the sixth day they were directed to
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725
gather enough for the Sabbath also.
With modern refrigerators and
stoves, careful planning will allow
for most of the food preparation to
be made on Saturday, with a mini-
mum of effort expended on Sunday.
As to the purchase of food and
wares on the Sabbath, we also ha\'e
a Biblical example of how the peo-
ple reacted to that pressure. At the
time of the Prophet Nehemiah they
covenanted, "And if the people of
the land bring ware or any victuals
on the sabbath dav to sell, that we
would not buv it of them on the
Sabbath, or on the holy day . . .
(Neh: 10:31).
/^F greater importance is the spirit-
ual preparation of a family to
observe the Sabbath. Parents should
exhibit a willingness to be exemplary
and to accept the restrictions on
activity on this day. The com-
mandment, however, is much more
than a negative "Thou shalt not do
any work." Its positive require-
ments of attending church, study-
ing the words of the Lord, doing
good, and being refreshed through
prayer and communion with spirit-
ual things should be met by family
members. Wise parents teach their
children in their tender years and
help them establish habits which
conform to proper Sabbath observ-
ance. They remain firm in their
refusal to allow pleasure seeking and
sports to change the spirit of the
day.
Righteous parents want the bless-
ings of the Lord for their children.
He has promised them great bless-
ings in this covenant:
If thou turn away thy foot from the
sabbath, from doing tli\' pleasure on my
holy day; and call the sabbath a delight,
the holy of the Lord, honourable; and
shalt honour him, not doing thine own
wa}s, nor finding thine own pleasure, nor
speaking thine own words:
Then shalt thou delight thyself in the
Lord; and I will eause thee to ride upon
the high places of the earth, and feed
thee with the heritage of Jacob thy fa-
ther: for the mouth of the Lord hath
spoken it (Isaiah 58:13, 14),
The Lord claims the Sabbath as
his clay: to take it for our pleasure
is to rob him of his own. This is
the very way in which the Sabbath
is generally broken; it is made a
day of carnal pleasure instead of
spiritual "delight."
While the Sabbath is to be a day
of rest, it is not a day of idleness.
Rest is not idleness, but is a change
from the usual occupations of every-
day life, and relief from its wearing,
troubling, disturbing elements. Rest
is refreshing; and rest on the Sab-
bath is activity of a spiritual nature
which enlarges and feeds the soul.
Going to the house of the Lord to
worship and learn the principles and
practices of his gospel makes it a
day of rejoicing and prayer.
To keep the sabbath in an idle manner
is the sabbath of oxen ... to pass it in
a jo\ial manner is the sabbath of the gold-
en calf when the people sat down to eat
and drink and rose again to play; to keep
it in surfeiting and wantonness is the sab-
bath of Satan (Commentar)- on iho, ^holt
BihJe, page 496) .
But to keep it as a day to be hon-
ored brings the assurance of the ful-
fillment of the glorious promises
the Lord has made.
Latter-day Saint families should
keep this covenant with the Lord.
Our present day Church leaders
give us wise counsel as to the bless-
ings of so doing. The sure knowl-
edge of the Lord's provisions and
blessings for this day must lead us
to "Remember the sabbath day, to
keep it holy."
iblizabetn ioennett viy inters Appointed to tru
(general ujoara of Lrieltef Society
Edith S. Elliott
Member, General Board of Relief Society
pLIZABETH Bennett Winters
was appointed a member of the
Relief Society General Board on
September 2, 1959. She was born
in Salt Lake City, Utah, to John
Foster and Rosetta Elizabeth Wal-
lace Bennett in the lovely Bennett
home on "D" street.
Early in her life Elizabeth was
taught to share. She used to ac-
company her father in the quiet of
night to leave supplies on the door-
steps of the needv. Her sweet spirit
is reflected in her cheerful counte-
nance, and her lovely eves are wells
of kindness and intelligence. She
truly exemplifies the Relief Society
motto ''Charity Never Faileth."
Sister Winters spent her Fresh-
man year at the Utah State Agri-
cultural College at Logan, but
returned home to complete her
studies at the University of Utah,
majoring in home economics and
graduating with honors.
In 1926 she was married in the
Salt Lake Temple to Elwood Grant
Winters. They are the parents of
six lovely children: Rosella (Mrs.
Nicholas Stolk), Richard Keith,
Jayne, Nell (Mrs. Noel C. Peek),
John Bennett, and Mary Ann.
Sister Winters began her Church
service in the Religion Class group
as a teacher. She has taught in or
officered several of the other aux-
iliaries. She was counselor in the
West Ensign Ward Relief Society
for eight vears. Here she learned
to love and appreciate the Relief
Society program.
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ELIZABEIII B. W INTERS
She is a practical sentimentalist,
putting first things first. She is
humble and has a devout testimony
of the gospel of our Savior. She
and her husband have made a prac-
tice of helping to maintain mission-
aries in their fields of labor, so that
the teachings and blessings of our
Heavenly Father may be spread.
In 1955 Elizabeth moved with
her family back to the home of her
parents to care tenderly for her in-
valid mother for two and one half
years before her death.
Elizabeth is well qualified for
her call to the General Board. She
is truly a queen in name, nature,
and performance.
jCa(Rue (71. [Rosell Jxppointed to the
Qeneral (Board of [Reuef Society
Edith P. Backnian
Member, General Board of Relief Society
T ARUE H. Rosell was appointed
to the General Board of Relief
Society, September 2, 1959. To
know Sister Rosell is to love her.
Her winning smile, charming per-
sonality, sincerity, humility, and
friendliness are but a few of her out-
standing attributes.
She is a native of Salt Lake, a
daughter of Nephi J. and Laura Free
Llansen. Her mother was active in
Relief Society work. Her father was
charitable, civic-minded, always
working for the welfare of the com-
munity, and was prominent in the
building up of Sugar House. He
helped lay out tracts of land to de-
velop that section of the city. He
was called "Mayor of Sugar House"
and a "Hansen Day" celebration
was held in his honor.
After graduating from the Uni-
versity of Utah, LaRue married
Sidney J. Nebeker in 1927. They
lived on a ranch near Bear Lake
for fifteen years. They had four
children: Sidney J., who received
his Master's Degree from Harvard;
Conrad, W'ho is studying medicine
at the University of Pennsylvania;
Mrs. Richard K. (Mary Janet)
Winters, mother of three children;
and David who is a student at the
University of Utah,
Sister Rosell became a widow in
1942. She and her children then
lived for three years in Logan with
the family of her brother-in-law,
President E. G. Peterson, on Col-
lege Hill. In 1946 she moved to
the Federal Heights Ward in Salt
Lake City, where she has main-
LARUE H. ROSELL
tained a beautiful, spiritual home
for her children.
She has served in both ward and
stake positions in Relief Society,
Primary, Sunday School, and has
been President of Emigration
M. L A. Stake Board and President
of her own ward M. L A.
In 1954 she was married to Carl
H. Rosell, a prominent business
man whose activities in the Church
have been outstanding. When Sis-
ter Rosell received her call to the
General Board, she and her hus-
band had just completed two years
service as stake missionaries.
Her many experiences with the
youth of the Church, her exception-
al executive ability, humility, and
sincere testimony will contribute
added strength to the General
Board.
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y^eniue LKandail Scott ^jippointed to the
(general iJjoara of iKetief Society
Christine H. Robinson
Member, General Board of Relief Society
TENNIE Randall Scott was ap-
^ pointed to the General Board of
Relief Society, September 2, 1959.
She comes to her new position with
a rich background of service, knowl-
edge and ability.
One of Sister Scott's favorite quo-
tations is found in Joshua 1 19,
where it is written:
"Be strong, and of a good cour-
age; be not afraid, neither be thou
disma^^ed: for the Lord thy God is
with thee whithersoever thou go-
est."
Born and reared in a home of
devoted Latter-day Saints who gave
a lifetime of service to the Church,
Sister Scott began her Church activ-
ities as a young girl of fourteen. At
the age of nineteen she was selected
as a member of the Ogden Stake
Sunday School board. She was teacher. She was an inspirational
called as a missionary to the West- teacher of theology for fifteen years,
ern States Mission. It was here president of a ward Relief Society,
that she met her future husband and president of Portland Stake Re-
George L. Scott. They were mar- lief Society from December 1954 to
ried in the Salt Lake Temple. February 1959 when she and her
Soon after their marriage. Brother husband moved to Bountiful, Utah,
and Sister Scott moved to the West Brother and Sister Scott are the
Coast. Later they moved to Port- parents of three children, all of
JENNIE R. SCOTT
land, Oregon, where Brother Scott
served as President of the Portland
Stake for over fifteen years. Dur-
ing this time Sister Scott worked
cheerfully by his side. Besides help-
whom are college graduates, and all
of whom were married in the tem-
ple. They have presented the
Scotts with six lovely grandchildren.
As counseled by Joshua, Sister
ing and encouraging her husband in Jennie Randall Scott is strong.
his work, she occupied many posi-
tions of responsibility and trust in
the Sunday School, the Mutual Im-
provement Association, and in the
Relief Society.
As a Relief Society worker Sister
Scott was an outstanding visiting
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courageous, humble, but undis-
mayed in her new assignment. With
her firm faith, her strong testimony
of the gospel, and her great capacity
and willingness to work, surely the
Lord will be with her whitherso-
ever she goeth.
Report and Official Instructions
President Belle S. Spafford
(Condensed from the text given at the Officers Meeting of the Annual General
Relief Society Conference, October j, 1959)
A regular feature of this session
of the Annual General Relief
Society Conference is the
presentation of a brief report of the
status of Relief Society, together
with a few new General Board in-
structions.
Relief Society is growing in num-
bers, scope, and influence. The
leadership is consistently good, and
the quality of work being done is
creditable.
General Board
Since our last General Confer-
ence, the General Board has been
augmented by the appointment of
four new members: Sister Fanny
Steenblik Kienitz, Uniyersity Stake;
Sister Elizabeth Bennett Winters,
Ensign Stake; Sister LaRue Hansen
Nebeker Rosell, Emigration Stake;
and Sister Jennie Randall Scott,
who has recently mo\ed from Port-
land Stake into Bountiful Stake.
Organizations and ReoTg^tnizations
At the close of 1958, there were
270 stake Relief Society organiza-
tions, an increase of twenty-two oyer
the previous year. There was a total
of 4,321 ward and branch Relief
Societies, an increase of 188. There
were forty-six mission organizations,
an increase of one over 1957.
During 1958 there were forty-
seven reorganizations in the stakes,
and sixteen in the missions.
Membership
There was an increase in Relief
Society membership during 1958 of
10,117, making a total membership
of 193,553. Our Church -wide po-
tential membership is estimated to
be 387,238, based on the number of
Latter-day Saint families reported
in the 1958 annual reports. Using
our estimated potential as a basis,
we are reaching only fifty per cent
of the sisters whom we should be
reaching.
Today we are living in a complex
and changing period of time. Wom-
en need to realize that in a world
sorely in need of stabilizing influ-
ences, they have a responsibility to
be active in building the kingdom
of God. Relief Society membership
will be a strength to them.
Attendance
We note a slight increase in
average attendance at meetings, it
being 37.9% for 1958 as against
36.7% for 1957. We suggest that
you urge ward I^elief Society presi-
dents to be cognizant of attendance
records of every Relief Society mem-
ber, and that they exert special
effort to increase attendance records
by bringing into activity every wom-
an who has no valid reason for non-
attendance.
Missions
It is gratifying to read reports of
the work of Relief Society in the
missions of the Church. While
some missions lost to stakes some
of their strongest societies, still rec-
ords are excellent, and the apprecia-
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tion shown by the sisters for their
Rehef Society membership is im-
pressive.
Compassionate Service
We are encouraged by the way in
which Rehef Societies in both
stakes and missions are meeting
their responsibihties to persons in
distress.
Experiences we have had recently,
convince us that devotion to our
assignment to render compassionate
service is as ahve and strong in
Rehef Society today as at any time
in its history. Figures from the an-
nual report also tell an impressive
story of accomplishment. During
1958 there were 293,876 visits made
to the sick and homebound, almost
18,500 more than the previous year.
There was an actual increase over
1957 of 6,718 eight-hour days bed-
side nursing care. This is the high-
est record yet achieved by Relief
Society in this important area of
service.
Hours oi Other
Compassionate Service
In the new Ward Record Book,
which goes into effect January i960,
for a three-year period, in addition
to recording "Visits to the Sick and
Homebound"; "Days Care of the
Sick"; and "Assistance at Time of
Funerals"; space is allowed under
the heading "Hours of Other Com-
passionate Service" to record the
number of hours spent by the sisters
in rendering other types of compas-
sionate service upon assignment or
with the approval of the Relief So-
ciety president. This would in-
clude hours spent in such services as
caring for children during the period
a mother is confined to the hospital,
time spent in assisting with house-
keeping during the illness of a
mother, time spent in bathing an
aged sister, or in accompanying a
sister to the doctor's office or hos-
pital, or similar services. Time spent
in one's home preparatory to ren-
dering a small service, such as the
time spent in preparing an article
of food, would not be included.
The wise judgment of the ward Re-
lief Society president will determine
what is to be included under the
new heading.
Church Welfare
Relief Society continues to lend
support to the Church Welfare
Program. During 1958 there was a
total of 477,896 hours contributed
by the sisters to the Church Wel-
fare Program upon assignment of
Relief Society, an increase over 1957
of 133,713 hours.
Counting Hours on
Welfare Projects
The ruling for counting the num-
ber of hours contributed by the
sisters to the Church Welfare Pro-
gram will be based on the following
ruling:
In reporting the number of hours of
welfare ser\ice for both Rehef Soeiet}' and
Church \\^elfare records, the number of
hours of work contributed by all females
on any project the end result of which is
for the benefit of the Church Welfare
Program, should be included. This ruling
holds whether the assignment be gi\en
by Relief Society, other Church auxiliaries,
or the Priesthood. The time contributed
by sisters receiving welfare assistance is
to be counted. (Scr\'ice gi\en by mem-
bers of the Relief Society presidency in the
performance of their regularly assigned
duties in the \\'clfare Program, such as
attendance at welfare meetings, home vis-
its by the Relief Society president, the
recruitment of ^^■omen for work on the
projects bv the work director counselor,
and the time spent b}- the employment
REPORT AND OFFICIAL INSTRUCTIONS
731
counselor in placing females in employ-
ment, are not to be counted. Also time
spent by the secretary-treasurer in record-
ing welfare service would not be counted.)
Recording Number of Women
Assisting on Welfare Projects
It is desired that every Relief
Society sister, whose eircumstances
permit, will be given opportunity to
participate in one or more welfare
projects. In the new qdition of the
Ward Record Book, space is pro-
vided for recording the number of
Relief Society members who assist
on these projects during the calen-
dar year. When the service is given
once, the work director counselor
will give the information to the sec-
retary-treasurer and a check will be
placed on the Relief Society roll
opposite the name of the participat-
ing sister. This record will be of
value in equalizing assignments.
Relief Society Handbook
for Welfare
The Relief Society Handbook for
Welfare recently has been carefully
reviewed. In the new edition,
which is to be published this com-
ing season, the basic instructions
remain the same as in the edition
presently in use. There will be,
however, some difference in the way
the instructions are set up. This
has been done merely for conveni-
ence and clarity in reading. "The
Food Guide" remains the same, as
does the table ''Standard Measures
of Food." Therefore, those who
have copies of the present edition
will have no need to obtain a copy
of the new edition. We urge a
careful study of it bv Relief Society
presidents, inasmuch as it gives
guidance in one of our most im-
portant welfare services.
Welfare Summary Sheet
The use of the ''Welfare Sum-
mary Sheet," heretofore included in
Tlie Relief Society Handbook for
Welfare, has been discontinued,
since the information called for on
the form will hereafter be tabulated
monthly in the Ward Record Book,
under the heading "Summary of
Welfare Ser\ices," with the infor-
mation being given to the secretary-
treasurer monthly by the Relief
Society president and the work
director counselor respectively.
Bi-Monthly Welfare Meetings
Requests are frequently made by
stake Relief Society presidents for
suggestions as to what might proper-
ly be taken up in the Relief Society
departmental sessions of the bi-
monthly welfare meetings. At best,
we can give you only a few general
suggestions, since the agenda for
each of the individual departmental
sessions in a regional bi-monthly
welfare meeting is made up in con-
sultation with, and at the direction
of the executive committee of the
regional council in the regional
planning meeting held prior to the
bi-monthly meeting. In the case of
stakes outside regions, the agenda
is taken up with the stake president
at the stake welfare meeting held
prior to the regular bi-monthly stake
welfare meeting.
Speaking in general terms, any
matters related to Relief Society's
effective participation in the Church
Welfare might be included in the
agenda, such as a study of the
Church Welfare Handbook, The
Relief Society Handbook for Wel-
fare, the "Clothing Bulletin," offi-
cial bulletins and circular letters
issued bv the Church Welfare Com-
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mittee, or record keeping as it
relates to Relief Society's participa-
tion in the Welfare Program. It
would be appropriate to consider
such matters as how to interest the
sisters in contributing time and
labor to the Program. A discussion
of effective procedures in producing
clothing which meets Church stand-
ards in style and workmanship might
be advisable, or effective procedures
in meeting the requirements of the
employment program. Profitable
discussions often center around
proper procedures in making a fam-
ily visit. Under no circumstances
would Relief Society work other
than welfare be taken up in these
meetings.
Visiting Teaching
It is gratifying to note the increas-
ing strength of the visiting teach-
ing program. There were 81,988
visiting teachers, constituting 42.3%
or nearly half of the Relief Society
membership, who made a total of
3,349,802 visits, or an average of
8.6% visits to each Latter-day Saint
family. There were approximately
225,000 more visits made in 1958
than during the previous year. This
is commendable and extremely im-
portant in view of the significance
of visiting teaching in the well-being
of Latter-day Saint families and in
the strength and accomplishments
of Relief Society.
In the new edition of the Visit-
ing Teacher Report Book which
goes into use January i960, there
have been included only instructions
directed to visiting teachers in the
performance of their calling.
A new feature of the Visiting
Teacher Report Book is the inclu-
sion in the center of the book of
detachable slips to be used as a
notice of the visit. These detach-
able slips will replace the ''Notice
of Visit" slips formerly issued in pad
form.
Visiting Teaching Film :
''Unto the Least of These'
We are pleased to announce that
a visiting teaching film entitled
''Unto the Least of These" has been
prepared for use in the stakes of
the Church. It will also be avail-
able for v/ard showings; however,
showing on a stake basis will be giv-
en preference. The story is the work
of Sister Christine H. Robinson, a
member of the General Board, who
is also the writer of the Visiting
Teacher Messages, "Truths to
Live By," and who has a deep un-
derstanding of the purposes and
value of visiting teaching. The film
has been produced with a talented
cast by skilled technicians of the
Brigham Young University Audio-
Visual Aids Department, under the
capable direction of Mr. Wetzel O.
Whitaker. Music included in the
film is a composition of Sister Flor-
ence Jepperson Madsen, member of
the General Board, rendered by a
combined chorus of Singing Moth-
ers from the Southern California
stakes. The film — a 16 mm. — is
available to rent for $10 postpaid,
per showing, through writing the
Deseret Book Company, 44 East
South Temple, Salt Lake City,
Utah. We suggest that reserva-
tions for the use of the film be
made well in advance of the date
planned for its showing.
Education Program
The educational courses of Relief
Society offer excellent learning op-
portunities for Relief Society mem-
REPORT AND OFFICIAL INSTRUCTIONS 733
bers in religious, cultural, and social Work Meeting
aspects of living; they also make a It is of interest to note in the
primary contribution to the quality annual report that the work meet-
of the regular weekly meetings, ing continues to be the second best
There was at the close of 1958, a attended meeting, preceded only by
total of 16,064 class leaders teach- the theology meeting. We urge
ing the lessons, an increase of 999 that }0u keep these meetings of
(almost 1,000) over 1957. During value to the sisters by planning pro-
the forthcoming educational season, grams of practical use to them in
the theology department will con- their homemaking. The meeting
tinue for the third consecutive year is properly titled 'The Work
a study of The Doctrine and Cove- Meeting" having to do with home-
nants; the visiting teacher messages making, which is dignified and
'Truths to Live By" continue to important work. Since sisters are
be taken from The Doctrine and given work to do during the meet-
Covenants; and the literature de- ing, care must be exercised to pre-
partment enters into its second serve an orderly, yet happy, informal,
year's study of ''American Litera- social atmosphere. The home man-
ture — A New Nation Speaks." The agement discussions for 1959-60 are
social science department offers a on 'Thysical Safety Factors in the
new course "Spiritual Living in the Home."
Nuclear Age" designed "to consider A request has been made for a
ways in which we can increase our clarification of the recommendation
emotional and religious maturity of the General Board regarding the
and develop the personal character- holding of socials and outings as
istics which will enable us more work meetings during the summer
fully to live the abundant life as months. The General Board has
prescribed by Christ." always regarded social activities as
an integral part of the program of
Audio-Visual Aids for Literature Relief Society, and the promotion
and Social Science Courses of the social well-being of the sisters
The Brigham Young University as a function of the work meeting.
Audio-Visual Aids Department, Therefore, summer outings, and so-
working under the direction of the cials or luncheons, even when held
General Board's literature and social in places other than the meeting-
science committees respectively, has house, if arranged under the direc-
prepared for distribution to Relief tion of the Relief Society president,
Societies, upon order, a kit for each and open to the general member-
of these two departments, contain- ship, and conducted in conformity
ing pictures suitable for use in the with regulations set down by the
wards in presenting the lessons. The General Board for the conduct of
literature kit will sell for $3.75 post- work meetings, may be regarded as
paid; the social science kit will sell work meetings. This would take
for $3.50 postpaid. (The General into account such regulations as
Board does not have these for sale, prayer, either prior to leaving for
Please order direct from the Brig- the function or sometime during the
ham Young University Audio-Visual activity, a recording on the roll of
Aids Department.) those in attendance, the recording
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— NOVEMBER 1959
of minutes, and the financing of the
activity in hne with established
policies. This statement is not in-
tended to imply that summer meet-
ings should be exclusively, or even
preferablv, outings or socials.
Whether this type meeting is held
rests with the ward Relief Society
presidency, with the decision based
on circumstances and the interests
and needs of Relief Society mem-
bers within the ward.
Number of Non-Sewed Articles to
Be Reeoided in Ward Reeoid Book
In the new edition of the Ward
Reeord Book in the minutes of the
monthly work meeting, space is pro-
vided for recording the total num-
ber of non-sewed as well as complet-
ed articles made at the direction or
under the supervision oi ReUei So-
ciety, whether they are completed
at home or at work meeting, and
whether or not they are for the
individuals themselves. Included as
non-sewed articles would be articles
upon which textile painting, cro-
cheting, tatting, knitting, or netting
has been done and on which there
is no sewing. Handicraft articles,
such as flowers, aluminum trays,
leather work, table arrangements,
Christmas decorations, and similar
items also would be counted as non-
sewed articles.
Magazine
We express appreciation to presi-
dents and Magazine representatives
for their efforts in behalf of the
Magazine. At the close of 1958,
the paid subscription list totaled
154,057, an increase of 4,827 over
1957. In 1958 there were sixteen
missions and 597 districts and
branches listed on the Honor Roll.
There were 237 stakes out of a pos-
sible 270 with 1918 ward organiza-
tions listed on the Honor Roll.
Singing Mothers
Our Singing Mothers choruses
continue to grow in number and
their beautiful singing wins high
commendation everywhere. At the
close of 1958 there was a total of
2,564 wards and branches with
Singing Mothers choruses, an in-
crease over 1957 ^^ ^^^ choruses.
There were 38,896 singers par-
ticipating in the choruses, an
increase over the previous year of ap-
proximately 3,000 singers. This is
a gratifying record of a unique and
cultural program.
"Union Meeting' Name Changed
to "Stake Rehef Society
Leadership Meeting'
You will be interested to know
that hereafter, by action of the Gen-
eral Board, the meeting presently
referred to as the ''Union Meeting"
will be designated as the ''Stake Re-
lief Society Leadership Meeting."
Ward Ofticers and Class Leaders
Meeting Estahlished; Ward Prepara-
tion Meeting Discontinued
We also announce that by recent
action of the General Board, the
ward preparation meeting, hereto-
fore recommended, now will be
discontinued. In its stead, ward Re-
lief Societies will hold, periodically,
a ward officers and class leaders
meeting as needed. The frequency
of holding such a meeting will be
determined by the ward presidency.
The General Board suggests that
perhaps two such meetings a year
would be advisable — one just prior
REPORT AND OFFICIAL INSTRUCTIONS
to or soon after the opening of Re-
lief Society in October for the edu-
cational year; and a second early in
the new year after the compilation
of the annual report. The purpose
of this meeting will be to consider
matters of common concern to of-
ficers and class leaders, to keep the
group united in support of pro-
735
grams which affect the Society as a
whole, and to promote generally the
well-being of the Society.
May we continue to be faithful
and may the Society continue to go
forward in a manner pleasing to
those who preside over us and to
our Heavenly Father, I sincerely
pray.
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Gnice Ingles Frost
That day is lost,
In which no song is sung. . . .
No kind word spoken,
And no good deed done.
The day that hanests
Bounteous happiness
Is one in which
Were sown those seeds that bless.
I lot J^/ways Vi/Lll cJneii L^orne
Elsie McKinnon Stiachan
Not always will they run to me
With httle hurts, with need of praise.
Not always will they come — but you.
Oh, keep a need for me always!
When time discards these nimble hours,
These nursemaid-playmate roles I fill.
When our small girls are women tall.
Stay close, my darling, need me still.
Need my affection, need my care.
In all the things you plan and do,
WHien, once again, my daily world
Revolves round you.
Sixtif LJears ^/igo
Excerpts From the Wom^ins Exponent, November i, and November 15, 1899
"For the Rights of the W^omen of Zion and the Rights of the
Women of All Nations"
FROM SUMMER LAND: We drive for miles and miles and see nothing but
orange, lemon, fig, prune, pomegranates and all kinds of useful trees, as well as every
kind of fancy tree that is supposed to grow in a country where it is summer all the
year around ... it having been the dream of my life to spend a winter in Southern
California, you can imagine what it is for me to read of the cold weather elsewhere,
then turn, first to the quantities of roses that my friends provide me with, and then
look out and see the orange trees laden with green fruits, and at the same time see
the spring making its appearance in the lilac buds. . . .
— (Mrs.) L, S. Dickinson
Ontario, California
RELIEF SOCIETY IN OMAHA, NEBRASKA: We have a fine time when
we meet, and lovely meetings. I do not feel that I make the best president, but I try
to do the best I can and ask our Father in heaven to help me in my labors. We dearly
€K>joy meeting when the Saints are together. ... I know we have the true Gospel,
and I am glad I have receixed this knowledge and wish every one could see it as
plainly as I do. I am much pleased with the dear little paper, the Exponent. I read
everything in it, and then wish there were more to read.
— Addie S. Stone, Pres.
MOTHERHOOD
Motherhood: Seeing with her clear, kind eyes,
Luminous, tender eyes, wherein the smile
Is like the smile of sunlight on the sea.
That the new children of the newer day
Need more than any single heart can give,
More than is known to any single mind.
More than is found in any single house,
And need it from the day they see the light. . . .
— Charlotte Perkins Stetson
VISIT TO A GREAT NOVELIST, MARIE CORELLI, AT HALLE CROFTE,
ENGLAND: The house is quaint; there are three gables front and everything betok-
ens peculiarity. The great beams overhead in the entrance room are lettered. . . .
The house was formerly the home of Dr. John Hall, who married Susanna, the elder
daughter of Shakespeare. It is very sweet to be so warmly received by a great author
when one is far from home and totally unknown except by name, as was the writer.
She (Marie Corelli) came forward to meet her caller with all the grace of a real
Duchess, and was as elegantly dressed. She wore heavy white silk with a profusion
of white lace, and jewels that were dazzling. . , . We talked freely of books and places.
. . . She sent for . . . refreshments, and served them herself in the daintiest fashion in
the finest Sevres china and silver service. . . . she said "O, now, Mrs. Wells, you must
have my two books I am busy writing now. . , ."
—Mrs. E. B. Wells
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Woman's Sphere
Rainona W. Cannon
AJINA KRUSCHEV accompanied
her husband Nikita Kruschev,
Russian Premier, on his visit to the
United States in September. Also
making the trip were the daughters
of Kruschev by a former marriage,
Rada and Yuha.
'PHE Women's Bureau of the De-
partment of Labor, after a care-
ful exploring of the problem, has
published a booklet, Future Jobs
ioT High School Girls. This lists
employment opportunities in thirty
different fields for girls who wish to
go to work immediately upon com-
pleting high school. The booklets
cost forty cents each and may be
ordered from the Superintendent of
Documents, United States Govern-
ment Printing Office, Washington
17, D. C.
lyfRS. L. H. (Elizabeth Fetzer)
BATES, of Salt Lake City,
Utah, who became blind through
an accident eight years ago, is a
musician who wanted to continue
composing for sighted people as
well as for the blind — in braille
notation, which she mastered along
with braille lettering. She decided
music could be written on a type-
writer and designed a code that
makes it possible for people who
see to read music so written.
pRINCESS BEATRIX, twenty-^
one-year-old heir-apparent to the
throne of the Netherlands, received
a royal welcome upon her arrival in
New York, September 10. The
Princess is a student at the Univer-
sity of Leyden. Eldest daughter of
Queen Juliana and Prince Bernhard,.
she made her visit to New York
particularly as a climax to the year-
long celebration commemorating
the exploration of the Hudson Riv-
er by Henry Hudson (in September
1609).
OALIMA EMBARAK ANEGAY
is the first woman diplomat tO'
represent her country abroad. She
arrived in Washington D. C. in
July 1959 to serve as cultural at-
tache in the Moroccan Embassy.
The twenty-five-year-old widow
holds a Bachelor's Degree from the
University of Cairo and has attend-
ed schools in Casablanca, Cairo,,
and Madrid. She speaks English,
Spanish, and French, in addition to
her native Arabic.
T ELAND LOVELACE of Chand-
ler, Arizona, is the author of
Lost Mines and Hidden Treasures,
an authoritative account of both
facts and legends bearing upon a
colorful phase of Arizona history.
Parts of her book have been pur-
chased for television use.
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 46
NOVEMBER 1959
NO. 11
cJhanRsgiving
npO Latter-day Saints the cele-
bration of Thanksgiving is a
tradition rooted deep in the past.
We remember with joy the coming
of the Pilgrim Fathers to this land
''choice above all other lands,"
knowing full well that they were
led by the hand of the Lord.
Despite the lean harvest of the
summer of 1621 and the difficulties
of their lives, Governor Bradford
decreed a day of thanksgiving and
rejoicing after the harvest had been
gathered in, to thank God for their
survival and to praise him for the
mercies of the year past. This ex-
ample of faith spread to other col-
onies in New England. During the
Revolutionary War Gongress fre-
quently recommended days of
thanksgiving and prayer. At its close
many states adopted the custom of
an annual day of thanksgiving.
There was, however, no national
observance until the persistent cam-
paigning of Mrs. Sarah Josepha Hale
won President Lincoln's support
and he appointed, in 1863, "a day
for national thanksgiving, praise and
prayer." The holiday has long been
celebrated in Ganada, and many
other nations have annual days of
prayer and thanksgiving.
America was not the first to pro-
claim such a day. Ancient Israel
observed one of the oldest thanks-
giving celebrations, the "Feast of
the Tabernacles." The Lord in-
structed Moses to have the families
of Israel gather together in holy
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convocation ". . . when ye have
gathered in the fruit of the land."
The families assembled in the open
air and constructed booths of
''boughs of goodly trees, branches
of palm trees, and the boughs of
thick trees, and willows of the
brook." Here they would "keep it
a feast unto the Lord," after per-
forming certain religious rites and
with prayers of thanksgiving. (See
Leviticus 23:39-41.)
There are several aspects of these
traditional celebrations that should
be part of our observance of Thanks-
giving. The first, is that Thanksgiv-
ing is essentially a religious holiday,
the proper celebration of which
should include voicing of grateful
acknowledgment and recognition of
the hand of Providence. The sec-
ond, is that it is a day of feastmg to
celebrate the rich blessings of a
bounteous harvest. And the third,
is that it is a day of gathering to-
gether. Some people may ignore
the spiritual aspect and use the day
for recreation; some may gather to-
gether with relatives for feasting
and visiting; but Latter-day Saints
should keep the day in a manner
pleasing to the Lord, in apprecia-
tion of its full meaning.
How can we be worthy of bless-
ings unless we show gratitude?
Gratitude is a virtue lauded by the
prophets of all ages, a quality of
character to be taught and sought
and cultivated. Ingratitude is a sin.
"Thou shalt thank the Lord thy
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739
God in all things" (D & C 59:7).
We must learn to be thankful in
adversity as well as in prosperity; to
praise God in sorrow as well as in
joy. The truly humble and sincere
never approach the Lord to ask for
a blessing without pouring out their
hearts in thankfulness for the bless-
ings that are already theirs.
Thanksgiving is a family gather-
ing day; one in which the traditions
of the Nation and the traditions of
the family may be observed. The
Lord has indicated that he is pleased
when families gather together in
the spirit of worship. A family who
lovingly obser\'es the traditions of
its fathers enjoys an enduring re-
lationship. To create or maintain
a family tradition is to forge a link
in a chain binding the members in
a closeness of spirit that holds even
though they are miles or continents
apart. Many of these special family
remembrances are connected with
Thanksgiving Day.
-L. W. M.
cJhe JLong (^old
Maude Ruhin
Now the white-winged ship had left. . . .
Bereft
Of home and things beloved, they faced the new;
Tried not to let old longings stir their hearts —
(Each parts with what he lo\es! )
A prudent few
Had brought along a chest, a chair or two.
Some spoons and platters, half-remembered song
To lend a touch of home, . . .
They plowed new loam;
Their sturdy fence rows pushed the wilderness,
Walled out
The white distress. . . .
So, fed on faith, wrapped in the cloak of prayer,
They weathered the long cold —
Found springtime there!
®///,
iision
AvoneU S. RappJeye
T once thought that my words and deeds affected onlv myself. Then I threw a pebble
■■■ into a pool and watched the concentric circles of water ripple gently and quietly to
the farthest edges of the lake, until they lapped against the shore on all sides. I entered
a room where spring-scented lilacs wafted delicate perfume to every corner. I dropped
a crystal of methyl violet into a beaker of water and saw the water transformed into a
deep purple liquid.
Then I reahzed that, like the pebble, the perfume, and the dye, my thoughts and
words and deeds, whether good or bad, diffuse throughout my world and touch the
lives of those who stand within the circle of my life.
Q/air or QJalse QJc
aces
The Lord our God be with us, as he was with our fathers. . . . That he may
inchne our hearts unto him, to walk in all his ways, and to keep his commandments,
and his statutes, and his judgments . . . (i Kings 57-58).
Perhaps, at times, we are like the
woman who was being entreated to
buy a new cookbook, and who an-
swered: ''A new cookbook will not
be helpful to me, for I am not doing
the cooking now as well as I know
how to do it."
None of us is really making her
life as beautiful, as full of service,
as rewarding, as she knows how to
do. We know in our hearts that
the face which is ours can be im-
proved, and that by careful weigh-
ing of all our words and deeds, we
can achieve a greater harmony in
our own hearts, and we can then
approach our Heavenly Father in
prayer with more humility.
A wise Relief Society president
once advised a sister who came to
her for help in a trying situation:
"Whatever confronts you, remem-
ber the welfare of others, and
always to be kind."
This way of conduct surely would
be in harmony with woman's nat-
ural intuition to give sympathy and
to be charitable.
Then, in place of a face express-
ing sorrow or regret, a woman may
present for herself, and for all those
who are her associates, a face of
hopefulness, of joy in service. She
may then realize that her face is
fair because her thoughts and her
aspirations become more beautiful
in harmony with her desire to know
herself and her possibilities — as a
woman who has dedicated her life
to the ways of kindness, knowing
that "Charity Never Faileth."
npIIE face which we present before
the dearly loved members of
our families, before our friends and
neighbors, and the face which we
know in our hearts to be our own,
should be the same. Only by this
means of honesty and accord can
we feel that serenitv which comes
with a full acknowledgment of our
desire to live each day without
affectation, and without spending
any of the precious hours of life
in pretense or attempting to estab-
lish before others a picture of our-
selves which we know is not true.
The commandment to know our-
selves requires much consideration,
for always we are in the condition
of striving to close the distance be-
tween our hopes for ourselves and
the knowledge that we are only
travelers on the road to perfection.
BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
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The Shining Gift
Rosa Lee Lloyd
MARY McMillen put the bowl
of stew and dumplings on
the table in front of her hus-
band Fred and handed him the
silver ladle.
Ten-year-old Judy smacked her
lips. "Fm hungry, Daddy. Fve
pushed Mrs. Gladstone in her
wheelehair all afternoon. She buys
bushels of Christmas presents.
Where does she get all her money,
Fd like to know?"
''So would I/' Bill said, gloomily.
'T'll bet she has it in that purse
she carries. No wonder she likes
Christmas. She doesn't have to
worry about presents.''
Mary winced. Bill was such a
good-looking boy, with broad shoul-
ders and bright dark eyes like his
father. She wished she had extra
money so she could buy that old
wreck of a car he had been saving
for since September. He w^orked
at Grizwald's after school and took
odd jobs at night.
''Bill is right," Peg agreed, her
pietty mouth pouting, "Christmas
makes us wish for things we can't
have."
"Children!" Mary's gentle brown
eyes scolded them. "Christmas is
the most precious &a\ of the year,
and it means more than just pres-
ents."
She knew that Peg was unhappv
because the living-room carpet was
so shabby she was ashamed to ask
her friends in for a holiday party.
Her heart reached out to Peg, just
seventeen, blue-eyed and sweet as
a rosebud, with her blond hair in a
flowing pony-tail. She had been
baby-sitting the past year and had
bought her own clothes and most
of Judy's.
But the children could be so
thoughtless at times. Mary sighed,
looking at Fred's worried face. He
had a good job at Hammond's Ap-
pliance Company and had been top
salesman for years, but household
expenses were so high there wasn't
any monev left for extra things. So
she had rented their front bedroom
to Mollett Gladstone who had
come back to Fakeview for the
Christmas season because she
loved the wintertime here. The
town was a white fairvland when
it snowed and everyone went down
to the lake to skate. Mrs. Glad-
stone had stayed in her room to-
night because she had been out all
dav and was too tired to sit at the
table.
"Mrs. Gladstone's got weak
knees," Judv said.
"Judy!" 'Mary scolded. "Mrs.
Gladstone has arthritis, so don't
speak of it jokingly. She is a very
wonderful lady."
"Oh, she is. Mama!" Judy nod-
ded her head until her pigtails
waggled.
"I'll bet she's rich," Bill chimed
in. "Squalie Bradshaw says she's
got money somewhere."
Fred's brows puckered in a dark
frown. "Son," he said, "Fve told
you that I don't want you running
around with Squalie Bradshaw. He's
a wild one and has some wrong
ideas. Fle's even quit school."
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''But he lives next door!" Bill pro-
tested. ''And he drives a truck for
Grizwald's. When the boss savs
to work with him, what shall I
do?"
"You can be pleasant to him/'
Fred conceded. "But you don't
need to chum with him."
"He's not so bad/' Bill said,
stubbornly.
Fred didn't answer. He ate his
dinner silently so Mary tried to
smile and changed the subject.
npHE telephone rang and Peg
hurried to answer.
"It's for you, Mama/' she called,
so Mary went to the hallway. It
was Annie Ebermyer, who was try-
ing to get the old group of college
girls together. Could Mary let
them come to her house for the
Christmas party?
Mary felt her heart thud. Imag-
ine her friends in her living room
with the worn-out carpet and the
bumpy old sofa. She loved every
one of them, but she just couldn't
invite them here until she had a
new carpet.
"I'm so rushed/' she said, weakly.
"I know," Annie Ebermyer
agreed. "And my house is full of
guests. We'll just wait until W'C
hear from you, Mary."
Mary's hand trembled as she put
the receiver back in its cradle. Peg
touched her shoulder, and Mary
knew she had heard everything. She
forced a smile. She had always
tried to be an example of cheer and
courage to her children.
"I will have the group here," she
decided aloud. 'Teg, how will it
look if we take up the carpet and
wax the old pine floor? And we'll
put Grandmother McMillen's pais-
ley sha\\l over the lounge. If we
hurry, we can tint the curtains to-
night."
Peg's arm went around her moth-
er tenderly, and Mary felt her fresh
young cheek against her own.
"Mama," she said, "you're an
awful dope to do it. But I love
you for it. I wish I had vour spirit."
"You have, dear," Marv said, try-
ing not to show what an effort she
was making.
Peg shook her head. "I don't
think I could have my friends here
on a bare floor," she said, doubt-
fully.
"Nonsense!" Marv scoffed. "We'll
have everything else so pretty no
one will even notice!"
At that moment Jud\- came out
of Mrs. Gladstone's room ready to
cry.
"Judy!" Mary stooped to gather
her in her arms. "\\'hat is it,
dear?"
"It's the weatherman! Oh,
Mama, Mrs. Gladstone's television
says we're not going to have a white
Christmas in Lakeview!"
"He might be wrong," Mary
soothed her. "Anyway, let's not
worry until it really happens."
She turned to Pat and Bill who
wanted to ski, "We'll have a shin-
ing, white Christmas," she reassured
them, as she hurried into the living
room to take down the curtains.
It was a busy evening and by the
time she was ready for bed she was
very tired.
"You work too hard, honey,"
Fred said kindly as he looked at her
over the top of the evening paper.
"I don't mind the work/' Mary
answered, "but sometimes — well,
I do worry about the children.
They're planning on going up to
THE SHINING GIFT
743
Twin Peaks to ski and that's thirty
miles away!"
''They can't go!" he said firmly.
''But how can we keep our chil-
dren home if all their friends go?"
she demanded.
"We'll have to interest them,
Mary. If we had a new carpet we'd
give a party."
Flis eyes searched hers. 'Teg
told me you're having your group
in spite of everything."
"Why certainly!" ' Her dark eyes
flashed. "Do you think I'd let our
children think of those things as
barriers to happiness. I'll see that
they have more fun here than any-
where else."
■pRED suddenly smiled. "You are
a trooper!" he beamed. "Any
man can feel rich with a wife like
you, Mary." He touched her hand.
"I've been thinking, honey. We can
get a carpet and a sofa on credit."
She sighed, achingly. She wanted
them so much, but Fred must have
peace of mind, and debts worried
him, especially because he worked
on commission and business slowed
up after Christmas. If they were
going to spend money, she wanted
most of all to help Bill get that
old car. A boy needed something
like that to work on in his own
back yard.
"Fred. . . ." She took a deep
breath. ''I'd rather buy that old
car for Bill."
"So would I!" he laughed. "How
did you know I would, Mary?"
"Oh, I always know," she said.
*'We feel the same way about the
children."
"Well then, let's wait about the
carpet," he agreed. "The company
might give the bonus checks on
Christmas Eve."
"But Christmas Eve is day after
tomorrow," she told him.
He opened his wallet and took
out five ten-dollar bills.
"Wrap this as a gift for Bill," he
told her. "I've been saving a dollar
at a time."
Mary couldn't speak as she took
the money. This fifty dollars meant
Fred had been skimping on his
lunches and Saturday golf and he
hadn't had his hair cut so often.
But he has a son, she thought, as
pride flowed through her, and that
makes up for any sacrifice.
It was nearly noon the next day
when she finished hanging the
clean, tinted curtains in the living
room. She stood near the window
to admire them. Then she saw
Squalie Bradshaw drive the truck
beside the curb, and there were
Judy and Mrs. Gladstone in the
seat with him.
Mary rushed out the front door.
'Took, Mama!" Judy called.
"Squalie drove us home!"
"The wheel came off my chair,"
Mrs. Gladstone explained. "Then
this nice boy came along and
brought me home. It's been a real
pleasure up here in the front seat."
Mrs. Gladstone's usually pale face
was pink and smiling, and her eyes
had a gay twinkle.
Squalie grinned as he turned to
her. "I'll carry you," he said.
"My! I do appreciate all this,"
she laughed. "What is your name,
young man?"
"Charlie Bradshaw," he answered.
"We call him Squalie," Judy in-
terrupted.
Mrs. Gladstone frowned.
"That sounds like baby-talk,
Judy. I think it's high time we call
him Charlie."
Charlie straightened his shoul-
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ders, and he seemed even taller
than his six-feet-two as he went up
the steps carrying Mrs. Gladstone.
Judy ran off to play but Mary fol-
lowed them inside.
"Well!" Mrs. Gladstone sighed
happily. ''Thank you, Charlie. Will
you come to see me real soon?"
He was looking at her television
set.
''We could watch television/' she
offered. "I quite enjoy the football
and the bowling."
"Yes," he said eagerly. "And the
basketball?"
"Do you play basketball at
school?" she questioned.
"I don't go to school." His voice
was suddenly sulky.
She sat bolt upright. "You don't
go to school! Now tell me why a
boy your age isn't going to school?"
He shoved his hands in his pock-
ets. ''I have to work," he said.
"Anyway, school is the bunk."
He shut the door behind him and
a minute later the truck roared
down the street.
"Tell me about that boy," Mrs.
Gladstone demanded. "I must
know, Mary."
■jV/f ARY sat down beside her and
explained about Charlie. He
lived with his father in the rooming
house next door; but his father was
gone for months at a time. So
Charlie had sort of grown up all
alone, and people in the neighbor-
hood didn't invite him in because
he seemed rather wild and mean.
"We should all be ashamed,"
Mary said, bending her head. "I
thought today how kind he was
when he carried you in."
Mrs. Gladstone's blue eyes had
little sparks in them.
"I'd be mean, too, if a whole
neighborhood treated me that way,"
she snapped. "Something should
be done about that boy!"
Yes, something should be done
about him, Mary thought as she
went back to the kitchen to polish
the silver, but Fred seemed de-
termined to ignore him.
She had just sat down at the
table and opened the chest when
Mrs. Gladstone came to the door-
way.
"Mary. . . .'* Her voice trembled
and her hand was unsteady on her
cane. "My — my purse — is gone!"
Mary wet her lips as she sat there
staring at Mrs. Gladstone.
"There was a lot of money in it,
Mary," she went on. "And my dia-
monds were tucked down inside."
"Now tell me," Mary began,
"where do you remember seeing it
last?"
Mrs. Gladstone explained she had
it that morning when she and Judy
went to visit the rest home, but
after she was in the truck she
wasn't sure whether she had it or
not.
"Let's call Charlie," Mary sug-
gested. "We can get him at Griz-
walds!"
Mrs. Gladstone shook her head.
"No," she said, "that would cast
suspicion on a boy like Charlie. No,
I'll just wait awhile."
She went back to her room, de-
terminedly.
The day dragged by. Every time
the telephone rang, Mary hoped it
would be news about Mrs. Glad-
stone's purse.
When Fred came home she told
him about it, and they went to-
gether to her room to suggest that
she call the police.
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745
"I won't do it," she said. ''Every-
one will blame Charlie. I like that
boy. I want to help him. He has
good eyes and a kind mouth when
he isn't hurt about things, and this
would hurt him. It might be the
end of his job and send him off
alone somewhere without a friend.
No, a boy's soul is worth more than
money or diamonds."
"But the police . . ." Fred argued.
"No!" she said. "I can afford to
take a chance on a boy like Charlie.
Vm going to wait and trust the
Lord. And Fll be obliged if you
won't tell the children or anyone
else about it."
npHE next day was the sunniest
December twenty-fourth in
Lakeview's history. Mary stood
at the kitchen window watching
Judy sitting on the porch steps.
It doesn't look like a white
Christmas, Mary thought with a
sigh, and in more ways than the
weather. Fred had been told he
wouldn't get his bonus check, and
Bill hadn't come home until mid-
night. Peg had been baby-sitting
until even later. Fred had spoken
so gruffly that Bill had gone straight
up to bed.
She and Fred were heartsick with
worry over Peg and Bill. They were
at the age when the world outside
their home seemed a very fascinat-
ing place. Children should ap-
preciate their homes and their
parents more, she thought fiercely,
biting back the tears.
It was time for Mrs. Gladstone's
ten o'clock glass of milk, so she
took it to her room.
The place was cluttered with bits
of wrapping paper and gay ribbons,
but Mrs. Gladstone was not there.
"She took a taxi," Judy explained
when Mary stepped out on the
porch and looked up and down the
street. "She wanted to go alone,
Mama, to visit her friends. She was
all dressed up in her rose taffeta
dress and her fur cape."
Mary sat down on the steps be-
side her and gazed up at the sun.
Neither spoke for a moment, then
Judy pressed her head against her
shoulder.
"Mama," she said, "you told me
the McMillens will have a shining
white Christmas even if it doesn't
snow. Remember?"
"Yes, dear," Mary answered, care-
fully. "What I really meant was
that being grateful for the Lord's
blessings makes us shine inside. We
have so much to be grateful for,
Judy. We have each other and
Daddy and Peg and Bill. . . ."
Judy jumped to her feet.
"Mama, let's dress up pretty, the
way Mrs. Gladstone did. She says
we owe it to each other to look our
prettiest. May I wear my pink
dress with the ruffles?"
Mary's laugh was like a bell.
"All right! We'll do it. Peg can
wear her blue silk, and I'll wear my
green lace."
"Goodie!" Judy bubbled over.
"Let's be all dressed when they
come home. We'll make every-
thing shine, Mama!"
TV/fARY had called Fred earlier,
asking him to pick up Bill and
Peg and call at the rest home for
Mrs. Gladstone who had been gone
all day.
It was almost seven when they
came in. Peg, rosy-cheeked with
stars in her eyes. Bill with a big
grin, and Fred smiling in his big,
easy way.
"Mama!" Judy pulled her down
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to whisper- in her ear. ''Look how
they're smiUng. I'll het they're
shining inside because they're grate-
ful for us!"
"Of course they are/' Mary whis-
pered back.
"I couldn't find Mrs. Gladstone/'
Fred explained.
Bill swung around.
"Mrs. Gladstone! Why didn't
you ask ine, Dad? She took
Charlie to buy him a new suit. lie
and I found her purse today. I
guess you knew she lost it?"
"pRED and Mary looked at each
other, but neither spoke.
"Anyway/' Bill hurried on, "it
had been pushed back under a
heap of packages in the truck.
Charlie found it. We were on our
way here with it when we saw her
on the street. She insisted on this
new suit for Charlie and one for
me, too. Says we're both old
enough for a real suit. I don't
think Charlie would haye accepted
it, but I could see how much she
wanted to dress him up, so I told
him I was all for it. Hey! There's
the truck now!"
Mary opened the door and
Charlie carried Mrs. Gladstone in-
side and put her in a chair. She
was holding her purse, and she
looked at Mary with a significant
twinkle in her eyes.
Charlie turned to go, but she
caught his hand and held it in both
her own.
"Mary/' her voice had chimes in
it. "There's plenty to eat, isn't
there? For all of us, I mean?''
Mary looked at Fred, and her
heart lifted and sang as he nodded
his head.
"Of course there is!" she an-
swered gaily. "Charlie, please stay
for dinner. We'd love to have- you."
"We sure would/' Fred joined
in.
Charlie bent his head, but not
before Mary had seen his lip trem-
ble.
"I . . . can't . . ." he began.
"Fle'll stay!" Bill said heartily
and slapped him on the back.
Soon everyone was busy unwrap-
ping packages, but Mar\' and F'red
were both watching Bill when he
opened the box with the fifty dol-
lars and the note that told him it
was to help pay for his car.
"What d'ya know!" he gasped.
Then he swallo^^'ed hard. "Thanks,
Mom — and Dad," he murmured.
At last it was time for Mary and
Fred to open their present which
was an envelope addressed: "To the
dearest parents in the world from
Bill, Peg, and Judy."
Mary could hardly breathe as she
unfolded the paper inside. It was
a gift certificate from the Lakeview
Furniture Company, giving them
their choice of new carpet and a
sofa!
Silently she smiled at them.
Tears were glistening in her eyes,
but they made c\'erything more
shiny bright. While she and Fred
had been struggling to give their
children a happy Christmas, their
children had been working overtime
to get something for them. Their
lo\'e was the perfect, shining gift.
She looked around at the happy
faces. How wonderful, she thought,
to ha\e a family and to share our
blessings with Charlie and Mrs.
Gladstone.
She met Fred's eyes, and his
smile was young again and confident.
"It's a 'beautiful world, Mary/'
he whispered gently, "a very beau-
tiful world!"
c/t nlessage and an Jxnswer
From a Visiting Teacher
T AST night she spoke in sacrament
meeting. She was calm and
poised and charming. Her talk was
outstanding in that my youngest
child listened with as rapt attention
as the older members of the con-
gregation. Her talk lasted only ten
minutes, but I gloried in her radi-
ance, her enthusiasm, her sincerity.
I remembered back two years, to
the first time we had called at her
home as Relief Society visiting
teachers. We had been told by the
former pair, ''Well, you won't get
to see her, she works — and they
never come out to anything any-
way." But, I reasoned, they are
members, perhaps we should make
the effort.
Our district included two school-
teachers, and by starting late in the
afternoon we could find them at
home — and lastly call on hci. On
the first visit she was distant and
brittle. The second time she didn't
answer the door. Perhaps she wasn't
at home, but all the evidence point-
ed to the fact that she was avoiding
us.
However, after that time she
always received us, but when we
stated the topic of our message, she
would say ''Oh" and quickly change
the subject. But we persisted in
making our friendly visits and could
see her gradually becoming more
receptive. We would include in our
conversations thoughts from the
message and finally state the scrip-
tural quotation before we took our
leave.
A most satisfying experience was
the day she chided me for having to
read parts of the lesson because I
was not adequately prepared. Then
we knew that she was accepting our
teachings, if not actually looking
forward to them.
After about a year of visits, we
were able to discuss the message
with her, a great satisfaction.
And then, one night she and her
husband called to take their chil-
dren home from a dance. We were
friendly with them and were almost
their only friends in attendance, al-
though many folks were familiar to
them. They danced a few times
and said they wished it had oc-
curred to them that older people
were welcome — they loved dancing
and would enjoy helping to put
over an affair such as that.
I mentioned this to members of
the bishopric. Our M. I. A. was
just then in need of new dance di-
rectors. They were approached, and
after some months, finally felt need-
ed enough to accept the position.
These days they attend Sunday
School with their children, instead
of delivering them to the door and
going home to work in the garden
or lounge in front of the fire. They
also attend sacrament meeting fre-
quently.
The worth of souls is great in the
eyes of the Lord. How can we help
our Relief Society visiting teach-
ers to know that their visits may
help some choice sister to become
active and to lead her family into
activity?
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QJive viyaifs to Lrut Ljou in LJuletide
Barbara WiJJianis
M
AYBE you're planning a big
open house during the hoh-
day season, or maybe you're
hoping friends and relatives will \'is-
it informally, but Christmas will be
more colorful for your guests (and
more fun for you), if you will put
yourself into your table settings.
And what better way to personalize
a table than with a bright, new,
handmade cloth?
Fabric counters are now display-
ing cheery yard goods that are both
extra wide and easv to launder. And
notion counters offer star and holly
shaped sequins, pre-cut felt in
Christmas moiih, tinkling bells, and
gav assortments of fringes, braids,
and trimmings to send any Mrs.
Santa scurrying for needle and
thread. Here are five ideas to help
vou get started on a merry Christ-
mas :
1. Probably one of the easiest and yet
most \ersatile tablecloths can be accom-
plished with a soHd color fabric of red,
Hal Rumel
DAINTY TABLECLOTH MADE OF PINK NYLON NET
FRINGED WITH GOLD
White felt Christmas trees, adorned with pink sequins and pearls, glisten from the four
corners of this cloth designed bv the Monument Park Ward Relief Society,
Salt' Lake City, Utah
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Hal Rumel
A GAY FELT CLOTH BRIGHTENS A SERVING TABLE FOR WARM CIDER
Whimsical Santas smile from the eye-catching, scalloped border of this cloth designed
by Morence C. Williams
green, or pink (almost anv material 42"
or wider will do, but chino cloth is fairly
inexpensi\e and irons with almost no
effort), and a buttonholer. Cut the cloth
and napkins in desired size and hem either
by hand or machine. Next make % "
buttonholes in parallel pairs Vs" apart
either around the border or sprinkled in
the corners of cloth and napkins. The
buttonholes must be in pairs because
through them you \\ill tie jingle bells
(with narrow ribbon of contrasting color)
which can be removed when the cloth is
laundered. If the material you select is
thin, be sure to use a double thickness
under the buttonholes. For variety of
decoration, tie small candy canes, sprigs
of holly, or miniature tree ornaments
through the holes.
2. Table talk will be lively over a cloth
of bright red and white striped chintz
fringed with red. For napkins choose a
fabric of solid red, and applique candy
canes from the striped material — cut di-
agonallv, of course. Tiny bells tied
through buttonholes made on the canes
(as described above) add extra interest.
3. Filmy and feminine, nylon net pro-
\ides a setting for the most special Christ-
mas occasion, yet is one of the most
inexpensive fabrics available. Sew wide
satin ribbon or metallic fringe or lace
around the border, and applique the cloth
with felt Christmas trees, holly wreaths,
or poinsettias. Rhinestones, sequins, and
beads may be sewed to the felt or ribbon,
or, if small enough, directly to the net
itself. Nylon net must be dry cleaned or
hand spotted when food is spilled, but
since food stains don't readily show, the
material requires little care. You may
prefer to use another cloth under the net
1:0 help protect your table, however,
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the needlework catalogs for Christmas
designs, or better yet, create your own
sleighs, stars, or angels. A simple Christ-
mas tree pattern may be used.
5. Perhaps the most colorful and inter-
esting cloths of all can be made from
bright red or green felt, decorated ^^•ith
original or packaged Christmas motifs.
Although impractical for a dinner table
since the cloth must be dry cleaned, felt
makes a festive co\ering for an hois
d'oeiivre table or to center a hot cider
punch bowl, where there is little danger
of spilling. Felt needn't be hemmed and,
therefore, lends itself to unusual scallops
or peaks around the border. Gay center
runners of felt with Christmas applique
may also be used on top of your washable
cloths.
There they are — five ways to put
''you" in Yuletide. But may we
add a sixth? Why not purchase an
extra length of material to ''put
yourself" as well in a gift for some-
one special?
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ountain
Lylinib
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Lula Walker
Ambition lights my son's young eyes,
He's always asking *'why" and "how."
To untold heights he's bound to rise
Some distant day, but as' of now
He doesn't dare go very/faf;—
His Everest — the cookie jar.
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SELMA Larson Spjiit, Salt Lake City, Utah, has knitted a beautiful ski sweater for
each of her two children and her se\'en grandchildren. Beautifully designed and
made of all-wool yarn, these sweaters are treasured by the family, of Swedish descent,
who enjoy outdoor acti\ities. Mrs. Spjut also loves to crochet, working patiently on
edges for smaller tablecloths and also completing large, decorative tablecloths such as
the one in Queen Anne design illustrated in the picture. Gift items, such as cro-
cheted doilies and knitted ski gloves, have been presented to many relatives and
friends. Mrs. Spjut's cooking recipes for Swedish dishes have been shared with friends,
and she is an excellent cook and gracious hostess. She is a devoted member of Relief
Society.
C/rosfy verse
Evn WiUcs Wangsgaard
A tree must be a poem sung
^^'ith silent rhythms marking time.
For where the e\ening fog was hung
The trees are Ivrics done in rime.
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The New Day
Hazel K. Todd
Chapter 2
Synopsis: Lynn Marlow, a dress de-
signer, who lives in Chicago and is engaged
to David Talbot, returns to Springdale,
her home town, to visit her Aunt Polly.
She recalls the love she used to feel for
Johnny Spencer.
WHEN Lynn reached the
stream deep in the willows,
without even remembering
what Mr. Jensen had said, she seat-
ed herself on a smooth white rock
and pulled off her high-heeled
pumps and her nylons and dipped
her toes into the gurgling water. It
was sharply cold, telling of melting
snow somewhere up the mountain-
side. But after a few minutes her
feet became accustomed to the cold
and she was lost to the tingling sen-
sation, lost because hundreds of
memories floated to life among the
willow trees and whispered to her
from the cobblestones.
She and Johnny were pounding
the bark off a willow limb for spring
whistles. She and Johnny were
racing up the stream in their bare
feet, slipping on the rocks, falling
in the water, chasing water skaters.
It was so much fun to chase water
skaters. She remembered, with a
little embarrassment, how Johnny
had caught her when she was quite
a young lady, chasing water skaters,
because, in a moment of reverie, a
big long one had looked so inviting.
But now the years sped away, and
she and Johnny walked along the
path on their graduation night. It
was after the exercises, after the
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dance, and the moon spread white
light through the willow branches.
She thought, how handsome he is
with his dark hair and the white
houtonnieie. Her graduation frock
was lovely. She had designed it all
herself. Aunt Polly had spent days
on the ruffles. It was pink and
white, and Johnny had told her it
was the most elegant thing he had
ever seen. *'0f course,'' he had
qualified, ''because it's for you."
Johnny had plucked some of the
violets to put in her hair. And
with his arms about her, he had
said, 'They are purple like your
eyes, Lindy. I hope our children
all have purple eyes. And all the
little girls we will name Lindy."
And she had laughed at his fool-
ishness.
But then had come the shadow.
He had held her hands tightly in
his. "Oh, Lindy, you can't go away
clear to Chicago. It's too far. You
don't need to be a dress designer.
Let Uncle Merideth, or whoever he
is, give it to some other girl. Haven't
we always said we belong together
since we're both orphans, you with
Aunt Polly, and me with my grand-
mother? Stay and let's plan our
house by the mill."
But it had sounded so thrilling to
go all the way to Chicago and learn
to be a dress designer. Since she
was a little girl she had drawn pic-
tures for Aunt Polly to follow to
make her dresses.
Anyway, with Johnny's arms
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about her, the future seemed hke a
bright promise as she assured him,
''There will only be a year, and
then I will eome back, and we will
build the house by the mill and live
happily ever after."
IDUT the year stretched longer and
longer. Each time she men-
tioned going home Uncle Merideth
put her off with lavish praise for her
work and bright promises for the
future. And Lynn loved her work.
She would sit by the hour fascinated
with the creations that came from
her pencil. Johnny's letters begged
her to come back. His pleas became
more urgent, until one day in early
spring, Lynn, remembering the path
through the willows, the long walks
and all the things they had done
together, knew that she must go
home to the house by the mill.
Suddenlv she could hardlv wait to
tell Uncle Merideth that this time
she was really going.
Then came the shocking news
from Aunt Polly. Johnny's grand-
mother had died, and Johnny had
joined the Marines. Next she knew
he had married a Southern girl with
dark hair. Aunt Polly had sent her
a picture clipped from the town
paper.
At first it had been hard for her
to realize that she had lost Johnny.
She would wake suddenly from a
sleep where she and Johnny were
chasing water skaters or she would
sit up in bed to find that she was
not dancing with Johnny, not sip-
ping sodas in Mr. Jensen's drug
store.
Uncle Merideth had been very
good to her. He patted her shoul-
der, praised her work, and gave her
another promotion. So she threw
herself into her work with such zeal
that twice Uncle Merideth suggest-
ed she take a trip to Springdale for
a rest. But she never went. And
since time has a way of mending
heartaches, she began to put her
sorrow away. Until the letter from
Aunt Polly saying that Johnnv had
brought his wife and two babies
home, a boy and a girl, and he was
building a house. That night Lynn
cried in her pillow for the house by
the mill that should have been hers.
Twice Aunt Polly came to Chi-
cago to visit Lvnn, but she didn't
like the long rides, and she was not
used to the crov^'ds of people. It all
made her so nervous that she told
Lynn, on the last visit, that she
would never make the trip again.
''Oh, Lynn," she said, "why don't
you come home! I can never get
used to your absence. You have
been gone so long."
But not until Aunt Polly's letters
began worrying Lynn, could she
bring herself to go back to the
scenes of her childhood.
OUT now there was David Talbot.
He had walked into her life one
day when she sat on a green sloping
hillside. She had been riding alone
through the forest preserve. It was
a warm day in spring, and the green
hillside had looked inviting, stretch-
ing away to the edge of the trees.
So she had stopped the car and ac-
cepted the invitation of the rich
green carpet. The grass was soft
and cool and the air fresh and sweet
with only the faintest hint of a
breeze. Sitting there, leaning on
her arms with her hands anchored
in the grass, she was oblivious to all
else save the pleasantness of the
surroundings. And then she heard
the click of the camera.
She looked up at David standing;
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there with his camera. He was tall
and lean, with a thatch of blond
hair, and he was smiling in a capti-
vating sort of way.
' 'Forgive me, for taking your pic-
ture, Miss Meadow Nymph/' he
said with perfect ease. "But you
see, I have been tramping about
looking for something to shoot. And
when I saw you sitting there with
your hair blowing like that I knew
i could ne\'er find anything half so
lovely again."
''(Dh," Lynn said, a little em-
barrassed, and started to scramble to
her feet.
''Oh, please don't get up," he said.
''It looks so pleasant there in the
grass. Would vou mind if I sat
down a minute beside you?"
TT was so easy to sit there and talk
with him. As they talked they
learned they had mutual friends,
and their wards were quite close to
each other. And it was so natural
to go on seeing him, and even to
promise to marry him. Except, that
night she couldn't sleep for remem-
bering the path through the wil-
lows, and the house by the mill.
David was already a successful
architect and he planned for her a
lovely home on a hillside that they
both loved. He wanted to begin at
once, but, somehow, Lynn kept
waiting.
Then one night David was very
quiet. She walked with him to the
door to say goodnight. He looked
at her with his calm sincerity.
"Lynn," he said, "more than any-
thing else in all the world I want
to make you my wife. But I cannot
share you with a ghost from the
past. If you can't forget this —
Johnny, then I want to free you
from your promise and go out of
your life."
As she looked into his face and
felt his quiet strength, a warm se-
curity possessed her. "David," she
said, "let's make it an autumn wed-
ding."
And so they planned.
Aunt Polly wrote she hoped Lynn
would be happy, but wouldn't she
please come home for a visit before
the wedding?
Still Lynn had not quite been able
to make up her mind.
And then she realized there was
something wrong in Aunt Polly's
letters, httle hints about letting the
garden go, about not doing my sew-
ing, about phoning for groceries, in-
stead of driving the car. Lynn knew
then she must go to Aunt Polly.
She chose a time to tell David
when they were sitting on the grassy
slope of the countryside. For awhile
he didn't say anything. And Lynn
hurried to explain that it was Aunt
Polly, that she was sure Aunt Polly
was ill or something.
David put his hand under her
chin and looked into her face.
"Please, my dear Meadow Nymph,"
he said with his easy smile, "I do
not want you to think I disapprove
of vour going home. By all means
go to Aunt Polly."
"But I want vou to take me."
He looked at her as though there
was something hidden in the purple
depths of her eyes that he longed
to find. "No, Lynn, I want you to
go alone, back to the scenes of your
childhood, back to the things you
used to do. Live with them, and
then, one clay when you want me to
come, I will be waiting."
And then she knew she had ne\'er
quite promised her whole self, not
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755
because she didn't want to, but be-
cause she was not sure that part of
her was not back on the willow
path, back in the house by the mill.
'T^HE quick, sharp cry of a child
suddenly obliterated past vis-
ions. With a start, Lynn pulled her
feet from the water and realized
that they were quite numb with
cold. At the same time, she caught
sight of the tousled head of a child
struggling about in the grass and
leaves by the trail.
Barefoot, she ran to ft, a little
girl, with a mass of red-gold curls
tangled about her head. Quickly
she picked the tot up in her arms
to find her knee scratched and
bleeding. The little girl looked up
at Lynn with fright-filled eyes.
With a tissue, Lynn wiped the
blood and leaves from the little knee
and found it was not more than a
scratch. She sat down with the
child in her lap, on an old stump
that she had sat on many times be-
fore to pull slivers from her feet or
to wipe the water from them.
''Look," she said, wrapping her
handkerchief around the injured
knee, ''we will fix it all up like
new."
The little girl looked up from the
bandage into the face of her bene-
factor. And then she squirmed out
of her lap to the ground. "Peter,"
she called in a frightened little
voice, 'Teter, come get me."
And then she saw a pair of eyes
in a freckle-sprinkled face, peeking
furtively through a willow clump.
"Is that Peter?" Lynn asked,
catching hold of the little girl's
hand.
But the child quickly withdrew
her hand and ran half crying toward
the place where the face had so sud-
denly disappeared.
Lynn snatched her shoes, and
slipped them onto her feet, as she
ran after the child. And in a few
minutes she had caught up with the
two of them making a fast getaway
down the trail.
The boy stopped, undecided, on
the path with the small girl clinging
frantically onto his hand. The
wrong words might send them scur-
rying away into the bushes. She
looked about her quickly. A wil-
low branch swaying gently near,
caught her eye.
"Did you ever have a willow
wdiistle?" she asked, thankful to the
willow.
"Course we did," the boy said.
"Our Dad makes us whistles."
"Does he?" Lynn kept watching
the boy's face. There was some-
thing familiar about the way the
hair fell over his forehead. "If we
had a knife, we'd make a whistle."
QHE pulled down the willow limb
and broke it from the tree. A
long piece of bark twisted loose,
leaving a naked slipperv strip. "Just
right if we had a knife."
For a minute the boy stood quite
aloof. Then he said, e\eing her
keenly, "I got one." He dug into
his pocket and brought out a bat-
tered pocketknife.
Again he stood, half undecided,
and then he handed it to her.
As she pounded the bark from
the willow with the handle of the
knife, the two children watched,
the little girl hanging to her broth-
er's shirt.
A strange thing to be doing, Lynn
thought. Her eyes went again to
the boy's face. His hair — and his
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■eyes. Somewhere in the past there
were dark gray eyes, fringed with
heavy lashes. She laid the w4iistle
down a minute and looked into
their inky depths. And as she did,
a chill froze her, for, with sudden
recognition, she knew those eyes.
She knew them without a doubt.
And thev fit perfectly into the sur-
roundings, the creek, the willows,
the whistle lying on the grass, every-
thing! They were Johnny's eyes!
These, then were Johnny's chil-
dren — children who might have
been hers. She looked at them
standing there, and a wave of long-
ing swept over her. But all that
was long ago. There was no need
to be disturbed. Yet her hands
shook so that she was unable to re-
place the bark on the willow limb.
This i^ silly, she thought, but J can't
stay here now. I have to think.
She laid the whistle down hur-
riedly again beside the knife. Her
mind was working frantically as
though she were a culprit trying to
escape capture.
'Tm sorry," she said in confusion.
''I must go. Get your father to
make a whistle."
She got hurriedly to her feet,
avoiding their eyes. And with her
heart thudding dully with an old
familiar ache, she went down the
willow path to Aunt Polly's.
(To he continued)
QJaniiliar CJc
ace
Gwen Mnrler Bainey
I know \'Oii as I know my dearest friend,
Your grief is mine, your laughter and your look.
How strange that you should walk so close to me,
Yet I should find you only in a book.
C////-C/)u'^/A/7g n Lot her
Ruth H. Ch^dwick
You toted rocks and mortar up the tall,
Thin ladder reaching skyward to a door.
And built a room against the stony wall
High above the valley's verdant floor.
You made a home within that rock-formed cell.
So drab, yet safe from enemies below.
There you found a wa}-, pro\iding well
For each day's needs, your mother-heart aglow.
You bore a race of stout and fearless men.
Nurtured at your bosom, taught from birth
To walk with faith though danger lurked, and then,
Through discipline and toil, to prove their worth.
LESSON DEPARTMENT
cJneoloqu — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 21 — Lessons in Obedience
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: Doctrine and Covenants, Sections 30 and 31)
For Tuesday, February 2, i960
Objective: "Be faithful unto the end, and lo, I am \\ith you . . ." (D & C 31 :i3)
A conference of the Church was
appointed for September 1830,
but just prior to this assemblage the
Prophet Joseph Smith and others
had gone to stay with the Whitmers
at Fayette township, New York. As
we have learned from Lesson 18,
Hiram Page claimed to receive re\'e-
lations for the Church. When the
Prophet learned about Brother Page
and his seer stone, it brought sorrow
to him because of the influence
which Satan had upon some of the
members of the Church in deceiv-
ing them. Because of these condi-
tions, revelations numbered 28 and
29 were received.
When the September conference
convened, the subject of the seer
stone was discussed. It developed
that Brother Page and those who
had been influenced by him recog-
nized that only one person was em-
powered to receive re\'elation for
the Church. They, therefore, re-
nounced the purported revelations
and harmony was restored. It was
at the conclusion of this conference
that the two revelations pertaining
to this lesson were received — Sec-
tions 30 and 31.
In What Do You Place Your Trust?
The short revelation numbered
Section 30 is directed to the three
sons of Peter Whitmer, Senior, at
whose home the Prophet was stay-
ing. Before this time, the Lord had
made known that these men —
David, Peter, and John — had a call-
ing to make known the truths of the
everlasting gospel. This opportunity
to participate in the Lord's work
was to be of utmost worth to them
in bringing souls unto the Lord.
(See Sections 14, 15, and 16.) The
time had now come when they were
to ''declare repentance unto this
generation." (See Section 30:4, 5,
9-11.)
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It appears that the revelation to
David Whitmer (verses 1-4) con-
stitutes a rebuke for his following
Hiram Page with his purported
revelations. The words of the Lord
to David may also be pertinent to
us as a lesson in obedience. Con-
sider yourself as being taught by the
Lord in these words:
. . . vou have feared man and ha\ e not
relied on me for strength as you ought.
But your mind has been on the things
of the earth more than on the things of
me, your Maker, and the ministry \\here-
unto you have been called; and \ou have
not given heed unto my Spirit, and to
those who were set over you, but have
been persuaded by those whom I have
not commanded (D & C 30:1-2).
As a member of the Church,
wherein have you trusted in man
rather than trusted implicitly in the
word of the Lord? How often have
you, as a worker in the Church, con-
sidered the things of the earth
(world) to be of more importance
than the work of your Maker? Have
you given heed to the Spirit and
to those who have been placed over
3/0U, or have you been influenced by
other considerations, be it men,
women, or the material things of
life? If so, how thankful we should
be for the principle of repentance,
a part of which is the resolution to
do better. What lesson does this
provide for us? We must lay a
secure foundation on the principles
of truth with the knowledge that
deviation from the course of the
Lord leads to lost privileges and
blessings.
Lesson From the Life of
Thomas B. Marsh
In the application of the lesson
objective and to understand Section
31 of The Doctrine and Covenants,
we should know something about
Thomas B. Marsh to whom this rev-
elation was directed.
The life story of Brother Marsh
affords us an opportunity to learn
se\'eral lessons. In addition to the
important principle of obedience,
we learn lessons of the necessity to
follow the leadership of those over
us in the Church, and that any per-
son may depart from the truth, the
consequences of ^^'hich bring sorrow.
Furthermore, repentance may not
always restore one to his former
standing in the kingdom of God.
For a period of about eight years
Brother Marsh was a devoted mem-
ber of the Church, but in a year of
apostasy, when several of the leading
brethren became disaffected, he
w'as excommunicated (in 1839). In
1857 at Florence, Nebraska, he was
rebaptized and came to Utah where
he spent his last days.
Spirit of Apostasy
Shortly after Thomas B. Marsh
was baptized, the Lord gave a re\'e-
lation. Section 31, directed to him
through the Prophet Joseph Smith.
Of special interest to us are verses
nine and twelve which read as fol-
lows :
Be patient in afflictions, revile not
against those that re\ile. Govern your
house in meekness, and be steadfast. . . .
Pray always, lest you enter into tempta-
tion and lose your reward (D & C
31:9, 12).
This counsel is prophetic in view
of Brother Marsh's apostasy. Elder
George A. Smith in a general con-
ference address tells the following
reason for this apostasy:
W^hen the Saints were li\'ing in Far
West, the wife of Marsh and Sister Harris
agreed to exchange milk, in order to enable
each of them to make a larger cheese than
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they could do separately. Each was to
take to the other the "strippings" as well
as the rest of the milk. IMrs. Harris per-
formed her part of the agreement, but
Mrs. Marsh kept a pint of "strippings"
from each cow. When this became known
the matter was brought before the Teach-
ers, and these decided against Mrs. Marsh.
An appeal was taken to the Bishop. He
sustained the Teachers. If Marsh had
obeyed the Revelation and governed his
house in humility and with steadfastness,
he would have righted the wrong done,
but instead of doing so, he appealed to
the High Council. Marsh, who at the
time was President of the Twelve, pos-
sibly thought that the Council would
favor him, but that body confirmed the
Bishop's decision. He was not yet satis-
fied, but appealed to the First Presidency,
and Joseph, the Prophet, and his two
Counsellors consented to review the case.
They approxcd the findings of the High
Council. Was Marsh satisfied then? No.
With the persistency of Lucifer himself,
he declared that he would uphold the
character of his wife, "even if he had to
go to hell for it" (Doctrine and Covenants
Coninientaiy, Revised Edition, page 167).
FoUow Leadership
Concerning this circumstance,
Elder Heber C. Kimball told a Salt
Lake congregation that about the
time Brother Marsh was preparing
to leave the Church, he received a
personal revelation consisting of
from three to five pages, which he
read to Brothers Kimball and Brig-
ham Young.
In it God told him what to do, and
that was to sustain brother Joseph and
to believe that what brother Joseph had
said was true. But no; he took a course to
sustain his wife and oppose the Prophet
of God, and she led him away. . . .
We told him that if he would listen to
that revelation he had received, he would
be saved; but he listened to his wife, and
away he went (Journal of Discourses,
5, pp. 28, 29).
The seriousness of Marsh's apos-
tasy is indicated in the further
comment made by Brother George
A. Smith upon the occasion men-
tioned above.
The then President of the Twelve
Apostles, the man who should have been
the first to do justice and cause repara-
tion to be made for wrong, committed
by any member of his family, fook that
position, and what next? He went before
a magistrate and swore that the "Mor-
mons" were hostile to the State of Mis-
souri. That affidavit brought from the
government of Missouri an extermmating
order, which drove some 15,000 Saints
from their homes and habitations, and
some thousands perished through suffer-
ing the exposure consequent on this state
of affairs {Doctrine and Covenants Com-
mentary, Revised Edition, page 167).
Man May Fall From Grace
In a short autobiography. Brother
Marsh wrote that after he had apos-
tatized he went to Richmond, Mis-
souri, where he met David, John,
and Jacob Whitmer, and Oliver
Cowdery, who had all apostatized:
I enquired seriously of David if it was
true that he had seen an angel, accord-
ing to his testimony as one of the wit-
nesses of the Book of Mormon. He re-
plied as sure as there is a God in heaven,
he saw the angel according to his testi-
mony in that book. ... I interrogated
Oliver Cowdery in the same manner, who
answered similarly (Mfiiennial Star, Vol.
26, page 406).
It will be remembered that
Thomas B. Marsh, as one of the
members of the first Quorum of the
Twelve, was a testator to the truth
of the book of Doctrine and Cove-
nants. A general assembly of the
Church was held in Kirtland, Ohio,
on August 17, 1835, to take into con-
sideration the work of a committee
appointed to compile the revela-
tions into a book. This action was
taken ''to see whether the book be
approved or not by the authorities
of the Church: that it may, if ap-
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proved, become a law and rule of
faith and practice to the Church."
During the course of the meetings.
Brother W. W. Phelps read the
written testimony of the Twelve, as
it appears in the "Explanatory Intro-
duction" to The Doctrine and Cove-
nants. (The minutes of this
assembly comprise chapter 18 of the
Documentary History of the
Chinch, Volume II.)
Notwithstanding the great mani-
festation which came to the three
special witnesses of The Book of
Mormon and the Lord bearing rec-
ord to the souls of the witnesses to
The Doctrine and Covenants
through the Holy Ghost shed forth
upon them, some of these witnesses
apostatized and were excommuni-
cated. It is not our present purpose
to suggest all of the reasons why
men having such testimonies do
depart from the truth, but the im-
portant thing for us is to learn
lessons from the experiences of
those who have become apostate.
When The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints was
organized, the Lord declared that
a person might fall away from the
truth.
And we know that all men must repent
and believe on the name of Jesus Christ,
and worship the Father in his name, and
endure in faith on his name to the end,
or they cannot be saved in the kingdom
of God. . . .
But there is a possibihty that man may
fall from grace and depart from the living
God;
Therefore let the church take heed and
pray always, lest they fall into tempta-
tion;
Yea, and even let those who are sancti-
fied take heed also (D & G 20:29, 3^'34)*
From What Do Men Fall?
And so it has been. But from
what do men fall away? Here is
Brigham Young's answer:
Ever}'thing that there is good, pure,
holy, god-like, exalting, ennobling, extend-
ing the ideas, the capacities of the intelli-
gent beings that our Heavenly Father has
brought forth upon this earth.
What will the apostate receive in
exchange? Continuing, President
Young said:
I can comprehend it in a very few
words. These would be the Vv'ords that
I should use: death, hell and the grave.
That is what they will get m exchange.
We may go into the particulars of that
which they experience. They experience
darkness, ignorance, doubt; pain, sorrow,
grief, mourning, unhappiness; no person
to condole with in the hour of trouble,
no arm to lean upon in the day of calam-
ity, no eye to pity when they \ire forlorn
and cast down; and I comprehend it by
saying death, hell and the grave. This
is what they \^'ill get in exchange for their
apostasy from the Gospel of the Son of
God {Journal of Discourses, Vol. 16, page
160).
When Brother Marsh returned
to the Church, he bore witness that
his period of apostasy was one of
misery and affliction. He stated:
... let no one feel too secure; for,
before you think of it, your steps will slide.
You will not then think nor feel for a
moment as you did before you lost the
Spirit of Christ; for when men apostatize,
they are left to grovel in the dark {Joiiinal
of IDiscouTses, Vol. 5, page 206).
Follow a Straight Course
But what is it that leads members
of the Church from the truth? In
the case of Brother Marsh, it
seemed such a small thing in what
his wife did, but he, as he confessed
later, was a very ''stiffnecked man."
Many times it is the small, incon-
sequential thing that leads one away,
as President Young one time put it:
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761
Very trifling affairs are generally the
commencement of their divergence from
the right path. If we follow a compass,
the needle of which does not point cor-
rectly, a very slight de\'iation in the begin-
ning will lead us, when we have traveled
some distance, far to one side of the true
point for which we are aiming (/ournal
of Discourses, Vol. 12, page 125).
On the other hand, if we adhere
to the commandments of the Lord,
keeping a steady course on the
straight way to eternal Jife, we shall
secure to ourselves joy and happiness
in this life and the crown of right-
eousness in the life to come. In
this connection, The Book of Mor-
mon prophet, Alma, counseled his
son Helaman by making reference
to the compass or director which
worked according to their fathers'
faith in God, as follows:
Therefore, they tarried in the wilder-
ness, or did not travel a direct course, and
were afflicted with hunger and thirst, be-
cause of their transgressions.
And now, my son, I would that ye
should understand that these things are
not without a shadow; for as our fathers
were slothful to give heed to this compass
(now these things were temporal) they
did not prosper; even so it is with things
which are spiritual.
For behold, it is as easy to give heed
to the word of Christ, which will point to
you a straight course to eternal bliss, as
it was for our fathers to give heed to this
compass, which would point unto them
a straight course to the promised land.
And now I say, is there not a type in
this thing? For just as surely as this direc-
tor did bring our fathers, by following its
course, to the promised land, shall the
words of Christ, if we follow their course,
carry us beyond this vale of sorrow into a
far better land of promise, ... see that
ye look to God and live . . . (Alma
37:42-45, 47).
What else is there which leads
people from the kingdom of God?
As in the case of Thomas B. Marsh,
it was an unwillingness to follow
the leadership of the Church, but to
become a law unto himself. When
men and women feel that they can
flaunt the laws of God and thereby
become independent of the counsel
of their leaders in the Church,
whether it be the bishop, stake pres-
ident, or the General Authorities,
they set for themselves a course of
action, which, if not repented of,
will lead to loss of the Spirit of the
Lord and eventual apostasy.
Notice how this rejection of the
counsel of those over Brother Marsh
lost for him the spirit of the Lord
in the case mentioned above by
Elder George A. Smith. The loss
of the Spirit brought blindness to
him, and he spent his time in look-
ing for the evil:
. . . and then, when the Devil began to
lead me, it was easy for the carnal mind
to rise up, which is anger, jealousy, and
wrath. ... I thought I saw a beam in
Brother Joseph's [Smith] eye, but it was
nothing but a mote, and my own eye v^as
filled with the beam . . . and as Brother
Heber [Kimball] says, I got mad, and
wanted everybody else to be mad. I talked
with Brother Brigham and Brother Heber,
and I wanted them to be mad like my-
self; and I saw they were not mad. . . .
Brother Brigham, with a cautious look,
said, "Are you the leader of the Church,
Brother Thomas?" I answered, "No."
"Well then," said he, "Why do you not
let that alone?" (Journal of Discourses,
Vol. 5, page 207.)
Contrast — Obedience
and Disobedience
On the other hand, if Thomas B.
Marsh had applied the admonition
given him years before in the revela-
tion from which this part of our
lesson is taken (Section 31:9, 12),
and, when the time of deviation
from the straight course of the gos-
pel plan began, if he had repented,
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great would have been his blessings.
Sometimes a contrast sharpens one's
understanding of such possibilities.
About the same period when Broth-
er Marsh apostatized, Elder Parley
P. Pratt partook of the spirit of apos-
tasy. In relating his own experience,
we may also learn a lesson.
About this time, [1837], after I had
returned from Canada, there were jarrings
and discords in the Church at Kirtland,
and many fell away and became enemies
and apostates. There were also envyings,
lyings, strifes and divisions, which caused
much trouble and sorrow. By such spirits
I was also accused, misrepresented and
abused. And at one time, I also was o\'er-
come by the same spirit in a great meas-
ure, and it seemed as if the very powers
of darkness which war against the Saints
were let loose upon me. But the Lord
knew my faith, my zeal, my integrity of
purpose, and he gave me the victory.
I went to brother Joseph Smith in tears,
and, with a broken heart and contrite
spirit, confessed wherein I had erred in
spirit, murmured, or done or said amiss.
He frankly forgave me, pra}ed for me and
blessed me. Thus, by experience, I
learned more fully to discern and to con-
trast the two spirits, and to resist the one
and clea\'e to the other. And, being
tempted in all pomts, even as others, I
learned how to bear with, and excuse, and
succor those who are tempted (Autobi-
ography oi Parley P. Pratt, 1874 Edition,
pp. 183-184).
Summary
How does one lose a testimony
of the gospel? It does not come
abruptly, but, in most instances,
gradually. We may well consider
the masterful way in which the late
Elder John A. Widtsoe answered
this question.
Starvation of a testimony usually begins
with failure to keep properly in touch with
divine forces, to pray. Then desire to
learn and to li\e the gospel law soon
weakens. Sacred covenants are forgotten.
Study of the gospel is set aside for some
other study or activity. There is less and
less participation in the life of the Church.
Eyes are blurred so that the laws of life
are forgotten. . . .
There are many attacks b\- the evil one
upon a weakening testimony. Com-
monly, a feeling of superiority, ending in
ambition for office, overshadows all else
and leads to testimony starvation. Person-
al ambition has always been a destructive
force in human li\es. Sometimes, and
closely related to the feeling of superior-
ity, are false interpretations of scripture.
These rise to such magnitude, though at
variance with accepted, revealed Doctrine,
that they endanger the spiritual life of the
individual. The various cults that arise,
like mushrooms, from time to time, are
but \ariations of this manner of destroy-
ing a testimony. They can always be
recognized, for they are in opposition to
some principle or regulation of the Church.
Most frequently, howe\er, the loss of
a testimony is due to finding fault with
one's fellow believers, and with the leader-
ship of the Church. Ever\- action of bish-
op, stake president, or General Authority
seems wrong, to such unfortunate people.
Their vision distorts the world and all
in it.
The dying testimony is easily recog-
nized. The organizations and practices
of the Church are ignored; the radio takes
the place of the sacrament meeting; golf
or motion pictures, the Sunday worship;
the cup of coffee, instead of the Word of
Wisdom; the cold, selfish hand instead of
helpfulness, charity for the poor, and the
payment of tithing.
Soon, the testimony is gone, and the
former possessor walks about, some\^hat
sour and discontented, and always in his
heart, unhappy. He has lost his most
precious possession, and has found nothing
to replace it. He has lost inward free-
dom, the gift of obedience to law ("What
Does It Mean to Ha\e a Testimonv?"
Jmpro\ement Era, May 1945, pp. 273,
280).
Questions for Discussion
1. What docs it mean to trust in man
rather than in the word of the Lord?
2. Show how Section 51 is prophetic
concerning Thomas B. Marsh.
3. How did Brother Marsh's apostasy
affect the Church?
LESSON DEPARTMENT
763
4. In what wav did Brother Marsh
know the truth of The Doctrine and
Covenants, and under what circumstances
did he learn that the testimony of the
witnesses of The Book of Mormon was
true?
5. Relate the two uses made in the
lesson of the compass.
6. Contrast the disaffections of Brothers
Marsh and Pratt.
7. Name ways in which one may lose
a testimony of the gospel.
Visiting cJeacher ii iessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 21— "Wherefore, Hear My Voice and Follow Me, and You Shall
Be a Free People . . ." (D & C 38:22).
Christine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, February 2, 1960
Ohjecfi^e: To show that freedom can only be secured by hearing and following
the Savior's teachings.
■pREEDOAI and free agency con-
stitute the basis of the entire
gospel plan of salvation. It is a divine
truth that, regardless of the shackles
men try to impose upon themselves
and upon each other, our Father
in heaven's plan for his children is
one of free agency. This thought is
expressed in this well-known verse:
Know this, that every soul is free
To choose his life and what he'll be,
For this eternal truth is gi\'en
That God will force no man to heaven.
[Hymns, ''Know This, That Every Soul
Is Free," William C. Gregg, page 90)
Next to life itself, freedom is the
most precious gift that God has giv-
en to man. It was bestowed upon
us before the formation of this
world. Because Lucifer sought to
destroy man's free agency, he and
his followers were cast out of heav-
en. The Savior's plan of free agency
was adopted, and we were given the
gospel plan of sahation which
would guide and redeem mankind
here upon the earth.
Christ came to this earth and
gave his life that we might be a free
people. Lehi, The Book of Mor-
mon prophet, tells us that:
. . . the Messiah cometh in the fulness
of time, that he may redeem the children
of men. . . , And because that they are
redeemed , . . they have become free for-
e\cr, knowing good from evil; to act for
themselves ... (2 Nephi 2:26).
President McKay has said,
Next to the bestowal of life itself, the
right to direct that life is God's greatest
gift to man. . . . Man's success or failure,
happiness or misery, depends upon \\hat
he seeks and what he chooses (Patii^\a}"s
to Happiness, pp. 399, 401).
Some of us are prone to think
of freedom in terms of civil and
political affairs. Yet, although it is
tremendously important to our well-
being and happiness that we have
our political liberty, freedom of the
spirit is even more important.
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Recently an apostle of the
Church went to an oppressed coun-
try to hold a conference with
Church members there. Some 550
came to the meeting, many at great
sacrifice and at considerable person-
al danger. After a spiritual feast,
these saints returned to their homes.
Some of these members might have
escaped into the bright sunlight of
freedom. Yet, because of their de-
sire to preserve spiritual freedom,
these members returned to their
homes that they might continue
their efforts to keep the light of
this spark from being extinguished.
These members believe with the
apostle Paul that, ". . . where the
Spirit of the Lord is, there is lib-
erty" (II Cor. 3:17).
Our Doctrine and Covenants
message this month emphasizes the
freedom which comes from listening
to and following the Savior's teach-
ings. He has promised that if we
learn his laws and commandments
and apply them to our lives we will
be a free people. We must, how-
ever, seek continuously for a knowl-
edge of his truths. The Savior him-
self declared, *'. . . ye shall know
the truth, and the truth shall make
you free" (John 8:32).
As we seek to preserve our free-
dom, we should be alert to another
type of bondage which can enslave
us. This bondage we impose upon
ourselves through harmful habits
and negative and destructive think-
ing. This self-inflicted bondage can
remove our freedom more effecti\'e-
ly than even the slavery imposed by
tyrants. The best way we can keep
from falling under this type of bond-
age is to accept the Savior's counsel
and following his teachings.
Both by precept and example the
Savior has shown us how to keep
love in our hearts and how to keep
ourselves from destructive thoughts
and influences.
Someone has wisely said, ''Free-
dom is not free — if we want to
keep it — we must love it, live it,
work for it, even fight for it."
Viyork i/leeting — Physical Safety Factors
in the hlome
(A Course Recommended for Use by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 5— Hobby Hazards
Charlotte A. Larsen
For Tuesday, February 9, i960
Objective: To show that a hobby worth practicing is worth practicing safely;
that a constant use of safe practices will eliminate many of the hazards that are
threats to indi\idual health and welfare.
Home Hobby Hazards mately a dozen hazards which pre-
\ casual review of the major hob- sent outstanding possibilities for ac-
bies practiced in and around the cidental mishaps. Any hobby worth
home enables one to list approxi- developing is worthy of the effort
LESSON DEPARTMENT
765
on the part of the hobbyist to prac-
tice it safely. Safety means knowl-
edge in most instances.
Gardening
The raising of flowers and food-
stuffs for pleasure and profit cer-
tainly dates back to the beginning
of man's habitation on this earth.
Modern developments and chemical
aids enable one to do ,this now bet-
ter than ever before.
It can be suggested, however, that
the very chemical agents which
purge the soils of parasites, rid the
plants of bugs and insects, and free
them from fungi and molds also
have effectively booby trapped the
garden, the garage, and the base-
ment. Despite a tremendous effort
on the part of the manufacturers,
each year there still occur unneeded
deaths and mishaps from the care-
less and improper use of these
agents.
When using garden insecticides
and fumigants, gardeners should be
sure young children are not where
they can inhale spray or dust drift.
Insecticides can be harmful if they
come in contact with the skin. It
is wise to wash hands and face im-
mediately after using sprays and
dusts.
Directions should be followed
implicitly. Store in a place inac-
cessible to children and those who
do not understand their use. Pad-
locks are cheaper than doctor bills.
Injuries from power lawn mowers
are increasing. The rotary mower
is the most dangerous. Any object
which is thrust into the blades is
cut horizontally. Wear heavy shoes
to protect toes in case you back up
the mower too far. All twigs and
stones, bits of glass, metal, or wood
should be cleared away before mow-
ing, as they may be lethal weapons
when caught and thrown by the
blade. Careful instructions regard-
ing the safe operation of a mower
should be given by the seller and.
carried out by the operator.
Suggestions for Making
the Yard Safer
Stumps, uneven places, holes, and
protruding rocks should be elimi-
nated. They can cause falls. Garden
tools, hose, rakes, and digging forks
can cause permanent injuries if left
where people can stumble over
them.
The clothesline should be high
enough for an adult to walk under.
Guy wires for newly planted trees
should be plainly marked. Heavy
bird baths or statuary should be well
anchored in the ground to avoid
danger of pulling them over. Sprink-
ler heads should be low enough to
prevent tripping.
Firearms
Ownership of firearms has always
been a popular hobby for purposes
of hunting or target shooting. Evi-
dence of the dangers of this hobby
exists in two to three thousand
accidental firearm deaths in the
United States each year.
The majority of deaths from fire-
arms occur, not in the field in search
of game or on the target range, but
in the home. These seem especially
treacherous since one-fifth to one-
fourth of these deaths involve chil-
dren under fourteen years of age.
Guns discharged by persons play-
ing with them or pointing them in
fun account for more than one-
fourth of all deaths from firearms.
Many fatalities result from weapons
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going off while they are being
cleaned or loaded or while thev are
being demonstrated or examined.
Toy gnns or B B guns may also be
dangerous.
Air rifles at elose range
can be \cxy powerful and cause seri-
ous damage. Cap guns and explod-
ing caps can cause serious burns.
Many communities now ban their
use.
Bow guns or bows and arrows can
be dangerous both to the user and
to other persons. Use a soft, heavy
target and be sure no one is in the
range of fire. Slingshots or anything
that shoots rocks or sharp objects is
very dangerous to bystanders. Eye
injuries have often been caused by
these sharp objects shot from slings.
Kite FJving
Kite flying is a happy activity
which can turn to tragedv if good
safetv rules are not followed. Points
that should be observed are:
1. Never use metal or wire in the frames
or tail, and ne\er nse ^^'ire, tinsel, or twine
with a metallic substance for the kite
string.
2. Ne\er cross streets or highways when
flying kites.
3. Never flv kites in damp weather be-
cause wet string can conduct electricity.
4. Keep a\\'ay from radio and TV
aerials and power lines when flying kites.
If a kite gets tangled in high tension wires,
make no attempt to get it loose, and never
touch any fallen wires.
Do-Jt-YourseJf Safety
Use only the right tools for the
job. Remember that all portable
power tools must be electrically
grounded. Keep your workshop
floor clean. Oil, sawdust, scrap
lumber are potential hazards as well
as fire traps. A steel sha\'ing, which
flies from a grinding machine, or a
sliver, when a do-it-yourself fan is
careless at his electric saw, may
cause blindness and severe injuries.
When using power tools, read op-
erating directions carefully before
use and follow them. Eye shields
or safety glasses are a must when
chips might fly. Keep your hands
away from moving parts. Better still,
disconnect the power and wait until
moving parts have stopped, in clear-
ing away debris. Guards are placed
on machinery for your protection,
use them. Keep children away
while you work, and be sure they
don't experiment with machinery
when you are not around. Lock up
the power supply and cutting tools.
Water Sport Hazards
Many cities are passing laws to
protect children from falling into
swimming pools on home premises,
requiring fences usually at least four
feet high with self-closing gates and
self-latching devices. Every swim-
ming pool should be equipped with
life preservers, and every one should
be taught how to use them.
Lily ponds should be covered
with wire coverings. Accidents, the
biggest killer and crippler of chil-
dren and adults, are preventable.
Accidents are caused; they do not
just happen. The truth is that most
accidents in the homes could be
avoided with a little care, common
sense^ and information.
Questions
1. What are some of the most common
garden hazards?
2. Could 30ur sewing machine be a
safety hazard?
J^iterature — America's Literature —
A New Nation Speaks
Lesson 13— Two Eighteenth-Century Observers: Byrd and Crevecoeur
Elder Biiant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 73-83; 127-136)
For Tuesday, February 16, i960
Objective: To contrast two evaluations of early American character.
npRAVEL has ever been a great four-dimensional: (a) we are at
educator and liberator. The lure home in a new natural setting; (b)
of ''new country" has always proved we meet a new culture at firsthand;
an irresistible challenge to certain (c) by the subjects of their corn-
venturesome souls, while country ments and the interpretations they
''new to me" even to this day must gi\e, we come to know the observers
be seen by many descendants of better than what they observe; (d)
explorers just as soon as can be after because they wrote personally and
they begin hovering over unfolded accurately, by reading them we can
maps with forefinger extended, and "break the time-barrier" and live
finally utter the fatal phrase, 'TVe both then and now.
never been there." But once on the
way, of what does "seeing the coun- WiUiam Byid (1674-1744) (Text,
try" consist? If we are alert and pp 17, 73-83.)
growing, each time we make the So magnificently does William
same trip it is uniquely new. And Byrd S}mbolize the mvth of the
to hear the same trip described by Cavalier Gentleman of the pre-Rev-
another is to make us wonder if we olutionary South that it is difficult
were there at all, particularly if the to see through honor and accom-
observer sees and loves people rath- plishment to discover the person be-
er than precipices and picture post- neath. Yet the reward of knowing
cards only. him more than justifies the effort.
William Byrd and Michel Guil- Since half his years were spent in
laume Jean de Crevecoeur loved England, half in America, either cul-
nature, observed her keenly, and ture might claim him as its own;
were at home out-of-doors, but their rather it was he who could with
true interests lay in the people they comfort claim them both. Sent to
saw: how they lived; what they be- England at age seven to begin ac-
lieved; what form of society, com- quiring the education and breeding
merce, and government they erected of a gentleman, he was entirely at
to serve their desires best. home in London, Paris, and Hol-
Therefore, as we peer over their land, until at the death of his father,
shoulders to read their journals as he was called home at age thirty-
they write, our reward is at least one to inherit his estate of 26,000
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WILLIAM BYRD
acres and become one of Virginia's
first gentlemen. In London he had
studied law at the Middle Temple,
absorbed Pope and Swift, and was
an inthiiate friend of the leading
dramatists of the day, Congreve and
W3/cherly.
He toved with the idea of becom-
ing a man of letters, and wrote some
satirical \'erses in the style of the
day which still survive. For his
excellent description of an albino
Negro, he was asked to join the
Royal Society, a connection which
he prized throughout his life, just
as he prized his many scientific and
cultivated friends in England with
whom he kept up an intimate cor-
respondence until his death in 1744
at age seventy.
He returned three times to rep-
resent the colony of Virginia at the
court of England, sometimes stay-
ing ''at home" for several years.
Thus, because his version of a
''Bible Commonwealth" continued
to remain in Mother England, and
because he had no feelings toward
England but loyalty, affection, and
enjoyment, he was far more the
Englishman in America than were
either the Puritans, the Quakers, or
the mixed founders of the Middle
Colonies.
In large measure William Byrd
loved Virginia because he had suc-
ceeded in bringing so much of his
English life there. The mansion
he built at Westover on the James
River stands today as one of the
loveliest country estates in Virginia.
(See Text, page 15.) Though his
lavish manner of living cost him
dearly, and for a time placed him in
heavy debt, he furnished his home
with elegant carved furniture, drapes,
sculpture, and personally commis-
sioned oil paintings of many of his
English friends. His personal li-
brary of 3,600 volumes was second
in size only to Cotton Mather's;
that he used it constantly is proved
not only by his many allusions to
classical culture in his writings, but
by his average day, as recorded in
his secret diary, published for the
first time after 1940:
January 27, 1711 I rose at 5 o'clock
and reacl two chapters in Hebrew and
some Greek in Lucian. I said my prayers
and ate boiled milk for breakfast. I
danced my dance. It rained all night but
held up about 8 o'clock this morning. My
sick people were all better, thank God
Almighty. I settled several accounts; then
I read some English which ga\e me great
light into the nature of spirit. I ordered
Tom to plant some (i-c-s) seed. I ate
goose giblets for dinner. In the afternoon
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my wife and I took a little walk and then
danced together. Then I read some more
English. At night I read some Italian
and then played at piquet with my wife.
... I said my prayers and had good health,
good thoughts, and good humor, thank
God Almighty.
A lifetime member of the Su-
preme Council, a sort of senate
composed of a few wealthy Vir-
ginians, he died as its president. He
was receiver of the king's revenues.
The founder of Richmond and
Petersburg, he added 150,000 acres
to his estate during his lifetime.
Byid's Character
The code of a gentleman to
which William Byrd paid supreme
honor has much to recommend it,
for he achieved a tolerance and an
understanding for the viewpoints of
others which often opposed the in-
terests of his own class and station.
Although a faithful member of the
Church of England, he had sym-
pathy for Catholic France and
Spain's stern attitude toward Indian
and Negro, even while he, a slave-
owner, hoped for a democracy en-
compassing all colors of people.
Himself a wealthy aristocrat, he
nevertheless suffered with the poor-
er classes of people and with those
surveyors wading through the aguish
green desert of the Dismal Swamp,
so brackish and humid-hot that in
their sixty-five miles of anguish they
found no animal life whatsoever,
not even birds.
An American gentleman, William
Byrd was ''the constant enemy of
all exorbitant power, and hearty
friend to the liberties of his coun-
try." Most important, life for Colo-
nel Byrd was good here and now,
and heartily to be enjoyed. Respon-
sible, keen, creative, and just, both
in his own business interests as in
his relations with others, his great-
est literary achie\ ement was to take
the portrait of a primitive, savage
country, spicing his account with
irony, sparkling wit, and humor, and
employing his smooth narrative and
dramatic powers to good advantage.
Though it be trivial or tragic, he
softened the edge of his world with
humor, which verifies his gentle-
manly qualities of judgment and
draws us to him.
The History oi the Dividing Line
Published for the first time in
1841, almost a century after his
death, his journal. The History of
the Dividing Line, tells of Mr.
Byrd's experiences while surveying
the boundary separating Virginia
from North Carolina, to which place
all the dregs of humanity had
escaped. In his other journals we
find his apt phrase combined with
his insight into people, as when he
went on an inspection tour of his
lumber mills and found them ''both
standing as still for the want of
water, as a dead woman's tongue,
for want of breath.'' He knowingly
defined man as "so very pliable a
thing, and frail, when women have
the bending of him." He ever
pokes gentle fun at husbands domi-
nated by their wives, at ministers
who seem to preach only for pay,
and at the backwoods inhabitants
of "lubberland" too lazy to be re-
sponsible:
The Men, for their Parts, just like the
Indians, impose all the Work upon the
poor Women. They make their Wives
rise out of their Beds early in the Morn-
ing, at the same time that they lye and
Snore, till the Sun has run one third of
his course, and dispcrst all the unwhole-
some Damps. Then, after Stretching and
Yawning for half an Hour, they light
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their Pipes, and, under the Protection of
a cloud of Smoak, \enture out into the
open Air; tho, if it happens to be never
so httle cold, they quickly return Shiver-
ing into the Chimney corner. WHicn the
weather is mild, they stand leaning with
both their arms upon the corn-field fence,
and gravel}' consider whether they had
best go and take a Small Heat at the
Hough [Hoe]: but generally find reasons
to put it off till another time (Text, pp.
80-81).
He tells of wolf-pits dug so deep
that ''When a Wolf is once tempt-
ed into them, he can no more Scram-
ble out again, than a Husband who
has taken the Leap can Scramble
out of Matrimony." Everywhere he
sees human foibles, which he ac-
knowledges with a light touch,
which makes him one of our
earliest, delightful writers.
Michel Guilhume Jean
de Crevecoeur (1735-1813)
Quite commonly the best way to
find truth is to import someone to
point out to us exactly what it is.
and precisely the spot under our
very noses where it can be found.
Before Crevecoeur the American
species did not exist because no one
had bothered to define it, even
though specimens of it were walk-
ing about everywhere. Though the
literary contribution of this observer
of early Americana is not large, it
is vital. And just as Byrd was an
English aristocrat living in Virginia,
yet slowly made into a new person
by ''the silent pressure of environ-
ment," so was Crevecoeur always
the Frenchman, spending the last
twenty-three years of his life in his
native Normandy and the capitals
of Europe. But he was also aware
of the new way of thinking which
he had found only in America. Sure-
ly he depicted it with such emotion-
al power only because he first felt
these new surges of power within
himself first of all. When he writes
his memorable question, "What is
an American?" he himself best
exemplifies the answer.
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His Life Pattern
Born in Caen (kan), Normandy
in 1735, Crevecoeur was educated in
France and England. At nineteen
he was a soldier in the French army.
He was wounded at the battle for
Quebec, lost his lieutenancy, and
became a naturalized colonist. As
a surveyor he traveled through the
Ohio Valley and the Great Lakes
region as far west as Detroit. In
1769, when he was thirty-four years
of age, he married and settled down
on a farm in Orange County, New
York, where he lived for eleven
years.
When the Revolution broke out,
he was caught between the two fac-
tions. A gentle, peace-loving man,
he had come to hate war above all
else; furthermore, he had pledged
his allegiance to Britain. Yet Eng-
land was his mother country's tra-
ditional enemy, and he feared
reprisals from his neighbors, if he
turned active Tory. Imprisoned for
two months by Royalist forces who
suspected his motives, he fled in
confusion to England, then France,
leaving behind his farm and family.
When he published his Letters
From an American Farmer in 1782,
he became a literary lion in the
salons of Paris, where Rousseau's
dreams of the ''noble savage" led
the romantic French to see in Creve-
coeur and his American experience
the embodiment of such an idea.
Through the influence of Benjamin
Franklin and his French friends,
he, this ''sauvage American," was
appointed consul to the United
States. Upon his return to New
York he found his farm burned by
Indians, his wife dead, and his chil-
dren missing, but within the year
he located them in Boston where
they v^'cre being reared bv a sympa-
thetic family. He worked hard to
keep alive a strong friendship be-
tween the two nations, and returned
to Europe for the last time in 1790
when he was fifty-five, remaining
in Normandy, Paris, London, and
Munich until his death twenty-
three years later. At his death he
left three folios of unpublished
writings, almost all of them dealing
with his American vears as a colonial
farmer, for there his heart most
truly lay.
Crcvecoems Beliefs
Crc\'ecocur was a sentimentalist,
and idealist, and a romantic. With
his feelings his only guide, he caught
the overwhelming feeling of pride
in possessing his own land and run-
ning it as he pleased; the goal which
for so long had been the fondest
hope of land-hungry, oppressed
masses of Europeans. Like Frank-
lin and Jefferson, he believed that
the farmer was the most important
man in the young Nation's future,
since it was he who lived nearest
to nature as he made her produce
food to sustain all men. Further-
more, because of this intimate
relation with nature, the farmer was
more independent, and enjoyed
greater freedom from the corrupting
influences of cities, governments,
and organized religion. He loved
peace and order above all else, and
was \itally interested in the humani-
tarian movements of the day which
would abolish slavery, financial
greed, rebellion of the poor, mobs
against their masters, and war. A
friend truly said of him that he
was a "philanthropist, a man of
serene temperament and pure be-
nevolence. The milk of human
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Ivinclness circulates in everv vein/'
One of our most staunch early
environmentalists, he wrote his lyri-
cal praises of America because here
alone he saw working the ideal en-
vironment, which in turn produced
his ideal American. As he wrote
in his Letters:
Men are like plants; the goodness and
fla\onr of the fruit proceeds from the
peculiar soil and exposition in ^^•hich they
grow. We are nothing but what we
derixe from the air we breathe, the cli-
mate we inhabit, the go\ernment we obey,
the system of religion we profess, and the
mode of our employment (Text, page
131).
We suspect Crevecoeur of being
something of a literary poseur when
we learn of his intention early in
the progress of the uncomfortable
Revolutionary War to escape with
his family to the unspoiled, primi-
tive West to live in a tepee in
splendid simplicity next to nature,
but ending up instead by leaving his
family ( for what reasons we cannot
know with certainty) for the lux-
urious, aristocratic salons of Paris.
We must agree that this sentiment
is cxcessi\e when he weeps at the
destruction of a beaver dam, even
more so when he envisions the
beavers weeping, too, but we must
also recall that it was not such mop-
ing which has earned him a perma-
nent place in American literature.
Acknowledging Crevecoeur's
faults, let us turn to his more suc-
cessful use of emotion as phrased
in his third letter from his book
Letters From an American Farmer.
It is in his informal essay, "What
is an American?" that we find stated
the two great concepts which Creve-
coeur gave to our tradition: the re-
lation of the frontier to our Nation's
growth and welfare, and America
as the great melting-pot out of
which a new type of man emerges.
''What Is an American?"
John Smith was rhapsodic in his
praises of the New World lushness
and productivity, but he was rashly
premature. Benjamin Franklin en-
visioned a future America grown
great upon her agriculture, but he
farmed for a few years only, and
then was a scientist. His Auto-
biography is written as a product of
the city; it tells only of urban chal-
lenge and success. Therefore, Cre-
vecoeur becomes indispensable, and
it was his hymn to agriculture
which first gave enduring body to
one of the central and most endur-
ing American beliefs. He warns in
gratitude against two dangers the
independent farmer has escaped:
the tyrannies of European govern-
ment and the dangerous chaos of
the trapping, hunting frontier, lying
as far removed from law and order
as from the benevolent influence of
the ordered, peaceful farmer's life.
Writing of a people and a time
when nine out of ten workers were
engaged in agriculture, his 'AVhat
is an American?" is the word equiva-
lent to Edward Hicks' famous series
of paintings depicting agricultural
tranquillity entitled 'The Peaceable
Kingdom." His praises of Ameri-
ca's virtues are not modest, but his
words are moving. Those who read
them in America were proud; those
who read them abroad often were
moved either to jealousy or action,
for very nearly he describes a mortal
millennium, as the following ran-
dom excerpts show:
What a train of pleasing ideas this fair
spectacle must suggest; it is a prospect
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\\'liich must inspire a good citizen with
the most heartfelt pleasure. . . . The rich
and the poor are not so far removed from
each other as they are in Europe. Some
few towns are excepted, we are all tillers
of the earth. . . . We are all animated
with the spirit of an industry which is
unfettered and unrestrained, because each
person works for himself. A pleasing uni-
formity of decent competence appears
throughout our habitations. . . . There,
on a Sunday, he sees a congregation of
respectable farmers and their wives, all
clad in neat homespun, well mounted, or
riding in their own humble wagons. . . .
We have no princes, for whom we toil,
starve, and bleed: we are the most perfect
society now existing in the world. Here
man is free as he ought to be . . . (Text,
page 129).
Defining this as ''every person's
country" where ''there is room
enough for everybody/' he answers
his question, "What is an Ameri-
can?"
He is an American, who, leaving behind
him all his ancient prejudices and manners,
receives ne^^• ones from the new mode of
life he has embraced, the new government
he obeys, and the new rank he holds.
He becomes an American by being received
in the broad lap of our great Alma Mater.
Here indi\iduals of all nations are melted
into a new race of men, \\hose labours and
posterity will one dav cause great changes
in the world. . . . The American is a new
man, who acts upon new principles; he
must therefore entertain new ideas, and
form new opinions. From involuntary idle-
ness, ser\ile dependence, penury, and
useless labour, he has passed to toils of a
verv different nature, rewarded by ample
subsistence. — This is an American (Text,
pp. 130-131).
Noting that the "rich stay in
Europe/' he recognizes the hmits of
the poor and middhng European
when first he arrives.
. . . but he very suddenly alters his scale;
two hundred miles formerly appeared a
very great distance, it is now but a trifle;
he no sooner breathes our air than he
forms schemes, and embarks in the designs
he never would ha\e thought of in his
own country (Text, page 133).
Succeeding in his endeavors he
feels pride in his success, and:
. . . becomes as it were a member of
the family. He begins to feel the effect
of a sort of resurrection; hitherto he had
not lived, but simply vegetated; he now
feels himself a man, because he is treated
as such; the laws of his own country had
overlooked him in his insignificancy; the
laws of this cover him with their mantle
. . . his heart involuntarily swells and
glows; this first swell inspires him with
those new thoughts which constitute an
American (Text, page 133).
Crevecoeur was a successful man
of feeling. He felt deeply— some-
times rashly, but often truly, at
least truly enough to move the
hearts of those who have found in
his words their own glow of pride
and well-being as they attempt to
express how they feel toward Ameri-
ca. It was he who first saw how
our American environment melts all
people into one; it was his prose
which first expressed the concept
Emma Lazarus incorporated into
her poem which is now emblazoned
on the base of the Statue of Liberty:
Give me your tired, your poor.
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe
free.
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed,
to me:
I lift my lamp beside the golden door.
Thoughts for Discussion
1. From Byrd's style of writing, how
might one surmise that he had spent his
most impressionable years in London?
2. Did he describe the inhabitants of
the North Carolina ''Lubberland" to be-
little them?
3. Why is it important to remember
that Crevecoeur was a farmer?
4. What did Crevecoeur find peculiarly
new about an American?
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Social Science — Spiritual Living
in the Nuclear Age
Lesson 4— The Individual and Religious Maturity — Part I
Elder BJaine M. Porter
For Tuesday, February 23, i960
Objective: To consider some criteria of religious maturity and the role of religious
maturity in spiritual living.
npHE task of carefully and ob-
jectively analyzing the criteria
and role of religious maturity will
probably be our greatest challenge
in this course of study. As was
pointed out in a previous lesson, an
individual grows and develops in
many different ways from infancy
through adulthood. We grow and
mature physically, intellectually, so-
cially, emotionally, and religiously.
Most of us achieve our full physical
stature and maturity with little or
no difficulty, thanks to sufficient
food supplies and adequate medical
services. The general availability of
educational facilities and the great
variety of communication media in
the world of today stimulate the in-
tellectual maturing processes for
almost all of us. Perhaps because
less attention has been given to the
processes whereby social and emo-
tional maturity are achieved, more
of us fail to experience the poten-
tialities which are within us in these
areas than is true in our physical
and intellectual development. In
spite of the universality of religious
philosophies, it is the opinion of
many students of human behavior
that more of us are retarded in our
growth toward religious maturity
than in any of the above mentioned
areas.
Perhaps this can be explained by
recognizing that as we emerge from
childhood w^e give up the self-cen-
teredness of thought and feelings
only under pressure. Ordinarily,
environmental pressure does not re-
quire a maturity of religious outlook
as forcefully as it does other forms
of maturity, because an individual's
religion is usually regarded by others
as his own business. It is easy for
us to remain self-centered and wish-
fulfilling. Hence, in probably no
other area of our maturing processes
do we find so many residues of child-
hood as in the religious attitude of
adults.
Religious Maturity— An Invitation
to Inner Growth
The true gospel of Jesus Christ
is not a religion consisting of
essentially juvenile formulations, but
rather a religion which encourages
the individual to develop all the
characteristically human powers
within him. When Jesus of Naza-
reth said, ''Be ye therefore perfect,
even as your Father which is in
heaven is perfect" (Mt. 5:48), he
was extending an invitation to ma-
turity. The world of his time
could not understand his mature
insight. The insight, in fact, so
flatly contradicted the contemporary
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conception of power, authority, and
privileges of the ruling class, that
those who were bred in those con-
ceptions angrily crucified him. In
his Sermon on the Mount and many
other teachings, he tried to get the
people to see that their way of life
was no true path to happiness, but,
rather, the ''abundant life" consisted
of a repudiation of their pattern":
''Blessed are the meek. . . . Blessed
are the merciful. . . . Blessed are the
pure in heart. . . . Blessed are the
peacemakers . . .'' (Mt. 5:5, 7-9).
"It is more blessed to give than to
receive . . ." (Acts 20:35). "There-
fore all things ^^'hatsoever ye would
that men should do to you, do ye
even so to them . . /' (Mt. 7:12)..
Some Basic Assumptions
Religious maturity is built not
only upon beliefs (faith) but also
upon behavior (work). It is direct-
ly related to, if not dependent upon,.
the parallel development of emo-
tional maturity. Certainly, such
characteristics or attributes as ac-
ceptance of self and others; adapta-
bility and flexibility; orientation to
environment; an integrated phi-
losophy of life; acceptance of
responsibilities and knowledge must
be present in order for the religious,
maturing process to occur. (See
Lesson 2.) Accepting this premise,
then, we can proceed in our efforts
of growing towards emotional ma-
turity and religious maturity to-
gether.
Perhaps it might be well, also, to
state that our consideration of
religious maturity will be based up-
on the assumption that religion has
the potentialities for accomplishing
the greatest good in the lives of
individuals and for mankind in gen-
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eral. This assumption is stated as
a protective measure against those
who might cite that rehgion has
been responsible for such tragedies
and inhumanities of man to man as
war, inquisitions, persecutions, burn-
ing of witches at the stake, bigotry,
and prejudice. The fact that some
human beings cloak their activities
of unrighteousness and inhumanity
under the guise of religion does not
reflect upon religion itself.
As we proceed now in an attempt
to establish some criteria of religious
maturity, let us recognize that this
maturity cannot be gauged by a
predetermined standard of belief or
practice with which we are personal-
ly pleased or to which we personally
subscribe. To say that a person is
not mature because he does not
have the same religious views as do
we, and to impose our views as a
test of maturity would be imperti-
nent. This point is illustrated in
the following statement by Presi-
dent McKay, 'AVe believe the scrip-
tures to be true, but it is the
responsibility of every Latter-day
Saint to interpret them for himself."
Let us now consider some criteria
of religious maturity.
Criteria of Religious Maturity
1. Knowledge and awareness oi
''the abundant life." The religious-
ly mature person must assume re-
sponsibility for gaining all the
knowledge he possibly can regarding
the context of "the abundant life"
as taught and exemplified by the
Savior, and the direction in which
he must move in order to achieve it.
He sees it as a growing process and
recognizes that progression in the
direction of achieving "the abundant
life" comes through diligent study,
reflective thinking, and communion
with the Creator. Some symptoms
of religious immaturity in this re-
spect are represented by those who
try to take over an ancestral religion
much as they take over the family
jewels. These individuals are those
who believe that by some process of
inheritance from their parents or
magical accomplishment of God
they will automatically know and
understand the content and process
of ''the abundant life." They are
ones who uncritically accept the
teachings of their parents with the
attitude that "what is good enough
for my father is good enough for
me." Such individuals may be con-
spicuous in memorizing passages of
scripture and cliches, but they often
fail to internalize or make religious
beliefs a part of themselves.
The term "internalize" is used here to
mean making a part of one's self. To
illustrate: A teen-ager may have been
told, during his early years of childhood
and adolescence, by parents, teachers,
bishops, and General Authorities, that
sexual morality is an important part of
the gospel of Christ. He may have
learned his lessons well enough that he
is able to repeat these teachings in Sun-
day School classes, in two-and-one-half
minute talks, and in private conversations.
But this is not proof that he has made
this particular teaching a part of his life
or that he will conduct his behavior by
this standard. Unless he has thorough-
ly examined it within his own thinking,
he has not necessarily made it a part of his
code of living. When someone is en-
ticed to follow a course of action con-
trary to the teachings of the Church, the
words may come to his mind that he
should not do this because his parents
said he shouldn't or his bishop said he
shouldn't, etc. But there may come an
occasion in his life when this will not be
sufficient to guard against the temptations
\\hich may be set before him. A person
in such circumstances may finally say, "I
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don't care if my teacher did say this, I
want to do otherwise."
On the other hand, if a person has care-
fully, objectively, and prayerfidly analyzed
this concept or teaching and has arrived
at the conclusion that he is going to fol-
low the course of action stated by the
teachings of the Church — not just be-
cause his parents, teachers, bishops, or
General Authorities have said to, hut be-
cause this is the kind of person he wants
to be, he can then say "no" to an in\ita-
tion more easily and more convincingly
because he then is doing what he wants
to do, not what someone else wants him
to do. When he has arrived at this stage
of thinking, he has "internalized" or made
a part of himself this particular belief.
To be more explicit. Certainly it is
appropriate, and perhaps the only way
during the early years, when children are
growing and developing, that we must
teach them and expect them to conduct
their behavior in a line with our teaching,
because we have said so. But as a person
moves toward adulthood, he must move
beyond conforming to other people's
standards, if he is going to move toward
religious maturity. This same principle
applies to many other teachings of Mor-
monism which could just as easily ha\e
been used to illustrate this point, such as
honesty, Word of Wisdom, tithing, etc.
There is nothing in the teachings
of Christ which even hints that '*the
abundant life" is accomplished
through indulgence or ease of liv-
ing. Rather his teachings in all
respects are a challenge to every
individual and he made it clear that
each person is responsible for his
own acts and for achieving his own
salvation. Christ set an example
for us. He taught us the principles
of Christian living. He died in
order that our sins might be forgiven
and new opportunities provided for
us. He made it clear that he was
opening the door to us for these
opportunities, but that it is our
responsibility to achieve them.
Man in his spiritual life is a seek-
er of the best, a seeker of values. In
contrast to this, we see man in his
intellectual life being a seeker of
facts. Both are desirable.
2. Spiritual freedom. President
McKay described the intellectual
and spiritual hills which he believes
will lead to happiness.
The first hill that we ascend I shall
name SouJ Freedom. There cannot be
happiness without free agency. If the
soul feels circumscribed, harassed, or en-
slaved by something or somebody, there
cannot be true progress. That is why
some of the nations today are wrong, and
some day in the future will have to change
their policv. God intends men to be free.
With that decision we turn around on
the hill Soul Freedom and see an extended
view. Within us is a sense of strcngtli
and confidence. There is hope; there is
exhilaration. We are independent and
we can make the best of our lives (McKay,
David O.: Pathways to Happiness, pp.
xii-xiii) .
If the individual is to be encour-
aged or even permitted to experience
the potentialities within him for
spiritual living and religious ma-
turity, he must have an environ-
ment in which he can exercise his
freedom of the soul. A social en-
vironment which seeks to enforce
conformity of thinking and which is
highly critical of spiritual explora-
tion would appear to discourage the
freedoms which God intended man
to have.
Religion does ill if it clings to old
interpretations of human life simply be-
cause it has built these into re\ered institu-
tions and practices. Where a being as com-
plex and inadequately known as our own
nature is being dealt \\'ith, there is need
for a constant alertness to new discoveries
and implications. For this is precisely what
man appears to be: A mind on the way
to knowing more than it has known he-
fore. Today, we discover more in our-
selves than was hitherto even suspected
(Overstreet, Harry A.: The Mature Mind,
page 265. W. W. Norton & Company
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3. Growth toward wholeness.
The ''spiritual life" is a balanced
life in which one does not overdo
some phases of li\ing to the serious
neglect of others. The religiously
mature person develops the ability
to see things in perspective so that
he does not find himself "caught
in the web" of minor details, sta-
tistics, rules, rituals, etc., with the
result that basic principles are for-
gotten or omitted. In colloquial
terms, he does not lose sight of the
forest for the trees.
Religious maturity includes a
total outreach and all-inclusiveness
and the religious philosophv of The
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints certainly represents outreach
and inclusiveness. This can be il-
lustrated by such organizations with-
in the structure of the Church
as the R^slief Society, YWMIA,
YMMIA, Simday School, and Pri-
mary, which, through their very
unique programs, contribute to the
intellectual, spiritual, and social wel-
fare of their members. The Church
Welfare Program serves specific
needs and is an "outreach" to pro-
vide services and opportunity to
give, as well as to provide security
for those in need. The more recent
inauguration of the "Be Honest
With Yourself" posters which have
been displayed in Church buildings
and Church schools throughout the
world represent outreach and all-
inclusiveness.
Life, for the religiouslv mature
person, then, consists of growth to-
ward wholeness. Perhaps this is
what Paul had in mind when he
said:
LESSON DEPARTMENT
781
When I was a child, I spake as a child,
I understood as a child, I thought as a
child: but when I became a man, I put
away childish things (I Corinthians
13:11).
If all life is to be related to a
common source, then we must work
toward integrating our understand-
ing of it; we must recognize the
need of orienting our religious faith
and background to the expanding
world in which we live. 'As we seek
to explain the relationship between
our experience and God, we must
find in life an integrated and har-
monious pattern. As part of achiev-
ing religious maturity, then, one is
able to integrate modern scientific
thoughts and discoveries with his
religious concepts.
We do not wish to imply that the
religiously mature person can fully
integrate and explain all aspects of
life. There are bound to be many
areas in which he will lack under-
standing, but the religiously mature
person has thought about these diffi-
culties and problems; he has not
turned away from them or admitted
easy solutions that are not consistent
with the facts he knows. He is
striving toward wholeness. He is
developing a comprehensive phi-
losophy of life which provides
coherence to the world about him
and enables him to make his life
harmonious with it.
Thoughts ioi Discussion
1. What kinds of experiences promote
the development of religious maturity?
2. What kinds of experiences hinder
the development of religious maturitv?
3. What are some illustrations of re-
ligious maturity in the teachings of
Jesus?
4. Consider how the teachings of the
Latter-day Saint Church contribute to the
development of rehgious maturity.
5. In what ways do immature religious
practices and beliefs perpetuate them-
selves?
Supplementary References
McKay, David O.r "Spirituality, The
Goal in Life," The Impro\'ement Era,
December 1956, pp. 914-915.
McKay, David O.: 'To Know God,"
The Improvement Era, June 1957, p^ge^
McKay, David O.: 'The Eternal \^ir-
tues," The Improvement Era, February
1957^ PP- 77-78-
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*'. . . When Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea in the days of Herod the king, behold
there came wise men from the east. ..."
From out the orient hills in haste they come
To seek a nameless Prince whose star shall rise
From out the shadowed kingdoms of the earth
To shine forever in the eastern skies.
The Magi move by ancient prophecy
Against the columns of a lesser law,
And know of chariots in the aisles of time
More brief than those the Medes and Persians saw.
(Swift their shadows pass,
Swift as a blade on seeded grass. . . .)
Perhaps where sceptered Nineveh is dust,
The thrones departed and the temples gone,
They cross the channeled rivers of the plain
And mark the walls of shattered Babylon.
(Oh, hurried travelers on the path of stone,
Seek the tall gate, seek the hill town.)
Dividers of the stars and keepers of the spheres,
Moving through shadows in a cone of light.
They come unto the high Judean hills
With haste, across the broken fields of night. . . .
(Oh, men of earth,
Listen to the words again —
As wise men heard them long ago,
''Good will — good will to men.")
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July 1958; Lesson 3 on Roger Williams
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I must tell you how I enjoy the beauty
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on a large farm, such pictures return many
precious experiences. The poems "Yet
Beauty Comes" by Iris \V. Schow, and
"These Cool Acres" (frontispiece) by
Dorothy J. Roberts in the October issue
truly feed my soul, and I enjoyed "A" Is
for Apron by Ilene H. Kingsbuiy — pio-
neer strength and beauty we need to haxe
recalled. The editorials are always very
fine indeed, "A Standard for Govern-
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given, and the lovely editorial "Establish-
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Sharp, in October) is so much needed.
When I read "Making Christmas Orna-
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my family small again and enjoy making
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Apron (August, September, and October
1959). I think Mrs. Kingsbury has done
a very commendable work in using an
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story tells so many things, the time period,
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford ------- President
Marianne C. Sharp ------ First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen --------- Second Counselor
Hulda Parker ------ Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Josie B. Bay Elna P. Haymond Elsa T. Peterson
Edith S. Elliott Christine H. Robinson Annie M. Ellsworth Irene B. Woodford
Florence J. Madsen Alberta H. Christensen Mary R. Young Fanny S. Kienitz
Leone G. Layton Mildred B. Eyring Mary V. Cameron Elizabeth B. Winters
Blanche B. Stoddard Charlotte A. Larsen Afton W. Hunt LaRue H. Resell
Evon W. Peterson Edith P. Backman Wealtha S. Mendenhall Jennie R. Scott
Aleine M. Young V/inniefred S. Pearle M. Olsen
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor - - - - -.- - - - - - - Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor --_-_-__-- Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager --_--_---- Belle S. Spafford
VOL. 46 DECEMBER 1959 NO. 12
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tents
SPECIAL FEATURES
Every Family a Missionary Family Henry D. Moyle 788
Howard William Hunter of the Council of the Twelve Hugh B. Brown 799
Annual General Relief Society Conference Hulda Parker 802
Relief Society Magazine Awarded Cover Citation 805
The Literature of Christmas Mabel Harmer 806
Make This Caller Welcome . . . National Tuberculosis Association 816
FICTION
The Miracle Mile Leola Seely Anderson 817
The New Day — Chapter 3 Hazel K. Todd 830
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 786
Sixty Years Ago 810
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 811
Editorial: The Supreme Gift Marianne C. Sharp 812
The 129th Semi-Annual Church Conference Vesta P. Crawford 813
Notes to the Field; Emergency Orders for Temple-Burial Clothing 815
Notes From the Field; Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 835
Birthday Congratulations 863
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Flower Arrangement — New Fashioned — Old Fashioned Sylvia Pezoldt 815
Apricot Salad Edna Lind Cole 822
Say "Merry Christmas" With Fancy Yeast Rolls Ruby K. Smith 823
Elva M. Tingey Makes Beautiful and Useful Articles With Plastic Foam 829
Fruit Salad Joan Staley 829
When Mothers Sing Leona F. Smith 834
LESSONS FOR MARCH
Theology — And the Kingdom Grew Roy W. Doxey 839
Visiting Teacher Messages — "And The Book of Mormon and the Holy
Scriptures Are Given of Me for Your Instruction" Christine H. Robinson 845
Work Meeting — Safety Precautions in Medicine and Household Items
Charlotte A. Larsen 846
Literature — Thomas Paine, Revolutionist Briant S. Jacobs 848
Social Science — The Individual and Religious Maturity — Part II Blaine M. Porter 855
POETRY
Dividers of the Stars — Frontispiece Vesta P. Crawford 785
To Hold Us Fast Clara Steen Chesnutt 798
No Christmas Here? Maude Rubin 798
These Cliffs Hold Melody Elsie McKinnon Strachan 801
Handel's "Messiah" Hazel Loomis 809
Home Impressions Hannah C. Ashby 816
Night Sky Before Snowfall Eva Willes Wangsgaard 822
Oh, Traveler! Leslie Savage Clark 834
We Walk With Angels Iris W. Schow 838
A Story Never Old Maude O. Cook 860
Winter Bride Vesta N. Lukei 862
Seven Gwen Marler Barney 862
PUBLISHED MONTHLY BY THE GENERAL BOARD OF RELIEF SOCIETY
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Every Family a Missionary Family
President Henry D. Moyle
Of the First Presidency
(Address Delivered at the General Session of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, October -j, 1959)
I'M sure, my brethren and sisters,
especially my sisters today, that
I was never more grateful than
I am today, for the realization that
I have that I continue to live under
and to enjoy the inspiration of my
mother. When we add to that the
inspiration of a good wife, we are
most fortunate of all men, I am
sure.
I have been conscious, as I have
sat here this afternoon, that you
sisters represent the mothers of the
Church. They, in turn, influence
the homes of the Church in which
there are 1,600,000 members of the
Church. The scope and sphere of
your influence are continually grow-
ing and increasing, not only so far
as numbers are concerned, but, I
am sure, that your influence is being
felt progressively to a greater and
greater degree. This must be the
case because of the increase, influ-
ence, and efficiency of the work of
these fine sisters — you all — all the
Relief Society workers of the
Church. So it is little wonder that
when the sisters of the Relief So-
ciety, Sister Spafford, Sister Sharp,
and Sister Madsen, call upon any of
the Priesthood to perform any serv-
ice, we feel it necessary and essen-
tial to put aside all else to render
that service. Now these few thoughts
make me even humbler than I was
when I came in here today to speak
to you, and I pray with the other
speakers that what I have to say will
be helpful and beneficial to us in
the accomplishment of the great
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work of the Relief Society of the
Church.
I start out with a statement found
in this month's Era written by our
beloved President David O. McKay:
''Whate'er thou art, act well thy
part." These words impressed a
lonely, homesick missionary some
fifty-nine years ago and inspired
him to do his duty. Had he not
been reared in a home where the
gospel was lived and taught daily,
he might not have recognized that
he was not doing his duty at the
beginning of his first mission. Presi-
dent McKay tells us this story of
this experience when he was on his
mission in Scotland: His compan-
ion was Peter G. Johnston. They
were discouraged. They had been
snubbed in tracting. They were
homesick. They were walking
around this ancient castle, and, in
the words of President McKay, they
were not doing their duty. That is
hard to imagine isn't it? ''As we
re-entered the town I saw a build-
ing half-finished," President McKay
writes, ''and from the sidewalk to
my surprise I saw an inscription
carved in stone on the lintel of the
front door. I said to Brother John-
ston, 'I want to go over there and
see what that inscription is.' " He
hadn't gone more than halfway un-
til he read these words carved in
stone: "Whate'er thou art, act well
thy part" (David O. McKay, The
Impiovement Era, October 1959,
page 727).
Today our part is to envision the
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future role of the Relief Society, to
be better able to prepare our sisters
for the work of the present. With
such a wish in my heart, I might
in humility say as Alma said an-
ciently:
O that I were an angel, and could have
the wish of mine heart, that I might go
forth and speak with the trump of God,
with a voice to shake the earth, and cry
repentance unto every people!
Yea, I would declare unto every soul,
as with the voice of thunder, repentance
and the plan of redemption, that they
should repent and come unto our God,
that there might not be more sorrow
upon all the face of the earth.
But behold, I am a man, and do sin
in my wish; for I ought to be content
with the things which the Lord hath
allotted unto me (Alma 29:1-3).
A/fUCH as we think we would like
to foresee that which is to
transpire in the future, the likeli-
hood is that to always be fore-
warned, especially too far in advance,
would not always result in our
being forearmed. Nevertheless, the
Lord does inspire and prepare us
in his own way for that which lies
ahead. I call to mind a faith-pro-
moting incident in the life of Wil-
ford Woodruff:
He said that once when he
was visiting up in Randolph, in
Rich County, he was impressed by
the spirit that he should leave for
home, but for one reason or another,
primarily the persuasion of the peo-
ple — they wanted to keep him
there — he delayed his departure
until later in the week. This prompt-
ing of the spirit continued with him
and so he arose toward the end of
the week early one morning, hav-
ing breakfasted, he harnessed his
team and started off across that
bleached country, even worse than
it is now, I am sure, from Ran-
dolph to Wasatch. On his way he
was overtaken by a terrific snow-
storm, blinded, he had to leave it
to the horses to find their own way;
and, finally, in the providence of
the Master, that evening they ar-
rived at Wasatch. He said that
when he got to Wasatch the hubs
of his wheels were under the snow.
He says, '1 think they [the horses]
must have got there by inspiration.
I stayed there until Monday night.
I made up my mind then that when-
ever the Lord told me to do any-
thing I would do it.
''I speak of this," Brother Wood-
ruff says, ''because every man should
get the Spirit of God and then fol-
low its dictates. This is revelation.
It doesn't make any difference what
the spirit tells you to do; it will nev-
er tell vou to do anything that is
wrong.''
Now inasmuch as we do not fore-
see all that we might were our faith
and works greater, we can draw on
our past experiences for the great
help they afford in determining
what our present plans should be.
The past mirrors, in a way, the fu-
ture for us all. The road is plainly
marked out for us. The Prophet
Joseph Smith's statement points out
the way. I think his feelings, por-
trayed in a rather homely way, are
peculiarly fitting for the considera-
tion and the guidance of the Relief
Society sisters. President Smith
said:
I see no faults in the Church, and
therefore let me be resurrected with the
Saints, whether I ascend to heaven or
descend to hell, or go to any other place.
And if we go to hell, we will turn the
devils out of doors and make a heaven
of it. Where this people are, there is
good society. Wliat do we care where we
are, if the society be good? I don't care
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what a man's character is; if he's my
friend — a true friend, I will be a friend
to him, and preach the Gospel of salva-
tion to him, and give him good counsel,
helping him out of his difficulties. . . .
It is a time-honored adage that love
begets love. Let us pour forth love —
show forth our kindness unto all mankind,
and the Lord will reward us with ever-
lasting increase; cast our bread upon the
\^•aters and we shall receive it after many
days, increased to a hundredfold. Friend-
ship is like Brother Turley in his black-
smith shop welding iron to iron; it unites
the human family with its happy influ-
ence (D. H. C. V, page 517).
'M'EVER exact of a friend in ad-
versity what you would require
in prosperity.
... for man, what is he [regardless of
what he demands], he cannot possess him-
self of his own life. . . .
There is one thing under the sun which
I ha\"e learned and that is that . . . the
righteousness of God is just, because it
exacteth nothing at all, but sendeth the
rain on the just and the unjust, seed time
and harvest, for all of which man is un-
grateful (1843), MSS. Historian's Office:
Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith,
page 317).
The best measure or principle to bring
the poor to repentance is to administer
to their wants. The Ladies' Relief Society
is not only to relieve the poor, but to
save souls (D. H. C. V, pp. 24-25).
Whatever degree of excellence we
attain in the society of the Church,
the result must directly reflect the
conditions of the Relief Society.
The Relief Society has always set
the pace. It has always reflected the
best to be found in our homes. It
has been an example toward which
the women of the Church have ad-
vanced in their own individual
homes. It has furnished the in-
spiration which has impelled the
individual members of the group to
progress.
Therefore, our duty today as
mothers in Israel is first of all to
conform our lives strictly to the
principles of the gospel, developing
in the home the spirit and power of
obedience. Obedience to the law
of the home and to the law of God
should be synonymous. Then the
home becomes the place where
the souls of all the family are saved.
The work of this generation is being
built upon the works of the past
and will furnish the foundation up-
on which the next generation can
stand and advance. From our
homes must come the missionaries
of the Church, the quorum presi-
dents, the bishops, the stake presi-
dents, mission presidents, and the
heads of auxiliaries, the General
Authorities of the Church.
Surelv no greater accomplishment
can be achieved in life, no greater
joy experienced than in the mission
field, at home or abroad.
I know that which the Lord hath
commanded me, and I glory in it. I do
not glory of myself, but I glory in that
which the Lord hath commanded me;
yea, and this is my glory, that perhaps I
may be an instrument in the hands of
God to bring some soul to repentance;
and this is my joy.
And behold, when I see many of my
brethren truly penitent, and coming to
the Lord their God, then is my soul filled
with joy; then do I remember what the
Lord has done for me, yea, even that he
hath heard my prayer; yea, then do I
remember his merciful arm which he ex-
tended towards me (Alma 29:9-10).
npHE work of the Relief Society
becomes more and more the
work of saving souls. You are an
instrument in the hands of the Lord,
ordained of the Lord through revela-
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tion to assist in bringing about his
purposes, a great auxiliary to the
Priesthood of God.
For behold, this is my work and my
glory — to bring to pass the immortality
and eternal life of man (Moses 1:39).
The Relief Society aim should be,
Every son a worthy missionary.
The power and influence of the
Church in the world could not be
over-estimated or over-exaggerated if
all our homes were presided over by
returned missionaries who have en-
joyed on their missions the spirit
thereof and retained that same spirit
throughout their lives to bless and
inspire their families.
My sisters, your sons of today will
of necessity be the heads of the
households of Latter-day Saints to-
morrow. You know they will reflect
in their homes and in their conduct,
in large measure, the homes from
whence they came. They will carry
with them through life the spirit,
the attitude, the faith, the teaching,
the example of their mothers. Is not
this the task of the Relief Society
today, to promote faith and virtue
and good works in the homes of the
Latter-day Saints through the in-
fluence of the mothers?
To fulfill our responsibility we
must first learn the principles of the
gospel.
Joseph Smith was not called to
found a new religion nor give to us
a new organization. His whole mis-
sion and that of the Church has
been to recognize and re-establish
that which was anciently given to
man by God, and for the perpetua-
tion of that for which Jesus fulfilled
his mission here in the flesh. The
Church is constantly reassured that
Jesus Christ is its head. The Doc-
trine and Covenants tells us:
Behold, Jesus Christ is the name which
is given of the Father, and there is none
other name given whereby man can be
saved;
Wherefore, all men must take upon
them the name which is given of the
Father, for in that name shall they be
called at the last day (D & C 18:23-24).
'TPHE Lord taught Joseph Smith
that the atonement of Jesus
Christ was sufficient ground work
for the reconciliation of man with
God. He taught that the atone-
ment rendered due satisfaction to
the justice of God for the violation
of his just and holy laws. We are
told by Paul that,
Though he were a Son, yet learned he
obedience by the things which he suffered;
And being made perfect, he became the
author of eternal salvation unto all them
that obey him (Hebrews 5:8-9).
That we might know how to obey
him, he brought to earth the scheme
of things, by which through repent-
ance and the remission of sins man
could return to his former home in
the heavenly kingdom of our Heav-
enly Father. Paul said:
For I am not ashamed of the gospel
of Christ: for it is the power of God
unto salvation to every one that believcth;
to the Jew first, and also to the Greek
(Romans 1:16).
To US all the gospel plan of sal-
vation is given through the mercy
of God born of his great love for us
his children. This is best evidenced
by the writing of John:
For God so loved the world, that he
gave his only begotten Son, that whoso-
ever believcth in him should not perish,
but have everlasting life (John 3:16).
Over and above all, the atone-
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ment of Christ assures us all of par-
ticipation in the resurrection from
the dead. We are all common
heirs to eternal life. Paul said:
If in this life only we have hope in
Christ, we are of all men most miserable.
But now is Christ risen from the dead,
and become the firstfruits of them that
slept.
For since by man came death, by man
came also the resurrection of the dead.
For as in Adam all die, even so in
Christ shall all be made alive (I Corin-
thians 15:19-22).
The words of Nephi throw fur-
ther light upon our status in the
three great spheres of our existence,
our pre-mortal, our mortal, and our
life after death.
And now, behold, if Adam had not
transgressed he would not have fallen,
but he would have remained in the garden
of Eden. And all things which were
created must have remained in the same
state in which they were after they were
created; and they must have remained for-
ever, and had no end.
And thev would have had no children;
wherefore they would ha\e remained in a
state of innocence, ha\'ing no joy, for they
knew no misery; doing no good, for they
knew no sin.
But behold, all things have been done
in the wisdom of him who knoweth all
things.
Adam fell that men might be and men
are, that they might have joy. (2 Nephi
2:22-25).
CUCH is the Plan of Salvation,
which is ours. The restored gos-
pel awaits men's acceptance.
Through obedience to the laws and
principles of the gospel mankind
will be redeemed, even from his
own sins as well as Adam's trans-
gression.
We are constantly aware of the
importance of man. We can never
read the psalmist without appreciat-
ing his importance, for the psalmist
has said:
What is man that thou art mindful
of him?
. . . thou hast made him a little lower
than the angels, and hast crowned him
with glory and honour.
Thou madest him to have dominion
over the works of thy hands; thou hast put
all things under his feet (Psalms 8:4-6).
Joseph Smith was further taught
that in this dispensation of the ful-
ness of times will be gathered to-
gether in one, all things in Christ,
both which are in heaven and
which are in earth, even in him. In
this dispensation God will consum-
mate his work in relation to the re-
demption and salvation of the
world. For this reason it is called
the dispensation of the fulness of
times, and into it flow all other dis-
pensations. In it are revealed all
other knowledge of the principles
to be believed and the ordinances
to be obeyed. All keys of author-
ity and power held by former proph-
ets are once again restored to the
earth.
The atonement of Christ con-
templates saving the lives of the
living and the dead. The new dispen-
sation is a system of philosophy as
well as of religion. Indeed, the true
religion must give us the true phil-
osophy of life. Religion must ap-
peal to the understanding as well
as to the emotional nature of man;
it must measurably satisfy his ration-
al mind as well as fill his spiritual
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longings, quench his thirst for
righteousness.
Many people say, I live a good
life, that is enough. I do not need
your counsel nor your church. There
are many ways to heaven. There are
those who think that the important
thing in religion is to live it rather
than understand it, just as there are
those who think it is better to live
rather than to understand life. But
as a matter of fact, religion in its
most exalted phases cannot be lived
without making reasonably clear to
the understanding the problems of
existence, just as life cannot be
truly lived without some knowledge,
at least, of the near purposes of life.
Joseph Smith himself made no
attempt to create a system of phi-
losophy. At various times he made
utterances of great truth. I quote,
a few of them. "The glory of God
is intelligence." ''It is impossible
for a man to be saved in ignorance."
''Whatever principle of intelligence
we attain unto in this life, it will
rise with us in the resurrection."
'\ . . The elements are eternal. . . .
The elements are the tabernacle of
God; yea, man is the tabernacle of
God, even temples. . . . The ele-
ments are eternal, and spirit and
element, inseparably connected, re-
ceive a fulness of joy."
'T^HE intelligence or spirit had no
beginning, neither will it have
an end. [Jesus] "was in the begin-
ning with the Father." "Man was
also in the beginning with God.
Intelligence, or the light of truth,
was not created or made, neither
indeed can be." ". . . This is my
work and my glory to bring to pass
the immortality and eternal life of
man." "And truth is knowledge of
things as they are, and as they were,
and as they are to come."
Wouldn't it be wonderful if the
world realized the truth of this fol-
lowing revelation of the Prophet:
"All kingdoms have a law given;
And there are many kingdoms; for
there is no space in the which there
is no kingdom. . . . And unto every
kingdom is given a law; and unto
everv law there are certain bounds
also and conditions" (D & G
88:36-38).
Behold, there are many called, but few
are chosen. And why are they not chos-
en?
Because their hearts are set so much
upon the things of this world, and aspire
to the honors of men, that they do not
learn this one lesson —
That the rights of the priesthood are
inseparably connected with the powers of
heaven, and that the powers of heaven
cannot be controlled nor handled only
upon the principles of righteousness.
That they may be conferred upon us,
it is true; but when we undertake to
cover our sins, or to gratifv our pride,
our vain ambition, or to exercise control
or dominion or compulsion upon the souls
of the children of men, in any degree of
unrighteousness, behold, the heavens with-
draw themselves; the Spirit of the Lord is
grieved; and when it is withdrawn. Amen
to the priesthood or the authority of that
man.
Behold, ere he is aware, he is left unto
himself, to kick against the pricks, to
persecute the saints, and to fight against
God.
We have learned by sad experience that
it is the nature and disposition of almost
all men, as soon as they get a Httle
authority, as they suppose, they will im-
mediately begin to exercise unrighteous
dominion.
Hence many are called, but few are
chosen.
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No power or influence can or ought to
he maintained hy virtue of the priest-
hood, only by persuasion, by long-suffer-
ing, by gentleness and meekness, and by
love unfeigned;
By kindness, and pure knowledge,
^^•hich shall greatly enlarge the soul with-
out hypocrisy, and without guile —
Reproving betimes with sharpness,
\\hcn moved upon by the Holy Ghost;
and then showing forth afterwards an in-
crease of love toward him whom thou
hast reproved, lest he esteem thee to be
his enemy;
That he may know that thy faithful-
ness is stronger than the cords of death.
Let thy bowels also be full of charity
towards all men, and to the household of
faith, and let virtue garnish thy thoughts
unceasingly; then shall thy confidence wax
strong in the presence of God; and the
doctrine of the priesthood shall distil
upon thy soul as the dews from heaven.
The Holy Ghost shall be thy constant
companion, and thy scepter an unchang-
ing scepter of righteousness and truth;
and thy dominion shall be an everlasting
dominion, and without compulsory means
it shall flow unto thee forever and ever
(D & C 121:34-46) .
'yRUE philosophy is truth. Phil-
osophy would be greatly helped
in search for truth if it had but a
clear conception of what it was try-
ing to find, hence the importance
of a clear, accurate definition. Truth
leaves philosophy unnecessary. Pi-
late asked Christ, "What is truth?"
Pilate did not understand Christ's
declaration to him. When Pilate
said to him, ''Art thou a king,
then?" Jesus answered: 'Thou say-
est that I am a king. To this end
was I bom, and for this cause came
I into the world, that I should bear
witness unto the truth. Everyone
that is of the truth heareth my
voice" (John 18:37 ff.).
Now Joseph Smith's definition of
truth appeals with irresistible force
to the understanding of man as we
have just indicated from the 93d
Section of the Doctrine and Cove-
nants:
And truth is knowledge of things as
they are, and as they were, and as they
are to come (D & C 93:24).
We all love that hymn which our
Brother John Jaques wrote here in
the early days. It gives us greater
strength to carry on:
Then say, what is truth? 'Tis the last
and the fjrst.
For the limits of time it steps o'er.
Though the heavens depart and the earth's
fountains burst,
Truth, the sum of existence, will weather
the worst.
Eternal, unchanged, evermore.
(Hymns, page 143).
Following within this definition
of truth is the following revelation
which we read in the Book of
Moses:
And worlds without number have I cre-
ated. . . .
. . . behold, there are many worlds that
have passed away by the word of my
power. And there are many that now
stand, and innumerable are they unto
man. . . .
The heavens, they are many, and they
cannot be numbered unto man; but they
are numbered unto me, for they are mine.
(And the Lord hasn't given them
to man yet.)
And as one earth shall pass away, and
the heavens thereof even so shall another
come; and there is no end to my works,
neither to my words (Moses 1:33, 35,
37-38) .
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TV/fATTER may be resolved in
radiant energy, the scientists
tell us. They say energy may be
brought back to matter, sun, and
stars. Let us hear a conclusion of
the whole matter. We read from
Ecclesiastes:
, . . Fear God, and keep his command-
ments: for this is the whole duty of man.
For God shall bring every work into
judgment, with every secret thing, wheth-
er it be good, or whether it be evil (Ecc.
12:13-14).
. . . the race is not to the swift, nor the
battle to the strong, neither yet bread to
the wise, nor yet riches to men of under-
standing, nor yet favour to men of skill;
but time and chance happeneth to them
all (Ecc. 9:11).
Thus saith the Lord, Let not the wise
man glory in his wisdom, neither let the
mighty man glory in his might, let not
the rich man glory in his riches:
But let him that glorieth glory in this,
that he understandeth and knoweth me,
that I am the Lord which exercise loving-
kindness, judgment, and righteousness, in
the earth: for in these things I delight,
saith the Lord (Jeremiah 9:23-24).
Those who are satisfied that any
church will do, should read Job and
ask themselves whether or not their
church teaches them the answer to
the problems which were pro-
pounded by the Lord to Job, when
the Lord said to Job:
Gird up now thy loins like a man;
for I will demand of thee, and answer
thou me.
Where wast thou when I laid the
foundations of the earth? declare, if thou
hast understanding.
Who hath laid the measures thereof,
if thou knowest? or who hath stretched
the line upon it?
Whereupon are the foundations there-
of fastened? or who laid the corner stone
thereof;
When the morning stars sang together,
and all the sons of God shouted for joy?
(Job 38:3-7).
How can we do as Paul directed
the Ephesians?
Put on the whole armour of God, that
ye may be able to stand against the wiles
of the devil.
For we wrestle not against flesh and
blood, but against principalities, against
powers, against the rulers of the darkness
of this world, against spiritual wickedness
in high places (Eph. 6:11-12).
I ask again, how can this be ac-
complished if we do not have the
true plan of life and salvation as
revealed to us in the latter days by
our Father in heaven?
T ask again, does this plan of ours
and the power to administer the
plan in every detail leave any ques-
tions to be asked? For 130 years
we have had this power made mani-
fest unto us. We have been the
recipients of the choicest blessings
of our Heavenly Father. We have
become more and more susceptible
to the promptings of the Holy
Spirit. We anticipate today the
needs of the present to prepare our-
selves for the problems of tomorrow
better than ever before. More
strength is given to each generation.
A keener insight into the future is
ours. I am sure we have progressed
in our work to a far greater degree
than has science. We stand upon
a firmer foundation than does any
other human activity. Were we to
see all things in their true perspec-
tive, there would be no doubt about
our position in this respect in any-
one's mind.
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npAKE one simple example. All
the world prays for peace. It is
not the knowledge and understand-
ing of man no matter how far into
the realm of learning they penetrate
that will solve this all-important
problem. We start with the words
of the Prophet Joseph to whom was
given the vision and wisdom to
have prevented our Civil War in
his day. He said then to the peo-
ples of this Nation:
Now, O people! people! turn unto the
Lord and live, and reform this nation.
Frustrate the designs of wicked men. . . .
Break off the shackles from the poor
black man, and hire him to labor like
other human beings; for ''an hour of
virtuous hberty on earth is worth a whole
eternity of bondage." Abolish the prac-
tice in the army and navy of trying men
by court-martial for desertion. If a sol-
dier or marine runs away, send him his
wages, with this instruction, that his
country will never trust him again; he has
forfeited his honor.
Make honor the standard with all men.
Be sure that good is rendered for evil in
all cases; and the whole nation, like a
kingdom of kings and priests, will rise up
in righteousness, and be respected as wise
and worthy on earth, and as just and holy
for heaven, by Jehovah, the Author of
perfection. . . .
Oh, then, create confidence, restore
freedom, break down slavery, banish im-
prisonmeni for debt, and be in love, fel-
lowship and peace with all the world!
{D.H.C. VI, 204-206).
In our own day, President David
O. McKay, as he leads us today,
declares:
THE ATOMIC BOMB IS NOT THE
THREAT. The most ominous threat to
the peace and happiness of mankind in
this the twentieth century is not the
probable misuse of the atomic bomb, but
the dwindling in men's hearts of faith in
God. "Epochs of faith are epochs of
fruitfulness; but epochs of unbelief, how-
ever glittering, are barren of all perma-
nent good."
President McKay goes on to say:
The soul is the fountain from which
the peace of the world will spring. Cen-
tered in the heart also are the enemies
to peace — avarice, ambition, envy, anger,
and pride. These and other vices which
bring misery into the world must be eradi-
cated before permanent peace is assured.
There shall have to be felt in the hearts
of men more consideration for others —
there shall have to be manifested around
the coming peace table at least a little of
the Christ spirit — do unto others as
you would have others do unto you. (See
Matt. 7:12; Luke 6:31.) (Gospel Ideals,
pp. 295, 298)
I have talked to you about some
of the problems which confront us
today. Let us proceed with the idea
that sufficient unto the day is the
evil thereof. We must all of us
approach our responsibilities day by
day with these thoughts in mind.
We may well remember the prom-
ise of the Savior of mankind to all
of us:
But seek ye first the kingdom of God,
and his righteousness; and all these things
shall be added unto you.
Take therefore no thought for the
morrow: for the morrow shall take thought
for the things of itself. Sufficient unto
the day is the evil thereof (Mt. 6:33-34).
Let us follow the admonition and
the leadership of President McKay.
He savs further:
Decide what your duty is, ever remem-
bering that the greatest battle of life is
fought within the silent chambers of your
own soul.
Many of the important doctrines
of the Church I have here called
EVERY FAMILY A MISSIONARY FAMILY
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to your attention. We must learn
these principles of the gospel. Then
and then only can we teach them
to our families.
IZNOW the gospel. Love the gos-
pel. Live the gospel. Save
souls — pour forth love. Be willing
to recognize and receive inspiration.
Raise sons to be woirthy mission-
aries. Administer to the needs of
the poor. Use a mother's influence
to promote faith, virtue, good works
in the home.
Then and only then can you give
your families the greatest heritage
which parents can bestow upon
their offspring.
When you thus utilize your tal-
ents and your opportunities, you
can realize in full measure the
dream of power and accomplish-
ment for which Alma wished. Then
can you fulfill the charge given us
of the Lord:
Now behold, a marvelous work is about
to come forth among the children of men.
Therefore, O 5^e that embark in the
service of God, see that ye serve him with
all your heart, might, mind and strength,
that ye may stand blameless before God
at the last day.
Therefore, if ye have desires to serve
God ye are called to the work;
For behold the field is white already
to harvest; and lo, he that thrusteth in
his sickle with his might, the same lay-
eth up in store that he perisheth not, but
bringeth salvation to his soul;
And faith, hope, charity and love, with
an eye single to the glory of God, qualify
him for the work.
Remember faith, virtue, knowledge,
temperance, patience, brotherly kindness,
godliness, charity, humility, diligence.
Ask, and ye shall receive; knock, and
it shall be opened unto you . . .
(D & G 4).
WITH these thoughts, I chal-
lenge you as Relief Society
sisters to return to your homes with
renewed enthusiasm and greater de-
termination to live the gospel in its
fulness.
President George Albert Smith,
in his dedicatory prayer of the 'This
Is The Place" monument, radiates
the spirit of peace. Tracing the
guided course of mankind from
Book of Mormon times down to
the present. President Smith says
this in his prayer:
Grant, O Father, that the hearts of the
people who dwell in the United States of
America, may be turned to righteousness,
that they may appreciate what it means
to dwell in a land favored above all other
lands. . . .
And, O Father, in the midst of con-
fusion that is everywhere, and uncertainty,
bless us in America, that we may repent
of our foolishness, our lightmindedness
and our wrongdoing, realizing as we
should, that all the blessings that are
worthwhile come to us only as a result
of honoring thee and keeping thy com-
mandments. The pathway of righteous-
ness is the highway of peace and happi-
ness. Help us Lord, to walk in thy path-
way . . . How can we, Heavenly Father,
as we live in the world and enjoy the in-
fluence of thy spirit, fail to be at peace
with one another?
With all my heart and soul I in-
voke the blessings of our Heavenly
Father upon you, my sisters, that
this great work of the Relief Society
may go forward and onward and up-
ward until it affects not alone the
lives of the 1,600,000 members of
the Church, but carries its influence
and its power and its effectiveness
into the lives of the nations of the
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earth. I bear witness to you today
that this very process is under ac-
comphshment and that Sister Spaf-
ford has expanded, through her
travels and through her inspiration
and her leadership in this great
movement, the influence of the
Relief Society into other great na-
tions of the earth, and so the work
will go on.
We are the Church of Jesus
Christ. He lives. He is the Son of
the living God, the Redeemer of
mankind. He has atoned for the
sins of the world and he has given
to us, in these latter days, a knowl-
edge of himself and of his gospel
more priceless than life itself. Here
we are gathered today to gather
strength and increased faith to car-
ry on his great work, and carry into
the homes of all Latter-day Saints
a knowledge of God and of his ways.
May his blessings be with us all,
humbly I pray, in the name of Jesus
Christ, Amen.
cJo diold Lis cJast
Chia Steen Chesnutt
Candle light
And stars at night
Grow dim.
Christmas trees and tinseled ropes
All must go. But not our hopes
Of him
Who came proclaimed by angel-song,
And promised that as long ... as long
As life shall last
A Christmas hope, a Christmas prayer
Will be a lovely thing to share
And hold us fast.
flo L^hnstmas ulere?
Maude Rubin
No Christmas here? This sun-steeped desert cabin
Has never worn a wreath of spruce or pine;
Nor ever braced its walls against a blizzard,
Nor burned a yule log. (Mesquite makes a fine
And cheerful blaze!) Now, leaning out my window,
I hear a sudden stir among the palms,
A desert wind, scented with sage and honey.
Is singing its songs of peace, its evening psalms.
Beneath this sky-ward dazzle of the stars,
I choose my own small Christmas tree tonight,
A gnarled and twisted manzanita branch,
To dress with shining tinsel, blooms of light!
Howard William Hunter
of the Council of the Twelve
Elder Hugh B. Brown
Of the Council of the Twehe
. . . When Nature wants to make a man
To do the Future's will: [sjie]
Sets a challenge for his spirit.
Draws it higher when he's near it —
Makes a jungle, that he clear it,
Makes a desert that he fear it
And subdue it if he can. . . .
When his feet are torn and bleeding
Yet his spirit mounts unheeding,
All his higher powers speeding,
Blazing newer paths and fine;
WHien the force that is di\ine
Leaps to challenge e\ery failure
and his ardour still is sweet
And love and hope are burning in
the presence of defeat . . .
Lo, the crisis! Lo, the shout
That must call the leader out. . . .
—"When Nature Wants a Man" by
Angela Morgan, from Forward March,
copyright 1918, by Dodd, Mead and
Company, Inc., Reprinted by permission,
THE entire Church rejoices in
the call and ordination of a
comparati\'ely young man to
be an apostle and special witness of
the Lord, Jesus Christ.
That the Lord has had this man
in training through the years is evi-
dent as one reads his life story from
the time when he was born in Boise,
Idaho, November 14, 1907, through
his early schooling then his subse-
quent move to Southern California,
his years of struggle and hard work,
his activities in scouting. Church
and civic affairs, his steady growth,
his undeviating loyalty to country,
Church and family, his years of legal
education and later years of success-
Courtesy The Improvement Era
HOWARD WILLL\M HUNTER
ful practice of law — all combined
to prepare and make him ready for
the call which came unexpectedly
on October 9, 1959.
He worked in the Bank of Italy
(later merged into the bank of
America) for some years and was
later cashier at the First Exchange
Bank of Inglewood, which with
many other banks during the great
depression, closed its doors and he
suffered hea\'v loss because of his
stockholder's liability.
Because of a resolution which he
and his wife made early in their mar-
riage, that they would never buy
anything, homes, cars, washing ma-
chines, dryers, furniture, etc., until
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Courtesy The Salt Lake Tribune
ELDER HOWARD WILLIAM HUNTER AND HIS FAMILY
Left to right: Clara May Jeffs Hunter; Elder Howard William Hunter; Louine
Berry Hunter, daughter-in-law, holding baby son Robert Mark Hunter; John J. Hunter,
son.
Another son, Richard A., is serving a mission in Austraha.
tliey could pay for it (they have
never broken that resolution), they
lived in a very humble home for sev-
eral 3/ears. They had the courage
and fortitude to resist the seductive
appeal of installment buying and go
without rather than go in debt.
They bought vegetables which were
cheap but not always fresh, and ten-
cent soup bones when they could
have enjoyed T-bone steaks.
During his preparation for the
law, he went to night school at
Southwestern University five nights
a week and worked during the day-
time. He often began studying at
3:00 A.M., even though he had not
returned from school the night be-
fore until 10:00 P.M. He has always
been an indefatigable worker dri\'en
by an unquenchable thirst for knowl-
edge. At the end of four years of
sacrifice and struggle, he graduated
from Southwestern Uni\ersity, cum
Jaude, and has, since that time, been
a successful lawyer and business
man.
Elder Hunter is the son of John
William Hunter and Nellie Marie
Rasmussen Hunter, both of whom
HOWARD WILLIAM HUNTER OF THE COUNCIL OF THE TWELVE
801
reside in Southern California. He
comes from sturdy, frugal Scotch
and Scandinavian ancestry.
In addition to his long and varied
Church work through the years —
bishop, president of high priest
quorum, member of stake high
council, and nine years president of
Pasadena Stake — he found time for
civic and business responsibilities.
He has always been -an enthusiastic
scout man, became an eagle scout
in 1923 and was later scout master
and District Commissioner for
scouting in Los Angeles metropoli-
tan area.
TN 1928 he met Clara May Jeffs at
a Gold and Green Ball in Los
Angeles and they were married in
the Salt Lake Temple, June 10,
1931. She stood loyally at his side
through the lean years and now,
with simple grace and dignity, takes
her place as queen of an unusually
charming home. The Hunters had
three sons, one died in infancy. John
J. filled a mission in Australia, and
after coming home married Louine
Berry and is now taking pre-legal
training at the Brigham Young Uni-
versity. The other son, Richard, is
serving as a missionary in the South
Australian Mission. The Hunters,
with their sons, enjoyed a round-
the-world tour in 1958.
When Elder Hunter was asked
about hobbies, he said, ''My wife,
my boys, and the Church are my
chief hobbies." However, he is
known to have a large collection of
rare coins and a very select Church
library, including many original and
early editions.
Elder Hunter has a warm, charm-
ing personality, a ready and winning
smile, is an able and inspiring speak-
er, an excellent administrator, and
impresses all who meet him with
his enthusiasm, sincerity and humil-
ity. His acceptance speech was
characteristic of the man, willing,
humble, capable and motivated by
what he termed ''an uncompromis-
ing conviction." It is a pleasure to
welcome this outstanding man into
the Quorum of the Twelve.
cJhese (<^liffs ulold llielodyi
Elsie McKinnon Strachan
These cliffs hold melody.
The zylophone of rain,
The drumbeat of the sun.
The cello-wind,
Have spilled a song of color here,
Delighting us with music
Agate-scored
And still.
Annual General Relief Society
Conference
HuJda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
THROUGHOUT the various
sessions of the 1959 Annual
General Relief Society Gon-
ference, leaders of Relief Society
were again recipients of the blessings
promised by the Prophet Joseph
Smith at the time he organized the
Society in 1842 when he said:
You will receive instructions through
the order of the Priesthood which God
has established, through the medium of
those appointed to lead, guide, and direct
the affairs of the Church in this last dis-
pensation; . . . and this Society shall re-
joice, and knowledge and intelHgence shall
flow down from this time henceforth;
this is the beginning of better days to
the poor and needy, who shall be made
to rejoice and pour forth blessings on
your heads.
The Officers Meeting began at
10 A.M. in the Tabernacle with 2425
stake Relief Society leaders from
every stake in the Church except one
and thirty-six representatives from
ten missions receiving ''instructions
through the order of the Priest-
hood" from the Relief Society ad-
visors of the Council of the Twelve,
President Joseph Fielding Smith
and Elder Mark E. Petersen. Presi-
dent Smith impressed upon those
in attendance the importance of the
gospel in the lives of the women of
the Church and how they, too, can
assist in the saving of souls. Elder
Petersen instructed Relief Society
leaders regarding the great value and
function of class instruction in sav-
ing souls and in strengthening the
home and community.
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President Belle S. Spafford, who
in her usual gracious and dignified
manner conducted all of the general
sessions of the conference, reported
in the Officers Meeting on the serv-
ices and accomplishments of Relief
Societv during 1958 and gave spe-
cific directions and counsel relative
to the carrying forward of the work
of the organization throughout the
Church. The music for this ses-
sion was presented bv a 150-voice
chorus of Singing Mothers from
the Juab Stake under the direction
of Vivian P. Hoyt with Alexander
Schreiner at the organ. The colorful
and impressi\'e roll call was con-
ducted by Secretary-Treasurer Hul-
da Parker.
In the Wednesday, 2 p.m. General
Session for Relief Society members
and general public, further instruc-
tion was given ''through the order
of the Priesthood'' and "knowledge
and intelligence" were imparted.
Relief Society leaders for the
first time had the choice privi-
lege of listening to the wise counsel
and admonition given by President
Henry D. Movie as a member of the
First Presidencv of the Church. He
charged the mothers of Israel today
to conform their lives strictly in ac-
cordance with the principles of the
gospel and to develop in their
homes the "spirit and power of
obedience."
Preceding his address, President
Spafford urged mothers to teach
their children the importance and
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Courtesy The Salt Lake Tribune
PRESIDENT BELLE S. SPAFFORD CONDUCTING THE OFFICERS MEETING
ANNUAL GENERAL RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE, OCTOBER 7, 1959
Seated, beginning in the foreground: Counselor Marianne C. Sharp; Former Gen-
eral President Amy Brown Lyman; Counselor Louise W. Madsen; President Joseph
Fielding Smith and Elder Mark E. Petersen of the Council of the Twelve, Advisors to
Relief Societ\\
power of prayer; Counselor Mari-
anne C. Sharp emphasized the value
of prayerful study of the scriptures
in the home, and obedience there-
to; Counselor Louise W. Madsen
outlined the obligations of mothers
toward proper observance of the
Sabbath; and Christine H. Robin-
son, member of the General Board,
stressed the importance of spiritual
beauty in the home.
A 500-voice chorus of Singing
Mothers from the nineteen stakes
in the Jordan Valley Region also
inspired those in attendance by their
beautiful music. Participants in
the chorus were from Canyon Rim,
Cottonwood, East Jordan, East
Millcreek, Grant, Granite Park, Hol-
laday, Midvale, Millcreek, Mount
Jordan, Murray, Murray South,
Olvmpus, Sandy, South Salt Lake,
Valley \^iew. West Jordan, Wilford,
and Winder Stakes. All three se-
lections rendered were compositions
bv Latter-day Saint musicians —
'to Ye Forth With My Word"
and "Come Ye Blessed of My
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Father" by Florence Jepperson Mad-
sen of the General Board, who also
conducted the chorus, and ''Music"
by Carlyle D. Marsden and words by
J. G. Brainard. Roy M. Darley was
at the organ.
Wednesday evening between 7
and 10 P.M., approximately 2,000
stake and mission officers were
greeted by the General Board in a
beautiful atmosphere of music and
flowers at the annual reception held
in the Relief Society Building.
In the Thursday morning depart-
mental meeting in the Tabernacle
impressive presentations were given
featuring the current theology
course on the Doctrine and Cove-
nants, and the American literature
course, ''A New Nation Speaks."
Dr. Blaine M. Porter, author of the
social science course ''Spiritual Liv-
ing in the Nuclear Age," discussed
this subject. The chorus providing
the music for this session was the
Wells Stake Singing Mothers con-
ducted by Vivienne Fairclough,
with Frank Asper at the organ.
The visiting teacher messages for
the current year were introduced in
the 1:30 P.M. departmental meet-
ing in the Tabernacle. In this ses-
sion Elder Henry D. Taylor out-
lined the place and responsibilities
of Relief Society in the Church
Welfare Program.
Separate departmental sessions
were held from 1:30 to 4 p.m., for
stake and mission secretary-treasur-
ers; work meeting leaders; and the
choristers and organists. Other de-
partmental sessions were conducted
from 2:45 ^^ 4 ^'^7 for stake and
mission presidencies. Magazine rep-
resentatives, and class leaders.
A showing of a soul-stirring color
film "Unto the Least of These,"
depicting the role of visiting teach-
ers in bringing uplift and encourage-
ment into the lives of their fellow
sisters, some of whom may be sick
or poor in spirit, started the con-
ference on a high spiritual note.
Stake Relief Society presidencies
viewed this film in the Uptown
Theater, Wednesday morning, pre-
ceding the first regular session of
the conference.
As another Annual General Relief
Society Conference concluded, it
seemed that all in attendance re-
joiced with the instructions that
had been given, with the knowl-
edge and intelligence they had re-
ceived regarding the work of Relief
Society, and there was kindled with-
in the hearts of the Relief Society
leaders in attendance a greater de-
termination to carry forward the
work of this great organization so as
to bring even richer blessings into
their lives and the lives of those in-
fluenced by Relief Society.
The address by President Henry D.
Moyle appears in this issue of the Maga-
zine. President Joseph Fielding Smith's
address will be published in the January
issue, and Elder Mark E. Petersen's and
Elder Henry D. Taylor's in the February
issue. The addresses by President Belle S.
Spafford, by Counselor Marianne C. Sharp,
and Counselor Louise W. Madsen; and
''Report and Official Instructions" by
President Spafford appeared in the No-
vember Magazine. The speech by Chris-
tine H. Robinson, a General Board
member, will appear in the March issue.
The address by Dr. Blaine M. Porter and
a few departmental talks \\ill appear in
forthcoming issues. Much of the other
material of the conference has been mailed
to stake and mission Rehef Society presi-
dents.
WiJh n 1
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE WINS CO\^ER AWARD
Seated, left to right: Counselor Marianne C. Sharp, Editor, holding the award;
President Belle S. SpaflFord, General Manager, holding the December 1958 Relief
Society Magazine, winning cover; Counselor Louise W. Madsen.
Standing: Evan Jensen, Art Director; Vesta P. Crawford, Associate Editor.
LKeuef Society 1 1 Lagazine ^yix^arcled L^over (citation
npHE highest award for quahty of colored magazine covers was awarded
to The Rdiei Society Magazine by the Simpson Lee Paper Company
in September 1959. The award was granted in recognition of the beautiful
December 1958 cover — 'The Rest on the Plight Into Egypt" from a
painting by Gerard David, from the Mellon Collection, courtesy the
National Gallery of Art, Washington, D, C.
The award plaque was presented to President Belle S. Spafford, Gen-
eral President of Relief Society and General Manager of the Magazine,
by C. L. Nordstrom, Northwest Sales Representative of the paper company.
Mr. Nordstrom explained that the award was made after salesmen of the
Zellerbach Paper Company, distributors for the Simpson Lee Company,
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had considered and appraised samples of magazine covers from eleven
Western states. There were eighty entries competing for the four-color
brochure award. Judges selecting the winning entry were professors from
the University of California, and Stanford University, a world renowned
artist, and two other craftsmen. The cover has been placed on permanent
display in the Simpson Lee Gallery of Fine Printing at Everett, Washing-
ton, and the award plaque has been placed in the library of the Relief
Society building.
A similar award was made to the Deseret News Press for the produc-
tion work on the cover. Mr. L. C. Jacobsen, Manager of the Press, re-
ceived this award.
cJhe JLiterature of L^hnstmas
Mabel Harmer
EACH Christmas the magazines
of the country are filled with
Cliristmas stories and poems,
and carols are broadcast over the air
waves and chimed by bells. Only
a small fraction of the enormous
magazine output can really be called
literature, but much of it can be
enjoyed.
A prime example is the poem
"The Night Before Christmas." It
was written by Clement Moore a
century ago to please his own chil-
dren, and without any thought of
publication, and yet, in all proba-
bility, no children's poem has been
more loved. His description of the
''jolly old fellow" made the pattern
of Santa Clans that has appeared in
pictures and at holiday parties ever
since.
It was a contemporary of Clement
Moore's, however — although in an-
other country — who actually start-
ed the annual rash of Christmas
stories. From the time Charles
Dickens' "Christmas Carol" first
appeared in print — to an instant
popularity — writers have struggled
to emulate that success.
Many of these stories are forgot-
ten by mid-January, but a few gems
have survived to delight us over and
over again. In fact, they are made
more precious by long acquaintance.
First among these treasured gems,
perhaps, is the Dickens story, which
was produced for many years over
the radio by Lionel Barrymore until
his death; it was read by President
Franklin D. Roosevelt in the White
House annually to his family, and,
doubtless, is enjoyed yearly by
countless other folk at their own
firesides.
Alongside of Dickens, we must
rank Henry Van Dyke, who, in his
superb short stories, filled in the
details of what might have hap-
pened at the scene on that Holy
Night. In his story of "The Other
Wise Man," he weaves the tale of
the wicked Herod who ordered the
death of all the children in Bethle-
hem under two years of age.
Van Dyke set the pattern for
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numerous other stories concerning
those who might have been eye
witnesses to the events of the
nativity. Wliile we reahze that
these stories come from writers'
imaginations woven on the fabric
of facts, as told in the Bible by
Matthew and Luke, still we like to
read them, since the Gospel writers
have left us with only a few details.
And so, while the Christmas
theme has been told, with varia-
tions, over and over again, one still
appreciates the varied and wonder-
ful ways in which it has been
penned. Just like Christmas itself
the story never grows old.
Among our Latter-day Saint
writers, the Christmas story has
been treated with the beauty and
understanding one would expect
from those who have a true knowl-
edge of the great significance of the
event. Greatly loved among hymns
is Orson F. Whitney's ''A Stranger
Star O'er Bethlehem." It is too
long to be sung usually in its en-
tirety — but all the verses can be
read with great pleasure. Another
inspiring hymn written by Elder
Whitney relates the glorious ap-
pearance of the risen Savior to the
people of the Western Hemisphere.
This hymn presents in rhythmic
words the sacred events when Jesus
said: ''Behold your little ones."
(See Third Nephi 17:11-25.)
Enraptured stood the multitude,
Beholding him their King,
At whose command the chosen band
Their httle children bring. . . .
Oh, Nephite boy, how great thy joy,
Such wondrous things to see. . . .
(The Childien Sing, pp. 184-185)
I^EXT to the story of the nativity,
as told by St. Luke, the carols
are probably the best known and
loved of all Christmas literature.
Even with the frequent repetition
on radio and TV during December,
one never grows tired of listening to
the lovely "Silent Night" or the
merry ''Deck the Hall."
The practice of singing carols is
popular in a great manv countries,
but the carols and the customs
sometimes differ. Todav, in Italv
the shepherds of the rural regions
go from house to house singing
their carols to the accompaniment
— of all things — bagpipes. In Nor-
way, after the reading of the Gos-
pels, all members of the family
clasp hands and circle the Christ-
mas tree, singing the hymns and
folk songs of Christmas not only
once, but several times.
England is especially famous for
its caroling. The ''waits" as they
are called, go from house to house
to sing their favorite carols, and
usually the members of the family
join in. The carolers are often in-
vited into the house for cakes or
sweets, or else rewarded with small
coins.
One of the most popular of all
carols, "Oh, Little Town of Bethle-
hem," was the work of Phillips
Brooks, a young American clergy-
man, who was blessed with a bril-
liant mind and a fine sense of
humor. The inspiration for his
song came as he stood on the
moonlit hills of Palestine one Christ-
mas Eve, thereby fulfilling a long-
cherished dream. It is little wonder
that, with such a setting, his words
take us all to the little town of
Bethlehem.
Probably the best known and best
loved of all carols is the beautiful
"Silent Night." It was written long
ago in a little village of Bavaria dur-
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ing a wild December storm. In a
tiny wooden church, Franz Gruber
tried in vain to play the old organ,
but the mice had been there ahead
of him and he could get no sounds
that could be called music.
In distress, he called to Joseph
Mohr to write some words for a
new song. 'Terhaps I could set
them to music. Then we can get
old Herman, at the foot of the hill,
to play the guitar to accompany the
singers. In that way we could man-
age without the organ until it can
be repaired."
There was little time, but Joseph
Mohr went to work, and slowly the
words came, ''Silent night, holy
night, All is calm; all is bright." The
words inspired Franz to write music
that was equally beautiful, and the
new song was finished in time to
be sung by the villagers on Christ-
mas Eve. When the Tyrolians
sailed for America they brought
with them the gift of this lovely
song.
OOME of the carols are traditional,
with the names of the authors
and the composers unknown. Oth-
ers bear such famous names as
Martin Luther, Isaac Watts, and
George Friedrich Handel.
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
wrote ''I Heard the Bells on Christ-
mas Day" in 1863, reflecting the
horrors of war, his own son having
been wounded in a battle of the
Civil War. After lamenting the fact
that ''there is no peace," he ends
his song with renewed hope in these
words:
Then pealed the bells more loud and
deep —
God is not dead nor doth He sleep.
The W^rong shall fail, the Right prevail
With peace on earth, good will to men.
Of course the apex of all Christ-
mas literature is the storv of the
nativity as told by the Gospel writ-
ers. John makes one grand state-
ment: "And the Word was made
flesh, and dwelt among us . . ."
(John 1:14).
Matthew is concerned largely
with the visit of the Wise Men and
with Herod's decree that all male
children in Bethlehem under two
years of age should be slain. Mark
passes over any details regarding the
Savior's birth.
And so it remains for Luke to
record the tender and wonderful
account that has become the best
loved and most quoted story in all
literature. Each Christmas time
one finds new joy in the words:
"And Joseph also went up from
Galilee, out of the city of Nazareth,
into Judaea, unto the city of David,
which is called Bethlehem . . . with
Mary his espoused wife, being great
with child" (Luke 2:4-5).
Bethlehem — iht City oi David
— the names in and of themselves
are sheer poetry. The lovely little
town lies about six miles south of
Jerusalem, about 2300 feet above
sea level, and the surrounding
countryside is more fertile than
many parts of the Holy Land. From
the hills where David tended his
flocks he could gaze over the deep
valleys of the Judean desert and the
Dead Sea.
Tradition and history combine to
tell us of the great love David had
for his city. He knew all of its
ca\'es and fields, its springs and its
valleys. It was a love which has
THE LITERATURE OF CHRISTMAS 809
descended through the years to fill delivered. And she brought forth
the hearts of all Christians. her firstborn son, and wrapped him
His love for his city was expressed j" swaddling clothes, and laid huii
during one of his campaigns against '" ^ ™ng«; because there was no
Saul when, with great yearning, he '°°J^^°' '''^™ '" *^ '"" ("^"^^
said, "Oh that one would give me ■^■^7'' r ., ■, i i .
drink of the water of the well of „ The song of the heavenly hosts
Bethlehem, which is by the gate!" • • • • »" f,^'}}' f a^^' §0°^ will to-
(II Samuel 2:j-ic:V ward men (Luke 2:14) has been
^ ^ • > / • echoed and re-echoed down through
When some of the courageous ^he centuries. And while there has
soldiers with him braved the ranks ^ever been a time when there was
of the Philistines to bring him this complete peace in all parts of the
water, he declined to drmk, but ^^^^^^ ^^^ ^^^ ^^n say what far-
poured it out as a sacrifice to the reaching effects have been the result
Lord instead. of those tidings of peace and good
And so it was that Joseph, being will?
of the lineage of David, journeyed This we know, indeed, that we
to Bethlehem to be taxed. ''While can look forward with great joy to
thev were there," the narrative of the time when Christ will come
Luke continues, ''the days were again to the earth to rule and reign
accomplished that she should be and bring lasting peace to all men.
uiandel s I/Lessiah
Hazel Loomis
Never was a hand more sure than mine
When I wrote note on note
The things I heard.
My heart beat wild — pages flew beneath my pen —
Music impassioned — tender —
A prophet's cry — and then a surge —
A mighty ocean wall burst forth
hi joyous praise!
The symphony — harps, bells, and cymbals all rose strong
The choir as one great voice.
I bowed my head; tears streamed from my eyes,
Across my name, George Friedrich Handel, 1741.
The ink ran wild, angels seemed to fill my room —
Their joy to mingle with my own.
Sixty ijears J^go
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, December i, and December 15, 1899
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the
Women of All Nations"
CHRISTMAS FANCIES: Cheerfulness is better than hilarity, and simplicity
even in giving is in much better taste than making elaborate presents, or parading one's
generosity, as really seems to ha\e come to be the custom in this age. We deal largely
in extremes, e\en in gixing . . . though we have not wealth to lavish on our loved ones,
^^•e can bestow kindness e\en in words. . . . Feasting and enjoying the good things of
life docs not make up the sum of happiness, not even at Christmas time; elaborate
preparations are very wearisome, and the mother is often too much exhausted to share
in the children's enjoyment ... or perhaps to answer their questions about the why's
and wherefores of Christmas.
■ — Editorial
CHRISTMAS IN SALT LAKE CITY: R. K. Thomas has a fine display of dry
goods, artistically arranged for Christmas. . . . C. R. Savage has a fine assortment of
c\ cry thing in the way of Christmas goods, and old Santa Claus trees and photography.
One can purchase magazines there, too. . . . Margetts book store is well equipped with
books, stationery and large and small children's sleds, toboggans and Christmas trees . . .
magnificent dolls and a great \'ariety of such articles as stationers keep. . . . The elegant
new bookstore of Geo. O. Cannon & Sons . . . has a fine display ... in rare pictures,
books, dolls and gorgeous toys. . . .
— Selected
A CHRISTMAS PYE: The Newcastle Chronicle of 1770 gives the contents of
the famous "Christmas Pye" of the olden time. Its ingredients were two bushels of
flour, 20 pounds of butter, 4 geese, 2 turkeys, 2 rabbits, 4 wild ducks, 2 woodcocks,
6 snipe, 4 partridges, 2 neats tongues, 2 curlews, 4 blackbirds and six pigeons, with
eggs, sugar, raisins, lemons, oranges, and various kinds of spicery. ''It weighed twelve
stone." One would wonder where it could be baked; and yet when one knows what
great fireplaces and o\ens they had in those old halls and castles, one might imagine
that even such a pie could be put in and baked. . . .
—The Editor
MRS. BARRATT'S PARTY: A very pleasant gathering of notable people of
this city was given by Mrs. M. M. Barratt at her handsome cottage . . . December 20.
The guests were President Lorenzo Snow and wife, President George Q. Cannon and
^^■ife, President Joseph F. Smith and wife. . . . Apostles F, M. Lyman and \\ife, Heber
J. Grant, wife, and mother, Anthon H. Lund and Matthias F. Cowley; President Angus
M. Cannon and wife. Bishop W. B. Preston and wife and Bishop John R. Winder
and wife, Mrs. B. W. Smith, Mrs. E. B. Wells . . . and others . . . the guests were
seated at tables in the elegant dining room to partake of a sumptuous banquet. Presi-
dent Snow pronounced the blessing. At each plate was a souvenir bouquet. . . . Dur-
ing the evening attention \\as called to the beautiful and rare collection of \er}' fine
pictures, most of them brought from her home in England. Mr. Sam Barratt ga\e
. . . choice musical selections on the piano, and Mrs. E. B, Wells, at the request of
President Joseph F. Smith and others, gave an account of the reception given at
Windsor Castle by Queen Victoria to the International Council and Congress in Lon-
don, July 7, on which occasion thirteen women from Utah were present. . . .
— News Note
Page 810
Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
A MALTA DE CASTILLO LED-
ON, Under Secretary of Educa-
tion and Cultural Affairs of Mexico,
was recently honored by President
Adolfo Lopez Mateos, when he re-
quested her to read the Giito de
Doloies, Mexico's declaration of in-
dependence, at the annual observ-
ance of national independence. In
1953, Mexican women were given
the privilege of voting for local and
national government officials, and
since that time women have taken
an active part in civic affairs. Today,
nine women are serving in Congress,
three as federal judges; twelve of the
government's sixty assistant prose-
cutors are women.
r\R. SARAH E. STEWART and
Dr. Bernice E. Eddy have won
recognition and honor for their out-
standing research on viruses as a
possible causative agent in some
types of cancer. Working together
at the National Institute of Health,
the researchers demonstrated the
potency and versatility of a mouse
cancer virus.
OULDA A. ERICKSON, Grants-
ville, Utah, (100 years old on
November tenth), Minnie Peterson
Brown, Summit County, Harriet
Clawson, Salt Lake County, Tora
Nielson Starkie, Uintah County,
and Selma Beddous Kelsey, Utah
County, are the last living women
who trekked across the plains as
Mormon pioneers.
pRANCES R. HORWICH, tele-
vision's famous ''Miss Frances"
of Ding Dong School, has written a
book, The Magic of Bringing Up
Your Child. The volume deals
sensibly, charmingly, and imagina-
tively with the problems which
arise between parent and child. Miss
Horwich has won more than sixty
awards from educational and pro-
fessional groups.
gLEANOR GLUECK, as a part-
ner with her husband. Dr.
Sheldon Glueck, in the famous
husband-and-wife criminologist team
of Harvard University Law School,
co-operated in the authorship of an
authentic and valuable study: Pre-
dicting DeUnquency and Crime
(Harvard University Press). The
study, which was carried on for
more than thirty years, emphasizes
''five highly decisive factors" in fam-
ily life which condition the conduct
of children: father's discipline,
mother's supervision, father's affec-
tion, mother's affection, and co-
hesiveness of the family.
\\70MEN make all the profes-
sional baseballs used by pro-
fessional baseball players in our
country today. The delicate fingers
and twenty-twenty vision of these
special workers put into a ball the
"capacity to sail over fences." Mrs.
Jesse Wison figures that she has
stitched more than 150,000 base-
balls.
EDITORIAL
VOL. 46 DECEMBER 1959 NO. 12
oJhe Supreme ^ift
''C\^ this night shall the sign be all things are gathered together in
given, and on the morrow one, and a Latter-day Saint has avail-
come I into the world" (3 Nephi able the fulness of the gospel to
1:13). These were the words of recreate a sequence of Christ's min-
God the Son fortelling his time of istry. As one studies his life from
birth into mortal life, words uttered year to year, the delineation becomes
to Nephi on the Western Hemis- clearer, the contrasts sharper, the
phere, while in far-off Judea, Mary details fuller, and the radiance and
"being great with child" was being glory brighter as humility, under-
found a resting place by Joseph, standing, and worship become in-
whcre the Son of God would be grained,
born. As life's experiences and trials
It has been approximately 1959 etch one's soul, the significance of
years since then, yet every day every the events of the Savior's mission
person by his beliefs, convictions, take on a deeper richness. A mother
and actions declares his acceptance senses more keenly the meaning of
or rejection of the Messiah. Espe- a sword which should pierce the side
cially at this season one reads the of Mary also; one studies the words
tender and simple, albeit the glori- of the Messiah for doctrinal knowl-
ous words recounting the Lord's edge; sickness in the home sends
birth. The shepherds come again one to read of the healings and
to kneel in reverence at the manger promises of Jesus; poverty and want
after they heard, in fearful wonder, seek solace in the comforting words
the heavenly strains ''Glory to God of the Master. One sins and one
in the highest, and on earth peace, hunts for encouraging words spoken
good will toward men." The shep- to the repentant sinner; one endures
herds may never have known of the trials, without justification to mortal
visit of the Magi; of the flight into perception, and one contemplates
Egypt; nor of events which tran- the hrmiiliation and indignities
spired on the Western Continent heaped upon the Savior, and reflects
— of the day and a night and a day upon the Lord's silent submission,
when there was light and a new Mental or physical sufferings recall
star arose marking the birth of the the exquisite pain of the Redeemer
Savior. For contemporary with the in the Garden of Gethsemane where
years of Jesus' life, only a little in- he sweat drops of blood. One heeds
formation may have come to one his words to repent, one takes his
and then another, until his public yoke upon him, and, finally, one
ministry was companioned by his struggles for that peace which pas-
disciples, seth understanding, bequeathed to
But this is the day of the dispen- all by the Master,
sation of the fulness of times when From the eminence of the re-
Poge 812
THE SUPREME GIFT
813
stored gospel plan of the Savior one
mav survey and take to himself
priceless truths of eternity. Jesus
Christ is the Shepherd who guards
and preserves the flock in the fold,
through whose door alone his sheep
may enter who know his voice. The
mysteries of godliness are opened
to one's searching gaze. Jesus Christ
is the way and the 'truth; all life is
in him. To scale the heights of
exaltation, his flaming, living light
defines the narrow way of ascent.
None enters those jaspered walls but
those who have taken upon them-
selves the name of Christ.
Nearly two thousand years ago
the Babe was born in a lowly stable.
To know him and the Father who
gave his Only Begotten Son as the
Supreme Gift to the world, is the
meaning of Christmas. Each indi-
vidual places the value of this Gift
to himself. The blind, the indiffer-
ent, the wicked value the Gift as
did those of the Savior's day who
'Vent back and walked no more
with him"; who 'went away sor-
rowful"; who ''sought to take him."
They were among those who cried
"Crucify him." But to those seek-
ing to follow the Christ with hum-
ble hearts and contrite spirits, the
Supreme Gift may bring joy and
glorv unspeakable, and the promise
of eternal life.
-M. C. S.
cJhe iQ.gth Semi-J^nnuai (church L^onfi
npiIE 129th Semi-Annual Con-
ference of the Church was held
in the Tabernacle, Salt Lake City,
Utah, October 9, 10, and 11, 1959,
with our beloved President David
O. McKay conducting all six gen-
eral sessions and the Priesthood
meeting. Two members of the
Council of the Twelve were absent.
Elder Harold B. Lee was touring
the South American Missions, and
Elder Marion G. Romney was visit-
ing the missions in Europe.
The radiant autumn weather and
the spirit of inspiration and brother-
hood in the gospel brought joy and
a feeling of renewed devotion to the
thousands who heard again the
words of life and salvation from
prophets and servants of the Lord.
The lofty and uplifting music was
presented on Friday by the Singing
Mothers of the Jordan Valley Region
erence
under the direction of Florence
Jepperson Madsen of the General
Board of Relief Society; on Satur-
day by the University of Utah
Choral Society, the Institute of Re-
ligion Chorus, and the Bonneville
Strings, directed by David Shand;
and on Sunday by the Tabernacle
Choir under the direction of Rich-
ard P. Condie, assisted by Jay E.
Welsh, with Alexander Schreiner
and Frank W. Asper at the organ.
Elder Howard W. Hunter, Presi-
dent of Pasadena Stake, California,
was sustained as a member of the
Council of the Twelve to fill the
vacancy in the quorum occasioned
by the appointment of Elder Henry
D. Moyle, in June 1959, as Second
Counselor in the First Presidency.
The conference addresses reviewed
the life and teachings of the Savior,
and emphasized the glorious privi-
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— DECEMBER 1959
leges and responsibilities concerned
in accepting and living the fulness
of the gospel of Christ as restored
in the latter days by the Prophet
Joseph Smith.
In his opening address on Fri-
day, President David O. McKay
spoke of the continuing significance
and import of the apostle Paul's in-
structions to Timothy — "Preach
the word; be instant in season, out
of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort
with all long suffering and doc-
trine. . . ."
PRESIDENT McKay, in empha-
sizing the divine mission of the
Savior, stated:
Other great religious leaders among the
nations of the world since history began
have taught virtue, temperance, self-con-
trol, service, obedience to righteousness
and duty; some have taught a belief in
one supreme ruler and in an hereafter;
but only Christ broke the seal of the grave
and revealed death as the door to im-
mortality and eternal life.
If Christ lived after death, so shall men,
each one taking his place in the next
world for which he is best fitted. Since
love is as eternal as Hfe, the message of
the resurrection is the most comforting,
the most glorifying ever given to man. . . ,
PRESIDENT J. Reuben Clark, Jr.
discussed the effects of pagan-
ism in the world and the mission of
the Church in combating the in-
fluence which seeks to establish a
godless world.
... I think this is the first time in all
history when God's people have been
faced with an organized paganism more
or less guided and directed by one who
denies God and says he is unconvertible
from his atheism. , . .
The plan is really one of exterminating
God and Christianity. Into our hands
has been placed through divine ordina-
tions the Holy Priesthood after the Order
of the Son of God. In our hands is the
responsibility of carrving forward. . . .
God had declared that the Lord will
never take away or give to another people
the authority and the Gospel Plan which
we have. I want to bring home to every
one of you brethren and sisters of the
Church, and to others so far as I may
speak, the seriousness of this situation.
You cannot mollify an unconvertible, you
may not hope that after his ends are
gained, for any but the treatment he has
administered upon others. . . .
Please, brethren and sisters of the
Church, keep the home fires of testimony
and knowledge of the gospel and of God
and of Jesus Christ, keep the home fires
burning in your home, in your Priesthood
quorums. ... I bear my testimony that
God lives, that Jesus is the Christ, the
Savior of the world, the Redeemer of
mankind. . . .
PRESIDENT Henry D. Moyle, in
reviewing the first Article of
Faith, declared: ''Upon this Article
of our Faith is the Church founded.
Jesus Christ, our Lord and Master,
is the son of the living God."
His teachings began with his own bap-
tism in the waters of Jordan at the hands
of John by immersion, and John had there-
fore been duly commissioned of the Lord
to perform this ordinance. Could he
have emphasized the importance of bap-
tism in any better way? . . .
We . . . see Christ on the mountain
teaching his disciples whom he had chos-
en .. . the principles by which men
could control their lives, and should con-
trol them. Out of these teachings we
have the Sermon on the Mount. Would
that it were understood by all men. But
all men do not understand the teachings
of Christ. His teachings are sufficient to
have taught all who have heard and all
who have read . . . that they should have
recognized him as the Son of the living
God. . . .
How grateful we are that he ga\e us
the Sacrament of the Lord's supper and
commanded us to meet frequently and
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815
partake of that Sacrament and renew our
covenants to keep his laws and obey his
commandments, even as we covenanted
to do at the waters of baptism.
A
T the concluding session of the
conference, when the hearts of
saints were filled with gratitude and
joy, President McKay blessed the
saints and commissioned them to be
courageous and faithful and de\'ote
their lives to the gospel.
I bless you with increased testimony of
God's existence, increased testimony of
the divinity of Christ's mission, his life,
his death, his establishing of the gospel.
... I pray God to sanctify to our good . . .
the blessings and testimonies of this great
conference, in the name of Jesus Christ.
Amen.
-V. p. c.
TO THE FIELD
ibmergency^ (^yrders for cJemple-iourial L^/othing
PMERGENCY orders for temple-burial clothing are accepted at any
time by the Relief Society General Board Temple-Burial Clothing
Department in Salt Lake City, Utah. The department is open daily,
8:30 A.M., to 5:00 P.M., on weekdays and 8:30 a.m. to 1:00 p.m., on Satur-
days. Emergency orders for temple-burial clothing may be placed on holi-
da\s or week ends when the department is not open by calling the
L.D.S. Church operator in Salt Lake Citv, telephone EMpire 4-2511. In
doing so, explanation should be made to the Church operator that it is an
emergency order and the party calling would like to be connected with
the member of the temple-burial clothing department who is handling
emergency orders for temple-burial clothing. The clothing will then be
sent immediately according to instructions provided by the customer.
cf lower ^yirrangenients — I iew-QJashioned —
Kyla- Q7a snionea
Sylvia. Pezoldt
■pOKE short-stemmed flowers through the holes in a plastic doily \\hich covers a
■*■ shallow bowl of water. By using a round, lacw white doily with a careful arrange-
ment of colorful flowers inside the border, it will look like an old-fashioned bouquet.
1 1 Lake cJhis L^aller vl/elconie
Submitted hy the National Tuberculosis Association
n^HAT veteran tuberculosis fighter — the Christmas Seal — is calling on
you again this year. The annual Christmas Seal letter from voluntary
TB associations is making its way into homes all over the Nation. On
your response to its message depends the chance of continuing the battle
against that constant menace to every individual and every home.
When the first Christmas Seal was introduced, fifty-two years ago,
tuberculosis was called the White Plague. Unfortunates who came down
with TB were shunned and extended as little hope as there was scientific
knowledge of the disease. Christmas Seal contributions over the last half
century have done a tremendous amount to change that dismal picture.
Now the Christmas Seal, with its familiar double-barred cross, has
become a symbol of hope. This year Christmas Seal money will help some
3,000 voluntary TB associations to fight an estimated 70,000 new cases of
TB in this country. Tuberculin skin tests and chest X-rays will search
out unsuspected cases, which, if left undiscovered, could infect others.
Health education will help keep TB from ever developing. Medical re-
search will continue its eflforts to overcome TB wherever it develops.
Your 1959 Christmas Seal contribution helps to protect your family
from tuberculosis.
Give for Christmas Seals and use them.
cHonie cJ^ in press 10 as
Hannah C. Ash by
Her active feet once pattered through the doors,
And vibrant voices filled the rooms \\'ith song.
Her eager helpers did the family chores,
And hke young nursery trees, grew straight and strong.
The years sped swiftly by on soaring wings;
There was no time to stop or hesitate.
The constant care of a growing family brings
Demanded action now, that could not wait.
As buds to blossoms burst \\'ith coming dawn,
The children quickly flowered with learning's light;
And all too soon the childhood hours were gone;
The world had lured them forth to try their might.
Like carvings deeply etched in marble base.
Those home impressions time cannot efface.
Page 816
The Miracle Mile
Leoh Secly Anderson
YOU can walk a mile down
Wilshire Boulevard any night
in December and meet a
miracle. There is a small but bril-
liant sign just the other side of one
of Hollywood's big department
stores that tells you this is it: The
Miracle Mile. You may see only
the fabulous glitter of a man-made
empire, or you may see a sudden and
strange light, as Louisa Devore did,
about eight o'clock on the night of
December 23d as she walked the
Miracle Mile with her daughter,
Nancy.
Wrapped in furs and bright
scarves, they were a striking couple
even among the throngs of well-
dressed, package-laden people, but
though she walked with the meas-
ured tread of confidence, Louisa
Devore knew panic in her heart. She
felt the rapier thrust of icicles in
the air swirling in from the ocean,
and although the Miracle Mile
blazed light as day, the sky above
was blackly impenetrable.
Mark, Mark, where are vou? Her
silent cry spiraled into the night and
found no answer. Her shattering
widowhood still ached and destroyed
with its loneliness. Though it had
been nearly six months since Mark's
sudden heart attack, her loss seemed
as poignant tonight as at first.
Christmas without Mark was like
summer without sunshine or winter
without hope.
Louisa slid her arm through
Nancy's and held her tightly. She
still had Nancy, a vital part of
Mark— like him in her quick gen-
erosity, her gay, laughing spirit.
Without her there would be no
going on.
Tonight the girl seemed restless
and preoccupied. She misses her
father, too, Louisa brooded. Holi-
days had always been such fun. It
had become a ritual to walk the
Miracle Mile before Christmas Eve
to enjoy the elegance of the dis-
plays and the storybook dramas in
the windows. And Mark had always
insisted on buying them something
special— a cloud of nylon, celestial
blue, or maybe a stole iridescent
with sequins, like a star remem-
bered. Or perhaps a sack of pop-
corn, or a Christmas elf.
Louisa forced her errant thoughts
back. Nancy had been talking all
the way down the street, not in the
usual torrent of excited chatter, but
thoughtfully. Louisa drew closer to
her daughter. Panic was a shadow,
so near.
'Taul says you have to be away
from all this to appreciate what
Christmas really means," Nancy
spoke softly. "He says all the sur-
face show and high-pressure com-
mercialism make him ill since he
spent a Christmas overseas. He
thinks. . . ."
'Taul says, Paul thinks"— Louisa's
taut nerves grew tighter stih. She
knew Paul Candland was a fine
young man; she knew he was ambi-
tious and intelligent and halfway
through law school. He was also
terribly in love with her daughter,
and that was frightening, too.
'Taul thinks every second gen-
eration should be born poor— just
so we don't lose the wonder of liv-
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ing. He says doled-out money is a
narcotic that gives people the idea
the world owes them a living, when
actually it only owes them the right
to earn it. Isn't he splendid? He
thinks — oh, wait, Mother! You
really should see this!"
OHE maneuvered Louisa expertly
through the crowd into a
jewelry store entrance and pointed
into the show window. A fabulous
solitaire winked each of a thousand
facets at them. Around it the other
stones were lesser stars.
'That's the ring he's going to get
me. We picked it out last night."
Louisa gasped, ''Why, that ring
would cost more than Paul makes
in a year!"
"Sure!" Nancy smiled. "But, as
Paul says, the best is none too good
for me!"
Louisa stiffened. "I thought Paul
objected to five-dollars-down deals.
I thought Paul was the independent
type, who asked nothing from any-
one, who planned to fight the drag-
on single-handed and bring it back
to you on his silver charger!"
At the edge in her voice, Nancy
looked up. "Oh, he isn't going to
get it right away. Maybe in the
next fifty years, though."
Louisa's lips relaxed slowly.
Nancy chose her words more care-
fully. "No, Paul's going to finish
his law course in the East. He has
been offered a part-time job in a
legal firm while he studies at the
university. He's leaving before the
New Year, Mother."
Louisa's breath stopped in her
throat and anguish piled up behind
it. Nancy wanted to go across the
continent with Paul! Her last com-
fort would slip away unless she
could stop it. She must stop it!
"He's a wonderful person, Moth-
er. He's thoughtful and kind and
he works so hard. Fm afraid he'll
overdo it when he's away off there
alone, with no one to look after him.
He says there's so much to learn and
time goes so fast. . . ."
Off there alone? Louisa gasped
at hope. "You— you aren't going
with him?"
Nancy raised blue eyes misty with
tears. "Not as long as you want me
here. Mother. He thinks you need
me now more than he does."
I do— I do! Louisa cried silently.
V\\ always need you. Maybe away
off there Paul will find somebody
else. . . . She turned quickly from
the window to stop her guilty think-
ing. Her relief rushed out in un-
considered words. "Fll make it up
to you, Nancy. Why don't I buy
the ring you want, and you'll have
it while you wait. . . ?"
Nancy's look shamed her. "I don't
think Paul would like that. Besides,
he knows I don't need a ring to
wait. From my bedroom window
I can see the angel Moroni shining
at the top of the temple out on
Santa Monica, and I can wait."
Oh, to be young again, to have
time and faith! As through a mist
Louisa's lost gaze drifted— then riv-
eted—to a shop window opposite
the jeweler's. There was nothing
gaudy or brilliant in it. A tiny blue
and white pastry shop with a single
display. In letters of gingerbread a
foot high it spelled out the name
"Louisa," and an obbligato of
Christmas bells tinkled softly in the
background.
OHOCK jolted Louisa alive. Sud-
denly she was young again
THE MIRACLE MILE
819
Impelled, she raised her eyes from
the gingerbread name to the face of
the short, roly-poly woman who
nodded and smiled at her through
the window. Louisa swayed un-
steadily. The woman's ash-blond
hair was swept up to a flat bun on
top of her head, and her eyes were
twinkly and China-blue. Her gay
cotton dress, like a generous sack of
flour, was tied in the middle by an
immaculate white muslin apron.
Moving without volition, Louisa
pushed open the door of the blue
and white shop, and a wave of spicy
fragrance rushed to meet her. A
strange excitement possessed her.
Don't be silly, she commanded her-
self. It is more than twenty years
since Granny Straus died. Yet give
this little lady a bright blue bowl
and a batch of feathery ''windcakes"
in the making, put her in a spotless
kitchen away off in a tiny Utah vil-
lage, and she could almost be dear,
precious Granny Straus, the only
mother Louisa Devore had ever
known.
'The Sint Nikolaas koek in the
window . . ." she began.
The little woman beamed. 'Tou
know this cake, yes? You are Dutch,
too, maybe?"
Louisa nodded. "My grandmother
was. The name— why did you use
'Louisa'?"
"Is a common name in Holland.
Is also my name, and the name of
my granddaughter." She smiled and
bobbed her head.
Louisa drew a slow, stabilizing
breath. Of course. How fooHsh can
a sensible woman get!
"Saint Nicholas cake," Nancy re-
peated. "Didn't you used to tell
me about that. Mother— that it
meant something special?"
The little woman rubbed her
hands down the sides of her apron.
"But, yes. The cake is put on the
mantel on the eve of Sint Nikolaas.
The size, how high it is, tells every-
body have you been a good girl this
year. A very high cake— a very good
girl. You wish to haf cake made
for you?"
Nancy gurgled, "Let's Mother!
One for Paul, too!"
Louisa's drooping chin came up.
Why not? Christmas is for remem-
bering loved ones and precious
things and symbols that have had a
part in fashioning one's life.
The back door of the shop swung
open and a little man came in. A
host of wonderful smells came with
him— cinnamon and apples and
spices rich as the Magi. He was
short and stocky and almost bald,
with a face like a Rubens' cherub
on which a mischievous boy has
painted a Van Dyke beard.
^ITHOUT uttering a word, he
captured Louisa's vagrant emo-
tions and spun her thoughts back
twenty years. All the way back to
a tiny railroad station in a vast white
valley asleep at the foot of the
Rocky Mountains. It was Christ-
mas \'acation, the last one she had
spent at home from school.
As she had stepped into the snow
from the ancient passenger car,
Cramp had shuffled out of the half-
buried station to meet her, a veri-
table Santa in his fur pillbox and ear
muffs, which were as much his trade-
mark as the short white beard at
which he tugged whenever he was
perplexed.
All in a moment he had embraced
her, told her how pretty she was,
and tucked her into the sleigh under
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a hea\ V patchwork quilt. The team
of spirited ba\s had leaped forward
at his signal.
It was like flying to the tinkle of
siher sleigh bells. She had loved
the sting of wind in her faee,
laughed at the snowballs tossed up
into her la]) bv the horses' prancing
feet, l^own the single street of the
tiny village, square little Dutch
houses were lined up companion-
ablv like a row of children in bed.
Here were security and permanence
as unchanging as the mountains.
"Could I get you maybe a glass
of vater?" the little man behind the
counter asked softly, smiling at
Louisa Devore. 'Ton look sick."
His voice. That accent. Louisa
tried to clear her head. This was
absurd. There was no snow in
Southern California, no matched
bays pulling two-runner sleds, no
blue Dutch house, and no Cramp
with wise, understanding eyes. Not
for twenty years had there been.
Yet the little shop breathed the
same cherished fragrance, the same
warmth and simplicity. The past
lived again in these two friendly per-
sons so like those she had loved
most. Seeing them called up living
pictures of forgotten things. Pio-
neers from foreign lands strong in
a new faith, who knew so well where
wisdom lay. They had planted in
her heart guideposts deep and firm
and immovable.
Like the advice about love— love
is gi\'ing and sharing and never
thinking about yourself until every-
body else is thought of!
Love. Louisa Devore turned sud-
denly to look deep into her daugh-
ter's eyes. How like Granny's they
were. LIow like Cranny this child
of hers was. She might have been
the one to whom Cranny gave her
priceless ad\'ice, Thmk of c\cry-
hodv else first. Louisa's cheeks
flushed.
"We'll take the cakes, Nancv.
One for Paul, too. ^^^e'll have a
Dutch Christmas right here in the
middle of Holl3'WOod." And we'll
shut out the glamor and glitter, she
promised silently.
lUANCY began to bubble. "We'll
make manikins, Mother, to hide
our presents in — like you used to
tell me about when I was little."
Louisa fumbled in her wallet and
laid a bill on the counter.
"Make us a Merry Christmas
gingerbread, too," she said rapidly.
"Only spell it with an 'X.' It will
be a more convenient size."
The two smiles faded. The couple
exchanged perplexed glances, and
the little lady broke into voluble
Dutch. Louisa caught a word here
and there, and nostalgia surged up in
her again. Quickly she added her
card to the bill.
"Send the cakes early tomorrow,
will you? We must have time to
alter our decorations."
"I'm sorry," the little man said
gently. "The names we will do, yes.
But the Merry Xmas, no. Ve never
put an 'X' in Christmas. \^e can't
take der Christ out/' he finished
simply.
The impact of memory was like a
bolt of lightning. Just so Cramp
would have said it— just so he did
say it— more than twenty years ago.
"No substitute for der Christ
Child, Louisa. Christmas then vas
real jewels brought by devout kings
with priceless incense and rich spices
laid at a Baby's feet; 'tis the mno-
THE MIRACLE MILE
821
cence of woolly white lambs, unci
der integrity of parental devotion."
Louisa took Nancy's arm and
leaned against her. "Forget that
one cake, then. The others— tomor-
row.'' At the door she turned to
look at them again. 'Thank you.
Thank you very much/' she whis-
pered.
UTSIDE the lights struck her
full in the face. Up and down
Wilshire blazed the Miracle Mile.
The crowds had thinned, and with-
in her vision were three pseudo
Santas plying their trades. One rang
a bell over a black pot; one whistled
mechanically, his body encased m
two battery-lighted boards; a third
sat inside a show window making
promises to the starry-eyed child on
his lap.
"If everyone taught Christ as se-
dulously as people do Santa, what
a different world this would be,"
Nancv mused aloud.
Louisa scarcely heard her. Clearly
from the hills abo\e Hollywood
shone lights in the darkness. Lights
of homes like hers. Fabulous, many
of them, possessing real jewels and
rare perfumes— and why not pa-
rental devotion as well? The kind
Cramp taught her the day he met
her at the station and took her home
for the last time.
Louisa's thoughts flowed out in a
murmur. "You never did see the
little blue house where I grew up,
did you, darhng? It was a beautiful
house— I thought."
Nancy looked quickly at her moth-
er, and as quickly away. Gently she
guided her on down the Miracle
Mile.
"I wish you could have seen it as
it was when I came home that last
Christmas. Grannv had been gone
six months, but my ^mi Nikohas
keoke stood on the mantel as always,
a very big koek it was. And there
was appelbaien in the kitchen, and
a pine log fire laid in the parlor. . . ."
Cramp had knelt to light it. The
flame had sent a dainty red tongue
exploring and begun its feast with
pungent pleasure. The old man
stood up and, taking his pretty
granddaughter's shoulders in his big
hands, had looked into her troubled
eyes.
"Cramp knew what was bothering
me, Nancy, even before I told him.
He knew about Mark— he had met
him early in the fall. And he knew,
without telling, that I wanted to
marrv him and go a\\'av to Cali-
fornia. But how could I leave my
old Cramp alone— so alone?"
"Silly child!" Cramp had said,
shaking her gently. "How little you
know of life and luff!" He had
taken out his huge red handkerchief
and blown his nose loudly. "I'll
never be alone. Cranny is not far
away. I haf only to close my eyes
and she is there in her chair, rocking
and smiling, and bidding me pick
up the match I've untidily dropped
on the hearth." Lie had stooped
and thrown the match into the
flame. "She's smiling now."
"Come to California with us.
Cramp," she had pleaded, as they
sat before the fire, her head on his
o\'eralled knee.
"No, child," he had said gently.
"I haf my home, my horses, my
friends, and my memories. You
have a life of your own to live. You
\ill come back and show me a
grandchild, and I will be proud of
vou and the bab\'. It will be like
der first Christmas of all, \cn a lid-
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die One was King of peace and
love." His knotted old fingers had
stroked her bright hair. "Remember,
child, those who love us best are
ne\'cr far a\\'ay. They see and know
und understand. Und der Christ-
he loves us most of all."
Louisa De\'ore smiled at her
daughter. Dear, generous Nancy.
She would have let Paul go and
stayed behind, all without com-
plaint. But what Nancy didn't
know and Louisa had just remem-
bered was that one must walk the
last mile alone. Christ did— up
Calvary. Cramp did— he never saw
Nancy at all. Cently Louisa De-
vore disengaged her arm from
Nancy's.
Past the blaze of the shops the
radiance of the Miracle Mile be-
comes subdued. Down near the
end of it, on a clear night, one
might see the stars, if one was look-
ing up. Louisa raised her head. A
huge white shaft pointed straight to
the sky. It might have been only
the gleaming tower of a buildmg,
but it seemed to be measuring the
distance between a human heart and
heaven.
"Peace I leave with you, my peace
I give unto you. . . ."
I iignt Sky Ujefore Snowfall
Eva WiUes Wangsgaard
The sky was an uncut sapphire
Set in mother-of-pead,
Nested in pale wool combings,
Multiplied swirl on swirl.
The earth was a gray cat sleeping
Curled on a cold gray floor.
The sky was an uncut sapphire
With a white star at its core.
^i
pricot
Salad
Edna hind Cole
2 Vi c. apricots, fresh or canned
1 pkg. orange gelatin
1 c. apricot juice
1 c. hot water
1 c. walnuts coarsely chopped
1 tbsp. lemon juice
1 c. cream whipped
Dissolve gelatin in hot water. Add the apricot juice and lemon juice. Chill this
mixture until thickened. Then remo\e from pan and fold in whipped cream and nuts.
Return to tray and finish chilhng until firmly set. This recipe makes six generous
servings.
Say 11 ierryi (^hnstmas vi/ith c/ancy LJeast iKoUs
Ruby K. Smith
C\^ the year's happiest hoHday —
\^-hen the first Christmas greet-
ings and the excitement of unwrap-
ping colorful gift packages are over
— be ready with something special
for that holiday breakfast or brunch.
An easy way to tempt the appetite
on this day of days, is to serve your
family and friends with some of the
festive variations of yeast rolls.
Reserve one day during the week
before Christmas to make all the
bread and rolls necessary for the
holidays, and let the aroma of fresh-
Iv baked bread in the kitchen stir
nostalgic memories of "the bread
Mother used to make" at Christ-
mastime. First, bake the bread,
and while the fragrant loaves are
cooling on the shelf, turn your at-
tention to the basic recipe for
raised rolls.
Dough
for rolls is softer than
bread dough, since the amounts
of sugar and fat are increased, and
eggs are added. When the dough
is ready for shaping, try some of
the many variations of size, shape,
and supplementary ingredients with
which the finished product will de-
light your family. Just let your
imagination run riot, as you roll,
cut, and twist the dough, and com-
bine it with spices, raisins, nuts,
candied cherries, fruit-cake mix,
grated lemon rind, frostings, or col-
ored cake trim. Then, for good
measure, remove the crust from a
loaf of bread, cut it into bun-sized
pieces, and dress them up with
icing and holiday garnishes. As you
work, give the children a chance to
help, and they will surprise you with
their original ideas.
Dough for Sweet Yeast Rolls
1 yeast cake or i pkg. dry yeast % c. shortening
'/4 c. lukewarm water i tsp. salt
1 c. milk 2 eggs (beaten)
Vz c. sugar 4 c. sifted flour
(For whole-wheat rolls, use Vz whole-wheat flour)
Soften yeast in warm water. Scald fresh milk and cool to lukewarm, or combine
dry or condensed milk with warm \^'ater to make one cup. Add sugar, shortening, salt,
softened yeast, and eggs. Add part of flour and combine in mixer to make a smooth
batter. Remove beaters and add remainder of flour to make a soft dough. Let rest
a few minutes, then knead thoroughly, until surface is very smooth. Place in greased
bowl, cover, and let rise until a little more than doubled in bulk. Punch down, and
divide in portions for different kinds of rolls. Keep unused portions covered until
needed.
Shape rolls on floured, canvas-covered board, as desired. Place on greased cookie
sheet, cake pan, or muffin tins. If icings or other toppings are to be added, brush
top of rolls with milk or egg-white glaze. Otherwise, brush with melted fat. Cover
lightly, and set in warm place until doubled in bulk. Bake in moderate oven (375°),
20 to 25 minutes, or until lightly browned. Remove from oven, add icing or any
other desired decoration, and cool on rack.
Prepare fillings and toppings while waiting for dough to rise.
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Courtesy General Mills, Inc.
CliNNAMON ROLLS
Cinnamon Rolls
Use one-third recipe for sweet roll dough. Roll into a long narrow sheet % inch
thick and 6 or 8 inches wide. If dough is too elastic to keep oblong shape, let it
rest a few minutes and roll again. Brush with melted shortening, leaving one inch
on long edge. Sprinkle generously with cinnamon roll filling. Moisten edge with
water, roll as for jelly roll, seal moistened edge, and shape into smooth roll. Cut in
one-inch slices, and place on greased baking pan with cut side down. Brush with egg-
\\hite glaze, and let rise until doubled in bulk. Bake in moderately hot oven (375°)
20 to 25 minutes. Brush with powdered sugar frosting and cool on rack.
For holiday cinnamon rolls, use fruit-cake mix m filling, and sprinkle a dash of
green or red cake trim oxer frosting,
Christmas Twists
Use one-third recipe for sweet roll dough. Shape small pieces of dough between
the palms of your hands, into very thin rolls. Cut rolls 4 inches long. Cross two rolls
to make an X, then curl each end out and in to make a broken figure 8. Place on
cookie sheet, and brush with egg \^•hitc. Let rise until doubled in bulk. Bake until
lightly browned. Remo\c from o\cn, spread with icing, and decorate ^^■ith raisins
or candied fruit.
Innumerable \ariations, using t\\isted rolls of dough, such as these, are possible.
Let the children help }ou do the shaping and twisting for some of these variations,
as follows:
SAY "MERRY CHRISTMAS" WITH FANCY YEAST ROLLS 825
Snails: Cut rolls of dough 7 inches long. I'wist ends in opposite directions, and
curl around on baking sheet in form of snails. Double snails are made by curling ends
of rolls in opposite directions.
Pietzels: Bring ends of roll together, and loop center of roll halfway over.
Bowknots: Tie 6-inch roll in a knot with loose ends.
Rosettes: Tie 8-inch roll in knot, and tuck ends under dough.
Braids: Pin^h three or four long rolls of dough together at one end. Braid
loosely, and pinch together at other end. Make them small for individual rolls, or
large for loaf-size pan.
Double Twists: Twist end of long rolls in opposite directions, then twist 2 or 3
of them together in loose roll.
Chnstmas Wreaths: Make braids or double twists long enough to arrange in
circle on cookie sheet. Brush with egg white and sprinkle generously with green cake
trim. Place clusters of candied cherries to represent berries.
Other decorations are as follows:
Courtesy General Mills, Inc.
CHRISTMAS TWISTS
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Fruit-FiUed Twists: Brush surface of shaped rolls with egg white. Let rise to
double in bulk. Make depression in center of roll and fill with jam, jelly, or preserves.
Bake until light bro\\n. Brush with powdered-sugar icing.
Nut Twists: Brush rolls with egg white, and roll in finely chopped nuts before
shaping on baking sheet. Decorate \\ith candied cherries or other garnishes.
Clover Leaf Rolls
Mold small pieces of dough into round balls about i inch in diameter. Brush
^^ith melted fat, and place three balls in each section of an oiled muffin tin. Let rise
and bake as for other rolls.
\^\RiATioNs Using Balls of Dough
Rolls of many shapes may be made from small balls of dough. Mark patterns on
a cookie sheet with melted fat, and let the children make balls of dough to form
crescents, triangles, hearts, stars, etc. If Sally decides to make the initial S, the others
\\ill also want to shape their initials.
To decorate, roll the balls of dough in crushed nuts or lemon sugar, or garnish
with candied fruit or colored cake trim.
Another delightful variation is to form the balls of dough with a maraschino
cherry or other candied fruit in the center of each one.
**^
Hal Runiniel
DECORATED CHRISTMAS TREE
Christmas Trees
Roll dough V4 inch thick. Cut two or three 2-inch squares. Cut squares diagon-
ally to make triangles with one long side. Shape a tree trunk of dough on cookie
sheet, and arrange triangles, with long side down, one above another, to represent
branches of tree. Brush \\'ith egg white, and sprinkle generously with green cake trim.
Press fruit cake mix into dough at intervals to represent the ornaments and gifts.
Let rise and bake as other rolls.
SAY "MERRY CHRISTMAS" WITH FANCY YEAST ROLLS
Butter Flakes (Fan Tans)
827
Roll the dough into an oblong sheet !4 inch thick. Brush with melted fat and
cut in two-inch strips. Stack strips four or five high, and cut off in 2 -inch squares.
Place, cut side down, in greased muffin tins. Let rise and bake as other rolls.
Cinnamon or lemon-sugar may be sprinkled over dough before cutting, to add
flavor to rolls.
BUTTERHORNS
Roll dough into circular shape, 9 inches in diameter and % inch thick. Brush
with melted fat. Cut into 12 or 16 wedge-shaped pieces. Roll each wedge, starting
at wide end and rolling to point. Arrange on baking sheet, and brush with melted
fat. For crescents, curve on pan. Let rise and bake until lightly browned.
Fruit Folds
Prepare dough as for other rolls. When ready to shape, roll on floured board !4
inch thick. Cut rolled dough into 3-inch squares. Place one teaspoon of date or
applc-raisin filling in center of each square. Fold corners over filling and pinch edges
together. Place in greased muffin tins, let rise, and bake.
Fruit folds may also be baked on cookie sheet, with two opposite corners folded
over filling, and other corners left open.
Jelly or preserves may also be used for filling.
Holiday Fruit Bread
1 recipe sweet roll dough
Yi e. white raisins
Yi c shredded citron
Yi c. chopped maraschino cherries
Mix as for rolls, adding fruit to sponge before last flour is kneaded in. Knead
until smooth, and let rise until doubled in bulk. Shape into round loaf in a 9-inch
oiled cake pan. Let rise, and bake in moderate oven (350°) for 45 minutes. Brush
with melted fat while warm.
Pecan Loaf
one portion sweet roll dough
Vs c. pecan cream filling
egg-white glaze
!4 c. finely chopped pecans
powdered sugar frosting
Roll prepared dough into square 10 by 10 inches, 14 inch thick. Spread Pecan
Filling over % of surface, lea^'ing % free along one side. Fold plain side, envelope
fashion, over filling, then fold again, bringing lengthwise edges together. Press edges
to seal.
Cut folded dough lengthwise into three strips. Stretch each strip, twisting ends
in opposite directions. Coil the strips loosely, end to end, in a well-oiled round cake
pan. Begin coil in center of pan, and seal the ends of strips as they are put together.
Brush with egg-white glaze, and let rise for one hour. Sprinkle with half of
chopped pecans. Bake in moderate oven until lightly browned (375° — 25 minutes).
Remo\'e from o\en, brush \\ith powdered sugar frosting, and sprinkle with re-
maining nuts. Serve in wedge-shaped pieces.
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Fillings and Toppings
Filling ioi Cinnamon Rolls
/4 c. sugar
/4 c. raisins or currants
2 tsp. cinnamon
Stir together, and sprinkle over rolled dough, which has been brushed with
melted fat.
Lcnwu Sugar
2 tbsp. grated lemon peel
Vz c. sugar
Stir together, and use for filling or topping. (Grated orange peel may be used
in same way.)
NutSy Jams, Jellies, and Preserves can all be used for easy and flavorful fillings and
toppings.
Egg-white Glaze
1 egg white
2 tbsp. water
sugar as desired
Mix together, and brush over rolls just before shaping. (Do not use brush which
has been used for melted fat.)
Confectioners' Powdered Sugar Frosting
2 c. powdered sugar
1 tsp. ^•anilla
1 or 2 tbsp. top milk or cream
dash of salt
Add just enough milk or cream to the sugar to give it a spreading consistency.
Add flavoring.
Date Filling
Va c. l)ro\\n sugar
1 tbsp. flour
Vz c. water
Vi c. finely chopped dates
1 tsp. lemon juice
Apple-Raisin Filling
1 c. thick applesauce
2 tbsp. brown sugar
Vi c. raisins
Combine and stn until well mi.xed.
Pecan Cream Filling
!4 c. butter or margarine
1 14 e. sifted powdered sugar
1 tbsp. flour
Combine and stir until \\cll mixed.
INTix sugar and flour in small sauce-
pan. Add water and stir until smooth.
Add dates, and cook until thickened. Add
lemon juice, and cool.
1 tbsp. butter or margarine
1 tsp. nutmeg
1 egg yolk
/4 c. finelv chopped pecans
2 drops almond fla\oring
fe/va ///. cJingey 1 1 Lakes Ujeauttfai and Liseful
J/trttc/es vUith [Plastic QJoani
THE picture shows El\a M. Tingcy of Lclii, Utah, holding one of the bags which
she made by weaving and trimming it with plastic foam. Also illustrated are many
other unusual gift articles made from plastic foam: doll dresses, flowers, dress hangers,
a lampshade, and house slippers. Mrs. Tingey has de\eloped many original designs and
has made hundreds of articles using this beautifully colored and easily \^•ashable ma-
terial. Sofa pillows and fancy bed pillows made from the foam make lo\ely gifts.
Place mats, covers for appliances, table place mats, and other articles can be made in
anv of the forty different colors which plastic foam pro\ ides.
Mrs. Tingey has shared her hobby with hundreds of women and has given many
demonstrations of her craft. She has instructed the blind, the physically handicapped,
and the aged to enjoy pleasant hours with this interesting hobby. In 1955, Mrs. Tingey
and her husband initiated another hobby — they opened an old-fashioned store where
\\omen are invited to come and share their ideas and display their handwork.
-» ♦ »
QJruit Salad
Joan Staley
1 c. mandarin oranges (drained
1 c. chunk pineapple (drained)
1 e. small marshmallo\\'S
1 c. coconut, shredded
1 c. sour cream
Mix together all ingredients and let set over night in the ice box.
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The New Day
Hazel K. Todd
Chapter
3
Synopsis: Lynn Marlow, a dress design-
er, who lives in Chicago and is engaged to
David Talbot, returns to Springdale, her
home town, to visit her Aunt Polly, and
to find out if she has really forgotten her
love for Johnny Spencer. Johnny had
married a Southern girl who had died,
leaving two children. After her arrival in
Springdale, on her way to her aunt's home,
Lynn meets Johnny's children.
BY the time Lynn reached the
turn in the trail where she
must leave the path along
the stream, and climb the Httle hill
which led to the small brown house
where she had grown from child-
hood, she was very much ashamed
for allowing herself to be so dis-
turbed. She had mostly replaced
the pounding of her heart at seeing
Johnny's children, for the new ex-
citement of meeting Aunt Polly.
And again the dread arose in her
of finding something wrong.
She had reached the top of the
hill now, where the orchard was.
My! How the trees had grown!
She looked at the apricot trees that
she had helped Aunt Polly trans-
plant from seedlings. And there
was the big apple tree with the limb
sticking out where she had swung
as a little girl. The blossoms had
come and gone, leaving tiny green
knobs hanging among the new
leaves.
Bevond the fruit trees was the
garden. Lynn looked, expecting to
see it filled with last year's dead
stalks and weeds. But it was as
she had always known it, neat rows
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of rich black soil hilled into long
columns. The green things were
barely showing through the black
dirt. Lynn paused a minute and bit
her lip thoughtfully. Aunt Polly
must not feel too badly.
Then, before she knew it, she had
reached the door with the low knob.
It was half open and the sun shone
in on the rose-patterned rug. She
sniffed. That pungent odor of gin-
ger and molasses could come from
nothing else but Aunt Polly's fresh-
baked gingerbread. She opened the
screen door and went in with a
beating heart. The old, well-known
articles about the room loomed be-
fore her in sweet nostalgia. Aunt
Polly was not there. But there was
the red velvet sofa, the tall china
closet with the dear familiar dishes,
the high-backed rocking chair with
the basket of needlepoint roses.
How often she remembered as a
child sitting on the floor and lean-
ing her head against that basket of
roses.
''Aunt Polly," she called excitedly.
There was no response.
Lynn walked into the kitchen.
There was the high red stool where
she had sat and peeled the potatoes
for dinner. She went over and sat
on it with her feet on the round.
Her eyes traveled over the cupboard,
with its rows of blue china plates,
its teakettle stencils. There was the
old ceramic cat hanging on the wall,
with the length of string dangling
from its whiskers. The kitchen was
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spotlessly clean, as she had always
known it. And there on the cup-
board was the gingerbread. Lynn
slid the long bread knife from the
varnished flower pot holder, and cut
off a generous piece.
Sitting there eating spicy ginger-
bread, after so many years, seemed
very natural to Lynn. She should
have come back long ago— when
she first met David. David would
fit perfectly in this pleasant old
kitchen, with his quiet serenity, his
easy congeniality. And he would
love the gingerbread. She wished
he had come with her. She paused
a minute in the bite she was about
to take. Just why, for sure, wouldn't
he come with her? She looked at
the door without seeing it. Aunt
Polly would love David. She could
see her fussing about doing things
for his comfort.
npHE door was opening now, and
Aunt Polly was standing there
looking at her, her apron overflow-
ing with green dandelions.
Her round face was flushed with
wonder, but full and pleasant, with
only a few added wrinkles. For a
minute she stood, and then she
slowly let go her hold on the apron,
allowing the bright green foliage to
tumble about her feet.
''Lindy! Lindy!" she gasped,
'where did you come from?"
Lynn gulped down the mouthful
of gingerbread, and then they were
in each other's arms, crying and
laughing and saying foolish things.
Finally, Aunt Polly wiped her face
with her apron and dragged Lynn
into the living room. ''Land sakes
alive, child," she exclaimed, ''we act
like two old fools or a couple of
kids instead of two grown women."
She pulled Lynn down on the sofa
beside her. "Now, young lady, tell
me what in the world brought you
back to Springdale after all these
years of staying away on purpose!"
Lynn was looking Aunt Polly
over lovingly but closely. "Because
you dear old Auntie," she said, "you
let me believe you were ill, so I
would come home."
Aunt Polly ignored the accusa-
tion. She patted Lynn's hand. "It's
wonderful, just wonderful," she
kept saying over and over.
When, finally, Lynn found her-
self alone in her old bedroom with
the sloping ceiling and the window
with the ruffled curtains where the
early morning sun used to peep
through in summertime and awaken
her, she sat down on the gay patch-
work quilt and wondered.
Seeing Aunt Polly and the home
of her childhood was so sweet, but
seeing Johnny's children had awak-
ened in her an ominous fear. Again
and again she told herself she would
not let it bother her. Those years
belonged to her no more. Or did
they? The gray depths of a child's
eyes so like his father's, a squirming
little girl with tangled curls — and
what of Johnny? Was he really
just a part of the past? Or were the
old ashes of that past burning,
lying smoldering, ready to be fanned
again to open flame?
Lynn buried her face into the
feather pillow and shed a few, un-
summoned tears. "Oh," she said,
"something is happening to me. I
must go away before it hurts all
over again."
So she turned her face toward the
flowered wallpaper with a resolution
that on the morrow she would re-
turn to Chicago and Uncle Meri-
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deth, to her dress designing, and
to Da\id whom she would wed in
the fall — no, it would be an earlier
wedding.
5|; >',i i\< -i^i ','fi
OHE was awakened by spring sun-
shine streaming through her
window just as it used to do. She
looked about her in bewilderment.
The soft ruffled curtain, the blue
columbines climbing the wallpaper,
and the sounds of pots and pans
somewhere couldn't belong to her
world. She lived in a wide brick
house in Chicago where she looked
through her window to see rows
of houses and tall skyscrapers. She
lifted her hand from the bright
quilt and let it slide softly down
the blue columbines. Yes, they
were there. They were all there —
the flowers on the wallpaper, the
sun peeping through the window,
the. . . .
She sat up and slid her legs over
the low bed so that her feet rested
on the firm braided rug. She gazed
at the sun streaming in. It was a
bright spring day with birds chat-
tering in the apple trees. Down
across the hill she could see the
houses of Springdale settled quietly
there where she had seen them so
many times before. Beyond it the
road wound away like a gypsy rib-
bon. Her gaze shifted to the line
of willows that hid the creek and
the path where last night she had
met Johnny's children. And then,
unbidden, across the meadow to
the mill. And in a moment she had
found what she involuntarily sought,
a house that looked tiny and far
awav from her bedroom window.
She looked searchingly at it as
though from this distance she might
know what was inside.
The faint sizzle of bacon frying
came to her. Aunt Polly would have
breakfast waiting. She must get
dressed. Then she remembered
that her things were at Mr. Jensen's
drug store.
She looked instinctively toward
the closet where her clothes used
to be. It would be interesting to
see what still might be hanging
there that she could wear.
Opening the door was like meet-
ing old friends after a long separa-
tion. There was the green striped
skirt that she had worn to the Girls'
Day matinee dance. And the pink
plaid gingham with the rosebud
buttons. And there — Lynn caught
her breath. There was her gradua-
tion dress with the rows and rows
of pink ruffles. She had saved it
for a special occasion that never
came. Impatiently she pushed it
farther back into the closet and slid
the pink gingham almost roughly
from the hanger. With trembling
fingers she buttoned the rosebud
buttons down the front of the yoke.
As she did so, she caught a glimpse
of herself in the mirror. She paused
a minute and smiled. Then she
went closer, and with one hand,
pulled back the hair. Yes, that was
the way she used to look. She fum-
bled in the drawer with her free
hand and pulled out a red ribbon
which she tied in a bow around her
hair.
Out in the kitchen where Aunt
Polly was preparing breakfast, she
gasped at Lynn standing in the door.
''Why, child," she said, the egg
turner in mid-air, ''you're just like
you used to be." And she wiped
her eves with the corner of her
apron.
With the old impulsiveness Lynn
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went to Aunt Polly and threw her
arms around her neck. ''Oh, Aunt
Polly, it is wonderful to be home
again with you and all the dear
things in this house."
For a minute Aunt Polly stroked
the brown hair and then she took
her handkerchief from her pocket
and wiped her face. ''Mercy sakes
alive, Lynn, come and eat your
breakfast before you have me crying
like a baby." She pushed her to-
ward the chair where Lynn sat half
crying and half laughing.
"Oh, what a pair we are. Aunt
Polly!" she laughed. "But after all,
shouldn't we be allowed a few tears
in celebration!" And then she
thought to herself, J can't leave her
today. It would break her heart.
rU wait until tomorrow. It will be
easier that way.
But each day found it no easier,
until there were five tomorrows
gone, each with a broken promise
to herself that she would return. On
each day Lynn had avoided the wil-
low path, nor did she look in the
direction of the mill.
A ND then David called.
-^ "Oh, David," she said. "I
meant to come back the next morn-
ing as soon as I found Aunt Polly
was not ill. But it has been wonder-
ful to see her again."
He didn't answer at once, and
then he said, "Lynn, have you seen
all your old friends?"
She was silent, then, knowing
without his saying.
"I — I ... I have just visited
Aunt Polly."
"Lynn," his voice was tender, "I
want you to see Johnny, will 30U?"
She stood a minute more without
answering. And then slowly she
realized she must do as he asked,
for both of them she must.
"Very well, David," she said. "I
will see him."
"Lvnn, darling. . . ."
"Yes, David?"
"Don't forget to call when you
want me to come. And. . . ."
"Yes, David?"
"I just want 30U to know that I
love you very much and I will be
waiting."
And then the receiver clicked and
that was the end of it.
Lynn stared at the telephone
hanging on the wall where it had
hung ever since she could remem-
ber.
"Is something wrong?"
It was Aunt Polly standing in the
door with an armful of rhubarb.
"Oh," Lynn said, and pulled her-
self back to reality. "No. No. . . .
David just called. He. . . ."
A quick frown puckered Aunt
Polly's forehead.
"He isn't trying to get you to
come back already, is he?"
Lynn gazed out the window.
"No," she said. "He wants me to
see Johnny."
There was a moment of silence.
And then Aunt Polly went over
and laid the rhubarb in the sink.
"What did you tell him?" She was
turned so Lynn couldn't see her
face.
"I said I would see him."
Aunt Polly started breaking off
the big green leaves of the rhubarb.
"I wondered if you still like fresh
rhubarb pie as you used to."
Lynn walked over to the sink be-
side Aunt Polly, and began breaking
the long pink stems thoughtfully.
"Aunt Polly," she said, "what is
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Johnnv like. ... I mean, what does
he do?"
Aunt Polly paused a moment, a
big leaf in her hand. She was gaz-
ing through the window.
"He is lonely/' she said.
"But doesn't he ever go out, do
things, I mean?"
"I think he never goes anywhere
he doesn't have to."
"Mr. Jensen says he comes to the
drug store."
"Yes, but not much else."
"Doesn't he ever come here, Aunt
Polly?"
"No. I have tried dozens of
times. But he always makes ex-
cuses. He has never been in this
bouse since vou went away."
Lynn looked mutely out the win-
dow.
"We used to try to take things
to him after his wife died, but he
refused to answer the door. Once
MayRee and I took some things to
the children, but he wouldn't accept
them and sent us away."
Lynn let the rhubarb slide slowly
into the sink. "Aunt Pollv," she
said, "would you mind if I went for
a little walk? L . . . I want to
think."
Aunt Polly's hand touched Lvnn's
tenderly. "It's a wonderful day for
walking," she said. "There's a little
breeze that just makes your feet
itch."
Lynn looked at her gratefully.
And then she reached over and
kissed her cheek. "You're a dear,
Aunt Polly. How did I ever live
without you for so long?"
{To be coniinxxtd)
y^yh, cJraveler!
Leslie Savage Chik
The roads of Galilee were long
For weary sandaled feet,
And lonely was the way that led
From Nazareth's home street.
Upon the hills were foxes' dens,
Where ^^"ide green branches spread —
The birds had nests, but One could find
Nowhere to lay his head.
Oh, Tra^ eler, to whom the hopes
Of troubled mankind cling.
Pass not our door, accept, we pray.
Our hearts glad welcoming!
Vi/hen if lot hers Sing
Leona F. W hitch
npHERE is magic in the melody that a mother sings. The day's cares are lifted when
■*■ father hears her dear ^•oice as he nears his threshold. Children lo\e to hear her
sing. They know, then, that all is right with their world.
Every mother has a song to sing, and she will be better for singing it. The miracle
of her melody lightens labors and dissolves discords. A concert of harmonies come from
this s\\eet vial of expressed lo\e.
FROM THE FIELD
Hulda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Soeiety presidents. See regulations go\'crning the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Hundhook of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Verny J. Olson
SOUTH SALT LAKE STAKE (UTAH) CONDUCTS SEWING COURSE
Front row, seated, left to right: Louise Clark; Edna Green; Verny J. Olson, Presi-
dent, South Salt Lake Stake Relief Society; Lydia Y, Burrows, Stake Work Director
Counselor; Dora Phillips; Myrtle Gaylor.
Second row, standing, left to right: Janet Hinckley; Arlene Adamson; Gerrie Moore;
Floyce Humpherys; Sylvia Pehrson; Estella G. Walbom; Letha Wright; Edith Garrett,
Stake Secretary; Verle Wood, instructor.
Sister Olson reports: "South Salt Lake Stake Relief Society held a ten-weeks sewing
course sponsored by Work Director Counselor Lydia Y. Burrows. Three sisters from
each ward were invited to take the course. Each sister made a book of samples con-
taining the information given in the course, and this book will be taken to the wards.
"The subjects considered were: seams, tucks, hems, zippers, bound buttonholes,,
setting in sleeves, gussets, collars, binding armholes for sleeveless dresses, and cutting
and fitting patterns. The class instructor was Verle Wood."
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Photograph submitted by Eva N. Dalton
PANGUITCH STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR
STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, April 12, 1959
First Counselor Vera Anderson, and Nina Steele, organist, are seen at the left in
the front row; Iletta D. Reid, the chorister, stands at the left in the third row.
Eva N. Dalton, President, Panguitch Stake Relief Society, reports: "A sixty-five
voice Singing Mothers chorus of the Panguitch Stake Relief Society furnished music
for both sessions of stake quarterly conference April 12th. Six of our seven wards
participated. This was the second performance of our chorus at stake conference in
the past two years. The choruses from the various wards have also rendered special
numbers for stake union meetings. Under the direction of Iletta D. Reid and Nina
Steele, the chorus has grown in numbers and in spirit of service. Their performance
at the April conference was most inspiring."
Photograph submitted by Norma C. Bodily
BENSON STAKE (UTAH) VISITING TEACHERS HONORED AT SOCIAL
July 1959
Front row, seated, left to right: Norma C. Bodily, President, Benson Stake Rehef
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Society; Rozella Kingsford; Nellie Morrison; Sarah Sorenson; Ann Naegle; Rachel Jami-
son; Martha Smith; Hannah McMurdie; Victoria Erickson.
Second row, standing, left to irght: Agatha Allen, stake First Counselor; Ruby
Jensen; Irene Traveler; Esther Christensen; Lucina Peart; Sarah Leavitt; Marie Christ-
offersen; Grace Bingham; Rosa Pitcher; Annie Buxton; LaPriel Webb.
Third row, standing, left to right: Ruth White, stake Second Counselor; Emelie
Myler; Eva Christensen; Neta Benson; Elsie Eppick; Edna Fackrell; Elvira Elwood;
Jennie Layne; Ettie Kent.
Fourth row, standing, left to right: Venna Van Orden, stake Secretary; Minerva
Jones; Rose Spackman; Hedvig Bingham, stake visiting teacher message leader; Libby
Purser; Winona Johnson; Clara Johnson; Thelma Christensen; Delecta Karren; Flor-
ence Rich. ^
Sister Bodily reports: "All of the visiting teachers in the stake were invited to the
social, but special honor was given to the group appearing in the picture, who have
served as visiting teachers for thirty years or more."
Photograph submitted by Marion N. Pinkston
LOS ANGELES STAKE (CALIFORNL^) DEAF BRANCH RELIEF SOCIETY
SINGING MOTHERS
Front row, left to right: Gloria Wolf; Dixie O'Brien; Fern Brandenburg; Madeline
Christensen.
Back row, left to right: Rhoda Moulder, branch Relief Society President; Helen
Melton; Irene Smith; Lois Hite; Rebecca Judd, chorister.
Marion N. Pinkston, President, Los Angeles Stake Relief Society, reports: "The
Singing Mothers of our Deaf Branch are an inspiration to all of Southern California.
They provide 'music' for many sacrament services in the various wards upon invitation,
and are the highlight of every program upon which they appear. The director is
insistent that they 'sing' with expression, both with the signs made by their hands and
the smiles on their faces. They use as their signature song 'Peace I Leave With You.'
The sign they are portraying in the photograph is 'Peace.' None of these sisters can
hear a sound."
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Photograph submitted by Alice C. Christensen
FRENCH MISSION, BRUSSELS (BELGIUM) BRANCH RELIEF
SOCIETY SINGING MOTHERS
Front row, left to right: Diana Mathieu; Rose Marie Dcnoyelle; Catherine Jadot;
Jeanne Stnyck; Eulohe Dumont; Emihe Lenders; Emihe Schomm; Elsie Deschant; Elder
Kent Gerber at the piano.
Second row, left to right: Pauline Debatte; Marie Robeets; Madame Neskins; Marie
Renoit.
Third row, left to right: Augusta Bonfond; Mary McSeutens; Louise Hochsteyn;
Clemence Williams; Marguerite Vantuykom.
Alice C. Christensen, President, French Mission Relief Society, reports: "This
group has been organized to assist at the special Relief Society Sunday evening programs
and other special programs of the branch. They are finding much joy in this activity.
This is the first group of its kind in the mission, and we hope to have several others
this coming year."
Viye viyalk vUith Angels
his W. Schow
Through childhood, she who ministers to needs
And causes the whole universe to smile.
Makes "Mother" the one earth-pervading word
Synonymous with "Angel" for awhile.
Yet with the years the world-traversing heart
Finds in the very young the undefiled,
And "Angel," in the lexicon of age,
Becomes the synonym for "Little Child."
LESSON DEPARTMENT
cJneoloqy — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 22 — And the Kingdom Grew
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Sections 32, 33, and 34)
For Tuesday, March 1, i960
Objective: To learn ways by ^^•hich the kingdom of God grew in the beginning
of this dispensation.
"DEFORE the Church was organ-
ized in this dispensation, the
Lord revealed that the field was
white already to harvest and that
to those who thrust in their sickle
with their might, rich treasures
would accrue in the saving of souls
in the kingdom of God. Concur-
rent with this promise The Book of
Mormon was translated and pub-
lished to the world as a new wit-
ness for Jesus as the Savior. The
Lord had made known, earlv in this
dispensation, that it was his purpose
to bring The Book of Mormon in-
formation of the Nephites and
Lamanites to their descendants.
(See D & C 10:48-51.) In addition,
this divine record indicated great
promises and blessings for the de-
scendants of Lehi. (See 2 Nephi
30:5; 3 Nephi 5:22, 23; 21:26.)
Appointment oi Missionaries
to the Lamanites
By the time the conference of
September 26, 1830, convened,
there was considerable interest
shown toward the Lamanites on the
part of some of the elders present.
Before this conference, however, the
Lord by revelation had called Oliver
Cowdery on a mission to this people.
(See D & C 28:8-10.) Peter Whit-
mer, Jun., and Ziba Peterson were
assigned to accompany him. (See
Section 32:2-3.)
Conversion oi Farley P. Pratt
Parley P. Pratt had accepted the
gospel only one month before this
time (October 1830). His conver-
sion to the gospel in receiving a
testimony of the truth of The Book
of Mormon is typical of the man-
ner in which the kingdom of God
has grown. In his own words, we
read:
I opened it with eagerness, and read its
title page. I then read the testimony of
several witnesses in relation to the man-
ner of its being found and translated. After
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this I commenced its contents by course.
I read all day; eating was a burden, I had
no desire for food; sleep was a burden
when the night came, for I preferred
reading to sleep.
As I read, the spirit of the Lord was
upon me, and I knew and comprehended
that the book was true, as plainly and
manifestly as a man comprehends and
knows that he exists. My joy was now
full, as it were, and I rejoiced sufficiently
to more than pay me for all the sorrows,
sacrifices and toils of my hfe. I soon
determined to see the young man who
had been the instrument of its discovery
and translation (Autobiography of Parley
P. Piatt, 1874 Edition, page 38).
The strength of his conversion
was so great that he traveled to Pal-
myra, New York, the home of the
Smith family, for further informa-
tion. Hyrum Smith, the Prophet's
brother, who had already been
promised that he would have
". . . the power of God unto the
convincing of men" ( D & C 11:21),
and Parley P. Pratt remained up
almost all of the night discussing
the claims of The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints. After
leaving the Smith home the follow-
ing morning, he continued his ac-
count:
This discovery greatly enlarged my heart,
and filled my soul with joy and gladness.
I esteemed the Book, or the information
contained in it, more than all the riches
of the world. Yes; I verily believe that
I would not at that time have exchanged
the knowledge I then possessed, for a
legal title to all the beautiful farms,
houses, villages and property which
passed in re\'iew before me, on my jour-
ney through one of the most flourishing
settlements of western New York (Auto-
biography of Parley P. Piatt, 1874 Edi-
tion, page 40).
Sidney Rigdon a Convert
The Prophet Joseph Smith wrote
hi his history of the Church
(D. H. C. 1:120-125) that soon
after the appointment of the breth-
ren to this Lamanite mission, they
journeyed westward preaching in
the various villages through which
they traveled. In the vicinity of
Kirtland, Ohio, their missionary ef-
forts among the white people
brought immediate results. Brother
Pratt had been a preacher for the
organization known as "Disciples
of Christ" or ''Campbellites" before
his conversion to the true gospel.
It was because of his activities in
that organization that he stopped
over to visit \^ ith friends belonging
to that church. Among these peo-
ple was Sidney Rigdon, who pre-
sided over one of these same
churches. The missionarv practice
followed today of presenting The
Book of Mormon to missionary con-
tacts was done in this case. Sidney
Rigdon indicated that, although he
believed the Bible to be a revelation
from God, he did not feel the same
way about The Book of Mormon.
This being the first time, however,
that he had seen the book he would
read it with the purpose of determin-
ing whether or not it was of God.
By permission of Mr. Rigdon, the
missionaries were given the oppor-
tunity to preach to his congregation.
When this was done, Mr. Rigdon
told his people that what they had
heard was of such an extraordinary
character that it required their most
serious consideration. These mis-
sionaries converted a number of Mr.
Rigdon 's parishioners. Within two
weeks, and after careful reading of
The Book of Mormon, together
with prayer, Mr. Rigdon was fully
convinced of the truth of the work.
LESSON DEPARTMENT
841
The Lamanfte Mission
hy Parley P. Pmtt
Parley P. Pratt has given us our
best first-hand account of the La-
manite mission with its successes
among the white people in Ohio
especially, as well as the work ac-
complished among the Lamanites.
(See Autobiography of Parley P.
Pratt, pp. 49-59.)
In and around the Kirtland re-
gion the interest in the message of
the missionaries was so high that
people thronged by night and day
so that the missionaries hardly had
time for rest.
Meetinjis were convened in different
neighborhoods, and multitudes came to-
gether soliciting our attendance while
thousands flocked about us daily; some to
be taught, some for curiosity, some to
obey the gospel, and some to dispute or
resist it (Autobiography of Parley P. Pratt,
page 50).
In two or three weeks from the
time of their arrival in that region,
the missionaries had baptized one
hundred and twenty-seven, and be-
fore long it had increased to one
thousand. Simeon Carter, who is
mentioned in some revelations lat-
er, upon reading The Book of Mor-
mon, walked fifty miles to Kirtland
where he was baptized and ordained
an elder. He returned to his home
and within a short time a branch of
the Church was organized there
with sixty members.
The missionaries continued their
journey farther west preaching to
both whites and Indians until they
reached the western frontier in
Jackson County, Missouri. Brother
Pratt relates that this was about
fifteen hundred miles from where
they started, most of which was
traveled by foot over a period of
four months. The missionaries had
preached the gospel to tens of thou-
sands of people, including two na-
tions of Indians. This was the first
mission of the Church west of New
York State. During this time many
hundreds of people were converted
to the true Church.
Just west of Independence, Mis-
soura, was the settlement of the
Delaware Indians whose interest in
The Book of Mormon increased day
by day until nearly the whole tribe
began to become responsive to its
message. The excitement thus cre-
ated came to the attention of
sectarian missionaries and Indian
agents who ordered the Latter-day
Saint missionaries from the area.
'Thus ended our first Indian Mis-
sion,'' wrote Brother Pratt, ''in
which we had preached the gospel
in its fulness, and distributed the
record of their forefathers among
three tribes, viz.: the Catteraugus
Indians, near Buffalo, New York,
the Wyandots of Ohio, and the Del-
awares west of Missouri (Autobi-
ography oi Parley P. Pratt, page 61 ) .
Thus the kingdom of God grew,
with the greatest success among the
Gentiles. The Book of Mormon
was one of the principal means
which gave to the truth-seeker a
testimony that the gospel of Jesus
Christ had been restored.
In the true missionary spirit.
Brother Pratt continued:
We trust that at some future day, when
the servants of God go forth in power
to the remnant of Joseph, some precious
seed will be found growing in their hearts,
which was sown by us in that early day
(Autobiographv of Parley P. Piatt, page
61).
Today's Activities
Since 1830 our people have taken
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the message of The Book of Mor-
mon to the descendants of Father
Lehi. In recent years a renewed
effort has been made to proselyte
the Indians in the United States.
One of the first tribes to be contact-
ed in the eastern states was the Cat-
teraugus tribe near Buffalo. Because
of this missionary work among these
Indians, a branch of the Church
presided over by a Lamanite con-
vert on that reservation, is in opera-
tion. A Church-owned chapel was
dedicated there in 1957.
The Book of Mormon was a new
volume of scripture and a powerful
converter of men, and it was the
means by which many of the mis-
sionaries and investigators learned
of great fundamental teachings of
the gospel of Jesus Christ. (See Les-
son 13, The Reliei Society Maga-
zine, November 1958, pp. 758-764.)
Section 33
In The Doctrine and Covenants,
Section 33, Ezra Thayre and North-
rop Sweet were called to preach the
gospel (verse 2). In calling these
brethren to this work, the revelation
provides us with an understanding
of the reason for the growth of the
kingdom of God and the need for
participation in missionary activities.
There was an urgent need in the
beginning of this dispensation for
people to know that the world re-
ligiously had become corrupted. A
great apostasy or falling away from
the teachings of the Savior had made
its inroads into every part of the
Lord's vineyard.
And my vineyard has become cor-
rupted every whit; and there is none
which doeth good save it be a few; and
they err in many instances because of
priestcrafts, all having corrupt minds
(D & C 33:4; See also 2 Nephi 26:29).
The importance of this evaluation
of the world, when giv^en, and as an
evidence for the truth of the re-
stored gospel, is well stated in the
following comment on this verse:
Many object to the teachings of the
gospel on the subject of the deviation
from the original pattern. They take ex-
ception to the picture of total corruption
presented but this onlv confirms the truth
of the gospel. Wc ha\e in holy writ suc-
cessive portraits of human nature taken
at various times. One was taken before
the deluge: "All flesh had corrupted his
way upon the earth" (Gen. 6:12). An-
other is presented by Eliphaz, in Job:
"Man, which drinketh iniquity like wat-
er" (Job 15:16). David viewed the con-
ditions in this light: "The Lord looked
down from heaven upon the children of
men, to see if there were any that did
understand, and seek God. They are all
gone aside; they are all together become
filthy; there is none that doeth good, no,
not one" (Psalm 14:2, 3). Paul, in his
day, repeats this and draws a terrible pic-
ture of man outside the influence of the
gospel (Rom. 5:10-18). "There is," he
says, "no fear of God before their eyes."
The picture presented in the Revelations
gi\en in our dav has the same features.
"They [the sects] were all wrong." "My
vineyard has been corrupted, every whit."
Let the reader compare these statements
with those quoted from the Bible, and he
\\'ill feel con\inced that they originated
in the same source — the foundation of
truth. The purpose of God in presenting
these pictures is to call men to repent-
ance. Even those who are doing good,
according to the best of their understand-
ing, err in many respects because of
"priestcraft" (Doctrine and Covenants
Commentary, Revised Edition, page 173).
The need for a restoration of the
gospel of Jesus Christ arose out of
the fact of a departure from the
truth; consequently, the Church
was called out of the wilderness or
apostasy. It was this apostasy from
the gospel and the restoration that
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84S
John saw in vision,
tion 12:1-6; 14:6-7.)
(See Revela-
The Eleventh Hour
The dispensation of the fulness
of times is referred to in this (Sec-
tion 33 of The Doctrine and Cove-
nants) and other revelations as
'\ . . the eleventh hour, and the last
time that I shall call laborers into
my vineyard" (D & C 33:3). (See
also D & C 43:28; 95:4.)
The prediction that the Lord
would gather his elect from the na-
tions of the earth in this last time
is fully affirmed by the members
who have come into the gospel net.
It is worthy to notice that the
'"elect" of the Lord are those who
believe in him and hearken unto
his voice. (See verse 6.) The
gatherers in this nnportant activity
are the missionaries who are always
counseled to work devotedly in
thrusting in their sickle and
''. . . reap with all your might,
mind, and strength" (D & C 33:7).
This counsel is as pertinent today
as in other dispensations of the gos-
pel, and the rewards to the gatherers
are as sure.
The Rock of Revelation
The kingdom of God grew as
people accepted the gospel — faith,
repentance, baptism in water for the
remission of sins and the receiving
of the Holy Ghost. There is no
other way to hearken to the voice
of the Redeemer and to be saved.
The gospel of Jesus Christ and its
organization, the Church, is found-
ed upon the ''rock" of revelation.
Men and women know of the truth
of the gospel bv the power of reve-
lation to their souls. Continuance
in the true faith insures to them
that the "gates of hell," the powers
of Satan in the spirit world, will not
hold them from their eternal reward
because they have won the victory
by overcoming evil on the earth.
(See D & C 33:10-13.)
What was to make the kingdom
of God, the Church, grow in this
dispensation? A knowledge of the
great apostasy whereby the Lord's
vineyard became corrupted in its
every part; the restoration of the
gospel and Church in the last days;
the revelation of the Lord given
to men whereby they might know
of these facts; and The Book of
Mormon as a source of knowledge
of that gospel and of its truth.
Section 34 and a
Prophetic Element
With the conversion of Parley P.
Pratt, many able men came into the
Church through his preaching.
Among these was his brother Orson
Pratt, one of the most ardent mis-
sionaries that this dispensation has
seen. Joining the Church at the
age of nineteen, he immediately set
out to visit the Prophet Joseph
Smith, who was residing about 200
miles away. Many converts to the
true Church of this period sought
counsel from the Prophet. The pro-
phetic nature of many of the reve-
lations given through Joseph Smith
is well-known among Latter-day
Saints.
In Section 34 we find a revelation
part of which has been literally ful-
filled, if we are thinking of the ele-
ment of prophecy. Although short
in length, it is deep in meaning.
Orson Pratt, A Missionary
Orson Pratt is told that he is
blessed because he has accepted the
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gospel (verse 4), but more blessed
is he because he is now called to
preach the gospel (verse 5):
To lift up your voice as with the sound
of a trump, both long and loud and cry
repentance unto a crooked and perverse
generation, preparing the wav of the Lord
for his second coming (D & C 34:6).
Important indeed is this prophetic
element in the quoted verse con-
cerning Brother Pratt's call to pro-
claim the gospel ''. . . both long and
loud. . . /' If there was ever a man
in this dispensation who served
faithfully and devotedly in the mis-
sionary work in building up the
kingdom on the earth, it was Orson
Pratt. Over a period of fifty years
it is said that he traveled more miles,
preached more sermons, studied and
wrote more upon the gospel and
science than any other man in the
Church. It would be reasonable to
believe that this revelation (Section
34) served as a factor in his achiev-
ing this tremendous record. The
Lord declared:
. , . lift up your voice and spare not . . .
therefore prophecy, and it shall be given
by the power of the Holy Ghost.
And if you arc faithful behold, I am
with you until I come (D & C 34:10-11).
Brother Pratt's missionary work
included at least eleven missions to
the eastern part of the United
States, with seven different missions
to Great Britain and Europe. Hun-
dreds of people came into the fold
of Christ through these efforts. One
of his difficult missionary assign-
ments was in Scotland where he
labored for nine months raising up
a branch of more than two hundred
members. True to the call which
came in 1830 by this revelation
(Section 34), he knew that he was
preparing the way of the Lord for
his second coming. His literary
works, which were many, empha-
sized the need for preparing oneself
for the glorious coming of the Sav-
ior (D & C 34:7-9).
It was Orson Pratt who arranged
the text of The Book of Mormon
and The Doctrine and Covenants
in chapters and verses, with foot-
notes and references, as published in
1876-1879.
In this lesson we have seen how
the kingdom of God grew by the
Lord raising up men equipped to
labor with all their migM, mind,
and strength in a field that was
white already to harvest. They had
a message which bore the stamp of
divine approval and which, by the
Spirit of the Lord, was carried into
the hearts of men. One instrumen-
tality by which this was done, as it
is today, was The Book of Mormon.
Questions for Discussion
1. Give some of the reasons for the
members of the Church being interested
in the Lamanites.
2. In what way does the story of Parley
P. Pratt's conversion to the restored gos-
pel help you to understand the power of
The Book of Mormon as a missionary
tool? Do you know of other examples
of conversion through The Book of Mor-
mon?
3. According to The Doctrine and Cove-
nants, Section 33, what messages were
the missionaries to make known to those
whom they contacted?
4. In what way would you believe that
the prophecy in Section 34 was fulfilled
in the life of Orson Pratt?
5. In what wa}S may I, who have the
benefits of the Church already built on a
firm foundation, make contributions to
the growth of the kingdom of God?
ViSitifig cJeacher 1 1 Lessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 22— "And The Book of Mormon and the Holy Scriptures Are
Given of Me for Your Instruction . . ." (D & C 33:16).
ChiistinQ H. Rohinson
For Tuesday, March 3, i960
Objective: To show that only by studying and knowing the scriptures and by
putting them into action in our hves can we benefit from the Lord's instructions.
npHE Lord has declared that he served to come forth in the latter
has preserved the holy scriptures days as the Lord decreed.
for our inspiration and instruction. The Book of Mormon records
A consideration of the marvelous were preserved by inspired men^
way the scriptures came into being many of whom did not know spe-
and have been protected throughout cifically why they kept them. Nephi^
history, shows that the Lord's hand when he was instructed to make two
has ever been present in their preser- sets of plates, stated:
vation.
The realitv of this divine preser- •, • • }^'^ ^""'^ ^^^/^^ commanded me to
■ • "^ i.- 1 1 -u • make these plates for a wise purpose m
vation can particularlv be seen mi- i • u t 1 ^ / xt
j ^ omi, which purpose I know not ( 1 Ne-
the way Ihe Book of Mormon phi g-r^^
records were written and preserved.
When Nephi and his three brothers One wise purpose was clearly
were sent back to Jerusalem to ob- shown when the Prophet Joseph
tain the brass records in the custody Smith was commanded by the Lord
of Laban, they encountered almost to use the small plates of Nephi in
insurmountable difficulties. In the translating the part of the Nephite
face of these obstacles, they were records lost by Martin Harris. (See
about to abandon the project. Ne- D & C 10:38-46.)
phi, however, inspired by the Lord, The great prophet Mormon, the
convinced his brothers that they abridger of The Book of Mormon,
must persevere. He knew that it who was the custodian of all the
was wisdom in God that they should records written and handed down by
obtain these records so that the his ancestors, cared for them in full
teachings of the holy prophets could knowledge of their real importance,
be preserved for this generation and He knew that by so doing, he was
for generations to come. With the following the instructions of the
Lord's help the brass plates were Lord. (See "The Words of Mor-
obtained. The Nephite prophets mon" 6-7.)
preserved them and wrote their own Mormon's son Moroni, who
history on gold plates, and the entire abridged the Book of Ether, also
set of records was miraculously pre- knew that The Book of Mormon
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records would be preserved for the of our standard scriptures, contains
instruction of future generations, the \\Titings and teachings of Moses
He said: as re\ealed to the Prophet Joseph
Smith, and the writings of Abraham
. . . out of the earth shall they come, which came miraculously into the
by the hand of the Lord, and none ean Prophet's hands and were translated
stay it; and it shall come in a day when -i i • -.i r • ^ i ^i
.. -^1 ;, 1 • 1 . 1 4. -1 ^ J bv hmi with divme help,
it shall be said that miracles are done ^ . ^
away; and it shall come e^■en as if one The Doctrme and Covenants IS
should speak from the dead (Mormon our Only truly modern scripture. It
8:26). is a compilation of revelations de-
signed for our guidance and given by
The Prophet Joseph Smith de- the Lord through the Prophet
scribed The Book of Mormon as: Joseph Smith.
Regarding the scriptures, Presi-
. . . the most correct of any book on ^^^^^ Wilford Woodruff said:
earth, and the keystone of our religion,
and a man would get nearer to God by ... The Bible, the Book of Mormon,
abiding by its precepts, than by any other the Book of Doctrine and Co\enants con-
book (D. H. C. 4:461), tain the words of eternal life unto this
generation, and they will rise in judg-
The Bible is a collection of sixty- "^^nt against those who reject them
six books which describe God's deal- [jouTna o isconrses 22.335).
ings with mankind on the Eastern Truly, the holy scriptures have
Hemisphere. This great scripture been given by the Lord for our in-
has come to us through many trans- struction. Yet, they cannot achieve
lations, and is the word of God as their purpose to guide us through-
far as it is translated correctly. out our lives unless we study them
The Pearl of Great Price, another and put their teachings into action.
Viyom nleeting — Physical Safety Factors
in the Home
(A Course Recommended for Use by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 6— Safety Precautions in Medicine and Household Itenns
Charlotte A. Larsen
For Tuesday, March 8, i960
Objecti\e: To show the great responsibility of every homemaker to wage an
intensified battle against poisons which take a high toll of li\'es among our children.
npHE problem of accidental injury We are in a new era with regard
and especially accidental poison- to poisons. The danger lies in the
ing in infancy and childhood has thousands of recently developed
long been of great concern to pro- household items. The committee
fessional and lay groups. on toxicology of the American Med-
LESSON DEPARTMENT
847
ical Association reports about 250,
000 brand-new chemical products
available for industrial, farm, and
home use. Few if any of these items
are designated as poison.
A number of external medications
and household items that have
proved unsafe if swallowed by chil-
dren are:
Rubbing alcohol, tootli-ache drops,
spirits of camphor,' corn and callous re-
mo\ers, footpowders, furniture pohsh,
bleaches, disinfectants, lye, soap, silver and
shoe polishes, bluing, ammonia, cosmetics,
nail-polish remover, deodorants', perfume,
shaving lotion, moth balls, untreated
crayons, dyes, ink, and varnish.
These products are among those
involved in a study of 1,033 cases
made by the Chicago poison control
center. There is still much to learn
about some poisons and the symp-
toms they cause. Carbon tetra-
chloride is coming to be known as
extremely dangerous.
Helpful Hints
Don't be misled as to whether a
product is dangerous just because it
does not say Poison or For External
Use Only on the label. Never put
anything poisonous on food shelves.
Keep containers tightly covered.
Lock cabinets containing poisons.
Poisonous Household Drugs
and Chemicals
Household drugs and chemicals
seem to attract many a child, and
often the unthinking parents are to
blame. Prevention is the best poh
icy. Keep alert. Every mother
should know if there is a poison
control center in her city, so if an
emergency arises, immediate help
can be had.
Medicines — Know About the
Medicines You Use!
For your own protection you
should read the drug label with
care. It is required to tell certain
things so that the medicine may be
used safely. Many drugs may be
harmful if used without a physi-
cian's supervision. Your physician is
your safeguard in the use of pre-
scription drugs.
Take an Inventory of
Your Medicine Chest!
Clean out your medicine chest
regularly. Know what hazards vour
cabinet is harboring, and how long
each item has been on the shelf.
Were the nose-drops purchased last
fall, or the fall before? Are those
pills the ones we got when Jimmy
had hay fever or when Mary had a
sore throat? Solve this problem bv
jotting down the date of purchase
on the label of every medicine you
buy before you place it on the shelf.
It is also wise to write the name of
the medicine if you know it, and
the illness for which it is prescribed.
This would help decide which med-
icines to discard, and would avoid
the discarding of expensive medicine
unnecessarily. Paste the list inside
your medicine chest or near the
shelf where your medicines are kept.
When the time comes to discard a.
medicine, don't just drop it into the
wastebasket, or even into the gar-
bage can. Flush it down the toilet.
Medicine has a kind of fascination
for many children. Liquid and pills
can be easily poured into the toilet;
salves and ointments should be
scooped out of jars or squeezed out
of tubes into toilet paper and
flushed away.
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Cautions
Never take anything internally in
the dark; turn on the light and read
the label carefully. It's a good idea,
too, to read the instructions twice,
including the small print. Poisoning
can be pre\'ented by observing cau-
tion and never being negligent in
storing and using medicines.
Questions
1. Why is it necessary to read the
labels and instructions before taking medi-
cines?
2. Are you a victim of miracle, cure-all
ach ertisements?
3. What precautions can you take to
make sure of the safety of your family
from accidental poisoning by medicines?
oLiterature — America's Literature —
A New Nation Speaks
Lesson 14— Thomas Paine, Revolutionist
Eider Brfant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 137-148)
For Tuesday, March 15, i960
Objective: To evaluate Thomas Paine's contribution to the ideal of freedom.
Calumny Against Pafne
Tj^EW men have been more vili-
fied than Thomas Paine. Several
times he was hanged and buried in
effigy, shot at while living on his
New York farm, spat upon, and
refused the right to vote in the very
country which he did as much as
any other to create. Englishmen
directed their cobblers to drive hob-
nails in the design of a T into one
heel, a P designed into the other,
that they might grind Thomas
Paine into the dirt with their every
step. If the boogeyman was too
tame to subdue misbehaving chil-
dren, mothers used their supreme
threat, "Better be good or Tom
Paine'll get you." In absentia Eng-
land tried him as a traitor, and
convicted him; France left him in
jail for ten months, deathly ill of
an ulcer, and only chance saved him
from the guillotine because the
cross signifying he was to be taken
was made on the open side of the
door, and was absent w^hen the door
was closed; all this happened with-
in walking distance of Gouverneur
Morris, the American consul in
Paris, who knew of his imprison-
ment but did nothing to end it.
Paine, finally was freed through the
efforts of the succeeding consul,
James Monroe, who nursed Paine
in his own home for eighteen
months, believing him too ill ever
to recover.
Upon returning to America, Paine
was so poor he had to borrow a
dollar to pay for his passage across
the Delaware River; even the liberal
Quakers refused him burial in their
sacred ground, and after his bones
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849
had been buried on his own farm
for ten years, an Enghsh journahst,
WilHam Cobbett, was so filled with
his remorse at having opposed Paine
that he took his remains to England,
there to build a monument over
them in Paine's honor. But at Cob-
bett's death seventeen years later no
one knew the whereabouts of
Paine's body.
Yet breathing or buried, the im-
mortal Tom Paine was a living
idea; and his one idea was revolu-
tion—revolution necessary and now.
If such a rabble rouser and
troublemaker was condemned and
ignored by his own contemporaries,
why does he deserve our attention,
even possibly our praise? Is his one
illustrious success in America of suf-
ficient moment to cancel out his
life of failure, loneliness, persecu-
tion, and living oblivion? If he was
a tactless hothead who alienated his
own contemporaries, what can make
him any different for us?
Our great advantages in evaluat-
ing him are time and distance. We
are sufficiently removed that we can
see the whole, and therefore know
and judge as his own world never
could. Time has tended to mini-
mize his failures and weaknesses,
particularly in recent decades, and
has permitted us to realize the sta-
ture of his idealism and his neces-
sary role in the birthing of a new
Nation.
Paine's Life (1737-1809)
Born in 1737 in England, to a
Quaker corsetmaker and his wife,
Paine attended Thetford village
grammar school and in his early
teens ran away to sea. At age twenty
he married, became once more a
staymaker, continuing his interests
in astronomy, mathematics, and phi-
losophy. These interests he ac-
quired through attending lectures
by various members of the Royal
Society, but mostly through conver-
sation and argument in the local
coffeehouses. His wife died within
the year, presumably of childbirth,
and Paine lived in four English vil-
lages, married again, but was legally
separated after three years of incom-
patibility, cause unknown.
With his later friends Paine would
never discuss his personal past,
though sometimes he made kindly
references to his Quaker father. He
never mentioned his mother, yet he
called on her in her old age, and
made arrangements through a third
party to give her enough money
each year to keep her. He became
excise collector for the Crown at
Sussex, but was fired for passing
excise goods without inspecting
them. He was not endeared to his
emplover, since in 1772 he spent
most of his time badgering members
of Parliament for a "living wage,"
attacking them both in person and
with a printed pamphlet, a proce-
dure unheard of in Paine's time,„
when wages were set in each district
by the Justice of the Peace. Still
striving vainly to find his niche in
life, he purchased a tobacco shop,
but it soon failed and Paine was de-
clared bankrupt.
When in 1774 he first came to
Benjamin Franklin's attention, he
was thirty-seven years of age and a
failure at everything he had tried.
His bookseller friend Clio Rickman,
described him as of medium height
''and rather athletic; he w^as broad-
shouldered and stooped a little. His
eye, of which the painter could not
convey the exquisite meaning, was
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full, brilliant, and singularly pierc- Rhode Island, laid siege to Boston,
ing; it had in it the muse of fire." burned Falmouth, Massachusetts,
It was this eye brilliance which at- and Norfolk, Virginia; used Boston's
tracted Franklin to him. Thinking Old South Church for the stabling
him a promising young man, he of horses, while General IIowc or-
wrote him letters of recommenda- dered Old North Church and a
tion to friends in Philadelphia. hundred homes destroyed for fire-
With nothing to lose, and all to wood. Still General Washington
gain, Paine arrived in Philadelphia said, ''We have not raised armies
November 30, 1774, and for eight- with ambitious designs of separating
een months served as editor of the from Great Britain."
Pennsylvania Magazine, more than It cannot be stated that Paine,
doubling its circulation with his more than any other influence, re-
liberal editorials on dueling, rights shaped men's minds to desire sep-
of women, need for a copyright law, aration; instead his Common Sense
evils of slavery, and kindness to ani- was the only influence to establish
mals. He had been in the colonies such a goal for the taking up of
only five months until a group of arms. His powerful words appeared
enraged farmers fired on British at just the right moment. As is
troops at Lexington on April 19, evidenced by their wildfire popu-
1775. Tom Paine had great de- larity, they expressed what most of
cisions to make. Where did he the colonists believed in their hearts,
stand? Even more important, where but could not say. Or if they had
stood the thirteen colonies? On not believed it, previously, they did
August 23, 1775, England issued a after reading Paine,
proclamation stating that the colo-
nies were in a state of rebellion. In Common Sense
this golden hour it was Tom Paine in October 1775, five months after
who changed rebellion to revolution Lexington, Benjamin Franklin pro-
by convincing the thirteen colonies posed to Tom Paine that he write a
that it was their destiny to become history of the rebellion which the
a separate Nation. latter agreed to attempt. Dr. Ben-
Save for Benjamin Franklin, who jamin Rush was at Paine's home as
referred to Tom Paine as his "po- each chapter was completed, and it
litical son," scarcely any of these was he who gave the pamphlet its
transplanted Englishmen had ever title and found a publisher suf-
dreamed of anything but preserv- ficiently courageous to publish it.
ing their sacred rights as English- Later, Paine recalled that when he
men, not even George Washington, landed in America he found "the
elected Commander-in-Chief of the disposition of the people such, that
Army the day preceding the Battle they might have been led by a
of Bunker Hill. Between Lexington thread and governed by a reed." But
and the publication of Paine's Com- in his own mind there was no con-
mon Sense almost nine months fusion or hesitation, for he WTOte,
later, the follo\\'ing events occurred: ''My own line of reasoning is to my-
The Continental Congress met; self as straight and clear as a ray
colonial forces captured Fort Ticon- of light."
deroga; British forces bombarded Within three months the pam-
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phlet sold 120,000 copies in the colo-
nies, soon followed by four Euro-
pean editions and a total sale of
more than one-half million. (Paine
donated all his royalties to the Con-
tinental cause.) No one on either
side of the Atlantic escaped its im-
pact. Conservative John Adams
said, ''History is to ascribe the Rev-
olution to Tom Paine"; George
Washington saw it 'working a pow-
erful change in the minds of many
men" towards separation, and
throughout the army it was read to
the Continental soldiers while stand-
ing in formation.
By thus giving direction and cer-
tainty in a moment of confusion,
Paine helped the colonists to see
and feel a new common cause which
eventually resulted in the emerg-
ence of a Nation, and it was his
imagination which first conceived
the name "The United States of
America."
The title. Common Sense, like
the masquerade of giving only
"simple facts, plain arguments, and
common sense," recalls the genius
of Antony's oration over the dead
body of Caesar. When Paine re-
assured the readers he was appealing
only to their "instincts for truth,
decency, and fairness," they flattered
themselves that it was these qualities
alone which Paine exercised, both
within them and himself. In reality
Common Sense is a rhetorical pow-
der keg with the fuse lighted and
sparking. He uses every device to
inflame his hearers — to jar them alive
to a new definition of their relation-
ship to Mother England and to
their own freedom. And this was
precisely what was needed. Irony,
ridicule, emotional torrents, barbed
phrases— all are here, and in a cre-
ative brilliance which Paine never
again achieved. Listen to some of
the passages which proclaim Tom
Paine as the most effective pam-
phleteer and persuasive arguer of the
Revolution, and probably of our
entire American history:
The Sun never shined on a cause of
greater worth. 'Tis not the affair of a
City, a County, a Province, or a Kingdom;
but of a Continent — of at least one eighth
part of the habitable Globe. 'Tis not the
concern of a day, a year, or an age; pos-
terity are virtually involved in the contest,
and will be more or less affected even to*
the end of time, by the proceedings now..
Now is the seed-time of Continental
union, faith and honour. The least frac-
ture now will be like a name engraved with
the point of a pin on the tender rind of
a young oak; the wound would enlarge
with the tree, and posterity read it in
full grown characters. . . .
I have heard it asserted by some, that
as America has flourished under her for-
mer connection with Great-Britain, the
same connection is necessary towards her
future happiness, and will always have the
same effect. Nothing can be more fal-
lacious than this kind of argument. We
may as well assert that because a child has
thrived upon milk, that it is never to-
have meat. . . .
But she has protected us, say some.
That she hath engrossed us is true, and
defended the Continent at our expense
as well as her own, is admitted; and she
would have defended Turkey from the
same motive, viz. for the sake of trade
and dominion. . , .
This new World hath been the asylum
for the persecuted lovers of civil and re-
ligious liberty from every part of Europe.
Hither have they fled, not from the tender
embraces of the mother, but from the
cruelty of the monster; and it is so far true
of England, that the safe tyranny which
drove the first emigrants from home, pur-
sues their descendants still. . . .
I challenge the warmest advocate for
reconciliation to show a single advantage
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that this continent can reap by being con-
nected with Great Britain. I repeat the
challenge; not a single advantage is derived.
Our corn w ill fetch its price in any market
in Europe, and our imported goods must
be paid for buy them where we will. . . .
Everything that is right or reasonable
pleads for separation. The blood of the
slain, the weeping voice of nature cries,
'Tis Time To Part. Even the distance
at which the Almighty hath placed Eng-
land and America is a strong and natural
proof that the authority of the one over
the other, was never the design of Heav-
en .. . (Text, page 139 ff.).
Taunting the readers' imagina-
tions with the image of besieged
Boston, ''that seat of wretchedness"
whose inhabitants now can only
''stay and starve or turn out to beg/'
Payne asks how we can again be
friends with England after such
cruelty:
But examine the passions and feelings
of mankind: bring the doctrine of recon-
ciliation to the touchstone of nature, and
then tell me whether you can hereafter
love, honour, and faithfully serve the pow-
er that hath carried fire and sword into
your land? . . . But if you say, you can
still pass the violations over, then I ask,
hath your house been burnt? Hath your
property been destroyed before your face?
Are your wife and children destitute of
a bed to lie on, or bread to live on? Have
you lost a parent or a child by their hands,
and yourself the ruined and wretched sur-
vivor? If you have not, then are you not
a judge of those who have. But if you
have, and can still shake hands with the
murderers, then are you unworthy the
name of husband, father, friend, or lover,
and whatever may be your rank or title in
life, you have the heart of a coward, and
the spirit of a sycophant (Text, pp. 141-
142).
It was such fiery brilliance from
the pen of our master phrase-maker
which convinced our forefathers
they should revolt, not rebel. Be-
tween the two lies all the difference,
and all the gratitude we owe Tom
Paine, regardless of whatever else he
had been or was to become.
World Revolutionist
As editor, soldier, and the author
of sixteen issues of The American
Crisis, Paine continued to serve his
country throughout the war. The
first Crisis, which appeared in De-
cember 1776, has the same impas-
sioned brilliance as Common Sense,
and is almost as famous. It begins:
These are the times that try men's souls:
The summer soldier and the sunshine
patriot will in this crisis shrink from the
ser\ice of his country; but he that stands
it NOW, deserves the love and thanks
of man and woman. Tyranny, like hell, is
not easily conquered; yet we have this
consolation with us, that the harder the
conflict, the more glorious the triumph
(Text, pp. 137-138).
Thanking God that he feared not,
he kept alive hope in darkest hours,
was sent on a desperate last appeal
to France, where his reputation was
largely responsible for the success
of his appeal for money, munitions,
and clothing. From the moment
this convoy reached our shores, our
fighting force's fortunes continued
to improve until Cornwallis sur-
rendered at Yorktown.
Granted a farm and an annuity
of eight hundred dollars for his serv-
ices to his country during the Revo-
lution, Paine continued to write, but
he also invented the smokeless can-
dle and an iron bridge which he
was promoting in France just before
their own revolution broke out.
Here he became a close friend of
our Ambassador, Thomas Jefferson,
with whom he had so much in com-
mon. He returned to England
where he published The Rights of
LESSON DEPARTMENT 853
Man, which expressed his view that prisoned in France for saying what
''Government, hke dress, is the he thought, he next proceeded to
badge of lost innocence/' and which ahenate all Christians by pubhshing
made his most sustained appeal for his The Age oi Reason, really in
the abolishment of monarchy. It the hope of saving some common
was this book which caused him to belief in God among the French,
be so much hated by his brother who were being carried away by
Englishmen who still loved their their excesses during the revolution,
king, despite his human faults. While he never tried to convert
Benjamin Franklin had said, anyone to his own views, he believed
^'Wherever liberty is, there is my wholeheartedly in his right to state
country." Paine believed and act- his religious belief even as he grant-
ed his conviction that ''Where lib- ed the same right to everyone else,
erty is not, there is mine." He Nevertheless he attacked the Bible
proclaimed his strong conviction as being false theology, and a see-
that the American and the French ondhand account of false revelation
Revoluitions were but the beginning, which he could not accept. Appear-
and that soon men everywhere ing almost ten years after the end
would be freed of their chains which of the American Revolution, almost
traditional governments imposed up- twenty since he wrote Common
on them. "The world is my coun- Sense, this book was reviled by the
try, all mankind are my brethren, new American generation which had
to do good is my religion. . . ." It forgotten Paine's past services,
was in this spirit that he went to Though he never opposed Jesus as
France to try helping the interna- being the greatest teacher and most
tional revolution there. Soon after moral of men, Paine's attempt to
the fall of the Bastille, which was justify his deistic or "Natural Re-
the symbol of aristocratic cruelty ligion" in place of the Bible, caused
and oppression, Lafayette gave Paine him to be universally hated. When
the key to the Bastille to be sent he returned to America eight years
to Washington. Even though he later he found his life a miserable
could not speak any French, Paine one. If only he could have chosen
was elected to the French Assembly, the moment of his death, he might
and was one of nine men chosen to have died a hero; as it was his great
draft a constitution for the new tragedy was to live too long and
France. But in 1793 when the speak too often what he believed,
guillotine became popular and the regardless of the consequences.
Assembly voted to kill Louis XVI Yet in his earlier years speaking
and his family, Paine fearlessly op- the truth as he saw it, even when
posed their decision to kill their he was alone in his opinion, was
king, for which his French friends the source of his greatness, and so
imprisoned him to show their disap- must it ever be for so untrammeled
proval of his independence. a nature as Paine's.
Again, in contrast to Franklin's
philosophy of "getting on in the Keligious Beliefs
world," Paine was not practical. Paine's credo of religious belief
Declared a traitor in England, im- formed part of the first chapter of
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The Age of Reason (Text, page
143). Stating his belief in God, in
'iiappiness beyond this hfe/' and
in the equahty of man, he disavows
behef in any creed. However, he
can never be called an infidel, since
by his own definition: ''Infidelity
does not consist in believing or in
disbelieving; it consists in professing
to believe what he does not believe"
(Text, page 143). Paine's Bible is
the creation, both of man and of
the marvelous world in which he
lives, since ''Every man is an evi-
dence to himself, that he did not
make himself" (Text, page 147).
He believed that man can come to
know God only through his reason,
and that, by using the methods of
science, man can possess the "true
theology."
Because it was rational and reas-
onable, Paine believed that the
"moral duty of man consists m
imitating the moral goodness and
beneficence of God manifested in
the creation toward all his crea-
tures." True to his early Quaker
influence, he believed that the world
had become too reasonable and en-
lightened ever again to admit that
any human suffering or cruelty was
necessary. If man were freed from
the evils of traditional social, eco-
nomic, and political dominations,
he would be benevolent to his own
kind since "man is naturally the
friend of man, and . . . human na-
ture is not of itself vicious." If un-
hampered by institutions, man's
reason and humanity would inevit-
ably bring kindness and peace to
society.
Humanitarian
With such a philosophical core,
Paine wrote his Agrarian Justice and
other pamphlets advocating the
specific reforms which were the
fond dreams of his later years. He
opposed slavery, dueling, capital
punishment, and, most of all, social
and financial conditions which
caused unbelievable suffering among
the poor. While the far-sighted
Paine advocated international copy-
right laws, disarmament, and an
international association of nations,
his most radical proposal was to tax
the wealthy so that e\'ery person
should receive fifteen pounds at age
twenty-one, and from age fifty on^
ten pounds a year. Such a sum
would provide a decent minimum
income, and stop the mass begging
by the aged which for so long had
characterized the "civilized" world.
Tom Paine deserves our gratitude
and our study of his mind and writ-
ings, not so much because he was
either good or bad, as because he
was throughout his life a spark. At
the crucial moment he quickened
men's imaginations into action, and
they, seeing good in his writings,
did what their new-found convic-
tions dictated they must do. Tom
Paine wrote that, whenever a prob-
lem arises, we should clear away all
precedent and think as if we were
the first men who ever thought.
This he did throughout his life, with
the amazing results we have just re-
viewed. But most amazing is it
that a militarily unskilled minority
of English would dare insist that
they were right in their concept of
man and government, that the
greatest nation in the world was
wrong. Such sheer creative seeing
and doing required a superabund-
ance of courage and faith. In these
qualities Tom Paine led the colo-
nists to action, victory, and identity
as a separate Nation.
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855
Thoughts for Discussion he says, "History is to ascribe the Revolu-
tion to Tom Paine"?
3. Which of Tom Paine's hterary skills
1. Why was Paine hated and forgotten made Common Sense such a dynamic
for so manv years, both before and after document?
his death? 4. Why has he often been called a cit-
2. Do you agree with John Adams when izen of the world?
Social &imc^— Spiritual Living
in the Nuclear Age
Lesson 5— The Individual and Religious Maturity— Part II
Elder Bhme M. Porter
For Tuesday, March 22, 1960
Objective: To consider some criteria of religious maturity and the role of religious
maturity in spiritual living.
(Note: For purposes of continuity, the teacher should briefly review the lesson
from last month.)
I
QJOME of the processes of achiev-
ing rehgious maturity were
briefly considered in last month's
lesson. We then embarked upon
the task of trying to establish some
criteria for religious maturity. The
following three have been discussed:
(1) Knowledge and awareness of
''the abundant life"; (2) Soul free-
dom; and (3) Growth toward
wholeness. We continue now with
criterion number four.
4. Practical (dynamic) applica-
tion of ichgious beliefs.
A mature religious system of
beliefs supplies its own driving pow-
er and becomes dynamic in its own
right. Allport states:
Yes, I venture to assert that the most
important of all distinctions between the
immature and mature religious sentiment
[systems of beliefs] lies in this basic dif-
ference in theii dynamic characters.
Immature religion, whether in adult or
child, is largely concerned with magical
thinking, self justification, and creature
comfort. Thus it betrays its sustaining
motives still to be the drives and desires
of the body. By contrast, mature religion
is less of a servant and more of a master
in the economy of life. No longer goaded
and steered exclusively by impulse, fear,
wish, it tends rather to control and to
direct these moti\'es toward a goal that is
no longer determined by mere self interest
(Allport, Gordon W.: The Individual and
His Religion, page 260, The MacMillan
Company, used by permission ) .
The gospel which Christ taught
is a religion of doing; a religion of
positive action. The religiously ma-
ture person within the framework
of Christianity, must, of necessity,
be involved in a life of dynamic ac-
tion. James was most emphatic in
this matter:
\\''hat doth it profit, my brethren,
though a man say he hath faith, and have
not works? can faith save him?
If a brother or sister be naked, and
destitute of daily food,
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And one of yon say unto them. Depart
in peace, be ye warmed and filled; not-
withstanding ye give them not those
things which are needful to the body; what
doth it profit?
Even so faith, if it hath not works, is
dead, being alone.
Yea, a man may say. Thou hast faith,
and I have works: shew me thy faith
without thy works, and I will shew thee
my faith by my works.
Thou believest that there is one God;
thou doest well: the devils also believe,
and tremble.
But wilt thou know, O vain man, that
faith without works is dead? (James
2:14-20)
The negative aspects of religion
are important, but certainly the
religiously mature person cannot
live by the ''thou shalt nots'' alone.
Lowell Bennion presents a chal-
lenging question in this regard:
Well might each of us ask himself: are
you a Latter-day Saint because of the
things you don't do primarily or because
of the things you do? Is religion for you
mainly inhibitory and restraining, or is it a
program of action, a life of devotion and
service (Bennion, Lowell: Teachings of
the New Testament, Salt Lake City,
Deseret Book Company, 1956, page 141).
The religiously mature person is
not one who is satisfied with where
he is, with the status quo; he is
actively seeking to improve the life
situation. People have good inten-
tions; but the religiously mature
person not only has good intentions^
he actually puts these intentions
into operation. If a man's highest
value is success, if love, truth, jus-
tice, tenderness, and mercy are of
no use to him, he may profess these
ideals but he does not strive for
them. He may think he worships
the God of love, but he actually
worships an idol of his real goals
which are rooted in materialism.
Man will seek the haven of the
church and of religion because his
inner emptiness impels him to find
some security, but he often is con-
cerned only with the survival of
religion and of the churches. Pro-
fessing religion is no guarantee of
being religious.
One measure of this aspect of
religious maturity was stated very-
concisely in the Biblical admoni-
tion: ". . . by their fruits ye shall
know them" (Mt. 7:20). The re-
ligiously mature person is not only
concerned with his awareness of
religious teachings but he is gen-
uinely concerned with developing
the skill to apply them.
The religiously mature person in
his diligent attempts to actively ap-
ply the principles of religious living,
develops a genuine concern for the
welfare and happiness of others.
He is one who has emerged from
childish egocentricity and is taking
an active, affectionate interest in the
needs of others.
5. The sense of glory in life.
The scriptures tell us 'The heav-
ens declare the glory of God;
and the firmament sheweth his
handywork" (Psalms 19:1). The
religiously mature person recognizes
that glories surround him. He stands
in reverent amazement of the many
elements which constitute the uni-
verse and life that are beyond his
own comprehension, beyond his
own accomplishments. As ques-
tioned in the book of Psalms, "What
is man, that thou art mindful of
him? And the son of man, that
thou visiteth him? For thou hast
made him a little lower than the
angels, and hast crowned him with
glory and honour'' (Psalms 8:4-5) .
Reverence for life inevitably re-
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857
suits in humility— a hallmark of
the religiously mature person. He
provides leadership and authority
when things important to him are
to be done or said, but at the same
time he is far from being over-
whelmed with thoughts of his own
goodness. No wholesomely critical
person can ever be impressed with
his own spirituality.' His insight in-
to himself is so keen and his vision
is so vast that perspective does not
allow him to see himself as anything
but an imperfect representative of
something much better than him-
self. It is this that makes growth
possible.
Albert Schweitzer points out that
the idea of reverence for life offers
itself the realistic answer to the
realistic question of how man and
the world are related to each other.
Of the world man knows only that
everything which exists is, like him-
self, a manifestation of the will to
live. With this world he stands
in a relation of passivity and activ-
ity. On the one hand, he is subordi-
nate to the course of events which
is given in the totality of life; on
the other hand, he is capable of
affecting the life which comes with-
in his reach by hampering or pro-
moting it, by destroying or main-
taining it. (Reference, Albert
Schweitzer: Out oi My Liie and
Thought, New York, Henry Holt
and Company, 1933, page 267 ff.)
As a being in active relation-
ship with the world, he comes into
a spiritual relationship with it by
not living for himself alone, but
feeling himself one with all life
that comes within his reach. Let
a man once begin to think about
the mystery of his life and the links
which connect him with the life
that fills the world, and he cannot
but bring to bear upon his own
life— and all other life that comes
within his reach— the principle of
reverence for life. Existence will
thereby become harder for him in
every respect than it would be if he
lived for himself, but, at the same
time, it will be richer, more beau-
tiful, and happier. Life will be-
come, instead of mere living, a real
experience.
With this kind of approach to
living, an individual is able to see
beneath the surface; see beyond the
horizon. He has the ability to sense
the inwardness of things. As he
looks at a school building, for ex-
ample, he does not see just a build-
ing, but recognizes this as a place
where learning occurs, where inter-
action is taking place. He is able
to see the interior, to sense the
functioning of what is going on
there.
And, likewise, the religiously
mature individual senses the inward-
ness of people. He sees the potenti-
alities within them and constantly
seeks to move toward the goal of
helping himself and other people.
He seeks, as Socrates prayed, ''Make
me beautiful in the inward soul, and
may the inward and the outward be
as one." The abundant life might
be interpreted as consisting mainly
of loving God, loving oneself, loving
one's fellow men.
6. Acting in hith.
The religiously mature person acts
in faith and, because of his faith,
he has an optimistic view of the
future. He believes in law but be-
lieves also in the liberty to act
within the law to do things within
law freely.
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It is characteristic of the mature mind
that it can act wholeheartedly even with-
out absolute certainty. It can be sure
without being cocksure. We are not
positive that we shall be alive tomorrow,
but it is a good hypothesis to proceed on.
We are not certain that the social agencies
of our big cities are decreasing the margin
of suffering and evil in our midst, but it
seems like a probability worth backing. It
is still less demonstrable that you and I
will succeed in the goals that we have
respectively set for ourselves; but it is the
mere chance of success that nerves us for
sustained and eager endeavor. The odds
for success do not have to be large in
order to keep us going, . , , Faith is a risk,
but everyone in some way or other is
bound to take it. (Allport, Gordon W.,
The Individual and His Religion, page 72,
The Macmillan Company, used by per-
mission ) .
Faith not only serves as a dynamic
force to impel us on to greater
things, but it can serve also as an
anchor which can help provide a
feeling of security much needed in
the rapidly changing and complex
world of today.
Wherefore, whoso believeth in God
might with surety hope for a better world,
yea, even a place at the right hand of
God, which hope cometh of faith, maketh
an anchor to the souls of men, which
would make them sure and steadfast,
always abounding in good works, being
led to glorify God (Ether 12:4).
The importance of faith along
with love was pointed out when we
were told ''And if you have not
faith, hope, and charity, you can do
nothing" (D & C 18:19).
No claim is made that the above
criteria represent an exhaustive list.
Establishing a definition of, or cri-
teria for, religious maturity is a most
difficult task. Let us hope that the
items mentioned above provide
something tangible about which we
can discuss, think, and consider, as
we attempt to evaluate our own
religious maturity. Let us now look
for a moment at the role of religious
maturity in spiritual living in a
nuclear age.
The Role of Religious Maturity
The demands of living spiritually
in any age but, particularly, in this
nuclear age, require the traits,
characteristics, and qualities of the
religiously mature person. As man
has developed the almost unbeliev-
able mechanical advances which may
permit him to destroy himself, the
ability to love and to forgive be-
comes even more essential than in
the past. Our own personal devel-
opment should be of vital concern
to all of us. Paul told us in essence
that no matter how many other
things we have, that without love in
our hearts and in our lives we are
as ''sounding brass or a tinkling
cymbal"— we are nothing.
If we are to maintain our good
mental health and achieve a feeling
of personal satisfaction and secur-
ity, we must counteract the unrest
and anxiety which exist in the world
with knowledge and awareness of
the abundant life. We must insure
the conditions which will permit
freedom of the soul in order that,
independently, we can make the best
of our lives. Our planetal aware-
ness in the nuclear age emphasizes
the importance of growth toward
wholeness in order that we may de-
velop an attitude of outreach and
inclusiveness. Our skills of apply-
ing and practicing our religious
beliefs must be perfected so that
faith will be matched with works.
If we can develop the sense of glory
in life, a reverence for life, perhaps
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859
we will seek to nurture and enhance
it rather than destroy it. Then,
acting in faith, we can exert our
every effort toward achieving good
works, and toward improving the
life situation.
Goal Reaches Beyond This Life
A word of caution needs to be
expressed for us to 'keep in mind,
as we attempt to evaluate ourselves
against these criteria of religious ma-
turity. We must not expect our-
selves to be perfect or absolutely
consistent in our rehgious maturity.
More than within any other area
of the maturing processes, with the
possible exception of emotional ma-
turity, its fashioning is always
unfinished business. The goals we
have set represent a heavy assign-
ment and, for most of us, call for
more than can be accomplished in
this life. We are yet imperfect hu-
man beings on our way toward per-
fection. Even though a person may
have developed strong religious
beliefs and ranks high on the scale
of religious maturity, he undoubt-
edly finds, on occasions, that his
conduct is not consistent with his
beliefs. Paul recognized this fact
when he said:
For the good that I would I do not:
but the evil which I would not, that I
do (Romans 7:19) •
Impulse often wins out and
many of the things we would not
do, we do; and much that we would
do, we leave undone.
We must develop love and extend
compassion for all people.
The religiously mature person never
wants to take misunderstandings as final;
never wants to take the estrangement of a
person from himself — from his best self —
as final; never wants to take an apathy
toward life as final. The religious per-
son in his contacts with other people,
whether he operates as a therapist to get
a discorded life moving again or whether
he operates as a parent getting children
back on good terms with each other, or
whether he operates as a member of the
community somehow bridging a gap be-
tween two groups that haven't been get-
ting along, or whatever he is, a religiously
mature person wants that which has
stopped the growth of life to be removed,
wants to enact the principle of the second
start (Mrs. Bonaro Overstreet, Devotional
Address dcHvered at Brigham Young Uni-
versity, June 1958) .
Dr. Harry A. Overstreet stated:
Either, in religion, we serve a belief
that encourages man's growth or we serve
a belief that keeps him immature. The
two beliefs are basically and forever in-
compatible (Overstreet, Harry A.: The
Mature Mind, page 271, W. W. Norton
& Company, Inc., used by permission).
Vital Importance of Increasing
Level of Rehgious Maturity
We could list many reasons justi-
fying the importance of each and
every one of us diligently working
toward increasing the level of his
religious maturity. But two stand
out in glaring significance. One,
the challenges of living creatively,
harmoniously (or perhaps even liv-
ing at all) with one another in a
nuclear age emphasize the need for
rapidly producing a generation of
emotionally and religiously mature
persons. And two, the possibility of
man eventually becoming like God,
achieving the Latter-day Saint phi-
losophy of eternal progression and
accepting the invitation of Christ
to ''Be ye therefore perfect, even as
your Father which is in heaven is
perfect," (Mt. 5:48) must surely be
built upon the foundations of
emotional and religious maturity.
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Supplementary References
McKay, David O.: 'The Right Life
. . . The Happy Life," The Improvement
Era, March 1958, pp. 142-143; 205.
McKay, David O.: "True Education,"
The Impiovement Era, March 1957, pp.
141-142.
McKay, David O.: "Inner Peace," The
Impiovement Era, January 1958, page 21.
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I did not watch with shepherds
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