THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford „ President
Marianne C. Sharp First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen _Second Counselor
Hulda Parker
Anna B. Hart
Edith S. Elliott
Florence J. Madsen
Leone G. Layton
Blanche B. Stoddard
Evon W. Peterson
Aleine M. Young
Josie B. Bay
Christine H. Robinson
Alberta H. Christensen
Mildred B. Eyring
Charlotte A. Larsen
Edith P. Backman
Winniefred S.
Manwaring
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Secretary-Treasurer
Elna P. Haymond Elsa T. Peterson
Annie M. Ellsworth
Mary R. Young
Mary V. Cameron
Afton W. Hunt
Wealtha S. Mendenhall
Pearle M. Olsen
Irene B. Woodford
Fanny S. Kienitz
Elizabeth B. Winters
LaRue H. Rosell
Jennie R. Scott
Editor
Associate Editor
General Manager
Marianne C. Sharp
Vesta P. Crawford
Belle S. Spafford
VOL. 47
JANUARY 1960
NO. 1
(contents
SPECIAL FEATURES
New Year's Greeting .....-_-...... 1
In Memoriam: President Amy Brown Lyman -. ifelie p- bP°tto.r^ 6C
Obedience to the Truth Joseph Fielding Smith b
Award Winners — Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest -- » ;--—-—: JV
Immigrant's Child — First Prize Poem Dorothy J Roberts 11
According to the Day — Second Prize Poem Lucille R. Perry 13
Loam-Stained — Third Prize Poem Eva Willes Wangsgaard 15
Award Winners — Annual Relief Society Short Story Contest ■ \'
Summer's Grace — First Prize Story Deone R. Sutherland 18
The Northern States Mission Preston R. Nibley 24
"Oh Say, What Is Truth?" - «--,-« 31
Prevent Crippling Diseases - Basil O Connor 33
FICTION
More Precious Than Riches Betty Lou Martin 36
The New Day — Chapter 4 Hazel K. Todd 39
GENERAL FEATURES
Sixty Years Ago 26
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 27
Editorial: The Days of a Woman's Life Vesta P. Crawford 28
Notes to the Field: Relief Society Assigned Evening Meeting of Fast Sunday in March 30
Award Subscriptions Presented in April 30
Bound Volumes of 1959 Magazines 30
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 43
Birthday Congratulations „ 71
From Near and Far 72
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Dust of Every-Dayness _ Celia Luce 16
Recipes From the Northern States Mission Vera C. Stratford 34
Rosella Jenkins Makes Quilts and Rugs - 38
LESSONS FOR APRIL
Theology — A Trial of Faith Roy W. Doxey 49
Visiting Teacher Message — ''Govern Your House in Meekness, and
Be Steadfast" Christine H. Robinson 55
Work Meeting — Food Care and Preservation Charlotte A. Larsen 56
Literature — The Federalists (and the Great Transition) Briant S. Jacobs 58
Social Science — Creative and Spiritual Living — Pathways to Peace —
Part I _ Blaine M. Porter 65
POETRY
No One Too Poor , - Zara Sabin 9
Years Roxana Farnsworth Hase 29
What Gifts I Bring _ Ida Elaine James 32
I Could Not Cry Gladys Hesser Burnham 33
Ruth to Boaz {Catherine F. Larsen 38
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/tew LJears (greetings
^HE wings of time have once again flown in a New Year. With its
advent, the General Presidency extends affectionate greetings to
Relief Society sisters throughout the Church. Your labors of the past
vear have borne good fruit. To you as individuals has come life enrich-
ment, those whom you have helped on life's way have been blessed, and
the organization of which you are a part has been strengthened by your
good deeds.
Regardless of how well the past has been met, however, with the
dawning of a New Year there stirs within each of us feelings of new begin-
nings, a desire to start afresh, hopes that tomorrow will be better than
today, and a determination to shape our lives more adequately to meet
life's obligations and thus realize greater happiness in living.
We are living in a great, wide, beautiful, wonderful world filled with
endless resources for our well-being and happiness. Almost daily new
wonders present themselves adding interest, length, and comfort to life.
All about us we see evidence of the love, kindness, and benefactions of a
Heavenly Father, lavish in providing for his children upon earth. Not
only has he generously given to us the materials out of which we may
build a good life, but he has taught us how to build. He has made clear
what follows our every act. He has given us an irrevocable plan of life
and salvation. Through his prophets he has made known his will for his
children and has commanded us in all things. Nonetheless he has given
us our free agency to make choices for ourselves. Upon these choices rests
the form our lives shall take. Upon them depend our productivity, hap-
piness, and eternal well-being.
The choices we make throughout the coming year will control in
large measure the realization of today's desires, ambitions, and hopes.
Todays dreams may be tomorrow's fulfillments if we choose aright, and
having chosen, exercise the self-discipline and self-mastery that lead to
action in accordance with our choices.
To each Relief Society sister we say, "What will be your choices this
New Year? Will you choose to rid yourself of encumbering and non-
essential activities which complicate your life and interfere with your joy
in living? Will you choose to be more sensitive to the desires, hopes, and
needs of your husband and your children? Will you choose to devote
yourself more fully to the rewarding labors of your home? Will you choose
to expand your friendships, and deepen those with which you are already
blessed? Will you choose to reach out more frequently and more willingly
to help a neighbor in distress? Will you choose to become better ac-
quainted with what the Lord would have you do, and in appreciation for
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his goodness and the abundance of his blessings, will you choose to serve
him more devotedly? Having made these choices, will you exercise the
will to act in harmony with them?"
If so, the New Year will be a fruitful and a happy one for you. Peace
will reign in your heart. The evil impacts of life, over which you have
little or no control, life's strains and sorrows which are the common lot
of man will leave you unbowed and unbroken.
The Lord has told us ". . . fear not little flock; do good; let earth
and hell combine against you, for if ye are built upon my rock, they can-
not prevail."
Our earnest prayer for the sisters of Relief Society is that the worthi-
ness of their lives as wives, mothers, homemakers, Relief Society members,
and Latter-day Saint women may bring to them throughout the new
year an abundance of the choice blessings of our Heavenly Father.
Affectionately,
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emonam
President Amy Brown Lyman
President Belle S. SpafFord
(This address was delivered at the funeral services for Sister Lyman held in the Twenty-
Seventh Ward Meeting House, Salt Lake City, Utah, Tuesday, December 8, 1959.)
IN speaking at this service today,
I feel a deep sense of responsibil-
ity to Sister Lyman whom I
loved, to her family and friends, and
to Relief Society, over which she
presided as its eighth General Presi-
dent, and whose affairs she influ-
enced as a member of the General
Board for manv years.
This is an important and sacred
occasion. It marks the close of
earth life for one of our Father's
favored daughters. Sister Lvman
has completed her earthlv work.
She has fulfilled her mission and
now goes on to a new sphere of
action, rich in the experiences of
earth life.
Sister Lyman has lived an event-
ful and colorful life here upon
earth. Born amid the rigors of
pioneer days in the little village of
Pleasant Grove, nestled at the foot
of loftv Mount Timpanogos, a vil-
lage which she loved, she took ad-
vantage of the opportunities life
afforded and made her earth life a
fruitful one. Her life has been rich
in experiences, progressive in view-
point, extensive in service, and
broad in influence. She has met
each day with a keen interest in its
affairs, and with judgment and cour-
age she has responded to the require-
ments each day has made of her.
Sister Lyman, I believe, was born
generously endowed with talents
and leadership capacity. These she
has continuously enlarged upon.
They have cast her into roles of
leadership, both within and with-
out the Church.
I believe I speak advisedly, how-
ever, when I say that among the
many organizations and groups to
which she gave her talents and
leadership abilities, none superseded
Relief Society in importance in her
mind and heart. Relief Society was
her great love. Just as she loved
Relief Society, so she loved Relief
Societv women. She has said of her
work in Relief Society and of the
sisters, and I quote:
I am grateful for the opportunities I
have had of serving my Church . . . par-
ticularly in the Relief Society, where
during most of my mature life I have
worked so happily and contentedly with
its thousands of members. I have visited in
their homes, slept in their beds, eaten at
their tables, and have thus learned of
their beauty of character, their unselfish-
ness, their understanding hearts, their
faithfulness and their sacrifices. I honor
beyond my power of expression this great
sisterhood of service.
Sister Lyman was called to the
General Board in 1909, during the
presidency of Sister Bathsheba W.
Smith. Prior to this time she had
been a member of the society in
her own ward, and, in her childhood
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PRESIDENT AMY BROWN LYMAN 5
home, she had been taught to hon- ficient work was obtained and good
or this organization as a great hu- business and bookkeeping pro-
manitarian society. As a member cedures established,
of the General Board, her special During her time as General Sec-
talents were soon recognized, and, retary, uniform ward record books
in 1911, she was named Assistant and visiting teacher report books
General Secretary, a position she were introduced. These were im-
held for two years, when she was portant, not only in standardizing
appointed General Secretary. In the record keeping, but the work
this responsible post she served for itself.
fifteen years, being relieved only to For more than thirty years she
take over the responsible duties of was associated with the business
First Counselor in the General management of The Relief Society
Presidency. She served as a Coun- Magazine. For parts of two years
selor for eleven years until she was she acted as Magazine Editor. She
called by President Heber J. Grant, loved and supported the Magazine
in January 1940, to become General to the hour of her death. She fre-
President of Relief Society, an office quentlv called me, commenting on
she held for five years. some new feature or expressing ap-
A total of thirty-six years she gave preciation for some article, referring
to the work of the Relief Society to the Magazine "as a dearly be-
General Board — testimony enough loved child to her." Indeed she
of her love for Relief Society and must have loved it always, for in
her belief in its divine mission. the days of its beginning, days of
abject poverty for it, she and Sister
TOURING the thirty-six years she Jeannette Hyde went from business
identified herself with the Gen- house to business house soliciting
eral Board, she took part in many advertising in order to finance the
interesting developments in the Magazine, and with the help of
work of Relief Society and plaved their children, they wrapped and
an important part in the expansion mailed the publication in order that
of its programs. Time permits it might continue to exist,
mention of only a few of these She was active in the develop-
activities. Under the presidency of ment of good educational programs
President Emmeline B. Wells, she and served as chairman in the prep-
took an active part in modernizing aration of the first Relief Society
the business affairs of the society, Handbook published in 1931.
including those of stakes and wards. I am sure she is happy todav that
When she assumed the duties of the Singing Mothers are represented
General Secretary, Relief Society here. It was through her great
headquarters were not equipped as vision and foresight and wise action
they are today. There were no type- that the Singing Mothers program
writers, no filing cabinets, no adding was guided into one of ward and
machines or mimeograph machines, stake choruses, which could be corn-
There was no typist and no book- bined for General Relief Society
keeper. It was not long, however, Conference, rather than having one
until necessary equipment for ef- (Continued on page 46)
Obedience to the Truth
President Joseph Fielding Smith
Of the Council of the Twelve
(Address Delivered at the Officers Meeting of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, October 7, 1959)
SISTER Spafford and sisters, I cannot be saved alone, neither can
feel it an honor to be asked the women.
to come and address this great In order to fulfill the purposes of
body of sisters. As I have been our Eternal Father, there must be a
sitting here, I have been thinking union, husbands and wives receiv-
of the ages past and how the women, ing the blessings that are promised
members of the Church, were in- to those who are faithful and true
vited always to take back seats and that will exalt them to Godhood.
keep silent in the churches. Paul, A man cannot receive the fulness
himself, gave counsel to that effect, of the blessings of the kingdom of
that the women should be silent, God alone, nor can the woman,
and if they wanted to know any- but the two together can receive
thing about the gospel they were to all the blessings and privileges that
ask their husbands at home. Well, pertain to the fulness of the Father's
I am grateful that that day is not kingdom. The women will become
now. I am grateful that the Lord queens, priestesses, in the eternal
revealed to the Prophet Joseph order that the Lord has given for
Smith that there is a work for the the fulness of his kingdom. The
sisters in the Church to perform, gospel means just as much to our
and there are responsibilities which sisters as it does to the brethren,
rest upon them just as well as there They are just as much concerned in
are responsibilities resting on the it as are the brethren. And when
shoulders of the brethren. the Lord said to the Prophet Joseph
Salvation is not something that Smith, "Search these command-
is confined solely to the men, the ments, for they are true and
women have to be saved also, and faithful, and the prophecies and
they are saved by the same prin- promises which are in them shall
ciples and ordinances. It is just as all be fulfilled," he did not limit
important that a woman repent of that commandment to the male
her sins, believe the truth, accept members of the Church. This
it, and be baptized for the remis- revelation from which I have quot-
sion of her sins and to receive the ed begms as follows:
gift of the Holy Ghost, as it is for Hearken, O ye people of my church,
a man. The same principles that saith the voice of him who dwells on
save the men will save the women. hign> and whose eyes are upon all men;
There is one glorious thought that >?a' ven!>' l sa>': Hearken ye people fromf
, ' , . b .1 b i .1 afar; and ve that are upon the islands of
has been given to us through the the sea> ]lkcn togcther fD & c l:l)<
revelations to the Prophet Joseph
Smith and that is that the men Now, people include both men
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OBEDIENCE TO THE TRUTH 7
and women. When we say this tion of the Almighty that the Relief
people or that people, we don't Society came into existence. The
just single out the men. It means Young Women's Mutual Improve-
everybody. Therefore, it is just as ment Association, and the Primary,
important that our sisters under- give our sisters opportunity to teach,
stand the Plan of Salvation as it is to give instruction, as well as to
for the men. It is just as essential learn. When the Lord said that
that they keep the commandments, no person could be saved in ignor-
No woman is going to be saved in ance, I think he meant women as
the kingdom of God without bap- well as he did men, and I think the
tism for the remission of sins and women of the Church are under
the laying on of hands for the gift the obligation of studying the scrip-
of the Holy Ghost. Now someone tures just as well as for the men.
might read what's in our scriptures Now, we are living in a day of
and conclude to the contrary. turmoil, strife, and contention, I
think nearly as bad as the world has
/^\UR sisters are entitled just as ever seen. There may have been
much to the inspiration for times worse, but I don't know of
their needs of the Holy Spirit as any other or reading of anything
are the men, every bit. They are worse than what we are getting
entitled to the gift of prophecy con- today — the violation of law, the
cerning matters that would be selfishness of men, the greed, the
essential for them to know as it is ambitions, the turning away from
for the men. When they pray they faith in God. I think we are get-
should pray earnestly, expecting to ting today, speaking of the world,
have an answer to their prayers, in a very serious condition in rela-
The Lord will hear them, if they tion to matters of that kind. Even
are earnest, true, just as well as he the so-called Christian churches are
will the brethren. moderating the doctrines, chang-
Now I can remember the strug- ing them. Many of them today are
gle that the women of this country beginning— if they have not already
went through in order to get the reached the point— of denying the
franchise. I am sorry to say that divinity of Jesus Christ. Now, I
after they got it, many of them have I think as far as the women are con-
failed to know just how to use it. cerned, if they believe that sort of
They haven't been any worse than thing they learned it from the men.
the men, but, nevertheless, they The gospel is just as true today
had to struggle in order to obtain as it was in the days of the Lord,
that great gift or blessing and have Jesus Christ, when he came to re-
a voice in the Government. The store it. The mission of the Proph-
women have a voice in the govern- et Joseph Smith is just as necessary
ment of the Church. When some- today as it was in the beginning,
one is appointed to an office, we The need of mankind to know that
do not ask the men only to vote, God lives and Jesus Christ is his
but we ask the whole congregation. Son, the Redeemer of the world,
The women have a right to raise the Savior of men, is just as vital
their hands. They have a right to today as it has ever been. It is
speak. And it was by the inspira- just as true as it was when Peter,
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JANUARY 1960
James, and John, and Paul were
teaching. The world needs repent-
ance today just as much as it ever
did.
1VTOW it is my opinion, and I have
a very strong opinion to that
effect, that this world is rapidly
reaching the point when the cup of
iniquity will be full, and we send
our missionaries out to warn the
people. Among those missionaries
now, for many, many years, we
have been sending our sisters. They
have been doing a good work. Now
the Lord says:
Verily I say unto you, that they who
go forth bearing these tidings unto the
inhabitants of the earth, to them is pow-
er given to seal both on earth and in
heaven, the unbelieving and rebellious;
yea, verilv, to seal them up unto the day
when the wrath of God shall be poured
out upon the wicked without measure
(D & C 1:8-9).
I think that day of wickedness is
rapidly drawing upon us. We need
the help of our sisters, you good
sisters of the Relief Society, to help
us teach the principles of eternal
truth just as well as we do the elders
of the Church. You can teach it
in vour organizations. Our sisters
need to be taught, manv of them,
just as well as do our brethren. We
have sisters in the Church who are
losing their faith. We have sisters
who love the world more than they
do the kingdom of God. There is
plenty of work to do for the sisters
of the Relief Society and of the
Mutual Improvement Association.
We, the Latter-day Saints, should
keep ourselves in order, humble,
sincere, obeying the command-
ments of the Lord. Otherwise,
those who rebel shall be removed
out of their place, the Lord said it.
Today there is a condition exist-
ing in this country among our
youth. When I read the papers,
our own local papers here, it seems
to me that those same conditions
are creeping into our communities.
Our young people are becoming
rebellious, filled with the spirit of
wickedness, and something ought
to be done as far as we are con-
cerned to see if we can't correct it.
I hope that these young men who
caught a young man on his way
home and beat him up were not,
any of them, members of the
Church, sons of members of the
Church. I hope that is not getting
in among our people. I hope that
our good sisters will join, if they
have not joined, the Relief Society,
instead of going out to join clubs to
play cards and waste their time
while their children, perhaps, roam
the streets.
Our Mutual Improvement Associa-
tion has a slogan which is only half
of the sentence, "The glory of God
is intelligence, or, in other words,
light and truth/' Now we have cut
that off right in the middle. I have
no objection to it. It is all right,
but that is what the Lord said, "the
glory of God is intelligence, or, in
other words, light and truth." Then
he said, 'Tight and truth forsake
that evil one." Well, we want to
live so that the evil power will have
no influence with us, and we want
to exercise our responsibilities in
the Relief Society and in the other
organizations to keep this com-
mandment. "Light and truth for-
sake that evil one," says the Lord.
"TjWERY spirit of man was inno-
cent in the beginning. God
having redeemed man from the Fall,
OBEDIENCE TO THE TRUTH
men became again in their infant
state, innocent before God. Every
child born into this world is inno-
cent. No matter what he did before
he came here, he comes here
innocent, as far as this life is con-
cerned. Every spirit of man was
innocent in the beginning, and God
having redeemed man from the Fall,
men became again in their infant
state, innocent before God. We
should remember that. But here's
our trouble,
. . . that wicked one cometh and taketh
away light and truth, through disobedi-
ence, from the children of men, and be-
cause of the tradition of their fathers.
But I have commanded you to bring up
your children in light and truth (D & C
93:39-40).
That is the commandment to the
members of the Church. Now our
sisters of the Relief Society can
help in this matter, as can the other
organizations, to see that the chil-
dren of the Latter-day Saints obey
counsel, understand the truth, walk
in its light, are taught to pray, and
have a love for their fellow men.
We don't want our sisters, be-
cause of responsibilities given to
them in the organizations of the
Church, to have to neglect their
families. We don't want any sister
in the Relief Society to have to
attend her meetings and at the same
time leave her children to run the
streets. If her Church duties re-
quire her attention, then she should
see to it that some provision is made
to care for her children, if she has
children, that they might be pro-
tected and taught to pray and to
be faithful and true, and brought
up in light and truth. That is our
responsibility. No, we do not want
any sister to neglect her responsi-
bility, but we do not want her to
have to do it at the sacrifice of
children by neglect, leaving them to
find bad company or to be idle.
Let us see to it that our children,
if we are called into the work of the
ministry in this regard, are provided
for, that they have protection.
We are in a wicked world. I
know there are good people in the
world, yes. But the Lord says it
is wicked, and if he says it is wicked,
I think maybe I can, too, and I
think it is getting more so every
day. We have many responsibilities,
but none of them to cause us to
neglect our homes.
I bless you good sisters. I am
grateful that you are engaged in this
work. It is necessary. It is part of
the gospel of Jesus Christ, and so
I leave my blessing with you in the
name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
llo K^ne cJoo [Pk
oor
Zara Sabin
The quick kind words our neighbor needs
Are hard sometimes to give.
We lack the practice. He succeeds
Who early learns to live
For others, vaunting not his own
Nor envying. Secure
With love, none are too rich to have known
Such joy, no one too poor.
*YLward vi/taners
ibttza LK. Snow iroem Contest
^HE Relief Society General Board
is pleased to announce the
names of the three winners in the
1959 Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest.
This contest was announced in the
May 1959 issue of The Relief So-
ciety Magazine, and closed August
15,1959.
The first prize of forty dollars is
awarded to Dorothy J. Roberts, Salt
Lake City, Utah, for her poem
"Immigrant's Child." The second
prize of thirty dollars is awarded to
Lucille R. Perry, Woods Cross,
Utah, for her poem "According to
the Day." The third prize of
twenty dollars is awarded to Eva
Willes Wangsgaard, Ogden, Utah,
for her poem "Loam-Stained."
This poem contest has been con-
ducted annually by the Relief So-
ciety General Board, since 1924, in
honor of Eliza R. Snow, second
General President of Relief Society,
a gifted poet and beloved leader.
The contest is open to all Latter-
day Saint women, and is designed
to encourage poetry writing, and to
increase appreciation for creative
writing and the beauty and value of
poetry.
Prize-winning poems are the prop-
erty of the Relief Society General
Board, and may not be used for
publication by others except upon
written permission of the General
Board. The General Board also re-
serves the right to publish any of
the poems submitted, paying for
them at the time of publication at
the regular Magazine rate. A writer
who has received the first prize for
two consecutive years must wait
two years before she is again eligible
to enter the contest.
Mrs. Roberts appears for the
fourth time as an award winner in
the Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest;
Mrs. Perry is a first-time winner; and
1959 marks the seventh time that
Mrs. Wangsgaard has placed in the
contest.
There were 173 poems submitted
in this year's contest. Entries were
received from twenty-eight states,
with the largest number coming, in
order, from Utah, California, Idaho,
Arizona, and New York. Entries
were received also from Washing-
ton D.C., Canada, and England.
The General Board congratulates
the prize winners and expresses ap-
preciation to all entrants for their
interest in the contest. The Gen-
eral Board wishes, also, to thank
the judges for their care and dili-
gence in selecting the prize-winning
poems. The services of the poetry
committee of the General Board
are very much appreciated.
The prize-winning poems, togeth-
er with photographs and brief high-
lights on the prize-winning con-
testants, are herewith published in
this issue of the Magazine.
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oems
tbliza IK. Snow Lroe/n (contest
DOROTHY J. ROBERTS
First Prize Poem
*y m / n tgrant s C h i id
Dorothy J. Roberts
Between the winter and my sleep
Her hand-sewn quilt is spread.
White blocks, and crimson, form a star
That blessed my childhood bed.
She caught the "Star of Bethlehem"
In bits of calico,
Then filled it with the wool of lambs
And made old meanings grow.
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The "Star" that lit the centuries
Has touched my mother's hands—
The carding combs they deftly meshed,
The wool in flaxen strands.
The "Lamb" that warmed the multitudes,
Still sheds warmth on my dream,
Bound to me by her linen thread,
A prayer, and a seam.
With little save her faith, she brought
The star to a quilting frame,
And cloth repeats, now hands are still,
Her meaning of love's name.
My fingers walk the even hills
Her measured stitches laid,
The miles, the years, her needle took—
That beds be warmly made.
When waiting slumber's sustenance,
I traced the lines she grooved,
Finding a richer vein than sleep,
Where her swift fingers moved.
And still, when sleep has failed to come,
More calm, I wait the light,
Because she placed this comforter
Between me and the night.
Dorothy Jensen Roberts, Salt Lake City, Utah, tells us that she enjoys working
with words and experimenting with their lovely sounds and learning their intricate and
exacting meanings: "The total power of words is not known to us, but, uttered at a
crucial time, words can make or break a life. Our words are our prophets, our sorrow
or our solace, and, in a measure, our immortality.
"The Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest is a challenge to express ourselves in an
exciting and enjoyable tradition. I am thrilled and proud to be an award winner in
this contest for the fourth time, along with other State and local contests I have won,
including the Deseret News Christmas Poem Contest. However, some of my most
satisfying writings have been to my loved family — parents (each eightv-four years old),
two daughters, sons-in-law, five grandchildren, and my beloved husband L. Paul
Roberts."
PRIZE-WINNING POEMS
13
LUCILLE RAMPTON PERRY
Second Prize Poem
J/iccording to the LDat/
Lucille Rampton Perry
Morning
Looking back toward Eden, song was still;
Fruited branches brushed upon the ground,
The grass was parted on the languid hill
By windy combings, innocent of sound.
Our world is winter as we face the West,
Stiff-booted feet upon unyielding soil,
We walk into the summer's ash, divest
Of comfort, dedicated to our toil.
A handcart carries sustenance for life:
The grain, a kettle, all our woolen stuff,
A spade, a Bible, courage of a knife;
Two candlesticks for beauty are enough,
I kneel in prayer upon the frozen crust,
"Preserve me, Godf in thee I put my trust."
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Noon
The white waste washes in against my eyes,
In wholeness, broken by a shallow grave.
My ears are burdened by the children's cries;
I cross the gentle hands that made them brave,
Place the willows, stones, a bit of loam
Upon the rose that sanctifies this tomb.
Love, yours is a cruel unfriendly home;
Hard earth is grudging of that meager room.
Tears that once could warm my face and hands
Are prisoned underneath an icy veil;
Desolate the view my heart commands,
Long, long and lonelv winds the rutted trail.
"Give me new strength of soul, with force of will,
I cannot hide the good and not the ill."
Night
The skies have prophesied the builded West
In silhouetted phantoms, gray and gold,
And spilled the soothing wines the day has pressed
Into a sea of blackness, deep and cold.
Our nights can raise us high above this sphere,
And thrill our vision with a galaxy,
But stars are chill and distant. I am here
With all I need to fix my destiny.
Somewhere ahead there is a greening field,
A spring that rises from the colored stones,
A sun-warmed earth whose fertile womb will yield
To planting, where the westerly has blown.
And thou, who gave vicissitudes to men,
Shall lift me up and quicken me again.
Lucille Rampton Penv, Woods Cross, Utah, is a first-time winner in the Eliza R.
Snow Poem Contest. She tells us: "I am the wife of Curtis S. Perry, and mother to
six children, two boys and four girls. My oldest son is a freshman at the University
of Utah, and my youngest daughter is four years old. At present I am first counselor
in the South Bountiful Second Ward Primary. I have been writing poetry for onlv two or
three years, and this is my first real accomplishment in poetry, except for one other
poem which was published in The Relief Society Magazine last year. My interest since
childhood has been primarily in drawing and painting. Family responsibilities have
forced me to set this interest aside for awhile. Poetry has given me much satisfaction.
I belong to a small group who meet for an hour every other week to study and criticize
each other's poetry, and this has been very helpful to me. Some day I would like to
combine my interests in writing and painting and illustrate some work of my own."
PRIZE-WINNING POEMS
15
EVA WILLES WANGSGAARD
Third Prize Poem
cLoamS tamed
Eva Willes Wangsgaard
All day the hungry gulls
Followed my plow,
Rising to wheel and cry,
All quiet now.
Calm are these russet waves.
Breakers of gold
Wait for the way of sun
And seed in the mould.
Wide-flung on unseen masts
Luminous sails
Wait in the evening skies
Westering gales.
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Crossed now by tardy wings
Limned on red light,
Pressed by twin urgencies,
Aloneness and night.
Loam-stained as mine her feet,
Our path the same.
Transformed by light she gleams
Winging through flame.
Now for a heartbeat's span,
Lifted, light-pure,
I wear her silver wings
Homebound and sure.
Eva Willes Wangsgaard, Ogden, Utah, was born in Lehi, Utah, and attended high
school there, later attending the University of Utah and Utah State University. Mrs.
Wangsgaard began writing after her three children were grown, and was past forty
before she wrote her first poem. "Unlike most writers I have known," Mrs. Wangsgaard
tells ns, "I never had a craving or longing to write. The poems came with such
urgency and such volume the first year that I was forced to recognize the need. After
that I studied as I wrote. My poetry education was acquired chiefly by correspondence
lessons and by self-study. Now I have five books of poetry: Singing Hearts, Down This
Road, After the Blossoming, Within the Root, and Shape ot Earth. I was included
this year in Who's Who in Poetry International, published in London, England. I have
published in many magazines and newspapers in America, in England, and in India.
I have three children, all living in Cache Valley, Utah, thirteen living grandchildren,
and two great-grandchildren. This autumn I was notified that I had won the Aleda
Hall Lyric Award sponsored by a poets' forum in Miami, Florida."
LOust of ibvery- Juayness
Celia Luce
"VI 7E were driving past a hillside of gray rocks, or so they seemed to us. Then the road
* * veered closer to the hillside and moved through a cut. Here the rock had been
blasted away. We found that the rock was not gray at all, but delighted us with its
red and golden hues. The rock had been covered by gray dust from the hillside above,
so looked gray.
I was reminded of how we put a gray veil of every-dayness over the people and
things about us, seldom stopping really to look at them and enjoy their sparkle and
beauty. We have become so used to them that we ignore them.
We sometimes even put a veil of gray every-dayness over our relations with God.
Sometimes it takes the blasting of trouble to tear away the gray veil and wake us up
to the rare beauty of the everyday joys.
ijLward vl/i
inaers
Jxtinual [Relief Society Short Story Contest
^HE Relief Society General Board
is pleased to announce the
award winners in the Annual Relief
Society Short Storv Contest, which
was announced in the May 1959
issue of the Magazine, and which
closed August 15, 1959.
The first prize of seventy-five dol-
lars is awarded to Deone R. Suther-
land, Idaho Falls, Idaho, for her
story "Summer's Grace." The sec-
ond prize of sixty dollars is awarded
to Myrtle M. Dean, Provo, Utah,
for her storv "Grandpa's Red Sus-
penders." The third prize of fifty
dollars is awarded to Dorothy Clapp
Robinson, Boise, Idaho, for "The
Fishbite Storv."
Mrs. Sutherland is a second-time
winner in the Relief Society Short
Story Contest; Mrs. Dean is a third-
time winner; and Mrs. Robinson is
a fourth-time winner.
The Annual Relief Society Short
Storv Contest was first conducted
by the Relief Society General Board
in 1941, as a feature of the Relief
Society centennial observance, and
was made an annual contest in 1942.
The contest is open only to Latter-
day Saint women who have had at
least one literary composition pub-
lished or accepted for publication in
a periodical of recognized merit.
The three prize-winning stories
will be published consecutively in
the first three issues of The Relief
Society Magazine for i960. Forty-
nine stories were entered in the con-
test for 1959.
The contest was initiated to en-
courage Latter-day Saint women to
express themselves in the field of
fiction. The General Board feels
that the response to this oppor-
tunity continues to increase the lit-
erary quality of The Relief Society
Magazine, and will aid the women of
the Church in the development of
their gifts in creative writing. Wom-
en who are interested in entering
the short story contest are reminded
that for several years past, and con-
tinuing to May 1958, a helpful
article on story writing has been
published in the May or June issues
of the Magazine.
Prize-winning stories are the prop-
erty of the Relief Society General
Board, and may not be used for pub-
lication by others except upon writ-
ten permission from the General
Board. The General Board also re-
serves the right to publish any of
the stories submitted, paying for
them at the time of publication at
the regular Magazine rate.
A writer who has received the first
prize for two consecutive years must
wait for two years before she is again
eligible to enter the contest.
The General Board congratulates
the prize-winning contestants, and
expresses appreciation to all those
who submitted stories. Sincere
gratitude is extended to the judges
for their discernment and skill in
selecting the prize-winning stories.
The General Board also acknowl-
edges, with appreciation, the work
of the short story committee in
supervising the contest.
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QJtrst [Prize- winning Story
xsinnual IKeltef Society Snort Store/ Contest
First Prize Story
Summer's Grace
Deone R. Sutherland
see Mama moving back and forth
in the kitchen.
Marjorie came out the back door
wiping her forehead. "She's baking
a cake!"
"A wiggily cake/' we breathed.
But Marjorie had gone to sit in
the apple cellar. It was cool there,
but Almy didn't like the spiders.
Besides, Marjorie had a book, and if
we fooled with the cider press or
made a noise, it meant trouble. We
crouched in the shade of the house.
A wiggily cake rose four glorious
lavers high with sweet cream cus-
tard nestled between the white lay-
ers. I looked on Almy tenderly.
Her round brown cheeks and rosy
mouth looked happy as she patted
her own dirt cake together and
frosted it with white dust.
"Maud!" Mama's voice brought
Almy and me racing to the back
porch. In the kitchen the wiggily
cake rose grandly above the cake
plate with the silver leaves edging
the frosting. Mama was busily tear-
ing off wax paper and adjusting
toothpicks.
"Can I trust you to carry this
ever so gently down to Mrs. Fan-
shawe's? She's sick today, and with
nine children."
Reluctantly we said goodbye to
the wiggily cake. Almy's lip turned
out. Her dark brows drew down
DEONE R. SUTHERLAND
IT was one of those days when
the hot noon sunlight overflowed
and shimmered before our feet.
Even with the hose running all day,
the daisies wilted and the grass
browned. The green vines reddened
on the trellises before their time,
and we sat in the windless air of
our tired apple tree and dreamed of
sudden frosts and faraway Alps
where snow glimmers above cooling
clouds. Almy and I lifted our noses
to the air. We slid down the tree
with me first to guide Almy's feet.
Through the screen door we could
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SUMMER'S GRACE 19
threateningly, but Mama never away to dispose of stray animals
noticed. She was busy changing than the canal dividing our prop-
into a fresh apron and tidying the erty.
soft hair that clung to her cheeks. "How is your wonderful Moth-
Mama's kiss was swift and sweet on er?" Mr. Clough's horse pranced
my cheek. She lifted Almy for a in the road. We told him proudly
kiss and a hug, though Almy how well Mother was. "She is a
weighed a ton. fine woman." Mr. Clough leaned
"Keep an eye on Almy," Mama over and looked at us sternly,
cautioned me confidently. We felt a thrill of pride for
I nodded reassuringly. When you Mother, and a twinge of conscience
were with Mama, you never minded for our own shortcomings. We
giving away all the cakes in the would never grow up to feed every
world. It was only afterwards, gypsy who came begging, or take
while you were walking down the in every Indian who knocked at the
dusty road and the cake smelled door, as Papa says Mama does. We
and smelled in your hands that turned in our yard, looking furtively
you minded. Almy begged for over the hedge at the lawn. No,
finger-licks at the edge. It was Mama's dark patchwork quilt was
hard to give her some and not dis- not stretched across the grass with
turb the silver leaves. a rumpled tramp resting in the
"They'll not notice," I soothed shade while Mama's green pitcher
my conscience, though Almy's hands of ice water tipped in his hand,
showed traces of her own cake mak-
ing. YA/"^ circled the back yard. There
We minded most of all going was no wild hammering from
up the dusty lane with the barefoot the shed while Mama knocked
Fanshawe kids crowding in upon something together for one of
us, hungry eyes fastened on the God's poor wild things to rest in
towering cake. We had hungry while it recovered from some ca-
eyes, too, I wanted to shout to them, lamity that would have killed it for
Mary took the cake at the door, sure, if Mama hadn't stepped in.
"Mama's sick," she said shyly. We opened the back door, and
"Yes, we know." there eating bread and milk at the
"We'll bring back the plate," table and staring wildly at us with
they shouted after us. It was a red-rimmed eves sat a girl we'd
J JO'
refrain we'd heard too many times, never seen before. She clutched a
Our dog Jake came running gray shawl at her throat while the
crookedly to meet us. "Go away," perspiration ran in rivulets into her
I grumbled at his wild wagging. He eyes.
was really one of Mr. Johnson's "She doesn't speak a word of
pups that he'd tried to drown, but English, poor girl. Her cough is
Mama had caught him at it. Final- terrible, but we'll fix that. . . ."
ly, Papa had held a private talk Mama was brewing herbs on the
with Mr. Johnson. After all, back of the stove. "Don't stare,
Mama could take in only so many children; we'll have to fix the bed
dogs and cats and all. Mr. Johnson on the back porch." She looked
agreed to go some place farther pleadingly at us, for it was the only
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cool place to sleep in the summer.
Marjoric helped Mama change
the bed. Almv and I went back to
look at the girl.
Papa stood in the doorway.
"What's this, Edith? What's this?"
He swung Almy to his shoulder,
and I snuggled inside his arm.
"I can't get her to let go of the
shawl, John. No matter what I do,
she hangs on so to it. It's so hot.
You do something, can you, dear?"
Papa put Almy down, and I lost
my nest under his arm. He made
a sweeping bow and held out his
hand for the shawl. The girl's
large blue eyes brightened, and she
giggled, "Ja," and handed her shawl
to Papa, who hung it gingerly on
the hooks by the back door.
"Wonderful," Mama said de-
lightedly, while Papa wiped the
dampness from her forehead and
kissed both her eyes.
"Where did she come from,
Edith?" Papa washed industriously
in the basin.
"I thought I heard a knock, but
no one was there. I felt something
was wrong. Poor thing, she was
going back through the field to the
railroad track. . . ." Mama lifted
the yellow corn from the steaming
kettle. "What if I had not found
her. . . ? Not a word of Eng-
lish "
Papa sat clown to the table, and
we bowed our heads. "Where is
this German girl on her way to,
Edith?"
Mother unrolled a crumpled en-
velope and paper from her pocket
and handed it to Papa. "Mr. and
Mrs. Herman Hergesheimer. . . ."
Papa laid down his work carefully.
"Why, they sold out and moved
away more than four months ago."
Mama nodded gently. "No won-
der she's terrified. We'll have to
trace them somehow for her."
Papa leaned his head against his
hand. "Couldn't someone else
have found her, Edith?"
Mama lifted her head. "She is
our neighbor, John. We must help
her."
Papa groaned, "Sometimes I wish
I were your neighbor!"
A/TAMA'S eyes widened and filled
with tears which she quickly
blinked away. Papa went around
the table and put his arm around
Mama, but she said everything was
all right and began to clear the
table. It wasn't until we were eat-
ing Mama's bottled peaches for des-
sert that I remembered the four-
layer wiggily cake.
"Wie heissen Sie?" Papa inter-
rupted my thoughts.
Anna barely had time to tell us
her name before she doubled up in
a spasm of coughing.
"Marjorie and I can get her to
bed," Mama said quietlv. "You
must get Dr. Williams, John. This
is no common cough."
Dr. Williams responded to calls
at our house with alacrity. Mama's
hospitality included his favorite —
homemade ice cream. But there
was no dasher for us to lick on this
visit. We crowded at the door
while Dr. Williams peered into
Anna's throat. "The membrane is
there, all right." He washed his
hands carefully in the basin while
Mama got Anna back to bed.
"I'll ride back into town for anti-
toxin for all of you." Dr. Williams
pulled down his vest and struggled
with his coat. He avoided Papa's
eyes and turned to pick up his black
bag.
SUMMER'S GRACE
21
"Antitoxin?" Mama said in the
doorway.
"That German girl you've be-
friended. . . ." I'd never heard Dr.
Williams speak so gruffly. Not
even once when Almv swallowed a
bottle of pills in his office, and he
put his finger down her throat to
bring them back. She'd hung on
with her teeth worse than Jake with
Mama's slipper. Dr. Williams
cleared his throat again, ''She's got
diphtheria, Edith."
Quarantine became stifling. Ma-
ma slipped in and out of Anna's
room, but that part of the house
was forbidden to the rest of us.
Sometimes we sneaked into the
parlor and pulled back the lace cur-
tain and examined the back of the
cardboard sign that kept everyone
away. It seemed even the road at
the end of the lane was avoided,
and after the glory palled, we spent
hours pitying ourselves as outcasts.
Having our shoulders stuck with
needles was of little moment if you
couldn't describe the ordeal to any-
one.
"I want Mama," Almy began to
cry on the lawn. Marjorie hushed
her, and Almy rubbed her eyes and
dozed off with her hand under her
cheek.
"She must be hot. See how red
her face is," I said to Marjorie.
Marjorie laid her hand against
Almy's round forehead where her
brown hair had dampened into fun-
ny points. Almy grumbled and
moaned in her sleep and pulled a
fat knee toward her chest. "You
better get Mama, Maudie."
I jumped up the steps two at a
time and ran into the kitchen. The
whole house smelled like sickness.
Mama was standing by the cup-
board, and she looked at me with
a smile. "The worst is over, Maud.
Run and tell Papa. Anna just ate
a whole bowl of soup."
"Mama. . . ." Her face was so
tired and happy all together.
"Mama, Marjorie wants you to
come feel Almy. She's so hot, and
all she wants to do is lie down."
I couldn't stand to look at Mama,
the happiness died out so quickly.
It was like flying, she went so fast
to Almy. I was sent for Papa in
the pasture. Papa ran all the way
back with me behind. I could hear
the breath in his throat like an
accompaniment to the swoosh-thud
of his high heavy shoes.
nnHREE nights in a row Dr. Wil-
liams came out in his brand
new Ford car. Once I caught a
glimpse of Almy held high on a
pillow, her face dark from cough-
ing. We lay under the sheets
listening. Sometimes Mama lay
down beside Almy, and Papa would
watch. But the coughing would
get bad, and then they both would
get up.
"Edith, Edith," Dr. Williams
would say gruffly. "You have to
get some rest, or you'll die your-
self."
"I won't give her up," Mama
said.
Anna wore Mama's wrapper and
worked in our kitchen. She made
bread and fried strips of ham for
breakfast. It was Anna who noticed
the first flag at the end of the lane.
It was a stick with a white rag tied
to it. Marjorie and I brought back
the basket beside it. That night we
ate Mrs. Snell's best poundcake.
Mama didn't want any dinner, but
she took in the new rag doll to
Almy. Almy smiled and went to
sleep with it under her cheek. She
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slept with that doll until she was
better, and Papa had to burn every-
thing.
But it was that night when Mama
hadn't felt like eating that she took
sick with diphtheria. Anna helped,
but Papa was like a scarecrow. His
beard grew until it scared Almy and
made her cry. Then he scraped it
off with his ears cocked always to-
ward Mama's room.
The flag was there the next day
and the next. One day we found a
bundle of clean dish towels nicely
embroidered, wrapped in brown
paper; another, there were cookies
in a shoe box and a bundle of clean
rags. A little salt bag filled with
dried apricots appeared, and often
there were homemade loaves of
bread and rolls. Once we found a
new dressed chicken wrapped in
many folds of newspaper. We car-
ried it all home to Anna who
accepted it and served it.
Papa took in some of the gifts to
Mama. A newly made apron, a
fresh blue nightgown. But Mama
would turn her head awav and the
tears would come. "I've brought
this on us all, John. . . . It's my
foolish doing. . . ."
Papa would close the door, but
his voice carried through the tran-
som above. "Nonsense. You were
doing your Christian duty. Edith,
Edith!" She had begun to choke.
"My love, Edith. Heaven help us!
My Edith!" We shut our doors
and cried into the pillows.
Almy was well enough to be car-
ried to the kitchen by Anna. Pier
brown cheeks seemed pale, and she
scolded us when we didn't get
things for her promptly. "She won't
be so cross when she gets her full
strength back," Papa promised us,
so we spoiled her and fetched her
things and listened for Mama.
HPHE summer was almost over
before they took down the
sign. Dr. Williams sat by Mama on
the back porch and took her pulse.
Papa had missed much time in the
fields, but the neighbors had hauled
in the hay and harvested the wheat.
"You've got to get interested in
things again, Edith. Accept the
miracle of Almy and you being alive,
not to exclude Anna, also."
The tears began to run down
Mama's cheeks. She pulled her
blanket about her knees. I broke
off a hollyhock by the back step and
fastened the skirt on a stick doll
for Almv.
"Crying's natural, Edith. You're
still mighty weak. But the sooner
you can accept what's in the past
and begin living in the future, then
the strength will come back."
Anna brought Mama her warm
milk. And Mama shook her head,
crying silently all the while. Anna
got a spoon and fed the milk to
Mama.
The wind was cold, and there was
a spattering of orange leaves already
on the lawn. In the dark I put my
arms around Papa and held him
when he came to kiss us good night.
"When will things be the same as
before, Papa?" I whispered to the
dark.
For a long time there was no
sound in the room. Then Papa
stirred on the edge of the bed. "I
don't know, Maudie. Your Mama
did a Christian deed, to her think-
ing, and the punishment exceeded
all that a devil might imagine. She's
lost touch with the rhythm of liv-
ing, and we have to give her time,
SUMMER'S GRACE 23
I guess. . . " He sighed and fell We told her about Ludwig and
silent. I fell asleep before he left all the blood. She wrapped her
the room. shawl around her shoulders and
Anna never did go to work for followed us to the lawn. Ludwig
Herman Hergesheimer. "Nein, looked very bloody and pitiful.
nein" she said vigorously. "Ich will "Give me the towel, Maud." Mama
bei ihr bleiben.'" She would not put the cold towel on his forehead
leave Mama. Besides, there was and sent us to chip a piece of ice
Ludwig, Papa's hired man who was from the icebox,
going to buy a small farm of his When we came back, Mama was
own. His cap was set for Anna, scolding Ludwig. "So much blood,
and if the time ever came when Ludwig. What is the cause of all
Mama didn't need her, she thought this?"
she would make do with Ludwig. "It's bleeding from the heart
But until that time came, he need maybe," said Ludwig. Mama gave
not bother her. him a sharp glance, and sent us
in for more cloths though anyone
A NNA made us aprons for school, could see the nosebleed was prac-
Autumn was really here, then, tically over,
and but one last day remained be- When we came back, Mama and
fore the long wagon rides to school Ludwig were talking about Anna,
began. We walked around the Mama kept saying, "But nobody
yard feeling lonesome. Ludwig told me a thing, not a thing." She
walked up to the back lawn and invited Ludwig to dinner. "We'll
stretched out. We peered into his have it late so you'll have plenty of
face. time to go home and dress up."
"Dosebleed. . . ." he said, wiping Ludwig smiled and smiled,
at his face. "I'll make a wiggily cake for din-
We ran into the house and wet ner," Mama said as much to her-
one of Mama's best dish towels, self as to us. "You girls can do the
"Anna!" we shrieked. Mama lay fetching, and I'll do the stirring.
on the couch in the kitchen that That is," now she really looked at
Papa had fixed for her. "Anna's us, "if I haven't forgotten how."
gone into town for more goods for We smiled and smiled at her, just
Marjorie's dress. What is it?" like Ludwig.
■ ♦ «
Deone R. Sutherland, Idaho Falls, Idaho, has had the privilege of growing up in a
home where emphasis was placed upon good literature and good education. "I was
born in Salt Lake City, Utah, and my parents are Linnie Fisher Robinson, a lovely
poet, and George Cecil Robinson. I graduated from the University of Utah and taught
English a year in high school and two years in the department of English at the
University of Utah. My first story sales occurred in my early teens to the Improvement
Era, and Professor Ouivey's page in The Salt Lake Tribune, where I won a monthly
prize. I won first prize in the Relief Society Short Story Contest in 1957. Some of
my serials in the Magazine have included 'Dear Conquest,' 'Green Willows,' 'Heart's
Bounty,' and 'Not to the Swift.' Besides Salt Lake, we have lived in Evanston, Illinois,
and in San Francisco and Oakland, California, where I have been active in theater
work and in Church activities. I am stake Relief Society literature class leader in the
East Idaho Falls Stake at the present time. My husband is Dr. Harold Pratt Sutherland,
in private practice in Idaho Falls. We have had four children, three of whom are
living."
cJhe / tort hern States fill
tsston
Preston R. Nibley
Assistant Church Historian
'TMIE Northern States Mission was organized in 1889. It contained
within its boundaries the states of Illinois, Iowa, Michigan, Minnesota,
and Wisconsin. The headquarters of the mission was established in
Council Bluffs, Iowa, with John E. Booth as president. President Booth
was succeeded in 1890 by Charles W. Stayner. President Stayner served
until 1895, when he was succeeded by Joshua Reuben Clark (father of
President J. Reuben Clark, Jr.). President Clark was succeeded in 1896
by Samuel G. Spencer. President Spencer was succeeded in December
1896 by Louis A. Kelsch. Under the direction of President Kelsch, the
headquarters of the mission was moved to Chicago in January 1897.
In 190c the Manitoba Province of Canada was added to the Northern
States Mission. Prior to this time, the State of Indiana had also been
added, and, in 1925, Ohio became a part of the mission territory.
President Kelsch served until 1901. Others who have succeeded him
are: Walter C. Lyman, 1901-2; Asahel PI. Woodruff, 1902-4; German E.
Ellsworth, 1904-19; Winslow Farr Smith, 1919-23; John H. Taylor, 1923-
29; Noah S. Pond, 1929-31. In 1930 there were 7,099 members in the
Northern States Mission.
President Pond presided until 1931, when he was succeeded by George
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NAUVOO THE BEAUTIFUL
From the Iowa Side of the Mississippi River
Page 24
THE NORTHERN STATES MISSION
25
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Ewing Galloway, New York
FARM SCENE IN ROLLING WISCONSIN HILLS
S. Romney. President Romney presided until December 1935, when he
died suddenly of a heart attack at Rockford, Illinois, after a very successful
mission. Presidents who have succeeded President Romney, until the
present time are: Bryant S. Hinckley, 1935-39; Leo J- Muir, 1939-43; David
I. Stoddard, 1943-46; Creed Haymond, 1946-49; Waldo M. Anderson,
1949-53; Isaac A. Smoot, 1953-57. President Smoot died in the mission
home in Chicago of a heart attack, after a successful mission, on March 12,
1957. His successor was Richard C. Stratford, who presides at the present
time.
Chicago Stake was formed in the Northern States Mission in No-
vember 1936; Detroit Stake was organized in November 1952.
The Great Lakes Mission was formed from the Northern States Mis-
sion in October 1949; it includes the states of Michigan, Indiana, and Ohio.
On October 1, 1959, the membership of the Northern States Mission was
9,852; these members were located in fifty-nine branches.
Fifty-nine Relief Society organizations, with 1145 members, were
reported in December 1958. Vera C. Stratford presides over the Northern
States Mission Relief Society.
Note: The cover for this Magazine, Buckingham Fountain, Chicago, Illinois, is a
striking night photograph by Rupert Leach, from Free Lance Photographers Guild, Inc.
See also "Recipes From the Northern States Mission," by Vera C. Stratford, page 34.
o^txtyi LJears J/Lgo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, January 1, and January 15, 1900
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
of All Nations"
MEMORIAL SERVICES AT MOUNT VERNON: The one hundredth anni-
versary of the death of George Washington, which occurred December 14, 1799, was
appropriately remembered . . . throughout the land. At Mount Vernon the scene was
impressive. . . . President McKinley, accompanied by members of his Cabinet, attended
the exercises and delivered an address. The procession that moved up the slope to the
mansion consisted of the Third United States Cavalry band . . . the Grand Lodge of
Virginia . . . and of the District of Columbia. . . . President McKinley reviewed the pro-
cession with uncovered head, and, as the last of it passed the mansion, the presidential
party fell in line at the rear and marched to the tomb where Washington was first
interred. . . . When the President finished his address twenty-one guns were fired by
the United States steamship Sylph. While the guns from the war vessel were boom-
ing, the entire assembly sang "America."
— Editorial
MISS ANTHONY'S LETTER: In this, my eightieth year, I am filled with a
great desire to urge all believers in the political enfranchisement of women to manifest
that belief in some material way. Will you not, as a New Year's pledge, promise to
aid the Suffrage Association in some direct manner? No woman is so situated that
she cannot do something. . . . The command to labor for the elevation of human kind
is not upon a chosen few only, but upon every intelligent being. . . .
— Susan B. Anthony
TWO CITIES
On the dusky edge of evening, stretched in shining peace it lies,
City built of clouds and sunshine — wonder of the Western skies. . . .
Darkness gathers, Eastward, Westward; stronger waxeth my desire,
Reaching through celestial spaces, glittering as with rain of fire.
To the city set with jasper, having twelve foundations fair,
Flashing from their jeweled splendor every color soft and rare. . . .
— Selected
A WOMAN WHO INHERITED FIVE COPPER CLAIMS: Miss Abbie East-
man, of Phoenix, Ariz., inherited five copper claims three years ago, and has been work-
ing ever since in California and Arizona to earn the money required to hold them until
they could be developed and sold. She has always been obliged to earn her own
bread, but with the sight of a fortune before her she worked harder than ever. She
persevered, and lately sold one claim for $45,000.
— News Note
A NEW DEPARTURE: Mrs. Admiral Dewey startled Washington society by
announcing that women as well as men would be welcome at her New Year's reception.
This is the revival of a custom that was abolished in Cleveland's administration.
■ — News Note
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
M
RS. OSWALD B. LORD of
New York has been reap-
pointed as an alternate representa-
tive to the United States delegation
to the General Assembly of the
United Nations. She is the only
woman on the U. S. delegation.
JENNIFER VYVYAN, soprano,
and Monica Sinclair, contralto,
are English women who have
achieved distinction for their sing-
ing in Handel's Messiah, under the
direction of world-famous Sir
Thomas Beecham. They are both
graduates of the Royal Academy of
Music, and have sung at Covent
Garden, Sadler's Wells, the Royal
Opera House, and in many other
opera houses in the British Isles and
elsewhere.
A/TRS. CLAIRE FEJES, of Fair-
banks, Alaska, mother of two
children, who assists her husband
Joseph Fejes in running a hobby
and art supply shop, is a well-known
artist of the Northland whose paint-
ings have won acclaim in many
parts of the United States and are
now on display at the Women's
City Club in New York City. Her
water colors, oils, and sketches por-
tray the majestic scenery and the
Eskimo tribes in the regions of
Kotzebue and Point Hope.
T EONIE B. ADAMS, one of
America's most honored poets,
in November 1959, received the
$5,000 fellowship award presented
by the American Academy of Poets
for "distinguished poetic achieve-
ment." Author of several books of
poetry, she has also won the Bol-
lingen Poetry Award, the Harriett
Monroe Award, and the Shelley
Memorial Award.
TV/f ANY American women are tak-
ing advantage of the scholar-
ships available for study abroad.
Seventy-five thousand scholarships
are offered to men and women for
study in eighty-five countries and
territories.
AJICOLE MAXWELL, a citizen
of the United States, is a scien-
tific explorer in the jungles of South
America. She has made nine trips
into remote regions searching for
medicinal plants which may be of
great value in the treatment of
disease. At present she is working
for the Charles Pfizer Pharmaceuti-
cal Company, Inc. Her education
was received at Ohio State Medical
School and Harvard University. She
is the founder of the Ecuadoran
Institute of Geography and Ethnog-
raphy, and is a Fellow of the Lon-
don Geographical Society.
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EDITORIAL
VOL 47
JANUARY 1960
NO. 1
cJhe LOatjs of a vi/ o man s JLtfe
The day is thine, the night also is thine: thou hast prepared the light and the
sun. Thou hast set all the borders of the earth: thou hast made summer and winter
(Psalm 74:16-17) .
A GAIN, with the coming of the
New Year, we find ourselves
contemplating and evaluating that
period of time which is past, our
present place in the life plan, and
the days which are to come. For
each day is like a jewel in its setting
of eternity — and it has meaning
far beyond the borders of its begin-
ning and its end. Each day is set
in its intricate design of former days
and future time, and never can one
day be reckoned as an island in the
sea of continuity.
One of the greatest blessings of
the gospel is the assurance it gives
of our place in the everlasting se-
quence of our far-reaching privileges
and responsibilities. With full
hearts, we rejoice in the New Year,
believing, "Lord, thou hast been our
dwelling place in all the genera-
tions" (Psalm 90:1).
In this setting, we think of the
days of a woman's life upon the
earth — and afterwards — the roles
in which she participates, her inter-
ests and her development in each
succeeding phase of the periods of
time which are given to her.
First, she is a daughter in her
mother's home; then, if she is
blessed with a companion, she be-
comes a wife, a daughter-in-law, a
mother; finally, she will be a moth-
er-in-law, and a grandmother.
Through this cycle of days she will
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also be a participant in the work of
the Church and in community
activities. And through all of these
experiences, a woman learns about
life from the vantage point of each
of her "seven ages." In the course
of this development, she acquires a
measure of wisdom, sympathy,
serenity, and a realization of her
destiny in the Heavenly Father's
eternal plan. Each age yields to
her experiences which gleam in
splendor above all trials and disap-
pointments, for it has been said of
earth and earth life "The stones of
it are the place of sapphires: and it
hath dust of gold" (Job 28:6).
The girl in her mother's home
receives training and impressions
that will determine the course of
her life. She will alwavs remember
J
the shelter of the home walls, the
lighted windows, her mother's face,
the tireless hands sewing a dress for
a girl child, the table set for the
evening meal, the prayers that
united the family in love and re-
sponsibility. And though partings
inevitably came and illness, and,
perhaps, hard times assailed the
home, still there came to the daugh-
ter a strength of courage and a
feeling of lifetime security that
would companion her forever.
The young wife in her new home
might perhaps say to herself, this
is a new unit in the kingdom of
EDITORIAL
29
earth, and in the kingdom of the
Heavenly Father. Here are two
people, strangers in many ways,
coming from different homes, to
merge together, each one bringing
the past to build into a new unit,
with the aura of youth and strength
— so the young wife builds.
The wife and her mother-in-law,
whatever may be the differences in
personality, have much to bring
them close together. They have a
shared devotion to the son who is
now a husband, and together they
will love the grandchildren, enlarg-
ing the unit of the family with a
new perspective and new compan-
ionship.
To the young wife, the coming
of a child seems to be a miracle.
And so it is, for the Heavenly
Father has given a spirit to taber-
nacle upon the earth, and the child,
in his innocence, seems to be re-
membering his former home, even
as he explores the wonders of earth.
The mother, then, sees places and
people through young eyes, as if a
new portrait were being designed
upon a white canvas, all impressions
webbed in wonder and beauty. The
mother feels herself a part of all
creation — a kinship with sunlight
and flowers, and far habitations,
having a wide love for children
everywhere and a yearning to in-
crease the welfare and opportunities
of all children.
When a daughter or son marries,
a woman again meets a stranger,
certainly a stranger at first, and the
circle of the family is at the same
time diminished and enlarged.
New adjustments come for older
mothers, and there is a desire for
greater understanding and for op-
portunities that will give wisdom
and happiness in the circle of the
growing family.
One woman said, as her grand-
children grew like flowers around
her, "Now I am living in the peren-
nial garden, and I have learned to
receive with greater rejoicing the
association with children, who are
really the buds and blossoms of the
world. " This heightened sensitiv-
ity to companionship with young
spirits seems to be one of the great-
est blessings realized by grandmoth-
ers, as they see the cycle of life
thus made strong and everlasting.
Grandchildren bring gifts from the
faraway country of childhood.
Thus are the ages of a woman
combined into a cycle of increasing
wisdom, expanding sympathies, and
a widened appreciation of the gift
of life and time — the gift of years,
and always the New Year, and the
eternal horizon.
-V. P. C.
years
Roxana Farnsworth Hase
Have vou grown lesser since your hair is gray
And strength somewhat diminished in your arms?
Is that fine mind I always so admired
Less keenly tuned with passing of youth's charms?
Am I to think that years have warped your vision
Because you slow a little in your stride?
Ah, no! You are the ripened fruits of wisdom,
I am the seeker, ever at your side.
TO THE FIELD
IKelief (society uxssigned (overling II ieeting of
C/ast cJundau in II Larch
T
HE Sunday night meeting to be held on Fast Day, March 6, i960, has
again been assigned by the First Presidency for use by the Relief
Society. A suggestive program for this meeting has been sent to the stakes
in pamphlet form. It is suggested that ward Relief Society presidents
confer with their bishops immediately to arrange for this meeting. It is
suggested that the ward Relief Society chorister and organist confer with
the ward president and carefully select from the ward music library the
songs for this occasion which seem to be the most appropriate and the
most inspirational.
islwara Subscriptions LP resented in J/tpril
^HE award subscriptions presented to Magazine representatives for hav-
ing obtained 75 per cent or more subscriptions to the Magazine in re-
lation to their enrolled Relief Society members, are not awarded until
after the stake Magazine representatives' annual reports have been audited.
Award cards for these subscriptions for the year 1959 will be mailed to
ward and stake Magazine representatives about April 1, i960.
lo o una Volume of ig5g 1 1 tagazines
~T) ELIEF Society officers and members who wish to have their 1959 issues
of The Relief Society Magazine bound may do so through The
Deseret News Press, 31 Richards Street, Salt Lake City 1, Utah. (See
advertisement on inside back cover.) The cost for binding the twelve issues
in a permanent cloth binding is $2.50, leather $3.80, including the index. A
limited number of the 1959 Magazines are available at the offices of the
General Board of Relief Society, 76 North Main Street, Salt Lake City 11,
Utah, for $2 for twelve issues. It is recommended that wards and stakes
have one volume of the 1959 Magazines bound for preservation in ward
and stake Relief Society libraries.
Page 30
©A Say; What @s of ruth?
Y/lfHAT a wonderful world this would be if everybody believed and
practiced the teachings of the Savior:
Ye shall know the truth,
and *lhe truth shall make; you free.
Lucky for you who ...Jive in a land built on a belief in truth and
justice. Not all people arg so fortunate.
As children we are naturally honest. And we would likely so remain
but for the bad examples, group pressures, or lack of effective moral
teaching in our lives.
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32 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JANUARY 1960
Should untruthfulness creep into our lives it is likely to come first
in faint disguise: in exaggeration; in concealment of some pertinent facts
when people have a right to believe that what we say is the whole truth
and nothing but the truth; in pretending that we agree with someone
else's statement when he expresses an idea or an opinion which is con-
trary to our own; in refraining from speaking up in defense of a person or
a cause when we know we ought to do so; in making promises which we
do not intend to keep.
Only after we have grown callous to some of these milder forms of
indirect deceit are we likely to tell deliberate falsehoods. Most people
are innocent of intentional and outright deception.
Young men and young women: how valiant are you to defend the
truth? Do you stand up to the careless opinions and irresponsible claims
which are so often expressed when young people engage in casual talk?
How careful are you in expressing your own opinions and in sticking
to facts in your own speech?
If all people were strictly truthful and honest, righteousness would
soon cover the earth — and heaven would not be far beyond!
So, believe the truth, tell the truth, love the truth, live the truth.
BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
Vi/hat \4-ifts Sd {Jo ring
Ida Elaine James
I forgot that you are thirty-two,
Habit being a stubborn thing to break,
And so, as always, I bring home to you
Some trifle from the party ... a mint, or cake.
In long-gone days if I failed to secrete
A treasure in my purse, I would not dare
To meet your eager, outstretched hand, my sweet.
Stronger than age is strong, this will to share!
Forgive old age's tender foolishness
For harboring bits I've learned along life's way,
Expectant always of your welcoming yes,
Your heart enfolding the gifts I bring today.
But now, life's gems — my best — I am not sure
How you will take; still, hearts are hard to cure.
[Prevent Crippling ^JJiseases
Basil O'Connor
President, The National Foundation
V/'OU and the March of Dimes — that's the combination that produced
the polio vaccine. That combination — you and the new March of
Dimes — can do it again. The new March of Dimes is tackling birth
defects, arthritis, and polio. Medical surveys show that one out of sixteen
American babies is born defective. You can do something to stop it.
Arthritis is America's No. 1 crippling disease — the enemy of millions,
both adults and children. Old and new epidemics of polio have left
50,000 in need of March of Dimes care.
The National Foundation, supported by the March of Dimes, leads
in medical research to prevent crippling disease, in medical care to prevent
disease crippling, and in professional education to train disease fighters.
National Foundation scholarships train hands and minds to prevent the
tragedy of crippling diseases.
An army of volunteers will conduct the new March of Dimes in
January i960. They know the anguish that birth defects bring families;
they know that arthritis and the rheumatic diseases strike millions, in-
cluding children. They know that in 1959 polio erupted in terrifying
epidemics and that polio still cripples. They also know that a nationally
co-ordinated research program, accompanied by patient aid and the train-
ing of more medical personnel, is the only hope of checking these three
cripplers, the only way of bringing hope to their victims. Help prevent
crippling diseases. Join the new March of Dimes.
0/ Lsould I lot C/*|/
Gladys Hesser Burnham
I could not cry the day you left me standing
Unprepared for this, our last farewell.
The world around was bursting forth with promise
That life was sweet and spring about to swell.
My only premonition of disaster
Was weeping sky that filled the tulip's brim.
I thought at once of sweet, thirst-quenching moisture
That hastens growing buds along each limb.
My mind was on this earthly resurrection
Of flowing sap and flowering gardens gay.
I could not sense the fact that you were leaving;
Yet weeping skies are blue beyond the gray.
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IKectpes Qjrom the I Lor them States IlLtssiori
Submitted by Vera C. Stratford
Pride of Iowa Cookies
i c. shortening
1 c. brown sugar
1 c. white sugar
2 eggs
i tsp. vanilla
2 c. flour
Vz tsp. soda
!/4 tsp. salt
Vz c. coconut, shredded
2 c. rolled oats
i c. corn flakes
Vz c. nut meats
Cream shortening and sugar together until light. Add eggs and beat until light
and creamy. Add vanilla; sift flour, soda, and salt together and mix in. Add coconut,
oats, corn flakes, and nuts. Drop on greased cookie sheet and bake at 3500 until
lightly browned.
Poppy-Seed Cake
% c. poppy seeds
3A c. milk
1 Vz c. sugar
Vz c. butter
2 c. flour
2 tsp. baking powder
Vz c. milk
1 tsp. vanilla
3 egg whites
Soak poppy seeds in the % cup milk overnight. Mix butter and sugar. Sift dry
ingredients and add alternately to butter mixture with the Vz cup milk. Add vanilla
and soaked poppy seeds. Fold in stiffly beaten whites of eggs. Bake twenty-five
minutes at 3500. Spread a custard filling, recipe below, between layers and ice with pink
seven-minute frosting.
Custard for Poppy-Seed Cake:
Vz c. sugar (brown or white)
1 c. milk
3 egg yolks
2 tbsp. flour, or more to make desired
thickness
1 c. nut meats, chopped
Mix and cook in a double boiler, all ingredients, except nuts, until thick; cool, add
nuts, and spread between layers of cake.
Peppered Beef
1 tbsp. fat
1 lb. roundsteak
1 c. hot water
2 tbsp. cornstarch
Vz tsp. salt
pepper
1 crushed garlic clove
% c. celery, chopped
1 bouillon cube
4 tsp. soy sauce
1 chopped onion
4 green peppers
Vz c. cold water
Cut meat in narrow inch-long strips and brown in fat. Add salt, pepper, garlic,
©nion, sliced peppers, and chopped celery. Dissolve bouillon cube in hot water and
add to mixture. Cook until tender. Mix cornstarch, soy sauce, and cold water and
add to meat mixture. Cook about two additional minutes. Serve with rice or
boiled noodles.
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RECIPES FROM THE NORTHERN STATES MISSION 35
Southern Illinois Baked Beans
i lb. dried Great Northern beans thirty slices bacon
1 medium-sized onion brown sugar
water, as needed salt and pepper
1 bottle tomato catsup
Boil beans in sufficient water to cover, salted to taste, until done, but not soft.
In a baking dish, place a layer of beans, salted and peppered to taste, then a layer of
thinly sliced onion. Sprinkle with brown sugar and dot with catsup. Cut bacon in
short lengths and place on top of onions. Make second and third layers of the same.
Cover with thin layer of brown sugar and remaining catsup and place long strips of
bacon on top. Bake in 3500 oven until bacon is browned. Cover, reduce heat to
very low, and bake two and one-half additional hours. Add a little water, as needed,
to make sure there is always enough moisture to bake without burning.
Sister Snelgrove's Pineapple Cheese Salad
1 pkg. lemon jello 1 small can crushed pineapple
1 pkg. lime jello Vi c. sugar
2 c. hot water 1 c. grated mild cheese
juice from one lemon 1 pt. whipping cream
Dissolve jello in hot water and add lemon juice. Cool. Combine pineapple and
sugar, then bring to a boil. Add to jello mixture when cool; add cheese. When almost
starting to jell, fold in whipped cream.
Wisconsin Blueberry Muffins
1% c. flour % c. milk
2 Vi tsp. baking powder 1 egg
% tsp. salt 3 tbsp. fat
lA c. sugar blueberries, as desired
Sift dry ingredients. Beat egg, add milk and fat. Add dry ingredients, stirring
lightly. Fold in washed blueberries (as many as desired). Bake in greased muffin pan
at 42 50 for 25 minutes.
Corn-Belt Cracker Jacks
1 lb. brown sugar lA tsp. salt
1 c. white syrup Vi tsp. soda
!4 lb. butter 8 qts. popped corn
Cook sugar and syrup until it almost burns (about 8 minutes), stirring constantly
from the time it starts to boil. Melt butter and add with the salt and soda. Stir and
pour over popped corn (more or less can be used depending on taste). Now pour
out on table and press down with hands or form into balls.
Elder Cook's Crystal French Dressing for Fruit Salad
!4 c. sugar !4 c. white vinegar
1 tsp. celery seed 1 c. salad oil
Vi tsp. salt 2 cloves garlic, minced
1 tsp. dry mustard
Combine sugar, celery seed, salt, mustard, and vinegar. Very slowly add the oil,
beating constantly. The dressing becomes very thick as the oil is added. Add minced
garlic clove. Chill well before serving.
1 1 lore [Precious cJhan [Riches
Betty Lou Martin
4 6 nri ED, come here quick. Look cry. "Oh, Cathy, you're supposed
I at the new living-room set to sleep right now so Mommy can
that the Andrews are get- get her washing done/' Carolyn
ting." Carolyn Hayes watched sighed. "I can see that this is going
curiously out the window. "Honest- to be one of those days."
ly, they're always getting something After several unsuccessful at-
new. Why only last month they tempts, Carolyn finally finished the
got a new car, and the month before washing, then she made the beds
that. . . ." and did the breakfast dishes. She
Ted Hayes put his arm affection- worked through the lunch hour,
ately around his wife. "Now, dear, and by the time the nine-year-old
we're not interested in what the An- twins came home from school,
drews get new. After all, they don't Carolyn was exhausted. "I really
have any children to buy for, and should iron a few of those pieces
we have three to take care of. They before I start dinner, but I'm just
can afford things like that." too tired."
Carolyn turned dark, intent eyes "Mother," Jimmy called from the
upon Ted. "Really, Ted, I don't living room. "Mrs. Andrews is here
mean to be envious, but I can't help to see you."
but admire the nice things that Oh, no, thought Carolyn, and I
Barbara and Chris Andrews have, look so untidy.
Why Barbara even has a dish- Barbara Andrews sat across from
washer." Carolyn and chatted to her about
"But just think, Mrs. Hayes, you their new living-room set, and the
have three dish wipers and one trip that she and Chris planned to
potential one. What more could take to New York. Carolyn listened
you ask for?" Ted teased in his with excitement. If only she and
good natured way. Ted could take a trip like that, but
Ted, with his clean-cut appear- they could never afford it. Besides,
ance, his blonde curly hair, and his they wouldn't have anyone with
appealing blue eyes, could always whom to leave the children,
make Carolyn smile. He had a way "Oh, Barbara, it all sounds so
about him that would make the wonderful. Why I've never hardly
world seem rosy and bright, even on been out of the State, let alone to
a rainy day. New York," Carolyn said.
"I'd like to see the time that you Barbara was her usual, well-
or the children finish the job of groomed self. "I am excited about
wiping the dishes for me." Carolyn it, Carolyn. Of course we always
laughed. "At least, I know that you take a vacation every summer. Why,
have good intentions." it just wouldn't seem right, if we
Carolyn finally got the twins, didn't."
Jimmy and Jenny, ready for school. Carolyn felt even more conspicu-
They had just walked out the door ous in her soiled blue cotton dress,
when the baby, Cathy, started to with her dark hair disheveled.
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MORE PRECIOUS THAN RICHES 37
Barbara was trim and neat in a fresh The night of the party finally ar-
cotton skirt and blouse, and her rived, and little Cathy was proud
blonde hair was beautifully combed, and happy. She laughed and talked
"Well, I really must be running, and tried to blow out the candles on
I'm meeting Chris for dinner in the cake which Carolyn had taken
town tonight, and then we're going so much time decorating.
to take in a show. Do come over Carolyn looked around at the
and see my new furniture, Carolyn." happy, laughing faces of her little
family, and she knew that every mo-
npHE thought of a show sounded ment of exhausting work was worth
relaxing to Carolyn, and when it. What would she ever do with-
Ted came home, she suggested that out them? They were more pre-
they go. cious than riches. Just then a knock
"It's fine with me, honey," Ted came to the door, and when Caro-
replied. "We can all go to a drive- lyn answered it, Barbara stood be-
in." fore her.
As it turned out, Carolyn wished Barbara looked around at the gaily
that they had stayed home. Cathy decorated table, at the cake with its
wouldn't go to sleep, and the twins two single candles and one to grow
kept bouncing around in the back on, and at the brightly wrapped
seat of the car. Every few minutes presents on the table. "Oh, I'm
they had to have some popcorn, and sorry, Carolyn, I didn't know that
then some candy, and then — "a you were having a party. It's just
drink of water, please, Daddy." that I. . . ." There were tears in her
Carolyn did take note of the beau- eyes as she spoke. "I get so lone-
tiful moon that night, and her some when Chris isn't there. Oh,
thoughts went back to the days Carolyn, you have so very much to
when she and Ted were courting, be thankful for."
The next thing she remembered the Carolyn thought with amazement,
show was over, and Ted was taking all this time I have been admiring
the speaker out of the car. her beautiful things, she has been
"Ted, I've been to sleep; why wanting what I have. She took
didn't you awaken me?" Carolyn Barbara by the arm and led her into
asked. the dining room.
"You were sleeping so peacefully "I'm so happy that you came,
that I just didn't have the heart." Barbara. You're just in time to
Ted winked at Carolyn. have some cake and ice cream with
The next day started out the same us. Little Cathy will be delighted,
way for Carolyn, and she didn't have too. She loves visitors."
a spare minute to visit with Bar- As Carolyn set a place for Barbara,
bara. Suddenly, it occurred to Caro- she turned toward Ted and gave
lyn that Cathy's second birthday him a radiant smile that said,
came the end of the week. "We'll "Thank you for all the happiness
have to have a little family party," that we have together."
she mused. When the twins came Ted, in turn, wondered what he
home from school, Carolyn told had done to deserve such a lovely,
them of her plans, and they eagerly glowing smile from his beautiful
helped her plan the occasion, wife.
Uxoseila Jenkins II Lakes limits and IKugs
ROSELLA Cora Brown Jenkins, Gooding, Idaho, makes quilts, rugs, and many doilies,
pot holders, dolls, and other items for home beautification and for gifts. She
has given several quilts to her children and has made one for each of her seven grand-
children for their weddings. She pieced a quilt top for the Relief Society. Her
beautiful and useful rugs have been items of much admiration at Relief Society bazaars.
She cultivates a large vegetable garden and a lovely flower garden, and both of these
provide gifts for family and friends.
Mrs. Jenkins has been a Relief Society visiting teacher for forty-six years and has
also served many years as an executive officer. She is mother to four children, grand-
mother to nineteen, and great-grandmother to seven.
Uxuth to iuoaz
Kathcrine F. Larsen
Never for pity have I come to you,
Though pity enough were perhaps my due.
Nor for your largess do I entreat —
Only that I might lie at your feet.
Never have I stretched hands to receive
Plums, grapes, and pomegranates — only believe
I proffer to you sheer grain that I
Have garnered under the unpitying sky.
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The New Day
Hazel K. Todd
Chapter 4
Synopsis: Lynn Marlow, a dress design-
er, who lives in Chicago and is engaged
to David Talbot, returns to Springdale,
her home town, to visit her Aunt Polly,
and to find out if she has really forgotten
her early love for Johnny Spencer. He
had married a Southern girl and she had
died, leaving two children. On her way
to her aunt's home, Lynn meets Johnny's
children, but she delays going to see
Johnny.
IT was quite natural that her feet
should turn to the willow path.
Long ago, when the path was
new, she had gone there to think.
If she had done something wrong
and Aunt Polly had reprimanded
her, if she had quarreled with
Johnny, or if anything had hap-
pened that wasn't right, she had
come here in the willows and found
her Balm of Gilead. Now she
walked in the ferns and willow
leaves until she came to the stump
lying like a hound dog by the path.
And she sat down on it and took
off her shoes and dipped her feet
into the cool water.
In the leaves near something
caught her eye. It was the pocket
knife, the open blade shining up
at her through the leaves. Her
heart began a peculiar thumping.
That knife belonged to Johnny's
boy. He had given it to her to
make the whistle that she had never
finished. She picked it up thought-
fully. Then, reaching up, she
snipped off the willow branch hang-
ing low over her head. The blade
slid quite easily through the tender
limb, and in a short time she was
pounding the bark from her
whistle.
It was funny how she could re-
member just the right things to do
after so many years. Just how deep
to make the groove, just where to
cut the slit, and then the taste of
the sap as she wet the bare whistle
in her mouth to make the bark slide
on easily. She was eager as a child
as she put the whistle to her lips.
It had always been fun to try a
new whistle. There were so many
pitches. It blew a high shrill note
that made her start a little so that
she looked squarely into the pair of
eyes peeking furtively through the
willow clump. She knew those eyes,
too. She would never question
them again. They were Johnny's
eyes, in Johnny's son's face.
"LJE knew immediately that she
had seen him, but he stayed
defiantly in the willows. "I want
my knife," he said.
Lynn had regained her compos-
ure now. "Of course you may have
it," she said "but you must come
and get it."
He came a few steps out of the
willows, and Lynn looked behind
him, expecting to see the little girl.
"Where is your sister?"
"None of your business," he said,
without offering to come further.
She raised her eyebrows. "I'm
sorry. I didn't mean to make you
angry."
"What'd you run away for when
you promised to make us a whistle?"
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Oh, so that was it!
"I'm sorry/' she said again. "It
was very foolish of me to run away.
Would you believe me if I told you
I was afraid of something when I
ran away?"
"There's nothing in these willows
to get you/' he said. He was still
eyeing her up and down.
"Oh, I'm sure of that," Lynn said
very seriously. "But — well, if you
had something that made you very,
very unhappy and you lost it, and
then suddenly found it, do you
think you might run away before it
hurt you all over again?"
He puckered his forehead into a
scowl. "You don't talk plain," he
said.
She laughed then. "I suppose I
don't." She looked down into her
hand at the whistle. "Did you hear
my whistle?"
"Sure, I heard it. I was standing
right there. I watched you make
it."
"Oh, did you! I thought you
just came out of nowhere."
"That's silly. Nobody comes out
of nowhere."
She laughed again. "I guess they
don't."
He still stood in the same place.
"Would you like the whistle?"
He thought a minute. "I'll give
it to Lindy," he said and came for-
ward.
Lindyl Johnny had named his
little girl Lindy! Like a fast mov-
ing drama, there rushed before her
a night along the willow path, with
Johnny's arms around her. She
could see vividly the flower in his
buttonhole. She could even smell
the violets in her hair. And sharp
and clear a voice tender, sweet, "All
our little girls we will name Lindy."
She sat stupified while he took
the whistle she held in her hand.
"I want my knife, too," he said.
"Oh, of course. Excuse me."
She reached for the knife that was
lying on the stump beside her.
"Does Lindy like whistles?"
"Course she does."
Lynn was quite calm now. "I
suppose all boys and girls like
whistles."
"Lindy is asleep," Peter volun-
teered now, as though to make up
for his rudeness awhile ago.
"Who . . . who stavs with her
when she's asleep?" Lynn was un-
consciously twisting the leaves from
a willow branch.
"Sometimes I do. Sometimes she
gets up and plays by herself."
A slight frown knit her forehead.
"How old is Lindy?" she asked.
"She's four, and she knows a
lot," he announced nonchalantly.
Lynn looked at the boy thought-
fully. He talked like a grown-up.
"How old are you, Peter?" she
asked.
"Nearly six. I'll soon be as big
as my dad," he said.
"Do you and Lindy live alone,
with your father?"
"Course we do," Peter answered,
"cause our mother died."
He looked at her then as though
there was a decision forming in his
mind. "You can see our house
from here," he said, pointing to it
across the meadow.
"Yes, I see," she said, following
his finger.
"Why don't you come and see
it?"
She caught her breath.
And then David's words— "Prom-
ise me you will see Johnny," he
had said. Lynn sighed. If she
must see Johnny, perhaps she must
also see his house. The house by
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41
the mill — wan't that part of it,
too?
"I — I think I would like to."
They stood looking at each other.
"Now?" she asked.
Sure.
IT was some far-fetched dream —
walking down the path through
the clover meadow with a boy
whose eyes belonged to a lost love,
to a house that by rights was hers,
where a little girl who might have
been her baby lay asleep, whose
leading footsteps brought her nearer
and nearer to some knot of con-
fused circumstances she could not
face; and vet could not avoid. It
was all crazy — some silly hallucina-
tion from which she must presently
awaken. She didn't belong here
anyway. She belonged with David
on a warm green hillside. Her mind
rambled wildly, inventing and en-
tangling. The breeze was soft and
sweet with scented clover bloom,
or lilac or pussy willow or birds'
songs, or chirping crickets or — on
and on it went, manufacturing in-
coherent phrases of nonsense, like
a jumbled picture puzzle where you
searched endlessly without ever find-
ing a piece that would fit. And all
the times she had cried in the night,
all the walks in the willow path,
all the dress designs she had fash-
ioned, all the rides with David
through the forest preserves were
all mixed together.
'That's the monkey tree."
Lynn came back from her con-
fused mental soliloquy. Peter was
pointing to a gnarled old juniper
tree standing like a half -naked giant
with fingers and toes stretching in
all directions.
"Monkey tree?" she repeated,
hardly knowing what she said.
"Sure. My Dad calls it that be-
cause it would be such a good tree
for monkeys. I play I'm a monkey
when I climb it."
Lynn laughed then, a little.
"Does Lindy climb the tree, too?"
It was a silly thing to ask. But
everything was unreal anyway.
"Aw, gee, no. Girls can't climb
trees. Anyway, she's too little.
She'd fall and break something."
"Yes, of course," Lynn agreed.
"The turkey nest is over that way
on the other side of the strawber-
ries. I'll show it to you after we
see the house."
T YNN looked at the house then
that sat at the top of the slope
which ran down and lost itself in
the millpond. It was a small white
house with a sun porch and a path
that curled round the hill like an
invitation. There was a chimney,
too, a rock chimney with stones
laid just so in rows of red mortar.
The roof, cool and green, spread
wide eaves far enough to shade a
summer afternoon to tranquility.
And there was a window with a
pink ruffled curtain.
Lynn had an unquenchable de-
sire to see inside the house. She
wanted to know if there was a pink
cupboard with blue teacups and a
planter box where you could put
bright geraniums. She hurried her
footsteps toward the door, and
stopped as suddenly. What will I
do ii Johnny is there? Even if I
have promised that I must see him,
would he want to see me? And any-
way, this house belonged to a girl
with dark hair horn the South.
The door opened slowly, and she
looked down into the frightened
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eyes of the little girl. The tot
started as if she might run and then
she caught sight of Peter behind
Lynn and ran crying to him and
hanging on to his shirt.
"Aw, shucks, Lindy, you don't
have to be afraid. I asked her to
come and see where we live."
The child turned her head side-
ways and peered at Lynn through
tear-filled eyes, and then she hid
her face in the plaid shirt.
'Took, Lindv," Peter said with
big brother superiority, "she made
you a whistle."
Lindv unburied her face. In a
second or two she reached her
chubby hand forward for the whis-
tle, which she held silently.
"Blow it, dear," Lynn said, smil-
ing.
Hesitantly Lindy put the whistle
to her lips, but she didn't blow it.
She just looked from Peter to Lynn
and back again.
"Aw, why don't you blow it?"
Peter said.
Then she blew, weakly at first
and then loudly.
"See, I told you it'd blow," Peter
said.
Lynn looked from the little girl
into the room. And it was filled
with Johnny from the trophy on
the mantel that he had won when
he was captain of the basketball
team to his slippers sitting by the
fireplace. There was a planter box,
too. But it had no geraniums in it.
That would have to be from a
woman.
"I want a drink," Lindy said.
"I'm thoisty."
Lynn brought herself back to the
children. "I'll get you a drink."
In the kitchen she found the pink
cupboard and a row of blue plates
and a shelf of spices and a line of
blue teacups hanging on hooks. She
took one clown and filled it with
water from the sink.
"Llere, Lindy," she said.
Lindy took the cup and drank
heartily. "Fank you," she said, and
Lynn tried to swallow the lump in
her throat.
Impulsively she leaned down and
lifted the little girl in her arms.
"You are a darling," she said.
"I am a buttonhook."
"That's what Dad calls her,"
Peter explained.
Lynn laughed and hugged the
child. As she did so her eyes found
the rocking chair by the fireplace,
and a strange urge tugged at her.
This is unreal, she thought, as she
sat in the chair with the child in
her lap. But everything is unreal.
She began rocking back and forth
while the little girl cuddled in her
arms.
The chair was turned toward the
door, and she could see down the
path that wound away into the
junipers. And up the hill she could
see Aunt Polly's. Aunt Polly was
there making rhubarb pies. She
looked at the child lying quietly in
her arms. Then some faint sound
or intuition broke the spell and she
looked up.
Johnny was staring at her. John-
ny, with his wide gray eyes, one lock
of his dark hair falling over his fore-
head. Even in the first split second
she saw him, she knew the years
had hung a weariness about him.
He was standing there in the door,
and she thought she could never
forget his face.
(To be continued)
FROM THE FIELD
Hulda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Handbook of Instructions of the Relief Society.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Daisy R. Romney
WESTERN STATES MISSION, SCOTTSBLUFF (NEBRASKA) DISTRICT
SPECIAL RELIEF SOCIETY WORK MEETING, July 1, 1959
District officers, seated, left to right, beginning with the third sister: Mamie
Reading, social science class leader; Valoise Gundersen, First Counselor; Jean Goodellr
President; Winnie Wold, Second Counselor; Jean Norton, literature class leader.
The sisters in the picture represent the following branches of the Scottsbluff
District: Scottsbluff, Torrington, Lance Creek, Kimball, and Bridgeport.
Daisy R. Romney, President, Western States Mission Relief Society, reports:
"With the creation of the new Cheyenne Stake on July 1, 1959, ^our branch Relief
Societies from the Western States Mission were included in the transfer to the stake.
These branches include: Scottsbluff, Nebraska, with a membership of twenty-nine;.
Torrington, Wyoming, twenty-five; Lance Creek, Wyoming, seven; Greeley, Colorado,
twenty-nine. Due to the devoted and efficient carrying out of the Relief Society's
planned program, these branches were well qualified for their admittance to the stake
Relief Society."
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Photograph submitted by Ida A. Gallagher
MURRAY STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC
STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, August 30, 1959
FOR
Front row, seated, left to right: Ruth Beckstead, organist; Clara Christian, choris-
ter; Ida A. Gallagher, President, Murray Stake Relief Society.
Second from the left on the second row, Rhea B. Nelson. First Counselor.
Sister Gallagher reports: "This group has a total membership of eighty sisters.
Thev also furnished music for the two-stake Relief Society Convention held August
12th at the Murray Stake center, and at the Visiting Teachers Convention in May;
also at both sessions of stake conference in August."
Photograph submitted by Elva Ravsten
SOUTHERN STATES MISSION, MISSION-WIDE RELIEF SOCIETY
CONVENTION, August 18-19, 1959
Left to right: Elda Stafford, First Counselor in mission Relief Society presidency,
and President of the North Alabama District; Elva Ravsten, President, Southern States
Mission Relief Society; Crystal Burnett; Chrissie Kirk, literature class leader; Bessie
Guinn, President, South Carolina District; Roberta Washburn, visiting teacher mes-
sage leader; Violet Pattley, President, Miami District; Neva Sweat, social science class
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
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leader; Maggie Lee Smoke, theology class leader; Alice Smith, President, West Florida
District; Mildred Barlow, President, Georgia-Florida District; Belva Morris, Second
Counselor, Southern States Mission Relief Society.
Sister Ravsten reports: "A two-day convention was held at the mission home, the
first one to be held in the mission. Twelve sisters were present out of the fifteen that
were scheduled to be there. A work meeting was conducted and each of the
sisters took back to her district several completed articles to demonstrate to her district.
President Ravsten spoke to the sisters on the theme of the convention, 'The Latter-day
Saint Home.' A testimony meeting followed. Lesson demonstration and helps were
given by the mission board members. Displayed in the picture are a few of the
articles that were made by the sisters. Between the lessons lovely smorgasbord dinners
were served to all present. New goals were set and new acquaintances made; for the
first time the mission presidency had met together and the district Relief Society presi-
dents had the opportunity to meet the counselors and board members."
Photograph submitted by Wilma F. Turley
SOUTHWEST INDIAN MISSION, FORT APACHE (ARIZONA) BRANCH
PARTICIPATES IN MEMORIZING THE ARTICLES OF FAITH
Left to right: May Altaha; Delia Zagatah; Amelia Kane; Arlene Cook; Serena
Altaha; Diane Frost; Lillian Kaytoggy; Mary Alekay; Edith Antonio; Bela Riley. Insert,
Myrtle G. Blaisdell, Fort Apache Branch, Relief Society Supervisor.
Wilma F. Turley, President, Southwest Indian Mission Relief Society, reports:
"We are very proud of the work our missionaries are doing with the women of the
mission. The Ilopi sisters are natural Relief Society sisters. The Navajo, Apache,
and others are doing well. In every branch we have many faithful sisters who keep
us encouraged, and we feel that our time is well spent. The sisters make quilts, bake
bread, and sew articles of clothing for themselves and to sell in bazaars."
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In Memorlam
Pres. Amy B. Lyman
(Continued from page 5)
Central Chorus. This has been a
strength to Relief Society and
brought happiness and development
to thousands of Relief Society sis-
ters whose sweet voices have in-
spired us and brought a spirit of
worship into our meetings.
The division of Relief Society
work with which Sister Lyman seems
to be most intimately identified,
however, in the minds of most peo-
ple who know of her work, is the
founding, in 1919, and the nurtur-
ing and development of the Relief
Society Social Service and Child
Welfare Department, under the
presidency of Sister Emmeline B.
Wells, and upon advice of President
Joseph F. Smith. This department
continues today an extremely im-
portant division of Relief Society
work, offering to children and oth-
ers standardized case work services
which require license.
Sister Lyman's work in the field
of social welfare has not been con-
fined to the Church. She has ex-
tended it nationally and even inter-
nationally. She credits her first
interest in social work to a summer
class in sociology which she took at
the University of Chicago, at which
time she also did volunteer social
work with the Chicago Charities,
which brought her into contact with
Hull House, the famous Chicago
settlement house established by one
of the nation's great social workers,
Jane Addams. She also took a spe-
cial course, in 1917, in family welfare
work in Colorado, which, she main-
tained, further stimulated her and
created in her a strong desire to
participate fully in social welfare,
utilizing the highest standard of
practices. She maintained that this
schooling in Colorado provided her
with basic preparation for her later
work. With due respect to this, it
is my personal opinion that Sister
Lyman would have been a social
worker and a good one, anyway,
because of her love for and under-
standing of people and because of
her innate desire to help her fellow-
men.
W^E have always considered Sister
Lyman as a link which
bound the present to the beginnings
of Relief Society. She was called
to the General Board during the
presidency of Bathsheba W. Smith,
who was the youngest among the
eighteen original members, and the
fourth General President of Relief
Society. Sister Lyman often re-
called visits to Pleasant Grove, when
she was a child, of Sister Eliza R.
Snow and Sister Zina D. LI. Young.
She was familiar with the character
and work of these two great women
leaders, the second and third Presi-
dents of Relief Society. She served
under the leadership of Sister Em-
meline B. Wells, Clarissa S. Wil-
liams, Louise Y. Robison, the fifth,
sixth, and seventh General Presi-
dents respectively. She herself be-
came the eighth General President.
Today, as the ninth General Presi-
dent, I wish to express my sincere
appreciation for the opportunities
and training which she gave me
during the three years I acted as her
Counselor in the General Presi-
dency, and prior to that as Editor of
The Relief Society Magazine and as
PRESIDENT AMY BROWN LYMAN
47
a member of the General Board.
I feel greatly indebted to her for all
she did for me that has been so
helpful to me in the position I now
hold.
This connection of Sister Lyman
with all these leaders is of interest.
It has made her a veritable treasure
house of information. With her
remarkable memory, inimitable
speaking style, and her keen sense
of humor, an hour with her, listen-
ing to her tell interesting, intimate,
unrecorded bits in the history of
Relief Society, was both informa-
tive and delightful.
Sister Lyman loved history. A
J J
good record keeper and historian
herself, she taught others of us the
values and delights of these activi-
ties. Relief Society has benefited
from this.
As a Relief Society representative,
Sister Lyman brought credit to the
society through her activities in the
National Council of Women of the
United States. She was recording
secretary, auditor, and Third Vice
President of the Council, and repre-
sented the Council three times as
a delegate to the International
Council of Women meetings— once
in Washington, D. C, once in
Yugoslavia, and once in Scotland.
At a recent National Council of
Women biennial meeting held in
New York City, a former president
of the Council, Dr. Valeria H.
Parker, spoke to me in high esteem
of Mrs. Lyman's work in the Coun-
cil and sent with me a message of
love and appreciation to Sister Ly-
man.
Her own years of presidency were
war years, characterized by disturbed
times. The work had to be con-
ducted under difficult, trying, and
exceptional circumstances. The
centennial observance, which fitting-
ly came during her term of presi-
dency, and into which she had put
so much of her heart, had to be
greatly curtailed. But, with charac-
teristic courage, she met the situa-
tion. With wisdom, skill, and
obedience to those presiding over
her, she turned what might have
been an extremely disappointing
occasion to the sisters of the Church
into one long to be remembered for
its sweetness, simplicity, impressive-
ness, and enduring value.
Sister Lyman has not confined her
work to Relief Society. She has been
interested in public affairs and has
been a civic leader of distinction
among women. Among her im-
portant civic activities was member-
ship in the Utah State House of
Representatives. She served on
many local and State welfare boards,
notably the Utah State Training
School. She was on the Governor's
committee of five to select a site
for this institution and served on
its board for many years. She was
one of nine persons appointed as a
committee on the organization of
the Utah State Conference of Social
Work. It was my privilege to be
with her at the recent annual meet-
ing of this organization when she
was honored for her great work in
behalf of the organization, as well
as for her contributions to social
work, generally, throughout the
State.
Sister Lyman traveled widely,
spreading her influence wherever
she went. From 1936-1938 she pre-
sided over the women's organiza-
tions of the European Mission. She
referred to this work "as a joy, a
satisfaction, and an inspiration
throughout."
It is to be expected that a person
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of Sister Lyman's abilities and scope
of activities would receive special
honors. Among many such honors
which came to her were the Brig-
ham Young University Distin-
guished Alumnus Award and the
election by the Salt Lake City
Council of Women to its Hall of
Fame.
As I knew Sister Lyman (and I
believe I knew her well) she could
be described very much as she de-
scribed her own mother — "force-
ful, dynamic, and efficient; wise,
far-seeing, and of good judgment.
She was a woman's woman." She
was a good speaker and wrote with
a gifted pen. Her messages were
always well organized and present-
ed with clarity and conviction. Her
autobiography "In Retrospect" de-
lightfully preserves her own history
and gives interesting accounts of
incidents related to the history of
Relief Society. She was an intel-
lectual woman — a smart woman
I would say — a prodigious worker,
a good teacher, a great leader, and
a choice friend. And I would add
that she was a very pretty woman
with a rare personal charm.
In her autobiography, there is in-
scribed on the flyleaf her simple and
sincere testimony of the truthful-
ness of the gospel and its meaning
in her life. It reads:
I am grateful for the Gospel and espe-
cially for my testimony of its truthfulness.
This testimony has been my anchor and
my stay, my satisfaction in time of joy
and gladness, my comfort in time of sor-
row and discouragement.
Sister Lyman's admirers are
legion. In many parts of the world
today women are noting her passing
and mourn with us. Her friendship
and life will be a cherished memory.
In the book of Revelation we are
told:
. . . Blessed are the dead which die in
the Lord from henceforth: Yea, saith the
Spirit, that they may rest from their
labours; and their works do follow them
(Revelation 14:13).
Sister Lyman's work will follow
her. May her family be blessed
through their beautiful memories of
her abundant and useful life. Mav
J
the love she has shown them and
their own tender, loving ministra-
tions to her return to bless and com-
fort them. I can think of no sweet-
er ending to this life for a mother
than to leave it enfolded in the arms
of her only daughter. This was
Sister Lyman's privilege and Mar-
garet's blessing. May her loved ones
be sustained in their hour of sor-
row and always in the knowledge
that she lives eternally.
N DEPARTMENT
life.
cJneoloqy — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 23— A Trial of Faith
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Sections 35, 39, and 40)
For Tuesday, April 5, i960
Objective: To understand that only those who live the gospel will receive eternal
rFIIE persons to whom the revela-
tions comprising this lesson were
addressed were formerly ministers
in the "Christian" clergy. One of
these we were introduced to in the
last lesson.
Sidney Rigdon, Forerunner
Sidney Rigdon was at one time in
the Reformed Baptist Church and
later one of the leaders in the
"Disciples of Christ" Church in
Ohio, from which so many converts
came, beginning in 1830. When
Sidney Rigdon and Edward Part-
ridge, also a former member of the
latter organization and a convert to
the gospel of Jesus Christ, visited
the Prophet Joseph Smith in De-
cember 1830, a revelation was re-
ceived in which some interesting
thoughts are given concerning
Brother Rigdon.
Behold, verily, verily, I say unto my
servant Sidney, I have looked upon
thee and thy works. I have heard thy
prayers, and prepared thee for a greater
work.
Thou art blessed, for thou shalt do
great things. Behold thou wast sent forth,
even as John, to prepare the way before
me, and before Elijah which should come,
and thou knewest it not.
Thou didst baptize by water unto re-
pentance, but they received not the Holy
Ghost;
But now I give unto thee a command-
ment, that thou shalt baptize by water,
and they shall receive the Holy Ghost
by the laying on of the hands, even as
the apostles of old (D & C 35:3-6).
As this revelation points out,
there was a considerable difference
between the work performed by Sid-
ney Rigdon as one who was not a
member of the true Church of Jesus
Christ and the service to which he
was being called. Although he bap-
tized with water unto repentance,
that baptism was not effective for
salvation; for ". . . they received not
the Holy Ghost. . . ." It is neces-
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sary for salvation that one receive
both baptisms, water and spirit,
which, in reality, are only one bap-
tism. (See John 3:5; Eph. 4:5.)
When Nephi, by vision, learned
the reasons for Jesus' being baptized
and the necessity of teaching the
Nephites (and us) the place of bap-
tism in the plan of salvation, he
counseled:
Wherefore, do the things which I have
told you I have seen that your Lord and
your Redeemer should do; for, for this
cause have they been shown unto me,
that ye might know the gate by which ye
should enter. For the gate by which ye
should enter is repentance and baptism by
water; and then cometh a remission of
your sins by fire and by the Holy Ghost.
(Italics, by author.)
And then are ye in this straight and
narrow path which leads to eternal life;
yea, ye have entered in by the gate . . .
(2 Nephi 31:17-18).
In order for one to receive the
remission of sins, it is essential that
he receive the baptism of the Holy
Ghost as well as water baptism.
Preparation for Gospel Restoration
In view of the Lord's statement
that Sidney Rigdon was as John the
Baptist in preparing for a greater
work, may we consider that there
were many others, who, at different
periods, also prepared the way for
the establishment of the true gospel
on the earth? As Latter-day Saints
we believe that when the time came
for the restoration of the gospel in
its fulness, everything was in readi-
ness. The Lord had preserved this
land of America that it might be
the place where his latter-day work
would be established. Book of Mor-
mon prophets had seen in vision the
time when this land "choice above
all other lands" was being prepared.
(See 2 Nephi 1:3-9; 10:10-14, 19;
Ether 13:1-6.)
In Nephi's vision, the "man
among the Gentiles" believed by us
to be Columbus, ". . . who was
separated from the seed of my breth-
ren by the many waters ..." (2
Nephi 13:12), was wrought upon by
the Spirit of God to perform his
mission of discovery. Other Gentiles
were also to come to this land out
of captivity, until a mighty Nation
founded upon principles of freedom
would be raised up under the prov-
idence of God. (See 1 Nephi
13:13-19.)
In the meantime, other leaders
were performing a work of prepara-
tion — a preparation of the minds
of men whose descendants would
benefit from their noble labors. The
discovery of the printing press with
the removal of the shackles of
ignorance was a slow process, but,
in time, it brought about conditions
which permitted men to think for
themselves.
Religiously, men benefited from
these improved conditions, but the
gospel of Jesus Christ was not re-
stored until full preparation had
been made. President John Taylor
places before us the attitude of Lat-
ter-day Saints in some of these mat-
ters.
Who are we? The children of our
Heavenly Father. Who are the world,
as we sometimes denominate those that
are not of our Church? The children of
our Heavenly Father. . . .
Now outside the Gospel, outside of
revelation, outside of any special com-
munication from the Lord, all men, more
or less, everywhere have certain claims
upon their Heavenly Father, who is said
to be the God and Father of the spirits
of all flesh . . . and whenever and wherever
there was no knowledge of life and im-
mortality there was no Gospel. But out-
side of that there have been many good
influences abroad in the world. Many
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men in the different ages, who, in the
midst of wickedness and corruption, have
tried to stop the current of evil, have
placed themselves in the catalogue of re-
formers. . . . The many reformers that
existed in former ages have been men many
of whom have been sincerely desirous to
do the will of God, and to carry out His
purposes, so far as they knew them. And
then there are thousands and tens of
thousands of honorable men living today
in this nation, and other nations, who are
honest and upright and virtuous, and
who esteem correct principles and seek to
be governed by them, so far as they
know them. . . .
Men may be desirous to do right; they
may be good, honorable and conscientious;
and then when we come to the judg-
ment pertaining to these things we are
told that all men will be judged accord-
ing to the deeds done in the body, and
according to the light and intelligence
which they possessed.
I will take, for instance, the position
of the reformers, going no further back
than Luther and Melancthon; and then
you may come to Calvin, Knox, Whit-
field, Wesley, Fletcher, and many others;
men who have been desirous in their day
to benefit their fellow-men; who have
proclaimed against vice, and advocated
the practice of virtue, uprightness and the
fear of God. But we all, who have con-
templated these subjects, know that those
men never did restore the Gospel as it
was taught by our Lord and Savior Jesus
Christ; neither did they see or compre-
hend alike in biblical matters; they
groped, as it were, in the dark with a
portion of the Spirit of God. They sought
to benefit their fellow-man but not hav-
ing that union with God that the Gospel
imparts, they were unable to arrive at
just conclusions pertaining to those mat-
ters. Hence one introduced and taught
one principle, and another introduced and
taught another; and they were split up
and divided, and the spirit of antagonism
was found at times among them and with
all their desires to do good, they did not,
and could not restore the Gospel of the
Son of God, and none among them were
able to say, Thus saith the Lord. And
that is the condition of the religious
world to-day . . . (Journal of Discourses
23:369-371).
A Minister Makes a Covenant
As we now turn our attention to
another clergyman, James Covill,
(See D & C 39), who had served
in the Baptist ministry for about
forty years, we are informed by the
Prophet Joseph Smith that he came
to him ". . . and covenanted with
the Lord that he would obey any
command that the Lord would give
to him through me, as His servant
.,.." (D.H.C. 1:143).
Sons and Daughters of God
Several times in revelations we
have studied, the Savior has made
known the way we may become his
sons and daughters. For example,
Section 34 begins with "My son
Orson . . ." and later, after giving the
reasons for this introduction, states:
". . . Wherefore you are my son"
(D& 034:3). Why was this recent
convert to the Church so addressed?
Why was James Covill, a nonmem-
ber, told that Jesus Christ is the
light and life of the world and that,
in the meridian of time (the time
of the earthly ministry of Jesus),
Jesus was not received?
But to as many as received me, gave
I power to become my sons and even so
will I give unto as many as will receive
me, power to become my sons.
And verily, verily, I say unto you, he
that receiveth my gospel receiveth me;
and he that receiveth not my gospel re-
ceiveth not me (D & C 39:4-5).
The answer is the same for every-
one who qualifies in the same way
that Brother Pratt qualified, or as
you have qualified as a daughter of
the Lord. All who accept "the only
true and living church upon the face
of the earth" become sons or daugh-
ters of the "Lord God." Jesus
Christ, as your Redeemer, "so loved
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the world that he gave his own life,
that as many as would believe might
become the sons of God" (D & C
34:3)-
Christ is our Redeemer. Redemption
means deliverance by means of ransom.
There is a deliverance from guilt. (Eph.
1:7; Col. 1:14); from the power and
dominance of sin, through the sanctifying
influence of the Holy Spirit ( 1 Peter
1:18); and from death through the resur-
rection (Rom. 8:23). There is, finally,
a deliverance from all evil (Eph. 1:14;
4:30; 1 Cor. 1:30; Titus 2:14). All this
is the work of Christ, through obedience
to the gospel (Doctrine and Covenants
Commentary, Revised Edition, page 177).
Jesus is our Savior when we ac-
cept him in the waters of baptism
and by confirmation of the Holy
Ghost. This is what James Covill
is told as a nonmember. (See D & C
39:4-6.) Jesus' atonement for in-
dividual exaltation is of no force
until the person completes his re-
pentance through the ordinances of
the gospel. (See D & C 29:17;
42:1.) As we become the sons and
daughters of Jesus, so also, he be-
comes our Father. (See Lesson 20,
October 1959 issue of The Reliei
Society Magazine for discussion on
this point.)
Rich Rewards Promised
James Covill, the clergyman, was
informed that the Lord had looked
upon him and his works and, at
that time, his heart was right before
him. (See D & C 39:7-8.) There
had been times in the past, however,
when the things of the world had
brought sorrow into Mr. Covill's
life. Notice the important fact
made known in verse 6 that if this
man would accept Jesus as his Sav-
ior, the Holy Ghost, which he had
not received, would give him the
"peaceable things of the kingdom. "
It would seem from the circum-
stances which brought this clergy-
man to the Prophet, that he was
not at peace. There were unan-
swered questions and difficulties
which had not been resolved in his
mind.
In applying this idea to us who
are members of the kingdom, how
may we receive peace of mind? A
function of the Holy Ghost is to
give to the daughter of Jesus Christ
a sense of security, peace, and joy.
This satisfaction comes by having
the influence of the Holy Spirit
through living the laws of the gos-
pel, just as James Covill was prom-
ised ". . . a blessing so great as vou
never have known" (D & C 39:10)
by his adherence to the same laws.
A greater work in teaching the
fulness of the gospel than the work
in which he had formerly engaged
was before Covill, predicated upon
his obedience. His contribution
would be to assist in moving the
kingdom forward that, eventually,
Zion might come. (See D & C
39:11-13.) How many of us have
before us this objective? Do our
works make such contributions?
Our forefathers were gathered
from out of the world that they
might eventually receive eternal life.
Mr. Covill was promised that he
could participate in this great under-
taking of gathering Israel from the
nations to ". . . be gathered unto
me [Jesus] in time and in eternity"
(D & C 39:22). Those who are
gathered are to look forth for the
signs of the Lord's coming. As we
continue steadfast in his work, our
knowledge and testimony of him
will increase. (See D & C 39:23.)
The Rejection of a Covenant
Notwithstanding that great bless-
ings were promised James Covill
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53
upon his acceptance of the true gos-
pel, he did not have sufficient faith
in the Redeemer to accept his coun-
sel. The day of his deliverance from
the sorrows of the world was at
hand (D & C 39:10), provided he
would be obedient. But Covill re-
turned to his former principles and
people, and of him the Lord said:
Behold, verily I say unto you, that the
heart of my servant James Covill was right
before me, for he covenanted with me
that he would obey my word.
And he received the word with glad-
ness, but straightway Satan tempted him;
and the fear of persecution and the cares
of the world caused him to reject the
word.
Wherefore he broke my covenant, and
it remaineth with me to do with him as
seemeth me good. Amen (D & C 40:1-3).
James Covill was a covenant
breaker. It is apparent that his
former weaknesses gained ascend-
ancy over the gladness which came
into his heart, and he succumbed
to fear. It was a fear of persecution
and the cares of the world. Un-
mindful of the beatitude of promised
blessings to those who are perse-
cuted for righteousness' sake (for
their reward was to be an inherit-
ance in the kingdom of heaven),
Covill's actions were not motivated
to this extent. (See Mt. 5:10-12.)
The fear that he might not be able
to provide for himself temporally,
also was a factor in his rejection of
the gospel
Blessings Predicated
Upon Obedience
Judgment of all such individuals
is in the hands of the Lord. There
have been many in the world who
have come to the threshold of the
kingdom of God but who have suc-
cumbed to similar fears. Concern-
ing such an one who was in the
same profession as James Covill, we
have the comment of President
Joseph F. Smith. An ordained min-
ister in the "English Church" for
fifty-five years wrote to his Latter-
day Saint relative that:
I preach three sermons every week and
execute other ministerial duties, but I
never preach anything contrary to the
doctrines of "Mormonism," not designedly
but necessarily, because I see the funda-
mentals of Holy Scripture are the same
as those restored by what people call
"Mormonism."
He then posed this question:
What is to become of such as me, who
believes this about you, and yet are tied
and bound by circumstances such as
mine?
The President of the Church
wrote:
In answer to the question, "What is
to become of such as me?" let it be said
that every person will receive his just
reward for the good he may do and for
his every act. But let it be remembered
that all blessings which we shall receive,
either here or hereafter, must come to
us as a result of our obedience to the laws
of God upon which these blessings are
predicated. Our friend will not be for-
gotten for the kindness he has extended
to the work and the servants of the Lord,
but will be remembered of Him and re-
warded for his faith and for every good
deed and word. But there are many bless-
ings that result from obeying the ordi-
nances of the gospel, and acknowledging
the priesthood authorized by the Father
and restored to the Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints, that cannot
be obtained, until the person is willing
to comply with the ordinances and keep
the commandments revealed in our day
for the salvation of mankind. The true
searcher will see and understand this truth
and act upon it, either in this world or
in the world to come, and not until then,
of course, may he claim all the blessings.
The earlier he accepts, the earlier will he
obtain the blessings, and if he neglects
to accept the laws, in this world, know-
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ing them to be true, it is reasonable to
suppose that disadvantages will result that
will cause him deep regret (Improve-
ment Era, November 1912, pp. 71-72).
Unto Whom Much Is Given
Much Is Required
One is reminded of the truth
given by the Lord when he said that
". . . unto whom much is given
much is required . . ." (D & C
82:3) and as greater light is made
known and as one sins against that
light, greater condemnation results.
This thought is pertinent:
Ye call upon my name for revelations,
and I give them unto you; and inasmuch
as ye keep not my sayings, which I give
unto you, ye become transgressors; and
justice and judgment are the penalty which
is affixed unto my law.
Therefore, what I say unto one I say
unto all: Watch, for the adversary spread-
■eth his dominions, and darkness reigneth
(D & C 82:4-5).
In accordance with this thought,
liow many who have entered the
kingdom of God have found that
they were not deeply rooted in gos-
pel teachings and faith in the Re-
deemer so that they succumbed to
the fears of the world? Are any
of us as the seeds in the parable of
the sower where the word of God
has not taken sufficient root, and
"the care of this world, and the
deceitfulness of riches, choke the
word," and seeds become barren?
Or, on the other hand, are seeds
sown on the "good ground" which
beareth the fruit of the gospel in
our lives? (See Mt. 13:18-23.)
How many of us may fall away
from the principles of the gospel
because of fear of persecution? In
the early part of the dispensation
persecution was many times phys-
ical. Today, however, it may be, as
it was then also, the tauntings of
associates or "friends." The use of
names having strong unChristian
implications or inferences of over-
zealousness may be examples of a
type of persecution which has
mental or psychological effect. In
common expression it may be ex-
pressed as "Don't be fanatical about
your religion!" or "Why be so
straight-laced?" Aside from the
usual meaning of inflicting loss and
injury, persecution means to harass,
to pursue with persistent solicita-
tions or to annoy.
Additional Items From Section 35
Beginning with verse 7 of Section
35, we learn that by faith great
things are to be manifest in the lat-
ter days, including the working of
miracles. (See D & C 35:7-11.) In
harmony with what has already been
given in this lesson, the Lord makes
known that those who do "good" in
his sight, are ". . . those who are
ready to receive the fulness of my
gospel ..." (D & C 35:12) and
that those who constitute the
". . . poor and the meek . . ."
(D & C 35:15) of the earth ". . .
shall have the gospel preached unto
them, and they shall be looking
forth for the time of my coming,
for it is nigh at hand" (D & C
35:15). (See D & C 35:12-18.)
The faithful members of the king-
dom of God will make contributions
to the building of that kingdom and
eventually "Zion shall rejoice upon
the hills," probably having reference
to the home of the saints in the
West. (See D & C 35:19-24.) By
the power of God, latter-day Israel
will be saved in the Lord's king-
dom, and all who belong to the
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55
Savior should lift up their hearts
and be glad. (See D & C 35:25-27.)
Questions for Discussion
1. What seems to be unusual about the
revelation concerning Sidney Rigdon's
activities? How does it fit into the Lat-
ter-day Saint understanding of the Lord's
work in the last days?
2. Why is it necessary for one to be
baptized with water and the Holy Ghost?
3. How did the work of the reformers
help prepare for the restoration of the
gospel?
4. From what are we delivered through
our acceptance of Jesus as our Redeemer?
5. Tell the story of James Covill.
6. What comment did President Joseph
F. Smith make concerning those who
reject the gospel?
7. What is the application of Section
82:3 to this lesson?
visiting cJeacher 1 1 tessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 23— "Govern Your House in Meekness, and
Be Steadfast" (D & C 31:9)
Christine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, April 7, i960
Objective: The virtues of meekness and steadfastness applied in our lives and
homes will result in an influence for good.
HpHIS message
focuses attention
upon two virtues which can be
employed with remarkable effect in
developing our own characters and
in guiding and directing the activi-
ties of others. These two virtues
are meekness and steadfastness.
Meekness is a quality frequently
mentioned in the scriptures and de-
scribed as a most desirable human
trait. In fact, it is one of the few
qualities which Jesus attributed un-
to himself. He said, ". . . for I am
meek and lowly in heart . . ." (Mt.
11:29).
Meekness is sometimes confused
with docility and lack of courage.
Still, Moses, whom history proves
to have been a man of strong
character and outstanding courage,
was described as ". . . very meek,
above all the men which were upon
the face of the earth" (Num. 12:3).
Actually the term meekness meansr
mild of temper, long-suffering,
gentle, kind. Open-mindedness and
teachableness are both facets of
meekness. With these attributes it
is easy to understand why the Sav-
ior declared, "Blessed are the meek:
for they shall inherit the earth"
(Mt. 5:5).
Steadfastness denotes firmness,
self - control, consistency, and
staunchness. Those who are stead-
fast exhibit unfaltering determina-
tion in the face of adversity.
Helen Adams Keller is one of the
truly great women of all time. Much
of her remarkable stature was
achieved through the application of
the virtues of meekness and stead-
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fastness both in her own develop-
ment and through the efforts of her
outstanding teacher.
Due to a serious illness, Miss
Keller lost her senses of sight and
hearing before she was two years of
age. Her parents, seeking to lighten
the burden of her tragedy, sought
the assistance of an able teacher,
Mrs. Ann Sullivan Macy. This
teacher applied the true meaning of
meekness and steadfastness in edu-
cating and guiding the child.
Through the application of these
attributes a miracle was virtually
performed. In a very few years
Miss Keller learned to read braille,
to write, and to acquire the difficult
ability to speak without hearing. By
the time she reached her teens, Miss
Keller was as well educated as any
normal child of her age. In due
time, she graduated with honors
from Radcliffe College and has since
devoted her life to working with
the blind and deaf of the world. In
1
order to attain the high eminence
which she now enjoys, Miss Keller,
together with her great teacher Mrs.
Macy, has consistently employed
meekness, steadfastness, optimism,
and faith. Through exercising these
virtues, Helen Keller has inspired,
stimulated, and encouraged millions
of people in all walks of life through-
out the world.
If we would become a power for
good and lead and direct our chil-
dren and friends in a loving, helpful
way, we must govern our homes and
lives in meekness. We must strive to
be steadfast and consistent in the
application of right principles in
all our activities. In our association
with others, in and outside of the
home, we should follow the admoni-
tion of the Savior, who said:
No power or influence can or ought to
be maintained . . . only by persuasion,
by long-suffering, by gentleness and meek-
ness, and by love unfeigned (D & C
i2i 141 ) .
^\^AVork YYleettng — Physical Safety Factors
in the Home
(A Course Recommended for Use by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 7— Food Care and Preservation
Charlotte A. Larsen
For Tuesday, April 12, i960
Objective: To show the importance of safe food care and proper preservation
of stored food to healthful living.
Historical Consideration perous years for the famine of the
Tj^ROM the very earliest of times lean years. He found that certain
man has been concerned with foods could be dried and saved for
preservation of his food so that he long periods of time. Later, he dis-
might save the excess of the pros- covered that certain foods and
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57
chemicals were helpful in the pres-
ervation of other foods, such as
sugar, vinegar, and salt.
The adulteration of food danger-
ous to personal health caused laws
to be passed which protect practical-
ly every type of foodstuff. In 1906,
the United States passed the first
Federal Food and Drug Control
Act. In 1938 a much stronger
Food, Drug, and Cosmetic Act was
passed. The Government maintains
large laboratories where foods are
tested before they are sold. The
kind and amount of coloring mat-
ter, and the kind and amount of
preservatives are rigidly fixed by the
Food and Drug Administration.
Also, the law requires that when
important ingredients, such as vita-
mins, minerals, and butter fat from
milk, are removed from foods it
must be clearly stated on the pack-
age. In general, the State and
Federal laws against harmful adul-
teration are standard, so that the
general public is well protected from
dishonest practices.
Preservation of Food and Proper
Canning Procedures
Foods may be preserved by can-
ning, smoking, salting, drying, freez-
ing, cooking, sugaring, and by
adding chemicals. Most of these
methods of food preservation can be
carried out in the home. However,
preservation of food by adding
chemicals can be very dangerous
and harmful, and should not be
attempted by the average house-
holder. Almost all food can be pre-
served without danger when clean,
sound, unblemished fresh produce
is selected, prepared, and canned ac-
cording to instructions found in an
authoritative manual. Any home-
canned product or any canned item
purchased at a store showing any
signs of gas formation, such as bulg-
ing lids and ends of cans, should be
destroyed or returned to the store.
The term food poisoning is usual-
ly restricted to an attack of acute
intestinal upset due to the bacterial
infection of food or drink.
The prevention of food poison-
ing must be concerned with the en-
tire handling of the food from the
time it is obtained to its consump-
tion. Only inspected meats and
pasturized dairy products should be
used. All meat should be thorough-
ly cooked before it is eaten. If food
is not to be eaten immediately after
cooking, it should be placed in a re-
frigerator or ice box. Otherwise,
organisms, if present in the warm
food, will have an excellent oppor-
tunity to multiply. The protection
of custard and cream fillings and
combination meat dishes (meat
pies, etc.) requires the greatest care
and vigilance. The organisms
which produce toxin are present
everywhere; therefore, this type of
food should be kept carefully refrig-
erated. The consumption of any
animal food in the raw condition is
attended by a certain amount of
risk, particularly milk, cream, and
meat.
Botulism is caused bv a toxin
and is not an infection. The causa-
tive organism multiplies in the food
before it is consumed and produces
a powerful, soluble toxin which gives
rise to the disease. Nearly all cases
of botulism have been caused by
eating food that has not been com-
pletely preserved. It is important
to remember that non-acid foods
are particularly dangerous. These
include all vegetables (except toma-
toes and rhubarb) meat, fish, poul-
try and animal products. In most
cases where the foods have particu-
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larly and noticeably spoiled, the cans
are bulged, and there are numerous
gas bubbles, and the food smells
rancid. Never, under any circum-
stances should one eat any canned
food which has any of these symp-
toms. No reported cases of botulism
have occurred in commercially
canned food since 1925. However,
cases are reported from food that
has been processed in the home.
Therefore, extreme care must be
taken in the process of home can-
ning. Destroy any food taken from
a jar with a bulging or corroded lid.
General Consideration
If any sickness or upset stomach
occurs when contaminated food is
suspected, a doctor should be con-
sulted immediately, and the suspect-
ed food should not be destroyed
until the doctor sees it. He may
want a sample of it for a culture.
Questions
1. Why does pork need particular at-
tention in the cooking?
2. What are some of the signs of im-
properly processed foods?
JLtterature — America's Literature
A New Nation Speaks
Lesson 15— The Federalists (and the Great Transition)
Elder Biiant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 24-32)
For Tuesday, April 19, i960
Objective: To make preliminary acquaintance with the Federalistic concepts of man
and government as written by Timothy Dwight and Alexander Hamilton.
\\7HEN the shooting of the
American Revolution ended in
1781, the war of words which, in
the decades preceding the Revolu-
tion, had crescendoed into battle,
now continued unabated, and grew
even louder and hotter. During
the latter part of the eighteenth cen-
tury the pamphleteer and the orator
largely shaped the thinking of the
colonies, and out of these fierce
controversies came new patterns of
thought and government. Before
the war the issue was between Torv
and Rebel. Thomas Paine, Patrick
Henry, Samuel Adams, James Otis,
John Dickinson, and many less
prominent writers defended the
right of the colonies to separate,
while such Tories as Samuel Seabury
courageously answered them blow
for blow, and the Anglican minister
Jonathan Boucher preached loyalty
to England and fear of mob-rule
with such sincerity that he began
his weekly sermon only after first
laying a loaded horse pistol on either
side of his pulpit.
We must remember that well over
a third of the colonists remained
loyal to England during the war, a
majority outwardly sympathizing
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with the rebels while secretly hop- But even while these central po-
ing for a British victory. During the litical and economic issues were
early years of the Rebellion, tens of paramount, a creative unity-out-of-
thousands of them fled to Canada, diversity process molded the Con-
the West Indies, and Mother Eng- stitution into the enduring standard
land. of measurement and justice which
continues to radiate throughout
Need for More Perfect Union every phase of the national charac-
The Articles of Confederation, ter.
drafted by the Continental Congress By contrast, the beginnings in the
in 1776, at the outset of the war, arts during the same period, before
had bound all colonies together, yet 1800, were so imitative and weak
robbed no colony of its sovereign as to be of little consequence; how-
powers. Once winning the war no ever, the fact that beginings were
longer consumed their energies, it made is significant. Music and
became increasingly evident that a drama continued to follow English
new form of government would patterns, although Royal Tyler's
have to be worked out. The Contrast, which appeared in
In general, the new Nation's only 1787 as a direct imitation of Shcri-
identity lay in its being separate dan's The School for Scandal,
from Britain. Until well into the contained native American charac-
nineteenth century, the great issues ters and setting which still make it
to be faced and solved centered readable. Tyler soon became a
about the government's responsibil- lawyer, leaving leadership to Wil-
ities to its people: Should the gov- liam Dunlap, the father of drama
eminent favor rural agriculture or in America, who devoted his life
urban commerce and finance? to the stage by translating, produc-
Should property rule, or should the ing, and writing such dramas as his
mass of people? Which government Andre (1798), based on a Revolu-
was to dominate, state or Federal? tionary War theme.
How far should revolution go, not The novels followed directly Sam-
only in government but in social uel Richardson's pattern of senti-
patterns, in arts, culture, and in ment and seduction as established
morals? With a pattern of success- in his highly successful Pamela, all
ful revolution behind them, how heavily moralizing. The Power of
was the momentum of revolution to Sympathy, written in 1789, is ac-
be stopped? Having repudiated cepted as the first American novel,
Mother England, should she now although Susanna Haswell Rowson's
be followed in anything? If so, in Charlotte Temple (1791) with its
what, and how far? Politically, the setting both in England and Ameri-
wobbling country achieved identity ca, was far more popular, being rc-
by forming one of our two greatest printed as late as 1930. Likewise,
documents: The Constitution. But the poetry of the Connecticut or
even after the necessary nine states Hartford Wits, centering about Yale
ratified it very reluctantly within the College, was unashamedly imitative
two years following 1787, it still had of English models, both during and
to be interpreted, a process which after the war. But, roughlv, until
continues. 1800, the Americans were compara-
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tively happy with their imitations;
it was the endless tauntings of so-
phisticated English critics reminding
them that they had produced noth-
ing of their own which rubbed salt
into this opening cultural and social
wound.
Federalists Versus Republicans
Although the Federalist and Re-
publican political parties were
formed in the decades following the
Revolutionary War, their opposing
philosophies had existed at least a
hundred years previous, and with
some modification their same beliefs
and alignment of forces have con-
tinued to the present. Within
Washington's first cabinet were the
leaders of the two factions, young
Alexander Hamilton, who was to
lead the Federalists, and Thomas
Jefferson, the Republicans (today's
Democrats). Short of openly op-
posing each other publicly, they did
all they could to halt each other's
influence, since each feared the
other's policies.
In 1791 Jefferson and James
Madison, representatives of the Vir-
ginia planters and their agrarian
aristocracy, allied themselves with
Irishman George Clinton's Tam-
many faction of New York to op-
pose the wealthy shipping and
financial aristocracy of New York
City and Boston, who became the
Federalists. Conversely, it was Ham-
ilton's big-city lawyers and moneyed
men who had advocated adoption
of the Constitution in 1787, and
the coon-skin-cap frontiersmen and
farmers who feared it, and ratified
it so reluctantly.
The French Revolution of 1789
was a burning issue throughout the
colonies, and created a widening
social and economic gap between
the two parties. Seeing the French
peasants executing their wealthy
land-holding aristocrats and seizing
their property, the Federalists were
aghast, and more than all else feared
a similar unleashing of rabble de-
mocracy in their own streets. In the
elections of 1800, they attempted
to defeat Jefferson by relating him
to Tom Paine and the local French
disciples of "Liberty, Equality, Fra-
ternity." As we have seen, they
succeeded in making Tom Paine
into a boogeyman, but the back-
woods vote elected Jefferson never-
theless. While Hamilton and his
followers were openly pro-British,
Jefferson and his followers defied
them by wearing the red French
cockades in their hats, and rejoicing
at every victory of the "rabble" in
France, believing as did Paine, that
they were carrying on the second
chapter in the world revolution
which their own revolution had
begun.
While President George Wash-
ington was so disturbed at the in-
creasing enmity between these two
factions that at the end of his first
term he wished to resign, it should
be pointed out that the strength of
the Constitution, as of the Nation
ever since, has lain in these factions
opposing and, therefore, balancing
each other. The French people de-
stroyed the opposition against whom
they revolted; Napoleon followed.
In contrast, the United States per-
mitted both to speak and grow
strong; and the great system is the
result. But to understand these
general principles in terms of peo-
ple, we should see them at work in
two prominent Federalists: Timo-
thy Dwight and Alexander Hamil-
ton, and, in the next lesson, in
Thomas Jefferson.
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61
Courtesy Yale University Art Gallery
TIMOTHY D WIGHT
From a Painting by John Trumbull
Timothy Dwight (1752-1817)
A grandson of Jonathan Edwards,
Timothy Dwight entered Yale at
age thirteen, became a tutor there,
and he inspired the troops with his
sermons and war songs, the most
notable being "Columbia." He was
a chaplain during the Revolution,
and in 1783, at age thirty-one, he
moved to Greenfield, Connecticut,
where for twelve years he was min-
ister, community leader, and direc-
tor of the co-educational school he
established. For the last twenty-
three years of his life he was presi-
dent of Yale, where he was a great
teacher and leader of Calvinism,
defending the faith against all at-
tackers.
A lifelong Federalist, he attempt-
ed to introduce English literature
into the curriculum of Yale while
still a student, thus furnishing the
initiative for the literary group
known as the Connecticut Wits.
Of the three most prominent mem-
bers, John Trumbull and Dwight
remained Federalists, while Joel
Barlow followed Paine and Jeffer-
son in his personal philosophy.
Dwight's Conquest of Canaan, an
epic in eleven volumes, written in
1785, when he was thirty-three, was
heavily imitative of English models.
Designed to be the first American
epic, it was so filled with pretentious
language and elaborate descriptions
of thunderstorms that his compan-
ion wit, John Trumbull, suggested
it should be equipped with lightning
rods. A careful observer of the rural
countryside, Dwight's Travels in
New-England and New York pro-
vides a keen commentary on the
social and economic contemporary
scene, and has greater enduring
value than his verse.
His Greenfield Hill was a long
poem modeled after Goldsmith's
"Deserted Village/' In addition to
describing the lovely scenery and
rural virtues, which Dwight greatly
loved, it eulogizes the virtues of his
Federalistic-Calvinistic culture: sim-
plicity and plainness in manners and
morals, thrift and industry, and be-
lief in the sustaining power of prop-
erty personally owned and cared for.
In this "western village" where:
Prudence eyes her hoard with watchful care
And robes of thrift and neatness, all things
wear. . . .
the evils of European monarchy
are absent: the poor are fed, villages
are not sold to buy royal gowns,
and:
No griping landlord here alarms the door
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To halve, for rent, the poor man's little
store.
The hymn of praise which Tim-
othy Dwight fashions for his home
town strongly predicts Whittier's
Snowbound in his confidence in the
enduring rural virtues:
Sweet-smiling village! loveliest of the
hills!
How green thy groves! How pure thy
glassy rills!
With what new joy, I walk thy verdant
streets!
How often pause, to breathe thy gale of
sweets;
To mark thy well-built walls! thy budding
fields
And every charm, that rural nature yields;
And every joy to Competence allied,
And every good, that Virtue gains from
Pride!
Several New England clergymen
had previously defined the confisca-
tion of church and lands by the
French as the cause of the present
'Triumph of infidelity" in their own
midst. Timothy Dwight wrote
'The Duty of Americans, at the
Present Crisis/' to warn against the
evil French influences then threaten-
ing the new Nation, and urged
Americans to defend church and
country. In his fiery charges of
anarchy, lawlessness, immorality,
and atheism against the very group
which Jefferson and his mass fol-
lowers openly supported, Dwight
exemplifies those conservative aristo-
crats who, consciously or otherwise,
feared a potential uprising and
usurpation of control by the poor
and the uneducated. In his love
for things as they were — love of
God, country, education, and moral-
ity as defined and defended by pa-
triots, gentlemen, and Christians,
he gave much support to the Fed-
eralist political cause, clergyman
though he was. But to understand
ALEXANDER HAMILTON
From a Contemporary Etching
more forcefully who the Federalists
were and what they were trying to
do, we must meet their central per-
sonality—the brilliant realist who
was their unquestioned torchbearer:
Alexander Hamilton. American
nationalism owes more to Hamilton
than any other men except Wash-
ington and Marshall.
Alexander Hamilton s Life (1757-
1804)
Hamilton was the son of a weal-
thy planter in the West Indies. He
early showed the brilliance and
ambition which predicted his ma-
ture prominence. Business misfor-
tunes caused his father's bankruptcy,
and his mother died in 1768.
Knowing that he must make his
own way, and desiring to excel, he
entered King's College (now Co-
lumbia) in 1774, and a year later
he wrote two influential pamphlets
on colonial politics which made him
LESSON DEPARTMENT
63
known among New York's political
leaders.
In 1776, when the war broke out,
he organized an artillery company
and was awarded its captaincy, but
within the year was appointed to
Washington's staff, where he played
a key role. Later, he secured a field
command and won distinction at
Yorktown. In 1780 he married the
daughter of General Philip Schuy-
ler of the distinguished New York
family by whom he had seven chil-
dren.
After the war he was admitted to
the bar, and when but twenty-five
was chosen a delegate to Congress.
At twenty-nine he was appointed a
delegate to the Annapolis Conven-
tion and later to the Federal Con-
vention at Philadelphia which had
been charged with the responsibility
of revising the Articles of Confed-
eration. In the same year he began
publishing a series of essays in New
York papers which were designed to
motivate the wealthy and profession-
al classes to support the new Con-
stitution. Although James Madison
and John Jay also contributed, it
was Hamilton who conceived the
series of essavs known as The Fed-
J
eralist, and much more than half its
contents were Hamilton's. These
essays are acknowledged to be the
clearest, strongest exposition of the
theory of American Constitutional
law.
In 1798, the year the Constitution
was finally ratified, Hamilton was
appointed Secretary of the Treas-
ury, a position he held until his
resignation six years later. It was
during this period that he estab-
lished the national bank, and many
money policies which characterize
the national economy to the present
day. In 1800 he watched in bitter-
ness while his opponent, Thomas
Jefferson, was elected President.
Four years later he was killed in a
duel with Aaron Burr.
Hamilton s Federalism
Because one may see his picture
ovaled on a ten-dollar bill, it be-
comes easy to think of Alexander
Hamilton predominantly as an
economist or a financier. Although
he had an evident genius for ad-
ministration, and his monetary
principles proved themselves so
sound that his successors who had
most criticized them adopted them
with scarcely any changes, Hamil-
ton's great lifelong goal was to build
the struggling Nation into a perma-
nent oneness so strong and balanced
that it would never break apart.
Just as Thomas Paine appeared
at precisely the right moment to
persuade the colonists that their
destiny was separation rather than
rebellion, so it was Hamilton's fond-
est dream to create a strong national-
ism or federation of the many states
into one at the time when national-
ism meant nothing. Everything he
did furthered this end. He favored
capitalism and the establishment of
a national bank because it would
unite the colonies together more
firmly. For the same reason, he
opposed Jefferson's agricultural
principles: they gave too much self-
determination over too scattered an
area, thus weakening the central
governing power. He strongly ad-
vocated government supports and
subsidies to American manufacturers
for the same reason: such a policy
would enhance the Nation's united
versatility, and not make it solely
dependent on agriculture.
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The Federalist
Hamilton was too much a man of
affairs ever to consider himself a
literary person. He took pride in
writing but little for the public
press, feeling it beneath him, yet
like Franklin and Jefferson, he made
his way in life largely through his
use of words. His style is not affect-
ed or individualistic, but as one
might expect from a lawyer, it is
clear, condensed, carefully organized,
and entirely confident of every as-
sertion. From these qualities come
The Federalist's literary excellence.
Too sincere ever to deal with trivial
or anything less than the whole
truth of what the guiding principles
of the new Nation must be, if it was
to survive, these papers contain the
brilliant, creative thinking in the
realm of Constitutional law which
places them in the first rank of such
writings, along with those of Aris-
totle and Montesquieu. No com-
mentary on this basic document has
deserved or received more honor,
nor through constant reference has
proved itself more indispensable
than these writings.
Hamilton's fervent belief that
government should reflect the wish-
es of aristocratic owners of property
saved the Nation from the excesses
of liberalism which characterized
the repercussions following the Rev-
olution in France. He believed
that property was tangible reward
to those of superior talent, and that
"the power which holds the purse-
strings absolutely, must rule." And
while in the first of The Federalist
papers he admits that the estab-
lished class of aristocrats will do
everything possible to prevent a
decrease in their established power
and wealth, one cannot know wheth-
er their motives are blameless or
selfish, for as Hamilton reminds us:
. . . we are not always sure that those
who advocate the truth are influenced
by purer principles than their antagonists.
Ambition, avarice, personal animosity,
party opposition, and many other motives
not more laudable than these, arc apt to
operate as well upon those who support
as those who oppose the right side of a
question. . . .
Nor can we cure heresy by perse-
cution, nor gain followers by fire or
sword, or by angry words. Wisely
he points out how often those who
ostensibly work for common folk
often are driven inwardly by jeal-
ousy or selfishness:
... an enlightened zeal for the energy
and efficiency of government will be
stigmatized as the offspring of a temper
fond of despotic power and hostile to the
principles of liberty. An over-scrupulous
jealousy of danger to the rights of the
people, which is more commonly the fault
of the head than of the heart, will be
represented as mere pretence and artifice,
the stale bait for popularity at the expense
of the public good. It will be forgotten,
on the one hand, that jealousy is the usual
concomitant of love, and that the noble
enthusiasm of liberty is apt to be infected
with a spirit of narrow and illiberal dis-
trust. On the other hand, it will be equally
forgotten that the vigor of government is
essential to the security of liberty; that,
in the contemplation of a sound and well-
informed judgment, their interest can nev-
er be separated; and that a dangerous
ambition more often lurks behind the
specious mask of zeal for rights of the
people than under the forbidding appear-
ance of zeal for the firmness and efficiency
of government. History will teach us that
the former has been found a much more
certain road to the introduction of des-
potism than the latter, and that of those
men who have overturned the liberties of
republics, the greatest number have begun
their career by paying an obsequious court
to the people; commencing demagogues,
and ending tyrants.
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65
The above quotation represents one can achieve the ideal of the
Hamilton fairly, both in the power Constitutional Convention, which
of his style and for his ideas con- pledged itself to deal in principles,
tained therein. By looking real- not in men, then he and the Fed-
isticallv at man, by finding good in eralist faction, which for so long he
him despite his weaknesses, by spearheaded, deserve man's grati-
acknowledging the Constitution to tude for their firm stand on prin-
be a compromise, but a compromise ciple as they believed it— principle
heading in the right direction; by which has been woven into the
clarifying how checks and balances
under the Constitution counter and
thus strengthen each other; and by
convincing the aristocratic classes
that the Constitution safeguarded
them from excesses and encroach-
ments, Alexander Hamilton made
his unique contribution both to
America's literature and to his great
legal structure in whose superstruc-
ture the peace and future of the
Nation has always rested. And if
heart of the American structure.
Thoughts for Discussion
i. During the last decade of the eight-
eenth century, why was the French Revo-
lution so vital an issue?
2. In what way did Timothy Dwight
give added power to the Federalist cause?
3. How could anyone who distrusted
the judgment of the common people ever
make a contribution of any value to
American institutions of Government?
4. In The Federalist Hamilton was try-
ing to convince whom of what?
Social Science— Spiritual Living
in the Nuclear Age
Lesson 6— Creative and Spiritual Living — Pathways to Peace — Part 1
Elder Blaine M. Porter
For Tuesday, April 26, i960
Objective: To explore the ways in which creative living can add to the abundance
and richness of life.
Frontiers oi the Modern World
The Geographical Frontier. Re-
corded history reveals that cer-
tain segments of mankind in all
ages, past and present, have lived
on various kinds of frontiers. In
early modern history and among
more primitive groups, there were
those who were courageous and ad-
venturous and sought to explore
beyond the confines of their own
tribal area or community. From
this early beginning we have had a
long succession of explorers, such as
Marco Polo, Lief Ericson, Christo-
pher Columbus, Magellan, Lewis
and Clark, Admiral Richard E.
Byrd, and many others who all went
beyond the confines or borders of
their towns, communities, or na-
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tions, in an effort to provide more
information about the geographical
make-up and nature of the world
in which they lived. Today we are
living in an era in which man, still
adventurous, is seeking more un-
derstanding about the physical
world in which he lives, as well as
desiring to explore the space beyond.
When some of the earlier explor-
ers returned home bearing the fruits
of amazing discoveries, men had to
accommodate themselves to a new
world. However, accommodating
oneself to a new world comes hard
for some people, for the old and
familiar ways tend to become secure
and beloved. When Columbus
came home there were those whose
immediate impulse was to cast him
into chains, but, in spite of the
resistance and unwillingness of
some of his contemporaries to ac-
cept his discoveries, the march of
progress was on; the world changed
and men had to adjust to it.
Today we have become more ac-
customed to explorations of the
physical world and take for granted
that many almost unbelievable dis-
coveries regarding space will occur
in our generation. The march of
progress continues, and we must
learn to accommodate ourselves to
the changes in our lives which will
inevitably result from these dis-
coveries.
Social and Political Frontiers.
There have been those among us
through history who have lived on
the frontiers of social and political
advancement. Besides the despots
and tyrants who have subjugated
people and ruled in order to achieve
their own selfish whims, we have
had many courageous and outstand-
ing statesmen who have made
immeasurable contributions to man-
kind. Through their efforts to find
a more effective way of creating an
environment for man in which he
might find opportunity for self-
expression and obtain security for
himself and his family, he has been
freed from many of the fears and
struggles for survival. Achievements
in this direction have enabled us to
visualize the day when the table
will be set for all who want to eat;
a day when the human race will
form a unified community and no
longer live as separate entities.
But advances do not come easily.
There are always resisters to change,
with their immature minds and feel-
ings of fear and insecurity. Some
stood on the rim of a crowd around
Socrates, took note of what sound-
ed like subversive utterances, and
reported them to the authorities.
And this same type of individual
continues to function in this resis-
tive capacity today.
The Scientific Frontier. Looking
at the explorations on the frontier
of knowledge and science, we can
see Galileo, after dropping his two
unequal weights from the Leaning
Tower of Pisa (when, contrary to
the official views, each reached the
ground at the identical moment)
being accused of being in league
with the devil and threatened with
death if he did not deny the truth
which he had discovered. We can
see the advances of medical science
throttled for many centuries after
the discoveries of Hippocrates, be-
cause the human body was con-
sidered too sacred to be studied in
a scientific manner.
But man's thirst for knowledge
and his desire to find a way to "sub-
due the earth" has led him to great
LESSON DEPARTMENT 67
accomplishments. His imagination ows of uneasiness, anxiety, and con-
has made him remarkable among fusion which seldom, if ever, leave
created things, and that imagination men.
has carried him far beyond the reach
of his working hands. Charting a True Course
The Spiritual Frontier. A his- In this unsettled sea of human
torical look at the spiritual frontier perplexities, yearnings, and disap-
reveals that many great spiritual pointments, it may pay high divi-
leaders were rejected in their day. dends for us to pause and eliminate
Yet what a debt the world owes to from our minds our immediate
such individuals as Buddha, Con- demands and schemes for livelihood
fucious, Gandhi, and others. Those and personal pleasure, in order that
living on the spiritual frontier have we may chart a course which will
probably been among the more dili- lead us to a port wherein we will
gent in seeking to commune with likely find the goals and values pro-
God. And God, through his Son, viding eternal satisfaction and hap-
Jesus Christ, and through his love, piness. As part of the process of
kindness, and generosity, has re- charting this course, it is suggested
vealed to us many of his goals for that we follow the admonition of
man and has, through his prophets, Socrates when he said, ''Know thy-
tried to provide a way in which we self," and the admonition of Presi-
could live creatively, abundantly, dent McKay when he suggested
peacefully, with one another. that we ". . . talk with self in a
As we stand back and take a look serious sort of way." Self-under-
at the world of today and marvel at standing is a prerequisite to good
the great achievements in many mental health and understanding of
fields, man can view his accomplish- other people. This is important
ments and truly say, it is good. But, because we are required to relate
looking at himself, what can he say? ourselves to other people and to the
Has he come closer to the realiza- conditions of the world in which
tion of another dream of mankind, we live. We then must have an
that of the perfection oi man? Of understanding of how these forces
man loving his neighbors, doing affect us and our relationships with
justice, speaking the truth, and real- others.
izing that which he potentially is, And as we come to know our-
a son of God? selves and others, we free ourselves
Raising the question is embarrass^ to experience more of the potential
ing since the answer is so painfully within us, to achieve creative, har-
clear. While we have created won- monious relationships with other
derful things, we have failed to make people. As we are able to listen,
of ourselves beings for whom these to grasp what other persons are
great accomplishments would seem saying, we remove many of the
worthwhile. If we look at the world major hostilities of life; we raise
todav, we realize that ours is not a the psychological "iron curtain"
life of brotherhood, happiness, con- which may have been lowered
tentment, but, rather, one of between us, and find that many
spiritual chaos and bewilderment, misunderstandings of life have
We are prone to ignore the shad- disappeared. Thus freed form mis-
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Powers Within Us
Christ said, "I am come that they
might have life, and that they might
have it more abundantly" (John
10:10). President McKay, in dis-
cussing the life of the intellect and
of the spirit, stated that the intel-
lectual pursuits help men:
... to live completely and abundantly;
and in the living to serve — serve their fel-
low men! He lives most who sees or
hears,
". . . tongues in trees, books in the
running brooks,
Sermons in stones and good in every-
thing."
Shakespeare, As You Like It,
Act II, Sc. i, 1. 16-17
He lives most who sees bevond these
trees, these stones, and these running
brooks, and sees God and goodness in it
all, who sees an overruling Providence in
all this world and recognizes God's chil-
dren as brothers and sisters, in everv one
of whom there is something good, ever
striving to lift the man up out of the
sensual world into the realm of true re-
ligion (McKay, David O., Gospei Ideals,
page 148).
Creative living is living freelv in
a world in which one is at peace
with oneself. Expressions of crea-
tivity are not limited to producing
a masterpiece of art or literature or
music; neither are they limited to
the creative expression in dance or
other physical activity. Any one of
us can have the door of creativity
opened up for us, if we put forth
the effort. It may be a new idea,
a new thought, a new way of doing
LESSON DEPARTMENT
69
a somewhat menial task, a particular
way in which we teach a class, give
a two-and-one-half minute talk, or
entertain our friends in our home.
It may be the unique way in which
we help a child discover something
new or solve a problem; it may be
an everyday occurrence in which we
bring joy and happiness to others
through our particular way of inter-
acting with them.
Harry Overstreet suggests that
much creativity is experienced
through the channel of religion:
In its very essence religion is "a dedica-
tion of the entire self to the pursuit of
ideal values." In this sense religion is
the most persistentlv and widely creative
of all the enterprises of life. It is life
forever looking beyond values already
achieved and forever enlisting itself in
behalf of values still to be achieved (Over-
street, Harry A.: The Great Enterprise,
page 198, W. W. Norton & Company,
Inc., used by permission).
The religion of Christianity, in
general, and of the Latter-day Saints,
in particular, encourages the indi-
vidual to live beyond mediocrity
and dullness, as man on his wav to
perfection seeks to qualify himself
for Godhood.
Appraising Our Values
Some individuals have found
themselves in positions of leader-
ship or unique situations which en-
couraged or forced them to see the
world and its problems from a broad
point of view; to look at the "whole
picture/' Perhaps the rest of us
could benefit from the experience
of such individuals. Henry Cabot
Lodge said:
If there is one thing which I have
learned as a result of four years at the
United Nations it is that the sense of
justice is very much the same in every man.
Regardless of whether he comes from Asia,
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Africa, Europe, or America, he has very
much the same idea of fair play as his
fellow man, who may come from a country
ten thousand miles away. . . . The future
of the world depends on the extent to
which we can base international relations
on that sense of justice and fair play
which lives in every human heart {Think,
June 1957, page 22).
Mary Hawkins, editor of the
Journal of Home Economics, report-
ing on the Ninth International Con-
gress on Home Economics, held in
College Park, Maryland, July 1958,
stated:
With other members of the international
permanent council of the federation . . .
a program of importance was developed,
but even more than that there was a readi-
ness, a fluidity, a possibility of achieve-
ment made ready for the character of the
Congress.
And a character did unfold. It had
many sides, but the most inspiring and
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JANUARY 1960
the most awesome was its universality. We
saw that "one world" is no longer just
a concept; it is a reality. It operates in
the lives of everyday people, not just among
statesmen and internationalists. It can
bring women in religious habits across an
ocean and women in saris halfway around
the world to meet together, to find a com-
mon denominator of values, and to draw
comfort from each other's experiences.
It batters against the language barrier and
reconciles differences in color, nationality,
and occupation. With our minds, we
have known that this new character was
abroad in the world; we know it now in
our hearts and remembered handshakes.
We know it in cool Finnish melodies
sung on a sticky, southern night. We
saw it in each person's realization that he
or she had something to give to the Con-
gress (Hawkins, Mary, "This Is Our
World," Journal of Home Economics,
Vol. 50, No. 8, October 1958, page 611,
used by permission ) .
These two individuals as a result
of their positions and experiences
have been able to see "one world"
in the making. They have been
able to see the contributions which
mature, creative living can make.
Another experience in life which
brings values into sharp focus is the
anticipation of death. Mrs. Hazel
Beck Andre's account of "My Last
Wonderful Days" provides guid-
ance and inspiration not only for
those who anticipate death within
a few weeks or days, but for anyone
who wishes to live creatively
throughout life, realizing that death
will ultimately come to him. After
telling of her feelings in learning of
her condition, the adjustments
which she and her husband made,
and the maimer in which they tried
to help their children face the in-
evitable, she summarizes her phi-
losophy by saying:
I have no regrets — my life has been rich
and full, and I have loved every minute
of it. But if I were to live it over, I
would take more time for savoring of
beauty — sunrises; opening crabapple blos-
soms . . . the delighted surprised look on
a tiny girl's face as she pets a kitty for
the first time.
I would eliminate enough outside activ-
ities so that I could be always the serene
core of my home — for the triumph of
serenity has crvstallized for me and my
family in these last days. There would
be more time for family and for close
personal friends.
I would get closer to people faster.
When death is imminent, we open our
hearts quickly and wide. How much more
Christian love there would be if we didn't
wait for death to release our reserves!
I would live each day as if it were my
last one, as I am doing now (Andre,
Hazel Beck, "My Last Wonderful Days,"
Farm Journal, July 1956, used by permis-
sion).
Can we take lessons from such
experiences to help us reappraise our
values in an effort to discover if we
are living creatively? Are we ex-
periencing the potential within us?
Are we making the contributions in
services to others that we might
make. Are we contributing to the
peace of the world by being aware
of the needs of individuals around
the world and conditions in which
they live, and being aware of the
implications which our own inter-
personal relationships have as they
influence other people? Can our
scope and understandings be en-
larged in order that we may embrace
the following prayer uttered by a
fellow American, Benjamin Frank-
lin, when he said:
God grant that not only the love of
liberty but a thorough knowledge of the
rights of man may pervade all the nations
of the earth, so that a philosopher may
set his foot anywhere on its surface and
say, "This is my country."
LESSON DEPARTMENT
7T
Thoughts for Discussion
1. In what way do you participate on
the "frontiers" discussed?
2. Are you a supporter of explorations
on these various frontiers or are you a
resister?
3. What specifically have you done and
are you doing to chart a course toward
eternal values? Have your efforts been
vague and abstract or are they practical
and useful?
4. What steps can you take to become
more creative?
5. Have you appraised your values re-
cently? Are you putting first things first?
6. If you knew you had only two weeks
left to live, would you alter your daily
activities and ways of behaving? If so,
in what ways? Also, if so, wouldn't it be
well to do it now while there is still time?
Supplementary References
Christiansen, ElRay L.: "The Need
for Charity," The Improvement Era, June
1956, page 434.
McKay, David O.: "A Summation and
a Blessing," The Improvement Era, June
1958, pp. 464-465.
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us in The Relief Society Magazine. It is
a privilege to be counted among the mem-
bers of such an organization.
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford ------- President
Marianne C. Sharp - - - - - - First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen --------- Second Counselor
Hulda Parker ___--_ Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Josie B. Bay Elna P. Haymond Elsa T. Peterson
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor -._-__----- Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor ---------- Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager ---------- Belle S. Spafford
VOL. 47 FEBRUARY 1960 NO. 2
(contents
SPECIAL FEATURES
The Responsibility of Relief Society Ofiicers in the Salvation of
Relief Society Members Mark E. Petersen 76
Relief Society and the Church Welfare Program Henry D. Taylor 81
The Northwestern States Mission Preston R. Nibley 86
"Oh Say, What Is Truth?" 98
FICTION
Grandpa's Red Suspenders — Second Prize Story Myrtle M. Dean 88
Only the Essentials Frances C. Yost 102
The New Day — Chapter 5 Hazel K. Todd 106
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 74
Sixty Years Ago 94
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 95
Editorial: Greatness From Righteous Endurance Marianne C. Sharp 96
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 111
Birthday Congratulations 144
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Recipes From the Northwestern States Mission Effie K. Driggs 99
Tin Time for Gertrude Lacy 105
Kindness Ida Isaacson 105
Anchor Celia Luce 143
LESSONS FOR MAY
Theology — The Great I Am Roy W. Doxey 119
Visiting Teacher Messages — "Be Faithful Unto the End, and Lo, I Am
.„ , t With You" Christine H. Robinson 125
Work Meeting — Simple First Aid Helps Charlotte A. Larsen 127
Literature — Thomas Jefferson (1743-1826) Briant S. Jacobs 129
Social Science — Creative and Spiritual Living — Pathways to Peace —
part II Blaine M. Porter 137
POETRY
Hour of Waiting — Frontispiece Lael W Hill 73
Letter From a Missionary Mabel' Jones Gabbott 85
w+?C?T1?uPTa^erTT Vi ; Rowena Jensen Bills 97
With Nothing in His Hands Maude Rubin 101
Alberta Revisited Helen Kimball Orgill 110
Winter Garden Eva Willes Wangsgaard 128
W<r"" Words Dorothy J. Roberts 136
What Can I Give You? Christie Lund Coles 144
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The Responsibility of Relief
Society Officers in the Salvation
of Relief Society Members
(Address Delivered at the Officers Meeting of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, October 7, 1959)
Elder Mark E. Petersen
Of the Council of the Twelve
I would like to join, my sisters,
with President Joseph Fielding
Smith, in expressing gratitude
and appreciation to you for all that
you do. It is indeed an inspiring
experience to note the remarkable
things being done by the Relief
Society sisters throughout the
Church. My appreciation for you
and your program increases day by
day. The more I see of your work,
the more I marvel at it, the more
I feel indeed the Lord is inspiring
you and strengthening you to fulfill
a great need.
With President Smith, I express
deep gratitude to the Lord for the
remarkable leadership which you
have. We feel so impressed with
Sister Spafford and her counselors
and the splendid work that they are
doing, the great devotion they
demonstrate. We are thankful for
this wonderful General Board, and
we would like to say to you from
the stakes how grateful we are for
the remarkable work which you do.
You surely have our prayers, our
faith, our confidence, and we hope
that the Lord will continue with
you always.
I cannot go on without express-
ing appreciation for this Singing
Mothers group from the Nephi
area and to Sister Hoyt for her di-
Poge 76
rection. I would like to say to
Sister Hoyt and all of the sisters
how much I appreciated this last
number in particular, the composi-
tion of Sister Hoyt. I am sure it
will be sung throughout the Church
by Singing Mother choruses.
I express appreciation to Presi-
dent Smith for the privilege of
working with him in serving as an
advisor to your wonderful organiza-
tion. It is always a great inspiration
to me to be associated with him. I
have been an admirer of him since
I was a little boy. Ever since I be-
came old enough to begin to read
serious things, I have been deeply
impressed by his remarkable works,
and I still enjoy them, and I am
lifted up always when I have the
opportunity of listening to him
speak. I am thankful this morning
that he has spoken as he has con-
cerning the importance of the gos-
pel in the lives of the women in the
Church and the manner in which
they can be of assistance in saving
the souls of the people with whom
they come in contact. It is along
this line that I would like to speak
briefly this morning also.
When Paul wrote to the saints
of his day, he set forth some of the
great principles involved in being
THE RESPONSIBILITY OF RELIEF SOCIETY OFFICERS
77
saved in the kingdom of heaven. In
one instance you recall he said:
... I am not ashamed of the gospel
of Christ: for it is the power of God unto
salvation . . . (Romans 1:16).
That scripture has been quoted
often and effectively. The gospel is
the power of God unto salvation.
On another occasion, speaking of
means by which we become con-
verted to the gospel so that it may
save us, Paul said:
. . . whosoever shall call upon the name
of the Lord shall be saved.
How then shall they call on him in
whom they have not believed? and how
shall they believe in him of whom they
have not heard? and how shall they hear
without a preacher?
And how shall they preach, except they
be sent? . . . (Romans 10:13-15).
At still another time, you remem-
ber that Paul explained that officers
are placed in the Church,
For the perfecting of the saints, for the
work of the ministry, for the edifying of
the body of Christ . . . (Ephesians 4:12).
T ET us put these three scriptures
together and look at them as a
group. It is the gospel which saves.
Salvation comes through conversion
to the gospel. Conversion comes
through hearing the word of the
Lord. Hearing the word of the
Lord comes through a preacher or
a teacher. A teacher cannot teach
properly unless authorized to do so.
The teacher is so authorized by the
officers of the Church. The duties
of the officers are to conduct the
work of the ministry, perfect the
saints, and edify them in connec-
tion with their program.
We can readily see, then, that
the officers of the Church are the
pivotal, central figures upon whom
rests the responsibility for the en-
tire work.
When the Prophet Joseph Smith
organized the Relief Society and
outlined its aims and objectives, he
gave the sisters more than the re-
sponsibility of caring for needy peo-
ple and more than provoking the
brethren to good works. He laid
upon them the responsibility of
helping to bring about the salvation
of their members. He said: 'The
Society is not only to relieve the
poor, but to save souls" (Relief So-
ciety Minutes, June 9, 1842).
He added that the sisters are to
correct the morals and strengthen
the virtues of the community, a
thing which could be done only
through proper obedience to the
gospel, based upon a correct under-
standing of its principles.
One of the chief responsibilities
of the Relief Society, then, is prop-
erly to instruct its own members so
that they may achieve that under-
standing.
Now whose responsibility is it to
provide this instruction? Is it the
duty of the class leader alone, she
who gives the lesson? It is in part
her responsibility, but it is not ex-
clusively hers.
Who shares it with the instructor?
The officers, of course, because they
preside over all of the Relief So-
ciety, class work included, and are
as much responsible for good class
work as they are for good work
meetings and for proper visits in
the homes. They cannot lay this
entire responsibility upon the in-
structors, because they preside over
the instructors and over the
whole group. They must see that
the entire organization functions
smoothly.
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\A/E have two great fields of gos-
pel education. One of them
is the home, the other is the
Church, with its various organiza-
tions. But the home needs the di-
rection of the Church so that family
life will accomplish what the Lord
expects of it.
Where can parents receive this
training and instruction? From the
leaders and organizations of the
Church, of course. You, who are
here assembled, are the leaders of
the women of the Relief Society.
You must lead, and by your exam-
ples vou must teach. From your
own experience as well as from the
teachings of our Priesthood leaders,
you can give to the women of the
Church the help thev need in learn-
ing how to build good homes and
good family life.
As leaders, your own homes, in a
sense, are the laboratories in which
to prove out the best methods of
family life and to develop proper
examples for others.
We must remember that a major
part of good family life, of success-
ful and exemplary home activity, is
to teach and live the gospel in the
home. The gospel must be taught
there objectively. It must be lived
consistently and steadily and regu-
larly. Otherwise, the lesson is lost.
Mothers, generally, do most of
the teaching in most of the homes;
therefore, these mothers need good
preparation for that teaching. Where
do they get it? In part, from their
own personal studies and reading,
of course; but also from observing
how you, the leaders, teach by your
own personal examples and, then
also, from the lessons they learn in
your classwork.
Since I wish to limit my remarks
largely to class instruction, I desire
to emphasize here the importance
of its effect upon the home. Your
class instruction can influence the
homes of all who come to your
meetings. Mothers can, and will be
impressed by the classwork if it is
well done. The impression moth-
ers receive there can sway the entire
attitude of the home, and so mold
the habits and customs of the home
that family life therein may ap-
proach the ideal.
Class instruction can be that ef-
fective. It can be that important.
It should be that well done. Now
how can we best serve the needs of
these mothers through our own
class instruction?
Good classwork is dependent up-
on three important factors: first, a
wise selection of the individual who
is to serve as the instructor; second,
the choice of proper lesson material;
and third, effective presentation of
that material. Now let us review
these three points in the light of
our responsibility as presidents and
other officers of the Relief Society.
Consider first the proper selection
of the class instructors. Whose re-
sponsibility is it to choose these
teachers? The presidency's, of
course.
TN making these selections, the
presidency will have in mind the
main qualifications of teachers for
their organizations. What are some
of them?
First and foremost, a good testi-
mony of the gospel. The teacher
herself must be converted, other-
wise, how can she convert others?
It takes fire to kindle fire. It takes
faith to build faith.
Second, the teacher must be or-
thodox in her views with respect
to the gospel. If she is not, she
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will spread her wayward views like part an officer herself may take dur-
a contagion among the class mem- ing the actual class period. By
bers. wisely participating she may help to
Third, her own living habits must guide class discussions, making cer-
be in harmony with the principles tain of obtaining good results. This
of the gospel. What we do often must be done, of course, in a way
resounds so loudly in the ears of to avoid taking the lead of the class
other people that they cannot hear out of the hands of the instructor,
what we say. but if wisdom is used it can be a
Fourth, ability to teach. You strength to the instructor,
notice that I put this point in
fourth place, although it is an AFTER the selection of the
essential quality. Teachers should teacher for the class and before
possess some teaching skill, but if she begins her work, the officers of
that skill is missing, then what? the ward should sit down and have
If something is to be sacrificed, an understanding with her. They
it is better to sacrifice skill than should discuss the text material and
faith. It is better to sacrifice skill make it clear in the beginning what
than orthodoxy. It is better to sac- material is to be used and what
rifice skill than an example of good objectives are to be reached in the
living. instruction. Merely handing a book
Skill may be acquired. There are to an instructor is not enough. If
many teaching helps these days, a ward officer expects a certain type
There is much assistance available of performance from an instructor,
in the form of teacher training, certainly the instructor is entitled to
Stake board members are willing to know in the beginning what is ex-
help ward instructors. There are pected of her. A frank and friend-
also skilled teachers in every stake ly discussion at the outset can avoid
who, as neighbors, would willingly many difficulties later on.
give private help to a ward Relief The next point is the proper pre-
Society instructor, if requested to do sentation of the material. Here is
so. In a spirit of neighborliness, where stake board people can give
Latter-day Saint professional teach- invaluable help. Here is where we
ers, if asked, would help an unskilled see the great importance of good
woman to prepare her lessons, give stake board workers. Through visits
expert assistance in the selection of in the wards and through leadership
visual-aid material, and otherwise meetings, they can provide good
assist, if asked. The difficulty in this help and suggestions to ward in-
matter is that so many of our in- structors. Leadership meetings them-
structors are embarrassed to ask for selves must be teacher-training
this kind of help, although they sessions for the assistance of these
need not be. ward instructors.
Officers of the organizations, Again, this comes back to the re-
knowing this situation, could them- sponsibility of the officers of the Re-
selves arrange for such aid and in lief Society. Stake Relief Society
that manner improve the lesson presidencies must be so wise in their
work and make it more effective in selection of board members that
the ward. And then there is the they will have in mind each need
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of the workers in the wards who
come for assistance.
Stake Relief Society presidencies
should not choose board members
merely because they are nice and
lovely persons, fun to be around.
Board members must be chosen for
their ability to fulfill a particular
assignment on the board. Their
impact upon the workers in the
ward must be given first consider-
ation. Their visits to wards must
be constructive and profitable.
Their leadership meeting depart-
ments must be stimulating.
Too often ward members come
away from leadership meetings feel-
ing that their attendance there has
been a waste of time, that they have
received nothing from the discus-
sion. When such reactions occur,
it is of major importance to the
stake presidency of the Relief So-
ciety, who are duty bound to see to
it that ward people get the maxi-
mum of help from their leadership
meeting departments. If the stake
board member is not making the
department profitable, the presi-
dency should correct the situation.
"DOARD members must be keenly
conscious of the importance of
adequate preparation on their own
part. When they conduct their de-
partments in leadership meeting
they must be so well prepared that
all coming to the department will
be edified and stimulated. If board
members do not know how to con-
duct good departments, they must
learn how. They can ask their stake
Relief Society presidencies, and they
can ask the General Board. Since
the ward people come expecting
help from the stake, the stake of-
ficers should be willing to seek all
the assistance necessary. They must
be prepared. There is no substi-
tute for preparation.
You see, Relief Society officers,
how great is the responsibility rest-
ing upon you with respect to your
leadership meetings; with respect to
instruction in the wards; and to the
operation of the whole program?
Yours is a responsibility of detail.
Although we delegate much of our
work, we, as officers, must be so
well informed on all of our depart-
ments that we can give adequate
and intelligent and well-advised di-
rection to those who labor under us.
Preparation and constant atten-
tion are the watchwords of the of-
ficers themselves. You cannot
properly direct your organizations if
you are not working closely with
them. You cannot operate your
work by remote control. Neither
can you run a good organization if
you do not understand the program
in detail. The work of saving souls
is so important that we cannot spare
any preparation or effort in our as-
signments. You see the chain of
relationship between our work as
officers and the saving of souls?
Salvation comes by conversion.
Conversion requires proper instruc-
tion. Proper instruction depends
to a large extent upon the direction-
al work of the officers of the organ-
ization. So you, the officers, are
basically responsible. The Lord
surely had this in mind when he
said:
Wherefore, now let every one learn his
duty, and to act in the office in which he
is appointed, in all diligence.
... he that learns not his duty and
shows himself not approved shall not be
counted worthy to stand (D & C
107:99, 100).
That we may be found worthy to
stand is my humble prayer in Jesus'
name, Amen.
Relief Society and the Church
Welfare Program
Elder Henry D. Taylor
Assistant to the Council of the Twelve
Managing Director of the General Church Welfare Committee
(Address Delivered at the Annual General Relief Society Conference, Departmental
Meeting, Thursday Afternoon, October 8, 1959)
I consider it a great honor to be
invited to participate in this
Relief Society conference. I
have the greatest admiration and
respect for your organization and
the good you have accomplished
and are now achieving.
We are mindful of your note-
worthy contributions and support of
the Church Welfare Program, and
express gratitude and appreciation
for your excellent labors. We ex-
press particular thanks to the Gen-
eral Board for the emphasis they
have placed on the employment and
work phases of the Program in the
past two conventions.
You women are important in our
lives and give us encouragement and
strength. Without you we would
make little progress.
One morning the King and
Queen left the palace in London.
As they drove in their carriage, en-
thusiastic subjects lined the streets
and cheered. One loyal man shouted
out: "Hurrah for King George the
Fifth." A nearby companion added:
"Yes, and three cheers for Queen
Mary, the other four-fifths.,,
I have been invited to speak to
you leaders about the Welfare Plan,
and to point out some of the ways
in which the sisters can help in the
Program.
The full Welfare Plan is operative
only in the stakes. "In the missions
welfare work is generally limited to
an effort to teach members how to
solve their local problems and pro-
vide for their own needs" (Welfare
Plan — Handbook of Instructions,
page 5).
In establishing the Welfare Plan
in 1936, the First Presidency out-
lined the basic and fundamental
principles in these words:
Our primary purpose was to set up,
in so far as it might be possible, a system
under which the curse of idleness would
be done away with, the evils of a dole
abolished, and independence, industry,
thrift and self-respect be once more estab-
lished amongst our people. The aim of
the Church is to help the people to help
themselves. Work is to be re-enthroned
as the ruling principle of the lives of our
Church membership (lbid.y page 1).
The phases of the welfare activi-
ties may be divided into five
divisions:
1.
2.
3-
4-
5-
Planning
Production
Distribution
Rehabilitation
Prevention
The time allotted to me will per-
mit but a brief outline of these
phases. I can present only a skel-
eton, relying upon you to furnish
some meat for the bones.
Paae 81
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HTHE key figure in the Welfare Planning
Plan is the bishop.
By the word of the Lord, the sole man-
date to care for and the sole discretion in
caring for the poor of the Church is
lodged in the bishop. It is his duty and
his only to determine to whom, when,
how and how much shall be given to any
member of his ward from Church funds
and as ward help. This is his high and
solemn obligation, imposed by the Lord
himself. Whoever and whatever the help
he calls in to assist him perform his serv-
ice, he is still responsible (Ibid., page 6).
Well might we raise the question:
"Where is the place of Relief So-
ciety in Church Welfare?" The
Welfare Handbook answers this
question, and I quote: "Since the
earliest clavs of the Church the
Relief Society has been and still is
the bishop's chief help in adminis-
tering to the needs of those in dis-
tress" (Ibid., page 22).
And whv is this true?
Shortly after your society was
organized, the Prophet Joseph
Smith said to the sisters:
This is a charitable Society, and accord-
ing to your natures, it is natural for fe-
males to have feelings of charity and
benevolence. You are now placed in a
situation in which you can act according
to those sympathies which God has plant-
ed in your bosoms. If you live up to
these principles, how great and glorious
will be your reward in the celestial king-
dom! If you live up to your previleges,
the angels cannot be restrained from be-
ing your associates (Ibid., page 23. See
also D. II. C. iv, page 605.)
This observation is then made in
the Handbook: "With this back-
ground, the Relief Society has been
trained and prepared to handle cer-
tain phases of welfare work better
than any other agency."
The immediate objectives of
Church Welfare are to:
1. Place in gainful employment those
who are able to work.
2. Provide employment within the Wel-
fare Program, in so far as possible,
for those who cannot be placed in
gainful employment.
3. Acquire the means with which to
supply the needy, for whom the
Church assumes responsibility, with
the necessities of life.
4. Supply such needy with the means
of living, each "according to his
family, according to his circum-
stances, and his wants and needs."
. . . This is to be done not as a
dole, but rather in recognition of
faithful service in the past and a
present willingness to accept the
program and labor in it to the ex-
tent of his ability (Welfare Pian —
Handbook of Instructions, pp. 4-5).
To achieve these objectives re-
quires much prayerful preparation
and thoughtful planning. Welfare
meetings are held at regular inter-
vals on ward, stake, and regional
levels where ways and means are dis-
cussed for reaching these noble
goals. Your attendance at these
meetings is important. During the
year 1958, Relief Society presidents
at the ward level attended eighty-
four per cent of the weekly welfare
meetings held. Employment coun-
selors' attendance was but seventy-
three per cent, and work directors',
only sixty-six per cent.
You sisters have the responsibility
of becoming Church-trained social
workers, developing and displaying
a spirit of love, understanding, and
discernment. These planning meet-
ings can help you in learning not
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83
only your specific duties, but give a
knowledge of the over-all program
in all its phases.
Pioduction
To fill the bishops' storehouses
with the commodities and clothing
necessary to care for the needy re-
quires the united efforts of all able-
bodied persons. You sisters have
contributed nobly to this effort
through your sewing activities, un-
selfish work in the canneries and the
fields, and through other types of
devoted labor on Church Welfare
production projects. The responsi-
bility for recruiting this labor rests
with the work directors.
At the end of 1958, there had
been acquired 569 owned perma-
nent welfare projects throughout
the Church, with another seventy-
seven leased projects. These proj-
ects were operated so successfully
that a major part of the budget for
last year was produced on them.
During the year 1958, there were
84,356 of you sisters who partici-
pated on the projects, contributing
667,390 hours of labor.
Distribution
To discover those in need requires
constant vigilance. The visiting
teachers can render a valuable serv-
ice by being alert and reporting any
in need to the Relief Society presi-
dent, who will then advise the
bishop.
The bishop has at his disposal
the commodities in the storehouse
as well as the fast offering funds.
The Relief Society president will
make investigation and determine
the needs of the family in distress
upon request of the bishop. She
prepares the orders on the store-
house for the bishop's signature.
The bishop only has the authority
to issue an order.
Relief Societv presidents should
acquaint themselves with items that
are in the storehouse, and recom-
mend and urge the use of avail-
able commodities that will give
good balance and diet, so that the
health of families will be protected
and safeguarded.
A constant review should be
made of the needs of persons being
assisted as their circumstances may
change from time to time. An
analysis of the orders issued in the
first six months of 1959 would in-
dicate that fifty-seven per cent are
being so issued without a visit from
the Relief Society president.
We commend you sisters on the
excellent work vou have done in
providing clothing for the store-
houses. We are assured that we
now have the finest stock of sizes
and styles with excellent workman-
ship.
There are now in the Church 133
bishops' storehouses. In the year
1958, there were 87,596 members
of the Church assisted. As a trib-
ute to the Relief Society presidents,
our storehouses were used more last
year than in any previous year.
You stake Relief Society presi-
dents can assume the responsibility
for seeing that clothing inventories
are maintained which are adequate
and desirable.
"T)ISTRIBUTION in the Welfare
Plan contemplates more than
just assisting with the "loaves and
fishes/' The Savior said: "Man
shall not live by bread alone . . ."
(Mt.4:4).
There is a spiritual aspect that
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must not be overlooked. To the
Lord all things are spiritual, for he
has said: "Wherefore, verily I say
unto vou that all things unto me
are spiritual, and not at any time
have I given unto you a law which
was temporal" (D & C 29:34).
James Russell Lowell in his "Vis-
ion of Sir Launfal," represented the
Savior as uttering these words:
Not what we give, but what we share,
The gift without the giver is bare;
Who gives himself with his alms feeds
three,
Himself, his hungering neighbor, and me.
You sisters can give encourage-
ment, sympathy, and inspiration
where needed, and can certainly be
responsible for a great spiritual up-
lift in the lives of those needing
such assistance.
Rehabilitation
"The aim of the Church is to
help the people to help themselves."
The employment phase of the
Program has been designed to help
secure employment and positions
for those desirous of obtaining gain-
ful employment. It is the responsi-
bility of the employment counselor
to be aware of and acquainted with
job opportunities where such per-
sons may be placed.
During the year 1958, there
were 4,058 unemployment occur-
rences reported. Two thousand nine
hundred eighty-five or seventy-four
per cent of these were placed in
gainful employment.
"Work is to be re-enthroned as
the ruling principle of the lives of
our Church membership." Those
receiving welfare assistance are ex-
pected to work to the extent of their
abilities. There must be no dole.
It is the responsibility of the work
director to provide these work op-
portunities. A list of such oppor-
tunities prepared in advance would
be helpful. In 1958, 4,345 sisters
worked 175,332 hours for assistance
received.
Prevention
"Church Welfare accepts as fun-
damental truth the proposition that
the responsibility for one's economic
maintenance rests ( 1 ) upon him-
self, (2) upon his family, and (3)
upon the Church, if he is a faithful
member thereof."
The ward Relief Society president
can teach many things that one can
do himself to provide economic in-
dependence, making it unnecessary
to call upon relatives or the Church.
He must plan ahead. The old pro-
verb is true: "A stitch in time saves
nine." Follow the counsel of the
brethren, and secure at least one
year's supply of food, clothing, and
fuel, where practical. Accumulate
sufficient savings to provide for
times of emergency. Home canning
and group canning are helpful in
acquiring a supply of foodstuffs.
You women, generally, handle
the family finances as well as man-
aging the household. Encourage
your family to live within its in-
come. Don't let "Momma's yearn-
ings exceed Poppa's earnings."
Avoid debt. We are advised that
you have had lessons dealing with
thrift management. Relief Society
employment counselors can encour-
age your daughters to secure all the
education they can. Learn a pro-
fession or trade. This is an age of
specialization. Those who are
trained and skilled have access to
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85
more job opportunities than the un-
skilled.
On December 10, 1856, Brigham
Young and his Counselor, Heber C.
Kimball, issued an epistle from the
First Presidency to the saints.
Jedediah M. Grant, the other Coun-
selor, had passed away the week
before. This instruction was given
to the women:
Mothers in Israel, you also are called
upon to bring up your daughters to pur-
sue some useful avocation for a sustenance,
that when they shall become the wives
of the elders of Israel, who are frequently
called upon missions, or to devote their
time and attention to the things of the
Kingdom, they may be able to sustain
themselves and their offspring. Teach
them to sew, spin and weave; to cultivate
vegetables as well as flowers; to make soap
as well as cakes and preserves; to spin,
color and weave and knit, as well as em-
broidery; to milk, make butter and cheese,
and work in the kitchen, as in the parlor.
Thus will you and your daughters show
yourselves approved, and prove helpmeets
in very deed, not only in the domestic
relations, but in building up the King-
dom also (Nibley, Preston: Brigham
Young — The Man and His Work, page
265).
The Welfare Plan has noble ob-
jectives. It accepts the doctrine
that "it is more blessed to give than
to receive"; also accepting the re-
sponsibility that we are "our broth-
er's keeper. " The Welfare Plan is
the "Gospel in Action."
I bear you my testimony that the
Welfare Plan is a divinely inspired
plan in the name of Jesus Christ.
Amen.
JLetter off
rom a
Ull
tssionart/
Mabel Jones Gabbott
The letter came today; the postman smiled
As if he knew how much it meant to me;
I scanned the date and postmark hurriedly,
And then I could not wait. Just like a child
I fairly tore the envelope apart
And read it through. Each closely lettered word
Smiled up at me. Somehow my eyes were blurred,
But I could read the message with my heart.
A bit of paper, scratched upon with pen,
And yet it was a vibrant living thing;
So simply said, "I'm well; don't worry." Then
"With all my love." It made the whole day sing.
So might the saints at Ephesus have waited
Hungrily the word from Paul — like this, belated.
cJhe I lorthwestern States 1 1 tission
Pieston R. Nibley
Assistant Church Historian
^HE Northwestern States Mission, which comprised the states of
Oregon, Washington, and Northern and Central Idaho, wras organized
under the direction of the First Presidency, in July 1897. George C.
Parkinson, President of Oneida Stake, was selected as the first president
of the mission. The first missionaries called to labor with President Park-
inson were Lewis S. Pond, Denmark Jensen, Thomas Preston, George Z.
Lamb, Gaston Braley, and James R. Smurthwaite.
In June 1898, Montana was added to the Northwestern States Mis-
sion, and the president of that mission, Franklin S. Bramwell, was made
president of the combined missions, succeeding President Parkinson. In
1901 the Union Stake was organized in eastern Oregon and President
Bramwell was selected as president of the stake. He served also as
president of the mission until 1902, when he was succeeded by Nephi
Pratt. President Pratt moved the headquarters of the mission to Portland,
Oregon, where it has remained since that time.
President Pratt was succeeded in 1909 by Melvin J. Ballard. During
President Ballard's presidency, British Columbia and Alaska were added
to the Northwestern States Mission and the first missionaries were sent
to Alaska. President Ballard served until 1919 when he was made a mem-
ber of the Council of the Twelve. Presidents who have served since that
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AERIAL VIEW OF JUNEAU, ALASKA
Mt. Juneau and Mt. Roberts in the Background
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MT. HOOD, OREGON, WITH ORCHARD BLOSSOMS IN THE
FOREGROUND
time are: Heber C. Iverson, 1919-23; Brigham S. Young, 1923-27; William
R. Sloan, 1927-34; Joseph Quinney Jr., 1934-37; Preston Nibley, 1937-40;
Nicholas G. Smith, 1940-42; Delsa Bennion, 1942-44; Samuel E. Bring-
hurst, 1944-47; Joel Richards, 1947-50; James A. McMurrin, 1950-55; Doug-
las H. Driggs, 1955-60; Franklin D. Richards, i960 — .
During the presidency of Preston Nibley, the first branch of the
Church was organized in Alaska, at Fairbanks, in July 1938.
Since the organization of the Northwestern States Mission in 1897,
twenty stakes have been organized within its original borders.
At the end of October 1959, there were 9,272 members of the Church
in the Northwestern States Mission, located in forty-two branches. Bap-
tism of converts during the first ten months of the year numbered 768.
Forty-four Relief Society organizations, with 986 members were re-
ported in December 1958. Effie K. Driggs presided over the Northwest-
ern States Mission Relief Society from 1955 until January i960. Helen
K. Richards is the new president.
Note: The cover for this Magazine "Mission Home," Portland, Oregon, is repro-
duced from a color transparency bv James W. Allen and was submitted by Effie K.
Driggs. See also "Recipes From the Northwestern States Mission," by Sister Driggs
on page 99.
(Second Lrrtze Story
*jLnnual IKeltef Society Short Story (contest
Grandpa's Red Suspenders
Myrtle M. Dean
IT was near the middle of May,
when Grandpa Foster came to
stay at Brookside, with his son
James and his family. Janie would
always remember the time, for it
was so near her eighteenth birthday.
She had planned a big birthday
party. She had made a list of all
of her young friends, the most spe-
cial one being Stan Dalby, who was
just home from college. Janie was
anxious to make a good impression
on Stan this summer.
Janie's heart sank low when her
mother said, "You will have to give
up your party, Janie. Now grandpa
is here, the noisy crowd will disturb
him. He has been ill you know."
"But, Mom, grandfather will be
in his room. We won't make that
much noise." Janie could hardly
believe that her mother was serious.
"I told your father that all the
family would have to give up their
own normal life and pleasures, if
grandpa came here to live," Janie's
mother continued.
It seemed to Janie now that her
mother was forcing them all to play
the martyr. Anne Foster had
agreed to grandfather's coming so
grudgingly. Janie had heard her
mother say, "I'm only a daughter-in-
law, and he has two daughters. It
seems that they should be glad to
care for him."
There had been many conferences
over the matter, before Grandpa
Foster came. There were five chil-
dren and all agreed that something
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MYRTLE M. DEAN
must be done about Father. After
all their discussions, James, the old-
est son, decided it was his duty to
see that his father was taken care
of "Lovingly," he had said to the
others.
Grandma Foster had died last
year, just before Thanksgiving time.
Usually all the families went
down to Grandpa Foster's farm for
Thanksgiving dinner, but last year
they all went to their grandmoth-
er's funeral. Grandpa had protest-
ed so vigorously against leaving his
home then that they left him down
at the farm. The grandchildren
had gone to visit him often. Then
this spring he had had a bad case
of influenza. That was when the
family decided something must be
done.
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89
As James Foster stopped at the
front of the house with his father,
the family all came out to greet
him as cheerfully as they could. Bill
and the two younger children, Jim-
my and Beth, ran out to the car to
help bring in his things. Janie and
her mother stood waiting on the
porch. There were a small suitcase
and several paper bags full of his
things. Then Bill and Jimmy came
along behind the others carrying a
little, old-fashioned trunk.
"Perhaps we had better put that
trunk downstairs in the storeroom/'
Anne Foster said.
Grandpa Foster's face became
anxious, and he spoke up promptly,
"I'd like awful well to keep the
trunk close by me, in my room.
The things in there are mostly keep-
sakes of Grandma's and mine." His
face was very serious, and he fol-
lowed closely as they carried his
things to his room.
^HE room was clean and comfort-
able. There was a radio, and
in a corner of the room, a fine TV
set. Near his bed was a small table
where he could eat his meals, if he
wished.
His eves teared, and his hands
trembled a little when he spoke.
"I'm real grateful for all your kind-
ness." For a moment then he was
silent before he spoke more firmly,
"It is foolish though — real foolish,
that a man can't stay in his home
and not trouble folks. A flu bug
hit me, but I'd soon have been as
good as ever, and could look after
myself."
"Now, Father," James Foster
said, "you are too independent. I
want my boys and girls to know
you better. And your farm is in
good hands. Sam Carson has it
rented and will keep things in good
shape. You must not worry."
James tried to pacify his father.
Janie thought that her grand-
father kept to his room too much.
Was it because he didn't want to
trouble the family, or that he liked
to be left alone? she wondered.
His appetite seemed to lag more
each day. Grandpa isn't happy
here, she thought, and she won-
dered sometimes if her mother
might have planned the comforts of
Grandfather's room to keep him
away from her family.
Each evening Janie took in a
tasty meal to her grandpa's room.
It seemed that he sent most of it
back on the tray.
"Grandfather, you eat so little.
What would you like? Can't I fix
you something?" Janie asked one
evening, when he seemed paler,
and even more quiet than usual.
At first he hesitated, then a smile
crossed his face as he said, "Janie,
do you remember eating bread and
milk, with honey and jam and fresh
butter, down on the farm with
Grandma and me, for supper?"
"Oh, Grandpa, I can never for-
get how good it was. It was so
much fun to eat with you and
grandmother. Her good homemade
bread. I can taste it now. Let me
try baking some tomorrow and we
will eat it here together," Janie said
kindly.
T
HE late afternoon sun shone
softly into the window, making
the room cozy and bright. Janie
and her grandfather sat together
enjoying the fresh baked bread that
she had brought, to eat with milk
and honey. As her grandpa ate he
talked of the days on the farm with
grandma, when they had first gone
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there together. How wonderful
their love must have been, Janie
thought. Sitting here listening to
her grandpa's voice so full of happy
remembrance, she wondered how it
would be to have someone love her
as grandpa had loved his wife. She
thought of Stan Dalby, of her plans
for the summer which included him.
She thought, too, of the birthday
party which she had counted on,
and must not have on account of
grandpa.
"Oh, Grandpa, why couldn't you
have waited to come until after mv
party?" she said to herself. She real-
ized now that Stan had not even
met her grandfather, and she won-
dered what he would think of him.
This old man with such homey
ways, and he had always lived on a
farm. There was another thing that
always worried the family. Grand-
father Foster had a pair of bright
red suspenders and a tie to match,
which he had won down at the
county fair, years ago. He always
put them on for special occasions.
There had been no place for him to
wear them here at Brookside. There
would probably be none. He would
have to keep them stored away in
his trunk of memories.
"I'm afraid that you children are
bothering Grandfather too much
lately," Mrs. Foster warned them.
They had begun to visit him to hear
his stories, and followed him on his
morning walks.
"Grandpa knows the names of all
the birds, and just where to find
their nests," young Jimmy said.
"Mother, I think he enjoys hav-
ing somebody to talk to. He doesn't
seem to mind," Janie told her.
A few days later Bill surprised
Janie by saying that his mother was
letting him have an Explorer fire-
side at their house the next Wed-
nesday evening
"Mother says it will be more of
a meeting, with a speaker, than a
noisy party. I've asked Bob Han-
sen to come and talk to us. You
know he has traveled a lot and tells
of such interesting things." Bill was
enthusiastic.
"Oh, but Bill, all those noisy
boys. That will be just as bad as
though I had my party, and Mother
made me give that up," Janie spoke
solemnly.
"I thought I'd ask Stan Dalby to
come and give us a couple of his
songs." Bill smiled slyly at her.
"Would you agree to come down
when we need you and accompany
him?"
Janie's face flushed with pleasure.
"You are a swell brother . . . some-
times," she added.
"Do you suppose that we could
slip in a bit of guitar strumming,
and maybe a game or two for good
measure?" Bill asked mischievously.
"You would never get by Mom
with that, Billy boy," Janie told
him.
T T was almost six o'clock on Wed-
nesday that Bill came to Janie
with a sober face. "Our fireside is
off. Will you phone Stan and tell
him he won't need to come and
sing? I'll call the boys. Bob Han-
sen just called. His little brother
got hit by a car, and they have to
rush him to a hospital. They think
it isn't too serious, but they can't
tell until they take X-rays, and go
over him thoroughly."
Janie looked as crestfallen as her
brother. She had counted on see-
ing Stan, and playing for his songs.
"I'm real sorry, Bill," she said
quietly.
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91
'Things have been so dead
around here lately, and now for this
to happen/' Bill spoke disconso-
lately. "Well, I'd better get on the
phone and tell the guys. It is too
late to get another speaker now."
They sat there for a moment to-
gether, their heads bent thought-
fully.
"It seems that since Grandpa
came, all we hear from Mama, is —
vou can't do this — or you can't do
that — I hate it," Bill 'finished bit-
terly.
"But Grandpa wouldn't want it
that way, I'm sure he wouldn't,"
Janie said, then suddenly her face
brightened. "I have a wonderful
idea, Bill. Don't call and say the
fireside is off."
"Well, tell it. Don't keep me in
suspense." Bill's face was puzzled.
"Grandpa Foster. . . ."
"Grandpa Foster — what? Of all
the bright ideas," Bill said disgusted-
"Listen, Bill, Grandpa can tell the
most exciting things. Stories of
true happenings. The boys will love
it. Really he has such a sweet way
of telling things." Janie spoke earn-
estly.
"The fellows won't want to sit
and hear Grandfather talk about
himself," Bill said, still skeptical.
"Please try it, Bill. Grandfather
will love it. It will do him ever so
much good, too," Janie said.
"What about Mother? What is
she going to say?"
"We won't ask Mother. We will
ask Grandpa," Janie laughed.
"What if Grandpa wears his red
tie and suspenders? I'll bet he is
just dying for a chance to put them
on." Bill spoke, still reluctant to
agree.
"I suppose he will wear them, and
also tell the story of going to the
county fair, and winning them by
throwing the most balls into a china
pig's open mouth to do so. The
boys will love that, too," Janie
coaxed.
"Will you ask him to talk, then,
Janie?"
"If you do it yourself, it will be
more official. It's your affair, you
know." Janie left her brother still
pondering the subject, but she felt
sure her suggestion would work out.
T
'WO hours later she heard the
noise from twenty boys as they
came in with boyish greetings. A
little later she heard her grandfather
going down the stairs to the play-
room. She wanted to peek to see
what he was wearing, but refrained.
I will see soon enough if I play for
Stan to sing, she thought.
Stan came up to the living room
to escort her down to accompany
him. She was glad when he said,
"Janie, I'm so glad I got to come
and hear your Grandfather talk. He
has had such wonderful experiences.
Not only exciting, but so faith pro-
moting. It is so fine for the boys
to hear such stories."
Janie knew that all the others had
enjoyed her grandpa, too, for their
faces were full of interest as he still
held them busily in conversation.
She saw that she was just in time to
hear him telling the event of his
winning the red tie and galluses, as
he called them. He opened his coat
and displayed them proudly. The
boys all laughed uproariously.
"Grandfather, I'm glad that you
could be our speaker for our fire-
side. Especially since it turned out
that Bob Hansen's little brother was
not hurt seriously. You sure went
over with the guys," Bill told him.
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Janie thought, how fine for the
old and the young to become ac-
quainted. We can do so much for
each other.
A few days later as she went to her
grandfather's room she saw him
sitting by the little old trunk he had
brought with him. The lid was
open, and some of the things he had
lifted out and placed beside him on
his bed. His face was sad, and Janie
knew that he was pining for Grand-
ma Foster. She hesitated, and was
about to turn away, when he saw
her. "Come in, Janie dear," he said.
She stood by his side, and he told
her of many of the things that be-
longed to Grandma. A little silk
lace shawl that she had worn to
keep warm on chilly evenings, he
had given her for her seventieth
birthday. A faded bouquet of
pressed violets.
"I gathered these from the
woods," he said. "She loved violets
in the early springtime." Janie saw
the love in his eyes as he spoke of
grandma. She bent down and
kissed his cheek.
"Grandpa, that lovely dress. It
looks as if it belonged to a young
girl."
"Janie, this is the dress that your
Grandma wore to her birthday party
the night that I told her I loved her.
The night that I asked her to be my
wife. She was just eighteen then.
She was young and beautiful, but of
course I was a bit older."
Just eighteen, Janie thought. I
will be eighteen, and I can't have a
party.
"Janie, do you know, you look so
much like your Grandma when she
was your age, that when you came
to the door just now, I could almost
believe it was she."
"Am I? I do hope I can be as
lovely a woman as she," Janie said.
"Do you remember that your
birthday comes the same day as
Grandma's? The twenty-fourth of
May? Why bless you, that is day
after tomorrow."
"Yes, I do remember, and I will
be eighteen," Janie answered a bit
solemnly. She was silent for quite
awhile. She was thinking, how
nice if I could have a party. I won-
der if Stan would find me as nice
and beautiful as Grandpa did
Grandmother.
Janie was almost startled when
her grandpa spoke. "Janie, why
don't we have a birthday party? I'll
bet it would be as nice as Grand-
ma's. There is plenty of room down-
stairs for fun and dancing," he said,
and there were little smile wrinkles
breaking all over his face.
"Oh, but Grandpa . . ." Janie
said, thinking of her mother and her
forbidding a party on account of
Grandpa. On account of Grandpa
— and here it was Grandpa who
was suggesting it.
"I'll buy the birthday cake. It
will be a big one with white frost-
ing and pink roses, just like the cake
that Grandma had," he said. His
eyes were shining and his voice was
full of enthusiasm. "I wondered
what I was going to do with all this
money." He jingled the few silver
coins he had in his pocket.
Janie threw her arms about his
neck. "Grandpa, I love you so
much. I would love having a party."
"You had better get busy with
your invitation list, and get on the
telephone," he said.
JANIE didn't tell him that she
had made her list weeks ago,
and had put it away because there
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93
was to be no party. She ran to her
mother.
"Mother, I don't have to give up
my party. Grandfather wants me
to have it. He is going to buy a
lovely cake for my birthday/' Janie
was breathless with excitement.
"But, Janie . . ." her mother be-
gan, "first there was the fireside,
then the children bothering him for
stories and tagging along on his
walks. Now you ask for your
party."
"Mother, please don't stop us.
Grandfather remembered it was
Grandma's birthday, too, on the
twenty-fourth of May. It will be a
happy time for him."
"Maybe you are right. Grandpa
has seemed much better since he
has been doing things with the fam-
ily. I guess your father was right
about bringing him here to live.
You have all been so willing to
sacrifice and do things for one an-
other. And Grandpa is doing won-
ders for our family. The children
love his stories." Anne Foster
looked very serious as she made this
confession.
"I am sure you are right, Mother.
We gave Grandpa a comfortable
room, and shut him up to enjoy it,
mostly to keep him out of our way.
What he really needed was to be
one of us, a part of our family. He
needed love, to help fill his loss of
Grandma." Janie put her arm about
her mother, feeling grateful that her
mother understood.
There were telephone calls —
calls in and out, that crowded the
party line. Janie's guests were all
invited.
"Get out your guitar, Billy boy/'
she told her brother. "Grandfather
and I are giving a party. You can
strum to your heart's content. There
will be singing and dancing and all
the fun anyone can want. I'll bet
Grandpa will think you can sing as
well as Ricky Nelson," Janie
laughed.
Stan and Janie stood by the piano
talking happily when Grandpa en-
tered with the huge birthday cake.
He carried it, and ceremoniously
placed it on a table at the end of
the room. It was a surprise to all
except Janie and her mother.
Everyone at the party exclaimed
with ohs and ahs, and gathered to
admire its pink and white loveli-
ness.
"It's for my best girl," Grandpa
Foster said mischievously.
Janie thought that her grand-
father's smile was the best part of
it all. It spread all over his face.
He wore his bright red tie and sus-
penders, and Janie hoped that after
she had danced with Stan, the first
waltz, that Grandpa and she would
dance the old-fashioned polka.
Myrtle M. Dean, Provo, Utah, who is already well known to readers of The Relief
Society Magazine, tells us that she loves to write, but her home and her family are her
chief interests: "I had my first story published in The Relief Society Magazine in 1925.
Then, for many years, I was occupied with my young family and with Church duties,
and so did very little writing. In 1948 I was awarded third prize in the Relief Society
Short Story Contest, and in 1949, I placed second. Since that time I have published
several stories. I enjoy writing and divide my spare moments with genealogical research
and writing family histories and short story writing. My husband is Charles E. Dean,
and we have five children. One son is in charge of the electric computer and also
teaches at Brigham Young University. Our four daughters are all married. We have
nineteen grandchildren, including twin granddaughters. Our families are our chief
interest."
Sixty LJeais J^rgo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, February 1, and February 15, 1900
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
of All Nations"
THE CONSTITUTION OF THE UNITED STATES: At this crisis (choosing
a Congressional representative from Utah) in the affairs of the state it seems that every
man and woman, and especially heads of families, should stand for the principles
embodied in the good old Constitution and Declaration of Independence, formulated
by our forefathers under divine inspiration . . . and whatsoever others may do who
disregard the Constitution or trample it under foot, the Latter-day Saints above all
people should maintain their integrity to it and manifest to the world that intense love
of freedom and conscience and the true spirit of liberty that was the crowning virtue
of our Pilgrim fathers, and which eventually must be the touchstone of human liberty
... for all who love their country.
— Editorial
A LAW OF NATURE: Every life needs some diversity. Many mothers, home-
workers, are apt to allow their time and their minds to be entirely occupied with the
one, all-absorbing theme: to run too exclusively in the one, never ending channel.
Thus they injure, instead of gaining best results for their dearest purposes in life. . . .
A square rod of native prairie will give a dozen varieties of grass. . . . This law of
diversity in nature is a good law to develop in our homes. We want good, wholesome
food all the year round, but we want variety. And as with our physical natures, so also
with the mental and spiritual parts of our beings.
— L. L. Greene Richards
WE'LL TAKE A RIDE
We call for a soft cushioned carriage,
A phaeton, barouche or coupe,
Ashamed of the style of our fathers,
Ashamed of the wagon and sleigh. . . .
Our grandchildren — Ah, they will circle,
Like birds, to and fro in the skies;
Will play with the fangs of lightning
And laugh when earth trembles and sighs;
They never need "wait for the wagon,"
Nor ever be left by the car,
But, mounting like eagles or angels,
May challenge the speediest star.
— Isabel Darling
RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE IN SAN LUIS STAKE: The Relief
Society conference of the San Luis Stake was held in Sanford, Conejos Co.. Colorado,
on November 10, 1899, President Cornelia Mortensen presiding. . . . Sister M. Sellers,
of Manassa, Sister P. E. Cullers, of Mountain View, Sister M. E. Hamil, of Morgan,
and Sister M. A. Berthelsen, of Sanford, all gave reports of their respective wards. . . .
By request a special prayer was offered ... in behalf of the sick and afflicted among
us. . . . Sister Dollie Russell, of Antonito, spoke a short time upon the duties of sisters
in the Relief Society. . . . Sister Margaret Haskell, of Manassa, said, "I feel to bear my
testimony that the spirit of God is with us. I believe a spirit of reformation is among
the Latter-day Saints. God has spoken from heaven, and His work is established on
earth. . . .
— Man' F. Crowther,
Stake Secretary, R. S.
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
TTEPHZ1BAH MENUHIN, as
accompanist, once again ap-
peared in concert with her famous
brother Yehudi Menuhin, at Car-
negie Hall in New York City in
November 1959. A child prodigy
like her brother, Hepzibah received
early acclaim for her remarkable
power and perception as a pianist.
After her marriage she went to live
on a 24,000 acre sheep ranch in
Australia, returning to Europe and
America occasionally for brief con-
cert appearances. Since 1954 she
has lived in London, but had not
appeared in the United States for
twelve years before her 1959 con-
cert.
I ILLIAN BARREL has been ap-
pointed Director of Public Re-
lations for the Israel Government
Tourist Office. She was formerly
on the staff of the Consulate Gen-
eral of Israel in New York City.
She has served as radio script writer
and editor for the Voice of Ameri-
ca, has worked on several commit-
tees for displaced persons in her
own country, and has acted as
publicity director for the Council
of Democracy of Israel.
gIRGIT NILSSON, Swedish so-
prano, recently sang the role of
Isolde in 'Tristram and Isolde" at
the Metropolitan Opera House in
New York City. Her voice was
rated by critics as the finest since
Kirsten Flagstad sang the same role
twenty years ago. They said her
voice was ''charged with power and
exaltation."
AMY LaFOLLETTE JOHNSON
has written a delightful history
of 'The White House and Its
Thiity-two Families" (published by
McGraw - Hill, New York) with a
"kind, serene, uncritical, non-parti-
san" point of view. All the First
Ladies are presented, complete with
children, guests, servants, and pets;
and all the Presidents, with their
problems, their cabinets, their world-
shaking decisions. The book is il-
lustrated with many excellent
photographs.
CTELLA SHEA and LOU BAR-
RETT, sisters, both elderly
widows, are still running the unique
Shea and Barrett Gift Shop in
Eureka, Utah, which has been their
career for more than thirty years.
Almost an "institution" in the fam-
ous mining town, the sisters have
outfitted hundreds of brides and
babies over the years, and have kept
their store well stocked with wom-
en's and children's clothing and
handmade articles for the home.
Many of the articles are made by
Mrs. Shea and Mrs. Barrett, and
others are stocked on an exchange
basis.
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 47
FEBRUARY 1960
NO. 2
(greatness QJrom uiighteous <bnd\
T
HROUGHOUT the earth the
peoples recognize and venerate
men for great and enduring attri-
butes and accomplishments. A
Latter-day Saint knows by the words
of Abraham that noble and good
men were known to the Heavenly
Father in the spirit world before
they were clothed with mortal
bodies:
Now the Lord had shown unto me,
Abraham, the intelligences that were or-
ganized before the world was; and among
all these there were many of the noble
and great ones;
And God saw these souls that they
were good, and he stood in the midst of
them, and he said: These I will make my
rulers; for he stood among those that
were spirits, and he saw that they were
good; and he said unto me: Abraham,
thou art one of them; thou wast chosen
before thou wast born (Abraham 3:22-23).
Among these "noble and great
ones" one would perhaps designate
two men whose birthdays are cele-
brated in the month of February —
George Washington and Abraham
Lincoln — the former instrumental
in winning freedom for and estab-
lishing the Nation under whose gov-
ernment the gospel could be re-
stored; and the other holding that
Nation indivisible as one in which
the gospel could grow strong to
spread over the earth. Washington
was born in affluence and reared
among educated men; Lincoln was
born in poverty amid backwoods
country, yet the Lord gave to both
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urance
trials and experiences which fitted
them to be his tools in fulfilling
his purposes — for both were prayer-
ful men seeking the guidance of
the Lord.
In modern times it has become
the vogue to search out real or
imagined weaknesses in men of
great accomplishments; but the writ-
ings of such critics, themselves not
great, will grow dim and vanish,
while the illustrious deeds of noble
men will shine with increasing in-
tensity and serve as beckoning
lights to those who would emulate
their greatness. It is proper to re-
spect and admire fellow mortals
who forward the lot of mankind
and to commemorate their great
accomplishments.
Especially today when children,
through modern media in their own
homes, may read of and see and
hear evil actions portrayed, it would
seem necessary for mothers to teach
their children wherein true great-
ness lies and impress upon them
that life is not a primrose path but
a continual struggle to preserve
one's righteousness and integrity.
It is essential to show children that
every great man had to withstand
and overcome temptations, endure
tribulations, and adhere to right. A
case in point are the lives of Abra-
ham Lincoln and Stephen A. Doug-
las. Greatness came to Lincoln and
disappointment and heartbreak to
Douglas. It is noteworthy that
Lincoln never raised his hand
EDITORIAL
97
against the saints. His moderation
toward a misunderstood and ma-
ligned people is in sharp contrast to
the lying accusation, in 1857, of
Douglas against the saints in Utah,
as he sought political preference by
accusing them "of all crimes known
to the penal code." This action
brought down on his head the ful-
fillment of the prophecy made to
him by the Prophet Joseph in 1843,
and Douglas was defeated for the
presidency. Greatness came to
Lincoln as the result of choosing
the right and living by the truth,
and failure to Douglas through his
self-interest and hypocrisy.
Accumulated minor evils grow in
one, if unchecked, to tip the scales,
in a crisis, away from righteousness,
while daily self-discipline and the
overcoming of selfishness will tip the
scales to righteousness: George
Washington refused a crown; Abra-
ham Lincoln did not compromise
with truth; the Prophet Joseph
Smith gave his life for the truth.
Each one passed through disap-
pointments, sorrows, trials and suf-
fering. Even the Savior learned
". . . obedience by the things which
he suffered" (Hebrews 5:8). If
repeatedly to the attention of her
children a mother brings such facts,
they will be strengthened and en-
couraged to resist temptations.
While children may not fully ap-
preciate the need for suffering the
cares and sorrows of mortal life, still
that mother who points out to them
the mastery of the sufferings and
temptations while indicating to
them the accomplishments of great
men, will guide them to the realiza-
tion that the triumph of a soul in
righteousness comes as the result
of aspirations, self-discipline, and
wise decisions in conformity with a
noble goal.
-M. C. S.
Soli
ff>,
ace tn Lr rayer
Rowena Jensen Bills
I closed my book, then closed my eyes in prayer.
Tonight my heart would linger in this room
Where shadows of today would blend with gloom
And follow when my footsteps reached the stairs.
Oh, that I might recapture for this bare
And empty soul some rapture from the loom
Of yesterdays; memories lifting doom,
Transcending out beyond this midnight air,
God knows my heart and knows my need for rest.
My prayers alone will comfort, end my quest,
My search for answer far beyond the scheme
Of mind. Enduring strength through faith — the stream
Of life — will come and flowering pastures green
Will speak of all eternal life unseen.
(yA Say, What 3s of ruth?
^HE day-by-day living of an hon-
est and truthful life of personal
integrity can be guided and blessed
by a knowledge and a realization of
life's eternal purposes.
A friend once asked a Latter-day
Saint woman why she so often re-
ferred to the teachings of her
parents and the attitudes and beliefs
of her ancestors, saying that it was
better to consider only the present
day, without reference or thought
to the past or the future.
The woman's answer explained
her belief in eternal continuity. For
the gospel has given us a knowledge
and understanding of the fulness of
the plan of salvation and our place
in the ancestral lineage. This all-
pervading truth tells us that we are
not living for one day alone, or even
for the earthly existence.
From the time of Adam there
were teachings upon the earth
which illuminated with purpose and
grandeur the lives of the people who
served the living God.
The Lord possessed me in the beginning
of his way, before his works of old. I
was set up from everlasting, from the be-
ginning, or ever the earth was. When
there were no depths, I was brought forth;
when there were no fountains abounding
with water. Before the mountains were
settled, before the hills was I brought
forth. . . . When he prepared the heavens
I was there: when he set a compass upon
the face cf the depth: When he estab-
lished the clouds above. . . . Then I was
by him, as one brought up with him:
and I was daily his delight, rejoicing
always before him . . . (Proverbs 8:22-30).
If we had not this great and ever-
lasting truth to guide our lives —
this knowledge of the Father's
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courts on high, where we com-
muned with our heavenly parents
— this knowledge of our privilege
of returning, in eternity, to our for-
mer home — if we did not have this
glorious blessing of truth, we might
be indeed as one on a journey
through a dark and forested land-
scape. We might see only the im-
mediate surroundings and have no
knowledge of the origin of our path
or of its destination. How could we
feel as much strength and serenity
and hope and faith if we had knowl-
edge of our present circumstances
only?
''Oh say, what is truth? 'Tis the
last and the first, for the limits of
time it steps o'er." All of the most
sacred events of earth life are given
a deeper and a more tender mean-
ing, because the light of truth glows
upon them.
[Recipes QJroni the I lorthwestern States 1 1 ttssioa
Submitted by Effie K. Driggs
Missionary Conference Meat Loaf
5 quarts meat 1 quart bread crumbs
lA c. salt 5 beaten eggs
1 Vz c. ground onion 3 c. milk
1 pt. wheaties 3 cans tomato sauce
1 pt. crumbled shredded wheat
Mix all ingredients together. Bake in 9" x 12" pyrex pans at 3250 F. for one hour.
This recipe serves 45.
Frozen Fruit Salad
1 can (small) diced fruit cubes 2 tbsp. mayonnaise
1 can (small) crushed pineapple sweet pickle juice
Vz c. nuts Vi pt. whipping cream slightly sweetened
1 small pkg. Philadelphia cream cheese cake coloring — red or green
Allow cream cheese to stand at room temperature until soft. Cream with spoon,
adding mayonnaise. When creamy and smooth, add enough pickle juice to make of
consistency of thick cream soup. Drain fruit cubes and add crushed pineapple with
its juice. Add part of chopped nuts, saving rest for top. Whip cream and sweeten it
slightlv, adding enough cake coloring to make it light green or pink. When cream is
sufficiently stiff to stand by itself, but not buttery, fold it into the cheese and fruit
mixture gently, but thoroughlv. Place in freezing tray and let stand overnight, if
possible. (When frozen, you may remove it from tray, wrap it in foil securely and
place in your freezer to keep indefinitely, but it will not taste good if left in freezer
tray uncovered for more than two days ) . The salad may be decorated with chopped nuts
and cherries, or you may make roses of cherry rings, with green pepper stems. Freeze
the decorations with the salad.
Two-Hour Rolls
2 yeast cakes 41/; c. flour
Vz c. water (slightlv warm) 1 tsp. salt
2 eggs, beaten well 4 tbsp. sugar
1% c. scalded milk (cooled)
Mix all the dry ingredients together and the liquids together. Combine and stir
with a spoon, until blended.
Let rise — roll out, and cut. Dip in butter. Make into Parker House Rolls.
Bake at 4000 F. for 10 to 15 minutes.
Fruit Cake
2 lbs. pitted dates (5 cups) 1 c. flour (sifted)
1 lb. Brazil nuts, whole (3 cups) Vz tsp. salt
1 c. maraschino cherries, drained 1 tsp. baking powder
1 c. mixed candied fruit 4 well-beaten eggs
1 c. sugar
Place all fruit in bowl. Sift dry ingredients. Sprinkle over fruit and mix lightly.
Add well-beaten eggs. Stir until all are lightly coated. Place in two pyrex loaf pans
or four small tin pans, which have been lined with two thicknesses of brown paper.
Bake 1 Vz hours at 3000 F. in small pans or 1 hour and 45 minutes in larger pans.
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Elders' Choice — Pineapple Cheese Salad
i c. crushed pineapple Vz c. cold water
Vi c. sugar i c. boiling water
i large lemon (juice) l c. grated cheese (mild)
2 envelopes gelatin Vi pt. cream (whipped)
Boil crushed pineapple, lemon juice, and sugar for five minutes. Soak gelatin in
cold water. Add i cup boiling water. When this begins to thicken, add crushed pine-
apple mixture. Last, fold in i cup mild grated cheese and Vz pint heavy cream
(whipped). Let stand in refrigerator.
Serve with mayonnaise diluted with cream, topped with mint, cherry, or parsley.
Best Brown Beans
3 c. dry pinto beans l can tomato sauce
2 ham hocks or two slices of ham i can tomato soup
i c. diced onions salt, pepper, and vegetable salt to taste
l c. diced celery
Cook beans with ham hocks or diced ham. When almost done, add diced onions,
celery, tomato sauce, and tomato soup.
Alaska Apricot Delight
i no. 2 Vi can peeled apricots i eggs, well beaten
or equivalent of cooked dried apricots Vz c. butter
i lb. vanilla wafers i pt. whipped cream
2 c. powdered sugar i c. chopped pecans
Mash apricots. Mix sugar, eggs, and butter. Blend well. Place Vz the wafer
crumbs in bottom of pan, add the egg mixture — add a layer of mashed apricots, fol-
lowed by a layer of whipped cream. Add the other half of the wafer crumbs. Let
stand over night in refrigerator. Serves 12.
Oregon Fizz
1 qt. pineapple juice 1 qt. sherbet, either lime or pineapple
1 qt. ginger ale 1 qt. vanilla ice cream
Blend all together with a beater and serve in punch cups.
Centennial Punch
3 c. sugar 1 qt. grape juice or cranberry juice
2 qts. water 1 small can crushed pineapple
12 lemons 1 c. pineapple juice
12 oranges 2 qts. ginger ale
Boil water and sugar 8 minutes. Cool. Add fruit juices and fruit. Let stand one
hour or longer, on ice. Add ginger ale and serve.
Washington Crab Salad
2 pkgs. lemon jello Vz tsp. salt
3 c. boiling water 1 tbsp. grated onion
3 tbsp. vinegar J4 c. cottage cheese
RECIPES FROM THE NORTHWESTERN STATES MISSION
101
Vi lb. fresh crab meat
1 c. chopped celery
2 tsp. pimento
!4 c. chopped green pepper
Vz c. mayonnaise
Add boiling water to lemon jello. When it begins to thicken slightly, add all
other ingredients. Place in refrigerator and cool until firm.
Idaho Quick Cookies
30 square graham crackers
1/4 c. condensed milk (approximately)
c. semi-sweet chocolate chips
or butterscotch chips
c. chopped nuts (more if desired)
Crumble crackers into a bowl and add chips and milk. Blend until the crackers
are moist. Bake in 32 50 oven until done, about ten to fifteen minutes. Cut in squares
and serve.
Pear Preserves
12 c. sugar
10 c. diced pears
1 bottle pectin
blanched almonds, if desired
2 chopped oranges
1 no. 2 can pineapple, diced
1 bottle maraschino cherries with juice
Let pears and sugar stand over night. In the morning, bring to boil, add pectin,
chopped oranges, pineapple, cherries, and almonds. Cook until thick, or according to
instructions on pectin bottle.
vUtth I iothtng in utts uiands
Maude Rubin
My morning, endless acreage of pleasure,
Was hedged by uncles.
They were my boundaries, my fences, my horizon.
My Uncle Walter bringing candy —
(Crackle of paper, narrow stripes of red and green).
My Uncle Tim had hard strong arms,
Orange freckles on his wrists.
He brought baseballs and marbles; fishing line.
But quiet as a sleeping wind,
The tallest, Patrick, came
With nothing in his hand ... no gift;
But stories on his lips:
Tales of a dog called Toby; of a farm,
Another acreage of morning, hedged by other uncles.
Then stories done, a game of mumble-the-peg!
Only the Essentials
Frances C. Yost
YOUNG Mike Palmer had
carried his bride over the
threshold of the old Miller
place. The house was run-down
and had been vacant for several
months, but the rent was cheap,
and that was important, when you
were just starting married life.
"Karen, I guess you're going to
find out that you have to do with-
out a lot of things that you're used
to," Mike Palmer said, as he made
a fire for her in the old coal and
wood range. "You're going to miss
cooking with electricity and doing
dishes with a dishwasher, and hav-
ing an automatic washer and dryer
for your laundry. Honestly, I feel
sorrv for you. It's sort of like pio-
neering in the year i960."
"I've thought of all those things,
Mike, but I still have you, and I
feel vour love and this old coal stove
will keep me warm. I have my two
hands for washing dishes, and, well,
I won't have to scrub clothes on a
washboard like the pioneers, be-
cause there is our own conventional
washer you bought at the second-
hand store." Karen laughed softly.
"It's going to be fun."
"You're a good sport, I'll say that
for you. But I want you to remem-
ber I just don't have money to burn
as your father has."
"Oh, Mike, Daddy doesn't have
money to burn. Why he's really
very careful with his money."
"Most people are that have mon-
ey. That is if they have gotten
ahead in this world. And believe
me, Karen, I mean to be successful
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like your father and some other men
I admire. So, I'm going to start
out by being careful about little
things. I want you to budget all
your spending and trim off all the
nonessential buying. If it's some-
thing we can't get along without,
why, fine, buy it. But if it's some-
thing we can jolly well manage with-
out, why pass it up and. . . ."
"Yes, I know, Mike. Only the
essentials. I'm going to be very
careful. You watch."
"I'm sure you will be. Bye for
now. Your ambitious husband is
going out into the world and make
a few honest dollars." Mike laughed,
and raised her chin for his kiss.
Alone, Karen surveved the old
house. There were curtains in the
living room, but they were faded
and full of holes. She would buy
some pretty flowered cretonne and
make drapes for the windows.
Karen found just what she want-
ed, flowered cretonne, in the yard-
age department, which was much
more economical than drapery cloth.
She sewed every moment while
Mike was gone all week. Then Fri-
day morning she hung the new
drapes. Why, they made all the
difference in the world to the whole
house. She could hardlv wait for
Mike to come home and see them.
\17HEN Mike walked in the door
he had eves only for Karen.
He gathered her into his arms and
kissed her tenderly. Then he raised
his head and saw the drapes. At
first his face registered surprise, and
ONLY THE ESSENTIALS
103
pleasure. Then, as if he had ap-
praised their value in terms of
money, his face hardened.
"Mike, I know what you're think-
ing. You like the looks of the
drapes, but you don't think we can
afford them."
'That's right, Karen. I believe
we could have managed with those
net curtains which were already here
in the house. You remember what I
said, only the essentials."
Karen felt hurt. Sometime she
would tell him how economical the
cloth had been, and that she had
sewed every stitch herself, not hired
them made by a professional draper.
It wasn't just spending the money
for the drapes. It was Mike she
was worried about. What type of
man had she married? She had
known him so well, but she hadn't
known this financial side of him.
Was Mike really close? Karen
somehow abhorred tightness in a
person. She surely didn't want to be
married to a man who inspected
the potato peelings to see if they
were thick or thin.
During the evening Mike com-
mented a time or two that he really
liked the drapes, and that they made
the whole house more beautiful,
and that perhaps her judgment had
been right about going ahead and
buying them.
]\JOW that the drapes were hung,
and the entire house had been
polished, Karen had time on her
hands. She dropped into the little
rocker she and Mike had purchased
at the secondhand store, the same
time as the stove. She wished she
had something interesting to read.
She wondered if The Relief Society
Magazine for the month was out
yet. It would be nice to subscribe
for the Magazine, have it delivered
to her home each month. But
Mike would probably class it among
the luxuries, as he had the drapes.
"Maybe our budget doesn't allow
for subscribing for the Magazine,"
Karen jumped up excitedly, "but,
by golly, I'm not going to miss a
single copy. I'm going right this
minute over to Mike's mother and
borrow her Magazine."
What had Shakespeare said:
"Neither a borrower, nor a lender
be." "Well, in spite of what he
said, I'm going borrowing, and I
hope Mother Palmer is a cheerful
lender. The Relief Society Maga-
zine should be passed around to
enjoy it."
"Of course you can take the Mag-
azine, Karen," Mrs. Palmer said
cheerfully.
"But if you haven't had time to
read it . . ." Karen hesitated.
"I can read it when you are fin-
ished. You go right ahead. I have
these few peaches to make preserves
of today, and oh, Karen, get a sack
from the drawer and take some of
these peaches home with you.
There's a jar of fresh cream in the
frig you can have. Mike just loves
peaches and cream."
"Oh, thank you, Mother Palmer.
This will answer my dessert prob-
lem for our supper, and we'll have
peaches on our cereal for breakfast."
Karen left the house with the
sack of peaches in one hand, a jar
of cream in the other, and The Re-
lief Society Magazine tucked under
her arm.
Karen curled up in the rocker and
enjoyed the afternoon with the
Magazine. "Why there are a dozen
poems, and each one is a treasure.
And three nice stories, besides the
serial. There are three worthwhile
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articles, and in the features for the Mike, tired from the day's work,
home are recipes and sewing hints, dropped into the little rocker where
and bits of wisdom." Karen had been, and picked up the
Magazine on the nearby table. He
1ZAREN closed the little Magazine started reading.
and held it almost lovingly to "Dinner, Mike," Karen called in-
ner. Why this Magazine could not vitingly. "Come and get it."
be classed as a luxury. A single issue "I've become interested in a story.
cost even less than twenty cents, Say, where did you get that little
and where could you get so much Magazine?"
for your money? But Mike had said "Oh, that's The Relief Society
nothing hut essentials. She guessed Magazine. I borrowed it from your
she would just have to figure on mother."
borrowing Mother Palmer's Maga- "You mean that Magazine's been
zine for awhile. in my home, and I've never noticed
"Well, it's time to start supper." it before?"
What would she fix? There were "Perhaps you didn't take time to
recipes in the Magazine. She opened read it, but it was there." Karen
it again. "How about a fluffy lemon laughed,
chiffon pie?" "Did you read it before you were
Karen checked the ingredients, married, Karen."
"I have everything to make it, luck- "Never missed an issue. Fact is,
ily, but I have the fresh peaches it's my favorite Magazine, Mike."
Mike's mother gave me. No need "Karen, it's a Magazine we should
for dessert. Oh, here's a main dish have in our home. You better make
that sounds interesting and nourish- out a check tomorrow and send for
ing, macaroni loaf. It has cheese a year's subscription."
and hard-boiled eggs. I'll make this, Karen felt something warm inside
and with a green salad, and some her. Why, Mike wasn't tight as
raisin cookies and the peaches and she had imagined at all. She
cream, such a meal should please guessed about the hardest thing
any hard-working man." about being a bride was to get used
Karen was busy for the next two to spending someone else's money,
hours, and she was complimenting Especially a new husband's, when
herself on baking the cookies in the he didn't have any more than when
coal stove and not burning a single he was courting and living with his
one, when Mike came through the folks, and not maintaining a house,
door. Yes, it was true, she would have to
"How's my pretty little wife?" He make sacrifices, go without things
kissed her lovingly. she was used to as Mike had point-
"Just fine, Mr. Palmer, and your ed out that first day, go without
supper is almost ready. Want to things she had taken for granted in
sit in the living room while I finish? her parents' home. But they would
It's a little warm in here." Karen be able to have and enjoy the im-
wiped her brow. It was warm cook- portant things of life, like The Re-
ing on a coal stove, but soon it lief Society Magazine. She could
would be chilly weather and the hardly wait for the postman to
same warmth would be inviting, deliver her first copy.
cJia cJtme for \^ei trade JLacu
IT is tin time in Jewel, Oregon, where Gertrude Lacy, a Relief Society sister, has
snipped and clipped with her magic sheers through a heap of discarded tin cans, and
wrought miracles. Can you imagine an ordinary tomato can, stripped of its gaudy
paper cover and emptied of its vitamin-laden contents, appearing again on your writing
desk as a bouquet of pansies? Or a baby food can lighting on your lapel, looking like
a real live butterfly? Mrs. Lacy has fashioned spiders, each spinning a web of its own.
There are dolls and doll furniture, even covered wagons, complete with oxen, shovels,
water buckets, and the usual pioneer gear. Her daisies, dogwood, and tulips know no
season, neither do they fade nor tarnish, but glow and glisten year after year.
One of the most charming results of her search for new designs for discarded tin
material is a blend of modern and Victorian motifs. Using the same circular back-
ground which formed the foundation for her Christmas ornaments, she applied flowers
cut from tin and painted them with transparent-colored laquers. The result is a
wreath with a frilled, nosegay look which can be used as a decorative accent at any
season of the year. These gay wreaths may be hung on the wall or placed flat on a
table as a centerpiece.
Her jewelry is another tin-craft highlight with a new approach; most anyone seeing
one of her green necklaces invariably exclaims, "It's absolutely precious."
Sister Lacy will be the first to assure you that the Relief Society work meeting
program did much to interest her in handicraft and its possibilities. Recently she spoke
on "Tinning Your Way to Beauty," at the Northwestern States Mission Relief Society
Convention. Here she displayed many of her attractive creations and gave a demon-
stration with this inexpensive, inexhaustible metal.
Jvindness
There is no grandeur like the shape of kindness. — Ida Isaacson
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The New Day
Hazel K. Todd
Chapter 5
Synopsis: Lynn Marlow, a dress design-
er, who lives in Chicago and is engaged
to David Talbot, returns to Springdale,
her home town, to visit her Aunt Polly
and to find out if she has really forgotten
her early love for Johnny Spencer. Johnny
had married a Southern girl and she had
died, leaving two children. Lynn meets
the children, and finally goes to Johnny's
home to see him.
AS Lynn watched, Johnny's face
became whiter. His lips
moved to say her name, but
there was no sound.
She didn't know when the child
slid from her lap. But, presently,
she was hugging her father's legs,
and he was resting his hand on her
head. But his eyes were still on
Lynn, and there were tears in them.
Then she stood up, shaking. The
first shock had passed. This
couldn't be Johnny. This was some
strange, unknown person she had
never seen before.
"Johnny," she said in a voice that
didn't belong to her. "Johnny . . .
I. . . ." She floundered for words,
but the right ones, if there were
any, were lost.
"Why . . . why did you come?"
She looked from his drawn face
to his shaking hand on the little
girl's head.
"I ... I "
"I asked her to come 'cause she
made Lindy a whistle." Peter was
looking curiously at his father.
Lindy blew the whistle shrilly.
Johnny leaned down and picked
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the little girl up in his arms. But
he never took his eyes from Lynn.
"If you came out of curiosity," he
said, "maybe you have been satis-
fied."
His words stung her vaguely. But
it was not so much his words, but
something else about him that made
her feel so faraway. True, they were
the same eyes, the same lock of hair
falling over his forehead, but he
was not the Johnny who had clung
so tightly to her memory.
"Peter," he said, still watching
Lynn, "you shouldn't ask strangers
into the house."
No, it was not the Johnny she
knew at all.
A strange calmness was taking
possession of Lynn. All the pent-up
anxiety she had felt with anticipa-
tion of meeting him seemed to melt
and run away leaving her quite clear
to think. She sorrowed for him
standing there — this Johnny who
had doodled on the margins of her
yearbook, this Johnny with whom
she had chased water skaters. But
this man standing before her, aloof
and faraway, was not that same
Johnny. He was a man grown bit-
ter and withdrawn, so distant from
her that she felt she could never
reach him.
"Please," she said, "I didn't come
to annoy you. I — I came because
I wanted to see you. I. . . ."
"You never seemed very anxious
to see me in the years past," he said
tersely.
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107
"Johnny, I want to help you.
I "
"I don't need your help, yours, or
anybody else's/' he said.
"But Johnny, you can't. . . ."
"Will you please go and leave us
alone!"
His face was drawn and his hands
were trembling. He looked old and
tired. He will kill himself and ruin
his children s Jives, she thought. But
there is nothing I can do.
"I'm sorry," she said. "I will go."
L
YNN started toward the door.
As she did so, she caught Peter's
gaze, puckered in a scowl. "You
didn't see the turkey nest," he said
accusingly.
Lynn paused involuntarily. Lindy
whimpered in her father's arms so
that, without looking at her, Johnny
slid her to the floor.
To Lynn's surprise, the little girl
came running to cling to her skirt,
sobbing.
She forgot Johnny standing there
accusing her. She leaned and
picked the child up and nestled the
golden head against her shoulder.
And then she remembered John-
ny. He was crying, crying as
though he were a little boy. When
she looked at him he turned and
went into the kitchen without say-
ing anything.
She stood, holding the child,
filled with conflicting emotions, of
pity to the extent that she almost
wanted to run after him, and of a
desire to run away from it all. It
was easier to run.
She loosened the child's arms
from her neck and stood her on the
floor. And then she said to the
scowling boy, "I'm sorry I don't
have time to see the turkey nest.
I must go."
She walked rapidly down the
path, feeling weak and confused and
almost guilty for running away.
This one thing she knew. It
stood out vivid and clear above the
confusion. She wanted David. She
wanted his calm serenity, his mature
wisdom. Now she knew why he
had put her off when she wanted
him to come with her, why he want-
ed her to see Johnny without him.
She had to find out for herself.
Funny how time could fly so quick-
ly. In that few minutes she had
looked into Johnny's face, she had
come to know what must be an
eternal truth — you can never quite
go back. You must go on and on
and on. The willow path, the
house by the mill, the sodas, and
the boy she had played with as a
girl and loved as a teenager, was a
lovely experience in the past. But
she had grown older now, with new
experiences and new needs. And it
was the new needs that cried out to
her.
"Oh, David," she whispered, "I
love you! I do love you! My house
by the mill is a house on a hill!"
In her turmoiled thinking, she
had paid no heed to the way she
went, and now she suddenly real-
ized that she had been following
the path winding round the hill and
had suddenly come to a dead end
in a secluded nook, with a willow
bench built snugly in the rocks and
foliage. Thoughtfully she moved to
it to sit on its rustic seat. And then
she suddenly gasped in astonish-
ment. Carved in fancy lettering
like the doodles on the margins of
a book was the name Lindy MarJow/
Johnny had made this bench to her
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memory. She looked up aghast at
the thought. There was an open-
ing in the tree branches. Like a
window it was, and silhouetted in
the window was Aunt Polly's house.
Johnny had sat there to think of
her!
She stood still, staring at the
name. Since she had looked into
Johnny's face, it was as though she
had been snapping the threads one
by one from some tangled dream,
and now suddenly she had com-
pletely broken the last strand, so
that it all became very clear.
How foolish they had both been,
striving to hold back the fleeting
past that no one could stay. Some-
one must help Johnny!
T YNN sat thoughtfully on the
edge of the rustic seat. Aunt
Polly had wanted to get her to come
home. Not alone because she want-
ed to see her. She and Mr. Jensen
had been trying to help Johnny.
Did they hope she could be recon-
ciled with him?
Lynn straightened up, suddenly.
Perhaps she owed Johnny this. After
all, it was, in a way, her fault — a
man grown morose and bitter, two
motherless children. She hesitated
in her thinking. Was it so much
her fault that she must take the
place of the dark-haired Southern
girl! But he had sent her away.
Besides, she didn't love Johnny any
more. That love belonged back on
a green hillside to David. There
must be a fairer way for everyone.
She had a great longing for
David. A sudden impulse to find a
phone and call him possessed her.
She stood up quickly, and then she
sat down again. She couldn't call
David, not yet. Not until she had
released Johnny from the hold she
had over him. But how, when he
refused to talk to her? Johnny was
a stranger to her now. Someone
had to help her, someone who knew
this new silent and bitter Johnny.
She paused again in her thinking.
Johnny still went to the drug store.
Of course! Mr. Jensen would
know more about him than anyone
else. Maybe there was some way
he could help her.
She rose from the bench without
looking back, and went down the
hill through the clover blooms.
Mr. Jensen's face lighted up when
he saw her.
"Lindy," he said, "it's wonderful
to have you here again."
"Could we sit somewhere?" Lynn
asked.
He led her toward hers and John-
ny's table.
"Oh, please," she said, "let's sit
somewhere else."
They sat at the opposite table.
"How is Aunt Polly?" he asked.
She looked at him calmly. "Aunt
Polly is very well. I have seen
Johnny."
"So you have seen Johnny, then?"
he asked a little wearily.
"Yes, I have seen Johnny and his
children. What do you think I can
do?"
He looked at her with delibera-
tion.
"I had thought you could either
marry him or release him from the
memory he holds of you."
She looked at him through a mist
of tears. "I can't marry him, Mr.
Jensen," she said. "I don't love him
any more. I wasn't sure until I
saw him."
He looked at her and nodded his
head slowly. "At least we have solved
that part of it. You see, it was
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necessary to make sure you were
marrying the right man, too."
Lynn looked down at her ring
and back into his face. "I love
David very much/' she said.
"I am sure you do/' he said and
patted her hand.
"What — what will happen to
Johnny?" Lynn asked. "He will
spoil his life and his children's."
"You must wake him up, Lindy.
Wake him up from that old dream,
just as you woke yourself up. He
seems to cling to it since he lost
his wife."
"But how? He doesn't even want
to see me. He ordered me out of
his house."
"I don't know how, Lindy. You
see, you have someone else. Johnny
doesn't."
"He has his children."
"Which is not quite the same.
But it might be a way."
HHHAT night Lynn's sleep was
filled with troubled dreams.
She awoke early with a great long-
ing for David. And why not? After
all, why should she try to help
Johnny? Especially when he re-
fused to be helped. Could she help
it if he built seats to her memory,
if he named his children after her,
if he chose to be a recluse! How
unfair had he been to his wife?
If she called David he would come
immediately, and she could go away
and forget Johnny and his unhappy
life. She slipped out of bed quick-
ly with a feeling of relief.
Wishing to avoid the disappoint-
ment in Aunt Polly's face when
she was leaving, Lynn waited until
Aunt Polly had slipped through the
kitchen door with her basket and
old straw hat to gather asparagus.
As Lynn reached the receiver from
the wall phone, her heart pounded
frightfully. How wonderful it
would be to hear David's voice.
"Long Distance, please," she said
to the inquiry. And then a sound
at the door made her turn half guilt-
ily, expecting to see Aunt Polly.
But it was not Aunt Polly. It
was Johnny's children. She stared,
unbelieving, at Peter with a Marine
cap sitting jauntily on the back of
his head, and Lindy with a huge
bow made from a piece of cloth
tucked in her golden curls.
"Peter!" she said aghast, "What
are you doing here?"
She became aware of a small voice
coming from the telephone receiver
she held in her hand. Only half
realizing what she did, she hung it
back on the hook. Then she col-
lected her wits.
"That is — I mean, did you come
to visit Aunt Polly?"
"We came to get you to see the
turkey nest," the boy announced.
"The turkey nest?"
"Sure. You didn't see it yester-
day."
There were no words in her to
match this boy. He took her breath
away. Under different circum-
stances it might even be humorous.
Here she stood helpless before a
very important little boy and a tiny
girl, decked out to make the best
impression, demanding that she
come and view a turkey nest. She
half laughed an odd sort of laugh
and dropped into the needlepoint
rocker there.
"What 'ya laughin' at?" Peter de-
manded sternly.
Again she felt inadequate.
"I'm — I'm sorry. I didn't mean
to laugh. That is, I mean I shall
be glad to see the turkey nest!"
There seemed nothing else to say.
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"Well, come on, then."
Keeping hold of Lindy's hand,
Peter turned and started through
the door.
T^HERE was nothing to do but
follow his commands. But how
could seeing a turkey nest possibly
help to solve anything? And if she
ran into Johnny what could she say
that would do any good, especially
when she felt sure he wouldn't
even listen to her? And besides, she
was becoming conscious of a new
worry. The children had seized
eagerly onto the friendship she had
offered them to fill a need that had
been denied them. It would already
be difficult to break away, without
carrying the friendship further.
Peter turned to see if she was
following. "Come on. We have
to see it before dinner, 'cause Lindy
has to go to sleep after dinner."
She began fumbling in her purse.
Peter was scowling impatiently.
"Well, why don't you come?"
"Could I please write a note to
Aunt Polly?" Lynn asked much the
same as she would have asked per-
mission from someone who had
jurisdiction over her.
"Well, hurry up," Peter answered
grudgingly, and watched her closely
while she scribbled a few hurried
words.
She folded the paper and stood it
against the cookie jar where she was
sure Aunt Polly would see it.
(To be continued)
xjLtberta LKevisded
Helen Kimball Oigill
The longing came to visit haunts of long ago,
To view again the well-remembered past, and so
I journeyed far and heard the feather-throated lark,
Take up Alberta's note of spring the surest mark.
I saw the garden's green, clothes swinging in the sun,
Small lakes all flashing blue till day is done;
And beading wheat of golden store for days to be,
The grassy hills and fields as far as eye could see.
I saw the Big Chief Mountain, so substantial, high,
And snow-capped Rockies bright against the sky.
I well remembered rainless land and, after toil,
We chafed to be expecting much of parching soil.
But, oh, the tender memories beyond compare,
When falling rain brought joy from deep despair.
But greater than the fruitage of the fields of grain,
Is love remembered and sweet friendship's golden chain.
With pleasure now I view the winding path we trod,
When shadows of the day hid not our faith in God.
Today I feel deep peace that drives away my fears,
And strength has come that is not born of sheltered years.
FROM THE FIELD
Hulda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Handbook of Instructions of the Relief Society.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Anna C. Merrill
WEST CENTRAL STATES MISSION, BILLINGS (MONTANA) BRANCH
RELIEF SOCIETIES PRESENT "MEET THE WOMEN OF THE NEW
WORLD" AT THE CLOSING SOCIAL, May 1959
Seated in front, left to right: Esther Prigmore as Mary Rowlandson; Bertha Smith
as Margaret Winthrop; Jeanne Stoddard and her seven children as Anne Bradstreet
and her children.
Standing, left to right: Leota Bolingbroke as "the Voice of History"; Beyrle
Esplin as Mrs. Noyes; Dorothy Knight as Sarah Pierrepont; Shirley Brown as Anne
Hutchinson; Esther McArthur as Sarah Kimball Knight; Joann Schneiter as Pocahontas.
Anna C. Merrill, President, West Central States Mission Relief Society, reports:
"The three Billings Branch Relief Societies combined their efforts for their closing
social in May. Under the direction of the three literature class leaders: Dorothy Knight,
Leota Bolingbroke, and Esther McArthur, a pageant was presented entitled 'Meet the
Women of the New World.' "
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Photograph submitted by Mina Giles
WASATCH STAKE (UTAH) RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING MOTHERS
PRESENT MUSIC FOR THE AFTERNOON SESSION OF STAKE
QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, August 30, 1959
Front row, left to right: Mina Giles, President, Wasatch Stake Relief Society;
Thelma Wootton, First Counselor; DeEsta Jordan, Secretary-Treasurer; Marjoria
Provost, chorister; Ethel Watson, organist.
There are sixty-four members in this chorus, representing all twelve wards of
Wasatch Stake.
Photograph submitted by Grace C. Gamble
ONEIDA STAKE (IDAHO) MOTHER AND FIVE DAUGHTERS WHO HAVE
SERVED AS WARD RELIEF SOCIETY PRESIDENTS
Seated, Reda Ricks Allen, who was president of Riverheights Ward Relief Society,
Mount Logan Stake, 1946-51. Sister Allen is the mother of eleven living children,
seven daughters and four sons. Three have served on missions; one is now a bishop.
Standing, daughters who have served or who are now serving as ward Relief Society
presidents, left to right: Dorothy A. Miles, President, Banida Ward, Oneida Stake
1948-53; Opal A. Georgeson, President, Pocatello Second Ward Relief Society, Pocatello
Stake 1949-54; Irene A. Young, President, Thatcher Ward Relief Society, Portneuf
Stake 1952-55, now a member of the Portneuf Stake Relief Society Board; Margaret V.
Allen, President, First Ward, Idaho Stake, 1955-57; Eunice A. Lindblom, appointed in
August 1959 as president of Balboa Ward Relief Society, San Francisco Stake.
Grace C. Gamble is president of Oneida Stake Relief Society.
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Photograph submitted by Cleona W. Hedenstrom
OGDEN STAKE (UTAH) RELIEF SOCIETY, DEAF BRANCH
SINGING MOTHERS
Left to right: Marie Allen, work meeting leader; Ruby Smith, chorister; Beth
Jensen, President; Phyllis Penman, social science class leader; Berdean Christenson,,
Second Counselor.
Fawn Woodward and Cleo Peterson were absent when the picture was taken.
Cleona W. Hedenstrom, President, Ogden Stake Relief Society, reports: "The
singing of this group of sisters is conducted by Beth Jensen in sign language. The
Ogden Stake Relief Society Board deem it a privilege to have the honor of working
with these outstanding sisters." This Deaf Branch Relief Society was organized four
years ago. It has an enrollment of twenty-nine members as of November 1959.
NAMPA STAKE (IDAHO) RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE DEPARTMENT
PRESENTS OUTSTANDING PROGRAM AT STAKE RELIEF SOCIETY
LEADERSHIP MEETING, September 1959
Alta Fuhriman, President, Nampa Stake Relief Society, reports an outstanding
program presented at the September Relief Society Leadership Meeting under the direc-
tion of Ida Cafferty, stake Magazine representative. A song "Relief Society Magazine,"
written especially for the occasion by Agnes Frank, was sung as an introduction to the
program.
"Previous to the meeting," Sister Fuhriman reports, "Sister Cafferty had a tape
recording made of talks given by women from eleven wards, in which they made com-
ments and gave their views, summarizing the benefits which they had received from
the Magazine. Sister Cafferty took a colored slide picture of each participant, and
showed the pictures on a screen, while she played the recordings. To complete the
program, she showed a picture of our stake president and our high council advisor, who
also made comments and recommendations to subscribe to the Magazine. The program
was enthusiastically received, and I believe it will help in increased subscriptions and
use."
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Photograph submitted by Clara S. Roberts
SOUTH SEVIER STAKE (UTAH), CENTRAL WARD FORMER RELIEF
SOCIETY PRESIDENTS HONORED AT DINNER, March 17, 1959
Front row, seated, left to right: Florence Staples; Vilate Anderson; Clara Staples;
Stena Anderson.
Standing, left to right: Rosalee Marble, present President; Berneice Anderson; Helen
Gray; Montez Christiansen; Pearl Ence; Alice Christensen.
Sister Marble reports: "Our presidency paid tribute to each of the nine former
presidents at a dinner on March 17th, at which time all members of the stake Relief
Society presidency and their partners were invited to join us. The program was very
inspiring, with a history given of our ward Relief Society from its organization in 1874.
The feature attraction of the evening was a small golden tree decorated with the pictures
of the sisters who have been presidents of the ward Relief Society since its organization."
Clara S. Roberts is president of South Sevier Stake Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Marcia C. Steele
WASHINGTON STAKE RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, WASHINGTON, D. C,
May 24, 1959
Marcia C. Steele, President, Washington Stake Relief Society, fourth from the
right on the first row; Lucile R. Smith, First Counselor, second from the right on
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the third row; Laura G. Snow, Second Counselor, seventh from the left on the second
row; Mary Stimpson, stake Magazine representative, second from the left on the second
row; Zina Willey, visiting teacher message leader, fifth from the left on the second
row; Alfarette Liddle, work meeting leader, third from the right on the third row;
Rose Blana, theology class leader, first on the right on the third row; Verna Sanford,
literature class leader, sixth from the left on the third row; Dorothy McDonnel, organ-
ist, fifth from the left on the third row; Ellen N. Barnes, chorister, center front, hold-
ing baton.
Sister Steele reports: "Sister Ellen N. Barnes, chorister, and Sister Dorothy
McDonnel, organist, are giving outstanding service in directing our Singing Mothers.
Thev are tireless in their efforts to give the individual wards aid and suggestions. Music
and the appreciation of it have increased many fold through their efforts.
"This chorus has sung at the Washington Stake spring quarterly conference for
the past three vears. The chorus is composed of sisters from thirteen Relief Societies
in the Washington Stake."
Photograph submitted by Phoebe H. Norton
TAYLOR STAKE (CANADA) NEW RELIEF SOCIETY STAKE BOARD
Front row, seated, left to right: Beth H. Toomer, Secretarv; Avilda B. Barker,
First Counselor; Phoebe H. Norton, President; Lillian H. Taylor, Second Counselor.
Back row, standing, left to right: LaDean P. Thomson, literature class leader;
Mildred B. Harker, visiting teacher message leader; Ruth R. Rice, work meeting leader;
Ruth S. Hovey, Magazine representative; Jehzell M. Harker, social science class leader;
Lois D. Blumell, theology class leader; Inez W. Gibb, chorister.
Tena T. Sabey, organist, was not present when this picture was taken.
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Photograph submitted by Ada K. Sneddon
RENO STAKE (NEVADA) PRESENTS DRAMATIZATION "LEGACY" AT
NOVEMBER 1959 LEADERSHIP MEETING
Standing, front, left to right: Velda Ronnow; Louise L. Bell, Stake Education
Counselor.
Second row, left to right: Claire Richards, soloist; Lora Allen, stake chorister;
Cclia Kcele; Bonnie Taylor; Irvin Schelin, stake Relief Society advisor; Ethel M. Ball,
stake literature class leader; Carla Johnson; Veone Hastings.
Back row, left to right: Jo Ann Stewart; Joyce Young; Ann Garrett, stake organist.
Ada K. Sneddon, President, Reno Stake Relief Society, reports: "The program
'Legacy' has created greater interest in the literature lessons. Four wards are repre-
sented in the picture."
Photograph submitted by Eleanor Nielsen
BEN LOMOND STAKE (OGDEN, UTAH) RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING
MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR BRIGHAM YOUNG UNIVERSITY —
OGDEN AREA LEADERSHIP WEEK, June 24, 1959
Betty Tatton (fourth from the left on the front row), Maxine McAllister (sixth
-from the left), and Colleen Cummings (first at the right on the front row), each was
.at the piano, in turn.
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Eleanor Nielsen, President, Ben Lomond Stake Relief Society, stands second from
the left on the second row; First Counselor Mildred Cragun stands at the left rear,
Evelyn Hull, Second Counselor, is third from the left in the second row.
Wanda Chatelain, director of the chorus, stands at the right in the top row.
Sister Nielsen reports: "The eighty-five members of the Ben Lomond Stake
Singing Mothers felt very honored at being asked to sing at the devotional services of
the first Brigham Young University — Ogden Area Leadership Week held in the new
Ogden Tabernacle, June 24, 1959."
Photograph submitted by Alyce B. Glade
BOISE STAKE (IDAHO) RELIEF SOCIETY PRESENTS, OCTOBER 17, 1959,
PORTRAYAL OF MEMBERS OF THE FIRST RELIEF SOCIETY
Front row, left to right: Belle Carlton as Emma H. Smith; Eva Patten as Sarah
M. Cleveland; Julia Kirby as Martha Knight; Ruby Smidt as Bathsheba W. Smith;
Violet Wappctt as Desdemona Fulmer; Ruth Fisher as Elizabeth Jones; Lauraine Wil-
liams as Eliza R. Snow; Evelyn Harrell as Sophia Robinson; Gladys Marsh as Sophia
R. Marks; Lydia Crist as Phebe M. Wheeler.
Second row, left to right: Verna Hansen as Elvira A. Coles; Mellisa Ward as
Elizabeth Ann Whitney; Alice Davies as Philinda Merrick; Grace Miley as Phebe Ann
Hawkes.
Back row, left to right: Grace Hopkins as Sarah M. Kimball; Marian Kowallis as
Margaret A. Cook; Irene Hayes as Sophia Packard; Naomi Eller as Leonora Taylor.
Alyce B. Glade, President, Boise Stake Relief Society, reports: "The members of
the original Relief Society organized by the Prophet Joseph Smith were portrayed by
eighteen members of the Boise Stake for a most successful Visiting Teachers Conven-
tion. The convention program was directed by Clara Anderson, stake visiting teacher
message leader, assisted by the Stake Relief Society Presidency: Alyce B. Glade, Zola
Jeppson, and Eugenia Carver."
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Photograph submitted by Effie K. Driggs
NORTHWESTERN STATES MISSION RELIEF SOCIETY PRESIDENCY AT
WORK DEPARTMENT DISPLAY, ANNUAL MISSION RELIEF SOCIETY
LEADERSHIP CONFERENCE, PORTLAND, OREGON, May 2d and 3d, 1959
Left to right: Calysta Stratford, Education Counselor; Effie K. Driggs, President;
Sonoma Y. Toolson, Work Director Counselor.
Sister Driggs reports: "The picture was taken at one of the many displays in the
work department. This display represents part of the ideas suggested and made by
the mission Relief Society presidency. Included are: sock clowns to match Christmas
boots; yarn octopuses wearing straw hats, flowered bonnets, and 'beanies,' all for
Christmas giving; Christmas stockings and red-nosed reindeer. Also, there were re-
covered quilts, new appliqued quilts made from flour sacks, quilts tied with bright yarn
and with blanket-stitched edges; suits and dresses from old suits and coats; closet
storage boxes from grocery cartons, attractively covered with leftover wallpaper. There
were smart aprons for all occasions, inexpensive guest towels made from linen yardage,
and attractive clothes for children made from used suits.
"It was work meeting, and the presidency, wearing their aprons, greeted the sisters
ready for a model work meeting. The theme of this work meeting was 'Help direct
the 1959-60 traffic to better homemaking ideas.'
"Included in the one hundred thirty women attending the conference were all
district presidencies and several officers from each branch of the mission, including two
from faraway Alaska. The Sunday sessions were spiritual and informative. Compas-
sionate service, the visiting teacher program, The Relief Society Magazine, and the les-
sons for the coming year were all featured with valuable helps given for each district
and branch. The goals for the conference were designed to aid the sisters towards
self-improvement, greater accomplishments, and a higher level of spirituality in their
homes and in the Relief Society organizations."
N DEPARTMENT
cyheology — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 24— The Great I Am
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Sections 36, 37, and 38)
For Tuesday, May 3, i960
Objective: To understand the position of Jesus in the plan of salvation and of his
concern for his saints.
TpHE revelation (D & C, Section
38), which will command our
attention principally in this lesson,
was given at the beginning of the
year 1831. The Church had been
organized for about nine months.
It was a year during which a large
number of revelations were received
for the development of the growing
kingdom of God. Many command-
ments during this period were given
for the temporal as well as for the
spiritual welfare of the saints.
The Great I Am
Section 38 opens with some im-
portant truths regarding the Savior.
Other books of scripture give affir-
mation of those truths, but this rev-
elation provides us with a clear
understanding of Jesus' position in
the plan of salvation before his
mortal birth.
Thus saith the Lord your God, even
Jesus Christ, the Great I Am, Alpha and
Omega, the beginning and the end, the
same which looked upon the wide ex-
panse of eternity, and all the seraphic hosts
of heaven, before the world was made;
The same which knoweth all things,
for all things are present before mine
eyes;
I am the same which spake, and the
world was made, and all things came by
me.
I am the same which have taken the
Zion of Enoch into mine own bosom; and
verily, I say, even as many as have believed
in my name, for I am Christ, and in mine
own name, by the virtue of the blood
which I have spilt, have I pleaded before
the Father for them (D & C 38:1-4).
In verse one we find the title to
this lesson — The Great I Am. This
title or name of the Christ is related
in meaning to Jehova, a name which
the Jews regarded as sacred to the
extent of not saying it. They sub-
stituted the Hebrew name Adonai
(Ad-o-ni), meaning "the Lord."
The use of the title I Am is found
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in other scriptures and is definitely
associated with Jesus in this and
other revelations. (See D & C
29:1; 39:1.) Certain Jews at the
time of the Master criticized him
and declared themselves to be of
Abraham's Jineage, and thereby be-
lieved themselves preferred above
others. The Savior used this expres-
sive statement in declaring his di-
vine calling: ". . . Verily, verily, I
say unto you, Before Abraham was,
I am" (John 8:58). In effect, the
Lord was saying that before Abra-
ham was, he was Jehova, or the
Being that gave revelation to the
prophets.
Seraphic Hosts
In this revelation (Section 38),
the Redeemer is said to have sur-
veyed the wide expanse of eternity
and also to have seen ". . . the se-
raphic hosts of heaven, before the
world was made" (D & C 38:1).
Those who compose the seraphic
hosts are seraphs or angels, without
wings, however, for when wings or
flying is associated with such person-
ages, the language is symbolic and
conveys the meaning of the power
of motion.
Jesus as Creator
As one continues to read this reve-
lation, he is immediately impressed
with the additional point that Jesus
is truly the creator of this earth and
that all things come by him. (»See
D & C 38:3.) His work with the
children of men in this world has
not been confined to what we some-
times call the New Testament or
meridian period, but, from the very
beginning, he is the Lord of the
Old Testament dispensations. No-
tice how verse 4 points this up:
I am the same which have taken the
Zion of Enoch into mine own bosom;
and verily, I say, even as many as have
believed in my name, for I am Christ, and
in mine own name, by the virtue of the
blood which I have spilt, have I pleaded
before the Father for them (D & C
38:4).
For those who obediently follow
the Master's way of life, the full
benefits of his atonement are avail-
able, while, on the other hand, those
who become hardened in their lives
must look forward to a ". . . judg-
ment of the great day, which shall
come at the end of the earth"
(D & C 38:5). In the meantime,
however, the hardened or "wicked"
unrepentant remain in chains of
darkness in the spirit world. (See
D & C 38:6; and Alma 40:11-14.)
The same Jesus who was born in
the meridian of time gave command-
ments and revelations to the proph-
ets of the Old Testament. The Book
of Mormon brings out clearly that
it was Jesus Christ who spoke to
the prophets before the time of his
birth into mortality. (See I Nephi
19:10; 3 Nephi 11:10, 14.) Impor-
tant in this regard are the words of
the resurrected Jesus to the Ne-
phites as recorded in 3 Nephi
15:5, 10.
God Is Perfect
That God is perfect is acclaimed
in scripture. (See Mt. 5:48; D & C
93:21, 26.) Revelation 38 makes
known concerning the Lord's knowl-
edge of all things.
The same which knoweth all things,
for all things are present before mine
eyes (D & C 38:2).
In Section 88, verse 41, the Lord
also makes known his characteristic
of being all-knowing.
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121
From the Lectures on Faith,
prepared for use in the School of
Elders, during the winter of 1834-
35, there are some meaningful pas-
sages concerning the perfection of
God in all things. These two quo-
tations are important :
. . . God is the only supreme governor
and independent being in whom all ful-
ness and perfection dwell; who is omni-
potent [all-powerful], omnipresent [every-
where present] and omniscient [all-know-
ing]; without beginning of days or end
of life; and that in him every good gift
and every good principle dwell. . . .
. . . Without the knowledge of all
things, God would not be able to save
any portion of his creatures, for it is by
reason of the knowledge which he has of
all things, from the beginning to the end,
that enables him to give that understand-
ing to his creatures by which they are
made partakers of eternal life and if it
were not for the idea existing in the minds
of men that God had all knowledge it
would be impossible for them to exercise
faith in him (Lectures on Faith, Lec-
ture 2, paragraph 2; Lecture 4, paragraph
11).
God is not relatively perfect, but
his perfection is absolute. Latter-
day Saints have recognized that our
knowledge of the Lord and our re-
lationship to him are known by
what he has revealed on these mat-
ters. Men may believe ideas which
are not in the revealed word of
God, but these notions are but the
products of their own thinking and
not from him who knoweth all
things. (See 2 Nephi 9:20, 28-29.)
The Latter-day Saint finds in
modern revelations great comfort,
strength, and a security such as that
experienced by Ammon of The
Book of Mormon, as related in
Alma 26:35-36.
"I Am in Your Midst"
Continuing in Section 38, we
learn:
But behold, verily, verily, I say unto
you that mine eyes are upon you. I am
in your midst and ye cannot see me;
But the day soon cometh that ye shall
see me, and know that I am; for the veil
of darkness shall soon be rent, and he
that is not purified shall not abide the
day (D & C 38:7-8).
Here again, the Lord gives further
assurance to his saints that there is
reason to rejoice for "I am in your
midst and ye cannot see me." As
one remains true to the faith, the
Spirit whispers to his soul that this
is the work of God, and that he is
directing it through his appointed
servants. He has not always made
himself visibly manifest, but the
time will come when he shall with-
draw the veil separating himself
from us, and we shall then behold
him. The comforting assurance
that he is with his Church and peo-
ple abounds in the soul of every true
Latter-day Saint.
One may be reminded of the vi-
sion of the Prophet Joseph Smith in
the Kirtland Temple in 1836, when
he said:
I saw the Twelve Apostles of the
Lamb, who are now upon the earth, who
hold the keys of this last ministry, in
foreign lands, standing together in a circle,
much fatigued, with their clothes tattered
and feet swollen, with their eyes cast
downward, and Jesus standing in their
midst, and they did not behold Him.
The Savior looked upon them and wept
(D. H. C. 11:381.)
As with them, so today the Savior
is continuing to direct his Church
on the earth.
When the Lord at his coming
shall be seen, it is said that the puri-
fied will abide that day. Those who
have accepted the Savior as their
Redeemer are declared in this reve-
lation to be "clean." As to the
world at large, the powers of dark-
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ness prevail upon the earth because
of the great apostasy which will
bring destruction to the tares, or
the wicked. (See D & C 38:10-12.)
Notwithstanding the saints are
''clean/' there are those among them
who are not taking full advantage
of their privileges in receiving great-
er blessings. Although the Lord is
mindful of their weaknesses, he will
extend his mercy to them. (See
D & C 38:14.)
Section 37
In this short revelation given in
December of the year 1830, the Lord
makes known that the Prophet and
Sidney Rigdon were to discontinue
their present activities in "translat-
ing" or revising the Bible until they
go to the Ohio valley. The mem-
bership of the Church was com-
manded also to "assemble together
at the Ohio/' This is the first time
that a place of gathering was indi-
cated for the Church as a whole.
We have already learned of the
growth of the kingdom in that area.
(See Lesson 22.)
A Promise oi the Future
Returning to Section 38, we learn
that the Lord reveals his intentions
concerning the temporal welfare of
the saints. It is evident that not
only the Prophet Joseph Smith but
the poor among the saints had
prayed for the time when the condi-
tion of those in need might be
improved. Taking cognizance of
their condition, the revelation reads:
And for your salvation I give unto you
a commandment, for I have heard your
prayers, and the poor have complained be-
fore me, and the rich have I made, and
all flesh is mine, and I am no respecter
of persons.
And I have made the earth rich, and
behold it is my footstool, wherefore, again
I will stand upon it.
And I hold forth and deign to give
unto you greater riches, even a land of
promise, a land flowing with milk and
honey, upon which there shall be no curse
when the Lord cometh;
And I will give it unto you for the land
of your inheritance, if you seek it with all
your hearts (D & C 38:16-19).
What are the promises of the
Lord to his people who cry unto
him for relief from a lack of the
things of this earth? The day will
come, when the Lord stands upon
the earth, that his people shall in-
herit it and receive all of the
bounteous blessings that the earth
will provide. By what means will
these blessings come to the saints?
Here is a commentary upon this
question:
God's design was to give to His gath-
ered people great riches, even a land of
promise, "upon which there shall be no
curse [of destitution! when the Lord com-
eth."
The Lord promises to give His Saints
such a land, if they will seek it with all
their hearts. It cannot be obtained except
through diligent, God-directed effort (Doc-
trine and Covenants Commentary, page
204).
Notice in verse 20 how the prom-
ised land is to be:
... for the inheritance of your chil-
dren forever, while the earth shall stand,
and ye shall possess it again in eternity,
no more to pass away (D & C 38:20).
Were the saints to wait until
some long period ahead for the re-
lief of the poor among them? No,
certain members of the Church in
the New York area were to "look
to the poor and the need}", and ad-
minister to their relief that they
shall not suffer." (See D & C
38:34"35-)
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The commandment had gone
forth that the members were to go
to the Ohio, where the law of the
Lord would be given his people.
(See D & C 38:32.) The keeping
of this law would bring great spirit-
ual blessings as well as temporal. It
is the Lord's purpose to provide for
his saints in his own way and not
after the manner of the world. An
explanation of that law of the Lord
is spoken of in the revelations to
be studied in this course of study.
There are yet great blessings to be
received by the Lord's people.
As we return to a study of the
future as envisioned in this revela-
tion, it is apparent that there were
questions among the members in
1831 concerning the laws of the
land, and what the saints might
expect. When the Savior comes to
inaugurate his reign, he shall be the
ruler of the earth, and then men
shall truly be free.
But, verily I say unto you that in time
ye shall have no king nor ruler, for I will
be your king and watch over you.
Wherefore, hear my voice and follow
me, and you shall be a free people, and
ye shall have no laws but my laws when
I come, for I am your lawgiver, and what
can stay my hand? (D & C 38:21-22).
From the Great I Am, who is
our Creator and Redeemer, we are
asked the question (38:22): "What
can stay my hand?" The voice of
the Spirit to each Latter-day Saint
verifies the all-perfection of God
and his designs for his people. The
answer to this question is given in
many scriptures. (See D & C
76:3; 121:33; Mt- 24:35-)
Be One in Purpose and Action
Following the assurance that the
time will come when a righteous
reign of law will begin with the sec-
ond coming of Christ, the Lord in-
forms us that each person is to
esteem his brother as himself and
to ". . . practice virtue and holiness
before me" (D & C 38:24). When
men so esteem their brothers, then
they will have come, in a large
measure, to the objective of the ac-
complishment of the Lord's pur-
poses by following this important
truth: "... I say unto you, be one;
and if ye are not one ye are not
mine" (D & C 38:27). Unity in
faith and oneness in action have
been the objectives of the Church
in all dispensations. The necessity
for unity in The Church of Jesus
Christ is strongly expressed in Jesus'
words as he prayed to the Father
that his apostles might "be one, as
we are." Furthermore, it was his
desire that all those who would be-
lieve on him:
. . . may be one; as thou, Father, are in
me, and I in thee, that they also may be
one in us: that the world may believe that
thou hast sent me (John 17:21).
As the saints of this dispensation
become unified in the building up
of the kingdom of God upon the
earth, to which they are committed,
then the world will more readily be-
lieve in the Christ and in the res-
toration of the gospel. Are not peo-
ple attracted to the standard of
righteousness by the fruits of the
gospel as they are observed in the
lives of the members of the Church?
This was the prophetic understand-
ing of Ezekiel who saw the gather-
ing of Israel in our dispensation,
and who saw that the unbeliever
should ". . . know that I am the
Lord, saith the Lord God, when I
shall be sanctified in you before
their eyes" (Ezekiel 36:23). (Italics
are the author's.) (See Ezekiel
36:21-24.)
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So important is the need for unity
among the members of the Priest-
hood of the Church and also the
other members, that President }.
Reuben Clark, Jr. of the First Presi-
dency has often admonished the
Church to come more fully to a
oneness of action.
We are all bound together as one, and
insofar as we fail, as individuals, to carry
on the work which we are supposed to do,
we are to that extent hindering the carry-
ing on of the work of the Lord and to
that extent we are responsible for the
lack of fulness of growth that may occur
on account of our failure (One Hundred
Twenty-First Semi- Annual Conference,
September 29, 30, and October 1, 1950,
page 171).
The Civil War
Consistent with Ihe theme of this
revelation regarding the Lord's con-
cern for his people, another im-
portant part of the future is called
to their attention. The first intima-
tion of the coming American Civil
War is indicated in this manner:
Ye hear of wars in far countries, and
you say that there will soon be great wars
in far countries, but ye know not the
hearts of men in your own land.
I tell you these things because of your
prayers; wherefore, treasure up wisdom in
your bosoms, lest the wickedness of men
reveal these things unto you by their
wickedness, in a manner which shall speak
in your ears with a voice louder than that
which shall shake the earth; but if ye are
prepared ye shall not fear (D & C
38:29-30).
Important in understanding this
portent of things to come is this
comment from the Doctrine and
Covenants Commentary, page 208:
In the United States the opinion pre-
vailed that internal troubles, such as those
from which France, Belgium, Poland, and
some other countries suffered, could not
arise in the great Republic. The people
generally did not know what was in the
hearts of men, but the Lord knew, and
He gave in this paragraph, the first intima-
tion that there would be civil war in the
United States. . . .
If they [the saints] were wise, they
would prepare themselves by gathering to
one place. As a matter of fact the Saints
did, in due time, go to the valleys of the
Rocky Mountains, and in those impreg-
nable "chambers" they were effectively
secluded "for a little moment, until the
indignation be overpast" (Isa. 26:20).
Seek the Riches of Eternity
After the Lord counseled his peo-
ple to care for the needs of the
poor (D & C 38:35), reference is
made to the time when his servants
will be endowed with power from
on high and sent forth to the na-
tions. (See D & C 38:38.) Not
many years later, when the Church
was assembled in Ohio, a great
Pentecostal feast was enjoyed at the
dedication of the Kirtland Temple
and manifold blessings accrued to
the Church membership therefrom.
(See D & C, Section no.)
Significantly, this revelation draws
to an end with the admonition that:
... if ye seek the riches which it is the
will of the Father to give unto you, ye
shall be the richest of all people, for ye
shall have the riches of eternity; and it
must needs be that the riches of the earth
are mine to give; but beware of pride, lest
ye become as the Nephites of old
(D & C 38:39).
This stern reminder of the Ne-
phite period and the destruction of
their civilization and people is one
to be remembered. Examples of
the results of pride and other evils
as emphasized by Nephite historians
who saw them either in vision or
who witnessed the destructions are
worthy of careful consideration.
(See 2 Nephi 26:10; 3 Nephi 6:15;
Moroni 8:27.)
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To the Relief Society sisters who
dedicate so much of their time and
effort to the assistance of those in
need, the words of Jacob will give
encouragement to continue and fur-
ther to assure their own eternal wel-
fare.
Think of your brethren like unto your-
selves, and be familiar with all and free
with your substance, that they may be
rich like unto you.
But before ye seek for riches, seek ye
for the kingdom of God.
And after ye have obtained a hope in
Christ ye shall obtain riches, if ye seek
them; and ye will seek them for the intent
to do good — to clothe the naked, and
to feed the hungry, and to liberate the
captive, and administer relief to the sick
and the afflicted (Jacob 2:17-19).
Section 36
The short revelation numbered
thirty-six was addressed to Edward
Partridge, who later became "a bish-
op to the Church." (See D & C,
Section 41.) It was during the
month of December 1830, that he
was baptized. In this revelation he
is called to preach the gospel boldly.
(See D & C 41:1, 3.) By his receiv-
ing the Holy Ghost, Brother Part-
ridge was to be taught "the peace-
able things of the kingdom" (D & C
36:2). As a missionary is called to
bring people to repentance, so this
recent convert to the Church was to
speak peace to the souls of men who
would thus be rescued from the evils
of the world (See D & C 36:6.)
We have in this revelation the
first indication that temples were to
be constructed in this dispensation.
The Lord says, ". . . I will suddenly
come to my temple" (D & C 36:8).
Edward Partridge was present in the
Kirtland Temple when the Savior
accepted it as his own. (SeeD&Cr
Section no.)
Questions iox Discussion
1. What evidence do we have for the
fact that Jesus of the New Testament is
the same Being who gave revelation to
the prophets of the Old Testament?
2. What assurance do we find in this-
lesson that the Lord is with his Church
today?
3. What indication is there in this les-
son that the Lord recognized the prayers
of his saints? In what way?
4. According to this lesson, what bless-
ings will come to the faithful saints when
the Savior comes?
5. Of what necessitv is it for Latter-day-
Saints to be unified in purpose and action?
Visiting cJeacher 1 1 tessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 24— "Be Faithful Unto the End, and Lo, I Am With You. . . ."
(D & C 31:13).
Chiistine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, May 5, i960
Objective: Only by enduring to the end can we be with our Father in heaven and:
hope to reap his choicest blessings.
IT is a rule of life that each of us, and temptations. One of the rea-
along with joy, success, and ac- sons we are put on this earth is for
complishment, must meet his share us to learn how to stand firm and
of trials, troubles, disappointments, strong against these buffetings. At
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no time should we boast we are the eternities to come" (MIA
saved. As long as we live we are Theme, 1943-44).
subject to the possible temptations Being faithful unto the end con-
of Satan. This is a fundamental sists simply in meeting each day's
part of the great plan of salvation, problems and temptations con-
Neither can we at any time hope to structively and righteously as they
sit back and rest upon past successes come. One of the beautiful and
and achievements. We either pro- encouraging aspects of life's experi-
gress and grow or we slip backwards, ences is that each problem met and
The Lord hopes we will live joy- surmounted strengthens us to meet
ously, courageously, and enthus- the next. If we approach them in-
iastically all the days of our lives, telligently, all of life's experiences,
We are promised, if we do this, we good or bad, can serve as stepping
shall receive rich, eternal blessings, stones to a stronger, more stalwart
In The Book of Mormon, King character.
Benjamin says: Many of the influences which
... if they hold out faithful to the end divert us from constant faithfulness
they are received into heaven ... for the are not the big problems but life's
Lord God hath spoken it (Mosiah 2:41). little temptations. In the western
The Lamb declared: ". . . if they part of the United States stands a
endure unto the end they shall be forest of trees which, for centuries,
lifted up at the last day ... (I have withstood the rigors of winds
Nephi 13:37). and storms. Today, despite their
As we ponder this message, "Be stalwart heights and sturdy roots,
faithful unto the end, and lo, I am they are slowly but surely dying,
with you . . ." let us remember that Minute worms have worked their
". . . These words are not of man way under the bark and into the
. . . but of me, even Jesus Christ, hearts of the trees. These little
your Redeemer, by the will of the termites are killing trees which for
Father" (D & C 31:13). centuries have withstood mighty
It is an encouraging fact that the storms.
Lord gives us no commandment nor So it is with life, often it is the
admonition which is beyond our little temptations which enter into
ability to obey. The command- our souls and weaken our resistance,
ment "to be faithful unto the end" Some of these destroying influences
may, at first glance, seem to be an consist of such things as greed, false-
extremely severe one. We know our hood, deception, shortness of tem-
own weaknesses and the ease with per, arrogance, fault-finding, slander,
which we can succumb to them, and intolerance. If we guard against
Furthermore, of course, we never these little weaknesses and meet
know under what circumstances or each problem honestly, courageous-
when our own end will come. How ly, as it comes, recognizing that none
then can we be constantly faithful? of us can see the end from the
President Grant gives us an ex- beginning, then the Savior has as-
plicit answer. He said, "Let us all sured us that he will be with us and
do the will of our Father in Heaven will help us to endure to the end.
today, and we will then be prepared He has promised: "Be faithful unto
for the duty of tomorrow, and for the end, and lo, I am with you. . . ."
Vvork llleettng — Physical Safety Factors
in the Home
(A Course Recommended for Use by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 8— Simple First Aid Helps
Charlotte A. Larsen
For Tuesday, May 10, i960
Objective: To show how the knowledge of first aid can be valuable in helping
oneself and family in cases of emergencies.
THIRST aid is defined as the im-
mediate and temporary care
given the victim of an accident or
sudden illness until the services of
a physician can be obtained. All
adults should have some training or
knowledge of first aid in order to
be prepared for any such emergency.
First aid is more than a dressing
or a splint. It commences with the
calming effect, of one who knows
what to do, upon the stricken per-
son. He must know what not to
do as well as what to do. Thus he
avoids the errors so commonly made
through well-meant but misguided
efforts, knowing that any of these
first aid measures should not be
overdone, knowing that if they are
overdone they may turn out to be
more harmful than helpful, and
knowing that the moving of injured
parts should be kept to a minimum.
Burns
Prevention of burns is more
satisfactory than treatment, especial-
ly since burns are the largest cause
of accidental death among small
children and one of the most im-
portant causes of death among chil-
dren up to fifteen years of age. A
severe or extensive burn should be
seen at once by a physician. If shock
is present, treat it first. Keep the
injured person lying down with his
head low, wrap him in blankets and
keep him warm. If he is conscious,
give him small drinks of water fre-
quently.
Poisoning
When a person swallows poison
one is faced with a need for immedi-
ate action. Call a doctor. If you
know what the poison is, tell him,
and ask him what you should do
until he arrives. Remember two im-
portant things:
1. Dilute the poison with fluids.
2. In many cases it is expedient to
induce vomiting quickly.
Give four to seven glasses of
either lukewarm salty water, soda-
water, baking soda solution, several
teaspoonfuls to a half glass of water,
or plain lukewarm water to the
patient. After the victim has
drunk several glasses of the solution
in quick succession, vomiting may
be induced by using a finger in the
back of the throat. Repeat the di-
luting and washing out process,
if it appears that poison still remains
in the stomach. Then give the an-
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tidote for the poison if known.
(Do not try to induce vomiting
in cases of swallowing alkali, lye, or
acid.)
Broken Bones
Unless it is absolutely necessary
to move a person with a broken
bone, don't do anything except ap-
ply an ice bag to the injured part
to relieve pain, until professional
help arrives. If the injured person
must be moved, keep him lying
down flat; move him on a wide
board, such as an ironing board or
door. Broken bones in hand, arm,
or shoulder should be supported by
a sling.
Wounds
Most wounds heal quickly if they
are cared for properly, but wounds
can become extremely serious if
infection develops. Most infections
result from neglect of simple in-
juries, such as small cuts or scratches.
Remember, get immediate first aid
for all wounds, no matter how slight
they may seem.
.First Aid Kits
Every home should have a first
aid kit, and the knowledge of how
to use it. There is a unit-type kit,
which has a complete assortment of
first aid materials put up in stand-
ard packages. Each unit package
contains one or more individual
dressings, each dressing complete in
itself, and sealed in a sterile wrap-
per. All liquids for treating injuries
are put up in individual, sealed glass
ampoules, and consequently cannot
deteriorate. There are no bottles to
spill or break. Illustrations and in-
structions for the use of the con-
tents are on the front of each pack-
age. The contents are clearly indi-
cated on the top side in bold type.
Unit refills are easy to obtain.
Relief Society members have
always been encouraged to know
how to care for illness and emer-
gencies in their homes. A knowledge
of some first aid principles is a
necessary part of caring for one's
family.
Questions
i . What is the definition of first aid?
2. Explain the value of a first aid course.
3. Discuss, the necessity of having first
aid kits available.
Viz inter (garden
Eva Willes Wangsgaard
Hillocks of white
In the cold garden where
Rose-ruffled petals
Once scented the air.
Foliage of crystal
Where hummingbird wings
Jeweled altheas
To sate hungerings.
With icicle poniards
Tall white soldiers stalk
Forbidding all comers
The unbroken walk.
JLtterature — America's Literature —
A New Nation Speaks
Lesson 16— Thomas Jefferson (1743-1826)
Elder Brian t S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 149-154)
For Tuesday, May 17, i960
Objective: To understand and appreciate Jefferson's contribution to the American
way of Life.
Jefferson's Influence on
His Contemporaries
\ movement so vast as the found-
ing of a new Nation can never
be the work of any one man; on the
other hand, neither is it a com-
munal movement, rising spon-
taneously, anonymously into exist-
ence. Being aware that each man
in his own time makes his unique
contribution, if one were to work
from the outside of the Revolution-
ary movement toward its center,
removing first those men least indis-
pensable, a strong case might be
made that the last man to go might
be Thomas Jefferson.
The War for Independence was
a liberalizing culmination of modern
man's belief in his own ability un-
der God to perfect himself and his
governing institutions to heights
never before attained; it was one
of the greatest ventures in faith
throughout recorded history. All
peoples of the world have marveled
at the courage and sincerity of pur-
pose of the signers of the Declara-
tion of Independence who wrote:
'with a firm reliance on the protec-
tion of divine Providence, we mu-
tually pledge to each other our
Lives, our Fortunes, and our sacred
Honour/'
It is particularly for Americans
to realize that the American Revolu-
tion was the first revolution. More
than any other, its aspirations were
higher, its accomplishments have
been more enduring than those fol-
lowing. And its credo, the great
words which molded all factions
into one greatness of purpose, and
which afterward have been carved in
stone to carry the torch of the de-
parted Founding Fathers to later
generations— these words came not
so much from Jefferson's pen as
from his heart and head. Jefferson
was supremely qualified to write the
Declaration of Independence. Its
phrases are immortal because in
writing it he has translated into liv-
ing words eternal principles. And
this, his greatest literary achieve-
ment, is entirely consistent with the
entire pattern of his life, as proved
by his formative impact on his con-
temporaries during the first fifty
years of the young Nation's exist-
ence when patterns were being
formed, a tone established, a direc-
tion pointed, which have ever since
characterized the American national
personality.
Jefferson's Life
Encircled within Jefferson's per-
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THOMAS JEFFERSON
sonal seal was his motto, "Rebellion
to tyrants is obedience to God/'
His origins prepared him for such a
motto; his maturity became its real-
ization. Born in Albemarle Coun-
ty, Virginia, he had had bred in
his bones the love of freedom and
individuality which have always
characterized rural, agricultural life.
At age seventeen he entered Wil-
liam and Mary College, was admit-
ted to the bar at age twenty-four,
and was a gentleman farmer in 1775
when he was chosen a delegate to
the Continental Congress. After
writing the Declaration of Inde-
pendence in 1776, he became a
member of the Virginia Assembly
and, in 1779, was elected Governor
of Virginia. From that date until
his retirement to Monticello, his
country estate near Charlottesville,
Virginia, in 1809 at age sixty-six,
most of his energies were divided
among his many public offices and
the role he liked best: that of a
gentleman farmer. He was a mem-
ber of Congress, minister to France,
Secretary of State, Vice-President of
the United States, and President
from 1801 to 1809. Yet so large
and liberal a man was he that the
offices he held were secondary to his
thought, both in his own mind as
in ours.
Jefferson died at Monticello on
July 4, 1826, the fiftieth anniversary
of the signing of the Declaration of
Independence. Ten days before his
death he wrote a letter to Roger C.
Weightman declining an invitation
to attend anniversary commemora-
tive exercises. An excerpt from his
letter reveals love of liberty still to
be his dominant passion, and the
world-wide fulfillment of the Dec-
laration of Independence his great-
est hope:
May the Declaration of Independence
be to the world . . . the signal of arousing
men to burst the chains under which
monkish ignorance and superstition had
persuaded them to bind themselves, and
to assume the blessings and security of
self-government. That form which we have
substituted, restores the free right to the
unbounded exercise of reason and freedom
of opinion. All eyes are opened, or are
opening, to the rights of man. . . . The
mass of mankind has not been born with
saddles on their backs, nor a favored few
booted and spurred, ready to ride them
legitimately, by the grace of God.
How consistently Jefferson fol-
lowed the words of his motto, "I
have sworn upon the altar of God
eternal hostility against every form
of tyranny over the mind of man."
This can be seen also from his tomb-
stone, carved with the three ac-
complishments for which he wished
to be remembered. Two of these
accomplishments were statements
which he wrote in defense of free-
dom; the third was the establish-
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ment of a university which directly
reflected his image, since, as the
architect, he drew every window
and fireplace; as the landscape
gardener he placed every tree and
bush; he pushed the bill creating
the University through the Virginia
State Legislature, then handpicked
the faculty and the student body,
the courses to be taught as well as
the books in the librarv— all dedi-
cated to his concept of education's
role in creating a free society.
His tombstone reads:
Thomas Jefferson
Author
Of the Declaration of American
Independence
of
The Statute of Virginia
For Religious Freedom, and
Father of the University of Virginia
The Versatile Jefferson
Strongly resembling his older
contemporary and good friend,
Benjamin Franklin, Jefferson was
interested in almost all phases of
life around him. He invented an
ingenious dumb-waiter and weather-
measuring device for Monticello, of
which he was the architect, and
which set the fashion of the classic
Greek column which became so
prominent in Southern mansions.
He dearly loved music. As one of
his Negro slaves recalled when inter-
viewed in 1840, Jefferson owned
three ''fiddles," and more often
than not played at least a half hour
following the evening meal, as well
as in the afternoon. And never did
the Negro see him riding or walk-
ing out-of-doors unless he was sing-
ing. In his fields of alfalfa and
tobacco he was happiest, believing
in the balancing, restorative quali-
ties of nature.
He introduced many new seeds
into America, was one of the first
to practice systematic crop rotation,
and carried on a voluminous corre-
spondence in both Europe and
America on agricultural as well as
scientific topics. A skilled mathe-
matician, he employed calculus as
a daily tool. He made a pioneer
anthropological study of the Indian
to prove him not inferior to Euro-
pean races, and did the same for
plants and animals, filling his Paris
apartment with animal skeletons to
prove American bison, bear, and
deer larger than their European
counterparts. He was a lifelong
friend to science, his vast personal
library— which he sold to his coun-
try after the destruction of the Li-
brary of Congress by the British in
1814 — contained many scientific
writings. It contained also many
selections from the classical writers,
for daily, as time permitted, Jeffer-
son read Greek and Latin. In addi-
tion he had a good knowledge of
French, Spanish, Italian, and Anglo-
Saxon. His personal correspondence
was so large that in the present
decade it is being published for the
first time, at the rate of two over-
size volumes each year. When com-
pleted in the 1960's, his published
papers will comprise one of the
largest collections of personal writ-
ings in existence.
Jefferson's need for friends never
ceased. Even though he was to eat
alone, his table was never set for few-
er than eight. He did as much as any
man to shape the beautiful tradition
of the Southern gentleman. Being
incapable of believing in man's
''irresistible corruption," he believed
that self-love, the great corrupter of
man's virtue, can be controlled,
even largely eliminated, through
education of the natural good which
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Jefferson passionately believed lay
within every man's breast. In his
own words:
I believe sincerely in the general exis-
tence of a moral instinct. I think it the
brightest gem with which the human
character is studded, and the want of it
more degrading than the most hideous
of bodily deformities. . . . Nature hath
implanted in our breasts a love of others,
■a sense of duty to them, a moral instinct,
in short, which prompts us irresistibly to
feel and to succor their distresses.
To his dear friend, Dr. Benjamin
Rush, he wrote his personal list of
the virtues in descending order of
importance: 1. good humor; 2. in-
tegrity; 3. industry; 4. interest in
science. In a letter to his grandson
he defined "politeness as good hu-
mor; it covers the natural want of
it, and ends by rendering habitual a
substitute nearly equivalent to the
real virtue." But more precious
even than endeavoring to make life
pleasant for others was his esteem
for honor and morality, for him the
supreme personal virtues:
Give up money, give up fame, give up
science, give up the earth itself and all it
contains, rather than do an immoral act
.... Never suppose that in any possible
situation or under any circumstances it
is best for you to do a dishonorable thing,
however slightly so it may appear to you.
So deeply ingrained was Jeffer-
son's esteem for man as man that he
always bowed to everyone he met,
including his freed Negro slaves on
his own estate. When his grandson
refused to bow as Jefferson himself
exchanged bows with a Negro, Jef-
ferson waited a moment until the
grandson had fully absorbed the
contrasting behaviors, then said to
him softly, "Do you permit a Ne-
gro to be more of a gentleman than
yourself?"
He hated and feared slavery, since
he could not envision how slave-
holders could ever endow their chil-
dren with the proper esteem for the
divinity of the human soul. He made
certain that the influential North-
west Ordinance of 1787, which
shaped the policy for colonizing the
vast Ohio Valley, stipulated that
education was to be compulsory and
that no slavery was to be permitted.
Thinking of slavery, he wrote in his
Notes on Virginia, "I tremble for
my country when I reflect that God
is just."
The Aristocratic Jefferson
Jefferson's friend Thomas Paine
was in Europe when he wrote The
Rights oi Man, a book which so
rashly attacked the British govern-
ment that it caused Paine endless
pain, even in America. One might
summarize Jefferson's contribution
by saying that in our new Nation
he championed the rights of man as
Paine might have done. When in the
five years preceding Jefferson's elec-
tion to the Presidency, in 1800, the
Federalists became so fearful of all
change and criticism that they
passed the Alien and Sedition Acts
which empowered them to imprison
anyone who belittled the adminis-
tration, it was Jefferson and Madi-
son who drafted the Virginia and
Kentucky Resolutions, which reaf-
firmed the basic concept of the Con-
stitution, namely, that government
must ever be based on the will of
the governed, and that without the
right to speak freely that will is
denied. He saw the Sedition Act
"as an experiment on the American
mind to see how far it will bear an
avowed violation of the Constitu-
tion," and believed that had not
these laws been repealed, the Fed-
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133
eralists' next step would have been
to declare the President a lifelong
office, soon afterward to be ad-
dressed with royal title.
This form of aristocracy Jefferson
felt to be artificial, entrenched
though he found it to be in the
minds of his countrymen, who
seemed to have forgotten the ideals
of the Revolution two decades
earlier. Wrote Jefferson, 'The Rev-
olution of 1800 was as real a
revolution in the principles of our
government as that of 1776 was in
its form." Despite Federalist ac-
cusations that Jefferson was imbued
with the diabolical French philoso-
phies of reason, immorality, atheism,
and confiscation of property, he was
elected President in 1800; his con-
cept of natural aristocracy thus be-
came dominant through the eight
years following.
He believed that form of govern-
ment best 'which provides the most
effectually for a pure election of
these natural aristoi into the offices
of government/7 While he never
believed in electing mob leaders or
ignorant or irresponsible men, he
believed fervently that his "natural
aristocracy" would triumph and the
future of the Nation thus be secured
if his two great conditions were ful-
filled: government on the local lev-
el, and education of the people.
Every government degenerates when
trusted to the rulers of the people
alone. "The people themselves,
therefore, are its only safe deposi-
tories." To protect themselves,
then, the people must be instructed.
First Jefferson would have them
know who they were.
Persuaded that "the good sense
of the people will always be found
to be the best army," Jefferson dedi-
cated his life to his faith in the com-
mon man as few other Americans
have ever done, save perhaps Lin-
coln and Whitman. Writing in
later life to his friend John Adams,
he defined an artificial aristocracy
or aristoi as one "founded on wealth
and birth, without either virtue or
talents." He ever deserves our
esteem as the great champion of
natural aristocracy:
The grounds of this are virtue and tal-
ents. Formerly, bodily powers gave place
among the aristoi. But since the inven-
tion of gunpowder has armed the weak
as well as the strong with missile death,
bodily strength, like beauty, good humor,
politeness and other accomplishments, has
become but an auxiliary ground for dis-
tinction. . . . The natural aristocracy I
consider as the most precious gift of na-
ture, for the instruction, the trusts, and
government of society (Text, page 152).
This definition of man Jefferson
could never dream of questioning,
just as he never questioned that "all
men are created equal." Without
any qualification he really believed
that the people themselves, when
enlightened through education, free-
dom of press, and freedom of wor-
ship, are the only source of wise
government. As he wrote to du
Pont de Nemours:
We both love the people, but you
love them as infants whom you are afraid
to trust without nurses, and I as adults
whom I freely leave to self-government.
But Jefferson also was wise enough
to know that if ever the masses of
people become indifferent to the
processes of government, almost in-
stantly those who govern them
will become wolves. Preliminary
to the people's freedom of choice,
Jefferson emphasized three vital
preliminary freedoms: freedom of
the press, freedom of education, and
freedom of religion.
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Jefferson was entirely free of any
self-righteousness, so fully did he
believe that, though the people
might be misled for a time, soon
they and they alone define truth.
No one could give truth a greater
chance to prove itself than did
Jefferson when he said:
The wise know too well their own weak-
ness to assume infallibility; and he who
knows most knows how little he knows.
In order that truth might con-
stantly be redefined by each suc-
ceeding generation, freedom of the
press was for Jefferson absolutely
necessary. As President of the
United States no one save perhaps
Lincoln received greater abuse in
the public press than did Jefferson.
This he bore with serenity, making
no attempt to silence his attackers.
As stated in his second Inaugural
Address on March 4, 1805, he was
permitting an experiment to be
made to prove whether "freedom of
discussion, unaided by power, is not
sufficient for the protection of
truth." This sentiment merely
amplifies one of the grandest sen-
tences Jefferson ever uttered, as
phrased in his first Inaugural Ad-
dress:
If there be any among us who would
wish to dissolve this Union, or to change
its republican form, let them stand un-
disturbed as monuments of the safety with
which error of opinion may be tolerated,
where reason is left free to combat it.
To Jefferson, so long as man's
mind is free, he is worthy of com-
plete trust. Knowledge of his con-
viction on this score makes his
attitude toward newspapers some-
what more understandable and
rational, as stated in a letter written
in 1787:
The basis of our government being the
opinion of the people, the very first object
should be to keep that right; and were it
left to me to decide whether we should
have a government without newspapers, or
newspapers without a government, I
should not hesitate a moment to prefer
the latter. But I should mean that every
man should receive those papers, and be
capable of reading them. . . . Cherish,
therefore, the spirit of our people, and
keep alive their intention.
We have already received some
insight into his great belief in educa-
tion by his creation, almost single-
handed, of the University of Vir-
ginia. Yet, if we are to gain true
perspective into his spirit, we should
say, in fairness, that it is impossible
to overemphasize the importance
of education in Jefferson's code of
values. In his own words:
Every government degenerates when
trusted to rulers of the people alone. The
people themselves, therefore, are its only
safe depositories. And to render them
safe, their minds must be improved. . . .
The influence over government must be
shared among all the people.
Jefferson drew up a bill for the
establishment of public libraries,
but schools were of first importance.
His system of holding annual com-
petitive examinations within each
borough or county, with winners in
each state receiving tuition-free
scholarships to the state university,
is being practiced for the first time
in our own generation, as seen in
the national competitions for high
school graduates. But perhaps his
greatest battle in education was to
free it entirely from domination of
the state church, which Jefferson
spoke of as "the severest contest in
which I have ever been engaged/'
The evil which he combatted
seems to us inconceivably remote,
yet it still exists in many European
and other countries of the world.
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135
For example, were you a Catholic
or a Lutheran in present-day Ger-
many, in addition to paying your
income tax once a year, you would
also pay your church tax. But the
money would be paid, not to your
church, but to the government,
which in turn subsidizes the min-
ister of your chosen faith. Jefferson
could not agree that forced payment
under government supervision to
any church, was consistent with the
intention of the Declaration of In-
dependence. Framed in 1777, his
Virginia Statute of Religious Lib-
erty is the most famous single docu-
ment in the history of American
religious freedom. The purpose of
this bill was to separate forever
church and state and church and
school; thus it was he who kept the
United States from ever having an
"official" or national religion. Al-
though this bill was not passed until
1786, almost ten years after Jefferson
first wrote it, Jefferson felt it to be
one of the major documents ever to
come from his pen. The first sen-
tence gives us its direction and
tone:
Whereas Almighty God hath created
the mind free; that all attempts to influ-
ence it by temporal punishments or
burthens, or by civil incapacitation only
to beget habits of hypocrisy and meanness,
are a departure from the plan of the Holy
author of our religion. . . .
Thus in religion, in freedom of
the press, in social and aristocratic
titles, it was Jefferson who was ever
fighting to make certain that the
gulf between the theory and prac-
tice of the Nation, as stated in the
Declaration of Independence and
the Constitution, was never allowed
to widen sufficiently to endanger
those principles which he and the
Founding Fathers had held most
dear.
The Declaration of Independence
Who reads a book on July 4th?
Few do; everyone should. What
better time, what better way to re-
new rapport with the Founding
Fathers than to read aloud each
Independence Day at least the be-
ginning and ending paragraphs of
that greatest national literature, the
Declaration of Independence? Such
a solemn, annual ritual seems to
exemplify mature patriotism at its
best, particularly if done within
family groups.
Although this most famous docu-
ment in American history was pro-
duced by a committee of five
appointed by the Continental Con-
gress, with but few minor changes,
the organization and phrasing are
Jefferson's. His great achievement
was that he was so entirely at one
with the will of the group that he
knew what was in their hearts; then
he phrases this statement of those
emerging beliefs in a condensed
statement of immortal clarity, sim-
plicity, and eloquence:
We hold these truths to be self-evident,
that all men are created equal, that they
are endowed by their Creator with certain
unalienable Rights, that among these are
Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.
That to secure these rights, Governments
are instituted among Men, deriving their
just powers from the consent of the
governed, — That whenever any Form of
Government becomes destructive of these
ends, it is the Right of the People to
alter or to abolish it, and to institute new
Government, laying its foundation on such
principles and organizing its powers in
such form, as to them shall seem most
likely to effect their Safety and Happiness
(Text, page 150).
Since Jefferson's wording was ac-
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cepted by the entire Congress, he
was as successful in speaking for
those gentlemen of principle and
courage as he has been for succeed-
ing generations. Indeed, this is the
source of its strength: through Jef-
ferson's words all of us find expres-
sion for our commonly shared
convictions as to what we are, and
what rights and privileges we grant
to each other as members of the
same great Nation.
It should be pointed out that not
until these very words of the Dec-
laration of Independence had been
written, accepted, and circulated,
did Jefferson's revolutionary ideas
become crystallized. Then the Dec-
laration began to cause reaction and
stimulation among those for whom
it spoke. Jefferson expressed in a
letter written in 1825, scarcely more
than a year preceding his death,
this point concerning the origin of
the Declaration:
There was but one opinion on this side
of the water. All American whigs thought
alike on these subjects. When forced,
therefore, to resort to arms for redress,
an appeal to the tribunal of the world was
deemed proper for our justification. This
was the object of the Declaration of In-
dependence. . . . Neither aiming at the
originality of principle or sentiment, nor
yet copied from any particular previous
writing, it was intended to be an expres-
sion of the American mind, and to give
to that expression the proper tone and
spirit called for by the occasion.
So near to the hearts of the
American people are the results of
this Declaration that it is almost
impossible to judge it objectively;
yet time has done this for them.
It is easy to conjecture that some-
one else could have phrased it
equally as well; perhaps this is so.
Yet until someone else composes a
more memorable statement of the
great and commonly accepted
American belief, a considerable debt
to Thomas Jefferson must be ac-
knowledged both for his great words
and for his life of principle and
integrity out of which they came.
Thoughts ior Discussion
1. What elements of the Enlighten-
ment are exemplified in Jefferson's life
and character?
2. Do you feel he exemplifies his own
definition of aristocracy?
3. For Jefferson why was education of
such importance?
4. In your own estimation, what was
Jefferson's principal contribution to the
Declaration of Independence?
Star ViJ or as
Dorothy J. Roberts
If the dart of bitterness
Has pierced the layered bark of silence
To the living center, pour
The Savior's words over the wound.
Here in the midnight silence, let
His syllables mend the tissue's bruise,
Till the wound becomes scar, the scar
Becomes healed and at length forgotten.
Social Science — Spiritual Living
in the Nuclear Age
Lesson 7— Creative and Spiritual Living — Pathways to Peace — Part II
Elder Bhine M. Porter
For Tuesday, May 24, i960
Objective: To explore the ways in which creative and spiritual living can contribute
toward building a world of peace and good will toward men.
The Quest for Peace in Society
''THE need for world peace is
obvious. No matter how gloomy
the picture may appear at times, one
optimistic fact exists— each one of
us can make a contribution toward
world peace and good will toward
men. It is important, however, that
we actively assume responsibility for
putting our own house in order.
What the world needs is individuals
who are living a practical religion,
who are living applied Christianity.
We need not only pray, "Thy king-
dom come. Thy will be done in
earth, as it is in heaven" (Mt. 6:10),
but individually to work and strive
to create the kind of world in which
these conditions may prevail.
Pertinent to this thought, Charles
Wagner, author of The Simple Life,
makes this comment:
Each person's base of operation is the
field of his immediate duty; neglect this
field, and all you undertake at a distance
is compromised. First, then, be of your
own country, your own city, your own
home, your own church, your own work-
shop; then, if you can, set out from this
to go beyond it. That is the plain and
natural order . . . (McKay, David O.:
Gospel Ideals, page 292).
This implies that if religion is to
make a contribution in our quest
for peace, it must not only be a sub-
jective feeling, but also an expression
of that feeling manifested in human
associations and social relations.
Knowing a thing or merely feeling
an assurance of the truth is not suf-
ficient. ". . . to him that knoweth
to do good, and doeth it not, to
him it is sin" (James 4:17).
Christ invited us to follow in his
steps in order that we might have
life more abundantly. Those indi-
viduals who experience satisfaction
and happiness by living creatively,
by serving their fellow men, indi-
viduals who are dedicated to the
creation of a still better world for
everyone, are traveling the course
which we charted toward a better
world. President McKay said:
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-
day Saints, accepting Christ as the reve-
lation of God to man, believes that Jesus
in his life and teachings reveals a stand-
ard of personal living and of social rela-
tions, which, if fully embodied in indi-
vidual lives and in human institutions,
would not only ameliorate the present ills
of society but also bring happiness and
peace to mankind.
If it be urged that during the past two
thousand years so-called Christian nations
have failed to achieve such a goal, we
answer that all failure to do so may be
found in the fact that they have failed
to apply the principles and teachings of
true Christianity (McKay, David O.:
Gospel Ideals, page 97).
We believe firmly that the basis upon
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which world peace may be permanently
obtained is not by sowing seeds of dis-
trust and suspicion in people's minds; not
by engendering enmity and hatred in hu-
man hearts; not by individuals or nations
arrogating to themselves the claim of
possessing all wisdom or the only culture
worth having; not by war with resulting
suffering and death from submarines,
poison gas, or explosions of nuclear bombs.
No! The peace that will be permanent
must be founded upon the principles of
righteousness as taught and exemplified by
the Prince of Peace, our Lord and Savior
Jesus Christ, "For there is none other
name under heaven among men, whereby
we must be saved" (McKay, Llewelyn
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Needed— Better Human Relations
The key to world peace will more
likely be found in better human
relations than in establishing more
laws or issuing more command-
ments. We have learned through
centuries of experience that a com-
mandment alone does not make a
person love another. We have
learned that if a person is filled
with hate and anger and hostilities,
the passing of a law does not remove
the hate, anger, and hostility. At-
tempts to command and legislate
kindness, mercy, and love appear to
have essentially failed. It would
seem that the development of such
traits and characteristics will result
from living in healthy conditions
which nurture their growth from an
inner desire within the individual.
If sincere men and women the world
over could unite in an earnest effort
to supplant feelings of selfishness,
hatred, suspicion, and greed with
feelings of kindness, mercy, and
justice, and service to others, then
leaders would think more of men
than of the success of a system; and
they would thereby promote the
peace and happiness of mankind.
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139
There is no road to universal peace
which does not lead into the hearts
of humanity. This was clearly stat-
ed in an editorial in the Deseiet
News:
What this world needs, and needs most
desperately, is better human relationships.
Or to use a more common if more mis-
understood term, better public rela-
tions. . . .
Human relations? There was a man who
was the greatest master of human relations
the world has ever known. His greatness
had many facets. Not the least among
them was a superhuman capacity to meet
each problem on the level of the troubled
person — and to solve it.
Thus, faced with a woman in sin, he
spoke of the person without sin casting
the first stone. Faced with a rich young
ruler who had everything except the most
precious gift of all, he counseled him to
become as a little child. Faced with men
who wanted to sit at the right and left
hand of God, he taught them humility.
Faced with a wavering, over-impetuous
man whom he needed to lead his people,
he taught him steadfastness and faith.
Today's world needs such human rela-
tions as that. We will never equal the
work and teachings of the Carpenter from
Nazareth, of course. But we do have a
great potential in this field ("Which Way
to Peace," Editorial, Deseret News - Salt
Lake Telegram, February 1, 1958).
Let us hope that some day soon
all human beings will realize the
importance and benefits of improv-
ing our human relations with one
another. When and if that time
comes, we could anticipate a con-
dition in which the Savior's prayer
would be in the hearts of all peo-
ple—'That they all may be one; as
thou, Father, art in me, and I in
thee, that they also may be one in
us . . ." (John 17:21).
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mind, said nineteen centuries ago,
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"A new commandment I give unto
you, That ye love one another . . ."
(John 13:34). Today scientists of
human behavior have arrived at the
conclusion that love is the greatest
medicine and provides the most
hope for achieving a world of peace
and a condition in which man can
live and maintain good mental
health. A modern scientist has
stated what might be termed an im-
portant spiritual question of today,
''How can we encourage love and
diminish hate"? (Karl Menninger,
Love Against Hate, page 5). This
quotation extends itself as a chal-
lenge to those who can move be-
yond their own concerns to affirm
love and brotherhood as the central
realities of existence. We then
come closer to living the philosophy
expressed by Christ that ". . . he
that loseth his life for my sake shall
find it" (Mt. 10:39), for tnen we
have concerned ourselves with how
to save others and in the process we
save ourselves.
Having been instructed that the
two greatest commandments are to
love God and to love our fellow
men and that the greatest thing in
the world is love, we would do well
to learn as much as we can about
the phenomenon of love, and how
we can incorporate it in our lives.
We give lip service to the import-
ance of love, but many of us know
very little about what it really means
or how we develop the ability to
love. Modern scientific evidence
suggests that love does not occur
by chance, but rather develops
through certain kinds of experi-
ences. Love is an achievement —
quite a rare and important achieve-
ment. Many people believe that
nothing is easier than to love; but,
on the contrary, while every human
being has a potential capacity for
loving, its realization is one of the
most difficult achievements.
Jesus prescribed, perhaps, the best
medicine for many of our present
ills of today when he said, ". . . love
thine enemies . . ." (Mt. 5:44). As
difficult as this challenge may seem,
it is imminently practical. It is
essential for our health and well-
being that we eliminate from our
minds the poison of hate. The
clinical experience of psychiatry
demonstrates that, actually, we can-
not oppose our enemies effectively
when we hate them. Hate shackles
our powers, but when we love our
enemies as people who, like us, have
their unique humanhood — then we
are able, strongly and effectively, to
oppose them when they become
misguided, sick, or hate-laden.
Menninger, in discussing what
we might do in order to experience
greater happiness in our personal
lives and peace in society, points out
that before that day comes we shall
have learned more about ourselves,
that we shall have achieved a great
deal of self-understanding, that we
shall have revised our ways of living
and our ways of working to insure
more joy in our work. In essence,
we shall have become accomplished
in the creative life. He concludes
his book by saying:
We shall have accorded to love the pre-
eminence which it deserves in our scale
of values; we shall seek it and proclaim
it as the highest virtue and the greatest
boon. We shall not be ashamed to have
"suffered much extremity for love," in
the full realization that love is the medi-
cine for the sickness of the world, a
prescription often given, too rarely taken.
We shall have realigned our faith in God
to include more faith in human beings,
and extended our identifications to include
more brothers, more sisters, more sons
LESSON DEPARTMENT
141
and daughters, in a vastly wider family
concept. . . .
This goal is not unattainable in spite
of past errors and present vicissitudes.
For we have the courage to hope and the
power to love. And for all the evil with-
in us, we cannot escape the will to live.
From that springs our determination to
better our lot. By the use of our intelli-
gence and our knowledge, we can use the
slave of science for the promotion of
human happiness. Speed the day! (From
Love Against Hate, copyright 1942, by
Karl Menninger and Jeanetta Lyle Men-
ninger, pp. 293-294. Reprinted by
permission of Harcourt, Brace and Com-
pany, Inc.).
Another scientist of today, dis-
cussing the urgency and necessity
for developing loving personalities,
states:
If man is to be able to love, he must
be put in his supreme place. The eco-
nomic machine must serve him, rather
than he serve it. He must be able to
share experience, to share work, rather
than, at best, share in profits. Society
must be organized in such a way that
man's social, loving nature is not sep-
arated from his social existence but be-
comes one with it. It is true, as I have
tried to show, that love is the only sane
and satisfactory answer to the problem of
human existence, then any society which
excludes, relatively, the development of
love, must in the long run perish of its
own contradiction with the basic necessi-
ties of human nature. Indeed, to speak
of love is not "preaching," for the simple
reason that it means to speak of the ulti-
mate and real need in every human being.
That this need has been obscured does
not mean that it does not exist. To
analyze the nature of love is to discover
its general absence today and to criticize
the social conditions which are responsible
for this absence. To have faith in the
possibility of love as a social and not only
exceptional-individual phenomenon, is a
rational faith based on the insight into
the very nature of man (Fromm, Eric:
The Art oi Loving, page 133, Harper &
Brothers, publishers. Used by permis-
sion ) .
From the earliest spiritual leaders
to modern-day scientists, those liv-
ing on the spiritual frontier have
been and are telling us that the
greatest thing in the world is love.
If we are to make this meaningful,
we must realize that the power to
love does not come full-grown into
our lives. It does not come by mere
admonition nor by logical, verbal
proof of its importance. To promote
love among men requires that we do
more than talk about it, that we
actually promote situations and cre-
ate atmospheres in which love will
spontaneously flourish without be-
ing admonished to do so. It must
form a very core of our lives as we
attempt to live and practice a re-
ligion of love.
The Peace oi Christ
The peace of Christ does not come by
seeking the superficial things of life, neith-
er does it come except as it springs from
the individual's heart. . . .
Centered in the heart also are the
enemies to peace — avarice, ambition, envy,
anger, and pride. These and other vices
which bring misery into the world must
be eradicated before permanent peace is
assured. There shall have to be felt in
the hearts of men more consideration for
others — there shall have to be manifested
around the coming peace table at least a
little of the Christ spirit — do unto others
as you would have others do unto you
(McKay, David O.: Gospel Ideals, pp.
39, 298).
The challenge and task obviously
rest upon the shoulders of each of
us. We cannot expect the leaders
of nations or delegates sitting around
a peace table to solve the problems
of a complex and confused world.
It will take all of us working dili-
gently together to create a world of
peace-loving people, to develop with-
in ourselves the skill, the capacity,
the desire to live harmoniously and
creatively with one another, to love-
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God and to love our fellow men,
to create within our homes the kind
of environment which will produce
loving personalities in our children.
This means we must search for self-
understanding, for inner peace, con-
tentment, serenity, while, at the
same time, maintaining sufficient
feelings of dissatisfaction that we
have a propelling drive and urge to
improve the life situation.
Summary
Living spiritually in the nuclear
age represents a real challenge to all
of us. It should be obvious by now
that spiritual living cannot be
accomplished by immature, unthink-
ing persons, but rather that the ap-
plication of the teachings of Christ
is directly related to the degree of
emotional and religious maturity
which we possess. It is quite prob-
able that if we achieve success in
our efforts toward becoming more
mature that spiritual and creative
living and therefore a world of peace
will come almost automatically.
If through more mature behavior
and thinking we are able to create
an environment within our homes
for our children to become mentally
healthy, creative, spiritually minded
individuals, then we should turn
out of our homes the kind of indi-
viduals who can bring about many
of the goals which we have been dis-
cussing in this series of lessons dur-
ing the past few months. Perhaps
then the peace of the world will at
last come from the peace of the fam-
ily and the extension of that peace
to families of all nations. Thus may
come to pass the fulfillment of the
dream of all the ages expressed
through Abraham, ". . . and in thee
shall all families of the earth be
blessed" (Genesis 12:3).
LESSON DEPARTMENT
143
Thoughts for Discussion
i. What specific contributions can you
make toward "Better Human Relations"?
2. What can you do to "encourage love
and diminish hate"?
3. As you consider the conditions which
exist in the world today, is your own home
in order?
a. Where do you place your values?
b. What goals or standards, ideals or
purposes, do you emphasize when
decisions are made?
4. How do your feelings toward other
people show through your daily tasks and
the ways you carry them out?
a. What proportion of the feelings
so transmitted are warm, happy
feelings?
b. How many are little, bitter, re-
sentful feelings?
5. What do you contribute to relation-
ships? Do you "love things and use peo-
ple" when it should be the other way
around?
Supplementary References
Brown, Hugh B.: "The Seventh Beati-
tude," The Instructor, October 1956, pp.
294-295.
Brown, Hugh B.: "Who Is My Neigh-
bor," The Instructor, October 1958, pp.
296-297.
Lindbergh, Anne Morrow: Gift From
the Sea, Pantheon Books, Inc., New
York, 1955.
Mead, Margaret: "Raising Children
Who'll Reach for the Moon," Parents
Magazine, Vol. 32, No. 10, (October
1957)^ PP- 44> 182-184.
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MARCH 1960
Lsiip of cfaith
Margery S. Stewart
I know people like cherry boughs, who,
Smitten by snow, retain a beauty
Written in starkness, black and white
Reality of suffering.
Dark in pain they endure,
Shaken but unquailing,
Forsaken by all but sparrows . . .
Vulnerable. . . .
Stripped by the lightning's
Whim, seared trunk, shattered
Limb, yet year after year they
Draw from remembering roots
Gallantly,
Up to the farthest tip the liquid
Cup of their faith. Past
All time of bearing
They bring forth
Fruit from triumph of blossoms,
Mute trumpets of glory.
Let me be like them
In my own storms ... all roots of my
Being waiting for the recurrence,
Seeing beyond tempest, sustenance
From his sure, unfailing springs.
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SPECIAL FEATURES
Beauty in the Home Christine H. Robinson 148
Spiritual Living — Pathway to Peace Blaine M. Porter 157
The Southern States Mission Preston R. Nibley 164
The American Red Cross and Its Campaign for Members and Funds Theodore V. Houser 178
An Ounce of Precaution Mabel Harmer 186
The Relief Society Magazine in Durban, South Africa Muriel Wilson 206
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A Place for Everything Charmaine Kohler 166
Offerings of the Heart Frances C. Yost 189
With a Song in My Heart Mabel Law Atkinson 191
The New Day — Chapter 6 Hazel K. Todd 197
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From Near and Far 146
Sixty Years Ago 172
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 173
Editorial: The Refining Influence of Relief Society Louise W. Madsen 174
Notes to the Field: Organizations and Reorganizations of Stake and Mission
Relief Societies for 1959 176
Index for 1959 Relief Society Magazine Available 178
Announcing the Special April Short Story Issue 185
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 201
Birthday Congratulations 208
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Recipes From the Southern States Mission Lucile W. Bunker 179
Whys, Wherefores, and Fun With Green Plants Maude N. Howard 181
Dreams Celia Luce 190
A Peppermint-Stick Party Helen S. Williams 194
Kathryn A. Carne — Artist, Nurse, Homemaker 196
A Quick Fade-Out Sylvia Pezoldt 204
Reward of Obedience Flora J. Isgreen 207
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Ram Song Maude Rubin 150
Bluebird Eva Willes Wangsgaard 163
March Time Enola Chamberlin 171
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Morning Zara Sabin 188
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Beauty in the Home
Christine H. Robinson
Member, General Board of Relief Society
(Address Delivered at the General Session of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, October 7, 1959)
RECENTLY, a national maga-
zine featured an unusual
family that lives in an
unusual place. This family makes
its home at the bottom of a steep
canyon on the winding Snake River.
Here, without many of the common
household conveniences to which
all of us are accustomed, including
electricity, the parents have reared
eleven children. We are told that
theirs is a happier, more satisfying
life than that of most conventional
householders. In this secluded can-
yon, the parents and children de-
pend upon each other for com-
panionship, and upon a colorful
wilderness for enjoyment and rec-
reation. One of the children
remarked, ''As for television, who
needs that when one lives in an
enchanted canyon?"
I am not personally acquainted
with the members of this family nor
the circumstances under which they
have built their unusual home.
Furthermore, I am sure that not all
of us could or would want to live
in an isolated canyon. Yet, I am
impressed with the fact that with-
out many of the physical home con-
veniences, which we feel are so
necessary to our own happiness, this
family, apparently, has built much
beauty into its home.
I am sure all of us strive to make
our homes places of beauty. Many
of us search long and hard to find
Page 148
just the right piece of furniture, the
right accessories and color scheme,
to achieve this beauty. Surely, the
physical beauty of a home is im-
portant to our comfort and well-
being. Still, another type of beauty
is far more essential. This beauty
is an atmosphere, a climate, the
spirit of the home, the attitude of
its inhabitants one toward the other.
At first glance these may seem in-
tangibles, but, actually, they are as
real and as accessible as the smile
on your face, the friendly light in
your eyes, the kind words on your
lips, and the expression of love and
understanding in your heart. This
is the type of beauty which you
may not be able to touch or to
describe, but you can feel and sense
it the very moment you enter a
home
The beauty of which I speak is
well within the reach of everyone.
It can be found in the humblest
cottage, in the tiniest apartment, as
well as in a palatial home. And,
as with most great things in life,
it is free for the asking. We can
buy palatial homes and extravagant
furnishings, but we cannot give
silver or gold for peace or happi-
ness. We can pay for pleasures and
luxuries, but we cannot buy love.
Still, many of us are prone to
think of beauty only in its objec-
tive, physical state. Yet, the wise
men of the ages, who have attempt-
BEAUTY IN THE HOME
149
ed to define and analyze beauty, all
agree that its spiritual aspects are of
paramount importance. Socrates,
Aristotle, Plato, and Aquinas, all
describe beauty as synonymous with
truth, goodness, harmony, unity,
and tranquility. These are values
well within the reach of all of us
and, through their application, we
can bring a feeling of serenity,
peace, and rest into our homes. In
a home where this type of beauty is
present, jealousy, fear, and insecur-
ity are banished and replaced with
settled courage, faith, and trust.
Think back with me into the
early experiences in your home life.
What are the pleasant things that
come first to your mind? Are they
the big things associated with ma-
terial possessions, or are they the
simple, little, heart-warming things,
such as the fragrance of newly baked
bread, the feeling of "togetherness"
as you met daily around the kitchen
or dining table, the spiritual uplift
of family prayers, the memory of
loving friends stopping in for a chat
and a piece of grandmother's won-
derful apple pie? Do you remem-
ber the little acts of thoughtfulness
and kindness your mother per-
formed each day — the smile on her
face, and the fact that she was
always there to mend a bruised
knee or a broken heart? Today,
in our busy schedules, are we pro-
viding these types of surroundings
and these memories for our chil-
dren? These are the so-called in-
tangible qualities which are so
important, if we would have real
and lasting beauty in our homes.
A LL of us need beauty to make
our lives complete. And we all
have that beauty within us, though
we express it in different ways. The
poet expresses it in words; the artist
uses canvas and colors; the sculptor,
stone. The mother expresses it in
the tender love for her child. Each
one of us in our everyday contact
with one another can express the
beauty within us. We can mingle
with one another in a spirit of con-
sideration and thoughtfulness. We
can be gentle, patient, and courte-
ous. We can govern our actions
with a kindly regard for others. We
can radiate cheerfulness wherever
we go. For cheerfulness, also, is an
expression of beauty, and it will
reflect in the attitude of everyone
we meet, just as surely as a beauti-
ful flower drooping over the edge
of a pond reflects in the water.
A few days ago a friend of mine
told me how her six-year-old
brought her back abruptly to reality
and the importance of cheerfulness.
It was one of those busy, frustrating
mornings, and my friend was hur-
rying through her work with what
must have been a grim expression
on her face, when she noticed her
daughter looking at her intently.
Finally the little girl said: "I was
just thinking, Mama, how pretty
your face is when you smile."
In the home where spiritual
beauty is stressed vou will find kind-
ness, for kindness dwells in each
member's heart. You will find good-
humored tolerance of others, be-
cause forgiveness is practiced. You
will find courtesy, for people who
have formed the habit of being
kind, loving, and patient are natural-
ly courteous.
Like many of you, I was blessed
in having a wise grandmother who
was also a fine cook. She brought
many choice recipes with her from
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the "old country." One day she was
sharing a recipe with a friend and,
after telling her to take so many
cups of this and tablespoons of that,
grandmother finished with, "But
remember, Carrie, if the soup is to
be a success, you must also add a
generous amount of grace." To me,
a young child, this seemed very
strange. I hadn't seen any cans on
our cupboard shelves marked
"grace," and I told grandmother so.
I shall always remember her reply.
"My dear, no matter what you do
in life, whether it's making Danish
soup, singing a lullabv, or writing a
book, if you would know the true
flavor of living, you must give gen-
erously of yourself, of your sweet
spirit, of your love. You must add
grace."
Let us add grace to our lives. And
let us remember that lasting, perma-
nent beauty in our hearts and in
our homes is made up of encourag-
ing words, loving deeds, sympathy
expressed, heartaches healed, a kiss,
a smile, a song which makes us feel
light-hearted, free, and glad. These
are tried links which, when bound
together, make a golden chain of
beauty around our door. May we
all strive to gain such beauty in our
souls and in our homes is my
humble prayer.
♦ »
uiatn Song
Maude Rubin
The robin sings to the springtime rain
Long before there is breath of rain,
Long before there is hint of warmth;
When every ridge and every roof
Gives visible proof
Of winter.
Visible? Yet can the heart see rain
When the night
Is white?
So does the robin sing to the rain,
Asking again
That her slender fingers braid the willow,
Drip crystal jewels to bead the yellow
Forsyth ia . . .
Drape a fringe of glittering fires
On telephone wires,
Prisms of light before the sun
Warms earth sufficiently to prove that done
Is winter rule. Oh, truly myth is a
World of winter
When robin-song is a silver splinter
To pierce the clouds,
To sift the rain.
cJhtrd [Prize Story
J/Lnnual [Relief Society Short Story (contest
The Fishbite Story
Dorothy Chpp Robinson
DOROTHY CLAPP ROBINSON
PAPA said there would not be
enough potatoes to last un-
til Thanksgiving, if Mama
didn't quit digging them as fast as
they reached the size of a marble.
"Then Emmy would starve/' His
voice sounded the way it does when
he wants you to think he is cross.
I was cross. He knows my name
is Emma Loretta and I am not a
baby to be called "Emmy."
Mama didn't answer. She just
went on tieing her bonnet strings.
Then she picked up an old kitchen
fork and a pan and went out. Janie
and I followed but were sent back
for our bonnets. Mama wouldn't
let us dig. She said Janie was too
small, and she was afraid I would
break the roots of the potato vines.
Our city lot was planted to all
potatoes this year. All except where
the barn and the chicken coop are.
Oh, yes, and the gooseberry and
currant patch and the regular gar-
den.
Mama would go along the row
and scratch carefully until she
found a potato big enough to cook.
Then she would break it carefully
away, put it in the pan, then pat
the ground around the vine again.
She was not digging them for us
to eat. I should say not. Every
last potato was going to Eastdale.
Same with the carrots and turnips
and the beet greens. She had
thinned them so many times Papa
said next time he would broadcast
the seed. There had been no rain
in Eastdale, and the dab of water
stored in the little reservoir above
town had been used on pastures
before the gardens were planted. I
wished we didn't have water. Then
I wouldn't have to pull weeds.
Sunday was conference in Ma-
nassa. Mama said she wasn't going.
She was taking the garden truck to
Eastdale. Any other time Papa
would have said "Wait until Mon-
day," but this time he didn't. I
loved going to Eastdale after we
got there.
We left real early and when we
passed through La Cerritos no one
was up except the old man with the
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sheep. We had to wait while his
dog hurried them across the little
bridge over the creek. I was a little
afraid of him. He had no teeth
and something was wrong with his
upper lip. He smiled and said
"Buenos Dias." Mama nodded but
didn't say anything, but then she
never does.
I was hungry and wanted to stop
and eat our picnic, but Mama said
no we just had breakfast.
"Goodness golly . . ." Janie said.
"There is no such word as good-
ness golly," I corrected her.
"Goodness gwacious. Breakfast
was a long time." Mama didn't
answer her either.
What a road. The buggy jerked
from one big chuckhole to another.
Janie clung to Mama and I clung
to the seat.
"See the cat-tules," Janie cried
when we turned east.
"Say either cattails or tules," I
told her, "but not cat-tules."
T^HE meadows were soft green
and cattails were growing in
water alongside the road. We could
see devil-bugs and mosquitoes skit-
tering along on top of the water.
"Why don't they have their own
potatoes?" I meant the people in
Eastdale.
"Their seed didn't come up."
"Why didn't they plant some
more, or buy grub from the store
in Manassa?"
"They spent their money on seed,
and seed won't germinate in dry
soil."
"What does that mean?"
"It means they need rain."
"Papa said tomorrow they pray
for rain at conference." Janie
thought we didn't know that.
"Well," I looked up at the big,
bright sky, "there have to be big
clouds before it can rain."
"Uh-uh," Janie contradicted.
"Once was a cloud big as a man's
hand and it rained. My Sunday
School teacher said so."
"That was a long time ago and it
doesn't count." Then I thought of
something. "If it rains will Willie
come alive?" Willie was our baby
brother who was buried in Eastdale.
Mama turned so she could see in
my eyes. "What in the world are
you talking about?"
"The Fishbite," Janie said.
"She means Tishbite. You know,
Elijah, in the Bible. He made it
rain and he made the widow's son
come alive. 'Course, you are not a
widow but I hope it is Willie."
Mama went back to her driving.
"Anyway," I said it real loud, "a
cloud big as a man's hand wouldn't
fill a dishpan."
I guess dishpan reminded us and
we looked back. The space between
the seats was filled with garden
truck covered with wet gunny sacks.
There was butter, too, for besides
churning all our cream, Mama had
borrowed two pounds from Mrs.
Whitney.
"Could I have a handful of peas?"
I asked.
"Certainly not."
I knew I couldn't but might as
well ask. "I am hungry."
Pretty soon I asked, "Don't they
have a teeny-weeny bit?" Of food,
I meant.
"They have very little. What
would they eat when they have no
garden?"
"Candy."
I thought Mama was going to
spat me but she didn't. Janie and
I laughed and laughed.
Finally we came to a big ditch
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that crossed the road. Mama un-
hitched the team and let them
drink. Then they browsed on the
grass along the fence while we ate
our picnic.
Soon after starting again we ran
into broken hills with rabbit-brush
and greasewood between. Then
suddenly I saw the bridge over the
Rio Grande. I could not see the
river for it was down in the canyon.
There were three mud huts back a
piece from the rim. Papa said once
there had been a trading post here.
A Mexican lived in one of the huts
and his dogs ran snarling and bark-
ing at us.
^HE bridge was high and black,
and it was real scary when the
horses' clop-clop sounded on the
boards. I closed my eyes and didn't
move. I didn't want to look down
at the water. It was too far down,
but I knew it was green and ripply.
"If I fall it will take a whole
year to hit the water."
I opened my eyes and Janie was
leaning over trying to see the water.
I pushed her back against Mama
and held tight to her. "No, sir,"
I told her. "It wouldn't take more
than a day."
Then I heard Mama take a long
breath and I knew we were off the
bridge. We rode through more
rocks and boulders and then we
came to the sand hills. The sun
was oven-hot and we drank and
drank from Mama's waterbag. I
wanted to eat but Mama said no.
Then the next thing I knew Janie
and I were both waking up and
Mama was sitting between us. We
were on the last hill above East-
dale.
"Look," Mama cried, "there isn't
a green leaf anywhere." She sound-
ed real worried.
The sand crunched under our
wheels. I could see a million dia-
monds sparkling in the sand, but
Mama wouldn't let me get any. She
said it was just mica. We went
down into the creek bottoms that
used to be meadows, then up on a
little bench and down it again to
Miller's place. Hattie and Albert
ran to meet us when their mother
opened the gate.
After we helped unload we each
had a slice of bread and butter left
from our picnic. Then we ran out
to play. I liked having no water.
The ditch bottom was covered with
soft white sand that squashed be-
tween our toes. The willows along
the ditchbanks looked like queer
feather dusters. The cows had eat-
en the leaves and bark up as far
as they could reach. Brown dust-
ers, of course.
When Sister Miller called that
it was time to go for the cows we
all went to the herd corral. Pete
Moser had been herding that day
and he had the cows there ahead
of us. They were bawling and push-
ing against the bars. They were
nothing but rough hide over bones.
Their bags looked like they had
already been milked. Pete was
dusty and tired and his lips were
cracked. Maybe no water would
not be much fun after all.
W1
E didn't have to drive the
Miller cows home. They just
about ran, especially the last block,
and their bags flopped back and
forth spilling some of the milk they
did have. Elmer, Hattie's married
brother, was at the well when we
caught up with the cows. He
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drew water in a bucket from the
well and poured it in a trough for
them, but they still wanted more
when he quit.
"Water is getting mighty low,"
I heard him tell his mother. "The
bucket came up half full each time/'
We had some of our new peas
and potatoes for supper. After their
first helping I saw Hattie and Al-
bert look at their mother. Her lips
went tighter together, but she gave
each of us a small helping. She
wanted Mama to eat more but
Mama said no thanks she wasn't
hungry. I was about to ask for
more, but I looked at Mama and
changed my mind. I took back my
wish about no water. I didn't know
why it had to be boss of everything.
When we had family prayers that
night Sister Miller prayed for rain.
I didn't know her voice could be
so soft. I got a prickly feeling all
over and then before I knew I was
saying the words right along with
her. I wanted every place in the
world to have plenty of water so
every child could have more than
one potato for supper.
We prayed for rain again the next
morning, but so far it hadn't done
any good. The sun was just as hot
and the ground just as dry as ever.
Hattie and I drove the cows to the
herd corral. Frank Hesse was tak-
ing the herd out today and his little
brother, Jim, was helping get them
started. Jim didn't look hungry.
"We had potatoes and gravy for
breakfast," he boasted.
"Don't be smart," Hattie told
him. "We gave you the potatoes."
"No, sir, it was. ..." I swallowed
hard so I would not say the next
words. When Mama gives some-
thing she does not say who shall
have part of it.
But we didn't have potatoes and
gravy for breakfast. We had noth-
ing.
"We are all fasting," Sister Miller
said. Then she saw our faces. "It
is the least we can do. People over
the stake are fasting and praying
for rain. The food they don't eat
will be sent to us."
"But we already gave our share,"
I told Mama.
"Emma," her voice made me
catch my breath, "you have given
nothing until you have done with-
out yourself." I wasn't sure what
else that meant but it sure meant
no breakfast.
Instead of Sunday School, they
had testimony meeting, and it
wasn't even the day for it. It was
a very good meeting, but they all
talked about water. They started
out by singing "Did You Think to
Pray?" Everyone told about his
many blessings. Old Grandpa
Hesse said the people hadn't been
living right, and this was their pun-
ishment.
Elmer, who was conducting, for
the Bishop was at conference, said
we were being tried, and if we
proved faithful the Lord would still
bless us. I thought Grandpa Hesse
might be right. Anyway Elijah
made the rain not come because the
people were wicked. I sure hoped
if the people were wicked, they
would not have to wait three years
for rain. That is a long time to be
hungry.
\\f HEN I came out of the little
log meetinghouse the sun
nearly blinded me and the gravel
in the yard was hot through my
shoes. Everyone looked to the sky,
but there wasn't even a baby's hand-
sized cloud. I was about to die by
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the time dinner was ready. Mama
and Sister Miller didn't eat. I
heard Mama say she would bring
more food next week.
'Tor goodness sake/' I said,
chewing fast on my bread and but-
ter, "we want some left for our-
selves."
Something happened to Sister
Miller's face, and right quick I was
full up. I asked forgiveness in a
hurry, and when no one was look-
ing I put my bread on Hattie's
plate.
Later, our mamas said they were
going to the graveyard and did we
want to go along. It was on a
knoll that was the driest and lone-
somest place I had ever seen. Even
the sand lilies were dead. There
were seven graves and two of them
were ours. I couldn't remember
our big brother, but I could remem-
ber what a sweet cuddly baby Wil-
lie had been. I held Janie's hand
tight. I looked at Mama. She
never cries out loud but her face
made me swallow hard. I looked
around for something to do.
One of the graves had a hole in
it. I looked all around the sky and
kept looking. There wasn't a sign
of a cloud so I guessed a coyote had
dug it, and we could fill a coyote
hole. The grave belonged to some
people from Taos.
We started by carrying dirt in
our hands. That was too slow. If
I used my bonnet Mama would
notice mighty fast, so I decided to
use my dress. Pretty soon we were
all using our dresses. Albert
scooped the dirt and we took turns
having our laps filled. The dirt was
so fine it scooped easy, but we sure
looked a mess when we had fin-
ished and we were all choked for
a drink. Then Mama noticed.
'That Emma," she told everyone,
"can think of more mischief. Next
time, young lady, you will be left
at home."
''But, Mama," Janie said, "if the
Fishbite was going to bring someone
alive we didn't want it to be that
one."
Sister Miller didn't understand
what Janie meant, but she said
water was getting scarce for wash-
ing, even.
I didn't hear what else she said,
for just then a big whirl of wind
flew by and filled our eyes and
noses with dust. By the time we
were through spluttering and cough-
ing, we were all shivering. Right
in this hot weather, only it wasn't
hot any more. Then the earth tore
apart with a crack that made us
jump. We looked toward Ute
Mountain. We could not see the
mountain, for a storm of dust was
coming our way like mad. Thunder
crackled again and lightning split
the sky. Beyond it came moun-
tains and mountains of clouds.
"Oh" Sister Miller said, and it
sounded like a prayer.
| held my breath, watching. If this
was the end of the world all
these graves should come alive. I
grabbed Janie as a big drop of water
hit me right on the nose. I started
to say, "It is raining," but all the
faces were being pelted. Sister
Miller started to shake, and Mama
set her down on a flat tombstone.
"It cant be," she said over and
over. But even Janie could see it
was, and we were getting wet. The
dust on our hands and dresses had
turned to mud.
"Run, all of you," Mama called,
and we ran. I held Janie's hand,
and Hattie held Albert's, and we
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nearly ran their legs off.
Going to the graveyard hadn't
been far, but coming back was a
long way. The rain came harder
and faster and thunder cracked
like a mad dog at our heels. We
stood around in the kitchen but
kept getting colder so we went into
the bedroom and changed our
clothes.
When Mama and Sister Miller
came they were walking like they
were going to church. Their bon-
nets looked like draggled chicken
feathers. They didn't even scold
us for making tracks all over the
scrubbed board floor. After they
had changed their clothes they set
supper on. The rain was still com-
ing down in sheets and every time
Sister Miller looked she offered us
more to eat. For once I really had
enough.
The cows came home by them-
selves long before milking time.
Sister Miller was talking about light-
ing the lamp when the meeting-
house bell began to ring. The way
it rang it said for us to go there.
Mama said she would put the chil-
dren to bed, but Sister Miller said
no they must go.
So we went to the meetinghouse
again. We ran and we wore coats,
but we were nearly soaked by the
time we got there. Elmer had a
fire in the big stove and was light-
ing the extra lamps. We held our
coats close to the stove so they
could dry. All they did was steam.
When everyone was there Elmer
said it was fitting that we give
thanks for this life-saving rain.
Grandpa Hesse said it would have
to rain more than this to save the
country. From all over the room
people whispered, "It will. It will."
And it did.
Then we all sang "Now Let Us
Rejoice." Sister Miller really
pumped the squeaky old organ and
the voices rose in a mighty chorus.
I had heard that somewhere.
It rained so long and so hard we
didn't get home until Wednesday.
Vy/'HEN Papa was digging po-
tatoes that fall Janie and I
got plenty tired picking them up.
"There are too manv," I grum-
bled.
"Thank your mother for that,"
Papa said, "All the cultivating she
did with that fork brought a heavy
crop."
Mama was helping. Now she
straightened and said, "No. It was
the Fishbite."
My mouth dropped open and I
stared. Then I saw Papa give her
his special look, and she smiled as
she does sometimes.
Dorothy Clapp Robinson, Boise, Idaho, is well-known to readers of the Magazine,
having written many short stories and serials. "Since being a Relief Society Short Story
Contest winner in 1954," Mrs. Robinson tells us, "my grandchildren have increased to
twenty -five. Our son Philemon has returned from presiding over the Finnish Mission;
our daughter has come back from Germany, where her husband was stationed as a
serviceman, and our other twin has twins, which makes three sets for the family, four
if I count myself. We had a reunion last summer, with all members of our family
present.
"I was born in Eastdale, Colorado. My husband, P. B. Robinson, Sr., was reared
in Old Mexico. I have served in all the women's auxiliaries of the Church on a ward
and stake level, except Primary, but including teacher training and genealogy. At pres-
ent I am teaching the theology course in Relief Society. I am a charter member of
the Idaho Writers League, and have had one book published, and sixteen serials, as
well as many short stories and articles."
Spiritual Living - Pathway to Peace
Elder Blaine M. Porter
Professor and Chairman of Human Development and Family Relationships,
Brigham Young University
(Address Delivered at Departmental Meeting, Annual General Relief Society Conference,
October 8, 1959)
An Era oi Confusion next-door neighbors of today, is
and Insecurity adding new challenges in human
T
HIS is the nuclear age and relations,
living in a nuclear age forces
us to deal with many dial- An Era oi Great Potentiality
lenges. Even though we have many Concomitant with this confusion
luxuries and comforts of living and anxiety are the potential ac-
which our grandparents did not complishments for good in the fore-
even dream of, I'm sure that our seeable future which could result
task of adjusting to and meeting from the remarkable developments
the challenges which face us far in the physical sciences. If the
surmounts the kinds of problems peace of the world can be kept, if
which our grandparents faced. we are able to develop sufficient
These are confusing times. The skill in getting along with one an-
daily headlines carrying evidences of other, both within our communities
fear and anxiety in high places fill and in the world at large, it is quite
us with this same fear and anxiety, probable that the last half of the
The large black banners of war, twentieth century will record the
strikes, atom and hydrogen bomb greatest material changes in the his-
experinients, and guided missiles tory of our civilization. If we are
multiply this confusion. Radio and able, creatively, to handle the prob-
television programs discussing these lems which face us and to be
problems, often in a passionate and somewhat philosophical about the
pessimistic manner, arouse feelings unfinished world in which we live,
of uneasiness and confusion in our we can quite honestly say that we
youth and in ourselves. are now living in the most exciting
Parents are confused; teachers are era of all times. The remarkable ad-
perplexed; Congressmen and states- vancements which potentially exist
men disagree, and military person- in the peaceful use of nuclear
nel argue as to the size of the armed energy are legion,
forces and need for mobilization. This is an age, too, in which the
Authority, in many respects, includ- advances made in nutrition, health
ing religion, is being questioned, education, and medicine, are not
and old ways of life are being re- only making it possible for men to
placed with new ones or unfamiliar live longer, but, at the same time,
ones. The advancement of the jet have removed many of our most
age, which is making of countries dreaded diseases and appear to be
which were history and geography on the threshold of conquering
book fantasylands of yesterday, our numerous others.
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Balancing the Scales
The accomplishments in the
physical sciences are so remarkable
in comparison with advances in
other areas of living that the scales
are out of balance. We have sent
atomic submarines underneath the
ice cap covering the region sur-
rounding the North Pole, satellites
circling the earth and traveling to
the moon, and have conquered
many of our feared diseases. The
advancements in the area of travel
and communication have altered
our lives in many ways. If we are
to put these many accomplishments
to use for the betterment of man-
kind, rather than its destruction, we
must balance the scales with the
attributes of maturity, love, and
spirituality.
Today, increasing numbers of
people are beginning to understand
that the fundamental problem of
the human race is to learn how to
live together in peace and harmony.
No matter how many rockets we
launch to the moon nor how many
scientific instruments the rockets
carry, they still cannot teach us
much about human development
and behavior. Guided missiles or
hvdrogen bombs do not pick them-
selves up in one city and drop
themselves on another city. Such de-
structive actions occur only through
the motivations and directions of
human beings. As long as we have
leaders of nations who are charac-
terized by immaturity, jealousy,
greed, and hostility, we will con-
tinue to live in an anxious age
threatened bv the fear of suffering
and destruction.
Challenge to Develop Harmonious
Human Relationship
The challenges which lie before
us are clear. Advances in the
physical sciences must be balanced
with achievements in the social or-
der and understanding of human
behavior. We must change our way
of thinking; we must change our
way of feeling. Instead of hating,
fighting, and crushing one another,
we must seek to build our lives up-
on the principles of righteousness
as taught and exemplified by our
Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. These
challenges may not be easy for some
because of the attraction which the
glitter and ease of following other
paths may have. The gospel of
Jesus Christ beckons us to follow
the high road wherein we dedicate
ourselves to the eternal values of
noble and righteous living. Any-
thing less than this may mean the
decline, if not the destruction, of
our civilization, and it obviously
will result in a less abundant life
than is potentially within each of us.
Need ior Emotional Maturity
The significant problem at hand
is: Can we meet the challenge? If
we are to meet successfully the chal-
lenges and responsibilities of living
meaningfully and spiritually in a
nuclear age, it is essential that we
develop a clear understanding of
emotional and religious maturity
and that we exert every effort to-
ward increasing the degree and
quality of our maturity in these
aspects and in nurturing its growth
in our children. An individual
grows and develops in many differ-
ent ways from the time of concep-
tion through infancy, childhood,
adolescence, adulthood, and, in
some respects, as long as he lives.
In fact, we may be correct in specu-
lating that developing emotional
maturity is an eternal process. De-
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termining whether or not an indi- the Latter-day Saint concept of pro-
vidual is appropriately mature for gression, for certainly this is one of
his age is not a quick or easy job; the ways in which eternal growth
however, there are certain traits and development have the potential
which seem to represent maturity to occur. Many of the challenges
that should be helpful to us. As of the gospel of Jesus Christ require
we attempt to evaluate our own the characteristics of an emotionally
emotional maturity, we must be as mature person in order to accom-
objective and honest as possible. plish them successfully. Without
taking the time to cite numerous
The Rote oi Emotional Maturity scriptural quotations, let us recog-
The role of a mature adult living nize that one cannot possess the
in a nuclear age can never be one skill and ability genuinely to love,
of passive and uncritical acceptance, forgive, be concerned about the
It must be a role in which we par- welfare and well-being of others,
ticipate in creative and objective without being appropriately mature
evaluations of the many new forces, ^r one's age. If we are to live the
alternatives, and decisions which we teachings of Christ and be pre-
surely must face. The mature pared for leadership in our society,
adult is one who thinks, meditates, as well as in the kingdom of God,
values, tries to foresee consequences, it is important that we make a con-
and is actively confronting life and certed effort toward increasing our
trying to do what needs to be done emotional maturity,
to improve life. The mature per- We cannot become emotionally
son is not afraid of life; rather he mature all at once. We advance
actively seeks to face it on as many toward it little by little. Each step
fronts as his capacities and limita- we take in this direction will lead us
tions permit, to live as an effective and our fellow men from a world
person in a rapidly changing society in which there is considerable chaos
of today. The mature person must and confusion toward a world
have graduated from home and characterized by those elements
school with an awareness of what which will make up the kingdom
will be expected of him by society, of heaven on earth.
He should have successfully devel-
oped from the stage of thinking, Need for Religious Maturity
"Please help me/' to "I can take In addition to exerting our efforts
care of myself," to "Please let me diligently toward achieving more
help you." emotional maturity is the serious
There is an urgency for a mature need of growing toward greater re-
leadership in our society and com- ligious maturity. The true gospel
munities. A mature person, be- of Jesus Christ is not a religion
cause he understands himself and consisting of essentially juvenile
others, is better prepared to meet formulations, but rather a religion
the tasks of everyday life with more which encourages the individual to
confidence and is, therefore, more develop all the characteristically hu-
capable of wisely and intelligently man powers within him. When
leading others. Jesus of Nazareth said, "Be ye there-
Emotional maturity is essential to fore perfect, even as your Father
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which is in heaven is perfect/' he
was extending an invitation to ma-
turity.
Religious maturity is built not
only upon belief (faith), but also
upon behavior (works). It is di-
rectly related to, if not dependent
upon, the parallel development of
emotional maturity. Certainly such
characteristics or attributes as ac-
ceptance of self and others, adapt-
ability and flexibility, orientation to
environment, an integrated philoso-
phy of life, acceptance of responsi-
bilities, and knowledge must be
present in order for the religious
maturing process to occur.
Tiaits of Religious Maturity
1. Knowledge and awareness of
which one does not overdo some
phases of living to the serious
neglect of others.
Life for the religiously mature
person consists of growth toward
wholeness. Perhaps this is what
Paul had in mind when he said:
When I was a child, I spake as a child,
I understood as a child, I thought as a
child: but when I became a man, I put
away childish things (First Corinthians
13:11).
The religiously mature adult is
developing a comprehensive phi-
losophy of life which provides
coherence to the world about him
and enables him to make his life
harmonious with it.
4. Practical (dynamic) applica-
«,! -r — j — 7 t£ y> — n=r r^ ti°n of religious beliefs. The gos
the abundant life. 1 he religious- . 2 — . . . &
ly mature person must assume
responsibility for gaining all the
knowledge he possibly can regard-
ing the context of the abundant life
as taught and exemplified by the
Savior. He sees it as a growing
process and recognizes that progres-
sion in the direction of achieving
the abundant life comes through
diligent study, reflective thinking,
and communion with the Creator.
2. Spiritual freedom. If the indi-
vidual is to be encouraged or even
permitted to experience the po-
tentialities within him for spiritual
living and religious maturity, he
must have an environment in which
he can exercise his freedom of the
soul. A social environment which
seeks to enforce conformity of
thinking and which is highly critical
of spiritual exploration would ap-
pear to discourage the freedom
which God intended men to have.
3. Growth toward wholeness. The
spiritual life is a balanced life in
pel which Christ taught is a religion
of doing, a religion of positive
action. The religiously mature per-
son within the framework of Chris-
tianity must, of necessity, be
involved in a life of dynamic action.
The religiously mature person is not
only concerned with his awareness
of religious teachings, but he is
genuinely concerned with develop-
ing the skills to apply them.
5. The sense of glory in life. The
religiously mature person recognizes
that glories surround him. He
stands in reverent amazement of
the many elements which consti-
tute the universe and life that are
beyond his own comprehension —
beyond his own accomplishment.
Reverence for life inevitably results
in humility — a hallmark of the
religiously mature person.
With this kind of approach to
living, an individual is able to see
beneath the surface — see beyond
the horizons. He has the ability to
sense the inwardness of things. And,
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161
likewise, the religiously mature in- or a tinkling cymbal" — we are
dividual senses the inwardness of nothing.
people. He sees the potentialities If we are to maintain good
within them and constantly seeks to mental health and achieve a feeling
move toward the goal of helping of personal satisfaction and security,
himself and other people. He we must counteract the unrest and
seeks as Socrates prayed: "Make me anxiety which exist in the world
beautiful in the inward soul and with knowledge and awareness of
may the inward and the outward be the abundant life. We must insure
as one." The abundant life might the conditions which will permit
be interpreted as consisting mainly freedom of the soul in order that
of loving God, loving oneself, and independently we can make the best
loving one's fellow men. of our lives. Our planetal aware-
6. Acting in faith. The religious- ness in the nuclear age emphasizes
ly mature person acts in faith, and the importance of growth toward
because of his faith, he has an wholeness in order that we may
optimistic view of the future. Faith develop an attitude of outreach and
not only serves as a dynamic force inclusiveness. Our skills of apply-
to impel us on to greater things, ing and practicing our religious
but it can serve, also, as an anchor beliefs must be perfected so that
which can help provide a feeling faith will be matched with works,
of security much needed in the If we can develop a sense of glory
rapidly changing and complex world in life, a reverence for life, perhaps
of today. The importance of faith we will seek to nurture and en-
along with love was pointed out
when we were told: "And if you
have not faith, hope, and charity,
you can do nothing" (D&C 18:19).
The Role of Religious Maturity
The demands of living spiritually
in any age, but particularly in this
nuclear age, require the traits,
characteristics, and qualities of re-
ligious and emotional maturity. As
man has developed the almost
unbelievable mechanical advances
which may permit him to destroy
himself, the ability to love and to
forgive becomes even more essen-
tial than in the past. Our own per-
sonal development should be of
vital concern to all of us. Paul told
us, in essence, that no matter how
many other things we have, that
without love in our hearts and in
our lives, we are "as sounding brass,
hance life rather than destroy it.
Then, acting in faith, we can exert
our every effort toward achieving
good works and toward improving
the life situation.
The Powerful Influence oi
the Home
The home is one of the most
powerful influences affecting the
development of emotional and re-
ligious maturity. The degree and
quality of emotional and religious
maturity which are developed in the
home are closely related to what is
expressed in the behavior of par-
ents. During the early years, the
home plays a most significant role
in determining whether or not one
is helped to lay away childish ways
of reacting and encouraged to de-
velop new and more mature ways
of thinking and behaving.
We cannot become mature all
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at once. We advance toward it
little by little. We are yet im-
perfect human beings on our way
toward perfection, but each step
that we take ourselves and help our
children take, leads us closer to the
fulfillment of living the gospel of
Jesus Christ.
A great responsibility falls upon
the home to produce loving person-
alities, individuals with feeling of
respect and value for mankind, and
skills of putting into practice Chris-
tian ideals and teachings. Our world
can only be as effectively safe and
secure as are the homes that con-
stitute it.
Walking the Spiritual Road
Our challenge, then, is to find a
way in which parents can join hands
with each other and with their chil-
dren to travel the spiritual road.
The spiritual road has Christ as its
ideal, not the gratification of the
physical, for he that will save his
life, yielding to the first gratifica-
tion of a seeming need, would lose
his life, lose his happiness, lose the
pleasure of living at this present
time. If he would seek the real
purpose of life, the individual must
live for something higher than self.
He hears the Savior's voice saying,
"I am the wav, the truth, and the
life.. ." (John 14:6).
The Quest for Peace in Society
The need for world peace is
obvious. No matter how gloomy
the picture may appear at times, one
optimistic fact exists — each one of
us can make a contribution toward
achieving world peace and good will
toward men. It is important, how-
ever, that we actively assume re-
sponsibility for putting our own
house in order. What the world
needs is individuals who are living a
practical religion, who are living ap-
plied Christianity. We need not only
pray 'Thy kingdom come. Thy will
be done in earth, as it is in heaven,"
but, individually, to work and strive
to create the kind of world in
which these conditions may prevail.
This implies that if religion is to
make a contribution in our quest
for peace, it must not only be a
subjective feeling, but also an ex-
pression of that feeling manifested
in human associations and social
relations. Knowing a thing or
merely feeling an assurance of the
truth is not sufficient. 'To him
that knoweth to do good, and doeth
it not, to him it is sin" (James
4:17)-
Service to Others
Christ invited us to follow in his
steps in order that we might have
life more abundantly. One very
tangible way in which we can make
a contribution toward others and
toward our own personal develop-
ment is by serving our fellow men.
Most all of us daily, regardless of
our age, could find opportunities to
serve someone older than we are;
someone who may be crippled or
handicapped in some wav; by giving
encouragement to someone who is
discouraged or depressed; or by mak-
ing life more interesting and satis-
fying for any of the persons with
whom we associate. Those indi-
viduals who experience satisfaction
and happiness by living creatively,
by serving their fellow men — indi-
viduals who are dedicated to the
creation of a still better world for
everyone, are traveling the course
which we are charting toward a bet-
ter world.
Jesus, having man's future in
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mind, said, nineteen centuries ago,
"A new commandment I give unto
you, That ye love one another"
(John 13:34). Today, scientists of
human behavior have arrived at the
conclusion that love is the greatest
medicine and provides the most
hope for achieving a world of peace
and a condition in which man can
live and maintain good mental
health.
We have learned through cen-
turies of experience that a com-
mandment alone does not make a
person love another. We have
learned that if a person is filled with
hate and anger and hostility, at-
tempts to command and legislate
kindness and mercy and love appear
to have essentiallv failed. The de-
velopment of such traits and
characteristics will result from liv-
ing in healthy conditions which
nurture and promote feelings of
love that spontaneously flow from
within the individual. If sincere
men and women the world over
could unite in an earnest effort to
supplant feelings of selfishness, hat-
red, suspicion, and greed, with feel-
ings of kindness, mercy, justice, and
service to others, then leaders would
think more of men than of the suc-
cess of a system, and they would
thereby promote the peace and
happiness of mankind. There is
no road to universal peace which
does not lead into the hearts of
humanity
The challenge and task of follow-
ing the pathway to peace obviously
rest upon the shoulders of each of
us. It will take all of us working
diligently together to create a world
of peace-loving people, to develop
within ourselves the skill, the capac-
ity, the desire to live harmoniously,
creatively with one another, to love
the Lord, to love oneself, to love
one's neighbor, to love one's ene-
mies, to create within our homes
the kind of environment which will
produce loving personalities in our
children. This means we must
search for self-understanding, for
inner peace, contentment, serenity,
while, at the same time, maintain-
ing sufficient feelings of dissatisfac-
tion that we have the propelling
drive and urge to improve the life
situation.
We must realize that the power
to love does not come full-grown
into our lives. It does not come by
mere admonition, nor by logical,
verbal proof of its importance. To
promote love among men requires
that we do more than talk about it,
that we actually promote situations
and create atmospheres in which
love will spontaneously flourish
without being admonished to do so.
It must form a very core of our lives
as we attempt to live and practice
a religion of love. Not by seeking
the superficial things of life, but
rather as love springs from the in-
dividual's heart will we find the
peace of Christ.
{Bluebird
Eva Willes Wangsgaard
I tried to capture April weather,
Spin song of fragrance lilacs bore.
But a poet wearing a bright blue feather
Sang all that I knew to sing and more.
cJhe Southern States ft it.
tssion
Pieston R. Nibley
Assistant Church Historian
/^\NE of the first missionaries to labor in the states which later were
included in the Southern States Mission, was Wilford Woodruff
who, as early as 1834, traveled through and held meetings in Arkansas,
Tennessee, and Kentucky. Converts were baptized and several small
branches of the Church were established. In 1839 Jedediah M. Grant
began missionary work in Virginia. Other elders followed, but it was not
until 1875 that the Southern States Mission was organized, with Henry
G. Boyle as president. The States included in the new mission were
Tennessee, Arkansas, Alabama, Georgia, Mississippi, and Virginia.
As the work of the mission increased, a number of adjoining States
were added, including Ohio, North and South Carolina, Kentucky, Mary-
land, Texas, Louisiana, and Florida.
The headquarters of the Southern States Mission was first established
in Nashville, Tennessee. It was later changed to Chattanooga, Tennessee,
then to Atlanta, Georgia.
Presidents of the mission who served from the time of its organization
until 1933 were: Henry G. Boyle, 1875-78; John Morgan, 1878-83; Brigham
H. Roberts, 1883-84; William Spry, 1888-91; J. Golden Kimball, 1891-94;
Courtesy Atlanta Chamber of Commerce
Submitted by Lucile W. Bunker
THE SUWANNEE RIVER, GEORGIA AND FLORIDA
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Courtesy Atlanta Chamber of Commerce
Submitted by Lucile W. Bunker
DOGWOOD IN BLOOM, ATLANTA, GEORGIA
Elias S. Kimball, 1894-98; Ben E. Rich, 1898-1902; Ephraim H. Nye,
1902-03; Ben E. Rich, 1903-08; Charles A. Callis, 1908-33.
After serving twenty-five years as president of the Southern States
Mission, Charles A. Callis was ordained a member of the Council of the
Twelve Apostles, on October 14, 1933.
Mission presidents who have served since President Callis are:
LeGrand Richards, 1933-37; Merrill D. Clayson, 1937-40; William P.
Whitaker, 1940-43; Heber Meeks, 1943-48; Albert Choules, 1948-52; Peter
J. Ricks, 1952-55; Berkeley L. Bunker, 1955-59; J. Byron Ravsten, 1959—.
The borders of the Southern States Mission have been changed sev-
eral times since its organization. The Mission now embraces the States
of Georgia, Mississippi, Alabama, Florida, and South Carolina.
Stakes that have been organized from the Southern States Mission are:
Florida, January 1947; South Carolina, October 1947; Atlanta, May 1957;
Orlando, February 1958; and Tampa, August 1959.
At the end of November 1959, there were 12,554 members of the
Church in this Mission, located in seventy branches.
Sixty-four Relief Society organizations, with 1276 members, were re-
ported in December 1959. Lucile W. Bunker is former president of the
Southern States Mission Relief Society. The new president is Elva Stella
Ravsten.
Note: The cover for this Magazine "A Southern Mansion With Dogwood in
Bloom," is used by Courtesy of the Atlanta, Georgia, Chamber of Commerce, and was
submitted by Lucile W. Bunker. See also "Recipes From the Southern States Mission,"
by Sister Bunker, on page 179.
A Place for Everything
Charmaine Kohler
DEBRA awoke suddenly, as she
did each morning, plans for
the day running through her
head. Today she wanted to wash
the kitchen windows, straighten the
cupboard shelves, and give the
utility room a good cleaning. After
that, there might be time to do
that stack of mending before Dan
came home from work.
Debra prided herself on her neat-
as-a-pin home. She knew her neigh-
bors remarked on how she kept it
that way with two small atom-
powered boys and a husband to
clean up after. Her formula was "a
place for everything, and everything
in its place," and she followed this
formula to the letter.
Her thoughts were interrupted
when two little blonde heads peeked
around the door. Ronnie, age four,
and Greggie, age two, skipped smil-
ing to the bedside, both talking at
once.
"Good morning, Mommie!" Ron-
nie flashed his dimples and pro-
ceeded to dig Dan out from be-
neath the covers.
' 'Morning, Mommie/' Greggie
always managed to sound like his
big brother's echo. Everything Ron-
nie said Greggie would repeat as
best he could, which sometimes
wasn't too clear.
Debra smiled quickly at her wig-
gling sons, as she reached for her
housecoat and slippers. The boys
would have "Daddy Polar Bear" up
soon, so she might as well take ad-
vantage of the opportunity and get
breakfast started. When Dan left
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for work at nine, she hoped to be
all ready to start cleaning.
Greggie soon joined her in the
kitchen and demanded his usual
seat on the counter top. Here he
could watch every fascinating move
as flour and eggs blended with milk
and shortening to make the hot
cakes he loved.
"Me help?"
"Not this morning, honey. Mom-
mie wants to hurry." Debra poured
out a cup of dried milk and set it
down on the counter.
"Ronnie! Hot cakes!" Greggie
eagerly relayed the good news.
"Hot cakes!" The answering shout
from the bathroom and the quick
dash for the kitchen were evidence
of another little boy's breakfast fav-
orite.
"May I help?" Ronnie asked
hopefully.
"Not today. I have to hurry."
Debra turned back to her bowl just
in time to see Greggie leaning over
the cup of powdered milk, his
mouth puckered, ready to blow.
"Oh, no, Greggie!" she gasped.
Too late. A cloud of powdered
milk crystals flew up above the little
blonde head and drifted lazily down
to settle on floor, cupboard — and
little blonde head.
Debra firmly picked up Greggie
and plunked him into his high chair
to await breakfast. Ronnie made a
fast get-away to the living room.
When his mother walked that fast
he knew from experience that it
was time to move on.
Breakfast followed the usual pat-
tern. Debra was silent, thinking
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167
over her day's work. Dan ate
quickly, glancing occasionally at the
clock. Greggie and Ronnie kept up
a constant chatter.
"I'm going to clean up my plate
first. I'll beat you, Greggie!"
"Beat you, Ronnie."
"Huh-uh!" Ronnie argued.
"Wi-huh!"
"Hey, Mommie," Ronnie asked
for his mother's attention.
"Yes?"
"If my head was in my tummy I
bet it could see what this milk is
doing down there."
"Hurry and eat your breakfast,
Ron." Debra had no time this
morning to become involved in one
of her son's wild imaginings.
At nine o'clock Debra kissed Dan
goodby and sent the boys to the
back yard to play. Now if only they
would occupy themselves for a few
hours so she could get down to
business.
Debra quickly stacked the break-
fast dishes and filled the sink with
sudsy water. Just as she was scour-
ing the last frying pan, she heard
Ronnie calling excitedly from be-
neath her kitchen window.
"Mommie — Mommie! Come
quick!"
"Quick!" echoed Greggie.
"What is it?" Debra called
through the windows, imagining at
least a broken arm or a bloody gash.
"Greggie found a spotted bug.
Come see him!"
"See 'im," Greggie chanted.
Debra had no intention of taking
the extra time or steps involved to
see the spotted bug. She knew the
boys would forget about it soon.
Twelve o'clock arrived quickly as
Debra busily cleaned. Dutifully,
but with regret, she laid down her
window polishing cloth and called
the boys in to lunch.
"Lunchtime, boys. Empty the
sand from your cuffs before you
come in." The sandbox and Debra
waged a constant battle. The gritty
sand could make a shiny, freshly
waxed floor rough like concrete in
a short time.
Debra quickly made peanut but-
ter sandwiches and tall glasses of
chocolate milk, then scooped large
helpings of gelatin salad onto two
plates.
"What's new with you, Mother?"
Ronnie came strolling into the
kitchen.
Debra glanced quickly at her old-
est son and smiled. Now where
had he picked up that remark?
"New you, Mommie?" Greggie
chirped.
"Not much, boys. Hurry and
wash your hands. Lunch is ready."
TLTOW many times a day did she
say "hurry" and "quick," Deb-
ra wondered. How many thousands
of things were there to lure little
boys' minds from what you told
them to do? How many pebbles to
examine? How many butterflies to
chase? How many questions to an-
swer? Sometimes a twitch of con-
science warned Debra to be more
patient. She knew she should take
time to answer more questions
thoroughly and explore more of
nature's wonders with her sons, but
the days never seemed to be long
enough to get everything done.
There was always a washing to do,
an ironing, or baking. If she ever
really slowed down, surely her house-
hold would disintegrate before her
eyes within two days.
Finally, after two dozen requests
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of "Eat your lunch, boys/' the last
drop of ice cream disappeared from
the bottom of their bowls and Debra
whisked them off to bed for naps.
She always looked forward to this
time of day, for now she could really
fly around without spending so
much time going to the window to
check on the boys at play.
Just as she was closing their bed-
room door, Ronnie called out. Im-
patiently, Debra opened the door.
"It is nap time. Now go to sleep
and do not call me again!" Debra
spoke sharper and louder than she
intended.
"Just one word, please." Ronnie
held up one small finger to make
his request sound as reasonable as
possible and looked zt his mother
with large, serious eyes.
"Word, p'eese?" Greggie spoke
softly as he peeked at Debra with
one eye closed.
"All right. What is so important
just now?" Debra relented.
"Mommie, you know that sad tree
we saw at Grandma's? Why was
it so sad? Didn't it have any play-
mates?"
"Cree any p'aymates?" Greggie
echoed worriedly.
Sad tree? Debra was puzzled.
What in the world was a sad tree?
"I guess not, hon. Now have a
good nap."
Debra returned to her polishing
cloth, then suddenly she understood.
Of course! The weeping willow
tree. I must remember to explain
about the names of different trees
when Ron awakens from his nap,
she decided.
jpHREE o'clock came. The kitch-
en windows shone, the utility
room gleamed, and Debra was
efficiently reorganizing cupboard
shelves. To make the simple task
less monotonous her favorite rec-
ord was spinning on the hi-fi and
strains of "Oh, I'm So Lonely" were
drifting through the air.
"Oh, I'm so lonely since he said
goodbye . . ." Debra crooned under
her breath.
"Mother!"
Ronnie's voice from behind start-
led Debra so that she nearly fell
from the stool on which she was
perched. Lost in her task and the
music, she hadn't heard her son's
bare footsteps.
"You frightened me. Did you
have a good nap?"
"Yes, I had a good nap," giggled
Ronnie, tickled because he had
scared Debra.
"Good nap." Greggie nodded his
head so vigorously that his whole
body jiggled.
"Fine. Run get your shoes and
jeans and you can ride tricycles
awhile."
"Okay!" Greggie had just mast-
ered the art of tricycle riding and
enthusiastically ran to find his miss-
ing clothes.
"Mother, if you find that man,
I'll be his playmate." Ronnie was
standing very still with a thoughtful
scowl on his face.
"What man? What are you talk-
ing about?" Now what, Debra
wondered.
"That man singing . . . 'lonely
him/" Ronnie answered seriously.
"That is just a pretend song, hon-
ey. He's not really lonely. Now
run get your clothes. Greggie! What
are you doing? Hurry, darling."
Debra climbed down from the
stool and went to see what was delay-
ing her youngest.
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169
Greggie was stretched out full-
length on his stomach, chin resting
on the floor, while one finger poked
experimentally and with caution at
the retreating end of a big black
beetle.
"Oh, darling, leave that thing
alone. He may bite," Debra warned.
"He bite?" Greggie, round-eyed
and fascinated, did not retreat one
step.
Debra scooped the beetle onto a
magazine and threw him out the
window. "Come on, Greg. Mom-
mie will put your shoes on. Don't
you want to go outdoors?"
"Don' wan'nu,' wan'nu', wan'nu'!"
Greggie thrust out his chin, his eyes
shot sparks, and he dared Debra to
give him any argument.
"Now stop that right now. Hurry
up and go play so that I can finish
those cupboards. You're just wast-
ing time."
TTyEBRA could feel her anger ris-
ing. Why did Greggie have to
give her trouble now? He did look
cute when he was angry, though.
She wanted to pick him up, cuddle
and tease him awhile, but she just
didn't have time now. Instead, she
picked him up and carried him,
small arms and legs churning, to a
chair where she forcibly dressed him.
"Now ride your tryke and stay
out of the street."
With one last scowl over his
shoulder, Greggie peddled off down
the sidewalk.
"Ronnie, are you going out?"
Now what is he doing? Debra won-
dered.
Ronnie had rediscovered a gun
he had received for Christmas a year
ago. He had also dug a dart for the
gun from the clutter of his toy box.
The suction-cup head for the dart
was missing, but maybe it would
shoot. He would try, anyway.
"Watch me shoot that zebra,
Mother."
Zing! Crash! Before Debra could
even open her mouth to stop him,
a dozen pieces of the ill-fated zebra's
hind quarters scattered and slid
across the end table and floor.
Ronnie stood motionless — big-
eyed and amazed. He'd hit it! What
a good shot! He didn't think Moth-
er would agree with him, and he
eyed her cautiously.
Debra looked at the shattered
zebra sadly. It wasn't the first of
her zebra collection to be broken,
but it was the first to be broken in
too many pieces to be repaired.
"You know better than to shoot
that gun in the house. Now go out-
doors and play before I spank you."
Debra went for the broom as Ron-
nie made his escape. He had been
expecting a spanking and considered
himself lucky to get by so easily.
Ten minutes later Ronnie was
back at Debra's side, a child's book
clutched in his hand.
"Will you read to me?" he asked
hopefully.
"Not now, maybe later. I have
a lot to do before Daddy gets home
from work. Run back outdoors and
play/'
"I bet you just won't ever read,"
Ronnie muttered, as he sadly shuf-
fled out.
By five o'clock Debra had finished
all the day's tasks she had allotted
herself that morning in bed. All,
that is, except the mending. She
decided to work on that while she
watched television with Dan that
evening. Dan had told her often
that he didn't want her working
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MARCH 1960
around the house while he was home
in the evening. After the hustle-
bustle of the drugstore all day, Dan
looked forward to a relaxed evening
surrounded by his family.
Sometimes they rough-housed,
the room shaking, while "Daddy
Polar Bear" and his "cubs" rolled
growling over and over each other
across the floor. Other times Dan
would sit on the davenport, a son
under each arm, reading fairy tales.
Debra also looked forward to their
evenings together, but if her work
for the day had not been completed,
she found it hard to relax. Even
wrhen physically tired, Debra's mind
would start planning tomorrow's
chores.
^HAT night when Dan closed the
storybook, Debra reached for
the boys' pajamas.
"Bedtime, fellows," Dan said as
he tugged Greggie's shoes off. "Let's
see who beats undressed."
While the contest noisily pro-
ceeded, Debra went to the boys'
room. She opened a window, closed
the blinds, and turned down the
covers on the twin beds. Then,
ready for the "going-to-bed cere-
mony," she waited.
The "going-to-bed ceremony" had
started a year ago when Greggie,
just one year old, had been given a
"big bed." The ceremony consisted
of prayers, the eeny-meeny-miney-
moe game, a final drink of water,
and a goodnight kiss. Only after
the completion of this ceremony
would the boys lie down and go to
sleep. Debra had tried to leave out
a part or two to hurry up the routine
at times, but the protests were
always so vigorous that she had giv-
en up.
Greggie and Ronnie skipped into
the room in their identical blue
sleepers, resembling two innocent
blonde angels, and knelt, each by
his own bed, for prayers.
"Heavenly Father . . ." Ronnie be-
gan.
"Hebbenly Fa'her," Greggie ech-
oed.
"Bless Mommy and Daddy, Greg-
gie and me. . . ."
"An' me," Greggie mumbled.
"Help Uncle Rod on his mis-
sion. . . ." Ronnie continued.
"Help Umple Rod. . . ."
"Help Grandpa feel better," Ron-
nie added.
"Gran'pa beller. . . ."
"Help us be good boys. . . ."
"Good boys. 'Men." Greggie fin-
ished his prayer and climbed onto
his bed, clutching his beloved fuzzy
kitten.
Debra raised her head and waited
for Ronnie to bounce up. He re-
mained kneeling, head bowed,
hands clasped.
"And help Mommie have lots
more time so she can play with us.
Amen."
Debra stiffened. Ronnie's final
request to Heavenly Father was not
part of his usual prayer. He had
never added anything before. Why
had he said such a thing?
Debra knew why. How many
times today, and before today, had
she told the boys, "Not now-
later." "I don't have time right
now." "Some other time. I'm in a
hurry." "Don't waste time." "Hurry
and eat." "Run wash your hands."
How many times had she ignored
their questions and requests when
what they were really asking for was
her company?
A PLACE FOR EVERYTHING
17T
F\EBRA didn't like the way she
was seeing herself — the way
Ronnie and Greggie must see her.
"Eeny, meemie! Eeeny, meemie,
Mommie!" Greggie shouted im-
patiently.
Greggie squealed and helplessly
struggled as Debra gathered him up,
tossed him onto the bed, and drew
the sheet up to his chin. Ronnie
soon succumbed, and after tucking
him in, Debra went to the bathroom
for their "ceremonial drink/'
What had she been doing, she
wondered, robbing her sons? That
was an ugly word, but true. Her
own best childhood memories were
of the hours her mother had read to
her, the talks they had had, and the
doll clothes they'd sewed together.
She never remembered her mother
ever telling her that there wasn't
time or that she was too busy. Her
mother's house was always clean,
too — even with seven children
frolicking through it.
"Mother, you forgot our drink,"
Ronnie called indignantly.
"Coming," Debra replied, and
hastily filled two cups and carried
them to the thirstv bovs. When
drinks were finished, Debra leaned
down to kiss them good night.
"Good-night, darling," she mur-
mured to Ronnie. "Have a good
sleep because we have a big day
ahead tomorrow. How would you
like to go for a walk by the river?"
"Sure, can we?" Ronnie was
doubtful.
"Of course, we can," Debra
smiled, "and we'll see how many
kinds of bugs, trees, and colored
rocks wc can find."
"Mc! Rocks, crces, bugs!" Greg-
gie shouted, sitting up straight in
bed.
"You, too, honey." Debra smiled.
"You have a good sleep, too. Good-
night."
Debra paused outside their closed
door, her heart full of love. It would
not be easy to break her habit of
constant, nervous cleaning, but she
could, and would — starting now.
As she went to join Dan in the
living room, a voice (perhaps her
conscience, peaceful at last) sighed
through her thoughts . . . "and a
little child shall lead them."
1 1 larch cJt
tme
Enoh Chamberlin
March time came to the world today,
Came with the wind-whipped applique
Of the shadows of new leaves on the ground;
Came with the heart uplifting sound
Of a meadowlark calling, came with the feel
Of pussywillows like satin chenille.
March time came to valley and hill;
Came with a yellow daffodil;
With north flown robins again on the wing —
Came with a boy with a ball of string,
With a care-free heart and a purple kite,
With scuffed old shoes and eyes alight,
With the wind and sky at his command
Holding the universe in his hand.
Sixty LJears J/igo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, March 1, and March 15, 1900
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
of All Nations"
VISIT TO MEXICO: About 5 o'clock p.m., on the 21st of October, we arrived
at Dublan, where there was a joyful meeting with my daughter. At Dublan there is
an excellent site for a large city, the only drawback being the scarcity of water late
in the season. . . . The latter part of October I went to Juarez, about eighteen miles
distant. . . . We were kindly treated by the Saints and hospitably entertained at the
homes of Presidents A. W. Ivins and Henry Eyring, Bishop Joseph Bentley and others,
and met with many friends, among them Sister Elizabeth Snow, who is spending the
winter with her daughter in this delightful climate. . . . On Thursday I returned to
Dublan with Sister Mary P. Eyring, the president of the Relief Society of Juarez
Stake, and met with the Relief Society of Dublan. Many excellent testimonies were
borne of the Gospel. . . .
— Ann C. Woodbury
THE LAKES OF THE WASATCH: Whether in the delicate profusion of the
Spring's flowery extravagance, or clothed in the deep, rich green of Summer's foliage,
in the gorgeous wealth of Autumnal colors, or buried beneath the snowy silence of
Winter, the Wasatch mountains are beautiful, sublime, inspiring; and high up lying
in open dells between vast walls, where the earth is intense with insect life and flowery
growth, are fairy lakes of mystic depths, held fast in the rugged cradles of these
mountain ridges. . . .
— M. A. J. Lambert
GOD'S LOVE
Could we with ink the ocean fill,
Were all the earth of parchment made,
Were every single stick a quill.
And every man a scribe by trade,
To write the love of God above
Would drain the ocean dry,
Nor could the scroll contain the whole
Though stretched from sky to sky.
— Selected
THE SEVENTEENTH OF MARCH: On Saturday, March 17, it will be fifty-
eight years since the Relief Society (which has now attained such magnificent pro-
portions) was organized in the City of Nauvoo, Illinois. We speak of it as having
been organized by President Joseph Smith. . . . He foresaw and foretold many things
concerning it which have since come to pass. . . . What it may do in the great future,
to which we look with such earnest hopefulness, remains for us who still live and
labor, and the younger women who will enlist in the work, to determine by diligence
and enterprise along the lines of higher and nobler aspirations and culture, than the
world has yet attained. . . . Therefore, it seems fitting indeed to celebrate the day
when such a movement was inaugurated, and to make it a day memorable in the minds
of all who are within reach. . . . One suggestion might be made . . . that particular
respect be shown to the veteran workers in the cause; and that mention be made in
some one of the addresses or speeches, of the great advantage the Society has given
to its faithful members, and in promoting and inculcating correct principles of life. . . .
— Editorial
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
M
RS. JOHN (Barbara) EISEN-
HOWER accompanied her
father-in-law, President Dwight D.
Eisenhower, in December, on his
historic eleven-nation tour to Italy,
Turkey, Pakistan, Afghanistan, In-
dia, Iran, Greece, France, Tunisia,
Spain, and Morocco. The Presi-
dent's wife did not make the
journey on account of her health.
jyjRS. LOUISE LAKE is a Lat-
ter-day Saint woman from Salt
Lake City who became completely
paralyzed from polio. Through
faith, determination, and therapy,
she has regained the use of her body
to be able to move around with the
aid of hand crutches. Mrs. Lake
was nationally recognized as the
"Handicapped Person of the Year"
in 1958, and has now been named to
the national President's Committee
for the Employment of the Handi-
capped. She was also named to the
planning committee of the Inter-
national Society for the Welfare of
Cripples. Mrs. Lake has also helped
to design clothes for the handi-
capped, many with zippers and
buttons placed for special uses.
IV/fRS. Anne Wheaton is Associ-
ate White House Press Sec-
retary and a very busy woman.
pARAH DIBAH, beautiful twen-
ty-one year old Iranian com-
moner, became the third wife of
Mohammed Reza Shah Pahlevi,
Shah of Iran, in Tehran, on De-
cember twenty-first. The Shah has
divorced two wives because of lack
of a male heir to the throne.
MIRIAM ASSY, an Arab and a
Christian, has been given a
special award and recognition by the
Israel Ministry of Health for "dedi-
cated and superior nursing care"
given at the Malben Hospital near
Nahariya in Northern Israel. Miss
Assy received a medical dictionary
and a biography of Eve Curie, each
inscribed by the hospital's director.
After the award ceremony Miss
Assy received a heartwarming wel-
come in her native village of Kfar
Yasif.
TTELEN LEE, a native of Knox-
ville, Kentucky, is head of the
design department of Alyssa Origi-
nals, Inc., and a partner in the firm
which does a multi-million dollar
business each year in designing and
manufacturing clothes for girls. She
and her staff of fourteen turn out
forty dress designs each week —
clothes noted for their "elegant
simplicity." Miss Lee also designs
a coat collection and all the chil-
dren's patterns for a large pattern
company.
Page 173
EDITORIAL
VOL. 47
MARCH 1960
NO. 3
cJhe IKe fining confluence of LKelief Society
(^)F all the refining influences that
come into the lives of those
who strive to uplift themselves, that
of the gospel of Jesus Christ is pre-
eminent. The gospel illumines
one's mind and soul, and frees one's
life from dullness and earthiness. A
knowledge of the divinity of the
Savior lends a touch of the sublime
to life in this world. A desire for
eternal exaltation gives purpose to
efforts to overcome weaknesses, to
cleanse from impurities, and to rise
above that which is coarse and vul-
gar. Knowing the gospel helps one
know the spiritual form that under-
lies everything. One cannot be truly
refined if he is deficient in spirit-
uality.
Relief Societv brings the refining
influence of the gospel of Jesus
Christ to its members. Relief So-
ciety furnishes inspiration which has
impelled action on the part of the
sisters to learn and live the com-
mandments of our Heavenly Father.
One great purpose for its organiza-
tion, and a constant direction from
the prophets, is to teach the gospel
— to build testimonies.
Refinement is not merely concern
for one's own spiritual and cultural
advancement. It embodies all that
is gentle, considerate, and uplifting,
and embraces consideration for and
service to others. The author Gales-
worthy once described a friend as a
person having true refinement be-
cause he couldn't help thinking of
others no matter what he did.
Thoughtfulness of the needs of
Page 174
one's fellow men and service to
them enlarges the soul. Compas-
sion is tenderness, understanding,
sympathy, and fellowship in feeling
which leads to alleviating want and
distress; all are emotions and actions
which enrich one's own life. Presi-
dent McKay has defined the essence
of true culture as being considera-
tion for others. Selflessness is an
attribute of character the truly re-
fined person possesses.
Relief Society throughout its long
history has ever been mindful of
serving God through serving his
children. Members of Relief Society
make its motto "Charitv never fail-
eth," a living reality in constant
striving to be of living service. This
great, world-wide sisterhood gives
each member opportunities to serve
in the name of the Society and
encourages individual sisters to de-
velop habits of kindliness in them-
selves. Relief Society responds as
wholeheartedlv todav to the need
J 4
for its myriad services as it did in
the beginning.
Intellectual development is one
facet of the many faceted jewel of
refinement. The various aspects of
culture are a refining influence and
their study an enriching experience.
An understanding of the great and
beautiful arts brings breadth of vi-
sion, guidance in meeting life's chal-
lenges, and an emotional response
which promotes learning. What one
feels deeply greatly affects learning.
Education and intellectual pursuits
add to the storehouse of knowledge
EDITORIAL 175
upon which one can dream to live are the foundation of lives beautiful-
more abundantly. ly lived. Such basic things as self-
Relief Society brings culture and control, unselfishness, and self-mas-
beauty into the lives of its members tery are traits of character that lead
and their families in its educational to spiritual and emotional maturity,
program. It helps create and keep This maturity is a refining influence
alive the desire for progression, the that shapes purposeful lives,
constant goal of ever-increasing Relief Society helps to build with-
knowledge. A discriminating study in its members the resources for
of literature increases one's ability gracious living. All phases of home-
to choose wisely those things which making are taught: from making
will contribute to mental and spirit- homes more beautiful by creative
ual growth. Appreciation of good handwork, to fundamentals of a
music is another cultural feature well-ordered home economically
Relief Society fosters, both as a managed, through the activities
means of providing for participation which spiritualize the home. The
in worshiping and learning, and in continuing education that mothers
increasing understanding of a refin- receive in Relief Society serves to
ing art to add depth and richness to increase the happiness, serenity, and
life. joyousness of family life.
Gracious living is conducive to The refining influence of Relief
refinement. The opposite is also Society has reached thousands of
true. Refinement is conducive to lives in the one hundred eighteen
gracious living. The spirit of the years since 1842. Our Heavenly
home in which one resides influ- Father has truly provided an organ-
ences the process by which refine- ization for his daughters which
ment is achieved. The love, the disci- guides, assists, and uplifts them,
pline, and the teachings of parents — L. W. M.
1 1 itraculous KjLdvent
Ida Elaine James
So long the shoulders of our joy have borne
The burden of the snow; so long the lost
Bloom of an earlier ecstasy has worn
Only the bitter mantle of the frost:
If, through the casements of the heart, we see
At last dark acres travail to the bud,
The earth turn gold and coral, and the tree
Plume to the ascent of white mounting blood:
Oh, give a tolerant hearing once again
To such spring words as winter hearts indite,
Who see, on blossomed hillsides of old pain,
Beauty come singing, with a face of light.
TLobiA.
TO THE FIELD
y^Jrganizattoas and LKeorganizations of Stake
ana 1 1 iission LKeltef Societies for igjg
NEW ORGANIZATIONS
Stakes
Formerly Part of
North Sacramento
Appointed President
Lois S. Fife
Date Appointed
American River
December 6, 1959
Stake
Cheyenne
Clearfield
Denver Stake
North Davis Stake
Amy E. Willis
Afton C. Higley
July 7, 1959
April 12, 1959
Denver West
Denver Stake
Delia H. Teeter
July 5, 1959
East Idaho Falls
Idaho Falls Stake
Bertha Hansen
June 14, 1959
Granite Park
South Salt Lake Stake
Melvina U. Dust
February 23, 1959
Huntington Park
South Los Angeles
Stake
Laura R. Shimp
April 19, 1959
Indianapolis
Great Lakes Mission
Hazel M. Brinson
May 17, 1959
Mojave
Bakersfield Stake
Ora Kidd
August 16, 1959
Pocatello (new)
West Pocatello Stake
Emily S. Romish
April 19, 1959
Sandy
Tampa
Mount Jordan Stake
Orlando Stake
Wanda L. Gull
Inez Edwards
April 12, 1959
October 25, 1959
Torrance
West Covina
Whittier
Redondo Stake
Covina Stake
East Los Angeles
Stake
Kathryn L. Squire
Lyle H. Facer
Rea W. Jorgenson
May 3, 1959
May 3, 1959
April 26, 1959
Winder
Yakima
Mill Creek Stake
Richland Stake
Dorothy F. Bolander
Adele Willden
January 25, 1959
June 1, 1959
Missions
Formerly Part of
Appointed President
Date Appointed
Andes
Argentine and
Fawn H. Sharp
September 25, 1959
Brazilian South
Uruguay
Brazilian
Ida M. Sorenson
August 24, i!959
South German
West German
Verda C. Buehner
September 12, 1959
REORGANIZATIONS
Stakes
Released President
Melba H. Tullis
Melba Thorne
President Appointed
Date Appointed
Ashley
Blaine
Mazie S. Christensen
Elizabeth C.
January 25, 1959
October 2, 1959
Adamson
Boise
Edna S. Millar
Alyce B. Glade
June 28, 1959
Bonneville
Cache
Cora S. Jenkins
Pearl A. Heaton
Ruby A. Robbins
Pearl R. Haddock
September 1, 1959
May 25, 1959
Cannon
Eva H. Stevenson
Janet S. Schmidt
June 21, 1959
Covina
Denver
Lyle H. Facer
Delia H. Teeter
Doris Lee
Ilah K. Smith
May 3, 1959
July 12, 1959
Page 176
NOTES TO THE FIELD
177
Stakes
Emery
Grand Coulee
Hayward
Hillside
Hymm
Kearns North
Lake View
Logan
Lyman
Midvale
Monterey Bay
Nevada
North Box Elder
North Davis
North Sacramento
Oquirrh
Orange County
Orlando
Palo Alto
Portland
Portneuf
Redondo
Rigby
Riverdale
Santa Ana
Santa Monica
Smithfield
South Los Angeles
South Sevier
St. Louis
University
West Poeatello
West Utah
Released President President Appointed Date Appointed
Merle B. Johansen
Jane M. Larsen
Myrtle A. Davidson
Lucille S. Condie
Rhoda Thorpe
Joyce S. Jensen
Katherine Child
Gwen J. Miner
Elease E. Rollins
Celeste D. Millerber^
LaVee Haws
Christie L. Haynes
June I. Hunsaker
LaVora S. Wood
Lois S. Fife
Laura M. Wilkin
Alline Hatch
Vela E. Milton
Ruby M. Dobbins
Jennie R. Scott
Emeline W. Marley
Kathryn L. Squire
Hope S. Beus
Isabell C. Ellison
Mariom A. Wood-
house
Hilda Goucher
Vera R. Cant well
Laura R. Shimp
Faye K. Nielson
Lorene Tidlund
Fanny S. Kicnitz
Emily S. Romish
Loleta W. Dixon
Rena Grange
Lanore S. Bowen
Vera S. Crockett
Genevieve F. Wright
Berenece B. Darley
Clarice M. Woolley
LaRue L. Schoenfeld
Nellie G. Quinney
Ada W. Eyre
Marguerite G.
Wright
Louise H. Johnson
Margery M. Tate
Nina H. Beecher
Verna C. Holt
Kerma D. Jensen
LaPrele S. Brown
Mary S. Grasteit
Paula F. Hawkins
Nell M. Benson
Ann M. Merrill
Fern T. Hartvigsen
Ruth Witty
Ruth Millet
Myrl S. Stewart
Bessie L. Brockbank
Elva D. Cusworth
Ireta R. Hymas
Alta C. Davis
Clara S. Roberts
Mardean P. Stein-
metz
Annie M. Ballantyne
Margaret L. Jones
Esther M. Moulton
March 15, 1959
April 26, 1959
September 27, 1959
January 12, 1959
June 28, 1959
January 22, 1959
June 21, 1959
May 17, 1959
September 27, 1959
May 10, 1959
September 27, 1959
September 20, 1959
August 10, 1959
January 25, 1959
December 10, 1959
August 27-, 1959
December 13, 1959
November 15, 1959
August 13, 1959
January 26, 1959
February 1, 1959
May 3, 1959
July 19, 1959
September 27, 1959
May 16, 1959
September 20, 1959
September 27, 1959
April 20, 1959
May 17, 1959
June 7, 1959
August 23, 1959
April 19, 1959
December 13, 1959
Missions
Australian
Canadian
Central American
Central Atlantic
States
Danish
Eastern States
French
New England
New England
North German
Northern California
Southern Far East
Southern States
Swedish
Swiss-Austrian
Tongan
Released President President Appointed Date Appointed
Irene T. Erekson
Leah H. Lewis
Gladys K. Wagner
Lovell W. Smith
Ora H. Petersen
Florence S. Jacobsen
Alice C. Christensen
Margaret R. Jackson
Laura P. Brossard
Edythe C. Robbins
Hazel S. Love
Luana C. Heaton
Lucile W. Bunker
Ruth T. Oscarson
LaVelle D. Curtis
Sylvia R. Stone
Edith J. Moore
Frances B. Monson
Edith B. Hancock
Catharine W.
Aposhian
Florence B. Thorup
Olive L. Smith
Laura P. Brossard
Laura P. Brossard
May F. Can
Velma W. Fetzer
Leta C. Pugh
Barbara C. Taylor
Elva S. Ravsten
Ellen S. Omer
Jennie W. Erekson
La Vera W. Coombs
January 23, 1959
April 14, 1959
March 4, 1959
February 18, 1959
October 13, 1959
January 22, 1959
November 23, 1959
July 2, 1959
November 12, 1959
November 19, 1959
November 13, 1959
June 16, 1959
April 16, 1959
November 16, 1959
August 8, 1959
May 20, 1959
178 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MARCH 1960
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/^OPIES of the 1959 index of The Relief Society Magazine are available
and may be ordered from the General Board of Relief Society, 76
North Main Street, Salt Lake City 11, Utah. The price is twenty cents,
including postage.
Relief Society officers and members who wish to have their 1959
issues of The Relief Society Magazine bound may do so through The
Deseret News Press, 33 Richards Street, Salt Lake City 1, Utah. (See
advertisement on page 209.) The cost for binding the twelve issues in a
permanent cloth binding is $2.50, leather $3.80, including the index. It
is recommended that wards and stakes have one volume of the 1959
Magazines bound for preservation in ward and stake Relief Society libraries.
cJhe <yimericari [Red Cross and &ts Campaign
for 1 1 lembers and C/unds
Theodore V. Housei
Volunteer National Chairman for Members and Funds
^HE Red Cross volunteer is a respected symbol of the American's tra-
ditional concern for his brother's well-being.
The story of the Red Cross begins with its volunteers. Internationally,
the organization was founded by volunteers. It was brought to this coun-
try by volunteer leadership. Here in America, the Red Cross took deep
root because the tradition of neighbors volunteering to help one another
and their communities is part of our national and spiritual heritage. . . .
The past year found the American Red Cross not only carrying on its
more familiar responsibilities — those of disaster relief, training in first aid,
swimming, lifesaving, and home nursing, providing blood for the sick and
injured, and helping servicemen, veterans, and their families — but also
mobilizing to meet other challenging situations. . . .
Although the Congressional charter under which the Red Cross oper-
ates imposes specific duties and responsibilities upon the organization, it
receives its financial support solely from the voluntary contributions of
the American people.
At this time, when the American Red Cross holds its annual cam-
paign to enlist our active participation, and, in many communities, our
financial support of its Nation-wide and world-wide activities, its achieve-
ments warrant our continued support. It is fitting that all of us join in
supporting the Red Cross in its annual campaign for members and funds,
being conducted throughout the month of March, to secure the volunteers
and the money needed to carry on its important work.
[Recipes Qjronx the Southern States liltssion
Submitted bv Lucile W. Bunker
1 c. corn meal
V* c. white flour
1 tsp. baking powder
1 tsp. salt
Deep-South Corn Bread
!4 tsp. soda
1 egg
buttermilk
lA c. shortening
Melt shortening in nine-inch square baking pan and set aside. Mix all other
ingredients together except the buttermilk, then pour enough buttermilk in to make
the mixture thin enough to pour into a greased baking pan. Beat in the melted short-
ening last, then pour into greased pan. Bake at 500 degrees F. until brown. Serves
six to eight.
Southern Fried Chicken
Cut chicken in pieces for frying, sprinkle with salt, and then let stand a few
minutes and then roll in flour.
Heat enough shortening in an iron skillet to half cover the chicken, but do not
drop into the grease until it is smoking. Now drop in pieces of chicken and cook
uncovered until browned on one side. Turn and cook on the other side until brown.
Cover with a lid and cook on low heat a few minutes more, about twenty-minutes in
all, then remove from the grease and drain on paper towels a few minutes. Do not
let it stand on the paper towels long, or the grease will re-enter the chicken. This
gives a tender, juicy, crisp Southern fried chicken.
Sweet Potato Souffle
4 large sweet potatoes
3 eggs, beaten light
1 c. milk (approximately)
sugar to taste
1 tsp. mixed spices
!4 tsp. each of nutmeg, cinnamon,
and cloves
Boil sweet potatoes, peel, and mash until smooth. Add sugar to taste, (slightly
sweet), and the lightly beaten eggs and spices. Add milk enough to resemble thick
custard. Pour all into a greased baking dish and bake at 400 degrees for thirty minutes
or until it is set like a custard. Serves four to six.
Variations: One of the following may be added: raisins, coconut, pineapple. Fold
in before baking.
Po' Boy Pudding
14 slices white bread
1 c. seedless raisins
1 box (4 oz.) shredded coconut
Vz c. butter or butter substitute
1 c. sugar
6 eggs, beaten
1 can (14 /4 oz.) evaporated milk
Cut bread into one-inch pieces; place in greased thirteen by nine by two inch pan.
Sprinkle first the raisins, then coconut over bread. Cream butter and sugar. Add
eggs; blend. Stir in milk. Pour mixture over coconut layer. Bake at 4000 F.
for twenty minutes. Serve warm with lemon sauce. Yield, ten to twelve portions.
Instead of sauce, try sprinkling chocolate chips over the top when the pudding
is done and returning it to the oven just five minutes to soften the chips.
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3 lbs. turnip greens
Vz c. water
1 tsp. sugar
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Turnip Greens
XA tsp. salt
4 slices salt pork
Wash and drain the greens. Place in large kettle with the water, sugar, and salt.
Drop in the pork and boil until tender. Serve immediately.
Grits
i c. grits
4. c. boiling water
l tsp. salt
l tbsp. butter
Pour grits into boiling salted water and stir until water returns to a boil. Lower
the flame and let simmer slowly for one hour, stirring frequently. When ready to
serve, add butter and beat well for a few minutes.
Blackberry Cobbler
2 cans (8% oz.) blackberries
2 c. sugar
i tbsp. butter or butter substitute
i recipe pastry topping
i egg white
sugar
Combine blackberries, sugar, and shortening; heat until shortening is melted. Pour
into eight inch square pan. Roll pastry dough on floured surface into a square slightly
smaller than pan. Arrange on top of berries; cut steam vents. Brush topping with egg
white; sprinkle with sugar. Bake at 400 degrees F. for twenty-five to thirty minutes.
Yield four to five portions.
Pastry Topping
1 c. sifted flour
dash of salt
J/4 c. butter or butter substitute
1 egg yolk
2 tbsp. water
Sift flour with salt, cut in shortening; add egg yolk and water; stir until dough is
formed.
Sweet Potato Pie
2 c. sweet potatoes, boiled
Vi stick butter
6 egg yolks
1 c. sugar (or less, to suit taste)
3'
milk
Vi tsp. nutmeg (or to suit taste)
6 egg whites (meringue)
sugar
Boil yeUow yams till tender, peel, mash, and put through a sieve, if they are
stringy. While yams are hot, mash the butter in with them so it will melt. Beat egg
yolks and sugar together and mix with the potatoes. Add milk and nutmeg, adding
extra sugar, if desired, to taste. No other flavoring is used. Mix all together well and
pour into uncooked pie shell which has been brushed with melted butter. Bake until
filling is firm and crust brown. Add meringue made from egg whites and sugar.
Return to the oven till topping is golden brown, or serve with whipped cream, instead
of meringue. Sufficient for two pies. Bake at 350 degrees F. for thirty-five to forty
minutes.
Hal Rumel
AZALEA
CYCLAMEN
SMALL POTS
CHRYSANTHEMUM
VIOLA
ys, wherefores, and cfun vl/ith K^reen [Plants
Maude N. Howard
HERE, simply stated, is basic
information to dispel the
myths, to inform you con-
cerning the whys and wherefores of
healthy house plants — how to
light, water, feed, pot, and multiply
them.
One of the joys of indoor garden-
ing is that it is never out of season.
House plants, with glossy green
foliage or bright-colored blooms,
can keep memories of spring and
summer alive, no matter what the
calendar may say or how the cold
winds blow.
Plants are ornaments for the room
you live in. You increase your
pleasure by selecting and placing
plants where they will be tasteful
room accents, often the finishing
touch that completes an effective
decorating plan. Whatever you want
done decoratively, there are plants
that will help you to do it. The
choices are many.
Depending on the size and style
of the particular room, its colors,
the space available, you will con-
sider whether you want to mass a
number of plants in one impressive
group, or spotlight a single plant in
the strategic location that makes it
a focus of interest.
Some plants have shiny foliage,
others have a velvet or furry finish.
There are different shaped leaves,
and greens go from palest char-
treuse to almost black-green tones.
For the most pleasing effect it is
well to remember to mix texture,
shape, and color of plants to make
your group interesting.
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A window garden is the answer
for rooms in need of color, and
nothing is a more effective color
cure in winter months than a win-
dow garden full of bright, blooming
plants. Poinsettias, azaleas, chrysan-
themums, and cyclamen plants keep
longer than most plants, but even
these will not last forever.
Others, such as African violets
and everblooming begonias, will
thrive through all twelve months of
the year under average home condi-
tions. Also, you can force your
own crop of spring flowering bulbs
for a succession of colorful bloom
indoors. An easy way to extend
the imprcssiveness of a few flower-
ing plants is to combine them with
your faithful foliage performers.
When you buy flower plants
always choose the ones with buds
so they will last. It takes lots of
moisture for a plant to produce
blooms, so be sure to water faith-
fullv while in bud. If you let the
Hal Rumel
GRAPE VINE IVY
plant get completely dry at this
time, flower buds may be damaged
so severely they will never open.
In bitter winter weather, move
plants away from the window at
night, if there is danger of frosting
when the house temperature drops.
The most successful window
garden will be the one that is
planned to suit the plants it in-
cludes in regard to light, tempera-
ture, and water. If you have a
suitable south window, you can
grow almost any house plant.
Always use the most attractive
containers you can find, and pre-
serve a polished look by regularly
wiping foliage.
The luxury look comes easily and
quickly to your rooms when you
invest in suitable plants of larger
size. Or, if time is not important,
you can start with young ones and
enjoy them as they grow.
IVY prospers in bright light, but
not direct sun; it must have a
well-drained soil, and the soil must
never be allowed to become severely
dry. Ivy is beautiful combined with
geraniums, especially for kitchen
decor. Grow ivy in water in a
j
dark green vase that disguises the
roots. Ivy is pretty in a basket
allowing the ivy to trail over the
handle. Wicker bread baskets
serve as appropriate plant containers
in the kitchen.
The pickaback plant ranks with
the hardier plants. A major attrac-
tion is its curious habit of putting
out new plants at the base of old
leaves, thus its popular name. Grow
this plant in bright light and a moist
soil.
Grape ivy, another hardy plant,
requires a light and well-drained
soil, always allowing surface soil to
WHYS, WHEREFORES, AND FUN WITH GREEN PLANTS
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Hal Rumel
PHILODENDRON PERTUSUM
(Cut Leaf)
become dry before adding water,
it tolerates low light and humidity
better than common ivies.
Monstera philodendron is a fav-
orite of decorators because of
its sophisticated appearance. The
several varieties of monstera require
brighter light than philodendrons
or the leaves will not split to the
extent that they should. They re-
quire sufficient moisture to keep
the soil moist but not wet.
Philodendron dubia, the common
variety of philodendron, needs light
and humidity. Philodendrons on
totem poles do much better if care
is taken to moisten the moss stick
at times.
Trileaf wonder, a variegated
green plant, is easy to grow in low
light and a loamy soil. If you like
small dramatic plants, try the
peperomias. They like medium
heat and careful attention given so
as not to overwater. Peperomias
come in plain green, variegated, or
watermelon variety.
Regardless of size, dracemos
(dracaena), in general, thrive in
damp soil and require at least med-
ium light. If the leaves become
brown, it is usually a sign of im-
proper watering — too little or too
much. There are a number of in-
teresting species, and they have
leaves that are long and broad,
striped in white or yellow.
The Boston fern wears spring's
tender green all year long. As na-
tives of tropical regions, ferns dislike
cold. In wintertime set ferns back
from the window so that the frond
ends do not touch the cold glass.
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Hal Rumel
FICUS DECORA
(Rubber Plant)
They thrive best in a sixty-five de-
gree temperature.
Aspidistra grows where nothing
else will. It is often called the cast-
iron plant and grows best in an
out-of-the-sun location. For ap-
pearance sake, clean the leaves of
this plant often with a commercial
solution or plain water, so that its
somewhat leathery foliage will be at
its glossy best.
^HE rubber plant will grow to
tree size. It makes a hand-
some room decoration, and with-
stands neglect and lack of sunlight,
but do not overwater this plant.
Pandanus has a sword-like leaf and
thrives in a warm indoor tempera-
ture. Water the pandanus moder-
ately in summer and keep it on the
dry side in winter.
Dieffenbachias flourish in loca-
tions receiving filtered light. These
are luxuriant plants that catch and
hold attention in any room setting.
They grow best in a well-drained
soil, rich in organic matter. They
need filtered light to prosper.
All cactus plants are succulent,
which means they have the ability
to store water, so they need little
water. Succulent plants take on so
many fascinating shapes and forms,
and so many have dwarf, or small
growth patterns, that they make
ideal house plants. Their sculptural
appearance calls for unusual con-
tainers.
Everyone loves flowering house
plants. Their fresh blooms, some-
times fragrant, always colorful, catch
and hold the eye of all who enter
the room. One can, if she plans
ahead, have a variety in bloom all
year. Perpetual bloomers are the
begonias and African violets. Ge-
raniums will reward you with ten
long seasons of blooms. Cuttings
rooted in the late summer bring
fall and winter blooms, in addition
to spring and summer flowering.
Hal Rumel
DIEFFENBACHIA
(Rudolph Roehrs)
WHYS# WHEREFORES, AND FUN WITH GREEN PLANTS 185
Grow these house plants for the healthy new plants. Take cuttings
gifts of color and freshness they three to five inches long just below
bring to your home. a joint, plant about two inches deep
You can have the spring plants in vermiculite or coarse sand. Keep
such as daffodils, hyacinths, and cuttings in the shade until the roots
tulips many weeks ahead of time by begin to form, then move into the
a process known as "forcing" sun. When the roots are one and
(which means to bring to bloom at a half to two inches long, cuttings
earlier than normal date). The larg- are ready to pot. Provide for good
er the bulb the more simple it is to drainage. Pinching encourages
force. The later the bulb blooms branching on a young plant,
out of doors the harder it will be to Hydrangeas require indirect light,
force indoors successfully. wet soil, and prefer a cool room.
As many plants are killed each
/Cyclamen plants require a sunny year from "overcare" as die from
spot and lots of water. Pour neglect. Most plants need good
the water at edge of the pot and light and thrive best (out of drafts)
not into the plant crown. at temperatures of seventy to seven-
Poinsettias come in pink, white, ty-five degrees. Examine the soil
and red, and these plants are easily each day and add water uniformly
damaged by chilling. Keep them when the soil starts to dry out. The
always away from a draft. When soil should be moist clear to the
warm weather comes, cut the stems bottom of the container. Fertilize
back and set the plants out in the monthly with a commercial plant
garden in a sunny location, then food
bring them indoors before frost. More and more decorators are
A bloom-laden azalea will keep usi knt§ as im tant dec.
its show tor many weeks. Keep it .? -, • c • i •
j v t_. i i . r-T ri orative elements in turmshmg a
in good light but in a rainy cool „, , , , &
location. Water each day just room' They choose large plants to
enough so that it will require mois- Punctuate a focal point or camou-
ture the next day Rage an architectural defect. Always
Geranium plants need regular select plants to the proper scale of
pruning to keep them growing in a your room and remember verdant
bushy, pleasing shape. The stems plants give a home a touch of per-
cut off can then be rooted to give sonality.
K/Lnnouncing the Special *jLpril Short Story SJssue
^HE April i960 issue of The Relief Society Magazine will be the special
short story number, with four outstanding stories being presented.
Look for these stories in April:
"Uncle Matt and the China Doll," by Sylvia Probst Young
"To Die Before Thy Time," by Helen Bay Gibbons
"Room in Her Heart," by Shirley Thulin
"That Special Flavor," by Dorothy S. Romney.
JnLfi v^Junce of ^Precaution
Mabel Harmer
THE members of the Marshall What could be more simple than
family were enjoying their taking the family through a fire
usual sound sleep one night drill, showing them how to get out
when the father was awakened by if the stairways, or other usual exits
the smell of smoke. After arousing are cut off? Why not teach chil-
his wife, he rushed into the next dren such simple procedures as
room and jerked the two eldest boys keeping their heads near the floor
out of bed. if a room is heavy with smoke, or,
He didn't take time to investigate if possible, to put a wet towel over
whether or not there was any dan- the nose and mouth to assist in
ger. He simply shouted, 'Tire! breathing.
Scoot!" One young woman who lost her
The lads grabbed bathrobes and life in an apartment house fire,
scooted. could have been saved if she and
He went across the hall, picked her husband had felt the door to
up Debbie and Dina, the six-year- find out if it was hot, before open-
old twins, and followed the boys ing it to let in the death-dealing
outside. He knew that Mrs. Mar- smoke. They could both have
shall had already escaped with the escaped through the window. As it
baby and two-year-old Jean. was, he lost hold of her hand in
It had taken less than three min- the darkness and only he reached
utes for all of the family to get out the window alive,
of the house. Only then did he go One more simple precaution,
back inside to phone to the fire Everyone who is old enough should
department. memorize the telephone number of
How was it that each one knew the fire department. Often one is
exactly what to do in case of such too excited to look it up correctly.
an emergency? It was because Mr. Sometimes there are no lights by
Marshall had taken the precaution which one can look it up. The least
of holding a fire drill the very day anyone can do is to have the number
the family had moved into the new on a card above the phone, along
home. It was still so new that with that of the police department
the blaze had started from paint and the family doctor,
cloths left too close to a radiator.
Fortunately, the fire was confined T AST year there was a total of
to one room. Still more fortunate over 35,000 deaths on the high-
— due to that ounce of precaution — way. Next to this avenue as an exit
the family escaped safely. from life, the home takes dubious
Almost every day, especially dur- second honors as a setting for acci-
ing the cold winter months, the dental death. If adults choose to
newspapers carry headlines of death risk their lives by improper wiring,
by fire. More often than not, the driving through the night when
victims are children. Surely many half asleep, or climbing on unsteady
of the deaths could be prevented, ladders, there isn't much anyone
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can do about it. But children are The dread of every parent is that
different. We should do every- a child may be molested by a sex
thing in our power not only to pro- pervert. It is not wise nor necessary
tect them from danger, but also to to frighten a child unduly, but there
teach them how to help protect are certain precautions that can and
themselves. should be taken. Fortunately, many
One conscientious young mother school officials are now taking the
in our neighborhood has trained her responsibility of teaching children
children to come home and ask how to avoid such dangerous en-
permission before eating any candy counters.
that may be given to them. She First of all, a child should be
conceived the idea so that she could warned never to get into an automo-
keep track of how much they ate, bile with a stranger. Even going
and when, but the rule paid off in for a visit in the same neighborhood,
another way. Five-year-old Ann it is a simple matter to have the
was playing out with friends when child telephone and let mother
they found some "candy" in a know that she has arrived at her
garbage can. Why people will be friend's house,
so criminally careless as to put dan- Two small girls who lived in the
gerous pills or poison out where suburbs had been instructed that
youngsters can get hold of them is they should never get into an auto-
beyond comprehension, but it does mobile with anyone except friends
happen. of the family. When a man who
The other children urged Ann to lived in the same neighborhood,
eat the "candy" but, true to her offered to drive them home from the
training, she went home first to end of the bus line, they accepted
ask permission. The pills were with provision, "First you must give
labeled For adults only, to be taken us your telephone number, in case
sparingly. Had the child eaten anything happens to us."
them in any quantity, the result The neighbor gravely wrote down
might have been disastrous. his phone number, then drove them
How many children have been safely home. Their mother im-
killed or maimed by having firearms pressed the warning a bit more
pointed at them in play? One such deeply for the future,
tragedy occurred on Christmas day
with a weapon that had been given HpHERE are certain clanger spots
as a gift. As is usually the case, this besides automobiles that chil-
gun was "unloaded." dren should be warned about. Fore-
It is only common sense — most among these are movie
although far too uncommonly exer- houses, rest rooms, and public parks,
cised — to make sure that all fire- Recently, police dogs have been
arms in the house are unloaded and added to the force that patrols the
are out of the reach of children, parks of some cities. They are valu-
But one should go a step further able in flushing out anyone who
than this and insist that, even in might be lurking in the shrubbery,
play, no child aims even a toy When a movie is being shown that
weapon at another child's head. will attract a large audience of chil-
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dren, the public safety department
has a number of extra officers on
hand.
At this writing, the body of a
Camp Fire girl has been found, rav-
ished and slain, while selling candy.
How easy it would have been for
some man to have invited her to
step inside the house while he made
a purchase. A friend of mine said
that after she had invited a Girl
Scout indoors to buy her cookies,
she warned the girl never to go in-
side another house.
Almost every parent knows the
anxiety and terror of having a child
lost. In the great majority of cases
children return home safely, even
after an expedition into unknown
streets; however, once in awhile
they do not. As soon as he is able
to do so a child should memorize
his name and address. Even earlier,
a simple precaution is to sew his
name and address on a tape inside
his clothing.
Always he should be taught that
the policeman is his friend. It is
hoped that there is no one so be-
nighted in these days as to frighten
a child into good behavior by the
threat of calling a policeman.
While a clog may be man's best
friend, a strange dog, on the other
hand, may be a dangerous enemy.
Every youngster should be cau-
tioned against petting strange dogs.
I shall never forget the agony I suf-
fered when our three-year-old boy
was attacked in the face by a
strange dog. For some time we
feared the sight in one eye might
be gone. True, the clog was tied
up and the child should not have
gone near; but he didn't know that.
We had failed to warn him that all
dogs are not playmates.
In some places the irrigation
ditches and streams claim the lives
of an appalling number of tiny vic-
tims every year. Increased watch-
fulness on the part of parents is
the most important thing that can
be done to lessen the number of
these tragedies. But there are some
precautions that can be taken with
older children, such as teaching
them to swim.
Even in places where it is too far
to swim to shore, a child who has
learned to handle himself in water
may be able to stay afloat and keep
from getting panicky until help
comes.
The rudiments of artificial respira-
tion should be learned, for many a
life has been saved by the simple
method of breathing into the pa-
tient's mouth.
No one wants to turn a child into
an 'accident - chondriac," fearful
that any move may send him to a
hospital, but it is wise to teach
safety rules persistently, one at a
time, and parents should see that
these rules are practiced. The re-
wards may be the saving of a life,
and the life you save may be that
of your own child.
m
omtng
Zara Sabin
Bird songs waken me — sparrow or lark,
Or maybe a robin or wren.
Coolness, like gauze, lies over the town.
Day is beginning again.
Offerings of the Heart
Frances C. Yost
MARJORIE Martin tied the
bow under tiny Julie's chin
and said, "There, the little
sunbonnet Mommie made for you
will keep those old freckles off
Julie's smiling face." She patted
her little daughter lovingly and
added: "Have fun in the yard,
Julie darling, and don't put any-
thing in your mouth."
"Bye bye, Mommie," Julie
mouthed the words joyfully. Her
little face wreathed in smiles under
the sunbonnet. "Back soon!" She
was gone out into the warm morn-
ing sunshine.
"Julie talks very well for her age,"
Marjorie's mother-in-law said, as she
picked up the dish towel to dry the
dishes Marjorie had started washing.
"Yes, Julie does talk nicely,"
Marjorie agreed. "Why, she won't
be two years old until July, and
already she can make her every want
known. Since Dan fenced in the
back yard so securely, do you think
I make a mistake turning her out
alone, Mother Martin?"
"Why, I think she's all right for
a spell, but she bears watching. All
children do." Mother Martin
laughed a little.
"I can watch her every movement
while I wash the dishes here at the
sink," Marjorie said. "Oh, oh, she's
picking those nasty dandelions. It's
just like her to cart them in the
house, and want them stuck in a
flower vase. Well, I'm not having
the house overrun with those ugly
weeds, as some doting mothers do!
I'll nip bringing bouquets to mother
before she starts." Marjorie quick-
ly dried her hands and started for
the door.
"Just a minute, Marjorie. I think
I should tell you about Emily,"
Mother Martin said gravely.
"Who on earth is Emily?"
"Emily is a little girl I knew very
well, long ago." Mother Martin
kept drying dishes as she spoke, but
her eyes had a faraway look. . . .
Emily didn't have a thing to give
her mother, and she wanted so
much to give her something nice,
for Mother was always giving her
something, or doing something for
her. It was springtime, and the
wild flowers were in bloom, and so
Emily decided to gather a lovely
bouquet of flowers for Mother, and
give them with her love.
Emily started gathering the flow-
ers, but the wild flowers were scat-
tered. Emily was not even aware
of the time or energy she was using
as she climbed over crags and rocks
and even walked where the ground
was slippery and muddv for a pretty
flower to add to her tiny bouquet.
The day wasn't overly hot, but it
took a long time to find the flowers,
and some of the first ones had wilt-
ed in her sweaty little hands. At
last Emily had a nice little bou-
quet of flowers of many colors, and
proudly she retraced her steps to-
wards home.
The walk, ordinarily, would have
seemed long, but today Emily
thought of the pretty smile on
Mother's face when she would see
the lovely little bouquet of wild
flowers.
In her excitement, Emily forgot
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the mud on her feet, forgot to clean
them on the mat. Instead, she
rushed into the house calling, "See
what I have!"
"I see what you have, mud on
your shoes!" Her mother expostu-
lated. Mother came toward Emily,
but she wasn't wearing her ' nice-to-
see-you-smile." Mother's face looked
like the old cracked earthen bowl
turned over. Then Mother spoke
sharply: "Get those ugly weeds out
of my house, and clean your feet
before you come in. I've scrubbed
and cleaned all day, and I'm tired!"
I^MILY turned and ran from the
house, still clutching the wild,
wilted flowers in her hot, little
hand. As she rushed toward the
old woodshed, she felt tears splash-
ing on her cheeks. She crept into
the woodshed and shut the door
tightly.
Emily had built a little playhouse
in the corner, where the wood had
been used, but she wrasn't in the
mood for playing house now. She
wasn't crying aloud as she some-
times did. She was sobbing, big,
gasping sobs that she could not
control, could not stop. Emily fell
exhausted on the slivery floor, and
sobs shook her body, and the tears
kept splashing on her cheeks.
Later, Emily laid out the flowers
one by one on Daddy's greasy old
work bench. Mother was right,
they looked old now, but if the
little flowers had a drink of water,
they would look pretty. When she
was all hot and tired, a drink of
water made her look better, and
feel better. The flowers were only
thirsty and tired. They were not
old and ugly, as Mother had said.
Just thinking of mother and the
flowers made Emily start to cry all
over again. But this time she just
cried silently, inwardly. She had
so wanted to surprise Mother, give
her a nice present. Make her eyes
light up and her face smile and
smile and smile all day. . . .
Mother Martin's story culminated
when a childish little knock was
heard on the back door. Marjorie
went to open it.
"Look, Mommie, flowers for
you." Julie's face was wreathed
with joy, as she extended a hand-
ful of dandelions to her mother.
"Why, Julie, these are pretty as
primroses. Thank you so much,
my little darling." Marjorie stooped
to kiss the tiny forehead under the
little sunbonnet. Then she turned
to Mother Martin.
"Do you mind if I ask who was
little Emily, of the generous heart?"
"I was christened Emily May.
When I grew older I was just
known as May," Mother Martin ex-
plained.
Marjorie's voice had an almost
reverent quality when she said:
"Thank you, Mother Martin, for
teaching me a very important les-
son in life."
©,-,
earns
I
Celia Luce
T is more important that I help my child to dream and teach him how to make his
own dreams come true than that I fulfill all his dreams for him.
With a Song in My Heart
Mabel Law Atkinson
i t "T^W ONT say it, Granny. I
I I know the understanding
wife doesn't try to change
her husband. She accepts him as
he is and loves him. Of course I
accept Reg and I love him too, very,
very much, but I'm going to change
him, Granny. You mark my words.
I'm going to change him or my
name isn't Bethesda Nichols Grover.
There now, I feel better, that's off
my mind."
"Will you make him entirely
over, my dear, or just camouflage a
few of his faults?"
"Darling Granny, you know my
Reginald doesn't need entirely mak-
ing over. He's almost perfect as he
is, but he does have one dreadful
fault." Beth paused for a moment
then went on, "It isn't being dis-
loyal, is it, Granny, to talk things
over with you? You've always
seemed to understand me perfectly.
Perhaps it's because I was named
after you. I love the name Beth-
esda, and almost wish I were not
called Beth for short."
"My dear, of course you are not
disloyal. Come, tell me all about
your great big trouble with your
handsome husband of only six
months." Granny patted her arm.
"Granny, since we were married,
Reg has been getting less romantic
every day. Everything seems to be
for utility with him, downright
practical. And I thought romance
and star dust and silver music and
beautiful words would go on and
on. . . ."
"And life would be one long,
perfect day." Granny's eyes twin-
kled as she finished the sentence. "I
know, my dear, for you see I
thought the same."
"You, too, Granny? And did you
get disappointed in one little way
also? Is Grandpa like my Reg, all
for utility?"
"Yes, my dear, that's what I
thought at first. Of course, he need-
ed his practicality, for he had so
much to do in pioneering a new
land, that he had little time for any-
thing else. But, as the years have
passed, I have come to know that
his awkward, utility gestures are
mostly on the surface and cover a
most sensitive awareness to beauty.
You must remember, my dear, a
certain degree of utility or practical-
ity is essential and praiseworthy, for
people must eat and have homes
and fuel and clothing. So be glad
your Reginald is practical in most
things."
"I am, Granny. Do you think it
possible that perhaps Reg feels ten-
der and beautiful beneath his prac-
tical and matter-of-fact veneer?"
"I wouldn't be at all surprised,
Beth, my dear. Perhaps he's like my
Robert was, afraid to show the real
man for fear he'll be laughed at or
not understood. Think it over, my
dear."
"Tell me about Grandpa and his
utility ways and how you have man-
aged to change him into the tender
and courteous lover he is today. Oh,
but you two make a delightful
couple, Granny, with your graying
hair and your young-old smiling
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faces. Tell me how you did it, I knew we didn't have the money,
Granny, for I want Reg and me to just as I knew your grandpa didn't
grow old sweetly together, too." have the money for an engagement
"My dear, there isn't much to ring before we were married."
tell. I don't remember, now, really "And you didn't get an engage-
trying to change my Robert at all. ment ring at all?" Beth turned her
I just loved him all the more after diamond on her left hand as she
his awkward attempts to be non- asked the question,
chalant about his love for me, and "No, dear, and it didn't matter
as a flower grows toward the sun, too much, not for long anyway, for
gradually he came toward my way of I found so much joy in my work
doing things until now he is a per- each day pioneering a new land, and
feet husband, and the perfect father in my babies as they came along,
to his children— or as perfect as I there was no time to grieve. You
would ever want him to be." see, happiness doesn't depend on a
"But surely, Granny, he wasn't ring. But, let me see. . . ." Granny
ever so thoughtless and downright paused. "I was telling about my
queer as my Reg. Why, instead of watch, wasn't I? It was a lovely
giving me this watch wrapped up Christmas we had, with the tree
prettily, with a kiss and a 'Happy touching the ceiling in the front
Birthday, darling,' he actually had room, and decorated with strung
it wrapped in brown paper and popcorn and chains made of red and
brought it in with the groceries when green crepe paper, with red apples
be came at noon. I didn't discover tied on the branches. We had five
it until after he had gone back to of our nine children then."
work. Can you imagine that! Hon- "But what about your watch,
estly, Granny, sometimes I wonder Granny? Did Grandpa give you
if he has a sense of beauty and ap- one for Christmas?"
propriateness." "Yes, Beth, he did, but you'll
Granny was laughing inside, but never guess how he gave it to me.
only smiling with her lips as she It was an even more unique and
replied, "His ways are different and downright queer way than the way
unique at least. Did I ever tell you your Reginald gave you yours."
how your Grandpa gave me my "Do tell, Granny! Hurry!"
watch several years after our mar- "From morning until midafter-
riage?" She fondly touched the noon I wondered why Robert had
small gold watch pinned to her dress forgotten to give me a present,
a little below the left shoulder, as There was none from him in my
she spoke. stocking nor under the tree. The
"No. Do tell me, Granny." children felt worse than I did, the
"All right. But bring us each a smaller ones, because Santa had for-
glass of milk and a plate of those gotten me.
cookies from the cookie jar, then we "Then we discovered it! A large
can eat as we talk." used envelope tied on to the tree
***** with a sackstring— where the thick
branches almost concealed it from
^*T had wanted a watch for years," view— bore the name 'Bethesda' in
Granny began, "but, of course, your grandpa's writing.
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"I thought it was a joke, so I told
Robert Jr. he could take it down
and see what was in it, if he wished.
'No, Mama, it is for you. You must
be the one to see it first/ he said, as
he handed me the very practical and
homely looking package.
"I glanced at your grandpa then.
He was rather red in the face and
looked quite chagrined and uncom-
fortable, but oh, the light of love
and tenderness I saw in his eyes!
"I untied the string, and opened
the envelope. I gave a gasp as I
saw the most beautiful watch I had
ever seen, far more beautiful than I
had hoped to own, ever." Granny
lovingly caressed the watch at her
shoulder and went on, "A piece of
paper fell out of the envelope and
on it were these words:
This watch I give you with my love
And want you, dear, to know
If it should fail you and should stop
Your love can make it go.
"I looked at your grandpa again
and saw him as he really was. In
his eyes were love and tenderness,
beautv and romance, with all his
need for love and understanding. He
was mutely telling me he needed my
love and, with it, he could do and
be anything I desired."
Beth interrupted with a whisper,
"What did you do, Granny?"
"Holding my precious watch, I
went to him and said, Tut the chain
around my neck, Robert, and pin
the watch on my dress/ He did.
Then I put my arms about him,
kissed him and said, 'How I love you,
Robert; and I need the strength of
your love. Thank you, my dearest/
I was so happy I cried and I saw a
tear roll down each of his cheeks.
"The children were about us then,
and Robert smiled as he said, 'It's
hard for me, Bethesda, to be the per-
fect companion, but I try and will
keep on trying, and with your help
I'll succeed/ "
# # ?$: if. if.
"/^PEN this, my dear, and see if
I've improved a little through
the years." It was Grandpa who
entered and gave Beth's grandmoth-
er a long, narrow box, white tissue
wrapped and silver ribboned.
"It's my gift to you, Bethesda,
for putting up with me and loving
me for fifty years." He kissed her
gently as he spoke.
"But, Robert," Granny said softly,
"it isn't our golden wedding anni-
versary yet, not for another three
months, remember?"
"But it was fifty years ago today
that I told you I loved you and
found out that you loved me. I
should have given this to you then.
Will you accept it now, my dear?"
Granny's fingers trembled with
excitement as she removed the wrap-
pings and took the lid off the box,
then with a quick intake of breath,
she cried, "How beautiful! Oh, how
breathtakingly beautiful! One long-
stemmed, perfect red rose! The red
rose of love! Oh, my dear, you
couldn't have given me anything
more beautiful." Her eyes twinkled
as she looked at her granddaughter
and continued, "Nor more romantic.
Thank you, Robert." She drew him
down to her and kissed his fore-
head.
"Granny," Beth asked, her eyes
shining, "is it my imagination or is
something flashing in the very cen-
ter of your rose?"
Granny inspected the rose and
cried happily as a girl, "It's a ring,
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Robert! A diamond ring, sure as
sure! A high Tiffany setting as they
used to wear. It's my engagement
ring! Oh, bless your dear, romantic
heart!"
Granny didn't need to tell her
husband what to do next. Without
another word, he took the ring and
placed it on her finger with the plain
gold band, gave her another kiss,
and said, 'There, now, that debt of
love is paid."
'Tou darlings!" Beth said the
words impulsively as she kissed them
both, then continued, 'Thank you,
Granny, and you too, Grandpa. I'm
going home to my Reg now . . .
with a song in my heart."
*jl LreppermtntStick [Party
Helen S. Williams
OLEASE come to Florence's ice-cream and peppermint-stick party. If
you do, your eyes will open wide and your mouth will water. The
table will be surprisingly different, and everything will look good enough
to eat, for Florence's parties for children are unforgettable.
At this peppermint party, the table will be covered with a round red
and white striped cloth made of chintz and edged with fringe. In the
center of the table a graceful oak branch set into a round of wood will
hold the ice-cream-cone decoration.
The tree and base will be sprayed a fabulous pink and will hold ice-
cream cones hanging from each branch. They look just like real
ice-cream cones. Each will be filled with a scoop of pink styrofoam which
stays in the cone with the help of glue. The cones will be fastened to
the branches with fine florist wire that has been stuck right through the
cone then wound around the branch.
Nestled within the tree sprigs and above the cones, will be little pink
artificial rosebuds which give the tree a dainty and festive appearance.
Over to the side of the table will stand a holder for the peppermint
chews and candy canes. What a novel and different way to serve candy
to little ones. This tiered dish was made with different sizes of round
pieces of wood held firmly in place by fastening the wood to the rod.
It was sprayed with that same beautiful fabulous pink spray paint so easy
to use.
The bright red and white striped peppermints and the candy canes
that hang over the edges of this epergne will catch the fancy of young
eyes and hearts.
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Hal Rumel
A PEPPERMINT-STICK PARTY
Arrangement by Florence C. Williams
Standing jauntily on the top tier will be the little man on the ball
of styrofoam. His mouth is made of felt, his eyes and nose of beads,
and he will be listening to all the "Oh's" and "Ah's" through his ears of
peppermint life savers. On his head is his cunning hat — a peppermint
chew with a gay twisted tissue for its trimming.
All the children will receive a favor, of course, because Florence
believes that everyone invited to a party should take home some little
gift as a reminder of the afternoon — so the favors will be little men just
like the one perched on top of the candy dish. They will stand in a
half ball of styrofoam as a base, and their feet will be life savers also.
Refreshments? Dainty sandwiches made in strips of bread with
minced ham filling — pink punch and, of course, strawberry ice-cream
cones.
So, please come to Florence's ice-cream party, or give one yourself
for your children or neighbors.
You will have fun preparing for it, and the children will love you
just as they love Florence for such a nice invitation and for such a de-
lightfully different kind of party.
Jxathryn Jt. L^arne — uxrtist, I Curse, (/Lome-maker
TT^ATHRYN A. Came, Seattle, Washington, lives the Relief Society motto "Charity
*■ *- Never Failcth." She has used her nursing skills and training to care for her
friends and neighbors and to serve the community. During the First World War she
was head of a Red Cross Emergency Hospital, and during the Second World War
she served as a full-time Red Cross worker. She was manager of a nursing home for
seven years. As a mother and foster mother her love and care have been unbounded.
In addition to her own daughter, she has reared six otherwise homeless girls, and a
grandson, who lived in her home for twelve years. She also provided for the education
of the six foster daughters.
Mrs. Carne is a gifted painter, specializing in landscapes, and floral and fruit sub-
jects. Ilcr work exemplifies much ability in design and the use of color. She has also
made more than twelve hundred beautiful aprons, thirty-one quilts, six afghans, several
crocheted bedspreads, many hooked and braided rugs, six crocheted dinner cloths, and
has made the needle point covers for many chairs. Her Church work has included
service as counselor and as work meeting leader in her ward Relief Society.
cJhts U u\i
now
Mabel Jones Gabbott
I have seen a burnished sunset glow
Then die, slowly, like famished embers, hushed
And still; and felt the soft snow, as it brushed
Against my hand, then watched it melt and go;
I have seen the petals of the rose
Drop one by one, their copper, gold, and rust
Curled and crumbled into fragrant dust
That pricks beneath boys' summer-barefoot toes.
With each I grieve a little; I wonder why.
Tomorrow's light will quicken with the dawn,
The running snow will wake a new rose leaf;
So, too, the sudden tender look, your shy
Quick grin, your oft told words — that now seem gone
I shall know again. So why this grief?
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The New Day
Chapter 6
Hazel K. Todd
Synopsis: Lynn Marlow, a dress de-
signer in Chicago, who is engaged to
David Talbot, returns to Springdale, her
home town, to visit her Aunt Polly and
to find out if she has really forgotten an
early love for Johnny Spencer. Johnny
had married a Southern girl and she had
died, leaving two children. Lynn meets
the children, and, finally, visits with
Johnny, who is bitter and withdrawn.
Lynn decides that, although she loves
David, she must help Johnny to find
himself again. She goes with the chil-
dren to visit a turkey's nest.
THE old turkey was not so
anxious for curious onlook-
ers on her private domain as
was Peter. She struck her snake-
like head out and hissed her dis-
pleasure.
"It's just because you're differ-
ent," Peter explained. "She doesn't
care when Lindy and me look at
her."
"I think we shouldn't bother
her/' Lynn suggested. "She might
leave her nest and not come back."
The nest was hidden in the rocks
in the forked roots of an old juni-
per tree. As they turned to leave,
Lindy fell down and cut her knee
on a sharp rock.
Lynn picked the sobbing child
up in her arms. "Don't cry, Lindy
dear/' she soothed, wiping the tears
from her eyes with her handker-
chief. "Let's get away where we
won't bother that grudging old hen
and then we can see what's hap-
pened to that poor unfortunate
knee, that's always getting hurt."
A safe distance from the turkey
nest, Lynn sat down on a big rock
and began wiping the dirt from the
injured knee. There was blood on
her dress and a deep cut in the
little knee.
"We'd better put something on
it," Peter suggested, patting his sis-
ter's head. "Daddy always puts a
bandaid on it when it bleeds."
"I'm sure that would be a good
idea," Lynn agreed. "Can you take
her to the house and fix it up,
Peter?"
"Oh, I always get it all messed
up. You'd better do it."
Lynn had a frustrated, helpless
feeling, as though she were being
dragged into an inevitable pattern
of events from which there would
be no escape. It was too easy to
love these children.
Lindy was clinging onto her with
her arms tight around her neck.
And Peter was waiting expectantly.
There was but one thing to do.
She breathed a little sigh and start-
ed after Peter.
In the house Lynn set the little
girl on the cupboard by the sink
and looked at the cut again. "I am
afraid this is too big for a bandaid.
Do you have some gauze?"
Peter brought her gauze and a
tube of iodine. "Dad always puts
this on when we hurt us, even if
we cry."
As soon as Lindy saw the iodine
she began to cry again. "I don't
want it! I don't want it!" she cried
and started scooting across the cup-
board.
Lynn laid the tube down. "Let
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your Daddy put some on when he
conies home."
In a few minutes she had the
knee all wrapped up and Lindy had
ceased her tears.
Lynn lifted her gently to the
floor. "I must go now."
The cuckoo bird from the clock
on the wall chirped once, and Lynn
looked up, surprised to find it was
11:30.
She hesitated. "Is your father
coming home for dinner?"
"No. But he left some sand-
wiches in the frig," Peter said.
Leaving two children alone at
dinner time wasn't right. Lynn
pondered thoughtfully a minute.
Should she take them home to have
dinner with Aunt Polly? That
would antagonize Johnny, she was
sure, and besides, she was only
drawing the children closer to her.
Peter was watching her closely.
She couldn't stand here in this un-
decided manner. And then the
idea came to her. It was far-
fetched and unreal, but she seized
it quickly.
"Peter," she said, opening cup-
board doors until she had fished out
a small pan, "take Lindy and run
down by the turkey nest and pick
some of the strawberries, will you?
They would taste very good with
the sandwiches."
A S soon as the children were
gone, she went quickly to the
telephone and began thumbing
through the phone book, until her
finger stopped at the hospital num-
ber.
She reached for the receiver and
then stopped. How could she
hope for such a fantastic idea to
work! For a second more she hesi-
tated, and then she took the receiv-
er from the hook and repeated the
number she had found.
"I would like to speak to Miss
MayRee Richins," she said, and
waited while they went to find her,
almost wishing they would be un-
able to do so.
But in a few minutes she heard
the cheery "hello."
"This is Lynn Marlow, MayRee,"
Lynn said, gulping to keep her voice
steady.
"Why, Lynn, I heard you were
back in Springdale. It is nice of
you to call."
"I am calling about Johnny,"
Lynn said.
There was a moment's silence.
And then, "That is a strange thing
for you to be calling me about,
Lindy Marlow."
"Oh, MayRee, please try to
understand. I have no interest in
Johnny . . . er . . . that is, I mean
I am going to marrv someone else."
She finished lamely, feeling that
she had bungled the whole thing.
"Well?" MayRee was still wait-
ing for an explanation.
"Aunt Polly told me you had
tried to help Johnny, that you had
both tried and he refused to be
helped."
"I am afraid, Lindy, you are the
only one who could help Johnny."
"Would vou be willing to try
once more? Does it mean anything
to you, that you would try?"
Again there was a hesitation and
then MayRee said, "What do you
want me to do?"
"I want you to come to his house
and have dinner with his children."
There was a gasp, and then May-
Ree said, "Johnny would annihilate
me!"
"Please give it a try, MayRee.
Look, I have sent the children after
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strawberries. There are sandwiches
in the frig. You can fix something
to go with it. Tell them something
happened and I had to go back to
Aunt Polly's. Could you be here
by the time they come back with
the berries."
"It's the craziest thing I ever
heard of."
"But you will do it?"
"I guess he can't do more than
send me home."
As she walked along through the
clover to Aunt Polly's, Lynn felt
strangely relieved, and yet, almost
guilty toward the children who had
so quickly come to trust her.
Farther on across the meadow she
turned to look back at the house,
and saw the car stop at the picket
gate. As she watched MayRee's
trim figure step from the car, she
remembered, with an odd sort of
feeling, the few jealous pangs she
had felt for this girl in those long
ago years. She turned back again,
with a half smile, and quickened her
footsteps to Aunt Polly's.
A LL afternoon she debated with
herself whether to call David
or whether to wait to see what hap-
pened to MayRee.
And then Johnny came.
He stood at the door and de-
manded that she come with him.
"Why, of course I will, Johnny,"
she said. "I'm so glad you called."
Aunt Polly came forward a little
shakily. "Johnny," she said, "It is
so good to have you come. Please
sit down a minute."
But he didn't sit down. He just
stood there in the door a hundred
miles away, and waited.
In the car he kept his eyes
straight ahead on the road, and he
made no movement toward her and
said no word. A half dozen times
Lynn planned a way to begin, like
"Johnny, you have such lovely chil-
dren^ or "Johnny, couldn't we just
talk calmly?" or "Johnny, it is so
good to see you again.77 But the
chasm was too deep between them.
She was sure anything she said
would be the wrong thing.
By the time he stopped the car
before the drug store, she had given
up saying anything. I'll just have
to wait, she thought.
She followed while he led her to
their booth and they sat opposite
each other.
Mr. Jensen stared at them in
astonishment and rubbed his chin
nervously with his hand.
"We want strawberry sodas,"
Johnny said calmly, "with pink
straws."
He looked sternly at Mr. Jensen
who seemed to be petrified for the
moment. "Did you hear?"
Mr. Jensen jumped then. "Oh,
sure, two strawberry sodas."
Lynn looked at her soda thought-
fully. I may as well begin some-
where, she thought.
"Johnny, it's almost like old
times," she said, "I mean, drinking
sodas like this."
"Only it isn't like old times," he
said bitterly, looking at her keenly.
"Why, Johnny, I. . . ." She
gazed into his strained face. "No,
I guess it isn't, is it?"
She dropped her eyes wearily into
her lap. There is no way to reach
him, she thought.
He was leaning forward toward
her across the table. A lock of
his dark hair falling over his fore-
head.
"It can never be like old times,
can it, Lynn?"
And suddenly she realized he was
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asking her to go back to the old
relationship.
She looked at him sadly. Her
heart ached for him. "No, Johnny,"
she said, "it can never be just like
old times."
"Then why did you come back?
Why did you come to my home?"
"I came back — not of my own
choosing — but because I had to
know."
He looked at her awhile then,
almost in utter weariness.
"Well, now that you know, I will
thank you to leave me alone, you
and MayRee and everyone else."
"But Johnny, we would all like
to help you. Your children, you
can't do this to them."
He had risen from the table.
"Johnny," she said in a last effort
to reach him. "Oh, don't you see,
nothing is hopeless. True, we can
never go back to the past. It
wouldn't be what we wanted any-
way. We must always go on. This
is a new day with new promises,
new. . . ."
"Come on," he said, "I will take
you home."
She looked at him sadly. "No,
Johnny, Mr. Jensen will take me
home," she said.
He turned then, and walked out
into the spring evening.
She looked at Mr. Jensen, stand-
ing helplessly before her.
He shook his head sadly and
fumbled with the napkin on the
table.
"It's no use," she said. And then,
"Do you mind if I call David before
we go?"
"No, Lindy," he said. "I'll just
wait here."
He sat down at the table and
drummed aimlessly on it with his
fingers.
I
T was wonderful to hear David's
voice again. It seemed like half
a lifetime since she had last heard it.
And the eagerness with which he
said her name brought new peace.
"Oh, David," she said with tears
suddenly coming, "I want so much
for you to come and get me! Please
leave tonight!"
And then all the past heartaches
and joys, all the years she had lived,
all the problems she had experi-
enced, came to her assistance and
she was able to give to David the
assurance of her love, pure and
sweet in its entirety; save only one
heartache which remained for the
man she had been unable to free
from bondage of the past.
She found Aunt Polly waiting on
the red couch.
"I just called David," Lynn said.
"I am going home tomorrow."
Aunt Polly nodded her head
slowly.
"I - I think I will go to bed,"
Lynn said then. "I will need to
get up early and pack."
"Yes," Aunt Polly said, laying
down her apron on the chair. Then
she came over and kissed Lynn on
the forehead as she used to do
when she was a little girl. "It has
been wonderful to have you even
for a week."
"But Aunt Polly, I'll come back
often now."
Aunt Polly was gone, then, leav-
ing her standing with the tears fall-
ing softly down her cheeks.
She picked up the checkered
apron from the chair, held it to
her face, wiped her tears on it, and
then cried new ones quietly into
its folds. "Dear, dear Aunt Polly,"
she whispered.
(To be concluded)
FROM THE FIELD
Hulda Parlcer, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Handbook of Instructions of the Relief Society.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Emma A. Hanks
GULF STATES MISSION, LAREDO (TEXAS) BRANCH SINGING MOTHERS
PRESENT MUSIC FOR RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE, November 1, 1959
Front row, left to right: Connie Mitchell, Secretary -Treasurer; Dee McBride, Barb-
ara McCrae; Kay White, President.
Back row, left to right: Joyce Box, accompanist; Barbara Jones, Second Counselor;
Belle Fashender, First Counselor; Dorrine Hanley, director.
Emma A. Hanks, President, Gulf States Mission Relief Society, reports: "The
Singing Mothers of the Laredo Branch Relief Society sang two numbers for the No-
vember Relief Society Conference. All these women, except one, are wives of Air Force
men. They work very hard and are to be commended for their efforts."
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Photograph submitted by Ruth T. Oscarson
SWEDISH MISSION, DISTRICT LEADERS WORKSHOP LUNCHEON,
STOCKHOLM, Autumn 1959
Seated at the table, beginning at the lower left: Edith Nilsson, Stockholm District;
Signe Gustavsson, Goteborg District; Polly Thelander, Sundsvall District; Signe Edlund,
Jonkoping District; Linnea Wiklund, Gavle District; Ruth T. Oscarson, former Presi-
dent, Swedish Mission Relief Society; Karin Larsson, secretary to former President
Oscarson. Gunnel Olausson, Norrkoping District; Sister Larsson, Malmo District;
Gartrud Ekelund, Karlskrona District; Judith Lindberg, Lulea District.
Sister Oscarson reports: "We met here in Stockholm ready to begin our meeting
at nine o'clock in the morning, and held meetings all day, where we discussed and
planned our work for the coming year. The luncheon was between meetings. Every-
one enjoyed the meetings and they all feel that they gain a great deal by meeting to-
gether."
Sister Oscarson was released from her duties in the Swedish Mission shortly after
this photograph was taken. The new Relief Society President is Ellen S. Omer.
Photograph submitted by June R. Shepherd
MONTPELIER STAKE (IDAHO) FASHION SHOW AND
HANDWORK DISPLAY
Front row, beginning eighth from the left: Louisa Stephens, a former Montpelier
Stake Relief Society president; Gertrude Teuscher, First Counselor, Montpelier Stake
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
203
Relief Society; June R. Shepherd, President; Utahna Anthony, Second Counselor.
Sister Shepherd reports: "Under the direction of Utahna Anthony, Stake Work
Director Counselor, and Evelyn Kunz, stake work meeting leader, all of the ward Relief
Societies and one "home" Relief Society participated in one of the most colorful events
on the season's calendar of the Montpelier Stake Relief Society. The occasion featured
a fashion show and a display of handwork items made by members of the organization.
"The skit 'Relief Society — Why,' a reading 'Stitching,' and special musical selec-
tions introduced the fashion show. There were forty-two entries. Each style was
detailed as it was modeled. Styles were varied, distinctive, and expertly tailored, fea-
turing everything to wear, from casuals to wedding dresses for the women, suits for the
little master, and frilly fluffs in both single and sister sets for the dainty little misses.
All types of handwork were on display: quilts, embroidery work, applique, tatting, cro-
cheting, knitting, weaving, painting, ceramics, leather work, artificial flowers, foam
rubber, plastic items, and a varietv of Christmas ornaments.
"At the conclusion of the festivities, refreshments were served from an attractively
decorated table, featuring the Relief Society in blue and metallic gold. Approxi-
mately five hundred members were in attendance."
Photograph submitted by Anna W. Bentley
NORTHERN MEXICAN MISSION, MONTERREY DISTRICT VISITING
TEACHERS CONVENTION, September 30, 1959
Front row, seated, left to right, five Mission Relief Society Board officers: Juana
Vallejo, Monterrey District representative; Alfa Loya, Secretary-Treasurer; Carmen Vega,
Second Counselor; Rula McClellan, First Counselor; Anna W. Bentley, President,
Northern Mexican Mission Relief Society; Four Relief Society branch presidents:
Maria Lackner, Rosa C. de Luna, Margarita R. Chavez, and Sara E. de Hoyos.
Sister Bentley reports: "Enclosed is a picture of our Relief Society sisters from
four branches in and near Monterrey. It was taken September 30, 1959, at the time
of our District Visiting Teachers Convention. The more distant branches in the
district held their conventions individually in their own branches. This was the first
visiting teachers convention of the Monterrey District and was conducted by our
mission board district representative Sister Juana Vallejo of Nuevo Repueblo. The
spirit was beautiful among the sisters and genuine sisterhood was felt by all. Included
in the program was a new song 'My Prayer for Today,' also a short drama depicting true
compassionate service. . . . We love the Magazine and eagerly await its arrival each
month. Many of our dear sisters read English enough to be on our mailing list."
204
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MARCH 1960
Photograph submitted by Melvina Dust
GRANITE PARK STAKE (SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH) VISITING TEACHERS
HONORED AT CONVENTION, November 16, 1959
Front row, seated, left to right: Hattie Guest; Miriam Allgood; Arminta Waters.
Back row, standing, left to right: Clara Bleak; Melba Jacobson; Margaret Smith;
Elizabeth Aiken.
Melvina Dust, President, Granite Park Stake Relief Society, reports: "We featured
a demonstration of a visiting teachers meeting by the visiting teachers and presidency
of the Southgate Ward. This was followed by a presentation of the film 'Unto the
Least of These.' All of the visiting teachers who had served more than twenty years
were given special recognition. Seventy-one were honored with 'Visiting Teacher' and
the number of years of service stamped in gold on a blue ribbon badge. The sisters
in the above photograph have all served for fifty years or more as visiting teachers.
Sister Allgood has served for fifty-three years. Two hundred and twelve sisters attended
the convention. Attractive tables, with cut glass punch bowls centering them, and
decorated with autumn leaves, were used for serving refreshments. Everyone attending
was deeply moved by the film, and each one left the convention with a determination
to serve the Lord to a greater extent in visiting teaching."
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Q/he IKelief (boctety i/lagaztne tn JJurban,
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Muriel Wilson
VTIGEL came running in this them, and the pictures were beauti-
morning with a large envelope ful, but I didn't find much time to
in his hand. His little hands were study them very closely. I was
shaking with impatience and excite- more interested in The Book of
ment. ''Look what the postman Mormon, The Doctrine and Cove-
left today/' he shouted at the top nants, and The Pearl of Great
of his voice — as the door banged Price, and the pamphlets the elders
violently behind him. left for us to read.
Malcolm looked up from his However, for a month before
book with a pained expression on Nigel was born, I had to go into
his face. "That's Mummy's Relief the hospital for a complete rest on
Society Magazine," he said, as he a strict diet. The elders brought
returned to his book. me fresh copies of The Relief So-
The covers are so beautiful, we ciety Magazine to read. It was then
just had to open the envelope to I discovered the refreshing and sin-
have a peep. Then Nigel was satis- cere stories and articles in the
fied and went back to his road-mak- Magazine. With all day free and
ing game in the garden, and I put with a terrific appetite, I began to
the Magazine away to be read later, study the recipes — and how my
when my work was finished. mouth watered. From that time on
I look forward to the arrival of I have never looked back and have
The Relief Society Magazine each been subscribing regularly to The
month. I would not like to miss Relief Society Magazine.
any of the copies. I love the stories I can thank The Relief Society
and the poetry. The advice and en- Magazine also for my change of
couragement make me feel the view with regard to Shakespeare,
troubles and trials of life are petty. I always thought his plays were
I feel uplifted, and my testimony is heavy and uninteresting. Maybe,
strengthened. I feel refreshed and being older, I appreciate his works
prepared to start anew to live the more, but if it hadn't been that we
gospel to the best of my ability. were studying Shakespeare in the
I shall always remember my in- Relief Society literature course, I
troduction to The Relief Society would never have had the experi-
Magazine. We were investigators, ence of renewing my knowledge,
and the elders had been holding I would like to think that every
cottage meetings at our home for sister in the Church has her Relief
months. At different times they Society Magazine regularly every
brought along books for us to read, month, so that we may all share in
The Children's Friend, Improve- the joy of reading the stories and
ment Era, and The Relief Society articles and delight in the beauty of
Magazine. We enjoyed reading the pictures therein, together.
Page 206
[Reward of Kybedtence
Flora J. Isgieen
LOOKING at my watch, I noticed I
would be on time and hurried on to
meeting. How tiny but valuable a watch
is, I thought. How intricately made; one
part depending on the other; the hands
depending on the springs, the springs
depending on the service of man. If man
did not wind it and give it care, it would
have no value for him. The watch works
by law.
As I walked on to church my mind
dwelt on the similarity between the watch
and the kingdom of God. All the bless-
ings of God are available for our welfare
and good. His whole plan is for us, but
this plan works on law. The Lord said
that when we obtain any blessing from
heaven it is by obedience to the law on
which it is predicated. So, like the watch,
the kingdom has value only to the man
who makes the effort, who will co-operate,
who is obedient. He is the man who re-
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Before dawn breaks
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And almost bursts apart
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Where clouds of blackbirds start.
From a towering tamarisk
A cardinal greets the sun
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And the radiance of sky
And fluting trill of birds
Are hymns of praise that I
Put haltingly in words.
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{Birthday Congratulations
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Salt Lake City, Utah
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Salt Lake City, Utah
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Clarkston, Utah
Ninety-two
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Mesa, Arizona
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Shelley, Idaho
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Salt Lake City, Utah
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Brigham City, Utah
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Salt Lake City, Utah
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Or perhaps a touch of frost.)
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And didn't seem to care,
Wore her newest bright green dress,
Blue violets in her hair.
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< | APRIL 1960
Special Short Story Issue
vi/ords of sbaster
Alberta H. Chrfstensen
"And she had a sister called Mary, which also sat at Jesus' feet, and
heard his word" (Luke 10:39).
His word was more than nuance of sound
Syllable-shaped for time to remember.
For the questioning heart his word was light,
Morning, after the sleep of darkness;
The sudden flame from a waning ember;
Sunlight of spring on the frozen ground.
For the troubled heart in the silent hour
It was song in the stillness; the luminous cloud,
Promise for root in the withering plain.
The sorrowing heart knew his word as power —
With the step of Lazarus quick again
On the homing roadway, free of the shroud.
To the humble of earth his word was more
Than wool of raiment, sandal, and bread;
It was peace and a healing against their grief —
The kingdom glimpsed through an open door.
They listened at dusk — Mary and Martha
Moved by the wonder; blessed with belief!
The Cover: St. Mary's Lake, Glacier National Park, Montana
From a Transparency by Hal Rumel
Frontispiece: Jesus in the House of Mary and Martha, From a Painting
by Ludwig Otto, Photograph From Camera Clix, New York
Cover Design by Evan Jensen
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Qjrom ll
ear an
a oft
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The beautiful cover on the March 1959
Magazine ("Scene in the Ozark Moun-
tains, Arkansas") brought back memories
to me. My husband had spent two years
in the Ozark Mountains as a missionary.
So, when we took a trip East, naturally we
went to Arkansas. We drove down just
such a shady lane, and my husband in-
quired of just such a boy, about the next
town. I always scan the contents of the
Magazine to see if my dear friend and
school companion Mabel Law Atkinson
has a new story or poem for us.
— Mrs. Ada Ipsen
Malad, Idaho
A few minutes ago, I opened my front
door, and there was the new Magazine.
I was preparing a small package for my
daughter for her birthday. All morning I
had searched in books, in my files, in my
memory, for a poem that I could add to
the gift that would express my feelings
for her. And there in the Magazine was
just what I was trying to say, in the poem
"What Can I Give You?" by Christie
Lund Coles. Thanks for a wonderful
Magazine that always seems to answer our
every need.
—Mrs. Elda Stafford
Birmingham, Alabama
I give you my heartfelt thanks for all
the Relief Society Magazines that you have
sent to me. We are able to read only a
few words, but yet understand much of
it, and the pictures are wonderful.
—Mrs. T. Drent
Sneek, Netherlands
I would like to congratulate you for
the wonderful work you are doing in the
publication of The Relief Society Maga-
zine. Every month I anxiously wait for
my Magazine to arrive. I enjoy all the
articles published in the Magazine.
— Mrs. Kiniuyo Fukuda
Hilo, Hawaii
I do enjoy reading the Magazine and
learn so much from it. I really look for-
ward to receiving it each month and am
truly grateful for it.
— Doreen Andersen
Holstebro, Denmark
I am so pleased and proud to have my
poem "Letter From a Missionary" appear
in the February issue (page 85). It is a
beautiful Magazine, as it is each month.
We were all so happy for Lucille Perry
from Bountiful, who placed second in the
Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest. I feel Mrs.
Roberts' first-place poem was a work of
great depth and feeling. The strong un-
dercurrents suggested in the simple, but
well-chosen words gave me food for
thought for many days. The poems in
this February issue seem especially beauti-
ful. I thought as I read Lael W. Hill's
poem "Hour of Waiting," now this is
true art, and such expert craftsmanship
that it but adds to the beauty of the
whole.
— Mabel Jones Gabbott
Bountiful, Utah
I thank you for my Magazine received
a couple of days ago. . . . You may wonder
how I came to receive this Magazine.
Well, Mrs. Louise Palmer of Provo, Utah,
sends it to me as a birthday gift, as my
birthday is on the same date as her late
husband's was. Mrs. Palmer and I used
to be "pen friends," then she came on an
air trip to London to be present at the
opening of the new temple. From there
she was conducted to Sheffield by two
elders who were staying with my daugh-
ter in Pitsmoor, Sheffield. My daughter
brought Mrs. Palmer to our house in Hills-
bro. . . . Talk about excitement! We just
hadn't time to say and do all we would
have liked, but we didn't do so bad. . . .
Our visit was all too short as Mrs. Palmer
had to rejoin her party and finish the
tour, but it was long enough for us all
to form a lovely friendship. . . .
— Mrs. Nellie Goodison
Hillsbro
Sheffield, England
I am writing to let you know how much
I appreciate Lael W. Hill's poem "Hour
of Waiting," the frontispiece in the Feb-
ruary issue of the Magazine. It exempli-
fies her talent for technique. Her poems
enthrall me. I also like the serial "The
New Day."
— Grace Ingles Frost
Provo, Utah
Page 210
THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford
Marianne C. Sharp
Louise W. Madsen
Hulda Parker
Anna B. Hart
Edith S. Elliott
Florence J. Madsen
Leone G. Layton
Blanche B. Stoddard
Evon W. Peterson
Aleine M. Young
Editor
Associate Editor
General Manager
Josie B. Bay
Christine H. Robinson
Alberta H. Christensen
Mildred B. Eyring
Charlotte A. Larsen
Edith P. Backman
Winniefred S.
Manwaring
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Elna P. Haymond
Annie M. Ellsworth
Mary R. Young
Mary V. Cameron
Afton W. Hunt
Wealtha S. Mendenhall
Pearle M. Olsen
President
First Counselor
Second Counselor
Secretary-Treasurer
Elsa T. Peterson
Irene B. Woodford
Fanny S. Kienitz
Elizabeth B. Winters
LaRue H. Rosell
Jennie R. Scott
Marianne C. Sharp
Vesta P. Crawford
Belle S. Spafford
VOL 47
APRIL 1960
NO. 4
Co
ntents
SPECIAL FEATURES
The Restoration Antoine R. Ivins 212
The West Central States Mission Preston R. Nibley 216
Using the Blackboard in Teaching Lessons in Relief Society William E. Berrett 228
The Widening Circle Charlotte R. Leyden 243
Christening the New Carriage Lula Walker 261
FICTION — SPECIAL APRIL SHORT STORIES
That Special Flavor Dorothy S. Romney 218
Uncle Matt and the China Doll Sylvia Probst Young 223
The Blue Bowl — Part I Loya Beck 230
Room in Her Heart Shirley Thulin 234
To Die Before Thy Time Helen Bay Gibbons 247
The New Day — Chapter 7 (Conclusion) Hazel K. Todd 267
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 210
Sixty Years Ago 238
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 239
Editorial: "They Shall Speak With New Tongues" Vesta P. Crawford 240
Notes to the Field: Brigham Young University On-Campus Leadership Week 242
Lesson Previews to Appear in the June Issue of The Relief Society Magazine 243
Special Feature for the July 1960 Magazine 237
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 270
Birthday Congratulations 280
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Recipes From the West Central States Mission Anna C. Merrill 244
Cosmetics for Grandma Esther H. Lamb 250
Planters for the Patio Eva Willes Wangsgaard 251
Thirteen Don'ts in Sewing for a Best-Dressed You Wilma M. Rich 254
Moonlight Celia Luce 255
Do It Yourself joy Hulme 256
Christening the New Carriage Lula Walker 261
The Old Red Couch Helen B. Morris 263
Pathways Evelyn Cox 265
Applesauce Bread Myrtle Ainsworth 265
Anna Whitney Johnson — Gifted Artist 266
A Touch of the Divine Wilma Boyle Bunker 278
A Christmas Chest for All the Year Elizabeth C. McCrimmon 278
,xr , t -n POETRY
Words of Easter — Frontispiece Alberta H. Christensen 209
£1pnl|lo1?d r« Katherine F. Larsen 214
Blue Talisman of Spring Dorothy J. Roberts 215
Spring Symphony Linnie F. Robinson 227
£l- 1 ^a-f;er : «i Ouida Johns Pedersen 24 1
Wild Morning Glories Ethel Jacobson 246
Masterpiece _ Viola Quinn Willmore 250
Untold Promise Vesta N. Fairbairn 255
Wlaim o :Um-V Maude Rubin 260
Sumew%5p-Snsiblilty Winona F. Thomas 266
The Wild Plum Tree Evelyn Fjeldsted 269
Easter Message Matia McClelland Burk 279
Someone Is Coming Mabel Law Atkinson 280
PUBLISHED MONTHLY BY THE GENERAL BOARD OF RELIEF SOCIETY
Copyright 1959 by General Board of Relief Society of The Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
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section 1103, Act of October 8, 1917, authorized June 29, 1918. Manuscripts will not be returned
unless return postage is enclosed. Rejected manuscripts will be retained for six months only.
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The Restoration
President Antoine R. Ivins
Of the First Council of Seventy
THIS dispensation of the GOS- A second witness was clearly needed.
PEL was initiated by the These events were preparatory
vision given to the lad Joseph and initiatory to the re-establish-
Smith Jr. in the Sacred Grove near ment of the Church in the earth.
Palmyra, New York. In it the Other things were necessary before
Prophet was told that he should not the organization of the Church,
affiliate himself with any of the then especially the restoration of the
existent church groups, and that the Priesthood, for Priesthood is neces-
time would come when, if he were sary for the performance of the vari-
to live properly, he would be the ous ordinances practiced in the
instrument whom the Lord would Church.
use to re-establish the TRUTH On the 15th day of May, 1829,
among the people. John the Baptist conferred the
In this vision the great confusion Aaronic Priesthood upon Joseph
regarding the personality of Jesus Smith and Oliver Cowdery at which
Christ and God the Father was time he gave them notice that, at a
cleared up. In reality, it was a future time, the Melchizedek Priest-
verification of the promise made to hood would also be given them. Be-
Peter when Christ told him that he fore the Church was to be given a
would establish his Church upon formal organization, Peter, James,
the revealed testimony that he is and John appeared unto Joseph
the Son of God, for God introduced Smith and Oliver Cowdery and con-
Christ to Joseph Smith as his Son. ferred upon them the Melchizedek
Some time after this first mani- Priesthood. That all of this should
festation, the Prophet had others in happen before the organization of
which he was given much instruc- the Church was imperative to make
tion and was prepared to receive the it authoritative,
plates from which The Book of It will be noted that Joseph Smith
Mormon was translated. This book and Oliver Cowdery were instructed
is a second testimony of the min- by John the Baptist to baptize each
istry of Christ in which many of other, after having received the
the least understood principles of Aaronic Priesthood. Thereafter a
the gospel are clarified. In Second few other persons were likewise bap-
Corinthians, Chapter thirteen, verse tized to qualify them to meet the
one, we read, "In the mouth of two requirements of the law of the State
or three witnesses shall every word of New York, in that to organize a
be established." The Bible, alone, church six men were necessary. Ac-
seems to have been unable to bring cordingly, on the 6th day of April,
people to a unity of faith, and many 1830, The Church of Jesus Christ
factions of Christianity were strug- of Latter-day Saints was given a
gling for supremacy at the time of legal existence within the State of
these manifestations to the Prophet. New York. These events all hav-
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THE RESTORATION
213
ing happened, there was now upon
the earth, again, a Church which
was set up under direct authoriza-
tion from God.
In addition to these gifts of
Priesthood, there were certain spe-
cial authorizations necessary. In the
temple at Kirtland, as recorded in
the noth Section of The Doctrine
and Covenants, we have the record
of the visitations, in vision, of
Moses, Elias, and Elijah, each of
whom conferred upon the Prophet
and Oliver keys for special functions
of the Priesthood. These referred
to the gathering of Israel, the dis-
pensation of the gospel of Abraham,
and the turning of the hearts of the
fathers to the children and of the
children to their fathers. (If there
ever was a time when fathers should
take greater interest in their chil-
dren and when children should pay
greater respect to their parents than
right now, your humble servant can-
not call it to mind.)
^HE Church functions through
its Priesthood. The rights and
privileges of the various offices in
the Priesthood are set forth in The
Doctrine and Covenants with great
clarity. We recommend that all
become familiar, not only with the
offices of the Priesthood, but also
with the responsibilities and func-
tions incident to each office. Many
people appear not to appreciate
their position after accepting ordi-
nation therein.
It will appear that in granting
these keys of the Priesthood there
is now, within the Church, the right
to perform every ordinance neces-
sary for the salvation and exaltation
in the kingdom of God. All of
these rights centered in the Prophet
Joseph Smith. When the Apostle-
ship was bestowed by the Prophet
upon a Council of Twelve men,
they were given these keys which
they should exercise always under
authorization of the President of
the Church, a provision necessary to
assure that these powers would car-
ry on even in the case of the death
of a President.
In the Aaronic Priesthood there
are three orders — deacon, teacher,
and priest — each with specific rights
and responsibilities, while in the
Melchizedek Priesthood there are
two general offices — the elder and
the high priest — and the Presi-
dency of the Church, the Council
of the Twelve, the Seventies, and
the Patriarchs which are highly
specialized.
To control the use of the powers
of the Priesthood, the people are
organized into stakes and wards
under authorized leadership. Ward
activities are directed by three high
priests called a bishopric. Their
function is a dual one since they
have to care for the temporal needs
of the members of the wards and,
at the same time, direct certain
spiritual functions. The stakes are
directed by three high priests — a
stake presidency — from whom the
bishops and all other stake officers
take direction. This makes it pos-
sible for the general leadership of
the Church, through stake presi-
dencies and bishoprics, to reach the
individual members, when neces-
sary, with a minimum of effort.
Outside of the wards and stakes
live many members of the Church.
To care for them and carry on the
proselyting work of the Church,
there are fifty missions organized
each under the direction of a mis-
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sion president. The missions are
divided into districts and branches
with the necessary local leadership
and, here again, close contact with
the members is possible.
Since every worthy man may have
the privilege of the Priesthood, and
since most men who accept it feel
a certain responsibility to qualify
for the implied service, there is a
greater lay-member power for re-
ligious leadership than can be found
in other church organizations. Mem-
ber participation is the strength of
every virile organization and this is
especially true of those of religious
nature.
A
S aids to the Priesthood there
are the Auxiliary Organizations
set up with local and general super-
vision. Of these we are, at the pres-
ent writing, especially interested in
the Relief Society.
This Society was brought into ex-
istence under the direction and
special call of the Prophet Joseph
who, when organizing it, set forth
the purposes and functions of the
Society. It was composed entirely
of women who set about finding
ways and means of helping people
in distress. With but few members
at the time, it has now grown to
great membership and the amount
of good accomplished by it is be-
yond computation. Through stakes
and missions it reaches into almost
all parts of the world. Reports of
its activities come from such far
distant places as Japan, New Zea-
land, Australia, South Africa, and
elsewhere. Who can doubt the
inspiration of the Prophet in its
organization?
We have, then, in the RES-
TORATION a renewed testimony
of the personality of God and Jesus
Christ; a restoration of Priesthood
in all its functions which came by
direct gift through heavenly beings
who had been sent by Jehovah him-
self; a renewed type of Church
organization which gives the best
possible means of satisfying the
spiritual and temporal needs of the
children of God.
KjLprd LKoad
Katherine F. Larsen
A brown road calls me
In the tender spring,
To leave accustomed homeways;
For when the blackbirds sing
My wayward feet would follow
Paths meandering
Through buttercups and violets,
Up an old wood road
That winds through white-limbed aspen trunks
Whose slender branches fling
Fresh-minted glinting leaflets
In sunlight shimmering. . . .
Lucien Bown
TEAPOT LAKE IN THE UINTAH MOUNTAINS, UTAH
itilue cJalisnian of (bprtng
Dorothy J. Roberts
Something breaks the monotone of seasons
Edged with the ragged ermine of the snow —
A sapphire jewel glinting on the landscape
Where a pool holds part of heaven here below.
And I recall the brave, blue tint of promise —
The aqua sphere beneath the robin's wing,
Blue courage of the hyacinth and crocus,
Bare willows where an azure bird will sing.
I think of dawn's pale preface to the morning
Where the cold, black weight of midnight had been pressed —
How the turquoise swells and spreads above the valley
And crowds the waning darkness from the west.
Revived, I leave, the bright brooch of the water
Glistening on the dullness of the fen.
And turning from the darkness and the winter,
I walk the waiting land with faith again.
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cJhe Vilest (central States 1 1 it
is s ton
Pieston R. Nibley
Assistant Church Historian
npiIE West Central States Mission was organized at a conference held in
Billings, Montana, on November nth and 12th, 1950, under the
direction of Elders Harold B. Lee and Ezra Taft Benson, of the Council
of the Twelve.
The mission was formed from districts taken from three other mis-
sions: From the North Central States Mission — West North Dakota,
Milk River, and Yellowstone; from the Northwestern States Mission —
Northern Montana, Great Falls, Missoula, and Butte; from the Western
States Mission — Wyoming and Black Hills Districts.
Elder Sylvester Broadbent was installed as president of the new mis-
sion, and eighty-eight missionaries were transferred from the three missions
to labor under his direction. A commodious mission home was purchased
at Billings, where the headquarters was established.
In June 1953, the Butte Stake was organized from branches taken
from the West Central States Mission, under the direction of Elders
Spencer W. Kimball and LeGrand Richards, of the Council of the Twelve.
This was the first stake organized in the State of Montana.
President Sylvester Broadbent served faithfully as president of the
West Central States Mission until December 1953, when he received his
release. He was succeeded by Samuel A. Hendricks. President Hen-
dricks served until March 1957, and under his leadership the work of
the mission was greatly enlarged. He was succeeded by George F. Sim-
Courtesy Hungry Horse News
Submitted by Anna C. Merrill
lake Mcdonald, glacier national park, Montana
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THE WEST CENTRAL STATES MISSION
217
Rise Studio, Rapid City, South Dakota
Submitted by Anna C. Merrill
THE SHRINE OF DEMOCRACY CARVED IN MOUNT RUSHMORE,
SOUTH DAKOTA
Left to right: George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, Theodore Roosevelt,
Abraham Lincoln
mons. President Simmons served until June 1957, when he was released
on account of illness.
In June 1957, the Great Falls and Missoula Stakes were organized in
the West Central States Mission, making three stakes in all in Montana.
After the release of President Simmons, former mission President
Samuel A. Hendricks served as acting president until the appointment of
Casper W. Merrill, in August 1957. With President Merrill in making
the first tour of the mission was Elder Alma Sonne, Assistant to the Coun-
cil of the Twelve. On his return to Salt Lake City, Elder Sonne said:
''Missionary work is making steady progress in the West Central States
Mission, and the prospects are exceedingly bright." President Merrill is
serving at the present time.
On December 31, 1959, there were 9,608 members of the Church in
the mission, located in forty-four branches. During the year of 1959, there
were 782 converts baptized.
Forty-eight Relief Society organizations, with 1055 members, were
reported in December 1959. Anna Crockett Merrill presides over the
West Central States Mission Relief Society.
Note: The cover for this Magazine is a view of St. Mary's Lake, Glacier National
Park, Montana, taken from a transparency by Hal Rumel.
See also "Recipes From the West Central States Mission," by Sister Merrill on
page 244.
That Special Flavor
Dorothy S. Romney
CLAIRE Connelly pulled the
down quilt over her ears in
a futile effort to keep out the
angry shrilling of the telephone.
Then she remembered that Matt
had worked late last night, had gone
to bed completely exhausted, and
needed sleep. She sat up abruptly
and reached for the telephone.
She attempted to sound at least
half -a wake, but failed. She felt too
miserable to make the required
effort.
"Claire," a voice on the other end
of the wire said, "this is Sister
Herth. Matt stopped by on his way
to work and said you weren't feeling
well again. I want to come over,
but can't get there for a little while.
Jim is short-handed this morning,
and I'll have to help out."
Claire looked around her. Sure
enough, Matt was gone. The house
had that empty, silent quality. She
looked at the clock on the dressing
table. The hands stood at ten
o'clock, later than she had ever al-
lowed herself to sleep.
"Matt shouldn't have done that,"
she apologized. "I feel all right.
A bit tired, but otherwise all right,"
she insisted, thinking all the while
that it wasn't true. Her head ached,
and she had that same alarming
shortness of breath she'd felt yester-
day.
You have enough to do without
my chores," she con-
tinued.
"I'll be over as soon as I can
make it," Sister Herth replied.
There was silence on the line.
"Claire, are you all right?" the
older woman asked.
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taking on
"Yes," Claire answered, "perfectly
all right. And please don't inter-
rupt your busv day. I really don't
need you." She rather hoped that
she didn't sound too convincing.
Sister Herth was such a comforting
person to have around.
"I'll be over," her neighbor re-
peated, and hung up.
Past experience told Claire it did
no good to argue with Sister Herth.
She was also fully aware that her
neighbor was a woman of few words
but of tremendous action. The
Herths were wonderful neighbors,
always ready to help out in an emer-
gency, but far too busy with their
extensive dairy farm to have much
time for trivialities.
Claire hung up the phone, slipped
into a housecoat and slippers, and
went into the dining room.
She sighed as she looked through
the door at the stack of dinner dish-
es awaiting her at the sink. She
had been just too tired to do them
last night.
Claire sat down. She was frankly
puzzled.
"Why has the zest and sparkle
suddenly and completely gone from
my life?" she asked herself. "Per-
haps it's my age." She pondered
this thought for a moment. "Non-
sense," she reminded herself, "forty-
six is positively youthful. There
must be another explanation."
CHE had just had a complete
physical check-up, and been
pronounced "fine." The doctor had,
however, started to tell her some-
thing just as she was leaving his
office, when he'd been interrupted
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219
by a nurse with an urgent telephone
call. "Just be careful you don't
. . . ." he had said, and that was all
she had heard.
Maybe she should call him and
ask him to finish the warning. There
must be some reason for her feeling
so miserable.
She was remembering that Matt
had watched her all through dinner
last night with obvious concern.
"What you need is a complete
change/' he had pronounced.
"I've just had a complete change,"
Claire had pointed out, "and it
didn't take."
'Til get you that ticket to Utopia
one of these days," he had prom-
ised. It had been a standing joke
all through their life that someday
just the two of them would go
away on a nice, restful trip.
"Two to Utopia," Claire had re-
peated, "it sounds funny, but nice."
Matt had picked up his briefcase,
gone into the den, and had worked
far into the night. Claire had awak-
ened several times and heard him
murmuring in his sleep, as he always
did when he was overtired. She felt
guilty.
She went into the kitchen and
prepared a light breakfast, and then
found that she had no appetite for
even this small meal.
Yes, she concluded, that old fa-
miliar lift is definitely missing.
She began again to probe for the
reason. With Marny, her eldest,
married five years, with Dick staying
on at the University for the summer
courses to catch up after serving his
mission, and Mark, their baby, just
beginning his foreign mission; with
her calling as Relief Society litera-
ture teacher finished until fall,
Claire had suddenly found herself
with very little to do.
A
complete change from the busy
life she had led in the past,
her thoughts continued. Perhaps a
trip would be just the tonic she
needed. Twenty-seven years of mar-
riage without one honest-to-good-
ness vacation was a long stretch.
Then she remembered all the
delightful "snatches" of vacation
they had enjoyed, she and Matt and
the children, because she had never,
never gone on a trip without Matt,
and it had been difficult for him to
leave town for more than a few days
at a time.
Claire got up determinedly, and
went into the bedroom. Sister Herth
mustn't see what a drone she had
become. She would dress and have
all the work out of the way before
her energetic neighbor arrived.
Of course, there wasn't much that
needed doing, outside of the dishes.
She had promised to put the finish-
ing touches on a dress for Marny
to take with her on the convention
trip she and Peter would make, and
to iron a white shirt for Matt.
As she came into the kitchen, a
wave of dizziness passed over her.
She leaned against the sink for a
moment's rest.
The doorbell rang and interrupted
her reverie.
It can't be Sister Herth, she
thought. It has only been a few
minutes since she called — thirty at
the most.
But it was.
"Jim decided he could get along
without me," she explained, "so I
came right over."
"I'm being a bother," Claire apol-
ogized again.
"I'll just get these dishes out of
the way," Sister Herth said. "You
sit down and talk to me."
Claire sat down as directed. She
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watched her neighbor's energetic
movements. She felt as if some-
thing dreadful were closing on her,
like an ether cone over her face, cut-
ting off her breathing.
"I'm sure there's ironing to do,"
her neighbor said, as soon as the last
clean dish was put away. She was
on the service porch with the iron
swinging expertlv over one of Matt's
difficult-to-iron shirts, before Claire
could protest.
Claire stood uncertainly in the
doorway, feeling like a stray kitten
someone had left on the doorstep.
CISTER Herth looked at her
critically.
"You look tuckered," she ob-
served. "Why don't you take a nap
while I'm ironing? Then I'll stay
and have some lunch with you."
Oh, thought Claire, feeling more
than ever like a rudderless ship, she's
treating me as if I were a baby,
and then added, perhaps it's be-
cause I'm acting like one. She had
never, over the years, known Sister
Herth to interrupt her busv day just
to sit down and eat luncheon — un-
less it was an occasion with real
meaning. Matt surelv must have
convinced her that Claire needed
her.
"Imagine a nap in the middle of
the day," she protested.
"A nap will do you good," her
neighbor insisted.
"Perhaps it will," Claire agreed.
Her knees were actually beginning
to buckle. Nevertheless, she felt
guilty as she went into her bedroom.
Unable to go to sleep, Claire
finally decided to get up and see
what she had for lunch that was
tempting. She combed her hair,
put on a fresh frock and lipstick,
washed her hands, and went into
the kitchen. Her head felt some-
what better.
As soon as they had eaten lunch,
Sister Herth insisted on washing up
the dishes. After that she left for
home, telling Claire she'd look in
on her tomorrow. Her obvious con-
cern made Claire wonder, did she
know something about Claire's con-
dition that Claire herself didn't
know? That warning the doctor had
started to give her — perhaps he
had given it to Matt and her neigh-
bors instead, to avoid frightening
her.
She settled herself determinedly
at the sewing machine. She'd get
this dress for Marny finished and
out of the way right now, she de-
clared. But after working for about
half an hour she felt too miserable
to go on.
She put the dress aside, and lay
down on the couch to rest. Her
thoughts started back over the years,
bright, happy years, full of action
and excitement. Her energy had
been boundless, which made her
present lethargy all the more puz-
zling.
"Two to Utopia," she thought
again, longingly. She could scarce-
ly wait until Matt returned from
work. If he'd settled his present
business, he'd be all set to go. Per-
haps this would be the tonic she
needed.
^HE telephone rang. It was Matt.
"Start packing, Mrs. Connelly,"
he said, "the deal is all done up in
pink tissue paper." He was jubi-
lant. "I'll stop in and get something
easy to fix for dinner," he added.
Claire hung up the phone and
sat down. "Well, it is actually
here." The big trip that she had
looked forward to all her busy life —
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221
just for her and Matt. Still, there
was no surge of joy, as she had
expected. Anyway, she'd start pack-
ing immediately. They'd take the
Hilman, she quickly decided, not the
big gas-hungry station wagon as
they'd had to do in the past to
accommodate the crowd. One suit-
case was all that the small car
would hold, but with the modern-
dav dacrons and orlons she was sure
that would do — they'd sort of
rough it for a change.
As she packed she kept remem-
bering the eager trio, Marny, Dick,
and Mark each time they had pre-
pared for a short trip — remember-
ing their shining faces, glowing with
anticipation, their happy chatter as
they rode in the back of the huge
station wagon. Well, this time, she
thought, she could look back and
see nothing but the empty road
stretching out behind them. It
would be rather restful.
Matt came home just as she fin-
ished packing the suitcase. It was
still open on the bed. He kissed
her, then went to the closet to hang
up his coat.
"What's this?" he asked, as he
turned and saw the closely packed
suitcase. "I thought this was going
to be the big celebration, the trip
to outdo all trips. How about tak-
ing enough clothing for a comfort-
able vacation without having to
worry about laundering?"
"I thought we'd take the Hilman
— save on gas," she told him, "and
one suitcase is all it will hold."
"Whatever you say," he replied,
his voice all at once flat.
Claire went into the kitchen and
started to prepare dinner. The
telephone rang, and she answered it
on the extension. It was Marny.
"Hi, Mother," her bright young
voice said. "Did you get the dress
finished?"
Claire had a sudden feeling of
guilt. She had always disliked giv-
ing excuses.
"No, dear, I had one of my head-
aches come on, and had to stop
working," she explained.
"Mother," Marny said accusingly,
"why don't you see a doctor?"
"I had a complete check-up two
weeks ago, and there's nothing
wrong," Claire assured her daugh-
ter, then wondered again about the
doctor's half-spoken warning.
"Well, I'll just have to buy a
dress. Peter and I are leaving in
the morning for that convention,
and I have to have one — I'm host-
ess for the Tuesday luncheon. And
don't worry, Mother," she added,
"I have a perfect flower of a baby-
sitter engaged."
"That's fine, dear," Claire said.
This would be the first time Marny
had gone out of town and left her
children with a stranger. Claire
had always insisted on taking them.
She wouldn't tell Marny about their
own planned trip — not just this
minute, anyway, the steaks needed
attention.
"I'll call you before we leave in
the morning," Marny promised,
"but now I must rush out and buy
that dress."
The steaks were so tender they
almost melted in your mouth, and
the tossed salad was refreshingly
springy tasting, but Claire found
her appetite only half adequate to
do justice to the meal.
Matt insisted on washing the
dishes. Claire dried them.
HTHEY were preparing for bed
when the telephone rang. It
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was Marny again, and she was in spite of the fact that they both wore
tears. sunglasses and big smiles.
"Oh, Mother;' she wailed, "the "Happy?" Matt asked, often,
most awful thing has happened." Each time Claire nodded em-
Claire's heart turned completely phatically and said, "Very."
over. She kept looking back as they
"Our baby-sitter has the measles, rode along,
and I can't think of another soul "Beautiful day, beautiful sight,
I'd trust with the children — except isn't it?" Matt asked,
you. Oh, if only you felt better." "Oh, yes," Claire breathed ecstat-
She sounded exactly as she did that ically.
time when as a six-year-old she had Behind them in the big station
broken her favorite doll. "What wagon sat Marny's two bright-eyed
shall I do?" twin girls, aged two, their faces
Claire went silent for a long scrubbed, and shining with an eager-
moment, her heart and mind in a beaver look, then the two boys, who
turmoil. were the older brothers, three and
"Your father and I are leaving in four — same look. Back of them
the morning on a long-planned trip, stood the family's huge Boxer, alert
We're taking the Hilman. I have and ready for his run on the beach,
our suitcase all packed. There must Behind that the station wagon
be someone reliable you could get extended a yard, at least, crammed
to look after the children . . ." she with suitcases for a happy vacation,
hesitated. "I'll call Grandma Lar- Claire sighed rapturously. That
son. She would be perfect, if she's old certain-something, that special
free." flavor was back in her life. She felt
"All right, Mother," Marny re- young and zestful. What a romp
plied. Her bright, golden voice of they'd have on the beach these two
a few hours ago had turned leaden, delightful weeks. Just like old times.
Claire thought with a pang. "Seven for Utopia," she told
Claire dialed Grandma Lar- Matt. He smiled at her happily,
son's number immediately. She After she'd called Marny back last
waited several minutes, but there night and told her thev'd take the
was no answer. Then she remem- children with them on vacation, she
bered that Grandma had told her had felt really fine, normal, and elat-
several weeks ago that she was going ed for the first time in weeks, she
to Tuolumne to visit her daughter couldn't believe it, quite. So this
for a month or so. morning she'd called Dr. Hart to
She dreaded calling Marny. Poor make sure she was up to it.
child, she'd be so disappointed, and -Sure vou're all right," he'd said,
she had looked tired lately. «i to\a y0'u tnere was nothing wrong.
What warning?" he had asked, in
answer to her question.
"Oh," after a few minutes of
HE sun shone so brightly on the thinking. His chuckle was low and
pavement that was the "99" merry. "That — 'just be careful
Highway, Claire had constantly to you don't come down with a case
adjust the windshield shades, in of leisure-itis.' "
T
Uncle Matt and the China Doll
Syl
via. Pwbst Young
NIGHT was stealing down the
mountains when Elizabeth,
carrying a supper tray, crossed
the barren field toward Matt's place.
At her side the wind moaned
ominously. A snow wind, maybe.
How late the snow comes this year,
she thought resentfully. They were
to be gone "when snow flies," Hank
had said.
At the far end of the field the
light from a lantern glowed eerily
through the barn window. Hank
was milking. This was the life he
loved — life on the land. He was
willing to keep on trying year after
year to make this raw country into
a thing of beauty. He would make
the farm pay, he said. Young, strong,
and dauntless, he had cleared the
sage from acre after acre with his
own two hands and a grubbing hoe.
It was she whose courage had
failed after three years with no
crop. Hank had finally agreed after
a July hailstorm had lashed the gold-
en turning wheat into the ground
and left the fields looking devas-
tated.
"Well go back to Parkville," he
had told her. 'Til lease the place.
Mavbe it's better that wav."
Her heart had lifted then. "You
know there is always a place for you
in the mill," she had encouraged,
"and Patty won't have so far to go
to school."
"We'll try to go by the time snow
flies," he had promised.
Now it was the first of December,
the ground was still bare, and Hank
had talked no more about leaving.
Elizabeth quickened her steps;
she wouldn't brood now.
The warm lamplight from Matt's
windows gleamed out invitingly. As
she neared the porch, the door
opened suddenly.
"Mama!" Patty's brown eyes
were glowing. "Come in, Mama,
and see the new dolls."
"Dolls?" Elizabeth smiled at her
eager eight-year-old daughter.
Patty, with the blond pigtails, the
shining brown eyes, and the quick
smile, was the light of their lives.
In the homelike warmth of the
big room that served as general store
and Matt's living room, Elizabeth
unbuttoned her coat and put the
supper tray on the great wooden
counter.
"Guess you're about ready for
supper, Matt. Has this daughter of
mine been behaving herself?"
From his armchair by the window
the big man looked lovingly at the
little girl.
"She's a big help,Patty is."
Elizabeth nodded knowingly. "By
the time she's sampled all the penny
candies and the gum, she hasn't
much time to help."
"Oh, but I did help, Mama," the
little girl defended. "I dusted the
showcases and straightened up the
combs and the cuff links. I didn't
have any candy at all."
"That's right, Elizabeth," Matt
assured her. "And then Patty was
busy with the dolls."
"Matt," Elizabeth brought the
supper tray to the little table beside
his chair, "I thought you weren't
getting dolls this year. I thought
you were saving all the money you
could for a wheel chair."
"I am, Elizabeth," he told her.
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"I'll get my wheel chair, but it
wouldn't be Christmas if I didn't
have dolls in the window ."
pLIZABETH'S eyes sought the
front window where a dozen
different dolls were on display, some
suspended by cords and some
propped up in pasteboard boxes. At
Patty's urging she went to look more
closely at them. Dolls — so many
of them, no wonder Patty's eyes
were glowing. And each one was
different. Some had composition
heads, two or three were celluloid
with painted faces and, wonder of
wonders, some of them had eyes
that opened and closed. But there
was one — a very special doll; Patty
had pointed her out immediately.
She looked like a queen. Her body
was covered with soft, white kid,
her head and arms were of china,
her hair and eyelashes were real, and
her eyes — dark brown like Patty's
— would open and close.
"Isn't she just beautiful?" Patty
breathed.
Elizabeth could only nod her
head, the little girl's eagerness had
brought quick tears to her eyes.
Patty's dolls had been of the cel-
luloid variety.
It was wrong for Matt to have
such a doll in his window, she
thought. Who in Rockport could
buy it?
Matt seemed to read her thoughts.
"The big doll was specially ordered,"
he told her.
"Or did Mr. Geece just use his
super salesmanship on you?" Eliza-
beth challenged, thinking of the
tall, sauve, friendly drummer.
Matt smiled and shook his head.
Elizabeth found a chair beside the
pot-bellied stove and watched her
brother-in-law eating the simple
food she had placed before him.
Her heart warmed. Matt was a
very special person. Some kind of
paralysis had made his legs useless,
and for twenty years he had sat in
his combination store and living
room greeting friends and neigh-
bors. They brought their eggs to
exchange for vinegar or sugar, back
combs, or greeting cards. They sat
by his stove to play a game of check-
ers with him or to tell him their
troubles.
He was always willing to listen to
their joys and their sorrows. In his
friendly place the young people
gathered to sing or to talk of their
romances, women exchanged recipes,
men discussed cows and crops.
"It's a good supper." He looked
at Elizabeth while he buttered the
warm bread. "I always told Hank
he married the best."
From behind the counter Patty,
who was deciding what kind of can-
dy to take from the glass jars as
pay for helping Uncle Matt, turned
to join in the conversation.
"Uncle Matt told me our life
story again," she announced.
"Matt," Elizabeth laughed, "she
knows it off by heart."
"I like best the part where Daddy
came home from the dance," Patty
twinkled, "and he said, 'Matt, I met
the schoolteacher tonight, and I'm
going to marry her.' "
"Your Daddy didn't take long to
make up his mind," Elizabeth told
her, "and speaking of your Daddy
— we'd better go, he'll be through
milking now."
She rose to gather the dishes and
felt Matt's eyes upon her.
"You're unhappy tonight, Eliza-
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beth. What about Parkville, noth-
ing decided?"
The tears she had fought all day
suddenly glistened in Elizabeth's
blue eyes.
"Hank's never said anything
more." she choked, "and I haven't
wanted to nag him."
Matt's face was marked with
understanding. "It will work out,
Elizabeth," he said gently, "it will
work out."
HPHE wind was still blowing when
they went outside, and light
flakes of snow peppered the cold
air. But Elizabeth's heart felt
warmer.
Matt had always been able to
soothe her troubles as a father
soothes a child. She tucked the lit-
tle girl's hand in her coat pocket,
and turned her eyes toward home.
"Mama," Patty's voice was wish-
ful, "do you think that Santa Claus
could bring me a china doll with
eyes that open and close?"
"I don't know, honey," she chose
her words carefully. "Sometimes
Santa Claus doesn't have enough
dolls to go around, and we have to
be happy with whatever he can
bring us."
The little girl sighed, "I know,
but maybe I could write him a very
special letter."
The purr of the separator greeted
them when they entered their kitch-
en, and Patty went out into the
back room to watch the golden
cream run out of the valve. It
always delighted her. Sometimes
Hank let her turn the big handle.
"She'll make a good farmer's
wife," he would say. And Eliza-
beth's only answer would be an un-
spoken "No!"
The dishes were on the table, and
she was slicing bread when Hank
came into the room.
"Hello, honey." He came over
to the table to plant a light kiss
on her forehead, his dark head
towering above her fair one. "What
we got for supper?"
"Just dried beans and carrots."
"Sounds good, though." He was
so easy to please. "Patty's been
telling me about Matt's dolls."
"Yes. She's got her heart set on
one of them. Wish Matt didn't
have them."
He looked at her tenderly. There
was concern in his eyes. "You've
not been feeling well, have you?
Which reminds me I talked to Wil-
lis this afternoon, again, he'll lease
our place."
"Hank!" Elizabeth cried. There
was mingled joy and exasperation
in her voice. "Why don't you ever
tell me these things?"
"Didn't want to get your hopes
up before I knew. He'll take over
the cows the first of the year, or
before, if we want it."
In her eagerness she was unaware
of the forced lightness in his voice.
"I'll write Mama and tell her. We
can stay with them until we find a
place."
"You want to go before Christ-
mas?"
She saw the shadow on his face
then. "No," she said quickly, "oh,
no, we'll stay here for Christmas,
Matt would be so disappointed and
Patty, too."
"\\THEN supper was over, Hank
went over to Matt's to visit a
bit and help him to bed.
Patty helped Elizabeth with the
dishes, and they made plans for
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leaving Rockport, but Patty did not
share her enthusiasm, and Elizabeth
was disappointed.
When the little girl was tucked
in bed she went to stand at the
front window. The ground was
covered with white now, but it had
stopped snowing, and the moon
was breaking through, fringing the
clouds with gold. Her eyes followed
the road to a place near the hill —
Rockport's cemetery. A part of her
heart would always be there by two
little graves where two infant sons
were buried. In Parkville there
were doctors within call, the coming
baby would have a better chance.
She turned from the window; the
room was warm and pleasant. The
lamp burned with a lazy tongue,
and the wood fire crackled cheer-
fully. She smiled, thinking of
Hank, big and quiet, a little shy,
but sure of what he wanted. She
was glad he had wanted her.
The next afternoon Hank drove
Elizabeth over to Mortensen's Merc-
antile. The butter and egg money
that she had carefully saved, came
to $3.57, enough to buy material for
shirts for Hank and Matt and pon-
gee for a new dress for Patty. There
would be enough pongee for a new
dress for Patty's doll, too. She had
debated long over the money before
buying the cloth — $3.57 — the
china doll in Matt's window was
$6. She couldn't ask Matt to
charge the rest, her charges were
always written off his books, and he
had said the doll was a special order.
Patty would understand, and next
year they wouldn't have to depend
on a crop for their existence. Hank
would be working at the mill in
Parkville, Patty could have a new
doll then.
In the days that followed, when
Patty was at school and Hank
busy with the chores, Elizabeth
worked at her sewing machine. The
dolls in Matt's window were fast
disappearing, but the china doll
was still there, much to Patty's de-
light.
A few days before Christmas,
when they brought Matt's supper
to the store, the china doll was gone.
Patty noticed its absence at once.
"Uncle Matt," she cried, "the
china doll is gone."
pLIZABETH thought she saw a
tear in the dark eyes, but the
child only smiled. "Well, I guess
she couldn't stav here forever," she
said, "but whoever gets her is going
to be awfully happy/'
When school let out for Christ-
mas vacation, Elizabeth had finished
her sewing. She was pleased with
the red-checkered shirts, and the
pongee dress, with its ruffled skirt,
was beautiful. Even the celluloid
doll looked sweet in her new dress,
although the paint on her eyes was
almost worn off.
The day before Christmas, Eliza-
beth and Patty busied themselves
making gingerbread men and honey
candy. Hank brought the tree into
the house in the earlv afternoon,
and Patty's delight knew no bounds
as she strung popcorn and hung
bright tinsel stars on it.
They took Uncle Matt's supper
over early. The store was full of
neighbors and friends, little gifts
and bright greeting cards lay on
Matt's table.
"Everybody loves Uncle Matt,"
Patty observed as they walked home
in the gathering twilight,
miss him, Mama."
"We'll
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"Yes/' she said lightly, "but we'll
have him tomorrow and that will
be a wonderful day."
TT was late when Hank came back
from Mart's that night. Eliza-
beth had gone to bed, but she got
up when he came in.
Fie was carrying packages and he
put them on the table. "Been so
many folks there I couldn't get
awav."
"What do you suppose he sent
us?
"Well, the sack is candv and
oranges, he had me fix that up. The
others, I don't know."
"Shall we open them? It's almost
Christmas morning."
"There're no names on anything."
Hank picked up a long, thin box
and handed it to Elizabeth.
Her hands trembled as she lifted
the lid. For a long moment she
couldn't speak, her eyes were glued
to a china-headed doll lying in the
box before her.
"Hank," her voice was choked
with emotion, "it's the doll, and he
said it was a special order."
Hank nodded. "I'm not surprised.
Won't Patty be happy? But he'll
be even happier — It's the same
every Christmas, he writes people's
accounts off his books. Guess he
gave half those dolls away. Don't
know when he'll get his wheel chair,
but I don't know anyone happier."
Elizabeth held the doll close to
her. Anticipating a child's joy, an
unheeded tear rolled down her
cheek. Matt was happiest making
others happy, even when it meant
going without himself.
She looked across at Hank. He
was like Matt, even willing to give
up the land — the thing that he
loved so much, to make her happy.
The land was his hope, and spring
would come again with new promise.
But she was taking him away from
it. He would never be as happy
anywhere else — maybe she would
not either.
"Hank," she looked at him stead-
ily, "let's not go after all."
"Elizabeth! you mean. . . . Oh,
Elizabeth. . . ."
There were stars in his eyes as he
took her into his arms.
Spring Symphony
Linnie F. Robinson
Boxelder trees beside the stream
Are festooned with an early bloom
Of golden lace in the sun's bright glow,
And blackbird music spills below.
The pragmatist walked their way —
"They're quite enough to deafen one,
What do they celebrate?" he said
"These are no trees to furnish bread."
I only smiled because just then
The finches and the robins sang,
And then the larks gave music clear
Of tone as ever fell on human ear.
Each branch swung dark with feathered wing,
And every heart was wont to sing . . .
The sun was warm upon the land
With golden trees and golden strand.
Using the 'Jjlack board in cJeacning JLessons
in the [Relief Society
William E. Berrett
Vice-President and Professor of Religion
Brigham Young University
(Address Delivered in the Teaching Aids Department, Annual General Relief Society
Conference, October 8, 1959)
have never known an effective
teacher who did not make regu-
lar use of the blackboard.
The value of a blackboard in the
teaching process should be obvious.
The optic nerve, which carries im-
pressions from the eye to the brain,
is eight times as large as the auditory
nerve, which carries impressions
from the ear to the brain, and is
correspondingly more important in
the learning process. Hence instruc-
tions, to be effective, should be di-
rected to the eye as well as to the
ear. Experience shows that infor-
mation placed upon the blackboard
is retained by the student in a much
higher ratio than information which
has been presented only orally.
In five important phases of the
teaching process the blackboard be-
comes a vital aid:
1. Getting attention
2. Motivating thought and study
3. Clarifying the subject or object under
discussion
4. Obtaining student retention of ideas
5. Obtaining student activity (student
use of blackboard)
The following suggestions are
made as to methods of using the
blackboard.
(A) The Outline
The teacher of adult groups will
find that an outline of the subject
to be discussed, when placed on the
blackboard, will stimulate thinking
by class members and will tend to
keep the discussion purposeful and
progressive. The outline enables all
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class members to follow the dis-
cussion, acts as a constant review of
what has been covered during the
class hour, and contributes to the
fixing of ideas permanently in the
mind. The outline should be simple
and easy to understand without oral
explanation.
(B) Listing Problems and Answers
Student-teacher discussions are
often aimless and a waste of time
unless the blackboard is used to give
organization and direction to the
discussions. For example, the teach-
er might ask the class, "What prob-
lems concerning baptism do you be-
lieve we should discuss?" If the
problems are answered or discussed
in the order of student responses,
there will be much duplication,
jumping about, and a getting of the
"cart before the horse/' The logical
step is to write upon the blackboard
all of the problems before attacking
any of them, eliminate duplications,
and arrange them in a logical order.
Hence the discussion takes a direc-
tion and purpose. The whole of the
problem can be seen, and the rela-
tionship of one question to another
becomes apparent.
Likewise, the blackboard is invalu-
able in listing the answers of class
members to questions or problems
raised. This method enables both
teacher and class to visualize the
discussion and to keep in mind all
the suggested answers so as later to
evaluate them properly. This meth-
od glorifies the member's answer.
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229
It was important enough to write
down. It glorifies the class mem-
bers by making them the judges of
their own responses.
(C) Maps
The most effective maps a teacher
can use are outline maps sketched
upon the blackboard. This can be
done from time to time by a few
simple chalk lines, or at a nominal
cost of a few cents, an outline map
can be drawn on the blackboard
with white paint that is usable for
years, putting in the details needed
for each lesson with chalk as the
occasion arises. (For illustrations of
the type of details see J. Lewis
Browne, The Graphic Bible).
A painted outline map does not
interfere with use of the blackboard
for other purposes as other writing
can be written over it freely and
erased without destroying the map.
(D) Charts and Diagrams
The need of charts and diagrams
in teaching for the purpose of clari-
fication is apparent to all teachers.
The blackboard simplifies and en-
courages their use because of the
ease with which a chart or diagram
can be made with chalk.
Charts help students to see the
relationships of time, proportions,
distance, weight, and effects.
(E) Objects, Directions, Events
The use of the blackboard to
illustrate objects, directions, and
events has been greatly neglected.
In teaching adults, however, its use
is best confined to illustration of
objects, directions, and events out-
side the usual experiences of the
group. For example, one does not
draw an illustration of a horse for
adults who already have mental
images of horses, but might il-
lustrate the Temple of Solomon or
the sequence of historical events.
Illustrations can be made graphic
without necessarily being accurate
or artistic.
Three fine books on this use of the
blackboard are available : Blackboard
Sketching by Frederick Whitney, Mil-
ton, Bradley Co., Springfield, Mass.; and
Chalk Talks; and Talks in Crayon and
Chalk, both by Ella M. Wood, Deseret
Book Company, Salt Lake City, Utah.
(F) Central Thoughts and Chal-
lenging Statements
A sentence carrying the central
thought of a day's lesson, placed
upon a blackboard before or at the
beginning of the class hour, has a
powerful effect upon the class dis-
cussion, and upon retention.
(G) Summarizations
The use of the blackboard to sum-
marize must not be overlooked. The
best summaries are built up of re-
sponses by the class as to what has
been accomplished during the class
hour, and, when written on the
blackboard, enable the students to
carry away from class a unified mes-
sage.
(H) Assignment
The best assignments arise from
problems raised by the class mem-
bers and listed on the blackboard.
If the class cannot answer the ques-
tions, assignments for special study
are obvious. The name of the per-
son assigned and reference or direc-
tions for finding the needed infor-
mation can then be suggested by
the class or teacher and written up-
on the blackboard by the question.
Placing assignments to a group,
upon the blackboard, saves teaching
time and the assignments are re-
membered longer.
Use your blackboard at each les-
son period for at least one thing,
and you will find yourself preparing
your lessons with greater care and
teaching with increased satisfaction.
The Blue Bowl
Part I
Loya Beck
THE bustling city of Nauvoo, as
it slipped into view around a
wide bend in the Mississippi
River, would surprise a traveler who
had grown familiar with the previ-
ous scenes of open countryside and
straggling population on the fringe
of America's wilderness in January
of 1846. Surrounded on three sides
by the mighty Father of Waters,
the city rose with the gradual slop-
ing of a dome-shaped hill, its highest
elevation about a mile from the
river. Blocked into neat squares
with broad streets and tree-lined
avenues, the metropolis was crowned
with a massive structure of gray
marble that overlooked the terrain,
like a ship riding the crest of a wave.
Streamers of smoke drifted from the
tall chimneys of the newly built
homes that dotted the hill, bestow-
ing an illusion of warmth on the
chill winter air.
On Mulholland Street, only a
block from the temple, the clatter
and bang of metal on metal re-
sounded from the rustic interior of
a small, two-story frame house.
Playing near the warmth of the fire-
place, a fiery-haired toddler pound-
ed his mother's wrought-iron cook-
ware with the fury of a Don Quixote
attacking a windmill.
"Come along, Alma, it's time for
your nap." The child's mother en-
deavored to speak above the clamor,
as she drew loaves of golden-crusted
bread from the oven and placed
them on the table to cool.
"No!" was the quick retort.
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"Yes!" the mother answered firm-
ly, taking the child by the hand
and raising him quickly to his feet.
"No! Busy, Mama, busy," the
child wailed, tugging away from her.
"You can play with the kettles
again when you wake up. Come,
now, let me see if you can climb the
stairs by yourself."
With the enthusiasm of a turtle
climbing a thorny hillside, Alma
plodded his way to the upstairs bed-
room. His mother watched him
from below, saw him disappear
through a curtained archway, heard
the squeak of the springs as he
climbed into bed.
Mary Martha Lee listened care-
fully for any sounds from her son.
Weighted with the bloom of an
eight-month pregnancy, any venture
upstairs seemed like a major expedi-
tion to her. A Welsh flannel dress
with a high neck, wrist-length
sleeves, and a floor-length skirt en-
veloped her small figure.
Hearing no sounds from the room
above, Mary gratefully returned to
her work.
Seated in a rocker near the
window, Mary began sorting out
leftover piece-goods to be used for
quilt blocks. Interest in her task
began to lag, however, and her
hands soon fell idly into her lap.
She gazed about the room, perceiv-
ing its homely features as those of
a dear friend from whom she was
about to part. It was a someday
room. Someday it could have been
finished along with its homemade
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furnishings, which consisted of a A/f ARY opened the door, recoiling
table, two chairs, and a tall cup- in the sudden cold blast that
board. In one corner a bed, with- penetrated the warmth of the room,
out a headboard, leaned against the and invited the stranger in.
wall with a faded blue blanket He was a small man, slim and
hugging the whole of it. Between hard-muscled underneath his envel-
the bed and the back door there oping black coat.
was a large trunk with a high curved "You want to buy our place?"
lid and bright silver trappings. A Marv questioned hesitantly.
colorful Paisley shawl was draped "I'd like to look it over and see
over its side. A handcarving done if it's worth buying."
by Tom, Mary's husband, of her "My husband won't be home
mother's bakery shop in Hanley, until this evening. You can come
Staffordshire, England, hung on the back tonight and talk to him about
wall above the trunk. The sign, it."
"Woods Bakery — Hot Pies," was An expression of disapproval
carved plainly on the front. hardened MacDowell's sharp blue
Ruffled curtains made a gay eyes as he boldly scrutinized Mary
frame for two small windows that from head to toe. "I have no mind
overlooked the snowy front yard, to come back tonight, Ma'am. I'll
Mary had purchased the material just look around myself and see if
for the curtains with part of the it suits my needs. If I like it I'll
money she had earned from the sale make you an offer. You can take
of the first pair of men's trousers it or leave it, only you'll be smart
she had made. When Mary and to take it if you figure on getting
Tom had first moved into their new anything out of this place at all."
home, rugs and other luxuries had "I would rather you would talk
to wait, but "A home is not a home to my husband," Mary replied firm-
without curtains at the windows," ly, feeling the color rise to her
Mary had said when Tom had urged cheeks at his continued stare,
her to wait for them, too. The MacDowell's lips tightened im-
curtains now decked the windows patiently. "I'll just go ahead and
with the assurance of old friends look around."
that had come to stay. "No!" Mary spoke emphatically.
Glancing out the window, Mary "No, if you have to see the place
saw a stranger coming up the path now, I'll show it to you." She was
leading to the house. The sudden surprised at the high pitch of her
beating of the man's fist against the usually controlled voice,
door set Mary's heart pounding, as "All right, you show me." Mac-
she rose to her feet and hesitantly Dowell shrugged indifferently,
walked to the door. Mary's clammy fingers tightened
"What do you want?" Mary into the palms of her hands. "There
called through the closed door. are only two rooms — this one and
"My name's MacDowell, Chris- the one upstairs."
topher MacDowell. . . . I'm inter- Pulling off a woolly cap and slap-
ested in buying your place. You'll ping it against his thigh, MacDow-
be selling out, I reckon." ell turned and surveyed the room.
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"I reckon you'll not be taking the
furnishings with you."
"No."
"What's in the cupboard? Any-
thing in there for sale?"
Mary walked to the cupboard
and threw the doors wide. "Every-
thing's for sale," she said. "See,
there on the center shelf, that's real
Staffordshire china, handpainted by
my father. It's worth a lot."
The delicate deep shadings of the
pansies that centered the shining
blue plates in the cupboard had
been painted with meticulous care.
A ring of gold encircled their paper-
thin edges.
A smile passed over MacDowell's
thin lips as he took the gracefully
designed sugar bowl that belonged
to the set into his rough hands. A
stubby finger caressed the smooth
curve of the bowl. "My woman
would sure like this!"
"Let me have it, I will not leave
this piece." Mary snatched the
bowl from his hands and returned
it to its place in the cupboard.
"Don't get riled, Ma'am," Mac-
Dowell protested. "So your father
was a blimey old Englishman with
a gift for painting?
"Yes, I'm English. They are peo-
ple, too, you know," Mary retort-
ed proudly. "My husband is
Scotch, but he was reared in Eng-
land."
"Maybe Danny Edinburgh is peo-
ple, and Johnny London is people,
but Moimons, what are they? Are
they people?" MacDowell grinned,
but his blue eyes were cold.
Mary's pale lips tightened and
her gray eyes met his directly.
"We'll be taking some of the kettles
with us, but no doubt, some will be
left behind."
MacDowell toed one of the iron
kettles that Alma had been playing
with on the floor. "You must have
another kid, mine does that, too."
"We have a son two years old.
He's upstairs asleep," Mary an-
swered. "I'd rather not take you
up there; it might disturb him. All
we have up there is an iron poster
bed and a wooden chest."
"The room's just like this one, I
reckon. Got any heating up
there?"
"Only what comes up from be-
low."
"I don't have to see it, I guess.
I'll look around outside and then
come in and make you an offer for
the place." MacDowell shoved his
cap back on his straggly hair and
turned towards the door.
"I'll go with you." Mary hurried
to the door and snatched her coat
from the peg behind it.
"Now, that won't be necessary, I
don't need any help in my looking."
A/fARY slipped the coat on and
fastened it. "I'm ready to go,"
she nodded.
MacDowell jerked open the door,
and a rush of icy air surrounded
them in its wake. From the back
door they could look down over the
sloping city to where the ice-choked
Mississippi ribboned the foot of the
hill.
"That's your temple over there,
isn't it?" MacDowell nodded to-
ward the massive spired building
that towered on the hill.
"Yes, it is." Mary answered,
pausing to gaze at the temple
fondly. Tom was there now help-
ing to finish the intricate hand-carv-
ing on the interior.
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233
"Looking forward to a good old-
fashioned revival meeting there
someday/' MacDowell teased.
Mary's cheeks paled even in the
bite of the frosty air, but she did
not answer. She followed Mac-
Dowell down a snow shoveled path
which was bordered on either side
by the naked stems of an orchard
that she and Tom had planted only
last spring. Arriving at a gray shed
made over from old lumber, Mac-
Dowell pushed open the door and
waited for Mary to enter first. A
Guernsey cow lifted her head from
the manger.
"She's not our cow," Mary point-
ed out. "She belongs to our neigh-
bors. We shelter her and help feed
her, and both families share the
milk."
"Don't need a cow," MacDowell
muttered. Then, looking around,
he observed, "Not a bad shed, don't
seem to be too drafty."
"It's built well. My husband
built it," Mary said proudly.
"Those your chickens?" Mac-
Dowell questioned.
A rooster and five hens were hud-
dling together in a corner looking
drowsy-eyed.
"Yes, they're ours. They will be
for sale."
"I saw you had an orchard plant-
ed outside," he said, clearing his
throat. "What kind of trees do
you have out there?"
"Apple, mostly," Mary answered,
a note of triumph in her voice. "A
few pear trees, peach, plum, and
cherry."
"That sounds good. It's a good
place, I like it. Easy to see there
was care taken in the building."
MacDowell opened the gray shed
door and stepped out into the snow.
Mary followed to the house, feeling
a chill run across her shoulders and
down her spine. Back again in the
warm house she threw another log
on the low burning fire.
"I'm not a rich man, you under-
stand," MacDowell began as Mary
jabbed at the burned logs with the
poker. "I like this place, so I'll
make you a special offer." He
paused to shift on his feet and
scratch the side of his nose with
his finger. "I'll give you two cows
and a dandy good rifle for the
whole kit and kaboodle."
Startled, Mary faced MacDowell.
"Two cows and a rifle for this whole
place? Why my china alone is
worth. ..."
"Take it or leave it. Makes no
difference to me. I can just as
well wait till you go across the
prairie, then take over the place for
nothing. But, I'm a fair man, don't
believe in taking anything I don't
pay for. You can use the cows and
the rifle, too, so take your choice."
"Of course, vou are exactly right,"
Mary's voice broke. "My husband
will have to confirm anv sale. If
j
you go over to the temple and ask
for Thomas Lee, I'm sure he will be
glad to talk to you." Mary followed
MacDowell to the front door.
"I'll talk to him," MacDowell
said as he opened the door, but
pausing on the threshold, he glanced
back at Mary's face. "How old are
you?
"Nineteen, why?" Mary lifted her
head to meet his gaze.
"Why don't you go back to Eng-
land, girl?" MacDowelFs hard blue
eyes seemed to soften. "Why don't
you go home to your mother?" He
turned and slammed the door be-
hind him.
(To be concluded)
Room in Her Heart
Shirley Thulin
4 6 % v T ELL, Ann, you're going upset stomachs. His abilities as a
Y^ to have a baby." Doctor physician and surgeon could not
Brooks grinned, but Ann help her with her coming ordeal,
avoided his direct gaze. Her chin however, although Ann was deeply
quivered and her lips were hot and happy in her motherhood and the
dry, as she listened to his cheerful opportunity to bring another soul
voice repeating, like a well-known into the world, the criticisms of
record, her instructions for the com- others were sometimes hard to take
ing months. As if she didn't know smilingly.
how to care for herself by now! Ann was grateful for the early
This was her eighth child, and the evening breeze that refreshed her as
doctor's verification of her own she stepped out of the downtown
suspicions had left her with mixed medical building, joining the tide
emotions. of homeward-bound shoppers and
"Ann, I have something new I office workers. As she walked to-
want you to try," Doctor Brooks wards her bus corner, her mind was
continued. "It may help you have a whirlpool. Ann could see her
less nausea in the mornings." He mother's face and hear her say, "Oh,
handed her a little box of capsules. Ann, not again. Susie is only a lit-
"Thank you," she said, but she tie over a year old. You will never
thought — what have you in the live to rear them at this rate." And
way of a capsule that will help me no amount of reassuring on Ann's
and give me the strength and cour- part would make her mother stop
age to face some of my family, and worrying and realize, as with each
friends, and neighbors who will say of the other children, that this
I am having too many children? eighth one was wanted.
And, as though he were reading And Ann knew what Beth, her
her thoughts, the doctor said, "Ann, neighbor on the west, would say.
you have a wonderful family. I am "Oh, really, dear, what can you be
proud to be your friend and doctor." thinking of?" And she knew what
The tears welled up close to over- Beth would be thinking . . . one
flowing, but Ann managed to con- more little Jensen child to pick my
trol them. tulips the spring when he reaches
"Thank you," she said quietly, the age of two. No matter how
though she wanted to say much carefully Ann watched them it hap-
more. She wanted to tell him how pened every time, but only once,
grateful she was for his competent Ann reached the corner and
care over the years. To tell him hoped she wouldn't have to wait
how much it had always meant to long for her bus. She was weary
al-1 of them to have him there when and a little anxious about the chil-
thcy needed him, with the parade dren. Jill was dependable and was
of broken limbs, tonsillectomies, and good to follow instructions, but the
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235
little boys would sometimes tease
and make Sue fretful, then Jill had
more than her hands full.
A NN wondered how Jill would
take the news. She had been
happy over little Sue, but she was
younger then, and hadn't as yet had
much responsibility placed upon
her. Ann felt a tug at her heart as
she thought of all the fun Jill had
had to miss this summer. It seemed
that her Sunday School and Mutual
classes always picked Saturday on
which to have their parties and
outings. This was fine for the
others, but Jill couldn't often be
spared on Saturdays. There was
too much to do to get ready for the
Sabbath.
I only hope Jill doesn't become
resentful. So far I haven't detected
any signs of her having done so, but
sometimes mothers take these things
for granted. Ann pictured Jill, her
soft brown hair curling slightly
around her pretty face, which just
in the last year had lost its childish
roundness and had taken on a new
look ... a serious look.
"Jill looks more like you every
day, dear," Vern had said so often
lately. At first it had pleased Ann
to hear her husband say this, but
now she was wondering if her eldest
child were being forced to grow up
too fast with too few childhood
pleasures.
I almost wish Tom had been a
girl, too, then some of the work
could be shared. But Ann had giv-
en up trying to teach her twelve-
year-old son to help. He was will-
ing to try, but was so awkward when
it came to doing anything around
the house ... so like his father,
Ann mused. Vern tried so hard to
be helpful that it was a little sad.
About the only way to get help
from the two of them, was to send
them on a shopping errand or set
them to a task in the yard that
would keep them out from under-
foot in the house. Each of the oth-
er four children had regular jobs.
Debbie, ten, and Evan, eight, could
do several little jobs well. Even
Jerry, five, and Dickie, three,
helped, but the brunt of helping
fell to Jill.
There is always so much to do
when a family is large, Ann thought.
Every household duty is multiplied
by two or three-fold. But she knew
it was worth all the effort each time
she looked at her dear children as
they began each new day. If only
I can instill the true values of life in
my children's hearts, Ann thought.
But now with the new baby and
even more responsibility on the
way, Ann was frightened. She won-
dered how she could do more to
make their home life even more
pleasant. They were a close-together
family so far, and did many things
as a group. They always attended
their Church meetings together.
They had regular family hours, and
went on picnics. They visited
friends and relatives often . . . but
maybe these things were not enough
to satisfy Jill now that she was grow-
ing up.
^HE green and yellow city bus
came to a halt in front of Ann.
She climbed aboard and took a seat
near the front by an open window,
and felt the tinge of autumn in the
air. Maybe now that school is be-
ginning, and Jill will have more
time outside the home, things will
work out, she thought.
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— APRIL 1960
Ann wished they could afford a
carpet for the living room, and
then she had a little sick feeling as
she realized that now the money
they had saved would perhaps have
to be used for the new baby. As
for herself, a carpet hadn't seemed
to matter. She had tried to keep
the floor waxed shiny, and had
placed bright, hand-braided rugs
here and there. But, with so manv
pairs of feet traveling over the floor
each day, it was difficult.
Ann could hear Elaine, her sister-
in-law say, "Why don't you do
something about this living room?
It looks so bare. You really should
try to be more economical and put
your money to better use."
Elaine didn't realize how many
pairs of shoes and quarts of milk
were needed for the little ones.
Even a small item such as soap
added up, when a family of nine or
ten was involved!
Elaine had something to say
about Ann's housekeeping, too. It
did no good to try to explain that
it was important to help Jerry cut
out his supersonic rocket ship from
the cereal box. And Ann and Jill
would often be helping with Deb-
bie's book of paper dolls or Evan's
modeling clay, somewhere between
the bedmaking and the dusting.
When Ann would tell Vern, he
would just laugh and say, 'There's
nothing wrong with Elaine that
eight or ten children wouldn't
cure."
Ann pulled the cord to let the
driver know that this was her stop.
Usually when she returned from
town, she felt that the block she had
to walk from the bus stop was
almost too long to endure, but this
time, it seemed far too short. It
didn't give her enough time to com-
pose herself. She must not let her
family know that she was rather up-
set, but she had to show how really
happy she was about her new child.
Happiness is always contagious, she
thought. But it would help if she
didn't have to make the announce-
ment just yet, but she knew from
past experience that it was impos-
sible to keep it from them, even
for a few weeks. She knew that
when she walked through the door,
they all would ask their usual ques-
tions: "Where have you been,
Mommy?" "Why did you have to
go to the doctor?" "Don't you feel
well?" And she would tell, in spite
of herself.
Ann stood a moment and
breathed deeply. She feared what
she might see in their eyes and
those of her neighbors and dear
ones. Ann closed her eyes. She
bowed her head slightly and said a
prayer to her Father in heaven.
"Please, Father, help me to make
them all as happy about the baby
as I am, and to be kind and under-
standing."
As Ann continued walking along,
she looked at the row of neat little
homes. She felt a surge of thank-
fulness. "We are blessed," she told
herself. "We live in a nice neigh-
borhood, we have all the necessities
of life."
A NN was nearly home when she
heard the commotion. It was
coming through her opened win-
dows. The voices were loud and
excited. Something had happened!
She heard a chorus of what sounded
like screams, and she ran across the
lawn and up the porch steps two
ROOM IN HER HEART
237
at a time and pulled open the front
door.
"Mother!" Jill shouted. "Oh,
Mother, I'm so glad you're home.
The baby. . . ."
"What is it? What's happened?
Where's Daddy?" Then, as Ann
glanced from one face to another,
she could see the twinkling eyes and
wide smiles.
"Daddy had to go help Uncle Bill
administer to Aunt Elaine. She's
having another one of her nervous
spells," said Jill. "But, Mamma,
the baby. . . ."
"What about the babv? She looks
J
all right to me." And Ann stooped
over and picked Sue up from the
middle of the floor.
"Oh, she's all right," Tom said.
uShes been walking."
"Walking? Why, you little ras-
cal." Ann was a little saddened that
she hadn't seen her very first steps.
"Imagine," said Jill. "She's walk-
ing at last. I was beginning to be
embarrassed. Jane's little brother
is only ten months old, and he's
been walking for simply ages."
"Mom," said Tom, "look how big
she's getting to be."
"Yes," said Jill, a little wistfully.
"Gee, soon we won't have a baby
any more."
Ann couldn't speak. Her throat
was all lumpy inside.
That night after the family prayer
had been said, Ann gave each of her
children a special hug and tucked
them in their beds, then went to
the living room to wait for Vern.
She knew he wouldn't be home
for a little while yet. Sometimes
these sessions with his sister lasted
until quite late.
Ann was glad that there had been
so much excitement about Sue's
new accomplishment this evening.
The children had forgotten to ask
their questions. Now she could tell
Vern first. She knew that when he
came home he would say his usual,
"Honey, we are so blessed! I feel
so sorry for Elaine and Bill. I wish
they could have a baby, or would
adopt one." And Ann planned to
ask in a teasing tone, "Shall we give
them our new one when it gets
here?"
He would look bewildered, then
surprised, then he would hold her
tight and say, "No, sir. There is
always room at our house for one
more."
Ann leaned back against the soft-
ness of the couch. Things had as-
sumed their right perspective now.
She knew she could make her an-
nouncement with joy and pride.
Special QJeature for the fyuly ig6o 1 1 lagazine
A special surprise feature will be presented in the July i960 issue of
The Relief Society Magazine. This feature will have practical and artistic
appeal for all Relief Society women. Watch for the July Magazine and be
sure that your subscription is up to date so that you will not miss this
special feature issue.
Sixty L/ears ^yigo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, April 1, and April 15, 1900
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
of All Nations"
RESULTS OF THE REVOLUTION: This momentous occurrence produced the
most perfect basis upon which to build a bencficicnt governmental superstructure —
the American Constitution. It has no counterpart in human affairs. It provides to
the individual citizen the fullest possible freedom, the most ample personal protection
and the complete security of legal property possession. It is the basic guaranty of
exact equality before the law, without classified distinctions. Hence the American na-
tion is composed of the most independent and, therefore, the most strongly individual-
ized race on the face of the earth today, with a record of progress that has no paral-
lel
— Mabelle Snow
THOMAS JEFFERSON: His personal appearance ... is described as six feet
two inches in height, slim, erect as an arrow, with regular features, a very ruddy com-
plexion, an extremely delicate skin, full, deep-set hazel eyes and sandy hair. He was
more a student than athlete, yet he possessed a passionate love of nature and took the
greatest delight in horsemanship. Though an ardent student, he was not necessarily a
bookworm, but, on the contrary, was fond of society. He was an expert musician, the
violin being his favorite instrument, was a good dancer and a daring rider. ... As
Thomas Jefferson's home-life was ideal and a beautiful example to young America, far
more so was his public career ... for forty years he served his country. ... As a
statesman Jefferson was unequalcd. . . .
— Annie W. Cannon
TO MRS. M. ISABELLA HORNE
A life replete with brave and noble deeds,
Wrought in sweet patience and humility,
With loving thought for all humanity,
And that which ev'ry living creature needs.
Eighty and one, long years, how strange it seems
That you should see so many wondrous things. . . .
Through youth and wedded life, and widowhood. . . .
And toil and labor, all the time for good. . . .
— Emmelinc B. Wells
RELIEF SOCIETY ANNIVERSARY IN THE SEVENTEENTH WARD,
SALT LAKE CITY:
The Seventeenth Ward Relief Society celebrated anniversary day March 17,
Saturday evening in the ward hall, President Clarissa S. Williams presiding . . . some
exquisite hymns were rendered, beside the sacred songs. . . . Sister B. W. Smith, one
of the presidents of the General Board, gave a verbal sketch of the first Relief Society
organized in Nauvoo and of its officers and work. At the close of Sister Smith's address,
a neat little girl in white came forward and presented her with an elegant bouquet of
choice flowers. Sister Julia C. Howe, who had been connected with the ward since its
organization, read a sketch of the Relief Society in that ward. . . . The secretary, Mrs.
C. F. Wilcox read a . . . paper on the life and labors of "Aunt Zina," and the possi-
bilities of the Society, and paid a beautiful tribute to Aunt Zina, and her magnanimity
of character in all departments of life. . . .
— Editorial
Page 238
Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
Q
UEEN ELIZABETH II of
Great Britain gave birth to a
baby boy February 19th. This is
the first time in 103 years a child
has been born to a reigning British
monarch. Prince Charles and
Princess Anne were born before
their mother's ascension to the
throne.
"jyTISS ELEANOR M. JOHN-
SON has become a power in
American education. Director of
Elementary School Services, Wes-
leyan University, Middletown, Con-
necticut, she long served as Edi-
torial Director for the American
Educational Press. She became re-
sponsible for a variety of weekly
publications for schools and also
My Weekly Surprise, a picture
newspaper for the pre-school child.
She has authored and directed the
development of several series of
widely used textbooks.
A/T RS. MARGARET RUSSELL'S
second story 'The Cup"
appeared in the March Ladies'
Home Journal. Her first was
"String of Pearls." Mrs. Russell
teaches the literature lessons in the
North Twentieth Ward, Ensign
Stake Relief Society, Salt Lake City,
Utah. She is the mother of seven
children.
BEGINNING March 27, i960, a
six-day White House Confer-
ence was held in Washington,
D.C., in the interests of children,
youth, and better family and com-
munity relations. This was the
sixth such national convention.
They represent a great development
in America's social conscience, re-
sulting in improved legislation and
organization of public and private
social services. In 1909 the em-
phasis was on home-finding for
dependent children — many thou-
sands of them — and breaking up
large institutions for child care into
small, cottage-type units, more like
homes. In 1919 specialists in child
welfare, education, pediatrics, and
public health drafted a statement
of minimum standards for child em-
ployment, maternal and child
health, and child protection. In
1930, 1200 experts prepared reports
on subjects which included pre-
natal care, communicable disease
control, parent education, vocational
guidance, recreation, the handi-
capped, and delinquency. In 1940
democracy was the theme: the
economic challenge to democracy;
self-respect, self-reliance, and a co-
operative attitude necessary to
democracy; the family the "thres-
hold of democracy"; the waning of
the family's acceptance of responsi-
bility for its own children. The
1950 theme was discovering the
ingredients of a healthy personality.
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 47
APRIL 1960
NO. 4
cJhey Shall Speak vi/ith Hew cJo agues
(^)N a morning in early spring a
farm woman who lived in the
bleak hills of a western desert
walked to the mouth of a canyon to
see what appeared to her to be a
miracle. She saw a stream of pure
water breaking from a snowbank—
and only a short distance down the
hill the wild yellow violets blos-
somed in splendor against the gray
rocks. Spring had come and hope
had come, and sunshine blessed the
land. The woman felt joy and
gratitude in the turning of the sea-
sonal cycle that had brought the
springtime back again. It was the
restoration of promise and the re-
newing of the Heavenly Father's
lasting covenant with earth.
To all women whose hearts are
made glad with springtime there
comes again the message of the
holy scriptures and the precious
words that bring the undeniable
solace and hope of the teachings of
the Savior. For among the believ-
ers in the land of Palestine were
many faithful women "which fol-
lowed Jesus from Galilee, minister-
ing unto him."
First at the opened tomb were
the women of Easter. They were
the first to hear the immortal words
that fell as everlasting sunlight
against the darkness of the sepul-
chre: "He is not here: for he is
risen, as he said. Come, see the
place where the Lord lay."
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To women — first — wras the
message given — to women who had
followed the Christ along his earthly
pathway, rejoicing in his gospel and
seeking for understanding of his
words which opened for them the
wide doors of a belief in life eternal.
How glorious are the words of
Easter, crystal clear as brooks leap-
ing over stones, deeper than pools
of water, and more vibrant than
fountains in a season of rain— the
words witnessing the resurrection of
Jesus, and the consequent arising
in the time of promise, of all who
had ever lived upon the earth and
those who were yet to make the
journey in mortality. It is of great
moment that women the world
over, in every age and generation,
should contemplate the significance
of that eternal message.
The words came not without a re-
sponsibility to those who heard the
voice of the angel — or to those
women following in later eras of the
gospel light: ". . . go quickly, and
tell his disciples that he is risen from
the dead; and, behold, he goes be-
fore you into Galilee; there shall ye
see him . . . And they departed
quickly from the sepulchre . . . and
did run to bring the disciples word."
Thus the women of Easter be-
came couriers and messengers of
the word. Light upon the stone
paths were their feet, and glad their
EDITORIAL
241
hearts to carry the message of the
resurrection. It is not strange, then,
that women have been in times past,
and are today privileged to rejoice
in the glad tidings—". . . go tell my
brethren. . . . All power is given
unto me in heaven and in earth . . .
and lo, I am with you alway, even
unto the end of the world . . ." (Mt.
28:10, 18-20).
Then, shall we not as women in
the beloved sisterhood, accept with
rejoicing our privilege of earth life,
enduring with courage our trials and
disappointments, placing a resplend-
ent faith in the Savior's promise of
eternal life? Shall we not rise above
the stones and the troubles that
beset us, and greet each day even as
the women of Easter lifted their
radiant faces on that morning long
ago from those dark hills round-
about Jerusalem?
-V. P. C.
Mt 8
aster
Ouida Johns Pedeisen
Along the dark path Mary carried spice
And ointment, sweet and fragrant in her hand.
Seeking to do some small service there,
She sought the tomb across the morning land.
Perhaps she knew, as women know, that grief
May be assuaged in service, that the call
Of human need can bring a sweet relief
When faithful hands are busied with a task.
As sunrise rimmed the hills her eyes beheld
The open sepulchre. She stood in sudden fright
Before the angel, yet she stayed to hear
His message spoken in the growing light.
From tombs of grief the stones were rolled away
Eternally. To all the world was given
Joy, when, trembling in amazement, Mary heard
"He is not here — he is risen — he is risen!"
tylabHu TO THE FIELD
iurignam LJoung dniversity \z)n-(^ampus
^Leadership week
June 4-9, i960 — 37th Annual Festival of Learning
"A LAND OF PROMISE"
The welcoming doors of Brigham Young University will again open to the guests
of Leadership Week June 4-9 of i960. Each year the Relief Society members have
found the events of Leadership Week most interesting, enjoyable, and of great help in
their year's program. The General Board would like to direct the attention of the
members of the Relief Society to the following classes, along with many others, which
will be of great value to Relief Society women:
Historical Background of Relief Society Theology Lessons
Relief Society Theology Lessons — The Doctrine and Covenants
Relief Society Social Science Lessons — Spiritual Living in the Nuclear Age
Relief Society Literature Lessons — American Literature Comes of Age
Teaching Helps
Music Helps
Audio-Visual Helps — Teaching Materials for Relief Society
Storytelling, Poetry, and Dramatization
Work Day Ideas — Arts and Crafts for Teachers of Adults
(Including workshops)
Family Nights
Teaching Discipline to Healthy Children
Kitchen Planning
Drapery and Lampshade Construction
Community Meal Service
Handling the Family Income
Understanding Your Child
Foundations of Health in the Family
Methods of Caring for the Sick in the Home
Foundations of Testimony
Elder Roy W. Doxey, author of the theology lessons for the coming year, will teach
the course on the Doctrine and Covenants; Elder Briant S. Jacobs, author of the Relief
Society literature lessons, will teach the classes in American Literature Comes of Age;
Elder Blaine M. Porter, author of the social science lessons, will teach a course in
Spiritual Living in the Nuclear Age; and Elder Ivan J. Barrett will teach the course in
the Historical Background of Relief Society Theology Lessons.
Detailed programs and registration cards may be obtained by writing to or calling
in at the Brigham Young University Adult Education Services in Provo, Utah.
The information and teachings given at Leadership Week do not substitute for
the official Relief Society instructions, but the material is most beneficial as it supple-
ments and enhances understandings.
Leadership week programs at the following times and places will be announced
later:
Ogden, Utah June 20-22
Salt Lake City, Utah June 27 - July 1
Southern California August 22-26
Northern California August 29-Sept. 2
Rexburg, Idaho November 9-11
Arizona December 28-31
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JLesson [Previews to Jxppear in the yune tissue
of ofhe [Relief Society II Lagaztne
npHE previews for the 1960-61 lessons will appear in the June issue of
The Relief Society Magazine, and the lessons for October will be in
the July i960 issue. In order to obtain the June issue of the Magazine,
it will be necessary for renewals and new subscriptions to reach the general
offices by the first of May i960. It is suggested that Magazine representa-
tives check their lists immediately so that all Relief Society members will
receive all of the issues containing the lessons. Ward presidents, also,
should make this announcement in the April meetings.
C/he vUtdentnq Circle
Charlotte R. Leyden
Associate Director, Public Education
American Cancer Society, Inc.
T^HE widening circle made by a pebble in a lake always reaches the outer
edges. If it's a large lake it takes longer than if it's a small lake. If
you dropped a pebble from a boat into the center of Lake Michigan you
might never witness the moment when the widening circle meets the
shoreline. But you know for a fact that it will.
Not all of us may live to see cancer conquered. . . . The concensus
of scientists is that cancer will be conquered just as were other once dread
diseases, such as tuberculosis, pneumonia, and polio. The question is
no longer ii, but when.
There are many doctors in practice today who remember the time
when there was no ii about it, when the outlook for the average cancer
patient was death and disaster. That was when a small group of men and
women dropped a pebble of hope into the dark, seemingly impenetrable
depths of the cancer problem. Slowly it spread into what has now become
a vast life-saving network of research, service, and educational programs.
Independent volunteers built the American Cancer Society as their instru-
mentality for achieving cancer control. The Society is a grass roots organ-
ization which belongs to its 2,000,000 volunteers, working in fifty states.
They raise the funds, they set the policies, they do the chores that each
year help save the lives of 165,000 men, women, and children cancer
patients. . . .
In many areas informative films for group showing may be obtained
from local organizations of the American Cancer Society.
One million living Americans cured of cancer bear witness to the
success of these efforts. In April the Cancer Crusade will give you a chance
to drop a pebble with a dollar sign into the widening circle of hope for
every cancer patient in America. . . .
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LKectpes Qjrom the west (central States 1 1 Ltssion
Submitted by Anna C. Merrill
Huckleberry Dessert
i c. sugar
2 tbsp. butter
1 egg, beaten
i tsp. baking powder, sifted with
i c. flour and pinch of salt
3 c. ripe huckleberries, washed
4 c. sugar,
or nutmeg
mixed with cinnamon
Mix in order given, stir in huckleberries. Spread in greased cake pan, 8" x 10".
Sprinkle top with Vz cup sugar mixed with cinnamon or nutmeg. Bake 25 or 30 min-
utes in 400 degree oven or until brown and crusty. May be served with cream, whipped
cream, or lemon butter sauce. Serves four.
Beef in Sour Cream
3 lbs. lean stewing beef
3 tbsp. fat
5 large onions
2 c. sour cream
Vz tsp. oregano
1 tsp. salt
Cut beef in chunks suitable for serving. Roll in flour and brown in fat. Remove
to baking dish. Slice onions thinly and brown in remaining fat. Add sour cream and
seasonings. Cover and bake in 3000 oven for 2 hours or until tender. Serves 8.
Banana Drops
2 Vz c. flour
2 tsp. baking powder
Vz tsp. salt
!4 tsp. soda
% c. shortening
1 c. sugar
2 eggs
Vz tsp. vanilla
1 c. chocolate drops or chips
1 c. mashed bananas
Mix as for standard cookie recipe. Drop by teaspoons on greased cookie sheet.
Bake at 4000 for 10 to 12 minutes. Yield: 6 dozen.
XA c. shortening
1 c. brown sugar
2 eggs
1 tsp. baking powder
Butterscotch Brownies
3A c. flour
Vz tsp. salt
Vz tsp. vanilla
Vz c nuts
Mix as for standard cookie recipe. Bake at 3500 for 20 to 25 minutes in 8-inch
square pan.
Barbecued Venison
Use round, T-bone, or other cut of steak. Sauce is for approximately four servings.
Sauce:
% c. catsup
3 tbsp. mustard
1 tsp. Worcestershire sauce
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salt, pepper to taste
(onion salt if desired)
% c. water
RECIPES FROM THE WEST CENTRAL STATES MISSION 245
Combine all ingredients in the order given to make bar-b-que paste. Place meat
in greased baking dish. Spread prepared paste over meat. Add small amount of
water to bottom of pan to keep meat moist. Cover and bake at 3500 for 1/4 hours
or longer, depending on tenderness of meat. Add water if needed.
Roast Pheasant
1 pheasant 1 tsp. salt
1 qt. boiling water % tsp. pepper
3 stalks celery 4 strips bacon
1 onion 1 c. water
Clean pheasant, place in pan, and pour boiling water over bird and into cavity.
Place celery and onion in bird. Do not sew up. Rub bird with salt and pepper. Place
in roasting pan and place the bacon strips over breast. Add the 1 c. of water and roast in
moderate oven (3500 F) uncovered for 2 hours or until tender.
Wild Duck
1 duck 3 strips bacon
1 stalk celery 2 tbsp. bacon drippings
J/4 apple salt and pepper to taste
1 onion
Clean duck and soak in strong salt water 2 or 3 hours. Remove from water and
dry well. In cavity of duck place celery stalk, apple, and onion. Season outside of bird
with salt and pepper. Fasten strips of bacon across the breast of bird with toothpicks.
Place duck, breast side down, in uncovered roasting pan. Add bacon drippings. Roast
at 3750 F. until it begins to sizzle and turn brown. Place lid on, and reduce tempera-
ture of oven to 300 ° F. Baste every 20 minutes and roast for 3 hours. During last half
hour remove cover and turn duck so breast will brown.
De Luxe Hot Cakes
3 c. unsifted whole -wheat flour 2 egg yolks
1 tbsp. baking powder iVi c. whole milk
% tsp. salt 3 tbsp. oil
3 tbsp. honey 2 egg whites, beaten
Combine in order given, folding in beaten egg whites last. Bake on lightly
greased hot griddle. These are really light and tasty.
Pan Cakes, Chuck Wagon Style
6 slices bacon 2 c. flour
Vs c. cooked bacon fat 4 tsp. baking powder
2 eggs 1 tsp. salt
2 c. milk !4 c. sugar
Chop bacon and brown lightly. Set aside while fat cools. Sift flour, baking pow-
der, sugar, and salt together. Beat eggs, stir in milk and cooled bacon fat. Add dry
ingredients. Beat to a smooth batter. Makes about twenty 3-inch cakes. Cook on
hot griddle.
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Doughnuts
2 eggs, beaten Vi tsp. soda
1 c. sugar l Vi tsp. baking powder
2 tbsp. oil i tsp. salt
l c. sour milk or buttermilk i tsp. nutmeg
4 c. sifted whole-wheat flour Vi tsp. cinnamon
Combine beaten eggs, sugar, and oil. Add sour milk or buttermilk and beat. Sift
dry ingredients together twice and add to first mixture and beat well. Knead for
Vi minute. Roll to V& " thickness, cut, and fry in deep fat.
Prune Cake
i Vi c. sugar i tsp. cinnamon
2 Vi c. flour i tsp. nutmeg
3 tsp. baking powder % tsp. cloves
Vi tsp. salt Vi tsp. allspice
Mix well in a large bowl, then add:
3 eggs l tsp. vanilla
Vi c. chopped nuts Vi c. shortening
l c. prunes (cooked, cooled, pitted,
and add juice)
Beat until smooth, about 4 minutes. Bake at 3500 for 45 to 50 minutes.
Easy Caramel Icing
1 Vz c. brown sugar 2 tbsp. butter
lA c. top milk 1 tsp. vanilla
Mix in saucepan, bring to boil, and boil for 3 minutes, stirring constantly. Remove
from heat, add vanilla, beat until thick and creamy enough to spread. Add a little
cream if needed to spread.
Vi/dd I Homing (glories
Ethel lacobson
Colors run riot
Over the plain!
Here like a purple
Hurricane
The morning-glory
Armies sweep
Till we walk in glory
Ankle-deep,
Where a myriad tiny
Trumpets blare
Triumphant paeans
On April air!
To Die Before Thy Time
Helen Bay Gibbons
MARY Sheridan was smiling
as she hung up the tele-
phone. It was easy to break
that appointment, she thought. I'd
better call Martha again right away
—she is so insistent, and the lunch-
eon does sound tempting.
For a moment she glanced out-
side at her flower bed, neat and
colorful behind the billowy, white
Priscilla curtains. Mary took great
pride in her excellent housekeeping.
She enjoyed creating for her hus-
band and children the peace and
comfort of a clean, uncluttered
home. Her eyes surveyed the shiny
kitchen, and discovered in the cor-
ner a small boy's Cub Scout cap,
carelessly crumpled.
"Oh, clear, I forgot about Jamie's
scout program this afternoon." She
tapped her toe impatiently. "Well,
it isn't very important. Jamie will
understand about the luncheon,"
she reassured her sinking spirits.
Remembering the Cub Scout com-
mitment really troubled Mary, for
she was a conscientious person, but
deliberately pushing aside her mis-
givings, she raised the telephone.
That's when she heard the voices.
Her startled senses suddenly became
aware of an unexpected conversa-
tion.
"Who else is coming in to see Dr.
Sterling today, Sue?"
"Not too many patients. A Mrs.
Mary Sheridan just called and
changed her late afternoon appoint-
ment to Friday."
Manv blocks away, Marv listened
silently. She was a very proper per-
son who usually wouldn't dream of
eavesdropping, but hearing her own
name mentioned, curiosity con-
quered. She held the receiver
quietly — straining to hear the muf-
fled voices of her doctor's nurse and
receptionist amid the background of
doctor's office noises. Apparently
no one there had noticed the tele-
phone ajar on its cradle, and the
earlier connection with Mary's line
remained unbroken.
"Mary Sheridan!" she heard the
nurse exclaim. "Did you check
with Dr. Sterling to see if it would
be all right to postpone the ap-
pointment?"
"No. I thought it was just a rou-
tine matter. Is it important?"
"I don't know for sure. Dr. Sterl-
ing had asked Mrs. Sheridan to
come back today so that he could
discuss with her the results of the
tests we ran. Where are the lab
reports?"
Mary sat stiff and attentive. She
heard the rustle of shuffled papers,
and a comment or two that she just
could not make out. Then she
heard the nurse exclaim, quite clear-
lv:
"Oh, dear. This is a bad one!"
"What do you mean?"
"I'm not an expert at assessing lab
reports, but see what it says: 'evi-
dence of widespread malignancy.'
It's sad when a case like this occurs.
I don't envy Dr. Sterling. Of course,
he'll check and double-check, run
more tests, and do all that he can,
but when his efforts fail, he must
face the patient. It must be ter-
ribly difficult to tell a woman that
she has only a few months left to
live."
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A/TARY felt a heavy agony begin
to grow inside her.
"Only a few months left to live."
Her shocked mind repeated the
phrase over and over. Its chilling
force paralyzed her muscles and
she sat with the telephone frozen in
her grip, totally unconscious of the
click of the other receiver, and the
buzz of the dial tone.
"It isn't true — I don't believe
it," Mary cried aloud at last. But
even as her ears heard the words,
she realized that she did, too, be-
lieve it. A fear of just this sort of
thing had taken her to Dr. Ster-
ling's office in the first place. She
put down the telephone, buried her
face in her arm and wept.
She cried only a short time, how-
ever, for Mary Sheridan had never
been inclined to hide from realitv.
Always, when something went
wrong, or when something had to
be done, she had gone to work with
a kind of aggressive energy to re-
solve her problems. Now that the
first force of the shock was receding
a bit, her mind probed urgently in-
ward, and she began dispassionately
examining her own soul. What was
to be done? She tried to weigh her
strengths and weaknesses just as she
might have inspected the items in
her daughter's back-to-school ward-
robe.
"Here I am," she finally admitted
to herself, "just another middle-aged
matron with a somewhat dusty
mind and well-polished furniture. I
have carefully cultivated my flower
garden, and neglected my character.
I live with my drab spirit in a lovely,
cheerful house."
"How did it happen?" she kept
asking herself. "Dear, generous Dan
works overtime to buy the things I
want, and we are all too busv to
have much time together. Oh,
Jamie and Louise, how I've neglect-
ed you."
It did not take long for Mary to
realize that there was much to do.
And being very conscientious, she
wiped away her tears, rose to her
feet, and began to rearrange her way
of life.
# -if. -if. If. Sf
""VTOW, boys," said the den
mother, Mrs. Whitney, "will
you please stand, one at a time, and
introduce your guests. Mothers,
welcome to our Cub Scout party."
Mary Sheridan sat very straight
in her chair, resisting the urge to
hug Jamie and his scrubbed freckles.
No need to embarrass him in front
of his friends. There was a certain
manliness about him, but Mary
could still see in him the baby son
she had held in her arms such a
short time ago. A big grin kept
popping out all over his face, and
his head bobbed around excitedly.
He was so lovably like Dan, big,
exuberant, and perpetually in mo-
tion. As Mary glanced at Jamie,
she remembered uncomfortably the
snowman they had not had time to
make, the hike in the canyon that
would have made them too dirty,
and the noisy friends that were too
unruly to invite into the house.
"Boy, that was a real neat party,
wasn't it, Mom!" Jamie burst out
on the way home.
"Yes, it was, son, and I'm glad
you invited me."
As usual, Louise burst into the
house breathlessly. "Mom, the kids
are waiting outside for me. May I
go over to Janet's rumpus room.
She has some dreamy new records."
"Hi, honey," Mary answered
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249
breezily, "run along, but be home
in time for dinner. Why don't you
get the crowd together here for a
platter party sometime soon? We
could roll back the rugs and dance,
if you like."
Louise had an expression on her
face like Christmas morning, as she
dashed out. Mary's face looked lit
up, also. Perhaps it was the reflec-
tion of the afternoon sun.
VVTHEN Dan saw the living room,
his concern was very evident.
''Mary, what's happened to your ex-
pensive new love seat that was de-
livered yesterday?"
Mary's smile was warm and af-
fectionate. "I sent it back to the
store and cancelled the order for
the other pieces. Here is the re-
fund check."
"But, honey," her bewildered hus-
band frowned, "I thought you liked
the new furniture."
"Oh, this old couch is much more
comfortable," his wife reassured
him, "and besides, we need lots of
things more than a new love seat —
like dinner now, for instance. Later,
let's hold a family council. I've a
few suggestions — about taking a
hike Saturday instead of working in
the yard. This beautiful weather is
too good to waste."
Dan still looked puzzled, but smil-
ing at the aroma of steak and onions,
and patting the refund check in his
pocket, he accepted the new atmos-
phere uncomplainingly.
Later that night, lying awake in
the moon-drenched bedroom, Mary
drank in deeply of the refreshing air
of evening, and watched the familiar
face of her husband relax into sleep.
She knew that Dan had sensed
something was different, but Mary
had made it safely through without
revealing her secret.
Wonderful Dan — always so kind
and good. She remembered the day
they married, promising each other,
"We'll make our lives really mean
something." Hungrily, her eyes took
in every beloved detail of her hus-
band's appearance — his broad,
muscled shoulders and strong,
square hands, the funny wrinkles
around his eyes.
"It's almost too late, Dan," she
whispered, "almost, but not quite."
She fell asleep thinking of the
freckled grin of a small boy, and
the joy in a teen-aged daughter's
lovely eyes.
T^HAT was the way the days
passed until Friday. The chil-
dren hurried home from school to
a mother with time to welcome and
listen to them. Dan, refreshed by
the thought of the sizable refund
check deposited in the bank, seemed
more relaxed and secure. He seemed
to find more time to spend with his
family. Mary, marking and savor-
ing every hour as it passed, knew
that she must go on Friday to see
Dr. Sterling and hear from him
what amounted to her death sen-
tence — the penalty which disease
had placed upon her.
"Dr. Sterling will see you now,
Mrs. Sheridan." The nurse's voice,
clipped and formal, sounded strange-
ly like doom to Mary. She shud-
dered slightly, but squared her
shoulders as she walked down the
hallway.
Dr. Sterling was examining a
paper as she came in. It was the
lab report, no doubt. At least, it
would be a relief to know just what
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she might expect. In any case,
Mary thought, I'll appreciate the
davs that remain.
"Mrs. Sheridan," Dr. Sterling
greeted her cordially, rising and ex-
tending his hand. "How are you
today? Won't you be seated."
"Please don't think me abrupt,
Doctor," Mary said, sitting nervous-
ly on the edge of the chair, "but I
am anxious to know the truth."
"Well, that will be easy. We find
only a small benign tumor, easy to
remove. Otherwise, you are in fine
health."
Mary looked at him suspiciously,
struggling to hide the quaver in her
voice, "Please don't be afraid to tell
me what you really found. You
see, I overheard your nurse. I al-
ready know what is on the lab re-
port."
"Well, Mrs. Sheridan," Dr. Ster-
ling smiled as he spoke, "you
obviously overheard the wrong lab
report. You are the fortunate one
— another of my patients is not so
blessed with good health. All that
we must do now is make a date for
taking care of that tumor."
sjc jj: # # jjs
The afternoon sunshine was bril-
liant in its happy blue sky. The
flowers smiled gaily. Mary missed
nothing of the sights and sounds of
the city streets, the earth, the sky
and the people around her as she
hurried home to continue her new-
planned life with her husband and
children.
1 1 Lasterptece
Viola Quinn Wi/Jmore
Blushing pink, fluffy white, and cerulean blue,
Orange, mauve, and cerise in loud or muted hue;
Purple, gray, and harvest gold —
What artist dares to paint so bold?
And yet in the evening to the West there lies
This panorama in Dakota skies.
■ ♦ ■
(^osmetics for (grandma
Esther H. Lamb
nnHE day had been long, warm, and work-laden. I sat, grateful for a moment on the
* cool stone of the front porch, glad for the sound barrier the house provided
between me and the half dozen lusty-voiced grandchildren playing on the back lawn.
All day they had performed like monkeys on strings, each set in motion by his own
animated need for action.
"I am weary to the bone" I told myself. I would be glad when night folded them
in its quietness.
Suddenly the back yard war changed its battlefield. All the generals hurled their
forces past me in frenzied pursuit of imaginary foes.
Five-year-old Scott, the wildest lieutenant ever to go into action, broke ranks,
leaned toward me and pressed sweet lips briefly against my cheek, and charged away.
He never guessed the tingling wave of renewal that his caress had spread across my
face, to lodge with restfulness in my heart.
[Planters for the LPatto
Eva. Willes Wangsgaard
ONE of the surest ways to in-
crease the outdoorsy feeling
of the patio and tie it to the
garden is by means of planters.
So containers become of basic in-
terest — what size, what shape,
where and how to obtain them?
I made mine and collected Ori-
ental kegs to add to them. The
Japanese grocers import native foods
for their customers. Soy bean
sauce, pickled plums, etc. arrive in
wooden kegs of a delightfully
artistic design. They are made of
hardwood staves with bamboo
rounds. Removing the paper la-
bels, sanding off the print, and
applying a coat of spar varnish is a
very small task, and you have a
beautiful jardiniere, or with a brace
and bit, you can bore drainage holes
and have a practical planter that
will enhance the beauty of any ar-
rangement. Since the kegs are made
of wood, if they are used as jar-
dinieres, they need periodic soak-
ing to prevent shrinkage and falling
apart. But as planters, the watering
of the plants keeps the staves moist
and tight.
The goods boxes which carry the
canned goods in from the Orient
are another source of planter ma-
terial. These may be obtained
through the Japanese grocers for a
few cents each. They take redwood
stain well, and, being hardwood,
make particularly serviceable con-
tainers. One box sawed in half
lengthwise will make two planters.
The lids provide the material for
filling in the open side. If the lids
are not available, two boxes will
make three planters 7" x 10" x 20",
which may be finished in two
shapes — depending on whether
you use the 7" side for the bottom
or the 10" side. This is determined
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"by the space it has to fit, and also,
by what the intended planting is.
The shallow, wider box is a satis-
factory petunia and shallow-rooted
plant container. The deeper box
serves well for geraniums and coleus
plants.
In making containers of wood,
one must keep in mind the fact that
wood swells when wet and may
warp out of shape. This warping
is controlled by binding the bottom
and sides around both end pieces
with strips of metal. For this one
can use the metal strips that come
off peat moss bails and similar
sources, but, usually, I use brass
weather-stripping because it is just
as binding and is ornamental as
well. When inch-wide stripping
was all I could purchase, I split it
lengthwise with the garden shears
with little resistance. An addition-
al binding around the middle with
full-width weather-stripping makes
a good decoration.
A NOTHER source of material is
the redwood pieces discarded
in the kindling piles at the local
lumber yards. Also, it pays to buy
redwood by the foot and make your
own designs, because in that way
you can fit the size and shape of
the planter to your requirements.
I had mine cut to measure at the
planing mill and put them together
with small finishing nails. The
least expensive material is the un-
finished redwood used for basket-
weave fences. It has a pleasing,
rough texture. For other spots you
might prefer the finished redwood.
You can buy it in a number of
widths and thicknesses, and, cut to
measure, the finishing of the boxes
is a simple, pleasant job.
Except for the kegs, most plant-
ers, of whatever wood they are
made, look better and give longer
service if they are given two coats
of redwood finish "three-in-one,"
which stains, seals, and waxes in one
application.
My patio contains two house
windows. I leveled my sills with a
piece of 2" x 8" redwood beveled
on the underside to fit the slope and
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secured to the widowframe with
angle braces. Around this slab, and
protruding one half-inch above the
surface, I nailed a wide strip of
weather-stripping which serves as a
lip to prevent slipping of window
boxes and as an ornament. Win-
dow boxes trimmed with redwood
bark and planted with Madeira
vines make a picture of the windows
and soften the severity of the fire-
brick walls.
Carrying out the theme in the
garden, the fifteen-feet circle, which
is my iris garden, is only foliage
from June on. To fill this space
with color, depth, and interest,
planters and stands proved an
aesthetic answer. Large boxes
10" x 10" x 27" filled with May-
time petunias, and resting on iron
stands, backed by taller merchan-
dise-display stands, loaded with
tiers of planters filled with Pink
Wizard petunias, which carried out
both depth and height to the color
picture, carry summer color out,
up, and back to the background of
Persian lilacs. A nail keg, cut wide
at the mouth and bearing a rich
redwood coat, holds a growing
bouquet of dwarf dahlias and fills
the center spot.
Each year teaches me a little
more about color effects and tim-
ing, but I key my whole garden
color scheme to the phlox which, in
this locality, are at their height in
patio season. A planting of City
of Portland (melon pink) cannas
is lovely in an Oriental keg with
lower-growing related plants such
as chin-cher-chin-chee or gladioli
blooming around them.
The small boxes that fit the
flower cart are made of cut-to-meas-
ure finished redwood and planted
with coleus, geraniums, and fibrous
begonias.
To keep planters off the floor and
allow drainage, which is provided
for by bored holes, I use rubber-
headed furniture protector pins or
rubber caster cups nailed on upside
down.
Planters frequently need moving
for convenience or for obtaining
sun and shade as required for plant
growth. This chore is made simple
by use of a few homemade dollies.
One wide board cut the proper
length for fitting the planter, re-
enforced by a cross piece at either
end, is made mobile by screwing
casters to the cross pieces, one in
each corner. If no wide wood is
available, the crosspieces make it
easy to hold narrower lumber to-
gether. Homemade dollies have
two advantages over commercial
ones, they cost less and can be
made to fit the need. The casters
of the type that screw to the bottom
of things can be bought at most
hardware stores for a reasonable
price.
cJhtrteen JJon ts tn Sewing for a iuest- Jjressed you
Wilma M. Rich
uVOU always look as if you had
stepped straight from the
pages of Vogue!" my neighbor re-
flected aloud one day. "How do
you do it?"
"By sewing all my own clothes,"
I answered simply.
With a wail close to tears, she
asked, "But how? I sew, too, but
I come closer to looking as if I've
splurged at a third-rate rummage
sale instead. What makes the dif-
ference?"
What does make the difference?
Expensive materials? Four hundred
dollar sewing machines? Extensive
sewing courses? Or just taking a
few specific pains and double check-
ing?
Speaking from experience, Fve
discovered that good quality ma-
terial and a smooth-running ma-
chine do help, as do hours of
experience and learning; but the big
thing that makes the big difference
is learning to eliminate a few simple
mistakes.
Mistakes most often made by
beginners as well as experienced
seamstresses can be wiped quickly
and easily from the slate and thus
save frustrated tears and chucked
away, half-finished clothes. But
how?
Well, to explain easily, let me list
the "don'ts" to watch out for and
leave the "do's" to the pattern you
choose to create with.
First of all, I'll generalize with
one tremendous don't that briefly
overheads all smaller ones: Don't
shortcut!
The others follow and are all of
importance.
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1. Don't begin your article until you are
completely familiar with your pattern,
material, and sewing machine. If you do,
it is like putting your confidence in
numerous, strange business partners.
2. Don't underestimate the value of
markings on your pattern pieces. Use
them to full advantage. Having a dot or
a broken line to follow may save many
precious moments and stitches.
3. Don't choose at random the kind
of seam for your garment. Investigate
types of seams for different types of cloth-
ing and complement your article with the
best seam possible.
4. Don't feed material under the needle
too fast and turn out faulty, uneven seams.
Anyone can sew fast, but only an expert
can sew straight.
5. Don't leave seams unfinished or de-
pend entirely upon pinking shears for fin-
ishing seams. Leaving a seam unfinished
is like leaving a cake un-iced, and pinked
edges are only effective on certain mater-
ials. All materials fray; only finished
seams keep unruly threads intact.
6. Don't neglect to clip curves and trim
seams when the pattern calls for it. Care-
lessness may produce puckers and humps
and look very unattractive.
7. Don't fight "the battle of the bulge."
If bulges crop up in obvious profusion,
don't try to push or pry them out, the
result may be hazardous. Get to the base
of the problem and work it out deftly
from where the bulge begins.
8. Don't cover one mistake with an-
other. Two wrongs don't make a right.
Undo the first and the second will take
care of itself.
9. Don't scowl at and skip around the
word "baste" on a guide sheet. It is put
there for your benefit and will simplify
your job immensely. Take the extra time
that says you care.
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255
10. Don't tack by machine in conspicu-
ous places. It may spare you a moment,
but will cost you that fashion-lovely look
you desire.
11. Don't pull gathers haphazardly. The
tiny gathers determine the graceful curve
of a sleeve and the full, flaring drape of
a skirt. Make them precise.
12. Don't finger-press. Use an iron so
your seams, pleats, tabs, and plackets will
lie flat and even.
13. Above all, don't sew under stress.
An hour of mistakes may be avoided by a
twenty-minute relaxation break.
To sum up:
Don't take your sewing for grant-
ed. Take time, use care, and be
tolerant and patient. You'll discover
a whole new world of delight ahead
and an exquisite, fashion-fancy, new
you.
Untold (Pi
rornise
Vesta N. Fairbairn
Like an opening flower,
Like morning's dawnlight hour,
Like the unread page,
Like spring's first breath of sage,
Like untried chords and tone
Of a song, unsung, unknown,
Like mystery of earth
Is each year's joyous birth.
1 1 Loo might
Celia Luce
npHE night was a gusty one, with the sky almost covered with clouds. The moon
■* sailed behind the clouds, sending its light in a great glowing circle where the
clouds were thin, and peeking through tiny holes in the thicker clouds.
I watched with delight, but feared the display was about at an end. Ahead of the
moon was a dark cloud that looked as though it was so deep and black there would
be never a hole for the beauty of the moon to shine through.
The moon crept on behind the dark cloud, but her radiance kept finding thin
places and holes, and she went shining on. The cloud which had looked black and
forbidding was made golden and beautiful by the moon's presence.
There are times when life looks like the dark cloud. There doesn't seem to be
anything ahead but the deepest of gloom.
Then the wise person turns to the Lord in prayer. The light of God will shine
through the gloom and scatter beauty over the path ahead.
The light of the moon may not be fully appreciated on clear nights; but a few
clouds spread the glow and add immeasurably to the beauty.
We turn to God for help when the way ahead looks' dark, and our lives are richer,
more beautiful, for the clouds of sorrow we have seen.
LOo SJt LJ our self
Joy Huhne
THE do-it-yourself urge with
me is like yeast. Hidden
away in my being somewhere
are the tiny spores waiting for the
proper frame of mind to nourish
them. When a spark of thought
warms them, and they are fed the
sweet sugar of ambition, they begin
to ferment and grow within me
until I am filled with a bubbling
effervescence for action.
My husband Bill has choked
down sandwiches for dinner many a
time while he suffered through the
worst and hoped for the better. My
children have learned to make their
own beds or open a can of soup
for lunch in case of emergency.
( Emergency has a very liberal mean-
ing at our house.) But the person
who has needed the most under-
standing is my mother-in-law.
Some supersensitive instrument
must have been built into Bill's
mother for her to detect when the
yeast has come to a head, that she
can always pick the day of my latest
project to "drop in."
It is almost as uncanny that I
cannot predict her visits. I have
not yet figured out what pattern
they make on her closely followed
schedule of things to do. I can
predict a week, a month, or even
ten years in advance that come
Monday morning, she will wash.
Tuesday, rain, shine, or hurricane,
she will have the ironing finished
by ten o'clock. So it goes. She has
a time for everything. She never
has spring or fall housecleaning as
I do, when everything is turned ex-
citedly upside down for two weeks
and finally settled comfortably,
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cleanly back. Each dav she does
some of those extra cleaning chores.
She would never say on a fine spring
Monday, "I think I'll just sit under
the apricot tree and drink in the
deliciousness of the air." I could.
And, likely as not after studying the
pleasing shape and arrangement of
blossoms on the apricot bough, I
would think, wouldn't that make a
nice design for an etched aluminum
tray? I'd make a circle of my fing-
ers and, looking through it with one
eye closed, move it closer and farther
away from the flower-laden twig,
until I had determined the place-
ment of the spray in the design I
was already forming in my mind.
I really should make something for
Mary Jean Thomas' wedding, I
would think. And the bubbling was
started in my brain.
By afternoon I would be deep
into the project. The dishes would
still be in the sink and the floor lit-
tered with not quite perfect patterns
that lay where I had dropped them
in my zest to make a better one.
My fingernails would be black with
asphaltum, but on the tray the de-
sign would be painted in neat clean
lines. About the time I would hold
it up to admire the freshness of
spring I had caught, Bill's mother
would ring the bell, and I'm sorry
to say, she would not catch any
freshness of spring, but rather the
choke of turpentine, as she came
through the door.
T
HE truth is I wanted to feel that
way myself. My mother-in-law
was everything I'd like to have been
— calm, cool, collected. I yearned
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to be the competent master of my
fate that she was. But efficiency
was a conservative garment I wore
onlv occasionally. I still kept it well
pressed, hanging in the closet to
slip on at a moment's notice, hop-
ing for the chance to appear casually
clad in it when my mother-in-law
arrived; but I never had time to get
it on.
Last spring I thought I was cured
forever and ever of the do-it-your-
self business.
It started one morning as I lay
in bed and saw a cobweb hanging
from the ceiling. I looked around
for more and noticed, not for the
first time, the streaked green color
of the walls and the dark spots by
the light switch.
'This room needs painting/' I
said.
"Uh huh," agreed Bill who was
always affable when he wasn't quite
awake.
The idea was only a vague
thought. I could turn away from
it. Sometime later I got to the
mental game of choosing a color
scheme, and the day I saw the paint
sale at the hardware store, I knew
there was no turning back.
I don't like to paint at all, really,
so the thought was in my mind to
have Bill do it, although his unco-
operative idea about all do-it-your-
self projects was that they cost near-
ly as much as a professional job by
the time you had bought the tools;
that they didn't look so well; and
besides (and mostly) that they
were too much work.
I didn't ever really expect Bill to
do it, but just mentioning it was
part of the process. Sometimes it
took a good deal of impatience to
get the yeast-like action going.
After several days of hinting, I
finally said, "When are you going
to paint the bedroom?"
"You're not expecting me to do
it, are you?" he asked. That set-
tled that. Still I had had to elimi-
nate the possibility that he might
do it because I didn't want to,
either.
After that I took to measuring
the room with my eye and approxi-
mately the number of strokes with
the roller it would take to do each
wall. I assembled the tools and ma-
terials needed so nothing would
slow me down once I got that urge
to get the job done. Still no urge.
The yeast was getting old.
It was one Monday morning,
after a particularly peaceful week
end, that my eyes swept the room
with a new speed. The size of the
walls diminished under my gaze,
and the length of my arm sweep
and the width of the paint roller
were exaggerated by my exuber-
ance. And today was Monday.
Bill's mother would be too busy
with her washing to catch me in a
mess.
"I think I'll just paint this room
today," I said.
"Uh huh," mumbled Bill and
rolled out of bed.
Just paint this room today, in-
deed! That proved to be the under-
statement of the century.
I started to pull up the covers on
the bed but threw them back in-
stead. Might just as well have clean
sheets, too. I'd just toss them in
the washer.
As soon as Bill had gone to work
and the older children were off
to school, I stacked the dishes and
started the painting.
If only a roller or brush could
sweep down a wall as fast as the eye
thinks it can! I had failed to con-
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sider the rough finish of the plaster.
It took a great deal of pressure on
the roller to force the paint into
the recesses of the wall. Before
long I was puffing with the effort.
I paused and looked back to admire
the spot I had finished. The thirsty
plaster was drinking in the paint like
a blotter. Instead of the clean
oyster-white I had in mind, the spot
was a dingy, pale, seasick green.
Feeling a pale, seasick green myself,
I turned back to my task with more
determination but less enthusiasm.
I'd have to hurry to get two coats
done before Bill came home and
saw that bilious color.
Four-year-old Wayne appeared in
the doorway. "Whyn't you give me
'prize?" he asked. "An' not a kiss."
"I don't have any surprises," I
said, stretching to reach a little far-
ther on the ceiling. "Run outside
now and play in the sand pile."
Finally, by staring him down, he
said, "Okay," and the door slammed.
By mid-morning my shoulders
ached from pushing, and my neck
was stiff from holding my head
tipped back to look at the ceiling.
I remembered the sheets in the
washer and went to hang them out.
Then the overflowing hamper of
soiled clothes demanded attention.
When I had put down my paint
roller to hang clothes for the sixth
time, I looked at the clock. Patty
would be home from school any
minute and could play with Wayne
when he woke up from his nap.
In another blessed hour Edward
would be home from his paper
route. He could help me with the
second coat. I'd tried a swipe where
the paint had already dried and it
was the gleaming, clean color of an
oyster shell. My spirits had revived
somewhat, but I had given up on
my time schedule. The woodwork
would have to wait until tomorrow.
Edward came in about four
o'clock with his face looking like a
storm cloud.
"Finished your route already?"
"No, I haven't started it. My bike
won't work."
"What's the matter with it?"
"The fender drags on the wheel."
"Can you fix it?"
"I just have to tighten up a
screw."
"Go tighten it then. What's all
the fuss about?"
"I can't reach the screw without
taking the wheel off. I'll need a
little help."
Edward and I have an unex-
pressed understanding between us.
I will give him help when he needs
it, and he w7ill do the same for me.
It is very fine to have a son like
that.
We had the wheel off his bicycle
and the guilty screw tightened in a
few moments, but couldn't get the
axle nut tightened after we replaced
the wheel. After working for half
an hour, we discovered the threads
were stripped. We were rummag-
ing in the odds-and-ends box look-
ing for a new part when the phone
rang. It was Mr. McCloud want-
ing to know why his paper hadn't
been delivered yet.
"Get in the car," I said to Ed-
ward. "I'll take you around your
route." I called to Patty to wash
the breakfast dishes and set the
table for supper while she watched
Wayne. "All right," she said. Pat-
ty is a delightful child. "Please help
me with my arithmetic, when you
get back," she called.
T
HAT night when Bill and I
crunched our way to bed across
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the newspaper-strewn floor, he said,
"We should have hired John Olson
to paint this room/'
"We couldn't afford it/' I re-
minded him.
He acted as if I'd reduced the
resale value of the house at least
five hundred dollars by doing the
job myself, and we couldn't afford
that either.
"It will look better with a second
coat," I assured him, pointing to
the spot I'd gone over twice.
"I hope so." He sounded dubi-
ous as he turned out the light.
The next day I painted with the
greatest care. I went over every
spot until not a speck of green was
showing. The enamel on the wood-
work was brushed and brushed and
not a drop allowed to run. I paint-
ed around the window glass with a
meticulousness unheard of by pro-
fessional painters. This took a good
deal of time, however, and by after-
noon I could see I wouldn't finish
this day either.
I sank wearily into a chair. I felt
the enthusiasm escape from me in
tired little puffs. This time the
yeast had risen too high. Tomorrow
I would start being efficient like
Bill's mother. I'd make a schedule
and leave no time on it for my crazy
schemes. Tomorrow when the
painting was finished, that is. I
picked up a paper and pencil and
made a few notes: Monday, wash;
Tuesdav, iron.
I may be slow to get started, but
at least I'm not a quitter, and the
next morning I was at my task
early. This was very much to my
credit, for the air outside was like
bubbling gingerale— sparkling, cool,
inviting. Bill's enthusiastic "Not
bad. Not bad, at all," when he saw
the room, had given my spirits the
lift they needed. I marveled at my
luck that my mother-in-law hadn't
caught me in the worst of all
messes.
No sooner had this thought
crossed my mind than a car crossed
the intersection and drove to a stop
in front of the house — her car.
I quickly wiped the paint from
my arms, peeled off my dirty
clothes, and slipped on a clean
dress. I sprayed air freshener in a
thick choking fog to dissipate the
paint odor and shut the bedroom
door.
WHEN the bell rang for the sec-
one time, I called, "Come in,"
from the kitchen where I'd started
to wash breakfast dishes.
I had to look twice to make sure
it was Bill's mother. No crisp ging-
ham today. She was wearing an old
skirt, and one of Dad's faded shirts.
My mouth was so busy being open
she was the first to speak.
"I came to help you," she said,
"with the painting." She should
have been a detective. I thought
my quick camouflage had been com-
plete.
"How did you know?"
"I heard from Bill and I see paint
on your nose," she said simply.
"Where's a brush?"
"But today is your day to clean
the linen closet." I had memorized
her schedule by now.
"Forget the linen closet. Who
will know a hundred years from now
if I cleaned it today or not?"
"Mother, sit down. Do you feel
all right?"
"I haven't felt better for thirty-
five years."
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"Will you explain what's hap-
pened to you?"
"Nothing happened to me. I
happened to it. Emancipation Proc-
lamation."
I decided Fd better humor her.
I was afraid something had snapped
in her well-disciplined mind.
"What did freeing the slaves have
to do with you?" I asked.
"I have just freed myself from
being a slave — a slave to my house,
to my work. But, mostly, to my
schedule. I burned it."
"Burned your schedule?"
"Yes, I wanted to be like you.
Master of my fate."
"But I'm not master of my fate
at all. You're the one. . . ."
"Oh, yes, you are," she said. "If
you want to do something, you do
it. I'm always wanting to come over
to see what new and exciting things
you are doing."
The new, exciting things she was
talking about rushed in a quick pro-
cession through my mind — the
etched trays, the ceramic figurines,
the floats for the children's parades,
raisins drying in the sun, copper
tooling, mosaics, piecing quilts. The
line was long. It had been fun.
"You've taught your children to
do all sorts of things," she went on.
"You are never too busy to help
them learn."
I hadn't really taught them, just
let them work with me. They were
so eager, and their small fingers re-
sponded skillfully. It was true they
had learned to do many things both
to help and for fun.
I crumpled the paper I had start-
ed writing my schedule on last
night, and dropped it in the waste
basket on my way to the bedroom.
"Let's hurry and finish the paint-
ing," I said, "and then how would
you like to ride up the canyon and
take a picnic?"
"I'd love to," Mother answered.
"We could get some river stones so
I can get started on that rock garden
I've wanted so long."
One thing I didn't know about
do-it-yourself until then. It's con-
tagious.
e/<
aim
Maude Rubin
I claimed this garden plot for mine . . .
From desert earth I'd made it,
Planted every rose and tree,
Harbored bird and humming bee,
Hoarded seed and gently laid it
In the furrow — powdered fine
Was every clod of dry adobe.
But now these flowers so full of wonder,
These drums of hail, these shouts of thunder,
Tear my flimsy claim asunder . . .
God's — the seed, the storm, the tree,
God's — the garden, lent to me!
(christening the I lew (carriage
Luh Walker
TT was an ecstatic moment when I
first saw our new carriage that
lovely summer morning in 1905. No
sleek-lined Cadillac could ever thrill
me as did that carriage, its satiny
smoothness gleaming in beautiful
newness — a marked contrast to our
weather-worn old spring wagon.
The carriage was a complete sur-
prise. Only the night before papa
had smuggled it into the shed, then
driven it out next morning at the
strategic moment when we were
ready to go visiting. For years we
had longed for a carriage. Now we
had one, with a wonderful glossy top
to shelter us from both sun and
rain. No more aching arms from
holding parasols. And those in-
triguing little glass boxes up in
front held real kerosene lamps.
Fancy driving along a dark road with
carriage lights gleaming like a
couple of giant fireflies!
Papa had perfectly timed the new
purchase with our long-planned
visit to the Wright family who
lived on a distant farm in the
''Eagle" neighborhood.
Proudly we climbed in, Papa and
Mamma in the front seat, we chil-
dren in the back. Off we went be-
hind Major and Ribbon, our fast-
stepping sorrels. The carriage rode
marvelously. It was like skimming
along on air compared to our
clumsy spring wagon.
Everywhere was lush summer
greenness— rolling meadows, fields of
knee-high corn, and great clumps of
wild roses dotting the roadside. In
spite of our urging him to go fast,
Papa drove slowly, saving the horses,
he said. Poking along was not in
keeping with a handsome new car-
riage, when we knew our team could
pass any other on the road. Not
till we reached the National Trail
did Papa "let out the ponies." This
was the best road in the country,
graded and dragged to almost
boulevard smoothness by the enter-
prising Eagle farmers.
But there was another reason for
Papa's increased speed. This fine
road was attracting those newfan-
gled automobiles. Just as well get
out of danger as soon as possible,
Papa said. The possibility of meet-
ing one of the machines put a slight
damper on our high spirits. We
were fearful as to how Major and
Ribbon might react to their first
sight of an automobile.
Terrible stories were told of
what sometimes happened when
horses saw automobiles. There had
been runaways and even people
killed. Women seldom drove on
the road any more. A man's grip
on the reins was needed if one of
those nefarious machines was en-
countered.
\ LERT to danger, we kept close
watch on the road back of us.
Suddenly, my heart stood still, but
I managed to gasp, 'There comes
onel,y No need to say what. Papa
urged the team ahead, while the
rest of us concentrated on that
brassy-eyed monster. If only we
could reach the safe haven of Mr.
Wright's barnlot before it caught
up with us!
The horses' hoofs clicked faster
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and faster, but what horse could
match a machine that raced at the
reckless speed of twenty miles an
hour? It was gaining on us! No
doubt about it. The horses' ears
were up. They had scented the
acrid smoke of that fearful machine.
Mr. Wright's red barn loomed
ahead. We might make it if the
gates were open. With the sprawl-
ing hedge, we couldn't tell.
Closer and closer came the
wheezing monster. ''Hurry, hurry!"
we warned Papa. A tickle of the
whip, and the team broke into a
gallop. Just ahead, a man was wild-
ly waving his arm in the direction
of the gate. Thank goodness it was
open! Mr. Wright's firm hand
gripped Ribbon's bridle as the brass-
trimmed machine went snorting by.
The horses stood panting with heav-
ing sides, but we and our new car-
riage were safe.
We hadn't realized how common
the gas buggies had become. Before
the day was over, a half dozen went
whizzing by. And each time we
children raced to the front gate for
a close-up of this fascinating ma-
chine. With their curiosity under
better control, the grownups took
their vantage point on the front
porch. Almost as queer looking as
the automobiles themselves were
the occupants — men in funny black
goggles, women with long fluttering
veils, and both men and women
wearing long coats that Mrs. Wright
said were "dusters."
Conversation that day didn't fall
into the usual pattern of "man talk"
and "woman talk." In the parlor
Mr. Wright and Papa made desul-
tory attempts to discuss crops. But
it was hard to concentrate on corn
when any minute they might have
to dash to the porch to see how
the passing model differed from the
one that went by an hour ago.
Both Papa and Mr. Wright were
agreed that automobiles were a men-
ace. Vermont might have the right
idea, they said, in passing a law that
forbade driving an automobile on
a public road unless a man walked
several hundred feet ahead to give
warning. But Mr. Wright admit-
ted a few Eagle farmers were get-
ting "the bug." His neighbor, Ed
Matson, had just bought one. Fool-
ish, of course. He wouldn't think
of it himself. Oh, maybe in a year
or two, if crops were good. . . . But
Mr. Wright's conclusion was cut
short by a raucous honk that sent
both men scurrying to the porch.
HpHE topic of automobiles had also
invaded the kitchen. As she
whipped the potatoes, Mrs. Wright
kept up a sprightly flow of chatter
about the Matsons and their new
automobile. Dropping her voice to
a whisper, she confided to Mamma
that she was worried . . . worried
about her husband who was show-
ing strong symptoms of "automo-
bile fever." He was a good man,
but men were men, and you
couldn't tell. . . .
"Come on, you women," boomed
Mr. Wright from the parlor, "or
you'll miss this one." Mrs. Wright
dropped the potato masher, and
with Mamma rushed to the porch.
We could hardly bear to leave
that exciting spot. We took a back
road home, since Papa decided the
longest way round might be the
safest. Jouncing over this little-
traveled road, our new carriage
didn't ride quite so smoothly, but
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we children chattered excitedly
about those whizzing automobiles
we had seen. Would we ever, ever
ride in one, or wear one of those
glamorous veils, we wondered?
Papa might have been wondering
a little, too. He held the reins
loosely, looking straight ahead with
no comments on the corn we passed.
Only now and then he'd speak, and
when he did, it was to say some-
thing about automobiles. As yet,
our new car was only a gleam in his
eye, but the gleam was there.
c/he (c)ld [Red Couch
Helen B. Morris
I sat in the platform rocker staring
at my old red couch. It wasn't
really red any more — just the
color that is left after many seasons
of sun have subtracted the intense
hues of newness. Varied lengths of
faded strings dangled from the worn
right arm, and an inch of heavy
white cord pointed in my direction.
It was a big, awkward intruder
standing boldly against the new
gray-green wall.
Sadly, I realized it would con-
tinue to be the "chief seat" in our
house for many seasons yet. But,
then, it would surely have to go.
This last thought stirred some
idle corners in my mind. As I
looked at the couch again, a vision
of memories played before the eyes
of my imagination. It magically
melted my scorn and transformed
it into a kind of affection. Then I
knew that to cast it away without
a thought of thanks would be
slightly akin to retiring a loyal serv-
ant to penniless idleness.
I suddenly remembered the bleak
day four Januarys before when my
three-year-old lay weak and fever-
ish. He was sicker than I had ever
seen him. His pale, thin face made
his heavy eyes look large and sad. I
put a pillow and a blanket on the
old red couch, and he lay there
waiting for the doctor to arrive.
That evening he sat up, turned
to me and asked, "Mommy, who
is it that makes little boys well?"
"The doctor?" I guessed.
"Yes, Mommy, but who else
makes boys well?" he persisted, and
without waiting for my answer, "It's
Jesus that makes boys well, Mom-
my.
At least seven different pairs of
Relief Society visiting teachers have
been asked to sit down on that
old red couch. As they have sat
there they have brought cheer and
beautiful messages of gospel hope
into our home.
Any number of insurance, maga-
zine, food-plan, awning, book, soft
water, and brush salesmen have
spent persuasive, fruitless hours sit-
ting there with wares we may have
wanted, but would have to wait a
while longer to afford.
Then into my mind flashed a pic-
ture of our family of four sitting
side by side on the old red couch.
There we have sat to begin our
family hours — with all their suc-
cesses and failures. Here three of
us sat while we waited for the five-
year-old to summon enough cour-
age to give the talk he had
composed for this special purpose.
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I remembered his child voice
saying, "I believe in Heavenly
Father. I believe that the gospel
is true. I pray to Heavenly Father
when I should. When Jesus and
his disciples went out fishing, the
sea was 'furious,' and Jesus said,
Teace be still/ and the sea was
calm. I love my brother and my
parents. . . ."
QO many times we have invited
our bishop and his counselors
to sit down on the old red couch.
Then we have steadied ourselves,
wondering if their tidings might be
a new challenge somewhere in the
upbuilding of the kingdom. And
surprising as such requests have
been, or how far above us the task
may have seemed, any bread cast
upon the water has always returned
a thousand fold.
The old red couch has provided
a seat for a representative from at
least seven different classes of shy,
twelve-year-old boys who have come
faithfully on Fast Sunday morning
carrying with them a stiff brown
envelope.
Then I remembered sitting there
one late September evening. The
head of our house came home later
than usual from a Saturday night
Priesthood meeting. I sat there
while he told me he was the new
member of the stake high council.
Since then I have sat there wait-
ing for him many long and lonely
evenings, but there we have also
sat when he returned and we have
discussed issues great and small.
From this spot, I realized, had come
most of our hopes and plans. It
had been the setting of many of
our deepest confidences.
Faces of friends old and new
passed before my memory as I
thought of the people who had sat
on the old red couch. I remem-
bered the wonderful, welcome
friends who came to strengthen us
in our moments of sorrow, and to
share with us our times of joy.
My reminiscing mind saw two
tiny babies napping on the old red
couch. It saw two little boys cling-
ing to its edge as they learned to
walk. And as they grew, their keen
imaginations transformed its arms
into horses, its cushions into boats,
and its back to the tallest building
in the world. And temporarily, it
has been known to become a
tumbling mat, a slippery slide, and
even a trampoline.
I remembered sacred moments
when lying there ill I have felt the
power of the Priesthood give me
needed strength and felt great grati-
tude for the presence of the Priest-
hood in our home.
We all went to the old red couch
when we first sat down together as
a family of five, and we opened a
little white blanket to introduce a
heaven-sent baby daughter to her
two excited, noisy brothers. It was
there we all said a silent, humble
thanks for this gift of life.
Remembering, a little of the color
seemed magically restored to the
faded red upholstery. The desire to
send it to obscurity had lost its
urgency. There it stood, meaning
many things to a family — a boat,
a cradle, seat of honor, and even a
spare bedroom for grandpas and
grandmas when they came to spend
the night.
Still, in time, the old red couch
will have to go. But not to be
discarded — just tucked away. It
was the remembering that changed
it from an enemy to a real trusted
friend.
I
[Pathways
Evelyn Cox
N the early dawn I walked across a meadow. The air was cool with a fresh, earthy
fragrance. Birds chirped and called from near by willow and poplar trees.
From the indigo blue of the sky to the green carpet of grass I felt the world was
beautiful; it was good to be alive. I enjoyed this habit of walking and looking and
listening in the early hours after dawn.
My steps left slight imprint upon the grass as I passed by. And then I crossed a
path. Many footsteps had worn away the tender green blades of grass. Even the roots
had long since been trampled and destroyed; the earth was worn down and deeply
rutted.
I stopped and thought, how like a pathway are the habits we form. Most acts,
whether good or bad, do not leave too deep an impression when they are committed
once. However, each repetition gives a deeper impression, and we have made a path
upon which we travel, up or down, whichever the pathway leads.
Jrlpplesauce Luread
Myrtle Ainsworth
1 pkg. yeast ( either fresh or dry) 1 c. cracked wheat
(dissolved in 1 Vi cups warm water) !4 c. sugar
1 c. applesauce (sweetened or un- 1 tsp. salt
sweetened, as desired) lA c. shortening
1 c. dry milk 5-6 c. white flour
Mix all of the ingredients together, except the white flour. Then add two cups
of white flour and stir well. Let the mixture stand in a warm place to rise (from one
to two hours). Then add the remainder of the flour, enough to make a soft dough.
This requirement will depend upon the thickness of the applesauce and the consistency
of the dough desired. Mold the dough into three loaves, or two loaves and one dozen
rolls, as desired. Dot with butter or brown sugar and let rise until double in bulk.
Then place in an oven preheated to 400 ° F. After ten or fifteen minutes, reduce the
heat to 300 ° and bake for one-half hour or more according to degree of brownness
desired.
Raisins or chopped nuts, dates, prunes, or figs may be added to this recipe, and,
if desired, for a sweet bread, more sugar may be added. If unsweetened applesauce is
used, the bread will not have a sweet flavor.
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*j\nna Vi/hitney (Johnson — (gifted J/Lrtist
\ NNA Whitney Johnson, Springville, Utah, in all her eighty-two years, has exempli-
■**• fied the theme "A thing of beauty is a joy forever." An artist of multiple talents
and many interests, she has been successful in landscape painting in oils, china painting
and designing, raising houseplants, designing and quilting quilts and comforters, making
hooked rugs, tooled leather articles, ceramic figurines, and many pieces of embroidery,
crocheted articles, and knitted clothing. She is a charter member of the Hafen-Dallin
Art Club, and was Springville's "Mother of the Year" in 1956.
Mrs. Johnson has devotedly served the Church, and has worked in various positions
in Relief Society for thirty-six years. Her descendants include four sons, two daughters,
twenty-four grandchildren, and nine great-grandchildren.
Cfioine U\(
line u\esponst
Winona F. Thomas
biltty
I thought to write a poem,
One was running through my head,
But I made you pajamas
To keep you warm in bed.
I could have made a picture,
But I knew you had no bread
I kneaded dough and baked the loaves
So that you would be fed.
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I fingered the piano;
My music was outspread.
When I saw dust upon the floor
I cleaned your house instead.
That night my prayers were heaven sped.
"Thank God for you," is what I said.
The New Day
Chapter 7 (Conclusion)
Hazel K. Todd
LYNN packed her luggage
carefully while it was still
early morning.
Aunt Polly had arisen long before
sun-up and picked fresh rhubarb.
Now she was making pie. There
was already gingerbread on the cup-
board, fresh strawberry jam, and a
pan of chiciv^n ready to be fried.
'My goodi, ess, Aunt Polly, you'd
And then she saw the tiny speck
far off in the distance. And she
knew it was David. Even before
she could see the gray and green
color of the car, she knew it was he.
"Aunt Polly," she said. "I think
he is coming!"
Aunt Polly came and stood beside
her.
"Aunt Polly," Lynn said, "keep
think it was Vhanksgiving or some- trying to help Johnny."
thing with al\ this baking," Lynn
said, coming into the aromatic
kitchen.
"I thought you might like a lunch
to nibble on, on the way. If this
David boy is like other men, he
likes to eat."
"I'm sure he does," Lynn laughed.
"And he will be happy, I'm sure, to
know he's marrying into such good
cooking."
"Don't say such things. You
might give me a swelled head."
Aunt Polly was trying to be jovial.
But she added seriously, "It has
been wonderful cooking for you
again!"
Then they didn't say any more.
Aunt Polly didn't answer.
The big gray car was coming up
the hill now. Lynn gave Aunt Polly
a quick kiss and went out the door.
She walked to the gate and stood
waiting. And then, in a minute
David's arms were about her.
"Lynn, my darling," he said hold-
ing her head against his shoulder.
"It seems as if you've been gone a
year instead of a week."
"Does it rcr.Ily?"
She held to his hand then. "But,
come, Aunt Polly is waiting to look
you over. She has cooked such a
feast we can never eat it all."
They walked up the path holding
hands, to the house where Aunt
All day Lynn waited anxiously. Polly was waiting.
She started watching the road long It was difficult to say goodbye,
ahead of time. Even the delicious breakfast of blue-
It's a long way to Chicago," berry muffins and scrambled eggs
Aunt Polly said once.
Lynn laughed a little. "I guess
I'm just too anxious."
Once she went out and walked
around the yard. "If I could just
have helped Johnny," she said, "it
would have been so much easier to
leave."
edge,
cry-
hadn't taken away the sharp
"I never knew I was such a
baby," Aunt Polly said.
But she couldn't seem to do any-
thing about it. She stood holding
the corner of her apron to her eyes.
"Oh, go on, get out before I start
all over again."
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— APRIL 1960
"We must see her often/' David
said, as they walked to the car.
"It's a promise/' Lynn said, and
then she saw Peter, almost upon her.
His face was flushed from running,
his shirt tail stuck out, and his chest
was heaving.
"You got to help me. Lindy's
sick!" he panted.
T N horror, Lynn looked down into
his face.
"Her knee hurts. It's all big and
red."
The cut by the turkey nest! The
iodine! She had not used it!
"What is the matter?" David
asked, looking at the frightened
boy. "Who is this child?"
"He is Johnny's boy," Lynn said.
"His little sister cut her leg badly
the day I called you."
"My Dad had to go before Lindy
woke up. That MayRee woman
told me to always call her number,
but I forgot it," Peter said unhap-
Pi]y.
"But I can find it," Lynn said,
seizing the ray of hope. And then
she stooped and put her arm around
Peter. "I am going away to Chi-
cago to live," she said. "But May-
Ree will always be here to help you.
I'll find her right now. She is a
nurse and will know just what to
do for Lindy."
In the house Lynn explained
briefly to Aunt Polly, and then wait-
ed for the hospital to find MayRee.
"But I guess you know you got
me sent home the other night,"
MayRee said to Lynn's second invi-
tation to go to Johnny's house.
"Please try again."
"What am I supposed to do this
time?"
"That day before you came Lindy
fell and cut her knee. I wrapped
it up. Now Peter is all excited. He
says that Lindy is sick, that her knee
is red and swollen."
"But Peter could have called me
if he wanted to. I told him to."
"He forgot your number. He's
all confused."
There was a slight hesitation.
"But Johnny will just send me
home."
"Johnny isn't there now. Any-
way, MayRee, somebody's got to
help them. I'm going back to Chi-
cago. I won't be here any more.
Don't you think it would be better
for you? You will always be here.
And besides you are a nurse and
know what to do."
MayRee sighed. "Very well,
Lynn. I guess I'll always keep try-
lng.
"Please do. And please let me
know as soon as you can, how Lindy
is. I'll be waiting here."
"It may take only a few minutes,
if Johnny comes. I may be back
before you get your hat off."
DUT it was an hour before the
phone rang.
Lynn held the receiver with
trembling hands. "MayRee?" she
asked eagerly.
"Lindy is all right, Lynn, just a
real sore knee, with a dose of infec-
tion. I'm taking her to the hospital
for penicillin."
"Oh, MayRee, I am so glad."
"Yes, it could have been serious
soon."
"Johnny . . . did he come?"
"Yes, he came just when I had
the bandage off and it looked the
worst."
"He didn't send you home then?"
"No. Because I scared him half
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269
to death. I made him think Lindy
was sick enough to die. He was
glad to have me stay. If you have
been wondering, Lynn, if he loves
those children, you don't have to
any more. He adores them/'
"Oh, I'm sure he does, but. . . ."
"He promised to change his ways,
to ... to forget the past. He prom-
ised to let me help him."
"MayRee, I am so happy."
There was a faint sob.
"Lynn, do you — do you think
some day maybe I could be a good
stepmother?"
Lynn smiled to herself. "The best
in the world, MayRee." She hesi-
tated a moment. "Will you do
something for me?"
"Anything, Lindy."
"Just tell Johnny we said goodbye
as the best of friends."
There was a slight pause.
"But I . . . Why don't you tell
him yourself? He's with Lindy. I'll
get him."
"But I'm not sure he would talk
to me."
"I think he would now, Lynn.
Wait just a minute."
Lynn waited calmly until she
heard him pick up the receiver.
"Johnny?"
"Yes, Lynn."
"I just wanted to say goodbye."
"Thank you, Lindy."
"You have darling children, John-
ny.
He paused. "I ... I want to
thank you for being so kind to them.
They adore you."
"I will be looking forward to see-
ing all of you when I visit Aunt
Polly."
"Lynn, can you forgive me for
being — for being that way?"
"Of course, Johnny. I have been
foolish, too. But that is all in the
past. Remember, this is a new day,
a bright new day, with all the world
before us."
"Yes," he said, "I will try to re-
member."
She wiped the tears from her eyes
and wondered why she was crying
when she was so happy.
And then she hung the phone on
the old worn hook, kissed Aunt Pol-
ly again, and went to find David
who was waiting for her in the porch
swing.
» ♦ ■
cJke vUtld [Plum off
ee
Evelyn Fjeldsted
From near the creek a wave of perfume comes,
As softly as the zephyr's touch at night.
The native wild plum tree will soon bring plums
To ripen in the wind and valley light.
Its growth was sure when there was much at stake,
And with the perfume of another dawn,
It brings back fleeting memories that take
Us far, but blossom trystings soon are gone
With all the sweet intangibility
Of perfume from the Potawatomi.
FROM THE FIELD
Hulda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Handbook of Instructions of the Relief Society.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Marjorie M. Ward
SALT LAKE STAKE (UTAH), NINETEENTH WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
MAKES HOOKED RUGS IN PROJECT "RAGS TO RICHES"
Left to right: Jeanne Wilkins; Naomi Bliss; Antonia Van Otten; Alice Tolman,
instructor; Cordelia Taylor; Connie Ward.
Marjorie M. Ward, President, Salt Lake Stake Relief Society, reports: "During
the year 1959 the Relief Society sisters from the Nineteenth Ward have hooked these
beautiful rugs, making them entirely from discarded woolen clothing and old blankets,
doing all the dyeing themselves. They have learned the true value of thrift, the real
art of blending colors, and the joy of doing something very worthwhile. 'A thing
of beauty is a joy forever.' With care, these rugs will last for many generations, a luxury
many could not afford if they had to buy them. These rugs cost so little, only the
price of the stamped burlap and a few cents for dye."
Page 270
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
271
Photograph submitted by Beulah B. Woodbury
BRITISH MISSION, CENTRAL AND NORTHERN DISTRICTS SINGING
MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC AT CONFERENCE
December 1959
Beulah B. Woodbury, President, British Mission Relief Society, reports: "General
Conference of the Central and Northern Districts was occasioned by the visit of Presi-
dent Henry D. Moyle of the First Presidency and Lawrence D. McKay of the Sun-
day School General Superintendency, their wives, and the two daughters of President
Moyle, Alice and Janet.
"The Singing Mothers have been called on to organize themselves and sing at each
of the district conferences this past fall series. All of the Singing Mothers from this
area united in a group of 226, which was led by Sister Margaret Jenner of the Hull
District, and Sister Elsie Curtis, also of the Hull District, acted as accompanist. . . .
The Singing Mothers have also been called upon to provide the music for the spring
series of conferences almost by popular demand of the membership of the mission.
"Many expressions of appreciation of this event were received from district presi-
dents and branch presidents, as well as from many others. President Peter }. Everett
of the Hull Branch commented: 'The Relief Society choir was truly magnificent, a
choir of angels. How great it was to sing with the other 2,034 saints, and then to
crown all this to hear the leaders of our Church speak.' "
PHOENIX STAKE (ARIZONA) RELIEF SOCIETY VIEWS FILM "UNTO THE
LEAST OF THESE," November 5, 1959
Ruth Stapley, President, Phoenix Stake Relief Society, reports the showing of the
film "Unto the Least of These" through courtesy of the Fox Theatre, Phoenix. "More
than 1100 women came out to see the film. A personal invitation was sent to every
woman in the three stakes (Phoenix, East Phoenix, North Phoenix) inviting her to
come and bring her husband and friends and neighbors.
"We began the hour-long program with a beautiful prayer offered by the East
Phoenix Stake visiting teacher message leader, Edith Alexander. Then a greeting and
introduction of the film by Ruth Stapley, President, Phoenix Stake Relief Society, fol-
lowed by a song, 'The Lord's Prayer' sung by our talented Phoenix Stake Relief Society
organist Virginia Peterson. Then the film was shown, followed by the song 'My
Testimony' sung by a large group of Singing Mothers from Phoenix Stake. Benediction
by Mildred Romney, visiting teacher message leader of the East Phoenix Stake. It
was truly a touching and inspirational hour. We know that many hearts were touched
that morning and many good resolutions were made anew.
"We sincerely thank our wonderful General Board, and especially Sister Christine
Robinson, for this marvelous story so beautifully told and filmed."
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Photograph submitted by Minnie P. Burton
WEST GERMAN MISSION, COLOGNE BRANCH SINGING MOTHERS
PRESENT MUSIC FOR NOVEMBER i, 1959,
SUNDAY EVENING PROGRAM
At the right: chorister Margaret Schoeler.
First row, left to right: Erna Schumacher; Martha Elisabeth Otto, President; Hed-
wig Klesper.
Second row, left to right: Anna von Kalkstein; Margarete Obermann; Frieda Weich-
haus; Margarete Moccke.
Back row, left to right: Ruth T. Benson and Marion Kaye Greenwood.
Minnie P. Burton, President, West German Mission Relief Society, reports: "Ruth
Benson and Marion Kaye Greenwood are missionaries. The Singing Mothers groups
in our mission have done much to bring our sisters together. Many of our groups are
small, but in this land where so much fine music originated, the love for music is ever
present. We hope to encourage such groups in each branch in the mission."
Photograph submitted by LaRue L. Schoenfeld
LAKE VIEW STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR
STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, October 18. 1959
Lake View Stake Relief Society officers and board members, seated in the front
row, left to right: Mabel Burgener; Gwen Stokes; Hazel Heslop; LaRue L. Schoen-
feld, President; Glenda Thompson; Lucille Molen; Iola Belnap Murray, chorister; Mabel
Peterson; Laura Holmes; Mae Matis; Marietta Parker,
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
273
Several members of the chorus were absent when the picture was taken, including
Dorothy Code, stake organist and Mabel Belnap Relief Society stake organist. Sister
Mabel Belnap's picture is inserted at the top right.
Sister Schoenfeld reports: "Approximately one hundred Singing Mothers par-
ticipated in the singing for both sessions of conference, and also for conference in Janu-
ary of the same year (1959). Some of the songs sung in the two conferences were
Sister Florence Jepperson Madsen's 'Oh, Lovely Land, America/ 'My Soul Is Athirst
for God,' and 'If Ye Love Me, Keep My Commandments.' "
Photograph submitted by Luella T. Wilson
KOLOB STAKE (UTAH) VISITING TEACHERS HONORED AT CONVENTION
January 9, i960
Front row, seated, left to right: Clara Gren; Nellie Wiscombe; Ella Peterson;
Sarah Jane Davies; Mary Christensen; Maggie Daley; Sarah Beardall; Harriet Brown.
Second row, seated, left to right: Amy Ostler; Harriet Jensen; Zelma Christiansen;
Edna Lindsey; Leila Fullmer; Alice Johnson; Eva Bird; Estella Wixom; Mary Whiting.
Third row, seated, left to right: Clara Perry; Agnes Harrison; Annie Gividen;
Gladys Parry; LaVerl Young; Martha Houtz; Olive Whiting; Zina Dibble; Eugenia Bird.
Back row, standing, left to right: Roka Fackrell; Velma Hjorth; Thora Dalley; Lilly
Barney; Rose Neilson; Martha Whiting; Margaret Miner; Mable Brown.
Luella T. Wilson, President, Kolob Stake Relief Society, reports: "At a Visiting
Teachers Convention held in Kolob Stake, January 9, i960, all visiting teachers were
invited to become star teachers for i960. As they arrived, a gold star on a blue back-
ground was pinned on each visiting teacher. Stake Priesthood authorities, President
Ernest A. Strong, Jr. and advisor, Bishop Oliver H. Dalton, were present and spoke
words of inspiration and encouragement. The beautiful film 'Unto the Least of These'
was shown, and two musical numbers were rendered by the Sixth Ward Singing Moth-
ers. All sisters with twenty-five or more years of service as visiting teachers were intro-
duced by their respective Relief Society presidents, and presented with a pretty blue
potted primrose in a gold foil container. Corsages were also pinned on four sisters who
had served over fifty years. The oldest was Amy Ostler, who has served sixty-two
years and is still active. Refreshments were served after the program at a table beautiful-
ly decorated in blue and gold, which also carried the theme of being star teachers."
Nineteen other visiting teachers with twenty-five or more years of service are not
represented in the picture.
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Photograph submitted by Mona Brown
TWIN FALLS STAKE (IDAHO) LEADERSHIP MEETING AND WORK
MEETING CHRISTMAS DISPLAY, December 1959
Seated, left to right: Ruth Stanger; Blanche Hansen; Lucille Poulton; Ila Camp-
bell; Jean Staley; Mary Cheney, stake work director.
Standing, left to right: Wilda Carlson, stake organist; Donnie Miller, reader; Ella
Johnson; Effie Larsen; Lois Willis; Marilyn Fairbanks; Deonne Roberts; Thelma Quig-
ley; Norma Larson; Muriel Demer; Betty Birrell, stake chorister.
Mona Brown, President, Twin Falls Stake Relief Society, reports: ''Our Decem-
ber leadership meeting preliminary program was presented by the stake music depart-
ment and told of Christmas in song and verse. Following the departmental meetings,
we all went into the work department to view the lovely Christmas displays and have
refreshments served by the stake board."
Photograph submitted by Mary G. Jensen
JUAB STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS WHO FURNISHED MUSIC FOR
THE WEDNESDAY MORNING SESSION OF THE RELIEF SOCIETY
GENERAL CONFERNCE, October 7, 1959
Standing at the right: Tabernacle organist Alexander Schreiner and Vivian P.
Hoyt, director of the chorus.
Standing in the foreground, at the left of the organ: Will L. Hoyt, Juab Stake
Patriarch, and husband of Mrs. Vivian P. Hoyt; Juab Stake President R. Roscoe Gar-
rett.
Mary C. Jensen, President, Juab Stake Relief Society, and her counselors Helen
B. Jones and Reba C. Mangelson, are standing in the third row, center of the left
section.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
275
Sister Jensen reports: "One hundred sixty-five women participated, their ages
ranging from twenty-three to eighty-nine years. This group of women represented
about 1250 family members (husbands, children, and grandchildren). There are six
wards in Juab Stake and almost one hundred per cent participation of stake and ward
officers and class leaders in the chorus, with only a few trained singers in the group.
Selections sung were: Trayer Perfect/ by Stenson, and 'When Mothers Sing,' words
and music by Vivian P. Hoyt. Sister Hoyt has dedicated and assigned this song to the
Juab Stake Relief Society, who are contributing all proceeds from this music to the
building fund of the stake and ward building which is in the process of construction."
Photograph submitted by Claire D. Ord
UNION STAKE (OREGON), BAKER SECOND WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
PRESENTS HARVEST THEME AT OPENING SOCIAL,
September 28, 1959
Claire D. Ord, President, Union Stake Relief Society, reports: "The opening
social for the Baker Second Ward used the harvest as its theme. It was held in the
evening, husbands were invited, and a lovely harvest dinner was served. The hall was
beautifully decorated, with the center of attention being a very large horn of plenty,
showing an abundant harvest. (The horn of plenty was made of chicken wire, brown
wrapping paper, and a hoola hoop.)
"With the beginning of the program, a much deeper theme was introduced, that
of the spiritual harvest. What are we gleaning from this life to take home to our
Heavenly Father? As each of the different departments was represented, each held dif-
ferent shaped seeds (made of painted cardboard), saying that attendance at Relief
Society would aid us in the planting and nurturing of the good seeds bearing the fruits
of the qualities we so desire. As each sister finished her preview, she placed the fruit
bearing a word which we could expect to glean from her contribution to Relief Society
in the coming year.
"The invitations, sent earlier, were gay, using burlap for the covers, and bright
colored yarn and stickers for the horn of plenty. This opening social was outstanding
in theme and general beauty, and presented well to both the sisters and their husbands
the coming year's work and the aims of Relief Society. Sister Luella Jordan presides
over this ward."
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Photograph submitted by Elizabeth C. Hayward
EAST SHARON STAKE (UTAH) PRESENTS "PREVIEW OF
CHRISTMAS IDEAS," November 5, 1959
Left to right: Hilda F. Stewart, Stake Work Director Counselor; Helen Bateman,
Ward Work Director Counselor; Helen Cragun, stake work meeting leader; Lillian
Smoot, ward work meeting leader.
Elizabeth C. Hayward, President, East Sharon Stake Relief Society, reports: "On
November 5, 1959, the East Sharon Stake of Provo, under the direction of Hilda F.
Stewart and Helen Cragun, presented 'A Preview of Christmas Ideas.' Each of the
eight ward Relief Societies was responsible for a display. These, plus two guest dis-
plays, made up the exhibit, which included the following subjects: gifts in music, gift
wrappings, homemade toys and games, Christmas foods, Christmas decorations, inex-
pensive gifts, aprons, quilts, household items, and books. During the afternoon over
three hundred sisters from the stake visited the preview. Arrangements were made
for ward work meeting leaders to obtain patterns and instructions as requested by the
women of the wards."
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June 1960
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Hill Cumorah Pageant
July 22, 1960
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INSTEAD of saving money for a
Christmas fund, articles for
Christmas presents may be ac-
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in addition to supplying the needs
of our immediate family.
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A lingerie shop, closing out, is a
bonanza. A picture from one place,
a frame from another, combine at-
tractively. A few of the books I
buy and read during the year are
stored away to be passed on at holi-
day time. Linens are always ac-
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I have fun at a ceramic sale in
obtaining figurines for indoors and
out, and finding artistic planters for
succulents.
Cosmetics and perfumes are
luxuries from drug store sales. Cos-
tume jewelry lends an exotic note.
Carved leather and baskets from
A CHRISTMAS CHEST FOR ALL THE YEAR
279'
across the border make appreciated
gifts, sometimes dressed up with
sequins and velvet.
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dolls, and I purchase aprons, and
children's clothes at the Relief So-
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worthy cause as well as get good
values.
During the year I also save clean,
pretty boxes. These are stored one
inside another to save room. Christ-
mas boxes are quite expensive. Ten
days before Christmas, when every-
one is rushing around, I arm my-
self with a box of festive wrapping
paper, a ball of ribbon, and some
name cards. Leisurely I go to work
on the contents of the chest; decide
what to give whom. Won't some
of the recipients be surprised! My
idea of a Christmas present is a
surprise. Something that a person
would not buy for himself.
I do not go into debt nor im-
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festivities. At the last minute I
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of perfume or arrange a basket of
fruit for an invalid; or bake fresh
cookies for the children.
Then I have time to address the
Christmas cards, and perhaps write
Christmas letters. Sometimes a
letter is the best gift of all, and all
it costs is a four-cent postage stamp!
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spciford ._-_.._ President
Marianne C. Sharp ------ First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen --------- Second Counselor
Hulda Parker - - Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Josie B. Bay Elna P. Haymond Elsa T. Peterson
Edith S. Elliott Christine H. Robinson Annie M. Ellsworth Irene B. Woodford
Florence J. Madsen Alberta H. Christensen Mary R. Young Fanny S. Kienitz
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor _-.-------_ Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor ---------- Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager - - - - - - - - - Belle S. Spafford
VOL. 47 MAY 1960 NO. 5
(contents
SPECIAL FEATURES
What the Gospel Means to Me Irene B. Woodford 284
The Western States Mission Preston R. Nibley 288
Contest Announcements — 1960 290
Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest 290
Relief Society Short Story Contest 291
I, Too, Want to Be Useful Aslaug S. Vaieland 318
Magazine Honor Roll for 1959 Marianne C. Sharp 325
FICTION
Orchids in the Snow — Chapter I Rosa Lee Lloyd 293
Second Baby Dorothy S. Romney 299
Standing Pat Frances C. Yost 312
The Blue Bowl— Part II Loya Beck 321
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 282
Sixty Years Ago 304
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 305
Editorial: Wife and Mother Marianne C. Sharp 306
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 335
Birthday Congratulations 344
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Recipes From the Western States Mission Daisy R. Romney 308
The Golden Years Maggie Tolman Porter 310
Not Only By Bread Dorothy J. Roberts 317
Crossed Wires Genevieve Van Wagenen 319
Annie Maria Spray Steel Makes Many Braided Rugs 320
When Parents Play Ruby Dee Christensen 342
POETRY
For Mother — Frontispiece . Christie Lund Coles 281
These Small Things Maude Rubin 287
The Native Currant Evelyn Fjeldsted 287
From a Canyon Retreat _ Pansye H. Powell 292
Mother Linnie F. Robinson 298
Your Sacred Presence Caroline Eyring Miner 307
My Gifts May H. Marsh 307
A Case for Contrast Evalyn Miller Sandberg 319
Respite Zara Sabin 320
Contemplation Catherine B. Bowles 324
Pepper Tree Louise Morris Kelley 334
Prairie School Lula Walker 334
Girl Graduate Ida Elaine James 340
Beneath a Song Sparrow s Nest Eva Willes Wangsgaard 341
Inheritor of Beauty Vesta N, Fairbairn 344
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What the Gospel Means to Me
Irene B. Woodford
Member, General Board of Relief Society
THE burning of two rooms of Christ, the Redeemer of the world,
a small town school in Can- I know that Joseph Smith was the
ada in February of 1943 start- instrument in God's hands to re-
ed a sequence of events which store the fulness of the gospel to
culminated in my conversion to the the earth in these latter days,
gospel. The combining of classes The earth was created that we,
necessitated by the fire resulted in the spirit children of God the Eter-
one teacher being left without a nal Father, might each receive a
room or students. Since the neigh- tabernacle of flesh and have oppor-
boring school in which I taught had tunity for development and growth
been without a principal for two during a period of mortal probation,
weeks, this teacher was asked to fill While in this life we suffer a spirit-
the position. ual death by being shut out from
A few days after his arrival, a the presence of God, that we might
friend voiced her suspicion that the learn to walk by faith. In due time
new principal was a Mormon. I we also experience mortal death in
knew practically nothing about the the departure of the spirit from the
Mormons — but I nevertheless sin- temporal body. A Savior was pro-
cerely hoped that he was not one vided who freely gave his life that
of them. However, he was. we might live again. Through his
Our Mormon principal soon infinite atonement the bands of
found opportunity to have some death are broken, and we receive
gospel conversation with me, and I the free gift of resurrection and im-
knew immediately by the testimony mortality to enjoy forever the kind
of the spirit that he had the truth, of life we have prepared ourselves to
I felt a great and impelling urge to receive.
know more of the things of which There is, however, a great differ-
he spoke. After four months of ence between the immortality given
avidly studying the gospel and stor- to all men, good or bad, and the
ing my mind with its wondrous individual salvation gained only
truths, I became a member of The through obedience to the laws and
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter- ordinances of the gospel. For those
day Saints. who accept the atoning sacrifice of
How deeply grateful I am that the the Savior and obey the gospel, who
Lord blessed me with the oppor- are valiant in their testimony and
tunity of hearing the gospel of his faithful to the end, God has pre-
beloved Son, Jesus Christ. The pared an exaltation and eternal glory
knowledge and understanding I now beyond our present comprehension,
have of God and his divine plan for Through baptism by water and by
the eternal progression and exalta- the spirit, we enter the gateway to
tion of his children are the joy and the celestial kingdom. There now
strength of my life. I know that must follow a steadfast pressing for-
God lives and that Jesus is the ward along the straight and narrow
Page 284
WHAT THE GOSPEL MEANS TO ME
285
path of obedience to all the other
laws and ordinances, if we would
realize the blessing of eternal life.
This understanding of the pur-
pose of life makes one keenly con-
scious of the commandments of
God and their transcendent im-
portance in one's life. Each of us
has the obligation to seek and know
the truth, for we cannot be saved
in ignorance. Consequently, mem-
bership in the Church and kingdom
of God is a priceless possession, not
to be taken for granted nor treated
with indifference, for it is only with-
in the Church that we can receive
the truth and live completely in
accordance with it.
T^HE most glorious and exalting
ordinance to be received as we
press forward in our progression is
marriage for eternity in the temple.
Compliance with this ordinance is
necessary for the gaining of exalta-
tion.
Companionship of husband and wife is
a divinely appointed means of mutual
betterment; and according to the measure
of holy love, mutual respect and honor
with which that companionship is graced
and sanctified, do men and women de-
velop toward the spiritual status of God,
(Quoted anonymously by Louise Y. Robi-
son, "Marriage for Eternity," Archibald
F. Bennett: Saviois on Mount Zion, page
188).
For those who desire to attain
unto God's glorious promises, the
gospel becomes the dominant, mo-
tivating force of life, its influence
permeating thoughts, hopes, aspira-
tions, and actions. This influence
is felt in the choice of friends and
companions, "For intelligence cleav-
eth unto intelligence; wisdom re-
ceiveth wisdom; truth embraceth
truth; virtue loveth virtue; light
cleaveth unto light . . . (D & C
88:40). Living the gospel brings
control of appetites and passions,
maintains moral cleanliness, and
leads to the overcoming of evil
propensities. Through its refining
influence, Christ-like attributes of
patience, tolerance, meekness, kind-
ness, humility, long-suffering, cour-
age, and righteousness are devel-
oped. Through faith, study, and
prayer, spirituality grows.
The great key to happiness and to
personal growth and development
is service to fellow men. King Ben-
jamin said, "when ye are in the
service of your fellow beings ye are
only in the service of your God."
To live the gospel of Jesus Christ
truly and conform our lives to its
teachings, we must dedicate our-
selves to the work of the Lord.
Thus, service in the Church is part
of the life of a Latter-day Saint.
What joy we experience in know-
ing that someone's life has been
enriched and blessed through our
efforts! The happiest families are
those engaged in Church work, for
those who serve willingly are the
recipients of peace of mind, one of
the priceless blessings of life. The
reward of unselfish service has been
told by the Lord, ". . . whosoever
will save his life shall lose it: and
whosoever will lose his life for my
sake shall find it" (Mt. 16:25).
There are innumerable opportuni-
ties to render kind, unselfish service.
There is first of all the home, where
we dedicate our time and talents,
our love and kindness, in looking
after the needs and promoting the
happiness of those who are so dear
to us. There are the auxiliary or-
ganizations of the Church, such as
the Primary, Y.W.M.I.A., and Sun-
day School, with their many needs
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for teachers to instruct, inspire, and,
in other ways, influence for good
the youth of the Church.
'TTIE great service organization of
the Church is our own beloved
Relief Society. President McKay
said of Relief Society:
The most beautiful and undoubtedly
the most efficient organization in the realm
of service, is the National Women's Relief
Society. Through this channel, your
myriad deeds of mercy sparkle like gems
in a crown (The Relief Society Magazine,
December 1958, pp. 792-93).
My first call to serve in Relief
Society was as a visiting teacher,
and my next-door neighbor was in
my district. My companion and
I called at her home one dav,
discussed the message, and left.
The next day she said to me, "You
have no idea how important your
visit was yesterday. I had a prob-
lem with a friend, and I did not
know what to do about it until I
heard the message. It gave me the
answer to my problem/'
This experience made me appre-
ciate more fully the privilege of
being a visiting teacher. Other op-
portunities I have had to serve in
Relief Society have brought great
joy into my life. The privilege I
now have of meeting Relief Society
sisters throughout the stakes of the
Church gives me an association with
wonderful women, choice spirits of
our Heavenly Father, many of
whom have endured trials and ad-
versity and have held fast to the
faith. They are stalwarts of the
Church, strong in their convictions
of the truthfulness of the gospel,
gracious and kind in their manner.
Such sisters are a strength and an
inspiration to all who know them.
Still another great opportunity for
service, and a responsibility that
rests upon all of us is that of mis-
sionary work. ". . . it becometh
every man who hath been warned
to warn his neighbor" (D & C
88:81). The great privilege of filling
a full-time mission or a stake mission
comes to many, but not to all. This,
however, does not deprive us of the
opportunity of being missionaries.
Neither a stake nor a full-time mis-
sionary ever called at my door. I
am a member of the Church be-
cause a working associate took the
opportunity to present the gospel to
me.
A friend of mine prior to her mar-
riage worked in a department store.
She was a convert to the Church
and had a strong conviction of the
truthfulness of the gospel. However,
she did not feel that her co-workers
would be interested in her faith and
so refrained from mentioning it to
them. Several years later one of
these women came to her and said,
"You had the gospel when we
worked together. Why did you not
tell me about it?" She had recently
joined the Church, but she regret-
ted the lost years when she could
have been enjoying the blessings of
Church membership. Opportunities
to assist in the saving of souls come
to all of us, whether it be in explain-
ing the gospel to our next-door
neighbor, the stranger we meet in
our travels, or in strengthening our
brothers and sisters in the Church
who are weak in the faith.
Probably the most unselfish of
all Church service is that of work
for our ancestors. Many hours,
months, and years are spent by faith-
ful and devoted members of the
Church in gathering the records of
their dead and performing the sav-
ing ordinances in their behalf in
WHAT THE GOSPEL MEANS TO ME
287
the holy temple. The responsibil-
ity for this work rests upon us all,
"For their salvation is necessary and
essential to our salvation . . . they
without us cannot be made perfect
— neither can we without our dead
be made perfect" (D & C 128:15).
The Prophet Joseph Smith em-
phasized the importance of this
work when he said, "The greatest
responsibility in this world that God
has laid upon us is to seek after our
dead." Hours spent in research and
temple work for the benefit of oth-
ers not only develop unselfishness
but also a great love for our fellow
men. It is a most rewarding service
that fills the soul with peace and
contentment.
I cherish my membership in the
Church and kingdom of God. Hav-
ing tasted of the blessings of the
gospel, I would not want to live
without it. It gives purpose to life,
joy in service to fellow men, and the
hope of a glorious resurrection.
cJhese Small o) kings
Maude Rubin
This Bible graced her marble center table,
Recorded births — and marriages — and death.
Small treasures picture her, small home-things able
To speak through changing years with gentle breath
Of one who found her joy in simple things —
Brought her happiness to children; reared strong men,
Gave them a name to honor, one that rings
Forever through this West-land. . . . Now, as then,
This clear bell shields her wreath of waxen flowers . .
Her sand glass counts these hushed, atomic hours.
cJhe 1 la live C- arrant
Evelyn Fjeldsted
Along the creek and country roads,
The rugged native currant thrives
Through years, through changing modes
On the arid wasteland it survives.
The tiny yellow blossoms hold
The captured sunshine of each spring;
The fruits, like jewels red and gold,
Are gifts, and now the field birds sing.
And when the currants have been sealed,
In crystal settings in a row,
Far and wide in lane and field,
The shrubs present a scarlet glow.
cJhe western States ill
tssion
Preston R. Nibley
Assistant Church Historian
rFIIE Western States Mission was organized in April 1907. It comprised
the States of Colorado, Wyoming, New Mexico, Nebraska, and North
and South Dakota. The headquarters was established at Denver, Colo-
rado, and Joseph A. McRae, former President of the Colorado Mission,
was installed as the president.
In December 1908, President McRae was released, and John L. Her-
rick was appointed to succeed him. At that time there were 654 members
of the Church in the entire mission. There were also ninety full-time
missionaries.
President Herrick served until June 1919, and the mission grew and
prospered under his leadership. At the time of his release there were
5,500 members of the Church residing in the mission. A new chapel and
mission home had been erected in Denver.
President Herrick was succeeded by John M. Knight, who served until
March 1928. Other mission presidents who have followed are: Elias S.
Woodruff, 1928-1933; Joseph J. Daynes, 1933-1937; William W. Seeg-
miller, 1937-1941; Elbert R. Curtis, 1941-1945; Richard W. Madsen Jr.,
1945-1946; Francis A. Child, 1946-1949; Ray E. Dillman, 1949-1954; A.
Lewis Elggren, 1954-1958; David S. Romney, 1958-
The boundaries of the Western States Mission were changed in 1925,
Courtesy Denver and Rio Grande Western Railroad Company
Submitted by Daisy R. Romney
WILL ROGERS SHRINE TO THE SUN, CHEYENNE MOUNTAIN
NEAR COLORADO SPRINGS, COLORADO
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Submitted by Daisy R. Romney
CLIFF PALACE, MESA VERDE NATIONAL PARK, COLORADO
when North and South Dakota were added to the North Central States
Mission.
Stakes that have been organized within the mission are San Luis
(1883), Young (1912), Denver (1940), Grand Junction (1955), Albu-
querque (1957), Cheyenne (1959), and Denver West (1959).
In 1946 President George Albert Smith visited the Western States
Mission, and at Pueblo dedicated a monument which had been erected in
honor of the Mormon Battalion, which, one hundred years previously,
had established the first white settlement in what later became the State
of Colorado.
In June 1959, President Antoine R. Ivins made a tour of the Western
States Mission and on his return to Salt Lake City gave the following
report to the Deseret News: "He pointed out that the mission has good
leadership in the districts and branches, and that all the branches are
presided over by local members. He praised the work of President and
Mrs. Romney who are directing the mission/'
At the end of December 1959, there were 4,390 members of the
Church in the Western States Mission, located in twenty-nine branches.
Twenty-nine Relief Society organizations, with 629 members, were
reported in December 1959. Daisy R. Romney presides over the Western
States Mission Relief Society.
Note: The cover for this Magazine, "Mount Elbert, Colorado's Highest Peak," was
reproduced from a transparency submitted by Daisy R. Romney, courtesy Denver and
Rio Grande Western Railroad Company. See also "Recipes From the Western States
Mission," by Sister Romney, page 308.
Contest Announcements — 1960
CONTESTS CLOSE AUGUST 15, i960
THE Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest and the Relief Society Short Story
Contest are conducted annually by the General Board of Relief So-
ciety to stimulate creative writing among Latter-day Saint women
and to encourage high standards of work. Latter-day Saint women who
qualify under the rules of the respective contests are invited to enter their
work in either or both contests.
The General Board would be pleased to receive entries from the out-
lying stakes and missions of the Church as well as from those in and near
Utah. Since the two contests are entirely separate, requiring different writ-
ing skills, the winning of an award in one of them in no way precludes
winning in the other.
ibliza U\. Snow Lroern Contest
HTHE Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest
opens with this announcement
and closes August 15, i960. Prizes
will be awarded as follows :
First prize .--. $40
Second prize $30
Third prize $20
Prize poems will be published in
the January 1961 issue of The Re-
lief Society Magazine (the birth-
month of Eliza R. Snow).
Prize-winning poems become the
property of the Relief Society Gen-
eral Board and may not be pub-
lished by others except upon writ-
ten permission from the General
Board. The General Board reserves
the right to publish any of the other
poems submitted, paying for them
at the time of publication at the
regular Magazine rates.
Rules for the contest:
1. This contest is open to all Latter-day
Saint women, exclusive of members of the
Relief Society General Board and em-
ployees of the Relief Society General
Board.
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2. Only one poem may be submitted by
each contestant.
3. The poem must not exceed fifty
lines and should be typewritten, if pos-
sible; where this cannot be done, it
should be legibly written. Only one side
of the paper is to be used. (A duplicate
copy of the poem should be retained by
contestants to insure against loss.)
4. The sheet on which the poem is
written is to be without signature or other
identifying marks.
5. No explanatory material or picture
is to accompany a poem.
6. Each poem is to be accompanied by
a stamped envelope on which is written
the contestant's name and address. Nom
de plumes are not to be used.
7. A signed statement is to accompany
the poem submitted, certifying:
a. That the author is a member of The
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints.
b. That the poem (state title) is the
contestant's original work.
c. That it has never been published.
d. That it is not in the hands of an
editor or other person with a view
to publication.
e. That it will not be published nor
submitted elsewhere for publication
until the contest is decided.
8. A writer who has received the first
prize for two consecutive years must wait
two years before she is again eligible to
enter the contest.
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9. The judges shall consist of one mem-
ber of the General Board, one person from
the English department of an educational
institution, and one person who is a
recognized writer. In case of complete dis-
agreement among judges, all poems select-
ed for a place by the various judges will be
submitted to a specially selected commit-
tee for final decision.
In evaluating the poems, consideration
will be given to the following points:
a. Message or theme
b. Form and pattern
c. Rhythm and meter
d. Accomplishment of the pur-
pose of the poem
e. Climax
10. Entries must be postmarked not
later than August 15, i960.
11. All entries are to be addressed to
Relief Society Eliza R. Snow Poem Con-
test, 76 North Main, Salt Lake City 11,
Utah.
LKelief Society Short Story Looniest
rpHE Relief Society Short Story
Contest for i960 opens with
this announcement and closes Aug-
ust 15, i960.
The prizes this year will be as
follows :
First prize $75
Second prize $60
Third prize $50
The three prize-winning stories
will be published consecutively in
the first three issues of The Relief
Society Magazine for 1961. Prize-
winning stories become the property
of the Relief Society General Board
and may not be published by others
except upon written permission
from the General Board. The Gen-
eral Board reserves the right to pub-
lish any of the other stories entered
in the contest, paying for them at
the time of publication at the regu-
lar Magazine rates.
Rules for the contest:
1. This contest is open to Latter-day
Saint women — exclusive of members of
the Relief Society General Board and em-
ployees of the General Board — who have
had at least one literary composition pub-
lished or accepted for publication.
2. Only one story may be submitted by
each contestant.
3. The story must not exceed 3,000
words in length and must be typewritten.
The number of the words must appear
on the first page of the manuscript. (All
words should be counted, including one
and two-letter words.) A duplicate copy
of the story should be retained by con-
testants to insure against loss.
4. The contestant's name is not to ap-
pear anywhere on the manuscript, but a
stamped envelope on which is writen
the contestant's name and address is to be
enclosed with the story. Nom de plumes
are not to be used.
5. A signed statement is to accompany
the story submitted certifying:
a. That the author is a member of The
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints.
b. That the author has had at least one
literary composition published or ac-
cepted for publication. (This state-
ment must give name and date of
publication in which the contest-
ant's work has appeared or, if not
yet published, evidence of accept-
ance for publication.)
c. That the story submitted (state the
title and number of words) is the
contestant's original work.
d. That it has never been published,
that it is not in the hands of an
editor or other person with a view
to publication, and that it will not
be published nor submitted else-
where for publication until the con-
test is decided.
6. No explanatory material or picture is
to accompany the story.
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7. A writer who has received the first
prize for two consecutive years must wait
for two years before she is again eligible
to enter the contest.
8. The judges shall consist of one mem-
ber of the General Board, one person from
the English department of an educational
institution, and one person who is a rec-
ognized writer. In case of complete dis-
agreements among the judges, all stories
selected for a place by the various judges
will be submitted to a specially selected
committee for final decision.
In evaluating the stories, considera-
tion will be given to the following points:
a. Characters and their presentation
b. Plot development
c. Message of the story
d. Writing style
9. Entries must be postmarked not later
than August 15, i960.
10. All entries are to be addressed to
Relief Society Short Story Contest,
76 North Main, Salt Lake City 11, Utah.
» *o* ■»--
QJrom a (^anyon LKe treat
Pansy e H. Powell
O God, from concrete streets and brick-lined squares
We come to thee,
Laying beside thy purling stream our cares,
For one day free.
Between these cottonwoods we see thy sky
A clearer blue;
This flowering verdure that thy brook flows by
Takes deeper hue.
The smallest canyon rock, the aspened peaks
That, encircling, tower,
Witness thy presence, and each one bespeaks
Thy unmatched power.
Now over all thy peace broods like a dove
Upon her nest;
And not a jarring sound disturbs what love
Has surely blessed.
May beauty, peace, and rest we find today
Be truly thine,
That when we leave here we may take away
Something divine!
Orchids in the Snow
Chapter I
Rosa Lee Lloyd
SHARON Haskell opened her
eyes, stretched her arms, and
looked dreamily at her be-
loved bedroom.
Frothy white curtains criss-
crossed her window where the early
morning sun was a pinkish mist; a
golden filigree tray with perfume
bottles glistened on her ivory dress-
ing table, and the long French mir-
ror with the pink taffeta bow at the
top, completed the room especially
designed for an adored twenty-one-
year-old daughter.
Suddenly her face crumpled and
she covered it with her hands. Tears
came achingly. She was going away.
She was leaving all these precious
things and the people she loved;
her twinkling, witty mother, her big,
generous-hearted dad, and Kenny,
her fifteen-year-old brother who was
a teasing rascal at times but ador-
able anyway, really adorable. And
Aunt Jewel, too. Dear, thoughtful
Aunt Jewel. She could not bear to
leave them. And yet, she was over-
joyed to go!
Today was her wedding day! Her
dark eyes flew to the Dresden clock
on her bed table. Six o'clock. In two
hours she would be in the temple.
In exactly twelve hours she would be
standing beside her husband, Sam-
uel David Wynter, in front of the
rose-banked mantle downstairs in
the living room. By this time to-
morrow morning they would be on
their way to Sun Valley for their
honeymoon. A little sigh of joy
whispered through her tears. Two
weeks alone with Sam in beautiful
Sun Valley before they flew to Alas-
ka where they would make their
home. Sam had accepted a position
as instructor in the engineering
school at the University of Alaska
in Fairbanks.
A little tremor of apprehension
went over Sharry. Aunt Jewel had
warned her that there was a housing
shortage in Fairbanks and that living
conditions were very different from
those in Salt Lake City. But she
refused to worry about it. Aunt
Jewel, she thought tenderly, didn't
have children of her own, so she
had given Sharry and Kenny all her
pent-up motherly affection. She was
a professional nurse and had cared
for her parents until they died last
winter. Sharry's engagement, her
bridal parties, her temple marriage
this morning, and her wedding re-
ception tonight had given Aunt
Jewel the joy of her lifetime to be
a part of it all. She lived in Shar-
ry's romance and happiness.
Everyone in the ward loved Aunt
Jewel, Sharon thought, and every-
one hoped that she would marry
some fine man now that she was
free from the family burden she had
carried since she was a young girl.
Aunt Jewel was only forty-four, two
years younger than Daddy, who was
her brother. She was still slender
and queenly fair, especially in her
white cap and uniform. Sharry
wished Aunt Jewel would go to ward
parties and have fun instead of
working so hard all day and staying
home every night.
"You need a change, Jewel,"
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Mama had said one day last week.
"You must reach out for happiness
and love."
"I know/' Aunt Jewel had an-
swered. "I know I should go out
more, Mary. But there is so much
to do, so many sick people who
need me. Then I'm too tired at
night for parties."
Mama had nodded, understand-
ing^-
"You've been so loyal, Jewel. So
self-sacrificing. But now— please go
out more, meet new people. Have
some of the things you deserve.
You've earned a little happiness,
dear."
"But I am happy, Mary!" Aunt
Jewel had protested. "I love my
work — it is everything to me."
Mama had smiled her knowing
little smile.
"No woman can be completely
happy who hasn't known love,
Jewel," she said. "Give yourself a
chance for that happiness."
sjt A ajc jic sjc
1VTOW Sharon pressed her tear-wet
eyes with the palms of her
hands, then reached for Sam's pic-
ture on her bed table.
Why did she love him so deeply?
she asked herself, wonderingly. He
wasn't exactly handsome. His red
hair was too bushy. Even last week
when he was honor guest at the
dinner his fellow engineers had giv-
en for him, he was very well-
groomed in his new dark suit, but
his hair was a red bush. She had
never seen him in a hat.
Did engineers wear hats in Alas-
ka? she wondered, or fur caps or
ear muffs? And would Sam's
bounce off his head because of his
hair?
Her finger lovingly traced the
outline of his nose in the picture,
still a little crooked where a base-
ball bat had struck him when he
was ten. But his eyes are wonder-
ful, Sharon thought, blue and hon-
est and genuine. And she loved
the wide, generous curve of his
mouth.
"That boy will always be good to
you," Mama had told her when they
became engaged in April. "He has
good eyes and a kind mouth and a
chin like the bow of the Queen
Elizabeth. But don't push him too
far, Sharry. Don't pout and want
your own way all the time. Men
with bushed-up red hair and chins
like that have a will of their own,
even when they love as tenderly as
Sam does."
Yes, she thought, Mama is right.
Sam has a will of his own. She
had seen him angry only twice in
the year they had gone together,
and both times had been her fault.
She had sulked because he had been
gone so long on a consulting job
with the Twin Mining Company in
Colorado. She had been jealous
because his work was so important
to him. From now on she would
take Mama's advice and not argue
with him about it.
She held the picture close to her
heart, remembering what her chum
Marge Barlow (who was to be her
maid of honor tonight) had written
on the card with her wedding pres-
ent: "May your life together be a
path of roses."
Oh, Marge, she thought, as she
placed the picture back on the bed
table and put on her robe, our life
will be a path of roses. How can it
help being so when we love each
other? Sam is the man who carries
my world on his shoulders.
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\ knock on the door brought her
head up sharply. That would
be Mama, of course.
"Come in!" she called gaily.
Mama must not know she had been
crying. But it was Kenny, tanned
and lean in his bathing trunks. His
blond hair was a damp stubble.
"Hi, bride!" he called, impishly,
tossing a big rubber tire wet from
the pool toward her. She flopped
back on the bed, struggling to hold
the tire.
"Kenny!" she gasped.
He grinned.
"Just wanted to know if you're
in condition for Fairbanks, Alaska.
It's rugged up there. I've been read-
ing about that little burg you're
going to live in. Or should I say
ice-burg?"
Sharon pushed the tire to the
floor and jumped to her feet.
"Take that thing out of here!
Why can't you act like a gentleman
on my wedding day?"
Kenny sat down on her satin
slipper chair and looked around the
room.
"Think I'll make this my work-
shop when you're gone. I can re-
pair television sets right in this
room."
"Kenny — please. Don't be so
mean," she coaxed. "This will
always be my room. You know that.
This is my home, you are my broth-
er, and I love you even though you
are unbearable."
"Your home will be Fairbanks,
Alaska, after today," he insisted.
"Fairbanks, Alaska, where you can
have a big gray wolf for a pet, while
Sam is off on his snowshoes search-
ing for gold mines in the white icy
spaces."
"Wait until I'm gone. You'll
wish you had said something nice
to me," Sharon insisted.
"Like what?" he teased.
"You might say I have been a
sweet sister to you," she answered
patiently. "You might remember
certain little favors I've done while
you were growing up. I'll remem-
ber every little thing about you,
Kenny. The first day you went to
school when you were six and I was
thirteen, and you cried before Mama
came in and I didn't tell about it."
He jumped to his feet.
"Kid stuff!" he scoffed. "Sisters
always think they're so grown-up.
Does Sam know that you cry when
you're alone in the dark or when
your hands get cold? Does he know
you've never been away from home
without Mom or Dad or me?"
"Oh, you! Sam wants me just
the way I am."
His young eyes sobered.
"Sam is twenty-nine," he said, as
though he had been thinking it
over. "He's used to roughing it on
long, hard engineering jobs. He's
used to living in a trailer or a tent.
He'll expect a real woman to keep
house for him, and what'll he get?
A doll baby who doesn't even iron
her own blouses!"
"Why, Kenny Haskell! You get
out of here right now or I'll call
Mama."
"That's right," he teased again.
"Call Mama. You always call for
Mama. Who'll you call for in Alas-
ka?"
He lifted the tire and opened the
door.
"You better wake up," he added
significantly. "This book I'm read-
ing says that part of Alaska where
engineers go is our last frontier.
You might have to live on caribou
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meat or clean fish or shoot bears.
And learn to can moose, because
beefsteak is three dollars a pound
up there!"
''Don't be ridiculous!" she
laughed, but her heart turned over
and was suddenly very quiet. Some-
where deep inside of her she remem-
bered that Sam had said how high
the cost of living was in Alaska.
"It won't be an easy life, darling.
And you may have to stay alone at
times while I'm away on consulting
trips. Alaska's great mining and
metalurgical resources are of great
value to the country. Some of my
work will be secret. But we'll work
it out, sweetheart. We'll have each
other and that's what counts."
TZENNY closed the door with a
little bang. She stood there
listening as he bounced the tire
down the hallway. Then she real-
ized that Kenny was worried about
her going to Alaska. His impishness
was just an act to hide the real way
he felt. He had even taken time to
read books about the place where
she and Sam would live. That was
more than she had done, she
thought with a guilty pang. She
had been too happy and too busy
preparing her trousseau, having her
announcement party, and arranging
for the wedding reception after their
marriage which would be in the
temple this morning.
Her eyes went quickly to the
clock. Almost six-thirty. She didn't
have time to worry over what Kenny
had said about wolves or snowshoes
or caribou meat or cleaning fish.
She must bathe and dress and
brush her hair until it shone like a
black pony's coat. That was how
Sam described her hair and she
loved the way he looked at her
when he said it; as though he was
marrying the most beautiful girl in
the world and nothing else mat-
tered.
sis sis # sje s}c
A
T six o'clock that evening, Shar-
on walked down the stairway.
Everything was crystal white and
beautiful. She could hardly breathe
for the lump in her throat. Fresh
dewy flowers smiled at her from
every nook and corner of the down-
stairs
She met Sam's eyes and took her
place in the reception line by his
side.
"My wife!" he whispered in his
deep, tender voice. "I love you,
darling."
All the glory of love was in his
eyes as they met hers.
"My husband," she whispered
back, "I love you, too."
This was the moment she had
dreamed of and planned for ever
since the night in April when she
had promised to be his wife. This
was the dream come true.
Smiling, gracious guests streamed
past the wedding party saying the
chosen words of praise that every
bride and groom love to hear and
remember. Soft music from the
string trio on the patio was a lullaby
of enchantment. Sharry's heart
lifted and sang with the joy of it all.
No night had ever been so beautiful,
no bride had ever been so loved and
loving. She closed her eyes in a
wave of gratitude to her Heavenly
Father. She would remember every
moment of her wedding day forever
and ever.
Sharon started in surprise. Kenny
was standing before them. He
looked very grown-up in his dark
trousers and cream-colored coat.
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297
Even his black bow tie was perfect-
ly straight.
'There's a call from Alaska, Sam,"
she heard him say. "Some man
from the University wants to talk
to you. He savs it's very impor-
tant/'
Sam's heavy brows drew together
as he looked at Sharry.
"Sorry, darling. You'll have to
excuse me a minute."
"But, Sam!" she touched his arm.
"You can't leave now. You can't."
"I have to," he said simply. "No
one would call me unless it was an
emergency."
Sharry's eyes widened as she
watched him walk away. How could
he do such a thing at their wedding
reception with dozens of people
watching them! How could he leave
her at a time like this?
Marge Barlow, her maid of honor,
slipped her arm around her.
"Take it easy, hon," she coaxed.
"He'll be back."
"I could die, Marge," she said,
tightly, "just for an old telephone
call."
"But it must have been urgent,"
Marge insisted. "You married a
man who has a job to do, remem-
ber?"
CHARRY felt her anger mount-
ing in her. Sam always put his
work and duty above everything.
But now he had a wife and she must
come first. She would insist that
Sam not answer their telephone
while they were on their honey-
moon in Sun Yallev.
She glanced at others in the line.
Of course they were wondering why
Sam had left her like this. Daddy
and Mama were whispering together
with Sam's parents, and there was a
ripple among the bridesmaids.
Marge nudged her.
"Now be good," she coaxed.
"Here he comes."
"That didn't take long," he said,
as he took his place in time to greet
the Sherman Browns.
After they had moved on, Sam
turned to Sharry. His blue eyes
were serious.
"Listen, honey, I wish this could
wait, but it can't. There is a
special meeting for all mining and
metalurgical engineers scheduled for
next Saturday. We'll have to leave
on the first plane out of here. The
meeting is of national importance."
Sharry felt the words beating
against her heart. Sam was telling
her they must give up their honey-
moon in Sun Valley!
"No!" she heard herself saying
in a strange, tense voice. "You
promised, Sam. Two weeks alone
in Sun Valley. You promised/"
"Look at me, darling," he plead-
ed. "You know I want those two
weeks as much as you do. Do you
think this is easy for me?"
She could not answer. Her eyes
flickered away from his, and her
mouth drooped into a pout. Then
she saw Mama looking at her,
warninglv. It was as though she
was saving: "Don't pout or want
your own way all the time. Don't
push him too far, Sharry."
She took a long, quivering breath
as she turned her eyes back to Sam.
"It's all right," she said. "I —
understand how it is."
"That's my sweetheart!" he
sighed gratefully. "I knew you
would be a real trooper, honey. I'll
make it up to you. You know I
will!"
"I know, dear," she said, trying
to smile.
She swallowed hard. Sam must
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not see her cry, she thought bravely.
She must live up to what he ex-
pected of his wife. She had to learn
how to be a real wife now. He was
her husband and she loved him with
all her heart. But her hands trem-
bled as she pressed her bouquet
against her breast.
"I hope I catch your bouquet,"
Marge whispered. ''It's almost
time to throw it, Sharry."
Sharry's hands closed possessively
around it. She wanted to keep it
fresh and lovely like this forever.
Some brides didn't throw their
bouquets any more, so why should
she? It was an old-fashioned cus-
tom, and she didn't want to do it.
A half hour later as she started
up the stairway, she was still hold-
ing it closely.
The rooms were crowded with
guests. She could feel the eyes of
everyone on her, especially the
yearning eyes of the bridesmaids
and the unmarried women.
She turned slowly. She must
share her happiness. Mama and
Daddy had taught her that when
she was a little girl. Maybe if she
threw her bouquet it might make
someone very happy, hoping to be
the next bride.
Sharon lifted it high above her
head, calling gaily as she threw it
into the crowd below:
"Here it comes, lucky you!"
There was a grasp of wonder.
Sharry stared down at the upturned
faces. Pale, golden Aunt Jewel, her
eyes like newborn stars, was hold-
ing Sharry's bouquet in both hands
as though she couldn't believe any-
thing so wonderful could happen to
her!
(To be continued)
TTlotk
ler
Linnie F. Robinson
This hour has not come suddenly, but slow
And steady paced. The clock divides my life
Into small intervals, and by these I know
The outline of your days as mother — wife.
For time is measured by remembered things,
And by events where children grow—
And things less tangible through faith alone,
But things that children need to know.
I never knew if doubt assailed your day,
Or if discouragement pressed like a sword;
You taught us how to labor and to pray
And helped us want to learn and keep his word.
I knew security through your blessed eyes,
And if I follow you I will be wise.
Second Baby
Dorothy S. Romney
HELGA hummed a small tune
as she went about the task of
putting fresh linen on young
Mrs. Sturm's bed. It wasn't that
she was so happy that early after-
noon, but more to keep up her cour-
age, that she sang.
She stopped for a moment in
front of the open window to view
the landscape, now bright with
spring blossoms. Spring is spring,
she thought, and saw the daffodils
nod their agreement in the slight
breeze — and always just as new
every year.
Her thoughts came back to her
present problems. She had taken
this case with misgivings.
"I'll not be taking the Sturm
case," she had told Dr. Merritt,
when she'd heard Laura Sturm was
expecting a second baby. "My meth-
ods are much too old-fashioned —
she would never put up with the
likes of me." Helga liked her
patients to be happy.
"Now, Helga," the doctor had
cajoled her, patting her ample shoul-
der, "you're not going to let one
young woman scare you out, are
you? Not after twenty years of suc-
cessfully caring for the new mothers
of our town, and bringing up six
fine children of your own?"
He looked at her over the top of
his glasses in a way he had. A young-
looking forty-one, Helga suspected
this was a trick he had invented to
appear older and sterner to his
patients.
When she didn't say anything,
but simply stood, looking doubtful,
the doctor continued: "Just because
Laura Sturm is a registered nurse is
no reason to back down. You'll see
that the old and the new methods
mix very well — although Laura is a
bit on the strict side," he added,
honestly.
"All right, I'll try." Helga had
thrown up her hands, helplessly.
She might have known she couldn't
refuse a case for Dr. Merritt.
"Good," Dr. Merritt had said,
with a twinkle in his eye, "I was
sure I could count on you."
So here Helga was, firmly en-
trenched in the Sturm household,
with the new mother expected home
within a few hours. In spite of all
her past experience, Helga was flut-
tery as a mother hen trailing her
first brood of chicks.
When the bed was made up to
her satisfaction, Helga tiptoed into
the nurserv to make sure that four-
year-old Jimmie was safely asleep for
his nap.
"Looks like a wee, pink angel,"
she murmured.
She had discovered in the three
days she had been caring for Jimmie,
that this wasn't quite the case —
that he was as full of energy and
capable of as much mischief as any
sturdy child his age.
He was curled up in a soft little
ball; one chubby hand was tucked
under his cheek, and a halo of yel-
low curls was framed on the pale
pink of the freshly ironed pillow-
case.
OELGA heard the back door open
and went into the kitchen. It
was Fred, Laura's husband, and he
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had a load of groceries in a box
which he set down on the table.
"Hello, Helga, how are things go-
ing?" he asked
"Why, just fine," she answered.
He was easy-going and affable, and
Helga had taken an immediate lik-
ing to him, and had at once felt
comfortable in his presence.
"My wife and the new baby will
be home at about five o'clock this
evening," he announced proudly.
"I hope everything will be to her
liking." Helga had heard from sev-
eral sources that Laura was not only
strict with Jimmie, but most par-
ticular about her housekeeping.
"Oh, I'm sure it will be," he
answered quickly. "I had a house
to show out this way, and thought
I'd drop in with some groceries. I'll
see you tonight." He went out and
closed the door quietly.
"Such a nice young man," Helga
remarked.
As yet she hadn't met Laura
Sturm, a comparative newcomer to
town. She had come to the Sturm
home a few hours after Laura had
left for the hospital, but from the
list of things to do tacked up on
the kitchen bulletin board, Helga
decided the reports of Laura weren't
exaggerated.
"My land," she declared, as she
took another look at the list, "I
wouldn't be surprised if she put
starch in her own bath water." Being
clean was fine, but to Helga's way of
thinking, there was a limit to every-
thing.
The house looked spotless, and
since there was nothing more to do
right now, Helga decided she would
rest for a moment. She sat down
in the living room and picked up a
Reliei Society Magazine from the
tabletop. She depended on her
Magazine for guidance in the little,
everyday things of life, as well as the
bigger issues, and was glad to see
that Laura was numbered among the
Magazine's subscribers.
Helga had taken but two deep
breaths and opened the cover, when
she heard Jimmie in the nursery.
My goodness, she thought, he
even wakes up with a bang.
She gave him cookies and milk in
the patio, then let him play in the
sand box outside. He'll get rid of
some of that excess energy, she told
herself.
But he quickly tired of this and
came in demanding that Helga read
a story. She found a rhyming book,
and they were just comfortably set-
tled when Jimmie cried "Mommie,
Mommie."
Sure enough, Helga saw a car
draw up in front of the house. She
hadn't realized that it was nearing
five o'clock.
She hurried to the door and ac-
cepted the baby from Fred, who
then went back to the car to assist
his wife.
T^HE baby was sweet and healthy
looking, and Helga took him
into her heart immediately, as she
did all her charges. He was com-
fortably asleep. She was careful
not to awaken him as she put him
down gently in his crib.
He'll be no trouble, she told her-
self.
Laura and Fred came in.
Helga looked at Laura, and her
heart melted within her. This was
not at all the starched person she
had expected to see. The curve of
her mouth was sweet, as she smiled
a bit weakly at Helga, and her brown
eyes were gentle looking.
She did smell slightly too anti-
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septic, but that was probably due to
her stay in the hospital.
Jimmie bounded over and threw
his arms around his mother's knees.
"Not now, darling," she said, "let
Mother get settled, then she'll have
some time for you — and dorit
touch the baby."
Helga saw his lower lip tremble,
as he turned and ran into the nurs-
ery.
The poor lamb, she thought, he's
waited all day.
She almost forgot him in the
bustle and hurry of getting the new
patient settled. Fred had gone out
on a late appointment, and after
giving Laura a light supper, Helga
supervised the baby's feeding.
She had little time to think of
anything else until Laura suddenly
asked: "Where's Jimmie?"
Helga's heart sank. "Must be
in the nursery," she replied, and
made an immediate departure in
that direction.
He was there, all right, curled up
in a little heap in the middle of the
bed and sobbing. "Go 'way," he
cried, when he saw Helga approach-
ing.
"There, there," Helga's arms went
about the little figure, as he yielded
to her comforting tone. She had
him at once ensconced on her ample
lap in the rocking chair.
"Jimmie," his mother called,
"come here to me."
"No, I won't," was his answer.
"Jimmie," in a more severe tone.
Helga put him down, took his
hand, and gently led him into his
mother's bedroom.
"I want no more of this crying,"
Laura began. "You're the big broth-
er now, and you'll love the baby just
as much as we do, once you get
used to him."
Oh, dear, thought Helga, that's
all wrong. He's too young to under-
stand what she means. He needs
love and reassurance, not an expla-
nation.
"Put him to bed, until he can
behave," Laura said, her face sud-
denly too pale.
Helga closed the nursery door,
grateful for a chance to try to com-
fort the boy. She once more took
him onto her lap and rocked him.
In a short time the crying ceased
and he was fast asleep.
QHE put him down on the bed,
threw a light cover over him,
then went quietly into the kitchen
through the hall. There was still
dinner to be served to Mr. Sturm.
He came in presently, looking
very tired. Helga served him his
meal in the breakfast room, and sat
down with him to eat her own.
After greeting Helga he inquired
about his wife and the baby.
"Haven't heard a sound in there
for the past half hour," Helga an-
swered him. "I believe they are
both asleep/'
"How did Jimmie like the new
brother?" he asked presently.
"He got no more than a peek at
him," was her evasive answer. Mr.
Sturm looked tired enough, she de-
cided, without having to worry over
the fact that his son had cried him-
self to sleep.
"Laura tries so hard to be a good
mother," he began, then stopped.
Helga longed to say something
comforting, but couldn't find quite
the right words.
"If she could just learn to relax,"
were his next faltering words. "You
see, she herslf was brought up by
distant relatives who were far too
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busy to pay her much attention, or
even to take her to church. ..."
"AJommie, Mommie" Jimmie
called just then.
"I'll fetch him," said Helga.
She brought Jimmie into the
kitchen. He was rosy-cheeked and
smiling, and apparently had forgot-
ten that there was an usurper to be
dealt with.
"Hi, young man/' his father
greeted him, and then asked in a
quieter tone of voice, "how do you
like your new brother?"
It was very still in the wide kichen.
"Hes not my brother," Jimmie
finally declared.
"Come here, son," his father said.
He took Jimmie onto his lap. "What
say we let mother take care of the
new baby, and you and I will take
care of each other? After all, we're
the men of the family." He waited,
tensely.
A long silence followed, in which
Helga wondered if Fred fully rea-
lized how impossible it was for a
four-year-old to give up his mother.
"No," Jimmie protested, fighting
hard to keep back the tears, "I'm
not a man, I'm a little bov."
Helga longed to take him in her
arms, but all she did was give him
some bread and butter.
"Come now," she said cheerfully,
"sit over here and eat, then Helga'll
read you a story before you go back
to bed."
This served as a diversion, and the
stiff little body relaxed somewhat.
He moved to his own chair and be-
gan eating. Soon father and son
were chatting happily away together.
Now that's what I like to see,
Helga told herself, as she went about
the task of clearing up the supper
things.
Tomorrow she would corner Dr.
Merritt and see if he could help
her with this problem.
3^ 5^ 5|£ 5jS
LJELGA didn't see Dr. Merritt the
next day, however. He called
and inquired about his patient, then
told Helga there was a slight out-
break of "flu" in town and he'd be
kept busy.
"Let Laura get up for an hour
or so today," he told her.
She couldn't bother him with her
problem now, with an epidemic on
his hands.
It was while she was on her way
back to the bedroom that she got
her idea. It might cost her her
reputation as a reliable nurse, at least
in Laura's opinion, but it was well
worth trying.
Accordingly, after Fred had gone
to work, Helga gave Jimmie his color
book and crayons on the kitchen
table. She needed to keep him
there. So far he had refused all
invitations to visit the newcomer.
As the baby's bathtime drew near,
Helga wondered if she had the cour-
age to go through with her plan.
One look at Jimmie's forlorn little
figure convinced her that she did,
however.
"I'll take the bathinette into the
kitchen and give the baby his bath
out there," she told Laura, with
quickened heartbeat. "It's warmer.
I'll put your chair out there — doc-
tor's orders are that you get up to-
day."
"Well, all right/' Laura agreed,
slowly.
Helga arranged everything as
quickly as possible. Out of the
corner of her eye she saw Jimmie
making furtive glances in the direc-
tion of the activity. She almost held
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303
her breath for fear he would bolt
before her purpose was accom-
plished.
Helga had the baby undressed
and all ready to bathe.
"Dear me," she said, and hoped
her tone sounded convincing to
Laura, "I've forgotten the wash-
cloth."
"I'll hold him while you get it,"
Laura said, a trifle impatiently.
"No, no, Jimmie can run and get
it for me/' said Helga.
Jimmie looked up at the sound of
his name.
"Please Jimmie, Helga needs your
help," she said. "Bring me that
washcloth from Mother's room. It's
right there on that little table."
TIMMIE slowly laid down his cray-
^ on, went into the bedroom, and
returned with the washcloth, handed
it to Helga, and went back to his
coloring without a word.
"Thank you, darling," she said.
"Gracious me," she said shortly,
"how can I ever be so forgetful to-
day? Jimmie, will you run into the
bedroom and get that can of baby
powder? On the table where you
found the washcloth, and it has a
big red cross on it. You can't miss
it."
This time Jimmie didn't hesitate.
He was in and out of the bedroom
in no time, and instead of going
back to his table, he stood a few
feet away from the bathinette and
watched.
"Thank you, Jimmie," Helga said,
"you're a real helper."
She looked at him, and his face
was radiant. He stood very still,
as if not daring to breathe.
There was just one more article
she had foigotten to bring out of
the bedroom. That was the baby's
clean blanket.
She was beginning to lose cour-
age. Laura must know by this time
that she was up to something —
either that, or she would think Hel-
ga was the most inefficient practical
nurse in Plumas County.
She looked at Laura. Laura's eyes
were fixed on Jimmie, as though she
were seeing him for the first time.
"Come over here and see mother,
Jimmie dear." Laura's voice was
soft and controlled.
Jimmie ran to his mother.
Laura's eyes met Helga's over the
top of her son's head. A look of
complete understanding passed be-
tween them.
After that there was a long, bliss-
ful interval, with Helga still fussing
over the now peacefully sleeping
baby, and Jimmie and Laura com-
fortably talking it out together in
each other's arms.
Helga looked at them and sighed.
Her mind went back to those first
years after her husband, Ned, had
died. She recalled the many times
she might have been completely
lost had it not been for the strength
of her Church teachings, the things
she learned in Relief Society, and
an occasional talk with her kindly
bishop.
At that very moment she appoint-
ed herself official Grandmother to
the Sturm family.
She would see that Laura had
plenty of time to attend her meet-
ings. We'll grow wise together, she
thought with a smile. There's
always something new and interest-
ing to learn.
She picked up the baby carefully.
I'll just have to fetch my own
blanket, she thought happily.
Sixty Ljears lYLgo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, May 1, and May 15, 1900
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
of All Nations"
VOLUME TWENTY-EIGHT: This number of the paper closes Volume 28 and
our patrons and friends of the dear little home paper are reminded that it is a good
time to renew subscriptions. . . . The women of Zion are greatly indebted to the
Exponent for aid in their undertakings in organizations and industries and many other
ways too numerous to mention. . . . There is no good reason in these days of prosperity
why the sisters should not patronize their own paper. One dollar a year; they would
never feel it, it does not amount to ten cents a month, nor yet two cents a week; and
yet the dear sisters who do appreciate the paper often say there are single articles . . .
that are worth more than a dollar to them.
— Editorial
BRIGHAM YOUNG'S BIRTHDAY: The ninety-ninth anniversary of Brigham
Young's birthday (June 1, 1801) is to be made a day of rejoicing and elaborate cere-
mony, and it is eminently fitting that it should be so, that all the people of Utah and
the adjoining country may remember this great, good and wise man who builded not
only for his own people and followers but for the world and generations yet to come;
who opened up the desert and cultivated the land and colonized in the midst of
this . . . uninhabited region. . . .
— E. B. W.
EMBRYO
I feel a poem in my heart tonight
A still thing growing;
As if the darkness to the outer light
A song were owing . . .
A something vague, and sweet, and sad;
Fair, fragile, slender;
Not tearful, yet not daring to be glad,
And oh! so tender. . . .
— Lydia D. Alder
REPORT FROM MARICOPA STAKE AT GENERAL CONFERENCE OF
RELIEF SOCIETY:
The first speaker was Pres. M. A. Hakes, Maricopa Stake, she reported the society
throughout in good condition and the sisters full of good works. "We live a long way
from headquarters, we have to travel [hundreds of miles] to come to Conference.
In our place we have only one hundred and thirty white people and six hundred
Lamanites. The government has established a school for them and erected a fine
building. . . . We have many young women who have joined our society. We have
to seal up our wheat in tin cans in order to keep it. . . .
— E. B. Wells, Sec.
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
PROWN PRINCESS MICHI-
KO, of Japan, the twenty-five-
year-old commoner with whom
Crown Prince Akihito fell in love
on the tennis courts, gave birth to
a son, heir apparent to the Japanese
throne, on February twenty-third.
The nation rejoiced and all street
cars hoisted rising sun flags. Thou-
sands of "Banzais" were shouted.
JEAN BROWNING MADEIRA,
American-born diva, is now the
leading contralto of the Metropoli-
tan Opera Company, New York
City. She has also appeared at
La Scala in Milan, at the Brussels
World Fair, and in Vienna, Bay-
reuth, and other cities. She is par-
ticularly famous for her roles as
Carmen, and as Amneris in "Aida."
TN the Winter Olympic Games at
Squaw Valley, California, Maria
Gusakova, Liubov Baranova, and
Radya Eroshina— all Russians— won
the gold, silver, and bronze medals,
respectively, in the women's cross-
country skiing contest. In down-
hill women's skiing, Heidi Biebel,
of Germany, won the gold medal;
Penelope Pitou, of the United
States, the silver; and Traudl Hech-
cl, of Austria, the bronze. In the
giant slalom, Penelope Pitou of the
United States, lost to Yvonne
Ruegg, of Switzerland by one-tenth
of a second. In the ladies' skating,
Carol Heiss, of the United States,
won the gold medal, with Sjoukje
Dykstra, of the Netherlands, win-
ning the silver, and Barbara Roles,
of the United States, the bronze
medal.
pRINCESS MARGARET ROSE
of Great Britain, sister of
Queen Elizabeth II, is engaged to
Anthony Armstrong-Jones. The
fiance is an artist-photographer who
has taken many pictures of the royal
family. The Queen and the people
in general seem to approve highly
of the match.
pLIZABETH JENKINS, English
novelist and biographer, is the
author of Jane Austen (Grosset and
Dunlap Publishers), an authorita-
tive and scholarly study of the life
and works of Jane Austen who is
regarded by many critics as Eng-
land's greatest woman novelist. Her
literary accomplishments are vividly
etched against the background of
her times (1775-1817).
TESSAMYN WEST is a Quaker
wife, mother, and writer, whose
collection of short stories about
Quakers, The Friendly Persuasion,
is delightful reading, especially help-
ful in giving an insight into the
hearts of this people who have made
a great contribution to the life of
America. Jessaniyn West writes
with delicacy, artistry, and deep
poignancy.
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EDITORJA
VOL. 47
MAY 1960
NO. 5
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and II Loth
A mother in the home has the
dual role of being a mother to
her children and a wife to her hus-
band, and each must be fulfilled
well, if the children are to be given
the most satisfactory rearing. There
are two things, at least, of which
children are keenly aware. To a
young child his world seems bound-
ed by his mother's smile or frown
but, at the same time, as he grows,
the atmosphere of the home may
cause him to rest in securitv or
shrink within himself as a protection
from an undefined feeling of the
clashing of wills and interests.
Sometimes a mother who is giv-
ing loving and tender care to her
children mav not realize their sen-
sitivity to the relationship between
herself and her husband. A wife
who studies the desires of her hus-
band and seeks to make his home a
place of joy and comfort to him is,
at the same time, establishing an
atmosphere of love and understand-
ing in the home which will give the
feeling of security she wishes her
children to have. The world seems
a place of dread to a child who
hears quarreling or bitter words be-
tween his dear parents, or who
hears his mother criticize his father
or the father criticizes the mother.
It is not sufficient to give atten-
tion to a husband until children
arrive and then decide that the
attention from henceforth will be
devoted to the children. The
Prophet Joseph Smith at an early
meeting of Relief Society:
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%er
. . . exhorted the sisters always to con-
centrate their faith and prayers for, and
place confidence in their husbands whom
God has appointed for them to honor. . . .
You need not be teasing your husbands
because of their deeds, but let the weight
of your innocence, kindness, and affection
be felt, which is more mighty than a
millstone hung about the neck; not war,
not jangle, not contradiction, or dispute,
but meekness, love, purity — these are
the things that should magnify you in the
eyes of all good men.
Let this Society teach women how to
behave towards their husbands, to treat
them with mildness and affection. When
a man is borne down with trouble, when
he is perplexed with care and difficulty,
if he can meet a smile instead of an
argument or a murmur — if he can meet
with mildness, it will calm down his soul
and soothe his feelings; when the mind
is going to despair, it needs a solace of
affection and kindness (D. H. C. IV, pp.
604-605; 606-607.)
It may not be easy for a young
wife to follow the words of the
Prophet, but the more nearly she
conforms and overcomes her own
selfish interests the more joy she
will have. The Prophet spoke
eternal truth and a humble accep-
tance of his words and a growing
obedience to them, bring their own
reward.
If a young Latter-day Saint wife
prepares herself for the proper re-
lationship toward her husband from
the time of their temple marriage
by obeying this advice from the
Prophet of the Lord, she will create
a home atmosphere in which her
children may develop righteously
and be favored to develop their
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307
potentialities. With a wife main-
taining this attitude of love and
understanding, the husband will
usually reciprocate with love and
understanding, and a sure founda-
tion for marriage will begin to be
established which will grow in sta-
bility and strength with the passing
years — a foundation on which their
children may rest secure, providing
them with assurance to solve their
own problems as they arise.
Part — and a basic part of being
a proper mother includes the proper
husband-wife relationship. The
father provides the physical shelter
for his family, but only he and the
wife together can provide the prop-
er atmosphere of the home. Into
a home of love permeated by con-
sideration the spirit of the Lord
will be invited to dwell, to lead fam-
ily members into all righteousness.
-M. C. S.
Ljour Sacred [Presence
Caroline Eyring Miner
Sweet memories like scented flowers now
Bring back your sacred presence once again.
And I can feel your cool hand on my brow
As I was wont to in my childhood when
A fever raged. At sunset when the sky
Is golden, I can hear you say, "Take note
How gold shames garish red, and ever try
To be demure and modest." Once you wrote
Above my mirror so I'd surely see,
"Be true to self, my daughter; you will find
Respect from others starts with you." Your knee
Became my altar where I learned the kind
Of faith that set me on the narrow way
And helps me know my Maker when I pray.
I fill \£lftS
May H. Marsh
Before me lie the lovely gifts
That came on Mother's Day —
The silken scarf, the stone-set pin,
The scented rose bouquet.
And with each gift a little card,
With words, "I love you so,
Your life has been my guiding star
That led the way to go."
I gaze again — the silken scarf
May be threadbare some day;
Rose petals wither, fall, and die,
And luster fades away.
But gifts of love, from heart to heart,
So like a golden tie,
Bind love on earth, live on and on —
Such gifts can never die.
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Submitted by Daisy R. Romney
Western Rocky Mountain Rainbow Trout
12 oz. trout, 8 to 10 oz., 2 eggs
when boned % cup milk
corn meal or flour
Clean trout, season with salt and pepper, then dip in corn meal or flour. Then,
if desired, dip from flour to light batter of eggs and milk mixed together well.
Saute in bacon fat or oil, placing the skinned side up, if boned, for even browning,
but place skinned side down on serving plate.
Serve with julienne almonds.
Blanch almonds in boiling water, remove to cold water and skin. Sliver with
knife and brown evenly in butter. Add lemon juice and a little salt. Place down the
center of the trout. Serve with parsley, drawn butter, and bacon strips.
To bone trout:
With a sharp knife start from head, slip under rib bone, work down the bone to
back bone, to tail. Start on the other side and with the knife, do the same, clip bone
off, leaving head and tail in place. Open trout out flat and prepare as above.
Slices of Colorado Beef Tenderloin
(Created for President Eisenhower during his stay at the Summer White House)
3 lbs. Colorado beef tenderloin, sliced 6 green onions, fiinely chopped
12 baby carrots 1 lb. mushrooms, sliced
% lb. butter or substitute Vz clove garlic
!4 c. cooking oil
Melt butter and oil in hot frying pan. Season slices of beef with salt and pepper
and brown them in the hot mixture, so that beef is still rare. Remove beef to baking
dish. In frying pan, simmer onions, garlic, and mushrooms for five minutes.
Demiglace ingredients:
1 lb. veal bones 1 stock celery
1 lb. beef bones 1 large onion
1 large carrot
Cut vegetables into small pieces, and add:
1 bay leaf 1 c. cooking oil
Vz c. flour 1 bunch parsley or stems, cut fine
Put oil in roasting pan, add beef and veal bones and vegetables. Roast for
twenty minutes, uncovered, at 3500 Add flour, bay leaf, parsley, and cook until brown.
Add one gallon water, salt and pepper, cook until fluid is reduced to one quart. Strain.
Add the one quart of demiglace and simmer one hour. Pour the sauce over slices
of beef; lay the carrots (cooked until tender and buttered) on top of beef. Heat
and serve. Yield: six servings.
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RECIPES FROM THE WESTERN STATES MISSION 309
Colorado Rocky Ford Cantaloupe Salad
(Grown only in this area and a favorite with the people)
Cut Cantaloupe in half. Remove seeds and crisscross or ruffle edges.
Fill with Colorado fresh peaches, sliced or in balls, seedless grapes, banana slices,
pineapple chunks, or other seasonable fruits, such as strawberries. Top with a sprig
of mint. Chill and serve with a Princess Dressing.
Princess Dressing is made by using a mayonnaise base, adding a small amount of
currant or grape jelly for color, and folding in whipped cream flavored with honey to
suit taste.
2 c. pinto beans
Vi lb. rind of pork
4 tbsp. molasses
Baked Colorado Pinto Beans
i tsp. mustard
salt to taste
onion, if desired
Cook beans until almost soft. Score the salt pork rind and place in the bottom
of a casserole. Cover with the beans, molasses, mustard, a little salt, and onion, if
desired. Put remaining salt pork on top with rind up. Cover dish and bake slowly
for several hours, adding more water if necessary. Near the end of baking time, re-
move cover, and brown on top. Cook beans in soaking water to save the vitamin B1
or thiamine.
Variation: Pour a tomato sauce over the pinto beans previously cooked with the
salt pork. Sauce is made by cooking stewed tomatoes with a few celery leaves, bay
leaf, or other seasoning. Strain and thicken with i tbsp. butter and 2 tbsp. flour to
1 c. strained tomatoes,
cheese and brown.
Mix together and bake until heated through. Top with grated
Mile-High Cake Recipes — 5,280 Feet Altitude
Burnt-Sugar Cake
Vi c. shortening
1 lA c. sugar
2 egg yolks
3 tbsp. burnt sugar syrup
1 tsp. vanilla
2/4 c. sifted cake flour
1 Ys tsp. baking powder
Vi tsp. salt
3A c. cold water
2 egg whites, % c. sugar
Cream shortening and sugar, add beaten egg yolks, add sifted flour, baking powder,
salt, vanilla, alternating with cold water and burnt sugar syrup. Beat egg whites until
foamy, adding !4 c. sugar and beat until stiff. Fold into batter. Bake in two 9"
layer pans, greased and floured, at 37 5 ° oven for 25 to 30 minutes.
Burnt sugar syrup: Stir and melt slowly in skillet, one-half cup sugar. Allow
it to brown slightly. Add one-half cup boiling water and cook until smooth. Cool
before using.
For cake flour: Add two tablespoons corn starch to one cup of all-purpose flour
and sift thoroughly.
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White Cake
Vi c. shortening
1 !4 c. sugar
l c. minus i tbsp. milk
4 egg whites
2 c. sifted cake flour
2 tsp. baking powder
i tsp. salt
i tsp. vanilla
Soften shortening, add sugar gradually, then add dry ingredients, alternating with
milk. Beat egg whites stiff, but not dry. Fold carefully into batter, add vanilla. Bake
in two round 8" greased cake pans, lined with greased wax paper. Bake at 37 50 for
30 to 35 minutes.
The Golden Years
Maggie Tolman Porter
THE full life of a man is con-
sidered to be three score and
ten. If we accept this as
standard, then all the years above
seventy, we shall call the Golden
Years.
Just how are we to spend this
precious bonus?
Far too many of us spend it in
self-pity, discouragement, vain re-
grets; and too many of us dwell only
in the past, with no plans for the
present or the future.
When we have no longer a goal
to reach, no ambition to achieve,
no interests to take our time and
efforts, we may become senile, for
we cannot remain static. We must
progress, or we retrogress. In simple
words, if we wish to keep all our
faculties, we must use them. A
muscle soon becomes weak and
flabby if we cease to exercise it. So
it is with the mind; if we cease to
use the faculties God has given us,
we retrogress.
During the Golden Years life
may be filled with desires to achieve
and accomplish things for which
one had no time while rearing sons
and daughters. Then each day and
hour seem shorter, more precious
than the yesterdays. It seems that
there is a gleam of a diamond-stud-
ded dawn as each golden day is
born. The desire to accomplish
keeps us young.
This formula for growing old
gracefully has been of great worth.
Of greatest importance is to make
your peace with God. Cherish the
testimony that Jesus is the Christ,
truly the Only Begotten of the
Father, that he was resurrected; that
we will live after death. Know that
he hears and answers prayers. He
may say "No" to many of our re-
quests, because of our lack of wis-
dom in asking, just as we, as par-
ents, refuse the unwise demands of
our children.
To have our prayers answered, we
must have a positive approach, and,
first and last, add 'Thy will be done,
not mine alone, dear Lord."
That is faith, but faith without
works is dead, so the Book of Books
tells us. Do everything within your
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power to help the Lord answer your
petition. If you ask him to bless
the poor, the suffering, and those in
sorrow, go out and do something to
help them yourself. It may be only
a word of encouragement, attention
to some neglected child, a loaf of
fragrant home-baked bread, a glass
of your favorite jelly, a telephone
call to some homebound person,
less fortunate than yourself, either
friend or stranger.
That is works.
We aie really old when desire is
gone. A desire and will to ac-
complish something keep us young.
Something within that driving pow-
er helps us to grow old gracefully.
Don't dwell on your aches and
pains and let them absorb all your
thoughts and conversations. We all
have ailments, and remember, they
are no worse than we think they are.
Don't worry and give up too much
to those pains and aches. Pray for
strength and courage to bear them
with a minimum of complaining.
They are a part of the golden years.
Of importance, also, is the word
service.
Granted, we may not be able to
do much manual service for any-
one. Perhaps we are even beyond
giving service to ourselves.^ We
may be chair or bed patients. There
is still service awaiting us. Write
cheery letters to loved ones and to
the sick and sorrowing, and to
friends. The hand may tremble,
but write anyway, or, if possible, use
the typewriter. You will find it fun
to peck it out with one finger, if
you are not fortunate enough to
have had experience in typing.
The secret is: Do something for
someone and forget yourself and
your miseries. If you are in tune
with the Infinite, you will be led to
write and say words of wisdom and
love to comfort those whom you
contact.
Love is the key. Have your heart
so filled with love for all mankind
that there will be no room for ha-
tred, jealousy, bitterness, discourage-
ment, or remorse, which are all
negative attributes. Fill your soul
with positive ones, instead.
One sad part of our golden years
is that many of us must spend those
years alone. Our life's companion
may have been called home. Thrice
blessed are you when you can sit
in the golden gloaming, side by side.
Cherish each other, be understand-
ing, tolerant, and loving.
We have been building our mem-
ories for the golden years each day
of our lives. It is truly up to us
what that harvest of our memories
will be. They have a way of creep-
ing upon us in our solitude. Pleas-
ant memories bring us uncounted
pleasure. Sad, regretful memories
bring sorrow and tears.
Our life is like a garden. We reap
what we sow, whether it be joy and
satisfaction, or regret and tears.
Have we planted the rose of for-
giveness, the bright-faced pansy of
pleasant and loving thoughts, the
seeds of truth and virtue and love
for God and mankind?
If these we have tenderly nur-
tured as the years have glided by,
they will be joy and comfort and
peace to us as we fall asleep on the
Saturday eve of our last Golden
Year.
Standing Pat
Frances C. Yost
CLAIR Seaton frowned at Pat,
her teenage daughter. "Well,
I think you could at least dry
the dishes!"
"Wish I could help you, Momie
darling, but I just have to get to
the first game." Pat gave her a
peck on the cheek and in her usual
gay, carefree way, ran from the
house.
Alone, with her hands in the dish
suds, Clair made a mental rehearsal
of every move Pat had made since
she breezed into the house after
school.
Pat had thrown down her coat,
scarf, books, then turned on the
radio rather loudly not to miss any
of the latest "pop" tunes. Then she
had spread herself a generous slice
of bread, butter, peanut butter, and
jam, and sat down to read the fun-
nies, laughing occasionally above the
din of the radio rock-and-roll music.
Funnies read completely, Pat had
pulled out the ironing board, pressed
her cheerleader outfit, then shined
her shoes. Then she enjoyed two
prolonged telephone conversations
with friends with whom she had
spent the day at school. By then
supper was on the table, and Pat
had managed not to turn her hand
toward helping.
Well, this isn't going to continue,
Clair thought as she bent over the
sink. She just isn't going to get
away with it. Pat used to be a good
worker around the house, and I'll
just have to see that she helps more
now that she's older.
Since the dishes are up to me to
do alone, I might as well get going,
Clair sighed.
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The sigh was heard in the living
room, where her husband, Mel Sea-
ton was reading the paper. Mel
dropped his paper reluctantly and
came into the kitchen.
He put his arms around Clair's
waist, as she stood at the sink.
"What's the matter, Momie?"
Mel asked.
Clair wished Mel wouldn't call
her "Momie," when the children
weren't around.
"What's the matter, Momie?" he
repeated.
Clair sighed again. "I'm just tired,
I guess. Mel, do you realize I haven't
had an ounce of help from Pat since
the basketball season started?"
"I'm not at all surprised," Mel re-
joined. "When I was on the main
basketball team in high school, my
family didn't see me at all, unless
they came to a game and watched
me on the floor. Clair, what say
we take in the game together to-
night?"
"Mel, don't you realize I'm worn
out from doing every bit of house-
work myself. Anyway, I don't un-
derstand basketball as you do."
"You don't have to understand all
the plays to enjoy it. Just count
the baskets each side puts in. Easy
as that! Why you haven't seen a
game all season."
"But, Mel, I have the mending
to do this evening and. . . ."
"The mending will keep, Clair.
You're going to the game tonight
and watch Patty lead the Pep Club."
♦ * *
HpHE superintendent was giving
some form of welcome as Mel
and Clair Seaton walked into the
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313
gymnasium. They had just found
seats in the center of the balcony,
when their own hometown, the
Lincoln High, band started playing
"America," and the spectators all
arose. Then it was that Clair saw
her. Pat came through the big
front door of the gym carrying a
very large silk flag. It was on a
long pole, which must weigh pounds
and pounds, yet Pat carried it regal-
ly, patriotically, reverently. Patty
had never mentioned that she was
the flag bearer. But Clair had never
asked her, either. Immediately be-
hind Pat were three girls. Yes,
Clair knew them, Karen, Nancy,
and Sue, the other cheerleaders.
They were, like Pat, dressed in white
satin full-gored dresses and wore the
red school emblem on the front.
The cheerleaders were prancing
sort of like high-stepping horses
in time to the music, and in step
with Pat, a little ahead. To the
very center of the gym Pat came
with the beautiful flag flowing be-
hind her. Then they all stood, and
Pat led the whole gym full of people
with the salute to the flag.
Clair felt her eyes brimming, as
she placed her hand over her heart.
How long had it been since she her-
self had pledged allegiance to the
flag? "One nation under God, in-
divisible, with liberty and justice for
all." The words were as beautiful
now as she had thought them when
she herself went to school.
Now the game was commencing.
The two teams, their own Lincoln
High and the opposing team, the
Bickel Lligh, were running on the
floor, and everyone was cheering.
The two referees in black striped
suits came forward, and tossed the
ball in the center of the floor. Clair
could see both teams were out to
win. Why this was equally as ex-
citing as a three-ring circus.
Clair looked over toward the
cheering section to see if she could
see Pat. There she was, motioning
for a cheer. What were they shout-
ing?
A tisket, a tasket, put the ball in the basket.
Come on boys pitch it in, may the best
team win.
Clair could hear Pat's vibrant
voice above the others. May the
best team win, she repeated. Why
that was right sporting of them. She
would have to remember to tell Pat
what a nice cheer that was. They
certainly were being good sports
about it.
lV/IEL had said for her to keep her
eye on the ball. She looked
back and saw Lincoln High's own
Max Sheldon, the big boy who
played center, had the ball now. He
was pitching it; it fluttered over the
basket, and then dropped in. Every-
one sighed.
"Yea, Max! Yea, Lincoln High!"
the cheering section shouted. Pat's
voice was familiar to Clair above the
others.
Clair glanced at the scoreboard.
Lincoln High had the first two
points anyway. Oh, oh, Bickel
High had the ball and was making
a basket. Back and forth the ten
boys worked retrieving the ball,
pitching it, retrieving and pitching.
But Lincoln High wasn't making
baskets. It was as if someone had
put an invisible lid over the Lincoln
High basket and the ball just
couldn't go in. Clair looked at the
scoreboard. My goodness, Bickel
High had passed Lincoln High! The
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score was ten, two. Clair wrung her
handkerchief. Something had to
be done! But Pat was doing some-
thing about it. She was leading
with a cheer!
We have a coach who is the best
The very best coach in all the West.
We have a team that's genuine.
Come on boys, we've got to win.
Clair wondered if the boys heard
the cheering on the floor as well as
she could, but they must have heard,
because they immediately made a
basket. Clair turned quickly to look
at the scoreboard, but the score wras
disheartening. Bickel High eleven,
Lincoln only four. Then the whistle
blew, and it was the end of the first
quarter.
There were Pat and the other
cheerleaders stepping out farther
on the floor and doing a clever rou-
tine. Clair watched them breath-
lessly. It was beautiful, like a ballet
dance, but they were doing it to
band music. They were singing the
Lincoln High School song. Clair
found herself singing along, too. A
person should sing more, it was good
for the soul, she thought.
It was then that Pat noticed her
with Mel up in the balcony. Pat
smiled broadly, and waved a little
personal wave of her own, special
for Clair.
The second quarter was beginning.
The referees were holding the ball
for the jump. If only something
could be done to spur the Lincoln
High bovs to score and catch up.
Then Clair heard Pat's familiar
voice at high C pitch shouting a
cheer.
The cheering must help. Lincoln
had made another basket. Clair was
glad she and Mel were seated in
the center balcony where she could
see so well. She watched every
movement of the ball. A basket for
one side, a basket for the other, but
always Bickel High seemed to keep
that good margin ahead. Then it
was the end of the half. Clair looked
at the scoreboard. Bickel High was
eighteen, Lincoln trailing behind
with twelve points.
She
PLAIR looked over at Pat
hoped she wouldn't take the
score too hard. Winning meant
much to Pat. But Pat was smiling,
a sort of fixed showmanship smile,
and she was leading the marching
club onto the floor.
This was why Pat had stayed so
long night after night at school. The
girls marched down the floor in
perfect step, perfect formation, sort
of like soldiers. When Pat whistled
the marching team changed posi-
tions. Now they were forming four
rows and marching off the floor.
Now the second half of the game
was beginning. Clair looked at the
scoreboard again, but Bickel High
was still those six points ahead of
them. She found herself saying the
words under her breath. ''Our team
must win."
Clair heard the Pep Club shout-
ing. She turned and watched Pat
leading the cheer, her voice clear
and strong.
Why the cheering really must
help the players, for after each yell
it seemed the boys pitched a basket.
Who had made this one? Yes, it
was big Max Sheldon again. Now
they were doing fine team work. The
Lincoln High boys were putting in
basket after basket.
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315
After each basket Pat was shout- Roll up that score, roll up that score,
ing: 'Tea Max, Yea Charles, Yea Ro11 «P that score as y°uVe never done
^D .,, before.
^enny! Roll> Lincoln> roll!
/^LAIR looked around for the
boys' mothers. But they didn't
seem to be here. They should be
here to enjoy the glory heaped upon
their boys. How could she herself
have missed so many games when
her being here meant so much to
Pat?
Then the dreadful thing hap-
pened! Max, the big wonderful cen-
ter, fell. The game was temporarily
stopped. The coach rushed from
the bench to where Max lay, unable
to get up. Even Clair knew what
this meant to Lincoln High. What
was Mel saying?
"He's their best player. They can't
get along without Max Sheldon."
The people started rushing onto
the floor, but the coach was saying,
"Stand back, give him air."
Then Max was carried from the
floor. The coach over the loud
speaker said that it was a sprain,
nothing serious, but that Max could
not play the rest of the game.
Little Mike Roper, a junior, was
replacing big Max Sheldon. Clair
could tell about how he felt. Sort
of scared, and afraid of the job he
had to do, filling Max's shoes, yet
proud to serve, to help his school.
What this boy needed was a pat on
the back to let him know he was
important, and that he really was
capable of filling his new position.
Pat was giving him just the en-
couragement he needed.
"Let's give three cheers for Mike!"
she shouted up at the cheering sec-
tion.
Mike smiled and ran to retrieve
the ball. Then from the cheering
section came another loud cheer:
It seemed to Clair the cheering
was all it took. Mike, who had felt
too insignificant to replace big Max
Sheldon, had a job to do and was
doing it. Steadily the five men took
up the routine play which netted
basket after basket.
"Such teamwork!" Mel shouted
in Clair's ear. "Such teamwork.
That will do it like nothing else."
"Have you watched Pat?" Clair
asked her husband.
"Too busy watching the game."
He laughed. "She's doing a good
job though. Giving the boys cour-
age."
That was it, Clair thought. Pat
was giving courage when they need-
ed it. Everyone needed to know
someone was cheering for him.
She should have been doing more
cheering for Pat. Clair glanced at
the time clock. Why they were on
the last minute of the third quarter.
Mike Roper was in the center of
the gym holding the ball and won-
dering if there was time to do some-
thing. When he heard the shout
"throw," he threw. The ball flew
through the air, then dipped over
the basket, made contact, and by so
doing upped the score two points
to tie the game at the close of the
third quarter.
A sigh went through the crowd.
"Good going," Mel shouted in
Clair's ear. She reached over and
squeezed his hand.
Now the fourth quarter, the
home stretch was upon them. Yet
it was like starting a new game
because of the tied score. Clair
found herself joining with the
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Lincoln spectators and shouting,
"Come on boys!"
Mel poked her gently, smiled and
said, "Let your little daughter do
the cheering, Momie."
Momie, the same word which had
so annoyed her two hours ago, now
it sounded sweet to her ears. It's
all in the frame of mind, Clair
thought.
The entire building was as if it
was rocking with vibrations, the
band playing, the cheering, the coax-
ing and shouting from the spec-
tators.
rPHE ball, like a jumping jack,
went from one end of the hall to
the other, never stopping, never idle,
always the center of attraction with
hundreds of eyes constantly upon it.
Clair realized that Pat would be
hoarse when it was all over. Thank
goodness there wasn't another game
for a few nights, perhaps she could
recover in time to shout again at
the next one. Never mind the next
one, Clair chided herself. This game
is the important one.
The boys were making quite a
few baskets now. One after an-
other, but the two teams were nip
and tuck, and it was the last minute
and still it could be anybody's game.
What could be done to win? Clair
wrung her handkerchief helplessly.
She couldn't remember when she
had been so excited. Then from the
cheering section:
Ten baskets, five baskets, two will do.
Come on Lincoln we're for you!
Suddenly Mike Roper pitched a
basket in, which brought the score
two points ahead of Bickel High.
Such shouting and screaming! Ordi-
narily this much racket would have
sent Clair's head skyrocketing.
Could it be that because her own
mouth was open cheering and shout-
ing, the pressure was relieved?
The ball was in the hands of
Lincoln's boys. The ball flew
through the air, landed in the bas-
ket to score, just before the clock
pinged out the time, and the game
was over.
Clair looked up at the scoreboard
as everyone else was doing. "Visitors
44, Hometown 48." Lincoln High
was the home team. They had won!
Clair looked around for Pat. She
must be exhausted. But Pat had
run out on the floor to the team.
"Congratulations!" Pat shouted,
loud enough for even Clair to hear.
What were they saying to Pat?
"We couldn't have done it with-
out you, Pat, and the Pep Club. It
kept us going like nothing else. We
knew you were behind us all the
way."
Yes, Clair thought, Pat had stood
behind the team, the school, the
community, but who had stood be-
hind Pat? She vowed she would
be a more understanding mother, a
cheerer.
How could she have expected Pat
to do more than she was already
doing? She, not Pat, had been in
the wrong this particular time. She
forever complaining about head-
aches, and a few dishes and house-
work, and never bothering to come
to the games.
Clair felt tears wanting to be evi-
denced, but she blinked them back.
Clair was happy about the results
of the game, but, mostly, she was
happy about the change in herself
which this certain game had brought
about. She had a score of her own
to roll up and cache away.
Hot KynliL [By {Bread
Dorothy J. Roberts
"IVTOT only by bread, were we children fed by my mother — but by
cake and righteousness and the constancy of her presence; not only by
bread, though it was always there — a fragrance on the day, the house,
the street. And my mother's righteousness was as ever-present as the
bread, as she was ever-present. Her righteousness knew its boundaries.
They were distinct boundaries, with good and evil clearly fenced, and with
never a misty line between to baffle us. She lived within those boundaries
and taught us to do the same. We sat in church of a Sunday; she saw to
it. The very roots of memory seem to begin at the meetinghouse in the
faint scent of talcum drifting from under the collar of her dress, the warmth
of the hall releasing it in a sweet aura around her.
If food is one of the joys of life — and surely it is — then my mother
gave us joy, daily. Oh, the mysteries she placed before our hunger — tak-
en from the oven or the shiny black top of her coal range. And no one
was ever forgotten. For the late or absent, the choicest portions were
stored in the dark cavern of the warming-oven, safe and succulent, waiting
to heal weariness or discouragement — luscious roast, beans baked brown
with homemade chili sauce, parsnips boiled and then browned in butter,
Danish dumplings exquisitely shaped, floating among tiny islands of gold-
en fat where bits of green parsley grew like palms— there were the celestial
lemon pies and the king of pies, dewberries, and brown betty with cream,
rich and golden.
At the end of a day working in the fruit, or after a day's skating on
the humped canals, or in the twilight following an afternoon's swimming
in the creek, there waited the treasure at the end of the rainbowed hours:
my mother's heavenly food and she, neat and clean, always there to serve it.
Only a few times a year she left us for a half day's shopping. The
house was clean and unbelievably empty, and hollow, with a cold feeling
even on the hottest days. We watched for her return and ran to meet her
and carry the mysterious parcels with the strange goodies for us, which we
always knew she had hidden away. Then the house was suddenly warm
again, and the emptiness filled with hei.
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e/j cJoo, YVant to iue Useful
Aslaug S. Vaieland
\ T was one day, not very long after we handicapped also want to be use-
I had come to this country as an ful persons, and try to live a normal
immigrant, that something very life. Where there is a will, there
pleasant happened to me. The Presi- also is a way, and if the handicapped
dent of Relief Society in our ward person has the will, he can do
told me they were planning to have almost anything; but he also needs
a ward dinner in a few days, and the good will of those around him,
would I come along with a group of the will to help him to help him-
other women to help with the prep- self.
arations for the dinner? First, I Just a couple of days ago, I was
thought that I must have misunder- again asked to help with a dinner,
stood her, but no, it was no mistake, There I was, crumbing an unbeliev-
she had really asked me to help with ably great amount of bread, helping
the preparations for the ward din- to mix it together with some other
ner, just as if I were in no way ingredients, so that the result would
different from the others. be a nice dressing for the turkeys.
"Oh," I stammered, "do you real- The kitchen was filled with activi-
ty, really think that I can be of any ties, busy women went about doing
use to you?" their tasks, I could not see them,
"Of course," she answered, cheer- neither hear them, but I knew they
fully. "Why not? We all know were chatting. By the sense of smell
that you can do almost all the and touch, I could tell what some
things that others can do." of them were doing.
Those were words I needed most One of them came to talk to me;
to hear; they warmed my heart; gave when people are talking to me, they
me faith and confidence in myself; have to use their hands, and this
yes, they meant a lot to me. woman had some very wet and cold
You see, I am both blind and hands, so I knew she was cleaning
deaf, and I have grown used to the vegetables. Then, too, another
idea that people around me consid- woman, not very far from me, surely
er me as not being capable of doing was grinding onion, because my
anything very useful. Whenever I tears kept running, although I was
wanted to be of some kind of help, especially happy that day.
I was never accepted. "No, this is I thought to myself as I stood
too dangerous for you"; "No, this there stirring in this mountain of
is too hard for you"; or they were dressing, they told me that this
afraid I would spoil something. The dressing was to be put in the turk-
only place on this earth where they eys, but to me it seems that the
thought I belonged was in a good turkeys must be put in the dressing!
comfortable chair. How could I That thought was so funny, that I
make them understand how wrong could not help smiling. A woman
they were and how much I longed must have been watching me, be-
to be among them and do my little cause she came and asked if I was
share? having fun.
It is hard for others to realize that Soon I was on the move, I would
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I, TOO, WANT TO BE USEFUL
319
find myself at the stove, stirring in
a huge kettle, and before I knew it,
I found myself with a terribly dan-
gerous bread knife in my hand,
shredding lettuce.
Yes, I thought, they really have
confidence in me, since they will
trust this awful thing in my hands.
Now I was neither in the way of
others nor sitting in a comfortable
chair, with my hands idle and only
my own thoughts for company; now
I was an important wheel in big
machinery. The very thought made
me happy.
I have been lucky in meeting peo-
ple with the right attitude, and I'm
so grateful that I, too, can be of
some use, in a small way maybe,
but the little wheels are as im-
portant as the big ones, are they
not?
■ m
kJX Case for (contrast
Evalyn Miller Sandberg
Brown moments may be made to serve a purpose.
Suppose you were an artist with a brush:
Would you paint all your lines with equal accent
And never add a shadow's restful hush?
Could you portray upon the stage a story
So simple that it had no plot to solve?
Would you compose concertos or crescendos
Without soft modulation to resolve?
Brown moments may be made to serve a purpose.
Like moving shadows of a bird in flight.
They make time's course from dawn to fading sunset
And add new depth to scarlet-tipped delight.
Crossed vUn
es
Genevieve Van Wagenen
/^NE of the late model cars has a
^^ clever little gadget or safety device
which signals when one goes beyond the
desired speed. If you are driving in the
city, you set it for thirty miles per hour.
Should you go over the thirty miles, a
light flashes and a little buzzer rings until
you slow to the proper speed. Thus you
avoid difficulty with the law.
We, the people of this modern
twentieth century generation, came
equipped with a wonderful safety device
— the same as all previous generations.
This safety device has been called "con-
science" and the "still small voice." Call
it whatever you will, its purpose is to
remind us to be honest and deal justly
with our fellow men. It is a most valu-
able instrument. It develops understand-
ing, brotherhood, and love. It insures
peace and harmony — that's what we all
want! But too few people ever hear the
gentle buzzing of this delicate instru-
ment. Thev have their wires crossed with
a gadget called "greed" and "selfishness."
K/lnnie 1 1 tana (bprat/ (bteel //takes
i/tany iuraiaea Lriugs
\ NNIE Maria Spray Steel of Oakley, Idaho, lost her sight soon after her eightieth
■**■ birthday — but she did not lose her joy in new accomplishments. She took
a course in typing from the records for the blind and became a proficient typist. In
February and March of 1959, she visited with her daughter in Salt Lake City, Utah,
where she was instructed in rug making by a teacher from the Center for the Blind.
In one year she has made the rugs shown in the picture.
Mrs. Steel has served the Church in many capacities. As a girl of fifteen she
served as Sunday School organist, and since that time her musical talents and training
have been useful in many types of Church and community work. She has been a
Relief Society member ever since her marriage and served as a ward president for many
years. She attended the dedication of the Salt Lake Temple, and now, at the age of
eighty-four, her memory is excellent. She is the mother of ten children and grand-
mother to eighteen.
(R
esptte
Zara Sabin
I would like to find a quiet upland road
To ramble on, such a day as this . . .
A winding, twisting, wandering country road
To grant release when things have gone amiss.
I would dawdle down its dusty way, and pause
Upon its hills; feel the peace of wood
And glade and stream; remember not applause
Nor blame, but this: "God saw that it was good.
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The Blue Bowl
Part II (Conclusion)
Loya Beck
MARY slipped off her coat,
hanging it on its peg by the
back door. Seeing the cup-
board doors still standing wide, she
walked wearily over to close them.
The blue sugar bowl caught her
eye, and lifting it into her hands,
she felt of its hard-glazed surface.
She remembered when her white-
haired father had painted this piece.
She could see him now with his fine
brushes working painstakingly in the
dim light of his old workshop. He
had promised her this set for her
own, and had taken particular lov-
ing care in perfecting his work.
He had been working on this
shining blue sugar bowl the day
Mary had quietly slipped into his
workshop and sat down by his side,
laying her head lovingly on his
shoulder, her arms about his neck.
She was almost fourteen then, slen-
der, fair-skinned and beautiful, with,
her heavy chestnut hair falling loose-
ly about her shoulders. He had
kissed her cheek and smiled at her
knowingly, expecting to be charmed
into some favor.
When she had told him of her
desire to join The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints, better
known as the "Mormons," the smile
had faded and he had said, "You
are too young to think about reli-
gion, Mary."
"Oh, no, no," Mary had pleaded
earnestly, "I'm not too young, I'm
not."
Her request had been refused at
first, but under the barrage of her
persistent pleadings, Mary's father
had finally allowed her to be bap-
tized.
Awakened from her reminiscence
by the sound of a familiar voice in
the street outside, Mary quickly
brushed away the tears that had
stolen down her cheeks. Through
the window she could see Tom talk-
ing to old Brother Rushton at the
gate. She heard the words, fire
and outskirts of town, and guessed
that there had been another house-
burning by the mob.
Taking leave of his neighbor,
Tom hurried towards the house
with long, swift strides. He was
erect and tall, with wide shoulders
and thick limbs. His boyish freck-
led face was rosy under his cap.
When Tom pushed open the
door, Mary was there to greet him.
"How's my girl?" Tom smiled as
he pulled off his cap, revealing a
shock of unruly red hair.
"I'm fine, Tom," Mary answered.
Trying to appear in a good humor,
she slipped her arms about his neck
and kissed him.
Tom cupped her chin in his big
hand and searched every line of her
features. He returned her kiss
tenderlv, the wrinkles in his brow
deepening.
"At least you are cheerful," he
said.
Without warning, he lifted her
into his arms and carried her to the
bed, laying her down as gently as
if she were a porcelain doll.
"Tom, please, I can't lie here,"
Mary said, laughing. "There's sup-
per, I haven't even started."
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1960
"Pm the cook tonight/' Tom
interjected. "I'll fix you up the
best mulligan stew you ever tasted
in your life."
"I've been through this before,"
Mary said, smiling, "I know your
mulligan stews."
"Where's my son, still napping?"
Tom questioned as he pulled off his
coat and hung it next to Mary's.
"He should be waking, he has
slept extra long this afternoon,"
Mary answered, letting her head
relax into the pillow.
"I'll get him."
"Tom, did Mr. MacDowell find
you?" Mary questioned.
"Yes, Mary, he found me— I ac-
cepted his offer, little as it was, we're
lucky— blessed to get that. I haven't
told vou this before, but some of the
brethren have about given up hope
of selling out at all. The mobo-
crats know they can just walk in
here and help themselves after we
leave. We can use the cows and
the rifle, too.'"
Mary felt her chin quivering, and
she looked away from Tom. "All
right, you know best," she answered
softly.
TOM bounded up the stairs, and
soon Alma's high - pitched
shrieks of joy, coupled with his
father's bellowing laughter, resound-
ed down the steps.
Obeying orders, Mary stayed in
bed while Tom fixed the supper, his
two-year-old, red-haired counterpart
by his side— helping. They sang old
English nonsense songs full of life
and fun, Alma shouting out the last
word of each familiar phrase. In
spite of the gaiety, Mary thought
she noticed a droop in Tom's broad
shoulders.
"Tom, when you set the table,"
Mary asked, "will you set it with
mother's best linen tablecloth and
my china and silver?"
"What's the celebration?" Tom
inquired.
"Just being at home." Mary an-
swered gravely. "Just being at
home, Tom."
Later, when dinner was over and
Tom had tucked Alma into bed for
the night, he came down into the
shadowed room where Mary was
sleeping and sat down on the edge
of the bed. Mary opened her eyes
and he smiled down at her. "There's
a dance tonight, want to go?"
"I'd love to go," Mary smiled.
"But, I always believed three to be
a crowd."
They laughed, and the laugh
faded. Resting his elbows on his
knees, Tom rubbed the palms of his
hands together thoughtfully. "These
have been happy days, Mary." His
eyes stared into the blazing fire.
"They have been happy days for
both of us," Mary answered warmly,
reaching out slim fingers to touch
his arm.
"Seeing the temple take shape
before our eyes, working day and
night alongside the brethren to
build it "
"And selling all our spare cloth-
ing to get money enough to live
on in the meantime," Mary chimed
in, smiling. "Still we have been
happv, really happy."
Tom looked down at his wife.
Her brown curls were falling loosely
over the pillow's crisp whiteness.
The happy smile on her face did not
hide the signs of illness there. Tom
glanced away and bowed his head
in the thought, why do they have
to force us out now— in the dead of
winter? He rubbed his mouth over
the back of a clenched fist and
THE BLUE BOWL
323
then buried his head in his hands.
We told them we would leave in
the spring— why couldn't they at
least let us wait until spring?
"We know we are not alone,
Tom/' Mary reminded him calm-
ly, running her free hand through
his hair.
Tom bowed his head and prayed
aloud so that Mary could share in
his words. . . . The familiar closing
words of Tom's prayer brought
Mary the comfort she needed:
"Hasten the day of thy judgment,
O Lord," he said, "and he that en-
dureth to the end shall be saved."
# # # # $
FEBRUARY 26, 1846, dawned
clear and cold. A frigid north-
ern blast spread a chill hand over
Illinois. One wintery finger had
dabbled in the mighty Mississippi,
setting there a bridge of ice, reach-
ing from shore to shore. Caravans
of lumbering wagons streaked out
across this glassy thoroughfare; the
exodus from Nauvoo was already
well underway, and the sounds of
shouting men, the bawling of cattle,
and the wails of children were cap-
tured in the frosty air. The van-
guard company had set up camp
six miles from the river at Sugar
Creek, Iowa, with Brigham Young
at the head.
Arriving at Sugar Creek in the
late afternoon, Tom and Mary
cleared away the snow in order to
pitch a tent made from their wagon
cover.
Later that night as the moon cast
a white light across the hard crusted
snow, penciling in the shadows
from the winter-stripped trees along
the creek, Tom found himself run-
ning for water and setting it to boil
over the blazing fire he had built
near the tent. When the tasks at
hand were completed and the
women who had come to help Mary
had chased him away, Tom paced
nervously about the camp, observ-
ing the activities of his fellow exiles.
A white city of tents and covered
wagons had mushroomed during the
day and more were still coming.
Tom observed a rude hut in front
of him as he walked. Its roof ap-
peared to be made of loose bark,
and its sides were formed by blank-
ets fastened to poles stuck in the
ground. A woman with a tiny baby
on one arm was preparing supper
over an open fire and trying to com-
fort three small children who clung
to her skirts, crying from the cold.
Those without wagon covers were
fixing beds beneath their overloaded
wagons.
"Can vou hear it, Brother Lee?"
a quivering voice questioned.
Tom turned to see old Brother
Rushton coming up behind him. A
sack of meal was slung heavily across
his shoulders.
"Hear what?" Tom questioned.
"Why the bell," the old man said.
"Can't you hear the temple bell?"
Tom lifted his head and listened
carefully, the cold air nipping at his
cheeks. Faintly on the clear night
air, the distant peal of the large
bell atop the temple reached his
ears. Tom looked down into the
old man's withered face and saw
tears streaming over his cheeks.
"Where's your camp?" Tom ques-
tioned gruffly as he lifted the sack
of meal from the old man's bony
shoulders and placed it on his own.
^HE dawn slipped over the snowy
horizon in somber silence.
Mary lay in her drafty shelter,
324 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1960
wrapped in heavy quilts. Alma was pulling back the covers to reveal
bedded down with four other chil- the small, red face beneath her arm.
dren in a neighbor's tent. In the ''Let me hold her/' Tom said. "I
curved shelter of her arm, snuggled won't let her get cold."
close to her own body, Mary held Mary nodded, and Tom lifted the
the precious warmth of her new- tiny bundle into his arms, shelter-
born child. She could hear Tom ing her within his great open coat,
conversing with Sister Remington He looked down at the sleepy little
outside the tent. Sister Remington face in wonderment and rocked her
had attended her throughout the gently back and forth in his arms,
night. She was not an experienced "How is Alma? Have you seen
midwife, merely a mother of ten him?"
of her own, all living. "He is still fast asleep. He didn't
"How is she?" Tom was saying. fuss too much last night when I put
"She's a plucky little girl," the him to bed. He was a pretty tired
buxom, gray-haired mother an- boy."
swered. "The baby's fine, a healthy "He'll be pleased to have a sister."
little girl. The birth was — well, "Won't he though?" Tom agreed,
it wasn't easy; but nothing serious, as he pulled back the coverlet to
you understand. I think the milk place the baby back in her mother's
leg is setting in; it'll be painful for arms.
her, but she'll get over it. I had Then, reaching into his shirt,
it with six of mine. You go in to Tom brought out a round object
her now. I better get back to my wrapped in sheepskin. "Mary, I
own family. I'll be back soon as I wanted to give you something . . ."
see they get breakfast." he stammered, a rush of color ris-
Mary heard the crunch of snow ing into his cheeks. "You are pretty
as Sister Remington hurried away, precious to me. I love you very
Pulling back the flap of the tent, much— I only wish I could give
Tom entered, bringing with him a you. . . ." His voice faltered,
fresh rush of frosty breezes. Rev- Mary unfolded the sheepskin cov-
erently he tiptoed to the side of the ering to find, gleaming within it, in
mattress where Mary was lying. Re- all its fragile loveliness, the blue
moving his cap, he dropped to one sugar bowl. She fingered the bowl
knee. "How's my girl?" he whis- silently, a soft glow warming her
pered. pale cheeks. She looked up at her
"Just fine," Mary smiled weakly, husband, her eyes wet, but shining.
There was a moment of silence and "This sugar bowl and happiness
an exchange of understanding must go together, Tom," she said
glances. "See," Mary said, break- softly. "It looks as if we'll be tak-
ing the silence between them and ing them both with us."
> ♦ «
Co/? temp la tion
Catherine B. Bowles
Happiness brings the sunshine,
While sorrow darkens the view.
No clond will cast a shadow
Till the sun comes shining through.
Magazine Honor Roll for 1959
Counselor Marianne C. Sharp
f)N December 5, 1914, the Presi-
dent of the Church, Joseph F.
Smith, sent a telegram from Ocean
Park, California, to President Emme-
line B. Wells, General Board of the
Relief Society, as follows:
Accept my sincere congratulations and
heartiest greetings in honor of the birth of
The Relief Society Magazine. May it
enter upon its noble mission so firmly
entrenched about by the bulwarks of
worthy and capable endeavor and enduring
truth that its career may be successful and
glorious.
(Signed) Joseph F. Smith
The General Board at this time
would wish it possible that they
might send a message or, better yet,
give a personal expression of grati-
tude to every stake and ward Relief
Society Magazine representative who
has faithfully and diligently ful-
filled her calling to bring about the
excellent achievement in placing
The Relief Society Magazine in the
homes of 162,589 people throughout
the world. This total is an increase
of 7,961 subscriptions over the year
1958, a commendable increase. The
career of the Magazine today would
seem to be proving ''successful and
glorious," as President Smith wished
for it, and the General Board earn-
estly endeavors to entrench it
"about by the bulwarks of worthy
and capable endeavor and enduring
truth."
The record of the stakes in plac-
ing the Magazine in the homes of
the Church is an encouraging one.
In 1959 there were ninety stakes
which had 100 per cent or over
subscriptions in proportion to Relief
Society members; in 1958 there
were seventy-two. There are three
fewer stakes not on the honor roll
— twenty-eight as against thirty-one.
There are 258 stakes on the honor
roll, an increase of eleven. There
are thirty stakes this past year which
had every ward 100 per cent or over,
and in 1958 there were only nine-
teen. There are 2016 wards on the
honor roll in 1959, and there were
1912 wards in 1958 — an increase of
104 wards. The mean for all the
stakes is ninety-one per cent as com-
pared to ninety in 1958.
For the thirteenth consecutive
year the South Los Angeles Stake
leads the Church with the highest
percentage — 192 per cent, and with
the highest number of subscriptions
— 1350. Of the ten stakes with
highest ratings five stakes are in
California, four in Idaho, and one
in Utah. The wards are again led
by the South Gate Ward of the
South Los Angeles Stake with 341
per cent. Congratulations are ex-
tended to these and other stakes
making outstanding records. Thirty-
one have shown great increases,
with Santa Barbara Stake leading,
with an increase of thirty-nine per
cent.
The missions have shown remark-
able progress in 1959, and the Gen-
eral Board is happy to welcome the
South African Mission among those
on the honor roll which, with the
Canadian Mission and the West
Canadian Mission, are the ones rep-
resented outside Continental United
States. The first place among the
missions again goes to the West-
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326 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1960
em States Mission with 124 per can read English or whose children
cent. The highest rating of a dis- can interpret for faithful Relief So-
trict is the Platte Valley District of ciety mothers. The Relief Society
the Western States Mission, with Magazine is a binding tie among
333 per cent. The mean for the Relief Society members the world
missions on the honor roll has risen over. Its contents reflect earnest
from eighty-five per cent in 1958 to endeavor on the part of Latter-day
ninety-one per cent in 1959, a Saint women writers to give the best
marked increase. There are sixteen of their thinking and ability for the
missions on the honor roll in 1959, advancement of their sisters. The
as there were in 1958, but the mis- programs of Relief Society present-
sion branches on the honor roll have ed by the General Board therein
increased from 538 to 585, an in- present truth and mirror facets to
crease of forty-seven branches. illumine all phases of Latter-day
Foreign-speaking missions which Saint women's work upon the earth,
cannot subscribe to The Relief So- Again the General Board would ex-
ciety Magazine as do English-speak- press gratitude to each individual
ing missions express great apprecia- Magazine representative whose zeal-
tion to members of the stakes who ous efforts have spread the knowl-
send gift subscriptions to the Gen- edge and inspiration and gospel
eral Board. These are allocated by truth found in the Magazine
foreign-speaking Relief Society mis- throughout the stakes and missions
;sion presidents among members who of the Church.
uionors for OTighest LKa tings
Stake
South Los Angeles (California) 192%
Magazine Representative — Amelia Dellenbach
Ward
South Gate Ward, South Los Angeles Stake (California) 341%
Magazine Representative — Bertha A. Whitehead
Mission
Western States Mission — 124%
Mission Magazine Representative — Daisy R. Romney
Mission District
Platte Valley District, Western States Mission — 206%
Magazine Representative — Irma M. Chandler
Mission Branch
Sidney Branch — 333%
Platte Valley District, Western States Mission
Magazine Representative — Idona B. Richins
Ten Highest Percentages in Stakes
South Los Angeles 192. ...Amelia Dellenbach
Huntington Park 185.— Rachel Liston
Glendale 1 84....Elsie Weber
Magazine Honor Roll for 1959
327
Inglevvood 141... Janet C. Madina
Rexburg 1 38.... Beth Moore
Burley 129.... Virginia Nichols
Oquirrh 129.... Dorothy Smith
East Idaho Falls 121.. ..Bertha Christensen
Monterey Bay 119.... Louise Johnson
Shelley 1 19.... Merle Young
Missions Achieving Ten Highest Percentages
Western States 124.. ..Daisy R. Romney
Northern States 110.. ..Vera C. Stratford
Canadian 105.... Frances J. Monson
Northern California 99-...Leta C. Pugh
Northwestern States 98.. ..Helen K. Richards
West Central States 97.... Anna C. Merrill
Central States 9 5... .Peggy B. Sears
Eastern States 93. ...Olive L. Smith
Great Lakes 89—.Vonda H. Christensen
New England 86.... Alberta S. Baker
Ten Stakes With Highest Number of Suhsciiptions
No.
No.
Subscriptions
Subscriptions
South Los Angeles
1350
Sugar House
896
Glen dale
1265
Twin Falls
895/2
Huntington Park
1165
Las Vegas
895
North Idaho Falls
991
Alpine
865/2
Ensign
945/2
Rexburg
863
Ten Missions With Highest Number of Subscriptions
No.
No.
Subscriptions
Subscriptions
Northern States
1280
British
881
Eastern States
1180
Southern States
862
Central States
1069
Central Atlantic
853/2
West Central States
972
Great Lakes
760
Northwestern States
968
East Central States
755
Stakes in
Which All the Wards Achieved 100% or
Over
Burbank Maude S. McLatchie
Burley Virginia Nichols
Columbia River ....Leah Rudd
East Idaho Falls ....Bertha Christensen
East Long Beach ....Margaret Bryan
East Pocatello Verna Gridley
Glcndale Elsie Weber
Granger Veda L. Dew
Granite Wilma D. Wetzel
Highland Faye M. Swaner
Holladay Lucille B. Crovvther
Huntington Park ....Rachel Liston
Inglewood Janet C. Madina
Las Vegas Lila H. Leavitt
Mt. Jordan Rose A. Brown
North Davis Helen W. Barber
North Pocatello ....Tura Hadley
Pasadena Maude F. Lester
Rexburg Beth Moore
St. Joseph Nira P. Lee
San Diego East ....Shirleymae Jones
Seattle Laura C. Bronner
Shelley Merle Young
South Bear River ....Dorothv B. Kerr
South Los Angeles. .Amelia Dellenbach
South Salt Lake ....Hannah Dietrich
Weber Heights Virginia P. Jensen
West Boise Myrtle B. Oborn
West Covina Lucille C. Hales
Wilford Amy Gerrard
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1960
II Lission [Percentages on uionor [Roll
Western States
Northern States
Canadian
Northern California
Northwestern States
West Central States
124
1 10
105
99
98
97
Central States
Eastern States
Great Lakes
New England
North Central States
95 Gulf States 85
93 Western Canadian 83
89 California 83
86 South African 82
85 East Central States 77
cj takes btf [Percentages —
South Los Angeles
Huntington Park
Glendale
Inglewood
Rexburg
Burley
Oquirrh
East Idaho Falls
Monterey Bay
Shelley
San Diego East
San Diego
Las Vegas
West Boise
Weber Heights
North Idaho Falls
Idaho Falls
Torrance
Burbank
New York
San Joaquin
Box Elder
West Utah
East Sharon
Woodruff
Monument Park
Highland
Grand Junction
Mt. Jordan
Olympus
Minidoka
Holladay
South Salt Lake
East Phoenix
North Pocatello
West Covina
North Rexburg
East Rigby
Reseda
Phoenix North
South Idaho Falls
Gridley
Long Beach
192
,85
184
141
138
129
129
121
119
119
113
112
112
111
111
110
110
110
110
110
110
1 10
110
109
109
108
108
108
108
108
107
107
107
10
10
107
107
107
106
106
106
106
106
Columbia River
East Pocatello
Granger
Granite
Calgary
Nam pa
Seattle
St. Joseph
Twin Falls
Walnut Creek
Raft River
Bannock
San Fernando
Bountiful
Bakersfield
East Long Beach
Kansas City
Pasadena
Boise
American Falls
Lake View
Bonneville
Cassia
South Bear River
Liberty
Tavlor
W'ilford
Rigby
Temple View
University
Great Falls
North Box Elder
Juarez
Nyssa
Sevier
Pocatello
Albuquerque
Juab
Los Angeles
North Davis
Parlevs
Wells
Bear River
106
105
105
105
105
105
105
104
104
104
104
104
104
104
103
103
103
103
103
103
103
103
103
103
102
102
102
102
102
101
101
101
101
101
101
101
101
101
101
100
100
100
100
'959
Santa Ana
West Pocatello
Valley View
Mt. Rubidoux
Washington
Auckland
Malad
Blackfoot
Ensign
Orange County
Bountiful North
Portneuf
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Chicago
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Provo
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Santa Barbara
Franklin
Yellowstone
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Zion Park
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1960
MISSIONS ON HONOR ROLL-1959
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Combed-out gusts of green wind
Caught upon a seven-pronged stick
Tremble with remembered blowings
Though the air be still.
IPratrte School
Luh Walker
She toured her grandson's brand new school
Equipped with every modern tool
Of learning. What could this structure lack?
But Grandma's thoughts went straying back
To school days in a prairie soddy.
Dust storms that choked her, blinding sleet,
White drifts, waist high as floundering feet
Sought dirt-floored room, queer place to hold
A school. Wood stove, no match for cold,
But basking in its feeble glow
While through wide cracks wind sifted snow,
Eager children fired with yearning
Caught crumbs from teacher's loaf of learning.
FROM THE FIELD
Hulda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Handbook of Instructions oi the Relief Society.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Madge Christensen
NEBO STAKE (UTAH), FOURTH WARD RELIEF SOCIETY MAKES FLOAT
FOR ANNUAL NEBO HOMECOMING DAYS CELEBRATION
Madge Christensen, President, Nebo Stake Relief Society, reports: "Titled 'Relief
Society in the Heart of the Ward,' this float was a contribution from the sisters of the
Fourth Ward, Nebo Stake, Payson, Utah, to the annual Homecoming Days celebration
in September 1959. The float was on a white satin background. A blue satin pleated
band circled the raised platform which was rounded in front. The hearts were the
lovely Relief Society colors — a gold satin heart with bars of blue cellophane, the big
heart being bedded in blue cellophane plumes.
"On the float was a young mother, Margene Wilson, with little Shauna John-
son, on the opposite side of the picture. Facing the camera was Debra Herbert, all
three dressed in blue satin.
"Gladys Wilson is president of the Fourth Ward Relief Society, with Echo Dur-
rant and Georgia Durrant as co-chairmen of the float."
Page 335
336
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1960
Photograph submitted by Ilah K. Smith
DENVER STAKE
COLORADO) VISITING TEACHERS CONVENTION,
December 28, 1959
Front row, center section, beginning third from right: Ilah K. Smith, President,
Denver Stake Relief Society; reading to the right: Helen Thornton, First Counselor;
Gvven Maxwell, Second Counselor.
Second row, center section, left to right: Gladys Rusk, stake visiting teacher
message leader; Relief Society High Council representative Ardcn B. Olsen; President
Theodore Christensen of the Stake Presidency; sixth from the left: Daisy Carlock,
stake organist; at the end: Reta Beck, stake chorister.
Sister Smith reports that this event was a special stake function during the Christ-
mas season and was held after showing the film "Unto the Least of These." Approxi-
mately 130 attended and all very much enjoyed the occasion.
Photograph submitted by Nelda Willis
GARFIELD STAKE (UTAH), BOULDER WARD RELIEF SOCIETY VISITING
TEACHERS ACHIEVE 100 PER CENT VISITING TEACHING
FOR FOUR CONSECUTIVE YEARS
Front row, left to right: Leona C. Lyman; Fae H. Jeppsen, visiting teacher mes-
sage leader; Idona A. Haws; Alice Alvey.
Second row, left to right: Flora M. Baker; Renon S. Peterson; Esther P. Coleman;
Gcraldine K. Shurtz.
Back row, left to right: Blom H. Ormond; Dorothv N. Lyman; Lenora H. LeFevre.
Nclda Willis is president of Garfield Stake Relief Society.
MOTES FROM THE FIELD
337
Photograph submitted by Janet Maughan
SAN LUIS OBISPO STAKE (CALIFORNIA) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, October 25, 1959
Front row, seated, beginning third from the left: guest conductor Norma Jones;
Janet Maughan, President, San Luis Obispo Stake Relief Society; Charlotte Main, First
Counselor; Anna Dee Packer, Second Counselor; Clara Nelson, Secretary-Treasurer;
Loa Clark, chairman, stake music committee.
Photograph submitted by Mary E. Cutler
GLENDALE STAKE (CALIFORNIA), ELYSIAN PARK WARD RELIEF
SOCIETY HOLDS BAZAAR, December 1959
Left to right: Veatrice R. Poulson, President; Rita H. White, Work Director
Counselor; Elizabeth Kelly, Work Meeting Leader; Wanda H. Petrovich, Secretary-
Treasurer.
Among the beautifully made items featured at this outstanding bazaar may be
seen the lovely quilts, some of them designed in colorful applique. Also featured were
aprons, embroidered and crocheted pillowslips, doilies, tea towels, pot holders, toys,
and many other handmade articles.
Mary E. Cutler is president of Glendale Stake Relief Society.
338
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1960
Photograph submitttd by Maude Warren
CARBON STAKE (UTAH), DRAGERTON SECOND WARD SINGING
MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC AT THE NOVEMBER SPECIAL
SUNDAY EVENING SERVICE, 1959
Maude Warren, President, Carbon Stake Relief Society, reports: "This picture
is of the newly created Dragerton Second Ward Singing Mothers. They sang for the
first time at the November 1st special Sunday evening services. Vada Anderson, the
President, is second from the left on the front row."
Photograph submitted by Ruth Millet
RIGBY STAKE (IDAHO) VISITING TEACHERS HONORED AT CHRISTMAS
PROGRAM, December 1959
Front row, left to right: Ruth R. Braegger; Mary A. Lewis; Louise Hebdon; Jane
F. Green; Chloe C. Later.
Second row: Mary DaBell; Lola Y. Jones; Mary E. Fife; Electra P. Field; Caroline
G. Miller; Mary Martin; Margaret Wood; Lydia B. Dunn.
Third row: Clarissa C. Hall; Nancy Merrill; Merle Jenkins; Roberta Keller; Flor-
ence Hardv; Elizabeth B. Harker; Gladys Chapman; Ella Martin.
Fourth row: Ruth Ellis; Ella Quinton; Harriet P. Green; Artemissia H. Andersen;
Pearl C. Baron.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
339
Ruth Miller, President, Rigby Stake Relief Society, reports that each of these
visiting teachers has served twenty-five years or more. Some have served over forty years,
and Louise Hebdon has served for fifty-two years.
This lovely holiday testimonial was under the direction of the stake Relief Society
board. Christmas music provided a spiritual background for the occasion and a Christ-
mas message was presented by Rigby Stake President George Christensen. The film
"Unto the Least of These," showing the blessings and opportunities of visiting teach-
ing, was presented. For the social period, following the program, punch and Christmas
cookies were served.
Photograph submitted by Hattie Wallentine
BEAR LAKE STAKE (IDAHO), BLOOMINGTON WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
PRESENTS DEMONSTRATION OF THE VALUE OF THE
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Front row, seated, left to right: Cleone Payne, Secretary-Treasurer; Margaret Paint-
er, Second Counselor; Gladys }acobson, President; Maud Bateman, First Counselor.
Second row, seated, left to right: Ruth Thornock, Magazine representative; Pearl
Bateman; Letha Madson; Violet Nelson.
Back row, standing, left to right: Nadine Nelson; Vera Haddock; Lark Bateman;
Deltha Painter; Ruby Dunford; Lula Reese; Inez Findley.
Hattie Wallentine, President, Bear Lake Stake Relief Society, reports: "The
reproduction of the Magazine on a large scale, and in color, was painted by Irene
Mumford. The script was prepared and spoken by Nadine Nelson. AH of the officers
and class leaders of the Bloomington Ward Relief Society took part in the demon-
stration. The setting was verv effective, with the beautiful large reproduction of the
Magazine and the other colorful Magazines placed around the stage. On the piano
was placed a large globe map of the world, depicting the idea that the Magazine is read
all over the world. After the various sisters had told of their interest and enjoyment
of the different articles, stories, poems, editorials, lessons, etc. representing women from
all parts of the world, Lark Bateman gave a beautiful musical reading aimed at telling
the story of the literary people of the New World, and interesting the sisters in the
literature lessons. This demonstration was first given at our stake leadership meeting,
but we felt that it was so verv fine that we asked for it to be repeated at our stake
visiting teachers convention where 183 women were in attendance."
340
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY 1960
Photograph submitted by Mazie S. Christensen
ASHLEY STAKE (UTAH), DUTCH JOHN BRANCH
RELIEF SOCIETY OFFICERS
Left to right: Dea Blosch, Secretary-Treasurer; Erma Wood, Second Counselor;
Lyle Coon, First Counselor; Hilda Morrell, President.
Mazie S. Christensen, President, Ashley Stake Relief Society, reports: "The
Dutch John Branch Relief Society was organized November 1, 1959, and held an
opening social on November 11th, at which function twenty-eight women were de-
lightfully entertained. Much interest and enthusiasm have been displayed by officers
and members as they have gone forward in perfecting their organization and in carry-
ing out the instructions of the General Board. Dutch John is a small trailer town
located near the Flaming Gorge Dam on Green River, which dam is now under con-
struction. The community is a branch of Ashley Stake and is located about forty-five
miles northeast of Vernal, Utah."
K^irl (graduate
Ida Elaine James
Heart of my heart, you are going now.
I cannot keep you, nor
Pinion wings. True love must allow
That flight is what wings are for —
To life — through life's open door.
Now you may journey, east or west.
Know, dear, the charts are few;
But, for your compass, all the best
Of me shall go with you,
Craving all things that are lovely,
Praying for all things true.
Recommended Music
for Relief Society
Choruses
Ladies Three Part
Come Ye Blessed of
My Father — Madsen.. .20
Forth in Thy Name,
O Lord I Go— Mad-
sen 20
Go Ye Forth with
My Word — Madsen.. .25
Incline Your Ear —
Wilkes 25
In Thy Form — Mad-
sen 20
Let the Mountains
Shout for Joy —
Stephens 20
Lord, We Dedicate
this House to Thee —
Madsen 20
Music — Marsden 20
My Redeemer Lives
—Gates 20
O Lovely Land,
America — Madsen 20
Open Our Eyes —
Macfarlane 25
Send Forth Thy
Spirit — Schuetky 20
Music Sent on Approval
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Salt Lake City 11, Utah
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HAWAII
June 1960
MEXICAN TOURS
June 1960
Also student tour in June 1960. Visit
Book of Mormon places.
NORTHWEST TOUR
June 20, 1960
BLACK HILLS PASSION
PLAY
July 2nd through 9th, 1960
HILL CUMORAH PAGEANT
July 22, 1960
Twenty - three days, including
Boston, Washington, New York,
and Chicago. Top broadway show
will be seen. Church historical
places will also be visited such
as Nauvoo and Adam-Ondi-
Ahman.
GUATEMALA
Book of Mormon Archeological
Sites. Tour leaving August 20,
1960.
ESTHER JAMES TOURS
460-7th Avenue
Salt Lake City 3, Utah
Phone: EM 3-5229
ioeneath a Song
Sparrow s I test
Eva Willes Wangsgaard
Yesterday's speckled eggs
Are shards on the ground,
Empty, immaculate,
Once full and round.
All eager mouths and eyes,
Fledglings protest
Hunger's sharp urgency
Crowding the nest.
Eggs, shards, and noisy young —
Whence do these spring:
Melody to the throat?
Flight to the wing?
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Ruby Dee Christensen
H^HE hot ball of sun had set. Now,
as rosy twilight deepened into
quiet night, I was back again in the
delightful land of childhood, a
scrawny eight-year-old, complete
with skinned knees, missing teeth,
tangled curls, and daydreams.
It was weekly family night and
companionably grouped on the
front lawn was the whole family.
This particular evening held a spe-
cial charm for me as there would be
a full moon. Lying on the cool,
thickly-matted, green grass, I hugged
myself in eager anticipation.
Family night was always grand.
On cold winter evenings we would
gather about a large wood-burning
stove. With the north wind blow-
ing eerily outside, Dad, a master
raconteur, would enthrall us with
tales of his youth in the Oklahoma
Territory. Or, by the light of old-
fashioned kerosene lamps, we might
play charades, dominoes, or some
other parlor game. Sometimes Dad
would play his fiddle and call square
dances while my older brothers and
sisters formed a square and do-si-
doed around the room. Sometimes
we could persuade our shy little
mother to play the guitar and sing
folk songs or ballads, but, mostly,
she was content to sit back and
admire the remarkable (to her) tal-
ents of her family.
Each child, and there were nine
of us, was given opportunities to
perform by reciting, singing, danc-
ing, drawing, or doing anything we
considered entertaining. Mother
always had steaming mugs of hot
chocolate, popcorn, or some other
Page 342
tasty refreshment to round out our
evening.
IN the summertime we always
stayed outdoors on the grass. The
lawn was our pride and joy and our
one extravagance. Bright emerald
green and springy underfoot, it kept
its rich texture by faithful, abundant
watering
On summer family nights we
would usually relax in silence for a
brief time. We would listen to a
chorus of frogs at the nearby pond
and watch fireflies send out signals
with their tiny lanterns. The gay,
twinkling stars in the black velvet
sky seemed almost close enough to
touch. Dad would point out con-
stellations and tell us the legends
behind them.
Often neighbors or my older sis-
ters' beaux joined us. We would
have community singing or the men
would tell "Can you top this?"
stories. Mother would serve cookies
or doughnuts and cold milk. On
rare occasions we had a real treat —
homemade ice cream.
It was all wonderful fun, but the
few times family nights came when
there was a full moon were, to me,
the best nights of all. We would
gather as usual in the front yard.
Then, when the moon arose, the
whole family, including Mother and
Dad, would play hide and seek.
Moonlight is just sheer magic!
Washed by its silvery beams the
house, the trees, Mother and Dad,
myself, my brothers and sisters all
seemed enchanted. As we hid in
moon-flecked shadows shivering with
joy, our laughter sounded like silver
WHEN PARENTS PLAY
343
bells. We rushed on winged feet to
count ourselves in free before who-
ever was "it" could discover our
hiding places. Harmony prevailed;
no harsh dissonance disturbed the
even tempo of the evening.
At last, when our eyes grew heavy,
Dad would have us kneel in the
light of the moon for family prayer.
Contented, we would go to bed and
fall dreamlessly asleep.
Of course I now realize that
Mother and Dad were the magic of
our family nights. They were wise
enough to realize what it means to
children to have their parents pJay
with them. In spite of long, ardu-
ous days of farm work, they truly
enjoyed themselves when joining us
in play. I am grateful to them for
my sweet memories, especially those
joyous, carefree times we played
hide and seek in the moonlight.
HAWAII TOURS
June 4, June 13, June 29, August 8,
November 21, 1960. All tours are
especially planned for either ship
or air.
HILL CUMORAH
PAGEANT
July 29, 1960 — 2 weeks
July 30 — 3 weeks
NORTHWESTERN
TOUR
June 25, 1960 — Two weeks
DISNEYLAND TOUR
AND LOS ANGELES
June 11 through 17
EUROPE
August to October
Ask for folders of our many other tours
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TOURS
3021 So. 23rd East, Salt Lake City. Utah
Phones CR 7-6334, AM 2-2337, IN 6-2909
She is going to . . .
Brigham Young University
Leadership Week
,_ Theme: "A JCand of 'Promise
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June 4-9, 1960
Workshops, lectures, and demonstrations every day
especially designed to aid Relief Society sisters.
Theology, Social Science, and Literature Lesson Helps (By authors of lessons).
New Work Day Ideas.
Helps For Home Life.
Conducting Hymns.
And many other features.
Religion and Genealogy Classes.
Family Night Fun.
Vogue Fashion Shows.
Includes One Special Day (Monday, June 6) of
emphasis for Relief Society Teaching Helps—
• Lesson Preparation and Class Member Par-
ticipation
• Teaching Methods
• Visual Aids for Relief Society Lessons
CLIP AND MAIL
Last Name First
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$2.50 registration fee enclosed, payable
to B.Y.U. Extension Services, Provo, Ut.
[Birthday Congratulations
One Hundred Two
Mrs. Deseret Newman Middleton
Los Angeles, California
Ninety-nine
Mrs. Elizabeth Terry Blair
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SPECIAL FEATURES
Emma Ray Riggs McKay Emma Rae McKay Ashton 348
Annual Report for 1959 Hulda Parker 380
FICTION
Needed by Someone Helen H. Trutton 359
You'll Always Be Rich Betty Lou Martin 369
Orchids in the Snow — Chapter 2 Rosa Lee Lloyd 374
Fiddlers Three Lula Walker 395
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 346
Sixty Years Ago 364
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 365
Editorial: The 130th Annual Church Conference Vesta P. Crawford 366
Notes to the Field: Program for the November Fast Sunday Evening Meeting 368
Hymn of the Month — Semi-Annual List 368
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 404
Birthday Congratulations 424
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
For a Flower Leone H. Simms 372
Menus for Special Dinners Ruby K. Smith 390
Mary Sorenson Johnson Finds Enough Hobbies to Make Her Happy 401
My Mother and Her Hemstitching Machine Fay McCurdy Bailey 402
LESSON DEPARTMENT— PREVIEWS FOR 1960-61
Theology — The Doctrine and Covenants Roy W. Doxey 411
Visiting Teacher Messages — Truths to Live By From The
Doctrine and Covenants Christine H. Robinson 413
Work Meeting — Caring for the Sick in the Home Maria Johnson 414
Literature — America's Literature Comes of Age Briant S. Jacobs 416
Social Science — Spiritual Living in the Nuclear Age Blaine M. Porter 418
Notes on the Authors of the Lessons 420
POETRY
Where Summer Goes — Frontispiece Alice Morrey Bailey 346
Swallows Dorothy J. Roberts 358
Sound in Summer Renie H. Littlewood 373
Summer Night Maxine R. Jennings 399
P^yer Grace Ingles Frost 379
Forecast Evalyn M. Sandberg 401
Smoke-Warm Grasses Eva Willes Wangsgaard 403
V,lsta .--• v --; Linnie F. Robinson 403
Give Me the Mesa Maude Rubin 410
Small Gypsy Ethel Jacobson 422
Mountain Cabin Marian Woodbury Gold 422
Anticipation Zara Sabin 423
Her Load Is Shared Ida Elaine james 423
Candle of Life Catherine B. Bowles 423
Apple Orchard Christie Lund Coles 424
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Emma Ray Riggs McKay
Emma Rae McKay Ashton
[The members of Relief Society throughout the world love and do honor
to Sister McKay on her eighty-third birthday, June 23, i960.]
4 4 "It yi" OTHER, why don't you with a sparkling sense of humor.
Y/l ask one of us to run to Her beauty is also from within,
the basement for you?" from pure thoughts and high ideals.
plead six willing children, eager to Emma Lucy Gates Bowen wrote
save her steps and to wait on her. these words which, I believe, apply
"I never ask anyone to do any- to Mother: "A beautiful, modest,
thing for me that I can do for my- gracious woman is creation's master-
self," has been her reply through piece. When to these virtues a
the years. woman possesses as guiding stars in
This complete unselfishness is the her life, righteousness and godliness
keynote to Mother's happy life, and an irresistible impulse and de-
"Won't you take the easy chair?" sire to make others happy, no one
or "Let me help you," or "You may will question if she is classed among
have my share," are familiar phrases those who are the truly great."
we associate with Mother. In her This sweet, thoughtful little lady,
daily routines she has manifested by being the wife of our revered
her selflessness. Every morning she President, followed the pattern set
has risen between five and six down for her by studious and re-
o'clock to prepare a nourishing ligious ancestors. In his book, Gen-
breakfast for her busy husband and ealogy of the Riggs Family, John H.
children; every day with no word of Wallace, the author, writes: "A
complaint she has kept warm the prominent characteristic of the
midday meal even though it might Riggs family, through successive
be served any time from twelve- generations, has been the large per-
thirty to two, depending upon centage of its members who were
Father's appointments; every eve- highly educated and effective min-
ning, if Father was detained, she isters. Many of them have held
would feed her family but wait for positions of the highest trust and so
his return before eating herself. "I many of the daughters of the family
know it isn't pleasant for Daddy to married Presbyterian ministers, and
eat alone," she would remark. in due time became the mothers of
She is not only patient, loving, Presbyterian ministers themselves,
and understanding, but also beauti- The value and stability of a family
ful in form and feature. One person or tribe depend largely upon the
remarked that she was the most intelligence and character of its
beautiful bride she had ever seen. In women, and just so long as it is
her appearance and in her house- blessed with educated and dutiful
keeping she is always neat, and daughters growing into conscien-
though soft-spoken, she is cheerful tious and steadfast mothers, it
Page 348
J. M. Heslop
SISTER McKAY ARRANGING FLOWERS IN HER HOME
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JUNE 1960
Bellsmith, Cincinnati
OBADIAH H. RIGGS, FATHER OF
EMMA RAY RIGGS McKAY
will live and continue to exert a
wide and beneficent influence/'
Mother's father, Dr. Obadiah H.
Riggs, was born near Library, Penn-
sylvania. He joined the Church and
was successfully engaged in teaching
in the East until the spring of 1864,
when he settled in Salt Lake City.
He then resumed his profession and,
in 1874, was appointed Territorial
Superintendent of Schools. Later
he returned to the East to study
medicine.
Mother's maternal grandfather,
John Robbins, born in New Jersey
during Joseph Smith's time, was an
adventurous pioneer. With his wife
Phoebe and three young sons, he
joined Captain Samuel Brannon's
party on the ship Brooklyn, thinking
it wiser to travel by boat to Upper
California rather than risk the peril-
ous journey across the great plains
and mountainous regions. Sailing
around Cape Horn to San Francisco,
the voyage took six months, and the
passengers toward the end of the
journey lived on rice and molasses
three times a day. Two of their
young children died on the Atlantic,
and a baby daughter was born on
the Pacific. They blessed her
Georgiana Pacific Robbins. An-
other daughter, Emma Louise, was
born in San Francisco. Later the
Robbins family moved to Salt Lake
City.
QBADIAH H. Riggs married the
charming, vivacious Emma
Louise Robbins, an accomplished
pianist and singer who also taught
voice and piano. The fifth child
and only daughter born to this hap-
pv couple was Emma Ray. Through
the vears Mother has often related
this amusing anecdote concerning
her name. When she was back at
Fox and Syrnons
EMMA LOUISE ROBBINS RIGGS
MOTHER OF
EMMA RAY RIGGS McKAY
EMMA RAY RIGGS McKAY
351
Cincinnati studying music, her pro-
fessor asked her name.
"Ray Riggs. Ray is spelled with
aT/"
"No," argued the teacher, "you
spell it with an 'E' because it is a
girl's name."
"But," retorted Mother, "I am
the only girl born in a family of five
boys, and I was named after a ray
of sunshine."'
"You are perfectly right," agreed
the instructor, "you do spell your
name with a *Y.' "
"We had such good times to-
gether in our family," Mother has
always said. "My older brothers
could sing from memory all of the
popular songs from the current
operettas. We sang together by the
hour. My mother was always jolly,
with naturally red lips and flashing
brown eyes. Everyone loved her."
I thought, that is the reason for
Mother's sparkle and her gay person-
ality and why everyone loves to be
with her, too. Having studied piano
with her mother and at the Cincin-
nati Conservatory, naturally music
has been an enjoyable hobby of hers.
She has often accompanied our fam-
ily when we have sung together. An-
other hobby of Mother's is the read-
ing of good literature. "I was never
lonely as a girl," she mused, "for I
always had the companionship of
good books." Indeed, in her girl-
hood, she was an avid reader of
Dickens, Scott, Shakespeare, and
other noted authors.
She first met Father when he,
with his brother Thomas E. and his
two sisters, Jeannette and Ann,
rented an apartment from her moth-
er. These young Universitv of Utah
students became acquainted and saw
each other occasionally on the
C. R. Savage
EMMA RAY RIGGS
AT THE AGE OF TWELVE
campus. At the conclusion of the
school year, Mother was invited by
the girls to spend a few days at the
McKay home in Huntsville. On
this visit Father invited her to ac-
company him to his missionary fare-
well party. This was their first date.
Through correspondence, however,
while he was on his mission, their
love blossomed. She continued her
schooling while he was away, and at
the end of four years, with a class of
only six members, Mother was grad-
uated from the University of Utah
with a B. A. degree. The next fall
she received an offer to teach at the
Madison Elementary School in Og-
den. When Father returned from
his mission, following several months
of courtship, they were married
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January 2, 1901, the first couple to
be married in the Salt Lake Temple
at the turn of the century. They
settled down in Ogden where he
was principal of the Weber Stake
Academy.
T^IVE years after their marriage
Father was ordained an apostle.
Since conference visits, made by
wagon in those days, took him away
two or three weeks at a time, much
of the responsibility of rearing the
family fell to Mother. It was up to
her to turn the chairs around at the
table for family prayers, and to take
time to listen to her little ones with
their individual prayers each night
and morning. She had much of
the responsibility of keeping the
standards high and maintaining the
spiritual and cultural level of the
home. She taught her children to
respect the rights of others. She
saw to it that the boys attended
their quorum meetings, that all of
us went to Sundav School and sac-
j
rament meeting. Tithing was paid
Courtesy Emma Ray Riggs McKay
EMMA RAY RIGGS WITH THE UNIVERSITY OF UTAH
GRADUATING CLASS
1898
Seated, left to right: Ralph Varey Chamberlin; Mary Elizabeth Connelly (Kimball);
J. Reuben Clark, Jr.
Standing, left to right: Emma Ray Riggs (McKay); Herbert Thayer Hills;
Albert Johannsen.
EMMA RAY RIGGS McKAY
353
The Thomas Studio
DAVID O. McKAY AND EMMA RAY RIGGS McKAY WITH THEIR ELDEST
SON, DAVID LAWRENCE McKAY, AGE TWO
and the Word of Wisdom was kept.
In addition to this, Mother was pres-
ident of the ward Relief Society.
Determined to make a success of
this position, she bundled her baby,
and pushing him in his carriage,
made personal visits to the ward
sisters inviting them to attend the
Relief Society meetings. Her dili-
gence was rewarded. The member-
ship increased from twelve sisters to
ninety! Later, she was asked to be
a counselor in the stake Relief So-
ciety presidency.
In 1920, when Father and Brother
Hugh J. Cannon made their world
mission tour, Mother had the full
responsibility, for one year, of the
home and their six children, Bob
the baby being only three months
old. At one time during Father's
absence, Mother needed a goodly
sum of money to pay some obliga-
tions. She exhausted all her re-
sources without being able to raise
the money. Finally, the night before
the money was due, with tears roll-
ing down her cheeks, she knelt by
her bed and prayed with all her
heart that Heavenly Father would
show her a way to obtain this need-
ed sum.
The next morning there was a
knock at the door. The visitor was
Brother John Hall, a member of her
stake presidency. He had never
before paid a social call so Mother
was somewhat surprised to see him
when she opened the door. His first
words were, "Sister McKay, do you
354
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JUNE 1960
The Salt Lake Tribune
PRESIDENT DAVID O. McKAY, HIS WIFE EMMA RAY RIGGS McKAY,
AND THEIR FAMILY
Photograph taken January 2, 1951
Front row, left to right: Francis Ellen Anderson McKay; Robert R. McKay; Sister
Emma Ray Riggs McKay; President David O. McKay; Lou Jean McKay Blood;
Dr. Llewelyn R. McKay; Alice Smith McKay.
Back row, left to right: Conway A. Ashton; Emma Rae McKay Ashton; Dr.
Edward R. McKay; Lottie Lund McKay; David Lawrence McKay; Mildred Calderwood
McKay.
One son-in-law, Dr. Russell H. Blood, a Commander in the United States Navy,
was absent from the group, as he was serving with the United Nations forces in Korea
when this photograph was taken.
need me? When I was down at the
corner, something told me to turn
up this way."
"I should say that I do. Won't
you come in and sit down?" She
then related her problem and the
ways she had tried to solve it. He
promptly produced his checkbook
from his pocket and wrote her the
needed amount.
"But, Brother Hall, I have no col-
lateral, and I don't know when I
can repay you."
"Never mind, David O. will see
to it when he returns."
IN the year 1922, Father had been
home only a few months from
his world mission when he was
called to take his family and for two
years preside over the European
Mission. Mother was set apart as
the head of all of the auxiliaries in
Europe. Her work in this capacity,
her responsibility as mission mother
to the 500 missionaries, and her
managing of the mission home in
Liverpool were creditable activities
carried out with much diligence,
love, and kindness.
Upon their return from this as-
The Salt Lake Tribune
PRESIDENT AND SISTER McKAY CUTTING THEIR FIFTIETH
WEDDING ANNIVERSARY CAKE, January 1951
MRS. EMMA RAY RIGGS McKAY RECEIVING THE HONORARY DEGREE
OF DOCTOR OF HUMANITIES AT THE COMMENCEMENT EXERCISES
UTAH STATE AGRICULTURAL COLLEGE (UTAH STATE UNIVERSITY)
May 29, 1954
Cited as an ''Exemplar of the highest qualities of American Womanhood"
EMMA RAY RIGGS McKAY
357
Courtesy Emma Ray Riggs McKay
PRESIDENT AND SISTER McKAY IN GREENOCK, SCOTLAND
August 1955
signment, the family moved to Salt
Lake City, where Mother was active
for a number of years in the Salt
Lake Stake Relief Society presidency
until an operation terminated this
call. In later years, when their chil-
dren were grown, she became
Father's constant traveling compan-
ion and won a place in the hearts of
the people with her graciousness.
It was fitting that these lifetime
sweethearts should be honored on
their golden wedding anniversary in
January 1951. This loyal love of
theirs radiates warmth and inspira-
tion not only to Church members
but to the people of the world as
they have personally greeted this
charming couple. The Europeans
who welcomed them in 1952 de-
lighted in honoring Mother in Fin-
land on her seventy-fifth birthday.
Latter-day Saints everywhere were
thrilled with the selection of temple
sites in Berne, Switzerland, New
Chapel, England, and in New Zea-
land. You know the great historic
trips President and Sister McKay
have made to South America and
South Africa.
The year 1954 was a memorable
one for Mother. She not only flew
to the South Sea Islands, Australia,
and New Zealand, but also she was
chosen Utah's Mother of the Year
and was presented a Doctorate of
358 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JUNE 1960
Humanities by the Utah State Agri- in life is to make home the most
cultural College (Utah State Uni- pleasant place in the world. She
versitv). accomplishes this with tenderness,
Truly Mother's life is happy and watchful care, and loving patience."
successful because of her service and May her sweet influence be felt for
inspiration to others. As Father has many more years is our constant
often said, "Mother's constant aim prayer.
Swat lows
Dorothy J. Roberts
Weave forever that sweet summer
Once you wove into my dream
With your silent bars of music
On wire staves above the stream.
Swallows resting — gay notes patterned
On the rippled rose of sky —
Fabricate this healing vision
On some child's enchanted eye.
Fold the wings of time forever,
Seal the peace of youth and bird
In the memory of this silence,
In this music never heard.
Bound by years and winter-burdened,
Let him stand, a child, and stare,
In the innocence of morning
In the coral hush of air.
Needed by Someone
Helen H. Tiutton
IT was starting to rain when tie Lady lying on the seat beside her.
Agnes backed the car out of the She'd brought it along to study in
garage and looked at the house, her spare moments in hopes of mak-
I haven't been this lonely since ing her next book better.
Rod's death over twenty years ago, Agnes mustered a faint smile, dis-
she thought as she drove away. At playing two dimples on her well-
least then I felt needed, with three sculptured mature face as she passed
young girls to care for. a neighbor's house, and with an in-
It's not that I'm unhappy, either, stinctive gesture, ran the fingers of
she told herself emphatically as the her right hand quickly through her
memory of Maria's radiant face short, well-groomed gray hair,
flashed before her. Guess I'm just She hadn't called Christine to tell
tired from the round of activities her she was coming to the writer's
before her marriage in the temple, conference at Bill City, fifteen miles
and preparations for the reception this side of Midville. Later, she
were most exhaustive. would call her and, if Christine
Maria, her youngest, was the last wasn't too busy, maybe they could
to leave home, and was now living have lunch together, at least,
in the East. Last year it had been I shouldn't be taking this trip,
Paula, living presently in Denver. Agnes reminded herself, with an un-
Then two years ago Christine had finished manuscript waiting for me
married and, fortunately, she lived that's really been neglected these
only about a hundred miles from past few weeks. But it isn't every
Carsonville in Midville. day an author gets an appointment
Agnes felt very grateful that her with her publisher, especially Mr.
daughters had found such marital Adams, one of the top men in his
happiness. Certainly she wouldn't field.
want it any other way, but still, one The rain began lashing down in
thought kept gnawing at her, espe- torrents now, so characteristic of
daily since Maria's marriage. What early spring, particularly through the
does a mother do when her family mountainous region, making visi-
no longer needs her? Not one single bility from any distance difficult,
person really depends on her any Fortunately, Agnes was forced to
more. drive slowly or she might not have
Of course she had her writing, noticed the makeshift sign along the
her livelihood since Rod's passing, side of the road. Agnes stopped the
Lucky she had been successful in car and read aloud, "Wanted Moth-
that, for it had meant she could do er Nurse. Ask in house."
her work at home and be with the Back about four hundred yards
girls while they were growing up. from the road stood a rather old
She glanced down momentarily log cabin that looked deserted ex-
at her latest book entitled The Lit- cept for a thin spiral of smoke
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puffing from the chimney. Agnes'
first impulse was that a prankster
had posted the sign, but something
almost urgent in the childish scrib-
ble made her decide to investigate.
A few minutes wouldn't make any
difference in her plans.
A S the car came to a stop in front
of the cabin, a young girl
around eight or nine darted out the
door calling excitedly, "You saw
my sign?"
"Yes. What can I do for you?"
"Mommy's terribly sick/' and the
girl began to cry.
"Oh, I'm very sorry. I'll help all
I can," Agnes reassured her, as she
quickly climbed out of the car and
followed the youngster into the
house.
"Mommy's in there." The child
indicated the bedroom. "Daddy's
with her."
Agnes knocked gently and waited
a moment before opening the door.
A young man, sitting at the side of
the bed, looked up bewildered as
she entered.
"I understand you need help,"
Agnes said kindly.
The man didn't answer imme-
diately, but stared at her, and then
bending over the still form of his
wife, his voice broke as he whis-
pered, "Our prayers have been an-
swered, Lydia darling. Someone has
come."
"Do you know what is wrong
with her?" Agnes asked, while tak-
ing off her coat. "I'm not a nurse."
He turned away from the bed,
and she saw how tired and scared
he looked as he spoke. "I'm afraid
it's pneumonia."
"Then she should be in a hos-
pital. Carsonville is the nearest, and
that's about thirty miles from here.
You should have taken her hours
ago.
"I know," he said, "but our car
is broken down." He walked about
and looked down anxiously at his
wife. "When she got worse last
night, I tried to stop the few cars
going along the highway, but I
guess they thought I was a fugitive
or something. None of them would
stop."
Agnes bent over Lydia. "You'll
be all right. I have a car."
The woman rallied a little and
opened her eyes. "I can't leave my
baby. He's been sick, too."
"Davey's fine now," the man as-
sured her. "He's all smiles and eat-
ing well again."
Agnes placed her hand on the
hot forehead of the ill woman. "I
know you don't know me. I'm
Agnes Bigelow. I live in Carson-
ville. I'll stay here and care for the
children while your husband takes
my car and drives you to the hos-
pital.'"
The young woman's eyes bright-
ened. "You're very kind. I think
you must be an angel."
Agnes smiled. "Here, let me
wrap you up well," and she carefully
tucked the blanket around her, then
stood back while the man gently
gathered his wife up in his arms.
"I'll be back as soon as I can," he
called over his shoulder. "Our
name's Freeman. God bless you,
Mrs. Bigelow."
At the door, he turned. "Are you
in a hurry to get to your destina-
tion?"
"Not until tomorrow. I do have
a rather important meeting then, at
one o'clock."
He looked relieved. "I'll have
your car back by that time."
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A FTER they drove away, Agnes
turned her attention to the
baby in the crib. "Hello," she smiled
down at him. "You're a fine look-
ing one."
"My name's Caroline," a low,
timid voice spoke behind her. "Is
my Mommy going to get well?"'
Agnes slipped her arms around
the trembling little girl. "I'm sure
your mother will be well soon. Did
you put that sign out there?"
"Yes, Ma'am."
"That was good thinking."
"Thank you. Now if you like,
I'll show you your room," and she
led the way to a bedroom. "This
is my room, but I'll sleep on the
davenport."
"Thank you, Caroline, for letting
me use your room. I won't unpack
just yet."
The baby began to fuss, and Ag-
nes hurried to his side. "Do you
know his feeding schedule, dear?"
Caroline glanced at the clock
hanging on the wall. "It's time in
ten minutes. Daddy fixed his
formula this morning."
"Good. I think I'll straighten up
things before lunch."
"I can help," the youngster vol-
unteered, as she joined Agnes in
picking up articles and arranging
chairs in the rather crowded, small
room. "Only maybe I should heat
Davey's bottle first."
Agnes smiled at the girl's eager-
ness to help, just the way Christine
used to pitch in when Paula was a
baby, she remembered.
Caroline finished heating the
milk and, after carefully testing it
for the proper temperature, took the
bottle in to Davey. When she re-
turned, she stood idly watching
Agnes move about the room.
"Is everything all right, dear?"
"Yes. I was just thinking," and
she ducked her head self-conscious-
ly, "Daddy was going to make
cookies today, if Mommy was bet-
ter."
This is really like old times, Ag-
nes thought happily. "Why don't
I make them? I have a recipe my
girls were fond of when they were
growing up."
"Would you really Mrs. — Mrs.?"
"Bigelow. Of course I will. As
I remember, these special cookies
were best made in shapes of elves,
fairies, and. . . ."
Caroline quickly suggested,
"Could I help?"
Agnes laughed. "By all means,
I'm counting on it."
A child's creative instinct, when
confronted with rolled-out cookie
dough, doesn't belong to any
particular generation, Agnes soon
decided, as she watched Caroline
gleefullv cut patterns of every imag-
inable form. Christine, Paula, and
Maria had enjoyed that part of
cookie making, too.
I T was late afternoon before all the
work was finished, and Davey
fed again and asleep. Then Agnes
found time to sit down to rest.
Caroline edged into a chair close
by and asked, "Do you know any
stories?"
"Well, I have a book with my
things you might enjoy. I write
stories for youngsters."
"May I get it?" the girl asked en-
thusiastically.
"If you like."
When she returned with the
book, she sat down and began to
leaf through its contents. "My
Daddy draws like that," Caroline
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said, pointing to an illustration.
"Really?"
The youngster jumped up and
went to the back bedroom and
gathered an armful of drawings.
"See," she said, returning to the
room.
Agnes looked them over carefully.
'These are good. Does he draw,
that is, does he sell them?"
"Not too many yet, but Daddy
says it takes time to get established,"
she answered sadly. "He will,
though."
"They're better than good," she
told the girl. "You know I need
someone to illustrate the book I'm
working on. I'll talk to your
Daddy."
By eight o'clock Agnes was tired,
and apparently Mr. Freeman wasn't
returning before morning. "I think
we should go to bed, don't you?"
she asked.
"Maybe Mommy is worse," Caro-
line answered, tears coming quickly
in her eyes.
"Try not to worry, dear, and re-
member her in your prayers to-
night."
"Oh, I will," she cried, "and you,
too." Then she got up and walked
into another room and gathered
some bedding and piled it on the
davenport. "I was just wondering,"
she finally spoke, "if I could call
you Grandma?"
Agnes couldn't trust herself to
speak for a moment as she helped
the girl make her bed. "I'd feel
very honored, if you'd call me
Grandma."
I T was still raining the next morn-
ing when Agnes awakened to find
Caroline standing by her bed.
"Daddy will be home today for
sure, won't he, Grandma?"
"I'm sure he will. How's Davey?
I fed him at four this morning."
"Davey's fine, Grandma."
After breakfast, Agnes bathed
Davey and straightened up the
house again before she went in to
dress for the trip to Bill City. She
was really looking forward to meet-
ing Mr. Adams to discuss some ideas
on a future book. Mr. Freeman
would be home anv moment, and
she must be ready to leave. But it
was almost eleven o'clock before
Caroline called excitedly, "Here
comes Daddy, Grandma."
Agnes looked out the window to
see her car coming down the lane
followed by another car, and
watched as a strange man climbed
out and came to the door.
"Mrs. Bigelow?" he asked polite-
ly, as she opened the door.
"Yes."
"Mr. Freeman asked me to leave
your car here. He had to wait for
a part for his car, but he didn't
want you to miss your meeting.
He'll catch a ride home in a couple
of hours."
"How is Mrs. Freeman?"
"Much better this morning," the
man answered. "Now if you'll ex-
cuse me, my wife is waiting in our
car." He started to leave, then
turned back to her. "Oh, Mr. Free-
man asked if you'd mind stopping
on your way home so he could settle
with you?"
When Agnes turned to tell Caro-
line the good news, she found her
dancing merrily about the room.
"Goody! Goody! Mommy's get-
ting well. I just knew she would,
though."
"That's wonderful news, dear."
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The girl stopped dancing and
walked to the window. "You'll be
going soon?"
"Do you want me to stay?"
"No, I wouldn't want you to miss
your appointment."
"Well . . . ." Agnes glanced at
the clock. It was a little after elev-
en, she'd really have to get started
to make it to Bill City by one
o'clock, and that meeting was very
important.
"If I could be sure your Daddy
would get here shortly. . . ."
"He will, Grandma."
Agnes joined Caroline at the win-
dow, and watched little streams of
water running clown the road. Sup-
posing, just supposing something
happened so that Mr. Freeman
didn't make it back. The thought
kept running through Agnes' mind.
Somehow, as the minutes ticked by,
the meeting with Mr. Adams be-
came less and less important.
"Caroline," she finally said, "I'll
wait for your father's return."
"But your important appoint-
ment?"
Agnes put her arms around the
girl. "Suddenly, it doesn't seem
nearly as urgent as staying here."
A happy look crossed the child's
face. "I'm glad you're staying."
"LJOURS sped by. It was late
afternoon, and still Mr. Free-
man hadn't come. What had hap-
pened? Was Mrs. Freeman worse,
or had Mr. Freeman been in an
accident? Agnes tried desperately
not to show concern to alarm Caro-
line.
"I'm sure the car part was de-
layed," she had repeated numerous
times during the day. "He'll be
here soon now."
Then, just as dusk was beginning
to settle in the lonely mountainous
region, Caroline jumped to her feet
at the sound of someone on the
porch.
"Here comes Daddy," and she
flung the door open.
"Daddy! Daddy!'' she cried.
"Mommy's getting well!"
"Yes, dear," and then he noticed
Agnes in the room.
"You stayed?"'
"I thought you might be de-
layed."
Mr. Freeman held out his hand to
steady himself against the door. His
voice shook. "I've been almost
frantic since we were delayed by a
road slide. I thought the children
were alone. Mrs. Bigelow, how can
I ever repay you for your kindness?
I caused you to miss your appoint-
ment. I'm sorry."
Agnes smiled at him. "I'm just
as glad as you are that I staved. I'll
call my publisher. It'll do just as
well."
"Your publisher? Then you are
the Agnes Bigelow who writes chil-
dren's books?"
"Yes, and by the way, Mr. Free-
man, your daughter showed me
some excellent drawings. I'm look-
ing for someone to do the illustra-
tions in my next book. Would you
be interested?"
"Would I?" he exclaimed eagerly.
The young man's face lighted,
"Good," Agnes said. "Is the slide
all repaired now?"
"Yes, traffic is going through/'
"I was just thinking, Mr. Free-
man, with your wife in the hospital
in Carsonville, why don't you and
the children come home with me
this evening? You'll be close to the
(Continued on page 400)
Sixty Ljears J/Lgo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent June 1, and June 15, 1900
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
of All Nations"
DEAR OLD NEW ENGLAND: Among the New England hills memories come
back to me that I never recall any other time or in any other place. There is in some of
us a sort of heredity . . . that makes us cling with loving and longing to the haunts of
nature in which childhood has been passed. . . . Journeying from New York . . . into
the heart of New England among the beautiful villages nestled among the green hills
is charming in itself . . . one hastens from place to place to take a look at familiar
scenes of long ago. . . . Deserted and desolate are many of the homes from which the
Latter-day Saints emigrated to Nauvoo early in the Forties.
— Aunt Em
A RARE JUNE WEDDING: Undoubtedly the month of June is the most
delightful of the vear to have pretty weddings, and there have been a large number of
very elaborate ones this June season, the most significant one, perhaps, being solemnized
June 29, in the Salt Lake Temple, the ceremony being performed by President George
O. Cannon. . . . The bride and bridegroom were Miss Maud M. Ford of Cleveland,
Ohio, and Mr. Leroi C. Snow of Salt Lake. ... A royal reception was given by the
parents of the bridegroom at the Bee Hive Mouse. . . Eight hundred invitations had
been scut out. . . . The bride was attired in an exquisite gown of soft white material. . . .
Bands of music were playing throughout the evening . . . everything seemed in keeping
with the auspicious union of two young lovers embarking upon the smooth and shining
sea of matrimony. . . .
— News Note
OUR SCANDINAVIAN WOMEN
Thank heaven for all these sturdy ones,
These men of toil, these women true,
Who, working on through storms and suns,
Found naught too hard for their hands to do,
And whether on earth or whether above,
We open the records of life and love,
By the side of the names of our Danish sires,
Whose hearts grew warm in the Gospel light
Will our mothers be, for those living fires
Have kept them as truly bright.
— Alofa
PIONEER WOMAN'S PAPER. This number of the paper, June first, nineteen
hundred is the commencement of the Twenty-ninth volume of the Woman's Exponent.
It is the oldest woman's paper in the West, and the first established except the New
North West in Portland, Oregon; that was discontinued several years since.
■ — Editorial
RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE IN ALBERTA STAKE: President M. L.
Woolf rejoiced to see so many young mothers with their babes present. Felt that
the minutes just read were full of inspiration. We must cultivate the spirit of God
continually, that our influence may always be felt. President Sarah B. Dailies of
Cardston felt that the work of Relief Society was a noble mission for the daughters of
Zion. Stake Counselor Jane Hinman bore her testimony as to the blessings received
through testimony and prayer. . . . Spoke on the principle of obedience. "If we per-
form our duties as mothers our children will respect and obey us."
— Jane W. Bates, Sec.
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
]yjRS. ESTHER HOBART
MORRIS was honored recently
when an eight-foot bronze statue of
her was placed and dedicated to her
memory in the United States Capi-
tol's historic Statuary Hall. Mrs.
Morris lived in South Pass, Wyom-
ing, and was a noted pioneer in the
West's struggle for woman suffrage.
No State may have more than two
pieces of sculpture in Statuary Hall.
This is the first one placed for
Wyoming.
CEVERAL contributors to The
Relief Society Magazine, all
residents of Salt Lake City, Utah,
won honors and awards at the bien-
nial convention of the National
League of American Penwomen
held in Washington, D. C. in early
April. Wilma Boyle Bunker was
elected first vice-president of the
organization. In the junior book
class, Olive W. Burt won first prize
with a 25,000-word book Pal of the
Hills, and she also received first
prize in the tiny-tot stories classifi-
cation. Grace S. Cozzens placed
second in detective stories, and Rox-
ana Farnsworth Hase placed third
in the same group. Mabel S.
Harmer won third place in stories
for adults with a story 'The Apri-
cot Tree," which appeared in The
Relief Society Magazine in April
1958, and placed third in stories
for juniors nine to twelve.
X
EPRESENTATIVE KATH-
RYN E. GRANAHAN is
chairman of the Postal Operations
Subcommittee of the House Post
Office Committee, which is making
an examination of obscenity in mo-
tion pictures and motion picture ad-
vertising accepted by newspapers
and carried through the mail. A
number of influential newspapers
of wide circulation have adopted
codes of standards for acceptance of
movie advertising. They ban illus-
trations such as those showing
people in suggestive dress, using
alcohol or narcotics, or "showing a
high state of violence."
TORENE H. PEARSON, a novel-
ist of Santa Fe, New Mexico,
is one of three water commissioners
for the ancient aqueduct "Acequia
Muralla." Mrs. Pearson is the only
woman to hold this position in the
150 years since this historic irriga-
tion ditch was first in use. Mrs.
Pearson's other accomplishments
and hobbies include: designing
houses and assisting in their con-
struction; carding, dyeing, and spin-
ning wool; baking various kinds of
bread in an outdoor adobe oven;
designing and sewing a beautiful
line of patio dresses; raising fruits
and vegetables and drying and can-
ning them; and tailoring coats and
suits for men and women.
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 47
JUNE 1960
NO. 6
cJhe i3oth J/Cnnuat (church Lsonft
^HE i 30th Annual Conference of
The Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints was held in the
historic Tabernacle in Salt Lake
City, Utah, April 3, 4, and 6, i960.
President David O. McKay con-
ducted all the general sessions, and
all of the General Authorities of the
Church were present, except Elder
AlvTn R. Dyer, Assistant to the
Council of the Twelve, now serving
as President of the European Mis-
sion. The throngs attending con-
ference rejoiced in their renewed
privilege of meeting together under
the sacred influences of prayer,
hymns, and anthems, and the proph-
etic words of uplift and inspira-
tion from those appointed by the
Lord to direct the Church in this
perilous time of earth history.
The Conference messages were
carried to a vast audience by twenty-
five television stations and twelve
radio stations, so that tens of thou-
sands in distant places rejoiced in
the words of everlasting truth and
felt the spirit of strength and unity
within the Church.
IN his opening address, President
David O. McKay expressed his
hope and his faith that members of
the Church everywhere would resist
the temptations that weaken the
body and destroy the soul. Appeal-
ing particularlv to the youth of the
Church, the beloved President spoke
of eternal values and eternal life:
I have confidence in our young people.
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ere nee
It is our duty to show them a proper
example. Most of them today will follow
it, notwithstanding the fact that they are
living in an age full of mysteries and dis-
coveries never before known in the world.
Man holds dominion over earth, sea, and
air, and is now intent upon conquering
space. . . . The more man learns of In-
finity, the more convinced he should be-
come of the possibility of rising above a
mere animal existence. . . . There is a
force . . . higher and greater than man,
greater than the whole universe — that
is that God is the Creator of it all.
The duty of the Church is to teach
and practice the fundamental principles
of the good life. Obedience to the gospel
of Jesus Christ, no matter what the
financial or physical conditions may be,
will bring peace to the soul. ... It requires
little or no effort to indulge in anything
physical or animal-like. But to be born
out of that world into a spiritual world
is advancement that the Lord requires of
each of us. . . . This may be done in two
ways: First, by seeking the truth and
living in harmony with it; and, second,
by resisting every influence, every power
that tends to destroy or to dwarf in any
way the religious sentiment.
PRESIDENT J. Reuben Clark, Jr.
of the First Presidency spoke of
the single road that leads to exalta-
tion. He summarized the scriptural
teachings which designate the
pathway that the Lord would have
his children follow in obedience and
with faith:
I come to you with this simple message:
There are not many roads that lead to
heaven. There is one and one only, and
that is the road that we profess to travel
and should be traveling. It is the road
that is restored to us by the restoration
of the gospel and the restoration of the
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367
Priesthood. Do not be misled by the
professions of men. . . .
Beware of the idea that you do not
have to live the gospel in order to obtain
the salvation and exaltation that are
promised. ... I believe that bad acts, bad
thoughts, inaccurate beliefs do not devel-
op the spirit; but on the contrary, they
may retard or dwarf it. I believe that
all that we do that is good, builds us up
and helps us to prove ourselves, that we
really are living our second estate.
Brethren and sisters, do not be misled,
do not stray, do not imbibe the tendency
of the age that it does not make any
difference what you do. It makes all the
difference in this world and in the here-
after. It makes the difference between
salvation and exaltation and damnation
. . . you cannot afford so to jeopardize
the hereafter.
PRESIDENT Henry D. Moyle
declared that it is the avowed
purpose and mission of the Church
to prepare mankind for the second
coming of Christ that the Savior's
eternal mission may be fulfilled in
his promised reappearance upon the
earth :
All that man has accomplished, and all
further advancement in every realm of
human activity made by man will aid in
the accomplishment of God's ultimate
purpose for us here in mortality — that
is to say, the establishment of his Church
and Kingdom here upon this earth, pre-
paratory to the advent of the second com-
ing of the Savior of mankind.
. . . science and religion alike are entire-
ly obligated to God, and so are we all.
Neither science nor religion can success-
fully refute the second coming of Christ.
The evidence is too complete, too con-
vincing, too much a part of the great
eternal plan of God. . . .
We know he will come, even as he
ascended, a material being, a living Person-
age, separate and apart from the Father,
with an immortalized body of flesh and
bones. This is our work — to prepare for
the second coming of Christ. This is the
dispensation of the fullness of times, spok-
en of by Paul, the apostle. We have in
our hands, with which to work, all that
has gone before in all generations of man.
We deny final consummation of his mis-
sion here upon the earth if we deny his
second coming. Thus only can the re-
vealed gospel of Jesus Christ be presented
in its fullness. . . .
TN presenting the Church Statis-
tical Report on Wednesday morn-
ing, April 6, President Clark stated
that the membership of the Church,
December 31, 1959, was 1,616,088,
and the membership of Relief So-
ciety at the same time was 203,752.
In his closing address on Wednes-
day, President McKay expressed
gratitude for the beautiful and
inspirational music presented at the
various sessions of the Conference
— the Tabernacle Choir on Sunday,
under the direction of Richard P.
Condie, with Alexander Schreiner
at the organ; on Monday the Mor-
mon Choir of Southern California,
under the direction of H. Frederick
Davis; and on Wednesday the Brig.-
ham Young University Combined
Choruses under the direction of Dr.
Newel B. Weight, and Dr. Don L.
Earl, and other musical selections of
praise and rejoicing.
In his closing message to the
Church, President McKay said:
"This has been in a remarkable
manner, an outstanding spiritual
Conference."
We have had testimony that God is a
living Being. We have had testimony
that Christ is at the head of his Church.
. . . We have had testimony of the Spirit
that he has revealed in this dispensation
the gospel of Jesus Christ to the Prophet
Joseph Smith. . . . God bless those who
have given the messages of this Confer-
ence. They have risen to heights sublime.
-VJP.C.
TiobiA.
TO THE FIELD
[Program for the I ioveinber c/ast Sunday
\& veiling II tee ting
T^HE special program for the Sunday evening meeting on Fast Day,
November 6, i960, "Home the Heart of Happiness/' has been mailed
to stake and mission Relief Society presidents. We urge that these pro-
grams be distributed to the wards and branches without delay.
&i,umn of the II to nth — Semi-Jftnnual JList
July to December i960
^HE Church-wide congregational hymn singing project, inaugurated
by the Church Music Committee, will be continued during the coming
six months, and all auxiliary organizations have been invited to participate.
The purpose of this project is to increase the hymn repertoire of the
Church members and to place emphasis on the message of the hymns.
Stake Relief Society choristers and organists are requested to give assistance
at leadership meetings to ward choristers and organists in carrying out
this project.
An analysis and story of the hymn will be printed each month in the
Church Section of The Deseiet News.
Following is a list of hymns approved for the six months July through
December i960:
No.
July
Thanks for the Sabbath School
Willes-Murray
177
August
Sweet Is the Peace
Morton-Durham
191
September
Lead Me Into Life Eternal
Widtsoe-Schreiner
141
October
With All the Power
Watts-Durham
216
November
Come, Ye Thankful People
Alford-Elvey
29
December
I Heard the Bells
Longfellow-Calkin
219
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Ljou it Kjllways iue uitch
Betty Lou Martin
MARGO Hanseen stood by the
living room window which
overlooked the valley. A
wave of love surged through her
being as it always did when she
gazed at her valley. To her, the
majestic mountains rising in the dis-
tance and the beautiful fields
stretching before her, meant warmth
and security. She always felt a
sense of well-being, as if she were
coming home after having been
away a long time.
Spring was coming to the valley.
It was in the air everywhere. The
birds chirped the message all along
the way. The cows in the pasture
bellowed contentedly, and the ducks
down by the stream quacked the
happy news to the world. A won-
derful time to be alive, thought
Margo as she finished dusting the
living room, and then went to the
front door.
''My, it's warm enough today to
leave the door open for awhile,"
Margo mused. The clean, fresh air
of spring spread through the house,
and Margo stood in the doorway
drinking it in. She gazed down at
the path that led to the barn and
saw her husband Jed and her six-
teen-year-old son Randy coming
toward the house. She knew that
they, too, were experiencing the
wonder and beauty of an early
spring day.
"What time do you expect Su-
san's train to be in?" John inquired.
"We don't want to miss our little
girl. My goodness, Margo, do you
realize that it has been five years
since we have seen her?"
"I know, dear," Margo said, half
to herself and half to Jed. Margo
felt the same bewilderment over-
come her as it had earlier when she
was dusting and cleaning. Would
Susan accept them? After all, she
had been living in Europe for the
past four years. The Hanseens had
never had many of the material
things in life, but they had been
blessed with a richness of spiritual-
ity and love for one another. They
knew how to find joy in life through
giving of themselves to others. They
each shared a love for God and were
thankful for the opportunity that
they had of serving him.
Margo had brought Susan up to
appreciate and love God, as she had
brought up her other three children
to do the same. Their oldest daugh-
ter, Joan, had married and lived on
the other side of the valley. Their
son Jim had built himself a home
a half mile from them and was con-
tent to help Jed with the farming.
Randy was still in school; however,
after a mission and college, he, too,
wanted to settle down close to his
folks.
When Susan Hanseen had mar-
ried Tony Cartwright, Margo's fear
had begun to develop. She liked
Tony very much, but, after all, he
had come from a family of consider-
able wealth. The Hanseens had
very little in common with the Cart-
wrights. When Mrs. Cartwright
had first come to visit the Han-
seens, she hadn't seemed to relax,
and Margo found herself on edge,
too, although she had never had any
difficulty making people feel at ease
before.
Susan had been living in Europe
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since her marriage, where Tony had
a high position representing the
Government. Now Susan was com-
ing home for a visit. Margo hoped
and prayed with all her might that
Susan would not have changed.
The past five years the farm had
just barely paid its way. The family
still drove the same car, had the
same furniture, and the same old
radio that had to be hit on the side
to make it play. The only new
addition was the television set,
which was the pride of the family.
They did not believe in going in
debt. If thev did not have the
money to buy, then they waited
until they did.
A S Margo dressed to go to meet
Susan's train, she thought of
all the royalty and titled people and
officials that had entertained Susan
and Tony. Once again the icy hand
of fear gripped her. She looked at
her gray suit. It was old. She had
bought it just before Susan was mar-
ried, but it was clean and neatly
pressed. She looked at herself
again in the mirror. She was only
slightly plumper, and her dark Brown
hair was streaked here and there
with gray. Yes, after all, she was
five years older. "Are you ready,
Jed?" Margo called to her husband.
"We don't want to be late."
Jed walked into the room, and
Margo looked at her husband with
love. If only we could have afforded
him a new suit. I can get by with
my clothes, but his are getting so
old. Susan can't help but remem-
ber that suit. Margo kept these
thoughts to herself. She did not
want her husband to think that he
looked shabby. She wouldn't hurt
his feelings for anything in the
world.
When Randy entered the room,
Margo felt very proud of her good-
looking son. He carried himself
proud and straight, and his clean-
cut features only added to his im-
maculate appearance. "Oh, Randy,
Susan won't know you; you have
grown up so much." Margo gave
her son a loving pat as she straight-
ened his collar.
Margo took one last look around
as she pulled the door shut. She
had done her best to have the house
in order. It was neat and clean; the
rest would depend upon Susan.
The drive to the city relaxed
Margo somewhat as the beauty of
the valley spread before her. Then,
as they approached the station, her
uneasiness began to come back. Jed,
sensing her dilemma, reached for
her hand and held it gently in his.
"Margo," Jed spoke softly, "I
know how uneasy you are about
meeting Susan. You are worried
that she will not accept us for what
we are. But remember this, she
knows what we are, how we live,
and we cannot change our lives just
to please her. She must accept us
the way we are. We accept and
love her the way she is, just as we
do our other children."
Margo smiled up at Jed. "I
know it, dear. It is just that a
little farm in the middle of a lit-
tle valley may seem insignificant
compared to the places that she has
been and the things that she has
done."
^HE train pulled into the station
on schedule, and a beautiful,
smiling Susan ran from the train
into the arms of her parents. "Let
me look at you. Oh, you are just
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the same as when I left, except you,
Randy. My goodness, how you
have grown." Susan stood back
now, surveying her family.
Margo felt stunned by her daugh-
ter's remark — "You are just the
same as when I left." How does
she mean it? Margo wondered to
herself.
"You look wonderful, Susan,"
Margo said sincerely to her lovely
daughter. Susan was even more
striking than ever with her golden
blond hair combed smartly back in-
to a French twist.
Susan hugged Margo again as
they started for the car. "You look
wonderful, Mother. I do like that
suit on you."
As they drove toward the farm,
Susan chatted excitedly about the
plane trip over, the parties she had
attended, and the people she had
met. When they reached the farm,
she jumped out of the car and ran
toward the house. When Margo
went inside, she didn't see Susan.
She needs a few minutes to herself
to look around, Margo thought as
she went to the kitchen to prepare
supper. Soon she heard Susan com-
ing clown the stairs, and when she
turned around she was startled.
Susan was dressed in a plain pink
cotton skirt and blouse. Her golden
hair waved loosely to her shoulders,
and her lips were just barely touched
with pink lipstick. She looked very
much like the same happy Susan
who loved spring in the valley, and
cried when the old mother cat died.
"Oh, Mother, the place hasn't
changed a bit," Susan spoke as she
went to the cookie far. "Hmmm,
my favorite cookies, I see."
"No, Susan, things haven't
changed too much. I guess that we
seem to have stood still after all the
places that you have lived and the
many interesting people that you
have met." Margo felt her heart
sink.
Susan got up and went to the
kitchen window. "Spring in the
valley; how I have dreamed about
it. Tony wanted me to wait and
come home in the summer, but I
just had to sec my valley in the
spring. Remember when I was a
little girl how I used to wake up
real earlv and run to the window
to see if it was spring?"
"Yes, I remember, Susan." Margo
sighed, remembering. "Those were
wonderful years. We are not very
rich, dear, but . . . ."
"Oh, Mother," Susan chided as
she stood directly in front of her
mother, "you'll always be rich.
Maybe not in the things of the
world, but in the things that really
and truly count. I just hope that I
can instill in my children the things
that you and Daddy have tried to
teach me. And I hope that I can
make my children as happy as you
have made me. I know that Jim,
Joan, and Randy feel the same as
I do."
Margo flung her arms around her
daughter. "Oh, Susan, I was so
afraid that you would change and
grow away from us."
"Change? Grow away from you?"
Susan was crying as she spoke.
"Why, the very day that I left,
Tony made the remark that he
hoped you would save a little space
for us so that we, too, could build
here some day."
Margo and Susan dried their eyes
and together they walked down to-
ward the barnyard, and Cuddles, the
little terrier, trotted happily beside
them. He was glad that Susan was
home, too.
QJor a cf lower
Leone H. Simms
IN spring, at the home where I
was a little girl, we had lilacs and
apple blossoms, but, as summer
came on, there were practically no
flowers. Just across the street, how-
ever, the whole south side of our
neighbor's yard was a mass of
bloom. I especially remember the
poppies nodding their gay red, pink,
orange, and white heads at me in
the gentle summer breeze. Some
of them even poked their heads
through the fence — coaxing me to
pick them.
I have always had a deep love for
flowers, and an urge to pick them,
touch them, and bury my nose in
them, and so on many a day I
almost broke the stem of one, and
sometimes my fingers stroked the
petals.
One day I asked my mother if she
thought it would be all right to
pick just one of those that were
sticking out through the fence, and
was disappointed when she told me
"no," though in my heart I'd known
all along that "no" was the right
answer.
"But," she went on, "you may
go over and ask our neighbor if you
may have one, and remember to
thank her."
If you could see our neighbor as
I used to, with my timid little girl
eyes, you would know how big and
frightening a thing this seemed to
me. She wore her hair pulled
straight back from an unsmiling
face, and her voice sounded gruff
and harsh. I know she was a good
woman, often harried by the cares
of the day, and striving to keep
things the way they should be, but
still I was afraid of her — not that
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she would harm me, but that she
would be cross with me.
But I did want a flower, so I sum-
moned all my courage and walked
across the street. When the gate
creaked as I opened it, I almost ran
back home, but took a fresh hold
on my retreating courage and went
on in.
When she answered my knock, I
managed to say, "Could I please
have a flower?" and I wasn't too sur-
prised, but was crestfallen, when she
answered gruffly, "No, you can't,"
and shut the door.
Resigned but depressed, I walked
back across the street and told my
mother what had happened.
I've wondered since, just what
were her thoughts. She had been
trying to teach me the right thing
to do, and it had not brought the
results she had expected. How-
ever, whatever they were, she just
said something soothing, and we
both went on into the afternoon —
she at her work and I hanging
around the kitchen watching her.
But now comes the part of my
story that turns it into a happy one
with a lovely ending. In a little
while there stood our neighbor at
our door and her face didn't look
cross at all. In her hand she carried
a big bouquet of her lovely, beauti-
ful, wonderful flowers and handed
them to my mother. "I guess I was
a little hard on the girl," she said,
and explained that so many chil-
dren had bothered her flowers that
she had felt impatient at the time.
It was as if the sun had chased
that cloud right out of the sky and
out of my day, and everything was
wonderful once more.
Josef Muench
SUGAR PINE IN SEQUOIA NATIONAL PARK, CALIFORNIA
(bound in o,
u turner
Renie H. Littlewood
There are two sounds in summer lovely to me —
The wind in the top of a tall pine tree,
Sighing or singing a soft melody,
Lulling the day's endless cares tenderly
Into the limbo of sleep.
The music of streams as they wash over stone,
Purling of rapids, and thunderous drone
Of falls as they plunge down to depths unknown,
To swirl without pause into channels, moss-grown,
Leading to meadows below.
Lovely sounds,
Summer sounds.
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Orchids in the Snow
Chapter 2
Rosa Lee Lloyd
Synopsis: Sharon Haskell marries Sam Who takes care of them, she
Wynter, an engineer, and plans to go with WOndered, watching a little blond
him to make their home in Fairbanks, • i • -ti n,r „ „„ i •_ c~~
A1 1 a, .1 ij- „ .• cl ' wirehair with, swollen eyes limp tor-
Alaska. At the wedding reception Shar- J , K. ,
on's Aunt Jewel catches the bride's sakenly past them as though look-
bouquet. ing for someone.
Sam had already made arrange-
IT was almost noon when Sharry ments for their flight to Fairbanks,
and Sam arrived in Anchorage but there was time to eat before
the following Wednesday. The their plane left,
airport was buzzing with activity as She held Sam's arm tightly as
they left the luxurious nonstop air- they walked toward the Big Hand
liner that had brought them from Cafe that Angus McFarland, one of
Seattle in less than seven hours. the airplane passengers, had told
The transparent blue-spring dark- them about. She felt safe and se-
ness had faded, and the sun loomed cure when she was near Sam. Yes,
brilliantly above the eastern sum- even though Alaska was just as
mits. fascinating as McFarland said it was,
Today was June fifteenth, the be- there was also something strange
ginning of summer in Alaska. Every about this far north country that
living thing seemed vital and full almost frightened her. Maybe it was
of energy. because she hadn't been away from
Sharry noticed how friendly the home before except on summer
people were, smiling and greeting vacations with her family,
passengers with "Hi, there, fellow, "I wish we had invited McFar-
glad you're home again." land to have luncheon with us," she
'They're just like us!" she said said, thinking of the tall lean man
to Sam. "Some wear hats and some who had asked them to drop the
don't. Oh, look! There's an Eski- "Mister" and call him McFarland.
mo." "He is so friendly and humorous.
"Why, sure!" Sam laughed back. And his position as manager of that
"You can see anything up here, big salmon company in Bristol Bay
Remember McFarland told us that interests me. He knows so much
it's high time we people from the about the faraway places of Alaska.
United States should be informed And yet he's just like one of us."
about the real Alaska. It's a great, "He surely is," Sam agreed. "He's
big, fabulous, lovable country, and a fine man. But he must be lonely
well worth the seven million dollars up there. His daughter is grown up
we paid for it in 1867." now, and his wife died when she
"Look at the dogs!" she ex- was only three years old."
claimed. "I've never seen so many Sharry said, "She's twenty-one
dogs anywhere." now. My age. He expects her to
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375
fly in from Fairbanks to meet him
here for a visit. She's taking home
economics at the University there.
I surely want to meet her. I must
make new friends — now that I've
left all my old ones."
Sharry hadn't meant to let her
voice drop wistfully. She didn't
want Sam to know she was home-
sick already.
He did not speak for a moment.
"I mean — I'll bet she is a nice
girl," she added quickly.
"McFarland adores her. You can
see that when he tells what a good
student she is."
"I wonder why he hasn't married
again, Sam?" she asked him. "He's
a good Latter-day Saint. He goes
to Utah twice a year for conference.
You'd think he'd meet someone
he'd like to marry."
CAM nodded thoughtfully. "May-
be he hasn't met the right one,"
he said. "Meeting girls at church
or parties, dancing and having fun
is all right, but asking someone to
marry you and live in a place like
Bristol Village is quite a different
story. It means a woman has to
love a man above all others. It
means sacrifice and privation and
loneliness for the life she has been
used to and the dear ones she has
left behind. McFarland told me a
little about himself and his work —
enough so I can fit the pieces to-
gether. I'm just lucky, Sharry, to
have you — love me — enough."
His voice stumbled and Sharry
pressed his arm close to her side.
"I do love you, Sam. Enough for
anything. But Fairbanks isn't like
Bristol Bay up there in the Aleu-
tian Islands. McFarland says Bris-
tol Village is the tailpiece of the
world — the storybook land of
Gulliver's Travels. Its population
is mostly Aleuts and Eskimos with
very few white people. That's dif-
ferent from Fairbanks," she assured
him, confidently.
Sam did not answer. Suddenly
he quickened his step.
"Look! There's McFarland on
the corner. Let's ask him to eat
with us."
McFarland was standing on the
curb as though waiting for some-
one. He was holding a small dog
in his arms. It was the little blond
wirehair that Sharry had noticed be-
fore?
He accepted their invitation glad-
ly, on one condition.
"I'll pay for my own meal," he
laughed. "You kids will have to
learn to go Dutch. Everybody in
Alaska totes his own load. I learned
that when I came here as a boy in
1930. Anchorage was just a little
railroad town then. Now it's the
hub of aviation up here."
His eyes went over the crowds of
people on the sidewalks, the busy
taxicabs, the up-to-date automobiles.
"Anchorage has plane schedules
to all parts of the country. These
crowds will get worse, now that
we're a State. Watch the country
grow."
"LJE looked tenderly at the little
dog he was carrying.
"I'll park this little fellow and get
him some chow while we're having
dinner. Most of these cafes have
accommodations for your dog for
about ten per cent of what they
charge people. Are you sure you
want to eat at the Big Hand?" he
questioned. "Anchorage has some
real ritzy eating places — everything
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from wild hen under glass to finger
bowls. How about one of those
places?"
Sharry shook her head. "Let's try
the Big Hand," she said, thinking
that would please Sam. She noticed
that he was looking carefully at the
little dog, then back at McFarland,
whose pine-green eyes had a pen-
sive yearning look this morning as
he watched Sam and Sharrv.
He was a good-looking man in his
middle forties; his face was long,
with high, bony planes and his
shoulders were strong and loose and
strained his black woolen shirt. His
hair was still dark, with sprinkles
of gray at his temples. There was
a hunger and loneliness about him
that touched Sharry's heart.
"Is this your dog?" Sam asked
him as they neared the cafe.
"No, just picked him up," Mc-
Farland answered. "Poor little guy
looked lonesome and homesick. So
I guess he's mine if nobody claims
him. My daughter Marie loves
dogs. Her plane is due soon. She'll
come to the Big Hand."
"The dog's eyes need attention,"
Sam said in his straightforward way.
"And that bite on his throat does,
too."
"Yes, he's been in a fight," Mc-
Farland agreed. "These little fel-
lows have it tough up here unless
they belong to someone. Dogs are
just like people. They have to be-
long to someone to be happy. I'll
ask them to clean him up before he
gets his grub."
Sharry looked at Sam, happy that
she belonged to him. She had so
much to be grateful for, she was
almost ashamed of the homesick-
ness that nagged at her every time
she remembered how far away she
was from home.
Suddenly she felt something warm
and wet on her cheek. The little
dog in McFarland's arms had bent
his head toward her and touched
her cheek with his tongue.
"Well! What about that!" Mc-
Farland laughed. "He's taken a
shine to you, Sharry."
She stopped and cuddled him in
her arms. He nuzzled down con-
tentedly.
"Let's name him Nuzzle," she
said. "It just suits him."
"It sure does!" he agreed. "Nuz-
zle it is!"
Sam was watching with an indul-
gent grin.
HHHE cafe was crowded when they
entered. People were waiting
for tables, so while McFarland
parked the dog, Sharry and Sam
held a place in line.
"Smells good in here," McFarland
said when he came back to them.
"This place is noted for broiled
muskrat and all wild game meals.
You should try some, Sharry. Get
used to it. It's one of the main
meat dishes up there in Fairbanks
and all through that country where
you'll be working, Sam. Most beef
is too high-priced for ordinary use,
unless you're a millionaire."
Sharry pulled a face. She would
rather starve, she thought.
"It's as tender as young pork,"
McFarland went on. "Delicate
flavor, too. That's what they're
cooking now on the broiler."
Sam touched her hand, under-
standing^. "There will be other
kinds of food," he told her.
But when they were seated and
she looked at the menu, she wasn't
so sure about it.
"How about some caribou or rein-
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377
deer or porcupine?" he suggested,
teasing her.
"Porcupine is a luxury up here,"
McFarland told them. "We save
them for the fellow who is stranded.
We don't hunt them commercially
or just for sport. Porcupine meat
saved my life one time. I was
stranded alone in the Talkeetas
without firearms or a knife of any
kind. I had to find something I
could kill with my snowshoe and
a porcupine was the only thing. So
I value them."
Sam asked the waitress if they had
anything as ordinary as ham and
eggs, explaining that his wife didn't
like wild game.
"I'd like grapefruit, too," Sharry
added.
"We have ham and eggs but no
grapefruit," she replied. "We can't
get it often and when we do it's air-
borne from outside. We have to
charge high prices for it. Our wild
berries are very good, though."
And they are very good, Sharry
thought later as she ate the luscious,
crunchy berries that reminded her
of Utah blueberries with a dash of
spice. Sam had ordered a caribou
steak and seemed to be enjoying it.
T^HEY were nearly finished when
McFarland, looking surprised,
stood up, excused himself, and hur-
ried toward a small, oldish woman
who had just entered the cafe. She
seemed lost and bewildered until
she saw him, then her weather-
beaten face crinkled into a luminous
smile, as though she had found what
she had been searching for.
"Is she a native?" Sharry whis-
pered to Sam. "Her hair is still
black, although her face is very old."
Sam looked puzzled.
"No— I think she's a white wom-
an. But I'm not sure."
Sharry was fascinated with her ap-
pearance. Her hair was parted in
the middle with a single braid down
her back. She wore a skirt made of
white hide with white mukluks to
match. Her blouse was a loose
parka of the same material, heavily
beaded, and was, no doubt, Sharry
concluded, her very best dress.
Everything about her, even the
white mukluks, was spotlessly clean.
McFarland, after a short conver-
sation with her, escorted her to their
table with his arm protectingly
around her shoulders.
"This is my dear friend Susan
Elge from Bristol Village," he said
to them. "She flew here last week
to bring her husband to the hos-
pital."
"I have looked here for you every
day at noon," she told him. "Her-
man asks for you. He needs your
encouragement, your prayers."
McFarland patted her shoulder,
consolingly. "I'm sorry I've been
away so long, Susan. I meant to
return right after April conference,
but I got tied up with a big salmon
deal in Seattle."
Susan said, "It is good you are
here now. You will stay in Anchor-
age — until we know . . .?"
McFarland nodded.
"I will stay, Susan," he answered,
simply.
"Thank you," she murmured.
Sharry felt a vibrant courage in
Susan's voice, although her thin,
toilworn hands were laced together,
and her dark eyes were stricken with
anxiety.
"You must eat," McFarland said,
kindly.
"Only soup. Reindeer soup. Will
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you order for me while I wash my
hands?"
After she had left the table, Mc-
Farland told them about Susan. She
had been born in Alaska of white
parents but had been to college in
California. There she had met a
Swedish fisherman, Herman Elge,
married him, and gone with him to
brave the wild frozen barrenness of
Bristol Village. They had reared
one daughter, Zora, and a son, Swen-
son, who was now in New York
studying to be a doctor. Herman
and Susan and several other white
people in the village were loyal
Latter-day Saints, meeting together
in each other's homes. For many
years Susan had been an angel of
mercy to everyone who needed her.
It was Susan who had helped Mc-
Farland rear his baby girl, Marie,
after the death of her mother, and
it was Susan who had nursed
McFarland through pneumonia after
he was stranded in a boat for three
hours in a violent storm on the Bay.
"Her daughter lives in Sitka since
her marriage/' he went on. "Her
son has six months longer in his resi-
dency before he can come home.
Susan wonders if he will want to
live in Bristol Village after New
York. Alaskans always worry about
that when their children go outside
for any length of time. Susan has
given much to make life easier for
others." His voice was very gentle.
"Now she needs our love and our
help. Herman is very ill — lung
surgery — tomorrow. . . ."
CHARRY saw a young girl hurry-
ing toward them, her eyes shin-
ing.
"Daddy!" she called gaily. "Oh,
Daddy, you're here!"
"Baby!" McFarland folded her
in his big arms, lifting her off her
feet. "Look dear, meet my new
friends, Sam and Sharry Wynter.
They're going to live in Fairbanks.
This is my daughter Marie."
"Oh, hello!" she laughed, and
Sharry thought she had never seen a
jollier girl. Although she was not
pretty, she was bright and whole-
some, and her laugh bubbled with
joy. Her straight, plain, brown hair
was cut short like a boy's, and her
face was splashed with freckles. She
brought the sunshine with her. It
was in her clear blue eyes, on her
freckled skin, in her voice. Sharry
liked her at once. She wore a
straight, dark blue skirt with a white
collarless blouse. A light blue
sweater hung carelessly from her
shoulders. The way the girls dress
at home, Sharry thought, feeling
overdressed in her light gray linen
traveling suit that was part of her
trousseau. Her own elegant little
hat seemed pretentious in the pres-
ence of this natural-looking, bare-
headed girl.
"I wanted to meet you at the air-
port," Marie said to McFarland,
"but my plane was twenty minutes
late on account of the head wind.
Then I had to check my bag and
park my dog before I came here."
McFarland explained that he had
bought Marie a small plane of her
own, which was not uncommon in
Alaska.
"Airplanes are the best way to
travel up here," he went on. "There
are more airplanes in Alaska, per
capita, than anywhere else in the
world. Everyone uses them, even
the primitive people in remote
regions like Bristol Village where I
live."
ORCHIDS IN THE SNOW
379
Sharry winced. Coming up here
by air had been a new and bewilder-
ing experience for her. How would
she ever accustom herself to air
travel?
When the waitress brought Sus-
an's soup and put it on the table
before her empty chair, McFarland
answered Marie's questioning eyes.
Quietly he told her that Susan Elge
was here in Anchorage and of her
trouble.
"Dear Mama Sue/' Marie said,
lovingly. "Uncle Herman must get
well, Daddy. He has always been so
strong — the strongest man in the
village, except you — and Swen.
Uncle Herman loves music and good
books. We all need him. . . .""
TITER head came up with a little
jerk. "Mama Sue must send
for Swen," she said. "He is a doc-
tor now — a new doctor with all the
newest methods."
McFarland shook his head. "You
let Mama Sue decide that, Marie,"
he said firmly. "We will just stand
by when she needs us "
"But we must help her the way
she helped us!" she remonstrated.
"I know, dear, but not with ad-
vice until we are asked," he said,
resolutely.
When the waitress came again,
Marie ordered a caribouger and
French fries. McFarland smiled at
Sharry.
"They are like your hamburgers,
only made of ground caribou meat.
Very good. You'll like them."
Sharry did not answer. Sam was
looking at her, and she read the
message in his eyes: they should
leave before Susan returned so they
would not intrude.
"Our plane leaves in fifteen min-
utes," Sam said, standing up.
"We're mighty glad we met you fine
people, our first friends in Alaska.
Be sure to look us up in Fairbanks,
Marie, as soon as you return. We'll
stay at the Brideway Hotel until we
get a house."
Marie's eyes widened in surprise
as she looked up at them.
"You mean you don't already
have a house to go to? Oh, no!
Don't tell me that! Fairbanks is
running over with people. They're
living in tents and wanigans, even
under old bridges. They should
have warned you!"
Sharry felt her throat tighten. She
looked at Sam. His jaw had squared
off, determinedly.
"We'll be okay," he said, stead-
ily. "Sharry and I will be okay any-
where in the world together, even
if we do have to live under a
bridge!"
Sharry heard the honk and hum
of the traffic outside, the whirr of
a huge plane in the sky overhead,
the bark of a dog in the distance,
and the quickened beat of her own
heart. This was Alaska, thousands of
miles from home.
"Take my key!" Marie was open-
ing her bag, writing on a piece of
paper. "Here's my address. Use
my apartment — please do!"
(To be continued)
8>ra
ye,
Grace Ingles Frost
Prayer is the key divine
That may open the door
To the house of God.
ANNUAL REPORT FOR 1959
SELECTED DATA
I HE CHURCH-WIDE compilation of the Relief Society Annual Report for
1959 reveals the faith and works of more than 203,000 devoted Relief Society
sisters throughout the world as they have given loving and tender service to their
fellow men and have participated in the meetings and activities of this great
Society which was established under divine inspiration and has been Priesthood
guided throughout its history.
It is gratifying to note that from its original charter members of eighteen
women in 1842, Relief Society has now grown in numbers to 203,752, an increase
of 10,199 sisters over 1958. Of this total membership, 166,809 reside in stakes
of the Church and 36,943 reside in missions. This Relief Society membership is
distributed throughout the fifty States of the United States, the District of Colum-
bia, and fifty-one foreign countries.
As of December 31, 1959, there were officially organized Relief Societies
functioning in 2,624 wards and branches in the 289 stakes of the Church and in
1,826 branches in the forty-seven missions of the Church. This represents a total
increase of 129 Relief Societies over 1958.
A total of 134,024 sisters in the stakes and missions gave of their time and
talents in positions of leadership and service as officers, teachers, or visiting
teachers. Opportunity for musical expression and development was enjoyed by
approximately 46,165 sisters, who participated in 3,126 Singing Mothers choruses,
which was an increase of 7,269 participants and 562 choruses.
During 1959, The Relief Society Magazine, the official voice of Relief Society,
was placed in 7,961 more homes than in 1958, thus extending the influence of
Relief Society into the homes of 162,589 subscribers.
Visiting teaching, an important phase of the program of Relief Society,
"typifies the friendly spirit and concern of Relief Society for the physical and
spiritual well-being of families in the Church." Through this service 87,592 visit-
ing teachers made a total of 3,529,477 visits to families in 47,822 visiting teacher
districts to observe instances of need and to carry a spiritual message into the
homes. This was an increase of 179,675 visits, which represented an average of
8.43 visits during the year to each Latter-day Saint family.
Under the direction of Relief Society, 313,041 visits were made to the sick
and homebound and the equivalent of 34,827 eight-hour days care of the sick
were given by Relief Society sisters where needed. Assistance was also given at
7,982 funerals and in 733 instances Relief Societies were called upon to help dress
the dead for burial.
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RELIEF SOCIETIES REPORTED IN 1959 ANNUAL REPORT
As an aid to the bishops, ward Relief Society presidents made 74,731 visits
to families under the direction of their bishops, to determine needs. A total of
671,501 hours were contributed to the Church Welfare Program by females upon
assignment by Relief Society. As welfare sewing and other sewing done under
the direction of Relief Society, there were completed 476,765 sewed articles which
included 63,808 articles of women's clothing, 47,361 articles of children's clothing,
and 171,549 items of household furnishings, together with men's clothing, quilts,
and other miscellaneous sewed articles.
Increases have been made in attendance at all of the regular Relief Society
meetings, i.e., theology, work, literature, and social science, with the greatest in-
crease being in attendance at the work meeting, at which the sisters receive
training in sewing and homemaking skills.
Through the program of Relief Society the organization is continuing in its
role as a service and educational organization for the women of the Church. As
a result of the faithful service given by the sisters, they, too, have been the re-
cipients of rich blessings. Through their participation, Relief Society "has contrib-
uted to the personal development of Relief Society members, has widened their
sphere of influence, and has qualified them better to serve their fellow men. It has
developed their skills, and has made them better homemakers. It has given them
a broader understanding and a deeper appreciation of life. It has built and
strengthened their testimonies of the gospel by increasing their knowledge of gos-
pel principles and doctrine, and has influenced them to hold fast to gospel truths."
General Secretary-Treasurer
1959 GEOGRAPHICAL DISTRIBUTION
OF RELIEF SOCIETY ORGANIZATIONS AND MEMBERS
In Stakes
In Mi
ssions
Totals
Location
Organi-
Organi-
Organi-
zations
Members
zations
Members
zations
Members
UNITED STATES
Alabama
18
346
18
' 346
Alaska
7
193
7
193
Arizona
144
8,325
8
116
152
8,441
Arkansas
7
117
7
117
California
387
25,605
37
1,070
424
26,675
Colorado
41
2,124
18
444
59
2,568
Connecticut
4
125
4
125
Delaware
3
66
3
66
District of Columbia
3
176
3
176
Florida
27
921
23
551
50
1,472
Georgia
14
445
14
287
28
732
Hawaii
18
1,000
40
786
58
1,786
Idaho
349
22,225
4
69
353
22,294
Illinois
11
444
26
530
37
974
Indiana
11
383
14
305
25
688
Iowa
21
340
21
340
Kansas
6
242
16
267
22
509
Kentucky
1
27
23
390
24
417
Louisiana
16
378
7
104
23
482
Maine
13
240
13
240
Maryland
6
320
1
39
7
359
Massachusetts
13
311
13
311
Michigan
9
355
7
134
16
489
Minnesota
20
412
20
412
Mississippi
9
172
10
198
19
370
Missouri
9
315
15
223
24
538
Montana
37
1,239
27
567
64
1,806
Nebraska
1
34
13
258
14
292
Nevada
47
2,871
1
11
48
2,882
New Hampshire
4
90
4
90
New Jersey
3
145
9
191
12
336
New Mexico
28
1,191
32
440
60
1,631
New York
6
300
25
520
31
820
North Carolina
2
47
38
902
40
949
North Dakota
6
92
6
92
Ohio
9
273
25
550
34
823
Oklahoma
24
477
24
477
Oregon
56
3,407
24
'581
80
3,988
Pennsylvania
1
46
28
603
29
649
Rhode Island
2
37
2
37
South Carolina
13
536
10
137
23
673
South Dakota
12
182
12
182
Tennessee
17
320
17
320
Texas
51
1,560
48
775
99
2,335
Utah
1,086
80,764
1,086
80,764
Vermont
9
160
9
160
Virginia
14
582
21
382
35
964
Washington
82
4,040
11
203
93
4,243
West Virginia
13
230
13
230
Wisconsin
4
156
10
204
14
360
Wyoming
50
2,872
10
342
60
3,214
Total — United States
2,551
163,520
788
15,917
3,339 179,437
In Stakes
In Missions
Tota
Is
Location
Organi-
Organi-
Organi-
zations Members
zations
Members
zations
Members
OTHER COUNTRIES
Argentina
26
927
26
927
Azores
1
6
1
6
Australia
33
986
33
986
Austria
6
186
6
186
Belgium
9
95
9
95
Brazil
29
430
29
430
Canada
57 2,745
85
1,791
142
4,536
Chile
5
145
5
145
Cook Islands
1
24
1
24
Costa Rica
3
47
3
47
Denmark
20
435
20
435
El Salvador
4
75
4
75
England
78
1,487
78
1,487
Ethiopia
1
3
1
3
Fiji Islands
1
9
1
9
Finland
17
400
17
400
Formosa
4
, 40
4
40
France
19
170
19
170
Germany
163
5,329
163
5,329
Greece
1
3
1
3
Guam
1 28
1
28
Guatemala
15
276
15
276
Honduras
3
79
3
79
Hong Kong, B.C.C.
8
139
8
139
Ireland
5
82
5
82
Italy
1
4
1
4
Japan
36
438
36
438
Korea
2
53
2
53
Libya
1
12
1
12
Mexico
4 153
98
1,797
102
1,950
Netherlands
26
340
26
340
New Zealand
11 363
68
1,001
79
1,364
Nicaragua
1
16
1
16
Norway
20
282
20
282
Okinawa
2
13
2
13
Panama Canal Zone
2
31
2
31
Philippine Islands
1
7
1
7
Paraguay
1
24
1
24
Peru
1
42
1
42
Puerto Rico
2
20
2
20
Samoa
61
720
61
720
Scotland
6
102
6
102
Spain
2
36
2
36
Sweden
36
544
36
544
Switzerland
28
401
28
401
Tahiti
12
292
12
292
Tonga
42
754
42
754
Turkey
1
8
1
8
Union of South Africa
19
289
19
289
Uruguay
27
572
27
572
Wales
5
64
5
64
Total — Other Countries
Total — United States
GRAND TOTAL
73
3,289 1,038 21,026 1,111
2,551 163,520
788
24,315
15,917 3,339 179,437
2,624 166,809 1,826 36,943 4,450 203,752
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VISITING TEACHING
959
958
ncrease
Visiting Teachers
87,592
81,988
5,604
Visiting Teacher Districts
47,822
43,448
4,374
Family Visits (Total)
3,529,477
3,349,802
179,675
Home
2,338,921
2,238,136
1 00,785
Not Home
1,190,556
1,111,666
78,890
Per Cent at Home
66.26%
66.81 %
Communications in Lieu of Visits
68,628
66,740
1,888
An average of 8.43 visits were made to each L.D.5. family in 1 959
An average of 8.65 visits were made to each L.D.S. family in 1 958
COMPASSIONATE SERVICE
Visits to Sick and Homebound
Days Care of the Sick
Bodies Dressed for Burial
Funerals at Which Relief
Society Assisted
Wards and Branches Maintaining
Lists of Nurses (Total)
In Stakes
In Missions
1959
1958
Increase
or Decrease
313,041
293,876
19,165
34,827
35,787
-960
733
783
-50
7,982
8,737
-755
2,731
2,716
15
2,028
1,927
101
703
789
-86
CHURCH WELFARE SERVICE
959
958
ncrease
Hours Contributed to Church Welfare
Program by All Females Upon
Assignment by Relief Society
Family Visits Made Under Direction
of Bishop
Sisters Serviced Who Sewed for
Themselves and Families
Hours Contributed to Church Welfare
Program by Sisters Serviced by
Relief Society Under the
Direction of the Bishop 223,907
671,501
477,896
193,605
74,731
57,379
17,352
3,394
3,394
m
6,302
07,605
SEWING SERVICE AT MEETINGS
Articles Completed (Total)
Kinds of Articles:
476,765
429,125
47,640
Quilts
22,198
21,630
568
Children's Clothing
47,361
41,717
5,644
Women's Clothing
63,808
59,963
3,845
Men's Clothing
3,667
3,565
102
Household Furnishings
171,549
151,660
19,889
Other (Miscellaneous)
168,182
150,590
17,592
Sewing Machines Owned
by Societies (Total)
4,430
4,093
337
In Stakes
3,752
3,563
189
In Missions
678
530
148
Ml
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TOTAL MEETINGS HELD
Relief Society General Conference
Stake Relief Society Conventions
Stake and Mission Meetings (Total)
Stake and Mission District Board
Stake and Mission Leadership
Ward and Branch Meetings (Total)
Regular Meetings for Members
Visiting Teachers Meetings
Preparation Meetings
March, November Fast Sunday
and Other Special Meetings
Annual Relief Society Conferences
Officers Meetings Prior
to Conferences
1959
1958
Number
Number
Increase
21 5,474
or Decrease
221 ,807
6,333
1
161
1
160
1
6,240
5,778
462
3,545
3,140
405
2,695
2,638
57
215,383
209,509
5,874
1 45,983
141,020
4,963
27,292
25,507
1,785
20,826
22,450
-1,624
15,158
14,643
515
3,755
3,625
130
2,369
2,264
105
VISITS BY STAKE AND MISSION OFFICERS
Visits to Wards and Branches (Total) 33,051
To Wards by Stake Officers 26,786
To Branches by Mission and
District Officers 6,265
31,138
24,665
6,473
1,913
2,121
-208
1959
1958
Num-
Per-
Num-
Per-
ber
cent
ber
cent
Increase
/ERAGE ATTENDANCE
or
Decrease
Regular Meetings for
Members (Total)
76,919
37.8
73,381
37.9
3,538
In Stakes
61 J 80
36.7
58,425
36.9
2,755
In Missions
15,739
42.6
1 4,956
43.0
783
Theology
83,103
40.8
79,741
41.1
3,362
Work
76,650
37.6
72,404
37.4
4,246
Literature
73,116
35.9
69,968
36.1
3,148
Social Science
74,808
36.7
71,415
36.8
3,393
Visiting Teacher Meetings
44,767
51.1
43,291
52.8
1,476
CONSOLIDATED FINANCIAL REPORT FOR STAKES AND MISSIONS
Receipts and Disbursements
Cash Balance on Hand, January 1, 1959 $1,509,025.05
Receipts..... 2,684,576.26
Total $4,193,601.31
Disbursements .$2,565,628.26
Cash Balance on Hand, December 31, 1959 $1,627,973.05
Assets ■ — December 31,1 959
Cash Balance on Hand, December 31 $1,627,973.05
Wheat Trust Fund Deposited at Presiding Bishops Office 422,912.22
Other Invested Funds (Savings Bonds, etc.) 68,320.83
Real Estate and Buildings 1 1 7,091 .91
Total Assets $2,236,298.01
ffleaus for Special LDi
maers
Ruby K. Smith
CPECIAL dinners for Sundays,
holidays, anniversaries, family
gatherings, and other occasions may
be made appetizing and attractive
by planning the menu and prepar-
ing most of the food the day before
the dinner is to be served.
The casseroles in the following
menus may all be prepared the day
before the special dinner and stored
in the refrigerator over night. Then,
thirty or forty minutes before the
time for serving the dinner, the
casseroles may be placed in the
oven, with the thermostat set at
moderate heat (3000 to 3500). By
the time the quick-cooking green
vegetables are done, and the salads
and fruit cups have been served,
the main dish will be ready.
Dinner for Family — Menu No. 1
Minted Fruit Cup
Chicken Casserole de Luxe
Candied Sweet Potatoes
Asparagus Tips with Hollandaise Sauce
Golden Glow Salad
Jiffy Applesauce Dessert
Minted Fruit Cup
Add crushed mint candy to canned fruit mix, or to any combination of diced fruit
prepared at home. Canned clingstone peaches, pears, and pineapple — topped with a
maraschino cherry — will make a good combination. If diced bananas are used, they
should be added just before serving.
Chicken Casserole de Luxe
3 c. cooked rice
% c. butter or substitute
5 tbsp. flour
1 Vi c. chicken stock or bouillon,
mixed with
1 c. evaporated milk
1 tsp. salt
2 c. cooked chicken, sliced, or
2 7-ounce cans boned chicken
1 small can mushrooms
2 tbsp. shredded pimento
/4 c. shredded green pepper
lA c slivered blanched almonds
While preparing cooked rice according to directions on package, make white sauce
of shortening, flour, and liquid mixture. Add salt and any other desired seasoning.
Arrange one-half the drained rice in a well-greased baking dish. Pour half the sauce
over rice. Next arrange a layer of mushrooms, then the chicken. Sprinkle pimento
and green pepper over chicken. Arrange remaining rice, and cover with remaining
sauce. Sprinkle slivered almonds over top. Bake in moderate oven 30 minutes.
4 c. cooked sweet potatoes
1 c. brown sugar
3 tbsp. butter
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Candied Sweet Potatoes
Vi c. water
J4 tsp. salt
MENUS FOR SPECIAL DINNERS 391
Cut sweet potatoes lengthwise and arrange in greased baking pan. Cook remaining
ingredients over low heat until sugar melts, stirring constantly. Pour mixture over sweet
potatoes. Bake in a moderate oven for 30 minutes. (This recipe may also be used for
candied yams.)
Asparagus Tips
Break upper, tender portions of fresh asparagus from woody base. Cook in covered
saucepan with % cup boiling, salted water for 15 to 20 minutes. Serve with hot
Hollandaise sauce.
Spur-of-the-Moment Hollandaise
Carefully heat Vi cup mayonnaise, stirring constantly. Thin with cream or evap-
orated milk.
Golden Glow Salad
1 envelope gelatin lA c. lemon juice
lA c. sugar 1 c. finely shredded carrots
lA tsp. salt 1 c. pineapple, diced or crushed
% c. boiling water lA c. broken pecan meats
Vi c. cold water
Mix gelatin, sugar, and salt. Add boiling water and stir until gelatin is dissolved.
Add cold water and lemon juice. Chill until partially congealed. Add remaining in-
gredients, and set in individual molds. Serve on lettuce with salad dressing.
Jiffy Applesauce Dessert
Spoon canned or fresh applesauce over individual servings of uniced cake, and top
with scoop of vanilla ice cream.
Dinner For Family — Menu No. 2
Frozen Fruit Cup
Golden Brown Chicken en Casserole
Scalloped Potatoes Frozen Peas
Ouick Buns
Waldorf Salad Mold Lemon Chiffon Pie
Frozen Fruit Cup
1 c. peaches, drained Vz c. water
1 c. sugar lemon juice
Boil sugar and water for 5 minutes to make a syrup. Whip peaches until smooth
in mixer or blender. Add syrup and 1 tablespoon lemon juice. Pour in tray and place
in freezer until firm. To serve, place in sherbet glasses and pour lemon juice or ginger
ale over each serving. (Other fruits, such as pears, apples, or pineapple, may be used
in this recipe.)
Golden Brown Chicken en Casserole
1 frying chicken Vi c. fry meal mix
Cut chicken in pieces for frying. If dry, slightly moisten in cool water. Shake
off excess moisture. Put fry meal in paper or plastic bag. Add chicken and shake in
392 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JUNE 1960
bag until chicken is thoroughly coated with meal. Place pieces of chicken, cut side
up, in pan (without rack), and brown under broiler heat. Turn over each piece,
and continue broiling until skin side is golden brown. Place chicken in casserole, cover,
and store in refrigerator over night. Before serving, bake in moderate oven (3250),
30 or 40 minutes.
Scalloped Potatoes
6 medium-sized potatoes 1 tsp. salt
lA c. butter or other fat % tsp. pepper
V* c. flour 2 tbsp. minced onion
2 c. milk
Cook potatoes in jackets until almost tender. Peel and slice thin. Heat minced
onion in melted butter, then blend in flour and gradually add milk and cook until it
boils, stirring constantly. Place alternate layers of potatoes and sauce in greased casse-
role, and cover. Before serving, reheat in moderate oven, 20 to 30 minutes. Uncover
to brown the last 10 minutes. (Grated cheese may be blended into white sauce.)
Frozen Peas
Heat lA cup salted water to boiling. Add peas and separate with fork. Bring to
boiling point again, and cook until peas are tender — 5 or 10 minutes. Add butter and
serve immediately.
Quick Buns
1 pkg. dry yeast or 1 yeast cake Vz c. currants or raisins
% c. water Vz tsp. cinnamon
1 egg, separated powdered sugar, as needed
iVi c. biscuit mix
Soften yeast in lukewarm water. Add egg yolk, biscuit mix, currants, and cinna-
mon, and beat vigorously. Knead on floured board (25 strokes). Roll Vz inch thick.
Cut with 2 Vz inch biscuit cutter. Shape into buns and place in 11 x 7 inch baking pan.
Let rise until almost double. Brush with egg whites. Bake 12 to 15 minutes at 4000.
Add Vz teaspoon vanilla and powdered sugar to remaining egg white to coat the
top. Serve cold, or reheat just before serving.
Waldorf Salad Mold
1 package lemon-flavored jello 4 unpeeled red apples
1 c. hot water 2 c. diced celery
1 c. cold water Vz c. chopped walnuts
Dissolve jello in hot water. Add cold water and chill until partially set. Add
remaining ingredients and put in individual molds. Chill until firm. Serve on crisp
lettuce or any preferred green, and top with salad dressing.
Lemon Chiffon Pie
1 tbsp. gelatin 4 eggs, separated
lA c. cold water Vz c. lemon juice
1 c. sugar 1 tsp. grated lemon rind.
1 baked pic shell
Soak gelatin in cold water. Beat egg yolks until very light. Add one half of
sugar, juice, and rind. Beat until smooth and cook on low heat until custard coats the
spoon. Remove from heat, add soaked gelatin, and stir until dissolved. Chill mixture
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until partially congealed. Meanwhile, beat egg whites until very light, gradually adding
remaining half cup of sugar. Then carefully fold cooled mixture into egg whites, and
pour into baked pie shell. Chill thoroughly, and serve with whipped cream.
Buffet Dinner for Larger Family Gatherings
Hot Tomato Juice with Whipped Cream
Classic Meat Loaf
Creamed New Potatoes and Peas Candied Yams
Buttered Bread or Rolls
Garden Ring Salad Deviled Eggs
Assorted Relishes
Peach Paradise
Hot Tomato Juice with Whipped Cream
(May be served in living room during last-minute dinner preparations)
Add one bouillon cube to each quart of tomato juice. Season to taste with salt,,
sugar, and celery salt. Serve hot, adding one teaspoon whipped cream to each serving.
Classic Meat Loaf
2 lbs. ground beef 2 c. milk
1 lb. ground pork l c. chopped onions
4 c. fine dry bread crumbs 2 tsp. salt
2 eggs, well beaten i tbsp. Worcestershire sauce
Combine all ingredients and mix thoroughly. Pack in greased loaf pan. Bake in
moderate oven (3500) for 1 hour. Refrigerate over night. Return to oven before
serving, and bake another 30 minutes. Serves 8-10.
Creamed New Potatoes and Peas
4 to 6 c. cooked new potatoes, diced 2 to 3 c. cooked peas
3 to 4 c. well-seasoned white sauce
Combine ingredients in one large or two small casseroles. Refrigerate over night.
Before serving, heat in moderate oven 20 to 30 minutes.
Candied Yams
Use recipe given above for candied sweet potatoes.
Garden Ring Salad
(Bright vegetables captured in gelatin)
2 envelopes gelatin 1 c. shredded carrots
/4 c. sugar 1 c. shredded cabbage with
1 tsp. salt 2 tbsp. slivered pimento
1 Vi c. boiling water Vi c. shredded celery
1 c. cold water Vz c. slivered green pepper
Vi c. lemon juice
Mix gelatin, sugar, and salt. Add boiling water until gelatin is dissolved. Add
cold water and lemon juice. Chill until partially congealed. Place alternate half -cup
portions of the different vegetables into a 6!4-cup ring mold. Carefully pour in gela-
tin. Chill until firm.
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Courtesy American Institute of Baking
PEACH CAKE WITH WHIPPED CREAM
To serve, unmold on a large round platter, and garnish as desired. Deviled eggs
with parsley may be served in center.
Deviled Eggs
hard-cooked eggs
c. melted butter or mayonnaise
tsp. salt
dash of pepper
tsp. prepared mustard
tsp. onion, finely minced
tsp. curry powder (optional)
Cut shelled eggs into halves. With teaspoon, carefully remove yolks to a small
bowl. Set whites aside. Mash yolks very fine and crumbly. Blend in butter and other
ingredients. Generously refill hollows in whites with yolk mixture, slightly rounding
each.
Peach Paradise
i large round cake
(chiffon or angel food)
l pkg. white frosting mix
2 c. sliced clingstone peaches
i c. shredded coconut, toasted
Cut cake in two, horizontally. Spread frosting on lower layer and arrange %
cup diced peaches evenly over it. Replace upper layer and spread the rest of the
frosting over top and sides of cake. Sprinkle toasted coconut generously around outer
side of the dessert. Refrigerate overnight. Just before serving, arrange well-drained
sliced peaches in swirl pattern over top of cake.
To toast coconut, spread thinly in shallow pan, and toast in moderate oven
(3500) until delicately brown — about 5 minutes. Stir once or twice, to toast evenly.
Fiddlers Three
Lula Walker
SUSAN Eldon tossed restlessly
in her big walnut bed. Sleep
was slow in coming tonight.
The arthritis in her hands was both-
ering her. The sliver of light she
could see from the living room
meant that Myra, her daughter-in-
law, was still at her mending. Susan
always felt guilty when Myra was
mending. That had been her own
task before this trouble with her
hands. It was hard to bear this
awful feeling of uselessness that
weighed upon her.
She heard the outside door open
and close. That would be her
grandson Vance home from evening
orchestra practice in town. She
could hear his eager chatter about
commencement which was only
three weeks away.
"Mr. Rogers from Midland Col-
lege was at school today signing up
some of the seniors for next year,"
he was telling his mother. "Ned
and Harvey are both going."
Susan caught the wistful note in
his voice as he named his two
closest friends. If only Vance could
go, she thought. And then Myra
spoke.
"I wish you could go," she said,
"but even with good crops we
couldn't manage it with the interest
due this fall. There doesn't seem
to be any way." Myra's tired voice
was lifeless.
"There is a way," Vance burst out
excitedly. "Mr. Rogers visited
orchestra period. After my solo he
came around and talked to me. He
plays himself and knows instru-
ments. Right off he noticed my
violin. He said it was worth several
hundred dollars. Just think, Mom,
I could sell it and get a cheaper one
for practice. That would give me
the extra cash I need for school."
Sell the violin! The words
stabbed Susan like a knife. Sell the
violin that his grandfather had cher-
ished above every other possession!
She was aghast at the idea.
"But you couldn't!" It was Myra
speaking. "What would your
Grandmother say?"
"It's mine, isn't it?" Vance gave
back heatedly. "Grandfather gave
it to me. Besides," he added more
quietly, "Gran's a good sport. She
wants me to go to college. Music
is what I've always wanted. Mid-
land has the best music department
in the State. I'll work part time. I
can't miss my chance. I just
til )7
can t!
"Maybe — maybe — when the
fryers are sold, I might. . . ."
The soft closing of a door cut
off Myra's words, but Susan could
guess what Myra had in mind. The
precious money from her fryers
that was to build a new chicken
house might be used for Vance's
tuition. Myra must not do that.
The new house was a necessity if
Myra continued to raise chickens.
And raising chickens made an im-
portant addition to the family
income, with the returns from farm-
ing activities so uncertain.
But what of the violin? That
must not be sold. It was heart-
breaking to think of such a thing.
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But Susan didn't blame Vance. A
boy of seventeen didn't see things
as a woman of seventy. But some
day he would see and be sorry —
when the violin was gone. She re-
membered how William, her hus-
band, used to play it when he had
brought her to this house fifty years
ago as a bride. Lilting, lively tunes
he would play when he was happy,
mournful ones when he was in low
spirits. The violin had been a sort
of barometer of his feelings. Those
early years had been hard, but she
could not imagine William ever
parting with his violin. He would
probably have sold the cookstove
first, if that had been necessary.
l^O, the violin must not be sold,
but Vance was demanding his
chance, and he must have it. His
father Phillip had missed his. She
could not let that happen to Vance.
Phillip had worked hard here on the
farm, but when it came to farming,
he had been a square peg in a round
hole. His interests had been in
books and music. He had hoped
for college, but she and his father
felt they could not afford it, and
Phillip had lacked the drive to work
his way through. She realized now
they could have managed it some
way. She must find a way for
Vance.
Involuntarily, she passed her hands
across the satiny smoothness of the
walnut headboard. The touch of
the wood always seemed to bring
comfort when she was troubled —
like the touch of a loved one's hand.
But tonight it was like a sting, a
sharp reminder of how simple it
would be to save the violin and pro-
vide for Vance's need. But surely,
she thought, there must be some
other way besides selling her lovely
old walnut set that was a wedding
gift from her mother. In the moon-
light she could see the outline of
the beloved bureau and the stately
old highboy in the corner.
Her niece Margaret was eager to
buy the set any time Susan would
say the word. And Margaret had
made a substantial offer. But there
must be some other way, Susan kept
saying over and over to herself. She
was still wide-eyed when she heard
the clock strike three — with no
solution yet to her problem.
\\7HEN Susan woke, the bright
May morning sun was stream-
ing through her bedroom windows
brightening the faded pink roses of
the worn Wilton carpet. Quickly
she passed her fingers across the
headboard of the four-poster. Yes,
her bed was there, and the match-
ing bureau, and the old highboy.
She had dreamed her treasured set
was gone, and in its place the ugly
fumed oak pieces that were in the
attic.
She heard the clock striking eight.
Goodness, she had overslept a couple
of hours. In nervous haste she be-
gan to dress, her stiff fingers all
thumbs as she fumbled with the
buttons of her blue gingham. A
slight, girlish figure, Susan stood
trim and neat before the oval mir-
ror of the walnut bureau. As quickly
as her cramped hands would allow,
she brushed her wavy gray hair.
She must hurry. It was long past
breakfast time and Myra never liked
to hold a meal. Put her back for
the whole day she said. And with
a poultry meeting scheduled for to-
day she would be in a rush. Myra,
a dark stoutish woman in her mid-
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397
forties, was at the sink washing the
cream separator parts when Susan
came into the kitchen.
"I slept scandalous late/' she apolo-
gized. "My hands bothered me for
a while. But they're all right now/'
she hastily added, "you go ahead and
get ready. I'll do the dishes."
"I slept poorly, too/' Myra con-
fessed.
The reason Susan could easily
guess. Myra was worrying about
the violin, too, and probably trying
to decide whether to give up her
long cherished plans for a chicken
house. "Myra's dream house,"
Phillip had nicknamed it. Myra
had planned for it as other women
plan for a home. She was the
practical type — almost devoid of
sentiment, Susan had once thought
until she had come upon her one
dav fondling a stray dog. Susan had
slipped away without letting Myra
know she was there. It would have
embarrassed Myra.
Susan served the oatmeal from
the double boiler on the back of
the range and sat down to the oil-
cloth covered table. How she hated
oilcloth — and always eating in the
kitchen! Only for company or hired
help did Myra bother about the din-
ing room. If only she were not so
practical, thought Susan. But she
had been a good balance wheel for
Phillip, no doubt. Susan was think-
ing now of Phillip's graduation from
high school. He had played a solo
on his father's violin, this same vio-
lin Vance wanted to sell. "Dipping
into the future," had been the sub-
ject of his valedictory. Susan had
dipped into the future, too, that
night, with some rosy dreams for
Phillip that had not materialized.
AND Susan was remembering an-
other night — when they went
to Danville to hear Kreisler. Myra
had thought it an extravagance with
tickets at three dollars each, but
Susan had insisted it was her treat.
The money for the tickets had come
from the sale of a prized pair of
candlesticks to her niece Margaret.
But Susan had not regretted her
sacrifice while she watched her men
during the concert — her silvery-
haired husband intent on catching
every cadence of the instrument,
and Phillip leaning forward with a
wistful look on his face. Phillip's
interest in music had perhaps been
as strong as Vance's. It still tore
at Susan's heartstrings to think how
Phillip had drifted into a vocation
for which he was not fitted.
At an early age Vance had shown
a talent for the violin. With his
father and grandfather to help
him, he could play simple tunes at
six. He had played at the dedica-
tion of the new church when he was
eight. Susan could see it all now
— Vance, a dark-haired, cager-eved
boy, standing calm and confident
beside the bishop as the clear
strains of "Abide With Me," came
from his violin. When he had fin-
ished, old Captain Thornton, life-
long family friend had leaned over
to whisper to her husband, "Fid-
dlers three, Bill, fiddlers three!"
Yes, "fiddlers three," Susan
thought with misty eyes as she
cleared away the breakfast things.
Back in her room, she surveyed
her bedroom suite. Never had it
looked lovelier — the graceful curves
of the bed, the perfect symmetry of
the bureau and highboy. And what
memories were bound up in the old
pieces! In the lower bureau drawer
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she had kept her wedding dress.
Here, too, had lain the little clothes
her baby daughter never lived to
wear.
Never had she expected to part
with this furniture, the only good
pieces she had left. One by one,
she had disposed of the other pieces
as some financial crisis arose — the
gate-leg table when Vance had
pneumonia, the ladder-back chair
when Phillip had an operation, the
cherry wardrobe when an interest
payment on the farm was overdue.
Surely, she was entitled to keep the
walnut bedroom set, Susan thought
with a dry sob in her throat.
The soft breeze that stirred the
window curtains brought the fra-
grance of lilacs from the big bush
Susan had set out so long ago. She
could see Phillip and Myra prepar-
ing to leave, Myra carrying the coop
to the car, with her handsome white
Plymouth Rock rooster. Poultry
experts would score him today Myra
had said. Too restless to sit still,
Susan started clearing her closet.
Up the steep stairs to the attic she
trudged with winter clothing to put
away. There, dusty and covered
with cobwebs, was the ugly oak bed
and dresser Myra had once pur-
chased at an auction for Vance's
room.
Substantial and roomy, Myra had
countered when Vance protested
that the dresser was ugly and the
mirror mottled. Vance had his own
set now that he had made in man-
ual training. The oak pieces were
no longer needed. Good enough
for an old woman, Susan told her-
self, but she rebelled at the thought
of opening her eyes each morning
on these atrocities. But she could
do it — to save the violin.
OHE went downstairs and put in a
call for Margaret. She tried a
second and third time, but there
was no answer. Perhaps it was
meant to be this way. At least she
had tried. Then she remembered
that Margaret was planning a trip.
Possibly she had already gone. Su-
san became panicky at the thought
that she might have missed her.
Perhaps a turn in the fresh air
might help. As Susan walked about,
she looked at Mvra's hens. Scat-
tered here and there and snipping
the young grass, they made a pretty
sight. No wonder Myra was proud
of them and eager to have some-
thing better than the ramshackle
old chicken house. No, she must
not sacrifice her "dream house" that
was so badly needed. Right over
there by the old apple tree, now
fragrant with blossoms, was the spot
she had picked for it.
Susan went into the house re-
solved to learn, if possible, whether
Margaret had gone. She called
Margaret's neighbor, Alice Flem-
ing. No, she had not seen Mar-
garet, but she had intended to leave
today on her trip, Alice reported.
Trembling, Susan replaced the re-
ceiver. She had waited too long.
Why, oh, why had she delayed?
Margaret had wanted the furniture
for a long time. When she returned,
she might not want it. She might
have found something else. And
Vance was impetuous. With his
heart set on college, he might sell
the violin any time — today even,
she thought with a start.
She darted into his room. Thank
goodness, the violin was there.
Faint with relief, she sank down on
the couch. She had tried so hard
to hold back her feelings, but now
FIDDLERS THREE 399
she broke into a torrent of weeping. Two hours later, the walnut set
She must have cried herself to sleep, was gone, and in its place the old
for it was the telephone that roused oak set from the attic,
her. It was Margaret. -You shouldn't have done it,"
"Alice said you called. Is any- Myra said when she learned of
thing wrong?" Susan's action.
"No, no!" Susan \yas struggling ,<And . nQt?„ Susan aske(J „A
to keep the tremor out of her voice ma^ future fa mQK im_
Everything s fine I just wanted } ^ than an M WQman,s
to tell you I m ready to let you have vyhim "
the furniture."
"Are you sure, Aunt Susan?" she "You're a good sport, Gram."
asked, with a note of happy excite- Vance's voice was husky when he
merit. found at his plate that evening a
"I'm sure." Susan's voice was firm cneck in an envelope with the nota-
now, the tremor gone. "And could tion> ^A graduation gift — for
you come for it today? Myra's get- Vance. '
ting ready to houseclean." "I'll practice harder than ever.
"We'll be there," Margaret prom- And am I lucky to have a fine violin
ised. like Grandfather's. I intend to keep
Quickly Susan emptied the order- it always. And guess what, Gram?
ly contents of the drawers, trying to When school's out, I'm going to
think only of what it would mean give that old oak furniture such a
for Vance. work-over, you won't know it."
Summer I Light
Maxine R. Jennings
I breathe deep-toned enchantment, and explore
The velvet folds of cool, star-studded night.
A wandering wind waits just outside my door,
With breath rose-scented, and a voice as slight
As whispered music in the pale half-light
Of guardian stars; nasturtiums, gold by day,
Wear shadow lace of navy, woven tight,
While crickets move in lyric roundelay,
Singing of summer's silver-patterned flight.
I drink the hour's fullness, and review
A finite world from my heart's highest hill!
Was day too cluttered to be truly blue?
I let small cares, like grating pebbles, spill
Into the darkness that they cannot fill,
Grateful that grass can grow and buds unfold,
And stars and seasons heed no human will,
Rejoicing that the wheel is heaven controlled,
That Who created earth creates peace still.
Needed By Someone t0!dvme- the news' ,WK3t is it?" a
J You re going to be a grand-
(Continued horn page 363) mother.
"Oh, Christine, that's just won-
hospital, and the children will be derful — that's just. . . ."
with me. We could talk about the "We thought we'd come over for
illustrations." a few days." Christine laughed
The young man's face lighted, happily. "You know a girl needs
then he sat down dejectedly. "We her mother to talk to."
can't keep imposing on you, Mrs. Agnes swallowed. "Make it soon,
Bigelow." dear, I've plenty of room and you'll
"You're not," she laughed. "You love the Freeman family. I'm so
just don't know how large my house happy, dear."
seems with my family all gone." Agnes hung up the receiver and
"Could we, Daddy?" Caroline walked to the bedroom to check on
chimed in. "I'll help Grandma." the children.
"My wife was right," he said. "I "I'm awake, Grandma," Caroline
think you are an angel." said, sitting up in bed and flipping
on the light over the bed. "Why
13 Y nine o'clock, they were all set- are you smiling?"
tied in Carsonville. Mr. Free- "I was just thinking." Agnes sat
man rushed back to the hospital for down on the side of the bed and
a few minutes, Caroline and Davey looked about the room. "Yesterday
were in bed, and Agnes picked up I felt lonely, no one needed me, I
the receiver and placed a call to even began to think no one really
Mr. Adams. cared about me. You know, dear, to
"I'm sorry I couldn't make the feel needed by someone, helps one
appointment," she explained when to be happy."
she heard his voice on the other "Does it? Am I needed?" the
end of the line. girl asked innocently.
Mr. Adams was silent a moment, "Indeed you are." Agnes ruffled
then without hesitation, "I'll drive Caroline's curly hair. "You'll never
by Carsonville on my return home, know what you and your family
I understand it isn't far out of my have done for me. Everyone is
way," he answered amiably. needed by someone if she'll just
"Thank you, Mr. Adams. I'd like open her hands wide to the oppor-
you to meet the man who is going tunities."
to do the illustrations, too." "Oh," the girl answered, a little
Five minutes later, the phone puzzled,
rang, and it was Christine. "And right now," Agnes tucked
"Mother darling," her voice sound- the covers around her little friend,
ed excited. "I have the most mar- "I need you most to get me used
velous news. I thought you'd be to being called Grandma."
going to the writer's conference, "Can I always call you Grandma?"
and come by here." Caroline asked seriously.
Agnes explained meeting the "Of course you can, darling.
Freeman family. "So I didn't go Goodnight," and smiling happily,
to Bill City, but Mr. Adams is com- Agnes closed the door softly behind
ing by here tomorrow. You haven't her.
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1 1 laru (bo reason (Johnson QJinds ibnough crlobbies
to 1 1 lake Crier crlappa
TI/fARY Sorenson Johnson, Milford, Utah, finds much happiness in her multiple
*■ ■*■ hobbies, and shares this happiness with her friends, her family, and her neigh-
bors. She has crocheted tablecloths and bedspreads for each of her children, has made
fourteen stoles, crocheted the edges for hundreds of handkerchiefs, has made many
metal trays and hundreds of corsages. She also makes baskets and rugs and is an
excellent seamstress.
Her community activities have included serving as a director of the Milford
Chapter of the American Red Cross, and during the depression she was appointed
official distributor of surplus commodities. Long active in Relief Society, she has
served as secretary-treasurer, counselor, and president in her ward, and is now work
meeting leader. For many years she faithfully cared for the sick and made burial clothes
and assisted at funerals. At present she is a visiting teacher in the Milford Second
Ward. She is the mother of six children, grandmother to fourteen, and great-grand-
mother to thirteen.
<&
orecast
Evalyn M. Sandberg
My child, weather-wise,
Learns the climate of my heart
By searching my eyes.
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illy ft lother and uTer die mst itching II lac nine
Fay McCuidy Bailey
T^HE hemstitching machine just
■*■ plain wore out, and no wonder.
I remember when Mother purchased
it, and it was delivered to our home.
It was huge, and was to do many
wonderful things that other ma-
chines could not do.
That was thirty-five years ago, and
oh, the yards of hemstitching my
Mother has done in that time!
Being big and noisy, it sat in the
"back" bedroom most of the time
by a south window, where the light
was good. Since there were six chil-
dren demanding Mother's care, she
would rise early to do her sewing.
Very few mornings in my life do I
remember ever waking up to any
sound but the hum of the hem-
stitcher.
A large spool board spaced with
nails, over which a spool of thread
could slide easily, was made by
Daddy. Thus, Mother had some-
where to keep the numerous spools,
in various shades that she would
need.
Her hemstitching scissors always
fascinated me, and they still do.
They were small and shaped like a
bird with a long, pointed bill. They
were "special" and were to be kept
just for Mother's work.
In a drawer in her machine, she
kept a small notebook. In this she
would write the name of the person
whose sewing she had done, the
number of yards hemstitched, and
then how much it would cost. It
certainly wasn't an elaborate book-
keeping system, but it satisfied her.
Her reputation of doing good
work kept her busy, for she always
Page 402
had pieces to be done. Many pack-
ages came in the mail from people
all over the country, and I don't
remember her ever charging postage
when she returned the finished
work.
For many years she charged six
cents a yard for straight work and
eight cents for scallops. Then, later
on, as times were better, she charged
eight cents and ten cents, and she
furnished the thread.
COMETIMES Mother did work
for people whom she knew
couldn't afford to pay what it would
cost. Then she just didn't charge
full price. No one will ever know
the yards and yards she has done for
Relief Society sewing in our Church.
This was always her contribution.
No one could ever fix her ma-
chine if it acted up. I remember a
repair man coming and spending
hours trying to fix it, and it still
wouldn't work right. Then Mother
went to work on it. She'd tinker
and fuss, and how she ever could
repair the complicated thing, I'll
never know. But she never gave
up, and, eventually, it would be
humming along again.
Because Mother did sewing, some-
one was always coming to the house
to leave some work or pick up some.
Many fine friendships started while
Mom finished some work.
Because of this machine and the
wonderful things my Mother could
do with it, I had an advantage over
many of my girl friends. She sewed
beautifully and made all my clothes,
which were finished with hemstitch-
MY MOTHER AND HER HEMSTITCHING MACHINE
403
ing. The sashes on my dresses were
always edged in picots, not hemmed.
Any seamstress appreciates not hav-
ing to ''fine hem" a sash. So often
in the life of a young teenage girl,
she feels she just has to have a new
dress for a special occasion — and
many the night my Mother sat up
to finish one for me! I never truly
appreciated what she did till now —
as I do the same for my teenage
daughter.
During the depression years of
the thirties, I know Mother's "pin
money" from her hemstitching
bought us many things we never
could have had otherwise. It
seemed as if she always had a little
money coming in to meet the many
demands.
This big, noisy hemstitcher is
interwoven into all my memories of
home. As I look back, they are dear,
pleasant memories. Now it has
stopped.
Smoke- vl/arm C^
r asses
Eva Wilies Wangsgaard
I had forgotten wind's way with June grass,
Smoke-purple, smoke-warm.
Rolling along the edge of foothills
Like clouds in storm.
But loneliness seeks lonely places
Low-hung with blue,
And here I lie in the smoke-warm grasses
While peace flows through.
Vista
Linnie F. Robinson
I took my youthful wounds along a path,
Searching for refuge from the hurts of day,
When suddenly I came upon a birch
Whose golden hanging lace enwrapped my way;
My eyes were lifted to the wondrous sight —
My hand caressed its silken bole,
And somehow healing came to me; perhaps
It was that beauty fed and made me whole.
And now that I am grown, when sword thrust comes
The vision of that tree pervades my mind,
Seeing, I cannot despair of such a world;
Nor can I lose the treasure of that find,
For I who fled in youth from rude intent
Look now beyond the thorns and am content.
FROM THE FIELD
Hulda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Handbook of Instructions of the Relief Society.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Julia N. Barg
PIONEER STAKE (UTAH), RIVERVIEW WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
PRESIDENCY RELEASED
Left to right: Elsie M. Warner, First Counselor; Enid T. Stroud, President; Geral-
dine R. Morris, Second Counselor; Mary Byvvater, Secretary.
Julia N. Barg, President, Pioneer Stake Relief Society, reports: "On February 7,
1947, the Riverview Ward of the Pioneer Stake was created by a division of the
Twenty -fifth and Twenty-sixth wards, and on January 24, i960, was dissolved on
account of the Freeway going through the eastern part of the ward, making what was
left too small to function as a ward. The sisters in the above picture were in office
at the time the ward was dissolved."
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Photograph submitted by Virginia C. Newbold
GRANT STAKE (SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH) VISITING TEACHERS
CONVENTION, February 5, i960
Seated in the front row, tenth from the left: Boclell Jensen, eldest member of
Grant Stake Relief Society.
Back row, beginning seventeenth from the left: Rhea H. Simmons, Secretary-Treas-
urer; Vera Kocherhans, First Counselor; Virginia C. Newbold, President; Edith Jack-
man, Second Counselor.
Sister Newbold reports: "Approximately 220 attended the convention and saw the
film 'Unto the Least of These.' One hundred fiftv-three visiting teachers were honored
for periods of service ranging from ten to fifty-four years. All were presented with
blue ribbons engraved in gold, showing the number of years of service as visiting teach-
ers. The sisters who had served for twenty-five years or more were presented with Relief
Society pins."
Photograph submitted by Marguerite Wright
MIDVALE STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR
STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, February 21, i960
Front row, beginning third from the left: Ada Lennberg, director (in dark dress);
Marguerite Wright, President, Midvale Stake Relief Society.
Standing back of the pulpit at the right: Donna Davies, Secretary, Midvale Stake
Relief Society.
Third row, thirteenth from the right: Helen Burgon, First Counselor, Midvale
Stake Relief Society.
Back row at left, Gloria Buck, organist.
Sister Wright reports: "There are seventy Singing Mothers in this chorus, repre-
senting all seven wards of Midvale Stake. They furnished music for both sessions of
Midvale Stake Quarterly Conference, February 21, i960, and for the Midvale Stake
Visiting Teachers Convention, March 11, i960. Lujean Carver, Second Counselor,
was not present when the picture was taken."
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Photograph submitted by Delia H. Teeter
DENVER WEST STAKE (COLORADO) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR STAKE OUARTERLY CONFERENCE AND RELIEF SOCIETY
VISITING TEACHERS CONVENTION, March 29, i960
Front row, beginning second from the right: Venna Yeates, chorister; Gladys
Hansen, organist; Millie E. Richardson, First Counselor; Delia H. Teeter, President;
Yvonne Nelson, Second Counselor.
Sister Teeter reports: "This group has a membership of fifty sisters and they are
the mothers of eighty children. This is their first presentation as a chorus of the newly
created Denver West Stake. At the Stake Visiting Teachers Convention the film
'Unto the Least of These' was presented, with the Stake President Thomas L. Kimball
giving the main address. The stake visiting teacher message leader, Laura Cutler, intro-
duced the visiting teacher messages for the summer months, with the chorus singing
'Come Ye Blessed of the Lord.' A solo was sung by Virginia Lee, stake literature class
leader/'
Photograph submitted by Mona Watson
DALLAS STAKE (TEXAS) FASHION SHOW HELD IN CONNECTION WITH
LEADERSHIP MEETING, March i960
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Left to right: Dorothy Titus, stake work meeting leader; Aria Beck; Opal Burch,
stake Magazine representative; Dovie Goalsey; Edleweis Arrington; Rita Jane Holland;
Joan Elaine Gunn; Debbie Wallace; Marsha Knight; Evelyn Wallace; Phyllis Ann Gil-
chrest; Janice Purcell; Flossie Rousseau; Jeanene Johnson; Althera C. Mulkey, Second
Counselor; Emily Louise Gurley, First Counselor; Myrl B. Whiting, President.
Sister Whiting reports: " 'Home sewing — Creative, Attractive, and Economical'
was the theme for the fashion show presented by the Dallas Stake Relief Society at
the March leadership meeting. The fashion show was under the direction of Althera C.
Mulkey, Stake Work Director Counselor, and Dorothy Titus, stake work meeting
leader, and the clothing was made by Relief Society sisters for themselves or their
children. Twenty-six models represented nine wards. Not all of the models are shown
in the picture. Also displayed were articles made in the work meeting department
during the year. We are attempting to put more emphasis on sewing and learning to
sew at our work meetings. This is our second annual fashion show.
"At noon the Relief Society presidency and board members served a lovely lunch-
eon celebrating the 118th Relief Society birthday. A beautiful birthday cake in our
blue and gold colors was decorated by Aria Beck, Fort Worth Ward Relief Society
Secretary-Treasurer. The cake was used as the centerpiece."
Sister Whiting has recently been released, and Sister Mona Watson is the new
president of Dallas Stake Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Helen H. Hawkins
SPANISH FORK STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC
FOR NUMEROUS OCCASIONS
Seated in the front row: Emma Jex, conductor, at the right; Blanche Nielson,
accompanist, second from the right; Helen H. Hawkins, President, Spanish Fork Stake
Relief Society, third from the right.
Sister Hawkins reports: "Our Singing Mothers group has sung for many occasions.
They presented music for our Visiting Teachers Convention and closing social in May,
and also our Relief Society Convention the same month. We presented six numbers
for our Stake Quarterly Conference in August. One of the numbers was "Still, Still,
With Thee," composed by our beloved sister, Florence Jepperson Madsen. We were
especially pleased and honored to have Sister Madsen present at that conference to hear
us sing. Each ward Singing Mothers group sings at their November and March Relief
Society services. They also sing at least once each year at our monthly leadership
meetings, and are always very willing to respond when asked to sing at funerals. We
are grateful for our Singing Mothers groups throughout the stake. They give unselfishly
of their time and talents and lift us spiritually with their voices in song."
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Photograph submitted by Elnora R. Loveland
WEST BOISE STAKE (IDAHO) RELIEF SOCIETY PRESENTS
DRAMATIZATION "LEGACY" March 17, 1360
Left to right: Barbara Tenny; Laurel Hegstrom; Thomas Daniels; Barbara Clarke;
Delpha Mathewson; Mildred Perkins; Beverly Merrill; Irene Neilson; Elaine Daniels;
Alene Hendren.
Elnora T. Loveland, President, West Boise Stake Relief Society, reports: "This
dramatization was directed by Elna Johnson, stake literature class leader (inset). The
Singing Mothers furnished the music for the occasion, fifty-seven participating, under
the direction of LaRue Campbell, with Barbara Ossmen at the organ. Wendell Stout
painted the backdrop."
Photograph submitted by Ruth R. Reeder
FRENCH POLYNESIAN MISSION, PAEA, PAPENOO, PAPEETE, AND
FRENCH BRANCHES OBSERVE THE ANNIVERSARY OF RELIEF SOCIETY
AT PAPEETE, TAHITI, March 17, i960
Ruth R. Reeder, President, French Polynesian Mission Relief Society, is seated
in the center on the second row; Edna Poroi, President, French Branch Relief Society,
who conducted the anniversary observance, is seated in chair at the right.
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Sister Reeder reports: "Our anniversary party celebrating the organization of
Relief Society was very successful. The party was held in the afternoon in the rec-
reation hall. A lovely program was given under the direction of the French Branch,
and refreshments were served to eighty Relief Society women. These women are
lovely, and we had a nice time together. Each woman made a garland of flowers to wear
on her head, and some made extra ones for me, my daughter, and the lady mission-
aries. We felt the spirit of oneness, and I was so grateful for this experience. I gave
the branches a Relief Society Building Souvenir Plate. The women will weave a
holder and will hang the plate in their Relief Society room. They seemed very pleased,,
and I am sure it will be an inspiration to them for many years."
Photograph submitted by LaVerda O. Lloyd
MOUNT JORDAN STAKE (UTAH^, DRAPER SECOND WARD FORMER
RELIEF SOCIETY PRESIDENTS HONORED AT LUNCHEON
AND PROGRAM, March 15, i960
Front row, seated, left to right, former Relief Society presidents: Nettie Boulter;
Mina Mickelsen; Merna Smith.
Back row, standing, left to right: Phyllis Smith, present President; Rogena Roden;
Erma Vawdrey; Geneva Hansen; Phyllis Howlett.
LaVerda O. Lloyd, President, Mount Jordan Stake Relief Society, reports: "Relief
Society members honored the eight former presidents of Draper Second Ward Relief
Society at a luncheon and program on March 15, i960, commemorating the anni-
versary of Relief Society. All former Relief Society presidents, except Grace Payne,
who has moved out of the State, were present for this occasion. Each of the seven
former presidents was introduced in verse, and each responded with outstanding events,
humorous and otherwise, remembered from her service as president. Draper Second
Ward was organized August 11, 1935.
"The luncheon tables were decorated with African violets and a large birthday cake.
Special guests were the Stake Relief Society President LaVerda O. Lloyd and eight
of her board members. After the luncheon and program, the regular literature lesson
was given by class leader Marjorie Landeen."
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Photograph submitted by Bertrude S. Mitchell
PAROWAN STAKE (UTAH) RELIEF SOCIETY PRESENTS LITERATURE
DRAMATIZATION "LEGACY," March 17, i960
Left to right: Anna Dalley; Evelyn Davenport; Elaine Adams; Cleora Bayles; Nina
Robb; Constance Halterman; Maryetta Orton; Gaytha Benson; Florence Sherrett; Oscar
J. Hulet, narrator; Howard D. Knight, President, Parowan Stake.
Bertrude S. Mitchell, President, Parowan Stake Relief Society, reports: "This pro-
gram was presented on the Relief Society anniversary for all adult members of our
stake. All six wards are represented in the picture, and all willingly helped with the
making of the colonial costumes. It was a very beautiful and colorful presentation, and
many said that it was one of the nicest affairs we have had in our community in a long
time. Our Singing Mothers did an excellent job with the background music.
"Taking part in a theology dramatization 'Instructions and Promises,' presented on
the same day, were Jane Bentley, theology class leader; Elder Hulet, President Knight,
and other members of the Priesthood."
C/ive file the III
esa
Maude Rubin
Often the way divided . . . One way climbed
Toward the clouded mountains, mystery of distance.
My ears were tuned to hear a music timed
To the beat of eagle wings, whose loud insistence
Would drown this pulsing note of a meadow lark,
Bright bubble of sound that floated toward the sky
Across my heart's horizon! Gone those stark
White peaks, too cold for breath. Where eagles fly
Is not my earthborn climate. I need wind,
This sea of grass, wild crocuses in May;
I need this prairie earth, where winter-thinned,
New tides of life flow green, let summer stay
Serene and reticent on mesa loam
Where meadow larks and I have found our home.
LESSJON DEPARTMENT
cJheotogyi — The Doctrine and Covenants
Preview of Lessons for 1960-61
Elder Roy W. Doxey
T
HE eight lessons for study dur-
ing this year, the fourth series
on The Doctrine and Covenants,
come from five sections of this won-
derful book of scripture. All of
these revelations were received bv
the Prophet Joseph Smith during
the months of February and March
of 1831. This was an eventful pe-
riod for the Prophet, for the Lord
had commanded that he go to
Ohio where further instruction
would be received for the continued
growth of the Church.
The background for the move-
ment of the headquarters of the
Church into Ohio was studied last
year. With the rapid growth of the
kingdom of God in that area, as a
direct result of the missionary labors
among the settlers by those who
were assigned to the Lamanite mis-
sion, the time had come for the
Lord to reveal many of his purposes
for the welfare of the saints and
more detailed information concern-
ing important future events.
Although the Prophet resided in
Kirtland, Ohio, where a thriving
branch of the Church was raised up,
and the revelations making up this
year's lessons were received, he also
continued farther west into Mis-
souri during the year. Returning to
Ohio, the Prophet received many
revelations now contained in The
Doctrine and Covenants.
One of the most important reve-
lations given in this dispensation is
to be studied this year. The material
in Section 42 contributes to five
lessons in this series. This revela-
tion, known as the law of the Lord
to the Church, has many direct ap-
plications to daily life. These teach-
ings are eternal. Some of the moral
commandments given in the begin-
ning and reiterated by Moses on
Mount Sinai are emphasized in this
revelation. They form the basis of
orderly government in society and
the foundation for entrance into the
celestial kingdom. In addition, the
solution to a number of problems
confronting the Church at the time
and for the edification of those in
the ministry were made known.
The background for understand-
ing the first lesson is the fact that
at this early period elders called to
preach the gospel had to be instruct-
ed in the way they should teach.
The instructions of the Lord rela-
tive to an authorized ministry and
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the need for divine guidance were
not known clearly by many. It was
necessary, therefore, that these mem-
bers of the Priesthood should un-
derstand the spirit in which they
should function as missionaries and
of their true calling before the
world. In the next two lessons the
members of the Church arc given
a better understanding of their re-
sponsibilities in being a light to the
world. There follows a lesson on
the principles of a socio-economic
order which is yet to be lived by
Latter-day Saints as a part of the
celestial law. The final lesson from
the law of the Lord to the Church
provides an opportunity to learn
many principles pertaining to the
important practice of administra-
tion to the sick. A lesson last year
gave general consideration to some
events of the future. Two of these
subjects are discussed in detail this
year. The final lesson for the year
comes from an important revelation
setting forth special blessings for the
faithful members of The Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
In general, this year's course covers
many important lessons to be ap-
plied to life situations.
The 1960-61 series of lessons have
been given the following titles and
objectives :
Lesson 25— A Promise Fulfilled
(D & C, Sections 41; 42:1-17)
Objective: To understand that the
law of the Lord is to be taught with
faith and by the Spirit.
Lesson 26— The Law of Moral Con-
duct (D & C, Section 42:18-20,
79, 84-85)
Objective: To realize that the com-
mandments "Thou shalt not kill" and
"Thou shalt not steal" forbid acts
which are an offense against God and
society.
Lesson 27— The Law o( Moral Con-
duct (Continued) (D & C, Section
42:21-26, 80-83, 86)
Objective: To learn the consequences
of lying and unchaste practices.
Lesson 28— The Law of Consecra-
tion (D & C, Section 42:30-42, 53-
55>7°73)
Objective: "And inasmuch as ye im-
part of your substance unto the poor,
ye will do it unto me . . ." (D & C
42:31).
Lesson 29— The Law of Administra-
tion to the Sick (D & C, Section
42:43-52)
Objective: To learn some principles
of the law of administration to the
sick.
Lesson 30— The Past, Present, and
Future (D & C, Section 45:1-42)
Objective: To learn some reasons why
obedience to the Lord's will is neces-
sary, and of the need of being aware
of the signs in preparation for the
Lord's second coming.
Lesson 31— The Second Coming of
Christ (D & C7 Sections 43:8-35;
45-4375)
Objective: To learn of events associ-
ated with the second coming of
Christ.
Lesson 32— The Gifts of the Holy
Ghost (D& C, Section 46)
Objective: To understand what the
gifts of the Holy Ghost are and why
they are given.
Visiting cJeacher 1 1 Lessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Preview of Lessons for 1960-61
Christine H. Robinson
rFHE "Truths to Live By From
The Doctrine and Covenants"
which constitute the visiting teacher
messages for 1960-61, form a pattern
of principles and guides which, if
followed, will lead us to happier,
more purposeful living. These mes-
sages emphasize the importance of
keeping all of the Lord's command-
ments and not just those which ap-
peal to us. We are reminded that
if we would enjov fully the blessings
of the Lord, we must have thankful
and grateful hearts. We are further
instructed to develop our God-giv-
en gifts and talents for the good of
all. The messages admonish us to
grow in grace and in the knowledge
of the truth. They advise us to
guard against speaking evil of an-
other and to avoid the futility of
idleness.
These truths from modern day
scripture are interrelated and inter-
dependent. For example, when we
serve the Lord we are, in reality,
serving ourselves and others, and
through unselfish service we devel-
op our God-given gifts and talents
and also can avoid the evil and
futility of idleness. Furthermore,
when we keep all of the Lord's
commandments, we build our
knowledge of the truth, and we
establish safeguards which assure us
that the Lord and his influence will
be in our midst to comfort and
guide us.
When we are occupied con-
structively in keeping the Lord's
commandments, we should have no
time nor desire to speak or think
evil of others. Rather, we recog-
nize the glorious truth that when
we serve others and do good even
". . . unto the least of these . . ."
(D & C 42:38) as the Savior has
told us, we are actually doing good
unto him. Four of these "Truths
to Live By" come from one section
in The Doctrine and Covenants.
This Section, Forty-Two, deals spe-
cifically with the laws of the Church.
These laws, we must remember, do
not restrict or inhibit us, but rather
they are the principles and rules
without which we cannot find true
happiness or peace of mind.
These 1960-61 messages form a
coordinated structure of truths
which have been emphasized over
and over again by the Lord's proph-
ets since ancient times. They are
so important to our happiness that
the Lord has again given them to
us in these latter days with the ad-
monition that if we will observe
them, they will serve as a sure
foundation to joyful, abundant liv-
ing.
The messages and their objectives
for the year 1960-61 are as follows:
Message 25— "If Thou Lovest Me
Thou Shalt Serve Me and Keep All
My Commandments" (D & C
42:29).
Objective: To emphasize the fact that
we serve the Lord, others, and our-
selves best only when we keep all
the commandments.
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Message 26— "And Ye Must Give
Thanks Unto God in the Spirit for
Whatsoever Blessing Ye Are Blessed
With" (D&C 46:32).
Objective: To enjoy fully the bless-
ings of the Lord, we must have thank-
ful and grateful hearts.
Message 27—". . . Every Man Is
Given a Gift by the Spirit of God
. . . That All May Be Profited
Thereby" (D & C 46:11-12).
Objective: We have a divine respon-
sibility to develop our gifts and tal-
ents and to use them in the service
of others.
Message 28— "Thou Shalt Not Be
Idle . . /' (D&C 42:42).
Objective: To avoid being idle, we
must be actively engaged in a good
cause.
Message 29— "Wherefore, I Am in
Your Midst, and I Am the Good
Shepherd ..." (D & C 50:44).
Objective: To persuade us that Jesus
is with us and, if we live righteously
and will seek him, he will guide,
sustain, and comfort us.
Message 30—". . . Ye Must Grow
in Grace and in the Knowledge of
the Truth" (D&C 50:40).
Objective: The gospel is a plan of
salvation through progress. Only by
growth in grace and truth can we
move toward eternal life.
Message 31— "Thou Shalt Not
Speak Evil of Thy Neighbor, Nor
Do Him Any Harm" (D&C
42:27).
Objective: We must guard constantly
against idle or evil words which might
harm or undermine another's charac-
ter.
Message 32— "For Inasmuch As Ye
Do It Unto the Least of These, Ye
Do It Unto Me" (D & C 42:38).
Objective: If we would do the work
of the Lord, we must be actively en-
gaged in helping others.
Work Tileettng — Caring for the Sick in the Home
Preview of Lessons for 1960-61
Maria Johnson
TJNFORTUNATELY, in every
home, sooner or later, there is
someone who needs care following
an injury or during sickness. The
wise mother will accept this fact
and prepare herself to meet the sit-
uation intelligently and calmly. We
hope to bring to you in the lessons
this year a few basic understandings
that will give you a greater sense of
security in meeting illness when it
comes.
As we care for the sick, our goal is
to help the individual regain and
maintain the highest level of health
that is possible for him. Health is
much more than not being sick.
There are degrees of health just as
there are degrees of illness. We say
a person is mildly ill or seriously ill.
We might say he has a low level of
health or a high or optimum level.
Since the beginning of the cen-
tury as our knowledge has increased
our concept of health has widened.
We passed from the era of curative
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medicine, concerned mainly with
the cure of physical diseases, to
the era of preventive medicine,
when sanitation and immunization
made possible the prevention of
many diseases, such as smallpox,
diphtheria, typhoid fever, whooping
cough, to name a few. Curative
and preventive measures are still
important, but medical and scien-
tific research have taught us they
are not enough. The new concept
of health is well expressed in this
definition formulated by the World
Health Organization — "Health is a
state of complete physical, mental,
and social well-being and not merely
the absence of disease or infirmity."
Our health authorities, today, point
out to us that emotional attitudes,
our pet beliefs, our prejudices, our
superstitions, and fears stand in the
way of health as surely as do bac-
teria, improper food, or poisons that
are not eliminated.
In each lesson as we demonstrate
and discuss various skills used at the
bedside, we hope better to under-
stand both the emotional and phys-
ical needs of the sick patient.
These lessons do not take the
place of courses such as the Red
Cross Home Nursing or those for
the training of practical nurses. Your
instructor will tell you where to get
information about accredited nurs-
ing courses.
The lessons and objectives will be
as follows:
Lesson 1
of Your Family
Safeguarding the Health
Objective: To help each one to be-
come more alert to the need for
applying simple, well - established
principles for the prevention of dis-
ease and for safeguarding the health
of the family.
Lesson 2— Manifestations of Illness
Objective: To learn to recognize,
observe, and report symptoms of ill-
ness. To learn to read a thermom-
eter and take a temperature and
pulse.
Lesson 3— Moving and Lifting the
Patient
Objective. To learn good body
mechanics (to use the body properly)
when moving and lifting a patient in
order to hasten the patient's recov-
ery, to prevent accidents, and to pro-
tect the worker from unnecessary
strain and fatigue.
Lesson 4— Making the Patient Com-
fortable
Objective — To become aware of the
importance of good posture for the
patient in bed and the need for fre-
quent change of position. To learn
how to arrange pillows, make the
patient's bed, and use improvised
equipment and other devices that will
help to hasten the patient's recovery.
Lesson 5— Routine Comioit Meas-
ures — The Patient's Bath and Care
oi the Mouth and Hair
Objective: To learn the importance
of these measures in meeting the
needs of the patient, and to learn the
key points in giving this care.
Lesson 6— Elimination oi Body
Wastes
Objective: To help us recognize the
great importance of the elimination
of body wastes. To demonstrate skills
used in helping the sick person meet
these needs.
Lesson 7— Feeding the Patient—
Oral Medications— Hot and Cold
Treatments
Objective: To give a few hints that
will help in efforts to stimulate the
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sick patient to take the nourishment Lesson 8— The Chronically III and
he needs; to present basic rules for Aaed
the safe administration of oral medi- b
cations; to discuss safety measures Objective: To point up the special
needed in giving hot and cold treat- needs of these patients and to con-
ments. sider how we can help meet them.
JLtterature — America's Literature Comes of Age
(Textbook: America's Literature by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York)
Preview of Lessons for 1960-61
Elder Biiant S. Jacobs
"pVEN before the battle smoke 1830's. The values of "mother Eng-
had cleared, the new America land" were the only values; no con-
had been forced to establish many flict was possible since there were,
new patterns and traditions by with minor exceptions, no native
which her people could live; had American writers or playwrights,
she hesitated she would have per- Roughly, until the War of 1812,
ished, despite military victory. Re- everyone was happy with things as
gardless of individual whim or they were. But when the new Na-
regional differences, each day prod- tion won the second war against the
ucts had to be bought and sold; great world power that was Britain,
property rights had to be defined, a growing crescendo of nationalism
that laws might be enforced, crimi- made increasing demands that dis-
nals punished, justice done; taxes tinctively American values be im-
had to be levied, collected, and mortalized in the words of her own
spent; personal rights of speech, as- inspired sons. Proclaiming their
sembly, and worship demanded independence of both European
immediate assertion. ideas and literary forms, ideally they
Other patterns were proposed and were to create literature as majestic
accepted only to be changed as the as America's mountains, as peaceful
need arose. The Articles of Con- as her prairies, as vast and compre-
federation kept mutual jealousies hensive as were her new peoples
among the colonies ablaze by and territories,
guaranteeing to each most of the Not until Whitman — in the
autonomy it enjoyed before the war, decades preceding and following the
a distressing situation remedied by Civil War — did American litera-
the Constitution of 1787-89. ture attain its fullest stature by
Because no such emergencies embodying such a dream, when the
existed in the social, cultural, and belief in her "Manifest Destiny" left
literary lives of the newly hatched as deep an imprint on her native
American citizens, the pre-war writings as upon her laws. The first
status quo remained unchallenged generation of American literary men
and dominant until the i82o's and — Irving, Bryant, Cooper — wrote
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what pleased their fancy or ex-
pressed their mood or dream,
though later in his critical writings
Bryant began striking hard for a
native American literature.
It was in the militant writings of
the giants of American Literature —
Emerson, Hawthorne, Thoreau,
Melville, and Whitman — that the
clarion call for complete literary in-
dependence from Europe was first
sounded with sustained vigor and
sincerity. In these writers (the last
three to be studied after this year)
the American conscience found for
the first time enduring identity; in
them the American imagination
ripened and bloomed as it gave first
expression to fears, hopes, conflicts
central to her culture from the days
of John Smith and Jonathan Ed-
wards up through Franklin and Jef-
ferson. And great themes unique to
the new country were central there-
in: who is the new American man?
who in relation to the European
past; to myriad millions of acres still
virgin and unexplored; to trade and
government and nature and woman;
to reform and slavery and pride, to
aristocracy and democracy; to the
shining vision of the future? How
were free men to know what free-
dom was, or should be, unless told
by their own voices? Who was man
to be if he fully realized his destined
identity?
These great themes were common
to the Nation and to its great litera-
ture. But whereas the themes had
been deepening and expanding for
centuries, it was in the decades pre-
ceding the Civil War that voices
emerged of sufficient depth and vi-
sion and courage to give them form
and body. Once form and content
merged, the classic age of American
literature was produced, otherwise
known as the American Renaissance.
Thus our concern this year is
American literary greatness, both
forerunners and proclaimers.
Lesson titles and objectives fol-
low:
Lesson 17 — Expanding Horizons
(Text, pp. 161-192)
Objective: To outline how new and
complex relationships within the new
Nation expressed themselves through
its literature.
Lesson 18— Washington living, Pol-
ished Paradox (Text, pp. 193-220)
Objective: To relate the writings to
the man, and both to the dynamic
beginning period of the Nation out
of which they grew.
Lesson 19 — James Fenimore Cooper,
Critic (1789-1851) (Text, pp. 221-
223)
Objective: To increase Cooper's sig-
nificance for us by exploring the
interrelationships tying together his
aristocracy, his artistry, and his
Americanism.
Lesson 20— Natty Bumppo, Ameri-
can Fiction-Hero (Text, pp. 221-
223)
Objective: To acknowledge Cooper's
Natty Bumppo as creating and sym-
bolizing the wild beauty of primitive
America.
Lesson 21— William Cullen Bryant
(1794-1878) (Text, pp. 236-249)
Objective: To become more appre-
ciative of Bryant both as an influ-
ential creator and as a revered rep-
resentative of nineteenth - century
America.
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JUNE 1960
Lesson 22— Ralph Waldo Emerson,
American Idealist (Text, pp. 250-
3°3)
Objective: To recognize Emerson as
the nucleus of American literature
during its classic period preceding the
Civil War.
Lesson 23— Emerson, the Spokes-
man for His Age (Text, pp. 250-
3°3)
Objective: To relate Emerson's phi-
losophy to the basic idea his art ex-
presses.
Lesson 24— Nathaniel Hawthorne,
Haunted Autobiographer (Text,
304-349)
Objective: To reconsider the dual
nature of mortality, as exemplified in
Hawthorne's short stories.
Social Science — Spiritual Living
in the Nuclear Age
Preview of Lessons for 1960-61
Elder Blaine M. Porter
^HE world continues to increase
in complexity, the traditions
and beliefs of the past continue to
be questioned with increasing inten-
sity, and the task of finding meaning
and purpose in life is as great a
challenge as ever. In this scientific
age the goal of living harmoniously
and peacefully with our fellow men
in one world has become not only
desirable but necessary, if our civil-
ization is to survive.
Last year we discussed the spirit-
ual road which we should all walk
in order to travel in the direction of
the abundant life as taught and
lived by our Savior, Jesus Christ.
We studied the nature of emotional
and religious maturity and empha-
sized the necessity of these charac-
teristics in order to be capable of
truly living the teachings of Chris-
tianity.
This year we wish to focus upon
additional ele-ments which are equal-
ly important in the religious life of
man. In order to understand our-
selves more fully and to enrich our
lives, we will focus upon widening
our religious horizons. Within this
framework we will discuss concepts
of God, pointing out that even
though we worship the same God,
we have significant differences in our
concepts regarding the nature of
God. The manner in which these
concepts affect our lives and our re-
lationship with God will receive
major consideration.
Next, we will analyze our con-
cepts of man, once again recogniz-
ing the several approaches which we
have regarding the nature of man.
Since establishing harmonious and
creative relationships with our fel-
low men is one of the cornerstones
in the foundation of building a
world at peace, seeking ways of
improving these relationships is
extremely important. Therefore,
man's relatedness to the world will
be studied, and ways in which we
can widen our religious horizons will
be suggested and discussed.
LESSON DEPARTMENT
419
To achieve peace and brotherhood
on any secure, permanent human
basis will require all the ingenuity,
understanding, and charity which
we can muster. It will require that
we not only implement the prin-
ciples of Christian living, but that
we also effectively teach them to
our children in order that they will
be prepared to assume the leader-
ship of furthering this cause. If
religion is to be allocated its rightful
dignity and be allowed to make its
potential contribution in our lives,
we must dedicate our whole self to
that which is highest and best in
life.
In order more fully to understand
the mannef in which religious quali-
ties develop, we will explore the
stages of religious development. For
purposes of analysis, these will be
studied under the headings of The
Religion of Childhood, Religious
Development in Adolescence, and
The Religion of Mature Adulthood.
Considering the various stages of
religious development may be a new
experience for many of us. We
hope that it will contribute to our
understanding and effectiveness as
parents and teachers in more ap-
propriately timing the presentation
of religious concepts to our children.
Since values play such a major
role in our lives, as well as in our
religious philosophy, we will study
the growth and meaning of values.
Our main objective will be to help
us carefully examine the values we
have, recognize our value conflicts,
and evaluate how adequately we
have internalized the values which
we feel are most important.
How we develop and grow these
values for ourselves and for our chil-
dren is particularly significant, and
therefore, our attention will be di-
rected toward growing religious
values in the home and family. We
will recognize that in order for an
individual to develop permanent
values with high quality, he must
first have developed a value for him-
self and for the dignity of man. The
family, of course, assumes a very
significant role in the growing of
values in persons of all ages.
Despite all the sorrow and pessi-
mism in the world, there seems to
be an unquenchable tendency to-
ward growth, goodness, understand-
ing, truth, and freedom. This truth
will not be found in mysteries, or
in someone else taking responsibility
for us, but rather through our
efforts of self-realization and pre-
paring ourselves to live a religion of
maturity, love, and understanding
of God and his children. We must
realize that religion is what we do,
not what we profess.
This second year's series, then,
will focus on additional human
characteristics which will help us to
expand our religious horizons and
increase our spirituality in an age of
great challenge. May the following
lessons prove to be stimulating and
enriching.
Lesson 8— Expanding Our Religious
Horizons— Part I— Concepts of God
Objective: To discover how our con-
cepts of God influence our potentiali-
ties for spiritual living.
Lesson 9— Expanding Our Religious
Horizons— Part II— Concepts of
Man
Objective: To discover how our con-
cepts of man influence our potentiali-
ties for spiritual living.
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Lesson 10— Expanding Our Reli-
gious Horizons — Part III — Man's
Rehtedness to the World
Objective: To discover how our phi-
losophy of man's relatedness to the
world influences our potentialities for
spiritual living.
Lesson 11— Stages of Religious De-
velopment
Objective: To understand more fully
the manner in which religious quali-
ties develop.
Lesson 12— Values— Their Giowth
and Meaning
Objective: To increase our under-
standing of what values are, how they
develop, and the meaning which they
have in our lives.
Lesson 13— Growing Religious Val-
ues in the Home
Objective: To explore the processes
by which religious values may be
grown and developed within the
framework of the home and family.
Lesson 14— Abundant Living for
Our Day
Objective: To review the topics of
this two-year series of lessons and
emphasize the role they can and
should play in helping us live abun-
dantly today.
I totes on the *YLu triors
of the JLessons
HPHIS year one new writer is repre-
sented among the authors of
the lessons and introduced to read-
ers of the Magazine. A biographical
sketch of Maria Johnson follows:
NOTES ON THE AUTHORS OF THE LESSONS
421
TV/I" ARIA Johnson, author of the
Work Meeting Lessons, "Car-
ing for the Sick in the Home/' was
born in Springville, Utah, a daugh-
ter of Mont and Amelia Thorn
Johnson, both of whom were born
within five years after their parents
made the pioneer trek to Utah. She
is a granddaughter of Bishop Aaron
Johnson, leader of the company of
pioneers who settled Springville.
Sister Johnson received her early
education in Springville, and, after
graduating from high school, studied
at the Brigham Young University
and the University of Utah to qual-
ify for teaching. After a successful
career of eight years, she obeyed a
long-cherished desire to enter the
field of nursing. Here she has
found challenging and satisfying
opportunities for service. She was
graduated from Dr. Groves Latter-
day Saints Hospital in Salt Lake
City. For a few years she served as
a school nurse, then enrolled at
Teachers' College, Columbia Uni-
versity, where she received a Bach-
elor of Science Degree in public
health nursing. She spent the next
four years as a field representative
and one year as assistant to the Di-
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Pacific Branch area of the American
Red Cross.
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She soon found a correlation be-
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teaching and nursing. She took
postgraduate courses in nursing edu-
cation at the University of Utah, the
University of California, and Colo-
rado A and M. She returned to Dr.
Groves Latter-day Saint Hospital as
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Shine through the darkest night.
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SPECIAL FEATURES
History Turns Back Its Pages — The Bee Hive House Restored
Helen Young Spencer Williams 428
Summer Picnic Leone E. McCune 445
FICTION
No Comments, Please Dorothy Clapp Robinson 435
In Memory of Miss Ollie Pauline L. Jensen 447
Where Is Johnny? Frances C. Yost 452
Orchids in the Snow — Chapter 3 Rosa Lee Lloyd 459
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 426
Sixty Years Ago 440
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 441
Editorial: Family Vacationing Marianne C. Sharp 442
Special Feature Section Postponed 443
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 465
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Bazaar Sewing — Multi-Purpose Bag Jean R. Jennings 450
Yarn Stitched Bag Made of Chair Webbing Melba Larson 456
Anna M. Jensen Begins Housekeeping — Again — At Eighty-Nine 458
Joy or Sorrow Celia Luce 495
LESSONS FOR OCTOBER
Theology — A Promise Fulfilled Roy W. Doxey 470
Visiting Teacher Messages — "If Thou Lovest Me Christine H. Robinson 476
Work Meeting — Safeguarding the Health of Your Family Maria Johnson 478
Literature — Expanding Horizons Briant S. Jacobs 482
Social Science — Expanding Our Religious Horizons Blaine M. Porter 487
POETRY
Song for My Country — Frontispiece Margery S. Stewart 425
Her Patterned Lace Iris W. Schow 443
Frontier Garden Alice Morrey Bailey 444
Poverty Grace Ingles Frost 446
To a Pioneer Mother Mabel Jones Gabbott 449
Testimony Marvel Sharp Crookston 458
Solitude Catherine B. Bowles 464
Pioneer Woman Christie Lund Coles 464
The Sunflowers Eva M. Bird 481
Hill Quail Matia McClelland Burk 494
July Road Katherine F. Larsen 494
Indelible Roberta L. Theobald 495
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History Turns Back Its Pages
THE BEE HIVE HOUSE
RESTORED
Part I
Helen Young Spencer Williams
Secretary, Bee Hive House Restoration Committee
THE history of a people is
recorded in many ways. Its
pages are written in the kinds
of homes they built, the buildings,
the churches they erected, the mon-
uments raised, and the families they
reared and loved, as well as in writ-
ten and spoken word and deeds.
"One cannot escape history,"
said Abraham Lincoln at the very
time the Mormon pioneers were
crossing the country to establish
homes and a commonwealth, unmo-
lested and free from persecution in
what later became known as Utah
Territory in Great Salt Lake Valley.
Now, after one hundred years,
schools, churches, theaters, tem-
ples, and homes erected in a bar-
ren desert are evidence of the
culture and determination of a
great people. Their true greatness in
achievement began with an honest
purpose in life, an unswerving belief
in the goodness of God, in educa-
tion in all fields, in progression,
and the seeking after all those
things which are lovely, praise-
worthy, and of good report.
Thus was laid the foundation on
which the Latter-day Saints made
history in this desert land. The first
band of pioneers was admonished by
President Brigham Young to erect
schools, to plant and harvest, and
not to seek wealth or fame until
they had established themselves and
their families in homes built to
stand.
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The Bee Hive House on the
corner of State and South Temple
Streets in Salt Lake City, Utah,
is in the same block with the state-
ly Church Administration Build-
ing where the General Authorities
of the Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints today have their
offices. In the early days South
Temple was known as Brigham
Street, and State Street was called
Theater Hill.
The Lion House, where some of
Brigham Young's families lived, and
the Bee Hive House are joined by
the small office from which the Ter-
ritorial history, State history, and the
early Church administration ema-
nated. The Bee Hive House was
built by President Brigham Young
as his official residence as the Gov-
ernor of the Territory of Utah,
by Presidential appointment, in
which capacity he served for two
terms, from 1850 to 1858.
From his memories and love of
the beautiful old colonial mansions
in Vermont, his birthplace, the
home he wanted to build was pic-
tured in the mind of Brigham
Young.
In his youth he had been an ex-
pert cabinetmaker and undoubtedly
had unusual natural architectural
ability. With Truman O. Angell, a
trained architect of great ability and
reputation, to visualize his descrip-
tions and desires and materialize his
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429
Courtesy Don Carlos Young
BEE HIVE HOUSE WITH THE ORIGINAL NINE-FOOT COBBLE-ROCK
WALL AND THE EAGLE GATE, SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH
dreams, the Bee Hive House became
a reality within a year's time.
In 1854, seven years after the first
band of pioneers entered the Great
Salt Lake Valley, the historic house
was begun, and one year later, in
1855, ^ was completed and ready
for occupancy.
When one considers that this
house was built in the heart of a
desert, a wilderness, and still stands
as a monument to the past, it bears
evidence that those stalwart men
who planned and built were crafts-
men and master builders. In the
conception and completion of this
wonderful old home which reflects
the Greek and colonial traditions
architecture is the historical
in
proof that among those early con-
verts were superior men and women.
There were cabinetmakers, masons,
painters, carpenters, plasterers, stone-
cutters and architects. Many had
received their knowledge and train-
ing in the old country. They under-
stood the making of adobe. The
glaziers were experts. Many of the
cabinetmakers and architects had
their training in the finest univer-
sities of the times.
Looking back, one realizes that
with all the training and knowl-
edge, had there not been a
willingness and a deep spirit of
co-operation, the task of building
in those earlv davs could never have
been accomplished. The wood was
plentiful in the canyons, but it took
willing hands to cut and haul it.
The stone and rock had to be
quarried under difficulties hard to
comprehend in this day of modern
facilities.
HHHE large square Bee Hive House,
with its white pillars reaching to
the second story, was built of adobe
brick, plastered, then calcimined in
pale yellow. Above the second
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■
VIEW OF THE LION HOUSE (LEFT) AND THE BEE HIVE HOUSE, WITH
THE WHITE HOUSE AT THE UPPER RIGHT
Showing the small office which connected the two buildings
Photograph Taken About i860
story were two small rooms with
half diamond-shaped windows on
the east and west sides. On top of
the house was built a square cupola
with a replica of a large Bee Hive
from which the house was named.
"Deseret" was the Jaredite name
for the "honey bee" and denotes
"industry/' and undoubtedly the Bee
Flive was used as a symbol of the
needs of the people when Utah was
known as the Territory of Deseret.
One cannot help but wonder if
the captain's walk, with its quaint
fence, which surrounds the Bee
Hive on top of the house, does not
tell a story of the need for watchful
protection which was vital in those
earlv clays, for the pioneers had
traveled far to escape persecution,
and they had been menaced bv the
Indians as they crossed the plains.
Perhaps the captain's walk was
added to denote protection and give
assurance that families might live
and love and worship unmolested.
The Bee Hive House, the Gover-
nor's office, and Lion House stood
behind a nine-foot cobble-rock wall
which was built to serve a three-
fold purpose. It was a protection
against the rushing waters from City
Creek which flooded down Theater
Hill; it gave the unemployed work,
for Brigham Young maintained
that "an idle brain is the devil's
workshop"; and it was a safeguard
for his families against unfriendly
Indians. In those early days these
were matters of real concern. Even
though Brigham Young insisted
that the Latter-day Saints should
befriend and feed the Indians, it
was several years before they be-
came friendly. Many true stories
are told about them coming to the
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431
Bee Hive House gates, at first de-
manding food and clothing, then
gradually begging and pleading for
sugar and flour.
The old cobble wall had many
gates and entrances — some for
carriages, others which were kept
locked and guarded at all times.
Only the gate in front of the private
office of the First Presidency re-
mained open, but this was always
guarded.
Inside of the cobble wall was a
lovely garden. Old-fashioned flow-
ers, rosebushes, and arbors covered
with grapes filled the air with sweet
fragrance in spring and summer.
There was a beautiful cherry tree,
laden with blossoms in the spring,
which bore the oxheart cherries to
be preserved later for winter use.
The fruit from the peach and
apricot trees was dried in the attic
rooms. Near the rear door of the
Bee Hive House stood a lovely
locust tree which Clara Page
Decker Young (one of the women
who was with the first company
which came into the Valley) had
planted from the seeds she brought
from Nauvoo. Its beautiful branch-
es shaded the kitchen door.
TWO lilac trees planted by Lucy
Decker Young, in 1861, in the
southeast corner of the garden still
John A. Spencer, Jr.
AUTHENTIC WALNUT CHAIR AND TABLE BELONGING TO
PRESIDENT BRIGHAM YOUNG
The fruit compote on the table belonged to President Young's set of "goldband"
monogrammed with the initials "B.Y."
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remain to herald the springtime
with their lavender blossoms.
Silkworms were raised, and in the
upper garden, fruits and vegetables
were cultivated for the use of the
families.
The original Bee Hive House was
just a story and a half at the back
and two stories in front. As it was
built for the official Governor's
house, one that could be used for
entertaining as well as for a home
for the family who resided there,
the rooms were spacious. The fur-
nishings were beautiful and lovelv in
their simplicity. All that went into
the Bee Hive House depicted a
cultural appreciation of fine, beau-
tiful things. The fabrics used in
the draperies and upholstery were
rich in texture and color, and yet
were practical.
'TTIERE were two parlors, the
downstairs one, opposite Brig-
ham Young's bedroom, was known
as the sitting room. The walls were
a soft shade of green. Nottingham
lace curtains were at the windows,
a four-ply ingrain carpet covered
the natural pine floors.
Against the west wall of the sit-
ting room stood a beautiful square
grand piano made by the United
Makers. Often a violin rested on
top of the piano. A harp stood
nearby. In this room in the eve-
nings there was always music and
singing. A Lady Franklin stove stood
in front of the fireplace, and there
were easv and wooden chairs made
J
by William O. Bell. In this down-
stairs sitting room, Brigham Young
always ate his breakfast at ten
o'clock wmile he would counsel with
those who came to him on the press-
ing problems of the day. He always
Courtesy Deseret News
THE ORIGINAL DOORBELL OF
THE BEE HIVE HOUSE
It still hangs from the ceiling in the
front hall.
This bell was attached to an opening
outside by a little wire.
ate his dinner at four-thirty in the
Lion House w7ith his families.
The upper parlor ran the full
length of fifty feet and was called
the long hall. There were graceful,
rounded coved ceilings and coved
moldings. The couches and chairs
were upholstered in deep raspberry
silk brocade. Walnut tables and
chairs furnished the rooms, and at
the windows were rose lambrequins
and gold cornices. The natural pine
floors were covered with four-ply
ingrain gray carpet designed with
roses and green leaves. At the
end of this room hung a full length
gold-framed mirror with a basket of
flowers beneath made of shells. It
was a parlor in every sense of the
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^*lilKIfTffi i
John A. Spencer, Jr.
ORIGINAL LADY FRANKLIN STOVE AND MANTEL IN THE
RESTORED BEE HIVE HOUSE
Two original Lady Franklin stoves have been presented to the restored Bee Hive
House. The stove presented by President }. Reuben Clark, Jr. and his family originally
belonged to C. R. Savage, father of President Clark's wife, Luacine Savage Clark. The
other Lady Franklin stove was presented by Elizabeth Bennett Winters, and originally
belonged to Rachel Ivins Grant, mother of President Hcbcr }. Grant.
word. Lady Franklin stoves stood in
front of the two wooden mantels.
The room was lighted by two chan-
deliers, each fitted with three coal
oil lamps.
T^HE south front door with the
small panes of glass framing it
opened into the entrance hall. At
one side of the door there was a
small opening where one would
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press his finger and a bell would of rich milk, topped with thick
ring inside. This bell was attached cream which was churned into rolls
to the little opening with a pulley of butter. All the supplies that had
wire. Up in the ceiling of the hall to be kept cold, were kept there,
the little cowbell, for that is what What a wonderful place that cel-
it looked like, peeled forth with a lar must have been! There was
resonance that resounded in every the homey old kitchen with its big
nook and corner of the Bee Hive black cookstove and tin-lined sink,
House. It still hangs from the ceil- a cupboard that would hold fifty
ing in the front hall. pies, wooden chopping bowls,
The walls of the hall were painted utensils and dishes to serve at least
in tans and browns to represent thirty people daily. Always there
Tennessee marble, and on the east were sixteen to eighteen helpers to
wall a long staircase led upstairs to be boarded, besides the men who
the landing on the second floor, worked on the estate, as well as
then the stairway became a spiral LucY Ann's and Brigham Young's
leading up to the attic and the two seven children who lived in the Bee
small rooms on the east and west. Hive House. The help ate in a
One of these rooms was used as a large room known as the men's
studio where some of the children dining room.
were taught painting. Up there in Throughout the house the wood-
the attic hung the luscious Black work was painted and grained to
Prince grapes to dry and to be used simulate bird's-eye maple. The
for raisins later on. windows originally were all small
In the north end of the Bee Hive Panes> for *e ^ *JF™ of glass
TT ,1 n .1 were the only kind that could be
House on the mam floor was the , . , . , J , , ,, ,, , .
i . -i i . ii . i „ i shipped into the Valley during
store which was kept well stocked ., ri n , J b
r r •-> tV^ , j those early days,
for family use. lhe counters and n^, , ; , /, u r>- at
t -, J -i i .,1 r 1 hus stood the old Pioneer Man-
shelves were laden with calicoes, . , .,, ..,. , ..
i -i .. j . i £ n sion, built withm a years time, its
braid, notions, and staples ot all £ \ .. r .. J n ,.i j
, . j y rn i1 j • i foundation nrm, its walls solid, and
kinds. There were drugs, dried ., ,.. ' . . T'trtL
j n t i its architecture picturesque. With
peas, and apples. In large square .. . l ., ^ .,
r, ll t o i its spacious rooms, its wide stone
glass iars were maple sugar, syrup, r, .. , . , ' , . , .„
b t ' i • *. j j veranda, its high colonial pillars
rock and peppermint candy, and \ , , b ., ,,, ,< j
r ir i •. i surrounded by the old-fashioned
sometimes even white lump sugar . ., J .
, . v ,i i ! j r ° i garden, it remains as a monument
which, to the children, was a real b ., \. , £ , , T.
to the history or the past. It was a
residence for a Governor, for Presi-
Altogether there were fourteen dents of the Church, and a home
rooms, not counting the cellar, for ideal family life. All who lived
where cupboards were filled with there learned to love it and to re-
huge jars of preserves. Here in the member it always as home,
cellar hung the swinging milk (To be continued and concluded
shelves with their ten-quart pans next month)
No Comments, Please
Doiothy CJapp Robinson
SANDRA Baker hummed mer-
rily in time to the whir of her
sewing machine. Sandra loved
sewing. She loved this soft rose
corduroy. When made into romp-
ers for baby Cindy, it would make
an angel of her for sure. She even
loved this sunny — what was it
called? — bay window. No matter
what service it had given in the past,
right now it kept this creepy second-
floor apartment from being the
worst. Oh, it really was a beautiful
morning.
The window recess was large
enough for a small table. Sandra
could use it for her typewriter, or,
as now, for a work table for her sew-
ing. Without moving, she could
look up and see, not too far away,
the roofs of the university build-
ings where Van at this moment
was struggling with law books. And,
though she could not see it, the
building where Van worked after
school was closer still.
There was always something in-
teresting or amusing to be seen
from this window. People, all
kinds and ages, were forever climb-
ing the steep grade on which this
made-into-apartments house stood.
And just as many people were going
down it into town. There, now,
was the little old woman who
climbed it each morning at this
time. She walked bent forward as
if her shoulders could help her poor
old legs. Sandra laughed aloud at
a man who had pitted his dignity
against the force of the wind and
slope of the walk.
Cindy, aged eight months, cried
out from the living room. Temper.
"Be nice, darling. Mama will
soon have one of these. . . ."
Sandra stopped short. No. It
couldn't be — but it was. Her
mother-in-law was tripping up the
sidewalk as effortlessly as a twenty-
year-old girl. And the very in-
souciance of her walk — oh, dear.
Why today? In two seconds the
machine was closed and every trace
of the rose corduroy had disap-
peared.
It was not that Sandra disliked
Gracie, but she felt so frustrated
and inadequate beside her. No
matter what Sandra planned, Gracie
got there first with the best.
There was the matter of baby
clothes. Was she allowed to do
that anticipated sewing? No, by
the time she had found money to
buy material, Gracie had made or
purchased enough clothes for three
babies. When they moved into this
apartment there had been no drapes
at the front window. A girl friend
who did textile painting needed
drapes also. They planned to make
them together, from unbleached
muslin. Sandra was to do the sew-
ing and Marlene the painting. After
an afternoon hunt for a suitable
design for painting, Sandra came
home to find her drapes bought,
made, and hung. Also paid for.
They were so beautiful and exactly
right for the room, but it was a
long time before Sandra could look
at them without a flare of temper.
There were dozens of other little
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things that she refused to remem-
ber, but if Gracie brought another
present for Cindy she, Sandra, was
going to scream.
/^ RACIE did not bring a present,
but there was something in the
wind besides dust, Sandra told her-
self. She met Gracie at the head
of the stairs.
"May I fix you something to eat?"
"No, thanks, dear. I have eaten."
They went into the living room
and Mrs. Baker swept Cindy off
the floor into her arms. Cindy was
the first girl in the Baker family so
it was no wonder her grandmother
worshiped her. Not that she was
called Grandmother, that and
Mother Baker were strictly for the
birds. She wanted to be called
Gracie.
"I don't think you should let her
on the floor, Sandy. There is a cool
breeze out, and this old house is full
of drafts."
When the wind blew hard the
house was drafty, but Sandra had
thought today's wind was mild and
rather pleasant. She was puzzled.
Excessive gaiety, usually meant
something — could it be something
about the house?
"Are you sure you don't want
lunch?"
"No. Thank you. I met Mildred
Oliver and we had lunch together.
We hadn't seen each other for
years, but they have moved back to
town. She has a new granddaugh-
ter, too. We had the most wonder-
ful time making plans."
I guess you did. For an instant
Sandra thought she had said the
words aloud. Her face flushed, but
Gracie was too involved in her plans
to notice. She was so sweet and
kind, Sandra thought, but in any
project involving the two of them
the senior Mrs. Baker immediately
became commander-in-chief. San-
dra had yearnings toward that posi-
tion herself.
"Mid told me about the new
Clover Arms — grandest apartments
just being opened for rent. We went
to look at them. I just couldn't
resist."
"Why would you want an apart-
ment?" Sandra asked. She knew
the Bakers owned their home. "Are
Bill and Doris coming back?"
For just an instant Gracie's face
clouded. Sandra knew why and
really sympathized with her moth-
er-in-law. Bill had taken a less de-
sirable position in another town
"so they could live their own lives,"
quote Doris.
"Oh, no." Gracie recovered her
poise quickly, but she kept her head
turned. She was tieing a lace on
Cindy's shoe. "I was thinking of
you and Van."
"I like this apartment." Sandra
kept her voice level. "It is close
enough to school that Van can
walk, and we both have positions
in the ward."
/GRACIE swept the objections
aside. "You would soon be
put to work out there. I hear they
are just organizing a ward. And
Van could do without a Church
position until he is through school.
He would have to drive back and
forth, but the Clover Arms is so
new and exclusive, and the living
room of the one I . . ." her voice
broke but she hurried on, "is large
enough for a piano."
"You didn't rent us an apart-
ment?"
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437
"No. ... I just asked him to hold
it until I could come talk to you."
"But we haven't a piano/' San-
dra's voice was beginning to show
strain, "and we are in no position
to buy one. Are you sure you
wouldn't like a cookie and a glass
of lemonade?"
"No, dear. I must watch my
weight, remember? I was going to
say, if you had that larger apart-
ment, you could have my piano.
Van could keep up with his music."
Sandra, ignoring the "larger apart-
ment," started to say that between
school work, and Aaronic Priesthood
responsibilities, Van would have no
time for practice, but Gracie hur-
ried on, "Besides there is Cindy."
"What do you mean?"
"She must have lessons. That is
why we must start planning early.
See, her fingers are long and slender
like her Daddv's."
For a second Sandra was beyond
speech. "Why . . . why," she splut-
tered, "Cindy is only eight months
old."
"I know, but there is a new music
professor living at the Clover Arms.
He is a refugee, but already has a
waiting list of pupils. It is not too
soon to get Cindy's name on the
list."
Sandra's voice rose in spite of
herself, "When Cindy is ready for
music lessons, I will find a teacher.
You don't want us to be a family,
at all "
Instantly Sandra regretted her
words. It was awful to see Gracie's
bright gaiety fade so quickly. With-
out a word, Gracie put Cindy on
the floor and went fumblingly down
the stairs. From the window San-
dra watched her go down the street.
She almost looked her age.
I shouldn't have spoken so. I
should go call her back and apolo-
gize. But Sandra made no move-
ment to do so. Then, when the
drooping figure was out of sight,
she thought, anyway it is the truth.
But being the truth did not help
much. It did not take away the
memory of Gracie's face nor the
droop of her shoulders. Nor did it
bring peace to Sandra.
When she had Cindv down for
her nap, Sandra tried to study a
Bee Hive lesson, but finally had to
close the book. She went to the
window and looked out. The wind
was blowing, she noticed. She took
out the rose corduroy, but she made
so many mistakes she soon put it
away.
Gracie would be such a wonder-
ful woman if only she would not
spend so much on them, would not
try to dominate their lives. That
she could afford to give was beside
the point.
I
N her own home Sandra had been
held to a very strict accounting
on the matter of monev. Whatever
she received, be it only a dime, must
be divided into three parts. One
cent went into her tithing bank,
five cents went into her savings, and
the other four pennies she could
spend as she wished. It wasn't that
her folks had been particularly hard
up. They were frugal and saving.
"Why, honey," Van had said to
her once after shopping for groc-
eries, "I didn't know I had married
such a beautiful Scrooge. We shall
be rich some day."
As the afternoon waned, Sandra's
anger waned and her confusion in-
creased. Van would never approve
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of what she had done — but he
didn't know half of what went on.
There was the sweater, for instance.
Van had been in need of a sweat-
er. Sandra, without telling him, did
some typing for a woman down-
stairs. Each page she typed she
laid aside with the exhilarating
thought of the surprise and pleas-
ure Van would know on his birth-
day.
She had priced sweaters carefully
and lovingly. The one she wanted
to buy was $39.95. The one she
finally bought was $24.95. Placed
beside the more expensive ones it
looked shoddy, but when she com-
pared it with cheaper ones it looked
quite respectable.
Van's parents had dined with
them that evening. When Sandra
had seen the box Gracie brought,
her spirits had panicked. Surely
Gracie had not brought a sweater.
She just couldn't — but she had,
the very one Sandra had wanted to
buy. Sandra had slipped her box
back into the closet and kissed Van
and told him that was her present
to him.
Over and over all the little dis-
turbing details of her association
with Gracie marched through San-
dra's mind, but the words she had
said to Gracie overshadowed every-
thing. On a sudden impulse San-
dra went to the telephone. Her
mother would understand and say
words that would take the bitter
taste from her tongue.
''Sandy, has something hap-
pened?" It was wonderful to hear
that voice. It was easy to pour out
her story. When she had finished,
there was silence at the other end
of the line. Sandra hastened to her
own defense.
"Can't you see, Mama? I had to
say something. She wants to do
everything for us. I couldn't stand
it any longer."
"Is that why you called me? To
assure me you had to say what you
said?"
"Yes, but — but, Mama, don't
you see. . . ."
"I see that you did something
very rude and now you want my
approval."
-But - Mama "
"You have a problem, that I will
admit," Mrs. Shelton went on, "but
you will never solve it by such ac-
tions. I think you should go and
look out of your big window for
awhile."
C ANDRA did go stand by the win-
dow. She looked at the build-
ings. She could see only parts of
the close ones, but those farther
away could be seen in their entire-
ty. It was some time before she
knew why her mother had asked
her to do this.
"How are my two best ladies?"
Van had much of his mother's hap-
py disposition. He swung Cindy
into his arms and hugged Sandra at
the same time. Instead of return-
ing his kiss, Sandra buried her face
in his shoulder and burst into sobs.
"Hey, what goes? Sit down,
nuisance, while I investigate."
Cindy did not want to be put
down. She added her protests to
her mother's sobs. Van tried to
turn Sandra's face, but she refused
to look up.
"Let's have a stop to this — right
now." He used both hands to lift
her face and his tone stopped both
sobs and protests. "What is wrong,
NO COMMENTS, PLEASE
439
sweetheart? Tell me what hap-
pened."
As Sandra told her story, Van
pressed her close against his shoul-
der.
"Please/' he said at length, "give
me credit for having a little percep-
tion. I know how mother takes
over. I even know about the sweat-
er, but/' his voice hardened, "we
have a long time to live together
and we wont have feelings. It was
pretty dumb, don't you think, to go
so far out over something six or
eight years in the future?"
"But she is having an apartment
held for us."
"So what? We don't have to
move, but you didn't have to be
rude to her. Don't you think you
owe her an apology? After all, she
is my mother — and a wonderful
one."
Sandra nodded without speaking.
"Then go wash your eyes and
put on your face while I put Cindy
into her togs."
"But — but dinner is ready."
Sandra was a little awed by the
note of authority in her husband's
voice. It was the first time she had
heard it, and for some reason it
lifted her spirits. "Couldn't
we. . . ?"
"We are going now."
Sandra did not entirely erase the
effects of her unhappy afternoon,
but she helped her looks. Van had
Cindy in one arm and started for
the stairs when his parents walked
in.
Sandra stared at her father-in-
law. The kind, gentle look was
gone from his face, and she knew
instantly where Van got that tight
muscle around his mouth.
"Mama has come to apologize,"
Mr. Baker said without preamble.
"We were just leaving for your
place," Van answered, "Sandra
wants to apologize."
"Mama will apologize."
Sandra looked from father to son
and back again. She could not be-
lieve what she was seeing. She
looked at Grade and saw the same
thing she felt. She started to gig-
gle, then the two women threw
their arms around each other and
laughed hysterically.
The men looked bewildered and
lost. When Mr. Baker muttered,
"Ridiculous way to apologize," Van
started to laugh.
They had finished the delightful
dinner Sandra had prepared when
Mr. Baker reverted to the subject
of the dispute.
There was no tension in his voice
and none in the room. "It was my
fault, really. I knew Mama was
going overboard, but it was so easy
to agree with her. Give and take
in moderation is the word from
now on."
Sandra turned to see how Gracie
was taking the pronouncement.
Gracie's face was glowing, she was
really beautiful.
"I bought some lovely rose cordu-
roy with the money I saved from
the sweater, Mother Baker. Will
you help me make rompers for
Cindy?"
"I'd love to. All my life I have
wanted a little girl to sew for."
"Dad said it was a ridiculous way
to apologize," Van said, later that
night, "I think it was more ridicu-
lous to dispute over music lessons
for a child eight months old. The
way you women. . . ."
Sandra put her lips on his. "No
comments, please."
Sixty Ljears ^YLgo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, July 1, and July 15, 1900
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
of All Nations"
REMEMBERING THE PIONEER TRAIL: We had prayers in the morning,
in fact I am sure it was faith in God we depended on to bring us safely along. . . .
Looking backward I can recall a few bright mornings when something unusual broke
the monotony, or the scenery was more picturesque, or we had seen a beautiful deer,
perhaps two or three or half a dozen such beauties, so graceful in their movements
.... There was order in the camp, men stood guard at night and we slept soundly in
the open air. . . . How marvelously we were guided to this land. . . .
— Aunt Em
THE DAWNING OF A BRIGHTER DAY: Looking at conditions now it
seems useless to allude to such a time; and yet it is nevertheless the prophecy of the
future by the greatest men and women — poets, sages, seers and philosophers and why
should we not believe in the best for the human race? Tennyson foresaw it; Isaiah
foreshadowed such a time, and when even the beasts of the field, the lamb and the lion
should lie down together. And, therefore, women need not despair though all seems dark
today as far as peace among the nations is concerned; yet the silent forces that are
working and the heartfelt prayers of the tens of thousands of mothers that are offered
daily will reach the ears of the Omnipotent, and truth and righteousness will eventually
triumph, the earth will be redeemed and Satan will be bound. . . .
— Editorial
MORNING IN CAMP
Lo a mighty host of Jacob,
Tented on the Western shore,
Of the noble Mississippi,
Which they had been passing o'er,
At the last day dawn of winter,
Bound with frost and wrapped in snow.
Hark, the cry is Onward! Onward!
Camp of Israel rise and go. . . .
— Eliza R. Snow
AUNT ZINA'S PARTY: On Tuesday afternoon, July 26, a number of the sisters
met at the residence of Sister Zina D. H. Young, to show their love and appreciation
of this Mother in Israel. . . . Sister E. B. Wells made a few remarks and referred with
love and appreciation of the many sisters who had been wont to meet with us on
similar occasions who were now on the other side of the veil . . . Vilate Kimball, Mary
Ann Young, Emma Smith, Eliza R. Snow, Elizabeth Ann Whitney, and later whom
all present would remember, Phebe Woodruff, Sarah M. Kimball, Elizabeth Howard
and many more . . . we should not allow their names to be forgotten, for they had
helped lay the foundation for others. . . .
— New Note
BEAR LAKE STAKE RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE: President Julia P.
Lindsay . . . said she had much pleasure in meeting in conference, had never yet per-
formed a duty without receiving blessings. Spoke ... on the great blessings we enjoy
in this goodly land, and the promises made the sisters by the Prophet Joseph, if they
would be faithful. . . .
—Nancy H. Allred, Stake Sec.
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
pRINCESS MARGARET ROSE,
sister of Queen Elizabeth II
of Great Britain, became the bride
of Anthony Armstrong-Jones, May
sixth in Westminster Abbey. This
is the first time in more than four
hundred years that a member of
British royalty has married a com-
moner. At Princess Margaret's
personal request the Beatitudes were
read (very solemnly and impressive-
ly) just preceding the ceremony,
and the word "obey" in the bride's
promises to the groom during the
nuptial ceremony was retained.
M
RS. EMERALD LUCY BAR-
MAN ARBOGAST, of Los
Angeles, California, was named
i960 American Mother of the Year.
She gave remarkable help to her
youngest of six children, who was
retarded. She also established two
schools for retarded children, to
help others. She believes children
should have freedom, but under
strict supervision.
TV/fRS. ERNEST (GRACE WAT-
11 KINS) SONDERREGER,
66, of Midway, Wasatch County,
was chosen Utah Mother of the
Year. Eight of her ten children are
still living, fine citizens and success-
ful persons. Left a widow at the
age of thirty-nine, she and her chil-
dren worked together to pay off
the mortgage on their farm. Also
they managed so that each received
a good education. Mrs. Sonder-
reger has been active in Relief
Society for many years, having
served as organist, teacher, coun-
selor, and president in her ward.
A/TRS. GRACE STEVENSON
11 Mcdonald fillerup, a
native and former resident of Utah,
but presently of Lovell, was chosen
the Wyoming Mother of the Year.
Still active in teaching (especially
handicapped children) at seventy-
one, she has attended four univer-
sities and has received many honors
in the fields of both education and
politics. She has been active as a
Relief Society ward president and
also stake board member.
M
RS. SHIRLEY BROCKBANK
PAXMAN is the wife-mother
member of the Monroe J. Paxman
clan numbering seven children and
chosen in April as the Utah Family
of the Year, and in May this family
placed third in the national com-
petition. Juvenile Court Judge
Paxman is nationally noted for his
work with delinquents and their
parents. Mrs. Paxman, a registered
nurse, is a brilliantly original,
imaginative and clever mother. The
Paxmans recently published locally
a book, Family Night Fun, which is
now being published nationally by
Prentiss Hall Publishing Company,
New York.
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EDITORIAL
VOL 47
JULY 1960
NO. 7
C/ami/y Vacationing
^HE word vacation means differ-
ent things to different people.
To some it means doing nothing;
to some, a change of routine; to
others, travel. To many parents it
offers one of the greatest oppor-
tunities to weld family members
into unity.
Select three children and ask
them what they did last vacation
time. One may answer, "Aunt
Edna stayed with us and Mama and
Dad went away"; a second may
reply: "I visited my grandmother in
the country"; the third may answer,
"Oh, we all did something together
and was it fun! Last year we went
and . . ." and his voice goes on and
on recalling the happy time.
If parents intend to spend the
father's vacation time as a family
activity — one that will ever be re-
called by the children with pleas-
ure, it is well to set a family pat-
tern while the children are young,
ready to enter wholeheartedly into
the family planning. An instance
is recalled in which the parents felt
they never had enough money to
spend on a family vacation, and by
the time they felt they could afford
it, the interests of the children had
become so diversified that a vaca-
tion together was unsuccessful.
If careful economy throughout
the year has not provided extra
money for a vacation, then special
family fun may be generated within
the home with a few extra treats
because father is home. Children
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could take turns planning special
vacation occasions. Older children
could choose places which they
would like to have visited, and
through descriptions, programs, and
food, they can strive to create
reality.
One family began with the first
child to go on a camping trip to a
beautiful lake quite near home. At
first they stayed in a cabin, and then
each succeeding year they acquired
additional sleeping bags, utensils,
air mattresses, and larger tents. As
the children grew older, there were
swimming, boating, and hiking
activities in the adjoining moun-
tains. It was a change for every
member, as father helped with the
outdoor cooking and initiated the
children into the skill, thus relieving
mother of some of her duties. Everv
member relaxed amid different sur-
roundings, far from the telephone
and evervday duties.
Another family planned and saved
for three years to make a trip far
from home. The car was filled to
overflowing as the family started
out, and all the preparations and
studies, which the older ones, had
made of the interesting and his-
torical places to be visited, gave last-
ing and indelible impressions. These
were reviewed and relived and pro-
vided a never-ending source of satis-
faction as the years thinned the
beloved members from the hearth-
side.
Interested parents with the en-
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thusiastic help of older children can
carefully map out and plan visits to
new industries and ventures close at
home. It is an unusual countryside
today which does not offer interest-
ing developments nearby. It takes
very little money to bring a feeling
of accomplishment and satisfaction
to children. The fact that the
entire family is going someplace to-
gether is usually enough to ensure
a good time. Such an outing teaches
children to give and take and learn
to share and do things together.
Wise parents will make vacations
fit into the family budget, so that
when the vacation is over the en-
joyment is not marred by debts.
Planning within the budget is a les-
son needed by every family mem-
ber.
During the long winter evenings
ahead, happy remembrances of last
year's vacation at family hours will
mingle with animated discussions
on the forthcoming one. Father
and mother may draw every mem-
ber of the family closer as they unite
on planning a vacation which will
exemplify family standards and
ideals. As the children grow into
their teens trips to gambling meccas
and high priced entertainments will
not be a glamorous allurement. In-
stead, a vacation will mean careful
budgeting and obtaining values of
eternal worth.
-M.C.S.
Special q) eat tire ejection [Postponed
The General Board regrets that through circumstances beyond its
control, the special surprise feature for the July Magazine which was
announced in the April i960 issue had to be postponed, and is now
scheduled to appear in the August Magazine. Watch for the August
Magazine, and be sure that your subscription is up to date so that you will
not miss this special feature issue.
Crier [Patterned JLc
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his W. Schow
Designs Grandmother knit into her lace,
The fan, the double rose leaf, and the shell,
Remain like fossil imprints one can trace
In ancient stone, and have their tales to tell
Of days not idly spent. I pause to look,
And feel as if I saw recorded there
The mild bow of her smile, the open book
Of purity that was her life, her hair
Parted and curving back like silver wings.
I sense the light touch that she left, who laid
Aside the garden tools and milking things
For needles; changes found her unafraid.
Age brought her toil-creased hands, not rest's confinement,
But free expression of her soul's refinement.
PIONEER HOME OF MELISSA JANE BIGLER LAMBSON
AND ALFRED B. LAMBSON
This home stood on the northeast corner of North Temple and First West Streets,
Salt Lake City, Utah.
C/>
rontter
(garden
Alice Money Bailey
Great-grandma's garden grew unplanned
From traded "slip" and "start,"
Mementos of a distant land
Still verdant in her heart.
Sweet williams edged the pieplant stalk;
The squashes' prickled vine
Ran riot with the hollyhock.
Beans vied with columbine.
Too long she knew the desert's thirst,
Its ruthless hunger-need,
To choose a lilac's beauty first
Above corn's nutrient seed,
But vines can arch with climbers' grace
The crudely handmade beam,
And weld with Queen Anne's silver lace
The lean-to's awkward seam.
No matter what her walls and roof —
Adobe, log, or stone —
With flower and leaf her moral proof,
She claimed this spot her own.
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Summer Picnic
Leone E. McCune
EACH year when our valley
finally emerged from its
blankets of snow and ice,
and the first signs of spring —
crocuses and buttercups, thrust their
yellow heads upward on the cold
damp hills, I would begin to dream
of summer days when I could go
with Papa to our farm, about six
miles from our home. I was the
eldest of the family of five and
should have been a boy, I guess.
My little brother would grow up
in time, though.
School was wonderful, but as the
spring days grew warmer, these
dreams intruded themselves more
and more often across the pages of
my textbooks.
Papa had always been patient
with his three little girls, who fre-
quently waited for him at the top
of a hill about two blocks from our
home. From a vantage point in our
back yard, Mama would keep an
eye on us. Papa would jump down
from his high load of sweet smell-
ing hay, when he saw us waiting.
He would boost each one of us up
on top, then spring up beside us,
and we would go merrily off on our
short ride to the barn.
In the mornings, if his chores
kept him around the garden or
barns later than usual, we some-
times wakened early enough to ride
in the empty wagon to the hilltop.
After he had lifted each one of us
down, we would watch until he
disappeared out of sight down the
long lane. Then, gathering may-
apples on the grassy walk, we would
eat the pungent little yellow balls
on our way home to breakfast.
Now I was more grown-up and
school was out at last. June — dan-
delion and plum blossom laden,
arrived. There was no more beau-
tiful place in the world than our
farm in summer. The valley was
surrounded by green wooded hills.
Two sides of the farm were almost
enclosed by green willows that grew
along the banks, their tips trailing
in the streams. Lucerne, with its
purple-blue flowers, covered the
undulated land like a blue and green
carpet. Across these acres on the
south side, a field of wheat was grow-
ing. In September it would be a
waving carpet of gold. And over it
all was the inverted bowl of blue
sky.
Sometimes I stayed all day at the
farm, riding the hay rake, the mow-
ing machine, or whatever Papa was
working that clay. If I did not go
for the whole day I drove my little
brown pony hitched to our buggy,
taking Papa a hot lunch, which we
enjoyed together. Then we would
try a little fishing before starting to
work. There were two streams
running through our farm, one swift
and filled with delicious little brook
trout, easy to catch. The other
stream was larger, and in one place
logs and stones caused an obstruc-
tion, creating quite a good sized
pool. A clump of trees grew here,
and the water was quiet and clear.
We could see large fish swimming
around, speckled herring. Papa said.
We would bait our hooks and lie
flat on our stomachs, fascinated,
scarcely daring to breathe.
"See," he would whisper, "that
fellow was here last year. The same
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ones come back every year."
We would watch, I hoping to
catch one, yet half hoping they'd be
smart enough to refuse our bait. We
never caught any of the large ones.
AACHEN the days were extremely
hot, Papa urged me to take a
rest under the trees and read my
book, which I always brought along.
I would sink down on the grassy
bank, where I could smell the water
and the fish. Always the fragrance
of growing things, the hay newly
cut, pervaded the air with sweet-
ness.
Sometimes, deep in the pages of
Little Women, Good Wives, Rob-
inson Crusoe, and many others, I
would forget where I was until some
sound brought me back to reality.
Then, apologetically, I'd go out to
join Papa. He never seemed to
mind. I was probablv more of a
nuisance than a help, anyway. He
just liked having me around. If a
storm threatened and the work
piled up, he could always hire Jens
to help us out, as he frequently did.
Such joyful summer days they
were! And the most special were
the days when Mama brought the
children and a hot meal out to Papa
and me. We would spread a red-
checkered tablecloth on the grass
in the shade. Each child carried
something to the picnic table from
the buggy. Papa unharnessed the
mare and let her graze while we ate.
There before us were spread
Mama's home-baked bread and the
butter that she had churned, little
new potatoes and green peas in
white sauce, string beans, beets in
sweetened vinegar, and roast beef
hot from the pan. All the vege-
tables were from our garden. There
was milk from our cow, kept cold
in the cellar. Mama's white cake
with chocolate icing topped the
meal that has never to my mind in
all the years following found its
superior.
It was such a joy to see Mama
and Papa relaxing and having fun
with the family, however briefly.
They were such busy people, except
on Sundays when all the work wait-
ed while we went to church.
After the picnic was over Papa
hitched up the mare, and the chil-
dren carried the dishes and utensils
under Mama's supervision to the
buggy. Papa helped the little ones
up into the seats, and Mama left
for home to put the little ones to
bed.
Then Papa and I worked until it
was too dark to see any longer. On
these rare evenings when we stayed,
the big moon came up over the hills
and flooded us with its glory as we
turned the horses' heads toward
home.
LPoverty
Grace Ingles Fiost
Not to see the gold that gilds the sun,
Not to hear rare tones in brooks that run
Buoyantly with beauty's rhythmic voice,
Not with blithesome songsters to rejoice,
Not to share in children's lightsome glee,
Is naught but abject poverty to me.
In Memory of Miss Ollie
Pauline L. Jensen
NO one ever knew the reasons friends, and backed by several of
why Miss Ollie and her par- the civic organizations, she set up
ents chose to settle in our a small "book exchange/' open to
small mid-Western town. It was, the public, tending it herself, and
indeed, a far cry from the Massa- receiving no remuneration in a fi-
chusetts coastal village where Miss nancial way.
Ollie's father had plied his trade The popularity of the "lending"
as a sea captain. The town library brought home to the city
seethed with curiosity, and the most fathers the need of something bet-
popular belief, and one that en- ter. An outgrown, abandoned two-
dured through the years, was that room schoolhouse was comman-
Miss Ollie had been disappointed in deered, and it was there that Miss
love, and that her parents had tak- Ollie began her career, which was
en her as far from the scene of to last for over forty years,
sorrow as was possible. Born and Right from the start, Miss Ollie
bred in the tradition of New Eng- knew her patrons' likes and dislikes,
land, Miss Ollie kept her counsel, in the book world. She also guessed,
and if she cherished any grief, it and accurately so, the possibilities
stayed within the confines of her that lay within each person. In con-
heart, fidence she heard their woes, their
There certainly was nothing to joys, their fears, and dreams. Miss
indicate a grieving maiden about Ollie listened well.
Miss Ollie. With her small, erect "We got some new kittens, Miss
figure, and dark, sparkling eyes Ollie," a child would say. Miss
framed in heavy lashes, she was the Ollie's eyes would brighten. "Then
embodiment of beauty as portrayed you want this book. It's about a
by the artists in the years just pre- cat, Miss Muffett, and it tells how
ceding the twentieth century. Her she teaches maimers to her babies."
blue-black hair was pulled severely A happy child would trudge off
back from the oval face and fash- clutching tightly the book that
ioned in a bun at the nape of her would increase her knowledge of the
neck. This only served to accent animal world.
her patrician features and empha- "Ma is sick, and wonders would
size the luminous quality in her you pick out some books for her to
eyes. read?" a lad would question. Miss
It was just before the turn of the Ollie knew the kind of books Ma
century that Miss Ollie and her liked — light love stories. She
parents settled down in the neat would choose a few, and then pick
white house on Elm Street. The up one of the classics. Casually,
town, a river port, was rough and she would say: "I wonder if your
well supplied with taverns, but mother would like this one? It's
short on culture. The thing Miss one of my favorites. I read it over
Ollie missed the most was a library, and over and never tire of it."
With the help of a small group of Miss Ollie knew the message
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would be repeated word for word.
Like as not Ma, herself, would re-
turn the books, and would shyly
sav, "I liked that book. It was real
nice. Have you another something
like it?" Miss Ollie had, and got it
for her promptly.
OOMETIMES it was a pre-teen
child, bored with the limited
number of books available in that
bracket. Miss Ollie would hold
aloft a book of Dickens, and look
thoughtful. "Now here is one, but
I'm afraid it's much too hard for
you."
Curiosity would bring the child
closer. Then Miss Ollie would nod
her head and state, "No, I don't
think it is too hard! You're a
bright child, and I think you'd
understand it! Anyway it's fun to
look words up in the dictionary."
A beaming child would clasp the
book to her. Indeed she would
read it. If Miss Ollie thought she
could understand it, then she
could!
A shame-faced boy would face
Miss Ollie across the dark oak desk.
"Pa says I can't take out any more
books. Says it's just a waste of time."
Miss Ollie sat in silence for a mo-
ment. She knew Pa's guarded se-
cret. He could barely write his
name, and could read only a dozen
words or so.
"Why don't I send some books
to your Father?" she said, gathering
up a few. "It might be that he
would get so interested in them that
he'd understand how much reading
means to you."
Pa, himself, returned the books
and took out more. Until his
death, Pa never missed a week of
getting books at the library. He
would walk down Main Street, the
books conspicuously displayed, as
he stopped and chatted with friends.
Miss Ollie not only listened well,
but kept other people's secrets.
For all her kindliness, Miss Ollie
was not one to be imposed upon
or treated disrespectfully. The
roughest and the toughest high
school boys quailed before the
look she gave them when they had
infringed upon a library law. And
the culprit who defaced a book was
brought swiftly to justice. "Books,"
Miss Ollie said, "are to be loved
and cherished. They give so much
and ask only gentle treatment in
return." Miss Ollie's saddened eyes
upon the torn or marked book were
harder for the guilty one to bear
than a fine or hard scolding.
The rich, the poor, the lettered
and unlettered, the young and old,
all made their way to Miss Ollie's
haven. "Miss Ollie, I'd like to be
a teacher, but I have no money," a
high school student told her.
"There'll be a way!" Miss Ollie's
voice was confident. There was a
way. On graduation, the student
found a scholarship and part-time
job awaiting her.
TV/TISS Ollie carefully scrutinized
the bandage a teen-age boy
had applied to his dog's swollen leg.
"I cleaned the wound out real
well, and now the swelling's down
a lot."
Miss Ollie nodded. "You did a
good job. You'd make a fine doc-
tor!"
"That's what I'd like to be, Miss
Ollie. But I don't know — maybe
I'm not smart enough. Besides, it
costs a lot of money."
"You're smart enough, and some-
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how you will find the money/' And through the library doors to pav
thus the seeds were sown, which homage to a gracious lady, seated
came to fruit some fifteen years regally in a big chair that engulfed
later. her small figure. All day the gifts,
"Miss Ollie, do you have a book the telegrams, the visitors poured
of poems?" a chubby, pig-tailed in. From far and near they greeted
little girl inquired. Miss Ollie her, recalling to her mind the years
smiled with pleasure, and piled the that seemed but days ago.
books into the waiting arms. Could When it was all over, Miss Ollie
she have had any inkling that got down from her chair. "Please,"
throughout her life this child would she said to friends who lingered to
love poetry, and writing would be- take her home, "just leave me alone
come her vocation? here for awhile. I want to think of
The years sped so quickly that at all that today has brought, and live
times it seemed unbelievable to again some of those memories that
Miss Ollie that she was now serv- have been reviewed by today's
ing second and third generations, events."
But, mostly, she was far too busy to And that was where they found
think in terms of time. Retirement her a few hours later, when they
had no meaning to her. The towns- called back to get her. She was
people would no more think of seated in the swivel chair behind
retiring Miss Ollie than of burning the desk, with hands folded. Miss
down the new, enlarged library. Ollie had left her heart where it
Then, suddenly, Miss Ollie's forty- belonged — in the small town li-
sixth anniversary as town librarian brary, where her wise and kindly
was there. It was a gala occasion, influence had helped to shape, for
and all day people made their way better, the lives of many people.
olo a [Pioneer 1 1 Loth
ter
Mabel Jones Gabbott
Sun-streaked for centuries and soaked with heat
The valley floor was fire, even to feet
Torn and toughened by the weary walk
Down prairie grass and mountain sage and rock.
Within a thousand miles, there were no shoes. . . .
What did you do, little mother? What did you use?
The earth was dust and waste. No greening plant
Freshened your wary gaze; the food was scant;
Prudently, mile by mile, you had weighed
Each child his meted share. Were you afraid?
How did you teach your little ones to care
For sego lily roots and cricket fare?
What did you do, little mother, when the wind blew cold
About the dugout home? It was hard to hold
The canvas door against the snow, piled
Like hoary wolves; the elements were wild
And ruthless and untamed. What did you do,
Little Mother? "I kept the faith for you?'
[Bazaar Sewing — l/lulti-lPurpose iuag
Jean R. Jennings
pAZAARS! Bazaars! Bazaars!
What shall we do about baz-
aars?
Everyone has them. The big
problem is "How can we improve
them?" That is, how can women
spend less time in making more
profit and eliminate wasted effort?
Obviously, this would involve
bazaar items that have a small init-
ial cost and take a minimum of time
to make. Too frequently women
spend precious time making fussy
things that bring only a small rev-
enue. Some thought should also
be given to the possible usefulness
of the articles to the buver.
This bag is useful, appealing,
and involves a very minimum of ex-
pense to make. In addition, it is
simple enough even for beginning
sewers and takes little time.
This is a bag designed as a travel
case for jewelry. It could also be
turned into a party bag for teen-
agers and young women. Enlarged,
and made of sturdier material, it
would serve as a tote-bag and double
for carrying handwork.
Make this bag as lovely or ele-
gant as you can from scraps of ma-
terial left over from dressy and
formal dresses. If you don't have
pieces, collect some from friends
and neighbors who have made bro-
caded or embroidered gowns. Fab-
rics with silver or gold threads
woven through are effective to use.
Line the bags with gay pieces of
contrasting or blending satins, taf-
fetas, or crepes that you may have
bundled up and saved.
For large-sized tote bags, unearth
drapery or upholstery remnants, or
pieces of decorative denim or chintz.
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Line these with the same fabric or
pieces of gingham, muslin, or pol-
ished cotton.
For the jewelry-size or party-size
bags you will need circles of cloth
as follows:
One circle each of fabric and lin-
ing 12 inches in diameter.
One circle each of fabric and
lining 9 inches in diameter.
One circle of cardboard 3^
inches in diameter.
In addition, the bag calls for iV4
yards of cord or narrow ribbon for
drawstrings and 40 inches of bead-
ing or open braid to serve as casing
for draw-strings. Small rings may
be sewed on the edge in place of
braid. If so, 16 will be needed.
HHO make the bag, begin by sew-
ing the circles of lining to the
circles of fabric, right sides together.
Take V4 inch seams and leave three
inches unsewed to allow for turn-
ing. Then turn circles right side
out, slip stitch together unstitched
portions of the edges, and baste and
press seams flat.
Next center the cardboard circle
on the lining side of the large circle
of fabric. Place the smaller circle
over it with the lining against the
cardboard. Baste in place and then
stitch around the cardboard on the
machine as close as possible. See
illustration.
Now make pockets to hold ear-
rings or small jeweled pins by stitch-
ing on the machine as shown in the
illustration. If the bag is to be used
as a party purse, pockets may be
made in sizes to fit comb, compact,
lipstick, etc. The center section of
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STRING HERE
START ONE DRAW
the bag, made either way, will hold
larger articles.
Sew beading or braid to the edge
of the larger circle, cut ribbon or
cord in half and thread through for
drawstrings. Tie ends of each to-
gether. If rings are used, sew them
to the edge, spacing them evenly.
A casing may be made for draw-
strings by sewing the lining to the
outside, making a channel all around
the edge. If this is done, the large
circles should be cut an inch wider
to allow for it.
A few beads or sequins, placed
attractively, can do much to dress
up the bag made to carry for formal
parties. It would be unwise to spend
here.
a great deal of time doing this, as
it may not add enough value to war-
rant the time and energy used.
When this pattern is enlarged and
used for a sturdier bag, remember
to use firmer cardboard for the bot-
tom. When enlarging the circles,
be sure they keep the proportions
approximately the same. Pockets
may be stitched in sizes to fit the
purpose for which the bag is made.
Rings are better to hold the
strings on larger bags, since the cir-
cle is too large to close with beading
on the edge.
Bone and metal rings are available
in drapery departments or at no-
tion counters.
Where Is Johnny?
Frances C. Yost
ROSE Ella Higbee wished she
knew contentment as did
most of the pioneers in the
Great Salt Lake Valley. True, she
was glad to be at last settled in a
warm log cabin in the promised
land. Brigham Young had said
"This is the place," and deep in
her heart she knew it was. But she
knew also that she would never
know real contentment until she
found Johnny. She walked over to
the loom in her parents' home and
started weaving more carpet.
"Goodness, Rose Ella," her moth-
er said, "you've made enough carpet
to cover a good sized sitting room,
and you've raised your own flax and
corded it and made it into nice
tablecloths and scarfs and bed linen.
When are you going to start using
these things?"
Here it is again, Rose Ella
thought. She smiled sweetly at her
clear, tired mother, but her heart
was not in her smile. "I'm waiting
for a man, Mama."
"You could have Jens Larsen
with the crook of your little finger.
How many times has he begged for
your hand in marriage, Rose Ella?"
"I don't remember, Mama, after
the first half dozen proposals, I
stopped counting."
"Rose Ella, I'll never understand
you, turning down a good young
man like Jens Larsen with all those
fat cattle and hogs."
"I turned him down, Mama, be-
cause I want more than a home and
possessions. He is selfish, look at
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the way he eats up your meager
staples."
"If you would marry Jens, Rose
Ella, why then perhaps he would
share with his kin."
"Oh, Mama, marriage means
more than food on the table. I
just don't love Jens Larsen, and it
wouldn't be fair to him. So let's
not talk about him, Mama dear."
Rose Ella smiled, then continued
on with her weaving.
Mrs. Higbee sighed, and shook
her head. "I wish, darling Rose
Ella, that you would stop hoping
your dream boy will come to you
out of thin air."
"Please, Mama, let's not talk
about that, either."
Rose Ella's fingers, like moths,
flew at the weaving loom, and as
the bright dyed rags worked their
colors into the pattern, she gave her
mind free rein. It traveled the
rugged path of memory back to that
last evening at Winter Quarters. . . .
£ # # #
'""THERE'S a dance in the bow-
ery tonight, Ma. It's in honor
of all of us who are leaving in the
morning for the promised valley."
Isaac Higbee had just come from
the solemn assembly.
'Then we ought to go," Mrs.
Higbee stated.
"Is the dance for young folks my
age?" Rose Ella asked excitedly.
"Why I would think it would
be," Mrs. Higbee stated. "You're
seventeen, almost, practically a
WHERE IS JOHNNY?
453
grown lady. Rose Ella, wear your
paisley dress, and come walk over
to the bowery with Pa and me."
It was during the Circle All, that
Rose Ella first saw Johnny. The
first time around they just smiled
at each other. The second time
around they said, "hello." The
third time around, quite by coinci-
dence, the caller chose that moment
to say: "Waltz Time." Johnny put
his arm around Rose Ella's waist
and they drifted over the packed
hard ground of the bowery.
"What's your name?"
"Rose Ella, what's yours?"
"Johnny."
The caller then shouted: "Take
your partners for a square dance!"
"You're my partner, Rose Ella,"
Johnny said.
Rose Ella listened to the deep
musical voice of the dance caller.
"Say, where do you live here at
Winter Quarters, Rose Ella?"
"Oh, we're all packed. We leave
in the morning for the Great Salt
Lake Valley. We're in the Hooper
Company. Are you going to the
Valley?"
"No, we'd like to go, but Pa has
to stay on here at Winter Quarters.
Brother Brigham Young asked him
to stay. We're the millers."
The dance man shouted: "Choose
a partner for the next square dance."
"I choose you, Rose Ella."
"But we're supposed to change
partners, Johnny."
"But I don't want to. I want to
dance all evening with you, Rose
Ella."
There wasn't any time for con-
versation during the dancing, and
all too soon it was ten o'clock.
"I'll walk you, Rose Ella, over to
your wagon/' Johnny stated. "I'll
see you in the Valley somedav,
Rose Ella."
"Someday, Johnny." Then he
planted a shy kiss on the back of
Rose Ella's hand, and was gone in-
to the night. . . .
R(
* * * *
OSE Ella, busy at the loom,
fought a tear which wanted to
break through. That wasn't much
to bank her dreams on, she had to
admit. One evening of dancing,
and one goodnight kiss on the back
of her hand, as .they stood by the
wagon tongue. But her dream of
Johnny Miller was better than all
the Jens Larsen men she had ever
met, and if she had to spend the
rest of her life living with Papa and
Mama and weaving carpets for
someone else's house, well she
would do it, if she didn't find
Johnny.
Whenever a company of Mor-
mons arrived in the Great Salt Lake
Valley, Rose Ella tried to go meet
them in the hopes that Johnny
Miller would be among them. But
somehow her search had always
been in vain. Then one day quite
by coincidence Rose Ella met Pres-
ident Brigham Young on the street
in front of the Lion House.
"If it isn't little Rose Ella Hig-
bee, and you're looking well, and
how is Zion treating you?"
Rose Ella felt her heart flutter.
To think President Brigham Young
recognized her. Of course he knew
Papa well, but she was so insignifi-
cant, and yet he had known her
name, had spoken to her. She must
find her tongue and remember the
manners Mama had always taught
her. "Why, I'm fine, President
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Young . . . and yet. . . ." Her voice
faltered.
"And yet what, my dear? Tell me
your problems." He laughed softly,
"Everyone else does."
"I'm looking for a Johnny Mill-
er," Rose Ella stated shyly.
"Johnny Miller." The great lead-
er's eyes closed slightly as he pon-
dered. Then, peering seriously into
Rose Ella's eyes, he asked: "What's
he done? Does he owe you money?"
"No, no, President Young. He's
just a friend I knew at Winter
Quarters."
There was a long pause, and
Brigham Young stroked his chin in
deep thought. "I'm sorry, Rose
Ella, but I don't recall the name."
"Thanks anyway, President
Young. Thank you so much. I'm
sorry I have wasted your time."
"Why goodness, my dear, my
time is everyone's time." The great
leader gave her shoulder a fatherly
pat and went into his office.
Rose Ella picked up her skirt, and
hurried across Brigham Street.
Now almost blinded by tears, she
entered the Zion's Mercantile. She
looked at the yardage on the shelves
until she had control of herself
enough to go home. She would tell
Mama that she had been to the
Z.C.M.I. to look at the yardage.
But wild horses would never draw
from her the fact that she had
talked to President Brigham Young,
and bothered him about a ... a
dream boy. . . .
"D OSE Ella worked faster and
faster at the loom. Her fingers,
like moths, darted in and out, and
the tears which fell on the multi-
colored carpeting did not show. At
length Papa's steps could be heard
at the door.
"What's wrong, Pa? Don't you
feel well? You don't usually leave
your work in the fields in the mid-
dle of the morning like this?"
Mama's face registered concern.
Rose Ella looked up from the loom
to see if Papa were ill.
"Nothing's wrong, Ma. Fact is
everything's running so smoothly, I
thought I'd run the wheat over to
the mill and get it ground into
flour. I want to clean out the bin
ready for another harvest, come
fall."
"May we ride to the mill, Papa?"
Prudence and little Isaac asked
simultaneously.
"Well, now, little ones, I believe
I took you the last time I went to
the mill," Isaac Higbee said cheer-
fully. "I believe it's Mama's turn
to take a ride."
"Isaac, take Rose Ella this time.
Poor dear, she sits and weaves her
life away. The ride will do her
good, and the fresh air, and sun-
shine will bring some roses to her
cheeks."
"Want to go Rose Ella? I won't
be so long," Papa invited.
"Why, Papa, I would like to go,
if mother can spare me."
Rose Ella brushed the wrinkles
from her dress, then put on a dainty
white collar and the new red sun-
bonnet she had just made. "I'm
ready, Papa." Then, later, from the
top of the buckboard she shouted,
"Goodbye, Mama, Prudence, and
little Isaac." Rose Ella waved at
the little ones as they drove from
the yard.
Spring had reached out her gentle
fingers and touched the valley. Now
willow trees in the canyon crevices
of the mountains were a tender
green, while the oak brush on the
ridges chose a darker tinge. Rose
WHERE IS JOHNNY?
455
Ella, taking it all in, on this trip to
the mill, knew why the pioneers en-
joyed sweet contentment here.
'The air is so invigorating and
the scenery is so beautiful, I've been
wondering why Fve never driven to
the mill before with you, Papa?"
"You'll have to come more often,
daughter," Isaac Higbee answered.
A T length they arrived at the mill,
situated at the mouth of Big
Cottonwood Canyon. Rose Ella
held the reins while her father went
inside the mill to see about getting
the wheat ground.
It's pretty here at the very foot
of the mountains, and the sparkling
water gurgles over the rocks, as it
runs down the canyon, Rose Ella
thought, then aloud, but softly to
herself she said: "It would be fun
to have a home built above a mill
like this one. Why it would be sort
of like the treetop playhouse I had
back home in Vermont. I wonder
why they have a house over the
mill and a nice big log cabin, too?"
At length Papa came out of the
mill, and a young man came to help
him carry the wheat sacks inside
to be ground. What was Papa say-
ing?
"Rose Ella, I want you to meet
John here. John, this is my oldest
daughter, Rose Ella."
Rose Ella stared at the young
man standing before her. He stared
at her for a moment, then his face
broke into a wonderful smile of
recognition. "I believe we know
each other, Mr. Higbee. Yes, I
know Rose Ella very well."
Pie was reaching up to her now,
and helping her clown from the high
wagon. "I've looked at every lady
in the valley," Johnny said, "and I
never could find you, Rose Ella.
You see, I forgot to ask your last
name that night at Winter Quar-
ters."
"Johnny, I've been hunting for
you, too. I went to President
Young, but he didn't know a John-
ny Miller, he said."
"Johnny Miller!" John looked be-
wildered.
"But you said . . ." Rose Ella be-
gan.
"I said, we're the millers. We
are. We grind most of the flour
for all the settlers, and make the
cereal, but my name isn't Johnny
Miller, it's John Weaver."
Suddenly they were laughing,
good warm laughter that rewards
the heart. Just then John's father
came from the mill. "Show Miss
Higbee around, John, I'll run this
wheat through."
"I'll help," Isaac Higbee offered,
then followed Mr. Weaver into the
mill.
Then it was Johnny took Rose
Ella up to the little apartment above
the mill. "While I waited and
watched for you, I built our little
home, Rose Ella. I hope you like
it. See there are cupboards and a
pantry and everything."
Rose Ella was measuring the
rooms with her eyes. Why she
probably had enough carpet warp
for the big sitting room floor
already. The lovely braided rugs
would be cozy in the bedroom, and
the nicest one she would place right
in front of the fireplace.
She had so much to tell Mama
when she got home. Why she
hadn't wasted a minute of her time
weaving after all. It was well she
knew how to weave so well if she
were going to be Mrs. John Weaver.
Tom Elliott
YARN STITCHED RAO
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Melba Larson
Materials Needed:
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1 skein dark-colored yarn — black, brown, or green.
1 skein light-colored yarn — turquoise, pink, yellow, or red.
Step No. i
Embroider three strips thirty-two inches long for the body of bag.
Embroider one strip twenty inches long for the handle of b;ig.
Embroider one strip fifteen inches long for the bottom of bng.
Step No. 2
Machine stitch the three thirty-two inch strips together.
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YARN STITCHED BAG MADE OF CHAIR WEBBING
Step No. 3
Do yarn stitching to cover the machine stitching.
Step No. 4
Sew the thirty-two inch strip ends together, to form body of bag.
Step No. 5
Sew on the twenty inch handle piece and fit in the fifteen-inch bottom piece.
Step No. 6
Sew in lining. Use material to match the light shade of yarn used.
Step No. 7
Sew on beads if desired.
457
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\ NNA M. Jensen of Cornish, Utah, two years ago, at the age of eighty-nine, decided
**■ that she would like to live alone in a home of her own and be her own house-
keeper again. Several years ago Mrs. Jensen was so seriously ill that she was persuaded
to give up housekeeping for herself and make her children happy by having their
mother with them so that she might receive constant, loving care. However, as soon
as she was well again, and young again, as she said, she went back to housekeeping for
herself. Her Relief Society sisters in the ward had a "household shower" for Sister
Jensen, and she invited her old friends to come to her home for the long-remembered
treats of Danish cooking. She is shown in the picture at her "shower."
This was part of a pattern of independence established by Anna M. Jensen when
she became a widow thirty-seven years ago. She supported herself and her family by
weaving rugs and doing other types of handwork and housework. Many rugs were
presented as gifts to the young people of the community, and her neighbors among
the newlyweds could count on receiving one of Grandma Jensen's rugs.
Mrs. Jensen, once a counselor in the Relief Society in Copenhagen, Denmark, still
attends her meetings regularly, and in her own life practices the charitable ways so dear
to her heart. Three of her eight children are living; she is grandmother to fifteen and
great-grandmother to twenty-two.
<yi
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Marvel Sharp Croohston
As ebb and flow of water on a beach,
My testimony strengthens or recede.
In rhythm to the way I live my life;
Directly in accordance with my deeds.
Orchids in the Snow
Chapter 3
Rosa Lee Lloyd
Synopsis: Sharon and Sam Wynter,
newlyweds, on their way to Fairbanks,
Alaska, meet Angus McFarland, a widower,
on the plane, and when they arrive in
Anchorage, they are introduced to his
daughter Marie who has arrived from
Fairbanks. The young couple also meet
Susan Elge, from Bristol Bay in the
Aleutian Islands, who has brought her
husband Herman to Anchorage for an
operation.
SAM unlocked the door of
Marie McFarland's apartment,
shoved the suitcases inside,
then lifted Sharry in his strong
arms.
"Over the threshold for you, little
bride," he said gaily.
'Thank you, Mr. Wynter," she
laughed. "I like a man who re-
members tradition. And this is our
first little home in Alaska!"
He put her down in the middle
of the living room, kissing her ten-
derly. "Aren't we lucky to have
this apartment to come to even if
it is one room, bath, and kitchen-
ette?" he asked. "The hotel room
reserved for me was ten dollars a
day for one person."
"Where did they think you'd
park your wife?" Sharry asked, wide-
eyed. "With the huskies?"
Sam shrugged.
"They did well to get a room
anywhere, I guess. But I'm glad
Marie insisted we use this apart-
ment. It's only two blocks from
the university."
Sharry looked up at him.
"The university is four miles west
of Fairbanks, I found out. I'm
learning fast, don't you think?"
"You're a smart girl," Sam said.
"I learned a lot about Fairbanks
while I was waiting for you today,"
she went on. "One newspaper said
this town is supported seventy-five
per cent by military installations,
twenty-five per cent by mining and
the university and everything else!"
"Umm," Sam said, lifting an eye-
brow.
"One magazine editor said that
without the military, Fairbanks
would fold up and silently steal
away!"
"Very poetic," Sam chuckled in-
dulgently. "And, no doubt, very
true. But let's forget statistics and
think about dinner. I'm a starving
man, Mrs. Wynter."
"He also said," Sharry grinned
impishly, "that Alaskans who need
false teeth generally have to make
a trip to Seattle."
He pulled a long face.
"That's serious," he said. "But
we have our own teeth, so how
about something to chew on?"
"Like a juicy steak," she sug-
gested.
"At three dollars a pound!" He
shook his head. "We'll walk over
to that supermarket on the corner.
Maybe they'll have something half-
way reasonable."
Ten minutes later the prices in
the market had Sharry and Sam
holding their breath.
"Sam, am I seeing straight? Does
that sign say eggs are one dollar a
dozen?"
"Yes, one dollar a dozen. And
milk thirty-four cents a quart. But
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it's pasteurized. All milk up here
must be pasteurized. No wonder
McFarland said it is the cost of
living that makes life in Alaska so
different. But there's one advan-
tage — my salary is three times as
much as I could have made at
home."
"We'll need it," Sharry said,
reaching for a pound of butter.
"I'll cream chipped beef with froz-
en peas and make some popovers.
They're so good with honey. Where
do they keep the honey?"
"Let's ask that clerk over there,"
Sam suggested, looking at a young
fellow with a crew-cut. He was put-
ting cans on a shelf.
"Honey?" The young fellow re-
peated with an amused smile. "You
must be Cheechakos? That means
just arrived."
"That's right," Sam laughed.
"We've just arrived from Utah."
HPHE clerk's face was a big smile.
"I'm Oscar Jensen," he said
cordially. "My mother came from
Utah thirty years ago. She's presi-
dent of the branch Relief Society.
Are you members of the Church?
I know she'd love to meet you."
"Yes, we are. Oh, we do want
to meet her," Sharry exclaimed,
"real soon!"
"Give me your name and ad-
dress," he said. "She'll call on
you.
Sam wrote the address on his
card and handed it to him. "How
about that honey?" he asked.
"We don't have wild honey bees
in Alaska," Oscar explained. "We
import bees during the summer.
They produce large crops of honey
from our wild flowers. That's what's
happening now at this season, but
we won't have the honey ready for
awhile. The bees die in the win-
ter up here. We can import hon-
ey, of course, but we'd have to
charge too much for it on account
of freight. Ninety per cent of our
food is brought in anyway."
"How about jam?" Sharry ques-
tioned. "Popovers are good with
jam.
"Our wild currant and berry jam
is really tops," Oscar said, walking
toward another shelf. "Reasonable,
too."
They put the jam in their basket
and said goodbye to Oscar.
"Wasn't he friendly!" Sharry ex-
claimed as they walked back to the
apartment. "We've made another
friend. Shopping won't be a lone-
some job now."
"The world is really a friendly
place," Sam agreed.
Sharry looked up at the brilliant
sky and the tall, forest-draped
mountains looming in the distance.
"Six-thirty," she said. "And the
sun is still shining like noontime.
Won't it seem funny to have the
sun shine all night."
"We'll get used to it," he an-
swered. "A fellow I met today
told me that even sunstroke is not
unknown up there almost under the
Arctic Circle. It gets awfully cold
there in the winter, though— ten
degrees colder than anywhere in
the U.S.A. — even in Montana or
the Dakotas. But there's plenty of
coal here in Fairbanks, thank good-
ness. It comes from the Healy
River fields west of here."
"But some parts of Alaska are
mild," Sharry said. "I'd like to go
to Ketchikan real soon. We could
fly there for the week end. They
have a wonderful bathing beach, and
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in July the temperature is about line. She must not argue with
fifty-six. Even in January it seldom him. She would kiss his scowl
gets colder than thirty-three above away.
zero. Can we go next month,
Sam?" A FTER Sam had left for the
Sam looked at her, curiously. university the next morning,
"Did you study the map today?" Sharry looked through the adver-
he asked. tisements in the newspaper. The
"Well — no — not really," she only house listed for rent was a
admitted. three-story, twenty-room mansion
"Ketchikan is way down there on Edgeriver Drive for two hundred
almost to Canada, barely into Alas- and fifty dollars a month,
ka. We're in the central part now. The doorbell rang. Sharry put
There are plenty of places around the paper down with a sigh,
here for a week-end trip. Harding A smiling, sweet-faced woman
Lake, for instance." greeted her. "I'm Rachel Jensen,
Sharry's cheeks pinked up. "I Oscar's mother," she said. "He
just wanted to be interesting. I told me you are newcomers here,
thought you'd want me to study So I hurried right over!"
about Alaska." "Oh, Sister Jensen, come right in.
"I do, honey. Of course I do. I How nice of you to come so soon,
think it's great. But we can't take We liked Oscar so much."
a long trip next month. We want "He's a fine boy." Sister Jensen
to save for a home, don't we? It sat down in the comfortable chair
takes one third down on a home up Sharry offered her. "He goes to
here. Even a small ordinary home the university mornings and works
costs twice as much as homes out- in the store afternoons and eve-
side. I want a nice home for you, nings. The store stays open all night
darling. I know you've been used this time of year. People work night
to lovely things. I'll work night and day to catch up after the long
and day to get them for you, but winter."
we can't take an airplane trip to "It's all so strange to me," Shar-
Ketchikan next month. We have ry told her. "After my husband
to find a place in which to live and left for work this morning, I felt
get settled, and pay for that sec- so — all alone. Even homesick. I
ondhand car we bought this after- haven't been away from my mother
noon. That takes money." before. She has always been near
His chin squared off determined- to help me and advise me."
ly. Sharry knew he was right, but Sharry hesitated. She was pour-
she still wanted to go to Ketchikan, ing out her heart's secrets to a
How did you reconcile your heart stranger. And yet Sister Jensen
to what your head knew was right? didn't seem like a stranger. She
Sam was older and wiser than she had kind, understanding brown eyes
was — and more saving, she thought and the most gentle voice Sharry
grimly. This was really their honey- had ever heard,
moon. Why couldn't they spend "I know, dear," she said, touch-
a little money for a good time? But ing her hand. "Try to realize that
Sam's chin had set in a stubborn your mother's love is always with
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you. She is lonely for you, no
doubt. I know how it is. When my
daughter Betty was married last
year and went way up to Nome to
live, I had to realize that love and
marriage were right for her. I had
prayed for her happiness and when
it came through a fine husband, I
asked our Heavenly Father to make
me strong enough to let her go joy-
fully into her new life. Write often
to your family. You will find the
miles between you melt away when
a letter comes from them."
"I will, Sister Jensen," Sharry
promised, "I'll write this very
day!"
CHE picked up the morning paper,
pointing to the advertisement
for the big house.
"It's the only one in the paper,"
she said. "We have to get a place
right away. But two hundred and
fifty dollars a month is ridiculous!"
'That's the old Clairmont home,"
Sister Jensen explained. "It's one
of the show places in our country.
It was built right after the big gold
rush up here in nineteen four. At
that time it was the most beautiful
house in Tanana Valley. Most of
the Clairmonts have died. The
place is now owned by a niece who
lives in San Francisco. It doesn't
sell' because she wants too much
money for it. It's too large and ex-
pensive for a family — the univer-
sity should take it for a dormitory."
"We must find a place real soon,"
Sharry said again. "This is our
friend's apartment — Marie McFar-
land."
"Yes, I know Marie," Sister Jen-
sen said. "And we've met her
daddy. She comes to church reg-
ularly when she's in town."
"She's such fun," Sharry said.
Sister Jensen looked at Sharry as
though studying her.
"I've been wondering, dear.
About a house, I mean. I do know
of a place. . . ."
"You do!" Sharry's eyes were
luminous. "How wonderful!"
"It's not what you think," she
answered quickly. "It's not won-
derful. But it could be fixed up
until you build a house of your own.
It's an old log cabin across the river
from town. It belongs to us. We
lived there until we built our new
home about a block away. When
my husband was living, he let our
farm helpers live there in the sum-
mertime. I don't use it now. It's
an old place — run down. . . ."
Her voice trailed off, almost
apologetically.
Sharry felt a surge of tenderness
for her kindly offer.
"I'd like to see it," she said. "I'll
tell Sam about it when he comes
home. We're expecting to get our
secondhand car sometime today. So
we'll drive over this evening."
"Anytime." Sister Jensen stood
up. "But please don't expect too
much, Sharry. I don't want you to
be disappointed."
OUT Sharry was disappointed
when she saw the cabin that
evening.
"It does look awful, I know," Sis-
ter Jensen was saying as they walked
from the long board-walled living
room into the kitchen. Sharry's
eyes blinked when she saw the old
worn-out sink and the coal range.
They looked like something out of
a junk yard. The linoleum had
huge, ragged bare spots.
Sam's eyes were going over every-
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463
thing in his quiet, calculating way.
"It could be fixed up," he said.
Sharry gave him a startled glance.
Sam was serious. He was really
considering living in this place. She
could tell by the look in his eyes.
"New linoleum won't cost very
much," Sister Jensen suggested.
"You can look through the wish-
books and find lots of things
cheaper/'
"Wish-books?" Sharry questioned.
"Our mail-order catalogues," she
explained. "We call them our
wish-books. Women are always
wishing for something new. They
help us get what we need."
"We could calcimine these
walls," Sam said. "Sharry likes col-
or. She can have her choice of
colors. There's a new sort of calci-
mine now that dries in a few hours."
Sharry pretended she didn't hear
him. How could he consider living
in this run-down old place? How
could he!
And yet, looking at him now, as
he went from room to room, sizing
it up, she knew he was considering
it.
"The floors in here could be
oiled," Sister Jensen said as they
went back into the living room.
"That old lounge won't look half
bad with a bright new cover. The
chairs and table are old, but they're
an interesting style. They could
be lacquered."
The sun slanted through the win-
dows, showing up the cracks in the
old wooden floor.
How ridiculous to think of living
here, Sharry thought. She would
die of loneliness in a place like this.
The memory of her beautiful gold
and pink bedroom at home struck
across her heart. She felt almost
sick.
"The bedroom is small," Sister
Jensen was saying. "But there is a
good bathroom, with a shower. My
husband was a contractor — he
built many of the homes in Fair-
banks. One thing he insisted on
was good plumbing fixtures. Even
this cabin has good plumbing. Of
course, the water comes from a well
down below. You must not drink
the water as it tastes of vegetables.
We all buy our drinking water."
Sam said, his eyes clear and steady
with his engineer look: "The place
is well built. I think it would be
quite livable. We can get some
sort of floor covering. Sharry is
used to carpet. I want her to be
comfortable."
CISTER Jensen smiled. "Forgive
me if I give you too much ad-
vice — I am just eager to help you.
I had thought my own daughter
and her husband would live here for
awhile — then he got this fine posi-
tion in Nome. . . ." Her voice
trailed off, wistfully.
"I was thinking about carpet,"
she went on, in a moment. "It's
too expensive to use unless the
house is a permanent home. Some
of these new linoleums with scatter
rugs would be comfortable and
pretty. If you want to use the
cabin until you build, you can have
it for almost nothing — I would en-
joy having you nearby."
Sharry couldn't breathe. She felt
trapped and smothered. Sam was
looking at her. What was the ques-
tion in his eyes? What did he
expect of her?
"It's up to my wife," he said to
Sister Jensen. "I think we could
do all right here until we buy a
home. But I want Sharry to be
contented. It's up to Sharry."
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There was an ache in his voice.
A yearning for something. Sharry
bent her head, trying to swallow the
sob in her throat. Her brother Ken-
ny's teasing voice came back to her:
"Sam is used to roughing it on long,
hard engineering jobs. He's used to
living in a trailer or a tent. He'll
expect a real woman to make a
home for him. And what'll he get?
A doll baby!"
Slowly she lifted her head and
met Sam's anxious eyes. Her heart
reached out to him, loving him,
wanting to be a good wife to him.
She had to prove she could make a
home for him even in this ram-
shackle old cabin.
"Let's take it, Sam," she heard
herself saying. 'Til try, darling —
to make it — lovely — for you."
(To be continued)
Solitude
Catherine B. Bowles
The silence of Cumorah's hill
Stole over the place, quiet and still.
Through the woodland I wandered alone
With trials, troubles, a cross of my own.
A tranquil spirit soothed my fears,
Calmed my heart and dried my tears.
Through nature's garden I walked unseen,
Feeling his presence, peaceful, serene.
(Pi
toneer
W
oman
Christie Lund Coles
Into the too-small wagons, loaded deep,
(With things most precious from the young years spent
Acquiring treasures that the heart would keep)
She puts the most valued, those that are meant
To last a lifetime in an alien place . . .
Tokens, perhaps, to bring back memories
Of warmth and comfort, each familiar face
Left in a world of happiness and ease.
Across the miles she rides as stoically
As one born to the hardship and the tears,
Rather than to a mild gentility,
And loving assurance through her tender years.
Upon her lips she tastes the gray of dust,
Yet faces proudly everything she must.
FROM THE FIELD
Hulda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Handbook of Instructions of the Relief Society.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Adele S. Willden
YAKIMA STAKE (WASHINGTON) FIRST FULLY ORGANIZED
RELIEF SOCIETY BOARD
Left to right: Ruth Peabodv, organist; LaYern Jackson, work meeting leader;
Almira Ferrell, theology class leader; Barbara Blackhurst, Secretary; Leona Wood, First
Counselor; Adele S. Willden, President; Ann Johnson, Magazine representative; Miriam
Werner, social science class leader; Jean Christensen, literature class leader; Helen
Allen, organist; (two members absent).
Sister Willden reports: ''Yakima Stake was organized in May 1959, and the stake
Relief Society shortly after. This is the first time that our board has been completely
organized. Two members were absent when this picture was taken, because of illness,
Arda Mae Kidman, Second Counselor, and Dora Ellis, visiting teacher message leader."
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Photograph submitted by Lillie Cowley
MISSOULA STAKE (MONTANA) VISITING TEACHERS HONORED
AT CONVENTION March 24, i960
Front row, seated, left to right: Rosalyn J. Feild, Secretary -Treasurer; Lillie Cow-
ley, President; Carrie L. Maughan; Thelma Browning, First Counselor; Eula Foust,
Second Counselor.
Second row, standing, left to right: Bemice Allred; Sara Dilworth; Evelyn Follett;
Alice Loving; Yvonne Gunn; Florence Vargo; Claire Farley; Jane Colman; Alene Crist;
Pheobe Wells.
Sister Cowley reports: "Sister Carrie L. Maughan (center front) of St. Ignatius
Ward, was honored as a visiting teacher. Sister Maughan had 100 per cent visiting
teaching, 100 per cent attendance at sacrament meetings and visiting teacher meetings,
and ninetv-six per cent attendance at Relief Society meetings, having missed only one
meeting during the year. Sister Maughan is president of the St. Ignatius Relief Society."
Photograph submitted by Pearl R. Haddock
CACHE STAKE (UTAH), SIXTEENTH WARD RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING
MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR MARCH i960 SUNDAY
EVENING PROGRAM
Front row, left to right: Peggy Lindquist, accompanist; Ardith Carlson; Gloria
Cook; Eleanor Hale; Dora Havward; Leah Carlson; Ruth Peck; Lillian Morrell; Barbara
Gilgen; Dora Larsen; Leona Williams; Oretta Tate; Vivian Harris; Ann Davenport;
Hazel Mattson, director.
Back row, left to right: Elizabeth Nish; Joyce Round}'; Lila Anderson; Sharleen
Poppleton; Marilyn Lundstrum; Rhoda Humphreys; Hannah Rosine; Minnie Jones;
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467
Melpha Squires, Counselor; Etheleen Hall; Arleen Gill; Peggy Coburn; Joyce Nieder-
hauser; Afton Stuart; Leona Sorenson.
Pear R. Haddock, President, Cache Stake Relief Society, reports: "This group of
Singing Mothers has been very active in ward activities. Their lovely music has been
heard at November and March Sunday evening meetings, at funerals, stake Relief So-
ciety leadership meetings, and other Church meetings. The officers of the Sixteenth
Ward Relief Society are: Mabel Ouayle, President; Melpha Squires, First Counselor;
Ann Green, Second Counselor."
Photograph submitted by Inez L. Pendlebury
SOUTH BLACKFOOT STAKE (IDAHO) VISITING TEACHERS HONORED
AT CONVENTION, March 30, i960
Front row, seated, left to right: Margaret Monson, who has served as a visiting
teacher for sixty-one years; Carrie Larson, fifty-seven years; Afton Norman, forty-eight
years; Mary Lim, thirty-five years; Myrtle Spencer, thirty-four years.
Back row, standing, left to right: Hortense Stander, twenty -five years; Elder Seth
W. Brown, High Council representative; Cassie Brown, thirty-six years; Inez S.
Pendlebury, President, South Blackfoot Stake Relief Society; Elder Lawrence T. Lam-
bert, President, South Blackfoot Stake; Elizabeth Olson, who has served as a visiting
teacher for thirty-two years.
(Not in the picture was Sister Mary Watt, who was seriously ill, and who passed
away the next day.)
Sister Pendlebury reports: "The visiting teacher from each ward, who is still
active, with the longest record of service, was honored with a gift presented by Abbie
Godfrey, stake visiting teacher message leader.
"Included in the convention program was the film 'Unto the Least of These,'
which was truly an inspiration to our visiting teachers. It was a source of much
encouragement and enlightenment to them, and we have had many favorable com-
ments about it. Our stake Priesthood authorities, President Lambert and Elder Brown,
gave very fine talks, and the music was furnished by the Singing Mothers from Black-
foot Third and Riverside Wards. The number sung by Blackfoot Third Ward was
entitled 'The Visiting Teacher's Song,' the words of which were written by Marie M.
Anderson, daughter of Teresa Manwaring, director of the chorus. Following the pro-
gram, a social hour was enjoyed, with refreshments served by the stake board."
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Photograph submitted by Rella B. White
FRESNO STAKE (CALIFORNIA) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC
FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE
Front row, left to right: Marguerite S. Davis, First Counselor; Viorene E. Wardle,
Second Counselor; Martha B. Richards, former president.
Leida Anderson, chorister, stands second from the right on the second row, and
Mary Thompson, organist, stands first from the right on the second row.
At this conference Sister Richards was released. The new Fresno Stake Relief
Society President, Rella B. White, stands second from the right on the front row.
Fifteen wards and branches of Fresno Stake are represented in the Singing Mothers
chorus. They sang at two stake conferences in 1959 and one stake conference in i960.
At the last stake conference they sang "Peace I Leave With Thee" and "My Redeemer
Lives."
Photograph submitted by Ruth Witty
REDONDO STAKE (CALIFORNIA) SINGING MOTHERS AND HONORED
GUESTS AT VISITING TEACHERS CONVENTION, January 29, i960
Front row, seated, left to right: Ruth Witty, President, Redondo Stake Relief
Society; Laura Birch, honored guest, from Hermosa Beach Ward, the oldest visiting
teacher, eighty-three years old; Susannah Carr, honored guest, from Hermosa Beach
Ward, who has served for the longest period of time as visiting teacher, sixty-two years;
Pauline Sessions, organist, Redondo Stake; LaDeane Cobabe, chorister, Redondo Stake.
Sister Witty reports that all the visiting teachers of the stake, their husbands, and
special Priesthood officials were invited to this convention. "The Singing Mothers
sang two numbers: 'When Mothers Sing' and 'If Christ Came Back.' The film 'Unto
the Least of These' was shown, and was especially dear to us, as there were a number
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469
of Singing Mothers from our stake who participated in the film. Priesthood guests
were very impressed by the film. Dora Carlson (not shown in the picture) from
Redondo Second Ward, had the most consecutive years of 100 per cent visiting teach-
ing, thirty-seven years."
Photograph submitted by Lenore C. Gunderson
VALLEY VIEW STAKE (UTAH), VALLEY VIEW FIFTH WARD RELIEF
SOCIETY PRESENTS PAGEANT "THE GOLDEN YEARS,"
March 17, i960
Standing, left to right: Elaine Franklin as Emma Hale Smith; Alberta Hintz as
Eliza R. Snow; Norma Searle as Zina D. H. Young; Vera Fisher as Bathsheba W.
Smith; Sue Strong as Emmeline B. Wells; Alice Rudd as Clarissa S. Williams; Agnes
Murdock as Louise Y. Robison; Velma Holladay as Amy Brown Lyman.
Seated at the table: Ruby Huntington as Belle S. Spafford.
Lenore C. Gunderson, President, Valley View Stake Relief Society, reports: "The
Valley View Fifth Ward presented a pageant entitled 'The Golden Years,' March 17,
1960, in Relief Society meeting. It depicted the first Relief Society, organized 118
years ago by the Prophet Joseph Smith. Members of Relief Society portrayed the
eight former presidents and President Spafford and gave interesting and spiritual aspects
of their lives. A choral group composed of Relief Society sisters spoke scripture read-
ings. Special musical numbers were presented. The pageant was narrated to back-
ground music and showed the growth of Relief Society from eighteen noble, God-
fearing women to over 200,000 strong. It portrayed the 'Golden Years' of this society
— golden in love, trust, faith, and harmony, all working together for one cause, a
human cause, and from it all has come the greatest women's organization in the world
today, of which every member of this society owns a share. The pageant was written
and narrated by Wylene Fotheringham."
LESSON DEPARTMENT
cJ neology — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 25— A Promise Fulfilled
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Section 41; 42:1-17)
For Tuesday, October 4, i960
Objective: To understand that the law of the Lord is to be taught with faith and
by the Spirit.
The Prophet and Khthnd, Ohio walked into the store operated by
T^ROM our history of the Church Whitney and Gilbert. He ap-
and other sources, we learn of proached Newel K. Whitney and
events in the Ohio valley to which said: ". . . Newel K. Whitney! Thou
the saints had been instructed to art the man!" . . . whereupon, Mr.
gather. From Section 38 we learned Whitney replied: ". . . You have the
that when the saints gathered to advantage of me. ... I could not
the Ohio, they would receive the call you by name as you have
law of the Lord. With the great me. . . ." The Prophet then said,
increase in Church membership in ". . . I am Joseph the Prophet. . . .
that area, it is clear that many prob- You've prayed me here, now what
lems would arise. This condition do you want of me?" (See D. H. C.
would make necessary the presence 1: 146.)
of the Prophet Joseph Smith to di- An indication of how the Lord
rect the activities of the growing prepared the way of the first mis-
kingdom of God. sionaries into the Ohio valley and
The Prophet's first visit to Kirt- the visit of the Prophet later is told
land brought forth an event which in the experience of Mr. and Mrs.
is an example of the seeric powers Whitney. As members of the
possessed by Joseph Smith. Briefly, Campbellite faith, they desired to
it is recorded that in company with know how they might obtain the
his wife Emma, Sidney Rigdon, and gift of the Holy Ghost.
Edward Partridge (the latter two
having been converted as a result of "°^ night," says Mother Whitney, "it
.<■ T ., • • t was midnight — mv husband and 1 were in
the Lamanite mission, see Lesson our house5 at Ki-tknd praymg t0 the
22, Relief Society Magazine, Decern- Father t0 be shown the way when the
ber 1959, pp. 839-841), the Prophet Spirit rested upon us and a cloud over-
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shadowed the house. It was as though
we were out of doors. The house passed
away from our vision. We were not con-
scious of anything but the presence of the
spirit and the cloud that was over us. We
were wrapped in the cloud. A solemn
awe pervaded us. We saw the cloud and
felt the Spirit of the Lord. Then we
heard a voice out of the cloud saying,
'Prepare to receive the word of the Lord,
for it is coming.' At this we marveled
greatly, but from that moment we knew
that the word of the Lord was coming
to Kirtland" (Jenson, Andrew: L. D. S.
Biographical Encyclopedia 1 1223).
Conditions in Rutland
The Prophet learned when he
arrived in Kirtland that some very
strange things had been developing
in that branch of the Church. Let
us keep in mind that the members
there, all recent converts, had been
associated with other churches, con-
sequently theological ideas and prac-
tices were understood by them
differently. In the words of Elder
George A. Smith, it is reported that
"... a society that had undertaken
to have a community of proper-
ty . . ." and had been called ". . . the
Morley family . . ." being ". . . lo-
cated on a farm owned by Captain
Isaac Morley . . . had not yet been
instructed in relation to their du-
ties. . . ." These members devel-
oped some ". . . extravagant and wild
ideas. . . ." The Prophet Joseph
Smith taught the people the true
order of the Church which resulted
in the apostasy of some members
who continued to be deceived.
Among these was Wycom Clark,
who ". . . got a revelation that he
was to be the prophet — that he
was the true revelator . . ." and with
a few others organized the "Pure
Church of Christ." (See Journal oi
Discouises 11:3-4.)
Section 41
A knowledge of these conditions
helps us to understand the follow-
ing verses which introduce this sec-
tion, the first revelations received in
Kirtland:
Hearken and hear, O ye my people,
saith the Lord and your God, ye whom I
delight to bless with the greatest of all
blessings, ye that hear me; and ye that
hear me not will I curse, that have pro-
fessed my name, with the heaviest of all
cursings.
Hearken, O ye elders of my church
whom I have called, behold I give unto
you a commandment, that ye shall as-
semble yourselves together to agree upon
my word;
And by the prayer of your faith ye
shall receive my law, that ye may know
how to govern my church and have all
things right before me (D & C 41:1-3).
Notice the emphasis put upon the
law of common consent; namely,
that the brethren were to ". . . as-
semble . . . together to agree upon
my word." As they came together
for this purpose they were to meet
". . . by the prayer of your faith . . ."
in order to be prepared for the law
which had been promised earlier.
(See Section 38:32.) It was only
a few days later that this promise
was fulfilled when the Lord gave
Section 42, which is known as "The
Law of the Church."
In continuation of preparation for
this event, the saints are advised
that:
He that receiveth my law and doeth it,
the same is my disciple; and he that saith
he receiveth it and doeth it not, the same
is not my disciple, and shall be cast out
from among you;
For it is not meet that the things
which belong to the children of the king-
dom should be given to them that are
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not worthy, or to dogs, or the pearls to
be cast before swine (D & C 41:5-6).
These words bring out clearly who
is the true disciple of the Lord. He
who professes to believe and be the
follower of the Christ is deceiving
himself and also those who follow
him when there is nonacceptance of
what the Lord reveals as his law.
There were members of the Church
in Kirtland who considered them-
selves true disciples, as there have
been since the days of Joseph Smith.
Unless members continue to obey
the law of the Lord, they are not
disciples, and a judgment awaits
them. (See John 8:31-32; Mt.
7:21-23.) On the other hand, the
promise is given that the Spirit will
be with the true believer. (See Ether
4:10-12.)
With the growth of the kingdom,
the Lord called Edward Partridge to
be the first bishop in this dispensa-
tion. In this call by revelation, there
are established the important steps
in all calls to service in the Church.
This procedure is: first, the call by
the authorized servant of the Lord;
second, appointment "by the voice
of the Church"; and third, ordina-
tion by those in authority. As point-
ed out in a former lesson, these
three steps also constitute a key
against the claims of those who seek
to deceive Latter-day Saints. (See
Lesson 18, Relief Society Magazine,
August 1959, page 546.)
Bishop Partridge was to devote his
entire time to the office of bishop.
His work as bishop was to be con-
fined to those things ". . . as it shall
be appointed unto him in my [the
Lord's] laws in the day that I shall
give them" (D & C 41:10). This
thought is important to remember:
when one receives an office in the
Church, he is to function only with-
in the calling he has received. Com-
pliance with this important principle
maintains order in the kingdom and
prevents disharmony, regret, and, in
some cases, even apostasy.
In closing this revelation, the
members of the Church are in-
formed of the necessity to obey the
words given; otherwise, they will be
answered upon their souls in the
day of judgment. (See D & C
41:12.) President Brigham Young
had this to say about such a situa-
tion:
Those who do not profess to know
anything of the Lord are far better off than
we are, unless we live our religion, for we
who know our Master's will and do it not,
will be beaten with many stripes; while
they who do not know the Master's will
and do it not will be beaten with few
stripes. This is perfectly reasonable
(Journal oi Discourses 16:111).
The Promised Law (Section 42)
Including this and the next four
lessons, there is an opportunity to
examine the important teachings of
the law of the Church. Although
there are different ways that this
revelation might be divided, it
seems that this division is a practical
one: the law of propaganda (preach-
ing the gospel) (D & C 42:4-17);
the law of moral conduct (D & C
42:18-29); the law of consecration
(D & C 42:30-42); the law of
administration to the sick (D & C
42:43-52); the law of sundry duties
(D & C 42:53-69); the law of re-
muneration of services (D & C
42:70-73); and the law concerning
transgressors (D & C 42:74-93).
Introduction to the Law
The Church is told to hearken
obediently to the instructions given
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473
in this revelation (D & C 42:1-4).
The twelve elders in whose presence
this revelation was given, are to go
forth to teach the gospel by the
power of the Spirit. The preaching
or dissemination of the gospel may
be called the law of preaching the
gospel.
The Law ot Preaching the Gospel
Missionaries of the Church are to
travel "two by two.'' The reasons
for doing this are apparent when
one considers that the testimony of
two or three witnesses is the Lord's
way of making known his marvelous
work. There is also protection, both
moral and physical, afforded the mis-
sionaries against those who would
seek to do them harm.
In the sixth verse of this revela-
tion, the elders are told that they
are to declare ". . . my word like
unto angels of God" (D & C 42:6).
In this same year of 1831, the Lord
reminded the elders that:
And now, verily saith the Lord, that
these things might be known among you,
O inhabitants of the earth, I have sent
forth mine angel flying through the midst
of heaven, having the everlasting gospel,
who hath appeared unto some and hath
committed it unto man, who shall appear
unto many that dwell on the earth.
And this gospel shall be preached unto
every nation, and kindred, and tongue,
and people.
And the servants of God shall go foith,
saying with a loud voice: Fear God and
give glory to him, for the hour of his
judgment is come;
And worship him that made heaven,
and earth, and the sea. and the fountains
of waters (D & C 133:36-39).
When one compares these verses
with what was proclaimed by the
apostle John in foretelling the res-
toration of the gospel by an angel
(See Revelation 14:6-7), the part
italicized by the writer suggests
that the divinely commissioned mis-
sionaries are to carrv the angel's
message to the world. This message
becomes more meaningful when it
is understood that when the elders
speak by the Holy Ghost they are
speaking with the "tongue of
angels." (Cf. 2 Nephi 32:2-3;
31:11-14.)
Ordination Necessary
In order to preach the gospel and
officiate in the ordinances thereof,
the person must be ordained by one
having the proper authority, "and it
is known to the church that he has
authority" (D & C 42:11). Those
who go forth representing the Lord
are to teach the principles of the
gospel as contained in the books of
scripture available at that time— the
Bible and The Book of Mormon.
Later, The Doctrine and Covenants
and The Pearl of Great Price came
into existence as books of scripture.
Experience has shown that the Bible
and The Book of Mormon are bet-
ter adapted for missionary use.
Occasionally the Lord has pointed
out that the world is to receive the
milk of the gospel first and later the
stronger teachings which have been
compared to meat. (See D & C
19:22.) Again, there is suggested
that The Book of Mormon con-
tains the ". . . fulness of the gos-
pel." The meaning of this expres-
sion is simply that it implies (a)
sufficient knowledge for salvation,
and (b) the necessity of the Priest-
hood. (See Lesson 13, Relief So-
ciety Magazine, November 1958,
page 760.)
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The missionaries are not only to
proclaim the gospel from these
books of scripture, but they are to
observe the ". . . covenants and
church articles to do them . . ."
(D & C 42:13). By this it is meant
that other sources of truth, as con-
tained in later revelations through
prophets, are to be practiced as well
as taught. The teaching by the mis-
sionary is to be done under the in-
fluence of the Spirit (D & C
42:13). If this is done, there will
be given sufficient to influence the
investigator, and the missionary will
not be led astray in what he teaches.
The Prayer of Faith
There follows in this revelation
the statement of a great truth for
both the set apart missionary as well
as the teacher in the auxiliary organ-
izations of the Church.
And the Spirit shall be given unto you
by the prayer of faith; and if ye receive
not the Spirit ye shall not teach (D & C
42:14).
In The Church of Jesus Christ
of Latter-day Saints, where so many
members have an opportunity to
teach the gospel, there seems to be
reason for knowledge of and em-
phasis upon this truth.
To receive any blessings from the
Lord the necessity of exercising faith
in the Lord is a truism. The Proph-
et Joseph Smith learned this as a
lad when he read the words of
James that if one lacked wisdom,
he was to ask of God. "But let
him ask in faith, nothing wavering.
For he that wavereth is like a wave
of the sea driven with the wind and
tossed" (James 1:6). The faith re-
quired is that of full trust in the
Lord, recognizing from the depths
of one's soul that the desired result
will follow.
Prayers for divine assistance some-
times are words expressed in prayer
language, but they lack the faith
intended in the expression "prayer
of faith," which we are admonished
will bring the blessings of the Lord.
An example of this contrast is found
in the case of the Zoramites in
The Book of Mormon. Their set
prayer was meaningless because it
was uttered to gain the favor of
men and for religious ritual only.
(See Alma 31:15-22, 34-38.)
Some of the essentials in obtain-
ing the "prayer of faith" and to
receive the influence of the Holy
Ghost were given by President
Brigham Young, as follows:
Let us be humble, fervent, submissive,
yielding ourselves to the will of the Lord,
and there is no danger but that we shall
have His Spirit to guide us (Journal of
Discourses 13:155).
But what is there to say about
the growth of faith necessary for
one who wants to exercise the
"prayer of faith"? Alma spoke of
the need to ". . . arouse your facul-
ties, even to an experiment . . . and
exercise a particle of faith, yea, even
if ye can no more than desire to be-
lieve, let this desire work in you,
even until ye believe . . ." (Alma
32:27).
But what if the individual does
not feel the need to pray at a given
time for the assistance of the Lord?
The following gleanings from Presi-
dent Brigham Young are pertinent
to obtaining the spirit of prayer:
It matters not whether you or I feel
like praying, when the time comes to pray,
pray. If we do not feel like it, we should
pray till we do. . . . You will find that
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475
those who wait till the Spirit bids them
pray, will never pray much on this earth
(Discourses of Biigham Young, page 44).
Receive the Spirit
Every member of this Church
may have the privilege of enjoying
the Holy Ghost, which is the Spirit
referred to in the admonition before
us (D & C 42:14). The Spirit will
be received to the degree that the
member of the Church is diligently
seeking to keep the commandments
of the Lord. Worthiness of life,
coupled with prayer and faith, will
bring forth the Spirit. (See D & C
63:64.)
The Spirit and Teaching
Why should a person have the
Spirit of the Lord to teach, as ad-
monished in our text? (See D & C
42:14.) The Lord has specifically
informed us that we are to have
his Spirit. Fundamentally, the per-
son having that Spirit will be able
to distinguish between the truth and
error. Is not the Holy Ghost the
giver of truth? (See John 14:15-17.)
To some of the missionaries of this
dispensation, a reminder was given
that they should preach by the
Spirit of truth:
Verily I say unto you, he that is or-
dained of me and sent forth to preach the
word of truth by the Comforter, in the
Spirit of truth, doth he preach it by the
Spirit of truth or some other way?
And if it be by some other way it is
not of God (D & C 50:17-18).
To those who receive the word
of truth, is it received by that same
Spirit— truth, or in some other way,
Spirit— truth, or in some other way?
these missionaries (D & C 50:19).
If the teacher and the hearer receive
the Lord's word under the influence
of his Spirit both are enlightened
and rejoice together (D & C 50:22).
But what if the member of the
Church, as a teacher in an auxiliary
organization or in the capacity of
the member who tells others, mem-
bers or nonmembers, of the gospel,
does not feel adequately prepared
of the Spirit? Certainly, no one may
have all of the knowledge necessary,
nor the fulness of the Spirit to ac-
complish the call at hand.
This feeling of inadequacy may
also be present among many who
are called to preach the gospel as
missionaries. In a revelation given
to two missionaries, there is found
this encouraging word: ". . . declare
the things which ye have heard, and
verily believe, and know to be true"
(D & C 80:4). However, those who
do have the responsibility of teach-
ing are under the definite obliga-
tion to prepare themselves in
knowledge and also to have the
Holy Ghost.
Source of Knowledge
The law of preaching the gospel
is concluded with these words :
And all this ye shall observe to do as
I have commanded concerning your
teaching, until the fulness of my scrip-
tures is given.
And as ye shall lift up your voices by
the Comforter, ye shall speak and proph-
esy as seemeth me good;
For, behold, the Comforter knoweth
all things, and beareth record of the
Father and of the Son (D & C 42:15-17).
Although the Lord had not yet
made known many important prin-
ciples and ordinances of the gospel
by the year 1831, this was not to
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prevent the missionaries from
preaching the gospel. They were
to go on their missions relying upon
the Holy Ghost for guidance. More
revelation was forthcoming that the
Lord's representatives might also
more effectively teach the plan of
salvation. The Doctrine and Cove-
nants Commentary (page 238) gives
an example of the way in which the
Spirit directed some of the early
brethren in their activities. President
George O. Cannon said:
I remember hearing related Brother
Parley P. Pratt's first interview with the
Saints at Fayette, Seneca County, where
the Church was organized. . . . On that
occasion he was called upon to speak; the
Prophet Joseph was not present at the
time. He brought forth from the proph-
ecies of Isaiah, Jeremiah, Ezekiel, and
other prophets, abundant proofs concern-
ing the work which the Lord had estab-
lished through His servant Joseph. A
great many of the Latter-day Saints were
surprised that there were so many evi-
dences existing in the Bible concerning
this work. The Church had then been
organized some five months, but the mem-
bers had never heard from any of the
Elders these proofs and evidences which
existed in the Bible (Doctrine and Cove-
nants Commentary, page 238-39).
Questions for Discussion
1. Give some examples of how the Lord
prepared for the Prophet's visit to Rut-
land, Ohio.
2. What do you consider to be the
most important messages from Section
41?
3. What is meant by the "prayer of
faith" or what do you understand the
"prayer of faith" to mean?
4. Discuss: The Spirit of the Lord is
necessary to teach the gospel effectively.
Visiting cJeacher tltessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 25— "If Thou Lovest Me Thou Shalt Serve Me and
Keep All My Commandments" (D & C 42:29)
Christine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, October 4, i960
Objective: To emphasize the fact that we serve the Lord, others, and ourselves best
only when we keep all the commandments.
(^\NE of the basic facts of human
behavior is that if we truly love
someone we will do everything pos-
sible to please him and to conform
our lives to his wishes. If this is
true in our attitudes towards each
other, how much more it should
apply in our relationships with our
Father in heaven. This fact is
emphasized in The Doctrine and
Covenants quotation, "If thou lov-
est me thou shalt serve me and keep
all my commandments" (D & C
42:29). If we truly love the lord
we will serve him and do all that
he requires of us. We will live his
commandments and by so doing
merit his love and earn for ourselves
eternal joy.
In order to do all that God re-
quires of us we must, of course,
know and understand his command-
ments. Since man was first placed
upon the earth, the Lord has given
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477
him commandments, either direct-
ly or through his prophets. These
commandments are contained in
the scriptures. If we will search the
scriptures, as Jesus has instructed
us, we will know the Lord's will.
The Lord's commandments are
given to us as guides to abundant
and joyful living, not only in this
life but in the world to come. Con-
trary to what some people believe,
these commandments are not re-
straining orders which are laid down
to restrict our lives, rather, they are
principles upon which fruitful, hap-
py lives may be built.
In explaining the reasons why he
made the motion picture, "The
Ten Commandments," Cecil B.
DeMille once said, "The Ten Com-
mandments are not rules to obey as
a personal favor to God. They are
the fundamental principles without
which mankind cannot live togeth-
er" (Instiuctor, August 1957, page
231).
The Doctrine and Covenants'
quotation emphasizes the fact that to
lay the foundation for an effective
life we must keep all of the Lord's
commandments. This means that
we do not have the privilege to
choose only those that appeal to us.
This fact was beautifullv drama-
tized by the Savior when he an-
swered the rich young man who
inquired of him what he should do
to inherit eternal life. Jesus re-
plied :
Thou knowest the commandments, Do
not commit adultery, Do not kill, Do not
steal, Do not bear false witness, Defraud
not, Honour thy father and mother.
And he answered and said unto him,
Master, all these have I observed from
my youth.
Then Jesus beholding him loved him,
and said unto him. One thing thou
lackest: go thy way, sell whatsoever thou
hast, and give to the poor, and thou shalt
have treasure in heaven: and come, take
up the cross, and follow me.
And he was sad at that saying, and
went away grieved: for he had great pos-
sessions (Mark 10:19-22).
The scriptures do not complete
the story and tell us what happened
to this voung man who did not have
the courage to live all of God's
commandments. We can be sure,
however, that had he possessed the
strength to follow Jesus, he would
have had treasures in heaven and
would have been greatly blessed.
Even the strongest of us, at times,
may find ourselves thinking that it
is difficult to obev certain of the
Lord's commandments. When we
encounter these difficulties, we can
take comfort in the fact that the
Lord does not ask anything of us
without preparing the way for us to
do that which he requires. This
fact was expressed by The Book of
Mormon prophet Nephi, when he
said:
... I will go and do the things which
the Lord hath commanded, for I know
that the Lord giveth no commandments
unto the children of men, save he shall
prepare a way for them that they may
accomplish the thing which he com-
mandeth them (1 Nephi 3:7).
If we will hold fast to this con-
viction, we will always have the
courage and the strength to do what-
ever the Lord asks us to do.
When we keep the Lord's com-
mandments we truly serve him.
Furthermore, as recorded by the be-
loved apostle John:
He that hath my commandments, and
keepeth them, he it is that loveth me:
and he that loveth me shall be loved of
my Father, and I will love him, and will
manifest myself to him (John 14:21).
Work Tfleeting — Caring for the Sick in the Home
(A Course Expected to Be Used by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Lesson I — Safeguarding the Health of Your Family
Maria Johnson
For Tuesday, October 11, i960
Objective: To help each one to become more alert to the need for applying simple,
well-established principles for the prevention of disease and for safeguarding the health
of the familv.
New Frontiers oi Health.
Just as we are learning more of
nature's laws in the exploration of
outer space, so we are discovering
more of nature's laws for the devel-
opment and health of man. As the
frontiers of health expand, these
new and exciting discoveries bring
new challenges. What we need to
stress today, our health authorities
tell us, is the application of the
health knowledge we already have.
Knowledge does not insure health.
It is how we apply this knowledge
that counts.
Sanitation is important. It began
with the disposal of body wastes and
filth, and then with providing safe
water supplies. With the invention
of the microscope, man found that
he was surrounded by living organ-
isms so small they could not be seen
with the naked eye. Many of them
were found to be our friends; others,
our enemies and responsible for
communicable or catching diseases
and infections. The next great dis-
covery was immunization. Programs
of sanitation and immunization
have made remarkable achievement
since the turn of the century and
make possible the control of all but
a very few of our communicable dis-
eases. If these programs were done
away with, epidemics of all these
diseases would soon reappear.
Modern public health agencies
arc carrying on immunization pro-
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grams and a never-ending battle
against the spread of disease-pro-
ducing germs. The programs have
to do with safe drinking water, safe
milk supplies, garbage and sewage
disposal, inspection of meat and
public eating places, and insect and
rodent control, to name but a few.
The effectiveness of these programs
depends upon the understanding
and co-operation of the citizens of
each State and community. Failure
to support these programs comes
not from lack of knowledge, but
lack of a feeling of one's personal
responsibility. Even today, with all
our knowledge, much unnecessary
sickness exists.
Accidents in the home are also
the cause of many preventable disa-
bilities. Most of these accidents
would not happen if each home
applied the safety rules such as were
discussed in the safety lessons pre-
sented in Relief Society last year.
Seeking Medical Advice Early
Again, much serious illness could
be prevented by seeking medical
advice early when symptoms first
appear. Much suffering could be
alleviated if such diseases as cancer,
tuberculosis, and diabetes were
brought under early treatment. The
repair of your body, as that of your
car, needs to be made when the
trouble starts rather than after it
has broken down. Here we need a
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479
word of caution — don't become a
hypochondriac, one who has a mor-
bid and fanciful anxiety over one's
health; neither become a faddist
or a fanatic.
These safeguards to health: sani-
tation, immunization, safety meas-
ures, and early medical advice are
first lines of defense. They are old
frontiers of health that have been
crossed as far as knowledge is con-
cerned, and will never lose their
importance. But application is still
a problem.
New Concept oi Health
Today new frontiers of health are
being explored. Our concept of
health has widened. It is no longer
merely the absence of disease and
infirmity but a high level of health
with complete physical, mental, and
social well-being. In other words,
health with vitality, energy, emo-
tional stability, zest, and enthusiasm
for life.
High on the list of health prob-
lems being studied in our research
laboratories are mental illness, the
need for emotional health, viruses,
degenerative diseases, and senility.
The intensive study of viruses had to
wait for the invention of the elec-
tronic microscope. Today many
discoveries pertaining to the treat-
ment of virus diseases are encourag-
ing.
Perhaps the most challenging and
exciting discoveries are being made
in the field of mental illness and in
the part the emotions play in the
health of everv individual. Here, as
in other fields, it is not enough to
learn of our emotional needs. We
must also put into practice whole-
some emotional habits. Emotional
health is our safeguard against
mental illness and the key to opti-
mum health. The emotions, such
as worry, fear, anger, or hatred may
be as injurious to the normal func-
tioning of our vital organs as are
bacteria (disease germs). Physical
needs are tangible things that we
can usually see and understand.
Emotions, on the other hand, are
feelings, not things. They are hid-
den and complicated, hard to recog-
nize, and still harder to understand.
We are living in a scientific age
but living is more than a science; it
is an art. Good mental health has
been defined as a state of harmony
that an individual achieves with
himself and his environment which
includes both other people and
one's surroundings. Health research
has discovered that it is not, usually,
because people are overworked that
they break, but because the mental
and emotional stresses of modern
life are too much for them. The
difference in stresses of life that
come to each of us as individuals is
not so important; it is the way we
meet them that counts. Life with-
out emotions and tensions would be
dull indeed; still, for health and
happiness we need to strive for emo-
tional maturity. This has been
defined as the ability to react to life
situations in ways that are beneficial
rather than with emotional stress.
Maturity is developed through study
and practice.
The body and mind work togeth-
er. Whatever affects the one
affects the other. Doctors have
found that more than half of the
persons who visit their family
physician for treatment of a physical
ailment suffer emotional difficulties
which often explain their physical
symptoms. The pain or disturb-
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ance from an emotional illness
must be found. One must first
recognize that he is emotionally
disturbed and then try to decide
why. This is not easy and many
need medical advice. It helps to
think of something else, play the
piano, sing, scrub a floor, clean the
cupboards, straighten and organize
a closet; do anything that will help
you forget, for the time, the thing
that is disturbing you.
No matter how conscientiously
one may strive to protect the health
of himself and family, sickness soon-
er or later enters the home. A mem-
ber of the family has to take care
of the patient. Have you not won-
dered why doctors and nurses do
not hesitate to care for patients,
especially those having communic-
able diseases? Just remember that
it is the application of health knowl-
edge that counts. As has been
pointed out, scientific research has
discovered most of the health prob-
lems connected with the spread of
communicable diseases. You will
find that the doctors and the nurses
are making use of this knowledge.
They depend chiefly upon immun-
ization and such sanitary measures
as disposal of wastes and effective
hand washing. Let's consider how
we can apply these two very practi-
cal sanitary measures in our homes.
Safe Disposal of Waste Material
Waste material, such as dressings
or cotton swabs from the sick room,
and that from a cough or sneeze or
nasal discharge, may carry infection
and should be disposed of safely
and with as little handling as pos-
sible. A paper bag makes an ideal
container as it can be burned or dis-
posed of without handling the
soiled materials it contains. Any
paper bag will do. A good one can
be made from newspaper.
To make a paper bag:
i. Place a folded newspaper sheet so
that the fold is toward you.
2. Grasp the upper sheet of paper at
the top and bring it down to the center
fold. Crease to form cuff.
3. Turn the paper over. Keep the fold
toward you while making the bag.
4. Fold the entire paper in thirds from
the sides and crease firmly.
5. Tuck the one side under the cuff
of the other side to hold the bag in shape.
6. Fold the top part of the paper down
over the cuff.
7. The opening of the bag will be on
the side that is down, so turn the bag
over and put your hand in the opening.
Shape the bag and stand it up or fasten it
on the side of the bed.
The Over-AJJ Apron
When caring for the sick, an over-all
apron is an added protection for the fam-
ily and attendant. It is a must if the
disease is catching and is desirable in any
situation. Always leave the apron in the
patient's room. Do not wear it for other
housework or cooking. When removing
the apron, first wash your hands, then
untie or unfasten the gown, try to keep
your hands away from the contaminated
side and hang it up with the contaminated
side out. Keep the clean side, the one
next to your dress as clean as possible.
Wash your hands again.
Effective Hand Washing
Among the greatest protectors
against infection is our skin. Few
disease germs attack the skin, but
untold numbers are always waiting
for a chance to enter the body
through the body openings or breaks
in the skin. Our hands are the
greatest offenders in carrying dis-
ease germs to our mouths, so hand
washing is considered an important
line of defense in protecting the
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481
Make a good lather.
Take time to rub well between fingers
and around nails.
Wash under running water.
Repeat the soaping when necessary.
Rinse well and dry well.
NOTE: The presence of germs should
not be the only reason used in teaching the
child how and when to wash his hands.
The child need not know the reason. He
is taught this as a part of the family pat-
tern; everyone does it.
patient, the family, and one caring
for the sick from harmful disease
organisms.
Here are a few important rules to
remember about our hands:
i. Keep your hands away from your face.
2. Keep pencils, or other objects out of
your mouth.
3. Always wash the hands before eating.
4. Wash hands before preparing a meal
or handling food.
5. Wash the hands after going to the
toilet.
6. Wash the hands before and after
giving nursing care.
7. Do not put the stopper in the hand
basin.
8. Wash your hands under running
water.
9. If tap water is not available water
may be poured from a pitcher.
Remember to:
References
Red Cross Home Nursing, page 137.
"Home Care of the Sick," U. S. Depart-
ment of Health, Education, and Welfare,
Public Health Service, Health Informa-
tion Scries, No. 21. For sale by the
Superintendent of Documents, United
States Government Printing Office, Wash-
ington, D.C., 5c each and $2.50 per hun-
dred.
cJhe Sunflowers
Eva M. Bird
All faces east in the morning,
To follow the course of the sun.
All faces west in the evening,
To tell us that day is done.
^Literature — America's Literature Comes of Age
Lesson 17— Expanding Horizons
Elder Briant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 161-192)
For Tuesday, October 18, i960
Objective: To outline how new and complex relationships within the new Nation
expressed themselves through its literature.
"pROM the times of John Smith proud of it. By the end, in 1815,
through Jefferson, feelings of of the War of 1812, called by op-
hope and fear and hatred and faith ponents, "Mr. Madison's War/'
continued to accumulate with national pride not only triumphed
mounting acceleration and density over other emotions, but burst forth
until the crescendo became fury, in soaring poetry and tinseled ora-
Armed conflict with oppressive fel- tory as dazzling as "the rockets' red
low Englishmen appeared inevit- glare" over Fort McHenry which
able, though never desirable. Like- inspired Francis Scott Key to set
wise, the Nation's unpremeditated his inspiration to music — the music
preparations for more than a cen- by his contemporary Englishman,
tury and a half found it unprepared John Stafford Smith. Likewise,
to declare suddenly that it was suf- when Samuel Francis Smith com-
ficiently mature to emerge overnight posed his "America" in 1831, the
as a self-justifying, self-sustaining music he chose was "God Save the
fledgling in the world community. King." How aptly, then, do these
Rash though such headstrong two most "American" patriotic
action appeared to the sovereign songs demonstrate the strong ties
powers as well as to tens of thou- which bound the new Nation to
sands of Loyalists who fled or Mother England: habitually, un-
abstained, actually there was no consciously, and with no apparent
choice. Access to greatness was objection or incongruity, English
suddenly thrust upon the colonists, tunes were employed to immortal-
Either they acted at once to achieve ize the United States' independ-
their new identity or they perished, ence from her!
That the American colonies sue- Although during the Revolution-
ceeded in winning the war is mi- ary War years General Washington
taculous, a miracle which ever was plagued by such problems as
renews and brightens itself the far- loyal Massachusetts volunteers who
ther we are separated from it in threatened to quit and go home
time. before they would be commanded
Once peace treaties were signed by officers from foreign New Jersey
in 1783, the colonies had a moment or New York, predominantly the
to examine their separateness and war compelled the colonies to unite
to ask who thev were. Even while as thev met a common foe. But
rejoicing in their dearly won free- once thev no longer fought for sur-
dom, they were also somewhat dis- vival, but only for dominance or a
concerted by their own audacity, yet sense of station among themselves,
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they were nearly destroyed by here- a worthy and an independent cul-
tofore concealed differences. Life- ture. (See text, page 161.)
long patterns of loyalty to personal With their hearts still longing
and inherited values changed most for any news or fashions from Eu-
reluctantly. Having publicly de- rope which they might display as
clared abroad that ". . . all political "the latest thing" within their own
connection between them [the local circles, at the same time
United States of America] and the Americans were outwardly and sin-
State of Great Britain is and ought cerely impatient to prove their
to be totally dissolved . . ." (The equality, even superiority, in rela-
Constitution of the United States tion to the Old World, so much so
— Its Sources and Application, "The that impulsively American critics
Declaration of Independence," page often overpraised or "puffed"
269 ) , this great problem became even American scenes, deeds, and auth-
more troublesome: "In every realm ors. And as the country doubled,
save that of politics," was asked, "to then quadrupled in size with the
whom, to what, shall we newborn, acquisition of the Louisiana Pur-
liberated states cleave? How can chase in 1803, followed by two-fifths
we obey our own 'independent' tra- of the country of Mexico in 1848,
ditions of building? dressing? cook- these and similar problems were
ing? marrying? buying? entertain- compounded rather than simplified,
ing? singing? dancing? feeling? By 1820, the population was close
thinking? worshiping? We have no to 10,000,000. (See text, page
such traditions uniquely our own." 162.)
From whence were such patterns to
come? From England and Europe? Inward Conflicts
Many agreed. From their present Stated as an oversimplification,
and future selves? Others so hoped, the problem of eighteenth-century
During the final decades of the America was to create itself; its
eighteenth century, the new po- nineteenth-century problem was to
litically unified colonies realized know itself. As it sprawled across
that, in every sense, they had them- the continent, growing in mechani-
selves on their own hands. The cal effectiveness, in agricultural, min-
eminent British critic, Sydney eral, and commercial wealth to
Smith, (1771-1845) taunted the match its emergence as a physical
new Nation for having made no con- giant, the inward conflicts likewise
tributions to world culture and kept pace. When, through the
thought. An increasing number of decades of the century, the lines
its own strongest voices also asked separating these opposing factions
in ominously louder tones why Mr. became increasingly clear, then un-
Smith was right, why nobody read defined pressures in more and more
an American book, not even Ameri- areas of human influence and feel-
cans themselves? However the War ing became more evident,
of 1812 had given Americans the To name but a few, which of the
feeling that they were entirely sep- following opponents finally were to
arated from England and the hope dominate? What measures were to
that they would develop, eventually, be taken to curb or extinguish the
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losers? 1. Agricultural South vs.
industrial, commercial North; 2.
Federal control vs. states' rights;
3. Hard-money Wall Street vs. the
expanding West's livestock and min-
ing; 4. Abolitionists and Free-soilers
vs. the solid slave-holding South;
5. Puritanical Calvinistic strictness
vs. Transcendental, Unitarian lib-
eralism; 6. Yankee shrewdness and
utilitarianism vs. Southern and
Western friendly unconcern; 7.
Poor, ignorant immigrants vs. weal-
thy, educated ''native stock"; 8. Tra-
dition vs. innovation; 9. Capital vs.
labor; 10. Native "American" In-
dians vs. imported Anglo Saxon
"Americans"; 11. Plow vs. brand-
ing-iron; and 12. Civilized law vs.
frontier justice.
These and many other growing
pains were the living issues of the
century, difficult to define, even
more so to resolve. As we now be-
gin to define and study them some
fifty to 150 years afterward, our
greatest advantage is that time has
given us some degree of objective
distance; our greatest disadvantage,
that some of these conflicts are still
so very much alive that our present
biases and self-interests may pre-
vent us from their impartial con-
sideration.
Of necessity, our text abridges
nineteenth-century American litera-
ture. Because space and time are
limited, only those few authors have
been included who spoke to their
ages significantly, thus fairly repre-
senting it. To us moderns who
would understand the American
past, such literary leaders are indis-
pensable. But perhaps our editors
have chosen them, one might re-
mark, not because of their con-
temporary significance, but because
they tell us what we would like to
believe was dominant in America's
past. Or as Joseph Conrad reminds
us, "The dead can live only with
the exact intensity and quality of
life imparted to them by the liv-
ing." Notwithstanding this possible
danger, the editors appear worthy of
trust since, with the possible excep-
tions of Thoreau's Walden, Mel-
ville's Moby Dick, and Emily
Dickinson's poems, those works
found in our text are those which
enjoyed the greatest popularity
among serious audiences in their
own time.
We are then ready to agree that
the best means for knowing ages
past is to view them through the
eyes and words of their acknowl-
edged spokesmen; the best way to
judge a people is through its lead-
ers. Other approaches to historical
truth concern themselves with sta-
tistics and graphs; the concern of
literature is to enter into the feel-
ings, hearts, minds, and souls of
individuals via the great and living
words from their leaders which re-
create, in artistic form, the texture
of the times.
Classic Period of
American Literature
The nineteenth century is, with
justice, referred to as the classic
period of American literature. Dur-
ing this period its literature came of
age, just as did the life of the Na-
tion which it mirrored with depth
and power. Further, we should
recognize in serious literature the
attempt to catch permanently the
reality of its time. Thus, to choose
only timeless reality amid the
confusion of the present was the
constant concern of these writers.
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Reality, however, has many faces; which in the past might well have
always to different contemporary been better. Cooper best exempli-
authors it varies widely. Neverthe- fies pursuit-escape-suspense adven-
less, three schools or patterns of ture laid in the historic past; he also
reality seem to dominate the pre- feels the beautiful loneliness and
Civil War period, often heavily in- vastness of untamed nature with
termixed in its literature even contagious power. In addition to
within one man's own writings. It James Fenimore Cooper, Washing-
is to a consideration of these pat- ton Irving, William Cullen Bryant,
terns of reality and belief that we Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, John
now turn. Greenleaf Whittier, and James Rus-
1. Security, the pattern of the past sell Lowell best represent this strain,
and the status quo. Writers in this (These authors will be studied
group are often nostalgic Roman- later.)
tics. They seem to find somber By and large, those who found
delight in recalling the past, or these securities to be most real were
exotic places, or even dream-worlds heavily influenced both by scenes
wraithed by clouds of mystery and depicted from the European past
sometimes horror, these moods of- and by English language patterns
ten merely hinted at amid sur- and literary fads. The specific words
roundings of decaying mansions or used, the cadence of phrase both in
ancient castles which conceal ghosts, prose and poetry, and the over-all
elves, or visionary spirits. The con- tone and intent of such writings
templation of death is also a favor- won their American authors praise
ite theme. Prominent figures in and acceptance, not only because
this pattern are Washington Irving, their audiences at home really en-
William Cullen Bryant, Henry joyed their writings in their own
Wadsworth Longfellow, and Edgar right, but also because they were
Allen Poe. reassured to realize that what they
A closely related strain is the love found pleasurable in these local
of the picturesque, either past or writings was also being well re-
present. To picture in the mind's ceived by English audiences,
eye scenes of noble deeds and excit-
ing adventure, the grandeur of un- 2. Destiny, the militant pattern
spoiled nature, the colorful tableaus of idealism and the future. From
of the everyday, simple life, either the beginning of its colonial period
amid rustic surroundings, the harm- the country offered rich lands free
less domesticities of village and for the taking, in an atmosphere
town, or the sweet tranquilities of free from traditional patterns of
home and fireside — all unmarred thinking, acting, believing. "West-
by unsolvable conflict or harsh strife ward the course of empire takes its
— these yielded to the nineteenth- way/' wrote Bishop Berkeley in
century American vicarious excite- 1720, and many, on both sides of
ment or transport. Finally, they the Atlantic, agreed with him that
yielded him an inner warmth, peace, from the time of the Phoenicians,
and a predominant sense of secur- the Greeks, and the Romans, hope
ity in a world that is good now, but and the future have lain always
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further west. Long before the Rev-
olution, many Americans were well
aware that theirs was the land of
destiny. In 1760 the basically prac-
tical, conservative Franklin wrote to
Lord Kamas in England this con-
viction, "I have long been of the
opinion that the foundations of the
future grandeur and stability of
the British Empire lie in America."
Crevecoeur defined America as "the
asylum of freedom, the cradle of
future nations, and the refuge of
distressed Europeans," an attitude
which dominated American hearts
and hopes both before and after the
Revolution, strongly perpetuated by
Jefferson.
Latter-day Saints know that the
Government of the United States
was one of destiny, a Government
under which the gospel could be
restored. The Lord said to the
Prophet Joseph Smith at Kirtland,
Ohio, in December 1833:
... it is not right that any man
should be in bondage one to another.
And for this purpose have I established
the Constitution of this land, by the
hands of wise men whom I raised up unto
this very purpose, and redeemed the land
by the shedding of blood (D & C
101:79-80).
Here, for this newborn race called
"Americans," free trade and free-
dom from the grinding dominance
of governmental and religious insti-
tutions finally made possible the
rebirth of man in this veritable
Garden of Eden. Here man's essen-
tial goodness, his ability to achieve
the promised life both within him-
self and in relation to group forces,
was limited only by his own dreams.
Out of this newly formed combi-
nation of all peoples, virtues, and
freedoms which is the United States
of America came a noble creation
of both God and man : a true Ameri-
can. Representative of his high vi-
sion of America's future are the
words of William Gilpin, partici-
pant in the Mexican War, first
Governor of Colorado, and dedi-
cated promoter of the transconti-
nental railway and the Mississippi
Valley, the great heartland of the
Nation. The following was written
in 1846:
The untransacted destiny of the Ameri-
can people is to subdue the continent —
to rush over this vast field to the Pacific
Ocean — to animate the many hundred
millions of its people, and to cheer them
upward — to agitate these herculean
masses — to establish a dynamic new
order in human affairs — to regenerate
superannuated nations — to stir up the
sleep of a hundred centuries — to teach
old nations a new civilization — to con-
firm the destiny of the human race — to
carry the career of mankind to its culmi-
nating point — to cause a stagnant peo-
ple to be reborn — to perfect science —
to emblazon history with the conquest of
peace — to shed a new and resplendent
glory upon mankind — to unite all the
world in one social family — to absolve
the curse that weighs down humanity,
and to shed blessings round the world
(Smith, Henry Nash: Virgin Land).
While Cooper was driven by a
strong sense of America's destiny,
basically he felt that her chance had
been lost. But his was a minor
voice, soon forgotten amid such
booming affirmations as Mr. Gil-
pin's. Those in literature who most
vigorously proclaimed this pattern
of belief were Bryant, the editor;
Whittier, the Abolitionist; and
those brightest torchbearers: Ralph
Waldo Emerson, Henry David
Thoreau, and Walt Whitman.
3. Ambiguity, the pattern of
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searching beneath surface appear-
ances for values priceless to man's
peace and progress, yet values neith-
er clearly definable nor even even-
tually obtainable. While granting
that the suffocating past must be
denied, as must former deadening
influences, for a few lone writers the
promise of hope in America's future
did not follow. Though they agreed
that the prime responsibility of the
representative American was to ask
all questions about man's ultimate
destiny, they asserted that finally he
does not know either himself fully
or his place and destiny in his own
world or in time. Though shades
of this pattern appeared in James
Fenimore Cooper, Ralph Waldo
Emerson, Henry Wadsworth Long-
fellow, Oliver Wendell Holmes, and
Walt Whitman, its major spokes-
men in the pre-Civil War period
were Edgar Allen Poe, Nathaniel
Hawthorne, and Herman Melville.
I hear America singing,
the varied carols I hear. . . .
( — Whitman, Walt:
"I Hear America Singing")
wrote Walt Whitman at mid-cen-
tury, as a deep, full-throated chord
of sustained dominance and richness
soared upward to fill the bright-
starred heavens. Throbbing new
harmonies jarred traditional ears;
surging rhythms, cadenced to fit
only America's unique situations,
rose in waves of majesty and vast-
ness to give voice to new com-
plexities. No longer need America
portray herself as imitative of any
other or previous culture; no longer
need she portray herself as predomi-
nantly awkward, self-conscious, or
raw. At last, in maturing youth's
full vigor, her literature imaged a
complex Nation but recently come
of age.
Thoughts for Discussion
i. Why is an over-all view of conditions
within a Nation helpful as an introduc-
tion to a study of its literature? Discuss.
2. Do contemporary writers vary widely
in their characterizations of the age in
which they live? If so, is it possible to
discover, in their writings, trends which
are dominant in that particular period?
Discuss.
3. Is it natural for new conflicts to
arise and increase in number as a nation
expands in size and population? Discuss.
Social Science — Spiritual Living
in the Nuclear Age
Lesson 8 — Expanding Our Religious Horizons — Part I: Concepts of God
Elder BJafne M. Portei
For Tuesday, October 25, i960
Objective: To discover how our concepts of God influence our potentialities for
spiritual living.
Introduction factors, among which are included
npHE meaning and focus which our concept of divinity, our concept
spiritual living has for us of man, our understanding of the
depend significantly upon many purpose of life, and the value we
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place upon people. The concept
which we have of God determines
the type of relationship which we
establish with him. Since relation-
ships with God and others form the
core of spiritual living, the type of
relationships we establish must, of
necessity be of major concern to
persons seeking the spiritual life.
Importance of Learning About
and Worshiping God
There would be little controversy,
if any, among Latter-day Saints re-
garding the importance of worship-
ing God and seeking to keep his
commandments. Such passages of
scripture as, "... Thou shalt love
the Lord thy God with all thy
heart, and with all thy soul, and
with all thy mind" (Mt. 22:37);
and "And this is life eternal, that
they might know thee the only true
God, and Jesus Christ whom thou
hast sent" (John 17:3) are com-
monly known and subscribed to by
all of us. But what does it really
mean to Jove God, to know God?
Man cannot begin to know all
there is to know about God. In
fact, what we presently know is
probably a minute part of all there
is to know and that we may some
day come to understand. Neverthe-
less, all of us have certain basic
beliefs and feelings about God. We
have obtained and developed these
beliefs and feelings from many dif-
ferent sources and many different
experiences. Even though we wor-
ship the same God and have been
taught from many common sources,
it is quite probable that the nature
of God and our relationship to him
takes on a slightly different mean-
ing for each of us. We would now
like to explore some general ways
of looking at God and consider the
influence of these concepts and be-
liefs upon us and our behavior.
Nature of God
God is far greater than we can
adequately describe. His whole
nature and character are beyond our
comprehension. Learning to know
him, therefore, becomes a major
challenge to us. It behooves us to
be cognizant of the many factors
which color the interpretation and
concept which we have of God. The
difference between what God is and
our view of him is indicated in the
following scriptures:
Seek ye the Lord while he may be
found, call ye upon him while he is near:
Let the wicked forsake his way, and the
unrighteous man his thoughts: and let
him return unto the Lord, and he will
have mercy upon him; and to our God,
for he will abundantly pardon.
For my thoughts are not your thoughts,
neither are your ways my ways, saith the
Lord.
For as the heavens are higher than the
earth, so are my ways higher than your
ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts
(Isaiah 55:6-9).
Believe in God; believe that he is, and
that he created all things, both in heaven
and in earth; believe that he has all wis-
dom, and all power, both in heaven and
in earth; believe that man doth not com-
prehend all the things which the Lord
can comprehend (Mosiah 4:9).
It is impossible in our present
state of being to know the nature
of God fully, but it is important for
us to take a careful look at the con-
cept of God which we have and the
influence this has upon our per-
ceived relationship with God and,
in turn, the influence which our
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perceived relationship with God has
upon our relationship with our fel-
low men.
As Latter-day Saints we believe in
a personal, living God who is an
omniscient (all-knowing) and omni-
potent (all-powerful) being, but
beyond this, what? Note the
following quotation from Lowell L.
Bennion which describes the way
in which varying concepts of God
may arise.
There is a marked difference between
that which a man is, his character, and
that which people think him to be, his
reputation. In the latter instance, opinions
are quite as divergent as are the apprais-
ing individuals themselves. If this is true
of man's judgment of man, it is much
more true of his idea of the Supreme
Being whom he knows even less. The
varying concepts of Deity, entertained by
the children of men, confusing though
they may be at first sight, need not be
too disconcerting, for God is what he is,
regardless of what men conceive him to
be.
Any human characterization of the
nature of God will be limited and colored
by man's restricted experience. God is
greater than man can adequately describe.
His full nature and sublime character are
beyond our complete grasp. Learning to
know him is an eternal quest.
Cognizant of the difference between
that which He is and that which men
conceive Him to be, and realizing the
tremendous difference between his world
and ours, we approach the subject of the
Mormon concept of God in a spirit of
humility and reverence, acknowledging
that the loftiest picturization of God is
but suggestive of the sublime reality it
seeks to portray. Were it not for the
significance of man's view of God to his
religious life, one would not have, as
mortal man, the audacity to describe and
characterize his Maker as fully as is here
attempted.
Our knowledge of our Heavenly Father
is limited. We are sure of some things;
other questions and possibilities defy even
our power of imagination. That which
we do know about God is very important,
something in which we can trust and on
which we can build our lives. We can
assume in some respects a similar re-
lationship with God as a small child has
with his father here on earth. Though
the child comprehends but a part of the
total life of his parent, yet that partial
knowledge may well be sufficiently valid
and extensive to enable him to build a
satisfactory relationship with his father,
with the assurance that year after year,
with increased experience and under-
standing, he will understand his father
more fully.
Though our understanding of God is
restricted by our own limited experience,
just as is that of the child in relation to
his parent, yet there is within that experi-
ence a sufficient basis of truth to enable
us to establish a satisfactory relationship
with Him, one on which we can build
permanently and with confidence. While
the restored Gospel of Jesus Christ does
not give us a complete understanding of
the Creator and while it does not answer
all questions about him, it does teach us,
most positively, many important and defi-
nite concepts concerning the character
and work of the Creator and his relation-
ship to men (Bennion Lowell: The Re-
ligion of the Latter-day Saints, Salt Lake
City, Latter-day Saints Department of
Education, 1940, pp. 26-27).
Concepts of God
Latter-day Saints hold to the be-
lief that God is a personal being
with body, parts, and passions. We
believe that man was created in the
image of God, physically as well as
spiritually, and therefore God in ap-
pearance is similar to man without
the frailties and limitations of man.
God is much more than man, but
man is in his image. This belief
is founded upon many passages of
scripture, but because of the limi-
tations of space, only the following
three will be cited here:
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. . . When the light rested upon me
I saw two Personages, whose brightness
and glory defy all description, standing
above me in the air. One of them spake
unto me, calling me by name and said,
pointing to the other — This is My
Beloved Son. Hear Him! (Pearl of Great
Price, Joseph Smith 2:17.)
The Father has a body of flesh and
bones as tangible as man's; the Son also;
but the Holy Ghost has not a body of
flesh and bones, but is a personage of
Spirit. Were it not so, the Holy Ghost
could not dwell in us (D & C 130:22).
But he [Stephen] being full of the Holy
Ghost, looked up steadfastly into heaven,
and saw the glory of God, and Jesus stand-
ing on the right hand of God,
And said, Behold, I see the heavens
opened, and the Son of man standing
on the right hand of God (Acts 7:55-56).
Latter-day Saints not only believe
that God is a person with a tan-
gible body, but we also conceive of
him as a living, conscious, all-wise
Being. He thinks, creates, acts,
loves, he is Creator, Judge, Helper,
and Father.
Having thus described God, we
must push our explorations further
to try and discover the type of
Being or individual we consider him
to be. Any of us could describe our
earthly father as an individual with
a body of tangible form; as a living,
acting, loving person who experi-
ences disappointment, etc. But
when we think of our own father,
we go beyond this and recall our
feelings and attitudes about the
kind of person he is or was, and
reflect upon the feelings we had or
have about him and towards him.
Let us, now, pursue these kinds of
feelings in respect to God and con-
sider various approaches to God as
held by different sects.
Fear. One approach to God is to
regard him as one might regard a
tyrannical father, someone to fear
because of his superior power, to
plead with, to bribe with sacrifices,
to appease as one would appease a
touchy and unloving parent. In
much common conversation be-
tween parents and children regard-
ing God, he is presented as prepared
to inflict punishment on those who
disobey their parents or who tell a
lie. History records numerous inci-
dents in which man has cloaked his
actions in the disguise of carrying
out the wishes of God. Note, for
example, the inquisitions and the
burning of witches at the stake in
our own early American history. In
the latter case, the fanatical citizens
of Salem took eighteen lives on
Gallows Hill while the Reverend
Cotton Mather quoted the Bible
verse which says, "And thou shalt
not suffer a witch to live" (Exo-
dus 22:18).
Why do some people believe in
a God of fear? For one thing, be-
cause it has been to the advantage
of men with power to control the
thought patterns of those over
whom they ruled. The efforts of
many religious leaders have more
often been dedicated to the preser-
vation of their particular form and
power than to the pursuit of sig-
nificant truth. This was one of the
characteristics of the Jews which
made Christ angry.
Power over other people — as
distinct from competent leadership
— can most easily be maintained
through fear, a condition which
many religions produce by threat of
punishment, both here and in the
hereafter. The product of such a
religion is a coerced and therefore
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false saintliness. A frightened per-
son cannot be a sincere person, and,
therefore, the elements of hypoc-
risy, fear, and guilt are introduced.
True religion is faith in God,
not fear of God as the word, fear
is used today. The following quo-
tation bears on this subject:
We know that the Lord is merciful
and kind and that he does not rejoice in
causing fear in the hearts of the righteous;
nor does he command them to approach
him in the spirit of fear in the sense in
which this term is usually interpreted. It
is true that the wicked will fear and
tremble before him in that great day of
judgment and that he is angry with the
wicked, and dreadful fear and trembling
will fill their hearts at his coming. The
fear spoken of in these passages in con-
nection with the spirit of obedience, and
the seeking of knowledge is quite a dif-
ferent thing.
Such passages have no reference to
fright or terror wherein they are coupled
with the principle of faith and obedience.
The dictionary reveals several interpreta-
tions of the use of the word fear. The
interpretation of its use in the passages
enumerated is "to have reverential
awe. ..." So we see that the word fear,
as it is given in the English translations of
the Bible in the passages under consider-
ation, means reverence with humility. . . .
Love and reverence are both essential
in the worship of our Heavenly Father and
his Son Jesus Christ, but those who keep
his commandments and are worthy to
stand before them need not fear, but in
humility they may and shall bow the knee
in great joy and reverence in the spirit of
perfect worship (Smith, Joseph Fielding:
"The Meaning of Fear," Improvement
Era, May 1953, page 310).
Magic. A second approach to God
is to regard him as a magical helper.
This concept causes us to think of
God as the controller of destiny to
the extent that he could end pov-
Recommended Music
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Choruses
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erty, war, famine, etc. anytime he
wanted to. Such a concept at-
tributes to God the power to vio-
late or set aside the laws of the
universe, or to reach down and by
magic preserve us from the conse-
quences of our own acts. Many
want a God of magic and of super-
natural power to make their person-
al experiences different from the
rest of the world. Insofar as we
can discover, God alwavs obevs his
own laws. President Brigham
Young has stated that ". . . the Lord
cannot violate his own law; were he
to do that, he would cease to be
God" (Discourses ot Brigham
Young, "Free Agency," 1941 Edi-
tion, page 62).
Love. In addition to the concept
of a God of fear and a God of mag-
ic, there is a God of love. The
God of love docs not use the
coercion of fear or the enticement
of magic to secure his following.
God loves all men. His desire is not
to condemn the children of men,
but to lead them into paths of truth
and righteousness.
Worshiping a God of love en-
courages an individual to establish
a close, meaningful relationship
with God based upon understand-
ing and an optimistic, yet realistic
hope for the future. It adds dig-
nity to one's concept of man and of
oneself and stimulates the desire to
grow and develop in order to ex-
perience the potentialities within
oneself. The individual then looks
upon God with a conviction of his
love, and of his desire for man to
grow into an emotionally mature
being who has the true feeling that
he is following in his steps.
To know God involves trying to
understand him and his ways, to
LESSON DEPARTMENT
493
imitate the characteristics and at-
tributes which he has, to travel the
way to perfection so that eventually
we may become as he is.
In the words of Elder George Q.
Morris :
The obligations are such and our rela-
tions to him [Jesus Christ] are such that
it is our most serious duty in life to know
him and love him and keep his com-
mandments and thereby know and love
our Father in heaven and keep his com-
mandments, because he is the messenger
from the Father; he is the one chosen of
the Father to represent him in the earth,
chosen of the Father to be the Redeemer
of the world, chosen of the Father to be
the Creator of the world. Into his hands
the Father has placed all things, and we
are in his hands. One day we will stand
before him to be judged, and we will be
judged as to our relations to him and our
attitude towards him and whether or not
we have listened to his word and kept his
commandments. We will all come to
that day and to that accounting, and so
will every man and woman in the
world . . . (Morris, George Q., 125th
Annual Church Conference).
Summary
Religious symbols dedicated to a
God requiring appeasement or to a
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brought up to respect them. Ap-
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or in want of his magical help are
not the alternatives which can be
held by a religiously mature person
seeking to lead a spiritual life. Rath-
er the profound conviction of a
nearness to God, a feeling of mutual
love for one another, not only wid-
ens one's religious horizons, but
provides the opportunity for the
kind of personal growth and devel-
opment which we Latter-day Saints
believe inherently exist in man.
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Thoughts for Discussion
i. What does it mean to love God, to
know God?
2. We are all aware of how one's repu-
tation develops and how it varies from
one person to another. Discuss how our
concept of God develops in our minds.
3. Give additional examples or experi-
ences which illustrate the concepts of a
God of fear, a God of magic, and a God
of love.
4. How does our concept of God affect
the kind of relationship we establish with
God?
5. In what specific ways does the con-
cept of a God of love widen our religious
horizons?
6. How can we teach our children to
know and love God?
uitlt kluatl
Mafia McCkJhnd Buik
So many sounds of my childhood
Come to my memory's ear —
Some soft and half-forgotten,
But one that's always clear
Is the strange cry of the hill quail
I remember in the fall.
And clear as it was to a barefoot child,
My heart still hears that call.
How I long to return to the old ranch,
When cottonwood leaves are falling,
Where far in the distance I'll hear again
The hill quail calling, calling.
(July [Road
Katheiine F. Larsen
A gray road calls me
When bright summer sun
Thickens the lane's pale dust,
And all the tasks undone
Oppress me through the noontime heat;
Oh, then my feet would run
Shoeless, scuffing the hot dust
Of the road;
Would flail a slope, and spurn the rocks
To know the summit won!
indelible
Roberta L. Theobald
As clouds of flaming gold
Become a leaden shroud
For the dusky mountain,
So the warm pain of farewell
Hangs a gray mantle on my heart.
Oh, let me remember not
How, when your hand touched mine,
My heart took wings.
Let me no longer dream dreams,
Or hope, or whisper, though my heart
Is waiting to hear your name.
Remember not ecstacy?
Indelible, it marks the soul.
Now, though into oblivion
Goes part of my heart,
There is no bitterness;
I asked to know.
And I must remember;
Remembering brings an afterglow.
.yoy or Sorrow
Celia Luce
WE speak of the great joy that must
have filled the hearts of those who
knew and loved Jesus when he was on
earth. We also wonder how anyone could
have cast him out and tortured him.
Yet we have the same decision to
make, with the same rewards or regrets.
God is near me, wanting to guide my
life and let his influence be felt. He
wants to surround me with his love. I
have only to learn the great love which
he asks. Then I, too, will feel him very
close to me, filling and guiding my life.
I, too, may reject and cast him out.
If I live by hate, not by love, I drive him
from me. Since he loves me, I give him
wounds of unhappiness. Some on
Golgotha did not know what they were
doing. I do.
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VOL 47 AUGUST 1960 NO. 8
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SPECIAL FEATURES
The Sixth White House Conference on Children and Youth Marion D. Hanks 500
Alice Ludlow Wilkinson Appointed to the General Board of Relief Society
Lyman S. Tyler 504
LaPriel Strong Bunker Appointed to the General Board of Relief Society
Zina Y. C. Brown 505
Marie Curtis Richards Appointed to the General Board of Relief Society
Hulda Parker 506
Irene Williams Buehner Appointed to the General Board of Relief Society
Conrad Harrison 507
History Turns Back Its Pages — The Bee Hive House Restored — Part II
Helen Young Spencer Williams 508
Handwork for Happiness (Detachable Insert) following page 528
Handwork submitted by Irene C. Lloyd, Melba Larson, Ila C. Norton,
Connie C. Madsen, Carol P. Daynes, and Norma M. Clark
FICTION
Orchids in the Snow — Chapter 4 Rosa Lee Lloyd 524
One of Them Betty Lou Martin 529
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 498
Sixty Years Ago 520
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 521
Editorial: The Value of Work Louise W. Madsen 522
Notes to the Field: The Annual General Relief Socety Conference 524
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 532
Birthday Congratulations 564
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Cutting Patterns Evelyn Dorio 519
A Musical Hobby — Florence Bellows, "Organist for Everything" 531
LESSONS FOR NOVEMBER
Theology — The Law of Moral Conduct Roy W. Doxey 539
Visiting Teacher Messages — "And Ye Must Give Thanks Unto God"
Christine H. Robinson 546
Work Meeting — Manifestations of Illness Maria Johnson 548
Literature — Washington Irving, Polished Paradox Briant S. Jacobs 552
Social Science — Expanding Our Religious Horizons — Part II:
Concepts of Man Blaine M. Porter 558
POETRY
With Inner Balm — Frontispiece Alice Morrey Bailey 497
Day at Galilee Sylvia Probst Young 503
Hasten Slowly Roberta L. Theobald 518
Summer Night Zara Sabin 523
First Grandchild Maude Rubin 523
Close of Day Catherine B. Bowles 547
Night Song in August Beulah Huish Sadleir 564
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The Sixth White House Conference
on Children and Youth
Elder Marion D. Hanks
Of the First Council of Seventy
[Elder Marion D. Hanks delivered one of the principal addresses on the opening day of
the White House Conference on Children and Youth. — Ed.]
WHEN President Theodore welfare standards, health and pro-
Roosevelt called the first tection, children in a democracy,
White House Conference and children and youth at mid-
on Children and Youth in 1909, he century. One of the milestones in
initiated what has become an im- the tradition was the issuance of the
portant tradition in the United well-known Children's Charter of
States of America. Every ten years 1930. This year's conference had
since then there has been a White as its objective "To promote oppor-
House Conference concerned with tunities for children and youth to
the Nation's children and youth, realize their full potential for a cre-
Looking to the new decade ahead, ative life in freedom and dignity/'
President Eisenhower issued the call Whether or not this objective is
for the Sixth White House Con- realized, and to what degree, is not,
ference to convene in Washington of course, dependent on the meet-
in March of i960, a call responded ings and speeches and reports and
to by every State and territory in resolutions of the five days in
the Nation. Washington. Great expenditures of
More than 7,600 delegates gath- time and energy and effort have
ered in Washington at the appoint- been made all over the United
ed time. In addition to States and States for the past two years in
territories, there were present local planning and preparation, and
members and representatives of the the inspiration and enthusiasm en-
Supreme Court, the President's gendered by the conference itself is
Cabinet, Congress, national organ- just now beginning to be felt in
izations, Government agencies, and the local communities, where alone
more than 500 international guests, can be accomplished the purposes
More than a thousand of the dele- of the White House Conference,
gates were young people from six- The results of the research and
teen to twenty-one, roughly the reporting by local groups and indi-
same percentage of that age group viduals in every State and territory
as in the Nation's population. are available in many volumes of
The first White House Confer- useful books, and are observable in
ence on Children and Youth fifty the new and renewed effort being
years ago concerned itself with exerted in thousands of communi-
dependent children. Subsequent ties in the cause of children and
conferences have emphasized child youth.
Page 500
THE SIXTH WHITE HOUSE CONFERENCE ON CHILDREN AND YOUTH
501
VVTHITE House Conferences have
traditionally had several pur-
poses:
To Review present conditions and cir-
cumstances affecting children and youth . .
To Report on the studies, findings, and
recommendations of local, national and
governmental groups, organizations, and
agencies.
To Exchange knowledge, ideas, and
points of view across professional, geo-
graphic, and other special interest lines.
To Evaluate progress and past perform-
ance.
To Recommend action for the fu-
ture.
Obviously, the "resolutions"
which came out of various groups
in the conference are not the
really important thing accomplished.
It should be said that criticism
against the conference on the score
of unwieldiness and the nature of
some of the "resolutions" adopted
by some of the groups in the clos-
ing hours of the meetings is in the
main not well founded. Notwith-
standing the large numbers present
at the conference, arrangements
were so carefully and expertly pro-
grammed that every participant had
more than ample opportunity for
expression of his viewpoints in the
many hours of small work group
discussion. The larger "forums"
and "theme assemblies" provided
opportunities for the expression of
varied opinion by experts and
specialists, and the work groups of
some fifteen to twenty-five individ-
uals were characterized by free ex-
change over many hours of meeting
together.
While many of the "resolutions"
passed by small voting groups do
not represent my own viewpoint
and, in fact, are directly opposite
from my viewpoint and those of
many others in attendance, this is
not a major issue in evaluating the
worth of the experience. Several
million citizens participated in activ-
ities leading up to the conference.
Millions more will be affected by
the interest and enthusiasm en-
gendered by the conference. My
own experience was that the detailed
and demanding preparations, the
stimulus of learning and exchanging
facts and ideas there, and the great
challenge ahead in seeking to serve
youth, together, make having at-
tended the conference a most worth-
while and valuable experience.
Members of The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints were in
attendance from at least seven dif-
ferent States, and many took leading
parts in the programs. Relief So-
ciety members will be interested to
learn that many of the Church's
views about home, family, religious
participation, parental responsibility
and example, church and commu-
nity youth programs, youth partici-
pation, and many other matters
were reflected in the proceedings of
the conference and in the recom-
mendations. Utah and the Church
were represented by some strong
and able women who exemplified
and presented our views most
effectively.
CUBSTANTIALLY, every speaker
over the five days of meetings
affirmed faith in the family as the
central unit and most important
agency in our society, and pro-
claimed that "the integrity of the
family is essential to our existence
now and in the future." The con-
ference called for "better parental
example . . . family discussion . . .
quality family relationships . . .
proper preparation for marriage . . .
family recreation . . . recognition
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of the function of the family to
carry out its responsibilities to chil-
dren according to the primary obli-
gation of marriage under God . . .
rededication to the unchanging
values which give meaning to life —
reaffirmation of our belief in the
dignity and worth of the individual,
and that each child should be en-
abled to realize his full potentiali-
ties:'
Participants asked that youth "be
given opportunity for leadership
responsibilities — that they be given
more occasions for participation in
art, drama, literature, music, sports,
and creative and cultural and social
activities . . . that programs for
youth seek to heighten their under-
standing of God and their relation-
ship to him and their fellow men."
Radio, television, magazines, and
newspapers were encouraged to "de-
vote more space to positive ac-
complishments of children and
youth . . . that emphasis on horror,
crime and violence be avoided . . .
that respect for life and people be
encouraged by truthful portrayals of
decency and the good in life . . .
and that the public make their
opinions known to broadcasters
through letters respecting pro-
g-rams."
The motion picture industry was
"encouraged to produce and distri-
bute appropriate pictures for chil-
dren and youth . . . not to exploit
subjects such as narcotics and sexual
perversion ... to attempt to por-
tray the solid majority of moral
Americans faithfully."
Recommendation was made dur-
ing the conference that community
organizations join forces to "ac-
quaint children and youth with the
causes of alcoholism, its effect on
health, and related problems ... to
alert adolescents to the increasing
evidence of casual relationship be-
tween smoking and lung cancer."
During the conference support
was heard for religious education,
including released time, for greater
emphasis in families on family wor-
ship and family participation in
organized religious activity, and for
the affirmation of the importance of
personal faith in God and of moral
and religious values. Interestingly,
the conference called for "renewed
manifestation by adult society of
ethics, morality, integrity and love
of fellow men, as prerequisite to
effective juvenile delinquency pre-
vention," and asked that "youth be
assured by adult example of a sys-
tem of definite moral and spiritual
values based on religious faith, the
dignity of man, and the established
laws of society."
The importance of work and of
children being permitted to learn to
work and to be taught the value of
work were emphasized in the meet-
ings.
Working mothers who leave their
children when they do not need to
do so were criticized and the prac-
tice discouraged.
There were many recommenda-
tions about education and vocation-
al and employment opportunities,
about human rights, the shifting
population, about ideals and values
in religion, welfare and health
services, recreation, handicapped
children, juvenile delinquency, com-
munity planning and co-ordination
of responsible agencies, and on fol-
lowing up the information and
experience acquired in conference
participation and preparation.
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IN summary, while there were grateful and that I loved my family
some things said and some and my country, but oh! I just
recommendations ultimately made didn't know!"
with which many participants would Most of us came out of the con-
have little or no sympathy, the over- ference with a strong sense of ap-
all experience was one of enjoyment preciation for our great heritage of
and appreciation and enthusiasm, principles, programs, and inspired
Earnest, sincerely interested adults leadership in the Church which
from all over the Nation met in an have combined to bless us with
honest effort to help the youth. All what obviously is the very thing for
of those with whom I personally which people from all over the
met in the conference were grateful country were seeking. That a num-
and enthused with what was to be ber of the members of the Church
learned and with the animation and were privileged to help explain this
motivation available there. to many of the participants provided
Perhaps one of the wonderful a great missionary opportunity, per-
youngsters who attended this con- haps second to none in its favorable
ference from Utah summed it up circumstances and impressive form,
for us better than the rest of us Fathers and mothers and families
could, when she said "This has in the Church have an even greater
been the greatest experience of my incentive now to provide the love
life. To see all these wonderful peo- and leadership and example which
pie who are so sincerely interested our voung people need and which
in serving and helping the youth, the solid majority of them really
When I came here I thought I was want.
'jOciy at y^cililee
Sylvia Piobst Young
On such a summer dav as this,
A day of sky blue loveliness,
When sunlight kissed the blue glass sea —
He came to Galilee.
He came when lilies blossomed fair,
When breezes whispered on the air —
He came with quiet, humble grace. . . .
We looked upon his face.
We saw the children at his knee,
We saw him make the blind to see —
The sick, the lame, the poor, oppressed
By him were blessed.
We heard the wondrous truths he taught,
We felt the gentle peace he brought . . .
Among the favored ones were we
Who found the Lord at Galilee.
xjLlice JLudlow vi/ilkmson *ylppointed to the
(general [Board of [Relief Society
Lyman S. Tyler
Director of Libraries, Brigham Young University
A LICE Ludlow Wilkinson was
appointed to the Relief Society
General Board, June l, i960. Over
thirty years of service have given her
an abiding love for Relief Society.
Born of pioneer ancestry in
Spanish Fork, the eldest child of
Nathaniel and Margaret Jones Lud-
low, hers was the joyful life normal-
ly experienced in Latter-day Saint
homes. She met Ernest LeRoy Wil-
kinson at Brigham Young Univer-
sity. After beginning their careers as
teachers, they were married, August
15, 1923.
Both continued to teach in
Washington, D. C, to enable
Brother Wilkinson to receive his
training in law. Theirs was the
struggle experienced by countless
young couples seeking higher edu-
cation. Their eldest son was born
during student years at George
Washington University. Their five
children are: Dr. Ernest Ludlow,
M.D., Marian (Mrs. Gordon F.
Jensen), Alice Ann (Mrs. John K.
Mangum), David Lawrence, and
Douglas Dwight. There are nine
grandchildren.
During almost three decades in
the Washington-New York area, the
family remained close to the
Church. Since student years, Alice
has regularly held some Church
assignment. She has had positions
in the Primary, Latter-day Saint
Girls Program, and the Mutual Im-
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ALICE L. WILKINSON
provement Association. In Relief
Society she served as ward literature
class leader and counselor in New
York and as ward president under
three bishops in Washington, D.C.
Since returning to Provo, her role
as the President's wife has been
filled with quiet dignity, but her
warmth and devotion have endeared
her to faculty and student body.
When the original Brigham
Young University Stake was organ-
ized, the young women welcomed
Sister Wilkinson's appointment as
stake Relief Society president. They
rejoice in her new calling.
JLalPriel Strong {Bunker Jxppointed to the
Qeneral (Board of [Relief Society
Zina Y. C. Brown
T APRIEL Strong Bunker comes
to the General Board of Relief
Society with unusual qualifications.
Her appointment to this position
came June 1, i960. She was born
in Salt Lake City to William Hill
Strong and Clara Ann Bishop, the
youngest of twelve children.
She was married to Bryan L.
Bunker in the Salt Lake Temple on
April 20, 1923. They made their
home in Las Vegas, Nevada, with
the exception of two years in Los
Angeles, until they moved to Salt
Lake City, Utah, in August 1959.
Sister Bunker served as head of
the Relief Society in the California
Mission when her husband pre-
sided over that mission. She
had been president of the Moapa
Stake Relief Society and had served
previously as first counselor to two
stake Relief Society presidents. She
has served in class leadership in all
departments of Relief Society. Her
record of nearly thirty years as a
visiting teacher is as remarkable as
her twenty-eight years as ward and
stake organist, which included her
position as accompanist for the
Singing Mothers.
All this time given to the work of
the kingdom has not barred her from
being a wonderful wife and mother.
Indeed, her first responsibility in
this "work in the kingdom" has
been to her noble companion and
their seven sons, with whom this
marriage was blessed. Three of
these sons died in infancy.
LAPRIEL S. BUNKER
The eldest son, Bryan Allen, was
graduated from the University of
Utah. He married Merle Tietjen.
Douglas Rich married Carol Rae
Brown. He is receiving his Doc-
torate from Harvard University this
summer. Garry, the third son, who
is working on his Master's degree
at Brigham Young University, mar-
ried Carolyn Marie Brown. David
Sterling, the youngest, will enter the
B.Y.U. this fall.
Sister Bunker is truly all that the
ideal Latter-day Saint woman should
be. Her cheerful and buoyant
spirit radiates love and good will
wherever she goes. She is beloved
by her husband, sons, daughters-in-
law, and her eleven grandchildren.
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1 1 lane Courtis LKichards J/Lppointed to the
(general [Board of [Relief Society
Hulda Parker
General Secretary-Treasurer, Relief Society
great-grandparents, converts to the
Church, who lived in a small suburb
of London, England. In the early
days of the Church there, they ac-
cepted the gospel and, in order that
their posterity could have a heritage
near the heart of the Church, thev
7 j
sent their oldest and youngest sons
(the latter Marie's grandfather, then
just six years of age), to America
with the missionaries.
Her service in the Church has in-
cluded a mission in the Eastern
States Mission, secretary and guide
at the Bureau of Information at Hill
Cumorah, ward Y. W.M.I. A. presi-
dent, secretary to the stake Girls
Committee, and stake Junior Glean-
er leader. Prior to her marriage, she
worked as a legal secretary, as secre-
tary to Elder John D. Giles, former
business manager of The Improve-
ment Era, and, later, as editorial
secretary of The Instructor.
Sister Richards was married in
the Salt Lake Temple, July 1952, to
M. Ross Richards. In February 1955,
he was called to preside over the
East Central States Mission, where
he and Sister Richards have been
serving for the past five years. As
mission Relief Society president,
Sister Richards won the love and
respect of the members of this
mission, and under her leadership
commendable progress was made in
the work of Relief Society.
With a continued desire to serve
the Lord with all her heart and soul,
she will give freely of her talents
and abilities in her new calling to
further the work of Relief Society.
MARIE C. RICHARDS
A/FARIE Curtis Richards, appoint-
ed to the General Board of
Relief Society, June 1, i960, re-
sponds humbly to this new calling
with a rich background of training
and of service and leadership in the
Church.
As a daughter of Lydia Badham
Curtis and Heber Willis Curtis, she
was born in Salt Lake City, but her
childhood and school days were
spent in Long Beach, California,
where she graduated from the Long
Beach Junior College, majoring in
law and secretarial work.
Sister Richards has a fervent testi-
mony of the gospel and is a diligent
Church worker. These qualities, she
feels, are partially attributable to her
noble heritage stemming from her
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cJ-rene vUilliams [liuehner ^yippointed to the
(general {Board of [Relief Society
Conrad Harrison
Member, Parleys Stake High Council
TRENE Williams Buehner was
appointed to the General Board
of Relief Society, June 1, i960,
marking a new climax in her life of
devoted service to the Church.
Sister Buehner was born in Salt
Lake City to Ben and Minnie Mad-
sen Williams, who today live not
far from the Buehner residence in
Parleys Stake.
The new board member graduat-
ed from the L.D.S. High School
and Business College and attended
the University of Utah for three
years, with Home Economics as her
principal study. She left school
upon her marriage to Paul Buehner,
May 29, 1935, in the Salt Lake
Temple.
Together they have created a
warm and spiritual home for their
five children, two of them now mar-
ried and the mothers of the Bueh-
ners' five grandchildren. Linda is
married to Grant E. Marsh, and
Joan (Penny) to Taylor S. Merrill,
both of Salt Lake City. Timothy,
who filled a mission to Samoa, Paul,
and Carolvn are still at home.
Sister Buehner brings a wealth of
experience to her new assignment.
For the past several years she has
served in the Volunteer Auxiliary of
the L.D.S. Hospital in Salt Lake
City. She was president of the lat-
ter organization in 1959-60.
Following the example of her
mother and two grandmothers, Sis-
ter Buehner has dedicated a great
share of her time to the Relief
Society program. She taught the
IRENE W. BUEHNER
visiting teacher lessons and later
served as secretary and then coun-
selor in the Relief Society presi-
dency of Parleys Ward, where she
now resides. Her wonderful influ-
ence also has been felt by the young
people in her service as an officer
and teacher in M.I.A. and as a
teacher in Primary and Sunday
School.
To go with her many capabilities,
Sister Buehner possesses a bright,
sweet spirit, a deep humility, and a
full and abiding testimony of the
gospel of Jesus Christ. Her warmth
and wholesomeness, plus her genu-
ine and sincere love for the Relief
Society program, are among other
possessions which will make her a
valued General Board member.
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History Turns Back Its Pages
THE BEE HIVE HOUSE
RESTORED
Part II
Helen Young Spencer Williams
Secretary, Bee Hive House Restoration Committee
HTHE Bee Hive House was built and its architecture picturesque, a
to stand for a hundred years, landmark in the history and culture
Its foundations firm, its walls solid, of Utah.
Photograph Courtesy Connie Young Dorton
BRIGIIAM YOUNG AND MARY ANN ANGELL YOUNG AND THEIR FAMILY
Standing at the back, left to right: Joseph Angell Young; Brigham Young, Jr., and
Mary Ann (twins) .
In front, with her father, Brigham Young, Luna; Alice; John Willard, sitting on
his mother's lap.
Mary Ann Angell Young and her family lived in the Bee Hive House from 1854
to i860.
The original painting for this photograph was made in Nauvoo, Illinois.
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HISTORY TURNS BACK ITS PAGES
509
LUCY ANN DECKER YOUNG
Wife of Brigham Young, who lived with
her children in the Bee Hive House from
i860 to 1!
The Bee Hive House was first
occupied by Mary Ann Angell
Young, wife of President Young
and the mother of a large family,
all of whom were born before com-
ing to Utah. She was always known
as Mother Young to the rest of the
families and was loved and revered
by them. She and her family lived
in the Bee Hive House from 1854
to i860. Then, in i860, Lucy Ann
Decker Young moved into the Bee
Hive House with her family, and
Mary Ann took her residence in a
home known as the "White House"
which stood where the Elks Club
is located now at 139 East South
Temple Street. Lucy Ann, with
her children, lived in the Bee Hive
House until 1888. It was then that
she failed in health and sold the
Bee Hive House to John W. Young,
a son of President Young and Mary
Ann Angell Young. President
Brigham Young passed away in
1877.
It was not until the home was
sold to John W. Young that any
major changes were made in the
original plans of the house. He
added a large rear wing. The front
hallway was changed, and beautiful
oak paneling replaced the quaint,
old painted marble squares. The
original spiral staircase which went
from the door of the sitting room
up the east wall to the third floor
was removed, and a handsome oak
staircase with a square landing, ele-
gant carved railings, and newel posts
with beautiful lamps were installed
on the west side of the hall.
Many other changes were made,
as the house was remodeled through-
out. A roof was added to the upper
original open porch. Some parti-
tions were removed and others
added. The quaint old Lady Frank-
lin stoves were replaced by handsome
stone fireplaces and mirrors were
placed over the ornate mantels. The
original Brigham Young mantels
were made of wood, simply carved,
then painted to match the wood-
work. A large formal dining room
was added directly north of the
downstairs sitting and sewing room.
The woodwork was changed
throughout from the painted grained
pine to resemble walnut. The
sixteen-foot ceilings were lowered,
the narrow doorways widened and
heightened, and sliding doors re-
placed the small original hinged
ones that were of colonial design.
With elegant furnishings, beauti-
ful crystal chandeliers, and steam
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PRESIDENT LORENZO SNOW PRESIDENT JOSEPH F. SMITH
Both of these Presidents of the Church lived in the Bee Hive House
heated radiators, the interior of the
house became transformed. The
original small-paned windows were
changed to large flat glass ones. The
quaint old green shutters which
opened back against the outside
yellow walls were removed. In this
beautiful remodeled mansion several
prominent families, from time to
time, lived after the time of John
W. Young.
The Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints eventually pur-
chased the Bee Hive House as its
official residence for the Presidents
of the Church. President Lorenzo
Snow lived there only a short time,
then President Joseph F. Smith
moved into the Bee Hive House and
lived there with his wonderful fam-
ily for nineteen years. President
John Taylor and his family resided
in the Gardo House across the street
from the Bee Hive House. This
residence had also been purchased
by the Church.
What a superb environment for
a growing family was the Bee Hive
House, with beautifully furnished
rooms and long halls, front stairs
and back stairs, bedrooms and
closets to romp through. Such
a home for parties of all kinds,
attics for hide-and-seek games, and
lovely, spacious rooms for ideal fam-
ily living. There were wide lawns
and gardens to enjoy and in which
to play. The families of the beloved
Joseph F. Smith, as well as the
friends of their children, have won-
derful memories of the Bee Hive
House. It was much more than an
official residence — it was home to
all who ever resided there.
PRESIDENT Joseph F. Smith
was the last President of the
Church to use the Bee Hive House
HISTORY TURNS BACK ITS PAGES
511
as his official home. For some
years after he and his family moved,
the house stood vacant. After stand-
ing unoccupied for many years, it
was then assigned to serve as a home
for out-of-town girls under the direc-
tion of the Y.W.M.I.A. Hundreds
of different girls over a period of
years lived in the Bee Hive House
under the supervision and direction
of motherly, capable women who
made it a home away from home for
girls who came into the city as
strangers seeking employment until
they acquired permanent housing.
Many people expressed the feeling
that as a girl's home it was a living
monument to the early pioneers.
The Y.W.M.I.A. Presidency always
maintained the Bee Hive House
beautifully and efficiently.
The United States Government,
in 1937, named the Bee Hive House
in Salt Lake City, Utah, as a nation-
al shrine, so designated by the
Historic American Buildings Survey
under the supervision of the Na-
tional Parks Service. An official
plaque denoting this distinctive
honor was placed in the Bee Hive
House. The architectural plans of
the Bee Hive House, at this time,
were placed in the Library of Con-
gress.
In July 1959, the Presiding Bish-
opric, Joseph L. Wirthlin, Thorpe
B. Isaacson, and Carl W. Buehner,
with the authorization of President
Courtesy Don Carlos Young, Jr.
THE EAST SIDE OF THE BEE HIVE HOUSE
Note the long veranda on the second story and the Bee Hive on top of the house.
This photograph shows the nine-foot cobble rock wall after it had been lowered.
John W. Young made extensive changes both in the interior of the house and on the
grounds.
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Boyart Studio
THE FIRST PRESIDENCY OF THE CHURCH AUTHORIZED THE
RESTORATION OF THE BEE HIVE HOUSE
Left to right: President J. Reuben Clark, Jr., First Counselor; President David O.
McKay; President Henry D. Moyle, Second Counselor.
David O. McKay and his counselors,
President J. Reuben Clark, Jr. and
President Henry D. Moyle, decided
to restore the Bee Hive House as it
was from 1854, wnen it was built,
until 1877 when President Brigham
Young passed away.
^HE committee called to under-
take the restoration of the Bee
Hive House was comprised of Don
Carlos Young, American Institute
of Architects, as chairman; with
George Cannon Young, Fellow
American Institute of Architects, as
supervising architect; Georgius
Young Cannon, American Institute
of Architects and American Insti-
tute of Decorators, supervising
architect in charge of construction
and interior decorating; Helen
Young Spencer Williams as secre-
tary, and Gwen Young Wilcox,
antiquarian and researcher.
During those early meetings,
in July of 1959, the Bee Hive
House Restoration Committee made
the decision, with the approval of
the Presiding Bishopric and the
First Presidencv, that the restora-
tion of the Bee Hive House would
be done as authentically and as
beautifullv as possible. With this
as the premise, the work has gone
forward. Through research and
through the unearthing and sub-
stantiation of evidence found, by
tearing out and finding the original
materials, such as the kinds of wood,
adobes, stone, paint, etc., and the
finding of imprints as to where
doors, stairs, walls, and windows
were placed originally, the house is
now being rebuilt and restored as it
was originally.
Manuscripts written by Clarissa
Young Spencer, daughter of Lucy
Ann Decker Young and President
Young, who lived in the Bee Hive
House from the age of four years
until six and one-half years after
her marriage, have proved invalu-
able. These articles, written for her
HISTORY TURNS BACK ITS PAGES
513
children for their Treasures of
Truth books, describe in detail the
architecture of the house, its exact
furnishings, the surrounding gardens
and grounds. These detailed articles
must have been written with inspira-
tion, for they have been a key to
the research. Changes and remodel-
ing have been made according to
her writings only as they have been
authenticated with actual evidence,
and through research. For example,
her description of the spiral stair-
case on the east side of the front
wall, proved to be exact when the
original detailed drawings made in
1853 by Truman O. Angell, the
architect, were found. These draw-
ings showed every detail and dimen-
sion of the staircase, railings, and
newel posts. Walls and ceiling
heights, as described by Sister Spen-
cer, were found to be exact.
When the many, many coats of
paint and plaster were removed from
the walls, the old adobes came to
view, and the imprints of the
original doorways were indelibly
marked. Also, partition marks were
revealed, showing the exact dimen-
sions of the various rooms. When
the lowered ceiling in the front hall
was removed, the doorbell described
in Part I of this article was found.
Gallons and gallons of paint remov-
er have been used, and the original
Courtesy Deseret News
THE PRESIDING BISHOPRIC OF THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST
OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
Under whose direction the historic Bee Hive House is being restored.
Left to right: Bishop Thorpe B. Isaacson; Bishop Carl W. Buehner; Presiding
Bishop Joseph L. Wirthlin.
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imm-, m.
MEMBERS OF THE COMMITTEE FOR THE RESTORATION OF
THE BEE HIVE HOUSE
Top picture, left to right: Don Carlos Young, Jr., American Institute of Archi-
tects, Chairman; George Cannon Young, Fellow, American Institute of Architects,
Supervising Architect; Georgius Young Cannon, American Institute of Architects and
American Institute of Decorators, Supervising Architect in charge of construction
and interior decorating.
Lower, left to right: Gwen Young Wilcox, Antiquarian and Researcher; Helen
Young Spencer Williams, Secretary.
colors of the walls and moldings, so tic as possible. Many construction
described, have been found. Samples problems had to be taken into
of these colors have all been taken consideration for the safety and
and will be reproduced after new security of the building,
plastering is done throughout. The
Bee Hive House, when the restora- HTIIE floors will be replaced with
tion is completed, will be as authen- original pine or fir. The front
HISTORY TURNS BACK ITS PAGES
515
part of the house and the office
once again will be exactly as Presi-
dent Brigham Young had them. The
large room directly back of the
downstairs sitting room which was
added by John W. Young, the large
back hall, and the two rooms up-
stairs added by John W. Young will
be restored in their period with orig-
inal furniture from the Gardo House.
John A. Spencer, Jr.
Universal Microfilm Co.
Donated by members of the John F. Bennett
family.
CRANBERRY GLASS
LAMP
COAL-OIL
This was the house built for enter-
taining across the street from the
Bee Hive House, and which was
later called the Amelia Palace. John
W. Young had exquisite mid-Vic-
torian furnishings. With the many
original pieces of furniture from the
Universal Microfilm Co.
CLARISSA HAMILTON YOUNG
SPENCER AS A CHILD
Born July 23, i860 - Married
January 19, 1882
From the time she was a baby until she
had been married six and a half years,
Clarissa lived in the Bee Hive House. Her
descriptive manuscripts of the memories of
her life in the Bee Hive House have been
a guide in the restoration of this historic
old home. These memoirs were written
for her children's "Treasures of Truth"
books.
Gardo House, with cornices, drap-
eries, and carpets authentic to the
period, these rooms which were
added by John W. Young when he
remodeled will be evidence of the
period in which he lived.
Many fixtures and original Bee
Hive House pieces of furniture have
already been acquired. These articles
have been located in places and
ways that have been remarkable and
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AUTHENTIC FURNITURE FROM THE GARDO HOUSE WHICH WAS
BUILT BY PRESIDENT BRIGHAM YOUNG FOR SOCIAL
FUNCTIONS AND ENTERTAINING
inspirational. Samples of the origi-
nal fabrics which covered the chairs
have been found. Some were fold-
ed, wrapped in tissue paper, labeled
in handwriting, and dated.
Many people who have been
made aware of the restoration of
this lovely old home have donated
generously. The finding of one
article has also led to the location
of others. Every gift received, every
article purchased, has been acknowl-
edged with a legal document, with
the explanation that the names of
the donors will not be attached to
the articles given, because, when the
house is finished, it is the hope of
the committee that the house will
give the appearance that a family
and notable persons lived there.
Those who have so donated, or sold
some of their cherished possessions,
seem to have caught the spirit of
the endeavor and do not desire rec-
ognition for their gifts, but sincerely
wish to help create the atmosphere
of a home lived in and loved by
President Brigham Young.
The old store which was such an
integral part of the Brigham Young
home will once again be established.
The same glass candy jars which
filled the shelves have been found,
as have many other articles that
HISTORY TURNS BACK ITS PAGES
517
once were there. Old time calicoes,
laces, buttons, embroideries, and
thread will line the shelves.
^HE heating and lighting systems
through the office and house
will be concealed. The illusion
that the heat comes from the Lady
Franklin stoves standing in front of
the replicas of the original mantels,
and the light, from the old pull
down coal-oil lamps, will not be de-
stroyed by modern fixtures. How-
ever, in the John W. Young rooms,
which are being restored as he had
them, the radiators which he in-
stalled will once again be put in
place. One of the original Bee
Hive House mantels of 1853 has
been found and will be copied for
placement throughout the home,
for it was in front of these old wood-
en mantels that the Lady Franklin
stoves stood.
The outside grounds, with their
rose and grape arbors and gardens,
the flagstone veranda, the carriage
drives, the fruit trees, and the old-
fashioned flowers, as well as the old
pump, will be replaced as nearly as
possible. The wide green lawns and
gardens and Bee Hive House
grounds, however, have necessarily
been greatly reduced for the con-
venience of modern traffic, in the
name of progress, and for this reason
the garden cannot be restored to its
original size.
Fifteen rooms will be restored
with the furnishings and belongings
typical of the original period from
1853 to 1877. Dishes, utensils,
lamps, curtains, and carpets will
again furnish the rooms. Dolls and
toys and children's little chairs will
be placed as if the little ones had
just left their play when called to
supper, to prayers, and bed. Cover-
lets, Kensington tapestries, and
many exquisite wall hangings, along
with many other personal and au-
thentic objects, will create the feel-
ing that the families still live there
and love the rooms.
It is the sincere hope of the com-
mittee and the Presiding Bishopric,
under whose direction this restora-
tion has been made, that when the
Bee Hive House is opened for
the public to enjoy and visit, that
the spirit of those who lived in the
rooms may be felt, and that the
atmosphere of wholesome family
life of those who worked and played
in the gardens and the house will
be present.
Photograph by John A. Spencer, Jr.
Courtesy Rehan Spencer West
to the Bee Hive Restoration
ORIGINAL KENSINGTON
TAPESTRY WHICH HUNG IN THE
BEE HIVE HOUSE
This tapestry was presented to President
Brigham Young as a gift of appreciation by
the woman who made it. She was stranded
with her family, on the way to California
during the Gold Rush days, and was given
lodging and provisions by President Young.
The size of the tapestry is three by four feet.
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John A. Spencer, Jr.
ORIGINAL PIONEER TOYS
"One cannot escape history." The corded the history of the family life,
Bee Hive House stands today after the spirituality, education, and cul-
one hundred years as a monument, ture of the early period of pioneer
Within its walls and rooms is re- life in the Great Salt Lake Valley.
(jlasten Slowly
Roberta L. Theobald
Hasten slowly, time.
Let happiness wing to me quickly,
Settle softly.
And linger long, oblivious of time.
Let the midmorning blasts
Mark time
For progress and industry.
But for the filaments of the heart,
Hasten slowly, time.
(cutting [Patterns
Evelyn Doiio
"C^OR several years I had in my rose garden a small bush that produced
only a few clusters of lack-luster roses each spring and then, for the
remainder of the season, tried to grow long octopus-like branches over the
wall behind it. All summer long as I trimmed off those useless branches,
Fd say, "What an odd bush this is! A kind of garden non-conformist, it
never amounts to anything, and it's so different from those other rose-
bushes that reward me with blossoms far into the fall. One of these days
I'll just dig this useless plant up and replace it with a real bloomer."
But last spring, when I did the yearly pruning, it occurred to me that
perhaps this sprawling rose was really at heart, a climbing rose. Well, if
it wants to climb, I decided, I'll let it climb and see what happens. Instead
of pruning off the canes, I merely pruned alongside their entire length,
set up a trellis behind the main stem, and waited. Soon as the air warmed,
the plant began to send out shoots in all directions, and before long they
had reached beyond the trellis, to the edge of the wall, and even peeked over
it. So lush was the leaf growth that it was almost blooming season before
I noticed the dozens of scattered bud-clusters. But when those buds
opened, the entire wall became transformed into an interior decorator's
rich design of rose-patterned wallpaper! The canes were sturdy, the leaves
glossy, as if varnished, and the blossoms, ripe-red. Except for the original
root stem, the plant had no resemblance to the old bush rose.
COMETIMES, do we try to force human climbing roses into bush roses?
Do we try to prune personalities into a pattern we have cut for them?
Now if only that Mr. Gregg would have the same political beliefs I have.
And if my neighbors' tastes and opinions agreed with mine, how much
better they'd be! Or if Mr. Beach were just a bit more generous; or some-
body were taller or shorter or different — to fit our pattern! There we go,
pruning away at personalities!
Perhaps we do this with our children, too. Johnny simply has to sing
in the choir, because Grandpa did so all his life; Dick has to be mechanical-
ly minded, because it's handy for a boy in today's world; Sally has to be
an "A" student, because we are happier and more proud if she is. Pruning
away, pruning away at a child's basic personality, often removing the child's
best growth, sometimes denying a youngster the fulfillment of being a
climbing rose by cutting him down to a below-grade stunted bush rose!
When we are willing to allow people to be themselves — their best
selves — we have taken a forward step in our own growth and understand-
ing. And, in addition, we have allowed others the right to turn their
vitality into beauty and usefulness, and to grow and bloom according to
their own inner potential. Both bush roses and climbing roses are needed
to beautify the garden in their own ways.
No individual can cut a pattern for another nor has he that right.
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Sixty Ljears *ylgo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, August 1, and August 15, 1900
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
of All Nations"
A BRAVE WOMAN: There is no braver woman whose home is in the Capital
City than Mrs. Peary, the wife of the arctic explorer. Mrs. Peary left her Washington
home and sailed on the relief ship Windward in the middle of July to Etaw, Greenland,
where, according to previous arrangements, if all went well, she is to meet her husband
some time in August. Should she not find him there awaiting her she may come to
the conclusion that he is not alive, but has perished in his latest attempt to reach the
North Pole, for no tidings have come back from Greenland of any recent signs of
Lieutenant Peary, and it is recorded that last winter was one of the severest ever known
in the Arctic circle. Mrs. Peary is a woman of intrepid bravery and undying devotion.
WOMEN IN EDUCATION: Miss Permeal French, State Superintendent of
Public Instruction of Idaho, has been nominated for a second term on the Democratic
and the Populist tickets. Miss Jessie Reilly has been nominated for the office by the
Republicans.
QUEEN VICTORIA: One is apt to fancy that the British Queen at home would
be handsomely dressed, but such is not the case, for she ... is simply attired in a
black dress, not always of silk, and wears a widow's cap with small lappets at the back,
her silver hair plainly brushed on either side of her temples. Upon her fingers are plain
memorial rings, and she invariably wears a bracelet having the portrait of her latest
grandchild placed in it as a medallion. The Queen always has a handkerchief bordered
with lace resting in her hands as they lie folded in her lap, the survival of an ancient
fashion.
A THREAD OF THOUGHT
. . . Well! here we are, my sisters,
In the classes we came to fill;
Learning our daily lessons,
Doing our Father's will.
He will clasp our hands with welcom
When the mystic veil is drawn,
And as conquerors we enter,
Where we hailed the first Great Dawn.
— L. L. Greene Richards
ST. JOSEPH (ARIZONA) STAKE RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE: Presi-
dent Elizabeth Layton made opening remarks in which she expressed her appreciation
of the attendance . . . urged the presidents to see to it that their secretaries were alive
to their duties, and portrayed the importance of each report being correct. Stake Aid
Elizabeth Moody felt that we were greatly blessed by having our grain and fruit farms
matured. Spoke to the sisters about drying and canning fruit and making it secure
from moth that it might be kept for a time of scarcity. . . . Stake Counselor Adelia
Curtis advised the sisters to study the articles of organization. Be generous and charit-
able towards each other and perform our every duty. . . .
— Sarah Webb, Sec.
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
T
T
HE American woman has been
honored by a new commem-
orative postage stamp issued in June
i960. The four-cent stamp depicts a
mother and a young girl with an
open book before them, "symbol-
izing women in the home."
WO women have recently been
appointed to positions of re-
sponsibility by Governor William
Quinn of Hawaii. Mary Noonan
has been appointed Director of the
State Department of Social Serv-
ices, and Rhoda V. Lewis was ap-
pointed to a judgeship in the State
Supreme Court.
QERTRUDE SUN, Taipei, Tai-
wan (Formosa), is sales repre-
sentative for Northwest Orient Air-
lines in Taipei. On a recent visit
to the United States, Miss Sun
stated that the women of Formosa
are entering many fields of employ-
ment and service formerly not open
to Chinese women. Among these
are medicine, business, journalism,
and politics.
CHRISTIE LUND COLES, a
contributor to The Relief So-
ciety Magazine, tied for first prize in
a recent contest sponsored by the
National Federation of Poetry So-
cieties for a poem on an American
poet. The subject of Mrs. Coles'
entry was Edna St. Vincent Millay.
"DOTH the National Democratic
Committee and the National
Republican Committee have recom-
mended that women have equal
representation with men on all major
national convention committees.
Mrs. Katie Louchheim is vice-chair-
man of the Democratic Committee
and Mrs. Clare Williams is assistant
Republican National chairman. To
include women on all national pol-
icy-making levels would give to
American women more influence
and more responsibility.
A/TRS. BLANCHE STUART
SCOTT, a diminutive, gray-
haired, still-active air pilot of sixty-
seven, became America's first woman
pilot fifty years ago, at the age of
seventeen. She says there are 4,900
trained women pilots in the United
States and adds that women have set
many altitude, distance, and endur-
ance records and have proved their
excellence as pilots for both private
firms and the Government.
OLANCHE KNOPF is the busi-
ness associate as well as the wife
of Alfred A. Knopf, considered by
manv as America's most eminent
publisher (Alfred A. Knopf Publish-
ing Companv). After forty-five
years of publishing as an independ-
ent company, the Knopfs are now
merging with Random House.
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 47
AUGUST 1960
NO. 8
cJne Value of work
[T is a wise person who accepts
the will of the Lord and builds
his life upon that acceptance. It is
the will of the Lord that his chil-
dren work. From the beginning
when Adam and Eve were cast out
of the Garden of Eden he decreed
that "By the sweat of thy face shalt
thou eat bread, until thou shalt
return unto the ground . . ." (Moses
4:25). And so it has been and so
it will continue for all time. The
need to work and the blessings of
work are ever present.
"... I believe that we are here
to work, and I believe there is no
escape from it. I think that we
cannot get that thought into our
souls and into our beings too soon.
Work we must, if we shall succeed
or if we shall advance. There is no
other way" (President J. Reuben
Clark, Jr. — From an address de-
livered at B.Y.U. Assembly, May 25,
i960).
Work is not a condemnation nor
a harsh, unhappy provision by which
to live, rather, it is commanded as
a means for making fuller use of the
span of time each enjoys in this
world. Creative, fulfilling, satisfy-
ing work is the discipline which
trains, molds, and perfects. Usually
work proves to be a blessing. It is
a therapy in time of sorrow and has
a calming influence upon agitated
spirits. Nothing produces greater
inner satisfaction than work well
done.
As work is a commandment and
a blessing, so its opposites, idleness
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and indolence, are sinful. Our grand-
parents used to quote the old adage,
"An idle mind is the devil's work-
shop." Idle hands readily get into
mischief. Certainly few things
cause so much dissatisfaction and
unhappiness and are so dulling to
the incentive to be creative as un-
productive idleness.
Paul admonished the Ephesians
(Eph. 4:1) to ". . . walk worthy of
the vocation wherewith ye are
called/7
What is the worthy work of
mothers? Are not homemaking and
housekeeping the vocation to which
they are called? From whence can
Latter-day Saint women receive help
in walking worthy of this vocation?
Relief Society was organized for this
purpose as well as for service and
other educational purposes.
How right it is, then, that one of
the meetings of Relief Society be
a work meeting. The value of work
meeting to the sisters must be
judged by the help it gives in mak-
ing them more efficient homemak-
ers, in magnifying their appreciation
of this vocation, and in enhancing
their pride in a beautifully managed
home. If work meeting is to live
up to its name, the sisters attending
must, through it, increase their
abilities in the art and skill required
in making homes happier and more
attractive.
Certainly wisdom must guide the
officers and leaders of Relief So-
ciety in the choice of activities.
Time should not be wasted on
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activities or the making of articles
unworthy of the time and talents
of the sisters. Sometimes the search
for something new and different to
do clouds the judgment of the worth
of the article produced. In some
instances, in the effort to save mon-
ey, precious time is spent on articles
of little value just because they do
not cost much to make. Greatest
emphasis needs to be placed on the
basic sewing and homemaking skills.
All of the purposes in work, how-
ever, are not simply for oneself or
one's husband and children. They
also encompass services to others.
Work meeting provides an oppor-
tunity to give this service. Most
Relief Societies have reason to be
proud of the fact that their most
beautiful sewing is that which is
produced for the welfare of the less
fortunate by sisters who are grate-
ful for the opportunity to serve.
In short, Relief Society work
meetings should help Latter-day
Saint women become as the virtu-
ous woman described in Proverbs,
who "worketh willingly with her
hands," and ". . . looketh well to
the ways of her household, and eat-
eth not the bread of idleness"
(Proverbs 31:13, 27).
-L. W. M.
Summer /tight
Zara Sabin
Wisps of wool sail silently
In a sea of cerulean blue;
A silver moon spreads her silken scarf
Over hill and valley, too.
Far off, we hear a night-bird's cry
And stars lean out of the sky.
CJirst L^randchi id
Maude Rubin
Her head bends over muslin, pink and blue,
As thoughtfully as though this were the first
Small quilt she ever made; and softly new
These time-repeated lullabies that burst
Through dreams to mind, to lips. . . . Her voice serene,
"My Joan will have her baby soon," she says.
Her needle flashes silver out and in,
Small stitches counting out their thousand ways
To puff small patterned buds, embossed and soft.
For though exactitude of new machines
May make facsimilies of quilting-craft,
This quilt is special. Tenderly she leans
Closer to see pink petals burst to bloom —
Then whispers, "Soon now!" Wonder fills the room.
tylotSLdu TO THE FIELD
cJne J/Lnnual (general irielief (bociety (conference
rPHE Annual General Relief Society Conference will be held Wednesday
and Thursday, October 5th and 6th, i960. The general session will be
held on Wednesday, October 5th from 2 to 4 p.m. in the Tabernacle. It
is suggested that ward Relief Society presidents ask their bishops to an-
nounce in the wards the general session of the conference to which the
general public is invited. Attendance at the Officers Meeting on Wednes-
day morning, October 5th, from 10 to 12 in the Tabernacle, and the de-
partmental meetings to be held Thursday morning and Thursday after-
noon, October 6th, is limited to stake board members and mission officers.
A reception to which stake board members and mission officers are invited
will be held on Wednesday evening, October 5th from 7 to 10 in The
Relief Society Building.
Orchids in the Snow
Chapter 4
Rosa Lee Llovd
Synopsis: Sharon and Sam Wynter,
newlyweds, on their way to Fairbanks,
Alaska, meet Angus McFarland, a widower
from Bristol Bay in the Aleutian Islands.
In Anchorage they are introduced to
McFarland's daughter Marie, and also to
Susan Elge of Bristol Bay who has brought
her husband Herman to Anchorage for
an operation. Arriving in Fairbanks,
Sharon meets Sister Jensen, President of
the branch Relief Society, who shows
them her log cabin that is for rent.
S HARRY and Sam moved into
the cabin one week later.
Rachel Jensen stood in the
doorway, looking from one corner
to the other with a kindly, satisfied
smile.
"It's a miracle," she said. "As
though someone had touched a
magic wand. Onlv I know how
hard you two have worked. Where
did you get that lounge cover?
I've never seen a crazy quilt look
so elegant before."
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"Mama sent it air express/'
Sharrv said. "She thought it was
worth a little extra postage to get it
here for our first day in the cabin.
Mama is like that. She knows just
when to give and when to save."
"It brightens the whole place,"
Sister Jensen said. "It's just perfect
with these pale green walls and the
black lacquered furniture. I haven't
seen a quilt like this for years. I
had forgotten how unique they are."
She touched the colorful triangles
of fabric feather-stitched together
with pale blue twist.
"My grandmother designed it,"
Sharrv explained. "Mama and Aunt
Jewel helped her. Every piece is
a memory. This cream-colored bro-
cade was Mama's wedding dress —
this heavy white linen piece was
Aunt Jewel's first nursing cap. The
red velvet was my first formal — it
was such a darling dress — anc1
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525
here's Kenny's Scout shirt and
Daddy's blue striped tie. . . ."
Her voice trembled and she bit
her lip.
"I'm ashamed now that I see it's
such a colorful treasure — I really
didn't appreciate how much love
and effort went into it when I was
growing up. I thought it was out-
of-date — sort of old-fashioned."
Sister Jensen nodded.
"I know, dear. Sometimes we're
so close to all the really precious
things of life we take them for
granted. But we must learn to ap-
preciate every little thing as we go
along. Each day I ask God to help
me see the beauty all around me,
not to waste my time wishing for
something different. I refuse to be
a woman who wishes her life away.
There's plenty to be done right
where the Lord has placed us."
She stood up, smoothing her fresh
linen dress.
"This is my visiting day, Sharry.
Will you come with me?"
"There's so much to do here,"
Sharry objected. "Maybe next
week."
"A change will do you good,"
Sister Jensen said. "You and Sam
have worked like beavers — scrub-
bing, painting, patching cracks. I'm
so proud of you. I want you to meet
the people in the branch who are
shut-ins. We can spare an hour
or two for them."
"But dinner!" Sharry protested.
"I have to build a fire in the range.
Sam gets so hungry."
"Have dinner with Oscar and
me," she coaxed. "I planned on it.
Oscar brought a roast home — a
real beef pot roast. He knows you
aren't used to our wild game yet."
Sharry smiled. "You've been so
nice to us," she said. "I told Mama
in my last letter how much you have
helped me and encouraged me.
I'm so truly grateful to you. I
couldn't stay out here alone all day
if I didn't know you were in the
house across the bridge."
"We help each other," she an-
swered gently. "I am lonely for my
daughter. Having you and Sam here
has been a blessing."
Sharry looked at the clock on the
shelf above the old rock fireplace.
Almost noon.
"I'll fix us a sandwich," she said.
"Then we'll go."
CISTER Jensen's car was a bright
salmon pink with a white top.
Sharry was delighted with it.
"I told Oscar I wanted something
gay," she laughed as they drove
away. "He agreed with me. I'm
so fond of color. Look at the flow-
ers, Sharry. Everything is in bloom
this time of year. Flowers and veg-
etables of all kinds — even lettuce
and radishes. We really have to
make hay while the sun shines in
this country. There isn't a moment
to lose in June or July. We preserve
and can and store away carrots, par-
snips, and potatoes. It's our busy
time."
"But the winter," Sharry said. "I
dread the winter when there isn't
any sunshine. How can you live in
the long darkness?"
Sister Jensen didn't answer. She
was busy parking the car in front
of a little frame house. Most of the
houses in Fairbanks were frame and
small, Sharry had noticed.
"This is where the Billings live,"
Sister Jensen said as she rang the
doorbell. "You'll like Mary Bill-
ings."
Minutes went by before the door
was opened by a slender, fragile-
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looking woman with the loveliest
hair Sharry had ever seen. It was
a white cloud around her face.
"Is it Rachel?" she asked. "I've
been hoping you would come today,
Rachel. Come in."
"I've brought a friend," Rachel
said. "Sharon Wynter, the little
bride who is living in our cabin."
"The bride!" Sister Billings said
as she led the way carefully into the
living room. ''Tell me, Rachel,
what does she look like. Describe
her for me. I want to know every-
thing."
Sharry caught her breath. Mary
Billings was blind!
"Well now," Sister Jensen
laughed as she sat down in a rocker
opposite Sharry. "She's not very
tall, Mary. About five three, I'd
say. Her measurements might be
twenty-three, thirty-two, thirty-five.
Her hair is black and her eyes are
brown. She has a sweet mouth —
especially when she smiles. I like
her smile — it's like a light turned
on.
Sharry's lips curved. Was Rachel
going to mention that she pouted,
too?
"How is she dressed?" Mary want-
ed to know.
"In a blue linen skirt and a white
blouse," Rachel answered.
"No sweater!" Mary exclaimed.
"She'll freeze, even if it is June.
You take a sweater with you, Shar-
on. Wherever you go in this coun-
try you need a sweater. The least
breeze brings the bitter cold off the
glaciers. Oh, Rachel, I was think-
ing today about Ada Hammond's
garden. She took me over there
yesterday. Her yard is a picture.
I did enjoy it."
Sharry and Rachel looked at each
other. Mary spoke as if she had
actually seen the garden.
She went on, "Ada has a Talis-
man rose her niece sent air express
from Portland. She planted it on
the sunny side of her porch. And
those bulbs she planted last year
have bloomed on each side of the
path, red and yellow. I love the
summer with the fresh leafy smell
of growing things. The air is so
rich with flavor of beauty you can
almost sip it."
n^HERE was a breathless pause.
"You know me, Rachel," Mary
said at last. "I love the winter, too.
The frosty air has a certain tang you
can't find anywhere else in the
world. As I told my husband
George, life is so interesting."
Mary turned in her chair so she
could face Sharry.
"Tell me about yourself," she
said. "What have you done to that
old cabin?"
Sharry described everything in
detail so Mary could picture it.
"My husband is a mining engi-
neer," she added. "He is always
looking for pretty rocks and stones;
even pebbles under water interest
him. So last night he built a cor-
ner cabinet, then he lacquered it
black like the table and chairs. It's
real attractive. My mother sent a
beautiful old quilt to cover the
lounge. It's quite colorful."
"I'm sure it is!" Mary agreed. "I
can imagine how pretty it is. As
soon as George has time we'll be
over. But carpenters like George
are really busy with all the building
that's going on. They work night
and day this time of year."
"We'll love to have you," Sharry
said. "Anytime."
When she and Rachel were back
in the car, Sharry asked wondering-
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527
ly, ''How does she keep so cheerful
and so interesting when she can't
see a thing?"
"She sees with her soul and her
heart," Rachel answered. "She even
sees more than the rest of us do
because she is so aware of every-
thing and so appreciative of life
itself. That's why I wanted you to
meet her before I answered your
question about our long winters.
Everyone goes through a long win-
ter one way or another. Mary has
overcome hers in a wonderful way."
"She talks like a poet," Sharry
murmured. "I love to listen to her.
How long has she lived in Alaska?"
"She came here as a girl," Rachel
answered. "About thirty years ago,
I guess. She taught school in a
little place way up north of here
where the gas fields are now. Then
she met George Billings, a young
carpenter. After their marriage
they traveled with a building crew
from one end of Alaska to another.
They were in that awful fire outside
of Anchorage, in the wooded sec-
tion; the one where smoke was a
dark blanket for miles and lingered
for almost a year. There are still
traces of it. Engineers were called
in to protect the mines. Mary and
George were there. She went out
to help the injured while George
was fighting fire. She was caught
in a dynamite explosion. Her sight
was destroyed."
Rachel drew a long breath.
"There isn't anyone I admire
more than Mary Billings," she con-
tinued in a low voice. "She is a
light that shines for everyone who
knows her. Living in Alaska is not
easy for anyone. Women here
must be spiritually strong and
bravely courageous, as all pioneers
have been, and must always be.
They are the women who have faith
enough to look for orchids in the
snow."
Sharry couldn't speak because of
the lump in her throat. Was she
the kind of woman who could live
in Alaska, she asked herself, or was
she secretly planning to ask Sam
not to sign his contract in the
spring?
CHE bent her head because she
could not meet Rachel Jensen's
eyes.
"I want you to see this house."
Rachel parked the car in front of a
half-finished brick house. They got
out of the car and picked their way
across the tumbly yard. Building
debris was heaped in forsaken piles;
bricks, piles of sand, even boxes of
window panes.
"This place bothers me," Rachel
said. "I wish they would get the
estate settled so they could sell it.
So many people need a home. This
one is extra nice because it's brick.
Most of our homes are frame, but
Milly Cartwright wanted a brick
home. Fred had promised her one
when they came to Fairbanks from
Denver. He was coach at the Uni-
versity before the accident this
spring on Harding Lake. The whole
family was drowned. Milly and
Fred and their three little girls!"
"How terrible!" Sharry gasped,
staring at the half-completed house,
a symbol of broken lives.
Rachel said, "Everyone in Fair-
banks will be happy when this house
is finished and people are living in
it. It was meant for a happy fam-
ily."
"There must be hundreds of peo-
ple who would buy it," Sharry said.
"Who owns it now?"
Rachel's brows drew together.
"I'm not sure," she said. "There
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is some legal controversy because
there isn't a will. Let's go in. I
want you to see it. Milly had such
good taste and unusual ideas about
a house."
It was very different from other
homes Sharry had seen in Fair-
banks.
"This is where the picture win-
dow will be/' Rachel explained.
"Milly loved to watch the moun-
tains and the sky in wintertime.
There is a lovely deep blue haunt-
ing magic in the morning. It doesn't
get really dark until after three in
the afternoon. Even then it's
beautiful. Milly loved it after she
got used to it. She wanted a double
fireplace, right here, between this
long living room and the den, one
on each side of this brick partition.
The kitchen and dinette were
planned for comfort and utility.
These French windows open onto a
terrace with a sandpile below for
children."
"It's just charming!" Sharry said,
thinking how perfect a home like
this would be for Sam and her.
Only she wouldn't want a perma-
nent home in Alaska, so far away
from her folks. And she couldn't
live through months and months
without sunshine. They would live
on in the cabin until they left Alas-
ka, she firmly decided.
"Shall we go, dear?" Rachel
asked, interrupting her reverie.
"Oh, yes," Sharry answered, fol-
lowing her to the car. "I enjoyed
seeing the house. I really did."
T^HE next month was a busy time
for Sharry. She was asked to
be organist in the Sunday School
and she and Sam were invited on
hiking trips and Church picnics.
They went to baseball games at
night and swam in Harding Lake
under the amber light of the mid-
night sun.
One morning in September, there
was no sunshine when Sharry
awakened. The world was a som-
ber battleship gray. She ran to the
window, trying to penetrate the pale,
weird mist. Summer was gone. She
could feel the new chill in the air,
she could almost taste the frost in
the icy wind from the mountains.
She crawled back in bed, trem-
bling, wishing Sam was home. He
had been gone three days on an
expedition. He couldn't tell her
where he was going.
Sister Jensen was in Nome for a
visit with Betty and her husband.
Now it was winter and it was only
September, Sharry thought with a
heavy sigh. This was full-moon
time in Utah. Harvest time. Home-
sickness was a weight around her
heart.
Resolutely she sat up, swinging
her feet to the floor. There was no
use feeling sorry for herself. She
had work to do and she had prom-
ised Rachel she would feed and
water her canaries every day. She
must write to her mother.
Her head came up like a fright-
ened deer as she heard the loud
bark of a dog on the porch. Or was
it a coyote? Or a wolf, she won-
dered with sickening dread?
Sharry heard another bark. This
time she was sure it was a dog's
bark. Someone was pounding on
the front door.
She got to her feet. Fear tightened
her throat. Who could it be? Who
knew she was alone in this awful
darkness?
Trembling, she started for the
door. Whatever it was, she had to
face it as bravely as she could.
(To be continued)
Hooking the Rug
No easel or frame is required for
a latch hook rug. We used a TV
tray or card table. Start work at
one end and work from left to right,
leaving one inch for a hem all
around. If there are raw edges bind
them with tape. As you progress,
the finished portion falls into your
lap, and you may find it helps to lay
a heavy book on the rug to hold
it in working position.
Learning to hook is easy, but a
little practice will give you confi-
dence. Follow these five steps:
i. Slip the latch hook under two cross-
wise threads of one small square of your
canvas. Push hook through until latch is
free and open.
2. Lay one strand of nylon around
shank of hook near handle, holding the
two ends evenly together with the left
hand, and lay ends to the canvas in front
of the open latch.
3. Still holding the ends of nylon, pull
hook gently back until latch closes on the
stitch.
4. Now release held ends and allow hook
to pull ends through, under, and up,
through the loop on the hook shank,
forming a lock-stitch around the canvas
strands.
5 . Pull stitch up with fingers and lay to
the left.
Proceed with next stitch in next
square and work on across your rug.
Do not. skip a. square! You can
check this by looking at the back.
Do not work motifs separately!
Work directly across the rug,
changing colors as the design indi-
cates. You can, as you gain skill,
work three or four rows at -a time,
but you must always keep the bot-
tom rows four or five stitches ahead
of the next row above, or you will
have skips. To keep the surface even,
trim as you go or you may shear
the whole rug after it is complete.
You will need very sharp scissors,
hold them level and do not gouge.
Work on a table or over a chair
back.
Blocking
To block, if your rug pulls askew,
pin the rug evenly to the carpet and
lay a heavy damp bath towel over
it and allow the towel to dry
twenty-four hours. Turn hem under,
whip in place, and finish edge with
adhesive rug binding.
Making Your
Own Designs
To make your own design, and
we hope you will, how would you
like a scattered nosegay pattern, a
toy animal for a nursery, autumn
leaves, or even an ambitious family
crest? Work out your design on
paper, using patterns, pictures in
magazines, or draw your own. De-
cide on colors to match your room.
Transfer this design as a stencil to
slick cardboard or stencil paper. Use
a sharp razor blade or knife to cut
out your stencil, working on an old
magazine. We used only three
stencils in our pictured rug, the
scroll, corner rosebud, and large
rose motif. Using repeat motifs
gives unity and harmony to your
design and saves making a lot of
stencils. Turn stencils over for op-
posite sides. Using a yardstick to
measure and mark your border and
space the stencil designs, make a
pattern on a piece of paper a little
larger than your rug. Make any
correction on this pattern. When
you are satisfied, thumbtack the rug
back to this pattern. * With your
stencils, a stiff brush, and poster or
textile paints block in your design
in colors directly on the canvas. Let
dry overnight, and you are ready to
start hooking your own designs.
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MARGO Williams stepped The next morning Margo was
down from the ladder where hanging some bedding out to air
she had been hanging cur- when a woman called to her. "Good
tains. Sighing, she surveyed her morning. I'm Evelyn Christensen,
work approvingly. "Moving is your new neighbor. I wanted to
always such a job/' she speculated come over and see you last week,
to herself. "I haven't minded it so but my husband insisted that I at
much this time. With Robert out least wait until you were a little
of town all of the time, at least it more settled."
gives me something to do." "Hello/' Margo said somewhat
Ever since Margo could remem- shyly. "I'm Margo Williams."
ber, she had been alone. She had "I'm certain that you'll enjoy the
been an only child, and when she neighborhood once you become ac-
had married, they had hoped for quainted. We've lived here for four
children. However, the doctor had years and we certainly enjoy it. I
informed Margo and her husband, wanted to ask you to go to Relief
Robert, that they would never be Society with us yesterday, but I
able to have any children, and Mar- thought maybe you would rather get
go had resigned herself to being things put away first." Evelyn
alone. Robert's job took him out smiled as she spoke,
of the city during the week; conse- "Relief Society? I don't believe
quentlv, they looked forward to that I know what you mean," Mar-
their week ends together. go answered.
The Williams had only moved to "Oh, I'm sorry. I guess that I
Harpersville a week ago, and Margo just took it for granted that you
hadn't had an opportunity to be- were L.D.S. You see I belong to
come acquainted with anyone. She the Latter-day Saint Church, and
was a shy, retiring person who found we women have an organization
it difficult to make the first move called the Relief Society. It's truly
toward becoming acquainted with wonderful, and it has so much to
her neighbors. Thus, to her hus- offer. If you'd care to go, I'd love
band's chagrin, she kept to herself to have you come along," Evelyn
most of the time. ended sincerely.
Margo peered out the window Margo was happy at the kindness
questioningly as she observed the of Evelyn Christensen as the days
women walking toward the chapel passed. She enjoyed talking to her
down the block. They were neatly and forgot her own shyness. She
dressed and seemed happy and con- found herself telling Evelyn about
tent. "I wonder where they are her loneliness. For the first time
going?" Margo mused. Last Tues- in years, Margo felt that she had
day they went by here at this same found a true friend, one who was
time." She turned from the win- sincerely interested in her.
dow and became engrossed in put- When the next Tuesday came,
ting away some of their books. Margo dressed carefully for the oc-
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(Handwork for diappii
oluffed cfoys
Ten s submitted by Irene C. Llovd
pjANDW ORk hobb.es have been a joy to women in all ages and in all
lands. Sahsfaction. serenity, and contentment seem to be a part of
saving and stitching crocheting and knitting. Creative and artistic tal-
ents find an answer and an outlet in making articles which beautify one's
own home and the homes of beloved friends and relatives. Christmas
E^CSP*' Re,ief.Societ>' b— * P-sent endless oppor"
o wh Li L V,"?lU§f Su0nS 3nd dir£Cti0ns arc offered as sanies
of what may be accomplished when a 'designing" woman explores the wide
and wonderful ways of handwork for happiness P
[Sec illustration in color at the beginning
of this section.]
'"THE pattern illustrated above for a
pinafore in size eighteen months,
with very little alteration. The pinafore
top may be worn with slacks, skirts, or
oyer dresses or .t may be made as a top
or pa,ama bottoms. Materials should be
elected according to the use of the pina-
fore. Nainsook, organdy, percale, linen
One Square Equals Two Inches
ITlulti-tPurpose (Pinafore
rayon, nylon, crinkled crepe, gingham, pol-
■shed cotton printed co'ttcf. a§re among
the fabrics which may be used. The pin
cmbroKlered edgmgs, ruffles, or rickrack
in « ; i ""? °enter P°cket- as i^stratcd
m the colored picture, may be used or one
or two side pockets may be attached The
pinafore top may be made with or with
bTtthe<£.andmaybebUttonedMtied
[Sec illustration in color at the beginning
of this section.]
rT,IIE stuffed toys shown in the picture
*■ were cut from commercial patterns
and made from terry toweling. A special
feature of this particular pattern is the
manner in which the cars, arms, and legs
of the toys are attached to the body by
buttons sewed with strong string. This
method makes the appendages movable
and durable.
A large variety of interesting and lov-
able toys may be made from the various
commercial patterns available, using odds
and ends of materials and remnants of
various kinds. Favorite materials for mak-
ing the bodies of the toys are terry towel-
ing, corduroy. Indian head, polished
cotton, velveteen, percale, upholstering
fabrics, coatings, and other materials. Stuff-
ings may be of sawdust, old nvlon stockings
cut fine, kapok, cotton, wool, shredded
foam rubber, or other stuffings which
would make a smooth and durable toy. In
dressing the toys, many kinds of remnant
pieces of cloth may be used — checked
gingham, floral prints, plaids, plain colors
— and the clothing may be trimmed with
lace, various other edgings, rickrack. rib
bon. buttons, beads, cmbroidcrv, fabric
painting. Hats and bonnets may be de-
signed from old hats of felt or straw or vel-
vet and trimmed with feathers and flowers
and beads — color and variety to delight
the heart of the proud possessor of a cun-
ning toy. The eyes and the mouth mav be
embroidered or machine stitched, or fab
ric painted, and embroidery floss and some-
types of yarn and cording may be used
for making hair.
If you arc unable to locate a bunny pat-
tern, the name and address of the com-
mercial pattern, illustrated, will be sent
upon receipt of a stamped, self-addressed
envelope addressed to: The General Board
of Relief Society, 76 North Main, Salt
I.ake Citv 11. Utah.
Otrawberry cJrimmmgs for cSc/uare [Picnic {Basket
Melba Larson
[See illustration in color at the beginning
of this section.]
1. Cut six strawberries (double) from
scraps of red velveteen and six berry tops
(single) from scraps of green velveteen.
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SI RAWBERRY AND HULL
Each square represents 'A inch.
2. Scam the berries on the bottom, turn,
and stuff with sawdust. Gather the top.
Stitch to the berry two or three lengths
of % inch wide green velvet ribbon for
the stems. Slip the stems through the
hole in the berry top. Glue the green
berry top to the berry. Sew small white
beads to the berries. Arrange and fasten
to the basket with stitching or with glue.
there are other fruits which may be
used on the square picnic basket, in addi
tion to the strawberries (a pattern for
which is given on this page). As illustra-
ted in the color photograph at the begin
uing of this section, the center motif of
the design on the top and front of the
basket represents a pineapple. This mav
be made by using gold-colored velveteen
and the segment markings on the puM
apple may be made with a fabric painting
pen in a darker color. The leaf-shape
clusters at the top of the pineapple mav
be made of green or tan velveteen. Addi
tional fruits in various sizes could be
designed and arranged on the picnic
basket, if a variety is desired, instead of
grouping only strawberries around the
central pineapple motif.
Vegetables for cJrimming \Baskels
Alelba Larson
[See illustration in color at the beginning top of the grouped vegetables (peas,
of thu carrots, fur a finished look.
Use scraps of orange and green selvc
teen.
I links and Peas Paste the wrong
sides <>t two pieces oi green vd'
gether. Cut the pels and corn husks
while the velveteen is still damp
the corn husks around the cars of com
■nd let dry. Fold the pea pods down the
centd .md let dry. When dry. sew pearl
aii the center.
Corn: Cut the com cars from scraps of
hi ivj « lute materia], Seam, turn inside
nd stuff with kapok, dacron scraps.
or sawdust. Sen rows of pearls on front
of corn car. Stitch on a fos rt
iced orange-colored embroiders (loss
on the bottom of each car to n
corn silk. Sew on com husks, one on
the hack first, ft
car of com, letting the side husks overlap
the back one.
Carrots: Cut the carrots from orange-
colored velveteen. Seam and turn. Stuff
inthe same maimer as directed for the Patterns for vegetables on shopping
corn ears- Make some horizontal imcs »„,, ,wkct: t |d, (|rrnt: ,„,„„, j^vc,
gold pam . ,f desired. Arrange on the left, com husks; right, peas. One square
basket. Add a green velvet l„m to the represents '. inch
Woven SmoroiJereJ .fffghan
Afghan Submitted b\ fla C. Norton
[See illustration in color at the beginning of tins section.]
THL&tTJ,the £5 ■■ nadc oi *mm -i""- hrt to«^he' '"
"mm', '"" Hllv cross strtclnng. ,„;,!,.,„„,
' * S:; »«**.•»* weaving loom
mg looms. w,th detailed directions for theii
"."/'l'""*- "- - be purchased
tores or they my be order,
the nines of firms |min.. ■* v"m l<Xa' stores- 0! Uom cntal°?""
{ writing to The Genera,
bootees sweters k
of embroider, may be „',-„ „"" ,'""" otho ****■ Cross-stitch oi oth
.„„,.,.,.'» "! Patterns foi thi
found ,„ rnag.ames or tSS^S , * «. '" taken from motifs
colors, or m harmonizing tones of t^same "tor"5 '"Mk '" °ne color' in contrav,1"~
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cJabieclolhs for Tloliaays and Special Kjccasions
'See illustration in color at the beginning
of this section.]
FTSTIVE tablecloths may be made in
iriety of sizes and materials, and
the detachable motifs may be made to fit
the occasion — Christmas, New Years,
Easter, Hag Day. the Fourth of July, Pio-
neer Day. Halloween, Thanksgiving, birth-
days, special parties, and numerous other
occasions.
Net, felt. Indian head, linen, rayon
polished cotton, or other materials
may be used for the tablecloths. In mak-
ing the motifs, use materials that will
harmonize in texture with the body of
the tablecloth, selecting usually for the
motifs a material somewhat heavier than
the tablecloth.
Patterns for a variety of motifs are
illustrated herewith. There are many
other motifs which may be made from
commercial patterns, or which may be
cut from magazines, catalogues, wallpaper.
Christmas and birthday cards, or patterns
may be made from drawings, or copied
from other pieces of needlecraft or fancy
work which may already be in the home.
TABLECLOTH MOTIFS
Covered Wagon and Cacti
Original Design by Connie C Madsen
One square represents z inches.
FROM THE FIELD
Hulda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Handbook of Instructions of the Relief Society.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Ruby M. Blake
HIGHLAND STAKE (SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH) RELIEF SOCIETY
PRESIDENTS HONORED AT LEADERSHIP MEETING,
April 28, i960
Front row, seated, left to right: Hazel Tingey; Reka Cummings; Nellie Parker,
first president; Jennie Duffin.
Back row, standing, left to right: Ruby M. Blake, present President; Josephine
Jones; Zora Paulson.
Allie Barnes, Florence Holland, and Marjory Eldredge were not present when the
picture was taken.
Sister Blake reports: "Our presidency paid tribute to the former Highland Stake
Relief Society presidents at the April leadership meeting. A lovely program was pre-
pared, and brunch was served to all stake and ward workers in appreciation of their efforts
during the past year."
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NOTES FROM THE FIELD
533
Photograph submitted by Zelda S. Conrad
SPOKANE STAKE (WASHINGTON) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC
FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, March 27, i960
Standing in front of the organ, left to right: Marianne G. Bardsley, chorister;
Pauline Quick, organist; Zelda S. Conrad, President, Spokane Stake Relief Society.
Sister Conrad reports: "Over one hundred Singing Mothers, under the direction
of Marianne G. Bardsley, furnished music for stake conference on March 27, i960.
The following wards participated: Bonners Ferry, Colville, Coeur d'Alene, Deer Park,
Sandpoint, and the First, Second, Third, Fourth, Fifth, and Sixth Spokane Wards."
Photograph submitted by Phyllis Unbedacht
SEATTLE STAKE (WASHINGTON) RELIEF SOCIETY BOARD HONORS
RETIRING PRESIDENCY AT LUNCHEON, April 13, i960
Front row, seated, left to right: Mable Udell, former First Counselor; Leora G.
Clawson, former President; Aurora Jones, present First Counselor; Phyllis Unbedacht,
present President; Ina Ree Sparks, present Secretary-Treasurer; Ruby Finlayson, former
social science class leader.
Back row, standing, left to right: Barta Tolton; Grace Collette, present social
science class leader; Leona Tarney; Joye Ann Dransfield, visiting teacher message leader;
Eunice Kay, theology class leader; Elizabeth Moore, chorister; Laura Bronner, Magazine
representative; Elva Jackson, work meeting leader; LaRue Smith, organist.
Two members of the board were unable to be present when this picture was taken:
Jane Cherry and Cemoria Frankman.
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— AUGUST 1960
Photograph submitted by Helen W. Anderson
NEW ZEALAND SOUTH MISSION, HAWKES BAY DISTRICT SINGING
MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR MISSION CONFERENCE AND
DISTRICT CONFERENCE, May 14, 15, i960
Standing, back row, at the left: Rebecca Kamau Crawford, President, New Zealand
South Mission Relief Society.
Seated, fifth from the left: Hineawe Crawford Ferris, President, Hawkes Bay Dis-
trict Relief Society; Lillian Crawford Kershaw, music director; Rose Tare Puriri, Educa-
tion Counselor.
Helen W. Anderson, wife of the President of the New Zealand South Mission,
reports: "These sisters sang at the general mission conference (Hui Tau), in April,
and at their district conference (Hui Paraba), May 14th and 15th, i960, at the
Relief Society session, as well as the morning general session. At the Hui Tau con-
ference held in Wellington, they sang: 'The Heavens Were Opened,' 'How Beautiful
Upon the Mountain/ 'These Lovely Things/ and 'If Christ Should Come Tomorrow/ '
Photograph submitted by Lavona Hoopes
ST. JOSEPH STAKE (ARIZONA) RELIEF SOCIETY BOARD AND GENERAL
BOARD MEMBERS AT CONVENTION, April 19, i960
Front row, seated, left to right: Lavona Hoopes, President, St. Joseph Stake Relief
Societv; Belle S. Spafford, General President of Relief Society; Jennie R. Scott,, member,
General Board of Relief Society; Ella T. Lee, Secretary-Treasurer, St. Joseph Stake Relief
Society.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
535
Back row, standing, left to right: Marie Farley, chorister; May Weech, social
science class leader; Angeline Alder, First Counselor; Florence Holladay, literature class
leader; Lola Ferguson, Second Counselor; Lela McBride, theology class leader; Nira Lee,
Magazine representative; June McBride, work meeting leader; Bernice Stowell, organist.
Clella Lines, visiting teacher message leader, was not present when the picture was
taken.
Sister Hoopes reports that most of these stake board members have been serving
together ever since they were sustained nine years ago.
Photograph submitted by MayRene Goul
SAN FERNANDO STAKE (CALIFORNIA) AUDIO-VISUAL AIDS WORKSHOP
May 19, i960
Front row, seated, left to right: Joyce L. Parker, Stake Secretary -Treasurer; Viola
C. Clark, Stake Work Director Counselor.
Second row, seated, left to right: Elayne Kuck, ward social science class leader;
MayRene Goul, President, San Fernando Stake Relief Society; Joyce Hunter, stake
work meeting leader.
Standing, left to right: Lydia Wilde, stake literature class leader; Kay Baird, stake
theology class leader; Irene Lee Wait, Stake Education Counselor, chairman of work-
shop; Arlene Keysor, stake chorister.
Other participants, not in the picture, were: Maude White, Carma Fillmore,
Naomi Gilmore, Janet Young, and Delores Kennedy.
Sister Goul reports: "Instruction in how to use audio-visual aids effectively was
the purpose of a special workshop conducted by San Fernando Stake Relief Society,
March 19, i960, under the direction of Irene Lee Wait, Stake Education Counselor.
Sister Wait and her committee demonstrated the best ways to use such aids as chalk-board
charts, picture posters, maps, diagrams, lettering, etc. Instruction was given on the
use of the ditto machine, hectograph, and magna-jector, all of which are available to
the wards through the stake. Special helps were given to the music leaders in a
special department. Tables were set up in the recreation hall, and the ward sisters
actually made a flannel board, pocket chart, and picture stands to use in their own wards.
"The sisters in attendance were very appreciative of this workshop and of the
opportunity it gave them to become more familiar with the appropriate and effective
use of teaching aids."
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— AUGUST 1960
OREM STAKE (UTAH) HONORS
ELDEST AND YOUNGEST VISITING
TEACHERS, March 29, i960
Left to right: Adella Cowley Gibson,
ninety-one; Cynthia Whetten Peacock,
eighteen.
Ida S. Cowley, President, Orem Stake
Relief Society, reports: "It was a beauti-
ful spring morning, and potted plants
brought a cheerful note to the atmos-
phere of the amusement hall. Nearly
three hundred Relief Society sisters were
in attendance. A beautiful vocal duet
was sung by Joan Harker and Valene
Hansen, accompanied by Helen Allred.
The song, 'The Call of Love/ was espe-
cially fitting for visiting teachers. Roll call
was made, and it was found that Adella
Cowley Gibson, ninety-one, was the oldest
visiting teacher, and Cynthia Whetten
Peacock, eighteen, was found to be the
youngest visiting teacher. These two sis-
ters were given special recognition and
acclaim from the group. As a tribute
to all visiting teachers, the film 'Unto the
Least of These' was presented. Every-
one was touched by the beauty of the
film, and new enthusiasm for the calling
of a visiting teacher was aroused."
Photograph submitted by
Ida S. Cowley
Photograph submitted by Margaret Weaver
CHICAGO STAKE (ILLINOIS) VISITING TEACHERS HONORED AT
OPEN HOUSE, April 16, i960
Front row, seated, left to right: Liby Tegtmeier; Wanda Hildebrandt; Emma
Johnson; Josephine Moench.
Standing, left to right: Bea Cardy; Pearl Russell; Magedene Steinmann; Clara
Force; Gwen Swinvard; Mae Noelte; Elsie Crouch; Teresa Anderson; Maria Bischoff;
Carrie Jensen; Mary Duke; Irma Mortensen; Caroline Tegtmeier.
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537
Margaret Weaver, President, Chicago Stake Relief Society, reports: "Our stake
board honored twenty-seven sisters at a visiting teacher open house April 16, 1960, in
the new Chicago Stake house in Wilmette, Illinois. Citations were presented by
Emma Johnson. The seventeen visiting teachers shown in the picture have served
twenty years or more. Each received a Relief Society pin. Ten sisters who have served
from ten to twenty years were presented with flowers. Every visiting teacher in the
stake received a special invitation and 125 sisters assembled for the event. Minnie D.
Warner gave a tribute to the visiting teachers. Forty Singing Mothers under the
able direction of Bernice Lindsey sang two numbers. The film 'Unto the Least of
These' was shown, with Veldron Matheson presenting the prologue. Refreshments
completed a most satisfying event."
Photograph submitted by Marjorie M. Reeve
KANSAS CITY STAKE (KANSAS), INDEPENDENCE WARD
SINGING MOTHERS
The chorister Rose Marie Patton stands at the left, and the organist Phyllis Pope
is seated at the right.
Front row, left to right: Juanita Harris; Jean Pope; Leah Ann Adlard; Patricia
Fry; Mildred Jameson; Jeanne Braden; Roxey Rogers, President.
Second row, left to right: Mary Emily; Gladys Preator; June North; Marian
Grow; Vennice Barr; Luella Hansen; Ida Mae Burkhardt; Nellie Preator.
Back row, left to right: Ruby Harris; Hazel Lacki; Dorothv Keadle; Marjorie
Ransome; Ollie Johnson; Ola Crumpler; Edith Wright; Frida Watter; Evo Gray.
Marjorie M. Reeve, President, Kansas City Stake Relief Society, reports: "Inde-
pendence Ward has one of the largest Singing Mothers group in the stake. They
meet evenings for practice. In this way the working sisters may participate in this
activity."
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CENTRAL AMERICAN MISSION,
GUATEMALA FIRST BRANCH
ANNIVERSARY SOCIAL
March 19, i960
Edith B. Hancock, President, Central
American Mission Relief Society, is shown
cutting the anniversary cake; seated at the
right is Edith Mata, wife of the former
President of the Guatemala District.
Sister Hancock reports: "While the cake
was being cut, those present sang 'Happy
Anniversary' first in English and then in
Spanish. An outstanding program was
presented by the Relief Society sisters
under the direction of Hortensia Torres,
President of the Guatemala First Branch
Relief Society."
Photograph submitted by
Edith B. Hancock
SOUTH AUSTRALIAN MISSION,
SCARBOROUGH BRANCH VISITING
TEACHERS MAKE THEIR VISITS
BY MOTOR SCOOTER
The Scarborough Branch Relief Society
presidency, left to right: Mary H. Grange,
First Counselor; Helen T. Smith, Second
Counselor; Margaret C. Jones, President.
Velma N. Simonsen, President, South
Australian Mission Relief Society, reports:
"Distances in Australia are tremendous,
and Church members are widely scat-
tered. In spite of this, the Relief Society
visiting teachers carry on the program
faithfully."
Photograph submitted by
Velma N. Simonsen
N DEPARTMENT
cJheology — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 26— The Law of Moral Conduct
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Sections 42:18-20, 79, 84, 85)
For Tuesday, November 1, i960
Objective: To realize that the commandments "Thou shalt not kill" and "Thou
shalt not steal" forbid acts which are an offense against God and society.
Study of the Law (continued)
In last month's lesson the back-
ground for the study of Section 42
was given. By way of reminder, we
learned that not long after the
Prophet Joseph Smith arrived in
Kirtland, Ohio, the Lord gave to
him, as promised earlier ( See D & C
38:32; 41:3), his law to the Church.
The first part of this law is known
as that of preaching the gospel
(D & C 42:4-17).
"Historical" Background
In the world today there are at
least two points of view concerning
the origin of the Ten Command-
ments: first, that they are simply
the crystallization of moral laws
which have developed out of the
experiences of an evolving civiliza-
tion, which belief arises out of the
notion that man evolved from a
lower form of animal, known as
organic evolution; and second, that
this formulation of a code of moral
laws was the work of Moses.
As far as Latter-day Saints are
concerned, the gospel teaches us
that in the beginning the Lord gave
commandments to Adam by revela-
tion. One of the unique teachings
of the restored gospel is that the
gospel of Jesus Christ was upon the
earth before the time of Jesus'
mortal ministry. Included in this
concept is the fact that God re-
vealed his will to man and that man
did not "make" the laws of salva-
tion. In the plan of salvation are
the Ten Commandments, which do
form the very basis of the laws gov-
erning civilized people. Did the
Ten Commandments come into be-
ing for the first time on Mount
Sinai through the prophet Moses?
No, the Lord provided laws and
commandments for the salvation of
his children in the gospel of Jesus
Christ from the beginning. (See
D&C 20:17-19.)
Section 42 and Moral Laws
In Section 42 some of the great
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moral commandments are given; but
the reader should not consider that
all of the laws pertaining to moral
conduct in The Doctrine and Cove-
nants are found in this revelation.
For our present consideration, how-
ever, the following laws are included
in this lesson: Thou shalt not kill
(D & C 42:18-19, 79), steal (D & C
42:20, 84-85, lie (D & C 42:21, 86),
commit adultery (D & C 42:23-25,
74-75), speak evil o( thy neighbor
(D & C 42:27, 88), and thou shalt
love thy wife (D & C 42:22).
That more laws of moral conduct
than the foregoing are a part of the
gospel is made plain in these two
verses:
Thou knowest my laws concerning these
things are given in my scriptures; he that
sinneth and repenteth not shall be cast
out (D &C 42:28).
And if he or she do any manner of
iniquity, he or she shall be delivered up
unto the law, even that of God (D & C
42:87).
The Single Standard
The single standard of morality
is defined as a law which applies to
both sexes; whereas, the double
standard of morality means that the
male or the female may have a dif-
ferent rule of conduct from the
other. In this revelation the Lord
repeatedly emphasizes the single
standard of conduct as his law to
the Church. This is done by the
use of "he or she" or "man or wom-
an," particularly in verses 80 to 92.
An example of this is given in verse
87, quoted above.
"I Speak Unto the Church"
As the Doctrine and Covenants
Commentary (page 222) points
out, the laws of moral conduct are
given especially to the Church, as
the Ten Commandments were given
to ancient Israel. A distinction may
be made, according to this same
source, among various laws given to
man.
Some are binding because of peculiar
conditions or relations that may exist, and
cease to be binding with the end of those
conditions. New conditions require new
laws, Israel in a settled condition in
Canaan needed many rules and regulations
which would have been inapplicable to
their national life while in the wilderness.
Laws regarding property, marriage, etc.,
belong to this class (Doctrine and Cove-
nants Commentary, Revised Edition, 1957,
pp. 222-223) •
These may be classified as statutes.
(See Doctrine and Covenants Com-
mentary, pp. 222-223.) On tne oth-
er hand, there are moral laws which
are permanent. Concerning them,
it is said:
Some laws are binding because they are
founded on the nature and attributes of
God. If God is love, it is our duty to
love Him and teach others. If He i6 just,
merciful, pure, it is our duty to conform
our lives to the divine standards of justice,
mercy, and holiness. And from this
springs another class of laws which are
founded on the permanent relations of
men in their present state of existence.
They are called the moral laws t® distin-
guish them from statutes, which are
founded on temporary relations of man
to man. Statutes may vary from time to
time and in different countries. Moral
laws are permanent (Doctrine and Cove-
nant Commentary, page 223).
An example is taken from an ad-
dress by President J. Reuben Clark,
Jr., of a temporary law which pro-
hibits the Israelites from eating sea
foods ". . . that have not fins and
scales . . ." (Lev. 11:10). A pos-
sible reason for this prohibition,
President Clark points out, may
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have been because of the perish-
ability of certain sea foods which
would have generated poison harm-
ful to the body, due to a lack of a
means of food preservation. With
our modern means of refrigeration
and rapid transportation, there is no
law against the use of this particular
food. The Lord is concerned today,
as anciently, with the health of his
people.
Thus the law that God's people must
be clean and healthy has not changed, but
the rule prescribed to secure obedience to
the law has changed with the change in
the manner of living (Doctrine and Cove-
nants Commentary, page 224).
"Thou Shalt Not Kill"
As explained by Elder Harold B.
Lee of the Council of the Twelve,
the reason for the injunction of the
Lord against taking human life, has
its basis in the plan instituted in the
heavens before the earth came into
existence. Every person is a spirit
child of God for whom the Lord
has planned to bring to pass his im-
mortality and, if faithful, an eternal
life. (See Moses 1:39.) Satan and
his spirit followers rebelled against
that plan and thus have sought to
destroy all mortals by enticing them
to commit sins. On the other hand,
the Advocate of man with the
Father is Jesus our Redeemer who
gave his life that man might be able
to repent and, eventually by man's
faithfulness, receive eternal glory.
One of the most serious of all sins and
crimes against the Lord's plan of salvation
is the sin of murder or the destruction of
human life. It seems clear that to be
guilty of destroying life is the act of
"rebellion" against the plan of the
Almighty by denying an individual thus
destroyed in mortality, the privilege of a
full experience in this earth-school of op-
portunity. It is in the same category as
the rebellion of Satan and his hosts and
therefore it would not be surprising if
the penalties to be imposed upon a
murderer were to be of similar character
as the penalties meted out to those spirits
which were cast out of heaven with Satan
("The Sixth Commandment," Ten Com-
mandments Today, page 88).
As scriptural examples to indicate
the nature of the penalties imposed,
Elder Lee suggests the case of (a)
Cain (Genesis 4:6-12), and (b)
David in plotting the death of
Uriah; and also the crucifixion of
the Savior by the Jews. The Prophet
Joseph Smith, as recorded in his his-
tory, discusses the case of David by
stating that the murderer, one who
sheds innocent blood, cannot have
forgiveness.
David sought repentance at the hand of
God carefully with tears, for the murder
of Uriah; but he could only get it
through hell: he got a promise that his
soul should not be left in hell. . . .
. . . and the Priesthood that he [David]
received, and the throne and kingdom of
David is to be taken from him and given
to another . . . (D. H. C. VL253),
Concerning certain Jews, who, it
appears, assented to the crucifixion
of Jesus, the Prophet said Peter did
not say to them ". . . Repent and be
baptized ... for the remission of
sins . . ." (Acts 2:38). (See also
D.H. C.VL253.)
In commenting upon the com-
mandment against taking human
life, the Doctrine and Covenants
Commentary quotes Jesus' injunc-
tion against this crime, (see Mt.
5:21-22), and of his condemnation
of anger 'without a cause."
There is a difference between the anger
that is but malice or thirst for revenge,
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and the emotion that is felt in the pres-
ence of injustice and wrong. It is malice
that is forbidden. To take the life of a
fellow-being in order to gratify malice is
the highest crime one human being can
commit against another. . . . This com-
mandment prohibits dueling, because
dueling is but manslaughter, actual or po-
tential. It prohibits suicide, which is self-
murder. It condemns unjustifiable wars,
which are but wholesale murders. There
have been wars which are justifiable from
the standpoint of one side of the con-
testing parties, but when the nations have
courts of arbitration there will be no
justification for any war, any more than
there is for murder. The moral law must
be applied to nations as well as indi-
viduals. "He that killeth shall die" (v.
19) (Doctrine and Covenants Commen-
tary, page 224).
Military Service and Killing
Is the Latter-day Saint who is
called into the military service of
his country guilty of murder as he
takes human life while in that serv-
ice?
During World War II, the First
Presidency addressed a message to
the members of the Church at the
112th Annual General Conference,
in which they considered this ques-
tion. After quoting from the mod-
ern revelations concerning war, the
following appears:
When, therefore, constitutional law,
obedient to these principles, calls the
manhood of the Church into the armed
service of any country to which they owe
allegiance, their highest civic duty re-
quires that they meet that call. If, heark-
ening to that call and obeying those in
command over them, they shall take the
lives of those who fight against them, that
will not make of them murderers nor
subject them to the penalty that God has
prescribed for those who kill, beyond the
principle to be mentioned shortly. For
it would be a cruel God that would pun-
ish His children as moral sinners for acts
done by them as the innocent instru-
mentalities of a sovereign whom He had
told them to obey and whose wili they
were powerless to resist. . . .
In this terrible war now waging, thou-
sands of our righteous young men in all
parts of the world and in many countries
are subject to a call into the military serv-
ice of their own countries. Some of these,
so serving, have already been called back
to their heavenly home; others will almost
surely be called to follow. But "behold,"
as Moroni said, the righteous of them who
serve and are slain "do enter into the rest
of the Lord their God," and of them the
Lord has said "those that die in me shall
not taste of death, for it shall be sweet
unto them." (D & C 42:46) Their sal-
vation and exaltation in the world to come
will be secure. That in their work of
destruction they will be striking at their
brethren will not be held against them.
That sin, as Moroni of old said, is to the
condemnation of those who "sit in their
places of power in a state of thoughtless
stupor," those rulers in the world who in
a frenzy of hate and lust for unrighteous
power and domination over their fellow
men, have put into motion eternal forces
they do not comprehend and cannot con-
trol. God, in His own due time, will
pass sentence upon them (112th Annual
Conference Report of Discourses, pp.
94-96).
Penalty for Murder
As part of the moral law, the Lord
revealed in this dispensation:
And now, behold, I speak unto the
church. Thou shalt not kill; and he that
kills shall not have forgiveness in this
world, nor in the world to come.
And again, I say, thou shalt not kill;
but he that killeth shall die (D & C
42:18-19).
The Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints accepts capital
punishment for this offense against
God and the law of the land.
And it shall come to pass, that if any
persons among you shall kill they shall be
delivered up and dealt with according to
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the laws of the land; for remember that
he hath no forgiveness; and it shall be
proved according to the laws of the land
(D & C 42:79).
"Thou Shalt Not Steal"
Thou shalt not steal; and he that steal-
eth and will not repent shall be cast
out. . . .
And if a man or woman shall rob, he
or she shall be delivered up unto the law
of the land.
And if he or she shall steal, he or she
shall be delivered up unto the law of the
land (D & C 42:20, 84-85).
The essence of the moral law of
the gospel of Jesus Christ is summed
up in the words of the Savior that
his disciple will love God and his
neighbor as himself. (See Mt.
22:37-39.) In a modern revelation,
the Lord has again brought to the
attention of his people that they
are to follow this commandment.
After expressing the fact that one
should love the Lord "... with all
thy heart, with all thy might, mind,
and strength; and in the name of
Jesus Christ thou shalt serve him,"
it continues, "Thou shalt love thy
neighbor as thyself. Thou shalt not
steal; neither commit adultery, nor
kill, nor do anything like unto it"
(D&C 59:5-6).
It should not be difficult for one
to understand that if there is love
in one's heart for his fellow men,
he will not steal, commit adultery,
neither kill nor do anything that
would injure his fellow man. The
association of these three crimes
with the love of God and neighbor
in the modern revelation assuredly
points up their importance in the
sight of the Lord. Dishonesty in
any of its forms, if uncontrolled or
unregulated by divine fiat and if ac-
cepted by man as the foundation of
a civilized people, would lead to a
state of chaos in civilization.
The Nephites at one point in
their history were told that their
iniquity in casting out the prophets
and thus disregarding the law of
God would bring destruction upon
them. Samuel, the Lamanite,
prophesied of the time when the
riches of the wicked Nephites would
be lost because of a disregard for the
property rights of others. Of the
nation, the prophet said they would
lament over their losses in a time of
need. (See Helaman 13:33-36.)
The fulfillment of this prophecy
came toward the end of the Nephite
nation during the time of Mormon
when "... no man could keep that
which was his own, for the thieves,
the robbers, and the murderers, and
the magic art, and the witchcraft
which was in the land" (Mormon
2:10).
Types of Stealing
Ordinarily, a person thinks of
stealing as involving the taking of
someone else's property without
realizing the consequences of this
act before the law of the land. The
types of stealing and the penalties
imposed bv the laws of the State
of Utah which do not differ very
much from most States, are sum-
marized by Elder W. Cleon Skou-
sen, former Salt Lake City Police
Chief, as follows:
Many people are astonished when they
discover how severe the punishment can
be for thievery. The reason the penalty
is so severe is because stealing strikes at
the very foundation of a community. It
is lawless indifference to the property
rights of others. There can be no security
when homes and stores are frequently
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raided by thieves. And there can be no
safety on a highway where hijackers and
road-robbers operate.
Because the criminal code in each state
lays great stress on the seriousness of
stealing, it is thought it may be of interest
to list some of the different kinds of
thievery mentioned by the state statutes.
1. Robbery. This kind of stealing con-
sists of taking property from a person or
from his immediate presence by means of
force or fear. Robbery usually involves
the use of a knife, a gun, or explosives.
Therefore the penalty is very severe. [In
Utah, for example, the penalty is five
years to life.] (Utah Penal Code, 76-
51-2.)
2. Grand Larceny. This consists of steal-
ing something which is worth more than
$50 or stealing something (regardless of
value) from a person or from his pres-
ence; for example, it would be grand lar-
ceny if a pick-pocket took $75 from a
person's pocket. However, if the victim
happened to catch the pick-pocket and the
pick-pocket pulled a gun in order to get
the money, then the crime would be rob-
berv, because the victim would have been
subjected to force or fear. Grand larceny
also includes the theft of certain domestic
animals (regardless of value), such as
horses and cattle. The penalty for grand
larceny in Utah is one to ten years and
a fine of from $50 to $1,000. (Utah Pen-
al Code, 76-38-6.)
3. Petit [Pronounced Petty] Larceny.
This includes other types of stealing not
listed under grand larceny, such as shop-
lifting, chicken stealing, taking a bicycle,
etc. These will usually come under petit
larceny. The penalty in Utah is imprison-
ment in the county jail up to six months
and a fine up to $300. (Utah Penal Code,
76-38-7.)
4. Burglary. This consists of breaking
into a building, an automobile, trailer,
railroad car, etc., for the purpose of steal-
ing something or otherwise committing a
felony. This type of crime may create a
wave of hysteria in a community, par-
ticularly where burglaries are committed
in banks, stores, or wealthy residences, and
nitroglycerine or other explosives are used
to open safes or storage vaults. As with
robbery, this is considered a very serious
type of crime and therefore carries a severe
penalty. In burglaries of the above tvpe
the penalty is twenty-five to forty years.
(Utah Penal Code, 76-9-2.) A night-
time burglary which does not involve ex-
plosives carries a penalty of one to twenty
years (Utah Penal Code, 76-9-4), and
day-time burglaries which do not involve
explosives carry a penalty of six months to
three years. (Utah Penal Code, 76-9-6.)
5. Forgerv. This usually consists of get-
ting money by altering the amount of a
check or putting a false signature on it.
There are many other kinds of forgery,
but this is the one about which we hear
the most. The penalty for this offense is
one to twenty years.
6. Fraud. This is a method of stealing
which might be described as obtaining
something of value or gaining a particular
advantage by deceitfully misrepresenting
the true facts. There are many kinds of
frauds, such as writing checks on a bank
where the check writer has no account,
or he may have an account but writes a
check for a much larger sum than he has
in the bank. The penalty for this kind
of stealing may go as high as fourteen
years in the state penitentiary. (Utah
Penal Code, 76-20-11.) The fraud of
burning property to collect insurance car-
ries a penalty of one to ten years. (U. S.
Penal Code, 76-33-1.)
7. Confidence Games. This is a special
kind of fraud where the victim is told that
he can make a fortune overnight by fol-
lowing certain instructions. The usual
procedure is to ask some person with out-
standing financial ability to participate in
the scheme. The operators take his mon-
ey and disappear before he realizes that
he has been duped. Even experienced
businessmen are occasionally taken in by
these schemes. Members of the Church
are cautioned never to deal with strangers
who claim to have a marvelous scheme
for getting rich quickly. If the scheme
had any merit, the operator wouild take
it to his friends. He would not be around
selling such a "sure thing" to strangers.
These people always say their schemes are
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"very secret/' and the victim is cautioned
against discussing it with anyone because
they say others might try to "cut in on
the deal" if the word got around.
The penalty for stealing by means of a
confidence game may go as high as ten
years in the state penitentiary. (Utah
Penal Code, 76-20-17.)
8. Extortion and Blackmail. This kind
of stealing is usually done by writing a
threatening letter, or otherwise inducing
a victim to "pay off" because of force or
fear. In Utah the penalty may be as much
as three years. (Utah Penal Code,
76-19-3.) However, if the mails were used
to make a threat of extortion, the crime is
a federal violation which carries a penalty
up to twenty years in prison and $5,000
fine. (U. S. Code, Title 18, Section
876.)
9. Embezzlement. This is a kind of
stealing where a person appropriates money
or property which has been entrusted to
him. If the value of the property is over
$50, then the penalty is one to ten years
with a fine of $50 to $1,000. (Utah
Penal Code, 76-17-11.) If the value of
the property is less than $50, the penalty
is the same as that described for petit
larceny.
10. Impersonation. This type of steal-
ing is getting money, property, or some
special advantage by pretending to be an
officer or a person with special authority.
In Utah the penalty for this violation may
be as high as one year in the county jail
and a fine of $1,000. If a federal officer
is impersonated, the penalty may be three
years imprisonment and $1,000 fine. (U.
S. Code, Title 18, Sections 912-913.)
11. Kidnapping. The stealing of eith-
er children or adults is one of the most
vicious of all crimes. Sometimes the person
is kidnapped for ransom, sometimes for a
revengeful beating, sometimes for a life of
vice and debauchery. After the kidnap-
ping and slaying of the Lindbergh baby
in 1932, the United States Congress
passed a law against kidnapping which per-
mits the jury to recommend the death
sentence where the kidnapped victim has
been injured or killed. (U. S. Code,
Title 18, Section 1201.) Almost im-
mediately the number of kidnappings for
ransom fell off sharply.
12. Plagiarism. This is stealing some-
one else's writings, ideas or creative work
and claiming it to be one's own. The
penalty depends upon the damages suf-
fered by the victim. However, this may
also be a violation of the Federal Copy-
right Law. In that event the penalty is
up to one year imprisonment and a one
thousand dollar fine. (U. S. Code, Title
17, Section 104.)
13. Espionage. This is stealing infor-
mation which will endanger the security
of the nation. In peacetime the penalty
may be as high as twenty years. In war-
time, the crime of espionage is particularly
serious and the court may impose the
death sentence. (U. S. Code, Title 18,
Section 791-797) (Skousen, Cleon, The
Ten Commandments Today, "The Eighth
Commandment," pp. 126-129).
"Will a Man Rob God?"
In the book of Malachi we learn
that one who withholds tithes and
offerings from the Lord is guilty of
robbing God. "Will a man rob
God? Yet ye have robbed me. But
ye say, Wherein have we robbed
thee? In tithes and offerings. Ye
are cursed with a curse: for ye have
robbed me, even this whole nation"
(Malachi 3:8-9).
If we consider this stern rebuke
in the light of the above discussion
on stealing, what must we conclude
concerning the tithing obligations
placed upon us by the Lord? Would
we not be in a similar situation as
David on the occasion of the Proph-
et Nathan's visit? It was David
who condemned himself unknow-
ingly when Nathan approached him
about a situation where one man
was taking advantage of another
man, at which time David became
angry and said that the erring man
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"shall surely die." In the end, Dav-
id was informed that he was the
erring man. (See II Samuel
12:1-14.) We also are guilty when
we condemn stealing, and in the
same instant say we love the Lord
and yet rob him of tithes. Is it pos-
sible that we could love our breth-
ren and yet steal from them? Can
we therefore, without impunity, say
we love the Lord and yet rob him
at the same time?
Questions ior Discussion
1. What do Latter-day Saints believe
concerning the origin of the Ten Com-
mandments?
2. Distinguish between the single and
double standard of morality. How does
Section 42 set forth the single standard
as the Latter-day Saint rule of moral con-
duct?
3. Discuss: New conditions require new
laws. (What is the difference between
moral laws and statutes?)
4. What does Elder Harold B. Lee say
is the probable reason for murder being
such a serious sin?
5. Is the Latter-day Saint who is called
into the military service of his country
guilty of murder as he takes human life
while in that service?
6. Discuss: He who loves his neigh-
bor will not steal, commit adultery, or
kill.
Visiting cJeacher it Lessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 26— "And Ye Must Give Thanks Unto God in the Spirit for What-
soever Blessing Ye Are Blessed With" (D & C 46:32)
Christine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, November 1, i960
Objective: To enjoy fully the blessings of the Lord, we must have thankful and
grateful hearts.
(^)N One occasion, when Jesus was And Jesus answering said, Were there
W traveling to Jerusalem, he not ten cleanscd? b«* ^hcre are the nine?
entered into a certain village and: „,. , . t1 , J
0 1 here are not found that returned to
., . , . ., give glory to God, save this stranger.
. . . there met him ten men that were D D J &
lepers.
And he said unto him, Arise, go thy
And they lifted up their voices, and way: thy faith hath made thee whole
said, Jesus, Master, have mercy on us. (Luke 17:12-19).
And when he saw them, he said unto
them, Go shew yourselves unto the
priests. And it came to pass that, as
they went, they were cleansed.
And one of them, when he saw that
he was healed, turned back, and with a
loud voice glorified God.
And fell down on his face at his feet,
giving him thanks: and he was a Sa-
maritan.
This account gives no details as
to what happened to the nine who
failed to express their gratitude for
the wonderful blessing which had
been bestowed upon them. The
one grateful leper, however, was
specially blessed and told to go his
way, healed.
As we think about this incident,
one fundamental fact should be re-
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membered. Regardless of the na-
ture of our blessings, the joy and
satisfaction we obtain from them
will never be complete unless they
are received with genuine thankful-
ness and gratitude.
The commandment that we must
give thanks unto God for whatso-
ever blessing with which we are
blessed, is not given purely for the
Lord's benefit. Our Father in heav-
en knows that our own enjoyment
of blessings cannot be complete un-
less it is accompanied with sincere
gratitude. In fact, we cannot be
truly happy unless we carry a sense
of thankfulness in our hearts for our
many blessings. We must humbly
recognize that all we possess comes
from our ever-loving Father in heav-
en.
Thankfulness and gratitude are
intimately related terms. President
McKay expressed this thought
beautifully when he said, "Thank-
fulness is the beginning of gratitude;
gratitude the completion of thank-
fulness" (McKay, David O.: Path-
ways to Happiness, page 103). To
be sincere and genuine, both thank-
fulness and gratitude must involve
more than mere words. They can
only be demonstrated through con-
crete actions.
One way to express our gratitude
to the Lord is by being kind to
others. We can express our thanks
by seeing that the:
. . . sunlight of our sympathy, tender-
ness, love, appreciation, influence, and
kindness ever go out from us as a glow
to brighten and hearten others (Jordan,
William George: Great Truths, page 26).
The importance of a thankful
and grateful heart has been empha-
sized by wise men down through
the ages. The great prophet
Alma admonished the people that
". . . every day they should give
thanks to the Lord their God"
(Mosiah 18:23). Shakespeare ex-
pressed the importance of a thank-
ful heart when he said, ". . . O Lord,
that lends me life, Lend me a heart
replete with thankfulness" {King
Henry VI, Part II, Act 1).
Thankfulness for blessings re-
ceived has been expressed by God-
fearing peoples throughout the his-
tory of the world. True thanksgiv-
ing is a constant thing. It cannot be
confined to anv one individual,
time, or place, but should always be
a part of our hearts. In true hu-
mility we should give thanks to our
Father in heaven from whom all
blessings flow, remembering that
just as we as parents appreciate an
expression of gratitude from our
children, how much more is grati-
tude due our Father in heaven. If
we would please the Lord and find
happiness within ourselves we must
follow his commandment and
". . . give thanks unto God . . . for
whatsoever blessings ye are blessed
with" (D& 046:32).
Close of LOay
Catherine B. Bowles
The clock is wound, the day is done;
Trials vanished with the setting sun.
As I reflect and kneel to pray
I'm grateful for another day.
Work Tlteeting — Caring for the Sick in the Home
(A Course Expected to Be Used by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Lesson 2 — Manifestations of Illness
Maria Johnson
For Tuesday, November 8, i960
Objective: To learn to recognize, observe, and report symptoms or signs of illness.
To learn how to take and record the body temperature, pulse, and respiration.
Symptoms Reporting to the Doctor
A symptom such as headache, When you call a doctor, let him
pain, or nausea is not a disease, feel you need help and that you are
but it may be an important warning not just a panicky woman. Describe
that something is wrong and may the symptoms you have observed,
be most helpful to the doctor in For example, pain in the abdomen
determining the cause of the illness, is sharp, comes and goes; the patient
The doctor depends upon the indi- draws up her legs when the pain
vidual attending the patient to re- comes; it started an hour ago; or
port to him the symptoms she you might report the baby pulls at
observes and those of which the his ear and screams. Whatever you
patient complains. Just as a child report, give the location, the
puts together the various shapes and character, when first noted, etc. If
colors of a puzzle to make the pic- you have a thermometer, take the
ture complete, so the doctor puts temperature and report it along with
together the symptoms that are evi- other observations,
dent. One symptom may be of When the doctor comes ask him
little importance by itself; but, to write his orders for vou, or you
when associated with others, the may write them In either case g0
R. .? . y A 1 , -1.1 ^ over them with the doctor and see
significant. Any ot us might have
a fever today, vet the disease or that there are no misunderstandings,
cause of the fever could be different Never hesitate to ask for further
in each case. Other symptoms that explanation, if it is needed,
accompany the fever will be im-
portant in determining the cause. Household Planning in
Warning signals that any one of us Caring for the Sick
can recognize are numerous, for when the care of a tient {$
example, headache, dizziness, nau- , , , . ., , ., -i-v.-
r 1V 11 i- i added to the dailv responsibilities in
sea, swelling, bleeding, rash. ; l
Different diseases usually have a a home> emotional tension easily
different combination or grouping builds up. To avoid this make a
of symptoms, so we can see how plan. Write down what is to be
important our observations are to done for the patient and at what
the doctor who is to make the
diagnosis and treat the disease. In
time. Then fit this schedule into
addition to the symptoms observed your household plan. Other mem-
or reported, he may need X-rays or bers of the family can relieve you, if
laboratory tests. there is a plan they can understand,
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549
and each one can see where he or
she can give a helping hand.
Todav we will read thermometers
and take pulse.
The Vital Signs
Temperature, pulse, and respiration are often called the vital signs. They give the
doctor important clues in determining a patient's condition.
The thermometer for taking body temperature is called a clinical or fever ther-
mometer and differs from other thermometers in that the mercury remains at the highest
point until it is shaken down. The mouth thermometer has either a slender bulb or
a short stubby one. The rectal thermometer always has a stubby bulb. Never use a
thermometer with a slender bulb when taking a rectal temperature as it may break
and injure the patient.
The normal mouth temperature is approximately 98.6 degrees F.
The normal rectal temperature will be a degree higher or 99.6 degrees F.
A thermometer has three parts — a bulb, a stem, and a tip end. (See illustration.)
To Read a Thermometer
Important Steps
1. Become familiar with the scale and
numbers.
2. Shake down the mercury. It stays
at the last reading until shaken
down.
3. Read the thermometer to the near-
est tenth. The mercury will appear
along the ridge of the stem be-
tween the numbers and lines.
Key Points
They appear on either side of the ridge
along the stem.
Grasp the tip end between the thumb
and forefinger, and shake with a snap
of the wrist.
Hold horizontally, in good light, with
markings toward you. Do not touch
the bulb end. Rotate the stem be-
tween the thumb and finger until you
see where the line of mercury stops.
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94
8 t
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108
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AVERAGE
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10 10 10 10
98
99
Thermometers showing the average normal mouth temperature. Normal rectal
temperature is one degree higher — 99.6. Mouth temperatures may be taken with
either the long bulb thermometer or the stubby point thermometer, but rectal tempera-
tures should be taken with the stubby bulb thermometer only.
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To Take a Mouth Temperature
Wait 20 or 30 minutes after a patient has had a hot or cold drink, or a tub
bath, before taking the temperature.
Equipment needed:
Mouth thermometer
Soap to clean the thermometer
Cotton or tissue for wipes
Important Steps
1. Wash your hands.
2. Take clean thermometer from clean
container and shake down to at
least 960 F.
3. Rinse the thermometer in cool
water.
Place the thermometer bulb under
the tongue a little to one side
in the patient's mouth. Leave it
for at least 3 minutes.
Remove the thermometer and read.
Waste container
Timepiece or watch with second hand
Key Points
Clean thermometer with soap and
cool water and store in clean con-
tainer.
To make it more pleasant to hold in
the mouth, and so the mercury will not
rise in washing.
Have the patient keep the lips closed
but not bite down.
This will be the figure where the rib-
bon of mercury stops.
Never put a thermometer away before
cleaning it.
7. Record temperature.
8. Wash your hands.
Example — 9 8.6° — ioo(
97-5°
102.4
To Take a Rectal Temperature
Equipment:
Same as for mouth temperature, except use a stubby thermometer and add a
lubricant such as vaseline or cold cream.
Important Steps
1. Wash your hands.
2. Have adult turn on side — a child
on abdomen.
Shake down thermometer
lubricate the bulb end.
and
Insert the bulb about one inch
slowly and gently. Hold in place
three minutes.
5. Remove — wipe and read.
6. Cleanse and put in container
7. Record temperature
8. Wash your hands.
Key Points
So anus is visible.
Put lubricant on clean tissue — never
dip thermometer into a jar of lubricant.
Always hold the thermometer for a
child. Hold it for the adult unless he
can hold it himself.
Same as for mouth thermometer.
Same as for mouth thermometer.
Write (R) after figure to show it is
a rectal temperature.
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Pulse
The pulse is the beat which is felt each time the heart contracts to force the blood
through the arteries or blood vessels. We speak of the heartbeat or pulsation. The
normal pulse usually has perfect rhythm and moderate rate. A marked variation in
pulse sometimes is more serious than change in temperature.
Do not take a pulse after excitement or exercise.
The pulse is usually taken at the inner surface of the wrist on the thumb side,
where an artery lies near the surface and close to a bone. (See illustration.)
You will need a watch or timepiece with a second hand.
To Take a Pulse
Important Steps
1. The patient should be lying down
or sitting with the arm at rest on
the bed or other support.
2. Place the tips of your first three
fingers on the inner surface of the
wrist on the thumb side. (See
illustration.) Press just hard
enough to feel the pulse distinctly.
3. Count the pulsation or beats for
a full minute.
Record the exact number of beats
in one minute and any irregularity.
Key Points
Exertion from holding the arm up can
affect the pulse.
Never take a pulse with the thumb,
as there is an artery in the thumb, and
you will feel your own pulse. If you
press too hard you will be unable to
feel the pulse.
Use a watch or timepiece with a sec-
ond hand. Observe any irregularity in
rhythm. (Does it skip beats?)
The normal pulse usually has perfect
rhythm. An irregular pulse will skip
beats.
Respiration
Respiration is the process of breathing. Oxygen keeps the body cells alive. We
get our oxygen by breathing in fresh air and get rid of carbon dioxide waste as we
breathe out.
It is important to report to the doctor if the patient's respirations do not appear
normal. For example, you will observe if the breathing is too slow, if it is shallow,
if it is difficult, if the patient finds it easier to breathe when sitting up. Respirations
will change with exercise or excitement.
^Literature — America's Literature Comes of Age
Lesson 1 8 — Washington Irving, Polished Paradox
Elder Brian t S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 193-220)
For Tuesday, November 15, i960
Objective: To relate the writings of Irving to the man, and both to the dynamic
beginning period of the Nation out of which they grew.
V^ASHINGTON Irvin§; who be'
came one of America's first
cultural ambassadors to Europe, was
born into a wealthy New York City
merchant family, April 3, 1783.
Although it was an age of pattern-
making and expansion in every
phase of the new Nation's existence,
and although Irving became the first
universally accepted literary symbol
of the United States, yet never did
he symbolize those driving forces
which, in his own day, were at work
to make his country unique and
great.
Everywhere read and enjoyed,
acclaimed and loved, he was Mr.
American Literature, Gentleman,
both creator and symbol, yet the
world his writings created was one
of memory, legend, and security.
America's real world was one of
action, of reality, of destiny, and
futurity; and it was increasingly to
become one of conflict. This world
Washington Irving successfully
avoided both in literature as in life.
Between these divergent worlds, lie
contradictions of a new Nation
erupting into an identity which
many of its citizens feared, others
even refused to face.
Yet then, as now, music and
scene, gentle humor and soothing
dream provide their own peculiar
delights. Nor are these enduring
values to be refused any more in
our own nuclear age than they were
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during the decades of momentous
decisions and transitions which Irv-
ing could have known, but chose to
ignore. In fairness we must esteem
Irving for his considerable virtues,
and for the great enjoyments still to
be found in his early works. In lit-
erature he came as near to being
America's patron saint as anyone;
esteemed by his own age, he still
yields gentle pleasure and lasting
charm to our own.
Background Historical Events
Irving's seventy-six years made the
grand span from the Revolution,
which first gave the new Nation
identity, to the Civil War, which so
nearly destroyed it. On April 19,
1783, sixteen days after Irving's
birth, Washington read to his
troops the proclamation of Con-
gress ordering "cessation of hostili-
ties." A few months later British
troops marched out of Irving's
home town of New York after seven
years of occupation. When Irving
was five, the Constitution was rati-
fied (1788). Thirteen years later
Jefferson became President (1801),
followed bv the Louisiana Purchase
in two years. In 1807, Fulton's
steamboat confounded Irving's
beloved Hudson River folk, and
from 1812-1815 there was the War
of 1812 with England, Irving serv-
ing brieflv on the staff of the Gov-
ernor of New York. In 1820, when
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he was thirty-seven, the Missouri
Compromise temporarily appeased
the South on the slavery question,
in 1823 the Monroe Doctrine
startled the world, and, in 1825, the
Erie Canal opened fertile interior
lands to colonization. In 1831 the
first steam locomotive run was made
in New York State; five years later
Morse invented the telegraph; the
Mexican War began in 1846; fol-
lowed by the Gold Rush to Cali-
fornia. Commodore Perry opened
trade with Japan in 1854; and in
1859 oil was discovered. On No-
vember 28 of the same year Irving
died at Sunnyside, his tranquil
country estate in Tarrytown on the
Hudson.
The Essential Irving
Such events were of Irving's
world, yet not in it, at least not
imaginatively. Heir to a prosperous
family hardware business which he
hated less when it failed, ''reading"
in a law office just long enough to
acquire a permanent distaste for dry
legalities and an abhorrence of po-
litical strife, Irving's nearest ap-
proach to contemporary problems
was to lose large sums in steamboat,
western land, and South American
mine speculations; later he found
satisfaction in having brought to-
gether in peaceful arbitration the
American Ambassador to the Court
of St. James and British diplomats
when, in 1846, the two countries
were perilously near war over their
differences in defining the northern
boundary of Oregon.
A handsome young man with
light brown hair, blue eyes, and a
pleasantly husky voice both smooth
and modulated, Irving was described
as "Friendliness itself." Believing
throughout his life that "a kind
heart is the fountain of gladness,
making everything in its vicinity to
freshen into smiles, and that hap-
piness is reflective like the light of
Heaven," he dedicated his life to
the pleasure of giving pleasure to
others. In his travels during his
mature years, and lengthy self-
exiles to Europe, he considered him-
self a self-appointed ambassador of
good will. Refusing to dwell on
the rough and cruel part of life, he
felt that good humor was "the oil
and wine for a merry meeting." He
loved little children, often playing
with them for hours on end, and
wrote lengthy letters concerning
them. He was so modest and shy
that when the famous English
traveler, Mrs. Frances Trollope,
spotted him in the audience of the
Cincinnati theatre in which she was
lecturing and asked him for an
impromptu speech, he fled both the
theatre and the town itself rather
than comply. In the years of his
semi-retirement at Sunnyside, his
life continued as it had always been:
with many visits from friends, close
ties with his nieces and family,
horseback rides in the country, reg-
ular attendance at operas and plays,
whist, chess, reading, and writing.
These were the important values in
his personal life — mild, peaceful,
harmful to none. In his life, as in
his writings, he had "always had an
opinion that much good might be
done by keeping mankind in good
humor with one another." So suc-
cessfully did he mold his life to this
ideal that, save for Franklin alone,
he was most widely loved by his
countrymen.
living, the Traveler
From his seventeenth year, when
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he made his first extended trip up
his beloved Hudson River Valley,
Irving seemed happiest when he
traveled. A painter with words, he
sought scenes of beauty, finding it
most abundantly in the exotic and
the old, which, with extreme care
and polish, he recreated into his
sharply chiseled prose. Adored and
pampered by his family, he was sent
to Europe at age twenty-one to gain
"health, education and pleasure,"
which, during the next two years,
he found in abundance. Returning
to America, he toyed with the law
and magazine editing, then, in 1815
at age thirty-eight, he went to
Europe for a Mediterranean cruise
and remained for seventeen years.
Again, in 1841, he returned to ro-
mantic Spain as American Ambas-
sador for four years. The last
thirteen years of his life he spent
at his home Sunnyside.
Irving enjoyed creating the illu-
sion that he lived a leisurely, casual,
bachelor existence. Actually, Long-
fellow saw him truly when, calling
upon him during his first long stay
in Madrid, he gave the impression
of "always being at work." In his
travels, he was always the self-con-
scious literary man with a sharp eye
for material suitable for his pen. In
his writings he had excellent tech-
nical powers, which are everywhere
evident in his carefully revised prose;
but he had little creative impulse so,
as his bosom friend Henry Brevoort
wrote, "He makes his travels go
far," as is beautifully exemplified in
"The Stout Gentlemen," in our
text, page 203.
Both in travel and in writing,
Irving was the arch-romantic, loving
to depict folk tales and humor with
his skilled pen. Best of all is the
carefully controlled tone of his
sketches, which produces in the
reader a subtle emotional effect of
pleasure and surrender to his art.
livings Literary Significance
Irving's lack of interest in con-
temporary affairs is not to deny the
importance of his contributions to
American literature. Historically,
he was the first writer in the new
country to make his living bv writ-
ing. The appearance of his Sketch
Book ("A collection of familiar
essays and pleasant tales," see text,
page 193), in both America and
England, in 1819-20, brought him
immediate fame, causing Europe to
admit that, finally, a first-rate writer
had been produced west of the
Atlantic. He pioneered the devel-
opment of the short story, the only
literary type originated in America,
exerting a strong influence on Edgar
Allen Poe and Nathaniel Haw-
thorne who brought the short story
to its full stature. In addition, he
influenced Dickens and Stevenson,
and many other nineteenth-century
writers. And, within his own life-
time, eight of his different works
appeared in forty-two Spanish edi-
tions, 113 translations were made
into French, and sixty-one into
German; The Sketch Book was
translated into fifteen languages,
thus indicating his world-wide ac-
ceptance.
In two different senses Irving
should be remembered as a tran-
sitional writer. Though he owed
much to Goldsmith, his favorite
author, and other eighteenth cen-
tury English writers, such as Addi-
son and Steele, Sterne and Swift, he
was not merely their American imi-
tation. In his youthful and best
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555
works, Knickerbocker's History of
New York and The Sketch Book,
the sole aim of his satires was to
entertain and give pleasure, in con-
trast to all his predecessors, except
Byrd and Franklin, who wrote
didactic literature designed to in-
struct or to persuade. He was first
in his country to write biography,
history, and the familiar essay for
amusement only.
Irving' s second transition re-
versed the trend from conservatism
to liberalism which then character-
ized the new Nation growing to-
wards its first full maturity. In his
vouthful satires Irving found his
freest, most natural stride. When
later he became a romantic anti-
quarian and mood-writer, the star of
his genius was less bright (for ex-
ample, Tales of a Traveler and Life
of Columbus). Such later travel
books as A Tour on the Prairies,
Ahhotsfoid, and Newstead Abbey,
all appearing in 1835, were but com-
petent first-hand reporting and im-
pressionistic personal essavs, while
the ponderous works of his later
years (Life of Goldsmith, 1840;
Mohamet and His Successors, 1850;
and his five-volume Life of Wash-
ington, 18^5-59) were so grinding
and dull that even amiable Long-
fellow complained that he was re-
shuffling his old notes rather than
writing a new book. Thus his rep-
utation arose from those few early
works in which he attempted but
few things, but he did those few
extremely well.
Irving, the Satirist
New York was still a town which
loved endless parties, parades, din-
ners, and its personalities and
"characters" when Irving, aged
twentv-four, joined with his editor-
brother William, and James K.
Paulding to publish twenty issues of
Salmagundi during 1807-08 (Salma-
gundi; a miscellany or salad com-
posed of chopped meat and pickled
herring, with oil, vinegar, pepper,
and onions). The unrestrained,
youthful vigor of these essavs is
apparent only if the whole title is
read :
SALMAGUNDI;
or the
WHIM-WHAMS AND OPINIONS OF
LAUNCELOT LANGSTAFF, Esq.,
AND OTHERS.
In hoc est hoax, cum quiz et jokesez,
Et smokem, toastem, roastem folksez,
Fee, fa, fum. Psalmanazar.
With baked, and broiled, and stewed, and
toasted;
And fried, and boiled, and smoked, and
roasted,
We treat the town.
(Salmagundi, Saturday January 24, 1807,
page 209)
Obviously patterned after the
Spectator papers of Addison and
Steele, the essays' theme might have
been a statement in No. XIII:
". . . it is easier to laugh ten follies
out of countenance than to coax,
reason, or flog a man out of one/7
Two excerpts from the same paper
show that the young wits dared to
poke fun at whatever weaknesses
they saw in humanity, not exempt-
ing vouth's own common tendency
to take itself too seriously while set-
ting the established world straight:
. . . we seriously assure our readers that
we were fully possessed of all the wisdom
and morality it contains at the moment
we commenced writing. It is the world
which has grown wiser, — not us; we
have thrown our mite into the common
stock of knowledge, we have shared our
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morsel with the ignorant multitude; and
so far from elevating ourselves above the
world, our sole endeavor has been to raise
the world to our own level, and make it
as wise as we, its disinterested benefactors
(Salmagundi, page 263).
They also give ironic solace to
those we always have with us who
long for the flawless "good old days"
while the modern world goes to pot:
... we bequeath our first volume to
future generations, — and much good may
it do them. Heaven grant they may be
able to read it! for, if our fashionable mode
of education continues to improve, as of
late, I am under serious apprehensions
that the period is not far distant when
the discipline of the dancing master will
supersede that of the grammarian; crotch-
ets and quavers supplant the alphabet.
. . . How does my heart yearn for poor
dear posterity, when this work shall be-
come as unintelligible to our grandchildren
as it seems to be to their grandfathers and
grandmothers (Salmagundi, page 264).
What a neatly turned satire on
those who always feel yesterday's
education was superior! And for
dancing and music substitute TV
and "rock 'n' roll" — have funda-
mentals ever changed?
Knickerbocker's History
of New York (1809)
Among other reasons, sensitive
young Irving gave up the editorship
of the AnaJectic Magazine when he
was twenty-seven, because he dis-
liked reviewing books about which
nothing good could honestly be
said; similarly, through satire and
laughter the History might be de-
fined as a gentle listing of those
weaknesses in mankind which Irving
felt might be eliminated or im-
proved. And in the vigorous new
democracy, aristocratic, Federalistic
Irving found much that might be
bettered: he ridiculed fantastic new
schemes for eliminating poverty,
poked fun at the money system by
suggesting oyster shells replace
specie, found the solid old Dutch
burghers pompous and windy, dis-
trusted the equalizing rule by the
people, feared mobs and Yankees,
and even let the reader know that
he was less than perfect:
If from all that I have said thou dost
not gather, worthy reader, that Peter
Stuyvesant was a tough, sturdy, valiant,
weather - beaten, mettlesome, obstinate,
leathern-sided, lion-hearted, generous-
spirited old governor, either I have written
to but little purpose, or thou art very dull
at drawing conclusions (Book V, Chap-
ter 1 ) .
With the unrestrained vigor
which characterizes not only the en-
tire book but, more important, the
mind of voung Irving, he pricked
the bubble of Dutch complacency
by telling how their "Fort Good
Hoop" was taken by the hated
Yankees without casualty by invad-
ing the fort during the usual after-
noon nap hour:
In an instant the flag of their High
Mightinesses was lowered, and the Yankee
standard elevated in its stead, being a
dried codfish by way of a spread eagle. . . .
Van Curlet and his men, they were seized
by the nape of the neck, conducted to
the gate, and one by one dismissed with
a kick in the crupper. . . . Jacobus Van
Curlet receiving two kicks in considera-
tion of his official dignity (Book IV,
Chapter III).
But Irving shows no partiality,
for next he lampoons the enterpris-
ing greed of the Connecticut
Yankees.
. . . the Nieuw Nederlandts had long
been regarded by the whole Yankee race
as the modern land of promise, and them-
LESSON DEPARTMENT
557
selves as the chosen and peculiar people
destined ... to get possession of it. In
truth they are a wonderful and all-preva-
lent people, of that class who only require
an inch to gain an ell, or a halter to gain
a horse. From the time they first gained
a foothold on Plymouth Rock, they began
to migrate, progressing and progressing
from place to place, and land to land,
making a little here and a little there. . . .
Hence they have facetiously received the
nickname of THE PILGRIMS: that is
to say, a people who are always seeking
a better country than their own (Book IV,
Chapter XII).
After reading such samplings, it
is no wonder that young Irving was
popular with the home town folks
even before "Rip Van Winkle" and
"The Legend of Sleepy Hollow"
endeared him to all people every-
where. The eerie mystery of the lat-
ter story has long made it a favor-
ite of children of all ages, as well as
influenced writers from Poe to
Stevenson. Best loved of all Irv-
ing's works is "Rip Van Winkle/'
immortalized in the painting by
John Ouidor (text, page 165). In
this story his two strongest literary
skills are blended: first, with the
same verve as found in the History,
he satirizes the democratic spirit of
party, weaknesses of mob voting,
the tyranny of "petticoat govern-
ment," and the rewards of "getting
away from it all" — which seem to
make nature-lovers of so many hus-
bands; next he paints the dream of
the ideal past in a nostalgic mood
from which none of us can escape,
the same mood which is to be his
chief stock in trade the rest of his
life until, alas, he wore it out.
While few will maintain that
Irving is one of our great writers,
none should deny his skills within
that small area which he made his
own. Not only was he a careful
craftsman; he also knew precisely
what his contemporaries wanted and
he gave it to them, both to their
delight and to ours. And while he
dodged many realities in his later
writings, and was heavily indebted
to the eighteenth-century writers he
loved, still it should be recalled that
in several important ways he was
first. Further, he excelled and was
loved because much of his writing
was his own; he maintained his in-
dependence even while he con-
formed; his strong feeling for old
places and ways and folk tales was
original; seeing the weaknesses of
himself and his world, he laughed
gently at it all; and, though basically
an aristocrat, never did he take him-
self so seriously that he could not
laugh at himself as well as his age,
both past and present. Surely the
American view of life as well as
American literature would be much
poorer had he accepted the appoint-
ment as Secretary of the Navy in-
stead of trusting his talent and writ-
ing The Sketch Book.
Thoughts for Discussion
1. Though many have felt Irving alwavs
sought to escape the harsh realities of
life, still he was tremendously popular.
Discuss this apparent paradox.
2. In his later writings Irving gave up
satire entirely. Do you feel this made
him a better writer?
3. What do you feel to have been the
source of greatest happiness for Irving?
Social Science — Spiritual Living
in the Nuclear Age
Lesson 9 — Expanding Our Religious Horizons — Part II: Concepts of Man
Elder Blaine M. Porter
For Tuesday, November 22, i960
Objective: To discover how our concepts of man and the resulting relationships
influence our potentialities for spiritual living.
T
Introduction
HE challenge of understanding
the nature of man has faced all
generations. The Psalmist said,
"What is man, that thou art mind-
ful of him?" Socrates admonished
his fellow men — "Know thyself."
Alexander Pope in 1733 said in his
famous poem, "The proper study of
mankind is man."
Today the study of man is receiv-
ing more attention than in any
previous period of history. Studies
of human growth and development
are numerous. Educators seek to
"understand" students in order to
teach them more effectively. Army
psychiatrists analyze the "why" of
man's behavior in order to explain
his actions in certain situations.
Religionists emphasize in more spe-
cific details than ever before how
early experiences influence the later
behavior and religious beliefs of an
individual. Social scientists, mental
health specialists, psychiatrists, and
many other professional persons are
waging crusades on many fronts as
we attempt to understand more ful-
ly the nature of man.
Concepts of Man
The Bible teaches that God cre-
ated man and, furthermore, that he
created man in his own image. Lat-
ter-day Saints believe that man is an
eternal being, having existed prior
to this life and continuing to exist
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with his own individuality after this
life. According to our present
understanding we first existed in
the form of intelligence. We then
became spirit children of God, next
mortal beings, and, following this,
we will become resurrected beings.
We further believe that man has
been given the free agency to make
decisions and, to a certain degree,
determine the course which his life
will take. But within the frame-
work of considering man an off-
spring of God, a free agent, and as
one who is living a purposeful life,
there is considerable latitude for
beliefs concerning the nature of
man. As we look at the traditional
concepts of man, we find that three
basic approaches emerge.
Man Is Evil. The most tradition-
al approach is to look upon man as
basically bad and inherently evil.
Throughout most of Christian his-
tory, man has been taught that he
was born in sin, and that his natural
tendency is toward evil thoughts
and sinful deeds. The statements,
"man is bv nature carnal, sensual,
and devilish," and "the natural man
is an enemy of God," have been
interpreted bv some to support this
approach. If he is left on his own,
they claim, he will yield to the
"flesh," choose the evil, and, in gen-
eral, live a life of degradation. Plans
for transforming man from this state
into one which would permit him to
LESSON DEPARTMENT
559
return to the presence of his Creator
range all the way from self-persecu-
tion to confessing a belief in Christ
and being saved by the grace of
God.
The task of child rearing from
this point of view consists of one in
which parents, teachers, and signifi-
cant others in the life of a child
must constantly and diligently work
at rooting out the evil which is in-
herently in man from the time of
his birth, and constantly try to
direct and control him in order to
produce a person who will obey and
conform to the prescribed pattern.
Proponents of this point of view
have drawn an analogv between
child rearing and that of rolling a
ball uphill. As long as one is push-
ing and forcing it in the right direc-
tion, it will continue to go, but the
minute one relaxes or femoves the
pressure, the natural tendencv is to
roll back down or, in the case of a
child, to revert to evil and sinful
behavior.
Man Is Neither Good Not Bad.
Another approach to man has been
to look upon him as being neither
basically good nor evil. This con-
cept is based on the premise that
man enters the world with a blank
slate, and what he becomes and his
future destiny depend upon what is
written upon the slate by the sig-
nificant people in his life (parents,
other family members, teachers,
etc). Man, it is claimed, can easily
be swayed in the direction of good
or evil depending upon who influ-
ences him first and most strongly.
This concept pictures man living in
a world in which good and evil are
in competition with each other, and
man stands as a neutral pawn to be
pushed and swayed by the strongest
force. He possesses the potentiali-
ties of becoming a sinner or a saint.
The environmental influences are
all-important in determining the di-
rection life will take. With favor-
able environmental conditions and
the influence of the spirit of Christ,
an individual can develop and ex-
perience the most positive poten-
tialities within him.
The task of child rearing from this
point of view is to surround the
child with as much protection from
evil as possible while parents, teach-
ers, and significant others indoctri-
nate him with concepts and beliefs
that will take him in the direction
of good and right living.
Man Is Good. A third approach
is to regard man as basically and in-
herently good. Adherents of this
philosophy point out that man
comes into the world innocent of
guilt and sinfulness and, as a child
of God, he inherits divinelike at-
tributes in his human nature.
Every spirit of man was innocent in the
beginning; and God having redeemed man
from the fall, men became again, in their
infant state, innocent before God (D & C
93:38).
This approach to man recognizes
that he may be diverted into evil
ways, but it looks upon life as po-
tentially good and upon man as a
potentially loving, kind, contribut-
ing person. One of the basic
reasons why man is here is to
experience further growth in his
Godlike potentialities.
The task of child rearing from
this point of view is one of helping
the individual become himself. It
assumes that if we provide a healthy
atmosphere, positive growth and de-
velopment will naturally take place.
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Man's Relationship to Man
No matter which of the above
three concepts of the nature of man
(or even combinations of these con-
cepts) we subscribe to, we would
probably agree on the final goal to
be achieved: namely, to discover
and live the abundant life as taught
and exemplified by our Lord and
Savior, Jesus Christ. However, the
manner in which we go about
achieving this task and the resulting
relationship with our fellow men,
vary considerably among these con-
cepts.
If our concept of man is that he
is by nature evil, we will approach
him with caution and suspicion un-
til he has "proved" himself. If we
adhere to the belief that man by
nature will do evil, our expectations
are in this direction, and it is quite
probable that we will find that for
which we are looking. We tend to
feel uncomfortable around him or
even fear him, until we have estab-
lished a feeling of trust and confi-
dence. Such an outlook easily allows
for exclusiveness and provincialism
(a narrow point of view).
Those who subscribe to the sec-
ond approach to man: namely, that
he is neither good nor bad, but is
as plastic clay — look upon other
people as objects to be molded and
manipulated to fit the values which
the molder has. With this point
of view, we approach others not so
much with fear and distrust as we
do with hesitancy and wonder and
one maintains a much more opti-
mistic view of man. Since he feels
that man can just as easily be
molded into a "good" person as a
"bad" one, he is more willing to
enter into relationships with him.
The third approach provides a
LESSON DEPARTMENT
561
more widening horizon, since it
looks upon man as potentially good
and, therefore, looking for the best
in his fellow men. We look upon
our relationships with man as con-
sisting not so much of protecting
or manipulating and molding, but
rather of helping the individual dis-
cover himself and experience the
Godlike potentialities within him.
It allows us to reach out with
warmth, with love, and acceptance.
It permits us to recognize the fact
that it is human to err. But because
there is value and worth and po-
tentiality for good in all men, our
responsibility and goal is not to
condemn the evil and reject those
who do not behave in our way and
think as we do, but to capitalize
upon the good in all human beings.
We see our responsibility mainly as
the task of trying to create an
environment which is conducive to
the healthy growth and development
of all mankind — physically, mental-
ly, socially, emotionally, and spirit-
ually.
An illustration which may help to
clarify this point is to contrast the
potentialities of man with the
expectations which we have when
we plant a seed. We recognize
that the potentialities for growth
whether it be a cornstalk, a rose-
bush, or an oak tree, are inherent
in the seed. Our expectations are
that it will grow and experience its
destiny, but we realize that we must
make the conditions right in order
for that growth to take place. We
must find good soil in which to
plant the seed. We must provide
the necessary nourishment in order
for it to grow. We must protect
it, particularly during its early
growth and tender period, in order
that it will not be distorted or
killed. Then, if we provide the
right conditions, it will grow into
the potentialities which we expect-
ed from the seed itself. But we
would not expect the seed of a rose-
bush to grow into a distorted and
tangled bush with no blossoms.
Neither would we expect to take
the seed of a squash and manipu-
late and mold it into a pine tree.
And so with human beings, it is our
responsibility to make the condi-
tions right for learning and growth,
so that a child may develop the
potentialities of Godlike character-
istics which are inherently within
him.
The Latter-day Saint
Concept of Man
The Latter-day Saint concept of
man is that he is born innocent;
unencumbered by any sin connected
with his birth or with the fall of
Adam. Furthermore, he is born
with potentialities of Godlike
characteristics. Note the following
quotations from our prophets:
Man is the child of God, formed in
die divine image and endowed with
divine attributes, and even as the infant
son of our earthly father and mother is
capable in due time of becoming a man,
so the undeveloped offspring of celestial
parentage is capable, by experience
through ages of aeons, of evolving into a
God (Joseph F. Smith, Improvement Erar
13:81, November 1909).
. . . we are the offspring of God, born
with the same faculties and powers as He
possesses, capable of enlargement through
the experience that we are now passing
through in our second estate. . . . He has
begotten us in His own image. He has
given us faculties and powers that are
capable of enlargement until His fullness
is reached which He has promised —
until we shall sit upon thrones, governing
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and controlling our posterity from eter-
nity to eternity, and increasing eternally
(Lorenzo Snow, Millennial Star 56:772,
December 3, 1894).
We were born in the image of God
onr Father; He begot us like unto him-
self. There is the nature of deity in the
composition of our spiritual organization;
in our spiritual birth our Father trans-
mitted to us the capabilities, powers and
faculties which he himself possessed, as
much so as the child on its mother's bosom
possesses, although in an undeveloped
state, the faculties, powers and suscepti-
bilities of its parent (Lorenzo Snow,
Deseret Weekly News 20:597, January
14, 1872).
Lowell L. Bennion, in discussing
this subject, presents the following
opinion:
Man comes into the world innocent of
any guilt, sinfulness, or depravity. He
comes as a child of God with divine-like
attributes in his human nature. More-
over, the Spirit of God and of Christ
enlightens everv person who is born in
the world to incline him toward the good.
Man, being a free agent, may choose
good or evil. Living among other free
agents, he is strongly influenced by others
in this choice. ... He is here to learn to
do good and thereby to find joy. This
he will find as he learns to live in harmony
with the will and attributes of his Creator
and grows in his God-like potentiality
(Bennion, Lowell L.: An Introduction to
The Gospel, page 58).
As the individual grows toward
adulthood and becomes accountable
for his actions, he must face the
task of dealing with the physical
drives and urges within him. These
basic and natural urges are potential-
ly valuable. It is only when they
get out of balance and out of con-
trol that they are dangerous. We
are reminded of the power of the
desire for the expression of these
drives and the inclination to yield
to "the works of the flesh" in the
scriptural affirmation that "the
natural man is an enemy to God."
Because of this, we as Latter-day
Saints are taught that man must
yield to the enticings of the Spirit,
be born again, and put off the
"natural" man, in order that the
Godlike potentialities may proper-
ly develop and manifest themselves.
In the words of Brother EIRay L.
Christiansen:
President Grant once reminded us that
there are two spirits striving with all men
— one telling them what to do that is
right, and the other telling them to do
that which will please themselves, that
will gratify their own pride and ambitions.
So, as King Benjamin said, unless we
yield "to the enticings of the Holy Spirit,
and putteth off the natural man . . . and
becometh as a child," meek and submis-
sive, and gentle, full of love, we are likely
to spend our time in gratifying our own
ambitions, and thus fail to develop the
spiritual attributes and power. We will
be led away from the divine destiny which
may be ours (123 Annual Church Con-
ference, page 35).
Summary
The nature of man for purposes
of analysis has been classified into
three broad approaches: (1) Man is
basically and inherently evil; (2)
Man is neither good nor evil, but
enters the world as a blank slate to
be written upon; and (3) Man has
an inheritance of divine potentiali-
ties.
The relationships which we estab-
lish with other men are highly in-
fluenced by our concept of the
nature of man. What we find in
our fellow men is influenced, if not
determined, by what we expect to
find in him. It is also quite prob-
able that what man feels we expect
of him determines his behavior and
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563
what he is able to reflect toward us.
The attitudes with which we ap-
proach man, whether these attitudes
be overt or subtle, and whether they
be directed toward a child or an
adult, are powerful influences. If
we give the impression to a child
that we expect him to misbehave,
to be "naughty," to be "bad," he
soon learns to play the role which
we expect of him. This alone sug-
gests the great value of a positive
concept of the nature of man. Re-
gardless of the concept we choose
to believe, we all recognize that
man is here to develop the divine
characteristics within him, that he
needs the nurturing care of indi-
viduals who love him, and the spirit
of God to inspire and guide him.
Establishing harmonious and cre-
ative relationships with our fellow
men is one of the cornerstones in
the foundation of building a world
at peace. Just as the lens of a cam-
era determines the width of focus,
so does our concept of man deter-
mine the narrowness or breadth of
our religious horizons. God grant
that we may have the vision and
understanding that will permit and
help us to implement the concept
of the brotherhood of man truly.
Thoughts for Discussion
i. Give additional illustrations of how
one's concept of the nature of man in-
fluences child-rearing practices.
2. Give additional illustrations of how
one's concept of man influences his re-
lationship to his fellow men.
3. How does one's concept of man
relate to his concept of God?
4. In what way does an understanding
of the concept of emotional maturity help
us understand man?
5. What are some of the ways in which
we can learn more about the nature of
man?
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Is published on the landscape of despair —
After death and silence, the sudden sound
Of boughs responding to the pluck of air. . . .
Past the river's barren bend they lift their legend,
Where winds are sudden though the hour is mild.
Dense as a wall theysoar above the lava,
Anchored where purple tiers of rock are piled
In tumbled boulder-eggs and long plateaus.
As windbreaks, mothering the meted land,
Or towered in leaf to bless the road with shade,
The giant quotient of reply, they stand.
In measured lines these tall trees rise, where men
Once bent above each seedling, hope wand-high,
To lift the passing heart and eye from earth,
From faith to answer, green on the sun-laned sky.
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Color Transparency bv Duncan Edwards
Free Lance Photographers Guild, Inc.
Frontispiece: Lombardy Poplars, Photograph by Willard Luce
Cover Design by Evan Jensen
Cover Lithographed in Full Color by Deseret News Press
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A few days ago I received my first copy
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Llovd. We moved here to Dillingham a
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Dillingham is located on the coast of
Bristol Bay and can be reached only by
air and water. Therefore, our way of liv-
ing is a big change from that in Utah.
There are only four members of our
Church here, and three of them are our
family. The remaining member, Lyle
Smith, has been wonderful to make us
feel at home. We are enjoying very much
the chance to be pioneers in the jet age.
— Mrs. Martha Morgan
Dillingham, Alaska
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The stories are so refreshing and whole-
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course, the poems. The women who do
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sincere.
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For several years I have taken four tiny
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of
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RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
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VOL 47
SEPTEMBER 1960
NO. 9
L/Ontents
SPECIAL FEATURES
Birthday Congratulations to President David O. McKay 569
Sleep When the Wind Blows Mildred B. Eyring 570
Are You Happy? Marvel Sharp Crookston 595
Evening Incident Helen S. Hughes 634
FICTION
My Third Grandma — Part I — Sari Ilene H. Kingsbury 574
The Rich, Full Years Betty Lou Martin 579
A Problem, a Pet, and the Picture Louise Morris Kelley 598
Orchids in the Snow — Chapter 5 Rosa Lee Lloyd 602
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 566
Sixty Years Ago 582
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 583
Editorial: Enhancing the Joy of Family Living Marianne C. Sharp 584
Notes From the Feld: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 608
Birthday Congratulations 686
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Fall Drama Roberta L. Theobald 577
Best Sellers for the Bazaar Jean Ridges Jennings 586
Freezing Food at Home Ruby K. Smith 591
Something Different for Dinner Emma A. Hanks 596
Mary Bartholomew Stewart Makes Her Home Beautiful With Handwork 601
LESSONS FOR DECEMBER
Theology — The Law of Moral Conduct (continued) Roy W. Doxey 614
Visiting Teacher Messages — ". . . Every Man Is Given a Gift . . . ."
Christine H. Robinson 620
Work Meeting — Moving and Lifting the Patient Maria Johnson 622
Literature — James Fenimore Cooper, Critic Briant S. Jacobs 625
POETRY
Lombardy Poplars — Frontispiece Dorothy J. Roberts 565
Late Summer Alice Morrey Bailey 578
Child Blowing a Dandelion Ida Elaine James 581
What Liahona? Iris W. Schow 585
Grandmother's Art Lula Walker 597
Green Thumb Mabel Law Atkinson 607
A Stake Is Born Padda M. Speller 613
Gratitude Catherine B. Bowles 621
September Road Katherine F. Larsen 634
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PRESIDENT DAVID O. McKAY
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[Birthday (congratulations to
[President LQavia \y. IllcJxau
On His Eighty-Seventh Birthday, September 8, i960
"D ELIEF Society women in all the stakes and missions of the Church
extend birthday congratulations and best wishes to our beloved
President David O. McKay. We are grateful for the privilege of living
in this time of earth history when the gospel has been restored and we are
blessed to receive counsel, guidance, and spiritual enlightenment from our
prophet, seer, and revelator.
As members of the world-wide sisterhood, we are especially thankful
that President McKay has traveled to many countries and has taken the
gospel message to faraway islands and to the great cities of the world.
Through his journeyings and his testimony, he has strengthened and
uplifted the sisters, and increased their devotion and service to the gospel
and in the Relief Society organizations. It is a great joy to all of us in
all the wards and branches to know that Sister McKay has companioned
the President on his visits among the saints, and by her gracious dignity
and her dear kindliness has contributed to the bonds of loving sisterhood
which unite Relief Society women everywhere.
The years of President McKay's life, his young manhood, his apostle-
ship, and presidency have been given, as described in the Doctrine and
Covenants of those who were ordained to go forth among the nations, to
"Lifting up your voices as with the sound of a trump, proclaiming the
truth "
The women of the Church, in every land, rejoice, and their hearts are
filled with gratitude, as they extend birthday greetings to President McKay
and wish him health and happiness and the blessings of the Lord. May
he long continue to ". . . proclaim the everlasting gospel, by the Spirit of
the living God, from people to people, and from land to land. . . ."
Paae 569
Sleep When the Wind Blows
Mildred B. Eyiing
Member, General Board of Relief Society
THE story of the farmer who
was able to sleep through
terrific wind storms is a fa-
miliar one. His ability to sleep is
easily explained. He had built his
house and barns well, they were well
kept, at night the doors were closed
and fastened, the stacks were cov-
ered, the animals safely corralled or
stabled. He was prepared for a
hard wind. He could sleep.
Christians have always known, if
they have read their scriptures care-
fully, that destructive forces of some
kind are coming to the world. They
have been warned many times to
prepare themselves and their house-
holds to meet difficult times. Divine
laws have been given with great
clarity, and commandments to obey
these laws have been repeated by
inspired prophets of all dispensa-
tions, including our own. Punish-
ment for disobedience has been
prescribed, and rewards for obedi-
ence have been promised.
When questioned by them, Christ
told the Pharisees that the first
commandment was to love God
completely, and the second was to
love one's neighbor as oneself. Then,
he indicated that all other com-
mandments are dependent upon
these two. If these first two
commandments had been obeyed
completely, perhaps no others would
have been necessary. But, from the
beginning, some of God's children
have been disobedient, and many
laws concerning specific matters
have been necessary in all dispensa-
tions. The Ten Commandments
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which were given anew through
Moses form a brief code of behavior
for mankind. Again, if this code
had been followed by all people,
the earth could have been a paradise
long ago. During his ministry,
Christ repeated and added to the
commandments, and in the present
dispensation there have been more
repetition and more additions. The
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-
day Saints acknowledges the divinity
of all these commandments, and its
members covenant to obey them.
The words of the commandments
have become very familiar and
commonplace; so much so, that
their meaning and importance are
too often overlooked. The verv last
of the Ten Commandments "Thou
shalt not covet" is not very fre-
quently discussed, and may seem to
be less important than the others.
But is it? What does it mean? The
word covet was used more common-
ly in ancient times than now.
Nephi, in referring to the command-
ments, uses the word envy. Modern
dictionaries use terms such as "to
crave/' "to desire enviously," "to
long for," in defining the word.
These are terms we all understand,
but what are we doing about this
commandment?
Envy seems always to have been
a part of human nature. Cain envied
Abel. Joseph's brothers envied him.
The scriptures are filled with ac-
counts of individuals and nations
which were destroyed because of
this sin. It is not new, but it is
real and it is with us. There has
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571
probably never been another time
when so many people enviously
desire to have what others have, as
now. Modern means of communi-
cation and modern selling tech-
niques may be responsible. It is
possible now for people to see exact-
ly what others have, their homes,
their clothes, their jewels, all their
personal possessions. No one can be
unaware of the aggressive advertis-
ers. Keeping up with the Joneses —
a modern form of covetousness —
has become the most common sin
of the age, so common in fact that
it is not recognized as such by those
who commit it. Yet is not this sin,
in a very real measure, responsible
for many of the other sins — break-
ing the Sabbath day, lying, stealing,
adultery, murder, war? And does
not this sin bring about much of the
anxietv, discontent, ill health, and
misery with which otherwise "good"
people are afflicted? Why are so
many people in debt? Why are so
many women employed outside
their homes? It may seem more
difficult for those who have little to
avoid covetousness. Perhaps it is,
but those who have much are not
without responsibility for the preva-
lence of this sin. They also can be
covetous, and are often vain, and by
indulging their desires and display-
ing their possessions, they arouse
the envy of others and compound
the evil. To have wealth is not sin-
ful; to display it can be. The Tenth
Commandment as given in Exodus
is noticeably more detailed than the
other negative ones, as if to make it
more emphatic. It surely is not Jess
important.
The Lord has always known the
weaknesses and the needs of his
children. He has given many laws
which are designed to help them
develop the ability to love him as
he desires, and to love each other
unselfishly. The law of sacrifice,
the law against covetousness, the
law of tithing, the present Church
Welfare Plan are all preparatory to
the law of consecration, under
which there will be no rich and no
poor, and which we must accept and
live completely before we can live
with the Lord. Since we are
obviously not yet prepared to live
that higher law, we should trv earn-
estly now to obey the lesser ones.
Some of these laws may seem, on
first thought, to be purely temporal;
but we are told by the Lord that
all his laws are spiritual, that none
of them is temporal. As mortals,
we are physical and spiritual beings
combined. The body and spirit are
one and cannot be acted upon sep-
arately. Hatred, anger, jealousy,
worry, greed, cause tension, ulcers,
strokes, and heart attacks. Ignoring
the Word of Wisdom or refusing
to pay tithing and offerings leads to
loss of faith, apostasy, moral and
spiritual decay. All divine laws are
designed to benefit God's children
eternally as well as to give them
happiness here.
HPHE dangers of covetousness have
been recognized bv wise men in
all eras. Socrates (469-399 b.c.) is re-
ported to have said, "Those who
want fewest things are nearest to
the gods." And often when he
was looking in at auctions, he would
say, "How many things there are
which I do not need." Horace
(65 b.c. - 8 a.d.) the Roman poet
said, "The covetous man is ever in
want." The apostle Paul wrote to
the Colossians, "Set your affection
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on things above, not on things on
the earth" (Col. 3:2). And to
Timothy he wrote:
But godliness with contentment is great
gain. For we brought nothing into this
world, and it is certain we can carry noth-
ing out. And having food and raiment
let us be therewith content. But they
that will be rich fall into temptation and
a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful
lusts. . . . For the love of money is the
root of all evil. . . (I Tim. 6:6-10).
How can we attain "godliness
with contentment"? What changes
must we make in our thinking and
our practices?
In the beginning, man was given
the responsibility of providing,
through his own labor, the physical
necessities for his family. He was to
govern, protect, and cherish them.
The woman was to bear children, to
be a homemaker and a help meet to
her husband, subject to him in
righteousness. Together, they were
to bring up their children in
righteousness. These original as-
signments have never been changed.
How well are we playing our roles
as women now?
W^E hear much about "woman's
rights" today, but let us look,
now, not at her rights only, but at
her responsibilities as a wife and
mother. She is a help meet to her
husband. She must conserve and
use wisely the necessary material of
livelihood which her husband pro-
vides. She must recognize and meet
the needs, and respect the rights of
all members of her family, including
herself.
What are important needs and
rights of family members? First, of
course, they need the material
things: adequate shelter, food, and
clothing. More importantly, per-
haps, each needs the love, respect,
confidence, appreciation, and co-
operation of all the family. They
all need peace of mind. Each needs
time to work without interference,
time for a hobby, time to sing, to
play, to laugh, to pray, time to be
alone. Are we homemakers manag-
ing our homes so that these needs
of our families are met? What can
we do to make twenty-four hours a
day and our present income ade-
quate for all these things?
Many of us will be compelled to
change our habits. Most of us are
more or less closely akin to the pack
rat. We accumulate and hoard
things for which we have no need
or use or just because we see them,
or because someone else has them.
We can change that habit. A good
practical beginning would be a com-
plete housecleaning. We can go
through every room, every closet,
cupboard, and drawer and take out
everything we do not need, or are
not storing for a future need, pack
the articles which might be useful
to someone else and send them to
the Deseret Industries, or, where
there is no Deseret Industries,
search out people in need of them.
Our homes will be clean and our
spirits will be lifted.
Now let us make a survey of our
family activities over a period of
time (to be really "scientific" it
should cover at least six months so
that seasonal factors would be in-
cluded, but a shorter period will give
us valuable information.) A chart
for each family member on which
a complete time and activity record
can be kept for each twenty-four-
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573
hour day should be made. Show
money earned, and how, money
spent, and how. When sufficient
data have been accumulated ex-
amine the charts in a family coun-
cil. Decide together which activi-
ties have been worth the time and
money expended on them, and plan
any desirable changes. Check in-
come and expenditures and make
plans to improve the family finances.
Check menus for meals against the
basic food requirements for health,
to make sure the family is being well-
fed. Read the 89th Section of The
Doctrine and Covenants again and
note the cautions given concerning
the use of the foods provided for
man. Are we being prudent in
our use of them?
Having made the survey of what
we are doing, it will be possible to
set up a workable budget of time,
activity, and money which can
make our resources meet our
needs. Samuel Johnson gave a bit
of excellent advice on budgeting.
He said, "Whatever you have, spend
less/'
T^HRIFT is a homely word, but a
good one. It means economical
management. "A penny saved is a
penny got/' "Waste not, want not."
"Remember, that time is money."
You can think of many such sayings
which our grandparents knew and
lived by. Perhaps we should follow
the counsel of Horace when he said:
"As soon as a man perceives how
much the things he has discarded
excel those which he pursues, let
him turn in time, and resume those
which he relinquished/'
The kind of thrift our ancestors
practiced could balance many or
the tottering family budgets of to-
day. Sewing, breadmaking, home
canning, a vegetable garden, all
helped to stretch meager incomes
to provide the necessities and, often,
some luxuries for the family. The
same thrifty habits are as practical
now as they were a hundred years
ago. In many families today this
kind of old-fashioned thrift would
make it possible for the now work-
ing mothers to stay in their homes
with their families and build
much needed family solidarity and
strength.
When cleaning out the unneeded
things from our homes, we will
have an opportunity to check the
supplies we have stored, the food,
clothing, bedding, household sup-
plies, first-aid materials, etc., which
our prophets, for many years, have
urged us to keep in our homes. By
obedience to their directions, we
not only insure our physical safety
and comfort in difficult times, but
we gain spiritual strength through
our obedience.
Self-examination is the best ex-
amination. How well am I filling
my role? Am I a good help meet?
Am I a wise, understanding mother?
Am I covetous? Am I burdened
with many things? Am I a good
neighbor? Do I have peace of
mind? Does my husband? Are my
children happy? Am I my sister's
keeper? Do I love God? Am I
obedient? Can I sleep when the
wind blows?
illy cJhird (grandma
Part I - SARI
Ilene H. Kingsbury
MY other Grandmas lived far
away, and I saw them brief-
ly once or twice a year.
My third Grandma was in reality
my proximity Grandma, for she
lived in the next house south. She
was not my "blood relation/' but
was as deeply beloved, and was
known by no other title than
Grandma.
Because the freedom of Grand-
ma Morgan's home was ours, we
often played house in the small
lean-to off her kitchen. This room
was a sort of storage department for
Jonathan apples, a sack of bran, a
couple of tool chests, old pillow
cases of dried plums, and cast-off
boxes and trunks. It was cozy and
darkish in there. The one small
window was more of an excuse than
an aid to viewing the scenery. It
never seemed to matter to Grand-
ma whether we rearranged the mis-
cellaneous valuables, just so we kept
a path down the middle. She in-
sisted on easy access to needed
necessities.
I am sure we played in this magic
place scores of times, but only one
of them remains to excite and en-
hance mv adulthood. Her two little
granddaughters and I were planning
a show to enrapture the neighbor-
hood. We remembered Grandma's
old box in the lean-to. She called it
a portmanteau. Our folks would have
said trunk or chest; but it was so
battered and insecure looking that
box was its final category. Had we
been older and wiser and more
observant, we could have seen that
its hinges were of beaten silver, with
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odd markings to insure safety on a
sea voyage. If we had been taught
that a lot of old-fashioned things
were really priceless antiques, then
we could have preserved this con-
tainer for the Smithsonian custo-
dians. But I suppose some sincere
soul, actuated by the goddess of
cleanliness and order, one day
kicked that magic box out the door
and flung it to the woodpile where
it finally became heating material
on a cold winter's night. However,
there it was in my childhood, quite
unmolested save for dust and dry
desert air.
Three little girls, aged eight years,
with dreams in their heads, can
make quick work of opening up an
old-fashioned trunk. They can pull
more dress-up things from it than
one would ever think it could en-
case. These lovely legends of style
billow and tumble at the feet and
get tangled up on the floor until, in
a moment, one is almost submerged
in wool, cotton, and silk. We
grabbed each piece with a shame-
less selfishness, held each up for
size. We smelled some for that
peculiar, musty fragrance of age
and airless confinement. We un-
rolled and unfolded fashion's atroci-
ties and fashion's beauties, we
heartlessly flung aside that which de-
served sentimentality and a quiet
reverence. But we were only eight.
There was so much to choose
from for a childish version of grand
opera that we reveled and shouted
and tugged and danced about. We
hastily drew off and on such mar-
vels of style that we resolved to
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575
become store saleswomen when we
grew up. It was as if we were
thirsty and hungry and here was
meat and drink for effulgence. Our
braids feathered out, our ribbons
hung bedraggled with such pulling
up and down of taffeta shirtwaists
and lace and fur as we had never
before imagined. We gave up the
amateur opera for a few moments,
just being happy dressing up. Hats
with feathers and giant bows graced
our brows. Kid gloves, gone from
stark white to cream with age, were
pushed wrinkling from wrists to
armpits. High button shoes, soft
leather like a baby's palm, were
made to flap around our shins. We
were in our glory.
'yHEN we found it. Coral silk —
vards and vards of it. It was
J
rolled up as is a scroll, to save
wrinkles and fatal creases. One of
us held onto the roll while the other
took two corners firmly in hand and
backed away from the trunk. Out
the door she pranced and right on
out to the clothesline. It was not
a wide piece of beauty, only about
two feet. Along either edge was a
border some four or five inches wide
of curious gold threads so cleverly
woven in with the silk that thev
gleamed and shimmered and start-
led the eye with loveliness. When
the scarf was entirely spread be-
tween us we raised our arms high
above our heads, then jerked them
down, all to see this pinkish silk
flutter and billow and pause in mid-
air as a cloud at sunset. After that
we held it to our waists and swung
toward each other with little danc-
ing steps taken in small circles
which brought us ere long together
in a wrapping of gossamer silk. Out
again we would swing ourselves, and
then repeat the motion as before.
The dance of nymphs expert with
fibers and sunshine and mist and
joy could not have compared with
three girls and what they had found
in an old trunk.
Too sad that the high note so
struck was not the last, or so we
felt at the time. It has taken adult-
hood's view to say it was better to
have it end as it did.
Ecstasy was boundless at the very
moment that Grandma Morgan
came to the door to throw out the
dishwater. At the sight of us she
gave out a sort of wail or moan.
Such unbelief was heard in her pro-
test at what we were doing to her
beloved treasure that we froze in
our tracks, dropped the scarf, gath-
ered courage, and started for the
shelter of the orchard. She recov-
ered quickly enough to call after us
to come back now. We fairly
crawled back to her presence, so
humble were we and so majestic
was she.
She lovingly gathered the length
of priceless goods to her heart. As
she did so she rolled it up hand over
hand in a sort of muff and sat on
the back step and cried into its folds.
This was absolutely stunning to us.
Whoever had seen Grandma with
tears in her eyes? We plumped our-
selves on the ground in front of
her, folded our arms, and waited.
As she crouched over the scarf
and wept, she sort of bent forward
and looked as if she were shrinking,
littler and littler. She wasn't much
bigger than we were anyway, but
suddenly we wanted to comfort her
and take care of her and straighten
her shoulders and make her smile,
and be our wonderful Grandma for-
ever and ever. As we leaned toward
her she withdrew her hands from
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the scarf and unwound it a bit and
placed a length of it around our
shoulders. There we sat in front of
her, the long piece tieing us to-
gether.
Her dark eyes now ceased to cry,
and she felt impelled to tell us her
story. Her ancestors had ruled
India long before the English came
to claim it as a protectorate or de-
partment or whatever they chose to
call their tenure of her land. After
that era of great sorrow, war, and
adjustment, no one was truly happy
in India, neither the British nor the
natives. So fallen were the fortunes
of her father's house, that they were
the servants where once they had
been masters. They were refugees,
where once they had been conquer-
ors. At twelve, called a woman in
India, she became the personal
servant to the wife of a British
military officer.
/^\NE night as her master and his
family were singing hymns in
a little arbor in their garden, they
were disturbed by a rude knocking
at the gate. A guard was sent to
investigate, but got no satisfaction
from two sailor lads who demanded
entrance. The master, therefore,
went to quiet the protests of both
his man and the intruders. The in-
sistence of the strangers that they
come in and join in the singing was
listened to and soon all was calm.
After the practice the master asked
the boys where they had come
from. Good Old England, they in-
formed him, just disembarked from
nearly a year at sea. He wanted to
know whv they had come to his
home. They said they recognized
the hymns and knew Christians
lived within the high stone wall sur-
rounding the place.
All this conversation went on
while the twelve-year-old servant girl
was standing near her mistress gent-
ly fanning her to catch the slightest
evening breeze. She listened. She
was fascinated.
It developed that these two
youths were there to beg people to
go to America. And had they ever
been to America? Well no, but
perhaps they might when they no
longer sailed the seas. The strange
tale unraveled. They were mis-
sionaries from the restored Church
of Jesus Christ. They would soon
have to take ship for other oceans
and continents, but others would
come to preach the gospel to the
pure in heart.
They did sail away, those two
emissaries of Christ not yet twenty.
The reports they made back in Eng-
land were responsible for a mission
to India. In a new season the long-
awaited preachers got to the garden
within the high wall in Calcutta,
India.
These men with the gospel mes-
sage started from Salt Lake City,
Territory of Utah, United States of
America. They traveled by ox team
through Nevada and California.
They worked their way on sailing
ships to India by way of Australia.
They were men who weren't fright-
ened easily — either by the ele-
ments or uncivilized tribes or
skeptical colonists. Some had ex-
perienced mob atrocities, some had
walked hundreds of miles in the
Mexican War as part of the Mor-
mon Battalion. They knew depriva-
tion and hardship. Mormons they
were, and Mormons they hoped to
make all the world.
In India they preached, some for
as long as five years. They traveled
into the interior by bullock cart and
MY THIRD GRANDMA
577
on foot. Few believed, fewer still
were courageous enough to join
their sect, and still fewer had cour-
age to leave governmental subsidies
and posts of authority to emigrate
to Zion.
The young native servant girl of
India did believe. She did leave her
master's house. She did encircle the
globe. She arrived at the end of
nearly a year's journey in a little
Mormon settlement in Southern
Utah.
TJER belongings, or possibles as
she called them, were meager,
unobstrusive, and scarcely of any
value at all. Her little metal studded
trunk became battered in holds of
sailing vessels. It became so beaten
that no one assumed its contents
were of merit. But underneath the
more mundane articles of current
wearing apparel an inquisitive hand
could have found a curved, carved,
ivory-handled sword wrapped in a
misty, gleaming length of gold em-
broidered coral silk. That sari of
South India had come a long, long
wav.
But it was out of place on a west-
ern frontier. Somber living was the
end result of harsh toil. One could
remember when the only bright
trimming in the whole community
was a bit of red flannel contributed
by a gracious lady who had formerly
called it a petticoat. But a swatch
of silk of such gaiety and loveliness
was not countenanced. It had re-
mained in the little trunk for nearlv
two generations when we snatched
it and flung it in the sunshine. No
wonder Grandma cried. The rush
of memories of a most amazing past
was enough to break her reserve. As
she talked, we knew what the butch-
er knife meant to her. The silk and
the steel were symbols of her fa-
ther's house.
Reluctantly we unwound the sari
from our shoulders, we laid it rev-
erently in her lap and noted its high
brilliance. We had been clad in
coral.
We thought about going home to
tell our mothers. Surely they
should know all about the wonder-
ful things Grandma Morgan had
told us. But as we got to the gate
we slowed down. As we stepped
beneath the orchard shade we came
to a complete stop. We looked at
each other. Maybe we should keep
all this a secret until we were old
and someone called us Grandma.
Sfall CD,
a ma
Roberta L. Theobald
AS I remember August 31, 1959, the excitement of anticipation filled the air, and
■**■ such a scurry there was at our house.
Finally, all the children were washed, brushed, and combed; then, with faces
smiling, each left a kiss and was gone.
And on this day before September, an aloneness, which I cherished, was mine.
Togetherness was good, but at times I wished to solo into the realm of quietude.
Yes, it was pleasant to have them back in school again. Most thoughtfully I
listened to the wonderful silence.
Then, soon satiated with myself and my solitude, I just as eagerly awaited their
return.
As other summer days reached into autumn, mothers of other generations have
experienced my same fall drama. In my quiet moment I was aware of my refrigerator
humming, while grandmother, in her day, was reminded that her clock could tock,
and her teakettle could sing.
Josef Muench
HARVEST TIME IN SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA
JLate Si
a miner
Alice Money Bailey
The trees have never been more summer-deep
In green, though summer's needs have drunk their fill
Of flower, of fruit, of seed and chlorophyll.
No shadow stirs the dreaming land, plants seem to sleep
As if enchanted, upright, fully leafed, and keep
Their statued pose, while perfect blossoms spill
No perfume. Bees are surfeited and still.
Up sapphire skies the brambled shadows creep.
The mountain, maiden-curved, still summer-dressed —
Though season's time has passed the median hour —
Is emerald draped and wrapped in mystic rest,
Bewitched, with none to foil the spindle's power.
Where rides the dashing prince of ancient fame
Whose kiss will wake the kingdom into flame?
Page 578
The Rich, Full Years
Betty Lou Martin
THE wind was blowing slightly,
ruffling Emma McDowell's
silver-gray hair. She smiled
bravely as she walked toward the car
where Sarah Drake was waiting to
take her home for the last time. She
paused for a moment to take one
last look at the place where she had
spent thirty years of working days
of her life. An empty, lost feeling
swept over her, and, in spite of the
hot summer day, she felt chilled
and shuddered in the sunlight.
"We're going to miss you at the
factory, Emma," Sarah commented
as they drove home. "It won't be
the same. Ten more years and I
guess that they will give me my
walking papers, too. It is a funny
thing about age sixty-five. They
think that upon your sixty-fifth
birthday they should stamp you
too old and file you away some-
where."
Emma had loved every minute of
her thirty years working in the dress
factory. They had been good years,
busy years. She had sewed each
garment with as much care and zeal
as a good artist paints a picture,
or a sculptor carves a figure.
She glanced down at the over-
night case that her friends at the
factory had given to her. "You're
so lucky," they had told her. "Now
you can visit your children and go
any time that you please."
But I'm content here, Emma
thought. This is my home, and my
roots are here.
Emma McDowell had started
work in the factory after the death
of her husband. Her two daugh-
ters married and were living in
Utah. She had always visited them
on her vacation, but she felt that
she didn't want to burden them by
going to live with them. After all,
they had their own families now.
Morning dawned bright and clear,
and Emma found herself awake at
the usual time. She was halfway
out of bed before she realized that
work was over for her. Unable to
go back to sleep, she got up and
fixed herself some breakfast then
proceeded to clean the house. "I
must keep busy," she reasoned.
Clara Harper knocked cheerfully
on the screen door. "Anybody
home?"
"Yes, Clara," Emma called. "I'm
glad you came over. Do come in."
"My goodness. I saw you out
shaking rugs to beat the band at
seven o'clock this morning. You are
supposed to be a lady of leisure
now," Clara chided. "Are you plan-
ning to go visit your daughters right
away?"
"I don't know, Clara. Both Sue
and Rachel wrote and said that
they would like me to stay with
them indefinitely, but I can't do
that. I like to visit them, but I have
my own home. I have dreaded this
day for so long. I knew that the
factory would retire me when I be-
came sixty-five. I feel just as if I
have been put out to pasture, not
much use to anyone any more. I
guess that they don't consider my
services to be of any value any
more." Emma felt the same lone-
ly, empty feeling creeping over her
that she had experienced the previ-
ous day.
"Nonsense, Emma," Clara said.
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"If you ask me, a person's value
increases with age and experience.,
A lot of companies and places just
aren't up on things. I know one
thing for sure, they are losing a very
valuable employee in losing you. I
wonder how they intend to match
your years of experience and artful
sewing. Sewing is an art with you,
you know."
"I really don't know about sew-
ing being an art with me, Clara, but
I do know that I was doing what
I liked to do, what I wanted to do.
Now I just simply don't know what
to do with myself."
"Well, I know one thing that you
can do this afternoon, and that is
go to Relief Society meeting with
me," Clara called as she walked
toward the door. "I'll pick you up
around 1:30. Okay?"
Emma nodded her approval. "I'll
be ready."
"WHY, Sister McDowell, how
nice having you come to
meeting. I hope that you will be
able to be with us all the time now,"
Sister Benton, the Relief Society
president, said.
Emma had to admit that she en-
joyed the meeting, and for a time
she forgot her own problems as
each of the sisters greeted her and
made her feel welcome at the meet-
ing. Her thoughts drifted back to
the early years of her marriage. She
would never miss a Relief Society
meeting then. She had looked for-
ward to them each week. Then,
when tragedy struck her home, and
she had gone to work, she had
gradually lost contact with Relief
Society.
Now what can I do? Emma pon-
dered as she walked slowly up the
path leading to her home. I've done
my washing and ironing for the
week, and my house is tidied up for
the day. I guess that I could write
some letters, but I would rather save
that for this evening. I could walk
down to the store and do some
shopping, but I don't need anything
until the week end. Oh, dear, if
this is a sample of what my life is
going to be, I don't know whether
it is worth it or not.
The telephone rang, interrupting
Emma's thoughts and quickening
her pace to the house.
"Sister McDowell, this is Sister
Shields. We met today at Relief
Society." The voice on the other
end of the line was pleasant.
"Yes, I remember you, Sister
Shields," Emma answered.
"I couldn't help admiring the
lovely dress that you had on today,
and Sister Benton informs me that
you made it yourself, and that you
also design all of your own clothes."
"Yes, I do," Emma said question-
ingly.
"I was wondering if you would be
interested in doing some sewing for
me. I have two teen-aged daugh-
ters. You know how teen-agers are.
They have ideas of their own,"
Sister Shields admitted.
"Yes, I know. I used to sew for
my own daughters." Emma smiled,
remembering.
"And then, if you have time, I
would like some sewing done for
myself. Oh, and my daughters said
that they have some friends who
would like some sewing done, too,"
Sister Shields continued. "Do you
think that you would be willing?"
"Willing!" Emma responded,
"why, Sister Shields, this is an an-
swer to my prayers."
THE RICH, FULL YEARS
581
"I thought perhaps this evening
I could bring the material and pat-
terns over, if that would be con-
venient for you?" Sister Shields
added.
"That would be just fine. 1*11 be
home all evening."
r^MMA hung up the telephone
and glanced about her in dis-
belief. Already life had taken on a
new perspective for her. As she
was about to leave the room, there
was a knock at the door.
"Oh, Sister McDowell, I'm glad
that I found you home," Sister Ben-
ton called.
"My, what a pleasant surprise,
Sister Benton. Do come in." Em-
ma held the door open for Sister
Benton. "It is certainly hot out
there today, isn't it? Sit down,
won't you."
"Yes, it is hot, pleasantly hot
though," Sister Benton said as she
sat down. "Sister McDowell, my
counselors and I have talked it over
this afternoon, and we would very
much like to have you for our work
meeting leader. You are so talented
with your sewing that I am sure you
would be of great value to the sis-
ters in the ward. If you would like
to think it over for a few days, and
then give us your decision, that
would be fine," Sister Benton spoke
kindly to Emma.
Emma was silent for a moment.
"There isn't any need to wait to
give you my decision. Before my
husband died, Sister Benton, I
worked in the Relief Society a great
deal, and then after his death I was
forced to give it up. Now I would
like very much to become active
again. I would be happy to accept
the position."
"Wonderful, Sister McDowell."
Sister Benton seemed very pleased.
"And we'll be very happy to have
you working with us," she added.
Emma's heart fairly sang. Yes-
terday, Emma McDowell, you
thought your life was finished and
that you didn't have anything ahead.
Now your life has taken on an en-
tirely new meaning, and it has all
come about through your member-
ship in the Church, and the talent
the Lord has given you. You are a
lucky woman, Emma told herself.
Sarah Drake drove home from the
factory alone that evening, and as
she drove by Emma's house, she
mused, poor Emma, I feel so sorry
for her. She will just waste away
now, without anything to do.
Child m
owina a
9
'Jjandeh
ton
Ida Elaine James
Blow, little one, blow hard on the fluff!
If you close your eyes, and wish hard enough
There's a secret that nobody else may know,
But a dandelion, and a child to blow.
There's magic from furry, soft ball to stem;
A field full of wishes when children find them.
They wait to be held to the lips of a child,
Your little half-brothers, free and wild!
Sixty LJears J/igo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, September 1, and September 15, 1900
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
of All Nations"
A WORD TO WOMEN: As the time of political Primaries and Conventions
has come, considerable interest is awakened in regard to the questions of selecting
candidates to fill the several offices of those whose term expires soon after the No-
vember election. . . . Women here have the same responsibility resting upon them as
men . . . they should not forget the obligations they are under to the commonwealth
and should therefore prove their loyalty to the public weal by prudent measures and
careful thought in all their political efforts . . . they should see to it that good men are
nominated. . . . The matter of registration is one of the most important things and
there should be no carelessness ... in this regard.
— Editorial
IN MEMORIAM : Sister Flora Clarinda Gleason Washburn died at the ripe old age
of eighty-one years at Monroe, Utah. . . . She was born at Tolland, Berkshire County,
Massachusetts in 1819. . . . Clarinda joined the Church in April, 1834, the only one
of her father's family that ever embraced the Gospel. She received her endowments in
Nauvoo . . . and was called to go to Macedonia, Illinois, and organize a Relief Society.
. . . After the death of the Prophet . . . sjie started with the first company of Saints in
search of a new home. . . . She harnessed, fed, and drove her own team part of the
way, and arrived in Salt Lake City, October 18, 1848. Afterwards she married Abra-
ham Washburn. . . . She removed to Sanpete County the following November . . . and
gave birth to the first white child born in Sanpete County. . . . She was appointed a
teacher in the first Relief Society of Manti, afterwards was made president, which
office she held until she moved with her family to Monroe ... in 1872. In November
1872 she was appointed president of the Relief Society of Monroe, which position she
held until February 6, 1897, having won many a laurel to adorn her brow in the
eternal world.
— From the Monroe Relief Society
O, BE JOYFUL!
O, be joyful, O, be joyful,
Sing ye Saints of Latter-days
Giving unto God the Father,
Adoration, love and praise. . . .
On the mountains ring the tidings,
■ In the East the glory breaks,
Ush'ring in the days of promise,
When the world from slumber wakes. . . .
— L. M. R.
TRAVELS OF THE RELIEF SOCIETY OFFICERS: Recently several visits
have been made to the Relief Society conferences of the several Stakes. President Jane
S. Richards and Josephine R. West attended Relief Society and Primary conference in
Malad Stake. President M. Isabella Home and Sister Harriet Ellis, the Relief Society
conference in Millard Stake; Sister E. J. Stevenson and M. A. Caine, the R. S. and
Y. L. of Parowan Stake, and Sister M. A. Caine, the R. S. and P. A. [Prohibition As-
sociation] of Panguitch Stake. President M. I. Home and Sister H. Ellis also attended
a special meeting of the Relief Society at Park City.
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
/^\N June 27, Helen Keller cele-
brated her eightieth birthday
with plans for increasing aid to the
fourteen million blind people on
earth — that they might become
more able to help themselves and
become better qualified to enjoy a
greater portion of the richness of
life. She spoke of her gratitude for
the interest expressed all over the
world in the "Helen Keller World
Crusade for the Blind." She advised
individuals to cultivate love, for
"love is the light that gives the eye
to see great and noble things."
QUEEN SIRIKIT of Thailand,
^- who, it has been said, "looks
like mandolins sound," accompanied
her husband, King Bhumibol Aduly-
adej, on a recent four-week tour of
the United States. He is the grand-
son of King Chulalongkorn of "The
King and I" fame.
T ADY NANCY ASTOR, who
was born in Virginia and lived
there during her youthful years,
married a British peer and became
Great Britain's first woman member
of Parliament. She was a dynamic
campaigner and member, and re-
mained in the House of Commons
for twenty-five years. Handsome
and vigorous at eighty-one, she still
makes speeches and otherwise par-
ticipates in the challenging life
about her.
QLIVE WOOLLEY BURT, a
contributor to The Relief So-
ciety Magazine, is the author of
First Woman Editor: Sarah J. Hah
(Julian Messner, Publisher, New
York). Mrs. Burt describes the life
and times (nineteenth century
America) of this gifted woman who
was editor of Ladies Magazine and
Godey's Lady's Book, and a pioneer
in social service work. She com-
bined a full literary and public ca-
reer with the rearing of five chil-
dren and providing for them after
the death of her husband.
A/fRS. SIRIMA RATA WATTE
11 DIAS BANDARANAIKE has
been appointed premier of Ceylon.
Mrs. Bandaranaike was sworn into
office on July 21, i960, by the Gov-
ernor General Sir Oliver Gooneti-
leke at his official residence. Mrs.
Bandaranaike is a widow and the
mother of three children.
T OUISE ARNER BOYD is the
first woman to be elected to the
council of the American Geograph-
ical Society in the 108 years since
the organization of that society.
Miss Boyd is an explorer of the pol-
ar regions and has written many
books about her travels. In 1955
she flew her own plane over the
North Pole. At the present time
she is a member of more than forty
American and foreign learned so-
cieties.
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 47 SEPTEMBER 1960 NO. 9
ibnhancing the ^Joy of C/amtly JLiving
\1/1TH most young couples it is encyclopedia and a child's dictionary
necessary to weigh the spend- needed to be labeled as "Family"
ing of money carefully. There are books, to be freely used and co-
always many more uses for which operatively owned. Even the mother
it seems desirable to spend money, used the child's encyclopedia when
than there is money to be spent. she sought clarification on some sub-
Yet a provident mother will have ject, for the explanations were short
in mind the need to spend money and concise and usually sufficient
where it will bring the most lasting for her needs. As soon as a child
returns. It is her wish to provide entered school, he was introduced
opportunities and advantages for her to these two sources of learning, and
children whether they live in a large his first interest in the pictures re-
urban center or where neighbors are suited in his frequent use of the
few. It is the parents' responsibility, texts, as time passed,
both through their daily conversa- Ever-widening horizons would
tion and interests and through the include for the child advancing in
means they provide in their home, life, knowledge from books, appre-
to foster widening horizons for their ciation for beauty in art and nature,
growing family. and a kinship to the music of the
One young wife received an world,
anthology of children's books, pro- In large cities, children are offered
fusely illustrated, for a wedding youth programs in art. Trips to
present. She took an ever-increas- museums containing art treasures
ing pleasure in perusing it, recog- are fostered and attendance at ex-
nizing favorite books she already hibit lectures is encouraged. To-
knew and loved, and learning of day, however, museums offer courses
other classics with which she was and materials on art with which a
unacquainted. She arrived at a mother can educate herself and
decision with her husband that in impart to her children an apprecia-
tive coming years they would en- tion and love for beauty of form
deavor each month to buy a book and color. In addition, museums
for a child. As years of months sell, at reasonable cost, small and
passed, they garnered a rich harvest, large prints of world masterpieces,
and as each child married, he had A child's room may be beautified by
the nucleus of a worthwhile library many of them. A frame in a family
of his own; moreover, the books of room may feature a picture to be
each child had been shared by the changed periodically. By these
others, so that the available knowl- means and others, children any-
edge was multiplied by each child where may grow up recognizing and
during his formative years. appreciating beauty in art. An
It was soon found that a child's awareness of beauty in art arouses
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EDITORIAL
585
an awareness of beauty in nature as
well.
A comparable training can be
given children in music. Youth
concerts in large cities offer guided
appreciation and familiarity with
great music; however, a mother who
desires to open the door for her
children to the great classics, may
purchase books and records which
will train her to impart knowledge
and appreciation to them. A few
years ago a mark of refinement and
a desire for the better things were
shown by the possession of a piano.
Around it the family gathered for
family sings, and children, in turn,
played accompaniments as they pro-
gressed in their music lessons. How
few homes today, comparatively
speaking, possess a piano! And yet
an old organ or a secondhand piano
would serve, where circumstances
do not permit the purchase of a new
instrument. With a piano, other
instruments may be given different
members of the family, according
to their aptitudes and desires. Music,
then, through its creation in the
family, as well as listening to re-
cordings of great composers, be-
comes an integral facet of family
living.
Great literature, great art, and
great music enhance the joy of
family living. They are gifts of the
Heavenly Father to his children
everywhere. The mother first re-
lates the story which never grows
old, she first points out the beauty
of the summer day, the glory of the
star-studded heavens, she croons the
lullaby to the babe in her arms, and
sings praises to the Lord. The time
she will spend in her life in study
and in the guidance of her children
will be a benediction to her labors.
When her children are in dire dis-
tress, easement may come to them
through the memory of another's
trials, through the comfort of beau-
ty, or through the healing balm of
music. The Prophet Joseph sought
solace previous to his martyrdom in
the sweet singing of Elder John
Taylor.
Today, and in the tomorrows,
that mother who has served her
children through these media will
recognize that the pattern estab-
lished and fostered by her and her
husband continues to enrich and
ennoble oncoming generations of
the family as well.
-M. C. S.
vi/ha t JLiahona?
his W. Schow
How shall we comprehend the universe?
For us what Liahona points the way
Across the parching desert we traverse?
What star leads to our Savior's feet today?
Where is the iron rod to bound our needs?
The cloud by day, the pillar for the night?
Whence is the tender force that intercedes
To guide our footsteps forward in the right?
Who seeks, will find the changeless iron rod;
The star of conscience still remains unblurred;
For, questing heart, the Word that was with God,
Left us the Liahona of his word.
{Best Sellers for the Ujazaar
Jean Ridges Jennings
k/L (gardening J/Lpron
IVJOWADAYS gardening has become an almost universal hobby — and a fashionable
■^ ^ one, too. What better gift can there be for many women than a gardening apron?
Aprons of all kinds are always popular. This one is a bit different from most. It
is designed and made to be a good cover-up, is more sturdy than usual, and doubles as
a handy tote-all. In addition to all this, it can have a useful removable kneeling pad
which, for obvious reasons, is a fine help to the serious gardener.
A wide choice of appropriate materials is available in most stores. One could use
any of the attractive sturdy fabrics that come in gay striped or floral patterns. Denims
are ideal, as are sail cloth, Indian head, curtina, or other inexpensive drapery fabrics.
Choose a favorite combination of colors, having the apron all of one fabric or
with contrasting waistband, ties, pockets, and kneeling pad. The pad should be covered
with oilcloth or plastic to protect against ground moisture. If the apron fabric is a
plain color, the pad could well be figured, but if the apron fabric is patterned, the pad
should be of plain color.
An apron that ties around the waist gives protection where it is needed most, but
if a bib is desired it can easily be added.
The waist-type apron requires one yard of fabric for the main part and one third
yard more for the pockets. If a bib is made, add enough yardage to make it the size
preferred. The kneeling pad calls for one-third yard of oilcloth or sturdy plastic, plus
sheet cotton or kapok for padding.
Construct the apron as you would any waist-type apron except that, because of
heavier fabric, it is better to use impressed pleats than gathers to work in fullness at
the waist.
Make loops of fabric and sew under the waistband above the center of each pocket
(see illustration). Before sewing them in place, loop one through the hole in a sturdy
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office clip and the other through a metal ring. These will make handy places to hang
various gardening paraphernalia. Underneath the bottom edge of each pocket, sew a
fabric tab. Snap these up into a loop with gripper fasteners.
The pockets are made extra large to hold such things as clippers, trowels, cans of
spray dust, or insecticide, and twine for tieing. Stitch them to the apron at intervals,
making various sized compartments.
The kneeling pad is optional and is made like a flat pillow. It is best to have it
detachable, fastening it to the apron by means of gripper fasteners.
For the loops under the waistband, use strips of fabric 2 inches by 8 inches. Fold
in the raw lengthwise edges, then fold double and machine stitch all around to add
strength. Make the tabs under the pockets 1 % by 4 inches finished. Place gripper
fasteners as shown in the illustration.
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"\ yf ANY of us are bum-prone in our kitchens. Even if we are not, we find in many
■*■"•■■ cases that the ordinary holders for handling hot pans and kettles are insufficient
protection.
A pot or pan that is very hot, or heavy and hot, will soon find the weakness or
thin place in a crocheted or knitted pad. To solve this problem, make a hot pad
holder that will be a popular item for sale at bazaars.
In addition to protection for the back of the hand, wrist, and lower arm, it has
a well-padded grasping area. This eliminates the exasperating burns that happen so
unexpectedly when reaching into an oven, possibly touching the top heating unit or
grill. It even protects against steam that billows up from boiling water that is being
drained off or poured.
These holders are gay and attractive, as well as easy to slip on and off the hand;
moreover, they can be made from odd pieces of material in jig time.
Made in a novel way to suggest animals — one a bunny, another a fish — they
are actually mitts that slip onto the hand and arm. The open mouths are made of
thick padded material to protect the hand while grasping hot objects.
The accompanying diagrams show the sizes and shapes of the pieces to be used in
making the bunny mitt. For sections A and B, use a heavy fabric such as cordurov or
denim in a plain color. Make section C of padded or quilted material, contrasting in
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color or pattern to sections A and B. Sections D are cut from the fabric used for A,
and lined with a single thickness of C cloth.
Assemble, by first lining sections D and sew to section A by encasing raw edges
in a narrow tuck made along dotted line E as shown in diagram. Next seam A and B
together at sides as far as E, right sides together. Seam C to oval section of A and B,
matching notches. Narrow hem the open end.
Turn right side out and press. Make small pompons of yarn in colors in fabric
of C. Sew in place on C as shown.
Using the basic design for this mitt and a bit of imagination, many colorful and
practical holders can be made from remnants.
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T TERE is something planned especially for young girls when they reach the age of
-*■ ■*■ having many things to carry to school. This time usually comes when they have
textbooks to take home, a loose-leaf notebook, lunch, and, in addition, they need a
purse to hold pencils, handkerchief, comb, car fare, and the many other odd items that
only a girl can want or need.
This boon for schoolgirls is a cover for a loose-leaf into which have been sewed
pockets to hold the paraphernalia that normally requires a purse to carry. It not
only eliminates the need for purses, but provides a safe carrying place for papers,
pencils, erasers, and other things.
The cover is made of felt in any desired color and can be tailored to fit any size
book. Lining the front and back covers forms an envelope into which they slip as
any other book cover does. Make the lining of checkered chambray or gingham.
The important thing to watch in making these is to keep all steps in their proper
order, otherwise confusion will result.
Start by measuring around the notebook from the front edge of the front cover
to the front edge of the back cover. Then take the measurement from the top to the
bottom edge of the book. From felt, according to these measurements, cut the cover
as large as the entire book plus Vs -inch for seams on all edges. Allow !4 -inch seams
on outside edges of checkered lining. The accompanying illustration shows all pieces
and their measurements to fit a loose-leaf size -jVi by 10 inches.
Assemble in the following order:
1. Insert zipper into smaller pocket (edges of felt do not need to be turned under).
2. Sew zippered pocket to bottom of large pocket.
3. Sew one inch boxing around sides and bottom edge of large pocket.
4. Sew free edge of boxing to front cover of book, Vi inch from outside edge.
5. Line flap with checkered material and sew to front directly above large pocket.
6. Attach gripper fasteners.
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7. Sew lining to front and back covers, right sides together. Round corners to fit
notebook. Have seams Ys inch in felt and !4 inch in cotton lining.
8. Turn right side out and slip into place on loose-leaf. Hold the inside edge of
lining firmly in place by sewing through lining, book, and cover at the bend in the
cover.
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rl ^HINKING of book covers calls to mind another idea along the same line — a felt
■*■ cover for a telephone book. Here is an ideal "little" gift and an easy one.
Make it all of felt, covering the front and back pages inside and out, having seams
around the outside edges. Keep raw edges outside and then pink close to the machine
stitching.
For added convenience, make a pocket, inside the front cover, with two sections,
one for note paper and a slot for pencil.
Machine embroider the word "Telephone" on the front cover — or applique the
word in lettered cutouts. You may want to further decorate the cover with initials or
other embroidered or appliqued designs. Do, however, keep them simple.
ofreezing c/oods at ulome
Ruby K. Smith
HOW would you like to serve
fresh strawberries from your
garden for a strawberry short-
cake at Christmas time? Or reserve
the prize catch of the summer fish-
ing season for a dinner of fresh
trout in January? If your home is
equipped with a freezer, such mod-
ern miracles may be taken for
granted. Even the freezing section
of your refrigerator may be large
enough to provide many such treats.
Or, if the freezing equipment in the
home is inadequate, a locker in a
nearby frozen food locker plant may
be pressed into service.
In pioneer days, when fresh foods
could be enjoyed only in season,
who could have foreseen the home-
making marvels of our day! Now,
the products of our gardens and
orchards are never "out of season,"
if we make good use of our modern
freezing equipment.
Freezing is a safe, easy way to
preserve almost any fresh food, in-
cluding fruits, vegetables, meat,
poultry, game, fish, baked goods, and
casserole dishes. As frozen foods
are usually prepared for the table
before freezing, and can be made
ready for serving on short notice,
they are invaluable timesavers for
the housewife.
Foods which are properly pack-
aged in moisture-vapor-proof con-
tainers, and quickly frozen, will
retain the natural color, fresh flavor,
and nutritive value of the fresh
food. It is important to select
newly harvested products, however,
when the quality is at its best, as
freezing will not improve the qual-
ity.
When buying containers to pack-
age foods for freezing, it is eco-
nomical to select those which can
be re-used. A few examples are
freezer containers of glass, alumi-
num, or plastic, and polyethylene
bags. Freezer-weight aluminum
foil, cellophane, or laminated paper
— sealed with freezer tape — mav
be used to wrap many foods. Ordi-
nary household foil, cellophane, or
waxed paper, and cottage cheese and
ice-cream cartons, should not be
used, as they cannot be made
moisture-proof.
Food should always be cold when
it is packed for freezing, and it
should be packed tightly, to permit
a minimum of air in the package.
Since liquid expands as it freezes,
however, head space must be al-
lowed when liquid and semi-liquid
foods are packed. (For pint con-
tainers, lh inch is recommended.)
As soon as the food is packed, it
should be sealed immediately with
an air-tight seal. Each package
should then be plainly labeled, giv-
ing name of food, date, and any
other helpful information. It is
then ready for quick freezing and
storage.
It is well to have a yearly freezing
plan, in order to use the freezer
space to the best advantage. Since
commercially frozen foods mav be
purchased at any time, they should
be obtained only when needed. A
freezer should be well stocked with
the most practical foods for family
use, and foods which have been
stored the longest should be eaten
first. There should always be
freezer space for the short-time stor-
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age of baked foods, casserole dishes,
lunch-box sandwiches, and special
foods for parties. If the home-
maker has enough of these on hand,
she will always be prepared for un-
expected company.
Freezing Fruits
Fruits may be frozen whole if they are
small, or they may be sliced, diced,
crushed, or prepared as purees or fruit
juices. They are packed in one of three
ways, depending on the type of fruit and
the way it is to be used. Fruits to be
used for desserts are usually packed in
syrup, while dry sugar packs are better
if the fruit is to be used for cooking.
Unsweetened packs are often prepared for
special diets, but in the case of such
fruits as cranberries, currants, and goose-
berries, no sugar is needed for a good
quality product. For syrup packs, a
medium syrup (3 cups sugar to 4 cups
water) is recommended for most fruits,
although a lighter syrup ( 1 cup sugar to
2 cups water) is better for some mild-
flavored fruits. Heavier syrups may be
needed for very sour fruits.
Ascorbic acid (vitamin C) should be
used with apples, apricots, peaches, and
pears to prevent discoloration. In general,
lA teaspoon ascorbic acid powder is
sufficient with 2 cups of syrup; however,
since ascorbic acid comes in both tablet
and crystalline form, and may be pur-
chased wherever freezing supplies are sold,
it should be used as directed on the
label.
To use frozen fruit, thaw in unopened
container, in refrigerator or at room
temperature. Do not thaw more than
you plan to use at one time. Most fruits
have the best color and flavor if they are
still a little icy when served.
Fruit-freezing Hints
Apples — Freeze apples from the home
orchard to avoid the high cost of fresh
apples in winter. Select those which arc
crisp and firm rather than mealy. Use a
syrup pack if they are to be sliced or
diced for serving fresh (in fruit cup, for
instance), but if they are to be used for
cooking, slice or quarter and use a dry
sugar pack. Treat with ascorbic acid.
Applesauce, sweetened to taste, may be
frozen.
Apricots — Scald for 1 minute. Cool
in ice water. Peel if desired. Halve and
pit. Pack in medium ascorbic acid syrup.
For apricot puree, heat to boiling, and
press through a sieve. Sweeten to taste.
Berries — Pack whole berries in med-
ium syrup. If they are sliced or crushed,
use dry sugar pack ( 1 cup sugar to 5 or 6
cups fruit). Before packing, stir gently
until juice is formed.
Cherries — Pack whole, sweet cherries
in medium syrup. Pit and pack sour
cherries in dry sugar pack. Sweeten to
taste. They may be left whole or
crushed.
Cranberries — Pack dry, without sugar.
If fresh cranberries are purchased in
plastic bags, they are already packed for
freezing. For cranberry puree, cook berries
until skins pop, then press through sieve.
Sweeten to taste.
Fruit Cup — Use any combination of
fruit except bananas. Pack in medium
syrup.
Fruit Juices — Citrus — Ream with
juicer on low speed. Strain and chill at
once. Add sugar to taste.
Non-Citrus — Crush soft fruit and
simmer over low heat, if necessary, to
start the flow of juice. Strain through
a cloth bag. Add sugar to taste.
Fruit juices may be frozen in ice-
cube trays, then cubes of frozen juice
may be packaged in bags to store in
freezer.
Melons — Scoop out balls or cut in
cubes. Add medium syrup or freeze
sweetened or unsweetened with citrus
juice.
Peaches — Peel by hand for best look-
ing product, or scald 1 minute to loosen
skins. Chill, peel, and pit. Slice into
medium ascorbic acid syrup, or use dry
sugar pack with ascorbic acid.
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Pears — Peel, core, and cut in halves or
quarters. Pack in medium ascorbic acid
syrup.
Plums and Prunes — Cut in halves and
pit. Use either syrup or dry sugar pack.
Purees may be made from either heated
or unheated fruit, depending on softness
of fruit. If heated, chill before pressing
through sieve. Sweeten to taste.
Freezing Vegetables
Only those vegetables which are to be
cooked before serving are recommended
for freezing. Salad vegetables, (lettuce,
celery, radishes, cucumbers, cabbage, etc.)
would not retain their crispness after
freezing.
All vegetables should be blanched or
scalded before freezing, to stop the action
of enzymes. (Before vegetables are
picked, enzymes help them to mature,
but after picking, they cause loss of flavor
and color) .
Only very young, garden-fresh vege-
tables should be frozen.
To prepare vegetables for freezing, trim
and cut them as you would for serving,
wash in cold water, place in wire basket
or colander (1 pound at a time), and
immerse in a large kettle of briskly boil-
ing water for the number of minutes
recommended, chill quickly and thorough-
lv in ice water, drain, and package. Freeze
at once.
To use frozen vegetables, always start
to cook them while they are still frozen —
except in the case of corn on the cob,
which should be thawed, then steamed.
Place package of frozen vegetables in
covered saucepan with lA to Vz cup of
salted water. Start on high heat until
water boils, then break block of icy vege-
tables with fork, and switch to low heat.
Cook 3 to 1 5 minutes, depending on
size and variety of vegetable. Do not
overcook.
Vegetable-freezing Hints
Asparagus — Cut stalks to fit container,
or in l-inch pieces. Blanch 2 to 3 min-
utes.
Beans — Green or wax beans may be
left whole, sliced lengthwise, or cut in
1-inch pieces. Lima beans are sorted ac-
cording to size. Blanch 2 to 3 minutes.
Broccoli or Cauliflower — Separate
heads into sections for serving, and soak
in salt water for Vi hour to remove in-
sects. Blanch 3 to 4 minutes.
Corn on the Cob
ing. Blanch 6 to
- Prepare as for serv-
10 minutes. Chill
after blanching 12 to 20 minutes.
Corn — Whole Kernel or Cream Style —
Blanch corn on cob 3 to 4 minutes, then
cut kernels from cob.
Greens — Select young tender leaves,
and remove thick stems. Blanch 2 min-
utes in large quantity of water. Avoid
matting of leaves.
Peas — Shell, and discard overripe
peas. Blanch for 1 minute.
Pumpkin or Winter Squash — Cook
and mash, as for serving or pie-making.
Cool by placing pan in ice water.
Sweet Potatoes — Cook until almost
done. Peel. Cut in halves, slice, or mash.
To keep them from darkening, add a
little orange or lemon juice.
Turnips
minutes.
Peel and dice. Blanch for 2
Meats for the Home Freezer
One of the essentials of a well-stocked
home freezer is a supply of meat. For
non-farm families, the high cost of indi-
vidual meat purchases may be overcome
by making quantity purchases of meat and
poultry when supplies are plentiful. Or
the family sportsman may obtain a year's
supply of fish, game, and venison during
the fishing and hunting season. In either
case, the cleaning, chilling, aging, butch-
ering, and packaging of the meat is
usually done by a professional processing
company which makes a specialty of pre-
paring meat for home storage. Farm
families who must do their own process-
ing, may secure all the information they
need from experts through Government
bulletins or directions from agricultural
colleges.
Before the meat is placed in the home
freezer, each package should be well-
wrapped with an airtight seal, and it
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should be well-labeled — giving kind and
cut of meat, date, and number of serv-
ings.
When the meat is used, it requires about
twice as long to roast it, if placed in the
oven in a frozen state. For that reason,
it is usually thawed first. Allow 5 hours
per pound to thaw meat in the refrig-
erator, or 2 hours per pound at room
temperature. Then proceed as you
would for fresh meat.
Freezing Baked Foods
Cakes — All kinds of cakes may be
frozen after they are baked and cooled,
and they may be stored for 3 or 4
months. This makes it possible to pre-
pare fancy cakes for special occasions long
before the last-minute rush.
Unfrosted cakes are wrapped for freez-
ing as soon as they are cooled. Frosted
cakes, however, are frozen before they
are wrapped. (Uncooked frostmgs freeze
best).
Thaw cakes at room temperature,
allowing 3 or 4 hours for a large frosted
cake. Cup cakes will thaw in 15 to 20
minutes.
Cookies — Baked cookies may be stored
for 6 months.
Unbaked Cookies may be stored for 3
months. They may be prepared in the
following ways:
( 1 ) Roll dough and cut cookies. Stack
with freezer paper between layers. Bake
without thawing.
(2) Wrap and freeze dough in smooth
roll. Slice while still frozen, and bake.
(3) Freeze unbaked drop cookies on
cookie sheet. When frozen, package in
cartons with freezer paper between layers.
Bake without thawing.
Pies and Pastries — Pies and pastries
freeze very well, either baked or unbaked.
Storage time varies from 2 months for un-
baked berry pics to 6 months for baked
mince pies.
Baked pies may be wrapped for freezing
as soon as they are cool. To use, place in
moderate oven just long enough to heat
through (30 to 40 minutes).
Unbaked pies are often frozen before
they are wrapped — especially open-faced
pies. When ready to use, cut vents in
top crust of two-crust pies, and bake with-
out thawing. Allow 15 or 20 minutes
extra baking time.
Bread and Rolls — Baked Bread and
Rolls may be stored in freezer ^ or 6
months. Thaw in storage wrappings at
room temperature. If rolls are to be
served hot, thaw in paper bag in slow
oven for 30 minutes.
Unbaked Bread and Rolls — Shape
dough in baking pans as though for im-
mediate baking. Grease well, wrap, and
freeze until needed. Freeze Parker House
or other fancy rolls before wrapping. Stor-
age time — one week. When ready to
use, thaw at room temperature until
double in bulk. Bake as fresh rolls or
bread.
Lunch-box Sandwiches
To avoid the necessity of making sand-
wiches each morning, prepare enough for
a week or two at one time. Spread both
slices of bread with plenty of butter or
butter substitute to protect them from the
moisture in the filling. Use a variety of
fillings, made of meat, fish, cheese, etc.,
combined with any preferred relish or
dressing. If the sandwiches are to be
stored more than 4 days, use moisture-
vapor-proof wrappings. Store in special
school-lunch section of the freezer, with
cookies, individual cartons of fruit, and
other lunch-box specialties. Pack lunches
while they are still frozen, and they will
be perfectly thawed by noontime.
Freezing Cooked Main Dishes
Most combinations of cooked foods, in-
cluding stews, baked beans, meat loaves,
and casserole dishes, may be successfully
frozen and stored in the freezer for at
least two months. Creamed dishes, how-
ever, such as chicken a la king, should be
used within a month.
To be prepared for any emergency,
prepare such dishes in quantity, and freeze
them in one-meal portions. If they are
frozen in foil-lined baking dishes, they
may be removed and packaged in bags
for storage, then quickly returned to the
same dishes for reheating. In this way,
frequently used baking dishes may be kept
in circulation. Soups may be frozen in
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595
ice-cube trays, then removed and packaged
in bags for storage.
Some ingredients are better if they are
slightly under-done for freezing, in order to
avoid overcooking when they are reheated
for serving. It is better to add crumb and
cheese toppings just before reheating.
Cooked meats are usually prepared with
gravy for freezing.
For a perfect meat pie, add a biscuit or
pastry topping to a meat and vegetable
stew. These toppings will be more tender
and flaky if they are unbaked when frozen.
TV Plate Dinners
Prepare your own plate dinners for a
TV party ahead of time, and freeze until
needed. In that way, you may have your
own home-cooked vegetables, meat, gravy,
etc. Prepare aluminum foil plates, as-
sembly-line fashion, and cover with house-
hold foil to freeze. Reheat in hot oven,
without removing cover. Serve imme-
diately.
Kslre LJou uXappy ?
Marvel Sharp Crookston
I once met an acquaintance who went around shaking hands to greet people, and had
the disconcerting habit of asking, point blank and without preliminary, "Are You
happy?"
Being confronted with so self-searching a question in return for a casual hand-
shake and a smile, has something of the effect of a rug being jerked from under you.
Possibly he had a few "no" answers (from the same people who eagerly enumerate
a literal list of ailments in response to every "How-do-you-do?"), but I doubt he had
many unequivocal "yes" answers.
More often, it was, "Well — uh — yes, I guess so," or "Oh, happy as most, I sup-
pose," or "Well, some days are better than others." My own completely unexpected
encounter the first time I ever met the man set me to thinking. I'm not at all sure
how I answered him in a purely social response, but I went home and really thought
about it.
I had "a perfect marriage," my husband had good career prospects, we had two
sweet baby daughters, and not one single reason not to be happy. Yet I couldn't hon-
estly say that I spent most of the time in a "happy" frame of mind.
What was wrong? At least I knew something should be done to correct the situa-
tion. Later (as the Relief Society literature teacher in our November 1955 class),
I found the philosophy aptly expressed in the words of Robert Louis Stevenson, "Man's
highest duty is to be happy."
Our Constitution gives us the "right" to pursue happiness, but how many of us
consider it a duty? When the Lord commanded us to stand on our feet and bear
testimony of our blessings, his was not a petty purpose in wanting to be thanked for
his bounty. He wanted us to give thought to these things; to dwell on the good things
in our lives, to be conscious of the many things for which we can be appreciative.
Then, the little irritations and minor difficulties around which we must constantly
adjust our lives, fall into their correct perspective. By giving them only passing notice,
while our thoughts are mostly taken up by being grateful for all the wonderful good-
ness of the Lord in permitting us to live upon the earth in this way, we find ourselves
with a happy feeling of well-being.
Paul wrote, "... whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue,
and if there be any praise, think on these things." As another man put it, "Happiness
comes from an attitude of gratitude."
My friend passed on a few years ago, but when we meet in the hereafter, and he
puts out a friendly hand and asks, "Are you happy?" I hope I shall be able to shake
that hand firmly and look him straight in the eye with the answer, "Indeed I am."
Something ^JJifferent for 'JD inner
Emma A. Hanks
Shrimp Salad
4 lbs. shrimp (medium size) 4 carrots, cut in cubes
2 celery sticks, cut in thin slices salt to taste
1 large onion, sliced pepper to taste
Clean and devein the shrimp. Cover with water and cook until tender. In a
separate pot steam the vegetables with salt and pepper until tender, but not soft. Drain
the shrimp and place in refrigerator. Place vegetables in refrigerator in separate con-
tainer. Prepare Thousand Island dressing.
Thousand Island Dressing
1 c. mayonnaise 1 tsp. prepared mustard
1 c. chili sauce 1 large onion (finely chopped)
1 tbsp. hot sauce 6 large sweet pickles (finely chopped)
Mix together above ingredients. Pour % of the sauce over chilled shrimp. Place
shrimp on a bed of vegetables. Garnish with hard-boiled eggs. Serve with hot garlic
bread.
If you like more salad dressing, pour remainder of salad dressing in a dish and serve
at the table. Shrimp and vegetables can be cooked and prepared ahead of time and
put together when ready to serve. Dressing can be used on head lettuce or on other
salads. Makes a one dish meal for a hot day. Serves 12. For 6 servings, cut ingredi-
ents in half. — Millie Schwarz
Texas Pecan Pie
% c. flour 1 nine-inch pastry shell
% c. sugar 2 stiffly beaten egg whites
XA tsp. salt 1 c. pecans, whole or chopped
2 c. milk, scalded chocolate syrup
2 slightly beaten egg yolks whipped cream
2 tbsp. butter
Mix flour, sugar, and salt; gradually add milk. Cook in double boiler until thick,
about ten minutes, stirring constantly. Cook five more minutes. Cool; add butter and
vanilla. Fold in stiffly beaten egg whites. Pour into cooled baked pastry shell. Sprinkle
one layer of whole or chopped pecans over cream filling, then pour desired amount of
chocolate syrup over pecans. Spread with sweetened whipped cream before serving.
— Marilyn Young
Easy Tacos
12 tortillas salad made of lettuce, tomatoes, and onions
12 slices of cheese canned or homemade chili
Fry tortillas quickly (not until crisp) and fold in half. Fill with salad and half
slice of cheese. Top with other half of cheese and a generous spoon or two of chili.
Serve on a hot plate with beans, tamales, or enchiladas. — Wanda Kaiana
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Chicken Spaghetti
i hen 2 large packages spaghetti
l bunch celery 2 bay leaves
1 large onion Vi tsp. cumin seed
1 large green pepper 2 tsp. shortening
1 quart whole tomatoes button mushrooms (if desired)
Stew the hen until meat falls off the bones. Remove bones and discard. Take
out chicken meat and set aside. Cook spaghetti in chicken broth. Cook finely
chopped onion, celery, green pepper, and cumin seed in 2 tsp. shortening in frying pan,
until transparent, do not brown. Add this, along with cut-up chicken and tomatoes,
to cooked spaghetti. Add bay leaves and let simmer for five to ten minutes. Place in
baking dish and cover top with grated cheese. Brown in oven at 3500 F. Serves 12.
(grandmothers *jlrt
Luh Walker
"My art work," Grandma used to laugh and say
And put her mending box away.
For fancywork she had no flair,
Like knitting tidies for a chair.
But when elbows came poking through,
We marveled at what she could do.
A barbed wire rent, a hole in cloth
Invaded by some wily moth
Sent Grandma flying for her needle.
Each tattered raveling she could wheedle
Right back into its proper place.
At home with socks or dainty lace,
A work-day shirt or Sunday dress,
Grandma mended with finesse
Each broken thread, each tiny part,
And who can say it wasn't art?
<YL [Problem, a Lret, and the [Picture
Louise Morris Kelley
MYRENE McDowell tried to "You know what today is."
put last night's argument "Of course, dear/' she bluffed,
out of her mind; but her "today is the day that your class —
husband's final remark followed her or is it your whole school — is go-
about as she dressed and prepared ing to. . . ,"
breakfast. "And I still don't have one." He
"The trouble with you is you was going to manage not to cry. He
won't face the fact that our family was going to be stubborn. His face
is in trouble. If you'd stop to think became red between the freckles,
about it, Myrene, we're not at all and unshed tears made his blue eyes
the sort of family we started out brilliant. "It isn't just for the pet
to be." show. I've always wanted a brown
She set a copper chafing dish on woolly dog."
the table for scrambled eggs. Yel- "You know The Towers will not
low snapdragons in a black vase allow pets." She added, to herself,
matched the yellow cobbler's apron they barely tolerate children,
she wore over a slim black skirt. "Son, I offered to buy you a love-
Both were a striking splash in the ly aquarium of rare and expensive
beige and white decor that had been tropical fish."
especially created to complement "Huh! You can't pet a fish. I
her smoke-blonde hair. told you Bobby has a parakeet." He
Maybe Del is sorry we have this pushed the scrambled eggs around
fabulous apartment in Belmont on his plate. "They're not woolly.
Towers instead of some cracker box But at least they get to know you
"rose covered cottage." Well, I'm and all."
not. I'm glad his success in photog- "You know how I feel about
raphy has allowed us to have some birds. And it isn't as if you were
of the niceties of life, she thought, old enough to take the responsibility
Aloud, she called, "Phillip, are you of keeping the cage clean."
dressing?" He pushed his plate away, picked
Her son came out of his bedroom, up his jacket, and left for his day
negative electrical charges preced- at second grade, leaving his mother
ing him. "I am not going to school worried about his lack of appetite,
today. I am not going." relieved that he had gone to school,
Myrene did not intend to take and unhappy because he had not
him seriously. "Really, Phillip? kissed her goodbye.
Why not?" She poured his orange She ran down the hall and caught
juice and served his breakfast plate, up with him by the elevator. "Phil-
"You know why not." He looked lip, I know something that will
as if he might cry. make you happy. Daddy might
"Then I must have forgotten." come to your school today to take
She hoped he wouldn't cry. It made pictures. Any boy can bring a pet
her feel unsure of how to cope with to school. But you're the only one
him. at school that has a Daddy who
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takes pictures for the biggest maga-
zines in the country. You watch for
Daddy and don't worry about those
silly pets."
He nodded, but would not look
at her.
A S she re-entered their apartment,
Del came out of the darkroom
he had improvised in Phillip's bath-
room. His large frame was barnacled
about with the tools of his trade.
Whether he used the 35 mm. slung
around his neck or the 4x5 grasped
by his left hand, critics agreed that
Del McDowell's was 'The camera
with the understanding heart." A
camera in Del's hands had the abil-
ity to see through the outward ap-
pearance of people young, old,
simple, or sophisticated, and record
their inner hopes and yearnings.
"I'm out of fast film," he mut-
tered. "I'll need it on this public
school assignment. Have to hurry
and pick some up before my first
appointment."
"Sit down and eat," Myrene
urged. "Your health is more im-
portant than what kind of film you
use. I'm sure you're clever enough
to use something you have on hand
as a substitute."
He continued toward the door.
"We substitute too much. We've
filled our lives with substitutes for
the things we really want."
"Philosophy on an empty stom-
ach?" she mocked. But he had
already gone. Her menfolk were
certainly giving her trouble this
morning. Perhaps she should be
giving them vitamins.
She put a stereo record on the
player and busied herself with tidy-
ing up the apartment, a task soon
completed and becoming daily less
satisfying to her. She looked at,
without really seeing, a new fashion
magazine. She tried her hair in
new arrangements, but none of them
lifted the lines of discontent from
her pretty face.
Finally, she tried calling some of
her old friends, neighbors she had
known before they moved to Bel-
mont Towers. None of the three
was home. Tuesday morning. Oh,
yes, one of them was a Relief So-
ciety president now, and she had
asked the other two women to work
with her.
That had been the cause of an-
other bitter argument between Del
and Myrene. "Well, I can't go to
everything," she had protested.
"Then attend Relief Society as
you used to, and cut out these
social clubs."
"But, Del, I'm joining them as
much for you as for me. That's
where I can meet women whose
husbands could be very useful to
you in placing your work."
Del's reply to that had been
unforgivable. Now that his reputa-
tion was made, strictly on the
quality of his work, she admitted,
perhaps she should do as Del said.
She was not as happy in her frantic
social schedule as she used to be
at Relief Society meeting. But
she was so involved now.
As if to substantiate that thought,
the phone rang. It was her women's
club president, asking her to be
chairman of the fall fashion show.
"We always say," the woman
gushed, "that when we have a prob-
lem, the one to get is Myrene Mc-
Dowell. You are never one to
wring your hands or dilly-dally.
Once you understand what the
problem is, you wade right in and
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do what has to be done. That's
why we need you/'
"I don't know/' Myrene stared at
the door through which her hus-
band had gone. "We might not be
here then."
"My dear, you're not giving up
that lovely apartment? If you are,
let me be the first to know. My
daughter is on the waiting list, you
know."
"Oh, it's nothing definite. Let
me call you back later."
She hung up the phone and
walked over to the window. Below
her, the outlines of the sprawling
city were obscured by the haze from
industrial smokestacks and a million
auto exhausts. She drew the drapes
and turned toward the perfectly
proportioned living room. Now why
did I say a stupid thing like that?
I have no intention of giving up
this place. It's everything any wom-
an ever wanted.
"T^EL came home and developed
his negatives.
They ate lunch in silence. My-
rene could feel an unspoken hos-
tility in Del, and she was content to
let it remain unspoken. This argu-
ment about a pet for Phillip — Del
and son against her — had actually
become a test battle for all the
arguments they had had. Arguments
about the apartment versus a house,
about social life crowding out
Church activities, about Phillip and
whether they were giving him the
things he needed most.
It was the first time she had ever
analyzed the arguments and set
them up in a row. They made a
pattern that way. Almost, you
might say, the pattern of a prob-
lem. It was a problem she still did
not want to admit, because once ad-
mitted she would have to do some-
thing about it. The club president
was right. She was that kind of
woman.
She sought a diversion. "Can I
go in the darkroom and watch you
print?"
Del was surprised. It used to
fascinate her, but she hadn't both-
ered recently.
He locked the door behind them
from force of habit, took a negative
off the drying clip. After adjusting
the enlarger, he turned on the safe
light and put a sheet of paper in the
easel. "You'll be interested in this
one. Our son's pet show. One of
the kids didn't have a pet so he
picked up a substitute."
He flicked the enlarger light on
and off, set the timer, and slid the
paper into the developing tray in
an easy flow of motion.
Myrene rocked the tray gently,
sloshing the solution over the paper.
The timer ticked off the seconds.
Gray areas appeared faintly on the
print and gradually deepened. It
was undeniably Phillip. Myrene
sucked in her breath.
"This is one the public will never
see." Del put his arm around her
waist.
The print was full depth now,
and he flicked it into the stop bath.
Yes, it was Phillip's face. But more
than Phillip's face, it was Phillip's
loneliness. Cupped in his two little
hands was his substitute pet. And
his large, wistful eyes seemed to
accuse Myrene:
"My mother would give me noth-
ing, so by myself I found the best
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601
I could — this brown, soft, woolly
caterpillar/'
"Hey, wife, stop crying." Del's
tone was tender. "You'll dilute the
hypo."
It would not have been like My-
rene to make a confessional speech.
She only said, "Want to go house
hunting?"
"Three bedrooms, plus dark-
room?" he asked hopefully.
"At least three bedrooms," she
agreed. "Plus family room. Plus
doghouse."
His kiss of appreciation told her
they were on the way to being the
kind of family they ought to be . . .
a happy one.
1 1 Lary 'jDartholomew Stewart 1 1 lakes crier uiome
[Joeauttful Vi/tth ulanawork
MARY Bartholomew Stewart, Provo, Utah, is multiple-gifted in making lovely
decorative accessories for the home. She upholstered the chair in which she is
sitting, and has upholstered many other pieces of furniture. The unusual rugs shown in
the picture were made from small scraps of heavy material sewed in rows very close
together. Mrs. Stewart has designed and quilted many quilts of exquisite workman-
ship, she knits and crochets, paints figurines, and works with plastic foam. She is a
talented seamstress and has made many wedding dresses and dresses for bridesmaids.
She has been called "a woman with versatile fingers."
In Relief Society she has held many positions, both in the wards and in the stakes
of her home city. She has been president, counselor, secretary, and has been class
leader in all the different educational programs. At present she is theology class leader
in the Seventh Ward Relief Society of Provo Stake. She is the mother of eleven
children, grandmother to thirty-five, and great-grandmother to twelve. Her gifts of
handwork adorn the homes of the members of her family and the homes of her many
friends.
Orchids in the Snow
Chapter 5
Rosa Lee Lloyd
Synopsis: Sharon and Sam Wynter,
newlyweds from Utah, make many friends
in Fairbanks, Alaska, including Angus
McFarland, a widower, and his daughter
Marie, and Susan Elg from Bristol Bay
who has brought her husband Herman to
the hospital for an operation. Sharon also
meets Sister Jensen, President of the
branch Relief Society, who rents the
couple a log cabin. Sister Jensen takes
Sharon to visit Mary Billings, who is blind.
Sam, an engineer, goes on a trip to the
North, Sister Jensen goes to visit her
daughter in Nome, and Sharon is left
alone in the cabin.
S HARRY stood near the door
clenching her small, firm fists.
She could hear two dogs bark-
ing, then a girl's voice saying:
"Shush, you two! Don't act so im-
portant!"
Marie/ It was Marie McFarland!
Sharry swung the door wide open,
encircling Marie in her eager arms.
"You'll never know/' she said,
"how scared I was!"
"Are you alone?" Marie asked.
"Sam's on a trip," Sharry said.
She felt something push against her
legs. She looked down into Nuz-
zle's appealing eyes.
"Oh, you darling!"
She picked him up and he cud-
dled close to her with a contented
whine.
"He's yours!" Marie said. "Daddy
warned me not to fall in love with
him because he had chosen you.
Anyway, I have this good old husky
Fudge. He's my lead dog when I
drive sled in Bristol."
"Are they hungry?" Sharry ques-
tioned.
"Let's not spoil them," Marie
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answered. "Leave them on the
porch."
She surveyed the inside of the
cabin from the doorway. "Really
great! I love it, Sharry. It's no
place for these dogs."
"We have a doghouse," Sharry
said, "but we've been too busy to
clean it."
"The porch is all right," Marie
said, following her inside. "Where
did you get this gorgeous quilt?"
She took off her parka and gloves.
"Hang these up — I don't want to
put them on it."
Sharry laughed. "Don't be silly.
It's to be used, Mama told me. She
thinks the time to keep things for
relics is after they have served
practically. Relics should be old
and worn, she says."
Marie pursed her lips. "I never
thought of it that way before," she
said. "But it would be funny to
have a museum full of things that
had never been used. So here
goes!
She flopped on the lounge, stuff-
ing a pillow under her head.
"Solid comfort," she sighed.
"That's what I crave. Beauty, too.
But comfort is what men like, Shar-
ry. I've noticed that my dad has
everything in our house in Bristol
arranged for comfort."
"Yes, Sam's that way, too," Shar-
ry agreed. "I'm different. I'll sac-
rifice comfort for beauty lots of
times. Tell me, how is your father?"
"He's fine — only worried." Ma-
rie's voice gentled. "About Uncle
Herman, I mean. Doctors don't
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have much hope since his operation.
About three months, they said.
Daddy is still in Anchorage with
them. They'll go home as soon as
Uncle Herman can travel. They
are as close as brothers, Sharry. They
were young boys together working
here in Alaska. Everything they
have they earned themselves, fight-
ing the sea and the weather. Uncle
Herman is not quite as tall as Dad-
dy, but he's broad and sturdy, with
blond hair and fair skin and the
dearest smile. He looks like a Vik-
ing but he is a music man at heart,
a poet kind of man. He would work
all day on the icy waters of Bristol
Bay, then come home at night and
read Walt Whitman or play his
old violin that belonged to his fa-
ther. He has a guitar, too. He
taught the villagers to square dance
— and now . . ." her voice faltered,
"we can't bear to lose him, Sharry."
"I know," she said. "How can
we help them?"
"With our love and prayers,"
Marie said. "And we must write
them about everything. Mama Sue
loves to get letters. When she's in
Bristol she meets the plane that
brings the mail and the newspapers.
Swen sends the New York papers.
Uncle Herman loves music so. . . ."
1X/TARIE sat up, her eyes brighten-
ing.
"I saw something I want in the
wish-book yesterday. A guitar. And
they'll send you weekly lessons. You
can pay by the month. Let's do it,
Sharry."
"Sounds like fun," Sharry said.
"I play the organ at Church. A
guitar might be easy for me. I'll
ask Sam."
"Then it's a deal!" Marie said.
"We need music in faraway places
like Bristol, where there's no radio
or television. We have radios in
the schoolhouses to send messages
and receive them, but we need
music in our homes. I want to play
something, so if I have to live in a
faraway place when I get married I
can take my music with me."
Sharry's eyes widened. "Marie,
are you going to be married? Right
away, I mean?"
"I wish I were! I've set my heart
on a certain boy ever since I was a
little girl. But that's the trouble.
He still thinks of me as a little girl.
Maybe he has a girl, by now."
She got to her feet, walking back
and forth. "Let's not talk about it,"
she said. "It breaks me up."
Sharry changed the subject. "We
appreciated your apartment," she
said. "It was so kind of you."
"I was glad to have you there.
We like you and Sam. How long
will he be gone?"
Sharry shook her head. "I don't
know. And I don't know where he
is. They have found an important
metal somewhere — it's a secret."
"Would you like me to stay with
you until he comes home?" Marie
asked.
"I'd love it! There's a potluck
dinner at the branch tonight. We
can go. What shall we take?"
"How about fried wild rabbit?
I've been craving some. It's perfect
now."
"Not for me!" Sharry said. "But
I'll fry it for you. Then I'll make
Sam's favorite chocolate cake, just
in case he gets home in time."
Marie gave her a quizzical smile.
"You won't even taste our favorite
dishes, so you don't know whether
you like them or not," she said.
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"Anyway — let's get busy. First,
we should write those letters for the
guitars — they come collect. Then
we can go up to my apartment. I
want you to see a new sweater I'm
knitting. You can make one just
like it, if you like mine."
T^HEY were busy all afternoon,
but by six o'clock everything
was ready for the potluck dinner.
Sharry had fried the rabbit the same
way as chicken, and when she
heaped the casserole with the gold-
en brown pieces she thought how
Sam would enjoy it. No doubt she
would enjoy it, too, if she didn't
know it was wild rabbit instead of
chicken. She must quit being so
squeamish, she scolded herself. Even
now, the thought of all the strange
food there would be at the dinner
almost nauseated her. She swal-
lowed hard and took a drink of
water.
When they arrived at the party,
Oscar Jensen hurried through the
crowd to meet them. Oscar was
always happy as a cricket, Sharry
thought. When he looked at
Marie, he seemed ready to burst in-
to song. He helped them carry
their food to the serving table, then
they took their places at the long
line of people waiting to help them-
selves.
"I'm starved," Marie whispered.
"Look at that gorgeous food.
Creamed clams and wild celery.
And that big tray of smoked sal-
mon. That's our specialty in Bris-
tol. Salmon cooked every way
imaginable! You'll love it, Sharry."
Sharry nodded. "Yes - I'll like
the salmon. It looks good."
Marie took a spoonful of every-
thing. Her plate was such a con-
glomeration of food that Sharry
wondered if it would make her sick.
She even went back to the table for
more, and Oscar went with her.
"Here, try this creamed clam,"
she coaxed. "Just a spoonful."
Sharry tasted it. It was really
delicious. She wanted terribly to
be a good sport about the food up
here. Sam would be so pleased if
she could tell him she had enjoyed
it.
"Now take a taste of this one,"
Oscar said. "If you like it, I'll tell
you what it is — and if you don't,
you'll never know."
Oscar was eating as heartily as
Marie. They would make a nice
couple, Sharry thought, as she
watched them laughing together.
But Marie had told her she was
already in love.
An hour later when Sharry was
dancing with Oscar, she felt she
could not endure another whirl
around the room. Her head was
dizzy, her eyes blurred, and she was
sick all over.
"Oscar — I'm sorry," she said
weakly. "Let me sit down. I ate
— too much."
He danced her over to an open
window and pushed her gently into
a chair
"I'll get Marie," he said. "You
look awful! Don't faint. Please!"
"Gee whiz!" Marie said a minute
later. "You must be allergic to
something you ate."
"Take me home," Sharry begged.
"Please hurry. . . ."
Oscar went for his car, and Marie
tucked a warm blanket around
Sharry.
"You'll be all right," she said.
"Tell me you're feeling better."
Sharry was too sick to answer her.
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605
IT was nearly five o'clock in the
morning before Sharry went to
sleep. Hours later, when she awak-
ened, she could hear Sam's voice in
the living room. Sam was home!
She struggled to her feet and
hurried to the doorway.
"Darling," she called. The dizzy
sickness came over her again.
Sam rushed to her, holding her
gently in his warm, strong arms.
'Take it easy," he whispered.
"I ate — something," she whis-
pered against his shoulder. "Oh,
Sam — Pm sorry — I'm such a
sissy!"
"You're no sissy," he laughed.
"You're just a brave little darling.
But if you're not better soon, I'll call
a doctor."
"A doctor! Sam — no. Doctors
in Alaska charge a lot of money.
They're sort of special or some-
thing."
"And you're sort of special," he
said, lifting her and carrying her to
the big chair by the fireplace. Huge
chunks of coal were burning bright-
"I took a chance on this old
chimney," he told her. "There's a
good fire going in the kitchen range,
too. Marie is fixing breakfast."
The thought of breakfast made
her sick again. Terribly sick.
P\R. Fillmore came at one o'clock.
He was a big, gray-haired,
middle-aged man, with penetrating
dark eyes and warm, comforting
hands.
"So you think it was our clams
and celery that upset you?" he asked
Sharry, after looking her over.
"Maybe it was that pickled bear
tongue that Oscar asked you to eat
— they are terribly worried about
what they did to you."
"Pickled bear tongue!" Sharry
gasped. "No wonder!"
Dr. Fillmore winked at Sam,,
standing close by.
"No — it isn't anything you ate,"
he said, his wise eyes crinkling.
"This kind of sickness is as old as
time. It's worse with some women
than others. My dear," his voice
was tender, "you and your fine hus-
band can expect a baby in the late
spring, about April, I think."
Sharry turned her face to look at
Sam. Their eyes caught and held
in the bright glory of the moment.
She felt a strange new beat in her
heart. They were going to have a
baby in the spring!
Tears of wonderment glistened in
her eyes. She didn't know when
Dr. Fillmore left the room. She
wasn't sure of anything but Sam
kneeling beside her, holding her as
though he had the whole world in
his arms!
# # # # if.
A week later, Sharry was still too
ill to sit up. Sam told her that
Dr. Fillmore insisted that she go to
the hospital or have a nurse here at
home.
"I can't leave you alone," he said.
"Marie is in school most of the
day — Sister Jensen is still in Nome.
I have to leave again soon — an-
other important job to do."
"When?" She tried to keep her
voice steady.
"Next Monday."
"Today is Wednesday," she mur-
mured. "Sam — if we have to have
somebody professional, there is only
one person I want — my Aunt
Jewel."
He snapped his fingers. "Of
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course! Whv didn't I think of
Jewel. I'll telephone at once. She
can fly up here."
Sharry struggled to sit up.
'Telephone McFarland, too/' she
said. "Ask him to meet her when
she lands in Anchorage. Sometimes
there's a long wait between planes."
'Til do it, dear/' he said, as he
pushed her gently back on the pil-
low. "Be a good little girl and don't
get excited. Dr. Fillmore said you
are to stay flat on your back for
awhile. Leave everything to me,
honey."
Sharry closed her eyes, dreamily.
Aunt Jewel would come to her, she
thought confidently. As soon as she
knew how much Sharry needed her,
she would come.
(^)N Sunday morning Sam drove
to the airport to meet Aunt
Jewel, whose plane from Anchorage
was due at ten o'clock. Marie
stayed with Sharry.
It was pansy-color dark, Sharry
thought — like evening at home.
What would Aunt Jewel think of
the constant darkness?
"Marie," Sharry said, "how do
you endure it month in and month
out?"
"Endure what?" Marie demanded
as she leaned over the dressing
table peering at her face in the mir-
ror. "You mean my freckles?"
"Heavens no!" Sharry gasped.
"Your freckles are cute. I mean
the twilight. I'm so homesick. . . ."
"I know," Marie nodded. "You're
homesick for your mother. I've
been homesick all my life for my
mother. I didn't know her — she
died when I was a baby — still I
think of her often. It's a yearning
I can't explain. That's why I'm so
crazy about my father. He's been
both father and mother to me."
Marie got to her feet.
"Try to sleep while I brush up
the living room. We want every-
thing very cosy when your Aunt
Jewel arrives."
Sharry looked at the clock.
"She should be arriving now,"
she said. "The ride out here will
take about a half hour. I can hard-
ly wait, Marie."
At eleven o'clock, there were foot-
steps on the porch. Then voices
and a man's hearty laugh. McFar-
land's laugh!
"That's my Dad!" Marie squealed.
"He's with them. Hurray!"
Sharry listened to their cheery
greetings. Marie told them to take
off their heavy boots outside so they
wouldn't track the floor.
"Here she is!" Sam ushered Aunt
Jewel into the bedroom. "McFar-
land brought her in his own plane!"
Jewel stooped and gathered
Sharon in her arms, pressing her
cheek against hers.
"We'll have you up in no time,"
she said in her confident, reassuring
way. "I'm so glad you sent for me,
honey."
McFarland loomed in the door-
way. There was a glow in his dark
eyes Sharry hadn't noticed before.
Everyone talked at once. The
plane ride from Anchorage had been
a real adventure, Aunt Jewel told
them. McFarland said they hadn't
stopped to eat because he wanted to
cook a big dinner for everyone when
they got here.
"We'll live it up," he laughed,
"steak and baked potatoes and sal-
ad—a real outside meal. I won't
try to give Jewel Alaskan food right
away. I remember that Sharry
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607
didn't like it. Marie, baby, will you
put the potatoes in the oven while
we go across the river to the mar-
ket? I want Jewel to go with me.
Can you spare her that long,
Sharry?"
"Why, certainly," Sharry said.
"That's fine."
"Shall I drive you?" Sam offered.
McFarland smiled. "We'll walk,"
he said.
They went out laughing as
though they had suddenly found
something wonderful together. Ma-
rie followed them to the doorway,
then she walked back to Sharry's
room and leaned against the win-
dow peering out. A little smile
tipped the corners of her mouth,
but her eyes were deeply serious.
"My father is already in love with
Jewel," she said in her straight-
forward way. "I know he is. I have
seen many women try to attract
him, but this is the first time I have
seen him go overboard — for any-
body."
"But he hardly knows her!"
Sharry exclaimed. "He's just being
friendly."
"Let's face it," Marie answered.
"They've been together since six
o'clock this morning when her plane
arrived from Seattle. He could
have sent her to Fairbanks on the
regular plane. But no — he comes
along. Fairbanks is a long way
from Anchorage."
Sam said, "Maybe he came to see
you, Marie. After all, you are his
favorite daughter."
Marie was quiet for a moment.
"Yes — I'm his favorite daughter,
and he's a very special daddy. But
I'm not selfish about him. I want
him to marry again. I really do.
But I hope she is a woman who
loves Alaska the way he does, one
who realizes what it's like to live
in a place like Bristol. It takes a
real woman to make a home there
ten months out of the vear. I
couldn't bear to have — anybody —
break his heart."
The words were a drumbeat in
Sharry's brain. Marie was afraid
Aunt Jewel was not the kind of
woman for McFarland.
She looked at Sam. What was
he thinking, she wondered? He
never spoke impulsively. He always
figured everything carefully with an
engineer's mind.
Marie looked at him, too.
Suddenly his face broke into a
boyish grin. He shrugged his wide
shoulders.
"Let's not jump the gun," he
said. "Maybe Jewel will have
something to say about all this.
After all, she's mighty important,
too. I'll bet she has a mind of her
own. Shall we wait and see?"
(To be continued)
tureen cJhumh
Mabel Law Atkinson
Why envy me for my green thumb?
My garden was not made
Just wishing for the beautiful —
I used the hoe and spade.
FROM THE FIELD
Hulda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Handbook of Instructions oi the Relief Society.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Thelma H. Sampson
SAMOAN MISSION RELIEF SOCIETY BOARD CONDUCTS CONVENTIONS
IN TWELVE DISTRICTS
Left to right: Thelma II. Sampson, President, Samoan Mission Relief Society,
board members: Ula Montez Stehlin, Sui Ha Arps, Martha Harris, Alisa Fitisemanu,
and Helen Stirling. Virginia Eyestone, also a member of the board, was not present
when the picture was taken. All of the sisters in this picture are wearing the traditional
Samoan dress, called "Pe'a."
Sister Sampson reports: "During the month of April i960, our Samoan Mission
Relief Society board held a series of schools or conventions in all twelve districts on
three main islands of the Samoan Mission. This was the first time such a series of
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609
conventions had ever been held. Our schools began on the designated days at nine
o'clock until twelve noon, with instructions in duties of officers, explaining dues,
emphasis on the visiting teacher program, explaining roll books, and introducing the
new lesson manuals, with a demonstration on how to give a lesson. After lunch, we
began a demonstration period from two to four-thirty in the afternoon, in which we
introduced a very interesting sewing booklet. Then we gave demonstrations on how
to mix powdered milk, how to clean and oil a sewing machine, the use of sewing tools,
making a child's simple play dress and panties, and helps in shirt making. Then our
Samoan sisters demonstrated to us their mat weaving and 'Eiei (block printing) of
Samoan designs on dress material. In the background of the above picture may be
seen the dress lengths which have been block printed. On the table are mats and
baskets made by the Samoan sisters.
"The board members prepared the manuals, the sewing book, and conducted the
conventions. We traveled by car, bus, jeep, boat, and airplane, and met with ninety
to ninety-five per cent of all officers and teachers of the branch and district Relief
Societies. We were all very blessed to take part in these conventions and felt that we
took valuable information to our sisters."
Photograph submitted by Beth M. Stallman
INGLE WOOD STAKE (CALIFORNIA) FASHION SHOW
March 25, 1960
Beth M. Stallman, President, Inglewood Stake Relief Society, reports: "A most
successful fashion show was held in Inglewood Stake, March 25, 1960, under the direc-
tion of Lillian Clifton, Second Counselor, Inglewood Stake Relief Society, and Nola
Langford, stake work meeting leader, with Beth Borland as commentator. Lucille Peel,
stake organist, played beautiful music during the show. All the wards in the stake
were represented, and many pre-school children participated. All the clothing for
women was made by the individual models, except for the children, who modeled
clothing made by their mothers.
"We were most pleased with the beautiful sewing done by our sisters, including
many coats and suits which were truly professional looking. The final model, Dolores
Maxwell, wore a dress 150 years old, which was made from the raw wool to the finished
product, by a member of the family. The dress is still in perfect condition."
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Photograph submitted by Edith C Bennett
SHARON STAKE (UTAH), OREM ELEVENTH WARD PRESIDENCY AND
DOLLS AT SPECIAL MEETING, March 6, i960
Standing, left to right, Relief Society Presidency: Donna Nay, Education Coun-
selor; Marien Ostler, President; Bonnie Larsen, Work Director Counselor.
Edith C. Bennett, President, Sharon Stake Relief Society, reports: "A great
deal of interest was added to the special meeting presented bv Orem Stake, Eleventh
Ward Relief Society, March 6, i960, by displaving dolls which had been appropriately
dressed and labeled. As each topic was introduced, a placard was placed in front of
the doll depicting the phase of Relief Society work being discussed. Sister Ostler
dressed the dolls, which were authentic in every respect. They were so outstanding
that we had them displayed in our March leadership meeting so that all the leaders
in the stake could enjoy them."
Photograph submitted by Anona O. Miles
DUCHESNE STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC EOR
STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, April 17, i960
Front row, seated, left to right, beginning third from the left: Lois Goodrich,
First Counselor; Anona Miles, President; Zella Bennion, Second Counselor; Fern Snow,
Secretary-Treasurer; Arwella Moon, chorister.
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611
Third row, standing, at the right: Rolene Arvanitas, organist.
Back row, eleventh from the left: Elna Mayhew, visiting teacher message leader.
Sister Miles reports: "This chorus is made up of the Singing Mothers of all
eight wards of the stake. The numbers presented at the conference were: 'My Task,'
'God Knows,' Teach Me, O Lord,' and 'My Redeemer Lives.' This organization has
sung for one other stake quarterly conference, and also for the visiting teachers conven-
tion. These women are all active and enthusiastic workers in Relief Society."
Photograph submitted by Louise B. Johansen
NORTH SANPETE STAKE (UTAH) DRAMATIZATION "INSTRUCTIONS
AND PROMISES" OF THE DOCTRINE AND COVENANTS, May i960
Girls seated at the left: Linda Bohne and Roma Madsen; girl standing: Charlene
Jones; man representing Parley P. Pratt: Myron F. Tucker; Lamanite boy, kneeling: Frank
Hasteenez; boys standing: David Evans, Ronald Nielsen; Indian chief: Richard Evans.
Louise B. Johansen, President, North Sanpete Stake Relief Society, reports: "We
have just experienced one of the most uplifting and inspiring occasions that we have had
in our stake. We planned a 'guest day' for the sisters in our stake, and centered our
program around acquainting new members and young mothers with the refining
influence of Relief Society. The visiting teachers delivered 880 invitations to the homes
of the sisters and urged them to attend. The response was gratifying.
"The stake Singing Mothers chorus sang 'When Mothers Sing,' 'We Thank Thee,
O God, for a Prophet,' 'The Morning Breaks,' and 'Oh, Lovely Land, America.' We
presented the dramatizations given at our last conference: 'Instructions and Promises'
of The Doctrine and Covenants, 'Legacy,' and 'The Magazine Is a Bell Ringer.'
Appropriate costumes were worn, and the stake leaders directed their respective depart-
ments. Our stake social science leader prepared effective visual aids and gave a short talk
on 'Spiritual Living — Pathway to Peace.' The visiting teacher leader introduced the
summer messages we had prepared, and copies were given to all the wards.
"As the group came from the chapel into the beautifully decorated recreation hall,
they enjoyed the outstanding hobby displays prepared by each ward. On display were
beautifully appliqued, embroidered, and pieced quilts, painting, leather work, flowers,
jewelry, copper and aluminum articles, crocheting, knitting, clothing, sofa pillows.
Tables with blue covers and pretty yellow dolls were inviting where one could sit and
enjoy the delicious refreshments and visit with friends."
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Photograph submitted by Esther W. Heaton
KANAB STAKE (UTAH), KANAB SOUTH WARD BAZAAR
March 17, i960
Left to right: President Elva H. Judd; First Counselor Pearl O. Little; Second
Counselor Charlotte H. Young; Secretary -Treasurer Lola F. Svvapp; chorister Maurine C.
Jones; literature class leader Gwendoline M. Schoenfeld; Magazine representative
Lucille C. Perkins; social science class leader Harriet R. Judd; work meeting leader
Vola B. Rider; Elda B. Ogden.
Esther W. Heaton is president of Kanab Stake Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Dora P. Webb
BOUNTIFUL NORTH STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE AND
RELIEF SOCIETY CONVENTION
Seated, front row, left to right, beginning fifth from the left, stake board members:
Virginia A. Mann, organist; Iris H. Moon, chorister; Lydia Y. Bangerter, First Counselor;
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Dora P. Webb, President. Second from the right, Magdelen M. Cluff, theology class
leader; Venice D. Hulme, visiting teacher message leader (at end of row).
Second row, sixth from the left: Fawn B. Kizerian, work meeting leader; second
from the right: Eunice H. Van Orden, Magazine representative; at right end of
second row: Jeanne M. Huber, Second Counselor.
Third row, sixth from the left: Betty Jo C. Hixon, Secretary-Treasurer.
Sister Webb reports: "At one session of quarterly conference this chorus sang
'Grant Me, Dear Lord, Deep Peace of Mind,' by Stickler and 'Lift Thine Eyes to the
Mountains' by Mendelssohn. They also furnished the music in our two-stake Relief
Society convention, singing 'Eternal Life' by Dugan, and 'Come, Ye Blessed of My
Father' by Florence J. Madsen."
Jx Stake o/s {Born
(Poem written in appreciation and gratitude for the organization of the
Manchester Stake in the British Isles, March 27, i960.)
Padda M. Speller
If I could capture precious time
Hold fast for you this hour,
Recall the love and joy sublime
That in the saints doth flower;
If I could lock within your hearts
This ne'er forgotten day,
And you receive its many parts —
To love, and work, and pray.
This day would be my gift to you
The best that I could give,
A share in all the good and true
That within man doth live.
This stake of Zion newly born
Upon this lovely land,
Will bravely, gracefully, adorn
Wherever it shall stand.
The knowledge does within us grow
That God is very near,
And when we part, where ere we go,
We'll know that he is here.
Here gathered in this golden "now"
The saints of latter days,
Our hearts as one, we mutely vow
To follow in Christ's ways.
N DEPARTMENT
cJheoiogy — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 27— The Law of Moral Conduct (continued)
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Section 42:21-26, 80-83, 86)
For Tuesday, December 6, i960
Objective: To learn the consequences of lying and unchaste practices.
Review
While conducting a conference
of the Church at Fayette, New
York, during the month of January
1831, the Prophet Joseph Smith re-
ceived the Lord's promise that when
he got to the Ohio valley the law to
the Church would be given. Upon
the Prophet's arrival in Kirtland,
Ohio, the following month of Feb-
ruary, the Prophet received the great
revelation which included more of
the Lord's will than the immediate
problem before the saints at the
time; that is, the need to care for
the relief of the poor and needy.
The responsibility of the Church
to carry the gospel to the world and
the manner in which this should be
done formed the basis of the first
part of the law. (See Lesson 25.)
A major part of the law to the
Church is concerned with the rela-
tions of people who are interested
in living lives which conform to the
law of the Lord. These basic laws
of moral conduct are necessary for
a civilized people. Last month's
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lesson gave an introduction to this
law.
"Thou Shalt Not Lie'
The liar is strongly condemned in
many scriptures of ancient and mod-
ern origin. The revelation under
discussion is emphatic in denounc-
ing this vice. (See D & C 42:21, 86.)
What is a lie? A dictionary defi-
nition is as follows: "To utter a
falsehood with an intention to de-
ceive, or with an immoral design; to
say or do that which is designed to
deceive another when he has a right
to know the truth, or when morality
requires a just representation; to
cause an incorrect impression; to
present a misleading appearance."
The Father of Lies
Lying is the opposite of truth.
Those who indulge in lying, the
speaking of untruths, are being de-
ceived by the father of lies, the
devil, who, from the beginning,
sought to destroy God's work. In
denouncing the false beliefs and
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615
practices of certain Jews, Jesus said:
Ye are of your father the devil, and the
lusts of your father ye will do. He was
a murderer from the beginning, and abode
not in the truth, because there is no truth
in him. When he speaketh a lie, he
speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and
the father of it.
And because I tell you the truth, ye
belie\e me not (John 8:44-45).
Satan's Plan
It is Satan's plan to deceive all
people who will succumb to his in-
fluence. The half-truth is used as a
means of deception. As President
George O. Cannon once explained
concerning Mother Eve being de-
ceived by the devil, he:
. . . told the truth in telling that, but
he accompanied it with a lie as he always
does. He never tells the complete truth.
He said that they should not die. The
Father had said that they should die. The
devil had to tell a lie in order to ac-
complish his purposes; but there was some
truth in his statement. Their eyes were
opened. They had a knowledge of good
and evil just as the Gods have. They
became as Gods; for that is one of the
features, one of the peculiar attributes of
those who attain unto that glory — they
understand the difference between good
and evil (Journal oi Discourses, 26:190-
191).
Those who tell half-truths, or
untruths, in short, they who falsify
are aiding and abetting the cause of
the devil. They bring themselves
into bondage, and, depending upon
the purpose of the lie in reference
to others, they may lead the de-
ceived from the paths of honesty
and virtue. It would seem obvious
that the lie is one of the most pow-
erful tools in the hands of Satan
and those who perpetuate his de-
signs to bring about the destruction
of the souls of men.
Should a Latter-day Saint foster
the kingdom of the devil by imi-
tating the plans of the evil one?
Slave to a Lie
Do members of the kingdom of
God realize that the lie brings
eventual sorrow and regret into their
own lives? Is it clear that when one
follows this practice, he is bringing
himself into a bondage which
counteracts the very purpose of his
earth existence?
How much easier it is to tell the
truth and be free from any enemy
of salvation. When the Prophet
Joseph Smith said that salvation
consists of a man's being placed be-
yond the power of his enemies,
meaning the enemies of his progres-
sion, such as dishonesty, greediness,
lying, immorality, and other vices,
he was saying that man is in bond-
age to these vices. (See D. H. C.
V: 387-388.) As long as man is a
captive to habits and vices that re-
strict or limit his power to act as
a free agent, he will not receive
salvation. But, wherein does the
individual place himself in such a
position of bondage by lying? He
binds himself by making the lie a
part of himself to the extent that
he is no longer free from the false-
hood. It has been said that to be
a successful liar, it is necessary to
remember not only the lie but the
person to whom it is told. In doing
this the person immediately loses
his freedom to that extent. The
necessity of remembering the lie
makes a deeper impression upon the
liar, requiring that it become a part
of his life.
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"The Tiuth Shall Make You Free"
On the other hand, ". . . the truth
shall make you free" (John 8:32).
The truth-teller need not fear the
consequences of his actions — he is
free indeed. When the lie is spok-
en, it is almost always discovered
and the loss of a friend and charac-
ter debasement follow. When con-
fronted with the temptation to lie
or deceive, one should think of the
consequences — possible loss of
friends, sorrow, and regret. What
self-respecting person would know-
ingly place himself in this position?
The adversary sought to destroy
the work of the Lord in bringing
forth The Book of Mormon by a
planned attempt to use the loss of
the translated portion from the gold
plates to his advantage. The plan
was to change that part which had
been translated and then "expose"
the Prophet Joseph Smith by show-
ing that his retranslation was incor-
rect. This plan, however, was
foiled by the translation of the small
plates of Nephi which covered the
same period of history. Of Satan
it is said in the revelation disclosing
this deception that:
Yea, he stirreth up their hearts to anger
against this work.
Yea, he saith unto them: Deceive and
lie in wait to catch, that ye may destroy;
behold, this is no harm. And thus he
flattereth them, and telleth them that it
is no sin to lie that they may catch a man
in a lie, that they may destroy him.
And thus he flattereth them, and lead-
eth them along until he draggeth their
souls down to hell, and thus he causeth
them to catch themselves in their own
snare.
And thus he goeth up and down, to
and fro in the earth, seeking to destroy
the souls of men (D & C 10:24-27).
Korihor, the anti-Christ, in learn-
ing of the power of Alma, became
convinced that he (Korihor) had
been deceived, and then confessed
his guilt in deceiving some Ne-
phites. Alma records that ". . . the
devil will not support his children
at the last day, but doth speedily
drag them down to hell" (Alma
30:60).
Punishment of the Liar
Severe rebukes of the liar are
mentioned many places in scripture.
Solomon said that the Lord hates
"... a lying tongue . . ." (Proverbs
6:17), and a ". . . false witness that
speaketh lies, and he that soweth
discord among brethren." (See Prov-
erbs 6;iC).)
"Wo unto the liar, for he shall
be thrust down to hell" (2 Nephi
9:34). Concerning those who will
eventually make up the telestial
kingdom, it is revealed that:
These are they who are liars, and
sorcerers, and adulterers, and whoremoil^-
ers, and whosoever loves and makes a lie.
These are they who suffer the wrath of
God on earth.
These are they who suffer the vengeance
of eternal fire.
These are they who are cast down to
hell and suffer the wrath of Almighty God,
until the fulness of times, when Christ
shall have subdued all enemies under his
feet, and shall have perfected his work
(D & C 76:103-106 cf. 63:17).
"Thou Shalt Not Commit
Adultery'
As heretofore pointed out, the law
of moral conduct applies to both
sexes. This is the single standard
of conduct. This fact is indicated
clearly in making known the proce-
dure of excommunication from the
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617
Church as the penalty for this sex
sin.
And if any man or woman shall commit
adultery, he or she shall be tried before
two elders of the church, or more, and
every word shall be established against him
or her by two witnesses of the church,
and not of the enemy; but if there are
more than two witnesses it is better.
But he or she shall be condemned by
the mouth of two witnesses; and the elders
shall lay the case before the church, and
the church shall lift up their hands against
him or her, that they may be dealt with
according to the law of God.
And if it can be, it is necessary that
the bishop be present also.
And thus ye shall do in all cases which
shall come before you (D & C 42:80-83).
(Italics by author.)
Because of the Lord's setting forth
the single standard of conduct as his
law, it is not inconsistent, nor is it
a changing of the scriptures from
their intended meaning, to insert
the words shown in brackets below.
Thou shalt love thy wife [husband] with
all thy heart, and shalt cleave unto her
[him] and none else.
And he that looketh upon a woman
[man] to lust after her [him] shall deny
the faith, and shall not have the Spirit;
and if he [she] repents not he [she] shall
be cast out.
Thou shalt not commit adultery; and
he [she] that committeth adultery, and
repenteth not, shall be cast out.
But he [she] that has committed adul-
tery and repents with all his [her] heart,
and forsaketh it, and doeth it no more,
thou shalt forgive;
But if he [she] doeth it again, he [she]
shall not be forgiven, but shall be cast out
(D & C 42:22-26).
The penalty for adultery is severe
because in the category of sins, it is
classed next to murder. (See Alma
39:5-9.) President Joseph Fielding
Smith of the Council of the
Twelve has written the following
in comment upon verses 22 to 26 of
Section 42 quoted above:
Now this revelation was given before
the endowment was made known. Since
that time when a man is married in the
temple, he takes a solemn covenant before
God, angels, and witnesses that he will
keep the law of chastity. Then if he
violates that covenant it is not easy to
receive forgiveness. I call your attention
to this statement by the Prophet Joseph
Smith: "If a man commit adultery, he
cannot receive the celestial kingdom of
God. Even if he is saved in any king-
dom, it cannot be the celestial kingdom."
Of course, a man may, according to the
Doctrine and Covenants, 132:26, receive
forgiveness, if he is willing to pay the
penalty for such a crime: that is he "shall
be destroyed in the flesh, and shall be
delivered unto the buffetings of Satan un-
to the day of redemption," which is the
time of the resurrection. We cannot de-
stroy in the flesh, so what the Lord will
require in lieu thereof, I do not know
(Doctrines of Salvation, 11:93-94).
From what the Lord has revealed
about repentance or forgiveness of
this sin, as great as it is, there is
forgiveness for the Church member
upon his or her true repentance. It
may be forgiven when the member
of the Church has not received the
light and understanding of the
temple ordinances, but even then
the second offense will surely bring
the casting out of the offender from
the Church. For the person who
may have committed this act before
membership in the Church, upon
his or her sincere repentance and
the acceptance of baptism, the re-
mission of sins is received. Salvation
in the kingdom of God comes to
him or to her who endures to the
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end. (See 3 Nephi 30; 1 Cor.
6:9-11.)
An Heinous Practice
Elder Harold B. Lee draws atten-
tion to a practice directly related to
this subject:
There is, however, another heinous
practice, the sin of abortion, or the de-
struction of unborn children by illegal
operations, which lies somewhere a close
kin to the crime of destroying human life
and certainly to be condemned under the
subject heading of this chapter, "Thou
shalt not kill!"
Against this deplorable practice the
leaders of the Church have declared from
the beginning. This serious sin against
the Lord's plan is committed by two
groups of individuals: first, those who,
having committed their first great error
in yielding to sexual sin, seek to cover
their sins after gratifying their lusts, by
committing an even more heinous crime
before the law of the land and against
the law of God; and, second, by those
having entered into the sacred relation-
ships of the married state but who, rather
than accept the responsibilities of parent-
hood, yield to this awful practice by which
they forfeit their rights to wonderful bless-
ings which otherwise could have been
theirs ("The Sixth Commandment/'
The Ten Commandments Today7 pp.
91-92).
Love Thy Husband
'Thou shalt love thy wife [hus-
band] with all thy heart, and shalt
cleave unto her [him] and none
else" (D & C 42:22). When the
Lord instituted marriage in the be-
ginning, it was the intention that
husband and wife should remain
true to each other. They were to
". . . be one flesh" (Genesis 2:24;
see also Mark 10:6-9; Ephesians
5:31) and to be faithful to each
other, as the word "cleave" denotes.
Two ideas from the apostle Paul
bring together an emphasis which
the Lord intends in this same con-
nection :
Nevertheless neither is the man without
the woman, neither the woman without
the man, in the Lord.
For as the woman is of the man, even
so is the man also by the woman; but all
things of God (I Cor. 11:11-12).
Husbands, love your wives, even as
Christ also loved the church, and gave
himself for it. . . .
Nevertheless let every one of you in
particular so love his wife even as himself;
and the wife see that she reverence her
husband (Ephesians 5:25, 33).
Safeguard Against Sin
As the reader remembers the New
Testament Sermon on the Mount,
she will recognize the common ele-
ment in Matthew 5:27-28, and part
of Section 42:22-26 of The Doc-
trine and Covenants given above.
When the resurrected Savior in-
structed the Nephites, however, he
gave them this admonition which
seems to reinforce and further clar-
ify the meaning of the New Testa-
ment scripture, as also the modern
revelation. Jesus emphasized in
those instructions that control of
thought, feelings, and desires is
necessary as a safeguard against
adultery.
Behold, it is written by them of old
time, that thou shalt not commit adultery;
But I say unto you, that whosoever look-
eth on a woman [man], to lust after her
[him], hath committed adultery already in
his [her] heart.
Behold, I give unto you a command-
ment, that ye suffer none of these things
to enter into your heart;
For it is better that ye should deny
yourselves of these things, wherein ye will
take up your cross, than that ye should be
cast into hell (3 Nephi 12:27-30).
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Is not this instruction in harmony
with the words of the prophet-king
Benjamin and later by Amulek (see
Alma 12:14), when Benjamin coun-
seled his people as follows:
And finally, I cannot tell you all the
things whereby ye may commit sin; for
there are divers ways and means, even so
many that I cannot number them.
But this much I can tell you, that if
ye do not watch yourselves, and your
thoughts, and your words, and your deeds,
and observe the commandments of God,
and continue in the- faith of what ye have
heard concerning the coming of our
Lord, even unto the end of your lives, ye
must perish. And now, O man, remem-
ber, and perish not (Mosiah 4:29-30).
(Italics by author.)
Vulgarity of thought, word, and
desire may well lead to the deed.
"For as he thinketh in his heart, so
is he . . ." (Proverbs 23:7).
Results o( Unchaste Thoughts
Transgression begins in the mind,
prompted by obscene pictures, sa-
lacious literature, immodesty of
dress, and other forms of lewdness.
Impure thoughts thus engendered,
unless repented of, encourage apos-
tasy. Three consequences of this
thought-transgression are mentioned
in the text under consideration
(D&C 42:22-26): (1) a denial of
the faith; (2) a loss of the Spirit;
and (3) to be cast out of the
Church. Included in these conse-
quences is (4) that fear will come
to the transgressor as he realizes
that his unrepentance has brought
upon him the condemnation of
those who love him most in this
life and also the wrath of God.
(See D&C 63:16.)
Honest Hearts Produce
Honest Actions
Admonitions against breaking the
law of moral conduct are of great
importance. Although breaking the
laws against stealing and lying are
more common than adultery and
the taking of human life, none of
these offenses against the Lord
should be taken lightly. When one
is genuinely converted to the gospel
of Jesus Christ, it will be recognized
that the breaking of a command-
ment is wrong in itself. Some peo-
ple feel that they can commit sin
as long as no one knows about the
sin. The foundation of such a be-
lief is based upon an idea contrary
to the teachings of the gospel. Fall-
ing into the error of the Pharisees
should not be an indulgence of the
Latter-day Saint. Out of the heart
proceed evil thoughts and deeds.
(See Mt. 15:11-20, especially 18-19.)
The Ideal Home
Love in the home is expressed in
other ways in addition to the one
on which emphasis has been placed
thus far in this lesson. One of
these ways is consideration for the
feelings of the wife and husband,
as expressed by President David O.
McKay, in a general conference:
I cannot imagine a man's being cruel to
a woman. I cannot imagine her so con-
ducting herself as to merit such treat-
ment. Perhaps there are women in the
world who exasperate their husbands but
no man is justified in resorting to physical
force or in exploding his feelings in pro-
fanity. There are men, undoubtedly, in
the world who are thus beastly, but no
man who holds the Priesthood of God
should so debase himself (Conference Re-
port, October 1951, page 181).
Where confidence and love be-
tween husband and wife exist, there
is the basis of the ideal home. In
the words of President Joseph F.
Smith, we learn:
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A home is not a home in the eye of
the gospel, unless there dwell perfect con-
fidence and love between the husband and
the wife. Home is a place of order, love,
union, rest, confidence, and absolute trust;
where the breath of suspicion of infidelity
can not enter; where the woman and the
man each have implicit confidence in each
other's honor and virtue (Gospel Doctrine,
Tenth Edition, page 302).
Questions for Discussion
1. In reading the dictionary definition
of the word "lie," what ideas are suggested
which go beyond the general meaning
given to the practice of lying? (Example:
"To cause an incorrect impression.")
2. In what way is lying aiding the plans
of Satan?
3. What is there about lying that takes
away a person's freedom?
4. Discuss: "And ye shall know the
truth, and the truth shall make you free"
(John 8:32).
5. What is the single standard of moral
conduct?
Visiting cJeacher l/lessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 27—" . . . Every Man Is Given a Gift By the Spirit of God. . . .
That All May Be Profited Thereby" (D & C 46:1 1-12)
Christine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, December 6, 1960
Objective: We have a divine responsibility to develop our gifts and talents and to
use them in the service of others.
AT this season of the year when
our thoughts are centered on
gifts and giving, how often do we
pause to consider the countless,
wonderful gifts which our Father in
heaven has so lovingly bestowed up-
on each of us? We believe that the
greatest gift ever given to man is
the atoning sacrifice of our Savior,
whose birth we celebrate this month
and whose spirit should motivate all
of our thoughts and actions. But
along with this greatest gift, the
Lord has bestowed bounteous indi-
vidual gifts and talents upon each
of us. The important challenge we
all face is to recognize the gifts and
talents we possess and to develop
them to the maximum, not only for
our own benefit, but also for the
benefit of others. What are these
gifts? How can we develop and uti-
lize them to the best advantage?
When we speak of the gifts of
God, often we are inclined to think
only of spiritual gifts, such as the
gifts of faith and of healing. These,
of course, are blessed, special gifts,
but the Lord has bestowed other
gifts upon us which are also wonder-
ful. For example, Brigham Young
once said:
The gift of communicating one with
another is the gift of God, just as much
so as the gift of prophecy . . . (Ludlow,
Daniel H.: Latter-day Saint Prophets
Speak, page 172).
Likewise, the gift of an under-
standing heart, of a desire to serve,
of cheerfulness, the ability to teach,
the wonderful character trait of
looking for and magnifying the
good in others — all these are gifts
from God. These are gifts which
we all can possess, if we seek dili-
gently to develop them. Moreover,
the Lord has said we should
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". . . seek . . . earnestly the best
gifts, always remembering for what
they are given" (D & C 46:8).
The terms gifts and talents are
often employed synonymously.
These words have been defined as
"natural endowments employing
favor by God and given to us as a
divine trust."
Far too many of us fail to recog-
nize the many wonderful talents and
gifts with which we are endowed.
We look at some of our friends and
acquaintances who seem to be so
talented and wish we possessed
similar accomplishments; but all of
us have gifts that are distinctly our
own. It is our individual responsi-
bility and opportunity to discover,
develop, and use these priceless gifts.
One of the best-known stories which
emphasizes the importance of dis-
covering and using our gifts or tal-
ents wisely is contained in the
parable as given by Jesus when he
said:
For die kingdom of heaven is as a man
travelling into a far country, who called
his own servants, and delivered unto them
his goods.
And unto one he gave five talents, to
another two, and to another one; to every
man according to his several ability; and
straightway took his journey (Mt.
25:14-15).
The story continues with the
description of how two servants
used their talents productively and
expanded and multiplied them. The
third servant buried his talent in
the ground, with the result that
when the master returned even that
little which had been given to him
was taken away. (See Mt. 25:14-29.)
This parable dramatizes with
clarity the important fact that un-
less we develop and use the gifts
which we have been given we will
lose them. As underscored in The
Doctrine and Covenants' scripture,
these talents must be used freely
and joyously for the good of all man-
kind. As we develop our talents
unselfishly for the good of all, we
recognize the universal truth, thus,
". . . It is more blessed to give than
to receive'" (Acts 20:35).
The real spirit of Christmas is
the spirit of service to others. In
all our giving let us remember that
the most precious gifts are those
centered in love, thoughtfulness,
kindness, and other gifts from the
heart. Although such gifts cannot
be wrapped in gay paper and tied
with tinsel cord, they will outlast
those which human hands create,
and will bring to us deeper joy than
all the riches of the world. With
these gifts we can extend the spirit
of Christmas throughout the year
and throughout our lives, and can
thus develop those gifts and talents
which God so generously bestows
upon us.
C/ rat it tide
Catherine B. Bowles
We thank thee, Father, for thy love,
For all thy blessings from above,
For lovely flowers, skies of blue,
The morning sun, the evening dew;
For goodness, faith, and humble prayer,
We thank thee, Father, for thy care.
Work Yfleeting — Caring for the Sick in the Home
(A Course Expected to Be Used by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Lesson 3 — Moving and Lifting the Patient
Maria Johnson
For Tuesday, December 13, i960
Objective:
(a) To learn good body mechanics (to use the body properly) when moving or
lifting a patient in order to prevent accidents and to hasten recovery.
(b) To protect the worker from unnecessary strain and fatigue.
Proper Body Mechanics
^IRED feet, aching backs, fatigue, and emotional tension are the price
we pay for poor posture, whether caring for a sick patient or meeting
the needs of the family. A cheerful disposition does not come with tired
feet and aching backs.
The following rules are important when carrying out any procedure
that requires stooping, bending, or lifting.
1. Keep the back straight, no bend at waist line. The lower back was not made to
lift with, always lift or carry with the back straight.
2. Do not use the back muscles. The large leg thigh muscles should take the burden.
3. When bending, bend at the hips and the knees.
4. Stand close to your work.
5. Go down to the level of your work — bend knees. (See illustration.)
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Stand with feet apart, giving a wide base of support, and with one foot forward.
Before lifting, tighten the muscles of the abdomen and the buttocks. In helping
the patient, the nurse usually supports or uses a push or pull movement rather than
a lift. Heavy lifting requires two or more people.
Always have the patient assist as much as possible.
Moving the Patient
A. To move a leg or arm:
Procedure — (See illustration)
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Support under ankle and knee or under wrist and elbow. Do not grasp from above.
B. To move patient to side of bed:
Procedure — (See illustrations)
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Have patient lying on back.
Cross patient's arms over her chest.
Stand facing the patient's head and shoulders. Place one foot forward so your thigh
or knee is braced against the side of the bed.
Tighten your abdominal muscles and bend from your hips and knees. Keep your
back straight.
Place one arm under the patient's head and one under her chest. Your arms must
reach all the way under the patient, so her head is supported by your elbow and
the far shoulder by your hand. The other arm supports the chest region.
Pull the patient's head and shoulders toward you to the side of the bed.
Move the patient's hips in the same manner, placing your hands all the way under
the heaviest part of the patient's hips.
The legs are then placed in line with the trunk.
Note: If the patient's condition will not permit her to be moved a unit at a timer
two people will be needed.
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C. To assist the patient to turn on side:
Procedure —
1. Bring the patient to a far side of the bed.
2. Cross the leg that is farthest from you over the other leg.
3. Place the arm that is farthest away over the chest and the other arm on mattress
by head of patient.
4. Stand with feet apart on the side of bed toward which the patient is to be turned,
one leg braced against the bed.
5. Reach across the patient and place one hand on her far hip and the other on her
shoulder.
6. In this position, keeping your back straight, roll back to a standing position. This
will turn the patient on her side.
D. To help the bed patient to a sitting position:
Procedure — (See illustrations)
Ready to Raise Patient
Patient in Sitting Position
Method I
1. Stand facing the head of bed with one leg against the mattress and the other leg
a little forward.
2. Reach over and place your hand over the patient's shoulder far enough that your
thumb is on her neck and your hand between the shoulder blades. Place your
other hand on the bed for support.
3. To lift the patient, push against the bed with the one arm and lift the patient as
you shift your weight to the leg against the bed. Keep your back straight.
Method II
1. Remember to tighten the abdominal muscles and keep your back straight.
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2. Stand with one foot forward and place one hand under the patient's neck.
3. With the other arm reach over the patient and place your hand under both of
the patient's knees.
4. Pivot the patient to a sitting position and swing her legs over the side of the bed.
E. To assist patient from bed to wheelchair:
Precautions:
Be sure chair is anchored so it will not move. You may need another person to
hold the chair. A regular wheelchair is equipped with foot boards. These are for
support of the patient's feet — not to step on. The foot boards must always be
lifted up when patient is getting in or out of wheelchair.
Procedure —
1. Put robe on patient while in bed.
2
3
4
5
Place chair at side of bed facing the head.
Have patient in sitting position with legs over side of bed.
Put on slippers.
You will stand in front of the patient and support her by placing your hands under
the patient's armpits. The patient places her hands on your shoulders and slides
her feet to the floor.
6. You and the patient pivot and move to front of chair.
7. The patient reaches for the arm of the chair and lowers herself into the chair while
you continue the support, keeping your back straight and bending your knees.
JLiterature — America's Literature Comes of Age
Lesson 19 — James Fenimore Cooper, Critic (1789-1851)
Elder Briant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 221-223)
For Tuesday, December 20, i960
Objective: To increase Cooper's significance for us by exploring the interrelation-
ships tying together his aristocracy, his artistry, and his Americanism.
npiME has been kinder to Irving
than to Cooper. Irving wrote
his smooth lines with greatest care,
and speaks to our generation with
as much charm as he did to his own.
Cooper revised only when compelled
to, feeling that to reword a sentence
was to destroy, somehow, his integ-
rity and the vigorous spontaneity of
his strongly masculine drive. For
this and other reasons he is read to-
day with difficulty, if at all, since
even for the modern reader who
presistently studies him, sometimes
it seems that Cooper achieves his
power in spite of his style rather
because of it. Thus when the mod-
ern reader is handed The Last of
the Mohicans, probably the most
widely read novel in the nineteenth
century — despite Scott, Dickens,
and Harriet Beecher Stowe — after
reading in it for an hour he can
usually only shake his head and
wonder why Cooper used to be any
good, since he's certainly dull
enough now.
Tempting as it may at first appear,
an easy decision either to skip him
or merely to chat lightly about him
would result in a great loss for us.
Far and above any other American
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A Perry Picture
JAMES FENIMORE COOPER
writer of the century, it was he who
created in the western world what
has been accepted and loved as the
true western America, precisely as
comic books and western movies and
TV do today, for good or ill.
Throughout his extensive travels in
Europe, Samuel F. B. Morse noted
that Cooper's latest novel was dis-
played most conspicuously in all the
bookshops. As soon as Cooper fin-
ished a novel, it was published
simultaneously in thirty-four major
cities, and in Egypt, Turkey, Persia,
and the Far East. Thackeray felt
Natty Bumppo (the hero of the five-
volume series, Leather - Stocking
Tales) was better than anyone in
the writings of Walter Scott, his fel-
low countryman; Balzac praised
Cooper extravagantly, and Dumas
wrote a story entitled, Les Mohicans
de Paiis; Tolstoy and Dostoevski
fondly recalled their boyhood love
for him, while in a Chekhov story,
a Russian lad nicknames his buddy
''Montezuma Hawkeye," he in turn
being called "Paleface Brother/' In
the United States, though his style
and circumstantial absurdities were
ridiculed mercilessly bv two fellow
writers on western themes, Bret
Harte and Mark Twain, still genera-
tions of American youth were nur-
tured on his novels. And thus our
original question becomes even more
pressing: What did the nineteenth
century see in Cooper that we do
not? As space permits, this lesson
will attempt an answer, approached
from various angles.
Cooper's Life
In 1790, in his first year, James,
with other family members of
Judge William Cooper, was installed
in the memorial Otsego Hall,
nucleus of Cooperstown, in western
New York. From this place Squire
Cooper operated his thousands of
acres under a system not far re-
moved from feudalism, share-crop-
ping most of it and bragging that
he was directly responsible for put-
ting more virgin acres to the plow
than any other man of his time. A
strong Federalist shaped in the rigid
mold of English aristocracy, at elec-
tion time he rode far and wide
among his renters reminding them
that running the government was an
affair for gentlemen, and that they
had better leave alone things they
knew nothing about.
Young James was heir to the
manor and all it symbolized (he
adopted his mother's maiden name
Fenimore, only after he began
writing). After being privately tu-
tored by an English gentleman and
scholar, he was sent to Yale where
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A Perry Picture
Copyright 1900 by Eugene A. Perry
COOPER'S HOME "OTSEGO HALL/' COOPERSTOWN, NEW YORK
he was expelled for a teenage prank,
but later reinstated and he gradu-
ated in 1806. After sailing for two
years as a common seaman, he be-
came a midshipman in the United
States Navy, resigning his commis-
sion shortly before the outbreak of
the War of 1812 to marry Susan De
Lancey, daughter of a wealthy Fed-
eralist farming family. Thus Cooper
became a landed gentleman in the
accepted pattern.
In 1820 he wrote his first novel
to prove to his wife that he could
write more forcibly than could the
English novelist they were reading
together in the evenings. Within
four years he was acknowledged the
first great American novelist in the
three areas: Revolutionary War,
(The Spy); western frontier Ameri-
ca (The Pioneers); and the sea
(The Pilot). In 1826, with the ap-
pearance of The Last oi the Mo-
hicans, he sailed for Europe with
his wife, one son, and four daughters
to give them a broadening educa-
tion and to see for himself the won-
ders of the world and contrast them
with those of his homeland.
During his seven-year stay abroad
he continued writing as furiously as
ever while living in Paris, London,
Berne, Florence, Sorrento, Rome,
and Dresden. Upon his return in
1833, he purchased Otsego Hall in
Cooperstown and lived there until
his death in 1851, age sixty-two.
Immediately upon returning, he
felt to his dismay that the demo-
cratic form of government which he
had defended with such ardor while
in Europe was being destroyed from
within itself by the low backwoods
element which came to power with
Andrew Jackson in 1829, as well as
by the emergence of the new com-
mercial classes, as symbolized by
such huge factory towns as Lowell,
Massachusetts, which had been but
a village when he left.
During his absence, Wall Street
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had achieved its present identity,
one which until his death, Cooper
openly hated and attacked.
Though he continued the writing
of his thirty-three novels, he be-
came increasingly concerned with
the social, political, and moral ills
everywhere about him, fearlessly
lashing out at his countrymen in
such books as Letter to His
Countrymen (1834), Homeward
Bound, and Home As Found
(1838), all of which left his con-
temporaries in no doubt as to where
he stood. Squabbles over public use
of his private land bordering Otsego
Lake, quarrels over libel suits, and
the folly of choosing juries from the
public en masse — these and several
other issues he prosecuted vigorous-
ly in courts until his death, always
acting as his own lawyer, always
winning his case, but also making
enemies and stirring up contention.
So severe was the tension during
his later years that, at his death in
1851, several of his loyal friends
organized the Cooper Monument
Association. Three meetings were
held in his honor in New York City,
with Washington Irving presiding at
one session, speeches given by Wil-
liam Cullen Bryant and Daniel
Webster, and some thirty letters
from prominent politicians, educa-
tors, and writers being read. All
esteemed him for his creative genius
and for his love for his country
which was so great that, in com-
plete disregard of what his oppon-
ents or anyone else thought, he
always spoke out fearlessly as he be-
lieved.
Cooper, First Critic oi America
Aside from Hugh Henry Bracken-
ridge (1748-1816), whose Modern
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629
Chivalry attacked excesses of the
new, raw democracy but which did
not have a Nation-wide influence,
Cooper was the first man of letters
to devote his predominant energies
to pointing out the weaknesses of
the country he loved, in the hope of
saving it from its own lowering
flaws.
One terse, accurate summary of
James Fenimore Cooper, man and
writer, is to designate Cooper as
vigor. A great individualist, he
seems to have shaped everything in
his life to embody the three beliefs
which he proclaimed and defended
with endless tenacity: first, belief in
himself, his class, and his personal
"gifts"; second, belief in American
democracy as he defined what it
should be; and third, belief in
Christianity. It was his views on
individuality and democracy that
caused him trouble; it was also
these views which gave him his very
identity; therefore he wrote his
beliefs into all he wrote, his novels,
history of the navy, and personal
essays and criticism.
True to his environment and fam-
ily tradition, Cooper believed fer-
vently, as he exemplified fully, the
eighteenth-century rationalistic con-
cept of station. This central prin-
ciple in his life held that, under Na-
ture or God (or both) all men are
grouped in whatever class or station
their individual "gifts" best fit them
for; therefore, each person's intelli-
gence, social graces, possessions, oc-
cupation, sex, color, and geograph-
ical location help to determine his
place both within his own class or
station and in relation to all others.
Thus, once a person "knows his
place" and accepts it, is even grate-
ful for it, he then has within him-
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self strong feelings of identity and
security. These are his very self.
Cooper felt that the America he
left in 1826 was so ordered and
sustained; by comparison the Ameri-
ca he returned to in 1833 was dan-
gerously near anarchy and chaos.
In 1834, Cooper published The
American Democrat, which states
his convictions in detail. Chapter
headings on Equality, Liberty,
Monarchy, Aristocracy, Democracy,
Prejudice, Station, Demagogues,
Candor, Liberty of the Press, Prop-
erty, The Publick, Civilization, The
Right of Petition, On Party, Indi-
viduality, "They Say," and Rumor,
indicate ideas central both to the
book and to Cooper's life when seen
as an integrated oneness. It is these
principles which he embodied as
central principles in Homeward
Bound, Home As Found, The Pio-
neers, The Prairie, The Monikins (a
sharp satire of political institutions),
Satanstoe, The Chainbearer, The
Redskins, and The Crater (defining
an Utopia on a Pacific Isle). Here
were the ends; his novels were the
means he used to get his arguments
printed, decorated rather heavily
with all the conventional trappings
of plot and stiff, "literary" language
of the then current sentimental
novel. Thus, being central, such
views deserve brief statement in his
own words, taken from The Ameri-
can Democrat:
On Character
All greatness of character is dependent
on individuality.
On Freedom
Of what use is freedom if every one is
not master of his own innocent acts and
associations? And what right has any
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man to call himself a democrat if he will
submit to be dictated to in those habits
over which neither law nor rational moral-
ity assumes a right of control?
On Libeity
We do not adopt the popular polity
because it is perfect, but because it is less
imperfect than any other. As man, by
his nature, is liable to err, it is vain to
expect an infallible whole that is composed
of fallible parts. The government that
emanates from a single will, supposing that
will to be pure, enlightened, impartial,
just and consistent, would be the best in
the world, were it attainable for men. Such
is the government of the universe, the
result of which is perfect harmony. As
no man is without spot in his justice, as
no man has infinite wisdom, or infinite
mercy, we are driven to take refuge in
the opposite extreme, or in a government
of many.
Liberty may be defined to be a con-
trolling authority that resided in the body
of a nation, but so restrained as only to
be exercised on certain general principles
that shall do as little violence to natural
justice, as is compatible with the peace
and security of society.
On Aristocracy and Democracy
The law of God is the only rule of
conduct in this, as in other matters. Each
man should do as he would be done by
.... it may be taken as a rule in social
intercourse, that he who is the most apt
to question the pretensions of others is
the most conscious of the doubtful posi-
tion he himself occupies; thus establishing
the very claims he affects to deny, by let-
ting his jealousy of it be seen. Manners,
education, and refinement, are positive
things, and they bring with them innocent
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aristocrat who maintains his independence
of habits; for democracy asserts the control
of the majority only in matters of law,
and not in matters of custom. The very
object of the institution is the utmost
practicable personal liberty, and to affirm
the contrary would be sacrificing the end
to the means.
An aristocrat, therefore, is merely one
who fortifies his exclusive privileges by
positive institutions, and a democrat, one
who is willing to admit of a free competi-
tion in all things. To say, however, that
the last supposes this competition will lead
to nothing is an assumption that means
are employed without any reference to an
end. He is the purest democrat who best
maintains his rights, and no rights can
be dearer to a man of cultivation than
exemptions from unseasonable invasions
on his time by the coarse minded and
ignorant.
Cooper himself best exemplifies
this definition of the aristocrat-
democrat, both in his life and in his
novels. And while the main appeal
of his Leather-Stocking Tales is the
great American myth or dream
which he incarnates and creates
therein, nevertheless the above ideas
are everywhere present in his best-
known, best-loved novels, which in-
dicates without question that many
in his own day did not repudiate
these central convictions of Coop-
er's.
Cooper, American Individualist
Cooper is one of America's
significant literary artists, but his
creative powers were incidental,
though most happy by-products of
his most earnest, lifelong attempt to
communicate to his countrymen the
ideals which shaped his own life and
which increasingly were becoming
ignored, even abused on every side.
Rarelv have we had a literary person-
age record in such great detail his
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personal sense of values outside his
art. Once such practical insight is
available, it becomes invaluable for
two reasons: first, in its own right
such keen, sincere evaluation of the
nineteenth-century American scene
opens new realms for evaluation and
comparison to a student of Ameri-
ca's past; second, awareness of Coop-
er's personal convictions before read-
ing his novels imparts to them a
unity and an impact which can be
obtained in no other way.
In the Literary History of the
United States (Macmillan, 1953,
one-volume edition) page 269, one
of the great modern critics of Coop-
er, Mr. Robert E. Spiller, writes:
Thus, estimating Cooper, we should
note again that in his writing America
was first indeed and the novel for its own
sake a bad second. Therefore in scope and
in passion, it is barely possible that Cooper
the social critic will outlive Cooper the
novelist of the many novels, but never
Cooper the romancer, Cooper the teller
of the Leather-Stocking Tales. Yet even
those tales could never have been so pas-
sionate, so profoundly and originally
American, had he not probed relentlessly
beneath the surface of facts to the prin-
ciples of American society and of human
conduct. (Reprinted by permission)
Thus to relate Cooper, the critic,
to Cooper the creator of one of the
great American ideas in artistic
form, will be the concern of the les-
son following.
Thoughts for Discussion
1. Did Cooper's extended stay abroad
increase or decrease his Americanism?
What effect did it have on the novels he
wrote?
2. From examples given in the lesson
can you account for Cooper's increasing
popularity? When a social or political
evil is apparent, is it better to speak out
against it or to remain silent?
3. How did Cooper regard himself as far
as literature is concerned? Which domi-
nated him, his ideas about American de-
mocracy or his urge to create?
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VOL. 47 OCTOBER 1960 NO. 10
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SPECIAL FEATURES
Temple Square in Salt Lake City — Part I Preston Nibley 640
Faith Pauline L. Jensen 663
FICTION
Three Silver Boxes Mabel Harmer 648
My Third Grandma — Part II — Butcher Knife Ilene H. Kingsbury 664
Orchids in the Snow — Chapter 6 Rosa Lee Lloyd 669
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 638
Sixty Years Ago 654
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 655
Editorial: Let the Daughters of Zion Rejoice Vesta P. Crawford 656
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 675
Birthday Congratulations 708
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Christmas Aprons Shirley Thulin 658
A Strawberry Pincushion Melba Larson 662
Recipes for Autumn Luncheons Florence S. Jacobsen 666
June I. Hunsaker's Hobby: Human Relationships 668
LESSONS FOR JANUARY
Theology — The Law of Consecration Roy W. Doxey 681
Visiting Teacher Message — "Thou Shalt Not Be Idle" Christine H. Robinson 688
Work Meeting — Making the Patient Comfortable Maria Johnson 690
Literature — Natty Bumppo, American Fiction-Hero Briant S. Jacobs 694
Social Science — Expanding Our Religious Horizons — Part III —
Man's Relatedness to the World Blaine M. Porter 700
POETRY
Tentacles of Time — Frontispiece Eva Willes Wangsgaard 637
This Sun-Walled Hour Maude Rubin 647
Solace Iletta D. Reid 652
Afterglow Leslie Savage Clark 653
Thy Word Nancy Wilcox 657
Not Anything Is Lost Mabel Jones Gabbott 657
Small Son Aretta N. Ricks 665
Vase of Autumn Leaves Ida Elaine James 667
Recompense Velda Allphin Neilson 668
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Temple Square in Salt Lake City
BRIEF HISTORY OF ITS GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT
Part I
Preston Nibley
Assistant Church Historian
PRESIDENT Brigham Young,
with a group of Mormon
pioneers, arrived in Salt Lake
Valley on Saturday, July 24, 1847.
The valley presented a desolate ap-
pearance. It is said that the first
women wept because there were no
trees. And yet President Young
said, 'This is the right place. . . .
Here we will stop and here we will
settle."
Evidently, one of the things that
was foremost in President Young's
mind was the selection of a site for
the building of a temple. Two days
after his arrival in the Valley, and
before the city was surveyed, the
following important event took
place, as recorded in the history of
President Young:
This afternoon, accompanied by Elders
H. C. Kimball, Willard Richards, Orson
Pratt, Wilford Woodruff and Thomas
Bullock, I designated the site for the
Temple Block, between the forks of City
Creek, and on motion of Orson Pratt, it
was unanimously voted that the Temple
be built on the site designated (Journal
History, July 26, 1847).
This was the beginning of 'Tem-
ple Square," which today is known
throughout the world.
On July 30, 1847, ^ess tnan a week
after President Young entered Salt
Lake Valley, ". . . he requested the
brethren of the Battalion to turn
out tomorrow, and build a bowery
to hold our meetings in." This
bowery was in the southeast corner
of Temple Square. It consisted
Page 640
only of poles in the ground, on top
of which were placed branches of
trees and willows, brought from the
nearby canyons, to form a shade.
As for seats, we do not know what
provision was made, in this first
bowery, but we have heard that logs
were pulled beneath the shade, on
which the audience could be seated
and make themselves as comfortable
as possible.
This particular bowery must have
been constructed in one day, as
President Young records the follow-
ing in his history under date of Aug-
ust rst, 1847, "At 10 o'clock a.m.
the Saints assembled for meeting
under the Bowery, on the Temple
Lot."
As the saints increased in num-
ber in Salt Lake City, a larger bow-
ery was built in the spring of 1849,
and the April Conference of the
Church was held there. The sides
and the roof of the structure were
strengthened, "so as to keep out a
portion of the weather." At the
opening session, the President ex-
pressed his pleasure at having such
a comfortable place in which to
meet.
"This is the most comfortable
place that I have ever seen for the
Saints to hold their meetings in at
the gathering place," he said at the
opening session. "When I have
been abroad in the world, we have
had splendid halls, but at the gath-
ering place, this is the best"
(Journal Histoi}?, April 6, 1849).
TEMPLE SQUARE IN SALT LAKE CITY
641
Courtesy Church Historian's Office
BREAKING GROUND FOR THE SALT LAKE TEMPLE
February 14, 1853
Flagpole in foreground at right
Then, again, at the October Con-
ference, he expressed his satisfac-
tion with the large bowery. "I feel
happy for this shelter, from the rays
of the sun and the blasts of winter.
My heart is full of joy. I realize
that we ought to bear off the King-
dom to the nations of the earth"
(Ibid.? Oct. 6, 1849).
^HE saints continued to meet in
the bowery until the fall of 1851,
when President Young decided that
the time had come to build a
permanent Tabernacle. This struc-
ture was located in the southwest
corner of the Temple Block. It was
built with adobies and, when com-
pleted, was capable of seating 2,500
people.
In the spring of 1852, it was ready
for use, and the Annual Conference
of the Church convened there.
Again, the President expressed his
pleasure with the improvements the
saints were making, and the com-
modious and comfortable hall:
We have not had much privilege hither-
to of meeting in the valley. Four years
ago, when the brethren came to this
valley, Brother George A. Smith delivered
his first lecture upon the cannon, for
there were no houses wherein the people
could assemble.
Since then they have been greatly
blessed, yet they have had little oppor-
tunity of holding meetings. The first
large place we had to meet in was the
Bowery. We felt comfortable in it, and
I felt as thankful for it as I ever did for
anything in my life. But as quick as the
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falling weather came it drove the Saints
away, and rendered it necessary to discon-
tinue the meetings in that place, and to
hold them in the different wards, so that
it became impossible to get all the people
together.
Now we have a convenient room, the
best hall I ever saw in my life, wherein
the people could be convened on one
floor. ... I trust we shall renew our
strength, meet here to pray and praise
the Lord, and partake of the sacrament,
until our feelings are perfectly pure; for
we arc where we can sit and enjoy the
society of each other, as long as we please,
and there is none to make us afraid
(/. H., April 6, 1852).
It was while the first Tabernacle
was being built, in the winter of
1851-52, that President Young and
the brethren at the head of the
Church, decided that a wall should
be erected around the Temple
Block. The purpose of this wall
was, no doubt, to protect the build-
ings to be erected, and also the tools
and equipment belonging to the
Church and the workmen. The
first work on the wall was done in
February 1852, when some of the
workmen began digging a trench
for the foundation. President
Young had decided that the wall
should be constructed of stone and
adobies; that it should be three feet
wide at the base, two feet wide at
the top, and fifteen feet in height.
Slow progress was made in build-
ing the wall. Three years later, in
May 1855, President Young record-
ed in his history: "The foundation
of the wall around the Temple
Block is nearly completed, which,
when done, will enable us to speed-
ily finish the wall, with the excep-
tion of the gates and iron railing"
(Ibid., May 31, 1855).
The wall was not completed
until 1857.
Courtesy Church Historian's Office
THE OLD TABERNACLE
Built on southwest corner of the Temple Block during the winter of 1851-52.
Made of adobe and set close to the fifteen-foot wall, the building had a seating capacity
of 2500.
TEMPLE SQUARE IN SALT LAKE CITY
643
Courtesy Church Historian's Office
TEMPLE SQUARE ABOUT 1863
Showing the foundation for the Temple at left and pillars for the Tabernacle at
the right. The back of the old Tabernacle may be seen in the upper right-hand corner
of Temple Square.
HPHE year after the erection of
the first Tabernacle, President
Young set a day to break ground
for building the magnificent Salt
Lake Temple. This event took place
on the 14th of February 1853.
"It was as clear and lovely a day
as the sun ever shone on in Salt
Lake City," wrote a reporter in the
Deseret News. About ten a.m. a
large group of Saints assembled on
the Temple Block, and President
Young, standing in a small buggy,
addressed them:
The Lord wished us to gather to this
place. He wished us to cultivate the
earth and make these valleys like the
Garden of Eden, and make all the im-
provements in our power, and build a
Temple as soon as circumstances would
permit.
Seven years ago tomorrow, about 11
o'clock, I crossed the Mississippi River
with my brethren from this place, not
knowing at the time whither we were
going, but firmly believing that the Lord
had in reserve for us a good place in the
mountains, and that he would lead us
directly to it. It is but seven years since
we left Nauvoo, and we are ready to
build another Temple (Ibid., Feb. 14,
1853).
After finishing his address, and
"after a consecrating prayer" by
Heber C. Kimball, President Young
took a spade, and lifted it full of
earth, "and after holding it about
one minute before he could lav it
down, so dense was the crowd,
President Young declared the
ground broken for the Temple,
blessed the people in the name of
the Lord and dismissed the as-
sembly."
It had been a great day for the
saints, but a greater was soon to
come, for on April 6th following,
amidst the most solemn ceremonies,
the cornerstones of the Temple were
laid. Days of preparation had been
devoted to this event, and the heav-
ens again smiled on the assembled
multitude. The Deseret News re-
lates that "April 6, 1853, could not
have dawned a more lovely dav, or
have been more satisfactory to
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Saints or Angels. The distant val-
leys sent forth their inhabitants,
this valley swarmed forth its thou-
sands, and a more glorious sight has
not been seen for generations, than
at Great Salt Lake City, this day."
A T ten o'clock in the forenoon,
President Young called the
multitude to order in the first Taber-
nacle. After a few introductory
remarks by himself, a procession was
formed "at the vestry door," to
march to the southeast corner of the
temple. Following was the order:
1. Martial music; 2. Nauvoo Brass
Band; 3. Ballo's Band; 4. Captain
Pettigrew with Relief Guard; 5.
Singers; 6. First President and
Counselors and aged Patriarch;
7. The Twelve Apostles, First Presi-
dency of Seventies, and presidents
and counselors of the Elders' Quor-
um; 8. President of the High Priests
Quorum and counselors, in connec-
tion with the President of the Stake
and High Council; 9. Presiding
Bishop, with his council, and the
presidents of the lesser Priesthood
and their council; 10. Architects and
workmen, selected for the day, with
banner representing "Zion's Work-
men"; 11. Captain Merrill with Re-
lief Guard in uniform.
Arriving at the southeast corner
of the temple site, "Presidents
Young, Kimball, and Richards, with
Patriarch John Smith, proceeded to
lay the southeast corner stone, and
ascended the top thereof," while
the choir sang a beautiful hymn
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Courtesy Church Historian's Office
CUT STONE PREPARED FOR THE TEMPLE WALLS
Picture taken about 1 868
In the background at the left may be seen the Z.C.M.I. store, and in front of the
store, to the left, is the Council House, the first Church building constructed in the
Valley of the Great Salt Lake. At the right may be seen the south gate of Temple
Square, made of wood.
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645
Courtesy Church Historian's Office
WORKMEN PREPARING GRANITE BLOCKS FOR THE BUILDING
OF THE TEMPLE
Picture taken in Little Cottonwood Canyon, southeast of Salt Lake City, shows
method of stone cutting.
composed for the occasion by Parley
P. Pratt, the first verse of which was
as follows:
Deep in this holy ground
These corner stones are laid,
Rejoicing thousands round
Oh God implore thine aid,
That Zion now may prospered be
And rear a Temple unto thee.
Then, in the midst of this great
and solemn assembly, President
Young spoke in part as follows:
"This morning we have assembled
on one of the most solemn, inter-
esting, joyful and glorious occasions
that ever has transpired, or will
transpire, among the children of
men, while the earth continues in
its present organization and is oc-
cupied for its present purposes. And
I congratulate my brethren and sis-
ters, that it is our unspeakable privi-
lege to stand here this day, and
minister before the Lord, on an
occasion which has caused the
tongues and pens of Prophets to
speak and write for many scores of
centuries which are past.
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"The Church, through our be-
loved Prophet Joseph, was com-
manded to build a Temple to the
Most High in Kirtland, Ohio, and
this was the next house of the Lord
we hear of on the earth, since the
days of Solomon's Temple. Joseph
not only received revelation and
commandment to build a Temple,
but he received a pattern also, as
did Moses for the Tabernacle, and
Solomon for his Temple, for with-
out a pattern he could not know
what was wanted, having never seen
one, and not having experienced its
use. . . .
"At Nauvoo Joseph dedicated an-
other Temple, the third on record.
He knew what was wanting, for he
had previously given most of the
prominent individuals then before
him their endowment. He needed
no revelation then, of a thing he
had long experienced, any more
than those now do, who have ex-
perienced the same things. It is
only where experience fails, that
revelation is needed. . . .
"Of our journey hither we need
say nothing, only, God led us. Of
the sufferings of those who were
compelled to, and did leave Nauvoo
in the winter of 1846, we need say
nothing. Those who experienced it
know it, and those who did not, to
tell them of it would be like exhibit-
ing a beautiful painting to a blind
man. . . .
"We will not stop to tell you of
the sufferings of widows and or-
Courtesy Church Historian's Office
GRANITE BLOCKS BEING LOADED ONTO WAGONS IN LITTLE COTTON-
WOOD CANYON EOR TRANSPORTATION TO TEMPLE SQUARE
TEMPLE SQUARE IN SALT LAKE CITY
647
phans on the Omaha lands, while
their husbands and fathers were tra-
versing the burning plains to the
south, to fight the battles of a coun-
try which had banished them from
civilization, for they secured the land
on which we dwell, from our na-
tion's foes; exposed the gold of
California, and turned the world
upside down. . . .
"While these things were tran-
spiring with the Saints in the wilder-
ness, the Temple at Nauvoo passed
into the hands of the enemy, who
polluted it to that extent that the
Lord not only ceased to occupy it,
but he loathed to have it called by
his name, and permitted the wrath
of its possessors to purify it by fire,
as a token of what will speedily fall
on them and their habitations unless
they speedily repent.
"But what are we here for today?
To celebrate the birthday of our
religion! To lay the foundation of
a Temple to the Most High God,
so that when his Son, our Elder
Brother, shall again appear, he may
have a place where he can lay his
head, and not only spend a night
or a day, but a place of peace where
he may stay until he can say, I am
satisfied.
"We dedicate this, the southeast
cornerstone of this Temple, to the
Most High God. May it remain in
peace until it has done its work,
and until he who has inspired our
hearts to fulfill the prophecies of
his holy prophets, that the House of
the Lord should be reared in the
'tops of the mountains/ shall be
satisfied and say 'it is enough/ '
(Ibid., April 6, 1853).
(To be continued)
C/ms Sun- vU ailed crii
our
Maude Rubin
Though greener green once painted distant pastures
And ocean's pulsing song sang siren rhymes,
Today, my wander-urge, becalmed in brightness
Hears children's laughter, delicate wind-chimes
Above this sun-walled hour . . . Let tides keep calling,
Let gull cries splinter night, no smell of brine
Can drown this rose-drenched air — for, oh, my darling,
I've found my land at last, your home and mine!
Three Silver Boxes
Mabel Harmer
T
HE dusk had barely furnished
Laurie with an excuse for
turning on the Christmas
tree lights when she heard Mark
broad-jumping down the stairs. She
counted five landings and sighed
with relief. He had reached the bot-
tom safely.
"Anchors aweigh!" he shouted.
"The last one out to the good ship
Chevie has to swim over." He
walked into the living room and
looked at his mother in disgust.
"Whatsa matter? Aren't you ready
yet? All the best chow will be
gone."
"If the food is all you're thinking
about we won't go at all," said
Laurie sharply. She was instantly
sorry. Of course food was a boy's
first thought. Especially when it
was served as lavishly as at his
aunt's home. You don't have to
take it out on Mark because you are
tense and worried, she reminded
herself severely.
She walked over and straightened
his tie. "We'll go as soon as Daddy
is ready."
Mark raced upstairs again, calling,
"It's twelve bells, Captain! Time
to cruise."
Laurie picked up one of the three
small silver-wrapped boxes. "I can't
do it," she muttered. "I simply
can't. It will be far better not to
give them anything at all." She
put the box down and hurried up-
stairs. Suddenly she had an idea.
"Let's not go," Laurie said to
Vance, sitting on the bed with Ted-
dy.
"Not go!" Vance echoed in
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amazement. "You must be crazy.
What would Mona think?"
"I don't know and I don't care.
I simply can't go and leave a dinky
little box in return for all they give
us. If they want to bring us gifts
this year, they can come here and
do it."
"Listen, Annie Laurie." Vance
came over and put his arms around
her from behind. "You know how
the kids enjoy this jamboree.
Aren't you sort of penalizing them
for our set-up? Anyway, those boxes
contain some mighty keen gifts, to
my way of thinking." He gave her
a slight push. "Get on your minks
and let's be on our way."
T AURIE brought out her old
muskrat coat and went into the
next room where Jennifer was wrap-
ping a blanket around her doll. "Are
you taking Rosie with you?" she
asked.
"No, I'm getting her ready for
Santa to take."
"But Santa doesn't want your old
dolly, dear. He is bringing you a
new one."
"And I can keep Rosie, too?"
"Of course, chickie. Did we have
to give Teddy away when we got
you?"
"No, but. . . ." clearly Jennifer
thought it might not have been a
bad idea.
"Put Rosie back in her bed and
come along," said Laurie quickly.
"Daddy and the boys are waiting."
They reached the hallway in time
to hear Mark say, "I'm glad that the
party is at Aunt Mona's this year.
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649
She always has the best chow."
"That's hardly the true Christian
spirit, Barnacle Bill," reproved
Vance.
Teddy helped out by adding,
"I'm glad that we don't have to go
to Aunt Elise's house. They don't
have fun. I think that some day
Uncle Greg will. . . ."
"Oh, but it will be all right to-
day," Laurie broke in quickly. "It's
Christmas, remember? Go on and
get in the car."
They rushed out and she walked
over to the table. She stood star-
ing at the three boxes. It was now
or never. No, not necessarily. She
could slip them into her bag and
there they could remain — if she
so decided.
As she went out to the car Mark
asked, "Where're all the presents?"
"I have them. Don't worry," she
replied.
"They are already in the trunk, of
course," said Teddy with a superior
air. "Let's count the trees in the
windows and see who can get the
most on his side."
They pressed their noses against
the glass and Laurie sank back,
grateful for the half hour's grace she
would have before they reached
Mona's house.
She thought back to the day
when all this present giving worry
had started. She had been baking
fruit cakes and they had turned out
absolutely perfect. At six o'clock
she decided, exactly the right time
to broil the steaks, that is, if Van
caught the 5:40 bus.
By six thirty he had still not come.
He would be late when I have
steaks, she thought impatiently.
And it's been ages since I dared
afford them.
QJHE was about to call the children
to eat without Vance when she
saw him coming up the walk. His
lagging steps had showed that he
was dead tired. What was worse,
he was carrying a brief case. He had
brought home some work.
She had tucked away her resent-
ment as she met him at the door.
"Hi, Snowman," she had said, tak-
ing his hat to shake off the flakes.
"Fe, fii, fo, fum, I smell. . . ."
"Fruit cake and overdone steaks.
Come quickly."
In a record ten minutes she had
had them all seated at the table.
We're really an awfully nice family,
Laurie had thought smugly. Her
glance took in the three children
and then had strayed to Vance. He
had taken the smallest piece of meat
and seemed undecided whether or
not to eat that.
It's that ulcer again, she thought
with a feeling of panic. And he
brings home more work from the
office. Won't he ever learn!
She could hardly wait to get
the children off to bed after dinner.
By the time she had finished the
dishes she found Vance seated at
the dining-room table, a set of books
spread out before him. "And what
have we here?" she asked.
"Just a small bookkeeping job
that I took over. It pays fifty dol-
lars a month. With Christmas
coming up I thought we could use
the extra money. In fact, I know
blamed well we can."
"And I can use a well husband,"
Laurie had countered. "You've
been having trouble with your stom-
ach again, haven't you? That's why
you didn't want to eat that meat
tonight."
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"Oh, a little," he shrugged. "It's
nothing to worry about."
"It's plenty to worry about and
I won't have it. You can shut up
those books right now."
"I expect you get that determina-
tion from your Scotch grandmother,
along with your red hair." Vance
had half smiled at her.
"Don't try to distract me," Laurie
retorted seriously. "We don't need
money for Christmas badly enough
to ruin your health getting it. I've
made out a list. I can get by on a
hundred dollars."
"Good. And I can get the hun-
dred by taking this job, and that's
the only way I can get it. Between
the money I spent on the car and
the bill for Mark's tonsils I couldn't
scare up more than twenty-five."
"Then we'll get by on twenty-
five," Laurie had asserted deter-
minedly.
"But how? We can't possibly cut
down on the kids. Then there's my
family. I was going to say, thank
goodness you haven't any, but I
stopped myself in time."
"As I noticed," she grinned. "And
it's just because I don't have any
other family that I'm determined to
hang on to the one I've got. I'll
have something worked out by to-
morrow night. I promise."
"You won't rob a bank or start
selling vacuum cleaners?"
"Cross my heart."
"Okay, it's a deal."
AFTER they had gone to bed,
Laurie had started thinking how
she was going to stretch twenty-five
dollars to do the work of a hundred.
Van's sisters were the big problem.
There was Mona, who already had
almost everything that money could
buy. Then there was Elise. She
and Greg apparently tried to outdo
each other in giving gifts to their
own particular families, and Althea,
the widow, was another hard one.
Her small apartment was crammed
with the what-nots her big house
had once held.
Many wild plans raced through
her head, none of them practical.
Finally she decided, there's no use
in my getting ulcers in place of Van.
Maybe some bright idea will hit my
subconscious before morning.
None did, but as she was glancing
through the newspaper the next
morning she saw a second-hand sled
advertised for two dollars. Wonder-
ful! Van could put on fresh paint
and it would probably look like new.
With luck she could get most of
the children's toys the same way.
A call from Mona gave her the
next idea. "I'm having a small
luncheon tomorrow, darling. Could
you be persuaded to make one of
those heavenly rolled cakes with the
custard filling?"
"Gladly," answered Laurie. "I'll
have it ready this afternoon."
Here was the perfect answer for
Mona. She could make out twelve
cards, each one redeemable for a
custard-filled cake. And, if cake-
baking solved that problem, there
might be something in the way of
service she could do for the other
two.
Of course there was. Althea was
alone so much of the time, and her
eyes were too poor for any great
amount of reading. A promise of
just one hour a week would give
her a big lift.
As for Elise, there was so much
that she needed, with the misunder-
standings in her home life. I might
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651
offer to take the boys while she goes
on a vacation, Laurie decided.
Her heart felt lighter than it had
for days. Why, it's actually going
to be fun to have a twenty-five dol-
lar Christmas, she told herself in
surprise.
Jennifer's doll was the only toy
she purchased new. She managed to
get everything for the boys second-
hand, and ended up with two dol-
lars to spend for Vance. She
bought a cute monkey that did
tricks on a trapeze, which would cre-
ate fun in the family.
A FTER Laurie's first flush of
pleasure at the idea of gifts of
service, she began to have grave
doubts. More than once she was
tempted to say, "Please don't give
us expensive gifts this year." But
she couldn't bring herself to do it.
How did one go about saying,
"We're expecting elaborate gifts,
but please don't bother."
And now it was Christmas Eve,
and she had arrived at Mona's house
with three small boxes whose only
glory was in their silver wrappings.
They found the rooms bursting
with friends and relatives. Jovial
Uncle Chris was in the dining room
ladling out hot punch from behind
a table covered with holiday good-
ies. Mark and Teddy immediately
wiggled through to the front ranks.
Jennifer sat down to worship* in
front of the huge Christmas tree
with its pile of gaily wrapped gifts
underneath. Laurie greeted a few
friends and then went out to see
that her young sons stayed some-
where within the limits of propriety.
She met Elise on the way.
"No need to ask the whereabouts
of Mike and Tim," she commented.
"Not with all that food on the table.
Is your husband in there also?"
"Greg? No. He isn't celebrating
with us today," answered Elise. "He
stayed at the office. He wants to
leave for Chicago tomorrow after-
noon. He'll be gone a week. That
means I'm stuck home all alone for
the holidays."
Laurie slipped an arm through
that of her sister-in-law. "Take it
easy," she smiled. "Maybe the
Christmas Spirit will bring you both
a change of heart. Let's go in and
get something to eat before our sons
lay the board waste."
A couple of hours and many cakes
later, Vance said, "I think we'd bet-
ter take off. Let's have a bit of
peace at home for the rest of the
evening."
"All right," Laurie agreed reluc-
tantly. She walked over and stood
by the tree. Beneath was a pile of
gifts of such elegance that the wrap-
pings alone had probably cost more
than her entire Christmas. "I can't
do it," she told herself with finality.
"I simply can't. Nothing at all
would be better than this silly make-
shift."
She turned resolutely away, re-
lieved that the decision had finally
been made. Halfway to the door
she met Elise and asked, "Shall we
drop in at your house?"
"No, sorry, but I'm not going
home. Not until I have to," she
replied through tight lips.
She looked so desperately unhap-
py that Laurie had to do something.
Impulsively she opened her bag and
drew out a box. "This is our gift
to you," she said. "There isn't
much to it — except our love."
"Thank you," said Elise simply.
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Laurie turned back to the tree,
dropped the box with Mona's name
on it and fled out to the car.
Chris followed with an armload
of packages. "I picked yours out
myself," he confided to Teddy.
Althea came panting after him.
"Drop me off at the apartment, will
you please? Then you can pick up
vour sifts at the same time."
When they stopped, Vance
helped his sister out of the car, then
held out his hand for the last of the
silver boxes.
After they were home again with
the children settled for the night,
Laurie asked, "Isn't it strange? For
once I don't envy any of your sis-
ters the least bit. And I ought to
be practically green."
"Not so strange," replied Vance.
"You have all the things that really
count, including. . . ."
"You. I know. Scoot over to the
neighbors and get the toys. Those
scalawags will be up again before
the crack of dawn."
/^HRISTMAS morning was as gay
as any they had ever known.
The children were delighted with
their toys and were sure that their
dad's monkey was the best gift he
had ever received.
Althea called just after breakfast.
"Laurie, dear, are you sure that you
would be willing to spend an hour
with me every week? I just can't
believe it!" Her voice was that of
a child who had just been given the
moon.
"Of course I'm sure," answered
Laurie over the lump in her throat.
She hadn't realized how terribly
lonely Althea had been. "We'll start
any day you say."
It was almost noon, and she had
just finished stuffing a very small
turkey, when Elise called. "Did you
mean what you said about taking
the boys?" Her voice was short,
almost breathless.
"Why, of course I meant it. Any
time you like."
"Today?"
Laurie laughed. "Certainly today,
if you wish."
"I've decided to go with Greg on
this trip, if he'll take me. Maybe
if we have a week, we can start to
work things out. I couldn't ask
anyone else to take them on Christ-
mas Day. I wouldn't have dreamed
of asking you, except. . . ."
"Bring them along," Laurie broke
in. "We'll love to have them for
a week or as long as you want. And
good luck, darling."
"Thanks. I'm going to do my
best. And if things go better, it
may be because of you. . . ."
"And a twenty-five dollar Christ-
mas," added Laurie gaily.
She went back to the turkey and
put it into the roasting pan. It
seemed to have grown. It really
looked quite nice and plump. She
was sure there would be plenty for
seven.
Solace
Uetta D. Reid
Mother Nature washed the parched earth, last night,
With a heaven-sent healing rain.
My tears washed the bitterness from my soul.
I, too, have found peace again.
Josef Muench
LAKE COEUR D'ALENE, IDAHO
K/Lftergu
ow
Leslie Savage Clark
Oh, cup your hands around this hour
To hold its candle glow
Of quietness — this fragrant dusk,
With a young moon hanging low.
Where, traced against its silver arc,
Are hushed and homing wings
That seek the brushwood thicket where
A cricket sings.
Oh, hold it close, this hour we share,
So soon it disappears,
And yet, its halo long shall fall
Across the years.
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Sixty Ljears ^yigo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, October 1, and October 15, 1900
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
of All Nations"
CURRENT EVENTS: In South Africa the Boer situation continues to be a
vexed question. Kruger is still defiant and declares that the war will last a long time
yet. . . . There can be no doubt but that England will be victorious in the end. The
assassination of King Humbert of Italy by an anarchist, is one of the sad events of
the month. His son, Victor Emanuel III, in order to avoid riots and disorder, im-
mediately ascended the throne. . . . The Paris Exposition still continues to draw
large crowds, as many as half a million were reported to be in attendance in one
day. . . . The campaign for the election of a president of the United States, and also
local officers, has just commenced. . . .
—Ella W. Hyde
THE DOMESTIC SCIENCE CLASS: One of the necessities of all cities, and
especiallv Salt Lake, is a School of Domestic Science . . . for these young girls who
are growing up and know not "when the hour cometh" that they may be called upon
to preside in the kitchen. . . . This school of ours was held in the Normal school
building of the University and was a success and exceeded our most sanguine expecta-
tions. It was started without a cent of money but with the proverbial generosity of
the Salt Lake people a stove, dishes, cooking utensils, etc. were donated. . . . The
cooking department was presided over by Miss Emily Cannon, a graduate of the Boston
School of Cooking. The art of housewifery was taught by Miss Edna May Davis, a
thoroughly competent instructress. In the sewing room Miss Mary S. Smith, a
graduate of the Pratt Institute, N. Y., taught the girls the different stitches, hemming,
felling, patching, darning, etc., and impressed upon them that "a stitch in time saves
nine."
— News Note— L. M. R.
ACROSS THE YEARS
Across the years I hear your loving voice,
Urging me always to some higher aim,
When I have won I know that you rejoice;
When I have failed you grieve but do not blame.
If in my humble way some good I do,
I owe it to those other years and you.
— Jennie Noonan Wheless
RELIEF SOCIETY IN BANNOCK STAKE (IDAHO): The Stake presidency of
the Relief Society of Bannock Stake, President Mary A. Call, Counselors Sarah M. Call
and Rosa B. Knowles, and Secretary Hannah C. Hatch, have made their annual visit
through the Stake, their starting point being the Lund Ward. . . . The next two
wards visited were Thatcher and Cleveland. . . . We held meetings in both wards and
gave some good instructions to the attending sisters. . . . The next place visited was
Trout Creek where we lunched with President Mary Jensen, then held meeting. . . .
The next place was Grace. We traveled late to get there, in wind and dust. Soda
Springs was the next place visited, where we enjoyed the delightful soda water . . . we
had a good meeting. . . . The last meeting was held at Chesterfield. . . . The Stake
presidency gave some good instructions . . . and thought the sisters were doing a good
work in this part of the Lord's vineyard.
— Hannah C. Hatch, Sec.
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
rpHE Honorable Masa (Mrs. Fu-
kuzo) Nakayama was named
Japanese Minister of Welfare in
ceremonies at the Imperial Palace,
July 19, installing the new Prime
Minister Hayato Ikeda and his
cabinet. Mrs. Nakayama is a gradu-
ate of Ohio Wesleyan University,
Delaware, Ohio, and a member of
the Japanese branch of UNESCO.
Her hobby is flower arrangements,
and she has the honorary title of
Graduate Flower Arranger. She has
an honorary American degree of
Doctor of Laws, and is indeed well
fitted to become Japan's first woman
cabinet minister. Mrs. Nakayama
is sixty-nine years old.
RUTH ADDISON is the first-
woman to achieve the equiva-
lent of deputy minister's rank in the
Canadian government. She is one
of three Civil Service Commission-
ers who formulate and direct the
policies pertaining to 140,000 gov-
ernment employees. Her colleagues
say that "she is effective, but every
inch a lady."
2^ARA SABIN, Bountiful, Utah, a
contributor to The Relief So-
ciety Magazine, has collected a large
number of her poems into a volume
entitled "So Near My Heart,"
recently published by Bookcraft,
Salt Lake City, Utah.
A/TRS. VICTOR (JUNE SLAT-
11 ER) DEATHERAGE of Og-
den, Utah, engages in the very
unusual occupation of making
minutely accurate drawings of top-
secret United States missiles, some
of which are moon-bound.
A/TRS. ANN WHITMAN has one
of the most demanding secre-
tarial jobs in the world. She is
President Eisenhower's personal sec-
retary and travels with him on nearly
all of his official trips. Telephone
calls for the President come to Mrs.
Whitman first, and she takes the
President's dictation of letters,
speeches, and memoranda, as well as
drafting letters for him to sign.
JUDGE FLORENCE E. ALLEN,
formerlv of Salt Lake City,
Utah, addressed the graduating class
of the University of Utah in Aug-
ust. Miss Allen was the first woman
to become a judge of a United
States Federal Court. In the 1920's
she was elected to two terms as a
member of the Ohio Supreme
Court. Only a year ago she retired
as senior judge of the United States
Court of Appeals for the sixth cir-
cuit, including Michigan, Ohio,
Kentucky, and Tennessee. Judge
Allen holds honorary degrees from
twenty-three American colleges and
universities.
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 47
OCTOBER 1960
NO. 10
JLet the 'Juaughters of doton Lriejotce
Let Mount Zion rejoice, let the daughters ... be glad because of thy judgments.
Walk about Zion and go round about her: tell the towers thereof. Mark ye well her
bulwarks, consider her palaces; that ye may tell it to the generation following (Psalm
48:11-13).
precious and needful, a time of
preparation for the winter, wherein
there will be no harvest. And yet
the winter holds close the family
and friends, and all the people of
the earth should be held together
in their common need and common
compassion. Beautifully the spring
breaks for women in sunlight
through the windows, on early blos-
soms in the garden, in the sound of
a broom upon the walk. How
brief, then, the summer seems,
turning to the yellow leaf.
To thousands of women in the
wide lands of the earth, there comes
again with October, a great rejoic-
ing. To others it comes at the
beginning of the year when once
more the sisters meet in frequent
and ordered companionship to re-
joice in their privileges and enlarge
their compassion, to train their
minds, and uplift their souls. To
many of the sisterhood, it seems
that Relief Society may be likened
to a sheaf of wheat wherein are
bound the facets of a woman's life,
bound in strength and beauty, where-
in the rich reaping of the past is
bound and united with seed for fu-
ture generations. The gospel in its
fulness and the Relief Society pat-
tern have been given to women for a
blessing and for their exaltation. The
Relief Society sheaf has taken the
[T is a cause for continued rejoic-
ing that in all ages and under all
conditions, women have been given
the blessing of compassionate serv-
ice, and the responsibility of direct-
ing from the home the pathways of
the children of earth. Into the
keeping of women have been given
the desire and the means for devel-
oping much comfort and order with-
in the wide spheres of their influence.
Unlimited and forever beckoning to
greater fulfillment, is the wide and
wonderful world of womanhood.
From the small but glorious king-
dom of the home, where a woman's
heart and hands make the pattern,
her beliefs and her spiritual strength
go forth with her children into all
the world.
Even a small girl child realizes
her own femininity and seems to
know instinctively the purposes of
her life. It is an instruction to see
a little girl occupied with the duties
of dolls and carriages, with pans and
plates, with brooms and tables and
chairs, with flowers in a vase.
How much of joy we have for
the taking in the turning of the
seasons, the autumn that is now
upon us in the northern lands,
while springtime casts its greenery
over the earth for our sisters in the
south. Autumn is a time of garner-
ing, of gathering in that which is
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intellectual, the spiritual, the social,
and the compassionate yearnings of
womanhood and has bound them
together in such a sheaf of strength
and beauty that everywhere, in every
condition, the daughters of Zion
may rejoice. From each separate
home, and from those kingdoms of
home, united in Relief Society and
blessed by its precepts and practices,
the sisters may lend their hands
and their hearts to shaping the en-
vironment for their families and
communities.
Let us approach our duties and
our responsibilities joyfully, wel-
come our privileges, and be grateful
for precept and pattern. By this
path of faith and sisterhood, by this
high road of devotion and deeds,
the women of Zion, and "the wom-
en of all nations" may lend their
hands and hearts to building a fit-
ting home for those spirits who are
given earth life by the Lord, and
who must be returned to him.
-V. P. C
cJht{ Vi/ord
Nancy Wilcox
Wondering still and seeking still,
I sought a quiet nook
Wherein to rest and contemplate
Thy wondrous work — thy Book
Of well-loved passages to read.
Weak was my vision, Lord,
Blinded by fog of fearfulness:
Bright beacon of thy word
Lent me light — serenity,
With patience to endure
Shattered illusions, knowing this —
Thy judgments still are sure.
I lot iSt-ny thing o/s JLost
Mabel Jones Gabbott
Because it rained through all September, day
After day, we murmured, being wont to cling
To warmth and sun; and we were heard to say
"So cold, so soon? This is a cruel thing."
October's gold burns brighter where the rain
Made fresh the grass, or pricked the valley floor
With green. Against a spring-like earth, leaves deign
To fall; their reds and browns and yellows more
Intense, flagrant before the early frost.
Why did we question? Not anything is lost.
Chr
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Shirley Timlin
ANYONE would love to be
tied to these apron strings!
These new aprons are so re-
freshingly smart they are bound to
make any housewife feel like a
gracious hostess. You'll want to
start sewing in plenty of time to
make an apron for every lady on
your gift list — from the sweet little
grandmother down the street, to
the engaged daughter of your best
friend. And don't forget to make
several for your own wardrobe, too.
Apron number one is a half
apron and is made from one yard
of gay, large-checked gingham.
Blue and white with black cross-
stitching, is an attractive color com-
bination, however you could choose
your own colors. This apron boasts
an optical illusion, because the black
double cross-stitches on the white
squares and the white double cross-
APRON NO. i
A half apron made of blue and white
checked gingham with cross-stitching on
the white squares. See diagram below for
the pattern of the cross-stitching.
stitches on the white squares, seem
to change the color of the fabric.
The whole border is outlined in
black outline stitch to complete a
sort of appliqued look.
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CHRISTMAS APRONS
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The double cross-stitch is used
rather than the single because it
covers more of the square, blocking
out the white almost completely.
It is made by first making a regular
cross-stitch the same size as the
square, then making a stitch ver-
tically through the center of the
single cross-stitch. Then make a
tiny stitch right in the center of
the cross, to hold all in place.
The border design runs across the
front of the apron just above the
deep hem, and is repeated on the
two pockets and across the band.
This apron is flattering to the figure
because, instead of being gathered
on to the band, it has four tiny box
pleats on each side.
a big
A PRON number two is
cover-the-front style which
conjures up the fragrance of sugar
and spice just to look at it. This
APRON NO. 2
A large, cover-the-front apron with two
pockets, a scalloped bib, and scallops
around the bottom.
is a practical apron, which fits both
a large or a small figure, and yet
dainty, with its scallops along the
bib, extending clown the front, and
ending with a pocket. Pick a perky
print with bias tape trim the shade
of the predominant color.
A PRON number three is a half
apron and is the sophisticated
member of this apron family. The
outstanding features of this apron
are the deep box pleat right in the
center, and the huge pouch pocket
with two side openings. Choose a
bold print with a dark colored back-
ground and trim it with a plain color
the same shade as the print back-
ground color. The apron pictured
is of deep red printed with gold
figures and a plain red trim.
First, cut a piece of the plain fab-
ric 18 inches for the length of the
apron, and 26 inches at the waist,
gradually sloping out to 36 inches at
the bottom of the apron, rounding
the bottom corners. Now cut a
piece of the printed fabric 1 5 inches
for the length and 21 at the waist
edge and 25 inches at the bottom
edge. Baste a matching bias tape
all around the print piece, except
across where the band will be
stitched. Now machine stitch this
bias tape 6V2 inches from the top
edge toward the hem edge on both
sides. This makes the binding for
the edges of the pockets. Now pin
the print piece on the plain piece,
putting the top edges even, and
centering the other edges. This
makes a plain colored border all
around three sides of the printed
piece. Machine stitch along the
basting on the bias tape, beginning
where you left off 6V2 inches down
on one side and ending where you
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— OCTOBER 1960
APRON NO. 3
A half apron with a deep box pleat in
the center and a large pouch pocket with
two openings.
left off 6V2 inches down on the
other side. Note how this makes a
huge pocket with two openings, all
bound with an uninterrupted line
of bias tape. Now bind the outside
edges of the plain piece with the
same matching bias tape. Leave the
top edge unbound. Make a band
of the plain color 18 inches long
and 5 inches wide. (It will be 2%
inches wide when finished, as it will
be doubled.) Pin the band to the
apron, making a big box pleat right
in the center of the apron, using up
all the slack material until it fits the
18-inch band. Machine stitch band.
Now make ties of the printed
fabric and stitch them in place.
A PRON number four has the flav-
or of the Alps, and is made of a
pastel denim with a profusion of
colorful trimming marching across
the bib and the bottom of the
apron. This apron would require a
zigzag sewing machine or attach-
ment, as strips of single fold bias
are zig-zagged across between fac-
tory made braid. To add even more
decoration, pastel baby rickrack is
sewed on in strips of three, along
with the braid and bias tape.
The straps, which start at the
waistband, are sewed to the bib and
then extend about 45 inches beyond
the bib. These long straps cross in
back near the shoulders and are
threaded through loops at the waist-
band and tied at the middle waist in
the back, thus enabling this apron to
be adjusted to size. Whether you are
long or short waisted, you will feel
comfortable in this one. This apron
is not gathered onto the band, but
has three pleats on each side. It has
one pocket trimmed with a row of
bias and zigzag.
^HE fifth apron is as refreshing as
a dish of orange sherbet. It is
made from a little over a yard of
orange and white checked gingham.
It is also a half apron with the apron
pleated instead of gathered to the
APRON NO. 4
An Alpine bib apron made of pastel-
colored denim, and trimmed with bias
strips rickrack, and braid.
CHRISTMAS APRONS
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APRON NO. 5
A half apron made of checked gingham,
pleated at the waistband. The cross-
stitches are made of the same color as the
dark check in the gingham.
band. Use orange thread for the
cross-stitches in the squares. All of
the crosses are tiny because the
checks are very small. One row of
large double cross-stitches adds va-
riety across the bottom near the
large hem, along with the repeated
pattern.
There is a single row of tiny cross-
stitches all around the two pockets
as well as the corresponding design
across the top, also across the band.
This apron would look well if done
in lime green or orchid, just be sure
to use a shade of thread to match
the color of the checks in the mak-
ing of the crosses.
A PRON number six in our selec-
tion is pretty enough to go to a
wedding. In fact, it looks like the
icing on the wedding cake. It is
made of white nylon dotted Swiss
and just a swish in some suds is
all it takes when soiled. No ironing.
This apron is made of three full
circles, graduated in size to give a
APRON NO. 6
A party apron made of nylon dotted
Swiss and cut in three circles of graduated
sizes.
three-tiered ruffled effect. Make a
paper pattern of all three circles
first, the biggest one being 36
inches in circumference, with an
8-inch hole cut out of the center
for a waistline. The second tier is
a 28-inch circle with the 8-inch
center circle, and the smallest tier
is an 18-inch circle, also with an
8-inch center circle for the waistline.
Cut each circle from one edge to
the center along the diameter and
round the two bottom corners on
each circle.
Cut the fabric from these three
paper patterns. Stitch lace around
the outside edge or make a small
rolled hem. Now stitch a narrow
band about 23 inches long. (The 8-
inch center circle is about 23 inches
long when it is straightened out.)
Stitch, but do not gather or pleat,
all three circles to the band, plac-
ing the two smaller circles upon the
largest one. The apron is so full
that it gives a ruffled effect. Now
make generous ties and stitch in
place. This apron has no pocket.
k/L Strawberry [Pincushion
Melba Larson
Materials Needed (for 6 pincushions) :
one-third yard red velveteen (for six
strawberries )
one-sixth yard green velveteen (for
six tops)
glue
To make the strawberries, place the pat-
tern on the bias of material. Pattern
should measure eleven inches from point
to point and six inches across the middle.
Cut out the red berry, fold double, seam,
and turn. Stuff the berry with sawdust,
and gather at the top.
For the top of the berry, cut out an
eight-point star from the green velvet.
The star should measure five and a half
inches from the tip of one point to the
tip of the opposite point.
A folded piece of green velvet may be
used for a stem. Sew this stem to the
gathered top of the berry. Slip the stem
through the hole on the top of the berry.
Glue the berry top to the berry. Add
white beads to the red part of the berry.
PATTERN FOR TOP OF
STRAWBERRY PINCUSHION
The top is cut (single) from green vel-
veteen in the shape of an eight-point star,
measuring 5% inches from the tip of one
point to the tip of the opposite point.
PATTERN FOR STRAWBERRY
(at left)
The strawberry is cut single on the
bias from red velveteen and measures 11
inches from point to point and 6 inches
across the widest part of the berry. It
is folded in the middle along the 6 inch
diameter, then seamed on one side and
gathered at the top.
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cfatth
Pauline L. Jensen
I tore a page from the calendar the other day, and noted how short was the time until
■■■ spring would be here. There was nothing outside that remotely suggested its near-
ness. There was snow on the ground, and the trees were bare, and I had a nostalgic
remembrance of other springs, in faraway places. One stood out in my memory above
all others, and my thoughts traveled back nine years, and six hundred miles, and I was
once more in suburban St. Louis, Missouri.
Even now I recall in detail that scene, and each word. I saw my husband's face,
pale, and lined, and I heard his voice saying, "This transfer is something I've
wanted for years. It is what I have striven and worked for. I know that my health
is poor, and the risk we are taking is great. But, somehow, I truly believe that this
change is just what I need. I believe it is meant that we go, and that my health will
improve there, and things will be better. We have to believe that! We have to have
faith!"
I looked out of the window at the bright green grass and the golden forsythia,
and I thought I had never seen spring any lovelier. From his perch in the maple
tree I heard the cardinal sing to his mate, and I saw the dip and flash of a bluebird's
wings. I knew that in just a few weeks the air would be filled with the fragrance of
roses and waxen magnolias. And I wondered what spring would be like in that far
northern city, and how it could possibly be spring anywhere without bluebirds and
cardinals, magnolias and forsythia.
And I wondered how I could say to my husband, "You're a sick man, far more
so than you realize, and the doctors can't seem to find what is wrong. You aren't well
enough to take on additional responsibility, and although you want it so much, the
chance we take in this move is too great. Here, we have roots and home and friends
and a measure of solid security. The children are happy, and their ties are many.
If we go to a strange place, we have no assurance that such a change will be for the
better. What if your health doesn't improve? Suppose that we go among strangers
and something should happen?"
Then I looked at the face of my husband, and saw the desperate plea in his eyes,
and I knew that I wouldn't say any of those things. I knew that we'd go to that
northern city, and I knew we would need every ounce of faith we could muster!
And faith was our handmaiden through all of the days that followed as, one by
one, we relinquished the bounds of security. The home that we loved became just a
house; the college scholarship, insuring our child's education, went back to be claimed
by another. Each precious thing that had filled our days was abandoned. The friends
that had meant so much were bidden goodbye, and all that was left to sustain us was
faith!
Now it is nine short years since we came to this city of lakes and trees and
beautiful homes. I look out of the window and see not green grass and golden for-
sythia, but softly falling snow that has hidden and muted everything ugly. And I hear
not the cardinal's song, but the raucous cries of a bluejay. And instead of magnolias,
I think of the white sails on Lake Calhoun, and sunset on Lake Minnetonka, of the
moon shining down on the Lake of the Isles, and the beautiful trees that border the
parkways. And I think of all of the wonderful people we now call friends.
I look at the glowing face of my husband, and hear his firm step and his confident
voice. I think of all of the joyous things that this move has brought, and I know in
my heart what a wondrous gift is the power of faith!
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Illy cJhird (grandma
Part II — Butcher Knife
Jlene H. Kingsbury
WE were children of eight and white people in just that tone we
hungry. We stood about shivered. We also took another
Grandma Morgan's kitchen look at her skin. Yes, it wasn't
and edged to the small, squat cabi- exactly like our own. It had a sort
net she called a valet, and we looked 0f golden, burned, and leathery look
longingly at three loaves of hot such as one sees on finely tooled
bread. Just to smell them was a handbags of the lighter Palomino
challenge in self-control. When shades Up to that time we had
she wasn t looking we ran our hands confused the name Jndian Wlth
over the dome of crust, and in Jndia and ed that she was a
enough attempts would manage, N .Q who had been stden Qr
quite accidentally, to break oft a , -, \ c .L-ii. at l
M , -, u- .i i r traded for a trinket. Most of our
cruncny layer as big as the palm ot . , , ,
the hand and hope it wouldn't be ParentS. ™\ certamly under that
missed from the loaf. Before we ;mPression> but onlY because they
knew it, there were crumbs at the heTsltated to pry, as they called it.
corners of our mouths, and our looks Ir\ our community there were a
of marked innocence were replaced number of squaws who lived in the
by those of complete satisfaction. homes of the whltes and were called
At this point in the game, for Aunt or Grandma. We knew of at
she played along with us if we per- least one of them who had been
sisted long enough, Grandma would stolen as a child, taken to Old Mex-
push us aside and approach the ico as a slave, brought back north
bread with quiet resolution. This again on mule back, and traded off
was her move of defeat. She no for a fat, young steer. But that
longer resolved to save all three Navajo ex-slave girl didn't look
loaves for a regular meal. exactly like Grandma Morgan. True,
From the center drawer of the their eyes were jet black, and looked
valet she claimed the most amazing all-yearning. Their hair remained
butcher knife in all Beaver County, black and straight to fragile old age,
It was long and slim and curved at and their complexions were dark
the last third toward the tip, and its and oily and brownish. But each
handle was of carved ivory. Odd came from ancient heritages on op-
designs of intertwined vines graced posite sides of the earth. Only by
the hilt, along with a sort of motto the most extreme circumstances
in a long-forgotten and ancient were they ever to meet or speak a
language. We were afraid of this communal language or be called
knife, for we knew it wasn't meant sister by their religious fellows. In
for carving up bread. fact, it was this peculiar religious
Once, out under the cherry tree, heritage that was, in a measure, re-
Grandma had told us that her father sponsible for multiple races living
had used it in a war in India against in a desert settlement in North
white people. Whenever she said America.
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MY THIRD GRANDMA
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guess it was the butcher knife
that was the constant reminder
of the heritage of Grandma Morgan,
formerly of India right around the
world. Its like has only been found
in the Smithsonian Institute in a
wing dedicated to India, Burma,
and Hindustan. We were a little
afraid of that knife, with its point
so fine one could have written a let-
ter with it. And we early under-
stood that no one, except Grandma,
yes, no one on earth, could use it
for any purpose whatsoever. After
all, hadn't this little creature carried
it all the way around the world
wrapped in a piece of coral silk?
And wasn't it her father's father's
father's?
Her use of that sword, for that
it was, was as startling as its appear-
ance. She tested the new bread
for temperature, and then tucked
the loaf under her arm high above
the waist. The bent arm sort of
balanced the loaf and her fingers
steadied it. Then she picked up
the sabre and began to swipe it
through the air, first into a pat of
homemade butter and then swiftly
back and forth across the butt end
of the loaf. Only a hummingbird
with its sword bill longer than its
body could move faster than that
historical weapon.
After this thorough buttering, she
tackled the loaf, still held under her
arm, with a sawing motion of the
knife. As the slice almost slid to
the floor, she gracefully bent toward
the valet and let it fall, face up,
on a little plate. Generally we were
allowed to have the first pieces, de-
pending on whether we were girls
or the littlest. You will note that
various ages and sexes had smelled
that baking wonder from far down
in the lot. We lined up, feeling
starved to death at the mere whiff
of golden crust. Needless to say,
we ruined at least one loaf for con-
sumption at a regular meal, whether
it was the usual bread and milk sup-
per or the hot dinner at noon when
the farm hands had their big meal
of the day.
The more we ate, the smaller our
appetites became, until at last we
just sighed our gratitude. At that
moment, then, Grandma wiped off
the blade of this weapon of her de-
parted forebears and reverently laid
it in its shallow place, motto side up.
The elaborately carved words could
be easily read, if one knew a lan-
guage thousands of years old, and
Grandma did, or so we believed—
The Peace ot God Be With You.
It certainly didn't look like that
much writing to us, only three or
four curvy designs, a little more
golden in the area where Grandma's
fingers pressed it for buttering. But
she always read the markings aloud
as she shut the drawer, and we be-
lieved her interpretation. Perhaps,
as she said the words, she felt less
homesick for her father's father's
father's land.
Small St
on
Aretta N. Ricks
A joy springs up from depths unknown,
I am queen upon a throne!
A darling prince the age of three
Has vowed undying love of me.
LKecipes QJor J^Cutumn JLuncheons
Florence S. /acobsen
Whole Meal Soup
i tbsp. butter or butter substitute
i c. corn
2 lbs. ground beef
i c. diced carrots
2 qts. hot water
2 c. shredded cabbage
2 c. diced potatoes
2 onions, diced
i c. diced celery
l Vi tsp. salt
2 c. tomatoes
!4 c. rice
Melt butter, add meat, and brown. Add water and bring to a full rolling boil.
Add vegetables. Bring back to a boil. Add rice and seasonings. Simmer i to \Vi
hours.
Ham and Cheese Sandwich Fondue
6 slices bread 3 eggs> slightly beaten
3 tbsp. butter or butter substitute 2 c. milk
i
tsp. salt
3 slices boiled ham (or ham loaf) % tsp. pepper
1 tbsp. prepared mustard
Spread 3 slices of the bread with butter. Top each with a slice of cheese, then a
slice of ham, and another slice of cheese. Spread the 3 remaining bread slices with
mustard and place on the cheese to make sandwiches. Cut each into g cubes and place
in a well greased 2-quart casserole. Beat eggs, milk, salt, and pepper together with a
rotary beater. Pour ever bread cubes. Set casserole in a pan of hot water and bake
about 1 hour or until a knife inserted in the center of egg mixture comes out clean
and top is brown. Serves 4.
New York Waldorf Salad
4 large apples, cubed Yz c. mayonnaise
Vi c. pitted diced dates pinch salt
1 c. diced celery 1 tsp. powdered sugar
Vi c. chopped walnuts
Mix all ingredients together. Chill and serve in crisp lettuce cups, with or without
additional salad dressing.
Thousand Island Dressing
1 c. mayonnaise ¥1 tsp. salt
2 tbsp. chili sauce 1 chopped hard-cooked egg
1 tbsp. chopped green pepper 1 tbsp. chopped ripe olives
1 tsp. chopped pimento (or green olives)
2 tbsp. chopped sweet pickle
Mix all ingredients together and chill. Store in refrigerator. Serve as a dressing
for salads or with fish, as desired.
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Hot Potato-Bean Salad
4 medium-sized potatoes, peeled
and diced
z tbsp. fresh lemon juice
i tsp. salt (another for dressing)
1 inch boiling water in saucepan
l tsp. salt
l lb. fresh snap beans cut in
one-inch pieces
l tbsp. bacon fat
Y% tsp. black pepper
Vs tsp. garlic powder
lA tsp. powdered dry mustard
lA c. chopped onion
4 slices crisp bacon
% c. mayonnaise
Cook potatoes in boiling salted water for 5 minutes. Add beans and continue cook-
ing until beans and potatoes are tender; drain if necessary. Combine bacon fat, mayon-
naise, lemon juice, and seasonings. Heat. Pour over cooked vegetables. Add onions
and toss lightly. Crumble crisp bacon on top. Serve hot.
Brambles
c. seeded raisins, chopped
juice and rind of one lemon
1 egg, well beaten
1 c. sugar
2 layers unbaked pie crust
Put ingredients for filling together in saucepan and cook over low heat until thick.
Spread between two layers of unbaked pic crust in long cookie pan. Slash upper crust,
brush with milk. Bake until golden brown in 3500 oven. Cut into squares.
Vase of ^riutumn JLeaves
Ida Ehine James
Spared awhile from chilled oblivion,
These branches rise in gracious dignity
Fired to new beauty by the frost and sun,
Cut from the shelter of the mother-tree.
For yet a little time the eye may see
Their beauty, shaped like hands as though to hold
All of remembered summer history
Before consigned to winter's unfeeling cold.
Stripped of their homely mission to protect
The nesting bird, to shelter children's play,
To weave still tapestry and so deflect
Discomfort of the sun's late fiery ray,
They still grant hospitality, and hold
Beauty a moment more against the cold.
fjune U. uiunsaker s uiohby: (fiutnan IKelationships
JUNE I. Hunsaker, postmistress at Honeyville, Utah, specializes in human relation-
** ships. Old and young have learned to accept her as a public servant in everv
respect. Whenever a person has a load too heavy for his shoulders, he spends a little
extra time buying his stamps and getting his mail, so that he can share his burden with
someone who cares.
One day a little girl came to the window with a letter she had written to "Daddy
in Warope." The postmistress handled this situation in a way similar to the pro-
cedure used in handling the many letters addressed to Santa Claus each year. The
little ones are never disappointed through her lack of understanding.
Mrs. Hunsaker has been editor-in-chief of personal and circular letters to mission-
aries and servicemen. She has been active in many positions in the Church, and has
served as a ward Relief Society president and as a stake president. She is a lovely
mother and grandmother, and a devoted friend to the entire community.
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econipense
Velda AUphin Neihon
My neighbor planted chrysanthemums
Along her picket fence.
I'm sure she doesn't know my joy,
Nor even vaguely sense
How much these blooms assuage my soul
And call for recompense.
Orchids in the Snow
Chapter 6
Rosa Lee Lloyd
Synopsis: Sharon and Sam Wynter,
newlyweds, on their way to Fairbanks,
Alaska, from Utah, make many friends,
including Angus McFarland, a widower,
his daughter Marie, and Susan Elge from
Bristol Bay, who has brought her husband
Herman to Anchorage for an operation.
Arriving in Fairbanks, Sharon meets Sister
Jensen, President of the Branch Relief
Society, who rents her a log cabin. Sister
Jensen also takes Sharon to visit Mary
Billings who is blind. Marie McFarland
visits Sharon in Fairbanks, and when
Sharon becomes ill and finds that she is
expecting a child, she sends to Utah for
her Aunt Jewel, a nurse. McFarland
brings Jewel in his plane from Anchorage
to Fairbanks.
THREE weeks later Sharry
was feeling so much better
she was up and dressed most
of the time. Sam was expected
home from his trip into the icy
Northland.
"Dr. Fillmore thinks you have
done remarkably well/' Jewel said,
as they sat together in the living
room sewing on a fluffy baby quilt.
"It's because of your good care,"
Sharry answered.
"Give Dr. Fillmore credit, too/'
Jewel said. "He is an excellent
doctor."
"Oh, he is," Sharry agreed, her
brown eyes twinkling. "And he
thinks I have a super excellent
nurse. That's why he comes so
often — to see my nurse."
Jewel's cheeks pinked up.
"I'm glad he's been so nice to
you," Sharry went on. "He's taken
you to the best places in Fairbanks.
Marie says his home is one of the
finest in Central Alaska. Any wom-
an who can interest Dr. Fillmore is
real lucky, Marie says."
Jewel was silent as she stood up,
smoothing her apron. Her eyes
were sea-green.
"I'll have to hurry," she said.
"I'm going to luncheon with him
today."
"But it's only eleven o'clock,"
Sharry said, looking at the clock.
"There's loads of time."
"I want to brush your hair before
I leave," Jewel explained. "You
must look your prettiest for Sam.
You really need a hair trim. We'll
go up to the beauty shop next week,
now that you're strong enough to
go places. In the meantime, I'll do
the trimming job."
It was a very good job, Sharry
thought as she looked in the mirror
after Jewel had gone with Dr. Fill-
more. Sam would be pleased
because she wasn't so pale and
wispy as when he went away.
Jewel had brushed her black hair
in a shining halo around her face
and she was wearing the white
quilted robe that Sam liked best.
She sat in the big chair before the
fireplace with Nuzzle in her lap, as
she waited for Sam. The little dog
had been a great comfort to her dur-
ing these long weeks while she had
been ill. Sam had remade the dog-
house, but Sharry wanted Nuzzle
inside the cabin most of the time.
Suddenly Nuzzle lifted his head
and barked. Then his tail began to
wag as he ran sniffing to the door.
A minute later Sam stepped on the
porch.
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"Anybody home?" he called out
gaily.
Sharry ran to meet him, throw-
ing her arms around him. He held
her as though he would never let
go of her again.
"It's been a thousand years!" he
whispered against her cheek. "A
thousand, frozen, white years!"
"Was it a hard trip?" she ques-
tioned.
"Lonesome," he answered. "I
could stand the freezing weather
and the job was interesting, but I
was so lonesome for you— it seemed
forever. Now . . ." he held her off
at arm's length, looking her over,
"you're up and dressed. You look
right perky."
"I feel well, too," she assured
him.
Sam stooped to pick up Nuzzle
who was whimpering for attention.
Then he looked around the cabin
with a grateful smile.
"I love this place," he said. "It's
been great fun to make it livable.
I haven't had a real home before
this one. Dad was an engineer,
Mother died when I was six. I lived
in boarding schools, boys' clubs, fra-
ternity houses. Then I became an
engineer, too, living here and there,
any old place."
He patted Nuzzle, who had cud-
dled in his arms.
"I've never owned a dog before,"
he said. "This is the first time I've
had a real home."
Sharry swallowed hard. This was
Sam's real home, and she was home-
sick for another home in a farawav
city. What kind of wife was she?
she asked herself. She loved him
with all her heart, and yet she could
not tell him she would make Alaska
her real home. Whenever he men-
tioned the unfinished Gilmore
house and how he hoped to save
money enough for a down payment
when the estate was settled, she
always changed the subject.
' ; A RE you hungry?" Sharry
asked.
He shook his head.
"I can wait till dinner. Where is
everybody?"
He took off his parka and fur cap.
His red hair bushed up. Sam's hair
was always a delight to Sharry. All
the men he worked with had crew-
cuts. So Sam had his crew-cut be-
fore he left, but now it had grown
into red waves again. She hoped
their baby would have Sam's red
hair.
"Aunt Jewel has gone to luncheon
with Dr. Fillmore," she told him.
"Again?" he asked, one eyebrow
above the other. "What about Mc-
Farland? Or is it true that absence
makes the heart grow fonder for the
other fellow?"
"She had letters from McFarland
every day or two," Sharry answered.
"You women!" Sam said. "A
fellow never knows how he rates.
Even when he's married he wonders
what she's thinking — if she's hap-
py — what more he can do."
Sharry followed him to the kitch-
en where he hung his parka on a
hook near the range.
"Sam . . ." she touched his arm,
"you know I love you — and you
have made me happy. You've done
everything you could."
Sam was facing the wall. She
could not see his face. There was a
long pause, then he asked, "Did your
guitar arrive?"
"Oh, yes. We can both play a
little. Marie has a good voice —
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671
not trained or anything, but rich
and full of life. She's such fun,
Sam. I'm so glad she's here in
Fairbanks/'
"So am I," he said. "She's good
for you. Let's get the guitar. I
feel like a song, too."
Sam loved to sing. He and Sharry
had worked out a duet by the time
Jewel returned at four o'clock. She
came breezing in as though she had
enjoyed herself. She was having
more fun now than she had ever
had before.
"It's almost dark out there,"
Jewel laughed. "All the children
on their way home from school
were romping and playing. They
don't even miss the sunshine."
"Why should they?" Sam asked.
"Kids are kids in any climate.
They're used to the dark."
"That's right," Jewel agreed.
"We passed an electric-lighted foot-
ball field, and Dr. Fillmore says that
skating on the frozen lakes in this
weird darkness is one of the great-
est sports up here from freeze-up in
the fall to breakup in the spring."
^HERE was a loud thumping at
the door. Nuzzle barked and
wagged his tail. Marie came in,
laughing and waving a telegram
over her head.
"I've got a message!" she called
out. "My Dad wants us all to come
to Bristol for a visit. We can fly to
Anchorage in my plane — he'll have
a special plane take us to Bristol
from there."
"What fun!" Sharry said. "Oh,
Sam — please — I want to go."
"Sounds great!" he said. "I think
I can get a few days off. How
about it, Jewel? Can Sharry ride
that far?"
Jewel's cheeks were a rosy pink.
"We'll ask Dr. Fillmore," she said.
"I hope he'll say yes. It sounds
wonderful."
Marie said, "Uncle Herman is
eager to hear us play our guitars.
He's starved for music. Big Joe
plays the harmonica for him, but
he lives way up the coast."
"Stay for dinner, Marie," Sharry
coaxed. "We're having beef stew
— real beef Dr. Fillmore got from
Matanuska Valley. And biscuits."
Marie shook her head.
"I can't — I promised Oscar I'd
go skating at Harding Lake. The
northern lights are bright in the sky
tonight. It's magic."
A dog growled outside.
"Fudge is with me," Marie ex-
plained. "He wants Nuzzle to come
out."
"Nuzzle. . . ." Sharry looked at
Sam. "Where will we leave Nuz-
zle?"
"Oscar will take him," Marie said.
"I asked him. So it's all set, if
Dr. Fillmore says okey. I'll radio
Daddy soon as we know. He'll go
up to the schoolhouse in the morn-
ing for my message. See you after
the skate."
Sharry was so excited about the
trip that Jewel suggested she go to
bed when she had eaten her dinner.
"Take it easy, dear," she coaxed.
"Dr. Fillmore said the trip would
be good for you, if you don't get
too excited or too tired."
Sharry's eyes were star-bright.
"Just imagine!" she said, "I'll have
Sam for a whole week, day and
night. I love him terribly, Aunt
Jewel. I want him near me every
minute."
Jewel put an extra quilt over her,
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then she sat down on the side of the
bed.
"I've been thinking/' she said.
"Dr. Fillmore told me today that
the Gilmore estate is settled. He
has his bid in for it. He thinks it's
a good investment. I have some
money saved, Sharry. I want to
lend it to you and Sam for a down
payment. I think Dr. Fillmore will
help us get it. That will be a per-
fect home for you and Sam — with
the baby."
The stars blinked out of Shar-
ry's eyes. She did not want a home
in Alaska, even the Gilmore home
with its view of Mt. McKinley from
the picture window. She could not
bear another long dark winter away
up here.
"Oh, no/' she said. "Please,
Aunt Jewel, I'm not ungrateful —
I love you for offering, but — I don't
want it. Don't tell Sam about
it "
Jewel's eyes darkened with un-
belief. The usual sweet curve of
her lips faded away.
"I — didn't know — how you
felt," she said. "I'm sorry, dear."
She shut the door quietly behind
her. Sharry turned her face toward
the wall and wept.
Kenny was right, she thought
brokenly. Sam was married to a
doll baby. She could not measure
up to what was expected of a wife.
^t sj: sjs 5}: sjc
T^HEY arrived in Anchorage at
noon the next day.
"Marie, you're some pilot," Sam
said, as they ate their luncheon at
the Big Hand Cafe. "That was a
real smooth ride down here."
"Thanks to the weather," Marie
answered. "The ride to Bristol may
be something else again. But we'll
have a good bush pilot — Dad will
see to that. So hold on tight."
But the ride in the violet light of
midday was so magically beautiful
that they didn't notice it was rough.
"The farther north you go in
Alaska, the more daylight in the
summer and the more darkness in
the winter," Sam explained to
Sharry. "It's not so dark here, as
we're much further south than Fair-
banks."
The earth beneath the plane was
in shadow as they flew over the
heavily wooded country. The
mountains loomed ahead, huge jag-
ged peaks in the deep turquoise
darkness like silent sentinels.
"Look now," Marie called from
the seat across the aisle which she
shared with Jewel. "We're flying
over the treeless tundra. Those
dun-colored spots on the snow are
caribou. What a huge migration!
Maybe five thousand. That means
food for many people. It's a trag-
edy up here when we don't have
caribou on the march!"
"That must be reindeer over
there," Sam said, "and moose."
The pilot lowered the plane and
roared full-throttle over the herd so
everyone could get a closer look at
them.
It was a new and thrilling ex-
perience for Sharry. But soon the
coloring of the sky and the shim-
mering tundra beneath them made
her drowsy and she slept against
Sam's shoulder.
The swooping of the plane and
the sound of excited voices awak-
ened her, as the pilot set the plane
down carefully on the long white
landing field, near the salmon fac-
tories on the coast of Bristol Bay.
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673
Marie was the first one out of the
plane.
"Button up, Sharry!" she called
back. "There's a stiff wind."
"Hello! Hello!" McFarland said
to everyone, smiling down from his
great height. His parka and fur
cap made him look like a giant.
Sharry watched closely as he greet-
ed Jewel. He held her hands in
both of his, looking at her search-
ingly from fur cap to boots.
"I'm glad you're here," he said in
a special voice for her.
"Come on, you two," Marie
yelled gaily. "We're riding sled.
May I drive, Daddy?"
McFarland shook his head.
"This lead dog is stubborn," he
told her. "It'll take a man who is
more stubborn to handle him. You
should learn to drive while you're
up here, Sam."
Sam laughed. "I'll learn to ride
this thing first," he said. "I feel
as if I'm sitting on the ground."
A FTER they were seated, McFar-
land tucked a bearskin robe
around each of them. Then he un-
wrapped a bundle of gay colored
woolen scarves.
"Susan made these," he said.
'Wrap them over your cap, then
across your face like this. This wind
is full of ice splinters. We only
ride two miles, but we go fast.
"That's our home," he said,
"the big frame house on the hill.
The smaller house nearby belongs
to Mama Sue and Uncle Herman.
"Look around a minute before
we start," he said. "Those low flat
buildings over there are the can-
neries. The Bay opens into the
Bering Sea and it's loaded with
salmon. Most of the salmon you
have home comes from up here.
That higher building with the tall
chimney is where we smoke sal-
mon. That little square building
is my office."
He turned and faced inland. "All
those houses are built alike, facing
the bay. Each one has a kennel
for dogs."
He called to the lead dog. They
moved forward in a flutter of snow.
The wind beat against them.
Sharry hung on with both hands.
Susan was in the doorway when
they arrived. The house was warm,
and the inviting odor of baking fish
greeted them.
"Salmon roasted," Marie called
out. "You'll love it, Sharry."
"I know I will," Sharry said. She
had decided to try everything they
served no matter what it was.
She liked the dinner Susan had
prepared. The table was set in the
large living room before the fire-
place; the cloth was a heavy woven
tan material with golden threads in
it and the knives and forks had bone
handles. The dishes were yellow
pottery.
Sharry noticed the potatoes were
extra white and fluffy. Susan men-
tioned how grateful the people were
now that they could buy potatoes
in powdered form.
"We couldn't have them very
often because they froze," she said.
"But not the biscuits," McFar-
laand chimed in. "Susan's biscuits
are made from the bottom up."
Herman, who was lying on the
lounge, had his dinner on a tray.
"They are the very best," he said.
Marie took him another, drip-
ping with butter.
"We brought our guitars, Uncle
Herman," she said.
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"I'm ready any time," he said.
"I've been longing for music."
OHARRY loved the dessert, al-
though she could not tell what
the ingredients were. Marie watched
her as she ate another spoonful.
"Good, huh?" she questioned.
"This is my very favorite."
Sharry tasted it thoughtfully. It
was iced and rich with some kind
of fruit.
"We call it agrootuk," Susan said.
"It's a native dish. Any child can
make it. It's preserved berries,
melted fat, sugar, and snow."
"Sounds simple," Marie laughed.
"But it's tricky to make. Mine
doesn't taste like Susan's!"
Susan was bright with pleasure at
their praise.
Dogs barked outside. McFarland
lifted his head, listening.
"Not my dogs," he said, puzzled.
He got to his feet to open the door.
"Hello, McFarland!"
A young man in his early twenties
greeted him. His face was beet-red
beneath his cap.
"Johnny Forbes! Come in. Come
m.
McFarland introduced him to his
guests.
"You look half frozen, John.
Here, take off your parka. You
know better than to go near that
fire. Thaw out gently, boy. What
brought you in on a night like this?"
"My wife," he said, his voice
tightening. "She's awful sick. I've
come for Susan?'
No one spoke. The wood in the
fireplace crackled and shot flame.
Everyone looked at Susan. The
brightness had faded from her face.
"Katie has a lot of faith in
Susan," Johnny said. "She pulled
her through last winter. Remember,
Susan?"
Susan nodded. Her dark eyes
went to Herman, and Johnny fol-
lowed her glance. The expectancy
went out of his face. He could see
that Herman was ill. Susan would
not leave him for anyone.
"I'm sorry, Johnny," she said, her
voice ready to break like a dry twig.
"I wish I could help you. . . ."
"I can help you, Johnny. . . ."
Jewel's voice was calm in the
quiet room. "I am a professional
nurse. Please — take me to your
wife."
"But it's ten miles away!" Marie
said. "Clear up to Silver Fish Point.
Jewel is a stranger up here. It's
dangerous in this wind."
"I'm a nurse," Jewel said. "I want
to help you, Johnny."
"I'll take her myself!" McFarland
said in his commanding voice.
"Marie, fix John some dinner while
I get the dogs out. Susan, see that
Jewel wears some of your long
underwear. Sam, you can help me
with the dogs."
Sharry sat in shocked silence
watching the preparations. Aunt
Jewel was making a trek into an icy
wilderness. Her face was calm, and
her eyes were clear and steady as
she patted Sharry's shoulder, then
followed Johnny out into the wind-
swept night.
Marie closed the door against the
wind and leaned back against it.
"There is a storm brewing on
the bay," she said. "The trail will
be snow-covered."
"McFarland will get there,"
Susan said. "He always gets where
he wants to go."
(To be continued)
FROM THE FIELD
Hulda Parker, General Secretary-Treasurer
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for ' 'Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Handbook of Instructions of the Reliei Society.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Elva D. Cusworth
SANTA MONICA STAKE (CALIFORNIA) HANDWORK DISPLAY
AT RELIEF SOCIETY CONVENTION, May 14, i960
Left to right: Blanche Clayton, First Counselor; Annie M. Ellsworth, member,
General Board of Relief Society; Santa Monica Stake President E. Garrett Barlow;
Elsa T. Peterson, member, General Board of Relief Society; Elva D. Cusworth, President,
Santa Monica Stake Relief Society; Audra Enfield, Second Counselor.
Sister Cusworth reports: "We are so grateful for these inspiring conventions.
Our stake president spoke to us, giving us a great awareness of our responsibilities as
mothers and leaders. Sister Peterson and Sister Ellsworth brought to us not only a
spiritual feast, but much information, giving us a renewed desire to serve more com-
pletely in our assignments. What a great blessing it is to belong to this inspired
organization."
The articles on the display tables are samples of the handwork made in the wards
to be sold at the fall bazaars.
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Photograph submitted by Cora Hansen
PARK STAKE (UTAH) RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR OUARTERLY CONFERENCE AND VISITING
TEACHERS CONVENTION, June i960
Front row, fourth from the left: Solvig Steen, organist; fifth from the left: Lucile
Higgs, chorister. Beginning seventh from the left, stake Relief Society officers: Cora
Hansen, President; Dora Williams, First Counselor; Hazel Ferrin, Secretary; Bessie
Martin, Second Counselor; at the right on the front row: Mahacah Tauffer, guest
violinist.
Sister Hansen reports that these Singing Mothers also presented the music for
Relief Society Convention in August i960, and that their beautiful singing has been
an inspiration.
Photograph submitted by Irene C. Lloyd
HOLLADAY STAKE (UTAH) CONDUCTS DRESSMAKING
PROJECT, June i960
Left to right: Joyce Jordan; Genevieve Smith; Lois Beck; Audrie Kennington,
First Counselor, Holladay Stake Relief Society; Irene C. Lloyd, President; Ethel Hen-
nefer, Second Counselor; Maxine Cook, work meeting leader; Ruth Vanderlinden;
Lucille Allred.
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677
Right, at the sewing machine: Pat Clayton.
Elsine Caldwell, representing Holladay Fourth Ward sewing project, was out of
town when the picture was taken.
Sister Lloyd reports: "This picture was taken in June i960 of a group of sisters
who are teaching the fundamentals of dressmaking and plain sewing. Each of these
sisters made a blouse and learned pattern fitting, how to put in zippers, how to make
all kinds of hems, and the steps necessary to complete any article of clothing. We
are indebted to Sister Melba Christensen, work meeting leader of Winder Stake, for
instructing our sisters. Several of the classes have been completed, and new ones
are starting again. We feel that these classes and the instruction have been a won-
derful thing for the sisters of Holladay Stake.
Photograph submitted by Electa P. Hilton
ALBUOUERQUE STAKE (NEW MEXICO) VISITING TEACHERS
CONVENTION, May 7, i960
Left to right: Electa P. Hilton, President, Albuquerque Stake Relief Society;
Colleen B. Lemmon, Education Counselor; Gaye Schofield, Los Alamos Ward visiting
teacher message leader; Nita W. Bushman, Work Meeting Counselor, Albuquerque
Stake.
Sister Hilton reports: "We were so pleased with this year's convention and would
like to express our appreciation for the film 'Unto the Least of These.' It is truly a
work of art which greatly impressed the sisters who attended the convention. The
program carried out the theme set by the film, and each visiting teacher was given
a booklet containing the convention program and the visiting teacher messages for the
summer months. The cover of the booklet featured a beautiful picture of the Savior,
to remind each sister that she does indeed follow in the footsteps of the Master when
she serves as a visiting teacher.
"Perhaps the most outstanding contribution to the convention was made by Gaye
Schofield, visiting teacher message leader of the Los Alamos Ward. With the assistance
of her seven young children, she baked and decorated 200 small, heart-shaped cakes and
brought them from her home, a hundred miles away, to be served to those attending
the convention. Her lovely spirit, together with the inspiring film and the music
provided by the Singing Mothers, touched the hearts of all who were present and
caused many of the sisters to feel, for the first time, the importance of visiting teaching.""
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Photograph submitted by Annabell W. Hart
OAKLAND-BERKELEY STAKE (CALIFORNIA) PRESENTS DRAMATIZATION
"LEGACY" AT CLOSING SOCIAL
Left to right: Reader, Education Counselor Phyllis Warnick; June Smith, repre-
senting Mrs. Dwight; Emma Harmon as Mrs. Franklin; Dorothy Stone as Mrs. Hamil-
ton; Elaine Evans as Mrs. Jefferson; Vera Weindorf as Mrs. Crevecoeur; Mary Burton
as Mrs. Bvrd; Veda Linford as Mrs. Paine; Roma Sabine as Mrs. Penn; Rose Clark as
Mrs. Woolman.
Annabell W. Hart, President, Oakland-Berkeley Stake Relief Society, reports:
''Each year we try to present something relating to the past year's lessons. Last year
we used theology material; the year before was social science. This year, following the
literature presentation by stake board members, the film 'Unto the Least of These'
was shown. We then went to the recreation hall where all the wards had displays of
work meeting accomplishments,, and luncheon was served to 300 women. An enjoy-
able day was had by all."
Photograph submitted by Holly W. Fisher
SOUTH AFRICAN MISSION, PRETORIA BRANCH RELIEF SOCIETY
OFFICERS VISIT RELIEF SOCIETY MEMBERS BY BICYCLE
In front: Magrieta G. Faber, President; at the back (left) : Fransiena H. Smit,
Counselor.
Holly W. Fisher, President, South African Mission Relief Society, reports that
these faithful sisters "very often pedal their bicycles, with children on behind, ten or
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more miles per day to visit sick or inactive members of their branch. They are both
converts to the Church. Prior to this they belonged to the Dutch Reformed Church
and spoke Africaanse in the home. It has just been this past year that they have been
able to give talks and prayers in English. Now they do it freely. Sister Faber's judg-
ment and wisdom concerning Relief Society work are amazing, considering the short
time she has been in the Church.
"This is only one of many such examples of devotion and integrity to the Lord's
work expressed by the Relief Society sisters of the South African Mission. Although
their numbers may be small, their service is great in the sight of the Lord."
Photograph submitted by Catherine W. Aposhian
CENTRAL ATLANTIC STATES MISSION, VIRGINIA NORTH DISTRICT
CONVENTION AND CLOSING SOCIAL, May 21, i960
Front row, left to right: Bobbie Lohr; Betty Cease; Florence Dudley (seated),
honored for her many years of service to Relief Society; Beatrice Maddex; June Gayek,
Secretary.
Back row, left to right: Mary Cummings; Viola Snow, First Counselor; Tursell
Larsen, President; Doris Dudley, Second Counselor.
Catherine W. Aposhian, President, Central Atlantic States Mission, reports:
'The Virginia North District Relief Society held a district convention and closing
social May 21, i960, in the Charlottesville Recreation Hall. The program began with
a congregational song and prayer, after which Florence Dudley of Charlottesville, the
oldest member of Relief Society in the district, was honored for her long years of
service in Relief Society and in the Church. She was given a seat of honor on the
stage and was crowned Relief Society Queen for the day by District Relief Society
President Tursell Larsen, and presented with a Relief Society pin from the district
officers. Sister Viola Snow, First Counselor, presented Sister Dudley with a corsage
of yellow roses tied with blue ribbon. Her crown was also blue and gold, the Relief
Society colors. Doris Dudley, Second Counselor, read a tribute to her. The queen
reigned over the remaining program of music, five skits, readings, and a lovely fashion
show conducted by Doris Dudley. A cookie contest was judged, and dozens of plates
of prize cookies were served with sherbet and punch in the social hour. Many lovely
articles were displayed and judged, with the tri-color ribbons going to four of the
women for their entries in the different contests. About seventy -five Church members
were in attendance."
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Photograph submitted by Clarice May Woolley
KEARNS NORTH STAKE (UTAH) PRESENTS "LEGACY," April 8, i960
Front row, seated, left to right: Bessie Abbott and baby; Louise Harmon; Joan
Steed; Barbara Scoville.
Back row, standing, left to right: Alta Carrington; Joyce Craven; Fern Etta Young,
stake literature class leader; Iris Oscarson; Mary McHenry; Flora Anderson; Pat Labrum.
Clarice May Woolley, President, Kearns North Stake Relief Society, reports: "The
dramatization of 'Legacy' was presented April 8, i960, under the direction of Fern
Etta Young. Brother Robert Anderson narrated the script, and Joyce Craven pre-
sented the background music. Performing in the play were ward Relief Society leaders.
'Legacy' was presented at the closing social of our leadership meeting, and climaxed
the series of literature lessons presented during the year. Nina Despain is First Coun-
selor in Kearns North Stake Relief Society, and Nola Rae Hansen is Second Coun-
selor; Nina R. Jorgenson is Secretary-Treasurer."
WUL
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utumn
Christie Lund Coles
The willow tree has changed her dress
To one of golden amber, yellow fringed;
For in the night, she, too, was touched by frost,
And all her summer loveliness was singed;
Yet, still, when much more sturdy trees are spent,
Golden, she moves and glistens in the breeze,
For there is strength in beauty, and I think
The willow is most beautiful of trees.
LESSON DEPARTMENT
cJheologti — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 28— The Law of Consecration
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Section 42:30-42, 53-55, 70-73)
For Tuesday, January 3, 1961
Objective: "And inasmuch as ye impart of your substance unto the poor, ye
will do it unto me ..." (D & C 42:31) .
Review
When the law to the Church was
promised, we learned that there was
considerable poverty among the
saints. The Lord informed the
Prophet Joseph Smith that when
that law was revealed, his plan for
caring for the poor would be given.
(See D & C 38:15-22, 32, 41.)
Although this is not the only sub-
ject matter of this great revelation,
as we have learned, it is an impor-
tant part of Section 42, and the sub-
ject of many later revelations.
Up to this time our study of this
revelation has included the laws of
preaching the gospel and of moral
conduct. As our lessons have indi-
cated, the living of the moral law is
fundamental in "working out one's
salvation." When a person becomes
acquainted with the law of conse-
cration, it is apparent that, as a basis
for living this law, the moral teach-
ings of the gospel are directly re-
lated to the successful operation of
the law of consecration.
Man's Struggle
The basic wants of man are
known to be food, clothing, and
shelter. In order for a man to ob-
tain these for himself and family,
he has to struggle with his environ-
ment as the principal factor in ac-
complishing this purpose. When
the law was promised, the Lord re-
vealed that he had made the earth
rich and that the saints would par-
take of those riches. (See D & C
38:16-20.) After the law of con-
secration was given, the Lord also
made known that he would provide
for his people in his own way.
Furthermore, that every man is a
steward in his sight and that ample
riches of the earth are available for
man. (See D & C 104:13-14, 17.)
Several systems or plans for giv-
ing security to man have been
devised. The Lord, however, has
revealed that pertaining to his saints
there is a way which will give se-
curity in accordance with the way
in which his plan is lived.
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And it is my purpose to provide for my
saints, for all things are mine.
But it must needs be done in mine own
way . . . (D & C 104:15-16).
The Lord's Way in the Past
There are two instances in the
scriptures where the Lord's people
lived the law given to them to the
extent that there was neither rich
nor poor among them. The first
of these was in the days of righteous
Enoch and his people. Although
there were wars and contentions
among the people of other lands,
Enoch's people lived the laws of
God to the degree that they were
blessed exceedingly.
The fear of the Lord was upon all
nations, so great was the glory of the Lord,
which was upon his people. And the Lord
blessed the land, and they were blessed
upon the mountains, and upon the high
places, and did flourish.
And the Lord called his people ZION,
because they were of one heart and one
mind, and dwelt in righteousness; and
there was no poor among them (Moses
7:17-18).
Following the visit of the resur-
rected Christ to the Nephites on the
American Continent, a reign of
righteousness was inaugurated and
continued for about 165 years. The
record of this period is an informa-
tive one because it makes known the
means by which their happy condi-
tion was achieved. (See 4 Nephi
2-3, 15-16.)
The New Testament example of
a similar instance of having "all
things common" is not as clear as
the latter account. The record
states that there was some division
of property among the saints in the
meridian dispensation. (See Acts
2:41-47.)
In addition to the all-important
condition of morality which existed
among the members of the Church
in these earlier dispensations, we
discover another principle which
the Lord informed our own dispen-
sation was necessarv for the success-
ful living of the Lord's law. It is
given in Section 38, as follows:
". . . I say unto you, be one; and
if ye are not one ye are not mine"
(D&C 38:27).
"All Things Common"
In commenting upon the practice
of the New Testament saints having
"all things common," Elder Albert
E. Bowen furnishes the following
observation based upon the com-
mentaries of others:
In relation to the matter of their having
all things in common it is interesting to
note that the Primitive Church apparent-
ly did not long continue the practice.
Gibbon relates that the rule was early
relaxed so as to permit of individual under-
takings and was finally supplanted by the
law of tithing. (I Gibbon, Decline and
Fail, p. 416-417). In this connection
Dummelow's Bible Commentary, page
824, says: "The Church of Jerusalem
recognized the principle of private prop-
erty. A disciple's property really was his
own, but he did not SAY it was his own;
he treated it as if it were common prop-
erty. The Anabaptist principle that pri-
vate property is unlawful finds no support
in the Acts. The communism was volun-
tary (The Welfare Plan, pp. 15-16).
In the thinking of some people
of our own times, there is an associa-
tion of the law of consecration with
having things in common to the
extent that they believe it is in agree-
ment with communism of todav. In
1838, the Prophet Joseph Smith set
down in print some questions which
were most frequently asked him, as
he said, in order to save himself the
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trouble of repeating them over and
over again. Among these was this
one: "Do the Mormons believe in
having all things in common?" His
answer was "No" (D. H. C. 111:23).
As indicated, in part, in Lesson 25
on the background of Section 41
(the first revelation received by the
Prophet in Kirtland, Ohio), some
members of the Church in that place
had been organized in an effort to
live as the early Christians are said
to have lived, having all things com-
mon,
branch, the Prophet wrote:
Concerning the Kirtland
The branch of the Church in this part
of the Lord's vineyard, which had in-
creased to nearly one hundred members,
were striving to do the will of God, so
far as they knew it, though some strange
notions and false spirits had crept in
among them. With a little caution and
some wisdom, I soon assisted the breth-
ren and sisters to overcome them. The
plan of "common stock," which had exist-
ed in what was called "the family," whose
members generally had embraced the ever-
lasting Gospel, was readily abandoned for
the more perfect law of the Lord; and the
false spirits were easily discerned and re-
jected by the light of revelation (D. H. C.
1:146-147).
As we shall see in our brief
discussion of the law of consecra-
tion, it is neither communistic nor
communal.
The Law of Consecration
The Lord's way of providing for
the poor required that the individ-
ual consecrate or give to the Church
all of his property. This was to be
done by deed or legal title.
And behold, thou wilt remember the
poor, and consecrate of thy properties
for their support that which thou hast to
impart unto them, with a covenant and a
deed which cannot be broken (D & C
42:30).
Following this introduction to the
law of consecration, the revelation
continues with these words:
And inasmuch as ye impart of your
substance unto the poor, ye will do it
unto me; and they shall be laid before
the bishop of my church and his coun-
selors, two of the elders, or high priests,
such as he shall appoint or has appointed
and set apart for that purpose.
And it shall come to pass, that after
they are laid before the bishop of my
church, and after that he has received
these testimonies concerning the conse-
cration of the properties of my church,
that they cannot be taken from the
church, agreeable to my commandments,
every man shall be made accountable unto
me, a steward over his own property, or
that which he has received by consecra-
tion, as much as is sufficient for himself
and family (D & C 42:31-32).
Again, emphasis is given to the
consecration as belonging to the
Church, but the donor is to become
a steward over that which he has
consecrated or properties which may
not have belonged to him. As noted
in the verses above, the standard or
measure of one's stewardship is "as
much as is sufficient for himself
and family." In Section 51, Ed-
ward Partridge, and those chosen by
him, are to ". . . appoint unto this
people their portions, every man
equal according to his family, ac-
cording to his circumstances and his
wants and needs" (D & C 51:3).
Although this and other revelations
point out that men are to be equal
under the law of consecration, the
words just quoted describe the man-
ner in which the men are to be
equal. In pointing up this fact,
President J. Reuben Clark, Jr.,
Counselor in the First Presidency,
says:
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Obviously, this is not a case of "dead
level" equality. It is "equality" that will
vary as much as the man's circumstances,
his family, his wants and needs, may vary
(Conference Report, October 4, 1942,
Page 55)-
If, however, there would arise a
difference of opinion between the
agent of the Church and the mem-
ber, over the amount to be received
as a stewardship, the Prophet Joseph
Smith wrote the following to Bishop
Edward Partridge:
. . . every man must be his own judge
how much he should receive and how
much he should suffer to remain in the
hands of the Bishop. I speak of those
who consecrate more than they need for
the support of themselves and their
families.
The matter of consecration must be
done by the mutual consent of both
parties; for to give the Bishop power to
say how much every man shall have, and
he be obliged to comply with the Bishop's
judgment, is giving to the Bishop more
power than a king has; and upon the
other hand, to let every man say how much
he needs, and the Bishop be obliged to
comply with his judgment, is to throw
Zion into confusion, and make a slave of
the Bishop. The fact is, there must be
a balance or equilibrium of power, be-
tween the Bishop and the people, and
thus harmony and good will may be pre-
served among you.
Therefore, those persons consecrating
property to the Bishop in Zion, and then
receiving an inheritance back, must rea-
sonably show to the Bishop that they need
as much as they claim. But in case the
two parties cannot come to a mutual
agreement, the Bishop is to have nothing
to do about receiving such consecrations;
and the case must be laid before a council
of twelve High Priests, the Bishop not
being one of the council, but he is to lay
the case before them (D. H. C. 1:364-
365).
From the foregoing and other
places yet to be noted, it should be
clear to all that the principle of free
agency is an important part of this
order. The difference between this
law and that of communism, as
known today, lies in man's freedom
to act. This fact and another one
in connection with this law is furth-
er indicated in the answer to this
and a related question: Is it
intended that the donor of proper-
ty in receiving a stewardship have
legal title to the stewardship re-
ceived from the Church? The reve-
lation answering this question states:
And let my servant Edward Partridge,
when he shall appoint a man his portion,
give unto him a writing that shall secure
unto him his portion, that he shall hold
it, even this right and this inheritance in
the church, until he transgresses and is
not accounted worthy by the voice of the
church, according to the laws and cove-
nants of the church, to belong to the
church.
And if he shall transgress and is not
accounted worthy to belong to the church,
he shall not have power to claim that por-
tion which he has consecrated unto the
bishop for the poor and needy of my
church; therefore, he shall not retain the
gift, but shall only have claim on that
portion that is deeded unto him (D & C
51:4-5)«
Not only was the person to con-
secrate his property to the church by
legal deed and thus surrender all
claim to the property, but the
stewardship received as a member
of the order was to be his own.
Private property is a fundamental
part of the operation of the law of
consecration. But what if the mem-
ber of this order is no longer worthy
to continue in the Church, is the
property deeded to him his own or
that of the Church? From the fore-
going revelation the answer is that
he has claim on the stewardship
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685
deeded to him. This answer also
points up the fact of free agency
in that a person may leave the order
and yet still retain his property.
The Bishop's Storehouse
As a member of the order pro-
duces surpluses from his steward-
ship or there are residues arising
from the original consecration be-
yond what the donor has consecrat-
ed to the Church, provision is made
in the revelations for the use of
these portions. These conditions
are expressed in our text in this
manner. (Read D & C 42:33-34.)
Not only were these residues to
be used for the poor, but also for
the building up the kingdom of God
upon the earth, as the revelation in-
dicates :
And for the purpose of purchasing lands
for the public benefit of the church, and
building houses of worship, and building
up of the New Jerusalem which is here-
after to be revealed (D & C 42:35).
In a later revelation, the Lord
makes known that children are to
be maintained from the parents'
stewardship, but if the time should
come that they are unable to pro-
vide a stewardship for their children
of age, the Lord's storehouse is to
provide for them. It also indicates:
And the storehouse shall be kept by
the consecrations of the church; and
widows and orphans shall be provided for,
as also the poor (D & C 83:6).
Law of Remuneration
Provision is made in verses 70
through 73 of Section 42 for those
who labor in a full-time capacity
for the Church to have their fami-
lies supported out of the general
funds of the Order. (See Doctrine
and Covenants Commentary, page
234, for a comment on these
verses.)
Summary
The law of consecration, also
known as the United Order (not to
be confused with the Orders oper-
ated between 1877 and 1884 in the
West), required that the donor of
property consecrate his wealth by
legal title to the agent (bishop) of
the Church. In return, the conse-
crator would receive a stewardship,
also called an inheritance, by legal
title or deed, which secured his in-
heritance by law. If he left the
Order, this stewardship would be
his own; thus, the law of consecra-
tion was not communistic because
of the principles of free agency and
private property. The surplus aris-
ing from the "working" of the
stewardship, beyond the circum-
stances and wants and needs of the
family, would be placed in the bish-
op's storehouse for the care of the
poor, widows, orphans, and the
building up of Zion. Additional
stewardships would also come, in
part, from this source.
History of the United Order
In the spring of 1831, members of
the Church from New York State
began arriving in the Kirtland, Ohio,
area. A branch of the Church from
Colesville, New York, settled at
Thompson, Ohio, where they were
given the privilege of organizing
themselves according to the law of
consecration. (See D & C 51:15.)
That this branch of the Church was
to remain in Ohio for only a short
time is evident from the revelation,
for they were to receive another
commandment about their location
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at some future time. (See D & C
51 :i6.) In the meantime, however,
they were to act as though they
were to be in Ohio "for years/'
(See D & C 51:17.) It was only a
matter of months until the faithful
members of this branch were com-
manded to gather in Missouri. (See
D & C 56:5-7.) It was during the
time of the saints' sojourn in Jackson
County, Missouri, that further at-
tempts were made to live this law.
The United Older
Discontinued
By revelation, the Lord set the
law of consecration in abevance
until such time as the saints would
again be established in Missouri to
build up the city of Zion. (See
D & C 105:34.) One reason for the
failure of this law to remain in force,
as reported in The Evening and
Morning Star, was that "there has
not been enough consecrated to
plant the poor in inheritances/7 A
reason for this condition was that
many, before coming to Zion, had
given their property away, and sac-
rificed some, resulting in their not
having property which could be
made available for consecration.
(See D. H. C. 1:381.) It should
also be remembered that, due to
other weaknesses of the saints, they
did not measure up to the standards
necessary to live this law. (See
D & C 101:6-8; 105:2-6.) The per-
secution of the Church in Missouri
shortened the time when the law
of consecration was in force among
the saints.
Although some members in Illi-
nois, the place of gathering after the
expulsion of the saints from Mis-
souri, felt that the law of consecra-
tion should be lived, the Prophet
Joseph Smith said to the Iowa High
Council at a meeting in Montrose:
. . . that it was the will of the Lord
that we should desist from trying to keep
it; and if persisted in, it would produce a
perfect defeat of its object, and that he
assumed the whole responsibility of not
keeping it until proposed by himself
(D.H.C., IV:93).
Revocation of Commandments
Does the Lord command or give
his people the privilege of living a
law and then revoke that command?
The word of the Lord is definite in
this regard, as evidenced in the mod-
ern revelations. (See D & C
56:1-4.) An example from the New
Testament may be appropriately
referred to when the Lord com-
manded his disciples not to take
purse and scrip (baggage), but sub-
sequently, when circumstances and
conditions were different, he coun-
seled them to take purse and scrip
(Luke 22:35-36; Mt. 10:9-10). An-
other example in our dispensation
when conditions released the saints
from compliance to a command was
the building of the temple in Jack-
son County, Missouri. Due to cir-
cumstances, the persecution of the
saints, this commandment was also
placed in abeyance. (See D & C
124:49-51.)
Conversion Necessary
It is evident from the revelations
already referred to in this lesson,
that obedience to the law of con-
secration requires that the members
of the Church live on a high moral
plane, keeping the commandments
to the extent that they are able to
eliminate greed, selfishness, dishon-
esty, and other barriers to living the
great commandment — to love one's
neighbor as oneself.
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The testimony of the gospel is a
necessary step in the accomplish-
ment of this purpose, but there re-
mains the fact that one must still,
as a member of the Church, be
"born again." (See Alma, chap-
ter 5.)
The Welfare Plan
Over two decades ago, by revela-
tion to the leadership of the
Church, there was inaugurated the
Welfare Plan. Conditions at that
time brought into existence a pro-
gram designed to meet the circum-
stances of the times. Through the
years since 1936, this program has
made great advances in the ac-
complishment of the objectives
which brought it into being. The
existence of the "bishop's store-
house," originally a part of the law
of consecration, is known to all Lat-
ter-day Saints. The accumulated
stocks of food, clothing, and other
materials in these buildings for the
use of faithful members of the
Church in need, have demonstrated
the complete justification for such
a plan.
To some in the Church, however,
there is another reason for the Wel-
fare Program other than to take
care of the present needs of the peo-
ple. Appropriate to this lesson are
the remarks made in a General Con-
ference by President J. Reuben
Clark, Jr., of the First Presidency,
when he compared the Welfare Plan
with the law of consecration.
We have all said that the Welfare Plan
is not the United Order and was not in-
tended to be. However, I should like to
suggest to you that perhaps, after all, when
the Welfare Plan gets thoroughly into
operation — it is not so yet — we shall
not be so very far from earning out the
great fundamentals of the United Order.
In the first place I repeat again, the
United Order recognized and was built
upon the principle of private ownership
of property; all that a man had and lived
upon under the United Order, was his
own. Quite obviously, the fundamental
principle of our system today is the own-
ership of private property.
In the next place, in lieu of residues
and surpluses which were accumulated and
built upon under the United Order, we,
today, have our fast offerings, our Welfare
donations, and our tithing, all of which
may be devoted to the care of the poor,
as well as for the carrying on of the activi-
ties and business of the Church. After all,
the United Order was primarily designed
to build up a system under which there
should be no abjectly poor, and this is
the purpose, also, of the Welfare Plan.
In this connection it should be observed
that it is clear from these earlier revela-
tions, as well as from our history, that
the Lord had very early to tell the people
about the wickedness of idleness, and the
wickedness of greed, because the brethren
who had were not giving properly, and
those who had not were evidently intend-
ing to live without work on the things
which were to be received from those who
had property. (D & C 56:16-20)
Furthermore, we had under the United
Order a bishop's storehouse in which were
collected the materials from which to sup-
ply the needs and the wants of the poor.
We have a bishop's storehouse under the
Welfare Plan, used for the same purpose.
As I have already indicated, the surplus
properties which came to the Church un-
der the Law of Consecration, under the
United Order, became the "common prop-
erty" of the Church (D & C 82:18) and
were handled under the United Order for
the benefit of the poor. We have now
under the Welfare Plan all over the
Church, ward land projects. In some cases
the lands are owned by the wards, in
others they are leased by the wards or
lent to them by private individuals. This
land is being farmed for the benefit of
the poor, by the poor where you can get
the poor to work it.
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We have in place of the two treasur-
ies, the "Sacred Treasury" and "Another
Treasury," the general funds of the
Church.
Thus you will see, brethren, that in
many of its great essentials, we have, as
the Welfare Plan has now developed, the
broad essentials of the United Order.
Furthermore, having in mind the assist-
ance which is being given from time to
time and in various wards to help set peo-
ple up in business or in farming, we have
a plan which is not essentially unlike that
which was in the United Order when the
poor were given portions from the com-
mon fund (Conference Report, October
3, 1942, pp. 57-58).
Questions for Discussion
1. Tell of the times before our dispen-
sation when the Lord's people have tried
to follow an order which would provide
for their economic welfare. What prin-
ciples were necessary to follow in order
that the system be successful?
2. What did the Prophet Joseph Smith
say in reference to having all things in
common?
3. What are some of the principles in
the law of consecration?
4. Wherein does the law of consecra-
tion differ from communism today?
5. For what purpose were the surpluses
arising out of the law of consecration to
be used?
6. Discuss: The Lord revokes a com-
mandment.
7. According to President J. Reuben
Clark, Jr., what lesson might one receive
as to the purpose of the Welfare Plan in
reference to the law of consecration?
8. What responsibilities does Relief So-
ciety have in the Welfare Plan?
Visiting cJeacher illessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 28-"Thou Shalt Not Be Idle. . . ." (D & C 42:42)
Christine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, January 3, 1961
Objective: To avoid being idle, we must be actively engaged in a good cause.
IN this nuclear, automated, busy
life, most of us would be shocked
if we were accused of being idle.
In our rush from task to task and
from responsibility to responsibility,
the majority of us can't seem to
stretch our twenty-four-hour days
far enough to accomplish all we
wish to do.
Could this commandment pos-
sibly apply to us today? Despite the
rush of our lives, could we still be
guilty of being idle? What is meant
by being idle?
Socrates said, "Not only is he idle
who is doing nothing, but he that
might be better employed." The
dictionary tells us that idleness is
not the absence of action, but that
it denotes vain action. It is the ab-
sence of useful, effective action.
Then, the question we might ask
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ourselves is this, are we avoiding
idleness by using our time to the
best advantage? If we are willing
to accept this interpretation of the
meaning of idleness, when we clut-
ter our lives with futile, vain, or
trifling activities, we are guilty of
being idle. Likewise, if we allow
our time to be consumed in aimless
pursuit, if we do not improve our-
selves, the situation of our neighbor,
or the character of our environment,
we are idle.
Fully aware of our human ten-
dencies to "busy" ourselves with
idleness, our Father in heaven,
through his prophets over the ages,
has repeatedly warned us to use our
time constructively. We are told
that "In the sweat of thy face shalt
thou eat bread . . ." (Gen. 3:19);
and "Thou shalt not be idle; for he
that is idle shall not eat the bread
nor wear the garments of the
laborer" (D & C 42:42).
In applying this commandment to
our own lives, we must not over-
look the fact that idleness has
spiritual and mental as well as
physical implications. Regardless of
how busy we may be in a physical
sense, many of us may actually be
idle in developing ourselves mental-
ly and spiritually. If we fail to use
our time constructively, to develop
ourselves mentally and spiritually,
we cannot hope to ". . . eat the
bread nor wear the garments of the
laborer." The food which nourishes
us spiritually and mentally we our-
selves must prepare, no one else
can do it for us.
In his epistle to Timothy, Paul
chides the members of the Church
for being idle.
. . . wandering about from house to
house; and not only idle, but tattlers also
and busybodies, speaking things which
they ought not (I Timothy 5:13).
Ezekiel, in describing the sins and
iniquity of Sodom, said:
. . . pride . . . abundance of idleness
was in her and in her daughters, neither
did she strengthen the hand of the poor
and needy (Ezekiel 16:49).
The story is told of an individual
who had a dream about a large
building where people came to buy
back precious time they had squan-
dered. First came a young man
who said, "I have been promised an
important position if I am prepared
to take it. But I am not prepared.
The two years I should have spent
in study I used in frivolous pastimes.
Let me buy back those two years
of time." Next in line was an older
woman who said to the clerk,
"When it was too late, I discovered
that God had given me great talents
which I failed to develop. Sell me
back ten years that I might be the
woman I could have been."
With the gifts of life and free
agency we can, if we so desire,
organize our time so as to employ
it advantageously. In exercising
our free agency in this modern day,
we should avoid cluttering our
minds with shoddy literature. We
should shun the wastefulness of
trashy movies, TV shows, and radio
programs. Unless we are extremely
selective, these can consume our
precious hours. These wasteful
activities often press in on us and
make us think we are busy when,
actually, our time could be better
used for beautiful, useful, and soul-
satisfying activities.
We should also be deeply grate-
ful for the wonderful opportunities
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of avoiding idleness through service
in the Church. In the wide variety
of activities offered in the Church
program, we can develop our talents
while serving others.
Let us strive to place the right
appraisal upon the values in life.
Then shall we know the joys and
satisfactions of a life free from
idleness.
Work JTleettng— Caring for the Sick in the Home
(A Course Expected to Be Used by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Lesson 4 — Making the Patient Comfortable
Maria Johnson
For Tuesday, January 10, 1961
Objective: To become aware of the importance of good posture for the patient
in bed and the need for frequent change of position. To learn how to arrange pillows,
make the patient's bed, and to use improvised equipment and other devices that will
help to hasten the patient's recovery.
Good Posture in Bed
IT was comparatively recently that
the importance of the patient's
posture in bed and the need for fre-
quent change of position became an
essential part of nursing care. To-
day good posture for the patient
in bed is recognized as important, as
is good posture when walking, stand-
ing, or sitting. Resting in bed is
usually thought of as a very com-
fortable state; yet lying in bed does
not insure rest. It can be very tir-
ing if the body is not properly sup-
ported. To have a low backache
when one gets up in the morning
or after a nap is frequently the result
of poor posture while lying in bed.
A sagging mattress that prevents
good posture is often the offender.
Movement and good posture go
hand in hand. The healthy person,
in her daily activities and when
sleeping, shifts her position fre-
quently'. No one is expected to
stand for any length of time without,
in some way, altering her position;
likewise, no patient, unable to move
herself, should be left for long pe-
riods of time without a change of
position. Change of position pre-
vents fatigue, deformities, and un-
due pressure on areas where bed-
sores may develop. These patients
must have encouragement and as-
sistance in moving.
Today, patients are encouraged to
do as much for themselves as their
condition permits. The physician
will advise as to their limitations. It
is now common practice in hos-
pitals for maternity patients, and for
many surgical and medical patients,
to be allowed to get out of bed and
do some walking about. Many go
to the bathroom; some can take
their own sponge baths when the
equipment is prepared and placed
within easy reach. A patient may
need some help, such as washing
the back. If she can wash only her
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face, she is encouraged to do that
much. Some patients, and their
relatives, interpret this as neglect
due to shortage of nurses. This is
not so. This activity is a part of the
treatment necessary to speed recov-
ery. Activity is essential for the
normal functioning of all parts and
organs of the body, and the patient
who moves about gains her strength
back much more rapidly than the
patient who is inactive. Be sure to
get the doctor's advice as to how
much activity the patient may have.
RIGHT POSITION IN BED
Pillow is under shoulders and head.
WRONG POSITION IN BED
Head thrust forward on chest.
I — Devices for Improving the Patient's Posture and Ensuring Her Comfort
(Do not neglect to watch your own posture; review rules given in Les-
son 3.)
Among the most common devices are pillows. Full-sized, large pillows have many
limitations. You will need a variety of sizes, large, small, hard, and soft. There is no
one best way to arrange pillows since the size and hardness or softness play a big part
in how effectively they can be used. The key to all arrangements is the alignment of
the patient's body. Always make certain that the head is not thrust forward on the
chest. When the patient lies on her back arrange the pillow under her shoulders and
head. (See illustrations.) If there is space at the end of the mattress, the feet can
extend over the mattress, instead of resting on a pillow. The head is pushed out of
alignment by the pillow and the feet are stretched out of normal position. For the
side-lying position see illustration. Note the pillow is under the head but not under
the shoulder. There is also support for the upper arm, leg, and foot.
For a semi-sitting position, the back, neck, and head may be supported with two
or three pillows, staggered so each overlaps part way. You may need an extra small
pillow to tuck in so the head will be in good position. When the patient is propped
up in a higher position, you need a hard surface, such as an upholstered chair cushion or
cardboard box, cut to fit, to use as a base for the pillows.
A footrest supports the feet and also protects the toes from the weight of the
covers. Note the roll under the knees in the illustration. A roll under the knees must
be used with caution, and for short periods of time only. If the legs are supported with
a roll day after day, the under leg muscles will shorten so the patient will be unable
to straighten them out when she is ready to walk.
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SIDE-LYING POSITION
PILLOW ARRANGEMENT WITH
BACK REST FOR HIGH POSITION
II-
■Points to Observe When Making the Bed for a Sick Patient
Linen under the patient must be smooth and free from wrinkles at all times. This
means it must stay tight; for the patient who does not move about, a wrinkle or
crumb can, in a few hours, mean the beginning of a dreaded bedsore.
To make the bed tight, allow about 15 to 18 inches to tuck in at the head of the
bed and make square corners at the sides. (See illustrations.)
TO MAKE A SQUARE CORNER
Step 1
z
Step 2
Step 3
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3. Use long strokes when tucking in the linen so it will be smooth, not rumpled,
under the mattress, and will stay tucked in.
4. Use a drawsheet over the lower sheet. This is a folded sheet or a special narrow
cotton sheet about four feet wide, extending from the patient's shoulders to her
knees, and long enough to tuck in 1 5 or 18 inches on each side. This helps to
keep the linen tight and is easy to change if the bed becomes soiled.
5. If the patient uses the bedpan or has any condition or treatment that may wet
the bed, a rubber or waterproof protective sheet, such as oilcloth, is used under the
draw sheet. It should be several inches narrower than the cotton sheet.
6. If the protecting sheet is not long enough to tuck in on both sides, stitch a piece
of muslin on each end long enough for a 15 or 18 inch tuck in. It will wrinkle
if not tucked in well.
7. When putting on the upper covers, provide for toe room. This may be done by
making a wide box pleat lengthwise in the sheet and blanket or by making a wide
fold across the foot of the bed.
8. Most bedspreads are heavy and hard to keep clean on the sick bed. A sheet makes
a good cover and gives the patient a sense of ease as she does not fear getting it
soiled from crayons, books, etc.
Key Points in making a comfortable bed: clean linen; tight, smooth lower sheets;
top sheet and blankets high enough to cover the patient's shoulders; a pleat at the
bottom for toe space; protection for the mattress.
IV — To Change the Linen Under a Sick Patient
1. Put bath blanket over patient and remove top covers and pillows.
2. Have patient move to far side of bed and turn on side facing away from you.
3. Loosen the linen and roll first the lower sheet then the cotton draw sheet toward
center of the bed and well under the patient.
4. Fold the rubber draw sheet over the patient, as it will not be necessary to take it
off the bed.
5. Make up this side of the bed: place the lower sheet with the lengthwise fold in
the center of the bed; fanfold the top half next to the patient. Tuck in the lower
half at top of the mattress, then at the side.
6. Bring the rubber sheet in place and tuck it in.
7. Place the clean cotton draw sheet in place with the center fold in the center of
the bed. Fold the top half as you did the lower sheet and tuck in the lower half.
8. Go around to the other side of the bed.
9. Have the patient move to the opposite side.
10. Take out the soiled linen.
11. Pull the clean sheets in place and tuck them in. Be sure the sheets are pulled tight
and that no wrinkles are left in the bed.
Note: If a patient is able to sit in a chair, make the bed while she is sitting up.
V — The Overbed Table
You will find many uses for the overbed table. It is easy to improvise. One
simple way is to cut both long sides of a large carton. A larger table can be made from
a card table; however, a card table will not fit over a standard single bed. Turn under
two legs and prop this side of the table on books or hard cushions and let the other
legs rest on the floor. They will need to be supported on a stool or something so as
to make the table level. The large table can hold a variety of things of interest to the
patient — books, cards, crayons, toys, etc. A child soon tires of one thing and becomes
restless. She will be much more content to stay in bed if she can change from one
interest to another.
JLiterature — America's Literature Comes of Age
Lesson 20 — Natty Bumppo, American Fiction-Hero
Elder Briant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 221-223)
For Tuesday, January 17, 1961
Objective: To acknowledge Cooper's Natty Bumppo as creating and symbolizing
the wild beauty of primitive America.
Cooper, Frustrated Idealist
IN a very real sense James Feni-
more Cooper loved his vision of
the Ideal America so wholehearted-
ly and so belligerently that it killed
him. Too democratic for Europe,
too aristocratic for Jacksonian Amer-
ica, for almost the last twenty years
of his life he fought with full, manly
vigor to defend the unswerving in-
tegrity of his dream of what America
should be. Never did he admit
that he was a leader without a party
defending a cause forever past.
While staying in English hotels he
had become infuriated with reading
the insults penned onto the hotel
registers following names whose
homes were listed as "U. S. A." Un-
derstandably, his fury was more
intense when, upon returning to
the country he had defended so
■staunchly, he thought its inhabitants
had degenerated into a vulgar, mon-
ey-mad mob.
In that age of rowdy expansion-
ism, when such terms as "liar" and
"garbage" were journalistic common-
places, Cooper soon got what he
had asked for by his frontal attack
on his sensitive, ambitious, and
proud countrymen. The public
press lambasted him as "assassin,"
and "leprous wretch," making him
the most popular novelist but the
most unpopular man in America.
The amazed, frustrated Cooper be-
came so embittered that he instruct-
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ed his family to allow no "official"
biography ever to be written, which
gave his oldest, most loyal daughter
her justification for burning most of
his personal papers and for having
his most personal journals buried
with her at her own death.
If Cooper's intention was aliena-
tion, he was successful, for without
such personal materials, literary his-
torians have found it most difficult
to create a picture of Cooper. In
another sense, this intentional de-
struction has proved fortunate, since
it intensifies the artistic and cultural
creativity within his novels as essen-
tial expressions of Cooper himself.
The greatest value, however, lies in
his novels creating a great national
symbol which revealed a system of
belief not only to the countrymen
of Cooper's own day but to a
sympathetic audience of interna-
tional scope through time. Ever
since the end of the Revolution in
1783, the United States had been
striving to establish a literary inde-
pendence from Great Britain, but
before Cooper, the new Nation had
never had a symbol which could
possibly assert it.
Cooper, then, assumes dual im-
portance: he was the first American
to write frankly about his country
and criticize it vigorously, and he
created in Natty Bumppo (hero of
the Leather-Stocking Tales) a truly
representative American symbol and
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myth, by means of which American
literature first achieved its unique
identity.
Cooper s Conflicts
Cooper had within himself sev-
eral basic conflicts intensifying the
tensions within himself out of which
art is produced. For example, dur-
ing his years in France, he was an
intimate friend of the aging liberal,
Lafayette. Cooper defended the
American Revolution and gave
financial support to the revolt in
Poland, yet, upon returning home,
he feared the democratic mob. With
every reason to entrench himself
with the wealthy Whigs, he fought
them, not so much because he be-
lieved in Jacksonian Democracy as
that he feared the money-grabbing
zeal of the new manufacturing and
capitalistic classes. In his anti-rent
trilogy (Satanstoe, Chainbearer,
Redskins) he fought vigorously,
defending the right of the landed
gentry to maintain financial control
of their lands, yet his most famous
novels are laid beyond the frontier
where no law save that of God and
nature prevails.
Feeling increasingly ill at ease in
lawful, civilized society, Cooper
sought escape by going beyond the
frontiers. He created the person he
would like to be, if only he could
be free of the increasingly complex
problems of his world. It is in
Natty Bumppo that one finds the
source of his literary power and his
world-wide popularity. And the
emergence of Natty Bumppo (also
called Deerslayer, Leather-Stocking,
Long Rifle, Hawkeye, the Trapper)
can be more thoroughly understood
once more if Cooper's basic atti-
tudes toward fiction are stated.
Cooper's Literary Theories
Never a novelist so much as a
moralist masquerading in the liter-
ary costumes currently in vogue,
Cooper regarded fiction as a lesser
form of literature than poetry, yet
for him fiction was a means of earn-
ing a good living and, more im-
portant, for getting his personal con-
victions into circulation. Resigning
himself, therefore, to use the novel
as he found it, he used stale plots,
created wooden characters, and,
when his imagination was not fired
by his subject, employed the stiff
formalities of language then accept-
ed as a badge of quality and social
station. Just a few of the trite,
wornout phrases from the pages of
The Last of the Mohicans show
some of the qualities of language
which Bret Harte and Mark Twain
burlesqued: ''feverish suspense,"
"scalding tears," "babbling brook,"
"the gun poured out its fatal con-
tents," "he gnashed his teeth with
rage," and "the savage grated his
teeth together like rasps of iron."
In his novels Cooper was both a
realistic and a romantic writer. He
was drawn to realistic writing in re-
action against the popular horror of
Gothic romances and the sob-seduc-
tion-sentiment romances which
flooded the bookshops. Also, he
believed an American novel should
include as much of real America as
it possibly could, presenting actual
conditions as they really were. To
tell the moral truth as he saw it
was the basis of his books and the
frequent debates they contained.
Cooper, be it always remem-
bered, was fundamentally the moral-
ist who wished to depict ideal
characters and actions. Because
these virtues could best be brought
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to imaginative life in romance, he
laid the Leather-Stocking Tales
( The Pioneers, The Deerslayer, The
Last oi the Mohicans, The Prairie,
The Pathfinder) in a place distant
in time and beyond the frontier. In
such idealized surroundings, Natty
Bumppo was truly in his element.
Here are to be found lore about the
mysterious Indian, pursuit, escape,
suspense, the serene majesty of un-
spoiled nature; here, the reader's
heart absorbs Natty's virtues into
himself as if they were his own; here
lies the great western dream fulfilled.
Natty Bumppo
On May 25, 1831, Cooper wrote
from Paris to his nephew in Coop-
erstown:
Your Aunt Pomeroy is afraid we shall
become too Europeanized for home. She
knows little of our tastes or wishes. . . .
Now my longing is for a wilderness —
Cooperstown is far too populous and arti-
ficial for me, and it is my intention to
plunge somewhere into the forest, for six
months in the year, at my return.
It was this "longing ... for a
wilderness" in Cooper which gave
birth to Natty who symbolized the
"wilderness of liberty" which both
Cooper and his age associated with
the millions of acres of land lying
to the west still unspoiled by such
cruel, wolfish squatters or frontiers-
men as Ishmael Bush in The Prairie.
In another sense, Natty combines
the strongest moral qualities of civil-
ization and Christianity. And, while
his original creation of Natty in The
Pioneers (1823) was undoubtedly a
spontaneous product of Cooper's
intuitive genius, it is in his 1850
Preface to the Leather-Stocking
Tales that Cooper precisely states
his true identity and significance:
A leading character in a work of fic-
tion has a fair right to the aid which can
be obtained from a poetical view of the
subject. It is in this view, rather than in
one more strictly circumstantial, that
Leather-Stocking has been drawn. The
imagination has no great task in portraying
to itself a being removed from the every-
day inducements to err, which abound in
civilized life, while he retains the best
and simplest of his early impressions; who
sees God in the forest; hears him in the
winds; bows to him in the firmament that
o'ercanopies all; submits to his way in a
humble belief of his justice and mercy; in
a word, a being who finds the impress of
the Deity in all the works of nature,
without any of the blots produced by the
expedients, and passions, and mistakes of
man. This is the most that has been
attempted in the character of Leather-
Stocking.
Cooper's greatest artistic accom-
plishment was to combine in this
one romantic poetic character three
great culture-forces of pre-Civil War
America: (1) the intuitive wisdom
and the ecstatic feeling of being con-
tinuously reborn, which romantic
lovers of nature believed they, too,
would feel were they to walk alone
amid the untainted, primeval gran-
deur of America's western Eden;
(2) the eighteenth-century tradi-
tion of ''gifts" and station which
sustained the high concepts of
gentle manliness and honor and
kindness produced out of genera-
tions of blood-proud, name-proud
family ties; and (3) constant ref-
erence to Christian ethics and piety
as guides for action in judgment:
the "good" man is dominated by
quiet, strong reverence for all forms
of life in nature, including all
humankind. Courageous yet gen-
tle, chaste while loving all God's
creations, he is never tainted by
temper or hatred, and kills either
animal or human reluctantly, and
only when he must do so to survive.
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Thus Cooper is the first Ameri-
can writer to achieve the full stature
of creating myth, or an artistic,
symbolic creation containing those
drives and beliefs within a culture
which are so strong, so automatic,
so basic that often they are not
formally stated.
As a romanticized idealization of
what strong, unspoiled, believing
man should be, Natty Bumppo is
"as great a hero as Homer's Achilles
or Virgil's Aeneas," to quote an
anonymous Englishman who wrote
Cooper his esteem for Leather-
Stocking, his best-loved character
in fiction. Homer's Illiad and Odys-
sey were memorized and chanted
aloud by Homer's own and later
ages, so completely were those
works loved, so definitely did they
give a mirroring identity to that
ancient people. In identical man-
ner Cooper gave a fictional body
not only to the idealized wish-ful-
fillments of the nineteenth century,
but to our day of electronic com-
munication as well. For Gary
Cooper in chaps, six-guns, steely
eye, and quiet drawl is the spirit-
child and worthy representative of
his sire, James Fenimore Cooper.
The locale (beyond the "law"); the
morality (good men vs. bad men)
with virtue, honesty, and uncanny
nature-lore always triumphant; the
eternal pursuit-escape-suspense "in-
the-nick-of-time" rescue — all these
are Cooper's creations. Little could
Walt Whitman know how truly he
spoke when he acknowledged Coop-
er's great achievement as being
"from everlasting to everlasting."
No longer does one speak of "the
vanishing West" with clear con-
science, for never has the Old West
been more featured than now. If
Cooper did not create the historic
Daniel Boone and Davy Crockett,
at least he created them imaginative-
ly in their blood-brother, Natty
Bumppo, who, through his endless
imitations, seems to enjoy more
imaginative power in our century
than in his own.
The Poetic Cooper
Despite Cooper's weaknesses in
language, plot, and characterization
already noted, the Leather-Stocking
Tales, as unified by Natty Bumppo,
are his enduring monument. As
proof that Cooper was not entirely
aware of what he had created, note
how the series begins with The Pio-
neers (1823) which depicts Leather-
Stocking as a man in his early
seventies living in about 1793 amid
surroundings very similar to those
of early Cooperstown, basically a
realistic book. The series ends with
The DeersJayer (1841) in which
Leather-Stocking is about twenty-
three, living about 1740, really a
poetic vision of Leather-Stocking's
birth into maturity and manhood.
In The Last of the Mohicans (1826)
our hero was in his mid-thirties,
while in The Prairie (1827) Leath-
er-Stocking, a man of eighty or more
years, dies at the end of the book,
only to be resurrected in The Path-
finder (1840) thirteen years later.
In the order of composition, then,
the shape of the Leather-Stocking
Tales is from reality to poetry.
The excerpts in our text from
The Last oi the Mohicans fairly
represent two apparent sources of
Cooper's popular appeal: Chapter
XXXII is filled with cunning, cour-
age, suspense, and the deaths of the
villainous Magua and the virtuous
Uncas. Chapter XXXIII is a senti-
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mental tableau surrounding the slain
Cora as, with fittingly excessive dis-
plays of emotion, she is prepared for
burial.
But as reminders of Cooper's
great story-telling gifts, consider first
the strong feeling of place and the
specific details of reality he catches
in Chapter I of The Pioneers:
Near the center of the state of New
York lies an extensive district of country,
whose surface is a succession of hills and
dales. ... It is among these hills that the
Delaware takes its rise; and flowing from
the limpid lakes and thousand springs of
this region, the numerous sources of the
Susquehanna meander through the valleys,
until, uniting their streams, they form one
of the proudest rivers of the United States.
. . . The vales are narrow, rich, and culti-
vated, with a stream uniformly winding
through each. Beautiful and thriving vil-
lages are found interspersed along the
margins of the small lakes, or situated at
those points of the streams which are favor-
able for manufacturing; and neat and com-
fortable farms, with every indication of
wealth about them, are scattered profuse-
ly through the vales, and even to the
mountain tops. . . .
Now compare the above combi-
nation of romantic scene and real-
istic detail written in 1823 when
Cooper was just beginning his
career, with the tone of pure poetic
beauty and majesty in the following
excerpts from Chapter VII of The
Deerslayer written in 1841, eighteen
years later, when the mature Cooper
is fully aware of the mythic quali-
ties he has created in Natty - Leath-
er - Stocking - Deerslayer - Hawkeye.
The chapter tells how, at dawning,
significantly the hour of epic events
in Cooper, innocent young Deer-
slayer kills his first Indian, which
becomes his baptism into maturity.
Note also how the chapter exempli-
fies the three great forces: nature
worship, chivalric manliness, Chris-
tian forgiveness.
Day had fairly dawned before the young
man . . . again opened his eyes. . . . His
rest had been deep and undisturbed; and
when he awoke, it was with a clearness
of intellect and a readiness of resources
that were much needed at that particular
moment. The sun had not yet risen, it is
true, but the vault of heaven was rich
with the winning softness that "brings
and shuts the day," while the whole air
was filled with the carols of birds, the
hymns of the feathered tribe. . . .
He searches for the canoe which
he must find and protect from the
Indians at all costs.
The canoe adrift being directed by no
such intelligence, pursued its proper way,
and grounded on a small sunken rock,
at the distance of three or four yards
from the shore . . . then it rose a hairs-
breadth on an almost imperceptible swell
of the water, swung round, floated clear,
and reached the strand. All this the
young man noted, but it neither quick-
ened his pulses, nor hastened his hand.
... As Deerslayer drew nearer and nearer
to the land, the stroke of his paddle grew
slower, his eye became more watchful,
and his ears and nostrils almost dilated
with the effort to detect any lurking
danger. . . . Equally free from recklessness
and hesitation, his advance was marked
by a sort of philosophical prudence that
appeared to render him superior to all
motives but those which were best cal-
culated to effect his purpose. . . .
When about a hundred yards from the
shore, Deerslayer rose in the canoe, gave
three or four vigorous strokes with the
paddle. . . . He was in the very act of
raising the rifle, when a sharp report was
followed by the buzz of a bullet that
passed so near his body as to cause him
involuntarily to start. . . .
The Indian reveals himself rashly.
This was the moment the young man
desired. He rose on the instant, and
levelled his own rifle at his uncovered foe;
but his finger hesitated about pulling the
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trigger on one whom he held at such a
disadvantage. This little delay probably
saved the life of the Indian. . . .
Leaping ashore, Deerslayer enters
the temple of nature and sees the
Indian's arm move as he reloads
behind an oak.
. . . Nothing would have been easier
than to spring forward and decide the
affair by a close assault on his unpre-
pared foe; but every feeling of Deerslayer
revolted at such a step, although his own
life had just been attempted from a cov-
er ... it struck him as an unfair advan-
tage to assail an unarmed foe. His color
had heightened, his eye frowned, his lips
were compressed, and all his energies were
collected and ready; but, instead of ad-
vancing to fire, he dropped his rifle to
the usual position of a sportsman in readi-
ness to catch his aim, and muttered to
himself, unconscious that he was speak-
ing: "No, no — that may be redskin
warfare, but it's not a Christian's gift.
Let the miscreant charge, and then we'll
take it out like men; for the canoe he
must not, and shall not have. No, no;
let him have time to load, and God will
take care of the right!"
The two greet each other, bow,
converse, shake hands, then walk
in apparent friendship to the canoes.
As they part, Deerslayer glances at
the Indian, but, ashamed of his
distrust, begins to launch his canoe,
when, in a lightning glance, he sees
the Indian preparing to fire at him.
Almost in a single motion he cocks
and fires his rifle "aiming almost
without sighting," and though the
Indian throws his tomahawk, he is
mortally wounded. Deerslayer takes
him to the lake for the drink he
requested, then places his head in
his lap, which the Indian might
regard as a preliminary to his being
scalped, but Deerslayer reassures
him:
"All inmity atween you and me's at an
ind, red-skin and you may set your
heart at rest on the score of the scalp,
or any further injury. My gifts are white,
as I've told you; and I hope my conduct
will be white also!"
The Indian understands his good
intentions, and:
With the high, innate courtesy that so
often distinguishes the Indian warrior be-
fore he becomes corrupted by too much
intercourse with the worst class of the
white man, he endeavored to express his
thankfulness for the other's good inten-
tions, and to let him understand that they
were appreciated.
Dying with composure, he re-
names Deerslayer "Hawkeye" and
expires. Hawkeye braces the body
up in a dignified sitting posture
overlooking the lake, then solilo-
quizes:
I didn't wish your life, red-skin . . . but
you left me no choice atween killing, or
being killed. Each party acted according
to his gifts, I suppose, and blame can
light on neither. . . . And why should I
wish to boast of it a'ter all? It's slaying
a human, although he was a savage; and
how do I know that he was a just injin;
and that he has not been taken away sud-
denly to anything but happy hunting-
grounds? When it's onsartin whether good
or evil has been done, the wisest thing is
not to be boastful — still, I should like
Chingachgook to know that I haven't dis-
credited the Delawares or my training!
If ever our modern industrial,
scientific, busy world were to be
replaced by an ideal existence amid
the simple goodness of a pure, moral,
beautiful human society, Cooper's
creation should receive prime con-
sideration. It is admittedly a never-
never land of beauty too lovely to
be granted to mortals; it is, in addi-
tion, so originally American as to
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be universal and therefore beyond 2. Do you feel Natty Bumppo to be
time. truly a myth? A true American? A true
American creation?
Thoughts for Discussion y Dlscuss Cooper as a symbol of
1. Discuss Cooper's opinion of fiction America's llterarY independence,
as a form of writing. 4. Who were Achilles and Aeneas?
Social Science — Spiritual Living
in the Nuclear Age
Lesson 10 — Expanding Our Religious Horizons — Part III — Man's
Relatedness to the World
Elder Bhine M. Porter
For Tuesday, January 24, 1961
Objective: To discover how our philosophy of man's relatedness to the world
influences our potentialities for spiritual living.
Introduction tion and devotion is an intrinsic part
HHHE purpose we find in life and of human existence. Everyone has
the value we place upon people a religious need. Man is free to
are important in determining the choose between different types of
kind of relationship we establish ideals and religious values. Man
with God, the kind of relationships may worship the sun, thunder, idols
we establish with our fellow men, of gold or stone, an invisible God,
and the potentialities we possess for or tyrannical leaders. He may wor-
spiritual living. One of the most ship his ancestors, his political
exciting aspects of religious experi- party, money, or success. His re-
ence is the wondering, the marvel- ligion may be conducive to the de-
ing, the becoming aware of life and velopment of destructiveness or of
of one's own existence, and of the love; power and domination over
puzzling problem of one's related- others or of brotherliness. The
ness to the world. Socrates' state- question is not religion or no reli-
ment that "wonder is the beginning gion, but which kind of religion.
of all wisdom" could also be applied Does one's orientation and approach
to the religious experience. One to life seek to serve mankind and
who has never been bewildered, who the unfolding of man's human pow-
has never looked upon life and his ers for good, or does it seek to domi-
own existence as phenomena which nate, enslave, or otherwise exploit
require answers, and yet paradoxical- mankind? This question is basic
ly for which the answers are mainly and needs to be answered honestly
new questions, has missed an im- and objectively,
portant and enriching kind of re-
ligious experience. Exclusive Philosophy
The recorded religious history of
Need for Religious Orientation man reveals that from a very early
The need for a system of orienta- period, many people believed in a
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701
tribal deity, and today we still have
those who believe in a God who
looks with favor only upon the elect.
And, likewise, there are some who
seek to exclude and restrict those
who appear to be different, so that
many of the rights and privileges
God intended man to have are de-
nied to many.
An exclusive philosophy seriously
limits the religious horizons of a per-
son and is likely to spell ultimate
disaster in the nuclear age unless
it is essentially removed.
Inclusive Philosophy
An approach which wholehearted-
ly subscribes to the philosophy of
the fatherhood of God and the
brotherhood of man not only allows,
but encourages an individual to
reach out to his fellow men with
warmth in all directions. It is the
philosophy based on the premise
that all human beings are born free
and equal in their right to be re-
spected and granted the human
dignity to which any child of God
is entitled. The impartiality and
inclusiveness of God are demon-
strated in the following passages of
scripture:
Then Peter opened his month, and said,
Of a truth I perceive that God is no re-
specter of persons:
But in every nation he that feareth him,
and worketh righteousness, is accepted
with him (Acts 10:34-35).
Where there is neither Greek nor Jew,
circumcision nor uncircumcision, Bar-
barian, Scythian, bond nor free; but Christ
is all, and in all (Colossians 3:11).
For behold, my beloved brethren, I say
unto you that the Lord God worketh not
in darkness.
He doeth not anything save it be for
the benefit of the world; for he loveth
the world, even that he layeth down his
own life that he may draw all men unto
him. Wherefore, he commandeth none
that they shall not partake of his salva-
tion. . . .
Hath he commanded any that they
should not partake of his salvation? Be-
hold I say unto you, Nay; but he hath
given it free for all men; and he hath
commanded his people that they should
persuade all men to repentance.
Behold, hath the Lord commanded any
that they should not partake of his good-
ness? Behold I say unto you, Nay; but
all men are privileged the one like unto
the other, and none are forbidden (2 Ne-
phi 26:23-24, 27-28).
This approach recognizes that all
the children of God should have
the opportunities and privileges
which will help them develop and
maintain the dignity and self-respect
to which every human being is en-
titled.
Latter-day Saint Views
The gospel of Jesus Christ as
revealed to Latter-day Saints offers
some of the greatest challenges ever
presented to man for living creative-
ly with his fellow men. As Latter-
day Saints, we wholeheartedly sub-
scribe to the belief of the brother-
hood of man and sense a responsi-
bility to do all in our power to im-
prove his lot and enhance his de-
velopment. President McKay said:
One of the two great, general principles
to which all other principles are subsidiary
is this: "Love your neighbour as your-
self," (see Matt. 19:19) and correlated
with it, the promise: "Inasmuch as ye
have done it unto one of the least of
these my brethren, ye have done it unto
me." (Ibid., 25:40.)
The gospel "bids the strong bear the
burdens of the weak, and to use the
advantages given them by their larger
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opportunities in the interest of the com-
mon good, that the whole level of
humanity may be lifted and the path of
spiritual attainment be opened to the
weakest and most ignorant," as well as to
the strong and intelligent (McKay, David
O.: Gospel Ideals, page 47).
The Latter-day Saint concept of
respect for and responsibility to our
fellow men is demonstrated in the
following statements by the Prophet
Joseph Smith:
... I am just as ready to die in defend-
ing the rights of a Presbyterian, a Baptist,
or a good man of any other denomination;
for the same principle which would tram-
ple upon the rights of the Latter-day
Saints would trample upon the rights of
the Roman Catholics, or of any other
denomination who may be unpopular and
too weak to defend themselves. . . .
If I esteem mankind to be in error, shall
I bear them down? No. I will lift them
up, and in their own way too, if I cannot
persuade them my way is better; and I
will not seek to compel any man to believe
as I do, only by the force of reasoning,
for truth will cut its own way. Do you
believe in Jesus Christ and the Gospel of
salvation which He revealed? So do I.
Christians should cease wrangling and con-
tending with each other, and cultivate the
principles of union and friendship. . . .
{D.H.C. V. pp. 498-499).
Our record as a group, viewed
from a positive perspective, is envi-
able. We have sent food and other
supplies to people driven from their
homes by floods and other catas-
trophies. We have sent mission-
aries to people in many parts of the
world to share with them a religion
which we believe will enrich their
lives and bring them salvation. We
have been an industrious people
who have been willing to share the
fruits of our efforts with others. We
have sponsored educational pro-
grams which, among other pursuits,
have attempted to increase our un-
derstanding of man.
However, from another perspec-
tive, we have individuals among us
who are prejudiced in their behavior
and feelings. There are some who
are reluctant to give audience to
new ideas and concepts, even though
they conform to basic, eternal truths,
forgetting our responsibility to seek
truth wherever we may find it —
always testing new ideas, theories,
etc., in order that we may screen out
and keep that which is good. Some
of us do not extend overtures of
charity to others outside our group.
Many of us permit the forces of
evil to exist and continue without
making any effort to eradicate them.
President George Albert Smith
has suggested a philosophy that
would enhance Christian living for
all of us:
I would be a friend to the friendless
and find joy in ministering to the needs
of the poor.
I would visit the sick and afflicted and
inspire in them a desire for faith to be
healed.
I would teach the truth to the under-
standing and blessing of all mankind. . . .
I would not seek to force people to live
up to my ideals, but rather love them into
doing the thing that is right.
I would live with the masses and help
to solve their problems that their earth
life may be happy. . . .
I would not knowingly wound the feel-
ings of any, not even one who may have
wronged me but would seek to do him
good and make him my friend.
I would overcome the tendency to self-
ishness and jealousy and rejoice in the
successes of all the children of my Heav-
enly Father.
I would not be an enemy to any living
soul.
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703
Knowing that the Redeemer of man-
kind has offered to the world the only
plan that will fully develop us and make
us really happy here and hereafter, I feel
it not only a duty, but also a blessed
privilege to disseminate truth (Smith,
George Albert: Sayings of a Saint, pp.
24-25).
There are those among us who
live their lives in this remarkable
world as if it were a telephone
booth. Let us try to be more con-
cerned with our fellow men, for
human beings are much more extra-
ordinary than we sometimes realize.
Widening our Horizons
We are living in an exciting era
in which man is changing the world
in which he lives. The peoples of
all nations of the world are truly
becoming our neighbors. Not only
are technological changes altering
the life of man in an almost un-
believable fashion, but the aspira-
tions of man are also changing our
world. As Abraham Lincoln once
said, 'The dogmas of the quiet past
are inadequate to the stormy pres-
ent." Many people are taking a new
look at colonialism, low standards
of living, ignorance, and illiteracy,
some established forms of economic
and political organizations, some
established value systems, war. To
understand world-wide changes of
our day is an enormous job, but an
exciting one. To achieve peace and
brotherhood on any secure, perma-
nent, human basis, will require all
the ingenuity, understanding, and
charity which we can muster. It
will require that we not only imple-
ment true principles of Christian
living, but that we also effectively
teach them to our children in order
that they will be prepared to as-
sume the leadership of furthering
this cause.
If religion is to be allocated its
rightful dignity and be allowed to
make its potential contribution in
our lives, we must dedicate our
whole self to that which is highest
and best in life. We must dedicate
our whole life to creating the
optimum conditions under which
growth and development can take
place within ourselves and others,
in order to experience our Godlike
nature. It means providing an at-
mosphere of freedom and respect of
the worth of an individual, and ac-
cepting the basic premise that most
people do the best they can con-
sidering their circumstances, their
background, and their training.
Learning how to participate in
bringing into actuality a kind of new
world brotherhood of which many
are dreaming is not a simple matter
of learning to distinguish between
right and wrong. We shall not
make much progress merely by
enunciating principles or by holding
up ideals. We must broaden our
religious horizons so that each indi-
vidual from the youngest child to
the oldest grandparent has a sense
of moral purpose in life; a deep and
an inescapable sense of personal duty
to work for those things which are
of supreme good to all men; a re-
spect for the sanctity of personality;
the discovery of our true emotion;
and the abolishment of the evil and
unpleasant in life.
We must remind ourselves, how-
ever, that the hope of a new world
brotherhood is not really new. Two
thousand years ago Jesus refused to
find satisfaction in the common
Jewish hope of a kingdom of God
founded on the subjugation of the
nation's enemies. His vision of a
kingdom of God was not that of his
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even one's enemies. The task of
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tend ourselves to all men, granting
them the dignity and recognition
which they inherently deserve, is
one of the greatest challenges before
us. It is important that an individual
take a careful look at his religious
philosophy to be sure that he has
not merely placed a thin veneer over
a way of life that is not basically
Christian.
President George Albert Smith
has declared:
The only way to peace for this world is
the pathway of the gospel of Jesus Christ
our Lord. There is no other. . . .
Individual happiness and world-wide
peace will not be permanent until those
who dwell on the earth accept the gospel
and conform their lives to its precepts. It
is the power of God unto salvation to all
who believe and obev. It is the kind
advice of a loving Father (Smith, George
Albert: Sayings of a Saint, pp. n, 45).
President Clark points out great
basic truths in the following excerpt:
We ought to remember, I feel always,
the truths which God has given to us.
We live in revolutionary and evolutionary
time. The Lord has vouchsafed to us
some of the greatest discoveries of all
times; he has increased beyond the wildest
dreams of the most imaginative poet, our
powers of transmission of speech. He has
increased our powers of speed of transpor-
tation. He has discovered to us great
secrets of energy which we know how to
create but not yet how to control.
We have looked at these things, and we
have said in our hearts, and in our speech,
that the old has been ''outmoded." We
see the results, and we believe. But it
has been rather an easy transition from the
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705
outmoding of these material instrumen-
talities given by God for our good (and
we shall yet use them for the promulga-
tion of truth though not yet do I catch
a glimpse even of how in all cases they
shall be used, but yet they will be so
used) — it has been an easy transition,
I say, to affirm that since the physical has
become outmoded, so is "outmoded" the
moral and the spiritual of the past. In
the darkness they are crying out, as we
have heard, for a prophet. Brother Rom-
ney said that what they need is a listening
ear for the prophet they have.
But it is wholly fantastic, as I see it,
for us to think that man himself is
"outmoded," or his moral and spiritual
past. We still have the five senses, all
we learn and know and experience comes
through those five senses. Man has not
been given another sense by these great
discoveries. Man still thinks as he has
always thought, more poignantly, perhaps,
more deeply in certain lines than here-
tofore, but he still thinks, he still speaks,
he is still guided by the same great pas-
sions of love, hate, ambition, desire to
serve the Lord and all the rest of it. We
have not changed. We are as God made
us originally, save as we have somehow
in some things subverted our feelings, our
passions, our urges, our ambitions.
What I would like to get to you today
is my feeling that the spiritual in man,
the spirit of man is in no sense whatever
"outmoded." He stands today as he
stood when he came from the garden.
God is still God; Jesus is the Christ.
There is no change in that. There has
been no change in the great spiritual truths
that are essential to our progress spiritual-
ly and to our eventual salvation and exal-
tation. Nothing is changed there.
Moreover, we of this Church have our
testimony and our knowledge that God
still speaks to us, that he does not permit
us to wander in darkness and in silence,
uninstructed, uninspired, without revela-
tion. No principle of the gospel is more
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as it is necessary our Heavenly Father
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The Latter-day Saint approach to
God and man allows for ever-widen-
ing religious horizons. It reveals
God as a Being of love and accept-
ance of all men, of man possessing
inherently Godlike characteristics,
and life being potentially good and
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a free agent with a moral responsi-
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A knowledge of a God of love
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a mutual love between an individual
and his fellow men are basic in-
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horizons and living spiritually in
the nuclear age.
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children were still in the formative period,
I had friends who gave me the same
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our home atmosphere with a knowledge
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trying to develop an appreciation of God's
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford ------ - President
Marianne C. Sharp - First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen ----- Second Counselor
Hulda Parker - - - Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B Hart Christine H. Robinson Annie M. Ellsworth Fanny S. Kienitz
Edith S. Elliott Alberta H. Christensen Mary R. Young Elizabeth B. Winters
Florence J. Madsen Mildred B. Eyring Mary V. Cameron LaRue H. Rosell
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor ----------- - Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor ---------- Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager ---------- Belle S. Spafford
VOL 47 NOVEMBER 1960 NO. 11
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SPECIAL FEATURES
Serving With Full Intent of Heart Belle S. Spafford 712
Making a Heaven at Home Marianne C. Sharp 718
Homemaking — A Noble Calling and Privilege Louise W. Madsen 720
Report and Official Instructions Belle S. Spafford 722
Temple Square in Salt Lake City — Part II Preston Nibley 729
FICTION
Home for Christmas Myrtle M. Dean 739
My Third Grandma — Part III — Ants Ilene H. Kingsbury 751
Orchids in the Snow — Chapter 7 Rosa Lee Lloyd 755
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 710
Sixty Years Ago 736
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 737
Editorial: Thankfulness for a Prophet Marianne C. Sharp 738
Birthday Congratulations 787
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Jessie Evans Smith's Hobby — A Useful Invention 745
Playthings From Castaways Holly B. Keddington 746
Holiday Food Suggestions Ethel C. Smith 752
LESSONS FOR FEBRUARY
Theology — The Law of Administration to the Sick Roy W. Doxey 761
Visiting Teacher Message — "Wherefore, I Am in Your Midst" Christine H. Robinson 767
Work Meeting — Routine Comfort Measures Maria Johnson 768
Literature — William Cullen Bryant Briant S. Jacobs 772
Social Science — Stages of Religious Development Blaine M. Porter 778
POETRY
Need of Pilgrims — Frontispiece Christie Lund Coles 709
November Instant Maude Rubin 750
Silver Web Mabel Law Atkinson 760
Earning Learning Roberta L. Theobald 784
To an Aged, Bereft Mother Zara Sabin 785
The Listening Ones Leslie Savage Clark 785
Wild Geese Matia McClelland Burk 785
Snowbird Ethel Jacobson 786
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Serving With Full Intent of Heart
President Belle S. Spafford
[Address Delivered at the General Session of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, October 5, i960].
DURING the past year or two,
through the consideration of
the First Presidency, it has
been my opportunity and privilege
to have a number of unique and im-
pressive experiences related to, but
not ncessarily a part of, the work
of Relief Society. These experiences
have brought me into contact with
many persons not of our Church —
persons of wide experience, broad
influence, and generally speaking of
good motive. I have had oppor-
tunity at least to glimpse in wide
focus, conditions as they exist in a
number of places in our own and
foreign lands.
These experiences have left me
impressd with the fast pace at
which the world is moving — the
tremendous changes that are taking
place in home, family, and com-
munity life, the strange standards by
which people judge acceptable be-
havior, the struggle that is going on
for the possession of worldly goods.
Materialism appears to be en-
throned, with the best efforts of
some of the ablest of people being
directed toward enhancing it and at-
tracting to it a worshipful following.
The acquisition of worldly goods
seems to be the paramount goal of
the masses; and the measure of suc-
cess, what one gets, rather than what
one gives. All too often the attitude
exists that for each effort made in
behalf of another, one should be
paid; that only the foolish would
give of himself without seeing some
Page 712
place on the horizon some personal
advantage.
The imbalance in the lives of peo-
ple seems to call for a re-evaluation
of what makes life poised, happy,
and genuinely successful. It appears
that there is need for society to be
more responsive to the enduring,
deep-seated, spiritual needs of man-
kind—the need for inner peace,
emotional satisfaction, and strength-
ened character.
These values do not accrue through
absorption in the acquisition of ma-
terial goods and the enjoyment of a
so-called prosperous life, nor through
the pursuit of self-interests. Rather,
they accrue through subordinating
our private interests to the para-
mount interests of our fellow men.
They come through utilizing at least
a portion of our time and energies
in uplifting others and making life's
path a bit more smooth for them.
In the Doctrine and Covenants,
Section 6, verse 7, we are admon-
ished: "Seek not for riches but for
wisdom, and behold, the mysteries
of God shall be unfolded unto you,
and then shall you be made rich."
In the light of present-day trends
and conditions, it appears that it
would be wisdom for people every-
where to exercise stricter self-disci-
pline, to be more considerate of the
needs and interests of others, and to
use their energies and abilities for
the things that really matter in the
long run of life, to put them to uses
that train the mind, enlarge the soul,
SERVING WITH FULL INTENT OF HEART
713
promote the spiritual health of the
individual and society, and make
character strong.
The Lord has told us by way of
commandment: 'Thou shalt love
the Lord thy God with all thy heart,
and with all thy soul, and with all
thy mind. This is the first and
great commandment. And the sec-
ond is like unto it, Thou shalt love
thy neighbor as thyself. On these
two commandments hang all the
law and the prophets'' (Mt.
22:37-40).
From the beginning of recorded
time, warm-hearted, good, generous-
ly inclined human beings have lived
the great law of brotherhood. They
have shared their friendship, their
strength, their hospitality, and their
abilities with others. They have fed
the hungry, cared for the sick, com-
forted the bereaved, and befriended
the lonely with no thought of per-
sonal recompense. Yet, while seek-
ing no recompense, they have literal-
ly tapped the deep well springs of
true happiness and received rewards
of eternal value.
HTODAY, there is urgent need to
intensify this selfless free-will
service. It is being called for on
every hand in increasing amounts
and for varied types of activities.
It is referred to in the popular ver-
nacular as 'Voluntary service." De-
fined, voluntary service means the
giving of one's time and service to
a specific activity of one's own free
will and choice without any finan-
cial compensation. Such service may
be given by the professionally
trained or the non-professional. It
tolerates no age limits. The child
with his boundless energies, the
teen-ager of good will, the mature
person of wisdom and experience-
all may devote themselves to it and
find satisfaction in so doing. To
countless retired persons, it is the
happy, contructive answer to the
question: "What may I do with my
spare time?" Voluntary service lays
no claim on any specified block of
time that must be applied equally to
all. Each person may give each bit
of time and each type of service that
he is willing and able to give.
It is true that many factors enter
into the quality of one's service.
Service given from a sense of duty
or with restraint and reservations,
service given grudgingly, that given
for personal recognition, or for other
selfish ends, often falls short of a
realization of its greatest good.
I was interested in reading a warn-
ing sounded to a group of volunteers
recently, wherein it was said that
every volunteer's orientation should
include a stern warning on what was
called "creeping professionalism."
The charge was made that every now
and then, especially in large organ-
izations using many volunteers, that
the volunteer sometimes becomes so
capable at her work and so at home
in the work situation, that instead of
bringing to the task at hand a
warmth and gentleness, such valu-
able elements in the work of the
volunteer, she tends to adopt an
impersonal efficiency. When the
volunteer at the hostess desk begins
to give short answers and the woman
at the message counter is in such a
rush that she gives no answer at
all, it is time for a frank appraisal
of her worth as a volunteer, it was
stated.
A conception of excellence, of
course, should imbue the volunteer
in her free-will service, but just as it
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should in any other activity in which
she may engage. And excellence
can be achieved in human relations
and in free-will service. Individuals
at their many levels of ability, giv-
ing free-will service, must accept
the need for high standards of per-
formance and try to achieve those
standards within the limits possible
for them, if they would enjoy the
full rewards of their labors.
I know of no more important
elements of excellence in the giving
of service than to give with full in-
tent of heart. In Moroni 7:6-8, we
read:
For behold, God hath said a man being
evil cannot do that which is good; for if
he offereth a gift, or prayeth unto God,
except he shall do it with real intent it
profiteth him nothing.
For behold, it is not counted unto him
for righteousness.
For behold, if a man being evil giveth
a gift, he doeth it grudgingly; wherefore
it is counted unto him the same as if he
had retained the gift. . . .
Just as there should be excellence
and full intent of heart in the per-
formance of free-will service, so it is
equally important that it be discrimi-
nately rendered and wisely directed;
otherwise it could be unfair both to
the giver and the recipient, also to
the cause one is trying to serve.
^HAT which is given impulsively
and prompted by strong emo-
tional feelings but is undirected,
often falls short of its goal. Also,
the limitations of the individual
working alone, regardless of how
willing, competent, and resourceful
he may be, often precludes the possi-
bility of full service.
So it has been found that exclu-
sive of the little loving acts of person-
al kindness which we all perform as
individuals from time to time for
those about us, free-will service is
most productive of good when it is
organized and well directed.
Blessed indeed were the women
of the Church when the Lord gave
to them an organization through
which their humanitarian impulses
might find expression in an organ-
ized and divinely directed way. It
is my conviction that in founding
Relief Society and assigning to it
humanitarian and compassionate
service, the Lord's plan was not
alone for the relief of the distressed
and the amelioration of human
woes, but for the soul growth and
life enrichment of all of his daugh-
ters.
For more than 118 years, Relief
Society has been highly respected
for its humanitarian service. The
assignment to render such service
has remained constant, but the
changing conditions of each era have
made it necessary to adapt the serv-
ices to existing needs. For example,
in the early days of the Church,
care of the sick called for nurse train-
ing classes to be conducted by Relief
Society, and bedside nursing care in
the homes was the common practice
in the care of the sick. Today, with
the trend toward hospitalization for
the sick, there is less call, in propor-
tion to our membership, for bedside
nursing care in the homes. Excel-
lent courses in nurse training are
conveniently available in most com-
munities. Relief Society activities,
therefore, lean more toward home-
making service for the convalescent
ill and the recruitment of women for
nurse training classes conducted by
others.
We are told that in 1855 an infant
had a life expectancy of 40 years. In
SERVING WITH FULL INTENT OF HEART
715
1900 this had increased to 50 years.
Now, the average life expectancy,
according to life insurance statistics,
is 71.8 years for women and 67.3
years for men. Life spans of 80 to
100 years are not uncommon today.
This calls for emphasis on the care
of the aged, which only a few years
ago was not a particularly pro-
nounced need.
Regardless of the particular needs
of each era and the point of em-
phasis in our services, the same in-
tent of heart has prevailed in the
Society's free-will offerings, and a
steadily increasing volume of serv-
ice, in harmony with the increased
membership of the Church and the
Society, has been given. Statistics,
though not very interesting in them-
selves, nonetheless tell a dramatic
story insofar as the volume of hu-
manitarian service rendered by the
Society as a whole is concerned.
During the year 1959 more than
300,000 visits were made to the sick
and homebound, many of whom
were the aged. There were 35,000
eight-hour days bedside nursing care
given to the sick. Approximately
three-quarters million hours of serv-
ice were contributed by the sisters
of the Church to the Church Wel-
fare Program, this exclusive of the
special services of ward presidents
and other Relief Society officers
which are a part of their regular as-
assignments as officers of the So-
ciety.
T^HE intent of heart on the part
of the sisters is shown in nar-
rative reports and in correspondence
received by the General Board. At
the risk of giving examples with
which some of you may be familiar,
may I give a few illustrations from
these sources.
First, a quotation from a recent
letter received from a mission Relief
Society president:
It is a pleasure to give such a favorable
report of the part the Relief Society organ-
ization played during our recent tidal wave,
that was such a disaster in Hilo, Hawaii.
As you probably know, the wave hit the
city at one o'clock in the morning. By
daylight the Relief Society sisters had their
blankets and clothing from their welfare
projects on the way to the presidency of
the South Hawaii District. Each Relief
Society on the outside islands had called
to offer help in every way possible for
those in need.
We lost one member of the Church.
Six families lost the homes they were
living in. Sixteen members were taken
into the Church building and temporarily
housed until homes could be made ready
for them by the week end. Others are
living with family members.
I feel I have done so little to warrant
my membership in the Relief Society
organization after seeing how united the
sisters become in time of disaster.
A Relief Society president of a
ward made up largely of young
mothers, reports:
Three years ago in March a mother in
our ward was stricken with a severe case
of crippling arthritis. At the present time
she is practically bedridden.
Since she was first afflicted, the Relief
Society sisters have taken her, at first once
a week and now twice a week, to the hos-
pital for therapy. In the beginning I
assumed this responsibility. Later, other
sisters were called upon to assist. As it
was realized that this would be a long-time
service, the sisters who had cars and were
willing to help were organized with one
sister being placed in charge, so that each
in turn could perform the service. So
many of the sisters have been willing to
assist that their service is required only
about once each four months. In the
three-year period only one sister has shown
the least reluctance to take her turn, and
that because she said she couldn't stand
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to see the pain of the ill sister if she hit
a bump or had to come to a short stop.
Now this mother is so sorely afflicted
that the one taking her to the hospital
must call at the home sufficiently early to
help her dress. They leave for the hospital
at 12:30 and return about 4 p.m.
The afflicted sister eagerly looks for-
ward to the days when she goes to the
hospital, not alone for the physical relief
of pain it brings her, but because it is her
only opportunity to get out. She enjoys
the ride and the association with her sis-
ters of Relief Society.
One Relief Society sister who lives near-
by looks in on her every day. She often
takes her family hour program into the
home of the afflicted mother. House-
keeping help is given from time to time,
and one Relief Society member takes spe-
cial foods and fruits as needed into the
home.
In reporting this service, the presi-
dent made an interesting observa-
tion. She said, "This service has
had a tremendous unifying influence
upon the sisters of our Relief So-
ciety."
A letter of appreciation for the
opportunity to serve was recently
received by the General Board. The
sister states:
I am sixtv-four years old. I have been
a member of Relief Society since I was
twenty. I live alone and for the past few
months I haven't felt very well, although
I must confess I have not been sick.
Early this week, the Relief Society presi-
dent asked if I would help out a little
in the home of a widowed mother in the
ward who has six small children. The
mother had an injured leg and had to keep
off it for two days.
I spent both days in this home. I think
I have never worked harder in my life,
and I know I have never been more
needed.
Today I am home and expected to be
completely worn out. Instead, I feel fine.
I have not felt so good in spirit for
months. I am so glad I could be helpful
that I felt I should write to you and let
you know my feelings. Relief Society has
been a blessing to me ever since I joined
it more than forty years ago.
''PHIS coming year approximately
400 Latter-day Saint mothers in
Utah will open their homes to one
or more Indian children for the
school year on an entirely free-will
basis. These children are participat-
ing in the Indian Student Place-
ment Program conducted by Relief
Society under the direction of Elder
Spencer W. Kimball and Elder
Mark E. Petersen, of the Council of
the Twelve. The program pro-
vides the children opportunities for
schooling as well as bringing to them
other benefits not available to them
on the reservation.
At the recent health clinic held
for the children, there was a total
of 151 volunteer workers consisting
of doctors, dentists, laboratory tech-
nicians, practical and registered
nurses, Relief Society sisters, and
others. Some of the Relief Society
sisters were at their posts of duty as
early as four o'clock in the morning
in order to have breakfat ready for
the children upon their arrival at the
center at five a.m. The Relief So-
ciety sisters alone gave a total of
925 hours of service.
In compliance with the directive
of the Prophet Joseph Smith that
the Society should "seek after ob-
jects of charity," approximately
88,000 sisters, referred to as visiting
teachers, visit Latter-day Saint
homes on a monthly basis, con-
cerned with the spiritual and tem-
poral well-being of the home. The
requirements of no Latter-day Saint
family need go undiscovered as long
as this program fully functions.
Thus, Relief Society presses on in
its work of service, and there re-
dounds to those who willingly give
of themselves a sweetness and rich-
ness of life, the inner peace that com-
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717
panions well-doing, and a spiritual
and character strength that is a for-
tress to them in meeting the vicissi-
tudes of their own lives. Thus,
Relief Society builds a great sister-
hood united in a day of individual
or collective trouble.
Thus, Relief Society must con-
tinue on, ever building on the great
record of the past. In view of pres-
ent day trends and conditions, how-
ever, Relief Society must give alert
and thoughtful attention to safe-
guarding its long and honored tradi-
tion of human helpfulness. As the
Church grows in numbers, the calls
for help are bound to increase. As
changes continue in individual, fam-
ily, and community life, Relief So-
ciety undoubtedly will be required
to enter into new and expanded pro-
grams of helpfulness.
The Society can meet its obliga-
tions only insofar as its individual
members are willing to submerge
self and with full mind and heart
give of their time and energies in re-
sponse to the calls made of them by
the Society.
The trends of the times, the ever-
growing tendency for people to con-
sider their material well-being above
all else, the countless false values
crowding in upon women and pre-
senting themselves not only as ac-
ceptable, but as of true worth and to
be desired, demand that Relief So-
ciety women as individuals evaluate
their thinking and conduct. Each
might well ask herself, 'Tor what
am I really striving in life? Are the
values which I hold dear those
which the teachings of the Church,
time, and experience have proved to
be of genuine and enduring worth?"
The values which we accept with
a consenting mind and willing heart
rule in the determination of our
conduct and in the activities to
which we devote ourselves.
The first and second great com-
mandments given by the Father —
Love the Lord thy God and thy
neighbour as thyself— have not been
rescinded, nor will they ever be be-
cause they are fundamental for
man's eternal well-being.
Someone has wisely said, "At the
close of life the question will not be
how much have you got, but how
much have you given; not how much
have vou won, but how much have
you done; not how much have you
saved, but how much have you
shared; not how much have vou
been honored, but how much have
you loved and served?"
Gospel Doctrine records President
Joseph F. Smith as saying, "The im-
portant consideration is not how
long we can live, but how well we
can learn the lessons of life, and
discharge our duties and obligations
to God and to one another" (Gospel
Doctrine, 6th Edition, page 27).
My earnest prayer is that the work
of Relief Society may kindle in the
heart of every one of its members,
the spark of desire to love and to
serve, and that it may fan it into
full and glowing flame so that every
one of us may enjoy the attendant
blessings.
Making a Heaven at Home
Counselor Marianne C. Sharp
[Address Delivered at the General Session of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, October 5, 1960]
PRESIDENT Heber C. Kim-
ball once said, "The first place
to begin to make a heaven, is
to make it at home" (/. D. I, page
357)-
We are all looking forward to
going' to heaven. It is a sobering
thought that the first place to make
a heaven is to make heaven at home.
Not to leave behind the frustrations,
worries, misunderstandings, disap-
pointments, faults, and mistakes
that may be in the home and travel
to a place where peace and love
reign, but to remain at home and
make it into a heaven.
If home is to be a heaven, the
spirit of the Lord will dwell there.
Wives will be obedient to their hus-
bands in righteousness. Children
will be taught obedience to their
fathers by the mothers. Family
members will serve one another in
love. Children will be taught light
and truth. Time will be spent in
worthwhile work. The intellect and
heart both will be trained.
This description of a home made
into a heaven does sound heavenly,
but a mother knows just how hard
it is to bring about this condition.
In order to make her home a heaven,
a mother needs to keep close to the
Lord. She needs to study his com-
mandments: first, to learn them;
second, to train herself to obey
them; and third, to bring up her
children in light and truth. She
realizes that 'The glory of God is
intelligence," and one of the basic
Page 718
duties of the home is to educate the
children.
President Brigham Young said:
Education commences with the mother,
and the child in connection. ... It de-
pends in a great degree upon the mother
as to what children receive, in early age,
of principle of every description, pertain-
ing to all that can be learned by the hu-
man family. . . . The character of a person
is formed through life, to a greater or less
degree, by the teachings of the mother.
The traits of early impression that she
gives the child, will be characteristic points
in his character through every avenue of
his mortal existence (/. D. J, pp. 66, 67).
In 1833, the Lord reproved some
of his servants for not bringing up
their children in light and truth. In
1842, the Prophet Joseph Smith
turned the key for women in this last
dispensation and gave to them,
through inspiration, the Relief So-
ciety.
Early in the organization, the
Prophet told the members he would
"point out the way for them to con-
duct themselves that they might act
according to the will of God."
Among many other directives, he
said:
Let this Society teach women how to
behave towards their husbands, to treat
them with mildness and affection. . . .
He exhorted the sisters always to concen-
trate their faith and prayers for, and place
confidence in their husbands, whom God
has appointed for them to honor. . . . Let
your labors be mostly confined to those
around you, in the circle of your own
acquaintance, as far as knowledge is con-
cerned, it may extend to all the world.
MAKING A HEAVEN AT HOME
719
[And the Prophet promised that] knowl-
edge and intelligence shall flow down from
this time henceforth (D. H. C. I, pp.
604, 606, 607).
T N order for Relief Society to func-
tion properly, the Prophet Joseph
directed, "You will rceive instruc-
tions through the order of the
Priesthood" (D.H.C. IV, page 607).
This provision is a safeguard and
the greatest blessing, as Relief So-
ciety imparts truth and light to its
members. With lessons approved
by the Brethren, it carries on an
educational program— not to attain
to an academic degree, not to impart
learning for learning's sake, but to
impart light and truth and move the
sisters to implement the truth in
their own lives and in the lives of
their children.
Mothers at the present time are
studying The Doctrine and Cove-
nants in the theology course, learn-
ing "the doctrine of the Kingdom"
(D & C 88:77).
In the literature course, members
are gaining understanding and in-
sight into different peoples of dif-
ferent times. Their knowledge is
broadened in history and human
character out of the writings of
great authors of poetry and prose.
This understanding assists a mother
to help her children with their
homework and results in her pro-
viding suitable books of enduring
worth at Christmas and on birth-
days for her children, to prevent
their bringing into the home trashy
and even soul-destroying books avail-
able at corner stores.
The social science lessons, at pres-
ent, are teaching us to look at our-
selves, to see what we believe and
the values we have, and to compare
them with revealed truth, to the end
that we may live in harmony with
the principles of the gospel.
The aim of every course taught in
Relief Society is to teach truth and
light to Latter-day Saint women that
they may teach it to their children.
We expect every course will be
taught in the spirit of the gospel.
Every lesson should give better
understanding to each sister and in-
fluence her to better living. It
should increase, or root deeper, as
necessary, her living testimony of
the gospel and the knowledge that
Jesus is the Christ, the Son of the
living God, and that Joseph Smith
was a prophet of the Lord. The
teachings of the present Prophet,
Seer, and Revelator, and those of the
other Brethren living today, carry
conviction to the hearts of Relief
Society members. The sisters be-
come enlightened with "gospel
scholarship."
It would be impossible for me,
personally, to measure the truth and
light that have come as the result of
Relief Society educational courses
over the years and the study arising
from them. And the lesson courses
are but a part of the blessings to be
gained from Relief Society. Nor
could I weigh the truth and light
that are mine as the result of the
values my mother received from
Relief Society or her mother before
her.
Surely, the Lord gave Relief
Society to his daughters to help
them to make a heaven at home.
It is offered to every woman of good
character. It entails a giving of love
and devoted service, of study and
personal improvement, and its re-
wards are poured out on the indi-
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vidual sister and on her family in a "the home is a holy place. It has
continual radiance of truth and its pattern in the Heavens/' that
light. "we are working out the family plan
May every Latter-day Saint worn- of the celestial family." May every
an seek after these priceless bless- sister resolve that "The first place to
ings, for we must never forget, in begin to make a heaven, is to make
the words of President Clark, that it at home," I pray.
Homemaking - A Noble Calling
and Privilege
Counselor Louise W. Madsen
[Address Delivered at the General Session of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, October 5, i960]
ONE of the most impressive
teachings of President Brig-
ham Young, and one which
was present in many of his sermons,
concerns the great value of life on
this earth. In one address he said:
The people are striving with all their
might to learn the things of God; but if
I could only get them to understand the
work and worth of their present life, I
should feel well satisfied. We talk and
think a good deal of the life that is to
come, and the life-labour of the Christian
part of the world is to prepare for that.
The time we now occupy is in eternity;
it is a portion of eternity. Our present
life is just as much a life in eternity as
the life of any being can possibly be
(Journal oi Discourses, 9, page 168).
In a short sermon addressed to
the sisters, he quoted remarks fre-
quently heard from the sisters ex-
pressing their willingness to "do
something to build up the King-
dom" if they had it in their pow-
er. His suggestion to them was,
"Why not take hold and attend to
your household affairs, and thus help
build up the Kingdom of God?"
(Journal of Discourses 11, page 351 ) .
This penetrating question enlight-
ens our whole concept of the work
of women. The ordinary, seemingly
mundane tasks of housekeeping and
homemaking have a spiritual value
which influences the eternal life of
families. The better the efforts of
women in this direction, the more
they are building up the kingdom.
In the great eras of peace and
righteousness in Nephite history, the
women did "spin, and toil, and
work, and work all manner of fine
linen, yea, and cloth of every
kind . . . and thus we did prosper
in the land." (Mosiah 10:5; see
Helaman 6:13).
The work of women in attending
to their household tasks contributed
to the "continual peace" which
characterized those eras. But when
the men used their stores of wealth
for world power and warlike pur-
poses, and the women used their
beautiful cloth merely for personal
adornment, and no longer spun and
toiled and worked and "did begin
to dwindle in unbelief," then evil
was again abroad in the land.
HOMEMAKING— A NOBLE CALLING AND PRIVILEGE
721
With these and many like ex-
amples throughout our religious his-
tory confirming the fact that the
work of women in the home is a
vital part of the building of the
kingdom, let us answer the question
propounded by President Brigham
Young. Why not take hold and
attend to our household affairs with
the same goal of perfection, the
same willingness to do good, the
same desire to follow the teachings
of the Church, and the same effort
to serve our Father in heaven
through our service to his children
as should characterize all of our
activities in preparation for exalta-
tion?
Latter-day Saint women should be
exemplary wives and mothers. The
Lord has given to his daughters an
honored and blessed position and
calling. It is possible that women
today need to be reminded and en-
couraged to follow the Church
teachings relative to the rightful
place and work of women.
It is vital to the well-being of a
woman that she succeed in the tasks
God has assigned her. This success
comes with full understanding and
acceptance of the work she must do.
The teachings of the Church in
regard to respectful support of her
husband's Priesthood and calling as
head of the home, and also of her
responsibilities to her children, are
her guide. A woman, inadequate as
a homemaker and deficient as a
housekeeper, seldom has a truly hap-
py husband and children, and may
fail to reach her potential stature.
But a woman, happily aware of her
opportunities to make this portion
of eternity beautiful and happy, can
magnify this calling.
H
OMEMAKING is an art involv-
ing many skills. A degree of
proficiency in all of them is expect-
ed. Prudence in management,
cleanliness in her home, ability to
sew, cook, create beauty and provide
an atmosphere conducive to family
happiness and progression, are the
attributes required. Women raise
their eyes to heights beyond mere
competence and learn to do com-
mon things uncommonly well.
Paeans of praise have attended
the provident housewife all through
the ages. Thrift and wise saving are
always commendable. Waste is sin-
ful, whether it be waste of time,
money, food, or clothing. "Waste
not, want not" is an adage whose
message has been taught by prophet,
philosopher, and economist alike.
Prudence and wisdom in the man-
agement of family income have
much to do with family happiness.
"In the well-ordered home we
may experience a taste of heaven"
(President David O. McKay). A
well-ordered home is clean and neat
and shows at all times the loving
efforts of those who care. The Lord
said, "Let all things be done in
cleanliness before me" (D & C
42:41). One cannot imagine a
home providing a "taste of heaven"
that is not clean. The excellency
of the heavens and the beauty there-
in are a pattern for homes here on
earth. Confusion and disorder are
distracting influences that may be
destructive of family harmony. The
spirit of the Lord cannot dwell
where uncleanliness and confusion
abide.
The ability to sew proficiently
should be cultivated. There are
many articles of apparel, children's
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clothing and household furnishings,
whose ''beauty is the beauty of the
work of thine own hands/' the mak-
ing of which may effect substantial
savings. Home is more attractive to
all concerned if mother is a good
cook. The challenge arises to recog-
nize and see realistically the effect
of one's homemaking and house-
keeping on the lives of one's family.
To provide an appropriate setting
for their progress and joyous living
is a woman's duty.
If homes are right in every respect,
in these physical things as well as in
the spiritual and cultural, they are
the greatest single stabilizer of the
individual. Home will be the but-
tress from the perplexities of the
world, the source of true happiness,
and the haven of righteousness.
It is the responsibility of Relief
Society to keep before the women
of the Church their basic place in
the home, and help them realize the
high calling and privilege of woman-
kind. Fundamental to the develop-
ment of refined, gracious, spiritual
women is a recognition of their
noblest calling, wife and mother.
Relief Society should teach the
multiplicity of skills requisite to the
most beautiful, joyful family living,
that in this phase of eternal life the
woman contributes that which it is
her calling to give. The work meet-
ing stands out in a glow of im-
portance when its purposes are
viewed in the light of what its teach-
ing may mean in aiding the sisters
to these ends.
Let us not be like the men and
women the prophet deplored who
were "too wise to be taught" and re-
fuse to see that work — housework,
sewing, cooking, attending to our
household affairs — are part of the
building up of the kingdom. Let a
renewed, positive attitude toward
the glory of happy, well-cared for
families guide us in seeking to be
skillful in the art of homemaking.
A well-orderd, well-governed home
should be the delight of every Lat-
ter-day Saint woman because the
Lord has said it is so.
Report and Official Instructions
President Belle S. SpafTord
[Condensed from the text given at the Officers Meeting of the Annual General
Relief Society Conference, October 5, i960]
A REPORT of the status of
Relief Society, based large-
ly on information contained
in the Annual Report of the Society,
has long been a feature of this ses-
sion of the Annual General Con-
ference. General increases are
noted in many aspects of the work
for 1959. There are some divisions,
however, which do not show growth.
In some instances there appears to
be justifiable reason for this. In
others it seems that a greater aware-
ness of subtle declines is needed
and intensified effort in dealing with
the problems.
REPORT AND OFFICIAL INSTRUCTIONS
723
General Board
Since our last general conference,
the General Board has been strength-
ened by the addition of four new
members: Alice L. Wilkinson, Brig-
ham Young University Stake; La-
Priel S. Bunker, Parleys Stake; Marie
C. Richards, Salt Lake Stake; and
Irene W. Buehner, Parleys Stake.
Organizations and Reorganizations
Our Annual Report shows that
during 1959 there were nineteen
new stakes created and one new mis-
sion. There were 107 new ward
organizations in the stakes and
twenty-two new branch organiza-
tions in the missions, making at the
close of 1959 a total of 336 stake
and mission organizations, and 4,450
ward and branch organizations.
Since January i960, the first stake
in Great Britain has been formed —
the Manchester Stake, organized
March 27, and the first stake in far-
away Australia— the Sydney Stake,
also organized March 27.
The Missions
We note an ever-increasing trend
in missions towards strengthening
the work of the Society through
careful teaching of standard pro-
cedures. Also, great effort is being
put forth to develop leadership
among the sisters. In a number of
instances, mission Relief Society
boards have been appointed; and
district boards, comparable to stake
boards, operate in most missions.
Leadership meetings are increasing
in number and helps offered en-
compass most aspects of the work
and are of high standard. The edu-
cational program seems to be well
accepted in the missions.
The bulletins and publications
issued by the various missions are so
prepared as to be effective in promot-
ing Relief Society work. We were
delighted to receive recently the
publication of the Chinese Mission
called The Voice of the Saints
issued in the Chinese language with
English translations. The recent
copy was a "special Relief Society
issue."
Membership, the collective body
of Latter-day Saint women for
whom the Society is designed, and
upon whom we must rely in meeting
our obligations to the Church as an
auxiliary of the Church, requires
continuous attention on the part of
Relief Society officers. During 1959
there were 10,199 women added to
the membership rolls. The total
membership at the close of the year
was 203,752. Figures indicate, how-
ever, that we have enrolled only
about fifty per cent of the potential
eligible members.
Strong and well-organized appeals
should be made to enlist unenrollcd
sisters as members. They will not
come to you uninvited and unso-
licited.
Ward presidents should know the
names of such sisters within the
ward; then they should wisely de-
termine the individual reasons for
their nonmembership, and with con-
summate skill, wisdom, and often
patience, endeavor to obtain their
enrollment and support.
It is recognized that there is a
relationship between the number of
women enrolled and Magazine per-
centages, as well as the amount of
membership dues which must be
submitted to the stake board. It
is not the spirit of Relief Society,
however, because of a few problems
which may arise incident to these
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relationships, for ward officers to be
lax in their efforts to enroll new
members or to retain all present
members.
For the first time in many years,
a decline in average attendance at
meetings for the general member-
ship is noted. While it appears very
slight, almost negligible, being only
one-tenth of one per cent, had we
maintained that one-tenth of one
per cent, we would have had over
200 more women in attendance
each week, or the equivalent of two
strong Relief Societies.
We are aware that there are in-
fluences difficult to cope with which
adversely affect attendance records,
such as the increasing number of
aging members who are homebound,
and the ever-increasing number of
women who are employed. None-
theless, it is the opinion of the Gen-
eral Board that many women whose
attendance is irregular could be
helped to see the advantages of
regularity, and that effective attend-
ance appeals could be made to sis-
ters who have no valid reason for
nonattendance. This would, we
believe, materially increase the at-
tendance figures without, in any
way, running counter to established
policies.
It is realized that our average
attendance figures, which this year
are 37.8% of the enrolled members,
could be interpreted as Relief So-
ciety actually reaching only 18.37%
of the approximately 418,551 eligible
women in the Church. We take a
little comfort in the fact that this is
not true, since attendance is inter-
mittent on the part of many mem-
bers, and far more women are actual-
ly reached, at least occasionally, than
the average attendance figures seem
to indicate.
Visiting Teaching
Relief Society is the handmaid of
the Priesthood in "looking to the
wants of the poor, searching after
objects of charity, and in administer-
ing to their wants." I know of no
more ideal procedure to divine the
temporal and spiritual needs of our
Latter-day Saint families than
through the well-organized svstem
of Relief Society visiting teaching.
Last year approximately 88,000 visit-
ing teachers made a total of three
and a half million visits to Latter-
day Saint homes, or a Church-wide
average of approximately 8V2 visits
per family. The stakes made an
average of 9.6 visits per family and
the missions an average of 3.2 visits.
Large figures, while impressive, are
sometimes deceptive. While the
total of three and a half million
represents a tremendous amount of
visiting, the increase of approximate-
ly 180,000 visits over the previous
year was not in proportion to the
increase of 31,313 Latter-day Saint
families.
In one-third of all visits made, the
records show no one was at home.
This means that these mothers were
not reached other than by the notice
of visit slips.
This is a matter of concern to us.
It is our opinion that this is a reflec-
tion of the economic and social con-
ditions of our times, which more
and more tend to influence mothers
to spend time outside their homes,
rather than being evidence of poor
visiting teaching procedures. None-
theless, we must be aware of what
is happening, and we must do every-
thing possible within the framework
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725
of General Board regulations to cope
with the situation.
We suggest to you that there is
a definite relationship between the
strength of the visiting teaching pro-
gram and membership. If we had
more members, we would have a
larger reservoir of teachers. If we
had more teachers, we could de-
crease the size of visiting teacher
districts. If we had smaller districts,
we might time visits more appro-
priately to reach sisters during the
hours and days when they are at
home.
We are pleased to advise you that
the visiting teaching film "Unto the
Least of These" is now available for
the use of wards. It may be obtained
from the Deseret Book Company in
the same manner and for the same
price as for stakes.
Church Welfare
A creditable record of support of
the Church Welfare Program was
made during 1959. There were ap-
proximately 700,000 hours of service
contributed to this program by the
girls and women of the Church up-
on assignment of Relief Society —
an increase over the previous year
of almost 200,000 hours. Ward Re-
lief Society presidents made 75,000
family visits under the direction of
their respective bishops.
Requests are still coming from
Relief Society presidents who are
assigned to be group leaders in bi-
monthly regional welfare meetings
for suggestions as to what might
properly be taken up in these meet-
ings. We refer to suggestions given
in the 1959 Official Instructions and
published in the November Relief
Society Magazine, page 731.
In addition, we suggest that care-
ful attention be given to instructions
in the welfare meetings held in con-
junction with quarterly conferences.
Those instructions which apply to
Relief Society might be referred to
the executive committee of the
regional council for consideration as
a part of the agenda for your de-
partmental meetings.
Compassionate Services
The figures of the 1959 Annual
Report do not give a full picture of
the compassionate services. Past
Annual Reports have called only for
visits to the sick and homebound,
which remain somewhat constant
from year to year; clays care of the
sick, which have slowly declined in
number due to fewer calls for the
service; and assistance in dressing
bodies for burial and help in connec-
tion with funerals, which also show
decline due to fewer calls for the
service. The i960 Annual Report,
however, should give a better pic-
ture of the compassionate service
rendered by the Society, inasmuch
as a new column has been added to
the Record Book, wherein you are
recording the number of hours of
other types of compassionate service
in addition to those previously list-
ed. The nature of our compassion-
ate services has been changed with
changing times and needs, and this
year's records have been made more
nearly to conform to this change.
Educational Program
Relief Society has always been
educational in nature. Great care
is exercised to give the sisters a
rounded education in religion, the
social sciences, in cultural fields, and
in the practical homemaking arts
and skills. During 1959 there were
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over 1 67ooo women teaching the Re-
lief Society courses of study, most of
whom devoted long hours in pre-
paring the lessons for presentation
in the meetings. All courses of
study for 1960-61, except the work
meeting course, "Caring for the
Sick in the Home," are continua-
tions of the courses taught during
the past year. Lessons for the forth-
coming year will be considered in
the departmental meetings of this
conference.
Work Meeting
The work meeting is calling for
increased ingenuity and resource-
fulness on the part of the leaders.
This meeting should be made invit-
ing, practical, and helpful to the
sisters in their homemaking.
We appreciate your response to
the new work meeting course, "Car-
ing for the Sick in the Home." In
the spring conventions, instruction
was given that the one hour allotted
for this discussion be divided into
two periods — thirty minutes for
formal presentation and thirty min-
utes for demonstration. It is now
noted that this may not always be a
suitable apportionment of time.
Some lessons may require short pe-
riods of instruction interspersed with
short periods of demonstration,
while still others may require a
large portion of the time for demon-
stration. The leaders are therefore
authorized to apportion time ac-
cording to the best interests of the
instruction.
Work Meeting
Supplies Department
A letter has recently been mailed
to Relief Society presidents advising
them that the General Board is now
operating a Work Meeting Supplies
Department as an accommodation
to Relief Societies. Items such as
quilt batts, stamped goods, yardage,
dish towels, linen handkerchiefs, and
similar articles may be purchased by
Relief Societies at wholesale prices.
This courtesy cannot be extended to
individuals. Full details, including
the location and a price list, are
included with the letter.
Bazaars
Questions are still reaching the
General Board relative to bazaars.
The General Board fully endorses
bazaars as an appropriate activity
for Relief Society. The bazaar, in
addition to providing opportunity
for raising funds, motivates the sew-
ing program of the Society.
The General Board recommends
that insofar as possible, the work
meting itself should be the first and
major source of supply for bazaar
articles. Where sufficient articles for
a successful bazaar cannot be pro-
duced in this way, the Society may
provide the materials and assign sis-
ters who are in a position to do so,
to make specified articles at home.
If additional articles are still needed,
a general announcement of the need
might be made in a Relief Society
meting, with the types of articles
specified, and the sisters be invited
to donate such articles, if they care
to do so. Such an announcement
would not place any sister in an em-
barrassing position if she cannot
contribute an article, or does not
care to do so. The General Board
discourages written solicitation of
the ward sisters for gifts of articles
to be sold at bazaars.
REPORT AND OFFICIAL INSTRUCTIONS
727
Music
The music program of Relief So-
ciety is. one in which we rejoice. It
is good for women to worship to-
gether in song. In the Doctrine and
Covenants, Section 25, verse 12, the
Lord tells us: "For my soul delight-
eth in the song of the heart; yea, the
song of the righteous is a prayer
unto me, and it shall be answered
with a blessing upon their heads."
Therefore we encourage good, spirit-
ed congregational singing in Relief
Society meetings.
The 3,126 Singing Mothers chor-
uses throughout the Church are a
joy to the 46,165 sisters who par-
ticipate in them and a great asset to
the Society.
Relief Society Magazine
Magazine representatives are to be
commended for the excellence of
their work. Through their diligence,
supported bv Relief Society presi-
dents, the circulation at the close of
the year was 162,589, an increase
over the previous year of 7,961 sub-
scriptions. There were 258 stakes
on the Honor Roll in 1959, an in-
crease of 11 over 1958. Sixteen mis-
sions have been on the Honor Roll
for the past three years. In 1959
there were 47 more mission branch-
es on the Honor Roll than in 1958.
Tomorrow, stake Magazine repre-
sentatives will join with presidencies
to view a Magazine presentation pre-
pared by Sister Alberta H. Christen-
sen of the General Board, entitled
"As a Voice Speaking," which we
hope will be helpful to you in the
Magazine promotion program. This
presentation will be available to
stakes, missions, and local Societies.
Stake Boards
Sisters, I remind you that Relief
Society is a mature, experienced,
adult organization. It was founded
under divine inspiration and it has
had inspired counsel and direction
for more than 118 years. We must
not be content with standards of
performance that are in any way
short of the best.
The Handbook of Instructions
places certain definite responsibili-
ties upon stake boards for the prop-
er conduct of the work and for the
maintenance of good standards
within the stake.
There has been confusion in some
stakes relative to the pattern of the
Relief Society stake board. Accord-
ing to our understanding, other
Church auxiliaries have recently
modified, in some selected stakes,
the pattern of their stake boards as
an experiment. These modifica-
tions do not apply to Relief Society.
The work of Relief Society is pe-
culiar to itself; many of our very
important duties are performed out-
side the regular meeting; special
obligations relative to the Church
Welfare Program and ward pro-
grams, conducted under the direc-
tion of the respective bishops, rest
heavily upon ward Relief Society
presidents and other workers.
Because of misunderstanding rela-
tive to this, we are authorized by our
advisors from the Council of the
Twelve, to instruct you at this meet-
ing that the approved patterns for
the Relief Society stake board are
as follows: A full Relief Society
stake board consists of twelve mem-
bers; namely, a president, two coun-
selors, secretary-treasurer, chorister,
organist, Magazine representative,
visiting teacher message leader, the-
ology class leader, work meeting
leader, literature class leader, and
social science class leader.
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In a comparatively few stakes,
where circumstances do not allow
for the twelve-member stake board,
the General Board suggests a modi-
fied stake board of eight members
as follows: president, two counsel-
ors, secretary-treasurer, theology class
leader, literature class leader, social
science class leader, and one sister
responsible for the work of both the
chorister and organist. In such an
arrangement, each member of the
presidency would handle the work
of one of the other remaining de-
partments, in addition to her own
special division of responsibility; i.e.,
the president would assume respon-
sibility for the Relief Society Maga-
zine work, the educational counelor,
the responsibility of the visiting
teacher message department, and
the work director counselor, the re-
sponsibility of the work meeting
leader. This modified stake board
places heavier responsibilities on the
presidency and on the person select-
ed to direct the music of the stake. It
means that no department may be
held in the leadership meeting for
ward Magazine representatives, since
the president must conduct the pres-
idencies department. The Magazine
work, therefore, must be promoted
by some means other than through
the leadership meeting; otherwise
the whole organization would suf-
fer through inadequate Magazine
circulation.
With the modified board, the
counselors could at no time meet
with the presidencies. Their re-
sponsibilities would be particularly
heavy with a modified stake board,
when we consider also the heavy
demands made of them in the wel-
fare work of the Church.
We would urge, therefore, that
even though a modified board must
be used as an expedient where ade-
quate leadership for a full board is
not available, that officers build to-
ward a full board at the earliest pos-
sible time.
Extra Copies of 1961 Convention
Materials to Be Made Available
We are pleased to announce that,
in response to numerous requests,
additional copies of the lesson helps
and selected administrative material
which will be prepared for the 1961
conventions will be made available
to the stakes, at a small cost, for dis-
tribution to the wards where stakes
desire this material. One set of the
material will be left with the stakes
without cost, as usual. The extra
copies must be ordered from the
General Board through the stake,
and not more than one copy per
ward can be allowed each stake.
This same rule will apply to the mis-
sions.
Church Missionary Program
As I look over this great gather-
ing of women — Relief Society of-
ficers, it is true, but nonetheless a
representative body of the woman-
hood of the Church — I realize how
dear is Relief Society to you, how
much you value your Church mem-
bership, how meaningful in your
lives are your testimonies of the
truthfulness of the gospel restored in
this dispensation through the Proph-
et Joseph Smith. I know how much
each one of you would rejoice if
every woman with whom you are
acquainted, be she relative or friend,
enjoyed these same blessings. There
is a way, sisters, whereby you may
help in a realization of this desire.
(Continued on page 784)
Temple Square in Salt Lake City
BRIEF HISTORY OF ITS GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT
Part II
Preston Nibley
Assistant Church Historian
The Endowment House
IN the fall of 1854, under the
direction of President Brigham
Young, workmen began to build,
in the northwest corner of the
Temple Block, a rather large two-
story, adobe building, known as
the Endowment House. President
Young once referred to the building
as "a temporary Temple." At that
time he said, "In consequence of our
having been driven from our homes,
and because of our destitute circum-
stances, the Lord permitted us to do
what we have done, namely to use
this Endowment House for Temple
purposes" (Journal of Discourses
18:263).
The Endowment House was com-
pleted and dedicated in May 1855,
and from that time until November
1889, it was in almost continuous
use, 'Tor administering sacred ordi-
nances, belonging exclusively to the
Church/' (My own dear parents,
Charles W. and Ellen Ricks Nibley
were married in this building in
March 1880.)
In November 1889, after three
temples had been erected in the
Territory at St. George, Manti, and
Courtesy Church Historian's Office
THE ENDOWMENT HOUSE, TEMPLE SQUARE, SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH
This historic building stood on the northwest corner of Temple Square. It was
dedicated in May 1855, and was used for ordinance work almost continuously until
November 1889, when it was torn down.
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Courtesy Church Historian's Office
THE LARGE TABERNACLE IN COURSE OF CONSTRUCTION
Photograph taken about 1864, showing some of the stone pillars, arches, and
supporting framework. ,
Logan, there was no further need
for the Endowment House, and
under the direction of the First
Presidency, it was torn down.
The Large Tabernacle
The idea of building a large Tab-
ernacle in Salt Lake City, one that
would accommodate eight or nine
thousand people, grew in the mind
of President Young during the pio-
neer period. After the first Taber-
nacle was built in 1852, it was soon
found to be too small to hold the
large numbers of people who came
to attend the conferences.
In a letter written by George A.
Smith to Hosea Stout, in March
1863, he is quoted as saying:
The President (Brigham Young) is
discussing the propriety of building a
Tabernacle this season, a circular ended
building, 250 feet long and 150 feet wide:
500,000 feet of lumber will be requisite
for its erection; the site proposed is the
west gate of the Temple Block, or be-
tween that and the Temple (Journal His-
tory, March 20, 1863).
To think with President Brigham
Young was to act, and, during the
following month, April 1863, the
work of clearing the ground for the
foundation of the great building
was begun.
The stone pillars on which the
large arches were to stand, were con-
structed in 1864. The wooden
arches, supporting the roof, were
designed and built under the direc-
tion of Henry Grow, who had been
a bridge builder in Pennsylvania be-
fore coming to Utah and who was
acquainted with the lattice type of
construction. He had many prob-
lems to meet in constructing the
roof of this famous building, with-
out supports, and with only a small
amount of iron. Wooden pegs were
TEMPLE SQUARE IN SALT LAKE CITY
731
used to hold the beams together,
and rawhide was tied around them
to make them more secure. But at
last the great building was ready —
sufficiently ready so that the Oc-
tober Conference of the Church, in
1867, could be held within its walls.
President Brigham Young was
greatly pleased with what had been
accomplished. At the opening ses-
sion, on the forenoon of Sunday,
October 6th, "the President kindly
expressed to the workmen the
thanks of all the Apostles and all
the brethren and sisters for the steady
perseverance and faithfulness that
they had manifested in completing,
thus far, the building. For one, he
said, he had not ceased to pray for
them, that no accident might befall
anyone, and that we might rejoice
together in such a work. He felt
to bless them, and to continue to
pray for them, and he took the
opportunity of expressing that he
would be very much pleased did he
witness as resolute a spirit in the
Elders of Israel to favor the early
completion of the Temple. He
thought it proper to say something
about the unfinished condition of
the organ. Not over one-third of
the pipes were up, and till the casing
was built, they had thrown around
it a loose garment. It was now only
about fifteen feet high, and when
completed it would be forty feet
high. Brother Ridges, and those
who labored with him, had done the
best they could, and notwithstand-
ing their diligence by early day, noon
and night, they had been unable to
have it properly tuned. It was how-
ever, in a condition to accompany
the choir, and he was pleased with
it" (/. H., October 6, 1867).
A FTER the opening hymn by the
choir, President Young arose
again to offer the prayer. Note the
Courtesy Church Historian's Office
THE LARGE TABERNACLE, SHOWING SOME OF THE ARCHES
PARTLY COVERED
Photograph taken about 1866. Note the stone pillars, the bowery type of cover-
ing used to protect some of the materials, and the masonry blocks used for placement
in the structure.
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sincerity and deep devotion of this
prayer. It was all so characteristic
of him; the solemn, reverent, deep
feelings of his heart.
"He expressed to the Most High,
the grateful feelings of the Saints,
for the favors which He had multi-
plied upon them, enabling them to
have finished thus far, an edifice in
which they could assemble and wor-
ship Him, their Creator, in the
name of His Son Jesus Christ; im-
ploring the aid for the Holy Spirit
to teach them how to pray and what
to ask for acceptably in His sight.
"He implored the blessings of the
Lord upon the congregation as-
sembled, upon the Priesthood, and
all in authority in His Church and
Kingdom, that they might enjoy
the outpouring of the Holy Spirit to
qualify them in the discharge of
every duty; that the workmen who
had labored upon that house might
feel blessed, and feel satisfaction in
that labor, and recompense in the
love of Christ; that the Apostles
might be blessed and qualified to
discharge the duties of their Holy
Apostleship; that the Bishops might
have the ability their arduous labors
demand, and be filled with wisdom,
kindness, patience and forbearance,
and so be fathers to the people; that
the High Priests, Seventies, Elders,
Priests, Teachers and Deacons might
all enjoy the blessings of their call-
ings
"He craved the blessings of the
Lord upon the children of the
Saints; that the power of the
Almighty might heal the sick; that
the Saints in foreign lands might be
the object of His care; that the mis-
Courtesy Church Historian's Office
TEMPLE SQUARE AS IT APPEARED ABOUT 1879
This panoramic view of Temple Square was taken about 1879, some two years
after the death of President Brigham Young. Note in the background at the left, the
Assembly Hall, almost finished, the Large Tabernacle, and the Temple, partly finished.
The building at the left, enclosed by the white picket fence, is the Council House, the
first public building built in Salt Lake City, Utah.
TEMPLE SQUARE IN SALT LAKE CITY
733
Photograph by C. R. Savage
Courtesy Church Historian's Office
AN EARLY VIEW OF THE INTERIOR OF THE SALT LAKE TABERNACLE
This picture, taken about 1900, shows the small organ and the choir seats only
partly built up. The organ has been considerably enlarged.
sionaries among them might have
the ability to do their duty, be
preserved and returned again to the
Church in Zion; that the poor Saints
might be blessed and prospered, so
they may gather with the Saints
here, and that the emigrants that
have lately arrived may seek to do
right, and be blessed and prospered.
"He implored the blessings of the
Most High upon our families, our
wives, our children, and upon our
fields, our barns, and all we pos-
sessed; asked the Lord to inspire the
speakers, the hearers, during the con-
ference, so that all might be done
according to His Holy Will" (/. H.,
October 6, 1867).
This first conference in the new
Tabernacle continued for four days,
with great enthusiasm. It proved
to be the largest conference, from
the standpoint of attendance, ever
held in the Church up to that time.
The seating capacity in the Taber-
nacle was considerably increased,
during the years 1870-71, when the
gallery was constructed. A reporter
writing in the Deseret News of a
meeting held in the Tabernacle on
May 1, 1870, had the following to
say:
"While President Young was
addressing the congregation his
hearers kept very still, and we are
informed by persons who sat on the
seats where they were accustomed
to sit last summer, that yesterday
they heard as they never did before.
The gallery had made, judging by
their experiences, a great improve-
ment in the acoustic qualities of the
building" (Deseret News, May 2,
1870).
During the ninety-three years that
have passed since the Salt Lake Tab-
ernacle was first used, the great
building has become known around
the world. At the present time the
organ and choir and "the spoken
word," through the medium of
radio, are heard each Sunday by
millions of listeners.
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The Assembly Hall
The plan for building the As-
sembly Hall was also projected by
the great pioneer leader, President
Brigham Young. I find the follow-
ing in the Journal History of the
Church under date of September
12, 1877.
"At a priesthood meeting of the
Salt Lake Stake, held August 11,
1877, President B. Young proposed
to pull down the Old Tabernacle,
and build a new one to accomodate
about 3,000 people. In obedience to
this wish, work was commenced on
this date, as reported in the Deseret
News."
President Young lived only
eighteen days after he attended this
meeting. He died on August 29,
1877, from the effects of what ap-
pears to have been a ruptured
appendix.
The article in the Deseret News
referred to above, gives a partial plan
for the new building as follows:
"The work of tearing down the
Old Tabernacle, preparatory to
erecting a new and more suitable
and commodious structure, on or
near the same site, commenced this
morning. The Bishops of the City
Wards were each requested to send
one man, but only nine of the
twenty-one responded, probably be-
cause of the unpromising appearance
of the weather. It is likely, however,
that the whole number will be on
Photograph by C. R. Savage
Courtesy Church Historian's Office
THE ASSEMBLY HALL ALMOST COMPLETED
Photograph taken about 1881 shows the building almost completed. Note the
unfinished roofing appearing white. Unused building blocks and pieces of lumber may
be seen in the foreground and around the building. Note the wall of Temple Square
and trees in the background.
TEMPLE SQUARE IN SALT LAKE CITY
735
Photograph by C. R. Savage
Courtesy Church Historian's Office
INTERIOR OF THE ASSEMBLY HALL
Note paneling and light fixture on the ceiling, stairway at the right, and the galleries
on each side, with the pulpits center front.
the ground tomorrow, weather per-
mitting.
''Instead of the proposed building
extending lengthwise, north and
south, it will be east and west. Its
length and breadth will be 100 feet
by 60 feet, [this was later changed
to 120 feet by 68 feet] in the clear,
and 31 feet from the floor to the
ceiling. It will be surrounded, ex-
cept at the end, where the stand will
be constructed, with a gallery; there
will be two rows of windows, one
under and one over the gallery. The
foundation, which will be of sand-
stone, will rise two feet above the
ground level, and above that the
walls will be granite, two feet six
inches thick. The. heating will be
done by means of pipes, and it will
be lighted with gas.
'The committee appointed to
manage the construction are Bishop
Thomas Taylor, Henry Grow, Ed-
ward Brain, William Asper and
George Goddard.
"Brother Grow will have the gen-
eral superintendency of the con-
struction, and Brother Brain will
have the special supervision of the
mason work" (/. H., September 12,
1877).
Thus began the work of construct-
ing the beautiful little building
known as the Assembly Hall. The
building was dedicated by President
Joseph F. Smith on January 7, 1882.
At that time he said: "May the
Spirit of the Holy Gospel dwell in
the midst of the people that shall
come from Sabbath to Sabbath, and
from time to time, to attend the
meetings and worship in this house"
( /. H., January 7, 1 882 ) .
(To be continued)
Sixty LJears *jlgo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, November 1, and November 15, 1900
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
of All Nations"
THANKSGIVING IN NEW ENGLAND BEFORE THE WESTWARD
JOURNEY: . . . Soon all were seated, the mother having arranged them all in order on
each side with the eldest married son at the head of the table to carve the steaming
roast turkey while she served the vegetables, taking special pains to have the baked
beans piping hot from the large brown earthen pan in which they had come from the
great brick oven in the kitchen. The mother herself pronounced the blessing and the
feasting was graced with the usual New England table talk of bounteous harvests and
Thanksgiving events, entertainments, sleigh rides and balls. . . . Never again did those
assembled on that evening all meet together. Out from under that roof tree, where
so many happy days had been spent, so many festive occasions celebrated, they went,
and no doubt the picture lingered lovingly in their memory long years after. . . .
— Aunt Em
MARGARET A. CAINE OF THE RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
VISITS PANGUITCH STAKE: Sister Caine felt pleased with all she had seen in
regard to the society here. The Lord had never given a law restraining the Latter-day
Saints in gaining knowledge. . . . The Prophet Joseph Smith studied diligently all the
time. . . . Sister Caine wished to extend the greeting of Aunt Zina and counselors, also
Sister Wells, who are just as interested as they can be in all the sisters. . . . Sister Caine
wanted the sisters to understand the purpose of the organization, no other can take the
place of this. It was to qualify them for high and holy positions. Mothers can better
prepare for family prayers than anyone else, also to instil the principle of tithe-paying
upon the children. Retrenchment as taught by President Young did not mean alto-
gether in dress, but in cooking good and wholesome food and less pastry, and in all our
home work to find time to improve the mind. . . .
— H. A. Crosby, Sec.
SOMETIMES
Sometimes we meet in life a noble friend,
Who true and faithful proves e'en unto death,
Our inmost natures seem in one to blend
As roses with the summer zephyr's breath. . . .
— Ellis R. Shipp
THE NATIONAL COUNCIL OF WOMEN: The National Council of Women
of the United States held its annual . . . sessions in Minneapolis, Minnesota, this year
. . . the Minneapolis ladies proved their generous hospitality and welcome, as well as
sympathy with the cause of woman's work. . . . Mrs. Fannie Humphreys Gaffney of
New York ... is a fine presiding officer, just and courteous to all, with unfailing
patience and always punctual and knows how to economize time ... as our readers
know, we are not given to mentioning costumes . . . yet . . . Mrs. McCune of our
own city, might with all due propriety be spoken of, because she wore an elegant Paris
gown of black lace. ... we met many beautiful women ... of a great variety of faiths
and from all points of the compass. ... In an assembly of this sort one notices the
many highly intellectual faces. ... A telegram received from Miss Susan Anthony said:
"I send greetings to my daughters of the most comprehensive organization of women,
and the one in which I have the greatest hope."
— Editorial
Page 736
Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
TAKSHMI MENON is Deputy
Minister for External Affairs in
the government of India. Her posi-
tion requires much wisdom, re-
straint, and courage.
TRMA ARGANDONA, from Bo-
livia, South America, is a brilliant
and valued researcher at Volcano
Ranch, near Albuquerque, New
Mexico, where important studies in
cosmic rays are being conducted
under the direction of the Massa-
chusetts Institute of Technology.
T IZA REDFIELD is Broadways
first fulltime woman orchestra
conductor. As conductor for the
orchestra in 'The Music Man" at
the Majestic Theater, New York
City, Miss Redfield has demon-
strated a marked ability in a field
new to women. Beginning as a child
prodigy at playing the piano, Miss
Redfield had considerable experi-
ence in playing in orchestras before
her successful and outstanding stud-
ies under Vladimir Brailowsky.
TTARIETTE SIMPSON AR-
NOW, in her recent, highly
praised and authentic Seedtime on
the Cumberland (The Macmillan
Company), has detailed with color
and truth "a few of the most im-
portant aspects of pioneer life as it
was lived on the Cumberland." The
locale covers areas in Kentucky,
Tennessee, and Ohio during the
years 1759 to 1803.
F
M
RS. GEORGIA WHITE, ex-
plorer and famous river guide,
who has accompanied many boating
parties down the turbulent canyons
of the Colorado River of the United
States, is now planning an expedi-
tion to run the great rivers of Alas-
ka, including the Yukon.
AE THOMAS, formerly of Salt
Lake City, Utah, is the pro-
ducer of "Expedition," a new major
TV program, consisting of adven-
ture and documentary films from all
over the world. Miss Thomas is one
of the very few women television
program producers in the United
States, and is also one of the young-
est producers in the entire industry.
^HE United States Census Bureau
figures for July 1959 reveal that
there are 55,250,000 potential wom-
en voters in the United States —
3,378,000 more than there are po-
tential men voters.
J^AREN KETCHIE, seventeen,
of Cedar City, Utah, is a
national vice-president of the Future
Homemakers of America, serving
thirteen western states, including
Alaska and Hawaii, for the year
1960-61 (July to July).
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 47
NOVEMBER 1960
NO. 12
o) hank fulness for a [Prophet
A S Latter-day Saint families sur-
round their tables of bounteous
feasts on Thanksgiving Day, it may
be well to recall, in addition to other
blessings, the paean of thanksgiv-
ing which the saints throughout the
world offer to the Lord continually,
"We Thank Thee, O God, for a
Prophet."
The history of God's dealings
with his children reveals that so long
as men follow the Lord's will as
revealed through his prophets, they
prosper and attain salvation.
For eight years the followers of
Lehi wandered in the wilderness. As
they rebelled against the words of
prophet Lehi they suffered, but as
they humbled themselves and be-
came obedient, they were delivered
from their afflictions and led out
from the wilderness to the Promised
Land.
Today, afflictions and sorrows walk
with men, and the wisdom of the
wise, as foretold, has perished; but
the Lord makes known his will to
his prophet, and as his people have
listening ears they are delivered from
sin and spiritual bondage.
How thankful should one be for
a prophet's voice to guide him
through the quagmires of the
world's errors and sins! One great
wickedness today lies in the un-
righteousness of many of the young,
and the cause is traced by leading
authorities to the breakdown of mar-
riage and consequent insecurity of
children. For many years the proph-
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et President David O. McKay has
plead with the saints to sanctify the
bonds of holy matrimony. This is
but one example of obedience to the
voice of the prophet which results
in eternal blessings.
President Moyle recently de-
clared:
It behooves us to recognize in President
David O. McKay the mouthpiece of our
Heavenly Father here upon the earth. I
bear witness in all solemnity that the closer
you come in contact with the President
of the Church, the deeper you realize that
his decision, his judgment, his word, comes
to him as a matter of inspiration and that
Israel today is led by the prophet of the
God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. We
are not wandering around in the wilder-
ness trying to find the promised land be-
cause of our iniquities, as were the people
in the days of Moses. We are in the
promised land. . . .
President McKay says almost every
week of our lives, when the difficult world
problems of today come before us,
"Brethren, we have no need to fear, there
are no world events that need concern us.
We need only to keep the commandments
of God and recognize that Jesus Christ
is our head" (Church News, September 3,
i960, page 13).
For the blessing of a modern-day
prophet, one should give thanks as
the Lord says,
And he who receiveth all things with
thankfulness shall be made glorious; and
the things of this earth shall be added un-
to him, even an hundred fold, yea, more
(D & C 78:19).
With hearts and voices mav all
sing with heightened perception in
the spirit of Thanksgiving,
THANKFULNESS FOR A PROPHET
739
We thank thee, O God, for a prophet
To guide us in these latter days.
We thank thee for sending the gospel
To lighten our minds with its rays.
We thank thee for every blessing
Bestowed by thy bounteous hand.
We feel it a pleasure to serve thee,
And love to obey thy command.
-M. C.
Home for Christmas
Myrtle M. Dean
ANNE placed the two letters
side by side on the desk.
One letter was from her
mother. The envelope was ad-
dressed in a hurried, sweeping hand.
The letter inside was full of loving,
newsy words galloping across the
pages. "How glad we will be to
have you home again. We can
hardly wait to see the baby. It is
wonderful that you will be back in
America for Christmas, " Anne's
mother wrote. The second letter
was from Bob's mother. It lay un-
opened, for Anne always left Bob's
mail for him to read first, even
though it was addressed to Mr. and
Mrs. Robert Andrews. Anne knew
that this letter would be as method-
ical and prim as the woman who
wrote it. Bob's mother wrote with
a meticulously neat and even hand.
Anne smiled as she compared the
two envelopes and looked over at
her little son.
"Only ten more days and we will
be back home in America, Jamie
darling. Home for Christmas, with
Grandpa and Grandma. We will
fly over the ocean in a big, big plane.
Just like birds flying home to their
nests." Anne waved her arms up
and down like a bird flying, as she
talked to baby Jamie.
Jamie laughed and waved his
arms.
"Home to you, is right here in
Germany where you were born,
baby darling, but now you are go-
ing to learn about another country;
a wonderful country, America that
will be your home.
"Your daddy has gone right now
to get your papers all fixed, so you
can be a real citizen of our United
States, little Jamie."
For more than two years Bob
Andrews had been in foreign serv-
ice in Germany. Bob and Anne had
been married only two months
when they arrived. At first they
had kept busy and happy, but when
Anne was to have her baby, she
became homesick and felt a great
need for her own mother. It was
almost Christmas time then, too.
That was just one year ago. Anne
remembered still, how lonely and
frightened she was then.
"I think when we trust him, God
has a way of taking care of mothers
and their babies so they won't be
too afraid," Bob had comforted her.
Anne smiled now at her baby.
Bob was right, she thought, Heaven-
ly Father has been very kind to us.
Suddenly an awful thought crept
into Anne's mind. What if. . . .
Oh, no, Bob's mother just couldn't
expect them to come to her home
for Christmas. Anne thought of
the big dreary house with its many
rooms with everything so somber
and untouchable. She had often
wondered how a warm, live person
like Bob could have grown up in
such a place. Anne had never known
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Bob's father, for lie had died sev-
eral years before her marriage to
Bob. Mrs. Andrews lived alone
now, and she seemed as solemn and
quiet as the old house.
Anne lifted the letter from Moth-
er Andrews. Bob had always said,
"You should open Mother's letters,
Anne. They are to both of us.
Mom would like you to feel like a
daughter." For a moment Anne
thought she would read this letter
to quiet her fears, but she laid it
back on the desk unread.
"Don't be silly," Anne told her-
self. "Of course, Bob's mother will
realize that I will want to be with
my family for Christmas." She
pushed her anxiety aside and began
her work again.
ALMOST every day, Anne told
Jamie about her family, about
her younger sisters and brothers
who would love to play with him.
She was determined that he should
learn a few words to show off to
the family. Bob laughed at her,
and told her that Jamie didn't un-
derstand a bit of the foolishness she
tried to tell him.
Only this morning she was re-
warded for her efforts. Jamie said
Gram-ma, Gram-ma. Over and
over she had repeated the words to
him. Now he laughed and halt-
ingly spoke the syllables. Anne
could hardly wait for Bob to come
to hear him. She could picture her
mother's delight at her first little
grandchild speaking those words.
Soon, Bob came in flourishing a
large envelope. "Now we are all
set to leave."
"Three cheers for the Red, White,
and Blue," Anne called out happily.
"Oh, and there are letters from our
mothers. Mom says they can hard-
ly wait to see us. Won't it be fun
showing off our son? And home for
Christmas, just think!"
Bob clasped her about the waist
and swung her around happily.
"Mother is going to like having a
grandson around. And you know,
Anne, I believe the little guy looks
a lot like Dad," Bob spoke thought-
fully.
Again, that anxious feeling crept
over Anne, and her hand trembled
as she handed Bob his letter. She
waited tensely for him to open it.
"You should have read Mother's
letter, too," Bob said once more.
Anne saw that he looked a trifle
hurt.
"I'll go on packing while you read
the letter to me," she said.
Anne's face was stricken and her
arms fell listlessly to her sides as
she heard the words of the letter.
"I am planning a fine Christmas this
year, Bob, with a tree in the corner
of the living room just as we used
to have when you were a little fel-
low. You were married just a little
while before you went away, so
Anne and I hardly know each other.
We need to get acquainted, and
now you have a little son; how won-
derful. I will count on all of vou
for Christmas."
Bob raised his eyes to Anne's.
The bright happiness was gone from
her face. She turned away to hide
her tears.
"Anne, dear, of course you ex-
pected to go to your family for
Christmas. Don't feel bad, Anne,
that is where we will go." Bob spoke
reassuringly.
"But vou heard it — in the letter
— you heard your mother say she
expects us for Christmas. She is
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741
counting on us/' Anne replied
brokenly.
'There won't be time to write
now, but when we get to your
home we can phone Mother. We'll
tell her we had planned to be with
your folks, but will go on after
Christmas week." Bob's voice was
troubled.
"But we didn't plan. I just
supposed she would know that I
would want to be with my family
for Christmas." Anne's voice held
reproach. She wanted to say,
"Your mother is selfish. She should
understand that a girl wants to be
with her family. That she wants to
show off her baby to her folks. She
should know how I'd hate the big,
lonely house where she lives."
ANNE almost wished that Bob
would argue about the situation,
that he would say, "Mother is lone-
ly and needs us. I have as much
right to go to my mother for Christ-
mas as you to yours." But Bob
didn't say anything. He was leaving
it for Anne to decide. Anne remem-
bered now that her mother's letter
had not mentioned their coming to
her home for Christmas. Of course
she expects us, and will be very dis-
appointed if we don't. She just
doesn't want to be selfish, Anne
thought.
After Bob left the room, Anne
let the tears flow freely. Little
Jamie looked on silently, as though
he sensed her changed mood.
"We can't go home for Christ-
mas, honey. We've got another
grandma. She wants her boy, and
you, too, Jamie. We must go to her.
We've just got to." Anne's voice
was muffled bv her crying.
Jamie's eyes looked big and sol-
emn. Then he waved his arms and
began saying, "Gram-ma, gram-ma."
npiME passed quickly now. Soon
they were on their way, and the
wide expanse of gray-blue ocean lay
below them. Then there was the
Statue of Liberty welcoming them.
"This is America, Jamie darling.
This is our own country," Anne
spoke breathless with emotion and
homesickness.
Bob pointed out the Empire
State Building and the United Na-
tions Building of New York. Anne
saw how happy he was to be back
in America, too. They skimmed
over the cities, Chicago, Kansas
City, and all the others as they
flew westward. Soon they would
be coming to the outskirts of the
town that was Bob's home.
"See how beautiful everything
looks so far below us," Bob said,
and Anne saw the happiness in his
eyes. She saw the dark green of
the trees on the foothills, and the
town nestled down in a valley like
a babe wrapped in a soft, white
blanket. The lights from the
houses twinkled out dimly, and
Anne knew one of those houses
below them would be Bob's boy-
hood home. Yet her heart sank as
she thought of the hundred miles
that still lay between them and her
own parents' home.
"We will be there soon, Bob.
To your mother's I mean," Anne
said. Her voice was low, but she
tried to smile.
"Oh, Anne, I can't let you do
this. I know how you feel," Bob
protested.
"We can't disappoint your moth-
er. You know she expects us. We'll
have to do it, and go on in a few
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daws to nn family." Anne hied to
keep her voice even as she told him.
'Ton are so sweet to do this,
Anne."
Anne thought to herself, I don't
feel at all sweet or generous. I feel
mean, and still think Bob's mother
is selfish and unthoughtful. I still
want to cry and I still want to hur-
ry on home, and hear little Jamie
say "Gram-ma, Gram-ma" to Moth-
er. She was thinking that right now
there would be a tree waiting to be
trimmed in her mother's living
room.
FT was now dusk dark, and very
beautiful with soft pink color in
the sky. The winter moon was
pale and cold. Little snow crystals
fell and frosted Anne's hair as they
left the cab and came up the walk
to the Andrews' house. Bob walked
ahead with his son in his arms.
On the door a light shone from
the large holly wreath. A soft glow
came from the windows, out to the
evergreens in the yard. Bob rang
the doorbell, and as they waited,
Anne took hold of Bob's arm. They
heard hurried footsteps in the hall.
Anne saw the happiness light the
woman's face as she embraced her
son and her little grandchild.
Anne stood back silently, allowing
them time to greet each other. Then
Mrs. Andrews came to Anne. She
seemed a bit awkward and shy. She
kissed Anne on the cheek, but still
Anne could not feel a great warmth
toward this prim, unfamiliar woman.
As they went into the living
room, little Jamie clung tightly to
his father's neck.
"He isn't used to strangers much
yet," Anne said.
"But he soon gets acquainted,
then he is almost too sociable," Bob
told his mother.
They saw the lovely, decorated
tree in the corner of the room. It
was much more imposing than any
Anne had ever had at her home.
Jamie held out his arms to the
tree, reaching toward the pretty
lights. Mrs. Andrews reached to
take him, but he pulled back. He
was still not readv to make friends.
"I'll show you the pretty tree,"
Mrs. Andrews said.
"He is learning to say a few
words, Mother," Bob said. "He
can say Grand-ma. Here, Anne, he
will say it for you. Have him say
Gram-ma for Mother."
Anne felt sick with disappoint-
ment. She had labored so hard to
see that Jamie would say these words
for her own dear mother. She had
never once thought of Bob's mother
being the one to hear him first. She
took Jamie in her arms and pointed
to Mrs. Andrews. "Say Gram-ma,
Jamie. Say Gram-ma," Anne re-
peated.
Jamie looked strangely at this
woman smiling at him, then began
to say over and over, "Gram-ma —
Gram-ma, Gram-ma." He was de-
lighted by so much attention.
Bob and his mother laughed to-
gether and were very pleased, not
noting that Anne stood without
even a smile.
"He is starting to walk, too," Bob
said. "Put him down, Anne, and
let him walk to me." Bob held out
his arms, and stooped low for Jamie
to come. "Walk to Daddy," he
said.
Jamie wobbled unsteadily toward
his father, then spying the bright
tree, he turned and waddled across
the room with his arms out-
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743
stretched. Squealing with delight,
he clasped a pretty bauble from a
low limb.
Anne rushed to take him. "He
will play havoc with everything, and
probably eat the glass ornaments.
He is tired and excited and should
be in bed," Anne said a bit too
abruptly.
"Of course he is. I will show
you where he will sleep." Bob's
mother led the way to the stairs.
Anne, looking at the lovely, ma-
hogany stairway, thought, did a
mischievous boy named Bob An-
drews ever have fun sliding down
this polished banister from his
room?
Mrs. Andrews stood back watch-
ing as they opened the bedroom
door.
"Why, Mother, you have fixed
my old room with all my baby
things, just as it was when I was a
toddler like Jamie." Bob laughed,
delightedly. "Would you think
that my six-feet-two could have
ever been little enough to fit into
that crib?"
"This battered up old Teddy bear
always went to bed with Bob. He
said he had to have company until
he got a little brother, but we could
never get a little brother for him."
Mrs. Andrews eyes were serious as
she told them.
Bob reached down and poked the
little brown bear in the tummy.
"You were surely my pal," he said.
"You two will have the room
across the hall, I hope you rest
well," Bob's mother said, then she
moved slowly down the stairs.
"That was Father's and Mother's
room as long as I can remember,
until he went. Now mother takes
a little room downstairs," Bob said
solemnly. He reached for Anne's
hand and they entered the lovely
room together.
Early the next morning they heard
Mother Andrews moving about the
kitchen. "We will have our big
dinner on Christmas Eve," she had
told them.
All day Anne offered to help, but
there didn't seem to be much that
Mrs. Andrews hadn't prepared al-
ready.
"It looks as though there will be
turkey left over for weeks and plum
pudding, too, for we are not staying
on here to help eat it up," Anne
said to Bob.
"I'd better get clown town and
see about our reservations to go on
after Christmas. Things may be
crowded through the holidays," Bob
said.
YY^HILE Bob was gone, Anne of-
fered to set the table for the
dinner. She thought of the hustle
and bustle there would be at home
now. Her father would call all of the
family into the living room where
they would gather about the piano
and sing all the Christmas carols,
and afterward her father would read
the story of Jesus' birth from Luke.
Later, Anne took Jamie out for
a stroll to rest him so that he
wouldn't be too tired before dinner
was over. She wanted him to be
awake for the opening of the gifts.
When Anne returned with Jamie,
Mother Andrews told her she had
already set the table. Anne felt
resentful that she was not allowed
to help more. Everything seemed
to be ready and Anne wondered
why they did not eat.
"It's always been an iron-clad
rule that we ate dinner at six. I see
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mother still hasn't forgotten it,"
Bob said to Anne.
T hope there will be no iron-clad
rules at our house/' Anne said.
'The turkey smells so good/' Bob
hinted. "I speak to do the carving."
Mrs. Andrews seemed a bit rest-
less and kept glancing at the clock.
She is nervous, not being used to
company, Anne thought.
The time slipped by, and it was
six fifteen, and still they did not eat.
"What is wrong with Mom, she
is always so prompt?" Bob asked.
Just then they heard the doorbell
ring sharply. Bob's mother hurried
to the door.
"Surprise — surprise!" Big and
little voices called out happily as
Anne's family entered the hall.
"Mother — Daddy — all of you.
How did you get here?" Tears of
happiness ran down Anne's cheeks.
After she had greeted her family,
she walked quickly to Mother An-
drews and kissed her on the cheek.
"How wonderful of you," she said.
"I thought it would be nice to be
all together," Bob's mother spoke
softly.
Anne chided herself. All the
time I was thinking her so selfish,
but I was the selfish one. I would
have left her here all alone for
Christmas, thinking only of myself.
"Bob, did you know this all the
time?" Anne asked.
"I'm as surprised as you."
"Anne has been wonderful," Mrs.
Andrews declared. "I was a bit
worried at first that she might think
me quite mean to bring her here."
"I was afraid to tell you, Anne,
there were no reservations for train,
plane, or bus for at least two weeks,"
Bob announced.
"Don't worry," Anne's father de-
clared. "We brought the station
wagon along. There will be plenty
of room for everyone going home."
Mother Andrews stood back smil-
ing, as though she felt real proud
of the results of all her maneuver-
ing. She opened the door to the
dining room to show the table all
set for a large family.
"I wondered this afternoon, why
Mother Andrews wouldn't let me
set the table, but I see, it was part
of the surprise." Anne placed her
arm lovingly around Bob's mother's
waist as she spoke.
They all bowed their heads grate-
fully over the table spread with de-
licious, steaming food, as Mrs. An-
drews asked Anne's father to offer
the blessing. Even baby Jamie fold-
ed his tiny hands and bowed his
head.
The candle light flickered over
the crystal and silver, casting a soft
glow all about them. Anne reached
for Bob's hand. There is some-
thing so warm and close and pre-
cious about this new togetherness
of our two families, she thought.
Then her eyes turned to a picture
of Bob's father that hung on the
wall. As Anne looked up, all eyes
turned toward the picture. It
seemed that he was smiling down
at them.
Suddenly, Anne's father spoke,
"See little Jamie. He looks like
his Grandfather Andrews."
As they all looked, Mrs. Andrews
brushed a tear from her cheek as
she said, "Wouldn't Grandpa An-
drews be proud of the little boy?"
Now Anne spoke. There was a
sweet earnestness in her voice. "I
think he knows that we are all here
together tonight, and he is very
near. Don't you think that Christ-
mas extends into eternity, too?"
Jessie ibvatis Smith s aiobba - k/L Useful ^Invention
T ESSIE EVANS SMITH, wife of President Joseph Fielding Smith, is a woman of
many gifts and talents. She is noted for her lovely voice and has been a member
of the Tabernacle Choir for many years. As a needlecraft project, she gathered neckties
from the male members of the choir and made the beautiful quilt shown in the picture
at the right. Many pieces of exquisite handwork, including needlepoint, adorn the
Smith home. Particularly outstanding for design and workmanship are the needlepoint
pieces on the chairs, benches, and on the tilt table top.
Mrs. Smith is not only a musician and needlecraft artist, but an inventor as well. A
few years ago as an aid in doing petit point, she began work on her invention, the
"Magnu-Vu." She cut the bottom out of a metal soap tray, and anchored a rectangular
magnifying glass within the frame. Her husband fastened a piece of wood onto one
side so that the glass would extend outward away from the body. Then, with some
ribbon, Mrs. Smith supported the magnifying glass from her neck, thus leaving both
hands free for sewing. With a little more engineering, the invention was perfected and
placed on the market. It has been referred to as "the vision of youth and the dream
of old age," and has proved to be a great blessing in reading, embroidery, crocheting,
mending, quilting, and other types of handwork.
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Lriay things QJrotn Castaways
Holly B. Keddington
HOLD it! You don't intend
to throw that away, do you?
Look at it more carefully.
You may see a use for it in your
Relief Society nursery. All sizes of
cans, spools, salt and cereal boxes,
tubes from paper and foil rolls, tin
boxes, and small, firm cardboard
containers can be made into attrac-
tive toys and games. Discarded
tinker toys and blocks find a new
purpose. Those shoelaces can be
washed and used by a very young
child, on which he can thread col-
ored spools. Whether the finished
product of this spool, can, or box art
is a masterpiece is not important —
that he made it himself and can take
it home if he wants to is what really
matters to the child.
From various sized tin cans
can be made a totem pole with gay
figures and symbols of felt or other
available material pasted on. A paint
thinner can becomes a cute fat pig
with felt features, dots, and a curly
pipe cleaner tail. Four short spools
become stubby legs. A small short-
ening can (with a hinged lid) is a
chalk container, and the large short-
ening can with the lid removed
becomes a two-toned drum, if scraps
of naugahyde are laced with boon-
doggle over the ends of the can. A
painted band-aid box is fine for
cravons. Salt boxes make an engine
and tank, coal, and flat cars bright
and gav with paint or wall-tex scraps
and tinker toy wheels. A Sani-flush
can makes an oil tanker, again with
discarded tinker toy spools for
wheels.
These nursery toys can be made
with practically no outlay of money,
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if willing hands will help with the
supplying of materials and doing the
painting, gluing, and assembling.
Many women love to paint, and no
matter what color paint would be
donated from that shelf in the
garage or basement, they can mix
and make beautiful combinations of
colors from those odds and ends.
Spools and salt boxes need a coat of
shellac first, then one coat of paint
will finish it. Tin cans cover well
with one coat. These toys will be
used and will have to be replaced,
so have extra cans and spools paint-
ed or wall-texed.
ly^ORK meeting would be a fine
time to have the older chil-
dren help repair damaged toys.
The breakage of a toy should not
become a big issue, but rather show
the children that with a little effort
the toy can be restored. To cast
away is wasteful, so it is good to
mend, if possible.
William Beal
CUT-DOWN CARD TABLE
WITH MATERIALS ASSEMBLED
LOR MAKINC TOYS
Pieces of colored felt, assorted cans and
spools, cast-off tinker toys, shoelaces, and
string.
PLAYTHINGS FROM CASTAWAYS
747
If you know a paper hanger or
upholsterer, his discarded sample
books or largest scraps will make
many things.
The following were saved for the
pictured articles: 2 shortening cans,
1 large and 1 small; vegetable juice,
frozen juice, small milk, baby and
junior foods, paint thinner, and Sani-
flush cans; various sized spools; salt
boxes; small lid; one 2% gallon
sherbet carton; scraps of mastic; wall-
tex, felt, boondoggle, rickrack, and
discarded blocks and tinker toy
parts. Couplings for the train cost
1 5c, with some left over; shellac and
paint were leftovers supplemented
bv a verv small amount of new
paint. As you work you will find
more things to use and more articles
to make.
A production line technique is
best when working on this project.
1. Clean cans and be sure the glue is
off the side where labels were joined.
Punched cans arc best, but if the tops are
entirely off, be sure cans are smooth on
the inside.
2. Separate into groups, different sizes
in each group. Shellac spools and salt
boxes.
3. Paint one group at a time, all one
color. Then go on to the next color.
Don't be afraid to paint an extra can or
two, since you never have too many.
4. Don't rush! Let each article dry
thoroughly. While these are drying, cut
out and assemble the other materials to
be used. Glue wall-tex, wallpaper, etc.,
on other cans and boxes.
William Beal
TOYS MADE FROM CANS
Left to right: Container for crayons, chalk box, and drum.
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5. Now make the selection of colored
cans or spools for each toy. Use as many
different colors as possible for each proj-
ect. The little tots like things gay.
Now to Assemble:
Totem Pole: 4 or 5 cans of various
sizes and colors; glue cutouts of varicolored
felt to sides of can. Stack with large can
as base and taper up smallest can. Holes
can be punched in top and bottom of cans
and a dowel run through if pole is to be
permanent, but you will find that the
children love to stack the cans them-
selves. A gay fluff of wool or felt or a
point of some discarded toy pasted to the
top can make a nice finish.
Pig: One paint thinner can, top of can
as the head. Place assorted sizes of felt
or mastic dots of a contrasting color on
the body of pig. Add pink ears, eyes, and
nostrils to the screw top of can, and four
stubby spools for legs. A curly tail of
three inches of pipe cleaner wrapped
around a pencil is added at the very top
of the back of can.
Train: Three or more salt boxes of
various colors, the engine preferably paint-
ed a bright yellow. A spray paint can lid
is also painted yellow and glued to the
top of the front for a headlight. Place
two rounds of felt on the front of this
headlight, the smaller one on top of the
other. The top one, yellow, simulates
light. Paste five narrow strips of felt or
wool yarn lA inch below this light to
resemble a cowcatcher. Make holes by
screwing large size screw carefully through
sides of salt box % inch up sides and 1 Vi
inches from front and back of box. Run
tinker toy stick through these holes and
attach four tinker spools for wheels.
Wheels will turn if they don't touch the
sides of the toys.
Flat cars are made by cutting !4 inch
off side of box. Finish around top edge
William Bcal
TOYS MADE FROM CAST-OFF CONTAINERS
In the foreground: Relief Society Train. At the left: Totem Pole. In the
background: Tanker and Pig.
PLAYTHINGS FROM CASTAWAYS
749
with mastic tape. Place wheels as for
engine. Label sides Coal and fill with
spools and blocks for cargo.
Tankers are whole salt boxes with names
printed or glued on the sides for variety.
All of the cars arc joined together with
small hook and eye screws from hardware
store. A thin piece of wood should be
glued to cars so screws will hold tight.
Sani-flush tanker: Place four wheels on
can, as for trains. Add two headlights
below red top of can. Write GAS on
sides. Junior will thus learn another word.
Spool Telephone: Punch hole in the
bottom of tape can or drill a hole in a
5x5x1 piece of plywood or pine. Place
dowel through hole and stack three large
spools on dowel. Glue two rounds of felt
on top of third spool. Felt must have a
piece cut from center to outside of circles
to hold the receiver hook which is made
from the hook of a coat hanger looped
around a dowel. Pliers are used to cut
and bend the wire. The next spool is
placed above this and has a mouthpiece
which is the top of a spray can nailed to
the side of the spool. The top spool is
a small one. A wing nut is used to fasten
the top of the dowel. A heavy cord holds
a 500-yard spool, which is the receiver.
Waste basket: 1 — 2/4 gallon sherbet
carton. Scraps of naugahyde, oilcloth, or
wall-tex are glued to the outside of the
carton. Finish the top with a fold of
material, two or more inches wide; cut
fringe, scallops, or any desired pattern
and glue this to the inside of carton, Vi
inch from top. Fold over to outside of
carton and glue in place.
Stack toy game: One piece of board
2 x 4 x 14 with two Vi-\ne\\ holes bored
four inches from each end of the top of
the board. Two dowels Vi x 24 inches
are glued into the holes so they stand
upright. Scrap lumber blocks, 6-inch
tubes from paper rolls, small evaporated
milk cans, and wooden spools from the
ends of butcher paper arc divided into
two equal piles, placed some distance
from the upright poles, and the teams
place one object at a time on their dowel.
The team placing all of its objects on the
dowel first wins the game.
William Beal
COMPETITION, CONVERSATION,
AND CLEAN-UP TOYS
Left to right: stack toy game; telephone;
waste basket.
Play table — large: 1 large 5x5 foot
piece of % inch plywood. Edges are
sanded smooth and rounded slightly. Shel-
lac all over. Two 17-inch high trestles
act as legs. (Not illustrated.)
Flay table — small: A wooden-legged
card table with seven inches cut from legs
makes a play table just the right height
for playing or eating.
Outlining Pictures: Did you have a
strip of peg board left over when you
made the new bulletin board? If you cut
it in small 4" x 6", 6" x 6", round or oval
pieces, your children can paste or paint
designs or pictures on them, and with
boondoggle, colored yarns, or shoe laces,
lace through the holes outlining the pic-
tures. It helps so much with the small
child's co-ordination.
These are only a few of the possi-
bilities of such articles. Even before
this is in print other ideas will have
been worked out. You will have
many ideas of your own. Make these
ideas become realities. You will be
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PEG BOARD ART
Outline Pictures: ship, pup, and desert scene.
glad you did and so will your little
Relief Society nursery friends.
All of the above articles are fine
for grandmothers to have on hand
when tots come to call. Grand-
mothers are expected to have some-
thing special for the small guests.
You will be surprised at the interest
in these "homey" toys. Have a box-
ful ready for the next time the chil-
dren visit. Grandpa may even help
with the project.
I lovemoer constant
Maude Rubin
Now the brawling creek is liquid amber
Loitering between ice-needled banks;
One relic apple, summer's ember,
Still burns on the naked bough and links
That lost May time with this tranquil instant
Then petalled perfume rinsed the night,
Promised this quietude and easement
Before the pillowed winter white.
///*/ cJhtrd (grandma
Part III — Ants
Ilene H. Kingsbury
KICK the ant bed apart. Scat-
ter the pointed top over the
ground. Prod with a stick in-
to the tunnels and the byways of the
frantic, scattering multitudes of crea-
tures whose fury and frustration are
signaled deep beneath the garden
level. Look at the purposeful hurry
they have attained as they repair
the damage, recover stores of food,
and rescue their precious eggs from
giant footfalls. We stomp. We
brush the scurrying insects from our
shoes, and as we see them making
headway up our stockings and even
onto our hands and arms, we fling
ourselves about and dance away
from the anthill and wish we
hadn't disturbed it. We wonder
what is the use of ants, anyway.
* * *
We ran to safety under the shade
of Grandma Morgan's back porch
and met her coming to meet us. In
her hand was a bowl of white flour
paste which she stirred vigorously
as she hastened toward the ants.
She stopped just short of them and
then, with a pinch of this rice flour
paste, started to make a design on
the ground. At first we couldn't
see much sense or pattern to what
she was doing. Just a lot of dots in
measured rows, then continuous
swirls and curves to enclose the dots
and to create a tracery of beauty re-
sembling a delicate oriental screen.
A fine filigree of rice flour was at our
feet. It was as if precious lace had
been held above the ground for its
shadow to fall as a benediction on
the ants.
This was too silent and too beau-
tiful for us to endure. At eight one
must have an explanation for even
the most simple demonstration. We
asked Grandma what she was doing,
and she said she was feeding the
ants. Well, then, why not just spill
the rice flour on the ant hill and
let it go at that?
From what she said that morning,
I knew that if I never reached India,
that she had brought India to me.
Back in her childhood she had
been taught to believe that kindness
to all living creatures was a duty,
the violation of which placed one
under most serious penalties. Thus,
if any of God's creatures needed
shelter or food, the wav should be
opened. In fact, to anticipate the
wants of such creations as the ants,
was a mark of utter consideration.
Therefore, on holidays especially, all
Hindu women chose a small area in
front of their homes on which to
make a banquet for the ants. The
designs of rice flour paste were
marvels to please the eve. Often
they were copies of a design known
as the Tree of Life, or were replicas
of ancient legends carved in oriental
woods. In most cases they bespoke
the originality of the individual. In
the present enlightened world, the
custom still stands, but with the
good luck charm idea as the inter-
pretation.
As Grandma stooped to make her
rice picture, we backed up a bit,
hands clasped behind us to sort of
control us from disturbing her. Be-
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utoltdau cJood Suggestions
Ethel C. Smith
I N retrospect at Thanksgiving time,
how often we discover that
our blessings throughout the year
have been too numerous to count.
And we resolve not to be found
guilty again of a complacent accept-
ance of our privileges and oppor-
tunities, but to be more aware and
more appreciative each day of our
good fortune. How grateful we
should be for a bounteous harvest
and for the help this gives us in
planning and preparing meals.
In spite of the many foods avail-
able, however, we still must have
recipes. In almost every family there
are traditional recipes and special
dishes which make their appearance
each year during the holiday season.
But homemakers are always looking
for new and different recipes to add
to those treasured ones. It is in
keeping with the neighborly gesture
of exchanging recipes prevalent
among Relief Society sisters, and in
the spirit of gratitude and thanks-
giving, that the following brief sug-
gestions are offered:
Steamed Pudding
c. whole-wheat bread crumbs
c. milk
c. butter
c. brown sugar (packed firmly)
c. whole-wheat flour
tsp. soda
1
1
lA
lA
1
i
tsp. nutmeg
tsp. cinnamon
tsp. salt
c. chopped nuts
c. maraschino cherries (cut up)
c. seedless raisins
Soak bread crumbs in milk. Cream butter and sugar until fluffy. Add to soaked
crumbs. Sift dry ingredients together twice and add fruits and nuts. Blend well into
other mixture. Fill greased pudding molds two-thirds full and steam 2 hours. Serve
hot with lemon sauce topped with hard sauce, or with ice-cream sauce. (Note: If
pudding is steamed in wide-mouthed pint fruit jars, lids tight, it will keep indefinitely.
Ice-Cream Sauce
(For Pudding)
1 egg
clash of salt
% c. sugar
1 tsp. vanilla
1 c. whipping cream
Beat egg until light. Add sugar, salt, vanilla, and beat well. Whip cream until stiff.
Fold egg mixture into cream. About a half hour before serving time, pour into refrig-
erator tray and chill until partially frozen. Put on warm pudding and serve immediately.
Fruit Cocktail Pudding
Vi c. chopped nuts
Vi c. brown sugar
1 c. sugar
1 c. flour
1 tsp. soda
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Vi tsp. salt
1 egg (well beaten)
1 no. 2 can (1 lb.) fruit cocktail
(drained)
HOLIDAY FOOD SUGGESTIONS 753
Mix the nuts and brown sugar together and set aside. Mix other dry ingredients
together and mix in the beaten egg. Then blend the drained fruit cocktail by hand
until well mixed. Put into greased nine-inch baking dish and spread the brown sugar-nut
mixture on the top. Bake at 350 degrees for 20 to 30 minutes. Serve hot, topped with
whipped cream.
Cranberry-Almond Pie
4 c. fresh cranberries 2 tbsp. quick cooking tapioca
2 c. sugar % c. slivered almonds
1 small can (8/4 oz.) crushed pineapple 1 tsp. almond extract
Wash cranberries and combine with sugar and pineapple in saucepan. Cook over
moderate heat, stirring occasionally, for about five minutes, until berries pop. Remove
from heat and stir in tapioca, almonds, and flavoring.
Line a nine-inch pie plate with half recipe of your favorite pastry. Trim, leaving
one inch of pastry over edge of pan. Roll out remaining pastry and cut into one-half
inch strips. Pour filling into pan and lay strips across the top about one inch apart.
Weave pastry strips across the other way to make a lattice, folding back alternate strips
of the first layer to do this. When lattice is finished, bring edge of the lower crust up
over edge of strips and press down to seal edges; then flute edges.
Pumpkin Chiffon Pie
3 egg yolks Vz tsp. cinnamon
Vz c. sugar Vz tsp. nutmeg
l'X c. cooked or canned pumpkin 1 tbsp. unflavored gelatin
Vz c. milk lA c. cold water
Vz tsp. salt 3 stiffly beaten egg whites
Vz tsp. ginger Vz c. sugar
Beat egg yolks and Vz cup sugar until thick; add pumpkin, milk, salt, and spices
and mix well. Cook in double boiler until thickened. Soak gelatin in cold water and
when softened add to the hot mixture, stirring until gelatin is dissolved. Beat egg
whites until stiff, then beat in the remaining Vz cup sugar. Remove hot mixture from
stove and fold in the egg whites. Pour into baked shell and chill. Top with ring of
whipped, sweetened cream.
Nut Pie Shell
(Especially good with the Pumpkin Chiffon Pie)
1 c. flour % c. brown sugar
Vz c. butter Vz c. finely chopped nuts
Mix together well and spread in nine-inch pie pan. Cook at 350 degrees for about
15 minutes or until lightly browned. Remove from oven and press firmly into shape
in the pan. Cool before putting in the filling.
Cherry-Cheese Salad
1 package lime jello Vz c. pineapple chunks
1 % c. hot water 1 small package Philadelphia cream
lA c. fresh lime juice cheese
1 tbsp. sugar chopped nuts (optional)
1 c. white cherries (pitted)
(This takes a no. 2 or 1 lb. can)
Prepare jello according to directions on package, substituting % c. lime juice for
XA c. of the water called for. Stir in sugar. Put in refrigerator until mixture starts to
set. Add fruits and put into individual ring molds. Make small balls of the cream
cheese and roll in finely chopped nuts, or use the cheese plain. When jello is un-
molded, place two or three of the cheese balls in center and garnish the ring with
mayonnaise. (If you prefer to have solid molds, stuff the cherries with the cheese balls
before adding to jello.)
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Jellied Fruit Salad
i c. pineapple juice (drained from Vi c. diced pineapple
canned pineapple) Vi c. diced oranges (Mandarin oranges
l package lemon jello may be used if desired)
i c. orange juice '/> c. chopped Brazil nuts
l c. whipping cream
Heat pineapple juice. Add to jello and stir until dissolved. Add orange juice and
chill. When jello starts to thicken, beat with rotary egg beater or electric mixer until
frothy. Whip cream stiff and fold into the jello. Blend in fruit and nuts, and put
to set. Serve either with fruit salad dressing or mayonnaise.
Holiday Cake
2 lbs. pitted dates 3 72 c. flour
Vi lb. glazed cherries 4 tsps. baking powder
1 medium-sized bottle (8 oz. or little Vi tsp. cloves
more) maraschino cherries Vi tsp. allspice
72 c. maraschino cherry juice 72 tsp. nutmeg
1 c. butter 1 tsp. cinnamon
3 c. brown sugar (packed firmly) 1 tsp. salt
5 eggs, separated 2 tsp. vanilla
1 c. milk 2 72 or 3 c. chopped nuts
Cut dates and cherries into small pieces and soak in Vi cup maraschino cherry
juice until juice is absorbed by fruit (preferably overnight).
Cream butter and add half the sugar. Beat until light and fluffy. In another
bowl beat the egg yolks until very thick and lemon colored. Add the remaining sugar
and beat until light and fluffy. Combine the two mixtures and beat. Add vanilla.
Sift and measure flour. Then sift three times with salt, baking powder, and spices.
Add dry ingredients and milk alternately, beating well after each addition. Fold in
stiffly beaten egg whites. Last, add fruit and nuts which have been dredged lightly with
a little of the flour. Bake in loaf pans which have been lined on the bottom with
waxed paper and well greased, both bottom and sides. Bake in slow oven (250 degrees)
two hours, if regular loaf size pans are used, one hour if very small pans are used. Makes
three regular loaf size cakes or eight small ones.
Most people have their special way of cooking the turkey and a favorite stuffing
recipe. But sometimes it is hard to know just what to do with leftover turkey, so it
will have an appetite appeal after the big Thanksgiving dinner. Here are two sug-
gestions:
Escalloped Turkey With Cauliflower or Broccoli
1 head of cauliflower or tion of these liquids
broccoli stalks to equal that amount. (Note: To make turkey stock, break
3 tbsp. turkey fat or butter up turkey bones and boil over low
3 tbsp. flour heat with some chopped celery,
salt and pepper onions, parsley, and seasonings. )
1 72 c. turkey stock or milk, or a combina-
Brcak cauliflower or broccoli into pieces and cook in boiling salted water until
almost tender. Drain. Melt fat and add flour and seasoning. Stir in stock or milk and
cook until thickened, stirring constantly. Arrange turkey and vegetable in greased
casserole in alternate layers and cover with sauce. Bake in moderate oven (350 degrees)
until heated through — 20 to 30 minutes.
Note: A variation to this is to use alternate layers of turkey, vegetables, and ham,
and cover with a nippy cheese sauce (medium white sauce with cheese added).
Turkey-Dressing Casserole
In greased casserole, arrange alternate layers of sliced turkey (or pieces) and sliced
cold dressing. Pour gravy over this and top with creamy mashed potatoes. Brush with
butter and bake in moderate oven for 15 or 20 minutes, until heated through and the
potatoes are browned.
Orchids in the Snow
Chapter 7
Rosa Lee Lloyd
Synopsis: Sharry and Sam Wynter,
newlyweds from Utah, make many friends
in their new home in Alaska, including
Angus McFarland, a widower, his daugh-
ter Marie, and Susan and Herman Elge
from Bristol Bay. Sister Jensen, President
of the branch Relief Society in Fairbanks,
introduces Sharon to Mary Billings, who
is blind, and to other neighbors. Sharon
and Sam repair a log cabin for their home,
and Marie comes from Anchorage to visit
them. When Sharon finds that she is
expecting a child she sends for Aunt
Jewel, a nurse. McFarland brings Jewel
from Anchorage to Fairbanks in his plane.
Later, when Sharon is feeling well enough
to travel, the Wynters, Marie, and Aunt
Jewel go to visit McFarland and Herman
and Susan Elge in Bristol Bay. Jewel leaves
for a ten-mile trip by dog team at once
after their arrival to nurse a very ill woman.
SHARRY was awakened by the
shrieking storm. The radium
hands of her wrist watch were
the only speck of light in the black
night. It was after midnight.
"Sam," she called. "Are you
awake, dear?"
He sat up rubbing his eyes. "Some
wind! Sounds like a steam roller!"
"It's awful. I'm scared for Aunt
Jewel."
"Yes — I hope they make it okay.
Listen to that ice splinter against
the windows!"
He got out of bed and made his
way to the living room in the dark-
ness. Sharry slipped on her robe,
following him. Marie was there
already.
"Fll get the storm lantern," she
said. "It's in the kitchen. This
sounds like a real shocker."
Sharry and Sam dressed hurriedly
while Marie got the lantern.
"Put on your parka," Sam told
her. "It's freezing. We can't build
a fire with this wind running wild."
Sam was eyeing the big front win-
dow overlooking the bay. It was
creaking and moaning with each
furious blast of wind.
"We'll have to brace it," Marie
said. "Help me get the iron grating
and the two-by-fours from the stor-
age hall. The wind is off the Bay.
Hear the waves lashing!"
"Stay here, honey," Sam told
Sharry. He pushed her gently into
the leather chair. "Here— cover up
with this blanket."
"But I want to help," Sharry
cried.
There was a thunderous roar on
the roof.
"There goes the chimney!" Marie
called. "The wires holding it have
snapped. I'm glad the fire was out.
Here, Sharry, guard this lantern. If
the wind catches the flame, smother
it with your blanket."
They disappeared into the black-
ness. Sharry shivered as she watched
the lantern. Suddenly the wind
swept through the fireplace, raced
through the living room, tumbling
everything loose in its path. It
roared into the kitchen, banging
kettles on their hooks, sweeping
dishes and glasses to the floor. Shar-
ry was terrified. Aunt Jewel was out
there somewhere in this awful
storm. Oh, please, dear Heavenly
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Father, she prayed, bless her and
McFarland and all of us.
Sam and Marie worked furiously
to reinforce the windows. Sharry
tried to help them, but Marie
pushed her out of the way.
"Watch that lantern!" she de-
manded. "That's your job."
Marie was her father's daughter,
fighting like a little tigress hour
after hour. Sam worked right along
with her, lugging the huge pieces of
lumber, bracing them in exactly the
right places.
"That's perfect, Sam," Sharry
heard Marie's voice above the storm.
"I wouldn't have known enough to
put it there."
Sam knows so many things, Shar-
ry thought. He always figures every-
thing exactly right.
T^HE lantern flame flickered, then
flamed to the top of the chim-
ney. Sharry screamed to them.
"Get under the blanket with it,"
Marie called back. "Don't be such
a fraidy cat!"
"But I am afraid!" Sharry cried
out. "I can't help it. Aunt Jewel
is out there freezing, and you say
not to be afraid. It sounds crazy!"
There was a lull in the storm.
Marie turned to Sharry in the weird
silence that followed. Her face was
strained in the lantern light. Hei
freckles were spots of gold in her
pale face.
"Listen, Sharry," she said, in a
deadly, solemn voice. "This is life
in Bristol. I was reared in this
country, and it's no joy ride. Jewel
might as well know what it's like
before she marries my Dad!"
"I hope she doesn't marry him!"
Sharry replied angrily. "I hope she
has better sense than to marry him
and live in this wild forsaken place
—I'd rather die. . . ."
Her voice broke in little pieces.
Sam was staring at her, his blue eyes
stricken as though she had struck
him physically.
"Oh, no!" She closed her eves
7 j
against his look. "I didn't mean
it — please forgive me. . . ."
The wind rose again in sudden
fury, drowning her voice. Sam
reached for another blanket and
tucked it around her before he
turned again to the windows.
Gradually the wind whined to a
low moan, then finally stopped.
"It's gone out to sea," Marie said,
throwing herself on the lounge. "It
won't come back tonight. The
windows are safe, Sam. The roof
is still on. We can sleep in peace."
Sam lifted Sharry in his arms and
carried her into the bedroom.
"It's been too much for you," he
said in his tender way. His eyes
avoided hers. She knew he was
deeply hurt by what she had said,
but he did not mention it. He slept
exhaustedly.
CHARRY awakened at ten o'clock
the next morning. The sky,
from the bedroom window, was a
dim wash of gold above the Bay.
She closed the door and hurried
to the kitchen, hoping to get the
broken glasses and dishes swept up
before Sam and Marie awakened.
The delicious odor of frying food
greeted her as she went in.
"Susan! How good to see you.
You've cleaned up in here."
Susan was cooking on a small,
portable oil stove. She smiled at
Sharry.
"I heard the chimney tumble so
I knew the range couldn't be used.
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757
I brought my little stove. You need
something hot, dear. This is
powdered milk but it tastes real
good."
Sharry sat on the stool, sipping
the hot milk.
'Try a piece of this fried mush/'
Susan urged her. ''It's crispy good
with jam."
"I — can't eat," Sharry mur-
mured.
T know," Susan said. "Storms are
upsetting. It used to take me days
to get over one when we first came
here."
'The storm was awful," Sharry
said, "but it wasn't just the storm.
I said something mean — I wish I
hadn't. . . ."
Brokenly she told Susan how she
had flared out at Marie; that Sam
had heard what she said. Now he
knew how she felt about living in
Alaska.
Susan turned another piece of
mush, then she sat down in a chair
opposite Sharry.
"Life is full of storms," she said,
her dark eyes tender with under-
standing. "We must ride them out,
Sharry. Prayerfully and trustingly.
Don't ever let a shadow of any kind
come between you and your hus-
band. He is God's blessing to you.
You must always come first with
each other."
The clock on the table ticked on
steadily. Sharry looked at Susan's
toilworn hands folded in her lap.
Her face was lined and looked older
than her years. She was only Jew-
el's age. Time was running out for
her husband, and she knew it. Each
tick of the clock brought the part-
ing nearer. And yet — Susan's eyes
were those of a woman who looks
beyond the trials of each day toward
some brighter tomorrow.
"We have had a good life togeth-
er, Herman and I." Her voice was
so low Sharry bent her head to hear
her. "We have fought things
through together, storm or shine,
sick or well. Herman always put me
first. That to me is the sweetest
part of marriage — you always come
first with each other. What does
it matter where you have to live if
you have each other?"
Sharry couldn't speak for the great
hot lump in her throat. She held
Susan's hand for a long, quiet mo-
ment. Then Susan lifted her head.
Her eyes held a new promise.
"I have sent for my son Swenson,"
she said. "He should be here this
week. That will make Marie hap-
py, I hope."
"Marie?" Sharry questioned as a
little bell tinkled in her mind.
Marie had told her she was in love
with a boy who thought she was
still a little girl. It must be Swen-
son!
"He has told us of girl friends,"
Susan went on. "But there is no
special girl. Does Marie have a
special boy?"
Sharry shook her head.
"I think she has been waiting for
Swenson," she confided. "But that's
her secret. Susan, it would be won-
derful for you if Swenson stayed
here in Bristol."
CUSAN'S face sobered. "That is
too much to hope for," she an-
swered. "He is a surgeon. The
hospital in Anchorage needs sur-
geons. I will be contented if he is
there."
The door opened and Marie came
in. She looked fresh as a rosebud
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with no traces of the strenuous night
on her bright face.
"Umm! Fried mush. My favor-
ite," she said. "Have you tried it,
Sharry?"
"No — but I will," Sharry said as
Sam came in.
"Try what?" he laughed. "Susan,
you're a great cook. I'm hungry as
a bear!"
He stooped to kiss Sharry. "How's
my sweetheart?" he asked her as
though that was the most important
thing in the world.
"Fine," she answered, smiling up
at him. He was clear-eyed and
happy this morning. Sharry won-
dered if he had really forgotten what
she had said to Marie last night.
Maybe he hadn't heard, she thought,
hopefully. But she was still heart-
sick about it, wondering what he
was really thinking under his pleas-
ant manner. Sam was like that. He
thought things through carefully be-
fore he discussed them.
During the next two days, every-
one worked strenuously to get every-
thing back to normal before Jewel
and McFarland returned. There
had been no word from them, and
bv the third day Sharry's eyes were
constantly anxious as she stood at
the window peering through field
glasses into the blue darkness.
"They are all right," Susan as-
sured her. "I feel it — here. I
have a good feeling when I think of
them."
Marie said, "Come on, Sharry.
Get your guitar. Let's sing for
Uncle Herman. You, too, Sam,"
she called. He was enjoying Mc-
Farland's books that lined the walls
of the den. "We need your har-
mony."
"That's quite a library," Sam said,
as he sat down beside them. "He
has every kind of book from ency-
clopedias to the latest fiction."
"Yes," Marie said. "My Dad has
a theory. He says that to be a suc-
cessful Alaskan you have to like to
read a book. So you're a successful
Alaskan, Sam." Her eyes met his
with frank admiration. "In every
way, I'd say. Very successful."
CHARRY looked at Sam. He
winced. He put the book he
had brought with him on the table.
His smile was forced. Where was
his boyish grin? she wondered. Sam
usually liked a real compliment. He's
hurt deep inside, she thought with
a little stab. He hasn't forgotten
what I said last night about Alaska.
"What song shall we sing, Uncle
Herman?" Marie asked.
Susan arranged the pillows so
Herman was in a sitting position.
As Sharry watched them her throat
tightened. How wistfully Herman
looked at Susan as though treasuring
every minute of his time with her,
grateful for all the rugged years they
had shared together. Sharry had
realized in the last two days that
Herman was a man of dauntless
faith. It was the courage in his ready
smile in spite of pain, in the uncon-
querable lift of his chin, and it was
always shining in his loving blue
eyes when Susan was near him. It
was faith and courage that gave his
voice a confident, lilting ring when
he sang with them, forgetting the
weakness of his failing body, strum-
ming his guitar along with Sharry
and Marie. Sharry was grateful for
her own unwavering belief in eternal
life when she watched Herman and
Susan. Such love as theirs would
never die, even though Herman
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759
would leave her for awhile. They
would be together again. So they
could all sing bravely and cheerfully
together.
"I like the ballads/' Herman said.
'They have a rhythm to them. You
take the first verse, Marie, and we'll
come in for the chorus."
"Okay!" Sam said. "Swing off,
Marie. Let's start with 'Ballad of
Rocky Point.' "
They were still singing an hour
later when the sound of dogs bark-
ing came across the snow. Then a
long "Hellooo" in McFarland's
voice.
Marie ran to the door. "Hel-
looooo!" she called back.
McFarland and Jewel came in
smiling, their faces the color of ripe
peaches and their eyes shining. A
little halo of happiness glowed
around them. McFarland's laugh
was like big bells chiming.
"Greatest trip of my life!" he said,
swinging Jewel's hands. "The wind
peppered the sleet against us like
cold lead, the dogs were mean as
wolves, but we plugged on. We
finally got there, near morning.
Katie was mighty sick. I was afraid
we were too late. But Jewel pulled
her through. I've never seen any-
one, except Susan, work as hard as
Jewel did to save a life. Massage,
hot packs — you must have used a
ton of mustard, Jewel."
"Not quite," she laughed. "But
a mustard plaster is still mighty good
for congestion. We had no profes-
sional medication — I had to ask
myself what grandmother Haskell
would do in a case like this."
"I remembered you used hot fish
oil last year, Susan," McFarland
added.
"She needs her tonsils out, too,"
Jewel explained.
"I told Johnny to bring her in as
soon as she can travel sled," McFar-
land went on. "We'll fly her to the
hospital in Anchorage."
"Wait for Swen," Susan said unex-
pectedly. "He'll be here this week.
He can do it right here in the
kitchen."
Marie dropped the poker she had
been using in the fireplace. Her
blue eyes were fire-bright, as she
looked up at Susan. Sharry knew
he was the one Marie loved.
McFarland listened while they
told about the windstorm.
"It was a dilly," Marie said. "But
afterwards it was nice and calm, as
usual. Sam got up on the roof
and mended the chimney so we can
use it."
"We need a lot of new things,"
McFarland said. He reached for
Jewel's hands again, drawing her
close to him. "I want everything
new and wonderful for Jewel."
He drew a long deep breath.
Everyone was staring at them.
44 JEWEL has promised to marry
me and live here in Bristol
with me," he said. His voice was
rich with love and pride. "I am
the luckiest man in the world to
have a wife like Jewel."
Jewel's eyes were tear-drenched
with happiness and fulfillment.
"I am the lucky one," she said,
softly. "Sharry, remember — I
caught your bouquet. I didn't think
it would ever happen to me."
"But it did, Aunt Jewel!" Sharry
breathed. "It really did. We are
so glad!"
McFarland included them all in
his big smile.
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"Jewel and I are leaving tonight
and flying to Los Angeles to be mar-
ried in the temple. We have missed
too many years together already,
but . . ." he held his hand up,
"we'll return immediately for a wed-
ding reception right here in Bristol
Village."
His voice mellowed as he looked
at Herman and Susan. "Herman
will be my best man/' he said, his
eyes holding Herman's in a long
look of tender understanding. "We
all know what a wedding reception
means to the people of Bristol Bay.
It must be just the kind they want,
the kind to which they are accus-
tomed. Jewel has agreed with me
on this. We wouldn't cheat them
out of it, if we had to fly around the
world to get back. Susan knows
how everything should be done.
Marie, too/'
Marie's eyes were dancing ap-
proval.
"Oh, goodie!" she cried, as she put
her strong young arms around Jewel
and hugged her tightly. "I think
you're just perfect for my Dad. Now
I have two Mamas. Mama Sue and
Mama Jewel. Am I a lucky girl!"
"You are!" Sam joined in. "A
mighty lucky girl!"
McFarland put his parka on
again.
"I'll have to send messages from
the radio station. And see that my
plane is in tip-top condition to fly
to Anchorage. We'll take the jet
plane from there. There's a lot of
planning to do for a wedding," he
said in his commanding way. "We
must all get busy. Sam, ride sled
with me while the girls get dinner."
Sharry stood close by while Sam
put on his heavy boot's, parka, and
fur cap.
"Hurry back," she whispered as
he stooped to kiss her.
He put his hand under her chin,
tipping her face so he could look at
her. His eyes were deep blue ques-
tion marks as he went out into the
azure darkness of the winter after-
noon.
(To be concluded)
Stiver vUeb
Mabel Law Atkinson
Dear Granny's voice held flute-tones bright as dawn,
"Call not the spider's weaving gray, my child,
But a shining silver web an artist styled.
Come, you must put my star-rimmed glasses on
To see a crocus thrusting through the clod;
A lilac blossom with an April breeze
Light dancing a ballet; view emerald seas
Of meadows daisy-crested, not mere sod."
A silver web of beauty! Granny's art
I came to understand: As years sped swift
The commonplace illumed when I would lift
My eyes and see with vision of the heart.
To Granny's garden, walled by crumbling stone,
I have returned, and through nostalgic tears
I view the silver web spun by the years,
For I have star-rimmed glasses of my own.
LESSJON DEPARTMENT
cJheologyi — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 29— The Law of Administration to the Sick
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Section 42:43-52)
For Tuesday, February 7, 1961
Objective: To learn some principles of the law of administration to the sick.
Background
The introduction of Section 42 of
The Doctrine and Covenants has
been given in other lessons. In gen-
eral, the receiving of this revelation
arose out of the Lord's recognition
of the poverty of some saints. The
law concerning this condition and
the promises of the Lord that the
earth is to bring forth its fulness
for the benefit of his people "in the
due time of the Lord" is provided in
this revelation. We have already
learned that there are other laws
mentioned in this revelation, one of
which is the subject of this lesson.
Objective of This Lesson
Although reference is made to the
working of miracles, including heal-
ings, in other revelations yet to be
studied, this lesson will be limited
in subject matter to some of the
principles of administration to the
sick. All of the ramifications of this
important subject are not to be dis-
cussed in this lesson.
Some Aspects of This Ordinance
The healing of a person's infirm-
ity, or disease, or the correction of
some impediment such as in speech,
use of legs or arms, have always been
a part of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
One of the most direct references to
the practice of administering to the
sick during the meridian dispensa-
tion is that given in the New Testa-
ment, as follows:
Is any sick among you? let him call for
the elders of the church; and let them
pray over him, anointing him with oil in
the name of the Lord:
And the prayer of faith shall save the
sick, and the Lord shall raise him up; and
if he have committed sins, they shall be
forgiven him.
Confess your faults one to another, and
pray one for another, that ye may be
healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a
righteous man availeth much (James
5:14-16).
There are several factors to be
noted in James' counsel concerning
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this ordinance. One of these is that
the Lord provided in his plan such
an ordinance as administration to
the sick bv the elders of the Church.
In other places in the New Testa-
ment are found references to the
laying on of the hands for this pur-
pose. The Savior said that his be-
lievers should ". . . lay hands on the
sick, and they shall recover" (Mark
16:18). In our own dispensation,
the Prophet Joseph Smith has told
us that the sign of the healing of
the sick is the laying on of hands.
(SeeD. H. C, 1^:555.)
The use of oil is indicated by
James as a part of the ordinance of
administration to the sick. In the
call and commission to the Twelve
Apostles, it is recorded by Mark
that Jesus,
. . . called unto him the twelve, and
began to send them forth by two and
two; and gave them power over unclean
spirits. . . .
And they went out, and preached that
men should repent.
And they cast out many devils, and
anointed with oil many that were sick,
and healed them (Mark 6:7, 12-13).
After asking this question "Can
not the Lord hear prayer and heal
the sick just as well without laying
on of hands and anointing with oil
as with?" Elder Pratt said:
He could have thrown down the walls
of Jericho without the children of Israel
walking around them and blowing rams'
horns; but the Lord has a form, then why
not comply with it, and leave the event
with him (Journal of Discourses 16:290).
A frequently raised question aris-
ing out of James' instructions is this
one answered by President Joseph
Fielding Smith:
James says when a man administers to
a sick person he has power to remit his
sins; how does the elder get power to
remit sins?"
It is not the elder who remits or for-
gives the sick man's sins, but the Lord.
If by the power of faith and through the
administration by the elders the man is
healed it is evidence that his sins have
been forgiven. It is hardly reasonable to
think that the Lord will forgive the sins
of a man who is healed if he has not
repented. Naturally he would repent of
his sins if he seeks for the blessings by
the elders (Smith, Joseph Fielding,
"Your Questions," The Improvement Era,
August 1955, page 607).
The Loid Speaks to Us
From the law of the Lord:
And whosoever among you are sick, and
have not faith to be healed, but believe,
shall be nourished with all tenderness,
with herbs and mild food, and that not
by the hand of an enemy.
And the elders of the church, two or
more, shall be called, and shall pray for
and lay their hands upon them in my
name; and if they die they shall die unto
me, and if they live they shall live unto
me (D & C 42:43-44).
The elders of The Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are
to administer to the members of
the kingdom of God in this dispen-
sation by the "prayer of faith" and
the power of the Priesthood. Rather
than restricting or limiting the op-
erations of the Priesthood of God,
the fulness of times is the period
when greater evidence of the power
of the Lord is to be manifest. This
dispensation is the time of gather-
ing together in one all dispensations
of times to culminate in the salva-
tion of mankind. In the beginning
of this dispensation, the Lord said
in his preface to The Doctrine and
Covenants that he had established
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the gospel upon the earth 'That
faith also might increase in the
earth; That mine everlasting cove-
nant might be established" (D & C
1:21-22).
Medical Aid?
Throughout the law of adminis-
tration to the sick, as given in Sec-
tion 42, emphasis is placed upon the
principle of faith in bringing about
a restoration to health. (See D & C
42:48-51.) It does not follow, how-
ever, that Latter-day Saints believe
that the use of medicine and the
skill of the surgeon are not to be
used. In commenting upon verses
43 and 44 of this revelation, the
Doctrine and Covenants Commen-
tary (Revised Edition, 1951, page
232) gives the following informa-
tion:
The Latter-day Saints believe in the
healing virtue of the prayer of faith, but
they do not proscribe the use of "herbs
and mild food," nor the aid of a physician.
In the month of November, 1842, Brig-
ham Young was seriously ill. In his diary
the Prophet Joseph notes that, "He was
suddenly and severely attacked by disease,
with strong symptoms of apoplexy," and
then he adds, "We immediately admin-
istered to him by laying on of hands and
prayer, accompanied with the use of
herbs."
Under date of December 26th,
1842, the Prophet writes:
General Law gave me in custody of
Doctor Richards, with whom I visited
Sister Morey, who was severely afflicted.
We prescribed Lobelia for her, among
other things, which is excellent in its
place (Doctrine and Covenants Commen-
tary, page 232).
Revelation Continued
In continuing this law the Lord
reveals some important truths rela-
tive to the Latter-day Saints' attitude
toward the dead and also the bless-
ing awaiting the faithful of his
kingdom.
Thou shalt live together in love, inso-
much that thou shalt weep for the loss of
them that die, and more especially for
those that have not hope of a glorious
resurrection.
And it shall come to pass that those
that die in me shall not taste of death,
for it shall be sweet unto them;
And they that die not in me, wo unto
them, for their death is bitter.
And again, it shall come to pass that he
that hath faith in me to be healed, and
is not appointed unto death, shall be
healed.
He who hath faith to see shall see.
He who hath faith to hear shall hear.
The lame who hath faith to leap shall
leap.
And they who have not faith to do
these things, but believe in me, have pow-
er to become my sons; and inasmuch as
they break not my laws thou shalt bear
their infirmities (D & C 42:45-52).
Death is a part of the eternal plan
of the Father. Jacob taught that
death ". . . hath passed upon all
men, to fulfil the merciful plan of
the great Creator ..." (2 Nephi
9:6). The Prophet Joseph Smith
spoke of death as the last enemy
to be overcome. (See D. H. C.
V: 387-388.) The ancient prophets
heralded the day when the bands
of death would be broken by the
resurrection of the body from the
grave. Thus, there would be no
victory in the grave. Life would be
endless. The removal of death by
the resurrection was proclaimed as
a grand objective of the atonement
of Christ. Sorrow would depart
from the land in the realization that
no longer would there be a parting
of loved ones. (See 2 Nephi 9:19;
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Mosiah 15:20; 16:9; I Cor. 15:53-55;
D & C 63:49.)
They That Die Not
Unto the Lord
A scene of mourning is depicted
in The Book of Mormon account
of the great destruction upon this
continent when the Savior was
crucified. (See 3 Nephi 8:23-25.)
Following this destruction a voice
was heard, crying: "Wo? wo, wo
unto this people; wo unto the in-
habitants of the whole earth except
they shall repent; for the devil
laugheth, and his angels rejoice,
because of the slain of the fair sons
and daughters of my people . . ."
(3 Nephi 9:2). But for what rea-
son was there rejoicing on the part
of the devil and his cohorts? The
scripture continues, ". . . and it is
because of their iniquity and abomi-
nations that they are fallen" ( 3 Ne-
phi 9:2). So strongly did the
Nephites feel against the necessity
of taking the lives of the Lamanites
in the days of Helaman and Moroni
( the great general and prophet ) that
they sorrowed in sending so many
". . . out of this world into an
eternal world, unprepared to meet
their God" (Alma 48:22-25). Mor-
mon's lamentation over the fallen
Nephites in the last great battle
with the Lamanites reminds one of
the eternal truth that all must stand
before the judgment-seat of Christ
where every man will be rewarded
according to justice and mercy.
(See Mormon 6:16-22.)
"Death Shall Be Sweet
Unto Them"
When death strikes in a family,
it is natural to weep for the loss thus
sustained. The extent of such
mourning, among Latter-day Saints,
however, may also be determined
by the circumstances. President
John Taylor had this to say at a
funeral service:
It is proper to sorrow; it is proper to
show respect for the departed. It is
proper that our sympathies should be
drawn out; it is proper that we should
assemble together to attend to appropriate
funeral services, as we are now doing,
that we may reflect upon our lives and
upon the uncertainty thereof, and upon
death and the results that mav follow
after; and that we consider the Gospel of
the Son of God, and reflect upon our
position, etc. . . . We, above all other
people upon the face of the earth, ought
to be free from outward show, and from
the appearance of sorrow, and mourning,
having had planted within us the germs
of immortality and eternal life; inasmuch
as when we get through with the affairs
of this world, we not only expect, but we
know that we will inherit eternal lives in
the celestial kingdom of God. And know-
ing this, it would not be for us to mourn
as people without any hope (Journal of
Discourses 22:355).
In quoting the words of President
Joseph F. Smith, the Doctrine and
Covenants Commentary (page 232)
gives the following statement which
applies to the expressions from the
text of our lesson ". . . and if they
die thev shall die unto me . . ."
(D & C 42:44) and ". . . those that
die in me shall not taste of death,
for it shall be sweet unto them"
(D& C 42:46).
That which we call death is merely the
slumber and rest of this mortal clay, and
that only for a little season, while the
spirit, the life, has gone to enjoy again the
presence and society of those from whence
it came, and to whom it is joy again to
return. And this will be the condition
of the righteous until the morning of the
resurrection, when the spirit will have
power to call forth the lifeless frame to
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a living soul, an immortal being, filled
with the light and power of God. . . .
What reason have we to mourn? None,
except that we are deprived for a few days
of the society of one whom we love
(Journal of Discourses 19:263).
The same sermon from which the
above excerpt is taken pertinently
points out that the gospel is a mes-
sage of hope and comfort:
We live then, we do not die, we do
not anticipate death; but we anticipate
life, immortality, glory, exaltation, and to
be quickened by the glory of the celestial
kingdom, and receive of the same, even a
fullness. This is our destiny; this is the
exalted position to which we may attain,
and there is no power that can deprive
or rob us of it, if we prove faithful and
true to the covenant of the Gospel (Jour-
nal of Discourses, 19:265).
Faith to Be Healed
The scriptures teach us that where
faith is present, blessings follow.
Miracles are performed by this prin-
ciple. (See Mark 16:17-18.) Jesus
said to the woman healed by him,
". . . thy faith hath made thee
whole . . ." (Mt. 9:22). On the
other hand, no mighty miracles were
performed by Jesus in ''his own
country" because of the unbelief of
the people, who knew him as the
carpenter; yet ". . . he laid his hands
upon a few sick folk, and healed
them" (Mark 6:5). (See Mark
6:1-6.) Upon one occasion Paul
healed a lame man because he had
faith to be healed (Acts 14:8-10).
Are All of Faith to Be Healed?
From an informative sermon by
Elder Spencer W. Kimball of the
Council of the Twelve, this thought
is expressed on this question and the
subject of pain, sorrow, and punish-
ment:
Now, we find many people critical
when a righteous person is killed, a young
father or mother is taken from a family,
or when violent deaths occur. Some be-
come bitter when oft-repeated prayers
seem unanswered. Some lose faith and
turn sour when solemn administrations by
holy men seem to be ignored and no
restoration seems to come from repeated
prayer circles. But if all the sick were
healed, if all the righteous were protected
and the wicked destroyed, the whole pro-
gram of the Father would be annulled and
the basic principle of the Gospel, free
agency, would be ended.
If pain and sorrow and total punish-
ment immediately followed the doing of
evil, no soul would repeat a misdeed. If
joy and peace and rewards were instan-
taneously given the doer of good, there
could be no evil — all would do good and
not because of the Tightness of doing good.
There would be no test of strength, no
development of character, no growth of
powers, no free agency, only satanic con-
trols.
Should all prayers be immediately an-
swered according to our selfish desires
and our limited understanding, then there
would be little or no suffering, sorrow,
disappointment or even death, and if
these were not there would also be an
absence of joy, success, resurrection, eternal
life and Godhood (Kimball, Spencer
W.: "Tragedy or Destiny," address to the
Brigham Young University Student Body,
December 6, 1955, pp. 4-5).
Elder Kimball continues in point-
ing out that death is a part of life's
experiences:
Everyone must die. Death is an im-
portant part of life. Of course, we are
never quite ready for the change. Not
knowing when it should come, we proper-
ly fight to retain our life.
Why are we so afraid of death? We
pray for the sick — we administer to the
afflicted — we implore the Lord to heal
and reduce pain and save life and post-
pone death, and properly so, but is etern-
ity so frightful? So awful?
The Lord takes many away even in
infancy, that they may escape the envy
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of man and the sorrows and evils of this
present world; they were too pure, too
lovely, to live on this earth. Therefore,
if rightly considered, instead of mourning
we have reason to rejoice as they are de-
livered from evil and we shall have them
again. The onlv difference between the
old and the young dying is, one lives
longer in heaven and eternal light and
glory than the other, and is freed a little
sooner from this miserable world (Kim-
ball, Spencer W.: "Tragedy or Destiny,"
address to the Brigham Young University
Student Body, December 6, 1955, page 8).
"Appointed Unto Death"
In commenting upon the Lord's
statement that ". . . he that hath
faith in me to be healed, and is not
appointed unto death, shall be
healed" (D & C 42:48), Brother
Kimball states in the source already
quoted:
If not "appointed unto death" and suf-
ficient faith is developed, life can be
spared. But if there is not enough faith
many die before their time. It is evident
that even the righteous will not always be
healed and even those of great faith will
die when it is according to the purpose of
God. Joseph Smith died in his thirties
as did the Savior. Solemn prayers were
answered negatively. . . .
"If he is not appointed unto death!"
That is a challenging statement.
I am confident that there is a time to
die. I am not a fatalist. I believe that
many people die before "their time" be-
cause they are careless, abuse their bodies,
take unnecessary chances, or expose them-
selves to hazards, accidents and sickness
(Kimball, Spencer W.: "Tragedy or
Destiny," address to the Brigham Young
University Student Body, December 6,
1955, pp. 6, 9).
In confirmation of some of these
ideas, Elder Kimball refers to the
scripture in Job 22:15-16; Eccles-
iastes 3:1-2, 7:17, with the stated
belief that "we die prematurely but
seldom exceed our time very much
though there are exceptions/' As
an exception, reference is made to
King Hezekiah of Judah (2 Kings
20:1-6). Examples from The Book
of Mormon bearing out the fact that
efforts were made to bring some of
the Lord's servants to an earlv death
before their "time to die" were
cited in the cases of Abinadi (Mo-
siah 13:3, 7; 17-19); and Lehi and
Nephi, sons of Helaman, (Helaman
5:26, 29). Bible examples include
Enoch (Moses 6:39), and Paul (2
Cor. 11:23-27; Phil. 1:23; Acts
21:13).
In conclusion, Brother Kimball
says:
God controls our lives, guides and
blesses us, but gives us our agencv. We
may live our lives in accordance with I lis
plan for us or we may foolishly shorten
or terminate them.
I am positive in my mind that the
Lord has planned our destiny. We can
shorten our lives but I think we cannot
lengthen them very much. Sometime
we'll understand fully, and when we see
back from the vantage point of the future
we shall be satisfied with many of the
happenings of this life which seemed so
difficult for us to comprehend (Kimball,
Spencer W.: "Tragedv or Destiny," ad-
dress to the Brigham Young University
Student Body, December 6, 1955, pp.
11-12
Questions for Discussion
1. If faith in the Lord is necessary as
a requisite to healing the sick, what evi-
dence would vou give that such faith is
among the members of the Church in this
dispensation?
2. Discuss: Latter-day Saints believe in
making use of medical skill when needed.
3. Why would you believe that death
shall be sweet to the faithful Latter-day
Saint?
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4. According to Elder Spencer W.
Kimball, what is the meaning of the
scripture that ". . . he that hath faith
in me to be healed, and is not appointed
unto death, shall be healed" (D & C
42:48)?
Visiting cJeacher II Lessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 29— "Wherefore, I Am in Your Midst, and I Am the
Good Shepherd. . . ." (D & C 50:44)
Christine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, February 7, 1961
Objective: To persuade us that Jesus is with us and, if we live righteously and
will seek him, he will guide, sustain, and comfort us.
f^NE of the most beautiful ex-
amples of poetry ever composed
is found in the Twenty-third Psalm,
which begins with the immortal
words: 'The Lord is my shepherd;
I shall not want/' This soul-stirring
poem by the prophet David, has
been, and likely will ever be, a
source of comfort, inspiration, and
uplifting guidance to most people.
This is true not only because of the
beauty of its inspirational language,
but, chiefly, because herein the Lord
assures all of us that he is our shep-
herd and that even though we may
be required to ". . . walk through
the valley of the shadow of death
. . ." he is with us and his presence
will sustain, comfort, and guide us.
What a wonderful, consoling, and
motivating conviction!
How diligently and conscientious-
ly we should strive for this convic-
tion, for it is, in reality, a fact. Both
anciently and in modern times the
Lord has literally pleaded with us to
have faith that he is with us, ready,
willing, and anxious to help and
guide us, if we will only live so as
to build this conviction and to de-
serve his presence.
The blessedness of this comfort-
ing conviction was brought again
into vivid focus some time ago when
a charming and talented woman
passed away. She and her husband
were a devoted couple, whose many
years of marriage had prospered on
the foundation of love, understand-
ing, and faithful adherence to the
principles of the gospel. Her lov-
ing husband was deeply shocked and
severely bereaved at her passing, yet
the positive assurance he possessed
that the Lord was with him, and
the Lord's promise, through their
temple marriage, that they would
be together throughout eternity,
gave the husband rich solace, forti-
tude, and peace. A very wealthy
acquaintance, who a short time
before had also lost his wife, sens-
ing his friend's peaceful conviction,
was so impressed that he declared
he would give everything he owned
in this world if he, too, could possess
the same sustaining comfort.
Without doubt, the possession of
a sublime faith in the Lord and in
his constant presence, is the safest
anchorage of the soul. It brings
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peace and solace under all condi-
tions.
Someone has wisely said:
... it is only reasonable that the power
which made you can sustain you. It
does sustain you. Listen much to God
and he will instruct you and show you
the way to go. In the degree of your
meekness and obedience he will guide
you toward light, truth, and perfection"
(Kleiser, Greneille: Inspiration and Ideals).
During Jesus' ministry upon the
earth he frequently emphasized the
fact that he was the good shepherd
and that those who followed him
were his sheep. On one occasion
he said:
My sheep hear my voice, and I know
them. . . . And I give unto them eternal
life; and they shall never perish, neither
shall any man pluck them out of my
hand (John 10:27-28).
Blessed indeed are those of us
who always remember that the Lord
is in our midst and that he is our
good Shepherd; for if we build upon
this rock we "... shall never fall"
(D &C 50:44).
Vvom TfJleettng — Caring for the Sick in the Home
(A Course Expected to Be Used by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Lesson 5 — Routine Comfort Measures — The Patient's Bath and
Care of the Mouth and Hair
Maria Johnson
For Tuesday, February 14, 1961
Objective: To learn the importance of certain measures in meeting the needs of
the patient. To learn the key points in giving this care.
"DATHING the patient, giving mouth care, and caring for the patient's
hair are important comfort measures and contribute to the patient's
welfare and recovery. Remember to apply the rules given in Lesson 3,
"Moving and Lifting the Patient/' as you carry out these procedures.
A. Bathing the Patient in Bed
The bed bath should cleans©- and refresh the patient and give you an opportunity
to observe reddened areas at end of spine, and over the bone prominences, such as
elbows, shoulder blades, and heels. These reddened spots come from pressure and can
develop into pressure sores, if preventive measures are neglected.
Before starting the bath, assemble all articles needed for the bath, and clean linen
and gown, if linen is to be changed. Cover table top with newspaper or rubber to
protect it from spots.
A few general rules:
The room must be warm and free from drafts.
Use a sheet blanket or light-weight cotton blanket to cover the patient. (In the
hospital we call this a bath blanket.)
The patient must be kept covered at all times except for the part of body that is
being bathed. Protect the bed by placing a bath towel under each part as you proceed.
Use soap sparingly, rinse well, and dry each part thoroughly before proceeding to
next part. Change the water at least once during the bath.
LESSON DEPARTMENT 769
Inspect and wash well creases under the breasts or fatty folds of skin and dry
thoroughly.
Put the hands and the feet in the basin of water when washing them and give any
special care needed.
Toenails should be filed straight across — never cut a toenail at the corner. If the
nail tends to grow inward at the corners, a wisp of cotton will prevent pressure which
causes discomfort and soreness around the nail. Never cut corns or callouses with a
razor blade.
B. Mouth Care
Mouth care is important in keeping the mouth, teeth, and gums clean and healthy
and adds to the patient's comfort and welfare. We should not forget that mouth care
for the sick patient is as important as it is for the well person. In many cases it is
more important. Always wash your hands before giving mouth care.
For the mouth care you will need the following equipment:
Towel to protect the bed.
Toothbrush and tooth paste or other cleansing agent.
Glass of warm water.
Drinking tube, if patient cannot sit up.
Basin to catch rinsings from mouth.
Container of mouth wash, if used.
Cold cream or lubricant for dry lips.
Good mouth wash — glass of warm water to which has been added Vi teaspoonful
each of salt and bicarbonate of soda (baking soda). For dryness or coated tongue — a
mixture of one teaspoonful of lemon juice and one tablespoonful of mineral oil or
glycerine is often recommended.
Important points for the patient able to sit up in bed:
Most patients in the home are able to brush their own teeth, but they need
encouragement and some assistance. You will need to assemble the articles needed
and place them within easy reach of the patient. If the patient can sit up, place a towel
over her lap to protect the bed. Some patients will need more help, such as putting
the tooth paste on the brush, holding the glass of water for rinsing, and holding the
basin to catch the water as the mouth is rinsed. Clean and put away articles used.
For the patient who cannot sit upright:
Turn the patient on her side and protect the pillow with a towel. Put the tooth
paste on the brush and let the patient, if able, brush her own teeth. Place the basin
close to her cheek. Give the patient the warm water and mouthwash, if used, through
a drinking tube or straw. Have her rinse the mouth thoroughly and hold her head
while she lets the water run out into the basin. Wipe the lips and around the mouth
with a dry towel. Apply a lubricant to the lips. If the mouth is dry, use the mixture
of lemon juice and oil or medication ordered. Clean and put away articles used. Turn
the patient and make her comfortable.
Patient with dentures:
You will need the same equipment as for natural teeth. If the patient is able,
have her remove her plates and put them in a cup of water or tissue which you will
provide. Clean the teeth under running water and return them to the patient in a
clean cup of water. Keep the teeth in water and in a safe place if they are not to
be worn.
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C. Caring for the Patient's Hair
'b
Daily care of the patient's hair should be a part of the routine care. Encourage
the patient to do as much for herself as her condition will permit. What she is unable
to do, you will do for her.
Brushing the hair cleans, stimulates the circulation of the scalp, distributes the oil,
and adds to the patient's feeling of well being and comfort. The cleansing effect of
brushing should not be underestimated. The brush must be clean. A boar bristle brush
is most effective.
Brushing
Equipment: Brush, comb, 2 towels
Procedure:
Bring patient to edge of bed and turn face away from you. Put a towel over her
pillow and one around her shoulders. Brush one strand at a time. Alcohol will help
remove tangles. Arrange hair and make patient comfortable.
A Dnr Shampoo
A dry shampoo can be effective and less tiring than a wet shampoo. There are
many dry shampoos on the market, but oatmeal or cornmeal can be used. Oatmeal
brushes out more readily.
Equipment, same as for brushing, plus oatmeal
Procedure:
1. Bring patient to edge of bed and put a towel over pillow and one around patient's
shoulders.
2. Part hair, strand at a time, and apply oatmeal to scalp. When all areas of scalp
have been covered, rub the scalp well with a rotary motion.
3. Let stand for about ten minutes while the oatmeal absorbs the oil.
4. Brush thoroughly, one strand at a time, to remove oatmeal and dirt.
5. If patient tires, let her rest and brush again later.
6. An astringent such as alcohol or bay rum may be rubbed on the scalp following
a dry shampoo. Use a small piece of cotton moistened with the astringent. This
is not necessary, but leaves a cool, clean feeling.
Washing the Hair of a Patient in Bed
Washing the hair can be tiring to the patient. It is well to have the physician's
permission and to wash hair at a time when the patient feels rested and can rest after-
ward. Protect the patient from drafts and be sure that the room is warm.
Equipment
A waterproof trough, washboard, or piece of heavy plastic (see illustration), small
container of soap solution or shampoo (never rub bar soap on hair), large pitcher of
warm water for rinsing, small pitcher for pouring, pail or foot tub, newspaper to protect
the floor, chair, and table, plastic pillow cover, three bath towels, one washcloth, and
two cotton balls.
LESSON DEPARTMENT 77T
MAKING A WATER PROOF TROUGH FOR SHAMPOOING THE HAIR
Step 1
Illustrates a piece of plastic or water-
proof sheet with a bath towel rolled over
the edge at the top.
Step 2
Illustrates the bath towel rolled securely
around the edges of the plastic or water-
proof sheet, and shaped to make an im-
provised trough.
WASHBOARD AND TUB ARRANGED FOR USE IN SHAMPOOING
THE PATIENT'S HAIR
Note that the top of the washboard is placed in the tub, and the bottom sidebars
of the washboard serve as an additional support against the patient's shoulders.
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Procedure
9
10
li
Cover patient with light-weight blanket and turn back bed clothing.
Cover pillow with plastic and muslin cases.
Place pail on floor or stool at side of bed. Protect floor and table.
Assemble rinse water, shampoo solution, and pouring pitcher on table or chair
where convenient.
Have patient lie crosswise on bed and bring head to edge of bed.
Pin towel snugly around neck; put cotton ball in each ear and a folded washcloth
over eyes.
Put waterproof trough under head to carry away water. Ends of trough must
hang down into the pail.
Moisten the hair, apply the soap solution, and rub the scalp and hair. A good
lather is necessary.
Use an ample supply of rinse water to wash out the soap. If clean, the hair will
squeak as you rub it. Repeat 8 and 9 if necessary.
Put a bath towel around the hair, remove the trough, and make the patient com-
fortable.
Rub the hair dry with a second towel. If the hair is long, it can be spread out
over a covered hot water bottle.
To Give a Shampoo When the Patient Can Sit Up
(Check with the doctor to make sure it will not tire the patient too much.)
The shampoo can be given in the bathroom over the basin. Protect the shoulders
with a plastic sheet and towel. Place a folded towel over the edge of the basin. The
patient can rest her forehead on the towel. Proceed as when giving a shampoo in bed.
JLtterature — America's Literature Comes of Age
Lesson 21 - William Cullen Bryant (1794-1878)
Elder Biiant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 236-249)
For Tuesday, February 21, 1961
Objective: To become more appreciative of Bryant both as an influential creator
and as a revered representative of nineteenth-century America.
There is Bryant, as quiet, as cool, and as dignified,
As a smooth, silent iceberg, that never is ignified. . . .
Unqualified merits, I'll grant, if you choose, he has 'em,
But he lacks the one merit of kindling enthusiasm;
If he stir you at all, it is just, on my soul,
Like being stirred up with the very North Pole.
"A Fable for Critics," 1848
T^HUS wrote up-and-coming he succeeded, in the process suc-
James Russell Lowell, seven ceeding also in establishing within
years out of college and now, at the American mind his best-known
age twenty-nine, editor of an anti- generalization about Bryant, the
slavery magazine and straining to one which still hovers about him
make a name for himself. In this yet which never represented him
LESSON DEPARTMENT
773
A Perry Picture
Copyright 1908 by Eugene A. Perry
WILLIAM CULLEN BRYANT
1794-1878
Came in their hour of weakness, and
made fast
The yoke that yet is worn, cries out to
heaven.
What then shall cleanse thy bosom,
gentle Earth,
From all its painful memories of guilt?
The whelming flood, or the renewing fire,
Or the slow change of time? — that so,
at last,
The horrid tale of perjury and strife,
Murder and spoil, which men call his-
tory,
May seem a fable, like the inventions
told
By poets of the gods of Greece. O thou,
Who sittest far beyond the Atlantic
deep,
Among the sources of thy glorious
streams,
My native Land of Groves! a newer page
In the great record of the world is thine;
Shall it be fairer? Fear, and friendly
Hope,
And Envy, watch the issue, while the
lines,
By which thou shalt be judged, are
written down.
either quite fairly or entirely. Next,
add the second fact which "every-
one knows" about him: picture the
seventeen-year-old Bryant just writ-
ing out the last line of "Thana-
topsis," his most famous poem.
Combined, these two impressions
comprise the usual, easy definition
of William Cullen Bryant as some-
one to name public schools after
and to read in school, when re-
quired.
For contrast, read aloud these
lines from his little-known poem
"Earth" written in 1834 when, at
age forty, he was touring Europe
for the first of six times:
. . . Who, alas! shall dare
Interpret to man's ear the mingled voice
That comes from her old dungeons
yawning now
To the black air. . . .
The blood
Of freemen shed by freemen, till strange
lords
Bryant, Espouser oi Causes
Hear Bryant giving the principal
eulogy honoring James Fenimore
Cooper when, in 1852, his friends
organized a public meeting in re-
spect to his memory. Or, on the
evening of February 27, i860 (in
the halls of the newly opened
Cooper Union jammed with
crowds to hear rawboned Abe
Lincoln deliver his first speech in
the East), listen to Lincoln's in-
troduction by William Cullen
Bryant, ardent campaigner for free
trade, free soil, free slaves, free
bargaining power of working men,
and one of the founders of the
Republican Party. Listen to Wil-
liam Cullen Bryant, known in his
youth for his "torrid temper,"
whose fearless pen often called the
radical editor Horace Greeley to
task, and who once horsewhipped
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an unscrupulous editor on a New
York City street. At this same
time Bryant brought his news-
paper, the Evening Post to a posi-
tion of such dignity and high
esteem, during the fifty years of
his editorship, that Vernon Louis
Parrington calls him "the father
of American poetry and the father
of American journalism/'
It is full June time in New York
City's lovely Central Park which
Bryant was instrumental in estab-
lishing along with the Metropoli-
tan Museum of Art and the
National Academy of Design. A
large crowd has gathered to wit-
ness the unveiling of a statue of
Giuseppe Mazzini, the Italian
patriot, and to hear him honored
by the speaker of the day, William
Cullen Bryant. He is now in his
eighty-fourth year, white-bearded,
dignified in his patriarchal role as
dean of American poets, and still
filled with majestic fire as he
brings his short address to a close:
Image of the illustrious champion of
civil and religious liberty, cast in endur-
ing bronze to typify the imperishable
renown of thy original, remain for ages
yet to come where we place thee, in
this resort of millions; remain till the
day shall dawn — far distant though it
may be — when the rights and duties
of human brotherhood shall be ac-
knowledged by all the races of mankind!
While returning home after giv-
ing this address, Bryant fell, and
fourteen davs later he died. Thus to
the end of his full life Bryant was
a man of honor, integrity, courage,
kindness, and tireless action in be-
half of those causes he loved —
beauty in nature, poetry, and in
classical literature; an American
culture creative and free from Eng-
lish domination; honesty and justice
in government; honor and dignity
in all affairs of men; and the neces-
sity of human freedom. Bryant
will always live as an important
minor American poet. In addi-
tion to his poetic pioneering, he
deserves also to be remembered
as one of the great pioneers of the
nineteenth-century American spirit.
The Young Poet
Cullen was born November 3,
1794, at Cummington in western
Massachusetts. His early years
were dominated by his grandfather,
a staunch Federalist, disciplinarian,
and old-school Calvinist who also
loved books and the current fash-
ionable, neo-classical literature.
When he was eight, Cullen wrote
his first verses imitating classical
Greek models, even though his own
father ridiculed them and prophe-
sied that one day he would be
ashamed of his poetic impulse. In
1808, when he was thirteen, he re-
paid his grandfather's interest in him
by writing "The Embargo," a poem
containing all the political and eco-
nomic convictions he had taught
him. Reviling Jefferson, whom all
Federalists opposed, zealous young
Bryant advised him to "Go, wretch,
resign the presidential chair." Simi-
larly, during the war of 1812, when
threats of conscription and increased
taxation caused Massachusetts to
make a separate peace with Eng-
land, Bryant wrote poems praising
Britain as the source of all man's
liberties and condemning the un-
just war his countrymen were carry-
ing on against her.
Bryant's year at Williams College
was all his family could afford, but,
by the time he had completed that
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775
A Perry Picture
WILLIAM CULLEN BRYANTS HOMESTEAD
CUMMINGTON, MASSACHUSETTS
year and had "read" law for three
more, he was completely "liberated"
from his childhood pattern of Cal-
vinism and Federalism. His "Than-
atopsis" was written at college while
he called himself a Deist (one who
bases his belief in God on reason);
his lifelong interest in politics was
devoted to opposing the privileged
moneyed class who were Federal-
ists; however, his interest in the
classics and in languages increased
throughout his life, for, in later
years, he translated poems written
in Spanish, French, Portuguese, and
German, plus Homer's entire Jlliad
and Odyssey from Homeric Greek.
In 1821, he married in the country
village where he had settled down,
but though he continued practicing
law he disliked it, feeling his profes-
sion forced him to:
. . . drudge for the dregs of men,
And scrawl strange words with a bar-
barous pen,
And mingle among the jostling crowd
Where the sons of strife are subtle and
loud. . . .
He published his first books of
poems the same year, but, when his
published works earned him only
$14.92 in four years, he moved to
New York City where he soon be-
came editor of the New York Eve-
ning Post, a position he held so suc-
cessfully for the next fifty years
that, with wise investing, he died a
millionaire.
Literary Theory
Wide reading in his father's li-
brary and those of two ministers to
which he had access, gave him an
early liking for such neo-classical
writers as Samuel Johnson, Alexan-
der Pope, and Addison. The influ-
ence of the "graveyard school" is
strong in "Thanatopsis," as absorbed
from Young's "Night Thoughts,"
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Gray's "Elegy Written in a Country ground and self-disciplined lines
Churchyard/' and Henry Kirke set a pattern of excellence and
White's 'Time/' which were con- restraint which had a powerful in-
cerned with the shortness of mortal- fluence throughout his life on
ity and the omnipresence of death. American poetry.
Later, through his own reading and Bryant believed that because
literary friendships formed in New poetry appeals to the understand-
York and abroad, Bryant achieved a ing _ by arousing the reader's
genuine appreciation for the full- imagination through presentation of
blown romantics who were then a direct imitation of life — there-
dominant in England: Wordsworth, fore, poetry has the power to move
Coleridge, Burns, and Scott. 0ne to action and to "teach direct
While many similarities appear be- "f sons of wisdom." Thus he felt
tween his nature-writings and those th^ P0^ 1S morally obligated to deal
of Wordsworth, Bryant was not only with noble subjects, leaving the
merely imitating him, or anyone low and the trivial for prose treat-
else. From his early lecture, in ment 0f a11 the arrt?; Poetry aP'
1819, on 'The Use of Trisyllabic Peals most , Powerfully to the
Feet in Poetry" through his influ- imagination but its greatest source
ential "Lectures on Poetry" given of Power is the emotions, its highest
in 1825, he established himself as PurP°se ^eing to"touch tli£ ^.f,
the leading critic of American po- And for Bryant the most beautiful
etic theory. His constant plea was ?™\iy is that which takes the strong-
for an original poetry through which est h° d °^ the ieGh*&> and> £ rt
the new Nation could express itself 1S really the.most beautiful, then
in its own terms. America's poetry * 1S Poetr7 m th\hl^es* Sense'
should be "a newborn thing, Yet though poetry should thus move
full of youth and life," not the cold, ™an> * sh™ld not be .™erf Y dl'
formahzed lines of the past or of dactic> f°r. then jt 1S£ ^^cial In"
English romantics woodenly imitat- creasmgly man age of big-city bustle
ed. He provided further leadership and trade> Bryan1t felt that P°etry
to American poets by showing them was nf ded to balance man> and to
in his own poetry a careful, specific ^ep him from becoming merely a
observation of nature at first hand machine,
rather than the cliche generalizations
about her moods and charms. Bry- Thanatopsis
ant cited some thirty birds in his Young Bryant was never strong,
poems and named a similar number recording that the strain of farm
of specific kinds of trees, more than work left him extremely faint. Evi-
any other American poet save Whit- dently "Thanatopsis" was written
man. From his childhood walks while he was concerned that he, too,
with his father through the woods might die of tuberculosis, the fre-
at all seasons of the year, Bryant quent destroyer of poets. "Thana-
learned a love of nature which topsis" was composed in 1811 during
brought him out-of-doors all his life, his year at Williams College. The
a love everywhere evident in his title, which means 'View of death,"
poems. Finally, his classical back- was added by the editors of the
LESSON DEPARTMENT
777
Noith American Review. The first
sixteen lines and the epilogue were
added by Bryant when "Thanatop-
sis" appeared in his first book of
poems. As the poem was submitted
to the Review by Bryant's father,
naturally he was thought to be its
author, even though the editor saw
in the poem such quality that he
really believed it "was never written
on this side of the water."
With majestic smoothness and
serenity the poem contemplates
death and finds peace and solace in
a return to all-enfolding nature. No-
where in the poem is mention made
either of Christianity or immortal-
ity. Not until his later poems did
Bryant record his more mature be-
lief in an afterlife, in contrast to
this earlier stoicism. The poem
begins in a tone of controlled
calmness:
To him who in the love of Nature holds
Communion with her visible forms, she
speaks
A various language: for his gayer hours
She has a voice of gladness, and a smile
And eloquence of beauty, and she glides
Into his darker musings with a mild
And healing sympathy that steals away
Their sharpness, ere he is aware. . . .
Therefore, when one becomes
oppressed by thoughts of the
shroud and "the last bitter hour,"
he should:
Go forth under the open sky, and list
To Nature's teachings, whilst from all
around —
Earth and her waters and the depths
of air —
Comes a still voice. . . .
a voice calling man back to "earth,
that nourished thee," and the
"eternal resting-place"
Yet not to thine eternal resting-place
Shalt thou retire alone, nor couldst thou
wish
Couch more magnificent. Thou shalt lie
down
With patriarchs of the infant world —
with kings,
The powerful of the earth — the wise,
the good,
Fair forms, and hoary seers of ages past,
All in one mighty sepulchre. . . . All that
breathe
Will share thy destiny. The gay will laugh
When thou art gone, the solemn brood
of care
Plod on, and each one as before will chase
His favorite phantom; yet all these shall
leave
Their mirth and their employments, and
shall come
And make their bed with thee. . . .
So live, that when thy summons comes
to join
The innumerable caravan, which moves
To that mysterious realm where each shall
take
His chamber in the silent halls of death,
Thou go not, like the quarry-slave at night,
Scourged to his dungeon, but, sustained
and soothed
By an unfaltering trust, approach thy grave
Like one who wraps the drapery of his
couch
About him and lies down to pleasant
dreams.
Not until Whitman is death
again to be so revealed as a benevo-
lent, beautiful event in the inex-
orable though gentle rhythms of
timeless nature as she takes her
own unto herself.
To a Waterfowl
In 1815, four years later, Bryant
composed "To a Waterfowl," which
Matthew Arnold held to be the
finest poem of its length in the
English language. Beautifully uni-
fied by its central image of the
nameless bird floating serenely
through space toward its destina-
tion, the poem achieves its gran-
deur and sense of loftiness from its
simple words and the subdued tone
which is never broken. Best of all,
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it creates its own moral or spiritual
power within itself. Excerpts fol-
low:
Whither, midst falling dew,
While glow the heavens with the last
steps of day,
Far through their rosy depths, dost thou
pursue
Thy solitary way?
Vainly the fowler's eye
Might mark thy distant flight to do thee
wrong,
As, darkly seen against the crimson sky,
Thy figure floats along.
Seek'st thou the plashy brink
Of weedy lake or marge of river wide,
Or where the rocking billows rise and sink
On the chafed ocean-side?
There is a Power whose care
Teaches thy way along that pathless
coast —
The desert and illimitable air, —
Lone wandering, but not lost. . . .
Thou'rt gone, the abyss of heaven
Hath swallowed up thy form; yet, on
my heart
Deeply hath sunk the lesson thou hast
given,
And shall not soon depart.
He who, from zone to zone,
Guides through the boundless sky thy
certain flight,
In the long way that I must tread alone
Will lead my steps aright.
To say such poems are touched
with true greatness is to state the
obvious. Reading them once again,
aloud and sympathetically, should
serve to remind us of the compre-
hensive American who wrote them,
thus combining within himself as
within his poetry, those sterling and
high principles of art which justly
earned him the esteem of his con-
temporaries as well as our lasting
gratitude.
Thoughts for Discussion
i. What relationship, if any, can you
define between Bryant's public life and
his early excellence as a critic and author
of poetry?
2. In view of his own life and matur-
ing, why might Liberty be chosen as a
key word around which much of Bryant
was built?
3. Do you feel that in his poetry Bryant
was successful in freeing himself from the
influence of the English poets? In what
sense do you find his poetry imitative?
original? American?
Social Science — Spiritual Living
in the Nuclear Age
Lesson 1 1 — Stages of Religious Development
Elder Bhine M. Porter
For Tuesday, February 28, 1961
Objective: To understand more fully the manner in which religious qualities
develop.
Introduction panding our religious horizons. But
CPIRITUAL living presupposes how do religious qualities become a
the possession of certain religious part of us? If we are to be effective
qualities. Last year's series devoted in developing these qualities in our-
two lessons to the development of selves, our children, and others to
religious maturity. The first three whom we are responsible, it is neces-
lessons of this year focused on ex- sary that we understand the stages
LESSON DEPARTMENT
779
and processes of religious develop-
ment.
Growth, development, learning,
and the emergence of human per-
sonality are cumulative processes,
each step or stage giving rise to the
next. In most instances, it is neces-
sary for an individual to accomplish
successfully the tasks appropriate to
each stage of development before
he can successfully move on to the
next one. And so it appears to be
with religious development. If an
individual has successfully passed
through stages of healthy, religious
growth and development appro-
priate to his age, he is more likely to
possess in adulthood the traits,
characteristics, and maturity which
will permit him truly to implement
the teachings and values of religion.
The Religion of Childhood
A child is born with the poten-
tialities of developing divine charac-
teristics within his human nature. A
child must learn, through experi-
ence, what he comes to believe
regarding God, regarding himself,
his relationship with God, and other
religious concepts. Since a child's
first experiences are with his parents,
we can safely assume that the pa-
rental influences will be among the
more significant ones influencing his
religious development. Our con-
cept of God includes the belief that
he is our Father in heaven. We
can, therefore, expect that a child's
relations with his parents, particular-
ly his father, will have an important
influence on his concept of God
and, hence, on the whole quality of
his religious life.
Early Childhood. It is obvious
that many things, such as language
and self-consciousness, have to be
"learned" by the infant before re-
ligious life can begin. By the age
of two, the child may show appar-
ent feelings of guilt. This behavior,
however, is probably imitative of
older children or parents. Bv age
three, children may repeat prayers,
though with little or no under-
standing. By the age of four, re-
ligion is one of the many things that
interest children, and they may ask
many questions about it. Thev be-
lieve parents to be all-powerful, and
it is therefore easy to transfer this
belief to the Father in heaven. At
five, children see God as being re-
sponsible for many of the details
of life. Children do not become
capable of the higher and more
complex process of learning until
they get older. This means that one
should not expect anything more
than the elementary forms of ab-
stract and reflective thinking of the
young child. This explains the em-
phasis on rote learning with them.
Rote learning seems within their
grasp while the higher kind appears
to be beyond them. The clanger in
rote learning is that this habit may
crowd out other kinds so that the
individual, in the later years, does
not become capable of rational and
reflective thinking. There is cer-
tainly ample evidence on the part
of many individuals and within
many religious groups that mem-
orization has persisted into adult-
hood, and that rational, reflective
thinking has failed to become an
integral part of religious experience.
Middle and Later Childhood. By
the time a child reaches six, his ideas
of good and bad become broader
and more general as in obeying,
helping, hurting, etc. The idea of
being fair becomes important and
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moral evaluations are eventually
made in terms of right and wrong.
Increasingly, children between the
ages of six to nine want to feel that
they have done what is right and
approved. Wrongdoing leaves them
worried and unhappy, even though
they may be reluctant to confess the
act. During the earlier years, chil-
dren regard themselves as the cen-
ter of the universe, but during this
age period, they establish a truer
perspective of their relationship to
other people. They are more in-
terested in the idea of God, heaven,
and angels, and their idea of God
reflects more realistic concepts.
Prayers are important to them, and
they may expect immediate literal
answers.
From the ages of approximately
nine through eleven, the child makes
substantial growth in his under-
standing of and feelings toward right
and wrong. He develops in toler-
ance, honesty, and justice. Many
children during this period begin to
show deep concern for the welfare
of others. During this period chil-
dren tend to accept religious teach-
ings on the authority of parents and
teachers and frequently quote these
teachings in their own discussions.
In summary of the religion of
childhood, we may say that the child
develops his first attitudes and ideas
about God and religion from his
parents and teachers, and that he
tends to accept ideas from persons
of authority. Since he has not yet
reached the stage in the maturation-
al process for abstract thinking, the
child's religious experiences are es-
sentially unreflective. During the
early years, the child is essentially
self-centered, which is normal at this
stage of development; and during
the later years of childhood shows
evidence of becoming genuinely con-
cerned about others.
A great deal of what passes for
religion among children is simply
the repeating of faith as by rote, or
the performance of religious mo-
tions. Most of the child's religious
behavior up to this time appears to
be primarily learned through imita-
tion and suggestion.
The lesson that we should learn
is respect for the child's religion
which we can improve only if we
first respect it. Appropriate to the
child's age, it must be expressed in
the child's own way. If we prune
too closely, it will either yield
stunted fruit or become merelv a
third-rate mockery of what religion
ought to be.
Religious Development
in Adolescence
During the years of about eleven
through thirteen, the conscience be-
comes more apparent. At this stage
children exhibit strong feelings
about honesty. Feelings of guilt
based on both real and imagined
wrongdoings become more common.
Their sense of justice remains
strong, and they are quick to chal-
lenge the teacher or parent who
violates it. Some of them will begin
to question the religious teachings
of parents and teachers. They begin
to exhibit more concern for others
and are more willing to be helpful
without any tangible reward.
As we move into the later ado-
lescent period involving the years
from fourteen to eighteen, we find
a great deal of idealism existing
within the individual. Adolescents
now are making more of their own
decisions about right and wrong
LESSON DEPARTMENT
781
rather than simply imitating the
standards of their parents. They
have more questions and perhaps
increasing skepticism about religious
values. Many teenagers drop out of
church activity during these years,
and surveys reveal that, in the Unit-
ed States, only about half of the
members of this age group attend
church regularly. It may well be
that youth at this age become dis-
satisfied with what many of the
churches offer and tend to turn away
from them because they fail to meet
their needs.
Adolescence being a period of
idealism, enthusiasm, and creativity,
is a period in which self-direction
begins to emerge. We have the
example of Joseph Smith who went
into the woods to pray at age four-
teen to find out for himself which
was the right church.
To summarize this stage of re-
ligious development, then, we
recognize that this is the age of
greatest religious potentiality. It is
during this period that the fruits
of our efforts dramatically reveal
themselves. If a child's parents
have preached a gospel of love, but
have demonstrated no affection for
him, no amount of indoctrination
concerning the exalted character of
love can fill the vacuum. Where
there is a sharp discrepancy in the
home between standards that are
professed and attitudes that are
actually put into practice, the young
person may feel hopeless and have
a sense of frustration. The higher
the professed ideals, the more in-
tense the adolescent's sense of fail-
ure may become.
I The Religion oi
Mature Adulthood
much as last year's series devoted
two lessons dealing with religious
maturity. It is recommended that
the reader review lessons four and
five from last year. (See Relief
Society Magazine, November and
December 1959, pp. 775-781; 855-
860.)
If an individual is going to grow
toward the kind of religious matur-
ity we hope to develop, he will find
it helpful to have a secure develop-
mental pre-adult foundation. As an
adult, he should not have to deflect
his energies into refighting child-
hood battles or nursing old hurts.
Unless the individual in childhood
has been able to establish basic
trusts, his world is quicksand. With-
out basic trust he cannot establish
trust in himself and others, cannot
develop a feeling of individuality
and a healthy concept of himself
which allow him to live comfortably
with himself and others. When a
person can live with his past without
being bogged down in it, he remains
adaptable, capable of continued
growth.
The individual with a mature re-
ligious philosophy has found accept-
able, realistic, tentative answers for
the basic questions regarding life,
but he has not insisted upon final
answers for all of his questions. He
is still constantly seeking to under-
stand himself and others more fully,
to expand and increase the quality
of his relatedness to the world, and
to find increasing satisfaction in his
creative relationship with God.
Still, we wonder why down
through the ages religion has failed
to teach people how to live together
in love so that our rapidly increas-
ing knowledge of destructive weap-
ons has now reached a point where
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completeness. The religion of a
mature adult is what he does, not
what he professes.
In summary then, the religion of
the mature adult is one which helps
him feel at home with himself, at
home in the world, and helps
him establish creative relationships
with his fellow man and with his
God. It has helped him develop
genuine concern for other people
and respect for their individuality.
It has taught him not to accept
values ready-made, but rather to
realize that he not only has the
right but the responsibility to exam-
ine carefully any and every aspect
of his philosophy. This latter point
was dramatically expressed by John
A. Widtsoe as follows:
The essential thought must ever be that
a man does not, except in his spiritual
infancy, accept a statement merely because
the Church or someone in authority de-
clares it correct, but because, under mature
examination it is found to be true and
right and worthwhile (Widtsoe, John A.:
Program of the Chuich, Fourth Edition,
page 24).
Summary
We have said that a child is born
with the potentialities of developing
divine characteristics within his hu-
man nature. Beginning in childhood
the individual goes through stages
of religious development, moving
LESSON DEPARTMENT
783
ideally to a point in mature adult-
hood of possessing mature religious
concepts which are functional and
useful to him. As is true in all
other facets of human growth and
development, appropriate timing for
presenting information and experi-
ences is particularly important in
order for optimum learning to take
place. The great responsibility of
parents and teachers lies in leading
a child step by step toward new
powers and new understanding
without pushing him too fast or
expecting more than he can do.
Parents do this best when they en-
joy each new step with him, sharing
his own pleasure in his new accom-
plishments and encouraging him to
develop in his own special wav with-
out showing great anxiety when he
does not appear to be molding him-
self into a stereotyped pattern. Like
the good husbandman who knows
that there is a time to till and a
time to refrain from tilling, a "time
to plant and a time to pluck up
that which is planted," so the sen-
sitive parent or responsible teacher
mingles care with forbearance if the
"tree planted by the river of water"
is to bring forth fruit in due seasons.
Thoughts for Discussion
i. Why is it important to be aware of
various stages of religious development?
2. Give illustrations of ways in which
basic religious concepts could be appro-
priately taught at various stages of religious
development.
3. Give illustrations of presenting re-
ligious concepts that are inappropriate for
an individual's understanding.
4. List suggestions of how we can help
individuals grow into adults who have the
characteristics of religious maturity.
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REPORT AND OFFICIAL Ural introduction and an effective
INSTRUCTIONS entree for the missionary in present.
(Continued from page 728) ing the gospel message. The refer-
ral system is greatly increasing the
At the present time the mission- number of baptisms, we are told,
ary program of the Church is being and it is cutting down the tedious,
greatly accelerated. Proselyting less profitable door-to-door tracting.
methods are being improved and It would seem that if our Relief
convert baptisms are being increased Society members would take note of
in amazing numbers. As the mis- this and refer to mission presi-
sionary program grows and expands, dents, the names of nonmember
more missionaries are needed — friends or relatives who may be liv-
young men and women of intelli- mg in the mission field or in the
gence and testimony, circumspect in stakes, it would be an effective meth-
behavior, willing to devote a few od of sharing those blessings which
years of their young manhood or we today hold so dear. I urge you
womanhood to missionary work, to lend support at this time to the
The mothers of the Church play an referral program, both as officers of
important role in holding before the Society and as individuals,
their children the ideal of a mis- Relief Society work is a joyous,
sion, and in training them to serve enlightening, satisfying experience
as missionaries. This is an extremely for any woman who devotedly en-
important Church service for all ters into it. Nonetheless, it is a seri-
mothers of the Church to perform ous and responsible work which calls
— one that must be kept before us. for humility, faith, prayer, and the
We are advised by President Hen- intelligent application of our ener-
ry D. Moyle that wonderful records gies and talents to our respective
of conversions have been set through assignments This is a day of tre-
a proselyting system called "the re- mendous growth and expansion in
ferral system/' whereby names of the Church. Relief Society must
persons who are nonmembers of the measure up to its full responsibili-
Church are referred to the mission- ties as an auxiliary of the Church,
aries by members, friends, relatives, May the Lord bless each one of us
and acquaintances. The mission- to appreciate the importance of our
aries then call upon these nonmem- calling in relation to the work of the
bers. Having been given their Church as a whole, and may each
names by a mutual friend, acquaint- one of us direct her energies toward
ance, or relative, proves to be a nat> building a strong Relief Society.
ibarntng JLearning
Roberta L. Theobald
How gently firm
The lessons must be taught.
How short the term
To teach that knowledge is not bought.
cJo an ^/Lged}
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Among his friends and kin —
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To your side for a good-night kiss . . .
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Never to be remiss.
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cause she was deeply philosophical
and Christian, even with this Hindu
culture which she never forgot, she
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story out of an ant hill adventure.
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beautiful, and the articles, stories, and
poems are very commendable. "A thing
of beauty is a joy forever" applies fittingly
to our Magazine.
— Maude O. Cook
Tremonton, Utah
Wolverhampton, England
Today I received the lovely October
issue of the Magazine, with its beautiful
cover and fine contents. I especially en-
joved the editorial "Let the Daughters of
Zion Rejoice," by Vesta P. Crawford. It
is beautifully written and comes from a
full and compassionate heart.
— Maude Rubin
Santa Ana, California
I would like to tell you how much I
enjoy The Relief Society Magazine. I look
forward every month to the wonderful
recipes, and I especially like the work
meeting lessons, and the October lesson
(for January 1961) was particularlv help-
ful in its directions for "Making the
Patient Comfortable." Mv husband has
been confined to his bed for the last six
months recovering from a brain tumor,
and still has to be lifted from his bed to
a chair. The lesson gave me much valu-
able help.
— Helen J. Markham
Mountain Home, Idaho
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
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VOL 47 DECEMBER 1960 NoTl2
(contents
SPECIAL FEATURES
God's Greatest Gift Henry D. Moyle 792
Nathan Eldon Tanner Appointed Assistant to the Council of the Twelve Hugh B. Brown 801
Franklin D. Richards Appointed Assistant to the Council of the Twelve LeGrand Richards 804
Theodore Moyle Burton Appointed Assistant to the Council of the Twelve
Z. Gordon B. Hinckley 807
The Annual General Relief Society Conference Hulda Parker 810
The Need Is Urgent — A Message From the National Tuberculosis Association
Franklin K. Brough 820
FICTION
Grandma's Surprise Packages Frances C. Yost 812
My Third Grandma — Part IV — Nandi Ilene H. Kingsbury 832
Orchids in the Snow — Chapter 8 — Conclusion Rosa Lee Lloyd 834
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near end Far 790
Sixty Years Ago 816
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 817
Editorial: The 130th Semi-Annual Conference 818
Christmas for the Children Vesta P. Crawford 819
New Serial "Love Is Enough" to Begin in January 847
Birthday Congratulations 864
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Christmas Treats for Company Winnifred C. Jardine 821
The Trees the Family Made Helen S. Williams 824
Let's Dress Dolls for Christmas Shirley Thulin 827
The Enchanted Clothesline Christmas Alice M. Graves 831
LESSONS FOR MARCH
Theology — The Past, Present, and Future Roy W. Doxey 840
Visiting Teacher Message — ". . . Ye Must Grow in Grace. . . ." Christine H. Robinson 846
Work Meeting Lesson — Elimination of Body Wastes Maria Johnson 848
Literature — Ralph Waldo Emerson, American Idealist Briant S. Jacobs 851
Social Science — Values — Their Growth and Meaning Blaine M. Porter 857
POETRY
From a Far Country — Frontispiece Vesta P. Crawford 789
First Snowfall Blanche Kendall McKey 809
Wearing the Smell of Woods Maude Rubin 815
Christmas Morning Child Ethel Jacobson 820
Memories Zara Sabin 831
At Winter's Edge Dorothy J. Roberts 833
What Would I Do? Bertha A. Kleinman 839
Thankfulness Christie Lund Coles 862
December Road Katherine F. Larsen 862
White Decree Ida Elaine James 864
Wealth Diane Montgomery 864
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God's Greatest Gift
President Henry D. Moyle
Of the First Presidency
[Address Delivered at the General Session of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, October 5, i960]
MY brothers and sisters, I am
sure that the Relief Society
Presidency have urged me
to make this so long that it will be
one they will not print. We are
verv sorry that President Clark
could not be here today, and the
length of my talk has been urged
upon me to fill in as best I can the
time I am sure he would have made
much better use of. And the last
thing that President McKay said to
me today when I left was that he
wanted me to bring his greetings
to the Relief Society, to you sisters,
and to know that you would go forth
from this conference with the bless-
ings and the good wishes of the
First Presidency
I had the very great honor to
introduce President David O. Mc-
Kay to the radio audience last
Sunday at the first of our radio
Church-wide firesides for this sea-
son. I want to repeat here what I
quoted there from his words:
Looking among my treasures recently,
I picked up a piece of old homespun
cloth. It was woven by my grandmother.
My grandfather clipped from the sheep
the wool out of which the cloth was made.
It was carded and spun into thread by my
grandmother, who had walked across the
plains. It was old and threadbare, but
genuine, not a shoddy thread in it.
Recently I saw my daughter examining
a sample of a modern piece of cloth which
she wished to use for a special purpose.
As she picked the threads apart and exam-
ined them closely, she suddenly exclaimed,
Page 792
"Why, this is nothing but paper." Out-
wardly it outshone in newness and attrac-
tiveness the old piece of homespun, but in
reality it was shoddy.
What that piece of homespun is to a
modern substitute for genuineness, funda-
mental unchanging virtues that have stood
the test of ages are to promises of pleasure
and false ideals of some areas of modern
society. Those old fundamental ideals are
genuine. Some ideals which appeal to
people today are attractive but false. Out-
wardlv the latter seem glamorous and
glorious, but when tested and tried in the
scrutiny of experience, there is nothing
which remains but the dust of disappoint-
ment (McKay, David O.: Secrets of a
Happy Life, pp. 130-31).
Among the treasures of these
grandparents what can compare with
having such a grandson, and no
greater gift could come from God
than came to his parents when such
a noble spirit was sent into their
home.
There is, nevertheless, a compari-
son to be drawn between the grow-
ing of the wool, the scouring, comb-
ing, carding, and spinning of the
yarn into pure woolen homespun,
and the treatment given to the
precious spirits that God sends to
grace our homes. Precious as these
spirits are who come straight from
the presence of God, for them to
become our greatest gift, we as par-
ents and grandparents, and even
great-grandparents, when such wc
are permitted to become, must all
give to these souls embodied in our
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793
children the best there is in us,
each in our own generation. The
process of development in a child
cannot be compared to the simple
procedure followed in producing
homespun. Into our children's
hearts we must engender love and
affection for their parents and pro-
genitors. The whole process of rais-
ing a family is one of perfecting our
own lives. We continue unceasingly
to refine, to purify, to cast off all
dross. That which we transmit con-
sciously and unconsciously to our
children in their rearing in the home
and in the community must be the
best within us to the exclusion of all
weakness. What they absorb from
early childhood from our example,
as well as our teaching, has its in-
fluence on the ultimate gift we re-
ceive from God. Charles Dickens
once wrote, "No one is useless in
this world who lightens the burdens
of it for someone else."
In his biography Emerson, The Wisest
American, Phillips Russell tells of an inci-
dent which happened on Emerson's 59th
birthday, part of which he spent pottering
around the barnyard with his son Edward.
Before he returned to the house he decided
to put the calf into its stall. The calf,
a big heifer, resisted with that calm obsti-
nacy which has often filled otherwise
kindly owners of animals with vindictive
red thoughts. The son grasped an ear,
the father pushed diligently from behind,
and together they tried to propel the ani-
mal into the barn. Emerson hated being
heated like this; he often complained that
outdoor activities drugged a scholar and
unfitted him for his proper tasks; but he
was not the man to forsake an undertaking
once begun, and again he put his weight
behind the animal. The heifer remained
firm, rolling the whites of her eyes and
breathing out through her moist nostrils
a milky stubborn odor.
Emerson paused and gazed upon the
animal in bewilderment. The situation
was unprecedented. He had read the
philosophy of Plato and Plotinus, the
science of Newton and Bacon, the poetrv
of Hafiz and Herbert, the teachings of
Buddha and Confucius, the histories of
Plutarch and Sieur de Joinville, the mem-
oirs of Goethe and Napoleon and only re-
cently had he been through the Etude de Ja
Nature of Saint-Pierre, but none of them
had said anything about an effective and
harmonious method of pushing a female
calf into a barn. Emerson had no physical
strength and sometimes lamented that he
lacked the commanding presence that awes
with an eye, a word; but one merit be pos-
sessed in abundance — persistence.
He therefore gave an encouraging signal
to Edward, and once more they fell upon
the animal. The heifer planted her splay
feet and remained as before. The pale
face of the sage reddened and perspiring
beads gathered upon his high white fore-
head. And then an Irish servant girl came
by. With an amused glance she thrust a
finger into the animal's mouth, and the
calf, seduced by the maternal imitation,
at once followed her into the barn. Ed-
ward looked at his father and grinned; but
Emerson was alreadv absorbed in thought,
his eyes fixed musingly upon the ground.
He returned to the house and after cleans-
ing his hands of their bovine smell, re-
corded the incident in his journal, adding
this telling declaration: "I like people who
can do things."
Yes, so say we, all of us. You and I,
everyone, as did Emerson, "like people
who can do things" (Edgar W. Smith —
District Governor's Address, Oregon ) .
^HAT is why the active Relief
Society mothers are as success-
ful as thev are, and I am sure that
there are no people upon the earth
who can do things like the Latter-
day Saint Relief Society sisters.
They know how to do things. That
is why we want every mother active
in Relief Societv.
Let us never forget in our family
lives the words found in The Doc-
trine and Covenants 130:20, 21:
There is a law, irrevocably decreed in
heaven before the foundations of this
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world, upon which all blessings arc predi-
cated—
And when we obtain an}' blessing from
God, it is by obedience to that law upon
which it is predicated.
We may apply this scripture to
other matters, but I say unto you,
the fruits of our labors in rearing
our families are determined by our
faithfulness to our task which we
have voluntarily and willfully as-
sumed. Indeed, life's full purpose
cannot be consummated without our
doing our part toward multiplying
and replenishing the earth. Our joy
must be in our posterity both here
and hereafter.
Over and above all else, the Relief
Societv must inspire mothers and
potential prospective mothers to ful-
fill their destiny. The sublimest of
all.
'The Society is not only to re-
lieve the poor, but to save souls,"
said Joseph Smith.
Have you ever heard of any other
people in all the earth who have the
slightest conception of what it
means to a mother and father to be
promised through their faithfulness,
joy in their posterity even after death
hath us separated? I never have.
Indeed, they could not, and at the
same time voluntarily submit them-
selves to a marriage "until death do
you separate."
The divine knowledge which is
ours, revealed as it has been for the
guidance of all the children of our
Heavenly Father and for the bless-
ing of the faithful, carries a cor-
respondingly great responsibility for
those who hear.
Again, it is given to the Relief So-
cietv to teach and exemplify the
gospel truths in their lives, in their
families, and in their communities.
Two wonderful thoughts are brought
to us from the teachings of President
McKay:
In one of the important institutions of
medicine there hangs this significant sign:
"Never say a discouraging word while in
this sanitarium."
If encouragement is good for the sick
and ailing, it is also helpful to those who
are normally healthy. As encouragement
affects individuals, so it is helpful to organ-
izations. Encouragement includes good
will and benevolence, a virtue that may
be experienced by persons in all stations
of life. Everyone may not be beneficent,
but all may be benevolent. Good will
also includes kindness, another virtue every-
one can show, and one which everyone is
pleased to receive. Everyone appreciates,
too, tolerance, a sense of justice and fair
play.
There is a difference between destructive
and constructive criticism. The former
can become harmful, not only to the indi-
vidual, but also to others as well. It is
easy to fall into a habit of negative criti-
cism without offering a solution or sub-
stituting something better to take the
place of that which the critic would de-
stroy. Pure negativism does not reflect a
sound thinker. On the other hand, care-
ful, logical analysis, coupled with a sin-
cere desire to find truth, is praiseworthy.
Sound, independent thinking should be
encouraged rather than be condemned. The
search for, and the acquisition of knowl-
edge is a prime purpose of our existence.
Independent thinkers who are well-bal-
anced and who possess the sincere desire
to know truth are needed in all phases of
living. . . .
Men and women can curb their tempers,
and when prompted to condemn others,
to hold their tongues. There is no better
way to bring about harmony in the home,
in the neighborhood, in organizations,
peace in our country, than for every man
and woman first to eliminate from his or
her heart the enemies of harmony and
peace, namely, hatred, selfishness, greed,
animosity and envy (Secrets of a Happy
Life, pp. 132-133).
To those who study and live for
GOD'S GREATEST GIFT
795
it, the means of regulating the fam-
ily and developing the children along
proper lines can be found. Like all
else in life, it requires work, the over-
coming of self, the unselfish dedica-
tion of ourselves to our children.
This does not mean overindulgence
any more than undue severity or
unnecessary curtailment in the activ-
ities or enthusiasm of youth. Carlyle
wrote, "Our grand duty is not to
see what lies dimly in the distance
but to do what lies clearly at hand."
IV/r OTHERS and fathers, but
especially mothers, should be
sensitive to every bit of evidence of
talent exhibited by a child. I heard
a mother say of three of her young
boys — the oldest is capable of learn-
ing a foreign language. The mother
herself had pretty well mastered
French. She had an enviable back-
ground upon which to judge. The
important fact is she was using it,
and also had two daughters studying
languages also. The next son she
had detected was adept at drawing.
She turned him over to an artist to
explore the extent of his genius, if
any. The third son took a great
interest in the piano at a very young
age. He was appropriately encour-
aged, as the daughters who were old-
er had been, one becoming a good
violinist, and the other studies dili-
gently on the piano. It is quite
evident in this family that several
great objectives are accomplished,
the development of natural and lat-
ent talents, appreciation for time
and work, creating worthwhile hab-
its, objectives, and ambitions, to
learn to concentrate and to gain
control over mind, just as we might
by physical endeavor over our
muscles, to develop power of accom-
plishment and its accompanying
self-assurance.
I think above all we must become
absorbed in self-improvement to the
exclusion of less profitable, to say
nothing of detrimental thoughts and
actions, of which idleness is the
most to be feared.
Indeed, as youth's opportunities
for industry are circumscribed by
many modern trends, including the
development of mechanized means
of accomplishing so much menial
labor in the home and on the farm
and in office, store, and factory, it
is necessary that the utilization of
youth's time become more and more
a serious family problem to be solved
in any event, rather than permit our
sons and daughters to become slaves
to pleasure, excitement, gambling,
indolence, laziness, frivolity, careless-
ness, abandon, and loss of ambition,
deterioration, rather than develop-
ment of muscle and mind.
Much is written and spoken today
about the preparedness of our peo-
ple to defend our shores. Have we
become physically soft, unprepared
properly to account for ourselves in
time of war or other emergency?
Are we qualified intellectually to
carry on a great scientific conflict?
What is even worse, have we per-
mitted ourselves as a Nation to de-
teriorate spiritually?
A great Irish patriot, John Curran,
put the thought I have in mind as
follows :
The condition upon which God hath
given liberty to man is eternal vigilance;
which condition if he break, servitude is
at once the consequence of his crime and
the punishment of his guilt.
An editorial in the Salt Lake Trib-
une (February 8, i960) comments
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on a single specific weakness which
is cultivated on every hand:
"Cheating," a speaker said, "has become
a part of the student culture — taken
for granted."
"The adult example certainly is de-
plorable. Proof is found almost any
place one looks. For example, one
companv openly distributes a cata-
log offering crooked dice, marked
cards, and other devices, though it
piously states that 'the goods are
not sold to perpetrate a fraud or for
any illegal purposes/ However, we
do not think that the goods are sold
merely for fooling one's friends with
magic tricks. They are designed for
making an easy buck in so-called
games of chance, and judging from
the catalog, there must be plenty of
customers. Cheating, of course, is
nothing new. The ancient Greeks
and Romans knew most of the tricks
used today, though modern tech-
nology has evolved some refine-
ments.
"Cheating as a way of life is some-
thing else.
"This Nation has not gone quite
that far vet, but the signs are omi-
nous. The handwriting is on the
wall. It has been there for some
time. How long before it will be
heeded?
"The American people had better
take stock — and soon. When a
nation's moral and spiritual fabric
decays, the end is not far off."
'T'HE Prophet Joseph Smith in the
134th Section of The Doctrine
and Covenants drew a very marked
distinction between the laws of men
and the laws of God, and prescribed
for us obedience to both. In verse
6 this is what he said:
. . . human laws being instituted for the
express purpose of regulating our interests
as individuals and nations, between man
and man; and divine laws given of heaven,
prescribing rules on spiritual concerns, for
faith and worship, both to be answered
by man to his Maker.
He further said:
We believe that the commission of
crime should be punished according to the
nature of the offense; that murder, treason,
robber}-, theft, and the breach of the gen-
eral peace, in all respects, should be pun-
ished according to their criminality and
their tendency to evil among men, by the
laws of that government in which the
offense is committed; and for the public
peace and tranquility all men should step
forward and use their ability in bringing
offenders against good laws to punishment
(D & C 134:8).
In every detail of all our lives we
must insist upon the appropriate
sustaining of the law and its enforce-
ment, that from a strict enforcement
thereof, our communities may be im-
proved so far as the laws of man can
go. It is then that we must indi-
vidually take up a crusade among
our fellow men to help strengthen
them to carry out the laws of God.
It is, nevertheless, incumbent upon
us, so far as our family and homes
are concerned, both the law of the
land and the law of God should be
obeyed, without which we will be
denied the blessings which we in-
tended to be secured to us by the
Constitution of the United States.
To put into other words, the bless-
ings of the Constitution of the
United States, inspired of our Father
in heaven as it is, insured us the
blessings therein prescribed predi-
cated upon our obedience, not only
to the laws of the land but to the
laws of God who inspired the Con-
stitution. Now who else is there
in the country to lead out in such
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797
a crusade other than the Latter-day
Saints? The answer is easy. There
is no one.
Alma gives us a rule of conduct
which we might well carry into our
lives and into our families. If we
conform to Alma's counsel, we will
never grow soft or incapable of de-
fending and maintaining our rights
and liberties. We will become a
pillar of strength around which oth-
ers can rely and will rely in time of
need.
And now I would that ye should be
humble, and be submissive and gentle;
easy to be entreated; full of patience and
long-suffering; being temperate in all
things; being diligent in keeping the com-
mandments of God at all times; asking for
whatsoever things ye stand in need, both
spiritual and temporal; always returning
thanks unto God for whatsoever things ye
do receive.
And see that ye have faith, hope, and
charity, and then ye will always abound
in good works (Alma 7:23-24).
It would be difficult to follow the
foregoing admonition of Alma in
idleness or indolence or carelessness
or indifference. It is our duty as
members of the Church, and par-
ticularly as mothers in Israel, to see
that these traits are not developed
by our children in the home due to
our lack of attention or considera-
tion or planning for their welfare.
We might just as readily develop
within them characteristics of work,
industry, thrift, and virtue. There
is no substitute for the home. Our
children cannot enjoy the sacred
privileges and blessings that should
be theirs in the home from their
association with father and mother,
brothers and sisters, without work on
the part of the parents, who are re-
sponsible for the upkeep, the main-
tenance, and the planning of home
life.
TT is my purpose today to issue a
note of warning, of caution, and
call upon you to use wisdom, judg-
ment, and discretion and above all,
dedicate yourselves, first and fore-
most, to the proper rearing of your
children and grandchildren. I em-
phasize the responsibility that rests
upon grandparents to continue in
their generation to affect the lives of
subsequent generations in their fami-
lies by their example, as well as their
precept, by the personal attention
and consideration which they give.
Thrift accompanies industry. Ex-
travagance and carelessness are the
fruits of indulgence.
I saw a picture the other day of a
little boy and a girl meeting. Each
had a quarter in their hands. They
wanted to go to a movie, but that
cost fifty cents, so the girl said to the
boy, "Let's go in here where we can
sit down and think over our prob-
lem/' When they got inside the
boy said to the girl, "Oh, well, we
might as well ask our mothers for
fifty cents as for a quarter." So they
proceeded to spend their quarter on
ice-cream sodas.
To me this was a barometer and
sign of the time, indicating how
easy the present generation realizes
it is to obtain what it wants by the
easiest and shortest route.
Just recently, at the conclusion of
the Olympic games, the Deseret
News published the following edi-
torial:
EASE AND LUXURY, popular goals in
modern living, are to blame for America's
steadily declining power and prestige in
the Olympic Games, and unless the man-
power of this country foregoes this process
of nurturing comfort, dire consequences lie
ahead of us as a first-rate athletic power.
This is the warning sounded this week
by Avery Brundage, president of the Inter-
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national Olvmpic Committee, as he took
office for his fourth four-year term, fol-
lowing the classic games in Rome. A world-
renowned authority on physical fitness and
public health problems, Mr. Brundage
claims it is high time we examine how we
are living, how we are using our energies,
how we are working, how we are recreating,
and what consideration, if any, we are giv-
ing the physical education of our children.
Obviously we aren't doing so well when
;-' ,' of America's youngsters flunked the
Kraus-Weber physical tests while only 8%
of the European boys and girls failed to
pass. No wonder President Eisenhower
became alarmed and inaugurated a pro-
gram which would correct this situation,
the so-called "OPERATION FITNESS
USA."
AS THE PRESIDENT'S Committee
carries on its assignments, it finds sub-
normal test returns that are disquieting,
to put it mildly. Disturbing returns on
arm and shoulder strength are almost uni-
versal. This is true of both girls and boys,
but girls are falling the farthest below the
accepted "norm."
American youth, living in rapidly chang-
ing mobile society, spending too much
time on their seats watching television and
riding in automobiles and lacking the work
assignments that made their parents and
grandparents rougher and tougher, are, as
Avery Brundage finds, turning into a gen-
eration of "softies." Rapid urbanization,
lack of adequate play and physical educa-
tion facilities and in many cases lethargic
instruction and leadership in schools and
on playgrounds, help compound the
problem.
In this process of waging war on work,
we have a tendency to extoll everything as
"good" if it reduces the demands on us
for work, to struggle, to strain, to strive,
to energize and live vigorously. What we
do not realize is that this practice of equat-
ing an easy life with a high standard of
living is selling short the real goals of
human existence, not the least important
of which is the rich and vigorous physical
life.
"THE YOUTH FITNESS challenge is
in the way we live at home," as Mr. Brund-
age has said, "in the educational system in
the schools, in spreading the doctrine of
hard work and sacrifice for a great cause
— the cause of a physically strong
America" (Deseret News, September 13,
i960) .
Do we as mothers and fathers in
Israel ignore such absolute positive,
certain, definite evidence, evidence
which cannot be refuted, evidence
which characterizes the young and
the rising generations of this country
and at the same time condemns
them and exposes their inability
properly to meet the problems of
life?
I have welcomed this opportunity
to chat with you, my sisters, this
afternoon. I look upon the problem
that I am presenting as one of the
fundamentally basic problems con-
fronting us in the Nation today. The
Church in this phase, as in all oth-
ers, must set an example.
\A/E presented to the world near-
ly twenty-five years ago our
Welfare Plan when the need there-
for became apparent. We have
always undertaken to take care ot
our own. The intensified Welfare
Program was instituted to take care
of a need, the like of which we had
not experienced in our history. My
topic today bears a very direct re-
lationship to our need for the Wel-
fare Program.
Had we not softened, had we
been as willing as our forebearers to
engage in hard manual labor when
necessary, had we retained their old
virtue of being willing to do any-
thing they had to do in order to
make ends meet and to meet their
responsibilities to their family and
to life, there would have been few-
er welfare problems. The initial
statement of President Grant pre-
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senting the Welfare Program to the
Church has become a classic in our
scriptures:
Our primary purpose [said the First
Presidency] was to set up, insofar as it
might be possible, a system under which
the curse of idleness would be done away
with, the evils of the dole abolished, and
independence, industry, thrift and self-
respect be once more established amongst
our people. The aim of the Church is to
help the people to help themselves. Work
is to be re-enthroned as the ruling principle
of the lives of our Church membership
(Conference Report, October 1936,
page 3).
Today, this softening process re-
quires a comparable program of
equally if not greater importance to
be carried on with equally great, if
not greater effort, energy, and
enthusiasm. It is always a more
difficult problem to stay such a
deteriorating tendency in which the
moral fiber of the individual and
the family is involved than to take
care of their temporal needs.
To demonstrate how long we
have postponed the initiation of
such a program we need only refer
back to the davs of Theodore Roose-
velt when he stated our case as
follows :
DARE GREATLY — It is not the
critic who counts; not the man who points
out how the strong man stumbled, or
where the doer of deeds could have done
better. The credit belongs to the man
who is actually in the arena; whose face
is marred by dust and sweat and blood;
who strives valiantly; who knows the great
enthusiasms, the great devotions, and
spends himself in a worthy cause; who at
the best knows in the end the triumph of
high achievement; and who at the worst,
if he fails, at least fails while daring
greatly; so that his place shall never be
with those cold and timid souls who know
neither victory nor defeat.
I wish to preach, not the doctrine of
ignoble ease, but the doctrine of the
strenuous life, the life of toil and effort,
of labor and strife; to preach that highest
form of success which comes, not to the
man who desires mere easy peace, but to
the man who does not shrink from danger,
from hardship, or from bitter toil, and
who out of these wins the splendid ulti-
mate triumph.
A life of slothful ease, a life of that
peace which springs merely from lack either
of desire or of power to strive after great
things, is as little worthy of a nation as
of an individual. I ask only that what
every self-respecting American demands
from himself and from his sons shall be
demanded of the American nation as a
whole. Who among you would teach your
boys that ease, that peace, is to be the
first consideration in their eyes — to be
the ultimate goal after which they
strive? . . .
We do not admire the man of timid
peace. We admire the man who embodies
victorious effort; the man who never
wrongs his neighbor, who is prompt to
help a friend, but who has those virile
qualities necessary to win in the stern strife
of actual life. It is hard to fail, but it is
worse never to have tried to succeed. In
this life we get nothing save by effort.
Freedom from effort in the present merely
means that there has been effort in the
past. ... A mere life of ease is not in
the end a very satisfactory life, and, above
all, it is a life which ultimately unfits those
who follow it for serious work in the
world (Theodore Roosevelt).
"VTOW after fifty years we see the
serious results wrought by this
trend. We should be stirred by the
thought that destruction and disinte-
gration will follow such a course if
permitted to continue unimpeded
and unabated long enough. Who
can say how much more time we
have?
I would not be happy if I did not
suggest to you that this weakening
of our physical and our mental, our
spiritual and moral characteristics, is
and will continue to have a serious
effect upon our missionary labors.
To this extent we are rendering our-
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selves less and less efficient to fulfill
that greatest of all commissions
which the Lord has given us in these
latter days to promulgate the truths
of the gospel to the children of
men. We are at the moment mak-
ing up for this weakness, at least in
part, by increased numbers. Our
experiences in the mission field to-
dav indicate that the results of our
work could be doubled and re-
doubled with our present forces of
missionaries bv increasing their
effectiveness and their efficiency.
You cannot expect young men to go
into the mission field and become
workers over night, if for the first
twenty years of their life they have
been permitted to grow up in ease,
indolence, free from rcsponsibilitv,
and strangers to work, having devel-
oped no power of concentration.
The very life and existence of the
Church, as well as of the Nation, de-
pend upon our purposeful integrity
and our ability, as well as our will-
ingness to applv ourselves with all
our thought and encrgv to the tasks
ahead. The Relief Society makes
service rather than self the basis of
every principle, every policy, and
every procedure in its work. He
profits most who serves best.
Sisters, we must begin at home,
with the mother and the father. We
must educate ourselves to the pro-
motion of our families, to establish
our sons and daughters as worthy
citizens of this great Nation, pre-
pared and qualified to carry on the
responsibilities of citizenship with-
out shirking any of them in any
respect. It will then follow irrc-
vocably that they will be prepared
to take our places and to carry on
the work of the Priesthood and of
the Church in all its teachings. 'To
this end let us dedicate ourselves as
fathers and mothers in Israel.
A timely warning I believe to be
justified. There is a strong, per-
sistent tendencv for our bovs and
girls to leave home to seek what
they want elsewhere. Under no cir-
cumstances should they go before
they are prepared by their home
training to carry on properly when
away. Remember the story of the
man in the old wife's tale who
sought a four-leaf clover that would
bring him happiness and all of the
luck of fairvland. With his whole
heart fixed on this charm, he could
not stay at home but must go away
to seek it. And the upshot of this
was that he traveled around the
world and spent both youth and
middle age in this vain search. Then,
at the twilight of life, very old and
sobered, with none of his dreams
left to him, and without a penny in
his pocket, he crept back to the cot-
tage he had quitted so many years
before, and there beside the door-
stone, with that amazing suddenness
so characteristic of its kind, the four-
leaf clover met his eye. The luck
had been at home all of the while.
It was not in Tartary nor Cathay
nor yet in the islands of the South-
ern Seas. It was at home.
That applies to our children to-
day. There is no substitute for a
good home presided over bv good
parents, and the word of the Lord
to guide and inspire us all. God
bless you, my sisters, in this tre-
mendous work that you arc accom-
plishing throughout the Church,
throughout the world, and bless
your homes and bless the rising
generation of this world, I pray
humbly in the name of Jesus Christ.
Amen.
Nathan Eldon Tanner
Appointed Assistant to the Council
of the Twelve
Elder Hugh B. Brown
Of the Council of the Twelve
FEW men are chosen for high
office in the Church who
have a richer heritage and
more varied background of training
and experience than Nathan Eldon
Tanner, who was appointed Assis-
tant to the Council of the Twelve
during the last October conference.
Elder Tanner represents the sixth
generation of Latter-day Saints on
both branches of his family tree.
His paternal great-grandfather, John
Tanner, was an associate of the
Prophet Joseph Smith in Nauvoo
and at Zion's Camp, and his mater-
nal great-grandfather, James S.
Brown, was a member of the Mor-
mon Battalion.
His parents went to Alberta, Can-
ada, immediately after marriage in
1897, where their first home con-
sisted of a side-hill dugout, with sod
roof and dirt floor. His mother re-
turned temporarily to Salt Lake City,
where he was born May 9, 1898. He
spent his childhood in Aetna, Al-
berta, Canada, where he learned the
rugged frugality of pioneer life. He
continued his education in high
school at Cardston and obtained a
teacher's certificate at Normal
School, Calgary, in 1919. He taught
school in Hill Spring, where he sup-
plemented his meager income by
operating a store, milking cows, and
feeding pigs. After teaching in Hill
Spring for sometime, he became
Courtesy the Deseret News
ELDER NATHAN ELDON TANNER
principal of the Cardston Public
School.
On December 20, 1919, he mar-
ried Sara Isabelle Merrill. They now
have five lovely daughters and twen-
ty-two grandchildren. The daugh-
ters are: Mrs. C. R. Walker, Cal-
gary, Alberta (Ruth); Mrs. W. S.
Jensen, Calgary, Alberta (Isabelle);
Mrs. H. S. Rhodes, Calgary, Alberta
(Zola); Mrs. G. L. Spackman, Re-
gina, Saskatchewan (Beth): and
Mrs. L. Williams, Calgary, Alberta
(Helen).
Sister Tanner has stood loyally by
his side through all the vicissitudes
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ELDER NATHAN ELDON TANNER AND FAMILY
Seated in front: Sara Isabelle Merrill Tanner; Elder Nathan Eldon Tanner.
Back row, standing, left to right: Mrs. W. S. Jensen (Isabelle); Mrs. C. R. Walker
(Ruth); Mrs. H. S. Rhodes (Zola); Mrs. G. L. Spackman (Beth); Mrs. L. Williams
(Helen).
of their lives, has been an ideal wife,
mother, and grandmother, is dearly
loved by all her in-laws, has been ac-
tive throughout her life in ward and
stake MIA and Relief Society and as
a teacher in Sunday School.
Elder Tanner was elected to the
Alberta Provincial Parliament in
1935, and was re-elected four times.
During the first session of the new
Government, he was chosen as
speaker of the House, but prior to
the second session— in January 1937
—he became a member of the cabi-
net with the portfolio of Minister of
Lands and Mines. Due to the
development that was taking place
in the resources of the province, the
department was divided in April
1949, and he was named minister of
the two new departments— Depart-
ment of Lands and Forests and De-
partment of Mines and Minerals.
In addition he held the appointment
of Chairman of the Alberta Research
Council.
During his administration, and un-
der his sponsorship, the laws govern-
ing the development of mines and
minerals (including gas and oil)
were enacted and strictly enforced.
The development of the natural
resources under his direction was so
successful that the Alberta laws and
regulations have served as a guide
to similar developments in other
parts of Canada and the United
States.
IN September 1952, he resigned
from Government service to take
over the presidency of Merrill Pe-
NATHAN ELDON TANNER
803
troleums Limited, and in March
1954, he resigned from that position
to accept the presidency of Trans-
Canada Pipe Lines Limited, a newly
formed three hundred million dollar
corporation which constructed a
pipeline from Alberta to Quebec to
take natural gas to Eastern Canada.
He severed his official duties with
Trans-Canada in March 1959, but
retains his directorship in the com-
pany. In addition he is a director
of: National Trust Company
Limited; The Toronto-Dominion
Bank; Consolidated Freightways,
Inc.; Inland Cement Co., Ltd.; The
Alberta Gas Trunk Line Co.; Wa-
terous Equipment Limited; Jenkins
Groceteria Limited; Merit Oil
Limited.
At present he is president of
Merit Oil Limited; Provincial Prod-
ucts Pipeline Limited; Saratoga
Processing Co., Ltd.; and Vice-
President of Grizzly Petroleum, Ltd.
He was president of the Canadian
Gas Association in 1959-60 and is at
present serving as past president.
From 1932-35 Elder Tanner was
bishop of the Cardston First Ward
and prior to that he served as a
counselor. He also served on the
high council of the Alberta Stake.
On moving to Edmonton he was
made president of the Edmonton
Branch in 1938 and served in that
position until 1952. During that
time the first chapel in Edmonton
was erected and the seminary estab-
lished at the University of Alberta.
He has been president of the Cal-
gary Stake since its organization in
1953 and, until a month ago (when
there was a division of the stake),
there were twelve wards and
branches; at present there are nine.
During his presidency the $450,000
Calgary Stake Center was built.
He was Commissioner of the Boy
Scouts Association for the province
of Alberta from 1945 to 1953. He
is a life member of the association
and has been awarded the Silver
Wolf. He is also a member of the
Board of Governors of the Univer-
sity of Alberta. He received an Hon-
orary Doctor of Laws degree from
Brigham Young University in 1956.
He is a member of the following
clubs: Rotary; Petroleum; Ranch-
men's; Calgary Golf and Country
Club; Toronto Club; Canadian
Club, New York; Calgary Chamber
of Commerce.
He is a man of outstanding exe-
cutive ability, unquestioned inte-
grity, and throughout his public
career has been known, even by his
political opponents, for his rugged
and undeviating honesty.
He is a humble man of great faith,
courage, and constancy, an ideal hus-
band and father, and a devoted and
capable Church leader.
Elder and Sister Tanner intend to
move to Salt Lake City as soon as
they can be relieved of their respon-
sibilities in Canada. He will be wel-
comed as one of the General Au-
thorities by all members of the
Church and will be a distinct asset
in the presiding councils of the
Church.
We, his associates, are proud to
welcome him and his lovely wife
into the official family of the Gen-
eral Authorities of the Church.
Franklin D. Richards
Appointed Assistant to the Council
of the Twelve
Elder LeGrand Richards
Of the Council of the Twelve
Courtesy the Deseret News
ELDER FRANKLIN D. RICHARDS
THE call of Franklin D. Rich-
ards as an Assistant to the
Council of the Twelve adds
to the General Authorities of the
Church, a man of broad experience,
with great capacity and faith. Like
Ncphi of old, he was born of goodly
parents. His father was Charles C.
Richards, an outstanding leader in
the development of the Territory
and State of Utah, and a devoted
and faithful member of the Church.
His father was a regent of the Uni-
versity of Deseret, Secretary and act-
ing Governor of the Territory of
Utah, Speaker of the House in the
Utah State Legislature, Assistant
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Attorney General of U. S., member
of the Civil Service Commission
and active member of the Bar of the
Supreme Court of Utah and of the
U. S. for over sixtv-two years. He
also had a broad experience in
Church activity. With his father,
Franklin D. Richards, Charles C.
Richards visited David Whitmcr,
one of the three witnesses to the
Book of Mormon, and in answer to
his query, he replied: "Read the
printed testimony of the three wit-
nesses, which you will find in one
of the front pages of the Book of
Mormon— and I say to you that
everv word of it is true/'
While he and his father were
touring the Church historic places,
they called on Lewis C. Bidamon,
the husband of the Prophet's wife,
Emma, at Nauvoo, and acquired
from him, sixty pages of the original
manuscript of The Book of Mor-
mon, taken from the box in the
cornerstone of the Mansion House.
This sacred relic was presented to
President George Albert Smith in
1Q46, and is now a possession of the
Church.
Elder Richards' grandfather,
Franklin Dewey Richards, for whom
he was named, was one of the out-
standing missionaries of the Church,
and was President of the Quorum
of the Twelve Apostles at the time
of his death. Out of the first four-
teen vcars of his married life, he
FRANKLIN D. RICHARDS
805
spent ten of those years in the mis-
sion field.
With such a heritage, the Church
can well expect much from Elder
Richards. He, too, has exhibited
great traits of leadership and devo-
tion which have brought to him his
present call to full-time Church serv-
ice, to which call he has responded
in a most pleasing and enthusiastic
manner.
He was born November 17, 1900
at Ogden, Utah, son of Charles C.
Richards and Louisa Letitia Peery.
He graduated from the Weber
Academy in Ogden and from the
University of Utah in 1923 with
an L. L. B. degree. He practiced
law in Salt Lake City from 1923 to
1934; he was appointed first Utah
State Director for F. H. A. in 1934;
Assistant Commissioner of F. H. A.,
Washington, D. C. in 1941 for the
eleven Western States, Alaska, and
Hawaii; Assistant Commissioner
F. H. A., Washington, D. C. for
the entire U. S. in 1945, in charge of
field operations; appointed F. H. A.
Commissioner for the entire U. S.
in 1947 by President Harry S. Tru-
man. He resigned as F. H. A. Com-
missioner June 30, 1952 and organ-
Hal Rumel
ELDER FRANKLIN D. RICHARDS AND HIS FAMILY
Front row, grandchildren, left to right: Caroline Judd; Rinda Richards; Franklin D.
Richards III; Daniel Jndd; Lisa Richards.
Second row, left to right: Gloria Smith Richards and Lance; Helen Kearns Rich-
ards and giandson Steven Jndd; Elder Franklin D. Richards; Louise R. Jndd and Rob-
ert Jndd.
Back row, standing, left to right: Franklin D. Richards, Jr.; David K. Richards;
Nancy Richards; Robert L. Judd.
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ized Franklin D. Richards and
Company, a Nation-wide mortgage
financing company with offices in
Washington, D. C, New York City,
and Salt Lake City, Utah. He re-
turned to Salt Lake in 1954 and
organized the Richards-Woodbnry
Mortgage Company, with the F.
Orin Woodbury family. He is an
officer of seyeral business institu-
tions.
He filled his mission in the East-
ern States from 1920 to 1922, where
he was Conference President in
Brooklyn and Boston; he seryed as
a member of the Liberty Stake Sun-
day School Board; President of an
elders quorum in Washington Stake;
chairman of Chevy Chase Ward
Building Committee in 1946; Sun-
day School Superintendent Silver
Spring Ward, Washington; Chair-
man Genealogical Committee, East
Millcrcek Second Ward, Salt Lake
City, 1954 t° 1956; East Millcrcek
Stake Mission President 1956 to
1959; called to preside oyer the
Northwestern States Mission i960;
set apart as an Assistant to the
Quorum of the Twelve Apostles,
October 9, i960.
lie married Helen Kcarns in the
Salt Lake Temple, August 1, 1923,
and they have four children: Mrs.
Robert L. (Louise) Judd, Franklin
D. Richards Jr., David K. Richards,
and Nancy Richards, all living in
Salt Lake City.
Elder and Sister Richards are, at
heart, real missionaries and have ac-
complished a great work during the
year they have presided over the
Northwestern States Mission. In his
reports in the meetings of the mis-
sion presidents in the Temple, he
greatly impressed the other mission
presidents and the General Authori-
ties as he outlined the activities and
accomplishments of his mission. He
has greatly simplified the work in
his mission, cutting out all unneces-
sary matters, making it much easier
for the missionaries to prepare them-
selves to present the gospel message
impressively. He has introduced a
program of getting groups together,
greatly multiplying the effectiveness
of the missionaries' time.
When missionaries seem the least
bit discouraged, he reminds them
that President McKay is not dis-
couraged — that he is not discour-
aged, and that when they see him
discouraged they can become dis-
couraged also.
As his cousin and associate in the
ministry, I feel confident that in
his new calling, Elder Richards will
demonstrate to members of the en-
tire Church, as they become ac-
quainted with him, the inspiration
of the Lord that has called him to
his present high calling.
J\ now ledge of L^od
Cclin Luce
17 NOWLEDGE of God is like a shining light after dnrkness. It is like warmth after
■ *- cold. It surrounds our lives with joy and happiness and gives us comfort when
sorrow comes our way.
Theodore Moyle Burton
Appointed Assistant to the Council
of the Twelve
Elder Gordon B. Hinckley
Assistant to the Council of the Twelve
pROUD of his heritage, faithful to
his birthright, unflagging in his
testimony, and unwavering in his
devotion, Theodore Moyle Burton
joins the ranks of the General Au-
thorities of the Church as a man
with a great inheritance and a record
of service and accomplishment.
Determined to be a specialist in
the field of chemistry, he has re-
peatedly left his chosen work at the
call of the Church and has per-
formed notably in every assignment
given him. He could do little else.
His faith is built on the faith of his
forebears who sailed the oceans and
walked the plains to gather to Zion.
Numbered among them are some of
the great pioneers of the Mormon
exodus. Most of them were quiet
people wrhose works have gone un-
sung, but that they were men and
women of faith, resourcefulness, and
courage can never be contested.
Theodore M. Burton was born in
Salt Lake City, March 27, 1907, a
son of Theodore Taylor and Flor-
ence Moyle Burton. He attended the
Salt Lake City public schools and
the University of Utah. From this
latter institution he was graduated in
June of 1932.
He had interrupted his university
education to labor in the Swiss-Ger-
man Mission from 1927 to 1930. The
responsibilities there given him are
a testimony of his faithfulness. Dur-
Courtesy the Deseret News
ELDER THEODORE MOYLE
BURTON
ing his mission he served as branch
president in Bern, Switzerland, and
Altona, Germany, and later as dis-
trict president in the Schleswig-
Holstein District.
On February 23, 1933, he married
his childhood sweetheart, Minnie
Preece, in the Salt Lake Temple. At
the time he was working as Assistant
Salt Lake City Bacteriologist and
M.I. A. Superintendent in his home
ward. He also was doing work on his
Master's Degree which was received
from the University of Utah in June
of 1934.
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Courtesy, Church Section, the Deseret News
ELDER THEODORE MOYLE BURTON AND HIS FAMILY
Left to right: Elder Theodore Movie Burton; Minnie Susan Preece Burton; Robert
Preece Burton.
With flucnev in the use of the
German language, he secured em-
ployment as Technical Assistant to
the United States Treasury Attache
in Vienna, Austria. He served there
from 1934 to 1937 and tnen took the
same post in Berlin, Germany, for
another year.
j
From 1941 to 1943 he was instruc-
tor in chemistry, physics, and math-
ematics at Carbon College in Price,
Utah. Then in 1943 he moved to
L.ogan to begin a teaching career at
Utah State University. He has there
served as Assistant Professor, Asso-
ciate Professor, and Professor of
Chemistry. In 1950 he took leave to
accept a Westinghouse Electric Re-
search Fellowship at Purdue Uni-
versity where he received his Ph.D.
degree in June of 1951.
Six years later Dr. Burton inter-
THEODORE MOYLE BURTON 809
rupted his professional career at the Councilman in the Cache Stake, and
call of the Church to preside over President of the Cache Stake High
the West German Mission. Few re- Priests Quorum had equipped him
alize the extent of his tremendous for these burdensome Church assign-
burdens in this post. During most of ments. His wife, who had served as
his tenure he had responsibilitv for ward Relief Society President, was
what are now both the West Ger- likewise well schooled for her work
man and the South German Mis- as mission Relief Society president,
sions and also a number of activities He returned to Logan this past
now centered in the European Mis- summer to resume his teaching, only
sion office. During the major period to be called again from the classroom
of his presidency he not only looked to tne ministry, this time as an As-
after the proselyting program and sistant to the Council of the Twelve,
administrative duties of this large He bri to this new calH j,
mission, but also had responsibility ^ cultivated and deveioped
tor the very extensive servicemen s .1 ■, -, . TT. ..
. t-. , . . , .. through lone experience. His meticu-
program in Europe, administration , .. ° . r , , ., , , . ,
c u r n ' -u j -j lous attention to detail and his edu-
ot an old folk s home, and carried , . . in, r i
the task of getting into print all pub- cated eunosity, hallmarks of the
lications used in the German-speak- scientist, coupled with warmth of
ing missions of Europe, including a personality and an unshakable testi-
monthly periodical, Der Sterne. monY of the divinity of the Lord
His previous training as Sunday Jesus Christ and his restored Gospel,
School teacher, Scoutmaster, Sunday equip him for the high and sacred
School superintendent, Bishop of responsibility which now rests upon
the Cache Fourth Ward, High him.
Qjtrst Snowfall
Blanche Kendall McKey
All the little things that used to be —
Wraith-like trifles of memory —
Come drifting back mysteriously.
The window shut against the cold
Does not disbar them;
Like these wavering flakes of snow,
Which seem to have no definite place to go,
They all float back to the only home they know.
A child's first kiss, a birthday rose, a broken kite,
A whisper in the hush of night,
A tear for old time's sake —
Silent, like the fall of flake on flake,
They all drift back and seem to be
Life's epitome!
The Annual General Relief Society
Conference
Hulda Parker
General Secretary-Treasurer
WITH nature providing a glo-
rious autumn setting, Relief
Society leaders from each
of the 3c 3 stakes in the Church
and from twenty-eight missions
assembled in the Tabernacle on
Temple Square, Wednesday and
Thursday, October 5 and 6, for an-
other Annual General Relief So-
ciety Conference. As each session
of the conference proceeded under
the direction of President Belle S.
Spafford and her counselors, Mari-
anne C. Sharp and Louise W.
Madsen, and as messages of inspira-
tion and instruction were given
through word, music, and dramatic
presentation, one felt they were in-
deed responding to the admonition
of the First Presidency in 1942 to
members of Relief Society, 'never
to forget that they are a unique or-
ganization in the whole world. . . ."
For the first time since the dedi-
cation of the Relief Societv Build-
ing in 1956, mission Relief Society
presidents from Canada, United
States, Mexico, and Central America
were in attendance. A special all-
da} meeting was held for these sis-
ters in the General Board room on
Tuesday, October 4.
The opening session of the con-
ference was the Officers Meeting
held in the Tabernacle on Wed-
nesday from 10 a.m. to 12 noon for
stake and mission officers and board
members. President Joseph Fielding
Smith of the Council of the
Twelve, an advisor to Relief Society,
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opened the conference with an
appeal to the sisters of the Church
"to teach their children the truths
of the gospel as found in the scrip-
tures." President Spafford then
presented the Report and Official
Instructions.
As the 2508 sisters from the stakes
and 101 from missions responded
to a standing roll call conducted by
Secretary-Treasurer Hulda Parker, it
was impressive to observe the large
number of representatives from sev-
eral missions and the majority of
stakes, and that every stake in the
Church, including Auckland, New
Zealand; Sydney, Australia; and
Manchester, England, had repre-
sentation at the conference.
Elder Mark E. Petersen of the
Council of the Twelve, also an
advisor to Relief Society, concluded
this session with an admonition for
every mother to help "build the
needed spirituality to preserve the
home" against the evils of the day
through active affiliation in Relief
Society. The music for this session
was presented by a chorus of 175
Singing Mothers from the Big Horn
Stake in Wyoming, under the di-
rection of Ora M. Welch with
Alexander Schrciner at the organ.
In the General Session at 2 p.m.
Relief Society members and the
general public heard inspiring ad-
dresses bv President Henry D.
Movie of the First Presidency, the
members of the Relief Society Gen-
eral Presidency, and Alberta II.
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Christensen of the General Board.
As a prophet speaking to the moth-
ers of modern Israel, President
Moyle said, ''It is my duty today to
issue a note of warning, of caution,
and call upon you to use wisdom,
judgment, and discretion and above
all, dedicate yourselves first and
foremost to the proper rearing of
your children and your grandchil-
dren . President Spafford empha-
sized the need for society today to
strive more for the enduring, deep-
seated spiritual needs of mankind
and stressed the lasting rewards that
accrue through "serving with full
intent of heart/7 Counselor Sharp
pointed out the responsibility of
mothers to make a heaven at home
and how Relief Society can help
them to do so. Counselor Madsen
discussed the noble calling and priv-
ilege of a mother to help build up
the kingdom of God by being a
good wife, mother, and homemaker.
Sister Christensen told of the value
of a mother using profitably her
time and talents.
A 500-voice chorus of Singing
Mothers from seventeen stakes
in the Ogden and Northern Utah
Regions provided the music. The
chorus was directed by Florence
Jepperson Madsen of the General
Board, and Alexander Schreiner
accompanied at the organ.
On Wednesday evening from 7
to 10 p.m. the General Board mem-
bers greeted approximately 2500
stake and mission officers and board
members at a beautifully appointed
reception in the Relief Society
Building.
In the 10 a.m. Departmental
Meeting on Thursday morning,
dramatic presentations entitled
-Out of the Book" and "This I Re-
member" featured the current year's
theology and literature courses, re-
spectively. The second year's social
science course was presented
through a symposium interspersed
with narrations and musical back-
ground. The Monument Park West
Stake Singing Mothers Chorus, di-
rected by Louise Cook, rendered the
music in connection with the the-
ology presentation. Frank W. Asper
was at the organ.
Elder Marion G. Romnev, of the
Council of the Twelve, opened the
1:30 p.m. Departmental Meeting
with an address defining the duties
of Relief Society in the Welfare
Plan. The visiting teacher mes-
sages for the current year were in-
troduced through a presentation,
"Messengers of Love and Service."
At that same hour separate depart-
mental sessions were held for sec-
retary-treasurers, work meeting lead-
ers, and choristers and organists.
From 2:45 to 4 p.m. other de-
partmental sessions were held in the
Tabernacle for stake and mission
presidencies and Magazine repre-
sentatives, and in the Assembly Hall
for stake and mission class leaders.
Elder Alvin R. Dyer, an Assistant
to the Council of the Twelve,
spoke in the presidencies depart-
ment on the missionary program of
the Church in Europe. Another
special feature of this meeting was
an inspiring presentation on The Re-
lief Society Magazine, "As a Voice
Speaking." Music was provided by
the Bountiful North Stake Singing
Mothers directed by Iris H. Moon,
with Roy M. Darley at the organ.
Thus concluded another glorious
conference of the Relief Society of
the Church of Jesus Christ of Lat-
ter-day Saints.
(grandmas Surprise trackages
Frances C. Yost
GRANDMA Benson let her
tired hands rest in her lap.
It was Christmas Eve and
she was ready for it. Why she had
her family. This should be a time
a lovely surprise package for every
one of the twenty-five members in
for real celebrating, the eve of
Christmas, but her heart wasn't
in it.
There was a hurt in her heart she
just couldn't shake off, and it wasn't
something she could talk over, or
confide in anyone. She just had to
go on bravely smiling and loving all
the family as she always had. Some
hurts were best that way, left alone.
Grandma Benson knew the very
day the hurt in her heart had start-
ed. She was just as happv as a
grandmother could be, with her
children and grandchildren around
her. and thinking they all loved her
until. . . . Well, it happened right
after the Thanksgiving family get-
together. Why it was the morning
after, in fact. It all happened right
in the dear old room she loved.
It was a big room, with plenty
of light. It was a combination liv-
ing room and bedroom, with an ad-
joining private bath. She had all the
things she loved here in the room,
her books and keepsakes, and she
was comfortable. If she wanted to
have privacy, she could have it, and
if she wanted to join the family,
she was always welcome. If she
wanted her meals alone, one of the
children would gladly bring a tray
to her room. True, the furniture
was getting shabby, and the rug was
worn, and the curtains were mend-
ed. But it was home, and she was
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perfectly happy, until that morning
when her son James and his wife
Laura had come to her room.
Grandma Benson could remember
it so well, every word that had been
said. . . .
"May we come in awhile and visit,
Mother?"
"Why certainly, James, you know
you're always welcome in my part
of the house." Grandma Benson
had chuckled gaily then. Now, she
realized she was presumptive to
have said, "my part of the house."
None of the house was really hers,
it was James' and Laura's home, not
hers at all. Her old home had been
sold to pay expenses when Grandpa
had died. And, anyway, the family
had said she mustn't live alone. At
that time they had appeared to
mean it.
"Did you sleep well, Mother Ben-
son?"
"Why yes, Laura, thanks to vou,
keeping clean, lovely, soft sheets on
my bed, I sleep like a child. I love
my dear old bed."
"Mother, that's what Laura and
I wanted to talk to you about.
Would you mind so much living
with Chris and Sarah for awhile?"
James hadn't said for how long.
He hadn't said she was too much
work for Laura, or that she needed
a rest. Just that. Would vou mind
living with Chris and Sarah awhile?
It sort of took her breath, really,
but she quicklv moistened her lips
and smiled faintly and said, "Why,
James, it would be fine to stay a
spell with Chris and Sarah."
She guessed she should have been
moving from one child's home to
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another, before someone suggested
it, not bother any one family too
long. But she had felt so at home
here with James and Laura, and
they had acted as if it was all right
to stay permanently.
"Well, then, if you'll pack a suit-
case, I'll take you over to Sarah's
place first thing after breakfast."
"Mother Benson, why don't you
pack the little trunk. You know,
take all the things you'll need, and
your Christmas sewing and crochet-
ing, and. . . ."
"Yes, Laura, I'll get my things
right now." She turned quickly.
She mustn't ever let anyone know.
She must finish life bravely, serene-
ly, no matter what happened. No
matter if she were passed around
among the children the rest of her
days. . . .
/GRANDMA Benson went over
the last month while living here
at Chris' and Sarah's. They had
treated her nice enough. They really
had. The children had been happy
to have her read to them occasional-
ly, and she had had time to make all
of her Christmas gifts. She had
made cute little aprons for the smal-
ler girls. Some were ruffled pina-
fores, and some were appliqued with
flowers or birds. The older grand-
daughters would receive a length of
fine lace for pillowcases. They were
all filling hope chests. The boys in
the family would get colorful cro-
cheted bookmarks. Boys needed to
be encouraged to sit down and read,
Grandma thought. The men would
each receive a knitted tie, and the
ladies crocheted bedroom slippers to
match their favorite robe. Besides
the present, Grandma had written
a little personal verse for each per-
son. It had all taken lots of time
and thought. In fact, it had been
good for her. When one was doing
things creative, one didn't have so
much time to remember hurts.
Chris and Sarah and their chil-
dren had been ever so nice. She
didn't have any complaints, except
that Chris and Sarah were gone a
great deal evenings. And Sarah
usually made some excuse, almost
every afternoon, to go to the library,
or shopping.
Then, too, they were rather
crowded. She shared a room with
Janice, who was working downtown,
and was dating. She knew her being
there was inconvenient for Janice.
She never turned on the light to
undress, and just felt around for her
nighty and slippers in the dark.
James and Laura had come to see
her quite often, but not once had
they said anything like, "Do you
want to come home, Mother?" She
guessed she had worn out her wel-
come at James' and Laura's com-
pletely.
Now, it was the day before Christ-
mas, and they were all to spend
Christmas Eve at James' and Lau-
ra's. They would have the usual
program, mostly the little tots sing-
ing and reciting. Then the presents
would be opened, and light refresh-
ments served, before each family
went to its own home to await
Santa's visit.
r^ RANDMA Benson had assumed
the family usually came to
James' and Laura's because she had
made her home there. Now, she
realized, it was because their house
was much larger. It would be dif-
ferent this year. Instead of her be-
ing there to greet the others when
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thev arrived, being one of the host-
esses, she now was just a guest in
James' and Laura's home.
Grandma Benson had a sudden
impulse to pull out her lace-edged
handkerchief and fill it with the
tears she had held back ever so long.
But she mustn't give way to grief.
Not at Christmas time. Not ever!
Life had been hard many times, and
she wasn't going to let down when
she was pushing seventy-seven.
What had Grandpa Benson always
said? "Keep a stiff upper lip, Susan,
things have a way of working out!"
"Are you ready to go, Grandma?"
Sarah asked. Sarah always said,
Grandma. And she was her own
daughter. It made her feel so old.
Of course, she knew Sarah did it to
set an example for her children.
"Why, yes, Sarah, I'm ready, all
but my coat and scarf."
"Roger, go get Grandma's coat in
the hall closet. Don't drop the
scarf tucked in the sleeve." Sarah
turned to the others. "The rest of
you get in the car."
Then all at once they were driv-
ing up to fames' and Laura's. The
dear old home looked so lovely, all
the evergreens starlit with snow-
flakes, fames had strung lights on
the biggest pine tree, making a real
outdoor Christmas tree!
The drapes were drawn, and the
lighted tree in the living room was
even more beautiful than when she
had been there to help decorate, or
sit back and suggest where to hang
the ornaments. And the little stock-
ings she had made for all last vcar,
were hanging on the mantle. They
had remembered to use them, even
though she hadn't been there to
suggest it.
The door was swinging open now,
and both James and Laura were call-
ing: "Merry Christmas all of you!"
"Welcome home, Mother."
James and Laura said together, then
they looked at each other and
laughed softlv.
"Mother, you might as well take
your scarf and coat right up."
James took her arm, and Laura
took her other arm, and thev were
taking her up the stairs. Perhaps
they didn't want her in the living
room, and yet they had said, "Wel-
come home, Mother." What were
all the others doing following at
their heels?
TAMES swung the door to her old
room open, and a silence fell on
all the family, even those still at the
foot of the stairway. Grandma Ben-
son caught her breath and just
looked. Why a miracle had hap-
pened!
Instead of the drab old flowered
wallpaper, there was a lovely soft
pink on the walls. The old gray
woodwork was all pink now. The
dear old bed and dresser and vanity
were all refinished in limed oak. The
overstuffed chair was reupholstered
in a lovely blue. The floor was cov-
ered with wall to wall carpeting in
a soft blue shade. At the windows
hung flowered cretonne draw drapes.
Thev had little pink and blue flow-
ers, carrying out the color scheme of
the room.
"Sarah made the drapes, Mother
Benson," Laura said, "that's why she
left you so much, she was sewing
everv minute over here. And here
are the lovelv hooked rugs you gave
me. I cherish them as much as
ever, but thev just seemed to belong
in this room."
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"Yes, they do add a cozy touch/'
Grandma Benson murmured.
It was so like Laura, giving some-
one else what she herself cherished.
Why had she doubted her unselfish-
ness for a time? Grandma Benson
had a big lump in her throat, but
she must speak up. The family
would think her ungrateful. What
was James saying?
"All the family helped, Mother.
They helped lovingly, with their
hands and with their purses, and
we've all enjoyed doing it. You see,
we didn't wrap your presents as sur-
prises by the tree this year, we hid
them behind your own door."
'Tour own door," the words were
sweet to Grandma Benson. She
wanted to cry, but they were tears
of joy she was holding back now.
Her lip quivered, but she managed
to control herself and gave her big-
gest smile.
"You children surely did surprise
me all right. And you have made
me very, very happy. You're all
dears, and I love you every one.
Now let's go downstairs and start
our program. I want to hear the
little folks' pieces, and . . . ." Grand-
ma Benson laughed gaily, "I have
a few surprise packages to pass out
myself."
vt/earing the Smell of vi/oods
Maude Rubin
Wearing the smell of woods, the morning air,
Its resiny freshness brings the outdoors in;
The house, already bright with berries' flare,
Now puts on soft green sable. . . . Clear and thin
The call of robins once rang through these boughs;
A squirrel skittered to his needled tip —
A chipmunk hurried to her hidden house;
A chickadee sat here to swing and dip.
Now I must dress this fragrant forest thing
With glittering toys and baubles blue and gold;
Must string light-cord where winds no longer sing
Or icicles ring crystal chimes of cold.
I spread the new white cotton on the floor,
Pour star-dust from a package; close and snug
I draw the window curtains. One thing more,
To sweep the shining litter from the rug.
All this for children's magic morning-sight
This tree, now leafed with silver, flowered with light!
Sixty L/ears ^/igo
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, December 1, and December 15, 1900
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
of All Nations"
THE NEW CENTURY: Whatever may be the fate of the world a century later
one cannot help feeling and realizing that the United States, the Republic of America
is marching onward to a high destiny. . . . Development goes forward and ideas ac-
cumulate as the world grows older, and men and women who seriously contemplate life
and action . . . enter upon the century heart and soul and seem to be lifted by a sort
of mental and spiritual enthusiasm into higher ranges of sublimity than were known a
hundred years ago. . . . — Editorial
CENTURY'S GREETING TO AID RED CROSS: The parting of the cen-
turies on the night of the 31st of the coming December will have a celebration of
world-wide import and interest in the unique watch meetings to be held in this country
under the auspices of the American National Red Cross. The speciallv organized
Twentieth Century Department of the Red Cross is now preparing to hold watch
meetings, as far as practicable, in every city, town and village in the United States.
Mammoth meetings are already arranged for in New York and other leading cities, in
Madison Square Gardens and other great auditoriums, to see the old century out and
the new century in. . . . Probably no sign or figure in the secular world is sacred to
so many eyes as the Red Cross of Geneva. It is the insignia of a humanity that knows
no foe. ... Its international organization is founded on the welcome and authoriza-
tion of the united governments of the civilized world. . . .
— E. B. W.
CHRISTMAS REVERIES
. . . While the tremulous pulse of the universe
Is throbbing with ''peace and good will/'
Thus my soul is replete with reveries sweet,
Brightest hopes my being to thrill;
That the waning days of this century
May carry all doubt from the world;
That love among men forever may reign,
With the banner of peace unfurled. . . .
— Ellis R. Shipp
RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE IN UINTAH STAKE: President Sarah Pope
was pleased to again have the privilege of meeting with the sisters in conference, and
said we had with us two sisters from headquarters and no doubt all would be pleased
to hear from them. . . . Sister Mary E. Irvine said . . . President Joseph Smith turned
the key in behalf of women, and how they had advanced since that time. We should
look after ourselves and not spend so much time bothering our neighbors. When we
go before our Father in heaven lie will not ask us what everyone else has been doing,
but what we ourselves have done. Sister Susan Grant said one of the important
missions of the Relief Society was to store up grain and then take care that it is not
destroyed. We should always remember our prayers. . . .
— Addie Longhurst, Sec.
THE FUTURE: Those who are permitted to live far into the twentieth century
are likely to see and learn still more marvelous things than have been made known in
the past. — Editorial
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
A/f ISS MARY E. SWITZER is
director of the United States
Federal Office of Vocational Reha-
bilitation. She was recently named
by the Eighth World Congress of
the International Society for the
Welfare of Cripples as one of three
recipients of the Albert Lasker
Award, medicine's highest. She is
the first woman to receive this hon-
or. She has also been presented
with awards by the National Re-
habilitation Association, the Cer-
ebral Palsy, Am Vets, Institute for
the Crippled and Disabled associa-
tions, among others.
TyjRS. HALIMA ANEGAY, a
twenty-five-year-old widow from
Casablanca, is cultural attache of the
Moroccan Embassy in Washington
and is also assigned to the social,
humanitarian, and cultural commit-
tee of the United Nations.
A/TRS. ELEANORE J. GREENE,
a Latter-day Saint of Pasadena,
California, has recently been in-
ducted into the Multi-Millionaire
Club of a national life insurance
company for her outstanding record
in life insurance salesmanship. She
is the only woman to receive this
distinctive honor from her company,
and is one of the few women in the
United States to receive a similar
award.
pRINCESS MICHIKO, beauti-
ful, charming, and intelligent
commoner wife of Crown Prince
Akihito, of Japan, arrived in Wash-
ington, D. C., with her husband on
September 27, to celebrate the
hundredth anniversary of Japan's
entrance into diplomatic relations
with the United States.
M
RS. OSWALD LORD is the
best known American woman
delegate to the United Nations, be-
ing in attendance the year around.
Mrs. Agda Rossel, of Sweden, is the
only permanent woman head of a
United Nations delegation.
AJINETTE DE VALOIS, Direc-
tor of Britain's Royal Ballet, in
October presented eighty-four ar-
tists, including "jewel-like" Prima
Ballerina Margot Fonteyn, at the
Metropolitan Opera House, New
York City. The company also made
appearances in twenty-five other
cities of the United States. "Mad-
ame Valois," born Edris Stanus, in
Ireland, was made a Dame Com-
mander of the Order of the British
Empire in 1951, in recognition of
her long years of devoted service in
training the Royal Ballet (formerly
Sadler's Wells) to such a point of
perfection that the troupe has been
recognized as "matchless in the
West."
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 47
DECEMBER 1960
NO. 12
cJhe i3oth Semi-Jftnnual Church Conference
'TTIE 130th Semi-Annual Confer-
ence of the Church was held
in the Tabernacle, Salt Lake City,
Utah, October 7, 8, and 9, i960,
with our beloved President David
O. McKay conducting all six gen-
eral sessions and the Priesthood
meeting.
With the temple spires reaching
heavenward, and the welcoming
doors of the great Tabernacle open,
the saints assembled and heard again
the message of eternal life from
those chosen and anointed of God
to direct the Church in this crucial
time of world events.
Two of the General Authorities,
Elder George O. Morris of the
Council of the Twelve, and Presi-
dent Levi Edgar Young of the First
Council of the Seventy were unable
to attend the Conference because of
illness. President J. Reuben Clark,
Jr. of the First Presidency was pres-
ent on Sunday morning.
On Friday, the Singing Mothers
from Ogden and Northern Utah
presented the music under the direc-
tion of Florence Jepperson Madsen
of the General Board of Relief So-
ciety with Roy Darley at the organ.
Three new Assistants to the
Council of the Twelve were sus-
tained: Elder Nathan Eldon Tan-
ner, President of Calgary Stake;
President Franklin D. Richards,
President of the Northwestern
States Mission; and Elder Theodore
M. Burton, recently released as
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President of the West German Mis-
sion.
The Conference addresses empha-
sized the spiritual security obtained
bv adherence to the gospel plan. In
his opening address, President
McKav welcomed the vast throngs
in attendance and those who were
tuned to the proceedings in homes
and towns and cities far and near.
He spoke of leaders among men
who have denounced a belief in
Jesus as the Savior and have taught
atheism to the children of many na-
tions. He declared:
The members of the Church through-
out the world find confirmation of their
testimony in every performance of duty.
They know that the gospel teaches them
to be better individuals; that obedience
to the principles of the gospel makes them
stronger men, and truer women. Every
day such knowledge comes to them, and
they cannot gainsay it. They know that
obedience to the gospel of Jesus Christ
makes them happier, better, and truer
husbands, true and honored wives, obedi-
ent children.
President J. Reuben Clark, Jr.
delivered a vigorous and stirring
testimony of the power and strength
given to men through the divine
mission of the Savior. "I renew to
you this morning," he said, "the
testimonv I have given to you for
over a quarter of a century ... a
testimonv that God lives, and that
Jesus is his Son."
Let us try always to learn what the
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Lord wants. If we are living the kind of blessings which will flow to ns auto-
lives we should live, that I hope we do matically merely because we ask for them,
live, we will find that no question ever We will be justified, however, if we fol-
arises in our minds for determination as low all that God reveals through his serv-
to whether or not we should do a good ants, the prophets. We have been given
deed, take a good course. . . . "Prayer is direction, sometimes thought of as tem-
the soul's sincere desire." And in pray- poral in its nature. . . . We can draw no
ing, no matter what our words may be, hard and fast line between temporal and
there will be in the back of our minds the spiritual. All that is good is spiritual,
real prayer, the real desire, and that will .
be controlling. In the concluding session, Presi-
_, . . TT _ _ , . , dent McKay admonished:
President Henry D. Moyle urged
the saints to live in righteousness. God helP us to be partakers of the
divine nature. May the spirit of this great
We are the children of promise so long conference radiate from your hearts to
as we keep the commandments of God. those whom you will meet when you go
I have no doubt it will take continuous back to your stakes and wards, and
effort . . . upon our part. These are not especially may it radiate in your homes.
■ ♦ «
Lshnstmas for the (children
HHHE first Christmas, with its worship and its singing, its fulfillment and
its promise, brought the Magi of the East to the manger place, and the
shepherds from the hills, to worship a newborn Child, the Savior of the
world. When the Child became a man and walked the hills and valleys
of the Holy Land, bringing to the earth his message of eternal life, he
called the children to him and blessed them.
In the long vears since that star-illumined night, many people have
forgotten the meaning of Christmas and have retained only its symbols,
and even these have been changed. But the children are the same as in
ancient times — they are the same the world over. Their minds are eager
and receptive, to them the world is new and full of wonder. So lately
come from their Father in heaven, they seem to be hearing still the voices
of the angels. These little ones are capable of understanding much more
about Christmas than they can learn from seeing the glowing trees, the
lighted windows, or from hearing the bells and the carols. Even small
children can experience a Christmas that can give them a basis for know-
ing that the Babe of Bethlehem was the Messiah, the Lord of this world,
and their Redeemer.
Let the children hear for themselves the words from the Bible: "Now
when Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea in the days of Herod the king,
behold there came wise men from the east. . . ." But these wise men
came for greater learning, for they had not discovered the way in which
the children of earth could return to their Heavenly Father and live with
him forever. This message was brought to the earth by Jesus and through
him we may return to that home which was ours in the beginning. Let
us cherish each moment with the children that the glory of the first
Christmas may become for them the reality of reverence and rejoicing.
-V.P.C.
C/he I teed SJs Urgent
A Message From the National Tuberculosis Association
Submitted by Franklin K. B rough
Executive Director, Utah Tuberculosis and Health Association
T^IIERE'S a killer loose, and if we don't nail him quickly, we may never
get him. The killer is the tuberculosis germ. We have the weapons
—modern drugs. We must use them now or we may not have another
chance.
Drugs that fight disease when they're first used sometimes fail to
work after awhile because the germs develop defensive tactics. If that
happens with the TB germ before the thousands of people with active
disease are found and treated, we shall have lost our opportunity to
wipe out this dread disease. Remember that TB is infectious. One per-
son who has it can give it to many others, who in turn may infect still
more people.
Right now, thirtv-six million Americans are infected with the TB
germ. Based on what is happening today, it is estimated that about
1 ^6,000 of these infected people will break down with active tuberculosis
during the next four or five vears. Many of the rest of them mav well
develop active disease ten or twenty years from now and become a source
of new infections far into the future.
The tuberculosis problem is so crucial right now that the U.S. Public
Health Service and the National Tuberculosis Association held a confer-
ence at Arden House, in Ilarriman, N.Y., to find ways of dealing with
it. They recommended an all-out country-wide community effort to find
all people with active TB and treat them with modern drugs until they
are no longer infectious.
This is vital, urgent work. Your Christmas Seal contribution can do
a lot to help. Send it today to your local Tuberculosis Association.
Lshristmas if Corning L^hi/d
Ethel Jacobson
The laden tree is dazzling,
Its strings of tinsel drip;
And colored baubles glisten,
And a star shines from the tip.
Lights glow like golden sparklers
Where glittering toys lie piled,
But nothing's quite so sinning
As a Christinas morning child.
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Lshnstrnas Cyreats for L^ompany
Winnifred C. /ardine
CHRISTMAS time always brings visions of sugar plums — or so the legend goes —
and it's little wonder, for good things to eat go with Christmas.
When mothers look to the holidays, much of their busy-ness is concerned with
food. Menus for family and company meals take much advance thought. Mother must
also plan for tasty tidbits and snacks to serve to drop-in guests, for, during the Christmas
season, the word hospitality is spelled food — and every homemaker knows it!
In planning special snacks for the holidays, there are two requisites for any recipe
used. They must make luscious eating, and they must be quick and easy to make. It's
best if some of the fixing can be done ahead of time, so that the last minute put-together
won't frustrate the hostess.
Because so much of Christmas is sweet, it is an ingenious hostess who prepares
some snacks that are not sweet. A fresh bowl of crisp vegetable sticks and chilled
olives and pickles could be a hit of the holiday, or a mound of fresh fruit surrounded
by cheese and crackers would be welcome any time of day or evening.
Tomato juice, already spiced and seasoned, would take just a minute to heat and
serve — and how good and warm it would taste on a wintry Christmas night! Serve it
with tender flaky cheese straws that have been made and carefully stored to hold their
freshness. Very elegant are tiny little mushroom tarts, made and baked ready for a
last-minute heating up in the oven. No tidbits were ever more tasty than these. Look-
ing like a piece of candy, but definitely not, is a cheese pecan log. It is a tasty com-
bination of cream and blue cheese, seasoned and shaped, then rolled in chopped pecans,
chilled and sliced.
Tiny cream puff shells filled with chicken, crab, or salami salad also are good
accompaniments to a hot punch. These little shells can be previously made and the
ingredients for the salad ready for a last-minute tossing with mayonnaise and a little
sandwich spread. (Sandwich spread provides the flavors of pimiento, pickles, and sea-
soning all in one and adds lots of flavor in a hurry.)
Hot Spiced Tomato Juice
5 c. tomato juice 2 sticks cinnamon
% c. brown sugar, packed 4 slices lemon
6 whole cloves
Combine all ingredients, bring to a boil, and simmer 5 minutes. Strain and serve
hot. Makes 6 servings.
Jack's Cheese Straws
4 oz. sharp American cheese dash of pepper
1 Vi c. sifted flour dash of cayenne pepper
% tsp. salt Vi c. butter
Grate cheese finely or rub through a wire sieve. Sift flour and seasonings together.
Cream butter until light and fluffy; add seasoned flour and cheese. Blend thoroughly.
Let stand in refrigerator for 1 hour. Roll pastry Ms-inch thick. Cut into 4-inch squares.
Cut each square into straws 4 inches long and ^-inch wide. Lift carefully with spatula
and place on ungreased cookie sheet. Bake at 4000 F. for 8 to 10 minutes. When
done, the cheese straws should be a light golden color. Be careful not to brown too
much, for they burn easily. Makes about 3 dozen straws.
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Mushroom Tarts
2 dozen unbaked miniature tart shells
(Sec recipe for Daintv Christmas
Tarts.)
1 c. canned mushrooms, drained
2 tbsp. butter
l tbsp. chopped chives or green onions
l tbsp. chopped parsley
l tbsp. lemon juice
Vi c. light cream
l VI tsp. paprika
Make pastry shells as directed. Slice or chop mushrooms and saute in butter.
Add chives and parsley; then add lemon juice and simmer for 5 minutes. Aid cream
and paprika. The mixture is thin; but don't worry — the filling will be the right
consistency when baked. Put one teaspoonful of mixture into each tart shell. Bake
at 4000 F. for 20 to 25 minutes or until pastrv is golden brown in color. Makes 2
dozen tarts.
Cheese Pecan Log
3 -3-oz. packages cream cheese
2 tbsp. cream
Vi lb. blue cheese
2 tsp. grated onion
1 clove garlic, finely minced
1 tsp. paprika
1 c. chopped pecans
Mix cream cheese with cream. Blend with blue cheese. Add onion, garlic, and
paprika. Form into ball about 1 inch in diameter. Spread chopped pecans on waxed
paper. Roll cheese in pecans. Wrap in waxed paper and chill. Slice in thin slices.
Serve with crackers and assorted cheeses.
Tiny Cream Puff Shells
A c. butter or substitute
1 c. boiling water
1 c. sifted flour
A tsp. salt
4 eggs, unbeaten
Combine butter and water in saucepan and bring to boil. Add flour and salt and
stir constantly until mixture leaves sides of pan in smooth compact mass. Remove from
heat and cool slightly. Add eggs, one at a time, beating thoroughly after each addition.
Beat steadily until mixture is smooth and satinv. Drop Vi teaspoon batter for each
puff onto ungreased cookie sheet. Bake at 45o°F. for 6 to 8 minutes, then at 3Z5°F.
for 1 5 to 20 minutes. Cool. Fill with fish or chicken salad. Or, if desired, for sweet
eating, fill with a dab of cream filling. Two packages vanilla pudding (pie mix) will
fill one batch of tiny cream puffs. Top with a bit of colored frosting. Makes 70
miniature puffs.
Dainty Christmas Tarts
This recipe is practically fool-proof.
Crusts
Vi c. (1 stick) butter or substitute
Vs oz. package cream cheese
1 c. sifted all-purpose flour
54 teaspoon salt
Allow butter (substitute) and cream cheese to come to room temperature. In a
bowl with a fork, cream butter and cheese together until well blended, then add flour
and salt that have been sifted together, 54 cup at a time, and blend with a fork. Chill
for 1 or 2 hours, if desired, then roll dough into 24 balls the size of marbles. With
fingertips, press each ball to fit ungreased tart shells (lVi to 2 inches in diameter).
Fill each tart with 1 teaspoon filling, as suggested on following page. Bake at 35o°F\
for 15 minutes, then at 2500 for 10 minutes. Makes 2 dozen shells.
CHRISTMAS TREATS FOR COMPANY
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RAISIN SURPRISES
Pecan Filling:
1 large egg, beaten with fork
% c. brown sugar, packed
Vz tsp. vanilla
Vz c. chopped pecans
Combine ingredients thoroughly, and use as directed on previous page.
Raisin Surprises
Pastry:
2 c. sifted all-purpose flour Vz c. shortening
i tbsp. sugar % c. milk
3 Vz tsp. baking powder melted butter (or substitute)
Vi tsp. salt granulated sugar
Sift flour, sugar, baking powder, and salt into mixing bowl. Cut in shortening
until in small pieces. Add milk and mix to moderately stiff dough. Turn out onto
lightly floured board, knead once or twice, then roll out to an oblong about 12 x 9
inches (dough will be about ^-inch thick). Cut into 12 squares (about 3 inches).
Raisin Filling: Mix together until blended 1 c. light or dark raisins, % c. brown
sugar (packed), 1 tsp. cinnamon, and 2 tbsp. melted butter or margarine. Sufficient for
one dozen surprises.
Drop spoonful of raisin filling in center of each square. Bring the four corners of
each square together and twist lightly at the top. Place in greased medium-sized muf-
fin cups. Brush each "surprise" with melted butter (or substitute) and sprinkle with
sugar. Bake at 4oo°F. for 15 to 20 minutes.
cJhe cJrees the cfami/ij if lade
Helen S. Williams
TREES grow in woods, in orch- in creating a tree of loveliness and
ards, and gardens, while some beauty. The tree the family makes
spread their wide branches to becomes not only a symbol of
give shade from scorching summer Christmas, but an expression of fam-
suns. The trees of springtime, with ily mutuality and solidarity,
their delicate blossoms of pink and In Florence Williams' family is an
white, are harbingers of the bright example of the old axiom that a
luscious fruit of autumn days, family which works and plays and
Whether trees arc the silver-trunked laughs together stays together, and
aspens of the mountains, with their is bound by lasting ties of loving
trembling leaves, or the dark, velvety affection, spirit, and interests,
sentinel pines of the forest, nature As Christmas draws near, Flor-
has made them beautiful to behold, ence goes to the homes of each of
and man stands in wonder at God's her children laden with materials to
handiwork. help with ideas, to work with them,
As Yulctidc approaches, the sea- and to give guidance, for she has
son during which the Christian had years of experience in decorating
world celebrates Christ's birth, a and making unusual Christmas
tree becomes a symbol. Nations, articles.
countries, communities, and families At the home of son Richard and
have their own traditions about his wife, Marion, at Christmas time,
Christmas trees, and throughout the there will be a most unusual Christ-
world grandparents and parents pass mas tree on their front door with
on to their children and grandchil- two glamorous ball trees at either
dren, customs, stories, decorations, side of the doorway as pictured,
and ideas which keep alive the Each and every member of the
warmth and glow of the Christmas family helped in one way or another
tree. to create these trees. Mother Mar-
The Christmas tree truly becomes ion and Grandmother Florence
a family affair, as little ones, with assembled all the materials. When
father and mother, pop corn and everything was in readiness the fam-
string chains of the white kernels, ily all gathered in the work room,
or string cranberries on branches or and the fun of making the family
hang rock candy, frosted cookies, tree began. Father was supervisor
or peppermint canes on the soft and consulting engineer and really
green boughs. did most of the hard, intricate work.
Whether the decorations are First, he cut a piece of styrofoam
precious old-fashioned ones, gay, new in the shape of a perfect Christmas
icicles smoothed and hung just so, tree. Ricky, aged eighteen, aided by
or the modern exotic balls of colored Florence, drilled small holes through
glass, or those made of velvet and hazel, Brazil, almond, pecan nuts,
sequins, the decorating becomes a walnuts, and peanuts. This was ac-
joyous pastime when each and every complished with a very fine drill,
member of the family takes a part While this was going on, Ann,
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aged fifteen, and Janie, eleven, bus-
ied themselves cutting pine cones in
half to resemble rosebuds. Five-year-
old Tommy had the time of his life
snipping wire into two-and-one-half
inch lengths with some tin snips.
l\/f OTHER Marion was busy cut-
ting a basket in half, gilding it,
and filling it with artificial moss.
The basket was cut in half so that
it would be flat against the door.
The materials were all ready at
last and everyone helped by dipping
the florist wire pieces into glue, then
quickly slipping them through the
holes in the nuts and into the styro-
foam tree. The spaces left exposed
were filled in with bits of artificial
green foliage. Finally, the styrofoam
tree was covered completely with
nuts, pine cones, rosebuds, and soft
greens.
The tree was then planted and
held with wire in the golden half-
basket filled with the moss — but
before the family could take the
tree upstairs to hang on the door,
the tree balls to stand on either side
had to be made.
Into perfectly round balls of
stvrofoam was inserted a brush
handle which had been sprayed with
gold paint. These round handles
were planted in flower pots filled
with plaster-of-Paris, then placed in
old-fashioned milk buckets. The
handles were inserted into the pots
while the plaster was moist and held
very straight until the mixture
solidified. This process didn't take
long.
The styrofoam balls were then
covered with the nuts, cones, and
greens in the same manner as the
tree for the door was made.
Under each ball Anne tied a glis-
tening bow of three-inch-wide gold
metallic ribbon. The trees were
beautiful and would give perfect bal-
ance to the front entrance of the
house.
When all was in readiness, the
family followed Father and Ricky as
they carried the tree to the front
porch. They watched as Ricky hung
the tree with a wire attached to a
hook at the top of the front door
and then he secured it to the door
knocker with another piece of wire.
The girls placed the round trees,
just so, on either side of the door-
way, and father adjusted the spot-
light so it would shine brightly on
the decorations when dusk de-
scended.
With the green door as a back-
ground, all the rich tones of the
brown nuts and dark foliage, the
bright gold of the ribbon bows,
handles, and baskets, seemed to
radiate in the darkness.
We're grateful for the lovely trees
created by nature that beautify our
land, and we're thankful for the fam-
ily spirit, the traditions, the joy of
having ideas which grow into un-
usual and picturesque family trees
at Christmas.
Florence has been blessed with a
rare gift of being able to create, to
make her ideas materialize into
things of beauty, but her greatest
blessing is the quality of wanting to
share with others her talents and
abilities.
As she enters her sons' and daugh-
ter's houses, on Christmas she will
have the satisfaction and great joy
to behold the beautiful 'Trees the
Family Made."
William Beal
A CONVENTION OF DOLLS
Front row, left to right: little girl doll in everyday dress; baby doll with bonnet;
doll in a party dress.
At the back, left: doll wearing pajamas; right: doll in fancy dress.
JLets LDress UJolIs for L/hristmas
Shiihy Thulin
rI^OP on the list of every little girl's Christmas desires is a brand new doll, but did you
* know there is something she really wants more? A new wardrobe for the doll
family she already has.
To buy the new dresses, panties, slips, ©r coats, to clothe her beloved dolls properly,
would cost much more than the price of a new doll, but you can make them yourself for
pennies. And with the help of some tried and proved shortcuts, they aren't the tedious
work they once were. If you are a grandmother, you can assist with the dolly's ward-
robe.
First, look carefully at the doll you are
about to dress, and decide her type. Is
she a baby doll, a teenage doll, a mother
type doll, or a little girl doll? Some dolls
also lend themselves to dressing in cos-
tumes of Orientals, Europeans, or as
pioneers. Little girls love to see their
dolls in different costumes.
Make at least the following for each
doll: A nightgown or pajamas, everyday
dress, skirt and blouse for the teen doll,
party or best dress, coat, robe, and under-
clothing.
Don't forget to make pillows and quilts,
or other household extras. They are really
a desirable touch.
The main thing is to have the accent
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William Beal
BRIDE DOLL AND WINTER DOLL
on authenticity. If you make a "leather"
belt or purse, it will add just the right
touch of "realness" to thrill a little mother.
Make belts of leftover oilcloth or plastic.
Put tiny pockets in all skirts, coats, or
wherever you think one would look nice,
and for a touch of realism, which is the
secret of dressing dolls, add a tiny, lace-
edged hanky.
Always use the tiniest of buttons or
snaps. Too large a button will look
cumbersome and take away the miniature
appeal. If you have a little sprig of flow-
ers, take them apart and use the little
individual blossom for the corsage on a
coat, or a touch on a hat. Pearls to go
around the doll's neck or to match around
the skirt of a party dress can be made
from an inexpensive packet of beads. You
can also buy many other aids, such as
sequins or glitter, but to save money, look
in your trunk or in the discarded sewing
basket, for bits of lace, fur, or other sew-
ing treasures. You will also need some
narrow elastic for the panties and pajamas.
Second, look over your material. Be
sure to use the correct fabric for the
article of clothing. Use flannel for the
nightgowns, corduroy or wool for the skirts
and coats, nylon or satin for party dresses.
If you sew for your daughter, you will
really thrill her by making clothes for her
doll to match those you have made for
her.
To make underpanties, use a piece of
knitted underskirt, or underwear. Ribbed
stocking tops also are good to use. These
have "give" to them, and will fit the doll
well, and be easy to get on and off. Which
brings us to the most important part of
making doll clothes. They must be made
with an eye to a lot of taking off and put-
ting on. That is the fun of having many
clothes for a doll. Making them open all
the way down the back is the best way,
since most dolls' arms do not bend readily.
Snaps can hold the dress or slips together,
and the article of clothing will stand much
more wear than if it is stitched up too
tightly.
Sew trim on the sleeves before sewing
them together, also sew trim on dresses
before completing them. Almost all work
can be done on your sewing machine,
thereby making the project less of a chore.
Third, make a basic dress pattern for
each doll. To do this, cut the sleeves and
bodice all in one piece as in figure 1.
Make it from paper, being sure to allow
plenty of room for seams. Try making
the dress front as wide as the doll is
around. To do this, take a piece of string
and measure around the doll's body at the
largest part. Then lay the string on the
paper and make the dress front that wide.
The sleeve should be about as wide as the
doll's arms are around.
For the back of the dress, you will have
to fold the dress front pattern in half down
the center, and, putting the fold about
one-half inch away from the edge of the
material, cut around the sleeves and neck.
This makes the back just like the front,
except it has room to lap over all the way
down for snapping together. (See figure
2.) This pattern can be used for blouses,
too, except the opening will be down the
front, and it will be shorter. After you
have the pattern cut out of paper, cut one
out of scraps and sew it up the seams.
Try it on the doll and make the necessary
adjustments.
The baby doll must have several tiny
white flannel diapers, easy to cut with
LET'S DRESS DOLLS FOR CHRISTMAS
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DRAW STRING
Figure 1
Basic Dress Pattern
your pinking shears, or cut a little larger
if you wish to hem them. Put a new
shiny miniature safety pin in the diaper
the doll wears. A gold-colored one
catches the little mother's eye most read-
ily.
Figure 2
Back of Basic Dress Pattern
For the baby's dress (see figure 3), make
it of shiny satin or nylon. A very easy way
to do it is to cut a rectangle as wide as
the desired length of the dress (measure
from the doll's shoulders to below her
knees) and measure two times around her
at the largest part of her body, for the
length of the rectangle.
Cut two tiny semicircles about one half
inch from the top edge, and equal dis-
tances from the front center, for the arm-
holes. The top of the semicircles makes
the cap sleeve. Stitch gathered lace on
>^
LACE ON CAP SLEEVE
r>
SNAPS
LACE AT BOTTOM-^
Figure 3
Baby doll's dress
the cap sleeve, and blanket stitch or bind
or otherwise finish the under armhole.
Wherever a raw edge is left, and it is
too small to bind, or would be too cum-
bersome, blanket stitch or buttonhole
stitch around it. This is one of the easy
ways to cut down on the work of mak-
ing doll clothes.
Now hem the bottom edge, or put lace
across it, and hem the top edge wide
enough for a drawstring (ribbon) to
thread through. Hem up both ends with
a narrow hem and sew two snaps, one at
the very top and one in the center. Put
it on the doll, with the opened edges in
the back, and draw tightly around her
neck. Now tie a bow at the back of her
neck.
Make other baby dresses using the same
basic dress pattern, also nightgown, and
robe of flannel. Make as fancy as you
desire, using lace and ribbons. You can
also make undershirts out of ribbed under-
shirts, using the basic dress pattern, and
if you are handy with the crochet hook,
you will want to make the bonnet and
jacket of wool.
To make a bonnet (see figure 4), meas-
ure from the center of the back of the
doll's head to the hair line in front, for the
width; and from just under one ear up
over her head to just under the other ear,
for the length of the rectangle. Sew a
ruffle of lace along one long edge of the
rectangle, making a little hem by turning
up the raw edge as you go. Now sew a
narrow ribbon along each short end of
the rectangle, extending far enough be-
yond the lace edge to tie under the doll's
chin. Now gather along the other long
edge of the rectangle and pull up tightly
and join. This forms the bonnet.
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GATHER THIS EDGE TIGHTLY-
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LACE RUFFLE
RIBBON TIE
Figure 4
Bonnet
The teenage doll will need at least
one slip. (See Figure 5.) Take a straight
piece of material twice as long as the doll
is around, and as wide as from her waist
to the desired length of the finished slip.
Sew lace across the bottom, turning up
the raw edge once as you sew. Make a
band about one-half inch wide as long as
the doll is around at her waist, plus enough
for a lap over and snap. Gather the slip
SAND— y
SHIP
LACE
Figure 5
Half Slip
to the band, fold band down and top
stitch. Put tiny hem or pink along both
ends of rectangle. Sew snap at top cor-
ner. You may make the slip fuller than
twice around the doll, if desired.
She will also need a party dress. Make
it fancy, with tiny pearl trim, or flowers.
Lace or netting trim, or a stole to match,
gives an elegant touch. Use the basic
dress pattern for the party dress.
Make her some pedal pushers from a
dark-colored stocking top. They will fit
tight and be easy to put on. Place the
doll on paper. Draw the outline from her
waist to just below her knees. Allow for
just a little seam on these, depending on
the stretchability of the fabric being used.
Make a little white blouse from her basic
dress pattern top. To make it look as
though the blouse buttons down the front,
stitch tiny buttons on the other side of
the snaps, and you can just snap it and
won't have to make buttonholes.
Make this doll several gathered skirts.
They are easy. Just gather a straight piece
of fabric onto a band and snap the back,
also, make big pockets on the skirt.
Make her a pair of pajamas, using flannel
or other fabric suggesting nightwear adapt-
ability. Use the basic dress pattern fci
the top, a little longer than waist length,
and snap it in the front. The pajama
bottoms are made of two rectangle pieces
of cloth as long as the doll is from her
waist to her ankles, and as wide as she
is around. Sew them together down the
sides. Mark spot of doll's crotch. Now
stitch up just off the center of the rec-
tangle, from the bottom edge of the
marked crotch. Turn with the needle still
in the fabric and take four stitches over
and then stitch down to the bottom edge
parallel to the first stitching. Then cut
up between these two rows of stitching,
to form the legs. Hem the leg bottoms.
Measure elastic around the waist of the
doll. Do not allow for a seam in the
elastic, then it will be tight enough to
hold the pajamas on. Turn the top of the
pajamas under one turn, stitch. Now
stitch the elastic along inside the top hem,
pulling the elastic tight as you stitch along.
Clothes for a little girl doll are fun to
make. Make a basic dress pattern for her
and then change it to make all kinds of
things from party dresses to school dresses
to nightgowns, to blouses and skirts. You
will want to make her a full petticoat, not
just a wrap-around half slip as you did for
the teen doll. Make the top of the petti-
coat using your basic dress pattern, only
cut out the sleeves. Make it come to
the waist, and then put a gathered skirt
on it.
Purses are made by cutting two squares
of plastic or oilcloth and stitching around
three sides and making a handle so the
doll can carry it.
cJhe ibnchanted (clothesline L^hrtstmas
Alice M. Graves
THIS was to be the best Christmas ever. As newcomers to Kemmerer, we had lived
all summer in a tent in a meadow on the Hams Fork River, and now we had
moved into a house. Not much of a house, to be sure, but it had a large kitchen-
living room, a small bedroom, and a real floor. Not only all this, but Grandpa and
Grandma Morris were to spend Christmas day with us, and to have a turkey roasted by
Grandma and to anticipate one of her plum puddings were really something!
It seemed that Christmas Eve would never come, but it did, and four little tots
begged to go to bed long before dark. But supper dishes must be washed and placed
neatly in the cupboard before the big folding bed could be let down in the kitchen.
Finally, we were tucked in for the night, four little shining faces, side by side in the
big bed.
We had no official Christmas tree, but from our bed we could see our clothesline
tree, about seven feet up in the air, stretched clear across the room. Near one end
hung four stockings, the largest ones we could find.
We felt too excited to sleep, but after what seemed an eternity, one by one we
drifted off to the land of dreams, while the coal-oil lamp, with its wick turned low,
dimly burned on the table.
Before daylight we were wide awake, sitting up in bed and gazing in awe at the
enchanted clothesline, for bright-colored, sparkling gifts hung from it, all along like
Mama's wash on Monday. Luke guessed the train was for him; Mary knew a certain
doll must be hers; Orson chose a dozen gifts that he would like; there were toys that
I hoped were for me. What fun we had naming each new toy we saw, and guessing
which gifts were ours.
We knew we must wait till Father built a fire in the big range, for it would never
do to get out of bed on a winter morning in Wyoming until the room was warm.
But, at last, we were up and dressed, and Father had cut down each child's gifts from
the line, and we were happy as larks; no one envied anyone else. Santa had known
just what gifts each little boy and girl liked best of all.
More than fifty-five Christmases have come and gone since then, but not one
has been so engraved on my mind, or tugged at my heartstrings as did that sweet,
humble Christmas with its enchanted clothesline Christmas tree, in that little frame
shack in Wyoming.
■ ♦
m
emottes
Zara Sabin
Life is a looking forward,
But somewhere along the way
We suddenly find that we look back —
It may happen any day.
And we learn to our joy or sorrow,
In happiness or tears,
That we have been making memories
All through the years!
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1 1 Ltj cJ/iird (grandma
Part IV — Nandi
Ilene H. Kingsbury
OUR air machine cruised with
a quiet throbbing of multiple
engines at the height of
20,000 feet above the South Pacific.
It was five in the morning and even
as far "down under" the earth as
we were, the same soft light covered
the clouds and the atmosphere as
it does at home in the Southwest of
North America. Through the win-
dow we stretched our gaze to see
whether the waters of the deep were
still below, or whether our pilot had
at last decided to ignore the earth's
pull and try an astral exploration on
his own.
At that moment the stewardess
made her good morning salutation.
But who cared at that unearthlv
hour, we said to ourselves! She
went on to caution us to fasten our
seat belts, for wc would land shortly
in Nandi. As I said, the early hour
and the clouds below created an un-
believable atmosphere. I responded
by saying, out loud, 'But that's the
name of Grandma Morgan's cow!"
Odd that I hadn't remembered this
when we received our itinerary for
a flight to New Zealand, that spring
of 1958, and had read that Fiji was
one of our landings, and at Nandi
International Airport, at that. But
here we were rapidly losing altitude.
Even now there was not a trace of
the seas below us, let alone that
minute piece of earth that scarcely
merited a place on the map. Pray
that the pilot had read page 34 of
his manual and could find it. Pray
that Nandi was really there and
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hadn't existed just because Grand-
ma once had a cow by that name.
All that day on Fiji I lived in two
worlds. One was that of Grandma
Morgan's era in the last century.
The other was the most modern
present with highways and a taxi
journey of eighty miles to a coral
beach. There, under leaning palm
shade, we watched natives scoop out
from a sandy oven, dug deep, a feast
of fish, each tasty bit woven into
marvels of palm frond basketry.
Two races live on Fiji. The first
race consists of the natives of Fiji,
each person with a bushel basket of
kinkv hair trained with brooms and
wet lime to stand up and out from
the head. The second is an import-
ed population of malcontents from
India. No feature of eye or skin or
hair of the East Indians even slightly
resembles those of their hosts. The
Indians are to be seen on lonely
roads or bunched in the shade of
trading centers in the frequent vil-
lages, although they are said to out-
number the Fijians at present. The
men from India wear turbans wound
in ceremonial pattern. The women
cling to Mother India's style of the
long, flowing outer garments and the
draped sari of exquisite workman-
ship. They arc never for a moment
to be confused with the other race
with whom they have lived for gen-
erations.
The tortuous road over Fiji fol-
lowed every up and down elevation
of the island, which is the top of a
mountain range that crawls the bot-
MY THIRD GRANDMA
833
torn of the Pacific. After a clay of
feasting and swimming in a paradise
called Corolavu Bay, we careened
back to Nandi.
I kept thinking of my grand-
ma and hoped to see her counter-
part now that I did not have to go
to Calcutta to find her. But the
women were retiring. Only one
daughter of India could be found.
Beside a road she waited. Her coral
sari was folded over her dark, straight
hair, billows of silk followed the
contour of her shoulder, a Grecian
fold of it fell to her sandals. In her
arms she held a child, all eyes,
limpid as a well. At her side, or
rather sidling behind her mother,
was a replica of what Grandma
Morgan must have been when she
gracefully fanned her mistress in the
southern India garden over a hun-
dred years ago.
Grandma's old white cow, of the
Southern Utah community, kept
coming to mind. I remembered that
she had always insisted that it was
Nandi and not Mandy, and we had
sort of indulged her in the spelling
and the pronunciation. Now I
found out that she had been right
all of the time. The ancient wor-
ship in India of the white bull called
Nandi is memorialized in this mod-
ern airstrip in Fiji. As these people
adventured the ocean through the
down under part of the world, they
took with them their culture and
left place names to remind them of
their heritage. Nandi, the guardian
of all quadrupeds, lives forever!
Dear little, old, generous Third
Grandma and her cow called Nandi!
She brought a culture to the valleys
of the mountains the like of which,
and the source of which could never
have been dreamed up by the most
fanciful fiction writer.
I was homesick in Nandi!
uLt winters fea<
ge
Dorothy J. Roberts
I felt there was no beauty left;
The snow lay tattered on the ground.
Then far above the winter's wane
I found one alabaster mound
As flawless as a dome of pearl.
No stem of mallow marred its face;
Only a single lavaliere
Of doe-tracks twined around its base.
There, circled by a ring of trees,
Whose wakening stems wore saffron dye,
I let my hunger take its fill
Against the opal of the sky.
Orchids in the Snow
Chapter 8 (Conclusion)
Rosa Lee Lloyd
N
EWS of the wedding scurried
around the village like a
rollicking breeze. McFarland
had explained to Jewel before their
departure, that everyone should
know about the event and be in-
cluded in the preparations for the
reception. That was the way thev
lived in Bristol. They enjoyed each
other's happiness and shared each
other's sorrows.
Gifts of skins of bear, wolf, and
seal, and treasured bits of gold and
rock came from Eskimos, Indians,
Aleuts, and white people. A hunter
from the tundra brought antlers that
were too wide to be brought inside.
so Sam fastened them to the top of
the porch.
"Thev can almost see them from
the landing strip," Marie said, as
she and Sharrv watched Sam. "Jewel
and Daddy will be married tomor-
row. Thev should be back the next
day. Hi, Mama Sue and Uncle
Merman, look at the antlers. Aren't
they the grandest ever? He must
have been king of the herd!"
Susan and Herman were walking
up the path. They smiled and
nodded.
"The grandest!" Herman repeat-
ed.
Each day the walk over from the
house next door was more difficult
for Herman, but he always made
the effort to come. He enjoyed the
music and gaiety and long talks
with Sam about Alaska. Today
Susan was carrying a package as
though it was something precious.
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"This is for Jewel," she said to
Sharrv and Marie, as they followed
her inside. "We must work quickly
to be ready for the reception."
"Trust Mama Sue," Marie said,
kissing Susan's cheek as she opened
the package, displaying a large, vel-
vety white doeskin.
"Jewel's dress," Susan said. "Mc-
Farland will want her dressed this
way. I have one more I am saving
for Swenson's bride— if he marries
in Bristol. This is the only place
I know where it is appreciated."
"How lovely!" Sharrv exclaimed.
"I'm sure Aunt Jewel will appreciate
it."
"We'll make it princess style,"
Susan told them. "You girls can
sew seams while I bead it. Each
seam must be done by hand, just
so. Come, let's get busy."
Susan spread the skin on the din-
ing-room table and cut the leather
with a razor blade. She showed
Sharry and Marie how every stitch
must be done exactly right so they
would hold. It was a tedious job,
but the girls were happy doing it.
pVERYONE was up at six
o'clock on the morning of the
reception, to meet McFarland's
plane. He had radioed that they
would arrive about seven o'clock.
Marie drove sled, and even Her-
man, bundled up in a big fur parka,
went to the airstrip to meet them.
Many of the villagers were there,
although no one knew who had told
ORCHIDS IN THE SNOW
835
them what time the plane would
arrive.
McFarland, his face beaming hap-
piness, walked down the stair-lift
first, then reached for Jewel, who
was so rosy beautiful she seemed to
light up the turquoise darkness.
A little Eskimo boy, not over six
years old, pushed his way through
the crowd with a white husky puppy
for Jewel. She accepted it smilingly,
her hand resting a moment on its
head.
pXCITEMENT was in the air.
Everyone laughed and talked
until McFarland finally persuaded
the villagers to go home until time
for the wedding reception.
Jewel stood in front of the fire-
place cuddling the puppy, but her
eyes were troubled.
"It's his special prize puppy," she
protested to McFarland. "He told
me so. How can I take a little boy's
puppy away from him? I must give
it back to Joey."
McFarland's eyes sobered as he
looked down at her.
"No," he said, "you shouldn't give
it back to him. Don't you realize
it made him feel like a king to give
it to you? We can pay him back in
a dozen ways, Jewel, but I wouldn't
let you refuse that gift for an ocean
full of salmon!"
"McFarland is right, Jewel,"
Herman offered gently. "Who was
the poet who said that the only
things we ever keep are the things
we give away? That's the way it
will be with Joey. Every time he
sees you with that puppy he'll get
a happy feeling all over again."
Jewel was silent as she cuddled
the white, furry puppy. Sharry,
watching her, was lonely for little
Nuzzle. She remembered how he
had chosen her for his very own the
first time he had seen her.
"What will you name him, Aunt
Jewel?" she questioned.
Jewel shook her head. "I'll have
to think about it," she said.
"He's a bouncy little guy," Mc-
Farland said. "Look at that happy
little face. He seems full of
chuckles."
JEWEL'S face was a sunburst.
■ "That's it!" she laughed. "We'll
name him Chuckles. That just suits
him, the cute little thing."
"The cute little thing needs a
bath," Susan said in her practical
way. "There will be enough hot
water for him after we have all had
our showers and shampooed our
hair. This is a big day — we must
get busy before anyone comes. Time
goes so fast."
Buckets of snow had been melted
the night before for baths and
shampoos. Susan dropped some
blackberry juice into the rinse water
for her hair.
"Won't it be sticky?" Sharry
questioned.
"I don't use that much," Susan
answered. "I've kept my hair black
this way."
"I wish I had some magic that
would cure my freckles," Marie
pouted.
"We love your freckles," Jewel
said. "They are little dabs of pure
gold. You wouldn't be you without
them."
McFarland brought out a white
shirt and tie for Sam to wear. "I
only use these when I'm in the city,"
he said. "But the girls have made
this a big show so we'll ride along,,
too. I heard that all the villagers
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arc wearing bright woolen scarfs.
Seems that Susan has been around."
After the showers and the sham-
poos, Susan scrubbed little Chuck-
les until he was a white furry ball.
Then McFarland looked at his
wrist watch.
"Well, Sam, we'll just have time
to dress and eat a bite before we
meet the plane bringing some special
guests."
Sam stood up and put the book
he had been reading on the table.
He stretched his arms above his
head lazily.
"I've had a good rest up here," he
said. "It's been a real vacation for
us. I'm sorry we have to take the
regular plane home during the re-
ception. But I'm due back at school
tomorrow!"
"So am I!" Marie said suddenly.
"But I'm not going. I want to help
Mama Sue get ready for Swen!"
Jewel's eyes were startled. She
had thought that Marie would be
with Sharry in Fairbanks. Sharry
did not want Jewel to worry about
her. Nothing must shadow her
happiness today.
McFarland, standing with his
back to the fireplace, looked at
Marie quizzically. Sharry wondered
if he knew why she was really staying
longer. His heavy brows puckered
together, thoughtfully. He didn't
want Marie to be hurt. And yet, he
believed in going after what you
wanted in life.
"What time does your plane
leave, Sharry?" Jewel asked. Her
voice was strained.
"Seven o'clock," she answered.
"Sam says we'll make good connec-
tions in Anchorage. We'll be home
by midnight."
"We should be getting ready,"
Marie said. "I'll go home with Sus-
an and dress there."
After Sam and McFarland left,
Sharry followed Jewel into the bed-
room.
"It won't take us long," she said.
"First I'll comb your hair and you
can comb mine. Aren't those white
mukluks Susan made for you too
cute for words!"
Sharry could see the snow-packed
roadway from the bedroom window
as she stood at the dressing table
combing Jewel's hair into wavy
swirls around her head.
"Your veil will fit perfectly with
your hair this way," she said.
At that moment she caught sight
of the dog-sled coming up the snowy
road. Sam was on the back rudders
driving. His head was tipped back,
and he was laughing as though it
was great sport. She had not known
Sam could drive sled. He must
have learned while he was out alone
when the girls were busy sewing.
"Who are those three men?"
Jewel asked.
"One of them is Bishop Harri-
son," Sharry answered. She didn't
mention a big square box McFar-
land carried in his arms. She was
so curious to know what was inside
she could hardly wait until the re-
ception, only a half-hour away.
JP VERYONE was ready by twelve
o'clock. Even little Chuckles.
Marie and Susan came into the
bedroom as Sharry adjusted Jewel's
veil on her shining hair.
"Beautiful!" Marie said. "The
prettiest bride in the Arctic. And
look at us! Won't Daddy be proud.
He's waiting, Jewel. You'll love to
meet Bishop Harrison. I like his
ORCHIDS IN THE SNOW
837
voice. It melts through you like
warm honey."
"Oh, you!" Susan laughed. "Marie
says everything in a fancy way.
Bishop Harrison is a fine, sincere
man."
"Listen!" Marie tipped her head.
"Hear that music! That's a surprise
for you, Jewel."
^HE music rose soft and sweet
like a birdcall. Jewel wet her lips
and a little pulse throbbed in her
throat. Sharry hoped she wouldn't
cry.
"My Dad had those musicians
come from Anchorage. One plays
a violin and the other a viola. Aren't
they perfect together? He wanted
the very sweetest for you."
"He thinks — of everything,"
Jewel murmured in a low voice.
"There!" Sharry said as she
smoothed a little wave under Jewel's
veil. "Perfect."
"Like a white angel," Susan said
softly.
"Come on, angel," Marie called,
opening the door. "They're playing
the bride song!"
Sam was at the door. Jewel put
her hand on his arm and they
walked together to the fireplace
where McFarland was waiting.
Sharry had never seen him dressed
in a white shirt and black tie before.
He looked very handsome. He
handed Jewel a huge, tissue-wrapped
package. There was a breathless
silence as she untied the ribbon and
removed the paper from an exqui-
site cluster of the most beautiful
orchids Sharry had ever seen —
white, pink, and gold. Orchids for
Aunt Jewel!
Sharry bent her head. A little
sob broke in her throat, as she re-
membered what Rachel Jensen had
told her about the kind of woman
who can find orchids in the snow.
Dear, capable, wonderful Aunt
Jewel was that kind of woman. She
had earned those orchids — she was
worthy of every one of them, and
McFarland knew it. Love and ap-
preciation were glowing in his dark
eyes as he looked at her, they were
in his deep voice as he greeted the
guests and introduced them to
Jewel.
Sharry turned her head to meet
Sam's searching eyes. He must be
remembering their own wedding
last June, she thought. Her heart
reached out to him, loving him,
wanting to help him. Sam smiled,
but his eyes were strangely troubled
as they clung to hers.
After the bride song, the music
was gay and informal. A young na-
tive boy appeared with a mouth-
organ and McFarland had him play
it.
"This is the kind of wedding
where bridesmaids do double duty,"
Marie told her, laughing. "Now
we're the serving maids. Look at the
food coming in!"
Villagers appeared with great
round platters loaded with hot bread
and salmon cooked every way imag-
inable. Susan had brought a large
roast of reindeer and a steaming
kettle of beans. Hot ginger punch
was served from a tin bowl as big
as a tub.
"Plenty of tin in Alaska," Sam
whispered to Sharry. "Looks as if
they used a good share of it for
that bowl!"
Everyone talked and ate and
stayed on and on. They had expect-
ed a party and they meant to enjoy
it.
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McFarland basked in their approv-
al. This was his land, these were
his people, and he wanted them to
be happy.
It was soon time for Sharry to
change her clothes for the trip
home. Marie went to the bedroom
with her. They were both silent as
Sharry dressed in her long, woolen
trousers and heavy sweater.
"I'll miss you, Marie," she said.
"Don't say goodbye," Marie an-
swered. "We'll see each other
often, no matter what the distance
is. Long rides don't mean a thing
in Alaska. We don't let storm or
darkness or anything else keep us
from going where we want to go.
We take everything in a big stride."
"I know," Sharry said. 'Tm
beginning to realize that. I have
learned a lot, Marie."
Marie's eves were blue candles in
her freckled face.
"I think you're a real pal," she
said. "You can stride along with
the best of them. Now, we better
get going. I'll drive you and Sam
to the plane."
Thev slipped out the back way
as they didn't want to interrupt the
festivities or say goodbye. Music
and laughter followed them down
the hill and along the trail to the
airfield. Marie was a good driver.
The dogs obeyed her calls. But she
drove faster than McFarland or Sam
had done, and Sharry had to cover
her face against the icy sleet.
"Whew!" Sam said when they
stopped.
"You know the dogs, Marie. That
was some driving!"
"Guess I'm excited," she said.
"I didn't mean to go so fast."
Sharry put her arm around her.
"Take it easy," she coaxed. "I hope
everything works out the way vou
want it to, Marie."
"So do I," Sam added, sincerely.
"I have to stay," she confided, her
voice tightening. "Once he said he
would wait until I grew up. Tm
grown up now — I hope. I'm
twenty-one."
Sam patted her shoulder. "You're
one of the most grown-up little girls
I've ever known. Good luck, Marie."
She turned the dogs quickly and
hurried awav. Thev could hear her
voice calling to the dogs as she dis-
appeared in the frosty twilight.
Sharry and Sam boarded the
plane in a strained silence. They
were the only passengers.
"We have it all to ourselves,"
Sam said, looking around at the
empty seats.
Sharry forced a smile. She was
determined to be happy and make
Sam happy.
"I like it this way," she said. "You
and I alone for a change. There's
been so much excitement we've
hardly seen each other."
Exactly on time the plane taxied
down the field, lifted easily and
sailed off into the blue darkness.
CAM tucked a warm blanket
around Sharry. His lips were
smiling, but his chin had squared off
determinedly. She knew he had
made up his mind about something.
She waited for him to speak.
He leaned back in the seat beside
her. "I've been thinking," he said
at last. "You'll miss Jewel and
Marie. Fairbanks will be mighty
lonely for you without them. How
would vou like to fly home to Salt
Lake City for a good visit?"
The words tumbled out in a
ORCHIDS IN THE SNOW
839
breathless rush as though he had
to get them over with.
Sharry closed her eyes. Her heart
was a dull ache inside of her. So
this was what he had planned. He
wanted her to go home to her
mother!
"If you want to stay there/' he
went on, "I'll come to you in the
spring before it's time for our baby
— I'll get a job there. . . "
Silence was a heartthrob between
them. Sharry couldn't breathe. Sam
thought she was the kind of woman
who couldn't live in Alaska. He
was willing to give up everything he
had worked for to take her home
again!
With a little sob she put her arms
around him and pressed her head
against his breast.
"Oh, darling!" she whispered.
"Home is wherever you are and
always will be. Home is where
we've worked together, where we've
built together. Right here in Alas-
ka. I wouldn't think of going away!"
His arms went around her fierce-
"Do you really mean it?" he
whispered back.
"Oh, I do, Sam. I really do," she
repeated with a song in her voice.
"Let's buv the Gilmore house. Aunt
Jewel says she'll lend us the money.
We can have all the folks to our
house for a visit. We'll have such
nice neighbors, Rachel and Oscar
and Mary Billings. And we'll build
a new doghouse for Nuzzle!"
Sam's arms tightened around her.
A long sigh of relief went through
him as he bent his head against hers.
"My wife," he said, softly.
"I want our baby to be born right
here in Alaska," Sharry went on
gaily. "After all, this is the United
States, Mr. Wynter. If it's a boy, he
could be President."
Sam tossed his head back, laugh-
ing in his old, carefree way. Dreams
were in his eyes again.
"You're right, Mrs. Wynter," he
said. "He could be President. A
red-headed Alaskan for President!"
What Would 3 O)o?
Bertha A. Kleinman
If years could turn back for me, many or few,
Granting me grace of a decade or two,
Memories and heartache again to live through,
Mine for the asking — oh, what would I do?
What from the yesterdays would I retrieve —
Time I have squandered while others achieve,
Favors witheld that were meant to bequeath —
What would I do with a granted reprieve?
Loved ones who trusted me, neighbor and friend-
Slighted and hurt in the day's busy trend —
Had I the bounty to spare and expend —
How would they answer to such an amend?
Time knows no back-step, and years do not bide,
Yesterday drowns on the outgoing tide,
Only today is my own to deride
Or challenge the morrow repentant and tried.
N DEPARTMENT
cJheology — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 30— The Past, Present, and Future
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants: Section 45:1-42)
For Tuesday, March 7, 1961
Objective: To learn some reasons why obedience to the Lord's will is necessary,
and of the need of being aware of the signs in preparation for the Lord's second coming.
suggests
The Prophet mid His People
The title of this lesson
the functions of a prophet of God.
Although there are many responsi-
bilities belonging to a prophet in
furthering the kingdom of God
upon the earth, onc_aQIie principal
functio_ns_J^_to__recci.\:e revelation
for the guidance of the Church. The
revelation thus received may refer to
the past, as an example, or illustra-
tion for present and fiujjxe_jobedi-
encc on the part of the saints, or to
clarify the scriptures previously
given.
A prophet thus uses the revela-
tions of other prophets in his under-
standing of the purposes of the
Lord. Another purpose of the reve-
lations received by a living prophet
is to give_admonitions, wajjungs^
and adviegto the peoplcTof his own
generation. In other words, by the
spirit of prophecy, a prophet is em-
powered to interpret present-day
cojiditions for tlie^peopje! He enjoys
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the pnyilegeof foreseeing future
ejk^IXt^ astheTLord willslt^ that the
saints may be adequately warned
against calamities of the_fiiture. The
Lord's Preface to The Doctrine and
Covenants definitely states that the
revelations in that book of scripture
are to constitute a voice of warning.
The Prophet Joseph Smith was
called by the Lord, among other
reasons, fojlthej^iuj^oseof receiving
revelations becauseoF the judgments
to come__in__the latter days.. (See
D & C, "SectioiTiO"
Historical Background
At the time Section 45 was re-
ceived by Joseph Smith, many ef-
forts were made by the adversary
to destroy the effectiveness of the
Church.
At this age of the Church [i e., early
in the spring of 1831] many false reports,
lies, and foolish stories, were published in
the newspapers, and circulated in every
direction, to prevent people from investi-
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841
gating the work, or embracing the faith.
A great earthquake in China, which de-
stroyed from one to two thousand inhab-
itants, was burlesqued in some papers, as
"Mormonism in China." But to the joy
of the Saints who had to struggle against
every thing that prejudice and wickedness
could invent, I received the following:
[D & C Section 45] (D.H.C. 1:158).
Obedience— Why?
Not all of the Lord's instructions
nor the reasons for his giving com-
mandments are given in one revela-
tion. In Section 45, however, sev-
eral reasons are mentioned for strict
obedience to his will. The revelation
begins with the fact stated, as one
of these reasons, that the kingdom
of God has been given to his people
(D & C 45:1). Possession of the
kingdom by the saints is the same
as the attainment of salvation upon
their part, but this blessing is only
for those who are obedient. Because
salvation is the greatest __blessixig
obtalijabTe" to a child ofGod, the
necessity for full obedience is ap-
parent.
Why should one be obedient?
Jesus Christ is the Creator of our
earth, as well as of other worlds.
He is supreme and by his power we
are able to receive the benefits of an
earth-life with its environment so
ordered that we may live under a
reign of law.
Is there anyone who is assured
that he will be alive on the mor-
row? Death comes to all men, but
when? In the words of the Savior
"... hearken unto my voice, lest
death_shall Qygrtafe vQU; m an hour
wliejyetlnnk noPthe summer_sliall
be past, and the harvest ended, and
yowjouls^iot^ & C 45:2).
Npw_js_the day for repentance.
Ifman fully nndprstnnr1th"V snf-
ferings of Christ (yylio_is_our Advo-
cate with the Father), as he made
the_ atonement for us. man \youTcT
"Tie fully determined to obey all of
the Lord's commands. So intense
wasThe suffering of Christ that he
sweat drops of blood from his pores.
(See D & C 19:15-17.) It isonly_
through Jesus Christ that man may
receive individual salvation; conse-
quently, he reminds the saints of
latter days that his prayer to the
Father is in behalf of them. (Read
D& 0-45:4-5.)
As Christ was obedient in glorify-
ing the Father, so, also, may we
glorify the Fatlier and _th£_ Sonjby
our receiving through obedience the
greatest blessing of_ eternal life.
Everything the_ Father and the Son
do^ls tor our^lessing. One may
well exclaim : rrOhow great the
goodness of our God. . . . O how
great the plan of our God . . ."
(2 Nephi 9:10, 13). Therefore,
hearken ". . . today, and harden not
your hearts" (D & C 45:6). He
who hardens his heart by diso-
bedience is in darkness. "The Lord
Is My Light" sing his people, for
Jesus is ". . . the light and the life
of the world — a light that shineth
in darkness and the darkness com-
prehendeth it not" (D & C 4^:7).
There follows in this revelation
another reminder for the necessity
of obedience — the Jewish__people
as a nation arujenjj^chrl not rereivp
tli^iFMessiah who was one of their
own. This example from the past
poses the thought:
. . . Let it not be said a second time,
that Christ has come to "His own/' even
to His Church in this dispensation, but
"His own" refused to hearken to Him
(Doctrine and Covenants Commentary,
page 254).
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Obedience, a Challenge
In verses eleven through fourteen
of Section 45, there is recounted an
event of the past which the Lord
savs could be duplicated in this dis-
pensation by the full obedience of
his people.
Among the points which are
brought to the reader's attention by
these verses, we may think ( 1 ) veri-
fication from the Lord in this mod-
ern revelation of the historical fact
that Enoch was an actual person
mentioned in the Bible (Genesis
5:24); (2) the actual separation of
the city of Enoch and its inhabitants
from the earth; (3) the promise
that the city of Enoch will return
to the earth in a day of righteous-
ness, the millennium. (In refer-
ence to Enoch's dispensation and
the great events made known to him
by revelation, consult Moses, chap-
ter 7.)
The challenge to the saints of
God today is so to live that, if alive
on the earth when the millennium
begins, they will as inhabitants of
Zion, the New Jerusalem, be pre-
pared to meet the people of Enoch's
city when it returns to the earth.
(See Moses 7:62-65.) The Lord
also promises that all those in the
past who considered themselves to
be ''strangers," but were holy in
their lives, seeking for a day of
righteousness, might see that day
"in their flesh," as resurrected be-
ings to join with the saints of this
dispensation. (Cf. Moses 7:62-65.)
Will you be numbered among those
Latter-day Saints who have lived
faith full}- to warrant such a bless-
ing, whether you are in mortality at
the time or whether you have passed
away?
Purposes of the Everlasting
Covenant
In speaking of the past and the
reason for obedience to the fulness
of the gospel, the Savior makes
known the opportunitv for people
to become the sons of God and to
receive power to obtain eternal life.
(See D & C 45:8.) For this purpose
the everlasting covenant has been
established on the earth with all of
its powers and glories. (See D & C
133:57.) This covenant is the ful-
ness of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
(See D&C 66:2.)
The Lord informs us, however, of
other purposes, in fact, that there
are three other reasons for which he
has sent thegospel into the world.
These are(^Ty "J-n he ^ light tn thp
world" thafis, to show the world
tlie~way to live; /fT} "to be a stand-
ard for my peopie; and for the Gen-
tiles toseek to it" — the gospel
will always be the means of salva-
tion to those who accept it, and it
will be as an ensign to the nations
through the lives of the saints (see
D & 0^115:5; Isaiah 49:22; 62:10);
and ((3)) "to_be a messenger" in
preparing thewav before the second
coming of Christ. (See D&C
45:9-)
All of these purposes are im-
portant. When one thinks of the
mission given to the saints in pub-
lishing the glad tidings of eternal
life through the gospel, and that all
may participate in it to some ex-
tent, an enthusiasm for magnifying
one's calling should be greatly
heightened.
"I Will Reason With You"
In addition to showing forth
strong reasons to those who came
unto him (see D&C 45:10),
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843
the Lord says lie will prophesy as
he gave forth prophecy to men in
days of old. (See D & C 45:15.)
But of what shall he prophesy? Of
those things which are in the minds
of the saints today and were in the
meridian dispensation. His dis-
ciples during the Redeemer's earthly
mission asked him what would be
the sigm^oT^is_coming in_the clouds
of heaven? In verses 16 and 17 from
Section 45, notice that the Lord uses
language in the present tense as
though he were speaking directly to
his disciples of old. (See also Doc-
trine and Covenants Commentary,
page 259.)
Continuing his prophecy of
events of the meridian dispensation,
Jesus foretold to his disciples the
destruction of the temple (Cf. Mt.
24:1-2; Luke 21 123-24. Read D & C
45:18-20.)
How literally was this prophecy
fulfilled? A summary of the siege
and destruction of the temple and
the city of Jerusalem, including the
scattering of the Jews, is given in
the account of Josephus: The Wars
of the Jews, VI. (Read Doctiine
and Covenants Commentary, pp.
261-262.)
As one continues reading Section
45, it is discovered that what the
Lord declares therein is fulfilled in
the description of the desolation
given by Josephus, which came up-
on the Jews of the meridian dispen-
sation:
And it shall come to pass, that this
generation of Jews shall not pass away
until every desolation which I have told
you concerning them shall come to pass
(D & C 45:21).
Following this prophecy, Jesus
said to his disciples, according to
this revelation, that they said they
knew "that the end of the world
cometh, " meaning the destruction
of the world (Pearl of Great Price,
Joseph Smith 1:4, 31) which would
be at his second coming, and later
on the purification of the earth.
Then the assurance was given (in
D & C 45:23-24) that their knowl-
edge of these things was true, and all
of the prophecies would be fulfilled.
As indicated, the material of this
revelation, through verse 24, pertains
to the generation or dispensation of
the meridian of time, but later vers-
es in this lesson (D & C 45:25-42)
describe events of the generation in
which we live, the dispensation of
the fulness of times.
Dispensation of
the Fulness o( Times
Even as the Jews were scattered
with the destruction of Jerusalem,
so their descendants were to be
gathered in the last days. But when
would those days come? Only
after the long period of apostasy
from the Church established by the
Christ, and then the Church re-
stored to the earth in the last dis-
pensation of the gospel. This
restoration is described in D & C
45:28.
Signs oi the Times
As foreknown by the prophets,
the restoration of the gospel would
bring many great changes on the
earth. In this revelation the Lord
points out:
... in that day shall be heard of wars
and rumors of wars, and the whole earth
shall be in commotion, and men's hearts
shall fail them, and they shall say that
Christ delayeth his coming until the end
of the earth (D & C 45:26).
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Needless to state, since the return
of the gospel and the Church upon
the earth, wars and rumors of wars
have increased upon the earth.
"Christ delaveth his coming" is
another sign of this period, for men
teach that Christ will not come
until the end of the earth. (Read
the Doctrine and Covenants Com-
mentary, page 262).
As this revelation unfolds the fu-
ture for the disciples of old (and
now for us of this generation), sev-
eral signs are given in rapid suc-
cession.
"And the love of men shall wax
cold, and iniquity shall abound"
(D & C 45:27). As interpreted by
the Doctrine and Covenants Com-
mentary, page 262, this means that
because of lawlessness, the majority
of men will not have genuine
Christian love, which is true, un-
selfish, and constant.
When one thinks of present con-
ditions in reference to the latter
part of this verse — that iniquity or
wickedness shall abound — there im-
mediately comes to mind the extent
of crime and evil practices that are
present throughout the world.
Regardless of what may be said
to the effect that lawlessness has
always been present, the presence
ofjjrganized and unorganized evil in
thejvorld in the form of sex im-
morality, dishonest_piactices in busi-
ness, disrespect for human b-£JPgs
and life itself, are^idespread-today
and Thus thcy_constitule_Qne-Qi-tJ^€-
signs of the last days.
The coldness of men's hearts to
the fulness of the gospel is another
sign. With the restoration of the
gospel to the earth through the
Prophet Joseph Smith, the Lord
said that the world will ". . . receive
it not; for they perceive not the
light, and they turn their hearts
from me because of the precepts of
men" (D & C 45:29). Although
the number of converts to The
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-
day Saints is presently increasing in
the world, yet, over the time of this
dispensation, the number of mem-
bers of the true Church is very few
compared with the population of
the world. As predicted, the people
of the world will reject the gospel
message and thus bring upon them-
selves the judgment prophesied. As
people reject the Lord's plan of
salvation and wickedness continues
to abound, the time will come when
our dispensation ". . . shall see an.
overflowing scourge; for_QesiilatiUg
sickness jha]Lcoy£.r the 1anri-(JX£ C
45:31). Other prophecies in the
modern revelations reveal, in part,
the nature and the extent of such
plagues. (See D & C 29:18-19.)
Amid the difficulties of the times
when the foregoing events occur,
the Lord makes known that his
". . . disciples shall stand in holy
places, and shall not be moved; but
among the wicked, men shall lift up
their voices and curse God and
die" (D & C 45:32). The disripje
is one who is a true follower, and
as tar as this revelation is concerned,
is that individual who has accepted
Jesus Christ and has thus become a
member of his Church. These dis-
ciples will stand in the places ap-
pointed by revelation as gathering
places. (See D & C 101:16-21.)
Other signs indicating the near-
ness of the Lord's coming are deso-
lations of various kinds. Amid con-
ditions such as floods, dust storms,
hurricanes, and other commotions,
LESSON DEPARTMENT
845
in which the elements give testi-
mony of the rejection of the Lord's
servants, men will continue to
harden their hearts and will kill one
another and curse God and die.
When disciples of old indicated
concern about these various signs,
assurance was given that ". . . when
all these things shall come to pass,
ye may know that the promises
which have been made unto you
shall be fulfilled" (D & C 45:35).
By reference to the fig tree shooting
forth its leaves as a sign of summer
being at hand, so also these various
events (see D & C 45:16-33) con-
stitute signs by which the believer
will "know that the hour is nigh"
(D & C 45:38). What^ is the
h ourspokenof? It is the period
when the timeTof the Gentiles shall
be fulfilled.
"Times oi the Gentiles
Shall Be Fulfilled"
By vision, Nephi was permitted to
see the time when Jesus would man-
ifest himself to the Jews first, and
then the Gentiles would have the
opportunity to accept the fulness of
the gospel. Later, however, the
Gentiles would have this privilege
lirsFand" the_ lews last. (See I Ne-
phT 13:42. ) Tims the first should-
be last and the last shoukLbe-iifsk--
(CfTTuke 13:28-30.) As we have
seen in this lesson, the "times of the
Gentiles" are ushered in with the
restoration of the gospel in its ful-
ness. (See D & C 45:28-29.) Mo-
roni told Joseph Smith that this
time "was soon to come in" (Pearl
of Great Price, Joseph Smith 2:41).
Later in the dispensation of the
fulness of times, when Jerusalem ia»
no~longer trodden down__by__the
Gentiles^ it is to be a sign that the
times of the Gentiles are fulfilled
(D & C 45:25, 30; Luke 21:24).
This sign is to indicate the begin-
ning of the period of transition
when the Jews are to receive their
opportunity to have the gospel
taught to them.
Purpose oi the Signs oi the Times
and a Prophet's Answer
President Joseph F. Smith, sixth
President of the Church, had this
to say concerning the purposes of
these signs of the times:
There are, in the great world of man-
kind, much social and civil unrighteous-
ness, religious unfaithfulness, and great
insensibility to the majesty, power, and
purpose of our eternal Father and God.
In order, therefore, that he may bring
the sense of himself and his purposes home
to the minds of men, his intervention and
interposition in nature and in men's affairs,
are demanded. His aims will be ac-
complished even if men must be over-
whelmed with the convulsions of nature
to bring them to an understanding and
realization of his designs. As long as_conz,
ditions remain as they__are in the world,
none is exempt from thesevisitations.
The Latter-day Saints, though they
themselves tremble because of their own
wickedness and sins, believe that great
judgments are coming upon the world
because of iniquity; they firmly believe in
the statements of the Holy Scriptures, that
"calamities will befall the nations as signs
of the coming of Christ to judgment. They
believe that God rules in the fire, the
earthquake, the tidal wave, the volcanic
eruption, and the storm. Him they rec-
ognize as the Master and Ruler of nature
and her laws, and freely acknowledge his
hand in all things. We believe that his
judgments are poured out to bring man-
kind to a sense of his power and his pur-
poses, that they may repent of their sins
and prepare themselves for the second com-
ing of Christ to reign in righteousness up-
on the earth (Gospe] Doctrine , Ninth
Edition, pp. 54-55).
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Questions for Discussion
i. What arc the functions of a prophet?
2. Win should a Latter-dav Saint be
obedient to the Lord's will?
3. Win would you think the challenge
to be obedient in this dispensation is as
great as in other dispensations of the
gospel?
4. What are some of the "signs of the
times" that arc found in this lesson? Give
some evidence of the fulfillment of some
of these signs.
5. As stated by President Smith, what
do the Latter-day Saints believe about the
judgments of the last days?
Vtstting cJ cache r 1 1 Lcssagcs —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 30— ". . . Ye Must Grow in Grace and in the Knowledge
of the Truth" (D & C 50:40)
Christine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, March 7, 1961
Objective: The gospel is a plan of salvation through progress. Only by growth
in grace and truth can we move toward eternal life.
M
ANY of us have been impressed
with the fact that returned
missionaries, in their homecoming
talks, invariably state their convic-
tions that the period spent in their
missionary labors was the happiest
in their lives. Undoubtedlv, a sig-
nificant reason for this sense of hap-
piness is because, during the period
of their missionary work, they have
been engaged exclusively in helping
others and in serving the Lord. An-
other important reason, however, is
due to the fact that the period of
a missionarv's experience is usually
a concentrated time of growth
". . . in grace and in the knowledge
of the truth."
It is a fact, all too often not fully
realized, that happiness and growth
in knowledge of truth are closely
interrelated. If we grow in useful
knowledge, we develop our person-
alities and abilities and move for-
ward toward the goal Jesus set for
us when he said, "Be ye therefore
perfect, even as your Father which
is in heaven is perfect" (Mt. 5:48).
It is this type of progress which is
the essence of genuine happiness
and joy.
A divine example of the process
of growth in grace and truth is that
through which the Savior progressed.
The scriptures tell us that, ". . . the
child grew, and waxed strong in
spirit, filled with wisdom: and the
grace of God was upon him" (Luke
2:40). When he was a boy of
twelve his parents found him in the
temple conversing with the wise
men and astonishing them with his
understanding and knowledge. All
that the scriptures tell us about him
from this time until the beginning
of his ministry, at approximately
thirty vears of age, is that he ". . . in-
creased in wisdom and stature, and
in favour with God and man"
(Luke 2:52).
Jesus himself having grown in
grace and truth, has set the example
for all of us. Through his own ex-
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847
perience he knows the great po-
tentialities for joy and satisfaction
that lie within the reach of all of
us, if we will make the effort to
expand our knowledge of the truth,
and he has given us the command-
ment that we ". . . must grow in
grace and in the knowledge of the
truth:'
In the same section of The Doc-
trine and Covenants, the Lord
promises all of us that, if we will
seek after light and continue in
God, we will receive more light
which will grow ". . . brighter and
brighter until the perfect day." (See
D & C 50:24.)
Growth in truth and knowledge
seems based on the same principle
as growth in physical strength and
power. We all know that if we
allow a muscle to remain idle, it
soon becomes weak and useless. On
the other hand, exercise builds and
develops strength. It is an abso-
lute truism that the more knowledge
of truth we acquire the greater will
be our capacity to grasp more and
greater truth. Furthermore, it is a
significant fact that the acquisition
of one truth opens the door to
others.
Growth in truth and knowledge
is a flowering process. As we travel
up the road of knowledge, count-
less new paths open up to our vision,
making our journey more and more
interesting, beautiful, and challeng-
ing, fames Russell Lowell wrote,
'They must upward still, and on-
ward, who would keep abreast of
Truth" (The Present Crisis).
Jesus said, "Blessed are they which
do hunger and thirst after righteous-
ness: for they shall be filled" (Mt.
5:6). He also urged us over and
over again to seek after knowledge,
promising that, if we did so, doors
would be opened unto us and we
would be blessed with understand-
ing and wisdom.
Regardless of how much we may
think we know about truth really,
our cup is never full. We must
never stop learning if we would stay
young and virile in mind and spirit.
We must seek constantly to grow.
If we do so, the Lord has promised
that he will feed us from his ever-
flowing fountain of truth.
1 lew (bertal JLove Us (bnough to [Begin ta ^fanuaryi
A NEW serial, "Love Is Enough," by Mabel S. Harmer, will begin in
the January issue of The Relief Society Magazine. The story vividly
portrays the joys and problems of Geniel Whitworth, a schoolteacher in
Blayney, Idaho, who finds her ideals and ambitions changed by new
friends, and new situations which alter the course of her life.
Work ITleetlng— Caring for the Sick in the Home
(A Course Expected to Be Used by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Lesson 6 — Elimination of Body Wastes
Maria Johnson
For Tuesday, March 14, 1961
Objective:
1. To help us recognize the importance of the elimination of body wastes.
2. To make us alert to our responsibility in meeting the sick person's need for
the elimination of body wastes.
/^\UR body must not only have food to nourish it, but it must get rid
of waste products which the body cannot use. Elimination is a
natural and important function of the body. In health, each individual
attends to such needs for herself; in sickness she may need help. The
bedpan, urinal, or enema may become a necessary part of the care. When*
ever such care is needed by the patient, it is given bv the one caring for
the sick without comment or embarrassment. She accepts this responsi-
bilitv in the same spirit that a mother meets the needs of her baby.
A. Giving and Removing a Bedpan
Equipment:
Bedpan
Bedpan cover
Protective sheet or pad
Important Steps
1. Turn back bedclothing at side.
2. Place protective pad under hips.
3. Put bedpan beside patient.
4. Have patient draw up her knees. Put
one hand under her hips. As pa-
tient lifts up, slip bedpan under her
with your other hand. Adjust it,
replace cover or
If patient is very large or cannot
raise her hips, it may be easier to
have her turn on her side and then
place the pan tightly against the but-
tocks as she rolls back on the pan.
5. Put toilet paper where patient can
reach it.
6. To remove pan, place hand under
hips and have patient bend knees
and lift.
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Basin of warm water
Soap, towel, and washcloth
Toilet paper.
Kev Points
Do not expose patient.
This may be newspapers or a small
waterproof sheet.
Closed end toward head of bed. Pad
may be placed over closed end if pa-
tient is thin, as skin over spine is easily
irritated.
With bent knees the patient can
lift with you. Be sure the pan is in
the proper position. Upper end of pan
should support the buttocks.
When possible have two people, one
to hold the pan and one to roll the
patient.
Unless patient is very ill or weak
leave her alone. She will be more re-
laxed.
Be sure patient is clean and dry.
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7. If patient is unable to clean herself, Always wipe toward the patient's
you do it for her. back to avoid carrying soiled material
to the vagina or bladder opening —
feces always contain bacteria.
8. Place basin, soap, and towel where After urinating, measure urine if
patient can wash her hands. doctor wants record of amount.
9. Observe contents before emptying
pan. Save for doctor to see, if there
is anything unusual.
To Clean a Bedpan:
Rinse first with cold water. Use toilet paper to remove particles that stick to the
pan, wash in hot, soapy water, rinse, and dry.
B. Use of the Commode
Many patients use the bedpan with difficulty. It can be uncomfortable and the
position unsatisfactory for good elimination. Today, most patients, not acutely ill, are
permitted to use the commode if they cannot go to the bathroom. A commode can
be rented, bought, or one improvised at home. Put an oval opening in the wooden seat of
a chair or remove a cane seat. Cut an appropriate-sized hole in a lA -inch plywood board,
sand well, and attach it to chair, or use regular toilet seat and lid over the opening.
Place a pail on the floor under the opening. A stool under the pail will bring the pail
up close to the opening. The pail should be cleaned after each use as a bedpan. If
the commode is to be kept in the sick room, cover the seat and make a skirt of inter-
esting material to go around the chair.
C. Intake and Output
By the expression "intake and output" we mean the fluid taken into the body
and the urine passed during a given period of time.
The balance between the fluid we take in and the amount we give off is important
in the normal functioning of the body. The body can get along without food for some
time, but it must have fluid. If the patient is drinking very little fluid, or more than
usual, the doctor may ask you to measure the amount of fluid the patient drinks and
the urine she passes. Keep a record of the time and amount, so the doctor will know.
An improvised measure can be made by putting a strip of adhesive tape lengthwise
on a quart bottle. Then pour water into the bottle, one ounce at a time, and mark the
tape.
ENEMAS
Enemas are of two general types, those to be expelled, such as the
cleansing enema, and those to be retained, such as the oil or medicated
enema.
Giving an enema means introducing fluid into the rectum and colon.
The cleansing enema is given to soften the feces and stimulate the bowel
to empty. The solutions most commonly used are a mild soap solution,
plain water, or a saline solution which is made by adding one teaspoonful
of salt to one pint of water. For the soap solution use only a mild white
soap and in a weak solution. A strong soap or heavy solution is irritating
to the colon. The best way to make a soap jelly is to cut small pieces of
soap, add a little water, and heat until the soap dissolves. Use about a
teaspoonful of the jelly to a pint of warm water. A solution can also be
made by agitating the soap in the water until it has a milky appearance.
In this case all bubbles and foam must be removed before the solution
is used. Disposable enema packets are now available and are being used
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extensively in hospitals. They come complete. No added equipment
is needed. They are effective and are simple to use. The directions for
using these come with each packet.
To Give a Cleansing Enema
You will need a basin or tray on which to carry the equipment to the bedside.
Equipment Needed:
1. A rubber enema bag, an irrigating can or a funnel, and pitcher.
2. The solution to be used — i pint to i quart for an adult, i cup to l pint for a
child.
3. Rubber tubing, 18 to 25 inches long to attach to the can or funnel.
4. A rubber catheter or rectal tube. These come in various sizes. For an adult use
a catheter or rectal tube size 18-24. For a child use a catheter size 14-18. For an
infant use a catheter size 10-14.
5. A glass connecting tube to attach the catheter to the tubing and a clamp to con-
trol the flow of the solution.
6. A lubricant on a piece of toilet paper. Never take the container of lubricant to
the bedside.
7. Toilet paper, newspapers to protect the bed, and also one to put the rectal tube
in when it is removed.
8. Bedpan and bath blanket.
Procedure:
Assemble all equipment and bring to bedside. The solution should be warm,
not hot.
For best results have patient turn on left side. If she is not comfortable on her
side, she may be on her back.
Put bath blanket over the patient and bring the covers to the foot of bed. This
will keep odors from penetrating the covers.
Place the newspaper under the patient to protect the bed, and put the bedpan
on the bed by the buttocks.
5. Lubricate the catheter with the lubricant on the toilet paper.
6. Open the clamp and let a little of the solution run through the tubing into the
bedpan. Close the clamp.
7. Lift the upper buttock and insert the rectal tube into anus. Explain to the patient
what you are doing. Insert gently for 4 inches if an adult — 3 inches if a child.
8. Open the clamp and hold the can or funnel not more than 18 inches above the
mattress. A standard is not needed. We have learned that holding the can high
results in too much pressure.
9. If the patient feels she cannot retain the solution, stop the flow momentarily by
pinching the tubing, then resume the flow gradually.
10. Close the clamp while the tube is still filled with solution. This prevents intro-
ducing air into the bowel.
11. Remove the rectal tube, detach and wrap in the newspaper so as not to contami-
nate or soil other equipment.
12. Put the patient on the bedpan. Best results come when the solution is retained
five or ten minutes. The urge to expel the solution can often be controlled by
pressing a few sheets of toilet paper against the anus.
13. Clean all equipment with soap and water. The rectal tube should first be rinsed
with cool water, then washed in soap and water, and then boiled for five minutes.
14. After the bedpan is removed, wash the patient's hands, make her comfortable,
and air the room.
LESSON DEPARTMENT 851
When Giving Enemas to Children :
The Infant:
Place the baby on a pillow with waterproof cover so that the buttocks are over the
bedpan. The fluid must be given in small amounts because the infant will expel it
almost as soon as it is introduced. Placing the child on the lap, over a rubber sheet
with the buttocks by the open toilet, is helpful procedure in the home.
The Toddler:
Toddlers must be placed on the bedpan at the beginning of the treatment as they
are unable to retain the fluid any length of time.
The Older Child:
Same as adult.
For the child who is not ill, some mothers like to place a pad on the bathroom floor
by the toilet and let the child get down on all fours. This position makes it easy to
insert the catheter and most children will co-operate.
The Retention Enema:
The retention enema differs from the cleansing enema in that it is to be
retained. It is given very slowly and in very small amounts, sometimes not more than
two or three ounces. The solution is retained or absorbed better if a cleansing enema
is given about one hour before the retention enema so the intestinal track will be
cleared.
The equipment needed for a retention enema consists chiefly of a catheter, funnel,
and small length of rubber tubing.
Since there may be some seepage, it is well to keep a pad under the patient to
protect the bed.
JLtteratttre — America's Literature Comes of Age
Lesson 22 — Ralph Waldo Emerson, American Idealist
Elder Biiant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 250-303)
For Tuesday, March 21, 1961
Objective: To recognize Emerson as the nucleus of American literature during
its classic period preceding the Civil War.
"Tj^ACH age re-defines truth in its Emerson. Their complaints are
own terms. Looking back, we various: his essays are vague, repeti-
may be tempted to evaluate a man tious, incoherent, inconsistent, shal-
by his deficiencies revealed through lowly optimistic; his poems are tone-
time; likewise it is easy to belittle deaf, roughshod, elliptical, obscure,
any person of the past to the degree But their most cutting charge
he differed from what we believe against him is that he ignores at
now. Neither attitude yields emi- least two subjects ever-present in
nent truth or justice. great literatures of the past and cen-
Thus many moderns find it fash- tral in modern authors; namely, sex
ionable to ignore or to depreciate and evil.
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While in each of these charges
lies some substantial truth, it is not
the whole truth. Emerson is com-
mended to us for three reasons:
first, probably more than any
other one person he shaped and
spoke for the age now known as
the American Renaissance; second,
in addition to enjoying during his
own lifetime the friendship and
esteem of all American writers, plus
Wordsworth, Coleridge, Carlyle,
Tennyson, Arnold, and Goethe
abroad, he has been acknowledged
as a dominant formative influence
on more recent Americans: Emily
Dickinson, William James, Justice
Oliver Wendell Holmes, Frank
Lloyd Wright, Edwin Arlington
Robinson, and Robert Frost; finally,
both as essayist and poet he pos-
sesses sufficient intrinsic worth to
commend him to every lover of lit-
erature, even if his name, time, and
place were unknown.
Recalling that honest praise and
love can never be forced, let us
consider words by those who have
esteemed Emerson's power and
stature. Matthew Arnold who
maintained that Emerson's essays
had never been surpassed in Eng-
lish, spoke of him as "the friend
and aider of those who would live
in the spirit." John Jay Chapman
believed that "it is solely as charac-
ter that he is important. We must
regard and deal with him simply as
a man." The historian James Trus-
low Adams, who somewhat dis-
trusted him, nevertheless wrote that
"in no other author can we get so
close to the whole of the American
spirit." In his "Partial Portraits"
the novelist Henry James wrote:
Emerson had a genius for seeing charac-
ter as a real and supreme thing. lie serves
and will not wear out; indeed, we cannot
afford to drop him. He did something
better than anyone else; he had a par-
ticular faculty, which has not been sur-
passed, for speaking to the soul in a voice
of direction and authority.
Personal-National Destiny
Aside from being contemporaries,
the struggling young America and
the adolescent Emerson shared so
many facts and values that it is dif-
ficult to separate one from the
other. Both were heavily rooted in
the Puritan past (Emerson being
descended from seven generations
of Protestant ministers ) . Both were
acutely aware of their gross inade-
quacies, and even more sharply
aware of their great destinies which
must not slip by unfulfilled, regard-
less of the cost. While Emerson
was a proud but mediocre student
at Harvard College, sharing a winter
coat with one of his three younger
brothers, waiting on table, and run-
ning errands for the President to
help lighten his widowed mother's
financial burden, Emerson wrote in
his Journal on October 25, 1822,
aged nineteen:
I find myself often idle, vagrant, stupid
and hollow. This is somewhat appalling
and, if I do not discipline myself with dili-
gent care, I shall suffer severely from re-
morse and the sense of inferiority here-
after. All around me are industrious and
will be great, I am indolent and shall be
insignificant. Avert it, heaven! avert it,
virtue! I need excitement.
Three months earlier, with trans-
parent impersonality, he had de-
fined himself as the potential
prophet-poet of his country:
I dedicate my book to the spirit of
America. I dedicate it to that living soul,
which doth exist somewhere beyond the
fancy, to whom the Divinity hath as-
signed the care of this bright corner of
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A Perry Picture
RALPH WALDO EMERSON
1803-1882
the universe. . . . With a spark of
prophetic devotion, I hasten to hail the
genius, who yet counts the tardy years
of childhood, but who is increasingly una-
wares in the twilight, and swelling into
strength, until the hour when he shall
break the cloud, to shew his colossal youth,
and cover the firmament with the shadow
of his wings.
Exultant with the surge of first-
youth — yet uncertain just how to
control such power; outwardly un-
afraid while inwardly insecure; long-
ing with teen-age passion to leave
home and parental domination,
Emerson fiercely determined never
to submit again to domination by
the parental pattern; but, slowly he
discovered it to be the only pattern
available. These vexing conflicts
plagued both Emerson and the
country whose destiny he felt to be
his own.
Emerson's Life
Born May 25, 1803, one hundred
years after Jonathan Edwards, to
whom he was so heavily indebted,
Emerson was left fatherless at eight,
his father having been minister of
Boston's prominent First Church,
Unitarian. When years later he
wrote in Nature of "debt, grinding
debt, whose face the iron widow,
the orphan, and the sons of genius
fear and hate," he spoke from first-
hand experience, as he did of every-
thing else in his writings. But while
his brothers Edward and Charles
graduated first and second in their
Harvard classes, Waldo was about
average, and was appointed class
poet only after six of his classmates
had turned it down. After gradua-
tion he assisted his brother William
in running a girls' finishing school
held in his mother's home.
In 1826 he was accepted as a
minister by the Middlesex Associa-
tion, but his frequent failure of eye-
sight, rheumatic pains, and threat
of tuberculosis forced him to go to
Florida for a year. On his return,
in 1829, he married beautiful seven-
teen-year-old Ellen Tucker after
having been appointed minister of
the Second Unitarian Church of
Boston, but, early in 1832, she died
of tuberculosis. For years afterward
he walked to her grave every morn-
ing. His younger brother, Edward,
"the admired, learned, eloquent,
striving boy" had become insane in
1828, dying in 1834; two of his
brothers were soon to die of tuber-
culosis.
Though the family religion of
Unitarianism was theologically lib-
eral, increasingly Emerson found its
members to be proud, staid, genteel,
and spiritually dead, leaving his
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strong craving for religious fulfill-
ment unsatisfied. In 1832, con-
vinced that true religion "is not a
form. It is a life," he resigned his
ministry, protesting as excuse his
lack of authority to adminster the
sacrament — convinced that the
Lord's supper was not intended by
Christ to be a permanent sacrament.
He sailed for Europe and in the
next two vears he "found himself,"
aided by the "pilot-minds" Coler-
idge, Goethe, and his lifelong friend,
Carlyle.
Soon after his return he married
Lydia Jackson, having previously
purchased his grandfather's house in
rural Concord and settled down to
write his three great manifestoes:
"Nature" in 1836, "The American
Scholar" in 1837, and "The Divin-
ity School Address" in 1838. In
1836 his dearest brother Charles
died just before Emerson's son Wal-
do, the beatitude of his life, was
born. Yet six vears later this lovely
lad died, a blow which scarred
Emerson until his death, when he
exclaimed, "Oh, that beautiful boy!"
For some ten years after his resig-
nation from the ministry in 1832,
Emerson was considered a failure
both by the community and by
many of his family. His wife's in-
heritance, however, of $1,200 a year
was soon matched by his income
from lyceum speeches which he gave
throughout New England and the
then West — Indiana, Iowa, and
Michigan. He often traveled long
distances bv sled in sub-zero weather
to captivate the isolated pioneers.
His first series of "Essays" sold
mildly in 1841, the second series
more briskly after publication in
1844, followed by numerous other
books and poems before the Civil
War. When the war came he wel-
comed it, having been active in the
cause of Abolition. He had said in
1856, "I think we must get rid of
slavery, or we must get rid of free-
dom." In 1867 he formallv ended
his creative literary career with pub-
lication of his poem "Terminus";
but he continued to be honored as
the leader of the Transccndentalists
and was acknowledged the foremost
literary personage of his daw
Suddenly his regal appearance
changed, his memory failed him,
and he was old. After his house
burned, in 1872, he had to lean
heavily on his daughter Ellen for
guidance and counsel. Gifts of
almost $20,000 came from friends
for rebuilding the house. Ellen
took him to Europe for his third
trip where he was royallv received
by its great figures. Upon his return
the entire village of Concord turned
out to welcome him back to his
restored home, where he continued
entries in his journaal for four years,
dying six years later, in 1882, aged
seventy-eight.
The Rebel Emerson
Because Emerson was personally
shy and reserved, kind, and soft-
spoken, it is easy to recall him as
a benign, venerated patriarch who
wrote the beautiful poem, "The
Rhodora," with its famous final
lines,
Tell them, dear, that if eyes were made
for seeing,
Then Beauty is its own excuse for being:
Why thou wert there, O rival of the rose!
I never thought to ask, I never knew:
But, in my simple ignorance, suppose
The selfsame Power that brought me there
brought you.
This is authentic Emerson, in-
deed, but only one small phase of
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855
him. In actuality a moral teacher
more than anything else, he framed
within his terse, sparkling sentences
the memorable definitions of the
American man and America's des-
tiny which were implicit in the great
documents of Jefferson and the
Founding Fathers, but which had
never before been immortalized in
literary form. Ripening within him-
self during his European "wander-
year" a new vision of who man
really is, and believing that "Noth-
ing is at last sacred but the integ-
rity of your own mind," Emerson
devoted the mature power of his life
to preaching to his countrymen his
"one doctrine, namely, the infini-
tude of the private man."
It was in contrasting his "ideal
man" with existing institutions in
American education, religion, moral-
ity, government, and business, that
the sparks began to fly which indi-
cated to many bystanders in the
1830's and '4o's that Emerson was
reactionary. Yet in his explosive
"Divinity School Address" in 1838,
which caused him to be barred from
Harvard campus for thirty years, he
announced that "Wherever a man
comes, there comes Revolution."
Emerson was that man, and for
some twenty years revolution
reigned, making Concord the lead-
ing literary and moral force of the
country rather than New York; and
freeing his grateful countrymen to
a new identity they had long felt
in their bones but could not them-
selves express. The following sen-
tences, taken from his writings,
express some of Emerson's personal
beliefs.
I. Man Is Defined
The purpose of life seems to be to
acquaint a man with himself; the highest
revelation is that God is in every man.
— Journal
The foundations of man are not in mat-
ter, but in spirit. But the element of
spirit is eternity. . . .
Nature is not fixed but fluid. Spirit
alters, moulds, makes it. The immobility
or bruteness of nature is the absence of
spirit; to pure spirit it is fluid, it is volatile,
it is obedient. Every spirit builds itself
a house and beyond its house a world
and beyond its world a heaven. Know
then that the world exists for you. For
you is the phenomenon perfect. What
we are, that only can we see. All that
Adam had, all that Caesar could, you have
and can do. . . . Build therefore your own
world. — Nature, "Prospects"
For men are wiser than they know. . . .
— "Compensation"
II. Growth Is Action
God offers to every man his choice
between truth and repose. Take which
you please — you can never have both.
— "Intellect"
Do the thing and you shall have the
power; but they who do not do the thing
have not the power. — "Compensation"
That which we persist in doing be-
comes easier to do; not that the nature
of the thing has changed, but that our
power to do has increased.
The one thing in the world of value
is the active soul. — "American Scholar"
III. Self-Reliance
To believe your own thought, to be-
lieve that what is true for you in your
private heart is true for all men — that
is genius.
Trust thyself: every heart vibrates to
that iron string.
Nothing is at last sacred but the integ-
rity of your own mind.
Speak what you think now in hard
words and tomorrow speak what tomorrow
thinks in hard words again, though it
contradict every thing you said today.
IV. Character
We pass for what we are. Character
teaches above our wills. . . . The force
of character is cumulative. — "Self-Re-
liance"
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Thinking is the function. Living is
the functionary. The stream retreats to
its source. — "American Scholar"
Whatever games are played with us,
we must play no games with ourselves,
but deal in our privacy with the last hon-
esty and truth. I look upon the simple
and childish virtues of veracity and hon-
estv as the root of all that is sublime in
character. Speak as you think, be what
you are, pay your debts of all kinds. —
"Illusions"
Thus Emerson opposed compla-
cency, smugness, and the staid pat-
terns which dominated the Unitar-
ian Church and social patterns
which dominated Boston and New
England. In "The American
Scholar," which Oliver Wendell
Holmes called "Our Intellectual
Declaration of Independence/' he
states that "The main enterprise of
the world for splendor, for extent,
is the upbuilding of a man."
Reiving heavily on nature, freeing
himself from "fear [which] always
springs from ignorance," the scholar
is to read "life [which] is our dic-
tionarv," and "not quit his belief
that a popgun is a popgun, though
the ancient and honorable of the
earth affirm it to be the crack of
doom." Having "listened too long
to the courtly muses of Europe/
now American scholars are to "em-
brace the common," to "explore and
sit at the feet of the familiar, the
low" that they may "know all . . .
dare all."
In "Politics" he reminds us that
instead of "reliance on the moral
sentiment, and a sufficient belief in
the unity of things," "men are sel-
fish," and "government of force"
results. The state should exist to
educate the wise man and to ensure
his higher rights "to be employed,
to be trusted, to be loved, to be
revered. . . . We think our civiliza-
tion near its meridian, but we are
yet only at the cock-crowing and the
morning star."
Emerson was the living spirit of
the idea of democracv, but he was
far from accepting his Nation with-
out expressing a qualifying aware-
ness of her weaknesses. While most
firmly he believed that:
Democracv, Freedom, has its root in
the sacred truth that everv man hath in
him the Divine Reason. . . . This is the
equality, and the only equality of all men,
he rebelled against accepting de-
mocracy in its present low state, in
contrast to what it might be. In his
Introduction to The Conduct oi
Life he wrote with fire:
Leave this hypocritical prating about
the masses. Masses are rude, lame, un-
made, pernicious in their demands and
influences and need not to be flattered but
to be schooled. I wish not to concede
anything to them, but to tame, drill, di-
vide and break them up, and draw indi-
viduals out of them. Masses! The
calamity is the masses. I do not wish any
masses at all, but honest men onlv, lovely,
sweet, accomplished women onlv. . . .
When [population] reaches its true law of
action, every man that is born will be
hailed as essential. Away with this hur-
rah of masses, and let us have the con-
siderate vote of single men spoken on
their honor and their conscience.
But though he was well aware
of America's weaknesses, he knew
and loved the undeveloped West
even as he did his vigorous East. Of
them he asked,
What should hinder that this New
Atlantis should have its happy ports, its
mountains of security, its gardens fit for
human abode, where all elements arc
right for the health, power, and virtue of
man?
Most important, for Emerson,
America was always the Future:
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857
One cannot look on the freedom of this
country in connection with its youth
without a presentment that here shall laws
and institutions exist in some proportion
to the majesty of Nature. ... It is a
country of beginnings, of projects, of vast
designs and expectations. It has no past:
all has an onward and prospective look. —
"The Young American"
Thus wrote Emerson to his age
as to the destiny of his country.
Perceptive, wise, entirely honest,
fearless, and inspired by both his
inward vision of Man as he should
be and his passionate love of elo-
quence," he was to his country its
delegated conscience and voice.
Because he possessed these qualities
so abundantly, his indispensability
is as timeless as is his hope.
Thoughts for Discussion
i. Though Emerson's personal life was
filled with tragedy and suffering, his
writing is vigorous and buoyant. In
terms of his beliefs, how can you account
for this apparent contradiction?
2. Do you feel Emerson's idealism to be
unreal? too ideal? Of what use is the
idealist today?
3. Discuss Emerson as a spokesman for
American democracy: (a) then (b) now.
Social Science — Spiritual Living
in the Nuclear Age
Lesson 12 — Values —Their Growth and Meaning
Eldei Blaine M. Porter
For Tuesday, March 28, 1961
Objective: To increase our understanding of what values are, how they develop,
and the meaning which they have in our lives.
Introduction
HPHAT proper living requires
strength of^j^hararter, all will
admit, But mere strength does not
suffice: strength alone can mean
blind and reckless aggression. What
we need is strength propeily_direct-
ed by adequate behavior and proper-
ly criticized values. Then only can
we expect effective living.
There is ample evidence that the
derisions whieh we make are based
on _the values which we possess.
Furthermore, many of us recognize
that as a result of living in this com-
plex world, we are frequently faced
with conflicting values. Therefore,
the decision we make to take some-
thing which does not belong to us
or not take it, to give of our time to
support a worthy project or not, to
assume our responsibilities in church
and community activities, or shirk
our responsibilities in preference for
other endeavors depends upon our
hierarchy [any things in graded
order] of values.
Among individuals who do not
develop any strong values, we are
apt to find indifference and apathy
toward life. We are apt to find the
flighty individual, the one who plavs
at being someone else because he has
no self to express, the extreme over-
conformer, the nagging dissenter.
Understanding values, then, is im-
portant both from the standpoint of
making the most of our own lives
as well as being adequately prepared
to guide and direct others for whom
we may be responsible. But what
are values? Where do values come
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from? How do values develop?
What role do values play in our
lives?
Values Defined
Values have long received the at-
tention of thinking people and of
more recent years the intense investi-
gation of social scientists. Values_
represent a term or concept which is
jfficuirto_dc£nc to everyone's satis-
faetioji^jiut let us accept the fol-
lowing statement as a working
definition of value. Value is that
which has priority in the life of
a person^ that which he prizes,
which lie deems TrT_be s igni fl-
ea nt^worth while, and important,
A man's values identify what he
considers to be good, what gives
meaning and purpose to his life. A
value is a directive factor in human
behavior. Values are a combination
of ideas jind attitudes__
or preference
priority
which___giA£
to _££rtaiu
goals? These goals or values assume
a place of high importance in the
personality. When y^lues_are_estab-
lished, tlien a^tiojiIa5Hrb^haAicLr_are
set into a priority svstem which is
determined by whether or not they
lead toward the desired goal.
Values tend to control behavior
as well as to motivate it. Values
are, therefore, both positive and
negative. Each personality^ holds
certain_^pj]s_^sjieiULaii(ixitliers to be
rigorously avoided.
How Values Develop
Our values do not come as a gift,
and we cannot give our values to our
children and other people. Values
come through "value-ing"; _thcy
growtl}rmjgh_pnzjng2__cheiish
holdingdear, and no one can do this
for us. v
The several stages of a child's de-
velopment of values can be identi-
fied. Children up to seven or eight
years of age tend to respond to prob-
lems of values by identifying with
parents and family members and
ascribing an almost blanket accept-
ance to the values they've learned
first in theJamilv. Following this
there comes a brief period of two
or three years which marks a pro-
gressive decline in applying values
without question. By early ado-
lescence, the youngster may reject
the use of specific rules of conduct
and begin to evolve and utilize more
general principles which derive their
support from the previous values
learned as well as some new values
which may confront him as a result
of his contact with teachers, peers,
[persons of the same standing] and
heroes, movie stars, and famous
personages. The degree of influence
of the peer group and hero figures
upon the child's values is almost
directly dependent upon how strong-
ly he h^sj3re\"iously ideiitifi€4-j*¥-h4r
his parents. If the parental values
Tiave been sufficiently internalized
(see Lesson Four, Relief Society
Magazine, November 1959, page
777), and if the child perceives of
himself as a person who does the
"right" thing most of the time, then
other values which are directly op-
posed to these are more easily resist-
ed. It is in this latter stage that the
child really begins to see himself as
a person with values of his own.
While the injjj^idual— is forming
concepts through life's experiences,
he is also learning what value each
of the objects and forces has for him
througrrto-inTpressions of how each
of ThTTn~lficrtsTiim. This sense of
val u c"-f5ecomcs~a part of each concept
and determines how the individual
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859
feels about it. This tends to influ-
ence his behavior toward or with
that thing.
In order properly to understand
how values develop, it may be help-
ful to differentiate between values
and
yalue-irig! Values
of or within
constitute
tliej^aiur
something
ijfg^raniacJioji^
object valued. We cannot say that
a goal has value, rather a goal is a
value. We put the value on it.
It is important to realize that
values exist in a context and not in
a void. We find it difficult, for ex-
ample, to talk about good in general.
It's more helpful and more precise
to speak about a good man, a good
deed, or a good family. We also
find it advantageous to employ ad-
jectives to modify the term values.
We find it more meaningful to
speak of cultural values, or human
values, or ethical values, or middle-
class values, etc. In each case we are
identifying the context in which
values appear. We ask, valuable to
whom and for what? One type of
behavior which may be highly val-
ued in one setting may be scorned
in another. For exampje^_an-indk-
vidual pc^sessjri^certaLn,qualities-QL
g^e^tTejiess^nd_ten^rnes^--ffimking
with emotionally disturbed children
may be highly valued, while the
same qualities in the business world
or military service may not only be
.scorned and_beltttled, but may actu-
ally result in professional failure.
In the latter case, aggression, tough-
ness, and a callousness in regard to
other people's feelings may be highly
valued.
Values, then, come from "value-
ing" and from reflection. They are
reinforced to grow in intensity par-
tially by the way in which we plan
our lives. We plan the expenditure
of our money in ways which favor
certain values. We often choose to
be among people who _share__pur
values! We seek reading and other
activities which tend to support our
values. This penetration of values
into our lives is our way of con-
tinually testing them. Our values,
therefore, are forever undergoing
change which shared living and re-
flective thinking never cease to
bring about.
Conflict oi Values
The individual living in the com-
plex world of today frequently finds
that he is faced yWjj3_-CQftfl4et-mg-
values. All of us have undoubtedly
been faced with the task of choosing
between two things which we want-
ed, but which were not compatible
or which were not both available to
us. When faced with such a dilem-
ma, our values of necessity must be
placed in a hierarchical order, and it
would be natural to assume that the
value assigned the highest jposition-
would jej^ejmine the course-Qi-be^,
havior. For example, let us assume
that a Mormon youth values keeping
-the Word of Wisdom, and also
values the acceptance of his peer
, group. In a Mormon setting he
would gain acceptance and recogni-
tion by his group through observing
the Word of Wisdom. In this case,
the two values would reinforce each
other, and his course of action in
observing the Word of Wisdom
would help him achieve both goals.
However, if this person were placed
in another setting in which certain
practices were valued by the group
which were contrary to the Word of
Wisdom, he would be faced with
conflicting values. He would then
be forced to choose between engag-
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ing in the kind of behavior which
would gain him acceptance with the
group and break the Word of Wis-
dom, or observe the Word of Wis-
dom and lose the acceptance of his
group. In this case, the course of
action will be determined by which
value is ranked highest.
Internalized Values
The discussion of conflicting val-
ues suggests that values vary in
quality and intensity. If values are
to serve their most effective purpose,
it is important that the values which
will contribute to the personal
growth and development of an indi-
vidual be most deeply internalized.
Otherwise, it mav be easy for many
an individual to be swayed with the
fads and fashions of the time wheth-
er these deal with wearing apparel
or political and religious philos-
ophies.
\ ral ues at first arc imitated as chil-
dreniden tif y^ with aclults_wlioni they
adniixe^ As the child grows in age,
values should gradually become inte-
grated into the personality. But
only as they are carefully examined,
reflected upon, and tried out will
they truly become a part of the in-
dividual. As was discussed in Les-
son Four of last year's lessons con-
cerning the individual and religious
maturity, to intemajizejicanjg f<"»
makc_a part of ovjrsrlf _ Only as
one internalizes standards and val-
ues does he effect ivelv live bv them.
If values remain in adulthood still
imitative, borrowed, and verbalized,
but only superficially subscribed to,
the individual has not truly inte-
grated and internalized them. This
matter, therefore, should be of major
concern to each individual in look-
ing at his own values and in his
responsibility of trying to grow
values in his children.
TTieinethods "^ vgp to fry to
help children internalize — values
shouldTxTcarcfully scrutinjzed^We
sometimes set up creeds and dogmas
which the child can question only at
the price of a parentally imposed
load of guilt and fear. Moral instruc-
tion alone never was and never ran
beaJsubstitjltP fnr thr frnia religion
oFafaith based on one's own ex-
perience. The inevitable result is
pretended values unsupported bv
that background of honestly ap-
praised experience which is a pre-
requisite for real values.
Developing Value for Oneself
It is important that an individual
become a living participant in
achieving a feeling of his own worth.
Unless the child is able to accept
himself, he is not able truly to
accept others, and it makes it diffi-
cult to integrate desirable values.
The child must be^onyjneed thai he
is a good person — he rnjistlike-tum-
self. The one and only person he
musj^Jive__vyirh all thp re^nf his
days is himself, and learning to
"understand, respect, and accept oth-
ers is dependent upon one's own
self-understanding, self-acceptance,
and self-respect.
The growing child's ability to ac-
cept himself and develop value for
himselfjsjmjjjcjicxx^ he
isac£ej3te^lj2Y_oilie_LS. If others like
him as a child, accept him, approve
of him, give him the right to try
himself out and the freedom to
make mistakes, it will be easier for
him to acquire similar attitudes to-
ward himself. It is hard for the
growing child, on the other hand,
to vievylimiscJi_vyith_ju^
otTTcTs reject him^ punish him un-
LESSON DEPARTMENT
861
justly, imply that he is inferior to
others, mtertere with his endeavors
to try himself out, deride him, take
no notice of_him, ignore him as
though he did not count, or tell him
Re~~is~mostly~T5acl. A child once
wrofe~about himself, "I'm no good;
I'm stupid; I can't do anything right;
things are always happening to me."
Adults who lived and worked with
this young boy appeared to have mis-
laid the basic value of respect for
his human personality.
Parents lay the foundation, and
the child and youth in the atmos-
phere of the family become, as the
years roll on, the builders of the
emerging self. The_parents with an
abiding sense of their own values do
nor~need_to immortalize themselves
in their children. They can give to
fHe child their love and direction
and feel the rewards in the child's
growing sense of independence as
he becomes an individual in his own
right with the self-confidence and
self-respect which is essential in
order to internalize the values which
will contribute to the individual's
personal growth and development.
While the attitu^e^_oi±iers-^how
towarcla person are especially im-
portant ^n_the_ early stages in the
devHdpmeriLof the self, all people
at all stages of life are responsive to
the approval or disapproval _of_
others. T3eveloping and maintain-
ing value for oneself, then, is a
continuous and lifelong endeavor.
Summary
Developing and growing values
both for ourselves and for our chil-
dren present one of our greatest
responsibilities. Values have simple
beginnings in childhood as the child
imitates his parents. If the maturing
process continues in a healthy man-
ner, the development of values be-
comes increasingly complex so that
the individual is influenced by the
cultural values around him, the
values of his peer group, and his
own reflective thinking.
Careful analysis of one's values
appears to contribute to developing
higher quality, more complete inte-
gration, and more effective inter-
nalization of values. Parents, there-
fore, should keep this fact constantly
in mind so that as they proceed with
their task of child-rearing, they do
not try to "pass on7' their own Kalufis ,
tothechild as theyjvrmlrl bequeathe
rnhTtHeir estate, but rather attempt
to provide the experiences through
which these values may grow and
develop.
Values are never completely
grown and the process finished. The
active, alert person is constantly ex-
ploring, modifying, and enlarging
his values as he encounters new
ideas, goes through new experiences,
meets new people. If he confines
himself to value-ing the past or
simply to perpetuate the present,
thereby reinforcing the status quo,
his life becomes static and dying.
"The past," as Prime Minister Har-
old Ma^MillanJias^said, "must be a
springboard and noTa_sota?I We
nee3 to grow values noTonly in rela-
tion to what man has been and is,
but what he can be and is capable
of becomiagJiiatisTiighest and best.
Thoughts for Discussion
i. What are evidences of the growth of
values in children? Youth? Adults?
2. Give additional illustrations of con-
flicting values.
3. What kinds of experiences will help
internalize values?
4. Why is value of oneself so im-
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