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I Lew LJears (greeting
nnHE General Board of Relief Society sends warm and loving greetings
to our sisters throughout the world. Our prayer for each of you is
that joy, happiness, and prosperity will be with you in the new year. Our
thoughts are not only of prosperity in material things but that all might
prosper in adding to stores of spiritual treasures.
May you prosper in your desire to be better, more devoted wives,
sweeter, more understanding mothers, and harder working, more dedicated
handmaidens in the kingdom.
May your homes be warm with love and lighted by faith. May
your hearts rejoice in the goodness of your children. May your every
act be keyed by kindness and your neighbors blessed by your thoughtful-
ness.
May your courage enable you to surmount trials and obstacles. May
your heart and mind be alert to ways your life and the lives of members
of your family can be made more beautiful.
May your love of freedom and the great gift of personal free agency
lead you to help in prospering the cause of peace on earth.
May you find strength in your religion and feel the security of perfect
faith and trust in our Father in heaven.
May we all accept the opportunity a new year affords to begin anew, to
further resolve to live righteously in accordance with the commandments,
and to give the service that will prosper the work of the Lord and his
Church.
Qjrom I Lear and QJc
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford -__-.. - President
Marianne C. Sharp ... - - - First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen . - _ . - Second Counselor
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor ---.-.-_--- - Marianne C. Sharp
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VOL 49 JANUARY 1962 NO. 1
(contents
SPECIAL FEATURES
New Year's Greeting General Presidency 1
Keep the Commandments Joseph Fielding Smith 4
New Presiding Bishopric Sustained 8
New General Presidency of the Young Women's Mutual Improvement
Association Appointed 10
Irene Cannon Lloyd Appointed to the General Board of Relief Society Louise W. Madsen 12
Award Winners — Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest 13
The Other Mother — First Prize Poem Miranda Snow Walton 14
Rain Song — Second Prize Poem Bernice Burton Holmes 15
Recess — School for the Deaf — Third Prize Poem Eva Willes Wangsgaard 16
Award Winners — Annual Relief Society Short Story Contest 18
Ten Dollars Will Buy Many Things — First Prize Story Mary Ek Knowles 19
Color Comes to Inside Pages of the Relief Society Magazine 27
The New March of Dimes George P. Voss 29
FICTION
Sow the Field With Roses — Chapter 1 Margery S. Stewart 30
Because of the Word — Chapter 6 (Conclusion) Hazel M. Thomson 38
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 2
Sixty Years Ago 24
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 25
Editorial: "The Multitude of the Promises" Vesta P. Crawford 26
Notes to the Field: Award Subscriptions Presented in April 28
Bound Volumes of 1961 Magazines 28
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 43
Birthday Congratulations 72
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Ham and Rice Casserole Margaret Knipp 29
Homemade Candy for Winter Evenings Caroline Layton Naylor 36
Leota Murphy Makes Rugs of Unique Design 37
Chase Those Winter Woes Janet W. Breeze 71
LESSONS FOR APRIL
Theology — The Revelation to William W. Phelps Roy W. Doxey 50
Visiting Teacher Messages — "I Will Be Merciful Unto You" Christine H. Robinson 56
Work Meeting — Attitudes Make the Difference Elaine Anderson Cannon 58
Literature — Edgar Allan Poe — The Pathos of His Life and Poetry Briant S. Jacobs 60
Social Science — How Women Share in the Blessings of the Priesthood Ariel S. Ballif 65
POETRY
Words Written in White Ida Elaine James 7
The New Year Viola Ashton Candland 9
First Fall Lael W. Hill 1 1
The Teacher Linnie Fisher Robinson 28
Footsteps Catherine B. Bowles 42
Flame Against Snow Maude Rubin 49
Our Creator Iris W. Schow 57
The Mothering Tree Christie Lund Coles 64
To a Child , . . Who Grew Dorothy J. Roberts 70
Dear Friend Florence S. Glines 72
The Blind Linda Clarke 72
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Keep the Commandments
Piesident Joseph Fielding Smith
Of the Council of the Twelve
[Address Delivered at the Officers Meeting of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, September 27, 1961.]
IT is a wonderful sight to look the trouble, and the fears in the
into the faces of you good sisters hearts of people, wondering what in
and see this Tabernacle filled, the world we can do. There is one
It is a wonderful work that you are answer to that. They want to know
doing, and I commend you, I pray if they should build bomb shelters
for you, and I add a blessing for you and take other methods of protec-
in the work which you are called tion. I am not prepared to talk
upon to do. We could not get about matters of that kind, but I am
along without you. prepared to talk about one kind of
Frequently, almost daily, I get a protection, and that is keeping th.e
letter from someone who is troubled commandments of the Lord. I have
in spirit because of the conditions opened my Book of Mormon to the
which prevail in the world today, fifth chapter of Helaman. In this
These conditions have been pre- chapter I discover counsel that was
dieted. They were spoken of by given by Helaman to his sons. He
our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, had some very good, faithful sons.
The Lord has called our attention When Helaman began to get old,
to them in his teachings to his dis- like his father did before him, he
ciples when he was on the earth, gave counsel to his sons. I want to
and in the revelations of the Lord, read you a paragraph.
We are living in critical days, but
days that have been spoken of by And now, my sons, remember remember
^T •' 1 L • 1 . ■ 1 1 • that it IS upon the rock of our Redeemer,
the prophets smce almost the begm- ^h^ i, Christ, the Son of God, that ye
nmg of time. must build your foundation; that when
You sisters have a glorious work the devil shall send forth his mighty
to do laboring with the sisters of winds, yea, his shafts in the whirlwind,
ihe Church and tearhinfr tbem to ^^^^ ^^^" ^^^ ^''^ ^^'^ ^"^ ^''^ "^'^^^
tne L>nurcn ana teacnmg tnem to ^^^^^ ^^^^^ ^^^^ ^^p^^ ^^^^ .^ ^j^^U ^^^^
keep the commandments of our ^o power over you to drag you down to
Eternal Father. The Savior said the gulf of misery and endless wo, be-
''If ye love me, keep nry command- cause of the rock upon which ye are built,
ments" (John 14:15). Never in the ^1^^^^ '' % ^"^^ ^Tf^'^^?^ ^ ^°""t^i^"
,.. V.i 111 ,1 ir whereon if men build they cannot tall
history or the world has the need ot (Helaman 15:12).
keeping the commandments of the
Lord been made manifest more than Now that counsel is just as good
today. I get letters almost weekly to sisters and daughters as it is to
from people asking questions about sons. We belong to the kingdom
conditions, the conditions prevail- of God, the kingdom that has been
ing in the world, the distress and set up according to the revelations
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KEEP THE COMMANDMENTS
the Lord has given to his prophets
of old, never to be thrown down or
given to another people, the king-
dom that is to grow and spread until
it eventually will fill the earth. Now
you good sisters are playing your
part in this great undertaking of
bringing to pass righteousness and
truth and a love of God in the
hearts of the members of the
Church. We ought to be grateful
that we live in this day, notwith-
standing all the fears and the
troubles and the anxiety which
come upon us because of conditions
that prevail in the world.
Y^/'E have security, the security of
the protection of our Father
in heaven and his Son Jesus Christ,
but that protection is based on our
faithfulness in the keeping of his
commandments. There is no other
security. In fact, there never was
security in any other way, only in
obedience to the commandments of
the Lord. Now, as you travel and
as you hold your meetings with our
good sisters scattered throughout
the Church, tell them there is a
protection far greater than the build-
ing of places of protection in the
earth. The Lord has promised to
guide his people and bless them on
one condition, that we keep the
commandments of the Lord, that
they are true and faithful before
him. There is no security in any
other course.
It is the duty of our sisters, as
well as it is of our brethren, to
search the scriptures, to become
familiar with the things the Lord
has revealed. The promises he has
made, the covenants he has offered
to us, and to walk with understand-
ing and in faith. In the revelation
given to John, he saw Satan in all
his power, laboring among the chil-
dren of men in the day in which we
live, more determined, more ener-
getic perhaps than ever before in the
history of mankind on this earth,
and John records he was industrious,
energetic, because he knows he has
but a short time.
We are living in the days of ful-
fillment of prophecy. We are living
in the days spoken of by our Lord
and Savior Jesus Christ, that were to
precede his second coming. The
signs, many of them, that he enum-
erated are here, we can see them.
Signs in the heaven, signs in the
earth, the perplexity, the distress of
nations, men's hearts failing them
for fear.
We are living in that day when
the Lord said these things would
take place here. We have all the
evidence that anybody could need
to know that the signs the Lord
predicted were to come upon the
face of the earth, before his com-
ing, are here. Now I don't mean to
say that every sign has been given;
there are other things yet to come,
but the distress in the world, the
wickedness, and men's hearts fail-
ing them, everyone fearful for fear
destruction will overtake them, all
of this was told and recorded by
prophets of old and our Savior when
he stood with his disciples in his
ministry before his departure from
them.
IVrOW I want to read you another
scripture from The Doctrine
and Covenants on this same point:
And, now, behold, if Zion do these
things she shall prosper, and spread her-
self and become very glorious, very great,
and very terrible (D & C 07:18).
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JANUARY 1962
Do what things? Just keep the
commandments of our Lord and
Savior Jesus Christ.
And the nations of the earth shall honor
her, and shall say: Surely Zion is the city
of our God, and surely Zion cannot fall,
neither be moved out of her place, for
God is there, and the hand of the Lord
is there;
And he hath sworn by the power of his
might to be her salvation and her high
tower.
Therefore, verily, thus saith the Lord,
let Zion rejoice, for this is Zion — THE
PURE IN HEART; therefore, let Zion
rejoice, while all the wicked shall mourn
{Ibid. 97:19-21 ).
Now there is a great blessing and
promise the Lord makes to the
members of the Church, protection,
guidance, to give unto them his laws
and direct them in righteousness
and truth, and they will be called
Zion, which is the pure in heart.
Now I cannot stop the reading of
this at this point because the Lord
says something more, what he adds
to what I have read is the part that
troubles me and I want to do my
part, as far as I can, to keep our
people in the paths of righteousness
and truth that they may be the pure
in heart and have the protecting
care of our Father in heaven and
his Son Jesus Christ.
Oh, I wish we could make all of
the members of the Church under-
stand this. We have those among
us who have hardened their hearts,
who are dull of hearing, and as the
prophets have said, even in Zion,
who love the things of this world
more than they love the things of
the kingdom of God, and whose
ambitions are centered upon worldly
things, the things that perish, and
so the Lord is under the necessity
of adding something, and so he says:
For behold, and lo, vengeance cometh
speedily upon the ungodly as the whirl-
wind; and who shall escape it?
The Lord's scourge shall pass over by
night and by day, and the report thereof
shall vex all people; yea, it shall not be
stayed until the Lord come;
For the indignation of the Lord is
kindled against their abominations and all
their wicked works.
Nevertheless, Zion shall escape if she
observe to do all things whatsoe\ er I have
commanded her.
But if she observe not to do whatsoever
I have commanded her, I will ^'isit her
according to all her works, with sore
affliction, with pestilence, with plague,
with sword, with vengeance, with devour-
ing fire.
Nevertheless, let it be read this once
to her ears, that I, the Lord, have accepted
of her offering; and if she sin no more
none of these things shall come upon her;
And I will bless her with blessings, and
multiply a multiplicity of blessings upon
her, and upon her generations forever and
ever, saith the Lord your God. Amen
{Ibid. 97:22-28).
IVrOW, it is my duty to cry re-
pentance, to teach our people,
to try to get them to walk in ways
of righteousness and truth. It is your
duty as sisters to teach your sisters
that they may do likewise, just as it
is the duty of all those who hold
the Priesthood to cry repentance
and teach our people to prepare
themselves for the coming of the |
Son of God. Now, the Lord is not j
going to tell anybody when he will I
come. He is not going to tell me or |
anybody else, but he will come !
when least expected; when people
KEEP THE COMMANDMENTS 7
are full of this world and its affairs providing we will keep his corn-
rather than the things that pertain mandments.
to the kingdom of God. So I plead The Lord bless you good sisters.
with you sisters in your labors to I am grateful for you and for the
keep yourselves humble, that you work you are domg and for your
may go forth and teach in your l^Y^^ty, and for the mtegrity and
various organizations, build up and ^^y^^^/ ^^ ^hese good sisters who
4.1, 4.1 • 4.^ . J ^ .^1 preside and who direct you in vour
strengthen the sisters, and counsel J . ^. ^, i r v r>i • i.
,, ^^^ ii.li 1,1 J labors. The Church of lesus Christ
them to teach their husbands and . ^i , j i
r .t • r i- .1 . .1 IS not a Church governed bv one
members of their amilies that they ^^-^-^^^^ The Lord has spread the
too, may realize the importance of ^^^^ ^^ ^^^^ ^^^^^ member of it may
obedience to every command the j^^^^ ^^^^ important duty to per-
Lord has given us. form. The Lord has called this
Now, the Lord said 'This is not organization and the other organ-
a day of many words," but I feel to izations of our sisters into existence
talk to you in this manner at this for the building up and strengthen-
particular time, due to the fact that ing of his kingdom. I am sure your
the hearts of our people, many of good brethren, I being among them,
them, are failing them. They don't love you for the great work you are
know what to do, where to run, doing and the integrity of your
where to hide, fearing dreadful de- hearts. We pray for you, we uphold
struction may overtake them. We you, we want you to walk in the
have one way of escape and that is light and the understanding of the
the best, and that is the protection gospel of Jesus Christ. In the name
of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, of the Lord, Jesus Christ, Amen.
ivorc/s Myritten in vi/hite
Ida. Ehine James
Today, the world is chastened. Through quiet snows
Upon the streets move common mortals, white
With winter's luminous aureole; each goes
To find his dream or his despair, each bright
With brief, ethereal beauty. The quiet air
Is pregnant now with loveliness that sifts
Magic alike on aging cheek and hair
And heads of children laughing down the drifts.
There is no sorrow through a world of slow
And muted wonders such as these that bring
Pulse to the buried wish of long ago,
Strength to forgotten prayer, the blossoming
Of light, from out a world of death and frost,
To April dreams the heart has somehow lost.
New Presiding Bishopric Sustained
THE PRESIDING BISHOPRIC
Left to right: Bishop Robert L. Simpson; Presiding Bishop John H. Vandenberg;
Bishop Victor L. Brown.
A new Presiding Bishopric was called by the First Presidency and
sustained at the 131st Semi-Annual Conference of the Church, Sep-
tember 30, 1961. John H. Vandenberg was sustained to succeed Bishop
Joseph L. Wirthlin; Robert L. Simpson and Victor L. Brown were chosen
as counselors. They succeed Bishop Thorpe B. Isaacson and Bishop Carl
W. Buehner.
As vice-chairman of the Church Building Committee, in charge of
finances and clerical work, Bishop Vandenberg has had wide experience in
executive and administrative work. He served as a counselor in the
Denver Stake Presidency, and as mission president in the same stake. He
w^as for three years a missionary in the Netherlands, and has served in
numerous positions in the Priesthood and in Church auxiliary organiza-
tions. At the time of his call to be Presiding Bishop, he was a coun-
selor in the Ensign Stake Presidency. Bishop Vandenberg and his wife
Rena Stok Vandenberg are the parents of two daughters, Mrs. Lenore
V. Mendenhall of Salt Lake City, Utah, and Mrs. Norine V. Francis of
Twin Butte, Alberta, Canada.
Bishop Simpson recently returned from New Zealand, where he
served as mission president for three years. He had previously spent three
years in New Zealand as a missionary (1937-1940). Upon his return to
his home in California from this mission, he became a member of the
Inglewood Ward Bishopric and served as M.I. A. superintendent in Ingle-
wood Stake. He is a graduate of Yale University and served as a captain
in the Army Air Corps Training Command in World War II. At the
time of his call as President of the New Zealand Mission, he was super-
visor in the Pacific Telephone and Telegraph Company's accounting de-
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NEW PRESIDING BISHOPRIC SUSTAINED 9
partment in Inglewood. Bishop Simpson and his wife Jelaire Chandler
Simpson have three children, Steven, Christine, and Robert.
Bishop Brown is a native of Cardston, Canada. After graduating from
the University of Utah, he became associated with United Air Lines, in
1940. He was an executive for this company in Chicago at the time of his
call to the Presiding Bishopric. His many Church positions have included
ward bishop, member of a stake M.I.A. presidency, and counselor in the
stake presidency while living in Denver, Colorado. Bishop Brown and
his wife Lois Kjar, of Salt Lake City, are the parents of five children,
Victor, Gerald, Joanne, Patricia, and Stephen.
cJhe I Lew LJear
Viola Ashton CandJand
What can the new year mean to me?
A golden opportunity,
A gift of time from God above
To grow in wisdom and in love.
What can the new year bring to me?
A sense of true humility,
A love of God, an urge to pray,
To draw near unto him each day.
What can the new year bring to me?
More strength to meet ad\ersity,
A lamp of faith to light the way
Of loved ones, lest they go astray.
I hope the new year lets me see
My great responsibility
To live and teach the gospel plan
And foster brotherhood in man.
I hope it has in store for me
More tolerance for humanity,
More tact to guide the errant youth.
More diligence in seeking truth.
I pray the new year lets me know
The joy that day by day will grow.
If I but strive to serve the Lord
And hearken to his holy word.
I pray that it will bring to me
The peace and sweet serenity
That comes from knowing God is near
To bless me in the coming year.
New General Presidency of the
Young Women's Mutual
Improvement Association
Appointed
PRESIDENCY OF THE YOUNG WOMEN'S MUTUAL
IMPROVEMENT ASSOCIATION
Left to right: Mrs. Margaret R. Jackson, First Counselor; Mrs. Florence S. Jacobsen,
President; Mrs. Dorothy P. Holt, Second Counselor.
A new General Presidency of the Young Women's Mutual Improvement
Association was announced at the 131st Semi-Annual General Con-
ference of the Church, September 30, 1961. Named President was Mrs.
Florence Smith Jacobsen, with Mrs. Margaret Romney Jackson and Mrs.
Dorothy Porter Holt as her Counselors. These officers succeed President
Bertha S. Reeder and her Counselors Mrs. Emily H. Bennett and Mrs.
LaRue C. Longden.
Mrs. Jacobsen has been a member of the General Board of the
Young Women's Mutual Improvement Association since 1959, when she
returned to Salt Lake City, Utah, after her husband Theodore C. Jacobsen
was released as president of the Eastern States Mission. Mrs. Jacobsen
has been active in Church work since her girlhood, working in Yalecrest
Ward and Bonneville Stake auxiliary positions. She has the distinction
of being the granddaughter of two Presidents of the Church — President
Joseph F. Smith and President Heber J. Grant. She is the mother of
three sons, Steven, Alan, and Heber.
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NEW GENERAL PRESIDENCY OF THE Y.W.M.I.A. APPOINTED 11
Mrs. Jackson, wife of Junius M. Jackson, former President of the New
England Mission, and now President of the Genealogical Society, has
been active in Primary and the Young Women's Mutual Improvement
Association since an early age. She was appointed to the General Board
of the Young Women's Mutual Improvement Association in 1951 and
served in that position until her husband was called to the New England
Mission in 1955. She is the mother of five children, Richard, Douglas,
Marilyn, John, and David.
Mrs. Holt has given many years of service to the Young Women's
Mutual Improvement Association. Twice she served as a ward president
and in recent years she has been teaching the Gleaners and the Mia Maids
in the Ensign Fourth Ward, Salt Lake City, Utah. She has received the
honorary Golden Gleaner award. Her husband, A. Palmer Holt, served
as a counselor for several years in the Ensign Stake Presidency, following
his service as a bishop. They are the parents of two sons, Robert, who
recently received his master's degree at Harvard University, and Thomas A.
Holt, a student at the University of Utah; and three daughters, Susan,
Janet, and Nancy.
dfirst QJali
L2d W. Hill
They are all said, and silent —
The cool green words of rain,
Songs warm with summer,
September laughter — gone
Turn by turn
Between the white beginning
And the whitening end.
Faces are swifter than sight:
We may not recognize
One April by a smile,
Nor eyes of June long-shadowed;
Small October kisses
Are fallen to timelessness
And here is a cold handclasp.
Still this moment holds the mind:
Now, link of the lost known
To not-yet-discovered.
Explores its winter cell.
And where we turn towards newer years
This old one and I part
Friends.
Irene Cannon Lloyd Appointed
to the General Board of the
Relief Society
Counselor Louise W. Madsen
Thomas
Temple.
IRENE CANNON LLOYD
I
RENE Cannon Lloyd was ap-
pointed to the General Board of
Relief Society on November i, 1961.
She brings to this high calling
experience in leadership, devotion to
the work of the Ghurch, and a fer-
vent testimony of the gospel.
Any sketch of Sister Lloyd's life
might well include the words of
Nephi, '\ . . having been born of
goodly parents, therefore I was
taught somewhat in all the learning
of my father." She is the daughter
of George J. and Lucy Grant Can-
non, and a granddaughter of Presi-
dent Heber }. Grant. Her mother
is a former General President of the
Young Women's Mutual Improve-
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ment Association. In her parents'
home she was truly taught the prin-
ciples of the gospel and there ob-
tained her deep and abiding
testimony.
Sister Lloyd married E.
Lloyd in the Salt Lake
They are the parents of four chil-
dren, two boys, one of whom passed
away in young manhood, and two
daughters. Their son, Heber J., is
at present serving in the Scotch-
Irish Mission as assistant to
President Bernard Brockbank. The
daughters are married, Lucy Jane
to Captain Don F. Clark, Irene, to
Henrv Earl Huesser. There are sev-
en grandchildren in the family.
At the time of her call to the
General Board she was serving
as the president of Holladay Stake
Relief Society, having previously
served in this position for three and
one-half years, and as a member of
the stake board, as well as president
of the Relief Society of the First and
Fourteenth Wards.
She is a talented musician and
has used this talent unstintingly
in service to the Church.
Sister Lloyd is loved and respected
by her associates who know her as a
dedicated, enthusiastic, whole-heart-
ed worker. She is a very spiritual
woman, with a great love for the
sisters of the Church who will be
well served by her.
J/tward vi/inners
ibiiza LK. Snow LPoem (^ontest
npHE Relief Society General Board
is pleased to announce the
names of the three winners in the
1961 Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest.
This contest was announced in the
May 1961 issue of The Reliei So-
ciety Magazine^ and closed August
15, 1961.
The first prize of forty dollars
is awarded to Miranda Snow Wal-
ton, El Monte, California, for her
poem "The Other Mother." The
second prize of thirty dollars is
awarded to Bernice Burton Holmes,
Areata, California, for her poem
''Rain Song." The third prize of
twenty dollars is awarded to Eva
Willes Wangsgaard, Ogden, Utah,
for her poem ''Recess — School for
the Deaf."
This poem contest has been con-
ducted annually by the Relief So-
ciety General Board since 1924, in
honor of Eliza R. Snow, second
General President of Relief Society,
a gifted poet and inspirational leader.
The contest is open to all Latter-
day Saint women, and is designed
to encourage poetry writing, and to
increase appreciation for creative
writing and the beauty and value
of poetry.
Prize-winning poems are the
property of the General Board of
Relief Society, and may not be used
for publication by others except
upon written permission of the Gen-
eral Board. The General Board also
reserves the right to publish any of
the poems submitted, paying for
them at the time of publication at
the regular Magazine rate. A writer
who has received the first prize for
two consecutive years must wait
two years before she is again eligible
to enter the contest.
Mrs. Walton appears for the third
time as a winner in the Eliza R.
Snow Poem Contest; Mrs. Holmes
is a first-time winner; and Mrs.
Wangsgaard has been a winner
many times in the contest.
There were 203 poems submitted
in the 1961 contest. Entries were
received from thirty-one States, with
the largest number, in order, coming
from Utah, California, Idaho, Ari-
zona, Nevada, and Washington.
Entries were also received from Can-
ada, Australia, New Zealand, Eng-
land, and the Cook Islands.
The General Board congratulates
the prize winners and expresses ap-
preciation to all entrants for their
interest in the contest. The Gen-
eral Board wishes also to thank the
judges for their care and diligence in
selecting the prize-winning poems.
The services of the poetry commit-
tee of the General Board are very
much appreciated.
The prize-winning poems, to-
gether with photographs and brief
highlights on the prize-winning con-
testants, are herewith published in
this issue of the Magazine.
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MIRANDA SNOW WALTON
First Prize Poem
ofhe (^tner Tllotner
Miranda Snow Walton
No book of Holy Writ records her name;
She hved and died unknown, although her son
Became a sign for infamy and shame —
Judas Iscariot, the evil one.
She must have dreamed of him, as mothers do.
The months she cherished him before his birth.
And watched with pride and gladness as he grew
To manhood's stature, great upon the earth.
When she beheld him on that blessed day
Follow the Holy Man of Galilee,
How could she see the cross along his way,
A premonition of the pain to be?
But when his sin of avarice was paid
Its wage of death, what anguish did she know!
Surely her soul walked with him, hurt, afraid.
Along the tortured trail they both must go.
Fain would she have suffered in his stead,
Taken his retribution as her own,
But in a potter's field her son lay dead
By his own hand. She drained her cup alone.
She reaches down the corridor of years,
She mourns with grieving mothers of all lands;
Wherever hearts are broken, bathed with tears
For children's sins, her tragic shadow stands.
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BERNICE BURTON HOLMES
Second Prize Poem
iKain Song
Beinice Burton Holmes
I shall miss the rain more than the snow,
I shall miss the rain most when I go.
The snow is feathery, deep, and white;
But the rain will talk to me all the night,
The rain will tell what I want to know.
I shall miss the rain most when I go.
Snow is voiceless and does not talk.
Rain will whisper; rain will walk
Upon the roof in dark of night;
Rain will silver the evening light.
I hear the silvery tongues of rain;
They talk to me through the windowpane.
Far off the thunder, dull, aloof;
But rain dances crystal feet on the roof.
I have missed the great white shawls of the snow;
But I shall miss the rain most when I go.
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EVA WILLES \\^ANGSGAARD
Third Prize Poem
uiecess — School for the Jjeaf
Eva WilJes Wangsga^id
Here children play denied the joy of sounds,
Where thunder falls as silently as snow.
They've never heard the milkman on his rounds.
The clink of bottles, hurried steps tiptoe.
They cannot hear a hymn or lullaby,
A mother's voice wrapped softly round a name,
A night train's whistle or a coyote's cry,
For town or country silence is the same.
The thud of ball on bat, the lilt of laughter
Received in silence colorless as frost
Are subtle arguments for what comes after,
Some heaven where no joy is ever lost,
Where man's equality is not belied
And heaven grants each child what earth denied.
Page 16
Miranda Snow Walton, in expressing her happiness as a winner in the Ehza R.
Snow Poem Contest, describes the contest as "a goal for me to work for."
Now a resident of El Monte, California, NIrs. Walton was born in the upper
Bear Ri\er country of Uintah County, Wyoming. "As a girl I knew all the rigors of
pioneer life. In 1914 my parents moved to Evanston, Wyoming. I was one of the
ten children of Henry Brooks Snow and Anna Danielson. The grandparents on both
sides were converts to the Church, my Snow grandparents coming to Utah in 1851. I
married James W^alton, a Rich County, Utah, attorney, and lived in Woodruff, Rich
County, for many years, where my three children were born. Later, we li\ed in Salt
Lake City, and now in California. I am a member of the North El Monte Ward,
\\"cst Covina Stake. I ha\ e worked in e\'ery organization open to women in the Church.
Genealogy is now my principal interest. While living in Woodruff, I was active in
the Parent-Teachers Association, Daughters of the Utah Pioneers, and in 4-H Club
work. I was also a stake missionary. My children are \'ivian (Mrs. Delbert Owens),
Jack, and Claude Walton. I have four grandchildren. At an early age I became in-
terested in writing poetry and it has been an abiding interest throughout my life."
Beinice Burton Holmes was born in Afton, WVoming, a daughter of Arthur F.
and Kittie Dixon Burton. She was graduated from the Latter-day Saints University,
Salt Lake City, Utah, and received her B.S. Degree from the University of Wyoming.
She has done post-graduate work at the University of Utah, Harvard, and the University
of Southern California. \Miile attending the Uni\ersity of Wyoming, she recei\ed
two poetry prizes and uas a member of Phi Upsilon Omicron, and American College
Quill Club. Her poems have appeared in many poetry magazines and religious publi-
cations.
Her husband. Dr. LaNLar L. Holmes, teaches at Humboldt State College, Areata,
California, where the family resides. Bart, their eldest son, served a mission in the
Central Atlantic States, and is first counselor in the bishopric of Areata Ward. Trilby
is secretary and drama director in the Y.M.M.LA. in the Centinela Ward, Inglewood,
California. Dan is a missionary in the Central British Mission, and Roger, the youngest
son, is ward clerk in Areata, and is attending Humboldt College,
Mrs. Plolmes has been a teacher in the Wyoming schools, and in Utah and Cali-
fornia. At present she is teaching in Eureka, California. Her Church work includes
much genealogical research, and she has been acti\e in the various auxiliary organiza-
tions for many years.
Eva WiiJes Wangsgaard, Ogden, Utah, a well-known and gifted poet, and many
times a winner in the Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest, writes: "I was born and educated
through high school in Lehi, Utah. I was graduated from the University of Utah
Normal School and taught two years in Lehi. I married David Wangsgaard and spent
two years in Mount Pleasant, Utah, where Mr. Wangsgaard was a high school teacher.
We spent twenty summers and two winters in Hunts\ille, Utah, Mr. Wangsgaard's
home town, where he went into the farming and cattle raising business with his two
brothers. Three children were born to us: Dee, who earned the rank of captain in
World War II and now has an insurancy agency in Logan, Utah; Reid, who is in the
household engineering business in Logan, and who served three terms in the Utah
State Legislature; and Genee, who is the wife of D. E. Evans, D.D.S., in Smithfield,
Utah. All of the children are graduates of the Utah State University. There are
thirteen living grandchildren and four great-grandchildren. Mr. Wangsgaard died in
"I began writing in 1936, and ha\'e had poems published extensively in many maga-
zines in the United States, Canada, England, and India. I received, in 1961, a citation,
with a hundred dollar award, from The Lyric, long-established, all-poetry magazine in
Christianburg, \^irginia, for poetry achievement. I ha\e had five books of poetrv pub-
lished, as well as many articles and stories."
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J^ward vl/i
inners
J/Lnnual LKelief o^ociety Short Story (contest
'T^HE Relief Society General Board
is pleased to announce the award
winners in the Annual Relief So-
ciety Short Story Contest, which was
announced in the May 1961 issue
of the Magazine, and which closed
August 15, 1961.
The first prize of seventy-five dol-
lars is awarded to Mary Ek Knowles,
Ogden, Utah, for her story "Ten
Dollars Will Buy Many Things/'
The second prize of sixty dollars is
awarded to Sarah O. Moss, Salt Lake
City, Utah, for her story ''Splendor
Before Dawn." The third prize of
fifty dollars is awarded to Linda S.
Fletcher, Tacoma, Washington, for
her story "Cheshire Cat."
Mrs. Knowles is a third-time win-
ner in this contest; Mrs. Moss is
also a winner for the third time;
and Mrs. Fletcher is a first-time win-
ner in the story contest.
The Annual Relief Society Short
Story Contest was first conducted
by the Relief Society General Board
in 1942, as a feature of the Relief
Society Centennial observance, and
was made an annual contest in 1943.
The contest is open only to Latter-
day Saint women who have had at
least one literary composition pub-
lished or accepted for publication
in a periodical of recognized merit.
The three prize-winning stories
will be published consecutively in
the first three issues of The Relief
Society Magazine for 1962.
Sixty-nine stories were entered in
the contest for 1961, with six of the
Page 18
entries coming from countries out-
side the United States, including
England, Northern Ireland, Aus-
tralia, Canada, and Hong Kong.
The contest was initiated to
encourage Latter-day Saint women
to express themselves in the field of
fiction. The General Board feels
that the response to this opportun-
ity continues to increase the liter-
ary quality of The Relief Society
Magazine, and will aid the women
of the Church in the development
of their gifts in creative writing.
Prize-winning stories are the
property of the Relief Society Gen-
eral Board, and may not be used for
publication by others except upon
written permission from the Gen-
eral Board. The General Board also
reserves the right to publish any
of the other stories submitted, pay-
ing for them at the time of publica-
tion at the regular Magazine rate.
A writer who has received the first
prize for two consecutive years must
wait for two years before she is
again eligible to enter the contest.
The General Board congratulates
the prize-winning contestants, and
expresses appreciation to all those
who submitted stories. Sincere j
gratitude is extended to the judges
for their discernment and skill in
selecting the prize-winning stories.
The General Board also acknowl-
edges, with appreciation, the work
of the short story committee in
supervising the contest.
Cjirst [Prize ' vi/inning Stor^
J/lnnual iKeuef Society Snort Story \^ontest
Ten Dollars Will Buy Many Things
Mary EJc Knowhs
Matt's first clay out since he had
measles, and his five-year-old face
was thin, some of the baby round-
ness gone. There had been the long
wait for the bus in the cold, and
they still had to walk to the other
end of town to buy shoes at Cut-
Rate Shoe Emporium.
She bent down. ''When Miss
King drives us home maybe she will
stop at Eddie's Diner, if her father
isn't too tired." May King was her
neighbor. She had told Sarah, 'T
have to take Dad to the doctor. If
you're at the shoe store when I'm
done, I'll drive you home." This
would be a big break with the
weather so bad.
'Tou can each have a twenty-
five-cent treat," she told the boys.
They hugged her knees. ''Oh,
boy! Gosh, thanks. Mom." Then
Eddie said, "Come on. Matt."
She looked after them as they
ran for a chair and sat stiffly on the
edge. They were such wonderful
boys. When Bert died eight months
ago, ten-year-old Eddie had taken
over as man. of the house. He called
for Matt at the nursery every day,
and, when Sarah got home from
the office, the table- was set for din-
ner and the kettle was boiling so
she could have a cup of hot instant
chocolate.
Sarah couldn't afford fifty cents
for a treat, but the boys had earned
it. As she moved slowly along with
the line, she looked at her weekly
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MARY EK KNOWLES
WHEN Sarah Delaney reached
the bank, there were
already long lines of people
waiting before the four tellers' cages.
Her dark eyes quickly counted each
line and she chose the one closest
because there were two people less.
She told the boys: "Sit over there
on those chairs against the wall."
Eddie said, "But, Mama, it's such
a big line." He looked up at her,
his blue eyes and the shock of red
hair that had escaped his helmet hat
making him look so like his father
that she had a sudden hurting inside
sharper than the dav Bert died.
"Hurry, Mama," Matt said. "I'm
tired."
"I know, darling." This was
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JANUARY 1962
paycheck, knowing where each pen-
ny of it was going. She had a good
future at the law office, and she
was going to night school to learn
shorthand, but right now they lived
from, payday to payday with very
little left over. And this paycheck
was smaller, because she had had to
lay off work for four days and take
care of Matt.
'T^HE boys had to have good stout
shoes. She hoped Cut-Rate
could fit them. She finally reached
the teller's window. The middle-
aged teller had sparse hair and his
mouth turned down at the corners.
He took her check, asked grouchily
for identification, then, satisfied,
counted out bills, then rechecked
and counted again, acting as if his
mind was on something else. Then
he said shortly, "Next!"
Sarah picked up the money, put it
carefully in her billfold. ''All right,
boys," she called.
Outside, the snow had turned to
a blizzard. She knelt, buttoned
Matfs jacket to the top, fastened
Eddie's cap under his chin, pulled
her knit hat down over her dark
hair. Five blocks in this! Maybe
she should go to Anderson Shoe.
She could telephone May at the
doctor's office to meet them there.
Then she remembered that the
money she saved at Cut-Rate would
buy the boys each two pairs of
warm stockings. And the shoes
were good. It was just that you
waited on yourself, and the styles
were last-season styles.
''Come on," she said. "Let's go."
Eddie took hold of her jacket.
Matt clung to her hand, and heads
down, they walked north. The go-
ing was rough, and at the end of
the third block, Sarah pulled them
into a doorway. Matt was crying,
"I'm cold, Mama. Let's go home.
I don't want new shoes."
She was cold, too. Her car coat
had been meant for driving in a
warm car. She saw their bus com-
ing and almost weakened, then re-
membered that it would be a week
before she could bring the boys from
the suburbs where they lived into
the city, and their shoes would not
last another week.
"We can get through this," she
said gaily. "Let's pretend we are
on our way to the North Pole, and
the first one who gets there can put
up the American flag and. . . ."
"And the enemy is going to try
and beat us there!" Eddie entered
into the fantasy.
They covered the last two blocks
in record time, and then they were
in the warmth of the shoe store, and
the boys were sitting on chairs, and
she was hunting through the racks
of shoes. She was in luck and
found a sturdy, thick-soled pair of
shoes for each of them. Her heart
yearned over a pair of overshoes to
protect them, but that would have
to wait until next month.
It was when she went to pay the
clerk that she found the extra ten
dollars. While the clerk was wrap-
ping the shoes she sat down and
counted her money. The shoes were
her only purchase, and she'd had
only small change to begin with.
She remembered how absent-mind-
ed the teller had been. He had giv-
en her ten dollars too much!
"What's the matter, Sarah?"
She looked up and May King was
standing there, a blue scarf tied
over her gray hair. "I have ten dol- j
lars more than I should have," Sarah '
said.
"Good for you," May laughed
FIRST PRIZE-WINNING STORY
21
shortly. May had been a good
neighbor to Sarah. She had been so
kind when Matt was sick, sitting
with him while Sarah went to the
store, but there was a streak of hard-
ness in her.
May had never married. She
talked constantly of her great ro-
mance with a Fred Dallas. She'd had
to turn him down because her
mother had a stroke, and none of
the other brothers and sisters would
take the responsibility. And now her
eighty-year-old father had to be tak-
en care of.
""DUT, of course, I can't keep it,
May," she said.
''Why not? The bank has a
vault full of ten-dollar bills, and
you certainly can use it."
That was true. Ten dollars
would buy many things. It would
buy the overshoes, or she could give
Dr. Swanson something extra. He
had taken care of Bert during a
year's sickness and had waited so
patiently for his money. He had
four small children. He could use
ten dollars, and the bank certainly
did have a vault full of money.
And then, suddenly, she was a
little girl and mother was telling
her: ''Honesty above all, Sarah.
Don't take as much as a straight pin
that doesn't belong to you."
"Oh, I couldn't keep it, May!"
"Why not?" May asked
"Because it's not mine, and keep-
ing it would be stealing." She sud-
denly remembered how cross the
teller had been. Maybe he had a
reason, a very sick wife or a mort-
gage note to pay. "The teller
would have to pay the money out
of his own pocket."
"Well, that's his tough luck,"
May said. "He's paid to be ac-
curate."
Sarah shook her head. "I can't
keep it. I've got to take it back."
"Suit yourself." May shrugged
her shoulders. "But I can't wait.
Dad's in the car and he's hungry
and cross as a bear. But let me tell
you, if I hadn't been such a soft-
headed fool. . . ." She went on and
on telling the story May had told
so many times before, how she had
taken care of her sick parents and
Ed and Jack and Shirley had just
turned their backs on her, and so
Fred had married another girl. . . .
Sarah looked after her neighbor
as she walked out of the store, feel-
ing sorry for her. May's father had
told Sarah, "Fred was never in love
with her. She just imagined it, and
she has ruined her life thinking she
missed her big chance."
"Aren't we going with her?" Ed-
die asked.
"No, son. I have to go back to
the bank."
Matt began to cry. "I want a
treat."
"You'll get your treat, honey,"
she said. "I promise you."
"Don't cry any more, Matt!"
Eddie said sternly, but he, too,
looked after May's plump figure.
The five blocks back to the bank
were cold and wet, the wind had
risen and the icy pellets of snow
peppered their faces, but they final-
ly reached the bank. There was,
thank goodness, no line to the mid-
dle-aged teller's window and she
walked right up to him.
She saw the name plate. "Thomas
Eddrington." "Mr. Eddrington,"
she said, "when you cashed my
check you made a mistake. You. . . ."
"You should always count your
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JANUARY 1962
money before you leave the win-
dow/' He shrugged his shoulders.
She almost turned on her heel
and stalked out. May was right. It
was his headache, not hers. Her
voice shook. 'Tou gave me ten
dollars too much."
''Oh. . . ." His face turned red.
He hastily counted through the bills
in his till, compared the amount
with figures on a sheet of paper.
'Tes, I am ten short." But he
didn't thank her. He almost
snatched the bill from her hand.
Sajah turned slowly and. looked
at her tired, patient little boys.
''Now/' she said with a brightness
she did not feel, ''now for that
treat."
"Fd like a hamburger," Eddie
said.
"With French fries!" Matt
begged.
In the Elite Lunch, Sarah ordered
only root beer for herself, but she
couldn't even drink that because
she was suddenly nauseated, remem-
bering the way the teller had acted.
He could have said, "Thank you."
Maybe May was right and she was
a big fool.
A/IT'HEN they arrived home it was
almost dark. She fixed hot
chocolate for the boys, read to them,
and, finally, they were in bed. There
was a knock at the door. It was
May.
She held out a pan of freshly
baked cinnamon buns. "Thought
you might enjoy them," she said.
Sarah knew it was her way of apolo-
gizing for not waiting to drive them
home.
"Why, thank you," Sarah said.
May asked, "Did the teller say,
'Thank you, kind, honest lady?' "
"No." Disappointment and an-
ger washed over Sarah. "He acted
as if it were my fault."
"Was he a bald-headed man, sour
looking?" May's eyes narrowed.
"Thomas Eddrington?"
"Why, yes, that was his name."
May laughed. "And you dragged
your little boys five blocks through
a blizzard to give him ten dollars.
Thomas Eddrington is a bajchelor.
He learned to play the stock market,
how to invest his money. Why, he
owns two buildings downtown. He
owns an apartment."
"Then why is he working in a
bank?"
"Because he loves money. He
likes to handle it, count it, earn
more, even that small salary. Be-
sides he hasn't anything else to do."
May added wryly, "He needs that
ten dollars like he needs another
row of toes!
"Listen, Sarah," May said. "You're
all alone now, and you've got two
boys to support. You have to be a
bit more clever, a bit more ruthless
than the next guy, or you will get
stepped on. Believe me, Sarah, I
know. If only I'd told my brothers
and sisters, 'Mother and Dad are
your responsibility. Fm going to
marry the man I love.' "
Her neighbor looked so miserable,
so unhappy, that, even as upset as
Sarah was, she said a little prayer
for wisdom to show May that she
had served a wonderful, useful life
caring for her elderly parents. To-
morrow she must make her see that
she was blessed, that she would be
more blessed as time went on!
"Stop being a sucker," May fin-
ished, a gentleness in her voice.
After May had gone, Sarah leaned
against the closed door and cried
quietly, tears sliding down her
cheeks. She cried because she
FIRST PRIZE-WINNING STORY
23
missed Bert's arms around her, be-
cause she was afraid of the responsi-
bihty of rearing her two sons, be-
cause the code by which she had
been reared wasn't good any more.
How could she teach them what
was right when she didn't know what
was right any more!
But most of all she cried because
she was disillusioned. She had done
the right thing, the honest thing,
but it had turned out to be a foolish
thing.
After awhile she stopped crying
and went through the automatic
movements of finishing the dishes.
She heard Matt cough. She went
into the bedroom to cover him up.
Eddie was asleep, the covers
thrown off. She covered him, kissed
him lightly on the forehead. He had
left his light on. She walked over
to turn it off and saw his ''Captain's
Log," as he called it, open on the
stand.
"DERT had known he was dying.
He had spent a lot of time talk-
ing to the boys. He had told Eddie,
''Being a man is a big job, but it
doesn't happen all at once. Each
day you learn something that helps
you when you are a man."
And he had given Eddie a large
journal. "This is like a Captain's
Log on a ship. Each night the cap-
tain writes what has happened dur-
ing the day, and every night you
must write down what you have
learned during your day."
Toward the end Bert had told
Sarah, "I seem to talk in platitudes:
'Good is rewarded — As the twig
is bent so the tree grows. . .' things
like that. But there is much I want
to teach the boys, and there is so
little time left. I don't know if I'm
getting through to them."
Sarah had never read Eddie's
journal. She respected his privacy,
but here it was open and her eyes
skimmed lightly over what he had
written. Systematically he had num-
bered his day's findings, writing in
a careful, childish hand:
1. It takes a long time for the bus to
come in winter.
2. New shoes make me feel taller.
3. The hamburger man liked cooking
for us. He was happy we ate every bit,
Sarah smiled fondly, surprised and
pleased that Eddie had had the in-
sight to know that the hamburger
man enjoyed watching them eat his
cooking.
And then she read No. 4, and for
a moment the words blurred
through her tears. She brushed
them away and read again, going
sick inside thinking back to the
moment when she had almost gone
with May, unaware that all she did
and said was being taken as gospel
because she said and did them.
"No. 4," Eddie had written, "If
you have something that belongs to
someone, take it back, even if you
have to walk five blocks and it's
snowing and your boys are crying.
Because it doesn't belong to you
and you have to give it back, even if
somebody else says keep it, don't be
a sucker." And he had added,
capitalizing each word, "Honesty Is
The Best Policv."
"Amen," Sarah said softly. She
closed the journal and walked out
of the bedroom, her head held high
as befitted one who had been tried
and not been found wanting.
Note: For a brief biographical sketch of Mary Ek Knowles, see page 37.
Sixty LJears Kjigo
Excerpts From the Woman's Ex-poiieiit, January 1902
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
GREETINGS TO RELIEF SOCIETY: With the dawn of this New Year's
day I send greetings to the noble band of Rehef Society workers throughout the
world. . . . Let forgiveness and charity be our bond. Let love and cleanliness and
order rule in every home . . . seek to bind your society with hoops of lo\'e and
union. Let no harsh words pass our lips, nor yet any envious nor unkind thought
enter our hearts. ... Be not carried away with vain social pleasures and foolish fashions
of the hour. Make yourselves beautiful; be gentle and womanly. ... I feel that I
have been blest in my labors while ministering to the sick and unfortunate and ha\'e
experienced much joy in Relief Society work, and I feel to promise similar blessings
to those who lovingly and faithfully take up a part of this labor. . . .
— Bathsheba W. Smith
President of the Relief Society in all the world.
RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE IN SALT LAKE STAKE: President M. I.
Home spoke upon the duties of the Relief Society members. Keep from evil thoughts
or actions, pay tithing and attend our meetings. . . . Sister Annie T. Hyde felt Relief
Society work is a sacred responsibility on every officer and member. . . . President B. W,
Smith said she was very young when she became acquainted with the Prophet Joseph;
that she had a strong testimony of his mission before she ever saw him and was always
anxious to hear him speak. . . . She was at the organization of the Relief Society. . . .
Sister M. W. Wilcox was acquainted with the Prophet Joseph in Nauvoo, had often
heard him speak.
— Conference Report
ONE WOMAN'S PRAYER
Of all the gifts we may enjoy, there's one
We most desire; the gift of Love! And then — •
So loving all Thou hast created — give us
Power to help Thee save the souls of men!
— Ixion
THE NEW YEAR, 1902: . . . The pioneers who sought out this resting place
were not only great in pioneering and colonizing, but they were also in the best and
truest sense pioneers for the establishment of truth upon the earth; the builders of
Temples and sanctuaries in which to worship God, . . . And now the children and
grandchildren . . . are in possession of the fullest freedom and liberty ever enjoyed
by any body of people . . . and let us hope and pray that they may hold it so sacredly,
and stand firmly for equity and truth, maintaining the rights bequeathed to them from
the fathers. . . .
— Editorial
UTAH WRITERS: . . . One of our best prose and poetical writers is Augusta
Joyce Crocheron. . . . She excels where thought is required and elegant expression. . . .
Emily II. Woodmansee is one of the most gifted and inspirational poets of Utah. . . .
Helen Mar Whitney and Lulu Greene Richards are poets, and both are classed among
the spiritual and inspirational writers. . . .
— Utah Woman's Press Club Report
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
lyriSS EVA B. ADAMS, a long-
time Congressional aide and a
former educator, has been appointed
Director of the United States Mint.
Miss Adams is a native of Wonder,
Nevada, and a former dean of wom-
en at the University of Nevada. Her
nev^^ duties will include supervision
of the making of coins, the storage
of gold and silver bullion, and trans-
portation of bullion.
A/flSS TOBY ELLEN SAKS,
of New York City, a nineteen-
year-old college student, was recently
awarded first prize in the junior
division of the third Pablo Casals
Cellist competition in Tel Aviv,
Israel. Thirty-one cellists, repre-
senting many nations, competed,
and over 50,000 people attended the
concerts.
T YNN BURKE, who has almost
three hundred medals for swim-
ming, has retired from competition.
She won two Olympic medals in
Rome in i960, setting a world rec-
ord of 1 109.3 for the loo-meter back-
stroke. But she wants to finish col-
lege and live a normal life. During
the eleven months before the
Olympics, she swam 1,300 hours,
practicing. ''As a swimmer, I'm an
old lady at eighteen," she com-
ments.
A/f RS. LAYER KNUDSEN MIL-
LARD, a Latter-day Saint, of
Reseda, California, is California
State Music Chairman for the Par-
ent-Teachers Association, and dur-
ing the past six years of her direc-
tion, the Mothersingers, having
more than one thousand singers in
the central organization, have pre-
sented the music at the California
State Parent-Teachers Association
Conventions. Mrs. Millard has
served on Relief Society and
M.I. A. stake boards and is active
in other Church and communitv
organizations. She is the mother of
two children, and since her husband
died three years ago she has been
doing choral work in adult educa-
tion in Los Angeles County.
jV/TRS. ARTHUR LAHTINEN,
of Fort Lauderdale, Florida,
handicapped by polio at the age of
three years, was nominated by the
Broward County Chapter of the
National Foundation as Mother of
the Year. The requirement for this
honor is being of service (despite a
handicap) to self, familv, and com-
munity. Mrs. Lahtinen is an excel-
lent wife, mother, musician, and
laboratory technician. She joined
the Church in 1957 ^^^^ ^^^^ served
as teacher of the literature lessons in
Relief Societv.
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EDITORIAL
VOL 49
JANUARY 1962
NO. 1
cJhe 1 1 iuititude of the LPi
ro/nises
. . . the people . . . did wax strong . . . and were blessed according to the multi-
tude of the promises which the Lord had made unto them (Fourth Nephi lo-ii).
IVTOW that a New Year of prom-
ise is beginning, we have before
us again the precious gifts of hfe and
time. It is well for us to rejoice in
our opportunities and our privileges,
and to remember the steadfast prom-
ises which have been given to those
who are willing to become ''partakers
of the heavenly word."
In the book of Fourth Nephi, a
scripture of but few words yet
adorned with great promises and
profound wisdom, we are told of the
happiness and the blessings which
came to the people during a long
period of time in which they held
the gospel as a light before them and
as a guide for their footsteps . . .
''and surely there could not be a
happier people among all the people
who had been created by the hand
of God" (Fourth Nephi i6).
Spiritual hope and a measure of
spiritual serenity come to us when
we realize that the principles of the
gospel are eternal. All doctrine and
all commandments have been given
for our personal direction and for a
guide to us in our family relation-
ships, in our activities in the Church,
and in our wider responsibilities of
truly being the keepers of our broth-
ers and sisters.
It is well for us, and it is a source
of strength and comfort to know
that the more we discipline and de-
velop ourselves and keep our bodies
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and our spirits strong — so, in like
measure, shall we be able to strength-
en those around us. Not one among
us can give to another that which
he does not himself possess. Hope
and faith and courage may be radi-
ated, beautiful and warm as sun-
light, from one who has cultivated
well the blossoms of the spirit.
As a circle of treasures within the
home, each member of the family
chastens and polishes his own im-
mortal spirit and lends a glow to all
the loved ones. The father in the
circle of prayer expresses his grati-
tude for the household of faith, and
the small voices, in different words,
uplift themselves and others in
prayer.
Within the Church, in all its
auxiliaries, in each organization, with
its particular duties and responsibili-
ties, the individual participant is
blessed with spiritual growth, and
in his relationship to others he may
become indeed his brother's keeper.
For a certain period of time, a per-
son may be a learner and a listener
within a group, and then he may be
called to be a leader, and in both
positions there is strength to be giv-
en and blessings to be received, in
that fellowship of growth and ac-
complishment which Fourth Nephi
speaks of as walking after the com-
mandments "which they had re-
ceived from the Lord."
EDITORIAL 27
Relief Society women find joy and will possess the wisdom and devo-
fulfillment in strengthening them- tion which her other callings have
selves and yielding strength to oth- developed within her. In each and
ers. At one time a woman may be every calling, she will know that
a listener in the class; at another giving and receiving are but differ-
time she may be seated with her ent facets of a treasure passed from
companions and deftly work her hand to hand. She will know that
needle through the satin of a quilt; spiritual gifts are not for one alone,
she may be at evening time in the but are most radiant and glorious
quiet of her home studying the long- when they are shared in the world-
lasting words of a poet whose work wide sisterhood,
will be the subject of tomorrow's For us and all the world, the year
lesson. A Relief Society woman is new. The commandments and
may go forth with her companion the gospel, the promises, are old and
on errands of love and solicitude as everlasting. They are ours to re-
a visiting teacher; later, the visiting ceive and share as "heirs to the king-
teacher may become a president or dom of God."
a counselor in Relief Society, and —V. P. C.
Co/or (^omes to inside [Pages of the uielief
Society IlLagazine
The Relief Society General Board is happy to announce that
color will be introduced in future issues of The Relief Society
Magazine beginning in the March issue. The Webb Offset print-
ing press installed by the Deseret News Press makes this possible,
but necessitates trimming slightly the margin width of the Maga-
zine.
The General Board is also pleased to announce that eight
additional pages will be added to each issue of the Magazine,
beginning in February.
TO THE FIELD
x/L'ward Subscriptions ^Presented in .yxpru
T^HE award subscriptions presented to Magazine representatives for hav-
ing obtained 75 per cent or more subscriptions to the Magazine in re-
lation to their enrolled Relief Society members, are not awarded until
after the stake Magazine representatives' annual reports have been audited.
Award cards for these subscriptions for the year 1961 will be mailed to
ward and stake Magazine representatives about April 1, 1962.
ujouna volumes of ig6i 1 1 iagazines
"D ELIEF Society officers and members who wish to have their 1961 issues
of The Reliei Society Magazine bound may do so through The
Deseret News Press, 31 Richards Street, Salt Lake City 1, Utah. (See
advertisement in this issue of the Magazine.) The cost for binding the
twelve issues in a permanent cloth binding is $2.75, leather $4.20, includ-
ing the index. A limited number of the 1961 Magazines are available at
the offices of the General Board of Relief Society, 76 North Main Street,
Salt Lake City 11, Utah, for $2 for twelve issues. It is recommended that
wards and stakes have one volume of the 1961 Magazines bound for pres-
ervation in ward and stake Relief Society libraries.
cJhe cJeacher
Linnie Fishei Robinson
I spoke his word —
His garden grew;
The harvest he akeady knew.
Mine were the feet upon the hill.
Messengers of his sweet will;
I held the light that others see
And found that it transfigured me.
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cJhe I Lew 1 1 Larch of Jji
rnes
George P. Yoss
Vice-President for Public Relations
T^HE 1962 New March of Dimes campaign opens January 2. Our im-
mediate objective is to intensify the attack on birth defects, arthritis,
and polio, and thus achieve, eventually, a higher health standard for all.
Although our medical research and scholarship programs are nationally
organized, patient aid is given with March of Dimes funds at the com-
munity level. Our local chapters are in the course of expanding a bold,
new approach to patient aid — a network of Special Treatment Centers
and Evaluation Clinics. Through this system we hope to bring highly
skilled medical services to areas where they do not now exist.
When crippling is an accomplished fact; when a child is paralyzed
by a birth defect or polio, or his limbs are knotted by arthritis, he needs
Total Medical Care. Research, education, dedication, these are the basic
steps. Taken one by one, they build up total medical care under the
New March of Dimes. Research in laboratories and hospitals is opening
the way for development of new medicines and new treatment methods.
Grants to students and universities assure that the knowledge that comes
from research will be put to use. There can be no grants for dedication,
but your willingness to help, to share, sparks the efforts that are bringing
new standards of care to the chronically disabled.
Say 'Tes'' to the March of Dimes. Your dimes will do it again!
^,
am an
d LKice Cyasserole
Margaret Knipp
c. diced, cooked ham
c. cooked rice
c. cream of mushroom soup
can cream of celery soup
1
1
Vz-'A c. milk
Vs c. chopped green pepper
c. chopped onion
tbsp. pimento
c. mushroom slices
(or 1 3-0Z. can) — optional
bread crumbs
tbsp. butter
Saute pepper, onion, and mushroom slices in one tablespoon butter (if canned
mushrooms are used, just add after draining). Mix soups with milk until well blended.
Add pepper, onion, and mushrooms. Butter pan before filling and alternate layers of
ham, rice, and soup mix. Finish with soup, and sprinkle with bread crumbs. Bake in
350° oven until bubbly, about 40 minutes, depending on depth of casserole or baking
pan.
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Sow the Field With Roses
Chapter i
Margery S. Stewart
SHE was lost. She was lost a view of the sea. But, with the
somewhere in the Malibu sun gone down over the ridge, it
mountains, in country new to was difficult to tell which way was
her, on terrain inhospitable and west.
bleak. Nina Karsh reined Domi- The canyon was narrowing, the
nick in, and the mare came to a hillsides growing more steep. Per-
dancing halt. Nina braced against haps she should go back the way
the jolts and patted the damp mane, she had come, but there had been
Dominick whinnied, pleading to be cross paths here and there. She
allowed the reins. Nina rubbed the noticed in the hillside ahead a nar-
arching, golden neck. ''You are row, twisting path. She coaxed
beautiful, Dominick, but you are Dominick toward it. Dominick was
not clever, and I do not think you not eager, but he was amiable,
know the way back any more than I ''I shall most certainly buy you,"
do." Nina promised, ''and you and I will
Her voice was pushed against her hve on that absurd hilltop and make
by the silence. Nina took off her it beautiful for Danny when he
gloves and looked about. comes home this summer. I shall
There are different ways of being learn to live there," she continued
lost, she thought. Within myself briskly.
I have been lost — since Father But at once all her defenses
died, since Laura and David moved crumbled, as they had a habit of
to Milwaukee, and terribly lost since doing, and she found herself crying
Danny went away. The thought of inwardly, Danny! Danny! Why
her nephew made him rise in the don't you write? Are you so glad
brush, a tall and vital mirage. to be gone from me, then? Was it
A fox yipped in the underbrush, lonely and awful for you all the
down in the canyon a heavier body years of being brought up by an
crackled its way. Nina trembled, aunt instead of a mother and a
Who would know if anything hap- father? I tried, oh, Danny, how I
pened to her? How vulnerable she tried,
was in her loneliness. The years seized at her, Danny on
She looked about. She had been roller skates, then a bicycle, then
so engrossed in her problems, so the car. Danny with the Mother
busy thinking of Danny and won- Goose books, and then the Tarzan
dering what he was doing, and if he books, and the science fiction, and
were happy at the medical school, suddenly nothing but the sober
that she must have come miles in- tomes of anatomy and science, Lat-
land without noticing. She scanned in and German. . . . "I've decided
the hills about her. If she could to be a doctor ... as my father was."
just get to the top of one and find Fiercely telling her this, as if she
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sow THE FIELD WITH ROSES
31
would snatch his desire from him.
She hadn't wanted to do that at
all. She had only wanted to help
him achieve his desire. But Danny
had gone alone into the world of
medicine. He had closed the door
between them. He wanted to walk
the path by himself, which, after all,
was only a normal desire. Only . . .
only it left her so suddenly empty.
She had made Danny her whole life.
The earth is treacherous by the
sea, given to sudden slides. Domi-
nick plunged on the slipping earth,
rocks rattled past them. Nina held
the reins lightly. What a dolt she
had been to ride so far without
thought of where she was going.
Dominick climbed up the steep
slope, picked her way over a barbed
wire fence that had been cut and
trampled. Nina sighed with relief
as they left the edge of the gully,
where the earth crumbled under the
horse's hoofs. She took a deep
breath and looked »about her, and
saw that the sun was almost lost in
the sea. It would be dark very soon
even here on the hilltop. She saw,
to her dismay, that she should have
climbed the other side of the gully
for the great chasm was now be-
tween her and the coast.
CHE lifted her head to the sudden
sound of galloping hoofs.
Dominick wheeled in the direction
of the sound. Two men rode hard
toward them. Against her will and
her quick pride, Nina felt a wave
of fear. The men did not look
friendlv.
There were two of them. The
taller of the pair reached her first.
He was a great, gaunt rock of a
man with a canned granite face and
extraordinary eyes. The eyes, pierc-
ing her own, were gray and chill.
His hair, under the dusty black hat,
was red, as were the hairs on the
backs of his hands. Something
familiar in the turn of his face
caught Nina.
''You are Tomas Novarro?" She
looked from him to the wide sweep
of land and mountain, gully and
plain. 'Tou own all of it. ... I
was just reading. . . ."
Novarro swung off his mount and
knelt by the trampled fence. He
picked up a strand and eyed her ac-
cusingly. 'Tou did this?"
''Of course not. I wouldn't know
how to cut a fence."
His aide galloped up and stared
suspiciously at Nina. He clambered
down from his horse and went to
kneel beside Tomas Novarro. To-
gether they examined the fence and
the ground. 'This is the third time,
Mr. Novarro."
"It was done by a crowd." Tomas
Novarro stood up angrily. 'Look at
their footprints. I think it was part
of the rioters at the beach. Boys!"
He turned to glare at Nina. "What
business do you have up here, any-
way? This is private land! Mine!"
Nina smiled in what she hoped
was a winning way. "I'm lost. I
had to climb up from the gully to
see where I was."
"Where do you live?" he de-
manded.
She was forced to confess, "I'm
not terribly sure. I just moved into
the house. The agent told me it
was one of yours."
The two men consulted each oth-
er wordlessly. The aide snapped his
fingers. "Your grandmother's house."
He looked coldly at Nina. "It is a
small house," he stated, "with much
Bougainvillaea, and a bell?"
Nina sighed with relief. "Exact-
ly," She took up the reins briskly,
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JANUARY 1962
''Now if you'll tell me what direc-
tion to take to get there."
Tomas Novarro pointed down the
gully. ''Go back the way you
came, when you reach the road, turn
left. After awhile you will recog-
nize your surroundings."
"But, Mr. Novarro!" the smaller
man was plainly disturbed, "your
grandmother's house is only down
this plateau a little way. She is right
about getting lost in the gully."
"Be still, Manuel." Novarro's
voice was curt. "This will do two
things. It will teach this lady that
I meant what I said about trespass-
ers, and it will keep another fence
from being cut."
Nina sat back on Dominick. "You
are joking, Mr. Novarro."
Novarro's eyes met hers levelly.
"I have little sense of humor, but
I do have a strong feeling for what
is mine."
CHE said coldly, "Let the thought
occur to you that it might be
dangerous to send me back down
the hill. I am not an experienced
horsewoman, and I am even less
equipped to spend the night in the
canyon."
"You will be much wiser in the
morning . . . Miss. . . ."
"Nina Karsh."
"Ah!" Interest leaped into the
cold eyes. "You are the nurse whose
picture was in the paper."
Nina wet her lips. All the brief
confidence she had forced into her-
self vanished. "I am not a
nurse. . . ." She had to take a
breath. "I am an aide. The whole
thing was greatly exaggerated."
"Now I know!" Manuel regarded
her with warm interest. He lapsed
into a furious Spanish.
"It wasn't true . . . w^hat the
papers said." Nina leaned forward,
the familiar helplessness engulfing
her. "I wasn't out of my mind . . .
it was the nurse who was hysteri-
cal."
Tomas regarded her with a calm,
searching scrutiny. "But you did
thrust her into the closet and lock
the door. You did leave her
there?"
Nina felt ill. He phrased it so
badly. I suppose it will go on as
long as I live, she thought, people
hearing the story and looking at me
and wondering. . . . She said fierce-
ly to herself, I will not try to defend
myself again ever ... no one be-
lieves me.
"I left her there," she said aloud.
She lifted her head. "I am or rath-
er I was ... an aide. ... I was to
take the child to surgery. When I
went into the room the nurse, Miss
Pincus, was trying to give her a shot
—the little girl fought it, and Miss
Pincus became hysterical. . . ."
She looked at their faces, which
revealed nothing. "We had had a
long outbreak of flu. Miss Pincus
had been on duty double shift, and
was tired and upset. It wasn't really
her fault. I meant to go back and
unlock the door and . . . and help
her. But it was too late. Miss
Pincus said I . . . had suddenly done
this . . . they believed her."
A thin smile pulled at the corner
of Novarro's mouth, "And for this
humanitarian gesture they dis-
charged you?"
"I had taken matters into my
own hands. I had taken the child
to the sun room to talk to her and
quiet her before I took her upstairs.
I . . . was . . . insubordinate . . . but
the newspapers decided to make
something of it."
Manuel listened intently. He said
sow THE FIELD WITH ROSES
33
in English, ''My cousin Donna says
this lady is a painter, with many
canvases and much colors."
Nina moved uneasily on the rest-
less back of Dominick. It was
absurd the whole thing, sitting here,
waiting for the tall man's judgment.
Why didn't she go? She could move
in the morning. But the mere
thought made her limp. The little
house, on its lonely hill, had seemed
sanctuary and haven. She could not
bear to go. It was a place where she
could paint and hide . . . yes
hide, until the wounds were healed.
She lifted her chin. After all, what
could this Tomas Novarro do to her?
She had paid her rent for months
in advance. She had signed the
option that said she could, if she
wished, purchase the little house.
So why should she be leaning over
Dominick's golden neck, tense and
anxious, for the tall man's verdict?
THOMAS Novarro lifted his head.
His face had changed. It had
grown almost warm, almost gentle.
''Follow me. I'll take you to your
house. Manuel, ride ahead and cut
the fence for her."
"Oh, thank you." Gladly she
turned her horse at his gesture and
rode after him.
Novarro reined in his horse. "You
come from the East?"
"Yes. My father was ill. We
had just lost my sister and her hus-
band in an accident, I had their
little boy, Danny, to rear. This
climate has been very kind to us."
"Your father?"
"He died . . . and Danny is a
grown young man, he's gone East
to medical school." She bit her
lip. "Danny was ... is ... a
wonderful person. I miss him very
much."
"You are not married?"
Her patience was at an end. "No,"
she said curtly and galloped ahead
after the disappearing figure of
Manuel. What right did this man
have to ask all these questions? Did
he expect her to turn and say,
"Yes, once there was a boy I loved
. . . very much. But when my sis-
ter and her husband were killed,
when my father's health failed,
when Danny cried in loneliness and
fear, I could not leave them, and
the boy could not wait."
She looked about her at the fast
darkening hills. The pain had never
gone away. The years had made
no difference to that first and ter-
rible loss.
Tomas Novarro galloped up.
"Was it important to you . . . the
child's crying? After all, she was a
stranger to you? Why didn't you
pass by? You could have returned
after a discreet interval."
Nina regarded him steadily. "I
am thirty-nine years old," she said,
"and that is a nice distance into
maturity. I have learned many
things, but not yet to be a by-
stander where a child is involved.
I'm sorry. . . ."
"Thank you. Miss Karsh." He
pointed down the hill. "There is
your house, and Manuel has cut the
fence."
Nina slowed down to a walk. "It
must be wonderful to own so
much."
Novarro gave her a brief smile.
"All this has been my people's for
a very long time. It was one of the
first great Spanish land grants. My
father lost most of it. My mother
never quite forgave him for that."
"Nor have you," she said and bit
her lip.
His face darkened. "I have made
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JANUARY 1962
Up for it. I have lands in Mexico
and in Texas and in Canada. No
one will take anything of mine
away from me."
Nina looked at his red hair. ''Not
all your people were Spanish."
''My mother was English. She
had pale hair, like yours, but her
eyes were brown, not blue, like
yours . . . she had a beautiful
skin."
"I freckle easily," Nina said, burn-
ing under his glance.
She got down from Dominick and
led him around the barbed wire. But
when she would have mounted him
again, she found herself without a
stump or a rock to stand upon and
she was too short to reach the sad-
dle.
Novarro came to her, dismounted,
and held out his hands.
"No thank you." She was furi-
ous at the prim sound of her voice
on the dark evening air.
"Nonsense." He took her in his
arms and lifted her into the saddle.
"You are a very thorny young wom-
an. Miss Karsh."
He was laughing at her. For one
long angry moment Nina fought
the impulse to lean down and strike
the smile from his face. "Good day,
Mr. Novarro."
"Goodbye, Miss Karsh. It has
been most interesting."
Arrogant, horrible, impudent
man! Nina breathed other descrip-
tions under her breath as she un-
saddled Dominick and locked the
gate of his small corral.
CHE walked slowly toward the
darkened house. How beautiful
it was here in this fast darkening
night. The wind was making a
song of its own in the chinaberry
tree and the jasmine at the corner
of the house mingled its heady frag-
rance with the orange blossoms,
waxy and new, on the small bright
tree. The long, pillared porch, with
its ancient wicker furniture wel-
comed her. She touched the chairs
in passing. Had Tomas Novarro's
grandmother sat here in the long
spring evenings, watching the lights
spring up in the houses, far down in
the valley, listening to the wild
things moving in the thicket?
A great bell hung in the last arch.
Nina moved her hand lightly on the
cold surface. The agent had hinted
at some romantic reason for the bell,
but grim realism had pointed out
the necessity for such a bell in a
region so lonely and so prone to
fires. Nina swung the bell a little.
She had never heard its tone. So
large a bell would make a ringing
that would bring the canyon peo-
ple for miles around.
She went into the house, turned
on the lamps. That was the worst
of living alone, coming home to
darkness and to shadows that whis-
pered and stirred. There was
always a tense moment of standing
still when the lights were lit, until
a quick peering into corners gave the
feeling that all was well.
The living room was long and
narrow, with a great stone fireplace
at the far end. Nina went to it,
gladly took a match from its box
and lighted the shavings under the
logs. The fire leaped up. The room
became rich with gilding light and
flame.
In the small kitchen Nina made
herself a bowl of bread and milk.
She brought the frugal meal back to
the hearth. She sat in silence and
ate. It had been a long day . . .
and a strange one. How Danny
would have listened while she told
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35
him about it. She missed him so
much. But soon he would be here.
All summer long his whistle would
plague the mockingbirds. He would
be delighted with Dominick.
/^N impulse she put aside her
bowl and went out of the
house, down the long, dark, winding
path to the road where the mailbox
stood. He had not written in weeks,
but when she thrust her fingers
into the box she was at once re-
warded with the rustling of an
envelope. She raced back to the
house. The letter was from Dannv.
How foolish she had been to fret
and worry. She tore open the en-
velope and read the hasty lines.
You would love Joan, Aunt Nina. She
is so tall and beautiful. Her people have
lived in Philadelphia since Benjamin
Franklin, and the way they talk, you
would think he was still alive. So we're
going to be married, at the end of June.
. . . Invitation on its way. ... So we'll
live here. Her uncle is in pediatrics, and
I rather think that will be ni)^ line. . . .
He seems to want me to go in with him,
and he is getting on in years. . . .
Nina let the paper drift to the
floor. The fire had settled down to
softly flaring ashes. She stared into
them. Face yourself . Someone had
said that about agonies.
Nina walked woodenly to the
long mirror by the door. Her pale
hair, as that man, Mr. Novarro, had
described it, was bright around her
face. Her blue eyes looked back
blankly; the freckles were very clear
in her pale face. She was thin and
not beautiful as women were beau-
tiful today. She was too slight . . .
too understated . . . people had dif-
ficulty remembering her name. That
was why they had looked at her
askance in the hospital. She did not
look like a woman who would do a
rash, impulsive thing. She had
nothing of talent . . . well, perhaps
her painting. She looked at the can-
vases on the wall. Were they good?
Were they bad? Her father and
Danny had been loudly approving,
but she had not summoned courage
to display them.
Once she had read that when a
door closes it is then that another
door might open. But since Danny
had gone, there had been only a
succession of quietly closing doors.
She had not known how wide a
world he had given her.
Nina looked around the room
curiously. It was all in perfect
order. Then why did she have the
impression of ruins about her feet?
Why was there suddenly terror in
the sound of the wind and the fall-
ing pods from the eucalyptus tree?
Where does a woman go, when
there is no place to go? What does
she do with the empty years, when
she is no longer important to those
she loves?
Suddenly through the house rang
the imperious summons of the great
brass knocker on the ancient heavy
door.
Nina stood frozen, waiting for the
sound to repeat itself, trying to en-
vision the hand that lifted the
knocker at this late and lonelv hour.
(To be continued)
aionieniade (^andi/ for Vl/inter ibvenings
Caroline Layton Naylor
Date Roll
1 lb. pkg. fresh dates i c. chopped walnuts
1 lb. pkg. marshmallows i small pkg. Nabiscoes
1 pkg. coconut
Put dates, marshmallows, and coconut through food chopper. Add walnuts to
mixture. Roll out in long roll and cover with crushed Nabiscoes. Wrap in wax
paper and put in refrigerator until firm and chilled. Cut and serve.
Pralines
2 c. white sugar pinch of salt
1 tsp. baking soda 2 tbsp. butter
1 e. buttermilk 2 e. pecans or peanuts
Mix together in large boiling pan. Cook briskly, stirring frequently to prevent
burning. Cook 210° F. Stir in two tablespoons of butter. Stir continuously to 230°
and remo\e from heat. Cool slightly. Beat until thick and creamy. Add nuts, stir,
and drop from spoon onto wax paper.
Boston Creams
4 c. sugar pinch of salt
3 c. milk nut meats
Put one cup of sugar into large (deep) boiling pan. Heat slowly, stirring con-
stantly, until the sugar is melted and turns a light brown color. Remove from heat
and slowly add one cup of milk. This will form a hard brittle mixture. Place back
over heat. Stir until mixture is melted and boiling. Add one cup of sugar, melt, and
boil. Add one more cup of milk. Add one more cup of sugar and one more cup of
milk, boil, and add last cup of sugar and boil to 240° F. Be sure to start and end
with one cup of sugar. Remove from heat and cool for half an hour, then place in
refrigerator until mixture is cold. Beat while cold and add nut meats if desired.
Roll into long rolls and wrap in wax paper. If necessary mold with butter or cream.
Chocolate Fudge
4 c. sugar 1 tbsp. vanilla
1 Yz e. milk pinch of salt
4 tbsp. cocoa 1 piece of butter
4 tbsp. corn syrup
Mix sugar, milk, cocoa, corn syrup, vanilla, and salt well until sugar dissolves. Then
heat and cook fast, stirring constantly until mixture reaches 240° F. Remove from
heat and add a small piece of butter. Do not stir in. Cool for half an hour, then
place in refrigerator until cold. Bent until creamy and roll in wax paper.
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JLeota n Lurphy^ 1 1 Lakes LKugs of LLfuque ^JUesign
T EOTA Murphy, Hayden, Arizona, has developed artistic skill in making rugs from
•^-^ discarded clothing. One style is made with a special crooked needle with which
thousands of woolen strips (cut on the bias) are crocheted together with a hidden warp
that runs through the center of each strip. Another type is made from cotton strips
woven on a loom.
In addition to rugs, Mrs. Murphy fashions beautiful quilt tops from sewing rem-
nants. Her fame has traveled far, and many people collect and send her material for
her work. Her durable and attractive rugs and quilts grace the homes of many friends
and relatives.
Mrs. Murphy was born in West Virginia, and later lived in Iowa, where she
heard the gospel message and was con\'erted to the Church. Her life is an example
of thrift, industry, kindness to neighbors and friends, and love of God.
Mary Ek Knowles, Ogden, Utah, has won much recognition for her short stories.
She is a member of the Blue Quill, a writers club of Ogden, and has served several times
as president of the State organization League of Utah W^riters. In a brief sketch of her
life and activities, she tells us: "I was born in McGill, Ne\ada, but reared in Salt Lake
City, Utah. I have a wonderful husband, Rowland, and three grown children: Janet,
Ernest, and Larry; a handsome new grandson, Stuart, and a beautiful new granddaughter,
Teressa Ann. My eighty-two-year-old father. Alma Ek, lives in Merced, California.
"I have always been interested in writing, and have had stories published in
American Magazine, Cosmopolitan, Todnw's Woman, Chatelaine, Toronto Star Weekly,
and such religious publications as The Impiovenient Era, The ReUef Society Magazine,
and Extension. Many of my stories have been reprinted in foreign countries. I am
pleased that my story "Ten Dollars Will Buy Many Things" won recognition, because
I belie\e so devoutly in the theme. I ser\ed as literature class leader in the Ogden
Twenty-third Ward for seven and a half years."
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Because of the Word
Chapter 6 (Conclusion)
HazeJ M. Thomson
RUTH lay on the bed and wept
for a long time. Alone! Here
in Kirtland on the edge of
nowhere, the baby almost due, and
Vic gone! And living among peo-
ple, most of whom she still con-
sidered strangers.
At last, her fury spent at Vic for
being able to even think of leaving
her now, she sat up and looked
dully around the tiny room. The
house! That was it! With Vic
gone she could negotiate openly
and even be moved in the new house
when he returned. She slid heavily
from the bed, walked to the wash-
stand and poured cold water from
the pitcher. She splashed it again
and again over her swollen eyes.
Inwardly, she knew that this was
her way of repaying Vic for what she
felt to be gross inconsideration.
With everyone else giving their all
for the temple, or to build up Zion
in Missouri, he would be more em-
barrassed at her buying the house
right now than he was when she
wore a different kind of dress to
church.
Ruth put on her bonnet and
started for the temple lot. This
was where she would find Mr.
Smathers who owned the house.
She saw Mary out in the yard as she
passed, but did not stop to chat.
She remembered talking to Vic
about Mr. Smathers, old and crip-
pled with rheumatism, when Vic
had mentioned the pain the old man
suffered.
"Why doesn't Joseph or someone
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send him home where he belongs?"
Ruth had asked.
''And break an old man's heart?"
Vic had answered. 'This isn't just
a building to him, Ruth. It is the
temple of God. He has said many
times that it is the greatest privi-
lege of his life just to work on it."
"You're always saying how they
need every able-bodied man they
can get. I have no quarrel with
that," Ruth had continued, "but
anyone can see that he certainly
isn't able-bodied."
"He can stand guard as well as
anyone," Vic had answered quietly.
"Someone has to, or the actions of
the mob right here in Kirtland
would prevent the temple's ever be-
ing completed. Besides, he gives
invaluable advice on how to build
it, from his long experience. He
has a new idea for finishing the out-
side."
Ruth could see the old man as
she drew near, seated near the front
of the building, working with ham-
mer and chisel on the great pile of
stone. His gun lay nearby.
A S the Prophet had said, the work
was going forward, though Ruth
could see that the working force was
much smaller than usual. Strange,
how in her own mind, she always
referred to Joseph as the Prophet,
just as Vic did.
Mr. Smathers recognized her at
once and knew also why she had
come, from their previous conversa-
tions.
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''Mrs. Hall/' he said, reaching Ruth followed the old man, step-
out his hand, the fingers drawn for- ping carefully among the bits of
ward by years of pain. "You want smaller stone that lay on the
to know about the house, I reckon, ground. I'hey stood inside the
Well, it's still for sale. That little great rectangular structure, the
one of yours will suit me better any- bright May sky brilliant above them,
way, since my wife has gone on. In one corner near the door, Ruth
rd be right proud at my age to be noticed a pile of dishes, some whole,
able to make a sizable contribu- some broken odds and ends, on a
tion in money to the temple. I piece of canvas,
work every day all right, but no use ''What is that?" she asked
fooling myself about how much curiously,
work I can do." "We're asking the sisters to give
"Oh, Mr. Smathers," said Ruth, pieces of china that they can spare,
"you make me so happy. Fll love It will be made into a fine dust and
having your house, and Fll take care added to the final outer coating of
of it just as your wife would have." plaster. I saw it done once. Made
"Fm sure of that, and, because I the building glisten as if it were set
am, I can sell the house. You see, with jewels when the sun hit it."
I built it just as my wife wanted, "How very interesting," said Ruth,
and it was only finished a few short "Vic told me that you knew many
years before she died." The old things about building. Well, I
man was silent for a moment, a must be going now. Fll see what I
faraway look clouding his eyes, then can do and talk to you again in a
he said, "When would you like to few days."
move in? Not until Brother Hall Trying to find an available
gets back, I suppose?" wagon and team and a man who
"That's just it," said Ruth. "I had time to move her belongings
want to surprise him." was more of a task than Ruth had
"But, Ma'am," said Mr. Smathers counted on. The expedition had
shyly, "you — you're in no condi- taken at least twenty teams, besides
tion to be doing a lot of heavy work, many other horses. Other than
if you'll excuse me for saying it." those busy hauling materials for the
Ruth smiled. "That's true, but temple, there did not seem to be
since it is all right with you, I will any other horses in all of Kirtland.
see if I can get enough help to man- Mary was busy in preparations for
age it. The money is ready any- her wedding planned for August,
time." The two girls spent many after-
Then she looked again at the noons together, sewing either on
temple. "The work keeps right something for Mary or clothes for
on," said Ruth, "even though so the temple workers. Her davs passed
many men did go on the expedi- pleasantly enough, but many times
tion." in the night Ruth awoke, trembling
"Yes," said Mr. Smathers, rising with fear at nightmarish dreams,
stiffly to his feet. "Come inside with Vic himself in the hands of
and see how much progress has been the mob.
made." Sometimes, Ruth found herself
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unable to sleep, lighting the lamp
and reading the book far into the
morning hours. If she onh' read
long enough, she told herself, she
would invariably doze off. Ruth
knew the Bible fairly well, and as
slic read of Christ's visit and teach-
ings to the Nephites her soul thrilled
with the similarity and beauty of his
words.
r)Y July, she began to look daily
for Vic's return. One rainy
afternoon, which Mary as usual
spent with her, realizing the nearness
of Ruth's time, Ruth insisted on
beginning to pack in preparation
for moving into her new home.
''But, Ruth, you mustn't," pro-
tested Mary.
''But I must," answered Ruth.
"If Vic gets back and hears what I
have done, he likely will refuse to
move at all. If the weather stays
bad, Fm sure I can get someone
to come and help for a day."
Ruth knew she felt unusually
tired, as Mary prepared to leave for
the night.
"I hate leaving you alone tonight.
Perhaps I should stay."
"I really don't feel like myself,
Mary. I. . . ."
A bright flash of lightning cut
through the room, followed by an
earth-shaking clap of thunder,
drowning out Ruth's words.
In the brightness of the flash,
Ruth's face was contorted with pain.
"This is it, Mary!" she cried.
"Run for Mrs. Hunter! Hurry!"
But this was not it, at least not
until after many pain-filled, weary
hours had passed. During an inter-
val between pains, Ruth asked Mary
to read something to her from the
book. The words came to her viv-
idly and clearly.
And now, as I said unto you, that be-
cause ye were compelled to be humble
ye were blessed, do ye not suppose that
they arc more blessed who truly humble
thcmschcs because of the word? . . .
Therefore, blessed are they who humble
themsehes without being compelled to be
humble; or rather, in other words, blessed
is he that bclieveth in the word of God,
and is baptized without stubbornness of
heart. . . .
Ruth felt the force of the message
more strongly than even the pain
that encompassed her. It was
enough. At last she knew the truth.
\/\/'HEN Ruth awoke, the sun was
high and Mrs. Hunter was
leaning over her bed.
"Sister Hall! Sister Hall! You're
going to be all right! You have a
wonderful, beautiful son."
Vic's baby. And it was a boy.
It meant something that her first
thought had been for his happiness
rather than just her own. This was
what Vic himself would have done.
All this time she had been fighting
the very part of him that had first
made him so dear, his ability to set
his own affairs aside in the interest
of others, his kindness, his thought-
ful consideration.
Through the open door, Ruth
could hear the low voices of several
women. Word had been passed
along and she knew that they had
come from their sleep, willing and
eager to be of help. She could smell
something cooking and realized how
good a bowl of broth would taste.
Then Mrs. Hunter returned to
the room and placed the baby by
Ruth on the bed. Looking for the
first time at her son, it seemed that
BECAUSE OF THE WORD
41
all the events of her life had been
aimed at this moment of fulfillment.
During the time she was regain-
ing her strength, Ruth wondered
often how she could ever have
thought of the women of Kirtland
as strangers. They took complete
charge of her, the baby, and the
house, and the feeling among them
made Ruth realize that when they
called each other ''sister,'* they
meant it, indeed.
It seemed that nearly everyone in
the village called. Ruth was not sur-
prised when even Mr. Smathers ar-
rived to get a glimpse of the new
baby.
''I wanted to see you, Mr. Smath-
ers," she said, taking the gnarled,
old hand.
'1 suppose you will be more anx-
ious than ever to get into the house,''
he said. ''Mighty fine baby, Mrs.
Hall."
"That's just what I wanted to talk
to you about. Mr. Smathers, I
know you dislike the thoughts of
leaving your house. I have decided
not to buy it."
"But I do want to make a con-
tribution, and I have no cash nor
can I see any way to raise some
right now," protested the old man.
"The contribution will be made,"
said Ruth, "and partly in your
name. No, don't try to stop me.
Seeing your faith has given me
something more precious than all
the houses in the world. Vic was
right when he said yours was truly
a faith like that of the ancients."
Ruth prevailed upon Mr. Smath-
ers to take care of the transaction
and noticed how proud he looked
as he limped away from the little
house. She knew that Vic's satis-
faction in what she had done would
be not a shade less than her own
happiness.
Still, the past weighed heavily up-
on Ruth. She felt so unworthy of
this peace and well-being that filled
her soul, even in her desperate lone-
liness for Vic. She had entrusted
him to the care of her Father in
heaven and had relaxed her worry
for his safety.
Vic had given all that he could,
his time, his efforts, and had borne
her taunts and reproaches without
complaint, doing what he knew he
must. The desire to make further
compensation grew strong within
her, yet what more had she to offer?
Then an idea came to her.
TT was on the first afternoon that
the sisters who had become so
dear to her, finally agreed to leave
her alone, that Ruth had a chance
to put her plan into action. She
found an old piece of wagon co\'er
which she spread out on the table.
Then she walked out in the yard
and picked up a rock. No use look-
ing for a hammer. Vic had long
since taken every tool they had to
the temple lot. Inside again, she
reached the dishes down from the
top shelf. Working quickly, she
pounded one piece of the china and
then another into fragments, feel-
ing a severing of her former intense
desires with each blow.
So engrossed was she in the task
that she failed to hear Vic's foot-
steps until he spoke.
"Ruth!" he cried, clasping her
hard by the shoulders. "Ruth!
Whatever are you doing? Have you
lost your mind?"
"Lost it, Vic? No, I haven't lost
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it. Fve found it! I have found, at
last, the testimony you have been
praying for."
Vic turned her slowly toward
him and she heard him catch his
breath.
"Ruth! The baby "
''Asleep in the bedroom," she
said, smiling up at him. ''He's a
little copy of his father."
"A son! We have a son!" Ruth
saw the wonder and the love in his
eyes. "Ruth, Ruth, and I left you
to bear it all alone."
"I wasn't alone, Vic. Not by any
means. I never knew how kind
people could be. You must never
blame yourself for going, Vic. I
have only now begun to realize
what it cost you to go. But, come.
See your son."
Together they looked down at the
sleeping babe. Vic reached out his
hand and touched the tiny fist. The
fingers closed around one of his.
Ruth watched Vic, his face glowing
with happiness. At last she said,
"Come on. Get a rock and help
me pound up the rest of the dishes.
You must take them to Brother
Smathers up at the temple to use
for the walls. If we hurry there
may still be time for me to be bap-
tized before it gets dark."
of oot steps
Catherine B. Bowles
^'Hold up my goings in thy paths, that my footsteps slip not" (Psalms 17:5)
Footsteps, footsteps, here and there
Searching, hunting everywhere —
In the wood, through the heather,
Facing sun or stormy weather.
Some lead over the rocky ridge,
In dark places where the light
Dims the way, obscures the sight;
Missing flowers along the way,
Singing birds, the sun's bright ray,
Gentle clasp of friendship's hand
And many beauties of the land.
Footsteps, footsteps, lead aright.
Walk in paths that bring delight.
Let our footsteps e\'er be
A pathway to eternity.
FROM THE FIELD
T^
General Secretary-Treasurer HuJda Parker
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Handbook of Instructions.
\
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Thelma G. Maloy
MOUNT GRAHAM STAKE (ARIZONA) VISITING TEACHER CONVENTION
April 14, 1961
Thelma G. Maloy, former president, Mount Graham Stake Relief Society, reports:
*The Mount Graham Stake Visiting Teacher Convention was held April 14, 1961. We
had two hundred in attendance. We have three hundred visiting teachers in our stake
and feel that we had a very good attendance, as our wards are so scattered and there
are long distances to travel,
"The program 'Messengers of Love and Service' was presented. We had thirteen
visiting teachers dressed in costumes representing eleven countries and other localities:
Mexico, Japan, Scotland, Denmark, England, Argentina, Switzerland, Holland, Indians,
Sweden, the Islands, Germany, and France. The program was enjoyed by all, and these
visiting teachers radiated love for their work, even though they traveled a long way
to attend."
Millie Kelly is the present president of Mount Graham Stake Relief So.ciety.
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Photograph submitted by Marian Mathewson
NYSSA STAKE (OREGON) PRESENTS CHORAL PAGEANT "VISITING
TEACHERS THROUGHOUT THE WORLD" AT VISITING
TEACHER CONVENTION
Marian Mathewson, President, Nyssa Stake Relief Society reports: "An outstanding
feature of the Nyssa Stake annual visiting teacher convention was a choral pageant
depicting the theme 'Visiting Teachers Throughout the World.' As the women came
down the chapel aisle, two by two, dressed in native costume, a choral narration about
the country represented was given to appropriate background music. Fourteen countries
were thus represented. Pictured above are the women participating in this pageant.
At this convention we honored the ward having the highest attendance at the conven-
tion, as well as the oldest and youngest teachers present."
Photograph submitted by Gladys Wilson
NEBO STAKE (UTAH), PAYSON FOURTH WARD ACHIEVES ONE
HUNDRED PER CENT ATTENDANCE AT VISITING TEACHER MEETING
April 1961
Front row, seated, left to right: Ramona Schaerrer; May Kapple; Alpha Balle;
Audry Rasmussen; Tessie Drissell; Alta Coombs, Secretary-Treasurer; Alice Robertson,
President; June Fullmer, Education Counselor; Ruby Cheever, Work Director Coun-
selor; Mary Nielson; Margaret Cloward; Leah Francom.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
45
Second row, standing, left to right: Eva Crook; Ilia McKinnen; Ethel Smith; Eva
Hendricksen; Delia Chatwin; Lucille Allen; Pearl Graves; Alice Schwab; Eva Garner;
W^ilma Smith; Fannv McClellan; Nelda Herbert; Sarah Grant, Laura Cloward.
Third row, standing, left to right: Mamie Curtis; Maida Hardy; Betty Mower; Rhea
McBeth; Burl Provstgaard; Zola Dixon; Areola DeWitt; Anna Reynolds; Elaine Martin;
LaVonda Anderson; Martha Chard; Bertha Jones; Permelia Mayer; Karine Carter.
Not present when the picture was taken: Florence Mitchell, Cora Montague, and
Nancy Provstgaard.
Gladys Wilson, President, Nebo Stake Rehef Society, reports: "The presidency
of Nebo Stake Relief Society encouraged the eight wards of our stake to make a special
effort in April for one hundred per cent of the visiting teachers to attend the visiting
teacher meeting. All wards put forth a special effort. We were very happy with the
result. Three wards had every visiting teacher present who was physically able to attend.
The Fourth Ward had one hundred per cent attendance.
"The entire stake benefited by raising the attendance considerably, not only on
that day, but also at the visiting teacher meeting the following month. In appreciation
for their splendid acceptance of the challenge put to them, the presidency presented
the four wards achieving the highest percentage present a picture of the visiting
teachers, framed, to hang in their Relief Society room."
Photograph submitted by Vida H. Curry
LAS VEGAS NORTH STAKE PRESIDENCY AND RELIEF SOCIETY
PRESIDENCY AT THE VISITING TEACHER CONVENTION
May 13, 1961
Standing, left to right: Mary Worthen and Ila Gustin, Counselors; Vida LI. Curry,
President, Las Vegas North Stake Relief Society; ^^^i^iam Taylor, President, Las Vegas
North Stake; Sam Davis and Arden Sampson, Counselors.
Sister Curry reports that the program for the visiting teacher conxention consisted
of an address by President Taylor, skits by members of the various wards, the film
"Unto the Least of These," and a tribute to \isiting teachers written bv Mrs. Lamar
Leavitt. A fine group of \isiting teachers from each ward attended the convention, and
after the program a luncheon was served. "We have one hundred per cent visiting
teaching in our stake since we were organized in November i960, and we hope to con-
tinue this record."
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Photograph submitted by Barbara C. Taylor
SOUTHERN FAR EAST MISSION, TRI-DISTRICT SINGING MOTHERS
PRESENT MUSIC AT CONFERENCE, July 15, 1961
Barbara C. Taylor, President, Southern Far East Mission Relief Society, reports
the completion of a very successful Tri-District Conference held in the Hong Kong
area. Of the four-day conference, one of the highlights was the Relief Society session
held on the evening of July 15, 1961. Relief Society sisters from the three member
districts in Hong Kong met together in a well-planned and very inspirational meeting,
which was well received by the seventy sisters and friends present. One of the fine
points of the program was the music presented by the Singing Mothers. Many of this
group are not mothers, and some of them are not married, but because of the en-
thusiastic attitude and the desire to serve, the sisters joined in the chorus. The mission
chorister is Nora Koot.
Photograph submitted by Cacia F. Margetts
WELLS STAKE (UTAH), WILSON WARD VISITING TEACHERS COMPLETI
FOURTEEN YEARS OF ONE HUNDRED PER CENT VISITING TEACHINC
Cacia F. Margetts, former president. Wells Stake Relief Society, reports: "Th
Wilson Ward was organized in May 1946, at which time Verda Pyper (fourth fron
the left on the first row) was sustained as president, with Ellen Kiser as first counseloi
Stella Hansen, second counselor, and Florence Webb (seventh from the left on th'
first row) as secretary-treasurer, and Eliza English (fourth from the right on the firs
row) as visiting teacher message leader.
"The importance of the visiting teacher meeting and the privilege of entering th
homes was greatly stressed. Because of the enthusiastic and untiring.., efforts of Edit)
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47
Koellikcr (fifth from the left on the first row), who was appointed supervisor over all
visiting teachers, seven years of a one hundred per eent reeord was achieved. Sister
Koelliker was then released as supervisor and sustained as Magazine representati\'e on
the stake board, but continued on as a visiting teacher.
"In 1954 ^ change in Wilson Ward Relief Society presidency was made, and
Ada Clark (fourth from the left on the second row) was sustained as president, with
Lucilc Seaman (seventh from the left on the second row) as visiting teacher message
leader, and Florence Webb, supervisor, and five more years of one hundred per cent
visiting teaching was achieved.
"The third president (1958), Sadie Loveless, who had been a counselor and also
served for one year on the stake board, was sustained, with Elly Tron (fourth from
the left on the third row) as visiting teacher message leader, and Edna Frenette (third
from the left on the second row) as supervisor. All sisters mentioned are still serving
as \'isiting teachers in this ward.
"Behedcre Second Ward and Waterloo \\^ard have completed six years of one
hundred per cent visiting teaching."
Veda Black Askew is the new president of \\^ells Stake Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Blanche George
MILLARD STAKE (UTAH) VISITING TEACHERS HONORED FOR
PERFECT ATTENDANCE, May 1961
Front row, seated, left to right: Ruth Bennett; Ada Stewart; Betty Rasmussen;
Thelma Wilcox; Mary Jane Paxton; Sarah Stringham; Jennette Robison; Blanche Swal-
low; Florence Beeston.
Back row, standing, left to right: Blanche George, President, Millard Stake Relief
Society; Lula Gull; Syhia Jensen; Beth Crosland; Lillian Rogers; Edna Hogan; Ruth
Mary Brower; Rebecca McKibbon; Zella Allen; Gloria Tompkinson; Elda Whitaker;
Irene Paxton; Gladys \\'arner; Mae Davies,
Not present when the picture was taken: Georgia Day, Jane Christensen, Violet
Greenhalgh, and Grace Staples.
Sister George reports: "Twenty-six visiting teachers were especially honored at our
visiting teacher convention for their one hundred per cent attendance at visiting teacher
meetings during the past year. The program consisted of two short plays on visiting
teaching, musical numbers from the stake Singing Mothers, and a talk by the stake
visiting teacher message leader. Special recognition was gi\en to those sisters having
a one hundred per cent attendance at visiting teacher meetings. Refreshments were
served."
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Photoj?iaph submitted by Elnora T. Loveland
WEST BOISE STAKE (IDAHO) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR
STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, May 7, 1961
Front row, seated, left to right, beginning third from the right: Elnora T. Love-
land, former president. West Boise Stake Relief Society; LaRue Campbell, chorister; Mar-
guerite K. Ward, First Counselor.
Geneva I. Peterson, Second Counselor, was absent when the picture was taken;
^rganist Karma R, Echols was also absent.
Sister Loveland reports: "These sisters sang 'Come, Ye Blessed of My Father' by
Florence }. Madsen, and 'God Is Ever Beside Me,' and they were most beautiful.
President D. Keith Ricks expressed his appreciation and the sentiments of all present,
when he commented on the beauty of the renditions." j
Afton A. Ellison is the new president of West Boise Stake Relief Society,
Photograph submitted by Dessie W. Thomas
NEW JERSEY STAKE SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR STAKE
QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, June 18, 1961
Alma Williams, chorister, stands at the left in the front row (in dark dress); La
verne Robertson, accompanist, is seated at the organ.
Dessie W. Thomas, President, New Jersey Stake Relief Society, reports: "The
New Jersey Stake Singing Mothers made their first appearance on June 18, 1961, as thev
furnished the music for stake quarterly conference. New Jersey Stake was organized
in i960, with Dessie W. Thomas as president of the Relief Society, with Anna M
Davics as education counselor, Phyllis B. Daniels, work meeting counselor, and Adek
Ray Koziar, as secretary-treasurer."
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49
Photograph submitted by Luella M. Buchi
RIVERSIDE STAKE (UTAH) ELDERLY VISITING TEACHERS HONORED
AT CON\^ENTION, June 2, 1961
Front row, seated, left to right: Amelia Jones, eighty-four; Janet Bridge, eighty-
three; Alzina Whitehead, eighty-two.
Baek row, standing, left to right: Elvina Holt, eighty-five; Sarah Harman, ninety;
Hannah Jones, eight\'-three. Daphne Hartle, seventy-eight, was not present \\hen the
picture was taken.
Luella M. Buchi, President, Riverside Stake Relief Society, reports: "These sisters
were honored for their faithful service. They are still acti\ely engaged in \isiting teach-
ing. Each sister represents the eldest in her ward. Their combined years of visiting
teaching total 228 years.
"A lovely luncheon was prepared and served by the stake Relief Society board to
236 sisters present. The skit 'The Improper and Proper Way of Visiting Teaching'
was presented and enjo}ed. The Twenty-ninth W^ard Relief Society put on a cle\'er
Taf-Vu of Fashions' in which thirty members participated. Vocal selections were
rendered by a trio, Janice Smith, Eunice Calagory, and Carmen Mann. Each ward
had a wonderful display of handiwork and other articles made during the past season.
Exeryone acclaimed this as one of the finest conventions we ha\'e had."
QJlanie J/Lgainst o/7ow
Maude Kuhin
Lo\"e was a candle in the April wind —
Unthinned
Its burning; flaring in bright design through
autumn's lambent glov\'.
Now, like a ripened burl of pine.
Amber with lucent power.
Love warms this white December hour . . .
Fire on the evening hearth, flame against drifted snow
LESSON DEPARTMENT
cJiieologu — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 39 — The Revelation to William W. Phelps
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: Doctrine and Covenants: Section 55)
For Tuesday, April 3, 1962
Objectixe: To study the contribution of a talented Latter-day Saint who helped
move the kingdom of God forward.
IV/TANY men of exceptional talent
joined The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints not long
after its formal organization in the
spring of 1830. The Lord knew the
needs of the Prophet and the men
who could help him most. Among
those who had indicated a desire to
join the Church at this early period
was William Wine Phelps who will
long be remembered by the saints
because of his contribution to the
hymnology of the Church. He made
his impress upon the history of this
dispensation in many other ways,
however.
According to the Prophet's jour-
nal, William W. Phelps and his
family arrived in Kirtland, Ohio,
about the middle of June 1831, as
the Prophet was preparing for his
first journey to Missouri. Because
Mr. Phelps desired 'To do the will
of the Lord,'' the Prophet inquired
of the Lord concerning him and the
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revelation (Section 55) for study in
this lesson was received. (See
DH.C. 1:184-185.)
Background oi Section 55
William W. Phelps was in his
fortieth year when he came to Kirt-
land. Before this he had been active
in politics in New York State and
had been the editor of a newspaper
for the Anti-Masonic Party. It was
while thus employed in Canandai-
gua, New York, only a short distance
from Palmyra, that he bought a
copy of The Book of Mormon which
had just come off the press With
an intimate knowledge of the Bible,
he and his wife compared it with
The Book of Mormon. A few years
later (1835), he wrote this about
the influence The Book of Mormon
had upon him :
From the first time I read this volume
of volumes, even till now, I have been
struck with a kind of sacred joy at its
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title page. What a wonderful volume!
^^^hat a glorious treasure! By that book,
I have learned the right way to God; by
that book I received the fulness of the
e\erlasting gospel; by that book I found
the new covenant; by that book I learned
when the Lord had set his hand the sec-
ond time to gather his people; by that
book I learned that the New Jerusalem,
even Zion was to be built upon this conti-
nent; by that book I found a key to the
holy prophets; and by that book began
to unfold the mysteries of God, and I was
made glad. Who can tell his goodness,
or estimate the worth of such a book?
He only who is directed by the Holy
Ghost in all things; and has kept all his
Lord's commandments blameless through
life. ^
[The above quotation, with other bio-
graphical material in this lesson, is taken
from an unpublished thesis written by
Walter Dean Bowen of the Ghurch Semi-
nary System.]
William W. Phelps' conversion
to the gospel through The Book of
Mormon had given to him and his
wife a desire to meet Joseph Smith.
This was accomplished toward the
end of December 1830. Of this
event, Brother Phelps recorded his
feelings as follows:
Now, notwithstanding my body was not
baptized into this church, yet my heart
was here from the time I became acquaint-
ed with the Book of Mormon; and my
hope, steadfast like an anchor, and my
faith increased like the grass after a re-
freshing shower, when I for the first time
held a conversation with our beloved
brother Joseph who I was willing to
acknowledge as a prophet of the Lord, and
to whom, and to whose godly account of
himself and the work he was engaged in,
I owe my first determination to quit the
folly of my way, and the fancy and fame
of this world, and seek the Lord and his
righteousness, in order to enter a better
world. . . .
Such was the impression made
upon Brother Phelps by the Proph-
et. The way had been prepared,
however, by the witness of the Holy
Ghost to his soul.
Section 55
Six months later, the Lord, by
revelation, called upon Brother
Phelps to be baptized. Significantly,
he would not be chosen unless he
was obedient to the commandment
given. The Lord calls men, but only
a relatively few are chosen because
their thoughts and aspirations are
upon the things of this world. The
essential message of the gospel for
the investigator is given in verse 1
of this revelation (D & C 55:1).
Every convert receives a remission
of sins by obedience to the com-
mandment that his faith and re-
pentance are sincere, with the intent
that his act of obedience to baptism
will be pointed to the glory of God.
It is the Lord's work and glory to
bring about the eternal life of man.
Acceptance of the gospel requires
that the person's efforts will be
turned into furthering the Lord's
work in every possible way.
Another important truth is indi-
cated in this verse when it is under-
stood in its historical background.
Brother Phelps had already received
a testimony of The Book of Mor-
mon by the Holy Ghost; yet, he was
told that if he was baptized in the
water the Holy Ghost would be giv-
en to him by the laying on of hands.
Why was it necessary for Brother
Phelps (and all converts) to receive
this gift, if he had already received
the Holy Ghost? The brief answer
is as follows: the Holy Ghost which
convinces the investigator of the
truth will not remain with him un-
less baptism in water is accepted,
and also the laying on of hands for
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the gift of the Holy Ghost. Not
until the authorized servant of God
bestows this gift by the power of the
Priesthood does the person have the
''right" to retain the blessings of the
Holy Ghost. (See lesson 32, 'The
Gifts of the Holy Ghost/' Relief
Society Magazine, February 1961.)
Phelps' Baptism
There are probably many ways
that the Lord has brought great per-
sons of talent into his work. An
understanding of some teachings of
the gospel was a factor in the case
of Brother Phelps, although he had
already received the testimony of
the Holy Ghost Of his conversion,
he once wrote:
I was not a professor at the time, nor
a believer in sectarian religion, but a be-
liever in God, and the Son of God, as two
distinct characters, and a believer in sacred
scriptures. I had long been searching for
the ''old paths," that I might find the
right way and walk in it, and after a suit-
able time to investigate the work, and
prove its truth by corresponding evidence
from the old Bible, and by internal wit-
ness of the spirit, according to the rules
of holiness, I embraced it for the truth's
sake, and all honest men who seek a better
world, will "go and do likewise" (Mes-
senger and Advocate, 1:115).
Obedient to the revelation, Broth-
er Phelps was baptized on June 16,
1831.
Because of William W. Phelps'
prominence in New York State, sev-
eral newspapers made note of his
becoming a member of The Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
A General Assignment
Continuing the revelation, the
promise is made that upon his bap-
tism. Brother Phelps would be
ordained an elder by Joseph Smith,
and thus he would be able to preach
repentance and baptism for the
remission of sins. (See D & C
55:2.) Following this promise the
revelation reads:
And on whomsoever you shall lay your
hands, if they are contrite before me, you
shall have power to give the Holy Spirit
{Ihid., verse 3).
This promise to Brother Phelps
was not intended for him alone, but
it is a blessing which may be par-
ticipated in by any worthy elder of
this Church. In itself, it is an im-
portant truth. These following
two facts are worthy of considera-
tion: (1) By revelation in this day
man may know that the power to
bestow the Holy Ghost was never
intended only for the Twelve
Apostles appointed in the meridian
dispensation; and (2) There is a
way by which the elder may be
able to see the evidence of his min-
istry in the lives of those whom he
serves.
How would Elder Phelps be able
to know, on the basis of verse 3 of
this revelation, that he had not been
deceived? As long as he worthily
performed his duties as an elder and
the person he confirmed a member
of the Church had prepared him-
self with an "eye single to my
[God's] glory," there should be man-
ifest in the lives of those converts
the fruits of the Spirit. The Lord
promised many gifts of the Holy
Ghost to the sincere believer. (See
D & C 46:11, 26.) As these gifts
w^ere received and use made of them
in healings, and other miracles,
prophesyings, etc., the elder in the
Church would be apprised of the
power which he possessed as an
elder. One may conclude that the
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steadfastness which Brother Phelps
and many others demonstrated dur-
ing their hves, aided by the Spirit,
gave evidence of the promise given
to faithful Priesthood bearers.
Specific Calling
The revelation addressed to Wil-
liam W. Phelps gave him an
assignment which was suited to his
special abilities. In these words, the
Lord said:
And again, you shall be ordained to
assist my servant Oliver Cowdery to do
the work of printing, and of selecting and
writing books for schools in this church,
that little children also may receive in-
struction before me as is pleasing unto me
(D&C 55:4).
This is the first time in the reve-
lations in The Doctrine and Cove-
nants that mention is made of
schools in the Church.
It should also be noted that this
revelation (verse 5) commands
Brother Phelps to accompany the
Prophet and Sidney Rigdon to the
land of the saints' inheritance (Mis-
souri), where he would undertake
the work assigned him The last
verse of Section 55 assigns Joseph
Coe also to be a member of the
company. A brief account of this
journey is found in the Prophet's
writings {D.H.C. I:i88).
In Jackson County, Missouri (July
1831), the Lord gave to the Prophet
a revelation in which Brother
Phelps was to be established as a
''printer unto the church" at that
place. Important in this connection
is that the position of printer in
that period was much more than a
pressman; it also included the re-
sponsibilities of editor. It is said of
such men that they had great versa-
tility and knowledge. In Section 57
Brother Phelps is told to ''obtain
whatsoever he can obtain in right-
eousness, for the good of the saints"^
(verse 12).
The Evening and Moining Star
With the call to be the printer
unto the Church and work with
Oliver Cowdery in publishing books
for the Church, Brother Phelps pur-
chased a printing press at Cincinnati.
With the establishment of this
enterprise and the issuance of The
Evening and Morning Star, a month-
ly publication, the first periodical of
the Church, there was great joy for
the saints, as the Prophet recorded
that although the press universally
had sought to harm us, "the Saints
rejoiced that they [editors] could do
nothing against the truth but for it"
(D.H.C. 1:273).
In this periodical appeared many
of the revelations which are now
found in The Doctrine and Cove-
nants and also a chapter and parts
of three other chapters of the Book
of Moses. It was published from
the period June 1832, until the de-
struction of the press on July 20,
1833, at which time the Book of
Commandments, the first compila-
tion of revelations, consisting of six-
ty-five chapters, was being printed.
(In 1835, The Evening and Moining
Star was re-established in Kirtland,
Ohio, with Oliver Cowdery as edi-
tor.) The first issue of the Star
informed its readers that its office
was "situated within twelve miles of
the west line of the state of Mis-
souri; which at present is the west-
ern limits of the United States, and
about 120 miles west of any press in
the state. . . " (Ihid.y page 277).
There also appeared in the first
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issue, the following counsel concern-
ing the education of children:
The disciples should lose no time in
preparing schools for their children, that
they may be taught as is pleasing unto the
Lord, and brought up in the way of holi-
ness. Those appointed to select and pre-
pare books for the use of schools, will
attend to that subject as soon as more
weighty matters are finished.
Since that time the Church has
developed an educational system
that has provided for the secular
and religious education of its mem-
bers.
William W. Phelps' Career
William W. Phelps was a man of
great ability, with varied interests.
Numerous were his contributions to
The Church of Jesus Christ of Lat-
ter-day Saints and to the American
frontier. His versatility of ability
and interests is shown by the fol-
lowing occupations and offices held
by him. He was 'a printer, hymn
writer, poet-journalist, newspaper
editor, judge, orator, scribe, lawyer,
educator, missionary, temple worker,
member of city council, member of
stake presidency, pioneer, explorer,
writer of books and pamphlets,
topographical engineer, superintend-
ent of schools, surveyor general,
weather man, chaplain of lower
house of representatives, and speaker
of the house in the legislature of the
State of Deseret."
In the years of 1837 and 1838
when many leading brethren aposta-
tized. Brother Phelps was one of
them. The members of the Church
in Missouri withdrew the hand of
fellowship from the local presidency
of the Church, consisting of Brother
Phelps, David Whitmer, and John
Whitmer, because of disobedience
to the word of the Lord.
Notwithstanding the action of
Brother Phelps which brought about
his severance from the Church in
the spring of 1838, the Lord still
provided an opportunity for him to
return to the fold in a revelation a
few months later. (See D.H.C.
in 146. ) Later in the year 1838,
Brother Phelps, with other former
members of the Church, signed an
affidavit against the Prophet in a
court of inquiry. At a conference of
the Church in Quincy, Illinois,
March 17, 1839, Brother Phelps was
excommunicated. Several years lat-
er he confessed that this affidavit
was made under duress and that his
part of betraying his brethren was
done to save his life.
The Prodigal Returns
In June 1840, William W. Phelps
wrote to the Prophet asking forgive-
ness for the errors he had committed
in Missouri. His confession and
spirit shown in this letter indicate
what was said earlier in this lesson,
that he had received a witness of the
truth, but he permitted Satan
temporarily to overcome him. He
wrote as follows :
... I am as the prodigal son, though
I never doubt or disbelieve the fulness of
the Gospel. I have been greatly abused
and humbled, and I blessed the God of
Israel when I lately read your prophetic
blessing on my head, as follows:
"The Lord will chasten him because he
taketh honor to himself, and when his
soul is greatly humbled he will forsake the
evil. Then shall the light of the Lord
break upon him as at noonday and in him
shall be no darkness," &c.
I have seen the folly of my way, and I
tremble at the gulf I have passed. So it
is, and why I know not. I prayed and
God answered, but what could I do? Says
I, "I will repent and live, and ask my old
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brethren to forgive me, and though they
chasten me to death, yet I will die with
them, for their God is my God. The
least place with them is enough for me,
yea, it is bigger and better than all Baby-
lon. . . ."
I know my situation, you know it, and
God knows it, and I want to be saved if
my friends will help me. ... I have done
wrong and I am sorry. The beam is in
my own eye. I have not walked along
with my friends according to my holy
anointing. I ask forgiveness in the name
of Jesus Christ of all the Saints, for I will
do right, God helping me. I want your
fellowship; if you cannot grant that, grant
me your peace and friendship, for we are
brethren, and our communion used to be
sweet, and whenever the Lord brings us
together again, I will make all the satis-
faction on every point that Saints or God
can require. Amen {D.H.C. IV: 141-142).
The Prophet's Greatness
In reply to this request, Joseph
Smith extended the hand of for-
giveness for himself and the saints.
He referred to the suffering caused
by Brother Phelps and said:
. . . the cup of gall, already full enough
for mortals to drink, was indeed filled to
overflowing when you turned against
us. . . .
However, the cup has been drunk, the
will of our Father has been done, and we
are yet alive, for which we thank the
Lord. And having been delivered from
the hands of wicked men by the mercy
of our God, we say it is your privilege to
be delivered from the powers of the
adversary. . . . Your letter was read to the
Saints last Sunday, and an expression of
their feeling was taken, when it was
unanimously Resolved, That W. W.
Phelps should be received into fellowship,
"Come on, dear brother, since the war is
past, for friends at first, are friends again at
last" {Ibid., pp. 163-164).
Brother Phelps' faithfulness after
this was evidenced in many ways
during his life. His testimony of the
truth was shown when he sustained
the Twelve Apostles after the
martyrdom of the Prophet. As a
pioneer in the West, his contribu-
tion was great as already indicated
in his numerous activities.
PhelpSj the Hymn Writer
Many of the accomplishments
and contributions of William W.
Phelps have been forgotten by the
members or are unknown to them,
but there is one contribution made
by him which will never be un-
known. It was his great gift to
write hymns. It is improbable that
any one person has left his impress
to a greater degree upon the Church
in this way than has Brother Phelps.
W. W. Phelps' Testimony
The conversion of William W.
Phelps came about from his reading
The Book of Mormon. Upon meet-
ing the Prophet Joseph Smith, he
and his wife were convinced of the
truth of what the Prophet had said
concerning the reopening of the
heavens and the revelations directing
the establishment of the kingdom of
God on the earth. Although there
were times when he turned against
the Church he had accepted as true,
yet, he came through many trials
and persecutions. Truly, the Lord
had blessed him generously with
many talents which he used for the
advancement of his work. He was
''called and chosen'' as the revela-
tion said. (See D & C 55:1.) Upon
his return to the fold and until his
death on March 6, 1872, in Salt
Lake City, Utah, he continued firm
in his testimony of the work insti-
tuted by God through the Prophet
Joseph Smith. In the General Con-
ference of April i860, Elder Phelps
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. . . held in his hand a copy of the first
edition of that Book [Book of Mormon]
and declared it to be the truth of the
Almighty; he had heard the testimony of
Joseph Smith and that of the chosen wit-
nesses in relation to the Book of Mor-
mon, and he with them wished to give
his testimony to the ^^■orld relative to its
divine origin. He said that he knew this
was the church of the living God, and
that Brigham Young was the legally ap-
pointed successor of Joseph Smith, and
that all who receive this testimony will be
saved in the celestial kingdom, and he
wished he had a thousand tongues to speak
of the great things of the kingdom to the
nations of the earth (Deseret News, April
11, i860).
Questions ioi Discussion
1. Describe the effect of The Book of
Mormon upon the conversion of Brother
Phelps.
2. \\liat effect did meeting the Prophet
Joseph Smith have upon his decision to be
baptized?
3. Why is it necessary for a person to
receive the gift of the Holy Ghost if he
has already received a testimony of the
gospel by the Holy Ghost?
4. In the true Church an elder is prom-
ised a power which can be verified over a
period of time, (a) What is this power?
(b) How is it manifest?
5. Of what importance to the Church
was The Evening and Morning Star?
6. Name some of the contributions of
Brother Phelps to the hymnology of the
Church. (Consult a Latter-day Saint
hymn book.)
Visiting cJeacher II iessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
AAessage 39 - "\ Will Be Merciful Unto You" (D & C 50:16).
Christine H. Kohinson
For Tuesday, April 3, 1962
Objective: To demonstrate the Christ-like nature of true mercy.
A MONG all of the Savior's divine
attributes, mercy is one of the
greatest. Throughout his mortal
hfe he continuously demonstrated
this wonderful virtue. In the well-
known story of the Good Samaritan,
the Savior asked the question as to
which of the three passersby was
neighbor to the injured man. ''And
he said, He that shewed mercy on
him. Then said Jesus . . . Go, and
do thou likewise" (Luke 10:37).
In his great test before he died on
the cross, the Savior uttered these
immortal words of mercy, ''Father,
forgive them; for they know not
what they do'' (Luke 23:34).
The story is told of a well-known
sculptor who was commissioned to
do an heroic statue of the Savior.
The sculptor was delighted and
wanted to make this his best work.
He labored almost night and day
for months. Finally, he finished
the clay model of what he consid-
ered to be a magnificent figure of
the Christ — a commanding statue
depicting strength, dominance, and
leadership. The clay model was locked
in his studio to set and when the
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57
sculptor returned and opened the
door to his studio, he was shocked
to see that his masterpiece was great-
ly altered from the way he had left
it. Time, weather, and some un-
known power had caused the figure
to settle, the head had dropped for-
ward, the arms and hands, which
had been high over the head, were
now appealingly outstretched. The
change had brought an attitude of
compassion and mercy into the fig-
ure which the sculptor had been
unable to accomplish. Reverently,
the sculptor looked upon his inspired
creation and gave it the simple title,
"Come Unto Me."
Mercy is a Christ-like quality
which, when it functions in our
lives, will bring blessings of happi-
ness both to ourselves and unto
those to whom we are merciful.
Shakespeare expressed this
thought when he said:
The quality of mercy is not strain'd,
It droppeth as the gentle rain from heaven
Upon the place beneath: It is twice
bless'd;
It blesseth him that gives, and him that
takes. . . .
— WilHam Shakespeare
The Merchant of Venice
Act IV, Scene I.
The quality of mercy is such an
essential part of successful and joy-
ful living that the Lord has given
it to us virtually as a commandment.
In Luke 6:36 we read, ''Be ye there-
fore merciful, as your Father also is
merciful." The Lord also said,
"Blessed are the merciful: for they
shall obtain mercy" (Mt. 5:7).
The grand key words of Relief
Society are, ''Said Jesus: Te shall
do the work, which ye see me do.' "
To be merciful unto others is an
essential part of this work. In speak-
ing to Relief Society sisters, the
Prophet Joseph Smith said [you]
"should be armed with mercy. . . .
Manifest benevolence." He also
said, "If you would have God have
mercy on you, have mercy on one
another."
As we apply this great principle
to our own lives, let us remember
that mercy means more than the
absence of criticism and judgment.
It implies kindness, consideration,
understanding, and it seeks the
highest possible good for those who
might have offended us.
When we practice the quality of
mercy, we exhibit the true applica-
tion of love to our lives and in our
attitude toward others. Then, and
only then, are we entitled to the
promise of our Redeemer when he
said, ". . . with everlasting kindness
will I have mercy on thee ..." (3
Nephi 22:8).
y^yur (^reatoi
his W. Schow
He is the magnet drawing on our faith;
The star of hope above our sands that shift;
He is the universal charity,
The Giver who accompanies his gift.
Work JTleeting — Attitudes and Manners
HOW DO YOU DO?
(A Course Expected to Be Used by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 7 — Attitudes Make the Difference
EJaine Anderson Cannon
For Tuesday, April lo, 1962
Objective: To show that good manners spring from good thoughts and that a
woman is most charming when she is being thoughtful.
pEOPLE too often think of pity), and a certain amount of de-
proper behavior and good man- ference to one's husband, an older
ners only in terms of which fork to woman, or to a dignitary. Culti-
use when eating a salad. Actually, vated, these qualities can enhance
there are roles a woman of today our relationship with others in a
is required to play for which ther© most positive manner,
are not definite prescribed lines to Negativism, over-zealousness, crit-
say, or a list of rules of precisely icism of others, including Church
what to do and when. These are officers, organizations, and pro-
the subtle requirements of being cedures, are practices which can
socially correct, aware and sensitive easily slip into our way of behavior,
to situations. How we respond to unless we constantly guard against
these situations springs from our them. They can prove to be de-
attitude about people and our basic structive to our personal relation-
relationship with them. Our re- ships with others and rob us of
spouse usually determines whether serenity.
or not we can be described as We should try conscientiously
charming. never to hurt anyone's feelings. If we
In GJamour magazine, November discover we have committed this
i960, these cautionary words were error, we should pray for strength,
given on charm: guidance, and help in making it
If you are sure you have it, you don't. ^ight again with the injured person.
If you hoard it, you lose it. If you buy The weakness of takmg oftense
with it, you spend false coin. If you give easily is as unjust as giving offense,
it away, it bounces back (Reprinted by Qne should pray just as diligently
permission from Glamour, November ^^^ ^ forgiving and understanding
iQOo, Copyright looo by the Conde Nast . -r ^ i n i i
Publications, Inc.). heart, if one has allowed her own
feelings to be hurt. It is difficult
Elements oi Charm sometimes to do this, but, neverthe-
The ideal attitude which should less, it is important in mastering
underlie all of our womanly be- inner maturity and good will. It is
havior should express kindness, unwise to harbor grudges, nurse
refinement, gentleness, self-respect, hurt feelings, or foster unhappiness
sympathy (though not necessarily by clinging to injuries of the soul.
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Some examples of thoughtfulness
which are charming and which
spring from good thoughts (but are
not hsted rules in a book of eti-
quette) include:
1. Sending congratulatory messages to
the bishop on his birthday, or to a friend
on her big day of achievement (chairman
of a program, winning an honor, the ar-
rival of a new baby, being the wife of
a new bishop, stake president or branch
president, etc.)
2. When advisable, it is thoughtful to
make brief hospital calls and take some
little gift, a few flowers, or send a cheery
note or card.
3. It is thoughtful for the patient to
send a small gift or a special card to a
nurse who has been particularly attentive
during one's illness.
4. It is an appealing mark of deference
to bow ever so slightly when introduced
to an important authority or to an older
woman, also, when one sees an acquaint-
ance across the room (rather than wav-
ing)-
It is refreshing to see a woman notice
another's child, admiring the baby (with-
out touching it! ) , or speak to teens on the
street (inspiring a gracious reply from
them ) .
The following are familiar phrases
guaranteed the most unlikely to
please:
er.
''When I was the work meeting lead-
''Did you hear what someone told me
about Mary?"
"That wasn't the way I heard it. You
have it all wrong."
''How much did it cost?"
"My doctor says that's the worst thing
you could do!"
"Your child is a hard one to discipline,
isn't he?"
"Another meeting?"
"Well I can't come to any of the prac-
tices, but I guess I could sing with you
on the program."
"Yes, this is a nice centerpiece, but you
should see my tulips this year."
"Don't expect me to work on a com-
mittee with her."
"Can't you possibly get someone else
to do it?"
"Oh, this recipe is a failure today. I
never can do it when I have to bring it
over to the chapel."
Facing Attitudes
It is well to face our attitudes,
for they face us! Our attitudes and
appreciations, our thoughts and the
actions that spring therefrom, our
sensitivities and our responses line
our faces, just as surely as a pen
marks a paper.
The happiness of your hfe depends
upon the quality of your thoughts, there-
fore guard accordingly; and take care that
you entertain no notions unsuitable to
virtue and reasonable nature (Marcus
Antonius, from The New Dictionaiy of
Thoughts) .
Questions for Discussion
Using the above "phrases most unlikely
to please" as a basis, restate them in words
of charm and thoughtfulness. How do-
YOU do?
JLiterature — America's Literature Comes of Age
Lesson 31 — Edgar Allan Poe — The Pathos of His Life and Poetry
(1809-1849)
Elder Bii^nt S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Litemtuie, by James D. Hart and Clarence Golides
Dryden Press, New York, pp. ^ly^^j)
For Tuesday, April 17, 1962
Objective: To review Poe's life that we may more truly read his works.
"PDGAR Allan Poe, generally rec-
ognized by the public as an
author of great prose and poetry,
has been subjected to more conflict-
ing judgments by the critics than
any other American literary writer.
These diverse opinions concern
both his personal life and his artistic
creations. They range from such
comments as Tennyson's, ''The most
original American genius/' to the
slanderous portrait of Poe as por-
trayed by the Reverend Rufus W.
Griswold, whom, most ironically, the
naive Poe chose to edit his writings.
Never in literary history has a liter-
ary personage committed a more
catastrophic blunder.
Poe made his living as an editor
and critic, whose keen analytical
powers were respected and whose
courage and, sometimes, sharp
tongue in saying exactly what he
thought of his contemporaries, made
him many enemies, among them
Rufus W. Griswold. Griswold ap-
parently never forgave Poe for pub-
lishing unflattering statements about
his writings and those of his friends.
Poe felt contempt for the current
practice of publishing critical com-
ments anonymously; he believed it
. . . folly to assert that the literature of
any nation or age was ever injured by
plain speaking on the part of critics. As
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for American Letters, plain speaking about
them is, simply, the one thing needed.
They are in a condition of absolute quag-
mire (Southern Literary Messenger, July
1849).
And Poe spoke plainly, indeed, as
the following excerpt from a review
testifies:
Mr. Grattan [the author] has a bad
habit, that of loitering in the road — of
dallying and toying with his subject, as
a kitten with a mouse — instead of grasp-
ing it firmly at once and eating it up with-
out more ado. He takes up too much
time in the anteroom. He is never done
with his introductions ... so that by the
time he arrives at his main incidents there
is nothing more to tell. He seems afflicted
with that curious yet common perversity
observed in garrulous old women — the
desire of tantalizing by circumlocution. . . .
If the greasy-looking lithograph here given
as a frontispiece, be meant for Mr. Grat-
tan, then is Mr. Grattan like nobody else
— for the fact is, I never yet knew an
individual with a wire wig, or the counte-
nance of an under-done apple dumpling.
... As a general rule, no man should put
his own face in his own book. In looking
at the author's countenance the reader is
seldom in condition to keep his own
(Southern Literary Messenger, April
1849).
Prophet Without Honor
Justly Poe might be described as
having lived in the world, yet not
of it. Although he is the one man
in the English-speaking world who
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61
A Perry Picture
EDGAR ALLAN POE
has achieved pre-eminence in the
three hterary realms of fiction,
poetry, and criticism, still many
adult Americans have always tended
either merely to tolerate him, with-
out really claiming him as one of
their own, or to ignore part of him.
But since it is just and inevitable
that we admit his greatness as an
American writer, it is equally just
and inevitable that we face the life
out of which his greatness came, that
we may more fully appreciate and
understand both the intent and
achievement of his creations.
Poes Chronology
Edgar Allan Poe was born January
19, 1809, to actor parents while their
group was appearing in Boston. His
grandfather. General David Poe, was
quartermaster general during the
American Revolution, and friend to
LaFayette. Before he was three,
Poe's parents had separated and both
had died. His mother died in Rich-
mond, Virginia, where, out of pity,
three wealthy matrons each took one
of the three surviving children into
their homes. Mr. John Allan, stern,
practical Scotchman, had no chil-
dren and desired none, but he yield-
ed to the wishes of his younger wife
and accepted Edgar, giving him
Allan as his middle name. He pro-
vided Poe with excellent schooling
in England and at the University of
Virginia, but always resented him
somewhat, though his wife was
overly affectionate. First in his class
at the university, Poe gambled to
pay school expenses which he
claimed Mr. Allan would not. They
quarreled violently, and Edgar ran
away to Boston. He published his
first book of poems when he was
eighteen, before enlisting as a pri-
vate in the army. He arrived at
home the day after Mrs. Allan's
funeral, and entered West Point
through Mr. Allan's influence, but
soon asked permission to resign his
appointment. When this was de-
nied, he cut out enough classes to
get himself discharged. He pub-
lished his second book of poems and
first prize-winning stories while liv-
ing at the home of his aunt, Maria
Poe Clemm, in Baltimore.
When Poe was twenty-four he
moved to Richmond to work full
time on the staff of The Southern
Literary Messenger, one of the most
influential magazines of the day,
soon becoming its editor. Mrs.
Clemm and her daughter Virginia
joined him there, and the next year
he married Virginia, in her four-
teenth year. Theirs was a most
happy marriage, although Virginia,
always delicate and sensitive, died
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eleven years later. "Mother" Clemm published in 1885, Dr. Moran de-
lived with them until her daugh- scribed in detail the sixteen hours
ter's death, then remained with her preceding death when Poe was
'adored Eddie" until his own death, under his care, in rational con-
in October 1849. sciousness save when he slept, and
The year following his marriage that he *'did not die under the in-
Poe moved his family to New York fluence of any kind of intoxicating
City, then to Philadelphia, where he drink."
soon became editor of Graham's Incensed at the maHcious warp-
Magazine. Having achieved success ing of the truth by Griswold, Poe's
with his prose writings, he returned friends, N. P. Willis and George
to New York City and for a time Graham, editor of Graham's Maga-
fulfilled his lifetime dream of edit- zine, at once published defenses of
ing his own magazine, but, when it Poe's character and reputation — in
failed, he moved his family to a magazines, while Griswold's more
humble cottage at Fordham, some extended ''Memoir of Poe" appeared
miles outside the city, where their in every copy of Poe's works until
poverty became acute and Virginia late in the century, both in Europe
died in 1847. and in this country. Several other
Bewildered by grief and loneliness, friends published books in an at-
Poe began lecturing widely. First tempt to correct the false picture
he courted one widow in Lowell, which Griswold had made, but large-
Massachusetts, then proposed to an- ly in vain. Griswold forged several
other in Rhode Island. When a few letters, inserted and deleted words
months later their marriage plans to change Poe's meaning and charac-
were, by mutual consent, aban- ter, and so falsely accused Poe of
doned, he again attempted to find duplicity in relation to his own
support for a new magazine he charges of plagiarism against peace-
hoped to establish and edit. During loving Longfellow, that even Long-
a southern tour he met an old friend fellow felt compelled to expose the
in Richmond, Virginia, and planned falseness of Griswold's accusations,
to marry her as soon as he could To maintain that Poe's private
bring Mrs. Clemm from New York life was without flaw would be as
for the wedding. While on his way untrue as were Griswold's errors and
he suffered a mysterious catastrophe manipulations, for Poe was, on oc-
and was taken to a Baltimore hos- casion, vain, sharp-tongued, and
pital where he died four days later, always intensely ambitious for sue-
on October 7, 1849. cess. As for drug addiction, a doctor
His death resulted not from ''de- testified that he was so unfamiliar
lirium tremens," as reported by Gris- with laudanum that when in a fit of
wold (whom his attending physi- depression he attempted using it,
cian. Dr. John J. Moran, defined as he didn't even know the proper dos-
Poe's ''avowed and personal en- age. He did drink excessively on
emy"), but from nervous prostra- occasions when his malnourished
tion and the shock of having been wife was dying or when sophisticated
beaten, robbed, and abandoned. In Bostonians walked out en masse
his A Defense oi Edgai AJJan Foe^ during his lecture, but he knew
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63
alcohol acted as a poison within him,
and that half a glass of wine made
him well-nigh insane, or, in
Graham's words, ''the least drop of
wine, to most men a moderate
stimulus, was to him literally the
cup of frenzy." As for charges of
insanity, Poe probably spoke truth
when he said that "I was never
really insane, except on occasions
where my heart was touched/' Ap-
parently, only two such periods
occurred in his life: during the years
of his wife's suffering and, intermit-
tently, during the final days of his
hfe.
As Poe wrote, on January 4, 1 848,
''My enemies referred the insanity
to the drink rather than the drink
to the insanity." Particularly, after
reading in Poe's stories more ex-
tended and gripping examples of
this world of inward terror which so
dominated his art, may we be willing
to see how drinking was the effect
rather than the cause.
The editors of the most scholarly
anthology of his writings (Alterton
and Craig, Edgar Allan Poe, Repre-
sentative Selections, American Book
Company, 1934) write on page 543:
"Of all the nonsense talked about
Poe, and there has been much, none
is perhaps greater than that which
fails to see in him a man of funda-
mentally noble moral nature," a
statement which becomes more
pertinent to his entire life and writ-
ings the more they are studied.
Poe's first book of poems, titled
Tamnierlane and Other Poems was
published in Boston in 1827. Most
of these earlier poems reflect the
disappointments and ambitions of
youth and reveal the influence of
English romantic poets, such as
Coleridge and Byron. By 1831, when
another volume of his poetry ap-
peared, which included the poems
'To Helen," "Israfel," and "The
City in the Sea," Poe had developed
more sureness as a poet.
The poem "To Helen" was, ac-
cording to Poe, inspired by a school
friend's mother who died when Poe
was fifteen. Her kindness to the
sensitive young boy caused him to
speak of her as an angel to his for-
lorn and darkened nature. Yet in
this poem "To Helen" the idealized
image is not flesh and blood, but a
symbol of beauty in the land of
heart's desire. Poe is representatively
romantic in his portrayal of nostalgic
yearning for a realm of serene beau-
ty, in art, in myth, and in life, and
in this poem the entire feeling is
romantic, although the allusions and
pictures are all classical.
TO HELEN
Helen, thy beauty is to me
Like those Nicean barks of yore.
That gently, o'er a perfumed sea,
The wear)', way-worn wanderer bore
To his oun native shore.
On desperate seas long wont to roam.
Thy hyacinth hair, thy classic face.
Thy Naiad airs have brought me home
To the glor\' that was Greece
And the grandeur that was Rome.
Lo! in yon brilhant window-niche
How statue-like I see thee stand.
The agate lamp within thy hand!
Ah, Psyche, from the regions which
Are Holy-Land!
"Annabel Lee," one of Poe's best
known and best loved poems, sup-
posedly refers to his own young wife
Virginia who died at the age of
twenty-four. (See text, page 455.)
Written in 1849, the poem con-
cludes with
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For the moon never beams, without bring-
ing me dreams
Of the beautiful Annabel Lee;
And the stars never rise, but I feel the
bright eyes
Of the beautiful Annabel Lee:
And so, all the night-tide, I lie down by
the side
Of my darling — my darling — my life
and my bride.
In her sepulchre there by the sea —
In her tomb by the side of the sea.
Next to "The Raven/' Poe's most
popular poem is "The Bells" which
was much revised before Poe, in
1849, considered it complete. Many
readers enjoy this poem for the tone
and mood conveyed by sound and
image. As the poem progresses, we
become increasingly aware of words
carefully selected for their particular
music-tone. A unity of effect is
achieved in each stanza by the use
of descriptive words appropriately
associated with a particular bell and
its connotation. (See text, pp.
454-455-)
Note that in stanza I, the silver
be]Js oi the sledge, with their tin-
kling, jingling sound are heard in
the "icy air of night," while in stan-
za 3, alarum beJJs are loud, turbu-
lent, brazen, and clamorous, and
they clang into the "palpitating air."
An interchange of any of these de-
scriptive words would destroy the
unity of effect Poe worked so care-
fully to create within each stanza.
The poem must be read aloud to
appreciate the music-tone of words
and the vivid image.
Spiritualism and mesmerism were
current speculative interests of Poe's
day, and Poe became somewhat
interested in them as dramatic ma-
terial for his art in story and verse.
But the mysticism which more truly
represents Poe was of a personal
nature. It was refuge and adventure
into the dark, mysterious regions of
his inner self. No statement on his
poetry, with its "indefinite," unat-
tained beauty and its pathos, can be
accurately made without taking into
account the pathos of his sensitive
and lonely life.
Thoughts ioT Discussion
1 . In what ways do Poe's writings reflect
the unfortunate circumstances and lone-
liness of his life?
2. How do the conflicting judgments
of critics affect our evaluation of Poe as
man? as artist?
3. Which romantic quaHties do you find
in Poe's poetry? (See Preview.)
cJhe H iothenng cJree
Christie Lund Coles
The aspen, fragile as a girl,
Barely emerged from childhood, stands
A mothering tree to spruce and pine,
And shields them with her slender hands.
The sturdy evergreens begin
Their gradual and steady climb
Upon the eternal mountainside.
Fast in their strength though slow in time,
Until they attain their pointed height,
Above the golden aspen tree —
Green exclamations that declare
The strength born from gentility.
Social Science — The Place of Woman in the
Gospel Plan
WOMEN AND CHURCH ACTIVITY
Lesson 6 — How Women Share in the Blessings of the Priesthood
Elder Arid S. BaWii
For Tuesday, April 24, 1962
Objective: To increase our understanding of the way in which women participate
in the blessings of the Priesthood.
Priesthood is the divine commission for the operation of the Lord's Church. It
is the right to officiate in God's name in all matters pertaining to the welfare of man
under the plan of salvation. The major purpose of the plan is the eternal progressive
welfare of human beings. The government of the Church is Priesthood in operation.
i
Our Fioneei Women
'y^HE Church was restored through
revelation and the authority of
the Priesthood; but it was built and
developed by men and women to-
gether. Often we speak of the
strength of the men of this early
period, forgetting the fact that in
the pioneering period of this Church
the strength of the women was a
support to the men.
1. In the Beginning of Church
Activities
From the very beginning of the
Church stress was placed on the im-
P portance of the family unit. The first
years were full of sacrifice and suf-
fering. The women had the all-
important task of holding the fam-
Iily together and supporting their
husbands in their convictions of
truth. The women endured the
persecution and hardships without
losing sight of their objectives, and
family solidarity developed under
these experiences.
The teachings of the Prophet
Joseph Smith in regard to the
eternal nature of the marriage cove-
The women accepted the persecu-
tion, hardships, and sacrifice with
the determination to maintain the
family structure. They were the
developers of the influence that kept
the spirit of the entire community
on a durable basis. All during the
wanderings of the saints the women
were interested in the problems and
suffering of one another and solved
many of their difficulties through co-
operative action. They gave cour-
age to their husbands in the face of
new trials and continued persecu-
tion. But even more important, the
women were unwavering in their
testimonies of the truthfulness of
the gospel, and many took over the
total family operation while their
husbands filled missions for the
Church.
The strength of the Church today
has been greatly aided by the
strength of the mothers in this early
period of trial. They taught their
children the importance of the prin-
ciples of the gospel. Most of them
remained steadfast and true in the
face of the most severe adversities.
The mothers who had to provide
the environment for the children
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made it an environment of faith,
hope, and love. The children of
these pioneer homes, in general,
grew up to be men and women of
integrity and truth, who honored the
Priesthood and gave to the Church
the leadership that has led to its
present progress.
2. First Organized Activity of
Women in the Church
The mothers of the Church, in
addition to the operation of their
own homes, extend their love and
mercy to those in the community
who are less fortunate than they.
As early as 1842 the idea of com-
bining time, materials, and the tal-
ents of the women to meet the
needs of the workmen on the Nau-
voo Temple grew to the point that
the sisters planned to organize a
Ladies Society. They submitted
their plans to the Prophet Joseph
who said:
. . . this is not what you want. Tell
the sisters their offering is accepted of the
Lord, and He has something better for
them. . . . Invite them all to meet me and
a few of the brethren . . . over my store
next Thursday afternoon, and I will organ-
ize the sisters under the Priesthood after
a pattern of the Priesthood (A Centenary
of Relief Society, 1842-1942, page 14).
He called the women together on
Thursday, March 17, 1842, and
organized the Female Relief Society
of Nauvoo.
The women of the Church re-
sponded enthusiastically to the new
organization. It began with eigh-
teen members and within two years
it had grown to 1,341. It has con-
tinued to grow in importance in the
lives of the people of the Church
from then until the present day.
The Relief Society's objectives
under Priesthood guidance were the
care of the poor, comfort to the sor-
rowing, and to save souls. The same
objectives are listed for Priesthood
quorums, to take care of the temp-
oral, intellectual, and spiritual wel-
fare of the quorum members and
their families.
The first Relief Societv officers
were aware of the importance of
frequent personal contacts. In 1843
they organized ''the necessity com-
mittee." The members of this com-
mittee, sixteen in number, were to
discover the needs of each family
and to accept contributions for the
needy. This committee was the be-
ginning of the visiting teacher
program, still a most vital part of
the Relief Society organization.
The accomplishments of the Re-
lief Society
. . . bear testimony to the faith, cour-
age, vision, and industry of the women of
the Church who have received "instruc-
tions through the order of the Priesthood
which God has established, through the
medium of those appointed to lead, guide
and direct the affairs of the Church in this
last dispensation" (A Centenary of Relief
Society, 1842-1942, page 3).
3. Relief Society Services Today
The Presidency of the Church
and the Relief Society leadership
have never lost sight of the original
purpose of this greatest woman's
organization. The distress and mis-
fortune of the saints from Kirtland
to Nauvoo and from Nauvoo to Salt
Lake City, made lasting impressions
as to the value of compassionate
service of the women of the Church.
There is still present in our so-
ciety a great need for sympathetic
understanding. Sickness, old age,
poverty, death, and the tragedy of
family failures make the need for
LESSON DEPARTMENT
compassionate service as demanding
today as ever before. The faster our
materialistic development is and the
more dense our population becomes,
the greater the need of benevolent
service and sympathetic understand-
ing.
In this day the Priesthood has
organized a Welfare Program de-
signed to help meet people's needs
through providing opportunities for
work in conjunction with the united
efforts of friends and neighbors as
members of the Church organiza-
tions. It is an expression of the
highest type of co-operative action.
Where it has been developed, the
men produce materials and foods,
and the women prepare the ma-
terials and preserve the food. The
over-all ''aim of the program is to
help the people to help themselves"
(Welfare Phn Handbook of In-
stiuctions, page i ) .
The educational aspect of the
Relief Society has been a medium
of great stimulation to the sisters of
the Church. The Relief Society
provides a constant intellectual chal-
lenge to their membership to im-
prove their minds to meet the
requirements of a woman's function
in today's world. The organization
provides lessons in all areas of par-
ticipation required of women, with
special emphasis on strengthening
testimonies, on motherhood and
homemaking, at the same time pro-
viding a rich experience for all.
Priesthood Piovides BeneEts
for All Members
The purpose of Priesthood is to
improve all men and women, bring-
ing them toward the perfection of
God, the Eternal Father. 'Tor be-
ihold, this is my work and my glory
67
— to bring to pass the immortality
and eternal life of man" (Moses
1:39).
1. The Performance of Ordinan-
ces Is a Blessing Through
the Priesthood
We believe that a man must be called
of God, by prophecy, and by the laying
on of hands, by those who are in authority
to preach the Gospel and administer in
the ordinances thereof (Fifth Article of
Faith).
Many of us are inclined to take
the most important and sacred
things for granted. Membership in
this Church is basic to all the bless-
ings the gospel promises. Yet too
often the eighth birthday celebra-
tion is emphasized more than bap-
tism, the attending of Church, and
the meaning of membership. Those
who come to the waters of baptism
through conversion often are more
conscious and appreciative of this
important event than the child born
in the Church. Every woman who
is a member of this Church shares
in the blessings of the Church
through the functioning of the
Priesthood. Jesus pointed out that
we cannot enter the kingdom of
heaven unless we have been born of
the water and of the spirit. No one
can perform the ordinances of bap-
tism and confirmation without hold-
ing the Priesthood. Each Sabbath
day we are reminded, encouraged,
and permitted to renew our cove-
nants with the Lord through the
sacrament, a Priesthood ordinance.
As a matter of fact, the Priesthood
is a constant source of blessing to
every member of the Church each
day. A woman has full rights to
the benefits of the administration
to the sick. Often it is the faith of
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the women that initiates this ordi-
nance and supports the Priesthood
in its performance.
The patriarch, who has a special
Priesthood function, is available to
membership of the Church to pro-
vide them with a patriarchal bless-
ing of enlightenment, encourage-
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course in life will bring the greatest
accomplishment, the most satisfac-
tion, and which will make possible
the opportunity for exaltation in the
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of Growth
In the Doctrine and Covenants,
Section 93:36, it says 'The glory of
God is intelligence . . ." and in Sec-
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for a man to be saved in ignorance."
The quest for knowledge, faith, and
love is equally as important to the
woman as to the man who holds
the Priesthood. She, too, is given
her free agency and placed upon this
earth to gain experience and progress
toward perfection. Her understand-
ing of life here and hereafter is of
vital importance in giving intelligent
direction to her family and for her
own exaltation. Here again the
Priesthood is responsible for and is
the source of blessings.
Tht Call to Service
One of the richest blessings to a
woman comes through the privilege
of service in the Church. Every
officer in the Church is called by
proper authority and commissioned
by this authority. In the ward the
bishop calls and commissions the
worthy persons to their particular
responsibilities. Every office and
calling in the Church is important,
LESSON DEPARTMENT 69
and to the individual receiving the things for others it reduces tensions
assignment it is the most important in your own hfe. We tend to love
assignment in the Church. No one whom we serve. The Lord empha-
else can do the work you are called sized this to Peter when he asked
to do while you are in the office. '\ . . lovest thou me . . ?" and
Your effective performance of the Peter's answer was ''y^^- • • •" Then
duties and responsibilities of your he said 'Teed my sheep." This he
office gives strength to the whole repeated, giving emphasis to the
organization. The privilege comes connection between, and the im-
through the Priesthood, and bless- portance of service and love of God
ings come from your devotion to (John 21:15-17).
duty.
We have stated before that the Women's Service, a Stiength
government of the Church is the to the Church
Priesthood in action. Every office The activity of the women in the
in the Church is therefore, to a de- Church program is a manifestation
gree. Priesthood work. As the of dedication to a great cause. This
Church has grown there has been a is demonstrated by a situation in the
need for auxiliary help. As the term mission field where three wonderful
implies, the auxiliaries are assisting Maori ladies, old in years, but vig-
organizations to the Priesthood, but orous in the love of the gospel, held
subject to, and under the direction a little branch together for many
of the Priesthood. The officers and years until the Priesthood holders
teachers in the auxiliaries play an were regenerated. These faithful
important part in the teaching of sisters did everything but the ordi-
the gospel. But, as has been point- nances, and they guided the young
ed out, teaching the gospel to all Aaronic Priesthood members in the
the members is a major responsi- care and administration of the sac-
bility of the Priesthood quorums. rament.
There are assignments to the Many times the women of the
women in the work that is assigned wards and stakes have provided the
to the Priesthood. Women work activity necessary to the success of
on the genealogical committees and Priesthood projects. Through the
do both research and temple work efforts of the women in the home,
for the dead. the men are constantly built up and
The missionary work which is to encouraged. They care for the chil-
every nation, kindred, tongue, and dren, assist their men in projects
people also uses the women of the and programs, and provide leader-
Church. They are an effective part ship for the auxiliary organizations,
of the missionary program in teach- The blessings in store for the
ing the gospel to people of the women of the Church are limited
many nations. only by the efforts they put forth to
Service in the Church is a bless- build the kingdom. Every effort
ing in and of itself. Through Church they put forth in gaining knowl-
work you are serving the Lord by edge, in exercising faith, and in per-
serving your fellow men. It tends to formance of duty is a step toward
reduce selfishness, and by doing perfection, and every step toward
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford .._..- . President
Marianne C. Sharp . . . - . . First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen ----- Second Counselor
Hulda Parker . - . . . Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Christine H. Robinson Annie M. Ellsworth Fanny S. Kienitz
Edith S. Elliott Alberta H. Christensen Mary R. Young Elizabeth B. Winters
Florence J. Madsen Mildred B. Eyring Mary V. Cameron LaRue H. Rosell
Leone G. Layton Charlotte A. Larsen Afton W. Hunt Jennie R. Scott
Blanche B. Stoddard Edith P. Backman Wealtha S. Mendenhall Alice L. Wilkinson
Evon W. Peterson Winniefred S. Pearle M. Olsen LaPriel S. Bunker
Aleine M. Young Manwaring Elsa T. Peterson Irene W. Buehner
Josie B. Bay Elna P. Haymond Irene B. Woodford Irene C. Lloyd
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor -.-_-.------ Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor _--__----- Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager _--_.._--- Belle S. Spafford
VOL 49 FEBRUARY 1962 NO. 2
(contents
Fellowshipping Through Relief Society Mark E. Petersen 76
Funeral and Burial of President Brigham Young Preston Nibley 84
We Help Build a Church at Paonia Violet M. Evans 108
FICTION
Splendor Before Dawn — Second Prize Story Sara O. Moss 79
The Blue Gingham Dress Betty Lou Martin 99
The Houdinattie Mary hale Woolsey 106
A Legacy of Lilacs Pauline L. Jensen 112
Sow the Field With Roses — Chapter 2 Margery S. Stewart 117
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 74
Sixty Years Ago 94
Woman's Sphere Ramona V/. Cannon 95
Editorial: Refinement of the Soul Through Tribulation Marianne C. Sharp 96
Notes to the Field — Hymn of the Month — Annual List 98
Notes From the Field; Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 124
Birthday Congratulations 152
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Food Buying, Care, and Storage Ruth P. Tippetts 90
Make It Out of Imagination Sylvia W. Dixon 102
Salt-Pork Griddle Cakes Chet Switell 105
Cauliflower Casserole Edna Lind Cole 105
Cafe Curtains Are Versatile Shirley Thulm 110
A Lift for Your Laundry Janet W. Breeze 114
"Sweeter the Thoughts of Love Expressed" Mabel Law Atkinson 115
Pearl Bunnel Newell Specializes in Knitting Sweaters and Making Hairpin Lace 116
LESSONS FOR MAY
Theology — Put the Kingdom of God First Roy W. Doxey 131
Visiting Teacher Messages — "Continue m Steadfastness" Christine H. Robinson 137
Work Meeting — Hello and Goodbye Elaine Anderson Cannon 139
Literature — Edgar Allan Poe — Artist of V/ord and Sentence Briant S. Jacobs 141
Social Science — Fullness of Life and Exaltation Ariel S. Ballif 146
POETRY
Invoke the Miracles — Frontispiece Alice Morrey Bailey 73
A Moment, by Padda M. Speller, 78; The Spirit's Stillness, by Caroline Eyring Miner, 89;
The Fragile Hour, by Maude Rubin, 93; Siege of Winter, by Lael W. Hill, 97; The V/inter Trees
by Vesta N. Fairbairn, 98; Words After Snow, by Ida Elaine James, 123; With Nobleness of
Heart, by Pauline M. Bell, 123; Indigo, by Gladys Hesser Burnham, 138; Portrait, by Rose
Thomas Graham, 151; Firethorn in February, by Eva Willes Wangsgaard, 151; Little Brown
Curls, by Evelyn Fjeldsted, 152.
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Fellowshipping Through ReHef
Society
Elder Mark E. Petersen
Of the Council of the Twelve
[Address Delivered at the Officers Meeting of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, September 27, 1961]
IT is wonderful to be with you Spaflford in her excellent address and
sisters. It was thrilling to watch report. She mentioned that we are
the roll call and see women from reaching about half of the women
all parts of the world arise. It sure- of the Church through our Relief
ly impresses us with the fact that the Society, and she also mentioned the
Church is now a world Church, as importance of reaching the good
it never has been before, and surely women of the world who are not
the prophecies are being fulfilled, members of the Church,
wherein the Lord has said that the May I talk to you about those
little stone cut out of the mountain two things for just a moment. We
without hands shall roll forth and believe that Relief Societv is so
fill the whole earth. We have had important that it ought to be taken
a demonstration here this morning to every woman in the Church, that
of how that little stone is really roll- we should not be satisfied in any
ing forth, and how truly enough the sense with reaching half of them,
world is our field. We know, too, that another lesson
It is a great inspiration to be Sister Spafford taught us this morn-
associated with the Relief Society, ing is all important, we cannot wait
Every year I am more impressed for the women to come to Relief
with the excellence of its work and Society. We must go out and seek
the devotion of all you wonderful them. We must ask them before
people, and with the outstanding the Rebeccas or some other organ-
leadership of your great Presidency ization asks them. Let us be so-
and General Board. I am constant- licitous about the women of the
ly amazed at the ingenuity, the in- Church first, then about the good
spiration, the strength, and the women not of the Church, so that
leadership of these wonderful wom- we may bring them in.
en. They have been most co- One of the most important things
operative with us in every way, as about reaching out for these people
we have tried to carry out various is that we exhibit real friendliness
phases of our part of the program, and neighborliness in doing so. We
which has touched theirs. are trying to promote in the Church,
We are so grateful for the way in through our missionary program, a
which all of you have responded, good neighbor policy whereby every
This morning, for a few minutes, I Latter-day Saint will be a good
would like to talk to you about one neighbor to every other Latter-day
of the subjects mentioned by Sister Saint. We would like to have every
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FELLOWSHIPPING THROUGH RELIEF SOCIETY 77
Latter-day Saint woman be a good Relief Society, don't you? If we,
neighbor likewise to every non-Lat- through friendliness, can build up
ter-day Saint woman. Isn't it but confidence in the minds of those
keeping the commandments? Isn't who do not come, and then if we
the second great commandment can follow up on that friendliness
"Thou shall love thy neighbor as by showing to them what Relief
thyself"? Society can do for them, then we
We cannot fulfill that command- will, if I might use the business ex-
ment if we are exclusive at all. We pression, sell them on Relief Society,
must have the missionary spirit with I firmly believe that many women
respect to enlisting the women who do not come to Relief Society be-
are already members of the Church, cause they do not know what Relief
If we are reaching only half of them, Society is. I do not believe that all
then let us set our goals to reach the of them understand what Relief
rest of them. Society has to offer them. How can
Relief Society may be used as a they know, unless we tell them?
marvelous re-activation organization. Is it out of the way, for instance.
We may reach out to the younger for us to go into the home of a new
women, the new mothers, and to mother and give her a demonstra-
the working mothers. Who needs tion right in her home of what
Relief Society and its work more Relief Society can do by way of
than working mothers to help them teaching her home nursing, child
enrich their lives and their homes? care, child psychology, making home
And we can reach out to the wives a more attractive place, building up
of inactive brethren. We can reach the high standards that ought to be
out to inactive women themselves, in every good Latter-dav Saint
and we can reach out more to sisters home?
who are active in other organiza- May we not go to the working
tions, but not so much in our own. mother and show her how Relief
Society can fit into her needs and
"DUT how are we going to do it? her time? May we not go to the
We are going to do it by being intellectual, yet inactive woman,
friendly, being neighborlv, by visit- and actually give her a demonstra-
ing, by soliciting their attention, tion in her own home of what the
and by giving them a demonstration literary lessons can do for her? And
of what Relief Society can do for may we not bring the message of
them. Relief Society by actual demonstra-
I once heard an address by one tion to all others in the same way?
of the great salesmen of the busi- We need to go out and demonstrate
ness world. This man, after talking by actual live demonstration what
about the great value of friendliness our work will do for them.
in making sales, said that the next Then there is this great mission-
great point was that people who are ary program referred to by Sister
selling a product must show the Spafford. President McKay has
customers what the product will do announced that every Latter-day
for them. Saint is tO' be a missionary, and part
I think that is very applicable to of that means that the existing
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organizations, including the aux- meetings, by co-operating with our
iharies, will participate in that pro- stake and foreign missionaries,
gram. I was glad that Sister Spafford
That means that we are going invited us to use the people, lest we
to continue this friendliness, this Jose them. I am confident that if
neighborliness, and by this neighbor- we can properly fellowship the wom-
liness and friendliness, build confi- en of the Church, and the good
dence in the mind of the women not of the Church, and hold
nonmember neighbor, and let her out to them a hand of friendship,
know what Christian goodness there we can bring in many of the Latter-
is in a good Latter-day Saint woman, day Saints who are not now coming;
First, build confidence, invite them we can use our work as a means of
to social groups, then invite them conversion for many who are not
to Relief Society, and when the yet members of the Church,
time comes, arrange, as Sister Spaf- Will you be willing to look at
ford has said, to co-operate with the this matter from the standpoint of
missionaries. a missionary? We must save the
Latter-day Saints, as well as the non-
IT would be a wonderful thing if Latter-day Saints. We must con-
every good Latter-day Saint vert the Latter-day Saints, as well as
mother would be willing to invite the non Latter-day Saints.
to a cottage meeting in her home If half our women do not come,
her good non Latter-day Saint there must be many among them
neighbors and permit the mission- who need conversion to our way of
aries to come in and give the life, to our organization. There are
missionary lessons to these women many nonmembers who are wilhng
so that they may understand the gos- to come. Let us use our facilities
pel doctrinally, as well as by merely to convert them, so that the light
observing us. of the gospel may come into their
Every one of us can be mission- homes that they may then help to
aries by extending the hand of build Zion. That we may all work
fellowship to nonmembers, by en- together in this way, is my humble
couraging them to be friendly with and earnest prayer in Jesus' name,
us, by inviting them to our cottage Amen.
> ^ «
t/t llioment
Padda M. Speller
Rayleigh, Essex, England, British Mission
Written on the occasion of the visit of President McKay to Great Britain
in February i960.
I caught my breath, my heart was stilled;
I thought, this wonder cannot be.
W^ith joyous tears my eyes were filled.
Our Prophet gave his hand to me.
(becond [Prize Story
Annual uielief Society Short Story (contest
Splendor Before Dawn
Sara O. Moss
SARA O. MOSS
MARY dusted the two end
tables with special pleasure.
They were her latest ''joys/'
their satiny finish gleaming against
the rich brown of the fabric on the
re-covered couch. She glanced
around the room, thrilled with its
beauty. It was just as she had
dreamed it would be, though it had
taken years — by adding a piece at
a time — to make the complete pic-
ture. But here it was — something
to be proud of, something she had
always wanted — an elegant living
room.
The telephone rang. Mary hur-
ried to answer it, knowing it must
be Linda with one of her prob-
lems. It seemed that was all the
girl had was problems, since she and
Phil had undertaken the pretentious
house on Juniper Street.
''Mother!" Linda was almost hys-
terical, ''they're going to take our
washing equipment — all of it, the
washer, dryer, and ironer."
Mary waited a minute. 'Tm sure
it isn't that bad," she said with con-
fidence. "Surely you can make
some arrangement."
But the girl was adamant. Three
payments had lapsed. Their money
was gone.
'Til come down," said Marv. "We
shouldn't discuss this on the tele-
phone, dear."
Mary hung up the receiver. She
had to call John, her husband, about
this. They would have to help
Linda. No woman could get along
without a washer.
John listened as Mary told him
the latest trouble that had beset
their youngest daughter.
"This is their problem, Mary,"
insisted John, "those two people
must find their own way out of the
brush. They have to learn that
they can't live in a mire of debt and
survive."
"I know, John," pleaded Mary,
"but a washer. No woman can get
along without a washer. It's her
right arm."
John hesitated at the other end.
"No handouts, Mary, no loans,"
John insisted.
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Mary waited. ''All right, John/'
she said a bit grudgingly, ''but it
wouldn't hurt us to help out a little
right now."
"See you/' said John with finality.
Mary hung up the receiver. She
thought of her own first washer —
a secondhand affair, because John
insisted on paying cash. She could
hear it yet, loud, noisy, and unlovely
to look at, but how she thrilled at
the lines of clean, bright clothes
waving in the sun. She had not
minded that she was not the first
to wear off the newness. She had
only felt a keen delight in knowing
it was hers.
5ii: sic ^ >!< 5jC
A/fARY drove slowly. She wound
around the circular streets of
the large subdivision. The beauty of
the new structures impressed her.
These were houses of warm, blend-
ing tones, rambling large houses,
soft white bricks combined with
mellowed wood, and others of soft-
toned woods and sturdy brick. There
were smooth, spacious lawns with
groupings of hard metal furniture.
There were expensive rock work,
flowers, and shrubs, which were
cared for by paid gardeners.
Then there was Linda's and Paul's
house — unlandscaped, the cold,
hard clay spilling over onto the
stone-laid driveway and walks.
Mar\' rang the bell.
"Mother!" exclaimed Linda, as
she opened the door, her eyes red
from weeping. 'Tm so glad you
came. Those men were here. They
have taken all the washing equip-
ment. I didn't think they meant it,
but they did. We just couldn't
make the payments."
Mary walked through the long
hallway into the spacious, carpeted
rooms. The nine-month old baby
sat in a playpen near the kitchen.
Mary picked up the child, and then
she could see the vacant wall where
the laundry equipment had been.
Its emptiness marred the elegance of
the wall.
Mary suddenly roused to what
Linda was saying. "And another
thing, those people who were sup-
posed to do the landscaping were
here last night."
"Yes?" said Mary questioningly.
"Instead of just putting in our
lawns and shrubbery, they want to
terrace and put rock work in the
backyard. The engineer says there's
a spring on our lot, and he wants
to make a waterfall. Oh, Mother,
it will take thousands of dollars."
Mary rose from sheer nervousness.
"And it seems we owe for the
installing of the air conditioner,"
continued Linda, "and these are
samples of our drapes. Mother. The
decorator was here yesterday." The
younger woman extended several
swatches for Mary to examine.
"Thank goodness we haven't signed
up for them yet, but I don't know
what the neighbors will say if we
don't soon get some drapes up. They
all have so much around here."
Mary rose. "Well, you'll have to
do something about your laundry.
Perhaps you can get by by bringing
your clothes up home, then get Phil
to string some lines and dry your
clothes in the sun."
Linda laughed. "I had to buy the
dryer. Mom, because Mrs. Packer
expressed her views on a clothesline.
She said she paid enough for her
lot and didn't want her view ob-
structed by clothes waving in the
wind. We just had to get a dryer." i
Mary sighed as she rose. "Such
SPLENDOR BEFORE DAWN 81
bondage! Oh, Linda/' she said for- opportunist, too, in a small way —
lornly, ''y^^^ young lives should be food bargains, little deals that filled
joyous and full of adventure. You the locker for winter. There had
can't possibly be happy with so always been plenty, always a sure
many installments to pay." way to meet the emergencies that
Linda was close to tears as she came along. Thrifty, yet no one
took the baby from her mother and could say John was stingy„ That
followed her to the door and out to winter when Mary's father had been
the car. hospitalized in the depression days,
''I know," she said, ''but it looked John had come to the rescue. The
so easy before we signed up for the little bank account was wiped out
house." completely, and he had started in
Mary got into her car. "Come up again ungrudgingly. Yes, John had
home and wash, dear," she said, helped many people — the Ander-
*'until you have worked something sons with the large family. He had
out." instructed Mary then to supply
She drove away, her heart wound- them with food and clothing. He
ed at the sad little figure standing had supplied them with money, too,
in the clay. If only these young and they had gotten by until a job
people knew the joy of freedom was in sight.
from debt and worry. If only they And yet, what an adventure life
would wait for the pleasures of own- had been. What fun they had build-
ing a little at a time, instead of rush- ing their own home^ making addi-
ing headlong into the mire of easy tions, improving, renovating, and
credit to obtain the things that making the old pieces serve their
come through waiting. purposes. The things that mat-
tered — music, education, a vaca-
lyfARY knew she could not help tion, new dresses for the girls, when
these young people now. Get- an event was something special —
ting the washing equipment back all those things John stood behind,
was only a drop in the bucket. The Life was lived leisurely and joyously,
landscaping, the costly draperies. No, Mary reflected, she had nevei
and the furniture for the elegant known what it meant to be bogged
rooms, and all the other expendi- in the mire of debt,
tures would in all probability have Tlie next morning Mary and John
the same consequences as the wash- sat at breakfast when Linda drove
ing equipment. John was right, in. She hurried up the walk, hold-
They had to learn the hard way. ing little Kathy limply on her hip.
Phil did not make that much She was almost running, and Mary
money. hurried to open the door. There
Mary looked back over the years, was something urgent in the girl's
John's thrift and organization in his face.
life was like a religion to him. As ''Good morning. Dad, Mother,"
far back as she could remember, he the girl said, setting her baby on the
had saved for a rainy day. Small floor. Mary could see excitement
wages, small savings, but the habit in her face.
was there. He had always been an "Mother, I can get my job back.
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SO Fm going to work — that is if
you'll take Kathy."
Marv almost choked as the full
impact of her daughter's words
pierced her mind.
"Well yes, dear/' she said, ''but
does Phil want you to go to work?"
''Not exactly, but he really hasn't
much choice. Mother. We have to
make some extra money, and there's
no other way to make it."
Mary sat down. She could see
John's set face. He did not like
any part of this.
"Well, ril have to hurry," Linda
was saying, "I have to be at the type-
writer by nine. I'll have to run back
and change."
"Now, just a minute," John was
saying. He rose and picked up the
smiling granddaughter. "Your moth-
er has her job, too."
Linda opened her eyes question-
ingly, "But that's just volunteer
work at the hospital," she said.
Mary fidgeted. She wished John
would not get down to cases just
now when Linda needed them both
so much. But her husband was
firm.
"Volunteer or whatever you call
it, it's something she loves to do.
She shouldn't have to be tied to
tending children."
Linda was half angry, greatly dis-
turbed. "But I thought. . . ."
"For today," said Mary briskly,
"Fll take Kathy, just temporarily."
John kept still, but Mary knew he
wanted to prolong this argument.
Linda set the bags down. "But
I thought you both loved Kathy,
and I thought you were glad we had
bought our own home."
"Of course we love this baby more
than almost anything, and as for
buying a home, that's a smart thing
for any young couple to do if you
can use moderation, but what you
and Phil have undertaken. . . ."
After a few curt words, Linda
hurried away.
"Oh, John," said Mary. "I wish
you hadn't made her feel so badly
just now."
John put an arm around her, at
the same time passing the baby to
her.
"Mary," he said. She could see
his eyes held only love. "We're
grandparents, but we are not going
to be babv sitters. We have earned
the right to do the things we want
to do."
Mary smiled at him through the
baby's blonde curls. "You're so
right, John," she said. "I just don't
have the nerve to set the children
straight as you do."
A week went by — two weeks.
Linda was working while Mary
took care of little Kathy.
Things got worse for Phil and
Linda, taxes, bills, commitments.
It's so useless, thought Mary, those
young folks aren't happy, and Phil's
dragging around, with that heavy
chest cold.
It was that night that Linda
called, her voice shaking with fear.
"Phil's so sick. Mother. Can you
and Dad come down? I'm so wor-
ried."
Phil was indeed ill. Virus pneu-
monia had set in.
For many days Phil hovered be-
tween life and death. John stayed
at his side, with Linda and Mary
relieving him often. Margaret, the
oldest daughter, came from Cali-
fornia to help with the baby and the
work in the house. Many in the
neighborhood responded with their
SPLENDOR BEFORE DAWN
83
love and helpfulness. The crisis
passed, and Phil showed signs of im-
provement. The convalescence was
slow, and it took many weeks before
he could be released from the hos-
pital.
On the day he came out of the
hospital Mary and John suggested
that they come to their home until
Phil was stronger.
It was a Saturday afternoon. Phil
lay on the couch in the living room.
He was strangely quiet as he looked
into the low burning fire.
''I don't ever want to go back to
Juniper Street/' he said suddenly.
Mary straightened. John looked
as calm as usual, but Linda was
startled beyond measure. She ran
to his side and sat on the ottoman
beside Phil, then laying her head on
his chest, she burst into violent cry-
ing.
Phil put his hand on her head.
''Go on," he said, ''it will do you
good, then we can talk."
Linda raised her head and wiped
her eyes. "I don't ever want to go
back either," she said. "We're not
ready for such a big house yet, Phil.
It's something we should have wait-
ed for for manv years."
"We'll lose our shirts mavbe,"
said Phil, "but suppose we do. The
way it is, it's like a chaos — a scram-
ble, so much to live up to— far be-
yond our means."
Mary felt a joyous relief. Then
these young people had learned, and
John had been right. They had
come out of the brush.
"I'll talk to the agent," said Phil,
"if he can sell, we'll take what he
can give us. We'll get us a small
place like. . . ."
"Like this," supplied Linda.
"We'll buy just a little at a time
like Mother and Dad have done.
We won't ever go into all those in-
stallments again." Linda's face
showed relief and joyous expect-
ancy.
Mary got up suddenly. "I'll fix us
a snack," she said, hurrying to the
kitchen.
John followed close behind.
"Well, dear," he said, pulling Mary
toward him, "I think you can buy
that washer for Linda now."
Mary beamed. "Oh, I'm so glad,
John," she said. "She's going to
need it. But no dryer, John. She
can get along without a dryer."
John smiled. "No dryer, Mary,"
he said. "She still has to find the
sunshine, and a clothesline is one
sure way.'^
Sara O. Moss, Salt Lake City, Utah, writes: "I have tried to show that debt is such
a bondage, especially for young people who seem prone to buy all the things at once."
Mrs. Moss is a talented and enthusiastic writer. She is a member of the League of
Utah \\'riters, a former member of the Barnacles, a writers club, and is a member of a
well-known workshop group in Salt Lake City.
She is the wife of Don W. Moss. They have three daughters: Joyce and Mary Sue
who are teachers in the Granite District; and Mrs. Carol Donna Voss of Pomona, 'Cali-
fornia. They have one grandchild. Mrs. Moss was born in Brooklyn, New York, and
came with her parents at an early age to Logan, Utah. She received her education
at Brigham Young College and Utah State University.
Funeral and Burial of President
Brigham Young
Part II
Preston Nihley
Assistant Church Historian
THE immediate reaction of the
leading brethren of the
Church to the death of
President Brigham Young, is well
expressed in the words of George
Q. Cannon, a member of the
Council of the Twelve:
''On Tuesday night," he states,
''as I sat at the head of his bed, and
thought of his death, if it should
occur, I recoiled from the contem-
plation of the view. It seemed to
me that he was indispensable. What
could we do without him? He had
been the brain, the eye, the ear,
the mouth, and hand for the entire
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints. From the greatest details
connected with the organization of
this Church, down to the smallest
minutiae connected with the work,
he has left upon it the impress of
his great mind. From the organiza-
tion of the Church, and the con-
struction of Temples, the building
of Tabernacles; from the creation
of a pro\isional State government,
and a Territorial government, down
to the small matter of directing the
shape of these seats upon which we
sit this day; upon all these things,
as well as upon all the settlements
of the Territory, the impress of his
genius is apparent. Nothing was
too small for his mind; nothing was
too large. His mind was of that
character that it could grasp the
greatest subjects, and yet it had the
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C. R. Savage
BRIGHAM YOUNG
Said to be one of his last portraits
capacity to descend to the minutest
details. This was evident in all his
counsels and associations with the
Saints; he had that power, that won-
derful faculty, which God gave
him, and with which he was in-
spired. And while I was thinking
of all this, it seemed as though we
could not spare him; he was indis-
pensable to this great work. And
while I felt it, it seemed as though
a voice said, 'I am God, this is my
work; it is I who build up and carry
it for\vard; it is my business to guide
my Saints*'' (Deseret News^ Sep-
tember 3, 1877).
FUNERAL AND BURIAL OF PRESIDENT BRIGHAM YOUNG
85
II
'T^HE funeral of President Brigham
Young was held on Sunday,
September 2, 1877, in the large
Tabernacle. The previous day, ''at
a quarter past eight o'clock in the
morning," the body was conveyed
from the Lion House to the Taber-
nacle, in order that the Saints might
have "a farewell look upon the
countenance of our loved and ven-
erated President, Prophet and
Brother. . . ." About half past ten
o'clock the doors of the Taber-
nacle were opened and the anxious
crowds admitted. From this time
on until nightfall ''there was a con-
tinuous stream of living humanity
passing through the Tabernacle"
until, it was estimated, that at least
25,000 people "had taken their last
farewell of the honored dead."
The following morning, Sunday,
Dun BubalL i^i Hdi iiume
BRIGHAM YOUNGS GRA\T
First Avenue, Salt Lake City, Utah
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at ten o'clock, the doors of the
Tabernacle were again opened, and
bv noon "the building was entirely
filled, as were the aisles and door-
ways, and every available standing
place. The congregation within the
building numbered at least 12,000,
while thousands of persons, unable
to obtain admission, were in the
grounds of the Tabernacle, or in the
streets outside."
''At 12 noon," the immense con-
gregation was called to order by
George O. Cannon. 'The Choir of
220 voices, led by George Careless,
with Joseph J. Daynes presiding at
the Organ," sang "Hark, From Afar
a Funeral Knell."
The opening prayer was offered
by Franklin D. Richards, after
which the choir sang "Thou Dost
not Weep to Weep Alone."
The first speaker was President
Daniel H. Wells, whom, with the
others, I can quote only briefly. "I
arise with an aching heart," he said,
"but I cannot let pass this oppor-
tunity of paying at least a tribute
of respect to our departed friend
and brother, who has just stepped
behind the veil. I can only say, let
the silent tear fall that it may give
relief to the troubled heart; for we
have lost our counselor, our friend
our President; a friend to God, a
friend to his Saints, a friend to the
Church, and a friend to humanity."
Wilford Woodruff followed with
a few remarks: "We have lying be-
fore us the earthly tabernacle of
President Brigham Young. His
voice is hushed in death, and all
Israel has to submit to the mind
and will of God. Israel will never
again hear his voice until after the
resurrection. I have no desire to
occupy the time of this assembly, in
eulogizing the life of President
Young. His works and words are
recorded in Heaven, and they are
recorded here on the earth; and that
is sufficient. Let those of us who
remain a few days study the coun-
sels, the sermons and principles
which have been revealed to us
through the mouth of the Prophet
of God "
j^RASTUS Snow followed: ". . . It
would be a small thing to
add my testimony, but which I
know would be the testimony of
thousands before me, as well as thou-
sands who are not with us today,
more especially those who have been
longest and most intimately ac-
quainted with him; namely, the
never-failing devotion of his heart
to the building up of the Kingdom
of God, to the honoring of the Holy
Priesthood he received, and the
carrying out of the counsels of the
Lord, and all things revealed
through the Prophet Joseph. . . ."
George Q. Cannon then arose and
read this remarkable statement,
which President Young had pre-
pared in 1873, more than four years
previously, regarding his funeral
services and the disposition of his
remains :
"I, Brigham Young, wish my
funeral services to be conducted in
the following manner:
"When I breathe mv last, I wish
my friends to put mv bodv in as
clean and wholesome state as can
conveniently be done, and preserve
the same for one, two, three or four
days, or as long as my body can be
preserved in good condition. I want
my coffin made of plump one
and one-quarter inch boards, not
scrimped in length, but two inches
FUNERAL AND BURIAL OF PRESIDENT BRIGHAM YOUNG 87
longer than I would measure, and tabernacle rest in peace, and have a
from two to three inches wider than good sleep, until the morning of the
is commonly made for a person of first resurrection; no crying or
my breadth and size, and deep mourning with anyone, as I have
enough to place me on a little com- done my work faithfully and in good
fortable bed, with a good suitable faith.
pillow for size and quality; my body "I wish this to be read at the
dressed in my Temple clothing, and funeral, providing that I should die
laid nicely into my coffin, and the anywhere in the mountains, I desire
coffin to have the appearance that the above directions respecting my
if I wanted to turn a little to the place of burial to be observed; but
right or the left, I should have plen- if I should live to go back with the
ty of room to do so. The lid can Church to Jackson County, I wish
be made crowning. to be buried there."
"At my interment I wish all of BRIGHAM YOUNG,
mv familv nresent that ran he con PRESIDENT OF THE CHURCH
m) tamily present, tliat can be con- ^^ ^ CHRIST OF
veniently, and the male members LATTER-DAY SAINTS
wear no crepe on their hats or in SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 9, 1873,
their coats; the females to buy no SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH
black bonnets, nor black dresses^
nor black veils; but if they have pRESIDENT Young did die ' 'in
them they are at liberty to wear the mountains," and his in-
them. The services may be per- structions were respected,
mitted, as singing and a prayer The concluding speakers were
offered, and if any of my friends George Q. Cannon and President
wish to say a few words, and really John Taylor.
desire, do so; and when they have ''His value has not been properly
closed their services, take my re- estimated by the Latter-day Saints,"
mains on a bier, and repair to the said Elder Cannon. 'There are none
little burying ground, which I have of us who will not feel this more
reserved on my lot east of the White and more, every day in the future.
House on the hill, and in the south- Today, now that we have lost him,
east corner of this lot, have a vault we examine our conduct, and the
built of mason work large enough wish will rise that we had been more
to receive my coffin, and that may obedient, more willing to observe
be placed in a box, if they choose, his counsels, and pay him that re-
made of the same material as the spect and reverence which his great
coffin — redwood. Then place flat qualities as a Prophet and leader
rocks over the vault sufficiently large deserved. . . . The time will come
to cover it, that the earth may be when the Latter-day Saints will ap-
placed over it — nice, fine, dry earth preciate him as one of the greatest
— to cover it until the walls of the Prophets that ever lived,
little cemetery are reared, which "I have been much with him. I
will leave me in the southeast cor- look upon this association as the
ner. This vault ought to be roofed greatest privilege of my life, to have
over, with some kind of temporary heard his counsels and witness his
roof. There let my earthly house or life as I have. And in contemplat-
88 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— FEBRUARY 1962
ing that life, it seems to me perfect, the guidance and direction of the
In my eyes and to my feehngs, he Lord. . . /'
was as perfect as a man could be in After a closing hymn by the choir,
mortality. . . ." and the benediction by Orson Hyde,
President John Taylor was the the body of President Young was
concluding speaker. ''We have be- borne to its last resting place, as he
fore us," he said, ''the body of the had directed. All that was mortal
man who has led us for the of him was given back to mother
past thirty-three years. Thirty-three earth; his spirit had departed to the
years ago I was with, and witnessed great kingdom beyond,
the departure of our first President,
Joseph Smith. He passed away in
very different circumstances to If I were asked to point out the
those which surrounded President principal thing, which, more than all
Brigham Young in his last hours, others, made President Brigham
Immured in prison, surrounded by Young the great man he was, I
enemies who sought his life and think that I should reply, without
attacked by a ruthless mob, savage hesitation, that it was his ability to
and relentless, they took away his believe — his great faith. First, faith
life, and he died by the hand, and in a living God, to whom he felt
in the midst of vindictive and blood- personally responsible and to whom
thirsty foes, who, in the absence of he felt obligated to render up an
legal offense, surcharged with deadly, accounting for all the deeds done
venomous hate, clamored for his in the flesh. Second, faith in every
blood. principle and doctrine revealed and
"President Young, after leading taught by the Prophet Joseph Smith,
the Church, and buffeting the trials and a firm and unyielding determi-
and persecutions to which the nation to shape his life according to
Church has ever been subjected, has, those principles. Third, faith in
at length, in these valleys of the himself, and in his ability to carry
mountains, after having accom- on the great work of establishing
plished the object of his life, and the kingdom of God, the leader-
done the work that has been ship which had come to him after
represented here so truthfully by our the death of the Prophet. Time and
brethren, who have spoken, lain time again in his history, I have been
down to sleep in the midst of a astounded by the strength of this
loving and affectionate family, sur- man's faith. On his tombstone one
rounded by faithful and tried might well have written He Believed
friends. . . . Both of these Presi- — yes, he believed his religion, this
dents had the faith and confidence great man, and he shaped his life
of the Saints of the Most High, and to its principles, to his dying day.
IGUASSU FALLS, BRAZIL
cJhe Spirit s Stillness
Caroline Eyring Miner
God's masterpiece, Iguassu Falls, demands
The spirit's stillness, savoring silence, too.
The mighty water thunders and commands
And I stand mute. Eternity shines through,
As emerald-amber streaked, the living stream
Plunges in shattered glass and silver spray,
Rising in mist like bride's illusive dream.
Glass beads spill on the mossy footstool where
Embroidered eyelet flounces endless weave
H\pnotic trances of this sunlit hair
So silver)' bright that falling, falling leaves
This memory in tropic jungle green.
Where the majesty and power of God are seen.
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QJood Ujuying, L^are, and Storage
Ruth P. Tippetts
Consumer Marketing Agent
Utah State University Extension Service
tiTT'S the Food You Eat That pends on many things. Shoppers
I Counts/' Good nutrition usually evaluate several factors, such
for your family is your goal as cost, nutritive value, use, con-
in buying and caring for your food venience, storage, and family pref-
supply. erence.
Through rain or through shine, in prices for fresh foods change more
winter or summer, you have the big during the year than their canned
job each week of buymg your fam- ^nd frozen counterparts. The price
ily's food supply. of the fresh form is generally low-
You have many items to choose est during the local growing season,
from. This complicates the picture Remember that markets often have
for most shoppers. In some areas specials on all three forms of a food,
many foods are found in fresh, ^xr. , t •
canned, and frozen forms. Though , ^ith all the complications of
offering greater variety, more oppor- shopping, ood specialists say there
tunity for satisfaction, and money- ^^^ ^hree keys to success in food
saving possibilities, the multiple shopping. These keys are Wise
forms impose on shoppers a greater P^^^ning, InteUigcnt Selection, and
responsibility for making a wise Proper Care of Food,
choice. Wise Planning considers what
For most of us, improved trans- you are going to buy before you go
portation has extended the season to the market. Make a shopping
for fresh food beyond that of the list and prepare a week's menu in
locally grown products. Many advance. Use the following daily
canned and frozen products are food guide to keep your family well
available throughout the year. So fed. This guide is a pattern of
the homemaker's choice is less clear- choices based on what is known
cut than it once was. about our needs for vitamins, min-
The shopper's decision to select erals, proteins, and calories. Here is
a fresh, canned, or frozen food de- that guide:
Milk Group: Children need one quart per day; teenagers i-iYz quarts; adults i
pint or more. (Cheese and ice cream can replace part of the milk.)
Meat Groups: 2 or more servings of beef, veal, lamb, pork, poultry, fish, eggs, with
dried beans and peas and nuts as occasional alternates.
Fruit- Vegetable Group: 4 or more servings, including a dark green or deep yellow
vegetable at least every other day; a citrus fruit or other vitamin-C-rich fruit or vege-
table daily. Other fruits and vegetables, including potatoes, 1
Bread-Cereal Group: 4 or more servings. These should be whole grain, enriched, |
or restored.
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FOOD BUYING, CARE, AND STORAGE 91
Survey vour cupboard and refrig- time, and you need only shop once
erator to be sure of what is on hand, or twice a week to take care of the
Know how much money you can family's needs,
spend. Twenty-five per cent of the When buying meat, you can ap-
food budget is generally allowed for proaeh your market with confidence
meat, t\\'enty-five per cent for dairy if you arm yourself with informa-
products, twenty per cent for fruits tion. First, let your eye be your
and vegetables, twelve per cent for guide. The best beef comes from
bread and cereals, and eighteen per young cattle. Meat from such ani-
cent for sweets, fats, and oils. Keep mals is dark red, the fat is firm and
your food list flexible and list alter- white, the bones are pink, porous,
nate choices in case one food is too and soft-looking (gray or white
expensive, such as the kind of meat bones are those of an older animal),
for the main dish, or fruit for the Good pork will look lean, firm, and
dessert. By knowing what is need- pink, with a firm white covering of
ed before you go to the store, you fat. Look for veal which is juicy-
won't be spending money for some- looking, and light pink in color, with
thing that you don't need. You can little fat covering. Choice lamb will
take advantage of quantity prices if be fine-grained, pink, and firm, with
you need large amounts. bones showing red where cut.
Check the food items that are It is wise to buy on the basis of
plentiful. The wise food shopper cost per serving instead of cost per
needs to know the time of the week pound, especially when you buy
and time of year when various foods meat. Bone and fat must be fig-
are available in the largest volume, ured in the cost per serving. Beef
These are the ones that are most short ribs may cost less per pound
likely to give you the most value for than hamburger, but it gives you
your money. Acquaint yourself only one-third to one-half as many
with the grades and different quali- servings,
ties of foods that are on the mar-
kets. Lesser known brands often gOMETIMES, according to the
provide just as good quality, and, "se you're going to make of the
for many uses, the top grade is not food, you can buy a second or third
necessary. grade instead of the top grade.
Grade ''B" eggs are good for baking
A FTER you do your planning, and mixing in scrambled eggs and
then, it's time to use the second omelets. Spend money for Grade
key Intelligent Selection. If you are ''A" eggs only when you're going to
wise, you will stick to your shop- use them for poaching, frying, or
ping list and buy the protective cooking in the shell.
foods first — dairy products, fruits. The same is true for canned
vegetables, and meats. Let the goods. Casseroles and stews don't
other items come after these. Then need whole tomatoes. Buy a second
you won't be giving in to impulse grade of these. Using judgment in
buying too much. A shopping list this way can save money.
that is well made out, having related Take advantage of ''specials," but
commodities together, will save you watch food prices. In finding a
92 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— FEBRUARY 1962
bargain the first thing to do is to Keep eggs clean, cold, and cov-
compare prices. And that means to ered. Why covered? The shell
compare prices no matter what of the egg is porous. It can
special sales offers may be fluttering lose moisture by evaporation and
from banners, hung in the store, absorb odors from other foods. If
posted on the windows, or featured you use the convenient built-in
on cans and boxes. Those ''cents racks in the refrigerator, be careful
off" legends on the labels of so many to cover odorous foods and use the
brands these days are not reliable, eggs within one week. If covered,
Look for the actual selling price on the storage life is from two to six
the item. weeks.
Learn about manufacturer's brands Keep milk in the refrigerator be-
and retailer's brands. Here you may low 45°F. Storage time for pork
find equal quality at a savings. Your cuts is somewhat shorter than for
best guarantee of quality is to read other meat cuts. Use ground meat
the labels. They contain helpful in one day, variety meats in two
information as to weight, size, brand, days, fresh meat cuts in three to six
grade, number of servings, cut, meas- days. If you don't plan to use
ure, price, ingredients. ground meat the day you buy it.
Buy in quantity only if you can j^gep it in your freezing unit. Ground
use the product or have adequate j^gat spoils quickly.
storage space. If your family is x\t tj u i- j •
,P ^n . ' 1 1 Wrap cold cuts, sliced, m semi-
small, small size lars and packages . . ^ r . • i i
I . 1 ' 1 ,. • moisture proot material, such as
may be wiser buys than giant sizes, ■, ^ -,. 4.ooi7tt
•^ ^ 1 .^ ^ ' waxed paper, and store at :^8 r. Use
even at a low price. 1.1, -j c ^^ u i-^
^ within SIX days tor best quality.
IVTOW, here is the third key, Prop- Store cured meats, bacon, and
^^ er Care and Storage of Food. ^^"^ ^^ 38°F Use half ham within
Many homemakers overlook the im- f ^^" ^^y^. ^^^ ^^'\ ^"^^^^g ^^^^
portance of good care and storage ^^"^ ^^^^/^ ^.^^ ^^y'' . f
for the food items they buy at the ^^^^f §^ ^'Jl f/ J^""^^ h^"^' j'''''
store. There isn't any point to ^^^^^' ^^ ^^^^ ^^"^ ^^^^ ^o three
doing a good job of planning and a w*^*^ ^•
good job of buying, only to let the Store fresh fish, loosely wrapped,
nutritional value slip away, simply at 32°F. Use within one day for
because the food was not put where best quality.
it would keep its quality until it was Remove the tight wrappings from
used. poultry. Rewrap loosely and store
Wash fruits and vegetables and in the coldest part of the refrigera-
store them in the vegetable compart- tor. Use within two or three days,
ment of your refrigerator or other A loose wrap on poultry or other
cool place to keep them fresh, at- fresh meat permits the air to circu-
tractive, and full of value. Leaving late around the surface of the meat
them in the heat is one sure way of which helps to retard the spoilage,
losing the very things you paid for While the tough shell of nuts
when you bought the fruits and would lead most of us to believe
vegetables. that nuts are one of the best keep-
FCX)D BUYING, CARE, AND STORAGE 93
ers, the opposite is true. Nuts have restore quahty. A frozen turkey
a high fat content. They require re- held for one week at twenty to
frigeration. When the oils get twenty-five degrees is likely to dark-
rancid, the nuts will be stale. So, en. Orange juice will separate,
store nuts in airtight containers in Fruits and vegetables will lose color
the refrigerator or freezer. Un- and flavor.
shelled nuts keep better than Other storage care should be giv-
shelled. Unsalted nuts keep better en to some fruits and vegetables not
than salted, because salt spreads regularly stored in the refrigerator,
rancidity. Potatoes, for instance, are a hardy
In an automatic refrigerator with looking vegetable, but they are really
the control set for normal operation, quite perishable. Light causes green-
the center storage section of the ing which results in off flavor. Too
cabinet will probably run between high temperature hastens sprouting.
38°F. and 42°F. The area just be- Too low temperatures may convert
low the freezing unit is colder, for some of the starch to sugar, giving
storage of foods such as meats, poul- the potatoes an undesirable sweet
try, and fish, needing the lower taste. So, keep potatoes in a cool,
temperatures. The bottom of the dry, dark place with good ventila-
cabinet is somewhat warmer than tion.
the center, for less perishable foods. Store onions in slatted crates in a
If in doubt about your refrigerator, cool, dry, well-ventilated room,
take the temperature in different Pumpkins need dry, cool tempera-
locations with a thermometer. tures. Place on slatted shelves one
More and more frozen foods are layer deep. Store apples in a cool,
being used. "Zero Temperature" is humid place. Temperatures close
the most important factor to high- to 32 °F. are best for apples. Store
quality frozen foods. Once food dried products in tin cans, glass jars,
damage has been done because of and plastic bags, as free of air as
higher temperatures, nothing can possible, and in a dark place.
cJhe QJragiie utour
Maude Rubin
I walk my crusted path to evening chores,
My mittened hands steel-bracketed by bails
Of empty buckets. ... So time treads soft white floors,
Muffled by mores, wrapped in habit's veils.
New boys and girls come scuffling through the snow.
Their easy laughter tinkling hke wind-bells,
Bright skates on their shoulders. Far below
The pond is unetched glass. . . . Old music swells,
Recedes, then swells to burst the fragile hour
With a high and shattering timbre of pure sound.
The shards fall at my feet, a frosted flower
Too brittle to open its petals. . . . Frozen ground
Vibrates like harp-strings, plucked, and low-hung stars
Sway dizzily above the pasture bars.
Sixty LJears J^go
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, February 1902
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
OFFICIAL NOTICE: In consideration of the seventeenth of March next, 1902,
being the sixtieth anniversary of the first organization of the Rehef Society by the
Prophet Joseph Smith, in Nauvoo, Ihinois, March 17, 1842, the General Officers of
the society ha\'e thought it advisable to make the day a special occasion of thanksgiving
and rejoicing. . . . An interesting program suitable to such gatherings might be arranged,
bringing in the best talent available. . . . Any veterans in Relief Society work should
be remembered . . . brief historical sketches of some of the great leaders in the move-
ment, past and present, might be appropriate . . . and the teachings and instructions
of the Prophet Joseph to the Relief Society are always suggestive and profitable to
read on memorable occasions. . . .
— Bathsheba W. Smith
General President
DUTIES AND BENEFITS OF THE RELIEF SOCIETY: We, as members
of the Relief Society, feel it not only our duty to relieve and assist the poor, but to
comfort the distressed with kind words and acts; to visit them personally, help them
in trouble, nurse them in sickness. What a mission of love. . . .
— Catharine Naisbitt
LOVE'S SONG
I saw two happy beings
Whose lives were made complete,
For scenes of summer beauty,
Of wreaths and roses sweet.
Bright autumn's golden harvest
Of luscious fruits and grain,
And winter's hoary whiteness
All breathed the soft refrain:
*'Oh, love, thou gift to mortals given.
Thou gift which flows from out of heaven,
Each gentle word, each tender thought,
By thy sweet spirit, love, is taught. . . ."
— L. Taylor
RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE IN KANAB STAKE: Sister Elizabeth
Stevenson addressed the sisters. Referred to the importance of Relief Society work. . . .
Every virtuous woman should belong to the society. Spoke of the necessity of being
chaste and pure and making right marriages. There is a great mission for all mothers.
Help the daughters to become good wives. All be missionaries. . . . Keep the confi-
dence of your children, and teach them to be pure and holy, prayerful and modest. . . .
Sister Harriet Brown . . . remembered the hall and house where the first meeting of
the Saints was held in Nauvoo. . . . Felt deeply interested in the welfare of the young
people. Our children are our first care and will be great blessings if we train them
properly. . . .
— Persis A. Spencer, Sec.
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
lYf RS. ROY E. (VIRGINIA EP-
^^ PERSON) JAMES of Salt
Lake City recently spent two years
in Tapei, Formosa, where her hus-
band was deputy director of the
Mutual Security Mission in China.
She studied Chinese culture and
spoken Chinese, taught English in
her home to wives of Chinese dig-
nitaries, was one of two foreign
members on the YWCA board of
Tapei. She started a project to have
hard-of-hearing Chinese students
tested and hearing aids obtained for
them, and she founded a project to
acquire record plavers and records
for the blind as a means of educa-
tion and pleasure for those under-
privileged but earnest people.
JOAN SUTHERLAND, colora-
tura soprana, in November sang
at the Metropolitan Opera the role
of Lucia di Lammermoor and won
one of the greatest ovations in the
seventy-seven year history of that
famous house.
^GNES DE MILLE, niece of the
late famous moving picture pro-
ducer Cecil B. de Mille, is not only
one of today's finest choreographers
and dancers, but she also has written
two successful books and a number
of very good magazine articles.
T\R HURUTSTIATI SUBAN-
DRIO, assistant minister of
health in the Indonesian Govern-
ment, and wife of Indonesia's for-
eign minister, recently accompanied
her husband to Washington, D. C.
She then came to Utah to visit with
Dr. Virginia Cutler, Dean of Brig-
ham Young University's College of
Family Living. They became friends
while Dr. Cutler was doing im-
portant work for the United States
Government in home economics in
Indonesia. Dr. Subandrio savs they
are working hard in her country on
a ten-year plan to eradicate malaria,
which has been killing about 50,000
people annually.
''/GRANDMA (ANNA MARY
^^ ROBERTSON) MOSES,"
famous American artist whose
''primitive" pictures hang in mu-
seums in many countries and are
reproduced on greeting cards, died
in Hoosick Falls, New York, De-
cember 13, 1961, at the age of 101.
She began fulfilling her long desire
to paint at the age of seventy-seven.
Freshness, simplicity, and nostalgic
memories of a way of life tradition-
ally dear to her home country
marked her work. She possessed
courage, originality, and great
strength of character.
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EDITOWAL
VOL 49
FEBRUARY 1962
NO. 2
[Refinement of the Soul cJnrough cJrwulation
'''T'HERE ought to be a club com-
posed of women who have
lost their homes/' The voice of the
sister who spoke held a half-laugh-
ing, half-sad note. 'Tes/' she con-
tinued, ' Ve lost our home when the
children were young, during the
depression, and I will never forget
the heartache/'
Her words started a recital of
sobering experiences from those
who were sewing together, yet,
again and again the conviction was
voiced, "It was terribly hard at the
time, but I learned a lot and gained
understanding. In a way it was a
blessing in disguise, as I look back.
Of course, it didn't seem so at the
time."
As one reflects on the purpose of
life, it is not a matter of wonder
that trials, sorrows, temptations, and
bitter experiences are mixed with
opportunities, contentment, peace,
and joy. The great prophet Alma,
refined by his own bitter, youthful
experiences declared, "And thus we
see, that there was a time granted
unto man [after the fall] to repent,
yea, a probationary time, a time to
repent and serve God" (Alma 42:4) .
The Heavenly Father is no re-
specter of persons, for every one in
this world is his spirit child. Each
one was tested in the spirit world,
and only the two-thirds who were
obedient were allowed to come to
this earth and receive mortal bodies.
So important is the faithfulness of
his children in this second estate,
Page 96
that those who keep their second
estate are promised that glory shall
be added upon their heads forever
and ever.
The Lord must have a tried and
tested people. His omniscience
gives to each of his children in this
temporal world those experiences
which will develop each child to his
fullest potential.
Of the Savior it is written,
'Though he were a Son, yet learned
he obedience by the things which
he suffered" (Heb. 5:8). Suffering
— mental, spiritual, and physical —
teaches obedience, if accepted in the
spirit exemplified by the Savior,
''not my will, but thine, be done"
(Luke 22:42). Holy writ also says
"he suffereth the pains of all men,
yea, the pains of every living crea-
ture, both men, women, and chil-
dren, who belong to the family of
Adam" ( 2 Nephi 9:21).
In every tribulation, trial, sorrow,
and pain, strength to endure may
be sought from the Father in the
name of his Son who went below all
things that he might rise above all
things. Although, at times, one
may feel that one is alone in his
weight of trials, one may comfort
himself with the knowledge that
none escapes the sins and sorrows of
this world. One reads the solacing
and encouraging words "blessed is
he that keepeth my commandments,
whether in life or in death; and he
that is faithful in tribulation, the
reward of the same is greater in the
EDITORIAL 97
kingdom of heaven. . . . For after possess, through righteousness, that
much tribulation come the bless- parting gift of the Savior — 'Teace I
ings'' (D & C 58:2,4). leave with you, my peace I give
Experiences in mortality, accepted unto you. . . . Let not your heart be
in humility, add greater faith, deep- troubled, neither let it be afraid"
er repentance, a stronger power to (John 14:27). The acceptance of
overcome the temptation, less de- daily trials and anxieties and sor-
sire to judge others, a clearer un- rows, cheerfully and uncomplaining-
derstanding, refinement, and height- ly borne, refine and shape the in-
ened joy. And in the midst of dividual to endure to the end and
every testing in the world one may gain eternal life. — M. C. S.
Siege of vi/ inter
Lad W. HiU
Winter is king in your castle now, you have said;
Tower and garden whiten and are still.
Yet, every night I walk up the orchard hill
And hear the rustle of young leaves overhead.
Behind your wall only cold hands, you declare,
Command your guardian stones to uniform frost.
Yet the words you say drift over like petals, lost
From lilac-wind warm as May upon my hair.
So you are betrayed: spring has appointed spies
To creep thin as ivy up your citadel.
To open the secret passage, the hidden cell.
Soon, banners of purple will guide our waiting eyes.
cJhe Second fliile
Nancy M. Armstrong
"And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain" (Mt. 5:41).
npHE second mile, the mile of one's own choosing, assures the victory. The second
■■■ mile changes acquaintance into friend, affection into love, quarrel into recon-
cihation, resentment into forgiveness, duty into joy, failure into success, existence into
gracious living, prejudice into understanding, belief into faith.
91oi(lA TO THE FIELD
alynin of the 1 1 ionth — J^nnual JList
January - December 1962
T^HE Church-wide congregational hymn singing project, inaugurated by
the Church Music Committee, will be continued during the coming
year, and all auxiliary organizations have been invited to participate. The
purpose of this project is to increase the hymn repertoire of the Church
members and to place emphasis on the message of the hymns. Stake
Relief Society choristers and organists are requested to give assistance at
leadership meetings to ward choristers and organists in carrying out this
project.
January The Lord My Pasture Will Prepare
Joseph Addison — Dimitri Bortniansky
February God of Our Fathers, Whose Almighty Hand
Daniel C. Roberts — G. W. Warren
March Come, O Thou King of Kings
Parley P. Pratt
April He Is Risen
Cecil Alexander — Joachim Neander
May O God, The Eternal Father
William W. Phelps — Felix Mendelssohn
June God of Power, God of Right
Wallace F. Bennett — Tracy Y. Cannon
July God Moves in a Mysterious Way
William Cowper — William B. Bradbury
August How Great the Wisdom and the Love
Eliza R. Snow — Thomas Mclntyre
September God Loved Us, So He Sent His Son
Edward P. Kimball — Alexander Schreiner
October I Know That My Redeemer Lives
Samuel Medley — Lewis D. Edwards
November Now Thank We All Our God
Martin Rinkart — Johann Cruger
December Oh Come, All Ye Faithful
No.
113
No.
54
No.
20
No.
61
No.
125
No.
36
No.
48
No.
68
No.
178
No.
95
No.
120
No.
129
cJhe vl/ inter cJrees
Vesta N. Fairbairn
Nourished by hidden springs.
Cradled by mountain breeze.
And warmed by summer sun
The little new-born trees —
The cedars, firs, and pines —
Are sleeping now below
A blanket, soft and white.
And tucked beneath the snow.
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cJhe [Blue (gingham 'Jjress
Betty Lou Martin
IT was only by accident that
Becky found the blue gingham
dress, fading now with age. She
had been cleaning out an old trunk
that she had brought from her
Grandmother Arnold's house when
she had died. She smiled when she
saw the dress and held it fondly up
to her, then she caressed it lovingly.
"Hmm/' Becky sighed, ''did I ever
have a waistline like that?" She fold-
ed the dress neatly, and turned to
put it back in place.
''What are you doing?" Becky's
ten-year-old daughter Kay inter-
rupted her mother's thoughts.
"Oh, just dreaming, dear." Becky
spoke softly. "Dreaming of a time
long ago. I guess that mother will
have to make you a blue gingham
dress someday, but you're far too
young now."
"What do you mean, a blue ging-
ham dress, Mommy?" Kay ques-
tioned. "Is that what you were put-
ting back in that old trunk when I
came in?"
"Yes, Kay," Becky answered.
"That dress has many old memories
for your mother."
"It just looks like a plain, old
dress to me," Kay said.
Becky laughed. "You know, it is
funny, dear, but your mother
thought that very same thing at one
time. Believe me, it isn't any ordi-
nary dress."
Kay sat on the floor beside the
trunk and eyed her mother curious-
ly. "Were you very old when you
wore that dress, Mommy?"
"Well, ril have you know that
I was a lot older than you are, young
lady."
Becky settled down beside her
daughter and gently laid the dress
in her lap. As she glanced down at
the dress, the years swept away, and
she was a young girl again, living
with her Grandmother Arnold and
reliving the happiness, the dreams,
and the anxieties that are a part of
the young.
;;t sjt >!« ?;«
C (,
'T^URN around once more,
Beckv," Mrs. Arnold said,
looking thoughtfully at her grand-
daughter's blue gingham dress.
"Now, Becky, I think that if I take
it in a little more in the waist and
make it a tinv bit shorter, it should
be just fine. You can take it off
now, dear."
Becky Arnold walked swiftly to
her room. She could hardlv hold
back her tears. Mrs. Arnold, her
grandmother, was so dear, and she
had tried so very hard to please
Becky since she had come to live
with her, but she did want a new
dress.
Becky's parents had both been
killed in a boating accident when
Becky was nine vears old, and since
that time Mrs. Arnold had been as
a mother to her. Times had not
been easy for them, however, but
they had always managed to have
enough for the necessities, even
though Becky couldn't have many
clothes. Becky had always worn
her cousins' castoflfs and very rarely
did she get a new dress.
Since her grandmother's health
had failed, Becky endeavored to sup-
port them both on her salary as an
office girl at the local lumber yard.
Becky wasn't ungrateful for all
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her grandmother's tireless efforts,
but just this once she wanted a new
dress for the dance on Friday night.
She had thought that she had
enough money put away to buy the
material for the dress, when the
washing machine had broken down,
and it had taken every penny she
had saved to have it repaired.
Neither Becky nor her grandmother
had expressed her disappointment
that Becky couldn't have the new
dress. Instead, Mrs. Arnold had
remodeled the blue gingham dress
that Becky's cousin had given her
some time before.
When Friday night arrived,
Becky wasn't in the least excited
about the dance. Her friends had
been chattering all week in anticipa-
tion of it, and it seemed to Becky
that every other girl had a new dress
for the occasion.
It's no use, Becky thought, as
she surveyed herself in the blue
gingham dress. No boy will ever
ask me to dance wearing this.
Becky pictured her grandmother
slaving tediously over the sewing
machine, doing the best she could
with what she had. It hasn't been
easy for Grandma either, and she
doesn't feel too well most of the
time. I should be ashamed of my-
self for acting so ungrateful. Maybe
Grandma would like something new
herself once in a while, Becky
thought.
Becky ran a comb through her
short, dark hair, smoothed her dress,
and walked into the living room
where her grandmother sat reading.
'Tou look very lovely, dear."
Mrs. Arnold smiled at Becky. 'The
blue in your dress makes your eyes
apear even more blue."
Becky smiled back at her grand-
mother, even though she thought
that Mrs. Arnold was just trying to
be kind. 'Thank you, Grandma."
Becky kissed her grandmother ten-
derly on the cheek. 'The dress
turned out much better than I
thought it would. It's just fine."
"Ym glad that you're pleased,
dear." Mrs. Arnold seemed relieved.
''Have a nice time tonight, won't
you?"
T3ECKY met her two friends,
Cathy and Janet, at the corner,
and together they walked to the
dance. It was a warm, lovely night,
with the stars winking down like
thousands of miniature lights in a
field of black velvet. Becky felt as
if she could walk all night in the
calmness that surrounded her.
Janet, a small blonde girl with a
sweet-featured face, broke the si-
lence. 'Tou really look nice tonight,
Becky."
'Tes, you do, Becky," Cathy, the
tallest of the three girls, added.
Becky frowned. Why do they all
try to be so kind to me? she thought
unhappily. I know very well that my
dress isn't as pretty as theirs. Why
do they have to say anything at all?
The dance had just begun when
the girls arrived. Couples swung by,
happily swaying to the music. Becky
only wished that she, too, could join
in the gaiety of the group. ''Well,
why can't I?" she mused. "After
all, I'm not going to let this old blue
gingham dress spoil my fun."
Becky's frown changed to a radi-
ant smile, and soon she, too, was
swaying happily to the music in her
modest blue gingham dress. Then
Mike Anders asked her to dance,
and for a moment she felt her smile
fade, and anxiety set in. However,
THE BLUE GINGHAM DRESS
101
in the presence of Mike, her skepti-
cism soon vanished, and once more
she was caught up in the magic of
the evening that had prevailed be-
fore Mike had asked her to dance.
Twenty-year-old Becky had want-
ed to meet Mike Anders since he
had moved to Pleasant City a year
ago. His tall good looks had ap-
pealed to her since the first time
that she had seen him.
Becky danced as she had never
danced before, and her young heart
was full of the wonder of life and
the goodness that it had to offer,
if one only bothered to look for it.
When Mike asked to take Becky
home from the dance, her evening
was complete.
'I' 5]«
"DECKY shut the lid on the trunk
down and slid it back in place.
'It's time to start dinner now, Kay.
Your father will soon be home, and
he'll be hungry."
''My, how we've changed over the
years," Beckv teased Mike at dinner
that night. "And you're even more
handsome now, Mr. Anders."
"I guess that's my cue to tell you
that you're even more beautiful than
when I married you, Mrs. Anders."
Mike winked at Becky.
Becky had matured into a beauti-
ful, gentle \\'oman, happy with her
husband and familv. She could
never cease to wonder that God
should bestow so many blessings
upon her. Each moment of her life
became a treasured and happv seg-
ment that added together into a
glorious existence.
After dinner, when the dishes
were done and Kay was in bed,
Becky and Mike were sitting out
on the porch in their favorite spot,
the porch swing. The aroma of
honeysuckle filled the air, and the
crickets in the distance sang their
enchanting song to the night.
Becky felt calm and relaxed and
totally at peace with the world.
Mike has done this for me, she
thought to herself.
It was then that Becky casually
mentioned the blue gingham dress
to Mike. He seemed somewhat sur-
prised. "I didn't know that you
were wearing a blue gingham dress
that night."
"You didn't!" It was Becky's turn
to be surprised. "I thought that
everyone noticed the dress that I
was wearing that night."
"Of course I noticed that you
were neat and modestly dressed, but
I was too dazzled by the shining
radiance of vour face to notice what
the dress was like that vou were
wearing." Mike was serious as he
took Becky's hand.
Becky was startled and then she
laughed. "After all the worrying I
did about that dress. I thought that
everyone would notice that it was
made over, and how shabby I looked
at the side of all the other girls in
their new dresses."
"Let that be a lesson to you, Mrs.
Anders," Mike added. "It is the
way a person is on the inside that
determines whether she is beautiful
or not."
"That it is, Mike," Becky agreed,
"but still, I think that someday I'll
get Kav a blue gingham dress."
Mike laughed. "Well, if you
must, but just promise me that you
won't until she is about say —
twenty?"
Beckv laughed, too. '*I promise,"
she said.
I f Lake S/t (^Jut of Sd mag mat ton
Sylvia W. Dixon
HOW long has it been since you
took time truly to anticipate
something? Close your eyes
a moment and let yourself drift into
the enchanting world you knew as
a child. Remember the wonderful
expectancy of everything — the
shiny new shoes that you would
wear with pride to Sunday School
— the tantalizing taste of that Jast
piece of cake that might be yours
after the company departed — the
marvelous torture of waiting for
Christmas? Recapture the wanting
you knew as a child — the un-
matched desire of wanting to make
something for Mother, some won-
derfuJ thing she would lovingly dis-
play and, then, though everyone
else was there, her eyes would hold
for you alone that loving ''Thank-
you" look that means so much to
us all.
Now we are ready to use what my
Mother called ''Make-it-out-of-imag-
ination." Perhaps it was pioneer
austerity that started it, the severe
simplicity of the times she grew up
in, but she believed anything could
be made from something — and do
you know — it can!
Walk with me through your home
swinging your mental searchlight
into every corner. Ask yourself,
''What makes beauty?" Is it the
slender liquid gracefulness of a taper
in a crystal candlestick? Well, you
can't blow glass, but wait, you can
put together things that will add
up to the same graceful effect. Start
by turning things upside down,
dishes, bud vases, the shiny collar
that fits around a pipe as it enters
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the wall. Experiment. It's fun —
it's therapeutic — and can be profit-
able when making gifts or decorative
objects for the home.
All worthwhile things are the re-
sult of knowledge, plus effort, plus
talent. We must also add accident,
plus inspiration, for many of the
things we value most are the prod-
uct of someone's imagination and
inspiration after an accident or un-
intended turn of events in some
process. To make things that \\ill
satisfy you and not just waste your
time, you must deliberately hunt for
inspiration.
M
OST of us have one or two sherbets
left from a set or some odd glass
coasters, maybe a tall crystal saltshaker, the
top of which is dented. Take the top off,
and see how lovely violets look in this tiny
slender vase. Or place the salt shaker on
the turned-over glass coaster (Figure i).
J
Figure i
CANDLESTICK
made from a salt shaker
MAKE IT OUT OF IMAGINATION
103
My glass coasters were edged in filigree
silver and dear to me because they were
among my parents' wedding gifts, but the
crystal bases in them were cracked. The
salt shaker hid the cracks. (There are
many things you can use other than a salt
shaker, of course. I have successfully used
t\^'0 glass furniture casters, plus one stubby
little dime-store salt shaker.) Using a
good grade of jewelry cement, and care-
fully following instructions on the tube,
cement the shaker to the coaster. Next,
turn a small glass caster (such as you
would place under a chair leg) upside
down and cement it in place on top of
the shaker, to hide the threads that held
on the silver top. This also provides a
level top for your candlestick. Decide
which size candle will look best on the
base you have created, find a Hd from a
cosmetic bottle or spray can, cement it
firmly to the glass caster, place your candle
in it. Anyone who has known and loved
your Mother would be thrilled with such
a gift, made with odds and ends that
were hers.
A drawer pull is placed above the base
of the old lamp, and the candle itself is
made by pouring wax into a cookie sheet
and putting it on the candle in layers to
build the shape.
Figure 3
CANDLE HOLDER
made from chair leg
Figure 2
CANDLE HOLDER
made with bottom of old lamp for base
A N old floor lamp or light fixture dis-
-^^ mantled is a veritable treasure chest
for making bases for candles or center-
pieces. An oriental-shaped candle looks
most appropriate on a base made by turn-
ing a lotus-shaped brass ornament from
an old lamp upside down and securing it
to a flat-topped drawer pull (Figure 2).
Most candlesticks of this type have a sharp
point to insert into the candle to hold it
securely. Where this is lacking, use flor-
ist's clay.
A discarded old chair will yield a
-^^ beautifully turned leg, which, if
fitted with a heavy base and spray painted,
will make an elegant stand for a fat
Christmas candle. Saw the chair leg to
the desired length, remembering that two
or three inches will be required to fit
into the base. If you don't have an old
lamp base for it, make one from plaster of
Paris. Use a bowl or a cake pan for a
mold, remembering to provide a hole in
the center in which to place your dowel,
or chair leg. (This can be done by plac-
ing the dowel or leg end in a plastic bag
and easing it straight down through the
plaster of Paris, holding it until the plaster
sets.) Duplicate the shape of your base
in the top piece on which the candle will
rest. This can be made of plywood,
edged with metal molding (bought on
spools in almost any store). Drive a fat
short nail through the plywood top, directly
in the center, before attaching it to the
base so that the candle can be pressed
down onto the nail. The top piece can
be attached with two long wood screws
(on each side of the nail) or with con-
tact glue. Spray the whole stand gold.
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For Christmas, pine cones and a green
satin bow will look festive with a fat red
candle (Figure 3). For a wedding, paint
the stand white, antique with a little gold
spray, and twine flowers down the stem.
Arrange tapers of various lengths on the
top (Figure 4).
Figure 4
CANDLE HOLDER
decorated for a wedding
Purchase a plain round globe (called a
rose bowl) and a package of colored, pearl-
like flat rocks sold for use in fish bowls.
Separate the rocks, using two shades of
one color or two complimentary colors.
I used green and blue with a few lavender
ones. Dip each pebble in jewelry coment
and place carefully inside the rose bowl
in a mosaic pattern pleasing to your eye.
I placed them in a random fashion about
one-fourth of the way up the bowl. My
teen-age daughter Marianne enjoyed help-
ing with this, and even your little ones
will love separating your rocks. When
the glue was completely dry, I poured
pale green wax in carefully, not quite to
the top of the rock design, then inserted
a fat birthday cake candle in the center
of the wax for a wick ( Figure 5 ) . Any
small glass dish turned upside down will
Figure 5
CANDLE HOLDER
made with a rose bowl
make a nice base for it. Before cement-
ing the bowl on the base, insert several
loops of shiny ribbon in a complimentary
color between the two.
You may not like all the objects
you create, but you and your family
will develop an awareness of the
beauty and utility in everything
around you. Ask yourself ''What
else would this be good for?" Or
''What else could I use here?" It is
an enchanting hobby and a worth-
while way of alerting ourselves to
the potential in life. Being able to
make "anything out of something,"
or "something out of nothing," may
be a very valuable exercise for all
of us.
Sait-Lrork y^nddle L^akes
Pioneer Pancakes
Chet Switell
!4 lb. salt pork, chopped very fine
Vz c. hot cider
% tsp. mace
1 c. buckwheat flour
1 c. buttermilk
2 eggs, well beaten
Vi c. sugar
Vi tsp. salt
1 tsp. baking powder
Vz tsp. baking soda
Chop up the salt pork as fine as you can while the cider is coming to a boil. Add
the salt pork to the cider. Add the mace. Stir in the flour and add the buttermilk
slowly. Mix well. Beat eggs and stir in sugar, salt, baking powder, and baking soda.
If the batter is too thick at this stage, add '4 cup plain milk, until batter is of desired
consistency.
Preheat an iron griddle or pan and brush on a bit of bacon fat, and then spread the
batter. Turn heat down, as these griddle cakes must be pan-baked slowly for best
results.
These griddle cakes must be tasted to be fully appreciated, as they are different,
and the salt pork makes them so. Serve in the usual way with your favorite syrup
or honey.
These salt-pork pancakes were invented by the first Latter-day Saint women cross-
ing the plains toward their new, as yet unfound, home in the West. There was a great
shortage of food, so with the ingredients they had in their wagons, the pioneering
women created these wonderful salt-pork pancakes.
Your family, too, will consider these a life-saver food for a special breakfast.
In the original pioneer recipe, the eggs, buttermilk, and sugar were left out, and
molasses was substituted for the sugar.
Cc
auiiriower
(^asseroie
Edna Lind Cole
1 cauliflower, medium size
1 c. celery, coarselv cubed
1 c. canned tomatoes, chopped
1 medium-size onion, cubed
1 sprig parsley, cut fine
1 green pepper, minced
2 hard boiled eggs, chopped
(one to put inside and one to garnish
on top)
Yi c. cheese, cut fine or grated
Yi c. potatoes, cold mashed
1 tbsp. butter
1 tbsp. lemon juice
Yi c. milk, seasoned with salt, pepper,
paprika. Add
four rosemary leaves.
Cook cauliflower in salted water. Use all leaves, except stiff outer leaves. When
done, break up flowerets with fork. Chop leaves. Add lemon juice and blend in all
the other ingredients. Arrange in casserole dish. Sprinkle some cheese and paprika
on top. Bake 20 minutes. Garnish with parsley and chopped egg. Serves four.
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cJhe dioudinattie
Maryhale Woolsey
THE spelling of the name was house to be filled during the harvest
Mother's guess, and nobody season and have the covers nailed
ever questioned it. It was, on — again, often by the sons and
she explained, a mental picture of a daughters. When a box had to be
word somehow derived from the opened for inspection, that Houdi-
name Houdfni, the famous magi- nattie was the only tool anybody
cian Grandfather greatly admired, ever dreamed of using.
''Sure the handiest man ever I heard The Houdinattie was Mother's
of!" he used to say. favorite tool. She had liked car-
And that Houdinattie was the pentering, to an extent unusual for
handiest, Mother thought, of all a girl, and often talked of learning
Grandfather's tools. It was a spe- to build things a lot more fancy
cial kind of hammer, all metal, shiny than boxes, when she got bigger,
nickel finished, shaped like a long ''And when I grow up and get a
letter ''T," with its stem split at home of my own, a Houdinattie is
the bottom. Its crossbar, heavy and going to be the very first tool I buy!"
squared at the ends, made the she used to declare,
double hammer head, and the split Well, the time came. That is,
stem made the claws. Not curved the time when Mother married and
as all the usual hammers' claws, but started housekeeping — and collect-
flattened to sharpness at their ends, ing tools to put up shelves and build
They could pry up nails and loosen bookcases and cupboards and
nailed-on box covers the quickest things. But, to her great disap-
and cleanest any hammer ever pointment, a Houdinattie was far
could. It had an unusually good from her first tool. The stores in
balance for nail driving, too. the small town where her husband's
Whoever had the Houdinattie, work took them, had no Houdi-
would be certain to nail together nMies and didn't even know what a
the most boxes of anyone in any Houdinattie was. Mother had to
given period of work time. In fact, be content with an ordinary claw
it seemed that anything you did hammer, until some time when
with hammers could be done faster Father could get one for her when
and more easily with the Houdin- he went to a bigger town. It was
attie. Boxes were what it did the when he questioned how to spell
most of, because Grandfather was a it, that Mother realized she had
''bee man" and used thousands of never seen the word in print — and
boxes every year to ship his honey discovered there was no such word
crop. The boxes arrived by car- in the dictionary,
load lots, pre-cut, but flat, and
Grandfather put his youngsters, "pATHER never could find her a
both girls and boys, to the job of Houdinattie. Some years later,
nailing them together and stacking Mother had opportunity to seek for
them at one end of the big honey- it in big hardware stores in Ogden
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THE HOUDINATTIE 107
and Salt Lake City. Nowhere could failed her as a mortifying thought
she find a Houdimttie, and among numbed her mind — and as Grand-
all the nice polite salesmen she father's mouth opened wide to emit
talked to, there was not one who a great roar of laughter. It grew
had the slightest idea of what she and grew until it seemed quite to
wanted. Even though she some- overwhelm him. His pink cheeks
times made a little sketch of it, they deepened to purple; he swayed help-
would simply shake their heads. lessly and slapped his thighs with
Of course, her search never be- his big hands,
came what you might call de- At last Grandfather calmed down
termined. The ordinary hammer a little, enough to say, between
served well enough for Mother's sim- gusts of laughter, 'That's what I —
pie carpentry. The Houdinattie was was guessing . . . oh, in those big
something to run onto some day stores! Wish Fd been there to
and rejoice over. It wasn't even on see some of those salesmen's faces!"
her mind enough to make her re- Mother felt her own cheeks start
member, at letter-writing times, to to burn hotly. Not until that mo-
ask Grandfather about it. ment, she told us afterward, had she
Almost six years passed before remembered Grandfather's habit of
Mother made the long journey back nicknaming things. The "whatcha-
to Oregon for a visit. The first time callit" . . . 'That thingamumbob."
she wandered out to the honey- But he would call them by their
house, there in the tool cupboard right names sometimes,
just inside the door, she saw that 'Tou always called it — that,
bright, shiny Houdinattie. Papa. Never once, anything else!"
''Oh, Papa!" she exclaimed. "Fm "Sure." Grandfather mopped his
so glad to be reminded of some- forehead with his big, blue ban-
thing I kept forgetting to ask you dana handkerchief, and chuckled,
in my letters. . . . I've wanted a "Lots handier than its rightful
Houdinattie ever since I got mar- nomenclature." He pulled himself
ried, but I've never been able to up from the nail keg, went over to
find one in any store I've been to." the tool cupboard, and reached
"Where did you look for it?" down the shiny tool. ''Inspectors
"Why, in the hardware stores — hammer, this thing is, daughter. A
the same places I've bought the man as busy as I, just hasn't time to
other tools I have. But nobody, bother with a mouthful of a name
anywhere, seemed to know anything like that, all the times Fd be say-
about Houdinatties. ing it. But that's what it is:
Grandfather sat down suddenly inspector's hammer. I sure would
on the nearest nail keg. "Houd— like to have seen those clerks when
that what you asked for, Houdinat- you asked for a — a Houdinattie.
tic?" he wanted to know. His Why, girl — if I had known vou
cheeks were pinking rapidly and his wanted one that bad, I would have
mouth twitching at its corners. bought you one from the Bee-
"Why, of course. That's what Keepers' Supply House a long time
you always. . . ." Mother's voice ago!"
We Help Build a Church at Paonia
Violet M. Evans
WE were told it would be a
day and a half travel. We
knew the name of the town,
the name of the branch president,
and had the blueprints along. It
seemed as if we were heading to-
ward the unknown. What were the
people like, what, the town? What
obstacles would interfere with the
job? We passed, blithely enough,
through the familiar towns of Ma-
lad, Brigham City, Bountiful, Salt
Lake, and Provo. Then, the desert!
I said: 'It is fascinating to me,
that on up ahead is a trailer space
just waiting for us, as if it were fate
that we occupy it." I went on:
'Taonia! Paonia! We are not even
sure how it is pronounced! What
if it is one of those squeezed-in,
smoggy, coal mine places?"
The pick-up did not answer, but
went along faithfully pulling the
loaded trailer. More desert! More
dried-up vegetation. ''What if Pao-
nia is just some more of this desert!"
I exclaimed, wildly. My husband
assured me that 5,600 feet altitude
did suggest "in the mountains."
We were both worried whether
there was a trailer park with mod-
ern hookups. Thinking of the
supermarkets and laundromats, I
said: "We could hookup at Grand
Junction!"
Lynn replied, laconically, "Too
far!" I tried again: "Delta?" He
replied again: "Too far!" The
monotony of the desert does tend to
make one irritable sometimes. Al-
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though I am unusually kind to my
good husband, I said: "Oh, heap
big Indian Chief, far too wordy!"
We had planned to get to Pao-
nia before dark, but taking two
hours rest brought us in when it
was getting late. My husband in-
quired at a filling station about
trailer parks. The considerate man
got his motorcycle and went ahead
of us to a trailer park among some
Cottonwood trees a mile out. There
were six neat-looking mobile homes,
widely spaced. And there was our
patient "spot," waiting for our ar-
rival at the far left, with a patio
pavement/
The next day was Memorial Day.
We spent it getting orderly and
clean. Towards evening, Lynn tele-
phoned the president of the branch,
who lived about twenty miles away.
When Lynn came back, I said,
"What did he sound like? I hope
he is not the glamorous sort!"
My husband said in astonishment,
"Well! What do you mean?" I
recovered with, "Oh, I want him to
be ordinary like me." He said with
surprise, "You are not ordinary!"
Which was flattery, indeed! Lynn
said, "He's dropping by after Mu-
tual to meet us!"
I did not see how Lynn could
watch TV so calmly after supper,
knowing this touchy meeting was
coming up. So much depends on a
building superintendent and his
wife getting along smoothly with the
people they come among.
WE HELP BUILD A CHURCH AT PAONIA
109
The branch president turned out
to be natural, sincere, and a very
hkable person. He told us that
there was a full time carpenter
available, and a good project clerk,
also. These two facts were an im-
mediate comfort! He and Lynn
talked for some time about the
project and possibilities, and then
Lynn said, 'Tet's go see some of
those people you mentioned, if you
have the time." I did not mind
being left alone, for I had told my
husband to forget that he had a
wife until the church was built and
to make blood-brothers of all the
men with whom he would have to
work.
'y HE next day, Mr. Phillip Ellgren,
who is a high councilman and
a man capable of being a building
superintendent himself, and my
husband got the two necessary
buildings on the lot. They ordered
a power pole and telephone, and the
next day went ahead with removing
a fence and leveling the lot. There
was a considerable amount of meas-
uring to do, and some adjustment
pertaining to boundary.
I began to content myself by get-
ting acquainted with my neighbors
at the trailer park. The husbands
all worked at the Paonia Damsite.
The dam had been ''building" for
two years and would be finished in
about fi\e weeks; then, some of the
men expected to be transferred to
the Crawford Dam. A Curecanti
Dam was going to be built, also.
There were eight or more coal mines
up the canyon which supplied work
for a good many men. These coal
mines were in pleasant surroundings,
and were not obnoxious. There were
two mountain passes which would
be interesting drives. Cherry, peach,
apple, and pear orchards, with irriga-
tion ditches full of running water,
were all around Paonia. Not too far
away were beautiful mountains. We
could not have had a happier assign-
ment!
When Sunday came, we went to
the meeting place. It was a back
hall above a drugstore, but was not
used by any other group. The meet-
ings followed consecutively, as so
often they do where members have
distances to come. It was fast Sun-
day meeting. The saints loved their
president. Brother Farnsworth, and
his lovely wife and family. The
meetings were especially fine. On
the way home, Lynn and I agreed
that we had never met a friendlier
people.
At four o'clock that afternoon the
members met and the ground was
dedicated. The two missionaries
who were leaving said that it was
possible that there would not be any
more missionaries in that area until
after the church was completed.
Brother Farnsworth dedicated the
ground in a sincere and reverent
prayer. After the dedication. Sister
Ellgren invited us over for ice cream
and cherry cobbler. After much
getting-acquainted talk, some col-
ored slides were shown of a trip the
family had taken to Glacier Park and
to the West Coast. The exening
had been most pleasurable. A feel-
ing of great appreciation came over
me for the friends we were making
— helping to build a church at
Paonia.
L^afe L^urtatns Jrire Versatile
Shidey Thulin
WHAT is the most popular, the most decorative, the most functional, and least
expensive window treatment today? There's only one answer — Cafe Curtains/
Why so popular? Because they are at home in many rooms, from attic bedroom
through kitchen, bath, or basement laundry room.
They are decorative, because you can use your imagination and make them gay and
colorful, whimsical (from comic prints as for children's rooms), sedate (as for dining
rooms), and bright as sunshine for music or sewing rooms.
How about functional? Cafe curtains really are! If you move a lot, they are your
only answer. You can make them fit a new set of windows by raising or lowering the
rod. They can cover the whole window, or three-fourths of the window, or half of
the window, or only the bottom fourth if you so desire. You can have them in one,
two, or three tiers. You can let them hang straight, tie them back, or part them.
They do away with the need for blinds, too, and can be hung on any sturdy curtain
rod.
They are by far the least expensi\'e curtains, because they can be made from in-
expensive prints, from bedspreads, from unbleached muslin, from tablecloths, or, for
small windows, from remnants.
How to Make
Plan double fullness for the width of your window and measure the length, plus
hem and facing, to estimate yardage required.
Wash and press the material first, unless you are sure it won't shrink. Before
making the points, make a narrow hem along both side edges and a wider hem across
the bottom (figure i).
Figure i
Make a narrow hem along both edges of the curtain, and a wider hem along
the bottom.
Lay the material out flat on the table and, using a paper panel the same width as
the hemmed material, divide it into equal parts and draw reverse scallops three inches
deep (figure 2).
Now trace with a dark pencil, scallops along the unhemmed top edge of the
material on the \^•rong side. Be sure to measure from each point to the bottom of the
material to be sure they are even
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INCHES
DEEP
Figure 2
Make reverse scallops three inches deep for the top of the curtain.
Cut a piece of material, full width by three inches deep, for the facing. Lay this
under the edge with the scallop lines, face to face, so the pencil lines show. Baste
them together across the top and bottom to hold them securely, then sew by machine
on pencil lines. Next cut out close to the edge around the scallops, leaving about one-
fourth inch seam. Turn the piece inside out and press down with an iron along the
stitching of the scallops. Then turn up one-fourth inch along the bottom edge of
the facing, leaving a one and one-half inch hem at the deepest point, and stitch by
machine (figure 3) .
FAC ING
Figure 3
Make a facing for the scallops for the top of the curtain.
If you would rather, you can cut out the points and bind them with bias tape of
matching color, so the tape only shows on the wrong side.
If you want them to hang especially well, press them into pleats by folding the
material from each point to the bottom of the curtain (the way you used to make a
paper fan when a child). This enhances the appearance and the hang of the curtain.
Attach a ring to each point and hang the rings over a rod.
tyi JLegacy of JLilacs
Pauline L. Jensen
ALL day we drove through a our way to the new home, with this
steady downpour of rain, and overnight stop on the way, suggested
it was late afternoon when by Martin, I was sure, in the hope
Martin, my husband, and I entered that it would divert me from the
the town where I was born and grief of closing the door on a loved
grew to womanhood. After an ab- phase of living. I couldn't tell him
sence of over twenty years, I was how badly I needed to find some-
going back to see the house in which thing here in this little town. Some-
Fd lived so many years, and the thing vague and unexplainable, but
grounds where my brother Tom and a something that would bolster my
I had spent countless happy hours. sagging spirits.
The thought of this return had ''See anything familiar?" Martin
sustained me all day, and pushed asked, bringing me back to reality,
into the background the bitterness I shook my head. The avenue we
I had felt ever since Martin had were driving along had been a lovely
received word, a month earlier, that street with wide lawns and beautiful
we were being transferred to another trees when I last saw it. Now it was
town. lined with drive-ins, a theatre, filling
'Til not go," I had stubbornly stations, garages, a miniature golf
maintained. "We've spent ten years course, and motels,
of backbreaking work and hard-to- "Here," Martin exclaimed, brak-
get dollars making this place into ing the car to a stop, "this motel
exactly what we want. I can't walk looks all right, and it has a vacancy
away and leave it for someone else sign. How about it?" I nodded,
to enjoy." I waited, as Martin registered, and
"We have no choice," Martin then came back to the car for the
had answered patiently. "And, this, bags. In the room, as soon as
after all, is a promotion." Martin had deposited a bag on the
"But our yard," I wept, "our chair, I flipped the bag open and
beautiful yard! The moonflowers on took out a pair of low-heeled shoes,
the garden wall, and the tamarisk I glanced at my watch. It was
below our window. How we've almost six o'clock and the rain had
loved that in the early spring — the stopped, but the May dusk was be-
first feathery blush of the season!" ginning to settle down.
I broke into fresh sobs. "These "Do you mind, Martin," I asked,
things are old-fashioned, Martin. No pulling on the shoes, "if I go to the
one else will want them. They'll old neighborhood alone? Some-
tear them up and replace them with how, I'd like it that way."
exotic plants that haven't their "Of course! I understand!" and
beauty." I blessed my husband for this under-
In the end, I'd done as I knew I standing.
would do. And now we were on The faces I saw as I walked along
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113
were unfamiliar. I passed the spot
where the old grade school once
stood. A new building, of light
brick and stone had replaced it. An
auditorium stood on the ground
where we played baseball in the
summer, and fox-and-geese in win-
ter.
My heart pounded as I ap-
proached the corner. For just be-
yond it was the house — our house
that Vd thought of so many times
in the years past. As I came in sight
of it, I closed my eyes, prolonging
that moment to which I had looked
forward. I gasped when I opened
them. The white picket fence that
Tom and I had painted, Tom
Sawyer fashion, was gone, and a low
redwood one stretched decorously
across the front.
T^HE house! This couldn't be the
big, square, utilitarian one
where I had spent so many happy
hours! A long portico extended
across the front, and the shuttered
windows gave it a look of southern
grandeur. Gone was the old bay
window, my mother's delight, and
instead a large picture window over-
looked the front yard and garden.
Not the yard and garden I had
known, with zinnias, marigolds, and
nasturtiums, but a clipped lawn with
rose beds and sundial.
My eyes burned with tears. There
was nothing here to remind me of
those happy years. Somehow I had
expected it would look the same.
I had hoped to see a collie, like old
Ginger, come bounding out to meet
me. There was nothing that bore
evidence of the kind of living we
had known.
Slowly I \\'alkcd past the yard,
searching, longing, for something
familiar. I turned the corner, feel-
ing lost, forlorn, and old. We lea\e
a place, I thought, and someone
comes who changes it beyond rec-
ognition. Nothing remains of the
old. Is this, I thought with heavy
heart, what will happen to our
tamarisk and moonflowers?
Suddenly I straightened. There
was something familiar. The scent
of lilacs! Lilacs, fresh-washed in the
rain! I saw them, then, a long row
extending full length across the back
of the yard. My mother's lilacs. For
it was she who had planted them
and tended them until their feet
were firmly rooted in the ground.
I recalled the time of planting.
The nimble fingers, long since
stilled, had placed each shrub care-
fully in its appointed place.
"Don't work so hard," mv father
had gently chided her. ''If my plans
work out, we'll be gone from here
before those lilacs bloom, and vou
won't be able to enjoy them."
I remembered, as if it were yester-
day. My mother had laid down her
trowel and looked up at him, her
Scotch blue eyes twinkling.
'Then I will have left a legacv of
joy to others. A legacy of lilacs."
Tears stung my cheeks. I seemed
powerless to move from the spot
where I was standing.
Suddenly, a light flashed on in the
kitchen and the door was flung
open. A slender, dark-haired wom-
an stood silhouetted there a mo-
ment. Then, walking lightly, she
crossed the patio and, flinging wide
her arms, she breathed deeply of the
lilac-scented air.
"Jim/' she called back over her
shoulder, '7^"^^ ^^ come out and
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join me. The fragrance of these
hlacs is divine/'
I stepped back in the shadow of a
tree, and watched a tall man stroll
through the door and join her. I
saw him put his arm around her
waist, and then thev walked toward
the lilac hedge.
I felt like singing. In spite of
portico, sundial, and rose garden,
these people kept and loved the old-
fashioned lilacs. It could well be
that those who followed us would
like our tamarisk and moonflowers.
I turned and started running. I
must hurry, hurry back to Martin.
I must tell him what had hap-
pened, and how my heart was light-
ened. For we, too, had left a legacy.
Not one of lilacs, but of lowly tam-
arisk and moonflowers, for others to
enjoy!
xjx JLift for LJour JLaundryi
Janet W. Breeze
DRY YOUR SWEATERS ON THE LINE
"DUTTON, button, — where did it go?
■■^ Next time one of those httle round
things with the holes in it pops off, tape
it (as soon as possible) to a file card and
identify its rightful owner. No more
hunting for lost buttons.
When washing sweaters, dry them on
the line this easy and wrinkle-free way:
pin two old nylon stockings to the line
side by side. Cross the stockings over each
other and slip through the arms of the
sweater. Pin the toes of the stockings to
the line.
://: ^ ^ ^ i^
Fill an empty window spray bottle with
water for a quick extra sprinkling while
ironing.
jjt 5|c si; jj; :>!;
You can carry those snowy white gloves
safely in your purse if you put them in a
small plastic sandwich bag.
^ 5r ^ 5^ T^
Pre\'ent the loss of baby's and children's
little socks by washing them together in
a closed bag.
Sweeter the cJhoaghts of JLove ibxpressed
Mabel Law Atkinson
"CWEET are the thoughts of love, but sweeter the thoughts of love
expressed." At different times when I have seen the lack of com-
munication between older parents and their children, this quote has come
to my mind, and I have sensed its full implication. It is easy to tell our
small children of our love for them, and to kiss away the stings of their
small failures; and for them, in return, to put warm little arms around
our necks, shower us with kisses, and say the magic words: ''I love you.
Mommy," or ''I love you, Daddy." But far too often the years, with their
speed of living and their many outside interests, silence the utterances of
such thoughts — although we still think them — and the doing of little
things that endear and enrich each day's performance in the great, con-
tinuous drama of life.
This was brought forcibly to my cognizance as I watched a young
matron going through her mother's ''things" after her death. In the
''secret" drawer of her mother's desk, she found a few letters and cards
which proved to be those her mother had specially cherished because they
spoke her children's love to her. Among them was a page from a letter
this daughter had written to her mother when but a young girl, one line
of which read, "I really do love you. Mama." Tears flowed freely as the
daughter, herself a mother, said, "Had I only known!"
I remember the day I visited an old, old lady. She proudly showed
me the card she had received that day from her son, a professor in a uni-
versity, and asked me to read it aloud to her. Of course she had read it
already many times, but she wanted to hear it again. So I began, "Dear
Mother."
Instantly she stopped me and said, "You read it wrong. He wrote,
Dearest Mother." That one word, or rather the adding of est, meant all
the world to her in affection value.
I recall listening to the experience of a lovely, mature Latter-day Saint
young woman whose father had recently passed away — several years after
her mother had left them. In teaching her Gleaner class in the Mutual
Improvement Association she said, "I shall tell you this sacred experience
of mine that vou whose parents are still living may fill their lives with joy
by showing and expressing frequently your love and appreciation for them,
which they yearn to hear.
"One night, a week before my father's passing, I gave him his medi-
cine and his glass of warm milk, his alcohol rub, straightened his bed,
fluffed his pillow, and made him as comfortable as possible. When I said
good night and asked him if there was anything else he would like, he
smiled weakly and answered, "Yes, my dear, just one more thing — a kiss."
". . . Sweeter the thoughts of love expressed!"
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Wean [Jtjunnel I Lewell Speciauzes in Jxnitting Sweaters
ana 1 1 iaking (jLairpin JLace
"pEARL Bunnel Newell, Orem, Utah, is mistress of many hobbies. She has made
-'■ hundreds of yards of exquisite hairpin laee and many doilies of similar stitches and
patterns. Her home and the homes of her relatives and friends are deeorated with her
handieraft. She erochets and embroiders, makes artificial flowers, footstools, ^^■all
plaques, pillow tops, and sews numerous varieties of aprons. She knits sweaters in many
different patterns, and makes baby bootees and shawls. She has pieeed and quilted a
star quilt for eaeh of her married grandchildren, and is busily engaged in making quilts
for the eight unmarried grandchildren. Mrs. Newell is an expert gardener, and her
indoor plants, including many varieties of African violets, are as lovely as her outdoor
garden, where she specializes in roses.
Mrs. Newell has been a visiting teacher for more than fifty years, and attends
Relief Society regularly. She has pieced more than twenty-five quilts for Relief Society,
and is acti\c in all the work-meeting activities. At se\enty-six, she has no plans for
retirement — only plans for trying to find enough time to take care of all her regular
work and all her hobbies.
Sians J^lona the vw
'9
9
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There are so many road signs — pointers ahead to happiness, peace, understanding,
and inspiration. All can be found in the Book of Books, offered by the great Master.
—Pauline M. Bell
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Sow the Field With Roses
Chapter 2
Margery S. Stewart
Synopsis: Nina Karsh, thirty-nine, horse-
back riding in the Mahbu Mountains of
Cahfornia, becomes lost. She meets
Tomas Novarro, whose grandmother's
house she has just rented. He owns con-
siderable surrounding property, and other
property in Mexico and Canada. Mr.
Novarro talks with Nina about the news-
paper account of her dismissal as a nurse's
aid from the local hospital, and Nina ex-
plains the circumstance.
TOMAS Novarro stood in the
darkness. He held a sleeping
boy in his arms.
''Mr. Novarro?" Nina fell back
as he strode into the living room. He
placed the child gently on the
couch, covered him with the silk
afghan Nina kept there. He stepped
back. His eyes were on the boy's
sleeping face. ''My son/' he said
heavily. "I have brought him to
you."
Nina stood hesitantly beside him.
The boy was very small, about four,
she would say, the age of Danny
when he came to her. But this was
no robust, raucous, demanding
child. Even in sleep, he was dif-
ferent, frail, his hair a pale drift on
the pillow, unchildlike hollows un-
der the long lashes.
"I ... I don't understand, Mr.
Novarro." Nina said.
"You are to take care of him for
me. His mother was killed two
years ago ... an accident. She was
riding and the horse fell into the
canyon. She should not have been
there at all, but she was very brave,
very headstrong."
Nina flung out her hands. "But
you don't know me!"
"I have made inquiries." He
leaned down to tuck the quilt closer
about the boy's shoulders. "You will
have none of the usual difficulties,
the child does not speak, moves very
seldom, asks nothing."
"Asks nothing!"
He said bruskly, "For a long time
he has been like this. I have spent
a great deal of money . . . many
doctors. They have names . . .
emotionally disturbed . . . perhaps
... or a birth injury . . . or. . . ." He
shrugged. "We are not so far as
we think from the dark ages." He
sounded bitter and angry.
"I'm sorry," said Nina. She was.
But she had no intention of becom-
ing involved with this unpredictable
man and his problems. "It is quite
impossible."
Novarro said curtly, "You are in
urgent need of funds. I will pay
you well."
Nina stepped back. "Mr. Novar-
ro, people don't just leave their chil-
dren with . . . with strangers."
He said harshly. "I know every-
thing I need to know about you."
He took a list from his inside pocket.
"Here is his doctor's name, the diet
for the boy, my attorney, Manuel's
phone number." He looked about
the room. "You keep it very well,
like she did, my grandmother. . . .
Good things happened to me in this
house."
They were silent.
"There are many very capable
people."
She had hit on a wound. He
started up under it. She said
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quickly, ''I am tired . . . you cannot
know how tired. I have nothing to
give to anyone, not now/*
The child stirred and lifted the
long sweeping lashes. Nina started.
The bov's eves were like his father's,
the same clear gray, the same shape.
The eyes regarded her blankly, with-
out curiosity. She wondered if he
saw the room, really. He looked
about him without interest.
Nina looked up into Tomas No-
varro's face, and the naked anguish
written on it shook her as nothing
else had.
''Very well ... if you like, you
may leave him for a day or two. Fll
see how we get along.''
''I am going away. You may get
in touch with my attorney, or with
Manuel." He moved toward the
door. "I am like you . . . empti-
ness. . . ." His hand swept the
room. ''But I am a man and I will
fill up the chasm, with work. I have
a great deal of work waiting for
me." He was angry, anxious to be
dominant again. "I do not sur-
render to sterility, to brokenness
. . . that is for woman."
■jM'INA said heavily. "I have told
you I would take him. What
is there you wish to tell me about
him? What does he like to eat or
do?"
"I don't know. I have kept away
from him. I couldn't stand the
pain of waiting and wondering. I
don't know." He opened the door.
"You will receive an advance check
in a day or so."
The great door closed under his
hand. Nina listened to the sound
of his hard footsteps on the long
patio, and the sound of them grind-
ing gravel underfoot, the sudden
roar of a car's motor.
She went back to the boy. They
stared at each other in silence.
"It is time for bed," Nina said
hesitantly.
He did not answer, only waited.
"Can you walk?"
She took his hand, and the boy
sat up. She urged him gently to
his feet and led him to the small
room across from her own. He went
quietly. He did not seem to notice
the room which held starkly enough
only a narrow bed and a chest of
drawers. The blind was up and
the hibiscus bush brushed against
the window. Another child would
have shown fear. Joseph did not
seem to know fear. Nina knelt and
unlaced his shoes and drew them
off. The boy's father had brought
no bag with him. He would prob-
ably send it over in the morning.
She unbuttoned the small shirt and
helped him out of trousers and
socks. She drew back the covers
and motioned him into bed. He
did not seem to notice the gesture.
Nina lifted him onto the sheet.
"Good night, Joseph." She stood
in perplexity above him, then she
leaned over him, thinking to show
him a small tenderness. He cowered
away from her, clutching the blan-
ket to him. No sound, only the
hunching of his small body in the
corner of the bed and his great eyes
on her face.
"I didn't mean to hurt you,
Joseph ... a kiss. . . ."
His eyes shone in the half-light,
his breath came quickly.
Nina stood uncertainly by his bed,
then she left the room. She did
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not turn off the low lamp. In her Over the telephone, Mr. Ander-
own room she wound the clock and son was sympathetic, but vague,
set it for six, undressed in the dark. No, he knew very little about the
It was disturbing, having the child child, had never seen him, as a mat-
there. She was angry and humiliat- ter of fact. Tragic case. It had
ed that Tomas had pried into her been a great blow to Tomas Novar-
financial affairs. When her father ro. He cleared his throat and was
was alive . . . when Danny was with hearty, "A fine man, Tomas No-
her ... it had been different. But varro."
people had a sixth sense about a ''A fine man," said Nina acidly,
woman alone. They seemed to ''does not leave his child with a
know she had none to defend her. stranger."
They took advantage in small, mean ''Mr. Novarro's judgment is excel-
ways. Sometimes it was terrifying lent. However, if you insist, I will
to be a woman alone in the world, get in touch with him, explain that
in this fierce and cruel time. you are unable to do the job."
Was there a sound from the boy's "Not unable," said Nina angrily,
room? Nina stood silent, listening, "unwilling. I . . . that is, my life is
She moved on tiptoe across the hall, extremely difficult at the moment.
But the boy was lying where she I don't feel able to cope with com-
had left him, clutching the quilt to plications."
his chest, wide-eyed and v^ordless. And the child was a complication.
M Nina looked across the room where
CHE went back to her own bed. the child sat in the deep wing chair
This was impossible! She would in the dining room. He sat silent,
take him back in the morning, call unmoving. It rasped on her nerves,
the lawyer and let him come and this silence, this unchildlike pas-
get the child. She turned restlessly sivity. Especially, since she had the
on her pillow. The wind stirred impression that when she was out
through the windows, bringing the of the room he was different. She
soft whinny of Dominick, bringing blew out her breath. Danny had
the fragrance of the orange bios- been like a hummingbird, darting
soms. It was life, she felt, flowing and skimming through the days, en-
through the room, life. Life that chanted by everything,
took from one what it pleased to "... As soon as I am able to
take and brought to her that which contact Mr. Novarro, I will get in
was far from her desire. Nina touch with you."
trembled under the soft quilt. What Nina hung up the telephone with
irony! She had cried out for an- an angry click. This was going to
other Danny and, instead, she had be one of those hurting, frustrating
been given this sick, chained child, days. I won't do it. She went to
In the room she had the feeling the great door and flung it open,
that something was demanded of The boy's bags were there. A note
her, something greater than she had was attached: "I rang, but you did
depth to hold. She turned on her not answer." It was signed Manuel.
side. She would call the lawyer in "Hmph! Rang indeed!"
the morning, the very first thing. A nicker from the corral sent
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Nina in that direction. How could
she keep Dominick now? She would
have no time to ride. She could do
nothing with the child here. She
would be afraid to leave him for a
moment.
Even at the corral there was to be
no peace. A boy of twelve or thir-
teen was sitting on the top bar talk-
ing to Dominick, feeding her an
apple.
IVTINA glared at him. "Who are
you? And what are you doing
on my land?" She stopped. She
sounded just like that Novarro man.
Well why not? Why should she
be the one to keep a gentle candle
burning inside herself, when every-
one else she met seemed determined
to be ugly?
The boy leaped down from the
bar and came around to her. He
was quick and dark, with wide white
teeth and blue, alert eyes. *'Gee,
lady, I just came up to see Domi-
nick. Frank told me you were going
to buy her. I wanted to see what
she thought about it."
Nina blew the hair out of her
eyes. The last thing that would
charm her was whimsy. ''Dominick
told you she was eager for the
change, no doubt?" she asked softly.
He nodded. ''Gosh, yes! Why
shouldn't she be? What a great
place to live."
Nina followed his envious glance
as it swept over the stretch of hills
and valleys below, blue and purple
and amethyst, down to the road
that wound its way from the sea.
"This is wilderness," the boy ex-
ploded in rapture, "pure wilder-
ness."
"Where do you live?" When
she was a child she had known
women with sharp tongues like this.
Now she knew why, being honed
as they had been on the sharp edge
of days.
The boy was subdued, "Down on
the beach ... in an apartment.
It's real great ... or would be if I
had a surfboard, or if Nicky would
let me use his. He won't."
"Who is Nicky?"
"My half brother. His father
gives him everything. Mine is stony
broke. Isn't that my luck?"
Nina said, trying to piece togeth-
er the picture his words presented,
"Your mother is . . . this is her
second marriage?"
"Yes, and it's almost over, and
ril bet my father won't pay three
hundred and fifty a month for me,
like Nicky's does. I guess I'll just
keep on being a burden, until I can
work, that is. I plan to work real
soon, as soon as anybody will take
me." He looked crestfallen for a
moment. "They say I'm too
young."
Nina said faintly, "Come in and
have a glass of milk and some cook-
ies. Shouldn't you be in school?"
He gave her a quick grin. "I
should, but it's the last week, and
I'm flunking out anyway. You won't
tell on me. . . ?"
"I don't even know your name,"
she said reasonably.
The boy regarded her narrowly.
Nina smoothed her skirt, at a loss to
know if she should put on a for-
bidding air, but the sharpness of his
face disarmed her. "Anyway, I
wouldn't tell."
TTE relaxed. "My name is Tom
Benedict, and I sure would like
a glass of milk and some cookies.
I'm famished." He pointed to his
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121
bicycle circled in the dust. 'It was
real steep getting up here."
"I should think you would be
exhausted."
He looked with unabashed love at
Dominick. ''I had to see her. She
likes me . . . she really does. Domi-
nick is a boy's name, you know.
They should have named her Susie.
I like Susie/'
'1 like Dominick/' Nina assured
him. 'Tou can always call her Miss
Dominick, that is, if it bothers you,
the name I mean."
His laughter whooped on the soft
air. He gave Dominick a last fer-
vent embrace. ''Good old Domi-
nick, you don't care if I flunk out,
or if I'm not as smart as my brother,
do you, nice old horse?"
'I'll . . . I'll make you a sand-
wich," said Nina faintly. ''Better
leave your bicycle there."
The boy followed her to the
house. He used the side lope that
Danny had favored when he was
half -grown.
"Wipe your feet, Tom."
The boy cheerfully complied.
Nina opened the great door gent-
ly, not wishing to disturb the strang-
er child if he had fallen asleep. She
stood transfixed on the threshold,
her eyes riveted on the mirror in
the hall. The mirror made visible
the far corner of the living room.
It showed Joseph sitting where she
had left him in the far corner of the
living room. On his quiet lifted
wrist rested an enormous butterfly.
Joseph was utterly absorbed in the
lovely winged thing. He lifted the
forefinger of his free hand and
touched with infinite gentleness the
poised wings.
Nina stepped back.
"What's the the matter?" Tom
whispered.
Nina shook her head for silence.
She looked again into the glass, but
in the brief interval the picture had
changed, the butterfly now flut-
tered on the curtains, and the boy
sat limply, his eyes on his empty
hands. Nina went on tiptoe into
the room. Tom followed, not un-
derstanding, but sensitive to the
alien mood.
"Joseph?" Nina leaned down to
him. The child regarded her blank-
ly. "Are you hungry, Joseph?" He
did not reply.
"Is he yours?" Tom Benedict was
compassionate.
Nina turned to him. She took a
deep, glad breath. "Yes . . . he's
mine . . . for awhile."
Tom Benedict regarded Joseph
with puzzled, resentful eyes. "Lucky
stiff."
Tom swung out his arms. "Look
at all he's got!. He doesn't have to
live in an old apartment with some-
one who. . . /'
"Tom!"
He regarded her with adult eyes,
strangely at variance in his young
face. "You sure don't know much
about things, do you?"
"But Tom "
"You don't know much about
people either."
Nina forgot to be angry. His
words stopped her. I really don't,
she thought. I have lived in a very
small country with father and Dan-
ny and the grocery boy and the
doctor and the brief bright nor^s at
Sunday School or sacrament meet-
ing. I don't know about people
who live in this furious, feverish
world. I don't know about boys.
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whose fathers pay $350 a month
and boys whose fathers pay fifty. . . .
I don't know about boys who hve
on beaches, or in back rooms, hke
Joseph. She stood very still . . .
the forgotten children. . . . Could
I learn? she wondered. Is it too
late to learn?
Tom Benedict ate with the inno-
cent savagery of the young. He
grinned at Nina over the tuna sand-
wich, ''Good."
She poured more milk into his
glass. She was not hungry herself,
and it was not yet time for Joseph's
lunch. ''How old are you, Tom?''
"Twelve . . . almost thirteen . . .
another ten months. I look thir-
teen already, don't I?"
"Yes," Nina said. He did. He
seemed incredibly mature to her, a
cynical bystander in a wise and pain-
ful age. He tossed her word pic-
tures of his world . . . smooth, square
. . . cool . . . old words with new
meanings. His problem was, he
confided, not only his extreme
youth, but his ever-present poverty
which prevented the acquisition of
a surfboard.
"VTINA listened gravely. A surf-
board, she gathered, was the
status symbol of his older brother's
gang.
". . . or if I could even get a
switch blade. . . ."
Having controlled her horror,
having learned that the chance of
Tom's acquiring this smaller badge
of maturity was extremely remote,
Nina decided to treat the matter
lightly. "Well, David had only a
sling shot, and he made history."
"David who?"
"David the shepherd, the one
who killed the lion with it."
The boy was all ears. "Never
heard of him."
"You think you have troubles,"
Nina said severely, "this boy had a
king hunting him, armies after him,
a giant to overcome."
"Giant?" His tone was skeptical,
but his eyes brightened.
Nina told the story of David and
Goliath, heartened to see that even
in this new age it had tremendous
appeal.
Tom paid her the supreme com-
pliment of holding the unbitten
sandwich to his mouth for the last
few paragraphs.
He sighed and resumed his
lunch. There was a silence in the
little kitchen. He shook his head
after a time. "Wouldn't work . . .
not now."
"You just don't get it, Tom. It
wasn't the sling shot, actually."
Tom considered. "You mean
there had to be that something to
guide the rock ... or David's
hand?"
Nina was delighted with his
astuteness. "It was his believing . . .
his faith."
Tom nodded briskly, "The posi-
tive approach ... I read an article
on it."
Nina gently let the matter rest.
Tom rose. "You got company.
Car coming." He slid out of his
chair and went to the window. He
turned away in disappointment.
"Just old Doc Jonathan." He
turned to the door. "Fm leaving.
The Doc's always mad at me for
something. He lives by us, and he
raises orchids." He turned to the
door. "Thanks for the sandwich
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123
though, and I sure hked your story,
but I don't think the kids would go
for a shng shot . . . thanks just the
same/'
''Wait!" Nina was astonished at
her own appeal, transparent in her
voice.
The boy paused in the doorway.
He made her think of a faun, edged
there in the light, with the secret
kinship in him for flight and hilly
places.
"Would . . . would you like to
ride Dominick for a little while?"
Radiance and unbelief. "You'd
let me?"
"For an hour . . . yes."
A wild whoop and he was gone.
The knocker sounded from the big
door. Nina went to answer it.
{To be continued)
I
Viyofds J^fter Snow
Ida Elaine James
This season of white fortitude shall melt
At last into a tender time of bloom,
An hour less visioned than obscurely felt,
After long months of chaste and frozen gloom.
Insistently the heart, cloaked in despair,
Scents fragrance subtle as the breath of hope,
Moving through branches, pulseless yet, and bare,
Over the winter's chill and empty slope.
There will come beauty from this barren hour,
A peril-sweet interval when children sing
Beneath the dogwood's luminous i\ ory flower;
When faith shall come to warm a\^ akening,
To roll the stone of winter's blight and doom
Away at last from spring's beleaguered tomb.
vl/tth I Lobleness of dieart
Pauline M. Bdl
Oh, youth, wait not until the years shall pro\e the way.
Seek now, with all your strength the path to joy,
With nobleness of heart and love of honest toil.
Why wait to mar your strength with little gain?
Work cheerfully this day and find your worth.
You shall not seek in vain,
Fulfillment's at your feet —
If you reach out and seek.
FROM THE FIELD
General Secretary-Treasurer Hukh Parker
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Alagaziiie for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Hnndhook oi Instnictions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Ruth R. Reeder
RAROTONGA MISSION, DISTRICT RELIEF SOCIETY PRESIDENTS
AT CONVENTION
Left to right: Ruth R. Reeder, President, Rarotonga Mission Relief Society;
Emily Williams, Ngatangiia District Relief Society President; Tareta James (seated),
President Vahua Avarua District Relief Society; Teei Oiaua, Avarua work director;
Araia John Mateara, President, Arorangi District Relief Society.
Sister Reeder reports: "A one-day convention was held at the Avarua chapel, the
first of its kind in the mission. Sister Reeder spoke on the theme of the con^•ention
'Our Blessings Through Service to Others.' Demonstrations on how to make jelly,
banana bread, aprons, and stocking dolls were given. A beautiful display of work done
by the sisters at their work meetings was shown. It consisted of quilts, grass skirts,
shell articles, knitting, applique, and embroider}^ work.
''New ideas, new enthusiasm, and a desire to serve well were gained from the
convention."
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Photograph submitted by Lavinia B. Jackson
EL PASO STAKE (TEXAS) RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, May 1961
President Lavinia B. Jackson is standing in the fourth row, at the right; chorister
Barbara Jean \\^est stands behind President Jackson in the fifth row. Organist Jenny
Lawson and pianist Barbara Johnson are not in the picture.
Photograph submitted by Adelheid Post
BERLIN STAKE (GERMANY) RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING MOTHERS
PRESENT MUSIC FOR THE FIRST STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE
October 18, 1961
Adelheid Post, President, BerHn Stake Rehef Society, reports: "The accompanying
photograph shows the Singing Mothers of the newly organized Berlin Stake on the
occasion of the first quarterly conference. E\a Marie Birth, seated at the left on the
front row, directed the chorus. The visiting Authorities for this conference were
President Henry D. Movie and President Ahin R. Dyer. They were accompanied by
Sister Moyle and Sister Dyer and Virginia Marsh and Janet Nielson, daughters of
President and Sister Movie.
"This chorus was first organized to present the music for the organization of the
Berlin Stake on September 10, 1961. Elder Delbert L. Stapley officiated at the
organization of the stake and was assisted by President Alvin R. Dyer, The sisters felt
it a great privilege to be asked to participate in these two important events."
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Photograph submitted by Uarda Conner
ALASKA STAKE RELIEF SOCIETY CONVENTION
September 18, 1961, Anchorage, Alaska
Front row, at the right, left to right: Anna Peay, Counselor, Alaska Stake Relief
Soeiety; Uarda Conner, President, Alaska Stake Relief Society; Orson Millet, President,
Alaska Stake; Belle S. Spafford, General President of Relief Society; Marianne C. Sharp,
First Counselor in the General Presidency of Relief Society; Wells C. Bowen, High
Councilman, Alaska Stake; Ida Stoddard, Associate Counselor, Alaska Stake Relief
Society.
Sister Conner reports: "This is a picture of the first Relief Society Con\ention of
Alaska Stake. President Belle S. Spafford of the General Presidency of Relief Society,
and Counselor Marianne C. Sharp were in attendance."
Photograph submitted by Geraldine H. Bangerter
BRAZILIAN MISSION RELIEF SOCIETY RECEPTION AT
MISSION-WIDE CONFERENCE
March 16, 17, 18, 1961
Geraldine H. Bangerter, President, Brazilian Mission Relief Society, reports the
varied activities and the helpful addresses and demonstrations presented at a three-day
Rehef Society Conference in Sao Paulo, Brazil: "Members of Relief Society from
branches as close as Pinheiros and as far away as Belo Horizonte and Aracatuba were
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welcomed. Sister Bangerter challenged the members to double their membership by
finding lost or inactive members, and enlisting the sisters who have recently joined
the Church. 'Life in the Church Is a Job in the Church' and 'Dignity in Your Call-
ing' were subjects discussed by Gerta Kerns, Secretary, Brazilian Mission Rehef Society,
and Trelva Wilson, First Counselor. A look at the literature and social science
courses was presented, and a consideration of the work meeting lesson plans was fol-
lowed by 'A Peek at Work Meeting.' Eleven members from various parts of the
mission shared their talents with everyone, in an effort to bring new ideas into the
bazaars.
"A one-hundred voice combined Singing Mothers chorus presented a special pro-
gram on Friday night, directed by Mary Vassel. Catharina M. Abondanza accom-
panied at the piano. A lovely reception concluded the conference as a fitting touch to
end a very successful 'Congresso' in the Brazilian Mission."
RELIEF SOCIETY BUILDING PRESENTED WITH KOREAN DOLL
June 1961
Left to right: Elder Gordon B. Hinckley of the Council of the Twelve; President
Paul C. Andrus, President, Northern Far East Mission; Frances Andrus. President,
Northern Far East Mission Relief Society; President Belle S. Spafford, General Presi-
dent of Rehef Society.
From his tour of the Northern Far East Mission in the spring of 1961, Elder
Hinckley brought back a beautiful Korean doll dressed in red satin, made by the Relief
Society sisters of Korea, and presented the doll to President Spafford during the Mission
Presidents Seminar in Salt Lake City, Utah, June 26 - July 3, 1961.
The doll's costume is exquisitely made, and includes a handbag and beautifully
designed sandals.
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Photograph submitted by Thelma W. Fetzer
BERLIN MISSION, LEIPZIG BRANCH SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR LEIPZIG DISTRICT QUARTERLY CONFERENCE
October 22, 1961
Thelma W. Fetzer, President, Berlin Mission Relief Society, reports: "You can
imagine our joy at receiving this picture from behind the Iron Curtain. The music
they are holding is 'When Mothers Sing,' composed by Vivian P. Hoyt of Juab Stake,
and translated into German by Hildegard Teuscher, a young convert now living in
Hamburg. The sisters expressed their appreciation for this beautiful song and for the
tie it signifies between them and their sisters in the outside world. This group is one
of seventeen Singing Mothers choruses from the forty-five Relief Society organizations
in East Germany. We are thrilled and grateful to be able to make this report."
Photograph submitted by Lois W. Ohsiek
HONOLULU STAKE (HAWAII), MAKIKI WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
ANNIVERSARY PROGRAM, March 1961
Lois W. Ohsiek, President, Honolulu Stake Relief Society, reports a successful
anniversary program in the Makiki Ward: "The ward has been organized four years.
Annually on this day, the Hawaiian sisters take charge and provide Hawaiian entertain-
ment and a poi luncheon. Each year the program gets better. This year Sisters Nama-
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kalua and Karratti were in charge of the program. Eleven Hawaiian sisters, wearing
colorful muumuus, sang and danced. Sister Golda Hyde Gordon presented the literature
lesson on Ralph Waldo Emerson and made an outstanding contribution to the pro-
gram. A piano solo was given by Adelaide Fernandez, who is eighty-four years young.
Her music was amazing, and would have been a credit to an accomplished pianist
sixty years younger. A poem to Relief Society on its 119th anniversary, written by
Maggie Hill, was read by Beverly Wilson, who was dressed in pioneer costume. Maurine
Deen sang her own composition 'Island Memories,' accompanying herself on the
ukelele."
Photograph submitted by Nada R. Brockbank
SCOTTISH-IRISH MISSION RELIEF SOCIETY FLOAT MADE FOR THE
LORD MAYOR'S PARADE, Belfast, Ireland, May 13, 1961
Pictured as costumed for a long trek, are: Joan Farbus; E. Gamble; E. Bruce; M.
Brookes; Susan and Kay Brookes; Simone Farbus; Sally Jane Gamble; Vivian Friers.
Nada R. Brockbank, President, Scottish-Irish Mission Relief Society, sends the
following excerpt from the Belfast Telegraph newspaper report of this entry in the
Lord Mayor's parade, titled: "It's Still Tough Going West."
"It's tough, traveling west in a covered wagon — whether you are heading for
Salt Lake City or for the Ormeau Embankment.
"The hazards of a journey from Dundonald were fully experienced by the Relief
Society of Ireland's float which set out for the Lord Mayor's show last Saturday. Re-
ports have just filtered through to me.
"The float — a covered wagon complete with pioneer family, fire, pots, cradle,
butterchurn, and two lads with rifles to ensure 'safety in the home' — was making good
progress to the assembly point when disaster struck.
"A wheel sheared off. With true pioneer spirit, they set about repairing it. Even
though it turned out to be a major engineering task needing expert help, the wagon
was soon rolling again.
"But it arrived five minutes too late for the judging — and all three judges
commented that they would have had no hesitation in awarding it a major prize.
"It happens like that — traveling west!"
Sister Brockbank reports: "We are ha\ing good success in our missionar}' efforts
in Ireland, thanks to our Singing Mothers, and the work and efforts of our Relief
Society sisters."
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Photograph submitted by Evaietta G. Thampson
UNIVERSITY STAKE (SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH) RELIEF SOCIETY CHORUS
PRESENTS MUSIC FOR CLOSING PROGRAM
May 28, 1961
Front row, left to right: Sharon Shields, stake organist, at the piano; Carol Crist
(in black dress), stake chorister; Karen McFarland; Carol Peck; Arlene Lee; Carolyn
Wanlass; Joan Miles.
Second row, left to right: Marilyn Conger; Grace Vlam, stake social science class
leader; Maureen Clark; Pat Kimball; Carma Heywood; Donna Fullmer; Shirlene Fair-
bourn; Elaine Ellis.
Third row, left to right: Belva Barlow, Second Counselor, University Stake Relief
Society; Sylvia Janson; Karen Williams; Rosalin Anderson; Claudia Goates; Ann Jami-
son, Secretary, University Stake Relief Society; Shirley Hess; Emma Jean Haight;
Noreen Hess; Lynne Topham.
Evaietta G. Thompson, President, University Stake Relief Society, reports: 'This
is the first chorus organized by this stake Relief Society (stake organized in February
i960), and the two numbers presented were artfully done under the direction of Carol
J. Crist, chorister, and Sharon R. Shields, pianist. The chorus sang 'Lift Thine Eyes'
a capella, and 'Eye Hath Not Seen.' The closing program was a spiritual experience,
with Lida Prince as the principal speaker. Refreshments were served in the recreation
hall, which had been tastefully decorated with many bouquets of fresh flowers in yellow
and lavender colors. Lovely background music was furnished by a string trio. The
eighty-five young Relief Society sisters, members of the stake presidency, high council,
and bishoprics who attended were richly rewarded.
"The chorus is composed of young unmarried college girls and wives of students
attending the University of Utah."
K^louds
By Celia Luce
IT takes clouds to make a really beautiful sunset — clouds as well as sunshine.
N DEPARTMENT
cfheoloqu — The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 40 — Put the Kingdom of God First
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: Doctrine and Covenants, Section 56)
For Tuesday, May 1, 1962
Objective: To emphasize the importance of taking up one's cross.
'T^HE revelations in The Doetrine
and Covenants studied this year
were received during a four-month
period, from March through June
1831. We have learned that the
law of consecration was in effect,
and that people were called to re-
pentance because of slothfulness and
selfishness. The revelation for studv
in this lesson is a call to repentance
to certain individuals and also to
classes or groups, arising principally
out of a need to live the law of con-
secration. (Additional background
information is found in Lesson 37.)
Specifically, how^ever. Section 56
was received because of an inquiry
by Thomas B. Marsh concerning his
mission, due to the failure of Ezra
Thayre, his companion, to perform
the missionarv service to which they
were called by revelation. (See
D&C 52:22.)
With a background of rebellion
on the part of Ezra Thayre, as just
noted, and also because of another
circumstance arising out of his fail-
ure to participate fully in the law
of consecration (Jbfd., 56:8-10), the
Lord reminds those of his Church
that his anger is kindled against the
rebellious and the time will come
when this class, the rebellious, ''shall
know mine arm and mine indigna-
tion, in the day of visitation and of
wrath upon the nations" (Ibid.,
56:1).
Take Up Your Cross
An important truth follows the
Lord's statement regarding the re-
bellious, which emphasizes a need
on the part of everyone who pro-
fesses to be a follower of Christ.
Our salvation is dependent upon
how well we follow the Savior. He
who does not do so, will not be
saved in the celestial kingdom. Thus
we have this truth:
And he that will not take up his cross
and follow me, and keep my command-
ments, the same shall not be saved. Be-
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hold, I, the Lord command; and he that
will not obey shall be cut off in mine own
due time, after I have commanded and
the commandment is broken (D & C
56:2-3).
As one considers the full impor-
tance of this message, he is remind-
ed that man is free to choose good
or evil. Men are responsible for the
choice made according to the law
under which they live. For a Lat-
ter-day Saint, as in the case of Ezra
Thayre, commandments are given
with promises of blessings commen-
surate with the law obeyed. The
commandments of God are really
opportunities for man to become
free from barriers to attain the high-
est measure of salvation. When a
commandment has been broken and
not repented of, the Lord says that
in his own due time the violator will
be cut off from his kingdom.
But what does it mean to take up
one's cross? Instructive in answer-
ing this question is an examination
of some scriptures which bear upon
the meaning of the verse from this
revelation. It is apparent that to
take up one's cross is to follow the
Savior devotedly, obediently, in
service and consecration. Upon one
occasion Jesus rebuked Peter by re-
minding him that ''If any man will
come after me, let him deny him-
self, and take up his cross, and fol-
low me" (Mt. 16:24).
By inspiration, the Prophet Jo-
seph Smith continued this admoni-
tion as follows : ''And now for a man
to take up his cross, is to deny
himself all ungodliness, and every
worldly lust, and keep my command-
ments."
To be a true disciple of Christ is
to follow him regardless of the cost.
Freedom can come to us only by
breaking the shackles of sin, of hab-
its detrimental to eternal welfare.
Is it easy to follow the Lord? The
Savior knew that if man wanted to
find release from the bondage of sin,
he could find it by faith in him
through his redeeming sacrifice for
man. Are not his words as true
today as when uttered centuries ago?
(See Mt. 11:28-30.)
The words of President Joseph
Fielding Smith should give us food
for thought on this question.
When a man confesses that it is hard
to keep the commandments of the Lord,
he is making a sad confession — that he is
a violator of the Gospel law. Habits are
easily formed. It is just as easy to form
good habits as it is to form evil ones.
Of course it is not easy to tell the truth,
if you have been a confirmed liar. It is
not easy to be honest, if you have formed
habits of dishonesty. A man finds it very
difficult to pray, if he has never prayed.
On the other side, when a man has always
been truthful, it is a hard thing for him
to lie. If he has always been honest and
he does some dishonest thing, his con-
science protests very loudly. He will find
no peace, except in repentance. If a man
has the spirit of prayer, he delights in
prayer. It is easy for him to approach the
Lord with assurance that his petition will
be answered. The paying of tithing is
not hard for the man, fullv converted to
the Gospel, who pays his tenth on all that
he receives. So we see the Lord has giv-
en us a great truth — his yoke is easy,
his burden is hght ii we love to do his
will (The Way to Perfection, page 150).
Follow the Christ
During the time of Joseph Smith,
the expression "to take up one's
cross" was apparently not uncom-
mon. We know that Newel Knight,
a frequent attender at some of the
early Church meetings, when asked
to participate in prayer at these
meetings, "said that he would try
LESSON DEPARTMENT
\33
and take up his cross, and pray vocal-
ly during meeting" (D.H.C. 1:82).
How well do we members of the
Church take up our cross in accept-
ing the responsibilities of member-
ship and the callings that come to
us in our branch, ward, or stake
positions? Here is what Elder Mark
E. Petersen wrote about those who
follow Christ:
If we are truly to follow him, we will
take his advice in which he tells us to
seek first the kingdom of God. He
actually meant that we should give it first
place in our lives. We should have ''no
other gods before him," neither should
we have any habits, or tendencies, or de-
sires, or practices, which are given pref-
erence to our religion. In times of decision,
when we must make up our minds
whether to go one way or another, let us
remember this requirement of the Lord
for his followers — put the kingdom of
God FIRST (Your Faith and You, page
142).
The first miracle in the Church
resulted from Newel Knight's reso-
lution to pray. What actually hap-
pened was that his uneasiness of
mind because he did not accept the
invitation to pray in a meeting, cre-
ated a situation where he became
possessed of a devil, causing him to
request deliverance by the Prophet
Joseph Smith. The Prophet re-
plied :
"If you know that I can, it shall be
done"; and then almost unconsciously I
rebuked the devil, and commanded him
in the name of Jesus Christ to depart from
him; when immediately Newel spoke out
and said that he saw the devil leave him
and vanish from his sight. This was the
first miracle which was done in the
Church, or by any member of it; and it
was done not by man, nor by the power
of man, but it was done by God, and by
the power of godliness; therefore, let the
honor and the praise, the dominion and
the glory, be ascribed to the Father, Son,
and Holy Spirit, for ever and ever. Amen.
The scene was now entirely changed, for
as soon as the devil had departed from our
friend, his countenance became natural,
his distortions of body ceased, and almost
immediately the Spirit of the Lord de-
scended upon him, and the visions of
eternity were opened to his view (D.H.C.
1:83).
Newel Knight did take up his
cross and obediently performed his
duties as directed by revelation. He
was told to remain with the saints
of the Thompson Branch (Ohio)
and lead them to Missouri. (See
D & C 56:7.) Not long after the
Prophet arrived in Missouri, this
group, led by Brother Knight, ar-
rived in that land. Subsequently^
he served in other capacities in the
Church in taking up his cross.
"J, the Lord, Revoke''
In verses 4, 5, and 6 of Section 56^
the Lord revokes some of the com-
mandments which had been given
previously to Thomas B. Marsh,
Ezra Thayre, Selah J. Griffin, and
Newel Knight, and gave them other
appointments. The revocation of
a commandment might seem strange
to some, in view of some scriptures
which indicate that the Lord is un-
changeable. (See James 1:17.) In
this revelation, it is stated that
''Wherefore I, the Lord, command
and revoke, as it seemeth me good;
and all this to be answered upon the
heads of the rebellious . . . (D & C
56:4). (Read Doctrine and Cove-
nants Commentary, page 322.)
There is security in obeying the
commandments of God. He has
declared that his promises will not
go unfulfilled (D & C 1:37-38), but
if man rejects the law, he forfeits the
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opportunity to have that security would receive land in Missouri in
which is based upon obedience. (See return — "For according to that
D & C 82:10; 130:20-21.) which they do they shall receive. . ."
In Section 56, Ezra Thayre was (verse 13).
called to repentance because of his
attempt to repudiate a land contract True Repentance
made with the Church at Thomp- As we have already noted in this
son, Ohio, where the saints were at- revelation, there are truths found in
tempting to live the law of conse- it which have application to mem-
cration (D & C 56:8) . If he did not bers of the Churcli other than those
repent, he was to be paid the to whom the revelation was specifi-
amount involved for the use of the cally directed. In reference to verse
land by the saints and be cut off 14, it is apparent that it could be
from the Church. (See verse 10.) applied to all saints today, as well
The following verse in this revela- as in 1831:
tion points up the necessity for all r> ^ ^^ ^^ ^^^ ^^ i j .
^, , ^ ,, , ■' . Behold, thus saith the Lord imto my
men to observe the law given or people _ you have many thmgs to do
suffer the consequences. ''And and to repent of; for behold, your sins
though the heaven and the earth have come up unto me, and are not
pass awav, these words shall not pass Pardoned, because you seek to counsel in
away, but shall be fulfilled" (verse ^^^^ °^"" '''^' (^^^■^•' ^4)-
11). Do these words apply to the mem-
The truth thus stated is particular- bership of the Church today? This
ly important at this point in the is a question for each Latter-day
lesson because of the discussion on Saint to ask himself or herself, not
the revocation of commandments, his neighbor. There is the answer
Again, when men disobey, judgment to this question on page 324 of the
follows, unless repentance is forth- Doctrine and Covenants Commen-
coming. Although the truth that tary in regard to the two sons. (See
the Lord's words shall not pass away Mt. 21 : 28-29.)
is about Ezra Thayre, there is a In this revelation concerning the
universal application to all men saints at Thompson, Ohio, it might
who come within the sphere of the be stated: ''Our Lord, who told
gospel plan. In a sense, our eternal Peter, the Apostle, that he had yet
welfare is in our hands as Latter-day to be converted (Luke 22:32), also
Saints, but only if we keep the com- taught the Colesville Saints [origin-
mandments. On the other hand, ally from Colesville, New York] that
if we reject the word of the Lord, they, though members of the
the penalty is certain. Church, had many things to repent
In verses 12 and 13 of the revela- of" {Doctiine and Covenants Com-
tion, the Prophet is told that he mentary, page 324). Of these mem-
should furnish the money to recom- bers in Thompson who had not
pense Brother Thayre and payment organized under the law of conse-
would come to the Prophet in Mis- oration, there was need for repent-
souri. Those who would assist Jo- ance since the Lord had not
seph Smith in defraying this pardoned them. Their besetting
expense by their contributions sin as a group was that they sought
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135
to counsel in their own ways. Is it
also true today that many Latter-
day Saints believe that we can use
our own judgment concerning keep-
ing the laws of God although the
Lord has spoken directly against
''our counsel," as we ignore his
words in the revelations?
''And Your Hearts Are
Not Satisfied"
Jov or happiness comes to the
member of the Church who faith-
fully obeys the commandments of
the Lord. There is no lasting joy
for one who veers from the com-
mandments after having tasted the
fruit of the gospel.
Consistent with the background
of this revelation where men of
wealth had not fullv subscribed to
the fundamentals of the law of con-
secration, there was reason for the
following condemnation :
Wo unto you rich men, that will not
give your substance to the poor, for your
riches will canker your souls; and this
shall be your lamentation in the day of
visitation, and of judgment, and of indig-
nation: The harvest is past, the summer
is ended, and my soul is not saved!
(D & C ^6:16)
Under the perfect law designed to
prepare the Lord's followers for the
celestial kingdom, there would be an
equality of wealth commensurate
with the need of the individual and
his family.
It was the prophet Benjamin of
The Book of Mormon who taught
his followers that to retain a remis-
sion of sins it was necessary to give
of one's substance to those in need.
(See Mosiah 4:26.) In doing this,
one is to exercise wisdom, ". . . for
it is not requisite that a man should
run faster than he has strength. And
again, it is expedient that he should
be diligent, that thereby he might
win the prize; therefore, all things
must be done in order" (Ihid.y verse
27). An orderly way by which
members of the Church may dis-
charge their obligations to the needy
is through the organized Welfare
Program of the Church. Material
wealth or "riches" may canker or
corrupt the soul of man. (See
James 5:1-3.) The wealth of this
world is not to be treasured above
the wisdom of God, advised the
Savior in the Sermon on the Mount.
(See Mt. 6:19-21.)
Wealth Evaluated
What is the curse of wealth with
so many people? Indulgence in the
pleasures of the world, the desire
for wealth giving rise to dishonest
ways of obtaining wealth, and a dis-
regard for fellow men, are but some
of the possible evils of riches. It
takes a strong Latter-day Saint to
remain true to the faith when
wealth comes his way. The coun-
sel of the Savior, while in mortality
and also after his resurrection,
should continue to be the guiding
rule to follow. It is, seek the king-
dom of God first. The riches of
this earth should be a means to an
end. The only true criterion for
the Latter-day Saint is to consider
the things of this world from the
point of view of eternity. Riches
are designed for the building up of
the kingdom of God and its mem-
bers. All temporal possessions are
the Lord's, for we are his stewards.
(See D &C 104:13-17.)
Wo to Rich and Foot
When the Lord condemned the
rich of the Thompson Branch
(D & C 56:16), strong as that con-
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demnation was, he did not censure
them only, but the poor were also
at fault. The main reasons for the
failure of the United Order at this
time were that many, in addition to
the rich, did not give of their sub-
stance to the poor. Notice in verse
17 the number of reasons why the
poor contributed to this failure:
Wo unto you poor men, whose hearts
are not broken, whose spirits are not con-
trite, and whose bellies are not satisfied,
and whose hands are not stayed from lay-
ing hold upon other men's goods, whose
eyes are full of greediness, and who will
not labor with your own hands!
Too often we associate poverty
with virtue. The poor are not
h)lessed in the sight of the Lord be-
cause they are poor. A purpose of
the law of consecration was to raise
the standards of those in need of
temporal goods that they might
more fully enjoy the spirit of the
Lord. Poverty can and often does
result in the sins mentioned by the
Lord in this revelation. The Wel-
fare Program of the Church today
is intended to assist the needy in
maintaining the true spirit of the
gospel. The poor in this revelation
are charged with desires and actions
which conflict with contriteness of
spirit or humility and a lack of the
desire to repent. What are these
sins? Their ''bellies are not satis-
fied,'' with their earthly possessions;
therefore, their ''hands are not
stayed from laying hold upon other
men's goods," stealing; their "eyes
are full of greediness." Covetous-
ness, envy, jealousy, or the desire
for other people's goods are not un-
common vices in the world; and,
also, the Lord said they "will not
labor with your [their] own hands."
May not this be the basis for some
of the poverty in the world?
True happiness cannot be found
in dishonesty, greediness, or laziness.
Certainly, the fulness of the gospel
is not lived when these sins remain
a part of our makeup.
Blessed Are the Poor
Who are the poor, or the rich,
for that matter, who are blessed?
Only those who are pure in heart
and who come unto Christ receive
the blessings prophesied in this reve-
lation. (See D & C 97:21.)
What are the blessings for the
poor who are the pure in heart?
". . . they shall see the kingdom of
God coming in power and great
glory unto their deliverance; for the
fatness of the earth shall be theirs"
{Ihid., 56:18). Faithful Latter-day
Saints, living or dead, will have the
privilege of seeing the Lord come
with the kingdom of heaven merg-
ing with the kingdom of God on
the earth. "For behold, the Lord
shall come, and his recompense shall
be with him, and he shall reward
every man, and the poor shall re-
joice" (Ihid.y verse 19). Yes, the
"fatness of the earth" — its boun-
ties — will be possessed by the pure
in heart when the Savior comes, and
rejoicing will be found on the earth.
Those who are not counted worthy
to stand in that day will be recom-
pensed for their works of unright-
eousness. (See Ibid., 29:11-13; Alma
41:3-6.) What shall be the final
blessing for the pure in heart who
have come unto Christ?
And their generation shall inherit the
earth from generation to generation, for-
ever and ever ... (D & C 56:20).
The earth in its celestialized state
will be the home of those who lived
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137
the celestial law. (See Ibid.,
88:15-20.) The glories of eternity
will be theirs — all knowledge, with
the opportunity for endless advance-
ment. (See ihid., 130:7-11.)
Questions for Discussion
1. What does it mean to take up one's
cross? Justify your answer from the scrip-
tures.
2. According to Elder Mark E. Petersen,
what does it mean to follow Christ? Be
specific.
3. Tell about the first miracle performed
in the Church in this dispensation, and
how it is related to the objective of this
lesson.
4. When does the Lord revoke a com-
mandment?
5. What is true repentance?
6. When are the rich (in worldly goods)
under condemnation? When are the poor
under condemnation? What is your
understanding of the place of wealth in
the gospel plan?
ViSitifig cJeacher IlLessages —
Truths to Live By From The Doctrine and Covenants
Message 40
"Continue in Steadfastness" (D & C 49:23).
Christine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, May 1, 1962
Objective: To show that steadfastness is one of our most important character
traits.
CTEADFASTNESS is a character
trait loved both by the Lord and
by one's fellow men. It is a syno-
nym for dependability, faithfulness,
firmness in the right. It means
determination in adhering to sound
principles. Those who are steadfast
are unwavering in the face of temp-
tations and obstacles.
Steadfastness is one of the primary
essentials for accomplishment. Un-
less we have this quality we are
uncertain, easily swayed, and do not
possess the perseverance to follow
through to the end and to ac-
complish those things we set out
to do.
Steadfastness and conviction are
closely interrelated. One cannot be
steadfast unless he has strong con-
victions to which to adhere. Applied
to the gospel, steadfastness means
obtaining a strong conviction or an
unwavering testimony of what is
right, and then having the courage
and the will power to live accord-
On his ninetieth birthday, a lov-
ing father called the members of his
family together to give them the
benefit of his venerable wisdom. In
respect to steadfastness, his counsel
to his children was: ''What means
most to one when life is viewed
from a long perspective is the assur-
ance that one has never surrendered
when the storms of life have beaten
upon his face; and that he has
always stood steadfast for the
right. ... In the battle of life, the
capacity to fight to the last rampart
is the all-essential thing ( Hincki^ey,.
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BriantS.: That Ye Might Have Joy, nor my tongue utter deceit . . . till
page 32). I die I will not remove mine integ-
Probably the most classic example rity from me. My righteousness I
of steadfastness in the face of ad- hold fast, and will not let it go . . ."
versity is found in the story of Job, (Job 27:4-6).
as told in the Old Testament. Job job remained steadfast because
was an upright and honest man who he had an unfaltering testimony and
feared God and was greatly loved an immovable conviction. He knew
and blessed by him. Because of his that his Redeemer lived. (See Job
righteousness, Job had prospered 10:2^.)
greatly in the land. Satan taunted ^, n ■, •-, -, ir
the Lord and claimed that Job's . ^^ ^^^ r""^"^ ^""'^^ steadfastness
righteousness was due only to the ^"^° °"^ ^^^^^' ^^ ^^"^^ strengthen
fact that the Lord had given him T convictions of what is right On
great wealth and steadfastness. To ^^'' foundation we will avoid un-
test his servant, the Lord put everv- certainty and wavering and will
thing that Job possessed in the ^^^^^^^ . . he that wavereth is like
hands of Satan. And, one by one, a wave of the sea driven with the
his possessions, his children, and wind and tossed (James 1:6).
even his health were taken from Let us apply to our lives the mes-
him. In the face of all this affhc- sage as found in the D & C 49:23.
tion Job remained solidly steadfast. Let us ''continue in steadfastness"
He did not waver in his own con- in being good neighbors, in being
victions nor in his faithfulness to kind and understanding, and in giv-
the Lord. He staunchly maintained, ing devoted service to others and
''My lips shall not speak wickedness, to the Church.
cdndigo
Gladys Hesser Buinham
Blue is a summer night
As sunset turns to dusk,
As evening vapors waft along
The rose's cloying musk;
Blue is the melting snow
After icy chill;
As hearts that have known searing grief
Yet hearken to God's will.
WorJi JTleeting— ^^^'^^u^QS and Manners
(A Course Expected to Be Used by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 8 — Hello and Goodbye
Ehine Anderson Cannon
For Tuesday, May 8, 1962
Objective: To encourage the development of one's best behavior.
One of the most important rules as to manners is to be, for the most part, silent
as to yourself. Say little or nothing about yourself, whether good, bad, or indifferent;
nothing good, for that is vanity; nothing bad, for that is affectation; nothing indifferent,
for that is silly (David Hume, from The Dictionary of Thoughts).
\ GAIN, we emphasize the im-
portance of placing oneself
second to the interests and comforts
of others. This time we deal with
conversations, introductions, tele-
phone tactics, and other situations
where verbal exchange is conducted
between two or more people. The
reminder to think of others first may
seem tiresome but, if conscientiously
practiced, the rules governing vari-
ous forms of talking among people
will be more easily followed.
Dinnei Conversation
Formal dinner conversation is
conducted by the host speaking to
the lady on his right first and the
hostess with the gentlemen, on her
left. Guests will follow this example
around the table. When everyone
is familiar with this rule of eti-
quette, the conversation goes more
smoothly and no one is left out.
Midway through the meal the pro-
cedure is reversed and the guests,
being knowledgeable in this social
grace (and let us hope we all are),
co-operate and shift their conver-
sation accordingly as soon as op-
portune. This, of course, should
not be a rigid performance, but a
mental guide.
One should never worry about
opening the conversation with what
has become known as a ''cliche."
Actually, mundane as they may
seem, topics such as weather, the
house decor, and the current news
are useful openers and friendlv talk
can move on from there. It be-
hooves all, however, to fill their
minds with good thoughts to share
with others and then take advan-
tage of situations where conversa-
tional experience can be enjoyed.
In a social conversation, always
give priority to the other person's
remarks by refraining from inter-
rupting any speaker. Remember, a
good listener is always a delight;
however it is discourteous to both
hostess and guests to remain silent
and unresponsive all the time. Make
everv effort to show interest and
enjoyment of the association, to do
your share in building the conversa-
tion and adding to its pleasure.
When opportune, accept the chal-
lenge by commenting or question-
ing intelligently, for the art of con-
versation is a two-way exchange.
Telephone Tactics
The ring of the telephone can be
thrilling or chilling, depending on
what you anticipate. The w^ay you
answer can cause a similar reaction-
depending on how you sound.
(Neither worry, concern, nor pres-
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sure of time and problems in the
home should be reflected in one's
tone of voice in answering the tele-
phone. To avoid this, no matter
what confusion may exist when the
telephone rings, just before remov-
ing the receiver, take a deep breath,
and with full, even forced, compo-
sure, let your voice assume a friend-
ly, pleasant tone.)
The telephone can be a blessing
or a curse, depending on how it is
used in the home. Because so much
of our business, social, and even
spiritual affairs are conducted over
the telephone (as well as the annoy-
ing commercial calls we may receive
these days), it is well to learn prop-
er telephone procedure.
One never really knows who may
be on the other end of the line.
Even an anonymous political can-
vasser, in reality, may be someone
who knows you very well. So, it
is wise never to be rude nor abrupt.
You are judged solely by your voice
and what you say on telephone ex-
changes, so care should be given to
these points. Be careful to take mes-
sages and relay them properly.
Fully identify yourself when mak-
ing calls, except, perhaps, to im-
mediate family members or very
close friends with whom you have
frequent contact. Your first name
is not enough. The person you call
may know two or three others with
your same name. Using only your
last name is improper, too. Rather,
say 'This is Susan Smith calling.
May I speak with Mrs. Brown?" It
is most inconsiderate to initiate a
call and then ask the one who an-
swers, ''Who is this?'' Rather ask
"Is this such and such a number?
May I speak to so and so?"
Phone calls should be limited in
length. It is always thoughtful to
say, 'Thank you for calling" when
closing the conversation.
Introductions
The secret to successful introduc-
tions is to remember that the
person for whom respect should be
shown has his or her name men-
tioned first. Usually, it is the
woman's name. However, in the
case of a Church authority or
prominent civic official, his name
is mentioned first. It is perfectly
proper merely to say, "Mrs. Jones
this is Mr. Anderson," leaving off
the trite (and often confusing)
"May I present?" It is less formal
at a social gathering where the peo-
ple are to be in each other's
company for the evening, to say,
"Mary, this is Mr. Anderson, John,
this is Mrs. Jones." They will call
each other Mr. and Mrs., however,
until the woman suggests that the
man may call her by her first name.
The person making the introduc-
tions may follow up with a brief
bit of identification about each per-
son to help them converse more
freely. For instance, one might
say, "Mary is our Relief Society
president. John, are you still teach-
ing a class in Sunday School?"
It is helpful to review the rules
of etiquette which are meaningful
today. Everyone should be mind-
ful of undesirable tendencies or
relaxations in conduct that may
have crept into one's life. Any ef-
fort we put forth for self-improve-
ment, to become more poised,
gracious, gentle, or get along with
others more harmoniously is indeed
worthwhile.
cLiterature — America's Literature Comes of Age
Lesson 32 - Edgar Allan Pee - Artist of Word and Sentence (1809-1849)
Elder Briant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 413-457)
For Tuesday, May 15, 1962
Objective: To see in Poe's writings an attempt to attain perfection in literary
craftsmanship and to recognize his art as an escape from his own conflicts.
"D ARE, indeed, is the person who,
upon a first reading of either
Poe's poetry or prose, remains indif-
ferent to him. From his first line,
his unique word-tone music and
image bring us into a realm of mel-
ancholy magic entirely his own:
Ah, broken is the golden bowl! the spirit
flown fore\er!
Let the bell toll! — a saintly soul floats
on the Stygian river;
And, Guy De Vere, hast thou no tear? —
weep now or never more!
See! on yon drear and rigid bier low lies
thv love, Lenore!
Come! let the burial rite be read — the
funeral song be sung! —
An anthem for the queenliest dead that
ever died so young —
A dirge for her the doubly dead in that
she died so young.
— 'Tenore"
In both prose and poetry Poe
strove solely for a unity of effect.
In prose he strove to intensify hor-
ror, fear, guilt, revenge, or madness
until the reader would be enabled to
realize an awareness of the truth
which these effects convey. His
poetry achieves its own special
sphere of excellence by creating the
effect of melancholic, ethereal beau-
ty, usually best conveyed through
images of death and classically beau-
tiful women who love or die ma-
jestically but forlornly. As Poe
explained so meticulously in 'The
Philosophy of Composition," he
considered each word and each im-
age with greatest care, and chose it
only when he was certain that it
contributed to the total effect of
the poem. While we might pos-
sibly doubt whether his most
famous poem, "The Raven," actually
was composed as he claimed (see
text, page 457), we cannot doubt
the precision of his mind after read-
ing the following poem in which the
first letter of the first line, the sec-
ond letter of the second, the third
letter of the third, etc., spell out the
name of Frances Sargent Osgood
for whom this memorable valentine
was contrived:
A VALENTINE
For her these lines are penned, whose
luminous eyes.
Brightly expressixe as the twins of Loeda,
Shall find her o\^n sweet name that,
nestling, lies
Upon this page, enwrapped from e\"ery
reader.
Search narrowly this rhyme, which holds
a treasure
Divine — a talisman — an amulet
That must be worn at heart. Search well
the measure;
The words — the letters themsehes. Do
not forget
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The trivialest point, or you may lose your Science! true daughter of Old Time thou
labor ' art!
And yet there is in this no Gordian knot ^Vho alterest all thmgs with thy peermg
Which one might not undo without a ..,,■'■ ^ . . . .
- W hv preyest thou thus upon the poet s
sabre, 'l,^.^,t,
If one could m_erely understand the plot. \^,iture, whose wings are duh realities?
Enwritten upon this page whereon are How should he love thee? or how deem
peering " thee wise,
Such eager eyes, there lies, I say, perdu, ^^'ho wouldst not lea\e him in his wan-
A well-known name, oft uttered in the ^ dering
, . - 1 o seek for treasure m the lewelled skies,
r-^r \ \ , 1 . Albeit he soared with an undaunted wins;?
C)t poets, by poets; as the name is a
poets, too. Science is no new force, but ''true
ts letters althou|h naturally lymg - daughter of Old Time." Thus the
Like ^he knight Pinto (Mendez Ferdinan- ^^^^^^^^ ^^gj^^,^^^ ^^^^^ ^^,^ ^^^^jj^^^^
Qf,n (r.L^ n or.^r.r.r,^ <:^ 4- 4-T. r> o^ defining reality is an ancient one
btill torm a synonym tor truth. Cease i r i i t • i
^ -j^ J - and, tor those who seek a higher
You will not read the riddle though you beauty than earth can afford, in-
do the best you can-do. evitablc. Science is of the earth,
which Poe felt to be a corrupted
mass, indeed a strangling, suffocating
When such a feat is accomplished environment for the poet. Denying
within the added disciplines of a not only the method of science, but
regular metrical structure as well as such ''earthly" forces as emotion and
an abab, cdcd, etc., rhyme scheme, even truth, the poet Poe sought to
we are ready to admit with no re- escape into the sublime realm of
luctance that Poe's tales of ratiocina- "ideality." Refusing to trust con-
tion [reasoning] were the first ventional uses of svmbol or allegory,
detective stories (and still some of Poe hoped to attain a spiritualized
the greatest) . Similarly, at the time beauty, "the handiwork of the angels
when his interest in cryptography that hover between man and God."
[code deciphering] was keenest, he No poet ever held a grander con-
not only wrote "The Gold Bug," but cept of the poet's destiny than did
challenged the readers of Graham's Poe. His art became his life, for
Magazine to submit a cryptogram through it he found his only means
which he could not solve. Of the of escape from the sordid realm of
hundred received he solved all but mediocrity. But once having given
one, and proved it to be unsolvable. birth to so exalted a vision, the con-
When he was but twenty-one, Poe trast between actuality and ideality
wrote a sonnet "To Science" which became too great. Hence arose one
first expressed the resentment he felt of Poe's greatest paradoxes : repudi-
as the practical, earthly spirit of ating in his art anything earthly and
science encroached upon the con- dedicating himself solely to the pur-
templation of ideal beauty, which suit of another worldly beauty, he
he considered to be the highest uni- nevertheless, adopted the method
versal vision granted only to true of science as the means of achieving
poets: his goal.
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143
While the end of his poetic
technique was a subHme, musical
indefiniteness, the means for ac-
complishing his end was first to
calculate the effect he wished to
achieve within the poem, then to
invent or select words whose vowel
tones and combined rhythmic and
tonal patterns would create the
classically restrained and cold melan-
choly which he considered the aura
of beauty. While his poetic effect
could not be more romantic, Poe's
method of creating was analytic,
coldly aloof, and precise.
In exposing the technique where-
by his most famous poem, 'The
Raven,'' was put together, it is to be
his design
... to render it manifest that no one
point in its composition is referable either
to accident or intuition — that the work
proceeded, step by step, to its completion
with the precision and rigid consequence
of a mathematical problem.
Although Poe had written many
years earlier that "a poem is opposed
to a work of science by having for
its immediate object, pleasure not
truth," the point of differentiation
is concerned with end, not means.
Thus, in both, Poe was consistent.
While for the major portion of his
adult life Poe was but secondarily a
poet and primarily a writer of prose,
his genius in combining his poetic
theory and actual writing in such
poems as 'To Helen," ''Annabel
Lee," "Ulalume," and especially
"The Raven," prove his achieve-
ment to be unique. When read
aloud, their penetration into the
realms of our inner selves is un-
forgettable. Poe's explanation of
the structure of 'The Raven" (dedi-
cated to Elizabeth Barrett Brown-
ing) has been discussed more widely
than any other poem-analysis ever
written in the English language. No
equivalent exists for such lines as
the final stanzas of his most suc-
cessfully contrived "The Raven":
"Be that word our sign of parting, bird or
fiend!" I shrieked, upstarting —
"Get thee back into the tempest and the
Night's Plutonian shore!
Leave no black plume as a token of that
lie thy soul hath spoken!
Leave my loneliness unbroken! — quit the
bust above my door!
Take thy beak from out my heart, and take
thy form from off my door!"
Quoth the Raven "Nevermore."
And the Raven, never flitting, still is sit-
ting, still is sitting
On the pallid bust of Pallas just above
my chamber door;
And his eyes have all the seeming of a
demon's that is dreaming,
And the lamp-light o'er him streaming
throws his shadow on the floor;
And my soul from out that shadow that
lies floating on the floor
Shall be lifted — nevermore!
(Text, page 452).
Poes Tales
Nathaniel Hawthorne and Edgar
Allan Poe mutually respected each
other, but parallel achievements in
almost simultaneously developing a
form of writing — the short story
(pioneered by Washington Irving)
were worked out independently of
each other. Both were meticulous
revisers and polished craftsmen who
planned their work most exactingly,
then wrote to make each word, each
description of person or scene, each
dialogue, contribute directly to the
story's central purpose. But while
Hawthorne's chief concern was to
fashion a complex inter-relationship
of character and event which would
best give life to his integrating moral
insight, Poe ignored all moral issues
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and was concerned with the over-all
effect of the story. For him poetry
excelled in creating beauty, while
fiction best created an awareness of
truth.
But Poe's definition of truth is a
narrow one; the ''effects" which
appear repeatedly in his best-known
stories are horror, fear, guilt, murder,
revenge, death, decay — all usually
given reality through the sensory
and psychological perceptions of an
overly sensitive, morbidly self-con-
scious central character or narrator.
Each story is created to bring about
those effects of character, mood, and
tone, which either lead to the de-
struction or the decay of the
obsessed central character. Thus, in
reverse pattern from his poetry, tire-
lessly Poe made peace with the ac-
tual physical world which had so
trapped him and ignored him, by
destroying it symbolically.
In these explorations of his own
subconscious mind, Poe leads us
beneath the peaceful surface of
man's nature. He explores the pos-
sibility of actions of persons obsessed
with some driving, even wild pas-
sion, as in 'The Tell-Tale Heart,''
'The Black Cat," and, more im-
portant, in "The Fall of the House
of Usher" and "Ligeia." A close
parallel is 'The Masque of the Red
Death," an allegory representing the
terrors which Poe saw in a diseased
society ordinarily concealed beneath
the luxurious trappings and frivolous
pastimes of our masked, concealed
lives.
''The Fall of the House of Usher"
In 1839, ^^^ wrote "William
Wilson," a story which directly in-
fluenced Stevenson's "Dr. Jekyll and
Mr. Hyde," and Oscar Wilde's "Pic-
ture of Dorian Gray." In "William
Wilson," Poe states most plainly the
dual nature which, in greater or
lesser degree, mortal man exempli-
fies.
In "The Fall of the House of Ush-
er" (text, pp. 416-424), young Rod-
erick's own inner apprehensions and
final decay and death are symbolized
in two other "selves": his twin sis-
ter Madeleine, and the ancestral
house itself, which, at the story's
end, sinks "slowly and sullenly" be-
neath the waters of the "deep and
dank tarn" which surrounded it. In
this gloomy, intense study of self-
destruction, we see, perhaps, the
best-known example of Poe's futile
yet powerfully detailed desire to
escape the inherited corruptions of
the past, only to succumb, finally,
to the grimly triumphant specter of
the here-and-now. Always in Poe's
stories there is the fleeing, the plung-
ing (as in "Descent Into the Mael-
strom"), the maddened desire to
escape; it is in the ethereal beauty
of the poems that fulfillment comes.
Thus the two complement each
other.
From the first words of the story,
Poe's skill at creating the effect he
desired is almost oppressively evi-
dent:
During the whole of a dull^ dark, and
soundless day in the autumn of the year,
when the clouds hung oppressively low in
the heavens, I had been passing alone,
on horseback, through a singularly dreary
tract of country; and at length found my-
self, as the shades of the evening drew on,
within view of the melancholy House of
Usher. I know not how it was — but,
with the first glimpse of the building, a
sense of insufferable gloom pervaded my
spirit. I say insufferable; for the feeling
was unrelieved by any of that half-pleas-
urable, because poetic, sentiment with
which the mind usually receives even the
LESSON DEPARTMENT
145
sternest natural images of the desolate or
terrible. I looked upon the scene before
me — upon the mere house, and the
simple landscape features of the domain,
upon the bleak walls, upon the vacant
eye-like windows, upon a few rank sedges,
and upon a few white trunks of decayed
trees — with an utter depression of soul
which I can compare to no earthly sensa-
tion more properly than to the after-dream
of the reveller upon opium: the bitter
lapse into everyday life, the hideous drop-
ping off of the veil. There was an iciness,
a sinking, a sickening of the heart, an
unredeemed dreariness of thought which
no goading of the imagination could tor-
ture into aught of the sublime. What
was it — I paused to think — what was
it that so unnerved me in t-ie con-
templation of the House of Usher? It was
a mystery all insoluble . . . (Text, page
416).
The "eye-like windows" and the
"unredeemed dreariness of thought"
parallel similar qualities in Roderick
and prepare us for his entrance, just
as the description of his twin sister
symbolizes his own malady and pre-
pares us for their simultaneous
deaths. But it is Roderick himself
who totals within himself all the
evils of the house, the dying sister,
and the evils of the inherited past.
'The Gold Bug"
"The Gold Bug," an example of
Poe's more objective short stories, is
a tale of buried treasure and cryp-
tography. The setting is on Sulli-
van's Island, near Charleston, South
Carolina, where Poe spent a dreary
winter of army assignment. Legends
of pirates combined vvath Poe's flair
for solving ciphers make this story,
written some years later, one of in-
tense fascination. Poe made full use
of the haunted sand dunes and the
lonely seascape to produce an eerie
atmosphere for this tale of mystery^
Some literary critics, considering
Poe as one of the few great innova-
tors in American literature, credit
him with inventing (as much as one
person ever invents a species) the
detective story, and with introduc-
ing the adolescent adventure tale.
Such favorable literary criticism
states not only that French symbol-
ism, with its emphasis on the sug-
gestiveness of music, began when
French poets accepted Poe's logical
formula for a poem, but also that
Poe's influence upon popular litera-
ture has been great.
Regardless of Poe's life, motives,
or history, the greatest contribution
he has made to American literature
is his complete dedication to his art
and the resulting power of his page
to absorb the reader with another
glimpse into the mysteries and fasci-
nations of the human heart, as it
quavers and throbs through mortal-
ity.
Thoughts ioT Discussion
1. How does 'The Raven" conform to
Poe's "Theory of Composition"?
2. Illustrate Poe's word-tone music with
examples from his poetry.
3. What were Poe's contributions to
literature?
Social Science — The Place of Woman in the
Gospel Plan
Women and Church Activity
Lesson 7 — Fullness of Life and Exaltation
Elder Ariel S. BalJif
For Tuesday, May 22, 1962
Objective: To stress the importance of obedience to law in attaining the blessing
of exaltation and to summarize woman's place in the gospel plan.
The goal of the L. D. S. family is to ". . . bring to its members such lives as will
enable them to return to the inner circles of that celestial home from which they
came, — a dwelling with the Heavenly Father and Mother throughout the eternities"
(President J. Reuben Clark, Jr., The Keliei Societv Magazine, December 1940, page
808).
"J, the Lord, Am Bound When
Ye Do What I Say. • • •"
QBEDIENCE to the command-
ments of God is prerequisite to
all the blessings promised to man-
kind. In Section 130 of The Doc-
trine and Covenants, verses 20-21,
we read:
There is a law, irrevocably decreed in
heaven before the foundations of this
world, upon which all blessings are predi-
cated — And when we obtain any bless-
ing from God, it is by obedience to that
law upon which it is predicated.
There are many promises in the
scripture to the ''chosen people/'
but in each case to realize the bless-
ings they must hear the word of the
Lord, know his mind and will, and
apply it in their lives.
Marriage is a command of God.
We are forcefully reminded by
revelation that there is a particular
kind of marriage (temple marriage)
for us if we would receive the ful-
ness of his blessings. The privilege
of going to the temple to be mar-
ried is dependent upon conformity
to the highest standards of human
behavior, such as living the law of
Page 146
chastity, which is purity in body and
mind; and possessing a firm testi-
mony of the divinity of Christ and
his gospel plan.
It would seem that right living
prepares the way for divine guid-
ance in our lives. Also, that assis-
tance or blessings do not come to us
without a concerted effort on our
part. There are two verses, 18 and
19, of Section 130 of The Doctrine
and Covenants that should be
quoted:
Whatever principle of intelligence we
attain unto in this life, it will rise with
us in the resurrection.
And if a person gains more knowledge
and intelligence in this life through his
diligence and obedience than another, he
will have so much the advantage in the
world to come.
Then, our attention is called to
the fact that blessings are all predi-
cated upon the fulfillment of the
law. This is an appeal to the intel-
ligence of men and women and the
use of intelligence to the realiza-
tion of their greatest possibilities.
The Lord is willing to help where
intelligent effort is made.
LESSON DEPARTMENT 147
Fulness of Liie Essential individuals, which, in turn, is de-
to Exaltation pendent upon a hfe developed from
Any person building a house will good, wholesome living,
set down some specific plans accord- To the couple who have lived
ing to which he hopes to achieve fifty years together, through hard-
the objective. The more important ships and success, sharing in full the
the physical structure and the more realization of their religious ideals
costly, the more detailed and elab- and goals, there is an important
orate the plans and the blueprints, significance of ''at-one-ness" re-
This, then, gives direction to the ferred to in the idea of ''one flesh,"
structure. There may be necessary quoted in The Doctrine and Cove-
changes and adjustments but, in nants. Section 49, verse 16. They
general, the house will be like the have not only become sure of each
plans. With good plans and good other, but have become so much a
artisans, together with carefully se- part of each other through their
lected material, it becomes an actu- sharing, working, planning, and ad-
ality. It will be no better than the justing that certainly, to them, there
planning, the craftsmen, and the is full realization of the ''at-one-
material used to make it. This is, ness" idea. This ''at-one-ness" is
to some degree, analogous to the the product of successful living to-
process of developing a successful gether. It is a growing feeling of
family and qualifying for the bless- indispensableness, knowing no end.
ing of eternal life. The big task The above type of experience is
comes in training and developing an explanation of how the Lord can
the personality under divine prin- be bound. The blessing is theirs in
ciples. There is the never-ending the full realization of each other's
responsibility of developing self-con- value. It is the value of good living
trol, unselfishness, and in making expressed in a degree of perfection,
adjustments to the ever-changing The harmony of their lives together
relationships of personalities in is the preparation for eternal mar-
a house. It is the difficult task of riage.
developing the technique of 'we'' The plan of life and salvation
and "our" in meeting problems and might be compared to a magnificent
satisfying needs; the maturing of like organ with all the perfection in
interests into common interests sound known to the skill of organ
through the sharing of common ex- makers. If a baby presses the keys
periences in every phase of life; in one may get squeaks, discords, and
general, it is reducing to a minimum chaos, so far as music is concerned,
the basic differences and increasing A person with a few organ lessons
the individual capacity of making and a little knowledge of music can
adjustment to each other. produce limited harmony and mel-
Nothing worthwhile is attained ody. The true value of the organ
without personal effort. We don't and its possibilities to make beauti-
find perfection, we make it. In ideal ful music increase as the knowledge,
family relations there is no substi- training, and artistry of the player
tute for the art of adjustment which increase. So when the truly great
depends upon the maturity of the organist plays upon the same instru-
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ment, there is a full expression of
the tone quality and harmony, and
the great possibilities of the organ
are fully realized.
So with life, particularly with
married life. In the wisdom of the
Creator, each individual has the po-
tential greatness that can only be
fully realized in successful marriage.
It can be enriched by knowing what
to do and doing it. The instructions
are thorough and complete from the
great Designer.
In this way God is bound. He has
defined the rules of life and life
eternal, pointing out the way to ac-
complish them. If we apply these
principles, the results cannot fail, the
promised blessings are ours. The de-
gree of success varies with our indi-
vidual capacities to understand and
to do.
The Eternal Nature of Marriage
As the statement at the opening
of this lesson by President Clark
points out, the goal of the family is
so to organize the lives of the mem-
bers that they return to their
Heavenly Parents for eternity. This
statement implies the importance
of the here and now. The blessings
of the everlasting covenant of mar-
riage are not all for the next world.
In reality the blessings and prom-
ises of the next world cannot be at-
tained unless we are living the laws
here. Man is that he might have
joy here and now, and have it more
abundantly. The whole program
of the Church is to insure its mem-
bers a rich, full life. If this is at-
tained here, then the promises of
eternity have real meaning.
There are blessings in store for
all who keep his commandments.
From the writings of President
Joseph Fielding Smith, special en-
couragement is given to the right-
eous women of the Church. He says:
Now, just one more thought. You good
sisters, who are single and alone, do not
fear, do not feel that blessings are going
to be withheld from you. You are not
under any obligation or necessity of ac-
cepting some proposal that comes to you
which is distasteful for fear you will come
under condemnation. If in your hearts
you feel that the Gospel is true, and
would under proper conditions receive
these ordinances and sealing blessings in
the temple of the Lord, and that is your
faith and your hope and vour desire, and
that does not come to you now, the Lord
will make it up, and you shall be blessed
— for no blessing shall be withheld.
The Lord will judge you according to
the desires of your hearts when blessings
are withheld, and He is not going to con-
demn you for that which you cannot help
("Elijah, the Prophet and his Mission,"
Utah Genealogical and Historica] Maga-
zine, January 1921, page 20).
The promise of the future life is
glorious beyond our power to under-
stand. ''Eye hath not seen, nor ear
heard, neither have entered into the
heart of man, the things which God
hath prepared for them that love
him" (I Cor. 2:9).
Summary
1. The Eminence of Woman
As a summary of the first two les-
sons, may we point out that, like
man, woman is a creation of God.
She was given as a helpmate of man
in a partnership responsibility for
subduing and populating the earth.
In the plan of creation, God gave to
woman a place of exceptional
eminence. The importance of the
responsibility given her comple-
ments the assignment given to man.
Marriage is ordained of God. In
fact, it is vital to the fulfillment of
the plan of life and salvation. The
fulness of the Priesthood can only
LESSON DEPARTMENT 149
be attained through successful tern- stimulation of her family. So also
pie marriage. This places woman must the greatest care be used in
in a most strategic position — a posi- providing and directing the social
tion of honor, glory, and vital im- contacts of the child. The major
portance, and with all this, is the part of a mother's service is develop-
responsibility of being a successful ing the child's judgment so he can
partner. learn to choose for himself.
There is in the relationship a Child development is the con-
unique element of equality, mean- stant challenge of the mother. Dis-
ing evenly balanced or proportioned; cipline is bringing one's mental
having competent powers, ability, or powers under control and directing
means. While Adam was designat- them into useful channels. The
ed as the mouthpiece of God, Eve ideals, values, and objectives of the
was designated as the mother of society in which one lives can,
men. This set up a balance and a through discipline and obedience,
division of responsibility which pro- become a part of the child in in-
vides a basis for sound family organ- fancy and remain for life. The per-
ization. Only with her can man son who is most free is the one who
obtain exaltation in the celestial knows the law and obeys it.
kingdom. Truly, she is the leading Moral values represent the wis-
lady in the drama of life. She holds dom of time-tested behavior; moral
equal responsibilities for the ac- values represent the best judgment
complishment of the purpose of of man in tune with the mind and
life, ''to bring to pass the immortal- will of God. There is and must be
ity and eternal life of man." To- for us a divine tone in the moral
gether, and only together, can the values of our society,
full realization of the destiny of the Homemaking is largely the cre-
human family be achieved. ativeness of the mother. It is, in
reality, a joint father and mother
2. Service, the Mission of responsibility, yet it is the artistry.
Motherhood personality, and industry of the
Childbearing is a woman's unique mother that predominate. Besides
service. Providing a clean, healthy the beauty of the physical settings
body and a sound mind are most she is responsible for the things in
essential; however, being well-born her home and elsewhere that stimu-
is far more inclusive. It is being late the mind and spirit of her chil-
born into a home and family w^here dren. What they, the children,
the parents are qualified to provide read, think, hear, and see, they be-
healthy stimulation to the growth come.
and development of each child To meet her challenge, mother
spiritually, intellectually, and tem- must be constantly alert to her own
porally. mental stimulation. Her personal
As the mother exercises judgment, improvement helps in the direction
wisdom, and care in selection of of the children and, eventually pre-
food for her family, she must also pares her with interests and expres-
use judgment, wisdom, and care in sions of her talents which can fill
selecting the spiritual and mental her life when the family is gone.
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lives according to directions given
her in the gospel plan, her happi-
ness and the happiness of her family
are assured, lime, conditions, and
the wisdom of God will secure the
promised blessings for righteousness.
LESSON DEPARTMENT
151
Thoughts for Discussion
1. How important to happiness in daily
life is the law of obedience?
2. How important are thinking and
planning to a successful marriage?
3. What is the relationship of the ful-
ness of the gospel plan to joy and happi-
ness in the here and now?
4. How does the promise of happiness
in the gospel plan refer to the next world?
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To a Child
Dorothy J. Roberts
Scars : now the brown dirt road winds
Only in remembrance, and far away —
The horse my father drove and I beside him,
The crystal atmosphere, the liquid lay
Of meadow larks, and farther west
The curlew's poignant cry —
All are severed veins of time. . . .
Child, ringed by sidewalks, neat and dry,
And formal lawn, meadowless the young years
Pass for you. Woodless you walk,
Not among the toes of trees where violets
Grow wild and fragrant in the spring.
Grieving, I watch you, mourning how
You will never grieve for that
Earth-nearness I grieve for now.
The Cover: Bryce Canyon, Utah
Color Transparency by Don Knight
Frontispiece: Child Looking Toward the Spring
Photograph by Dorothy J. Roberts
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From Near and Far
The Relief Society Magazine was intro-
duced to me by Elder Dale E. Skinner
when he taught me the gospel. Ever since
then I have been attracted by the pretty
covers of the Magazine and the nice
stories. Most of all, I have been uplifted
several times by President Belle S. Spaf-
ford's messages. When Elder Skinner
finished his mission and went home, his
loving mother gave me the Magazine as a
Christmas gift for one whole year. And
today I have just received a note saying
that one more year is given to me by her.
I have never received a better Christmas
gift than this one. What a help and a
blessing the Magazine has been to me!
It has been a constant source of inspira-
tion in my task as a Relief Society
teacher.
— Sheila Tseng
Hong Kong, China
Since the publication of my poem
"Idyll Moment" in the February 1961
issue of The Relief Society Magazine,
several of my parents' friends have told
them that the verses were used at pro-
grams honoring elderly people, or at gold-
en weddings. Thanks so much for giving
us this pleasure. I realize more than ever
to what extent parents live vicariously in
their children, and how much we are
obliged not to fail them.
—Marie C. Webb
Provo, Utah
I have only been taking The Relief
Society Magazine for the past three
months, but I really enjoy it and look
forward to receiving it, especially since we
live so far from the church, about twenty
miles. My husband is in the service, and
we cannot attend church as often as we
would like to. The Magazine helps to
make up for this. I love the covers on
the Magazine. The November 1961 cov-
er (from a painting of Nauvoo, Ilhnois)
was especially beautiful. I enjoy the
poetry in the Magazine very much.
— Doris Moore
Rocky Point, New York
I just want to take a minute and put
in a good word for The Relief Society
Magazine. Someone sent me a subscrip-
tion when I began my mission over
eighteen months ago. I was so impressed
with the cover pictures that I began cut-
ting them out and giving them to
contacts. Then I started glancing at the
poetry and some of the articles. Then I
was sold! You certainly have a publica-
tion to be proud of. It is a testimony in
itself. I am sure the Lord is pleased with
the missionary labor it performs, and with
the high class literature it provides for
the women of his Church.
—Elder Farrell M. Smith
Mettmann, Germany
I am delighted with the first prize
story 'Ten Dollars \\^ill Buy Many
Things" (January 1962, by Mary Ek
Knowles). Mary's mother, Nellie Worth-
en Ek, was my dear friend and lived with
me as a girl. May I also say how much
I enjoyed the very unusual and significant
poem 'The Other Mother" by Miranda
Snow Walton (first prize poem, January
1962). I have read this poem to many
of my friends over the telephone.
— Mrs. Edith Hunter Lambert
Salt Lake Cit\ , Utah
Congratulations on the new look the
January issue has. It hardly seemed that
the Magazine could be improved. It has
become an accepted part of my life.
Thanks, also, for the wonderful pictures of
places I have seen. Hardly an issue comes
that I cannot say to my husband, "Do
you recognize this?" Then each page
unfolds a message, for which I am grate-
ful.
— Mrs. Zerelda Sapp
Fort Jones, CaHfornia
I surely appreciate the beautiful covers
on the Magazine. Our sisters enjoy the
stories, poems, and especially the lessons.
— June N. Ashton
Poplar, Montana
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford - President
Marianne C. Sharp . . . _ - _ First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen _ . - - - Second Counselor
Hulda Parker - - - - - Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Alberta H. Christensen Mary R. Young Elizabeth B. Winters
Edith S. Elliott Mildred B. Eyring Mary V. Cameron LaRue H. Rosell
Florence J. Madsen Charlotte A. Larsen Afton W. Hunt Jennie R. Scott
Leone G. Layton Edith P. Backman Wealtha S. Mendenhall Alice L. Wilkinson
Blanche B. Stoddard Winniefred S. Pearle M. Olsen LaPriel S. Bunker
Evon W. Peterson Manwaring Elsa T. Peterson Irene W. Buehner
Aleine M. Young Elna P. Haymond Irene B. Woodford Irene C. Lloyd
Josie B. Bay Annie M. Ellsworth Fanny S. Kienitz
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor ---.----- -__ Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor __-_----__ Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager __--.._--- Belle S. Spafford
VOL. 49 MARCH 1962 NO. 3
(contents
SPECIAL FEATURES
"Where Your Treasure Is" Sterling W. Sill 156
Leadership by Example Mildred B. Eyring 163
The Young Child and His Books May C. Hammond 174
The Red Cross — A Universal Symbol Fred A. Bantz 191
Do You Want to Increase Relief Society Attendance? Margaret Fitzpatrick 198
The Lamplighters AUce Gubler 207
FICTION
Cheshire Cat — Third Prize Story Linda S. Fletcher 166
Good Morning, Mrs. Romaie! Mabel Law Atkinson 180
So Great the Calling Betty Lou Martin 192
Sow the Field With Roses — Chapter 3 Margery S. Stewart 216
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 154
Sixty Years Ago 186
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 187
Editorial; "We Must Cherish One Another" Vesta P. Crawford 188
Christine H. Robinson Released From the General Board of Relief Society 189
Announcing the Special April Short Story Issue 191
Notes to the Field: Index for 1961 Relief Society Magazine Available 190
Notes From the Field: Relief Socety Achvities Hulda Parker 222
Birthday Congratulations 232
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
About Grandmothers Linnie F. Robinson 196
Beverages Before a Dinner Winnifred C. Jardine 204
Bits of Odds and Ends Janet W. Breeze 206
Stuffed Toys Are Delightful Shirley Thulin 211
Johanna Sofie Farstead Specializes in Hardanger Work 215
To Follow the Flowers Dorothy J. Neilson 230
POETRY
To a Child — Frontispiece Dorothy J. Roberts 153
Splendor Born Eva Willes Wangsgaard 162
Contrast Patricia Robinson King 165
The Passing Day Lila L. Smith 165
Gay Assertion Ida Elaine James 172
Night Rain Sylvia Probst Young 173
To a Yellow Crocus Hazel Loomis 179
His Art Gladys Hesser Burnham 185
Ownership Claim Maude Rubin 201
Another Spring Annie Atkin Tanner 202
View From the Pass Martha Tucker Fugate 210
Mrs. Teacher Olive C. Wehr 221
Communication Viola Ashton Candland 228
Snowdrops Ethel Jacobson 231
PUBLISHED MONTHLY BY THE GENERAL BOARD OF RELIEF SOCIETY OF THE
CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
Copyright 1962 by the Relief Society General Board Association
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The Magazine is not responsible for unsolicited manuscripts.
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Where Your Treasure Is''
Elder Sterling W. Sill
Assistant to the Council of the Twelve
[Address Delivered at the Magazine Department of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, September 28, 1961.]
1 appreciate very much the privi-
lege of meeting with this fine
group of Rehef Society workers.
My contacts with the Rehef Society
have all been very pleasant. My
mother was a Relief Society presi-
dent when I was young enough to
go to the meetings with her. My
wife has also served in the presi-
dency of the Relief Society. I was
a bishop for ten years during which
time I had a very happy Relief So-
ciety experience. And Elvira A.
Coles, the first Treasurer of the Re-
lief Society in Nauvoo, was my
great-grandmother.
I would like to congratulate vou
upon being an active part of this
great organization that is doing so
much for people. I am something
of a hero worshipper to begin with.
There are very few things that give
me the thrill of satisfaction that I
get from the contemplation of some-
one who can do things. There is an
old saying that if you want some-
thing done, get a busy man to do it.
I suppose this proverb would be con-
siderably improved upon if it said,
if you want something done, get a
busy woman to do it. But a still
better means of accomplishment
would be just to hand the job over
to the Relief Society.
I heard of a stake conference some
time ago where the stake president
said to Brother LeGrand Richards,
"I want you to know that the
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brethren are directly behind the Re-
lief Society." And Brother Rich-
ards said, "I'll say you are. You are
fifty years behind."
I have been asked to sav some-
thing about vour particular work of
selling The Relief Society Magazine.
I ought to say before I begin that
I have a rather unusual kind of taste
distortion, so that if I were turned
loose just to have fun, where all I
had to do was to enjoy myself, I
would go out and collect money
from people. This disposition has
been developed by a number of very
interesting experiences in this field.
Sister Sharp mentioned that I had
had something to do with financing
the construction of a building at
the University of Utah. I inter-
viewed 704 people seeking a financial
contribution. I was turned down
447 times. If you would like to have
an interesting experience, get your-
self turned down on some proposi-
tion 447 times. But because one
person may turn an idea down,
doesn't necessarily mean that every-
one will turn it down, as 257 people
gave me over $400,000.
Of course, your ratio of getting
subscriptions to the Magazine must
be much higher than that. But I
mention this because I think the
best way to convert someone to
something is to get him to put some
money into it. In one of the great-
est of truths Jesus said ". . . where
"WHERE YOUR TREASURE IS'
157
your treasure is, there will your heart
be also" ( Luke 1 2 : 34 ) . Let me give
you some practical examples of this
idea in actual operation.
A few General Conferences ago
Elder Bruce McConkie told of a
bishop interviewing a boy who was
to be ordained a deacon. But at the
same time the bishop talked with
the boy about preparing for a mis-
sion. The boy hadn't thought
much about it because he didn't
know where the money would come
from. The bishop suggested that
maybe the deacon ought to start a
savings account and use the years
between twelve and nineteen to get
his missionary funds in the bank.
The fact that this deacon then
adopted a definite program for put-
ting a part oi his newspaper route
money in a missionary fund is about
the best guarantee that I can think
of that he will not disqualify him-
self in the meantime.
Here is another example. When
plans were being made to finance
the Los Angeles Temple, President
Noble Waite was put in charge of
collecting a part of the money in
the temple district. The people liv-
ing there were invited to sign pledge
cards. A twelve-year-old boy came
to President Waite and said that he
would like to sign up to pay seventy-
five dollars. He came from a poor
family who had alreadv agreed to
pay a substantial amount, and Presi-
dent Waite thought that this addi-
tional contribution might be too
much. But the bov seemed to
know where he was going, and so
President Waite permitted him to
sign a pledge card. Then, week
after week, he sent in his payments
until the pledge was redeemed.
Then he returned and told Presi-
dent Waite that he would like to
sign up for another seventy-five dol-
lars. In time this was also paid.
Someone has said that ''What we
give we keep, and what we keep we
lose." That is, it wih always be true
that this boy has $150 invested in
the Los Angeles Temple. But more
important than that, his heart goes
with his treasure. His contributions
will help him to be married in the
temple.
A number of years ago I happened
to be the bishop of a ward dur-
ing the period that a meetinghouse
was being built. We felt that the
best possible way to increase inter-
est and develop loyalty to the
Church \^ as to make sure that every-
body had a substantial financial in-
terest in the ward. Even \'ery young
children should be encouraged to
earn and invest some money in the
Church. We called on one family
where the father had been inactive
all of his life. His wife was a non-
member and none of his children
were interested. We told them that
we had come to talk with them
about making a contribution to-
ward the erection of a new meeting-
house. The father said, ''I don't
understand why you should come to
us. We are not active in the
Church, we don't work in it; we
don't attend, and we don't pay any
money. Why do you think that wc
should make a contribution?"
We said to him, ''We will be glad
to explain it to you. You have just
said that you don't pay any money,
and you don't do any work in the
Church. We pay money and do
work, too. If you don't do any work,
why shouldn't you pay twice as
much money?"
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That sounded like a reasonable
proposition to him, and so he gave
us $500. Then we said to him,
''Brother Jones, we have no way of
knowing whether or not this is a
sufficient amount of money. But
there is one way we can find out."
Then we told him what the Lord
had said about where your treasure
is, there will your heart be also. And
we said, "Now, if we have collected
enough of your treasure, then we
know that your heart will be with
the Church, and you and your fam-
ily will be at Sunday School next
Sunday morning. However, if we
don't see you there, we will know
that your heart is not yet in the
Church, and we will keep coming
back until we have enough of your
treasure to bring your heart in, also.''
I mention the financial aspect
because your money philosophy will
be very important to success in your
particular work. Because our money
philosophy is often very weak, many
of our worthwhile projects fail. And
while the financial consideration in-
volved in subscribing to The Rdiei
Society Magazine is not a great one,
yet there are many times when your
failure or success will depend upon
your money philosophy. Of course
your responsibility as Magazine
agent is not merely to collect the
money — it also includes making
sure that the Magazine will he iuUy
utilized.
'T'HINK of the possible effect that
your personal contact may have
in the lives of the women of the
Church as a result of your talking
to them about the educational, re-
ligious, and other advantages oi
leading. One of the things that we
need more than most other things
is to learn how to get the most
practical use out of ideas and ideals j
available through the printed page. '
Woodrow Wilson once said, ''The
greatest ability of the American peo-
ple is their ability to resist instruc-
tion." That is also one of our most
serious problems in the Church, and
I suppose that most of us as indi- 1
viduals have our full share of that
unfortunate talent. One of the
greatest opportunities of a mother is
to get the right kind of ideas and »
ambitions into actual operation, and 1
you can make them available in
permanent, usable form.
I have attended a great many con-
ventions over a long period, and
almost always when something is
said that is thought to be important,
someone asks, "Couldn't we have a
copy of that? Couldn't it be writ-
ten down so that we can go over it
and absorb it and think about it and
improve our lives by it?"
The Lord has always seemed very
anxious that important things should
be written down. He said to John
the Revelator, "Write the things
which thou hast seen, and the
things which are, and the things
which shall be hereafter. . . ." In
giving the vision known as the 76th
Section of The Doctrine and Cove-
nants, the Lord repeated on four dif-
ferent occasions in verses 28, 49, 80,
and 115, that Joseph and (Oliver
should write the vision while they
were still in the spirit. And the
Lord wants you to make great ex-
periences and great ideas available
to others through this Magazine.
The best way to get people to
subscribe to and read the Magazine
is in this face-to-face kind oi contact.
The doctor can carry the spirit of
health right with him as he sees his
"WHERE YOUR TREASURE IS" 159
patients face to face. He would tent on each individual situation.
not be nearly so effective if he mere- But the first step is to believe in the
ly called them on the telephone or Magazine. About the most marvel-
put an ad in the newspaper or made ous power that I know anything
a public health announcement, about is the power of con\iction. If
Most of the important things that you sincerely believe something,
happen to us come by means of those with whom you talk will be-
personal contact. A genealogical lieve it also, and they will be
worker once called on me and start- changed and benefited by your
ed me on the idea of doing temple faith. But you must first get a firm
work. In a personal interview. Elder conviction in your own heart of the
Adam Bennion helped me to devel- worthwhileness of what you are do-
op a reading habit when I thought I ing before you can do very much
was too busy to read. In your sub- for anyone else.
scription-getting interview, you can For your consideration, let me
plant some seeds that will change give you 'The Big Four" of success,
the lives and habits of people. negatively stated. That is, there are
only four reasons why you may not
IF I were going to work in the succeed. They are as follows: You
Relief Society and had my choice may have —
of assignments, I can think of no
assignment that I would rather have '■ ^" inadequate prospect
,'=',-, . , ,. 2. An insuiTicient exposure
than to be Magazine representative. ^ ^n ineffective presentation
I was the bishop for a number of 4. An indifferent representative
years, and I never felt that I ever
did much good merely announcing 1. An Inadequate Prospect
the page of the song, etc. If I ever There may be some people who
did any good, it was out in the could just not possibly be interested,
homes of people who were in need though you will find very few of
of help. Of course every assign- these ''china-egg prospects" in your
ment in the Church is important, work. Most of your interviews will
A teacher has a great calling. She hatch. President John Taylor once
may have ten or twenty people in said that there was no one who
her class. But if you sell a Relief could not be appealed to by the gos-
Society Magazine subscription, by pel, if the right person made the
this one act you may make available right approach at the right time,
an entire Magazine fuJJ oi articles
every month for twelve months to 2. InsuEicient Exposure
a number oi people. Think how It takes time to get a mind prop-
long it would take a teacher to get erly warmed up. To some extent
over that much material. But, in everyone resembles a thermometer,
addition, your subscriber has a per- If you ask them to subscribe when
manent word-for-word possession, so they are thirty-two degrees below
that she can come back to these zero, they will decline. But their
good ideas again and again. situation can be changed by build-
Now, how do you make a sale.^ ing a fire under their interest. Don't
Of course that depends to some ex- just assume that the advantages of
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the Magazine are clear to them. Go
over the various points of value with
them. Minds can be changed.
Oscar Hammerstein once said, "A
heart can inspire other hearts with
its fire."
I once heard of a farmer who
wanted to sell his farm. He hired
an advertising man to write the copy
for the paper. The farmer told the
advertising man about the various
good features of his farm, and after
these had been written up in inter-
esting language, the advertising man
checked with the farmer by letting
him read what had been written.
When the farmer read about all of
the wonderful features of his farm,
he became so excited that he would
not sell it for any price. The same
thing happens when we sufficiently
expose people to the gospel.
When I was on a mission many
years ago I memorized the Fourth
Section of The Doctrine and Cove-
nants. The Fourth Section consists
of only seven sentences, made up
of 145 words. You can read the
entire Section in three-quarters of a
minute. I thought I understood
everything about the Fourth Sec-
tion, and then one day I heard
President Joseph Fielding Smith
talk to a group of young mission-
aries about the Fourth Section of
The Doctrine and Covenants, and as
the light of his experience and in-
terest shone on the Fourth Section,
I felt a new influence in it that I
had never known before.
Of course it sometimes takes time
for this interest to mature. That is
why re-calls are so often necessary.
If you need to call back a few times,
the increased exposure makes it so
much the better. Remember that
what you are doing is very important,
and your objective is not merely to
get a subscription — it is to get this
Magazine and a desire to read it into
the hearts of people in such a way
that they will read it religiously and
profitably every month.
No devoted, effective effort is
ever lost. It has been said that the
smallest bird cannot alight on the
greatest oak without sending a vi-
bration to the furthermost root end.
Success is accumulative. I once
heard a man telling about the num-
ber of calls he made when he was
courting his wife. Someone said to
him, ''Why didn't you just call on
her once?" I suppose that when
some of you were being courted, he
had to come back as many as two or
three times before he got the job
done.
3. Inefiective Presentation
Number three of the big four is
an ineffective presentation. Some
procedures get better results than
others. You may be interested in
an ineffective presentation made by
Moses. When Moses started across
the desert leading this great horde
of Egyptian slaves, he needed some-
one who knew the desert to act as
their guide. There was a man liv-
ing on the edge of the desert by
the name of Hobab. Moses said to
him, ''Hobab, come with us and we
will do thee good." But Hobab said,
"I will not go." Even Moses got
himself turned down because he
said the wrong thing. But Moses
needed Hobab, and so he made an-
other try with a different approach.
This time he said, "Hobab, come
with us that thou mayest be as eyes
to us in the wilderness." That is an
entirely different appeal, and almost
before the words were out of his
'WHERE YOUR TREASURE IS'
161
mouth, Hobab had his hat on and
was ready to go.
We have these same two ap-
proaches in use in the Church. In
trying to get someone to attend
Church, we sometimes say, ''Come
to Church, and we will do thee
good/' We mean, ''It will be a
good thing for you to associate with
nice people like us." That may be
all right, but not many people are
warmed up by that kind of an ap-
peal. Suppose, as Moses did, we try
the service appeal and say, "Come
and teach this class. We need your
leadership. We need your friend-
ship. You be our eyes in the wil-
derness." That is, to let them do
something is usually much more
effective in getting interest.
4. An Indifferent Representative
The fourth of the big four con-
siderations determining failure and
success is found in the representative
herself. The most deadly of the big
four is to have an indifferent repre-
sentative, one who herself is not
properly organized or interested.
The fires need to be burning bright-
ly in our own hearts before we can
ignite the fuse of interest in some-
one else. We need to have the
spirit of success ourselves. Jesus said
the kingdom of God is within you.
That is where all accomplishment
is also.
I would also like to suggest that
time and place of the interview are
also very important. I have heard of
someone trying to collect money or
sell someone a subscription as they
were about to go into sacrament
meeting. I think that the church
grounds should be a sanctuary. Peo-
ple go there for another reason. This
timeliness of your contact will be
very important. That is, if you ever
try to sell someone the Empire State
Building, don't try to do it while he
is running to catch a street car or
listening to the concert.
Now, to sum up, if you will per-
fect the big four in their positive
aspects, then every family in the
Church wilJ have The Relief Society
Magazine.
I would like to close with one of
the most interesting of all ideas.
Someone has said that the greatest
invention of all time took place at
Platea 2500 years ago, when an ob-
scure Greek perfected the process
of marching men in step. That is,
when it was discovered that the
efforts of a great group of people
could be co-ordinated and focused
upon a single objective, that day
civilization began. What a thrilling
idea if all ReUef Society Magazine
representatives could march in step
to reach a complete success where
all of the women in the Church
not only subscribe to the Maga-
zine, but fully absorbed the great
ideas therein every month.
And may the Lord bless you to
this end is my prayer which I ask
in Jesus' name. Amen.
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CACHE STAKE MAGAZINE DISPLAY
ARRANGED FOR THE ANNUAL GENERAL RELIEF SOCIETY
CONFERENCE, September 1961
This inspirational display, arranged by Melicent Anderson, Counselor in Cache
Stake (Utah), Fourth Ward Relief Society, was first featured at a special program in
that ward, and was later displayed at a Cache Stake leadership meeting. The Magazines
are opened to special articles which appeared in the i960 issues. The pictures in the
background are framed covers of The Relief Society Magazine, designed for use in
home decoration, as well as for use in Magazine displays in the wards and in the stake.
The decorated jars were made for saving coins for Magazine subscriptions, and the
bag was made from directions in the July i960 Magazine. Refreshments served at the
ward meeting and the stake leadership meeting were made from Relief Society Magazine
recipes. Alice D. Griffin represented Cache Stake as Magazine director at the time of
the arranging of this display, and Diana Willie was the Magazine representative for the
Fourth Ward. Pearl R. Haddock is president of Cache Stake Relief Society.
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Splendor Born
Eva Wilies Wangsgaard
These sink in glory like a falling star:
A murky day that sunset gold retrieves,
A year beneath her cloak of golden leaves,
And waves that break where jutting mountains are.
But these are born to splendor as they wake:
The virgin year with snowflake-threaded hair,
A dawn in June in balsam-scented air,
And mountains on which waves and years must break.
Leadership by Example
Mildred B. Eyrfng
Member, General Board of Relief Society
[Address Delivered at the General Session of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, September 27, 1961.]
MY brothers and sisters, I am always is a leader, because every in-
grateful for this opportunity dividual everywhere has an influence,
to testify to you my convic- good or bad, on all those who see
tion that God lives, that he is our or hear about him. The more wide-
Father, that Jesus Christ is our ly we are known, the greater is our
elder Brother and Savior, and that influence. None of us can escape
this is truly his Church. I am grate- this responsibilitv. Cain's question,
ful that he has given the authority ''Am I my brother's keeper?" must
to act in his name, to his worthy be answered in the affirmative. I
sons here on the earth. I am grate- am mv brother's and my sister's
ful for the leadership of the kind, keeper. I help to make them as
wise, devoted men who have been they are.
called to stand at the head of his With that thought in mind, I
Church, his kingdom here on earth, would like to examine the Tenth
I honor these men. Commandment: 'Thou shalt not
There is an old Chinese proverb, covet." The dictionary tells us that
which says, ''He who tells me of my to covet means to desire inordinately
faults, is my teacher. He who tells something that belongs to another,
me of my virtues does me harm." This commandment, then, it seems
Perhaps that is drastic, but there is to me, is telling us to avoid envy, to
a core of truth there. I am sure avoid undue concern about our ma-
most of us would want to qualify terial possessions or our positions, in
it somewhat. We must recognize modern parlance to avoid trying to
our faults, if we are to correct them, keep up with the Joneses,
and undue praise can be harmful in I believe that much of the evil
some situations. and misery of the world today stems
Today, I shall not praise our vir- from widespread disregard of the
tues, but rather I shall ask that we Tenth Commandment. Too many
all appraise ourselves and perhaps people, too many of us who would
recognize some of our weaknesses. I not lie or steal or break the other
speak to myself, as I speak to all of commandments, seem to be unaware
you. I hope that we may learn to- that we are ignoring this one.
gether. Most of us have held posi- Avarice, envy, selfishness arc griev-
tions of leadership in various organ- ous sins. They are underlying
izations within the Church, and we causes of crime, of financial indebt-
know the particular responsibilities edness, of poverty, of broken homes,
of those positions, but I would like of war, indeed of all of the evils that
to suggest that every individual are opposed to the laws of God.
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Since I am my brother's keeper, I people, we must be willing to be
am sure I have a double responsi- distinctively his and to keep his
bilitv regarding this commandment, commandments. To do so, in the
Not only must I control my own materialistic, agnostic world of to-
inclinations to covet, I must also day, we must be willing to be dif-
consciouslv avoid exciting covetous- ferent. In fact, we must insist on
ness in others. If I must have status being different, in many ways, from
in order to satisfy my ego, I believe most of the people about us who
I should gain it by rendering service do not share our beliefs and stand-
to others, or by creating something ards. We must, in our everyday
which will improve the world. In lives, adhere to the standards that
other words, I believe it would be God has set for his special people,
better for me to find satisfaction in regardless of what others may do.
what I am and what I can do, rather If, to order milk or fruit juice
than in the things that I may pos- instead of tea or coffee or cocktails,
scss. It would be better for me and or to decline the proffered cigarette,
for those I influence. Paul spoke or to refrain from using profane or
truly when he said "the love of mon- vulgar language, or to dress modest-
ey is the root of all evil" (Timothy ly, or to keep the Sabbath day holy,
6:10), and I believe that the Tenth or to obev the law of chastity; if, to
Commandment is largely about just obey any of the commandments of
that. We should appraise ourselves God, makes us feel queer or uncom-
regarding it. fortable, it is time that we change
our attitude or our associates or
A NOTHER expression we fre- both. We must be willing to de-
quently use is peculiar people, clare with Paul, ''I am not ashamed
The colloquial meaning of the word of the gospel of Christ," and mean
peculiar is queer or eccentric, and it. If we are to be his chosen peo-
unfortunately that meaning has been pie, we must be peculiarly, distinct-
accepted by most of us. And, be- ively his.
cause we do not want to be con- Most of us here today are leaders
sidered queer, we try verv hard to in Relief Society, and as such we
appear to be like everyone else. We not only have the responsibility of
try to avoid seeming peculiar. But leadership, which is common to all,
the true meaning of the word is but we ha\e the specific responsi-
special, distinctive, particular. The bility to plan and conduct our ac-
ancient Israelites were told ''the tivities so that all the women of the
Lord . . . hath chosen thee to be a Church, by following our leadership,
peculiar people unto himself, above our precept and example, may reach
all the nations that are upon the the ultimate objective of this organ-
earth" (Deut. 14:2). ''And the ization. The inspired Prophet Jo-
Lord hath avouched thee this day to seph Smith said, "This society is
be his peculiar people . . . and that not only to relieve the poor, but to
thou shouldest keep all his com- save souls." Physical needs must be
mandments" (Deut. 26:18). met, of course, but poverty of the
If now, in modern Israel, we can mind and spirit is as real as physical
j)roperly claim to be God's chosen poverty, and in many places is more
LEADERSHIP BY EXAMPLE 165
prev^alent. It also must be relieved I pray that our Heavenly Father
if souls are to be saved. That is our will bless each of us with the wisdom
assignment, and our first step in and strength to keep all his corn-
filling it is to make sure that we are mandments, to be distinctively his
keeping all the commandments, people, to be good leaders. I ask
Only then can we lead others in it in the name of Jesus Christ,
the right direction. Amen.
Contrast
Patricia Robinson King
Where I was born the hills were humps,
Hardly more than gentle bumps
That nudged each other all the way
Until they edged down to a bay.
Wlicre I was born the grass was deep,
The nights were cool, and the sea could keep
The earth back with a co\e and sand,
Marking division of salt and land.
Where I live now the plains are wide;
They almost tuck the world inside.
The roads stretch out and I can see
One hundred miles in front of me.
\^"here I live now, the world is high
And mountains reach to spht the sky.
One world was neat and circumspect,
But here life is the architect.
This throbbing land still calls to those
Who blend their poetr\- with prose.
The Passing Day
LiJa L. Smith
I have no qualms about the passing day.
Unless I sit, and let it waste away.
cJhird [Prize o^toryi
tyinnual LKelief Societii Snort Story (contest
Cheshire Cat
Linda S. Fletchei
LINDA S. FLETCHER
'M like that Cheshire cat to
my family/' mused Edeth,
"I
remembering her reading ses-
sion with Tommy the evening be-
fore, as she automatically performed
her early morning household duties.
''I come into the consciousness of
Neil and the children only when
they want something, and then,
chiefly, as a Face with a constant
Smile, since I try to meet their need
cheerfully/'
"Is my lunch ready?" inquired
her husband, appearing in the kitch-
en doorway.
'Tes, to be put into the box.
Could you please do that?" she re-
plied, pointing to a pile of waxed
paper wrapped edibles.
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Neil's eyes focused on her as if
he saw her for the first time in many
days. ''I suppose I have time," he
murmured vaguelv, and proceeded
to do the job he had never been
asked to do before.
''He really saw me whole, I do
believe!" Edeth exulted, inwardly.
Just then Baby Kirk gave the
lusty, imperative call which an-
nounced he was awake and, with a
quick peck at her occupied hus-
band's brown cheek, and a hasty,
''Goodbye, have an interesting day!"
she hurried to the nursery.
She had just lifted the baby from
his warm nest, when she heard hur-
rying footsteps descending the
stairs, and her oldest of four, Lana
Ann, went past the door and into
the bathroom. Edeth sighed as she
thought it would be another hour,
at least, before she would see the
girl again. Lana Ann had the mad-
dening habit of running the tub
full almost to overflowing and then
luxuriating in her bath as long as
she possibly could.
Edeth had finished feeding the
baby and was tying Tommy's shoes,
when Melanie, her ten-year-old,
came rushing downstairs in what her
mother called her "tornado mood/'
and burst out: "Mother, do come
and find my stockings! I haven't
one pair in my drawer!"
"Did you bring them from the
rack?" asked Edeth, with the even-
CHESHIRE CAT
167
ness of tone which betrayed how
desperately she was trying to con-
trol her temper.
*'No — didn't you put them into
my drawer?'' returned Melanie, a
note of perplexity in her voice as
she focused her wondering eyes on
her mother.
"No, dear/' Edeth replied. "You
remember I told you last week that
you would have that job in the fu-
ture."
"I guess I didn't hear you!"
wailed Melanie. "Could you bring
me a pair just this once and then
ril go down after school and get
the others?" she coaxed.
Edeth started toward the base-
ment door and then halted abruptly.
"You have time to go down and
get them/' she told Melanie, firmly.
'T^HE youngster started to protest.
Then she looked her mother up
and down, as if really seeing her for
the first time, and turned silently
toward the basement door. She
went on through it and then
bounced on down the steps to the
laundry room below without fur-
ther comment.
"I do believe she, too, saw me,"
Edeth mused. "The Cheshire Cat
seems to be completely materializ-
ing!"
Melaine shortly reappeared, both
of her hands full of hose. She
promptly dumped them on the dav-
enport in the living room and pro-
ceeded to choose a pair from the lot.
A wail burst from her lips as she ex-
amined the two she had chosen.
"There's a hole in the heel of each
of these! What am I going to do?
Could you . . .?" She broke off her
request suddenly as she looked
doubtfully at the parent who had
abruptly become a Person who
might not like to do her mending.
"Choose another pair," suggested
Edeth, "then separate the hose into
two piles, one of the whole stock-
ings and one of those which need
mending. Put the good ones away
and repair the others after school."
"But I want to wear the red pair!"
protested the girl. "Perhaps the
holes won't show!"
"In the heel?" Edeth's tones were
incredulous.
Melanie looked guilty and then
broke into the smile which usually
won her point. "Couldn't you just
— er — pull them together?" she
persisted, but wavered as she studied
her mother.
"Not this time," Edeth replied
firmly. "Please choose a pair you
can wear and then do with the
others as I suggested."
With many starts and stops and
puzzled glances at her parent, Mel-
anie finally disposed of the stock-
ings.
Just then Lana Ann burst from
the bathroom. "Mother, why didn't
you remind me I was staying in the
tub too long!"
"But there's a clock in there —
right in your line of vision," Edeth
reminded her quietly.
"But I had my eyes closed!"
wailed the girl.
"I have told you very often to be
conscious of the time," her mother
reminded.
"Yes, but you've always . . ." Lana
Ann broke off, as she looked into
Edeth's calm eyes.
"I know — and I was thus at
fault," the latter responded. "May
I serve notice now that in the fu-
ture I shall give you full responsi-
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bility for getting yourself up and off
to school?"
The girl looked searchingly at her
and then, with another anguished
glance at the clock, hurried to fin-
ish her preparations for school.
VI^ITH the family finally off to
their daily activities and the
baby asleep, Edeth was free again to
pursue the thoughts which had
presented themselves earlier.
While putting the house to rights,
she reviewed the beginning and
growth of the condition in which
she now found herself — that of
being a nonentity to her own fam-
ily. She realized that she was thus
failing those whom she loved best.
I have permitted the demon monot-
ony to get me in his clutches, I sup-
pose, and have been too much
occupied with the many things.
Now, I must find the way to intro-
duce a new mode of living into our
disordered and confused lives. My
family needs a mother, not a mere
housemaid!
The doorbell rang, as if in sym-
pathy with her problem. The Relief
Society visiting teachers were call-
ing with a special invitation for her
to attend the meeting to be held
on the following evening.
''We're having an evening session
this week so that those women who
work or for other reasons are unable
to attend our regularly held meet-
ings may come.
*'We do hope you will join us. Sis-
ter Lindley. The social science les-
son is to be discussed this time. It
concerns spiritual living, and these
lessons have proved to be of great
interest to the women."
*Tm going to come," Edeth heard
herself asserting, firmly.
The family were much surprise
to have Mother come to dinner the
following evening all dressed up.
She was wearing some beautiful
crystals in her ears and around her
neck, and her dress was of the kind
which would muss and wrinkle
easily. She usually wore clothes
that would withstand such things,
and her earrings were usually left in
the jewel case because the baby in-
sisted on pulling them from her ears.
''Aren't you taking the baby?"
asked Melanie, rather awed by
Edeth's grandeur, and yet feeling
that she should try to keep things
normal.
"No. I think Fll leave him home
and have Daddy take charge of get-
ting him to bed while you and Lana
Ann wash the dishes and tidy up.
And Tommy will need a bath, too,"
she continued, turning to Neil. "Do
you think you can manage all right
for a little while?" she asked
brightly.
"I — suppose so — yes, of course,"
he answered, so taken aback by her
light-hearted assumption that he
could take over for her with no
trouble, that he was completely
jolted out of his usual absorption in
the evening paper. "I was going to
watch the football games, but. . . ."
"You'll have to see television as
I usually do by snatches," she
smiled. "But the girls will help, and
you'll have things done up in no
time at all! Oh, I must hurry! Is
the car out front?"
"Are you driving?" asked Neil.
"Why, you haven't driven. . . ."
"I haven't forgotten how!" she
replied airily, as she put on her coat,
lightly kissed each one goodbye, and
went out to the car, leaving a rather
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169
speechless and nonplused family
behind.
A ND the lesson was indeed just
what she needed! She drank
eagerly of the li\^ing water, for which
she now realized she had thirsted a
long time. Concepts were presented
which challenged her, and she felt
that she really must be religiously
mature enough not to be satisfied
with the status quo and able to put
good intentions into operation. Such
a person would not be a nonentity
an\where.
She was particularly impressed by
the idea: ''The religiously mature
person has a sense of the glory of
life." She recalled how much she
had felt this in her girlhood and in
the early years of her married life.
She must and couJd bring this sense
of glory into her home.
Her face was aglow as she ex-
pressed to the class leader the joy
the lesson had given her and then
said goodnight to the serene and
happy women all around her. They
had been, for the most part, partak-
ers of the satisfying fare of which
she, Martha-like, had been depriv-
ing herself.
As she drove home, she told her-
self: ''I must find out more about
this spiritual living. I am so far
behind! I really sold my womanly
birthright when I thought I was pro-
viding well for my family's material
needs, at the expense of their
spiritual well-being."
Her exhilaration was dampened,
however, by the conditions which
confronted her at home. She had
never seen her house so untidy, nor
the tempers of her family so un-
pleasant! Neil was slumped in his
big chair, as if in the last state of
complete collapse. Tommy was
calling for a drink, and the girls were
arguing angrily over what program
they should see next.
''None at all," Edeth told them
quietly. "Turn it off."
The girls were surprised into si-
lence by her calmness. She usually
shouted at them, Edeth remembered
with some shame. Melanie, after
an appraising glance at her moth-
er's face, pushed in the button.
"Come, it's bedtime," Edeth told
them, as she guided them toward
the bedroom they shared. There
she noted the utter confusion of
school books, toys, clothes, and
miscellany.
"Put all of your toys into the
chest," she directed Melanie. "Lana
Ann, arrange your books so that you
have those you need for school to-
gether."
A/TEANTIME, as the girls silently
followed her direction, Edeth
was helping, too. By the time the
youngsters had finished their as-
signed tasks, the room looked almost
tidy. As they undressed, however,
clothes began dropping everywhere.
"Please put your soiled clothes to-
gether into a pile to bring down to
the hamper in the morning. Get
out the clean clothes you will need
and have them ready to wear. Then
you can dress more quickly in the
morning."
"That's a good idea. Mummy,"
Melanie approved, for she had a
sense of order, which, Edeth
thought ruefully, hadn't had much
encouragement.
All the while she had been listen-
ing with half her attention, to Tom-
my's demands. The sounds from
his room now died out, and she
170 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MARCH 1962
realized that Neil had finally han- As he started up, bitter phrases
died that situation, as she had hoped began to tumble from him: ''How
he would. Now the girls were ready can a man rest in bedlam? I thought
for bed, and both literally jumped the baby would never settle down."
into the cozy resting places. And then, as his wife continued to
'*No prayers?" Edeth asked. regard him sweetly, making no reply.
Apologetically, they both crawled he smiled ruefully. ''I should have
out. As they knelt to pray, the been able to bear up for a couple of
mother realized that it had been hours under what you have to put
many months since she had been up with all the time, practically,
present at her daughters' going to But, Edeth, don't you think our
bed. children ought to be more orderly
She walked to the window and and less demanding? They go
looked out and then up. The glory through the place like small whirl-
of the heavens took her breath away, winds."
It was a moonless night, and the ''I must surely concentrate upon
dark blue softness was aglow with teaching them order," Edeth replied,
gently winking gems and scintillat- ''You agree, do you not, that it is
ing dust. the basis of all spiritual living?"
As the girls rose from their devo- "What do you mean?" asked her
tions, she called softly: "Come husband, nonplused.
here!" They came silently and Edeth made herself comfortable
gazed in awe at the wondrous sight, on the davenport and then told him
"The heavens declare the glory of of her experience at the meeting
God. . . ." Edeth repeated softly. that evening. "I am surely going
"He really knows a lot, doesn't to try to put a spiritual and cre-
he?" Lana Ann affirmed, rather than ative foundation under our lives,
questioned. since we did not establish it as a
"And he is our Father, and so it rock upon which to build before,
follows that we can learn a great Will you help me?"
deal, too," her mother added. Neil considered what she had said.
Then she kissed her daughters — "You women do not hesitate to set
now very thoughtful little girls in yourselves real tasks, but what you
their soft pajamas — and lovingly have told me makes sense. Of course
tucked them in. I'll help as much as anyone can who
"It's comforting to have you tuck has to be pretty well wrapped up in
us into bed," affirmed Lana Ann, material things."
and Melanie added her heartfelt, Edeth was very tired, but she got
"Oh, yes, indeed. Mummy!" out the Bible — how long it had
Edeth gave each another big hug been since she had last opened it —
in return. As she descended the and turned to The Psalms, from
stairs, she thought, this has truly which she read some loved passages.
been a spiritual experience! Then, her soul akindle with the
Neil was stretched out in his chair, beauty of the lofty phrases, she
his feet on the hassock and his eyes again went to the window to spend
closed. She went over and dropped a few thoughtful moments enjoying
a light kiss on his lips. the glory before her uplifted eyes.
CHESHIRE CAT
171
The peace and wonder she had in-
vited into her heart enabled her, a
httle later, to fall sweetly asleep.
A FTER a day which had been
more tranquil than was usual in
the Lindley household, Edeth pro-
posed to the family at dinner that
they establish a regular Family Hour
in their domicile.
''This is the evening which has
been left open in our ward for such
gatherings, but we haven't made
much preparation for it. But could
we have a family council and plan
together how our home can be hap-
pier and more orderly and peaceful?
Then we'll all try to li\'e up to the
rules we make."
''I hate rules!" protested Lana
Ann, ''and I want to go over to
Ruthie's tonight."
"Just give me a chance," pleaded
Edeth. "I know you want our fam-
ily to be happy. We need to plan
for this, using all of our ideas. You
come tonight, and if you don't like
what we do, you won't need to come
again." Why did I promise that?
she asked herself, appalled.
But Lana Ann agreed, reluctantly.
"Well, what shall we do?"
"You girls make out a list — a
sort of Ten Commandments for
parents. Dad and I will tell you
some of our ideas and plans."
Intrigued bv the assignment, the
girls were home early, and Edeth
was thrilled to notice two earnest
blonde heads bent over pencils and
paper.
Everyone helped to get dinner
over and then the famih' assembled
in the living room.
"It looks nice in here!" approved
Lana Ann, her eyes going at once to
the bouquet of bright flowers Edeth
had ordered for the occasion.
"And it's so clean and orderly!"
added Melanie, and then to her
mother, "You look nice, too. Your
hair shines like — like the Revere-
ware!" The family all laughed to-
gether at this homely comparison,
and Edeth felt that she was begin-
ning, at least, to be recognized by
her family as a person, and smiled
her pleasure.
Seated around the table, the
Lindleys began the serious business
of planning for their future peace
and happiness.
The rules which emerged from
their earnest discussion were simple,
providing for mutual consideration
and spiritual living. They would at-
tend to their Church duties —
together, would have their family
prayers, and provide for sensible TV
viewing. They would do more sing-
ing together, with Mother at the
piano.
"Can Mummy really play?" asked
Melanie, wonderingly.
Nor did they forget the "creativ^e"
activities. They had often talked of
making puppets and a stage for
showing them. Edeth had even
written a script or two. They were
all enthusiastic about continuing
this project. And there was hand-
work they could all do to beautify
their home.
"And let's enjoy our fine records
and good books together more
often," Neil contributed.
Both Lana Ann and Melanie were
impressed when the council con-
cluded its work. They all felt that
peace and order had begun to come
into their abode, and Edeth knew
172 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MARCH 1962
that she was no longer a nonentity now disappearing, Cheshire Cat was
there. banished from the Lindley house-
The incomplete, now appearing, hold forever.
Linda S. Fletcher, Tacoma, Washington, tells us that, next to her family, she is
most devoted to teaching and writing, with a greater allotment of time and energy to
her teaching activities. She has taught in all the auxiliary organizations of the Church
open to women. She was the first president of the Seattle Stake Board of the Young
Women's Mutual Improvement Association, and at present she teaches Sunday School
and Seminary classes, and is the literature class leader in the Tacoma First Ward Relief
Society. Mrs. Fletcher is the author of many published poems, short stories, and
articles, and two plays. Her work has appeared in the Church magazines and in many
other publications. Three of her poems have received awards in the Eliza R. Snow
Poem Contest. She feels that a place among the women writers of the Church is an
attainment which gives thrilling soul-satisfaction.
Mrs. Fletcher's husband is Roland E. Fletcher, a retired building contractor. They
are parents of two children: Dr. }. Eugene Fletcher of the faculty of Eastern Washing-
ton State College, and Gweneth F. Liljenquist, a former teacher in the Tacoma schools.
There are nine grandchildren.
Gay Assertion
Ida Elaine James
My winter tree is touched with fire -
A cardinal zigzagged from a wire
And gripped its thread-like tiny feet
Around a twig of crystal-sleet.
Oh, what intrepid spirit he
Must have to brace the winter cold
As though to cheer the tree and me,
Clinging with such ardent hold,
While from the bursting little throat
His song denies the doleful note.
Ai'izona Photographic Associates
VIEW FROM THE TREES
Looking toward the San Francisco Mountains, from near Flagstaff in the high
plateau country of Northern Arizona.
Night Rain
Sylvia Pwhst Young
Here, in this deep night gloom the wild winds die;
And suddenly across the arid plain
I hear the marching rhythm of the rain,
Rain — silver miracle — gift of the sky,
Gift to the dormant seed that now will know
The touch of life. Soon tender blades will stand
As promise of the fruitage of the land —
Each winter tree \\ill leaf again and grow.
Night — rain before the golden morning charm
Of jeweled droplets glowing . . . the caress
Of crisp, cool air, and sky blue loveliness,
The soft serenity that follows storm.
With winging birds, my heart is lifted high . . .
Rain — harbinger of spring — gift of the sky.
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The Young Child and His Books
May C. Hammond
Assistant Professor of Education, Brigham Young University
There was a child went forth e\ery day,
And the first object he look'd upon, that object he became.
And that object became part of him for the day or a certain part of the day,
Or for many years or stretching cycles of years. . . .
— From Leaves of Grass, by Walt Whitman
WALT Whitman wrote these dren's attitudes toward books are
\^ords many years ago. usually the parents' attitudes. If we
Modern educators appreci- want children to be receptive and
ate their significance perhaps more eager toward books, we must, our-
than did the generation who first selves, show that feeling,
heard them. Whitman, in this Clifton Fadiman, in a recent
poem, enumerates the many things newspaper article, expressed his
that become part of this child. He satisfaction that the good old cus-
names the parents, the teachers, 'all torn of grandmother's day, that of
the changes of city and country." families reading together in the
He does not specifically mention home, is becoming popular again,
books, but no one familiar with the He tells us that mothers, and even
ways of a child with a book will fathers, are setting aside a few min-
doubt that books, also, become part utes each day for family reading,
of that child ''who goes forth every Many parents have always recog-
day." Another poet, Dylan Thomas, nized the value of reading to chil-
made the statement that he was as dren; but the busy lives they and
much a part of the books he had the children lead have often made
read as of the food he had eaten. this valuable home experience seem
Next to people, books offer the almost impossible,
most satisfactory companionship Young parents often ask, "When
and, as do people, they undoubtedly should one begin reading to a child,
do much to influence the li\'es of and how long should the reading
children. A home without books continue?" Children as young as
can, indeed, be a barren place, one year enjoy the rhythm and the
Books, in a home where there are sound of words as the mother reads
children, should be considered as to them. Mother Goose rhymes
necessary as are the dishes on the are excellent material for these first
table or the food in the refrigerator, experiences. As soon as the baby
and they should be taken as much can recognize familiar objects in
for granted. pictures, he is ready for his first pic-
The early experiences of children ture book. The Baby Book of the
are adult controlled; their experien- Little Golden series is an excellent
ces with books depend almost first book,
entirely upon the parents, and chil- At two years, many children are
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175
Hal Rumel
THE WONDER AND DELIGHT OF MOTHER'S READING
The Cecil E. Lloyd family, left to right: Susan; Ehzabeth; Luacine S. Lloyd, the
mother; Jennifer; Tracy, holding baby Margaret.
ready for simple picture books with
some text. Marjorie Flack's Ask
Mr. Beai is a good example. At
three or four years, children enjoy
being a member of a family reading
group, if the age spread of the group
is not more than three or four years.
For young children the reading
period should not be too long. Older
children may enjoy a reading period
as long as forty-five minutes. A
parent should never read to children
if he (or she) is ''bored" with the
reading. Children are very quick
at catching the mood of the reader.
An adult should be able to read a
beautiful picture book to children
with something of a child's wonder
and delight.
pARENTS may make a special
occasion of bringing home a
beautiful book. It may be a birth-
day or a Christmas present. It may
even be a surprise ''unbirthday'*
present. Three or four good books
a year will soon build a library for
a growing family. It is a mistake to
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provide too many books for the
young child. It is much better to
have a few really good books which
may be read over and over and
looked at again and again. Children
should grow up with books that are
their own, and these books should
be good books. Parents often say,
''But good books are so expensive."
This is true, but if parents can
afford a doll or a toy truck at $9.95
and more, surely a good book, now
and then, should not be considered
an extravagance. For the parent
who would like to build a home
library but feels inadequate in
choosing books, we offer a few sug-
gestions.
Choosing a book for a child
:should be a very special matter. We
cannot generalize too specifically
about age interests. Each child is
an individual and should be treated
as such. The quality of the book
should be high, but being of high
-quality does not necessarily imply
that it is a ''classic." Perhaps it has
not lived long enough. Being new
or old makes no difference to chil-
dren. Peter Rabbit, now nearly
sixty years old, is still, for young
children, as fresh as the dawn. In
choosing a new book, however, one
should be sure that glitter and
sophistication do not take the place
of the real and lasting qualities that
distinguish fine books. Hans Chris-
tian Andersen's story of the jeweled
bird and the little brown singer who
was the real nightingale, should
teach us that in choosing books, as
in choosing other values in life, we
must "lose not the nightingale."
The child's first book is, of course,
the picture book. When confront-
ed with the hundreds of books in
this category, in book stores, in
drugstores, even in supermarkets,
the average parent is often totally at
sea. At this age, the child's taste in
stories and in pictures is not very
discriminatory. But this is the gold-
en age for beginning to develop
taste and, while some of the inex-
pensive little books usually brought
home are illustrated by good artists,
even in selecting these, a parent
should have some standards of selec-
tion, if she is to avoid the trivial and
the worthless.
In the past few decades the pic-
ture book has come into its own.
Many foremost artists and illustra-
tors have turned their attention to J
illustrating books for children. Such "
well-known artists as Lvnd Ward,
Robert McCloskey, Louis Slobod-
kin, Ludwig Bemelmans, and many
others are writing and illustrating J
children's books. From these ar-
tists and others, then, we expect
good art and we expect, also, quali-^
ties that have special appeal to chil-
dren.
A picture book must be judged
from two aspects — the pictures]
and the text. Good pictures willj
often sell a book of poor quality,
while a fine story may go unnoticed
if it lacks appropriate illustrations.
Certain qualities in the picture have
proved universally popular. Chil-j
dren want an bowQsi interpretation!
of the text. The technique used]
will vary according to the nature of |
the text. An honest interpretation
does not imply that the picture must
be realistic. The lovely pictures by
Marcia Brown for Cinderella are not]
realistic, but neither is the story.
The fairy-like quality of the pic-
tures is in perfect harmony with the
story.
THE YOUNG CHILD AND HIS BOOKS
177
Children like the pictures to be
closely synchronized with the text.
Pictures are usually on one page,
with the text on the opposite page.
As the child hears the story of the
old man's search for a cat in Wanda
Gag s Millions oi Cats, he delights
in the rhythmic pictures that show
exactly what is taking place as the
story unfolds.
Children like humor, but the
humor must be on their level of
understanding. A book often con-
tains humor for adults as well as for
children. Ferdinand, by Munro
Leaf, is a good example. In reading
the book* to children, the reader will
note that children take, in all seri-
ousness, many situations that adults
find humorous. Children do not
respond to satire or to the subtle
situations that adults find so funny.
Children want action. Just as they
demand something doing all the
time in the story, they also like
pictures that show this life and ac-
tion. The vigorous, swirling move-
ment in the pictures, as Mary Ann
goes to work in Mike Mulligan and
His Steam Shovel, constitutes a
great deal of this book's appeal.
Children like a stoiy telling qual-
ity that enables them to read the
book over and over through the pic-
tures, after having once heard the
story. In Angus and the Ducks by
Marjorie Flack, the child is never in
doubt as to the development of the
story. The pictures tell it almost
better than the words.
Children like detail, but not so
much detail that it becomes clutter.
The pictures must be kept clear and
simple with, perhaps, some little
'"lovable" details that a child will
want to examine again and again.
Of course, children delight in
blight colors, but they will settle
for black and white, if the other
qualities are present. Millions of
Cats needs no color to give it pop-
ularity. Make Way for Ducklings
is very satisfactory, with its action
and humor and its lovely brown
tones.
npHE text is fully as important as
the pictures and demands as
careful evaluation. The plot is
usually quite simple but, at the same
time, it may involve such essential
meanings of life as security, love,
approval, and acceptance. The plot
is written with drama, the words are
expressive and are fraught with
meaning. The story must sound
well. It will be read over and over,
and the words must produce a
rhythmic whole that matches the
text. Reading should be effortless
because the text moves smoothly.
The development should be crystal
clear with few sidetracks and no
moralizing. The plot should be
lively and full of action and, in
place of moralizing, there is often
that bit of "lighthearted wisdom" so
beautifully exemplified in Peter
Rabbit and in the more modern
Findeis Keepers. Children get the
point without obvious moralizing.
Children want, first of all, keen
enjoyment in their stories. Gen-
erally speaking, the story should
have a happy ending. But children
must learn to cope with disappoint-
ments and unhappiness, so an oc-
casional story with a little sadness
children will take in their stride.
"The Little Match Girl" and "The
Steadfast Tin Soldier" are popular
in spite of the sadness. When the
sadness is so prolonged as to become
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morbid, as in Oscar Wilde's beautiful that produce fears — mild shivers,
story 'The Happy Prince/' we can perhaps, but not fears,
well decide to leave it for older chil- Paul Engle expresses so beau-
dren and adults. tifully, in this short poem about his
One final word seems advisable, own daughter, the way of a child
Children should not have stories with a book. We share it with you.
Books were the actual world she touched and knew
Where trolls were real and friendly goblins hid
Under the bed, and green dragons blew
Smoke from their mouths and talked the way she did.
Wohes between the covers of a book
Wandered all day their safe, familiar land,
Brown squirrels came down from colored trees and took
Imaginary acorns from her hand.
She became those books. She was the girl
Locked in the high tower in the gray Scotch highlands.
She was the fisher's wife with a crown of pearl.
And when they told her of the shipwrecked man
Named Crusoe, she became herself the island.
The beach, the footprint where the stranger ran.
— (Copyright 1945 by Paul Engle
and reprinted from American Child,
by Paul Engle, by permission of
Random House, Inc.)
BIBLIOGRAPHY
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ner, 6-10.
The Emperor's New Clothes, ill. by Virginia Lee
Burton, Houghton, 7-10.
The Ugly Duckling, ill. by Johannes Larsen, Macmil-
lan, 6-9.
Arbuthnot, May Hill, compiler: Time for Fairy Tales, Scott, Foresman.
: Time for True Tales, Scott, Foresman.
Bannerman, Helen
Bemelmans, Ludwig
Little Black Sambo, ill. by the author, Lippincott, 4-7.
Madeline, ill. by the author. Viking, 6-9.
Madeline's Rescue, ill. by the author. Viking, 6-9.
Brown, Margaret Wise: The Runaway Bunny, ill. by Clement Hurd, Harper, 4-6.
Burton, Virginia Lee: Mike Mulligan and His Steam Shovel, ill by the author,
Houghton, 5-8.
: The Little House, ill. by the author, Houghton, 5-8.
Ets, Marie Hall: Pla}' With Me, ill. by the author. Viking, 3-6.
Mr. Penny, ill. by the author, Viking, 6-8.
Nine Days to Chiistmas, ill. by the author, Viking, 9-12.
Ask Mr. Bear, ill. by the author. Macmillan, 3-7.
Angus and the Ducks, ill. by the author, Doubleday, 4-7.
Wait for William, ill. by the author and R. A. Halberg, Hough-
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The Stoiy About Ping, ill. by Kurt Wiese, Viking, 5-8.
Flack, Marjorie
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Gag, Wanda: Millions of Cats, ill. by the author, Coward-McMann, 5-8.
: Tales from Giimni, trans, and ill. by Wanda Gag, Coward-McCann,
Gramatky, Hardie: Little Toot, ill. by the author, Putnam, 5-7.
Kipling, Rudyard: Just So Stones, ill. by Nicholas Mardvinoff, Garden City, 8-12.
Leaf, Munro: The Story oi Ferdinand, ill. by Robert Lawson, Viking, 5- .
LiPKiND, William: Finders Keepers, ill. by Nicholas Mordvinoff (Will and Nicholas),
Harcourt, 4-7.
McCloskey, Robert: MaJke Way ior Ducklings, ill. by the author. Viking, 4-8.
: One Morning in Maine, ill. by the author. Viking, 3-7.
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McDonald, Golden (pseud.): Littie Lost Lamb, ill. by Leonard Weisgard, Double-
day, 4-8.
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author, Vanguard, 5-10.
: On Beyond Zebra, ill. by the author, Random, 5-10.
Udry, Janice May: A Tree Is Nice, Harper, 4-7.
Ward, Lynd: The Biggest Bear, ill. by the author, Houghton, 5-8.
To a Yellow Crocus
Haze] Loomis
You are heart and sound of gray larks, singing,
Of melting snow, of freshets rushing by.
Gone is a night of winter's dying embers;
You are the sunburst in a leaden sky.
You are hope — a gentle pathway turning —
The first step — the faith that comes before;
Gold cups that rise like gleeful children,
Expectant, wait outside your door.
My door is open wide with wonder —
Do winter's scars need healing hands to save?
Then, when I see the crocus blooming,
I feel his sandal on the wa\ e.
Good Morning, Mrs. Romaie!
MabeJ Law Atkinson
GOOD morning, Mrs. Romaie,
• and the best to you! — Susan
Romaie.
Maurine, the second Mrs. Ro-
maie, was straightening the bottom
drawer of her husband's chiffonier
to make room for his freshlv ironed
shirts when she read this greeting
on the back of the framed picture
of his first wife she found beneath
the odds and ends hastily stored
away for further sorting. At the
sight of the beautiful face, she was
surprised to feel little twinges of
jealousy gnawing within her, twinges
she thought she had conquered en-
tirely before her marriage. She
stopped short and told herself
sternly, ''Maurine Romaie, vou must
eradicate these small jealousies. You
knew Robert loved Susan when you
married him. That was one reason
why you loved him, for deep in your
soul you knew he would likewise
love and cherish you. And you
know the surest way to keep Robert
close is to open your heart to
Susan, as well as to her children,
whom you love already. You can-
not, being you, settle for anything
less."
After a few long moments Mau-
rine had herself in hand and
emerged from her struggle tri-
umphantly, saying, ''You are far too
lovely, Susan, to be tucked away.
Robert, bless him, must have put
you in the drawer thinking I would
rather not have you looking at us."
She was smiling softly when a
new thought paled her cheeks,
''Suppose Robert, himself, did not
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want to be comparing us!" It was
only a small struggle this time, for
with calmness in her voice, she said
aloud, "You shall not be hidden
away, Susan. What matter if you
are more beautiful than I? What
if you were Robert's first love? He
has love enough for us both. He is
still yours, Susan, but he is mine
now, too." A faint smile curved
her lips as she continued, "Shall we
call him ours.^"
The greeting lured her to a sec-
ond reading and a third. Then she
looked long and earnestly into the
face of the first Mrs. Romaie. A
beautiful and strong face it was. In
it she read love and laughter, warm
friendliness and understanding. To
think Robert had chosen her after
such a lovely wife had passed away
a year before, leaving him with a
four-year-old daughter and a three-
year-old son!
"Good morning to you, Susan. I
do so want to be friends. Help me,^
will you?" Susan's serene smile re-
assured her as she placed the pic-!
ture on the dresser. "But why did
you write such a greeting? It must]
be your writing, for it isn't Rob-
ert's, and it does have vour name]
signed to it."
That night, after the children]
were asleep, Maurine asked, "Rob-
ert, why did Susan say good morn-|
ing to herself?"
Robert's eyes had a startled ex-
pression, as he looked up from the]
book he was reading, "Did you say]
what I heard, Maurine?"
"Yes, exactly what you heard. Dol
GOOD MORNING, MRS ROMAIE!
181
you know why Susan said good
morning and wished herself the
best?"
At his uncomprehending expres-
sion she arose and said, ''Come, I'll
show you. But tiptoe past the chil-
dren's room."
V\/^HEN the two stood in front
of the dresser, Maurine spoke,
and the twinges of jealousy were
but tiny electric rivers running up
her spine, "She is beautiful, Robert,
and so lovelv. But tell me whv she
wrote as she did on the back of her
picture."
Robert turned the picture over
and read the message. His eyes still
retained their bewildered look as he
answered, "That is Susan's writing.
Strange I hadn't noticed it was there
before. Guess I never looked at the
back. And if Mrs. Moore, our
housekeeper, ever did she said noth-
ing. She seemed to think it best
never to mention Susan. She never
knew how I longed to talk about
her. And she was not one to be a
teller of tales outside the homes
where she worked. I put the pic-
ture away the morning we were
married out of consideration for
you."
''Darling!" Maurine kissed his
forehead, then spoke softly, her eyes
glowing, '1 think I know the reason.
Perhaps it seemed a miracle to her,
too, that vou should choose her from
all the women you knew. Perhaps
she wrote what her heart was sing-
ing, that she was Mrs. Romaic. You
see my heart sings the same way. It
will always be a miracle, your choos-
ing me to take her place beside you.
Not her place, really, for always I
want you to keep a special place in
your heart just for her."
Robert kissed her gently. His
voice held overtones of reverence as
he spoke, 'There is plenty of room
left for you, my dear. I have
watched you, Maurine, in these
weeks since our marriage, watched
your struggle to overcome yourself
in truly taking Susan's place. I know
it hasn't been easy, but you have
managed it. Always you have been
able to conquer your natural little
jealousies or worries or imagined
worries, and kept sweet and smiling.
But don't try too hard, my dear, for
I love you for your few frailties, if
they can be called such. The chil-
dren adore vou. As I watch vou
caring for them tenderly, I choice
up a bit. How did such a good
thing happen to me, little Miracle
Mother? That is the name I have
chosen for you, darling."
"How lovely, Robert!" Her eyes
filled, "And I didn't know you had
noticed. I thought I had concealed
my little discouragements and let
only my thankfulness for our mar-
riage, our good marriage, shine
through. For my own sake, for my
own happiness, I must conquer my-
self and be the wife and mother I
desire to be, and make Susan a part
of her children's lives."
"You are beautiful, Maurine, with
your deep spirituality illuming your
countenance. How blessed I am in
having you! You give of vourself
so freely. You seem to truly love
little Mike and Francie."
"They are yours, you know, yours
and Susan's." Impulsively she
turned to the picture and said, "I
lo\e your babies, Susan, and your
Robert very, very much. You don't
mind, do you?"
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nnHE next night after Maiirine had
tucked the children in and was
telling them a bedtime story, Fran-
cie's eyes sparkled and she ex-
claimed, ''Why, there's Mommy!"
'Toil mean Mother," Michael
said gravely, indicating Maurine.
"No, I mean Mommy! There, on
our dresser! Her picture! That is
Mommy, Mike, but you don't re-
member her very well." She spoke
soothingly to her little brother, then
burst into tears, jumped out of bed,
and ran to the dresser where she
cried, "Oh, Mommy, I miss you!"
Quietly, Maurine gathered her in
her arms, and little Michael, too,
and explained gently, "I put the pic-
ture on 3^our dresser to make you
happy and to keep you remember-
ing your beautiful first mother. You
will always remember her, Francie,
and we must help Michael to know
her. She is still loving you, even
though she is with Heavenlv Father.
And she would want you to keep
on loving her."
Maurine rocked them until Mich-
ael fell asleep, then whispered to
Francie, "We better put him in his
little bed now."
"Let me look once more at
Mommy," Francie whispered, then
said sleepily, "Mother, I'm glad you
brought Mommy to our room. I
won't feel alone now with her smil-
ing at me. See, she's smiling at you,
too. That means she likes you. I
won't miss her too much any more.
You are our mother now and I love
you.
"I love you, too, Francie, very
much. The picture can always be
yours. I'm glad I have a little
daughter and a son."
A year sped swiftly, a year filled to
the brim with joys and little
sorrows; with laughter and a few
tears; with welcoming a new little
son and building a family held to-
gether by the cords of love and un-
selfishness. How precious to have
three children and Robert to love!
And Susan also! For through the
trying hours, her sweet understand-
ing face came more and more to
give her healing; and her cheerful,
"Good morning, Mrs. Romaic, and
the best to you," often gave the lift
she needed to go happily through
the days that did not have enough
hours to accomplish all the tasks to
be done.
"Francie is such a help, and little
Mike, too," she said gently to Susan
one dav. "And I'm keeping them
near to you. Francie is going to
look like vou, beautiful and gracious,
and Mike is so like our Robert. And
I hope you like my little Bobbie."
There were tears in Maurine's
eyes on the late August morning
when she stood before Susan's pic-
ture, after finishing tidying up the
room which belonged entirely to
Francie now; tears bright as dia-
monds, as she said, "Susan, your
little girl started school today. I
wish you could have seen her with
her hair in ringlets and her eyes
shining. She loved her pretty new
dress. I made her four new ones.
You should have seen her eyes as
she watched me sewing them. No,
it wasn't too much extra work, for
she took care of Bobbie like a regu-
lar little mother.
"Shall I let you in on a secret,
Susan? When Michael gets old
enough, I shall make him four new
shirts. His eyes were so wistfully
expectant as he asked, 'Mother, in
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one more year will you make me creased affection and attention,
four new, pretty dresses like Fran- When Robert brought friends home
cie's to start school with?' that I to dinner and found the house un-
smiled and answered, 'Yes, Michael, tidy and the meal not prepared, she
if you want me to then, I will/ " had despaired of ever measuring up
to Susan's efficiency, but her hus-
T T was two years and another little band's laughter and his help had
son later when Maurine, after taken the tragedy from the experi-
making Mike's bed, entered Fran- ence. His siege of pneumonia
cie's room to find the bed made brought her near the breaking point,
and the room in perfect order. She but it gave her a clearer perspective
looked earnestly in the face of Susan of how dear he was to her and his
and said happily, 'Tou are still very family. It was then that Susan's
much a part of us. This morning compassionate face had assured her
as he left for his first day at school, all would be well and the love be-
Michael said, 'I wish Mommy could tween them deepened,
see me now. She would think I Maurine felt Susan's eyes had an
have a pretty new shirt.' No, Susan, added glow of understanding the
I did not need to talk him out of morning she sat before her in
having me make him new little Francie's room with her third child,
dresses, for this summer he con- a baby daughter, in her arms,
fided, 1 guess I'll have you make me and spoke reverently, ''Oh, Susan,
four new shirts. Boys don't wear you should see her! How near to
dresses.' Such a charming little heaven she has brought us. Our
man he is, Susan! And baby Niel is Robert called me 'Little Miracle
adorable and has Robert's eyes and Mother' again after we returned
firm chin. Think of it, a daughter home from Sunday School and fast
and three sons already! Was ever a meeting yesterday. I hope you
woman so blessed!" know the joy we experienced. Why?
Time ceaselessly rolled on, and Because in Priesthood meeting,
the years wrought their miracles and Robert ordained Michael a deacon
brought their problems. There was and he passed the sacrament in
the time Michael boasted to his two Sunday School and in sacrament
brothers that he was wearing a suit meeting. (He has a new Scout
bought in a store, while theirs were uniform all ready and waiting.)
homemade. Mother-wise, Maurine "And, Susan, Robert blessed our
had let the matter drop when Niel baby. We named her after you.
had smiled angelically and answered. You don't mind, do you?"
"But Mother made ours/" and soon
the three were the best of pals T^HE baby was asleep in her arms,
again. The time Maurine found a so Maurine laid her on Fran-
sobbing Francie kissing her Mom- cie's bed, then again sat before
my's picture and saying, "Mother is Susan and mused thoughtfully: "She
too busy to hold me on her lap and is a clean, sweet, and beautiful girl,
kiss me any more." Susan, your little Francie. Fourteen!
Maurine had tiptoed away and Imagine! And bubbling over with
solved her problem by giving in- joy and laughter and charm. She
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was yours before she was mine, so
help me keep her always as sweet
as she is now."
Susan's eyes and her smile
seemed to say serenely, ''And she
was God's before she belonged to
me. The three of us, along with
Robert, should do all right."
Maurine picked up the portrait
and dusted it with her apron. When
a fleck or two of dust refused to
yield, she slipped the picture from
its frame to dust the inside of the
glass. As she did so a letter
dropped in her lap.
''One of Robert's I imagine," she
said as she picked it up. To her
surprise it was addressed: To the
Second Mrs. Romaie. She stared
incredulously then spoke, "Why,
the letter is for me!" Quickly she
opened the envelope, removed the
sheets and read rapidly, her eyes
fairly racing over the words. Pale
with emotion, she spoke in an awed
whisper, "Susan, you wrote this ten
years ago, less than a month before
your death." Robert had told Mau-
rine they had both known her days
were numbered for almost a year
before leukemia finally claimed her
life.
"How brave you Vv^ere, Susan!"
Maurine's voice was gentle, "And
how unselfish! No wonder you
seemed to leave the sweetness of
your spirit here in this home." Tears
of joy were flowing as Maurine re-
read the letter, slowly savoring every
word:
'T^O you, the second Mrs. Romaie, I am
'■ writing this. I leave in your keep-
ing my greatest treasures, my husband and
my children. They will love you. How
do I know? Because my Robert will
choose the best possible person to take
my place in the home and be a mother
to our Francie and little Michael. And
be assured he will love you.
You will have a more difficult task than
I have known, for you will have to weld
two families into one. How I shall love
you! If you should get discouraged, re- J
member I, too, have known discourage- 1
ment. Perhaps at times you will experi-
ence fleeting small jealousies because of
me, as I did because of Robert's mother,
wondering if I could ever measure up to
her. But they will pass, for Robert's
love is deep and tender and abiding.
Now, dear future mother of this home,
I say this to you in love and humility and
gratitude:
Here is my little Francie. Take her,
mold the pliant clay of her soul into a
lovely woman. Keep her as pure as the
lilies in canyon streams and guide her
into the temple, where she will be married
to a man likewise pure.
And here is little Michael. Tenderly
lead him to see the beauties of creation.
As he grows, teach him to know God and
to love the gospel and all people.
Finish the task I have begun. Robert
will help you, and our Father will assist
you both.
My Robert I leave you also. Enjoy all
of him, his deep voice, his laugh that is
music; explore the depths of his soul and
know the meaning of companionship.
I bequeath these treasures to you; and
someday may you and Robert, together,
return to me with our children.
May my greeting to you on the back
of this picture help you to accept each
day's challenge with a song in your heart.
I have a picture of you in my mind.
During the long months of knowing, I
have created an image of you. Shall I
tell you that you are beautiful, that the
beauty of your soul shines through your
features, and that I know you are lovely?
Shall I tell you your name? I am very
sure of it, for it is Mother.
So good morning, Mrs. Romaie, and
the best to you! — Susan.
lyrAURINE sat forgetful of time,
letting her being fill with peace.
Then she spoke softly and her words
were like a prayer: "Dear, dear
GOOD MORNING, MRS ROMAIE!
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Susan: Morning sings in my heart.
I will continue to love and cherish
your treasures . . . our treasures. . . .
And when the time comes, I hope
to send back to you, a daughter, a
mature woman innocent in wisdom;
a son who is a man, clean and pur-
poseful; and our Robert who will be
the Robert you knew, only magni-
fied.
"To think you thought of me,
the second Mrs. Romaic, even be-
fore you left us! Thank you, Susan!
Thank you!"
She put the picture back in its
frame and in its place on the dresser
and the precious letter in her pocket
to share with Robert later.
''Nearly time to prepare lunch,"
she said softly as she looked at sleep-
ing little Susie. 'Til lie down and
rest just five minutes/'
''TTUSH, Daddy!" It was Fran-
cie who held her finger to
her lips as her father came in at
noon. ''When I came from school,
I found Mother and Susie asleep in
my room. Tm getting lunch on for
us. Mike, Bobbie, and little Niel
will be coming soon."
Robert kissed her tenderly as he
said, "My little girl is growing into
a beautiful and thoughtful young
woman."
Quietly he entered the bedroom
and stood for a long moment look-
ing down at the two loved sleepers.
Gently he touched his small daugh-
ter's cheek and kissed Maurine
lightly as he whispered, "Little
Miracle Mother!"
His Art
Ghdvs Hesser Burnham
When I behold the sunset's flame
Reflected in the lake's calm face,
And know the hills' encircling arms
Protect with strong embrace
This tranquil scene, I feel the might
Of loving thoughts around my heart,
For God's great canvas spread for me
Insures my knowledge of his art.
Sixty Years Ago
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, March 1902
'For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
CLARA BARTON OF THE RED CROSS: It will be interesting to our readers
to learn that we ha\e seen and conversed with the world-famous Clara Barton, of the
National and International Red Cross. . . . Miss Barton's health is much improved
since last spring, when we visited her at her home in Glen Echo. ... At that time
she showed us all her jewels and badges of honor given by the great people of different
countries, in recognition of her grand services in times of great distress and calamities.
. . . Miss Barton is a quiet person, very unassuming, makes no pretentions to greatness
or honor and is reluctant to admit that she has done anything worthy of such praise
and commendation. . . . Her only object . . . has been to help suffering humanity.
— Editorial
VISITS BY THE GENERAL BOARD OF RELIEF SOCIETY: In the society
official visits are made by at least two members of the General Board from time to time
to conferences of the society in different localities, and uniform instruction is given,
so that all may work in harmony . . . each stake receiving at least one or two visits a
year, even though the distance is great. During the year 1899 the branches of the
society in England, Scotland and Whales were visited, and more recently the Scandi-
navian countries have been visited by sisters from Utah. Mrs. Lucy B. Young was
appointed while residing temporarily in Germany to preside over the branches in that
country and also in Switzerland. The branches in the Sandwich Islands are also pre-
sided over by a president from Utah.
— Official Report
WORK OF WOMEN
It is a happy faculty
Of women far and wide.
To turn a cot or palace
Into something else beside;
Where brothers, sons and husbands
With willing footsteps come,
A place of rest where love abounds,
A perfect kingdom — home.
ALPINE STAKE RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE: The stake officers were
all present and all the presidents of the wards. . . . President Standring welcomed the
sisters and was pleased to see so many present. President Sarah Foutz reported Pleasant
Grove Ward. The sisters are laying up wheat and relieving the poor . . . were united
in their labors. President Martha Woolley reported Linden. They are a small ward with
sixt}'-one members. . . . President Isadora Beck reported Manila. They are all united
and have good meetings. Visit the sick and help the poor. American Fork First
Ward reported by President Orpha Robinson. They had bought five tons of coal for
the poor. . . .
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
jyi RS. MATTIE C. SANFORD,
eighty-three years old and a
member of the Emerson Ward Re-
hef Society, Salt Lake City, won an
award just before Christmas class-
ifying her as the top international
woman in stereo (three-dimension-
al) photography. Eight men have
received the same award, presented
through the Photographic Society
of America, the largest photographic
association in the world and inter-
national in scope. Mrs. Sanford is
the association's official Utah rep-
resentative and attends every nation-
al convention. She took up photog-
raphy as a hobby when she retired
from schoolteaching. She still tutors
many pupils.
JOAN SUTHERLAND, thirty-
five-year-old Australian soprano,
made her debut at the Metropolitan
Opera House, November 26, 1961,
in Lucia di Lammermoor. Seats
sold at $25 each. The entire audi-
ence rose and shouted acclaim in
the most sensational debut in dec-
ades. Miss Sutherland made a
record before Christmas, singing in
The Messiah with the London
Symphony and Chorus. ''Her soar-
ing soprano . . . makes the rendition
especially memorable,'' wrote one
critic. Her very recent recording of
Lucia has been called ''the best ever
made."
yiRGINIA TANNER'S Chil-
dren's Dance Theatre group,
of Salt Lake City, Utah, which won
national recognition last summer
when appearing in Massachusetts
and New York Citv, will dance in
Seattle, Washington, next spring, in
connection with its World Fair.
The Dance League of the Seattle
Symphony Orchestra made the con-
tract with them. Miss Tanner has
been asked to present at least one
number which reflects some aspect
of Mormon philosophy or history.
jyj RS. ANNE FREMANTLE is a
British, Oxford-educated nov-
elist, critic, and biographer. She
now lives in the United States and
is author of Desert Calhng.
A
number of women on the inter-
national scene who are cham-
pions in various sports and are also
noted for their beauty and their
culture are: Francine Breaud, French
ski champion; Khuko Inoue, Japa-
nese champion horsewoman; Molly
Wallace, red-ribbon Dublin horse-
show winner; Gloria Barcenas, top
golfer in Spain, where women have
only recently been permitted to
share the links; Countess Jacqueline
de Fels, French shooting expert;
Italian Princess, Doris Pignatelli,
water skiing prize winner; Lori Mill-
er, of California, American skier.
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EDITORIAL
VOL 49
MARCH 1962
NO. 3
''We Must Cherish One Another''
This institution is a good one. . . . We must eherish one another, x^atch over one
another, and gain instruction, that we may all sit down in Heaven together (Lucy
Mack Smith).
r\N the 24th of March in the
year 1842, the mother of the
Prophet Joseph Smith addressed the
sisters present at the second meeting
of Rehef Society. The organization
was one week old, but its purposes
and prospects were aheadv well ad-
vanced, and a realization of its sa-
cred mission was apparent in the
words and in the work of those
sisters who had been blessed to be-
gin the weaving of a long enduring
and radiant tapestry.
How well Mother Lucy Smith
understood the basic purpose, when
she said "that we may all sit down
in Heaven together." The sisters
seemed to know that Relief Society
was no ordinary organization, for
the Prophet had called them to-
gether ''after a pattern of the Priest-
hood." Thus called, the members
of the first Relief Society turned
their busy hands to the nearest
practical needs, and their hearts to
the cherishing of one another.
For centuries women had needed
an organization whereby their yearn-
ings for rendering service might be
strengthened and multiplied by
united effort. In the times of the
former days upon the earth, there
were many women, such as those
spoken of in the First Epistle to
Timothy, who "brought up children
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. . . lodged strangers . . . relieved the
afflicted . . . diligently followed
every good work." There was the
beloved Dorcas who lived in the citv
of Joppa and made clothing for the
poor, a woman who was "full of
good works and almsdeeds which
she did." In Rome there were
Phebe and Priscilla who opened
their homes to the meetings of the
saints, and in Thyatira, there was
Lydia, a seller of purple, "whose
heart the Lord opened." These wom-
en were of the lineage of devotion
which has characterized noble
women of all ages.
Rejoicing in their opportunities
for service in the restored Church,
the women of Kirtland and Far
West and Nauvoo observed with
diligence each opportunity to make
an offering for the welfare of the
Church. Some offerings were small
— a pound of butter for the poor,
a bushel of corn for the needv, red
yarn for making mittens. Others
opened their homes to orphaned
children, to helpless ones among the
aged, to converts without means.
To those who longed for a wider
field of service, for growth and de-
velopment through association with
their sisters, the organization of Re-
lief Society on March 17, I842, came
as the fulfillment of a great desire —
EDITORIAL 1?9
as the wide doors opened upon their and surged in flood tide to the sea,
future. Then a woman might say was compared by the first President
in full truth, "Now is my hand made of Relief Society to the new organ-
strong and my arm extended." ization of women.
The prints of those footsteps ^nd now, one hundred and
along the streets of Nauvoo on that ^^^^y years beyond that March
springtime day one hundred and ^^Y ^" Nauvoo, the world-wide
twenty years ago have never ceased sisterhood, the circle of chanty and
/ -^ . . ° . .1 . £ companionship, is known tor good
to set a pattern in the lourney ot i • ,.1 t. j j j r 1.
S J Ml £ irn . works m three hundred and torty-
women toward earthly tulhllment • i . . i crF- • t.u
, . , \. c eight stakes of Zion — in more than
and eternal progress; those faces, ^^^ ^^^^^^^^^ ^^^^^ _ .^ ^^^^.
glowing with purpose and promise, ^^^^^ ^^ ^.^^.^^^ ^^^^^1^^^ ^^^^^^_
were so radiant that a lasting ]oy ^^^ ^^^ ^^,^^1^
now shines upon the faces of thou- ^^. ^his time and always, we re-
sands of Relief Society women in n,ember that joy and service are one,
many lands. Those voices which that deep comfort and fulfillment
sang "The Spirit of God Like a Fire come to us through following the
Is Burning" were, in their intent and ^yords of the Savior which he spoke
spirit, the lineal progenitors of voic- in Nazareth of Galilee: "He hath
es raised by the Singing Mothers of sent me to heal the brokenhearted
these latter days. On that spring- ... to set at liberty them that are
time day, in that distant year, the bruised" (Luke 4:8).
great river that flowed past Nauvoo —V. P. C.
Christine H. Robinson Released From the
General Board of Relief Society
IT is with a sense of loss that the General Board of Relief Society an-
nounces the release of Christine H. Robinson from the General Board
as of January 31, 1962. This release was necessitated by her recent appoint-
ment by the First Presidency to serve as a member of the Adult Correlation
Committee of the Church Co-ordinating Council.
Sister Robinson was appointed to the General Board of Relief Society
on May 26, 1948. At the time of this appointment she had had fifteen
years of experience in Relief Society work in both ward and stake organiza-
tions, which, with her great leadership ability and creative talents have
enabled her to give valuable service as a member of the General Board.
Sister Robinson has given devoted service on many General Board
committees, particularly to the theology, work meeting, convention, con-
ference, and visiting teacher committees, and for the past six years she has
written the visiting teacher messages. She wrote the home management
discussions "The Art of Homemaking" for 1950-51. She also prepared
the script for the visiting teacher film "Unto the Least of These." Her
190 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MARCH 1962
humility, spirituality, creativity, and discriminating taste have been valu-
able in forwarding the work of the General Board among the Relief So-
cieties throughout the world.
Sister Robinson has also served as a representative of the General
Board on many community-sponsored organizations. She is at present
serving as an individual on the boards of the Community Service Council
and the United Fund, and is first vice-president of Traveler's Aid.
Although the loss of the work of Sister Robinson will be great, it is
realized that her outstanding capabilities will be of enduring worth as she
assumes the new calling on the Church Co-ordinating Council. The love
and respect and best wishes of not only the members of the General
Board but also the sisters throughout the Church are extended to Chris-
tine Hinckley Robinson as she leaves the Relief Society General Board
for this new, important assignment.
TO THE FIELD
Index for 1961 Relief Society Magazine
Available
/^OPIES of the 1961 index of The Reliei Society Magazine are available
and may be ordered from the General Board of Relief Society, 76
North Main Street, Salt Lake City 11, Utah. The price is twenty cents,
including postage.
Relief Society officers and members who wish to have their 1961
issues of The ReUei Society Magazine bound may do so through The
Deseret News Press, 33 Richards Street, Salt Lake City 1, Utah. (See
advertisement on page 231.) The cost for binding the twelve issues in a
permanent cloth binding is $2.75, leather $4.20, including the index. It
is recommended that wards and stakes have one volume of the 1961
Magazines bound for preservation in ward and stake Relief Society libraries.
T
THE RED CROSS - A UNIVERSAL SYMBOL
Fred A. Bantz
Volunteer National Co-Chairman for Members and Funds
HE Red Cross is perhaps the most nearly universal of all lay symbols —
the one most welcomed by and recognized by all mankind.
In every section of the Nation, in every corner of the world, the Red
Cross stands for neighborly help wherever there is human need.
For United States servicemen, servicewomen, and their families, be-
set by problems resulting from separation, the Red Cross provides friendly
counsel and guidance and, in emergencies, rapid communication and
financial assistance. It performs these acts by direct mandate of its Con-
gressional charter.
For disaster sufferers, also by charter mandate, the Red Cross is the
source of food, shelter, clothing, medical and nursing care, and help in re-
turning to their pre-disaster way of life.
For the ill and injured, the Red Cross collects more than 2,500,000
pints of blood a year; distributes most of it to hospitals, and uses the rest
also for the benefit of mankind — by making blood products available
to hospitals and health agencies, and for research into new uses of blood.
To help keep Americans safe and healthy, the Red Cross provides
safety and home nursing instruction. Last year it trained young people
and adults who earned over 3,000,000 certificates by completing its courses
in first aid, small craft, and water safety, care of the sick and injured, and
mother and baby care.
The Red Cross provides opportunities for young people in serving
with adults in its programs, and thereby helps train the nation's youth for
tomorrow's leadership. Some 2,000,000 volunteers of all ages participate
in Red Cross services.
By working with its sister societies in other lands, the American Red
Cross helps meet human needs throughout the world.
Support of the Red Cross, with money, volunteer service, and dona-
tions of blood, will give you a sense of participation in its great work.
Announcing the Special April Short Story Issue
The April 1962 issue of The Relief Society Magazine will be the special
short story number, with four outstanding short stories being presented.
Look for these stories in April :
'The Mischief Makers," by Dorothy Clapp Robinson
'Timber," by Ilene H. Kingsbury
"A Name Before the Lord," by Ellen Taylor Hazard
*T'he Loving Faces," by Betty Lou Martin
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So Great the Calling
Betty Lou Martin
'T^HE old model sedan droxe slowly with her arms outstretched toward «
down the gravel road. The her mother, "I didn't mean to/' i
tires made a crunching sound on Eleanor knelt down beside the
the loose gravel. Eleanor Coleman child. ''Now wait just a minute,
was thoughtful as she maneuvered What's the matter here?" Eleanor
the car along, and the quiet beauty wiped the child's tear-stained face,
of the fall day did not even pene- "I'll tell you what's the matter."
trate her thoughts. Jess marched out of the house. "She
Why did they have to ask Chris? picked up your rosebud vase and
she thought. There are so many threw it, and she broke it all to
things that we need to do now, and pieces."
besides our children are so young. ''I didn't mean to. Mother,"
Why, Jess is only ten, Sherri eight, Barbara sobbed.
Barbara five, and the twins two. Knowing her mischievous ten-year-
Eleanor frowned. Chris is too old, Eleanor surmised that Jess had
young to be a bisrhop. He will just done something to provoke the in- J
have to tell them no. She knew cident. ''All right, Jess, I know that
that Chris felt very humble at being Barbara didn't break the vase just
asked to fulfill such a vital position for the fun of it. What did you do
in the Church, and that he fully to her?"
realized the weight that would be After Eleanor had straightened
put upon his shoulders. the situation out between the ehil-
Chris had known from the begin- dren, she began preparing supper,
ning that Eleanor was against it, Chris would be home early, and
and that if he accepted the calling then he had to return to the store
that it would be without her con- to do some extra work for his em-
sent, ployer, Mr. Harrington.
Once again Eleanor reviewed her Before Chris left the house that
thoughts as she drove in front of night he turned to Eleanor, "Elea-
their white frame house. It was a nor, I've got to come to a decision
small house, with a white picket about being bishop. You know
fence in front of it. The yard was how I feel about it, dear, but I don't
neat, but Eleanor just hadn't found want to do anything that will dis-
the time to plant the flowers that please you. After all, I'll need your
she wanted. The house itself would help and support very much in this
soon need another coat of paint, and calling. I'll have to rely upon you a
they needed to add another bed- great deal." Chris stopped speak-
room. Chris was planning to do ing and looked at his pretty, dark-
that himself in the spring. Eleanor haired wife.
sighed. It was difficult enough to "You know very well how I feel
get things accomplished without about it, Chris. I told you the other
Chris taking on more responsibility, night. I think that you are too
"Mother, Mother!" Barbara ran young. Later on, when we're older.
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so GREAT THE CALLING 193
Fd say fine, but right now I just Eleanor looked about her. The
can't. There are so many things dishes that she had left in the sink
that we need for the children and the night before had been done and
the house needs fixing. I just can't carefully put away. She felt a tinge
see you tying yourself down at this of guilt surge through her. She knew
time." Eleanor turned her back on that Chris worked extra hard, too,
Chris, and she heard him quietly and that at a time like this, she
close the front door. should not burden him with extra
Eleanor scraped the supper dishes problems,
and put them in the sink, and then It was very difficult to concen-
leaning upon the cupboard, she trate on her work that day. Barbara
bent her head and sobbed. She and the twins seemed to get on
didn't know why she felt so antag- Eleanor's nerves; usually they didn't
onistic toward Chris' becoming a bother her at all even at their
bishop; she just did. They had noisiest. Finally, in desperation, she
worked so hard and tried to save as reached for the telephone. ''Hello,
best they could, but it had been one Mother, would you mind taking the
thing after another. First Jess had children for a couple of hours? I
to have his appendix removed; then have some things that I want to do,
Chris was injured on the job; Sher- and I just can't see taking them
rie had to have her tonsils out; and with me."
now this. Suddenly the whole or- ''Of course, dear," was the warm
deal seemed to close in upon her, replv. 'Tm going to bake some
and for the first time since she cookies this afternoon, and the chil-
could remember, exhausted, she left dren can help me."
the supper dishes in the sink, put ''Oh, you don't know what you're
the children to bed, and then retired in for, Mother," Eleanor comment-
herself. She knew that Chris would ed, shaking her head,
be disappointed that she hadn't 'Tes, I do, dear, and I think that
waited up for him. I'm going to enjoy it." Eleanor's
mother added, "Is something wrong,
nPHE next thing that Eleanor re- Eleanor? You don't seem to be
membered, she heard Jess and yourself."
Sherrie tip-toeing about the kitchen. "Nothing's wrong, Mother. It's
"My goodness, what time is it?" just that I'm a little tired. We have
she called as she hurriedly jumped been so busy lately."
out of bed. "Well, it will do you good to
"It's almost time to leave for leave the children with me for a
school," Sherrie replied, uncon- couple of hours. Twin boys are
cerned. "Daddy told us to be very enough to make anyone tired."
quiet and not to wake you up." Eleanor spent the first hour look-
"I'm sorry, Mom," Jess added. "I ing at material for a new dress for
didn't think that we were being too each of the girls, and then she
noisy. The twins are still asleep, browsed around the dress shops
and Barbara has had her breakfast, looking at the new styles, knowing
Daddy fixed our breakfast for us very well that she could not afford
just before he left for work." a new dress. Slowly the tension of
194 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MARCH 1962
the jxist few days seemed to leave, Even though our children were
and she began to feel more relaxed young, we all worked together and
onee again. She even enjoyed the helped one another. We made a
brisk, fresh air of the golden fall game of thinking of ways we could
day. help Brother Carter out to make his
position just a little lighter. The
/^N the way back to her mother's children did things in the home that
house, Eleanor decided to stop ordinarily would have been left for
at the supermarket along the way. their daddy to do, and together we
As she was wheeling her cart down all progressed and were rewarded
the aisle, she saw Sister Carter greatly. I sometimes wish that we
walking toward her. could go back to that time in our
"My, aren't these stores lovely, lives, but then there isn't any good
Eleanor? My goodness, we certain- in wishing for that. Time moves
ly have a variety of things to pick along too swiftly." Sister Carter
from nowadays." Sister Carter seemed to be deep in her own
smiled. '1 don't see you doing your thoughts,
shopping here very often." ''I guess that you do get out of it
''No, I just don't have the time just what you put into it," Eleanor
to drive clear over here too often, said more for her own benefit than
with the children and all that I for Sister Carter's,
have to do, Sister Carter." Eleanor 'That's very true, Eleanor. When
paused. ''How is everything with a bishop has good counselors and
you and Brother Carter?" the members of a ward really get
"Oh, just fine, dear. We both behind them and support them,
keep very busy, but happily so. there just isn't any limit to what
Brother Carter does so enjoy his they can do." Sister Carter glanced
new position in the high council of ^t her watch. "Oh, my goodness,
the stake." Sister Carter went on j didn't realize what time it is.
talkmg. "I suppose now that Bishop B.^^her Carter is sitting out in the
Sloane is moving they will be re- ^^^ ^^•^- f^^ ^^ j^e will think
organizing the ward that I got lost." Sister Carter called
Elinor panicked momentarily, ^^^^ ^^ ^^ .j^,^ ^^^^ ^.^^
and then sained her composure. . n . , „
«\/ T 1.1- 1. 1.1- -n T J >i. talkine to you.
Yes, I guess that they will. I don t ,,j, ^ •: i ^ n •
\u -u' -u L-u i.\-u -u I ve enioyed talking to you, too,
envy the bishop that they choose, <^. ^ ^ \ ^ r-i n i i.
however" Sister Carter, Eleanor called to
"Why, my dear?" Sister Carter ^he lovely, soft-voiced lady. ';just
seemed surprised. "It's the most how much you 11 never truly realize,
satisfying experience any person can Eleanor adaed to nerselt.
ever ask for. My husband was bish-
op years ago when we were just X^^ anguish of the past few days
rearing our family. I know that the was forgotten, as Eleanor drove
Lord blessed us and helped us. I toward her mother's home to get
believe that we were more happy her children. Now she felt that she
and contented at that period of our could plan for their future. She
lives than we ever have been since, knew how very much Chris would
so GREAT THE CALLING
195
need her help to sustain him, and
she promised herself then that she
would do all that she could to be an
asset to him.
The children's constant chattering
did not bother her at all that night
as she prepared Chris' favorite dish-
es. She even found herself hum-
ming as she went about her tasks
in the kitchen.
"Mother," Barbara inquired,
''how come we are going to eat in
the dining room tonight?"
Jess interrupted, ''Yes, and how
come we are going to use your best
silverware and dishes?"
"Yes, and we never use your best
tablecloth except at Christmastime,"
Barbara added. "Something funny
is going on around here."
Eleanor couldn't help smiling.
What an inquisitive lot of children
she had. "It is a surprise for
Daddy."
"I don't care what the surprise is."
Jess eyed the big chocolate cake on
the table. "I just want a great big
piece of this cake, after I have some
fried chicken, that is."
"That you shall have, my young
man, if you will help Mother get
the children ready for supper." Elea-
nor playfully ruffled Jess' hair.
"Barbara, you can help me here in
the kitchen, okay?"
When dinner was ready, Eleanor
put on a fresh print dress, combed
her black hair, and lightly touched
her lips with lipstick. She was ex-
cited and happy. Her cheeks had
a rosy glow.
That night when Chris entered
his home, soft candlelight surround-
ed him, and soft music played in the
background. In one fleeting glance
he took in his surroundings, and
then his eyes rested upon Eleanor.
"What's the occasion?" He couldn't
hide the surprise upon his face. "Are
we expecting company for supper?"
Eleanor took her husband to one
side, "Chris, I feel that I owe you
an apology for acting the way that
I have. I'm very pleased that the
Lord wants you for his work. I
know that I behaved very badly, and
well — this is just my way of show-
ing you how wrong I was." There
were tears glistening in Eleanor's
eyes.
Chris put his arms about his wife.
"Don't think I don't understand
what you were going through. I
just know that everything will turn
out fine. I didn't want to turn
down such a wonderful calling for
your sake and the children's sake.
I know that the Lord will guide us
and bless us."
"I know it, too, Chris," Eleanor
said, squeezing her husband's hand.
"With you by my side, Eleanor,
I feel even more assured. I'm so
thankful for you." Chris' expres-
sion showed his humility and love.
Jess marched into the room, stood
before his parents, and placed his
hands upon his hips. "What we
want to know is, what's the sur-
prise for Daddy? No one seems to
know around here."
"Yes, they do, dear. Your father
and I know, and someday soon we
will tell you children."
"Oh," Jess said, satisfied with his
mother's answer. "Can't we eat
now, Mom? That chocolate cake
sure does look good, and I'm too
hungry to care about anybody's sur-
prise."
Eleanor and Chris laughed as
they clasped hands and together
walked into the dining room to join
their children at the table.
About Grandmothers
Linnie F. Robinson
LAST summer I was at a lovely creeps into her arms. This one, just
garden party, and by the five, is an exquisite child, almost too
time the delicious food was beautiful, and very sensitive. On one
all eaten and everyone had met occasion I heard her say to her
ever}^one else and had chatted to- grandmother, ''Sometimes when
gether, we were in a mood for music. Mommy is cross I love you best."
The hostess asked her young daugh- And I heard my friend answer, ''I
ter to play some records of familiar know, dear, that is just the way I
songs and lead the group in singing felt when I was about your age, but
together. Accordingly, the daughter I think you are growing up beau-
complied, but in the first song tifully, just like a little lady, and I
(which must have been her very think you do everything your mother
first try out-of-doors), her voice wishes, and you get better every
sounded thin, as did the voices of year. I can see that before long
the others, which were also a bit Mommy won't even need to get
too far away for best results. She cross ever, will she, love?"
began to waver and looked rather She kissed the child's forehead,
uncertain about going on. The and the little one was healed of her
mother, who is not an accomplished wound whether real or imaginary,
singer herself, stood perfectly still and because of the grandmother's
and smilingly expected her daughter words, she felt better towards her-
to hang on with her job; but the self and acted like a little lady all
grandmother, with the priority of evening.
age, moved out of the crowd nearer As we were leaving I heard the
to the grandchild's side and joined child's mother say to my friend,
her own voice with the granddaugh- ''Haven't the children been sweet?
ter's, as if it were something they Before you came I spoke sharply to
did all the time. Tlie granddaughter Sistie -— I was nervous — I wish I
rallied immediately, and the singing wouldn't. She is such a good little
went off famously. But at the end girl — as they all are."
of the singing, I saw the grand- My friend said: "I think you
daughter squeeze her grandmother's surely do well, my dear. It looks as
hand, and I saw the smile the grand- if you get closer to your children
daughter received — there was per- all the time. Remember to breathe
feet understanding between them. a little prayer when you get nervous
I have another dear friend who or worried, and you will see how
has a number of granddaughters, calm you can remain."
small and large, each one distinctly Another time, a petulant young
different but equally lovely. I am teenager, wanting complete inde-
often invited to her daughter's home pendence, told my friend that she
with her when they are having could hardly stand to practice any
guests. Always there is one who more and was going to quit. Her
comes to my friend for love and grandmother said, "You know, my
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dear, that is the way I felt when I
was your age, and I began to have
tantrums — something they say I
had never had as a baby, and my
mother let me quit. She simply
said *Tes/' You can't know the
hundreds of times I have wished
that she had somehow found a way
to have kept me at it. At least that
is how I have felt since I grew old
enough to know that those things
I was eager to do didn't really count
at all. I have met many others who
are bitter about things they quit that
would mean so much in their homes
today and in everyday life. I some-
how hope you will be able to see
better than I could at your age. I
have been so proud of you."
T ATER on that day, the teen-
ager's mother asked her to help
accompany a distinguished and
beautiful singer who was there and
had agreed to sing. The daughter
picked up her violin and played
almost professionally well, and with
such feeling for the singer's every
variation that she said she wished
she had her two accompanists to
take with her everywhere she went.
I saw the teenage girl flush with
pride and look at her grandmother.
I think the girl saw for the first time
the pleasure in her mother's and
grandmother's faces.
And then I thought of my own
grandmother, the one who lived up
through the orchard from us, if you
took the short cut, which I always
did. I never knew, I ran so fast,
if my feet touched the ground or
not. I marvel as I look back on those
days that she was never cross with
me. And then I always ran so fast
and fell pell-mell against her door
— I marvel that she always opened
it so quickly. I was so welcome at
her home. I never thought to ques-
tion that. I never thought about
the fact that she was such a little
grandmother, and her great front
door was heavy to swing, or that
there were times when she must
have been busy or very tired. It
amazes me, too, that she never hur-
ried me home.
During school days it was quite
late when I got there, and some-
times my parents were too busy to
notice I was missing, but grand-
mother never sent me home until I
wanted to go or my parents called
my name.
Grandmother visited with me. It
is queer how she always had a book
ready for me to read. She used to
make some remark about the very
kernel of the book, and then rumi-
nate about some question half to
herself and half to me, and I would
be off to explore it myself.
It was odd that she always had
gingerbread cookies on hand, since
she did not eat things like that, at
all. And strange that she had time
to teach me, in the summer, all
there was to know about her beau-
tiful flower garden. I remember
kneeling with her to plant some
bulbs among the showers of bleed-
ing hearts — I remember the damp-
ness and the coolness of junipers
with violets at their feet, and the
hummingbird that nested in that
garden. Strange that grandmother
knew about teenage problems, al-
though no one called them so then,
and she knew how to banish them,
too.
What would a child do without a
grandmother?
Do You Want to Increase Relief
Society Attendance?
Phoenix Stake, Capitol Ward Children Lead the Way
With Volunteer Teachers
Margaref Fitzpatrfck
MARKING the completion of science, and art, as well as storytime,
its first year, Phoenix Stake, rhythm, and more varied handicraft.
Capitol Ward Junior Relief Almost immediately the rowdi-
Society is 'an unequivocal success," ness typical of ''nursery time" disap-
according to Relief Society Presi- peared. With an organized teacher
dent Alice Rhotan, and co-ordina- in charge, prepared and well sup-
tor Margaret Fitzpatrick. ''The plied with materials, the youngsters
children get their mothers out of settled down to being constructi\'e
bed in the wee hours of Relief So- and creative, and thoroughly to en-
ciety day so that they won't miss joy themselves. They were no
their own classes!" And, if for some longer helpless children dragged
reason, a mother is unable to make away from mother and deposited
it, the matter becomes a pint-sized willy-nilly in a nursery to cry and
tragedy, with the youngsters assur- fret. Indeed, they have become
ing their teacher on the next occas- junior members of a real organiza-
ion, "It wasn't my fault — I really tion who are proud of their mem-
wanted to come." bership, and, reversing the usual
The Relief Society nursery is a order, insist on bringing mother to
program to insure that preschool Relief Society, with prodding re-
children of Relief Society mothers marks, such as, "Aren't you ready
have a planned program of their yet.^"
own, instead of merely being at- Success of the program in Capitol
tended by baby sitters. The nurs- Ward can be attributed to the
ery became a reality in Capitol wholehearted moral and financial
Ward last September. support given it by Relief Society.
Mothers were asked to volunteer The first thing the Relief Society
to teach this class, each for a four- did was to organize a birthday pres-
week period. In the beginning the ent party which resulted in a new
activities included an opening record player, records, children's
prayer, a hymn, a fun song, a flan- books, coloring books, crayons,
nel board story, finger plays, a snack, paste, paper and scissors, and play
participation in a handicraft, a nap, dough.
marching to and playing in a rhythm But that was only the beginning,
band, a read-aloud story, and a clos- Not having to pay a baby sitter,
ing prayer. Later, this program was Capitol Ward diverted such monies
to broaden to include science, social towards additional weekly supplies.
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including such things as flour, salt,
butter, eggs, popcorn, food coloring,
and contact paper, as well as basic
brushes, construction paper, corks,
and pipe cleaners.
A NOTHER important factor was
the contribution by mothers
of materials ordinarily discarded:
spools, cartons, felt, nylon stockings,
odds and ends of fabrics, pie tins,
walnut shells, buttons, bits of yarn,
feathers, all kinds of small boxes,
ribbons, toothpicks, fancy paper,
cards, and wooden ice cream spoons.
"In fact," says Sister Rhotan, *'no
Relief Society child would allow his
or her mother to throw anything
away."
All things, no matter how insig-
nificant, had a use, the children
knew. Egg cartons and toothpicks
could be transformed into caterpil-
lars to be painted with tongue-be-
tween-teeth concentration. Salt box-
es and construction paper became
totem poles, windmills, and light-
houses. Bags became — with a
snip or two — crowns, helmets, caps,
guided missiles. Milk cartons could
be made into flower baskets and
ship bases. Walnut shells, with a
snip of tissue paper for sails, could
be used for skimming water in pails,
and, with a bit of felt, could be
changed into turtles.
Soon the Relief Society nursery
was functioning as a kindergarten
education. Class time was divided
into six separate activity periods:
storytime, science, social science, art,
rhythm, and handicraft, and in-
cluded opening and closing prayer
— plus a snack. Each period was
sandwiched between brief physical
action games.
Within this framework, the teach-
er used the flannel board, black-
board, pad sketches, and puppets in
dramatizing kindergarten level, as
well as Bible and Book of Mormon
stories.
In science, for example, the nurs-
ery not only dealt with the story of
weather and missile projection, but
when it came to current events and
interplanetary exploration, they did
it in this fashion, the teacher had
the children put self-made helmets
over their heads and balloon pro-
jected paper missiles in their hands,
and then took them on an imagi-
nary journey to several other worlds
in the galaxy.
Social science pivoted about home
and community life, and the activi-
ties ranged from group baking, corn
popping, clay making, to group
project painting and story dramatiza-
tion.
In art, the children potato and
stick printed and brush painted.
This coming year, finger painting
and spatter painting will be added.
Handicraft included clay model-
ing, pipe cleaner projects, standups,
button people, paper dolls, boats,
peg art, three-dimensional paper
work, as well as hand puppets, flow-
ers, parachutes and cork, spool, and
felt toys, Indian headdresses, hel-
mets, flower baskets, zoo cages, pin
wheels, and many other articles.
"C^OR rhythm activities, the record
player was a boon and was used,
along with the rhythm band, for co-
ordination games and folk dancing.
Capitol Ward found that the
volunteer system worked admirably,
each teacher preparing and carrying
out a full program. However, when
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PHOENIX STAKE, CAPITOL WARD RELIEF SOCIETY NURSERY
Left to right: Shelley Russell; Barbara Archer; Julie Whitefield; Joe Marshall;
Celeste Fitzpatrick; nursery leader Anne Wilson; Darrell Shumway; David Wolfe;
Melodee Parker; Kevin Shumway.
one mother volunteered on a full-
time basis, it was found the chil-
dren gained in a sense of security
and permanency.
In this case, it was Sister Anne
Wilson who spoke about the dif-
ference between the time before and
after the planned nursery. ''Like all
mothers, I have been called on
occasionally to baby sit in various
wards and, like most mothers, have
come out of these sessions exhaust-
ed, frustrated, distressed by a sense
of inadequacy. In spite of im-
provised programs, including man-
ual skills such as dancing, skipping,
even simple acrobatics, storytelling,
game playing, and singing, again, like
most mothers, I found the children
almost uncontrollable, some dread-
ing the time, others being resentful
and coming to the nursery to let the]
steam out of their systems, wornout]
and miserable.
''But now these youngsters look!
forward to Relief Society day, and
feel a love for the organization and
respect for the very room they work!
in. From here, surely will come]
future dedicated Relief Society]
members and interested husbands.'
The success of the nursery is duel
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primarily to two factors: First the
willingness of Relief Society to sup-
ply the necessary materials and to
give financial support. Without
this, it would have been hard to
have anything but a primitive pro-
gram. And second, the enthusiasm
generated by the Relief Society
president and co-ordinator and their
wholehearted moral support.
All the things that appeared as if
by magic, and that seemed to hap-
pen so effortlessly, were the result of
their combined labors — the arrival
of supplies, the actual buying of
needed items, the regularly antici-
pated snack.
President Rhotan assisted and
upheld the program, always making
sure that the necessary speaking time
was allotted our liaison officer.
''Tliat's how I always thought of
Sister Fitzpatrick," President Rho-
tan said. ''It was she who gave the
enthusiastic talks that spurred the
sisters to bring supplies, and the
children love her as the good pro-
vider, for it was she who scurried
back and forth each week with the
good things of life — punch and
cookies. That was a high spot in
the day's activities and cannot be
minimized. The Relief Societv even
saw to it that there were second
helpings."
And those weekly supplies! The
cellophane paper, the glue, the bal-
loons and contact paper, the flour,
the fish sinkers, whatever we asked
for, it was Sister Rhotan who went
shopping for us and saw to it that
it was delivered in time to be ready
for classwork.
What do the children themselves
say about the Relief Society nurs-
ery? "It's more fun than anything
else! Here you get to do things."
And the mothers? They couldn't
wish a better thing for every other
ward.
Ownership Claim
Maude Rubin
This place was mine — I bought it, held the deed
To house and lot, to willow tree and roses . . .
But all the legal steps have still not freed
The title clearly, for there's one who poses,
Slim and business-like upon the roof —
Who struts in confidence that he's the owner;
Although he holds no papers, vocal proof
Asserts possessor's rights; claims mine the honor
To live here on his bounty. Through white nights,
His argument sings on . . . through sun-warm hours.
I listen — then break down and grant his rights
Of ownership: the house, the trees, the flowers
Belong to Mr. Mockingbird. My votes
Deed him the place — he pays in golden notes!
Another Spring
Annie Atkin Tanner
Oh, winds of March,
Sweep from the corners of the wall.
The withered, brown-dry leaves.
The faded flowers of the autumn days;
Take from our minds
The little fears that mar our days
And dim the splendor of the stars.
Let wind-swept night,
The newly furrowed fields, the gray-white birds.
Free us from useless doubts
And every petty thing.
May we find a yellow crocus
Under winter weeds.
And know again there is another spring.
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H. Armstrong Roberts
ANOTHER SPRING
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Beverages Before a Dinner
Wiiinifred C. Jnrdine
^ ^\\7HAT shall \vc ser\e as a beverage or an appetizer before dinner?" is a question
^ ^ sincerely asked by Latter-day Saint women whenever they are entertaining.
There are a multitude of answers. Some of them are found in the following
recipes.
Remember that beverages and appetizers ser\ed before a meal should be light
enough and sparing enough to "pique" the appetite rather than to satisfv it. And
the fla\or should contrast with other fla\'ors of the meal. This is wdiat makes an
"appetizer."
Cranberry Eggnog
2 eggs
/l C. SLl
Ys tsp. s^alt
!4 c. lemon juice*
1 '/: c. orange juice*
2 c. cranberrv juice
(*In all recipes calling for lemon and orange juice, reconstituted frozen or canned
orange juice and frozen or canned lemon juice may be used, as well as the freshly
reamed juice.)
Beat eggs until thick; add sugar and salt. Blend in fruit juices and pour over
cracked ice in glasses. Makes fi\e 8-oz. glasses.
Hot Spiced Fruit Punch
2 74 c. sugar
4 c. water
2 full-size sticks cinnamon
8 allspice berries
10 cloves
1 whole piece ginger root
4 c. orange juice
2 c. lemon juice
2 qts. apple cider
Combine sugar and water; boil for 5 minutes. Remove from heat and add spices.
Cover and allow to stand in warm place for 1 hour. Strain. Just before serving, add
juices and cider and bring quickly to boiling point. Remove from heat and serve at
once. Makes 25 servings.
Party Pink Drink
4 c. rhubarb, cut up (1% lbs.)
2 c. water
2 c. sugar
ginger ale
Cut rhubarb in i-inch pieces. Combine sugar and water, add rhubarb, and simmer
until tender. Strain (sa\'ing rhubarb pieces for pie or cobbler). Freeze juice. To
serve, spoon frozen rhubarb juice that has been softened to mush into glasses and fill
with ginger ale. Makes about 6 cups.
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Banana Crush
4 c. sugar
6 c. water
2 Vi c. orange juice
Yi c. lemon juice
5 crushed bananas
4 c. pineapple juice
ginger ale or substitute
Make syrup of water and sugar by heating until sugar is dissolved. Combine with
remainmg ingredients and freeze. Fill glasses half full of banana freeze, softened to
mush. Fill glasses full with sparkling water, ginger ale, or other colorless soft drinks.
Makes enough to ser\c about 35 people. If desired, color fruit slush and serve with
mint as a garnish.
Mulled Apricot Nectar
6 c. apricot nectar
(or a 46-oz. can)
V2 lemon, sliced
2 whole sticks cinnamon
15 whole cloves
8 allspice berries
Combine all ingredients in hea\v saucepan and bring to boiling point. Simmer
gently 5 minutes. Remove from heat, cover, and allow to stand 30 minutes. Strain.
If desired, sweeten to taste. Heat before serving. Makes about 5 cups.
Raspberry Float
3 3-0Z. packages raspberry
flavored gelatin
1/
c. boiling water
Vi c. lime juice
2 !4 c. orange juice
1 /': c. sugar
4 c. cold water
1 % c. lemon juice
1 qt. ginger ale
2 10-oz. packages frozen raspberries
Dissolve gelatin in boiling water; add sugar, cold water, and juices; cool, but do
not chill or gelatin will congeal. (If it does congeal, heat just enough to liquify.)
When time to scr\e, pour punch into punch bowl. Add ginger ale and frozen
raspberries. Stir until raspberries break apart and are partially thawed. Makes about
4 quarts.
Grape Cooler
II Dilute lemonade only half as much as directed on can. Pour into ice trays and
freeze. To serve, spoon frozen lemonade, softened to a mush, into glasses and fill
with grape juice. Makes about 16 servings.
6-oz. cans frozen lemonade concentrate
2 qts. grape juice
Tomato Juice Cocktail
2 c. tomato juice
2 tsp. \inegar
1 tbsp. sugar
Vz bay leaf
2 tsp. finely minced onion
2 tbsp. lemon juice
Vz c. diced celery
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Mix ingredients. Let stand in refrigerator 30 minutes; strain. Serve eold. For
variation, juiee may be frozen to a mush and served in sherbet glasses. Makes 5 to 6
servings.
Tangy Tomato Juice Variations
1. To each cup of tomato juice add H teaspoon of ancho\y paste and a httle lemon
juice, salt and pepper to taste. Mix paste with a little juice first, to thin it, before
mixing with entire amount.
2. Combine equal portions of tomato juice and canned bouillon; heat.
3. Combine equal parts tomato juice and sauerkraut juice; add Worcestershire sauce
to taste. Chill.
4. Combine equal parts tomato juice and clam juice; season with minced onion,
salt and pepper.
Bits of Odds and Ends
Janet W. Breeze
L
OST: One knitting needle. Prevent your precious tools. Make double rows
such an occurrence by hterally filing of slits in a 9" x 12" manila folder. Insert
needles and mark size number. Store
crochet hooks the same wav on a file card.
Fold a piece of paper as you would to
make a fan and use it for a holder when
lining up those broken beads to string.
Slip a pillowcase over the leaf of your
sewing machine to pre\ent soiling and
slipping of fine materials.
For that runaway ball of string, cut a
piece of cardboard to fit inside a pint jar
lid. Put the string in the jar and extend
the end through a hole in lid. The same
can be done with crochet cotton or knit-
ting yarn if it's a small enough ball.
FILE FOR NEEDLES
The Lamplighters
Alice GubJer
IT is twilight and the hungry
baseball players are straggling
home to their evening meal.
They had such fun today. There
are always all sizes and all ages of
home folks out there playing. It
doesn't make any difference who
comes to play in our friendly little
town.
I like to sit here on my front
porch because it is in the very cen-
ter of things, where I can actually
listen to the heartbeat of my home
town. Tonight I can hear Wick-
ley's cows mooing in the pasture. A
cricket chirps in the elderberry
bushes, and there is the twittering
of sleepy birds in the honey locust
tree. Little girls are laughing and
flitting like butterflies on Ed Gub-
ler's lawn, and I can hear a dog
barking somewhere along the canal
bank. Dennis Church is trudging
by with his milk bucket. Above
the hill, a lone star appears — the
first star out tonight.
Twilight deepens and lights come
on in the houses along the
hillside. I wonder what it was like
when the first lamps were lighted
in this little valley?
Fancy takes me back, and I see
the rabbit brush and the greasewood
growing all around me. I can see
my own dear mother-in-law polish-
ing her lamp chimney and trim-
ming the wick to light her lamp.
Susanna Gubler — the first woman
to make a permanent home here in
La Verkin. I wonder how she felt.
It must have been lonely, but still
she was so anxious to move into her
own little rock house that she
hitched up the team and loaded her
belongings into the wagon all by
herself, even to her Home Comfort
stove. No one knows really how
she did it. It took two men to un-
load it.
A few months later another lamp
was lighted in La Verkin, when Aunt
Mae Gubler came here to stay.
There were others who played a
vital part in this drama, who have
gone on, leaving their rich heritage
and hallowed memories. As I sit
here musing, my heart plays strange
tricks — I see the beloved faces of
those who were here. I pull myself
back in my reminiscing and turn my
thoughts to those early pioneers who
are still living with us today.
After Aunt Mae, came Allen
Stout's family in 1902, bringing their
daughter Gretchen, who is now
lovingly known as Sister Stratton.
In the spring of 1903, Thomas
Judd, the founder of La Verkin,
brought his family here to live. Still
with us is his daughter Kate Thomp-
sen who has been a vital part of our
town ever since. That same year
William Sanders brought his wife
Sarah Amelia. She was expecting
a baby when she came. It was that
fall that the first child was born in
La Verkin — a little girl, Rosalba, to
Susanna Gubler. Six days later,
Amelia Sanders bore a son, Moroni.
Two new little babies born in the
wilderness as it were.
As I sit here on my porch musing,
I hear water running in at the head
of my garden. It has a merry,
laughing sound. Water? What
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did they do for water with which to
bathe those new httle babies when
Rosalba and Moroni were born?
They must have dipped it up from
the ditch and settled it. My good-
ness! And the doctor! I know they
didn't phone him — and he didn't
rush to their aid in his car, not then,
and there was no convenience of a
hospital delivery room. I know the
answer to that one. Aunt Mae
earned the right to be everybody's
Aunt Mae, for she was the doctor
and the nurse, while this little town
was coming into existence. Women
had to help each other then.
IN the early spring of 1905 Arthur
Woodbury folded his tent at
Shem and brought his wife Harriet
and his small children to La Verkin.
They say the tent was large, and
when it was pitched and boarded
up, it became the scene of many
happy parties. I know how good
those parties must have been. When
Aunt Hattie set her mind to any
social affair, it had to be good.
From the deep south came the
Segler family to join the saints in
La Verkin in 1907. With travel so
slow, and roads so dusty and rough,
I often wonder how Hardy and Jim
ever found LaVina and Myrtle.
Hardy must have had to go out and
around by Short Creek to Mt. Car-
mel, and Jim's wagon had to creak
over the Black Ridge. Courting
Photograph by Carl Laird
PIONEER HOME IN LA VERKIN, UTAH
Once occupied by the Ben DeMille family.
THE LAMPLIGHTERS
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Photograph by Carl Laird
HOME OF ^^'ILFORD AND KATE THOMPSEN IN LA X^ERKIN, UTAH
This is the only pioneer home in La Verkin which is still occupied.
would have been pretty serious busi-
ness in those days. But they found
their brides and brought them here
to help pioneer our little town.
So here they are — our pioneer
women who are still living among
us today: Susanna Gubler, Aunt
Mae Gubler, Amelia Sanders,
Gretchen Stratton, Harriet Wood-
bury, Kate Thompsen, Myrtle Seg-
ler, and LaVina Segler.
These are the people who lit their
lamps in our valley years ago and
helped push back the desert. They
are the women behind the men who
brought the river through the tun-
nel, coursing like lifeblood through
an artery, to nourish the orchards
and vineyards. They are the women
who filled the corn shuck and straw
ticks that their men might rest come
night, and sewed rag rugs to bright-
en their homes; who bent over the
old washboard with aching backs.
They are the women who were
sustained as auxiliary heads and
officers and teachers, shouldering as
high as five offices for one person at
a time, so that their children might
be taught the gospel. They sat in
worship in the old bowery, until the
little rock schoolhouse came into
being.
As I sit here reminiscing, I see the
new wing of our church house take
the form of that little rock building.
It was there that the first little girl
and the first little boy learned to
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read and to write. It was there they
learned to love music, drama, and
dancing.
T^HE sons of the women who lit
the first lamps in our valley
have gone out to be leaders over the
face of this land. Among them are
doctors of science, medicine, lan-
guage, dentists, professors, bakers,
star athletes, farmers, engineers,
missionaries, bishops, stake clerks,
Sunday School superintendents,
music directors, and merchants; and
their daughters are following their
footsteps in leadership. They are
the loving wives who light their
homes for their men coming home
when the sun has gone to rest. Also
among them are teachers and skilled
career women, too.
This little town is deeply rooted
in the love of those who pioneered
it. Shoulder to shoulder, they
toiled, establishing a bond between
them that has never been broken.
That is why people say ''Those
La Verkin people are like one big
family." We sit together on sum-
mer evenings on the church patio
for entertainments. Our women
cook food for ward dinners and their
families come out and eat together.
A breeze rustles the bamboo
canes by my house. There are
myriads of crickets chirping at the
stars. This is my home town, where
there is music, and laughter, and
love. From all the windows across
town shine the lights of these gen-
tle people. I breathe a silent prayer
of thanksgiving for those first lamp-
lighters in our valley, for they have
surely fulfilled holy writ which says:
''Let your light so shine before men,
that they may see your good works,
and glorify your Father which is in
heaven" (Mt. 5:16).
View From the Pass
Martha Tucker Fugate
The foothills step up to the heights
In shaded velvet folds,
And who can guess what green delights
Each hidden valley holds?
Stuffed Toys Are Delightful
Shiiley Thulin
CTUFFED toys make delightful
and much appreciated gifts for
children's birthdays, special occas-
ions, and always for Christmas.
These cuddlv toys make perfect
gifts for children who are ill, and
grandmothers will find that stuffed
toys will please the children when
they come to visit. Relief Society
women make stuffed toys for ba-
zaars and find that they are best
selling items.
Dolls
First, let's make the most lovable,
the rag doll. You can find patterns
for all kinds of dolls in the pattern
books at your local yardage counters,
so let's take a look at the general
directions for making rag dolls.
The best material to use in making rag
dolls is unbleached muslin, or, to make a
beautiful doll with a hint of a blush, use
pale pink Indian head, or a used piece of
pink sheet.
Figure i
THE DOLL'S HAIR
Made of rug yarn and stitched into the
seam on the top of the doll's head.
The hair for your doll, as with the hair
on your little girl, is the crowning glory,
so here are some tips. Use rug yarn, and
stitch the pieces of yarn right in with the
seam on the top of the head of the doll.
You may stitch the strands of yarn on the
head after it is stuffed, or you may want
to make the hair out of an old black
stocking. This is done by making a long
skull cap from the stocking, attaching the
top of it to the top of the the doll's head,
and then cutting fringe all around. Cut
the front shorter, making bangs (Figure i ) .
If you are going to paint the face on,
do it before stitching the head together.
But, if you want to make the eyes of
buttons, and the ears, mouth, and nose
embroidered, you can do it after the doll
is stuffed. Try making a funny face, using
felt pieces, for a change (Figure 2). Chil-
dren love to see a comical face.
Figure 2
THE DOLL'S FACE
The features may be painted or em-
broidered.
Be sure to sew the doll together with
good strong thread and with tiny stitches.
Use quilting thread. Clip the corners and
the round parts every little way, so they
will be the right shape and not bind or
pull when you turn it right side out
(Figure 3).
The best stuffing to use for all stuffed
toys is the orlon from a quilt batting. You
also can use old nylon stockings.
Make the doll's clothing removable, and
make se\'eral changes for her so your child
will get the most pleasure from her doll.
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STITCHES
STITCHES.
CLIP HERE
Figure 3
SEWING THE DOLL TOGETHER
Use quilting thread. Clip the round
parts of the corners so that they will be
the right shape and not bind or pull.
How to Make a Duck
Now let's make a handsome duck (Fig-
ure 4). His head and body are made
from the top of a man's sock. After stuff-
ing the duck, tic a string about a third of
the way down to divide the head section
from the body (Figure 5). His perky
cap is made from t\\'0 pieces of bright
striped cotton or denim (Figure 6).
Just stitch all around, lca\ing a little place
to turn and stuff. Sew to his head.
Stitch a little pompon atop his stuffed
cap. Make the pompon by winding some
yarn around two fingers about twelve times,
then tie in the center and fluff into a
ball-shaped pompon. Trim and stitch
tightly to the top of the cap.
The bill is made by sewing two half
circles of yellow felt together, leaving an
opening to turn at flat place (Figure 7).
Make two of these. Stuff them and stitch
them to the face. Make his tail the same
as his bill only not as long and make his
wings the same, only larger. His webbed
feet are cut from felt scraps, too. Cut
them in shapes as shown in Figure 8.
Now, make big soulful looking eyes of
blue felt and stitch in place, and sew a
row of colorful small buttons down his
^"""""i,.
Figure 4
A HANDSOME DUCK
The duck's body is made from a man's
work sock.
Figure 5
MAKING THE BODY OF THE DUCK
Sew across the bottom. Stuff the body
and stitch the top together. Tie a string
one-third of the way down to divide the
head section from the body.
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Figure 6
MAKING THE CAP
The cap is two oval pieces of material
stitched together and tnrned.
Figure 9
A SITTING SANTA GLAUS
Made from a child's red cotton stocking.
Figure 7
THE DUGK'S BILL
Cut four duplicate pieces of this pat-
tern. Sew two pieces together for the top
of tlie beak and two together for the
bottom.
Figure 8
THE DUCK'S WEBBED FEET
Cut four pieces of this pattern, and
make each foot double.
* * « * *
front. He is now ready to become a
popular gift.
A variety of cute animals can be made
from this same basic pattern. Just gather
felt, colorful bits of material, buttons, and
whatever your imagination dictates, then
start stitching. The pointers to keep in
mind are few. Keep the clothes for
stuffed toys colorful and the facial expres-
sions interesting. Do this by making the
eyes big and the mouths turned up in
smiles.
How to Make a Santa CJaus
Next is an ideal Christmas gift or table
decoration. This attractive sitting Santa is
fashioned easily by any home sewer from
a child's red cotton stocking (Figure 9).
White orlon yarn makes the hair and
beard of this cotton stuffed cutie.
You will also need one red cotton sock
with the turned down cuff (not the kind
with the elastic top).
Figure 10
MAKING THE SANTA GLAUS
Mark the leg of the stocking into half
and quarters, and the foot of the stocking
into thirds. Small figure at right represents
the toe of the stocking.
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Scraps of blnck oilcloth are used for his
belt and leggings. You will need 3 white
sequins and 4 tiny gold-colored beads.
Eight black beads are needed to march
down Santa's coat. You will also need
some orlon white yarn or ^Vhite cotton
for the hair and beard.
1. Fold and mark the foot of the stock-
ing into thirds and the leg into half and
quarters, then cut off the toe on the line
of the first third. Cut this in half length-
wise. Cut foot on top and bottom folds,
a trifle beyond the second mark. Turn
inside out (Figure 10).
2. Fold cut edges together to form legs;
stitch around crotch, rounding at ends for
feet. Stitch toe sections for arms. Turn
all sections right side out (Figure 11).
Figure 11
MAKING THE ARMS AND LEGS
FOR THE SANTA GLAUS
The toe sections of the stocking are
made into arms for Santa Glaus, as shown
in the small drawing at the right.
3. Stuff legs and body up to half mark.
Using thread doubled, tie securely at
half mark to form neck. Stuff and tie
on quarter mark for the head, winding
thread tightly up about one-third the dis-
tance to sock top (Figure 12). Knead
into sitting position with sock heel as seat
of pants.
4. Stuff arms (sock toes) and turn.
Draw up open ends. Sew firmly to body.
5. For hands and feet, wind yarn tightly
Figure 12
STUFFING THE BODY OF THE
SANTA GLAUS
The neck is made by winding thread
tightly at half mark of sock, and the top
of the head is made by winding thread one
third the distance to the sock top.
several times around the ends of the arms
and legs.
6. For base of beard and hair, make a
circle of small running stitches with the
yarn on front of the head in the proper
place for the face (sort of an outline
around the face ) . Work from the out-
line to the edge of the head thick loops
of yarn, making a single, short, tight stitch
after each loop (Figure 13). Gut the
loops, trimming shorter on the top for
hair and flaring at the sides to full length
at the bottom for the beard. Fluff out.
Figure 13
MAKING THE BEARD AND HAIR
Thick loops of yarn are stitched close
together.
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If you use cotton, just stitch where needed
to the head.
7. Sew on white sequins with a bead at
center for the eyes and one bead for a
nose. Embroider the mouth. Embroider
down the front and across the bottom of
the jacket in outhne stitch with yarn.
8. Turn the top of the sock down,
making tapered pleat at the back to fit
the head and form a pointed cap. Tack
invisibly. Make a pompon and stitch to
top of hat.
9. Cut oilcloth belt and leggings. Tack
the belt in the back; lap, and fasten in
front with gold sequin and bead. Lap and
tack the leggings in back. Using yarn,
whipstitch to ankle yarn. Sew on beads
for buttons.
I
Johanna Sofie cJarstead Specializes
in diaraanger vl/ork
JOHANNA Sofie Johansen Farstead, Creston, British Columbia, Canada, specializes
*^ in making the lovely hardanger work, a craft of her native land, Norway. She also
crochets, knits, embroiders, and makes many useful and decorative articles. She has
given away sixteen tablecloths and eleven stoles. Many missionaries in the Alaskan-
Canadian Mission are wearing socks knitted by Mrs. Farstead.
Mrs. Farstead came from Norway with her husband and homesteaded near Prince
Albert, in the northern part of Saskatchewan. Widowed just before the last of her
ten children was born, Mrs. Farstead took care of the farm and provided the advantages
of an education for all her children, who are now well established in business and the
professions. Busy and happy, at the age of eighty-six, Mrs. Farstead believes that her
life has been enriched by her devotion to her family, to her friends and neighbors, and
her activity in the Church. Her hobbies have been an additional joy generously shared
with her many relatives, friends, and neighbors.
Sow the Field With Roses
Chapter 3
Margery S. Stewart
Synopsis: Nina Karsh, thirty-nine, horse- out glasses his face was yOLinger and
Ixick riding in the Malibu Mountains of ]ess stern. The immaculate crew
Cahfornia, becomes lost. She meets . r i • • i •
Tomas No^arro, ^^'hose grandmother's ^"^ ^f his graymg hair sprang
house she has just rented. He owns con- austerely up from his wide, hned
siderable surrounding property, and other brow. His eyes were gray and tired,
property in Mexico and Canada. Mr. To be in pediatrics was' to SUrren^
Novarro talks with Nina about the news- ^^^ ^^^^^^ luxuries as sleep,
paper account ot her dismissal as a nurse s '■
aid from the local hospital, and Nina ex- He nOSed the car into the nar-
plains the circumstance. Novarro brings row plateau beside the garage and
his motherless, withdrawn son Joseph and reached for his bag and got out.
asks Nina to take care of hirn^ Reluctant- ^^^^^ Nov^no played chcss well
Iv, she agrees to look after the boy. She i i • 1
IS visited by Tommy Benedict, a young and the dinners at the big house
boy from an unhappy home who has taken were unfailingly interesting, but the
a great liking to Nina, and enjoys riding care and keeping of Tomas Novar-
her horse Dominick. ^q'^ ^^^ ^^^ ^ nagging and painful
thorn in Doctor Jonathan's mind.
DOCTOR Jonathan edged his The case made him feel helpless and
car up the perilous roadway he very seldom felt helpless. Tomas
to the hilltop house. He Novarro himself was often as pain-
looked coldly at the pandemonium ful a problem as his son, and more
of color and line and vista stretch- unpredictable, such as leaving the
ing to his right. People ought to boy with a strange woman, especial-
leave hills for trees or goats. Tomas ly a woman like Nina Karsh, leav-
Novarro's people must have been ing him and going off somewhere
mad to ha\e built a house so high without seemingly another thought,
and so far. It was all wrong, completely wrong.
Another thing that made Craig Doctor Jonathan shrugged his dis-
Jonathan feel pettish was his er- pleasure. Novarro would save him-
rand. He wanted nothing to do with self and his son all this upheaval, if
Nina Karsh. The Valley Hospital he would consent to place the child
was still buzzing with her dismissal, in an institution and, well . . . for-
people took sides. get him was a strong phrase. Doc-
Doctor Jonathan remained utter- tor Jonathan avoided it. But this!
ly aloof. It was an unfortunate He looked about him at the long
matter. He liked the hospital to low lines of the house, at the
maintain its starched monotony and bougainvillea spilling its purple pro-
let the troubles come in with the fusion along the rooftree and around
patients. He took off his glasses the stone chimney,
and slipped them into his pocket. What did Novarro expect to gain
It was an absent-minded gesture by leaving his son with Nina Karsh?
that made the nurses smile. With- From what Doctor Jonathan had
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seen of her at the hospital, she had
nothing of fire or brilhance. As he
vaguely recalled Nina Karsh, he had
a quick vision of a small white per-
son, who owned nothing spectacular
in the way of figure. Her hands, as
he recalled, were square and capable
and she did have rather nice eyes,
tender, intelligent, and a fine shade
of blue. But she was an ordinary
woman ... a composite of dozens
one saw daily, single women, gentle
faced, a little humble, a little puz-
zled by the complexities of being
forty and alone. He pressed his
finger with unnecessary vigor on the
bell.
'T^HE passing wind brought him
the sweetness of orange blos-
soms and pinks, a hummingbird
darted around the hanging basket.
Despite himself. Doctor Jonathan
felt peace invade him.
The door opened. Nina Karsh
smiled at him briefly, 'Tes, Doctor?"
He eyed her sourly. She was
prettier than he remembered, and
her hair was quite remarkable in
color and sheen. He found himself
staring at it, trying to decide if it
was more gold than red or rather a
particularly brilliant brown.
Her gaze was blue and direct. He
found himself straightening his
shoulders. ''Tomas Novarro asked
me to look in on his son. I am
Doctor Jonathan."
'*I remember you." She flushed
but did not lower her eyes.
It was embarassing. What did
she expect of him? Comment?
Commendation? Belief in her? He
cleared his throat. ''Quite, quite."
She lifted her chin. She was a
proud woman then, not accustomed
to the role of being questioned.
"He is in here." She led the
way to the living room.
He followed her slowly, looking
about him. The room was charm-
ing, no doubt of that, cool, peace-
ful, boasting flowered chintz slip
covers and polished tables which
mirrored the low bowls of pansies
and pinks. He peered at the book-
shelves and at the paintings on the
walls. They were boldlv initialed.
'Tours?"
She nodded. "A hobby of sorts."
More than a hobby, he would say.
He felt an unwilling respect nudge
aside his preconceived opinions. The
woman had talent, real talent.
The boy was lying slackly in the
big chair by the window. She knelt
beside him, took his thin, stiff fing-
ers in her own. "Doctor Jonathan
is here, Joseph."
Doctor Jonathan forced hearti-
ness. "How are you, young man,
enjoying life?"
He opened his bag, not waiting
for a reply, whicli, he knew by past
experience, would not be forthcom-
ing. He made his examination
carefully, pleased to note the faint
flush on the thin cheeks. "You've
had him in the sun?"
"This morning, for a little while."
"Excellent." He watched her with
the child. She was quick but sure
in her touch. Joseph submitted
without tenseness. "No . . . don't
bother to undress him. I gave him
a thorough checkup two weeks ago.
This is routine. Does he eat well?"
"No, very little."
He rose, frowning. He tapped the
stethescope on his palm and looked
about him. The portrait above the
fireplace caught his eye. It was of
a man in his late sixties.
"My father," she said, "one of
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his last good days. I didn't really
capture him, but then what canvas
could?"
''It's quite good." He was dis-
mayed at his own tone. He sounded
stuffy.
''Kind of you."
He sighed. There would be then
no rapport between them. Best to
get the business over with. "The
boy is quite a handful for anyone,
and Fm afraid the case is hopeless."
"I beg your pardon?"
"Never matured . . . doubt that
he will."
CHE said quietly and with great
firmness, "J^^^P^^ will be entire-
ly well."
"Indeed?" He was instantly alert.
He placed his glasses on his nose
and looked at her closely. She tilted
her chin.
"I said Joseph will be well."
She plunged into a hurried ac-
count of the boy and an encounter
with a butterfly. He listened im-
patiently. That was the trouble
with women like Nina Karsh, they
rode their own off-beat theories with
the vigor of a small boy on a horse.
It was that same impulsiveness that
had led to the incident at the hos-
pital. "You live alone?" he asked.
"Yes. My nephew, Daniel Brooks
... I reared after his mother died,
but he's away at school now. I don't
believe he'll be coming back, so I
suppose I am quite alone."
He pulled at his lip. It was an
obvious situation. Lonely, unhap-
py, she jumped at the chance to do
something challenging, to be needed.
Suddenly and unexpectedly. Doctor
Jonathan felt pity flood him. She
would give all she had, and she
would receive nothing in exchange.
Nothing. There was only disillusion-
ment and bitterness ahead for her.
He found himself saying, "Don't
ask for the impossible. Miss Karsh,
and don't" his voice was firm, "give
too much of yourself." He cleared
his throat. "Don't waste yourself."
She met his gaze with a hot anger
plainly visible in her eyes. "Forgive
me. Doctor Jonathan, I do not agree
with you on any single point." She
was emphatic. She looked young,
terribly involved, standing there be-
side the boy. She made him feel old
and, yes, cruel, neither emotion
conducive to well-being.
She knelt beside the boy, cupped
his chin in her palm. "We'll walk in
the hills, Joseph, in the mornings,
early, and after it rains. We'll find
wonderful things . . . you and I . . .
and I'll tell you stories. I know a
thousand stories."
Doctor Jonathan wrote out a pre-
scription and gave it to her. She
rose and went with him to the door.
"How long have you known Jo-
seph?"
"Two years."
"And he has always . . .?"
"Always," he said firmly. "Don't
hesitate to call me, and I'll be drop-
ping in again in a few days."
Doctor Jonathan drove slowly
down the hill. He fought against an
urge to turn and go back, find out
what she was up to. There had
been a squared determination about
her. She was, without a doubt, a
woman determined on a course.
npOM Benedict brought a frolic-
some Dominick back to the
corral. He stabled her and made
his way to the kitchen to voice his
thanks.
Nina drew him inside. "Fm afraid
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there's a hitch to it, an hour of baby
sitting?"
"Sure I would. Have you got a
television?''
''In the den, just off the living
room. I won't be long."
Tomas Novarro's house was old
and large and very beautiful. Nina
was enchanted by the beauty of its
Spanish lines. The tile roof was
richly red, the blue painted iron
scroll work against the white stucco
walls made her think of pictures she
had seen of Spanish castles.
Manuel came to the door. He
looked troubled at the sight of her,
but not surprised. ''Come in, Miss
Karsh, you have troubles?" He
looked at her anxiously.
"No troubles, Manuel, just ques-
tions."
i His breath exploded in relief.
"Questions? I answer! I answer."
He led her across the wide hall to a
large room, rich with gilding and red
velvet.
Nina followed him silently, test-
ing the lushness of the rugs under
her feet and trying to identify from
afar the painters of the great dim
canvases, gold framed, on the wall.
"A Goya!" she marveled, and for-
getting Manuel, went to stand be-
fore it.
"Mr. Novarro brought it home
with him some years ago, from
Paris, I think." Manuel pointed to
a brocade chair. "Would you sit
here. Miss Karsh."
Nina sat primly on the rich fabric,
crossing her feet precisely, folding
her white gloved hands in her lap.
She should have worn her navy
blue, this light sprigged cotton
seemed countrified and simple in
the great, elegant room.
"You wanted to ask me about
Joseph?"
She leaned forward. "Mr. Man-
uel, I want to know everything
about him."
Manuel sat back. "I am sorry. I
do not have all the reports ... all
the papers."
"Reports? Papers? Who took
care of him?"
Manuel shrugged. "Many."
Nina lifted her brows. "I don't
understand."
"Tomas Novarro wished nothing
left undone for his son. There were
many nurses. They did not like it
here. Too lonely. There were
many maids. There were schools.
There were clinics."
"But what were thev like, all
these people?"
"There was an English nurse."
Manuel counted on his fingers. "No
baby should be picked up. There
was a young lady from Santa Mon-
ica, who was studying psychiatry.
She was very efficient. We did not
speak to the child, because we were
all giants and terrifying to him, she
said."
Nina sighed.
Manuel nodded. "We did every-
thing they said. We had scales to
measure lunches and suppers, spe-
cial clothes and special blocks and
special disciplines."
"Disciplines? What sort of dis-
ciplines?"
Again Manuel shrugged. "It was
behind closed doors. The child
cried. We could not enter. Then
Mr. Novarro became afraid. He
sent for mv mother." Manuel moved
restlessly. "But she was very old,
my mother. She fed the child and
bathed him, but she was tired. It
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was all out of her, the tenderness.
She had had many children and
many grandchildren. She was tired."
■jVriNA stood up. "Mr. Manuel,
would you please show me
Joseph's room."
He looked puzzled, but rose with
alacrity and led the way upstairs.
Joseph's room was in the left wing.
Manuel explained the distance by
saying that Joseph had cried a great
deal, in the beginning, and the bril-
liant young woman, the one from
Santa Monica, had said he must not
be held or pampered in any way,
because the wise men had discov-
ered this was not only unnecessary
but harmful.
''Indeed," said Nina frostily, "and
what did Mr. Novarro think of
that?"
"He was too lost in grief to
notice," Manuel said gently, "be-
sides, child raising is for women."
With effort, Nina restrained the
caustic comment leaping to her lips.
A remembrance of her own father's
tenderness and concern loomed tall
in her mind. She felt an icy disdain
for this Tomas Novarro.
Joseph's room was dark and im-
pressive, with somber Spanish chests
and a great carved bed.
"There is a closet full of toys,"
Manuel said hastily. "We have put
them away, but you may have them,
if you like."
"Who played with Joseph?"
"Played with him? He had his
tovs, Miss Karsh, everything that
money could buy."
"Thank you," Nina said, "you
have been very helpful. That is all
I wish to know."
Manuel followed her out to the
car, helped her in with grave cour-
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tesy. "You may come anv time. Miss
Karsh, Mr. Novarro said you are to
have whatever you like. He said
we're to send you Elissa, the second
maid. She is a very good cook."
"Fine," said Nina. "I can use
her." She started the motor with
a roar that sent Manuel leaping for
safety and spun down the driveway
in the direction of her own hilltop.
Tom Benedict looked up reluc-
tantly from his cowboy and Indian
show. "He didn't even wake up."
He looked at her narrowly. "You
got something moving in your sweat-
er. Miss Marsh."
Nina laughed and drew out the
small, white, fluffy kitten. "I
bought him ... on the way back."
Tom cried out and reached for
the small squirming puff and held
it, mewing plaintively, against his
face. Nina watched the tenderness
melt away the wise old look that
had been there before. If a kitten
could do this for a boy, a big boy
like Tom!
She could scarcely wait for Joseph
to waken from his nap. Then
she dressed him, fed him milk and
crackers, and led him outdoors. Jo-
seph obeyed her mutely. He allowed
himself to be placed in the blue
canvas chair. The afternoon sun
made a nimbus of his light hair.
Nina knelt beside him. She took
the kitten from her pocket. "Look,
Joseph, look!"
The boy seemed unaware.
"Joseph, it makes a singing." She
rubbed the small body against his
cheek.
JOSEPH put up his hand and
touched the kitten. He let his
hand drop, all interest gone. The
released kitten leaped, mewing, to
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the ground. Nina sat back on her sad. Nina put the kitten down and
heels, bewildered and disappointed, took Joseph into her arms. He said
The kitten rubbed against her no word; he made no outcry. He
ankles. She picked it up and held burrowed against her, his eyes closed,
it in her hands. 'There . . . there," Nina held him in silence, trying to
she crooned to the plainti\'e cry, understand.
''it's all right. . . ." She sat sudden- Leaves dropped from the china-
ly still, aware of Joseph's interest, berry tree, a squirrel frisked from the
But Joseph was looking at her, not juniper, to the left the windmill
the kitten. In his face was an ex- turned lazily over the well, from
pression she could not read, but ex- far below came the faint echoes of
pressive it was, a shadow, a move- car horns and motors. Nina was
ment. Trembling, she placed the oblivious to all around her. Some-
kitten back in his hands. He paid thing strange was happening be-
no attention. When her voice tween her and Joseph, a communion
stilled, the light \^'ent out of his between them, a warm peace in the
face. What was it? Not her burden of his head, a stirring in his
imagination, surely. There had hands like the tendrils of a young
been a flicker of life, of interest. But plant reaching up.
when she looked at him again he How strange, she thought, our
was inert, dull, and hea\y. It was emphasis on words, our insistence
when she talked to the kitten. Nina that communication be in syllables
took the kitten back. She crooned and sentences. Joseph is talking to
over it, but she watched Joseph's me without any sound. He is tell-
face. ing me that he must begin from
p Tell me, Joseph, she asked her- the beginning, from the baby part
self, is it because I talk to the kit- of it. She held him in aching ten-
ten? Is it amusing? No, that isn't derness. I am telling him, by my
it. It's something Vm doing with holding him here, in the sun, in the
my voice. But what? What is it? afternoon, that I understand him,
What reaches him? She held the that I will not fail, that he can be-
kitten to her face, making a little gin to believe and to open, for there
wordless song. Joseph held her is nothing to make him afraid,
with his eyes, large, misty, infinitely {To be continued)
Mrs. Teacher
Olive C. Wehr
"Don't you have anv children?"
W'omen always want to know —
They don't mean to be unkind —
And I always answer, "No," just "No."
(There are no words for sorrow.)
But it's always in the back of my mind
To ans\\er truthfully, "Oh, yes,
For the past twenty years or so,
I've had hundreds of them, no less!"
FROM THE FIELD
General Secretary-Treasurer HuJcIa Parker
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations go\erning the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Handbook: of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Hazel K. Woolley
WEST CENTRAL STATES MISSION, GLENDIVE BRANCH (MONTANA)
RELIEF SOCIETY FASHION SHOW, June 1961
Front row, left to right: June Hennebry; Kathi and Cheri; Dorothy Getz; Cheri
and Mary Anderson.
Back row, left to right: Helen Ness; Joy Jensen; Beatrice Mitchell; Bernice Orcutt;
Wanda White; Edythe Brown; Marjorie Zolman.
Hazel K. Woolley, President, West Central States Mission Relief Society, reports
that this was the first fashion show presented by the Glendive Branch Relief Society.
Each member who sewed a dress or a suit for herself also modeled it. The show
featured two mothers and daughters numbers. The objectives of the sewing program,
Sister Woolley explains, are to stimulate a desire among the sisters to sew for them-
selves and their families, thus developing and improving their talents; to promote a
closer feeling of sisterhood by working together, helping others, and sharing ideas;
and also, by such means, to help cut expenses in the family budget.
The narrating for the fashion show was done by Edythe Brown. Following the
show, a social hour was enjoyed and refreshments were served under the direction of
Myrtle Batesole.
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NOTES FROM THE FIELD
223
Photograph submitted by Donna T. Smart
EMIGRATION STAKE (SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH) LUNCHEON HELD IN
RELIEF SOCIETY BUILDING, May 25, 1961
Left to right: Louise W. Madsen, Second Counselor in the General Presidency of
Relief Society; Dean B. Norberg, former president, Emigration Stake Relief Society;
Belle S. Spafford, General President of Relief Societ)^; Wilburn C. West, former Presi-
dent Emigration Stake, now President of the Eastern States Mission; Donna T. Smart,
President, Emigration Stake Relief Society.
Sister Smart reports: "For the recently appointed stake board, this luncheon and
reception was a successful and enjoyable endeavor. We planned and cooked for some
220 people. All of the members of Sister Norberg's recently released board, with one
exception, were present to be feted and honored. The members of the General Board
of Relief Society who reside in our stake, six in number, were present, with the
exception of Sister Wimiiefred S. Manwaring, who was attending a Relief Society
convention. We were highly honored and favored by the presence of General President
Belle S. Spafford and her Counslor Louise W. Madsen.
"In the true spirit of Relief Society, some of our talented sisters added musically
to the afternoon. The combination of piano, two violins, and flute was unusual and
lovely. The Singing Mothers, directed by the new chorister Maurine Lyman, beautifully
presented three numbers. The highlight of the afternoon was the talk by Helen
Spencer Williams, a member of our stake, who spoke of the faith-promoting experiences
in the restoration of the Bee Hive House. Sister Williams was a member of the com-
mittee which supervised the work of restoration.
"In keeping with the pioneer theme, we draped the tables in blue and white
checked cloths — made by us — and we used gold accents for our Relief Society colors,
as well as pioneer dolls for centerpiece interest. Our serving girls were dressed in
checked gingham aprons and sunbonnets.
"We were grateful for our training and traditions in Relief Society, as we planned,
sewed, decorated, cooked, and programmed this first real activity of our new stake
board. The helpful, willing spirit of our sisters in the gospel is truly inspiring."
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MARCH 1962
Photograph submitted by Amy P. Willis
CHEYENNE STAKE (WYOMING) VISITING TEACHERS
CONVENTION, May 27, 1961
Amy P. Willis, President, Cheyenne Stake Relief Society, reports: "In the second
year of our stake's organization, approximately 150 visiting teachers were honored at
our convention, the theme of which was 'Visiting Teachers Around the World.' Special
awards were presented by the stake visiting teacher message leader, Jeanne D. Alley, to
forty-three visiting teachers who reached the goal of one hundred per cent throughout
the year. Represented in the picture are part of these sisters, and because of great
distances to travel, others were unable to be in attendance. As a conclusion of the
program, a skit was presented to introduce the summer messages."
Photograph submitted by Gloria M. Dil
AUCKLAND STAKE (NEW ZEALAND) RELIEF SOCIETY BOARD
ASSEMBLED AT STAKE RELIEF SOCIETY FUNCTION
Front row, seated, left to right: Gertrude Murfitt, First Counselor; Gloria M. Dil,
President; Airlie Eagle, Second Counselor.
Back row, standing, left to right: Hine Amy, work meeting leader; Muriel Hay,
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
225
Secretary-Treasurer; Polly Paniora, theology class leader; Anita Chatc, social science
class leader; Marguerite Ottley, Magazine representative; April Garlick, literature class
leader; Grace Bratton, \isiting teacher message leader; Evelyn Kennerley, organist; Ata
Pedersen, chorister.
Gloria M. Dil, President, Auckland Stake Relief Society, reports that this picture
represents the first complete board of the Auckland Stake Relief Society. For the
occasion, each ward was assigned a demonstration on each function of Relief Societ}'
work. "The Relief Society' presented an e\cning's entertainment and instruction for
the fathers and families of all the Relief Society women in the stake at the stake
center. The stake board class leaders prepared teaching aids showing the guests the
scope of work covered in our lessons. Each ward and branch was assigned an item,
some depicting the \\ork and advantages of the development of talents. A sponge cake
competition, one section for a plain sponge cake, and one section for a decorated cake,
showed that the sisters are really accomplished cooks. Our Singing Mothers presented
two numbers, and the children enjoyed se\'eral games."
Photograph (Submitted by Berenece B. Dailev
IIYRUM STAKE (UIAIl), IIYRUM SECOND WARD PRESENTS "RELIEF
SOCIETY YESTERDAY, TODAY, AND FOREVER" AT ANNIVERSARY
SOCIAL, March 14, 1961
President \^esta R. Allen stands second from the right in the front row of the
sisters who are standing; Virginia N. Larsen, Second Counselor, stands at the right
in the same row; First Counselor Alta L. Petersen stands second from the left in the
second row; Secretary Delia A. Nielsen stands at Sister Petersen's right.
Berenece B. Darley, President, Hyrum Stake Relief Society, reports: ''This year
the Hyrum Second Ward had, as their guests for the anniversary part}% the other two
Hyrum wards Relief Society sisters. One of the outstanding parts of the program was
the presentation 'Relief Societ}' Yesterday, Today, and Forever.' It was not only very
inspiring, telling the story of our wonderful Relief Society, but highly entertaining, as
well. Everyone enjoyed it. We were all thrilled by the talent presented by these
faithful sisters."
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MARCH 1962
Photograph submitted by Nina H. Beecher
NORTH BOX ELDER STAKE (UTAH) WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
PRESIDENTS, COUNSELORS, AND STAKE BOARD MEMBERS VISIT
INTERESTING PLACES IN SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH, June 27, 1961
Nina H. Beecher, President, North Box Elder Stake Rehef Society, reports an
interesting trip: "This group traveled by bus from Brigham City to Salt Lake City
to visit the Deseret Clothing Factory and International Peace Gardens. We had lunch
at the Lion House, and afterwards were taken on a tour of the Relief Society Building.
Every ward in our stake, except one, was represented, and all but one member of the
stake board were present. It was a very enjoyable trip, as well as informati\e, and the
sisters had a very good time."
Photograph submitted by Violet W. Hulet
PAROWAN STAKE (UTAH), PAROWAN FIRST WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
HONORS ELDERLY SISTERS AT SOCIAL, May 22, 1961
Front row, seated, left to right: Amelia J. Topham; Amelia P. Orton; Luella R.
Adams; Hattie Holyoak.
Back row, standing, left to right: Barbara Adams; Nellie Pritchard; Martha Dalton;
Alice Holyoak; Nettie Robinson; Sarah Connell.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
227
Violet W. Hiilct, President, Parowan Stake Relief Society, reports that a party was
held for all ward members. May 22, 1961, honoring the faithful sisters assembled for the
above picture. "The total of their ages is 819 years. All have been active, not only
in Relief Societ^^ but in all the other auxiliary organizations open to women in the
Church. They represent stake Relief Society presidents, ward presidents and coun-
selors, organists, class leaders, and work meeting leaders." Verses extolling the work of
each sister were read in tribute.
Photograph submitted by Joie M. Hilton
NORTH CENTRAL STATES MISSION DISTRICT LEADERS AT RELIEF
SOCIETY CONFERENCE, July 28-29, 1961
Front row, seated, left to right: Olga Hanson, Lake District; Bernice Wickham,
Ontario District; Margaret Wells, South Dakota District; Greta Damstedt and Dola
Hofeling, Sioux District.
Second row, seated, left to right: Clara Niemi, Lake District; Norma Whitney,
South Dakota District; Beth Hatch, Doris Youngs, and Jolayne Harrison, Manitoba
District.
Third row, standing, left to right: Valerie Spillett, Fort Williams Branch; Norma
Paakanen, Lakehead District; Myrtle Halden, Dakota District.
Fourth row, standing, left to right: June Benson and Betty Sievert, Mankato
Branch; Beverly Harrington, Dakota District.
Joie M. Hilton, President, North Central States Mission Relief Society, reports:
"Pioneer week, July 28th and 29th, we held our first mission-wide Relief Society Con-
ference. All eight districts were represented, with some seventy sisters participating.
Over half of the sisters came from far distant branches, the greatest distance being from
Dauphin, Manitoba, Canada, 630 miles. Informative registration slips were attached
to snapshots of each sister and her entire family, and displayed beside a large map out-
lining the mission districts and pinpointing the thirty-six societies. The theme 'Relief
Society Space Age Pioneers' was carried throughout the proceedings. The Singing
Mothers in the branches had prepared the songs 'When Mothers Sing' and 'My Testi-
mony.' They sang together for the first time as a mission chorus. 'As a Voice Speak-
ing,' with taped narration, and the film 'Unto the Least of These' were presented.
Highly practical demonstrations \\ere given of sewing helps, hat making, and various
handiwork. Specific lessons helps were combined with the demonstrations for all five
first lessons, as outlined for the coming year. The conference was concluded with a
most inspirational testimony meeting. The reading of President Belle S. Spafford's
testimony from the Mission Presidents Seminar helped to set the high spiritual tone
of the occasion."
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MARCH 1962
Photograph submitted by Helen H. Hawkins
SPANISH FORK STAKE (UTAH), FIFTH WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
PRESIDENTS HONORED AT ANNIVERSARY SOCIAL, March 20, 1961
Seated, front row, left to right: Maybell S. Erickson, present President; Alene T.
Meldrum; Anna P. Hales; Blanche W. Gardner. «»
Standing, left to right: Mary E. Andriis and Thehiia }. McKell.
Sisters in the portraits on the mantel: Rebecca S. McKell and Annie H. Warner,
deceased.
Helen H. Hawkins, President, Spanish Fork Stake Relief Society, reports: "A
history of this Relief Society was written for the anniversary social, and the sisters who
have served in different capacities were invited to attend. As the names were read, each
sister was presented with a corsage. Faithful and diligent service has been the aim of
these sisters."
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To Follow the Flowers
Dorothea J. Neihon
WE arc blessed with beauty all around us during the greater part of the year, in
the lo\ely forms of flowers. Each contributes to our enjoyment with its delicacy,
its vibrant flowering, or its subtle fragrance. Each is outstanding and special in its own
time, and for all we are thankful. Howexer, if we reflect upon these bright arrays a
moment with deeper thought, we find they set for us the example of life.
There is the crocus, one of the earliest to bloom in the spring. It pushes ahead
of the rest, as an example. Often a blanket of whiteness and cold still lies on the
slumbering earth. It heeds the challenge — the dare — to begin! Its colors exhibit
its character, some snowy white, others brilliant gold, and still others royal purple!
None, a sign of following: this, the crocus, is leadership.
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those of the delicate spirit, soft-spoken, but deep. The one who enjoys life to its
fullest, and is frank and brave. And those masses of others who are "just plain," but
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From Near and Far
Three years ago we moved from Utah
to the Northwest. Of course we were
lonely and homesick. My dear parents
Mr. and Mrs. Neal J. Hillyard sent us
gift subscriptions to The Relief Society
Magazine and the other Church publica-
tions, and they have proved to be very
valuable in that they have kept us from
straying into the wrong paths. The les-
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each issue have given us and our home life
more harmony and have kept us in touch
with those we hold dear. My apprecia-
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her lessons on manners and attitudes.
They are most enjoyable and highly worth-
while to everyone. These lessons have
been important and useful in our home.
The Magazine brings the light of the gos-
pel for us all to see and use.
— Mrs. Evelvn H. Johnson
Raymond, Washington
I am always interested in the covers of
our excellent Magazine. These covers give
people living so far awav a little more in-
sight into the wonderful country that is
Zion. I have been a member of the
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been receiving The Reliei Society Maga-
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ber. It is my wish that the Magazine will
continue to bring happiness to all the
homes that it enters.
— Yvonne Harbeck
Moonah, Australia
I wish to thank you for such a lovely,
inspirational Magazine. I am a young
mother, with three children, and I always
get so much to boost my spirits from
Relief Society and the Magazine. Some-
times we mothers tend to become spirit-
ually and intellectually dulled from the
humdrum routine of household problems,
and I am thankful for the Relief Society's
choice of lesson materials to help pull us
out of our so-called "ruts" that we tend to
slip into.
— Jacqueline Overson
Mesa, Arizona
I love the Magazine, with its wonderful
lessons — especially the Visiting Teacher
Messages. They seem to be just what is
needed at this time. So many sisters tell
us, as we do our teaching, "How do the
women who plan these lessons know just
what we need each month?" I love the
counsel and advice given bv our General
Authorities, and the stories are verv in-
teresting to me.
—Mrs. M. P. McOmber
Hamilton, Montana
I was surprised and pleased in reading
the "Sixty Years Ago" page for August
1961 to see the note about the organiza-
tion of the Relief Society in Kansas City,
Missouri, in August 1901, as it was 1903
when my grandmother, Mrs. Mahina T.
Chrisp, joined the Church, and I know it
wasn't long until she joined our wonder-
ful Relief Society organization. I enjoy
the Magazine, and was particularly im-
pressed with the serial "Because of the
Word" (concluded in January 1962), by
Hazel M. Thomson. I would like to
commend the authors, also, of these out-
standing stories: "Aunt Mattie's Retire-
ment List" (October 1961), by Klea
Evans \\'orsley; "A Feather in Her Hat,"
(June 1961), by Sylvia Probst Young;
and "A Parable for Pollv" (September
1961), by Maude Proctor.
— Mrs. Mary Taylor
Versailles, Missouri
I was impressed with the beauty of the
November Rehef Society Magazine cover,
showing a painting of Nauvoo, Illinois.
Thank you for printing this and also the
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
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VOL 49 APRIL 1962 NO. 4
(contents
SPECIAL FEATURES
Welfare and the Relief Society Howard W. Hunter 236
She Knew the Prophet Joseph Smith — Part I — Emmeline B. Wells Preston Nibley 240
Thanks for the Magazine Linnie F. Robinson 253
Cancer Education, Research, and Service Rutherford L. Ellis 259
My Son Is on a Mission Agnes K. Morgan 265
A Latter-dav Saint Schoolteacher in Beave;, Alaska Elizabeth P. Zabriskie 267
FICTION— SPECIAL APRIL SHORT STORIES
The Mischief Makers Dorothy Clapp Robinson 243
Timber Ilene H. Kingsbury 248
A Name Before the Lord Ellen Taylor Hazard 260
The Loving Faces Betty Lou Martin 291
Sow the Field V/ith Roses — Chapter 4 Margery S. Stewart 296
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 234
Sixty Years Ago 254
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 255
Editorial: ""I Y/ill Pour Out My Spirit" .^ Marianne C. Sharp 256
Notes to the Field: Lesson Previews to Appear in the June Ts'-.ue -■
The Relief Society Magazine 258
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 303
Birthday Congratulations 312
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
"Singing Sermons" Caroline Eyring Miner 266
A Compliment Cast on the Waters Evelyn Dorio 271
From My Window I Watch Cleo Jones Johnson 272
Candy for Your Easter Basket Caroline L. Naylor 274
Two Recipes for a Luncheon Ruth L. Jones 275
Recipes From a Pioneer Kitchen Anne McCall 276
The Little Silver Thimble Sherry Crookston 277
Housekeeper in a Hurry Janet W. Breeze 278
Anna Eckloff Makes Her Life Happv V/:th Hobbies 280
Keep Your End of the Handle Up Olive Sharp 281
What Did You See? Maude Proctor 282
Grade "A" Mary C. Martineau 286
Potted Plants Complete a Picture Eva Willes Wangsgaard 288
Beach or Knitting Bag Melba Larson 295
POETRY
Savior — Frontispiece Margery S. Stewart 233
Music, by Padda M. Speller, 257; Starless Interlude, by Annie Atkin Tanner, 258; Doing Good,
by Catherine B. Bowles, 259; Point of View, by Gladys Hesser Burnham, 264; I Would Follow
Thee, by Mildred Wentworth, 265; Fame's Prayer, by Leora Larsen, 270; Enough, by Hazel
Loomis, 273; No Half Loaf This, by Virginia Newman, 275- Note to Carvel, by Mabel Jones
Gabbott, 277; From My Window, by Evalyn Sandberg, 280; The Blossoming, by Dorothy J.
Roberts, 284; Return, by Henrietta B. McNeely, 287; Prelude to Easter, by Linda Clarke, 290;
My Legacy, by Maude Rubin, 302; Grandmothers Know, by Christie Lund Coles, 311; Beauty,
by Ida Isaacson, 312.
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Welfare and The Relief Society
Elder Howard W. Hunter
Of the Council of the Twelve
[Address Delivered at the Annual General Relief Society Conference,
September 28, 1961]
THE Church Welfare Plan in
its present form and organ-
ization came about twenty-
six years ago. This was a renewed
emphasis of a phase of the gospel
which has always existed. Since the
beginning of time men have been
commanded to be their brother's
keeper, and God's children have
always been expected to help one
another. This thread has been wov-
en through the loom of the Old
Testament, the teachings of the
Master during his personal ministry,
through the writings of the New
Testament, and throughout the his-
tory of The Book of Mormon. The
revelations of these latter days are
replete with these admonitions.
Since the organization of the
Church in 1830, the history of the
Latter-day Saints has been influ-
enced by the principles which have
now been codified into the Welfare
Plan.
Not long ago I was reading the
words of Brigham Young spoken
from the pulpit in the old Taber-
nacle here in Salt Lake City nearly
one hundred years ago. This is
what he said:
I am now going to preach you a short
sermon concerning our temporal duties.
My sermon is to the poor, and to those
who are not poor. As a people, we are
not poor; and we wish to say to the
Bishops, not only in this city, but through
the country, "Bishops, take care of your
poor." . . . We have among us some
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brethren and sisters who are not strong,
nor healthy, and they must be supported.
We wish to adopt the most economical
plan of taking care of them. ... In the
spring have these brethren sow some
broom-corn, — they will enjoy working a
little out of doors in the nice spring
weather, — and then in fall they can make
brooms with the corn. By pursuing this
course a Bishop will soon be able to say,
''I have accomplished a good work; the
brethren and sisters whom I had to help
are now in a condition to help them-
selves." In a short time, if their labor
and time are wisely employed, you can
build for them the finest house in the
ward.
Now, Bishops, you have smart women
for wives, many of you; let them organize
Female Relief Societies in various wards.
We have many talented women among
us, and we wish their help in this mat-
ter. Some may think this is a trifling
thing, but it is not; and you will find
that the sisters will be the mainspring of
the movement (Journal oi Discourses,
Vol. 12, pp. 114-115).
There is nothing old or old-fash-
ioned about the Welfare Program
The principles are old, but the chal-
lenges are new. These words of
Brigham Young are as up-to-date as
if spoken today in this Tabernacle.
There was an echo from these words
of Brigham Young when President
Heber J. Grant announced to the
Church in the October Conference
in 1936, the establishment of what
we now refer to as the Welfare Pro-
gram. He stated that the ''primary
purpose was to set up, in so far as
it might be possible, a system under
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237
which the curse of idleness would
be done away with, the evils of a
dole abolished, and independence,
industry, thrift and self-respect be
once more established amongst our
people" (Priesthood and Church
Welfare, page 19).
At the following conference. Presi-
dent J. Reuben Clark, Jr., spoke on
this subject saying:
First, and above and beyond everything
else, let us live righteously, fearing God
and keeping his commandments, that we
may in part claim his blessings as of right,
and not as of mercy only. Along this way
only lies happiness and salvation.
Let us avoid debt as we would avoid a
plague; where we are now in debt let us
get out of debt; if not today, then to-
morrow.
Let us straitly and strictly live within
our incomes, and save a little.
Let every head of every household see
to it that he has on hand enough food
and clothing, and where possible, fuel also,
for at least a year ahead. You of small
means put your money in foodstuffs and
wearing apparel, not in stocks and bonds;
you of large means will think you know
how to care for yourselves, but I may ven-
ture to suggest that you do not speculate.
Let every head of every household aim
to own his own home, free from mortgage.
Let every man who has a garden spot,
garden it; every man who owns a farm,
farm it. . . .
We must purge our hearts of the love
of ease; we must put out from our lives
the curse of idleness . . . (Conference
Reports, April 1937, page 26).
We often refer to the Welfare
work of the Church. The word
work creeps in with the word Wel-
fare, and the two seem to be asso-
ciated together. We know we must
work for the things that are worth-
while in life, and if the Welfare
Program is to be worthwhile and
succeed, we must couple work with
high ideals. Faith without works is
dead. In the same sense, our suc-
cess in our Welfare endeavors can
only be accomplished by work.
You who are in leadership in the
great Relief Society organization,
and who give leadership to the great
Welfare Program, know the power
there is in banding together for the
noble purpose of helping those in
need.
I talked to a man not long ago
who works in a machine shop fabri-
cating a little electronic element
which is about the size of a dime.
He told me that these were used in
nearlv all of the missiles and rock-
ets which are shot into space. I
asked him how this little part was
used in the operation of the rocket.
He said: ''I haven't the least idea.
All I know is that it goes inside of
the rocket." I am inclined to think
that some of us are this way in the
Welfare Program. We accept an
assignment to pull weeds, peel fruit,
clean fish, harvest crops, or some
other task, but we do not see the
end results of our labor as it fits into
the great whole and becomes a com-
ponent part of the finished product.
Most of you sisters have been in
the bishop's storehouse and have
seen the foods and commodities as
they are collected from all parts of
the Church where they have been
produced. You have seen shelf
after shelf of items produced by our
people, which look as lovely and in-
viting as the products on the shelves
of the big supermarkets. As we
look at this great assortment of fin-
ished items, we see more than cans
and boxes and packages. We see
the labor of hundreds of people who
have worked together for a common
purpose.
When we realize that the little
can we so lovingly packed with fruit
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or vegetables went on to take its
place with nearly two and a half
million other eans produced in the
Program last year, we catch the
vision of the vastness of our efforts.
Relief Society presidents last year
signed orders on the storehouse of
the bishops for a million quarts of
milk, a million pounds of flour, a
million and a half pounds of po-
tatoes, a million pounds of dressed
meat, and large quantities of all
kinds of food, clothing, and com-
modities produced bv our own
hands. Last year we helped in some
way about one hundred thousand
persons. This is big business when
we combine all of our sm:iller
groups into the one great eflrort.
Is it reallv work? I know it has
taken hours and hours of thought,
preparation, leadership, and encour-
agement, in addition to the time
spent in producing the product. But
there is the other side of the ledger
— people working together in the
vine}ard of the Lord. I know you
have come home tired and weary
from the cannery or the sewing
room, but as we look back, haven't
some of our happiest days been
those where we have worked togeth-
er to be of service to someone else?
Haven't we all been blessed by our
willingness to work that others
might receive? This is the spirit
of the great Welfare Program.
Those of you who are Relief Society
presidents have had the opportunity
of working with the bishops and of
going into the homes where there
has been need and making the de-
termination as how best to help
those who are less fortunate. I know
it has been time consuming, taking
you away from your own homes and
taking you away from your pleasures
in life, yet a great blessing has come
to you by administering to their
needs.
I served as a bishop for more than
six years, as a stake president for ten
years, and eight years as a chairman
of a welfare region. With the many
Relief Society presidents and coun-
selors I worked with during those
years, I have never heard one of
them complain or say she was not
happy in the work which had been
assigned to her. I am grateful to
our sisters for their support of the
Priesthood. Is there greater pleas-
ure and joy in the Welfare Program
than there is work? It is true our
work benefits others, and the Lord
has said: ''It is more blessed to give
than to recei\'e." The great joys in
life come from giving, and the great-
est gift is the giving of ourselves,
our time and energy and efforts.
Isn't it a good feeling to know that
our efforts have resulted in doing
good for someone else? When we
go to sacrament meeting and realize
there are people seated with us in
the chapel who are being helped and
blessed by reason of the fact that we
are willing to give, doesn't it all
seem worthwhile?
I have never been on a gloomy
welfare project. I have climbed
trees and picked lemons, peeled
fruit, tended boiler, carried boxes,
unloaded trucks, cleaned the can-
nery, and a thousand and one other
things, but the things I remember
most are the laughing and the sing-
ing and the good fellowship of peo-
ple engaged in the service of the
Lord. It is like the little boy who
was carrying another little boy on
his back. ''Isn't he heavy?" some-
one asked. The little fellow an-
swered, "No, he's my brother."
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239
As a woman, a wife, and a mother,
and the keeper of the home, there
are so many things that you can do
to keep in tune with the spirit of
this great program, and as officers
in the Rehef Society, it becomes
your privilege to teach these prin-
ciples to your sisters. Some of the
most important ones might be sum-
marized as follows:
1. Righteous living. If we keep the
commandments of God, he will bless us
with spiritual prosperity.
2. Every person self-sustaining. Church
members should sustain themselves to the
extent of their ability by their own labors.
The Lord has said we shall not be idle.
3. Avoid public relief. We subscribe
to the principle that we are our brother's
keeper. We should be self-sustaining if
possible. Children should be taught their
responsibility, where parents are unable
to provide for themsehes.
4. Avoid debt. President Clark has
said: "Let us avoid debt as we would
avoid a plague. Where we are now in debt
let us get out of debt."
5. I Live enough food, clothing, and
necessities on hand to take care of any
emergency. We should be able to sus-
tain ourselves for at least one year.
6. Live within our income. Families
should budget their income so that desires
are kept within the abilit\' to pay.
7. Help provide employment where
necessary. The Church has always coun-
seled and recommended that mothers be
in their home with their children and not
seek employment outside of the home.
Women should not be unnecessarily em-
ployed.
8. Save. Regardless of the size of our
income, we should budget our affairs that
we might set aside some portion. This
becomes our security and independence.
9. Strive to own our own home. Sta-
bility comes to the family which owns its
own home. We should stri\e to free our
home from mortgage and debt.
10. Gladly accept welfare assignments.
Working together in the program brings
the strength we need to produce for those
who may be less fortunate.
11. Keep the law of the fast. Wc will
be benefited spiritually, and sufficient
means will be in the hands of the bishops
to take care of all the poor.
12. Be a living testimony. We should
so live the principles of tlie \\'elfare Pro-
gram that our example will inspire others.
I am grateful for the inspired
leadership which has formulated the
course of action that teaches us to
help those among us who need as-
sistance. This is religion in action.
This is the course ordained of God
from the very beginning. I am grate-
ful for the devoted sisters who stand
with the Priesthood, and in their
compassionate services and assis-
tance, strengthen the great cause in
lifting our brothers and sisters by
temporal means to spiritual heights.
May we have the vision to clearlv
see the road ahead. God lives and
this is his work. I bear \\itness that
the Welfare Program comes to us
by inspiration and revelation. It is
part of living the gospel. I pray the
Lord's blessings upon us as we con-
tinue to serve him and keep his
commandments, in the name of
Jesus Christ. Amen.
she Knew the Prophet Joseph Smith
Preston Nibley
Assistant Church Historian
Part I — Emmehne B. Wells
THE PROPHET JOSEPH SMITH
From a painting by Lewis Ramsey
ABOUT fifty years ago, there
might have been seen an elder-
ly little lady, entering or leav-
ing the Hotel Utah, in Salt Lake
City, where she made her home.
She walked quietly and slowly, and
usually, in summer, wore a Paisley
shawl over her shoulders. She was
Mrs. Emmeline B. Wells, General
President of the Relief Societies of
the Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints. In her day she
had been a brilliant and capable
woman. Now she was well past her
eightieth year, but she kept steadily
and faithfully at her tasks until her
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strength was exhausted. I think
''Aunt Em," as she was familiarly
known to her friends, was just past
her ninety-third birthday when she
died in April 1921.
I was always interested in our
Church history, and on two or three
occasions, when I saw ''Aunt Em"
sitting alone in the lobby of the
Hotel Utah, I went and sat down
beside her and asked her a few
questions. I remember that she told
me that she had left her home in
Massachusetts as a young convert to
Mormonism, when she was fifteen
years of age, and with her mother
had moved to Nauvoo, Illinois.
Then I asked her, "Did you ever
meet the Prophet Joseph Smith?"
She replied, "Oh, yes, I knew him
quite well, and on several occasions
I sang and recited for him."
Then she told me about the
Prophet, his marvelous personality,
his friendliness, kindness, and his
great ability. Finally she remarked,
"In all my experience I have
never met another man like him."
Recently in going through the
volume of The Young Woman's
Journal for December 1905, I dis-
covered on pages 554-556, the fol-
lowing interesting article, which
"Aunt Em" had written and pub-
lished, at that time, as a tribute to
the great Prophet of the nineteenth
century. Part of the article is repro-
duced here.
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241
''Journeying from my home in
Massachusetts to Nauvoo, Ilhnois,
with a company of Latter-day Saints,
we were joined in Albany by some
Elders returning from missions in
the Eastern states. Among them
was the late Jacob Gates, who was
accompanied by his wife with whom
I became well acquainted enroute.
Sister Gates talked a great deal about
the Prophet Joseph, whom she
knew intimately, and when she saw
that I was specially interested in him,
promised me that she would intro-
duce me to him on our arrival in
Nauvoo. She also told me many
things concerning his life and mis-
sion that I had not known before;
and I listened carefully to all the
Elders' conversation for they were
full of zeal and the spirit of the Lat-
ter-day work; and of love for the
Prophet Joseph. To me it was a
continuous revelation; although Sis-
ter Gates seemed to think it impos-
sible for one so young and inex-
perienced to realize the greatness
and wonderful power of the Prophet
Joseph Smith; in time I came to
understand the feeling when I tried
to explain to others the power he
possessed that impressed the people
with whom he came in contact.
As we neared our destination in
sailing up the Mississippi, the elders
were full of enthusiasm at the
thought of seeing the Prophet
again. . . .
At last the boat reached the upper
landing, and a crowd of people were
coming toward the bank of the river.
As we stepped ashore the crowd ad-
vanced, and I could see one person
who towered awav and above all the
others around him; in fact I did not
see distinctly any others. His ma-
jestic bearing, so entirely different
from any one I had ever seen (and
I had seen many superior men) was
more than a surprise. It was as if I
beheld a vision; I seemed to be lifted
off my feet, to be as it were walking
in the air, and paying no heed what-
ever to those around me, I made my
way through the crowd, then I saw
this man whom I had noticed, be-
cause of his lofty appearance, shak-
ing hands with all the people, men,
women and children. Before I was
aware of it he came to me, and when
he took my hand, I was simply
electrified, — thrilled through and
through to the tips of my fingers,
and every part of my body, as if some
magic elixir had given me new life
and vitality. I am sure that for a
few minutes I was not conscious of
motion. I think I stood still, I did
not want to speak, or be spoken to.
I was overwhelmed with indefinable
emotion.
Sister Gates came to me and said,
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'Til introduce you to the Prophet
Joseph now, he is here."
I replied,
"I don't want to be introduced to
him."
She was astonished, and said curt-
*A\iiv ^ou told me how desirous
you were of meeting him."
I answered,
''Yes, but I've seen him and he
spoke to me."
''But he didn't know who you
were!"
I replied,
"I know that but it doesn't mat-
ter. ..." I was in realitv too full for
utterance. . . . The one thought that
filled my soul was, I have seen the
Prophet of God, he has taken me by
the hand, and this testimony has
never left me in all the "perils by
the way." It is as vivid todav as
ever it was. For many years, I felt it
too sacred an experience even to
mention.
It was my good fortune to go im-
mediatelv on my arrivel to a home
where the Prophet Joseph was
almost idolized, and I heard of the
wonderful power he possessed, and
everything concerning him it was
possible to learn.
I heard him preach all his last
sermons, and frequently met him
and shook hands with him, and
always felt in my inmost soul, he is
indeed a man unlike all others.
In the Prophet Joseph Smith, I
believed I recognized the great spirit-
ual power that brought joy and com-
fort to the Saints; and withal he had
that strong comradeship that made
such a bond of brotherliness with
those who were his companions in
civil and military life, and in which
he reached men's souls, and ap-
pealed most forcibly to their friend-
ship and loyalty. He possessed too
the innate refinement that one finds
in the born poet, or in the most
highly culti\'ated intellectual and
poetical nature; this extraordinary
temperament and force combined is
something of a miracle and can
scarcely be accounted for except as
a "heavenly mystery" of the "higher
sort." . . . He was beyond my com-
prehension. The power of God
rested upon him to such a degree
that on manv occasions he seemed
transfigured. His expression was
mild and almost childlike in re-
pose; and when addressing the peo-
ple who loved him it seemed to
adoration, the glory of his counte-
nance was be^/ond description. At
other times the great power of his
manner, more than of his voice
(which was sublimely eloquent to
me) seemed to shake the place on
which we stood and penetrate the
inmost soul of his hearers, and I am
sure that then they would have laid
down their lives to defend him. I
always listened spell-bound to his
every utterance — the chosen of
God in this last dispensation."
The Mischief Makers
Dorothy CJapp Robinson
LETITIA Haworth, called Tish
by her friends, dropped to
her bed and tried to find a
comfortable position.
'1 need a new bed." She spoke
aloud, a habit she had acquired
since being alone. ''But then I
shouldn't be napping. I should fin-
ish trimming the lawn."
She sat up and pounded her pil-
low. ''There is no point in my
being so tired. I ha\'e been doing
these things the last thirty years,
and I love doing them."
First, there had been a picnic in
her back yard yesterday. Children
were certainly more careless than
they used to be. True, the chap-
eron had staved to finish the clean-
ing the children had started, but
Tish had waved her aside with:
"You run along, dearie. I love do-
ing this." And she did like doing it.
And last evening Irene, Tish's
daughter, had a meeting with her
Cub Scouts in the basement. The
boys spilled punch on the floor. It
was a couldn't-be-helped accident,
and the boys had mopped furiously
if not too effectivelv — bless their
hearts. Irene, knowing her mother,
said, "Don't you touch this. I will
be over in the morning."
"In the morning" in Tish's lan-
guage did not mean the middle of
the afternoon. When Irene called
to excuse her delay, Tish said, "I
have it all done so don't worry."
And not to leave any doubt that
this was her day, the boy who took
care of her lawn called early. He
wanted to go on a hike and would
not be back before day after tomor-
row. Would she mind if he did it
then?
"You run along," she answered,
"I'll love doing it this time."
She had forgotten how enormous
the lawn was, even when using a
power mower. When thev had
built facing the street, Hugh, her
husband, had said, "We'll put all
this back space into lawn. It will
be a wonderful playground for our
children."
It had been, and still was. The
trees thev had planted had grown
to gi\'e shade, and the s\\ings were
still intact, and used not only by
their children's children, but bv all
the children from miles around, it
seemed. Most of them could use a
lesson on property rights. Remem-
bering, Tish sighed. No one disci-
plined children any more.
Mr. Brown, a real estate dealer
and a friend of Hugh's, said one day,
"You are virtually running a public
playground. Sell this back lot to
me.
He had repeated his offer many
times, but Tish would as soon think
of selling her home.
The pillow at last ga\e a modi-
cum of comfort, and se\eral times
Tish thought she was going to nap,
but back would come her problems.
"Get rid of this big place," her
children were constantlv advising
her.
Fiddlesticks. She had been tak-
ing care of this place ever since it
had been built, and she would ne\'cr
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entirely lose Hugh as long as she
had it. Every foot of lawn, every
room, every nail and beam, and
every inch of paint spoke of him. All
the gladness and the sadness of her
life were part of this place.
Someone in the yard next door
kept hammering. When she could
stand it no longer, Tish rose and
went to the window. It was Bob
Jennings and Mr. Brown. They were
putting a sign on the lawn. Tish
knew immediately it was a 'Tor
Sale" sign.
"LTOW could Bob do such a thing
so soon! Only last month his
mother had passed away. She had
lived in that little house for at least
twenty-five years, and now. Bob was
trying to sell her place. It seemed
nothing counted these days but dol-
lars.
Tish thought of returning to the
bed, but her conscience prodded
her. All that clipping yet to be
done.
''I should go help Bob. . . !' She
stopped short. An idea had popped
into her mind. Perfect. It would
solve all her problems. She knew
every inch of the little house. Times
without numbers she had sat with
Mrs. Jennings, helped her clean, or
taken her guests into her own guest
room. Then a really big idea hit
her.
Irene and Jim needed a larger
house for their growing family. They
had been dickering for one in a new
housing project called Hill Village.
Her plan would save them that ex-
pense. They could have this house,
with its wonderful yard and all she
would ask was that they buy Mrs.
Jennings' house for her. That way
Tish would really not be losing her
home. Her piano could stay right
where it was. The guest room would
be there when one of her frequent
guests came.
'Til wrap up the deal right now."
Her tiredness had turned to en-
thusiasm. She went to the tele-
phone and dialed Bob's home.
"Just a moment," his wife said,
'1 think he is driving into the
yard. . . . Just a moment."
"Why, Mrs. Haworth. Fd love
you to have mother's place," Bob
said when Tish ran out of breath.
"I'll write the heirs today. I should
have releases by, say Monday or
Tuesday at the latest."
"I'll do it. I'll do it." Tish
hummed happily as she started her
car. She was especially happy that
she had thought of it herself. Usual-
ly, she followed pretty much what
the family dictated. As she neared
Irene's home, she saw a company
car at the curb and Irene and Jim
were standing beside it, their heads
bent over some papers.
Hardly waiting for her car to stop,
Tish was out and hobbling toward
them. Her right ankle wasn't act-
ing so well today.
"Guess what," she cried, and with-
out waiting for their response, she
plunged into the happy news. "I
have this house problem solved for
all of us. I don't know why I
hadn't thought of it before."
"We were just discussing. . . ."
Irene stopped and looked at her
mother. "What do you mean?"
"Well, Bob has put his mother's
place up for sale. I called him."
TIM and Irene exchanged a quick
look. Jim folded the papers and
put them in his pocket.
In words tumbling over each
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other, Tish outlined her entire plan.
They would have no big payment to
make, no interest to pay. All they
would have to do was buy the little
house for her and they could have
her big place.
''I wouldn't mind giving up my
home," she said, slowing down for
breath, ''I can still enjoy it and look
at what you will save."
"That is very unselfish of you,
Mother," Irene answered, ''but it
would be unfair to you, and to the
rest of the family."
''It sure would," Jim added, "your
place has four times the value of that
small place. And there would be a
lot of problems involved. Besides,
we were. . . ."
"Why should there be any prob-
lems? And Irene can live in her
own home. She has always loved it.
Haven't you?"
"Of course. Mother, but I am not
sure it would work out. And you
would not be satisfied if you gave
up the house."
"Why shouldn't I. . .?"
"We'll think about it," Jim in-
terrupted. "We do appreciate your
offer, and we will think about it."
"What is there to think about?"
"There are a number of angles,
and we would not want to rush into
a deal of this kind. We'll call you."
Tish wasn't afraid of what their
thinking would result in, but she
was a little annoyed. The advan-
tages were all theirs. They wouldn't
find an opportunity like that every
day.
Vl/'HEN ten o'clock came the
next morning, Tish called
Irene.
"We haven't quite decided."
Irene sounded a little annoyed, Tish
thought.
The reason they were hesitating,
of course, was their desire not to be
selfish, and as Irene had said, there
was the family, but that could be
handled.
A little later, a friend, Phyllis
Herbert, called and asked Tish if
she would ride to Dry Creek with
her. They had a mutual friend who
had fallen and broken her hip and
would be glad to see them.
Tish hesitated. It would be a
pleasant drive, and she had to wait
until evening for Jim's decision, but
he might accidently call earlier.
"Don't you trust my driving?"
Phyllis asked.
"It isn't that. I am expecting a
call from Jim. It is very im-
portant."
"For pity sake. They live only
four blocks from you, and if it is
that important we can drive by
there."
"I'll go," Tish decided suddenly.
If she were out of town, Jim would
know she was not trying to pressure
him.
"What are you so excited about?"
Phyllis asked, when they were on
their way.
"I'm moving." Happy to have a
listener Tish poured out her story.
Phyllis showed a disappointing lack
of enthusiasm. "Don't you think it
is a wonderful plan?"
"Yes, if Jim and Irene like it. I
heard they had bought in Hill Vil-
lage."
"But this is much better for
them, and I shan't have the work
of keeping up the house and yard."
"Would you mind my honest
opinion?"
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''Certainly not."
'TIere goes then. The house is
not your problem. The yard, yes,
but not the house."
''Why — why, for pity sake, what
is it then?"
"That ^'ou will have to figure out
for yourself, but, remember, you
can't have your cake and eat it, too."
'yiSH had scarcely settled herself
after her return when Jim and
Irene appeared.
"You have decided to take it?"
Tish cried.
"Well, we can't very well refuse,"
Jim answered, "but there will be
some remodeling necessary, and
since we are lucky enough to get it
at your price, we feel we can afford
some changes."
He had a little hammer and a
tape measure and went about tap-
ping walls and measuring.
Tish looked from his departing
back to Irene. "What in the world
are 3^ou planning?"
"Well, Mother, you didn't think
we would want it just as it is, did
you? We are trying to decide what
remodeling has to be done and what
it would cost. I will have this par-
tition taken out." Irene indicated
the wall between the living room
and what had been Hugh's studv.
Tish sat speechless. Presently
Irene came back from inspecting
the bedroom. "We'll make a fam-
ily room out of that spare bedroom,
and have it open onto a patio — we
can easily build one there." She
stopped and looked at the wall above
the mantel. "I saw a painting that
will fit ihat space exactly. Maybe
I can talk the family into giving it
to me for a Christmas present. And
I have some carpet in mind that will
harmonize with the color of the
painting. Then I will have those
bookshelves taken out."
"Irene, have vou gone mad?
Those shelves were built in there,
one on each side of the fireplace,
to extend the mantel. The mantel
alone isn't large enough for our
Christmas scene, the manger and all
the little people. . . ."
"And the piano w^ill go here."
Irene ignored the native's scene and
pointed to a wall against which there
was a large davenport.
"But the piano has always been
where it is now. Whv move it?"
"That is your piano, I mean
mine."
npHAT night Tish woke with a
moan. She had seen her be-
loved home being torn down, first a
door, then a window, then a beam.
Her cabinet of figurines, collected
from all over the world, was thrown
from the empty doorwav. Then she
noticed Hugh, standing to one side
watching, and every discarded board
deepened the distress in his eyes.
Then the house, Hugh, debris, and
all began receding — further, further.
She ran and ran, but could not catch
up.
Fully awake now, she looked
about. Yes, this was her home. That
had been but a haunting dream.
She was in her own home and noth-
ing had been touched.
Slipping on a robe, she went into
the living room and sat in the big
chair Hugh had always used. She
couldn't think.
"They have no intention of using
my home," she whispered, and the
whisper was loud in the empty room.
"They are even going to use the
money I am saving them to tear my
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home to pieces. Never. If it is torn
apart, it will be after I am dead and
gone."
But what could she do? She could
not go on as she was. Without
turning on lights, she rose and went
from one window to another. At
the window over the kitchen sink
she lingered. The window was wide,
and she could see all the back lawn
and the garage. She loved this win-
dow — but where could she find an
answer?
pHYLLIS had said something —
what was it? Oh, yes, she had
said the house was not her problem,
but of course, it was. What else
could it be?
What else could it he? She re-
peated the sentence word by word.
She asked herself questions: Why
were there so many picnics in that
yard and whv had she had to clean
up after them? Why should she
cut and trim her lawn when she paid
someone else to do it? Why did
Irene bring her Cub Scouts here
where they could spill punch?
She brings them because in the
beginning I insisted on it. It
seemed a shame not to be using that
lovely basement, and . . . and I
wanted to be in on things. Why
did I mop the floor? For the same
reason that I always say, 'Tou run
along," or 'Td love doing it this
time."
For the first time in days a chuck-
le parted her lips. She wanted to
be in on things. She loved being
with people, and she had been doing
these chores for thirtv or more years.
H'm, h'm — there was her answer.
Because she had was no proof she
could continue. She knew now what
Ph3'llis meant. Forget those two
sentences, those mischief makers,
and she could manage the house for
a number of years. It was as simple
as that.
She would sell the back lot, right
up to the garage. She could cut
other corners, but she would keep
her home.
With sudden decision, she went
to the telephone. What if it was
three a.m.? They might as well
know right now that they were not
using her money to remodel her
home. The reason she had wanted
them to have it was so she could
enjoy it with them — intact.
Eventually, Irene came on the
line. When she heard her mother's
voice, sleep left her. "Mother, what
is it? Are you sick?"
''Nothing is wrong. I just want
you to know I am not selling my
home, to you or to anyone."
'Ton — you are not selling? You
really mean that?"
''I certainly do. Neither you nor
anyone else is going to tear it to
pieces as long as I am alive."
There was silence at the other
end so long Tish grew apprehensive.
'Tou ... I didn't hurt your feelings,
did I? Are you terribly disappoint-
ed?"
Tish could have sworn she heard
a giggle. ''No. No, Mother, I was
just telling Jim. It is just that . . .
well, I mean . . . well, we didn't
expect your call before morning."
"Now that," Tish told the dead
telephone, "sounded mighty queer."
Timber*
As Rehted by Ilene H. Kingsbury
WHEN I was just out of my
teens I went to Pine Valley
Mountain, in the Southern
Utah country, to cook for the lum-
ber hands. I lived in a tent and
arose at four each morning to cook
the usual potatoes, eggs, pork, and
sometimes pie, for the hearty break-
fast. This is a land of giant pines.
Some of them were hauled by ox
team to be used in the famed Tab-
ernacle organ in Salt Lake City.
Almost everyone in our part of the
Southwest has a pioneer bedstead,
chair, or butter churn made from
Pine Valley pine. This mountain
of trees is where the pioneers got
their lumber for what we now call
our priceless relics.
One day the logging hands were
hungrily eating, when one of them
mentioned a large pine standing by
itself near the fork in the road. In
fact, it was in the direct path of
logging wagons going to the mill
and could be called a nuisance.
One man said he wished the miser-
able thing was out of the way.
Another stated he was sick and
tired of going around it. Half the
time he nearly turned his wagon
over trying to miss the thing.
At that point I set down a pan
of once-over eggs and announced
that I could fell that tree myself.
Well, you should have heard that
tent full of men laugh! A girl! Saw
that giant!
''Well, I'll give you twenty dol-
lars if you fell it!" yelled Jake, the
camp spendthrift.
'Til take you on that!" I said.
Whereupon they all shouted,
slapped each other on the back, and
were soon quite ready to take sides
on this newest of challenges.
''Why, I'll even give you twelve
days to do it in," Jake promised.
'Til take you on that, too," said
I.
"But you'll have to fell it down
canyon so it will be easy to haul
off," he said.
'Til take you for that, too," said
I again. What a rash team we both
became!
Then, thinking twenty dollars
was not much for all the sawing I'd
have to do, I said quite carelessly,
"Guess I'll get the lumber from
the tree, if I fell it." This, more
like a statement than a question.
Jake felt so sure of himself, he
let go with both barrels, so to speak,
and spoke out, "Sure you can have
the tree. And what's more, I'll even
haul it to the mill. And what can
be sawed out of it, you can have!"
You can see how deep both of us
were in this rash dare together.
At this, I thought the men would
die laughing. Annie, and a saw,
and that tree, they cried. Whoever
heard of such a thing! All for
twenty dollars. Why, Annie, you
can't lose money that way! Listen,
*This is a true incident in the life of Annie Carter Johnson of St. George, Utah.
She was bom in 1877, the daughter of Wilham Carter who turned the first sod for
irrigation in the Salt Lake Valley in July 1847. Mrs. Johnson is the only Utah woman
credited with making a full page in Lite magazine (September 6, 1954), with her poem
**Water," which was also published in the Congressional Record.
Page 248
you don't make much more than
that all summer! On they went.
At about that moment the boss
signaled for a start to the wagons
and the men trouped out, each con-
vinced that Jake's twenty was safe,
for sure.
Well, I turned to Sam, the lad
who ran the dairy herd on the
mountain, and I said, *'Go find me
a good four-pound broad ax. I want
to try it out. If it's sharp, maybe I
could get a start before time to peel
potatoes for supper."
Sam reluctantly sharpened the ax,
but warned me that no woman
could strike off one chip from that
huge, lonesome pine.
"Want to offer me some money?"
said I. But he must have seen the
look in my eye, for he shrugged and
left the subject dangling.
w
HEN I was sure all the men
were out of sight and
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wouldn't get back for a couple of cooking. One day was gone already,
hours, I took the ax and started up and the chips wouldn't have started
the road. As I n eared the tree, it a camp fire.
loomed larger than I'd ever remem- After breakfast the second day, I
bered it. No wonder it was still said to Sam, ''Get me a whipsaw. I
growing on the hillside. Must have must get on with that tree."
been two yards through the center At that Sam gave me up as a lost
from the level at which I would saw cause. "Whoever heard of one per-
... or hack ... or whittle ... or son using a whipsaw?"
scratch. You can see by this time WgH^ j guessed I'd lick this some-
it was makmg me dizzy just to sight j-^q^ L^te afternoon came, and
up the bark to its branchless top - ^till no plan developed. But when
eaten off by porcupines. s^^i came around with an old, bat-
I circled it a time or two, then, tered, rusty whipsaw and shook his
with arms outspread and pressing head as a final warning, I thought
my body close to the trunk, I meas- I had it at last,
ured nearly four times around it.
Almost, just almost, I admitted it tje g^^ it sharpened, which took
wasn't worth twenty miserable, back- n ^^^^ ^^^^ ^^ ^^^^ .. ^^^^^^ ^^^^^
breaking dollars to slave over this j^^ ^ ^^^ ^^ ^^^^
ancient piece of forest. I figured it ^ree fellmg and not an inch' of trunk
must be as big around as our dinner exposed to view! I told mvself not
table at home m the valley. ^^ ^^^^^ ^j^^ teasing of the lumber-
At that moment I swung the ax jacks, as they gave up for the night
up to rest it on my shoulder to and mosied off to the bunkhouse to
carry it back to the cook shack and sleep.
figure out how to raise the money p^oj- Sam was beginning to take
to pay Jake on the only dare I had ^ conscientious view of this affair,
ever made. But, at that instant, Bv now he was as determined as I
there came Jake himself, jogging on that the pme would come down;
top of a loaded wagon. He positively however, he was entirelv unprepared
leered. That look decided me! to receive my most profound plan.
Well, he saw me strike the first ^ i • . ^ i
, , ' , T . .11 111 J^ou see, a whipsaw is lone and
blow, and I trusted he would hang i^ i^ ^- \^ £^^4. i^.„
' . r 1 1 ■ ^ slender — six or seven teet lone,
around tor eleven more days to see i -.i i ^i 4. ^4.1 t4- i . 4- rZ.
., . . , , 1 11 -^ and with hook teeth. It has two
this eiant crash downhill. 1 ii ^ ^ i. ^ j t4- ,-o
& handles, one on each end. It is
I swung, I hacked, I panted, and meant to be used by two men, each
all my labor merely dented the grasping a handle, as thev stand in
crusty bark. I little more than a pit dug around the tree. Thev
etched a line where I planned to brace themselves and pull and push
part this pine in two. The chips and press and strain, and, in due
looked pretty small and scattered, time, the sawdust gathers in little
I knew then that ax swinging was slopes beneath the blade. The great
not for me. triumph is reached when the fibers
So, really shouldering the ax this of the tree can no longer keep the
time, I strode resolutely back to my living patriarch upright. With great
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251
noise of splintering and crashing it
falls to earth. It measures its
length where for centuries its shad-
ow only has caressed the soil.
But note, it takes two men to
bring it dow^n! And I was only a
girl of twenty with never a saw in
my hands before.
'T^HAT night I gave it another try,
so to speak, and while I was
putting some milk on a shelf for the
cream to rise, I bumped my elbow,
and spilled some milk, and had to
wipe it up. That bump against the
shelf nudged forth the idea — why
not make a shelf for the saw to rest
on, that is, the other end from my
end. Or, since the saw had two
ends, each with a handle, why not
have the shelf long enough to rest
whatever end I was not using at the
moment. How perfectly wonder-
ful, I said to myself, maybe this is
sort of an invention!
The next day, the third of the
challenge, after breakfast I got Sam
to help me build just such a shelf
next to the tree about waist high.
After that I had to go back to the
cook shack to work. Bv now Sam
just as good as told me I was addled
in the head. In the interest of time,
he reasoned, I had alreadv lost one
fourth of it in just thinking.
When the men came in that
night they let me know that the
bench I had made by the tree was
pretty good and would be a nice
place to sit and read in the shade,
but would cost me twenty dollars as
a season's retreat. I said not a w^ord
in self-defense. And Sam, to his
credit, didn't give me away.
On the fourth day after my early
chores, I stalked up to the tree with
a sort of Paul Bunvan stride. The
whipsaw glistened in the sun and
its teeth gave promise of good work
as they caught my skirt with a sharp
snag. Then, looking around to see
that no one was near, I laid the saw
teeth to the tree, the far end on
the shelf; and threw my weight on
the handle to give it the first push.
It worked! The idea, I mean. It
worked, as back and forth I pulled
and pushed. In hard spots I walked
around the tree to the shelf end of
the saw and jerked it back through
a stubborn section. I worked fast,
I worked frantically. Before long,
small streams of sawdust were flow-
ing from the lengthening scratch in
the bark. I think the smell of the
damp, living tree slivers was the
sweetest perfume I had ever inhaled.
Nothing could stop me now.
After an hour of this pulling,
hauling, and running from on: end
of the saw to the other, Sam called
up the hill that I better get on d Avn
and mix the dough for tonight's
bread. I looked at the size of one
hour's sawing and realized that
already the width of the saw was lost
in the gash. (Only the silver ends
grew and lessened as I gave my
strength to the handles.) I forced it
another dozen pushes and pulls and
then went down to my cooking.
For a moment Sam had me
scared. 'AVhat if the tree falls up
canyon?" he asked. 'Ton won't get
your twenty bucks then!"
This just showed how little he
knew about lumbermen's ways. You
don't start sawing until you have
decided where the trunk shall fall.
I hadn't been in a lumber camp
every summer for ten years for noth-
ing.
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Vy/'ELL, let's get on by saying that
by using every spare moment,
and straining every muscle, and after
blistering both hands and coming
to use out-sized gloves, I knew I
could finish that pine in record
time. By actual sawing time, it took
me three hours and forty minutes
to cut through that wooden giant.
I don't know how many trips it took
me to get to it and hasten back to
watch my pots and pans, but it must
have been dozens.
How happy I was when it lay
there, pointing downhill, as Jake
had demanded. Why, I just jumped
upon its back and ran to the top
end, and sat down, laughing all
over. I was a little frightened, too,
in a way, when I considered how
huge it was — over fifty inches across
— and how small I was, and how
long it had grown there on Pine
Valley Mountain, and how, maybe,
the Lord just didn't want it ever
to be cut down.
That night at supper the men
were praising me no end for the saw-
ing and jokingly offered to trade
jobs with me. I said all I wanted
was my money and the lumber
sawed out of that big trunk.
Right there the whole plan struck
a snag. Jake sort of stopped laugh-
ing and said he didn't owe me the
twenty! I said he did, he said he
didn't, over and over, until I was
nearly in tears outside and crying
like a baby inside. I looked down
at my blistered fingers and vowed
to get that money if I never lived
another minute.
The upshot of it was that Jake
left the camp for a day or two. He
just couldn't stand me pestering him
night and morning. Finally, he
came back expecting the whole
thing to have blown over. But when
he found I was more determined
than ever to collect, and I had the
word of all the boys that he did
make the proposition, he just had
to admit to it. It seems as if, in
his mind, a game like that with a
girl was for fun! But then, he had
never run up against one like me!
I made him keep his word, too,
about hauling that tree to the saw-
mill, and by then he seemed pretty
cured of the whole affair.
And the lumber they sawed out
of that controversial pine tree! The
company gave me $320 for those
boards, and what with the twenty
from Jake, that made $340 for three
hours and forty minutes work, or
about one hundred dollars an hour.
I almost gave up cooking in favor of
sawing.
They were building Dixie College
in St. George at the time, and the
carpenters said my lumber went into
the stairway in the main building.
They were in use for nearly forty
years — educated steps, I always
thought. Somehow, whenever I
climbed those stairs I was reminded
of the one and only time I staked
my strength and determination for
money. Somehow, I couldn't figure
out whether I should have done
such a thing, even for once!
1
Thanks for the Magazine
Linnie F. Robinson
decided to stop quilting for a moment and write a letter of appreciation
for the many fine articles published in our Magazine. I have, in my
mind, written many such letters about various editorials, stories, or poems,
and I have read what others have written in 'Trom Near and Far'' and
mentally assented to their words. But, today, it occurred to me while I
was quilting a third lounging robe that some words of appreciation ought
to be written.
I made two robes that were so lovely and yet so practical that I am
now making a third. I got the idea in the September 1961 issue from the
article by Holly B. Keddington, and decided that by quilting the robe she
described, I could have something warm, yet washable and beautiful.
I used nylon print for the top, dacron batt, and white nylon lining, so
the robes will wash and wear and look lovely indeed. Prior to this I have
made only wool flannel lounging robes. The quilted nylon robe makes
a more practical gift, I think.
I remember a few years ago an article came out showing some beauti-
ful gold sprayed roses in a three-tiered epergne (The Rdiei Society Maga-
zine, December 1957, page 802). Since I had a large box of various kinds
of artificial roses stored away, I made some up, and they were lovely. I
still have the gold roses tucked away, and I found that paper roses spray
easiest and best. But the interesting thing about it all is that wherever
I went I found that others had made these lovely gilded blossoms, too,
and had read the article. I might add that my garden efforts are more
successful because I read the Magazine garden articles, and they arouse
my enthusiasm. I don't need to mention the food articles — as long as
there are women who cook, new recipes will be eagerly sought after.
I have heard all my life so much comment in praise of the Magazine
that I think its worth, with some of us, is something like day and night —
taken for granted. As a stake worker, I visited many wards and have heard
women, as they express gratitude for the Relief Society organization, also
express gratitude for the Magazine. I have heard them tell how they found
stories, poems, editorials, or sermons therein that had solved some prob-
lem or had helped them in their daily life.
Perhaps because I write, I have often been invited to speak in Sunday
evening Relief Society programs, at stake leadership meetings, and March
anniversary celebrations in other stakes and wards in surrounding areas,
and I found that what was true in our stake was also true in these others.
So I close with a wish that as long as there are Latter-day Saint women
may there also be found the inspiration and blessing of our treasured
Magazine.
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Sixty Years Ago
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, April 1902
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
THE DAY IN ^^mCH ^^^E LIVE: Thousands of women have been praymg for
this day and age in which we h\e, and are now basking in its sunshine of progress and
development; the prophets and seers of old, the sages and poets all down along the
line have lifted their \oices in anticipation of such a time, a day of freedom that has
already begun to dawn; its roseate light of splendor is lighting up the exerlasting hills
of promise. . . . The faith of the many who thirsted for righteousness has so far pre-
\ailcd that greater light has come into the world and broader charity and love is being
disseminated, truth that will dispel the darkness of error. . . .
— Editorial
APRIL'S AFIELD
April's afield! April's in the air!
Almost you may see each hour
\\'illows that at dawn were bare,
Meadows that were brown,
On which the lengthening mellow day has burned,
Creep into green before the sun goes down.
And some black bough while mortal backs were turned,
Swift stolen into flower. . . .
— Selected
RELIEF SOCIETY ANNIVERSARY IN BENNINGTON, IDAHO: The
sixtieth anniversar}- of the organization of Relief Society was duly celebrated. ... An
address of welcome was given by President Margaret VanOrman, after which a pro-
gram of speeches and songs and instrumental music was rendered. An excellent sketch
of the life of Aunt Zina Young was given by Sister Rebecca Lindsay. ... At two o'clock
one hundred and se^'enty people were seated at the tables which were loaded with a
delicious dinner. . . .At 3:30 the program was continued, consisting of singing, in-
strumental music and step dancing. . , .
— An Observer
A GIFT FOR PRESIDENT THEODORE ROOSEVELT'S WIFE: Mrs.
Roosevelt has received a gift from President Diaz of Mexico, consisting of three pieces
of exquisitely drav\'n linen. They are said to be the most beautiful specimens that
ha\e e\er come to this country, and were sent to Mrs. Roosevelt as a special recogni-
tion of her encouragement to the Imen workers in Porto Rico.
— News Note
But there is One who knoweth — thy worth the angels tell.
And thy reward is doubly sure — He doeth all things well!
— Ellis R. Shipp
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
A/rRS. MARVIN (JOJEAN)
LOFLIN was the one woman
on the four-member team of Brig-
ham Young University students who
defeated four other college teams in
succession on the national television
program ''College Bowl" — a weekly
battle of brains and academic infor-
mation. The other students were
Robert Despain, Todd A. Britsch,
and David Stone. On the fifth
round, the 'T" students were de-
feated by Depauw University. Mrs.
Loflin, who has a two-vear old son
and will be graduated in June, was
noted among the students of all the
teams for her wide knowledge and
quick answers. She is an active
Latter-day Saint young woman. The
team won $6,500 in scholarships for
the Brigham Young University and
respect from audiences.
JTELEN HAYES, ''Great Lady of
the American Theater," is pic-
tured as a devoted, wise, and sen-
sible mother in an article in the
February issue of Good Housekeep-
ing by her beloved adopted son,
James MacArthur. She gave him
his first piano lessons; she paints and
does sculpturing and designs and
makes dresses as hobbies — all ex-
cellently; she has been awarded
seven honorary degrees. She has
recently been received with great
acclaim, traveling and acting with
the Theater Guild, first in Europe,
then in thirteen South American
countries — as a representative of
the United States in the cultural ex-
change program.
lyrRS. WILMA RUDOLPH
WARD, the outstanding wom-
an track athlete in the United States,
was voted the 1961 James E. Sulli-
van Award as top athlete in this
countrv. Her runner-up was Tommv
Kono, world champion weightlifter
from Honolulu.
lyrRS. GLADYS SCHMITT, pro-
fessor of English at Carnegie
Institute of Technology, did a vast
amount of painstaking and accurate
research for her recently published
fictional biography of the great
seventeenth-century Dutch painter
Rembrandt. The writing is brilliant
and the facts are adhered to closely.
CYL\TA PORTER (Mrs. G.
Sumner Collins), business col-
umnist, and economics analvst, has
a potential reading public of more
than twenty-three million people.
Her daily column "Your Dollar"
appears in 311 newspapers, "giving
her a distribution vastlv wider than
that of any other syndicated busi-
ness columnist."
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 49
APRIL 1962
NO. 4
\\
I Will Pour Out My Spirit"
Tj^ROM a meeting of six people in
a small town in New York
State to over a million and three-
quarter people located on every con-
tinent in the world — these figures
represent the growth in member-
ship of The Church of Jesus Christ
since it was restored to the earth in
1830, one hundred thirty- two years
ago this April 6.
In speaking of the organizational
meeting, the Prophet Joseph Smith
wrote:
We dismissed with the pleasing knowl-
edge that we were now individually mem-
bers of, and acknowledged of God, "The
Church of Jesus Christ," organized in ac-
cordance with commandments and revela-
tions given by Him to ourselves in these
last days, as well as according to the order
of the Church as recorded in the New
Testament {DHC 1:79).
To Latter-day Saints today the
growth of the Church seems phe-
nomenal, yet to the Prophet Joseph
and succeeding prophets of the Lord
this growth was to be expected, for
a vision of the destiny of the Church
has been theirs. In 1843, the
Prophet Joseph declared:
Take Jacob Zundell and Frederick H.
Moeser . . . and send them to Germany;
and when you meet with an Arab, send
him to Arabia; when you find an Italian,
send him to Italy; and a Frenchman, to
France; or an Indian that is suitable, send
him among the Indians. Send them to
the different places where they belong.
Send somebody to Central America and
to all Spanish America; and don't let a
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single corner of the earth go without a
mission {DHC V:^6S).
From and even before the time
of the organization of the Church,
the gospel net began to draw in its
own. Converts in this country and
Canada and in the old countries,
aflame with the spirit of gathering,
sailed the oceans and rode the riv-
ers; ox teams plodded and saints
walked laboriously the one thousand
miles of dry land to their resting
place in the Rocky Mountains. Be-
fore his martyrdom the Prophet
Joseph foretold that the saints would
become a mighty people in the
midst of the Rocky Mountains.
Isaiah of ancient times had declared.
And it shall come to pass in the last
days, that the mountain of the Lord's
house shall be established in the top of the
mountains, and shall be exalted above the
hills, and all nations shall flow unto it
( Isaiah 2:2).
The saints have become a mighty
people in the midst of the Rocky
Mountains, and the gathering con-
tinues but, still obedient to the
voices of the prophets, the gathering
of the saints in this day is in stakes,
some far removed from Church
headquarters, which are designated
as places of gatherings for the saints,
and where the greatest blessings of
the sealing power have now been
made available.
The Savior is the head of the
Church, and his mind and will are
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revealed to the Church members will be obedient to the Priesthood
through his chosen prophets. The in their homes, teach and train their
members must have listening ears sons and daughters, as called, to go
and accept the counsel, admonitions, on missions, teach righteous prin-
and warnings of the present leaders ciples and themselves lead exem-
and follow them implicitly. Joel plary lives.
spoke of the day when the Lord said, If every Relief Society member is
"I will pour out my spirit upon all a missionary — by precept when
flesh" (Joel 2:28). The wonderful called and always by example — each
progress taking place in the Church one will then be participating in the
could be in fulfillment of that blessings described in holy writ as
prophecy. ''How beautiful upon the moun-
As the Church spreads over the tains are the feet of him that bring-
earth, so the organization of Relief eth good tidings, that publisheth
Society spreads, that it may ac- peace" (Isaiah 52:7).
complish its divine purpose among This is a glorious day in which to
the sisters and for the blessing of be permitted to live, and glorious
the Church members generally. The accomplishments are expected of
present prophet, President David O. those who are living now. May Re-
McKay, has declared ''Every Church lief Society live up to its blessings
member a missionary." If Relief and great opportunities in this day
Society is to keep pace in its desig- of phenomenal growth and expan-
nated place in the Church, then sion.
members will heed this injunction, — M. C. S.
Music
Padda M. Speller
The sunset on majestic peaks
Glows richer than before;
Sweeter sound the mountain creeks
When we have music at our core.
Verdant valleys greener seeming,
Birds, more graceful, swifter dart.
Beauty far beyond our dreaming
When we have music in our heart.
With humble dignity we are shod,
And to nobility inclined.
Walking hand in hand with God,
When we have music in our mind.
In melody, and sweetly, flows
Life on, and when years take their toll
There is joy, contentment, and repose,
When we have music in our soul.
TloioA. TO THE FIELD
Lesson Previews to Appear in the June Issue
of The Relief Society Magazine
T
HE previews for the 1962-63 lessons will appear in the June 1962 issue
of The Relief Society Magazine, and the lessons for October will be in
the July 1962 issue. In order to obtain the June issue of the Magazine
it will be necessary for renewals and new subscriptions to reach the General
Offices by the first of May 1962. It is suggested that Magazine representa-
tives check their lists immediately so that all Relief Society members will
receive all of the issues containing the lessons. It is suggested that ward
presidents make this announcement in the April meetings.
Starless Interlude
Annie Atkin Tanner
There is an hour between the close of clay,
And the coming in of night,
When t\\ ilight drapes the granite folds of mountainsides,
The darkening blue of sea and sky,
The edge of desert loneliness,
With a strange, translucent beauty.
This is a time for quiet meditation,
When tired day welcomes in the tranquil evening time.
The gentle call of drowsy, nesting birds.
The sighing sound of wind in willow trees,
The mist-gray velvet of the changing dusk.
In this hour of starless interlude,
We seek for understanding and compassion.
For those who sometimes walk alone;
We ask for courage to meet the problems of each day.
For faith and hope and peace in all the world.
In the twilight hour, we humbly pray.
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Cancer Education, Research, and Service
Rutherford L. Ellis
Chairman, Board of Directors, American Cancer Society
CTATISTICIANS tell us that in 1962 about 275,000 Americans will die
of cancer; that over the years, the disease will strike in approximately
two of three American families. Lifting from mankind the burden of
cancer's immense tool is one of the greatest challenges that face humanity.
The American Cancer Society's Annual Educational and Fund-raising
Crusade helps to meet these challenges.
There has been encouraging progress. This year marks the 25th
anniversary of the following two significant e\ents in the American strug-
gle to conquer cancer:
1. Enactment of a National Cancer Institute Act which created the National
Cancer Institute.
2. Launching by the American Cancer Society of its first Nation-uide, pubhc
education campaign out of which was to come a broad program of education, research,
and service through vohmtary support.
The year 1962 has been designated ''Cancer Progress Year." The ob-
jectives of the National Cancer Listitute and the American Cancer Societv
in this year will be to report to the public on where science now stands in
cancer research, to intensify the efforts being made to persuade the public
to act for its own protection, to improve the care of the cancer patient, and
to step up all programs to speed the final victorv over cancer.
There are now 1,100,000 Americans ali\'e today, who have been cured
of cancer. This means they are alive without evidence of the disease at
least five years after diagnosis and treatment. An additional 700,000 can-
cer patients diagnosed and treated within the last five years will live to
enter the ranks of those we call ''cured." However, about 87,000 cancer
patients will probablv die in 1962, who might have been saved bv earlier
and better treatment. These needless deaths are a tragic reminder that we
must redouble our efforts in this great fight.
Join with the two million volunteers of the American Cancer Society
and "To Cure More, Give More."
Doing Good
Catherine B. Bowles
The day is ended.
Have you offended
Someone along the way?
Were burdens made lighter.
Did the sun shine brighter,
For the weary and worn today?
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A Name Before the Lord
EJJen Taylor Hazard
REA looked with pride at her
first child, as he lay by her
side upon the hospital bed.
He was dressed in the softest of soft^
new, blue cotton flannel nighties,
and wrapped in one of his beautiful
new blankets, all ready to make his
first trip out through the sand dunes
and date groves of Coachella Valley,
to his home. Rea settled the collar
of her dainty, fresh duster and
wished that Steve would hurry. The
later he was, the hotter it would be,
and, besides, she was anxious to be
home again with her husband and
new baby. She wondered if the
wind last night had left the usual
little windrows of sand upon win-
dow and doorsill.
''Hi, honey." Steve's cheerful
voice spoke from the doorway.
She turned quickly, ''Oh, Steve, I
thought you would never get here.
They are about to charge us for
another day, you are so late." But
the rebuke was softened by her smile
and affectionate kiss as he came
closer.
"Don't worry, darling. I have
already paid the bill, and they did
not charge us for an extra day!" He
hugged her gently, as if she would
break, and bent over to get a closer
look at his son.
"Mmmm, looks like Grandpa, I
should say."
"Oh, no, Steve. He looks like
you. . . ." She started to protest.
A nurse bustled in with a wheel
chair.
"Who in the world is that for?"
Rea protested.
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"You will be tired by the time
you ride all that way home, Mrs.
Baker. You will wish you had this
chair then," the nurse replied, help-
ing her into the chair in a no-non-
sense fashion, and placing the baby
on her lap. She took them down
the emergency ramp and out to the
parking lot.
When the outer door swung
open, a blast of hot air, as though
from an oven, hit them in the face.
Rea gasped a little, and as soon as
she had climbed into the middle-
aged pick-up, unwrapped the baby.
Their drive took them west, past
the date orchards whose lofty tree-
tops cast a deceptively cool-looking
shade within the groves, then past
several grapefruit orchards, and,
finally, onto a dusty road which ran
erratically through the barren Cali-
fornia desert toward the hills. At
last, in the distance, she could see
their own young date trees, hardly
big enough yet to cast a shade, and
on the other side of the road, the
new little grapefruit trees, looking
dusty and sparse among the barren
fiats.
"Reason I was so late," Steve ex-
plained as they neared home, "was
that we had a dust storm last night,
and I didn't want you to come home
to the house like that, so I went all
over it before I went after you."
"Thank you for doing that, Steve
darling. I did hate the thoughts of
the dust after that wind last night."
npHEY drove into the carport, and
Steve hopped out quickly and
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261
ran around and tenderly lifted the
baby into his arms for the first time.
''Come to your Dad, Hy. My aren't
you the big thing!'' he added as he
felt the smallness of his new son.
A shadow crossed Rea's face at
Steve's use of the name "Hy." *1
didn't name him that, Steve. Re-
member, I said I did not like it?''
she asked hesitantly.
'Tes, but you wanted to name
him that sissy name — what was it?"
Lanny.
"And I didn't like that, and be-
sides, it doesn't mean anything, so
I just thought you had called him
Hyrum." Steve looked rather im-
patient, but seeing how wan Rea
suddenly looked, standing there in
the heat, he hurried her inside and
helped her to lie down on the daven-
port near the cooler, before he
pursued the subject further. Then,
with the baby still on his arm, he
sat down beside her and said more
gently, "Well, dear, what did you
name him?"
"I didn't name him anything,"
she said. "I thought about Hyrum,
as you said to, but I still didn't like
it." Then she put her hand over
her mouth in alarm, "Oh, Steve, we
were supposed to stop at the desk
on the way out of the hospital and
tell them what we had decided —
and then that nurse was in such a
hurry, she took us the other way, and
I forgot all about it."
"Oh, well, I can stop and tell
them what we have decided next
time I am in town," he said, molli-
fied that she had not named his son
without his consent.
"Yes, I am sure we will find one
we both like. I thought of a new
one we had not tried before, just
this morning. It is Lowen, how do
you like that?"
"Well, not too bad, but, honey,
when we have so many wonderful
men in the family, and in the
Church, or even in the Nation to
name him after, why do we have to
pick one out of thin air? I think
that names have, or can have, a
great influence on their owners.
If we give him one like that, he
won't have anyone to pattern after."
"Nonsense, Steve! He will pat-
tern after you — and what more
could anyone ask?" and she pulled
Steve's cheek down against hers for
a moment. "If the name had not
already been used by your sister, I
would want him to be Stephen, like
you — it is even a rather pretty
name, I think."
"Boys' names are not supposed to
be pretty, like girls' names, honey.
They are supposed to have more of
a, well, a solid sound, and I think
they should mean something. That
is — when your name is also that
of a person you admire, you will
naturally try to emulate that per-
son." Steve tried hard to get his
point across.
"I know that," Rea agreed, "but
I think the name should sound nice,
too. It is too bad your parents did
not give you a middle name, we
might have used that, but we will
think of one yet. Don't you worry."
"I wish you did not dislike Hyrum
so much, though, because it is
Grandpa's name, and he not only is
a fine person himself, but he was
named after the Prophet Joseph
Smith's brother, who was a real
servant of the Lord, a truly great
man. Think what an example that
would be to our son."
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Rea looked thoughtful for a mo-
ment, then slowly shook her head.
"It sounds so, well, old-fashioned/'
she said gravely, '1 am sure I would
never like it."
Steve tried not to show his dis-
appointment, as he rose to put the
baby down and get their lunch, but
it was a serious matter to him, and
his usually irrepressible good spirits
were subdued as he pondered the
situation. Rea had joined the
Church shortly before they were
married, and there were many things
in which her different background
showed up. He had expected her to
throw away a great many of her old
attitudes in a bundle, and then fill
the void with new, once she was
baptized. Now he began to realize
that each old one had to be literally
pushed out by a better one, before
it would give way.
As Steve moved quickly about the
kitchen, he resolved that he would
not say anything more to spoil her
first day at home. The naming
could come later. When he re-
turned to the living room with a
tray for her and one for himself, he
seemed cheerful once more. She
responded thankfully, and vowed to
herself that she would find a name
they could agree upon.
The days flew by. Rea gained her
strength fast, for she had always
been strong and athletic. Now she
used her strength in caring for
home and family, and even helping
outside at times.
The hospital sent them an urgent
letter, asking that they be notified
what the babv's name was, so the
birth could be recorded, but they
could not reach a decision.
A T last the month was drawing
to a close.
''We will have to decide on this
fellow's name prettv soon," Steve
said one morning, leaning over and
chucking his son under the chin.
''It will soon be Fast Sunday and
time to give him his blessing and
name before the Lord."
"If your family only had a single
name in it that sounded nice, we
could," Rea said with asperity. She
was sorry as soon as she had said it,
for Steve's mouth drew down, and
in a moment he had gone out of the
door and she heard the pickup
tires throw gravel as he drove out of
the driveway.
Oh, dear, whv is it so hard for me
to give in, she thought in distress,
or why can't he give in? I ha\e
suggested so many names, surely one
of them would do, but no, it has
to be Hyrum.
The morning dragged on. At
lunch time, she prepared an extra
nice lunch, but Steve did not come.
He was watering away down at the
farthest end of the orchards, and
she could not take the babv so far
in the heat, so there was nothing to
do but wait until he came.
The afternoon was even longer
than the morning. The thunder
clouds seemed to be building up
over the mountains, even more than
usual, and the air was laden with
moisture. The cooling system did
not seem to help much, and she
turned it off.
Toward five o'clock she noticed
that the sun was obscured, and soon
it became so oppressive in the house
that she took the baby up, putting
a small blanket over her arm first,
so that his little bare back would
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263
not be against her skin and cause
him to perspire all the more, then
went outside to find Steve.
Flashes of sheet lightning filled
the sk\- as she walked along on the
damp earth between the rows of
small trees, but she was not afraid.
She rather liked the fury of the
storm than feared it. She did think
it better to be on dry ground,
though, for fear one of the great
streaks of lightning might strike near
and be conducted to her. She
turned and hurried to the side of
the orchard and walked along there.
As she neared the end of the tree
rows, she looked everv wav for
Steve, but he was not there. She
could not see the pickup either, and
felt verv tired, and let-down. The
baby was getting heavy on her arm,
and she shifted him to her shoulder.
The clouds had gathered so thick-
ly that it would have been nearly
dark, except for the continual sheets
of lightning in the sky, which
illumined the whole countryside in
an eerie manner. There was a shal-
low draw near the end of the orch-
ard leading to higher ground. Think-
ing she might catch sight of the
pickup from there, she decided to
go on up.
Gusts of wind tore down from
the hills, as she toiled along, making
it even harder to walk in the soft
sand. She wrapped the blanket
about the babv, thankful that she
had brought it. Soon, big, splashy
drops of rain thudded down, borne
by the wind.
It must be raining up there, she
thought idly, enjoying the huge
drops on her face, but after a few
more steps she heard a strange,
rushing sound. In utter disbelief,
she saw a huge wall of water not
more than fifty feet away at the
head of the draw. For a split sec-
ond, she watched its tumbling eon-
fusion as it broke over the edge and
bore down upon her, then, with a
high-pitched scream, she turned to
the left and ran up the side on slip-
ping feet, through the sand.
VX/'ITH a desperate glance over
the top of the baby's head, she
saw she would not be able to get
clear. Instantly she stopped, braced
her feet as best she could, and,
using the blanket as a sling, threw
him awav from her as far as she
could. He left her hand just as
the water caught her ankles, swirled
the sand from under her feet, and,
alreadv off-balance from the throw,
she fell sideways and rolled over
and over, pushed on by the rolling
water, until, miraculously, she felt
a small bush under her and grasped
it and held it long enough to stop
her wild roll. She braced herself by
it for a moment, feeling the water
level subside around her as the
crest passed.
The baby! ''Oh, please, oh, let
him be safe!'' she pleaded over and
over as she struggled with all her
might to get free, not knowing
whether he had tumbled back into
the water or not. Her movements
felt hindered, even after the water
sank away, as though she still strug-
gled against it. She could not move
fast enough. Her breath came in
great gasps as she climbed to the
top of the rise, and with a sob of
thanksgiving saw the baby lying,
face down on the ground, his
blanket a few feet away, where he
had rolled out of it.
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Rushing to him, she snatched
him up, fearful anew that he was
hurt, but the quick jerk of her
hands caused him to catch his
breath, which had been knocked
completely out of him. His lungs
inflated, and in the next instant he
screamed with all the pent-up fear
a young babe can know.
He lived! Gratitude flooded her
being, and she sank upon her knees
and gave thanks to God.
COMETIME later, Rea realized
that she was sitting upon the
ground, cold and shaking uncon-
trollably. The baby had cried him-
self into exhaustion and slept re-
laxed upon her lap. She put her
ear to his mouth. His breathing
was soft and regular.
The peak of the storm had passed,
and a big moon rolled high in the
sky, in and out among the clouds.
By its light she examined the baby
more closely. His face was swollen
and bruised. A knot had appeared
behmd his ear where he had evi-
dently hit a small rock. The place
was cut too, but not badly. The
blanket must have still been around
him when he hit. Shuddering anew
at thoughts of what might have
been, Rea bowed her head and gave
thanks again.
While she sat thus bowed over
the child in the most humble
thanksgiving of her life, memory of
the controversy between her and
her husband came back to her mind.
Suppose her baby had died without
even a name, she thought suddenly.
How horrible! Why had they been
so stubborn — why had she been so
stubborn? Now she saw her own
attitude in a new light, as trivial
and selfish. Steve was right. Their
son's name should be one to which
honor had already been brought
through the life of a godly man
who held it.
When she heard Steve's voice
calling her in panic and desperation,
she rose and ran on swift feet to
meet him. She could hardly wait
to tell him, and when they drew
near to each other, running and
holding out the boy, she called out,
''His name is Hyrum, darling."
And as his arms closed around
them, she knew she would love that
name forever.
Point of View
Gladys Hessei Burn ham
Some folks think mountains hem one in.
Obstruct a lengthening scene,
Their rocky crags frown down in awe
To dwarf — almost demean.
These friendly arms encircle me,
I lift my eyes to God;
Illimitable, protective might,
Their height's a beckoning rod.
My Son Is on a Mission
Agnes K. Morgan
AS our missionary force grows, I hear many mothers tell of their sons and of their
places of labor. Then I wonder if these other mothers share some of the same
emotions and thoughts that are mine. When our son left, I was tired, sad, and was
filled with an immense feeling of regret for all the things that I had not done; yet,
I was so very, very grateful for this worthy son. I carried a quiet joy in my heart,
seeking not to be proud except in gratitude to the Lord for such a precious son.
My soul knelt inside of mc to thank my Father in heaven, while my head was raised
high in radiance of the joy of the gospel.
I was slow to clear away things and close his desk; slow to put away the evi-
dence of his living here; reluctant at night to lock the front door and turn out the
lights, for I still waited for the sound of his car and his arri\'al home. I prepared good
family meals — the number at the table seemed small.
To sustain me, there was a sweeping gratitude for worthy sons, for my husband
and our other precious children; gratitude for the principles of the gospel that have
made these blessings possible; gratitude that other mothers have reared fine sons to be
companions to mine in the mission field; gratitude that this was our third son to do
missionary work.
I am so glad that I could open the door within my heart and let my son go.
Now, I close that door, knowing those lovely memories behind it are always there;
knowing that as I close this door, another is opening in visions of hope and love and
faith, and new activity; knowing that always, with each child, doors open to new vistas
and close on finished chapters, while mothers become wiser in the ways of children —
and doors — and understanding.
Thus we gain a fulness of living, with joy in that fulness, and a testimony.
"For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will
help thee" (Isaiah 41:13).
I Would Follow Thee
Mildred Wenhvorth
Jesus Christ, Redeemer, too,
I would lea\e all and follow you.
Thou art the light upon the hill;
A beacon guiding mc until
My time upon this earth is past.
And, kneeling at thy feet at last,
I hear thy sweet commanding voice
Say, "Come to me. Rejoice, rejoice."
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^'Singing Sermons''
CaroJine Eyn'ng Miner
A yTY mother knew almost every song in the hymn book by heart. She was not a
■*--■- talented singer, but she could cany a tune with enthusiasm and some accuracy,
and she loved to sing. Sometimes, on a Sunday afternoon, she would gather us around
the piano, which had known better days, and, starting with "Abide With Me," we would
sing through to "Dear to the Heart of the Shepherd," which, as I remember, was in
those days, the last song in the book.
"Count Your Many Blessings" was a favorite of Mother's, and she impressed its
message upon us. There was never anyone who was more of an optimist than she.
I often thought she was thankful that she didn't have anything except the spirit of
being thankful. Now I know that is truly something to be thankful for.
"Angry Words! Oh, Let Them Never From the Tongue Unbridled Slip," we learned
as a duet, and its message sank deep into my heart. Family harmony was a realit)' in
more ways than one. "Do What Is Right ... let the consequence follow" put the
fearless militancy of the crusader into our hearts. It was Mother's Father's favorite
and exemplified his fearlessness well. We were rewarded with a dime each for learn-
ing the words of this magnificent hymn from beginning to end.
In our home evenings we usually sang "Love at Home," page 49. It was easy
to find and could be counted upon to set the proper mood. The words were then
sung automatically, but the phrases come back to me again and again with renewed
significance. "There is joy in every sound when there's love at home, . . . Oh, there's
One who smiles on high when there's love at home."
"O My Father," with its plaintive melody and its bitter sweetness of sad associa-
tions at funerals was another song Mother loved to sing. The greatest favorite, though,
was "There Is an Hour of Peace and Rest."
There is an hour of peace and rest,
Unmarred by earthly care;
'Tis when before the Lord I go.
And kneel in secret prayer.
May my heart be turned to pray.
Pray in secret day by day. . . .
These "sung sermons" have stayed with me much longer than the unsung ones,
maybe because I was not conscious of their being sermons at all. By contrast, I
tremble to think of the "sung sermons" some of our children are getting from tele-
vision and radio without supervision. Maybe, as parents, we had better start singing
more sermons of our own.
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A Latter-day Saint Schoolteacher
in Beaver, Alaska
Elizabeth Peterson Zahiiskie
THIS is our second Sunday in friends, went rabbit hunting and re-
Beaver, and in many ways it turned shortly with three rabbits,
seems as if we have been here These, with food left from the
much longer. The time has been school lunch program, provided us
spent in varied activities, some new with food.
experiences, and others the usual The plane returned in the eve-
routine business of getting settled. ning with our bedding and the few
Our trip was pleasant, highlighted groceries I had purchased in Fair-
by meeting with friends in Fairbanks banks, and thus we spent the first
and spending an enjoyable evening day in our new home,
talking over old times. We attended The school is a large building and
church in the new chapel, which a landmark to every river and air
was quite a change from the time pilot in this region. More than its
when we held our meetings in the size accounts for this fame, however,
homes of members. We also visited for to keep the generator working
our old home on the farm outside properly we must burn the lights
of Fairbanks and the University of all the time and they can be seen
Alaska, both showing some growth, for miles. At night we turn lights
but still familiar. on, instead of out. The water is
From Fairbanks to Beaver we flew hauled from the river in large bar-
in an old B-17 loaded with freight rels and left to stand so the dirt
and moose hunters. This was a will settle, then it is pumped into a
rough flight, and before we reached large tank for use in the school. The
Fort Yukon the boys were air sick, hot water tank is very small, so I
It got worse from Fort Yukon to must heat all water for washing and
Beaver, so I joined them, and when bathing. We also boil all water we
we finally arrived the plane couldn't drink, and even this gets pretty dark
land, so we returned to Fort Yukon and thick toward the bottom of the
and the ''bush pilot" took us and a jug. In fact, at first, the boys
little of our luggage into Beaver, thought it was punch, but like
The weather was windy, wet, and everything else we soon got used
chilly, but the faces of the people to it and the taste really isn't bad.
who met the plane were bright and Our quarters are comfortably
smiling and we were happy to see furnished except for the curtains,
them. and these I have ordered from a
The engineer who accompanied catalogue. The dishes and silver are
us from Fairbanks soon had the strictly G.I. We have oil heat and
generator and fires going. He hired so far it has been warm, except for
the school janitor who had been the floors, but the boys have wool
here last year, and he began hauling socks and if I wear two pairs of
water. The boys, with their new anklets it is comfortable. We have
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POST OFFICE IN BEAVER, ALASKA
The author, Elizabeth P. Zabriskie, and her sons Duane and Sheldon are seen
standing on the steps.
storm windows now, but Moses
(the janitor) says there are more to
go up before it gets cold. We have
two bedrooms, a bath, living room,
kitchen, and a little radio room
where I send and receive all mes-
sages for the village. There is a guest
room upstairs, and it is one of my
duties to provide food and lodging
for all health and welfare personnel
who visit the village. Judging from
the past week, we will not be lone-
some, for we have had a guest nearly
every night, and this week we are
expecting the X-ray unii: in the vil-
lage. The school is the center of
all village activity, and I, the teacher,
am expected to be in charge of
it all.
/^UTSIDE of teaching and enter-
taining guests, my duties in-
clude planning menus and organ-
izing the hot lunch program (the
mothers do the cooking), arranging
for movies to be shown once a week,
dispensing all drugs to the natives in
the village, each day report over the
radio to the hospital in Tanana any
sickness in the village, and receive
instructions as to what to do about
it. Each evening I have radio con-
tact with Fairbanks to receive any
telegrams or telephone messages and
to send any messages from here, and
there are times when the traffic is
quite heavy, as the other night we
were on the air from 8:00 p.m. to
11:25 trying to get three messages
through. Another day one of the
missionaries from the village was
reported lost on a flight to Fair-
banks, and we were on the air re-
ceiving messages until he was re-
ported safe early the next morning.
The village is small, consisting of
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one-room log cabins, two stores, one
of which is also the Post Office, two
churches, the Episcopal and the As-
sembly of God. The village is
located on the banks of the Yukon,
a beautiful setting, with pine and
birch trees surrounding it. From
the front of our house we can see a
few cabins and the river; from the
back we can see the air strip, and
the cemetery where the wind and
weather have erased the names
from most of the markers. This takes
in the whole village, not much, but
really a very pleasant place.
It started snowing on September
27 and has snowed a little each day
since, except today which is a beau-
tiful sunny day, but the tempera-
ture was seven degrees above zero
this morning, and even with the
sun shining it hasn't risen much. We
are waiting for the river to freeze
enough for ice skating, which should
be very soon, but they say the snow
soon gets too deep, so there is really
a very short time for skating, but we
are looking forward to that little
time and so is everyone in the vil-
lage. It also gets too cold to spend
much time outside, some claim it
has been seventy-three below, but
the records show sixty-four below as
the coldest day last year.
The people in the village have
had their dog sleds out for about a
week, and Duane and I are good
riders, but that doesn't satisfy Shel-
don, and he is learning to drive
them. We have been promised a
pup right away, so we may start a
team of our own, or that is what the
boys are planning.
I
started to teach school on the
second of October, with thirty-
four students, ranging in ages from
six to eighteen and grades one to
eight. This is not as difficult as it
may sound for they are all glad to
be in school, and there are only two
in the third and fifth grades, so I
can put them with other groups,
making only six groups. The children
THE SCHOOLHOUSE IN BEA\^ER, ALASKA
The dense forest can be seen in the background. The \illage of Beaver is located
on the Yukon River in a setting of majestic beauty.
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are liappy, friendly, and willing,
which makes teaching them a joy.
There are Indians, Eskimos, and
mixtures of Indian, Eskimo, White,
Negro, and Japanese. I haven't
figured out which is which yet, but
it makes sehoolteaching interesting.
We are supposed to receive mail
three times a week, but the weather
has been so bad since we arrived
that it has only been in twice, and
though we can receive and send mes-
sages over the radio, it does seem
quite isolated when we don't receive
mail.
Now that things are settling down
to a routine, we can honestly say we
are enjoying it, the boys learning to
hunt and dog sled and making
friends with the children, and I am
enjoying my teaching very much. It
is nice to be in a place where the
people really seem to want you.
In Fairbanks, on our way to
Beaver, one of the brethren took us
to our church and showed us the
town. Since then, the three of us
have held Sunday School and Pri-
mary in our home. The boys have
told the whole village we are Latter-
day Saints and what we believe. I
have become very good friends with
the Episcopal minister and his wife,
but so far we haven't expressed our
views on religion, but I have been
invited to the Girls Friendly Society
of the Episcopal Church to tell
them about our Church. These
experiences are strengthening our
testimonies. Sheldon and Duane
are studying The Book of Mormon.
We like the village and the people
very much. They are friendly and
quite well educated. They all speak
English. They want to be friends;
they bring us moose, salmon, and
slippers and mittens, which they
have made. They come and ask if
they can help me with anything, so
I feel quite at home and among
friends.
I feel the Lord has really blessed
us, and pray I can help my boys and
myself along in our faith.
Fame's Prayer
Leora Larsen
God, humble me through the glory of day.
And cushion the cold numbness of my night
With knowledge that I have not lost the way.
And thou wilt keep me always in thy sight.
A Compliment Cast on the Waters
Evelyn Dorio
T~^0 you ever feel as if you perform the million and one tasks around the house
-*-^ without anyone ever noticing or appreciating it? If you didn't put fresh water
in the dog's dish, poor Fido would die of thirst; if you didn't pick up throw-away papers,
the front lawn would sprout newsprint; if you didn't say, "This window screen needs
replacing," your house would become headquarters for winged insects; if you didn't. . . .
Such was my state of mind the morning the telephone rang and a co-worker of my
husband's said, "Say, what's this special flower blooming in your patio today? Your
husband says it's out of this world — six inches across, maybe seven, iridescent petals,
and the stamens look like a white flower growing inside a bigger flower. What do
you have, there? Did someone bring you a souvenir from outer space?"
"It must be the hybrid epiphyllum," I replied. And when had my husband
noticed all that?
"Hybrid epiphyllum!" exclaimed the man. "That's my hobby. Will you exchange
a cutting for a nice little citrus tree, tub and all? Grafted, too. You'll get oranges
and lemons and pink grapefruit — maybe."
After we hung up, I went outside to look at the "outer-space" flower. It really
was exquisite. Sprinkling it earlier that morning, my thoughts had been too filled
with self-pit}' to notice. But why hadn't my husband told me how beautiful it was?
Instead, he told the whole office. Just wait until he gets home! But a moment later,
I thought, no, if he had praised me, I would ha\e felt a momentary pride, and the
compliment would have ended there, died there. But since he needed to express it,
the whole office was sharing this spectacular blossom.
In the afternoon the epiphyllum hobbyist came to take colored slides of the
flower, and within a week I had received a dozen compliments and exchanged cuttings
with four other office people.
Besides, my patio now has a tubbed citrus tree that may yield oranges and lemons
and pink grapefruit — maybe.
Viyeeds
CeJia Luce
A weed is defined as a plant growing in the wrong place. Even a rose can be a weed
-^*' in the middle of a wheat field.
I must be sure I put my efforts in the right places.
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From My Window I Watch
CJeo Jones Johnson
FROM my window I watch the
progress of a new dwelhng.
Several weeks have passed
now. The house has taken a beau-
tiful form. It will boast of the latest
of all the modern improvements,
comforts, and conveniences. The
proud owners wander in and out,
inspecting this, approving that. They
dream their dreams and anxiously
await the day of moving.
On its plush carpets their little
children will play. Around the well-
lighted tables the academic studies
will be learned. In the gleaming
kitchen the mother will prepare her
excellent, well-balanced meals. The
heated garage has a *'do-it-yourself"
corner, where Dad can putter away
his spare moments.
Life is good, full of comfort,
hope, and dreams.
The workmen hurry faster now
for the strong north wind has
brought its first flurry of snow.
5|C jjt jIt ijs 5l«
T watch from my window and I
remember the stories I've been
told of other days.
Seventy-five years ago my people
came to this valley. With courage
in their hearts and a prayer on their
lips, they drove their team and wag-
on into the swift and turbulent
waters of the mighty Snake River.
They offered thanks for a safe pas-
sage across.
They found their spot. They
built a house. And they were grate-
ful for the kind Providence which
provided the material. The mighty
river in its frequent rampages had
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piled the trees which its fury had
washed out along the banks. Time
and the elements had barked the
logs and weathered the wood. The\-
cut small trees and willows to chink
the big logs and they dabbed the
cracks with mud. The roof had its
covering of poles and dirt.
They hurried the work, for winter ,
was upon them. *
When deep snows covered the
earth and cold penetrated every-
where, when the mournful cry of
the coyote was heard close by the
door, they found their feeling of
security within the four walls of the
crude log dwelling. The old stove,
with its warped covers and broken
door in front of the grate, gave not
only warmth but cheer as its fire
glowed. The smell of the cotton-
wood fuel was pleasant.
The food set upon the table was
simple and sometimes meager —
potatoes, bread, milk, sometimes an
egg or bacon. Never was it eaten
without the proper thanksgiving
prayer. Improvements came slow-
ly. A wooden bucket hung on its
rope near the new open well, and
the barrels which had been used to
haul the culinary water from the
river found other uses. Inside the
house the ceiling was covered with
an unbleached material called fac-
tory which was whitewashed, as
were the walls. A strip of home-
made carpet partly covered the un-
matched boards of the rough plank
floor. The flickering light of the
candle was replaced by the kerosene
FROM MY WINDOW I WATCH
273
lamp. The little house was kept
scrupulously clean.
Life was good, full of faith, hope
and dreams.
For many years this humble struc-
ture gav^e shelter from storm, bliz-
zard, heat, cold, night, enemies
imaginary and real. It fostered love,
security, thanksgiving, vision, faith,
discipline, contentment, peace. Un-
der its roof morning and evening
prayers were a regular institution,
and the children were taught many
lessons in early life, including thrift,
dependability, self-reliance; a knowl-
edge that all owed a debt of grati-
tude to the community and its mem-
bers; that happiness comes through
sharing, helping, giving; that pro-
gression is a move in which all must
give a share.
The old log house is a memory
now, a blessed memory to those who
were reared there and to those who
will come after.
sjj 5;; >!{ 5}c )Jc
T^ODAY from my window I watch,
and in my heart I find a prayer,
''O Father, may we who enjoy the
inheritance of those brave pioneer
souls, prove faithful to the heritage
that is ours. May we take the re-
sponsibility of teaching our chil-
dren the important things in life.
May we feel gratitude for that which
we have. May we be worthy of
thy love. Thanks for the memory
of an old log house.
Enough
Hazel Loomis
I want no more than corn to grind —
Or sheep to tend. Enough, if by a scrubby tree,
I sit the whole day long
As mother, weaving.
Hums a song.
Enough, to sit for just an hour
Beside my father's hogan fire —
Enraptured artist, color rising in his face.
Pounding silver
Into lace.
I need no pillow for my head,
A pallet of clean sand, my bed.
Where hearts glow warm — where smoke leaps higher.
Enough, the peace
Of a hogan fire.
Attitud
es
Even the desire to do our best brings hope and the beginning of gladness. How
rich, then, shall the harvest be.
—Pauline M. Bell
Candy for Your Easter Basket
Caroline L. Naylor
Caramels
1 c. milk 1 c. white syrup
54 lb. butter vanilla
1 c. sugar 1 c. chopped nuts
Mix all ingredients together over low heat, stirring constantly. Bring to boil
240° F. Remove from heat. Add vanilla and nut meats. Pour into buttered pan.
When cold turn out onto wax paper and cut into small squares.
Chocolate Chip Fudge
1 tall can evaporated milk Yz \h. butter
(13 fluid ounces) 3 c. nuts
4/4 c. sugar 1 tsp. vanilla
3 pkg. chocolate chips 18 oz. marshmallows
Boil milk and sugar mixture ten minutes, stirring constantly. Mix remaining
ingredients separately, then add milk and sugar mixture. Beat and add nuts. Form
into rolls or drops.
Divinity
2 c. sugar pinch of salt
Yz c. water 1 tbsp. vanilla
/4 c. com syrup 1 c. nuts and coconut
3 egg whites chopped together
Place sugar, water, and corn syrup into a saucepan. Hold above heat and stir
until sugar dissolves. Place on heat and let cook (do not stir while cooking) to a crack
stage 260° F. While it is cooking beat three egg whites stiffly and add a pinch of salt.
When syrup is ready slowly pour it over egg whites, beating constantly, or better still,
use electric beater. Beat until it is creamy and stands alone, then add vanilla and
nuts. Spoon out or turn into a tin lined with wax paper. Should make fifty or sixty
pieces. Add food coloring if desired.
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Two Recipes for a Luncheon
Ruth L. Jones
Molded Shrimp Salad
1 pkg. lemon gelatin
1 c. boiling water
Vz c. mayonnaise
1 small glass pimento cream cheese
Vz c. cream
1 c. shrimp
3 chopped boiled eggs
2 minced green onions
1 tbsp. minced green pepper
Dissolve gelatin in boiling water. Chill until syrupy. Add mixed mayonnaise and
cheese. Whip cream lightly and fold in. Add remaining ingredients and stir all into
gelatin mixture. Pour into oiled mold. Chill until firm and serve on crisp lettuce.
Serves eight.
Fruit Bars
%
c. sifted flour
c. butter
eggs, beaten
c. brown sugar
c. chopped dates
(or % c. coconut)
1 Vz c. chopped walnuts
Ys tsp. baking powder
Vz tsp. vanilla
1 tsp. grated lemon rind
2 tbsp. lemon juice
% c. powdered sugar
Mix flour and butter as for pastry. Sprinkle in baking pan. Bake at 350° ten
minutes. Beat eggs. Add brown sugar, dates, nuts, baking powder, vanilla. Spread
over dry mixture. Bake 20 minutes more.
Mix rind, juice, and powdered sugar. Spread over hot mixture. Cool. Cut into
16 squares. May be kept in refrigerator but not in freezer.
No Half Loaf, This
Virginia Newman
Friendly were the words you said,
Tendering the loaf of bread.
Oven warm and savory;
How much that gesture meant to me.
Almost a stranger, lonely too,
And gladdened by the sight of you.
I would repay you if I could.
Oh, yes, the bread was extra good.
(I'd like the recipe some day).
But let me ask you if I may.
How you acquired the finer art
Of nourishing the hungry lieart?
I never had the knack, somehow.
(I'd like that recipe right now).
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Recipes From a Pioneer Kitchen
Anne McCall
PICKLED RED CABBAGE
1 or more firm red cabbages, as desired (shredded)
vinegar to cover cabbage
2 tbsp. black peppercorns (to each quart of vinegar)
2 tsp. allspice (to each quart of vinegar.)
salt
Wash cabbage well. Put into earthenware vessel and sprinkle with salt. Cover
and let stand two days. Add vinegar, black peppercorns, and allspice. Boil until well
flavored. Cool and strain off remaining liquid. Place cabbage into wide-mouthed bottles
and fill up with vinegar. Seal airtight. Leave for one month before using.
APPLE CHUTNEY
lo large cooking apples (sliced) i tbsp. mustard
5 large brown onions (sliced) i tbsp. salt
3 c. stoned raisins i tbsp. pepper
2 lbs. brown sugar i tsp. cayenne
3 pts. vinegar
Mix and boil well. Bottle, and seal. Leave for three months before using.
In a Hard Place
T ET us not laugh at the small, scrubby flower living precariously away from a flower
garden. It has had to fight for its chance with weeds and drought. It may be
small and gnarled, but it smiles brightly in a hard place.
It is the hardy one, and it has seeds that may grow tall and strong and straight,
bringing beauty down the generations.
Such hardy ones among people were the pioneers, who came to the hard places
and made them beautiful for us, their children.
— Celia Luce
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Note to Carvel
Mabel Jones Gdbbott
There is nothing I can give
Except a knowing of the way
The loss of one, long loved, will live
Quiet at times, until a day
When some small memory, quick
And sharp, yet very clear and near.
Breaks through the numbing hurt to prick
The blank, and loose a cleansing tear,
Refreshing, after a time, all living
With the beauty of that life, still giving.
The Little Silver Thimble
Sheny Ciookston
npODAY I received in the mail a small package from my grandfather,
together with this epistle:
Dear Sherry:
Inasmuch as you are the first and oldest of the grandchildren, I thought you might
like this little memento of your grandmother.
As I took it out of her workbasket and held it in my hand, I remembered so
vividly the light in her eyes as she said, "Remember, dear, when you bought me this
little thimble? I was struggling with the first baby dress I had ever made, and you
watched me pricking my fingers as I pushed the too-large needle in and out of the
dainty material. When I asked where you were going, as you put on your coat and
hat, you said you would be back shortly.
"In a few minutes you tossed a tiny square package in my lap. As my eager
hands untied the ribbon, you watched me with a smile. Something special, I was sure!
Gift wrapped, with love. A beautiful silver thimble! How I loved it, and you. How
I tried and tried to use it, how awkv^ard I felt. You tried to show me, and we both
laughed together."
She soon mastered it, Sherr}^ as she did most of life's problems. When I recall
the many beautiful pieces of handwork and lovely garments her love and skill fashioned
throughout the years, as we sat together evenings and I read to her, or we discussed
our plans and affairs of the day, my thoughts go out to you, and as you are planning
to be married soon, may you and Bill be as happy, and may your lives be as full of
the good things as ours were, is my wish for you.
Lo^•ingly,
Grandfather
The flood of love and memories this thoughtful little gift brings to
me is something I will cherish as long as life lasts, and each time I look
at it or touch it or use it, I will remember my gentle grandmother with
her lovely crown of silvery white hair, and all the beauty her life portrayed.
I know my life will be made richer because of one little silver thimble.
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Housekeeper in a Hurry
Janet W. Breeze
STREAMLINE THAT HOUSECLEANING
A cobbler's apron is the greatest thing
ever invented, if used to its best
advantage. These aprons may have three
wonderful pockets which you would do
well to label (i) Upstairs, (2) Down-
stairs, and (3) Trash, if you have a poor
memory. This can be done by sewing
twill tape or applying iron-on tape to the
pocket and writing with an embroidery
pen. As you pick little things up off the
floor or off the tops of tables, drop them
into the pocket for later delivery to theii
proper places.
COBBLER'S APRON
A PLASTIC BUCKET FOR
STORING CLEANING TOOLS
A plastic bucket in the bathroom for
-^*' keeping soap flakes, cleanser, brushes,
sponges, etc., handy will save many steps
out to the kitchen. By the way, have
you ever tried using that long-handled
brush for scrubbing the tub?
Scrubbing the kitchen and bathroom
floors can be done much more neatly and
quickly if you VACUUM baseboards,
corners, and other hard-to-sweep places
first.
Wear old cotton gloves when cleaning
windows to get those corners sparkling
bright.
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HANG A SHOE BAG
HANG a shoe bag by the ironing board to hold iron-on tape, scissors, needle and
thread, and other needed items for mending.
Hang a shoe bag by baby's crib to hold powder, oil, cotton-tipped sticks, rattles,
extra pins, etc.
A shoe bag pinned to the side of a sick bed can hold numerous odds and ends.
CUTLERY BOXES
Cutlery boxes can be used for many things other than silverware:
Mother can use them for miscellaneous items near the sewing machine, such as
bobbins, needles, pins, scissors, tape measure, marking chalk, etc.
A teen-age daughter can easily organize bobby pins, hair rollers, combs, nets,
lipstick, etc., in one of those handy boxes.
Dad might like one in his desk drawer at home or at the office for paper clips,
thumb tacks, pencils, erasers, elastics and so on, and in the basement for odd assort-
ments of screws, nails, bolts, and nuts.
MY KITCHEN, MY CASTLE
T EAVE some of the water on those potatoes you're going to whip and add powdered
"L^ milk for a creamy texture.
Store cheese in a plastic bag in the door of your refrigerator for lasting freshness.
Can't find that lid? An aluminum pie tin right side up fits into many cooking
pots. The pie tin can then be used for warming rolls or left-overs at the same time.
Ammonia in soapy water will easily clean the grease off kitchen walls. Ammonia
left in a dish overnight in the oven will make for easier cleaning of the oven.
For quick and easy cinnamon toast, keep a salt shaker full of cinnamon and
sugar ready and waiting at all times.
INSTANT COOKIES WITH A CHILD CHEF
TTAVE you some "Me-do-ers" at your house? Let them bake cookies with only
■■■ •*• slight supervision. Sounds difficult, you say? Not so with this quick and easy
recipe that delights and occupies even the smallest fry. Let your pint-sized cook mix
the following together in a bowl for INSTANT COOKIES:
1 pkg. instant pudding mix !4 c. salad oil
% c. biscuit mix i egg
The dough is very stiff and is easy for CLEAN little hands to mold and shape
into cookies about % -inch thick. No need to grease the cookie sheet — just bake at
375° for 10-12 minutes. Yield: About 15 cookies (more or less, depending on your
cook).
Anna Eckloff Makes Her Life Happy
With Hobbies
A NNA Diceria Eckloff of Poiilsbo, Washington, has found a theme to make her hfe
-^*- happy and to enrich and beautify the hves of others — "Handwork for Happiness."
She has made eighteen crocheted bedspreads, tweh'e tablecloths, many doilies, pillow-
slips, chair sets, embroidered tea towels, quilts, and fancy aprons. In her busy life there
is no room for sadness — she has too much to do. Her exquisite work has won awards
at fairs and exhibitions, and she has contributed many lovely items for Relief Society
bazaars, where her work is greatly appreciated. "I have to hurry to get my hand\^'ork
done," Sister Eckloff declares, "for it is always needed, and I have made a practice of
always having some extra articles on hand." She has sewed for needy families and has
remodeled clothes for them and taught the mothers to sew.
Mrs. Eekloff's four children, six grandchildren, and ten great-grandchildren all ha\e
received handmade gifts from her, and many of them have learned from her to be
skillful in the handwork arts. She dearly loves Relief Society and is a faithful member.
She was born in Sunswall, Sweden, and has been a member of the Church for ten
years — "wonderful years" — she says, fer she rejoices in the Church activities of her
family.
From My Window
Eva/yn Sandberg
This moon-drenched night
The sturdy oaks along our quiet lane
Repeat themselves in patterned light
Upon a darkened pane.
Affirm to me.
With whispered strength in solid presence here,
That in the dark tranquility
A loving God is near.
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Keep Your End of the Handle Up
Olive Sharp
THIS was an old saying of my Father, ''Keep your end of the handle up. You are here,
the same as I, and it is your duty to do your share to help keep this old world
right side up,"
Father was very strict with us children, and he saw that we learned to work when
young, and he would say, "Learn to work when you are young, and you will always
like it, and if you will do that, many interesting things and worthwhile projects will come
into your life so that, at times, you will wish you had two pairs of hands instead of one."
The Lord has said that if we will work in his vineyard, he will bless us with a
mighty blessing.
Everyone who knows this promise should be glad to work in his vineyard. The
Lord also said if we would pay one tenth of our income to the work of the Lord, the
gates of heaven would be opened and we would be showered with blessings.
I wonder why so many people who know, or should know, do not keep these
wonderful commandments. I feel sure they have not been taught them when young.
''As the twig is bent, so the tree will grow," and no greater joy can come to a
mother or father than to have their sons and daughters grow up to be fine, respected,
honored, reliable men and women, doing their share to bring peace and happiness into
this troubled world of ours.
I happened to hear two young ladies, sisters they were, talking about paying tithing:
and wondering if they did pay tithing if their paths would be a bit smoother. Last
spring I met one of them and asked her if paying tithing had helped her. She replied,
"It certainly has. My husband received a raise in his salary and we have not had a
doctor in our house for months. We think God did open his gates and shower us with
his blessings."
"How is your sister getting along?" I asked. "She can't get money enough ahead
to pay tithing, so she is just plodding along," was the reply.
Our children did not ask to come here, so when they do come it is our duty to-
give them good training for their future life.
Our Best Is Needed
Leona Fetzer Wintch
'T^HESE are times that require the best that is in us. We do not want to be
•^ "average," or "common," or "mediocre." These terms suggest sluggishness and.
drifting, not the striving and achieving that are essential to keep us free.
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DESIGN OF PALMS AND CLOUDS
What Did You See?
Maude Proctor
THIS morning when you got
out of bed and raised the
bhnd, or when you gazed out
of the window over the sink as you
finished the breakfast dishes, what
did you see?
If you are the average housewife,
with the cares of rearing a family
on your mind, you will probably
answer, ''Oh, the same old yard."
And if it happens to be summer, you
might think with a sigh, John has
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not cut the lawn yet, and Alan left
his bike out again, and I must take
care of the flower bed. Or, if it was
winter, your thoughts may have run,
also with a sigh, John will have to
shovel the snow off those walks be-
fore school, and will Alan ever learn
to put his bike away at night? And
so into the day. Worry, worry.
What you saw was a panorama of
everyday living that immediately
translated itself into work and re-
WHAT DID YOU SEE?
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sponsibility. That is good, but first
let us try to see things that will lift
the spirit and delight the soul. Then
we can move into the duties of the
day with pleasure and with eour-
age.
The eye must be helped to see
the less obvious beauties of ordinary
objects about us. The place to be-
gin this learning process is in an art
class, preferably one in oil painting.
"Horrors," you exclaim, ''I can't
even draw a straight line!" Of course
you can't. Very few people can. But,
even if you never paint a picture
that gets further than the trash can
(but probably you will), the re-
wards are great.
Have you ever noticed how many
shades of green there are in the tree
in the corner of vour vard? Look
carefully, and you will become con-
scious of more and more shades and
colors. Now look at the shape or
form, the pattern the tree makes
against the sky. Now glance at the
color of the sky. ''Whv, it is blue,"
you say. Look again. The sky, too,
may be any number of colors and
shades, and they vary in color with
shapes that are a delight to watch
as they change and form new pat-
terns in a way that reminds us of
music or a dance.
Alan's bicycle is a mosaic of light
and shadow that makes us think of
God's world in all its beautv and
order, even if it also reminds us
that one son left his belongings
where he dropped them, and the
other son forgot to cut the lawn.
As we attend an art class we come
to see afresh, with more perception,
and, therefore, more pleasure, the
loveliness of such e\'er\dav things
as the color and form of baby's red
ball lying against the gold pillow on
the brown couch. The subtle
nuances of color in the little dish
Grandmother painted when she was
a girl, and cherished so carefully
along the trip across the plains, will
bring a sudden gift of joy as we
hurry through the day.
Perhaps we sense these details
now, but dimly. The discipline of
trying to get them on paper or can-
vas, the coaching and training in
really seeing color, form, and line
will result in such a heightened
awareness of the beautv around us
that we will be thankful throughout
our lives for the impulse that led us
to join a class in painting.
Then, when someone asks us
''What did you see?" we can answer
with uplifted heart that we saw the
heavens declare the glory of God
and the firmament show his handi-
work.
My Prayer
Grant me the blessedness that I can comfort those in need. Let my heart sing
songs of gratitude at the sundown of my days. Sweet will be my sleep and joyful
my awakening. My songs will never cease.
—Pauline M. Bell
The Blossoming
Dorothy ]. Roberts
I will answer you as buds now
Swell and whiten in the park.
Words, as these pale boughs, have waited
In the stillness and the dark.
Many winters I have known
The mute of snow on heart and earth.
But always spring came, glor}^-bright,
Clothed in petals at its birth.
Spring returns, ephemeral.
Brief as moonlight in the air,
A pearl-white pause the season holds
Between the petal and the pear.
Frail are the drifts along the fence,
Triangled softly at the poles.
Fragile the carpet on the lawn
Under the weight of eager soles.
Once where there was only silence.
Words arise as buds from root.
I will bring the sound of answer
Before the blossom yields to fruit.
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SPRINGTIME IN THE WEST VIRGINIA MOUNTAINS
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Grade 'W
Mary C. Martineau
/GRANDMOTHER found a
theme in the wastebasket one
morning, written and discarded by
her grandson Joseph before he left
for school. She read it, laughed
merrily, and then put an 'W on it,
sa^ang to herself, 'That boy is surely
blessed with talent."
Joseph was a kind boy who loved
his grandmother very much and
slept at her house every night be-
cause she was all alone and he felt
sorry for her. He was her protector
and her pride and joy, and she tried
to be a guarantee for his success in
school, waking him early, whether
or no, and seeing to it that he had
a bounteous breakfast, for what
half-fed boy can do his best?
However, on that morning when
Joseph had arisen, it had not been
with a song in his heart, for he had
felt grumpy and he had dark
thoughts. It seemed to him that
no matter what. Grandmother
always woke him up at 6:30. Rain
or shine, she made no allowance,
but prepared breakfast, urged him
to hurry a little, and as a final push
in the right direction, saw him to
the door and wished him a happy
day. He thought on that morning,
I wanted to sleep, regardless of that
dumb old theme I was supposed
to write last night.
The night before he had gone to
the basketball game after MIA and
had had a great time, but in the
morning, although the spirit was
willing, the flesh was weak, and he
hated to hear Grandmother bustling
about in the kitchen. When she
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finally spoke to him, with the urge
for action in her voice, he arose,
grabbed his pen and some theme
paper and wrote the following:
EARLY BIRDS
T TNLESS you live with an early bird or
^^ are one yourself, you cannot know
the agony that literally millions of people
go through every blessed morning of the
year.
You see, I live with the most cheerful
early bird in the Nation, my grandmother.
In the summer her excuse is that the
birds wake her up when thev begin to
chirp and sing. Frankh', Id take mv
chances \\'ith the law and get rid of tho-^e
birds, but it would do no good, because
she rises early in the winter, also.
]My full-fledged early bird suigs a httle
as she rattles the pans for a huge breakfast
which she will force-feed into every indi-
vidual she can. Maybe she plays a little
on the piano, a little something sweet
like "The Battle Hymn of the Republic,"
or something appropriate like "The Cais-
sons Go Rolling Along." At any rate,
if you li\e with an early bird. \ ou're stuck.
Early birds come in assorted sizes, from
the "just-hatched" to those with one wing
dragging. Usually small children amid
old people make the best early birds. The
little tikes get up early so they can go
and explore this wonderful new world,
while the old folks want to get up early
as possible to see as much as they can.
But I see no excuse for otherwise reason-
able adults — from teenage to fifty — getting
up at the indecent hours that early birds
call "the rosy light of morning."
I think that modern medicine ought to
invent something that either makes an
early bird sleep in the morning or else
invent something to protect others from
them.
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JOSEPH had a glorious time
writing the theme, beheving
every word of it as he wrote, and
then went in to breakfast, gloating
in his soul as he slipped it into his
loose-leaf notebook.
My, what a breakfast Grandmoth-
er had fixed for him. There was
juice, cereal and cream, an omelet,
and then toast and peaches. What
a grandmother she was! He looked
at her, smiling at him across the
table. Wasn't it wonderful to find
himself bright and early and
all ready to go— especially with that
theme written?
Another ''A" for me, he thought,
and then Grandmother followed
him to the door and said, ''Happy
day, Joseph."
He stopped short; that was too
much. What a heel I am, he
thought. He ran back to his room,
dumped the theme into the waste-
basket, and then with ''A happy day,
Grandmother," he walked down the
sidewalk singing, ''Oh, what a
beautiful morning."
Return
Henrietta B. McNeeJy
Wild geese crying in the night
Through the darkness and the rain,
Winging on their northward flight —
On true course — to nest again.
What sure beacon is their guide?
W^ho leads, on the way they go,
As unerringly they glide
To the home they used to know?
Would that I could be as sure
Of my way through doubt and pain,
In thy love to feel secure,
Never to be lost again.
Lord, if from true course I stray —
In some dark hour fail to see —
Let thy beacon show the way;
Bring me safely home to thee.
Potted Plants Complete a Picture
Eva Willes Wangsgaard
WHEN the planting time rush white. A border of green-leafed be-
is over, the workshelf and gonias with a wealth of deep pink
the garden house make an blossoms brings more enthusiastic
ideal area for caring for and display- compliments in a garden than your
ing potted plants. The perennial most exquisite tuberous begonia
favorite is the geranium. Geraniums blooms. They are sold in flats or in
offer a generous variety of color, individual pots, but either way, they
florets, and even leaf form and fra- are very tiny when set out around
grance. They may be purchased from Mother's Day in the Intermountain
abundant supplies of well-started Area, or whenever danger from frost
slips, many already in bloom, in is past. They should not be placed
nurseries, florist's shops, supermark- closer than twelve inches, however,
ets, and in many department stores, because at late July or early August
Or you can start slips yourself, if you they have grown into beauteous
have a room where plants can get mounds of generous blooms, mak-
plenty of light. ing a compact border. They bloom
Another favorable trait of gerani- constantly, from an inch-high start
ums is their tolerance for shade. It till the snow covers them or the
is amazing how well they will bloom frost nips them. Fibrous-rooted be-
if given light, fertile soil, at least gonias are shade loving and thrive
monthly feedings of fish emulsion, best with only morning sun or fil-
and good circulation of air. tered sunlight.
Fuchsias, fibrous-rooted begonias. The begonias in the border in the
and tuberous begonias make good picture would have been happier
potted subjects, but must be chosen and would have made a better show-
according to the conditions of sun- ing had they been planted in a raised
light and shade an area offers. border. The easiest way to keep a
Borders help tie a garage or work- raised border raised is to enclose it.
shop into a garden. Fibrous-rooted If you are handy at masonry or can
begonias offer a wide variety of kinds afford to hire a mason, a stone en-
and colors, differing chiefly in heavi- closure is beautiful and most perma-
ness of leaf, stalk, and blossoms. The nent. But 2" x 8" redwood slabs are
B. semperflorens is the favorite va- inexpensive, readily available, light to
riety. In choosing a border a more handle, and easy to nail. They hold
striking effect is secured by choosing up very well, too. I order mine cut
plants of the same variety and color, to fit the needed length and mitred
Some fibrous-rooted begonias have to fit at the corners. Then they are
red-tinted leaves. Others are a rich, easily pushed into position and se-
almost translucent green. Some cured with finishing nails. It is wise
blooms are deeply red, and they to give them two coats of redwood
range from there down through three-in-one finish before using
luscious pinks to flesh pink and pure them. The filling soil should be
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Don Knight
SUMMERHOUSE WITH VINES AND POTTED PLANTS
made light with humus and sand.
If barnyard humus is used, however,
it is necessary to water it down
thoroughly at least three times be-
fore planting, in order to wash away
excess nutrients which might burn
the tender roots. The soil propor-
tion which I find brings excellent
results is one-half black loam, one-
fourth sand, and one-fourth humus.
T^WO advantages of the raised
garden or border are: first, the
roots have plenty of room and no
robbing or interference from spread-
ing roots of trees and shrubs; sec-
ond, the plants get a freer circula-
tion of air.
An extensive expanse of wall in a
garden is cooler and more pleasing
to the eye if it is broken by vines.
The trumpet vine, with its bunched
amber-colored trumpets and pinnate
leaves is a beauty in bloom and has
the lovely habit of luring humming-
birds to enrich the garden's entice-
ments. It has strong, spreading,
tenacious roots, however, which are
capable of sending up suckers as far
away as twenty feet from the par-
ent vine. The lace vine is another
prolific spreader, but its large, shape-
ly leaves and lacy racemes of white
flowers are a gracious sight.
The clematis is slower growing,
usually, but comes in such a variety
of colors and types and sends out
such a generous supply of blooms
that one vine makes a breathtaking
coverage and a glorious background
290 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— APRIL 1962
for regal and Madonna lilies, as well The ever-lovely wisteria is slow
as other garden beds. Some varieties growing, but a wonderfully satisfy-
are Ramona (Alice blue), Crimson ing wall and arbor coverage, with its
King (deep red), Ernest Markham generous pinnate leaves and grape-
(red), Duchess of Edinburgh like bunches of lavender to purple
(double white), Henryi (single flowers.
white) , and Jackmani (purple) . Leafy vines, like the vetch ivy, give
These flowers are two to three inch- ^ tropical greenness and lushness,
es ni diameter and range from four ^^^^^ ^^ ^^^ ^^ ^
petals to seven. Ihe tour-petal ; ^ ° ^ i i i
flowers resemble dogwood blossoms. ^^^^^^- ^^ ^^ ^" ^^^^^1^"^ background
All clematis vines need netting or for lush blooms such as the tuber-
framework on which to climb. ous begonias.
■ ♦
Prelude to Easter
Linda Clarke
The first is one of season, when
icy winds
Chill the air, driving the last, lone
leaf down,
Leaving the tree stark, black against
gray skies,
Bringing the silent, silvery snow to
muffled sound.
Hushing protest from bird in nest and
voice in lair.
But season follows season and inevitably
comes May.
The second winter, more terrible for
its subtlety,
Is found within the breast of man. His
cool breath
Brings more desolation than January's
fiercest gale,
For winter of the soul breeds like
from like,
Generation after generation, till one breaks
winter's chain
And finding spring, touches finger tips
with kin.
I
The Loving Faces
Betty Lou Martin
THE shiny, blue car made its
way down the rain-soaked
streets as if not quite certain
which direction to take. The woman
behind the wheel appeared to be
uneasy, and a frown marred the
almost Dresden quality of her face.
"You look too young to be
a grandmother/' Mona Sanders'
friends had told her when Mona's
only child, Nina, had had her first
baby. Mona had felt a little ancient
at the time, too, but now, after
being a grandmother three times
o\er, she had become quite ac-
customed to the feeling.
She was indeed a beautiful woman
with her pearl-like complexion and
ice-blue eyes enhanced by her now
silyer-gray hair. Mona worked to
keep herself that way by constant
diet and care. She always dressed
simply and was very careful to
choose the colors that she knew did
the most for her.
Before Nina had become a moth-
er, Mona had always been attending
meetings and keeping up to date as
well on civic affairs. However, be-
coming a grandmother had changed
things considerably. At this time
Mona felt more like an unpaid baby
sitter.
The car continued on down the
streets of Oaktown flanked on both
sides by large, well-kept homes.
Mona sighed. ''I only wish that
Nina could afford to live in the same
neighborhood as we do, and afford
a baby sitter also."
Oaktown was a fairly large town
snuggled up close to the mountains
as if trying to seek protection from
the elements. It was a lovely place
with wide streets and big parks. The
townsfolk took great pride in keep-
ing it neat and free from debris.
Even the children were taught to
help in the care of the town. The
part of Oaktown that was considered
to be least attractive appeared bet-
ter than the average section of many
other towns. Mona Sanders had
lived in Oaktown all her life.
There isn't a better, fresher smell
on earth than after a rainstorm,
Mona thought, as she turned the
car onto the main road that led into
the shopping section.
Once again Mona felt uneasy and
now slightly guilty at the thought
of what she had done, but she just
couldn't take it any more. Ever
since Nina had had her children,
she had been bringing them to Mo-
na to tend. Sometimes it would be
as often as four and five times a
week.
P VERY Wednesday Nina had the
habit of calling Mona to tell
her that she was bringing the chil-
dren over while she went into town
shopping. Her excursions would
usually last all day. On this par-
ticular Wednesday, Mona had hur-
riedly dressed and left the house
before Nina had an opportunity to
call.
''Just once I am going to have a
little time to myself. After all, I de-
serve it; I've reared my family."
Mona swung the car into the lane
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leading to the parking terrace of "Ever since you became a grand-
one of the larger department stores, mother — the first time." Lillian
She wandered through the stores laughed,
looking at the new fashions for ''Oh, now, Lillian, it isn't quite
spring, but the more she looked, the that bad," Mona answered.
more guilty she felt. 'Tm a fine ''Well, it just about is," Lillian
grandmother, trying to get away offered. "You know, I have grand-
from my own little grandchildren, children of my own, but their par-
What in the world would Nina say ents know that I have my own life
if she knew how I felt? I should be to lead. I love the children very
ashamed of myself, but I stayed much, and, of course, I like to see
home and tended Nina. I don't them, but they are their parents'
see why she can't stay home and responsibility, and I simply refuse to
tend her own children," Mona had take over their obligations while
once said, somewhat bitterly of they run to every social function
Chris. they can think of." Lillian was noted
No matter how aggravated she for being able to express herself in
became, Mona could not bring her- a frank and open manner,
self to say anything to Nina. Nina's ''My, but you do sound hard, Lil-
husband, Ned, did not make a great lian." Mona tried not to show the
deal of money, and it was difficult effect that Lillian's words had upon
for them to meet their needs. It her.
was especially difficult for Nina. She On her way home from town
had always had everything she want- Mona resolved to have a talk with
ed when she was younger. Now Nina as soon as possible. She rea-
she was forced to budget her money, lized now that she hadn't actually
and she just couldn't seem to man- been doing Nina a favor by taking
age. Ned seemed to feel that he the children every time that she
was letting Nina down by not being wanted to go somewhere. She only
able to afford a new home and new hoped that this time she would be
clothes for her. able to go through with it. Many
Mona often thought, what Ned times before when she had attempt-
needs to do is to be more strict with ed to say something to Nina, she
that girl. Mona knew very well, would see the children's loving faces
however, that she and Chris were to peering up at her, and she just didn't
blame for the way that Nina acted, have the heart to hurt them. She
If they had taught her how to share knew now that she had been doing
and be a little more self-sacrificing Nina more harm than good. Her
when she was younger, things might daughter would just have to learn to
have been different today. face her responsibilities as other
"Why Mona Sanders, I haven't young married people had to do.
seen you for ages," a voice called to
Mona. A/fONA had just entered the
"Lillian, my goodness, how nice house and hung her coat in
to see you. How long has it been?" the hall closet when the telephone
Mona was pleased to see her long- rang,
time friend. "Hi, Mom, where have you been
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all day? I have been trying to reach When Nina and Ned arrived that
you." Nina sounded annoyed. ''Ann evening with their familv, it ap-
and I were going to town and have peared that Nina had been crying,
lunch today. I told her that you Mona felt a twinge of pity when
always take the children for me, but she saw Nina's lovely, tear-streaked
we ended up staying home.'' face. Ned seemed to be more quiet
Mona ignored Nina's pointed than usual, and when he spoke, he
statement. ''Nina, I'd like to talk directed his words to Mona and
to you. Are you coming over after Chris. He completely ignored Nina,
while?" Mona made her voice Later on when Chris and Ned
sound more stern than usual. were talking business, Mona mo-
"Yes, I'd planned to. I thought tioned Nina into the living room.
I'd see if Ned would take me to a .^^^^^ j ^^^^ ^^ ^^^^ ^^ ^^^^ ^^^^^
movie tonight. Honestly, Jimmy ^^^ ^^^^^^^^ j^ ^^,^-^^^^ ^j^^^
has been drivmg me out of my mmd ^^^j^^^ ^^^ j ^^^,^ j^^^ ^1^^^^
today. lye ,ust got to get out of ^^^^ ^^ j ^^^^ j ^^^^ ^1^^^
the house. Nina paused tor a mo- i, ' i j \. j ^ i.- ^.i 4.1 ^
,,, ,^ , . should spend more time with them
ment. 1 guess that we can drive .i^ ^^ j^^? tv^t^ ^ 1 j ^ i^
, & . ,, , than you do. Mona had made a
over, and you can tell me what you i^^ • •
-^ ■' De2innin2[.
want to, and then we can leave the f,. ^ ^* ,
children with you and Dad." Now don t you start m on me,
too. Mother. I ve had just about
ly/r ONA felt the anger mounting all that I can take for one day. First
inside her until her face became Ned, then you, and Jimmy's been
visibly red; however, she kept her mischievous all day long. No one
composure. "Nina, did it occur to cares about me." The tears were
you that your father and I might already flowing freely down Nina's
have some plans for this evening? cheeks.
When you come over, don't plan Mona felt herself slipping back
on leaving the children with us." into the role of the consoling moth-
"Well — all right." Nina seemed er, but she squared her shoulders
shocked at her mother's remarks, and looked sternly at her daughter.
"I'll see you later." "Now, just a minute, dear. Many
Mona turned from the telephone were the days when you were little
and started toward the kitchen, that I'd have liked to have picked
"How parents can make so many you up and sent you to one of your
mistakes unintentionally with their grandmothers, but I didn't do it.
children I'll never know. I've tried I accepted my responsibility and
so hard. I thought that I was help- obligations, just as you are going
ing Nina, and instead of that, I to do from now on. I realize that
have been making her into a self- you have to have some outside inter-
centered individual." ests. But you cannot do justice to
Chris smiled when Mona told your children and all your other
him of her conversation with Nina, affairs at the same time. I'm at the
"Believe me, Chris, I'd do things age now where I want to take the
a lot differently if I had them to do time to enjoy my Church and civic
over again," Mona said sincerely. work, instead of hurrying through
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it. Right now I hardly go anywhere.
If you want to bring the children
over, occasionally, when your father
and I ha\en't anything planned,
then we'd love to have them." Mona
felt relieved as she stopped talking.
"jVTINA seemed stunned at her
mother's words. "Well, I never
thought that Fd ever hear vou speak
to me that way; you of all people.
Mother.'' Nina got up quickly.
'Tou can tell Ned that I and the
children are waiting for him in the
car.
Nina gathered the children to-
gether, put their wraps on them, and
left.
''Now, what's wrong with Nina?"
Ned called.
''Oh, she's just a little annoyed
at her mother, Ned. I think that
she will get over it in a few days."
Mona winked at Ned.
"Well, at the moment I believe
that she is just a little aggravated
at her husband, too." Ned winked
back.
Mona did not hear from Nina all
during the following week. Several
times she almost relented and tele-
phoned her, for she and Chris were
lonesome and wanted to see the
children, but Mona stopped herself
in time, knowing full well that she
must not give in.
Then one day the telephone rang,
and Mona heard the somewhat re-
luctant voice on the other end. "Hi,
Mom, how have you been?"
"Nina, well just fine, dear. How
ha\'e you and your family been?" It
was such a joy to hear the familiar
voice again.
"Oh, Ned and I have been just
fine. Mom." Nina seemed to relax
as she added, "The children are just
fine, too."
"I'm glad to hear it, dear." Mona
tried to keep her voice at an even
level. "We've missed all of you."
"We've missed you, too. The
children are pestering me to bring
them over. If you and Dad are
going to be home this evening, we'd
like to stop in and see you for a
while?" Nina questioned.
Mona couldn't help smiling. "Yes,
as a matter of fact, we are going to
be home this evening. We'd love
to have you stop bv."
"If you're certain that we're not
interrupting anything, then we'll see
you later." Nina hung up.
Mona couldn't help feeling elated
at the thought of seeing her grand-
children once again. It had been
difficult not to give in to Nina, but
now that was all behind them. At
last they could start enjoying each
other as thev should, and with the
relationship that grandparents should
have with their grandchildren.
Happily, Mona began planning
what her grandchildren would like
for a snack while they were visiting,
and happily she anticipated the joy-
ful laughter of the children ringing
throughout the house. How good it
would be to see their loving faces
once again!
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Materials needed:
One 3 -gallon ice-cream carton
One piece print, polka dot, or striped material 12 inches wide and 31 inches long
(for the lower part of the bag)
A circle of the print material 9 /: inches in diameter for bottom of carton
One piece, striped, plain, or contrasting material 12 inches wide and 31 inches long
(for the bag)
Two pieces of contrasting material 25" long and 2/2" wide (for handles)
Thirty-one inches of inch-wide belting
Sew the strip of printed material to the strip of plain or contrasting material
(Figure 1). Make a one-inch hem at the top of the plain or contrasting material.
Thread in the belting and stitch securely. Make the handles double, 2 '2 inches wide
and 25 inches long, one side plain and the other side printed. Sew the handles securely
5/4 inches from the bottom. Slip in the ice-cream carton, twist (Figure 2), and bring
the belted edge over the outside of the carton as a lid (Figure 3).
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Sow the Field With Roses
CHAPTER 4
Margery S. Stewart
Synopsis: Nina Karsh lives in a small
liouse in the Malibu Mountains of Cali-
fornia. The house is owned by Tomas
Novarro, a sad and morose man of great
Mealth, who brings his withdrawn and
motherless son Joseph and asks Nina to
take care of him. Nina agrees to look
after the boy temporarily. She is visited
by Tommy Benedict, a young boy from
an unhappy home, on the beach. Nina
tries to help him into a better life adjust-
ment. Dr. Craig Jonathan comes to check
up on Joseph's health. Later, Nina goes
to the Novarro home to find out all she
can about Joseph's background and the
origin of the boy's problems.
THE wind blew hot from the
desert. At the beach it was
a fierce no degrees. Doctor
Jonathan drove up carefully be-
tween the perilously dry eucalyptus
trees and the equally perilous oak.
The whole canyon could go up
by spontaneous combustion. He
looked up to the hills where the
bright houses leaned into the sky.
People were idiotic to build here
and more idiotic to stay.
It had been three weeks since he
had seen Joseph Novarro. Doctor
Jonathan felt guilty about this,
especially since Tomas made a point
of calling him every Sunday evening
to find out how the boy was doing.
Craig had relayed the telephone
conversations he had had with Nina.
Not that she told him much. He
had the feeling about Nina of an
impish holding back, that all sorts
of exciting things were happening
at the hilltop house. Women/ Doc-
tor Jonathan wiped his forehead
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with a large, immaculate handker-
chief and took off his glasses.
Women! Especially women who
reminded him of Edith, and Nina
Karsh reminded him very much of
that lost and early love.
Recklessly, he nosed the car
through the dusty bouldered road
and found the parking place beside
the garage. He climbed out and
looked toward the house. Oasis.
Sprinklers were sending geysers of
coolness over the trees and lawns.
The smell of wet earth and brush
was exquisitely fragrant. Again, he
thought of Edith. Edith had been
cool and fragrant. Edith had been
laughter and all promise and all a
man could ask of beauty. She had
lacked only one thing — love. Hear-
ing from this one and that about
Edith's rise from wealth to wealth
had given him to know that she
would never have been happy as
the wife of a community doctor.
Still he grieved for her, thought of
her, and let the empty years pass
and the emptier years come, mak-
ing no effort to change or fill them
except with his work. He had
grown so accustomed to his noth-
ingness that he felt anger with Nina
Karsh for reminding him of it. She
was another one, swept on the banks
of the mysterious river, while the
great and the proud and the loved
ones rode its crest.
He made his way through the
gate, turned at the sound of voices.
They were in the garden, Nina
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Karsh and the boy. Nina was wear-
ing a blue smock. She was stand-
ing beside her easel, palette and
brush in her hands. But it was the
sight of Joseph that brought Doctor
Jonathan to an absolute halt. He
took out his glasses and settled
them and stared again. Joseph was
playing, actually, playing in the sand
as any normal child. He was filling
the tin bucket painstakingly with the
toy shovel and then in the imme-
morial way of small boys, pouring
the sand over himself and laughing
at his cleverness. Doctor Jonathan
blinked. The sound of Joseph's
laughter was not quite believable.
"LJE must have made an exclama-
tion. Nina and the child both
turned and looked at him, the laugh-
ter like light on their faces. It faded.
Nina's became decorous.
Doctor Jonathan walked crisply
down the path to them. ''I see you
have made a slight progress, young
man."
How cold and dry he sounded.
He hadn't meant the tone. He
reached for Joseph, and the child
screamed and flung himself on Nina,
clinging to her neck.
Nina flashed Doctor Jonathan an
apologetic smile. ''It's a phase," she
said, ''he'll get over it. He's afraid
ril go away from him."
Doctor Jonathan asked humbly,
"How did you do it?"
She rocked Joseph and kissed
him, murmuring small assurements.
"I felt Joseph might have lost an
age in his life. . . ." Seeing Craig's
blank stare, she quickened her voice,
trying to explain. "I knew a man
who had to go to work very young.
He lost his boyhood, then later on
he did very foolish things, or what
seemed foolish to others, but he
was trying to find what he had lost.
I'm afraid I am expressing myself
badly, but I feel that Joseph has
lost his babyhood. Everyone want-
ed him to be terribly grown-up and
wonderful very fast, and he missed
the beginning part of life and, hav-
ing lost the assurance that comes
with being babied, he didn't have
the courage to go on and be the
next stage. . . ."
Her voice trailed off. She looked
guilty. "I could be terrible wrong,
but I just took Joseph back to his
babyhood and let him start all over
again." She looked at him question-
ingly.
It was one of those odd tangents
people got off on. He didn't know
whether it was a profound discovery
or not. He only knew, looking at
Joseph, that the child was well on
the highroad to recovery. Doctor
Jonathan sighed. He hated to feel
frustrated, and Nina Karsh was for-
ever doing this to him, unsetting
him, sending his mind down chan-
nels he had no wish to explore.
She said, "His silence and immo-
bility were the sands he tried to
hide in . . . you know, like the
ostrich. Joseph pretended we didn't
exist, that way we couldn't bewilder
or hurt him."
"He hasn't tried to hide from
you?"
She lifted her shoulders. "After
awhile he knew it wasn't necessary.
I did not ask him for anything. I
only gave. . . ."
She walked toward the house^
making comments as she moved,
and Doctor Jonathan walked behind
her, measuring with a professional
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eye the weight and height of Joseph,
his clearer color and, above all, the
fierce and open attachment he felt
for Miss Karsh.
Once in the house, Nina left them
alone, and Craig was able to coax
Joseph away from Nina long
enough to give the examination
which told him what he already
knew — that the boy was forging
ahead in every way.
T^OCTOR Jonathan sighed and
sank down in the big wing
chair. He watched Joseph turn the
pages of a picture book and call out
proudly the names of the animals.
Craig was tired and thirsty and puz-
zled. What had brought it about?
Had Joseph been ready for the tran-
sition, and had Miss Karsh been
there at the psychological moment?
Or was it the mysterious healing in-
fluence that some women have, that
power within themselves to enter a
discordant household and put it to
rights?
Doctor Jonathan had known some
nurses who possessed it to a remark-
able degree. They could listen with
the proper duckings of sympathy to
a tortured nerve-ridden patient and
give him peace. Nina Karsh had it.
He found himself wondering if wom-
en in the beginning before the swift
strides of modern science, had pos-
sessed it even more richly. Perhaps
women had surrendered more than
they knew in these days of nursing
homes and institutions.
Nina brought in a tray of cookies
and lemonade. ''It's so hot/' she
said, ''and it's such a long drive
back."
Doctor Jonathan drank the lem-
onade gratefully. It pleased her to
serve him, her face grew bright and
young. Looking at her, he realized
how much she occupied his
thoughts. He put down the glass
abruptly, disturbed by the realiza-
tion. "You were doing some paint-
ing when I came, Miss Karsh. I
interrupted."
She poured more lemonade for
Joseph. "It was a child's portrait."
"Could I see it?"
"Of course." She rose at once.
He walked beside her down the
path. She came just to his shoulder.
When he looked down, he saw that
her hair was darker in the center
but lightened towards the ends
from long hours in the sun. There
was fragrance all around them,
whether of the flowers or of her,
he did not know, but it confused
him, the fragrance, and when his
arm brushed against hers, he drew
back and became stern with him-
self.
The painting troubled him. It
was of Joseph, and yet it was not.
The child in the painting had great,
over-brilliant eyes, wide, strained,
and haggard. The face was pinched,
as if from hunger, yet the child was
carefully dressed in a white silk
shirt and white linen shorts. He
held a cat in his arms, Siamese, sleek
and expensive. In the background
were the muted gray ruins of a
bridge.
Nina stood with her head down,
not looking at the painting, but
touching the brushes to the paint
daubs on the palette.
"The eyes," he said at length, not
wishing to hurt her, and yet angry
with her for making it necessary.
"Yes? You don't care for the
eyes?"
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"Definitely not."
"I don't either/' she said.
''But the rest is excellent. It
would take only a little effort . . ."
he broke off.
She said, 'Tou think I would be
better off copying one of Reubens'
children, or Romney's, perhaps?"
What was she trying to tell him?
He said irritably, ''Who would want
to have those eyes following him
about?" He pointed to the canvas.
"Not I," she said gently, "they
accuse me."
"Accuse you?"
"I am tormented," she said, "by
the children of our time, by the eyes
of children. Thev are stuffed with
murders for pacifiers, and violence
for playthings, and drunkenness for
amusement. They crv out to me,
the children, for bread."
"Nonsense," he said heartily, glad
to be on familiar ground. "Our chil-
dren are the best fed in the world."
"The bread of sunsets," she said,
"and mountain mornings and walks
in the Sunday parks."
He was silent, looking down into
her eves. Her words made a deso-
late beauty against his ears, like a
violinist playing to a deserted house.
He said, uncomfortably, "Oh, I
agree that youngsters nowadays get
a little too much of television and
movies and things, but, on the
whole, they are a lucky lot." He
was suddenly impatient. "After all,
they have to live in the world. They
might as well get to know what it's
made of."
CHE dipped the brush in black and
deepened the lines around the
child's eyes. "Then, if we insist
upon feeding them with these bitter
breads, we have no right to complain
about the size of their eyes, have we,
or the shapes of their souls?" She
looked past him to the sweep of the
valleys below. "What is the heavi-
ness about our necks these days.
Doctor Jonathan, is it the millstones
we wear?"
"We are much kinder to children
than in former times, I can remem-
ber my father telling me about the
whalings his father gave him."
"Did he hate him for it?"
"Hate him? Certainly not.
Grandfather Jonathan was a terrific
old gentleman. When I was a
child, I had the sneaking feeling
that he was of the same cloth as
Moses or Abraham, one of the old
prophets."
She put the brushes away and
hung a cloth over the painting. "A
child need not fear a Moses or an
Abraham. A child has great need
to fear us who give him, day by day,
the glittering corruption." She
moved back to the house. "Have
you heard from Tomas Novarro?"
"Yes. I am to call him tonight."
"And what will you tell him?"
She walked beside him.
"I will tell him that his son is
well, and that he can come and take
him now."
Better to make the operation
quick and final. But he turned away
from the whiteness that ran raggedly
into her cheeks and the strickened
narrowing of her eyes.
"You knew this was a temporary
thing."
"Yes." Her voice was scarcely
audible. "But it is so soon. Some-
how, I did not think it would be so
soon."
"You have opened the door," he
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said bruskly, ''but Tomas Novarro
has the right to enter the room."
He turned in the direction of his
car. '1 will let you know what he
says.''
But he did not call Tomas until
the next day. Then swiftly, savage-
ly, he put in the call for Quebec and
waited. Tomas called back at once.
"Yes? The boy? He is well?"
"He is very well/' said Doctor
Jonathan heavily. "The woman has
done the impossible. You owe her
a great deal."
"Yes, yes, of course." Tomas was
impatient and jubilant. "I will re-
turn at once. He is completely
well?"
"No, but he is responding as a
normally sick and frustrated child,
not like a zombie. It will take time,
much more time. But it would be
wise if you came and siphoned off
his affections, or he will never be
able to leave Miss Karsh."
"I will take him away at once."
"I wouldn't, Tomas. It would be
too much for the boy to take. He's
found a bridge back to people, but
you've got to be sure he is all the
way over the bridge before you
burn it."
"Of course ... of course." Tomas
was shaken with joy. "I will do
anything you say, anything, and of
course, I will pay her well. You
need not fear about that. Don't
worry about Miss Karsh for a min-
ute."
Doctor Craig Jonathan hung up
the telephone and sat back. Worry
about Miss Karsh? Why should he?
She was definitely "way out," all
that talk about children, and the
painting. He rubbed his eyes. The
painting haunted him, the memory
of the child in the portrait, with the
glazed, distended eyes. It seemed
that he saw those eyes in every child
he met. Doctor Jonathan sighed
and picked up his hat and bag.
Haunted eyes, hungry eyes, eyes that
searched — for what? He answered
himself. They hunted for the stuff
that Nina Karsh possessed in such
rich abundance, the pure and flow-
ing love, that asked nothing for its-
self, that gave and was replenished
from the deep and secret springs of
her being.
Dr. Jonathan plunged for the
door. He had better get Nina Karsh
off his mind, or he wouldn't know
whether he was looking at a case
of measles or hives.
IN the late afternoon Tom Bene-
dict climbed the hill. Nina, run-
ning to answer his whistle, saw
traces of tears on the boy's dusty
cheeks. She put her hands behind
her back. One does not offer com-
fort to a boy almost thirteen.
"Hot today." She pushed back
her hair with her forearm.
"Yeah, sure is." He slumped
down in the wicker chair on the
patio. Nina chose the rocker. They
sat in silence. Nina fanned herself
with the pages of a magazine.
"It sure is an empty sort of day."
He looked about. "Where's Jo-
seph?"
"Sleeping." She studied Tom. "I
was just about to have some lemon-
ade."
He brightened a little. "Can I
help you fix it?"
On an impulse she sank down
again into the rocker. "Would you
mind fixing it? After all, you know
this house as well as I do."
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He was off like a shot. She heard
him whistling in the kitchen. After
more long moments, he returned
in triumph with her best silver tray
in his brown hands. The silver
pitcher tinkled with ice, and the
cookies were arranged in mathe-
matical splendor.
'Tom! Honestly! Nobody else
knows how to do things so special."
His sigh cleansed him of grief. He
drank in great noisy gulps and
stuffed himself with cookies. 'They
left dinner for me/' he explained,
''but I wasn't hungry."
"Your mother's gone away?"
"Yeah, she and my brother Frisco,
for the day. They said I was big
enough to stay alone . . . and I sure
am. Fm sure big enough. I get
along fine."
Nina leaned back in the rocker.
What was the old saw about it takes
a thief to catch a thief, and it takes
a person who has eaten, drunk, and
lived with loneliness to know it at
a glance. Nina shivered. His pain
pierced her like a thousand separate
thorns. She saw the specter of
loneliness come out of the shadows
to stand over them, the discarded
boy, the forgotten woman.
He said, "Heard any more good
stories about David lately?"
"David?"
"The one with the slingshot."
She sat up straight. "Tom, would
you do me a big favor?"
"Sure, anything."
"Come along to church with me
tonight, and help me with Joseph.
He's getting to be such a handful."
Tom's face fell. "Well I had sort
of planned. . . ."
"We could go to a drive-in after-
ward for hamburgers and malts."
"Great . . . when do we leave?"
T^OM Benedict was puzzled but
polite during the evening. "Nev-
er been to one of these before," he
confided. He found the pages for
her in the songbook, and he sat
quietly during prayers, but he was
plainly relieved when the services
were over. Nina tried to hide her
disappointment. She had hoped
... for what? A miracle? Yes, she
said stoutly to herself. That's ex-
actly what I hoped for, a miracle for
Tom. "That's why I brought him to
you. Lord," and then, afraid that
she had been murmuring, she hast-
ily added, "but of course you know
best."
She followed Tom to the car.
"How did you like it?"
"It was just fine. Miss Karsh."
"Mamma Nina, Mamma Nina,"
murmured Joseph, clinging to her
hand.
"He heard the boy next to him
call his mother 'Mamma,' he's try-
ing it out on you," Tommy ex-
plained.
Don Jonas, in the act of backing
out his car, halted when he saw
them. "How are you tonight, Miss
Karsh?"
"Just fine," said Nina quickly.
She was in no mood to be asked
to donate four dozen cookies for a
Scout cookout.
Don Jonas cocked an enquiring
eye on Tom. "Haven't seen you at
Scout meeting." He grinned. "Bet-
ter come."
"No thanks," said Tom with
finality.
"You'd still be in time for the
surfboards."
Tom froze like a setter. "Surf-
boards?"
"We're making them," Don
Jonas said. "Most of the fellows
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have started. Fd take time out to
get you going, though."
''A surfboard of my own. . . . Fd
be right in with the big boys. . . ."
Tommy peered at Don Jonas.
''You're not kidding?"
''Fll pick vou up tomorrow at six
right in front of the Mahbu Hard-
ware. Okay?"
'Okay."
They drove in silence along the
coast highway. The evening was
just darkening. The moon came up
hke a giant orange ball and made a
glistening road upon the sea.
Tom sighed and turned to her.
'That was one lucky day for me,
Miss Karsh . . . that day I went to
see old Dominick."
"For me, too," she assured him,
''and I guess Dominick wouldn't
lose you for anything in the world."
He settled back. "You know, it's
the funniest thing, but when I
climbed that hill up to your house
I just felt real awful, like the end
of the world or something, and
now. . . ." He sat back in astonish-
ment. ''I feel just like licking
tigers."
But Nina, turning the sharp
curves to the hilltop house, did not
feel like licking tigers. She looked
at Joseph, sleeping against her side,
warm and heavy. The thought of
losing him moved chill into her
mind. "I can't!" she whispered. "I
can't go through it again . . . losing
the people I love . . . and not Jo-
seph. I can't lose Joseph."
He turned restlessly, awoke.
"Mamma Nina!" He was frightened.
Nina soothed him from the
troubled dream. "It's all right, Jo-
seph. I am here ... I am here."
{To he continued)
My Legacy
Alaude Rubin
She left this needle-case, these bits and pieces
Of silks and colored woolens; half a quilt.
She'd made one for the others, all the nieces
And granddaughters but me . . . yet how the lilt
Of her creaking rocking chair sings in my ears!
I v^atched her sew through summer's amber hours,
Through winter's long still evenings; no swift fears
Hinted that she might leave me. Now the flowers
In her window pot still bloom, their fragrance mine;
Though this quilt is still undone, my legacy
Is a memory of color, bright design,
And this open Book she used to read to me.
It was so I learned of love, of peace, of duty
Which covered her years with their quilt of shining beauty.
FROM THE FIELD
General Secretary-Treasurer Hulda Parker
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Soeiety presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Handbook of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
'hotograph submitted by Lanoie S. Bowen
GRAND COULEE STAKE (WASHINGTON) RELIEF SOCIETY WINS
BLUE RIBBON WITH GIFT QUILT
Seated, left to right: La Vera Bone, released Secretary-Treasurer; Mae Ostler, Second
[Counselor; Lanore S. Bowen, President; Lila Gunnell, First Counselor; Elaine Sweeny,
[recently appointed Secretary-Treasurer.
Standing, left to right: Mable Roylance, visiting teacher message leader; Amy Kent,
Magazine representative; Lorna Wiser, organist; Cora Jean Anderson, chorister; Thelma
Anderson, literature class leader; Maxine Read, social science class leader; LaVelle Ashby,
theology class leader; Fern Zirker, work meeting leader.
Lanore S. Bowen, President, Grand Coulee Stake Relief Society, reports: "This
beautiful satin quilt was made to be presented to President Belle S. SpafiFord as a birthday
gift at the Annual General Relief Society Conference. Members of the stake Relief
Society board had an old-fashioned 'quilting bee' at the home of Sister Bowen. Twelve
hours of stitching later, the quilt was finished and won a blue ribbon at the County
Fair. The quilt was designed by Fern Tolley of the Moses Lake Ward (not present
Jwhen the picture was taken), with the Relief Society emblem centering it. Much lo\e
went into each stitch in the quilt."
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Photograph submitted by Lois W. Ohsiek
HONOLULU STAKE (HAWAII) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR
STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, May lo, 1961
Front row, center, President Joseph Fielding Smith of the Council of the Twelve;
at President Smith's left, Sister Smith, and continuing from Sister Smith's left, left to
right: Lois W. Ohsiek, President, Honolulu Stake Relief Society; Thelma Field, Work
Director Counselor; Marian Nibley, Secretary-Treasurer; Christie Robertson, chorister;
Miriam Lieu, organist.
Sister Ohsiek reports that one hundred Singing Mothers presented the music for
stake conference held May 10, 1961. They have been asked by their stake president to
present the music at the same time each year for stake quarterly conference.
Photograph submitted by Marvel M. Young
BEN LOMOND STAKE (OGDEN, UTAH) PRESENTS PROGRAM ''WORLD
MESSENGERS OF LOVE AND SERVICE" AT VISITING TEACHER
CONVENTION, May 6, 1961
Front row, left to right: Hilda Hinchcliffe and Kathleen Hall.
Second row, left to right: Lani Lawrence and her mother Joyce Lawrence; Kim
Barker; Judy Grant; First Counselor Doris Berrett; President Marvel M. Young; Second
Counselor Eunice Hadley; Christina Van Hulten; Fay Brandenburg; Penny Welling;
Bonnie Warnick.
Third row, left to right: Astrid Vangsness; Mary Ann Hansen; Karen Wood-
burn; Renee Erickson; Ingeborg Hebel Adams; Josephine Gomez (half hidden); Maria
Nava; Margaret Boiteaux.
"This inspirational convention," Sister Young reports, "depicted the worth of
the visiting teacher throughout the world, and the sweet spirit she brings into the homes
of the Latter-day Saints. Our narrator was Laurine Roberts of the stake board. The
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
305
women pictured, for the most part, are authentic representatives of their natixe land,
and they wore authentic costumes. The music, which was rendered by a double
trio seemed to bring all parts of the world together as one, in love and unity. They
sang 'No Man Is an Island' and 'One World.' Eight women, each from a different
country, in deep humility, touched each heart with their testimonies. The stories of
their conversions in their native countries, and their love for Rehef Society, brought
tears to our eyes as we realized that we are all children of our Heavenly Father, no matter
what the nationality, and the gospel makes us one. Refreshments were served by the
stake board from a table beautifully decorated with little figurines from all countries,
and their flags, surrounding a large world. It was a wonderful afternoon for the
visiting teachers of Ben Lomond Stake."
Photograph subm
GARFIELD STAKE (UTAH), ESCALANTE NORTH AND SOUTH WARD
SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR MANY OCCASIONS
Standing at the right: Thelma Cottam, chorister.
Seated at the piano: Areola Gates, organist.
Front row, seated, left to right: Geneal Shurtz; Betty Alvey; Rula Spencer; Al-
berta Liston; Eva Spencer; Roselba Griffin; Thais Griffin.
Second row, seated, left to right: Loretta Shurtz; Reva Bailey; Janet Spencer; Ada
Porter; LaFave Bailey; Dawn Griffin; Fawn Mecham; Louise Liston.
Third row, standing, left to right: Hilda Roundy; LaRue Griffin; Veda Mitchell;
Verda Liston; Ruth Griffin; Yukon Norman; Marlene Haws.
Nelda Willis, President, Garfield Stake Relief Society, reports: "This group is
much in demand in our area for presenting the music at funerals, PTA meetings,
quarterly stake conferences, and Relief Society conxentions. During the past year they
presented the singing in the quarterly conferences held in Escalante, thirteen funerals,
two numbers at our stake Relief Society convention, two numbers for our stake
Christmas gift suggestions party, two numbers at a district PTA meeting, two num-
bers at an area soil conser\ation meeting, and for many other occasions. On April 29,
1961, by special request, they sang two numbers at the assembly in the St. George
Temple. We are very proud of these sisters and really appreciate their beautiful
singing."
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Photograph submitted by Rowena J. Warr
CASSIA STAKE (IDAHO) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC EOR
RELIEF SOCIETY CONVENTION AND FOR STAKE
QUARTERLY CONFERENCE
Seated back of the organ, at the left, left to right: Raola Crane, conductor; Dorothy
Whiteley, organist.
Rowena }. Warr, President, Cassia Stake Relief Society, stands at the left in the
back row ( wearing dark dress ) .
Sister W^arr reports: "All of the wards in the stake have Singing Mothers
choruses."
Photograph submitted by Vera B. Tibbitts
YELLOWSTONE STAKE (IDAHO) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC
FOR RELIEF SOCIETY ANNIVERSARY OBSERVANCE, TETON AND
YELLOWSTONE STAKE RELIEF SOCIETY CONVENTION,
AND FOR OTHER OCCASIONS
Front row, standing, left to right, stake offcers: Eva Rice, social science class
leader; Alta Murdoch, Second Counselor; Vera B. Tibbitts, President; Stella Orme. First
Counselor; Sarah Allison, work meeting leader; Henrietta Bassett, Secretary-Treasurer;
Thcrel Ricks, organist; Lisle Andrus, chorister.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
307
Second row, sixth from the left: Martha Remington, theology class leader.
Third row, at the left: Ethel Pulley, visiting teacher message leader.
Back row, at the left: Elva Swensen, literature class leader.
Merle White, Magazine representative, was absent when this picture was taken.
Sister Tibbitts reports: "This group has presented inspirational songs for the Relief
Society anni\ersary stake social, Teton and Yellowstone Stake Relief Society convention,
for funerals, and for the recent stake conference. Among a variety of numbers which
they have enjoyed presenting was: 'Come, Ye Blessed of My Father,' composed by
Florence J. Madsen."
PhutoKiai^h submitted by Pauline H. Stevens
BIG HORN STAKE (WYOMING) HONORS FORMER RELIEF SOCIETY
PRESIDENTS AT LUNCHEON, August 9, 1961
Front row, seated, left to right: Fay Plartson Harris (1937-43) of Lovell, Wyoming,
honored for outstanding service during Relief Society centennial year, and for bringing
ward and stake histories up to date and compiling them in a centennial book; Hulda
Morrell Lynn (1943-45), now of Compton, California, honored for her work and
direction in gathering $5 from each member for the Relief Society Building; Grace
Alexander Allphin (1945-1948), of Lovell, Wyoming, honored for collecting clothing
which was sent to war-torn Europe.
Back row, standing, left to right: Amelia Harris Robertson (1948-1955), of
Lovell, Wyoming, honored for helping to raise funds for the stake house and initiating
visiting teacher conventions in the stake; Helena Danialson Belnap (1955-1957), now
living in Illinois, honored for the comparati\'e chart she used to bring up attendance
at Relief Society meetings; Pauline Rollins Ste\ens, of Cowley, Wyoming, present
President.
Sister Stevens reports that Sister Belnap and Sister Lynn were in Lo\'ell, Wyoming,
for a ^•isit during the summer, and a luncheon was given on August 9th, honoring all
former presidents.
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Photograph submitted by Emily S. Romish
POCATELLO STAKE (IDAHO) PRESENTS PROGRAM "VISITING
TEACHERS OF LANDS WHERE OUR MISSIONARIES LABOR"
AT MAY SOCIAL, 1961
Emily S. Romish, President, Pocatello Stake Relief Society, reports: 'The picture
is of four sisters from each of the six wards in our stake. These sisters represented the
visiting teachers in foreign countries at the May social this year. The social honored
the visiting teachers, and the theme was 'Visiting Teachers of Lands Where Our Mis-
sionaries Labor,' and 'Adapting the Visiting Teachers to Each Particular Home.' Beauti-
ful musical selections were given to correlate with the theme. The program was under
the direction of Violet Hart, Education Counselor, and Julia Robbins, chorister. At
the conclusion of the program the sisters gathered in the recreation room to admire
a display of handwork which had been made during the winter season and to be served
light refreshments. The display was under direction of Letha Stevenson, Work Direc-
tor Counselor, and Edla Toombs, work meeting leader."
Photograph submitted by Leta C. Pugh
NORTHERN CALIFORNIA MISSION, FORMER REDWOOD DISTRICT
VISITING TEACHER CONVENTION, September 23, 1961
Standing at the back, left to right, former district board members: Myrtle Dillon,
Secretary-Treasurer; Wanda Hodges, theology class leader; Dolly Allen, Hterature class
leader; Dora Bingham, Second Counselor; Naline Felshaw, First Counselor; Leta C.
Pugh, President, Northern California Mission Relief Society; Cynthia Schwenson, Presi-
dent, Redwood District Relief Society; Eldis Jensen, social science class leader; Hen-
rietta Bown; Betty Jenks, work meeting leader; Grace Jones.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
309
Sister Pugh reports: "At this occasion the visiting teachers of the Redwood Dis-
trict enjoyed a lovely luncheon prepared by the sisters of the Eureka Branch. The
front centerpiece was a beautiful arrangement of large yellow chrysanthemums. Each
guest was presented with a lovely carnation corsage from the district board. After the
luncheon the district board members presented a short dramatization of 'The Key/
showing how we can merit the key and its blessings through visiting teaching. A total
of sixty-five sisters attended, representing six branches and one dependent branch.
"This was the last function which was held for the Relief Society in the Redwood
District. The district was organized into the Redwood Stake, October 22, 1961. We
are very happy for this organization and know that the sisters will receive much satis-
faction in being members of a stake."
Photograph submitted by Josephine Prinster
GRAND JUNCTION STAKE (COLORADO) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, May 11, 1961
Front row, seated, left to right: Joyce Davis, chorister; Claudia Aubert, theology
class leader; Bessie Gietz, literature class leader; Betty Christensen, Second Counselor;
Josephine Prinster, President; Beulah Whicker, First Counselor; Melba Larsen, Secre-
tary; Viona Pace, organist.
Sister Prinster reports: "Our presentation at Grand Junction Stake Convention was
the first time this group sang together, as it was formed from the part of Grand Junc-
tion Stake that was left when it was divided last January, and our newly acquired mem-
bers who formerly comprised West Colorado District Mission. Seven of our twelve
Relief Societies are represented in this chorus. Some of the sisters traveled over one
hundred miles to the practices. Our stake president was so pleased with our presenta-
tion that he has asked us to sing at our next stake quarterly conference."
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NEW ENGLAND MISSION, GREENFIELD (MASSACHUSETTS) BRANCH
RELIEF SOCIETY PRESENTS QUILT TO PRESIDENT AND SISTER CARR
At the left Hilda Goucher, and at the right Marion Clapp, of the Greenfield Branch,
Springfield District.
May F. Carr, President, New England Mission Relief Society, reports: "A hand-
made quilt of unique design, fashioned by the Relief Society members of the Greenfield
Branch was presented to President John E. Carr and Sister Carr at the Springfield
District Conference, Springfield, Massachusetts. The quilt, measuring So by 106 inches,
represents the map of the New England Mission, comprising all of the New England
States and the Maritime Provinces of Canada. Near the center is the 'Torch of Truth'
and the rays quilted out from the torch represent the inspiration of these leaders
throughout the mission. The border of each State and Province is embroidery work.
President and Sister Carr were thrilled and surprised with the thoughtfulness of this
branch. It is truly a keepsake for them, and will be a fond remembrance of their
labors in the New England Mission."
Grandmothers Know
Christie Lund CoJes
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The httle ones;
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With cookies and buns.
Grandmothers hold them
Hours without end;
Read to them often,
Play, "Let's pretend."
Grandmothers cherish them,
For Grandmothers know
How swift the years fly.
And little ones go.
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MAY 1962
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On a May Morning
Ouida Johns Pedersen
In my mother's land, the hawthorne
Now unfolds
Ineffably sweet upon the air,
And lanes waken to the fragrance
Of meadows starred with Mayflower.
If her thoughts turn backward
To those lovely shores, where
Childhood blossomed like orchards,
Only a pensive glance
At the cherry trees betray^ it. The hour
Of relinquishment has been assuaged by time.
And here, her love, unfailing as the sun,
Unfolds in service sweeter than the bough
Of fragile bloom, strong as the root.
Perennially, her care, wild nectar on the tongue
Sucked from these stars of spring.
Creates for children who surround her now
Gardens of loveliness. Dearer than the shoot
Of tender green, these buds so young
Are now enriched by her remembering.
The Cover: Mountain Garden at Brighton, Utah
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From Near and Far
We of the McGill Ward Seminary in
the Nevada Stake of Zion wish to thank
you for the serial story "Because of the
Word" (conckided in January 1962), by
Hazel M. Thomson. In our seminary we
are discussing temples, and this story con-
cerning the building of the Kirtland Tem-
ple fits in very well. It added color and
variety to our study of temples.
— LaVerl K. Harris
McGill, Nevada
I enjoy all the Magazine so very much,
and another sister and I meet each week
for our own "home Relief Society."
— Mrs. Mary Ann Kohfield
Norton, Kansas
The covers of the Magazine are simply
beautiful. The January cover picture looks
so real (Yosemite National Park, Cali-
fornia), I can almost feel the snow. The
first prize poem "The Other Mother," by
Miranda Snow Walton, in the same issue
is certainly thought provoking.
— Erma B. Braack
Raymond, Washington
I wish to express my appreciation for
the Magazine. I enjoy taking a few min-
utes now and then to read a clean in-
spirational story. Many times I have gone
to the public magazine racks for a maga-
zine containing short stories, and I have
come away empty-handed, and empty-
hearted, so to say. I am a young mother
with four children, and I do not have
time to read book-length novels, but I do
enjoy reading short stories during rest
periods.
— Mrs. Maxine P. Done
San Jose, California
The Relief Society Mags^zine helps to
strengthen my testimony of t'h.e gospel of
Jesus Christ as taught in his Church. The
Magazine is filled with inspiring thoughts
from wonderful leaders. The stories con-
tain beautiful examples of right living.
— Magree G. Schaerr
Kanab, Utah
Recently we had shocking brush fires
which encircled our city, and a national
emergency was declared. After the fires
had been raging for two days, the Red
Cross society found that we keep a list of
nursing sisters, and we were thrilled to be
able to send some of our wonderful sisters
to the rescue at very short notice. The
Relief Society organization is truly won-
derful, and I sometimes feel that we could
say that we are prepared for any emer-
gency. We certainly appreciate The Re-
lief Society Magazine down here in Mel-
bourne Stake.
— Mavis E. Cutts
President
Melbourne Stake Relief Society
Victoria, Australia
I just have to tell you how much I en-
joyed that fine, inspiring address by Elder
Sterling W. Sill, "Where Your Treasure
Is," in the March issue of the Magazine.
Every member of our Church should read
this address. I rejoice in the Magazine,
which is published especially for the
women of the Church. I feel with all
my heart that it should reach every home.
A good book is truly a lasting gift.
— Cora Daley
Snowville, Utah
I have never read a fiction story that
could touch one's heart like the story
"Good Morning, Mrs. Romaic!" (by
Mabel Law Atkinson, March 1962). I
don't believe a more beautiful story could
be written. Such a true picture of a
wonderful life.
— Mrs. Colleen L. Barnes
Naf, Idaho
A word of appreciation for the lovely
serial "Sow the Field With Roses," by
Margery S. Stewart (concluded in June
1962). With its lofty theme and crisp
style, it has the impact of poetry. Our
Magazine is a fitting frame for such excel-
lence.
— Evelyn Miller Sandberg
Ojai, California
Page 314
THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford - President
Marianne C. Sharp ^ First Counse or
Louise W. Madsen ----- Second Counselor
Hulda Parker . - - - - Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Alberta H. Christensen Mary R. Young Elizabeth B. Winters
Edith S Elliott Mildred B. Eyring Mary V. Cameron LaRue H. Rosell
Florence J. Madsen Charlotte A. Larsen Afton W. Hunt Jennie R. Scott
Leone G Layton Edith P. Backman Wealtha S. Mendenhall Alice L. Wilkinson
Blanche B. Stoddard Winniefred S. Peorle M. Olsen LaPriel S. Bunker
Evon W. Peterson Manwaring Elsa T. Peterson Irene W. Buehner
Aleine M. Young Elna P. Haymond Irene B. Woodford Irene C. Lloyd
Josie B. Bay Annie M. Ellsworth Fanny S. Kienitz Hazel S. Cannon
Hazel S. Love
, REUEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor ..^- ------ --_ Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor - r Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager - - - ------- Belle S. Spafford
VOL 49 MAY 1962 NO. 5
(contents
SPECIAL FEATURES
Portrait of a Mother William J. Critchlow, Jr. 316
Hazel Sowards Cannon Appointed to the General Board of
Relief Society Luella F. Okeson 320
Hazel Sperry Love Appointed to the General Board of Relief Society Mary R. Young 321
Contest Announcements — 1962 322
Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest 322
Relief Society Short Story Contest 323
She Knew the Prophet Joseph Smith — Part II — Mercy Fielding Thompson ..Preston Nibley 326
Magazine Honor Roll for 1961 372
FICTION
Hand to the Plow — Part I — Ticket Wicket Ilene H. Kingsbury 330
A Dog and His Maid Shirley Sargent 335
Little Teamstress Frances C. Yost 342
Dare to Be Different Mabel Law Atkinson 348
Sow the Field With Roses — Chapter 5 Margery S. Stewart 366
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 314
Sixty Years Ago 338
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 339
Editorial: The Cultural Values of Relief Society Louise W. Madsen 340
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 384
Birthday Congratulations 392
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
The Oatmeal Box Violet Nimmo 334
How to Give a Magazine to Someone Who Is 111 Evelyn Witter 346
I Was Thinking Elsie C. Carroll 347
The Reward of a Thing Well Done Caroline Eyring Miner 351
My Mother's Hands Esther H. Lamb 352
Patio Breakfasts for Summertime Linnie F. Robinson 356
Souffle Sandwich Helene B. Ray 357
Surfside Luncheon Theme Eva Willes Wangsgaard 358
Rhubarb Recipes Grace V. Price 360
A Song of the Sewing Machine Shirley Thulin 362
Rachel Kirkham Wanlass Makes Unique Gifts for MIA Girls ..-. 371
Your Pre-School Playmates Janet W. Breeze 391
POETRY
On a May Morning — Frontispiece Ouida Johns Pedersen 313
Memories, Lela Foster Morris, 319; The Constant Generation, Lael W. Hill, 324; The Sentinel,
Zara Sabin, 325; I Love You, Florence S. Glines, 341; For Mother's Day, Dorothy J. Roberts, 351;
Mine for Keeps, Ida Elaine James, 353; Spring Cleaning, Vesta N. Fairbaim, 354; New House
in Old Orchard, Maude Rubin, 354; New Day, Leora Larsen, 354; Party, Christie Lund Coles, 361;
Wait for Me, Sun, Mabel Jones Gabbott, 370; Seeking, Catherine B. Bowles, 391; Each Day,
Mae L. Curtis, 392.
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Page 315
Portrait of a Mother
William /. Ciitchlow, Jr.
Assistant to the Council of the Tweh e
Artist,
Your model is dearer than any other. . . .
Paint beauty, when painting
The portrait of mother.
— Helen Gray Robertson
THE lady sat across the aisle
one row ahead of me in the
coach I boarded one morning
at Ogden. She was alone. The pil-
low in the vacant seat beside her
bore mute evidence that she had
spent the night on the train. She
was napping when, accidentally in a
straying glance, I saw a faint smile
break on her thin lips. It faded,
reappeared, and faded again, all in a
moment, and then of a sudden it
broadened almost to a grin, bringing
with it a gush of tears which her
eyelids failed miserably to restrain.
Evelids never were tear-tight anywav.
God purposely made them that way,
and hers w^ere no exception. Ob-
viously embarrassed, she quickly
brushed them aside with her bare
hands, succeeding only in smearing
them all over her cheeks. I watched
her dry the cheeks with a handker-
chief. Her face was thin, pale, un-
adorned by any sort of make-up —
and unmistakably sad — without her
smile.
Before the conductor came in to
announce Salt Lake Citv as the next
stop, she nervously slipped into her
coat, adjusted her hat in the window
glass, settled forward in her seat,
pressed her face against the window-
pane, and sat almost motionless until
the train idled to a stop. She was
looking for someone, of that there
could be no doubt.
Page 316
There was a sheer look of disap-
pointment on her sad face when she
left her seat and hastily ''elbowed''
her way into the line of disembark-
ing passengers, keeping the while,
her eyes glued on the window. Pres-
entlv, I saw, but not before she did,
three women come alongside the
car. One ^^■as carrving a child — a
little girl. Out of the line of pas-
sengers she bolted back to the win-
dow. With rapid, violent taps on
the sturdy glass, she attracted their
attention and immediatelv the child
was brought to the window and
boosted high up near the window-
pane. Pointing hands directed its
attention to the excited lady in the
car. I could not hear the women's
\oices but I did read their lips,
"Look, there's Mummv ~ see Mum-
m\
The child stared soberly. Could
"Mummy" have been gone so long
a\^'ay that she was forgotten? I
wondered, but not for long. Sud-
denly, almost explosi\ely, the child
came to life. Its face brightened —
its legs began to kick — its arms
stretched out to the window — its
lips were cr\"ing, "Mumm\" — Mum-
my!" The child's crying intensified
as the mother, inside the window,
bolted back again into the line of
passengers out of the child's sight.
I stood aside to gi\e her my place in
the line. As she brushed bv me hot
PORTRAIT OF A MOTHER
317
tears fell upon my hand. Truthfully,
I do not know whose tears they were
— hers or mine!
Need I describe further that hap-
py reunion? Have you ever wit-
nessed a greater love than that of a
mother for her child? Does the love
of a child for its mother match it?
Children have been commanded
to love their mothers: ''Honour
(love) thy father and thy mother . . .
(Exodus 20:12).
Husbands have been commanded
to love their wives (the mothers of
their children): 'Thou shalt love
thy wife with all thy heart . . .
(D&C42:22).
We have all been commanded to
love our God: "Thou shalt love the
Lord thy God with all thy heart, and
with all thy soul, and with all thy
mind'' (Mt. 22:37).
OUT where in such strong lan-
guage as "WITH ALL THY
HEART" have mothers ever been
commanded to love their children?
No such commandment comes read-
ily to my mind nor shall I spend
time searching for one because I
firmly believe that God, choosing
women as his partners in the cre-
ative process, tucked awav some-
where in their hearts a larger spark
of his divine love, which later glows
to brilliance in a mother's heart, and
this endowment, it seems to me,
obviates the need for a specific com-
mandment to love their children.
This love is inherent. It operates
automatically — e\en instinctively.
In lower forms of animal life it is
called instinct.
Hunters have told about the fury
of the mother bear when her cub
is molested. We have obser\ed the
mother hen scratch for worms to
feed her chicks, and we have seen
her spread her feathered wings to
provide a protective covering against
cold and the night.
Call it instinct or whatever else
you may, I still believe the tender
care and affection the mother of my
children has for her children is the
noblest and the greatest kind of love.
It is matchless, eternal, and I thank
God for so endowing her.
"There is a love," said Rufus
Choate, 'which comes uncalled for,
one knows not how. It comes with
the very air, the eye, the ear, the in-
stincts . . . the first beating of the
heart."
Edgar Allan Poe has written :
I feel that, in the Heavens above,
The angels, whispering to one another,
Can find, among their burning terms of
love.
None so devotional as that of Mother.
The love of a good mother stands
next to the love of our Heavenly
Father.
If one would only give a compa-
rable amount of such mother's love
to our Heavenly Father, such devo-
tion might well satisfy the com-
mandment: "Thou shalt love the
Lord thy God with all thy heart "
The family is an organization.
Every organization needs a spokes-
man. The father in the Latter-day
Saint family, by reason of his Priest-
hood, is the spokesman, also the
priest in his own family. The moth-
er is:
The Heart — There is a center to each
home from which all joys must start —
the center of the home? It is a mother's
heart.
The Co-creator — God's partners in the
creating processes — the architects and
builders of all humanity.
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The Expediter — In the absence of
father, she leads the family to prayers and
always to its duties.
The Teacher — She teaches the little
children their first prayers. She teaches by
example. The mother who drinks coffee
even though she denies it to her children
has failed to effectively teach the Word of
Wisdom. "Train up a child in the way
he should go: and when he is old, he
will not depart from it" (Proverbs 22:6).
The Dietician — She wants her children
to grow up strong and healthy.
The Cook — The daughters, her as-
sistants.
The Nurse — Sickness, though unin-
vited, visits occasionally in every home.
The Psychiatrist — Principally for her
husband, for whom she is the receptacle
for all his cares and most of his ill humor.
Somewhere it is written that ''the virtues
of the mothers shall be visited on their
children as well as the sins of the fa-
thers."
''A mother/' says Jim Reed, ''is a
composite. She's your nurse when
you skin your knee, your conqueror
when you're across her knee. She's
your provider at mealtime, your
teacher for home work. She scolds,
laughs, and loves."
/^NCE when my three children
were in their tender years, my
wife and I joined four other couples
on a two-weeks vacation tour of the
Northwest. It took a powerful lot
of persuading to get my wife to leave
the children in the loving care of
the grandparents. I am sure, there
was scarcely a moment all the while
we were away when the children
were not uppermost in my wife's
mind. Early in the second week she
had a feeling that all was not right
at home. ''I am needed at home,"
she said. ''Something has happened
— the children are sick!"
"Mamma, you worry too much,"
I replied, and the others all sustained
me — but to no avail. So, sooner
than we had planned, we started for
home. I shall never forget that last,
long day's drive. I was at the wheel,
my wife at my side urging me on
and on: "Faster, faster, don't stop
for lunch — don't stop for dinner —
keep going." It was late that night
when grandma tearfully greeted us
at the door:
"We have done all we know how
to do, so has the doctor. Your Bob-
bie is very sick. He needs you. I
am so glad you're home!"
Now how did the mother know
that all was not right at home? Has
God endowed mothers with another
special gift — a something we might
call intuition? Only this I know:
I could have made fewer errors
through the years had I substituted
at times this mother's intuition for
my rationalism. Intuition is kin to
inspiration. Reason in itself is not
a source of knowledge; it must often
give way to a mother's sense of per-
ception. You may call it intuition,
inspiration, or whatever you like, but
you will be exercising wisdom if you
will heed it now and then.
Motherhood is just another name
for sacrifice— a synonym for devo-
tion. Mothers never love too much
but some love not too well. Those
who indulge their children often
spoil them; those who neglect them,
hiring out for wages, even though
the wages provide comforts, con-
venience, cars, or whatever else the
mothers think their children need,
often contribute to their delinquen-
cy. No profession, no career can
PORTRAIT OF A MOTHER
319
compare with motherhood. A moth-
er's place is in the home.
May I suggest a creed for mothers?
Since to this work, Father, thou
hast called me — a partner in the
creation process — help me to give
it all that thou hast given me of love
and gentleness and insight, and wis-
dom and strength and patience and
forgiveness.
I accept the calling of mother-
hood as a noble career — even the
holiest and the happiest of all earth's
tasks.
''T^HOUGHTS of mothers," said
Richard L. Evans, ''somehow
seem to symbolize the sense of be-
longing; of home and family, of the
love of loved ones, the lasting, heal-
ing kind of love, which Emerson
said, 'is the remedy for all blunders,
the cure for all blindness . . . the
redeemer and instructor of souls.' "
John Ruskin wrote: "The perfect
loveliness of a woman's [mother's]
countenance can only consist in that
majestic peace, which is founded in
the memory of happy and useful
years . . . queens you [mothers] must
always be . . . queens to your hus-
bands and your sons . . . wherever
a true wife [mother] comes, this
home is always round her. The
stars only may be over her head . . .
but home is yet wherever she is . . .
with a love that heals, that waits
and watches, a love that gives, and
does and shares, and shelters and
understands. . . ."
"Thank God for mothers, you
who have them. And you who have
not now, thank him for such a moth-
er to remember. And you, the
young mothers who have children
yet around you, God grant that you
may give them such love, such mem-
ories to remember" (Richard L.
Evans).
■ ♦ »
Memories
Leia Fostei Morris
Memories I have of olden yesterdays,
Leaf-shadowed lanes and flower-bordered ways;
Children gathering anemones on a windy hill
In early spring; I wonder if they bloom there still.
Small, white-clad figures trudging up the stair,
Dimpled hands folded reverently in prayer,
Like sleeping angels in their cosy beds;
Pale silken curls were halos for their heads.
Cherished scenes of an olden yesteryear,
Of all hfe's bliss and ecstasies most dear,
Locked away in memory's treasure chest,
Deep in my heart forever there to rest.
Hazel Sowards Cannon Appointed
fo the General Board of Relief Society
LueJla F. OJceson
Instructor of English, Granite School District, Salt Lake City, Utah
Sister Cannon graduated from
Uintah High School in Vernal. Lat-
er, she received a degree in home
economics from Utah State Univer-
sity in Logan, Utah. She taught at
Granite High School for two years.
On August 30, 1934, she was mar-
ried to Hyrum P. Cannon in the
Logan Temple. They have two
children. Harmon S. Cannon has
fulfilled a mission to the Eastern
States and, with his sister, Ida Chris-
tine, is now attending the University
of Utah. Sister Cannon has created
a lovely, distinctive home for the
family, and has pro\ed that real
homemaking is an art. True to
her early training, she has always
been devoted to serving her Church.
She has been an active Relief Society
worker, having held positions as a
\isiting teacher, literature class lead-
er, work meeting lesson instructor,
and counselor in the presidencv of
the Federal Heights Ward, Emigra-
tion Stake.
In recent years Sister Cannon has
returned to teaching school. With
her keen interest in education, she
enjoys this outlet and finds satisfac-
tion in it. She taught at Olympus
High School from 1954 to 1956, and
at the present time is on the faculty
at Central Junior High School.
Surely Sister Cannon's marked
spiritual qualities and extensive
background in Relief Society work
will enable her to be dedicated, wise,
and conscientious in the perform-
ance of her new duties.
HAZEL SOWARDS CANNON
jLJAZEL Sowards Cannon was ap-
pointed to the General Board
of Relief Socictv Februarv 21, 1962.
She has accepted the responsibility
in a spirit worthy of a devoted Lat-
ter-day Saint woman. Among her
many qualifications for the position
are a truly humble attitude, a sincere
love of her fellow beings, and a vital,
innate graciousness of manner.
Sister Cannon is the daughter of
Harmon S. and Ida Rebecca Jensen
Sowards. These devout Latter-day
Saints settled in Vernal, Utah. Her
father is a civic-minded, friendly,
generous man with a distinguished
record of service in his communitv
and Church. Her mother, now de-
ceased, was also a devout Church
and civic worker; a genteel woman,
sensitive to the needs of others, and
creati\'e in everv phase of her life.
Page 320
Hazel Sperry Love Appointed
to the General Board of Relief Society
Mary R. Young
Member, General Board of Relief Society
HAZEL SPERRY LOVE
TTAZEL Sperry Love was appoint-
ed to the General Board of
Relief Society March 7, 1962. She
comes to her new position with a
rich background of training and
of service and leadership in the
Church. Her faith, sincere testi-
mony of the gospel, enthusiastic
willingness and capacity for work are
but a few of her outstanding quali-
fications.
Sister Love was born in Salt Lake
City, Utah, to William A. and Anna
Eardley Sperry in a home where she
was taught the principles of the gos-
pel and to accept everv opportunity
which came to her to serve the
Church.
She was married to J. Leonard
Love in the Salt Lake Temple on
March 18, 1919, and has always sup-
ported and encouraged him in
Church positions, as Bishop of Yale-
crest Ward, member of the Church
Welfare Committee, Mission Presi-
dent, and in his present position as
a Reginal Supervisor of Stake Mis-
sions. Together, they created a
beautiful spiritual home for their
three children. Jay L., Richard S.
and Joyce (Mrs. Spencer Jenson), all
of whom were married in the tem-
ple.
Sister Love brings a wealth of ex-
perience to her new assignment. She
served as head of the Relief Society
in the Northern California Mission
when her husband presided over that
Mission. She has worked diligently
in all of the auxiliary organizations
of the Church since she was a young
girl. Her wonderful influence was
felt by the young people as she
served as an officer in the MIA. As
a Relief Society worker, she was an
outstanding visiting teacher for
many years. She was a counselor
and then president of the Relief
Society in Yalecrest Ward, Bonne-
xille Stake, and later serv^ed as first
counselor in the stake presidency of
Relief Society in Bonneville Stake.
At the time of her call, she was a
member of the Sunday School Board
in Parleys Stake.
Her rich experience, exceptional
executive ability, plus her sincere
testimony and genuine love for Re-
lief Society will contribute added
strength to the General Board.
Page 321
1962
Contest Announcements
CONTESTS CLOSE AUGUST 15, 1962
THE Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest and the Relief Society Short Story
Contest are conducted annually by the General Board of Relief So-
ciety to stimulate creative writing among Latter-day Saint women
and to encourage high standards of work. Latter-day Saint women w^ho
qualif}' under the rules of the respective contests are invited to enter their
work in either or both contests.
The General Board would be pleased to receive entries from th.e out-
lying stakes and missions of the Church as well as from those in and near
Utah. Since the two contests are entirely separate, requiring different writ-
ing skills, the winning of an award in one of them in no way precludes
winning in the other.
Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest
'T^HE Eliza R. Snow Poem Contest ployees of the Relief Societ}- General
opens with this announcement ^^^^^-^ ^ ■• ..^ j -u
if A . A -o • -• OnJv one poem mav be submitted by
and closes August 15, 1962. Prizes ^^^^ contestant
will be awarded as follows: 3. The poem must not exceed fifty
First prize $40 \? ^"^ ^^^1^. ^^ typewritten if pos^
Q ^ • J sible; where this cannot be done, it
becond prize ^1,0 should be legibly written. Only one side
Third prize $20 of the paper is to be used. (A duplicate
Priyp nnpm<; will he nnhlisherl in ^^P^ °^ ^^^ P^^"" ^^^"^^ ^^ retained by
rrize poems will be puDllSlied m contestants to insure against loss.)
the January 1963 issue of The Re- ^ j^^ ^j^^^, ^^ ^^l^.^I^ ,^^^ p^^„^ i,
het Society Magazme (the birth- written is to be without signature or other
month of Eliza R. Snow ) . identifying marks.
Prize-winning poems become the 5. No explanatory material or picture
property of the Relief Society Gen- is to accompany a poem,
eral Board, and may not be pub- 6. Each poem is to be accompanied by
lished by others except upon writ- ^stamped envelope on which is written
•^ . . f. ^.1 ^^ 1 the contestants name and address. Nom
ten permission from the General de plumes are not to be used.
Board. The General Board reserves ^ a signed statement is to accompany
the right to publish any of the other the poem submitted, certifying:
poems submitted, paying for them a. That the author is a member of The
at the time of publication at the ^^"'^^^ ^^ 1^^"^ Christ of Latter-day
regular Magazine rates. b. That' the poem (state title) is the
Rules for the contest: contestant's original work.
c. 1 hat it has never been published.
1. This contest is open to all Latter-day d. That it is not in the hands of an
Saint women, exclusive of members of the editor or other person with a view
Relief Society General Board and em- to pubhcation.
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CONTEST ANNOUNCEMENTS
323
e. That it will not be published nor
submitted elsewhere for publication
until the contest is decided.
8. A writer who has received the first
prize for two consecutive years must wait
two years before she is again eligible to
enter the contest.
9. The judges shall consist of one mem-
ber of the General Board, one person from
the English department of an educational
institution, and one person who is a
recognized writer. In case of complete dis-
agreement among the judges, all poems
selected for a place by the various judges
will be submitted to a specially selected
committee for final decision.
In evaluating the poems, consideration
will be given to the following points:
a. Message or theme
b. Form and pattern
c. Rhythm and meter
d. Accomplishment of the pur-
pose of the poem
e. Climax
10. Entries must be postmarked not
later than August 15, 1962.
11. All entries are to be addressed to
Relief Society Eliza R. Snow Poem Con-
test, 76 North Main, Salt Lake City 11,
Utah.
Relief Society Short Story Contest
npHE Relief Society Short Story
Contest for 1962 opens with
this announcement and closes Aug-
ust 15, 1962.
The prizes this year will be as
follows:
First prize $75
Second prize $60
Third prize $50
The three prize-winning stories
will be published consecutively in
the first three issues of The Relief
Society Magazine for 1963. Prize-
winning stories become the property
of the Relief Society General Board
and may not be published by others
except upon written permission
from the General Board. The Gen-
eral Board reserves the right to pub-
lish any of the other stories entered
in the contest, paying for them at
the time of publication at the regu-
lar Magazine rates.
Rules for the contest:
1. This contest is open to Latter-day
Saint women — exclusive of members of
the Relief Society General Board and em-
ployees of the General Board — who have
had at least one literary composition pub-
lished or accepted for publication.
2. Only one story may be submitted by
each contestant.
3. The story must not exceed 3,000
words in length and must be typewritten.
The number of the words must appear
on the first page of the manuscript. (All
words should be counted, including one
and two-letter words.) A duplicate copy
of the story should be retained by con-
testants to insure against loss.
4. The contestant's name is not to ap-
pear anywhere on the manuscript, but a
stamped envelope on which is written
the contestant's name and address is to be
enclosed with the story. Nom de plumes
are not to be used.
5. A signed statement is to accompany
the story submitted certifying:
a. That the author is a member of The
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints.
b. That the author has had at least one
literary composition published or ac-
cepted for publication. (This state-
ment must give name and date of
publication in which the contest-
ant's work has appeared or, if not
yet published, evidence of accept-
ance for publication.)
c. That the story submitted (state the
title and number of words) is the
contestant's original work.
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d. That it has never been pubhshed,
that it is not in the hands of an
editor or other person with a view
to pubhcation, and that it will not
be published nor submitted else-
where for publication until the con-
test is decided.
6. No explanatory material or picture is
to accompany the story.
7. A writer who has received the first
prize for two consecutive years must wait
for two years before she is again eligible
to enter the contest.
8. The judges shall consist of one mem-
ber of the General Board, one person from
the English department of an educational
institution, and one person who is a rec-
ognized writer. In case of complete dis-
agreements among the judges, all stories
selected for a place by the various judges
will be submitted to a specially selected
committee for final decision.
In evaluating the stories, consideration
will be given to the following points:
a. Characters and their presentation
b. Plot development
c. Message of the story
d. Writing style
9. Entries must be postmarked not later
than August 15, 1962.
10. All entries are to be addressed to
Relief Society Short Story Contest,
76 North Main, Salt Lake City 11, Utah.
The Constant Generation
LaeJ W. Hill
My father and my mother see
Still, the child I used to be —
And cannot quite admit that now
The twig they bent is equal bough.
My children; willow-lithe, behold
In me a full shade, heavy, old;
To tell the green years I, too, crossed
Is leaf on lost leaf laid and lost.
Between these young, those old, I stand,
My roots in theirs twined strand with strand,
And know — whatever time falls by —
I was ... I shall be ... I am . . , I.
REWARDS OF HAPPINESS
To try to discover our failings and exchange them for virtues will bring rewards
of happiness in this life and throughout eternity.
—Pauline M. Bell
Jeff Thomson
SENTINEL PINE ABOVE YOSEMITE VALLEY, CALIFORNIA
The Sentinel
Zara Sabin
Tall it stands upon the mountain's crest.
Wild wintry winds, the summer's scorching sun,
And storms of all the seasons strive to wrest
It from its princely place. Both east and west
It tops the plain, the rivers as they run,
The fertile fields, in checkerboard design —
(Where persevering man has hardly won
His fight with nature, not to be outdone) —
And spreads its branches far, a welcome sign
That squirrel or nesting bird may be a guest
Whenever they desire, or wandering kine
May seek its shade — staunch sentinel, a pine.
Page 325
she Knew the Prophet Joseph Smith
Part II— Mercy Fielding Thompson
Preston Nibley
Assistant Church Historian
THE PROPHET JOSEPH SMITH
From a painting said to have been painted
in Nauvoo, Ilhnois, by Wilham Majors
Page 326
A dear little woman, Mrs. Mercy
Rachel Fielding Thompson,
died at her home in the
Sixteenth Ward in Salt Lake City,
on September 15, 1893. She had
lived a long and useful life. On the
pre\'ious fifteenth day of June, she
had observed her eighty-sixth birth-
day. The day after her death, the
following appeared in the Y^tstiti
News :
''Sister Thompson was widely
known and highly esteemed among
the Latter-day Saints, with whom
she had been associated for more
than a half century. She was at the
time of her demise, one of the eld-
est members of the Church, in con-
nection \^ith which her life had been
one of faith and noble sacrifice. She
\^as a sister to the mother of Presi-
dent Joseph F. Smith. Her hus-
band, Robert B. Thompson, who
was the secretary to the Prophet
Joseph Smith, died at Nauvoo on
August 27, 1841.''
It is not mv purpose here to write
a sketch of the life of Sister Thomp-
son, but onlv to say that for a few
brief years she had the rare privilege
of an intimate personal acquaintance
with the Prophet Joseph Smith, and
with her gift of writing she recorded
and published some of her experi-
ences.
In an article printed in the
Juvenile Instructor in July 1893, she
tells us that she was born in Eng-
land in June 1807, and that, together
SHE KNEW THE PROPHET JOSEPH SMITH
327
with her sister Mary, and her broth-
er Joseph Fielding, she emigrated to
Canada in 1832. At Toronto in
1836, she was converted to the Mor-
mon rehgion, and baptized by Par-
ley P. Pratt. The following year,
with her sister and brother, she made
her way to Kirtland, Ohio, the head-
quarters of the Church. And then
she continues:
''My first introduction to the
Prophet Joseph Smith, was in May,
1837, ^^ Kirtland, Ohio; and on the
4th of June, following, I again met
him at Brother John Gaylard's house
in Kirtland, where a small company
of friends had gathered to witness
the ceremony of my marriage to
Robert B. Thompson, the Prophet
performing the ceremony.
'There were present on this oc-
casion several of the Twelve Apos-
tles with their wives, also the aged
Patriarch Joseph Smith and his
wife — father and mother of the
Prophet — and also my brother Jo-
seph Fielding, and my sister Mary,
who soon afterwards became the
wife of Hyrum Smith.
"After the marriage ceremony was
over we listened with joy and profit
to the words of instruction. and coun-
sel which fell from the inspired lips
of Joseph Smith, each word carry-
ing to our hearts deeper and strong-
er convictions that we were listening
to a mighty Prophet of God.
"In February 1839, while Joseph
and Hyrum Smith, with four other
brethren were incarcerated in Lib-
erty jail, I accompanied my sister
Mary from Far West, to visit them.
It would be beyond my power to
describe my feelings when we were
admitted into the jail by the keeper
and the door was locked behind us.
We could not help feeling a sense
MERCY FIELDING THOMPSON
From a Portrait in Andrew Jenson's Bio-
graphical Encyclopedia. Said to be the only
picture of Mrs. Thompson in existence
of horror on realizing that we were
locked up in that dark and dismal
den, fit only for criminals of the
deepest dye; but there we beheld
Joseph, the Prophet, the man chosen
of God in the dispensation of the
fullness of times to hold the keys of
His kingdom on the earth, with
power to bind and to loose as God
should direct, confined in a loath-
some prison for no other cause or
reason than that he claimed to be
inspired of God to establish His
Church among men. There also we
found his noble brother, Hyrum,
who, I believe was not charged with
any other crime than that of being
a friend to his brother Joseph. . . .
The night was spent in fearful fore-
bodings, owing to a false rumor hav-
ing gone out that the prisoners
contemplated making an attempt
to escape, which greatly enraged the
jailor and the guards.
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' ' T TNDER these circumstances we at the Bowery near the site of the
were constrained to bid Temple, I saw him rejoicing with
adieu to the Prophet and his breth- the people, perfectly sociable and
ren, and hasten our departure from without reserve, occasionally utter-
Liberty. My sister was in very deli- ing jokes for their amusement and
cate health, having with her her moving upon the same plane with
babe only three months old, whom the humblest and poorest of his
his father then saw for the first friends; to him there were no strang-
time. (This "babe" became Presi- ers and by all he was known as the
dent Joseph F. Smith, the sixth Prophet and friend of humanity.
President of the Church.) ''I saw him by the bed-side of
'The next time I saw the Prophet Emma, his wife, in sickness, exhibit-
was on his arrival at Ouincy, Illi- ing all the solicitude and sympathy
nois, after his almost miraculous possible for the tenderest of hearts
escape from Missouri, with his fel- and the most affectionate of natures
low-prisoners, in April, 1839. Soon to feel. And by the death-bed of
after this, arrangements were made my beloved companion, I saw him
for the Saints, who had been ex- stand in sorrow, reluctantly submit-
pelled from Missouri, to settle at ting to the decree of Providence,
Commerce, afterwards Nauvoo, while the tears of love and sym-
where I became more intimately ac- pathy freely flowed. Joseph took
quainted with the Prophet, in charge of the funeral ceremonies,
consequence of my husband being strictly adhering to my husband's
employed as his secretary, and to wish that there should be no mili-
whom the Prophet became very tary or other display at his burial as
much attached, so much so that one had been but a short time before on
day he jocosely said to me, 'Sister the occasion of the burial of Jo-
Thompson, you must not feel bad seph's brother, Don Carlos, both
towards me for keeping your hus- having been officers in the legion,
band away from you so much, for I ''Don Carlos died August 7, 1841,
am married to him'; they truly loved Joseph's little son, Don Carlos, died
each other with fervent brotherly about August 18, now, Robert B.
affection. Thompson, his faithful secretary, on
"I have seen the Prophet under a the 27th of the same month, so
great variety of circumstances, in that Joseph could feel the import
public, in domestic and social life of the lines of Dr. Young addressed
and in sacred places. to death: 'Thy shafts flew thrice
"I have seen him as if carried away and thrice my peace was slain. . . .'
by the power of God beyond all "This indeed was a time of sor-
mortal conception, when speaking to row, but I can never forget the
the Saints in their public gather- tender sympathy and brotherly kind-
ings; and in less public places I have ness he ever showed toward me and
heard him explaining to the breth- my fatherless child. When riding
ren and sisters the glorious prin- with him and his wife Emma in
ciples of the gospel, as no man their carriage, I have known him to
could, except by prophetic power. alight and gather prairie flowers for
"In a social gathering of the Saints my little girl.
SHE KNEW THE PROPHET JOSEPH SMITH 329
"I have been present at meetings urgent request, sent after them, the
of the Rehef Society and heard him brothers returned to Nauvoo the
give directions and counsels to the following day. Watching from a
sisters, calculated to inspire them chamber window I saw them being
to efforts which would lead to ce- rowed in a skiff across the river,
lestial glory and exaltation, and oh! until they landed, and walked up
how my heart rejoiced! the river bank to Hyrum's house,
where they both entered, Joseph seat-
" A T another time — at a time ing himself, while Hyrum made
never to be forgotten — I was some changes in his clothing, when
present at a meeting when Joseph they both went on to the Mansion,
knelt down with the small congre- '^Although I did not know that
gation surroundmg him, when every ^^^ brothers had returned home to
sentence he uttered seemed to con- ^^ ^^^tn as lambs to the slaughter,'
vey to my mmd, and to the mmds ^ly feelings were indescribable, and
of others present, the mipression ^j^^ ^^^^ ^^^ seemed burdened with
that this was our last meeting to- sorrowful forebodings,
gether — and so it was.
''A few days after this he called '^^he awful scene at Carthage
at his brother Hyrum's to take leave followed m a few days, and here al
of the family previous to their cross- "^^n must draw the veil for until
ing the Mississippi River, intending ^11 the truth concerning these good
to go west to the Rockv Mountains "len, and this black deed of their
to seek out, if possible, a place of murderous foes, can be told and
peace and safety for the Saints. His understood, the history of this time
parting words to my sister Mary, as will not be written. But the day
she wept at their going, were these: will come when God will speak, and
'Sister Mary, don't feel bad, the Lord ^he martyrs and their history shall
will take care of you, and He will ^^ known.
deliver us, but I do not know how.' ''I received my endowments by
The two brothers then started to the directions of the Prophet Joseph,
cross the river, not knowing whether his wife Emma officiating in my
they would ever see their homes case, and in his instructions to me
again or not. But on account of at that time he said: This will
the feelings expressed by some of bring you out of darkness into mar-
the brethren, who should have been velous light' " (Juvenile Instructor,
their truest friends, and by their Vol. 27, pp. 398-400).
TRUE PROGRESS
'X^RUE progress is to start with little, apparently unimportant things — determined to
keep going — to do one's very best. The goal, perfection, for his Son said,
"Be ye perfect."
—Pauline M. Bell
Hand to the Plow
PART I - TICKET WICKET
JJene H. Kingsbury
And another also said, Lord, I will follow thee, but let me first go bid them fare-
well, which are at home at my house. And Jesus said unto him, No man ha\ ing put his
hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God (Luke 9:61-62).
THE splintered floor of the
railway station echoed the
footfalls of fugitive humanity.
Such furtive glances as the emi-
grants were observed to chance from
under their black hats were noted
as momentary. It would seem that
curiosity was not a virtue and that
anv evidence of it was to be denied
these most recent ocean-wafted peo-
ple. However, there is that fine
margin of out of the ordinary think-
ers in any crowd, and two boys of
fifteen and seventeen cared not to
disguise their interest in everything
American.
And this is what they saw: They
noted the ticket wicket with cage
dividers and wrought-iron severity.
So many travelers had stood before
this official fare window that the
imprint of two shoes just a little
bigger than average size was worn
in the floor. In fact, one almost
slid into place while cautiously ask-
ing directions, prices, and free in-
formation. The same indented
wearing of wood was to be noted
at the entrance and exit doors
where the shifted weight of thou-
sands had flowed into the station
and worn to slivers the but once
painted threshold.
The benches of the station were
fashioned after church pews; straight,
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unbending, severe, unin\iting. They,
at least, were worn smooth from
constant sliding on the surface by
wide-backed European peasants and
overloaded baskets, carpetbags, and
cloth bundles whose four corners
were tied to form a clutch knot. Un-
der each bench \^as a light film of
dust, a lint gently sifted there as it
broke from swishing skirts and
shawls and coats threadbare from
unrelieved usage. Light glanced
through the tall, many glassed win-
dows. These were seen to be fly
specked and rain trickled. This was
in the traditionally unkempt appear-
ance of public buildings where pride
was noticeably absent. A giant
heater, called a forge sto\e, sat in the
middle of the station and obscured
the \iew of the opposite side of the
room. Depending on the season,
the woodbox was either bursting
with sto\e lengths or brown and
bare. It was scarred and beseeched
a coat of paint, or an armful of fuel
to hide its lonely cavity.
Along one side of the station was
a row of benches which needed no
sign of 'Tor Men Only" to desig-
nate who should properly sit there;
for, in a line directlv in front, and
at equally spaced intervals, one saw
a platoon of spittoons at convenient
striking distance from this obvious-
HAND TO THE PLOW 331
ly reserved male section of the twelve-year-old who sat stolidly on a
station. Needless to say, no respect- seaman's trunk and counted over
able lady would have been seen wait- and over the number of bundles,
ing there, though she might stand sacks, boxes, and containers which
for hours, holding a babe in her represented the entire wardrobe of
arms, and have another clinging to her family. To lose even one bulky
her skirts. item presaged disaster. Often one
As this was midsummer, the doors saw a pair of children taking turns
of the station were propped open walking around and around their
with scraps of railing, their T-shaped family belongings in a sort of re-
style lending itself to easy handling stricted exercise. Or perhaps they
and their weight lending itself to took turns at it while the other ran
utility as a doorstop. It was quite beyond the doorway to peer up and
obvious that in winter the doors down the platform. A brave one
would be dragged open with the might even dart beyond that safety
entrance of a newcomer, and hastily island to place his ear on the rails
closed by him as petulant glances of to hear if a train was coming a long
shivering travelers were cast in his way off.
direction. This would no doubt If trains were delayed — no busi-
keep the air warm, but no doubt ness schedule being guaranteed — it
stale. was possible for families to sleep
among their accumulated posses-
JT was a hazard to walk about this sions, thus saving expenditures for
place, for baggage rooms had not a room. This also permitted the
been invented, and personal accou- excuse to eat in the station. The one
terments were fearfully kept near the lunchroom, a built on afterthought
owners. This obviously meant that sort of thing, was not large enough
monstrous piles of trunks and boxes to accommodate more than a score
of cloth, carpet, leather, and basketry of famished men who shouldered
were placed adjacent to each family their way to standing bar counters
and never left unguarded for a mo- for a swig of something hot and
ment. Teenage children were as- filling. There were two odors here,
signed this duty and were the only beans and tobacco. Either of these,
insurance against loss and theft, or a commingling of both, sickened
Depending upon the nationality of most emigrants. They then organ-
the emigrants, the "possibles" were ized themselves to send responsible
colorful or drab, valuable or useless, members out into the town to buy
secure or hazardous, each attesting loaves of varicolored and vari-
private means and social status. It textured bread, a pail of milk, a few
was not unusual for bird cages to apples, if in season, or if fortune
perch atop a pile of bedding. Then, favored them, even a cooked hen or
crouched in a comfortable blob of pork side. The miscellany was
feather pillows, sound asleep with brought into the waiting room,
fist clutching the pet's abode, a little spread about the tops of trunks and
girl could be seen worn unconscious boxes and the family served in care-
by emigration. ful portions by the mistress of the
Such blessed sleep was not for a community, the mother.
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IT could be noted that never, nev-
er was all the food eaten at one
meal. Though hunger was said to
be consuming, the gangling sons
who at home ate like the cows, as
they sometimes said, times and
places were different now. Almost
niggardly portions were doled out
and always some saved for the next
meal, just in case more could not be
found. This precious conservation
of a biscuit or two was a learned
fetish with most emigrants. No one
believed this was a sign of stingi-
ness, but of foresight for the very
young, the ailing, and the aged. A
little crust became a comfort to
teething infants and was not missed
by more husky children.
It was in this setting that Welsh
Eddie, his mother, two little sisters,
and two brothers could have been
discovered that summer of 1864.
The geographical location was a bit
out of Philadelphia, U.S.A., and was
one of a series already explored and
acquainted with and was to be con-
tinued as a series west and on west
as far as the tracks were laid.
And as long as one knew life was
not to be permanently lived in this
unpainted frame station and the
promised land would eventually un-
fold and welcome them and sustain
them in comfort and plenty, what
was this temporary crowding, smell,
ceaseless vigilance to cause bother?
The emigrant mother, who was a
widow, having counted, fed, ad-
monished, and otherwise cared for
her little flock, straightened her
shawl, fluffed out the ruffled lace
cap which covered her hair under
her tall-crowned, black Welsh hat,
and resolutely approached the ticket
wicket. She had timed her approach
so that no moment would be wasted
waiting a turn. Her feet easily slid
into the precarved groove of a thou-
sand shoes, each as resolute as her
own to keep on the march to a new
life in this land long dreamed.
The ticket agent glanced at her,
and with clairvoyance reserved for
public servants, threw aside formali-
ties, got the destination and num-
ber of travelers out of her, and with
flood intensity took over the scene.
'Tisten, lady, if you and your five
children are going out West, and
want to ride the trains as far as
St. Joe, on the Missouri, and tlien
catch a wagon train from there, why
are you so worried about a little
town in Pennsylvania that no one
ever heard of and you don't even
intend to get off and see?''
npHE station agent, as he adjusted
his black gauntlet wrist protec-
tors, certainly left but one answer.
And why, indeed? But before the
emigrant could assemble her Welsh
words and reassemble them into
Yankee of the Americas, the agent
stampeded his ideas in front of him.
''And if I were you, lady, I
wouldn't get off the train, either,
what with the war in its fourth
year, and the battle line swinging
up and down the map like a bull
whip over stubborn oxen. Why, one
can't be sure from one stop to an-
other that the train will not be
invaded by soldiers, ours or the
rebels, and you'd find yourself and
the young ones sleeping on a ditch
bank. Now, you certainly wouldn't
want that. If I were you I would
get on any old train that had a
good cooking stove in it, just so it
was headed West, and I'd stay on
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333
just as long as the tracks were laid
in my direction."
The word direction gave the emi-
grant an idea. ''Sir, do you have a
map of the trains to the West?"
At that the agent fairly shrieked
in derision. ''Listen, lady, this isn't
a big settled country, that is not yet,
and only the generals have the maps,
and mighty poor ones they are, too.
Once I tried to make myself a map
of the railroads from New York,
through Philadelphia, through Pitts-
burgh, and on over to the Missis-
sippi. Do you know what it all
looked like? Just an old maple leaf
with the in-between parts decayed
away and the meaty veins left run-
ning every which way.
"If the stem was placed near
Castle Gardens, the longest vein
would point right across the country
and end in St. Joe. Most trains
shuttled about before you got over
the mountains to Pittsburgh, and
the scarce ones thinned out until
only a couple of long scraggly ones
got to the Mississippi river, and then
one branch line dared to build out
to where the trails of the prairie left
the Missouri. Guess I didn't need
a map after drawing that one. If s
pretty simple. All one has to do is
ask where you are at each station,
get on the next train heading West,
and in about a half a month, there
you'll be in St. Joe."
'Then I'll take a ticket for my
family right on to the end of your
veined leaf," decided the emigrant.
"Oh, no you won't. Why, lady,
at least five companies have to sell
you fares between here and the
West. Why, even their cars don't
look alike inside, let alone the
tracks they roll on. Seems to me
I heard one soldier say that some-
times the tracks are on a wide gauge,
sometimes on a narrow one, and
again on one of a completely indi-
vidual width. You can't expect
trains to roll along at that rate.
Change the passengers, charge a new
fare. Anyway, I hope you reach the
big rivers before the soldiers get all
the cars run to the battles. If you
missed them, you would be left
roaming, on foot, say in Ohio or
Indiana. Of course, if you get be-
yond those wild places, then Illi-
nois and Missouri might be reached.
My bet is that an ox team is surer
and safer than any steam engine
hereabouts."
(To be continued)
Treetops
Celia Luce
'T^HE full fury of the wind hits the top of the tree. The rain beats down on the
'^ topmost branches, and, in winter, snow bends them down.
But it is at the treetop that the sun shines brightest, and the rosiest fruit grows
there
The growing tips of the branches may point to^^ard God's blue sky. Safe, inner
branches wither away and die.
The Oatmeal Box
Violet Nimmo
'T^HIS morning as I prepared my child's breakfast of oatmeal, eggs, fruit, and milk,
-*■ I had come to the bottom of the oatmeal box. I had a strange feeling of guilt
as I tossed the empty box into the waste basket. I retrieved the box and while the
little Quaker man smiled at me, I was reminiscing about my childhood and a wonderful
nostalgia hit me like the crisp winter air.
I said aloud to myself, "This wonderful oatmeal box." I received a look from my
son that said, "Are you daydreaming again. Mother?"
My thoughts went back to the golden days when I sat and ate a breakfast of oat-
meal, questioning my mother's daydreams.
I reflected that when I was a child we had an infinite variety of uses for the
empty oatmeal box.
I could visualize a decorative arrangement of dry plant material, with its sculpt-
uresque beauty, like that which was placed in the center of our old-fashioned round
table.
We would come home from school and look into the cupboard for the oatmeal
box. It contained some spicy ginger snaps or crisp sugar cookies with small misshapen
lumps of hard sugar that had forgotten to melt, or perhaps, one held some rich brown
doughnuts, all of which our mother lovingly baked for us.
Now I was pedaling my bicycle to the old farm where I purchased a box of
brown eggs, always receiving an extra one or two, or a midget egg the kindly farmer's
wife gave me for myself. Perhaps she would treat me to a glass of buttermilk and a
piece of pie before returning home. I remember one time I had an accident on the
bicycle and dropped the eggs, which were all broken. Afraid to go home, I returned
to the farm and offered my services as a helper to pay for another box of eggs. Yes,
she saved oatmeal boxes, too, and I was sent happily on my way with a new order of
eggs, only in a box of a different brand.
I could see the loaded shelves in our old cave cellar, holding the dried peas, beans,
and pop>corn which were stored for winter, and the boxes of seeds my father saved
from the most choice fruits and flowers to be planted the following year. I saw the
tomato and cabbage plants carefully being transplanted from the box to the garden.
There was the shelf that held decorated oatmeal boxes, with each child's name
printed across the top, where we kept our clean stockings, all rolled up neatly. There
were waste baskets we made from them to hold our trimmings of paper while cutting
pictures from magazines or pretty greeting cards, or to hold small toys such as tinker
toys and blocks. Even nails, screws, and hinges were saved and placed in the boxes
for repairing objects about the house.
The oatmeal box also had its use as a darning basket. Our mother would sit in
the evening and mend our stockings and tell us stories, or she would keep a box for
buttons or a thread container.
As my son kissed me boodbye and left for school, I carefully placed the oatmeal
box with the smiling Quaker man on the shelf in my cupboard. Perhaps I would make
some old-fashioned sugar cookies for him this morning. But how did my mother get
those yummy little chunks of hard sugar on the top?
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A DOG AND HIS MAID
Shirley Saigent
MY home is a forested area
adjacent to Yosemite Na-
tional Park where I have
well water, and hot and cold run-
ning mosquitoes. My typewriter,
record player, and young, old-maid
self have lived a happy, carefree,
pine-needle life here until this sum-
mer.
In late June, a summer ranger
friend asked if I would dog-sit with
a Dachshund belonging to another
seasonal ranger who had come from
Oklahoma \^ith his dog, not kno\\-
ing dogs were not allowed in the
park.
''No,'' I answered \iolently. "A
dog has to be fed and watered, cur-
ried, and carried. I come and go
too much. Absolutelv not."
"But it would onlv be for two
months, and a dog would be good
company."
Unfeelingly, I interrupted, "Tim
here is all the company I need and
he can feed himself." My dear
friend's fourteen-year-old visiting son
looked disturbed, not amused.
The ranger expostulated, "How
can you be so selfish? Kennel life
would be sickening for Fritz and his
owners. The youngest boy cried
himself to sleep last night."
"Tough," I said heartlessly. "I
prize my independence."
At this stony moment, big-eyed,
dog-loving Tim began to beg and
plead that, while he was around, he
would do everything — feed, water,
chase, quiet, and bathe Fritz — so
that I would have neither care nor
complaint.
My ranger friend hastened my
ungracious capitulation by adding,
"Fritz's mistress savs she'll be glad
to do your washing and ironing in
exchange for the dog's board."
That did it. The well was low, the
nearest laundromat twelve moun-
tain miles away, and I detested
ironing.
"T^RITZ came, and both he and I
complained vociferously for two
davs. I didn't like his whimpering,
his cold, wet nose, or his barking.
He hated his leash, being away from
his lo\'ing family, and the cold
nights in our outdoor "dorm." Poor
Tim bore up bravely under my
scathing I-told-}'Ou-so's and Fritz's
heartbroken cries until two a.m.
when he quieted the dog's shivering
and lonesomeness by shoving him
down in his sleeping bag. My ob-
jections to this unclean bedmate
were blotted out bv the blessed
quiet.
The next morning I tried to look
at the dog objectively. He was a
compact, muscled, brown bundle of
ner\'ous energy with pretty mark-
ings and soulful brown eyes. He was
so short, the wild daisies hid him
and so nervously bra\'e he barked at
falling pine cones.
Tim showed me proudly that
Fritz v^'ould sit and beg, but this
didn't impress me in view of the
time he spent on the couch and
beds. He was a spoiled, beloved
dog, and losing his family was,
ob\iously, a traumatic experience.
Most of the day he whimpered to
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go out and, once there, cried to be felt as if I were the ''Good Neigh-
off his leash, bor" of 1962.
Even Tim seemed disenchanted
by his charge, and I thought vainly '^ HEN came the day Tim left for
of ways to rid myself of the pest. home and the whimpering rou-
Unexpectedly and dismayingly, that tine began again. I had to see that
was accomplished when I opened Fritz had food and water and tried
the back door in answer to a friend's angrily to quiet his barking when
hail and out shot Fritz. friends came to see me. He seemed
Tim and I spent a hot, breezeless ^ realize he was the man of the
afternoon looking for the escapee, ^^use and protected me fiercely, if
Gnats buzzed, dust rose, tempers misguided, by barkmg, growlmg
heightened, and echoes of futile calls ^^''^Y menacingly, and pawing the
were our onlv accomplishment. Tim g^^und so that dirt and pme needles
worried about Fritz being thirsty, ^^w all over the paths. He followed
tired, chased by bears, bitten by a ^^ everywhere. In the mornings,
snake, and irretrievably lost. More ^^ gr^Qted me as if he hadn't seen
selfishly, I fretted about what his ""^^ ^^ days - jumping on me, wig-
ranger family would sav and feel g^^g, and nuzzling my hands. It
and lamented how short-lived would was flattering and I knew I had
be my vacation from ironing. made the team with Fritz.
Toward evening, a panting, dusty One afternoon, he scurried out
Fritz dragged in, gulped water,' nuz- from under the couch in obvious
zled Tim, and fell heavily asleep distress and tried his best to make it
under, not on, the couch. ' outside before he was sick. He
After that, there was no more "^^^^^^' 1^"^ looked so abject and
whimpering, running away, or need "^^^^^^^^ \^^\, ^ .^f ^^ "^^^^^^ ^^^-
for a leash. Fritz was Tim's shadow, mg That s all right, honey. You
I had as little to do with him as pos- ^°"^^" * ^^^P '^•
sible, but was amused at the way his Honey! Fritz had made the team
ears flopped as he ran and the way "^^^^ me.
he bounced over the mountainside. T remained utterly adamant at
Tim taught him. not to jump on having him in or on my bed, or
the beds, but he was still a pest. He talking baby talk to him, but when
cried so we couldn't— or, rather, Tim he stood and begged for loving, I
wouldn't— leave him home alone. ga\'e it to him and, when I shivered
In the car, he climbed over and on out of my swim in the river, his
us and, of course, while we shopped warm, lovable body felt good. Oc-
or went sightseeing in Yosemite casionally, I submitted to his lick-
Valley, he had to be restrained by a ing; often I played with him, and
leash — a calamity which he bore frequently I talked to him. Our
with the equanimity of a caged bear, ''lovematch" continued until sum-
Still, his mistress was doing our mer's end when Fritz left with his
washing and ironing and supplying real family.
the smelly, dog food with so many My prized independence is in-
compliments on our stewardship, I violate again. The only responsibil-
A DOG AND HIS MAID 337
ity I have is for myself and a huge and faithful shadow of Fritz. Thanks
pile of ironing. to him, now there is room in my
Happy, carefree, independent? part of the woods, under my bed.
Sure, that's I, but I miss the and in my heart for a dog that will
ecstatic morning loving, the floppy belong to me, not just summers, but
ears, yours-but-to-command eyes, all seasons of the year.
Sonnet for a Somber Day
Evalyn Miller Sandberg
A morning sky is overcast with gray,
And ivy-festooned oaks blend ash with green,
While on their boughs dark crows in silence sway,
Subdued by seeming imminence of rain.
A legendary chief on yonder peak
Is blanketed with fog and hovering cloud;
The timberline my eyes habitually seek,
And foothills, too, now lie beneath a shroud.
This quiet setting cradles roof and wall.
Displays a house as jewels held to light;
And here, in warmth and safety, within call,
Are those I love, and much that gives delight.
My little kitchen, done in tangerine
Seems, on this day, especially serene.
Keep Dreaming
Nancy M. Armstrong
REAMS were never meant to die unused, though time and changing needs must
sometimes alter them. A dream is the budding of accomplishment. To re-
linquish it is to forsake an uncompleted task. And to stop dreaming is to lose the
motivation for radiant living.
Dreams that are pursued keep enthusiasm alive, enlarge our horizons, increase our
capacity for the success we desire. They keep us aware, not only of what we desire to
achieve, but of what we ought to strive to achieve. Keep Dreaming!
D
Sixty Years Ago
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, May 1902
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
THE SEVEN RULES OF HARMONY: 1. Make the sacred spirit of peace a
Hving power in your life. 2. Never Hsten, without protest, to insinuations, vitupera-
tions, or unjust accusations against the members of your family or your fellow-citizens.
3. Seek to understand the spirit of the national laws and- obey those which exist.
4. Dedicate your thought and use your influence to develop the national and patriotic
spirit. ... 5. Do not destroy . . . instead, make it your object to plant, to nourish. . . .
6. Teach your children and your dependents what you may learn with regard to justice
and peace. ... 7. Seek each day to utter some word, or to perform some little action
which will promote the cause of peace, whether at home or abroad.
— Selected
LETTER FROM ST. GEORGE: My counselors and myself, of the Relief Society,
Sisters Morris and Bleak . . . tra\eled down the Virgin River. The people are making
homes along the river, settling in little patches. We took dinner with Sister Bodilla
M. Johnson at her home a few miles abo\e Mosquito Fat, then ^^•ent on to the town
of Mosquit ... we met with the members of Relief Society, and a number of brethren
met v\ith us. We urged the sisters to live their religion, store grain, take care of the
sick and afflicted, provide for the poor and needy and comfort the hearts of those
that are called upon to mourn, to teach the children to pray from infaacy, and they
will arise and call them blessed. ...
— Ann C. Woodbury
COURAGE
Why should I hug life's ills with cold reserve,
To cure myself and all who love me? Nay!
A thousand times more good than I deserve,
God gives me every day.
And in each one of these rebellious tears
Kept bravely back he makes a rainbow shine.
Grateful I take his slightest gift, no fears
Nor doubts are mine. . . .
— Celia Thaxter
FOUR SCORE YEARS: A happy anniversary celebration was commemorated on
Saturday, May 3, 1902, in the handsome old parlors at the historic Bee Hive House,
the occasion being the eightieth birthday anniversary of Sister Bathsheba W. Smith,
one of the most noble mothers in Israel in this dispensation. . . . Sister Smith occupies
. . . the highest place of honor among the Latter-day Saint women, president of the
Relief Society of the Church of Latter-day Saints in all the world. It is therefore most
appropriate her name should be known among our people, and honors accorded her,
befitting the position she holds. . . .
— Editorial
THE WOMAN'S EXPONENT: If the sisters could realize the importance of
having a paper of their own and the prestige it gives to their work, sureh thev would
bestir themselves to obtain subscriptions . . . and better supply the needs of the
women . . . who are looking for light, knowledge and wisdom. , . .
— Editorial
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
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T^R. MARY I. BUNTING, fiftv-
one, mother of one daughter
and three sons, is also a microbiolo-
gist and President of Radcliffe Col-
lege (for women), associated with
Harvard. She believes the future
will require women's abilities as well
as men's. Her girls at Radcliffe re-
gard their president as a ''mar\elous
woman." Dr. Bunting has alwavs
stood for familv first in a woman's
life.
T^HE proportion of girls in Unit-
ed States colleges in 1920 was
forty-se\en per cent. Now it is
only thirtv-se\en per cent, and only
a little more than half of those col-
lege girls stay with it long enough
to get a degree. Of the top high-
school seniors who skip college, two-
thirds are girls.
gARBARA TERRETT and Wil-
liam C. Wheaton, both of
the University of Pennsylvania, and
Martin Myerson of Harvard are
joint authors of Housing, People and
Cities, a book filled with informa-
tion for people with a personal in-
terest in housing, such as tax payers,
builders, landlords, and zoning
officials. The book clarifies the
ways in which patterns of com-
munity growth are changing.
CENORITA IRMA ARANGO,
twenty-four, pretty and charm-
ing, and also a dvnamo of energy, is
the director of Panama's Tourist
Bureau. Hoping to make tourism
an outstanding industry, she adver-
tises her country's scenic and his-
torical attractions all over the hemis-
phere, working for conventions and
visits from vacationers.
lyrADAME WANDA LAN-
DOWSKA, the greatest harpsi-
chordist of our modern day, shortly
before her recent death, recorded
for Capitol Records twenty sonatas
for harpsichord by Scarlatti. This
series of records traces the history
of music.
jYJRS. MARY ALLEN HOUK,
widow of a Civil War soldier,
recently celebrated her one-hundred-
and-seventh birthday in Lenoir City,
Tennessee. Although blind and
hard of hearing, she is still alert and
interested in life.
QINA BACHAUER is one of the
world's foremost pianists. She
recently received a tremendous ova-
tion when she played with the New
York Philharmonic Orchestra.
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EDITOHIAL
VOL 49
MAY 1962
NO. 5
The Cultural Values of Relief Society
''IN the work of the Rehef So-
ciety are intellectual, cultural,
and spiritual values found in no
other organization and sufficient for
all general needs of its members."
So stated the First Presidency in
a letter to the Presidency, officers,
and members of Relief Society upon
the occasion of the issuing of A
Centenary oi Relief Society. This
statement, coupled with the promise
of the Prophet Joseph Smith that
knowledge and intelligence would
flow down to women, brings an
awareness that the Lord would have
his daughters instructed and en-
gaged in intellectual pursuits.
The dictionary defines culture as
''the enlightenment and refinement
of taste acquired by intellectual and
aesthetic training." It further states
that culture is ''the act of develop-
ing by education, discipline and
training." The desirability of at-
taining culture and refinement is
apparent. Within the all-encompas-
sing program of Relief Society are
found the intellectual training and
the educational opportunities to
raise women to cultural heights.
The Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints fosters education
as one of the facets of the abundant
life. "Education is not only a life-
time process, it is an eternal pro-
cess." Much emphasis is placed on
the continuous growth of mind and
spirit, and use of the intelligence
with which mortals are blessed from
on high. The acquiring of culture
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is an effort to improve or perfect
through greater knowledge. This
knowledge should serve to refine, to
remove that which is dross, and
serve as an impetus to constantly
seek further development. Inspira-
tion and experience have led Relief
Society to provide cultural training
for women.
Acquaintance with all of the fine
arts adds beauty to life. Gentility
of manner makes gracious living pos-
sible. Constant seeking to improve
thwarts the temptations of the Ad-
versary to remain idle, to be com-
placent with learning already at-
tained, and so to retrogress.
Latter-day Saints are under obliga-
tion to seek after truth. Great books
contain much of this truth and
should be read and studied. Fore-
most among great books are scrip-
tures whose values to the reader are
spiritual enlightenment, the foster-
ing of high and lofty thoughts, the
example of pure and beautiful lan-
guage, and the motivating force of
good actions. Relief Society mem-
bers study the scriptures to make
these various values part of their
lives.
Great writings which have stood
the test of time are chosen to fill
the mind with yearning for the good
and the beautiful, to acquaint the
heart with the evil of wrongdoing,
and to keep the soul in tune with
righteousness. Courses of study,
approved by the brethren appointed
by the First Presidency to this call-
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ing, are presented by Relief Society
for the uplifting of the women and
through them, their families.
Beautiful music exercises a refin-
ing influence and has appeal to
the emotions. It can induce feelings
of worshipfulness, tranquility, and
peace, happiness, or sorrow, or it can
move its hearers to militant action.
Music and song are frequently men-
tioned in the scriptures, and the
Lord has stated that he delights in
the song of the righteous. More than
cultural development to individuals
has resulted from music taught in
Relief Society. The Singing Moth-
ers have been an aid to the mission-
ary work of the Church and have
brought joy to others.
Homemaking is a fine art involv-
ing both spiritual and physical
beauty, the talents and creative
abilities of women are used to the
best advantage in the homes. A
knowledge of other forms of great
art advances these abilities of wom-
en.
Compassion is an attribute of the
cultured person, and a desire to
serve is engendered by knowledge of
what is best to be done to make life
beautiful for oneself and for others.
Relief Society has ever endeavored
to provide "the intellectual, cultural
and spiritual values . . . sufficient for
the general needs of its members,"
which make life here and eternally
what it is intended to be.
-L. W. M.
:
I Love You
Florence S. Glines
Dear sister, I give you my love.
It is more to feel than to see.
And it always goes straight out,
A path between you and me.
Some people have riches of gold,
But riches that I must impart
Are something not seen but felt:
The love for you in my heart.
i
Little
Teamstress
Frances C. Yost
WE all missed Mama, but
Papa missed her more than
any of us. It was painful
when we gathered round the table
and her place was emptv. I belie\ e
that is why Papa told me to sit at
the foot of the table from then on.
Papa always complimented me on
my cooking, but I kne^^' that, trv as
I could, it didn't measure up to
Mama's. And, although I tried to,
I just couldn't glorif\- leftovers, as
Mama had.
We missed Mama, too, on Sun-
day. I tried to keep things ^^•ashed
and ironed, and buttons sewed on as
Mama had, but most every Sunday
something showed up needing
mending, or something had been
hung up instead of put in the clothes
hamper, and missed the wash entire-
ly. But we managed, and we were
thankful that tiny Susan hadn't had
to go off to the city and live with
Aunt Erma. We all especially en-
joyed little Susan around. She had
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been two years old when Mama
died. She was such a rav of sun-
shine to all of us, because she didn't
remember Mama enough to get
homesick for her as the rest of us
did.
But the time that Papa missed
Mama the most was in the evenings.
Mama was from the city, and wasn't
good at milking cows, but she was
good at figures. Papa and Mama
had sat together at the table and
figured out the farm program. What
to plant, and what not to plant,
what crop would make the best yield,
and what land to summer fallow.
Together, • the}- had talked over
whether it would be best to sell the
apples as soon as the har\'est, or
store them until spring when thev
w ere scarce, and the price just might
be higher. Mama had an intuition
^^•hen to sell grain, and when to
store it awaiting a higher price.
Then, sometimes, they had sat to-
gether and looked through the wish
book. That's what we called the
mail-order catalogue. We would
pick out our clothes for winter. It
took a lot of planning to keep us all
warm and clothed and fed. Yes,
Papa missed Mama the most, and
there wasn't anything we could do
about it.
/^NE particular evening Papa was
sitting at the table with pencil
in hand, and I knew he was figur-
ing how to manage the finances.
Lael — she's two years younger than
I, and the bovs, Wilford and Grant,
were getting their lessons. Little
Wally and Susan were asleep up-
stairs. I was reading Longfellow's
EvcingeUne. I kept peering over the
book and watching Papa. He had
that \\orried frown on his face, and
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he kept glancing at me, too. I
found myself wishing I were older,
so that he could confide in me.
Then a light sort of spread over
Papa's face, and I heard him mur-
mur, ''But she's just a child herself,
and those frisky horses. Yet we bet-
ter try it." Papa started tapping his
pencil and nodded to me. "Maggie,
come over here.''
I put the marker in my book, and
turned my chair around so that I
was next to Papa at the table. I
waited for Papa to speak.
"Maggie, there's a new ice-cream
parlor opened up in town, and I
believe if we started selling sweet
cream to be made into ice cream,
we could realize quite a lot more,
perhaps twice as much from our
cream as we do now, selling it sour
once a week to the creamery. What
do you think?"
I knew how much it took to buv
groceries and shoes and school
books. Twice as much money
sounded real good to me. It sounded
so good, I wanted to shout about it.
But Papa was being confidential.
He was planning with me as he used
to with Mama. I thought of it from
all angles.
"It would mean a trip to town
every day, wouldn't it. Papa?"
"That's the only drawback. We
would have to deliver the cream
fresh daily. I'm too busy farming
to go, and the boys are too small. I
wondered if you. . . ."
"Oh, Papa, I could drive Nell and
Tom, honest I could. I've driven
to church when you had to go early
to Priesthood meeting. I could do
it. Papa."
"Well, I sure wouldn't want any-
thing to happen to you. But ... I
believe if you were to go all alone,
not have anv little ones to watch.
. . . But you would have to promise
that you would keep both hands on
the reins every minute."
"I will. Papa. I promise."
Now Papa had that thinking look
on his face, and glanced over at La el.
Lael knew how to work. Mama had
taught us both. But Lael was like
some horses, she had to be prodded.
I knew what Papa was thinking. If
I took the cream to town each day,
Lael would have to take charge of
things at home.
"Let's see, six miles in and six
miles back. Even if you took a slow
gait you ought to be back in two
hours." Papa looked across at me
and ^poke softly. "Think Lael
could manage everything for a
couple of hours each day?"
"I think so, Papa."
CO that's how we started selling
fresh cream to the ice-cream
parlor. Every morning except Sun-
day I made the trip to town and
back. On Sunday we stored the
night and morning cream in the
cistern, and I took a double batch
to town on Monday. I was extra
careful on Monday not to have a tip-
over.
Papa had told me not to read on
the way, and not to take any friends,
and, unless I was to do some shop-
ping, I was to come back as soon as
the cream can was emptied. He
cautioned me to keep both hands on
the reins, and to let the horses
know who was boss.
It was summer, and the drive to
town in the pleasant cool of the
morning was a joy. That was two
hours of the day the little children
weren't saying Maggie this and
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Maggie that. I started getting up
an hour eadier, and Lael and I
hurried fast so that the morning
work was done before I left. Dinner
was planned, and Lael could go
ahead with that. I would get back
in time for noon dinner, and to help
with the clearing up and the dishes.
Things worked out real nice, and
Papa seemed proud of Lael as a
housekeeper and me as a teamstress.
Papa had said not to read, or have
anyone along. But he hadn't said
I couldn't sing. I did a lot of that.
I also said the multiplication tables.
I practiced my talks for Sunday
School and recitations for socials.
But most of all, I daydreamed.
I remembered how nice it was
when Mama was here, and we had
parties in the parlor. I kept wishing
we could have a party. I wanted
to have the boys and girls my age
over, and make a batch of home-
made ice cream, and two or three
kinds of cakes, as Mama used to do.
I wished Papa would warm up his
fiddle and play for the party as he
used to, and call changes for the
square dance. But Papa hadn't
played the violin since Mama died.
Once I mentioned it to Papa, how
I wanted to have a party. We were
ordering shoes for Wilfy and Grant
out of the catalogue. But Papa's
face looked painful, and I knew he
was remembering those parties, too.
''Sometime, Maggie, but not right
now.
I had been selling cream quite a
few weeks, and things were going
along fine. The extra pay for the
sweet cream was a real help to us.
The ice-cream parlor liked to pay
with cash. We didn't have a bank
in our little town, and it just worked
out best for them, and best for us
to have the greenbacks and silver in-
stead of a check. They always put
the money in a sealed envelope, and
I took it straight home to Papa.
One noontime Papa opened the
envelope and counted. He looked
up startled. He got out his cream
statements, and figured up. Then
he said aloud, ''They have made a
mistake. They have given us twenty
dollars too much."
"Twenty doIJars/" The boys and
Lael shouted.
Longingly, I thought aloud, "Oh,
Papa I wish we could use that mon-
ey for a party."
pAPA looked at me so disappoint-
ed when I said that, I could have
bitten my tongue. There wasn't a dis-
honest bone in Papa's body, and he
didn't like his children even to con-
sider dishonesty. He often told us
that Satan was not given the power
to tempt little children, but at the
age of accountability he could use
his power upon us, and that we
should be strong and withstand all
temptations. Of course I knew that,
much as we could use the extra
money, I would be taking it back
when I made the trip the next morn-
ing-
"Maggie, you get the boys to help
you harness up, and right after din-
ner you take this twenty dollars back
to the ice-cream parlor. They will
be short on their books when they
settle up this evening."
So, in the very hottest part of the
day, I had to make an extra trip to
town. All the way I kept thinking
about what I could do with that
twenty dollars in my pocket, and
how nice a party would be. Why,
with twenty dollars I could have
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345
''boughten" ice cream, and ''bought-
en" cakes, and cookies, and prizes
. . . and. ... I held the reins tightly
all the way as Papa had told me, but
the tears that fell blinded my vision.
T^HINGS went on about the same
as usual the next day or two.
I made the regular trip to town with
the cream each morning, while Lael
watched the little ones and prepared
dinner. Then one afternoon, Lael
and Susan and I were sitting out
under the trees. Papa had taken
the three boys with him to fix fences
up in the pasture by the canal. Lael
was lying in the hammock just be-
ing lazy. Susan was playing with
her doll, and I was trying to get Lael
to help me with the darning I was
doing. Suddenly, a big dust was
coming down the road. It could
be nothing but a car.
Nobody had a car out our way,
and not many people had a car in
town. But Mr. Cosgriff, owner of
the ice-cream parlor, had a car. He
used it for deliveries. It was black,
but had a big white sign on both
sides which read ''Cosgriff's Ice
Cream," with a picture of a big ice-
cream cone.
Imagine how surprised we were
when he drove right up to our house
and stopped. He got out of his car
and picked up a big ice-cream con-
tainer and walked through the gate.
We hadn't ordered any ice cream,
that was for sure.
"Hello, Maggie." I liked Mr.
Cosgriff's smile.
"Hello, Mr. Cosgriff." I turned
to Lael and Susan who were as sur-
prised as I was. "These are my sis-
ters, Mr. Cosgriff, Lael and Susan."
"Glad to know you. You've got
a good big sister. One to be proud
of. Honest as the day is long." He
was looking at me when he said it,
and I felt mighty guilty inside. He
patted the big ice-cream container
and said, "Brought you out some ice
cream. Honesty has its rewards.
There're five gallons here. Maggie,
you can return the container in the
morning."
"But Papa won't take a reward
for being honest. I know he won't."
Just then Papa and the boys drove
up on the hay wagon. They had
seen the dust of the car coming, and
had come to see what the commo-
tion was. A car was something to
see in those days.
"You have a fine girl here, this
Maggie."
"Yes, Maggie's a fine girl, and I
want vou to meet the rest of mv
family."
"I've met Lael here, and Susan."
"This is Wilford, he's eleven,
Grant is nine, and Wally is six."
"Glad to meet you fellows." Then
nodding toward the ice-cream con-
tainer, "Brought you out some ice
cream. I sure did appreciate your
catching that mistake the other day."
"That's quite all right, and it
wasn't necessary. . . ."
"It means a lot to me. Well, I
better get back to the shop. See
you in the morning, Maggie."
He was gone.
pAPA just looked at the ice-cream
container for awhile. Then, as
if talking to himself, he said, "It
won't keep. Might as well use it
up this evening." Then a smile
broke on Papa's face and he turned
to me, "Maggie, I believe you had
better get on the phone and call all
your friends. We'll have that big
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parlor party you have been want-
ing."
*'Oh, Papa!'' I rushed over to him
and squeezed him hard.
"Do you think you girls could
make up some cakes this afternoon?
We could use two or three kinds.
How about an angel food, a choco-
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY, 1962
late, and a spice cake? And Til see
what I can do about warming up the
violin."
Lael and I hurried into the house.
We had a lot to do. Lael murmured
something about honesty having its
reward. And I knew that I hadn't
been so happy for a long, long time.
How to Give a Magazine To Someone Who Is ill
Evelyn Witter
\^ rHEN I was sick, many well-meaning friends brought me reading material. And
of all the enjoyable periodicals I received, I enjoyed the one Bess Rogers brought
me the most of all. The reason for my choice was that Bess "friendshipped" the stories
for me with the notes and comments she wrote in the margins.
For example: on one of the stories she wrote, "This story has real good descriptions
of faraway places. See if you don't think so, too."
On another story she wrote this in the margin: "This one held me in I-could-
hardly-breathe suspense. Not good to read before going to sleep!"
Then on an article, Bess wrote: "If you want people to like you, and who doesn't
— read this!"
And so it went all through the magazine — comments and questions and opinions,
all neatly written along the margins. It was like having a person-to-person visit with
Bess on every page. Her notes coaxed me to read the magazine and added a dash
of interest seasoning to the reading.
Now when I want to give something nice to a friend who is ill, I read my Magazine.
Then I go through it again and write in my comments. Not until this thorough work-
ing over is done, do I give it to the person I have in mind.
Friends who have received my notes in the Magazine margins have always thanked
me heartily. A thank you note I received just this morning said: "The notes you made
on the margins made the reading extra fun. Thanks!"
I Was Thinking
Elsie C. Canoll
1 was thinking what a blessing it is to be able to think, to remember, to dream. How
limited our satisfactions would be if we couldn't recall what happened in the past,
if we couldn't contemplate what is happening now, if we couldn't project in imagina-
tion what may happen in the future.
With immeasurable speed the mind races from experience to experience in recalling
the past, from thought to thought in considering, evaluating, or merely facing the pres-
ent, and from one shining dream to another in peering into the future.
I tried this little experiment. I glanced at the clock to note the time. Then I let
my mind range where it would for ten minutes.
Where did it go?
Where didn't it go?
In those ten minutes I lived over again, among other experiences, an early Christmas
dawn when I could see in the dim light the shiny head of my first china doll peeping
out of my hand-knit stocking hanging in front of an old adobe fireplace; a thrilling
moment in an old log schoolhouse when my teacher handed me a corrected ''composi-
tion" with a beautiful ''A" opposite my name; the burial of a pet kitten; a humiliating
moment when I received my father's severest punishment for a wrongdoing: his sad
eyes looking into mine and his kind voice saying, "Elsie, I didn't think you would do
that"; happy days on a farm where I learned to ride horses, milk cows, and piece quilts
from innumerable scraps of family dresses and shirts and aprons; wearing one of the
prettiest Christmas dresses my mother ever made for me, and going to my first grown-
up dance; delivering the valedictory in high school commencement exercises; getting
ready to go away to college; the supreme moment when I was asked to be the wife
of the boy who began sending me valentines when I was eight years old; our wedding
day. Lights and shadows of memory passed sv^dftly over more than half a century in the
brief span of ten minutes.
If I had turned my mind to contemplate the present for ten minutes, thoughts
would have raced just as swiftly from the problems, anxieties, joys, doubts and fears,
satisfactions and hopes, that crowd into our lives each day.
And, if I had focused it on the rosy-hued world of ambition, hopes, and dreams,
it would have gone sailing away from one tremulous cloud to another, until I would
not have known when the ten minutes were up and would have trouble bringing it back
to reality, which the poet Browning calls 'The C Major of Life."
Truly, one of the great blessings we are given with our lives is the power to re-
member, to contemplate, to dream.
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Dare to Be Different
Mabel Law Atkinson
SARA Olney's thoughts kept
time with the rhythm of old
Bell's hoofs, as dear, familiar
scenes glided by as she sat beside
her father in the one-horse buggy on
her wav to the train that was to take
her away to the first big adventure
of her life. Every once in awhile
she looked through the little win-
dow in the back of the buggv to see
if her new brown tin trunk was still
securely tied on. A small brown
pasteboard suitcase, also new, was
between her feet and the dashboard
in front. Her first suitcase and her
first trunk that spoke of her first real
journey away from home.
She was daydreaming of attending
church the next morning in a far-
away country town, and of begin-
ning her teaching in a two-room
country school the Monday follow-
ing. Seventy-five dollars a month
was to be her salary! Seventy-five
dollars! And her first year of teach-
ing! Why, at home she could only
have received fifty dollars, and she
would only be about eighty miles
away! Y^i^iy miles! Suddenly the
distance seemed far, but she smiled
resolutely as she mused, and Fll be
home for Christmas! What pres-
ents I shall bring!
Her Father's voice interrupted her
thoughts, ''My girl, Fm not one for
preaching, as you know, but there
are a few things I would sa\' to you
by way of counsel: You know our
Church standards. You may meet
and mingle with people who do not
live these standards. Dare to be dif-
ferent should the occasion demand.
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Live as you know, my dear. YouVe
been a good girl, Sara, and I have
full confidence in you. I trust you
to do the right thing always."
'Tes, Papa. Fm glad you have
faith in me. But the community is
a Latter-day Saint one. Mrs. Daugh-
erty, where I shall board, is a good
Church worker, the trustee told me.
So I don't think I shall have any
hard decisions to make."
'Terhaps not, my girl, but take
vour old father's advice in case you
do."
''Oh, I will. Papa. Fve always felt
that what vou said was right, you
and Mama both."
A half hour later when her trunk
had been checked and she was car-
rying her suitcase ready to get on
the train, she kissed her father good-
bye, and said, laughingly, "Smile,
Papa! Don't look so serious. Fll
be home again you know, and Fll
\\Tite each week, I promise. Don't
worr\ , Papa."
"Fm not really worrying, for I
think I know my girl. But the fact
that my oldest child is leaving home
makes me a little sad. But I
wouldn't hold you. Fledglings must
leave the nest."
"Yes, Papa, and you and Mama
have given this fledgling strong
wings, so let vour e\ es twinkle before
I leave."
"All aboard!" sounded, and with
a quick kiss, Sara walked up the train
steps, found a seat, and waved
through the window at her father.
He watched the train until it was
out of sight then began his journey
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349
homeward. A time or two tears
filled his eyes and he murmured,
''Our little Sara! Time has sped
too fast."
''Strange how one child going
leaves such an emptiness even when
we have seven more/' Mr. Olney
said to his wife that evening.
"Not strange, Papa, for the heart
that has expanded to make room for
each one does not shrink. I just
hope I have done all I should to
make her strong enough to know
and choose the right.''
"You have, Mama. I've often
wondered at your ability to teach the
principles of the gospel and the
truths of life in simplicity as you
have done from the time the chil-
dren were infants. You haven't
failed in any little way. I only hope
I have done my part as well. Sara
is a good girl, but she's going out
into the world, and the world isn't
home."
"Sara will be all right. Papa, I feel
sure. But she mav not spend wise-
ly, not for a time. Why, I think I
might even spend foolishly myself,
if suddenly I found I had seventy-
five dollars a month. But she'll pay
her tithing, first of all, as she always
has, so she'll come out all right."
"Yes, but she's so young and in-
nocent and doesn't think Latter-day
Saints would ever do wrong."
C ARA'S first letter was reassuring.
It was filled with her joyous
experiences of teaching her sixteen
pupils in the first four grades, and
of her good times with the folks she
had met at Church and Mutual. She
went on to sav:
Really, Papa, you don't need to worn'.
I'm recalling what you said to me as \\e
dro\e to the train together. There's no
occasion at all, no need to dare to be dif-
ferent here, for the people I have met live
their standards as we do. I've been in
several of their homes and the gospel is
lived, Papa.
Her next letter eased their worries
still more. Her parents read it eag-
erly, hurriedly, and reread parts of
it over and over:
I am now a teacher in the Sunday
School and in Mutual as well. A small
ward requires some people to hold more
than one office. The young people are
friendly and clean living. I was quite
attracted to a young man who works for
the bishop. He walked me home from
Mutual last night. But, today, Mrs.
Daugherty told me he is not a member
of the Church, just a transient whom the
bishop hired for the fall work. So I shall
not go places with him. I feel certain he
will ask me to go to the harvest dance
next week, but I will decline sincerely
and politely and tactfully, I hope. Some
da}' he may join, who knows. . . ?
You see, I do remember your counsel,
Papa. Remember when I began dating
with Jed not knowing he was a non-Mor-
mon? But you found out, Papa. It seems
but yesterday, instead of a year ago, when
I was sitting on your knee and hearing
you say, 'Tf you never go with nonmem-
bers, you will never marry out of the
Church." Then, how wise you were, for
you continued, "I just wanted to let you
know how I feel, now the decision is up
to you." Of course, I stopped dating Jed.
How could a daughter do otherwise with
a father like you?
T)UT it wasn't more than two
weeks after Sara had written the
letter that she had a different and
startling experience. It was Satur-
day, and she had been invited to eat
dinner, as the noon meal was called,
at the home of two of her pupils.
The family had the threshers, and
the working men and the family ate
together at one long table. To her
surprise, she found her cup, along
with those at the places of most of
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the adults, was filled with coffee.
When she did not drink it, the man
across the table from her, a Mr.
Watson, a member of the Church
and a trustee on the school board, a
middle-aged man with a large fam-
ily, looked squarely into her eyes as
he raised his cup and challenged,
''I dare you!"
Sara, who had never been afraid
to accept a dare — in the right direc-
tion — said, ''But I have never drunk
tea or coffee in all my nineteen years.
It was never served in my home. Fd
rather not."
"Come, be a sport," he urged her,
"just this once." Again he lifted
his cup, looked directly and com-
pellingly at her.
She met his gaze steadily for a
long moment, lifted her cup from
the table, held it for a few long sec-
onds, then set it down and said, "I
cannot."
"You won't take a dare!" the chal-
lenger's voice was loud enough to
carry throughout the house.
Slowly and calmly Sara answered,
"I would be a coward and a traitor
to what I know is right if I drank
that coffee. I shall keep my record
clean."
You could have heard a pin drop
in the silence that followed. Then
Mr. Watson spoke, "I admire you
for your dedication to the teachings
of your parents and the Church.
Would I had remained likewise true,
for I was taught the same as you.
I hesitate to think what my sainted
mother in heaven must think — if
she knows. Thank you, my dear, for
daring to do right."
At the supper table in the Olney
home the next week, the entire
family listened attentively as their
mother read Sara's letter aloud. She
had read it to herself over and over
in the afternoon. In it Sara gave a
detailed account of the incident and
expressed her appreciation for her
family and the way of life she had
been taught, both by precept and
example.
Y\/^ITH the letter had come a
check for thirty-five dollars.
Stapled to it, was a note which read :
Surprise! I've planned this for a long
time, and it has been so much fun! Each
month you will receive the same to help
out a bit. You will need it, with Linda
in college this year. . . . Yes, I'll have
plenty without it. My board and room
cost me twenty dollars a month, which
leaves me twenty dollars for clothes and
other things I desire. Just my little
"thank you," and I want to do it.
Mama stopped reading and the
children cheered, "Hurrah for Sara!"
Linda's eyes were shining.
"I haven't read the P.S. yet."
Mama was beaming with happiness
as she did so:
I almost left out the very best part:
I saw Mrs. Watson in the store yesterday.
She was so happy she cried as she thanked
me. She told me her husband had come
home Saturday evening and said, "Throw
out the tea and coffee, Martha. It will
not be served in our home again." So
you see. Papa and Mama, the wavelets
from the stone of truth you have cast upon
the waters for your family have reached
outward into the stream of life for others.
"How beautiful. Papa!" There
was awe in Mama's voice "So you
see, my dear, we needn't worry
about Sara."
Papa's eyes were lighted by an in-
ward glow as he said, "Sara is a good
daughter."
For
Mother's Day
Dorothy J. Roberts
^ When I see a rose of red, I think of you, ^
T Or when I see an apron, starched and new, T
V Or a perfectly proportioned loaf of bread, v"
■^ A snowy tablecloth, a blessing said, -^
^ I think of childhood and the years between, .^
^,,^ You, love-bent there among the summer's green. *^
^ When I think of virtue, a woman's fame, v
•^ Then I recall your hands, your face, your name. -^
■^ -^ -^ -^ -^ -^ -^ -^ -^ -^ ^
The Reward of a Thing Well Done
Caroline Eyring Miner
I remember a motto that once appeared on our school bulletin, which said, "The
*■ reward of a thing well done is to have done it." I do not know who wrote it, but
I do know that I believe it.
If you have made a tasty cake, you know it, and no one needs to tell you, for you
sense the joy in the accomplishment and your knowledge of it. If you have typed a
paper perfectly, the reward for you is in the knowledge of that fact and the satisfaction
of work well done. A seamstress glories in the beautiful garment she has made; the
teacher in the growth and accomplishment of her class members. The little pin or
the word of commendation or the certificate is pleasant enough to receive, but the
real reward for achievement is in the joy of knowing one has been adequate to the
challenge placed before him.
As this is true in little accomplishments, it is true in life itself. The greatest
reward we will have in the celestial kingdom will be the knowledge within ourselves
that we have kept the commandments, that we have kept the faith. And I think our
condemnation and eternal sorrow, on the other hand, may well be the knowledge
within ourselves that we failed to do the things we knew to be right.
There is no joy in receiving unearned praise. It has a false ring, and it cannot
make up for the inner dissatisfaction a person has within himself when he has per-
formed below his capacity. He can't be fooled.
Parents and teachers should very early teach young people to do their tasks
thoroughly and beautifully that they may know throughout their lives that the reward
for achievement is in the fact of worthy achievement itself.
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My Mother's Hand
Esther H. Lamb
'T^ONIGHT, after a trip of eight The happiest moments come
hundred miles, I am with my when he expresses pride in us and
mother here in the house of my with stern kindness suggests ways of
birth in which she is beginning her improvement. We draw closer to
ninety-fifth year of wholesome living, him as he takes the youngest of us
From the comfort of her little on his lap, and with his stockinged
rawhide-bottomed rocker, she re- feet tapping in accent, he sings for
ceived me with glad eyes and a smile us songs of repetitious melody,
of love. coupled to lyrics many verses long,
Her hands which must now con- stories of delight or tragedy,
tent themselves with resting tidily Our mother's hands are busy,
in her lap are dearly familiar and moving deftly as when she kneaded
work blessed. Her hands! They bread early in the morning. She
serve as a magic lens to bring to the kneels near the newspaper-protected
screen of my memory vivid pictures hearth beside a long row of washed,
of yesteryear. They alone have high-topped shoes. We are proud
power to wind backward the film of owners of one pair each, and for
life and make me ten years old Sunday meetings they must shine as
again. All home with me are my shoes never shone before,
brothers and sisters. Being mistress of this act, moth-
It is Saturday evening. Snowflakes er uses a curved-handled brush
are pushing against our lace-cur- equipped with a pompon of bristles
tained windowpanes in an effort to on one side. This she dips into
tuck us in protectively from the spicy vinegar, then touches it lightly
wind's cold breath. to the soot that clings in black flakes
Our large, pleasant home has been to the chimney throat, and applies
cleaned v^dth special care for the it to each shoe. Now, with swift
Sabbath day. The smell of Sun- strokes from the opposite side of the
day's dinner, already prepared, is brush, our shoes are shined to mirror
tantalizing, even though we have smoothness. Though we know
eaten supper and are relaxed cozily nothing about Who*s Who in poli-
for a few last minutes before we go tics, this vinegar and soot treatment
to our cold bedrooms to snuggle is spoken of as Democratic Shoe
under mother's homemade quilts. Blacking.
We listen soberly to another chap- I watch as mother places in the
ter from Church history, read aloud top of each pair of shoes, long, black,
by our father. Then, with some wool stockings her nimble fingers
squirmings and attempted evasions, have knitted. Then, stitch upon
we submit to his attempts to check stitch, with fascinating speed, she
on our behavior of the day. As manipulated the shining needles
though he does not know! that whispered in soothing rhythm.
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The fre burns low. Our grotesque old, from the tasks of pioneer days
shadows on the wall blend with the to this electronic age. Yet they
night. . . . We are secure in this must accept one more task — to lie
peaceful home. patiently as she looks at her unused
My evening in memory is finished, workbasket beside her chair, and
The film rolls forward identifying wait.
yesteryear with the present. Mother My mother's hands — in them
raises her hands to touch my cheek. God placed his most beautiful tool,
Hands that have grown strong, then service.
Mine for Keeps
Ida Ehine James
Two portable blossoms
Sprang up in my yard —
Two brightly ginghamed children
Looking at me hard.
I went on with my raking.
Gave them a casual smile;
One fumbled in her pocket
A little while
For a gaudy egg she had colored,
Held it close to me.
Praisefully I nodded:
"Pretty as can be."
Leaned nearer just to please her -
"Why, it's the very blue
Of your pretty little apron;
Is it new?"
The egg slipped in my pocket —
They hippety-hopped on air.
It was then I stopped my raking,
To say an Easter prayer.
Spring Cleaning
Sweep away the cobwebs,
Sweep away the trash,
IT ^ -KT- 1 r- • u • Burn the crumpled papers,
Vesta Nickeison FaiibaiTn ^ ^ '^
Reduce debris to ash.
Clear away the clutter,
The trivia inclined
To overlay or dim
The facets of the mind.
New House in Old Orchard
Maude Rubin
Small Everest, this peak where workmen hoist
The forest-fragrant shingles, bundled neatly. . . .
I watch them work to cover stud and joist.
Laying each row precisely, till completely
Snug and warm and weather-safe. No rain
Can warp the new-laid floors nor drown the fire
Of applewood's clear blaze. Though winds complain,
As books warm-line the walls, thought finds a higher
And calmer shelf! Like gardens in the hall.
New lamps will blossom, primrose-bright their glow.
House-comfort will be here, enough for all;
House-peace will sing a lullaby below
This gabled Everest, while high and thin
Our child's first cry shall sound, seal love within.
New Day
Let me awake early
Each morning,
Leora Larsen Like a bird singing of
Joys that are.
Seeking a new freshness
In living.
Knowing the sky keeps my
Nighttime star.
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Patio Breakfasts for Summertime
Linnie Fishei Robinson
Menu I
Pancakes With Pineapple or Strawberry Sauce — Sausage or Ham
Milk or Chocolate
PANCAKES
2 c. flour 1 c. butter or margerine
6 tbsp. sugar (or less, as desired)
pinch of salt i c. light cream or evaporated milk
4 tsp. baking powder 5 eggs (or fewer, if shortening is reduced)
water, if needed
Combine salt, sugar, and baking powder with the flour. Add butter and eggs
and beat until smooth. Add cream, and a little water, if the batter is not thin enough
to spread out for cooking. Cook about 3 tbsp. of batter in large pan, skillet, or griddle.
Use only a small amount of butter to grease pan. Cook on medium heat until golden
brown. Turn and cook the other side. If you are cooking for a large crowd, have
more cooks and serve as you cook. As soon as the pancakes are done, spread with fruit
filling and serve topped with whipped cream.
PINEAPPLE FILLING
Make your favorite cream filling. When cold, add crushed pineapple (drained as
you do for cream pie) and spread between pancakes. Top with sweetened whipped
cream.
STRAWBERRY FILLING
8 c. fresh strawberries 3 tbsp. butter
2 or 3 c. sugar (to taste) 3 drops red food coloring,
1 c. water if desired
Vz c. cornstarch mixed with water
Wash, drain, and hull the berries. Sort out the finest and set aside for topping.
(I usually set aside half of them.) Crush or mash the other half, add water and sugar,
and bring to a boil. Add cornstarch mixed in a little water and thicken. Add butter
and red food coloring, if color is not as bright as the other berries. When almost cool,
add the remaining berries and spoon onto the pancakes. Top with cream and serve.
Recipe serves 15 to 18.
Menu II
Molded Chicken in Gelatine Hot Baked Green Beans
Frozen Orange Soda
MOLDED CHICKEN IN GELATINE
cooked, cubed meat from one large 1 bunch (more or less as desired)
chicken green onions minced fine
4 c. stock (You cannot get this much 1 c. celery cubed fine
stock from one chicken and have it 1 c. small peas (sifted, canned peas)
taste good, so if you haven't more 1 small can or jar pimento, sliced
stock on hand, make some from salt and pepper to taste
chicken bouillon cubes.) salad dressing, to taste
4 envelopes gelatine (unsweetened and whipping cream, as desired
unflavored)
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Soak gelatine in 2 cups of stock and heat the other 2 cups and dissolve the gelatine
mixture. \\ hen mixture begins to thicken, add the cubed chicken and vegetables and
pour into an aluminum angel food tin and put in refrigerator to get firm. When ready to
unmold loosen the edges with knife and then set, fo.r just one second, in deep hot water
( deep enough to come up to where you have loosened the mold ) . Turn out on silver or
china platter and garnish with lettuce. Fill the center with salad dressing mixed with
whipped and sweetened cream, mixed lightly together. Serves as many as you can get
slices from an angel food cake.
BAKED GREEN BEANS
2 cans French style cut green beans 2 cans mushroom soup
(uhole ones can be used also) 1 c. cream or evaporated milk
1 c. mushrooms
Drain beans. Combine the other ingredients until smooth and pour over beans
in a casserole and bake until mixture is thoroughly heated and bubbles appear on the
surface.
FROZEN ORANGE SODA
grated rind of one orange 4 c. orange juice
6 c. water 1 c. lemon juice
3 c. sugar or sweeten to taste 2 qts. soda water or substitute
Combine grated rind of orange, water, and sugar. Heat to dissolve sugar, then
strain and cool and add the fruit juice. Freeze to a mush and add the soda water and
serve. Will fill about 16 to 18 punch cups. (My mother used to make this with just
lemonade seasoned with mint. Then she froze it in an ice cream freezer. When she
took it out and mixed it with soda water and piled it in a huge punch bowl, we used
to drink it out under the cherry trees, and we thought it was ambrosia.) Such a pretty
sight, too.
SOUFFLE SANDWICH
Helena B. Ray
(Use sharp American cheese, York State, or Cheddar type)
Cut crust off sandwich bread, spread with mustard. Put one slice cheese between
two pieces of bread. Put 4 sandwiches in small square pan 8" x 9" or 9" x 9". Use 3 eggs
and 2 cups milk for each four sandwiches. Mix eggs and milk and pour over sand-
wiches. Refrigerate over night. Bake 45-60 minutes in 325° oven.
SAUCE: Saute box of mushrooms or can of mushrooms and add to one can mush-
room soup. Heat and pour sauce over baked sandwiches and serve hot.
Surfside Luncheon Theme
Eva WiJJes Wangsgaard
A PPETITE begins with the eye. As with a poem written around a
single image, a luncheon planned around a single theme can be satis-
fyingly effective.
Our favorite ladies' luncheon subject is a surfside image built around
a creamed crab recipe baked in individual shells. For a centerpiece, a bit
of driftwood draped with moss and a few sandflowers are in keeping with
the idea. Anemones and daisies may take the place of sandflowers, but
the idea is to keep the simple, sparse feeling of the beach. As center of
interest, a ceramic wading bird, migrant fowl, or a pair of ceramic sea
horses sustain the illusion.
For a menu with the crab, a tossed vegetable salad, your favorite, with
bread, a beverage, and dessert, completes the picture and satisfies the
appetite. The bread may be hot rolls, hard rolls, or French bread cut into
slices to the bottom crust and brushed with garlic butter and heated until
the butter is well absorbed into the slices.
For dessert, individual lemon chiffon pies with the crusts shaped into
shell forms carry the illusion to a foamy finish. The following recipe for
creamed crab baked in the shell serves four.
BAKED CRAB
Preheat oven to 500°. Grease four seashells and hold ready.
1 small onion, minced 3 large soda crackers soaked in
1 cube butter boiling water
level tbsp. flour 1 tsp. salt
1 c. heavy cream or canned milk 1 tbsp. catchup
1 can crab (about 8 ounces) 1 scant tsp. Worcestershire sauce
1 egg, unbeaten pinch red pepper, if desired
mushrooms, if desired
2
Saute the onion in the butter until lightly golden brown. Add flour and blend
thoroughly. Add cream and stir until smooth. To this sauce add the crab which
has been flaked and made free from hard membranes. Then add one unbeaten egg
and stir briskly to prevent lumping. Stir in the soaked crackers and add the season-
ings and mushrooms if desired. If too thick, add more cream or canned milk.
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Turn into greased shells and place shells on a cooky sheet. Bake in a very hot
oven fifteen minutes or until bubbly hot and golden crusted. Remove from oven and
serve immediately.
THE DOMINO EFFECT
Celia Larsen Luce
A S a child I used to set the dominoes carefully on end in a straight row. Then, when
'^ ^ I tipped over the end one, all the rest would fall, too.
Now that I am grown, I watch another domino effect. If I start the day with a
frown and a grumpy feeling, soon everyone around me is growling, too. If I put on
a smile, whether I feel like smiling or not, soon there are smiles around me. Since
my moods have this domino effect, I had better try to make it a good effect.
Rhubarb Recipes
Grace V. Price
RHUBARB CAKE
Vi c. shortening
1 Vi c. brown sugar
1 beaten egg
1 c. buttermilk
1 tsp. soda
2 c. sifted flour
lYi c. cut raw rhubarb
Yi c. white sugar
1 tsp. cinnamon
Cream together shortening and brown sugar. Add beaten egg. Add alternately
buttermilk, soda, and flour. Fold ihubarb in lightly. Spread in greased and floured
pan. Sprinkle top with white sugar and cinnamon. Bake at 350° for 30 to 35 minutes.
RHUBARB CRUMBLE
iVz c. cut fresh rhubarb
% c. sugar
Vs c. flour
% tsp. salt
Yz tsp. cinnamon
1 c. brown sugar
4 c. flour
1 c. quick oats
4 c. margarine or butter
2 tsp. salt
3 tbsp. water
Mix together rhubarb, sugar, flour, and salt. Place in buttered baking dish.
Sprinkle with cinnamon. Mix separately brown sugar, flour, oats, butter, and salt.
Pour over rhubarb mixture as a topping. Sprinkle with wate/. Bake at 350° for about
40 minutes. Serve warm or cold, plain, or with sour cream, \/hipped cream, ice cream,
or cheese.
RHUBARB TAPIOCA
1 54 c. sugar
/4 c. minute tapioca
Yi tsp. salt
2Y1 c. cut raw rhubarb
2 c. water
3 drops red color, if desired
1 c. crushed p^ineapple
Combine sugar, tapioca, salt, rhubarb, water, and coloring. Cook over medium
heat stirring constantly until full boil. Cool. To avoid crusting over stir occasionally
during cooling. Add pineapple. Chill and serve.
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PALE PINK BUT BRIGHT
(Other Uses for Rhubarb)
Breakfast Drink
To one quart of rhubarb juice (home canned stewed rhubarb juice, strained or
blended, sweetened as desired) add juice of one or two oranges, or one pint of pine-
apple juice, or both. Chill and serve.
Party Punch
Use as above, adding one bottle of your favorite lemon-lime beverage and three
or four drops of red coloring. Garnish with orange slices or strawberries. A sprinkle of
strawberry or raspberry punch powder is good instead of coloring.
Topping for Ice Cream or Plain Cake
4/4 c. cut raw rhubarb i pkg. strawberry gelatine
4 c. sugar
Simmer together rhubarb and sugar. Add and dissolve gelatine. Keep covered and
cool for serving. (May be sealed in bottles while hot.)
Party
Christie Lund Coles
Small girl, just four,
(and a half year over)
Dainty and sweet
As rain-fresh clover;
Nodding and smiling,
Inviting me
To your small table
To taste, to see;
Telling me news
Of your doll land:
Suzie has measles,
You can't understand
Where Mary has gone?
(She's by the door.)
Such a lovely party,
Child, half-past four.
A Song of the Sewing 'Machine
Shirley Thulin
MAGIC STITCHES
'-*M<i4MBeM«K^kM»- '«*•«■>
T TERE is the simplest kind of embroid-
*• -^^ ery you can do on a sewing machine
without one single attachment, without
levers or cams. It is really just "plain
sewing," but the effect is that of a beauti-
ful hand outline stitch. It is wonderfully
easy for monograms, embroidery patterns,
or your own original designs.
All you have to do is just wind four
bobbins with colorful heavy-duty mercer-
ized thread (quilting thread is fine) and
stack three bobbins on the spool pin
(where you ordinarily put the spool of
thread). Now thread the machine with
all three threads as one, using a needle
threader to draw strands through the
needle. (A number 3 needle is best.)
Put the fourth bobbin in the usual
place and set the machine stitch at 8 or
9 (or largest your machine affords).
Transfer your design to the fabric, either
with dressmaker's tracing paper, ordinary
carbon paper, or a hot iron transfer.
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Look your design over to determine how
to make the longest continuous stitching,
then go ahead and sew! When finished,
pull the top threads to the underside, and
holding t\\ o threads in each hand, tie them
securely.
On soft or flimsy materials, it is advis-
able to use tissue or a similar backing and
then tear it " away after sewing. Always
test the fabric to determine the need for
reinforcement. To embroider terry cloth,
trace the design on tissue and baste to the
right side of fabric. Cut away the tissue
when stitching is completed.
Look for interesting and unusual motifs
in magazines, wallpaper, fabrics, and even
in coloring books. The more you do, the
more fun you will have dreaming up new
uses for magic three-thread embroidery.
Be sure to practice first and you will be
proud of the results.
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Patchwork Apron
and Pot Holder
TTERE is an economical pattern as welcome at the bridal shower as in your own
-'■ •*• kitchen. It is a good idea for using your bright new scraps, too.
WHAT YOU NEED:
49 patches, each 3 Vz " square, of printed cotton, as varied as possible.
1 yard of plain colored cotton broadcloth.
2 squares of flannelette, each 6 Vz " by 6 Vz ".
thread to match the cotton broadcloth.
some six-strand embroidery floss in various colors.
TO MAKE APRON:
Allow Vi" seams.
1. Sew 45 patches together in 10 strips, as shown in Figure 1. The broken line
indicates the stitching line for the border and waistband.
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2. From broadcloth, cut 2 border strips 3" by 13 54", 1 border strip 3" by 35/4",
a waistband 3" by 18", 2 ties 3 Vz" by 35", and a lining to fit the bordered patch section.
3. Sew the short border strips to the short edges of patched section, the long strip
to one long edge as shown in Figure 2. Trim off extending points of patches and press
the border out flat.
4. Using three strands of floss, stitch along each seam of the patches with varied
embroidery stitches in colors to contrast with patches. Use the blanket stitch, lazy
daisy, or whatever you desire. To make apron really lovely, you can highlight the
print in the patterns by embroidering the flowers that are in the pieces, or even sew
sequins or other fancy things on the designs.
5. With right sides together, stitch the lining and the patched piece together
around the three plain-colored edges. Turn right side out and press. On the raw
edge, run two lines of gathering stitches across the top, catching lining as well as
patched front. Trim off the points of the patches.
6. Make a narrow machine hem on the long edges of the ties. Fold and stitch
one end, turn to the right side to form a point. Pleat the other end down to 1". Baste.
7. Fold waistband in half lengthwise. Slip tie ends between ends, raw edges even.
Stitch and turn to right side.
8. Pin right side of waistband to right side of apron, ends and centers matching.
Pull up gathering threads to fit waistband. Distribute the gathers evenly. Baste and
stitch. Turn in raw edge of waistband, slipstitch over seam on the wrong side
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TO MAKE POTHOLDER:
1. Sew 4 patches together to form a square. Press seams open.
2. Cut matching square from broadcloth. Lay on top of each other the squares
of broadcloth, the 2 flannelette squares, and the patches right side up. Stitch all to-
gether along the seams of the patches. Cover patch seams with embroidery stitches.
3. From broadcloth cut a bias strip i/4" by 36". Turn the edges over
!4" and press. Stitch all around the edges of the potholder for a binding.
4. To make a loop, cut a 6" length of bias. Fold it in half lengthwise. Stitch the
edges together. Fold in half crosswise to form a loop. Tack ends of loop to corner
of potholder, with loop pointed in toward center, stitch securely.
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Gracious Living
Celia Luce
E continually read in advertisements, buy this or that for gracious living.
What we seem to forget is that gracious living is the kind of living done by
gracious people. It is not something to be bought or built or secured by keeping up
with anyone.
Gracious living comes only when we develop consideration, order, and the knack
of spreading happiness.
Things do not bring gracious living. People do.
Mind Cleaning
Nancy M. Armstrong
TOURING housecleaning, we remove everything from closets and drawers, returning
^^ only those articles which still have value. The useless, we discard.
Just so can we clean the mind, keeping the good, the beautiful, the optimistic, and
the useful thoughts, and discarding the bad, the ugly, the pessimistic, and the useless.
In our homes, we entertain whom we choose. In our minds, we entertain what
we choose.
Sow the Field With Roses
Chapter 5
Margery S. Stewart
Synopsis: Nina Karsh lives in a small
house in the Malibu Mountains of Cali-
fornia. The house is owned by Tomas
No\arro, a sad and morose man of great
wealth, who brings his motherless son
Joseph and asks Nina to take care of him.
Nina agrees to look after the bo}- tempo-
rarily. Tommy Benedict, a \oung boy
from an unhappy home, \isits Nina at
times. She tries to help him into a better
life adjustment. At the request of Tomas
Novarro, Dr. Craig Jonathan comes to
check up on Joseph's health. Joseph shows
gradual, but consistent impro\"ement, and
Nina feels a deep satisfaction. Dr. Jona-
than continues to call and becomes inter-
ested in Nina. ^
TOMAS Novarro came home
on one of the hottest Sep-
tember days in Cahfornia
history. Nina, unaware of his ar-
rival, had taken small Joseph and
Tommy to the beach.
Joseph had come to lo\e the sea
with a small boy's passion for sound
and motion. Nina had to ^^•atch
him everv second or he would ha\e
been out beyond his depth. She
could not understand this heedless-
ness of danger in one who once
trembled at the sound of running
water. Joseph had come a long
way. He was really talking now,
sometimes long furious sentences
that were not always clear — but
he was talking.
Nina leaned back on the beach
towel on her elbows and watched
his slight form skimmering into the
surf. He looked back to her and
waved, and Tommy, beside him,
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gave her a reassuring gesture of the
hand.
Nina waved and then flopped over
on her stomach still watching. A
great peace filled her, a sense of
ha\"ing had a hand in a momentous
creation ... or an isolated, rare
experience. WHiat could compare
to this that she had witnessed, the
opening of a mind, the breaking of
a barrier, the threadv beginning, the
communication of one human being
to his immediate world. It had been
very good.
Joseph unloosed himself from
Tommv's hand and, clutching his
bucket, ran up from the ocean. ''I
found . . ." he shouted, '1 found a
whale!''
Nina peered at the captive sea
horse. ''Well, not quite a whale,
Joseph, but it's a sea horse and
thev're strictly wonderful."
Joseph was charmed. ''Sea horse
... sea horse."
Nina kissed his bright, soft hair.
He flung his arms about her. "It's
for you, my present." He fished the
sea horse out and laid its clammy
coldness in her palm.
Tommy trotted up to fling him-
self down beside them. "It's hot
even down here, wish I had brought
my board."
"You've had a lot of fun with it,
ha\"en't you?"
"Yeah, all the fellows have. We're
going on a beach cookout next Fri-
day, all the fellows." He poured sand
sow THE FIELD WITH ROSES
367
through his fingers. ''I hke Mu-
tual, all but the religious part."
"Why don't you like that?"
''Oh . . . my brother says it's all
a lot of stuff." He dropped the
sand and looked into her face. ''I
get so tired of thinking and wonder-
ing about things. How come you're
so sure there's a God? Lots of
people say there isn't one, and
they're smarter than you even."
Nina swallowed. Tommy's blunt-
ness took a little getting used to.
'Tm just sure, that's all."
''Even my schoolteacher says there
isn't one, and he's been to Russia
and everywhere and he knows
things."
Nina sat up. "If you wanted to
know if somebody lived in a house,
what would you do. Tommy?"
He considered, stretching his
young bones gladly on the sand. "I
guess I'd go up and knock. If some-
body lived there I guess they'd come
to the door."
"Prayer is knocking," Nina said.
"Prayer/"
"Swim!" insisted Joseph, turning
to the sea.
"No, not now. Let's have cook-
ies." She passed them around.
T^OMMY ate in silence for a long
time. Nina was beginning to
think he had left the topic and gone
on to other things, but he turned
to her suddenly. "You've knocked,
or you wouldn't know about knock-
ing."
"Yes."
He looked at her critically. "All
right, then why do you have so
much trouble, if you know he's
there? Other people have lots more
of other things than you, a real lot
more."
"If you have Kim," Nina said,
"you don't need lots of things. You
don't need lots of pleasures. You
can even take a good, long siege of
trouble, because knowing he's there
gives everything a reason . . . you
see?"
He looked at her angrily. "You're
different. He wouldn't come for
just anybody."
Nina wiped her hands on the
towel. "Tommy, don't ask me
about these things. Go find out for
yourself, if you really want to know,
if you're willing to know that he
ives.
He was instantly suspicious.
"What do you mean . . . wilh'ng?"
"There's an obligation in know-
ing," she said.
Tommy was truculent. "I'm go-
ing body surfing . . . you watch Jo-
seph for awhile."
Nina watched him make his way
to the sea. She was disturbed. I
did it badly, she thought. I was
overanxious. I sound harsh and I
mean to be tender.
Joseph, on a mischievous impulse,
poured sand in the cookie box.
Nina, catching him at it, gave him
a resounding smack on his pos-
terior.
"So this is how you treat my son?"
She whirled. Tomas Novarro
stood above her, a furious scowl on
his dark face.
Nina wanted to sit back and wail
. . . loudly. She had pictured all
sorts of tender scenes when Tomas
came home. She glared back at
Tomas with blue blazing eyes. "Well
if he's going to behave this way, he
deserves to be spanked."
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"So," said Tomas and sank down
to the sand and held his arms out
to the boy. "She is cruel to you, I
hear/'
Joseph, bellowing like a young
bull, flung himself into Nina's arms
for comfort.
"Very well," said Nina with a
firm voice, "but if you do it again,
Joseph, you will get another one."
"I am very good," Joseph insisted.
He sniffed and wiped his eyes with
the back of his hands. He smiled
a little at Tomas.
"Come here, boy." Tomas pulled
a package from his pocket: "I
brought you a present."
It was a silver whistle. Joseph was
charmed. He settled himself on his
father's knees and made the air
about him painfully shrill.
'pOMAS looked at Nina. "Doctor
Jonathan is right, my son is
getting well."
"He certainly is." Nina was im-
mensely proud. She drew Joseph
to her. Now she wanted to show
him off. She wanted him to catch
the ball, which he would not; to talk,
which he would not. Joseph would
only toot the little silver whistle.
Novarro threw back his head and
laughed. It was a joyous sound.
"He is like me, stubborn. Every
Novarro is stubborn." He picked
the boy up in his arms and held him,
nuzzling him while the boy bel-
lowed, suddenly afraid.
"He isn't used to. . . ." She had
almost said strangers. She hastily
amended it to "people." "He'll be
all right after awhile."
"Of course he will!" Novarro
swung the boy to his shoulder.
"Come along, little pig . . . there
is an ice-cream man down the beach.
I passed him."
They went away from her. Nina
sat back on her heels. She was
very tired. She was alone, as she
had never been alone before. She
was afraid, as she had never been
afraid before. After her father had
died, there had been Danny, but
when Danny had gone, there was no
one. Now in the darkness of this
moment she grieved toward Danny,
willing him to return at this time
of her need, but common sense told
her that Danny had gone completely
and irrevocably away. His letters
were brief, impatient notes, at long-
er and longer intervals. He was
caught up in the business of becom-
ing a doctor, in his love for the girl
he had found, in the charm of her
large and joyous family. Nina sensed
that he shrank from the memory of
the long and lonely years with her,
that he felt his boyhood had been
a thwarted, orphan thing.
Now that she knew the pain of
losing the people she loved, she
shrank from entering again into the
painful places, the nostalgic mem-
ories, the silence where once there
had been a quick, demanding voice,
the adjustment within herself to the
firmly closed door.
Panic seized her. She half rose.
She would not let them take Joseph
away from her. This was different.
The child needed her. Hadn't she
stayed up night after night with
him to help him overcome his fear
of the dark? Hadn't she taught
him, hour after hour, with little
games and songs and poems to talk,
to count, to sing, to communicate?
She had taught him tenderness with
the small white kitten that had
sow THE FIELD WITH ROSES
369
grown into the great self-sufficient
cat. Joseph was hers, pecuharly so.
She had brought him into hfe as
surely as his mother had done.
Away from her, he might revert to
the silence and the fear-walled with-
drawal.
Nina stumbled to her feet and ran
in the direction Tomas had taken
with his son. She did not notice
when the waves came up and
washed her running feet. She fled
like the wind among gulls and scat-
tering children, crying aloud for Jo-
seph.
She came on them suddenly,
around a bend, the man and the
boy, sitting on the rocks absorbed
in the busy scurrying of a sand-
piper.
''Joseph!'' She flung herself beside
the child, encircled him, leaned her
face against his warm, soft shoulder.
The small boy submitted gladly
to her fierce embrace. ''I love you.
Mamma Nina. Don't cry."
She was afraid to lift her head.
She could not bear to have Tomas
Novarro see her tears. He would
be impatient and scornful. She tried
to wipe her face surreptitiously, but
Tomas thrust his handkerchief into
her hand.
''My bank tells me I am a very
rich man now," he said, ''and it is
true that I have been able to buy
many things but never tears that are
shed in love." He rose abruptly
and walked away down the beach.
After awhile Joseph became im-
patient. "Somebody will eat our
cookies. Let's go back."
Tommy had taken his fins and
gone home, but Tomas waited for
them beside the beach towel.
"It's time to go," Nina said.
They worked together in silence,
folding the beach towels, packing
away the sun tan lotion and the
cookies and thermos bottle. Nina
took Joseph's hand, and the three
of them plodded across the sand
and climbed the palisade where the
car was parked.
She had wondered if Tomas
would take Joseph now. But he
helped Joseph into her battered
car. Nina sighed with relief. She
clambered quickly under the wheel,
feeling her spirits rise.
'THOMAS came around to her side
and leaned on the car door.
"When I was a child," he said,
"my world collapsed. My father
and my mother quarreled frightfully
and often. I overheard my mother's
cries of anguish. She blamed my
father because they must sell so
much of the land. I began to
imagine things . . . dreadful things
. . . .There was no one to assure
me. The day came when I could
endure it no longer. I had a boat."
His eves smiled down into hers. "It
was a very small boat, as I see it
now, but then it looked as large to
me as an ocean liner. It had a sail,
and I decided to cast off and head
for. . . ." He shrugged. His eyes
twinkled. "There are no islands to
compare with those in a boy's
mind," he said. "On my way to
China I stopped at my grandmoth-
er's house, where you live now, to
tell her goodbye." He laughed in
remembrance. "Not to tell her I
was running away." He looked rue-
ful. "I didn't need to tell her. She
knew. She knew because she loved
me, and though she said little in
words, interiorly we conversed."
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Nina looked up in surprise, but
he was looking past her to the sea.
She studied his face. It was difficult
to imagine this great granite man as
a boy, troubled and lost.
"Interiorly we conversed/' he
went on, a curious gentleness in his
voice. ''My grandmother's love spoke
to me of peace and patience and
the need for faith. It was because
she was those things that she could
plead without words. She made a
supper for me, and we ate together
and afterwards I went back. I put
aside the islands."
Nina gripped the wheel. What
was it he was trying to tell her?
What did he intend this storv to
do to her?
He rubbed his harsh jaw with his
fingertips. ''When I saw that no
amount of money could help Jo-
seph, when I saw the wisdom of the
learned fall in defeat, I remembered
my grandmother and that evening."
Nina was dismaved. It was so
easy to dislike people with a quick
inward self-righteousness, and then
they betrayed you by being sudden-
Iv better than you, or stronger, or
wiser. She had had contempt for
Tomas Navarro, and all the time he
had been searching for a way for
his son.
She said, "I feel very humble that
you should have trusted me. I
didn't know."
He put his hand over hers.
"When I read about you in the
paper^ I thought, what kind of wom-
an is this, \^'ho would come to the
defense of a child?"
"You did?" She felt healed. "I
thought e\'eryone who read the
article would think me a fool."
"No." He moved his hand to
the head of Joseph, who had
dropped off to sleep. "I was already
thinking about talking to vou when
I met you on mv own land . . . that
da^', when \ou were lost."
She took a deep breath. "And
now?"
He looked from her to the sleep-
ing child. "Doctor Jonathan tells
me I must not take him away . . .
at once, that the three of us must
be friends for a time, until I have
won Joseph to me." He stood back.
"I cannot thank you with money.
Miss Karsh, but I give you my
grandmother's house. She will ap-
prove of that."
[To he concluded)
Waif for Me, Sun
Mabel Jones Gabhott
The bluest of skies hangs overhead.
An inverted bowl with not even a chip
The day awaits: unwritten, unread.
This length of hours too soon will slip
Into tomorrow. Wait for me, sun,
Wliile I put in my pocket a bit of song
And lo\ e enough for everyone,
\\'ith a sparkle of humor to go along.
Into each hour, for I shall live
This day but once. I have much to give.
Rachel Kirkham Wanlass Makes Unique Gifts
for MIA Girls
"D ACHEL Kirkham Wanlass, Monroe, Utah, makes exquisite gifts for MIA girls,
■■■ ^ Each girl in the community, as she enters Mutual, is presented with a lovely
knitted doilie. Some of the young men also receive doilies to keep for their future
homes, and the missionaries are remembered with these lovely gifts. Many homes in
Monroe are adorned with handwork made by Mrs. Wanlass. She has knitted more
than 850 doilies. Also, in many homes, the draperies are decorated with an exquisite
crocheted snowflake made by Mrs. Wanlass.
Her other hobbies are numerous and varied. She has knitted several bedspreads
in skilled sculptured patterns, and she has knitted the lace for hundreds of pairs of
pillowcases. Her handwork has won twenty-seven blue ribbons and many other awards
in Sevier County fairs. She loves flowers and her home is made cheerful and inviting
by many house plants. Mrs. Wanlass has spent all the years of her womanhood in
Relief Society work and in making people happy. She has been a visiting teacher for
fifty-three years and is still making her visits regularly and faithfully. She is the last to
leave the work meetings and is noted as an expert quilter. Six of her eight children are
still living, and she is a devoted grandmother and great-grandmother.
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Magazine Honor Roll for 1961
/^NCE again the General Board for these subscriptions. We are sure
takes opportunity to express its you will feel well repaid for your
gratitude and appreciation to the generosity and kindness in the
dedicated and devoted women who knowledge that many hearts have
have been instrumental in placing been touched by the messages and
The Relief Society Magazine in so inspiration contained in the Maga-
many of our Latter-day Saint homes zine, and that a number of conver-
throughout the world, and also in sions to the gospel have resulted,
the homes of other lovely women You will be happy to know that
who appreciate the good and beauti- the total number of Magazine sub-
ful in life. Especially do we express scriptions in 1961 was 183,236, com-
appreciation to the Magazine repre- pared with 171,002 in i960, for an
sentatives in stakes and wards, mis- increase of 12,234. Th^re were 303
sions and branches, for their zealous stakes on the Honor Roll, an in-
and untiring efforts, and to the Re- crease of nineteen over the i960
lief Society presidencies and other total of 284. The mean of all the
officers and teachers who have given stakes was ninety-three per cent,
their loyal support and encourage- which is an increase of one per cent
ment. Surely the Lord is pleased over i960.
with his faithful daughters who have The highest stake was again the
so diligently magnified their calling. South Los Angeles, for the fifteenth
Thanks must also be expressed to consecutive year, with a percentage
our thousands of sisters who sub- of 226. It also had the largest num-
scribe to the Magazine, thereby evi- ber of subscriptions, with a total of
dencing their appreciation of Relief 1,641. Of the ten highest stakes.
Society itself, and of the Magazine, the first four places were taken by
the 'Voice'' of Relief Society which stakes in California. Others in the
brings so much knowledge and top ten included one stake in Ari-
pleasure, beauty and spirituality into zona, two in Idaho, one in Canada,
our lives. one in Nevada, and one in Utah.
In expressing appreciation, we There were also 2,344 wards and 61
must not forget the many gift sub- branches in the stakes on the Honor
scriptions so thoughtfully and gen- Roll. In forty-one stakes all of tlie
erously provided the General Board wards achieved one hundred per
for distribution to the missions cent or over.
of the Church by individual sisters In 1961 there were 24 missions on
and by stake, ward, and branch the Honor Roll, an increase of four
organizations. Sisters, we thank you over i960. Three of these are new
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missions and are to be congratulated Sisters, we rejoice with you over
for doing so well. Highest honor goes these outstanding achievements in
to the British Mission with 143 per Magazine subscriptions. They repre-
cent. Second is the Western States sent many hours of effort by thou-
Mission, with 129 per cent; third, sands of Magazine representatives
the Canadian Mission, with 124 per throughout the Church, and they are
cent; and fourth, the North Central a reflection of loving and devoted
States Mission, with 111 per cent. In ser\ice.
total number of subscriptions the Relief Society women the world
Western States led with 1,075. "^^^ ^^^^ ^^^ grateful for our Relief So-
mean of the missions on the Honor ciety Magazine, with its beautiful
Roll rose to ninety-five per cent, for covers and its many pages filled with
an increase of three per cent over beauty, culture, refinement, knowl-
1960. edge, faith, inspiration, and love.
Honors for Highest Ratings
Stake
South Los Angeles (California) 226%
Magazine Representative — Amelia Dellenbach
Ward
Gila Bend Branch, Phoenix Stake (Arizona) 450%
Magazine Representative — Cleora Colvin
Mission
British Mission — 143%
Mission Magazine Representative — Beulah B. Woodbury
Mission District
West Nebraska District, Western States Mission — 174%
Magazine Representative — Irma M. Chandler
Mission Branch
Roanoke Rapids Branch — 340%
Raleigh District, Central Atlantic States Mission
Magazine Representative — Joyce E. Phillips
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY, 1962
Ten Highest Percentages in Stakes
South Los Angeles 226.. ..Amelia Dellenbach
Huntington Park iSg.-.-Rachel Liston
Inglewood 143. ...Janet C. Medina
Glendale 135. ...Mildred Robison
Phoenix 135.. ..Alva L. Knight
Burley 1 34.... Virginia F. Nichols
Rexburg 129. ...Beth Moore
Edmonton 124.. ..Grace V. McCurdy
Las Vegas 122.... Helen S. Toolson
Box Elder i2i....Iva Lou Nebeker
Missions Achieving Ten Highest Percentages
British i43....Beulah B. Woodbury
Western States 129.... Ada S, Christiansen
Canadian 124.. ..Frances J. Monson
North Central States iii....Joie M. Hilton
Eastern States 107. ...Olive L. Smith
Central States io5....Marcella Meador
West Central States 101. ...Hazel Woolley
Northern California ioo...-Leta C. Pugh
California 97....LaPriel Bunker
Northern States 95.... Mary E. Maycock
Ten Stakes With Highest Number of Subscriptions
No.
No.
South Los Angeles
Subscriptions
1641
Sugar House
Subscriptions
974
Huntington Park
Glendale
1270
1124
Alpine
Davis
965
928
Ensign
East Mesa
1039
985
Shelley
Burley
907
889
Ten Missions With Highest Number of Subscript
ions
No.
No.
West Central States
Subscriptions
1075
Central States
Subscriptions
605
New England
917
Southern States
604
Northern States
875
Northwestern States
591
East Central States
796
Gulf States
573
Eastern States
633
Great Lakes
515
Stakes in
Which All the Wards Achieved 100% or
Over
Bear River Lottie Potter
Box Elder Iva Lou Nebeker
Burley Virginia F. Nichols
Calgary Vernetta Reed
East Idaho Falls ....Sarah Owens
East Pocatello Norma Adams
Glendale Mildred Robison
Granger Althora P. Sizemore
Granite Wilma D. Wetzel
Highland Lucille M. Larsen
Holladay Ruth C. Andrus
Huntington Park ....Rachel Liston
Inglewood Janet C. Medina
Juarez Fannie B. Hatch
Kansas City Venna T. Witbeck
Las Vegas Helen S. Toolson
MAGAZINE HONOR ROLL FOR 1961
375
Malad Maud Y. Jensen
Minidoka Lila Neibaur
Monument Park ....Sara Stone
New Jersey Dorothy A. Keatley
North Jordan \'onda L. Sharp
North Pocatello ...Tura Hadley
Oquirrh Dorothy Smith
Orange County Ehzabeth Reynolds
Parleys Genevieve Lewis
Phoenix Aha L. Knight
Pikes Peak ...Dorothy L. Newton
Pocatello Anna M. Egbert
Rexburg Beth Moore
St. Joseph Nira P. Lee
St. Louis Tessie Lake
San Diego Joan Knudson
San Joaquin Ethel Martin
Shelley Beth M. Clawson
South Idaho Falls. .\'iolet K. Jaussi
South Los Angeles. -Amelia Dellenbach
South Salt Lake ....Hannah Dietrich
Torrance Thelma Perkin
West Covina Lucille C. Hales
Whittier Mary C. Drever
Woodruff Naomi B. Harris
Mission Percentages on Honor Roll
British
Western States
Canadian
North Central
Eastern States
Central States
West Central States
Northern California
H3
129
124
111
107
105
101
100
California
Northern States
Southern States
Alaskan Canadian
Southern Austrahan
Texas
New England
Central Atlantic
97
95
94
93
89
89
88
85
Northwestern States
East Central States
Scottish-Irish
Western Canadian
Great Lakes
Gulf States
South African
Eastern Atlantic
80
79
79
78
77
76
76
75
Stakes by Percentages— 1961
South Los Angeles :
126
Virginia
111
East Long Beach
107
Huntington
Park
L89
Kansas City
111
Granite
107
Inglewood
^3
Albuquerque
111
Calgary
107
Glendale
]
35
Pocatello
111
Great Falls
107
Phoenix
135
San Joaquin
110
Redwood
107
Burlev
]
^34
Santa Rosa
110
San Diego East
107
Rexburg
]
129
^^llittier
110
South Idaho Falls
107
Edmonton
]
124
\\'oodruff
110
New Jersey
107
Las \^egas
:
L22
St. Joseph
110
Roy
107
Box Elder
121
Juarez
110
Las Vegas North
107
San Diego
L21
Reseda
109
Bear River
106
Shelley
120
Temple View
109
Parleys
106
Pikes Peak
119
East Phoenix
109
West Boise
106
l^hoenix North
117
Mojave
109
South Salt Lake
106
Holladay
116
West Covina
109
East Mesa
105
Torrance
116
St. Louis
109
Nyssa
105
Dquirrh
]
116
Mt. Jordan
109
Liberty
105
Minidoka
115
North Pocatello
108
New York
104
Toronto
.
114
Yuma
108
Ammon
104
Classia
113
Monument Park
108
Bonneville
104
Kast Idaho Falls
113
Highland
108
Orange County
104
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West Utah
104
Union
100
Los Angeles
94
East Pocatello
104
Tavlorsville
100
Cache
94
Idaho Falls
104
Granger North
100
Lethbridge
94
Maricopa
104
Big Horn
99
Garden Grove
93
Raft River
104
Panguitch
99
Cedar West
93
Florida
104
St. Johns
99
Bannock
93
Pasadena
103
West Pocatello
99
Murray
93
Ensign
103
Long Beach
99
Washington
93
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103
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99
Redondo
93
Grand Coulee
103
Chicago
99
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9^
Fresno
103
Vancouver
99
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9^
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103
Walnut Creek
98
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9^
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103
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98
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103
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98
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92
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103
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98
Tooele
92
Sugar House
102
Ogden
98
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9^
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102
Weiser
98
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92
Granger
102
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92
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102
San Antonio
97
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91
Burbank
102
Rigbv
97
Blackfoot
91
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102
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97
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91
Olympus
102
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97
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91
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102
Hayward
97
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91
Malad
102
Taylor
97
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91
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101
Cheyenne
97
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91
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101
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97
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91
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101
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96
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91
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101
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96
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91
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101
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96
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91
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101
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96
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91
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101
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96
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90
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101
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96
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90
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101
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95
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101
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95
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90
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101
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95
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90
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101
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95
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90
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101
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95
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90
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101
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95
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90
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101
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95
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90
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101
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95
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89
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101
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95
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89
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101
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95
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89
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100
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94
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89
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100
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94
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89
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94
Lost River
89
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100
Norwalk
94
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89
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100
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94
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89
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377
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88
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82
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76
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88
Lewiston
82
South Sanpete
76
Timpanogos
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Auckland
82
Dallas
76
Tacoma
88
Craig
82
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76
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88
Minnesota
82
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76
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88
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82
Salmon River
75
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88
Montpeher
82
Humboldt
75
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88
Moroni
82
Lorin Farr
75
San Leandro
88
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81
San Luis
74
Garfield
87
Salt Lake
81
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74
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87
Springville
81
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74
Honolulu
87
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81
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73
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87
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73
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87
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81
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73
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81
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72
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86
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81
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71
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86
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80
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86
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80
London
71
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86
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80
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71
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86
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80
Lyman
71
Taber
85
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80
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70
Nebo
85
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80
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70
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85
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80
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70
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85
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80
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70
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85
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80
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70
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85
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80
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70
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85
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80
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69
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84
Oneida
80
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69
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84
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79
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68
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79
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67
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84
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79
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84
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61
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78
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78
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43
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FROM THE FIELD
General Secretary-Treasurer HuJda Parker
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for ''Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Hnndhook of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by President Alvin R. Dyer
SINGING MOTHERS OF THE EUROPEAN AND WEST EUROPEAN
MISSIONS PRESENT MUSIC FOR LATTER-DAY SAINT SERVICEMEN'S
CONFERENCE, BERCHTESGADEN, GERMANY, November 1961
Front row, seated, left to right (in dark dresses) : Gloria Wright, organist; Doris
Allen, Relief Society supervisor of the European Mission Servicemen's Board; Marjorie
Updegrove, chorister.
Elder Alvin R. Dyer, former President of the European Mission reports: "This
conference not only featured general sessions, where we had the largest attendance that
has ever been accomplished at a servicemen's conference in Europe, but it also fea-
tured departmental sessions, including a Relief Society leadership meeting. ,At this
meeting there were 140 wives of Latter-day Saint servicemen in attendance. These
represented most of the missions of Europe where United States servicemen are sta-
tioned, the greatest number of which were from the West and South German Missions,
with other representatives from the French, Swiss, Berlin, Netherlands, North German,
and British. Missions. This particular session of conference was under the direction
of Sister Doris Allen, who is the Relief Society supervisor of the European Mission
Servicemen's Board. Sister Allen had collaborated with Sister Dyer in arranging a
program and providing information with mimeographed material being given to each
sister concerning the Relief Society program of the Church. Particular attention was
given to the preparation of the annual report, and stress was placed on reaching more
of the servicemen's wives, including their participation in the Relief Society program."
Page 384
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
385
Photograph submitted by Dicie Maud S. Godfrey
PIONEER STAKE (SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, November 1961
Vondra Dipo, chorister, stands at the right, and Edna Willis, organist, is seated
at the piano.
Dicie Maud S. Godfrey is president of Pioneer Stake Relief Society.
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BEAVER STAKE (UTAH), MILFORD SECOND WARD RELIEF SOCIETY
OPENING SOCIAL 'TURN BACK THE PAGES OF HISTORY"
October 3, 1961
Left to right: Vilate Lang, President; Afton Petty; Leora McCulley; Erma Niel-
sen; Leila Martin; Florence Myers; Aldean Jones; Margery Sherwood; Arleen Clark; Ethel
Neilson.
Kathleen S. Farnsworth, former president, Beaver Stake Relief Society, reports:
'The Milford Second Ward held a unique and very effective opening social October 3,
1961. Turn Back the Pages of History,' a fashion show depicting the beautiful cos-
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tumes in several periods of time, from the organization of Relief Society to the present,
was effectively presented. Several young sisters, new members of Relief Society, mod-
eled costumes which were treasures of bygone days. The original script was read by
Aldean M. Jones. Delightful songs, appropriate to the time, were sung by the par-
ticipants. Unusual interest was created, new sisters brought into activity, and a delight-
ful time was enjoyed by the large group present. Refreshments were served from a
beautifully arranged table.
''To assist Beaver Stake with our membership drive, 'Every Latter-day Saint Woman
of Beaver Stake an Active Relief Society Member,' our chorister Ireta M. Baker com-
posed a song which goes to the tune of the 'Battle Hymn of the Republic' Wt
introduced it at our leadership meeting. It went over well, and all ward workers
were enthusiastic about the campaign for increased membership."
Lucille A. Murdock is the new president of Beaver Stake Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Dawn C. Hanks
SAMOAN MISSION, PESEGA SECOND BRANCH, APIA DISTRICT RELIEF
SOCIETY, SERVES MORNING REFRESHMENTS TO "PACIFIC WOMEN'S
INTEREST SEMINAR," September 16, 1961
Dawn C. Hanks, President, Samoan Misson Relief Society, reports: "The picture
shows some of the members of the Pesega Second Branch Relief Society of Apia
District. On September 16, 1961, the two Pesega Branch Relief Societies were hostesses
to the Pacific Wopien's Interest Seminar which ^^•as meeting in Western Samoa. In-
cluded were delegates from all the islands of the Pacific, Australia, and the United
Nations. About fifty visitors enjoyed the demonstrations of sewing and cooking and
the work meeting activities shown in the homemaking booklets now in use in the
Samoan branch Relief Societies. Many of these booklets were purchased by the dele-
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
387
gates. After visiting the opening exercises of the Pesega Second Branch Primary, and
being served morning refreshments by the Rehef Society women, Pesega First Branch
demonstrated the sewing of shirts, shorts, muumuus, beadwork, weaving of fans, and
block printing of dress materials. Pesega Second Branch demonstrated the cooking of
pineapple and mango jam, deep fried taro balls, and cakes. Pictured here is the stove
made from a gasoline drum which the Relief Society is encouraging, rather than cook-
ing over an open fire, as is the custom generally in Samoa. Display tables, showing
materials used for Primary, MIA, and Relief Society aided the misson board members
in presenting briefly an over-all view of the Church program. A tour of the Pesega
chapel, school, and mission home completed the morning's activities. Though the time
was short and filled with activity, we felt that the visitors received a good idea of what
the Church is doing for the women of Samoa."
Photograph submitted by Verny J. Olson
SOUTH SALT LAKE STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
MUSIC FOR CHAPEL DEDICATION
September lo, 1961
Front row, seated, left to right: First Counselor Lydia Y. Burrows; Second Coun-
selor Elda D. Miller; President Verny J. Olson; chorister Reva A. Davenport.
Mary H. Jensen, organist, is seated at the piano.
Verny J. Olson, President, South Salt Lake Stake Relief Society, reports: "We
feel that our Singing Mothers were signally honored by being invited to present the
music for the dedication of the 'Chapel by the Wayside' at Utah State Prison, said
to be one of the most beautiful prison chapels in the United States. Fifty Singing
Mothers sang The Lord's Prayer,' by Gates. After the dedicatory prayer by President
Hugh B. Brown, Counselor in the First Presidency, the Singing Mothers sang 'Bless
This House.' Much praise was given for the beauty of these renditions. We are proud
of our Singing Mothers and our chorister and organist. Much of the success of this
group is due to the exceptional talents, the untiring efforts, and faithful services of
these two sisters."
388
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY, 1962
Photograph submitted by Clara S. Roberts
SOUTH SEVIER STAKE (UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC
FOR QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, September lo, 1961
Seated, front center: Jennie O. Wingate, acting chorister.
Seated at piano: Elizabeth S. Staples, organist.
Standing, third from the left on tl>e back row: Clara S. Roberts, President, South
Se\ier Stake Relief Society.
Front row, seated, third from the right: Bernice W. Wade, First Counselor.
Sister Roberts reports: "These Singing Mothers presented four lovely numbers
for our stake quarterly conference sessions. We are thankful for this privilege, and
feel that our testimonies were strengthened by this experience."
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NORTH SANPETE STAKE SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR
MANY OCCASIONS
Organist Rhoda Drage stands at the left of the piano in the front row; Ethel
Porter, who was organist for five years, with the late chorister Opal Hermansen, stands
sixth from the left in the front row; Ethel Ericksen, special accompanist for many years,
stands at the right of the piano; Louise B. Johansen, President, North Sanpete Stake
Relief Society, stands fifth from the right of the organ in the front row.
NOTES FROM THE FIELD
389
Sister Johansen reports: "The North Sanpete Stake ReHef Society Singing Mothers
are actively engaged in singing for many occasions. They were invited to sing at the
Moroni Stake conference last spring, and in our own stake in September. They also
participated in the N'isiting Teacher Convention in September, where the goal of 'Every
Sister a Member of Relief Society in 1962' was introduced. They plan to sing at the
Stake Day party to be held in the Relief Society Building in June 1962. They have
sung at several funerals, including the services for stake chorister Opal Hermansen who
passed away in February 1962, and who had served faithfully as stake chorister for
se\enteen years."
Photograph submitted by Virginia N. Myers
CALGARY STAKE (CANADA), CALGARY FIRST WARD BAZAAR
September 14, 1961
Seated at the right: Lenore Heninger, President, and Lavonne Howden, Work
Director Counselor.
Standing, left to right: Geraldine Johnston; Valerie Hanson, social science class
leader; Lucille Brett; Beth Olson, Secretar}^; Edith Kutch; Aline Kelm; Jean Meyer;
Cleo Bilton, work meeting leader; Meridee Smith; Patricia Hellier; Myrna Pitcher, Em-
ployment Counselor.
Virginia N. Myers, President, Calgary Stake Relief Society, reports: "This bazaar
and tour of homes has become an annual fall event, and both work successfully to-
gether in raising funds for Relief Society and the \\^elfare project. This year our bazaar
featured aprons and quilts (as shown in the picture), house plants, recipe books, candy,
and home baking, specializing in homemade bread. The sisters in the picture, 3S well
as other sisters of the ward not in the picture, worked diligently to make the day a
success."
390
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— MAY, 1962
Photograph submitted by Ann Packer Lloyd
BANNOCK STAKE (IDAHO) RELIEF SOCIETY OFFICERS RELEASED AND
HONORED AT A DINNER AND PROGRAM, July 17, 1961
Front row, seated, left to right, former stake board officers: Mildred W. Burton,
First Counselor; Edith W. Hubbard, President; Delia T. Mendenhall, Second Counselor.
Back row, standing, left to right: Alice Clegg; Ida Sorenson; Delia Whitehead,
Secretary-Treasurer.
Ann Packer Lloyd, President of Bannock Stake Relief Society, reports that these
faithful officers had served ten years and four months at the time of their release.
"Sister Hubbard had served a period of more than thirty-one years of continuous serv-
ice on the stake board. It is estimated that these six sisters had given a total of 109 years
continuous service in the organization. A great love for them is felt through all of
Bannock Stake. On July 17, 1961, a dinner and program were given in their honor
by the new Relief Society Stake Board. A cake, made and decorated by Irene Young,
a former board member who had served with Sister Hubbard, was in the form of an
open book with the sisters' names listed on one side, and 'Bannock Stake Relief Society'
listed on the other. The new Relief Society officers are: Ann Packer Lloyd, Vera
Roper, First Counselor; Sybil McGregor, Second Counselor; June O. Christensen,
Secretary-Treasurer; Shirley Hubbard, Geraldine Forbush, Erma Hogan, Etheleen An-
dreasen, Barbara Panter, Winona Lowe, lona Thomas, and Clara Christensen."
Your Pre-Schoo
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Janet W. Breeze
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Seeking
Catherine B. Bowles
To reach a haven of peace and right,
Seekers have a candle bright
To see in corners where the light
Brings hope in the darkest night.
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This House Is Heritage
(The Lion House, Salt Lake City, Utah)
Alberta H. Chiistensen
This house is more than stairway, floor, and hall,
Roof of many gables, windows dormer-quaint —
This house is heritage. Awakened memories return
Autumn sun on quartered apples, drying.
The rhythmic spinning wheel and loom.
Corn-meal mush, the jellied canyon berries,
Skimming the cream for a wooden churn;
For washday clothes in the iron caldron —
Indigo bluing and potato starch.
Firewood ashes, the pounding-dolly;
And a prismed lamp for the sitting room.
This heirloom house is made of dreams —
Flowers fashioned from a loved one's hair
Hung on that wall, beyond the stair
A child remembered in an oval frame.
And warm as laughter, the friendships built
By thimbled fingers on a namesake quilt.
Remembrance lingers, like the evening prayer.
Upon the mellowed rosewood of a chair.
Around the Bible, worn, though leather-bound.
On hymn, commandment, and love's whispered vow.
This house is heritage —
Symbol . . . dream . . . and remembered sound.
The Cover: Scene in Bruges, Belgium
Color Transparency by Josef Muench
Frontispiece: The Lion House, Salt Lake City, Utah
Photograph by Hal Rumel
Cover Design by Evan Jensen
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From Near and Far
Although I have been a member of the
Church for over two years, I have never
before written to express my appreciation
for our inspiring Magazine. It has meant
much to me and has helped to make
Relief Society ver}' dear to my heart. If
only every woman could realize the im-
portance of regular attendance at Relief
Society, the happiness, strength, knowl-
edge, and spiritual growth one can gain.
— Mrs. W. R. Deputy
Whittier, California
For many years I have enjoyed The Ke-
liei Society Magazine — the inspirational
lessons, the uplifting poems and stories. I
have especially appreciated the serial "Sow
the Field With Roses," by Margery S.
Stewart (concluded in June 1962 ) . I looked
forward each month to another chapter
because the story was so well written.
— Mrs. Ivinetta R. Oliver
Albany, New York
I think I read the first copy of The
Relief Society Magazine, and have been a
constant reader ever since, always finding
something written especially for me. I
can't remember the numerous times my
spirits have been lifted or my problems
have been solved by the inspiration I re-
ceived. The joy I get from the beautiful
new covers is worth the subscription price
several times over.
— Vilate R. McAllister
Salt Lake City, Utah
I am very grateful to my mother for
sending me a year's subscription to The
Relief Society Magazine each year at
Christmas time. I am a young mother
with five small children, so there is always
much to do. I feel that the time I use
in reading the Magazine inspires me to be
a better wife, mother, and neighbor. My
husband teaches school, and he enjoys
the Magazine as I do. I hope that all
Latter-day Saint mothers will realize the
importance of the Magazine in their
homes.
— Ethelyn H. Peterson
Las Vegas, Nevada
The April issue of The Relief Society
Magazine arrived today. It is beautiful.
May I offer my congratulations for such
an array of lovely articles and stories, poems
and recipes. I like the introduction of
color you have been using to highlight the
titles. It makes each page clamor to be
read. The Magazine is rapidly becoming a
work of art in arrangement and style,
appealing to our artistic senses, as well as
to our intellectual needs. All of this love-
ly work enhances the spiritual quality of
the Magazine.
— Marion Pinkston
President
Los Angeles Stake
Relief Society
For the past ten months I have received
The Relief Society Magazine through the
generosity of Mrs. S. Lichfield of Ogden,
Utah. I feel that I must compliment you
on the excellence of its contents. The
quality is consistently good — helpful and
inspiring.
— Mrs. E. Hawkes
Gosforth
Newcastle Upon Tyne
England
A few years ago my daughter Rosalie
added the wonderful Rehei Society Maga-
zine as part of my birthday gift, and each
year she has renewed the subscription for
me. We haven't been able to keep our
Relief Society meetings going in this
small town, but the Magazine is very dear
to me, and I love to read it from cover
to cover.
— Mrs. Rose R. Stokes
Promontory, Utah
The Relief Society Magazine is a most
gratifying addition to my many periodicals
that keep me alert, but with all its worth
and uplift, it has a blessed repose that
makes one choose it from among thrills
and excitement of our current trend.
— Bertha A. Kleinman
Mesa, Arizona
Page 394
THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford --------- President
Marianne C. Sharp - - - _ - - First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen ------- Second Counselor
Hulda Parker ._------ Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Alberta H. Christensen Mary R. Young Elizabeth B. Winters
Edith S. Elliott Mildred B. Eyring Mary V. Cameron LaRue H. Rosell
Florence J. Madsen Charlotte A. Larsen Alton W. Hunt Jennie R. Scott
Leone G. Layton Edith P. Backman Wealtha S. Mendenhall Alice L. Wilkinson
Blanch B. Stoddard Winniefred S. Pearle M. Olsen LaPriel S. Bunker
Evon W. Peterson Manwaring Elsa T. Peterson Irene W. Buehner
Aleine M. Young Elna P. Haymond Irene B. Woodford Irene C. Lloyd
Josie B. Bay Annie M. Ellsworth Fanny S. Kienitz Hazel S. Cannon
Hazel S. Love
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor ------_---.--_ Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor ------------ Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager --- --. Belle S. Spafford
VOL 49 JUNE 1962 NO. 6
Contents
SPECIAL FEATURES
A Tribute to Emma Ray McKay Christine H. Robinson 396
The Blessings of Family Unity Irene W. Buehner 401
In Memoriam — Elder George Q. Morris 408
She Knew the Prophet Joseph Smith — Part III — Bathsheba W. Smith
Preston Nibley 410
Annual Report for 1961 Hulda Parker 428
FICTION
Hand to the Plow — Part II Ilene H. Kingsbury 412
To You With Love Betty Lou Martin 420
Sow the Field With Roses — Chapter 6 (Conclusion) Margery S. Stewart 442
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 394
Sixty Years Ago 416
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 417
Editorial: The 132d Annual Church Conference 418
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 449
Birthday Congratulations 472
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Recipes for a Brunch Linnie Fisher Robinson 426
Toddler's Cover-Apron Shirley Thulin 438
Alma Anderson — Specialist With Needle and Crochet Hook 440
Leftover Disguises Janet W. Breeze 441
Pie-Tin Therapy Pauline L. Jensen 446
Peace in a Troubled World Ruth L. Jones 448
LESSON DEPARTMENT — PREVIEWS FOR 1962-63
Audio-Visual Teaching Materials for the 1962-1963 Lessons Alice L. Wilkinson 456
Theology — The Doctrine and Covenants Roy W. Doxey 459
Visiting Teacher Messages — Truths to Live By From The Doctrine
and Covenants Christine H. Robinson 461
Work Meeting — The Latter-day Saint Home Virginia F. Cutler 462
Literature — America's Literature Briant S. Jacobs 464
Social Science — Divine Law and Church Government Ariel S. Ballif 466
Notes on the Authors of the Lessons 468
POETRY
This House Is Heritage — Frontispiece Alberta H. Christensen 393
View From the Trees, by Lucille R. Perry, 400; I Know a Thing, by Ida Elaine James, 415;
June and the Rose, by Dorothy J. Roberts, 424; Before the Word Goes Forth, by Mabel Jones
Gabbott, 425; Bonus Prize, by Viola Ashton Candland, 427; Narrow Valley, by Zara Sabin, 439;
Morning Song, by Leora Larsen, 445; Memories of Home, by Geneva H. Williams, 469; Navi-
gator, by Rose Thomas Graham, 470; Trees of Mystery by Lela Foster Morris, 471; I Pity the
Child, by Christie Lund Coles, 472.
PUBLISHED MONTHLY BY THE GENERAL BOARD OF RELIEF SOCIETY OF THE
CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS
Copyright 1962 by the Relief Society General Board Association
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Page 395
A Tribute to Emma Ray McKay
Chiistine H. Robinson
Member, Adult Committee of the Church Co-ordinating Council
HE most fortunate day
in his life, according to
President David O. Mc-
Kay, was June 23, 1877.
This was the birthday of Emma Ray
Riggs, who, on January 2, 1901, be-
came his \^'ife and loving companion
for this life and throughout the
eternities. For eighty-five years,
Sister McKay has lived an exemplary
life rich in human service, love, de-
votion and high accomplishment.
On her eighty-fifth birthday, the
Relief Society is honored to pay
tribute to this noble woman — a
personal tribute that comes from
each of the Society's 231,175 mem-
bers all over the world.
The life of Emma Ray McKay
portrays in every detail the highest
ideals and aspirations of Relief So-
ciety as they have been taught and
practiced since its origin. The
Prophet Joseph Smith, when he
organized the society in 1842,
charged the sisters to ''enlarge your
souls towards each other. . . . Let
kindness, charity and love crown
your works ... be armed with
mercy, pure in heart."
Sister McKay's life is a living
example in action of the applications
of this charge. In her quiet, friend-
ly, and efficient way, this remarkable
woman has practiced benevolence,
charity, love, kindness, and consider-
ation, and she has fostered the high-
est ideals among women. In fact,
Opposite page: Emma Ray Riggs at sixteen years of age, about the time she first met
President McKay.
Page 396
her life has exemplified those wom-
anly virtues heralded by Solomon
when he described the qualities of
a noble woman. He said, "Strength
and honour are her clothing. . . . She
openeth her mouth with wisdom;
and in her tongue is the law of
kindness. She looketh well to the
ways of her household, and eateth
not the bread of idleness. Her chil-
dren arise up, and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praiseth
her . . . her own works praise her"
(Proverbs 31:25-28, 31).
Someone has said that greatness
consists of doing common things un-
commonly well. In all of her out-
standing accomplishments. Sister
McKay has had this uncommon
touch. She has been a devoted and
loving mother who has reared her
children with kindness and under-
standing in righteousness. Her chil-
dren can never remember when she
tolerated the smallest "white lie"
or untruth. She insisted that they
be truthful, even on April Fool's
Day. In rearing her children, not
one of them can ever remember
hearing her raise her voice in anger.
Sister McKay has been a firm
believer and a consistent practicer of
the principle of praise. Throughout
her life, she has drawn people close
to her by concentrating on their
good points rather than upon the
bad. The application of this funda-
mental principle of human behavior
398 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JUNE 1962
is indicated in this story which her Sister McKay were standing in front
children enjoy relating. After her of Buckingham Palace in London, a
graduation from college and before bystander approached them and re-
her marriage, Emma Ray Riggs marked: '1 hope you are having an
taught school for a short time. In enjoyable time on your honeymoon,
introducing her to the class, the It is easy to tell that you have only
principal pointed to a twelve-year- recently been married." This unin-
old boy and said, ''You'll have to tended compliment shows how vis-
watch out for this youngster. He's ible the tender love and admiration,
the worst boy in school.'' which had grown in this remarkable
After the principal had left the couple for more than fifty years,
room, the young teacher immediate- sparkled through their loving counte-
ly wrote a note which read, ''Earl, I nances.
think the principal was mistaken Since the time when the children
about you. I trust you and know no longer needed her immediate
you are going to help me make this motherly supervision. Sister McKay
room the best in the school." She has been by the side of her husband
then walked down the aisle and as he has traveled about the Church
slipped the note to the boy without on his important responsibilities,
anyone noticing. As he read it she Through these world-wide contacts,
saw his face light up. Earl became Sister McKay has exerted an endur-
one of the best behaved boys in the ing, beneficial influence on people
class. everywhere — particularly upon the
In her loving devotion to her women of the Church. Through
husband, Sister McKay has set an these contacts, she has made a tre-
example and maintained a relation- mendous contribution toward foster-
ship which, in President McKay's ing world-wide sisterhood. In count-
own words, "have crowned her as less personal conversations and in
the sweetest, most helpful, most de- her many talks to Church groups,
voted sweetheart and wife that ever she has given practical instructions
inspired a man to noble endeavor." on how to build better, happier, and
more peaceful homes. She has
/^N birthdays, Mother's Days, helped women of foreign lands ob-
Christmases, and wedding anni- tain a better understanding of the
versaries. President McKay has paid home life of women in the valleys
special written tribute to his won- of the mountains. On her return
derful companion. On their thirty- home, she has been untiring in her
third wedding anniversary, for ex- efforts to inform Utah Relief Society
ample, he said, "Her education has women about the problems and suc-
enabled her to be a true helpmate; cesses of women abroad. This has
her congeniality and interest in my helped immeasurably to develop
work, a pleasing companion; her closer bonds of love, appreciation,
charm and unselfishness, a lifelong and true sisterhood everywhere,
sweetheart; her unbounded patience In addition to her many other
and intelligent insight into child- contributions, Emma Ray McKay
hood, a most devoted mother." has been a devoted worker in Relief
Recently, when President and Society and has always had a deep
A TRIBUTE TO EMMA RAY McKAY
399
EMMA RAY RIGGS McKAY
Picture taken on her eighty-fourth birthday, June 23, 1961
love for this divinely inspired w^om-
an's organization. Soon after her
marriage, she was called to be presi-
dent of the Ogden Fourth Ward Re-
lief Society. At that time the ward
society's membership consisted of
twelve women. Determined to make
a success of her calling, Sister
McKay, frequently, would bundle
her baby into his carriage and set
out to visit personally the sisters in
the ward. Through this personal
contact the membership soon grew
from twelve to ninety enthusiastic
sisters. A ward Relief Society presi-
dent had a very real responsibility
for the temporal well-being of the
members and their families. Sister
McKay discharged this responsibility
with loving watch care. A daughter
tells of her mother bringing needy
children into her home, of dressing
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them in clean clothes, and feeding
them warm, nourishing food.
Sister McKay was soon called to
be first counselor in the Ogden Stake
Relief Society. Later, when the fam-
ily moved to Salt Lake, she became
first counselor in the Salt Lake Stake
Relief Society. In 1922-24, when
President McKay was called to pre-
side over the European Missions,
Sister McKay was set apart as presi-
dent of all the Relief Societies and
as head of all of the Church aux-
iliaries on the European continent.
Each of these important positions
she filled with honor and distinction.
Throughout her full and fruitful
life, Emma Ray McKay has been a
shining example of womanhood in
its highest and noblest form. In
motherhood, in love and devotion
to her husband, in good citizenship,
in her true friendliness and personal
refinement, in her wholesome sense
of humor, and in her interest and
concern for others. Sister McKay
has set an example for each of us
to follow. To know her is to love
her.
On her eighty-fifth birthday, we
pray that the Lord's choicest bless-
ings will continue with her now and
forever.
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View from the Trees
Lucille R. Perry
Here in the aspen grove is kindly shade,
Parting the sun's warmth with its cool eclipse.
And where the fallen trees lie, a branch has made
A place to rest. No fleet of silent ships
Has rocked on greener seas than where these
Inert giants ride the swells of grass.
On gold and white of flower foam they cease
To resist the urgent tides of days that pass.
And I would stay here in this safe retreat.
Leaning where white bark encircles strength.
If the meadow had no paths to bewitch the feet,
Or eyes not see, mind fail to know the length
Of redolent fields to those far purple slopes,
Shod in winged sandals of fair hopes.
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The Blessings of Family Unify
Irene W. Buehnei
For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife
and they twain shall be one flesh. Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh
(Mt. 19:5-6).
HNE of the nicest things
about marriage is acquir-
ing membership in a new
family. This does not
take the place of your own fam-
ily, but merely enlarges your sphere
of affection. If married couples
are *'no more twain, but one
flesh/' as the Lord intended, we
should accept and love all those who
enter our families through marriage
as our very own. With this new
membership, comes the responsibil-
ity of fitting into the established
family pattern. This is made so
much easier if one is welcomed into
the family with warmth and love.
When members of the family de-
velop a genuine fondness for one
another, they are well on their way
toward family unity.
The Buehner family has tried to
accomplish this family unity. Per-
haps a glimpse into the lives of
Grandpa and Grandma Buehner will
reveal how well they have succeeded.
When the Latter-day Saint mis-
sionaries knocked on the door of the
Carl F. Buehner home in Stuttgart,
Germany, in the year 1899, they
found a devoted young couple who
listened to their words. It is the
spirit that converts people to th^
gospel, and as a family we shall
always be grateful to the missionaries
who kindled that spirit within
Grandma and Grandpa Buehner.
They were baptized into the Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
on October 31, 1899. In the spring
of 1901, Carl F. Buehner, his young
wife Anna Bertha, and their two
infant sons, Carl, age two, and Otto,
a babe in arms, emigrated to Salt
Lake Citv, Utah.
Their story is the story of hun-
dreds of converts to the Church who
at that time felt the urgency to come
to Zion to establish a home close to
a temple of our Heavenly Father.
What a sad day it must have been
for these people to leave father,
mother, and dear ones behind and
embark for a new world. It is diffi-
cult for those of us who have not
experienced this to understand what
their feelings must have been. I am
always pained when I see an up-
rooted tree, with its bare root fibers
exposed to the ravages of drying sun
and wind, but there is comfort and
hope when we find a young tree
transplanted in a new environment
where it will receive plenty of water
and sunshine to make it fruitful.
The Buehners found their new
environment fruitful and a land
of opportunity. The people in this
new land were kind and helpful.
However, there were problems to
overcome, and there were difficult
times ahead. Grandpa Buehner
worked hard to support his family
and establish a home. The language
was difficult tO' learn. They studied
and lived the gospel principles, and
on March 18, 1903, they were en-
dowed and sealed for all eternity in
the Salt Lake Temple.
Page 401
402
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JUNE 1962
THE CARL F. BUEHNER FAMILY
Photograph taken in Stuttgart, Germany, just before the family left their native
land for a new home in America.
Standing: Carl F. Buehner; seated: Anna Bertha Geigle Buehner; children, left
to right: Carl W. Buehner, age two; Otto Buehner, age six months.
/^ RANDPA Buehner purchased
property in the Forest Dale
area near what was then known as
Brigham Youngs farmhouse. With
his own hands, he built a large two-
story, gray stone house for his fam-
ily. Most of the Buehner children
were born in that house, which was
to be the home of the parents as
long as they lived.
Ele\ en children were born to this
couple, eight sons and three daugh-
ters. The first three children were
born in Germany, a daughter Frida,
who died soon after birth, Carl W.,
and Otto. Walter, Adolph, John A.,
Philip H., Paul, Bertha, Clarence,
and Helen were born in America.
Walter and Adolph died in their
youth. In a family of boys, you
can imagine how welcome those two
little girls were. Helen remembers
receiving a card from her father,
written in his best English, when he
THE BLESSINGS OF FAMILY UNITY
403
was on a trip east, which said,
'There isn't a httle girl in all New
York who is as sweet as you. Your
loving Daddy."
Grandpa Buehner had a firm, un-
wavering testimony of the truthful-
ness of the gospel. An old friend of
his wrote a letter to my husband in
which he stated: 'Tou had the best
father anyone could ask for. He was
the same every day, six days a week."
All of his children can remember
Grandpa Buehner testifying of his
knowledge that the gospel was true
and that prayers are answered. He
literally led the way to Church for
all of his family, usually a pace or so
ahead of his beloved wife and the
children. They sat in the same place
every Sunday at meeting.
The Buehner home was an old-
fashioned home. Making bread and
milking cows were regular proce-
dures. Early to bed and early to rise
was expected by the parents and ac-
cepted by the children. The boys
worked as soon as they were able to
hold a trowel steady. The girls were
taught to cook, darn, mend, and sew.
Every Buehner daughter-in-law re-
members when she was married
finding the shoe boxes of socks in
her husband's wardrobe. Each stock-
ing was neatly initialed, darned in
innumerable places, and rolled care-
fully in place. Waste and extrava-
gance were never tolerated.
The family home was like a mag-
net which drew all the family and
their friends to it. The boys always
brought their girl friends home to
meet the familv, usually on Sunday
evening after sacrament meeting. At
first I thought the purpose was to
give the girls the opportunity of
meeting the family, but later I rea-
lized the reverse was true. The bovs
wanted the family's approval of their
choice. Grandma Buehner served
delicious sandwiches, made with
homemade bread, and plenty of
good milk. Frequently there were
tasty apple cottage cheese pies, too,
which were kept in a wide drawer in
the kitchen table. Many times some
of their German friends would call
on them also. One I remember in
particular played a bandonion.
Whenever Brother Laubengaier
came, Grandpa Buehner would
bring his smaller bandonion out of
its hiding place and join in playing
beautiful hymns and Strauss waltzes.
There was such a wonderful warm
feeling in the home that every new-
comer felt welcome and wanted.
/GRANDPA and Grandma Bueh-
ner seemed to accept whole-
heartedly the girls their sons chose
to marry. Their affection for each
of us seemed to be just as deep as
for their own children. As a result,
the entire family followed the pat-
tern of acceptance which the par-
ents manifested toward us. Their
primary concern was for the chil-
dren to have temple marriages and
all of them had this privilege.
Each Buehner brother and sister
is vitallv interested in the other's
welfare in a subtle and unobtrusive
way. One incident that was not
quite so unobtrusive happened at
the time John Buehner gave his
diamond ring to Verda. John had
sought what he thought was a less
''trafficked" area as the place to
propose marriage. He had just
placed the ring on Verda's signifi-
cant finger, when brother Paul burst
into the room to borrow a tie. He
grasped the situation at a glance
and hastily kissed Verda in brother-
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THE BUEHNER HOME, SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH
This two-story gray stone home was built by "Grandpa" Carl F. Biiehner, with his
own hands, and has been the center of family activity for many years.
Seated on the step, left to right: Bertha Buehner Lambert; Paul Buehner; Clarence
Buehner; Helen Buehner Woods.
Standing, left to right: John A. Buehner; ''Grandma" Anna Bertha Geigle Buehner;
"Grandpa" Carl F. Buehner; Philip H. Buehner,
ly welcome before John had a
chance.
There is a pronounced strain of
good humor in all the Buehners.
This was a delightful characteristic
of Grandpa Buehner. I remember
hearing him describe hard times by
saying, ''The bread was cut so thin
we could read the newspaper
through it."
My earliest recollection of the
Buehner family was hearing of their
athletic prowess. The name Bueh-
ner was posted prominently on high
school and Church tournament
scoreboards. The family enjoys tell-
ing the story of Grandpa Buehner's
first football game. In spite of the
fact that his sons had been so active
in sports in their school years, their
THE BLESSINGS OF FAMILY UNITY
405
father had showed httle interest. He
had never seen a game. Otto finally
persuaded him to go with him to
see this particular one, because John
was expected to star. Otto had ex-
plained the rudiments of the game
to his father. On the first play John
caught a beautiful pass and ran
through the opponent's defense to-
ward the goal. Suddenly, just short
of the goal line, he turned to check
his pursuers, stumbled on the rough
turf, and fell. Grandpa Buehner
rose to his feet with his arms flying
in the air, directing John in loud
terms to, ''Go on, Johann, go on!"
His interest in the boy's athletic
activities was vocal and vehement
after that experience.
npHE living room of the Buehner
home was the hub of all the
familv activities. A round dining-
room table stood in the center, over
which hung a large bright light,
excellent for studying. There were
large comfortable chairs and e\'en
a leather sofa in this room, which
was dining and living room com-
bined, a forerunner of our modern
family rooms, without the distrac-
tion of television or radio. I remem-
ber once walking into this room to
find Grandpa Buehner sitting in the
large red leather rocker. Lucile,
Carl's wife, was sitting on a little
stool at his feet asking his opinion
on problems of child rearing. It
was a pleasant sight, and I had the
feeling that Lucile gathered great
strength from the simple direct com
ments of Grandpa Buehner. You
were never interrupting anything
when you walked into this room,
because conversation went on and
you were brought right into it.
As the children grew up, there
was seldom a vear when one of the
boys was not serving in the mission
field. The four oldest boys com-
pleted their missions before the
death of their parents. With so
manv other children at home, this
might have been considered a sacri-
THE BUEHNER FAMILY GROUP
Seated, left to right: Lucile Thurman Buehner; Irene Williams Buehner; Marjorie
E\'ans Buehner; Berda Crouch Buehner; Bertha Buehner Lambert; Kay Yaeger Buehner;
Helen Buehner W'oods.
Standing, left to right: Carl W. Buehner; Paul Buehner; Philip H. Buehner; John
A. Buehner; Q. Cannon Lambert; Clarence Buehner; Roger S. Woods.
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fice, but not to Grandma and Grand-
pa Buehner. For them it was the
fulfillment of one of their fondest
dreams, and they always felt it was
a great blessing in their home to
have a son in the missionary service.
Several Buehner children were in
the university at the same time.
Each one had to manage to finance
himself, because work was hard to
find and the family income was lim-
ited during the depression years.
One winter the family subsisted on
a large sack of split peas which
Grandpa Buehner had received in
place of money for work he had
done. The boys worked wherever
they could find work to be done.
Many times they parked cars for the
patrons at the university functions
for a dollar a night.
Some of the Buehners were re-
sponsible for making out the pay-
rolls for all the students working on
these projects. Twice a month the
dining room table in the Buehner
home was the gathering place for
carrying out this detail. Grandma
Buehner never objected to the nu-
merous and varied activities which
her children and their friends
brought into the house. In her quiet,
sweet way she made all who came
feel welcome.
"DIRTHDAYS and Christmas time
were always remembered with
some special something for each one.
Money was not plentiful for them,
and today the children cannot even
imagine how their mother managed
so well.
Grandma Buehner passed away
July 19, 1935, quite suddenly, fol-
lowing surgery. She was only sixty-
one years old. Grandpa Buehner
was so lonely without his loyal com-
panion. I remember very well, he
put his hand to his chest and said,
''Irene, my heart is broken.'' Noth-
ing seemed to assuage his grief. Four
months later he followed his beloved
wife in death.
The children all felt the responsi-
bility of holding the family together.
Grandpa Buehner had been indeed
the head of his household and had
set a fine example for them to fol-
low. They realized that one of the
things which holds a family to-
gether is to do things together.
The home was remodeled to ac-
commodate the John Buehner fam-
ily in the basement, the Paul Bueh-
ner family in the upstairs apartment,
and the ground floor housed the four
unmarried children, the youngest of
whom was eighteen. The two eldest
brothers, Carl and Otto, lived close
enough to drop in frequently to give
direction and counsel when prob-
lems arose. Plans were made to
hold an annual Christmas family
party, and to celebrate the family
birthdays as far as possible. Gen-
ealogy work was promoted, and as
the names were cleared the family
did the endovmient work and fam-
ily sealings were arranged. Another
family project was helping the
youngest son finance his mission to
Germany. The depression of 1929
left its toll of doubts, debts, and
discouragements with the Bueh-
ners, as it did with so many families
at that time. Each brother had
gone his separate way trying to earn
a living for himself and those de-
pendent upon him. After death had
taken both mother and father, the
idea of re-establishing a business,
combining the talents of the six
brothers, was born anew.
The family felt a deep sense of
THE BLESSINGS OF FAMILY UNITY
407
humility when Carl W. was named
the bishop of Forest Dale Ward.
To be named the bishop of the very
ward in which his parents had lived,
reared their family, and spent such
happy years was a privilege.
T^HE plans for the double wedding
reception for the two girls was
a joyous family effort. Everyone
helped, and the rooms of the old
house once again were the scene of
happy family festivities.
The Christmas party for the
Buehner family which was started
twenty-six years ago has become a
wonderful tradition. We can no
longer meet in one of our homes
but have to hire a hall. The pro-
grams are always interesting because
they are furnished by members of
the family. There were over one
hundred Buehners at the party last
year.
Another occasion we all look for-
ward to is the July Fourth reunion
which is held in Big Cottonwood
Canyon where we can enjoy the
out-of-doors, hiking, and playing
games.
The children of Grandma and
Grandpa Buehner try to celebrate
each other's birthdays with a Ger-
man dinner, which is often a pot-
luck party, with each couple bring-
ing a dish of German food. These
are always so enjoyable we are re-
luctant to miss one of them. We
have noted with pleasure that the
Buehner ''cousins" are now finding
occasions for parties and temple ses-
sions.
I am grateful for the Buehner
family, and their acceptance of me
and the love we have for one an-
other. Each family is a source of
strength and comfort to every other
family. There is no spirit of com-
petition. Each one seems to be
trying to do his best to maintain
the high standards which their fa-
ther and mother set for them.
A wonderful legacy was left to the
family. Their children have a testi-
mony of the gospel. They were
taught to put the Church first in
their lives, to have family prayers,
and to stay close to one another. We
regret that most of the grandchil-
dren were not privileged to know
their Buehner grandparents. We all
pray constantly that our o\^iri chil-
dren will somehow feel their influ-
ence and be able to measure up to
the heritage which they made
possible for them.
In retrospect, the family solidarity
this family so much enjoys seems to
have come from the strength and
dedication of two wonderful people,
Grandma and Grandpa Buehner,
who loved the gospel above all else
and tried their best to live it.
A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a m^n of understanding shall
attain unto wise counsels. . . . My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake
not the law of thy mother: For they shall be an ornament of grace unto thy head
(Proverbs 1:5, 8-9).
In Memoriam-Elder George Q. Morris
February 20, 1874-April 25, 1962
ELDER GEORGE Q. MORRIS
ELDER George Q. Morris, a
member of the Council of
the Twelve, passed away in
Salt Lake City, Utah, April 23, 1962,
in his eighty-ninth year of age. He
had been an apostle since 1954, and
a devoted leader in the Church since
his early manhood. His earnest
faith, his knowledge of the prin-
ciples of the gospel, his natural
eloquence, and his simplicity of
spirit endeared him to thousands
throughout the Church and in the
communities where he has lived.
Endowed with a firm desire for
learning, for spiritual development,
and for service to his fellow men,
Elder Morris came to the Council
of the Twelve well fitted for his
Page 408
ministry as a special witness of Jesus
Christ.
Following his graduation from the
University of Utah in 1899, Elder
Morris spent three years as a mis-
sionary in the British Mission, serv-
ing in the Welsh Conference, the
homeland of some of his ancestors.
Later, he became presiding elder of
the London Conference. In 1904,
Elder Morris began his long career
and association with the Young
Men's Mutual Improvement As-
sociation, as superintendent in the
Salt Lake Stake. Later, he became
a bishop in the Fourteenth Ward.
In 1924 he was appointed a mem-
ber of the General Board of the
Young Men's Mutual Improvement
Association and was committee
chairman for the Improvement Era.
In 1928, he was called to be a
counselor in the Ensign Stake presi-
dency, and, until 1935, he served in
both capacities, in his stake assign-
ment and his calling in the MIA.
In 1935, Elder Morris was named a
counselor in the General Superin-
tendency of the MIA. He served
under the late Elder Albert E.
Bowen for two years, and when
Elder Bowen was called to the
Council of the Twelve, Elder Mor-
ris succeeded him as General Super-
intendent of the MIA, in 1937. He
held this position with honor and
distinction, devoting his great ener-
gy and his remarkable gifts of
leadership to the advancement of
the youth of the Church. In 1948,
Elder Morris was appointed Presi-
IN MEMORIAM — ELDER GEORGE Q. MORRIS
409
dent of the Eastern States Mission.
Three years later, at the October
Semi-Annual Conference of the
Church, Elder Morris was called to
be an Assistant to the Council of
the Twelve.
Elder Morris, always interested in
the historical heritage of the Lat-
ter-day Saints, served as executive
chairman of the ''This Is the Place"
momanrent commission. It was
under his charge that the great
monument was erected at the mouth
of Emigration Canyon, commem-
orating the arrival of the pioneers in
Salt Lake Valley. Elder Morris was
also active in association with Presi-
dent George Albert Smith and oth-
ers in marking and preserving Utah's
trails and landmarks, being executive
vice-president of the Utah Pioneer
Trails Association. He was also a
distinguished member of the Sons
of the Utah Pioneers Association,
lending his appreciative enthusiasm
and his wise direction to the many
projects and lasting accomplish-
ments of this organization. In 1946
and 1947, Elder Morris was associat-
ed with President David O. McKay
in preparing for the centennial
observance of the arrival of the first
pioneers in the promised valley.
Throughout his long and useful
life. Elder Morris exemplified in all
his devoted Church service, a great
knowledge and a consistent aware-
ness of the gospel as the continuing
pattern of eternal life.
Elder Morris married Emma
Ramsey in the Salt Lake Temple in
1905. They observed their golden
wedding anniversary in 1955.
Sister Morris and three daughters
and one granddaughter survive El-
der Morris. The daughters are Mrs.
Edward A. (Margery) Woods, Miss
Marion Morris, and Mrs. Roy T.
(Helen) Stewart.
The members of Relief Society
in all the stakes and missions of the
Church extend their love and sym-
pathy to the family of Elder Morris,
and join with the membership of
the Church in gratitude to our
Heavenly Father for the dedicated
and exemplary life of Elder Morris,
and for the example of his wisdom,
his kindness and devotion, his spirit-
ual guidance, and his lofty ideals.
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And now, my sons, remember, remember that it is upon the rock of our Redeemer,
who is Christ, the Son of God, that ye must build your foundation . . . which is a sure
foundation, a foundation whereon if men build they cannot fail (Helaman 5:12).
she Knew the Prophet Joseph Smith
PART lll-BATHSHEBA W. SMITH
Preston Nihley
Assistant Church Historian
THE PROPHET JOSEPH SMITH
From a painting made
by an unknown artist
]Vl
RS. Bathsheba W. Smith, who
was General President of the
Rehef Societies of the Church from
1901 to 1910, was well acquainted
with the Prophet Joseph Smith. She
was born at Shinnston, West Vir-
ginia, on May 3, 1822. She joined
the Church in August 1837, when
she was fifteen years of age. The
year following her baptism she went
with her parents to Missouri, and at
Quincy, Illinois, in the spring of
1839, ^^^ ^^w ^^^ Prophet for the
first time and heard him speak. In
1841 she was married to George A.
Smith, a cousin of the Prophet, and
Page 410
at that time the youngest of the
apostles. Sister Smith wrote the
following in 1905. She died in Salt
Lake City in 1910, the last one of
those faithful sisters present at the
first meeting of Relief Society in
1842.
'1 joined the Church in Harrison
County, West Virginia, in 1837. Not
long afterwards, in the fall of 1838,
I was very anxious to go to Mis-
souri. I told my sister I wanted to
go with her. She said, 'Oh no'; and
as there was only one wagon for the
family to travel in, she could not
take me. It hurt my feelings very
much and I commenced to cry.
When I went upstairs to bed a voice
said to me, 'Weep not; you will go
this fall.' I wiped my eyes and was
as happy as anybody you ever saw.
Next morning my sister said, Tou
have got over feeling so badly, be-
cause you could not go to Missouri.'
'But I am going this falF was my
reply. I felt just that sure about it.
That was the first time I felt the
whisperings of the voice of inspira-
tion to me, but it has come to me
since, in many of the worries and
perplexities of life and given me
assurance and peace.
"Father sold his farm in West
Virginia, and we moved to Missouri
in 1838. We went to Illinois in
February 1839, but did not see the
Prophet Joseph until the spring,
when he got out of prison and came
SHE KNEW THE PROPHET JOSEPH SMITH
411
to Illinois. A conference was called
soon after Joseph and his brethren
arrived at Quincy. My brother took
my sisters and me and went to that
conference, and there I saw Joseph
for the first time and heard him
speak. I knew he was a Prophet of
God, when I joined the Church,
before I saw him; my testimony was
strengthened when I heard him
preach, though at this time I did
not get to speak to him. I do not
remember when I did first speak to
him and shake hands with him.
'The Prophet was a handsome
man— splendid looking, a large man,
tall and fair. He had a very nice
complexion, his eyes were blue, and
his hair a golden brown.
''My first impressions were that he
was an extraordinary man— a man
of great penetration; he was differ-
ent from any other man I ever saw;
he had the most heavenly counte-
nance, was genial, affable and kind,
and looked the soul of honor and
integrity.
'1 have heard the Prophet Joseph
preach many a time. I have heard
him prophesy, and I never knew but
that everything came to pass that
he said.
"Joseph said we would come to
the Rocky Mountains, and he had a
companv of voung men selected to
hunt a location for a home for the
Saints. Samuel W. Richards was
one of that company. I heard of it
when we were in Illinois, and re-
member an old lady coming in and
talking to my mother, about what
Joseph the Prophet had said that we
would be in the Rocky Mountains
sometime. I said I would like to
go soon; I would like to get away
from our enemies. She gave me a
right good scolding, saying it was
terrible to think of going to the
Rocky Mountains.
"Joseph attended one of our Re-
lief Society meetings in the lodge
room. He opened the meeting by
prayer. His voice trembled very
much, after which he addressed us.
He said: 'According to my prayer I
will not be with you long to teach
and instruct you, and the world will
not be troubled with me much
longer.'
"My testimony today is, I know
Joseph Smith was and is a Prophet,
as well as I know anything; I know
that he was just what he professed
to be. I am the only one now liv-
ing who had her endowments while
he was alive, and I received them in
Nauvoo before the Temple was
built. I have seen many good men,
but they had not the gift and bless-
ing that Joseph had. He was truly
a Prophet of God" (Young Wom-
an's Journal, December 1905).
BATHSHEBA W. SMITH
HAND TO THE PLOW
PART II -A QUESTION TO BE ANSWERED
JJene H. Kingsbury
Synopsis: A Welsh widou' on her way
to the valleys of the mountains in 1864,
with her family of five children, pauses in
a railway station in Philadelphia, awaiting
a train to take them westward. For a
compelling reason, the emigrant wishes to
stop at a small town in Pennsylvania.
THE emigrant was stunned.
The ceaseless speech of this
man, who was the pattern
from whom all future talkative rail-
roaders was cut, bewildered her.
Her heart raced with his words
across the back of his imaginary
map, and already she felt that trudg-
ing feet and burdened shoulders
were the chief requisites of land
travel. At her back was an ocean,
ceaselessly rolling. It had consumed
nearly seven tossing weeks of life.
Fearsome as were the deeps of the
sea to a land-reared woman, still
more terrifying and confusing, now,
was this proffered continent of thou-
sands of miles of earth stretching to
the valleys of the mountains where
refuge was assured. But the hegira
of getting to that haven was so un-
certain, so mystifying, that the emi-
grant was led to question her mo-
mentous decision to transplant her-
self on the other side of the earth
from that of her birth.
Last spring, in South Wales, no
one had painted this picture of rail-
roads with varied placed rails and
cooking stoves in each car, and
soldiers running one's children out
to a bush for concealment from the
wind. The American Civil War,
Page 412
between the North and the South,
had been mentioned only casually.
Surely the war was not near her path
to the great rivers and the high
mountains. She had concluded that
as long as the South was the rebel
in the affair, that the North had
marched deep in and had thus pro-
tected her route to the Rockies. A
vague impression had been left with
her that this rebellion had taken on
the aspects of guerrilla warfare, was
a hit-or-miss affair, and would cer-
tainly be out of her way by the sum-
mer of this year, 1864.
How mistaken she was. Although
spokesmen in the emigration depart-
ment referred to this as the last year
of the war, and not as the fourth,
how were they to be certain of that
word last?
A week ago, back in Castle
Gardens, while they explained to
the uniformed emigration authori-
ties about where they were from and
where they were going and how
many there were of them, and how
old they were, and how it was that
she had no husband to protect her,
and how it was that they spoke
English, while claiming Welsh
nationality, all was confusion.
In the midst of this, a side con-
versation was indulged in which
gave her restless nights and uneasy
days. Her informant had called
this conflict a blood-brother war.
He said that fathers and sons met on
battlefields and took each other's
lives. He described the burning of
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a great valley where dogs crept away
to die, and where refugees had
swarmed out of reach of the flames
as cattle will stampede before a
prairie fire. The emigrant had shud-
dered, but had relented the day she
had promised her dying husband
to begin, and finish, their journey to
America without that strong arm
she had leaned on since bridehood.
To come to a war was not what she
had dreamed of for a dozen years.
But it was too late now to turn
back. Even her sixteen-year-old
Eliza vowed that she would rather
die in a war than sail a stormy ocean
in constant peril. The course now
was to traverse this scene of conten-
tion, to get to the other side of the
continent, even though plains and
Indians and a bloody war interposed
the way.
T TPON her insistence that she
wanted tickets for as far west
as the agent's line could carry them,
he took her money and gave her a
piece of square cardboard upon
which was a picture of a railroad
engine and a few initials which de-
noted ownership of the same. She
thoughtfully placed the ticket in a
drawstring bag of smallish size, a
homely thing that never left her
person, and turned in the indented
tracks in the wooden floor to join
her children huddled near their pile
of miscellaneous property.
At that moment the ticket agent
remembered something she had
asked about, a little town in Penn-
sylvania called Bradys Bend. He
hadn't answered her about it,
especially as she had added that she
wasn't really going there anyway.
So now he raised his voice and called
to her, and to get her attention, he
barged on as at first.
''That town now. My cousin's
daughter used to live there. Not
much of a place, one might gather.
Just coal people and a railroad to
carry off the coal, and more smoke
than healthy people should be
breathing. Not many people live
there, either. Mostly a foreign
town, Welsh. Mostly hadn't both-
ered to speak English since coming
over from the old country. Say,
know anyone there, lady?"
He never ceased his talking. His
questions were not meant to be an-
swered. He was indeed the original
information bureau of the railroads.
However, the emigrant did ven-
ture one more question. ''How far
will we be from Bradys Bend if we
stay on this train?" she quietly
asked. Her tone almost stopped
the agent, for she had turned square-
ly toward him and was so quiet that
he believed she wanted a quiet an-
swer. In fact, she raised a finger to
her lips to hush him in his reply.
And because he was brash and in-
sensitive to delicate signals, let
alone this universal one to talk soft-
ly, he said in his usual station voice,
as if talking to deaf people, "Well,
lady, I'd say it was about twenty-
five miles from where you will be
when you reach Pittsburgh. That
is as the cow flies, but a little farther
along the Allegheny River. That's
how the town got its name, because
of the bend in the river."
The emigrant could stand no
more. She wished she could faint
dead away rather than hear one more
word about Bradys Bend.
At her leaving him, the agent
shrugged a little, and clicked his
HAND TO THE PLOW 415
tongue and thought about how and without waiting for permission,
many funny people came by his they threaded their way out of the
window in the station. And the station. Through the door she saw
questions they asked, too. It would them leap off the platform and
seem as though if one asked a ques- sprint down the street, each trying
tion, one would at least stay long to outdo the other in speed and
enough to get a civil answer. form. They would be back in a
moment with questions, but for now
npHE emigrant dragged herself to- they must run off their spirits,
ward her little brood. She noted already too pent-up for comfort,
that the little one was already asleep She counted the property, just
with her head in the lap of her big- from habit, threw a shawl over little
ger sister. The three boys stood up Sannie, and sat on the bench just
as she came near and were straining vacated by the boys. Eliza, the
to get on the way now that the tick- teenage daughter, unable to move
et was purchased. Even before she lest she awaken little Sannie, was
reached them, they considered them- startled to hear her mother say de-
selves dismissed from their tempor- terminedly, "No, I cannot do it!"
ary vigil as guards to their sisters, (To be continued)
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^S I know a thing, I know a thing!
%\ The birds must know it for they sing!
|C
^V -^"d why should all the flowers turn bright
x.\ Unless they, too, heard it aright?
^C The leaves know it, the winds blow it
B( Softly where they nod and kiss —
^^ Now why should they do this?
"" If flowers below and trees above
Nod and mingle in their love,
It must be because it's spring;
The secret's out — that's why they sing!
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Sixty Years Ago
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, June 1902
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
THE BEST LIGHT AND KNOWLEDGE: In these last days that are so
pregnant with evil tendencies and influences, and the insidious foes that lurk on every
side to lead astray the innocent and unwary ... all that makes for better hopes and
aspirations, purer motives and correct living should be fostered and maintained. . . .
If our sisters only lived up to their privileges what an influence they might exert over
their associates. . . . remember always that the Gospel is first . . . and will lead to the
fount of all true wisdom. . . .
— Editorial
GENERAL CONFERENCE OF RELIEF SOCIETY: Mrs. Leah Dunford
Widtsoe . . . addressed the conference upon Domestic Science. . . . Referred to the
daughters who expect to marry and become mothers, thought they should be taught
in the science of housekeeping and home making. . . . Our girls many of them never
do anything in their homes, she knew of girls who had a fine education, could play the
piano, but could not even make a plain gingham apron, and they marry and are not
qualified to perform the duties or superintend the home. . . . One of the first things
necessary is to know how to make good bread. Mothers are sometimes at fault in not
teaching the girls because it is easier to do it themselves, but it is the duty of every
girl to look into these domestic matters and prepare for home making and life will be
sweeter and better. . . .
— E. B. Wells, Secretary
THE MASTER'S STROKE
Touch Thou with gentle strokes divine, oh Lord!
Discordant tendrils of life's harpsichord;
O, let the vibrant echoes thus awoke
Within men's souls, ennobling thoughts evoke.
Let sweetest accents from the worlds unknown,
Change solemn moan to gentle patient tone.
Sublime, triumphant anthems fill the air,
To lift all human hearts from mirage of despair. . . .
— Ellis R. Shipp
OUR NEW DEPARTURE: Our new departure in this first issue of the new
volume is giving our readers the pictures of some of the girl students of the Latter-day
Saints University in Salt Lake City. One sees at a glance in their faces innocence,
truthfulness and a high order of intelligence. It is not given to any of us to read the
future, but we are safe in predicting for these young girls a fulness of development,
physical, moral, spiritual and intellectual as the years go by, if the best use is made of
the opportunities now opening before them. . . .
• — Editorial
NOTES: We are too fond of our own will. We want to be doing what we
fancy as mighty things; but the great point is to do small things, when called to them,
in a right spirit.
— R. Cecil
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(Frankhn Watts, pubhsher), a crit-
ical appraisal of children's fiction
from 1930 to i960, which also in-
cludes comments on outstanding
books for children written in an
earlier time. Approaches at classifi-
cation of this field of literature are
made in the various chapters which
discuss picture books, books for chil-
dren six to nine, books on animals,
fantasies, formula tales, adventure
stories, and family narratives.
pRINCESS SUGA, youngest
daughter of Emperor Hirohito
and Empress Nagako of Japan, last
year married a commoner. On April
fourth she gave birth to a son, the
Emperor's seventh grandchild. Since
the baby's father is a commoner, the
child will not be in the line of suc-
cession to the throne.
JYJRS. RUTH BIDDULPH, the
recipient of a Delta Kappa
Gamma scholarship for $2,500, will
continue her graduate work at In-
diana University. The Delta Kappa
Gamma sorority is an honorary
women teachers society, which
makes available one scholarship for
each State in the Nation. Mrs. Bid-
dulph, a teacher of English at Ricks
D'
College, Rexburg, and a Latter-day
Saint woman, won the Idaho schol-
arship.
iORIS HAWLEY, wife of Dr.
Harold Hawley of New York
State, and Lorna Johnson, wife of
Lavern Johnson, of Illinois, are farm
wives who help their husbands make
farming pay generously. Dr. Haw-
ley has a Ph.D. degree in agricul-
tural economics; his wife has a mas-
ter's degree in home economics. Dr.
Hawley worked out an accounting
system that takes into consideration
every smallest item of cost and prof-
it. Mrs. Johnson handles the ac-
counting work.
CEVERAL Latter-day Saint wom-
en participated in the national
convention of Penwomen held in
Washington, D.C., in April. They
are: Wilma Bunker, national presi-
dent; Mrs. Erla Young, co-chairman
of the art workshop; Mrs. Virginia
Evans, hostess of the Korean Em-
bassy Tea; Mrs. Fiametta Fausett,
co-chairman of the craft exhibit;
Mrs. Mirla Thayne, hostess at the
German Embassy tea; Mrs. Mabel
Harmer, chairman of the contest for
teenage books; Mrs. Mabel Jones
Gabbott, in charge of the contest
for juvenile verse.
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 49
JUNE 1962
NO. 6
The 132d Annual Church Conference
HE i32d Annual Confer-
ence of The Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-
day Saints was held in
the historic Tabernacle in Salt Lake
City, Utah, April 6, 7, and 8, 1962.
President David O. McKay, Prophet,
Seer, and Revelator, conducted all
of the general sessions, and was as-
sisted during the conference by
President Henry D. Moyle and
President Hugh B. Brown.
All of the General Authorities
were in attendance at the conference
sessions except Elder Delbert L.
Stapley and Elder George Q. Morris
of the Council of the Twelve, who
were ill; Elder John Longden, As-
sistant to the Council of the Twelve,
who was touring the Pacific area;
Elder Bruce R. McConkie and Elder
Marion D. Hanks of the First Coun-
cil of the Seventy who are serving
as missions presidents in Australia
and Great Britain, respectively.
Leaders from all the wards and
branches, stakes and missions of
the Church throughout the world
were present for the conference ses-
sions. By means of translators and
earphones, Dutch, Spanish, and
German leaders were enabled to
hear the conference proceedings in
their own tongues.
A vast network of television and
radio stations carried the conference
messages to thousands of people
across the United States, and for the
first time, an international audience
heard prophetic words from Temple
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Square — majestic tones of the great
organ, and the voices of the choir
praising the Lord. Five short wave
channels beamed from Boston, three
in English and two in Spanish, di-
rected the proceedings to Europe,
South Africa, South America, Cen-
tral America, and Mexico.
It was reported that during the
year 1961 an additional 130,481 peo-
ple became members of the Church,
making a total of 1,823,661 members
in all the world. At the close of
1961 there were 345 stakes and sixty-
four missions.
Throughout the conference ses-
sions, reference was made to the
opportunities of members of the
Church to become "shining lights"
and help illumine the troubled
world, and to seek eternal life in the
kingdom of Jesus Christ.
As expressed by President McKay,
the principal message of the confer-
ence exemplified ''the reality of God
the Father and his Son Jesus
Christ."
IN his opening address. President
McKay described the organiza-
tion of the Church in Fayette,
Seneca County, New York, April 6,
1830, and referred to the inspired
words of the Lord as revealed to the
Prophet Joseph Smith that ''A great
and marvelous work is about to come
forth among the children of men."
'Taith in the existence of an intel-
ligent Creator," said President
McKay, 'was the first element that
EDITORIAL
419
contributed to the perpetuity of the
Church, the everlasting foundation
on which the Church is built."
He declared that the gospel
teaches that Christ is the Son of
God, the Redeemer of the world.
One of the two great general principles
to which all others are subsidiary is this:
"Love your neighbor as yourself. . , ."
The gospel bids the strong bear the
burdens of the weak, and to use the ad-
vantages given them by their larger oppor-
tunities in the interest of the common
good that the whole level of humanity
may be lifted, and the path of spiritual
attainment opened to the weakest- and
most unlearned, as well as to the strong
and intelligent. . . .
PRESIDENT Henry D. Moyle
emphasized the everlasting im-
portance of revelation and direction
from God in all ages:
We know and bear witness to the
world that the survival of our faith in God
is dependent upon present day direction
from God. How impotent is man when
he is left alone with only the revelations of
the past. Without present day revelation,
the very foundation upon which this last
dispensation of the fulness of times was
built, would crumble. There can be no
fulness of the gospel without revelation,
now or ever. . . ,
Joseph Smith must continue to be
recognized by the Church and the world
to be the modern day lawgiver by whom
the gospel of Jesus Christ was restored
to the earth in its pristine purity.
PRESIDENT Hugh B. Brown
emphasized the characteristics,
the duties, and the responsibilities
incumbent upon those who have
accepted the gospel of Jesus Christ:
. , . there is one doctrinal event which
foreshadows and overshadows all other
Christian doctrine . . . the atonement of
Christ. . . . Faith in this one transcendent
event, the most important in all history,
is the enduring foundation upon which
the true Christian gospel is built. Upon
it the salvation of the whole human fam-
ily depends. . . .
IN his closing address. President
McKay blessed the saints through-
out the world and enjoined them to
obedience to the gospel, and de-
clared his strong and vibrant testi-
mony :
In our daily desire for material success
and pleasure, we have a tendency to
neglect the importance of the Creator's
place in our hearts and in our homes; and
in social intercourse we are prone to
neglect the importance of making the
Creator the center of our lives.
Our religion is not a cloak to wear on
Sunday and hang in the closet for the rest
of the week, neither is it something for
nations to parade on certain occasions and
then to wrap up in mothballs to await
another occasion.
Men today are rapidly classifying them-
selves into two groups: believers and non-
believers. . . .
.... the gospel of Jesus Christ is the
plan whereby our hearts and lives and
towns and nations can be united in bring-
ing about universal peace and the brother-
hood of man.
God lives! So does Jesus Christ, his be-
loved Son, who gave the gospel, the
eternal plan of salvation of the human
soul. . . . God bless you brethren and
sisters, may you carry back to your wards
and stakes and missions the spirit of this
great, greatest of all conferences ever held
in the Church. . . .
To You With Love
Betty Lou Martin
HE valley was aglow with had wished inwardly that he would
the warm, fresh beauty settle down to a job. She wanted a
^ of spring, and the city home of her own. All her life she
seemed to bustle with and her mother had been moved
renewed energy. The familiar smell from one city to another by her
of dry leaves and grass being burned father. It wasn't her father's fault
seemed to fill the air. that his job had transferred him all
Spring is finally here, the young over the state,
mother thought as she walked along ''My goodness, Bobbie, it is
the street, pushing her small son in almost five o'clock." Joyce quick-
his stroller. The grass gets greener ened her pace. ''We had better
every day. hurry home and get your father
Joyce Vance moved slowly along some dinner. He has to go to work
the streets of the small college town, tonight."
The campus was one of the loveliest Once inside the apartment, Joyce
in the entire State, and she couldn't made the baby comfortable and then
help feeling slightly sentimental as began preparing dinner. I wonder
she strolled by the buildings. what it will be like not to have to
"There have been many good economize at every turn. After five
memories here," Joyce sighed as she years of it, I doubt very much that I
stopped for a moment to adjust will ever be able to get out of the
Bobbie's cap. "Here now, dear, it habit, Joyce thought,
isn't quite warm enough to take "Dinner ready, Joyce?" Roger
your cap off yet." called cheerfully as he picked up
Joyce was approaching the uni- Bobbie and walked into the kitchen
versity apartments where she and that was really only a partition from
Roger had lived for the past five the living room. "Something smells
years. It was home now, and they good."
accepted it. They had done their Roger was tall, with dark hair and
best to fix up the apartment, and blue eyes. Joyce thought he looked
even though it was small, they had tired and that the strain of school
managed. Just the will to manage, and work was taking its toll.
Joyce thought as she remembered all "You say that every night, my
her dreams of the house that they dear husband, even though we have
would live in when she married. about the same thing," Joyce ex-
Joyce had waited for Roger while plained patiently,
he was on his mission. She hadn't "It won't always be this way."
minded really. The time had gone Roger tried to console Joyce. "Be-
by swiftly and soon Roger was home, sides, I think that it has been good
She hadn't objected, either, when for us to have to economize. At least
Roger expressed his desire to go on now we know how."
and finish college. However, she "That is just about all that you
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TO YOU WITH LOVE 421
can say for it." Joyce set the steam- get enough money ahead, this is
ing bowl of potatoes on the table, what I am going to have." Roger's
'Tou better get washed up now. eyes fairly twinkled with admiration.
Dinner is ready." "Isn't that a beauty?"
'Too bad you can't have it for
A FTER Roger had left for work this summer, dear," Joyce remarked,
and Joyce was finishing up the ''You could at least have a little en-
dishes, she couldn't help feeling joyment out of it now."
guilty as she thought back over the "Oh, I can wait. I can still use
way she had spoken to Roger. I father's fishing equipment. We just
shouldn't have talked to him that have to wait for these things."
way. After all, it is just as difficult Joyce frowned. "I just wish that I
for him as it is for me. He is the had your patience." she strained to
one who has to go to school, study, see the price tag on the fishing
and keep up a part-time job. Joyce equipment. It was $19.95.
glanced up at the calendar. Oh, well. Later, on their way home, Roger
if things worked out, Roger should said, "That reminds me. I almost
have only six more months of forgot to give you our tithing money,
school left. We will have to pay it this next
Suddenly Joyce stared at the dates Sunday." Roger opened his wallet
on the calendar. Why it is Roger's and took out some bills,
birthday next week. I almost for- "That's right, it is fast day this
got. What will I ever do for money Sunday." Joyce reached to take the
to buy him a birthday present? money from Roger's hand. Then
The next few days passed by hur- suddenly the thought struck her.
riedly, and still Joyce had not come Just this once it will be all right,
to a solution as to how she would We have always paid our tithing
be able to afford a present for Roger, promptly before. Roger wouldn't
Just this once she wanted to give agree with me for postponing it, but
him something really nice, some- he doesn't have to know. I'll be
thing that would help him over able to make up our tithing in the
these last few months of school. It next few months. Joyce seemed to
had been such a difficult struggle, relax now. I've found a way, she
and this last winter had seemed to thought. Roger will have that new
be worse than the others. Now fishing equipment for his birthday,
their rent was due, and they had to
have some repairs made on the car. A T the campus branch of Relief
There just wouldn't be any money Society, Joyce sat by her good
left over at all. friend Melba Anders. "Melba," she
One evening Roger and Joyce said, "can you come to town with
were down town buying groceries me after meeting? I have to get
when Roger stopped by a sporting Roger's birthday present."
goods shop and admired the reel and Melba nodded just as the Relief
rod fishing combination displayed Society president stood up to start
in th€ window. the meeting. All through the les-
"Look, honey," he called to Joyce, son Joyce tried to concentrate, but
"When I get out of school and we her thoughts kept wandering to buy-
422 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JUNE 1962
ing the present for Roger. Excite- of his respect for me. After that we
ment surged through her. Chances had one thing after another come
are that Roger will forget about our up. First I broke my glasses, then
tithing receipt. I have always taken the baby got sick, and we just kept
care of them anyway. getting further behind. I ended up
After meeting, Joyce and Melba regretting my decision, and I have
walked toward their car. ''My, but been very prompt ever since." Melba
you are lucky to be able to buy touched Joyce's arm. ''You have a
Roger a present. It has been so long couple of days before Roger's birth-
since I have given Cliff anything for day. Think about it for awhile,
his birthday. All I can ever man- Then, if you still feel that same way,
age is a birthday card and a cake. Fll go down with you to buy the
What are you going to buy?'' present, but please think about it
"Oh, I had my eye on a reel and some more. You wouldn't want
rod combination that Roger was your blessings to be postponed."
admiring. I am so excited, Melba, "Well, I guess that I can wait a
I can't wait to give it to him." couple of days, but I do plan to
"Won't that be quite expensive?" make up the tithing," Joyce added.
Melba questioned. "I really don't '7^7^^^ Roger gave that money to
mean to be inquisitive, but I thought you to pay the Lord. He trusted
that you two were having a pretty you with it for that. If you let him
rugged time of it." down, you let yourself down, too."
Joyce lowered her voice. "We are, Melba paused, thinking that she had
Melba, and I want to do something been too outspoken.
I am not sure is the right thing.
I want to use our tithing money this JOYCE was in a turmoil when she
month for his present. Then I'll arrived home. Her mind had
make it up in the next few months, been made up to buy the fishing
and pay double then." equipment, and now she didn't
"Joyce, you wouldn't do that." know what to do. She was strug-
Melba couldn't hide her disapproval, gling within herself to do what she
"Don't. It is so difficult to get wanted to do, when she knew what
back on a regular schedule, after the right thing to do was. Then,
once postponing a sacred obliga- as if from out of nowhere, Joyce
tion." remembered something her grand-
"Why, Melba, you remember tell- mother had told her when she was
ing me you did the same thing a very small child, "Always pay the
once," Joyce reminded Melba. Lord first, and there will be plenty
"Yes I did, and I've regretted that left over for the necessities. You'll
postponement ever since. When never go hungry."
we paid our tithing regularly, every- Slowly Joyce walked through the
thing went so smoothly it was un- apartment. The years that Roger
believable. Then I got the idea that had been going to school they had
I just had to have some new cur- always had enough to eat, although
tains. Cliff didn't know about it, not expensive things. Their apart-
either, and believe me, when he ment was comfort:.' 'c, much nicer
found out, I know that he lost some than the homes of many of the mar-
TO YOU WITH LOVE 423
ried students. There was the rich have enjoyed the fishing equipment,
brown carpet that Roger's parents Joyce, knowing that we really could
had given them, the golden drapes not afford it."
and beige chair that her parents had
been kind enough to buy for them, O OGER read the card. At the bot-
and the couple who had lived there tom of the verse was inscribed
before them had left their kitchen simply, 'To you with love, Joyce
set. We have been fortunate and and Bobbie."
so blessed, Joyce realized. I just ''I wish that you would hurry and
can't take away from the Lord what get that package unwrapped, Roger,"
is rightfully his. He has given us Joyce said anxiously. Even Bobbie
so much. squealed in anticipation.
Tlie next day Joyce planned care- 'Ton know that I am not any
fully to make Roger's birthday spe- good at unwrapping packages, hon-
cial even though he wouldn't be get- ey." Roger's fingers were clumsy as
ting a special birthday present. It he tried to manage first the green
was a happy time for her, and little ribbon, then the white paper. Finally
Bobbie seemed to sense the excite- he lifted the lid of the box and be-
ment and gaiety of the event as fore him was a photograph album.
Joyce made Roger's birthday pres- 'It is an inexpensive one, Roger,
ent. but I spent a great deal of time
A beautifully set table, with pink putting the pictures in it. I started
candles glowing softly, greeted Roger out with pictures of our wedding
as he stepped into the apartment the day and went on consistently, up
evening of his birthday. Joyce greet- until now."
ed him in a crisp, pink cotton dress. Tenderly Roger opened the book.
Her golden hair gleamed in the The first picture was of their wed-
candlelight. ding reception, the reception line,
"Happy birthday, dear," she said the cutting of the cake, and just
gently as she kissed Roger's cheek, beforethey left for their honeymoon.
"Dinner is just about ready." Each page told a different story, and
The evening was spent happily each page brought back a memory
remembering birthdays past, and of happiness past and anticipation
discussing future plans. of many happy days to come. A page
Joyce had put off giving Roger his was dedicated to Roger's parents and
present as long as she could, and brothers and sisters and a page to
when she handed it reluctantly to Joyce's family,
him, she was fearful that he would "These are photographs that we
not like it. "It isn't much, dear, have been collecting for a long time,
but I wanted to give you something. Roger." Joyce tried to break the
I really wanted to buy you the new silence. She wished that Roger
fishing equipment, but I guess that would speak.
will have to come later." After looking at each page care-
Roger's eyes clearly reflected love fully, Roger closed the book. He
as he slowly opened the card that reached for Joyce's hand. "I only
was attached to the package. He hope that we will be able to fill the
added, "You know that I wouldn't rest of these pages with as many
424 RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JUNE 1962
happy moments as are shown in would have made as much of an im-
these first pages. Joyce, this is the pression/' Joyce laughed,
nicest present that I have ever had, Puzzled, Melba walked to where
and it shows the love that was put Roger and Cliff sat looking at the
into it. In fact this is the nicest album and commenting on the pic-
birthday I have ever had." tures.
The fear that Joyce had felt di- Joyce picked up Bobbie and made
minished, and she felt relief in its her way to the bedroom. Once in
place. "I was so afraid that you the seclusion of the room she turned
would think I was silly for giving to thie window where the sweet
it to you, Roger. Vm so happy." night air drifted in. The crickets
Just then there was a knock at the added their own enchanting song,
door, and Melba and Cliff strode and the stars beamed down, spread-
in. "Hi, happy birthday, Roger." ing their soft light upon the earth.
''Oh, I forgot to tell you that I Still cuddling Bobbie in her arms,
invited Cliff and Melba over for ice Joyce spoke to him, "Well, Bobbie,
cream and cake," Joyce said. I guess that your mother learned a
"Well, this is a nice surprise," lesson today, and I hope that I can
Roger said to Cliff and Melba. "Fll teach you the same thing. Happi-
have to show you my birthday pres- ness and love can come only from
ent," he added proudly. satisfaction in doing the things we
"Oh, Roger, please don't." Joyce know are right, and that is part of
was embarrassed. the blessing."
Melba took Joyce to one side. "I Gently she put the baby in his
thought you decided not to give crib and tucked him in. Then she
Roger the fishing equipment." turned to leave the room and join
"I did, but even if I had bought the others. Her heart was light and
it for him, I don't think that it her happiness complete.
♦ ♦♦
June and the Rose
Dorothy J. Roberts
This is the hour of the rose,
The season when the barren thorn
Of bitterness no longer rules
And the bud of promise is born.
This is the secret of the snow,
Patience answering the test.
The blossoming of tear and sigh,
The heart of hope made manifest.
Harold M. Lambert
SCENE IN NORTHERN IRELAND, NEAR LARNE
Before the Word Goes Forth
Mabel Jones Gahhott
Before the word goes forth to cleave earth's ill,
It must be born in anguish of a soul
Compassionate; before it would be whole
It must be tempered in the quiet, still
Room of a loving heart; it must be long.
Long weathered in the mind's vast corridors;
And at indifferent, unlistening doors
Must try again, again, its lonely song.
The word must be turned to each one's
Way; clean cleft to compass age and youth;
It must be edged with wonder, white as truth,
Wise with the beauty of a hundred suns;
Thus, fathered forth in ripeness, sure of its hour,
The word can strike with singing power.
Page 425
Recipes for a Brunch
Linnie Fishei Robinson
T)ESIDES the fact that we have to have food, the best thing about it is that it brings
-"-^ the loved faces of the family or friends together around one board. We cherish
these occasions — the fun, the joy of being together, and the food that tastes so good.
The people who eat at my table usually say, "I haven't made that dish for a long
time, but I'm going to, for it tastes so good." On the strength of that, and the fact
that there are some who are new at cooking who have asked for recipes of the ways
I cook some things, I offer these loved recipes from various relatives and friends.
MENU
Creamed Chicken in Patty Shells — Grapefruit in Gelatine
Candied Carrots — Sliced Beets With Lemon Juice
Creamed Chicken
Cooked and cubed meat from one large i small onion minced fine
chicken i small jar sliced pimento
3 c. chicken stock (If you haven't this % c. flour and chicken fat (if there is not
much, make some with bouillon enough fat for flour, use butter)
cubes. Do not water it) i c. thick cream
1 c. canned mushrooms and juice seasonings to taste
Drain mushrooms (saving juice), saute in butter until golden brown, then add
juice; add onion and pimento. Heat stock and put mushroom mixture in it, then add
flour, which has been stirred into the chicken fat or butter. Cook until done and
thick. Season to taste and add cream, and last of all add the cubed chicken. Set in
a pan of boiling water to keep warm until you serve it. If you make this ahead of time,
be certain to warm this mixture in a pan of hot water, no matter how little or much
you make. Also, do not put in chicken until mixture is hot. If you stir cubed chicken
in any liquid, it will become soft and mushy. Recipe serves 8 to lo. (I might add I
use 7 chickens for 6o people.)
Patty Shells
2 c. flour 1 c. shortening
3 tbsp. sugar i egg
1 tsp. baking powder 3 tbsp. half and half cream
1 tsp. salt or evaporated milk
Combine first four items. Stir egg into shortening. It will be light and fluffy.
Add cream and stir lightly into flour mixture. Roll out lightly on floured board and
cut with a 4/4" bowl. Bake on the bottom of muffin tins. Do not press dough hard
on tins, but put the dough on lightly, gathering it a little to the pan, then it will come
off easier and have no holes in it. Bake at 400° until golden brown. Cool before re-
moving from tins. Makes 10 shells.
Grapefruit in Gelatine
5 large pink grapefruit 4 en\elopes gelatine (unsweetened and
juice of 1 lemon unflavored)
5 tbsp. sugar or more, to taste 2 or 3 drops red food coloring
1 c. water.
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RECIPES FOR A BRUNCH 427
Wash grapefruit and cut in half, as for breakfast, and with sharp grapefruit knife
extract sections and save juice. Discard only membrane. Be careful not to cut the
shell of the grapefruit. Soak gelatine in water, adding a little of the juice if necessary.
Heat the remainder of juice and dissolve gelatine in hot liquid. Set aside to cool. When
cool add the rest of the grapefruit and a few drops of coloring. Add the juice of the
lemon and sugar. Pour into the half shells, place in bake pans or cereal dishes, and
set in refrigerator to harden.
Candied Carrots
4 lbs. carrots 4 tbsp. carrot juice
1 c. water 4 tbsp. brown sugar
3 tbsp. butter salt to taste
Wash and scrape the carrots and cut in half and quarter the halves. Steam in
presto cooker with the cup of water for 5 minutes. Cool quickly and pour off water,
reserving 4 tbsp. of the carrot juice. Put juice in another saucepan, add the brown
sugar, butter, and about */4 tsp. salt. Cook for a minute and pour the steamed carrots
into the saucepan and take out the steam rack from the presto. Pour the carrots care-
fully back and forth from one kettle to the other until they are well coated. This
method keeps the carrots from breaking up and makes them taste good indeed. Serxes
14 to 16.
Sliced Beets With Lemon Juice
2 tbsp. whole cloves 1 c. sugar
4 sticks cinnamon 2 tbsp. butter
2 shakes nutmeg juice of 2 or 3 lemons
enough cooked cubed beets to make 2 tbsp. cornstarch
4 pints 4 tbsp. water for mixing cornstarch
2 c. beet juice
Put spices in cheesecloth bag and tie. Place in beet juice and cook 2 or 3 minutes,
then add sugar, lemon juice, butter, and beets and cook another 2 minutes. Then
take out spice bag and pour off juice into another pan and thicken. Cook until done
and pour over the beets. Heat and serve. Serves 10 to 12. Color the mixture if
needed. (Seasonings must be to taste.) The sauce is better tasting if allowed to stand
a day or so.
Bonus Prize
Viola Ashton Candhnd
Innocence and sweetness,
Mischievous bright eyes.
Mighty spirit stature.
Miniature size —
Small wonder doting grandmothers
Love and idolize
A precious little grandchild —
A little bonus prize!
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Toddler's Cover-Apron
Shirley ThuUn
TTERE'S a wonderful help for busy mothers with tiny tots! Stitch several easy-to-
^ ^ make, easy-to-launder toddlers' cover-aprons, as in the illustration.
You will cut your ironing time way down, for they open flat to press, or even better,
make them of seersucker and don't bother with ironing at all.
MATERIALS NEEDED:
You will need Vz yard of printed percale or seersucker (or more, if. a larger cover-
apron is desired), and 6% yards of double-fold bias tape in accenting colors. (You can
use leftover prints from other sewing projects, or even printed flour sacks.)
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TODDLER'S COVER-APRON 439
TO CUT:
Make a paper pattern, following the pictured diagram.
TO MAKE:
1. Bind the entire outside edge of cover-apron and raw edges of armholes with
bias tape.
2. Open center fold of tape and stitch a casing on the right side iK" from the
top along the top edge for the drawstring to be threaded through.
3. Fold each pocket in half, wrong sides together. Bind the outside edge. Center
and stitch in place 3" from the lower edge and 4 Yz " apart.
4. Make a drawstring 40" long by stitching the folded edges of bias together. Insert
this in the casing and knot each end so it won't pull through.
Now it is ready to slip on the child. Pull the ties to gather up around the neck.
The toddlers' cover-apron may be worn alone or to cover like an apron.
^=<jf^^5r^
Narrow Valley
Zara Sabin
'Ts it not too bad?" they said —
When at her service someone read
She had been born, had lived and died
In one small town. Their cheeks, scarce dried.
Were wet again. . . . "To spend her life
As child, as maid, as mother, wife,
In this narrow valley?"
Narrow valley? Yes, it was true.
The hills were close and steep, the view
Cut off on either side, yet she
Looked at the stars. Instinctively,
Her thoughts reached up to higher things
And knew that more than birds have wings.
Even in a valley.
She heard the first bhiebird, or kept
Close vigil where a sick child slept;
Baked bread and cakes and sang the while;
Walked her Savior's extra mile;
Then, when her children all were grown,
She died, and had not even known
This was a narrow valley.
ALMA ANDERSON — SPECIALIST WITH NEEDLE
AND CROCHET HOOK
A LMA Lofstrom Anderson, Roosevelt, Utah, is a specialist with needle and crochet
-^*- hook. Her handwork and machine sewing are examples of exquisite workmanship.
She designs and crochets doilies and many other articles, as well as making beautiful
aprons and many other pieces of clothing. As she often remarks, her sewing basket is
her constant companion. An expert quilter, she has marked "hundreds and hundreds"
of quilts for quilting. Even before she went to school in her native Sweden, she learned
to crochet and knit and hem and seam by hand, and was trained as a tailor.
As a convert to the Church, she came to Utah in 1898, and later pioneered a home-
stead near Roosevelt. Long devoted to Relief Society and active in stake and ward
positions, she has served as a visiting teacher, work meeting leader, counselor, and presi-
dent. Her six children, fourteen grandchildren, and twenty-four great-grandchildren are
her choicest blessings and she refers to them as the crown of her long and happy life.
Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. . . . She seeketh
wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. . . . She layeth her hands to the
spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. . . . She is not afraid of the snow for her
household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet (Proverbs 31:10, 13, 19, 21).
Page 440
Leftover Disguises
Janet W. Breeze
HOW has your refrigerator been lately — subject to a daily invasion by a small
bowlful of this and a tablespoon of that? If so, welcome aboard! The problem
seems to be universal, but not one without its solution. To minimize waste and
stretch what may otherwise seem a completely unelastic food budget, try to keep some
of the following suggestions in mind before abandoning that covered container of fu-
ture mysteries to its cold settlement at the back of the refrigerator.
Chop cooked liver into small cubes and scramble with eggs for breakfast.
Save that lone slice of bacon or ham, spoonful of onions, or mushrooms, for
adding a new zest to peas.
Halibut, cod, or sole, make tasty sandwiches when flaked and combined with
chopped pickles, lemon juice, and mayonnaise.
Garnish a pot of chili with sliced franks or sausage and mounds of leftover whipped
potatoes. Pop under broiler until potatoes are a golden brown.
Coin-sized slices of a leftover frankfurter or two add a change of flavor to macaroni
and cheese.
Keep that giblet gravy for the beginnings of the next day's chicken soup.
Leftover mushroom gravy made from creamed soup and that last slice of ham can
be combined with chopped onion and sliced potatoes for a scalloped main dish.
Stale rolls or buns are warm and tasty when spread with parsleyed garlic butter
and broiled until brown on spaghetti night.
Dry bread can be toasted, cut into cubes, and saved for a welcome surprise in
tossed green salads, soups, or stewed tomatoes and onions.
Scoop out the center of day-old muffins. Fill centers with creamed fish, sprinkle
with grated cheese, and bake in hot oven.
Add leftover tomatoes, vegetables, or vegetable soups to meat loaf.
Don't forget the precious vitamins you can save by adding the liquid drained from
vegetables to soups or tomato juice.
A small amount of sliced canned peaches stirred in, or that last bit of juice from
canned cherries poured on top, can add variety to an old favorite — vanilla pudding.
Bake leftover waffle batter. Break waffles into sections, wrap in waxed paper, and
freeze for making slices of tasty toast at a later date.
Save the juice drained from canned blueberries, or other berries, and add enough
water to measure one cup. Combine with Vs cup sugar, one tablespoon cornstarch,
and Ys teaspoon salt in saucepan and stir over medium heat until clear. Reduce heat
and cook five minutes. Stir in two tablespoons butter and one tablespoon lemon juice.
Serve warm over yellow cake or waffles.
Do not let that whipping cream sour. Beat the cream and drop by large spoon-
fuls onto waxed paper placed on a cooky sheet. Freeze. Peel frozen mounds of cream
from paper, place in plastic bag, and store in freezer. When ready to use, place indi-
vidual mounds of frozen cream on top of dessert servings at the beginning of a meal.
Cream should be tha\ved by dessert time.
Cut leftover cake in rectangles. Line a refrigerator tray with waxed paper and
fill with alternate layers of cake and sweetened whipped cream for a refreshing frozen
dessert.
Page 441
Sow the Field With Roses
Chapter 6 (Conclusion)
Margery S. Stewart
T was on the third day of October
that Tomas Novarro came for his
son. It was a bright and brittle
morning, with the desert winds
blowing hot down the hills, and the
sea taking on the deep vital blue
that was a sign of autumn as plain
as maple leaves on fire.
This was the last time Nina would
take down small Joseph's special
bowl, or spoon into it the hot, nour-
ishing cereal. This was the last of
the brilliant mornings rich with
plans for the day. There would be
no more Disneyland expeditions or
deep sea fishing with Tomas to
show her how to reel in her line. He
was taking his son to Europe to
show him the world and to have
him entirely to himself. He had
talked about it, planned for it, writ-
ing for brochures, bringing them
over in the evenings to see what she
thought of the side trips he had
planned.
Nina made herself very busy. To-
day she would houseclean the
kitchen cupboards, put down new
paper, and tomorrow she would go
to the Children's Hospital and
apply for a job. She needed a new
car, and now she could afford one.
By all these thoughts, like actors on
a stage, she fought to keep back the
one tall and spectral figure — lone-
liness.
Joseph was beside himself with
delight. ''Big plane! Zoom!"
"Big plane," Nina agreed.
Small Joseph ran to the door.
Page 442
''Daddy's coming." He was im-
patient to be gone.
There was an impatient knocking
on the back door. Nina hurried to
open it.
Tommy grinned at her with bright
impudence. "I got a present for
Joseph."
Joseph rushed forward to claim
it, and Tommy brought it around
from where he had been hiding it,
a small red truck. "Kids like things
they can hold."
"I know."
He sniffed the air. "Good."
"Popovers . . . almost ready."
She had to invite him for break-
fast, but for the first time she found
herself wishing he hadn't come. She
had wanted to be alone with Tomas,
be sure he was planning to stop off
in New York and buy the heavier
clothes that Joseph would need. She
worried about this part of it. Some-
times Tomas seemed to forget his
son entirely and wanted to talk
about everything else under the sun.
He had a trick of waiting for her to
speak, as if he found something fas-
cinating in the way her words came
that was infinitely flattering.
People had smiled at them, mov-
ing together through the days, the
three of them, the great, dark Tom-
as, herself, and the child. Once a
woman had paused to compliment
her on her "lovely child." Tomas
had thought that hilariously funny.
In the weeks they had been to-
gether it had been toward Tomas
sow THE FIELD WITH ROSES
443
that she and Joseph had leaned. It
had been luxury to be cared for, to
be driven about, to be thought of
and considered. Sometimes she had
had to pull herself up sharply and
remind herself that it was only the
bridge before the end of the line.
Joseph turned more and more to his
father, less and less to the comfort
of her arms.
She was aware that Tommy was
talking, '\ . . but the bad part is
leaving you, Miss Karsh, that's what
I hate about it . . . and leaving
Dominick.''
She looked at him. ''Leaving.^
Where are you going?"
He shook his head. 'Tve been
telling you for ten minutes. We're
going to move to Frisco, Mom and
my brother and me, real soon."
Nina would not let him see the
bleakness of her eyes. ''We'll miss
you . . . Dominick and I . . . but
you can come back and visit?"
''Sure I will."
She bent her head over the
opened oven door. It was in little
idle promises like this that the pangs
of separation were lessened.
Tommy cleared his throat. "An-
other thing I want to tell you, Miss
Karsh, is that I did some knocking
and now I know."
She straightened, the pan of pop-
overs in her hand. "You knocked
where?"
He looked ceilingward. "On that
door. So now I know. He does
come, only you sure must knock a
long time. Anyway I did, but all
of a sudden I knew, just like you
did. He's there all right." He licked
his lips. "Maybe I could just have
a popover now before we sit down?"
'T^HE knocker sounded on the
front door. Tommy ran to an-
swer.
Nina, putting plates on the table,
paused to listen to the sound of
footsteps. It was Tomas who had
come. She made herself very busy.
"Well, this is a delicious wel-
come."
Tomas stood in the doorway.
Nina looked at him quickly and
looked away. It's because he is tak-
ing Joseph away that it hurts me to
look at him, she thought. Tomas
looked different this morning, like
a stranger in his beautiful gray suit,
immaculate white shirt, blue tie,
like a man ready to step into his own
familiar world after a season in an
alien land. "Doctor Jonathan show
up yet?"
"Doctor Jonathan? No. Did he
plan to come?"
"Said he would, wanted to see you
for a minute, and to say goodbye to
Joseph."
"He's driving in now," Tommy
said and was off like a shot to lead
the doctor in.
Tomas gave Nina a narrow,
laughing glance. "It seems you have
given my friend a great deal of
trouble," he said. "You make him
think ... of things . . . you make
him uneasy."
Nina laughed. "I like him very
much. He's a wonderful doctor. I
remember at the hospital how every-
one stood aside for him."
"So?" Tomas lifted his brow.
He looked distressed suddenly, and
then he said. "I hate goodbyes. Let
me take Joseph and go now, quickly.
Do you mind?"
"Why . . . no . . . not if that's the
way you want it."
444
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— JUNE 1962
Nina wiped her hands on her
apron and ran to get Joseph's clean
shirt, which she had been saving
until the last minute so he would
be clean for the journey. The bags
were packed and ready.
Tomas was suddenly in a fever
to be gone. He carried the bags
out. Joseph would have tumbled
after him, but Nina caught him and
carried him to the rocker. She
hugged him, and Joseph wriggled
impatiently. ''I must go now. . . ."
Nina let him go. She did not
kiss him nor cling. She followed
him out to the car. Tomas was
talking to Manuel, who was at the
wheel, and to Doctor Jonathan. He
took Joseph's hand and opened the
car door.
'1 hate goodbyes,'' he said again,
''and I will write of course, Nina.
You must take care of yourself."
It was all so fast. Joseph waved
to her from his place beside his
father. Manuel started the car.
Tomas leaned out to her. ''You
will write," he said earnestly. "I
must hear from you very often."
"Yes . . . yes, of course."
'Til see that she does," Doctor
Jonathan said.
T^HE car rolled away down the hill.
Nina stood irresolute, torn be-
tween wanting to watch it until it
was out of sight and of preserving
from the doctor this feminine weak-
ness of tears at a farewell.
Tommy burst out of the house
with a hot popover in his hand. "I
gotta go, Miss Karsh. I'll come up
after school. Bye now."
Doctor Jonathan followed her in-
to the house. "I came," he said,
"because I had something to talk to
you about. It's a girl ... a girl in
trouble. She needs help."
Nina began to set the kitchen to
rights. "You must tell me about
her," she said, but she was still
straining to hear the sound of the
car receding down the hill.
"A very young girl, from out of
State. . . ." He stopped abruptly
and was silent.
Nina looked at him inquiringly.
"You were saying?" she pressed him
p>olitely.
"Nothing." He pushed the chair
savagely under the table. "I said
forget it! Forget the girl!"
"No ... no ... I want to hear
. . . perhaps I can help."
"Sure you can help. There's no
doubt of it, and what is there in it
for you, Nina Karsh? What do you
get out of this giving of yourself?"
He leaned against the door, fold-
ing his arms. "We're a greedy
bunch, this modern race of men.
We'll take the juice out of a person
like you and then quote some beard-
ed authority on how stupid it was
of you to give it, call it a sublima-
tion, a fixation, a compulsion. . . ."
Nina laughed. "I don't care what
you call it. I think it is absurd, all
this preoccupation for reasons for
helping people."
He said, "I will not ask you to go
through this again." He gestured
in agitation about the room. "It is
too painful to watch, the process of
love and struggle and the inevitable
conclusion of surrender and pain.
I will find another way."
Nina rubbed her hands along her
skirt. "Don't rob me. . . ."
"Rob you?"
"Loneliness is a field," Nina said
gently. "Who could know that bet-
ter than I?"
sow THE FIELD WITH ROSES
445
He lifted his head. His profile
was sharpened and alert as it was in
the operating room. ''An empty
field/' he said tentatively, probing
the idea, ''and you have sown yours
with roses." He came to her. "It
is no wonder that your fields are
constantly being seized and taken
. . . sow a field with nettles . . . and
it will be left to you . . . forever."
They were very close together
now. When Nina looked into his
face she saw the black, circling the
gray iris, and the lines that weariness
had made, and the recurring tender-
ness she had known for him deep-
ened inside her. They stood in
silence. But the silence was like the
silence she had known that day with
the small Joseph. In the silence the
heavy sadness ran thin like a great
fog lessening, and in the silence the
first sun shot forth a blinding bright-
ness, so that they caught their
breaths and came closer, hand reach-
ing to hand.
"I am not afraid to love now," he
said. "Isn't that strange? I didn't
even know before that I was afraid
of love."
Nina could not speak for the
tumultuous joy of her being. Sow
a field with roses, and though the
blooms be torn away, the roots and
the earth remain, preparing them-
selves in the mysterious quiet for a
new and lovelier spring.
She heard Dr. Jonathan speaking
slowly. "In this time, now vdth
you, they have all been returned to
me, the things I was so sure I had
irrevocably lost."
Nina looked at him in perplexity.
"Lost?"
"Yes," he said. "When I lost
love, I lost faith with it, and now I
have them again, all the bright lost
dreams, the temple dreams, and the
family dream, and the slow, beloved
years together."
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Morning Song
Leora Larsen
Some days are made to savor,
Some to weep.
In between, busy ones
My balance keep.
Pie-Tin Therapy
Pauline L. Jensen
IT is strange how differently people latter actually isn't a problem at all,
react to various situations. Some since it isn't hard to figure out who
people, when wrestling with a prob- needs a pie the most,
lem, take long walks, weed a garden, Yesterday, for instance, I went on
or even scrub floors until they have a pie-baking jamboree. I had been
settled the issue. With me, I bake fretting all morning over the dis-
pies! loyalty of a friend — something that
Whenever I am beset with a day none of us likes to have happen, so
filled with frustration, or some prob- at noon I got out the pie-tins and
lem that is bothering me, I cast the necessary ingredients and got
everything else aside and whip up busy.
six or eight pies. I figure that in I had just taken the first pie from
the thirty odd years of my marriage the oven — a cherry one with juice
I have baked a total of at least eight oozing out around the edges, when
thousand pies. That is only an the telephone rang. It was Lou, my
average of twenty pies a month, and neighbor. "Do you have a can of
counting eight pies to a baking, that fruit or something like that?" she
means I have settled one thousand asked, ''Don's folks have just arrived
problems with a pie-tin. in town, and they will be out for
The peculiar part of all this is lunch. I haven't a thing — not one
that, although these pie-baking single thing in the line of desserts or
sprees were intended for my bene- sweets."
fit, the end result has been twofold. "Cherry pie, coming right up," I
For the minute I see those luscious assured her, and heard her gasp of
looking pies standing end to end on pleasure.
the kitchen counter, I immediately I took the pumpkin pie from the
begin figuring out how many I am oven and set it aside. That one was
going to give away, and just whom for Dr. Anna, for it is her favorite.
I'm going to give them to. The Besides, she is bedfast, and seldom
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gets homemade pie. I paused a
minute and smiled. It is wonderful
to see her smile when I take a pie
to her. She smiles so seldom these
days, that anything that cheers her
is well worth the effort.
As I glanced out the window I
saw Ruth, another neighbor, coming
home. She had had a busy day with
her Primary class. Right then I was
in sympathy with her, since I am not
so far removed from those days my-
self. Since Ruth was giving her time
and effort to a worthy project, why
not send the lemon pie to her? I
pushed it back to cool a bit before
delivering it.
The mince pie filled the kitchen
with its fragrance. That one I would
put in the freezer, I decided. Mince
pies keep so well. Then I remem-
bered my friend Min, and what she
had said the other day. 'Tm starved
for a pie with real honest-to-good-
ness mincemeat filling.'' Oh well,
why not give this pie to Min? I had
several more jars of mincemeat in
the storeroom. After all, where
could I find a better friend? I
thought of all the nice things she
had done for us, and this I thought
was but small payment.
The apple pie must go to Mar-
jorie, for I had planned it especially
for her. Chained to a wheel chair,
a gift of home-cooked food was the
most welcome thing she could re-
ceive. She had said so, many times.
I glanced at the two pie crusts
standing on the table. Chocolate
pie would taste good, I thought. We
hadn't had one for a long time.
As I lifted it, with its golden
brown meringue, from the oven,
Bobbie, the boy next door came in
with a package of chicken giblets
for our cat. His eyes lighted up.
''Chocolate pie! Uhmmmm! My
favorite!" He sniffed ecstatically.
With a sigh, I slipped the pie onto
a baking tin for him to take home.
After all, hadn't he just brought our
cat a special evening meal?
Quickly I stirred a custard, filled
the remaining shell and put it in the
oven. How lucky, I thought, that
I have a husband who indulges me
in this luxury of pie giving. Not
once has he objected, for he has his
own philosophy regarding this. ''No
matter how much we give, it is but
small payment in exchange for all
our blessings," he says.
I looked over the array of pies
with a feeling of satisfaction. From
long experience I knew they would
be well received, since through the
years, I had learned the technique
well. For my pies had gone every-
where — to Church, to PTA, to
Primary and MIA affairs, and bake
sales. But best of all, eight thou-
sand pies had taught me far more
than culinary skill!
I remembered once again the
problem that had sent me on this
therapy. I had almost forgotten it!
Had my friend been disloyal, or had
I taken offense without thinking it
through logically? All flesh is weak,
including mine. Was what she did
so important after all? It was over
— done with. Why not forget it
now?
The afternoon was gone, but it
had been well spent. Enough pie-
cheer for seven families, and an extra
bonus — my worry disposed of
neatly with pie-tin therapy.
Peace in a Troubled World
Ruth L. Jones
13 ECENTLY, I was talking with a neighbor who is not a member of the
Church. She expressed the almost hysterical fear in her heart of the
possible destruction of the earth in a nuclear war and of her unsuccessful
attempts to hide these fears from her small son.
I tried to give her some assurance with thoughts somewhat like these:
Yes — man has become very powerful — sufficiently so that he can
destroy the works of man — but he does not have sufficient knowledge and
power to destroy the works of God. Furthermore, man never will be able
to change the eternal plans and purposes which God has for his creations.
These are fearsome times, it is true, and we cannot help wondering
what lies immediately ahead, but it is imperative that we continue to live
our lives with trust in the ultimate triumph of right. We must see to it
that we maintain homes of security and peace for our families. We need
not try to do this alone. Our Heavenly Father is as near as our faith will
allow him to be. He intends that we shall be happy — "men are that they
might have joy," and it is not only our privilege, but our duty to attain
this. Nothing can be gained by living in fear and doubts. He who cre-
ated us and the earth will continue to keep his creations under his control.
He will not forsake us.
Then, I declare my sincere testimony that God lives. He has eternal
plans for his children. Jesus is the Christ. The gospel has been restored.
Truth is stronger than error, righteousness will overcome sin, and justice
will be done. We have only to accept the will of our Father and the bless-
ings which, inevitably, follow obedience to him.
I hope that the good lady received a measure of peace from these
words. I hope, too, that, as mothers in Israel, we shall make sure that our
children have a clear understanding of what their destiny can be — that
this knowledge may give them the blessed assurance of the goodness and
mercy and omnipotence of God.
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FROM THE FIELD
General Secretary-Treasurer Hulda Parker
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations goxerning the submittal of
material for ''Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Societv Handbook of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by LaVona Hoopes
ST. JOSEPH STAKE (ARIZONA), PIMA WARD RELIEF SOCIETY BAZAAR
November 1961
Left to right: Katheryn Cluff, Second Counselor; Polly Carter, First Counselor;
Thelma Rogers, President; Louise Taylor, Secretary -Treasurer.
LaVona Hoopes, President, St. Joseph Stake Relief Society, reports: "Due to the
outstanding co-operation of the sisters in the Pima Ward Relief Society, a large number
of articles were prepared for sale at the bazaar. A delicious Spanish supper was served.
Previous to the bazaar, in October 1961, some of the articles prepared for the bazaar
were entered in the Graham County Fair. Of seventy-three entries, sixteen blue ribbons
were received, fourteen red ribbons, and eleven white ribbons. In preparing for the bazaar,
it was suggested that the sisters make their articles of a quahty good enough to be
entered in the county fair."
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Photograph submitted by Beth M. Stallman
INGLE WOOD STAKE (CALIFORNIA) VISITING TEACHER CONVENTION
February 14, 1962
Beth M. Stallman, President, Inglewood Stake Relief Societ}', reports: "A most
successful visiting teacher convention was held February 14, 1962. The lovely pro-
gram of music and addresses, held in the chapel, was outstanding. Following the pro
gram, luncheon was served in the recreation hall. The valentine theme was carried out
in the lovely table decorations and also in the food. Each sister received a ball-point
pen with a red heart attached, printed with the words Tut your heart in your visiting
teaching.' Myrle Petrie and Ila Young of the stake board were in charge of the table
decorations. We felt that the convention was one of the finest ever held in our stake.
All of the sisters present felt a deeper love and enthusiasm for visiting teaching."
Photograph submitted by Hilda Alldredge
SOUTH AFRICAN MISSION, COPPERBELT (NORTHERN RHODESIA)
BRANCH RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE
Back row, standing, left to right: G. Fourie, Second Counselor; D. McTavish,
President; Sister Calteaux, First Counselor; Hilda Alldredge, President, South African
Mission Relief Society.
Sister Alldredge reports: "This branch, which borders the restless Congo, was
organized two months before this conference was held. The Copperbelt Branch draws
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its membership from a number of copper mining towns all situated thirty to forty five
miles apart. The most central town, Kitwe, has been chosen as the meeting place for
this branch. In spite of long distances to travel, the sisters are very enthusiastic and
feel it a privilege to belong to Relief Society. We have heard it said that this is the
most remote branch from the headquarters of the Church in the world. Roads, at
times, are unsafe for travel, but these sisters are most faithful and have an attendance
of between ninety-five and one hundred per cent."
Photograph submitted by Ora M. Gardner
DESERET STAKE (UTAH), OASIS WARD HONORS VETERAN RELIEF
SOCIETY WORKER AT SOCIAL, October 1961
Ora M. Gardner, President, Deseret Stake Relief Society, reports that Sister Jensine
Anderson, eighty-three, eldest member of Oasis Ward Relief Society, was honored at
the opening social in October. Sister Anderson, who was born in Denmark, joined the
Relief Society sixty-three years ago, and has been an active member ever since. She
has been a subscriber to The Relief Society Magazine since the first issue, and before
that she was a subscriber to the Woman's Exponent, more than sixty years in all. As
a visiting teacher. Sister Anderson, with her companion, had a perfect record for over
five consecutive years. Many times they walked from home to home in the scatterd
farming community. At the last county fair she was awarded five blue and six red
ribbons for her lovely handwork. The award money was turned over to the Relief
Society to "help out."
Ethel M. Stanworth is president of Oasis Ward Relief Society. At the social
Sister Stanworth presented in honor of Sister Anderscon a tribute in the form of a
"This Is Your Life" program. A beautiful book was made, containing birthday greet-
ing cards, pictures, and the story of Sister Anderson's life.
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BRISBANE STAKE (AUSTRALIA), BRISBANE THIRD WARD SOCIAL i
HONORING RETIRING PRESIDENCY AND WELCOMING THE NEW-
PRESIDENCY, July 1961
Front row, seated, left to right: Amy Beatrice Bates; Sarah Lydia Lamb; Catherine
Mary Tulloch, First Counselor, reappointed; Shirley Hauritz, retiring president; Gertrude
Shirra, new President; Evangeline Thurger Smith, Second Counselor, reappointed; 1
Jessie Stitchel Low; Lucy May Boundy; Margaret Elizabeth Tewlin. |
Back row, standing, left to right: Doris Leppard; Elizabeth Frances Refoy; Ann
Innes Fulcher; Enid J. Dean; Dorothy Elizabeth Solomon; Beryl Grace Buckle; Sirrka
Annikka Brosser; Mary Millicent Manning; Christlene Schilling; Dorothy Robins.
Enid M. Richards, President, Brisbane Stake Relief Society, reports that Sister
Gertrude Shirra has returned to America, and the First Counselor Mary Tulloch was
appointed president of the Brisbane Third Ward Relief Society.
Photograph submitted by Alyce B. Glade
BOISE STAKE (IDAHO) VISITING TEACHER CONVENTION
Left to right: Clara Anderson, visiting teacher message leader; Zola Jeppson, Coun
selor; Alyce B. Glade, President; Eugenia Carver, Counselor; Rachael Rich, Secretar)';
Marian Hugentobler, work director.
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Sister Glade reports: "The spiritual service elements of a visiting teacher conven-
tion, combined with the artistic appeal of a handicraft and hobby exhibit, made a most
successful event for the Boise Stake Relief Society. A capacity attendance was provided
by all wards and many guests. A missionary element was injected into the event with
Relief Society officers and visiting teachers bringing as guests nonmembers and inactive
member friends.
"All wards participated with attractive, unusual handicraft and hobby displays that
filled the recreation hall where the reception was held following a most inspiring spoken
and musical tribute to the service of the visiting teachers. In conclusion, President
Glade's tribute in verse was presented."
Photograph submitted by Nell Marie Benson
PALO ALTO STAKE (CALIFORNIA) AND MENLO PARK WARD OFFIGERS
IN RELIEF SOCIETY ROOM OF NEW STAKE CENTER
Dedicated February 25, 1962
Seated, left to right, Palo Alto Stake officers: Nell Marie Benson, President;
Patricia Jenson, First Counselor; Alicia Crofts, Second Counselor; Thelma Whitecar,
Secretary-Treasurer.
Standing, left to right, Menlo Park Ward Relief Society officers: Ann Lund,
President; Beth Jarrard, First Counselor; Dean White, Second Counselor; Marian Orton,
Secretary-Treasurer.
Sister Benson reports: "The sisters are seated in front of a representation of the
official Relief Society seal, which is designed in beautiful blue, white, and gold mosaic.
The idea for this distinctive work of art originated with Sister Ann Lund. It was
copied by a local artist and donated by the Menlo Park Relief Society for the new
room. This colorful seal has stimulated great interest in our work from visitors and
investigators."
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Photograph submitted by Ilah K. Smith
DENVER STAKE (COLORADO) RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING MOTHERS
PRESENT MUSIC FOR QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, November 13, 1961
Seated in the front row, left to right: Elva Wright, Education Counselor; Ilah K.
Smith, President, Denver Stake Relief Society; Ruby Scott, Work Director Counselor;
Reta Beck, chorister; Daisy Corlock, organist; Becky Christensen, organist.
Sister Smith reports: ''This lovely group presented the music for stake quarterly
conference, November 13, 1961. They sang, 'Oh, May I Know the Lord as Friend'
and 'The Battle Hymn of the Republic.' These songs were learned in the wards, and
a lovely rendition was given by the stake group, with only a limited number of stake
practices. All six wards and two branches, a total of eight units, were represented."
Photograph submitted by Elva G. Ravsten
SOUTHERN STATES MISSION, NORTH ALABAMA DISTRICT SINGING
MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR DISTRICT CONFERENCE
November 5, 1961
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455
Front row, left to right: Thora Nichols; Georgia Stacey; Jean Riley; Carol Simley;
Elva G. Ravsten, President, Southern States Mission Relief Society; Norma Johns;
Pernie Newbold; Joy Densmore, chorister.
Second row, left to right: Nell Martin; Lois Acker; Nora Huddleston; Ethel Lillis;
Essie Cummings; Jetta Lowther.
Third row, left to right: Charlene Williams; Dora Tuberville; Alice Collins; Sarah
Vines; Elinor Robinson.
Fourth row, left to right: Jessie Sanders; Hazel Jex; Ida Mae Morton; Nettie Stock-
man; organists Sally Cummings and Sue Ellen Tuberville.
Sister Ravsten reports: ''We are very happy with our Relief Society Singing
Mothers. A year ago we didn't have a Singing Mothers chorus in the North Alabama
District. With faith that the Lord would help us if we did our part, we organized a
Singing Mothers chorus, and for the last two district conferences, these mothers have
presented the music. The music was beautiful, and the sweet spirit and humility of
these sisters opened the way for the spirit of the Lord to be with us."
Photoerraph submitted by Vonda H. Christensen
SOUTH SANPETE STAKE (UTAH), AND WARD WORK MEETING
LEADERS DISPLAY HANDWORK AT VISITING TEACHER CONVENTION
November 18, 1961
Left to right: Christine Allred, Ephraim North Ward; Kit Barton, Manti North
Ward; Lenore Dennison, Manti South Ward; Marzetta Willardsen, South Sanpete Stake
work meeting leader; Naomi Davis, Manti Center Ward; Marcel Poulson, Ephraim South
Ward; Jessie Bradley, Sterling Ward; Ada Larsen, Ephraim West Ward.
Vonda H. Christensen, President, South Sanpete Stake Relief Society, reports that
many beautiful articles of handwork were on display at the visiting teacher convention.
Included were many lovely aprons, quilts, stuffed toys, artificial flowers, and paintings.
The women of the stake were privileged to hear a message of inspiration and
encouragement from General President Belle S. Spafford, who was guest speaker at the
convention.
LESSON DEPARTMENT
Audio-Visual Teaching Materials for the
1962-1963 Lessons
"THE BETTER FOR YOU TO SEE AND HEAR, MY DEARS"
Alice L. Wilkinson
Member, General Board of Relief Society
AUDIO - visual teaching ma-
terials, when wisely and skill-
fully used, will give life and
lasting interest to all lessons taught
in Relief Society. Today, they are
accepted as important teaching tools,
and their use can be easily justified
if we remember that we can learn
more quickly if we can see what is
being explained orally.
A great impetus in the use of
audio-visual materials has been noted
since World War 11. Reports indi-
cate that with their use time re-
quired to train men for the armed
services was cut as much as thirty
to forty per cent. Some authorities
say that eighty-five to ninety per cent
of what an ordinary person learns is
through the eye. We often hear
the expression, ''I can remember
your face, but I can't remember
your name." This is evidence that
an impression through sight is more
permanent than one received
through hearing. With so much to
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learn about our gospel and the many
things which enrich our lives, we, as
Relief Society class leaders, dare not
neglect the fastest and most perma-
nent method at hand.
The reasons why our learning
processes are stepped up by the use
of audio-visual materials have been
stated in previous articles published
in The Relief Society Magazine, a
list of which is given at the end of
this article. But for the sake of many
new class leaders who are entering
upon their first teaching experience,
it may be well to review them here.
1. They arouse interest.
2. They focus attention.
They stimulate thought.
They clarify a point.
They help to retain ideas.
They stimulate imagination.
They recall experiences.
They save time.
They provide student activity.
They complement and enrich other
methods.
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4-
5-
6.
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8.
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10.
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There are many materials from
which to choose, but the ones most
suitable for use in Relief Society
are:
1. Blackboard
The blackboard is one of the most
common, inexpensive, but versatile,
visual aids. Most of our ward chap-
els are being equipped with perma-
nent blackboards in classrooms.
There are also portable blackboards
which rest on an easel or are built
on a frame. The blackboard can be
used in presenting an outline, keep-
ing a question or problem before the
group during the discussion, making
a drawing or sketch which helps ex-
plain an idea, enlisting interest by
focusing attention on what is being
put on the board, summarizing the
lesson, and for many other purposes.
A class leader would do well to use
the blackboard regularly and for at
least one thing during each lesson
presentation.
2. Maps: FJat Relief or Globe
Maps are an important item in
understanding the circumstances sur-
rounding history. They will be of
particular value this year in theology
and literature. A map of the Unit-
ed States, indicating the location of
Independence, Missouri, the pre-
dicted center place of Zion, in rela-
tion to the rest of the country,
would be helpful in presenting the-
olog)' lessons 41 and 42. The same
, map could be used to point out the
I movement of the Church westward
from New York to Missouri.
3. Pictures: Photographs, Paintings,
Cartoons, Drawings, Pictures horn
Newspapers, Magazines, or Books
Pictures serve as good substitutes
for first-hand experiences. They may
vitalize, clarify, and focus attention
upon the purpose of the lesson. They
should be artistic and colorful, of
high qualitv, and accurate in detail.
Pictures are usually inexpensive and
easily obtained, and may be used to
illustrate a multitude of ideas. A
picture of the seamed, burdened face
of Abraham Lincoln reflects his
stmggle to keep the United States a
single republic. Pictures of foods
and household items attract our eyes
to advertisements of products com-
peting for our attention and money.
A picture kit for this year's litera-
ture lessons is being prepared. It
consists of a large picture of each
author discussed, a print of Walden
Pond for the Thoreau lessons, and
an illustration for the lesson on
Moby Dick. The lesson an Abra-
ham Lincoln will be given in
February when school and com-
munity libraries will be featuring
Lincoln exhibits. Look for additional
material in magazines and news-
papers at that time.
4. Charts
Charts, whether single or in a
series, are very convenient teaching
aids because of their permanency
and portability. Prepared in ad-
vance, charts save teaching time and
are effective in listing ideas or pre-
senting summaries. Printed card
charts with important key words and
ideas displayed on a stand-up paste-
board easel help to guide a group
discussion.
Charts should be simple. Don't
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try to tell the whole story on one
page. Remember, if you want your
chart to be read, be brief and illus-
trate only the important points.
Charts may prove helpful in the
social science lessons this year.
5. Bulletin Boards
It is recommended that every
ward Relief Society have a bulletin
board with someone in charge of
keeping it attractive and up to date.
It can be a valuable teaching and
training aid as well as a promotional
and advertising aid. Magazine rep-
resentatives will find unlimited use
for it.
6. Posters
Posters are used widely in com-
mercial advertising. The same prin-
ciples can be adapted to religious
education. The message of a poster
should be obvious at a glance. Post-
ers would be helpful for work meet-
ing lessons and Magazine promo-
tion.
7. The Flannel Board
The flannel board is recognized as
one of the most valuable aids in story
telling. The value of the flannel
board depends upon the quality of
the pictures used and the skill of
the person using it. The flannel
board consists of a board usually
about two by three feet in size,
covered with a piece of flannel cloth.
Pictures, which have flannel pasted
on the back of them, are placed on
the board as needed. Each picture
is a cut-out of a person, object, or
scene and is manuevered to illustrate
the point which the story is trying
to emphasize. It creates motion and
attracts considerable attention. Re-
member to keep the presentation
simple; keep the flannel board un-
cluttered and do not use too many
figures. The flannel board could be
effectively used in this year's work
meeting lessons.
Other suggested materials, more
expensive, but very helpful if they
can be afforded, are filmstrips, slides,
opaque projectors, and recordings.
Remember there is no ''best type"
visual aid. Different situations
require different aids. The best
judgment of the teacher should
determine the one to be used. A
motion picture may be ideally suited
to one situation, while a chart or a
flannel board will be most effective
in another situation. Each aid se-
lected for use in a particular lesson
must contribute directly toward the
development of the objective of that
lesson.
The resourceful class leader will
begin early to collect and classify her
materials. As soon as the lesson pre-
views are published, she should be
alert to those helps that will enrich
her teaching plans. She should
read each individual lesson as soon
as it is published, in order to give
further thought, organization, and
preparation to her materials. The
ward leader should consult her
stake leader as to the suitability and
appropriateness of her materials in
the leadership meeting. It is there
that she may also get ideas from
other ward leaders.
Remember! Although visual aids
are an efficient supplement, they are
not a substitute for good teaching.
They are only aids to instruction,
a means to an end. Too often a
teacher will use visual materials as
a ''crutch" upon which to lean,
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expecting them to speak for them- fully integrated with that method,
selves. Under such circumstances they give warmth and sparkle and
they are valueless. They do not exist permanence to what every eager,
by themselves, but are only a part understanding Relief Society class
of a teaching method. When skill- leader would have her sisters learn.
The following articles on this subject have appeared in The Relief Society Magazine:
'The Value and Use of Audio-Visual Teaching Aids in Relief Society," January
1953, page 27, by Leone G. Layton.
"Suggestions on Teaching Aids for the 1953-54 Lessons," June 1953, page 418,
by Leone G. Layton.
"Teaching Aids for the 1954-55 Lessons," June 1954, page 400, by Edith S.
Elliott.
"Teaching and Teaching Aids for the 1955-56 Lessons," June 1955, page 403,
by Mildred B. Eyring.
"Audio-Visual Aids for 1956-57," July 1956, page 475, by Mildred B. Eyring.
"Teaching Aids for the 1957-58 Lessons," June 1957, P^§^ 39^' ^7 M^^y R. Young.
"Teaching Aids for the 1958-59 Lessons," June 1958, page 399, by Mary R.
Young.
"Using the Blackboard in Teaching Lessons in the Relief Society," April i960,
page 228, by William E. Berrett.
Theology— The Doctrine and Covenants
PREVIEW OF LESSONS FOR 1962-63
Elder Roy W. Doxey
Xl/'ITH the exception of one of the gathering of God's people. The
the revelations to be studied Lord has revealed in our dispensa-
during the next eight lessons, they tion that men would seek peace but
were all received in the month of they would find it only in Zion. The
August 1831. All of these revela- splendor of this city would be known
tions were received in the State of to the world in the days of millen-
Missouri, except one. Since the nial peace, and the righteous laws
publication of The Book of Mor- to govern the earth, emanating from
mon, the members of the Church that place, would be acclaimed by
had looked forward to learning the men. Its place in the future is
location of the promised city of assured— a capital of the world when
Zion also known as the New Jeru- Jesus Christ reigns— and the saints
salem. Prophets of The Book of will build it. See Micah 4:2;
Mormon had indicated that this 3 Nephi 20:21-22.)
New Jerusalem would be located During the short period of the
upon the American Continent. ( See Prophet's sojourn in Missouri at this
Ether 13:6.) Bible prophets had time, the Lord revealed the location
'spoken and sung of the glories of of the city of Zion, something of its
this city that would be a place of future glory, and that the covenant
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members of the Church are commit-
ted to make preparations diligently
for the building up of the city of
Zion and, in the larger sense, of
working for the cause of Zion or the
advancement of the general purposes
of the kingdom of God.
The important truth is developed
in another lesson that the saints are
to exercise their abilities without
being commanded in all things. The
living of the laws of the land is to
characterize the obedient Church
member. One of the oft-discussed
and important revelations was re-
vealed for the benefit of the saints
at this time. Eight obligations of the
member in observing the Sabbath
day are discussed in one lesson, and
another is devoted to the blessings
which follow proper observance of
this and other commandments.
Some Church members of this
period, as well as some today, neg-
lected fully to comprehend their
calling in the Church to exercise
their talents in behalf of their fel-
low men. For this they were called
to repentance, and, thus, we of a
later period, may benefit from the
revelation dealing with this problem.
Another lesson discusses one of
the signs of the last days, arising out
of an unusual circumstance experi-
enced by the Prophet's party en
route to the East from Missouri.
The prophetic warnings voiced in
The Doctrine and Covenants give
the faithful a better appreciation of
the Lord's concern for his people
and the ultimate triumph of his
work on the earth. That these pre-
dictions are in the process of ful-
fillment is known to those who are
looking to these signs as harbingers
of the second coming of Christ.
The two concluding lessons for
the year come from one section of
The Doctrine and Covenants. From
the beginning, there have been those
who have sought after signs (mir-
acles), in order to satisfy their curi-
osity. The Church of Jesus Christ
of Latter-day Saints has not been
free from these individuals. We
learn that signs will be known to
the member of the Church and the
Lord has provided many signs for
the world as an evidence and witness
of the restoration of the gospel. Be-
cause the saints were desirous of
learning many things pertaining to
the future, this same revelation satis-
fied their longings for further in-
formation about the last days.
The lesson is also taught that great
care must be exercised in speaking
about sacred things, for people will
find condemnation in their irrever-
ence.
The 1962-63 series of lessons have
been given the following titles and
objectives:
Lesson 41 — The Center Place of
Zion (D & C 57; 58:1-4).
Objective: To learn that ancient
prophets foresaw the New Jerusalem
on the American Continent, and that
the Lord's promise concerning Zion
will not go unfulfilled.
Lesson 42 — ''Engaged in a Good
Cause" (D & C 58:15-65).
Objective: To show that obedience to
the Lord's commandments invohes
working for the cause of Zion.
Lesson 43 — The Day of Rest and
Devotions (D & C 59:1-14).
Objective: To learn what the Lord
has said regarding rest from labors and
the Sabbath Day.
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461
Lesson 44 — Rewards of Keeping
the Commandments (D & C 59:15-
24).
Objective: To learn the promises of
the Lord for the faithful who keep
his commandments.
Lesson 45 — Talents and Testi-
monies (D & C 60 and 62) .
Objective: To understand that talents
are to be used in the Lord's service
in testifying of his power.
Lesson 46 — The Waters and the
Land (D & C61).
Objective: To learn that although
one of the signs of the last days is
destruction on the waters, yet the
Lord warns and protects the faithful.
Lesson 47 — The Sign Seeker (D &
C 63:1-21).
Objective: To learn that the person
of faith is justified by the Lord, but
the sign seeker is condemned by the
Lord.
Lesson 48 — Give Heed to Warn-
ings and Trifle Not With Sacred
Things (D& 063:22-66).
Objective: To realize that to redeem
Zion peaceful means were to be used;
that wars would plague the world until
the Savior comes; that there would
come a time of peace during the mil-
lenium; and to know the seriousness
of blasphemhig sacred things.
Visiting Teacher Messages
Truths to Live By
From The Doctrine and Covenants
PREVIEW OF MESSAGES FOR 1962-63
Christine H. Robinson
T^HIS year's visiting teacher mes-
sages 'Truths to Live By From
The Doctrine and Covenants" are
taken from Sections 58 to 62. In
describing some of the conditions
and circumstances under which
these five revelations were given, the
Prophet Joseph Smith emphasized
the fact that in the earlv davs of the
Church ''there was a great anxiety
to obtain the word of the Lord upon
every subject that in any way con-
cerned our sah'ation" (D.H.C. I:
207).
The chief emphasis in this year's
messages is on some of the principles
of living which affect our salvation.
They stress particularly the personal
blessings that come from effective
and productive work. For example,
they emphasize that we should keep
ourselves ''anxiously engaged" in
good works. They point out that
works of righteousness bring rich
personal rewards and they alert us
to the great value of the gift of time
and urge us to use it wisely in the
quest for eternal values.
These messages exhort us to be
cheerful, prayerful, and faithful.
They also point out the importance
of being industrious in the applica-
tion of self-initiative. They stress
the extent to which personal salva-
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tion depends upon applying to our-
selves the eternal principle of
repentance.
As with all Doctrine and Coven-
ants teachings these messages, al-
though they deal with enduring and
eternal truths, are modern scriptures
and their application is particularly
appropriate in our lives today. If
we follow their teachings they will
help us find right solutions to our
problems and help us build lives on
solid foundations which will bring
us joy and happiness, not only in
this life but throughout eternity.
The messages and their objectives
for 1962-1963 are as follows:
Message 41— ''Men Should Be Anx-
iously Engaged in a Good Cause"
(D& C 58:27).
Objective: To demonstrate that the
best cause in which we can be anxious-
ly engaged is that of giving love and
service to others.
Message 42 — ''He Who Doeth the
Works of Righteousness Shall Re-
ceive His Reward'' (D & C 59:23).
Objective: To describe specific qual-
ities and works which help to build
righteous living.
Message 43— "Be of Good Cheer''
(D & C 61:36).
Objective: To point out that cheer-
fulness is an important element of
the gospel's teachings. The Lord
wants us to be of good cheer.
Message 44— "Thou Shalt Not Idle
Away Thy Time" (D & C 60:13).
Objective: To emphasize the import-
ance of utilizing our time wisely and
to the best possible advantage.
Message 45— "Pray Always That You
Enter Not Into Temptation" (D &
C 61:39).
Objective: To show that prayer is
the shield the Lord provides to help
us overcome temptation.
Message 46— "He Who Has Re-
pented of His Sins, the Same Is For-
given and I, the Lord, Remember
Them No More" (D & C 58:42).
Objective: To show how greatly we
are blessed through the divine prin-
ciple of repentance.
Message 47— "It Is Not Meet That
I Should Command in All Things"
(D& C 58:26).
Objective: To emphasize the fact that
it is through the exercise of free
agency that we dexelop initiative and
self-reliance.
Message 48— "Inasmuch As They
Are Faithful They Shall Be Pre-
served, and I, the Lord, Will Be
With Them" (D & C 61:10).
Objective: To emphasize the fact that
the Lord's protecting spirit gives the
faithful strength to meet life's prob-
lems.
Work Meeting -The Latter-day Saint Home
PREVIEW OF DISCUSSIONS FOR 1962-63
Dr. Viiginia Farrer Cutler
Objective: To show how the Latter-day Saint home may set an example in
homemaking.
home stand apart from all other
homes in the \\orld. The Latter-day
Saint wants his home to be the set-
ting for glorious family living, where
AMILIES are for-
ever" is one of the
beliefs that make the
Latter - day Saint
LESSON DEPARTMENT 463
love, good will, and creative working work may be done in a hurry, is
together develop the eternal bond more interesting, less enslaving,
between parents and children. Some more complicated, and at the same
so-called homes today are not much time easier than e\'er before. There
more than ''filling stations" where are new systems of marketing, new
family members drive in, fill up, and foods and new methods of preparing
blow out. Others are ''quick change" them. There are new mechanical
places where the main function is devices to master if she is to make
to get ready to go some other place, the most of the homemaking pro-
Latter-day Saints will guard against fession today,
the disruptive influences that scat- The eight discussions in this
ter the interests of family members series will draw information from
to the far corners, leaving the home many sources in order to give the
bare; contrariwise, thev will exert Relief Societv member a sound basis
every effort to make the home the on which to evaluate her home in
matrix around which all else re- relation to the Latter-day Saint
volves. The home then becomes ideal; help her to set some goals for
the place where each person feels improvements; and help her gain
secure and understood; the place some skill as a home manager in
where Latter-day Saint values, inher- working with her family to achieve
ent in the good life, are nurtured, these goals. A different method will
Such homes do not just happen — be used in presenting each discus-
it takes study, planning, and good sion. There will be a flip chart, a
management to bring them about. blackboard, a home values test, a
Other factors needed are suggested sociodrama, a demonstration, a hid-
by an old adage : "The laborer works den panel, and a symposium. In
with his hands; the craftsman works each case, there will be a "buzz"
with his hands and his head; the session during the work period fol-
artist works with his hands and his lowing the lesson in order that
head and his heart." Surely, to points presented may be discussed
realize fully the objective of an ideal and elaborated upon, and that there
Latter-day Saint home, every family may be a sharing of ideas about
member must work with his hands how to put the new suggestions into
! and his head and his heart. practice.
In pioneer days, mothers handed Does our familv time schedule
their recipes down to their daugh- need reorganizing in order that our
ters, and young brides patterned home may be kept clean and be^u-
their homes after those of their par- tiful and provide a suitable setting
ents. The homemaker had an for our familv activities? Are we
1 abundance of time but little money living within our income and mak-
and equipment to work with; in very ing the most of all of our resources?
deed, "woman's work was never Is each member growing in under-
done." Today's homemaker, with her standing, unselfishness, love, honor,
many-sided role, has less time for and in being a responsible person?
homemaking but more money and The discussions will help members
i equipment than her pioneer counter- to know what to do about these
part could have dreamed about. Her queries.
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The 1962-63 series of discussions
have been given the following titles
and objectives:
Discussion 1— The Latter-day Saint
Home Is Well-organized (Part I)
Objective: To show that successful
home management begins with happy,
wholesome family relationships.
Discussion 2— The Latter-day Saint
Home Is WeJJ-organfzed (Part II)
Objective: To show that our family
values are learned by working to-
ward estabhshing goals.
Discussion 3— The Latter-day Saint
Home Is WeJJ-organized (Part III)
Objective: To help us understand the
value of organizing our time.
Discussion 4— The Latter-day Saint
Home Is WeJI-organized (Part IV)
Objective: To show that decision-
making is the heart of good manage-
ment.
Discussion ^—The Latter-day Saint
Home Is Clean (Part I)
Objective: To show that a clean, well-
cared for home enhances its beauty
and uplifts the soul.
Discussion 6— The Latter-day Saint
Home Is Clean (Part II)
Objective: To show that a clean, well-
cared for home enhances its beauty
and uplifts the soul.
Discussion 7— The Latter-day Saint
Home Exemplifies Thiiit
Objective: To show that a family can
know the feeling of security through
work and the wise use of resources.
Discussion 8— The Latter-day Saint
Home Is a Training Ground
Objective: To show the importance of
home influence on the training and
growth of children.
Literature- America's Literature
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes,
Dryden Press, New York)
PREVIEW OF LESSONS FOR 1962-63
The New Birth of Freedom
Elder Briant S. Jacobs
EDUCATION, indeed all
existence, might be de-
fined as a never-ending
voyage into self - discov-
ery. And while each of us is moved
irresistibly forward with emerging
time, we best deepen and enrich our
present search for identity by con-
stantly returning to the past. The
future is fantasy, since it unfolds
itself to us only as an endless series
of present moments. The living
present alone seems real, but before
it is here it is blended and tempered
by all that is past, which it joins and
gives substance to. The past ap-
proached as a sympathetic friend
loyally tending to our every question
and sensitive response sustains our
imaginations and spirits with a
breadth of vision and a warmth of
understanding for all humankind. It
bequeaths to our life some of its
brightest joys and most enduring
LESSON DEPARTMENT
465
satisfactions. For those who ap-
proach the past in humihty and awe,
it yields superb cause for gratitude.
The accumulative growth of cen-
turies was culminated in the late
eighteenth century by the Founding
Fathers of the United States who
wrote down what Englishmen living
in New England had long known in
their hearts. It was they who gave
birth to the United States as a revo-
lutionary idea, as theory. Now it
remained for the nineteenth century
to fire these brittle theories in the
roaring furnace of a new age. ''As
our cause is new, so must we think
anew," wrote Lincoln, for his pio-
neering, conflicting century. Thus
fired and proved and strengthened,
old truths were born anew and the
maturing nation in conflict with her-
self attained a permanent maturity
heretofore unknown. Romantic
idealisms were moderated by ten-
sions of a new realism; major issues
and tensions increasingly became
those familiar to the twentieth cen-
tury.
The same ''great and marching
words'' of the glorious American
past were still present and dominant,
but in the mid-nineteenth century
they were redefined: reality, aristoc-
racy, wit, sin, nature, tradition, self-
reliance, time, space, brotherhood,
and freedom. The Civil War, that
livid saber-cut across the face of
American history, released pent-up
conflicts so complex and comprehen-
sive that a century has had to lapse
away before they could be seen from
a viewpoint even approaching a
trustworthy perspective. Its ac-
companying literature mirrors its
tumult and variety of values.
Through the living words of litera-
ture, we have access to this crucial
period now freed from the arbitrary
limitations of a place, a time, a
nationality.
During 1962-63 the following
authors will write to us and for us:
Lesson 33— Thoreau, Man in Nature
Objective: To feel and appreciate
Thoreau's "inexpressible satisfaction"
with the gift of life.
Lesson 34— Henry David Thoreau,
Individualist
Objective: To relive some of Tho-
reau's words, that we may feel the
force of his integrity and independ-
ence.
Lesson 35— The Alcott Family
Objective: To accept the Alcott home,
real and fictional, as a memorable
example of the unity which kindness
and love can create.
Lesson 36— Oliver WendeJJ HoJmes, ;
Amiable Amateur
Objective: To enrich our under- i
standing and enjoyment of Holmes' 1
wit and poetry by acknowledging the !
issues of his time which he repre- |
sented. ;
Lesson 37 — The Literary Lincoln
Objective: To establish a closer inter-
relationship between Lincoln's charac-
ter and his writings, that we may more
fully appreciate the genius of both.
Lesson 38— Herman MelviJJe
(1819-1891)
Objective: To become acquainted
with Melville as man and as Ameri-
can that we may better understand
the close relationship between his
life and his writings.
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Lesson 39— Melville's Masterpiece — Lesson 40— The Challenge of Walt
Moby Dick Whitman
Objective: lo enjoy sharing Moby Objective: To attempt a sympathetic
Dick either with the first reader or approach to Whitman, thaf we may
with the devotee. experience further insight into his
greatness.
Socia
bcience — Divine Law and Church
Government
PREVIEW OF LESSONS FOR 1962-63
Elder Ariel S. BbUH
Course Objective: To understand the law of God as it operates through his
Priesthood for the exaltation of his children.
jTTBT-TirBIP'nnj'jL
MANKIND has always
lived in group associa-
tion. Wherever this as-
sociation exists, some form
of regulation has been agreed up-
on. This represents man's effort
to govern or to give direction to
group interaction. The degree of
regulation has varied from simple
assent of the members of the group
to complete dominance by a limited
number. From this have developed
the most effective forms of govern-
ment that the group has been able
to produce.
The Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints maintains that man
is a creation of God, made in his
image, and entitled to God's wisdom
to assist and direct him to the full
expression of his capabilities. Man
was placed upon this earth with in-
struction for growth and advance-
ment given by the Creator himself.
Blessed with free agency and de-
signed to live in a society where
choice is assured, man has varied in
his response to the divine instruc-
tion. In doing so, he has lost
ground, in some instances to the
extent that he could hardlv be rec-
ognized in his behavior as the spirit
child of God the Eternal Father.
Whenever man has chosen to
operate on his own without the wis-
dom and counsel of God, he has
had to learn by trial and error. Ad-
vancement under these conditions
has been slow, with many receding
periods, never with the steady, con-
sistent, upward movement that
could have been his to enjoy through
obedience to divine law. When man
has recognized God and been in
tune wiui his mind and will, his
progress has been more directly up-
ward toward the glory of Godhood,
which is the design of the Creator.
We believe that God is the
Creator of this world and all life
upon it, including man. We believe
that there was purpose in the crea-
tion, not merely a chance arrange-
ment. This purpose includes the
opportunity for man to work out
his own salvation, to develop his
LESSON DEPARTMENT
467
talents and abilities toward perfec-
tion through learning, understand-
ing, and living the principles, laws,
and commandments governing the
attainment of eternal life revealed by
God. These revelations are the
mind and will of God. They are
divine law.
This three-year social science
course will present a study of the
law of God as it has been translated
into the government of his Church.
The effort will be to bring to the
membership of the Relief Society
a better understanding of his law as
it is expressed in Church govern-
ment, emphasizing women's respon-
sibility and privileges as set forth in
the relationship that exists between
the divine law and its expression in
Church government; in the organ-
ization and structure of the Church;
and in the function of Church gov-
ernment in relation to the children
of men.
The 1962-63 course is entitled
"The Foundation of Church Gov-
ernment." Its objective is to point
out that Church government is
founded upon the wisdom of God
expressed in divine law and is oper-
ative through the power of the
Priesthood for the welfare of man.
The lesson titles and objectives fol-
low:
Lesson 1— The Meaning of Divine
Objective: To establish in the mind
the sacred nature of Church govern-
ment through the definition of divine
law.
Lesson 2 — Divine Law and Human
Welfare
Objective: To make clear that divine
law was made for the benefit and
welfare of God's children.
Lesson -^—Divine Law and Human
Welfare (continued)
Objective: To estabhsh the impor-
tance of system and order in Church
government.
Lesson ^—Divine Law and Piiest-
hood
Objective: To show the place and
importance of Priesthood in carrying
out divine law.
Lesson 5— Application of the law in
the Dispensations of Man
Objective: To help realize that divine
law has operated from the beginning
of time.
Lesson 6— The Gradation of Divine
Law
Objective: To show the wisdom of
God in the application of divine law
to man.
Lesson y — Summary
Objective: To focus attention on the
importance of divine law as the basis
for Church government.
Notes on the Authors of the Lessons
T^HIS yeai^ one new writer is repre-
sented among the authors of
the lessons and introduced to read-
ers of the Magazine. A biographical
sketch of Dr. Virginia Farrer Cutler,
author of the work meeting discus-
sions, ''The Latter-day Saint Home/'
follows :
Dr. Virginia Farrer Cutler was
born in Park City, Utah. She was
awarded a B.S. degree and teaching
certificate from the U.niversitv of
Utah, and for three years was a
teacher of home economics in Utah
high schools. In 1929 she was mar-
ried to R. Garr Cutler. Their son
Robert was born in 1930, and a son
Garr was born in 1932, after the
death of the father. Later Mrs.
Cutler resumed her professional
career and continued her education.
She received a Master's degree from
Stanford University in 1937, ^^^ ^
Ph.D. from Cornell Universitv in
1946. For eight years she was pro-
fessor and head of the home eco-
nomics department at the University
of Utah. For seven years she served
in Southeast Asia as home eco-
nomics technical adviser for the
international co-operation adminis-
tration of the United States Gov-
ernment.
Devoted to the cause of educa-
tion, Mrs. Cutler has personally
established several scholarships in
home economics at various universi-
ties, and has contributed to other
scholarship projects. She has spon-
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sored and assisted in directing manv
special educational programs in
home economics. She helped to
plan the drive for funds to establish
the Sterling W. Sill Home Living
Center at the University of Utah,
and she was an unofficial consultant
for Brigham Young Universitv in
planning the Heritage Halls and the
College of Home and Familv Living.
Her publications have included a
large number of contributions to the
Cornell Press Bulletins, professional
home economics journals, and to
Latter-day Saint periodicals. She is
a member of Omicron Nu; Pi Lamba
Theta; Sigma Xi; Epsilon, Epsilon,
Epsilon; and other scholastic and
honorarv societies.
From 1947 to 1961, Mrs. Cutler
was a member of the General Board
of the Young Women's Mutual Im-
provement Association. Her sons
fulfilled missionarv assignments, one
in Germany and one in Austria. Garr
Cutler received his medical degree
from the University of Utah and is
now a member of the United States
Air Force Medical Corps. Robert
Cutler, who received his Ph.D. from
Princeton University, was a member
of President Kennedy's staff in the
Bureau of the Budget. He died in
January of 1962.
Mrs. Cutler was appointed dean
of the College of Family Living at
Brigham Young University in 1951,
and now makes her home in Provo,
Utah.
NOTES ON THE AUTHORS OF LESSONS
469
For biographical sketches of the
authors of the other lessons, see the
Notes in The Relief Society Maga-
zine, as follows:
Elder Roy W. Doxey, author of
the theology lessons, June 1957,
page 410.
Christine H. Robinson, author of
the visiting teacher messages, June
1957, page 412.
Elder Briant S. Jacobs, author of
the literature lessons, July 1949,
page 471.
Elder Ariel S. Ballif, author of the
social science lessons, June 1961,
page 420.
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Since the children are grown and gone.
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And the birds sing the same sweet song.
The evening star hangs over the mountain.
The whippoorwill calls to its mate.
The rising moon makes a path of gold
On the shimmering blue of the lake.
The place is flooded with memories,
Memories of each sister and brother.
Memories and love that take us back
To our old home, and Father and Mother.
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Trees of Mystery
Leia Foster Morris
These are the giant sequoias, ancient, majestic.
My heart is awed as I enter their cool tranquil shadows,
I am a small humble presence before their immensities;
There is no sound save for the drowsy buzz of a bee.
The silken rustle of ferns as a deer leaps
To the haven of dim lanes and forest pathways.
These mighty trunks are pillars that support
A lofty roof of interwoven boughs.
Far above twilight aisles that hold a sacred stillness,
For prayer and meditation an enduring sanctuary;
The cool moist earth is carpeted with velvet moss,
Violets and forest flowers that scent the air;
Man had no part in all this glorious creation.
In truth a temple wrought by God's own hand.
Here these towering sequoias stood in beauty,
Before the Master trod the paths of Palestine;
Since, nations have lived their day and
faded into oblivion.
Centuries, like great barges laden with the cares of men,
Have floated down time's stream into the mists,
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Monthly Publication of the Rehef Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford --------- President
Marianne C. Sharp - - - - . - First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen ------- Second Counselor
Hulda Parker -------- Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart Alberta H. Christensen Mary R. Young Elizabeth B. Winters
Edith S. ElUott Mildred B. Eyring Mary V. Cameron LaRue H. Rosell
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
Editor -------- Marianne C. Sharp
Associate Editor __--.------- Vesta P. Crawford
General Manager ------------ Belle S. Spafford
VOL 49
JULY 1962
NO. 7
Contents
SPECIAL FEATURES
In a Time of Flood Frances C. Yost 476
She Knew the Prophet Joseph Smith — Part IV — Mary Alice Cannon Lambert
Preston Nibley 482
Jesus and the Land He Loved Christine H. Robinson 409
FICTION
Out of the Wilderness — Chapter 1 Shirley Thulin 484
Mama and the Heavenly Father Alice Gubler 490
One of the Pioneers Adrian Hansen 495
Hand to the Plow — Part III — Decision Ilene H. Kingsbury 500
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 474
Sixty Years Ago 504
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 505
Editorial: A Sister to 231,174 Members Marianne C. Sharp 506
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 523
Birthday Congratulations 552
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
The Pea Patch Doris Duncan 498
Quick Recipes for Busy Days Janet W. Breeze 518
A Stitch in Time Adelle Ashby 520
Helen H. Allen — Historian and Needlecraft Artist 522
LESSONS FOR OCTOBER
Theology — The Center Place of Zion Roy W. Doxey 530
Visiting Teacher Messages — "Men Should Be Anxiously Engaged in a
Good Cause " Christine H. Robinson 536
Work Meeting — The Latter-day Saint Home Is Well-Organized — Part I
Virginia F. Cutler 537
Literature — Thoreau, Man in Nature Briant S. Jacobs 540
Social Science — The Meaning of Divine Ariel S. Ballif 545
POETRY
Summer Interval — Frontispiece Dorothy J. Roberts 473
Prayer for the Fourth Generation, by Eva Willes Wangsgaard, 489; Summer Evening in the
City, by Mabel Law Atkinson, 494; To the Sea Gull, by Clara Laster, 497; Commonplace Beauty,
by Susa Gould Walker, 507; David en the Low Hills, by Margery S. Stewart, 508; Beauty's
Bright Persistence, by Maude Rubin, 517; Beach Morning-Glories, by Ethel Jacobson, 517;
Pioneer Woman, by Marjorie Reay, 517; At Summer's Edge, by Linnie Fisher Robinson, 519;
The Apple Tree, by Evelyn Fjeldsted, 550; Child Swinging, by Ida Elaine James, 551; Mount
Timpanogos, by Christie Lund Coles, 551; Blessed Point of No Return, by Iris W. Schow, 552.
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(Bancroft, Idaho)
rROCHETING is good to
calm the nerves while wait-
ing. I crocheted a pair of
bootees waiting for my bishop hus-
band to come home the Saturday
evening of February lo, 1962. I
felt ioo cozy in our warm, comfort-
able home two miles south of
Bancroft, Idaho, for I knew only
too well what was taking place in
the village. People were sandbag-
ging and shoveling and hoping that
the temperature would drop and
freeze the water. It didn't. Instead,
the warm rain, pattering gently, en-
couraged more thawing and more
rising water. If it continued, and
it looked as if it would, the town
would turn into a huge lake.
Bancroft lies midway between
Soda Springs and Lava Hot Springs
on Highway 30N. It is the out-
growth of a water station built by
the railroad on Squaw Creek in
1882. Bancroft was named after the
first vice-president and general man-
ager of the Oregon Shortline.
Had the city of Bancroft been
planned, perhaps they would have
located it on a hill, or at least on a
rise. Instead, it mushroomed around
the railroad water stop in the lowest
part of the valley. Bancroft is cen-
trally located in a valley about the
size of the Great Salt Lake Valley.
The village population is five hun-
dred and varies very little from year
to year. Bancroft is truly the center
of the wheatfields surrounding it,
Page 476
and reaching skyscraperward, are
three grain elevators within its city
limits.
Spring runoffs are common in the
village. Whenever the ground is
frozen and does not absorb the mois-
ture in the winter wheatfields, a run-
off takes place. In the past years a
few basements have had some water,
and one street often turns into a
river of goodly proportions. But
never before had all the homes and
businesses been threatened, never
until the evening of February 10.
When Bishop Yost came home,
he said, ''I believe it's holding its
own. Wish the temperature would
drop.'' He ate, slept the sleep of
the exhausted for one hour, and
went back to town for the night, this
time wearing hip boots.
Brother Christensen, on the
eighth of February had stated, as he
visited at the post office, ''We're
going to have a runoff this year
worse than any we've ever had."
The Christensens have a lovely
home. They are always doing some-
thing on a do-it-yourself basis. They
had been wanting to excavate and
build another room in their base-
ment, but time had not yet permit-
ted it.
When the rain started, encourag-
ing the thaw, the Christensens diked
as much as the frozen ground would
allow. They even dug up some
choice lawn sod to use for diking;
but more dirt was needed, much
THE FEBRUARY 1962 FLOOD IN BANCROFT, IDAHO
Looking east, with the north direction at the left, and the south direction at
the right.
Photograph taken before the maximum water level.
The ward chapel, built ten years ago, may be seen in the right background, with the
schoolhouse just in front of it; one of the grain elevators may be seen in the left back-
ground; the building at the left center, surrounded by evergreens, is the city hall. High-
way 30N skirts the picture on the north, and the railroad track is just north of the
highway.
more dirt. They started digging
that room in the basement. There
were plenty of gunny sacks available
at the mill. But the mill was five
blocks downstream from the Chris-
tensens and definitely unavailable.
Sister Christensen started sewing
bags. She used old sheets, old cur-
tains, flour sacks, anything. Brother
Christensen and their Eagle Scout
son carried those filled sacks from
the basement out to the rising water.
The two younger children filled bags,
which Mother kept sewing. Tired
and exhausted, they worked almost
the clock around. This family won
the battle. The water stayed away
from their door.
Three blocks west, and one block
south from the Christensens, live the
Mickelsens. Three returned mis-
sionary sons turned to Sister Mickel-
sen and said: "Mother, there's no
use in the captain going down with
the ship. We're taking you out
while you can get out."
They made a chair for their
mother in their arms, and carried her
through the waist-high water to
safety. Then the sons went back to
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their home, carried the furniture up-
stairs, and pulled up the carpeting.
When finished, they went to help
their neighbors.
Sister Shamberg, a pretty young
widow with a scout son and a smaller
daughter, lives in a neat little white
frame house with blue trim. Those
who pass on Highway 30 notice the
Shamberg home because of its tidi-
ness. The house was built flush with
the ground, and when the water
started rising the evening of Febru-
ary 10, Sister Shamberg knew she
had trouble. Others had the same
trouble. She didn't ask for help.
She and her scout son diked and
diked. Thev even used a mattress
to block off the water. They put up
a battle, and it looked as if they were
winning, keeping the water away
from their home. Then swish!
swish! The floor boards gave way,
and in one sudden rush the water
filled the rooms to a two-foot level.
Sister Shamberg and the children
stayed on, stacked their furniture as
best they could, and when the men
came for them in a boat, they evacu-
ated their home.
So it was that 103 homes and
twenty-eight business houses had a
flood of water. Fortunate were the
few homes built high from the side-
walk, or in a slightly higher part of
town, which had no trouble. .The
families felt fortunate who could
say: 'It only came in our basement."
Many saw water covering their
carpets and climbing their pianos.
For a period of almost a week, the
village, which is so used to trains
passing at all hours, and so used to
highway trucks barrelling through,
was completely isolated. When the
Red Cross executive helicoptered in,
he was amazed at the fine organiza-
tion. He said: ''Usually we have to
evacuate people, set up refugee
shelters, and form bread lines. You
have done all this. How did you
organize so well?''
V\/^E had the finest organization
working on the earth — the
Priesthood! Families in the village
had gone to families on the farms.
Many more homes than were need-
ed had been offered. For the dura-
tion of the flood, and the rehabilita-
tion, the village board and the prin-
cipal of the school, worked hand in
glove with the Church leaders, for
the benefit of all. No one thought
of pay, all worked willingly and well.
Sharon Stanger and her two little
girls. Sherry Lynn and Stacy, came
home with Bishop Yost Sunday
evening. Their father Lynn stayed
in town to help out as needed, com-
ing out almost every evening to visit
with his family.
The young Stangers made their
home in a lovely trailer house. Had
they realized soon enough what was
going to happen waterwise, they
would have moved the mobile home
to high ground. Luckily, their home
floated much as Noah's ark, and had
little damage. However, it was six
days before the water subsided to
the point where they could go home.
Monday morning Marjorie and
Phil Ingersoll, with their two little
children, age three, and fourteen
months, came to be our guests. The
Ingersolls were entertaining a teen-
age group after the ball game, Satur-
day evening, February 10. Brother
Ingersoll is a salesman for high
school yearbooks and supplies. He
had box after box of class rings,
yearbook supplies and samples in his
basement. While the party was on,
A
IN A TIME OF FLOOD
479
the water rushed into the basement.
The boys forgot their clothes as
they waded in water, forming a res-
cue team up the stairway, and saved
several hundred dollars worth of
supplies. ''It was a blessing we had
that party, and had some help," the
Ingersolls said. ''We could never
have done it alone."
Sunday morning the water rose in
the Ingersoll home to the point
where they moved upstairs. Monday,
the furnace ceased to work. Brother
Ingersoll hailed a passing boat and
took his wife and children to the
school evacuation center.
As I watched them come to our
door, the words of my husband's
patriarchal blessing came to mind:
"You shall never be in want for the
necessities of life, shall accumulate
enough of the world's goods to pro-
vide for your family and those who
come to your door seeking assist-
ance." I welcomed them warmly.
It was a good week, one which I
shall never forget. We had plenty
of room for all, and one bed left
over. We had our supplies of food
on hand as the Church had sug-
gested, and we managed nicely.
\/\/HEN the Red Cross executive
helicoptered into town. Bish-
op Yost invited him to stay at our
home, as there was no hotel or mo-
tel available in Bancroft, due to the
flood. As the day progressed we
women wondered what he would be
like. We decided to wait and see.
If he were older, and distinguished,
or a bit sophisticated, he could have
the master bedroom. If he were
young and friendly, he could have
the bed upstairs. He never came.
Someone gave him a jeep ride to
Soda Springs.
Tuesday, I felt it would do Mar-
jorie, Sharon, and myself good to
get away from the house and the
children for a time. I suggested a
sight-seeing tour of Bancroft. My
teenage boys, who were having a
six-day vacation from school, not
only volunteered to tend the four
little children, but oflfered us their
car to go in. We took off, each in
a pair of snow boots, and one pair
of knee boots between us.
We were able to drive as far as
the schoolhouse. The day before,
the school had been accessible only
by boat. The streets resembled
those of Venice, but no gondolas
were available for sight-seeing.
We walked two or three blocks
skirting the water and inquired of all
we met, "How are you getting
along?" The Stanger and Ingersoll
homes were not accessible. I espe-
cially wanted to check personally on
Grandma Yost's home. Our parents
were in Arizona for the winter. We
walked two blocks west and inspect-
ed it. The basement was dry as a
bone. Sister Ingersoll, a music major
from the Brigham Young University,
sat down at Grandma Yost's little
organ and played, while Sharon and
I sang along.
Three homes belonging to elderly
couples who were wintering in Ari-
zona were untouched by the flood
waters. Some might call it coinci-
dence. We felt it was a blessing.
Some of the loveHest homes in
the town were hurt the most. One
modern, rambling-type brick home
had one wall caved in. We watched
for awhile as men were pumping out
the basement, and cleaning so that
they could put up two-by-fours to
hold the wall and the roof from cav-
ing in. Seeing such devastation to
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homes of those we knew and loved
was saddening indeed.
\/yEDNESDAY was Valentine
Day. The little children felt
disappointed that they had to miss
school on such a wonderful day.
Marjorie and Sharon and I won-
dered if the men in our lives would
remember us with a gift. We cer-
tainly didn't expect a thing with our
men working so hard at this reha-
bilitation work. I made cherry pies,
and we used the last of the ice
cream on hand for pie a la mode.
After supper, we sat around visiting
and joking, but mostly listening to
how the work was progressing in
town. That was the evening we
toured the White House with Mrs.
Kennedy by way of television. Yes,
sweethearts were remembered with
gifts, and my boys presented me with
a huge, heart-shaped box of candy.
IV/fONDAY evening the stake
president and his first counselor
came from Soda Springs to see
Bancroft's bishop. They had had to
come in a truck through high water.
When we went to the door to wel-
come them, they insisted on taking
off their hip boots in the utility
room. When they entered our big
kitchen, our threefold family was
sitting eating supper at the big
table. The little ones who had eat-
en earlier, were playing in the living
room. The quietest and most se-
cluded place in the house was the
master bedroom. As those three
men sat on the pink chenille bed-
spread, in work-worn clothes, I won-
dered if ever before a stake
presidency and bishop's meeting
had been held in just such a setting.
President Dredge stated that the
entire Church Welfare Program was
behind our ward. Bancroft mem-
bers who had always been on the
giving side of the Welfare Pro-
gram since its inception in 1936, saw
the wheat they had given through
the years come back in all sorts of
necessary supplies at this time. The
quotation ''Cast thy bread upon the
waters: for thou shalt find it after
many days," was literally being ful-
filled.
It was probably Tuesday evening
when Bishop Allen of the Soda
Springs Second Ward called. He
and Bishop Yost are as close as
brothers as they had served together
in the Idaho Stake presidency. Their
conversation went something like
this: ''Got any water down there?"
"It's a little swampy." "Our Relief
Society will be down tomorrow to
serve dinner to the work crew."
"That isn't necessary. Bishop Ro-
land, we're getting along just fine."
"I didn't ask you. Bishop Glenn, I'm
telling you."
The Relief Society came. Dinner
was served in the school lunch
room. It was not easy to bring food
through high water and women to
prepare it. The First Ward Relief
Society prepared dinner also. Then,
with the same helpful compassion,
the Ladies Aid of the Soda Springs
Presbyterian Church served dinner
one day also. Those hot meals at
noontime for six days were very
much appreciated. Some of those
days the work crews numbered 200.
Some of the men had no homes to
go to, some had come a long way
to help.
It would be ungrateful not to
mention also the fine work the Red
Cross did for the community. The
three Red Cross workers who were
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there were given the Latter-day
Saint stake office and all the class-
rooms they needed for their work.
They said never had they had such
nice office rooms. Often they
worked in tents.
/^OUNTED among our blessings
was the fact that our beautiful
Latter-day Saint chapel, built and
dedicated just ten years ago, was not
damaged. Not even one single
drop of water came in. Also, the
school was unharmed, though a little
water was pumped from the base-
ment of the school.
Sister Ingersoll's father came from
Boise for her and the children the
following Monday. They had been
with us a week, and we knew that
because of the experience we would
be lifelong friends. Her note from
Boise reads in part: ''We certainly
do appreciate ALL you did for us —
it's hard to name it all, but the list
goes like this: food, beds, friend-
ship, work, comfort, patience, and
on and on and on.''
CUNDAY the i8th, the men
ceased from their labors and most
of the Bancroft Ward members met
in sacrament meeting at two p.m. It
was easier to get around in the mid-
dle part of the day, for there was still
much water. Testimonies were
borne, and blessings expressed. The
town's people had been evacuated,
a major cleanup job had taken place,
with no drownings, no electrocu-
tions, no accidents. In fact, our
population increased by two mem-
bers, two baby girls were born at
the Caribou County Hospital in
Soda Springs on Valentine Day.
Our dear ward Relief Society pres-
ident, Sister Ramona McLain, is a
young and willing, lovely former
schoolteacher. She had served as
president about six months. She was
truly a wonderful mother of the
ward. Her own home housed
twenty-three extra people the night
of the worst flooding, though she,
with the others, had to evacuate the
following day.
With president, counselors, and
secretary, the Relief Society operated
a welfare store in the foyer of the
chapel. Folks did not flock in for
supplies. Bancroft folks are proud
and independent. Their bishop
went to the homes and invited them
to come and see what supplies they
needed . Especially were the juices
welcomed, as water was felt to be
unfit for consumption. As soon as
the local stores were able to open
for business, folks went back to the
regular channel for their groceries.
As the men finished pumping out
the basements, and the heavy clean-
up jobs were finished, the Relief
Society moved in with an organized
cleanup brigade. The many do-
nated hours spent would be hard
even to tabulate. One day the Pri-
mary officers and teachers spent the
day cleaning the theater. It was
found that folks enjoy working, as
well as visiting at a quilting.
The Flood of Sixty-two will long
be a conversation piece in our area,
but not with long faces, for we know
from experience that many blessings
and friendships come from such
times of disaster!
she Knew the Prophet Joseph Smith
Part IV- Mary Alice Cannon Lambert
Pieston Nihley
Assistant Church Historian
THE PROPHET JOSEPH SMITH
Crayon Portrait by an unknown artist,
probably taken from the Piercy drawing
pubhshed originally in 1855.
A/TRS. Mary Alice Cannon Lam-
bert was born in Liverpool,
England, on December 9, 1828. She
was the eldest daughter of George
and Ann Quayle Cannon.
Through the missionary efforts of
Elder John Taylor, a member of the
Council of the Twelve, the parents
and three of the children were con-
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verted and baptized in 1840. In
1842, the entire family, which con-
sisted of the parents and six children,
set sail for America by way of New
Orleans. During the voyage of
eight weeks, the mother died and
was buried at sea. The family con-
tinued on and reached Nauvoo,
where a home was established. They
were prospering fairly well when
another tragedy befell them — the
father died in August 1844, ^^^ ^^^
children were left as orphans.
Two of the older children now
found a home with John Taylor, and
Mary Alice established her own
home through her marriage to a
young English convert named
Charles Lambert. The Lamberts
made a home for the younger Can-
non children. Mary Alice was a
heroic young woman.
After the Lambert family emi-
grated to Utah, they became pros-
perous and independent. In 1905,
Mrs. Lambert wrote the following
tribute to the Prophet Joseph Smith,
whom she remembered when she
was a growing girl in Nauvoo. The
article was published in the Young
Woman's Journal in December
1905. Mrs. Lambert died in Salt
Lake City in 1920.
'1 first saw Joseph Smith in the
Spring of 1843. When the boat in
which we came up the Mississippi
River reached the landing at Nau-
voo, several of the leading brethren
were there to meet the company of
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saints that had come on it. Among
those brethren was the Prophet Jo-
seph Smith. I knew him the in-
stant my eyes rested upon him, and
at that moment I received my testi-
mony that he was a Prophet of God,
for I never had such a feehng for
mortal man as thrilled my being
when my eyes first rested upon Jo-
seph Smith. He was not pointed
out to me. I knew him from all the
other men, and, child that I was (I
was only fourteen), I knew that I
saw a Prophet of God.
''Many, many times between the
time I reached Nauvoo and his mar-
tyrdom, I heard him preach. The
love the saints had for him was in-
expressible. They would willingly
have laid down their lives for him.
If he was to talk, every task would
be laid aside that they might listen
to his words. He was not an ordi-
nary man. Saints and sinners alike
felt and recognized a power and in-
fluence which he carried with him.
It was impossible to meet him and
not be impressed by the strength of
his personality and influence.
''In May, 1844, he went to the
stone shops where the men were
working on the Nauvoo Temple
and blessed them, each man by the
power of his Priesthood. Brother
Lambert (whom I afterward mar-
ried) he gathered right in his arms
and blessed, and it was ever his testi-
mony that he was thrilled from head
to foot by that blessing.
"I well remember the night of the
MARY ALICE CANNON LAMBERT
Prophet's death. The spirit of un-
rest was upon all, man and animal,
in the city of Nauvoo. Why, we
did not know, but we could not rest.
My father was on guard. No one
in the house had slept, the dogs were
noisy, and even the chickens were
awake.
"About 3 o'clock the news of the
martyrdom was brought to us, and
we realized what had kept us
awake. And oh, the mourning in
the land! The grief felt was beyond
expression — men, women and chil-
dren, we were all stunned by the
blow" (Young Woman's Journal,
December 1905).
Out of the Wilderness
H
Chapter i
Shirley Thulin
MARIAN pulled another length
of tissue from the roll and
carefully wrapped it around
the cutglass candleholder. She
placed it beside its mate deep with-
in the old trunk and reached for the
matching fruit dish. It is like wrap-
ping little pieces of myself and tuck-
ing them away in a dark place, she
thought.
The ring of the phone suddenly
pierced the silence of the room.
"Hello."
''Marian, what are you doing? I
saw Fred today and he told me you
had signed a lease on your home."
Marian was silent so long that the
voice on the other end of the line
said her name twice before she could
answer.
"I am going, Charles. I have to."
"You must be out of your mind.
How can you and the children pos-
sibly . . . ?" His voice was going on
and on, but she wasn't listening. She
already knew what he would say
when he found out she had decided
to go. They had talked about it and
he couldn't understand, and she
couldn't explain . . . not quite even
to herself, let alone to Charles.
But Marian had made up her
mind she was going to the mine for
the summer, as David had wanted
her to do for so many summers . . .
and only after his death had she
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realized how much it had meant to
him. That was the thing that had
been so hard for her. The self-
accusations, the regrets. . . . She
knew now that she had cheated
David out of their summers, and at
the same time had blamed him for
their separation each year. She knew
he had to do the assessment work or
lose the mine. But she had argued
each time as he was packing to go
. . . tried to get him to sell the land
and hadn't realized how much she
had pained him.
"Why, you've never tangled with
anything bigger or more fierce than
a ladybug, Marian, you . . ." Charles'
voice brought her back.
"Please, Charles. I know the
things you are saying are true." Her
words were slow and deliberate, they
had to be to keep her voice from
trembling. "But it's just for the
summer. Nothing too drastic can
happen to us in that short a time."
Had she heard herself correctly? Had
she really said, that short a time,
when deep within her she knew that
from the loth of June until the last
of August would be an eternity.
"I'm going to the mine for the sum-
mer, Charles, and Jimmy's going to
do the assessment work that needs
to be done to keep the property."
There was a tone of finality to her
words.
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485
' ' I IMMY'S just a kid, he can't. . . .
Tell you what. Fll look around
for someone you can hire. . . J*
''No, Charles, we can manage
fine. Everything's been arranged.''
She couldn't tell him there was no
money with which to hire someone.
David's insurance would be enough
to live on fairly comfortably, but
there would be no money for such
extras. ''J^"^'^ fourteen now, and
he's been going with his father every
summer since he was nine. He says
he knows what to do. . . ." Tears
were threatening, but she made her-
self go on. '1 . . . I've got to let
him try."
Charles was the silent one now.
Then he said, ''Marian, I'm going to
miss you ... I had some plans. . . ."
Marian's heart warmed. Charles
had never mentioned anything be-
fore about the two of them. . . .
"It's too soon for plans, Charles,"
Marian told him, and a wave of
helplessness came over her.
"But there isn't time . . . you're
going. ... I know I'm saying this
badly, but, Marian, you need some-
one ... we both do."
Yes, she needed someone. She felt
so lonely and lost this last year. She
was thirty-four, and that should be
old enough to take care of herself,
but she had always been so depend-
ent. David had been so good to
her . . . had seen to everything . . .
had done the worrying for both of
them. True, she had been alone
each summer, but she had been able
to cope with being alone in the city,
with all the conveniences at her
fingertips. If only he hadn't spoiled
me so, she thought.
"I can't bear to have you and the
children go away," Charles was say-
ing. "How will you manage there in
the wilderness?"
Marian smiled to herself. "It
isn't a wilderness. It's only seven-
teen miles from a little community."
There she went again. . . . Only
seventeen miles . . . that same
stretch of road had seemed like a
thousand miles to her when she had
honeymooned there fifteen years
ago, as Mrs. David Morgan. She
had wanted to go to a fine hotel in
some large city or to a beach resort,
and though she had tried to hide
her disappointment, David had
known, and that had been the last
time he had taken her any place she
had not wanted to go.
"How will you manage?" Charles
was asking again. And she couldn't
answer him, dared not let herself
think about how she was going to
manage.
"Thanks, Charles, for being con-
cerned, and ... for caring . . ." her
voice stopped. It was nice to have
someone care. Maybe if he had said
something sooner, but now her plans
had been made.
ly/f ARIAN thought back. Charles
Neering had moved into the
ward about seven years ago, when
his wife died. His grown daughter
had come and stayed with him to
help him adjust. Then, when she
had to go back East to finish her
schooling, he was left alone. He
kept busy with his work and his
Church duties, though, and was
always on hand whenever anyone
needed him. And since David's ac-
cident, he had been the rock of
Gibralter to Marian and her family.
But the memory of David was still
too vivid to her. They had had
such a beautiful life together, begin-
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ning with their temple marriage, and
they had six wonderful children.
Charles was a city dweller, as
Marian was, and David loved the
mountains. If only she had gone
with him back to Montana each
summer. . . . But it was too late for
regrets. She could only try to make
it up to him, somehow, by teaching
his children to love the things he
had loved ... by taking Jimmy back.
''When are you leaving?"
"In the morning ... on the 8:15
train/'
"Is someone meeting you in Mon-
tana?"
"Jim knows the stationmaster. He
sent him a letter." She tried to
sound casual, as though she crossed
two states with six children every
day in the week, but she couldn't
remember exactly what Jim had said
they would do when they got there.
"Fll come by and take you to the
station," he offered.
"Thanks, I was wondering what to
do, now that we have no car."
"Fll bring the pick-up," he said,
but she knew he was thinking, see,
you can't even make it to the station
without help.
"Thanks," was all she could say.
She hung up, wearily.
"Mommy." It was Jill waking
from her nap. "What are we doing?
Our house is all messed up."
Marian picked up the chubby
three-year-old and nestled her nose
in the warm little neck. "I know it
is, sugar. Mommy's packing." Then
she thought, oh, darling, how am I
going to manage in the wilderness?
Quickly she busied herself so the
tears would not start. She wrapped
the household items, mostly wed-
ding gifts, and packed them away as
she had had to pack away her life
with David.
The screen door banged, and she
knew from the eager footsteps it was
Jim.
"Hi, Mom, how's the packing?"
"Fine, almost through now." He
is smiling . . . his old, eager smile,
thought Marian. It's good to have
him smile like that again.
"Where're we going to put all
these trunks and boxes?" He was
standing in the middle of the room
with his hands on his hips, looking
around him.
"We're going to take these boxes
with us, and Petersons said we could
use that little room in the base-
ment to store the rest. He will put
a lock on the door for me. How
was the last day of school?"
"Fine . . . good marks in every-
thing. . . . I'm sure glad Petersons
are moving in to take care of the
place. When will their house be
finished?"
"The last of August."
"Works out just right. . . . Shall
I take these things down now?"
"Not yet. I want to label them
so I'll know where everything is."
"Mom," Jimmy put his hand on
her shoulder, "is something wrong?
You look worried."
Marian looked up into the sol-
emn young face. "Jimmy, I'm not
worried, it's just that, that I'm not
exactly the out-door type. . . . There
will be so many things to get used
to."
"No, there won't. Mom. It will
be fun, you just wait. The air is
so . . . well, so . . . and the green
everywhere . . . the kids will love it."
"Yes, I know they will." All but
Sue, thought Marian. She's so much
like me. Although her twelve-year-
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487
old daughter had not said much,
Marian knew she was full of appre-
hensions. She had put off talking
to Sue too long, hadn't quite been
able to trust herself yet.
''How're we going to get to the
station? We're sure taking a lot of
things." Jim shook his head.
''Charles is coming in his pick-
up." Marian saw the look that
briefly shadowed Jim's face. For a
moment she was afraid he was go-
ing to say something, but he didn't,
and Marian was glad.
T^HE door banged again and Jed
yelled, ''Mom. There will, too,
be bears, won't there?"
"Oh, sure, and mountain lions,
and even snakes." This remark
from Ted was meant to be funny,
but it brought a wail from Jill. Jed,
the other half of Ted (that's what
David always said about the ten-year-
old twins), picked Jill up and as-
sured her that Ted was only kid-
ding. Marian felt she needed reas-
suring, along with the baby.
"Mommy, you said it would be
fun going to Montana. Will it be
fun if there are snakes and bears?"
Six-year-old Tommy's eyes were ex-
cited.
Marian hugged him to her and
changed the subject. "Did everyone
pass?"
The chorus of assent drowned out
the sound of the door this time, and
Marian would not have known Sue
was home, but she caught sight of
the blue skirt slipping around the
hall doorway. Marian found Sue
lying on her bed, tracing the floral
pattern of the spread with her
finger — outwardly resigned, inward-
ly in turmoil.
Marian sat on the edge of the
bed. She wanted to take her daugh-
ter in her arms and comfort her as
she used to when Sue was little, but
she knew that would not help now.
She smoothed Sue's honey-colored
hair from her forehead and said,
"Sue, I'm going to tell you some-
thing, and I want you to try to
understand."
Maybe it isn't best, thought Mar-
ian, to let her know how I feel, but
I don't know what else to say. "You
and I are going to have to be real
brave, sort of like the pioneers. Re-
member the stories Grandma used
to tell us?"
"Yes, but all my friends. . . ."
"The pioneer women left every-
thing, their beautiful homes, their
families. ..."
"But, Mom, all summer. . . ."
"That's not really so long. Come
on, dear, when you act like this, you
make it harder for me. And we
can't let the others know how much
we would rather stay here."
"You mean you don't want to go,
either?" Sue sat up.
"Not really. I don't like to rough
it. Guess I'm spoiled." They both
smiled, and Marian went on, "I love
to work in my flower garden, and I
love nature, from a car window, but
I'm just not a good mountaineer."
"I'm not, either."
"Then we'll have to pretend,
won't we?"
"I guess, only Kathy and the oth-
ers have so many plans for the sum-
mer." Sue's chin quivered.
"I'm going to be left out of some
things, too. I'll miss my Relief So-
ciety meetings, and my garden club,
and visiting with all my friends,
and shopping, but I've had my sub-
scription to The Relief Society Mag-
azine transferred, so we can read
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the Magazine together, and we can
work on our Remembrance Books,
and write lots of letters."
''Could we take our pillowslips to
finish?"
"Yes, and I can teach you to
crochet. Now come on, honey,
we've got to put supper on. I still
have some things to iron before I
can finish the packing." Iron.
Marian inwardly shuddered as she
thought of the two heavy black
irons with wooden handles that had
made enemies with her before. She
could still see them on the back of
the old, ugly coal range, which was
all the three-room cabin boasted.
She remembered all too well her
first attempts at ironing her pretty
honeymoon housedresses. And she
dared not think about doing the
washing for the seven of them on
that old scrubbing board in the big
washtub.
A FTER supper, Marian saw to it
that the children all had their
baths.
''Really dig into those ears," she
told them, "it will be a long time
before you can have this much good,
hot v/ater again."
"Oh, boy!" cried Jed. "No baths
all summer!"
"There'll be baths, all right,"
laughed Jimmy, "but not in hot
water."
"Gee." Tommy unbuttoned his
shirt and tossed it on the floor.
"Baths! I thought Montana was go-
ing to be fun!"
Just before Marian tucked the
children in bed, they had family
prayer, and somehow, she felt very
close to the Lord.
"He will bless us. Mommy," Tom-
my said, giving Marian a big hug.
"Fm sure he will." She tousled
his still damp hair, and picked up
Jill.
"You like bears, Mommy?" Jill's
eyes were wide and deep.
"Only Teddy bears, darling," and
Marian wondered how long her sup-
ply of courage could last.
That night when the last-minute
details were finished, Marian lay
thinking, going over her plans care-
fully, to be sure she hadn't forgotten
anything. She and Jim and Sue had
spent the whole week planning
menus and shopping. They had
bought each child a pair of good
sturdy shoes, and she had patched
mountains of overalls, packed bars
of strong laundry soap, scrub brush-
es, and disinfectants. She wondered
if the sewing kit and the first-aid box
they had fixed would be adequate.
And she hoped Jim remembered
correctly about how many sleeping
bags, blankets, and other supplies
were stored at the cabin.
So many details ... so much to
think about. . . . Suddenly, the house
was very still. Marian lay for a long
time, basking in the comfort of her
soft, clean bed, looking into the
darkness. She thought about her
beloved home, tastefully decorated,
comfortably furnished. Then she
heard the clock beating a slow
rhythm in unison with her heart.
Both seemed to say, "Stay home,
Marian, stay home. Don't go into
the wilderness."
She covered her ears with her pil-
low and, after awhile, fell into a
fitful sleep.
{To be continued)
'■'" ''
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Don Knight
THE SAN JUAN MOUNTAINS FROM NEAR RIDGEWAY, COLORADO
Prayer for the Fourth Generation
Eva. WilJes Wangsgaard
Father of all, from valley floor to peak,
Lend us your loving favor and your ear.
In strength of quake-hewn cliffs we hear you speak
And under ancient cedars feel you near.
We wander lost who were bequeathed so much
From giant forebears who traversed wild plains
Armed with two Bibles. We are out of touch
With their humility, their faith and pains.
Awaken in our sons the will to do
The menial task with eyes raised toward your height;
To call a neighbor, hiothei, help him hew
A kingdom from a desert's obdurate might.
Renew our strength to plant peace deep in earth
Faith-rooted, reaching, worthy of our birth.
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Mama and the
Heavenly Father
Alice GubJer
THE long shadows of the sum-
mer sunset were spreading
hke cool fingers across the
fevered brow of day. Summer eve-
nings were a most treasured part of
my childhood. Sunset meant home-
coming time at our house; it was
sort of an unwritten law. However^
we could play in the lane in front of
the house with the other children
until we were called.
My cousin lantha and I were hap-
pily squishing the dust in the road
between our toes, when a plaintive
voice asked, ''Will you two walk
home with me?"
We looked up. There was Julie,
and my goodness, she was fifty miles
from home. Well, at least a whole
mile, because her house was the
other side of town.
'*Oh, my, I can't go anywhere
now,*' I said, ''because the sun is
almost down."
"Of course it is," she said, "that's
why I want you to go with me. It
will be dark before I get home and
ril be afraid."
lantha said, "Oh, come on. Let's
take her home."
"I can't," I protested.
"If both of you go, then you won't
have to come back alone," Julie
pleaded.
"No, I can't."
"All right, don't you go with me
then," she said with a toss of her
head, "but I'll tell you one thing,
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if you don't, then the bad man will
get you."
"He won't, really, will he?" I
asked.
"He will, really," she affirmed.
Julie was ages and ages older than
I was. She was born the year before
I was, and that would make her lots
smarter. She probably knew lots
more about the bad man than I did.
I looked toward the house where
mama would be putting supper on.
She would be pouring creamy milk
from a pan into the green glass
pitcher, and she would put on a
plate with a hundred slices of bread
on it — well a lot of slices anyway,
because it took lots of bread for all
of us. When we sat down to eat
bread and milk and fruit at nights
we circled clear around the big table
that Uncle Jake had built for us.
You see there were five sisters and
mama and papa and a little baby
brother, with curly hair, who was
the cutest baby in the world, and
Grandma Isom. Grandma always
fussed over me because I was named
for her, but I worried her, too. She
would say, "My lands, how that
child exaggerates!" I always won-
dered what she meant.
I had the urge to run fast into
the house where the family was, be-
fore Julie could say another word,
but I didn't.
"We'd better hurry, lantha, and
take Julie home," I said, so the three
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491
of us took hold of hands and pat-
tered down the lane.
I was the littlest and the young-
est, and I wished they would let me
walk in the middle, but they didn't.
Julie got the middle spot, and as we
walked on each side of her to pro-
tect her, she told us spooky tales of
things that really, really happened to
people who lived right close around.
T^USK was turning into thick
black velvet as we scooted along
through the tunnel of trees to
Julie's house. When we came to
her gate we stood under the climb-
ing trumpet vines.
Julie whispered, ''And now, be-
cause you had to be coaxed, and
didn't come with me when I first
asked you, I'm going to tell you one
thing more. The bad man is going to
get you anyway. He won't get you
until the first night you sleep away
from home."
I pulled away and grabbed lan-
tha's hand, and in utter fright, we
sped down the lane and home.
I slipped quietly into the welcome
light of the living room.
Papa said, 'This is a fine time to
be coming home to supper."
The table was cleared already,
and my sisters were washing the
dishes. Mama was humming a tune
as she kept finding more dishes for
my sisters to do. Mama could
always find more dirty dishes, even
where there weren't any, almost.
But you should have heard her sing.
She hummed prettier than anybody;
soft and clear and sweet. Her cheeks
were always pink, too, the kind of
pink that didn't scrub off and that
made her look special.
I looked at her, and I wanted to
run to her and tell her my whole
miserable story, but Julie had said
the bad man would get me just as
soon as I told.
I stood in the kitchen by the stair
door feeling awfully little. No one
paid any attention to me. The kitch-
en began to shimmer in front of my
eyes and I felt my chin quiver, so I
climbed the stairs around the turn
and wiped my eyes and hoped no
one could see me.
Papa was jouncing Willie, our
baby brother, on his knee and sing-
ing, "A chicken went to bed but it
was no use, roll Jordan, roll." Papa
thought Willie was a mighty im-
portant baby because he was our
only boy and we already had six
girls. ^ I guessed I'd better get down
off that stairway and go where every-
bodv was.
Grandma was reading the Deseret
News and shaking her head every
little while and saying, 'Tsk, tsk, tsk,
what a shame!"
My sister Mildred got out her
paper dolls that she had cut from
the catalog and asked me to come
and play with her. Mildred was
always good to me.
Mama came in, sat down at the
organ, and began softly to chord,
and Papa sang ''The Bowery."
Everybody acted as if nothing was
wrong. My goodness! You would
think they couldn't help but know
something terrible was going to hap-
pen to me!
Morning came, and a flock of
quarreling sparrows, tumbling along
the fence in the currant bushes,
woke up the sun. I went into the
garden with my sisters to pull weeds
out of the carrot and turnip row.
The terror of last night seemed like
a bad dream to be forgotten, until
Mildred, yanking on a fist full of
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grass, said, ''I wish Mama would let
us go to Oak Creek to see Grand-
mother Crawford."
Oh my! Why did she say that?
Julie's dire prediction loomed before
me like a horrible apparition. I
couldn't go anywhere! Not ever!
All the rest of my life I would have
to stay in Hurricane!
I thought of Oak Creek and Grand-
mother and Aunt Emma. Oak
Creek was the prettiest place in the
whole world, except for the ranch at
Kolob. I closed my eyes, and I
could see the high pink and cream-
colored canyon walls, and hear the
soft swish of the Virgin River
through the trees. There was
always a cool canyon breeze that
carried the fragrance of box elder
and Cottonwood.
My heart felt all twisted with long-
ing. There was no place so good
as Grandmother's home in the
summer. She let us gather eggs in
the barn, and we could always find
a handful of sweet, everbearing
strawberries in her garden, and she
had yellow currants. We had only
black ones at home. The cookies
she made were big and golden
brown, all sprinkled with sugar and
nutmeg. They were as much a part
of being at Grandmother's as the
blue willowvvare dishes in her cup-
board.
Aunt Emma was a part of Grand-
mother's home, too. She would let
us play with her little wooden dishes,
and her tiny little clock, and she
had some angels that twirled on a
spindle that made chimes ring. She
reminded me of those angels. She
smiled when she spoke, and it was
always of happy things she told us,
and her dark eyes would shine. Her
voice sounded like music that sort
of belonged with Oak Creek and
the gentle canyon breeze.
I wished Mildred hadn't thought
of Oak Creek! Mama just might
let us go, if Uncle Louis should
come down with a load of grist for
the mill. She sometimes did. We
would ride back in the wagon on
the sacks of flour, and stay a week,
sometimes, and play with our cous-
ins in Oak Creek and Springdale.
Our cousins were lots of fun.
Uncle Louis didn't come — but
wouldn't you just know it! — Mama
and Papa planned a family vacation
— the very first one in our lives! We
were going out to Moccasin to see
Aunt Lavern Heaton's family. Moc-
casin was out of the State even. It
was clear off in Arizona.
M'
Y sisters were as excited as if
Moccasin had streets of pure
gold. Just when I would start to
get excited, too, then Julie's dark
prediction would stare dismally at
me. I suffered!
Mama baked things in the kitchen
that smelled good all through the
house. Everyone was busy and
happy helping get ready to go. That
is, everyone but me. I helped, but
I wasn't happy. When I smiled I
just turned it on like a mechanical
thing. I wished time would stand
still, but it would not. Jesse Spend-
love drove up to our house in Uncle
Ren's wagon, and our bedding and
grub box and supplies were loaded
in, and I knew that this was the very
last day of my life. But, suddenly,
I decided to get just as excited as
my sisters.
It was great to be perched upon
a pile of bedding with the other
children in the wagon. We laughed
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and talked, and guessed what we
would find around each turn in the
road ahead. Far out across the
stretches of wasteland were gray
forms racing wildly with the wind.
I asked Papa if they were wolves,
and he said no, they were tumble-
weeds. Pretty soon we came to a
fence that had a lot of them caught
in it.
Way out against the sky was a
blue mountain. It was as blue as
Pine Valley Mountain at home. I
asked Papa if we would go over the
mountain and he said we would
tomorrow. Oh dear! If only I were
going to be with the family tomor-
row I could see what the rocks on
the blue mountain looked like when
you came to them. From home,
Pine Valley Mountain looked as if
it must have blue glass rocks on it,
but it was too far away for us ever
to go over and see. I wished I was
going to live, because then I could
gather my lap full of blue rocks and
take them back home to show to
lantha. My heart ached with re-
grets, and I became engulfed in a
tide of misery.
The sun went down, and Papa
said the horses needed to rest. Jesse
pulled them over onto a flat place
that Papa said would make a fine
camp. He took off the harnesses
and rubbed the dust off their
sweaty flanks, and they snorted as
if it was a mighty fine feeling.
\/\/'E ate our supper around the
campfire and then made a
big family bed on a canvas on the
ground. When we were all tucked
in, I lay listening to the contented
sound of the horses munching grain
in their nose bags.
My emotions swung like the pen-
dulum of a clock between fleeting
surges of happiness and utter misery.
These things were dear to my heart
— the embers of the campfire, the
sound of the horses, and sleeping
under the stars; but all was not
serene. I studied the dark bushes
around us, and I knew that lurking
behind one of them was the bad
man, waiting for the folks to fall
asleep so he could get me.
This was the zero hour. It didn't
matter what I did now. I could
shout to the hills the whole tale of
my misery if I wanted to. Nothing
would make any difference.
I crawled out of my warm spot
between my sisters and snuggled
down under the covers by Mama.
There was no use to tell Papa, be-
cause he would only say, 'That's all
a pack of nonsense. Go on back to
your bed and go to sleep," but
Mama would listen.
''Mama, the bad man is going to
get me tonight,*' I whispered.
She gave me a little squeeze. "Of
course he isn't," she said.
"Oh, yes, he is," I insisted.
"Who told you that?" she asked.
I blurted out the whole, miserable
story to her.
She said, "Don't you ever let any-
one tell you a think like that again.
When things trouble you, always
come and tell me. It is not wrong
to tell something to your mother."
She gave me a hug.
"Oh, Mama!" I whispered, though
my voice was choking, "do you mean
I will really go to Moccasin with
all of you?"
"Of course you will. Patsy," she
chuckled. Patsy was a pet name
mama used when things were really,
really all right. "Now go on back to
your bed and say your prayers. You
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must remember, the Heavenly Fa-
ther is someone you should always
tell your troubles to." She took
my face between her hands and
kissed me.
Oh, my! The big load had
dropped from my shoulders. I want-
ed to sing and shout and turn som-
ersaults in the sand, but everyone
else had gone to sleep. I crawled
out of Mama's bed and the breeze
fluttered my nightgown. I looked
up at the sky, and there were at
least two hundred stars. Grandma
wouldn't think I was exaggerating
this time, because the sky was full
of stars.
I wanted to tell every star that I
was going to Moccasin for reallv and
trulv, and the bad man wasn't going
to get me. Why hadn't I thought
of telling Heavenly Father about
this? I always said my prayers, but
I hadn't asked the help of Heavenly
Father. I breathed deep, and
kneeled down in the sand. It didn't
matter if it got on my nightgown
now. The only thing I could say
was, ''Oh, thank you, Heavenlv
Father."
I snuggled down between my sis-
ters and looked up at the wonderful,
beautiful sky. Each star seemed to
wear a halo, then I realized that I
was looking at them through a blur
of happy tears.
Summer Evening in the City
Mabel Law Atkinson
Though tethered to the earth, I joy in flight,
My wings a sea gull flying smoothly over
The ponds, gay-stitched with mallards, meadow clover.
Tawny with baby calves, where, yellow-bright
With buttercups, the cool spring winds. Not trite,
But new with freshness comes the call of plover
From golding seas of wheat. At dusk my rover
Eyes see a lane ... an open door ... a light. . . .
How good a summer evening gives me wings;
That childhood trailways carve the paths for age!
What joy, as fragrance lifts from mountain sage,
Companioning with dear, familiar things!
Adrian Hansen
'T^HE dinner dishes were finished
and the house put in order. A
fresh baking of bread was turned out
on a clean cloth, sending out a good,
wholesome fragrance. Alice Homer
stepped to the kitchen door and
called five-year-old Molly from her
play.
''Molly, let's go visit Sister Jorgen-
sen a little while. We will take a
loaf of this new bread and a glass of
jelly. Don't you think she will like
that?"
"Oh, yes. Mama, Vm sure she will.
I'll bet she never tasted good jelly
like that. I guess she never tasted
many good things, did she? She's
so old and her house is so funny.
Is she a pioneer, Mama?"
''Well, I'm not sure. But she has
lived here a long time. I remember
her when I was a little girl. Then
I used to help my mother sew carpet
rags, and we would take them to
Sister Jorgensen to weave into car-
pets. You never saw anyone weave
carpets, did you? She can't work
hard any more and she gets lone-
some to talk to someone."
Mother and Molly soon walked
the short distance to Sister Jorgen-
sen's tiny, dirt-roofed, adobe home.
A few flowers were blooming in the
neglected front yard. The house
was as old and worn-out as its lone
occupant, but a cheery "Come in"
greeted their knock.
"Oh, it's you. Sister Homer. It's
so good to have you come. Sit on
this chair — so."
Sister Jorgensen was so glad to
have someone call, and she wanted
to be sure they felt her welcome.
She arranged the chair and dusted
it hastily with the corner of her
apron. Dear old Sister Jorgensen
always looked the same — faded and
colorless, with her few wisps of
white hair gathered in a tiny knot
at the back of her head. Her dim-
ming blue eyes were trusting and
childlike.
The years had not dealt kindly
with Marie Jorgensen. Poverty and
misery had been her companions
through years of struggle. Now she
had ceased to struggle, and she let
her mind dwell on the more pleas-
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ant years of her young womanhood,
spent in her native Denmark.
Ahce Homer knew this, and so,
after offering her the bread and
jelly which were received with much
joy, she looked about for something
pleasant to say to the old woman.
At once she noticed a picture of a
beautiful baby dressed in the style
of long ago.
''What a pretty baby. Is it one
of yours. Sister Jorgensen?"
A glorious radiance changed the
face of the old woman. Even her
voice was strong and young again as
she replied, 'Tes, that is the first
baby I raised. Maybe you will say
it wasn't really mine, but I will tell
you the story, and then you will
know what I mean.
''I have told you many times how
I joined the Church when I was a
young woman in the old country.
Well, I knew a man who had also
joined the Church, and he had a
way to emigrate to Zion. He said
that he would get work there to pay
for my emigration, if I would marry
him when I arrived. I was glad to
promise. Going to Zion was the
main thing in my thoughts.
''A year or so later, I heard from
him and he said he was prepared to
send for me, so I made ready to go
to America. The only reason I hat-
ed to leave was the separation from
my friend Anna. We had spent our
childhood together and went out to
work together when we were older.
Anna had married and had a sweet
baby girl, about ten or eleven
months old. Her husband had died,
so she was alone again, and we
seemed closer than ever. How she
wanted to go to America, too, as she
was also a convert.
"AT last the day came for me to
leave. Anna said that she
would like to go to the ship with
me and see me off. She took her
baby in her arms, and we started
out. She went with me almost to
the gangplank of the ship, and, as
I turned to tell her goodbye, she
pushed her baby into my arms and
pleaded, 'Marie, take my baby with
you. If my baby is in Zion, I know
I will get there some way. Fll work
harder and save all I can. She is a
good baby, and I know she will be
all right with you.'
''Then, handing me a small bun-
dle of clothes I had not noticed, she
backed off into the crowd.
"There was no time to reason with
her or discuss the matter any long-
er. The bell was ringing, and all
passengers were going aboard. I
turned and climbed into the ship,
Anna's baby in my arms.
"All the Mormon emigrants on
that ship were traveling steerage, as
we were all of the poorer class, as
far as money was concerned. That
meant we had to carry our own food
which, of course, was of the cheap-
est. I knew Anna's baby had not
been weaned, and I wondered what
there would be to feed her. Milk
in any form was not to be had.
Canned or dried milk was a thing
never dreamed of in those days. So
I prayed that what food we had
would agree with the baby that I
might take care of her as Anna had
asked. After praying, my mind felt
easy. The first thing I did was to
tie a little lump of brown sugar in
the corner of a clean cloth. The
baby took it and liked it fine. Then
I made a gruel out of oatmeal and
other grains we had with us. I also
fed her soup made from the cured
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meat and some vegetables we had." grate. Such a happy mother to get
"But, Sister Jorgensen, didn't she her baby back — now a big, fine
cry for her mother, and didn't she girl, five years old, who could even
fret at being weaned so suddenly?" talk the English language. That
Alice asked incredulously. seemed strangest of all to Anna to
"No she didn't," the old woman think a baby could learn to talk
went on happily. "The Lord an- English. Now you can see why I
swered my prayer. She went to call her my baby, too."
sleep early every night and slept all „j ^^ -^^^^^ ^^^^ ^-^^^^ .
night long and never disturbed any- c i u
° , ^, . . . , ^ sen. Surely anyone would say you
one, and she grew lust as nicely as i.M.i j Z ha ^ u -u
' r . n . f 1. oi were entitled to call Anna s baby
you please and actually got tat. She u u i. '^
1 J 4. n u^^ your baby, too.
learned to walk while we were on ^ ^ i ^ t n n i
the ocean. She was the prettiest , As the mother and Molly walked
and smartest baby I ever saw. ^^"^^^ \^ttle Molly said. Sister Jor-
"When we got to Utah I married g^"^^^"^ ^^^^^ }^^ ^ P^^"^^^^ ^^^S" ^
the man I had promised and we ^^^^ Mother?
kept Anna's baby, so I had a family And Alice Homer almost reverent-
to start with. I kept the baby four ly replied, "Yes, she does, Molly,
years, until her mother finally saved and I'm sure we can call her one of
enough money so she could emi- our best pioneers."
To the Sea Gull
Clara Laster
Your wings still ride upon the curve of light,
Leaving a burrowed lake among the hills,
And crescent clouds have also churned the height,
To form your nest above the rolling fields.
Do you hear voices, as in days gone by,
When you emerged to help the plight of man?
Did pangs of hunger bring you from the sky,
Or was it God who called you to the land?
But you did come, a neighbor from the sea,
To eat the crickets from the darkened plains;
Until saints stood and felt the winds blow free,
You were to them as sweet as summer rains.
Oh, bird of God, we bless you with our praise,
Stay flying there, through heaven all your days.
The Pea Patch
Doris Duncan
T^HE branches of the willow tree
by the bedroom window brushed
back and forth in the morning light,
making shadows on the wallpaper.
I opened my eyes and watched the
sunlight filtering through the green
leaves. Helen's curly yellow head
nestled softly in the huge feather
pillow beside me, her breathing
came regularly in sleep. I lifted the
patchwork quilt from my side of the
bed and slipped my feet to the cool
smooth linoleum.
The grass was still wet in the early
morning dew. I stood at the half-
open window and watched the sun-
light sparkle on the fresh green
blades. The fluffy curtain billowed
with a puff of spring air. It smelled
wonderfully invigorating as I let it
float around mv bare arms and
throat.
I gathered up the dress and petti-
coat that lay on the chair and
slipped my feet into the slippers be-
side the bed. Helen moved softly
as I brushed past the bed. I opened
the door quietly and left the room.
Mama had already been up for
hours. I had heard the hoe scrap-
ing into the ground since the first
rays of dawn. It had a scratchy,
chunking sound as she chopped the
weeds in the garden. I wiggled out
of the nightgown, letting it fall
around my feet onto the kitchen
floor. The fire felt good in the old
coal stove. I stood for a moment
with my back to it, feeling the
warmth on my skin. Then I slipped
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into the cotton petticoat and percale
dress and ran outside.
Back of the house mama was
working in the vegetable garden.
She smiled when she saw me, and
straightened up from the rich,
brown-dirt furrows. The hoe lay at
the top of the row. I picked it up
and walked down to where she was
gathering pea pods into her apron.
''Good morning, Sister," she said,
''you are up early this morning." She
stooped back down and began to
gather the fat green pods into her
lap. "The peas are filling out well,"
she said.
I crouched beside her and picked
up a vine in my fingers, looking at
the pea pods clinging thickly to the
trailing stem. I opened a pod and
pushed the cool, round pellets into
my mouth. They tasted good. Mania
laughed and sat down in the furrow,
spreading her apron out. We rested
and ate peas from the pile in her
lap. She took off the big straw hat
and put it down beside her. Her hair
was damp under the hat. It curled
in little moist ringlets around her
face. She loosened it from its pins
and it fell in soft dark clouds down
her back. The breeze played loving-
ly through the strands.
I looked at the rows and rows of
green plants lined up in the garden
plot. Beyond the garden, the rasp-
berry bushes were dotted with red
berries, ready to be picked. Our back
yard was huge and productive. Cur-
rants, gooseberry bushes, apple trees,
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apricot and cherry and peach trees
stretched their branches into the sky.
''Getting about time for break-
fast/' Mama said. She gathered up
her hat and bunched her apron,
bulging with peas, as we walked to-
ward the house.
''Might be nice if we picked some
berries for breakfast/' she said. She
stopped beside the strawberry patch,
lifting a leaf here and there to pluck
a ripe berry and lay it on top of the
peas.
"Fll get a pan," I said. I ran to
the kitchen and picked up a sauce-
pan from the cupboard. When I
got back Mother placed the juicy
berries into the shiny pan. I helped
to fill the pan, popping the luscious
fruit into my mouth at every oppor-
tunity.
"You won't want anything to eat
after all those peas and berries,"
Mama said.
We walked back to the kitchen
porch and sat down on the rough
wooden steps. "I'm tired," she said.
We sat and watched the neighbor
boy driving his cows toward the pas-
ture. The animals moved slowly up
the lane, the boy walked carelessly
behind them tossing a soft clod of
dirt at their rumps to keep them
moving.
Helen came to the screen door,
rubbing one bare foot against the
other, sleepily.
"Hi, Sister," Mama said, looking
up. "Come on out and sit awhile."
She moved over, making room for
the chubby youngster. "See what
we found for you this morning,"
Mama said, holding open her apron.
"The peas are ready to eat."
She pulled the curly head into the
crook of her arm, hugging the
smooth bare shoulders. Helen
picked up a pod and squeezed the
peas out into her dimpled little
hand.
Mama and I laughed. What a
happy day! The sun seemed to look
down and laugh with us.
"Here, try one of the berries,"
Mama said. The strawberry was
almost as big as the little palm. The
baby held it in her hand for a min-
ute and then pushed it into her
mouth. Mama scooped her up and
kissed the rosy mouth.
"I wish Daddy could see how
much you have grown." She untied
her apron and set the peas to one
side, gathering the wriggling young-
ster into her ample lap.
"Well, let's go inside and have
breakfast," Mama said, standing up.
We went into the kitchen. "We'll
have to pick the rest of those peas
today," she said. "They certainly
have filled out early this year." She
picked up the steel poker and began
to stir up the kitchen fire.
The sun looked through the win-
dow and winked at me. I curled up
on the woodbox by the window and
gazed contentedly at the blue cloud-
less sky. Summer was my very fav-
orite time of year.
Hand to the Plow
Part III — Decision
Jlene H. Kingsbury
Synopsis: A Welsh widow on her way
to the valleys of the mountains in 1864,
with her family of five children, pauses in
a railway station in Philadelphia, awaiting
a train to take them westward. For a com-
pelling reason, the emigrant wishes to stop
at a small town, Bradys Bend, in Penn-
sylvania. After checking her ticket and in-
quiring regarding routes, the emigrant
makes a momentous decision. Eliza, the
teenage daughter, hears her mother say,
"I cannot do it." .
AT that moment Eliza thought
her mother looked just like
a stone lion. The resemblance
almost frightened her, for now she
remembered a certain guardian of a
doorway at a building near the emi-
gration gate. It had been so big
that two little children were playing
in the shelter beneath its neck. Its
two paws were outstretched to hang
listlessly and deceptively fragile over
the edge of a block of granite which
made part of the regal entrance.
The head of the beast had been
raised as if listening to footfalls afar
off. The eyes had had a facility,
not often caught in stone, to fol-
low one to either side of the steps
and not really let one out of their
sight. The shaggy mane had fallen
in blanket folds about the front of
the animal. A closer look had given
Eliza the impression that a few
cockle burrs might still be matted
in the tresses of this king of the for-
est. When Eliza had first come
upon this immobile giant she had
shuddered. Its counterpart in the
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jungle would be hard to escape or
overcome.
Eliza's mother looked that way
right now. Nothing evaded her
gaze; her children knew who was
head of their migrant household.
The fastness to which they clung
was all-encompassed in their mother.
And yet, Eliza had heard her say
I cannot. It was like putting a dried
leaf and a tree trunk together and
expecting both of them to do the
same job. After all one wanted con-
sistency. Before bringing herself to
ask what her mother could not do,
Eliza reviewed the two things they
could do and which they had talked
about ceaselessly since leaving the
rolling ocean.
The first on the list was to stop
off in Bradys Bend, wherever that
was, and be reunited with the most
dearly loved people they had on
earth. The second on the list was
to proceed by what means they
could afford to a certain valley in
the Rocky Mountains, no matter
how far it was, or how long it would
take, or what hardships should be-
set their way. Surely her mother
could not have referred to either of
these two long anticipated events.
And of the two, maybe the second
was what her mother talked aloud
about. This war they were suddenly
involved in, stories of Indians way
out there a thousand miles just wait-
ing for a triangle of hair on the top
of her head; this funny railroad, with
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shaky, noisy boxes on wheels which Ehza looked again at the lion-
sometimes caught fire from wood- like woman, her mother. Her arms
burning cooking stoves installed were folded, sort of encased by the
therein for convenience of through ends of her shawl, her feet were close
passengers; this station that smelled together, with the heels hugging the
of beans and dirt — perhaps now floor, and her head was bowed,
they could leave all this, find the There was a little saying in the fam-
village where Grandma lived at ily that if Mother sat like that, don't
Bradys Bend and settle down. Eliza say a word. No one had ever said
already felt Tiappier just knowing a that word, so Eliza didn't know
decision had been made. what would happen if one did, but
she knew that something very im-
gHE recalled a day in her seventh portant was going on in her moth-
year, now some eight or nine er's mind. Or perhaps it was her
years back, filled with tears and heart. If the latter, there would be
Welsh singing, and prayers, and part- more smiling and singing after-
ing gifts, and bundles of belongings, wards, but if the cold thoughts of
Grandma and Grandpa and all but deliberation took precedence, then
one of her mother's brothers and there would be protests and tears,
sisters had set sail. They had been but still singing. Welshmen some-
going to America. All would be well how express the Welshness within
with them because they would live themselves by voicing that minor
in Pennsylvania where the men key in music which fortifies them in
could be coal miners as they had all trial.
been in Wales, and where the At sixteen one cannot grasp all
women could find education and the subtle colors of living, but one
opportunity for their children. can see it happening and can guess
For nine years Eliza had heard that Mother will somehow give all
nothing but the phrase. When we the answers. Sometimes when the
go to America. It had echoed in emigrant sat like this, she was form-
her dreams, it had been set to music, ulating a prayer, and having pre-
it had been embroidered on a pil- viously mapped it out, presented it
low, it had been written in letters to the Lord in formal fashion. As
trusted to the waves and the earth, her eyes were not closed, Eliza could
It was lucky, she thought, that they not tell at what stage of thought or
were at last on their way, for that plan or supplication her mother was
young man from the Merthyr mine engaged in.
was taking a liking to her and would
in due time want her to stay and 'T^HE moment drew itself out.
marry him and let her mother and Mother still sat as if playing
brothers and sister go on without statue. Little Sannie flung an arm
her to America. Ah, well, there across Eliza's shoulder and lifted
must be likely Welsh boys in herself from the cozy lap on which
America, and thinking back about she had slumbered. Through the
it, she sensed that her mother had station door Eliza saw her three
snatched her out of the Old Coun- brothers bounding back along the
try just in time. tracks, each with giant strides along
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the ties. As they barged into the
building they gave a wild, blood-
curdling yell.
Nothing in Wales had ever sound-
ed like that repellent, raucous yell.
The ticket agent crouched behind
his window and peered around the
edge in terror. Upon seeing just
three youthful Welsh boys ap-
proach, he steadied himself and
called them to him. By now all
occupants of the station were either
on their feet or near the door with
at least two bundles of property,
trying to make good their escape.
''Young men, come here!" the
agent ordered. They gave each other
a wide-eyed signal of let's see what
we have done this time, and went
toward the wicket. ''Do you know
what that sound is you just made?''
he screeched. They looked at each
other again as if to say, hadn't this
man been around boys before, but
didn't answer him.
He found the answer quickly
enough, and fairly blasted them to
eternal punishment by saying be-
tween clinched teeth, "The Rebel
Yell!" Then, gaining courage, and
again becoming the informant on
all subjects, which he imagined him-
self, he got the attention of all pres-
ent. "Only men from the South
make that yell," said he. "Only when
they have a gun in each hand and a
knife in each boot top, do they give
that yell. Boys, if you don't want
to be hanged or shot or taken to
prison to starve and die, just don't
do that again."
There was not much one could say
after that. Eyes that had hereto-
fore been sympathetic to their
needs, now averted themselves.
The three boys cushioned their
footfalls to the citadel of strength,
which was their mother, and sat
down. The emigrant unfolded her
arms and raised her head to give
each occupant of the station a long,
long look.
Eliza realized fleetingly that the
one word which they must never
say to interrupt their mother when
she was contemplating had been
given. Perhaps they would live to
regret the sound of that threaten-
ing, blood-curdling shriek. It had
whiplashed their ears and their souls.
Imperceptibly, the travelers gained
courage and now wanted to appear
as if the incident was of no value.
They arranged their baggage in
neater rows, gave a stale biscuit to
the youngest babies, and started to
talk to each other in whispers which
grew in volume as confidence was
gained. Finally, a buzzing of words
was manifest and the hive of bees
was at its usual pitch and activity.
In the resumed noise, the Welsh
family grew less conspicuous.
Obviously, if their mother had
come to any decision since talking
to the agent, now was the time to
make her statement before any more
harm could be done. She motioned
her brood closer and, looking
especially at Eliza, said, "I was just
saying J cannot do it."
There is no surer way to get at-
tention than by such a simple
statement. The boys looked alert
to the event. Sannie didn't really
care, such is six years of being the
littlest and pampered at that. Eliza
felt quite superior, having had a
preview and having come to the wise
conclusion that now they could
leave this turmoil of emigration and
go to Bradys Bend and live in peace
and plenty, surrounded by all their
kith and kin.
HAND TO THE PLOW
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One boy asked, ''Can't do what,
Mother?"
''We cannot go to Bradys Bend."
If the boys had stood up and giv-
en, again, that Rebel Yell, no one
of the five would have been more
startled.
Eliza suddenly wanted to cry. She
pressed her fingers over her mouth
so no one could see her lips tremble.
Eddie, the seventeen-year-old, just
opened his mouth and forgot to
close it. William and David actual-
ly groaned. Now, for sure, their
mother had lost her mind. One of
them leaned toward her and grasped
her sleeve, just as though he could
stop her from further considering
this most horrible of decisions.
Somehow, they thought, they could
try to dissuade her. Let's try, they
thought. First they barraged her
with questions.
Is it so far to the Bend that we
haven't time? The man that sells
the tickets said that it is only twenty-
five miles as the crow flies to where
Grandma lives, after we reach Pitts-
burgh, and we could walk that far
in two days, even carrying our bun-
dles, if we had to. Just think, two
days, and we can hear Grandpa call
our names, feel the warm comfort
of loving arms, and stand about an-
swering and asking and singing and
loving all those whom we have
never really expected to see in this
life again. Just think, no more cook-
ing in a train, no more seeing only
strangers. No more to explam that
the Church had called them and
they were answering. Just think,
just think.
"I have thought,'' she said quietly.
"I have thought about my little
brother who used to work in the
mines at the age of ten, side by side
with my father, just so they could
save enough money to come to
America. I want to see him. I have
thought about my older sister, sure-
ly now a grandmother, who was as
a mother to me when others came
first for our mother's care. I have
thought about little Gwennie who
was so gentle that she never ven-
tured from our hearth fires and nev-
er found a mate. I can still hear
big William sing as he rose in the
mine hoist each night and I remem-
ber that, as he neared home, his
voice drew children and men and
women to him and they joined him
in song until the hills burst with
beauty. I have thought of them
all."
The children were quite carried
away with this word picture painted
again for them by their loving
mother. And what about Grandpa?
And Grandma? The emigrant dared
not speak aloud of her parents, lest
in voicing their names, even, she
should weaken in her resolve. Their
life in America, even in a mill town
where they were still close to coal
mines, was so marvelous and bright
and full and prosperous that with
each letter she had rejoiced in their
blessings. Their hope, as well as
hers, had been that some day she,
too, would come to America and be
with them forever. Now she was
on their borderland. Now she
could actually walk to find them and
it would not take many days. Now,
at last, the haven of which they had
talked for a quarter of a century was
just over the rolling green moun-
tains and down a river valley.
{To he continued)
Sisty Years Ago
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, July i, and July 15, 1902
'Tor the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Woaien
OF All Nations"
WOMEN WHO WIELD THE PEN: Of those dear sisters and friends who have
been occasional contributors to the Exponent some still lend a helping hand and some
who took great delight in the work have passed behind the veil. Eliza R. Snow, Hannah
T. King, Sarah M. Kimball, Louie Wells and Julia McDonald have laid aside the pen,
but are not forgotten. We still have Augusta Joyce Crocheron, Ellis R. Shipp, Lydia
D. Alder, Emily H. Woodmansee, Mary A. Freeze, Ruth M. Fox, Annie Wells Can-
non, Romania B. Pratt and a score of others, only most of them are too busy doing
other things to give us even occasional glimpses of what they think and feel . . . and
it is long since we have heard from "Alofa," ''Hyacinth," ''Hope," or dear little "Gladys,"
or "Homespun" ....
— Editorial
RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE IN EMERY STAKE: President Mary A.
Sorenson welcomed all, was pleased to see so many present. Reported the labors of
the Stake officers throughout the various wards, and of visiting from one society to
another, encouraging the young ladies to join the Rehef Society. . . . Sister Emma S.
Woodruff said we were the most blessed people on the face of the earth. We should
always be obedient to the priesthood. If there should ever be any differences among
the sisters it should be settled among themselves according to the regular order. . . .
Told us of the visiting plan also of encouraging the young ladies to join the society. . . .
Read the minutes of the first organization of the Relief Society in the davs of the
Prophet Joseph Smith, also of the meetings held in those days. . . .
— Mary O. Miller, Sec.
MAKE MY HEART BRAVE!
Make my heart brave, O Lord!
Brave for the loss of faces dearer grown;
Brave for the battle that is mine alone;
The glory unachieved I thought mine own.
Make not my burden less; make my heart brave!
— Annie Pike
MRS. HORNE HOME: Hon. Alice Merrill Home has just returned from Chi-
cago where she has been staying for a month past, the guest of Miss Josephine C.
Locke, former supervisor of drawing in the Chicago public schools. Mrs. Home visited
the public schools there and brought home a variety of drawings for comparison with
our local school work. She met a number of the leading teachers, educators and artists
of that city and attended noted lectures at the University of Chicago and the Chicago
Institute of Art. ... — News Note
A SURPRISE IN HONOR OF RETIRING OFFICERS: A very enjoyable time
was held at the Montpefier (Idaho) meeting house ... an unusual occasion owing to
the fact that each of our honored sisters was barn in a foreign land, each crossed the
plains in a handcart company and each was among the first to settle in this once for-
bidding valley. ... — Mary A. Perkins
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
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nnWO Latter-day Saint women,
Mrs. Luacine Clark Fox, and
Mrs. Berta Huish Christensen, have
been awarded national honors by
the Freedoms Foundation of Valley
Forge, Pennsylvania. The awards
were presented by the Foundations
President, Dr. Kenneth D. Wells,
April 29, 1962, over a special pro-
gram on KSL television and radio,
in Salt Lake City, Utah. Mrs. Fox
wrote the script 'The Sound of a
Bell," in which bells were portrayed
as symbols of freedom, and the
Nauvoo Bell was featured. Mrs.
Christensen was honored for her
series of poems, ''Portrait of Free-
dom," exemplifying historic mo-
ments of significant import in the
establishment and defense of free-
dom in America.
pEARL BUCK'S latest book, A
Biidge ioi Passing, tells of her
experience in assisting with the mak-
ing of her novel, The Big Wave, in-
to a movie in Japan; the changes in
modern Japan, particularly among
the women; the death of her hus-
band at home in the U.S.A.,
and the bridge by which she tries
to learn to pass from twenty-five
years of an unusually happy mar-
riage to widowhood.
TTELEN THOMAS, seventh of
ten children of Lebanese-Ameri-
can parents, is United Press Inter-
national's "girl at the White
House." With political journalism
as her goal, Helen went to Wash-
ington immediately upon gradua-
tion from Wayne University,
Detroit, and after some years was
reporting, nationally. Department of
Justice and other agencies news.
QUEEN JULIANA of Holland
^^ on May third celebrated her
fifty-third birthday and the silver
wedding anniversary of her mar-
riage to Prince Bernhard. Six reign-
ing European monarchs and many
princes and princesses paid tribute
in person to Juliana, who is much
admired and respected, and to her
distinguished Prince Consort.
T^R. NANCY G. ROMAN is
Chief of the Astronomy and
Solar Physics Programs of the Office
of Space Sciences of the National
Aeronautics and Space Administra-
tion (NASA) of the United States.
Her work includes planning, co-
ordination and institution of a com-
prehensive program of astronomical
observations conducted from beyond
the atmosphere of the earth by
means of rockets and satellites.
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 49
JULY 1962
NO. 7
A Sister fo 231,174 Members
"LJER face beamed with happiness.
The apron enveloped her fig-
ure as she hurried back and forth,
back and forth from the kitchen to
the luncheon table, carrying plat-
ters of appetizing food. When the
Relief Society Convention luncheon
was nearly over and her work nearly
completed, a few missionaries ar-
rived to assist with translation for
the afternoon meetings. They were
seated at the vacated table. A quick
glance at her face revealed nothing
but delight. A pair of missionaries
such as these had brought the ever-
lasting gospel to her only six months
before. No other member of her
family had yet seen the light, but
by its radiance her own life had tak-
en on new vitality and become pur-
poseful and joyous. It seemed a
privilege to her to be obeying her
Savior's injunction "He that is
greatest among you, shall be your
servant."
To great numbers of women of
many cultures and languages a light
has broken forth out of darkness.
Those who were strangers before
are now bound by ties of sisterly
devotion. Two visiting teachers go
by bus from a house in one section
of a city to a second house in an-
other part, to a third home in the
farmland, to a fourth home in a
crowded apartment. The words
''one of a city, and two of a family,"
are exemplified by their travels. One
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visiting teacher, a convert of six
years, is a schoolteacher, the second
visiting teacher, a convert of two
months, does day cleaning. Through
the divinely organized Relief Society
they are now sisters, more under-
standing of each other's hopes and
aspirations than their former inti-
mate friends. They are also sisters
to 231,173 other women throughout
the world. Were they all to meet
together they would love and under-
stand each other, for they are de-
voted members of the organization
given them by their Eternal Father,
and members of the kingdom of
God.
Many lessons of eternal import
are fostered through the teachings
and training of Relief Society. One,
recently noted in a foreign land, was
that of respect for authority. The
meeting had begun and the sister in
authority of those present was di-
recting. Suddenly, a second sister
of equal position arrived whose plane
had been late. She explained that
the president, who was in the hos-
pital, had asked her to conduct the
meetings. Without a thought of
objection, without a dissenting
word, the first sister relinquished the
authority she had of necessity
assumed earlier.
Each organization goes forward
under the rules and procedures
approved by the Brethren over the
years. There is conformity by all.
EDITORIAL 507
In 1961 there was an average of lose them" is fraught with meaning
over 1,414 new members of Rehef of import.
Society added each month. Some The joy of service which illumined
had lived in stakes and had some the face of the sister serving at the
knowledge of Relief Society pro- luncheon table will continue as
cedures; others were converts to the knowledge and intelligence continue
Church and, for the first time, were to be poured down upon her and
glimpsing the advantages and oppor- her Relief Society associates through
tunities of this greatest woman's their faithfulness. Happiness, the
organization. Its blessings are to be object of our existence, comes as the
extended to every woman converted result of serving and loving humbly
to the Church. and obediently. The Prophet Jo-
This important responsibility seph Smith promised Relief Society
weighs on every Relief Society mem- members, "If you live up to your
ber, not only on the officers. No privileges, angels cannot be re-
two sisters would ever sit side by strained from being your associates.''
side in a Relief Society meeting One privilege is to draw into the
without becoming acquainted and bond of sisterhood every Latter-day
seeking friendship with each other Saint woman and make her, in turn,
as they would continue to meet. A her sister's keeper. In this day of
timid newcomer may be encouraged phenomenal growth in the Church,
to assume her new responsibilities this is the joy and privilege of every
by having her seek out every other Relief Society member,
new member. ''Use them or you'll — M.C.S.
Commonplace Beauty
Susa Gould Walker
The sunflower's claim to beauty,
Depends on where it grows.
It has no place in a wheat field,
As every farm wife knows;
But give me a brown jar and sunflowers,
And you may have the rose.
David
Sleeping on the low hi
fin the triangle of fire,
Brown hair tumbhng on the
Young arm, sheepskin over
Him tender as his mother's
Concern. David, brown boy
Among the billowing sheep.
David
Leaping up like a diver
From the dark . . . taut
Poised . . . listening. . . .
The awakening touch
A burn on his shoulder;
Reverberating in the twin
Tunnels of his ears, the
Roar of the lion. . . .
Fear beating wings
Against the thin boy bones.
Margery S. Stewart
David
Sling in hand
Staring at the lion
Prone at his feet ... not
Daring to believe . . . kneeling
To lift the maned head . . .
Standing to look about. . . .
Someone was there.
Someone stood upon the
Hills and walked among
The stars . . . waiting . . .
For recognition.
David
Small as an ant beside
Embers. . . . There had been
A touch on his shoulder . . .
A palm on his sling
Accurate as his brother's arrow.
David lifted his eyes.
He was corded with wonder
And love. ... He was a harp
And the greatness moved him,
^Making its own song. . . .
. The Lord
. The Lord is my Shepherd.
Jesus
and the Land
He Loved
Chnstine H. Rohinson
AN ancient legend records that from all the seas which God created,
he chose for himself only the Sea of Kenneret. This beautiful sea,
the legend continues, was called Kenneret (Kennor, in Hebrew, meaning
harp) both because the lake is shaped somewhat like a harp and also
because the 'Voice of its waves is pleasant like the voice of a harp."
Kenneret is the Hebrew name for the Sea of Galilee. It was around
the borders of this sparkling, blue lake where Jesus spent his youth and
young manhood. It was here in one of the cities on its shore, Capernaum,
where he officially began his ministry. It was from among fishermen
casting their nets in the Sea of Galilee that the Savior selected his first
disciples. ''Follow me,'' he said, to Peter and to Andrew, his brother,
and to James and John, ''and I will make you fishers of men" (Mt. 4:18-22) .
It was in Galilee where Jesus performed his first miracles, and from
a mount, not far from Capernaum, where he gave the world his divine
beatitudes. After his crucifixion and resurrection, he instructed his dis-
ciples to meet him at Galilee, there to receive the power and instructions
to carry his gospel to, "all nations, baptizing them in the name of the
Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost" (Mt. 28:19).
Galilee, and the area immediately surrounding this country, was the
land that Jesus loved!
During his lifetime, as it is today, this area was one of the most beau-
tiful in all of Palestine. The sapphire blue waters of the Sea of Galilee
surrounded by green farm lands and rolling hills, covered in the springtime
with colorful lilies of the field and, in the background, the spectacular
peak of Mount Hermon, snow-covered much of the year, present a
dramatic picture of natural beauty.
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Nazareth, where Jesus was reared, is only a short ten miles from the
shores of Galilee. From the tops of the hills into which the village of
Nazareth is nestled, Jesus, as a boy, could easily have looked into the
Galilean valley and could have seen the beautiful blue waters of the sea.
During his lifetime, a number of prominent and impressive towns and
cities surrounded the Sea of Galilee. Among these were Capernaum,
Magdala (the birthplace of Mary Magdalene), Gergesa, Bethsaida, and
Tiberias.
npHESE cities were on the ancient trade routes used by the Persians, the
Assyrians, and Babylonions and developed even more extensively under
Roman administration. The Romans were great traders. They im-
proved the network of roads and used their well-trained soldiers to protect
them and to make sure that shipments of goods and merchandise from
these foreign lands flowed unmolested along these trade routes and, ulti-
mately, possibly into Rome itself.
From the heights of Nazareth, Jesus could look east a few miles to
Mount Tabor— so rich in Israelite history. It was on the top of this mount,
some believe, that Jesus' transfiguration, later in his ministry, took place.
From the hills of Nazareth, Jesus could also look down into the Valley
of Jezreel where so many important ancient battles had occurred. He
could look on to Mount Carmel where the prophet Elijah had confounded
the priests of Baal. From here, also, he could see into the land of Samaria
where the fathers Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob had settled in Ganaan and
where they had built their first altars to the Lord. Also, here in Samaria,
was the spot where, later in his ministry, Jesus would meet the Samaritan
woman who had come to Jacob's Well to draw water. As recorded in the
scriptures, he asked her for a drink from the well and then, later, offered
her ''living water," saying, '' . . . whosoever drinketh of the water that
I shall give him shall never thirst . . ." (John 4:14).
Nazareth was in the heart of history. In all directions and at rela-
tively short distances from there, significant historical events connected
with the Children of Israel, and with the prophets, kings, and judges had
transpired. This was a wonderful place in which to live.
A S Jesus grew to manhood in the Galilee area, certain influences undoubt-
edly helped to shape his life and character. His mother Mary, and
Joseph, were devout and dedicated Jews who lived in an orthodox Jewish
community. In the Jewish family, the education of the children occupied
a central place of importance. In this respect, Jesus, of course, would
have been signally blessed. Both his mother Mary and Joseph were
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especially selected as his guardians and teachers. His home life, as he grew
to maturity, must have been beautiful and impressive. There w^ould have
been in the family an abundance of understanding, consideration, kind-
ness, devotion, and unity.
Undoubtedly, during this period of rearing, there were trips out of
Galilee into neighboring provinces. Once a year, at the time of the Feast
of the Passover, the family made the pilgrimage to Jerusalem, the City
of David, the center of their family ancestry. To make this journey, the
family and the party which may have accompanied them, could have
followed the valley of the Jordan to Jericho, some 1,200 feet below sea
level, and from there climbed up the steep and rocky Judean hills to
Jerusalem. From Nazareth, this route would have been a distance of
approximately eighty-five miles. Or, they could have followed the longer
trade route west to the Joppa road and down the coast. From Joppa, they
would have traveled up through the Judean hills to Jerusalem. This route
would have been approximately 105 miles long. Traveling on foot, as they
did in those days, and as many still do today, with a donkey burdened
with personal effects and necessities, this journey would have taken pos-
sibly three or four days. It was on one of these trips when Jesus, as a boy
of twelve, ''tarried behind in Jerusalem." When his parents found him,
he was ''in the temple, sitting in the midst of the doctors, both hearing
them, and asking them questions" (Luke 2:46).
To make the annual journeys down the Jordan Valley and up to
Jerusalem, Jesus probably had passed through Jericho many times and
was familiar with this community and its surroundings. It was near here,
it is believed, that he met John the Baptist and was baptized in the Jordan
by him. Although the exact place where this event occurred is not known,
it is believed that the baptism took place at or near Bethabara (or Bethany
beyond Jordan). This spot on the river is approximately six miles from
Jericho and is also probably near the place where the Children of Israel
first crossed the Jordan to enter into the Promised Land. (See Cover.)
W
HEN Jesus was growing up in Nazareth, the community was a typical,
quaint Jewish village. Much as it is today, its buildings were scat-
tered over three hills, with narrow, winding streets running in all directions.
The community was unimportant and unimpressive. In fact, Nathanael,
who later became one of Jesus' disciples, when he first heard of the wonder-
ful works of the Savior, remarked, "Can there any good thing come out of
Nazareth?" (John 1:46).
In the section of the city where Joseph and Mary lived, there was
the only well in the village. It was from this well that Mary, Joseph, and
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Jesus, undoubtedly, would have obtanied their water. This well has
remained unchanged down through the ages. Today, as in Jesus' time,
it still provides water for the community. Women in their long, black
dresses with hooded heads and veiled faces, carrying earthen jars on their
heads, can now, as during the Savior's time, be seen frequently at ''Mary's
Well" drawing water. According to ancient records, the charm of the
Nazarene women was greater than that of any other Hebrew women
throughout the entire land. As for Mary, herself, it will be recalled that Ne-
phi, when he saw her in a dream, described her as, ''exceedingly fair and
white . . . most beautiful and fair above all other virgins" ( I Nephi 11:13, 15).
The trade of the carpenter, in which Joseph trained Jesus, was quite
different, then, from what it is today. The typical Nazarene home was
made of limestone and often consisted of a single room. The houses,
almost completely devoid of windows, were covered with a flat roof made
of poles, branches, and thick clay. The interiors contained little furniture,
and the beds consisted of mats laid out on the floors. These types of
dwellings required little carpentering and, consequently, Joseph and Jesus'
trade would likely have consisted of making wooden tools, plows and
yokes, and possibly, some household furniture. As there were no lumber
yards, carpenters went directly into the forests, where they obtained their
wood and brought it into their shops for working and shaping.
A'
S Jesus grew to manhood, he was faced with a language problem con-
siderably more complex than we face today. The spoken language
during this time among the Hebrews was Aramaic. This was a Semitic
language which had its roots in Haran, possibly before the time of Abraham.
In addition, the Hebrew language was still employed by the Jews and was
the sacred written language. Moreover, in the neighboring Roman cities,
Greek was the common language of commerce and trade and Latin was
employed to a limited extent. We know that Jesus spoke Aramaic and
that he understood Hebrew. Whether or not he was familiar with Greek
and Latin is not known.
During the lifetime of the Savior Palestine was under the control of
the Romans. For administrative purposes, the territory was divided into
provinces, as shown on the map.
The area of the Decapolis was not a province but consisted of "free
cities" originally established by the Greeks and allowed by the Romans
to operate under semi-independent governments. Historians are not
agreed as to the names of all of the Decapolis cities, but among them were
Damascus, Philadelphia (Amman), Gergesa, and Jerash. We do not
know, for certain, whether or not Jesus ever preached in any of these cities.
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However, the scriptures tell us
that at the beginning of his min-
istry, ''there followed him great
multitudes of people from Gali-
lee, and from Decapolis, and from
Jerusalem, and from Judea, and
from beyond Jordan" (Mt. 4:25).
The scriptures are also explicit in
telling us that he visited some of
these cities and performed mir-
acles in them.
Jerash, one of the most mag-
nificent of the Decapolis cities,
was located on one of the im-
portant trade routes and only a
few miles from the border of the
province of Perea. Jesus could
well have traveled this route as he
went from Galilee to Philadelphia
and on to Jericho and Jerusalem.
Consequently, it is entirely pos-
sible that he might have visited
and preached in Jerash. (See
Mark 5:20; 7:31.) Today, the
ruins of this city are among the
most spectacular and impressive
in the Holy Land.
Palestine, when Jesus lived and
taught there, was a small land.
The entire area covered by the
Savior during his ministry would
not have been much more than
1,000 square miles. His longest
single journey from his home in
Galilee could not have been much over 100 miles. Yet, from this small
area, and from one whose teaching ministry lasted only three years,
have come divine living truths and saving principles that can glorify men's
lives, and which have laid the foundation for eternal salvation and exalta-
tion.
Galilee, and its surrounding area, is today a beautiful and impressive
country. In Jesus' time, this land that he loved v/as truly choice and blessed.
• DAMAS
THE HOLY LAh
AT THE TIME OF JE
10 IS 20
I I I
Scale of Miles
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Beach Morning Glories
Ethel Jacobson
Garlanding dunes
Of silver-brown
Are emerald streamers
Weighted down
With treasure from
A pirate hold —
These chalices
Of fluted gold.
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Beauty's Bright Persistence
Maude Rubin
Once the wagon hauled its freight —
Oak chest and box and bed,
Cornmeal and axe and candlelight —
Toward a far homestead. . . .
In one small earthen jar,
Where darkness hoarded strength,
A lilac-cutting, with its leaves,
Through the dusty length
Of that tortuous desert trek
Through sand and storm to home. . . .
Now by this chimney's crumbled wreck,
Still spills its bloom.
Pioneer Woman
Mar/orie Reay
She was a special breed of woman, different from me.
God strengthened her in ways I cannot know.
Could I but stand beside my sister of the trail.
The difference would show.
More hunger filled her eyes, as searchingly she looked
Along the dusty, rutted trail.
More iron formed her will, with a strong determination
That would not let her fail.
And yet, today, life asks courage of us, still.
The works of faith in all a woman's ways
Must carry her and all her family, without fear,
Throughout these troubled latter days.
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Quick Recipes
Janet W. Breeze
\li7YTH a little thought, even the most common standby foods can be transformed
^ ^ into tempting taste tantalizers! Try these recipes for busy days.
Shrimp Chowder
Dilute 1 can cream of celery soup with i cup evaporated milk and % cup water.
Add one 4 to 5-ounce can of drained, tiny deveined shrimp.
Heat. Serves 4.
Super Burgers
Brown and crumble one pound ground beef. Sprinkle meat with two tbsp. flour
and mix well.
Add one can undiluted onion or tomato soup and mix well.
Spoon onto buns for one of the quickest, easiest hot sandwiches you ever made.
Quick Casserole
Cook and drain one cup elbow macaroni
Add: 1 can cream of mushroom soup
Yz c. milk 1 can tuna, drained
Yi tsp. Worcestershire sauce Cheddar cheese slices
1 c. or small can drained, cooked peas paprika
Mix well, top with cheese slices and sprinkle lightly with paprika. Bake at 350°
for 25-30 minutes, or until heated through. Serves 6.
Corned Beef Hash Ring
Pack a greased ring mold with two one-pound cans corned beef hash. Bake at
350° F about 30 minutes.
Unmold onto serving plate and fill center with six scrambled eggs sprinkled with
parsley. Serves 6.
One-Bowl Meal
Dilute one can cream of tomato soup and one can cream of pea soup with equal
parts milk and combine. Add one 5-ounce can drained and flaked crab meat or tuna.
Season with one tbsp. butter; salt and pepper to taste. Place in baking dish and
garnish with croutons. Heat in oven at 350°.
Tuna on Toast
Saute one medium-sized diced onion until transparent and golden. Add one
can drained tuna, one can cream of mushroom soup, and % cup milk, and add pepper
to taste. Heat. Spoon over toast, or if you prefer, spoon over baked potatoes.
Quick Thousand-Island Dressing
Mix equal parts of chili sauce and mayonnaise or equivalent salad dressing.
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for Busy Days
Mix and bring to boil:
No-Bake Chocnut Drops
2 c. sugar
2 tbsp. butter or shortening
Then add:
2 tbsp. cocoa
Vi c. milk
/4 tsp. salt
Vi tsp. vanilla
/4 c. peanut butter
Mix well.
Then add: 2 c. quick uncooked oatmeal.
Mix well.
Drop from spoon onto waxed paper and let cool. Yield: about 3 dozen.
At Summer's Edge
Linnie Fisher Robinson
Now is the dreaming summertime,
For grass is lush upon the hills;
Before the harvest's gathered in
Nature may rest while time fulfills.
Man lingers out-of-doors until
A chill creeps in — dark drives again;
His steps are ever loath to leave
What he can never quite explain.
Some kinship to the world he sees,
The part that speaks within his heart;
A universal tongue he knows
And treasures silently apart.
Builder of cities that wall him in,
Who, like a prisoner, must yield.
Yet longs for that he does not name —
Communion with the stones and field.
Where all his dreams perceived in truth
Reveal each loss — all he has gained —
And feeds his ever-growing urge
To seek and find the unobtained.
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A Stitch in Time
A Needle and Some Forethought Will Keep a Supply
of Gifts on Hand.
Adelle Ashby
IF you are invited to a number of bridal showers and
wedding receptions each year, and have to count your
pennies, you should look to your needle and thread for
help. You can make a number of worthwhile gifts that
will delight the heart of the new bride and save you
money at the same time.
One of the most popular gifts that a bride likes to
receive is a dainty apron with matching place mats. They
are so easy to make that you can have several on hand
just waiting to be wrapped in tissue and tied with a
sweetheart bow!
You will need one yard of linen, either white or a
dainty pastel, for the apron, and from one to three yards
for the place mats, depending on how many you want
to make for each set and the size desired. You can make
only four, or you may like to make six.
For the apron, start with a rectangular piece of linen
about 30 inches long (the length of the goods) and 14
inches deep, or deeper, as desired. Gather the long edge
on to a 14-inch by 4-inch band. (When doubled, the band
is two inches wide.) Now make strings about three inches
wide, and as long as desired, with tiny hems down the
edges and across the ends.
Make a tiny hem down the two edges of the apron
and across the bottom. Now stitch your own crocheted
edging of\, or buy some dainty lace. Be sure to ease the
lace as you sew around, making a couple of tiny pleats at
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the corners. If ypu sew the
lace too tight, it will ciirl up
and not lie flat.
Cut the place mats either-
in ovals or rectangles at
hem them with tiny hems.
Stitch on the matching lace^
Another set to make that
will hold attention at a show-
er is an apron with matching
tea towels. You can use in-
expensive bleached or un-
bleached muslin for these,
and they are gay and
bright for any kitchen. Make
the apron the same way as
described above, but put a
wide facing of colored ging-
ham or print material across
the bottom, and also make
the ties of the same material.
Make a facing of the same
material across the bottom of each tea towel. That is all the
decoration needed, unless you wish to do some embroidery
work in one corner, or across the bottom above the colorful
facing.
You may want to make a couple of hot pads to go
with this set. Cut two 8-inch squares of the colored gingham
or print, with two layers of flannel in between for padding.
Now bind the four edges with a matching or contrasting
bias, or cut bias from the same material. Cut bias about
V2 inch wide. Stitch a ring in one corner for hanging up the
hot pad.
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Helen H. Allen — Historian and Needlecraft Artist
T TELEN Hunsaker Allen, Tremonton, Utah, is never idle. Her lovely handwork
-*- ■■- represents varied skills which have been developed to a high degree. She has
made hundreds of embroidered, crocheted, and knitted articles, as well as quilts, stoles,
baby shawls and bootees, tablecloths, bedspreads, and beaded purses.
She has prepared eleven Books of Remembrance for her immediate family, and has
gathered sketches of forty-three members of the original Abraham Hunsaker family,
together with family photographs and genealogical information, making possible the
publication of the Hunsaker family history.
Mrs. Allen has been active in Relief Society for more than half a century. She
was a counselor in the first Relief Society organization in Tremonton, and later served
as organist for twenty-five years. She is still an active member and subscriber to the
Magazine, at the age of eighty-five. She is the mother of six children, and has twenty-
four grandchildren, fifty-four great-grandchildren, and five great-great-grandchildren.
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tOotc^
FROM THE FIELD
General Secretary-Treasurer Hulda Parker
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Handbook of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Photograph submitted by Clara J. Sumsion
SPRINGVILLE STAKE (UTAH), THIRD WARD SINGING MOTHERS
PRESENT MUSIC FOR ANNIVERSARY PROGRAM, March 13, 1962
Front row, seated, left to right: Olea Sargent, accompanist; Beulah Whiting; Clara
Boyer; Marie Whiting; Henrietta Nelson; Eva Hone; Donna Packard.
Back row, standing, left to right: Doris Elmer, chorister; Philda Finley; Lucille
Johnson; Bonita Corry; Olive Kartchner; Betty Diamond; Irma Brailsford; Judy Tucker;
Marie Webb.
These sisters presented the music for the Relief Society anniversary party in
March, and also for a sacrament meeting in April.
Clara J. Sumsion is president of Springville Stake Relief Society.
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GOODING STAKE (IDAHO), JEROME SECOND WARD HONORS VISITING
TEACHERS AT CONVENTION
Photograph submitted by Nina Cunningham
Left to right: Arsula Olsen and Flavia
Smith.
Nina Beth Cunningham, President,
Gooding Stake Rehef Society, reports:
"Arsula Olsen and Flavia Smith, members
of the Jerome Second Ward Relief Society,
were honored recently at a visiting teach-
ers convention for having served for twenty-
five years as companion visiting teachers,
and for having loo per cent visiting teach-
ing done during that entire time.
''These sisters are pioneers of the Jerome,
Idaho, area, and were among the first mem-
bers when the Jerome Ward was first
organized. Their husbands served as
bishops of Jerome Ward, and each sister
has a son who became a bishop. These
sisters bear testimony to the great bless-
ings derived from visiting teaching for
others, and for themselves as well."
Photograph submitted by Glenda Thompson
ROY STAKE (UTAH), WEBER COUNTY CHRONIC DISEASE HOSPITAL
BRANCH RELIEF SOCIETY
Glenda Thompson, President, Roy Stake Relief Society, reports: 'There was an
urgent need for spiritual stimulation in the lives of the sisters living in the Chronic
Disease Hospital, several of whom had served in various capacities in Relief Society for
many years. In December i960, under the direction of Stake President Henry A. Matis,
the first meeting at the hospital was held.
"In January 1961, Johanna Tubbs was sustained as president, with Amy Wood
and Mabel Bingham as her counselors, Florence Tull, secretary-treasurer, and Bertha
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525
Child, organist. The hospital sisters were very unhappy with the idea of having Relief
Society only once each month during the summer season, so spiritual programs were
presented during the summer months. In October 1961, class leaders were sustained
for the regular Relief Society season. No work meeting is held because a daily occupa-
tional therapy class is held for the patients.
*'At the present time, there are forty-seven enrolled members and a weekly attend-
ance of around fifty. This work of love is very rewarding, and the spiritual uplift and
joy that it gives the sisters is worth all our efforts."
f'asaiSxi-"' y-„
Photograph submitted by LaVerda O. Lloyd
MOUNT JORDAN STAKE (UTAH), CRESCENT WARD FORMER RELIEF
SOCIETY PRESIDENTS HONORED AT BIRTHDAY SOCIAL, March 13, 1962
Front row, left to right: Olga Lancaster; Mildred Edgel; La Vina Harrison; Ellen
Hardcastle.
Back row, left to right: Donna Steadman, present President; LaVerda O. Lloyd,
President, Mount Jordan Stake Relief Society; Vida Jordan.
Sister Lloyd reports that all living former presidents of the Crescent Ward were
honored at a luncheon and program. Each president was presented with a corsage, and
a brief history of her accomplishments was given. Sixty sisters were served with a
large, tiered, beautifully decorated cake serving as the centerpiece. Favors were gaily
decorated jars of homemade hand cream. A skit entitled "Relief Society, Why?" was
also presented.
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Photograph submitted by Ruby M. Blake
HIGHLAND STAKE (SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH) SINGING MOTHERS
PRESENT MUSIC FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE
December 3, 1961
Ruby M. Blake, President, Highland Stake Relief Society, reports: ''Singing Moth-
ers from the six wards of Highland Stake presented music at both general sessions of
stake conference in December. We are encouraging the wards to keep their Singing
Mothers choruses active and to participate in other stake and ward functions.
''Stake chorister Ella Gale directed the chorus, with Jeannette Demars as pianist,
Darlene Walker at the organ, and Maxine Hill, Linda Kemp, and Oletta Cummings
as viohnists."
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SUMMIT STAKE (UTAH), HENEFER WARD VISITING TEACHERS
HONORED FOR ACHIEVING A ONE HUNDRED PER CENT RECORD
FOR EIGHT YEARS, February 26, 1962
Front row, left to right: Alpha M. Richins, President, Summit Stake Relief So-
ciety; Vera B. Brown, First Counselor; Violet Ovard; Mable Winters; Susannah Fowler;
Rita F. Ovard, Second Counselor, Summit Stake Relief Society; Susie Church; Belva
Nowling; Veda F. Brooks, President, Henefer Ward Relief Society; John F. Hobson,
President, Summit Stake.
Second row, left to right: Elva Richins, visiting teacher message leader. Summit
Stake; Ellen Dawson; Ruby Dearden; Elthera Stephens; Grace Jones; Inez Eakins; Erma
Richins; Maina Dearden.
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527
Third row, left to right: Irene Rowscr; Wilhelmina Dearden; Maxinc Wright; Beth
Fawcett; Ethel Taylor; Cheltina Anderton; Margaret Richins, visiting teacher message
leader, Henefer Ward; Leana Tweed; Clarine Fawcett.
Sister Richins reports: "We were very pleased with the convention and Inncheon,
and we feel it was an inspiration to all present. Our theme was 'I now turn the key
in your behalf, in the name of the Lord, and this society shall rejoice, and knowledge
and intelligence shall flow down from this time henceforth.'
''Our invitations, favors, table decorations, and program were all in keeping with
the theme. Elva F. Richins presented a tribute to visiting teachers. She paid special
tribute to twenty-one sisters for their many years of service, and to six young mothers,
just starting to teach. President Alpha M. Richins paid honor to Henefer Ward visiting
teachers for having eight years of loo per cent visiting teaching. They were presented
a gift by Stake President John F. Hobson, who gave an inspirational talk on the
responsibilities of visiting teaching.
"Other wards in our stake honored were: Coalville Ward, with seven years of loo
per cent visiting teaching; Wanship Ward, with six years; Coalville Second Ward, with
two years. Hoytsville Ward had 99% for the past vear, Upton Ward 88%, and Echo
Branch 67%."
Photograph submitted by Neva E. Paul
HILLSIDE STAKE (SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH), MOUNTAIN VIEW THIRD
WARD OIL PAINTING PROJECT, SUMMER 1961
Left to right: Laura Elkins; Carlie Shurtliff; Vonda T. Richardson, President,
Mountain View Third Ward Relief Society; Oletta Cummings; Adriana Zappy.
Emily WoflFinden and Belle Thomson were unable to be in the picture.
Neva E. Paul, President, Hillside Stake Relief Society, reports that this oil painting
class was planned as a project for the summer of 1961. "The group met once a week
for approximately three months. The paintings completed by the group, as well as other
hobbies developed during the summer, were displayed at the opening social in the fall.
It was felt that the class was a success. Approximately thirty paintings were completed
by the seven women attending."
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Photograph submitted by Martha Scoresby
EAST IDAHO FALLS STAKE SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR
QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, November 1961
Martha Scoresby, President, East Idaho Falls Stake Relief Society, reports: 'This
group sang at our quarterly conference held in November 1961. We are very proud
of the splendid work that they did to help make the conference the beautiful spiritual
meeting it was.
"The Education Counselor of the East Idaho Falls Stake Relief Society is Lucile
Harmon; Work Director Counselor, Beth Olsen; Secretary-Treasurer, Bernice Decker.
The chorister and organist who were responsible for the fine chorus are Wanda Parker
and Madge Johnson, respectively."
Photograph submitted by Mary S'. Grasteit
ORANGE COUNTY STAKE (CALIFORNIA) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT
SPRING CONCERT, March 16, 1962
Stake officers seated front row, beginning fourth from the left, left to right: Jane
Gudmundsen, organist; Venna Black, chorister; Lois B. Anderson, Secretary -Treasurer;
Mary S. Grasteit, President; Ruth M. Bell, First Counselor; Pearl C. Dean, Second
Counselor.
Sister Grasteit reports: *'Our Orange County Stake Singing Mothers presented a
spring concert, using the theme 'Let There Be Song,' on March 16, 1962, at the
Fullerton Ward chapel. Also appearing with the chorus, as guest artist, was Dawn
Adams Phelps, well-known concert violinist from the Los Angeles area. The numbers
ranged from hymns to light opera, and were enjoyed by approximately 550 people.
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529
"There are sixty-eight Singing Mothers in our chorus who have been practicing
since last fall for this event. These are the mothers of 203 children, 109 of whom
are school age, and ninety-four of preschool age. We furnished nursery care during the
practices and cared for as many as seventy-five children, and never less than fifty. The
infants in arms were cared for in the various homes.
''This was an outstanding musical event for which we have received much praise
and are gratefully proud. The chorus plans further appearances for stake conference
and Relief Society convention."
Photograph submitted by Ethel O. Jensen
KOLOB STAKE (UTAH) RELIEF SOCIETIES MAKE LEARNERS' QUILTS
Left to right: Vivian Averett, Second Counselor; Dorothy Brown, work meeting
leader; Ethel O. Jensen, President, Kolob Stake Relief Society; Maude Neilson, First
Counselor.
Sister Jensen reports: "In an effort to teach handwork skills to Relief Society
women, we asked each ward to make a learners' quilt. We have seven wards in Kolob
Stake. The sisters were taught to purchase material, embroider or piece blocks, set
them together, put the quilt on frames, and to quilt and bind the quilts. Through this
project, seven beautiful quilts were made, with 163 women learning, and there were
854 hours spent on the work. All the sisters enjoyed the project, and they all wanted
to know when we are going to do more quilting.
"We judged the quilts according to hours spent and the amount of participation.
The quilts were the highlights of a hobby fair, where there were displays from each
ward of foods, clothing, and all kinds of handwork.
"Our stake officers are proud of the efforts in the wards, and we feel that the
project has accomplished the goal of teaching this skill to our young women."
LESSON DEPARTMENT
THEOLOGY The Doctrine and Coveimnts
Lesson 41 — The Center Place of Zion*
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Sections 57; 58:1-14)
For Tuesday, October 2, 1962
Objective: To learn that ancient prophets foresaw the New Jerusalem on the Ameri-
can Continent, and that the Lord's promise concerning Zion will not go unfulfilled.
Background
T^HE year 1831 was an eventful
one in the life of the Prophet
Joseph Smith and, consequently, of
the Church. Among many impor-
tant developments of that year, the
Prophet had come to Kirtland,
Ohio, for the first time. Within six
months he w^as in Jackson County,
Missouri, arriving there in July.
With the publication of The
Book of Mormon, the saints began
to speculate as to where the New
Jerusalem of which the ancient
scriptures prophesied would be lo-
cated. The Jaredite prophet Ether
was shown many events of the last
days, including the fact that the
New Jerusalem would be built upon
the American Continent. (See Ether
13:2-11.) Several centuries later,
the resurrected Christ taught the
same thing to the Nephites. (See
3 Nephi 20:22.) The Savior con-
tinued by explaining that with his
Church established on the land of
America in the last days, all of gath-
ered Israel, including the Lamanites
of that day, would build the city of
the New Jerusalem. (See 3 Nephi
21 : 20-29.) ^^^^ Lord said to Enoch,
the seventh from Adam, that he and
his city which were taken into the
heavens would unite with the city
of Zion on the earth at the begin-
ning of the millennium. (See Moses
7:62-64.)
Interest in the location of the New
Jerusalem was shown by many saints.
One of these, Hiram Page, claimed
to know the place where this holy
city would be built. As a result,
the Lord revealed that this location
was not to be known then ( Septem-
ber 1830), but that it would be ''on
the borders by the Lamanites"
(D &C 28:9).
*"Zion" in this lesson has reference to the location of the city of Zion.
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531
In February 1831, the saints were
told by revelation that if they prayed
for information on this subject it
would be revealed {ihid., 42:62). In
the following months it was made
known that the New Jerusalem
would be located in the western
lands. In preparation for this, the
elders were to preach the gospel and
build up churches. (See ibid.,
45:64-66.)
At the close of the June 1831 con-
ference held in Kirtland, the Lord
said that the saints were to assemble
in the land of Missouri. (See ibid.y
52:2, 42-43.)
In the middle of July 1831, the
Prophet rejoiced with his brethren,
who had long awaited his arrival in
Missouri. Upon arriving in the
''promised land," the Prophet felt
to exclaim: ''When will the wilder-
ness blossom as the rose? When
will Zion be built up in her glory,
and where will Thy temple stand,
unto which all nations shall come
in the last days?" {D.H.C. 1:189).
These questions were soon answered
upon receiving Section 57 in July
1831.
Section 57 and the New Jeiusalem
Verses 1 and 2 of Section 57 point
out that the land of Missouri is the
land for the gathering of the saints.
Wherefore, this is the land of promise,
and the place for the city of Zion (D & C
57:2).
After revealing that the center
place of Zion was Independence,
Missouri, the Lord said that the
land of inheritance should be pur-
chased "even unto the line running
directly between Jew and Gentile."
(See ibid., 3-5.) The Jew here is the
Lamanite or Indian. (See ibid.y
19:27; Omni 14-19.) In this sparsely
settled land the saints were advised
to obtain land by peaceful means.
The remainder of this revelation
gives instructions to several brethren
whose appointment to these callings
had been made in former revelations
(namely, Sidney Gilbert, ibid.,
57:6; 54:4; Edward Partridge, ibid.,
57:7; 41:9; 42:10; William W.
Phelps and Oliver Cowdery, ibid.,
57:11-13; 55:4).
The promise of revelation to guide
the elders and members of the
Church closes Section 57. (See
ibid., 57:16.) On the first day of
the next month a revelation was
received in which the Lord set forth
his plan for the Church in Missouri.
Backgiound of Section 58
As the Nephites knew ancient
America to be the land of promise,
so also do the Latter-day Saints
know that within the greater prom-
ised land, the land of Missouri is
"the land of promise" where the
righteous will be gathered in the
troublous days preceding the second
coming of Christ. (See D & C
57:1-2; 45:62-75.)
A preaching service was held the
first Sunday after the Prophet and
his party arrived in Jackson County
when two persons were baptized.
(See D.H.C. 1:190-191.)
The Beginnings oi Zion
Just before Section 58 was re-
ceived, the Colesville (New York)
saints, more recently from Thomp-
son, Ohio, numbering about sixty
persons, arrived in Missouri by com-
mandment. (See D.H.C. 1:191.)
Concerning this branch of the
Church and its part in the beginning
of Zion, the Prophet wrote that the
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first log for a house was ''carried and
placed by twelve men, in honor of
the twelve tribes of Israel." The
land was also dedicated by Elder
Sidney Rigdon for the gathering of
the saints. (See ibid., 1:196.)
From John Whitmer's "History of
the Church/' we learn that the
saints pledged to keep the com-
mandments in their new land. (See
ihid., 1:196.) A description of this
part of Missouri at the time of the
Prophet is found in his journal. (See
ibid., 1:197-198.)
A Message of Hope
and a Forewarning
For the saints who had arrived in
Jackson County and for those who
would follow, the Lord expressed a
message of hope for the future, as
well as a prediction of tribulation.
These messages were directly con-
cerned with the land of Missouri.
For verily I say unto you, blessed is he
that keepeth my commandments, whether
in hfe or in death; and he that is faithful
in tribulation, the reward of the same is
greater in the kingdom of heaven (D & C
58:2).
The predictive element in this
verse is strongly present. The em-
phasis placed upon the two proposi-
studying (Section 58:2), it is stated
that continued faithfulness is re-
quired even beyond mortality. That
we shall be the same persons in the
spirit world that we are when we
leave this life, is a part of our knowl-
edge. (See Alma 34:32-34.) In that
day we shall all realize that happi-
ness results from obedience to
divine law.
With counsel concerning the
necessity to be faithful in tribula-
tion, the saints were immediately in-
formed that the land of Missouri
would not then be known as their
permanent home. Granted that the
saints may not have realized the full
import of the following message, yet
they were forewarned:
Ye cannot behold with your natural
eyes, for the present time, the design of
your God concerning those things which
shall come hereafter, and the glory which
shall follow after much tribulation.
For after much tribulation come the
blessings. Wherefore the day cometh that
ye shall be crowned with much glory; the
hour is not yet, but is nigh at hand
(D & C 58:3-4).
It was not long before persecution
was heaped upon the saints in Mis-
souri. Details of the future are
wisely withheld by the Father that
tions stated — hope and also tribula- his people may look beyond tempo
tion — is announced by the use of rary setbacks to their ultimate glory,
the word 'Verily," which means ''in (See D & C Commentary, page
very truth." Although all men are 334-)
expected to live the laws of God, as In a subsequent lesson we shall
they know them, the Latter-day learn more about the reasons why
Saint is bound by acceptance of the the saints were persecuted. For the
atonement of Christ through bap- present, however, two causes are
tism to keep the commandments.
(See ihid., 18:42-43.) Throughout
the scriptures, promises are made
that the blessings shall be rich for
those who remain worthy even unto
death. In the revelation we are now
mentioned: first, their religious be-
liefs, especially concerning the res-
toration of the gospel with its gifts
and powers. For example, the
Manifesto issued by a Missouri mob
on July 20, 1833, referred to the
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533
saints pretending to receive revela-
tions direct from heaven and to per-
form miracles as the apostles and
prophets of old. (See D.II.C.
1:374-376.) Second, that in conse-
quence of the saints' transgressions,
they were chastened and not al-
lowed to redeem Zion at that time.
(See D & C 101:1-10; 103:1-4; 105:
1-6.) The prediction that the saints
would pass through tribulation was
fulfilled when they were driven from
Missouri, then Illinois, and then to
the mountains outside the bound-
aries of the United States. (See
D & C Commentary, pp. 331-332.)
The manner in which most of the
early saints endured ''much tribula-
tion'' is a credit to their faith. The
testimony of President Young con-
cerning his own experience could be
said of many others:
. . . We have passed through a great
many scenes, we may say, of tribulation,
though I would have all my brethren
understand that I do not take this to
myself, for all that I have passed through
has been joy and joyful to me. ... I have,
myself, five times before I came to this
valley, left everything that the Lord had
blessed me with pertaining to this world's
goods, which, for the country where I
lived, was not a very little {Journal oi Dis-
courses, 18:237).
The ability of the faithful Latter-
day Saints to pass through tribula-
tion or trials though they may come
only as the normal experiences of
life, may be attributed to the hope
and knowledge that ''the day Com-
eth that ye [they] shall be crowned
with much glory. . ." (D & C 58:4).
One can understand as a Latter-day
Saint that the testimony of the truth
restored through the Prophet Joseph
Smith has given and continues to
give an assurance that the Lord's
word will be fulfilled. Without this
divine promise, many would find it
difficult to endure to the end.
Glory to Come
Ultimately to all the faithful will
come blessings of eternal life. There
will be a happy reunion with depart-
ed loved ones, and the joy of eternal
increase with its manifold blessings
of dominion and honor. But the
message to the saints of our time is
that the inheritance promised in
Missouri [Zion] will yet be realized.
"... the hour is not yet, but is nigh
at hand" (D & C 58:4). "It must
be much nearer now than when this
inspired line was first penned"
(D &iC Commentary, page 335).
This significant truth is found in
the fifth verse of this revelation:
Remember this, which I tell you before,
that you may lay it to heart, and receive
that which is to follow (D & C 58:5).
The Lord has promised his people
that after much tribulation would
come the blessings of much glory.
At the time, however, they were not
to see the redemption of Zion. For
us today, we may be assured that
the prophecies concerning Zion will
all be fulfilled. One of the rich
legacies of the Latter-day Saints is
to live in a period when the proph-
ecies are being fulfilled. One im-
portant purpose of prophecy is to
serve as confirmation of the proph-
et's mission and that the fulfillment
will instil in the hearts of people
the desire to obey the Lord's word.
In the light of these purposes, what
faith should the Latter-day Saint
have in the future of Zion?
Reasons for the Saints
Gathering in Zion
Several reasons are given for the
commandment to gather to Mis-
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souri. It is clear from this revela-
tion that the saints were to lay the
foundation of Zion. Regardless of
what would happen after the saints
began their work, the time would
come when Zion would prosper in
the preparations made for the return
of the Savior to the earth. The re-
demption of Zion would come only
as the people knew and fully accept-
ed in their lives the reasons which
follow:
Behold, verily I say unto you, for this
cause I have sent you — that you might
be obedient, and that your hearts might
be prepared to bear testimony of the
things which are to come (D & C 58:6).
The Church of Jesus Christ is
divinely directed. Strict obedience
is essential for salvation. The direc-
tion of the Church requires the
directing will of the Father through
inspired prophets. (See D &: C
Commentary, page 336.)
In verse 6 we have also another
purpose in that the obedient would
bear testimony of the truth revealed
through the Prophet.
In addition to keeping the com-
mandments as stated, the saints of
1831 were to be honored in laying
the foundation of Zion. (See
D & C 58:7.) The Prophet Joseph
Smith records that on the third day
of August 1831, he dedicated the
temple site, a little west of what was
then Independence, Missouri. As a
part of this service, the 87th Psalm
was read. When one thinks of the
glory which will yet surround this
place and the purpose of the temple
prophecied centuries ago, he can
well understand the Prophet's com-
ment: ''The scene was solemn and
impressive." (SeeD.H.C. 1:199.)
The fourth reason for the saints
coming to Zion, as given in verse 7
of this revelation, was to bear record
of the land itself.
Another purpose of God in estab-
lishing Zion is given in verses 8 to
10 which was realized at some period
after laying the foundation of that
city, as pointed out in the D Si C
Commentary, pp. 336-337.
The Day oi the Loids Power
Further information regarding the
glory of the Zion of the last days is
brought to our attention in verses
11 and 12 of this revelation. The
interpretation of these verses indi-
cates events which usher in the
millennial reign of the Savior. (See
D Si C Commentary, page 337.)
The assurance of the fulfillment
of God's word brings forth the
Lord's last reason for the building
of Zion. (SeeD & C 1:37-38.) It
is that his testimony or law is to go
forth from Zion to enlighten the
world. (See ibid., 58:13.)
The Future Glory oi Zion
President Brigham Young in these
words referred to the time when he
saw the return of the saints to build
up Zion in Missouri:
. . .Before we were driven out of Mis-
souri I had a vision, if I would dare to
say that I had a vision, and saw that the
people would go to the east, to the north
and to the west; but we should go back
to Jackson County from the west. When
this people return to the Centre Stake
[place] of Zion, they will go from the west
( Journal of Discourses, 11:17).
Because of the conditions which
prevented the saints from building
the temple in Zion, the Lord re-
leased the saints from performing
this important duty at that time.
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535
(See D & C 124:49-51.) When the
call comes from the divinely appoint-
ed servants of the Lord, the city and
temple will be built as commanded
for this generation {Ibid., 84:4-5).
Due to the driving of our people
from the land of their inheritance,
being thus moved out of their place,
they will return to build unto the
Lord the long-predicted Zion. (See
ihid., 101:17-10.) When this task is
undertaken the saints will be led
with pov/er. In the meantime, the
Lord's people must become great
and sanctified before him. (See ibid.,
105:11-13, 31-32.) The laws and
commandments, including the living
of the law of consecration, will be
lived ''after her [Zion's] redemp-
tion." (See ibid., 105:34.)
When the Prophet Joseph Smith
first viewed the land of Missouri, his
vision was not on the then disad-
vantages of that place but upon the
greatness of the Zion to be. Here is
his message:
But all these impediments vanish when
it is recollected what the Prophets have
said concerning Zion in the last days; how
the glory of Lebanon is to come upon her;
the fir tree, the pine tree, and the box
tree together, to beautify the place of His
sanctuary, that He may make the place of
His feet glorious. Where for brass. He
will bring gold; and for iron. He will bring
silver; and for wood, brass; and for stones,
iron; and where the feast of fat things will
be given to the just; yea, when the splen-
dor of the Lord is brought to our con-
sideration for the good of His people, the
calculations of men and the vain glory of
the world vanish, and we exclaim, "Out
of Zion the perfection of beauty, God
hath shined" (D.H.C. L198; cf. Isaiah
60:12-22) .
Questions ioi Discussion
1. Give some of the prophecies relat-
ing to the New Jerusalem.
2. Why do you think the Indian is
referred to as the Jew in Section 57?
3. Discuss: Before the expulsion of the
saints from Missouri, the saints were fore-
warned of tribulation,
4. Give two reasons why the saints
were driven from Missouri.
5. Why do you think the saints have
been able to stand up against persecution?
THE ONLY ROAD
The only road on earth that is in no need of repair is the straight and narrow.
— Shirley Taylor
VISITING TEACHER MESSAGES
Truths to Live By From the Doctrine and Covenants
Message 41 — "Men Should Be Anxiously Engaged in a Good Cause"
(D&C 58:27).
Chiistine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, October 2, 1962
Objective: To demonstrate that the best cause in which we can be anxiously engaged
is that of giving love and service to others.
ALTHOUGH history is full of make our personal contribution in
dramatic and world - shaping meeting the critical demands of the
events, there probably never was a time. Some of us might be tempted
period more critical and yet more to conclude that the little contribu-
challenging than the present. There tion we might make would be lost
never was a time when the need was in the face of the enormity of the
greater for men to be ''anxiously world problems. The answer to this
engaged in a good cause." was dramatically portrayed in an in-
The word anxious means to be cident which recently occurred in
earnestly desirous, to be zealous and New York City. Crowds in that
eager. It implies particular concern city's subways were startled not long
for both the present and the future, ago to see, along with advertisements
If we strive earnestly and with for soaps and toothpaste, a car card
determination to help others we are displaying the Ten Commandments,
''anxiously engaged in a good cause.'' The advertisement was signed, "Paid
More and more of our world's for by a friend." In due course
thoughtful observers are now coming newspaper reporters, sensing the pos-
to the conclusion that the only sibility of a story, tried to learn who
permanent solution to our heavy this unusual advertiser might be.
world problems lies in the area of After considerable research, and
service, brotherhood, and genuine some difficult detective work, they
love for one another. The Savior, learned that the friend was an ordi-
who knew the solution to all man- nary stenographer. This was her
kind's problems, expressed this basic personal project motivated by the
thought when he said that loving desire to influence others for good,
the Lord and our neighbor are the When she was interviewed, the
two commandments on which "hang stenographer said she had read some
all the law and the prophets." (See place that "sometimes a small thing
Matt. 22:36-40.) can change the world." To make
Many of us these days are asking this personal contribution, she had
ourselves how we can be anxiously saved the cost of the advertisement,
engaged in a good cause and thus $400, from her personal earnings.
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537
Her personal contribution did much
to focus attention on the Lord's
commandments.
In our own search for a good cause
in which we can be anxiously en-
gaged, we need not seek such a dra-
matic method as described in the
above experience. Our good cause
may be service to others of a more
personal, less publicized nature. We
can be anxiously engaged in a good
cause by sharing the saving truths
of the gospel with our friends and
neighbors; by seeking to lighten the
loneliness, sorrow, and heartaches of
those with whom we associate; and
by encouraging and strengthening
those who are downhearted and dis-
couraged.
It has been said, ''The greatest of
the world's heroes could not by any
series of acts of heroism do as much
real good as any individual living his
whole life in seeking, from day to
day, to make others happy" (Jordan,
Wm. George: SeJf-ControJ, page
191).
Let us, then, never allow the sun
to set without making sure we have
done some good, eased someone's
burden, ''cheered up the sad, and
made someone feel glad." Let us
always remember the words, "There
are chances for work all around just
now, opportunities right in our way.
Do not let them pass by, saying,
'sometime I'll try,' but go and do
something today" {L.D.S. Hymns,
page 58).
WORK MEETING
The Latter-day Saint Home
(A Course Expected to Be Used by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 1 — The Latter-day Saint Home Is Well Organized (Part 1)
Dr. Virginia F. Cutler
For Tuesday, October 9, 1962
Objective: To show that successful home management begins with happy, wholesome
family relationships.
/^UR first home management sub-
ject is organization and plan-
ning. Perhaps it will help us to
understand the scientific approach
to home management if we know
about the beginnings of scientific
management in industry. In 1880,
Fredrick W. Taylor, after twenty-
three years of studying management,
stated his theory: ''Efficiency is the
end and aim of scientific manage-
ment; it is brought about through
planning, organizing, and learning
to do shop jobs skillfully."
Many countries tried out Taylor's
efficiency theory and learned that
it was lacking on two counts: first,
the best results are not obtained
from the worker if he does not have
satisfying relationships with his work
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group; second, a worker becomes
dissatisfied and unhappy and leaves
his job if he does not have some
creative outlet.
Our problem is, how can we re-
late the theory of industrial man-
agement to home management?
Have you read Cheaper By the Doz-
en? If so, you have become
acquainted with the remarkable
Gilbreth family that first tried out
these scientific ideas in a home sit-
uation. On the foundation of love,
an efficient management system was
developed. The family knew the
jobs to be done. They knew who
were responsible for doing them;
and they knew how to have a good
time while they worked. The story
of their family life, as well as their
scientific reports of time and motion
studies put to the test in washing
dishes and doing other household
tasks, provide good reading for the
homemaker who wants to make her
work a profession.
Today, there are some well-defined
principles of home management that
can be recommended for any home
situation. If they are followed care-
fully and adhered to until pro-
ficiency is acquired, many dollars
may be added to the annual income;
and there will be bonuses or stay-at-
home pay that cannot be measured
in dollars and cents. There will be
the building up of a priceless family
trust, a happy confident trust that
rewards all dedicated home man-
agers.
To reap these rich rewards, the
order of the industrial management
theory must be reversed. Of pri-
mary importance in home manage-
ment is first, a condition of happy
relationships in the family group;
and efficiency takes second plate.
This means that a feeling of love
and sincerity permeates the home
and can be recognized by anyone
who visits the family.
Even though all members of the
family are working on different
projects, there is a feeling of to-
getherness. The interest shown by
each member in the welfare of the
others is ever apparent. Family
loyalty is strong, and one sees a co-
hesiveness that makes the family
organization the matrix around
which all else revolves.
And so, our home management
theory begins with happy, whole-
some, family relationships. Family
values that help to make such re-
lationships are described in the Fam-
ily Values Test. Check yourself
and family on these values and you
will be better prepared for the next
lesson, which deals with scientific
ways of making your home efficient.
Family Values Test
Our family has:
1. Security
a.
The safe feeling of having enough money to
pay our bills and keep out of debt.
The peace of mind that results from thrift,
wise use of resources, and a nest egg for a
rainy day.
Yes
Some-
what
No
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539
2.
a.
Our family has:
c. The satisfaction of a high credit rating that
comes from strict honesty and moral trust —
worthiness in all dealings.
Health
Well-planned meals, with all essential nutri-
ents every day.
b. A home that is based on love which feeds the
heart and lifts the soul to meet each day's
demands.
c. A home that is clean and orderly and a suit-
able setting for healthful family living.
3. Comioit
A home that makes cold days feel warm and
hot days feel cool — where all have a place for
relaxation, rest, and rebuilding of inner re-
sources.
4. Privacy
A feeling of protection against intruders, with
each person having one place in the home that
is strictly his own, even if it is only a small
corner or a dresser drawer.
5. Friends
A love of people and a sharing with them of
family fun and hospitality, at mealtime, family
nights, and on special occasions.
6. Convenience
A home that is planned so that work and activi-
ties may be carried on easily.
7. Hohhies
Special interests, such as music, art, books, col-
lections, pets, or crafts which occupy much of
our "at-home" time.
8. Religious Activity
a. Family and individual prayers, blessing on the
food, scriptural reading.
Planning for Church attendance and activity.
Study of ancestors — writing biographies,
making Books of Remembrance and Treasures
of Truth.
9. Educational and Cultural Amhitions
a. Enough schooling to help each member to
live abundantly.
b. Family trips and excursions to learn more
about the world and its people. (This could
be a trip to the park or museum.)
c. A home library of books and records, with
opportunities for home concerts and book
reviews.
10. Piovision for Beauty
a. A home made beautiful through creative
eflfort.
b. Attractive clothes to help us look and act
our best (neat and clean).
Yes
b.
c.
Some-
what
No
LITERATURE America's Literature
The New Birth of Freedom
Lesson 33 — Thoreau, Man in Nature
Elder Brian t S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 471-495)
For Tuesday, October 16, 1962
Objective: To feel and appreciate Thoreau's "inexpressible satisfaction" with the
gift of hfe.
HENRY DAVID THOREAU
A LMOST everyone who has heard
of Henry David Thoreau knows
that he spent two years hving in a
shanty he constructed with his own
hands on the shore of Walden Pond
some few miles outside Concord,
Massachusetts. And now as then
the inevitable questions follow:
Why did he leave normal society
for so long? Other than verifying
impressions of his being eccentric,
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what did he prove? And most
pressing, what did it get him?
The desperate publisher of Thor-
eau's first book A Week on the
Concoid and Menimac Rivers,
dumped on the author over seven
hundred of the thousand copies
printed rather than burn them, so
poorly did they sell. Thoreau's
Walden, a compilation which
''sprouted" from his journals, sold
less than two thousand copies before
his death in 1862. Yet, in our cen-
tury, few American books have been
more widely translated throughout
the world. While many giants of
English and American nineteenth-
century literature constantly dimin-
ish, he who received scorn and
neglect from his contemporaries,
continues to grow in stature, influ-
ence, and challenge. Thus our final
question to ourselves might well be
to ask why this is so, and what our
own age finds in his long-neglected
pages that lay there concealed so
cunningly for more than a century.
Here two widely accepted general-
izations may help us. First, many
accept Thoreau as the most pene-
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541
trating nature-writer America, if not
all mankind, has produced. Second,
no American has surpassed the pow-
er and subtlety of his prose. The
following sentences reveal fully both
Thoreau's all-consuming love of
nature and the pristine purity of the
out-of-doors as seen through his eyes.
. . . Walden is a perfect forest mirror,
set round with stones as precious to my
eye as if fewer or rarer. Nothing so fair,
so pure, and at the same time so large,
as a lake, perchance, hes on the surface
of the earth. Sky water. It needs no
fence. Nations come and go without
defiling it. It is a mirror which no stone
can crack, whose quicksilver will never
wear off, whose gilding Nature continually
repairs; no storms, no dust, can dim its
surface ever fresh; — a mirror in which
all impurity presented to it sinks, swept
and dusted by the sun's hazy brush — this
the light dust-cloth — which retains no
breath that is breathed on it, but sends
its own to float as clouds high above its
surface, and be reflected in its bosom still
(Walden, "The Ponds," page 195).
Thoreau loved Nature, and by
giving himself completely to her on
her own terms, he felt that he could
change and grow nearer the perfec-
tion which Nature best symbolized
to him. Again of Walden Pond:
... it is itself unchanged, the same
water which my youthful eyes fell on; all
the change is in me. It has not acquired
one permanent wrinkle after all its ripples.
It is perennially young, . . . where a forest
was cut down last winter another is spring-
ing up by its shore as lustily as ever; the
same thought is welling up to its surface
that was then; it is the same liquid joy
and happiness to itself and its Maker, ay,
and it may be to me (Ibid., page 199).
Herein Thoreau reminds us that
regardless of how brusquely visible
nature may be roughed, her eternal
identity is constant; she is ever
young and self-renewing to those
who can scrape aside irrelevancies
and commune with her. To those
who will hear Thoreau out and come
to him on his own terms, few writ-
ers are more challenging or reward-
ing.
From 1845, when he went to
Walden, to almost 1945, Thoreau
the man has been so controversial a
personality both to his critics and
his would-be readers, that his words
have not been read and evaluated
on their own merit or in the light
of his deeper intent. Thus we may
justly say of Walden as Thoreau
said of Walden Pond, "it is itself
unchanged ... all the change is
in me.'' Before Thoreau's words
could be fully appreciated, Thoreau,
sharp-tongued yet tender, had to
die, and also the false image of
Thoreau as created by the influen-
tial James Russell Lowell, who by
background and personal tempera-
ment simply could not understand
him. To citybred, professorial
Lowell a symbolic approach to na-
ture was incomprehensible, and
when, as editor of the newly
launched Atlantic Monthly, he in-
sisted on his privilege as editor to
change some of Thoreau's carefully
chosen words in a manuscript sub-
mitted for publication, Thoreau de-
fended his integrity. The quarrel
which followed emphasized the per-
sonal objections Lowell had pre-
viously found in him, thus delaying
a just and sympathetic reading of
Thoreau for several decades.
Thoreau the Man
Outwardly, according to usual
standards, Thoreau's life was barren.
Born July 12, 1817, in Concord, he
graduated from Harvard when he
was twenty, briefly taught school
but rebelled against dressing in
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formal clothes and against beating
his students into learning, as local
administrators expected him to do.
Aside from some few brief trips to
Maine, Cape Cod, Staten Island,
and New York City, he spent his
entire forty-four years in Concord.
Intermittently he helped edit the
Dial, the mouthpiece of Transcend-
entalism, lectured almost annually
before the Concord Lyceum and oc-
casionally elsewhere, made pencils
in his father's factory, surveyed, and
performed menial domestic odd jobs.
Ralph Waldo Emerson was attracted
to the youthful scholar, who was
able to read Greek, Latin, French,
Italian, Spanish, and German. He
saw in Thoreau a man of independ-
ent mind and of great promise.
At Emerson's invitation, Thoreau
served as hired man in the Emerson
household while the famous writer
and lecturer was abroad. Save for
those rare occasions when his time
was committed elsewhere, Thoreau
walked in the woods and fields every
day of his life, striding with a fierce
Indian-like cadence which became
his hallmark.
It seems ironical that oiie who so
loved physical exertion and striding
through the woods unrestricted by
trail or road should be afflicted by
tuberculosis, yet so it was. During
Thoreau's final months of confine-
ment at home, when he saw lifelong
friends passing by, he asked his
mother, ''Why don't they come to
see me? I love them as if they were
my own." Learning of his desire,
his friends came often thereafter. As
long as he could still sit up, he
insisted in taking his place at the
family table at mealtime. *'It would
not be sociable to take my meals
alone." When death was not far
off, a religious, yet curious friend
asked him, ''Henry, have you made
your peace with God?" To which
Thoreau replied, "I was not aware
that we had quarreled." His final
words reveal his typical care in
choosing words, as well as his sound
wisdom: "It is better some things
should end." An anonymous obitu-
ary notice in a Boston paper com-
mented, "When we now look back
at the solitude of his erect and spot-
less person, we lament that he did
not live long enough for all men to
know him." Emerson spoke of him
in similar vein at his funeral:
The country knows not yet, or in the
least part, how great a son it has lost. . . .
His soul was made for the noblest society;
he had in a short life exhausted the capa-
bilities of this world; wherever there is
knowledge, wherever there is virtue, wher-
ever there is beauty, he will find a home
(Canby, Henry S.: Thoreau, Houghton
Mifflin Co., 1939, pp. 454-455).
Some people, however, did not
share his esteem. They felt him to
be an educated loafer who showed
no leadership or respect for intel-
lectual pursuits as a college graduate
should, but instead escaped respon-
sibilities of marriage and society by
his zeal for being in nature and
studying her, but only to please
himself.
But others respected and loved
him. Whittier felt his books were
the work of a genius, for "to take
up his books is like a stroll in the
woods or a sail on the lake — the
leaves rustle and the water ripples
along his pages." He always re-
minded a lifelong friend of "an
eagle, ready to soar to great heights
or to swoop down on anything he
considered evil." For his superior
insight and honesty, Thoreau's
LESSON DEPARTMENT
543
greatest friend and lifelong influ-
ence, Emerson, deserves the final
words, as he recorded in July 1852:
Thoreaii gives me, in flesh and blood
and pertinacious Saxon belief, my own
ethics. He is far more real, and daily
practically obeying them, than I; and
fortifies my memory at all times with an
affirmative experience which refuses to be
set aside.
On two qualities in Thoreau all
agreed. Children loved him, so free-
ly did he give himself to them. He
juggled for them, drew his knife
out of their ears, sang folksongs,
told Indian stories, and regularly
took them for rides in his boat and
led huckleberry parties. Conversely,
with adults Henry was shy. Harvard
classmates recalled that when he
conversed at all, it was with eyes
lowered. He abhorred group socials,
particularly formal calls on friends
when all sat about stiffly amid paus-
es, bantering respectable cliche
phraseS; while really each hid behind
the bastion of his non-communicat-
ing self. The Emersons claimed
that he could not walk through the
kitchen where ladies were present
without blushing, and Ellen SewalFs
refusing his one proposal of mar-
riage did not make him less isolated.
Perhaps Elizabeth Hoar was justi-
fied in saying of him, ''I love Hen-
ry, but do not like him. . . . One
would as soon take the arm of an
elm tree."
Thoreau, Lover oi the
Ideal in Nature
Evidently Henry was not una-
ware of his ''faults" as society de-
fined them, for in 1852 he wrote of
himself, 'If I am too cold for human
friendship I trust I shall not soon
be too cold for natural influences."
He was tiie true son of nature who,
according to Bronson Alcott, "had
the profoundest passion for nature
of any one of his time." Removing
himself from all man-made distrac-
tions, he retired to Walden Pond,
in his own words,
. . . because I wished to li\'e deliberately,
to front only the essential facts of life, and
see if I could not learn what it had to
teach, and not, \\'hen I came to die, dis-
co\'er that I had not lived. I did not wish
to live what was not life, living is so dear;
nor did I wish to practice resignation, un-
less it was quite necessar)-. I wanted to
live deep and suck out all the marrow of
life, to live so sturdily and Spartanlike as
to put to rout all that was not life, to
cut a broad swath and shave close, to drive
life into a corner, and reduce it to its
lowest terms, and, if it proved to be mean,
why then to get the whole and genuine
meanness of it, and publish its meanness
to the world; or if it were sublime, to
know it by experience, and be able to
gi\'e a true account of it in my next ex-
cursion {Walden, "Where I Lived and
What I Lived For," pp. 96-97. See also
Text, page 485.)
No one has ever reduced life to a
lower denominator than did Tho-
reau, nor wrested from one's exist-
ence in Nature a meaning and signi-
ficance more sublime. "It is the
marriage of the soul with Nature
that makes the intellect fruitful, and
gives birth to imagination," he
wrote in his Journal in 1851, and no
better proof of his statement exists
than his own writing, afire with
piercing keenness and apt image as
he details his "inexpressible satis-
faction" within himself once he
realizes he is at one with Nature.
In "Spring," a chapter in Walden,
which was published in 1854, eight
years before his death, Thoreau
speaks thus:
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. . . We need the tonic of wildness —
to wade sometimes in marshes where the
bittern and the meadow-hen lurk, and
hear the booming of the snipe, to smell
the whispering sedge where only some
wilder and more solitary fowl builds her
nest, and the mink crawls with its belly
close to the ground. At the same time
that we are earnest to explore and learn all
things, we require that all things be mys-
terious and unexplorable, that land and
sea be infinitely wild, unsurveyed, and un-
fathomed by us because unfathomable.
We can never have enough of Nature.
We must be refreshed by the sight of
inexhaustible vigour, vast and Titanic fea-
tures — the sea-coast with its wrecks, the
wilderness with its living and its decaying
trees, the thunder cloud, and the rain
which lasts three weeks and produces
freshets. We need to witness our own
limits transgressed, and some life pastur-
ing freely where we never wander [Wal-
den, ''Where L Lived and What I Lived
For," pp. 317-318).
While believing that *Ve must
never under-estimate the value of a
fact, for it might one day blossom
into a truth/' Thoreau greatly feared
those who approached life and Na-
ture with the scientist's objectivity,
regarding all reality as fact only. For
one truly alive,
. . . The earth is not a mere fragment
of dead history, stratum upon stratum like
the leaves of a book, to be studied by
geologists and antiquaries chiefly, but living
poetry like the leaves of a tree, which
precede flowers and fruit — not' a fossil
earth, but a living earth; compared with
whose great central life all animal and
vegetable life is merely parasitic. (Ibid.,
page 310).
Earlier in Walden, from his essay
"Where I Lived/' he memorably
specifies this grand theme, namely,
that the ultimate good life is here
and now, beneath our feet and with-
in our perceiving eye, if only we can
learn to sense its real meaning. How
good is here-and-now, as seen by
Thoreau:
... If the day and the night are such
that you greet them with joy, and life
emits a fragrance like flowers and sweet-
scented herbs, that is your success. The
true harvest of my daily life is somewhat
as intangible and indiscernible as the tints
of morning or evening. It is a little stgr
dust caught, a segment of the rainbow
which I have clutched.
Thus Thoreau reveals himself in
true dress and dream : eternally he is
discontented, ever stirring up trouble
among his fellows by reminding
them of the sweet joy of existence
which they, too, could know and
experience, if only they would be-
lieve and aspire. Once again in a
final quotation, Thoreau tries to pull
man and prod him to soar above
hmiself by seeing himself in Nature
not actually but symbolically. The
quotation is from the essay ''Walk-
ing" which was published after his
death.
We hug the earth — how rarely we
mount! Methinks we might elevate our-
selves a little more. We might climb a
tree, at least. I found my account in
climbing a tree once. It was a tall white
pine, on the top of a hill; and though I
got well pitched, I was well paid for it,
for I discovered new mountains in the
horizon which I had never seen before —
so much more of the earth and the heav-
ens. I might have walked about the foot
of the tree for threescore years and ten,
and yet I certainly should never have seen
them. But, above all, I discovered around
me — it was near the end of June — on
the ends of the topmost branches only,
a few minute and delicate red conelike
blossoms, the fertile flower of the white
pine looking heavenward. I carried
straightway to the village the topmost
spire, and showed it to stranger jurymen
who walked the streets — for it was court
week — but they wondered as at a star
dropped down. Tell of ancient architects
finishing their works on the tops of col-
umns as perfectly as on the lower and
more visible parts! Nature has from the
LESSON DEPARTMENT
545
first expanded the minute blossoms of the
forest only toward the heavens, above
men's heads and unobserved by them. We
see only the flowers that are under our
feet in the meadows.
Thoughts for Discussion
1. How does Thoreau increase your
appreciation of life?
2. If Thoreau's ideas and style could be
simplified, should they be?
3. How do you account for the fact
that few American books have been more
widely translated throughout the world
than has Thoreau's Walden?
4. What particular memories of nature
do Thoreau's vivid descriptions bring back
to you?
SOCIAL SCIENCE Divine Law and Church Government
The Foundation of Church Government
Lesson 1 — The Meaning of Divine
Elder Ariel S. BdUi
For Tuesday, October 23, 1962
Objective: To establish in the mind the sacred nature of Church government through
the definition of divine law.
Bdid in God Is Basic
IN order for us to have a clear
understanding of the law of God,
to recognize his right to authority,
and to harmonize our actions with
his wisdom, we must first accept
without reservation the fundamental
premise that God lives ". . . he that
cometh to God must believe that
he is" (Heb. 11:6).
In Mosiah 4:9, we read, "Believe
in God; believe that he is, and that
he created all things, both in heaven
and in earth; believe that he has all
wisdom, and all power, both in
heaven and in earth; believe that
man doth not comprehend all the
things which the Lord can compre-
hend"
To accept the reality of God is an
act of faith supported and sustained
by available evidence. Evidence of
the existence of God is found in two
main sources: the first is in the
orderliness of the universe and the
earth we live on. The heavens are
full of planets and stars moving in
orderly orbit, each in its own sphere
of action. The earth is teeming
with the handiwork of the Supreme
Being as evidenced in the move-
ment of the earth on its axis, its
movement through space in synchro-
nized relationship to the other
planets, the effectiveness of daylight
and dark, the seasons of the year,
and the extensive organization of
life itself. All this was climaxed by
the creation of man to whom God
gave dominion over all living things.
The second source is the evidence
found in the records of sacred litera-
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ture. The Bible is a record of God's
dealings with man, including a re-
port of the creation and the begin-
nings of man's conquest of the forces
of nature.
Supporting Scripture
The Bible does not stand alone as
the supporting evidence of the
existence and reality of God. The
Book of Mormon, a record of God's
dealings with man compiled by
authorized agents on the Western
Hemisphere, is another witness for
the same great truth that God lives
and that mankind is his greatest con-
cern in the whole of his creation.
The sacred records referred to
above are replete with evidence of
the reality of God. Sometimes their
evidence is in the form of wisdom
and counsel given for the welfare of
man. Again it is found in the re-
ports of his voice identifying his Son
and giving approval to the plan of
life and salvation as presented by
the Lord:
And Jesus, when he was baptized, went
up straightway out of the water: and, lo,
the heavens were opened unto him, and
he saw the Spirit of God descending like
a dove, and hghting upon him: And lo a
voice from heaven, saying, This is my
beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased
(Matt. 3:16-17).
Upon the Western Hemisphere,
some time later, there was a similar
happening. The eleventh chapter
of 3 Nephi in The Book of Mormon
is a record of the Eternal Father pro-
claiming the Christ. The people
. . . did hear the voice, and did open
their ears to hear it; and their eyes were
towards the sound thereof; and they did
look steadfastly towards heaven, from
whence the sound came.
And behold, the third time they did
understand the voice which they heard;
and it said unto them:
Behold my Beloved Son, in whom I am
well pleased, in whom I have glorified my
name — hear ye him ( 3 Nephi 11:5-7).
In modern times the Prophet
Joseph Smith saw two Beings, God
the Father and his Son Jesus Christ.
Joseph bears record to the world
that he heard the voice of God
identify the Savior with the state-
ment, 'This is my Beloved Son."
At the same time God approved the
mission of the Savior, including the
plan Christ had presented, by say-
ing ''Hear him" (PGP, Joseph Smith
2:17).
A Deiinition oi Theology
The study of God through a care-
ful, unprejudiced examination of the
sacred literature and the organized
information dealing with God is
called theology. To analyze this word
theos means God, and logos means
an organized body of knowledge. It
is out of this organized body of
knowledge that we can discover the
reality of God and the true meaning
of his revelations to man, provided,
as we study, that we have faith suf-
ficient to enjoy the inspiration of
his spirit.
To all members of The Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
has been given the gift of the Holy
Ghost. Only by the witness of the
Holy Ghost can the members testify
to the reality of God the Eternal
Father and his Son Jesus Christ.
This witness does not automatical-
ly follow our confirmation to mem-
bership in the Church; it comes
through humility, service to our
fellow men, and a sincere effort
LESSON DEPARTMENT 547
to incorporate into our lives the rules under his dominion, subject to his
of conduct, the way of life or religion laws, and controlled by his will and
as found in the teachings of the power (Taylor, John: The Govern-
divine will of God. nient oi God, August 1852, page 1 ).
In The Doctrine and Covenants,
A Definition oiDivinQ Section 132:12, we read, ''I am the
In the use of the term divine, Lord thy God; and I give unto you
clarification and specific meanings this commandment — that no man
must be given. According to the shall come unto the Father but by
dictionary, the word divine may be a me or by my word, which is my law,
noun, meaning a clergyman, or min- saith the Lord/' And in ancient
ister; a verb, meaning to foretell or scripture we read, ''Know therefore
prophesy; or an adjective, meaning this day, and consider it in thine
godlike, heavenly, or emanating from heart, that the Lord he is God in
God. heaven above, and upon the earth
beneath: there is none else" (Deut.
The Latter-day Saint 4 • 39 ) •
Concept oi Divine From the above statements, we
To the Latter-day Saint the defi- must conclude that for a Latter-day
nition of divine refers specifically to Saint the term divine has a sacred,
God our Eternal Father, to his Son holy meaning in that things divine
Jesus Christ, and to the Holy Ghost, originate with God the Eternal
for they are one in purpose. It refers Father. In this sense, divine refers
to their dealings with us, including to all the instruction, guidance, and
all that pertains to the plan of life rules of conduct that God has re-
and salvation. All that is good vealed through all ages for the bene-
comes from God and is, therefore, fit and progress of his children on
divine. We recognize God as the earth. ''Thy righteousness is an
Creator without qualification or everlasting righteousness, and thy
limitation. Paul the apostle had this law is the truth" (Psalms 119:142),
same point of view when he said, and ". . . the truth of the Lord en-
dureth forever" (Psalms 117:2).
For by him were all things created, that
are in heaven, and that are in earth, visible /^ j tt \n wr- j
and invisible, whether they be thrones, ^^^ ^f {"^^ Wlsdom
or dominions, or principalities, or powers: With the above in mind we will
all things were created by him, and for consider the WOrd of God tO be
^™* divine law. Our study is built on
AJTir 11 ^1. jii- the basic premise of the reality of
And he is betore all things, and by him r^ i r\c ^ ■ • i
all things consist (Col. 1:16-17). ^o^- ^^ ^^"^1 importance is the
companion idea that God knows all
President John Taylor in com- things pertaining to his innumer-
menting upon this scripture said, able creations.
"If all things, visible and invisible, To man, the challenge was issued
are made by and for him, he governs in the beginning to people the
and sustains all worlds to us known, earth, subdue it, and have dominion
together with the earth on which we over all living things upon it. In
live. If he governs them, they are plain, simple terms the earth was
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designed for the benefit of man;
however, he must achieve the bene-
fits through his own efforts by dis-
covering the governing principles
involved.
As has been pointed out before,
the earth and the universe operate
on God's laws. The operation of
the planets and the stars, the oper-
ation of the elements and the rules
governing life upon this earth are
fixed by divine law. Man does not
have the control nor operation of
these laws. This function of cre-
ation God has retained. Under his
wisdom it has operated successfully
according to his design.
People — God's Crowning
Creation
The universe in its degree of per-
fection is the place provided for
man to grow and develop and, in the
process, bring under subjection for
his use and comfort all that nature
has to offer.
... the fulness of the earth is yours,
the beasts of the field and the fowls of
the air, and that which climbeth upon the
trees and walketh upon the earth;
Yea, and the herb, and the good things
which come of the earth, whether for
food or for raiment, or for houses, or for
barns, or for orchards, or for gardens, or
.for vineyards;
Yea, all things which come of the
earth, in the season thereof, are made for
the benefit and the use of man, both to
please the eye and to gladden the heart;
Yea, for food and for raiment, for taste
and for smell, to strengthen the body and
to enliven the soul.
And it pleaseth God that he hath given
all these things unto man; for unto this
end were they made to be used, with
judgment, not to excess, neither by ex-
tortion (D & C 59:16-20).
Divine Law Is for the Welfare
of His Children
From the beginning of the first
dispensation of time, God has re-
vealed himself to his children upon
this earth. In a consistent manner
and in language that could be under-
stood he has pointed out the destiny
of man. President Lorenzo Snow,
a modern prophet, summarized
man's destiny in his statement "as
God is man may become.''
The mind and will of God con-
cerning man have been expressed
through revelation giving direction
to man through which he can obtain
the most out of life. Divine revela-
tion has concerned itself primarily
with laws governing man's relation-
ship with man.
The Social Aspect of Out Religion
Basic to all the law given is the
divine law of love, having its funda-
mental meaning expressed in the
kinship relation of the Fatherhood of
God, and the brotherhood of man.
The love of one's fellow men is
essential to the love of God. On this
divine law— love of God and love of
fellow men, are all the laws based.
In the creation, man was recog-
nized as a social being. The Creator
said ". . . It is not good that the
man should be alone; I will make
him an help meet for him" (Genesis
2:18). The first commandment
given to Adam and Eve was to peo-
ple the earth. With the coming of
people the problems of interaction
increased. The struggle between
Cain and Abel was evidence of the
intensity and importance of human
association. This conflict invoked
another basic law that we are our
brother's keeper. From generation
to generation the Lord has patiently
LESSON DEPARTMENT
549
continued to keep before his chil-
dren the divine laws of human con-
duct.
During Christ's ministry there
was a re-emphasis of the rules of
conduct with clarification of the
destiny of the human family. He
stated anew the plan of life and his
purpose in this world which was to
bring to pass the immortality and
eternal life of man. How was this
to be accomplished? By man's
obedience to the divine laws and
ordinances governing human con-
duct which is his gospel.
We are told ''I, the Lord, am
bound when ye do what I say; but
when ye do not what I say, ye have
no promise" (D & C 82:10); and
"There is a law, irrevocably decreed
in heaven before the foundations of
this world, upon which all blessings
are predicated — And when we
obtain any blessing from God, it is
by obedience to that law upon
which it is predicated" (D & C
130:20-21).
The major concern of the great
council in heaven was how man
could obtain the most out of his
earthly experience. The plan of
God the Creator was to give man
his agency. Christ volunteered to
put the Father's plan in operation.
The Savior was to provide man with
direction and stimulation to develop
and progress under divine rules and
regulations.
Man with his freedom can listen,
learn, and choose. The divine law
has been given for his benefit. If he
will operate or direct his life accord-
ing to the law, it is possible for him
to achieve the full objective of his
creation.
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man's destiny the divine law has
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EveJyn FjeJdsted
Our apple tree is gone.
Chalice blossoms pink and white,
Will never open wide again,
To hold the rains and warm sunlight.
Knarled old branches shielding homing
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Brought spring perfume, inviting shade,
Gifts of apples brushed with red,
And autumn leaves — a gold cascade.
How many trees have come and gone
Since this our land began to grow —
Gone with this our tree — our pioneer?
Only passing winds could know.
Our family tree is gone —
There is no singing now at dawn.
child Swinging
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Just seconds ago
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And that was enough
For me to know.
Now, a handful of wild,
Sweet air-borne fluff
Lighter than snow,
She is separate, free.
Yellow hair afly.
She is the essence of freedom.
Feet pointed to the sky
Away from me.
Her cascade of laughter
Is a bell's ding-dong;
Air-emancipated spirit
Beyond my claim,
While she is swinging —
A triumphant song
Without a name.
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Greening at your feet;
The surrounding hills
Are fawn beige, embroidered
In varying shades
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The aspens, like groups
Of small chicks running
From their mother's wing.
Cover the mountainside.
Their foliage quivers
In the spring sunlight.
The straight pines
Seem new-washed
And stronger
From the winter's
Vicissitudes
While you, like a matriarch
In age and white wisdom, stand
Serene, above the young,
Renewing land.
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY^irfvGAZINE
Motithly Pablicdticn of the Relief Society of
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AUGUST 1962
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE Marianne C. Sharp Editor
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SPECIAL FEATURES
She Knew the Prophet Joseph Smith — Part V — Margaret Mclntire Burgess
Preston Nibley 556
My Shadow Celia Larsen Luce 573
Sunday Morning on Temple Hill Mabel Luke Anderson 578
Jerusalem, City of Peace Christine H. Robinson 589
nCTION
Comjxiny Best Lael Jensen Littke 559
Out of the Wilderness — Chapter 2 Shirley Thulin 566
Hand to the Plow — Part IV — Dedication Ilene H. Kingsbury 580
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 554
Sixty Years Ago 584
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 585
Editorial: In the Family There Is Strength Vesta P. Crawford 586
Notes to the Field: The Annual General Relief Society Conference 588
Relief Society Magazines for 1961 Available for Binding 588
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 603
Birthday Congratulations 632
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Vacation By the Day Betty G. Spencer 565
My Shadow Celia Larsen Luce 573
My Family Likes All Kinds of Fruit — Just So They Are Peaches Vilate R. McAllister 574
"Thou Shalt Not Be Proud" Martha Tucker Fugate 577
Family Desserts Mabel Harmer 597
Make a Drip-Dry Apron Janet W. Breeze 600
Clara Partridge Stevens — Artist With Needle and Brush 602
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Theology — "Engaged in a Good Cause" Roy W. Doxey 610
Visiting Teacher Messages — "He Who Doeth the Works of Righteousness . . ."
Christine H. Robinson 615
Work Meeting — The Latter-day Saint Home Is Well Organized — Part II
Virginia F. Cutler 617
Literature — Henry David Thoreau — Individualist Briant S. Jacobs 619
Social Science — Divine Law and Human Welfare Ariel S. Ballif 625
POETRY
The Little Things — Frontispiece Dorothy J. Roberts 553
Hour of Dusk, by Christie Lund Coles, 564; Hymns of Praise, by Ouida Johns Pedersen, 572;
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she Knew
the Prophet
Joseph Smith
MARGARET McINTIRE BURGESS
Part V- Margaret Mclntire Burgess
Preston Nibley
Assistant Church Historian
IN The Rdiei Society Magazine,
for January 1918, there is a brief
sketch of the hfe of Mrs. Margaret
Mclntire Burgess, of St. George,
Utah, written by herself. In this
sketch she relates that she was born
in the State of Pennsylvania in 1837,
and that, about the time of her
birth, her parents were converted to
the Mormon religion through the
efforts of a young missionary named
Erastus Snow. Then, in the year
1840, the father sold the family
possessions in Pennsylvania, and
with his wife and three children,
moved to Nauvoo, Illinois, the head-
quarters of the Church.
''When we arrived in Nauvoo,"
Margaret wrote, ''our things were
stored in a large frame building, un-
finished, owned by a gentleman by
the name of George Telling, being
on the corner of Main and Parley
streets. Shortly afterwards my father
bought the building and had it
finished up comfortably, and we
lived there until the general expul-
sion of the Saints to the West."
It was while the family resided
in Nauvoo, during the childhood
of Mrs. Burgess, that the following
interesting events took place, which
she relates as follows:
"We were close neighbors to the
Prophet's family, and very intimate,
too. The Prophet was often in our
home for short visits. One morning
he came in and noticed I had a piece
of flannel around my throat. He
inquired if my throat was sore.
Mother told him it was, and she
was afraid it was the mumps. He
called me to him and took me upon
his lap, then took the flannel off
*The portrait of the Prophet Joseph Smith reproduced on the opposite page was
painted by Alvin Gittins. The original painting hangs in the board room of the Church
Office Building in Salt Lake City, Utah.
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and asked mother for the oil. He
anointed my throat with the oil and
then administered to me. I knew
I was well, as I got down from his
lap after which I felt no more sore
throat— another proof of his tender
loving heart.
"One morning as we were on our
way to school, my brother and I
were forced to walk in some very
muddy places as it had rained the
previous night. The school was down
near the river and there was one very
bad place we had to go through
where we got stuck fast, and I
began to cry, as did my little brother.
I thought I would surely never get
out, but on looking up, we saw the
Prophet coming right for us. The
crying soon ceased. He carried me
out first and then my brother. He
took his handkerchief out of his
pocket, wiped the tears from our
eyes and cleaned the mud off our
shoes, all the time speaking comfort-
ing words to us, sending us on our
way rejoicing, at the same time
pointing out a safer way to get to
the school house. Oh, our beloved
Prophet, how deep were his sym-
pathies and how his kind heart
yearned to do good.
"Now let me tell you of another
incident before I stop. My mother
had twin baby girls, and Aunt
Emma, as we called her (the Proph-
et's wife) had been confined and her
baby had died.* Soon after the
death the Prophet came in one
morning and said, 'Sister Mclntire,
I have come to borrow one of your
babies,' and mother exclaimed,
'Why, Brother Joseph, what do you
want with one of my babies?' 'Well/
he replied, 'I want one of them for
my wife to comfort her only for a
time.' He talked with mother a
while and she finally told him he
could have one baby through the day
time if he would bring it back nights,
so the bargain was made and the
Prophet smiled with gratitude.
"The twins were so much alike
that they could be scarcely told
apart, but, of course, mother knew
and their dispositions were not alike
—one was a quick little thing and
the other was mild. My mother
would set them in the double cradle,
made high at each end and low in
the middle, and give each some
playthings, and the quick one would
take all the things away from the
mild one. They were dressed exactly
alike.
"One morning when the Prophet
came for the baby, mother reached
him the other baby. He took it and
looked at it, kissed it and handed
it back and said, 'Not my little
Mary,' so mother reached him little
Mary. He had always taken the little
mild one — her name was Mary and
the other one was Sarah.
"The Prophet would always bring
the baby up himself at night. One
night he did not come as usual and
mother went down and found the
baby was crying. Brother Joseph was
sitting by the fire trotting it. He
had it wrapped up in a little silk
quilt, preparatory to starting out
with it. When mother went in it
reached its hands to her. When
she took it the baby soon was still.
When mother started back the
Prophet took the baby from her and
walked up home with her. When
Aunt Emma's health returned, our
baby came home to stay."
'The Prophet's son Don Carlos was born June 13, 1840, and died in August 1841.
Company Best
Lael Jensen Littke
N
OW don't forget," Molly
said, as she cleared the
breakfast dishes from the
table, ''the hamburger is thawing on
the third shelf of the refrigerator,
and there's fruit for a nice salad.
You can fix the hamburger any way
you want, and then cook some rice
or something/'
Sixteen-year-old Lois grinned.
''Better make it potatoes. Mother,"
she said. "Remember what hap-
pened last time I cooked rice? I
thought a cup of it uncooked looked
like nothing at all, so I cooked the
whole package."
"A person isn't likely to forget a
kitchen full of cooked rice," laughed
Molly. "All right, make it pota-
toes." She glanced at the clock on
the kitchen wall. "If I hurry, I'll
have time to do the breakfast dishes
before I go."
"I'll do them," said Lois. "You
run along. Grandma Feeney will be
expecting you. I think she likes to
have you take care of her better
than anyone else, and I don't blame
her."
"Flatterer," said Molly. "Now,
are you sure you can manage dinner
and everything by yourself? You
can fix you and Ted and the twins
a little snack when you get home
from school, so you can all last
until dinnertime. Daddy will be
home about six, and I should be
here about six-thirty."
"Don't worry, Mother, I'll take
care of everything." Lois turned the
hot water on the dishes and then
cleared her throat. "Mother," she
said in her I-doubt-if-you'11-approve-
but-there's-no-harm-in-trying voice,
"may I use the best china and silver
and crystal and everything?"
"Whatever for?" asked Molly.
"What's the occasion?"
Lois shrugged. "No occasion. I
just think it would be a lot more
fun to get dinner, if I could use
the pretty things." She held up
one of the breakfast plates. "This
everyday stuff is so chipped and
everything."
"It's just fine for the family. You
know the china is our company
best."
"But we never use it. When Uncle
Dave and Aunt Bea were here last
month, we used our everyday stuff."
"They didn't mind," laughed
Molly. "They're just family."
"And when Kathy came over to
spend the night with me, we didn't
use it either. She was company.
Whom are we expecting to come to
use it, the President of the United
States?"
"Our everyday dishes are just
fine," said Molly. "I worked so
hard to get that china, piece by
piece, and I don't want the twins
breaking it."
"Aw, Mom," said Lois, "it would
be so . . . well, kind of romantic to
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use the best things. It would make Feeney wasn't exactly the smiling,
the hamburger taste like filet mig- co-operative patient envisioned in
non." their home nursing demonstrations
last year. To be downright truthful,
jyjOLLY grinned at her daughter, she was a real trial sometimes, or so
''My stars, a person needs a most of the sisters thought. Molly
degree in psychology to understand was of the opinion that she herself
sixteen-year-olds nowadays. Now you would probably act the same way in
do as I say." She picked up her the same circumstances. Here
purse and the crocheting she was Grandma Feeney was, at eighty-two,
taking with her. 'Tve really got to lying in bed after a serious illness,
rush. Sister Fletcher has been there waiting to be moved to a nursing
with Grandma Feeney all night and home, and depending on the Relief
Fm sure she's anxious to leave. Society sisters to care for her since
Goodbye now." She kissed the she had no family left. Her husband
girl's cheek and hurried out of the had passed away eleven years before,
house. and ''Grandma" was only an hon-.
Walking toward Grandma Feen- orary title, since her only child, a
ey's house, she smiled fondly at the daughter, had died of scarlet fever
romantic notions of a sixteen-year- when she was seventeen. I don't
old. The best china for hamburg- blame her a bit for acting as she
ers, indeed. There was no place for does, Molly said to herself,
chipped dishes and old tarnished
silverware in the bright dreams of a AS she expected. Grandma Feeney
young girl. Lois didn't know yet was fretting when she arrived,
what it was like to work hard to get "A body works day and night for
nice things, or she would know why eighty years," she was telling Sister
Molly was reluctant to use the Fletcher, probably for the twentieth
company best china. Molly remem- time that morning, "and then
bered only too well the difficult kerblam! Something wears out, and
days of low income and high ex- you just fall apart like the Wonder-
penses when she and David were ful One Hoss Shay. You've heard
first married. Slowly, over the years, the poem about the Wonderful One
one piece at a time, she had bought Hoss Shay, haven't you, Sister
the lovely dinnerware, the sterling Jones?"
silver, and the crystal she was so "Sister Fletcher," said that good
proud of today. lady, also probably for the twentieth
It had seemed so important to time, "you know I'm not Sister
have something really nice. She Jones, Grandma Feeney."
supposed that Lois thought she was "Guess I just forgot," said Grand-
as old and crotchety as Grandma ma Feeney. "But I do remember
Feeney, but she was a good girl, the 'Wonderful One Hoss Shay.' I
And, speaking of Grandma Feeney, could still say the whole thing off
thought Molly, she'd better speed by heart if a body was to ask me."
up a little bit. Sister Fletcher would She turned faded blue eyes on Molly
be more than ready to leave after a as she came through the bedroom
night with the old lady. Grandma door. "You've heard of the 'Won-
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derful One Hoss Shay/ haven't you, ''And you want to know something?
Sister Molly Andrews?" You're right nice company when
''At least she remembers your you want to be."
name," whispered Sister Fletcher. Grandma Feeney sighed. "It's
"Why, come to think of it," just that I get so tired of lying here
Molly said to Grandma Feeney, "I all the time. I have worked so hard
don't believe I've heard that poem most of my life, and it seems like a
for a long time. I'll let you recite big waste of time to lie here. I'm
it for me just as soon as I say good- just an old woman with nothing
bye to Sister Fletcher here. I'll be left to enjoy."
right back." "You're a woman who has earned
"Honest to goodness," whispered a rest," said Molly. "Now, since
Sister Fletcher, as she gathered up you've already had your breakfast,
her belongings in the small parlor, we'll change your bedclothes and
"sometimes I just want to scream, comb your hair, then maybe I'll
I think she just plagues me for the read to you if you'll be good." She
joy of it." looked around the little bedroom.
"Oh, I'd probably be the same "Where is it you keep your sheets?"
way," said Molly, "if I had to be Grandma Feeney indicated a large
there on that bed day and night and cedar chest standing in the corner,
didn't have any family to worry "That was my hope chest," she said
about me." proudly. "I had it filled to the brim
Sister Fletcher smiled. "You have with pretty things when I married
a good heart, Molly. Well, I'll turn my Tom. I keep my sheets in there
her over to you." She threw a so they'll smell nice."
sweater over her shoulders, picked "All right," said Molly, opening
up her purse and knitting, bade up the big chest. "I'll just dig some
Molly goodbye, and left. out, and we'll have you all changed
"Grandma Feeney," said Molly, in a jiffy."
going back into the bedroom, "will In the chest she found a variety of
you recite that poem for me now?" rough and rather ragged sheets.
"These have certainly seen better
HE faded eyes sparkled a little, days," she said, holding one of them
Aw," said Grandma Feeney, up.
"you know I just do that to bother "Just like me," said Grandma
some of the ladies a little. Some of Feeney "They're plenty good for
them can hardly wait for their time me."
here to get over with, and I guess I "I'll see if I can find some in
just tease them a little for entertain- better shape," said Molly, digging
ment. Just to get their dander up, deep into the chest.
I guess." Near the bottom, she came upon
"My nine-year-old twins do the several pairs of pillowcases neatly
same thing to me sometimes." folded. Lifting them out, she saw
"All right, Molly Andrews, I they were all delicately embroidered
know what you're trying to say to and resplendent with frothy cro-
me," said Grandma Feeney. dieted edgings. She dug into the
"Sure you do," answered Molly, chest again and came up with four
T
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sheets, also handsomely decorated
with crocheted edgings.
''/GRANDMA Feeney/' she said,
''I struck a real gold mine
here." She held up the prettiest of
the sheets, one which had forget-me-
nots embroidered on its border, next
to a wide crocheted edge. 'This is
what we'll put on your bed today."
''No, we won't," exclaimed Grand-
ma Feeney. "I wouldn't think of
it. Those are my company best.
I'm not going to use them."
"Whom are you expecting for
company, the President of the Uni-
ted States?" asked Molly. A tiny
memory of Lois saying exactly the
same thing that morning fluttered
across her mind.
"Those are my trousseau things,"
said Grandma Feeney, "and I've
kept them all these years. I am not
going to use them now. When I
think of all the work I put in on
those things when I was a young
girl waiting for Tom to come back
from his mission, my fingers just
ache. Annie Olsen had a bigger
trousseau when she married Ed
Johnson, but everybody in town said
I had the prettiest. And I don't
aim to use those things now."
"Good gracious. Grandma Feeney,
haven't you used them at all?"
"No, sirree," the old lady said
with spirit. "That nice material
wasn't so easy to get in those days.
Unbleached muslin sheets were plen-
ty good for the family to use, and
these were for company best."
The frail hands plucked at the
delicate embroidery. "I guess we
never did get much company."
"Well, then, we'll just pretend
that you're company, and we'll use
them right now."
Despite the old woman's pro-
tests, Molly expertly changed the
sheets, lifting the thin body as she
had been taught in the home nursing
course. When she had finished,
she found the prettiest of the pillow-
cases, a pair with appliqued pansies
on the edge.
"Not those," pleaded Grandma
Feeney, "why those were Tom's
favorites. You never saw a man for
admiring nice things like Tom did.
And Ellie Mae . . . you know, that
was my girl that died . . . she used
to want to sleep on them. She said
it would be like sleeping in a pansy
bed. You know how romantic young
girls are."
"I know," said Molly, thought-
fully.
"You put them right back in that
chest, Molly Andrews."
"Nonsense," said Molly, "I'm go-
ing to put them on your pillows, and
while you lie on them you can
think back about when you were
young and sewing on them and how
much you loved your Tom."
Grandma Feeney's eyes softened.
"I did those while Tom was on
his mission. I used to write him
letters about the nice things we
would have in our home when we
got married. And I was true to him
all the while he was away, Molly
Andrews. I never even looked at
another young man." She chuckled.
"Although Gus Horner was always
asking me to go to dances with him.
Guess that's hard to imagine, look-
ing at me now, isn't it?"
"You just let me get your hair
combed now, Grandma Feeney,"
said Molly, bustling about looking
for a hairbrush, "and you'll look
just as young and pretty as you did
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563
then. Why, you'll look so nice that
when Dr. Roberts comes this after-
noon he'll say, 'What is a beautiful
young girl like you doing lying
around like this?' "
Grandma Feeney laughed. *'I feel
like a queen lying here in my very
best sheets with this old head on
my prettiest pillowcases. Just like
a queen."
By the time Molly had finished
brushing her hair, she was nodding
sleepily.
''Molly Andrews/' she said drow-
sily, taking Molly's hand, "I want
you to have all my nice things in
that chest when I go. I haven't got
chick nor child to leave them to,
and you're the only person I would
want to have them. After the work
I put in and all, I don't want them
handed out to just anybody. I want
you to take them."
Molly stroked the old woman's
forehead gently. "Why, thank you,
Grandma Feeney. I don't know
when anyone's done anything so
nice to me."
"Imagine me sleeping in my com-
pany best sheets," smiled Grandma
Feeney. "A body forgets how nfce it
feels. I sure wish now I had let
Ellie Mae sleep on these cases. Like
sleeping in a pansy bed, she used
to say." The drooping eyes closed,
and Molly tiptoed from the room.
That evening after Dr. Roberts
had been there and pronounced
Grandma Feeney better than she
had been for days, and Sister San-
ford had come to stay the night,
Molly said goodbye to the invalid.
As she reached down to kiss the
withered cheek. Grandma Feeney
pulled her close and whispered in
her ear. "You know what, Molly
Andrews," she said, "I feel like a
million dollars here in my pretty
things. Sister Sanford won't even
know me, I'll be so nice to her
tonight. I just want to thank you."
Molly squeezed Grandma Feen-
ey's hand. "And I want to thank
you."
"I didn't do anything for you.
What are you thanking me for?"
"For more than you know,"
smiled Molly. "Goodbye now."
l\/f OLLY walked fast on her way
home. She wanted to get there
before the family started eating
dinner. Sometimes, she thought to
herself as she sped along, sometimes
a person needs a house to fall on
her before she can see something
clearly. Thinking this, she walked
a little faster.
Lois was making gravy when
Molly burst into the house. "Lois,"
she called almost before she was
through the door, "we're going to
have filet mignon tonight."
Lois stopped stirring the gravy
and looked at her mother, startled.
"We're going to what?''
"You scoot in the dining room
and gather up all those old dishes
off the table, while I get down the
good china. We're going to eat
hamburger in style tonight."
Lois peered closely at her. "Moth-
er, are you all right?" she asked.
"I'm a lot better than I was this
morning," said Molly. "After you
gather up the old dishes, you can
get out the best silverware."
Lois stared. "But you said this
morning I couldn't use the good
things."
"One of these days," said Molly,
climbing up to the high cupboard
where the best dishes were kept.
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"we'll all fall apart like the Won-
derful One Hoss Shay, and then
what good will pretty dishes that
have never been used be?"
Lois shook her head. ''Mother,
are you really sure you're all right?
Are you sure you want to use the
company best dishes?'"
''Correction, my dear daughter,"
said Molly. "They are family best
dishes from now on. After all, we
won't be entertaining the President
of the United States very often, and
who is more important to us than
our very own family, anyway?"
From her high perch she smiled
down at Lois' still bewildered young
face. "Someday," she said, "I'll tell
you all about the joy that went into
getting these dishes, one by one.
and how I had to put off buying
the soup tureen one winter so I
could buy you a snowsuit. There
are lots of stories that go with these
dishes, and I'll tell them to you
when we use them. We won't use
them every day, or we'd get tired
of them, just as we get tired of our
old dishes. But from now on we're
going to use them for all kinds of
special occasions, like when my very
sweet and lovely daughter cooks
hamburger for the family and wants
it to taste like filet mignon."
Lois threw back her head and
laughed, then walked toward the
dining room. "Honestly," she said,
"a person needs a degree in psy-
chology to understand mothers now-
adays."
Hour of Dusk
Chiistie Lund Coles
The soul has need of no companion here,
Within this hour of gentle, mauve-soft dusk;
With clouds, like pink sails floating on the clear
Ocean of sky; air as fragrant sweet as musk.
The new moon, like cantaloupe's green rind,
Hovers beneath one star quivering above;
While birds continue chattering till they find
A nesting place; there is the coo of dove.
I think God sends this hour to reconcile
The intruding darkness and the glittering day.
It is as though w€ stood before his smile
And heard his words dispelling our dismay.
The soul has need of no companion here,
It stands serene in its own atmosphere.
Vacation-by-the-day
Betty G. Spencer
CEVERAL years ago, we discovered a wonderful new way to vacation.
My husband's vacation was rescheduled for late fall, meaning no vaca-
tion for the children unless we could think of a new way to vacation.
There was a new way — vacation-by-the-day!
Rather hesitantly, we planned several short trips. To our surprise, we
found our family enjoyed these one-day trips more than we had some of
our lengthy vacations. Discoveries were abundant! Visits to the State
Capitol, a pioneer fort, a pony express way station, a secluded mountain
lake, were the beginning. Before the summer was over, we found we were
all looking forward to the next trip.
Vacation-by-the-day proved to be an inexpensive, interesting way to
acquaint our family with the places of interest around us. Everyone helped
in planning. Without suggestions from us, our children were seen con-
sulting road maps, history books, and an ancient atlas, seeking new destina-
tions. Occasionally, we would make an overnight trip, but usually left
home early in the morning and returned that evening. Lunches, packed
at home to save expense, were eaten at a roadside table or in a quiet park.
The new way to vacation provided an unexpected bonus when school
began. Our fourth-grader found that he would be studying the history of
our State. Events and locations meant much more to him, because he
had visited many of the places described in the text.
This year, we hope to take a long out-of-State trip, but we will con-
tinue our favorite, year-around-way to vacation — vacation-by-the-day!
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Out of the Wilderness
Chapter 2
Shirley Thulin
Synopsis: Marian Morgan, a widow and
mother of six children, makes plans to take
her family to spend the summer at a min-
ing claim in Montana to do assessment
work. Chailes Neering, a widower, has
asked her to stay in town.
M
ARI AN looked out the train
window. The countryside
had taken on a translucent
shade of green in the early dawn,
and the sky was a silver and pink
sea. She couldn't remember when
she had taken time to look at the
sky last. She stretched and shifted
Jill to a new position, then looked
at her children around her. The
twins and Tommy on the seat op-
posite were still asleep, heads bob-
bmg from side to side with the
motion of the train..
''Want me to hold Jill awhile.
Mom?'' Sue asked.
'Thanks, dear, but it might wake
her to change around."
Now the train was slowing down,
and the conductor announced,
"Next stop, Rushville."
The change of motion awakened
most of the passengers. Jim stretched
his long legs as though he were un-
familiar with their new length. He
looked over at his mother and Sue:
"Did he say Kmhyiller
"Yes," Marian answered, reaching
for her purse and sweater. "Wake
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the children. Wc will have to get
our things gathered quickly. Sue,
you hang on to Tommy. Jim, you
take Jill, and Til try to keep track
of the twins."
'Tm hungry/' said Tommy.
''I know, honey, wait imtil wc get
off the train?'" .
, "We ate all the sandwicfec^,
Mom/' Sue said.
'The store at the station wdll have
something/' Jim promised.
''I have breakfast all prepared/'
announced Marian, with an air of
triumph. She had anticipated their
first emergency— breakfast.
As they made their way along the
aisle, stepping over protruding feet
and luggage, Marian noticed they
were the only ones getting off. Jim
was first to step down onto th
wooden platform. He walked over
to the man who was taking their
boxes and bags from someone on
the train.
''Where's Sam?" Jim asked him.
The man straightened up and
waved a big hand at the conductor.
Then, as the train started to pull
forward, he took off his hat, and
looked around him. From one to
another of Marian's children he
looked, then back at Marian.
''Where did you come from, and
where in tarnation do you think
you're going?"
''From Salt Lake," said Marian.
"We're going to the Silver Star
mine for the summer."
"Where's Sam?" Jim looked wor-
ried, now, as he asked again for the
stationmaster he knew. ,„.
"Sam? Had a bad spell last fall.
Had to quit. I took over in Novem-
«ber. Silver Star? How are you
planning on getting clear up there?"
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Marian suddenly felt ill. "I'm
Mrs. David Morgan .... We wrote
a letter . . . ." Her words were small
and they stuck in her throat.
"We had expected Sam to drive
us up in his station wagon/' Jim
said.
"Mrs. Morgan? Howdy, I'm Tuck-
er. Your letter likely got forwarded
to Sam. I have a jeep, but I can't
leave. Got to watch the post office
here. My boy Dick has a station
wagon, but he's gone to Butte.
Won't be back until Monday
morning."
IV/rARIAN watched the train dis-
appear in the distance, and felt
that her last tie with civilization had
been cut off forever. She looked at
the station. It was small and the
windows were dirty. There were no
buildings near, the town was farther
down the road.
"The hotel!" Marian remembered.
David had brought her to town one
week end for dinner and a show.
"We can stay there until your
son comes back."
"Hotel isn't there anymore.
Wasn't enough business to keep it
up. Some of the stores are gone,
too, and the library."
"Could we borrow your jeep?"
Jim asked.
"Oh, yes, could we?" asked Mari-
an. "Jim and I could bring it back
Monday and then maybe Dick
could take us back to the cabin."
"Don't think it has any gas in it.
Hasn't been used for awhile. It
won't hold all of you and your stuff,
anyhow."
Jim went over and took the gas
cap off. He found a stick on the
ground and wiped it clean, then
dipped it into the tank. Everyone
gathered around, leaning forward.
The stick came out dry.
"Oh!" Sue's one word echoed
their disappointment.
Marian felt like a trapped animal.
Her mind was groping frantically.
"I'm hungry," said Jill. Tommy
began to cry.
"Come on in the station." Tucker
held the door open. "We used to
have a store, but there wasn't enough
business, so I made it into a bed-
room and kitchen. Maybe we can
find something for the youngsters
to eat. The service station dovm
town will be open soon. I have a
gas can around here somewhere."
"I have some food," Marian said,
not so proud of her planning now.
She was almost apologetic as she
opened the box and began to hand
out hard-cooked eggs and fruit.
"You will have to leave your gear
here, though, and pick it up Mon-
day," Tucker said. "You'll be doing
well if you get your family in the
jeep, let alone your stuff."
Marian couldn't eat. Charles was
right, she thought, suddenly feeling
alone and lost. I shouldn't have
come!
The children were chatting and
eating. As far as they were con-
cerned, all was right with the world
again, but Marian didn't share their
assurance.
"Sam used to bring supplies to
us," said Jim. "I wonder if you. . . ,"
"You can talk to Dick about
that," Tucker said. "He takes
things to the Silver Bear."
"We'll need potatoes and flour,
things we couldn't bring on the
train."
"Mommy, have I ever had a jeep
ride?" Tommy asked between bites
of banana.
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569
"No, I don't think so/' said
Marian.
'Toil ever drive a jeep before?"
Tucker asked her.
Jim looked quickly at his mother.
''Aren't they the same as any other
car?" Marian asked.
"No. They have more gears. But
I'll show you."
Marian didn't say anything. She
was remembering what a hard time
she had had learning to drive with
only three gears. She looked at the
six faces searching her own and knew
she could do it. She had to.
'T^HE jeep jogged along the dirt
road like a frightened buffalo.
Marian, Jim, and Sue were in the
front seat; the twins, Tommy, and
Jill in the back, with three boxes
of essentials on the floor under their
feet.
The road took them through a
dream world of stately green pines
and silverbarked quaking aspen.
Sometimes, when they made a sharp
turn, there would be a patch of sky
so blue it took Marian's breath away.
She had forgotten colors could be
so vivid.
At first they traveled in silence.
Only the grinding motor and the
whirr of the big wheels on the road
could be heard. But, as Marian be-
came more adept at handling the
jeep, she started to hum a familiar
tune. The others joined in. Soon
they were singing at the top of their
voices, with only an occasional squir-
rel to criticize or care if the notes
were off key. The farther they went
along the rugged mountain road, the
more vivid the scenery became.
Marian stopped the jeep once. The
deep purple of a distant mountain,
visible through the majestic trees,
made her pause to breathe, deeply,
and she felt exhilarated.
"We're almost there," Jim said.
"It's just around this next bend
and about a mile past the creek."
But when the jeep rounded the
bend, Marian pulled it to a sudden
stop.
"The bridge!" Jim shouted. "It's
gone!" He jumped out of the jeep
and ran to the steep creek bank.
Marian got out, too, and looked at
the angry water rushing along, car-
rying the spring runoff from the
winter's snow.
"Oh, it's so deep." Marian's words
were barely audible.
"Not a sign of the bridge. Sure
must have had a bad storm," said
Jim.
"Oh," Sue was really frightened.
So was Marian, but she dared not
let the children know.
"Well, now," she said, trying
with all her might to control her
voice, "this will take a little thought,
won't it?" A little thought, and a
lot of prayer, she told herself. "Jim,
is there any place else to cross?"
"No. This is the only road."
"What will we do?" Sue asked.
"Can't jeeps go through water?"
Rsked Jed.
"Not when it's this deep, and the
banks are steep," said Jim.
Marian walked a little way from
the creek. She knew she was in no
condition to think clearly just yet.
"You know," she said slowly, fight-
ing the tightness in her throat, "I
think this is an ideal place to have
a picnic."
Jim looked at her, surprise, almost
unbelief, written on his face.
"A picnic? Of all the crazy. . . ."
"That's a good idea," Ted said.
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"Oh, boy, a picnic!" yelled Tom-
my.
''Mom, for goodness sakes!" said
Sue.
Marian went back to the jeep.
She took one of the boxes out and
set it on a grassy spot beside the
road, then took her sweater off. Her
hands were shaking, but she moved
quickly so the children wouldn't
notice.
''Come on, sit on your sweaters.
We have some crackers, cheese, and
some more fruit."
"Mom, I don't see how this is
going to help." Jim was upset.
"Son, we have all day to cross
that creek. In the meantime, it
won't do any harm to enjoy the
scenery and get our bearings."
Marian opened the package of sliced
cheese.
TIM sat down and pulled im-
patiently at a tuft of grass. Then
a bird called shrilly at the intruders
and he watched it dip and turn as
it flew overhead and disappeared.
They didn't eat much. It had
been only a couple of hours since
they ate at the station. The twins
and Tommy began a game of tag
among the trees and Jill could hard-
ly be seen above the mountain grass.
Jim was lying on his back, arms fold-
ed across his chest.
"This is nice," said Sue. "Why
don't we just stay here until Mon-
day?"
"We can't do that." Marian
knew that to be in the open after
dark would be terrifying to her. The
mountains would become great
giants, closing in around her, and
behind each tree would be some-
thing frightening and sickening
ready to grab one of them, if she
closed her eyes. She had to have
walls and a roof and a door to bar.
"We ... we don't have any bed-
ding," she said. "We have to get
to the cabin somehow."
Marian got up and went to the
water's edge. Her thoughts were
darting around everywhere, trying to
find a solution.
"Let's go back for help," said Jim,
coming over to her.
Marian was silent a moment,
thinking. Then she said, more to
herself than to Jim, "What could
anyone do to help? Where would
we stay while someone built a
bridge? No one can help us. . . ."
Then suddenly Marian knew who
could help. Going back to the chil-
dren, she said, "Let's pray. Then
we'll know what to do."
They all knelt and bowed their
heads. Jill pushed her way between
Sue and Marian. The sunlight fil-
tered down through the pines, and
Marian asked the Lord for guidance.
They lifted their heads, and all was
silent. When she could talk, Mar-
ian asked Jim how far it was to the
cabin.
"Not too far," he answered.
"Would it be within walking dis-
tance for us?"
"I've walked from the cabin down
here lots of times, but I don't know
if Jill and Tommy. . . ."
"If we left the jeep here, would
it be all right until Monday?"
"Yes. No one comes up here
this time of the year, except the
other miners from the Silver Bear,"
"Then let's try to find a fallen
tree. I saw some as we were driving
along earlier."
"You mean we're going to go
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571
across on a log? Oh, we can't!"
She was close to hysterics, and Mar-
ian's heart kept coming up where it
didn't belong.
''Sue," Marian said, gently, "we
can't drive the jeep over, and it's too
deep to wade, so. . . ."
"But, Mother! A log . . . !"
Jim was already walking down-
stream. He hadn't gone far when
he called, "Come here! I've found
something!"
They all hurried in his direction.
"Look, Mom, a beaver dam! We can
go across on that!"
"Will It hold us?"
"Sure, I've gone across them lots
of times at scout camp. Most of
them are good and strong, especially
when they're new dams like this
one. I'll go first to see if there are
any weak places." He took off his
shoes and stuffed his stockings in-
side, then rolled up his pants legs.
The top of the dam was about two
feet wide and fairly flat. Some of
the water pushed its way over the
top of the dam and fell down in a
swirling, foaming pool at the bot-
tom, then went its way on down the
creek.
"lyrARIAN held her breath as Jim
made his way carefully across,
the water splashing and pushing at
him.
"See? It's strong as cement," he
said, coming back.
Marian's head was in a whirl. She
looked at the rushing water and held
Jill's hand tightly. For an instant,
she felt as if she was going to faint.
"Come on, take off your shoes,"
Jim told them.
"It's so swift." Sue looked at
her mother.
Marian tried to reassure her.
"Come on, I'll help you," urged
Jim. "It isn't as bad as it looks. It
only comes up to my ankles."
"Is it cold?" Ted wanted to know.
"Mommy, take my shoes oflF," said
"No, darling, Jim will carry you."
Marian had to smile at her eager-
ness.
"Hang on to your shoes, Jed, and
go in front of me," Jim said.
The boys had no trouble at all
making it over to the other side. In
fact. Tommy wanted to do it again,
but Marian's insides were all in a
knot, and the knot got tighter as it
neared her turn. Sue was hesitant
at first, but Jim took her arm, and
helped her over, then came back.
"Mom, you go ahead, I'll go get
the boxes." He started towards the
jeep, and Marian couldn't call after
him, her voice wouldn't squeeze
past the tight place in her throat.
She fought back the fright and bared
her feet.
"Come on. Mom," called Tom-
my, "it's fun!"
"It really is. Mother," said Ted.
Marian put one foot in and then
the other, then stopped.
"Don't look down, Mom," Sue
advised. "Just look straight ahead,
then you won't get dizzy."
"I'm glad we didn't bring all our
things," Jim said, bringing the big-
gest box first. "I'd have worn the
dam away getting it all across."
Marian, finally across, sat down on
a huge rock on the other side and
wiped her feet in the sun-warmed
grass. She looked at her children.
I'heir faces were glowing, and their
eyes were sparkling, and Marian felt
happy.
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Tliey were a strange caravan as
they made their way up the dusty
road stopping every once in awhile
to rest, and to shift burdens. They
traveled slowly, there was so much
to see, a scarlet mountain flower, or
a bubbling stream dancing over
clean brown rocks. Little Jill began
to get so tired she had to be car-
ried. Once Ted and Jed made a
chair with their arms for her, to
relieve Marian.
''How much farther, Jim?" Mar-
ian asked.
''Not far now."
Tliey rounded the next bend in
the road, and Jim said, "There it is,
see, by that big pine."
''I can see it," yelled Ted.
The children hurried on ahead,
but Marian was weary. She could
see the cabin now, too, the ugly un-
painted boards, the bare yard around
it. As she came closer, the two win-
dows were huge glaring eyes. She
wanted to turn and run, but there
was no place to run to. She wanted
to cry out, but she didn't.
"Mommy, bring the key. . . ."
"Jim has it."
"Well, hurry "
Marian followed their voices, re-
luctantly, mechanically. She knew
she had to go inside and begin to
make a summer home for her fam-
ily here in the wilderness.
Suddenly Sue's terrified voice cut
through the mountain air. "Moth-
er!" she screamed. "Mother!"
[To he continued)
Hymns of Praise
Oiiida Johns Pedersen
Firelight, warm-hued as the rosewood organ
My father used to play,
Carries me to the humble parlor
Of another day.
When his strong hand was gentled
To its lightest touch
As he pedaled and played the simple hymns
We came to love so much.
"An Angel From on High." I hear
The sweet refrain
And "O My Father," touches
My heartstrings once again.
Never a symphony sounded,
Never a concert rang,
As sweetly on my listening ear
As the hymns my father sang.
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UPPER KILLARNEY LAKE, COUNTY KERRY, IRELAND
My Shadow
CeJia Laisen Luce
A S I walk in the sunshine I see my shadow. It follows along, falling on many things
as I pass them. It is easy to see where my shadow goes.
The shadow of my influence is a harder thing to see. A chance remark, a kind-
ness or an evil deed — these things fall on others and influence their lives. I can
never tell where the shadow of my influence may fall.
Since this is so, since I may help change the lives of others for good or evil with-
out ever knowing it, I must be very careful. I must live as close to God as I can,
following in his ways. Then my influence will not be like a shadow, but like a light,
showing others the way.
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MY FAMILY LIKES ALL KINDS OF FRUIT
Just So They are Peaches!
Vibte R. McAllister
ISN'T it lucky, with peaches in many locahties in good supply, and being
the easiest to can, too? Oh, we put up a few cherries, berries, pears,
apricots, rhubarb, and applesauce, for variety. But we "like about twice
as many peaches as all the rest combined.
After thirty years of canning peaches, I have it down to a system.
First, I check my bottles, selecting those with no nicks or irregularities
in the rims, and, of course, no cracks. Then
I hunt out unrusted, unbattered screw bands
from last year, purchase new fresh lids, make
re there is plenty of sugar, and buy the
aches.
We make an aesthetic experience of it,
driving out into the country the evening before
ginning and enjoying the sights of the orchards
jlden with golden fruits. Two bushels will make
Bniorning's work, and we can get more later,
if needed. We set them on the back porch
over night, then, before my husband goes to
work, he brings them in and puts them on
chairs or a bench in the kitchen, so I neither
have to lift nor stoop.
Breakfast over with and the dishes out of
the way, I fill the sink with rich suds and wash
the bottles, rinsing them well, and turning them
upside down to drain in the dish drainer and
on folded dish towels. I separate the lids, get
out the sugar, a colander or wire basket and
a sauce pan that it will fit into, for the scalding;
a measuring cup, a small sharp-pointed paring
knife, a pie plate, and a small pan to hold hot
^water for dipping the lids. I fill the cold-pack
canner about a third full of water and put it
-pver high heat, as also the scalding pan, which
is full enough to cover the peaches well. As
soon as the water in the pan begins to boil, I
put three or four peaches into the wire basket,
and immerse it into the boiling water. If the
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]>cachcs arc just ridit if ripeness,
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it will take less than half a minute
to loosen the skins. Usintr the pie
Zate under the basket, to keep the
. ,,^>tt>r froin dripping onto the '■fl('K»r^
^ I i'nin!>'fi'r"'t'hr pcrdiL's to ' tire sink;"
which is half full of cold water. I
put more peaches in to scald, and
proceed to skin the first batch b\
nipping off a bit of skin from^^Jiie-
blossom end with the
then, with the left lianf^-l^tvrng^^c
skin a squeeze, dKpii
right out of it
bruises or bad sp
09 into th'O jc»r';"Q8 it io tm>»
"in», unuet'css'ctTy;' mid, "to "iul, less
attractive in appearance than to
I have them tall into the )^rs natural-
ly, with some of the pink centers
showing. The pcclmgs aid pits go
into the sink strainer, which I
empty frequently ifff^ af "bucket
placed nearby.
Bv the time the first three or
four peaches are in the kottles, the
next batch is scalded anc ready for
the sink, and the process is repeat-
ed. Soon se\en bottles are rc^idy
for the syrup. Instead
up the sugar ai
easier to add tlfreer^
of suear to ea<3^
bottle filler, ift nec(
^
y
>
filling with ho
4o about ■ tbr
er from the tap,
fourths inelt frcfm
the top.
' I wipe i^ff' tire rim of each bottle
with a clean clot^ or piece of paper
towel, so no parties will be there
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to hinder the seahng, dip the hds
in hot water, which softens the
composition shghtly, and screw
them down snugly, but not tightly
enough to cut the composition,
with the screw bands. It may take
a little shake to dissolve all the
sugar. I might wish I had remem-
bered the trick I used last year, to
put the sugar into each jar, add
enough hot water to dissolve it
before adding the peaches. But, no
matter, I prefer measuring the
sugar for each jar, rather than mak-
ing up a kettle of syrup, because
I get a more uniform product that
way.
These seven bottles now go into
the canner, enough hot water is
added to cover the tops an inch or
more, and then it is brought to a
full boil I regulate the heat so it
won't boil over, but will keep up a
good boil, write down the time the
peaches should be cooked, depend-
ing on altitude, or set the timer.
At 4,500 feet altitude, I process
peaches one-half hour. The time
can be shortened for lower altitudes.
While this first batch is cooking,
I continue to scald, peel, and pre-
pare seven more bottles. The cold
water in the sink, and the scalding
water I change occasionally, but
the water in the canner will only
need to be added to, so there will
be plenty to cover the jars well, as
each new batch is put in. Usually
between each batch, since the peel-
ing takes less time than the cook-
ing, there is a short interval, when
I can walk out to the mailbox, hold
a short telephone conversation,
glance over the headlines in the i
paper, or take a minute to relax. ;
When the time is up, I raise the !
rack out of the water, sop the hot |
water off the tops of the bottles :
with a dishcloth, so that it won't ,
soak through the hot pad with |
which I lift the jars out and burn '
me. Wiping each bottle with a j
hot dishcloth will remove any stick- 1
iness, although, if I have not filled \
the jars too full, the syrup will not \
have expanded to the point where '■
it has escaped into the water bath, \
and stickiness will not be a prob- \
lem. Leaving space for the air to i
circulate around each bottle, the
bottles are set in rows on an asbes- i
tos sheet, or thick pad of folded \
newspapers, out of the draft and ;
out of the way. Popping musically \
as the vacuum is formed in the jars, |
they cool. When perfectly cold, j
usually next morning, I remove the 1
screw bands to use again, and line \
the bottles up on the pantry ;
shelves, where they smile at me in j
mouth-watering lusciousness.
The peaches that were not quite |
ripe have been set aside to do to- ;
morrow, and the overripe ones now i
go into a jam kettle. I use pectin to
speed the jam making. j
Hot suds quickly clears up what ;
little stickiness has been made. ;
What a satisfying morning it has
been! I am not tired, because, ■
having everything in the right i
places, the work went smoothly. \
Besides, I have enjoyed the exhil- |
aration of making a contribution to 1
the future health, security, and i
pleasure of my peach-loving family.
((
Thmi Shalt Not Be Pmd
91
Martha Tucker Fugate
UST where is the dividing line between dressing somewhat in harmony
with contemporary fashions and having too much pride and concern
over one's wearing apparel?
This is a subject I have puzzled over at different times. I have found
myself wondering if some people go places more to show off new outfits
than for any other reasons. Even in going to church, a family's old cloth-
ing, clean and pressed, is acceptable to ourselves and before the Lord.
There can be little lasting satisfaction in being lifted up in pride, instead
of feeling reverence and humility.
We are told not to lay up for ourselves treasures where moth can
corrupt. The use of the moth for an illustration suggests that we should
not treasure fine clothing, above all else, for we are warned 'Vhere your
treasure is, there will your heart be also" (Luke 12:34).
Perhaps some of the distorted attitudes on the importance of fine
clothing begin with adolescence, when clothes seem so important, par-
ticularly with some girls, who feel compelled to follow passing fads and
fancies, many of them expensive and some immodest.
What can be done to give young people a proper perspective toward
clothing? For one thing, we can see that they are familiar with the warn-
ings from The Book of Mormon.
For two hundred years after the coming of Christ, there was peace and
happiness in the land. Then ''there began to be among them those who
were lifted up in pride, such as the wearing of costly apparel, and all
manner of fine pearls, and of the fine things of the world. . . . And they
began to be divided into classes; and they began to build up churches unto
themselves to get gain, and began to deny the true church of Christ"
(4 Nephi 24:26).
There is a more positive, and also more pointed pronouncement in
our modern scriptures for both old and young, ''And again, thou shalt not
be proud in thy heart; let all thy garments be plain, and their beauty the
beauty of the work of thine own hands" (D & C 42:40).
Perhaps it is unnecessary, and at times even impractical, to sew every-
thing one wears, but certainly much of a girl's apparel can be made at
home, and lovely sweaters hand knitted. With sewing classes being
offered in as early as the seventh grade in some areas, every girl can de-
velop enough skill to sew for herself. Perhaps, by this process, we can,
over the years, supplant mere pride of fine clothes and appearance by
satisfaction with being thrifty and delighting in our own workmanship
and accomplishment.
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Sunday Morning
As I occasionally do on Fast Sunday morning, when I have no hurried
preparations for breakfast and dinner before going to Sunday School, I
took an early walk to the Manti Temple.
Reaching the top of the hill, I looked down on my town, a pioneer
town with great rural charm. I knew the dear folks who lived in the homes
set among the trees, and I was glad they were my neighbors and friends.
It was a lovely morning. The sky was a powder blue, with soft wispy
islands of clouds. The very air seemed hushed and still. Summer was
just on the threshold. I wandered around the flower-girt temple. The
dew had not quite vanished from the velvety petals. The colorful beauty
of the flower beds brought a lump to my throat. Surely a flower is a
miracle. The lines from Lowell came to mind:
Every clod feels a stir of might,
An instinct within it that reaches and towers,
And, groping bhndly above it for light,
Climbs to a soul in grass and flowers.
Each flower seemed to whisper of hope and faith and love. A gentle
breeze wafted the mingled perfume of a dozen scents. There was an
occasional burst of bird song, the droning of the bees, and the silken-
winged butterflies flitted in and out of the flowers like myriads of vari-
colored jewels.
The smooth clipped lawns sloped down to the cemetery, where rows
of pines stood like stately sentinels guarding that silent city. The gentle
countryside stretched away in a patchwork panorama of fields, with their
green sheen giving promise of a harvest to come, of pastures dappled with
placid cattle and sheep grazing in the lush grass, to the changeless cedar-
studded hills for a backdrop.
Here was surely an oasis of peace. Worldly cares had been left at the
foot of the hill. It was so quiet that I felt that truly here one could
''Be still, and know that I am God." Surely in this stillness one could
renew one's strength and find poise and peace and wisdom.
I sat down on a low wall to rest in this quiet place, in the shadow of
this sacred edifice, and felt a precious sereneness in an age when serenity
is so rare. I felt as if the earth had stopped for a minute, and that I was
suspended in a spot close to heaven.
pn Temple Hill
Mabel Luke Anderson
I gazed up at the spires and felt a mystic tie with my ancestors who
had seemed so near to me as I had performed the saving ordinances for
them in that holy house. This indeed was cherished ground.
Always I am awed at the dignity and sublimity of the temple of en-
during stone standing so permanent and protectingly above our valley.
It is a legacy to us from those who have lived before, a monument to the
faith and integrity, love and sacrifice of its pioneers. Surely they built
well, structures of everlasting beauty.
For many summers I have had such a glorious privilege of spending
much time on this sacred hill as a guide to meet and greet visitors, telling
them the sweet gospel story, telling them of our pioneers and the building
of the temple, stories which warm my heart, and perhaps I am even guilty
of a little possessiveness. I have felt a corresponding warmth in those vis-
itors, a sincere interest, and a tremendous appreciation and admiration for
our people, our way of life, and our temple which is a symbol of the con-
tinuity of the gospel, of our faith in God. I silently pray on each of these
occasions that we may be worthy of that appreciation. I recalled these
experiences as I sat there that Sunday morning.
And in this hour on the hill, in the celestial silence, I felt a spiritual
uplift, I felt a little cleaner, more attuned with the spirit of the Sabbath.
I certainly should be closer to the Lord all day, all week, because I was
on a hallowed spot on a hallowed day.
As I walked back down the hill to my home, the town was awakening
to activity. As I saw the menfolk leave one house after another for Priest-
hood meeting, they appeared to me truly men bent on doing God's work;
mothers who stood in doorways or porches to see them off, good women.
Later, as I walked to our ward meetinghouse, the scrubbed, shining
faces and brushed, glistening hair of the little boys and girls going
to Sunday School, attired in their Sunday best, thrilled me. I am sure
Jesus was smiling on them. As we stood at a street crossing, to have one
tiny girl trustingly put her hand in mine, confident I would guide her
safely across the street, was heartwarming and made me aware of the one-
ness of our ward family in the gospel.
With Browning, I could echo "God's in his heaven," and surely on a
day like this, in a place like this, there is the world's surest promise of
eternal peace.
Hand
to the
Plow
Part IV — Dedication
JJene H. Kingsbury
Synopsis: A Welsh widow on her way
to the valleys of the mountains in 1864,
with her family of five children, pauses in
a railway station in Philadelphia awaiting
a train to take them westward. The
widow's father and mother and some of
her brothers and sisters, who have not
joined the Church, have already estab-
lished themselves in Bradys Bend, Penn-
sylvania, only about twenty-five miles from
the railroad. The widow and her family
had long planned to visit their relatives
before traxeling to the West to make a
permanent home; however, the fear of
not continuing westward to the body of
the saints after being reunited with her
family, causes the widow to decide to
journey westward at once.
SOMEWHERE she had read,
''Almost thou persuadest me."
Somewhere she had heard a
song which praised the Father of all
for just such sweet reunion as was
now within her grasp. But she now
had said I cannot, and I have
thought.
Children do not so easily give up
coaxing, teasing, tearfully begging,
and downright demanding. Is it
too difficult by carriage or wagon to
cover those few crow miles? Do
you remember that only a few days
back, on the fearful Atlantic, we
yearned for any going just so it was
on dry earth? Now we have that
earth, that ease. Have we not
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enough means to swerve our course,
as a scythe reaches to strike home?
Is it so necessary — that arrival in
the Far West — that one day or
another would make a difference?
Strength, time, means, distance; all
as a drop in the bucket when so
soon it will overflow for joy. Sweet
reunion of heart. Catching of the
breath at a thought of Grandma
standing arms akimbo waiting for
us to rush her off her feet. Is the
eye never to see these kindred? "I
cannot do it," she said again and
again.
Then arose that natural question,
of why, why? In the scales, the
reasons for the Bend far outweighed
the ones for a few days of delay,
then continuance of the way. The
children slowed down in their think-
ing and talking. Those who could
better express themselves in tears,
when touched most deeply, did cry.
Those who might believe that a cry
of protest was not manly, kept silent
and felt more the man for it. The
six-year-old was not exactly to be
considered in this family conclave,
but she remembered when she was
a great-grandmother that, as she
reached for her mother emigrant's
hand, it was trembling. This is per-
haps our only clue that a great
HAND TO THE PLOW
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battle had waged within the granite,
hon-hearted woman.
Another glance at her would re-
veal the very set of the jaw, the very
mobile relentlessness of face of the
king of the forest. She never looked
so immovable, so chiseled, as that
morning when she said she would
not get off the train.
When the whirlwind of protest
had subsided, and each child had
reached calm banks of emotion,
their mother answered the why, why
of her decision. In the first place,
yes, she was afraid of Indians, and
rebels, and walking a thousand miles,
perhaps still another thousand across
the wastes of North America. Yes,
there were no loved ones awaiting
them in the Rockies. True, a fam-
ily or two of friends in the Old
Country had preceded them to that
far-off desert; but who knew where
they were by now? Perhaps dead of
cholera or of bleeding of a redman's
arrow, or assigned even more distant
valleys west and on west. Perhaps
some were already rich on the Gold-
en Shore. But go they must.
Where? To Zion.
T^HAT last word was said with a
glint of the eye that could only
reflect a spiritual dedication to a
cause, only a religious fulfillment
not found elsewhere. The word was
the reminder to her boys and girls
that goals had been set, vows taken,
means gathered, and a journey be-
gun, all because a faith had been
accepted, tried on for fit, found to
fit, and, now, must be worn right on
into a certain valley. That valley
of refuge was a place where pride of
wearing that faith and living it
could be called dedication, fulfill-
ment, self-realization. The spirit of
the migration in that day came un-
der the heading of gatheiing. It
reminded one of Moses and the Red
Sea, in religious fervor.
This gathering, then, was worth
all the hardships, the empty stom-
achs, the bleeding feet, the giving
up of the world. Yes, the emigrant
mother assured her children this was
worth more than father and mother
and brothers and children and hus-
band. Even Grandpa and Grandma,
their glances questioned. But why
can't we have both? Give us a few
days at Bradys Bend, give us the
only chance we shall ever have to
see our aunts and uncles and cous-
ins. Then we shall start out re-
freshed for the valley. Why
couldn't that be the way?
If the hand was trembling and
the voice showed a quaver, the eye
and heart were steadfast. Her an-
swer: Because I have not the cour-
age, after such a joyful reunion, to
go on.
The children thought to them-
selves and questioned each other
with startled glances. What is our
mother talking about? they won-
dered. She who is iron and rock
and lion and refuge, all in all — she
says she has not the courage! What
then of us who are young and
fatherless and homeless and depend-
ent on the ravens for bread? How
must we feel about resolution and
never deserting a worthy cause?
These thoughts shook them as they
realized their helplessness.
But, Mother, they pleaded. Even
in the face of her solidness, they
hated to let go of their weakness and
abide by her decision. Her inner
thoughts weighed her strength un-
der stress. This was part of the
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testing, no doubt. If she could not
withstand the cries of her children
in this little island of privacy among
strangers, how could she combat the
tears of her parents and loved ones
combined with the victorious off-
spring? Together, they would talk
her out of the supreme goal in life,
even the life hereafter. Temporary
pleasure was pitted against perma-
nent security. If one could be vic-
torious in the little things, then
their accumulation of power would
bring one victorious in the great
issues. Thus she had thought since
buying a ticket which would bypass
the Bend.
CHE motioned to Eliza to open
her carpet bag and retrieve from
the folds of personal clothing a little
Testament given her by the captain
of the sailing vessel as a parting gift.
The mother then said, "Eliza, turn
to Luke nine and sixty-one and read
to us." And this is what Eliza read:
''And another also said, Lord, I will
follow thee; but let me first go bid
them farewell, which are at home
at my house. And Jesus said unto
him. No man, having put his hand
to the plough, and looking back, is
fit for the kingdom of God."
The Word had been consulted.
If it took each hearer of that Word
to make his personal interpretation,
it also took his personal action which
followed that hearing. This was
almost the only time in each life of
the children that they wanted time
and privacy and strength to arrange
their hearts and minds in such an
order that an accuser in later years
could be turned aside without a case
against them. Their earthly mother
had shown them the Word, and
they believed. The sacrifice was
stated as if meant for them instead
of travelers to Jerusalem in the year
thirty- two a.d. The reward was also
assured, and they believed that, too.
One by one they looked their
mother squarely in the face. That
was all the affirmative vote she
needed. All were very quiet. No
reproach was heard. It was not
easy, but now they all knew that
the valley and not the Bend was
their immediate goal. Now the
struggle was over, the tension was
broken as water breaking through
the headgate of a dam. If tears were
mingled with the flood, they were
tears of triumph and not remorse.
As hope rises eternally to lift all to
ecstasy, so it did them. Some day,
some day, maybe, maybe, we can
come back to this station and start
out for the Bend and reunion and
contentment. We shall, we shall.
But the emigrant made no prom-
ise for herself. The finality of her
decision precluded the hope that
she could retrace her footsteps to
this bitter day to start out to find
her parents. Her strength lay in
forsaking, in renouncing the idea as
a permanent thing. To consider that
even in old age she should be so
near this sentimental goal, was to
make her half defeated at this mo-
ment. Forever behind her was this
day, this trembling of the hand,
this possibility of defeat. If time
and strength were pitted against
each other again, she would know
what to do, and that without the
great battle from within. The West
and not the Bend was to be the
daily cry. The Bend was to be
thought of less and less, thus to
hurt less acutely, thus to become a
chapter of life entitled Lost, or
HAND TO THE PLOW
Never, or I Cannot. The very de-
nouncement of this plan gave power
to the shoulders to bear any burden,
gave direction to the feet to trudge
ever forward, gave resolution to the
heart to live and love and dream
and achieve in spite of disappoint-
ment and tragedy. In giving up this
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side journev she would be the better
fortified against other temptations,
other passing pleasures, so that the
big chance could be pursued and
conquered. Only in saying J can-
not can we ever say J can.
The emigrant was ready to resume
her journey.
{To be continued)
A Summarization
of the Brief Life
of Edgar Allan Poe
Hazel Owen
If you were to walk in the shoes of Poe,
Tormented by drink, aloneness, and woe,
What would you do, if your Hfe were so?
What would you turn to, and where would you go?
If you had a desperate desire to write,
And the world was against you in yoin: fight,
Would you see the bUie of sunht skies?
Or a darker hue, with your darkened eyes?
Life was confusion, and noise, and din.
Overwhelmingly crowding and shutting him in;
No one to hear him and no one to care.
No relief sought through the power of prayer.
He builded with words his cathedral gray,
And made a tomb where his loved one lay;
Fashioned a song for his sorrows to hide —
Then he was gone, and was laid by her side.
Sisty Years Ago
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, August 1902
'For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE IN MALAD STAKE: On the stand were
Apostle M. F. Cowley and Sister Emilia D. Madsen one of the General Board of the
Relief Society. . . . Sister Madsen rejoiced to meet with the sisters of this Stake. We
enjoy a glorious privilege in administering to our sick, let us be faithful to the sacred
trust placed in us, never let the poor suffer. . . . Let kindness and love abound. . . .
Apostle Cowley spoke of the kind and gentle influence in this meeting. Asked the
mothers to solicit their sons and daughters to take an earnest interest in the work
of God. Hope the young people would cultivate a spirit of charity and virtue. Many
people have been saved by taking the counsel of their mothers. . . .
— Eliza A. Hall, Sec.
WORK
One single day's allotted task well done —
That is a comfort to the weary head;
Better than feathers for the toiler's bed
Is the sweet thought to rest upon. . . ,
— Maud E. Sargent
ITEMS ABOUT ART: It is pleasant to note that the women artists of the
State are recognized in the State Board of Art appointed by Governor Wells and the
Senate of the State Legislature. At the recent election in the governing board of
the Utah Art Institute, Miss Mary Teasdel was elected president, Mrs. Edna Wells
Sloan secretary, and Mrs. Alice Merrill Home treasurer — all places of trust and re-
quiring executive ability. . . . Miss Mary Teasdel was the second Utah woman to have
work exhibited at the (Paris) Salon. Three miniatures and an oil portrait were also
received; one miniature was accepted at the Paris Exposition — a rare honor.
— News Note
A WOMAN SUPERINTENDENT OF SCHOOLS: Mrs. Mary Orser, of Vernal,
Utah, was recently elected county school superintendent.
— Ex.
GAINS OF SUFFRAGE IN UTAH. . . . There is a greater gain, a more in-
estimable boon to the great unnoticed mass of womanhood. The unobtrusive woman
who thinks much but says little; the careful woman who economizes and denies herself
to make ends meet that excessive taxes may be paid . . . who, satisfied to let well
enough alone, contends not for the places sacred to men . . , the motherly woman,
whose only care is for righteous government that her children may be free from all
oppression. . . .
— Emily S. Richards
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
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pMILY DICKINSON'S best
poems — 575 of them — have
been collected for the first time in
one volume, now on the market.
Thomas H. Johnson selected them
and w^rote the introduction. The
poems reveal the charm and insight
of the w^oman w^ho lived in great
seclusion, but who as time rolls on
becomes constantly more under-
stood, and more beloved.
ly/TRS. CALVIN S. (ETHEL LU-
^^ CILE DIMOND) SMITH,
of Bennion, Utah, was selected as
Utah's 1962 Mother of the Year.
She has had thirteen children, all
outstanding for both intelligence
and character. The Smith children
(grandchildren of Joseph F. Smith,
sixth President of the Church),
were taught to work industriously,
to stand on their own feet, to love
and live a religious and spiritual
life, and to give generously of them-
selves to others.
IV/fRS. HEROND (MARIE
^^ GUTKE) SHERANIAN, six-
ty-seven, and an active Latter-day
Saint woman from Beverley Hills,
was chosen California's Mother of
the Year. Living in Utah until she
moved to California in 1934, Mrs.
Sheranian is the mother of nine
accomplished, intelligent children.
A descendant of 1847 pioneers and
also of Julia Ward Howe, author of
''Battle Hymn of the Republic,"
Mrs. Sheranian was cited in her
award for her leadership among
women.
A/TRS. MARJORIE L. FRENCH,
a high school teacher of math-
ematics, from Topeka, Kansas, re-
ceived the National Teacher of the
Year Award from President Ken-
nedy at White House ceremonies in
Washington on May 14.
L
OIS MATTOX MILLER has
written an article, ''Lung Can-
cer and Cigarettes," which appears
in the June Reader's Digest as a
summary of the British Royal Col-
lege of Physicians' recent report on
"Smoking and Health." The report
is praised as the first to "spell out a
practical program of preventive
measures for the individual and the
Government." The report stated
unequivocally: "Cigarette smoking
is a cause of lung cancer and bron-
chitis, and probably contributes to
the development of coronary heart
disease and various less common
diseases."
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EDITORIAL
mms^
In the Family There Is Strength
Tj^AMILY love and unity and the
promise of an eternal pattern
are part of the heritage of the gen-
erations. This legacy must be
guarded as a present joy and as a
future blessing.
It is a brief time, the years when
the children bless the home — their
dear beginning words, strange and
delightful; their swift feet, their
little happy rhymes and songs; their
questions and their young philoso-
phy. So brief a time — like orchard
trees that come to bud and bloom,
then lose their petals, and, in their
turn, bear fruit.
This family unity, this building
today for all the tomorrows, is best
accomplished when the members of
the family erect the protective struc-
ture together. Family activities are
long remembered, and their com-
forting companionship can never be
forgotten.
A son, whose early years were
spent on a western ranch, found
that his responsibility to his coun-
try took him to an alien land. Yet
in that place, with misty eyes, he
traced the outlines of the strange
mountains, and compared that
silhouette with the hills of home,
where he had companioned with
his father in the fields of yellow
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wheat and purple-flowered lucern.
There was enduring comfort in
those memories of home; there was
strength and rejoicing.
A daughter, whose adult life was
beset with many trials, received a
rejuvenation of spirit each time she
recalled the days of summers past,
when she sat with her mother on the
veranda of the stone house, and
they sewed together the intricate
designs for quilts and fancy pillows,
and the fine film of netting and
crocheting. It seemed to the daugh-
ter, in later years, that the stitches
of those summer days were destined
to be everlasting, as if stitching to-
gether the love of the mother and
the daughter, so that such a com-
panionship could never be lost, and
could forever be recalled in elements
of affection and spiritual aspiration.
So it has been in many families —
brothers and sisters helping and
strengthening and comforting each
other; one family unit tenderly car-
ing for the elderly ones before them
in the generations, and extending
loving concern for the young chil-
dren in the new lines of the family,
continuing the ideals and the pur-
poses of a blessed family among the
homes of earth, in a pattern of ever-
lasting devotion.
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford, President • Marianne C. Sharp, First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen, Second Counselor • Hulda Parker, Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart
Edith S. Elliott
Florence J. Madsen
Leone G. Layton
Blanche B. Stoddard
Evon W. Peterson
Aleine M. Young
Josie B. Bay
Alberta H. Christensen
Mildred B. Eyring
Charlotte A. Larsen
Edith P. Backman
Winniefred S.
Manwaring
Elna P. Haymond
Annie M. Ellsworth
Mary R. Young
Mary V. Cameron
Afton W. Hunt
Wealtha S. Mendenhall
Pearle M. Olsen
Elsa T. Peterson
Irene B. Woodford
Fanny S. Kienitz
Elizabeth B. Winters
LaRue H. Rosell
Jennie R. Scott
Alice L. Wilkinson
LaPriel S. Bunker
Irene W. Buehner
Irene C. Lloyd
Hazel S. Cannon
Hazel S. Love
As the years hasten in these latter
times, many mothers are earnestly
searching for family activities that
can be enjoyed within the limita-
tions imposed by city life, or by
small budgets, or by disparity of
ages in the family group.
A mother, whatever her home
conditions may be, can, by careful
planning, allocate to her children
some gainful work, which can be
accomplished by united effort —
keeping the house shining and clean,
caring for patio or porch, tending
the yard and the garden — these are
tasks of infinite possibilities. Keep-
ing accounts and budgets, compos-
ing and arranging family histories,
writing letters to loved ones away
from home — these are rewarding
activities. They can help to make
the home the center of family life
— the nucleus of well-beloved inter-
ests and activities.
Hobbies, too, can bring a family
close together, in discovering new
knowledge, new enchantment, a
new look upon the wonders of the
natural world, or the endlessly in-
triguing objects that may be con-
structed with willing hands. A
child's butterfly collection can be so
enlarged that the whole family par-
ticipates. A son's woodcarving can
be enjoyed by others in the family
who may help with patterns and
materials. A daughter's interest in
fancywork can be developed during
the family story-telling sessions, and
in their family evenings together.
A father and a son who classify a
mineral collection together are
building life ideals together. Their
delight becomes a visible and shin-
ing experience.
Families who travel together in
vacation time may find, in the new
vistas of experience, an extension of
their personal interests, and a vivid
perception of their dear love for
each other.
Seeing together the cities and the
industries, the shining highways,
and the busy factories, unites a fam-
ily in interests and experiences.
Though each one may see a dif-
ferent aspect of a mountain or a
wilderness, the horizon of each is
widened and illuminated by the
other's perception and choice of
sight or sound. One may be a
gatherer of herbs or flowers, an-
other may rejoice in colored stones;
one may listen for the song of birds,
another may consider the curves of
the highway and the construction
of bridges. All are enlightened by
each other.
Home is where the family weave
together the life pattern — the ever-
lasting life pattern, and make it
varied and beautiful, yet of one de-
sign and purpose.
-V.P.C.
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^ Notes to the Field
The Annual General Relief Society Conference
T^HE Annual General Relief Society Conference will be held Wednesday
and Thursday, September 26 and 27, 1962. The general session will
be held on Wednesday, September 26, from 2 to 4 p.m. in the Tabernacle.
It is suggested that ward Relief Society presidents ask their bishops to
announce in the wards the general session of the conference to which
the general public is invited. Attendance at the officers meeting on Wed-
nesday morning, September 26, from 10 to 12 in the Tabernacle, and the
departmental meetings to be held on Thursday morning and Thursday
afternoon, September 27, is limited to stake board members and mission
officers. A reception to which stake board members and mission officers
are invited will be held on Wednesday evening, September 26, from 7 to
10 in the Relief Society Building.
Relief Society Magazines for 1961 Available
for Binding
CETS of the twelve issues of The Relief Society Magazine for 1961 are
available for a limited time, at the office of the General Board of
Relief Society, 76 North Main, Salt Lake City 11, Utah. The price for
the twelve issues is $2 postpaid. If it is desired to have the Magazines
bound by the Deseret News Press (see advertisement on page 630 of this
issue of the Magazine), the set of 1961 Magazines will be sent, if so di-
rected, to them. Payment for the Magazines, for binding, and for post-
age on bound volumes should be sent with the order. A yearly index will
be included in the binding.
ERRATUM
The name of Frances C. Yost was omitted as the author of "In a Time of Flood"
in the July 1962 issue of The Relief Society Magazine — due to an error in the layout
and heading arrangement. Apologies are extended to Mrs. Yost for this regrettable
omission from her very fine article.
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Jerusalem,
City of Peace
Chiistine H. Robinson
Member, Adult Planning Committee of the Church Co-ordinating Council
THE journey from Jericho to Jerusalem up the steep, winding road
through the Judean Hills, provides a soul-stirring, never-to-be-for-
gotten experience. As the twenty-mile long road approaches the
Holy City, each bend in the rocky, rugged hills provides a short but almost
breathtaking view of the city with its ancient walls, yellow limestone build-
ings, and tall cypress trees nestled in the tops of the mountains. Nearer
Jerusalem, the road swings around one of the final bends and enters the
little town of Bethany, situated on the slopes of the Mount of Olives.
This was the home of Mary, Martha, and Lazarus, and a place which Jesus
loved and where he so often stayed with his friends and loved ones. Be-
yond this quaint little village, spread over four hills, are the magnificent
walls and much of the imposing Holy City of Jerusalem.
As spectacular and impressive as the city is today, it must have been
even more beautiful during the period of the Savior's ministry. It was at
Bethphage, just a short distance up and around the hill from Bethany, that
Jesus, only a few days before his crucifixion, stopped and beheld the city
in all its splendor ''and wept over it" (Luke 19:41). Jesus wept perhaps
not only because of the beauty of the city, but also because this would be
one of the last times, as a mortal being, he would see it, and he knew how
great and peaceful Jerusalem might have been if only its people had
accepted his teachings. As Jesus pondered the condition and fate of the
city, Matthew records that he lamented, ''O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, thou
that killest the prophets, and stonest them which are sent unto thee, how
often would I have gathered thy children together, even as a hen gathereth
her chickens under her wings, and ye would not!'' (Mt. 23:37).
Jerusalem, during the Savior's ministry, was a magnificent and im-
portant city. Only a short time earlier Herod had beautified it. He had
erected many new buildings and had rebuilt the temple and the walls,
including the massive golden gates leading into the valley of Kedron. His
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objective had been to restore Jerusalem to the ancient glory and splendor
which it had enjoyed under the reign of Solomon.
Less than six miles from Jerusalem is the little town of Bethlehem.
On that world-shaping day, some 2,000 years ago, Mary and Joseph came
there to the home of their ancestors and there Jesus was born.
On the outskirts of Bethlehem are the shepherds' fields where sheep
were brought in from the surrounding grazing areas for better protection
during the night. It was there (see cover) on that eventful night that
shepherds, tending their flocks, received the wonderful vision announcing
the Savior's birth as the scriptures record:
And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch
over their flock by night.
And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shown
round about them: and they were sore afraid.
And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of
great joy, which shall be to all people.
For unto you is born this day in the City of David a Saviour, which is Christ the
Lord (Luke 2:8-11 ).
T^ODAY, a hostile border separates the Arabs from the Jews and cuts off
the main road from Jerusalem to Bethlehem. Consequently, the
roundabout distance between the two cities is much greater than it was
during the Savior's ministry. Then, undoubtedly, he must have walked
many times the approximate six miles from Jerusalem to the city of his
ancestors and of his birth.
Despite its spectacular physical beauty, during the time of the Savior,
Jerusalem was a cosmopolitan, wicked city. Jesus foresaw its complete
destruction and predicted that the time would soon come when the
beautiful temple would be torn down with not one stone remaining on top
of another. Yet, it was at Jerusalem where Jesus accomplished much of
his mighty work, gave many of his great teachings, and performed many
of his most wonderful miracles. It was here that mothers brought to him
their little children ''and he took them in his arms, put his hands upon
them, and blessed them" (Mark 10:16). He said, ''suffer little children
to come unto me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of
God" (Mark 10:14). In Jerusalem he healed the sick, caused the lame
to walk, and made the blind to see. Here he exhibited his righteous
indignation when he cast the thieves and money-changers out of the
temple and proclaimed that his father's house "shall be called the house
of prayer; but ye have made it a den of thieves" (Mt. 21:13).
When Jesus taught at Jerusalem, the scheming Pharisees, hoping to
trap him, asked, "Master, which is the great commandment in the law?
Jesus said unto him. Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy might,
and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great
commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy
neighbour as thyself" (Mt. 22:35-39). At Jerusalem Jesus emphasized the
divine importance of service to one another, saying, "Inasmuch as ye have
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The Old City and Wall of Jerusalem as seen today.
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Bethany, near Jerusalem, near the spot where the house of Mary, Martha and Lazarus
once stood.
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The Mount of Olives from near the site of Bethphage.
done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto
me" (Mt. 25:40).
Despite Christ's mighty works and his great compassion for Jerusalem,
the city rejected and scorned him. With trumped-up charges and on the
basis of an illegal trial, he was brought by the priests and the people before
Pilate and was condemned to death. Up a narrow winding street, similar
to the one, today, which is called the Via Dolorosa (the Street of Sorrow),
he carried his cross to Golgotha, the ''Hill of the Skull,'' where he was
crucified. Only a few short hours before, he had knelt in the Garden of
Gethsemane, at the foot of the Mount of Olives near the path he had
taken so many times to his beloved Bethany. In an orchard of beautiful
olive trees, he had prayed mightily to his Father saying, ''My soul is
exceeding sorrowful, even unto death. . . . O my Father, if it be possible,
let this cup pass from me: nevertheless, not as I will, but as thou wilt"
(Mt. 26:38, 39).
T^HE name Jerusalem in Hebrew means "The City of Peace." Yet,
probably more than any city down through the ages, Jerusalem has
experienced little peace. The history of the city has been largely one of
conflict, conquest, destruction, and restoration.
Nation after nation has fought over it, and each new conqueror has
soon been faced with the necessity of holding his conquest against the
determined aggression of another. These repeated conquests constitute
a strange and puzzling fact about Jerusalem. Although the city has
always had great religious significance, it has never been an economic prize
for its conquerors. Except for the times when it might have harbored
religious treasures, it has had no great economic assets. The city has no
mineral wealth. It is not in the center of a rich agricultural district. It
controls no important trade routes nor seaport. In fact, it has only a
scantv independent water supply, and to support increased population
it has been necessary to bring water in through an extensive system of
aqueducts. Yet, the control of Jerusalem has been a symbol, and as long
as it remained in enemy hands, the inhabitants of Palestine could not
feel secure.
Possibly, the earliest Biblical reference to "The City of Peace" is
found in Genesis in the account of Melchizedek, King of Salem, unto
whom Abraham paid tithes. "Salem" means "peace," and many scholars
believe this reference is to Jerusalem (Genesis 14:18).
It was during David's reign that Jerusalem was conquered by the
Hebrews and became the City of the Jews. Since David's time, Jerusalem
has been known among the Jews as "The City of David." David made the
city his capital, brought into it the ark of the covenant, and surrounded
it with a new wall. It was to his son Solomon, however, that the responsi-
bility and honor came to rebuild and beautify the city and to construct its
magnificent temple on Mount Moriah, one of Jerusalem's four hills.
During Solomon's time, Jerusalem was truly a "City of Peace." This
blessing, however, was not to be long enjoyed. After Solomon's death, the
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city was fought over by the divided tribes of Israel. Then followed a
long period of strife and conquest during which time the city changed
hands so many times that even history does not record the number.
Probably, no place in history has been more violently fought over than
this so-called ''City of Peace."
True to the pattern of its troubled history, Jerusalem, today, is an
embattled and divided city. Twisting like a serpent through the middle
of this ''Holy Shrine" is the armored border between the Jewish and the
Arab sectors. This is the battle line where the bitterly fought 1948 Pal-
estinian War was stopped by the United Nations. Here, today, fully
alerted and battle-ready soldiers patrol both sides of the city, ready, at a
moment's notice, to shoot if the command is given. Only at one spot on
this fortified border can a civilian or tourist cross from one sector to the
other. This is at the Mandlebaum Gate, a no-man's-land check point,
where crossings can be made only with special permission and virtually
onlv in one direction.
Jerusalem is the "Holy City," not only for Christians but also for
Jews and Moslems. For the Jews, this is the home of David and Solomon.
It is also the place, on Mount Moriah, where Abraham came on instruc-
tions from the Lord to offer his son Isaac in sacrifice. It is their capital
city and the place where the ancient prophets lived, preached, and died.
For the Moslems, Jerusalem is one of the most important "Holy
Cities" in their religion. It is second only to Mecca and Medina and is
one of the shrines where every orthodox Moslem must visit, at least once
in his lifetime, if he is true to his Islamic faith. Here is the "Dome of the
Rock," one of Islam's most ancient and most beautiful mosques. It is
believed to have been built over the site where Mohammed ascended to
heaven.
For Christians, Jerusalem and the area of Palestine is the Holy Land
where Jesus lived and taught. It was here that he organized his Church,
restored the Holy Priesthood, and challenged his disciples to a new way
of life and service with the words, "come, follow me."
A familiar greeting in the Israel sector of Jerusalem, when one meets
or takes leave of a friend or acquaintance, is "shalom, shalom," meaning
"peace, peace." Despite this greeting, there has been little peace in
Jerusalem, and there is only an uncertain, troubled peace there now. Yet,
the peace which Jesus tried so valiantly to establish there and throughout
the world, can be found, if one truly seeks it. However, it is not peace
as the world knows it. It is the spiritual and personal "peace" that Jesus
urged and taught. He said, "Peace I leave unto you, my peace I give unto
you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be
troubled, neither let it be afraid" (John 14:27).
Even in its present and divided and embattled condition, Jerusalem
is still a holy and sacred city. If people would follow the counsel of the
righteous prophets who have preached and died there, and if they would
accept the lessons that Jesus taught there nigh on to 2,000 years ago,
Jerusalem would indeed be the "City of Peace."
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Family Desserts
Mabel Harmer
T^HE old "stand-by" desserts — bread or rice puddings, and custards, are substantial
■*• and appetizing, without being too rich or too expensive. Given an occasional
new twist, and the correct ingredients, they will appeal to the most discriminating and
healthy appetite.
Apple Pandowdy
This is an American favorite since colonial days.
4 tart apples, sliced thin
Yz c. sugar
Yz tsp. cinnamon
'/4 tsp. salt
!4 c. molasses
Yi c. hot water
1 c. sifted flour
1 Yi tsp. baking powder
Y4 tsp. salt
Vs c. shortening
% c. milk
Fill an oblong dish with sliced apples. Mix sugar, cinnamon, and salt and sprinkle
over apples. Combine molasses and hot water. Pour over apples. Bake in hot oven
(425° F.) 25 minutes. Sift flour with baking powder and salt. Cut in shortening.
Add milk. Knead lightly. Roll dough into a rectangle about % inch thick. Fit dough
over apple mixture. Prick top with fork. Bake at 425° F. about 25 minutes. Serve
warm with thin cream. Serves 8.
Caramel Custard
^ c. sugar
2 tbsp. boiling water
4 c. milk
6 eggs
'/4 tsp. salt
1 tsp. vanilla
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Heat the dry sugar in a small pan over low heat, stirring until it melts. Add two
tablespoons of boiling water and pour it slowly into the milk, which has been scalded.
Beat the eggs, add salt and vanilla, and slowly pour the milk mixture on them and stir.
Bake at 350° for 40 minutes in a casserole set in a pan of hot water. The custard is
done when a silver knife can be drawn clean through the center. Serves 8.
Gingerbread Custard
2 egg yolks
% c. sugar
1 pint milk, scalded
1 c. gingerbread crumbs
Beat the egg yolks, add sugar and scalded milk. Pour mixture over the ginger-
bread crumbs which have been placed in a buttered casserole. Place the dish in a pan
of hot water and bake at 350° for one hour.
A meringue may be made with the egg whites by mixing 4 tbsp. sugar, Vi tsp.
vanilla and spreading it over the custard for the last 15 minutes of baking. Serves 5.
Lemon Rice With Fruit Sauce
Vi lb. prunes
Vi
1/4 c. water
i tbsp. lemon juice
Vi c. brown sugar
1 tbsp. cornstarch
/4 c. sliced almonds
1 c. quick cooking rice
1 tbsp. each of butter, sugar, and
grated lemon rind
Cut up prunes and simmer with raisins and water for 5 minutes. Add the lemon
juice and the combined sugar and cornstarch. Cook 5 minutes. Add almonds. Cook
the rice with butter according to directions on the package. Fold in sugar and lemon
rind. Pour fruit sauce over warm rice. Serves 4-6.
Cinnamon Rice Snow
V2 c. quick rice
!4 tsp. salt
1 tsp. butter
Vz c. red cinnamon candies
2 c. shredded raw apples
2 tbsp. sugar
2 tbsp. lemon juice
1 c. whipping cream
Cook rice with salt and butter. Add cinnamon candies. Cover and let stand for
10 minutes to melt candies. Mix and chill. Combine apples, sugar, and lemon juice
and fold into rice. Add whipped cream. Chill. Serves 6.
Toasty Prune Betty
1 Vz c.
4 c.
cooked prunes
toasted bread cubes
iVz c.
1 c.
% c.
chopped apples
prune liquid
water
/4 c. sugar
Vz tsp. salt
Vz tsp. cinnamon
2 tbsp. butter
Cut prunes into medium slices. Toast bread cubes in 450° oven until lightly
browned. Place half of toasted bread cubes in buttered casserole. Add prunes in a
layer, then apples, then remaining bread cubes. Combine liquids, sugar, salt, spice,
and butter, and boil 2 or 3 minutes. Pour over bread cubes. Bake covered at 375°
for one hour. Serves 6.
FAMILY DESSERTS 599
Apple Cake With Vanilla Sauce
"or cake:
For sauce:
% lb. butter
3 c. stale sponge cake crumbs
or cracker crumbs
4 egg yolks
4 tbsp. sugar
2 c. heavy cream
2 Vi c. sweetened applesauce
2 Vi tsp. vanilla
2 tsp. cinnamon
Melt butter in a skillet. Add crumbs and cook over medium heat five minutes,
stirring frequently. Butter an 8-inch square baking dish. Place layer of crumbs on
bottom and add alternate layers of applesauce, cinnamon and crumbs. Bake in a 350°
oven for thirty minutes. Let cool, then turn out of pan carefully.
For the sauce, beat the egg yolks in the top of a double boiler. Add the sugar
and beat. Scald 1 K cups of the cream and add to yolks, beating constantly. Place
over hot water and cook until thick, stirring. Remove from hot water, add vanilla and
cool for one hour. Whip the remaining cream and fold into the sauce. Cut the cake
in squares and serve with sauce. Serves 8-10.
Raspberry Bread Pudding
14 c. butter 3 c. bread crumbs
V2 c. sugar % tsp. salt
3 eggs, well beaten 3 tbsp. raspberry jam
2 tbsp. flour
Cream the butter and sugar and add the well-beaten eggs. Add the flour, bread
crumbs, salt, and jam. Mix well and pour into a buttered mold. Place in a large pan
containing boiling water to a depth of 1 Yz inches. Cover the pan and steam in a
double boiler in a 275° oven for three hours. Serves 6.
Coconut and Dote Bread Pudding
3 c. stale bread crumbs % c. sugar
Yi c. shredded coconut 2 c. milk
% c. dates Yi tsp. salt
2 eggs 1 tsp. vanilla
Put the stale bread crumbs, coconut, and dates in a buttered casserole. Beat the
eggs, add the sugar, then the milk, salt, and vanilla. Pour this over the bread mixture
and place in oven at 350° for 1Y2 hours. Serve with cream. Serves 6.
Plain Bread Pudding
1 quart milk 14 tsp. salt
2 c. stale bread cubes 1 tsp. vanilla
3 eggs 3 tbsp. butter
Yz c. sugar
Scald the milk and pour it over the bread cubes. Let stand 10 minutes. Beat the
eggs, add the sugar, salt, and vanilla. Put into buttered baking dish and add the milk
and bread cubes. Add melted butter and stir. Place the dish in a pan of hot water.
Bake at 350° for 1 14 hours. Serves 6.
Do you have
a baby?
What you need
is a bathtime
coat of armor
Make a Drip- Dry Apron
Janet W. Breeze
Got something at your house that's slippery as an eel and
splashes like a fish? Must be a baby!
What you need is a bathtime coat of armor. So make it —
from one bath towel, plus one washcloth.
When finished, you'll find that your terry-towel friend is
not only a great dress protector, but can be lifted up and
wrapped around that wee little wiggler as you take him from
the tub. No baby? Give an apron as a gift!
First of all, cut the washcloth into four equal strips. Two
strips will serve as the belt; and the other two, sewn end to
end, will form the long piece that goes around the neck.
Now double your strips lengthwise, right sides together,
and stitch each one along the long edge. Then turn right side
out and overcast ends to prevent fraying.
Baste pleats in the bath towel at the neck and waist to
whatever width you prefer.
Stitch one of the short strips into pleat on right side of
waistline and one into pleat on left side of waistline.
Use g ripper fasteners to attach neck piece and to fasten
the belt. Two sets of snaps make the apron adjustable.
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Clara Partridge Stevens— Artist With Needle
and Brush
/^^LARA Partridge Stevens, Salt Lake City, Utah, finds much happiness in her many
^^ hobbies of handwork and painting, and brings warmth to the hearts of her friends
and family by sharing her handwork with them. She has crocheted four full-size
tablecloths, two afghans, hundreds of doilies, and the lace for many pillowslips. She
has crocheted bootees for her twenty-eight grandchildren and her thirty-one great-
grand-children, and has embroidered and finished temple aprons for all her children
and all her granddaughters. She has lost count of the great number of quilts she has
made for her family and friends and for Relief Society.
Her oil paintings have given her creative joy and have won much appreciation
and admiration. The painting shown above was made from a natural scene in
Yellowstone National Park, Wyoming.
Mrs. Stevens was born in Fillmore, Utah, a daughter of Edward Partridge, Jr.,
and Elizabeth Buxton Partridge. She is a granddaughter of Edward Partridge, the
first bishop of the Church. She has been active in Relief Society for many years, as
a teacher and as an expert quilter. As she approaches her eighty-ninth birthday (August
4, 1962), she still attends Sunday School, sacrament meeting, and Relief Society, where
she still takes her place at the quilting frames. She keeps house for herself and her
husband, works on genealogical research, and keeps busy with her crochet hook and
knitting needles.
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ntet-
FROM THE FIELD
General Secretary-Treasurer Hulda Parker
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Handbook of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
BOUNTIFUL NORTH STAKE (UTAH), BOUNTIFUL FIFTH WARD RELIEF
SOCIETY ANNIVERSARY PROGRAM, March 15, 1962
Left to right: Alene Grundy as Margaret A. Cook; Zona Prusse as Phebe Ann
Hawks; Beth Ivers as Sophia Marks; Barbara Houghton as Leonora Taylor; Shirley
Woodhouse as Sophia Robinson; Kay Smedley as Philinda Merrick; Elder Edwin Jar-
dine as John Taylor; LaVeral Smith as Elvira A. Coles; Beth Porter as Phebe M.
Wheeler; Bishop William Stacey as the Prophet Joseph Smith; Velma Stacey as Emma
Hale Smith; Nadine Nielson as Sarah M. Cleveland; Marvel Jardine as Eliza R. Snow;
Beth Woodward as Elizabeth Ann Whitney; Ralph Thompson as Willard Richards;
Lile Day as Desdemona Fulmer; Carol Thompson as Bathsheba W. Smith; Evelyn
Parry, reader; Gerda Hansen as Sarah M. Kimball; Hettie Knight as Martha Knight;
Sylvia Pack as Sophia Packard.
Dora P. Webb, President, Bountiful North Stake Relief Society, reports that
beautiful programs were printed for this occasion, and the sisters who represented the
members of the first Relief Society were attired in costumes representative of that time.
A chorus sang "Messengers of Mercy." A special tribute to Leah P. Chapman, who
passed away recently, was printed on the programs, representing Sister Chapman as a
sister who 'ioved Relief Society." Eunice Van Orden is president of Bountiful Fifth
Ward Relief Society, and her counselors are Fawn Kizerian and Vera Holbrook.
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BLACKFOOT STAKE (IDAHO) SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC FOR
QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, April 1962
President Marie G. Baldwin is standing at the left in the second row; chorister
Barbara Larson and organist Marilyn Dye, are standing at the left in the front row.
Sister Baldwin reports that all nine wards of Blackfoot Stake were represented in
this chorus and the Singing Mothers were most appreciative of the opportunity to
present the music for quarterly conference.
NORTH SEVIER STAKE (UTAH) RELIEF SOCIETY HONORS VISITING
TEACHERS AT CONVENTION AND VALENTINE DAY SOCIAL
February 9, 1962
Front row, seated left to right: Esther Thalman, stake visiting teacher message
leader; Stella Mason; Dee Rasmussen; Millie Martin; Bessie Miller; Lucy Nielson.
Back row, standing,, left to right: Verona Gates; Bemece Mickelsen; Othella Her-
bert; Bernece Sorenson; Josephine Thompson; Virgie Nielson; Helen Noyes.
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Gladys O. Johnson, President, North Sevier Stake Rehef Society, reports that a
valentine theme was followed in carrying out the arrangements for this lovely social:
"We made a large valentine for the visiting teachers, which read: 'A Valentine For You,
For the Wonderful Work You Do.' Our stake Singing Mothers presented the music,
and a skit entitled 'Fruits of the Message* was presented by Brother and Sister Ouentin
Ottley and their family. Talks were given by Esther Thalman, and Clara Roberts,
President, South Sevier Stake Relief Society, who was a special guest speaker. One
hundred and forty five sisters attended the convention. We paid special honor to
eighteen sisters who had a one hundred per cent attendance at their \isiting teacher
meetings for the past year."
MONUMENT PARK STAKE (SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH), TWELFTH WARD
HONORS RELIEF SOCIETY LEADERS AT ANNIVERSARY PARTY
March 17, 1962
Left to right: Elder Harold R. Boyer, President, Monument Park Stake; General
President of Relief Society, Belle S. Spafford; Velma N. Simonsen, former second
counselor in the General Presidency of Relief Society; Henrietta H. Young, President,
Monument Park Stake Relief Society; May }. Dyer; Leone W. Doxey; Thelma S. Bu-
chanan; Beverly J. Pond, President, Monument Park Twelfth Ward Relief Society.
Sister Young reports: "The Monument Park Twelfth Ward Relief Society held a
birthday reception at their new chapel on March 17, 1962, honoring General President
Belle S. Spafford; former second counselor in the General Presidency of Relief Society
Velma N. Simonsen; Leone W. Doxey, recently appointed First Counselor in the General
Presidency of the Primary Association; May }. Dyer, and Thelma S. Buchanan, to which
all members of the Relief Society and their husbands and other stake members were
invited. Sister Simonsen, Sister Dyer, and Sister Buchanan are wives of mission presi-
dents recently returned to the Twelfth Ward after presiding over Relief Society in
missions of the Church. Sister Pond and her counselors did much advance planning
to make this a lovely affair. It was held on a Saturday between the hours of five and
seven p.m., and refreshments were served in the beautifully decorated Relief Society
room. In carrying out the theme 'Relief Society Is the Key to the Good Life,' attrac-
tive key chains were given to all the sisters who attended."
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BOUNTIFUL STAKE (UTAH), BOUNTIFUL SIXTH WARD WORK MEETING
PROJECTS, December 1961
Ivy W. Richins, President, Bountiful Stake Relief Society, submits the following
report from the Bountiful Sixth Ward: "The Bountiful Sixth Ward Relief Society has
had outstanding accomplishments for their work meeting projects during the past year.
At the meeting represented in the the picture, eighty women were active in craft work.
There was a class in knitting, crocheting, and embroidery; one in flower and grains
arrangement, and one in making Christmas wreaths. Other groups made plastic
poodles and stuffed toys. Three quilts were being quilted. The Sixth Ward always
has a quilt on hand for beginners only, where the young women of the ward can be
taught the art of quilting. Their motto is: 'We have something of interest for every
woman in the ward.' Mildred Patterson is work meeting leader, and Ruby M. Smedley
is president of Bountiful Sixth Ward Relief Society."
ROSE PARK STAKE, SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH, SINGING MOTHERS
PRESENT SPRING MUSICALE, March 29, 1962
Front row, seated: Ruth J. Harrison, President, Rose Park Stake Relief Society,
first on the right; Ruth Murphy, First Counselor, fifth from the right; Clea Fowler,
Second Counselor, fifth from the left; Marilyn Mecham, chorister, second from the
right; Ruth Pack, organist, third from the right.
Vauna Moosman, Secretary-Treasurer, is standing tenth from the right in the
second row.
Sister Harrison reports: "The Singing Mothers of Rose Park Stake presented a
most enjoyable spring musicale, March 29th. With a theme 'There's Music in the Air,'
each of the ten wards was featured in an individual number, and all 175 members of
the combined choruses sang two selections. The group has 261 children and grand-
children.
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"In addition to the vocal music, a group of eight sisters formed a string ensemble
for a special number, and accompanied one of the full-chorus selections. Four Relief
Society organists performed a beautiful two-piano selection.
"The large audience which attended this event was most appreciative of hearing
our talented mothers featured in such a lovely musical presentation. This marked the
first time such an event has been held in Rose Park Stake, and many comments were
heard urging that this should become an annual event."
SOUTHWEST INDIAN MISSION, POLACCA (ARIZONA) BRANCH RELIEF
SOCIETY MAINTAINS DEVOTED SERVICE AND ACTIVITY
Front row, left to right: Nadean Tryon; Alice Adams; Grace Chapella; Carol
Namoki; Elva Tewaygewa.
Second row, left to right: Helen Hill; Deana Tahbo; Lily Pahone; Alma Tahbo;
Leah Garcia; Ivy Sidney; Edna Sequi; Anabelle Honie.
Third row, left to right: Louise McGee, District Relief Society President; Zella
Ray; Mae Mutz, President, Polacca Branch Relief Society; Remalda Williams; Mabel
Dashee; Teresa Harvey.
Back row, left to right: Nina Talayumptewa; Joyce Tewa; Anna Sidney; Mary
Leone Navasie; Helen Sekaquaptewa; Elizabeth M. Baird, President, Southwest Indian
Mission Relief Society.
Sister Baird reports: "These sisters have kept the Relief Society organized and
active, even when the branch was disorganized. They are a wonderful group of Lamanite
women and they love Relief Society. They said last fall, 'We want the whole Relief
Society program, just as it is being carried on in Salt Lake City, and in the rest of
the Church.'
"The day this picture was taken, these sisters served a pot-luck dinner to twelve
missionaries at the regional meeting, and the next day, they served the entire congrega-
tion at District Conference."
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VIRGINIA STAKE RELIEF SOCIETY SINGING MOTHERS PRESENT MUSIC
FOR STAKE QUARTERLY CONFERENCE, January 21, 1962
Front row, left to right: Lucille Blackmon, President, Virginia Stake Relief Society;
Myrtle Donahoe, chorister; Mary Sanderlin, accompanist, tenth from the left; Gladys
Johnson, visiting teacher leader, ninth from the left; Hettie Toler, Secretary-Treasurer.
Sister Blackmon reports: *'This group was honored by being invited to sing at the
stake quarterly conference, January 21, 1962. This conference inaugurated the use of
the Norfolk chapel. We are very proud of these faithful women who give their time
so generously to meet for practice. They are now rehearsing for a concert to be pre-
sented for the stake."
NORTH TOOELE STAKE (UTAH) RELIEF SOCIETY PRESIDENCY AND
BOARD HONOR VISITING TEACHERS AT SOCIAL, January 31, 1962
Left to right: Roxie Dobson; Marelle Sanderson; Geraldine Droubay; Millie Tate;
Ethel Weight, First Counselor; Geneel Stewart, President; Fern Gillette, Second Coun-
selor; Mildred Sagers; ArHne Lindholm; Mignon Shields; Renee Burgess. Marie Williams,
a member of the board, was absent when the picture was taken.
Sister Stewart reports: "The North Tooele Stake Relief Society presidency and
board members presented 'Hats Off to You, Visiting Teachers,' at a party honoring
the visiting teachers who had achieved 100 per cent visiting teaching for the year. The
twenty-eight women in the stake eighty years of age and over were also honored. It
was a wonderful party. The highly entertaining program was well received by the
three hundred men and women who were in attendance. Favors were presented to
the visiting teachers, and special favors and tributes were given the sisters over eighty
years of age. Delicious punch and doughnuts were served from cleverly decorated blue
and gold 'doughnut trees.' Our 'hats are off to the visiting teachers' for their fine
achievement."
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FRENCH-POLYNESIAN MISSION RELIEF SOCIETY BAZAAR, March 28, 1962
Standing in the picture is Ester Bennett, First Counselor in the French Poly-
nesian Mission Relief Society, at the Hikueru Hao booth. The second tifaifai from the
left sold for Si 10.
Gabrielle Young, President, French-Polynesian Mission Rehef Society, reports:
"The French-Polynesian Mission Relief Society held an all-mission bazaar on the
28th of March. It was a big day, and all of the branches had sent their articles to
Papeete. This was to see if an all-mission bazaar would not be more successful than
holding many bazaars in the individual islands. The exposition started at nine o'clock
in the morning, and the sale was at six o'clock in the evening. Meals were served at
noon and in the evening.
"The small articles were woven hats, bags, mats, fans, carvings, doilies, clothing,
pillows and pillowcases, grass skirts, and some very artistic shell vases. Fifty very
beautiful tifaifai (bed covers, with applique or crazy-quilt patterns) were also sold.
The basketball court was divided into booths, with the name of each island in
front, so that the customers could see from which island they were buying the articles.
We were very proud to display a tifaifai which had won first prize in the territory-wide
contest last July, and also the one which had taken first place for originality of design.
The highest price paid for a tifaifai at the bazaar went to Hao, Tuamotu Branch,
for $110.
"The day was very rewarding, and the sisters have never had such a successful
sale. Tourists and people from all Tahiti were in attendance, and the decision was
made then and there that the mission-wide bazaar would be an annual affair. The
total receipts for the day exceeded $2,000, and the morale of the sisters was boosted
one hundred j>er cent."
LESSON DEPARTMENT
THEOLOGY The Doctiine and Covenants
Lesson 42 — "Engaged in a Good Cause"
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Section 58:15-65)
For First Meeting, November 1962
Objective: To show that obedience to the Lord's commandments invohes working
for the cause of Zion.
Introduction
IN the year 1831, the Prophet
Joseph Smith received a revela-
tion designating Independence,
Jackson County, Missouri, as the
site for the city of Zion or the New
Jerusalem. Hundreds of years be-
fore this the Lord had decreed that
his holy city to which the faithful
would come in the last days, would
shine forth as a light to beckon
earth's inhabitants to accept the
gospel. This city will become a
capital of the world government
when the Savior comes to establish
his kingdom at the time of the
millennium.
Although the saints were driven
from the center place of Zion, their
belief in the restoration of the gos-
pel, and their own inability, at that
time, to live the gospel as required,
brought about the persecutions
which drove them from Missouri.
(See Lesson 41.)
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Notwithstanding what happened
in 1834 when our people were
ejected from Missouri, the promises
of the Lord concerning that land
are still to be fulfilled. The leader-
ship of this Church has always
understood and taught that the
New Jerusalem will become all that
the Lord has said it would be.
President George Q. Cannon, one
of the apostles close to the events
of Missouri, expressed the feelings
of the saints concerning these mat-
ters. After twenty years in the
West, he said:
We talk about going back to build up
the centre stake [place] of Zion; it is the
burden of our daily prayers. The aspira-
tions of thousands of the people ascend
in the ears of the Lord of Sabaoth
[hosts] in behalf of the redemption of
Zion, and that the purposes of God may
be forwarded, and that the time may
soon come when the centre stake [place]
of Zion shall be built up and the people
be prepared to go back and inhabit that
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611
land. Why do we wish this? Because
we anticipate when that day shall come
that we will be that much nearer the
day of triumph, the day when Jesus will
come and reign among his Saints ... we
look forward to that land with inde-
scribable feelings, because it is the place
where God has said His City shall be
built. It is the land where Adam, the
Ancient of Days, will gather his posterity
again, and where the blessings of God
will descend upon them . . . {Journal oi
Discourses, 11:336-337).
Preparations must be made for
the building of Zion as commanded.
The Lord revealed in this revela-
tion (Section 58) why the saints
should go to Missouri, beginning in
1831 as well as in the future. (See
Lesson 41.) What is necessary to-
day to realize the blessings of build-
ing the City of Zion? This ques-
tion is answered in this lesson.
President Cannon said:
. . . We expect when that day shall
come that we will be a very different
people to what we are today. We will
be prepared to commune with heavenly
beings; at any rate, the preparation will
be going on very rapidly for Jesus to be
revealed. We expect that a society will
be organized there that will be a pattern
of heavenly society, that when Jesus and
the heavenly beings who come with him
are revealed in the clouds of heaven, their
feelings will not be shocked by the
change, for a society will be organized on
the earth whose members will be prepared
through the revelations of God to meet
and associate with them, if not on terms
of perfect equality, at least with some
degree of equality {Journal oi Discourses,
11:337)-
Edward Partridge
Our discussion of Section 58 be-
gins with verse 14 in which we are
reminded that Edward Partridge,
who received his appointment as
bishop by revelation (D & C 41:9),
was to place his full trust in the
things pertaining to the kingdom
of God. This counsel is applicable
to every person who has entered
covenant relationship with God.
Putting one's emphasis on worldly
objects to the exclusion of God's
purposes is to have ''unbelief and
blindness of heart" (Ibid., 58:15;
D 81 C Commentary, pp. 338-339).
Bishop Partridge's duties were
known to him. He and bishops
who have succeeded him are to be
judges among the saints. He was
to appoint to the saints their in-
heritances — land — as it was ap-
pointed in ancient Israel. (Cf. Ex-
odus 18:13.)
The bishop is ''to judge his peo-
ple by the testimony of the just, and
by the assistance of his counselors,
according to the laws of the king-
dom which are given by the proph-
ets of God" (D & C 58:18). In
order for the Lord's representative,
the bishop in this case, to under-
stand his position as a judge, the
law of the Church (Section 42) is
to be his guide in morals and plans
for the welfare of the members.
(See D & C 58:19.) No bishop,
however, should consider that he is
a "ruler." The only ruler in the
kingdom of God is Jesus Christ.
Officiators in his kingdom are serv-
ants. (Ihid., 58:20.)
The Law of the Land
Not only are the saints of God
to accept the rulership of Christ
and to follow his divinely appointed
servants, but, they should be obedi-
ent to the laws of the land.
Let no man break the laws of the land,
for he that keepeth the laws of God hath
no need to break the laws of the land
(D & C 58:21).
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The principle of law observance
did not have its origin in this dis-
pensation. Obedience to law is
necessary that order and stability
may exist. Judges who adminis-
tered the law were known among
ancient Israel. In Moses' day a just
judgment was to be meted to those
who transgressed the law. (Deut.
16:18; I Chron. 23:4.) Elder James
E. Talmage pointed out how ChXist
acknowledged the existing laws of
the land, both Jewish and Roman,
although the Roman law was some-
times exercised unjustly. A strong
case for obedience to law was given
by Jesus when he performed a mir-
acle to provide tax money. (Articles
of Faith, page 416.) The well-
known reply to those who attempt-
ed to trap the Messiah as one who
stood against the ruling powers was:
". . . Render therefore unto Caesar
the things which are Caesar's; and
unto God the things that are God's"
(Matt. 22:21).
The apostles followed their Mas-
ter's example in teaching that ob-
servance of the law of the land was
necessary for the full living of the
religious life. (Acts 23:1-5; Titus
3:1; Rom. 13:1-7; I Tim. 2:1-3; ^
Peter 2:13-17. For the application
of these and other examples, con-
sult James E. Talmage, Articles oi
Faith, pp. 418-421.)
As for our dispensation, by revela-
tion and instruction from the lead-
ers of the Church, the message is
clear — to be a Latter-day Saint
strict observance of the law of God
and the law of the land is impera-
tive. The Twelfth Article of Faith
is well known to all {Ibid., page 3;
Pearl of Great Price, page 60.)
Obedience to law is a test of a
man's religion. As Elder Talmage
expressed it:
Religion is essentially a matter of every-
day life. It has as much to do with the
adjustment of the individual to his ma-
terial environment as with his abstract
belief in matters spiritual. A man's re-
ligion should be a concrete demonstration
of his conceptions concerning God and
the Divine purposes respecting himself
and his fellows. Anything less lacks
both the form of godliness and the pow-
er thereof. . . .
Loyal citizenship is at once a character-
istic and a test of a man's religion; and
.as to the incumbent duties of citizenship,
the voice of the j>eople, as expressed
through the established channels of gov-
ernment, must determine {The Vitality oi
MoTmonism, i()^S{ pp. 180-181).
That the Constitution of the
United States was divinely estab-
lished and thus to be obeyed by its
citizens is a revealed part of our re-
ligion. (D & C 98:4-10; 101:76-80.)
Subsequent lessons will consider
Sections 98 and 101 and the Latter-
day Saint beliefs concerning details
of law observance.
Christ Shall Reign
Distinctive in Latter-day Saint
belief is our understanding of the
eventual reign of Christ on the
earth. The following verse carries
the same truth expressed in the
Tenth Article of Faith:
Wherefore, be subject to the powers
that be, until he reigns whose right it is
to reign, and subdues all enemies under
his feet (D & C 58:22).
When the Savior returns to the
earth in power, his kingdom will be
established. The inauguration of
his rule will bring all of his enemies
under control. Some of these ene-
mies of God and man are tyranny,
despotism, other evils of Satan, and
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613
for man, the last enemy, death. (I
Cor. 15:26-28.) When the King
of Kings comes, there will be no
other king. (D & C 38:21-22.)
When that glorious day comes,
earth's inhabitants will be governed
by laws which are righteous; free-
dom will then be enjoyed by all.
Latter-day Saints, Law-Abideis
In order that no Latter-day Saint
shall misunderstand his obligation
to the law of the land and the law
of the gospel, the revelation con-
tinues:
Behold, the laws which ye have re-
ceived from my hand are the laws of the
church, and in this light ye shall hold
them forth. Behold, here is wisdom
D & C 58:23).
To Be Commanded in All Things?
The next several verses of Sec-
tion 58 (verses 24-33) ^^^ directed
to Edward Partridge, his counsel-
ors, and Sidney Gilbert (D & C
57:6-9) to attend to their assign-
ments in Missouri. Important in-
struction to these brethren are ( 1 )
that they are not to be commanded
in all things; (2) they must have
initiative; (3) they have power
within themselves to do much good;
and (4) the revocation of com-
mandments by God and loss of
blessings. As we examine these
scriptures it is apparent that the
Lord desires all men to know these
principles because they apply to all.
For behold, it is not meet that I
should command in all things; for he
that is compelled in all things, the same
is a slothful and not a wise servant; where-
fore he receiveth no reward {Ibid.,
58:26).
The underlying principle in this
scripture is that man is a free agent.
In all stages of his endless life, man
exercises his right of choice. Among
the many prophets discoursing on
this aspect of man's life was Lehi.
(2 Nephi 2:16, 26-27.)
Elder James E. Talmage wrote:
The predominant attribute of justice,
recognized as part of the divine nature,
forbids the thought that man should re-
ceive promises of reward for righteousness,
and threats of punishment for evil deeds,
if he possessed no power of independent
action. It is no more a part of God's
plan to compel men to work righteous-
ness than it is His purpose to permit evil
powers to force His children into sin . . .
(Articles of Faith, page 53).
Given his free agency, why should
man be compelled in all things?
Man grows by exercising his right
to solve his own problems. There
would be no growth if man were to
act only as an automaton or robot.
Guidance, however, eliminates waste
of time and energy.
When a person has a position
in the Lord's kingdom, it is expect-
ed that he will use his initiative and
not be told precisely what to do in
all things. Some people do only
the bare minimum required of them
without exercising their talents be-
yond duty. He is a slothful servant
lacking in wisdom who expects to
be compelled in all things.
The good that men do will live
after them. Their righteous pur-
poses will bring a sure reward from
the Father who knows all and will
judge all men by their works. (See
D & C 19:3.)
Power Is Within Men
Verily I say, men should be anxiously
engaged in a good cause, and do many
things of their own free will, and bring
to pass much righteousness;
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For the power is in them, wherein they
are agents unto themselves. And inas-
much as men do good they shall in no-
wise lose their reward.
But he that doeth not anything until
he is commanded, and receiveth a com-
mandment with doubtful heart, and
keepeth it with slothfulness, the same is
damned (D & C 58:27-29).
It is true that men should engage
themselves in causes which con-
tribute to the happiness of their fel-
low men. Only the Church, how-
ever, is committed to programs that
advance man's joy, and is able to
give him happiness in the eternities
to come. At the time this revela-
tion was given, the saints were com-
manded to lay the foundation of
Zion. {Ihid., verses 6-7.) Counsel
regarding this had been given at
the beginning of this dispensation.
If one would seek ''to bring forth
and establish the cause of Zion,"
and seek for wisdom then the mys-
teries of the kingdom would be his
and, if faithful, eternal life. {Ihid.,
6:6-7.)
Diligent service based upon a
true desire to build up the cause
of Zion is accepted by the Lord.
Weak faith or a doubting heart
brings weak effort characterized as
slothful.
Is This the Work of God?
Some people believe that because
blessings are not answered on their
heads, although a try may have been
made at keeping the command-
ments, although not fully and only
half-heartedly, the Lord's promises
are not fulfilled. To such, as well
as to all, the Lord addressed some
questions:
Who am I that made man, saith the
Lord, that will hold him guiltless that
obeys not my commandments?
Who am I, saith the Lord, that have
promised and have not fulfilled?
I command and men obey not; I revoke
and they receive not the blessing.
Then they say in their hearts: This is
not the work of the Lord, for his prom-
ises are not fulfilled. But woe unto such,
for their reward lurketh beneath, and
not from above (D & C 58:30-33).
The important question for every
Latter-day Saint is, ''Am I living
the commandments so faithfully
that the Lord will bless me as I am
entitled to his blessings? On the
other hand, should I complain
against my Maker because of my
own lack of diligence?"
The lesson to be learned by all
is found in this significant com-
ment:
The Saints sometimes fail to do their
duty and to keep the commandments of
God. But they expect Him to make good
to them the promises He has given to
the faithful. If He does not, they com-
plain. They neglect their prayers; they
absent themselves from their meetings;
they break the Word of Wisdom; they
withhold their tithing; but when sickness
comes and falls like a dark, terrifying
shadow across their path, they expect im-
mediate Divine interference in their be-
half, through the administration of the
Elders. If their expectations are not
realized, they say, in a rebellious spirit,
"His promises are not fulfilled." The
reply of the Lord to that is, "Their re-
ward lurketh beneath." They must look
"beneath" for their reward; they have no
claim on heaven [D & C Commentaiy,
page 340).
If the saints have an opportunity
to live a commandment to further
their eternal progression and they
fail, or conditions develop which
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615
do not allow them to keep that
commandment, the law may be re-
voked, or put in abeyance, until
the saints are able to live the com-
mandments. An example is the
law of consecration, studied in an
earlier lesson. (Lesson 28, Relief
Society Magazine, October, i960.)
In ancient Israel, the Lord, through
Moses, sought to give his people
higher laws, but they refused them.
As a result, a lesser law was given,
and thus Israel lost its great oppor-
tunity at that time.
Further Diiections
Concerning Zion
The remainder of this revelation
(58:34-65) deals with specific direc-
tions to some elders and also to the
members of the Church concerning
Zion. Counsel to these individuals
is applicable to all members of the
Church as a warning not to fall into
similar errors.
Questions for Discussion
1. Review the greatness of the New
Jerusalem to come and the expectations
of the Latter-day Saints regarding that
place.
2. Develop a scriptural case for obedi-
ence to the law of the land.
3. Why does not the Lord command
in all things?
4. Discuss: The most important work
in which one can engage is working for
the cause of Zion.
VISITING TEACHER MESSAGES
Truths to Live By From the Doctrine and Covenants
Message 42 — ''He Who Doeth the Works of Righteousness Shall Receive
His Reward'' (D & C 59:23).
Christine H. Robinson
For First Week, November 1962
Objective: To describe specific qualities and works which help to build righteous living.
IN this quotation from The Doc-
trine and Covenants, marvelous
blessings are promised to those who
are righteous. The Lord says that,
**he who doeth the works of
righteousness shall receive his re-
ward, even peace in this world, and
eternal life in the world to come"
(D&C 59:23).
The word righteousness is used
extensively throughout the scrip-
tures and is a word which all of us
feel that we understand. Yet, when
we speak of a person as being
righteous, are we thinking in specific
or in general terms? Do we know
the specific qualities or 'Vorks" of
which righteousness is composed?
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If we seek to do the works of the land, because of the love of
righteousness, how can we develop God which did dwell in the hearts
the qualities which will lead to such of the people. And there were no
works? envyings, nor strifes, nor tumults
A good description of a righteous . . . and surely there could not be a
person is to be found in the Old happier people among all the people
Testament in David's first psalm who had been created by the hand
which states, "Blessed is the man of God . . . And how blessed were
that walketh not in the counsel of they! For the Lord did bless them
the ungodly, nor standeth in the in all their doings'' (4 Nephi 12,
way of sinners, nor sitteth in the 15-16, 18).
seat of the scornful. But his delight No nation and no community is
is in the law of the Lord; and in his any stronger than the righteousness
law doth he meditate day and of the individuals of which it is com-
night" (Psalms 1:1-2). posed. This was true during the
In the New Testament, the two-hundred year period after the
Lord's Sermon on the Mount out- Savior's visit to the American Con-
lines most clearly the specific quali- tinent and it is true today. Another
ties of righteousness. Some of the Nephite prophet said, ''if there be
more important of these are love, no righteousness there be no hap-
meekness, mercy, pureness of heart piness" (2 Nephi 2:13).
and mind, peacemaking, forgiveness, How can we individually do the
tolerance, chastity, faithfulness, con- works of righteousness and thus lay
stancy, prayerfulness, kindness, char- the foundation for happiness and
ity, humility, and benevolence. This peace in our own lives? We can
is a rather inclusive list and one practice a little more kindness. We
which, offhand, might appear over- can show more love and consider-
powering. Nevertheless, we can find ation to our families, friends, and
comfort and assurance in the fact neighbors. We can be tolerant and
that we will be moving toward the charitable and, through prayer, we
desired goal of righteous living if can seek more diligently our Father
we are doing conscientiously all we in heaven's divine will. The prac-
can to practice these virtues in our tice of these and other qualities of
lives. righteousness will bring us more
One of the choice examples peace of mind and more joy of
which shows the effects of righteous living.
living is found in Fourth Nephi in President George Albert Smith
the Book of Mormon. Following stated this basic truth beautifully
the Savior's visit with the Nephite when he said: ''Surely there is noth-
peoples and the establishment of ing men need more than the bless-
his church among them, the people ing of peace and happiness and
lived in righteousness for approxi- hearts free from fear. . . . The
mately 200 years. During this pe- Lord [has] repeated what he has
riod, "... they did walk after the said so many times, the price of
commandments which they had re- peace and happiness is righteous-
ceived from their Lord. . . ." And ness" (Brigham Young University
". . . there was no contention in Address, December 1949)-
WORK MEETING
The Latter-day Saint Home
(A Course Expected to Be Used by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 2 — The Latter-day Saint Home Is Well Organized (Part II)
Dr. Virginia F. Cutler
For Second Meeting, November 1962
Objective: To show that our family vakies are learned by working toward establishing
goals.
T ET US start this discussion by We must know our values before
having our hidden panel* give we set our goals. See how this
a brief review of our Family Values works: if health is important to you,
Test. but you cannot answer "yes" to all
these items about health that are
Questions for the panel: listed on the Family Values Test,
1. What do we mean by Latter-day then these items may become your
Saint family values? goals. Likewise, you will find
2. Why should homemakers measure ot]^er goals as you examine the ten
eir va ues. . . u values on the test. The home man-
3. How can the family values test be a i -i r • n r
starting point for setting family goals? ^ger, while havmg all the ma]Or
4. Give practical ideas about ways in family values in mind, can make a
which family values are learned. priority listing of goals. She will
make progress faster if she concen-
Our Latter-day Saint family val- trates on one goal at a time,
ues are learned; they are not in- She may decide that her family
herited. They become a part of should be healthier and happier, so
each day*s activities and a part of this week she will do her utmost to
the life of each family member, make mealtime the highlight in
They build within us spiritual each day's experience. If she con-
strength, morality, human dignity, centrates on this, she will find that
creativeness, inventiveness, produc- planning meals for the week, shop-
tivity, and satisfying family living, ping for the week, and organizing
Through these values we can be- her work so that much of the prep-
come an example to the rest of the aration is done ahead of time, will
world. free her to freshen up before sitting
*Assigned panel members are seated in the audience rather than as a group around
the table. As the leader asks a question, the assigned "hidden" panel member rises and
comments. Another panel member in another part of the room follows quickly. Non-
panel members may join in after the main points have been considered.
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down to the table, and she will have
some moments to think about pleas-
ant table talk to enrich each meal
experience. Mastering all of these
skills will take more than a week,
perhaps more than a year, but if
she concentrates on them long
enough to work out a system with
all the family co-operating, she will
gradually develop a routine that will
be second nature to her and her
family.
The new goal might grow out of
her need for greater convenience in
preparing meals. One homemaker
found that her cupboards were
filled with gadgets that she seldom
used, and those she used most were
not conveniently located. She put
everything from her kitchen cup-
boards on the back porch. As she
needed an item, she would bring it
in and put it in the place where she
used it. By the end of the week
she still had most of the items on
the back porch! Those that she
had brought in helped her to work
out a more convenient way of stor-
ing everyday equipment, and the
seldom-used items were put away
from the main working area.
She selected some compact work
centers for specific jobs, where the
much-used equipment found its new
home. The sink center was the
place for cleaning vegetables and
other foods, and for washing dishes,
so the cooking tools and equipment
used first at the sink were stored
there. She arranged for more
counter space on each side of the
sink by bringing up an old table
from the basement; she planned for
garbage disposal under the sink;
and provided places for dish-wash-
ing equipment and supplies, and
for all of the foods used at the sink
first. Her dishes were put into the
cupboard at the left of the sink be-
cause she washed them from right
to left. When she had finished
this one job, she had taken an im-
portant step in organizing her home
by having everything at the sink
that was used there first.
Then she started on the cooking
center. Since this is the place
where food is cooked and made
ready for serving, she decided to
store everything used first at the
range in that place. This included
pans, cooking kettles, lids, and serv-
ing dishes and tools. Nearby were
the cereals, noodles, and seasonings.
Her husband helped her with the
third center, for mixing and food
preparation. This is the area where
all foods are prepared for cooking,
chilling, or freezing. She located
this work area between the sink and
the refrigerator and was able to get
three feet of counter space on two
different levels, one for ''stand-up"
work and one for ''sit-down" jobs.
All of the foods, cooking tools, and
equipment used first at this place
were stored there. Baking tins,
casseroles, packaged and canned
foods, as well as mixing tools and
equipment, had a special place.
The simple task of organizing the
kitchen cupboards caused this
homemaker to send for information
about kitchen planning which she
was able to get from the extension
service and the local library. Her
enthusiasm spread to other mem-
bers of her family. They were soon
helping her in getting a smoother
production line for the preparation
of food and in making the kitchen
a more attractive and pleasant place
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in which to work. A space at the
end of the kitchen was provided for
children's play; the walls were paint-
ed and a new light fixture was put
in the ceiling; better ventilation was
provided, the wiring was checked
to make sure that electrical equip-
ment would be safe to use. There
were comfortable working heights
for standing and for sitting, and all
of this started from trying to figure
out where to put the utensils that
are used first at each of the three
major kitchen centers. The results
were a place for everything and
everything could now be easily kept
in its place.
Thoughts foi Discussion
1. Discuss the advantages of an orderly
home.
2. What can be done to organize dresser
drawers and closets? Exhibit some box
dividers and other storage items that will
improve organization.
3. Discuss the advantages of having
duplicate cleaning supplies in different
parts of the house, such as in the bath-
room, kitchen, and laundry area.
4. Give suggestions for storage of
a. towels, soap, and other needed
items in the bathroom.
b. detergents and other items need-
ed in doing the family laundry.
c. children's toys.
LITERATURE America's Literature
The New Birth of Freedom
Lesson 34 — Henry David Thoreau — Individualist
Elder Briant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 471-495).
For Third Meeting, November 1962
Objective: To relive some of Thoreau's words, that we may feel the force of his
integrity and independence.
IT was not until 1890, almost
thirty years after his death, that
Thoreau was truly evaluated in print,
by Henry S. Salt, significantly an
English biographer. Until well in-
to the twentieth century the ma-
jority of his fellow Americans felt
him to be an eccentric troublemak-
er, who, although he had written
some nice nature-pieces, predomi-
nantly made his readers dissatisfied;
therefore he was to be avoided. Al-
though Thoreau's admirers wrote
tributes to his memory, they could
not detach themselves sufficiently
from Victorian complacency and
materialism to realize that while
their beliefs and culture patterns
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A Perry Picture
THOREAU'S HOME, CONCORD, MASSACHUSETTS
were crumbling, Thoreau's stern de-
nunciations of worldly wealth and
group cowardice were gradually be-
ing read by more people everywhere.
Thoreau, Craftsman
Many have been attracted to
Thoreau by his idealism, perhaps
stated the most purely in ''Higher
Laws/' a chapter in WaJden:
Our whole life is startlingly moral.
There is never an instant's truce between
virtue and vice. Goodness is the only
investment that never fails (page 223).
Defining all sensuality as but one
gross appetite yielded to in various
forms, Thoreau likewise defines all
purity as one; thus all forms of pur-
ity are but variants of chastity,
which is
the flowering of man; and what are called
Genius, Heroism, Holiness, and the like,
are but various fruits which succeed it.
Man flows at once to God when the chan-
nel of purity is open. ... If you would
be chaste, you must be temperate. . . .
Nature is hard to be overcome, but she
must be overcome. What avails it that
you are Christian, if you are not purer
than a heathen, if you deny yourself no
more, if you are not more religious? . . .
. . . Every man is the builder of a
temple, called his body, to the god he
worships, after a style purely his own, nor
can he get off by hammering marble in-
stead. We are all sculptors and painters,
and our material is our own flesh and
blood and bones. Any nobleness begins
at once to refine a man's features, any
meanness or sensuality to imbrute them
[Ibid., pp. 224-225) .
Many have gradually come to
esteem Thoreau's contribution to
their own lives, for honestly telling
them the price they must pay if they
are to advance toward their ideals.
He shows them how — first of all in
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his own personal life, then by writ-
ing them his method, by giving them
of himself in an integrity of
thought, deed, and word. The writ-
ing which resulted from this inte-
gration of the author and his
thought produces sentences packed
with power, as exemplified by the
following excerpts from the chap-
ter ''Conclusion'' in Walden.
... If you would learn to speak all
tongues and conform to the customs of
all nations . . . obey the precept of the
old philosopher, and Explore thyself. , . .
If a man does not keep pace with his
companions, perhaps it is because he hears
a different drummer. Let him step to the
music which he hears, however measured
or far away. It is not important that he
should mature as soon as an apple-tree or
an oak. . . .
No face which we can give to a matter
will stead us so well at last as the truth.
This alone wears well. . . . Any truth
is better than make-believe. . . .
Love your life, poor as it is. You may
perhaps have some pleasant, thrilling,
glorious hours, even in a poorhouse. The
setting sun is reflected from the windows
of the almshouse as brightly as from the
rich man's abode. . . . The town's poor
seem to me often to live the most inde-
pendent lives of any. . . . Sell your clothes
and keep your thoughts. God will see
that you do not want society. ... It is
life near the bone where it is sweetest. . . .
Superfluous wealth can buy superfluities
only. Money is not required to buy one
necessary of the soul.
Rather than love, than money, than
fame, give me truth (page 331).
Such meaty prose exemplifies the
uniqueness of genius; these senten-
ces are as individual and as mem-
orable as Thoreau himself. They
are the man. Others through time
have expressed similar ideas, nor has
Thoreau a monopoly on integrity,
rare indeed though it may be. But
it is his sentences which are his
own, embracing and quickening all
with carefully chosen words. Thus
Thoreau attained perennial youth by
creating immortal sentences, mir-
rors of his very self. These he re-
corded in his journals, polishing, re-
ordering, condensing them later into
his lectures and books. And, like
everything else about him, Tho-
reau's theory of composition was un-
compromising and noble; the hard,
muscular sentences which give his
pages their sustained intensity prove
how thoroughly he applied his own
critical principles of how to write.
Some of his statements follow:
1. The one great rule of composition —
and if I were a professor of rhetoric, I
should insist on this — is to speak the
truth. This first, this second, this third:
pebbles in your mouth or not.
2. A sentence should read as if its
author, had he held a plow instead of a
pen, could have drawn a furrow deep and
straight to the end.
3. Good writing is conversation folded
many times thick.
4. It is the height of art that, on first
perusal, plain common sense should ap-
pear; on the second, severe truth; third,
beauty; and having these warrants for its
depth and reality, one may then enjoy
the beauty for evermore.
Even the sentences which state
his theories are themselves "rooted
in fact and experience." They ring
true when dropped on hard ground.
Thoreau's Economics
Although Thoreau had a keen
sense of humor, he never played at
life, which for him was far too seri-
ous an affair to be treated lightly.
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True son of the Puritans that he
was, Thoreau in deep moral earn-
estness felt that the great goal of
mortalitv was to achieve here and
now the greatest joy in living fully
the precious gift of life. And the
best life he considered to be attain-
able only through self-discipline
and education, completely free of
any bondage or self-slavery which
might violate the most precious
freedoms guaranteed to man under
the laws of a most benevolent
Nature.
Thoreau's masterpiece Walden
is one of the most self-conscious
works of literature ever written. In
its first great chapter, ''Economy"
(see text, pages 473-484), Thoreau
makes his position quite clear. He
knew exactly what he was doing,
and the high price he would have
to pay when he pointed out so
bluntly to his money-hungry, ma-
terialistic contemporaries their self-
created slavery to worldly posses-
sions. But while they squandered
their freedom to seek life's highest
goals, Thoreau forcefully exercised
his precious freedom to point out
their sin, aware that freedom never
brings security but opportunity.
And for Thoreau the opportunity
which freedom granted those who
were truly free, was the opportunity
to ''suck the marrow out of life"
and to learn that "life is sweetest
nearest the bone."
He pointed out how man blunts
the finest qualities of his nature
by making himself into a machine
and because men have willfully
turned "luxuries into necessities,"
and have "become the tools of
their tools," their material needs do
not serve them but tyrannize them.
Tn fear of this master they have
become desperate and cowed, "Pub-
lic opinion is a weak tyrant com-
pared with our own private opinion.
What a man thinks of himself, that
it is which determines, or rather
indicates, his fate."
After remarking that he saw
everywhere about him his fellows
repenting of their sins in a thou-
sand remarkable and endless ways,
Thoreau attributed their self-im-
posed slavery to tradition and to
things. He believed that although
"God himself culminates in the
present moment, and will never be
more divine in the lapse of all the
ages," men are so pressed by eco-
nomic need that they cannot detect
his presence, either within them-
selves or in Nature.
As Thoreau looked at man, man
never permits himself time to live,
so desperate, so resigned is he:
Why should we live with such hurry
and waste of life? We are determined
to be starved before we are hungry. Men
say that a stitch in time saves nine, and
so they take a thousand stitches today
to save nine tomorrow. (See text, page
486.)
If we are divine, and the culmina-
tion of God's goodness, "If the
engine whistles, let it whistle till it
is hoarse for its pains. If the bell
rings, why should we run?" In con-
trast Thoreau advised his fellows
to spend their days as deliberately
as does Nature, which he himself
did at Walden Pond. We must
remove or minimize the pressure of
material needs by "lowering the de-
nominator," by keeping our ac-
counts on our thumbnails, by
learning that we must "simplify!
simplify!" Only then will our
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worship of things no longer "cost
more than it comes to." Only then
will we have freed ourselves of
those self-created pressures of ma-
terialism, both individually and
within our groups, which preoc-
cupy our lives and prevent us
from growing in the higher realms
wherein our true potentials lie.
If the doctrine of self-reliance,
about which Emerson wrote so sin-
cerely, was sound, how far could
one carry it? The best way to find
out was to try — to experiment by
eliminating as many non-essentials
as possible. Therefore, Thoreau
built his cabin at Walden Pond
that he might test the validity of
this theory.
Thoreau's Walden exemplifies
the complete correspondence be-
tween word and deed which Emer-
son theorized about but did not
achieve; in its defiance of tradition-
al opinions and values Walden is
self-reliance. Throughout its pages
Thoreau feared no man's, no
group's opinion save his own. In
Thoreau's book the only true
wealth is life, the only luxury worth
coveting is the luxury of integrity.
No American writer has spoken of
integrity as truly as he; consequent-
ly, no words are more American
than his. He began his ''Walden"
experiment on July 4, 1845, which
he said, ''by accident, was on Inde-
pendence Day."
Civil Disobedience
In 1839, when but twenty-two
[years of age, Thoreau wrote in his
i Journal, "Verily, to be brave is the
[beginning of victory." We could
not expect Thoreau to be anything
(but independent throughout his
;life, and so he was. And while his
forward, sometimes tart statements
of his beliefs often brought him in
conflict with some of his contem-
poraries, constantly he had his re-
ward in knowing that he was free;
that never need he doubt whether
he served himself or the opinions
of others whom he might have
cause to fear.
Ten years later, in 1849, he pub-
lished the essay "Resistance to Civil
Government," later retitled "Civil
Disobedience." From this paper
Mohandas Gandhi received his prin-
ciple of passive resistance which he
employed so effectively in India; its
influence has been world wide.
In this important essay, which
represents Thoreau's theory of gov-
ernment, are to be found piercing
questions which are neither easy to
answer nor to ignore, such as those
raised by the following quotations:
Can there not be a government in
which majorities do not virtually decide
right and wrong, but conscience?
Must the citizen ever for a moment,
or in the least degree, resign his con-
science to the legislator? Why has every
man a conscience, then?
It is truly enough said that a corpora-
tion has no conscience; but a corporation
of conscientious men is a corporation with
a conscience.
As Thoreau turned to the world
of nature for the lifespring of his
thought, so thousands of his readers
return to his writings for ideas that
may enrich their own. Some of
his well-remembered observations
follow:
1. As if you could kill time without
injuring eternity.
2. Most of the luxuries and many of
the so-called comforts of life are not
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only not indispensable, but positive hin-
drances to the elevation of mankind.
3. There are a thousand hacking at
branches of evil to one who is striking at
the root.
4. It is a characteristic of wisdom not
to do desperate things.
5. The fate of the country , . . does
not depend on what kind of paper you
drop into the ballot box once a year, but
on what kind of man you drop from
your chamber into the street every morn-
mg.
6. How many a man has dated a new
era in his life from the reading of a book.
7. I never found the companion that
was so companionable as solitude. We are
for the most part more lonely when we
go abroad among men than when we
stay in our chambers. A man thinking
or working is always alone, let him be
where he will.
8. Men will lie on their backs, talking
about the fall of man and never make an
effort to get up.
9. Nothing is so much to be feared as
fear.
10. The mass of men lead lives of quiet
desperation.
11. Our life is frittered away by detail.
, . . Simplify! Simplify!
12. I know of no more encouraging
fact than the unquestionable ability of
man to elevate his life by a conscious
endeavor.
13. Solitude is not measured by the
miles of space which intervene between a
man and his fellows.
Thus, this man of essential kind-
ness has left through his Walden
and other writings, many signposts
toward a philosophy of human hap-
piness. There are digressions into
the flight of geese, the way of riv-
ers, and the sounds of night; but
always a superb blending of nature
with the life of man.
Thoughts ioi Discussion
1. Discuss the relationship between
what Thoreau said and how he said it.
2. What points in Thoreau's economic
theory are outmoded? Which are still
true?
3. Which of his aphorisms appeal most
to you?
Supplication
Catherine B. Bowles
Give me strength to fight life's battle.
Strength to help another's need,
Strength to frustrate all temptation.
And the hungry hearts to feed;
Strength to help the mind refuse
All the dross and keep the gold.
Strength to live each day atoning
That I may live within his fold.
SOCIAL SCIENCE Divine Law and Church Government
The Foundation of Church Government
Lesson 2 — Divine Law and Human Welfare
Elder Ariel S. BaJJif
For Fourth Meeting, November 1962
Objective: To make clear that divine law was made for the benefit and welfare of
God's children.
w
E have discussed in Lesson 1
how, through his Son, God
established divine law on earth by
which man can attain the full pur-
pose of his creation. Revelation
has provided the pattern of human
conduct essential to man's perfec-
tion. The scriptures contain evi-
dence to the effect that every part
of the creation by the Lord was for
the elevation and welfare of human-
ity.
From sacred literature we learn
that God, through his Son, created
everything upon the earth — the
plants of every variety, all things
that live in the water, all life that
lives upon the earth and in the air.
". . . and I, God, saw that all these
things were good" (Moses 2:25).
Then God said to his Only Begot-
ten, "... Let us make man in our
image, after our likeness; and it was
so. . ." (Moses 2:26).
Then God gave ''them" (male
and female) dominion over all of
his creations. ''And I, God, blessed
them, and said unto them: Be fruit-
ful, and multiply, and replenish the
earth, and subdue it, and have do-
minion over the fish of the sea, and
over the fowl of the air, and over
every living thing that moveth upon
the earth" (Moses 2:28).
The creation was accomplished by
divine law and for the benefit of
man. "And out of the ground made
I, the Lord God, to grow every tree,
naturally, that is pleasant to the
sight of man; and man could behold
it . . ." (Moses 3:9). God brought
all living things to Adam to be
named. He placed "them" in the
garden where all the useful and love-
ly products of creation were in
abundance for their use, restricting
only the eating of the fruit of the
tree of knowledge of good and evil,
but even in this allowing them the
privilege of choice. After their de-
cision to eat of the fruit, thus de-
parting from divine counsel, they
were face to face with the great
opportunity to subdue the earth and
to have dominion over it. But con-
quering the earth was not the major
objective of the creation of man.
Conquering himself was his great-
est challenge. This was to be ac-
complished with directions fur-
nished through divine law.
In the Image oi God
It is quite common for us to say
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''the boy is the image of his father" ties of his Priesthood calHngs, he
meaning his physical appearance, can continue his progression toward
When the scripture quotes the Sav- the power of Godhood. The Priest-
ior as saying ''he that hath seen me hood is the power by which worlds
hath seen the Father" our thoughts were and are created, that is, organ-
deal basically with the physical ized and brought into a related
image. But the statement in Gen- order. The Priesthood, therefore, is
esis 1:27, "So God created man in a creative force entrusted to man in
his own image, in the image of God increasing proportions as his prog-
created he him; male and female ress in righteousness increases. (3)
created he them," has a meaning of God is love. Jesus said the first and
far greater significance than the great commandment is to love God,
physical likeness to the Father, "And the second is like unto it,
though this feature is very true. "In Thou shalt love thy neighbour as
the image of God" must surely have thyself. On these two command-
reference, in some degree, to all of ments hang all the law and the
the characteristics and attributes of prophets" (Matt. 22:39-40). We
God the Eternal Father. have also been taught that we can-
Some of God's characteristics and not love God whom we have never
attributes are: (1) God knows all seen if we cannot love our fellow
things concerning his creations. To men with whom we associate daily,
man has been given the power to Love is a most powerful force in the
acquire knowledge, to do reflective universe. It is the only force that
thinking, and, through the processes can bring peace to the world. No
of evaluation and reasoning, make atom or hydrogen bomb is powerful
decisions, choices, and selections in enough to bring peace to mankind,
dealing with the problems of living. Bombs produce fear, hatred, and
Thus, through experience and study, prejudice. Love of God and fellow
man may progress toward "all men is the only means of touching
knowledge." Joseph Smith tells us the hearts of people so they can
that "the mind or the intelligence live together in peace. (4) Still an-
which man possesses is co-equal other divine attribute included, cer-
[co-eternal] with God himself" tainly, "in the image of God" is
{Teachings oi the Prophet Joseph spirituality. It has to do with the
Smith, page 353). Mortal life is to operation of the divine influence in
provide a training ground for the de- the everyday life of an individual,
velopment of this intelligence. The Spirituality is the degree of influence
rules governing this development of the spirit of God that is in the
are the divine revelations God has heart.
given^ (2) God has all power. To ^^^^ ^^.^ ^^.^^ ^^^ ^-^-^^^
man has been delegated the power y^ ^^^
to act m the name of God as his , . i v. j i,
representative on earth. As man tude of the personality and charac-
proves himself worthy, the Priest- ter of God, we may conclude that
hood is conferred upon him. As the image of God referred to in the
he increases in knowledge and per- creation of man includes not only
forms with honor the responsibili- the physical likeness but a potential
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likeness to all of the many attributes
of the Father.
With the possession and the ex-
pression of these attributes, man is
in a favorable position to receive
the divine law. The law itself is
the direction and guidance that the
Father has provided to assist his
children in living the full life
through stimulating them to the
development of their greatest possi-
bilities. Man being the offspring of
Deity, he must surely have the po-
tential of Godhood.
The Plan of Salvation
We have referred to the purpose
of the creation of this world as a
place designed for the blessings of
mankind. We have also seen that
the Creator gave to man, as his
spiritual offspring, godlike attributes
by which he could subdue the world
and have dominion over every living
thing. This was not a chance
arrangement but part of a well-
defined plan.
God's plan for mankind includes
at least three spheres of activity. Of
the first or premortal existence, we
have limited knowledge. But we do
know that God is the Father of our
spirits; that these spirits met in a
great council in heaven and accepted
the Father's plan of action whereby
they could attain a physical body
and have a chance to develop
through the experiences of mortal-
ity. All spirits who have been and
will be privileged to come to this
earth were there.
The second phase of the plan
deals with mortality. The spirit
children receive physical bodies and,
at the same time, forget their ex-
periences of the premortal world.
Without the awareness of the
spiritual experience, man is free to
examine, evaluate, and choose that
which he will do. However, from
the beginning of this earthly activity,
the Lord has made available to man
his divine will. In the Doctrine and
Covenants, Section 88:5-14, we are
informed that Jesus Christ the Son
of God is "the light of truth" and
that this light is in all the creation,
''even the earth upon which you
stand. . . . The light which is in all
things, which giveth life to all
things, which is the law by which
all things are governed, even the
power of God who sitteth upon his
throne, who is in the bosom of
eternity, who is in the midst of all
things" (D & C 88:10, 13).
In Section 130:20-21, it is written
that ''There is a law, irrevocably
decreed in heaven before the founda-
tions of this world, upon which all
blessings are predicated — And
when we obtain any blessing from
God, it is by obedience to that law
upon which it is predicated."
The third phase of the plan deals
with life after mortal death. Here
again, our knowledge is limited.
However, with the manifestations
given to modern prophets, the testi-
mony of the scriptures, and the wit-
ness of the Holy Ghost promised to
the faithful, a life after death is as
certain as the fact that night follows
the day.
Let us look more intimately at the
second phase of the plan. Our pri-
mary interest in these lessons deals
with mortality. We are concerned
with the operation of divine law in
the growth and development of hu-
man beings. In D & C 88:34, we
read "And again, verily I say unto
you, that which is governed by law
is also preserved by law and perfect-
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ed and sanctified by the same." This
is further evidence that the intent
of divine law is for the advancement
and development of human beings.
^^gmning oi the Plan
As has been previously pointed
out, God placed Adam and Eve in
the Garden of Eden. They were
directed to people the earth. They
were also informed that partaking of
the forbidden fruit would make
them subject to death but the choice
was left to them.
Knowing his children and being
fully aware of the force of evil in
the world, the Lord in his wisdom
had made preparation in his plan
for redeeming man from the fall.
Jesus Christ the Son of God, having
power over death through his
Father, had accepted the responsi-
bility of breaking the bands of death
by giving up his own life for the
sins of the world. It is important
to note that it was his choice. He
gave his life. No one took it from
him.
From the very beginning the plan
was made for the welfare of man.
Every detail including the reality of
the resurrection was made to insure
for man the achieving of his ulti-
mate goal — exaltation in the king-
dom of his Father. The divine plan
and its guiding influence expressed
in laws, principles, and organizations
have all been for the uplifting and
stimulation of man to his greatest
potential.
Fiee Agency and Eternal Piogiess
Another of the vital features of
the plan of salvation is the promise
and possibility of eternal progress.
There is no compulsion upon man
to comply with the divine will. If
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man is to progress, he must elect to
do it of his own free will and choice.
Lucifer's plan of forcing man was
rejected because it robbed man of
the chance of growth. Through the
force that Lucifer wanted to exert,
man could not develop in character
or in the use of his intelligence.
Brigham Young said, ''What is
the foundation of the rights of man?
The Lord Almighty has organized
man for the express purpose of be-
coming an independent being like
unto himself, and has given him his
individual agency. Man is made in
the likeness of his Creator, the great
archtype of the human species, who
bestowed upon him the principles
of eternity, planting immortality
within him, and leaving him at
liberty to act in the way that seem-
eth good unto him ... to choose or
refuse for himself . . .'' (Young,
Brigham, Millennial Star, July 5,
1855, Y^^- ^^y page 43)-
Man's progress is related to his
ability to investigate, discover, un-
derstand, and elect to follow truth.
This implies free agency or freedom
of choice. Therefore, his decisions
determine not only his progress here
but the full realization of his exalta-
tion as a child of God.
The Father has consistently ex-
tended his guidance to man,
reminding man of his heritage and
offering the fullness of life with the
maximum of joy and happiness
through obedience to the principles
governing life. Man, however, must
make the initial eflFort. He must
ask ''in faith, nothing wavering"
(James 1:6). He must wage a
constant battle against darkness
(evil) grasping and holding onto
truth and light, "Which light pro-
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physical punishment to deter the
breaking of the law.
On the other hand, God's law
has been revealed to man as a guide
to perfection. God himself is a
resurrected, perfected individual,
having followed the well-defined law
of life that produces such an attain-
ment and he has given man, through
revelation, these same well-defined
laws to direct him to exaltation.
Divine law is very simple and
plain ''adapted to the capacity of
the weak and the weakest of all
saints, Vv^ho are or can be called
saints" (D & C 89:3). To illustrate:
God has given the laws of health
for the development of a healthy
body free from pain and disease. He
has set up the laws of learning as a
discipline for the development of
the mind to the perfection of the
individual. ''It is impossible for a
man to be saved in ignorance"
(D & C 131:6). He has given to
mankind the great law of love which
governs human association and
produces perfection in personalities,
and in all human relations by instill-
ing peace in the hearts of men.
All this can be achieved by
choice, not by force. If one chooses
to disregard the law of God, there
is no physical force used directly
against him as punishment. But the
results of the disobedience on the
individual are inevitable. He "has
as full a measure of capability to vio-
late the laws of health, the require-
ments of nature, and the command-
ments of God in matters both
temporal and spiritual, as he has to
obey all such; in the one case he
brings upon himself the penalties
that belong to the broken law, as in
the other he inherits the specific
blessings and the added freedom
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that attend a law-abiding life.
Obedience to law is the habit of
the free man; the transgressor fears
the law, for he brings upon himself
1^ deprivation and restraint, not be-
^cause of the law, which would have
Bpprotected him in his freedom, but
B because of his antagonism to law''
P — Talmage, James E., Articles oi
Faith, pp. 52-53).
Divine law is light and truth to
mankind. It is the way and the
light to continual progress, the ful-
ness of which can be attained only
by the expression of the eternal
principle of free agency, which is
knowing the truth, the right, the
good, and electing to do it, thus re-
jecting the evil.
References
D & C, Sections 88, 131
Discourses of Brighani Young, Chapters
V, VII, XIX
Talmage, James E.: Articles of Faith,
Chapter 3.
Thoughts foi Discussion
1. What was God's purpose in creating
the earth?
2. In what way is the "conquering of
self" the greatest challenge of the crea-
tion?
3. What does "in the image of Cod"
include?
4. How is divine law designed for
progress?
5. What is the difference between
liberty and license?
6. How is obedience essential to advance-
ment and progress?
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Eva WilJes Wangsgaard
September lingers richly gold and blue,
Insisting on extension of the warm
Sun-smothered mellowness that summer knew,
A shining interim before the storm.
An azure wing limns garlands on the sky,
Idyllic notes give voice to shrub and tree.
Tall, bold chrysanthemums, unhurried, try
To paint a wall in bronze and burgundy.
Still heavy-leafed, the Norway maples hold
A parasol of green for us beneath.
Your hands encompass mine, and all is gold
And crimson, warm as lovers vermilion sheath.
Savor this time of fullness ripening.
Before the fallen leaf,. the south-drawn wing.
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say an orchid to the June issue, with all
the information pertaining to our organ-
ization's growth, previews of lessons for
the coming year, poems, lovely pictures,
recipes, the beautiful cover, the frontis-
piece poem on the Lion House, but love-
liest of all is the tribute to our dear Presi-
dent McKay's lovely wife. Sister Emma
Ray McKay. I think the picture of her
at the age of sixteen is the most beautiful
I have ever seen. Likewise, almost seventy
years later, she is equally as beautiful.
How grateful I am for Sister McKay and
for the Magazine.
— Veatrice Poulson
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How I do enjoy Tht Relief Society
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I turned to the tribute to Sister McKay,
with her picture at age sixteen on the
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I turned the page and there she was —
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love, and understanding radiating from her
face. She is truly a wonderful woman,
and we are proud of her as the companion
of our good, kind, and great President
McKay. I was also interested in the
article "The Blessings of Family Unity,"
by Irene W. Buehner. They must be a
wonderful family.
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Monthly Publication of the Relief Society of
fhe Church of J(
SEPTEMBER 1962
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE Marianne C. Sharp Editor
Vesta P. Crawford Associate Editor Belle S. Spafford General Manager
Erratum: Date for 1962 Relief Society Conference 656
SPECIAL FEATURES
Birthday Congratulations to President David O. McKay 636
Our Redeemer Lives David O. McKay 638
Portrait of Freedom Alberta Huish Christensen 640
FICTION
Please Call Me Timmy Myrtle M. Dean 646
Relief Society — A Must Jeannene J. Nelson 658
Out of the Wilderness — Chapter 3 Shirley Thulin 660
Hand to the Plow — Part V — Westward Once More Ilene H. Kingsbury 678
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 634
Sixty Years Ago 652
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 653
Editorial: "Upon . . . The Parents" Marianne C. Sharp 654
Irene B. Woodford Released from General Board 656
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 683
Birthday Congratulations 712
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Magic of Indoor Gardening Maude W. Howard 666
Baking Day at Home Linnie Fisher Robinson 672
It Is Never Too Early For Making Gifts Clara Laster 674
Mae Martindale Johnson — Organist and Teacher of Music 690
LESSONS FOR DECEMBER
Theology — The Day of Rest and Devotions Roy W. Doxey 691
Map Available for Theology Course 696
Visiting Teacher Messages — "Be of Good Cheer" Christine H. Robinson 697
Work Meeting — The Latter-day Saint Home Is Well Organized (Part III)
Virginia F. Cutler 698
Literature — The Alcott Family Briant S. Jacobs 701
Visual Aid Packet Available for 1962-63 Literature Lessons 708
POETRY
Before the Falling Leaf — Frontispiece Eva Willes Wangsgaard 633
Autumn, Za;a Sabin, 651; The Summit, Mabel Jones Gabbott, 657; The Bird's Song, Belle W.
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Birthday Congratulations to
on his Eighty-Ninth Birthday
At this time in the month of September, Rehef Society women in
all the stakes and missions of the Church extend birthday congratulations
to President David O. McKay. In gratitude, and with thankful hearts
for his blessed years upon the earth, we rejoice that a Prophet of the
Lord lives among us and directs the Church and all its activities and
organizations through the power of revelation.
In these latter days, in a time of multiplied membership in the
Church, we are among those whose hearts are lifted up to know thai?
the voice of President McKay has been heard among the nations an
that thousands in many lands have looked upon his face and have par-
taken of the inspiration of his devoted leadership. From early manhood
and into his late years. President McKay has carried afar the message of
the everlasting gospel and has bridged the continents in witness of the
dispensation of the fulness of times. He has visited every mission of the
Church upon the face of the earth.
It is our prayer that President McKay's stirring words of testimony,
his message of comfort, his witness of the Christ and the everlasting
gospel, may be long upon the earth. May his influence be upon the gen-
erations to come, that thousands, from the shining example of President
McKay, may have their own lives illuminated on the pafliway of eternal
progress.
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'Tor J know that my Redeemer liveth, and that he shall stand at the latter
day upon the earth . . ." (Job 19:25).
LJE who can thus testify of the hving Redeemer has his soul anchored
in eternal truth.
That the spirit of man passes triumphantly through the portals of
death into everlasting life is one of the glorious messages given by Christ,
our Redeemer. To Him this earthly career is but a day and its closing
but the setting of life's sun; death, but a sleep, is followed by a glorious
awakening in the morning of an eternal realm. When Mary and Martha
saw their brother in the dark and silent tomb, Christ saw him still a
living being. This fact He expressed in the two words '\ . . Lazarus
sleepeth. . . ."
If everyone participating in Easter services knew that the crucified
Christ actually rose on the third day from the tomb — that after having
mingled with others in the spirit world. His spirit did again reanimate His
pierced body, and after sojourning among men for the space of forty
days, ascended, a glorified soul, to His Father — what benign peace would
come to souls now troubled with doubt and uncertainty!
While it is true that knowledge of individual immortality does not
depend upon the actuality of the resurrection of Jesus, yet the establish-
ment of the fact that He arose from the grave and communicated with
His disciples would furnish in many ways the strongest support of that
hope.
638
Lives
Piesident David O. McKay
There is no cause to fear death; it is but an incident in hfe. It is as
natural as birth. Why should we fear it? Some fear it because they
think it is the end of life, and life often is the dearest thing we have.
Eternal life is man's greatest blessing.
If only men would "do His will" instead of looking hopelessly at the
dark and gloomy tomb, they would turn their eyes heavenward and know
that ''Christ is risen!"
Christ came to redeem the world from sin. He came with love in
His heart for every individual, with redemption and possibility for regen-
eration for all. By choosing Him as our ideal, we create within ourselves
a desire to be like Him, to have fellowship with Him. We perceive life as
it should be and as it may be.
The chief apostle Peter, the indefatigable Paul, the Prophet Joseph
Smith, and other true followers of the Risen Lord recognized in Him the
Savior of the individual, for did He not say: ". . . This is my work and my
glory — to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man"? (Moses
1:39), not the sacrificing of the individual for the perpetuation of the
socialistic or communistic state.
Members of the Church of Christ are under obligation to make the
sinless Son of Man their ideal. He is the one perfect being who ever
walked the earth; the sublimest example of nobility; Godlike in nature;
perfect in His love; our Redeemer; our Savior; the immaculate Son of our
Eternal Father; the Light, the Life, the Way.
With all my soul I know that death is conquered by Jesus Christ.
Because our Redeemer lives, so shall we!
639
A Poem Sequence *
Alberta Huish Christensen
Member, General Board of Relief Society
Portrait of
Frora
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Dunes
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What can you see, William Bradford,
Looking seaward, looking skyward,
Looking landward from the dunes?
Seaward and misty, are three months of ocean;
Between sky and water, a small ship faced homeward.
Above you, the airborne, is a wedge of geese flying.
Can you see tomorrow's silver wings tying
Continents together and erasing time?
Trace circling orbits of the satellite
Beyond the pull of earth into lunar night?
Back from the beachhead, in from the broken shore.
Your small, transplanted Bible-world
Makes roof against the storm. Though more
Are silent than will speak, thinned
By the sickness to a remnant few.
They look to you for healing; less for the curled
Herb leaf than words to mend their ailing dreams;
Yet puny now seem words — thin syllables of sound
Like washing waves or echoings of wind
Within the harbor's coved and granite seams.
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^This poem sequence received the George
Washinfiton Honor Medal Award hy the Freedom
Foundation at Valley Forge, Pennsylvania,
April 1962.
Freedoixi
How can you vision from that stony ledge
Tomorrow's subtle skill, companioning
The scalpel's thin and severing edge.
Mending the broken cell, the fractured boneP
You cannot pierce the tree-dark wilderness.
Where cities rise, tomorrow, tower-high;
Or see their scholared men intent upon
The search for truth, from layered earth to sky.
Tracing the path of evidence and cause
With slide rule and the searching lens;
Defining fossil and the deuteron.
But, looking Plymouthward, how well you see
That hunger cuts irrelevance away.
And that compassion is a friendly fire;
That memory can rear a sinewed wall
Against the apathy of lost desire.
Oh, looking Plymouthward, how well you see
That faith grows tall to meet adversity.
Need you see more, young Bradford, from the dunes?
Four months after the arrival of the Mayflower, in 1620, William
Bradford, age thirty-one, was elected Governor of Plymouth Colony.
He held the position for approximately thirty years. The survival and
prosperity of the Plymouth Colony were largely due to his great faith
and guidance.
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Philadelpliia Sui
Significaiice and Sound (To/e//erson 171
Do not remember Monticello now.
Or tidelands where Rivanna River flows,
The pale magnolia night, a moon full set
On terraced gardens, cyclamen and rose.
Do not recall the music of her voice,
A meeting of the eyes, a gilded fan —
Remembrances can tear the hour apart,
And you must speak tonight for every man.
You phrase, rephrase, then write, yet write again,
Deep urgencies are crying to be heard . . .
"Created equal . . . self-evident" —
Significance is focused in a word.
Oh, do not dream of Monticello now,
Think only concept, syllable, and sound;
Your phrases will be sun to pierce the dark,
Your words — a treasure- vessel — outward bound:
Thomas Jefferson, a delegate to the Continenta
Congress of 1776. which convened at Philadelphia
Pennsylvania, was assigned the honor of draftint
the Declaration of huiependence. Only duty tc
country could lure him from his beautiful Monticelk
home in Virginia and his beloved wife Marth
Wayles Jefferson.
Q_0I* (Constitutional Convention, 1787)
Prelude
Although unnumbered summers come to leaf
And pass, as winds across the dormant field,
Leaving no imprint on the land, no yield
Of image in the heart, this heirloom sheaf
Of days, from waning May through mid-September,
History has bound against time and ember.
Of Those Who Did Not Sign
These lines are of a patriot three who stood
Upon the edge of greatness; each declined
That immortality time has assigned
To names affixed, for evil or for good.
Conviction, stoutly held, made them reject
The structure they had labored to erect.
Yet here is testament that they would keep
Its basic cornerstone — did keep and use.
And here is witness that they held heart-deep
The sacred, the inherent right to choose.
Of Those Who Signed
These are the signatures of seasoned men,
The war drum silent now, its passion spent ....
Homespun and velvet clothed they came,
Wlio sealed approval with a written name
To \vords engrossed and paragraphed upon
A parchment reservoir of clear intent.
Here compromise, opinion, swift debate.
And all the worded currents of dissent
Have merged, as tributaries to a stream
Merge into even flow. Recall how deep,
How wisely wide the channel of their dream.
How like a lantern hung against the night —
These signatures of freedom, uncoerced;
Like pilot flares of wonder that ignite
The embered hope to flame and flame again;
How like a spring to whitened lips that thirst!
These are the signatures of men who made
The spirit of a people word-articulate;
The yearning hope, the fear, and the intensity
Of their belief, that man in God's design is free.
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Portrait of
Freedom
A Poem Sequence
Alberta Huish Christensen
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They ask of me, for they do not knoNS',
What is this freedom in your new land?
And I say to them:
Freedom it is. where all in my house
Are safe. Men do not take us away, one from
another.
And freedom it is, to speak all things —
What is in the heart and what comes to the mind,
Sometimes they are happy words.
Sometimes questions.
In my new land, I speak all words
To my family, to friends, to all people.
Freedom it is, to speak all things.
Most wonderful it is, the right to believe,
To teach the little ones (nine children I have) .
No one there is to stop me.
Saying, "There is no God."
Freedom it is — the right to believe.
So I say to them, for they do not know.
Freedom it is, that does not build a wall.
Freedom is my country — my new land!
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Do Not Forget (Words for
Today)
Do not forget the nights upon dark water,
The pathless waves of sea;
Do not forget the bravery
Of men seeking uncharted harbors.
Wilderness of mountain and the barrier stream.
Do not forget their dream
To own, to sow. to reap,
And then to sleep
In peace and unafraid.
Recall the winter months at Valley Forge
And men with neither shoes nor food;
Remember one in solemn prayer
Who wept for them —
Who wept for them, in the white wood.
Do not forget how Founding Fathers built
That deep foundation, on a misty reef;
Their shaping of conviction, word by word,
With implements of phrase not used before.
Oh, hold inviolate their firm belief.
Recalling one who framed by taper light
The watchword of a nation, not yet born,
Remember yet another, lean and tall —
A lonely man upon a lonely road —
Anguished, and yearning for the guns to
cease,
Who held the soul enslaved.
Too great a price for peace.
America, my Country.
Do not forget.
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Myrtle M. Dean
ALLIE Stevens — sixth grade —
this information was neatly
printed on a placard and
taped just outside the door of the
room in the Benton school.
Allie was there early to greet her
pupils as they came in. Thirty seats
ran in rows through the room. A
frightening sense of responsibility
swept through her as each child
entered and looked her over. Their
new teacher, a woman, slight of fig-
ure, and an easy mark, probably, was
the judgment many of them were
forming right now, Allie thought.
After a brief greeting and a curious
glance at her, each went to locate
the seat he preferred.
The students who lived far from
the school came in on buses. It was
one of the boys who came with this
group that caused Allie to wonder,
and left her vaguely disturbed. He
came in hesitantly, and glanced
about. She thought the look he
gave her held more than mere
curiosity. He did not search about
for a special seat, but went uncer-
tainly to the back of the room. He
sat heavily in one on the last row.
There was something in the boy's
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face that she could not divine. Was
it mere shyness or heart hunger, or
perhaps the boy had been ill? Some-
thing in his eyes made Allie's heart
turn over in sympathy akin to pain.
Allie had taught school in her
home town for two years be-
fore she was married. David was
on a mission. When he returned
they were married in the temple and
came to live in Benton, David's
home town. Little Cindy had been
born a year later.
Now as Allie saw fathers, driving
fine cars, stop to let their children
out for school, and go on about
their business, her heart gave a
wrench of pain. This morning she
had left Cindy at the kindergarten
for her first day. David would have
been so proud to see her sparkling
eyes as she ran to the teacher. Why
did she have to lose David when
they had only begun their lives to-
gether? she had asked so many
times. She had tried hard to keep
bitterness out of her heart since he
died. When the school board had
asked her to teach, it had seemed a
challenge, and might be a way to
turn her thoughts from her own
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troubles, now that Cindy was in
school. . . .
As Allie called the roll, she made
some mental note on each pupil as
he answered his name. They were
each so different. She wanted to
evaluate them fairly. She must gain
their respect and understanding.
Carol Adams — a blonde girl,
with a child face and grownup man-
ner, she thought.
Evelyn Carroll — a pleasant child,
with dark sparkling eyes, was the
judgment.
Ronald Gardner — a lad who likes
fun more than study, Allie found
herself thinking.
Jimmy Stuart — a show-off, and
maybe a bully.
Allie checked herself hurriedly —
first impressions may count, but I
don't want to draw hasty conclu-
sions, she thought. She continued
on through the roll. Thirty boys
and girls. She came to the name
of the boy on the back row — Timo-
thy Parker — She called his name
and smiled, trying to assure him
that she was a friend. He answered
his name quietly. There was a
slight response to her smile. Again,
that puzzled feeling swept through
her. I must get acquainted with
his mother. This boy seems so dif-
ferent, Allie told herself.
As the days passed, Timothy
nearly always recited well, yet at
times, he sat with a faraway look
and gazed out of a window. Some-
times she called his name twice to
bring his attention back to the class.
Some days she felt that she was
reaching the boy, then he would
fall back on his unresponsive man-
ner. Allie began to feel almost
frustrated with trying to reach him.
npHERE is nothing like having a
pupil reveal himself in telling
of a true experience, Allie told her-
self, a few weeks after school started.
''I would like each of you to write
a composition. The subject is to
be, 'A Trip I have Taken.' Tell of
the things you did, the place you
went, and with whom." Would
Timothy really express himself so
that she might understand him bet-
ter?
''Do you know Timothy well? Do
you live near him?" she asked one
of the boys who rode in on the
same bus as Timothy, from the
south benchland.
'Timothy lives farther out than
I do," John told her. "He lives
with his uncle on a little farm. You
know his father and mother were
killed in a car accident a few years
ago. His little sister, too. Timothy
was with them, but he was only
hurt and got well. His uncle has a
lot of kids of his own," John added.
This revelation left Allie weak
and ashamed that she had not soon-
er tried to learn more of Timothy's
real life. She had just kept probing
from the surface.
"Timothy doesn't talk much. He
won't say anything about his folks.
They say he is a little queer since
the accident," John said.
"John, I hope we will all be kind
and understanding of Timothy. He
is really a bright boy. It is only this
deep shock and his sorrow that
cause him to act differently," Allie
explained.
"Golly, he has had lots of trouble.
He stayed with his grandmother
after his folks died. She was real
old, and she died last year, so that
is why he stays with his uncle
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now." John related these facts with
serious eyes.
Alhe wondered now if she had
made a mistake in asking for a
composition on the subject she had.
A trip, when probably the only trip
Timothy would be able to think of
would be this tragic trip of the acci-
dent. She watched carefully as the
papers were handed in for Timo-
thy's name on one of them. Maybe
he would not write at all.
Her hands trembled as she shuf-
fled through the papers at the end
of the day. Relief filled her as she
saw Timothy Parker at the head of
the neatly written page. ''A Fish-
ing Trip to Hilton River," was the
title.
The class showed interest in the
things their classmates had experi-
enced, as each one read his story.
Allie began with Ronald Gardner.
His was a trip to the circus. Carol
Adams told of a trip to Yellowstone
Park. Jimmy Stuart's trip, as a
teacher might expect from Jimmy,
''A Trip to the Moon." The amuse-
ment the class displayed satisfied his
ego and paid him for his effort.
''Timothy, may we hear of your
trip now?" Allie asked, trying to
keep unusual concern from her
voice.
The boy hesitated briefly, then
moved to the front, and after a
fleeting, fearful glance at his class,
he began his story. ''A Fishing Trip
to Hilton River," he announced.
The boys sat up straighter as he
mentioned fishing. Confidence came
into Timothy's voice more and
more as he heard the chuckles of
his classmates and saw the interest
in their eyes as he read.
Sentence after sentence in the
boy's story revealed to Allie the
closeness and love Timothy had felt
for his father. ''My father was a
good fisherman. Mama fixed us a
nice lunch and sent it along in a
basket. I felt sort of funny at first
when I baited my hook, but I
didn't want Father to think I was
a baby." Timothy's eyes sparkled
as he read: "I felt a hard tug on
my line. Tve got a bite. A real
hard one,' I told Father. 'Don't let
him get away. Hold your line tight,
Timmy.' I reeled fast and here came
in a whopper of a speckled trout.
I hoisted him onto the bank. 'You
are a real good fisherman, Timmy,'
Father said. He always called me
1 immy.
"That is excellent, Timothy,"
Allie said. Tears were close behind
her eyelids and she blinked them
back hurriedly. "My father called
me Timmy," spoke so much of
tenderness and love from this boy's
father. She wanted to call him
Timmy now, but thought, maybe
the boy would want the name held
for only his own to call him.
"I am very pleased with all of your
stories. I feel that I know all of
you better," Alhe told them.
I^ACH afternoon Allie stopped by
the kindergarten to get her little
Cindy and take her home. One
evening they came upon Timothy
as he walked along the street on the
outskirts of town. Allie wondered
that the boy should be there after
school, instead of riding the bus
home as usual. It was several miles
to the South Bench homes. She
saw he had several parcels in his
hands.
"Timothy, oh, Timothy," she
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called out to him. ''Come and ride.
We will drive you home."
The boy turned in surprise and
hesitated a moment. Then, with a
grateful look, he hurried over and
climbed in the seat beside little
Cindy and his teacher.
''Did you miss your bus, Tim-
othy? It is a long walk out to the
bench," Allie said.
"I had to stop at the drugstore
and get some medicine and some
things for my aunt. The baby is
sick, and my uncle doesn't get off
work in time to get to the stores,"
Timothy explained in a tired but
uncomplaining voice.
Allie looked at the boy closely as
he rode beside her. He was a hand-
some lad, with dark brown eyes
which held too much of sadness, his
features made thin by loss of stimu-
lating and happy surroundings to
give him strength of body and spirit.
How David would have loved such
a son, Allie thought.
Cindy seemed delighted by Tim-
othy's company. She chattered
happily, told him about her school,
asked questions. He answered her,
seeming to feel at ease and a smile
was on his lips and a sparkle was in
his eyes.
"Is my Mommy your teacher?'*
Cindy asked him.
"Yes, she is." The way the boy
replied made Allie feel that he was
pleased that she was his teacher.
"Now, Cindy, you mustn't ask
too many questions," Allie told her.
Cindy needs a companion at
home, too, Allie thought. I'm sure
she is lonely. I let myself fall into
a depressed mood too often. I'm not
very good company for her.
As they stopped at the Parker's
house, Allie noted the surroundings.
A small white cottage with peeling
paint. The yard was small and
somewhat cluttered. There was no
adequate place for children to play.
"Cindy, you wait a minute in the
car, dear. I want to help Timothy
in with his parcels," Allie said. "I'd
like to meet your relatives, Timothy.
You have quite a few things to
carry, too, with all your books and
things."
"Thank you for bringing me
home, Mrs. Stevens." The boy's
voice was grateful.
Mrs. Parker came to the door, a
question in her eyes. There was a
small child clinging to her skirts. Mr.
Parker sat in a chair across the
room with a baby in his lap, who
was coughing and crying pitifully.
Two small boys came in from the
kitchen door, scuffling and arguing
over a ball one of them had tucked
in his hands behind him.
Oh, dear, this is no time to try
and call on Timothy's people, Allie
told herself. She hurried to explain
her presence there.
"I'm Timothy's teacher, Mrs.
Parker. I just happened along the
street and saw Timothy walking, so
I drove him home. It is so nice to
be outside these evenings after be-
ing in the schoolroom all day." Allie
didn't want the boy's folks to think
she was censuring them.
"Won't you come in?" Mrs.
Parker invited in a tired voice.
"Timothy has spoken of his teacher.
I hope he is a good boy in school,"
she added.
Timothy hurried on ahead and
into the kitchen to deposit his
things. He wants to evade a report
on his deportment, Allie thought.
She answered promptly, so that he
might hear, "Timothy is a good stu-
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dent, and is always obedient at a large family of small children,
school." Timothy would never be a real part
Allie stepped inside. "I won't sit of that family, nor could he find
down," she said, as Mrs. Parker there the comfort and fulfillment
drew up a chair. ''My little girl is that was necessary to a boy who had
waiting for me in the car. I do met such misfortunes,
hope the baby will soon be well." ''Mommy, I wish I had someone
As she went out she noticed a girl at home to play with me. I wish I
of about ten setting the table in had a brother."
the kitchen. Another small girl For a moment Allie looked at her
came in carrying a little gray kitten child in surprise. She had not
which was trying to squirm from her thought of Cindy being lonely, and
too-tight grasp. That makes six she had tried always to hide her own
children I have seen here. All of loneliness from her.
them are younger than Timothy, "Cindy, I wish. . . ." Allie's words
Allie thought. No wonder their were cut off by a sudden thought,
mother seems so overburdened and It so forcefully pressed upon her
weary. Timothy must feel that he that for a moment she could not
is an added burden. speak. David, oh, David, if you
As Allie went out she saw Tim- were only here to tell me what to
othy peeking through the kitchen do. If you were here, this wild,
doorway. He had changed into crazy idea I am having would be dif-
everyday clothing. The boy would ferent. It would be all right with
probably find home chores to do. you to help, but I am only a woman
He smiled and called to her, with one little girl to care for. But,
"Thank you, teacher, for driving me David, this boy needs someone,
home." Someone to take time to love and
To see a smile on this boy's face help him. Sometimes it did seem
gave her a warmth inside. She re- that David had been so near that
turned his smile, and replied warm- he could help her make decisions,
ly, "Fll see you tomorrow, Tim- "See, Mommy, there is Jeff Daw-
othy." son and the Boy Scouts. They are
"I like Timothy, Mommy. He is on a field trip." Cindy clapped her
a nice boy. He talked to me," hands excitedly as a bevy of quail
Cindy said as they drove home- scurried from the place where Jeff
ward. and about a dozen boys stood
"Timothy is nice, darling. I'm grouped about him. The birds
glad we took him home." scampered across the roadway in
front of their car.
T3ETWEEN brief replies to Cin- Timothy should be with groups
dy's queries, Allie was medita- of boys like those, and with men
tive and silent. Since seeing the like Jeff, Allie thought. He should
condition of the Parkers, she was have time to run through green
more concerned than before over meadows, to hear the singing of
this troubled boy. They wanted to birds, and to climb the hills, and
do their best for Timothy, she knew, fish, and swim and play. It seemed
but they had so many problems with that now the sight of Jeff Dawson
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and these boys had made her know
she must do something for Tim-
othy.
"Cindy, do you think it would be
nice if Timothy came here to hve
with us? He could be like a broth-
er to you/' Allie spoke these words
fearfully. What if the boy would
not wish to come?
''Oh, Mommy, Fd like Timmy."
Intuitively, Cindy had spoken the
name Timmy, just as a sister would
call him.
'pHAT night Allie poured thought-
fully over the words she was
writing. It was a very important
message; important to herself and
to her own child, as well as to
Timothy, and to his people who,
in his dire need, had kindly taken
him in. She must not let this be
a mistake for all of them.
The next day was Saturday. Allie
was full of anxiety. Prayerfully she
went about her morning tasks. She
went to her bedroom alone and
knelt by the side of her bed. ''Heav-
enly Father, if Timothy comes to us,
please make me a wise and good
mother to him. Help him to love
me, as I will love him."
Cindy burst into the room hur-
riedly, calling, "Mommy, Mommy,
here comes Mr. Parker, and Timmy
is with him!''
Allie could hardly breathe with
the mingling of fearfulness and the
happiness she felt as she went to
meet them. Cindy ran ahead of
her and took Timothy by the hand.
As they walked up the path togeth-
er, Timothy was smiling and Cindy
looked up into his face with beam-
ing eyes.
Now Allie knew that her fears
that Timothy would not want to
come were unfounded, and she saw
also in the face of Hyrum Parker a
look of gratefulness, even before she
had talked to him. She knew now
that Timothy's relatives did not
consider her presumptive to make
this request for their nephew. Later,
she could talk with him about legal
adoption.
After Hyrum Parker had bade
Timothy goodbye, she saw him turn
away and brush tears from his eyes.
For only a moment the boy's face
clouded, then he said, "I'll come to
see you often. Uncle Hyrum."
Then, when Hyrum was out of
sight, the boy turned to Allie. The
bright light in his eyes spoke more
than any words could have told her.
He was glad to be here.
"Timothy, we are glad to wel-
come you in our home, and hope
you will be happy." Her eyes were
moist as she spoke to him.
"Won't you please call me Tim-
my?" he asked simply.
"Yes, yes, and we Jove you,
1 immy.
Autumn
Zara Sahin
Thistle and goldenrod are lining the highways.
Tall in the meadow the sunflowers glow,
Spider-web lace mantles bushes and byways. . .
Soon it is time for the coming of snow.
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Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, September 1902
"For the Rights of the \\'omen of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
EDITORIAL: There is so much opportunity given to young people for spiritual
development among the Latter-day Saints, that it would seem comparatively easy to
keep in the channel of truth and the path of righteousness, and yet there are many
temptations to those inclined to be waywa-rd, and therefore a constant warfare must
be waged against sin and evil. Parents, teachers and guardians of the youth of Zion,
and in fact all who stand for the public good and the welfare of the community,
cannot be too diligent in watching, praying and working in season and out of season,
and setting an example worthy of imitation. . . .
MRS. GATES RETURN: Mrs. Susa Y. Gates who went to Copenhagen to
attend the Executive meeting of the International Council, returned home the last
of August. She had a most interesting trip while abroad. In Copenhagen she was the
honored guest at many gatherings. . . . She visited the branches of the Relief Society
there. As the representative of Mrs. Sewall, the president of the International Council,
she was entitled to courtesies from the most distinguished ladies of that august
body. . . . Mrs. Gates read the address of the president (Mrs. Sewall) which occupied
one entire day. , . .
— News Note
SEPTEMBER
On leaf and flower the sunlight lay
After the close of a mild, delightful day —
In softened beauty the landscape showed,
Above the azure, below the green.
And a mystic glory of light between. ...
— Authors Magazine
AN INTERESTING TRIP: President Ann C. Woodbury and Emma J. Morris,
her counselor . . . left August 12 to visit the southwestern [Utah] settlements. . . . We
started out early, this being a hard day's drive, owing to the road being sandy and up
hill. We arrived at Pine Valley in the rain, which was very welcome. . . . The next
morning we held a Relief Society meeting, Sister Ann Snow presiding. We urged
the sisters to store grain, live their religion, feed the poor, clothe the naked and com-
fort the hearts of those that were bowed down. After partaking of Sister Jane Gard-
ner's hospitality, we went to Pinto and met with the Rehef Society in the afternoon. . . .
We had a delightful time. Sister Neil Forsyth entertained us nicely. . . . We went
on to Hebron and met a few sisters. . . . We had a nice meeting and went on to Sister
Mary A. Terry's ranch, where we were kindly cared for. We then went to Clover
Valley and met with the Relief Society. . . .
— Ann C. Woodbury
BATHSHEBA W. SMITH
Live long, dear one, to bless thy sisterhood.
With smile benign, with words and deeds of love. . . .
— Ellis R. Shipp
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^^ ART, Salt Lake City, Utah,
daughter of President George Al-
bert Smith, has been awarded a
bronze plaque for ''outstanding con-
tributions in the field of medical
care." The award was presented in
June at a special meeting of the
Utah Medical Association. Mrs.
Stewart has spent much of her life
as a volunteer worker in public
organizations, having held many
State and National posts with the
National Foundation, and with
other organizations devoted to rais-
ing the standard of medical care.
IV/f ANY mothers find the Chil-
dren's Bureau io6-page booklet
Infant Care very helpful with their
baby problems. Its advice is based
on the experience of doctors, psy-
chologists, nutritionists, nurses, and
parents. Published first in 1914, it
is continuously revised and brouglit
up to date. A copy may be obtained
by sending fifteen cents in coins (no
stamps) to the Superintendent of
Documents, Government Printing
Office, Washington 25, D. C.
JACQUELINE AURIOL, forty-
four years old, and daughter-in-
law of former French president
Vincent Auriol, on June 22 broke
American Jacqueline Cochran's
world speed record for women fliers
over a 100-kilometer closed circuit.
She piloted her French Mirage-3 jet
at about 1,150 miles per hour, flying
almost constantly at twice the
speed of sound. Jacqueline Coch-
ran won the woman's speed record
over a year ago, and in 1953 she be-
came the first woman to break the
sound barrier.
jyjISS HELGARD VOIGT, sev-
enteen years of age and a
member of the Frankfurt Branch of
the Servicemen's District of the
West German Mission, recently be-
came the European champion in the
1962 American Legion Oratorical
Contest. She won over approxi-
mately 290 American high school
student contestants in Europe.
jDRITISH commoner Toni Gardi-
ner, daughter of a colonel
stationed in Jordan, married that
country's King Hussein more than
a year ago, and is now the mother
of infant Prince Abdullah, heir to
the Hashemite throne. She and the
king live most of the time in a
small two-servant farmhouse, ''The
House of Goodness and Love," ten
miles from Amman.
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EDITORIAL
\\
Upon . . . the Parents
//
INTERNAL progression is only
possible through the righteous
exercise of free agency which is
given to every soul in this world.
While repressive laws may limit the
full exercise of free agency, everyone
has the power to choose good or
evil. When a woman marries she
does her part in building a happy
marriage by the choices she makes
in her everyday actions and works.
However, when she and her hus-
band become parents, then their
free agency is not only to be exer-
cised in their own behalf, but must
also be exercised in behalf of their
children, for the responsibility for
their eternal welfare has been
placed by the Lord upon the par-
ents.
A young teacher looked around
her class of attentive, seven-year-old
boys as she finished a lesson, ''And
Joseph Smith saw Heavenly Father
and his Son Jesus Christ." One of
the boys spoke up, ''I don't believe
it." The teacher showed her con-
sternation as did the other boys in
the silence that followed. ''My dad-
dy says it isn't so," the boy con-
cluded.
"Well, Jack," the teacher spoke
firmly, "I know he saw them." "So
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do I," the rest of the class chorused.
"My mama says so and so does my
daddy," many added.
The teacher realized that all the
lessons she had so earnestly given
Jack the past year had been unable
to overcome the false teachings Jack
had received at home. Where truth
had been instilled in the boys, her
well-prepared lessons had strength-
ened them, but she learned that the
words of a teacher, however sincere,
had little power to confute the
words of a child's parents.
Section 68 of the Doctrine and
Covenants instructs parents in Zion
or in any of her organized stakes to
give understanding to their children
when eight years old in "the doc-
trine of repentance, faith in Christ
the Son of the living God, and of
baptism and the gift of the Holy
Ghost by the laying on of the
hands," and "to teach their children
to pray, and to walk uprightly before
the Lord."
This charge cannot be passed on
to anyone else or any organization
by parents. The Lord has placed it
upon the parents.
Because of the diflferent duties
and responsibilities which devolve
upon a father and a mother, it is
RELIEF SOCIETY GENERAL BOARD
Belle S. Spafford, President • Marianne C. Sharp, First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen, Second Counselor • Hulda Parker, Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart
Edith S. Elliott
Florence J. Madsen
Leone G. Layton
Blanche B. Stoddard
Evon W. Peterson
Aleine M. Young
Josie B. Bay
Alberta H. Christensen
Mildred B. Eyring
Charlotte A. Larsen
Edith P. Backman
Winniefred S.
Manwaring
Elna P. Haymond
Annie M. Ellsworth
Mary R. Young
Mary V. Cameron
Alton W. Hunt
Wealtha S. Mendenhall
Pearle M. Olsen
Elsa T. Peterson
Fanny S. Kienitz
Elizabeth B. Winters
LaRue H. Resell
Jennie R. Scott
Alice L. Wilkinson
LaPriel S. Bunker
Irene W. Buehner
Irene C. Lloyd
Hazel S. Cannon
Hazel S. Love
the mother who gives the hourly
training and teachings to the chil-
dren. From the time a young child
prays to his Heavenly Father, a wise
mother explains about him and
compares Heavenly Father's love
and attributes to his earthly father.
From the time a child lisps ''in the
name of Jesus Christ, Amen/' the
wise mother builds her child's faith
in Jesus, the Savior, as the dearly
beloved Son of Heavenly Father.
The use of proper picture books is a
great aid in teaching of the mis-
sion of Jesus. The child also learns
of the principle of repentance as
the mother causes him to feel sorry
for his misdeeds. He is taught of
the blessing of baptism and to real-
ize that after baptism he will be
given the Holy Ghost to lead him
aright and guide him through his
future life.
The constant training opportun-
ity given to a dedicated, loving
mother to nurture each child in the
ways of the Lord, as each new
occasion arises, is one of the most
cogent reasons why a mother re-
mains in the home.
The father, the bearer of the
Priesthood, directs the instruction
of his children and evaluates their
progress. Through his daily atten-
tion and in Family Hours he gives
needed instruction and clears up un-
certainties. Yet even in the ab-
sence of a father, a faithful, devoted
mother can accept the responsibil-
ity laid upon parents by the Lord
and prayerfully bring understanding
to her children on these most vital
matters. Some of the great leaders
of the Church have been children
of widows or ones whose fathers
have not been active Church mem-
bers.
A testimony of the gospel may be
firmly rooted in a child by the time
of his baptism and also the realiza-
tion that at baptism he will have
reached the age of accountability.
Yet in the training of children,
as in all else in the world, free
agency is given to parents. The
child who is faithfully reared as a
Latter-day Saint usually returns to
the fold, even after a period of in-
activity, but a child whose early
doctrinal training is neglected by the
parents may never accept the teach-
ings of the gospel, and the awful
responsibility for his eternal wel-
fare always will remain upon the
heads of the parents, as decreed by
the Lord. -M. C. S.
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Irene B. Woodford Released from General Board
I
T is with a sense of loss that the General Board announces the release
of Irene B. Woodford from the General Board of Relief Society as
of August 15, 1962. Her release is necessitated by her appointment to
the Adult Committee of the Church Co-ordinating Council.
Irene Briggs Woodford was called to the General Board on February
19, 1958. She came to this position with a thorough knowledge of Relief
Society work and a background of gospel study and continuous service in
the Church since her conversion in Canada in 1944.
During her time of service as a member of the General Board, Sister
Woodford has given unstintingly of herself. She has accepted every
assignment willingly and has been meticulous in the performance of each
one. She has served on the theology, social science, poetry, short story,
convention, and mission lesson committees.
Sister Woodford combines the proselyting spirit of a convert with
the seasoning gained from holding responsible Church positions. She
brings to her new and important position both secular and gospel scholar-
ship, coupled with rare judgment and a sweet spirit.
The members of the General Board and Relief Society sisters every-
where extend to her their appreciation and love and best wishes as she
begins her new Church calling.
ERRATUM
THE ANNUAL GENERAL RELIEF SOCIETY
CONFERENCE
'T^HE dates for the Annual General Relief Society Conference,
as announced on page 588 of the Magazine for August 1962,
are in error. The correct dates are October 3 and 4, 1962, with
schedules as follows: The General Session will be held on Wed-
nesday, October 3, from 2 to 4 p.m. in the Tabernacle. It is sug-
gested that Relief Society presidents ask their bishops to announce
in the wards this General Session of the conference to which the
general public is invited. Attendance at the Officers Meeting on
Wednesday morning, October 3, from 10 to 12 in the Taber-
nacle, and the departmental meetings to be held on Thursday
morning and Thursday afternoon, October 4, is limited to stake
board members and mission officers. A reception to which stake
board members and mission officers are invited will be held on
Wednesday evening, October 3, from 7 to 10 in the Relief
Society Building.
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Photograph by Harold M. Lambert
The Summit
Mabel Jones Gahhott
I have reached the summit, and this place
Is good; yet I have come too soon, or so
It seems. I loved the climb; I loved to race
The wind; I loved to flatten new laid snow
With quick and eager step; to mount the rocks
In conquest of the trail ahead, rough,
Perhaps, but always up and new. Walks
Now are smoother. Is it enough?
The coming up held wonder, and the bend
Of wisdom, and surprise, a constant store
Of truth, fresh-cut; and challenges to send
A mind full forward, to a heart's red core.
Why am I so reluctant to descend?
All this I have and more — much more.
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Edief Society -A Must
Jeannene J. Nelson
DRIP, drip, drip. As Melinda
lay in bed, she could hear
the familiar drip of the rain
as it hit the tin air vent on the roof
of their four-room house. Melinda
wondered if it rained every day in
Southern California, or if she and
Les just moved here from Utah in
an unusual year. At any rate, the
rains came down every Tuesday —
Relief Society day. To Melinda,
the week just wasn't right unless
she went to meeting. Relief Society
was a must on her list of events.
Today was a special day — theology
and testimonies. The sisters' testi-
monies established strength for the
whole month.
And now for the six o'clock
news. . . .
''Well, rain or no rain, the clock
radio still goes off, and Les still has
to go to his teaching position at the
engineering college," sighed Melinda
as she jumped out of the cozy warm
bed to catch the alarm before it
went off.
She and Les didn't really need to
set the radio alarm, because four-
month-old Bryan usually awakened
at six. But then, there was always
a chance that he might sleep until
seven, and then everyone would be
off schedule.
Melinda prepared Les' breakfast
of grapefruit, cereal, and milk. As
usual, little blue-eyed Bryan was
wide awake and anxious for his
breakfast.
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With Les off to school and Bryan
back to bed, Melinda leisurely
washed the breakfast dishes.
Another rainy Tuesday, why
does it rain on Relief Society day?
thought Melinda, as she watched
the rain pour down into the already
overflowing street. Because the
rain was coming so fast and hard,
Les had driven to school. He usual-
ly walked on Tuesday.
Melinda's thoughts were inter-
rupted by a radio report: 'Traffic
is congested on Manchester and
LaBrea, due to slick roads caused by
the heavy rain. Motorists are ad-
vised to drive cautiously."
"Guess I best forget about going
today . . ." Melinda mused unhap-
pily.
As she scurried about the living
room straightening the morning
newspaper and setting yesterday's
sewing in order, another news item
came over the radio: "Sixty homes
in South Inglewood have now been
evacuated because of the flooding
waters."
Oh, dear, Melinda said to herself,
these rains are taking control of
everything. We had better stay
home for sure.
As Melinda was making this final
decision, the telephone rang.
"Hello. Oh, Sister Timothy,
how are you this fine rainy morn-
ing?"
Sister Timothy explained that she
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thought the rain had let up some,
and she was going to go to Rehef
Society and take her two httle boys.
"Fd love to go, but it was rain-
ing pretty hard this morning, so
Les drove to school. Oh, no, it's
too far out of your way for you to
come and get us," Melinda pro-
tested.
Sister Timothy said that she
would be over in fifteen minutes.
''Come on, Bryan, weVe got to
hurry. You and your mother are
going to Relief Society — rain or no
rain."
Bryan smiled up at Melinda as if
to say. All right, Mom, it's all up
to you.
''Maybe we should call Daddy
first and tell him we won't leave the
door open for him when he comes
home at noon." Melinda dialed
the college number, and Les was
called to the phone.
"Les, Sister Timothy is going to
stop and take us to Relief Society,
so we won't leave the door open for
you. Do you think it's all right for
us to go?"
As Melinda hung up the phone,
she said to Bryan, "Daddy said to
make our own decision, A big lot
of help he is!" Bryan just contin-
ued to smile up at his mother.
"jV/fELINDA and Bryan were ready
when Sister Timothy pulled
up in her white station wagon just
outside the door. Melinda opened
the door and dashed into the back
seat.
"Did you ever see so much rain?"
Melinda asked.
Sister Timothy replied, "I keep
thinking that it will quit sometime.
I've had the radio on, trying to de-
cide which way we should take to
get to the chapel."
Sister Timothy started out cau-
tiously. The drains weren't taking
the waters off very fast, and the
streets were filling.
"Maybe you should have brought
an extra bottle in case we get
stalled somewhere along the way,"
Sister Timothy remarked.
"Maybe I should have. Well,
we've just got to make it. Relief
Society is a must."
Melinda surveyed the streets as
they progressed. Some of them had
water flowing over the sidewalks.
Maybe she and Bryan should have
stayed home.
"We can't go down Inglewood
Avenue, look at the stalled cars. We
don't want to be among them,"
Melinda said.
"Shh, here's a weather report,"
Sister Timothy said quietly.
"This is a news extra: Cars are
stalled on Arbor Vitea and Ingle-
wood. Motorists are advised to take
other routes. Please drive care-
fully."
"We can still make it down La-
Brea, then," Sister Timothy was
saying, as they drove cautiously
along. Melinda continued to look
down each overflowing street.
After what seemed hours to Me-
linda, she heard Sister Timothy
say, "Here we are, and it only took
us twenty minutes. Looks like the
rains are going to let up, too."
Melinda, Bryan, Sister Timothy,
and her two little boys darted for
the chapel entrance. What a
beautiful spirit dwelt inside. Every
sister was so warm and friendly.
Every effort was worth it — rain or
no rain, they had made it to Relief
Society.
Out of the Wilderness
Chapter 3
Shirley Thulin
Synopsis: Marian Morgan, a widow and
mother of six children, makes plans to
spend the summer at the family mining
claim in Montana, where assessment work
is required to hold the property. After a
long train trip and a hazardous ride up
the mountain, the family arrives at the
cabin in the wilderness.
M
ARIAN ran up the dirt path
to the cabin. Sue's voice
echoed such fright that
Marian momentarily forgot her own
fear of the wilderness. As she
neared, she could hear the children's
excited voices mingled with Sue's
near hysteria.
''What happened? What's the
matter?" Marian hurried inside.
''A bear, Mommy! A bear!" Baby
Jill came running to Marian.
'It was a wildcat," Tommy said,
"a great big wildcat with. . . ."
"Oh, Mother, it was a little old
muskrat," Jim said. "That's the
first time I've seen one so far away
from water."
"Maybe he was lost," said Jed.
"Yes, he was lost," Tommy re-
peated.
Marian felt like sinking in the
nearest chair, her knees were so
weak. She looked at Sue, who was
still standing in a corner with both
palms pressed against her cheeks.
"Sue, everything's all right now,
dear. It's gone."
"He won't come back again. Sue."
Jim was quick to defend his wood
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friends. "They don't like to be
this far away from the water."
"He squeezed outside under that
board." Tommy pointed to the
floor.
"You scared him," Jed said.
"I'll bet you did. Sue," Marian
said. "He'll surely have something
to tell his family about, won't he?"
Sue managed a weak smile and
relaxed. Marian put her arm
around her shoulders. "How about
helping me unpack some of these
things, honey? We had better start
getting something ready to eat."
Jim and the twins brought in
fresh water from the well and fire-
wood from the shed.
"Sure am glad Dad and I cut
plenty of wood last fall," Jim said
as he put an armful in a box behind
the stove.
The rest of the day was spent in
getting things straightened around.
Sue and Marian heated water and
washed all the tin plates, cracked
china, and black pots and pans they
found in the cupboard. Jim got out
the two coal-oil lamps, but there
was no coal oil. There were four
sleeping bags and several blankets on
the bedroom shelves. Sue and
Marian took the dusty bedding into
the yard and shook it well. What
I could do with my automatic wash-
er, thought Marian!
Jill kept close to Marian's heels.
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and Sue seldom went outside the
cabin door, but the four boys were
in their glory. Jim took the twins
and Tommy to see his favorite
haunts, and they gathered wild flow-
ers and small rocks. Marian found a
broom with only half a handle, but
the more she swept, the dustier the
floors seemed.
''We'll have to make the beds as
best we can until we get our other
boxes," Marian told Jim and Sue.
'Tou didn't bring any bedding,
did you?" Jim asked.
''Only some sheets and pillow
cases."
"Sheets and pillow cases ... in a
cabin?" Jim smiled. "Mom, we
don't need sheets. . . ."
But Marian's look told him he
hadn't better tease . . . anyway, he
knew she would find out soon
enough that there were no pillows.
Marian had to admit to herself
that the cabin was quite cozy there
in the dimming eventide. She
looked from one child to the other
and smiled to herself. Sue and Jim
were just finishing up the dishes.
The twins were taking stock of their
treasured rock collection, while
Tommy and Jill looked on admiring-
ly. Marian found herself quite con-
tent, and even a little pleased with
the day's accomplishments.
OUT, as she opened her eyes on
Monday morning, Marian felt
a hundred years old. All the bend-
ing, scrubbing, and trying to clean
what would not come clean, had
tired her. Even though they had
rested on Sunday, the hard bed had
made her flesh tender. She yawned
and stretched, then her gaze fol-
lowed the ray of sunlight from the
small window across the floor to
where it rested in Jill's butter-yellow
hair. Jill and Sue were sound
asleep. They both had smiles play-
ing at the corners of their mouths.
Marian couldn't hear a sound from
the next room where the boys were
bedded down. This mountain air
and the chores must be good for
them, she thought, and she smiled
to herself in spite of her aches and
pains.
The family took turns washing in
the tin basin, then dressed. They ate
heartily the pancakes Marian made
from the packaged mix. And
though there was no milk this morn-
ing, there was plenty of cold, fresh
water and canned fruit.
Marian cooked more pancakes to
leave for the children while she and
Jim went to town. She knew it
would take most of the day to go
back after the supplies.
"Mom, can't we all go?" Sue
was nervous about being left alone
with the children, and Marian was
even more anxious about leaving
her. She almost told Jim to stay,
too, but she knew she would need
him to help her. Somehow, she
just didn't feel equal to hiking all
the way down to the creek and
driving the jeep to town alone.
"Sue, if we take all of you, there
will be no room for our things,"
Marian told her. "We'll hurry as
fast as we can."
"Keep everyone inside the cabin
so you won't get lost," advised Jim.
"And if you get hungry, open cans
of fruit and eat the hot cakes, but
don't try to cook anything. You've
never built a fire before. I'll cook
a good meal when we get back,"
Marian said, and then, more to her-
self than aloud, "maybe I had better
take the baby."
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''No, Mother/' Jim said, ''that owner of the Silver Bear. We came
would slow us down too much." up Saturday afternoon and found
Marian knew he was right, but it the bridge out, so we got right busy
was hard to leave. Finally, after on it."
their family prayer, they said good- "Fm glad to meet you, Mr. Had-
bye and started down the road. Just ley," Marian said, only she wasn't
before they came to the turn Mar- just right sure she meant that. There
ian looked back. She could see five was something about his mouth and
little faces framed in the window- eyes that disturbed her.
pane and her throat squeezed dry. "Why don't you just call me
"They will be all right. Mother," Jake? I was a good friend of your
Jim assured her, and with a prayer husband's. Sure sorry to hear about
in her heart, Marian reluctantly fol- his accident."
lowed Jim down the winding trail. "Thank you. Well, we'd better
get along."
"C^VEN before she and Jim could "You and the boy going to do
see the creek, Marian heard the the assessment work?" Jake stepped
men's voices punctuated by blows in front of them. "That's a big job
of their hammers. for a boy and a woman to take on."
"You hear that, Jim? You don't "I can do it," Jim said. "Dad and
suppose. . . . Oh, it couldn't be I worked together five years. He
that. . . ." told me last year what he was going
"They're fixing the bridge!" Jim to do this spring."
started running now, and so did "Well, fine, boy. Say, why don't
Marian. you let me drive you on to town?
"Fm so glad. I couldn't figure It's quite a long way for a lady to
out how we were going to get our drive a jeep."
things back to the cabin." "Thanks, but I don't think. . . ."
"Come on. Mom, Fll race you to "Mom can manage just fine," Jim
the creek." cut in. "She drove it up here all
Marian stopped as she came right."
around the bend. There were a Jake eyed Jim for a minute and
dozen men working with new wood, then looked at Marian. "Fll be by
As she neared Jim, she heard one the mine in a day or two. There
man say to him, "Oh, so you belong must be something I can do to help
to the jeep. I thought it was Dick you out." He stepped aside, and
Tucker's." Jim and Marian walked across the
"It is. We borrowed it." finished part of the bridge. They
"The jeep's all right, isn't it?" got into the jeep with Jake's eyes
asked Marian, coming up to them, following them.
"Oh, sure. Ma'am. It's all right. "You were rude, Jim," Marian
We just couldn't figure out how it said,
got here." "I'm sorry. Mother, but Fve seen
Marian and Jim told them who him someplace before and I don't
they were and what they were do- like him."
ing there. Then one man stepped "I'm sure he means no harm,
forward and said, "I'm Jake Hadley, dear," and Marian erased him from
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663
her mind, in her eagerness to get
on about their duties.
YiVTHEN Jim and Marian neared
the raihoad station, Jim
yelled, ''Oh, boy, Dick's back from
Elko. There's a station wagon in
front!" And as they stopped, Dick
came out.
"Hello. Dad told me about you.
I'm Dick."
"Hello," Marian said, and she felt
as though she had met an old friend.
"Have they finished the bridge?
Dad said they came for timber Sat-
urday."
"They're nearly finished," Jim
said. "I think by the time we get
back, they will be."
"I don't know how to thank you
for the loan of the jeep," Marian
said.
"Then don't try." Dick smiled.
"I was sorry I wasn't here to drive
you.
They went into the station and
began to load their things in the
station wagon. It didn't take them
long, and after a trip to the store
in town, they were ready to start
back up the canyon.
Marian's thoughts were miles
ahead of the car. It seemed to be
going much too slowly. She was
increasingly anxious to get back to
Sue and the children. When they
got to the bridge, the men were still
working. Marian's heart sank. What
if it isn't finished enough for a car
to go over? she thought, or what
if. . . .
"Hi." Jake came over to them.
"Well, we got the bridge about
done. Just the handrail left. Hello,
Dick."
"Hello, Jake. Looks like a good
job. Not a bit too soon, either,
look at the clouds overhead."
Marian looked. She had been so
worried about getting back to the
cabin she hadn't noticed them —
black and threatening.
"Yes," Jake was saying, "looks
like we'll be in for a good one."
A/TARIAN'S mind raced to the
children just as the first flash
of lightning split the air and made
a path for the downpour of rain.
The men ran for cover, and Dick
started the car and drove it across
the bridge.
The raindrops were bigger than
any Marian had ever remembered,
and the sky was dark. Sue will be
petrified, Marian thought, and she
leaned forward, as though that
would help the car along the muddy
road. Oh, why did I leave them?
I should have at least let Jim stay,
too. He would have known what to
do to comfort them. What if they
became frightened and tried to
come after us? What if some kind
of an animal tried to get in the
cabin out of the rain? In the short
mile from the creek, Marian had a
thousand nightmares. Then as
they rounded the bend, the night-
mare became reality, for as the head-
lights picked out the cabin, they
could see black clouds of smoke
billowing skyward. Even in the
semi-darkness, they could see the
smoke come rolling out from the
space beneath the door, and from
the cracks around the windows.
"The cabin. . . . It's on fire!"
Marian hardly waited for the car to
stop before she was out and run-
ning up the path.
"Mother, come back!" Jim yelled.
Dick and Jim got out of the car
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and ran past her. Just as they
reached the door, it opened and the
children came out, coughing and
rubbing their eyes.
''Oh, Sue, what in the world?"
Marian began. . . .
"We tried to build a fire to. . . .''
Jim grabbed a bucket and headed
for the well.
''How can we put the fire out?
The cabin will burn to the ground!"
Marian's voice was asking . . . plead-
ing-
"The cabin's not on fire," Sue
told her.
"It's just the stove," said Jed.
"It's just smoking," Ted added.
"My eyes hurt," Tommy cried.
"The cabin's not on fire?"
"No, the stove is just smoking,"
Jed repeated.
"The damper," said Dick, "I'll
bet they forgot about the damper."
He went inside, and Marian gath-
ered the five children close to her.
"Oh, Sue, I told you not to build
a fire."
"You said not to cook anything/'
corrected Sue.
"And we didn't," said Ted.
"We had to dry out the blank-
ets," explained Jed.
"Yes, they're all wet/' said Tom-
my.
Marian felt a little bewildered.
She didn't quite grasp what was go-
ing on. "How did the blankets get
wet?"
"It's raining," said Jill
"Even in the cabin," said Tommy.
D
iICK came back. "It was the
damper. See, the smoke's go-
ing out the chimney now."
Jim came in with the bucket of
water. Marian couldn't help but
smile, he looked so funny carrying a
little bucket of water to put out a
fire.
"We don't need that, honey. It
was only the damper."
"Mommy, what's a damper?" Jill
wanted to know.
"Come inside and I'll show you.
Then I'll cook something to eat."
"All the pans are on the floor,"
Jed said.
"I'm hungry," said Jill.
"The beds are wet, too," Tommy
told Marian.
"Oh, dear . . ." Marian groaned.
"We didn't notice at first," said
Sue, "but as soon as we did, we put
pans around to catch the rain."
"And we hung the blankets over
the chairs," Ted said.
"Then we built a fire to dry
them," explained Jed.
"What's the matter. Mom?" Jim
asked, coming in with a big box
from the car.
"Oh, everything's drenched! Just
look! It will take days to dry things
out."
"Dad and I tried to put the tar
paper on the roof before we left last
fall, but we didn't get a chance to."
Jim's voice faltered just a little, and
Marian knew he was missing his
father.
"Roof leaking?" asked Dick, com-
ing in.
"Yes," said Marian. "I'mx sure
glad Mr. Hadley is coming over in
a few days. I'll ask him to put the
tar paper on for us."
"No, Mom. I can do it." Jim was
emphatic.
"But he offered, and it really is a
man's job. . . ."
"Jim's right, Mrs. Morgan. If he
can do it, it would be better. That
Jake Hadley's a no-good character.
I would come up and help you my-
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665
self, but I'm behind with my spring
planting."
''Jake will be over in a day or
two."
"I know, but he's not one to offer
to do anything without strings at-
tached. If he made an offer to help
you, you can bet there's something
behind it."
The rain stopped, and the sun
was making an attempt to brighten
things up before it went behind the
mountains. Marian's thoughts were
still dampened, though. She hated
the cabin more than ever. She
looked around her. Dick and her
family were chatting and eating, but
she could not join in. She kept
turning the wet bedding and think-
ing about the dismal cabin and
about Jake Hadley. Her first im-
pression of him was right, she knew,
but she didn't know why it would
hurt to let him help if he wanted
to.
She thought of Charles. He had
said she needed someone. She knew
she did, even if it were only to help
fix the roof. But she remembered
Jake's eyes and knew he wasn't the
one to turn to. What could he
want, Marian wondered? How
could he harm me? Then she
finally told herself that he was just
trying to be nice. I'm sure he won't
even come around, she said to her-
self.
But she was wrong. The very next
morning, as she looked up from the
well, she saw him coming towards
her. Her throat felt suddenly dry,
and she almost dropped the bucket.
''Howdy, Mrs. Morgan," Jake
Hadley said. "Here, let me carry
in that water for you."
{To he continued)
The Bird's Song
Belie W. Anderson
I chose a lovely, summer rose,
To place within my verse,
Although I worked with earnest care,
My lines were harsh, perverse.
I knew the thrill of sunset's glow.
In radiance-sublime.
The colors would not blend or flow.
The pulse was out of time.
I listened to a singing bird.
And in its sweet refrain,
I caught the fragrance of a rose.
The sunset's coral flame.
MAGIC
F ihlDOOR GARDE
Maude W. Ho
INDOOR gg^ening jy^an excit-
ing amMewarding-^obby. Few
acoeiits contribute so much to
tjienatural chafrm of the home as
well-grow^/^nd well-placed green
plants.^
Plants create magic and augment
scanty furnishings with their luxuri-
ous growth. They provide unsur-
passed decoration for any place in a
room, any period of furnishings, and
any type of architecture. With the
colorful flowering varieties, the ex-
otic tropical types, and the familiar
favorites, the choice of plants to
furnish a home is unlimited.
Green foliage plants and planters
not only add living beauty to a
home, they are an integral part of a
room's decor. Planters made of a
variety of plants complement the
architecture and furnishings. They
should be chosen to suit the mood
of a room as well as for suitable
size, form, and color.
r-
Windows of all kinds \- bay,
ture, small panel, colonial^ and
everyday standard window with a'
radiator beneath, are enhanced by
green foliage plants. \ '' ''
Place your plants with a definite
purpose. More and more decorators
are using green plants and planters
as important decorative elements in
furnishing a room. They choose big
plants to punctuate a focal point or
camouflage an architectural defect.
To do this, they plan the placement
of plants as carefully as furniture and
accessories. They select plants in
proper scale to the room and loca-
tion within the room. They group
them impressively to gain a dramatic
effect that is utterly impossible when
single plants are scattered about in
a helter-skelter fashion.
Wh it is new today in green plants
is the exciting varieties available.
There are tall towering plants, as
well as low compact ones. There
are leaves that are large^ small,
smooth, crinkled, and in various
shades of green.
Allow spaces for planters, keeping
in mind the new 'Tretwork Look"
in plastic and cement that forms a
beautiful background. Often the
curious corners or unused nooks in a
room can be used for planting areas
and bring interest into the room.
Depending on the size and the
style of the particular room, its
color, the space available, you will
consider whether you want to mass
a number of plants in one impres-
sive strategic location that makes it
a focus of interest.
Think, too, in terms of scale, a
big expanse of plain wall demands a
plant or a group of plants of gen-
erous dimensions. But, if you have
a small area to decorate, chose one
of harmonious proportions. Often
we can reinforce our green planters
or planting areas with colorful
blooming plants, such as a chrysan-
themum or a group of chrysanthe-
mum plants — red tulips in the
spring of the year or Easter lilies
around Easter time and Poinsettia
plants around Christmas time. We
must always keep in mind color har-
mony — blending or co-ordinating
with walls, draperies, rugs, and other
accessories.
'T^HE mass effect of a handsome
group of plants satisfies a uni-
versal love of the spectacular. Any
one plant in the group may ^^
be attractive in its own right, ^Jj
though it is possible it can ^Uf
be overlooked alone. But put several
together in the right setting, and you
just can't ignore their presence.
We should alv^ays choose con-
trasts of color, textures, and form in
our green mass planting areas —
unless we are trying to achieve a
more formal look Then it is better
to use one type, one shade, and one
variety of plant.
Plants can be part of a room
divider where they are part of a sub-
stitute wall that separates space.
A floor-level planter acts as a good
room divider and can be built very
easily, keeping in mind that it must
have a metal liner. Here, again,
use larger and huskier
plants, such as Sansevierias,
dendrons, and rubber plants.
A series of open shelves in simple
bookcase style may carry a collection
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of ivies and African violets, remem-
bering if all the light comes from
one side, plants must be turned
regularly, so their growth will be
even.
Philodendron poles and Dieffen-
bachia in a brick planter which is
an extension of a fireplace wall,
soften the lines and will improve
the effect of a room divider.
Many architects very often include
sunken floor areas in their blue-
prints, knowing the charm which in-
door gardens add to a spacious room.
Many beautiful occasional tables
have built-in planters, and the va-
riety of circular, tiered, and hanging
planters is endless.
The bird-cage planter, with grace-
ful trailers of ivy, is a smart accent
note for any room. A tiered wire
planter has a trick to offer in plant-
ing and is an eye-catcher. It can
hang gracefully from a beam, caus-
ing much excitement and interest.
Exposed windows are a wonderful
place for planting areas. Ivies and
Philodendrons on sills or makeshift
shelving or, again, the large pot of
ivy hanging from the ceiling to eye
level is a dramatic note, or three
different pots of ivy hanging at dif-
ferent elevations create interest. In-
door gardens of ivies, Philodendrons,
Dieffenbachia, Chinese evergreen,
and watermelon pepperonia can be
placed together attractively in one
area.
green
Phil(
PLANTERS of various kinds di-
vide kitchen and living areas in
many of our ranch style homes.
The brick walls and massive fire-
places of some contemporary homes
are softened with massed green
plantings and trailing ivies and vines.
THE MAGIC OF INDOOR GARDENING
Houses built on an ''open plan,"
often include planters — dividers —
as a basic design element. We must
keep in mind always, though, that
because these plants have such
prominence, care must be given to
develop healthy, glossy plants.
Today the use of bamboo curtains
is popular and can be exotic with the
use of greenery, such as a giant
scheflFlera or a Philodendron.
The ceiling-to-floor pole that
holds pots of greenery lends itself
well for a ''look through" room di-
vider or an excellent corner inter-
est.
We should remember that small
plants look better on smaller tables
and in small areas and large ones are
more appropriate in more spacious
areas.
Pothos and variegated pepperonia
are interesting to look down into
placed in a low tripod with a pot-
belly container.
If your planter has no bottom
drainage hole, be sure to put in a
good layer of pebbles or broken
crockery before you set plants in
place. This allows good area circu-
lation and drainage.
Referring back to the reinforce-
ments of blooming plants in green
planting areas, if you like the dra-
matic emphasis that a living plant in
bloom gives to a decorating scheme,
plan ahead for it. You can buy
beautiful seasonal plants from your
florist, always choosing plants in
bud, so that you will have the pleas-
ure of watching them swell and
open. Remember always that a
blooming plant requires more mois-
ture.
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A FRICAN violet groupings are
worth a try and can be planted
in a wire basket lined in moisture-
holding moss. The wire basket
always should be set on a ceramic
tray to hold moisture and prevent
table staining. A group of African
violets of one color is most strik-
ing. This is a beautiful way to
display all those extra young plants
that are so easy to grow from leaves.
Choose dish gardens of assorted
green- plants when the room area is
small and doesn't afford larger
planting facilities. These can be
planted in attractive copper, brass,
or ceramic bowls. These dish gar-
dens are long lasting and lush and
instant room decorators!
Well-placed plants and flowers
always contribute greatly to the
natural charm and distinction of a
home. But we cannot suggest too
strongly that September is the time
to select most of your green plants
for the winter months. Coming as
they do from moist and humid
greenhouses, plants need to become
accustomed gradually to the atmos-
pheric changes which occur in the
average home as winter nears and
home heating increases. So, as we
prepare for the fall months, we
should make our homes most enjoy-
able and cheerful with beautiful
plants.
To hold their proper place in
decoration, plants must be healthy
and beautiful. Too often we hear,
''I don't know what happens to all
my plants. I water them regularly."
The secret is that plants need more
than water, and different plants re-
quire varying amounts of water at
different times. Too much water
can be more harmful than too little.
Plants need fresh air, but require
protection from chilling drafts. They
need light, extra food for the soil,
moisture in the air, and regular
baths. Most plants need a weekly
bath. Often it is well to cover the
soil with a metallic paper to prevent 1
oversoaking, then turn plants on {
side while giving them a fine mist ]
spray. They also need to be kept !
free of insects and pests, and there j
are many indoor plant sprays avail- i
able on the market. j
Some plants yearn for hours of i
sunshine, while other plants want ]
light, but not direct sun. In many \
homes we can see where plants grow !
toward fluorescent lighting, and ■
sometimes under the presence of an \
infrared light. So we see plants I
thrive under properly controlled |
natural and artificial heat. |
1
A/fOST plants abhor dry heat and ':
every effort should be made to j
give plants the best circulation of |
air and the right amount of mois- j
ture and water. Each plant's needs |
should be carefully considered be- |
fore giving it a place to live indoors. '
An important point to remember j
about watering is that it should be !
done regularly. A plant is just as j
sensitive to the timing for a drink j
of water as an animal, bird, or even i
a human being. When it is watered |
one day and forgotten the next two ]
or three days or even a week, im- ,
mediately its beauty and growth are
destroyed. The beauty and vigor
have been taken out of the leaves of
the plant.
Generally speaking, watering
should be somewhat reduced during
the winter months from October to
March. In the winter months let
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671
the water stand until the chill is out
of it before giving it to the plants.
The challenge of keeping plants
beautiful becomes an exciting one
and success brings the reward of
beauty.
Smooth-leafed plants need all sur-
faces cleansed and refreshed with a
damp cloth at least once a month.
Never use oil to make leaves glisten,
for oil prevents foliage from breath-
ing.
The soil needs extra food from
time to time, at least once a month.
Always read and follow directions on
the various commercial fertilizers.
It might be well to check with your
florist regarding this matter of how
much and how often to use. Fer-
tilizers can be obtained in liquid,
powder, and pill form, however,
liquid food has been found to reach
the root system quicker and pro-
duces outstanding results. It is well
to water plants before applying
fertihzer.
It is necessary to have a rich mix-
ture of soil, using a heavy field base
mixed with some loam and sharp
sand, about one quarter sand. You
may make your own soil mixture or
buy it commercially prepared, just
be sure it is moist when using, not
dry, not wet. Tender roots suffer
least damage in moist soil. A good
hint is to keep a little bit of good
soil from the garden in a plastic
bag to have on hand when added
soil is needed for the planting area.
In planting large areas it is better
to leave plants in their pots, then
individual watering can be given
them according to their needs. Re-
member, good drainage prevents the
earth in the pot from becoming
moldy or sour.
To all who delight in the daily
presence of green and growing plants
and indoor gardening, remember
that it is never out of season and
helps to keep memories of spring
and summer alive — no matter what
the calendar may say or how the
cold winds blow.
Add pleasure to your daily life by
enjoying an ''Indoor Garden."
Baking Day At Home
Whole-Wheat Rolls
Linnie F. Robinson
2 envelopes yeast powder
2 c. whole-wheat flour
1 c. slightly warm water
7 c. white flour
2 tbsp. sugar
4 tsp. baking powder
1 cooked, mashed, medium-sized potato
4 tsp. salt
2 c. milk
2 c. slightly warm water
Vi squares butter or shortening
2 eggs, beaten
1 c. sugar
Dissolve yeast powder and 2 tbsp. sugar in one cup slightly warm water. When
active, add the mashed potato. Scald the milk, add butter and one cup of sugar and
set aside to cool. Combine flour, baking powder, and salt. When the milk mixture
is cool, stir in the yeast mixture and the beaten eggs, and add enough flour to make
a batter. Let rise until light.
For mixing the dough, a plastic pan and a wooden spoon will facilitate the pro-
cess. Add alternately the two cups of slightly warm water and the remainder of the
flour mixture, stirring well and folding in the flour. If the dough seems too sticky,
push it to one side of the pan with the mixing spoon and add some of the water to
the bottom of the pan. If it is desired to knead the dough with the hands, wetting the
hands in some of the water will make the mixing easier. A soft dough will make the
lightest rolls and bread.
After the dough is mixed, cover it and let rise at kitchen temperature. When
dough is double in bulk, mix it down and let it rise again. Then scrape dough out of
mixing bowl onto a floured board and roll out to desired thickness. Cut into circles
with a glass or can. Dip circles in melted shortening and fold together, pinching the
edges. Bake at 350° for 20 minutes. ]
This recipe makes about 75 rolls, depending on the size. ^
Raisin Buns ?
ii
s
1 medium-sized cooked, mashed potato 2 c. milk ^
1 c. water 1 Yz squares butter or shortening
2 envelopes yeast powder 1 Yi c. sugar i/-
2 tbsp. sugar 3 Yz tsp. salt "^
2 eggs, beaten 4 tsp. baking powder ^j
1 c. raisins cooked plump
Use same mixing method as for whole-wheat rolls. This recipe makes good cinna- ;
man rolls and orange rolls. j
(This recipe also makes good white rolls by decreasing the sugar to one cup and
leaving out the raisins.) ^
\j\.\ji ic;o
2 c. flour Yz c. shortening
4 tsp. baking powder 5 tbsp. light cream or evaporated milk
Yz tsp. salt 2 eggs (reserve some white)
3 tbsp. sugar
Stir flour, baking powder, salt, and sugar together. Cut or beat eggs into shorten-
ing. Add light cream and mix with flour mixture. Roll out on floured board lightly
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and cut in about 3" squares. Then cut the squares into triangles. Brush with a bit
of egg white saved from the eggs. Sprinkle with sugar and bake at 400° oven for
about 10 minutes. Serve immediately.
Orange Filling for Rolls
6 medium-size oranges cut in pieces 1 c. granulated sugar
2 tsp. grated orange rind 3 or 4 tbsp. soft butter
Peel and cut oranges and combine with grated rind and sugar. Cook until a heavy
syrup forms. Roll out dough and spread with melted butter and with the orange mixture
which has been cooled. Roll up like a cinnamon roll and slice. Bake at 400° about
20 minutes. Makes filling for about 30 to 40 rolls, depending on how thick you
spread it.
Cinnamon Roll Filling
2 tsp. cinnamon Vz c. softened butter
% c. brown sugar 1 c. seeded raisins cooked plump
Roll out dough on board and spread with softened butter. Then sprinkle with
brown sugar, cinnamon, and raisins. Roll up and slice Yi inch thick. Let the rolls
double their bulk and bake at 400° for about 12 to 15 minutes.
Both of the above rolls are better when iced. I also ice the plain raisin rolls.
End of Summer
Agnes Just Reid
I called the roll in my garden
This bright September day.
Most everyone was present,
Flaunting his colors gay.
Golden glow, dahlia, pansy,
"Mum," Delphinium, ''glad,"
Morning glory, petunia,
The best we had ever had.
Alyssum, low and thrifty,
Poppies so bright, so gold,
African daisies, roses
Blooming in spite of the cold.
I gave them a hearty greeting.
But my throat was strangely dry,
I hope they didn't know it —
But I also said goodbye.
It is never
too early for
making gifts
Clara Laster
Any season is gift-making time, and the wise and provident home-
maker considers the convenience and joy which come to her and to her
loved ones when appropriate gifts are on hand for birthdays, Christmas,
and other special occasions. Have you ever stopped to think how many
gifts and home decorations you can actually make with very little expense?
You do not need an idea so fresh and original that no one else has ever
heard of it. Use a basic idea and add unique touches, making the details
of color and trimming a little different. Soon you will see how a pattern
can be changed to become your original handiwork. Here are some sug-
gestions for attractive and lovable gifts for children.
Finger Puppets
Puppets are for sale in many shops, but not like the ones I shall instruct you to
make. Here personal touches are added to a basic idea, and we come up with some-
thing the children will love.
To make them you will need baby socks, felt, cotton, sequins, upholstery fringe,
yarn, needle, and thread. You need only two basic head patterns to make the following
finger puppets. The round head makes a rabbit, clown, Santa Claus, snow man, and
as many more as you can think up.
The profile head makes a dog, donkey, sheep, and many more animals, just by
changing the ears. Look in children's color books for ideas, also ear patterns.
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Rabbit Finger Puppet
I shall tell you in detail how to make a rabbit finger puppet, and you can use
this pattern to make all of them, remembering that each one is made by changing
ears and adding bits of material here and there.
First, take a white baby sock and cut off the foot part. The leg part left should
now be cut right down the middle, lengthwise. One sock will make two finger
puppets. Turn it wrong side out and sew up on the machine, sewing the top together,
also. Now, turn it right side out and place finger inside, making sure it fits snug.
Take the head pattern and place on pink felt. Cut two pieces. Cut two ears
from pink felt also. When these are ready, sew head together, placing ears in at
bottom of ear pattern, to a position on top of puppet head. Do not turn. Leave
neck of head open, for it fits down on top of sock. Now, stuff head with cotton,
and place head on sock which you should have on your finger. With needle and
thread stitch head to sock, turning it on your finger.
At this point you can make only a rabbit form puppet, because of stitched in
ears. Use two sequins for the eyes; for the nose and whiskers, use two tiny pieces of
yarn and sequin beads. For the bushy tail, use a pink ball from the upholstery fringe
and place where finger bends.
The little arms are made out of pink felt and stitched into position on sides.
The puppet will look more like a rabbit if a bow of ribbon is tied around neckline for
a bow tie.
RABBIT
EAR
( POPPET )
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Christmas Clown
Use the foot of a white sock, cutting the heel part off. Stuff the entire foot with
cotton. Now, take a piece of yarn and tie tightly around the sock, allowing more for
the body part than you do for the head. You will find the head part is round as it
should be. With needle and thread, sew sock together at place where you cut off
heel. This is where the feet of your doll will go.
Take the foot pattern and place on green felt. Cut two pieces and sew them
together on machine. Now, secure these feet to bottom of doll by tacking carefully.
The clown's cap is made from a corner of a square piece of felt. The tassel is red
and this is a small ball from upholstery fringe. Use a ruffle of red net for cap brim.
With needle and thread, secure to head of doll. Use a larger ruffle of net around
throat of doll, and three balls from red fringe down the front. The clown's face is
decorated with small pieces of felt and sequins. These dolls have no arms.
Novelty Dolls
To make them you will need men's socks, large and small sequins, small squares
of felt, yam, and upholstery fringe. You will need bits of net for decorating the clown.
There are dozens of clever ideas for making these dolls. Some of them are cute with
words stitched on saying different things. One might say, "Love me," .another might
say, "I'm sweet." These letters are cut out of felt and stitched on with sequin beads.
You might make "Merry Christmas" dolls and let them sit about your living
room to add that novelty touch when decorating the home for Christmas.
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Santa Claus Doll
To make a Santa Claus, use red socks and pink felt head. The cap is made of
red felt with a white ball from upholstery fringe for tassel. Place white strip of felt
around bottom of cap. The whiskers are made of cotton or white felt. Sequins are
used for eves; beads are used for the mouth.
Novelty Horse
Enlarge the pattern as needed, for horses of various sizes. The horse might stand
about seven inches high at top of head; thd length might be about nine inches for this
height. These are easy to make and are good for quick sales at the Church bazaar.
They are made out of felt, sewed on the machine, but not turned.
To make them you should cut two large pieces and two smaller pieces. The smaller
pattern is the lower part of the pony. First, sew the pony together, leaving a
small opening down the middle of stomach for kapoc or cotton stuffing. Be sure to
stuff the horse well, so it can stand when placed on a table. When this is completed,
pull stomach together and stitch well with needle and thread.
Cut ears from felt and stitch into position on head. Make a mane out of yarn
for neck of pony, also a long, full tail. Cut a saddle from a different color felt and
stitch on with sequins or rickrack. The eyes are sequins and the bridle is made of
gold cording, rickrack, or whatever you desire.
Hand to the Plow
Part V — Westward Once More
JJene H. Kingsbury
Synopsis: A Welsh widow on her way sauntered about, which was most
to the valleys of the mountains in 1864, ^elsh of them. The S0n2 was
with her family of five children, awaiting u-\jr r tt i t_ >> • i.
a train to take them westward, was faced ^^n of Harlech, an appropriate
with a momentous decision. Her father enough legendary air that told fami-
and mother and several of her brothers lies afar off that one had been val-
and sisters, not members of the Church, iant.
had already established themselves m yj^^ ^ circulated back, in due
Bradys Bend, rennsylvania, only about ,. , ■' , ,i ,
twenty-five miles from the railroad. The time, tO report that any time now
widow and her family had long planned a train would be coming down the
to visit them before traveling to the West tracks going in their general direc-
to make a permanent home. However, ^[q^ ^q^ ^[^ tl^ey J^^OW that?
the fear that, once reunited with her fam- att-^h „^_^ -u^ „ i, j u^« o+.^^^;^«
•1 , Ui. 1 1 i-u 4. 1 Well, some boys had been stooping
liy, she might lack the courage to leave • i i • i -i a i.
them, causes the widow to resume her With their ears on the rails. As they
journey West. had listened often in such a posture
for several weeks now, they were
IF the silence of dedication en- experts in telling even the exact
cased this Welsh unit trying to time the train would clang to a
become something they had shuddering stop at the station. Long
long dreamed of, that same quie- since they had mastered the direc-
tude did not touch the rest of the tion from which it would come. Be-
travelers. Louder and louder be- fore the waiting families could move
came the buzzing in the hive sta- their property to the platform as
tion. As the voices shrilled, the preparation for getting aboard, the
bodies started on the move. The whistle was heard to warn them
emigrant, now that victory was so forlornly, as it lamented its way
sweet, found herself too tired to along the narrow tracks,
drag herself and young brood back The previously well-ordered and
to reality. She motioned to the undisturbed piles of boxes and bags
older boys to see what all the noise were now shunted to the door,
was about. They were happy to Almost no family needed to make
arise and walk about and stretch and two trips to carry all they owned
talk aloud. They looked as relieved from inside to outside. Each mem-
as she to have met the enemy and ber took his share, deposited it, and
to have conquered. They began to stood guard. Just so as in the case
hum a little tune together as they of the emigrant's possessions, each
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child bent to and lugged at his pre-
viously assigned bundles, ran arms
through straps, hoisted great bulks
upon shoulders, and staggered under
untold weight. With bent backs
and flexed muscles, they directed
their paths over the timeworn door-
sill and to the outer corner of the
platform near the down end. This
was a prearranged formation which
worked as a clock. Showing pleas-
ure, each child laid his burden in
such a manner that in the blinking
of an eye the whole lot of belong-
ings was in exactly the same posi-
tion and form as had been seen but
a moment ago near the forge stove
inside the station. Actually, the
children loved these moments of
lifting and carrying and heaving.
They smiled and talked and played
the game in great spirits.
The mother had her share of
possibles, too: smaller bags and
baskets, to be sure; but their value
was not quite in the class of those
carried by her offspring. We may
hear more about their contents at a
less hurried moment.
'T^HE islands of valuables about
the outer station were not of
permanent value, however. As soon
as the train chugged into sight the
surge to deposit these material ob-
jects within the box-like cars began.
The little islands dissolved and be-
came a part of small streams flowing
into the cars. The ticket agent
came to the door to see them off.
Well, he thought, there they go.
Guess I should have told that
Welsh lady more about the war
and the Indians and the great rivers.
She really should have gone to
Bradys Bend. It would be safer
there, even from the war. Guess
she'll have her own way like as not.
Well, it won't be anything like
Wales. Maybe she won't live to
get West. Maybe she will never
be heard from again. Well, I told
her so, didn't I?
As this was the third train the
family had boarded since leaving
their ship, the novelty of the travel
was lost. It was just as noisy, just
as dirty, as drafty, as inadequate to
transport human beings, as crowded,
as any other they had ridden in be-
fore.
The little family had decided that
they would have more privacy if
they could stay at the end of a car,
so they made their way where they
could have at least one end wall to
enclose them. They shunted their
luggage under the seats, all that
would fit there, then piled the rest
in tower-like arrangement with the
hope that the jarring of starts and
stops would not dislodge the
bundles upon their heads.
The aisle through this little con-
veyance was so narrow that one was
forced to sidestep through it. The
seats were twin benched, facing each
other — exact copies of church
benches. Neither springs nor cush-
ions were thought to be an adjunct
to comfort. A solitary, swaying
lantern of a make to accommodate
either a candle or a cup of oil gave
the only light after nightfall. The
windows of the car were small,
dirty, rattletrap squares, giving a dis-
torted vision of the outside world.
It did not pay to take too seriously
a view that bulged and squeezed
itself into an oddity of nature. Just
move the head a bit and another
effect could be achieved. If one
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was sensitive to light and color, this, Other signs, either in noise or mo-
with distortion, brought on car sick- tion, quickly followed. The agent
ness. The prevention was never to now took the part of starter of the
look outside. rolling stock of his company and
The family noticed all too late his self-importance had its greatest
that they should have been on the chance to renew itself. He filled
opposite side of the car, for some his lungs, braced himself with
carpenter-skilled passenger had, at thumbs in the armholes of his vest,
a lengthy stop, built himself a sort opened his mouth and put forth a
of platform or bunk midway be- roar of command. His call was made
tween seat and ceiling. This was of a series of words, all unintelligi-
now being occupied by numerous ble, and seeming to lack an in-
children who climbed aloft and sat terpreter. He no doubt was the
there looking quite like chickens on pattern for future masters of the art
a perch. When their parents threw of train calling. But with or with-
them a blanket and a bundle or out his vehemence, the effect would
two to be used as pillows, they had have been the same. The passen-
a sleeper the whole traveling world gers had received a call to go West
could envy. long before he was an employee of
any transportation system. The im-
npHE emigrant's oldest boy re- petus was to move onward. The
solved to build such a second going was accelerated with each
story in their little nook. If the mile en route and showed no signs
train didn't get under way immed- of running down as does a pendu-
iately, he knew just the pile of lum or a ball thrown in motion. Let
lumber back at the station which us give the agent credit for at least
could afford him his supply. A being the color and essence of a
hammer and nails could be bor- very new mode of getting about the
rowed from the agent. He therefore earth.
left his family corner and struggled Evidently every nose was counted,
past the still embarking passengers every owner surrounded by his
and finally regained the platform, worldly goods. Evidently nothing
He ran to the agent to explain his now could mar the journey which
plan, but was forced to about face up to this time had been eventful
as word was wafted back with the and hazardous. The rumble of the
ribbon of black smoke that the en- wheels became as a sedative. The
gine was ready to move. He dashed air became sickening. It would take
back to the car with his plan of con- more than the cracks beneath the
struction still taking form. This was doors and around the windows to
an objective which could be realized ventilate the place. No wonder a
at the next stop, if not now. broken window or two had not been
He was scarcely seated in the replaced. Even cinders sweeping
family pew, as they laughingly called through them to the hair and lungs
their cramped quarters, when a con- of the passengers were preferable to
tinuous ringing of a bell was heard this close feeling,
as one of the many official signals Someone mentioned that, at
that the train was about to roll, almost any place along the line, the
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Rebel forces might commandeer the
train and take it off to transport
troops, or more hkely, the Union
soldiers would get there first and
do the same thing for their cause.
This rail company maintained that
it was neutral in the great fight, and
hoped thereby to preserve its regular
business no matter how the wind
blew in the conflict. Actually, it
was at a constant disadvantage. Un-
certainty was ever present. Unless
something like decisive victory
could be achieved quickly, the own-
ers feared for their investment.
T^HE striving engine hammered its
way, and panted and spewed
clouds of volcanic fire over its back
in the best manner of dreadful drag-
ons. The writhing, twisting motion
of the cars never ceased. The
couplings threatened to let go the
precarious hold they had been de-
signed to maintain, and with slack-
ened or gathered speed, the antago-
nism between the parts of the whole
continued. This multiple-sectioned
monster remained a unit only be-
cause the teeth of one part tore at
the tail of the next. Heads bobbed,
jerked, snapped, and rolled. Heavy
shoulders slumped, short legs dan-
gled in jointless fashion, and whimp-
erers were heard to complain and
wheedle and threaten.
In this atmosphere it was an
achievement for any mother to gain
the ear of an infant either to issue
commands or to enjoin to prayer. It
was easy, then, to drift off on a
memory jaunt, which in most cases
made one homesick, or to recede
within oneself to renew covenants
or formulate stratagems. The emi-
grant indulged in a little of both,
and got to the point of feeling a
re-enforcement of courage and ener-
gy now that they were underway
again, when she was interrupted by
little Sannie demanding, ''I want
something!"
The boys broke into a laugh at
this most childish of all sentences.
At least they always knew what it
was they wanted. The mother
brushed aside her thoughts in soli-
tude and tried to lead the little girl
into a statement of just what it was
she wanted. A sea cake? No. A
part of a peeled potato? No. Noth-
ing to eat? No. A little sleep with
head resting on the mothers lap or
shoulders? No. A story? Yes, that
was it. About nice, wonderful
Uncle David who could sing better
than anyone else in all Wales? Yes,
yes.
This subject was an unfailing
source of entertainment even to
children who could sing all day long
and never repeat themselves, for
Uncle David was very romantic as
well as talented. Of course it was a
sort of sad, mysterious romance. In
the first place. . . . But no one
wanted that phase of Uncle David
today. As there were other choices,
one boy called out, ''The money
story." Yes, indeed. This event
involved a piece of money which
could not have purchased even the
meanest item of food or clothing,
yet, again, it was worth a bucketful
of other near-alike pieces. The
source of this valued bit of metal
reached back to legendary times in
Wales when singing first became
the greatest of arts. Mothers prayed
that the newly christened infant
would be the most famous singer in
all Wales. No other career beck-
oned or mattered to a Welshman
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after that idea had taken hold in
the national heart.
For it was the heart of Wales
that sang. Its heartbeat was set to
music, its eye only focused on the
hills and vales of its country to
conjure up melodies of praise to
God for their land and people. Oth-
er peoples trained their children in
the arts and sciences, still others
valued the efforts of the printed
page or held physical prowess as a
fetish. But Welshmen sang and
lived for song. All else, one might
say, interfered with singing. Labor
in the mines for eighteen hours a
day, at the wharves, in the fruitless
valleys, the tragedies of deep shaft
cave-ins — all fell behind one as the
wake of a ship — all joy and sorrow,
the sweat of the brow, the closing
of the grave, the birth of sons and
daughters, the courage — all were
expressed in that minor key of mel-
ody which is not a dirge but an
eternal hope over the strangeness of
life and love and labor.
(To be concluded)
As Trees Grow Old
Bertha A. Khinman
Come and grow old with me, as trees grow old,
Each season adding newer, finer wood,
In timbered might defying storm and cold.
And nobler for adversity withstood. ._
God made a tree; he also fashioned me
To stand the wind, the thunder, shock, and blast;
A weathered oak that sheds security
From fruited boughs uplifted to the last.
Come and grow old with me — the evening star
Is spanned with rainbow promise after strife.
What matters age, when at the gates ajar,
New wood still blossoms on the tree of life!
ntcA^
FROM THE FIELD
General Secretary-Treasurer Hulda Parker
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Handbook of Instructions. -«
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Ensign Stake (Utah), Ensign Fourth Ward Refief Society
Presents Anniversary Program "Reflections,"
March 14, 1962
Front row, left to right: Catherine H. Thompson; Margaret Tingey, as Mary
Magdalene; Fern Clissold, as Esther; Grace Ovard, as Anna; Erma Hinckley, as Eve;
Lois Sorenson, as Elizabeth; Geraldine Ballard, as Emma Smith; Elma Bradshaw.
Back row, left to right: Connie Fuller, as Salome; Winona Jensen, as Hagar;
Darlene Butler, as Ruth; Esther Snow, as Eliza R. Snow; Wanda Pedersen, as Lot's wife;
Eunice McGinnis, as Mary; Arlene Kirton, as Miriam; Gwen Shurtleff, as Sariah; Sybil
Noall, as Deborah; Ruth Cunningham, as Delilah.
Standing, rear, center, Lucy T. Anderson, President, Ensign Stake Relief Society.
Sister Anderson reports: "An original birthday party program 'Reflection,' honoring
all womankind, with special emphasis on our Latter-day Saint Relief Society leaders,
was presented March 14, 1962. An imposing gilt mirror reflected the images of out-
standing women from the past, while the spoken description was accompanied by
appropriate organ background music. An outstanding organ-piano duet, a vocal solo,
and a song by a trio of young mothers completed the program. Immediately following
the program, was a special birthday luncheon prepared by a committee of visiting
teachers under the direction of Norma Rees."
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Provo Stake (Utah) Relief Society Honors Former Presidents
At Leadership Meeting, March 16, 1962
Front row, seated left to right: Virginia B. Keeler, Hazel K. Petersen, and Mary
Day, present presidency; Mary Hatch, who served as a counselor to two presidents.
Back row, standing left to right: Pearl Snarr; Hannah Oldroyd; Rozella Callard;
Tess Brienholt; Orah Van Wagner; Mabel Kirk.
Hazel K. Petersen, President, Provo Stake Relief Society, reports: 'Trovo Stake
Relief Society was organized in February 1939, under the direction of President Charles
E. Rowan, Jr., who was present at this special program commemorating the anniversary
of Relief Society. Inez Allred, deceased, was the first president, and her counselors were
Clara Warnick, deceased; Hannah Oldroyd, and Pearl Snarr. The second presidency
members were: Greta Romney, president, who was unable to be present when this
picture was taken, with Mary Hatch and Naiomi Robertson, as counselors. The third
presidency consisted of: Mazie Knell, president, deceased, with Mary Hatch and Veda
Williams, not in the picture, and Rozella Collard, as counselors. The fourth presidency
consisted of: Orah Van Wagner, president, with Mabel Kirk, Tess Brienholt, Vivian
Lambert, now residing in California, and Hazel K. Petersen as counselors.
"Each presidency was introduced and responded with a narration of outstanding
events that took place during their service. The anniversary observance was a lovely
stake affair, and the program was very inspiring. Beautiful musical numbers were pre-
sented by the Singing Mothers, directed by Florence J. Madsen of the General Board
of Relief Society. We were especially honored to have with us Stake President Dean
C. Christensen, and Alice L. Wilkinson and Florence J. Madsen of the General Board
of Relief Society."
Sugar House Stake (Utah), Marlborough Ward Presents
Unique Anniversary Program, March 13, 1962
Front row, seated, left to right: Vera Hoggan; Berniece Cox; Mabel Bergman.
Second row, seated, left to right: LaVerne Milne, Second Counselor; Margaret
Wonnacott, President; Lela Wright, First Counselor; Maxine Knoble, Secretar)'; Ina
Hatch, narrator.
Standing, left to right: Gertrude Lobrot; Erma Berg; Elsie Parry; Selma toleman;
Rosette Graham; Berniece Anderson; Lucile Laxman; Nellie Purrington; Anna Milius;
Edna Stephens. Anne Done, Ziska Waters, and Anna Frewin were not present when
the picture was taken.
Ruth B. Kimball, President, Sugar House Stake Relief Society, reports: " 'Many
Happy Returns of the Day,' a spiritual playlet, combined with narration and music,
cleverly bridged the time from prior to the organization of the Relief Society, up to
the present day. Phases depicting organization, music, teaching, service, visiting teach-
ing, testimony, and motherhood showed how, from a small beginning in a room over
the Prophet's store, the Relief Society now encircles the world. Those sisters who
represented the early women of the organization were fittingly costumed."
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Moroni Stake (Utah) Singing Mothers Present Music for
Many Occasions
Front row, seated, left to right: Rita Allred, accompanist; Lujane Cook, chorister;
Bessie Cook, Counselor; Euleda B. Cook, President, Monroe Stake Relief Society; Izola
Blackham, Counselor; Verdeen Jacobson, Secretary; Venice Anderson, former president.
Sister Cook reports: 'This chorus includes members from all five wards of our
stake and has held regular practice periods for more than a year. We were honored to
have our annual stake excursion to the Manti Temple on March 17, 1961. At this
time our stake Singing Mothers chorus sang in the temple. On August 27, 1961, the
chorus sang for both sessions of stake quarterly conference.
Santa Monica Stake (California) Visiting Teacher
Convention, April 13, 1962
Front row, seated, left to right: Evelyn Bluth, Second Counselor; Audra E.
Emfield, President; Geneve A. Cannon, First Counselor.
Back row, standing, left to right: Jane Jamison; Helen Wilkinson; Lydia Jenson;
Dorothy Jensen; Marybeth Bone; Vinnie Veth; Nellie Stevenson.
Sister Emfield reports: "The Santa Monica Stake Visiting Teacher Convention
and luncheon was held April 13, 1962. Special guests were the Stake President and
Sister E. Garrett Barlow, and former stake Relief Society president Elva Cusworth and
Brother Cusworth. We honored the ward Magazine representatives for attaining the
Magazine honor roll, with a little gift presented by Helen Wilkinson, stake Magazine
representative. There were two skits given. The first was 'Streamlining the Relief
Society,' directed by Lydia Jenson, stake visiting teacher message leader, and the second
was 'Builders of the Kingdom,' directed by Nellie Stevenson, stake theology class
leader.
"A lovely luncheon was then served to 350 visiting teachers. The tables were
decorated by Jane Jamison with red ivy geraniums and many antique pieces, such as
curling irons, oil lamps, stiff collar boxes, and other items. This opened the way for
much fun and conversation, such as 'I remember when. . . .'
"Emaline Bluth, Work Director Counselor, and Helen Berger, from Santa Monica
First Ward, had gathered from the wards and arranged on display a wonderful collec-
tion of 'Creative Art in the American Home.' Part of our Relief Society heritage is
the reviving of The American Arts, the remembrance of things past and the traditions
made mellow over the years."
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Sacramento Stake (California) Relief Society Social and Luncheon
Honors All Sisters Over Seventy Years of Age
April 27, 1962
Emily E. Burr, President, Sacramento Stake Relief Society, reports: "On April 27,
1962, the Sacramento Stake Relief Society held a luncheon and social honoring all
of the sisters in the stake over seventy years of age, of which we have ninety-five.
There were forty-nine sisters in attendance, and three of them were eighty-nine years of
age. The tables were beautifully decorated, and a lovelv luncheon was served by the
stake board. The short program was enjoyed by all. It was a real joy to hear the
sisters talk of the times they had when they were presidents and counselors in Relief
Society. Some of the elderly sisters were unable to attend the luncheon and social,
but a great many of them are still very active in Church work."
Kansas City Stake, Kansas City (Kansas) First Ward Singing Mothers
Concert, February 2, 1962
Front row, left to right: Joyce Sanders, director; Clarine Downs and Mary Condie,
accompanists; Doris Watkins; Donna Fry; Rowena Gillette; Virginia Rowe; Emma
Kemp; Janice Bassett, First Counselor; Norma Clark; Norma Tracy, Second Counselor.
Second row, left to right: Audrey Kelly; Elsie Parnell; Lucille Molen; Wilma Sned-
don; Lois Smith; Leona Danbury; Venna Witbeck; Janet Mollus; Kay Pope; Zina Walk-
er; Verda Willyard.
Back row, left to right: Birdella Corcoran, President; Marian Laudie; Ann Scott;
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Norma Wheatley; Marjorie M. Reeve, President, Kansas City Stake Relief Society;
Helen Smith; Laura Midgley; Geri Fackrell; Ingaborg Midgley; Sharron Newberry.
LaRue Wilde and Jacquelin Kirkpatrick were not present when the picture was
taken.
Sister Reeve reports: 'The Kansas City First Ward Singing Mothers presented a
concert for the building fund. Thirty-four sisters spent long hours in rehearsals. Many
nonmembers attended, giving an excellent opportunity to ask "the Golden Questions"
and to explain our Relief Society program. Our selections for presentation in the
concert were excellent. We all love the Magazine very much."
Andes Mission (South America), Magdalena Del Mar Branch Singing
Mothers Present Music at Leadership Meeting for Two Districts
April 15, 1962
Left to right: Gloria Malaga; Victoria de Manquez; Isabel de Hurtado; Bertha
de Vergaray; Nancy Brown; Amparo de Ramirez; Mavie Dye; Celinda Clements; Aug-
stina de Lopez; Graciela de Pachas; Josephine de Ramos; Adriana Ramos.
Fawn H. Sharp, President, Andes Mission Relief Society, reports: "The first two-
district leadership meetings of the Relief Society was held in the Mira Flores Branch
in Lima, Peru. All of the officers and teachers of the two districts were in attendance.
"Informative displays were made of the lesson materials for the year, with one of
the sisters explaining the display. Charts were on display of the monthly report, and
Sister Ruth Ojeda (a Peruvian missionary) explained the new roll book and the pro-
cedure for filling out the monthly report.
"There were several displays of suggestions for work meeting, with each branch
bringing one idea to sfeow and to share. The sisters brought a pattern for each article
to be exchanged with the other branches.
"A Singing Mothers chorus directed by Nancy Brown and Mavie Dye presented
music for the afternoon. One of the members of the chorus. Bertha Vergaray, gave
a short talk on the value of a Singing Mothers chorus in the branch. The slides of
the work meeting articles displayed by Relief Society in Salt Lake City at the time of
the mission presidents conference were given to each branch, along with a copy of the
directions and instructions translated into Spanish.
"It is the plan now to hold a meeting of this type for the two districts in Lima
four times a year, giving the sisters the helps and instructions most needed. All the
materials discussed and ideas used will be taken or sent to the scattered branches in
Peru, so that all will benefit from these meetings."
Mae Martindale Johnson — Organist and Teacher of Music
]% yfRS. Mae Martindale Johnson, Rupert, Idaho, has faithfully served Relief Society
■^ "■■ and other Church auxiliary organizations for many years as an accomplished
musician and organist. Her service as a musician began in 1900, when, at the age of
thirteen, she was named assistant organist for the Oakley Ward, Idaho, where her
father, William C, Martindale, was presiding elder, having been sent to head the
Church colony in that part of Idaho in 1879. Since this first assignment, Mrs, John-
son has served as organist in all the Church auxiliaries and has been a member of the
Minidoka and Burley Stake Relief Society boards over a long period of years. She
is generous with her talents, and she and her husband, Herman Johnson, are much in
demand for entertainments, at which he plays the guitar and she the piano accompani-
ment. Although barely able to reach the pedals of the pipe organ, she is an accomplished
organist and is dearly loved for her beautiful music and for her devotion to the com-
munity.
Mrs. Johnson is the mother of six talented children, five of them musicians of
note, and all of whom serve the Church and their communities. Mrs. Johnson also
reared her husband's youngest brother and sister. She is devoted to her grandchildren
and great-grandchildren, many of whom are following her love for music and her
service in the Church.
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THEOLOGY • The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 43 — The Day of Rest and Devotions
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Section 59:1-14)
For First Meeting, December 1962
Objective: To learn what the Lord has said regarding rest from labors and the Sab-
bath day.
Introduction
On Sunday, August j, 1831, the
Prophet Joseph Smith attended the
funeral of Polly Knight, wife of
Joseph Knight, Sr., who had given
material substance to the Prophet.
(D & C 12; 23:6.) Their son, New-
el K. Knight, wrote that his mother
insisted upon traveling from Kirt-
land to Missouri notwithstanding
the fact that she was very ill. Her
greatest desire, to stand on the land
of Zion, was granted her. Of Polly
Knight the Prophet wrote that she
was the first to die in the land of
Zion, and as "a worthy member
sleeps in Jesus till the resurrection."
{DHC 1:199, footnote.) By the 7th
of August the land of Zion was con-
secrated as a gathering place for the
saints, the temple site was dedi-
cated, and the first conference was
held in Zion, this being the Fifth
General Conference. The Coles-
ville Branch members were present
at this conference.
They Shall Rest From Their Labors
The Lord promised blessings to
those who were to come up to the
land of Zion, provided that they
would have an eye single to God's
glorv. As Section 59:1 points out,
''an eve single to my glory" re-
quires that one keep the command-
ments. Consistent with this
thought is the verse which follows:
For those that live shall inherit the
earth, and those that die shall rest from
all their labors, and their works shall fol-
low them; and they shall receive a crown
in the mansions of my Father, which I
have prepared for them (D & C 59:2).
One niav reflect upon this scrip-
ture with joy, realizing that when
men and women follow the Lord's
plan of life here, their righteous
labors will be rewarded when mor-
tality ends.
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Follov/ing the necessary sojourn
in the spirit world where advance-
ment is made toward the ultimate
glory of the resurrection, a place is
received in the mansions of the
Father — the celestial kingdom, for
those who have had their minds
single to God. (D & C 88:20-22,
66-68.)
Revehtions Are Blessings
The good things of the earth are
promised those who obey the gos-
pel. This is a blessing discussed in
Lesson 41 (Rdiei Society Magazine,
July 1962) concerning Zion. In
addition to these temporal blessings,
the saints are to be blessed with
commandments and revelations:
And they shall also be crowned with
blessings from above, yea, and with com-
mandments not a few, and with revela-
tions in their time — they that are faith-
ful and diligent before me (D & C 59:4).
There is the fact that one's
spiritual welfare is greatly enhanced
by obedience to all of God's com-
mandments. There are some peo-
ple, and their numbers are great,
who believe that commandments
are restrictive, little realizing that
the gospel frees people from bond-
age. (John 8:31-32; D & C 84:
49-53.) Real freedom consists of a
clear conscience toward God and
man.
Commandments come by revela-
tion. Revelations also provide the
faithful with hope, peace, and cour-
age to continue on to the end.
Great Commandments
Only the Father can say that one
of his commandments is greater
than another. This he has done
through his Son by saying that one
should love God as the first com-
mandment and second, that one
should love his neighbor as himself.
(Matt. 22:37-40.) In the revelation
comprising this lesson, notice the
important information given about
these two great commandments.
Wherefore, I give unto them a com-
mandment, saying thus: Thou shalt love
the Lord thy God with all thy heart,
with all thy might, mind, and strength;
and in the name of Jesus Christ thou
shalt serve him.
Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thy-
self. Thou shalt not steal; neither commit
adultery, nor kill, nor do anything like
unto it (D & C 59:5-6).
In this revelation specific* refer-
ence is made to certain command-
ments the violation of which clearly
indicates that one does not love his
fellow man. These laws condemn
stealing, adultery, murder, or any-
thing like it. All one needs to do to
verify the importance of these laws
in relation to the second great com-
mandment is to ask: ''Does one love
his neighbor if he commits any one
of these infractions of the moral
law?" (Lessons 26 and 27, Relief So-
ciety Magazine, August, September,
i960.)
Thanksgiving and Humility
Thanksgiving is to be shown to
the Lord in all things. For what
should the saint be thankful — life
with its opportunities to prove one-
self? the fulness of the gospel that
brings purpose into life? that divine
direction is received today by in-
spired prophets? the joy of know-
ing that great blessings accrue to
those who are faithful? These and
countless other blessings should be
acknowledged to the Father in
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prayer. But this is not the only
way that gratitude is to be expressed.
When one keeps the command-
ments, he prays, and he also loves
the Father and the Son. (John
14:15; D & C 46:7.) Prayer offered
in humility with a thankful heart
assists one to continue in the faith.
Humility is the quality of being
teachable, of responding fully to the
Lord's will. The humble person,
one who has a broken heart and
contrite spirit, will demonstrate his
gratitude for all things, and he will
be made glorious. (D & C 78:19.)
The Sabbath Commandment
All of the foregoing truths from
Section 59 were given in prepara-
tion for the Sabbath day command-
ment, as follows:
And that thou mayest more fully keep
thyself unspotted from the world, thou
shalt go to the house of prayer and offer
up thy sacraments upon my holy day;
For verily this is a day appointed unto
you to rest from your labors, and to pay
thy devotions unto the Most High;
Nevertheless thy vows shall be offered
up in righteousness on all days and at
all times;
But remember that on this, the Lord's
day, thou shalt offer thine oblations and
thy sacraments unto the Most High, con-
fessing thy sins unto the brethren, and
before the Lord.
And on this day thou shalt do none
other thing, only let thy food be pre-
pared with singleness of heart that thy
fasting may be perfect, or, in other words,
that thy joy may be full.
Verily, this is fasting and prayer, or in
other words, rejoicing and prayer (D & C
59:9-14)-
Shown in the form of *'thou
shalt," or what is required on the
Sabbath day, these commandments
may be stated as:
1. 'Thou shalt go to the house of
prayer." For what purpose? '*. . .
that thou mayest more fully keep
thyself unspotted from the world."
Under the most favorable condi-
tions people may fall away from the
truth, but the person who goes to
the appointed Church meetings will
find a place of faith, of learning, of
glory, of order, and verily, a house
of God. {Ibid., 88:119.) In the
house of the Lord, as in a sacrament
meeting, the communicant meets
friends from whom he receives en-
couragement.
Sometimes members of the
Church absent themselves from the
sacrament meeting because they
feel that they hear the same mes-
sages often, or for some other rea-
son. President Heber J. Grant had
this to say on this thought:
There are some who say they will
not go to meeting because they know just
who will talk and what they will say. I
realize that such persons are becoming
indifferent to the spiritual things of the
kingdom. I know people, who, in the
old world, would go many miles to a
meeting because they were in love with
the gospel. They will not cross the street
now because they have lost that love.
Just as surely as failing to eat will cause
our physical frames to shrink and die,
just so sure neglect to supply our spiritual
natures will bring death to them (GospeJ
Standards, page 98).
2. Thou shalt ''offer up thy sacra-
ments upon my holy day." What
does this mean? Sacraments and
devotions are similar. Specifically, a
sacrament is a ceremony wherein
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one makes a covenant with the Lord.
For Latter-day Saints the partaking
of the sacrament constitutes a cove-
nant-making and a covenant-renewal
opportunity. When partaking of
the sacrament worthily, the mem-
ber is promised the blessing of the
Spirit to be with him. Here alone
is sufficient reason for attending the
sacrament meeting in the true spirit
of worship.
3. ''This is a day appointed unto
you to rest from your labors." Verse
10 of Section 59 informs us that the
keeping of this commandment is
essential to Sabbath worship. What
does it mean to rest? Certainly it
does not mean idleness. But from
what are we to rest? Elder John A.
Widtsoe suggested that a true rest
is one in which the person has a
change from the occupations or
work of the weekday; however, we
should devote our activities to the
requirements of the Sabbath day.
(Evidences and Reconciliations
1:220-221.) But are there activities
of the week in which some people
must be engaged? There is neces-
sary work to be performed, such as
the feeding and care of animals on
the farm, some public service indus-
tries as power, light, hospital, police
and fire protection, etc. In the
main, however, the person who en-
gages in Sunday work may find him-
self an inactive member of God's
kingdom.
4. Thou shalt ''pay thy devotions
unto the Most High." As indicated
earlier, devotions are similar to sac-
rament as given in this revelation.
What are the devotions of the saint
in meetings of the Sabbath? In-
structive on this question is the
following:
On the Sabbath, the Saints should be
in the house of prayer and offer up their
"sacraments"; that is, present their de-
votions before the Lord, in the form of
songs of praise, prayer and thanksgiving,
testimonies, partaking of the Sacrament,
and contemplation of the Word of God.
All this is meant by the word "sacrament,"
which, in its widest range, stands for any
sacred rite or ceremony whereby we affirm
our allegiance to our divine Lord [D & C
Commentary, page 351).
In the words of President Joseph
F. Smith:
Men are not showing zeal and ardor
in their religious faith and duty when
they hustle off early Sunday morning on
the cars, in teams, in automobiles, to the
canyons, the resorts, and to visit friends
or places of amusement with their wives
and children. They are not paying their
devotions in this way to the Most High
{Gospel Doctrine, page 246).
5. "Thou shalt offer thine obla-
tions . . . unto the Most High."
Spiritual as well as temporal offer-
ings (which are really spiritual) are
to be rendered to the Lord. An
enlightening explanation of the
meaning and application of "obla-
tions" anciently and today, may be
found in the D &: C Commentary,
page 352.
6. Thou shalt confess "thy sins
unto thy brethren, and before the
Lord." The following statement of
Elder Marion G. Romney, delivered
in general conference, suggests an
explanation :
I would assume that we are to confess
all our sins unto the Lord. For transgres-
sions which are wholly personal, affecting
none but ourselves and the Lord, such
confession would seem to be sufficient.
For misconduct which offends another,
confession should also be made to the
offended one, and his forgiveness sought.
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Finally, where one's transgressions are
of such a nature as would, unrepented of,
put in jeopardy his right to membership
or fellowship in the Church of Jesus
Christ, full and effective confession
would, in my judgment, require confes-
sion by the repentant sinner to his bishop
or other proper presiding Church officer
— not that the Church officer could for-
give the sin (this power rests in the Lord
himself and those only to whom he
specificallv delegates it) but rather that
the Church, acting through its duly ap-
pointed officers, might with full knowl-
edge of the facts take such action with
respect to Church discipline as the cir-
cumstances merit.
One having forsaken his sins and, by
proper confession, cleared his conduct
with the Lord, with the people he has
offended, and with the Church of Jesus
Christ, where necessary, may with full
confidence seek the Lord's forgiveness and
go forth in newness of life, relying upon
the merits of Christ (Romney, Marion C:
Conference Report, October 1955, page
125).
7. Thou shalt "let thy food be
prepared with singleness of heart."
It seems that the intent of this in-
struction is that Sunday does not
become a feast day. On this point
we have the following:
Upon the Sabbath, even the food
should be prepared "with singleness of
heart"; that is to say, in simplicity. Our
hearts, our desires, on that day should
not be elaborate feasts, whereby some are
prevented from having a Sabbath. A
simple meal should suffice. To that ex-
tent every Sabbath should be a fast day,
one bringing perfect joy {D & C Com-
mentary, page 352).
8. "And on this day thou shalt do
none other thing." This admoni-
tion seems to point out that the
positive requirements of observing
Sunday, as listed above, provide
enough counsel on what should be
done. It is also apparent to the
careful reader of this revelation that
the Lord did not seem at that time
to catalogue the negative aspects of
this law. In time, however, diso-
bedience by the world to the Sab-
bath law in making Sunday a
holiday instead of a holy day, and
the use of the automobile with pub-
lic places of recreation open on the
Sabbath became widespread, and
members of the Church began to
succumb to these temptations. Ac-
cordingly, First Presidencies have
issued formal statements about Sab-
bath observance. The latest, issued
on June 19, 1959, by President
David O. McKay, J. Reuben Clark,
Jr., and Henry D. Moyle, empha-
sizes the commandments given
anciently and in Section 59. After
quoting the modern revelation and
Exodus 20:8-11, 20, the following
appears :
Latter-day Saints should not permit
these commandments regarding the Sab-
bath to shp from their minds. All during
this, the Last Dispensation, the Prophets
of the Lord have urged Sabbath-observ-
ance upon the people. Different concepts
of Sabbath-observance have been urged
upon us by unbelievers, partial-believers,
and by the thoughtless, concerned pri-
marily with the pleasures of the world,
sometimes under the guise of recreation,
sometimes by activities the Lord has told
us were sinful.
The Sabbath is not just another day on
which we merely rest from work, free to
spend it as our hghtmindedness may sug-
gest. It is a holy day, the Lord's Day,
to be spent as a day of worship and rev-
erence. All matters extraneous thereto
should be shunned.
We must bear in mind all these prin-
ciples. We must remember particularly
actual Sabbath-breaking labor which might
be required from a great number of Lesser
Priesthood members in any Sabbath-
breaking activities, including interference
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with their duties and attendance at quor-
um meetings. For all these and for many
other reasons affecting injuriously the re-
ligious duties and activities of the whole
Church membership, Latter-day Saints,
with a testimony of the Gospel and a
knowledge of the spiritual blessings that
come from keeping the Sabbath, will never
permit themselves to make it a shopping
day, an activity that has no place in a
proper observance of the Holy Day of
the Lord, on which we are commanded to
pour out our souls in gratitude for the
many blessings of health, strength, phys-
ical comfort, and spiritual joy which come
from the Lord's bounteous hand {Des-
eret News, Saturday, June 20, 1959).
Parental Example
The Lord established the Sabbath
as a holy day that man might benefit
spiritually. Unto Moses, Israel's
prophet, the Sabbath was known as
a sign between the Lord and Israel.
(Exodus 31:13-14; Ezekiel 20:19-
24.)
The counsel to keep the Sabbath
holy is as applicable today as when
it was given. The observance of
Sunday as the Lord's Day is a fact
of modern revelation. (D & C
59:12.) The keeping of the Sab-
bath today will have the same effect
as was promised anciently, the
sanctification of the person.
How will the world know the
Lord's people today? One way is
by their observance of the day of
rest. The testimony of the truth
comes to the obedient. A witness
of the gospel must be based upon
the faith of the individual. Every
parent should ask, ''Is my attitude
toward Sabbath observance reflect-
ed in the faith of my children?" In
other words, if the parents break the
law, will the children feel that they
also may disregard the Lord's com-
mandment? Observance of the
Sabbath day by the parents brings
forth fruits of faith in the lives of
the children and the testimony of
truth through keeping the other
commandments.
Questions ioi Discussion
1. Discuss: The commandments of the
Lord are blessings.
2. Name some of the commandments
(not Sabbath day) given in the forepart
of this lesson. Tell why they are im-
portant.
3. Enumerate some of the blessings for
which the Latter-day Saint should be
thankful.
4. Name as many of the eight "thou
shalts" of Sabbath day observance as you
can.
5. What does it mean to (a) offer up
thy sacraments (b) rest from thy labors
(c) pay thy devotions to the Most High.
6. Discuss: Sabbath day observance by
parents affects the lives of their children.
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VISITING TEACHER MESSAGES
Truths to Live By From the Doctrine and Covenants
Message 43 - "Be of Good Cheer'' (D & C 61:36).
Chiistine H. Robinson
For First Week, December 1962
Objective: To point out that cheerfulness is an important element of the gospel's
teachings. The Lord wants us to be of good cheer.
AN ancient story told in Hebrew and mercy come instantly to mind,
households concerns a sage Probably but few of us would im-
who met the Prophet Elijah in a mediately associate cheerfulness
busy market place. The sage asked with the Savior's teachings, yet
the prophet the character qualities he frequently emphasized this
the Lord looks for when he bestows quality. For example, on the oc-
special blessings. Looking over the casion when the Master's disciples
square, crowded with barterers and were sailing on the sea and the wind
traders, the sage inquired if any of and storm seemed about to engulf
those would earn the Lord's bless- them, Jesus came toward them walk-
ings. The prophet replied, ''None, ing on the water, and called to
save these," and pointed to a small them, saying, ''Be of good cheer;
group of people obviously lacking it is I; be not afraid" (Matt. 14:27).
in worldly goods but whose faces On several occasions when the
radiated cheerfulness and kindness. Savior healed the sick, he said, "Be
The sage, seeking to learn the rea- of good cheer." (See Matt. 9.2.)
son why these people had been After Paul's miraculous conversion,
singled out to receive the Lord's when he was preaching to the peo-
blessing, inquired of them as to pie in Jerusalem and they threat-
their virtues and deeds. Their lead- ened to kill him, "the Lord stood
er replied, "We are poor people, by him, and said. Be of good cheer.
Our main virtue is that we have Paul" (Acts 23:11).
merry hearts. We seek to bring Cheerfulness implies having cour-
comfort and hope to those who are age, optimism, confidence, and a
discouraged. When we meet one feeling of comfort and repose. One
who is sad, we strive to chase away thoughtful author has said, "Cheer-
his sorrow and to bring sunshine fulness radiates confidence and en-
and good will into his life." thusiasm. It is the antidote to
As we think of the essential ele- worry, fear, discouragement. . . .
ments .^f the gospel, characteristics Cheerfulness gives mental alertness,
such as love, faith, hope, charity, serenity of mind, and broadens
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sympathy. Cheerfulness brings con-
tentment and tranquihty" (Kleiser:
Inspiration and Ideals, page 94).
To be cheerful means to look for
the joy and sunshine in life rather
than to dwell on the gloom and
shadows. To be cheerful means to
gladden, comfort, and raise the
spirits of those with whom we as-
sociate. It means to be kind and
courteous, gentle, gracious, sincere.
Ours is a cheerful religion. The
gospel teaches us to be happy and
confident. The prophet Nephi
emphasized this when he said:
''men are that they might have joy"
(2 Nephi 2:25). All gospel prin-
ciples are aimed at bringing peace,
confidence, and happiness into
men's lives.
To be cheerful is not always easy
but it is a truism that as we think
cheerful thoughts, we become cheer-
ful. Someone has aptly said, "Those
who bring sunshine into the lives
of others cannot keep it from them-
selves."
Solomon said, ''A merry heart
maketh a cheerful countenance"
(Proverbs 15:13). Cheerfulness,
then, is probably nature's most ap-
pealing cosmetic. It shines through
from the soul like a wondrous light.
Therefore, let us always remem-
ber the comforting counsel of the
Lord when he advises us to ''be of
good cheer ... for I am in your
midst, and I have not forsaken you"
(D & C 61:36).
WORK MEETING
The Latter-day Saint Home
(A Course Expected to Be Used by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 3 — The Latter-day Saint Home Is Well Organized (Part III)
Dr. Virginia F. Cutler
For Second Meeting, December 1962
Objective: To help us understand the value of organizing our time.
Y^HEN you have achieved the of the home to save backtracking,
goal of making your home you are ready for attacking the next
convenient, of having each item goal, v^hich is organizing your time,
located where you use it first, of You should start looking at time
having dupHcate items, such as from the standpoint of a daily,
cleaning materials, in different parts weekly, monthly, and yearly sched-
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ule. There are some folks who look
down life's path for a five or ten
year stretch and try to make each
day's activities add up to meet their
longtime goals. A prominent edu-
cator tried this idea and was de-
termined to complete her master's
degree before reaching age thirty,
her doctor's degree before age forty,
and to have her sons well on their
educational path, with missions ac-
complished, before reaching mid-
century. She has other goals for
each decade before becoming a cen-
tenarian. There have been inter-
ruptions and minor changes along
the way, but the big goals have
been accomplished. The time
schedule of each day, if carried
through to completion, can give
one the satisfaction that comes with
accomplishment.
A calendar with large squares that
would give one an opportunity to
make notes for each day, would be
an invaluable aid in making time-
planning easier. Go through your
yearly calendar and make a special
note of all of the birthdays, special
celebrations, and significant events
for your family. Then, with a col-
ored pencil, block off the time that
will be required for getting ready for
special events or for certain types
of work that must be done. When
you see the over-all picture for the
year, you will be able to space out
your work to avoid overloading the
daily and weekly schedule.
Now, look at your schedule for
the week (the blackboard is used
to demonstrate the method). Re-
lief Society is written on one square;
Church events are scheduled in
their proper places, and family hour,
the highlight of the week, is starred.
After all the items important to you
and your family are on the schedule,
then it is time to think of how you
are going to get your work done in
between all of these other obliga-
tions.
No two people organize and plan
their daily work in exactly the same
way. The essential thing is that
you do organize, that you do have
a plan, that you do get up early in
the morning and get yourself ready
for the day's work. This means
wearing suitable clothing, not a
house robe and bedroom slippers.
A careful planner and organizer can
accomplish more in three hours
than another person who works aim-
lessly can accomplish in a whole
day.
Scientific planning requires that
you know what is to be done, who
is to do it, when it is to be done,
and how it is to be carried out.
Your day's work may include these
jobs: meals to prepare, lunches to
fix, beds to make, rooms to clean,
walks to sweep, animals to feed,
darning to be done, a hem to turn
up in a dress, and a visit to the den-
tist. Just listing the jobs will help
you to plan who should do them.
Homemaking is a co-operative
enterprise, and each member of the
family should share the responsi-
bilities as well as the benefits. Ro-
tating assignments to keep interest
going is an asset; teaching the meth-
od for doing the work is the man-
ager's task; accepting the work done
without redoing it is a must; check-
ing and teaching ways to improve
is part of the follow-up.
Very young children can be
taught to put their clothes away
and will later welcome the oppor-
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tunity to make their beds. Give This experience changed her hfe.
them praise and encouragement She started planning her work so
for what they do and lead them into that she would have time to study
greater responsibility. The efficient about tile. She read about it in the
home manager does not do all the dictionary and in the encyclopedia.
work herself, but considers the She borrowed some books from the
home a training center for improv- town library and she found some-
ing home and family life and sees thing made of tile everywhere she
to it that every member is part of looked. She wrote a twenty-seven
the plan. page report of her findings and sent
Here are some tips for stream- it to Professor Agassiz. He was
lining some of the jobs to be done very pleased with the information
and for finishing work on schedule: and used some of it in a report he
was making.
Plan meals well i" advance^ ^^ ^^^^ ^^^ ^ ^^^^^ ^^^ ^^^^^
Pack the lunches the night betore. i .i l-i oi_
Pick up misplaced items and straighten her what was under the tile. She
the living room before bedtime. replied, ''AntS." He sent word back
Develop the "while" technique — while that he v/ould like to have her make
the bread is baking have the darning ^^ investigation about ants. This
^'L^am to be ambidextrous. ^tudy took her to the country to
the museums, to the science lab-
In all this planning, don't forget oratories of the university, and she
to save some time for self-improve- wrote a lengthier report about ants
ment. Have you heard about the than she had written about tile,
homemaker who complained to Professor Agassiz had her report
Louis Agassiz after hearing one of published and she received enough
his lectures that she never had a money to buy several books and to
chance to do any of the things he enroll in some classes that would
suggested? She was always busy help her with her new interest. She
and never finished her work in time eventually earned enough to travel
to do any reading. She said that extensively and to enlarge her un-
one of the main jobs she had to do derstanding of the world and its
was to peel the vegetables and get people.
the food ready for dinner. 'Where Every homemaker should feel
do you sit while you peel the vege- that she at the end of the day has
tables?" he queried. ''I usually sit learned something new — that she
on the back step," was the answer, is a better person than she was the
''What is the step made of?" he day before. She must continue to
asked, "Tile," was the answer. build herself if she is to be an inter-
He asked her what kind of tile esting member of the family group
and she said, "I don't know. "How and be able to inspire others to
many years have you been sitting greater accomplishments,
on that step?" he asked. "Fifteen"
was the answer. "Lady, here is my Thoughts ioi Discussion
card," said he, "find out everything
you can about tile and send me a ^ How can time planning assist one to
report." be the master of her fate?
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2. How early should a homemaker
begin to train her children to assume re-
sponsibilities in the home?
3. When is one justified in forgetting
the time schedule?
4. In what must a home manager be
skilled in order to make her home an
example of good organization?
LITERATURE
America's Literature
The New Birth of Freedom
Lesson 35 — The Alcott Family
Elder Briant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes
Dryden Press, New York)
For Third Meeting, December 1962
Objective: To accept the Alcott home, real and fictional, as a memorable example of
the unity which kindness and love can create.
F
EW children's books have ever
received or deserved the pop-
ular reception given to Louisa May
Alcott's Little Women from its
publication in 1868 until almost
our own day. Before her death
twenty years later, at the early age
of fifty-six, Louisa saw hundreds of
thousands of copies of Little Wom-
en printed, which made her a for-
tune, paying her far more than the
other two hundred and fifty works
she published during her lifetime.
From her girlhood, Louisa had
determined to succeed at writing.
This she accomplished, thus earn-
ing the financial security so entire-
ly absent from the home in which
she was reared. Poverty, and some-
times actual want, characterized her
early life. All during her constant
struggles to lighten the financial
burdens in her home by tending
and teaching children, doing sew-
ing, and hiring out as a housemaid,
she was constantly writing on one
story or novel after another, until
she developed a style of her own
and achieved a considerable literary
skill. But technical skill alone
could never have produced books so
many children have loved so in-
tensely. The memories of her
childhood years in a home environ-
ment of imaginative freedom, kind-
ness, and mutual love give to her
pages the strength and joy which
make Little Women charming and
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A Perry Picture
LOUISA MAY ALCOTT
real. Before we can fully appreci-
ate that the people of this novel are
portrayals of the parents and sis-
ters who dominated her life, we
must first let them come alive in
their own right.
Amos Bionson Alcott (1799-1888)
Bronson was born in the pioneer
community of Wolcott, in western
Connecticut about twenty-five miles
north of New Haven. During the
summers of his later teens he bor-
rowed money from his frugal fa-
ther, shipped to various southern
ports, then went on extensive walk-
ing tours, carrying baubles and
jewelry and knickknacks in two
metal trunks \vhich were strapped
over his shoulders, one in front, one
behind. The isolated southern
folk welcomed him with enthu-
siasm, often allowing him to stay in
their large mansions as long as he
chose. On his most memorable
peddling trip, he found himself
among Quakers. Their simple lives
and intense religious idealism
shaped his own thinking profound-
ly. Long before he met Emerson
and the Concord Transcendental-
ists he was the purest of idealists;
indeed he was unique even in his
own day, not merely because he
was an idealist, but because through-
out his life he was nothing else.
The Teacher Alcott
He returned from his peddling
as heavily in debt to his father as
when he left, but now determined
to bring others the light and ecstasy
which he had found by becoming
a teacher. After reading his own
definition of his calling, it is not
surprising that he devoted his life
to teaching with a zeal so intense
that his innovations caused him to
be misunderstood, ridiculed, and so
forced to close his schools. His
words soar with fervor:
If there be any employment which,
among the inhabitants of our earth,
claims a precedence, that of instructing
the young in the duties and pursuits of
time and eternity seems to hold itself
conspicuously to notice. And this de-
servedly. No other employment in
which men can be engaged is more inti-
mately connected with the welfare of
human beings. ... It is the employment
of God.
The supreme principle by which
he hoped to guide his life-long
LESSON DEPARTMENT
A Perry Picture
Louisa May Alcott's Home, "The Orchard House/
Concord, Massachusetts
career as a teacher was his own
"General Maxim" that one should
''teach in imitation of the Saviour."
For him, teaching was never mere-
ly instructing, but the rising to a
lofty spiritual level where, for a
moment, the teacher lent his mind
to his students. Each day they
were given five minutes during
which time they were encouraged
to discuss their intellectual and
spiritual progress or retrogression
during the past twenty-four hours.
To our modern young mothers it
may well seem strange that Alcott
used the following method of disci-
pline in his home; when a child
merited punishment, he was de-
nied the piivilege of being allowed
to tend the baby or help mother
clean up the kitchen dishes. The
supreme punishment was not for
the child to be deprived of his sup-
per, but for him to eat while glum-
ly watching the empty place of his
father, who, by abstaining, brought
the erring child to contrition.
In 1827 he met Miss Abigail May,
daughter of Colonel Joseph May,
one of Boston's first citizens. She
was twenty-seven, he twenty-eight.
He was overwhelmed to find a
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woman of breeding and culture who
enjoyed listening to his elaborate
plans and theories and she, in turn,
was impressed with his idealism and
his sweet spirit. When they were
married two years later and re-
ceived a wedding gift of three
thousand dollars from her father,
Bronson calculated that if he sold
all the copies of his current book
and spent the entire sum in pay-
ment of his debts, he would still
owe $3,400.00.
In 1843-44 he organized Fruit-
lands, an idealistic attempt to solve
the problems of society and educa-
tion by rural communal living.
Founded in June, it lasted until
January, when starvation for his
children forced him to abandon his
dream. Though friends took his
family in, during the next few
months he well nigh died of a brok-
en heart, but the love and patience
of his wife restored him. From 1879
until his death nine years later
(just two days before the death of
his daughter Louisa), he was Dean
of the Concord School of Philoso-
phy which gathered during the sum-
mer months to hear him and others
talk, but this was after Louisa's
success had solved all his financial
problems, which he had never
acknowledged anyway.
Mother ''Abba," Strength in Love
With every reason to scorn her
husband's extended conversations
with the great, his endless search
for ''minds," and his occupying him-
self with a daily journal which
totaled more than fifty volumes
containing over five million words,
his wife "Abba" sold her personal
possessions to buy food, and finally
went to work in the slums of Bos-
ton as, perhaps, the first paid social
worker in our country's history. The
miracle that only love can perform
became in their relationship and in
their home a common, everyday
fact. From the day she first met
him until her death, she preserved
and protected their love high above
quarrels and her dreamer husband's
failure "to provide." In 1856 she
recorded in her diary, "This is the
twenty-fourth time of moving. We
have been married twenty-six years."
And again, "Mr. Alcott cannot
bring himself to work for gain; but
we have not yet learned to live with-
out money or means." While she
appreciated his "quiet reliance on
Divine Providence" she believed "a
little more activity and industry
would place us beyond most of
these disagreeable dependencies on
friends. They have to labor. Why
should not he?" But in her journal
how often she expressed her love
and happiness! For example:
May 29, 1842
Three weeks today since Mr. Alcott
sailed. ... I am trying to get accustomed
to the thought that I can do without
him. I think I can as easily learn to live
without breath.
Most central is Abigail's defini-
tion of love, which reveals not only
how much of her skill with words
Louisa inherited from her mother,
but how everyone in this home felt
its radiance and reflected it back to
its source. Abba wrote,
. . . When I speak of love, I do not
mean thai flippant little God to whom
the votaries of fashion address their
prayers, whose wings they sometimes bor-
row and flutter through the bowers of
LOUISA MAY ALCOTT
705
ideal roses and lilies; not those more care-
less pursuers who kneel at every shrine,
and lay their hearts on none. No, — I
mean that clear though deep current of
affection which, stealing silently, unob-
served, into all the recesses of the heart,
issues thence only in the pure, healthy
rills of kindness, tenderness, good will,
devotion. This is what I feel for the
only being whom I have ever loved as
companionable, or with whom I could
associate in the heavenly tie of matri-
mony.
Alcott, Successful Father
With such a wife, to fail would
be difficult, indeed. And while he
was well aware that the gold in
which he dealt bought nothing in
the Concord market, he too filled
the home with his gentleness and
kindness. It is not by chance that
Little Women is filled with ref-
erences to Bunyan's Pilgiims Piog-
less; all the children knew it almost
by heart, so often did their father
read to them from its pages. He
loved his children enough to teach
them constantly, design their
clothes, and tend them when ill
and often to prepare their meals.
He played with them on the floor
or in the barn and went walking
with them in the woods. He loved
beauty and love so strongly that he
desired most of all to give these
priceless values to his daughters, as
shown in the following excerpt:
My children, I will show you what is
beautiful, beautiful indeed: It is a pure
and happy, a kind and loving family, a
home where peace and gentle quiet
abide . . . around whose hearth gather
serene and loveful countenances, where
every hand is quick to help, every foot
swift to save, every eye agile to catch the
wishes and every ear the wants of others;
where every day is a long and well-gotten
lesson of love and wisdom and patient
resignation and steadv trust in that Good
and Generous Power that sends Health
and Hope and Peace.
How well he succeeded is best
proved in Little Women, justly
loved for its vigorous yet tender
picture of the ideal New England
home of the nineteenth century.
Louisas Education
Born on November 29, 1832, in
Germantown, Pennsylvania, where
Bronson was then teaching, Louisa
was reared in the idealistic, intel-
lectual atmosphere which radiated
from her father. In addition, she
learned many lessons from sources
other than those she might have
known had she ever received a
formal education beyond the grades.
Perhaps her battle with practical
need and the heavy routine tasks
she undertook ''to help out" in her
family might best be summarized by
some of her own words,
I can't do much with my hands so
I will make a battering ram of my head
and make a way through this rough-and-
tumble world.
Life is my college. May I graduate
well, and earn some honors.
I wrote it [An Old-Fashioned Girl] with
left hand in a sling, one foot up, head
aching, and no voice. Yet, as the book
is funny, people will say, "Did you enjoy
doing it?" ... I certainly earn my living
by the sweat of my brow.
So every day is a battle, and I'm so
tired I don't want to live; only it's cow-
ardly to die until you have done some-
thing.
Twenty years ago I resolved to make
the family independent if I could. At
forty this is done: debts all paid, even
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outlawed ones, and we have enough to
be comfortable.
Much as she loved and honored
her father, Louisa found it difficult
to be the daughter of a philosopher.
When she was at Fruitlands, aged
eleven, she arose at five on a Sep-
tember morning to have her bath.
"I love cold water," she wrote, ''the
rubdown with coarse linen towels.
At seven the family sat about the
table to eat the meal father had
prepared: water, unleavened bread,
apples and potatoes." Since Louisa
was reared a vegetarian, relatives
who came visiting brought their
own chunks of meat. Though
''Abba" sewed and took in board-
ers, the Alcotts were always accept-
ing gifts, Louisa wearing her first
new dress when she was twenty-
four. Beholden, constantly moving,
with strangers living in their family
circle — no wonder she wrote in
her journal, "I wish we could just
be a real family, lik^ everyone else."
Yet she knew many people and
many happy moments. She wrote
and produced plays with Emerson's
children, and he was her firm friend,
writing of her, "She is a natural
source of stories. . . . She is and is
to be, the poet of children. She
knows their angels." Thoreau of-
ten took her boating, along with
neighboring children, and in the
middle of the stream would raise
the oars and play his flute, then
suddenly in grave tones begin stor-
ies about Indian lore of the area.
The Young Writer
Driven by her strong desires to
help her family and to succeed as a
writer, throughout her teenage
years Louisa faithfully kept a jour-
nal, wrote down the stories which
she loved to tell to children, and
wrote and produced plays in col-
laboration with her sisters. It was
while she was teaching school in
Boston and hating it, that she made
the following entry in her journal:
My first story printed, and $5 paid
for it. It was written in Concord when
I was sixteen, cat rubbish. Read it aloud
to my sisters, and when they praised it,
not knowing the author, I proudly an-
nounced my name.
In 1854, when she was twenty-
two, her first book "Flower Fables,"
written for Emerson's little daugh-
ter Ellen, appeared. This was a
collection of tales for children for
which she received $32. It was not
long until she was earning more
from her writings than from her
various employments, which en-
abled her to make increasingly size-
able contributions to the sparse fam-
ily income. When Moods appeared
in 1864 (four years before Little
Women), she wrote in her moth-
er's Christmas copy.
My five years of labor, love, disappoint-
ment, hope and purpose are a useful ex-
perience that I shall not forget. Now if
it makes a little money and opens the
way for more I shall be satisfied, and you
in some measure repaid for all the sym-
pathy, help, and love that have done so
much for me in these hard years. I hope
success will sweeten me and make me
what I long to become more than a great
writer — a good daughter. And so God
bless you, dear mother, and send us all
a Happy New Year.
Hospital Sketches
Louisa May Alcott gave generous-
ly not only of her money, but also
her personal service to relatives,
friends and strangers alike, and
LOUISA MAY ALCOTT
707
zealously supported such causes as
abolition and woman suffrage.
From the beginning of the Civil
War, that great humanitarian re-
former Dorothea Lynde Dix had
served as supervisor of volunteer
nurses, but she was given no real
power until July 1862, when the
sent out a call:
Only women of strong health, not sub-
jects of chronic disease, nor liable to sud-
den illness need apply. The duties of
the station make large and continued de-
mands on strength.
Louisa, age thirty, was strong and
willing. On December 14, 1862,
she reported for hospital duty in
Washington, D.C. Accustomed to
fresh air and a vegetarian diet,
Louisa fled from the bad hospital
air whenever she could, and soon
had to force herself to the mess hall
where she had to eat daily ''beef
evidently put down for the men
of '76; pork just in from the street."
After less than a month's service
she became so ill that she could
not leave her room; soon she was
sent home to recover from a serious
attack of typhoid. She lost all her
beautiful hair, a yard and a half
long, and almost her life before she
recovered months later, though she
was never really well again.
As soon as she felt capable of the
attempt, she began writing of her
experiences. In August 1863,
Hospital Sketches appeared and was
her first real success. And typically
she used her first $40 royalty to pay
for her grandmother's funeral. Her
account of the war conditions ranks
with Walt Whitman's Specimen
Days as a trustworthy, moving ac-
count of the suffering and heroism
which were prevalent. In contrast
to many other observers, Louisa
was neither excessively sentimental
nor grim; her words have the ring
of truth and restraint. She writes of
John, the giant bachelor blacksmith
from Virginia who must be told he
must die, as he sat, ^
. . . lonely and forsaken just then, with
bent head, hands folded on his knee, . . .
but a great tear rolled down and dropped
upon the floor. It was a new sight there;
for, though I had seen many suffer, some
swore, some groaned, most endured silent-
ly, but none wept. Yet it did not seem
weak, only very touching, and straight-
way my fear vanished, my heart opened
wide and took him in as, gathering the
bent head in my arms, as freely as if he
had been a little child, I said, "Let me
help you bear it, John."
Little Women and Other Writings
After Hopsitd Sketches Louisa
continued writing ''pot boilers,"
which brought in money but noth-
ing else. Often she belittled her
efforts, longing to write another
Wuthering Heights. The time was
ripe for her own masterpiece, which
she worked on fourteen hours a day
until she sent off the first twelve
chapters to a publisher. He found
it dull, as did she, but with her
usual pluck she kept polishing and
revising it until she caught that rare
aura and feeling of actual people in
real circumstances which gives the
book its strong appeal. Every girl
who reads the book identifies her-
self with one of the sisters, and
knows the others as well as her
own family — indeed they are her
family until the book closes and
the spell is broken. In addition to
Hospital Sketches (1863), Moods
(1864), and Little Women (1868),
the following are among her most
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familiar writings : An Old-Fashioned
Gill (1870), Little Men (1871),
Woik (1873), Eight Cousins
(1874) Rose in Bloom (1876),
Jack and Jill (1880), and Jo's Boys
1886).
Louisa's ''angel" was her gift
to speak to the hearts and imagina-
tions of children of all ages; her
family's gift to her was a home
scene unique in its goodness and
love. She blended her writing
skills with the supreme values of
her life — family unity, love and
joy — into America's classic contri-
bution to children's literature. But
in thus giving to posterity her con-
temporary domestic scene, she gives
liberally of herself and her family
as well, gifts always to be esteemed
by those who would know and love
the enduring qualities of their fel-
low mortals.
Thoughts for Discussion
1. 7'o what extent was mother Abigail
responsible for the unity of the Alcott
family?
2. What ideals do you find incorpor-
ated in Louisa's own life? In her writ-
ings?
3. How did the Civil War aid Louisa
in attaining the maturity as a writer
which she needed?
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Monthly Publication
T^^S^SXoMa
OCTOBER 1962
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE Marianne C. Sharp Editor
Vesta P. Crawford Associate Editor Belle S. Spafford General Manager
SPECIAL FEATURES
Gospel Restoration — Part of the Eternal Plan Mark E. Petersen 716
Patterns of Family Life and Organization Lucile Dimond Smith 722
A Permanent Home Norma Dee Ryan 729
Hands Across a Quilt Aleine M. Young 738
FICTION
The Spirit of Thanksgiving Helen H. Trutton 730
Out of the Wilderness — Chapter 4 Shirley Thulin 750
Hand to the Plow — Part VI (Conclusion) Ilene H. Kingsbury 756
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 714
Sixty Years Ago 734
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 735
Editorial: The Wages of Indulgence Marianne C. Sharp 736
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 762
Birthday Congratulations 792
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
The Joy of Working Caroline Eyring Miner 721
A Time for Giving May Walkenhorst 741
Recipes From Calgary Stake Virginia N. Myers 744
Two Handy Gifts for Christmas Adelle Ashby 746
Dorthea Strom Knits Sweaters for Missionaries 761
LESSONS FOR JANUARY
Theology — Rewards of Keeping the Commandments Roy W. Doxey 769
Visiting Teacher Messages — 'Thou Shalt Not Idle Away Thy Time"
Christine H. Robinson 775
Work Meeting — The Latter-day Saint Home Is Well Organized — Part IV
Virginia F. Cutler 777
Literature — OHver Wendell Holmes, Amiable Amateur Briant S. Jacobs 779
Social Science — Divine Law and Human Welfare (Continued) Ariel S. BalUf 784
POETRY
October — Frontispiece Dorothy J. Roberts 713
Autumn Pageant, by Evelyn Fjeldsted, 721; Tweed Time Again, by Maude Rubin, 740; In
bummers Wake, by Eva Willes Wangsgaard, 745; New Design, by Lucille R Perry 755-
Indian Summer Song, by Viola Ashton Candland, 760; Interlude, by Thelma J. Lund, 774;
Waiting by Gladys Hesser Burnham, 776; Dusk, by Carolyn Despain, 790; Grandmother's
Quilts, by Zara Sabm 191.
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Qosfel jKestoration -
Part of the Eternal Plan
Elder Mark E. Petersen
Oi the Council oi the Twelve
AS children of God we lived in As the human race began to grow,
his presence before the world Satan came among them, and sowed
was formed. The earth was seeds of disbelief. He taught them
created as a home for us. Adam to love darkness better than light,
and Eve were sent here first, and and as he did so an apostasy from
through them we, the rest of the the truth developed. Many fought
human race, were destined to be against God. Always there was the
born. faithful group, but many drifted
The purpose of our coming into away into error and sin.
mortality was to obtain flesh and The apostasy developed so fast
bone bodies, so essential to our and so far that in the days of Enoch
progress, and to be placed here in the Lord called him to bring the
a probationary life in which we people back from their disobedience,
could prove our worthiness to come So evil were they that they at-
back into our Father's presence, for tempted to slay Enoch, but the Lord
it was his desire that we develop and protected him.
become like unto him ^j^^ Lord was determined to save
In order to have Adam and Eve ^-^ |^ -^ ^^ ^^^1^ ^^^ ^^^^^^
and their children clearly under- . i{jj^
stand their relationship to the t^ . r ,^ i • r ^^
Almighty, it was necessary that God ^ut many of them, having fallen
appear to them and talk with them ?^^y /o far, had lost their true
face to face, so that they could see know edge of God Therefore, that
him, hear him, and know him. knowledge had to be restored once
They were commanded to wor- aga;n, /"d so God appeared to and
ship him, and to make their worship "^'^ed and talked with his servant
intelligent, they were permitted to Enoch. It was a new revelation of
see and talk with him. ^od in that day It was another
It is interesting to note that God ^"^mpt of the Lord to ca 1 his
even appeared to the first murderer, P^^P^e back to the way of truth.
Cain, and talked with him face to Angels were sent to help him as
face after his crime. Not even Cain part of this new revelation of God
and his children — banished as they in his day.
were into the land of Nod — would Enoch told the people of this
have any excuse for not serving God, new appearance of the Lord. Said
for the Lord did appear to and talk he: "I saw the Lord and he stood
with Cain. before my face, and he talked with
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me even as a man talketh one with
another, face to face."
As a result of his labors, a great
conversion took place among the
honest in heart, all of w^hom were
gathered together into the city of
Enoch and were called Zion, the
pure in heart.
But there were many who rebelled
and continued in their apostasy.
Enoch wept for them, and the heav-
ens wept.
When Enoch and his city were
taken into heaven, only a few faith-
ful were left remaining on the earth.
The apostasy continued until the
time of Noah. Again, the Lord at-
tempted to call his people back,
once again by a personal revelation
of himself.
JUST as he had appeared to
Adam, to Seth, to Cain, to
Enoch, so he now appeared to Noah
and walked and talked with him, in
what was a new revelation of God
for that day. Mankind could not
have excuse, for God personally
came to earth and made himself
known. It was another attempt to
stave off further apostasy, and to
bring the people back to the knowl-
edge of God.
But the people still rebelled. The
Lord gave them 120 years in which
to repent, but they would not. Noah
preached with power, but they re-
sisted him. ''There were giants in
the earth in those days," and they
sought Noah to take away his life,
and the Lord warned that ''My spirit
shall not always strive with man."
"And it came to pass that Noah
continued his preaching unto the
people, saying: Hearken, and give
heed to my words; Believe and re-
pent of your sins and be baptized
in the name of Jesus Christ, the Son
of God, even as our fathers, and ye
shall receive the Holy Ghost, that
ye may have all things made mani-
fest; and if ye do not this, the floods
will come in upon you."
But the scripture says "they
hearkened not," and Noah's "heart
was pained that the Lord had made
man on the earth."
So great was the apostasy that
"The earth also was corrupt before
God, and the earth was filled with
violence. And God looked upon
the earth, and, behold, it was cor-
rupt; for all flesh had corrupted his
way upon the earth."
So came the flood, and Noah and
his family — eight souls — were
saved, together with the living crea-
tures they had taken with them into
the ark.
But the Lord was not to give up.
He was ready to start a new dispen-
sation on the earth with Noah and
his family.
To make certain that they under-
stood the gospel, and knew God,
the Lord appeared, and walked and
talked with Noah, and gave him
commandments. Again, the Lord
was granting unto man a new reve-
lation of himself as a means of con-
vincing them of the truth of the
gospel.
But it was not long until sin again
overcame much of the righteousness
of Noah's family. As new genera-
tions came, they, too, drifted away;
they, too, began to apostatize.
This new apostasy continued to
the days of Abraham, who, in speak-
ing of his own family said, "My
fathers having turned from their
righteousness and from the holy
commandments which the Lord
their God had given unto them, un-
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to the worshiping of the gods of
the heathen, utterly refused to
hearken to my voice/'
Abraham's own father was an
idolator.
But the Lord appeared to Abra-
ham in that time of idolatry, giving
to him the true knowledge of the
living God, despite the apostasy
even in Abraham's own family.
God walked and talked with
Abraham, as he did also with his
son Isaac and with Jacob.
Evidently there were few faithful
believers in the day of Jacob, for
when he and his family went to
Egypt to avoid the consequences of
the famine, there were but ''three
score and ten" to go.
The Israelites multiplied rapidly
in Egypt, and by the time they had
spent 400 years in that land they
were numerous. But 400 years in
Egypt — a land of idolatry — took
their toll in a loss of faith among the
Israelites, who began to follow the
ways of their captors.
Israel began to apostatize again.
Many of them adopted the ways and
the religion of the Egyptians and
departed from the true faith.
The Lord had a great destiny for
Israel, but he could not work it out
with them in a state of apostasy. So
he raised up Moses to bring them
out of Egypt, and lead them to the
promised land.
God knew how far they had de-
parted from the truth, and endeav-
ored to bring them back.
As was the case with earlier simi-
lar apostasies, only a restoration of
the truth would overcome error. So
God gave to Israel of that day an-
other — and to them a new — reve-
lation of himself.
Moses walked and talked with
him. Seventy of the elders of Israel
went into the mount where they
beheld the Lord in person, and
even ate and drank in his presence.
They could testify of him to the
rest of the people.
The Ten Commandments were
given. The mighty sequence on Mt.
Sinai took place, much to the fright
of the faithless and unbelieving, and
finally the law was given.
It all was a new revelation of God
to these wayward people. It was
another attempt of the Lord to save
them, and he provided this new
revelation as the means of doing so.
Time went on. As the Israelites
entered the promised land they
pledged their allegiance to the Lord,
and for a time kept his command-
ments. But again apostasy devel-
oped among them. Many were
faithful, but many were not. Proph-
ets arose among them, such as
Elijah, Elisha, and Jeremiah, in the
midst of apostasy, warning them of
destruction if they would not repent.
Captivity came to them as a result
of their rebellion against God and
his prophets, some of whom they
killed, others they put in prison.
Part of the apostasy was a chang-
ing of the law of the Lord in that
day on the part of the learned
among them. This led the people
farther than ever from the Lord.
r) Y the time of John the Baptist,
they had drifted far, and he
endeavored by his preaching to
draw them back to the Lord. Again
but few responded.
When Jesus came he opened the
dispensation of the meridian of
time. As Paul expressed it: ''God,
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who at sundry times and in divers
manners spake in times past unto
the fathers by the prophets, hath in
these last days spoken unto us by
his Son."
It was another new revelation of
God, for Jesus, as Paul explained,
was the ''brightness of his [the
Father's] glory, and the express im-
age of his person/'
Truly the coming of Christ was a
new revelation of God to the people
of that day, and it was an effort
of the Almighty to once again draw
his people away from apostasy and
sin, and back to the true work of
God.
Jesus preached throughout Pales-
tine for three years. Throngs fol-
lowed him. At one time he fed
five thousand, at another time four
thousand. But apostasy took place
even in his own day. Early in his
ministry, as recorded in the sixth
chapter of John, a great falling
away took place, so great that he
turned to the twelve and asked if
they, too, would leave him. Then
it was that Peter replied for the
group and said, 'Tord, to whom
shall we go? Thou hast the words
of eternal life."
When the arrest and crucifixion
came, the Lord's few followers were
scattered. Most of them fled. Even
Peter denied him.
A mere handful were present at
the time of the resurrection, and
when the day of Pentecost came,
only 120 — of all the thousands who
had followed him — assembled.
Filled with the Holy Ghost, and
with the power of the revelation of
God which had been provided
through the life and ministry, death
and resurrection of the Savior, the
Twelve carried on the ministry
against great odds.
At last apostasy came again, led
by bitter persecutions and encour-
aged by the Greek philosophers
who confused the people in doctrine,
by the sins of the people them-
selves, and the loss of divine author-
ity in the clergy.
This went from error to error,
until there was great disputation and
contention in the Church. Constan-
tine tried to correct it, but failed.
Finally, it was he who decided upon
the mistaken notion of God which
was handed down for years to come.
When the Protestant reforma-
tion came, new churches were
formed, new doctrines were ad-
vanced, and the apostasy grew.
But the Lord loved his modern
children as well as he had loved
his ancient ones, and he determined
to save them from the darkness of
spiritual bondage.
Again, there was only one way to
pierce the gloom and to correct the
false notions of God and religion
so widespread among the people,
and that was to give a new revela-
tion of himself to man.
There was much to do before the
second coming of Christ. The way
must be prepared. The true Church
must be brought back among men,
with the divine Priesthood to con-
duct its affairs.
A S the Lord raised up Moses for
his day, and Abraham for his,
so he raised up a new Prophet in
modern times to begin his work. He
prepared his mind and led him into
spiritual paths.
He inspired a little boy whom he
had sent unto the earth with a great
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mission. The boy was confused, as
was his family, when they hstened
to the contending preachers of the
day. They did not know which
church was right.
This boy, Joseph Smith, was
guided by the Lord to read in James:
''If any of you lack wisdom, Jet him
ask of GodJ'
This Joseph determined to do.
Going into the woods near his
home, he knelt in humble prayer,
asking for guidance. Which church
should he join?
In answer to his prayer, the Father
and the Son, God the Eternal
Father, and Jesus Christ the Savior,
appeared to him there in western
New York, and gave him direction.
It was no dream. It was not even
a vision in the usually accepted defi-
nition of the term. It Was a Great
Reality.
God came down from heaven and
appeared here in the United States
in modern times to a modern boy.
So likewise did the Savior, Jesus
Christ.
It was as real as the appearance
of God to Moses, and for the same
purpose. It was a new revelation
of God to man — given as a means
of bringing salvation to those who
would follow the Lord in sincerity
and truth.
As was the case in Moses' day, so
in our day, this new revelation did
not end with one appearance. It
included setting up an organization
through which God could do his
work.
As the Lord established his laws
and practices and his Church organ-
ization in the days of Moses, as he
did likewise in the days of Peter and
Paul, so in our day this new revela-
tion of God included setting up his
Church on earth again.
It was part of the great divine
plan.
This modern appearance of the
Lord was not merely in answer to
the prayer of a little boy seeking
guidance.
That prayer was the immediate
act which God used to open his new
and modern dispensation, fulfilling
the predictions of the prophets of
old.
This dispensation is different from
all previous dispensations which had
been given to combat apostasy
throughout the history of the world.
It is different in that all others
ended in one form of apostasy or
another.
This one will not end in apostasy.
This new dispensation will continue
on until the coming of Christ. The
gospel will not be taken away from
those who now are its custodians,
nor will it be given to another peo-
ple.
It will remain on the earth and
grow — even, as the prophet saw —
until it fills the whole earth.
This is the last dispensation, the
last time because it is in the last
days, preliminary to the coming of
the Savior.
The testimony of this dispensa-
tion is the same as all others before
it — God lives, he is our Father;
Jesus is the Christ; he is our Savior;
his Church is upon the earth, and
only through it can salvation come,
''for there is none other name under
heaven given among men, whereby
we must be saved."
Autumn Pageant
Evelyn F/eldsted
Yellow leaves are turning somersaults,
Across the lawn and down the walk.
Shadow silhouettes move listlessly,
With the gentle rhythm of the wind.
Like a stately ship at sea,
The grey hawk aerials his course.
With graceful might he disappears.
Upon the waves of sun-streaked clouds.
A banished little moon design —
A dandelion too late — alone,
Is hiding from the changing winds,
A refugee of golden light.
The chorus in the tree is gone.
One small note drifts through the sleepy calm,
A lonely sound and hesitant
As a dry weed shaken by the wind.
The reassurance of the hopes,
Disclosed in autumn's pageant ways,
Is challenging to unbelief.
Although these witnesses are brief.
The Joy of Working
Caroline Eyiing Miner
"I'D rather work at chemistry than eat. I really feel guilty about taking
money for a job I love to do so well!" I have heard my famous
scientist brother Henry make this statement many times. Fortunate in-
deed is the person who has found work to do that he loves.
The greater part of our lives is spent in work, and if we have enthusiasm
for it, and would rather do it than eat, we are going to live happy lives.
The chances are also that we are going to live successful lives, for we do
well the things we like to do.
My father loved horses and cattle. To ride the range in the lush pas-
ture land of Old Mexico, where the grass was tall and beautiful, was never
work in any sense of burden to him. He loved horses and cared for them
and rode until he was past eighty. Making cheese at the mountain ranch
on the Tanejo River was a sheer delight.
My mother's hands were never idle. She braided rag rugs, darned
stockings, knitted lace, or did some useful work almost every minute of
her so-called leisure hours.
''Life is joy when your work is well done, so pitch in, sons," said an
old poem I learned as a child. The world of work is an adventure, if our
minds are set to make it so.
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Calvin Smith; Lucile Dimond Smith, holding baby Wayne Smith; Mary Smith. Picture
taken about thirty-five years ago.
Patterns of
Family Life
and Orsranization
Lucile Dimond Smith
"Utah Mother" of 1962
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THE CALVIN S. SMITH FAMILY
Front row seated, left to right: Claudia Smith; Maurine Smith; Kathleen Smith.
Second row seated, left to right: Elizabeth Smith Wrathall; Mary Taylor Smith; Calvin S.
Smith; Lucile D. Smith; Susan Miller, granddaughter; Helen Smith Rabe.
Back row standing, left to right: Lucile Smith Hutchings; Nora Smith Grover; Virginia
Smith Scharffs; Margaret Smith Miller; Calvin Smith, Jr.; Wayne Smith.
James Dimond Smith and Mary Smith, deceased, are not in the picture.
Picture taken about six years ago.
A pattern for family living is like
a pattern for a dress. It is a
design, a way or mode of life
one selects to achieve a goal or an
objective. What one wants out of
life, what one values for himself and
his family, and how much one is
willing to sacrifice for his objective,
determine the pattern or design for
family life he will choose.
What is God's purpose in cre-
ating man? Different nations, dif-
ferent cidtures, and religions show
a marked divergence in their out-
look on life and life's purposes.
What constitutes the good life?
Primitive peoples are said to be
kindly and indulgent with their
children. National patterns among
the poor and the middle classes in
some nations are strict, authoritar-
ian, and harsh. They exploit the
children. One nation rejects the
family altogether as a means of sur-
vival.
Choosing a pattern of living is a
very complex problem. In choos-
ing a pattern for my family, I was
greatly influenced by the family liv-
ing in the home of my parents. They
were sincere, honest, industrious
Latter-day Saints. My father was a
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convert to the Chureh, an immi-
grant from England, and the first
bishop of Bcnnion Ward. My
mother was the daughter of a pio-
neer of 1847, and the first president
of Uintah Stake Relief Society. My
father's home and the pattern of
family life were based on the
Church principles of love and serv-
ice. My parents extended them-
selves, with their limited resources,
to give us every advantage of re-
ligious training and education. We
were a healthy, happy, integrated
group. We were given considera-
tion and respect. We loved each
other, worked, and co-operated to-
gether to make the most of our
resources.
In being mother to my family, I
have had in mind the fulfillment of
what I conceived to be woman's
noblest and most important func-
tion — having a family and rearing
the members of it so that each in-
dividual in it could find the greatest
happiness and satisfaction possible
out of life, and render the best serv-
ice of which he was capable. It is
my belief that woman finds her
greatest joy and reward, and per-
forms her most useful services to
God, her children, and her com-
munity in rearing a healthy family
of trained, useful citizens who find
joy and happiness in life and in
service to their fellow men.
The mother is the ''fountain of
hfe." It is she who is the most
important teacher, the example, the
stimulator for good, the protector
against evil and dissension, and the
guardian of peace. It is she who
must be responsive to the divine
purposes of God, and transplant
them into the daily living of all her
family. It is she who must seek to
understand and interpret the good
from former times, and the wor-
thv and enduring trends of the
changing present. She must be re-
sponsive to the moral and ethical
impulses of society, whether repre-
sented by the Church, the schools,
or bv society in general. The moth-
ers and fathers should be the major
line of defense in keeping the atmos-
phere of the home and of society in
conformity with accepted standards
of right and wrong.
'T^IIE unwritten code and the fam-
ily pattern for training our
children seem to be:
1. Our childien are God's giit to
us. They give purpose and meaning
to life. We accepted the responsi-
bility for rearing our children, edu-
cating them, and find our greatest
source of joy and happiness in work-
ing for and with them. It has been
my major responsibility.
2. J have tried to he patient and
understanding with my children in
order to keep the lines of communi-
cation open between them and me.
Anger, corporal punishment, con-
demnation, harsh criticism, tend to
close the lines of communication
between parents and children, and
prevent empathy and understanding.
I recall with resentment instances
of unmerited and what I thought
unjust punishment and criticism in
my own life. I have tried to estab-
lish a permissive environment for
our children, where they would feel
free to express their feelings, where
they could democratically experi-
ment, share, evaluate, and grow.
This was a major challenge. With
all my getting, I have tried to gain
understanding of them.
3. We have tried not to kill the
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child's interest by negation and
evasion. The children have all
wanted to help. We have encour-
aged them by giving them oppor-
tunity and by patiently teaching
them how to perform household
tasks most efficiently. If, with
patience, persistence, and love, you
can put a premium on individual
development, it pays a thousand-
fold. Sometimes it seems so much
easier to do the task than to teach
the child how to do it. I shall nev-
er forget Calvin sitting by the fire
trying to lace his shoes, with the
tearful lament: 'Tou always give me
the hard things to do." We tend
to forget the difficulties we had in
learning to do things when we were
small children.
4. We have tried to set a pattern
of orderliness in the home. To teach
children cleanliness and orderliness
is one of the difficult things to do.
Parents who succeed in this are the
envy of all their neighbors. Some
children must be reminded con-
tinuously to hang up their clothes,
to polish their shoes, to make their
beds, and clean the bathroom facili-
ties after they have used them.
Sometimes all it requires is a visit
to the home of a careless acquaint-
ance, and, by comparison, they feel
the need of maintaining the family
tradition of cleanliness and order.
Personally, I have been grateful
many times for the opportunity to
co-operate with the schools in teach-
ing the girls better home manage-
ment by planning to redecorate their
bedrooms, closets, or in the instal-
lation of the newer devices for hang-
ing clothes, caring for shoes, and
various storage items. Girls like
projects.
Every child needs a dresser and
a clothes closet, if possible, especial-
ly in the demanding adolescent pe-
riod. For the boys we bought a
small pants presser, particularly for
use in their pre-professional days
when clothes were at a premium but
had to be kept neat and clean. The
presser was used every day. It was
also a boon to the pleated-skirt girl,
who could not throw her skirt into
discard because it needed a pressing.
Once I watched with sadness the
collapse of a fine family. The
father had a keen sense of orderli-
ness. For years he poured his wages
into new furniture and new clothes
for his children. But the odds were
against him. The buttons were
never sewed back on. Stitches that
had become loosened were never re-
paired. The beds and overstuffed
furniture were mere trampolines.
Then he became discouraged.
When all members of a family
participate in planning and beautify-
ing the home, assuming responsi-
bility for decorating, painting, and
cleaning their rooms, one of the
problems of accepting and carrying
responsibility is on its way to a
solution.
5. I have not injected myself into
childish disputes. It seemed better
for the children to settle their own
disputes. I did not want to be a
referee. Intrusion was necessary
only to prevent injury or domineer-
ing.
6. We do not oveipwtect our
children. I would hesitate asking
special favors for them, from the
school or the Church. I would
rather expect them to stand on their
own feet. We have not encouraged
belligerency. It is better to pro-
mote a spirit of sharing, of give and
take.
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7. J have tiied to find constructive,
useful tasks to keep the children
growing; to expose them to good
books and music, to supply them
with attractive, appropriate recrea-
tion at home. Our home has been
available to their friends. I have
tried to lead the way, to encourage,
to motivate, to provide incentive, to
recognize their needs, and to co-
operate in providing for the needs.
I have hoped they would find pleas-
ure in their tasks. When we all
worked together at a job to be done,
I think they, as well as I, have found
real happiness. We all worked in
the fields together.
How to keep the children busy
was of constant concern. I have
struggled in my mind over and over
as I have said The Lord's Prayer,
''Lead us not into temptation, but
deliver us from evil,'* and tried to
make an interpretation for the bene-
fit of my children. It seemed espe-
cially important when companions
whom we knew did not have a good
background, would gravitate, day
after day, to our home. One would
fear they might undo all the patient
efforts of years of training. So the
children said I ''invented" work —
music to be practiced, books to be
read. The boys oiled the machinery
so many times it was almost bathed
in oil. They constructed cars out of
discarded motors. (That took con-
siderable time, and brought a bevy
of little boys.) We cut down trees
for the winter firewood. A lathe
and jigsaw in the basement made
furniture and playthings for the
smaller children, and provided hours
of recreation in cutting molds and
patterns. My husband accumulated
a fair-sized library of plans for chil-
dren's projects: boats, kites, me-
chanical toys, furniture. This library
was kept in the working area. The
boys made their own play equip-
ment: a Ferris wheel, teeters, tricky
bars, swings — some on pulleys that
extended the length of the yard —
sand boxes, and dog houses.
8. I wanted my children to learn
to play one or more musical instru-
ments. I set a schedule, often at
five in the morning, and until late
evening. Scarcely a day passed that
I did not practice with some of
them. Stringed instruments are so
difficult to learn by oneself, so I
studied the violin to help them.
They have all co-operated with me.
I noticed that if I played music,
a rhythmic tune or melody, and left
the music open on the piano, that,
one by one, the children would try
it out and soon learn it. They liked
melody. Eventually, they would
want to play it better than L Music,
to be enjoyed, cannot be a static
thing. It is movement, joy, exuber-
ance. That is one reason I have
wanted each child to be a part of
an orchestra or choir. I am amazed
at the superior musical training
young people are receiving in the
schools. If they will only qualify,
they will have one more anchor for
rich, purposeful living.
9. We have made regular attend-
ance at school important. There
has been little or no truancy on the
part of our children.
10. "When I grow up, I want to
he just hke Papa J' So said a small
boy of our group. When questioned
what he had in mind, he said, 'Tapa
never wastes a minute." Truly the
eyes of our children are always evalu-
ating. They will be our judges now
and later. We have tried to be
forthright and honest — no idle
PATTERNS OF FAMILY LIFE AND ORGANIZATION
727
promises or threats, and no evasions.
Integrity and honesty and truthful-
ness arc important. Our children
and we must face the realities of
life. We have tried to treat eaeh
child fairlv, and to deal justly with
them, and to encourage them to be
just with one another.
11. I have Jed the way; I have
hied to set the example. I have not
forced the children to accompany
me to church. They have usually
followed because they have found
friendship and companionship there.
Love and persuasion — not with a
strap or a stick, not with coercion,
but by patient insistence and firm-
ness — have usually won out.
A mother should not be too sure
of herself; she must keep flexible.
She should listen to her children.
She may be wrong like the little
boy's mother, when he said, ''If my
mother savs it is so, it is so, even
if it isn't so." The child may be
right. Unjust punishment leads to
resentment, and blocks communica-
tion and understanding.
Vl'/'HEN I decided to make home-
making a life's work and pro-
fession, my husband concurring, I
had some advantages. We were able
to select a home site with enough
area for home, garden, and domestic
animals, and possibility for expan-
sion. In the absence of zoning
laws, we could finish our home as
money permitted. We have kept
to the policy of staying out of debt.
Our home has never had a mort-
gage, although it has taken twenty
years to build, on a pay-as-you-go
basis. Thus we could put a major
emphasis on education for husband
and children.
Both boys and girls were encour-
aged to select their vocations as
early as possible, with the help of
intelligence, aptitude, and interest
tests, in order that high school and
college time might not be wasted
in a trial and error selection of vo-
cational objectives.
Each of our children has learned
to milk cows, care for chickens, run
a tractor, to plow, harrow, and culti-
vate before he learned to drive a
car. They have hauled hay, com-
bined grain, and irrigated. Each girl
has learned from experts to cook
and to make her own clothing.
Through 4-H clubs and woolgrow-
ers contests, they have had oppor-
tunity to win firsts and grand
championships in clothing at county
and State fairs. Each child has
learned to play one or more musical
instruments. All the children use
the typewriter, and have had some
training in bookkeeping and ac-
counting. They have gone to po-
litical meetings and participated in
political campaigns.
We were greatly blessed in that
our children have been normal
physically and mentally. We do not
wish to give the impression that
they were all little angels and never
got into any mischief. They did as
all normal children do. They learned
to swim in the dirty waters of the
canals. They played with the
neighborhood children. Wayne and
his friend shot the neighbor's ducks.
He traded two fine turkeys for some
hair oil, with a salesman who con-
vinced him he was going bald. Eliza-
beth spent two years in bed with
rheumatic fever. Experiences such
as these have made life exciting and
uncertain.
And so it has been a busy life,
trying to fill every minute with
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Church, school, and civic services,
when needed. All the children are
grown now. Claudia graduated from
high school this year with honors.
She is still with us. The others have
graduated into responsibilities of
their own. We have occasional
family reunions with the children
and grandchildren. We rejoice in
the family solidarity, their interest in
each other, and their friendship. So
far they have shown no disposition
to depart from the way in which
they were brought up. Sorrow and
tragedy have come into our lives,
but there has been an acceptance of
the inevitable, and no vain, useless
lamenting.
As far as we know, there is no
truer, finer, more satisfying purpose
in life than that accepted by the
Church as revelation from God:
Man is that he may have joy in
abundant living, here and hereafter.
Co-operation, service, industry, in-
tegrity, frugality, compassion, and
neighborliness beget love and are
the elements of happy living.
In our family there has been a
unity of purpose. Differences in
patterns of family living have been
talked over together, with the same
goal in mind. For example, we
have been unable to provide a week-
ly or monthly allowance for each
child, as we should have liked, but
we have allocated the income so as
to satisfy the most important needs
of each child. Where wages would
have been paid for farm and other
work, the children have been re-
imbursed. What a child earned was
his own to use as he desired. One
cannot have financial maturity or
security unless one has a chance to
handle money of his own.
The gospel objectives of life have
been our goals. The patterns of
family life we have chosen, often
after trial and error and study, have
been designed or selected to achieve
the gospel goal of joy in life for us
and our children. The happiness
and joy in life our children achieve,
and the measure of their service and
usefulness in their communities, are
the criteria of our success.
Cloud Cover
Betty G. Spencer
T^HE day was gloomy! Clouds covered the lofty mountains that were usually framed
^ by my picture window. Yet, even though I could not see the tops that dreary
morning, I knew those granite sentinels were there.
That morning was a simile to life. Often, we find life's issues obscured by clouds
of our own making.
When we fail to do our best or evade our responsibilities, excusing ourselves with
flimsy, contrived reasons to justify our actions, we are covering the truth with clouds.
Beneath the clouds the truth remains — ready, waiting, to guide us in righteousness.
Just as the sun's warm rays dispel the clouds on the mountains, our willingness
to accept the truths of life, will sweep away the clouds which have hidden the truths
from our view.
cA permanent cHome
Norma Dee Ryan
''We moved into our house when
we were first married and have Hved
there ever since."
Hearing these words expressed at
various times has, in the past, filled
me with much envy, for due to my
husband's military service and, sub-
sequently, his occupation as a com-
mercial pilot, we have had to move
many times.
To hear an acquaintance relate
the history of a certain tree planted
in her yard several years ago, or to
have pointed out to me the thrill a
friend has had in remodeling or
adding to a beloved home, has been
disheartening to me, when I can
barely recall some of the apartments
and houses we have lived in across
the country.
This thing that I envied for so
long is a feeling of permanence, and
I used to think that the only way
to find it would be to stay in one
spot, one home. Then one day I
realized that all along I had been
enjoying another kind of perma-
nence which is stronger and more
stable than any home. And that is
the Church.
When moving to a new location
you must adjust to the climate, the
housing, the schools, but when you
go to Church, whether it be a large
chapel or a small branch of a few
members meeting in a rented hall,
you are immediately at home. There
is no adjustment to be made here!
This is the same Church you have
always known, the same teachings,
and the same procedures. It is the
one, steady, dependable ''holding-
on-place," while you feel your way
into your new surroundings.
A S the mother in your family you
can attend Relief Society, where
you will feel welcome at once, for
the women there will always seem
the same as those you have known
all your life. Here you continue,
without interruption, the course you
were following in your previous
ward. The strength you derive from
these associations and the lessons
presented in Relief Society, will
equip you better emotionally to be
able to help the rest of your family
make adjustments to their new en-
vironment.
The best antidote for any home-
sickness or instability you may feel is
to plunge immediately into the
Church work that is familiar to you.
I may never have a chance to re-
turn to Big Spring, Texas, to see if
the flowers I planted survived the
dust storms, and I know that at least
one house we have lived in has been
torn down, but the association I
had with other Church members
and the testimonies I remember
which helped strengthen my own,
are more valuable to me than any
flowers.
Our nomadic life may come to a
halt, and we may yet be able to
watch the small trees we plant grow
into big ones, which will be wonder-
ful, of course, but I am glad to know,
should we have to move again, that
for a sense of belonging, a feeling of
permanence, we can always depend
on the true, reliable permanent
Church.
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The
Spirit of
Thanks giving
Helen H. Tiutton
4 4 rp HERE/' Cleta said aloud,
I sticking the' last chrysan-
themum in the vase, "they
may not look florist quality, but they
are decorative." Lucky, at least a
few stragglers stood the ordeal, she
thought, of these crisp November
nights.
She moved to the v^indow and
watched the big fleecy snowflakes
swirl to the sidewalk, then melt
away. This would be the first
Thanksgiving she and the children
would be alone. It had always been
such a special day in the family.
Kent had felt that they should
spend the day filled with the tradi-
tions and lore of that first Thanks-
giving, and she had agreed. "It
helps the children appreciate their
great heritage," he had often said,
"and reminds us all to give thanks
for our blessings."
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Her thoughts were interrupted by
her young son Danny as he came
dashing into 'the room carrying his
snowsuit. "Mommy, help me put
this on. I can't do it alone."
She turned from the window and
took the coat. "Of course, dear."
"It's too little," he said, as she
tugged to get his arm into the tight
sleeve.
"I know, but it will have to do
this year. We'll manage it some-
how."
"Why?" he asked.
"Well, it's quite simple. We
haven't the money to buy you an-
other one. Come on, darling." She
gave him a slight shove after zipping
the suit. "We have shopping to do,
and I want to stop by and pay Mrs.
Larson."
"You had better hurry," he yelled
to his two sisters in the next room,
''Mommy and I are both ready."
"So are we." Dawn and Heather
appeared in the doorway, with
Dawn, as usual, the spokesman for
both of them. ''We've been ready
longer than you."
Cleta managed a smile in spite
of the loneliness that had clung to
her all morning, as she reached
down and took Danny's hand. "You
really do look rather 'poured into
that suit, but you look precious."
"What's precious?" he asked
seriously.
She squeezed his hand. "That I
love you. Come on, let's go. Our
insurance check will be here today.
We have things to do."
All the way to town, she listened
to the girls in the back seat chatter
about their plans. "We will do the
same things as always, won't we,
Mother?" Dawn asked, "I mean the
big dinner and program?"
"Of course," Cleta said, "as
always."
TZENT would want it that way,
she knew that. I'll read the
same story, she thought, of that first
Thanksgiving. Danny will stop me
often to ask questions and add his
ideas about the friendly Indians who
had joined in that first gathering.
Dawn and Heather had asked the
same questions when they were four
and a half.
Then the story would be over,
and everyone would take a turn
telling what they were especially
thankful for — and, in the past,
Kent had closed the little program
by reading Psalm loo from the
Bible.
"Daddy won't be home for
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Thanksgiving?" Danny asked, look-
ing up at her. ''Will he?"
''No, dear," she answered.
"Fll miss him."
"Danny!" Heather leaned over
the seat, and took his arm. "Be
quiet."
They were at the post office now.
Cleta stopped the car, and slipped
an arm around her young son.
"We'll all miss him, Danny, but
we'll have the best Thanksgiving we
can. And, in the meantime, you
stay here with the girls. Fll be right
back
"All right. Mommy," he said. "I
won't move."
She reached in her purse for the
key to her box, and walked quickly
up to number 218. But even before
she stuck her hand in the box, she
could see it was empty. "That can't
be," she said aloud. "It's always
here."
Cleta hurried to the window and
spoke to the man at the general
delivery department. "Is the mail
on time?"
"Yes, Ma'am," he said, without
looking up. "It has all been boxed."
"I was just thinking, my letter
might be mislaid, or placed in the
wrong box." She tried to appear
calm. "It's always here on this date."
He raised his head and looked at
her. "Not likely. Ma'am."
"Are the trains running behind
schedule?" she tried again.
"I guess so, back East. Been some
bad storms according to the papers."
She thanked him and left. There
was no need going to the grocery
store now. She had no money for
extra groceries.
At the door, she paused, watching
a group of youngsters along the
street tossing the snowballs at one
another. They were having such
fun. Dawn, Heather, and Danny
were enjoying themselves from the
safety of the car.
"Oh, Kent, what shall I do?" she
breathed softly.
TTEATHER came running to
meet her when she started
down the steps of the post office.
"Is anything wrong. Mother?" she
asked anxiously.
Cleta didn't answer until they
were both settled back in the car,
and then she said as calmly as she
could, "Our insurance check didn't
come, children."
"Why?" Danny asked.
"The check comes from Phila-
delphia. Trains are running behind
because of bad storms," she said.
"What will we do, Mother?"
Dawn asked.
"Do?" she said, and then she re-
membered the ten dollars she hadn't
given to Mrs. Larson yet. If she
used it today, and paid her when
the insurance check came, the chil-
dren wouldn't be disappointed. It
was just too much to dampen their
expectations by telling them there
would be no big Thanksgiving din-
ner. Only — she had promised
Mrs. Larson she would pay her to-
day.
"Can we still have the story.
Mommy?" Danny scooted over
against her when she started the
car. "Can we. Mommy?"
"Yes, dear."
"Who will read Daddy's part?"
Heather asked quietly. "I know
part of it."
"We'll see," Cleta answered
absentmindedly, "later."
THE SPIRIT OF THANKSGIVING
733
If she asked Mrs. Larson if she
minded waiting until her check
came, naturally she would insist on
waiting, even if she needed the
money badly. Mrs. Larson was like
that. She was elderly, and had very
little to live on. Still the chil-
dren. . . . Decisions, decisions, how
she wished Kent were here. He
always knew the right thing to do.
They were nearing Mrs. Larson's
little cottage now; she slowed
down, and then suddenly stopped
the car.
'Til only be a minute," she said,
climbing out before she had a
chance to change her mind. ''We
owe Mrs. Larson, and I think we
should pay her — even if it means
no turkey dinner tomorrow. Don't
you think?"
The children looked at her but
said nothing, not even Danny.
Quickly she left the car and walked
up the steps and rang the doorbell.
Mrs. Larson answered the door,
smiling broadly. "Hello, Mrs. Thorn-
son. Come in."
"I brought the ten dollars I owe
you."
"Thank you, dear. I have my bag
all packed. When you said you
would bring the money over, I
called my son and told him that I
could come and spend Thanksgiving
with his family."
"Oh, that's wonderful. And you
were counting on this?" she asked,
handing Mrs. Larson the money.
"Yes."
"Well, I'm certainly glad I didn't
forget to come by," she said with
relief. "Have a good trip. Now
I must run."
"Goodbye, Mrs. Thomson, and
thanks so much."
Snow was sifting silently down
from the sky as she walked slowly
back to the car. She was so thank-
ful she had paid Mrs. Larson. But
now she must face the children.
They would be brokenhearted. She
didn't blame them. She had failed
them on this first Thanksgiving
without Kent.
"Heather really can say part of
Psalm loo," Dawn called out when
she neared the car. "Want to hear
it. Mother?"
"Very much," she said, fighting
back tears. "I'm listening."
"I know this part," Heather said
quietly. "Enter into his gates with
thanksgiving, and into his courts
with praise: be thankful unto him,
and bless his name."
"Wonderful!" Cleta said. "Then
you most certainly may do Daddy's
part." She hesitated, looking from
one to the other. Weren't they go-
ing to complain? She waited. The
children were still making plans.
Finally she said, "You don't mind
the delay in our Thanksgiving din-
ner?"
Serious Heather wrapped her
arms around Cleta's neck. "No,
Mother," she said. "You and Daddy
always said that wasn't the impor-
tant part of Thanksgiving. Didn't
you?"
Cleta's heart was too full to speak
for several moments. When she
could control her emotions, she said,
"You really do understand the true
spirit of Thanksgiving. Our precious
little family — Daddy would be so
proud of you, and so am I."
Sisty Years Ago
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, October 1902
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
INTERESTING VISITS AND MEETINGS — Colonia Juarez, Mexico: Early
Thursday morning, June 27, Brother Edward Eyring, home missionary. President Mary
B. Eyring and Eunice S. Harris, in the interest of the Rehef Society, and Garoline
Eyring, first counselor in the Primary, left their homes in Golonia Juarez, to visit the
colonies in the mountains. A pleasant journey of about eight miles brought us to
the mouth of the canyon, where the change of scenery, combined with the cool atmos-
phere made the ascent of the mountain indeed pleasant. . . . We had a magnificent
view of the beautiful valley 1520 feet below . . . and as far as the eye could see . . .
rolhng hills interlaced with canyon gorges and covered with a forest of pine, oak, and
juniper. . . . We continued our journey through the most subhme mountain scenery
to Pacheco. . . . We met with the Relief Society, then continued our journey to
Garcia ... and met with the Relief Society. . . . Early Saturday morning we resumed
our journey to Chuichupa, located in an open valley forty miles south of Garcia.
On Sunday we met in a special meeting with the Relief Society and Primary. ...
— Mary B. Eyring
UTAH WOMAN'S PRESS CLUB: Still all the beautiful things have not been
written, the world of thought opens wider and wider as we advance step by step and
behold the wonders contained therein. Then, my comrades of that world, press on
and on. ...
Come Inspiration, flame divine,
My thoughts attune, thy fervor lend.
Unveil the past, o'er the future shine.
Ah! Memory come, be thou my friend. . .
— Lydia D. Alder
A WORK OF ART: By courtesy of Miss Ada Patterson we have received the
new book . . . entitled "By the Stage Door." . . . There is a great deal of character
study m the work, it is a book to make one think deeply. It might easily be called
a psychological study. . . . The language is delicate and refined and one need not be
afraid to trust the reading of it to an innocent, inexperienced girl; in fact, the book
is good enough, in language and sentiment, and sufficiently beautiful in outward ap-
pearance to be placed on the drawing room table in any home, be it cottage or
palatial mansion. ...
— Book Review
A WOMAN MISSIONARY — in the Society Islands — 1850: The king is a
very friendly man, agreeable in conversation. Is pleased with the American elders be-
cause of their industrious habits. He prides himself in doing more work than any
other native man. He is subject in his official capacity to the French Governor.
On the 27th we attended the morning service in the House of Prayer. After the close
Hoatan, our fatherly chief, addressed the people. . . . The sea abounds with luxuries,
and the land teems with good things. . . . The north star we cannot see, the grand
cross IS in the firmament over us. To the same God we pray and invoke blessings.
— Mrs. Addison Pratt
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Woman's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
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r)R. FRANCES OLDHAM KEL-
SEY, a specialist on drugs, who
serves with the United States Food
and Drug Administration, is credited
with preventing many babies —
possibly thousands — from being
born with deformities. She was in-
strumental in prohibiting the mar-
keting of Thalidomide, a sleeping
pill linked to deformities in the
newborn. For this achievement, she
was presented with the Govern-
ment's highest civilian citation for
distinguished service, at the White
House, August 7, 1962.
M
RS. MAUDE FRAZIER, a
legislator of long standing from
Clark County, Nevada, and also an
educator, has been appointed by
Governor Grant Sawyer to serve out
the remainder of the term of the
late Rex Bell as lieutenant governor.
CPANISH girls are attending co-
educational institutions more
and more, breaking away from
strictly Spanish customs, and adopt-
ing the styles of dress and manners
current on the Continent. Inter-
ested in the pohtical future of Spain,
they are looking forward to greater
freedom.
T^HE following facts, reported by
the United States National
Committee on the Status of Wom-
en, are of interest. Women make
good physicians, and the United
States should have more of them.
About twenty-four million women in
Sweden are working, approximately
one third of the working popula-
tion. There are more women
pharmacists and dentists in France
than in most other countries.
•fV/rADAME BARBARA KARIN-
SKA, in her seventies, person-
ally designs ballet costumes exclu-
sively for choreographer George
Balanchine, but she heads a com-
pany which produces costumes for
wide distribution, including the en-
tire Metropolitan Opera cast —
heroes, villains, and choruses. Hers
is a difficult art. She says an act-
ress can just stand and look beau-
tifully garbed, but a ballet dancer
must still appear beautiful while
performing. Madame Karinska is
an American citizen who fled from
Russia in 1917. She received this
year the eleventh annual Capezio
Award for her contribution to dance
culture.
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OCTOBER 1962
NO. 10 1
The Wages of Indulgence
A woman of achievement wrote in
her memoirs that, probably,
the one thing that contributed to
her success and kept her from ''early
ruin/' was the fact that she grew
up during the depression years of
the '30's and her parents couldn't
give her money they didn't have.
At least in her own mind, she be-
lieved that her parents would have
granted her every wish and ended
up by spoiling her, as they took away
her incentives to work for her own
desires and her development
through working for her own ad-
vancement.
It seems difficult for some parents
to say no to their children, even
when it is a matter of teaching
obedience to law. Because of the
pleadings of one young boy who
was not old enough to obtain a
driver's license, his father allowed
him to drive, resulting in an acci-
dent of serious proportions. In
walking through a supermarket, it
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is interesting to observe the behav-
ior of children in different family
groups. Some mothers are besieged
with requests which almost end up
as commands. "I want that, why
can't I have it? Mary's mother
bought her one." The mother's
initial refusal often ends up in a
grudging yes, if the child continues
begging long and loud enough. The
children of another family may look
just as longingly at the merchandise
on display, but ask for nothing. It
seems fairly obvious that the two
family patterns are developing in
different directions.
An indulgent parent or grandpar-
ent can undermine a child's sense
of values and the worth which he
places upon his possessions. Con-
trast, in some instances, the care
which a child gives to a bicycle for
which he helped earn money to
the care given by a child who was
given a bicycle as soon as he ex-
pressed a desire for one.
Belle S. Spafford, President • Marianne C. Sharp, First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen, Second Counselor • Hulda Parker, Secretory-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart
Edith S. Elliott
Florence J. Madsen
Leone G. Layton
Blanche B. Stoddard
Evon W. Peterson
Aleine M. Young
Josie B. Bay
Alberta H. Christensen
Mildred B. Eyring
Charlotte A. Larsen
Edith P. Backman
Winniefred S.
Manwaring
Elna P. Haymond
Annie M. Ellsworth
Mary R. Young
Mary V. Cameron
Afton W. Hunt
Wealtha S. Mendenhall
Pearle M. Olsen
Elsa T. Peterson
Fanny S. Kienitz
Elizabeth B. Winters
LaRue H. Resell
Jennie R. Scott
Alice L. Wilkinson
LaPriel S. Bunker
Irene W. Buehner
Irene C. Lloyd
Hazel S. Cannon
Hazel S. Love
By the time a child has matured,
the costs of his wants have increased
materially. If he has had every wish
for expensive toys granted him dur-
ing his childhood, he may be unable
to accept a denial for a car of his
own and become resentful. Undis-
ciplined forces may build up to a
teenage explosion. Constant indul-
gence will have contributed to his
lack of appreciation of true values
and disregard for the feelings of
others.
Today one even hears of some
young married couples who do not
accept their status as a mature fam-
ily, but continue to look to their
parents to supply their needs —
young wives who do not wish to
wash, iron, and cook; young hus-
bands who expect a new car and
better living quarters than they can
provide for themselves. Such an
outlook contributes to marital diffi-
culties.
The Lord's word "In the sweat
of thy face shalt thou eat bread,"
has never been abrogated, nor that
this earth life is a time of testing
and proving to see if one will obey
all the Lord's commandments.
It is natural for parents to wish
to help their children, but it is not
wise to help them to the extent of
indulging them, for parents cannot
shield their children from the con-
sequences of the weaknesses to
which indulgence gives rise.
A responsibility of parents is to
train their children to accept dep-
rivations and to stand firm in ad-
versity. Heartache comes to par-
ents whose children have been giv-
en a shifting foundation which
crumbles when trials and troubles
beset them as they surely will. For
the Heavenly Father is no respecter
of persons, and each and every one
of his spiritual children will be tried
and proved according to God's in-
finite justice and wisdom.
-M. C. S.
737
Hands
Across
a Quilt
Alefne M. Young
Member, General Board of Relief Society
President BelJe S. Spafford and
Sister Chiyuko Oko standing in
front of the Relief Society
Building, Salt Lake City, Utah.
HANDS across a quilt, as well as hands across the sea, is a wonderful
way of bringing us closer to our lovely sisters in faraway Japan.
Such was the feeling of Sister Chiyuko Oko, who left her home
in Tokyo last April to attend the General Conference of the Church, to
do some temple work, and to learn as much as she could about the
Relief Society, which is very dear to her.
The General Conference was a revelation to her, making her realize
the magnitude of the Church and that it is now world-wide, with people
from many countries meeting and worshiping together. She does not
speak the English language, but this did not deter her from accomplishing
her goals. Her Japanese sisters were happy to act as interpreters, and
many other members of the Church joined in making her visit most
enjoyable and profitable.
Sister Oko and her husband, who passed away about a year ago, were
previously members of the Buddhist religion, but, due to the kindness
shown her husband by Latter-day Saint servicemen when he was seeking
work, and to their invitations to attend the Latter-day Saint meetings of
the servicemen in Japan, they both received a firm testimony of the gospel
and were baptized in 1949. She said that they were impressed by the
friendly atmosphere of the meetings, the Word of Wisdom, and the
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Left to Tight: Mardis Motoki of the Dai-Ichi Branch Relief Society, Salt Lake City;
Anne Shino, Dai-Ichi Branch; Lily Shine, hostess for the quilting party, and Work
Director Counselor, Dai-Ichi Branch; Chiyuko Oko, work meeting leader, Tokyo North
Branch Relief Society, /apan; Aleine M. Young, member. General Board of Relief
Society.
belief in the work for the dead. Her great joy was that she was now able
to take her endowments and do some temple work.
She was the first native Relief Society president in Japan, and, at that
time, sent a beautiful Japanese doll to each member of the Relief Society
Presidency. When she visited the Relief Society Building, she was de-
lighted to see a doll in a case in the office of each member of the Presi-
dency. She said, ''It is like a dream come true to see these dolls displayed
in this beautiful building."
AT the present time Sister Oko is work meeting leader in the Tokyo
North Branch Relief Society of the Northern Far East Mission. She
reports that the sisters there are now working on their annual bazaar and
are making the same type of articles that the sisters are making in this
country, as well as some that are typically Japanese, such as kimonos and
zabatons.
Sister Oko was interested in every phase of the Relief Society as she
is anxious that meetings in her branch be carried on just as they are
throughout the rest of the world. She visited several ward meetings, a
bazaar, and a stake convention, where she observed the wonderful hand-
work of the sisters and found many suggestions to take back to her sisters
in Japan.
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After seeing the many beautiful quilts on display at the convention
and bazaar, and inasmuch as quilting has always been a tradition in Relief
Society, she was particularly anxious to learn to quilt so that she could
teach it to her sisters in the mission.
So arrangements were made by Sister Lily Shino, Work Director Coun-
selor of the new Dai-Ichi Branch of the Salt Lake Stake, to satisfy this
desire. She invited a group of sisters, who were also anxious to learn to
quilt, to her home for an old-fashioned quilting bee. Under the able
direction of Sister Mattie Stembridge of Grant Stake, they were taught
the art of putting a quilt on the frame and taking the small even stitches,
not forgetting to prick their fingers just a little to be sure that they had
sewed through both sides of the quilt. The sisters invited to learn with
Sister Oko were Mardis Motoki and Anne Shino, also members of the
Dai-Ichi Branch.
Sister Oko spent a great deal of time in the temple, visiting friends
and former missionaries, gaining information, and absorbing as much of
the spirit of the Church as possible. Her mission accomplished, she re-
turned to her own country in June.
Did those first eighteen members of the Female Relief Society of
Nauvoo realize that this great organization would bring sisters together
from all parts of the world in love and fellowship? Perhaps they did.
Could they foresee, however, that the sisters in this country would be
teaching an old American art to the sisters of a country where art is
thousands of years old? God moves in a mysterious way his wonders to
perform.
Tweed Time Again
Maude Rubin
The in-betweenness of the season now
Styles autumn tweed for mountain meadow-lands.
Each northern slope is nubbed with flecks of snow
And chilly wind whips loose the woodbine strands
To scarlet ravelings. . . ,
A flicker's wings
Weave rust through leafless woods, and pasture creeks
Are narrow tinsel threads; now gathering
For pinon nuts, in sudden vivid streaks
Of indigo, these raucous mountain jays
Are grumbling at the shortness of the days.
A time for
GIVING
May WdkenhoTst
Christmas is a time for giving — not only of gifts, but of oneself.
And what better way to express the thoughtfulness and spirit of the season
than by giving a gift you took the time and effort to make or decorate by
hand?
In addition to handmade gifts having more meaning than com-
mercial gifts, handmade articles can be economical as well. The cost of
materials is small, and you may find most of the necessary items already
on hand.
\ '/ ^1
For the Golfer
Create your own ''Golfie the Gloworm." The fun with this one is
in the packaging of golf balls. The price will depend on how much you
choose to pay for the balls. Stuff a white sock with six golf balls, tying
the sock between each ball with wool yarn. Insert tees for legs; tie a rib-
bon to make the neck; use gummed stars for eyes above a glued-on paper
mouth; and glittered pipe cleaners for feelers.
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For a Child's Desk
Use a small empty jar for creating
a paper-weight snowstorm. Set a
small plastic figure from the variety
store in a mound of plaster of Paris
the size of the jar neck. Glue the
set plaster figure to a washer cut
from an old inner tube the size of
the inside of the jar lid. Fill the
jar with water, adding one teaspoon
of moth flakes. Insert the figure
and screw the lid on tightly. Edge
the lid with decorative tape. Cost,
about fifty cents.
Knitting Bag for a Doll
Any little girl with a small ''teen-
age" doll would love to have a
miniature knitting bag which can
be made for no cost at all, provided
you saved the plastic container from
the last tooth brush you bought.
Using a razor blade, carefully cut
the container down to 2I/2" in
height. Work a hole in each side
with a hot needle or an ice pick for
attaching a yarn handle. Roll up
three tiny balls of yarn, tucking the
ends under securely. Push two
nails with small heads through the
yarn balls to represent knitting
needles, and place in the ''bag." Re-
place the plastic cap, and stand by
to watch a delighted face on Christ-
mas day.
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For a Convalescent Child
Cover a blank notebook with
brightly colored paper, bound with
decorative tape, giving the front a
personal inscription to start young
"wheels" in motion. Cost, less
than fifty cents.
For Little Learners
Trace around a child's hand,
allowing extra width for the thumb.
Use this pattern to trace and cut
four pieces of felt for ''Stop" and
''Go" mittens. Apply green letters
for "Go" to one piece, and red let-
ters for "Stop" to an opposite piece.
Join the pieces together on the ma-
chine or by hand using the blanket
stitch. These help a young child
to learn the traffic signals and colors.
Cost, about fifty cents.
A Bib for a Boy
Many instructions are given for
making bibs for girl babies, but
here's a bib idea just ioi hoys: Cut
a "V" in the center of the top and
bottom of a washcloth or piece of
terry toweling.
Bind the edges with bias tape,
and machine applique a folded strip
down the front, extending on each
side for ties. Stitch unfolded strips
1J/2" long on each side for "pock-
ets," and decorate the vest front
with small buttons. Cost, about
fifty cents.
Recipes From Calgary Stake
Submitted by Virginia N. Myers
President, Calgary Stake Relief Society
AT our Relief Society Convention in Calgary (Canada) Stake, we
served a sherbet which was so much enjoyed, and which received so
many compliments, that we thought the sisters throughout the Church
might like to have the recipe. Also, here in Canada, our weddings and
parties are not complete without dainty cakes and ''squares," as they are
called. Included here are several other choice recipes from our good
Canadian cooks.
Three-Fruit Sherbet
3 c. sugar i — 4 oz. bottle maraschino cherries,
3 lemons (juice of) quartered and drained
3 bananas, mashed 1 tall can evaporated milk {i^Yz ounces)
1 — 4 oz. can pineapple, crushed 1 c. whipping cream
milk to fill 4-quart freezer
Mix all ingredients and freeze in a 4-quart freezer.
Raspberry Squares
Vz c. butter 4 tbsp. raspberry jam
1 c. flour Cover with topping as follows
1 tsp. baking powder 1 c. sugar
Cream together and add: 1 tbsp. butter
1 egg 1 egg
1 tbsp. milk 2 c. coconut
Press batter in 8" x 8" pan and 1 tbsp. vanilla
spread with:
Bake at 325° for 25 minutes. Cut into i-inch squares.
— ^^^^^— ^— ^^^^^^^ Peca n Ro 1 1 s
Yz lb. butter 2 tsp. vanilla
1 c. powdered sugar 2 c. pecans
2 c. sifted flour Yz tsp. salt
Mix in order given. Shape in fingers. Bake at 300° for 30 minutes. Will be
pale in color when done. Roll in powdered sugar while hot.
Nut Smacks
Va c. sugar 1 c. flour
% c. butter 1 tsp. baking powder
Cream together and add: 1 tsp vanilla
2 egg yolks
Press into 8" x 8" pan and cover with the following topping:
2 egg whites, beaten stiff 1 c. chopped walnuts
1 c. brown sugar
Bake slowly at 325° for 30 minutes.
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RECIPES FROM CALGARY STAKE 745
' Nanaimo Bars ^— ^— ^^^— ^^^— —
First Part
Cream % c. shortening, add !4 c. sugar and i egg
Mix separately:
2 c. crushed graham wafers
Yi c. chopped walnuts 5 tbsp. cocoa
1 c. coconut
Add to above and spread in pan.
Second Part
2 tbsp. custard powder !4 c. shortening
(or vanilla pudding mix, not instant) 2 c. icing (powdered) sugar
1 tsp. vanilla (if powder is used) 3 tbsp. cream
Cream above mixture and spread on first part.
Icing
1 tsp. butter, or other shortening 4 squares chocolate, melted
Mix and pour over above
Mark in squares and store in refrigerator.
Wedding Bells
1 can sweetened condensed milk 1 tsp. almond flavoring
(5/2 ounces) 2 8-ounce packages fine coconut
2 c. icing sugar
Mix all together, tint a pale pink. Press into buttered loaf pan and chill in
refrigerator. Then shape like wedding bells. Place a silver candy on top. May also
be colored green and shaped as wreaths for Christmas.
In Summer's Wake
Eva Willes Wangsgaard
I stand above exotic tropic bloom
Begonias yield within their sun-flecked shade.
The hose relinquishing a silver plume
Of liquid life to burnish leafy jade.
While all about petunias climb and spread
High up the fence and over moistened roots.
Bright garlanded in apples overhead,
The Hopa crabtree molds its crimson fruit.
Yet something indefinable repeats
A thin famihar warning "Autumn's near."
And deep within me smoldering protests beat
A sharp denial to the waning year.
Each meUow moment caught in summer's wake
Tempers my joy with its peculiar ache.
Two
Figure 2
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Handy
for
Christmas
Adelle Ashby
Cheery as Christmas itself are The shopping bag will add an
these tree-shaped place mats with extra bit of Christmas glamor and
matching napkins (Figure i), and fun to your Christmas shopping, as
the gay, colorful shopping bag well as being practical. The bag is
(Figure 2). Both are easy to sew much more attractive than a paper
and inexpensive, and they make a bag and will not fall apart or tear
good pre-Christmas sewing project, when out in the rain or snow. It is
The Christmas trees make your also handy and useful for carrying
holiday table a joy to look at, and records and books, or sewing and
whether you use them as place mats, knitting. Make one for everyone in
or march them along the tablecloth the family, from grandmother to
as center pieces, they are attractive, teenager.
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For the place mats, you will need:
2 yards of broadcloth, or linen,
emerald green.
17 yards of white sawtooth trim,
or jumbo rickrack.
To Make:
1. Make a triangular paper pattern
for the tree, the base measuring
16^2", the height 143/4'', and the
sides 16''. Cut six of these tri-
angular trees from the fabric.
2. Mark where the horizontal
trimming lines go on the tree, by
placing the first line 2 1/2'' from the
tree point, then space the remaining
lines 3'' apart.
3. Cut six tree trunks from scraps,
each 3I/2" by 4''.
4. Fold the trunk in half length-
wise. Seam the sides, leaving the
top edge open. Turn to the right
side and press.
5. Fold the lower edge of the tree
y/^ up to the right side and press.
Center and stitch the unfinished
edge of the trunk over this folded
edge.
6. Now stitch a row of trim over
this raw folded edge with two rows
of stitching on the trim to hold it
fast.
7. Stitch the rows of trim on the
tree, horizontally, and clip the ends
even with the outside edge of the
tree.
8. Fold and press the outside
edges of the tree y/' to the right
side, then sew a row of trim all
around the outside of the tree to
cover this raw edge.
For the napkins, you will need:
1 yard 36" material to make 12
napkins, each 9" square, or more
cloth, if larger napkins are desired.
To Make:
1. Cut cloth 9" square, or larger
if desired, and wider material is
used.
2. Narrowly hem all the edges of
the napkins.
3. Top stitch a row of trim over
the hem at one corner 6'' along one
edge. Fold a miter at the corner
and continue with 6" along the
adjacent edge. Finish the ends
neatly.
For the shopping hag:
You will need I/2 y^rd of green
sailcloth or other heavy fabric, 1/2
yards of jumbo rickrack, red, and
1V2 yards of white jumbo rickrack.
Also y^ yard of red satin ribbon, 1''
wide.
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To make hag:
1. Cut two rectangles of the cloth,
both measuring 18" by 14".
Cut two handles from the cloth
14" by 3 1/2''. Fold the long way
and press to triple thickness. Now
stitch securely along the edges.
3. Apply the candy cane design
(directions for making candy canes
are given below) on one piece of
sailcloth.
4. With right sides together,
stitch the seams at long sides and
lower edge. Invert and press.
5. Fold and press under 2" for the
top hem. Stitch.
6. Center and pin the handle ends
to the wrong side of the front and
back hem 3" below the edge of the
bag. Firmly stitch the ends to the
bag and then stitch again at the top
edge of the bag.
To make the candy cane motif:
1. Stitch the ends of the red and
white rickrack together and inter-
lock them together all along by put-
ting one point over the other, simi-
lar to braiding, only with two
strands. Catch the other ends with
stitches, and press.
2. Cut a 20'' strip of this inter-
locked rickrack to use for the candy
cane. Form the cane-shape diagon-
ally onto one piece of the sailcloth
and stitch in place, folding the raw
edges under.
3. Stitch the remaining inter-
locked rickrack onto the inner edge
of the top hem of the bag so that
only the points of the rickrack show.
4. Tack the satin bow and a tiny
bell where indicated on candy cane.
Out of the Wilderness
Chapter 4
Shirley Thulin
Synopsis: Marian Morgan, a widow and
mother of six children, has come with her
family to their mining property in Mon-
tana, planning to oversee the assessment
work which must be done to hold the
property. In the mountain wilderness
Marian meets Jake Hadley, the owner of
an adjacent property, whose motives she
mistrusts.
M
ARIAN put the bucket of
water down. Her fingers
were suddenly too weak to
hold onto the handle.
Jake picked it up and started to-
wards the cabin with the long
strides of a confident man. For a
minute she could not follow him,
then, knowing there was nothing
else to do, she turned and made
one foot go in front of the other.
At the cabin door Jake stood wait-
ing for her, looking at her, and she
felt uncomfortable, like a schoolgirl
caught by the football captain with
her hair amiss.
''Sure is a lot to be done around
here," Jake told her, not seeming to
notice her embarrassment, and yet
at the same time enjoying it.
''Yes, but Jim and I. . . /'
"I have a full crew at my mine
this year. That gives me some spare
time." Jake was a big man and now
he was in the doorway.
Marian could not get past to open
the door. She had to stand there,
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not knowing what to do. She had
felt this way once before, when she
was in a play at school, and the lead-
ing boy wouldn't give her the right
cues.
"Maybe I could come and help
out some each day. You would be
surprised what a little paint and
fixing can do to a place like this."
"Yes, I suppose so, but we hadn't
planned. . . ."
"Oh, should I take this in?" he
indicated the water bucket, and she
knew he had timed his question to
interrupt her objections.
Jim looked up from the table
where he had been working all
morning, making lists and planning.
At the sight of Jake, he got up and
took the bucket. He didn't say any-
thing. He just looked at his mother
and then at Jake and set the bucket
on the drainboard.
"Howdy, son," Jake said, "I was
just telling your mother how much
there is to be done around here.
Why, the work on the cabin alone
would cost quite a bit, and take a
lot of time, not to mention the work
on that old worthless mine."
"Yes, we know," Jim said, "we
plan. . . ."
"I bet if you were to add up all
the cost of the improvements that
need to be done around here, and
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751
the cost of the labor it would take,
you would be going way in the hole
each year. Now, Fd suggest you
let me help you. . . ."
"We don't need any help." Jim
was suddenly like a young animal
trying to protect what was his.
''Now, wait a minute, son. There's
no use to get all upset." Jake had
a half-smile on his face. It was as
though he were enjoying Jim's up-
set. "I only want to help you."
"I told you we don't need any
help." Jim's words were measured.
"We can get along just fine."
ly/f ARIAN could see that Jim was
angered. "Just what is it that
you want, Mr. Hadley?" she asked.
Jake's grin disappeared at the un-
expected firmness in Marian's voice.
"Well, I thought you might consid-
er selling out. I'm prepared to give
you a good deal, and you'd be wise
to accept."
Marian thought of the leaky roof,
the ugly black stove, Sue's fright-
ened screams at the sight of a little
animal. She thought of the bare
floors and the old scrubboard.
"Well, we hadn't thought about it,
but maybe. . . ."
"Mom! You wouldn't. . . . You
just wouldn't!"
"Don't decide just yet." Jake
looked at Jim and then back at
Marian. "I never did believe in
hasty decisions. I'll come back in
a week or two."
Jake left then, and there was
silence between mother and son.
Jim stood at the doorway with bent
shoulders and Marian sat down near
the table.
Then Jim said, "Mom, you really
hate this place, don't you?" His
words were like something he didn't
want to say but had to.
"No, dear, I don't hate it, exact-
ly," Marian spoke slowly. She want-
ed to tell him how she truly felt and
didn't know how. "It's more that
I just don't understand the cabin,
the forest. . . . I'm just not at home
here."
"Mom, please don't sell. Keep
it for . . . for when I grow up. I
want to have it always. Please,
Mom. You won't have to come
back ever again. . . . I'll take care of
it from now on. . . ."
"We'll see, son. Now, tell me
what all this is." She picked up one
of the papers he had been working
on.
"Dad told me that each year we
have to do $150 worth of improve-
ments for each claim we have. I am
figuring out how much money I'm
going to have to charge myself per
hour to add up to the right amount."
"Charge yourself?"
"Yes, you see, I won't really col-
lect any money. That's how Dad
and I did before. You just estimate
how much your time is worth. If
you had to hire the help, that
is. . . ." He stopped, not being able
to find the words to explain.
"I think I understand." Marian
felt his need for understanding.
"You are sort of making a bid on
the job, but instead of hiring any-
one, you do the work for yourself,
is that it?"
Jim looked relieved. "Yes, and I
have to figure how long each job
is going to take me to make it come
to the right amount."
"What jobs are you planning to
do, Jim?"
"I'll have to dig a shallow ditch
along the railway back into the mine
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SO that the water can drain out.
That's one of the things we'xc had
to do each year, so I know how.
Then I'll ha\'e to fill in all the
chuck holes in the road that leads
to the mine from the cabin. They
are pretty bad this year. That will
take quite awhile."
"But, I don't see how digging
along a track that no mine cars arc
going to go on, and filling in chuck
holes on a road that no automobile
will travel on, is going to accomplish
anything," Marian told him.
''Mom," Jim began, then what-
ever he was going to say, he decided
against it and began anew. 'Tet's
just say that it's sort of the rules.
Anything you do to improve the
mine, keeps your lease for you." His
voice was patient, as though he were
explaining something to a child.
A/TARIAN looked at her half-
grown son in a new light. She
could see that he knew what he
must do, and just as she had let
David make plans, she must now
let Jim. It was a comfortable feel-
ing, having an almost-grown son,
and she smiled to herself as he went
on telling her of the way he was
going to haul dirt with the wheel-
barrow to fill in the pit holes, and
what a job it would be to cut down
some small trees for replacing some
of the badly rotted timber in the
mine. He ended his explanation
with a faraway look. ''Someday I'll
be able to go deep into the mine
as far as Dad did, and make a lot
more repairs. Maybe next year. . . ."
"Jim, the mine isn't anv good
any more, is it?"
"No ore has been taken out for
a long time. Costs too much to
ship it. It used to be one of the
richest mines around here, but ship-
ping costs went up. Dad told me
that if someone ever builds a mill
close, it could pay again."
"Then why did your father want
to keep it? Why do you?"
"It isn't only the mine, mother.
It's the land. Its. . . ." His words
ended, but in his eyes, the dream
continued.
Marian knew what he was feeling
and how deep the feeling was within
him. She hadn't known in time for
David, but she was thankful that
she did know for Jim.
Marian got up and looked out of
the window to check on the chil-
dren. They were still plaving near
the cabin. They had been all morn-
ing, and now besides little colorful
rocks, their collection included pine
cones and snail shells from along the
bank of the small stream. Marian
was glad that Sue no longer felt the
need for the protection the cabin
aflForded. She seemed almost as
much at home outside as did the
boys.
Jim was busy writing more fig-
ures, so Marian got out her cook-
book and turned to her grandmoth-
er's bread recipe. The batch she
made long vears ago had not turned
out well, and she had given it up.
But now there wasn't a grocery store
handy on the corner, and she knew
she had to learn. We can't eat
baking-powder biscuits the rest of
the summer, she told herself.
"Mom, do you suppose Ted and
Jed could help me?" Jim looked up
from the table.
"I think they could. They're ten,
and pretty husky."
A smile spread over Jim's face.
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''I used to help Dad plenty when I
was ten. I could handle a shovel
fairly well, and could help smooth
and tramp down the dirt on the
road. I dragged trees to the mine
and. . . ." He picked up his pencil
and made a new row of figures.
'There, that ought to do it/' he
said and folded the papers. 'Til go
to the mine this afternoon and look
things over, and then tomorrow Fll
get a good early start on my work."
''What about the roof?'' Marian
was reluctant to mention it, but she
didn't want to go through another
rainstorm without its being fixed.
''Oh, yes, I almost forgot. . . ."
"Are you sure you can do it?"
"Yes, I helped Dad with the
woodshed."
A/fARIAN stirred and measured
and smiled to herself as she
thought how like a man it was to
tarpaper an old shed first and let
the house go. And in so thinking,
a feeling of loneliness for her hus-
band filled her. She stirred faster
and tried to see the words on the
page, but they were dancing through
her tears. Jim went out, and Mar-
ian knew that more than the wilder-
ness of her surroundings, or fear of
the unknown, she would have
trouble conquering loneliness of
heart, and the wilderness of her soul.
Marian gave the fresh dough a
final pat and covered it with a clean
cloth. She went out into the door-
yard and watched the children. Her
eyes swept across the stretch of blue
sky circled by giant green pines. She
looked at the road which led to
the mine, and it seemed to beckon
her, but she could not follow. The
mine had somehow been an enemy
all these years. Maybe tomorrow
she could follow the short road and
make the mine her friend, but not
today.
Today, she would make some hot
suds in an old bucket and scrub the
bare boards clean with a sturdy
brush. She would find the hammer
and nails in the shed and try to fix
the loose boards along the wall and
in the floor. She would wash the
windows and have Sue shine them
with bits of torn newspapers, and
she would look for some wire or
rope to make a clothesline between
two trees.
Marian went into the shed and
hunted for nails and wire with a
wary eye. She remembered the
spiders she had encountered in the
shed as a bride. Picking up boxes,
and looking in old crocks, she hap-
pened to find a large shoebox filled
with seeds. There were packages of
carrots, peas, radishes, and lettuce.
"Jed," Marian stepped outside the
shed, "look, I've found some seeds.
Would you and Ted run up to the
mine and tell Jim to bring the shov-
el when he comes? We're going to
plant a garden!"
The twins hurried along. They
enjoyed being near the mine and
were glad for an excuse to go there.
"Mommy, what's a garden?" Jill
asked.
"Oh, don't you know anything,
Jill?" Tommy said. "A garden is a
field with cows and horses and hay
in it, like at Grandma's."
"Not that kind of a garden," Sue
corrected, "ours will have . . . what
will ours have. Mom?"
"See? Carrots, peas, lettuce. 1
found them in the shed."
"I don't like peas and carrots."
Tommy screwed up his nose.
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"You'll like these, fresh from our
own garden."
"I like cows and horses/' said Jill.
Marian laughed and hugged her
baby close to her. She was so glad
for the prospect of a new project,
especially a garden to tend.
''Here comes Jim already/' point-
ed Sue. ''And he's got something."
A/fARIAN looked. Jim and the
twins were just coming out of
the wooded area, into the clearing.
Jim was holding something— an ani-
mal, with long legs. Jed and Ted
were having a hard time keeping up
with Jim's long strides. He was
very disturbed, and for a moment
Marian was frightened, then as he
neared her, her fears turned to com-
passion.
"What is it?"
"A fawn, Mother. Just a little fel-
low, left to die." Jim stooped and
tenderly laid the bewildered little
animal down on a grassy spot near
the shed.
"Left to die?" Marian knelt with
Jim, and so did the children, all but
Sue, who kept a little distance away.
"Mom, how could anyone. . . ?"
Marian looked at Jim. His mouth
was drawn in a hard line and his
face muscles were tightening. "How
could anyone do what, son?"
"Someone killed the mother deer
and left the fawn to go it on his
own."
"Killed his mother?" Tommy
asked, his big blue eyes wide.
"Maybe they didn't know about
the fawn," Marian said.
"Maybe they didn't kill her, may-
be she just got sick and died," Ted
suggested.
"Maybe he's an orphan/' Jed said.
"Yes, an orphan," Tommy re-
peated.
"He's an orphan, all right." Jim
rubbed the deer's head and then
patted him on the side.
"Jim, what makes you think some-
one killed the deer?"
"I found the fawn first, and then
could see where something had been
dragged through the brush to a big
tree. And there at the bottom of
the trunk, were the feet and part of
the hide where they had cleaned
her."
"Maybe someone was lost and
hungry. They might have had to
do it, Jim."
"No. Those miners do this all
the time — shoot them out of sea-
son. I heard Dad talking about it.
We found one once. It was on our
property that time, too." Jim's eyes
narrowed. "Now I know where I
saw Jake before. Dad was talking
to him . . . telling him it was
wrong. . . ."
Marian put her hand on Jim's
shoulder. "Don't, Jim. Don't feel
so strongly about it. You're not
sure Jake did it. Maybe it was
someone else."
Jim pulled himself from her.
"Stay close to him, so he won't get
up and run. I'm going to see what
I can find to make a pen with."
"Mommy, is that a horse or a
cow?" Jill asked.
"It's a baby deer, sweetie. What
shall we name him?"
And while the children were sug-
gesting one name after another,
Marian's heart went out to Jim. He
is so intense, she thought, and so
lacking in judgment. I dare not
think of what may happen if Jake
comes back here again.
{To be continued)
New Design
LuciUe R. Perry
October's air has disciplined the vine
Whose restless march entwined the porch in green;
Shorter days have shaped the new design
Of arrowed flocks, and time, caught in between
The sweet and somber seasons, join the two
In wedded beauty — a rose unwilted grows
Beside the border of chrysanthemum.
Like a wind-twirled prism, earth delights
In tawny color, while westward evening comes
With deep blue mists foretelling winter nights.
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Part VI - ^'Bid Them Farewell"
(Conclusion)
JJene H. Kingsbury
NOW, the emigrant was con-
cerned with only the im-
mediate past of Uncle David.
This was a past of victory for her
brother whose songs echoed the
Merthyr hills, filled the gentle
valleys of Wales and sent reverbera-
tions straight to the great national
song fest called an Eisteddfod. His
mother's dream had come true. His
medals of honor lined the mantel
for all to see. Look closely. The
one attached to a gold chain had
the picture of the Queen on one
side. On the reverse was a wreath,
a motto, a date, a name. One sum-
mer's day the ''Swedish Nightingale"
Jenny Lind had unclasped that
chain from around her neck and,
in the seeing of thousands, placed it
about the neck of Uncle David. He
had fairly won this treasure from
the worjd-loved voice of song. When
he made his way home up the
Cardiff Valley to Merthyr, his kin-
dred and friends met him afar off.
They mingled their voices with his.
They knew joy.
In a sort of ceremony the medal-
lion had been passed from one ad-
miring hand to another. Then,
with near reverence, it was placed
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among other wonderful honors.
When the emigrant mother and her
five children viewed this memento
for the last time, they all wondered
what would become of it after Uncle
David no longer could catch the
gleam from its surface.
At this point in the story the
emigrant unloosed the drawstrings
of her little velvet bag and unfolded
a white silk handkerchief most care-
fully. There, before their very eyes,
reposed Uncle David's chain and
medal! All hands reached to caress
it. All eyes feasted on its beauty.
All hearts wondered just how it was
that their mother could now quite
magically produce the very item
they believed back across the great
Atlantic. They all smiled and
hummed as she explained that at
the last minute Uncle David had
very secretly pressed it into her
hands. To cover its beautiful pres-
ence he had drawn his handkerchief
from his pocket and swaddled it
carefully in silken folds. He had
exacted a promise from his sister to
keep it as a remembrance and per-
haps, in some far-off place, award it
to a sweet-voiced niece or nephew.
She had promised.
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"I want to wear it!" demanded
little Sannie. Her mother quickly
slipped the chain about the little
neck, and Sannie instantly became
a beautiful singing princess who was
loved by all the world. The prob-
lem then became how to get the
chain off of her. The mother de-
cided to let Sannie wear it at least
until sunset. At that moment
David, the namesake of Uncle
David, said that, well, if he couldn't
sing very well, at least his was not
a bad voice, and perhaps he should
have it. The brothers and sisters
laughed at him. His looks of misery
startled them. How else could they
know that he had yearned for that
piece of honor from the moment
Uncle David had placed it on the
mantel?
Mothers are masters of com-
promise. The emigrant now made
a most unusual one. She leaned
forward, released the special spring
that held the medal to the chain
and, with a quick thrust, laid it in
the palm of David's hand. He was
as speechless as the rest.
'That's it!" she said. William
blinked incredulously. Eddie felt
called on to remark that the thing
looked like a common old shilling
piece to him, which in America was
worth about twenty-four and a third
cents. It couldn't be so great, then,
could it?
"P\AVID flipped the gold piece
from side to side. He ran his
thumbnail along the minted wreath,
he wet his forefinger and pressed it
against the raised surface. How it
gleamed! How it beckoned the
glance to stay and admire. He tossed
it from one hand to the other, he
pretended to make it disappear,
which frightened his mother. He
became quite adept at spinning it
on the arm of the pew seat.
But games and stories and gifts
were not the entire order of that
war-torn afternoon. The writhing
train lurched, shuddered, and
shrieked. It shunted itself to a
sidetrack. The boys tried to ascer-
tain the cause of such a commotion.
Their secret hopes had at last been
realized — they were in the war!
Great logs had been thrown across
the track just ahead. The repairmen
had ceased to try to remove them.
Instead, they had come running to-
ward the train yelling of disaster
and waving hats and shovels. The
only fortunate aspect was that the
siding was near, and a temporary
refuge could be claimed.
Eddie and William jumped off
the still moving car and ran forward
to the engine. David sat down again
with disdain for such trivial excite-
ment, for wasn't he now the owner
of a gold piece that money could
not buy?
A noise resembling a wail, a moan,
a cry of distress was heard coming
from outside. The roll of a drum
officially announced the approach of
army men who had power to cap-
ture, impress, or conscript soldiers
for their cause. The word was
screamed from car to car that soon
every man and boy who could carry
a gun would be dragged away. Ter-
ror swept every soul. A cringing of
size was apparent in each traveler.
A prayer ascended for preservation
from this bloody conflict. Each
mother feared the day when she
could no longer say her son stood
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beside her, but was a memory of foreigners. Dressed awfully funny,
this day of horror. didn't they?
The emigrant now remembered One of the Southerners tried to
every word the station agent had peer beneath the brim of the hat.
said about this thing called eon- In doing this his eyes caught a gleam
scription. This forced enlistment of gold. He snatched at David's
was a part of every war, she knew hand. Wasn't money better than a
that, but this was so newly her coun- raw boy who probably couldn't
try and thus not quite the part of speak English and might run away
her that Wales had been, that she from camp when the back was
was not ready to spill the blood of turned? The four travelers involved
herself and children that it might were paralyzed with fear. Pray now
endure. Loyalty she knew. Honor little mother. This is the most
she had lived for. But give them a crucial moment of your days,
chance of decision, a moment to The man suddenly dropped the
stride about these ways, a day in hand that held the medal and
which to become a part of their new tainted the air with an oath. He
land. straightened up, twisted himself
about so as to extricate himself from
A LREADY the mother had lost the property of these queer people,
sight of two of her boys. Heaven and stumbled toward his compan-
help them now. In haste she tore ion. No breath was drawn. Only
off her shawl and tall black hat and hearts burst with fright,
draped them around the head and This man, then, waved his arms
shoulders of David. His little sisters and in excited phrases fairly yelled
began to laugh at the sight of their his displeasure. ''See that piece of
handsome brother looking all of a money? That's the kind English
sudden like an old woman. He was sailors give to boys they want to
about to shove them to silence and spirit away to the sea! First they
toss off this feminine disguise when get these boys dead drunk, then they
some men of uncouth looks entered put a shilling in their hands as the
the car. The emigrant glanced in sign that they now belong to the
panic at the two girls now huddled Queen's navy. When the boys get
in a far corner of their little sanctu- to know anything, and see the coin
ary. Quickly she sat down beside in their hand, then they know that
David and gently turned his shoul- they have to go to sea. Conscrip-
ders with her own so his face was tion, they call it. Say, now, I never
averted from the aisle. thought that the Union boys were
Inexorably stomped the recruit- putting this trick to practice. If they
ers. They dragged a youth from have been through this train, they
the arms of his dear ones. He was must be hiding near in the hills,
no longer a traveler, an emigrant, a Get out of here!"
free man. He was a soldier in a The two soldiers hunched their
war. As the men approached David shoulders and quickly sidled out of
they seemed to suspect that here the car. They forgot to take with
was an odd creature. But then, one them the lad they had already cap-
couldn't always tell about these tured!
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T^HE emigrant mother had always
beheved in miracles. Here,
indeed, was one right under her very
nose. David brushed aside the hat,
then leaned over and placed it on
his mother's head. At the same
moment he kissed her on the cheek.
He folded the shawl and laid it on
her lap. Then, with a grin of inner
satisfaction, that of knowing all the
time how things would turn out, he
tossed Uncle David's present from
Jenny Lind high in the air and
caught it with a swoop of his hand.
The little girls laughed at this sign
of confidence. The mother said
nothing.
The noise outside the train was
as loud as when the warning was
raised, but now it took on the
nature of spectators at a parade who
cheer the floats and the horses and
the marshal of the day and gen-
erally feel that this is a jubilee.
However, as the emigrant counted
her children, she knew that her two
other boys were nowhere to be seen.
She got a wider view of how the
land lay by looking up and down
the tracks on each side of the train.
She could not recognize them
among the throng of workers and
travelers. She noticed that each
person had a feeling of questioning,
a thought of wondering why the
men had left so suddenly — and that
without taking a single conscript
with them. Funny people, those
from the South.
The emigrant became frantic for
the whereabouts of William and
Eddie. She ran to the engine end
of the train, all the while searching
for a clue to their whereabouts.
Her strength was about gone by
now, and she thought to sit down
on a railroad tie that was part of
the usual supply along the tracks. As
she did so she heard her name
called. As she looked up she just
could not believe what she saw.
There was William standing on a
part of the engine, the sort of run-
ning boards kind of platform near
the huge boiler. He looked like a
worker for the railroad, for on his
head he wore a tight fitting cap with
a little visor front. In his hand he
held a small bucket of grease.
He called down to her. ''Mother!
See, I am a tallowpot!" If he had
said he was a man from Mars she
would not have been more aston-
ished. He took a flying leap from
the side of the hot boiler and landed
almost at her feet. ''See what I
have been doing! Just as I got to
the front of the train the troops
came riding up. I didn't know what
to do or where to hide. The man in
the cab window called to me, put
his hat on my head, and this tallow-
pot in my hand, and said to climb
on the engine and pretend I worked
for him. As I poured tallow into
the steam chest where all the valves
were, I thought I would be burned
alive. The rail man ordered me to
be a little more careful or we would
all be on fire. As the troops rode
by they thought I was a real tallow-
pot and didn't stop to take me to
the war."
A flash of thought shook the emi-
grant. If only one could have
enough hats handy, one could work
a miracle with each of them. How
sacrilegious a thought. But now was
no time to straighten out such a
tricky thought. She stood up and
walked back to her part of the train.
She glanced quickly about, search-
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ing for Eddie. All of a sudden not wait for silence and calm, do not
there he was running toward her. wait to say that word of gratitude
He put his arm about her shoulder, for prayers answered by miracle.
''Mother, guess what happened?" The journey continued when the
She could not reply. ''I lost William logs were removed and the soldiers
just as the soldiers came riding in were no longer a menace. As the
so I crawled under the logs that had wheels rolled and the smoke of the
been covering the track. The horses wood burner up front became as a
jumped right over me once, and mantle over the top of the train,
I thought it was judgment day at the mother thought that the war
last. After they rode away I wiggled and the Bend and the ocean were
out, and here I am." better left in the past. For now
A mother certainly has a lot to she faced the West, and there was
endure, thought this one, whose no turning back. She gathered her
three sons were still hers, whose children around her as twilight de-
lives she could guard and guide and scended and the evening enclosed
take on to the valley. Do not wait them under the watchcare of the
for nightfall for silence to pray, do Lord.
Indian Summer Song
Viola Ashton Candhnd
October, let me savor
Your mellow, ripened days
Of Indian summer flavor,
Before cold winter flays
All nature with its icy whip.
October, your elixir is sweet upon my lip.
October, let me gather
A beautiful bouquet.
Too soon the frosty weather
Lays waste your fine array
Of autumn-clad chrysanthemums.
October, hold them tenderly until November comes.
October, let me glean from you
Tranquility in age;
Let Indian summer's warmth imbue
Me with the faith to gauge
The waning-season's worth.
October, let me hoard your wealth
Against the winter's dearth.
Dorthea Strom Knits Sweaters For Missionaries
~p\ORTHEA Strom, Williston, North Dakota, has many talents, but she is most
^^ noted for her excellent craftsmanship in knitting sweaters. She has made
eighteen sweaters for missionaries assigned to her area, and has also made many other
sweaters for friends and relatives. In the picture with Sister Strom, are four mission-
aries, wearing sweaters which she knitted for them, left to right: Gordon Oborne;
Maurine Jensen; Katherine McFarland; David Hawworth.
Sister Strom, who was born in Denmark, learned many of the handwork crafts
of her native land, and, in addition, she has become an expert in other handicraft,
including china painting, crocheting, making punchwork pillows, quilting, and making
rugs and afghans. She gives generously of her talent and teaches other women her
ways with hook and needle. She is dearly beloved among her associates and remem-
bered with affection by the many missionaries she has served and befriended.
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FROM THE FIELD
General Secretaiy-Treasurer Hulda Parker
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Handbook of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Central Atlantic States Mission, Danville (Virginia) Branch
Anniversary Program, March 17, 1962
Left to right: Elsie Yarbrough, President; Myrtle Morris; Grace Martin; Pauline
Walker; Beulah Doss; Virginia Hinton; Ora Garner; Lucy Lowe; Ella Rader; Minnie
Compton; Hattie Overstreet.
Catharine W. Aposhian, President, Central Atlantic States Relief Society, reports:
''The Relief Society of the Danville Branch had a special program on March 17, 1962,
in honor of the birthday of Relief Society. It was a special occasion for the small
branch, with a larger than usual number in attendance. An account of the organiza-
tion of Relief Society by the Prophet Joseph Smith was given by Elsie Yarbrough.
Also included in the program was the reading of some beautiful poetry by Pauline
Walker. There were also some special musical numbers. The color scheme of blue
and gold, Relief Society colors, was used in the decorations and refreshments."
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Weiser Stake (Idaho) Singing Mothers Present Music for
Weiser-Nyssa Stake Relief Society Convention
April 24, 1962
Seated on the stand, left to right: Marion Mathewson, President, Nyssa Stake
Relief Society; Irene H. Baxter, President, Weiser Stake Relief Society; Elder Evern O.
Youngberg, President, Weiser Stake; Elder Dehlin A. Erickson, President, Nyssa Stake;
Irene B. Woodford and Irene C. Lloyd, of the General Board of Relief Society.
Standing at the left of the chorus: Pauline Jensen, chorister, Weiser Stake Relief
Society; Jeanette Thomock, organist.
Sevier Stake (Utah) Relief Society Singing Mothers Present Music
for Stake Conference, March 18, 1962
Seated, front center, in dark dress: Betty Erickson, chorister; Marilyn Madsen,
organist, seated at the right of Sister Erickson.
Madge G. Parks, President, Sevier Stake Rehef Society, reports: "Our stake Sing-
ing Mothers chorus numbered ninety-four, although some of the sisters were unable
to be present when the picture was taken. This group is newly organized, and we
were proud and thrilled at their performance in rendering four beautiful songs, which
added much to the spirit of the conference. We love and appreciate these sisters for
their service. Many hours were spent in practice in preparation for stake conference
and other occasions. Much credit goes to our stake chorister and organist for their
untiring efforts in bringing this group together."
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St. George Stake (Utah), St. George Second Ward Relief Society
Presidents Honored at Birthday Social, March 1962
Front row, seated left to right: Rosilla B. Porter; Paula Mathis; Hazel Bradshaw;
Zetta W. Stucki; Hannah Wells.
Back row, standing left to right: Marie Booth; Louise Englestead; Barbara Hunt;
Bertha Weaver; Nola Jones.
Violet C. Esplin, President, St. George Stake Relief Society, reports: "All ten
Relief Society presidents of St. George Second Ward attended the social, represent-
ing thirty years of service. To commemorate these years of service, a skit written by
Cleo Gentry, pointed up special and amusing incidents in the work of each of the
former presidents. Each sister was given an appropriate gift in commemoration of
her services."
New Orleans Stake (Louisiana) Honors Visiting Teachers at Social
January 15, 1962
Seated, left to right, honored visiting teachers: Grace Nicol; Mary Brian; Anna
Westbrook; Iris James; Myrtle Bankston; Lena Brian; Lula Smith; Irene Crawford.
Standing, left to right: Gloria Phillips, stake Magazine representative; MoHie
Brady, stake Secretary-Treasurer; Cleora Williams, stake Second Counselor; Lea Larson,
stake President; Florence Chapman, Stake First Counselor; Fern Wakefield, garment
representative; Dolores Brian, stake visiting teacher message leader; Mary Nelson, stake
literature leader; Joyce Grigg, stake chorister.
Sister Larson reports: "A social honoring all visiting teachers in New Orleans
Stake was held in the Baton Rouge Ward Chapel. This area covers most of the
southern half of Louisiana. Visiting teachers with over fifteen years of service were
presented corsages which had all been handmade by Second Counselor Cleora Williams.
Record cold weather conditions throughout the State failed to daunt seventy-two sisters
from attending this social, the first of its kind since the stake was organized in 1955.
A luncheon, featuring seafood gumbo, was served, and the theme 'messengers of love
and service' was carried out in the table decorations, as well as in the program which
followed the luncheon. It was a rewarding day for all attending."
East Long Beach Stake (California) Inter-Faith Social
May 25, 1962
At the right: Gladys Phillips, theology class leader.
Melva Orgill, President, East Long Beach Stake Relief Society, reports: "A very
lovely inter-faith social was held May 25, 1962. A program designed to explain the
history, purposes, and activities of Relief Society through words and music, was well
accepted by those in attendance. The adjoining hall was then opened to allow the
group to view closely and leisurely demonstrations and displays of all phases of the
Relief Society program: the educational program, the homemaking program, the recrea-
tional program, the Welfare program, and other activities. Light refreshments were
served, as well as samples of bread, candies, relishes, and other foods distributed from
the demonstrations. This social was felt to be a most successful activity, with many
women joining their hands and hearts to show nonmember friends the greatness of
Relief Society. The picture represents the theology display."
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South Carolina Stake Relief Society Celebrates the Anniversary
of Relief Society, March 17, 1962
Left to right: stake board members Fannie Thornton, Sylvia Bass, Carolyn Hurren,
Bernice Kneece and Alice Voyles; Lottie P. Joyner, First Counselor, South Carolina
Stake Relief Society; Elder Benjamin W. Wilkerson, President, South Carolina Stake;
Harriet W. Capps, President, South Carolina Stake Relief Society; Malcolm B. Fagan,
Second Counselor; Nellie Opie, Melba Ross, Donna Jensen; Geraldine D. Petty,
Secretary-Treasurer.
Sister Capps reports: "The South Carolina Stake Relief Society celebrated the 120th
birthday of Relief Society on March 17, 1962. Refreshments were served before
leadership meeting began. Members of the stake board were attired in costumes,
similar to those worn by the sisters of the first Relief Society in 1842."
Palmyra Stake (Utah), Spanish Fork Sixth Ward Relief Society
Presents "The Relief Society Memory Book/' March 20, 1962
Left side, seated, left to right: Ann Leek, as Emma Smith; Effie Sorensen, as
Clarissa Williams; May Christopherson, as Emmeline B. Wells.
Left side, standing, left to right: Edith Ludlow, as Ehza R. Snow; Flora Belle
Davis, as Zina D. H. Young; Delores Nelson, ward chorister; Luana Clark, ward organ-
ist; Vera Jenkins, as Bathsheba W. Smith.
Right side, seated, left to right: Jennie Dart, as Amy Brown Lyman; Lula Hermen-
son, as Belle S. Spafford; Dora Stewart, as Louise Y. Robison.
Right side, standing, left to right: Kay Lowe, director; Helen Olsen, narrator;
Zelma Hair, President, Sixth Ward Relief Society; Blanche Bradford, First Counselor;
Emma Hancock, Second Counselor; Ruth Hancock, Secretary-Treasurer.
Bernice S. Swenson, President, Palmyra Stake Relief Society, reports: "This was
one of the best and most exciting Seventeenth of March affairs we have ever had.
To see so many of the older women participating and happy over the event was a
great thrill to us, and we sincerely feel that there is no better way to learn of the lives
of great women in our Church and in Relief Society, and to enjoy each other's
association, than by accomplishing such a presentation. The nine general presidents
of Relief Society were represented in an oval opening of the album. Special tributes
were given to the Sixth Ward Relief Society presidency. The play was written by
Virginia D. Clark, with revision and additions by Marianne C. Sharp and Alberta H.
Christensen, and directed by Kay Lowe. Small portraits of each president were
placed in silver frames and given to each sister present."
South Davis Stake (Utah) Singing Mothers Present Music for
Many Occasions
Stake Relief Society President Ilene S. Bagley stands first on the right in the second
row, as a member of the chorus.
Standing in front: Blanche J. Ellis, Education Counselor, who was the author of
the continuity and one of the narrators for the May 4th concert; Maurine M. Haycock,
Work Director Counselor, who acted as publicity chairman for the concert; Gladys
C. Van de Merwe, narrator; Mona M. Jensen, stake chorister; Inez C. Tanner, stake
organist, seated at the piano.
Sister Bagley reports: "The South Davis Stake Singing Mothers chorus of sixty
voices began rehearsing in February 1962, in preparation for stake conference, which
was held in March, and for a concert held on May 4th, as well as for the two-stake
Relief Society convention held in conjunction with Bountiful South Stake. Twelve
numbers were learned by the group and artfully presented on these occasions. The
concert was the musical highlight of the year in the stake. It is hoped that this will
become an annual affair. Each of the stake board members was given an individual
assignment concerning the concert, and all were co-partners in its success."
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Seattle Stake (Washington) Singing Mothers Present Music for
Many Occasions
Front row, left to right: Stake Relief Society President Phyllis Unbedacht; Ella
Glick, organist; six ward choristers who assisted in training the Singing Mothers;
Jacquelin Holt, stake chorister; Grace Collette and Cemoria Frankman, Counselors,
Seattle Stake Relief Society.
Sister Unbedacht reports: "We are having a fine year for our stake Singing
Mothers, who sang for our visiting teachers convention on February yth; our Relief
Society convention on May nth; for the morning session of stake conference on
May 2oth; and on May 31st presented a concert at the stake center for the member-
ship and their friends. The bishops of the wards have also been using the ward groups
in their meetings. We are indeed grateful for having these experiences."
Glendale Stake (California) Inter-Faith Social
April 27, 1962
Left to right: Leah Frandsen, Education Counselor, Glendale Stake Relief Society;
Mae Warrington of the First Congressional Church; Florence Dalton, Work Director
Counselor, Glendale Stake Relief Society; Jesse M. Koeslen, First Methodist Church;
Ellen Werisk, First Covenant Church; Edna Beal, President, Glendale Stake Relief
Society; Mrs. Simonds, First Lutheran Church.
Sister Beal reports: ''We felt very happy with the outcome of our inter-faith
social. We had some 350 women in attendance of whom 250 were women of other
faiths. Nineteen different faiths were represented We felt that this social was a
great missionary help. We also had Priesthood members in attendance to answer
questions."
LESSON DEPARTMENT
THEOLOGY • The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 44 — Rewards of Keeping the Comnnandments
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Section 59:15-24)
For First Meeting, January 1963
Objective: To learn the promises of the Lord for the faithful who keep his command-
ments.
Intioduction
IN last month's lesson we learned
that on the day the Prophet
Joseph Smith attended the funeral
of Polly Knight, the Lord gave a
most important revelation for the
comfort of the saints. It was a mes-
sage of hope concerning the future
life where the deceased continue to
find joy in activity. The saints also
learned that they would be blessed
with commandments received by
revelation through the Prophet. One
of these commandments was the
proper observance of the Lord's day
of rest. Eight positive requirements
of Sabbath day observance were
enumerated in the lesson. An offi-
cial statement by the First Presi-
dency was also given concerning
violation of the Sabbath. (Lesson
43, Relief Society Magazine^ Sep-
tember 1962.)
"Inasmuch As Ye Do These Things
With Thanksgiving'
If we follow the commandment
concerning the Sabbath day and are
faithful in keeping the other com-
mandments, our harvest will be
rich. But what is expected of the
member as he obeys God's will?
Gratitude, yes, as we learned from
verse 7 of Section 59. Then what?
As a member follows the command-
ments in keeping the Sabbath day
holy, joy is received, and rich bless-
ings are promised. (See D & C
59:15-19.) Keeping the command-
ments brings the favor of heaven.
In the foregoing verses there is
stated the purpose for which the
things of the earth — food, clothing,
and shelter — are provided, to
strengthen one physically and spirit-
ually. Implicit in these verses is
the same thought expressed in an
earlier revelation. All laws and
commandments thought of as tem-
poral are spiritual. {Ibid., 29:34-35.)
The important fact is that the
bounties of the earth are for all men
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(Ibid., 49:19), but not in excess.
An equitable distribution of the
products of the earth is the ideal.
Those who receive more of these
materials are not only to use judg-
ment in their use, hut also to see
that advantage is not taken of their
fellow men.
And it pleaseth God that he hath given
all these things unto man; for unto this
end were they made to be used, with
judgment, not to excess, neither by ex-
tortion [Ibid., 59:20).
Moderation and honesty are to
guide man's use of God's creations
provided for man's sojourn on the
earth. Riches are to be used for the
benefit of man. (Ibid., 49:20;
Jacob 2:18-19.) President David
O. McKay has emphasized that life
should not be centered on wealth.
(Gospel Ideals, page 393.) Presi-
dent Heber J. Grant has pointed out
that riches in themselves may be
blessings if used in the way the Lord
intended. (Gospel Standards, page
108.)
Man's Offenses
God's wrath is kindled against
those who disregard his command-
ments when they know his will. His
wrath or anger will be demonstrated
at his coming in power to the world.
(D & C 1:9-10.) The wicked will
feel his wrath because they have
brought his displeasure upon them-
selves due to violation of law. {Ibid.,
124:48.) The demands of justice
will be met by all those who remain
unrepentant. (3 Nephi 28:34-35.)
When the Lord stated the
temporal blessings received by the
faithful who obey the Sabbath, he
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the necessity of man's full accept-
ance of God's sovereignty and his
dependence upon the Greator. It is:
And in nothing doth man offend God,
or against none is his wrath kindled, save
those who confess not his hand in all
things, and obey not his commandments
(D & C 59:21).
Is man to acknowledge the earth
and the things of the earth for his
benefit as coming from the Father
in heaven? President Joseph F.
Smith taught that man should
acknowledge all truth from God.
(Gospel Doctrine, 9th edition, pp.
5-6.) For one who has felt the di-
vine goodness of God, as did King
Benjamin the Nephite, of the Book
of Mormon, the answer must be
yes. He labored to serve his sub-
jects, for which they expressed
gratitude. Using this as an oppor-
tunity to show wherein the Ne-
phites were to thank their heavenly
King, he said that if men should
serve God with all their hearts, they
would still be unprofitable servants.
(Mosiah 2:20-21.) To acknowledge
the Lord as the Greator who has
given man life and provided the
bounties of the earth for his benefit
does not seem to be for many a
part of present-day belief and prac-
tice.
We should as Latter-day Saints
learn a lesson from the Nephites.
When the bounteous blessings of
the earth are received, we are to be
stewards over them, realizing that
they are given to us by the Lord. A
lesson that we should learn is that
pride was the downfall of the Ne-
phite nation. (Ibid., 38:39.)
Obey His Commandments
The Nephites were given specific
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promises that if they did keep the
commandments they would prosper
in the land. (I Nephi 4:14; 2 Nephi
1:20; 3 Nephi 5:22.) This same
promise is given to the saints of the
latter days. (2 Nephi 10:19; D & C
10:49-51.) Although one acknowl-
edges the hand of the Lord in the
blessings of life, he is still not com-
pletely acceptable to God unless he
keeps his commandments. The
keeping of the commandments is
based upon faith in the Lord Jesus
as the Savior and Redeemer. The
strength of one's motivation to keep
the commandments is determined,
in large measure, by his attitude to-
ward the Savior and the Father. Are
we dependent upon them for life,
for the opportunity to use earth's
resources as stewards? Do we gen-
uinely believe that we should give
thanks to the Lord for these bless-
ings? Is there a direct relationship
between one's keeping the com-
mandments and one's temporal and
spiritual welfare? According to the
prophets, as shown above, those
who do not show their gratitude by
keeping the commandments offend
God and against them his wrath is
kindled. (D & G 59:21.) The time
will come when all men will con-
fess that God is sovereign, and they
will acknowledge him as the Giver
of life with its opportunities for
proving oneself a true disciple.
A Great Truth
One of the outstanding truths
given in sacred literature concludes
Section 59. That all believers might
know the pathway to successful
living, the Lord revealed:
But learn that he who doeth the works
of righteousness shall receive his reward,
even peace in this world, and eternal life
in the world to come.
I, the Lord, have spoken it, and the
Spirit beareth record. Amen (D & C
59:23-24).
This truth expresses the most im-
portant promise the Father can give
to any of his children. The greatest
measure of salvation attainable is
eternal life. When one thinks of
rewards as blessings from the
Father, one should remember that
the Lord favors those who keep his
commandments. (I Nephi 17:35.)
Speciiying ''Works of
Righteousness''
What are the works of righteous-
ness required of one to receive the
rewards mentioned in the text quot-
ed above (D & G 59:23)? One
might summarize the answer by
saying, ''Keep the commandments!"
But we don't always gain our ob-
jective by such a general statement.
When the prophets by inspiration
tell the people that they should
keep the commandments, it is as-
sumed that the saints are acquainted
with the commandments. Not all
of us are sufficient readers of the
scriptures and the works of the
living prophets to have specific
knowledge of the Lord's will. It
seems necessary, therefore, that we
speak with some detail about the
works of righteousness. Perhaps
this restatement may serve as a
review for many, and to others it
may bring a greater understanding.
For all it should be an opportunity
for taking inventory of one's own
status before God. Appropriate to
this thought is the admonition that
the member of the Ghurch should
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learn his duty in all diligence.
(Ibid., 107:99.)
Without considering the follow-
ing suggestions of works of right-
eousness as complete or of their im-
portance in the order in which they
are given, let us consider some sig-
nificant items.
Seeking Perfection
One of the first steps toward
righteousness in the sight of the
Lord is to accept baptism in his
kingdom. (Matt. 3:15; 2 Ne.
31:5-10.) Having taken this step,
an important work of righteousness
ior the member of the Church
would be to continually have in
mind the objective of life; that is,
to strive for perfection. (Matt. 5:48;
3 Ne. 12:48.) The genuine desire
for perfection suggests that the
member will rid himself of all un-
godliness. (Moroni 10:32.) The
most successful method of ac-
complishing this goal is to love the
Lord with all one's heart, might,
mind, and strength. (D & C 59:5.)
Develop a love for Christ that
''worketh by faith." Such love will
engender the same emotion toward
all men, but, intrinsically, it must
come in the realization of one's de-
pendence upon Christ for all things,
for what he has done in behalf of
the individual through his redeem-
ing sacrifice. (2 Ne. 31:18-20.)
A second great step toward right-
eousness is to help perfect the lives
of the members. In the process of
working out one's salvation, inter-
est in others is a necessary part.
Instructing others in the gospel
contributes to perfecting the life of
the teacher as well as of the person
taught.
Missionary Work — Righteousness
What other responsibilities come
to a member of the Church in his
acceptance of Christ? If one an-
swers this question in terms of the
purposes of the Church, the mis-
sionary program stands out fore-
most. The individual member has
the responsibility, a work of right-
eousness, to teach the gospel. If
this is not performed, the salvation
of our fellow men is upon our heads.
(D & C 88:81-82.) In addition to
the formal missionary program to
which one may be called, there are
other opportunities for the mem-
ber. Referring names of non-mem-
ber friends to stake and foreign
missionaries, as well as discussing
the gospel with nonmembers is one
way. The keeping of a missionary
in the field or contributing with
others to the maintenance of a mis-
sionary is another way. By teaching
the gospel in the auxiliary organiza-
tions of the Church, one may have
an opportunity to perform mission-
ary service. If the teacher, however,
is to make a ''convert" his attitude
must be that of the missionary.
Elder Mark E. Petersen has pointed
out the need for conversion of mem-
bers of the Church, as follows:
Conversion is all-important in the class-
room. Each member of the Church must
be thoroughly converted. But conversion
is dependent on good teaching, and good
teaching must include good doctrine. Good
doctrine may be found in the official
sources of the Church, and from such
sources we should obtain it.
Conversion is so important to the
whole future life of an individual that all
care must be taken to have him convert-
ed to correct doctrine and practice and
not to mistaken views of some persons,
no matter how sincere (Your Faith and
You, page 40).
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Labor ioi the Dead
The responsibility of the Church
to provide the facilities for the mem-
bers to discharge their own responsi-
bility to their kindred dead, is a
work of righteousness. This activ-
ity is one of the most direct ways to
participate in the salvation of oth-
ers. One may be a ''savior" of the
living, but he may also become the
''savior'' of countless dead. This
work of righteousness includes the
genealogical research as well as
temple service, where possible.
Service to Others
Every principle of the gospel
lived, every Church activity engaged
in, serves as an example for others.
This kind of service cannot be over-
emphasized, for "when ye are in
the service of your fellow beings ye
are only in the service of your God"
(Mosiah 2:17). One provides for
continued works of righteousness
through the Church organization by
contributions of material means in
the form of tithing, fast offerings,
ward or branch budget, building
fund, and other assessments. In a
practical sense, if there is a work of
righteousness that contributes to the
service of others, it is the giving of
one's own self in terms of such con-
tributions.
Participation in worthy Church
projects for the advancement of
others, such as Welfare projects by
the Priesthood members and the
Relief Society members stands high
among the works of righteousness.
This is the organizational way that
a member may, in part, retain a re-
mission of his sins from day to day
— by imparting of his substance to
the needy. (Mosiah 4:26-27.)
Obey Leadership
With the Church as the divine
institution through which the fore-
going purposes for man may be
realized, it is evident that full con-
fidence is to be shown in the coun-
sel given by those who preside over
us. Continuous revelation is re-
ceived that the member may reach
perfection by obedience to the
Lord's will through his servants.
There is salvation in no other way.
Everyday ReUgion
The works of righteousness are to
be shown forth on all days and not
only on the Sabbath . ( D & C 59 : 1 1 • )
In the words of President Joseph F.
Smith, we learn:
. . . For I want to tell you that the
rehgion of Christ is not a Sunday re-
ligion; it is not a momentary religion;
it is a religion that never ends; and it
requires duties of its devotees on Mon-
day, Tuesday, Wednesday and all of the
days of the week just as sincerely, just as
strongly, as it does on the Sabbath day
[Gospel Doctnne, 9th edition, page 394).
Rewards oi Righteousness
The first reward of righteousness
given in our text (D & C 59:23) is
peace in this world. Certainly this
peace does not mean that war will
end before the second coming of
Christ. {Ihid., 1:35; 87:6; 97:22-
23.) Peace as a reward to the
righteous may be enjoyed always
regardless of the turmoil, strife, and
tribulations in the world. It is a
peace of mind, a sense of security,
a settled conviction, a joy to the
soul, which comes only through the
Holy Ghost because works of
righteousness have and are being
performed. (Smith, Joseph F.:
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Gospel Doctrine, 9th edition, pp.
126-127; Lesson 38, Relief Society
Magazine, December 1961.) Isaiah
expressed it as a ''quietness and as-
surance forever" (Isaiah 32:17).
The second reward of righteous-
ness and the greatest gift to be con-
ferred by the Father upon his chil-
dren is eternal life. (D & C 14:7.)
The quality of living forever is
possessed by the eternal spirit of
man, but to live forever as a soul,
that is, with the spirit and body
united, through the resurrection, is
known as immortality. {Ihid 88:14-
16.) Immortality is received by all
of the earth's inhabitants, but eter-
nal life is reserved for those who be-
come like God. {Ihid,, 29:43; Moses
1:39.) Eternal life or exaltation is
to live in God's presence, to become
like him, with the powers of
spirit procreation. {Ihid., 132:15-17,
19-22.) What greater blessings
may one have than the assurance of
well-being in this life and eternal
life in the world to come?
The text for this lesson comes
from the revelation on the Sabbath
day. Rewards for Sabbath observ-
ance are numerous, but these bless-
ings come not because of Sabbath-
keeping alone but also by keeping
the other commandments. Thus,
the Lord declared that his people
are to acknowledge his hand in all
things and to keep the command-
ments, and the rewards will be peace
of mind in this world and eternal
life in the world to come.
Questions for Discussion
1. Is acknowledging the hand of the
Lord in all things sufficient to bring forth
his blessings?
2. Discuss: One must love Jesus Christ
with all his heart to win exaltation.
3. How may one give of himself in
being of service to others?
4. Discuss: What are some rewards
t)f keeping the commandments of God?
Interlude
Thelma J. Lund
When melody of robin's song
Is lilted with gladness overlong
Enjoyed, and leaves ghde without sound
Like scarlet tanagers to the ground,
The hours of autumn's golden run
Glow like amber polished with sun.
With grain and apples ripe and binned
Against the deepening drifts of wind,
The mind no longer thirsts for more
Than time to meditate its store.
VISITING TEACHER MESSAGES
Truths to Live By From the Doctrine and Covenants
Message 44 - ''Thou Shalt Not Idle Away Thy Time" (D & C 60:13).
Chiistine H. Robinson
For Tuesday, January 8, 1963
Objective: To emphasize the importance of utihzing our time wisely and to the best
possible advantage.
A LL of us differ considerably in
the nature and in the amount
of our physical possessions and in
our abilities and talents. Yet, one
precious possession in which we are
all equal is the amount of time we
have each day. Regardless of who
or where we are, each of us each
day has twenty-four hours of time
— no more nor no less. What we
do each day with this package of
time determines the nature and ac-
complishments of our lives. Benja-
min Franklin once asked, ''Dost
thou love life? Then do not squan-
der time, for that is the stuff life
is made of."
One of the most important les-
sons we can learn is to live each
day as fully as possible without
worrisome concern about what hap-
pened yesterday and what may hap-
pen tomorrow. Actually, we have
only one day of life and that is to-
day. Yesterday has been lived and
tomorrow may come, but today is
here and now! This significant
thought is appropriately expressed
in the well-known hymn of Evan
Stephens "Today, While the Sun
Shines." (See L. D. S. Hymns, page
215.)
Today, while the sun shines, work with
a will;
Today, all your duties with patience fulfill;
This does not mean, of course,
that we should not learn from our
experiences of the past nor that we
should fail to plan for the future.
It is wisdom both to learn and to
plan. But how much we benefit
from our experiences and how well
we plan for tomorrow depend upon
what we do today. Today is the
fruit of yesterday and the key to
tomorrow.
Anna Brown Lindsay wisely said:
''The most reckless spendthrift in
the world is the one who squanders
time. Money lost may be regained,
houses and lands sold may be
bought or built again. But what
power can restore the moment that
has passed, the day whose sun has
set, the year that has been num-
bered with the ages gone? . . . We
are spending time well when we are
paying it out to God, to buy the
things he means our lives to own,
whether he is putting before us a
duty to be done, a friend to be won,
a small service to be rendered, a
child to be consoled, or a house to
be set in order. There is time
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enough given us to do all that God
means us to do each day and to
do it gloriously; yet, there is no
moment given us to throw away"
(Lindsay, Anna Brown: The Com-
pact Treasury oi Inspiration, pp.
176-177).
One of the great truths which the
Church teaches in respect to our
time in this life is its importance,
not only during this mortal exist-
ence, but also the significant role
it plays as a fundamental part of
eternity. Thoreau had a glimpse of
this great truth when he said, ''As
if you could kill time without in-
juring eternity."
The great Book of Mormon
prophet Amulek had a clear under-
standing of the importance of effec-
tive utilization of our time in this
life as part of eternity. He said, ''this
life is the time for men to prepare
to meet God; yea, behold the day
of this life is the day for men to
perform their labors. . . . This day
of life ... is given us to prepare for
eternity" (Alma 34:32-33). If each
of us would resolve each day to
utilize his time most effectively
what great energy for good would
be released!
We should not lose time in wor-
ry, discontent, and self-seeking, in
useless regret, in idle and harmful
activities. Life is for work and
accomplishments and for the true
joys and satisfactions that come
therefrom.
Take time to work — It is the price of
success.
Take time to think — It is the source
of power.
Take time to read
tion of wisdom.
It is the founda-
Take time to be friendly — It is the
road to happiness.
Take time to worship
way to a better life.
Take time to laugh -
the soul.
It is the high-
It is music to
Take time to love and be loved — It
is the end of all living.
(ZoBELL, Albert, Jr.: Story Chssics,
pp. 121-122.)
Waiting
Gladys Hesser Burnham
With mind at ease we wait the drenching rain
To beat tattoo on windowpane and door.
The apples, pears, and prunes are gathered in;
A bounteous year has favored us once more.
With thankful hearts, we put the tools away
And seek our needed rest before the spring.
A gusty sigh, the leaves come pattering down;
Gratefully we hear the raindrops sing.
WORK MEETING
The Latter-aay oukii liojut?
(A Course Expected to Be Used by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 4 — The Latter-day Saint Home Is Well Organized (Part IV)
Di. Viiginia F. Cutler
For Second Meeting, January 1963
Objective: To show that decision-making is the heart of good management.
A
socio-drama will be the feature
in this lesson. It is a drama-
tization which' gives the actors a
chance to put themselves in the
place of those facing a problem and
allows them to feel, to behave, and
to talk as they would were the prob-
lem their own. The audience has
the advantage of seeing how differ-
ent people act in various situations,
of hearing what they would say, of
reacting to the feelings expressed by
the actors. Spontaneity and sincer-
ity are the keynote. Actors are vol-
unteers who are willing to try out
how they would react in a given
situation. Action and dialogue are
unrehearsed. No lines are mem-
orized. Each person plays her role,
she says what she feels, and she acts
as she feels the character would act
under the circumstances. Neither
scenery nor costumes are used. The
leader describes the setting and the
actors take the audience with them
in imagination by pantomime and
dialogue.
The family problem to be acted
out is making a decision about
whether Susan (the teenage daugh-
ter) should have money to buy a
party dress and go on a date. After
the cast of Relief Society sisters
speaking as a father, mother, an
eighteen-year-old son, a fifteen-year-
old daughter, and a twelve-year-old
son, has volunteered, the leader
spends a few minutes with them
to agree on the approach and solu-
tion to the problem. She then de-
scribes the setting to the audience
and the play is on with each Relief
Society deciding the outcome of
the discussion. (In the interest of
time, selection of participants and
direction by class leader could be
just prior to discussion period.
(These participants should all be
Relief Society sisters.)
A Latter-day Saint family is well
organized to make decisions. The
father, holding the Priesthood, the
mother, whose responsibility is
homemaking, and the children old
enough to express ideas and opin-
ions, form a decision-making team.
Relatives or others living in the
home may assist in making choices
if requested to do so. Since deci-
sion-making is the heart oi manage-
ment, it is essential that great skill
be developed in making wise
choices.
Training for decision-making be-
gins in the cradle when a rattle is
favored over a doll. As soon as the
child knows the difference between
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a penny and a nickel, he should be
allowed to have a few pennies and
nickels with which to make some
choices. In the beginning, he will
prefer an ice-cream cone today,
rather than a toy at the end of the
week. His span of interest is very
short. By the time he is a scout,
he should be able to look ahead in
order to save money to buy his scout
uniform instead of squandering his
money on ice-cream cones.
At an early age, he should be
able to plan for some savings for
his mission, instead of spending it
all on clothing. And, later on, he
will look forward to the training he
needs for his lifetime work and
grasp every opportunity to further
that goal. He will not suffer from
the impulse to buy any and every-
thing he sees, but will be looking
ahead to the time when he will be
an owner of a home and the head
of a household.
In the same way, decisions are
made about the use of time, the
use of energy, and other resources.
During the training period, there is
a culling out of undesirable choices,
and decisions become easier to
make. Family members become
more mature as they look into the
future and make decisions today
that will make a stronger tomor-
row.
Training in decision-making pays
off when small decisions can be
made wisely by individual family
members, and only major ones need
be brought up for consideration by
the family team. It is necessary to
have an easy atmosphere for mak-
ing decisions. They might be made
around a table, where the facts of
the case are brought out. There is
some pondering and weighing of
alternate choices, and the best way
is finally decided upon. Or there
may be a regular time for the mak-
ing of decisions, such as the family
hour. Whatever the system, every
family member should have an op-
portunity to bring up a problem for
consideration, and there should be
a full and frank examination of all
the facts in the case. There should
be a weighing of the merits of vari-
ous choices and consideration given
to the personal feelings of family
members. A compromise might be
the answer rather than a yes or no,
but once the decision has been
made, there is an obligation by
members of the family to support
that decision and carry it through.
Decision-making is done with
minds, not with hands; it is based
largely on values that are held im-
portant and upon worthwhile goals.
The experience of helping to
make decisions develops faith, cour-
age, and understanding — and most
of all, the ability to think and act.
These are the qualities which trans-
late dead knowledge into living wis-
dom. They are what make our
guesses turn out right.
Questions for Discussion
1. If a person who has never been
trained in decision-making, marries, what
are some of the mistakes she is likely to
make?
2. A young husband has a hobby of
taking pictures. He spends consider-
able money for equipment without dis-
cussing it with his wife, and she feels the
money could be better spent for the fam-
ily. How can this problem be solved?
3. Review the essentials for good home
management and report progress made in
developing the attributes and skills
needed.
LITERATURE • America's Literature
The New Birth of Freedom
Lesson 36 — Oliver Wendell Holmes, Amiable Amateur
Elder Briant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature, by James D, Hart and Clarence Gohdes
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 463-471)
For Third Meeting, January 1963
Objective: To enrich our understanding and enjoyment of Holmes' wit and poetry by
acknowledging the issues of his time which he represented.
Holmes the Man tion to save the American Revolu-
Oliver Wendell Holmes was born tionary War frigate The Constitu-
near Harvard Yard in Cambridge tion from being destroyed. He
in 1809, just 100 years after Dr. studied medicine in Paris for two
Samuel Johnson, his neo-classical years just as vital medical discov-
ideal whom he revered so highly cries were being made, and returned
that he reread his works each year, home after extensive touring in
His father, Abiel Holmes, was pas- Europe to become the 'Vhip which
tor of the First Church in Cam- drove back the objectors and al-
bridge for thirty-seven years, and a lowed the modern scientific concept
prominent historian of Puritan New of medicine to gain entrance."
England. Although his father's Most abhorrent to the young doc-
rigidity and coldness contributed in tor was the old idea that God
large measure to Oliver's later re- caused sickness in corruptible men
pudiation of religious creed and the as punishment for their sins — sin
Calvinistic definition of man as a itself being regarded as an inescap-
depraved animal, he never lost his able mortal frailty resulting from
belief in a benevolent Deity. Eve's yielding to temptation. The
His mother was a smiling, cheer- more Holmes studied science the
ful soul v/hose outlook was far re- more he found God's benevolent
moved, indeed, from that of her handiwork in men and nature. For
older husband. In 1840, Oliver him science was "piecemeal revela-
married Amelia Lee Jackson, a tion" of God's truth. 'There is no
woman with a fine mind and of conflict between science and reli-
unusual charm. gion; science represents the thought
After graduating from Harvard in of God discovered by man." For
his twentieth year he studied for Holmes, God and nature could nev-
the law, but to him, it was so dry er be separated. When a wound
and boring that for relief he wrote healed ''God's presence and power
the poem "Old Ironsides" which and knowledge are there healing it."
aroused sufficient public indigna- Educated, intelligent, cultured
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through travel and a proud and
dominant family tradition, he was
well aware of the great transitions
his age must face. As a most be-
loved teacher at Harvard Medical
School for thirty-five years, he ex-
alted his faith in the scientific meth-
od and in the reality of that which
is knowable through the senses,
almost to the level of a religion. But
as poet he played, dashing off witty
puns in conversation and formal
speeches, both rhymed and in prose,
to amuse himself and his many
warm friends. And, if in his Bos-
ton, the ''statehouse is the hub of
the solar system," then Boston's
great public halls and the homes of
his friends were the revolving plan-
ets which carried him sparkling
through the brilliant social whirl
which he loved and esteemed so
highly.
Each year from 1851 to 1889 he
carefully wrote verses for the annual
reunion of the Harvard class of '29
and he won several prizes for his
publication of medical papers. He
also wrote three "medicated" nov-
els: Elsie Venner, The Guardian
Angel, and A Mortal Antipathy,
none of them distinguished. They
were written to popularize his psy-
chological and environmental the-
ories. But as for his verse, he spoke
truly when he wrote:
Ym a florist in verse, and what would
people say
If I came to a banquet without my
bouquet?
The immediate nation-wide pop-
ularity of his "Autocrat of the
Breakfast Table," first appearing as
articles in the new Atlantic Month-
ly, intensified Holmes' local popu-
A Perry Picture
OLIVER WENDELL HOLMES
larity as toastmaster and conver-
sationalist.
Socially and culturally he was
dominated by Dr. Johnson's neo-
classical values : gentlemanliness,
order, balance, wit, quality, and
breeding. Strongly resembling
Cooper, he felt himself merely
exercising his democratic rights of
choice when he said, ''I go political-
ly for equality . . . and socially for
the quality." While he felt it
might be all right to ''admire a self-
made man whittled into shape with
his own jackknife, other things be-
ing equal, I prefer a man of fam-
ily." By ''family" he meant
"those who had pluck and auda-
cious self-esteem, with good grounds
for it." And "good grounds" were
produced by the environment fa-
miliar to Boston's wealthy class:
high society, distinguished ancestry,
family portraits, a library, silver,
and a line residence. He loved
these rewards of financial and social
success. In summary, his Boston,
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with art, music, literature, educa-
tion, good talk, and comfortable
traditions, he loved; the new Bos-
ton, with immigrant Italians and
Irish laborers, he could never un-
derstand.
PioiessoT Holmes
Dr. Holmes gave the name
anesthesia to the loss of conscious-
ness induced by drugs, as used for
the first time by Dr. Morton in
1846 at the Boston General Hos-
pital. Holmes is also generally
credited with proving, in his medi-
cal writings on puerperal or childbed
fever, that the disease is contagious,
and is transmitted by doctors and
facilities in unsanitary hospitals
throughout the world. His true
love in medicine, however, was the
teaching of human anatomy for
more than thirty-five years to Har-
vard medical students. Possibly the
best-loved teacher Harvard ever had.
Dr. Holmes began lecturing at the
last hour of the day to three hun-
dred weary, semi-asphvxiated stu-
dents!
Even in the late afternoon, his
entrance into the classroom was
greeted with much applause. His
lectures were illuminated by vivid
description, apt comparisons, and
anecdotes to illustrate the salient
points of his lectures. His poetic
imagination created a brilliant glow
that enlivened the factual material
which he presented. Yet he was
precise and authentic in all his state-
ments, exemplifying a complete
mastery of imagery as well as ac-
curacy in describing minute details.
All the virtues claimed for
Holmes by his former students are
exemplified in his method of ex-
plaining the constituents of the
bodv: clear, organized, vibrant with
words which enhance rather than
blur his main purpose. Following
are the opening lines of a lecture
on anatomy:
Take one of these boiled eggs, which
has been raxished from a brilliant pos-
sible future, and instead of sacrificing it
to a common appetite, devote it to the
nobler hunger for knowledge ("Pages
From an Old Volume of Life," Holme's
Works, Vo]. Ill, page 187).
Holmes' Wiitings
Save for his early crusading burst
of indignation ''Old Ironsides/'
Holmes wrote solely in a gentle
satiric vein for the pleasure it gave
to himself and others. So success-
ful was he that his amiable contri-
bution to our culture will never be
forgotten. But great literature
grows only out of sustained moral
earnestness, the noble quality so
richly abundant in the New Eng-
land tradition as in his son Oliver
Wendell Holmes, Jr., one of the
greatest jurists and liberals the
United States has produced. In his
own life, with insignificant excep-
tions, Holmes reserved his moral in-
tensity for his professional scien-
tific pursuits. Here lay what he
felt to be his true challenge; here
therefore he placed the full weight
of his mature mind.
In waiting The Autocrat oi the
Breakfast-TabJe followed by The
PwiessoT at the Bieakhst-Table
and The Poet at the Bieakiast-
Tiible, Holmes used the plan of
rambling monologue touching on
any topic that came to his mind.
This literary form was admirably
adapted to his temperament and
powers. By combining the tech-
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niques of prose-fiction, essay, drama,
poetry, and light verse, he was able
to sketch character, present his
favorite ideas, tell stories, satirize
stupidity, and praise Boston, at the
same time remaining warm and
kind. It is in this series of writings
that we find some of his best-known
humorous and serious poetry.
Both as ''autocrat" and as poet.
Holmes wrote for the large family
party which was Boston society —
he named them the Brahmins, or
untouchables, and was proud to be
included in his own definition. Pas-
sionately he loved them; cleverly he
entertained them, using most fre-
quently in his verse the neoclas-
sical tool of satire.
First he satirizes all reformers and
idealists, particularly the Millerites
who had long predicted that the
millennium would be ushered in
during 1875. In the poem ''Latter-
Day Warnings" he depicts mortal
foibles still to be overcome. (See
text, page 465.)
LATTER-DAY WARNINGS
When legislators keep the law,
When banks dispense with bolts and
locks,
When berries — whortle, rasp, and
straw —
Grow bigger downwards through the
box
When one that hath a horse on sale
Shall bring his merit to the proof,
Without a lie for every nail
That holds the iron on the hoof, —
When in the usual place for rips
Our gloves are stitched with special
care,
And guarded well the whalebone tips
Where first umbrellas need repair. . . .
Till then let Gumming blaze away,
And Miller's saints blow up the globe;
But when you see that blessed day.
Then order your ascension robe!
The "One-Hoss-Shay," which sa-
tirizes the rotting away of the old-
time Calvinism which Holmes spent
his life opposing, is so filled with
delight-in-words and boyish pranks
that it is difficult to believe that he
is at all serious. (See text, pp. 468-
469.)
Holmes is aware of fair play, for
he satirizes himself, too, or at least
his vast enjoyment of what we now
call "creature comforts." His "Con-
tentment" (text, page 470) lists
his minimum essentials: a phin
brownstone mansion, a three-course
dinner rather than ten, topped with
vanilla-ice. As for titles, he can
squeeze by with two simple ones:
Governor and Ambassador. Books?
fifty, bound in red morocco, while
a span of easy-gaited horses, rather
than fast, showy pacers, will fill his
need.
... I care not much for gold or land; —
Give me a mortgage here and there, —
Some good bank-stock, — some note of
hand.
Or trifling railroad share; —
I only ask that Fortune send
A little more than I shall spend. . . .
Jewels are baubles; 'tis a sin
To care for such unfruitful things; —
One good-sized diamond in a pin, —
Some, not so large, in rings, —
A ruby and a pearl, or so.
Will do for me; — I laugh at show. . . .
Among other well-remembered
poems written by Holmes are
"Dorothy O," "The Organ Blow-
er," "The Last Leaf," and, for sheer
amusement, "Aunt Tabitha," "The
Height of the Ridiculous," and
"The Stethoscope Song." But it is
in "The Living Temple" which he
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783
wrote as vigorous protest against
Puritanical attitude toward the body
as a corrupt vessel, as well as in
"The Chambered Nautilus" that
Holmes most nearly approaches
greatness.
THE LIVING TEMPLE*
Not in the world of light alone,
Where God has built his blazing throne,
Nor yet alone in earth below,
With belted seas that come and go.
And endless isles of sunlit green.
Is all thy Maker's glory seen:
Look in upon the wondrous frame, —
Eternal wisdom still the same!
The smooth, soft air with pulse-like waves
Flows murmuring through its hidden
caves.
Whose streams of brightening purple rush
Fired with a new and liveher blush.
While all their burden of decay
The ebbing current steals away.
And red with Nature's flame they start
From the warm fountains of the heart.
No rest that throbbing slave may ask.
Forever quivering o'er his task,
While far and wide a crimson jet
Leaps forth to fill the woven net
Which in unnumbered crossing tides
The flood of burning life divides.
Then, kindhng each decaymg part,
Creeps back to find the throbbing
heart. . . .
See how yon beam of seeming white
Is braided out of seven-hued light.
Yet in those lucid globes no ray
By any chance shall break astray.
Hark how the rolling surge of sound.
Arches and spirals circling round,
W^akes the hushed spirit through thine
ear
With music it is heaven to hear.
Then mark the cloven sphere that holds
All thought in its mysterious folds;
That feels sensation's faintest thrill,
And flashes forth the sovereign wifl;
Think on the stormy world that dwells
Locked, in its dim and clustering cells!
The lightning gleams of power it sheds
Along its hollow glassy threads!
O Father! grant thy love divine
To make these mystic temples thine!
When wasting age and wearying strife
Have sapped the leaning walls of life.
When darkness gathers over all,
And the last tottering pillars fall,
Take the poor dust thy mercy warms.
And mold it into heavenly forms-
— The Poetical Works oi Oliver Wendell
Holmes, (Vol. I, pp. 252-254).
(*Note this word picture of his aesthetic
interpretation of the human body, as
each verse elucidates a part of it, i.e.:
verse 1, the body whole; verse 2, lungs
and circulation; verse 3, heart; verse 4, eyes
and ears; verse 5, brain.)
Similar to 'The Living Temple/'
'The Chambered Nautilus" con-
cludes in spiritual hope and noble-
ness. (See text, pp. 466-467.)
THE GHAMBERED NAUTILUS
This is the ship of pearl, which, poets
feign.
Sails the unshadowed main, —
The venturous bark that flings
On the sweet summer wind its purpled
wings
In gulfs enchanted, where the siren sings.
And coral reefs Me bare.
Where the cold sea-maids rise to sun
their streaming hair.
Its webs of living gauze no more unfurl;
Wrecked is the ship of pearl!
And every chambered cell.
Where its dim dreaming life was wont
to dwell,
As the frail tenant shaped his growing
shell,
Before thee lies revealed, —
Its irised ceiling rent, its sunless crypt
unsealed!
Year after year beheld the silent toil
That spread his lustrous coil;
Still, as the spiral grew,
He left the past year's dwelling for the
new,
Stole with soft step its shining archway
through,
Built up its idle door.
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Stretched in his last-found home, and
knew the old no more.
Thanks foi the heavenly message brought
by thee,
Child of the wandering sea,
Cast from her lap, forlorn!
From thy dead lips a clearer note is born
Than ever Triton blew froiii wreathed
horn!
While on mine ear it rings.
Through the deep caves of thought
I hear a voice that sings: —
Build thee more stately mansions, O my
soul,
As the swift seasons roll!
Leave thy low-vaulted past!
Let each new temple, nobler than the
last.
Shut thee from heaven with a dome more
vast.
Till thou at length art free.
Leaving thine outgrown shell by life's
unresting sea!
A versatile, alert, man-about-town
Bostonian, Oliver Wendell Holmes
exhibits narrowness and prejudices
which amply prove his humanity
and mortality. Like Lowell, Holmes,
for every reason was destined for
greatness, yet he avoided it success-
fully. But nothing conceals his
zest for learning, quality, culture,
and literary excellence, whether it
be to embody his observations on
his contemporary world, to chide
the local mutual admiration so-
cieties for taking themselves too
seriously, or to share his faiths and
fears in his city's future. He lived
richly and well. For his wit, spar-
kle, and wisdom we are again his
debtors.
Thoughts ioi Discussion
1. Discuss Holmes' basic beliefs, both
in science and religion.
2. Has this lesson increased your ap-
preciation for Holmes as a man; as a
writer; as a teacher; as a man of versatile
abilities? If so, why?
SOCIAL SCIENCE • Divine Law and Church Government
The Foundation of Church Government
Lesson 3 — Divine Law and Human Welfare (Continued)
Elder Ariel S. BalJif
For Fourth Meeting, January 1963
Objective: To establish the importance of system and order in Church government.
T N the preceding lesson, it was purpose of his creation, and, at the
noted that divine law provides same time, receive the fulness of
the direction by which man can joy in living. This combination
develop his full talents, realize the can only be accomplished by man's
LESSON DEPARTMENT
785
exercise of his free agency. Choice,
not force, is the important principle.
President McKay says that, ''Next
to the bestowal of life itself, the
right to direct that life is God's
greatest gift to man'' (Improvement
Era, February 1962, page 86).
In the present lesson considera-
tion is given to system and order in
the design of the Lord as it refers
to human welfare. God is exacting
in his dealings with man. ''There is
a law, irrevocably decreed in heaven
before the foundations of this
world, upon which all blessings are
predicated — And when we obtain
any blessing from God, it is by
obedience to that law upon which
it is predicated" (D & C 130:20-21).
God deals in truths that are unfail-
ing. This is evident in the order
of the universe and the regularity of
the physical laws governing the earth
and life upon it.
"Mine House Is a House of Order"
"Behold, mine house is a house
of order, saith the Lord God, and
not a house of confusion. Will I
accept of an offering, saith the Lord,
that is not made in my name? Or
will I receive at your hands that
which I have not appointed? And
will I appoint unto you, saith the
Lord, except it be by law . . ?"
(D&G 132:8-11).
Possibly the most obvious evi-
dence to us of order in the Lord's
house is found in the operation of
physical law. President Brigham
Young said, ". . . the Priesthood of
the Son of God ... is the law by
which the worlds are, were, and will
continue for ever and ever" (Widt-
soe: Discourses of Biigham Young,
page 130). With this law in action.
we can observe the regularity with
which the sun rises and sets, due, of
course, to the earth turning on its
axis. The earth also moves in orbit,
with other planets of the solar sys-
tem, about the sun, at the same
time the whole solar system moves
as a unit through space but always
in orderly relationship to the count-
less other systems.
Order in Our World
A more intimate look at the
world we live on reveals the same
consistent operation of law resulting
in regularity and order. We are
aware of the change of seasons. This
makes us aware of the growth of
plants, noting how growth varies
with the warmth of the sun, the
presence of plant food, light, and
moisture. The seeds responding to
the forces of nature sprout and grow
true to their kind and variety. The
same regularity exists in the animal
kingdom. This regularity has gone
on since the creation of the earth
and will continue in orderly fashion
according to the law of God.
The physical world about us ful-
fills its purpose through the opera-
tion of divine law. In the beginning,
God said, "... Let the earth bring
forth the living creature after his
kind, cattle, and creeping things,
and beasts of the earth after their
kind, and it was so" (Moses 2:24).
The faithful function of the law in
the physical world is evidence of the
supreme wisdom of the Creator.
Order in the Lives of People
The same great knowledge and
wisdom has provided the direction
and regulation by which man can
attain the full purpose of his crea-
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of authority in regulating the action
of something. In organized society,
this regulation is established by law,
and law simply means the rules or
mode of conduct insisted upon by
the agreement of the people to
whom the law is applied. Violations
are punished by the controlling
authority.
At various times in history, the
controlling authority has become a
tyrannical force, appropriated to one
man, or a small group of men, who
have developed a powerful empire
through military force. Force is
Satan's base. Just as regularly as
nations rise on the basis of force they
decay and fall, the power shifting
to another center where a superior
concentration of force has been de-
veloped. This type of government
does not have as its motive the wel-
fare of mankind.
A h^L^img Kingdom
The restoration of the Church of
Jesus Christ was the establishment
of the kingdom of God upon the
earth. The terms Church and king-
dom in this sense are used synony-
mously. A church to some may
mean only a building, a place of
worship. In a larger sense, church
refers to the structure, the organiza-
tion, the program and the member-
ship. The Church as we use the
term includes all of these but also
a much more essential element than
is included in this explanation. This
element is divine authority. The
Church of Jesus Christ or the king-
dom of God has been established
through divine law, and is motivat-
ed by the divine attribute of love.
It is not political in nature, being a
perfect theocracy, and having for its
purpose ''to bring to pass the im-
LESSON DEPARTMENT
789
mortality and eternal life of man/'
and in the process to bring him joy
in this life through advancement,
achievement, and progression.
Characteristics of the Kingdom
How will we identify the king-
dom? What will be its distinguish-
ing characteristics? In the first place
the kingdom of God will be the
place for Jesus Christ to come to as
God the King and will be an ever-
lasting kingdom.
The laws of righteousness will be
its code. The enmity of man and
beast, in fact the enmity of all flesh
shall end (D & C 101:26). In this
kingdom, wickedness will be over-
come and the pattern of prayer giv-
en in Matthew 6:9-13, ''Thy king-
dom come. Thy will be done in
earth, as it is in heaven" will be
realized.
A Living Example oi the Kingdom
We are given a glimpse of what
y the kingdom of God will be like in
I reviewing 4 Nephi in The Book of
Mormon. Here the principles of the
gospel, the teachings of the Savior,
actually directed the lives of the
people. Living under the direction
of divine law, they were able to over-
come their social ills and direct their
energies toward the advancement
M and progress of their society. (See
4 Nephi, verses 2-3, 5, 12-17.)
This condition continued for two
hundred years until of their own
choosing they let pride and riches
turn their hearts from the things of
God. Selfishness and greed blinded
their eyes to the value of the pattern
of life taught by the Savior to their
forefathers.
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Divine Heritage
From the discussion of the last
two lessons and the references used,
we are aware ( i ) that the divine
laws are designed for the benefit and
welfare of mankind and (2) that
system and order are essential to the
development of the kingdom of
God.
It has also been pointed out that
the major concern of God the Eter-
nal Father is the progress and devel-
opment of his children. To this end
he has dedicated the wisdom of
heaven expressed through revelation
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Father made evident in the divine
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to exaltation in his kingdom, made
possible by the atonement of Christ.
REFERENCES
D & C 101, 130, 131.
Moses, Chapters 2, 5, 7:18.
The Book of Mormon, 4 Nephi.
Talmage, James A.: Articles of Faith,
pp. 363-368.
WiDTSOE, John A.: Discourses of Brig-
ham Young, page 130.
Exodus 20.
Matthew 5.
McKay, DAvm O.: The Improvement
Era, February 1962, page 86.
Thoughts ioT Discussion
1. What was the great purpose of the
creation of the earth?
2. How important is obedience to law
to successful government?
3. What is the significance of choice in
achieving the full purpose of man's crea-
tion?
4. To what extent does man's treatment
of his fellow men reflect his love of God?
5. What are the social implications of
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Vesta P. Crawford Associate Editor Belle S. Spafford General Manager
SPECIAL FEATURES
"Search the Scriptures; for in Them Ye Think Ye Have Eternal Life" Belle S. Spafford 796
Relief Society — Builder of Testimonies Marianne C. Sharp 802
"Union of Feeling" Louise W. Madsen 804
Fawn Hansen Sharp Appointed to the General Board of Relief Society Irene C. Lloyd 806
Report and Official Instructions Belle S. Spafford 807
nCTION
The Little Blue Bag Helen C. Warr 816
Out of the Wilderness — Chapter 5 Shirley Thulin 834
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 794
Sixty Years Ago 822
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 823
Editorial: Relief Society Gives Thanks for New Members Louise W. Madsen 824
In Memoriom — Fern Tanner Lee
Amy Whipple Evans 826
Notes From the Field: Relief Society Activities Hulda Parker 839
Birthday Congratulations 872
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
Try, Try Again Caroline Eyring Miner 814
Menu for Thanksgiving Dinner Mary J. Wilson 828
Cut and Paste Christmas Cards Janet W. Breeze 832
Elizabeth Welker Collects Samples of Antique and Modern Lace 846
LESSONS FOR FEBRUARY
Theology — Talents and Testimonies Roy W. Doxey 847
Visiting Teacher Messages — "Pray Always That You Enter Not Into
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Literature — The Literary Lincoln Briant S. Jacobs 856
Social Science — Divine Law and Priesthood Ariel S. Ballif 863
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Search the Scriptures ;
for In Them Ye Think
Ye Have Eternal Life
99
President Belle S. Spaffoid
[Address Delivered at the General Session of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, October 3, 1962]
THROUGHOUT the sessions
of this conference, as well as
in most meetings of the
Church, frequent reference is made
to the word of the Lord to his chil-
dren as recorded in the sacred
scriptures. This teaching is one of
the foremost functions of the
Church. The Church has four vol-
umes of scripture referred to as the
''standard works of the Church":
(1) The Bible, containing the
Old and New Testaments, translat-
ed out of the original tongues.
( 2 ) The Book of Mormon, which
is an abridgment of the record of
peoples formerly living on the
American Continent. This book,
according to the preface, is ''to show
the remnant of the House of Israel
what great things the Lord hath
done for their fathers . . . And also
to the convincing of the Jew and
Gentile that Jesus is the Chiist, the
Eternal God." This volume of scrip-
ture has a place beside the Bible as
a spiritual guide to mankind. The
prophet Ezekiel made a significant
prophecy relative to these two vol-
umes being one in the hands of the
Lord for his children in the latter
days, as follows:
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The word of the Lord came again unto
me, saying, Moreover, thou son of man,
take thee one stick, and write upon it, For
Judah, and for the children of Israel his
companions: then take another stick, and
write upon it. For Joseph, the stick of
Ephraim, and for all the house of
Israel his companions: And join them
one to another into one stick; and they
shall become one in thine hand (Ezekiel
37:15-17).
(3) A third volume is the
Doctrine and Covenants, which con-
tains revelations given to the
Prophet Joseph Smith, with some
additions by his successors in the
Presidency of the Church.
(4) The fourth volume is the
Pearl of Great Price, which contains
visions of Moses, as revealed to Jo-
seph Smith the Prophet, and the
translation of some ancient records
— the writings of Abraham while he
was in Egypt — which came into
the hands of the Prophet.
These are not the only scriptures,
however. All scriptures are not
found within the volumes of the
standard works. We believe in
continuous revelation and that those
teachings which come from our
prophets today:
'SEARCH THE SCRIPTURES; FOR IN THEM YE THINK YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE'
797
. . . when moved upon by the Holy
Ghost shall be scripture, shall be the will
of the Lord, shall be the mind of the
Lord, shall be the word of the Lord, shall
be the voice of the Lord, and the power
of God unto salvation (D & C 68:4).
f wonder how often we, as individ-
uals, are given to a contemplation
of the importance and meaning in
our lives of these sacred writings.
How often do we ponder on what
our lives would be, if these volumes
were sealed against us. The loss
would be incalculable. Conversely,
I wonder how often we are given to
count the great blessings which flow
to us through having them readily
available to us for our individual
reading and study.
The Lord made clear to Nephi
what it meant to possess the sacred
record of the Jews which was in the
hands of Laban. When the Lord
directed that Lehi and his family
should possess this record and La-
man sought to obtain it from Laban,
Laban grew angry and thrust Laman
out of his presence. Then, by com-
mandment of the Lord, Nephi
sought to obtain the record. In order
for him to accomplish his purpose
the Lord delivered Laban into the
hands of Nephi, but it became
necessary that Nephi should kill
Laban or fail in his purpose. Never
at any time had Nephi shed the
blood of a man, and he shrank from
so doing. Then the Spirit said unto
him:
... It is better that one man should
perish than that a nation should dwindle
and perish in unbelief (I Nephi 4:13).
Then Nephi remembered the
word of the Lord spoken to him in
the wilderness, saying:
. . . Inasmuch as thy seed shall keep my
commandments, they shall prosper in the
land of promise.
Yea, and I also thought that they could
not keep the commandments of the Lord
according to the law of Moses, save they
should have the law.
And I also knew that the law was en-
graven upon the plates of brass (I Nephi
4:14-16).
Therefore, Nephi obeyed the
voice of the Spirit, and the record
was obtained for his people.
INDIVIDUALS have not always
been fortunate in having copies
of the scriptures in their possession
for their individual use. At one time
the people at large had to depend
upon the teachings that came to
them from their scribes and priests.
Today, we are abundantly blessed
in that everyone who will do so may
possess these valuable volumes
which contain the will of God for
his children, the divine plan of life
and salvation, the gospel of Jesus
Christ, which is the power of God
unto salvation. We may open them
in our own homes and read the
teachings and commandments of
the Lord, ponder upon them, and
apply them to our own lives and
circumstances.
President Joseph Fielding Smith
in a General Relief Society Confer-
ence said that there should not be a
Latter-day Saint home in all the
world where there would not be
found a Bible, a Book of Mormon,
a copy of the Doctrine and Cove-
nants, and of the Pearl of Great
Price. This would apply, of course,
where these latter volumes are trans-
lated into the native tongues. These
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books should be conveniently at
hand, inviting their use, and where
family members may come to view
them as a part of the make-up of
the home. And it is mandatory up-
on us and to our eternal advantage,
that we shall study them — search
them diligently.
The Doctrine and Covenants
counsels us:
. . . \'ca, seek \e out of the best books
words of wisdom; seek learning, even bv
study and also by faith (D & C 88:1 18) .'
The best books are certainly those
which contain the words of God;
books that build faith in God — his
holy scriptures.
The Prophet Joseph Smith ad-
monished the people:
Search the scriptures — search the reve-
lations which we publish, and ask your
Heavenly Father, in the name of His Son
Jesus Christ, to manifest the truth unto
you, and if you do it with an eye single
to His glorv nothing doubting, He will
answer \'0u bv the power of His Holy
Spirit. You will then know for your-
selves and not for another. You will not
then be dependent on man for the knowl-
edge of God; nor will there be any room
for speculation (Teachings of the Prophet
Joseph Smith, pp. 11-12).
This admonition is for every indi-
vidual. Each one must search for
himself. Upon parents rests also
an added responsibility — that of
guiding and directing children in
their search; of implanting in the
hearts of their children a love and a
reverence for the word of God as
set forth in the scriptures. It is
their duty to train children in the
use of the scriptures, for the Lord
has made clear that it is the duty of
parents to see that children are
reared in light and in truth. How
better can this be done than through
familiarizing them with the word of
the Lord as contained in the scrip-
tures? While the Church, with the
Priesthood quorums and the aux-
iliaries, plays a vital supporting role
in teaching the gospel, as set forth
in the scriptures, the primary respon-
sibility for this rests with parents.
A/f OTHERS are particularly fav-
ored in meeting this responsi-
bility, since they are with the chil-
dren in the home for more hours of
the dav than is the father.
Brigham Young is recorded as say-
mg:
. . . education commences with the
mother, and the child. ... It depends in
a great degree upon the mother, as to
what children receive, in early age, of
principle of every description, pertaining
to all that can be learned by the human
famih'. . . . The character of a person is
formed through life, to a greater or less
degree, bv the teachings of the mother.
The traits of early impression that she
gi\es the child, will be characteristic points
in his character through every avenue of
his mortal existence { Journal oi D'lseomses
I, pp. 66-67).
The scriptures themselves bear
testimony of the truthfulness of the
influence of the mother in these
matters. Paul, writing to his dearly
beloved Timothy, speaks of Timo-
thy's childhood training as follows:
When I call to remembrance the un-
feigned faith that is in thee, which dwelt
first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy
mother Eunice; and I am persuaded that
in thee also (II Timothy 1:5).
Paul further wrote:
But continue thou in the things which
thou hast learned and hast been assured
of, knowing of whom thou hast learned
them;
"SEARCH THE SCRIPTURES; FOR IN THEM YE THINK YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE" 799
And that from a child thou hast known talk in Sunday School or other
the holy scriptures, which are able to Church gathenn^s, they make their
make thee wise unto salvation through i ,. ^ r u- i. r ri •
r ..1 , , • r-1 ■ 1- /TT r ^1 selection or subiect rrom their own
faith which is in Christ (II 1 imothy • i a /r i » •
^•i,.!^) books, with Mothers interested
help and guidance. The selection
I know of one young mother is usually a principle of the gospel,
whose familiarity with and love for such as prayer, Sabbath observance,
the scriptures came to her largely or the Word of Wisdom, rather
after her marriage to a returned mis- than a story.
sionary. So meaningful did they A regular practice in the home is
become in her own life that she has for the father to inquire at dinner
conscientiously devoted herself to on Sunday, "What was your Sunday
helping her children to know and School lesson about?" Then, after
appreciate the scriptures. Today dinner, the father makes a practice
her ten-year-old girl and eight-year- of helping the children find some-
old boy have their own copies of thing about it in their books. Moth-
the standard works. At first, as very gr teaches Primary. The children
little ones, they were provided with and their scriptures are brought
illustrated stories taken from the actively into her lesson preparation.
Bible and Book of Mormon. Mother Thus, acquaintance with the scrip-
read these to the children. Later, ture has been handled in a way that
the children, as they learned to read, has brought happy companionship
would read the stories back to with mother and father, as well as
Mother. Then, as they read from light and truth into the hves of the
their storybook, Mother would read children, along with an acquaintance
the same story, in whole or in part, ^ith these great books of divine
as the children were able to compre- wisdom and law.
hend, from the scripture itself ex- j^ addition, the hours spent to-
pla.nmg to the children the differ- ^^^^ ^^^^^ ^^^^ ^^^^ „f tl^^ L^^^
ence between the book from which ^^^ ^^^^^^ ^^ develop a close family
she was reading and the storybook ^^-^ ^^^-^^ -^ it^^jf ^ijl ^ring
from which they read. Always she jjch rewards,
emphasized the greater value of the
scripture, as such, implanting in the
children a special regard for it. Later, I N this day of intensified mission-
as the children became ready, they ary effort, Latter-day Saint moth-
would read to Mother a familiar ers, imbued with a testimony of the
story from the scripture itself. It was gospel, strive earnestly to prepare
then that they were given their own their sons and daughters to be
volumes. When a simple verse had worthy and ready to receive a call
special meaning for the children, to missionary service. Is not a knowl-
Mother would take time to help edge of the scriptures, training in
them memorize it. These she had how to use them effectively, a very
the children mark in their own vol- vital part of this preparation? The
umes. scriptures are, without doubt, the
On occasions when the children great proselyting tools of the mis-
are given opportunity to present a sionary. Fortunate indeed is the
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young man or woman who goes into
the mission field knowing his tools
and how to use them. It enables
him to speak with power and
authority to the convincing of his
hearers.
llie Book of Mormon points this
out with reference to the missionary
labors of the sons of Mosiah, who,
along with Alma the younger, perse-
cuted the Church and then were
miraculously converted, as was Paul.
Following their conversion the sons
of Mosiah filled a mission to the
Lamanites. One day as Alma was
journeying in the Land of Gideon
southward he met with the sons of
Mosiah, and he rejoiced to see his
brethren and, says the scripture:
. . . what added more to his joy, they
were still his brethren in the Lord; yea,
and they had waxed strong in the knowl-
edge of the truth; for they were men of
a sound understanding and they had
searched the scriptures diligently, that
they might know the word of God.
But this is not all; they had given
themselves to much prayer, and fasting;
therefore they had the spirit of prophecy,
and the spirit of revelation, and when
they taught, they taught with power and
authority of God.
... by the power of their words many
were brought before the altar of God, to
call on his name and confess their sins
before him (Alma 17:2-4).
The vast content of the scriptures
cannot be mastered in a moment or
a day. It is a lifetime labor.
I recall several years ago when
Relief Society sisters were studying
The Book of Mormon, it was expect-
ed that every sister would read the
book in its entirety As a special
feature of the Relief Society General
Conference and to encourage the
sisters in their efforts, a member of
the Twelve was invited to speak to
them on the subject of The Book of
Mormon. Last minute circum-
stances, however, made it impossible
for him to attend the Conference
and meet the assignment. It became
necessary for us to obtain another
speaker on very short notice — in
fact, the morning of the day on
which the address was scheduled.
The service of Elder Matthew Cow-
ley was enlisted. Elder Cowley de-
livered a masterful address, in which
he bore this impressive testimony:
I would like to bear my testimony to
you about the book which you are study-
ing in Relief Society, the Book of Mor-
mon. I know nothing about archaeology.
I have not studied the maps which ap-
parently relate to the Book of Mormon,
the travels of the Lehites, the Lamanites,
and so forth. I know very little about the
outside evidences of the Book of Mormon,
but I have a testimony of the divinity of
this book, and that testimony has come
to me from within the two covers of the
book itself ("Testimony Through Read-
ing The Book of Mormon," The Reliei
Society Magazine, January 1953, pp. 7-8).
Following the session of the con-
ference, in grateful appreciation, I
said to Brother Cowley, '*I marvel
that you could give such a mag-
nificent and convincing address,
with so little time in which to pre-
pare." To this Brother Cowley re-
sponded by saying, ''What do you
mean by little time in which to pre-
pare? I had plenty of time. I have
had a lifetime. My preparation for
that address began when I was a
little boy at my mother's knee."
"SEARCH THE SCRIPTURES; FOR IN THEM YE THINK YE HAVE ETERNAL LIFE" 801
The Lord has said : That the man of God may be perfect,
throughly furnished unto all good works.
He that seeketh me early shall find me,
and shall not be forsaken (D & C 88:83).
May the Lord bless us to love and
In Second Timothy, 3:16-17, we appreciate these sacred writings and
^^^ to follow their admonitions. May
All scripture is given by inspiration of ^g help US as mothers to train Our
God, and is profitable for doctrine, for , ., , . j ti • t • i
reproof, for correction, for instruction in children tO do likewise I Sincerely
righteousness: P^^Y-
In Time of Harvest
Evelyn H. Hughes
Time is the essence near the season's end,
When, row on row, the weighted apples bend
Earthward their sun-flecked treasure. Quick!
Now is the time of harvest. We must pick
Each russet and ruby, green and golden gem,
Basket on overflowing basket heaped with them.
Hurry! The day is waning toward the night —
The harvest hours vanish with the light.
A keening wind across the barren fields
Startles the drowsy orchard. Nature yields
No time; the darkness brings the frost.
Gather the apples in, or all is lost.
Relief Society -
Builder of Testimonies
Counselor Marianne C. Sharp
[Address Delivered at the General Session of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, October 3, 1962]
RELIEF Society offers women
a unique opportunity to gain
' a testimony of the gospel and
the means of strengthening that
testimony daily.
As the Church spreads over the
earth at the greatly accelerated rate
of the past few years, Rehef So-
ciety organizations offer to women,
Church members, converts, investi-
gators of different nations and peo-
ples, the blessings of Rehef Society.
It can be a proselyting medium.
It offers women a unique opportun-
ity to build testimonies of the gospel
because it is unique. It is the organ-
ization on the earth given by our
Heavenly Father for the perfecting
of his daughters. The Prophet Jo-
seph Smith was inspired to organize
it, and it has been directed by the
Priesthood of God through its 120
years
With the instruction of President
McKay that every Church member
should be a missionary, every Relief
Society member should arouse her-
self to the wonder of Relief Society
and bend her earnest efforts to bring
into this testimony-building, divine
Society the women of her own land.
Relief Society members might
take to themselves the words of
Paul to the Romans:
For I long to see you. . . . that I might
have some fruit among you also, even as
among other Gentiles. I am debtor both to
the Greeks, and to the Barbarians; both to
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the wise, and to the unwise. . . . For I
am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ:
for it is the power of God unto salvation
to every one that believeth . . . (Romans
1:11, 13-14, 16).
In this day the Lord has said,
*'And let your preaching be the
warning voice, every man to his
neighbor, in mildness and in meek-
ness" (D & C 38:41). Cannot
Relief Society members in mildness
and in meekness bring Relief So-
ciety's divine, testimony-building
Society to the attention of neigh-
bors? For we, also, are indebted to
the wise and to the unwise, to those
living today comparable to the
Greeks and Barbarians of PauFs day
who were non-Romans.
Relief Society is unique among
women's groups. Relief Society is
not a Church study club, although
the members faithfully study the
standard works of the Church; it is
not a homemakers club, although
every member is trained in better
homemaking; it is not a literary
club, although members gain deep
understanding from great writings;
it is not a social service club, al-
though it studies and sponsors the
giving of service; it is not a money-
making club, although substantial
monetary support is given to Church
programs.
It is an inspired organization with
the highest eternal goals.
A year ago, speaking at the Relief
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803
Society conference, President Brown
said:
When wc speak of other organizations
and auxiliaries, we often speak of their
programs and their activities, but when-
ever we speak of Rehef Society, the word
work is mentioned. We say Rehef Society
work, or the work of Rehef Society {Re-
lief Society Magazine, December ig6i,
page 8 11 ) .
And what is this work of which
President Brown spoke? The grand
key-words which the Prophet Joseph
gave to Relief Society in 1842 to act
upon were the words, ''Said Jesus,
Te shall do the work which ye see
me do.' " At a later Relief Society
meeting, the Prophet Joseph urged,
''If the sisters loved the Lord, let
them feed the sheep," and the "So-
ciety is not only to relieve the poor,
but to save souls" (D.H.C. V, pp.
24-25).
In meekness and mildness, we
should redouble our efforts to reach
our sisters and the strangers within
our gates and help them to partake
of the blessings and opportunities
of Relief Society.
The power of Relief Society is the
sum of the individual members'
testimonies — humble, burning testi-
monies which burn away dishar-
mony, bickering, or ill-feelings and
engender a spirit of unity and the
building up of each other.
These testimonies are gained not
alone by study of the scriptures, dis-
cussions among the sisters and testi-
mony bearing, but by doing the
work Jesus did.
You recall the words of James,
"Yea, a man may say. Thou hast
faith, and I have works: shew me
thy faith without thy works, and I
will shew thee my faith by my
works" (James 2:18). Relief Society
oflFers the opportunity for every
woman to demonstrate her faith by
her works.
To build a testimony founded up-
on rock, we must learn to love our
neighbor. As individuals most sis-
ters are kind and obliging to a neigh-
bor whom they know in trouble.
But the good Samaritan did not
know the man lying wounded, ex-
cept that he belonged to a race
which despised the Samaritan's race.
So with the growth of love of neigh-
bor in Relief Society. Directed by
one in authority, a sister serves those
whom she is directed to serve, wher-
ever and in the way she is directed.
Through this unselfish, dedicated
service, the souls of Relief Society
members are expanded, and works
complement faith, and additional
blessings return to a mother
through the influence her example
has on her children. They, likewise,
are the blessed recipients of the in-
creasing strength of the testimony
of their mother.
As Relief Society members, we are
the seekers of the celestial kingdom.
We know that Relief Society holds
before us the means and encourage-
ment for reaching that kingdom.
We strive to increase the light and
knowledge we have. We know that
faith without works is dead and that
to save ourselves we must save oth-
ers. A testimony of the gospel is our
most precious possession. It can be
gained in Relief Society, and we
must share the glorious Relief So-
ciety with others — that each mem-
ber may do so in this coming year,
I pray.
"Union of Feelin^"
Counselor Louise W. Madsen
[Address Delivered at the General Session of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, October 3, 1962]
JUST before he entered the Gar- fulfill purposes. The Prophet urged
den of Gethsemane on the night the sisters to obtain power from on
of his betrayal, the Lord 'lifted high by being ''one'' in spirit and
up his eyes to heaven'' and prayed determination to do the work he
to the Father. President David O. would have them do. The fact that
McKay speaks of this prayer as "the they have done so is attested by the
greatest, most impressive prayer ever growth and accomplishment of Re-
uttered in this world." His prayer lief Society throughout the world,
was for those who had believed on Separation by miles of land and
him and for "them also which shall oceans of water does not change nor
believe on" him. A sublime mes- diminish the feeling for, nor neces-
sage contained therein is this verse: sity of "oneness." A quarter of a
"That they all may be one; as thou, million women unified in feeling
Father, art in me, and I in thee, and purpose, seeking power from our
that they also may be one in us." Heavenly Father in righteousness,
This is a most beautiful expression can exert a tremendous influence for
of the principle of unity. It is this good wherever they may be.
principle of unity, this spirit of be- What is this power we may ob-
ing "one," which has been instru- tain? Is it not to do what is good,
mental in enabling the Church to to do what the Lord requires of us,
progress and to accomplish the pur- to do justly and to walk humbly?
poses for which it was established. Is it not the privilege to serve we
One of the statements of the seek, the moving force of compas-
Prophet Joseph Smith to Relief So- sion we feel? Is it not the power
ciety which has great and continuing of strength and the blessing of
significance is "By union of feeling knowledge we cherish? Is it not the
we obtain power with God." This power of unselfish thought and
is an expression of the principle of action, selflessness, the ability to rise
unity which shows how it works to above fault-finding and petty mind-
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edness we desire?
We are again reminded that these
aspects of power are derived through
''union of feehng." This kind of
unity cannot be maintained success-
fully with less than the best from
everyone. Dissatisfaction with medi-
ocrity enhances the ability of the
whole organization to use this heav-
en-given power to its fullest extent.
The vision and aim must be high
and the integrity of purpose and de-
pendability of each member must
be heightened.
Those to whom power is given
must assume the responsibilities that
go with it. The greatest responsi-
bility is wise leadership. To guide,
persuade, and direct aright, to fortify
in righteousness, to educate and to
give impetus to courageous action,
are facets of leadership for which
women in Relief Society are trained.
The strength of an organization of
women dedicating itself to good, fit-
ting itself for what there is to do,
and thoroughly believing that its
work is basically and spiritually right,
is the strength required by the Lord
for the work.
»AUL m his epistle to the Ro-
mans, speaks of the ''mutual
faith both of you and me," and be-
seeches his brethren to "strive to-
gether" in all that must be done.
He warns them to avoid ''divisions
and offences contrary to the doc-
trine." A number of the sisters he
singled out for special commenda-
tion.
I commend unto you Pliebe our sister,
which is a servant of the church which
is at Cenchrea:
That ye receive her in the Lord, as
becometh saints, and that ye assist her in
whatsoever business she hath need of you:
for she hath been a succourer of many,
and of myself also.
Greet Priscilla and Aquila my helpers
in Christ Jesus:
WHio have for my life laid down their
own necks: unto whom not only I give
thanks, but also all the churches of the
Gentiles. . . .
Greet Mar^^ who bestowed much labour
on us. . . .
Salute Tryphena and Tryphosa, who
labour in the Lord. Salute the beloved
Persis, which laboured much in the Lord
(Romans 16:1-4, 6, 12).
This kind of commendation can
also be given to many individual
women in this dispensation. Great
numbers of sisters holding office in
the Society could be described in
Paul's words as having "laboured
much in the Lord." But it is the
Society as a whole, as an auxiliary
of the Church, receiving power from
God bv "union of feeling," which
best serves to do the work which the
Lord would have done by an organ-
ization of his daughters.
Beautiful are the bonds of sister-
hood! Uplifting are the ties of
friendship. Glorious is the work of
thousands of sisters unified in
righteous purpose. Humbling is the
realization that it is the Lord's work
we are to do.
May he bless us with the desire
to approach him in "union of feel-
ing," and be one as Christ praved
his followers would be, I pray.
Fawn Hansen Sharp Appointed
to the General Board of Relief Society
Irene C. Lloyd
Member, General Board of Relief Society
FAWN HANSEN SHARP
Tj^AWN Hansen Sharp was ap-
pointed to the General Board
of Relief Society, September 9, 1962.
She has accepted this call in the
same spirit as she has accepted every
other assignment, with a will to
serve to the best of her ability.
Sister Sharp is a daughter of Peter
Alvin and Lucy Blain Hansen. Her
grandparents were pioneers of Spring
City, Sanpete County, Utah, and
helped on the construction work of
the Manti Temple. Her father left
to serve on a mission when Sister
Sharp was only one month old. Her
parents, both deceased, were devout
Church workers, and taught their
children to live and understand the
principles of the gospel.
Sister Sharp attended the Latter-
day Saints College, later the Univer-
sity of Utah, and taught five years
in the schools of Box Elder County.
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She married J. Vernon Sharp in
1930 in the Salt Lake Temple, and
to this union came four lovely daugh-
ters, two who have passed away, one
an infant, Judy Lynn, and one in
young womanhood, Darlene Sharp
Topham. The other daughters are
married, Shirley to Lee Pitchforth,
and Susan to John Hutchinson.
Both girls are actively engaged in
Church service, one serving as a Re-
lief Society president, and the other
as a literature class leader. There are
four grandchildren.
Sister Sharp recently returned
from serving a three-year mission
with her husband President Sharp.
He was president first over the
original Andes Mission, now divided
into the Chilean and Andes Mission.
She helped to organize thirty Relief
Societies and directed the transla-
tion of Relief Society manuals.
She served as Relief Society presi-
dent of Holladay Third and Fifth
Wards, and has been active in some
Church capacity since she was in the
ninth grade.
''Charity Never Faileth'' applies
well to Sister Sharp, for the extra
mile has never been too long nor too
hard for her, if it meant bringing
comfort to those in need or in sor-
row. Sister Sharp has always been
ready to render service to her
neighbor. Love of her Church, her
family, and her strong testimony of
the gospel will give strength to all
who came in contact with her in
her new calling.
Report
and Official
IrLstrnctlons
President Belle S. Spafford
[Address Delivered at the General Session of the Annual General Relief Society
Conference, October 3, 1962]
A regular feature of the Officers sion. All four sisters are devoted Lat-
Meeting of the Annual Relief ter-day Saints, experienced in Relief
Society Conference is the Society work, and have a sincere
presentation of a brief report of the desire to be helpful to you through
status of the Society as shown in their service as General Board mem-
the Annual Report, together with a bers.
few instructions and recommenda-
tions of the General Board designed Organizations and Reorganizations
to help the Society function more The growth in number of organ-
uniformly and successfully. izations is encouraging. At the close
These reports show highly gratify- of 1961 there were 345 stake organ-
ing accomplishments on the part of izations. Twenty-six new stake or-
both stake and mission Relief So- ganizations were created during the
cieties. year. There were four stakes located
in Great Britain; five on the Euro-
General Board pean Continent; six in the South
We are pleased to introduce to Seas; two in Old Mexico; seven in
you four new General Board mem- Canada; and the remainder in the
bers appointed since the last General United States. This is evidence of
Conference: Sister Irene C. Lloyd, the growing strength of the Church
former president of the Holladay in faraway places and in foreign
Stake Relief Society; Sister Hazel lands. Ward and branch organiza-
S. Cannon, former counselor in the tions in the stakes, according to our
Federal Heights Ward Relief Soci- Annual Report, were increased by
ety; Sister Hazel S. Love, formerly 261, making a total of 3,142. There
Relief Society president of the were sixty-four missions at the end
Northern California Mission; and of the year, an increase of nine.
Sister Fawn H. Sharp, former Relief During 1961 there were fifty-six
Society president of the Andes Mis- reorganizations in the stakes and
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nineteen in the missions. We are
grateful for the services of the re-
tired officers. To the sisters who are
succeeding them we extend a warm
welcome into the Relief Society
family of officers.
Missions
Rapid growth is characterizing the
work in the missions. Membership
is increasing; many new branch
and district organizations are being
formed. A Relief Society mission
president writes:
Our district organizations function very
well. Full Relief Society boards of twelve
members are set up with regular leadership
meetings being held with all recommended
departments being conducted. Some of the
sisters travel as far as loo miles to attend
the leadership meetings. Through these
meetings general improvement is noted in
the work of the Society.
Although distances between homes
of members is a problem in most
missions, visiting teaching is being
extended.
Singing Mothers choruses, with
special concerts being held, are re-
ported by a number of Relief Society
mission presidents. Unusual success
is also attending Magazine promo-
tion work.
In some instances the sisters labor
under unusual difficulties and strains.
In one of the missions where the
political situation presents unusual
problems, the president informs us
that ''maintaining family solidarity
is a problem, but the sisters express
great appreciation for the lessons as
a help in this matter."
We recognize the wonderful lead-
ership being given to Relief Society
in the missions by the mission Relief
Society presidents and thank them
for their service.
Membership
The Society's membership pro-
gram for the past two years has been
characterized by intensive effort.
The entire active membership seems
to have united as one in response
to the membership building and
fellowshipping call that came to
them from the Brethren. Stake and
ward presidents have demonstrated
resourcefulness and dynamic leader-
ship. As a result, for 1961, the mem-
bership was increased by 16,899,
making a total membership of 231,
175-
Heart-warming stories have reached
the General Board of your fellow-
shipping activities. Time permits me
to relate only one which is typical.
A sister writes:
I am what the Relief Society sisters call
a re-activated Relief Society member. In
truth I am a re-activated Latter-day Saint
because of Relief Society. I was born to
Latter-day Saint parents but was not bap-
tized until I was twelve years old. For a
while I attended Church with my girl
friends. Then we moved to a new com-
munity and I quit going to Church.
Later, after I married, a visiting teacher
induced me to enroll in Relief Society.
I went for a time or two and then
dropped out. This seemed of little conse-
quence to me or anyone else for that
matter. A year ago I was invited to a
special Relief Society party. It was delight-
ful. I don't know when I have spent a
happier or more interesting afternoon. The
women were lovely and very cordial. They
urged me to pick up my Relief Society
membership. I did not respond immediately
but they kept after me. Because they
seemed so sincere in wanting me, in what
I thought at the time was a moment of
weakness, I did enroll. It wasn't a moment
of weakness, Sister Spafford, it was a
moment of great blessing. The sisters
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immediately took me in as one of them.
They demonstrated that I was needed.
They made me a visiting teacher with a
sweet-spirited companion. Then after awhile
they had me organize a ward Singing
Mothers chorus which I love. They have
given me other important things to do.
There is so much to do in Relief Society
that is worthwhile. I am learning a great
deal about the gospel, about which I knew
very little, and I am oh, so very happy.
I guess other wards have good Relief
Societies and lovely women, but I cannot
believe there is any ward quite like mine
or any women quite so good and kind.
Now I feel as if I want every woman I
know to join Rehef Society and I want you
to know how I feel.
Average Attendance
Just as your membership and fel-
lowshipping accomplishments are
heartening, so also is the average
attendance record. Attendance in-
creased from 36.91 per cent of the
total enrollment to 38.44 per cent.
This represents an increase in num-
ber of women present at the regular
w^eekly meetings of 9,820. Well-
organized nurseries, with carefully
planned activities, are proving a boon
to attendance.
Two-Session Ward Reh'ef Societies
Some wards are holding two-ses-
sion Relief Societies— daytime and
evening sessions— to accommodate
working mothers. Sisters, we are
pleased to advise you that a plan has
been worked out by the Brethren
for two-session Relief Societies. A
copy of this is available at General
Board headquarters upon request of
stake Relief Society presidents for
wards which may wish to enter into
such an arrangement.
The holding of evening Relief So-
cieties on a stake basis is not author-
ized. Relative to this we have been
instructed by our advisors from the
Council of Twelve as follows:
If evening Relief Societies are felt nec-
essary to meet the needs of working
women, they should be conducted on a
ward basis according to the approved plan.
There would be no objection, however, in
bringing together occasionally the sisters
attending evening Relief Society sessions
for a stake function, but the conduct of
regular Relief Society meetings by the
stake board for Relief Society members is
disapproved.
If wards are unable to hold
evening sessions weekly, it is per-
missible to conduct them on a
monthly or bi-monthly basis. Such
lesson courses as would meet the
interests and needs of the greatest
number of sisters attending would
be selected by the ward Relief Soci-
ety presidency in consultation with
the stake Relief Society presidency
from the approved lesson courses for
the current year.
The General Board has had a
few requests from Latter-day Saint
proprietors of homes for the aging
for Relief Societies to be conducted
in the homes for the benefit of
Latter-day Saint resident sisters. The
regulations set up by the Brethren
for the conduct of meetings in such
homes are available upon request at
the General Board office. Such
meetings should not be undertaken
without stake Relief Society presi-
dents obtaining a copy of these
regulations which they would make
available to the stake president.
Visiting Teaching
It is with gratitude that we report
to you today that last year 100,059
visiting teachers made a total of
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— NOVEMBER 1962
3,943,596 (approximately 4,000,000)
visits to the homes— an increase of
204,854 over i960. The good ac-
compHshed by this program is un-
measiirable.
To call at a home, uninvited, as
an emissary of Relief Society, im-
poses upon visiting teachers the re-
sponsibility of conducting the visit
in a spirit of humility, sisterhood,
and service, and according to stan-
dards set by the Society. In turn,
this imposes upon ward presidents
a very definite responsibility properly
to direct the visiting teachers. The
ten-minute period allowed presidents
in the visiting teacher meeting should
be devoted to helping the teachers
effectively perform their duties, and
not to extraneous matters. We sug-
gest that stake presidents call this
to the attention of their respective
ward presidents and that definite
guidance be given them in the use
of this time through the leadership
meeting.
Educational Program
The educational program, we be-
lieve, is a powerful force in influenc-
ing the beliefs, attitudes, viewpoints,
and conduct of Relief Society mem-
bers. The approximate 20,000 class
leaders devote countless hours to the
preparation of their respective les-
sons, and classwork, generally speak-
ing, is excellent. The theology course
on the Doctrine and Covenants, and
the visiting teacher messages,
''Truths to Live By From the
Doctrine and Covenants," also the
literature course on American Litera-
ture, for 1962 and 1963, are a
continuation of those of last year.
A new social science course entitled,
''Divine Law and Church Govern-
ment" will be introduced. The
objective of this course is "to under-
stand the law of God as it operates
through his Priesthood for the exal-
tation of his children." This course,
we believe, will be highly challeng-
ing to class leaders and extremely
valuable to the sisters in helping
them better to understand and ap-
preciate Church government.
Relief Soeiety Materials in Spanish
We are happy to announce that
at the request of the General Board
there has been translated into Span-
ish some Relief Society lesson helps
and administrative materials. A kit
suitable for use in wards and branch-
es is now available for 50c at the
General Board office. It contains
the 1962 convention helps for the-
ology, social science, visiting teacher
messages, music, and work meeting,
and some basic instructions on visit-
ing teaching and on the preparation
and presentation of lessons. Also
translated into Spanish for the use
of stakes and districts, and available
singly at 10c each, or in a second
packet for $1, are other convention
and conference materials on mem-
bership, visiting teaching, presiden-
tial and secretarial instructions, and
music helps. A list of these materi-
als may be obtained from the Gen-
eral Board office.
Lesson manuals containing the
Relief Society lessons for 1962-63 in
Spanish are obtainable for 75^ from
the Missionary Department, 47 East
South Temple, Salt Lake City, Utah.
Payment for manuals must accom-
pany the order.
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Magazine er the brief discussions "The Latter-
The steadily increasing Magazine day Saint Home." This procedure is
circulation is a tribute both to the contrary to the regulations of the
worth of the Magazine content and General Board,
to the Magazine representatives who Bazaars held during the past year
render such outstanding service. The reflected high standards of workman-
circulation at the close of 1961 was ship, good judgment as to useful and
183,236— an increase of 12,234 over saleable articles, as well as fair pric-
the previous year. There were 303 ing; they showed evidence of having
stakes and twenty-four missions on drawn upon the creative ability and
the honor roll. skills of the sisters.
We hope you feel as do we that Relative to bazaars, we have had
the addition of color to the inside called to our attention by presidents
pages adds to the attractiveness and of foreign missions requests that
general enjoyment of the publica- have been received by sisters of their
tion. respective missions from Relief So-
cieties in the United States for items
Work Meeting to be sold at so-called International
We are pleased with the work Relief Society Bazaars. In return,
meeting activities being planned and the United States Relief Societies
conducted by the wards. There offer to send to the foreign Relief
seems to have been a broadened view Society items made by the sisters
of what is helpful to the sisters in here. This has caused considerable
their daily homemaking. A large trouble in the foreign missions and is
volume of articles was produced as contrary to a regulation of the Gen-
follows: eral Board issued in 1950 as follows:
''Funds or articles to be sold at
Sewed articles 535,853 h^^^^^s should not be solicited from
Non-sewed articles 225,161 . . -i i
Sisters livmg outside the geographic
This represents a total of 761,014 boundaries of the ward holding the
or an increase of 105,221 articles over bazaar." We trust you will keep this
the previous year. regulation in mind.
The work meeting discussions for
1962-63 are designed to show how Compassionate Seivices and Church
the Latter-day Saint home may set Welfare
an example in homemaking. These Compassionate services and
discussions will undoubtedly suggest Church welfare activities held their
to alert work meeting leaders addi- rightful place of importance during
tional homemaking programs for the 1961. There were 357,334 visits to
work meeting. the sick and homebound or an in-
We caution you against creating crease of 34,780. There were 30,211
an additional department in the eight-hour days bedside nursing care
leadership meeting, by authorizing given the sick, or an increase of 661
the work meeting discussion leaders days. Tliere were over 400,000 hours
to meet separately from the regular devoted to other types of compas-
work meeting department to consid- sionate service— a magnificent in-
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crease of 126,087 hours in this area
of service.
Ward Relief Society presidents
made 93,625 family visits under the
direction of their respective bishops
— an increase over 1961 of 8,154
visits. There were 54422 Relief So-
ciety members who assisted on wel-
fare projects, while the sisters of the
Church contributed 789,807 hours
time to these projects.
In recording the number of family
visits, all visits to the home, whether
initial or follow-up visits, were in-
cluded. A new edition of the ward
and stake record books will go into
use in January 1963. In addition to
calling for the number of home
visits, the new editions of the record
books call for the number of other
contacts made to families in need
by ward Relief Society presidents
under the direction of their respec-
tive bishops. This will include tele-
phone conversations, contacts with
the family at Church or other places
—in fact, any contacts other than
home visits at which time informa-
tion is received pertaining to the
needs of the family.
Also, in recording the number of
hours contributed to Church welfare
projects, credit is being extended to
include time contributed by a sister
in order to make it possible for
another sister to accept an assign-
ment. For example. Sister A might
have a bedfast mother in her home
so could not accept an assignment to
go to the cannery, unless someone
was available to stay with the
mother. Sister B might be physically
unable to work at the cannery but
could sit with Sister A's mother, thus
allowing Sister A to accept the as-
signment. If such an arrangement
is made by the Relief Society work
director counselor under the direc-
tion of the bishop, the time spent
by both sisters would be counted
and both would receive work re-
ceipts. Presidents, please call these
matters to the attention of your ward
presidents.
Revised Record Books and Visiting
Teacher Report Books
In addition to the new editions
of the ward and stake record books
to which I have just referred, a new
edition of the visiting teacher report
book will also go into effect in Janu-
ary 1963. Both the record book and
the visiting teacher report book have
a few revisions over those presently
in use which will be explained in
detail in the Secretary-Treasurers De-
partment tomorrw. We suggest that
stake presidents discuss these revi-
sions with their respective secretary-
treasurers so that stake presidents
may be fully acquainted with them
and in a position to explain them, in
turn, to the respective ward presi-
dents at a forthcoming leadership
meeting. One important revision will
allow for a record to be kept for
the number of non-Latter-day Saint
women who are members of Relief
Society; also, the number of visiting
teacher visits made to non-L.D.S.
families. We hope presidents will
be especially aware of this.
Singing Mothers
While there are 2,599 Singing
Mothers choruses, we feel concerned
at the decline in a single year of 453
choruses, with 8,440 fewer women
participating. This calls for special
attention from stake Relief Society
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presidents. Too many ward presi-
dents seem to have felt that with
the discontinuance of the special
Fast Sunday evening programs, there
is not sufficient opportunity for a
ward chorus to sing to justify having
one. This is not so. Opening and
closing socials, Anniversary Day pro-
grams, Christmas functions, pro-
grams held in connection with
bazaars, lesson work, funerals— these
and other occasions might utilize a
chorus. Some ward bishops use Sing-
ing Mothers occasionally for sacra-
ment meeting at times when the
ward choir is not available. Presi-
dents, we urge you to encourage
ward Relief Society Singing Mothers
choruses.
Finances
Generally speaking, Relief Soci-
eties adequately finance themselves
to meet the general operating ex-
penses, with a possible exception of
a few newly created stakes, particu-
larly those in foreign countries. We
again suggest to these new stakes
the careful reading of the section on
''Funds'' in the Handbook. Feel free,
also, to discuss this matter with the
General Board representatives who
visit with you in your Relief Society
conventions.
Conclusion
Sisters, in your efforts to forward
the program of Relief Society and
to bring more women actively into
the organization, you are engaged in
highly profitable endeavors. Relief
Society is a wonderful organization,
with tremendous power for good. As
an aid to the Priesthood in advanc-
ing the work of the Church, it makes
a worthy contribution to the build-
ing of our Father's kingdom on
earth. As an organization for wom-
en, it touches every facet of their
lives. It has the power to make of
its members sweet-spirited, thought-
ful, kind women; to make them
competent and poised women; cul-
tured and refined women. It influ-
ences their manners, their speech,
and their tastes. It develops within
them a sense of appropriateness or
fitness in what they do and say-
even in how they dress. Occasionally
you may note a woman coming to
Relief Society inappropriately dressed
or whose general appearance does
not bespeak the dignity which we
associate with Relief Society. We
also note that it is not long, however,
until the formality and dignity of
the meetings, the example of officers
and the general teachings of the
Society develop within her an aware-
ness of what is appropriate and right.
Yes, Relief Society is a power in
helping women to be their best
selves— lovely, lovable, useful wom-
en whose lives are purposeful and
exemplary; women who are about
their Father's business. All of this
carries over into their homes and
bears fruit in the character of their
homes and in the lives of their chil-
dren.
To be called to a position of lead-
ership in an organization which plays
so important a role in the work of
the Church and which so vitally in-
fluences women to serve as an ex-
ample to Latter-day Saint women, is
a responsibility of consequence as
well as a sacred trust. May the Lord
inspire and guide you in your call-
ings, I sincerely pray.
In Summer's Wake
Eva Willes Wangsgaard
1 stand above exotic tropic bloom
Begonias yield within their sun-flecked shade,
The hose relinquishing a silver plume
Of liquid life to burnish leafy jade.
While all about petunias climb and spread
High up the fence and over moistened roots.
Bright garlanded in apples overhead,
Tlie Hopa crabtree molds its crimson fruit.
Yet something indefinable repeats
A thin familiar warning, ''Autumn's near."
And deep within me smoldering protests beat
A sharp denial to the waning year.
Each mellow moment caught in summer's wake
Tempers my joy with its peculiar ache.
Try, Try Again
Caioline Eyiing Minei
''pERSEVERANCE is more prevailing than violence; and many things
which cannot be overcome when they are together, yield themselves
up when taken little by little," so philosophized Plutarch.
This puts me in mind of the dozen sticks which could not be broken
when held together, but one by one they were overcome. My mother used
to say it more simply in the old adage: 'If at first you don't succeed, try,
try again," or 'Tractice makes perfect."
President Grant said substantially the same thing in the words: "That
which we persist in doing soon becomes easy to do, not that the nature
of the thing has changed, but that our power to do has increased."
When living the whole gospel, one cannot be deflected from his faith,
but only as he falls away, commandment by commandment, precept by
precept. Perfection is made trifle by trifle, but in itself is not a trifling
thing. My mother told me of the painstaking remaking of her seams
when sewing as a child. She learned to be one of the finest quilters in the
whole valley.
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Don Knight
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TORREY PINES PARK, SAN DIEGO, CALIFORNIA
Two Loves
Lael W. HiJl
These mountain ways are tall and proud;
I run to them, I shout aloud,
I love them with a love oh fierce
As thrust of stone — my cliffs that pierce
Thunder and night and needled snow!
... It is with gentler joy I go
To lift warm, water-rippled sands
And pour them back from sun-held hands,
To lean upon the salt-soft air
In wind-bowed attitudes of prayer:
I meet the everlasting seas
Quietly, upon my knees.
Little
Blue Bag
"H
URRY, Mama, they will go
without me." Margaret
had been too excited about
the Christmas shopping trip to touch
her breakfast. Now she could not
wait to put on her galoshes or fasten
the scarf about her neck. Her moth-
er held up one of the red, knitted
mittens, and Margaret pushed her
hand into it, then repeated the
movement with the other hand.
*'Oh! My money!" she exclaimed.
''Here it is, dear." Mrs. Haskell
smiled at her young daughter. '1
have tied it in the corner of your
handkerchief."
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Helen C. Warr
'Thank you. Mama." Margaret
took the knotted corner and clasped
it tightly in her mittened hand. She
kissed her mother hurriedly and ran
out the back door, as the sleigh
drew up and stopped in the yard.
Today was the big day. She and
Ross were doing their Christmas
shopping alone this year. Always
before Mama had gone with her and
made suggestions as to what she
should buy for Papa and for Ross.
But today she and Ross were riding
into town with Papa and would go
into Mr. Kruger's store and decide
all by themselves. Mama had said
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817
maybe they should put their money
together and buy just one gift for
each person instead of two, but Ross
always wanted to buy different
things. She had thought and
thought about it and eould not de-
cide what she should do.
Papa helped her up into the sleigh
and tucked her in between himself
and Ross. Ross was only four years
older than she, but he always tried
to act like Papa. Sometimes he
called her a little girl. Papa did, too,
but it was all right when he did it,
for his voice sounded so much nicer
when he said it.
"Well, so my little girl is going
Christmas shopping?"
She knew Papa would be looking
at her in that way he always looked
when he called her his little girl.
His eyes would twinkle, the corners
of his mouth would turn up, and, if
she looked at him, he would wink
ever so slightly with his left eye.
She looked up at him now, and
he winked with his left eye and said,
"Have you decided what you will
buy for Mama?"
"She will want to buy some silly
thing like . . . like perfume . . .
most likely, or . . ." Ross hesitated.
"Could we, Ross?" Margaret
asked.
She had not thought of perfume,
but Mama might like that. She had
not known about perfume until just
lately when she was helping Mama
clean out the bureau drawers. She
had seen the little bottle with the
rubber bulb, in the top drawer, and
had asked what it was. Mama had
squeezed the bulb and said, "It's
perfume, dear." Margaret had
thought the fragrance was heavenly,
and had said so. Now she remem-
bered the smell of the perfume and
it was just like Mama always smelled.
"See, what did I tell you!" said
Ross.
"But couldn't we, Ross?" Mar-
garet asked again.
"Maybe you had better let me
buy the perfume." Papa laughed and
patted her hand.
T T was a nice day for going Christ-
mas shopping, thought Margaret.
Yesterday's snow had settled and
was packed down under the feet of
the horses and runners of the sleighs
that had passed over the road before
them. Everything sparkled with
the sun shining on the snow, and
the frost was dropping from the trees
and bushes along the roadway. The
air was crisp and sharp. The bells
on the harness jingled, and the
horses sent out jets of steam from
their nostrils as they trotted along.
The crunch of snow under their
feet made a pleasant sound.
She wished Mama could have
come along for the ride, but she had
said: "My goodness! I have so many
things to do. We will make the
cookies when you come back. We
need raisins and coconut from Mr.
Kruger's store."
Margaret thought all of the nice
things were coming in one day.
Mama alwavs let her cut the cookies
and choose the different shaped cut-
ters. Sometimes she let her put on
the raisins to make the eyes and
buttons on the gingerbread men.
Then she could select the nicest
looking ones to hang on the Christ-
mas tree. Christmas was going to
be such fun.
When the sleigh drew up in front
of Mr. Kruger's store, Ross jumped
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out and tied the horses to the hitch-
ing post. Mr. Haskell helped Mar-
garet from the sleigh, and they
walked into the warm and pleasant
smelling interior of the general store.
The change from the frosty air out-
side and the warmth inside made
Margaret's face tingle. The glare
of the sun on the early morning
snow made the store seem dark by
comparison.
"Morning, Haskell." Mr. Kruger's
bellowing voice sounded from some-
where in the rear. He emerged from
behind a pile of sacked sugar, wip-
ing his hands on his apron.
''Good morning, Mr. Haskell.
Hello, Ross and Margaret."
Miss Gallic Bronson spoke from
behind the counter, where she was
moving the piles of overalls to make
room for the new Ghristmas mer-
chandise.
''What can I do for you?" she
asked.
Miss Gallic was a little woman
who seldom smiled, but Margaret
thought she was quite pretty.
"Good morning, Miss Gallic,
Mr. Kruger." Papa was saying.
"Ross and Margaret are here to do
their Ghristmas shopping. If you
will fill this list for my wife, they
can look around while I go over to
the feed store and the post office."
Margaret did not hear what else
her father was saying, for she had
begun moving about the store. Now
that her eyes had become accus-
tomed to the light inside there were
so many things to see. Ross had
long since gone over to the far side
in the tools and hardware. She
could not see why he always went
over there when there were so many
other things to see in Mr. Kruger's
store.
She stood looking at the neckties
hanging from the rack on the coun-
ter. She thought the yellow one,
with the small brown emblem,
would be nice for Papa. She hoped
that Ross would not want to buy
another hammer for him. She
walked about looking at all of the
new and unusual things.
'T^HERE were toys, dolls, and bi-
cycles, tree ornaments, and the
Ghristmas cards, a cardboard Santa
Glaus with cotton whiskers, pointing
down to a huge barrel of Ghristmas
candies, more kinds of nuts than she
had ever seen before, and the larg-
est oranges. Mr. Kruger's store
never looked more inviting or more
crowded with things.
Once again she wished Mama
were here to help her decide what
to buy, but she would have to do
it herself. So she moved about to
see what she could buy for Mama.
The handkerchiefs were pretty, and
she liked the gloves, especially the
green ones. But they would likely
cost too much money. On top of
a show case was a flowered box, with
small drawers like her mother's
bureau. She reached up to pull out
one of the drawers to see what was
inside, when Miss Gallic spoke.
"You must not touch things,
Margaret, if you want to see some-
thing I will show you."
Margaret had forgotten all about
Miss Gallie, who was still busy back
of the counter. She walked over,
opening the three little drawers,
showing the writing paper inside.
"Thank you," said Margaret.
"The price is seventy-five cents.
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819
Do you like that?" asked Miss Gal-
lic.
''Oh! Yes!" Margaret spoke ex-
citedly, ''but I don't know if Ross
will like it."
Miss Gallic moved back to her
work. Once again Margaret looked
about at the things in the show
cases. There were several necklaces
and such pretty scarves.
Then she saw the little blue bag.
It was as blue as the ice on the
pond where she and Ross went
skating. About three inches high,
with a blue cord for a drawstring,
with real tassels. She stooped down
to see it from the underneath side
of the glass shelf in the showcase.
The bottom was a small oval mir-
ror, about the size of a dollar. She
was trying to read the price on it,
when Miss Gallic spoke again.
"Margaret, please do not lean
against the showcase. You will
smudge the glass."
Margaret stood up quickly. She
had not been able to see the price.
How she would love to have the
little blue bag. She did not know
just why, for she had no idea what
she could do with it. It was hardly
large enough to hold anything, she
would have trouble even putting in
her handkerchief. She wondered if
she would have enough money to
buy it for herself and still buy the
other presents. Then she remem-
bered the harmonica for Ross. He
and Papa played together, and Ross
had broken his harmonica and Mar-
garet had planned to buy another
one for him.
She knew where the harmonicas
were, for Mr. Kruger always kept
them in the same place. She
walked over and picked up the one
she wanted. Taking it to Miss Gal-
lie, she asked, "Would you please
wrap this for me, so Ross won't see
it."
Miss Gallic dropped the har-
monica into a paper bag, just as
Ross came up.
"Hey, Marg, Fve found the keen-
est thing for Mom. It's a new kind
of a can opener. And there's a swell
set of small wrenches for. . . ."
"No! I won't buy that for Mama!"
Margaret's voice trembled and the
tears came. "I just won't buy that
for Mama."
"Gee! Marg! Don't cry!" Ross
looked up, embarrassed, at Miss Gal-
lie.
She patted Margaret on the
shoulder comfortingly.
"Margaret has picked out what
she would like for your mother."
As Miss Gallic spoke, she walked
down the aisle, picking up the flow-
ered box of stationery.
"That! Girl's have the craziest
notions!" Ross shrugged. "But if
you're going to cry about it, guess
you can have your way. But we'll
have to buy the wrenches for Dad."
Margaret, still clutching the mon-
ey in the corner of her handkerchief,
wiped her nose. They counted out
their money, and Miss Gallic began
wrapping the gifts selected.
/^NGE again Margaret walked
back to the showcase and
looked longingly at the little blue
bag. Once again she squatted down
to see the mirror in the bottom. She
pressed her nose up against the
glass. Then, remembering what
Miss Gallic had said, she stood up
quickly. Her nose made a smudge,
so she tried to rub it off with her
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mittened hand. It did not matter
now how much it cost, for she had
spent her money on the Christmas
gifts. She was still looking at the
bag when her father came back into
the store.
''Got the groceries about ready,
Haskell/' Mr. Kruger called out.
"No hurry, Kruger," came the
cheery response, ''got to get a tree.''
Ross had been looking at the Christ-
mas trees. Now he moved them in
turn, as his father surveyed each
from a distance.
"What do you think of that one,
Margaret?"
"That's nice. Papa. It's so big and
smells so good."
Mr. Haskell paid for the groceries,
carried out one of the boxes, Mr.
Kruger the other. In the sleigh
were sacks of feed and a huge box
from the mail-order house. Mar-
garet remembered helping her moth-
er select things from the catalogue,
but she did not think it would take
such a large box to hold them. Mr.
Haskell put in the groceries and
Margaret's packages and covered
everything with the tarpaulin. Ross
anchored the Christmas tree on top.
Margaret was silent on the trip
home. She was ashamed that she
had wanted to spend some of her
Christmas money on herself. She
did not listen to what Papa and
Ross were saying, for she was think-
ing about the gifts she had bought
and about the little blue bag.
A spicy aroma assailed them as
they opened the kitchen door at
home. Mrs. Haskell lifted out a
crisp doughnut from the black iron
kettle and placed it on the cooling
rack. Ross said, "Gee! Mom!" and
helped himself to the sugared
doughnuts in the half-filled earthen
crock. The cookie dough was rolled
out on the floured board waiting for
the cookie cutters.
"How was the shopping trip?"
asked Mrs. Haskell.
"Great." Ross had his mouth
full of doughnut. "But Marg has
the nuttiest "
"Just fine. Mama." Margaret
spoke at the same time, "but Ross
never likes what I. . . ."
They both laughed. The parents,
understandingly, smiled at each
other.
Later on, when the last cookie
was in the oven, and the earthen
crock was filled with doughnuts,
Mrs. Haskell brought up the shop-
ping trip again.
"Did you see anything in Mr.
Kruger's store that you would like
for yourself?" she asked Margaret.
"There was a. . . ." Margaret hesi-
tated. She had almost mentioned
the little blue bag. But she did not
want Mama to know how selfish
she had been in wanting to spend
part of her money on herself.
". . . so many things for you, that I
couldn't decide. Lots of things cost
too much money. I hope you will
like this. . . ." Margaret stopped just
in time.
Mrs. Haskell, embracing her
daughter, laughed. "I'm sure that
I will."
'T^HE next two days passed quickly.
Margaret hurried through her
homework so that she could string
the popcorn and the cranberries to
trim the Christmas tree. She made
colored paper chains to add to the
decorations. The metal candle
holders held tiny colored candles,
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821
but they could only be lighted on
Christmas Eve, and then only for a
short period at a time under Papa's
supervision.
Margaret had wrapped the gifts
in pretty paper her mother had given
her, and had placed them under the
tree while the candles were burning.
Mrs. Haskell added a few gaily
wrapped packages of her own. She
always made a new dress for Mar-
garet at Christmas time and shirts
and knitted sox or gloves for her
menfolk. Margaret thought how
pretty evers^thing looked in the flick-
ering candlelight.
'That's the finest looking tree
we've ever had. My two girls have
done themselves proud."
Mr. Haskell put a shovelful of
coal in the pot-bellied stove, then
sat down in his easy chair. Margaret
sat on a footstool at his feet, her
back to the stove, staring dreamily
at the Christmas tree. The prepara-
tion for Christmas had been as much
fun as Christmas would be.
'Tlay something, Papa," Margaret
asked.
Mr. Haskell picked up his har-
monica and tapped it in the palm of
his hand. He played up and down
the scale and into a chorus of "My
Darling Nellie Gray." Ross repeat-
ed the same routine with his own
harmonica, but the broken reed
prevented his playing. Margaret
was so glad that she had remem-
bered to buy a new harmonica for
him, and could hardly refrain from
telling him so.
''Time for bed, sleepy head."
Mrs. Haskell rose from her
chair, stroked Margaret's long brown
hair and kissed her forehead. "Morn-
ing will come early tomorrow."
Morning did come early. It was
hardly daylight when Margaret
awoke. She slipped her flannel
robe over her nightgown, put on her
slippers, and went down the stairs.
Mr. Haskell had stirred up the em-
bers in the stove and it was red hot.
"Merry Christmas, Papa."
"Merry Christmas, Margaret. How
is my little girl this fine morning?"
His eyes twinkled, the corners of
his mouth turned up, and he winked
at her ever so slightly with his left
eye.
"Oh! Papa!" Margaret exclaimed,
as she looked at the Christmas tree,
"It's just beautiful."
She had picked up the doll as her
mother came down the stairs. Mar-
garet had thought she was almost
too big for a doll, but she was glad
to have this one, for she really en-
joyed playing with dolls occasionally.
This was her best and likely her last
doll.
"Oh! Mama! It's beautiful," Mar-
garet repeated. "This is the best
Christmas of all."
"I'm so glad," her mother smiled,
"I think so, too."
Ross came bounding down the
stairs, two or three steps at a time,
his "Merry Christmas" and "When
do we eat?" almost in unison.
Margaret stood enthralled by the
things under the tree. Then she
saw the little blue bag.
It hung on the tip end of one
of the branches, about half way up
on the tree. This time she did not
have to stoop down to see the mir-
ror in the bottom. This time she
did not need to look for the price
tag. For the card on the bottom
read From Ross.
Sisty Tears A^o
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, November 1902
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
INTERESTING LETTERS FROM NAUVOO — to Mrs. Emma S. Woodruff:
Dear Mother: This has been a most interesting day for Asahel and myself. The day
has been sunny and beautiful. The ehrysanthemums, some few roses and many other
beautiful flowers are still untouehed by the frost, lending their assistance in making the
landscape almost perfect. We visited a great number of the former homes of the
Saints, including father's. Uncle Smoot's and the lot where your house stood. Presi-
dent Joseph Smith's, President Young's, President Taylor's, President Snow's, Heber
C. Kimball's and many others. We also visited the Temple block, where you used to
take grandfather's dinner to him when he was at work on the Temple. We walked
through the lane south of where you used to live, and fancied we could see you tripping
light-heartedly along the same lane. . . .
— Affectionately Your Son, Abraham O. Woodruff
Dear Mother: .... Just after sunset we mounted to the deck of a large school-
house standing on a commanding eminence and secured a splendid view of the city
stretched out beneath, the river in its splendid sweep around three sides, Montrose
across the noble stream with the islands midway of the same, and one of the grandest
sunsets it was ever my privilege to behold. Nauvoo was well named the peaceful, the
beautiful. Surely our parents sacrificed much for the gospel. . , .
— Affectionately Asahel
THANKSGIVING
Great Father kind, we thank Thee for light of sun,
The privilege to dwell upon this earth.
For everything which Thou for us hast done
Since through Thy mercy we were given birth.
Ah, how can we our gratitude e'er show,
For all Thy many blessings here below. . . .
— Ellis R. Shipp
GOVERNOR PROCLAIMS THANKSGIVING: .... At no time in our history
have the material, educational and social comforts of life been so abundantly and
universally bestowed as during the year now drawing to its close; nor has the promise
and potency of the future seemed so fraught with every earthly blessing. I therefore
recommend that the people of this State in their places of worship and at their homes,
observe with reverent joy, and with uplifted hearts and with the wide extended hands
of good fellowship this Thanksgiving day. . . .
— Heber M. Wells — By the Governor
RELIEF SOCIETY MEETING IN THE FOURTEENTH WARD, SALT
LAKE CITY, UTAH: Sister Phebe Y. Beatie addressed the sisters in behalf of Sister
Emma Empey concerning the class of nurses that would commence the first of Novem-
ber, spoke of the benefit to be derived from being a nurse, the good they could do, and
what a help they would be to the Bishops ... in being able to know where to go
for help in ease of sickness; she urged the sisters to take an interest in the class. . . .
— Amelia Wadrop, Sec.
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Ramona W. Cannon
'yHE DOWAGER MAR-
^ CHIONESS of Reading was the
keynote speaker at an All-Woman's
Conference at the University of
Utah, September 7-8, the theme of
which was ''The Changing Role of
Women in Our Changing Society."
Lady Reading is a member of the
House of Lords and also chairman of
the Women's Volunteer Service of
Britain, an effective civil defense and
social welfare organization. As one
of the world's foremost advocates
of volunteer service, the courage of
her conviction carried to her large
audience at the Conference, as she
told them, 'The ultimate strength of
a nation lies in the character of the
men and women who are that na-
tion, and voluntary service is an in-
tegral part of that character. . . .
Peace will not be won, nor posterity
saved, by the genius of the few, but
by the devotion and faithfulness of
the very, very many."
A/r R S. ROBERTA WOHL-
Pear] Harbor: Warning and De-
cision (Stanford University Press).
It has been called by Samuel Eliot
Morrison "the best book by far" on
Pearl Harbor. Mrs. Wohlstetter
completed five years of intensive re-
search on her subject.
CEVERAL American women air
pilots — especially noted trophy
winners Miss Jerry Cobb and
Jacqueline Cochran, and also Mrs.
Philip Hart, mother of eight chil-
dren, are very eager to be permitted
to prepare for entering the field of
space flying. Jerry Cobb, from
Bethany, Oklahoma, was the first
woman to complete the full battery
of physical tests by which the seven
Mercury astronauts were selected.
She also completed the psycholog-
ical tests.
AyY/'OMEN scientists working on
the ground on space problems
in the United States, are Helen P.
Mann, analyzing missile tracking
systems; Jean Keown, doing research
on developing space food from
algae; Doris M. Willis, a grandmoth-
er and a world-famed automatic con-
trols expert; Marcia M. Neugebauer,
who worked on an experiment for
interplanetary probe; Sheila Wim-
dall, aeronautical engineer, working
on a Massachusetts Institute of
Technology design project.
ly/TRS. ELEANOR P. SHEP-
^ ^ PARD, a fifty-four year old
grandmother, is the first woman
mayor in the 180-year history of
Richmond, Virginia. Her official
title is "Madam Mayor."
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EDITORIAL
VOL. 49
NOVEMBER 1962
NO. 11
Relief Society Gives Thanks for New Members
Tl ELIEF Society has great cause
for rejoicing! At this time of
year when hearts and minds are giv-
en to thanksgiving and a recounting
of blessings, Rehef Society counts
its many blessings in the form of
approximately twenty thousand new
members.
New members come into the
organization bringing gifts, gifts of
eager interest and contagious en-
thusiasm. They bring new vigor
and a willingness to participate.
Added strength is given the organ-
ization in spirit as well as numbers
by the new members who thirst to
be a vital part of a living, growing,
serving society.
New members must be made to
feel pride in the great traditions of
Relief Society and to recognize the
value of keeping traditions alive.
Pioneer women kept their culture
and refinement in spite of the hard-
ships of frontier life. They did not
bow to expediency, live only for the
moment, or let privation dictate a
lowering of standards. Beauty lived
with them and was made part of
their environment by ingenious use
of whatever was available. Their
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talents were not allowed to be buried
by adversity. This proud tradition
has been a moving force throughout
the years of the existence of Relief
Society.
Should the new members ask the
meaning of Relief Society and what
its values are, the answer would, of
necessity, be long. It cannot be
stated in one sentence. Like a jewel,
it has many facets, all contributing
to its beauty and value; facets which
diffuse their light and radiance and
bring joy to the beholder.
The true meaning of Relief So-
ciety lies in the fact that it is a
divinely instituted society, estab-
lished for women by an inspired
Prophet of God, through which they
may serve and learn to live abun-
dantly. It is apparent in the reasons
for its organization and the purposes
and goals of its programs, proce-
dures, and activities.
The true meaning lies in the posi-
tion Relief Society holds and its
influence upon the women of the
Church, as well as those not of the
Church, who have found affiliation
beneficial and desirable. Leadership
and ability to magnify those who are
Belle S. Spafford, President • Marianne C. Sharp, First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen, Second Counselor • Hulda Parker, Secretary-Treasurer
Anna B. Hart
Edith S. Elliott
Florence J. Madsen
Leone G. Lay ton
Blanche B. Stoddard
Evon W. Peterson
Aleine M. Young
Josie B. Bay
Alberta H. Christensen
Mildred B. Eyring
Charlotte A. Larsen
Edith P. Backman
Winniefred S.
Manwaring
Elna P. Hayxnond
Annie M. Ellsworth
Mary R. Young
Mary V. Cameron
Afton W. Hunt
Wealtha S. Mendenhall
Pearle M. Olsen
Elsa T. Peterson
Fanny S. Kienitz
Elizabeth B. Winters
LaRue H. Resell
Jennie R. Scott
Alice L. Wilkinson
LaPriel S. Bunker
Irene W. Buehner
Irene C. Lloyd
Hazel S. Cannon
Hazel S. Love
Fawn H. Sharp
called to positions in the society are
facets of its greatness. The fact that
this organization of the mothers^ of
the Church stands side by side with
the Priesthood of the Church, a
helpmate to the Priesthood in the
sacred responsibility of furthering
the work of the Lord, is evidence of
its worth.
The true meaning of Relief So-
ciety is a measure of its refining in-
fluence upon the women, their
spiritual aura, gracious dignity, and
poise; making of them cultured
women, discriminating, discerning
women, selfless and loving, friendly
women. Its numerous activities ful-
fill the needs of women for spiritual
enlightenment and education. De-
votion to the principles of the gos-
pel, dedication to keeping the com-
mandments of the Father, love and
willingness to give of themselves,
characterize members of Relief So-
ciety.
The true meaning of Relief So-
ciety is exemplified in the homes,
in well-taught children, in honored
husbands, in homes whose spiritual
environments are beautiful. Latter-
day Saint homes receiving its teach-
ings and the enlarged vision it gives
of righteous living are happier.
The true meaning of Relief So-
ciety lies in work — splendid work —
wholehearted, purposeful, dedicated
work. It is shown in the joy it
shares, the cherishing, tender watch-
care it gives, and the spirit of com-
passion that fills the hearts of its
members.
The true meaning of Relief So-
ciety and its ultimate aim are seen
in the knowledge it imparts and the
testimonies it strengthens of the
divinity of the Savior and the mis-
sion of the Prophet Joseph Smith.
The true meaning of Relief So-
ciety is sisterhood, world-wide as
well as next-door-neighbor sister-
hood, which reaches out to embrace
those whom its extended arms may
enfold.
This wonderful group of new
members is received with heartfelt
thanksgiving. In praise and grati-
tude to our Heavenly Father we
welcome them to the organization
of his choice daughters.
-L. W. M.
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In Memoriam— Fern Tanner Lee
November 14, 1896 — September 24, 1962
IT was with saddened hearts that Rehef Society sisters throughout the
world learned of the passing of Fern Tanner Lee, wife of Elder Harold B.
Lee of the Council of the Twelve. She died on Monday, September 24,
1962, in Salt Lake City, after being in ill health for the past few months.
Heartfelt tributes were paid to her at her funeral, and the profuse
and lovely pastel-colored flowers and beautiful and moving musical selec-
tions typified the love of Sister Lee for all things beautiful.
President McKay praised her lovely, noble character, her tenderness
and yet her strength to meet the trials of life; President Moyle pointed out
how Sister Lee had inspired her husband all the way in their married life
and that they two would always be seen as one. Bishop Richard S. Tanner,
a nephew of Sister Lee, gave glimpses of her family life and the outstand-
ing Church services of her forebears. Luacine Clark Fox paid tribute to
her for her devotion and loyalty as a wife, her inspiring teachings as the
mother of two daughters and grandmother of ten, and her valued services
to the women of the Church, both young and older.
Relief Society members throughout most of the world have had the
privilege of meeting with Sister Lee and will recall her graciousness, refine-
ment, and quiet helpfulness as she accompanied Elder Lee on his important
Church assignments when, sometimes, her own health was not robust.
Everywhere she exemplified wifely devotion, cheerfulness, and a forgetful-
ness of self.
The General Presidency of Relief Society will miss her counsel and
assistance in matters on which she has rendered service to Relief Society.
Prayers of faith and comfort in behalf of Elder Lee and his family will be
offered by Relief Society members everywhere at the passing of his dearly
beloved wife, Fern.
A
In Memoriam— Amy Whipple Evans
December 15, 1871 — September 6, 1962
MY Whipple Evans, a former member of the General Board of Relief
Society, died September 6, 1962, in Denver, Colorado. A woman of
outstanding spiritual and intellectual gifts, she served Relief Society as a
General Board member for eighteen years (1921-1939). She was for a
number of years supervisor of the social service department of Relief
Society. In appreciation for her service in this field of social work, a fellow-
ship in her honor was established at the University of Utah. Talented and
beautiful, she was a woman who offered her time and energy for the up-
building of Church and community^ and to the instruction and inspiration
of the women of Zion.
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First Snow
Dorothy ]. RobcTts
No snow lies like this first snow on the land.
Each twig and dry stalk clings tenaciously
To crystal blossoms falling everywhere;
White fingers gesture from the pinion tree.
No ledge is left unlined with luminance;
No form remains forgotten or undraped.
Each pole is turbaned with an ermine crown,
Each leafless weed magnificently shaped.
The first snow lettered on the land,
Virginal, a symphony in white. . . .
Winter wears the face of innocence
And purity has clothed the world tonight.
Remembering Sorrow
Blanche Kendall McKey
I had a crushing sorrow once —
When I was very young;
And life has never spoken since
In quite so gay a tongue.
I've laughed at many a passing wound —
A half a score or so —
But in the shadowed realm of tears
My soul bows low.
And yet on this Thanksgiving Eve,
In counting how I'm blest,
I think the wisdom bom of sorrow
Outshines all the rest!
Chrysanthemums
Evelyn Fjddsted
The brightness of the flower world.
Is waning in the autumn chill.
A postlude wondertime returns,
To gardens now so calm and still.
Brave, earthly flower stars unnoticed.
Until blossom colors flare their call.
To keep a rendezvous'with time,
Where garden leaves begin to fall.
Other flower scenes have all been shown.
A wild perfume drifts through the air.
And, like the prairie sage, it seems.
So cool, so wonderful and rare.
And this is fall chrysanthemums;
Pastels released when autumn comes.
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Menu foi
Grapefruit Edmons
Tomato Aspic Salad
^V'K^^p^ ^1^ l^rtf^^PM S^^S ^i^^i^ Turkey With Rice Dressinj
■ ■■ d n MLS^P l^r ■ ■■^J Gravy With Mushrooms
Dinner
Mary /. Wilson
Former Member, General Board of Relief Society
Cabbage Slaw
Stuffed Zucchini
Bran Bread
Gianberry Fluff
Pumpkin Pie
THANKSGIVING DINNER
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Grapefruit Edmons
% c. water
4 c. sugar
3 large grapefruit (or 2 cans)
1 pkg. frozen raspberries
Pee] and divide grapefruit into membraneless sections. Arrange in a shallow bowl.
Mix raspberries, water, and sugar. Cook slowly for five minutes, then foree through
sieve (using a spoon) over grapefruit and mix well. Let stand overnight in refrigerator.
When using canned grapefruit, reduce sugar to 'X cup, or sweeten to taste.
Serves eight to ten.
Tomato Aspic Salad
5% c. tomato juice
3 medium-sized onions, quartered
3 stalks celery
3 tbsp. vinegar
1 tbsp. Worcestershire sauce
juice of 2 lemons
3 bay leaves
salt, red pepper, and Tabasco sauce,
as desired
5 tbsp. gelatin dissolved in 1 c. cold water
Put all ingredients except gelatin and water on to heat. Let come to a boil.
Then take off fire and add gelatin which has been dissolved in 1 cup cold water. Strain
and put into molds. After this has cooled to lukewarm, drop into each mold 2 or 3
small cream cheese balls, which have been made by mixing the following ingredients:
2 3-0Z. pkgs. cream cheese
1 tsp. grated onion
2 tsp. pickle relish
2 tbsp. mayonnaise
2 tsp. chili sauce
Tabasco sauce to taste
Mold into small balls.
Let salads set in refrigerator for at least six hours. Unmold and serve on lettuce
leaf with Yi tsp. mayonnaise decorated with small sprig of parsley and carrot curl.
Turkey
(18-20 lbs.)
Wash turkey inside and out and dry thoroughly. Mix Yi cup shortening with 1
tbsp. salt. Rub turkey thoroughly inside and out. Cover with a double thickness of cloth
which has been dampened with water, or dipped in melted butter, or combination.
Bake at 300° for six hours, before adding stuffing. Baste several times while cooking.
Foil may be used instead of cloth for covering turkey.
2 c. nee
2 tbsp. melted butter or
other shortening
1 large onion, chopped
Rice Stuffing
3 Yz c. water or chicken stock, or bouillon
6 celery stalks, chopped
almonds or pinon nuts, as desired
salt, pepper, sage, to taste
Stir the rice into the melted butter or other shortening to coat the rice, then follow
the directions on the package for cooking rice (chicken soup or stock may be used instead
of water). Saute the onion and celery stalks finely chopped. Cook until almost tender.
Mix with toasted slivered almonds or pinon nuts, sage and salt and pepper to taste. Add
these ingredients to the warm cooked rice. Remove the turkey from the oven about one
hour before serving, then, with a spoon, fill the cavities with dressing and replace in
the oven for at least an hour of cooking.
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Gravy With Mushrooms
2 cans mushroom soup butter or other shortening, as desired
1 can mushrooms
Pour hquid from can of mushrooms into mushroom soup. Saute mushrooms in
butter. Add to soup. After turkey is removed from pan, pour off fat. Pour soup and
mushrooms into drippings. Stir well.
1 large cabbage head, shredded
2 carrots
1 onion, finely chopped
% c. vinegar
Cabbage Slaw
1
tbsp.
salt
1
tbsp.
celery
seed
%
c. oil
iVi
C. SU£
mr
Mix ingredients for dressing and bring to a boil, stirring constantly. Pour hot mix-
ture over cabbage. Cover with plate to weight down. When cold, put in jars and
refrigerate. This may be made a few days before Thanksgiving. Pour off excess liquid
before serving. Retain liquid and add later to unused slaw before refrigerating again.
Stuffed Zucchini
6 medium-sized zucchini squash 3 tbsp. minced parsley
water as needed for cooking squash, salted V?, tsp. pepper
3 c. soft bread crumbs 3 eggs, beaten
% c. grated Parmesan cheese 2 tbsp. melted butter
1 small onion, chopped 4 c. diced celery
Wash and cut ends off zucchini squash. Cook 5 minutes in Vi inch boiling salted
water. Then halve the squash lengthwise. Remove pulp with spoon and combine with
bread crumbs, Vz c. grated cheese, onion, parsley, pepper, eggs, melted butter, and
celery. Brush the squash shells with melted butter. Season with additional salt and
pepper if desired, and fill with above mixture. Sprinkle with remaining !4 c. cheese
and bake in moderate oven (350°) for 30 minutes. Serves 12.
Bran Bread
1 c. shortening 2 c. lukewarm water
1 c. sugar for dissolving yeast
2 c. all-bran 3 pkgs. yeast
2 V2 tsp. salt 4 eggs, well beaten
2 c. boiling water enough white flour for kneading
Combine shortening, sugar, all-bran, and salt. Add boiling water and stir until
shortening is melted. Cool. Add yeast to the 2 cups of lukewarm water. Add beaten
eggs and yeast mixture. Combine the two mixtures and add enough white flour so
dough can be kneaded. Let rise. When doubled in bulk, divide dough and place
some of the loaves in small loaf pans, if different sized loaves are desired. Let rise and
bake in 350° oven 30 to 50 minutes, according to size of loaves. When cool, wrap
in aluminum foil and freeze the loaves for later use. The day the bread is served, thaw,
butter well, wrap in foil, and place in oven about 10 or 15 minutes before serving.
Makes eight small loaves and three large ones.
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Courtesy American Institute of Baking
Yz c. boiling water
1 c. shortening
2 rounded c. flour
Hot Water Pie Crust
tsp. salt
level tsp. baking powder
In 1 pt. measuring cup put Yi c. boiling water. Add shortening, putting in i tbsp.
at a time until water and shortening measure i Yz cups. Beat while melting. Add dry
ingredients. Put into refrigerator to get very cold before rolling out for baking.
1 Yi c. mashed pumpkin
1 c. brown sugar
2 eggs, shghtly beaten
1 c. evaporated milk
Yz tsp. salt
Pumpkin Pie Filling
tsp. ginger
tsp. cinnamon
tsp. melted butter
c. half and half
(milk and cream mixed)
Mix well and pour into unbaked pie shell. Bake in 450° oven for 10 minutes, then
lower heat to 350° to finish baking until set. Makes 2 small pies.
Frozen Pumpkin Pie —
To Make Ahead of Time
Yz lb. marshmallows
1 can mashed pumpkin {^Yz c.)
1 tsp. cinnamon
Heat and stir marshmallows, pumpkin, cinnamon, ginger, and salt, until mixed and
melted. Cool 1 hour. Whip cream and stir into pumpkin gradually. Pour into baked
pie shells and freeze uncovered. Wrap and store. Thaw for 40 minutes at room
temperature, then unwrap and serve. These pies may be made days ahead of time.
/4 tsp. ginger
!4 tsp. salt
1 c. whipping cream
Cut md Paste Christmas Curds
Janet W. Breeze
Here's a family-type Yuletide activity that
stands up and says, ''Start me early!"
Making your own greeting cards can be fun as
well as satisfying, in the rapidly growing com-
mercialized world in which we live — and it is easy,
too! Choose one of the following or try them all.
One word of caution before you run for the scissors
and glue. Be sure to purchase or decide on the size
envelopes you intend to use FIRST — or you may end
up making those as well.
Colored construction paper will be your basic
material, along with colored India ink for writing
the inscription of your choosing. Just remember
that a light-colored ink shows up better on dark
blue or red paper.
Other materials in addition to scissors and glue,
are listed separately with each of the individual
card designs.
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MATERIALS
1. Red paper for card and letter
cutouts; white paper for back-
ground cutouts, on which letters are
glued; green rickrack; and small
green, silver, or gold gummed
stars.
MATERIALS
2. Dark blue, red, or green paper
for card; gummed loose-leaf paper
reinforcements to form tree; a strip
of white paper for the trunk; and
colored ink (preferably same color
as card) for writing "Merry Christ-
mas'' on trunk.
MATERIALS
3. Colored paper for card; large
gold or silver gummed star plus
matching metallic ribbon or paper
strip for trunk; pinking shears; and
contrasting colored paper for tree,
which is glued to card by two side
edges only.
MATERIALS
4. Green construction paper for
card; two lines old sheet music;
silver or gold metallic paper for
bell and knocker; and red ribbon
or paper tape pinched to shape
for bow.
MATERIALS
5. Light blue paper, with window
cut out for card; dark blue paper
for reindeer cut-out silhouettes
(traced from an old card); white
poster paint (applied to wet paper)
for ground snow and splattered
over inside reindeer scene for fall-
ing snow; red or silver glitter for
outside window border.
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Out of the
Wilderness
Chapter 5
Shirley Thulin
Synopsis: Marian Morgan, a widow and
mother of six children, has come to Mon-
tana to supervise assessment work on the
mining property owned by the family. In
the mountain wilderness, Marian and her
family meet Jake Hadley, the owner of an
adjacent mine, whom they distrust, and
whose offers of friendship they fear.
THE early sun filled the room
and awakened Marian. She
dressed quietly and went out-
side. She had come to enjoy the
short morning walk to the well,
things were so special then. The
leaves on the trees and the shrubs
were bright green and shiny, still
damp with dew. The air was re-
freshing, with just a hint of the
night still in it. Marian had begun
to feel as though this hour were hers
alone, and each day on the way to
fill her bucket, she walked along the
small stream and watched the merry
little ripples dance and bubble. To-
day she knelt on the bank of the
stream and cupped her hands to fill
them with water. The coolness of
it made her shiver as she splashed
handful after handful on her face.
This ought to be good for my com-
plexion, she smiled to herself.
Though she knew there were ele-
ments in it that made it unsafe for
drinking, it felt good on her face.
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The stream ran from the mine on
down to the creek. Marian looked
deep within the water and wondered
if long ago, men with stubby beards
and eager hearts had panned for gold
here.
She looked at the flowers that
bloomed along the stream and up
the side of the mountain, as though
they were friends. She liked to
imagine they had "been planted for
her enjoyment alone. Now and
then, a shrill call from one bird and
the scolding reply from others made
her smile. It was as though one bird
thought it his duty to awaken the
entire bird kingdom and wasn't too
well thanked for his efforts.
On the little hill where the well
was, Marian stopped and looked at
the land around her. It is beautiful
here, she thought, and peaceful. She
looked at the rugged slopes of the
mountains that suddenly jutted out
here and there from within the
dense tree covering. And everywhere
varied shades of green carpeted the
ground. The steep mountaintops
reigned above, reaching their heads
into an intense blue sky, where
white clouds floated like puffs of
whipped cream.
Now the sun was turning the yel-
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835
lows to orange and the blues to pur-
ple. Another day had begun. Marian
let the bucket deep down within the
shadowy depths of the well, and
then drank of the clear cold water,
before starting back to the cabin.
''Mother/' Jim met her as she
came near, '*I was going to go for
water."
''That's all right, I enjoy doing it."
"Let's give Spotty some in his
can, before we take it inside."
"Spotty? Is that the name you
finally decided on?"
Jim laughed. "The kids all want-
ed me to name him Bambi, but I
held out for something different. See
his spots?" Jim closed the door of
the pen behind him and went over
to the little deer. "Hi, little fellow.
Look, Mom, he acts glad to see me.
He looks as though he would like to
wag his tail."
"If he were a dog, and if he had
a big enough tail," Marian laughed.
"I'll have to gather some more
fresh brush. He sure eats a lot. I
wish we had some hay."
"Maybe we can get Dick to bring
him some. We'll ask him when he
comes Saturday."
"Do baby deer eat hay?" Tommy
asked, coming towards them.
"Sometimes they will, but mostly
they eat leaves and soft twigs."
"Jim, Spotty looks lonesome. Let's
go find him a playmate," Tommy
suggested.
"Let's find him two playmates,"
said Jill, joining them.
"No more deer." Marian picked
Jill up. "One is going to keep us
busy."
"I'll be his playmate then," Jill
said. 'Til play with him."
Jim came out of the pen and
closed it. "I'll have to fix that door
better. The wire hinges aren't too
sturdy, and neither is the latch."
lyrORNING comes early in the
mountains, and it was still an
early hour when Jim filled his pock-
ets with roofing tacks and climbed
up the ladder with the first roll of
tarpaper.
"What can I do to help?" Marian
asked him.
"Just stand by to hand me
things," he told her. "And be ready
to catch me if I start falling." He
laughed.
"Jim! That's not funny." Marian
looked at the steep slope of the cab-
in roof. "You hang on tight and be
real careful."
"What's Jim up there for?" Tom-
my wanted to know.
"He's going to fix the roof, dear.
Now you go in and eat your break-
fast."
"All right. Come and pour the
milk for me."
"For me, too," said Jill.
"I'll be right back Jim. I'd better
help Sue get the children settled."
Marian gave the oatmeal a vigor-
our stir and filled the pitcher with
the milk she had mixed from the
white powder the night before. She
was filling the bowls when she heard
it. A rumble, and a scraping noise
on the roof, then a yell from Jim.
Marian closed her eyes, and without
realizing it, waited for the sickening
thud. When it didn't come, she
ran outside and saw that he had
caught himself when he got to the
chimney.
"Jim, are you all right?"
"I think so. My wrist feels funny,
though." Jim rubbed his arm, then
sat still for a moment.
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''We'd better get someone to do
it, Jim, don't you think. . . ."
But Marian didn't finish the sen-
tence. Jim scrambled back up to
the top and began to unroll the tar-
paper with such a definite purpose,
she knew she had to let him do it
himself or find out that he couldn't.
''Mom, can you send one of the
twins up? I could use someone to
help me unroll this. It's heavy."
Marion thought for a moment.
To have to worry about one of the
children behaving like a human fly
was all she could stand. "I'll come
up," she said. She was used to
climbing ladders. She had always
helped Da\id clean the wallpaper
in their home, but she soon found
out that climbing on the top of
roofs was something else. She cau-
tiously edged herself up onto the
roof, and then could go no farther.
She was so frightened, that she just
sat there.
"Come on, Mom. Crawl on up,
it isn't bad once you're up here."
"I ... I can't, Jim. It's too high."
"Well, then go back down and
get Jed," he told her, but she
couldn't do that either. The cabin
seemed to be spinning one way and
the ground the other. She couldn't
make her feet reach out to find the
ladder and she couldn't look down.
The children were all watching her
now, and Jim was calling directions
to her.
"Just turn over on your stomach
and start to crawl, Mother."
CHE didn't move.
"Mom, come back down," Sue
urged.
"You look funny," Jill told her.
"Just a minute, I'll come and
help you."
Jim made his way down the roof
and passed her onto the ladder. He
took hold of her and helped her put
her feet on the top rung. Now she
was able to make her way down, one
step at a time, until she finally felt
the earth beneath her feet. Her
knees were weak, and her head in
a whirl.
'Tlease, Mother, don't try any-
thing like that again," Sue scolded.
"You scared us," Jim added.
"Let me go up," Ted said, and was
halfwav up before she could find
her voice to protest. Jed went up,
too.
"Mommy," Jill said, and started
to brush Marian's clothing with
both her little hands, "you're all
dirty."
"You better stay down here with
us," Tommy said, and Marian was
only too glad to do just that.
She watched the three boys work
with the tarpaper to get it started
right, and had to admit to herself
they were efficient. Soon the tap-
ping of Jim's hammer made her feel
confident and she relaxed. She
climbed the ladder again and again,
handing them more tacks, and
when their work brought them near
the edge of the roof, she could reach
from the ladder and help.
The morning wore on, and when
noon approached, she went inside
to prepare some lunch.
"We have done nearly half of it,"
Jim said, coming in to wash.
"That's wonderful, son. I am so
proud of you."
While Jim was eating, Marian
noticed that he was using only his
left hand, his right one rested in his
lap.
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837
"My wrist bent the wrong way
when I shppcd/' he explained. ''It's
all right, though."
''Are you sure?''
"Now, stop worrying, I'm fine."
After luneh the boys went baek
up the ladder, and Marian helped
Sue with the dishes, then laid Jill
on the bed and tucked her in.
"Keep ^n eye on Tommy, and
listen for Jill to wake," Marian told
Sue, and though her weary body felt
more like joining Jill in her nap
than climbing ladders, she knew she
couldn't stay away from the project.
After the pulling, hammering,
smoothing and fitting, the tarpaper
was all in place, and the day was
nearly over. Marian wished for her
tile tub and gallons of hot water,
but knew that was a luxury she
would have to do without. She
would heat the two buckets of water
and pour them in the round tin tub,
as she had heard her grandmother
describe, and they would all have
an old-fashioned scrubbing.
"I'm going to remember these
tired muscles every time it rains."
Jim smiled.
"I will be very thankful for your
good, hard work every time we lis-
ten to the rain on the roof," Marian
told him.
/^NCE inside, Marian noticed how
quiet everything was. "Where
are the children?" she asked of no
one in particular. She went out and
around to the back of the cabin, but
could see no one. "Sue," she called,
and then she saw Tommy and Sue
on a little hill. They both turned
when they heard her.
"Come here." Marian's voice was
full of apprehension, for she could
not see Jill with them. When they
came closer, Marian asked where the
baby was.
"Isn't she still asleep?" asked Sue.
"We went for a walk," Tommy
said.
Marian dashed into the house. Jill
was not in the bed. The blanket
was in a little heap, and Marian
knew she had wandered outside.
"She's gone. Oh, Jim, she's been
gone for some time, she doesn't
usually sleep very long."
They began to look, calling her
name over and over, peering into
the shed, and behind the trees. Then
the search widened. Jim and Jed
climbed a tree so they could see over
larger areas, but there was no sign
of the little girl.
Dread and deep despair gripped
Marian's heart. In the wilderness,
how far could a three-year-old stray?
Or, then again, she could be but a
few feet away, and she couldn't be
seen, the trees were so thick and the
underbrush so dense.
Jim ran to the well, and Marian
was close behind him. They de-
cided it was too high and steep for
her to have climbed up the boards
and fallen in, though they weren't
sure . . . couldn't be really sure.
Jim touched his mother's arm.
"Don't worry, Mother, we'll find
her."
His concern for her started the
tears, and the hot sting of them
punctuated her helplessness. They
went back to the cabin.
"Mom, Jim . . . Spotty's gone,
too!" Sue ran to meet them. "His
pen is wide open and he's gone."
"Jill must have gone in to play
with him," Jim said, "and left the
door open."
"And when he went out, she fol-
lowed," Marian guessed.
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Marian told the twins, Sue and
Tommy, to stay near the cabin. "We
don't want anyone else to get lost/'
she told them. She stood, trying to
decide which way to go.
''Let's follow along the stream,"
Jim suggested.
"All right."
Marian took one step before some-
thing made her turn and look at
Sue. There was hurt in Sue's face,
and her eyes evaded Marian's.
"Sue, oh, Sue, dear. . . ."
"It's all my fault. If I had stayed
by the cabin. ... If I'd have watched
the door."
"Please, dear, don't blame your-
self. . . . We all should have
watched."
"But, Mother, if we don't find
her . . . oh. Mother."
"Sue, we will find her . . . we've
got to. Now, take care of the boys
until we get back."
Marian hoped her words would
convey the confidence she did not
feel. She turned and caught up
with Jim.
T^HEY followed one path after an-
other, calling Jill. They went
up one ridge after another where
they could look over the land, but
all they could see was treetops. They
couldn't see the ground.
New fear came over Marian as she
realized there would not be much
more daylight. Maybe a couple of
hours, she thought, if that much.
And the terror, the hopeless thought
of her baby somewhere all alone in
the forest in the night, made her
temples throb and her body feel
limp all over.
If only David were here, she
thought. He would know right
where to look. Or if only she had
listened to Charles and not come!
She felt so alone, the words of
Charles Neering, her friend at home,
kept coming back to her, "You need
someone. . . ."
Suddenly all her hatred for the
mountains came surging back into
her breast. Every tree, every blade
of grass was her enemy. Her eyes
were full of hot tears, and she was
stumbling along trying to keep up
with Jim.
"Jill! Oh, Jill, where are you?"
she called over and over. Then with
a depressing weariness, she slumped
to sit on a huge rock.
"Jim, we can't find her alone. It's
going to be dark soon. What can
we do?"
Jim was silent, and Marian knew
his words could not come out past
the worry in him.
"How far is it to the Silver Bear?"
"Just over that hill. The road
goes right past our mine. Shall I
go for help?"
"Yes, Jim. We'll need the men.
They know the land. Go quickly,
im.
As he started up the path that
lead to the road, Marian knew she
could not stay behind. "Wait, Jim,"
she called, "wait." She ran to catch
up with him, and then her words
of a minute before came back to her.
We can't find her alone. "J^"^^"
she said aloud, "we are going for
help in the wrong direction."
Jim looked at his mother and
knew what she meant. The two of
them knelt in prayer. There, high
in the mountains, Marian asked for
help in finding her baby.
{To he continued)
ntci-
FROM THE FIELD
General Secretaiy-Treasurer Hulda Parker
All material submitted for publication in this department should be sent through
stake and mission Relief Society presidents. See regulations governing the submittal of
material for "Notes From the Field" in the Magazine for January 1958, page 47, and
in the Relief Society Handbook of Instructions.
RELIEF SOCIETY ACTIVITIES
Timpanogos Stake (Utah), Manila Ward Achieves One Hundred Per Cent
Attendance at Visiting Teachers Meeting, May 1, 1962
Front row, seated, left to right: Cora W. Atwood, supervisor; Geneve Dalton,
supervisor; Jessie R. Wadley, supervisor; Jeanette W. Warnick, supervisor; Fern E.
Nielson, visiting teacher message leader, Timpanogos Stake Relief Society; Gertrude M.
Richards, President, Timpanogos Stake Relief Society; Effie W. Adams, President,
Manila Ward Relief Society; Leah W. Robinson, First Counselor; Gwen S. Unthank,
Second Counselor; Margaret Jeppson, Secretary-Treasurer.
Sister Richards reports: "At our visiting teachers convention held January 26th
this year, we called attention to the picture at the bottom of page 44 in the January
issue of the Magazine, entitled "Nebo Stake (Utah), Payson Fourth Ward Achieves
One Hundred Per Cent Attendance at Visiting Teacher Meeting, April 1961." A
challenge was offered the Relief Societies of Timpanogos Stake to equal this achievement.
Manila W^ard accepted the challenge, and at their May meeting one hundred per cent
of their visiting teachers were present. Manila Ward Relief Society has a member-
ship of 103 — the largest enrollment in Timpanogos Stake. There are fifty-two visiting
teachers, two alternates, and four supervisors. We feel that this achievement is a
reflection of good leadership and loyal membership in the Manila Ward Relief So-
ciety. . . . The result of the effort put forth to attain this goal is being felt in increased
interest and activity."
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St. George East Stake (Utah) Relief Society Social Honors Visiting Teachers
January 1962
Seated at the second table, left to right: Roma C. Esplin, President, St. George
East Stake Relief Society; Alta V. McConkie, First Counselor; Elsie B. Cox, Second
Counselor; Elva H. Terry, Secretary.
Sister Esplin reports: 'The latter part of January, the members of the St. George
East Stake Relief Society honored our visiting teachers at a luncheon and program.
The tables were beautifully decorated with bouquets of flowers, and at each place
setting, as a favor, was a little artificial flower made in Rehef Society colors. More
than 225 visiting teachers, with their executive officers, attended. We were happy to
have our Priesthood advisor and two of our bishops join with us. Our oldest active
teacher present was eighty-six, and the youngest teacher, from the College Ward, just
eighteen."
American River Stake (California) Relief Society Presents Historical Display
During "Open House" Week at the Stake House, October 1961
Lois S. Fife, President, American River Stake Relief Society, reports a unique
display which provided much interest for visitors at the stake house: "Each organiza-
tion in the stake was asked to provide a display during the week of open house at our
new stake house last October. Part of our display depicted the organization of Relief
Society by the Prophet Joseph Smith. We made twenty-one dolls depicting the
eighteen women and three men who were present on this occasion. Leola Hacken,
Work Director Counselor, made the heads and the hands for the dolls, and the other
sisters helped with the bodies and the clothing. During the month of March, the
birthday month of Relief Society, the scene was also on display in the stake house,
where all members of the stake could see it. We also set it up for our convention,
at which time we were the hostess stake. We enjoyed making this display, and it has
created a great deal of interest each time we have set it up."
Brazilian South Mission Relief Society Conference
Curitiba, Brazil, March 15-16, 1962
Sara Paulsen, President, Brazilian South Mission Relief Society, reports: "A two-
day Relief Society convention was held in the Mission Home in Curitiba. We had
in attendance sixty leaders, representing all parts of the mission. 'Success depends on
you — magnify your calling,' the theme of the conference, was presented by members
of various branches as they gave lessons, talks, demonstrations, and other material.
From reports we have received, we feel that this conference was a success, as the
leaders went back to their branches with more enthusiasm and realizing better the
importance of the great Relief Society work.
"The picture is of the pageant given in commemoration of the 120th anniversary
of the organization of Relief Society. The pageant was held in our new chapel and
was presented under the theme 'Relief Society magnified in my hfe.' "
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Box Elder Stake (Utah) Magazine Representatives Make
Outstanding Accomplishment
Front row, seated, left to right: Duella Victor; Phyllis Wiscombe; Norma Reeder;
Karen Wright; Lucy Coppin; Grace Petersen. ,
Back row, standing, left to right: Fay Lofthouse; Jennie M. Nielsen; LeLia Grover;
Eugenie Larkin, Magazine representative; Karen Hailing; Pat Woodyatte; Betty Fish.
May N. Balls, President, Box Elder Stake Relief Society, reports: "We are sure
that the activity represented by this picture will be the highlight of our stake for the
year 1962. The report of our being among the top ten stakes on the Magazine Honor
Roll for 1961 makes us feel honored as being the only Utah stake on this list. We
would like to pay honor to our stake leader, Eugenie Larkin, who was the inspiration
behind this achievement."
Gulf States Mission, Memphis District Relief Society Visiting Teachers
Convention, May 12, 1962
Front row, seated, left to right, beginning second from the left: district officers:
Helen O. Frazier, chorister; Lucy Dettor, work meeting leader; Valenna Robins, the-
ology class leader; Mamie Murray, visiting teacher message leader; President Richard
Stoddard, Memphis District; Floy L. Stoddard, Secretary -Treasurer; Jo Ann Sayles,
Education Counselor; Virgie M. Shuman, District Relief Society President; Cleo Ann
Thomas, Work Director Counselor; Patricia Isbell, literature class leader; Betty Carlson,
Magazine representative; Rosa Pollard, organist.
Marie C. Richards, President, Gulf States Mission Relief Society, reports that
this was the first visiting teacher convention to be held in the Gulf States Mission.
"District Priesthood leaders were in attendance, and President Richard Stoddard stated
that it was the best program ever held in the Memphis District. Sister Virgie M.
Shuman was formerly the president of the Atlanta, Georgia, Stake Relief Society, and
her accomplishments here in the mission are most outstanding in every phase of the
program. She is the first district Relief Society president to organize a complete
district Relief Society Board.
"At this convention skits were presented, depicting the educational departments
of Relief Society. Eighty representatives from eight Relief Societies traveled distances
up to 200 miles to be present on this occasion. Service citations were presented to the
visiting teachers, making an impressive highlight in this convention."
Chicago Stake (Illinois) Board Members at Relief Society Convention,
May 19, 1962
Front row, seated, left to right: Norma Allred, Work Director Counselor; Aleine
M. Young, member. General Board of Relief Society; Hazel G. Kitch, President, Chi-
cago Stake Relief Society; Edith S. Elliott, member. General Board of Relief Society;
Gwendolyn Swinyard, Education Counselor.
Standing, left to right: Marion Monson, organist; Veldron Matheson, theology
class leader; Bernice Lindsey, chorister; Naomi Graves, Secretary-Treasurer; Afton Smith,
social science class leader; Marlene Jones, literature class leader; Verle Fitzsimmons,
Magazine representative. Alta Connors, work meeting leader, was absent because of
illness when the picture was taken.
Sister Kitch reports: "The convention was a great success. The inspiration and
help received from Sister Young and Sister Elliott of the General Board will be of
lasting worth to us. The Chicago Stake has fifteen wards, ten in Illinois, four in Wis-
consin, and one in Indiana. Many of the sisters traveled distances of seventy-five to
eighty miles one way to attend the convention. They expressed their sincere apprecia-
tion for the help they received. We are grateful for their wonderful spirit and devo-
tion to Relief Society."
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South Cottonwood Stake (Utah) Singing Mothers Present Music for
Quarterly Conference, May 1962
Standing in the front row, second from the right is Luella W. Finlinson, Presi-
dent, South Cottonwood Stake Rehef Society, and next to her is chorister Maxine S.
Pattison. Organist Beth L. Hendricks is seated at the console of the organ.
Sister Finhnson reports: "The newly organized (December 7, 1961) South Cotton-
wood Stake honored the Relief Society Singing Mothers by asking them to present the
music for both sessions of the May quarterly conference. Due to illness and vacations,
only fifty-three of the sixty women from the six wards who had practiced in prepara-
tion, were able to sing for that occasion, plus Sisters Gloria Law and Vivian Howe, who
assisted at the organ and violin. Counselors Momo T. Ushio and Pearalee F. DeShazer
arranged for baby sitters during the practices. From thirty to fifty children were taken
care of each time."
Washington, D. C. Stake Relief
Society Singing Mothers Present
Music for Quarterly Conference,
May 20, 1962
Seated, front row, center left (in dark
dress), Ellen N. Barnes, chorister; seated,
front row, center right (in dark dress),
Nedra C. Fames, organist. Seated between
Sister Barnes and Sister Fames, Mareia
C. Steele, President, Washington, D. C.
Stake Relief Society.
Sister Steele reports: "The Singing Mothers traditionally present the music for
one of the Sunday sessions of stake conference, the last two being held in historic
Constitution Hall, with over 3,000 people in attendance.
"On March 17, 1962, over 100 women, from thirteen wards, presented an out-
standing concert in commemoration of the 120th anniversary of the organization of
Relief Society. They have been asked to repeat this concert for the missionaries of
the Eastern Atlantic States Mission and their contacts."
Eastern Atlantic States Mission, Johnstown (Pennsylvania) Branch Relief
Society Officers at Display Table During Attendance Drive
April 1962
Left to right: Irene Lilly, Second Counselor; Alice Mihalcik, President; Frances
Marsh, Secretary-Treasurer; Milta Aston, First Counselor of West Pennsylvania Dis-
trict; Emma Grace Hare, President of West Pennsylvania District.
Thelma Hill, President, Eastern Atlantic States Mission Relief Society, reports
that the sisters very much enjoyed this unique and well-planned attendance drive.
Articles made by the Relief Society members during the year were displayed, including
pillows, bags, aprons, afghans, pillowslips, and other articles, all of fine workmanship.
The sisters also made the corsages which they are wearing in the picture. A covered
dish supper was served.
ELIZABETH WELKER COLLECTS SAMPLES OF ANTIQUE
AND MODERN LACE
Tj^ LIZABETH Welker, Salt Lake City, Utah, has collected samples of lace representing
^—^ fourteen different countries and many eras of history. Included are examples of
Swedish hardanger, which Sister Welker made when she was fifteen years old; filet
lace, in which the design is made on a foundation of net; point Venise lace, made
entirely with needle and thread, and still considered the loveliest of all lace; rosepoint,
used largely in making trousseaus, and the heavier gros point. Also in this beautiful
collection are samples of the rare French insertion, and the less expensive bobbin lace.
Sister Welker lives in Emigration Ward in Park Stake, and the ward Relief Society
has been privileged many times to exhibit this unusual collection and to explain to
visitors the samples of historic lace, as well as types of lace still being handmade today,
such as tatting, crocheting, and netting. Sister Welker has been a Relief Society mem-
ber for more than fifty years, and a class leader for thirty years. From 1934 to 1937,
she was president of the Relief Society of the German-Austrian Mission, and from 1951
to 1956 she was president of the Emigration Ward Rehef Society.
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LESSON DEPARTMENT
THEOLOGY • The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 45 — Talents and Testinnonies
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Sections 60 and 62)
For First Meeting, February 1963
Objective: To understand that talents are to be used in the Lord's service in testifying
of his power.
Introduction
npHE time came for the Prophet
Joseph Smith and some of the
brethren to leave Jackson County,
Missouri. They had been there
for only two months, but the foun-
dations of Zion had been laid by
dedication of the land as a gather-
ing place for the saints, and, also,
as a site for the temple. Other in-
structions were given concerning
the people and their settling in the
promised land.
Instiuctions About Travel
Several elders approached the
Prophet to learn what the Lord
desired of them. These elders were
instructed to return to their homes
in the East. (D & C 60:5.) Joseph
Smith, Sidney Rigdon, Oliver
Cowdery, and the others were to go
to St. Louis by water, whence the
brethren named were to journey to
Cincinnati. The rest were to go
''two by two, and preach the word,
not in haste, among the congrega-
tions of the wicted" {Ihid.^ 60:8) .
''Congregations of the Wicked"
Section 60 mentions "congrega-
tions of the wicked" twice. {Ibid.,
60:8,13). The definition of the ex-
pression was given a few days later.
While on the bank of the Missouri
River en route to St. Louis, the
Prophet and his party were met by
some elders on their way to Jackson
County. In the revelation dated
August 13, 1831, these elders were
told to declare the gospel to the in-
habitants of the earth, or in other
words, to the congregations of the
wicked. {Ihid,, 62:5.) "Congrega-
tions" in these revelations are not
necessarily church gatherings only,
but they may be. By definition of
"wicked," the student of the mod-
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ern revelations understands that
they are the ( i ) morally corrupt
and ( 2 ) those who have not accept-
ed the fulness of the gospel. (Ibid.,
35:12; 84:49-53.) Consequently,
"congregations of the wicked" are
those who have not accepted the
true gospel. But these people are
to have an opportunity to receive
the gospel either in this life or in
the spirit world. (I Peter 3:18-20;
4:6; D & C 128:5.)
"I Am Not Well Pleased'
With the elders who had come
to Missouri, the Lord was pleased,
but those who lacked courage and
diligence to open their mouths did
not receive the same commendation.
(D & C 60:1-2.) These elders had
failed to exercise their talents in be-
half of the Church. Talents are
natural endowments or gifts. These
talents constitute our ability to
make contributions to the welfare
of our fellow men, through music,
poetry, drama, and other arts, in
mechanics, and in the professions.
Some people have talent or apti-
tude in leadership, organization, in
speech, and in getting along with
people.
Since talents or gifts are natural
endowments, then every person
possesses them. It is also true that
some people are gifted to a greater
degree than others.
Source of Talents
Latter-day Saints are blessed with
a far better understanding of them-
selves, their origin, and the answers
to many perplexing situations in
life than are those who do not be-
lieve in the gospel. Accepting the
truth that we lived as intelligent
beings in a pre-earth life and that
wc developed ourselves during those
eternities, it follows that we had
our ''natural" endowments in that
life. This point of view is inter-
estingly developed in correspond-
ence betv/een Elder Orson F. Whit-
ney of the Council of the Twelve
and President Joseph F. Smith. In
the words of Elder Whitney, we
learn :
Spirit Memories. — Writing one day
upon the subject of spirit memories, and
the influence exerted upon the affairs of
this hfe by the awakened recollections of
a former experience, I found myself in-
dulging in the following reflections:
Why are we drawn toward certain
persons, and they toward us, independent-
ly of any known previous acquaintance?
Is it a fact, or only a fancy, that we and
they were mutually acquainted and mu-
tually attracted in some earlier period of
our eternal existence? . . . More than once,
after meeting someone whom I had never
met before on earth, I have wondered
why his or her face seemed so familiar.
Many times, upon hearing a noble senti-
ment expressed, though unable to recall
having heard it until then, I have been
thrilled by it, and felt as if I had always
known it. The same is true of music,
some strains of which are like echoes
from afar, sounds falling from celestial
heights, notes struck from the vibrant
harps of eternity. I do not assert pre-
acquaintance in all such cases, but as one
thought suggests another, these queries
arise in the mind.
The Shepherd's Voice —When it
comes to the Gospel, I feel more positive.
Why did the Savior say: "My sheep
know my voice?" Can a sheep know the
voice of its shepherd, if it has never heard
that voice before? They who love Truth,
and to whom it appeals most powerfully,
were they not its best friends in a pre-
vious state of existence? I think so. I
believe that we knew the Gospel before
we came here, and it is this knowledge,
this acquaintance, that gives to it a fa-
miliar sound.
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Very much in the same vein, I once
wrote to President Joseph F. Smith — he
at the time in Utah, and I on a mission
in Europe. Here is his reply:
President Smith's View
I heartily endorse your sentiments re-
specting congeniality of spirits. Our knowl-
edge of persons and things before we came
here, combined with the divinity awak-
ened within our souls through obedience
to the gospel, powerfully affects, in my
opinion, all our likes and dislikes, and
guides our preferences in the course of
this life, provided we give careful heed
to the admonitions of the Spirit.
All those salient truths which come
home so forcibly to the head and heart
seem but the awakening of the memories
of the spirit. Can we know anything here
that we did not know before we came?
Are not the means of knowledge in the
first estate equal to those of this? I think
that the spirit, before and after this pro-
bation, possesses greater facilities, aye, man-
ifold greater, for the acquisition of knowl-
edge, than while manacled and shut up
in the prison-house of mortality. I be-
lieve that our Savior possessed a fore-
knowledge of all the vicissitudes through
which he would have to pass in the
mortal tabernacle. . . .
If Christ knew beforehand, so did we.
But in coming here, we forgot all, that our
agency might be free indeed, to choose
good or evil, that we might merit the
reward of our own choice and conduct.
But by the power of the Spirit, in the
redemption of Christ, through obedience,
we often catch a spark from the awakened
memories of the immortal soul, which
lights up our whole being as with the glory
of our former home (Saturday Night
Thoughts, pp. 294-296. See also, Gospel
Doctrine, pp. 12-14).
Among other things from the
foregoing, we understand that tal-
ents were a part of ourselves in pre-
mortality, that character-traits were
formed there, that abilities, such as
to believe in or accept truth, are
brought to this life. The great truth,
allowing for environmental factors
here, is that we are very much the
same as we were in the pre-exist-
ence.
Improve Each Moment
Each stage of our eternal exist-
ence — pre-existence, earth life, and
the spirit world — is an opportunity
stage to develop talents. We are
here, but we are now body and
spirit. The talents we bring with
us must also become a part of the
whole person. Our knowledge of
the pre-earth life is presently gone,
but the influence of that life is felt.
Nevertheless, we are to take what
we have and grow and develop. It
is the use we make of our natural
endowments that will determine
whether we shall eventually be
called a wise or slothful servant.
Although each person is what
he was in pre-existence and, thus,
different from others, all have tal-
ents to use in the Lord's work. It
doesn't matter what we may think
of our abilities; we have ability
which should be used.
Parable of the Talents
The Savior gave two parables that
emphasize the need to develop
one's talents. The parable of the
Entrusted Talent tells of the man
who gave talents (goods) to his
servants. To one he gave five tal-
ents, to another two, and to the last,
only one. The doubling of their
talents by the first two brought forth
the same commendation.
. . . Well done, good and faithful serv-
ant; thou hast been faithful over a few
things, I will make thee ruler over many
things: enter thou into the joy of thy
Lord (Matt. 25:23).
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These two servants had used their
talents wisely, though they were
different. But the servant who re-
ceived one talent had buried it in
the ground, fearful that it might be
lost. The reply of the master was
''. . . thou wicked and slothful serv-
ant . . " (Ibid., verse 26; Talmage,
James E.: Jesus the Christ, pp. 580-
584)-
Latter-day Saints may think of
talents as blessings, since we have
an opportunity to develop them in
the Church, which provides the
means for us to increase all good
gifts. When we fail to take the
opportunities to assist in the fur-
thering of the Lord's work, we are
slothful servants. The Prophet
Joseph Smith said:
. . . Blessings offered, but rejected, are
no longer blessings, but become like the
talent hid in the earth by the wicked and
slothful servant; the proffered good re-
turns to the giver; the blessing is be-
stowed on those who will receive and
occupy; for unto him that hath shall be
given, and he shall have abundantly, but
unto him that hath not or will not re-
ceive, shall be taken away that which he
hath, or might have had {Teachings of
the Piophet Joseph Smith, page 257).
The Gifts of the Holy Ghost
Every Latter-day Saint has the
privilege of receiving one or more
gifts of the Holy Ghost. (D & C
46:11-12; Lesson 32, ReUei Society
Magazine, February 1961.) He does
not know his latent talents nor the
gifts of the Spirit; consequently, he
must earnestly seek after the best
gifts, remembering the purposes for
which they are given, that he may
not be deceived. If he does this,
he will exert his best efforts to ad-
vance his own salvation and that of
his fellow men. (D & C 46:7-10.)
In the case of the elders with
whom the Lord was displeased be-
cause they feared man and there-
fore would not use their talent to
preach and testify {Ibid., 60:1-2),
he said:
And it shall come to pass, if they are
not more faithful unto me, it shall be
taken away, even that which they have
[Ibid., verse 3).
One can believe that if these eld-
ers had courageously taught the
gospel, the Lord would have
sustained them as he told Joseph
Smith he would uphold him against
the adversary. {Ibid., 3:7-8.)
He who does not develop his
talents and gifts is declared by the
Lord to be an idler. Those who
were to come to Zion in 1831 were
told that they should not idle away
their time, nor bury their talent.
{Ibid., 60:13.)
The Lord Rules
All scripture proclaims the truth
that God is sovereign in this world.
The revealed fact that God is all-
knowing and all-powerful, that he
knows the destiny of individuals
and nations, makes him supreme.
It is this assurance that gives to the
believer the faith to put his full
trust in the ultimate victory of truth.
The Lord rules among the armies
of the earth, and the day will come
when all men shall know of his
power. (D & C 60:4.) In 1831,
this truth served to bolster the cour-
age of those who were weak in not
testifying to the truth; but this is
not its only purpose, for one rea-
lizes that God shapes the destinies
of man and nations. God has prom-
ised peace and prosperity to those
who serve him diligently, but wrath
LESSON DEPARTMENT 851
and indignation upon those people given at the time and according to
who transgress his laws. (Ibid., the circumstances. The missionary
59:23; 39:16-18.) is to be guided by love and patience
The power of the Lord will be in all things. It would seem that
known v/hen his fury is unleashed the elder would follow the counsel
upon the unrepentant. {D &: C given to Hyrum Smith, that he
29:17-20; 88:88-92.) When the should be directed by the Spirit in
last great conflict is ended at the all things. (D & C 11:12.) In the
close of the millennium, the Lord's final analysis, the gospel is one of
power will be fully demonstrated, love, but there may be conditions
{Ihid., 43:22-30; 88:111-116.) At such as persecution or violence to-
the time Christ declares his work ward the elder, that would give rise
finished, his jewels, the people of to the use of the ceremony, if di-
God, will have been gathered to- rected by the Spirit,
gether for time and eternity. [Ihid.,
60:4; 88:106.) Section 62— Testimony
It was from Section 62 that we
Siiaice Dust Off beet learned the meaning of "congrega-
The testimony of the Spirit is tions of the wicked." The Lord
powerful. Its consequences are remmds his people that his knowl-
always expressed with power. A edge includes an understanding of
testimony rejected leads eventually, nian's weaknesses and also that he
unless repented of, to loss of great ^^ows the way that man may be
blessings. For the first time in the rescued from falling into tempta-
Doctrmc and Covenants we learn tion. (D & C 62:1.) Concerning
about an ancient practice of testi- the few elders on their way to Zion
mony and its attendant power. The in 1831, he would have them know
law is given in Section 60:15 as that they were blessed in bearing
shaking the dust off one's feet their testimonies to the world. But
against those who do not accept the wherein were they blessed?
missionary. This ceremony is to be
performed in secret. The washing Nevertheless, ye are blessed, for the
of the feet is a testimony against testimony which ye have borne is recorded
the person in the day of judgment. ^" ,^^T'^" ^°' *^^ ^"^'^' ^"^ i"""^ ''P''"'
/ Til ^ o \ rrni 1 and they re pice over you, and your sins
(ibid., 60:15; 1:8-10.) Thus the are forgiven you (/bid., verse 3).
missionary has power to seal up the
rebellious until the time of wrath. This passage points up the im-
This was true in the Old Testament portance of being in the service of
period as well as in the time of Jesus one's fellow men. In this dispensa-
and the apostles. (Nehemiah 5:13; tion the Lord has emphasized the
Matt. 10:14; Luke 10:10-11; Acts need for missionary work, a service
13:51; 18:6.) The testimony of of love for fellow man. {Ibid.,
warning is a part of the plan in this 15:6.) When a person speaks by
dispensation. (D&C 84:87-95; 75: the power of the Holy Ghost, that
20-21; 99:4.) Spirit testifies to the truth spoken.
When should this ceremony be (2 Nephi 33:1.) When such testi-
performed? The answer must be monies are uttered they are recorded
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in the heavens. Why should angels
rejoice in this? Holy beings are
concerned with the salvation of
men. This testimony is a means to
an end — the salvation of the tes-
tator and the convincing of others
of God's truth.
Service to God and Man
When one is using his talents for
the salvation of men, he is serving
God and advancing his own salva-
tion. (Mosiah 2:17.) The Lord
admonishes his saints to develop
their talents and use the gifts he
has bestowed upon them by his
Spirit. Viewed from the perspec-
tive of man's eternal nature, there
is no more important work in life
than to work for one's salvation and
that of his fellow beings. The great-
est influence that the Latter-day
Saint can exert upon others is to
be a living testimony of God's truth
as revealed through the Prophet
Joseph Smith.
In concluding this revelation the
Lord reminds his servants that,
... I, the Lord, promise the faithful
and cannot he. . . .
Behold, the kingdom is yours. And
behold, and lo, I am with the faithful
always. Even so. Amen (D & C
62:6, 9) .
Questions for Discussion
1. Why does the Lord refer to the
inhabitants of the world as wicked?
2. Of what value is it to you to know
that God is sovereign in this world?
3. What is the purpose of bearing
testimony of the Gospel?
4. In view of the purpose of earth life,
what do you believe is the principal pur-
pose of talents?
VISITING TEACHER MESSAGES
Truths to Live By From the Doctrine and Covenants
Message 45 — 'Tray Always That You Enter Not Into Temptation"
(D&C 61:39).
Christine H. Rohinson
For First Week, February 1963
^ Objective: To show that prayer is the shield the Lord provides to help us overcome
temptation.
/^NE of the greatest blessings
which can come to us from
our Father in heaven is the go^r
to^ discern ancL-Q^^ercpme. tempta-
tion. In his struggle to capture
men's souls, SataD_Jias__jia^^more
powerful tool than that of tempta-
tion. He knows that no man ever
becomes extremely wicked all at
once. Sin, and the ultimate de-
struction_Jnat acaoinpanies^^ is a
gradual and, often, a relatively un-
obvious process.
President McKay has wisely said:
LESSON DEPARTMENT 853
^ "Temptation often comes in the this weapon he could entice men
same quiet v/ay. Perhaps yielding into even grievous sins,
to it may not be known by anyone Recently, a young mother was
save the individual and his God, beset with many troubles which
but if he doesjaeld to it, he becomes seemed to move in upon her from
to that extent weakened and spot-_ all directions. When she sought
ted with the evil of the worldTJCR, counsel on how to bear these bur-
October 1958, page 92). Recogniz- dens, she was advised, ''If you have
ing this, our Father in heaven has trouble and Lucifer tempts you,
provided us with a shield against pray to your Father m heaven and
this subtle, but powerful, force of the dark clouds will disappear and
temptation. He has counseled us you will go on your way rejoicing."
to 'Tray always that you enter not She was advised to pray constantly
into temptation." in her heart and to live for twenty-
In the Book of Mormon, Alma four hours as if Jesus were right be-
admonishes "call on his holy name, side her. This she did, and learned
and watch and pray continually, that when she approached each
that ye may not be tempted above temptation and problem with the
that which ye can bear" (Alma conviction that the Savior was by
: 13:28). 1/ her side, her fears and discourage-
j Regardless of the nature of our ments vanished. She found she
! faith or the strength of our testi- was able to control her temper,
; monies, we are always subject to which so often before had con-
1 the pitfalls of temptation. This is trolled her. She was kinder and
• why we have been counseled to so more understanding than she had
live as always to have around us the been before. This was the effect of
' protective influence of the Lord's the Lord's spirit and the fulfillment
spirit. This is what President J. oi the promise which the Lord gives
Reuben Clark, Jr., meant when he to all of us that the presence of his
said, "Build around yourselves an spirit will help us to avoid tempta-
impregnable fortress of righteous- tion. This thought is beautifully
I ness and depart not from your expressed in the well-known hymn
I citadel" (Brigham Young University ' j ^^^^ ^^^^ ^^^^. l,o^,^ 3tav thou near by;
Commencement Address, 1949). . Temptations lose their power when thou
5/ 'An Arab legend recounts that ^ ^^^ "^g^-
when Gabriel was depriving Lucifer ^^- ^- ^- ^>'"^"'' ?'§" 79)-
of the weapons he needed to con- Prayer, then, is the real shield
quer men's souls, the wiley tempter against temptation. Each of us
persuaded Gabriel to allow him to should follow our Lord's counsel,
keep one device — the weapon of 'Tray always that you enter not in-
discouragement. He knew that with to temptation" (D & C 61:39).
WORK MEETING
The Latter-day Saint Home
(A Course Expected to Be Used by Wards and Branches at Work Meeting)
Discussion 5 — The Latter-day Saint Home Is Clean (Part I)
Dr. Vkginia F. Cutlei
For Second Meeting, February 1963
Objective: To show that a clean, well-cared for home enhances its beauty and uplifts
the soul.
A well-cared-for home improves ing the hands before entering a
with age, with the sheen of home. Shoes are removed in the
pohshed wood, the sparkle of entry and shppers put on before go-
ghstening brass, copper, and sil- ing into the house proper. These
ver. The Hved-in, comfortable feel- customs enhance the feeling of ap-
ing one finds in a home that has preciation for a well-cared-for home
been loved and tended cannot be and give encouragement to the
found to the same degree in a home homemaker to keep it sparkling
newly built. Many people take clean and beautiful,
great pride in their well-kept older Someone said one day, "How do
houses. you get that beautiful hand-rubbed
In the Orient there is, likewise, look to your table?" There is only
a feeling of reverence for the old, one answer to that, by hand-rub-
well-cared-for homes. Homes of bing. Have you felt the joy that
grandparents in Indonesia often comes from hand-polishing a piece
have a lowered roofline that re- of furniture made of some beauti-
quires one to stoop before enter- ful wood, such as walnut, mahog-
ing, thus forcing one to make a bow any, maple, birch, cherry, oak, or
to the household. In Thailand teak? If not, perhaps you would
and neighboring countries, people like that pleasure. First, cleanse a
take off their shoes before entering small section of the wood with a
a home. The beautifully polished damp cloth wrung from mild suds,
teak floors that are kept in perfect wipe with a cloth wrung as dry as
condition by hand rubbing with a possible from clear warm water,
coconut husk are appreciated more and rub dry with a dry cloth. Make
fully when one walks on them a ponce by putting a ball of cotton
reverently with bare feet than when in a soft cloth; dip the ponce in a
shoes are worn, which may scratch mixture of 2/3 boiled linseed oil
or mar the surface. Japanese house- and 1/3 turpentine. (The boiled
holds have a well outside for wash- linseed oil comes that way from the
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855
shop; do not put it near a flame.)
Rub the ponce over the wood, and
with the palms of the hands, pohsh
with the grain. The warmth from
your body will bring out a soft
glow to the wood. Finish the rub-
bing with a soft cloth. Tliis oil
treatment can be repeated at week-
ly intervals, minus the wash, for
several weeks, to bring a beautiful
finish to the wood.
Have you heard of the clean win-
dows of the Norwegians? No mat-
ter what else is done, a Norwegian
homemaker sees to it that her
windows are clean. What a good
feeling one has on going into a
home with freshly cleaned windows.
It is a prelude to something even
better inside. And it is difficult to
''beat the Dutch" when it comes
to clean houses. Their doorsteps
are scrubbed daily, and their houses
are kept in spotless condition.
It is not suggested that you be a
perfectionist, no one wants to live
with one; but it is suggested that
you know of the beauty that lifts
your soul when you live in a clean,
well-cared-for house. The beauty
of everything is enhanced when it
is clean. This applies to an indi-
vidual, to the family, and to the
home and possessions.
There is nothing comparable to
the beauty of a woman who has
clean thoughts, clean actions, a
clean life, who wears clean clothing,
and lives in a clean house. One of
our great Latter-day Saint values is
to bring beauty to everything we
touch; to bring beauty into the lives
of family members; and to provide
a beautiful setting for their lives.
Beauty in the home is not measured
by the amount of money that has
been spent, but by the thoughtful
and loving care that is given to
what one has.
For our next month's discussion,
let's have some "tell"* shows (dem-
onstrations) and give some ideas
about how to clean and care for our
homes and furnishings. (An excel-
lent reference to read ahead of time
is How to Clean Everything, by
Moore, published by Simon and
Schuster in 1952.) Make these as-
signments:
1. A tell show on cleaning floors
2. A tell show on cleaning upholstered
furniture
3. A tell show on cleaning metals.
Questions for Discussion
1. How can the ideas about managing
time be applied to cleaning?
2. Is it better to have an annual and
semi-annual housecleaning time or to work
on the big jobs all through the year with
the regular cleaning? Discuss advantages
and disadvantages of both methods.
3. What are some of the cleaning jobs
that you feel must be done daily, weekly,
monthly, and yearly?
*Tell show: A tell show is a demon-
stration. First you tell, then you show,
then suggest that members of the class
practice the methods at home. Check
up later to see if the method has been
tried out in the homes and with what
success.
LITERATURE • America's Literature
The New Birth of Freedom
Lesson 37 — The Literary Lincoln
Elder Biiant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes
Dryden Press, New York)
For Third Meeting, February 1963
Objective: To establish a closer interrelationship between Lincoln's character and his
writings, that we may more fully appreciate the genius of both.
T^O every American, Abraham actually, to prevent our adult re-
Lincoln seems as familiar as discovery of him. How temptingly
the five-dollar bills in our purses easy it is to coast along on our fa-
and pockets and as near as the four- miliar generalizations about him,
cent stamps our tongues have inevitably true since 'we have
moistened. Each February we pub- known them all our lives." Yet
licly recirculate the worn, yet be- few ventures into the American
loved stories of his walking miles past yield greater insight into our
to return borrowed books, of drop- mature selves than does a serious
ping behind his fellow travelers to attempt to know Lincoln the man,
pull a pig out of the mire, and Lincoln the symbol, Lincoln the
restore fuzzy, peeping birds to their man of the people who, in the words
nest, of saving sleeping sentries of Gamaliel Bradford, ''still smiles
from execution, of saving the Union and remains impenetrable." Actual-
and freeing the slaves. If our mod- ly, instead of thus generalizing we
ern educators' routine memory ex- might be discovering for ourselves
ercise is ever ignored, it is only to the mystery and charm of Lincoln,
permit our youths to memorize the one of America's truly great men.
Gettysburg Address, which is well In scarcely a hundred years, more
worth memorizing. We give his has been written about him than
name to schools and cars, logs and about any other figure in worid his-
insurance, while from year to year tory except Jesus of Nazareth and
the Lincoln stories grow of their Napoleon.
own momentum. But often they But before we begin our pioneer-
are akin to the legends we absorbed ing quest for the "new" Lincoln we
at the same time we came to should pause to define our goals,
"know" Abraham Lincoln; our Is it to know Lincoln as history or
childhood image of Lincoln domi- Lincoln as biography? Our goal is
nates our adult years as well, often to know the man; our paths to this
with their familiar stories, serving, goal: history and his own words.
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The Young Lincoln
By virtue of the time and place
in which his youth was spent,
Lincoln excelled in the first three
of the four popular recreations:
stump-speaking, wrestling, story-
telling, and horse-racing. These
were social graces which, early mas-
tered, he loved and used through-
out his life as social tools, and as
relaxation from the unbearable
strains of the Civil War years. In
later years he did not wrestle,
though he always enjoyed exhibit-
ing his extraordinary physical
strength. He sometimes told stories
merely to entertain, but often
either to deflect a point being
pressed to his disadvantage, or to
sharpen one to his advantage. It
was in his lifelong zeal to express
his thoughts in the best manner
possible that Lincoln revealed him-
self as the conscious literary artist
that he was. And it was through
mastering his speaking and writing
skills that he achieved power over
men, preliminary eminence, and
eventually greatness.
It was his scrupulous concern to
get his words on the page just right
that is not to be accounted for, and
that reveals his genius. His step-
mother recalled how he labored to
improve his style:
When he came across a passage that
struck him, he would write it down on
boards if he had no paper, and keep it
there till he did get paper, then he would
rewrite it, look at it, repeat it (Barzun,
Jaques: "Lincoln the Literary Genius,"
Saturday Evening Post, Februarv 14,
i959> page 63).
(Reprinted by special permission of The
Saturday Evening Post, © 1959, the Curtis
Publishing Company).
William H. Herndon, his law
ABRAHAM LINCOLN
From an Official Presidential Portrait
partner for almost twenty years,
likewise told how obsessed Lincoln
was to find the right word to ex-
press his exact thought, how im-
patient he often became upon find-
ing in others' writing "abstractions,
glittering generalities, indefiniteness,
mistiness of idea or expression."
Because, occasionally, in his infor-
mal moments Lincoln told stories so
spontaneously and delightfully in
his regional "twang," he sometimes
offended cultured, educated people.
Until the 1920's his biographers
either maintained that he never
achieved a literary style of any dis-
tinction, or that suddenly his great
style was achieved during the war
years.
Tlie passing of time has worked
to our advantage, first by freeing us
from nineteenth-century standards
of literary and oratorical fashion, so
that we may judge his words on
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their intrinsic merits; second, schol-
arship has revealed how carefully
Lincoln worked over his written
words, that they might present his
entire self and intent clearly and
powerfully. Invaluable is the first-
hand account of Major Eckert,
Superintendent of the Military Tele-
graph, who told how Lincoln came
to his quiet office to work without
interruption on the first draft of
the Emancipation Proclamation:
He would look out of the window
awhile and then put his pen to paper,
but he did not write much at once. He
would study between times and when he
had made up his mind he would put
down a line or two, and then sit quiet
for a few minutes. After a time, he
would resume his writing. . . . When he
came to the office on the following day
he asked for the papers, and I unlocked
the desk for him. This he did nearly
every day for several weeks. Some days
he would not write more than a line or
two, and once I observed that he put
question marks on the margin. He would
read over each day all the matter he
had previously written and revise it,
studying carefully each sentence.
Such testimony proves how
meticulous a stylist Lincoln was, and
how well he knew and practiced
the basic principle of composition,
"Hard writing makes easy reading."
Time also permits us to realize
the truth of what we already know;
that the style is always the man,
and that as the man grew and deep-
ened and broadened, so did his
writing style. As early as 1832,
when he was only twenty-one years
of age, he wrote well-ordered
thoughts, both clear and moving,
which early reveal his inborn ability
to move people by so completely
feeling each word that the reader
cannot escape becoming Lincoln,
at least in part, and thus hearing
him sympathetically:
Fellow-citizens, I shall conclude. Con-
sidering the great degree of modesty
which should always attend youth, it is
probable I have already been more pre-
suming than becomes me. However, up-
on the subjects of which I have treated,
I have spoken as I thought. I may be
wrong in regard to any or all of them;
but holding it a sound maxim, that it is
better to be only sometimes right, than
at all times wrong, so soon as I discover
my opinions to be erroneous, I shall be
ready to renounce them.
After explaining that his greatest
ambition is to make himself worthy
of his fellow-men's esteem, and ex-
plaining that he is young, unknown,
and humble, with '*no wealthy or
popular relations" to recommend
him, he skillfully places his fate in
the hands of the voters who, if they
choose to elect him, will confer
upon him a favor he will ''labor un-
remittingly to compensate." He
wrote
But if the good people in their wis-
dom shall see fit to keep me in the back-
ground, I have been too famihar with
disappointments to be very much cha-
grined. Your friend and fellow-citizen, A.
Lincoln. New Salem, March 9, 1832.
Lincoln's Greatness
The facets of Lincoln's greatness
are many: humor, kindness, pa-
tience, ability to judge men and
events, strong will, high dedication
to honesty, fairness, equality, and
the basic principles of morality, de-
mocracy, and religion. Our concern,
however, is to prove his greatness
through his written words, which
are a most enduring and important
legacy to the future.
If we grant that like begets like,
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859
A Perry Picture
LINCOLN'S HOME, SPRINGFIELD, ILLINOIS
and that great prose is produced
only by a great mind-imagination-
soul, it then follows that the flaw-
less style which he perfected is but
further product and proof of his
greatness. Although as a lad he
read Shakespeare, Bunyan, Burns,
Defoe, and the Bible by firelight,
and though during his first year as
Congressman he read much, hop-
ing to improve the coherence and
directness of his style of writing,
his mature style is entirely his own,
just as it is without precedent in
American literature. And the domi-
nant characteristics of his style —
precision, brevity, rhythm, poetic
eloquence — are the very identity
of the man himself, and best repre-
sent him. Examples of each best
prove the point.
Precision
I would save the Union. I would
save it the shortest way under the
Constitution. The sooner the nation-
al authority can be restored, the nearer
the Union will be "the Union as it was."
If there be those who would not save the
Union unless they could at the same time
save slavery, I do not agree with them.
If there be those who would not save the
Union unless they could at the same
time destroy slavery, I do not agree with
them. ... I shall do less whenever I shall
believe what I am doing hurts the cause,
and I shall do more whenever I shall be-
lieve doing more will help the cause. . . .
I have here stated my purpose accord-
ing to my view of official duty; and I in-
tend no modification of my oft-expressed
personal wish that all men everywhere
could be free. Yours, A. Lincoln.
— (Excerpt from Lincoln's reply to Hor-
ace Greely)
Brevity
1. Speech at flag-raising ceremony be-
fore the Treasury' Building: The part
assigned to me is to raise the flag, which
if there be no fault in the machinery, I
will do, and when up, it will be for the
people to keep it up.
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2. To General Grant, who had tele-
graphed, "If the thing is pressed, I think
that Lee will surrender," Lincoln replied,
*'Let the thing be pressed."
3. Written in June 1858, when requested
to supply the story of his life for the
Dictionnrv oi Congress:
Born, February 12, 1809, in Hardin
County, Kentucky.
Education, defective.
Profession, a lawyer.
Have been a captain of volunteers in
Black Hawk War.
Postmaster at a very small office.
Four times a member of the Illinois
legislature, and was a member of the
lower house of Congress. Yours etc.
A. Lincoln.
Balance and Rhvthni
1. (Delivered February 11, 1861 to his
friends in Springfield who stood in a light
rain as he addressed them from the rear
platform of his special train which was
to bear him to Washington and the Presi-
dency ) .
My friends —
No one, not in my situation, can ap-
preciate my feeling of sadness at this part-
ing. To this place, and the kindness of
these people, I owe everything. Here I
have lived a quarter of a century, and
have passed from a young to an old man.
Here my children have been born, and
one is buried. I now leave, not know-
ing when, or whether ever, I may return,
with a task before me greater than that
which rested upon Washington. With-
out the assistance of that Divine Being
who ever attended him, I cannot succeed.
With that assistance I cannot fail. Trust-
ing in Him, who can go with me, and
remain with you and be everywhere for
good, let us confidently hope that all will
yet be well. To His care commending
you, as I hope in your prayers you will
commend me, I bid you an affectionate
farewell.
Poetic Eloquence
I am loath to close. We are not
enemies, but friends. We must not be
enemies. Though passion may have
strained, it must not break our bonds
of affection. The mystic chords of mem-
ory, stretching from every battle-field and
patriot grave to cverv living heart and
hearthstone all over this broad land, will
yet swell the chorus of the Union when
again touched, as surelv they will be, by
the better angels of our nature (First
Inaugural, final paragraph)-.
Equally grand in its simplicity,
then climaxed in a similar poetic
passage, are the final lines of his Sec-
ond Inaugural, delivered March 4,
1865, just forty days before his
martyrdom :
Fondly do we hope — fervently do we
pray — that this mighty scourge of war
may speedily pass away. Yet if God wills
that it continue until all the wealth piled
by the bondsman's two hundred and fifty
years of unrequited toil shall be sunk,
and until every drop of blood drawn with
the lash shall be paid by another drawn
with the sword, as was said three thou-
sand years ago, so still must it be said,
"The judgments of the Lord are true and
righteous altogether."
With malice toward none; with charity
for all; with firmness in the right, as
God gives us to see the right, let us
stri\'e on to finish the work we are in;
to bind up the nation's wounds; to care
for him who shall have borne the battle,
and for his widow and his orphan — to
do all which may achieve and cherish a
just and lasting peace among ourselves,
and with all nations.
Despite the dark events of the
Civil War, a vast commemorative
service at Gettysburg, Pennsylvania,
had been planned for October, but
when the orator of the day, Senator-
Governor-President of Harvard
University Edward Everett, an-
nounced he could not be prepared
by such a date, the event was post-
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861
poned to November 19, 1863. Presi-
dent Lincoln was invited to be pres-
ent and, after the main oration, to
formally ''set apart these grounds to
their sacred use by a few appropriate
remarks." Before leaving Washing-
ton the day previous, he filled a
sheet of paper with memoranda,
then read it to his bodyguard, com-
menting it was not at all satisfac-
tory, but that he had been too busy
to give it more time. He arrived in
the tiny village of Gettysburg the
preceding evening.
The next morning after a parade
the governors and cabinet members
took their places on the platform,
then listened to the bands play un-
til noon, for Mr. Everett, the orator
of the day, had not yet arrived.
Finally he came, and for one hour
and fifty-seven minutes he addressed
the crowd, estimated as high as
50,000. After a glee club sang an
ode, Lincoln put on his steel-bowed
glasses, and holding his two sheets
of paper in one hand, arose to read
from them in his ''high-pitched,
clear-carrying voice, the brief speech
which has become so famous."
Fourscore and seven years ago, our
fathers brought forth upon this continent
a new nation, conceived in hberty and
dedicated to the proposition that all men
are created equal.
Now we are engaged in a great civil
war, testing whether that nation — or
any nation, so conceived and so dedicated
— can long endure.
We are met on a great battlefield of
that war. We are met to dedicate a
portion of it as the final resting place of
those who have given their lives that the
nation might live.
It is altogether fitting and proper that
we should do this.
But in a larger sense, we cannot dedi-
cate, we cannot consecrate, we cannot
hallow this ground. The brave men, living
and dead, who struggled here, have con-
secrated it, far above our power to add
or to detract.
The world will very little note nor
long remember what we say here; but it
can never forget what they did here.
It is for us the living, rather, to be
dedicated here, to the unfinished work
that they have thus far so nobly carried
on. It is rather for us to be here dedi-
cated to the great task remaining before
us; that from these honored dead we take
increased devotion to that cause for
which they here gave the last full meas-
ure of devotion, that we here highly re-
solve that these dead shall not have died
in vain; that the nation shall, under God,
have a new birth of freedom, and that
government of the people, by the people,
and for the people, shall not perish from
the earth.
After the perfunctory applause
had ceased, the President said to
his bodyguard, "Lamon, that speech
won't SCOUT. It is a flat failure and
the people are disappointed." Re-
actions in the next day's newspapers
varied. Many were critical of the
President's remarks, but the Chi-
cago Tribune reported that "the
dedicatory remarks of President
Lincoln will live among the annals
of man," and Edward Everett wrote
Lincoln, "I should be glad if I could
flatter myself that I came as near to
the central idea of the occasion in
two hours as you did in two min-
utes." To which Lincoln replied,
"In our respective parts yesterday,
you could not have been excused
to make a short address, nor I a
long one. I am pleased to know
that, in your judgment, the little I
did say was not entirely a failure."
Again, in judging this event, the
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passing years have given us every
advantage. As the times were new,
so had Lincoln thought anew. Com-
pared to the usual and traditional
oratorical tones, Lincoln's words
were terse and flat. Only in time
did it become evident that out of
his mind and heart had come a
new pattern and tone of communi-
cating which was to shape a new
age, new not only in America's his-
tory but in man's as well.
Lincoln loved all men, great
poetry, drama, attending operas
and plays, and telling good stories.
The steady stream of writing about
him which has only grown larger
since his death now lets us also
know him as timid, often melan-
choly and sad when he drew entire-
ly within himself, always aloof in
some degree from even his nearest
intimates. He was dominated by
religious ideals and longings which
were the core of restless ambition
and the great strength of his charac-
ter. The more we study his writ-
ings, the more these qualities be-
come evident therein, and the more
fully we recognize in his carefully
chosen words and rhythmic sen-
tences the cohesive force which
bound every phase of his life into a
unity. Lincoln's writings thus re-
veal the close relationship between
the integritv of his character and his
literary genius.
Thoughts for Discussion
1 . If Lincoln is generally accepted as
symbolizing the American common man,
how docs such acceptance make him
easier or more difficult to know?
2. What proof exists within Lincoln's
own writings to show that he dexeloped
his final style over a lifetime, just as he
himself came to his fullest stature and
wisdom during the war years?
3. If Lincoln is seen as a complex
genius and artist, which phase of his
character might be fairly represented by
his need for humor? by his exacting care
and concern with his written words? Do
you find any relationship whatsoever be-
tween these two word usages?
Awareness
Delia Adams Leitner
May I, aware of beauty, ever be
Imbued with wonder at the starlit sky;
Marvel to view the patterns in the wings
Of bluebird or of velvet butterfly.
And may my eyes though dimmed with years behold
The loveliness around me manifold,
Envisioning with spirit's senses keen
The deep realities of the unseen.
A fadeless joy is hers who ever knows
The beauty and the fragrance of the rose.
SOCIAL SCIENCE • Divine Law and Church Government
The Foundation of Church Government
Lesson 4 — Divine Law and Priesthood
Elder Ariel S. BaJIif
For Fourth Meeting, February 1963
Objective: To show the place and the importance of Priesthood in carrying out divine
law.
rj^ROM our discussion in previous
lessons, we may conclude that
divine law emanates from God and
has to do with every phase of man's
relationship with the Father includ-
ing all that pertains to life and sal-
vation. Everything good comes
from God. Every revelation is an
expression of the divine will and is
issued for the benefit and welfare of
man. Our objective in this lesson,
as stated above, is to show the place
and the importance of Priesthood in
carrying out divine law.
Piiesthood — Divine Authority
Priesthood is the authority of God
through which his purposes are ac-
complished. Priesthood is divine
law in action. It is the dynamics of
and the actual power supporting
divine law.
Priesthood is the_goyernm.ent of^ God,
whether on the^ eaith^or ii]Ljrtie.Jieaye^
for it is by that power, agency, or prin-
ciple that all things are governed on the
earth and in the heavens, and by that power
that all things are upheld and sustained.
It governs all things — it directs all
things — it sustains all things — and has
to do with all things that God and truth
are associated with. It is the power of God
delegated to intelligence in the heavens
and to men on the earth (Taylor, John:
MilJennfal Star, Vol. 9, page 321).
From the above quotation, we can
assume that God is the directing
force of all that is good and true. H^
is concerned about every person who
comes into this world. They are his
children. He is particularly inter-
ested in those who accept his teach-
ings and justify their affiliation with
his organization by their actions.
Because of man's free agency, God
cannot be on the earth to direct
things in person so he
. . . has delegated to man the necessary
authority to carry out the provisions of
the Plan. Priesthood is the name given
this authority. . . . Without authority from
God there can be no Priesthood (Widtsoe,
John A.: Rational Theology, page 99).
Divine law is the revealed mind
and will of God relative to his chil-
dren and their behavior. The Priest-
hood is the authority to carry out
that law. It is also the channel
through which God will continue to
reveal his purposes to the children of
men.
President Brigham Young said
the Priesthood of the Son of God
''is the law by which the worlds are,
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were, and will continue forever and
ever. It is that system which brings
worlds into existence and peoples
them . . ." (WiDTSOE, John A.: Dis-
courses of Biigham Young, page
130).
Understanding the Term
Piiesthood
Priesthood may be explained un-
der the following headings : 1 . power;
2. a commission or delegated author-
ity; and 3. a personal blessing. First,
Priesthood is a powerful force by
which worlds were and are created
and by which the unnumbered sys-
tems of planets operate in order.
This same power is available to as-
sist, guide, and direct man in his
activities so that he may achieve the
full purpose of his creation. But,
unlike the other creations of God
which operate within the rigid limi-
tations of the law, man may accept
or reject the truths, the divine laws
within the power of the Priesthood.
This is God's recognition of the sa-
cred right of choice.
Second, Priesthood is a commis-
sion. To the person upon whom
the Priesthood is bestowed the right
is given to act for God upon the
earth.
Third, the Priesthood is a blessing
to the person receiving it, and
through his faithful discharge of his
duties it becomes a blessing to all
people with whom he comes in con-
tact. (SeeD&C 84:33-34.)
Rehtionship of Divine Law
and Piiesthood
1. Revelation, the source of di-
vine law
The discussions in our lessons
have already pointed out that divine
law is the expressed mind and will
of God presented to man through
revelation. Divine law provides the
guideposts for the most effective and
satisfying way of life for mankind.
Priesthood is the authorized direct-
ing force that puts the law into ac-
tion. For example, the divine law
indicates that ''marriage is ordained
of God unto man" (D & C 49:15).
The fulfillment of this divine law
can be realized only through the
operation of the Priesthood.
The President of the Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints as
Prophet, Seer, and Revelator holds
all the keys of the Priesthood,
which means ''that every act per-
formed under this authority shall be
done at the proper time and place,
in the proper way, and after the
proper order'' (Widtsoe, John A.:
Priesthood and Church Govern-
ment y 1929 ed., page 200) . The keys
or directing power of the Priesthood
are held by only one person at a
time on earth. A portion of this
directing power can be delegated to
others and, in fact, is given to the
various Priesthood holders when
they are called to office in the or-
ganizations of the Church. Through
this delegated authority all ordi-
nances essential to exaltation are
carried out. The law describes the
organization and the Priesthood
makes it function.
2. Man's laws versus divine law
In the Library of Congress there
are many, many volumes of man-
made laws. They either authorize
or restrain the activities of people.
The official actions of the legal
agents of political government are
set forth in these volumes. Thus the
freedom of the citizen is defined in
the law. He who would be free
must know the law and conduct
LESSON DEPARTMENT
865
himself within the framework of
the law.
Divine law does not limit or re-
strain man but opens the way for
unlimited advancement. The abil-
ity, desire, and willingness to put
forth effort to know and understand
the mind and will of God de-
termine the Priesthood holder's
capacity to act in the authority of
the Priesthood conferred on him.
Genealogy oi the Priesthood
''Now this same Priesthood, which
was in the beginning, shall be in the
end of the world also" (Moses 6:7).
The Prophet Joseph Smith tells us
"There has been a chain of authority
and power from Adam down to the
present time" (Smith, Joseph Field-
ing: Teachmgs oi the Prophet Jo-
seph Smithy page 191). We are
often reminded that Satan works
overtime in the development and
presentation of evil to draw the souls
of men away from the kingdom of
God. But we should also be aware
of the fact that the powers of
righteousness have been working un-
ceasingly from the beginning of time
to teach, train, direct, and persuade
the souls of men unto righteousness.
The Priesthood of God was the
dynamic force in the creation, and
the Priesthood has been conferred
upon man, beginning with Adam,
that all men might have the benefit
of this power in assisting them to
harmonize their lives with their
Eternal Father and in fighting the
influence of evil. The Priesthood is
the power Satan fears. He recognizes
the source of this power and must
respect and submit to its command.
It is reasonable to expect that God
would make available to man (his
spiritual offspring) every assistance
possible in man's rise to perfection.
The Priesthood is that assistance. It
is our purpose to present in outline
form the lineage of the Priesthood,
suggesting its continued presence
and availability for the benefit of
mankind. We will review it in the
following order: from Adam to No-
ah; Noah to Abraham; Abraham to
Moses; Moses to Jesus Christ; and
from Jesus Christ to Joseph Smith.
There are certain places where direct
lineage cannot be shown. We should
also be aware of the fact that there
were definitely periods of time when
the Church or organized government
of the Lord was not in operation on
the earth. But, through specially
authorized prophets, the light of
truth was kept before mankind.
1. Adam to Noah
For this division the lineage is
clearly stated in both old and new
scriptures. In the Doctrine and
Covenants, we read.
The order of this priesthood was con-
firmed to be handed down from father to
son, and rightly belongs to the htcral
descendants of the chosen seed, to whom
the promises were made. This order was
instituted in the days of Adam, and came
down by hneage in the following manner
(D & C 107:40-41 ) .
Briefly stated, Seth was ordained
by Adam at the age of sixty-nine,
Enos was one hundred and thirty-
four years old when he was ordained
by Adam, Cainan was eighty-seven,
Mahalaleel was four hundred and
ninety-six, Jared was two hundred,
Enoch was twenty-five, and Methu-
selah was one hundred, when or-
dained under the hands of Adam.
Lamech, at the age of thirty-two,
was ordained by Seth. Noah was
only ten years old when Methuselah
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ordained him. (See D & C 107:
2. Noah to Abraham
The sons of Noah included Shem,
Ham, and Japheth. The Priesthood
hneage is shown through the de-
scendants of Shem. The record
found in Genesis 11 : 10-27 hsts eight
direct descendants of Shem to Te-
rah, the father of Abraham. This
record is not specific as to the ordi-
nation of each of the eight referred
to, but in the book of Abraham in
the Pearl of Great Price, Abraham
states that the Priesthood came
down from the fathers. (See Abra-
ham 1:2-3.)
In the fourteenth verse of the 84th
Section of the Doctrine and Gove-
nants, we are informed that ''Abra-
ham received the priesthood from
Melchizedek, who received it
through the lineage of his fathers,
even till Noah."
3. Abraham to Moses
The Bible records the transfer of
the blessings given to Abraham on
his descendants through his son
Isaac to Jacob and then to Joseph
(see Genesis 12:2-3; -^'4' 28:14; 49:
25-26), but does not make specific
mention of Priesthood or Priesthood
functions and powers. However, in
the book of Abraham in the Pearl
of Great Price we learn that the
great blessings promised to Abraham
and his posterity concerned the
Priesthood. The Lord said to Abra-
ham, ''And I will make of thee a
great nation, and I will bless thee
above measure, and make thy name
great among all nations, and thou
shalt be a blessing unto thy seed
after thee, that in their hands they
shall bear this ministry and Priest-
hood unto all nations" (Abraham
2:9). The blessings passed to Eph-
raim and Manasseh, sons of Joseph
(Genesis 24:36; 25:11, 27; 32:24-29;
58:1-4).
Bv direct revelation we are in-
formed that the Priesthood lineage
is given through Esaias. (see D & C
84:6-14.) "Esaias also lived in the
days of Abraham, and was blessed of
him" (verse 13). In the twelfth
verse we read "and Esaias received it
[the Priesthood] under the hand of
God." The recorded lineage is from
Esaias to Gad, to Jeremy, to Elihu,
to Galeb, to Jethro who bestowed
the Priesthood upon his son-in-law,
Moses.
4. Moses to Jesus Ghrist
"Now this Moses plainly taught to
the children of Israel in the wilder-
ness, and sought diligently to sanc-
tify his people that thev might be-
hold the face of God" (D & C
84:23).
But they hardened their hearts . . .
Therefore, he took Moses out of their
midst, and the Holy Priesthood also;
And the lesser priesthood continued,
which priesthood holdeth the key of the
ministering of angels and the preparatory
gospel;
Which gospel is the gospel of repen-
tance and of baptism, and the remission
of sins, and the law of carnal command-
ments . . . (D & C 84:24-27).
The lesser or Aaronic Priesthood
continued to guide God's chosen
people until the coming of the
Savior. However, at various times
special servants (prophets such as
Samuel, Elijah, Isaiah, and others)
were called by the Lord and given
great power and authority in calling
LESSON DEPARTMENT
867
the people to repentance, blessing
the righteous of the earth, and in
rebuking the power of evil from
controlling the hearts and minds of
the people. With the Aaronic
Priesthood performing the religious
government of Israel, John the Bap-
tist announced Jesus Christ the Son
of God at whose baptism the Holy
Ghost descended upon him and the
voice of the Eternal Father identi-
fied him as his Son. This was the
return of the Melchizedek Priest-
hood. Christ again set up his
Church on earth. In John 15:16
Christ says, "Ye have not chosen me,
but I have chosen you, and ordained
you." He set up the necessary
organization and ordained them ac-
cording to their callings.
It should be pointed out that The
Book of Mormon records that the
Priesthood was given to the prophets
of the Western Hemisphere. The
writing of Alma, a great prophet,
indicates the influence of the power
of God. The records of the Jared-
ites (the book of Ether) and par-
ticularly the book of 3 Nephi indi-
cate the presence of the Priesthood.
In 3 Nephi, Christ chose twelve dis-
ciples, ordained them, and instructed
them how to teach and organize his
people.
5. From Jesus Christ to
Joseph Smith
An apostasy from the Church,
with resultant loss of the Priesthood,
took place on both the Eastern and
Western Hemispheres. President
Joseph F. Smith writes,
The Melchizedek Priesthood which
Christ restored to the earth, remained
among men between three and four hun-
dred years afterwards. When in conse-
quence of transgressions, apostasy from the
true order of the Priesthood and Church
of Christ, the innovation of priestcraft
and paganism, the true order of God was
lost, the Holy Priesthood was taken from
the earth, and the Church of Christ ceased
to be among men, so far as we have any
knowledge by revelation or from the his-
tory and records of the past (Gospel Doc-
trine, page 191 ) .
Thus, from approximately 450
A.D. to 1829 the Priesthood (the
authority to act officially in the
name of God) was not upon the
earth.
Modern Evidence oi the Piiesthood
Joseph Smith's vision of the
Father and the Son set the stage for
the organization of the Church. Be-
fore this could take place the power
of the Priesthood must be restored.
The restoration is a very strong evi-
dence of order in the Lord's house.
First let us recall the vision of the
Father and the Son. When they ap-
peared, the Father identified the
Son by saying ''This is My Beloved
Son." Jesus Christ is the God of
this earth; therefore, it was his
assignment to answer Joseph's ques-
tions and explain the future action
for the Prophet. God the Father
gave approval to Christ's program
when he said, ''Hear Him."
A further lesson of order came in
the fact that Joseph was not com-
missioned or ordained at this meet-
ing with the Father and the Son.
This was left to the men who had
the authority placed in their hands
by their position in the organization
Christ had set up while he was on
the earth. So, John the Baptist
came and conferred the Aaronic
Priesthood upon Joseph and Oliver,
with the authority to function in
the temporal ordinances. Later,
Peter, James, and John, the leader-
ship of Christ's Church established
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as a part of his earthly mission, came
and ordained Joseph and Ohver
elders, and conferred upon them the
Melchizedek Priesthood with all the
rights, keys, powers, and authority
pertaining to this office. Other res-
urrected beings who held certain
essential keys came and conferred
the necessary authority upon Joseph
and Oliver.
Under the authority of the Priest-
hood the Church of Jesus Christ or
kingdom of God, has been restored.
All the ordinances necessary to the
salvation and exaltation of man are
available to those who have faith in
God. The pattern of action fol-
lowed by Adam, Noah, Moses, and
the Savior, of calling the world to
repentance, is the continual respon-
sibility of the Priesthood holder of
today.
Thoughts ioi Discussion
1 . What does the word Priesthood mean
to you?
2. In what way is divine law related to
Priesthood?
3. What is the difference between
Priesthood as power and as a personal
blessing?
4. Does the scripture indicate that the
Priesthood has always been available for
the enlightenment of man?
REFERENCES
D & C 27, 84, 107
The Book of Mormon:
3 Nephi
Book of Alma
Book of Ether
Smith, Joseph F.: Gospei Doctrine
Pearl of Great Price:
Book of Moses
Book of Abraham
Genesis 10, 11, 17, 24, 25, 27, 32, 48
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"When Day Is Done
Alice Money Bailey
What do they think of, the shepherds on the hill.
At the twilight hour when the wind is still.
When the shadows lengthen in bronze and gold
And the sheep go to water, then turn to the foldP
The old one welcomes the long day's end
And the dreamer thinks of the night as friend.
What do they think as the sun's last hue
Turns the hills deep purple and the sky deep blue?
The old one numbers his lambs from the spring,
And how many fleeces the shearing will bring.
How many lambs for the Paschal Feast,
How much for the best ones, how much for the least;
How many lambs at the highest price.
All perfect and white for the sacrifice.
What do they think when the day is spent
And the earth is wrapped in the firmament?
The dreamer studies the galaxy
And ponders of time and infinity.
He strives for the truths on the tip of his mind
And feels that his memory left them behind.
There is something within that is more than man
Which yearns for expression beyond his span.
He thinks of the shepherds of Bethlehem
And the message the angels sang to them.
What do they think when the night breathes deep,
With the sheep bedded down and the lambs asleep?
The Cover: "La Madonnina"
From a Painting by Roberto Ferruzzi
Frontispiece: "Abiding In the Fields"
Photograph by H. Armstrong Roberts
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Thank you for the July and August issues
of T\\G Relief Society Magazine with their
fine articles on Henry David Thoreau. I
have not only read them with a great deal
of interest and dehght, but I shall make
notice of them in the next issue of the
Thoreau Bulletin and then place them in
my permanent Thoreau files (Literature
Lessons 33 and 34 by Briant S. Jacobs).
— Walter Harding
Secretary
The Thoreau Society
Geneseo, New York
The article "A Permanent Home/' by
Norma Dee Ryan, in the October issue of
the Magazine expresses my thoughts exact-
ly. All my life I have worked for security,
but there is no security anymore, except
in the Church. The Church is a great
shield and protector in these troubled
times. We who belong to it are lucky
and blessed.
— Elizabeth C. McCrimmon
Seal Beach, California
Before coming on my mission to Japan,
I was always anxious to read the fiction
stories in the Magazine. Since coming on
my mission I have learned to appreciate
the priceless value of all the articles, as
well as the stories. The Magazine is such
a help in strengthening our testimonies,
better enabling us to encourage Relief So-
ciety work here. I am looking forward to
the time when I will be able to use the
homemaking suggestions in my own home.
— Carol A. Smith
Tokyo, Japan
Thank you for publishing many new
writers in the Magazine. In the past issues
I have noticed many names that I did not
recognize. Naturally, I like the work of
the writers who appear over and over, but
I also know the thrill of having something
accepted for the first time.
— Clara Laster
Tulsa, Oklahoma
May I say a few words of praise for the
poem series "Portrait of Freedom," by Al-
berta Huish Christensen, in the September
issue of the Magazine — beautifully,
powerfully done, such a fine look of
"Americaward."
— Shirley Howard
Cedar City, Utah
I wish to express appreciation for the
Magazine. The stories and lessons are so
helpful and thought provoking. In New
Zealand, the social science lessons have
had an added meaning, as we remember
President and Sister Ariel S. Ballif, and
the things they taught us while presiding
in New Zealand.
— Mrs. Muriel Kehoe
Maromaku, New Zealand
The September issue of the Magazine
was so beautiful I just had to tell you.
I think it is the most artistic of any so
far.
— Dorothy Clapp Robinson
Boise, Idaho
I would like to compliment you on The
Relief Society Magazine. It is tremendous.
I obtained a copy from one of my fellow
missionaries, and was glancing through it
to see if there was anything good to read.
The stories are really interesting. They
give me a greater understanding of the
problems of running a home and what my
mother had to go through. It is wonderful
that the women of the Church have such
a high class Magazine to read.
— Elder Ned E. Sweat
Coleraine, Ireland
The Relief Society Magazine is a wel-
come part of my mail. I especially enjoyed
the serial "Sow the Field With Roses,"
by Margery S. Stewart (concluded in June
1962). It had all the sparkle and adven-
ture to make it a memorable story.
— Barbara Wahlquist
Provo, Utah
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THE RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE
|e Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
DECEMBER 1962
RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE Marianne C. Sharp Editor
Vesta P. Crawford Associate Editor Belle S. Spafford General Manager
SPECIAL FEATURES
Parental Responsibility David O. McKay 876
Nathan Eldon Tanner Appointed to the Council of the Twelve 882
Bernard P. Brockbank Appointed Assistant to the Council of the Twelve 885
The Relief Society Annual General Conference Hulda Parker 887
The Breath of Life — National Tuberculosis Association James E. Perkins 903
nCTION
Christmas With Auntie Helen H. Trutton 890
One Little Christmas Gift Sylvia Probst Young 898
Out of the Wilderness — Chapter 6 Shirley Thulin 921
GENERAL FEATURES
From Near and Far 874
Sixty Years Ago 904
Woman's Sphere Ramona W. Cannon 905
Editorials: The 132d Semi-Annual Conference 906
Christmas in the Home Vesta P. Crawford 908
Birthday Congratulations 952
FEATURES FOR THE HOME
A Christmas Eve Family Party Lorraine Hyde Clawson 909
Handiwork for Christmas Adele Williams Worsley 912
Easy Christmas Cookies Myrtle E. Henderson 918
Cora E. Cook — Specialist in Household Handicraft 920
LESSONS FOR FEBRUARY
Theology — The Waters and the Land Roy W. Doxey 926
Visiting Teacher Messages — "He Who Has Repented of His Sins"
Christine H. Robinson 931
Work Meeting — The Latter-day Saint Home Is Clean (Part II) Virginia F. Cutler 933
Literature — Herman Melville Briant S. Jacobs 935
Social Science — Application of the Law in the Dispensations of Man Ariel S. Ballif 942
POETRY
When Day Is Done — Frontispiece Alice Morrey Bailey 874
What Is Christmas, by Mabel Jones Gabbott, 881; The Pheasant, by Gladys Hesser Burnham,
884; The Street You'd Love to Live On, by Helen F. Parker, 896; Words After Snow, by Ida
Elaine James, 897; WhistUng Carols, by Evelyn Fjeldsted, 903; Room With the Red Woodbox,
by Maude Rubin, 917; The Fog, by Linnie F. Robinson, 917; Seagulls, by Ida Isaacson, 920*;
Where Are the Nine? by Hazel Loomis, 925; Plea, by Betty G. Spencer, 948; Thoughts, by
Catherine B. Bowles, 952.
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Parental Responsibility
President David O. McKay
[Address Delivered by President David O. McKay at the Relief Society Annual General
Conference, October 3, 1962]
SISTER Spafford and Counsel-
ors, members of the Relief
Society General Board, repre-
sentatives from Relief Societies
throughout the world, sisters and
brethren, while listening to the ex-
cellent addresses delivered by Sister
Larsen and the three members of the
Presidency of Relief Society, I have
been deeply impressed with the
thought that this is one of the most
significant gatherings in all the
world. In the first place, in this
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audience filling this historic Taber-
nacle to overflowing, is gathered one
of the largest assemblies of women
in the world. In the second place,
you are honored by being presided
over by three of the greatest women
in the world, and I choose my words
advisedly.
Next, the motive of this gathering
is the noblest, because you have in
your hearts the desire, the purpose
of teaching your children, teenagers,
and adults, the gospel of Jesus
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Christ, the greatest message in all
the world. And today you have met
together for the first time since the
Supreme Court of the United States
has re-emphasized or has passed on
the rule of re-emphasizing your di-
vine obligation to teach the word of
the Lord to your children. Since
you last held a conference of this
kind, the Supreme Court of the
United States has made it unpatri-
otic for public schools to teach your
children to pray. So, I think we are
meeting on a most important oc-
casion. What I said about the great-
ness of this audience I apply to the
membership of the Relief Society
in all the world. What I said about
your Presidency I have also said to
others outside the confines of the
Church organization itself. And
now in what I am going to say, I
desire the inspiration of the Lord to
re-emphasize the responsibility of
this body of Relief Society mem-
bers to save souls as one of the obli-
gations placed upon you by the
Prophet Joseph himself.
I should like to make a plea to
you this afternoon to teach your
children and others out of the
books of the Church, the way to
life and salvation — a plea for more
parental responsibility.
As a preface to the message I feel
impressed to emphasize, I shall
make brief reference to some facts
and educational trends in early
United States history.
In 1850, the character and culture
of the American people commanded
the respect of the entire world.
European parents sent their sons and
daughters to our institutions that
they might imbibe this faith-inspir-
ing atmosphere. The Sabbath was
nationally recognized and observed.
The churches were well attended.
Divorces were rare.
Today, according to the latest fig-
ures available, lawlessness is on the
increase, the cost of crime at all
levels in the United States is $22
billion, over $4 billion more than is
spent for education. It represents a
cost of $128 last year for every per-
son in the United States.
The crime rate has increased thir-
ty-four per cent in the past five
years, while the population has in-
creased seven per cent. In other
words, the rate of growth of crime
outstrips the rate of growth of the
population by nearly five to one.
Sisters, what has happened to
change this Christian concord of
1850 into this criminal chaos of
1962?
/^NE hundred years ago, Ameri-
cans were still being reared in
public schools which included re-
ligious instruction. The great New
England Piimeiy which for more
than a hundred and fifty years had
been the textbook of the American
schools, was just passing into dis-
card. Eighty-seven per cent of the
contents of this remarkable book,
which had built the sturdy charac-
ter of fathers, grandfathers, and
great-grandfathers was the Bible.
But from that time on, the Book of
books ceased to be an important
factor in public instruction.
The lawmakers in Washington
were intent, and commendably so,
to make effective the First Amend-
ment to the Constitution of the
United States, which says: ''Con-
gress shall make no law respecting
an establishment of religion, or pro-
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hibiting the free exercise thereof,"
to which we all subscribe.
Ostensibly to make more restric-
tive this amendment, last June, the
Supreme Court of the United
States, by a vote of six to one, made
unconstitutional the repeating of the
following brief prayer written and
recommended by the board of re-
gents for use in the New York public
schools. And this is their prayer:
Almighty God, we acknowledge our de-
pendence upon Thee, and we beg Thy
blessings upon us, our parents, our teach-
ers, and our country.
By making that unconstitutional,
the Supreme Court of the United
States severs the connecting cord be-
tween the public schools of the
United States and the source of
divine intelligence, the Creator him-
self, '*in whom we live and move
and have our being."
Mr. Justice Black points out in
his personal note added to the de-
cision of the Supreme Court that
'*It is neither sacrilegious nor anti-
religious to say that each separate
government in this country should
stay out of the business of writing
or sanctioning official prayers and
leave the purely religious function
to the people themselves, and to
those the people choose to look for
religious guidance.
To me, the ruling is surprising,
when we realize that the noblest
purpose of the public schools as a
function of government should be
to teach loyalty and obedience to
the laws of the country.
Our country's greatest asset is its
manhood, upon which depends not
only the survival of the individual
freedom vouchsafed by the Consti-
tution and Bill of Rights, and all
other ideals for which the founders
of the Republic fought and died, but
the survival of the best that we
cherish in present-day civilization.
/^NLY through proper education
can these fundamental prin-
ciples become fixed and guiding
influences in the lives of human
beings. Our educational system will
radiate such principles only to the
extent that we employ in our ele-
mentary schools, high schools, col-
leges, and universities men and
women who are not only eminent
in their chosen professions, but loyal
to the Constitution of our land;
influential as leaders, noble in
character. The most potent influ-
ence in training youth to cherish
life, to have increased respect for
human kind, to keep their word of
honor, to love justice, is the life and
personality of the teacher.
He who reputedly was the wisest
American (Emerson) said: "Char-
acter is higher than intellect; a noble
soul will be fit to live as well as to
think."
By law, the public schools of the
United States must be non-denomi-
national. They can have no part in
securing acceptance of any one of
the numerous systems of belief re-
garding God and the relation of
mankind thereto. Now let us re-
member and emphasize that lestiic-
tion applies to the atheist as well as
to the believer in God.
Last June that ruling called at-
tention to my feeling, which I wish
to emphasize today — attention to
the responsibility of revitalizing re-
ligion in the Church and in the
home, making prayer much more
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important than it has been in the
Kves of our children. To members
of the Church such admonition is
but a re-emphasis of the word of
the Lord as given in the divine com-
mandments to parents who have
children in Zion, ''or in any of her
stakes which are organized, that
teach them not to understand the
doctrine of repentance, faith in
God, and of baptism and the gift
of the Holy Ghost by the laying on
of the hands, when eight years old,
the sin be upon the heads of the
parents. For this shall be a law un-
to the inhabitants of Zion, or in any
of her stakes which are organized"
(D &C 68:25-26).
The real tragedy in America is
not that we have permitted the
Bible to slip out of out public
schools, hut that we have so openly
neglected to teach it in either the
home or the Church.
Never before was there such need
of revitalizing the teaching of faith
and repentance on the part of par-
ents. Never before in the history of
our country was the state in greater
need of young men and young wom-
en who cherish the higher life in
preference to the sordid, the selfish,
and the obscene.
OECORDS indicate that four
serious crimes were committed
each minute in the United States
last year, and many of them by
young boys and girls. It is true, of
course, that not a few of these de-
linquents come from broken homes
in which children have been denied
proper training.
May I tell you a story. Once I
had great pleasure in training a well-
bred colt. He had a good disposi-
tion, was clean, had a well-rounded
eye, was well proportioned, and, all
in all, was a choice equine posses-
sion.
Under the saddle he was as will-
ing, responsive, and co-operative as
a horse could be. He and my dog
''Scotty" were real companions.
But ''Dandy" resented restraint.
He was ill-contented when tied, and
would nibble at the tie rope until
he was free. He would not run away,
just take the bridle off his head and
stand free. Thinking other horses
felt the same, he would proceed to
untie their ropes. He resented being
confined in the pasture, and if he
could find a place in the fence where
there was only smooth wire, he
would paw the wire carefully with
his feet until he could step over to
freedom. More than once my
neighbors were kind enough to put
him back in pasture. He learned
even to push open the gate. Though
his depredations were provoking and
sometimes expensive, I admired his
intelligence and ingenuity.
But his curiosity and desire to ex-
plore the neighborhood led him and
me into trouble. Once, on the high-
way, he was hit by an automobile,
resulting in a demolished machine,
injury to the horse, and slight,
though not serious, injury to the
driver.
Recovering from that incident,
and still impelled with a feeling of
wanderlust, ''Dandy" inspected the
fence surrounding the pasture. He
even found the gates wired. So, for
awhile, we thought we had him
secure.
One day, however, somebody left
the gate unwired. Detecting this,
"Dandy" unlatched it, took "Nig,"
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his companion, with him, and to-
gether they visited the neighbor's
field. They went to an old house
used for storage. ''Dandy's" curios-
ity prompted him to push open the
door. Just as he had surmised,
there was a sack of grain. What a
find! Yes, and what a tragedy! The
grain was poison bait for rodents!
In a few minutes ''Dandy" and
"Nig" were in spasmodic pain, and
shortly both were dead.
"LJOW like "Dandy" are many of
our youth! They are not bad;
they do not even intend to do
wrong, but they are impulsive, full
of life, full of curiosity, eager to do
something. They, too, are restive
under restraint, but if they are kept
busy, guided carefully and rightly,
they prove to be responsive and ca-
pable; but if left to wander unguid-
ed, they all too frequently find
themselves in the environment of
temptation and too often are en-
tangled in the snares of evil.
Parents should be sufficiently
companionable with their boys and
girls as to merit their children's con-
fidence. They should be compan-
ions with them. When parents
shirk this duty, perhaps teachers can
succeed where parents fail. Teach
the boys that it is chastity during
youth that gives vigor, strength, and
virihty of manhood. Teach the girls
that chastity is the crown of beauti-
ful womanhood. When young men
and young women learn that, and
join hands in holy matrimony, with
a love that entwines their hearts, it
is the memory of a virtuous life that
contributes to the happiness of the
home — not the memory of phi-
landering or the suspicion of one or
the other's having been unfaithful
in youth, instead, a memory that
they came together as God would
have them, prepared to go through
life as parents worthy of pure chil-
dren. It is chastity, not prostitution
that contributes to the perpetuity
and virihty of the race.
"Train up a child in the way he
should go" is a worthy admonition to
parents and teachers for all time!
One day he [Jean Valjean] saw some
country people very busy pulling up net-
tles. He looked at the heap of plants,
uprooted, and already wilted, and said:
"This is dead; but it would be well if we
knew how to put it to some use. When
the nettle is young, the leaves make excel-
lent greens; when it grows old it has
filaments and fibres like hemp and flax.
Cloth made from the nettle is worth as
much as that made from hemp. Chopped
up, the nettle is good for poultry; pounded,
it is good for horned cattle. The seed of
the nettle mixed with the fodder of ani-
mals gives a lustre to their skin; the root,
mixed with salt, produces a beautiful yel-
low dye. It makes, however, excellent hay,
as it can be cut twice in a season. And
what does the nettle need? Very little
soil, no care, no culture, except that the
seeds fall as fast as they ripen, and it is
difficult to gather them; that is all. If
we would take a little pains, the nettle
would be useful; we neglect it, and it be-
comes harmful. Then we kill it. How
much men are like the nettle!" After a
short silence, he added: "My friends, re-
member this, that there are no bad herbs,
and no bad men; there arc only bad
cultivators."
T quote this from Les Miserahles to
impress us all with the responsi-
bility of guiding children and youth.
Our Sunday School and other aux-
iliary organizations offer excellent
opportunities as aids, but not as sub-
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stitutes. The responsibility of par-
ents is to see that their boys and
girls are put in the environment of
these meetings and take advantage
of their aid in guiding the young
from babyhood to adulthood. I have
quoted this to you before, but I
think it is appropriate this afternoon.
He stood at the crossroads all alone
The sunlight in his face;
He had no thought for the world unknown,
He was set for a manly race.
But the roads stretched east and the roads
stretched west,
And the lad knew not which road was best.
So he chose the road that led him down,
And he lost the race and the victor's
crown.
He was caught at last in an angry snare;
Because no one stood at the crossroads
there
To show him the better road.
Another day at the selfsame place,
A boy with high hopes stood;
He, too, was set for a manly race,
He was seeking the things that were good;
But one was there who the road did know
And that one showed him which way to go.
So he turned from the road that would
lead him down,
And he won the race and the victor's
crown.
He walks today the highway fair
Because one stood at the crossroads there
To show him the better road.
God inspire parents and all teach-
ers, and leaders of quorums and
auxiliary organizations, all organiza-
tions in the Church, to stand at the
''crossroads," and lead youth onward
and upward along the way of truth
and integrity into the presence of
God, I pray in the name of Jesus
Christ. Amen.
What Is Christmas?
Mabel Jones Gabhott
Is it the star atop the tree;
Is it the gift box — ribbon-bright?
Is it the song the angels sang
To humble shepherds that star-filled night?
Is it the Wise Men from the east;
Is it their frankincense and myrrh?
Is it the gladness in Mary's face;
Or in Joseph's protecting her?
Is it a child's expectancy;
Is it the gay wreath at the door?
Is it the love that Jesus taught?
Oh, yes. All this and more. . . .
Nathan Eldon Tanner
Appointed to the
Council of the Twelve
ELDER NATHAN ELDON TANNER
F
1 LDER Nathan Eldon Tanner
J was sustained as an apostle
and member of the Council
of the Twelve of The Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints at
the Saturday afternoon session of the
i32d Semi-Annual Conference, Oc-
tober 6 J 1962. This appointment
fills the vacancy in the Council
occasioned by the death, in May
1962, of Elder George Q. Morris.
Elder Tanner brings to his new
and sacred calling humility and a
sense of purpose, as well as com-
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petency and inspiration that mark
him as an outstanding servant of the
Church. Two years ago he was
called to be an Assistant to the
Council of the Twelve, and for the
past eighteen months he has pre-
sided over all the missions of West-
ern Europe, with headquarters near
London, England.
'Tew men are chosen for high
office in the Church who have a
richer heritage and more varied back-
ground of training and experience
than Nathan Eldon Tanner'' — so
wrote President Hugh B. Brown for
The Relief Society Magazine, when
Elder Tanner was appointed an As-
sistant to the Twelve.
He is of the sixth generation of
Latter-day Saints on both sides of
his family inheritance. His great-
grandfather John Tanner was an
associate of the Prophet Joseph
Smith in Zion's Camp and in Nau-
voo, Illinois. His great-grandfather
on his mother's side of the family,
James S. Brown, was a soldier
in the Mormon Battalion and a
noble and honored pioneer. Elder
Tanner was born in Salt Lake City,
Utah, May 9, 1898, and three years
later went to Canada with his par-
ents, Nathan W. and Sarah Edna
Brown Tanner. In 1919 he was
graduated from the Alberta Normal
silt
ELDER AND SISTER NATHAN ELDON TANNER AND FAMILY
Seated in front: Sara Isabelle Merrill Tanner; Elder Nathan Eldon Tanner.
Back row, standing, left to right: Mrs. W. S. Jensen (Isabelle); Mrs. C. R.
Walker (Roth); Mrs. H. S. Rhodes (Zola); Mrs. G. L. Spackman (Beth); Mrs. L.
Williams (Helen).
School. Later in the same year^ he
married Sara Isabelle Merrill of Hill
Spring, Alberta, in the temple at
Cards ton. They are the parents of
five lovely daughters: Ruth (Mrs.
C. R. Walker); Isabelle (Mrs. W. S.
Jensen); Zola (Mrs. H. S. Rhodes);
Beth (Mrs. G. L. Spackman); and
Helen (Mrs. L. Williams). There
are twenty-three living grandchil-
dren and two deceased.
Elder Tanner's distinguished ca-
reer in the field of education began
with his appointment as a teacher in
Hill Spring, where he added to his
small teaching income by operating
a store and doing farm chores. Later,
he became principal of the Cardston
Public School. He was elected to
the Alberta Legislature in 1935.
After serving as speaker in the legis-
lature, he became a member of the
provincial cabinet as Minister of
Lands and Mines. In this capacity
he was influential in determining
the provincial policy for regulating
and encouraging oil and gas produc-
tion in Alberta. He was appointed
chairman of the Alberta Research
Council in 1942, and became pro-
vincial Boy Scout Commissioner in
1946. He has been president of the
Merrill Petroleums Ltd., a director
of the Toronto Dominion Bank, and
many other business organizations.
In 1956 Elder Tanner was award-
ed an honorary degree of Doctor of
Laws from the Brigham Young
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University. At the time of his call
to be an Assistant to the Council of
the Twelve, he was serving as a
member of the Board of Governors
of the University of Alberta.
rj^LDER Tanner's Church activity
began in his early years, and
after serving as an officer in various
auxiliaries, he became bishop of the
Cardston First Ward in 1932, where
he had previously served as a coun-
selor. He also served as a member
of the High Council of Alberta
Stake. In 1938, after moving to
Edmonton, he became president of
that branch, where he was instru-
mental in building the first chapel
in Edmonton, and the seminary
building at the University of Alberta.
At the organization of Calgary Stake
in 1953, he became president and
served in that position until the
time of his call to be an Assistant
to the Council of the Twelve in
i960. During his presidency the
commodious and impressive Calgary
Stake Center was built.
In accepting his call as a member
of the Council of the Twelve, Elder
Tanner fervently expressed his testi-
monv of the gospel:
I want to bear you my testimony, my
brethren and sisters, that if every member
of the Church would accept the call of our
prophet today and live the gospel and keep
the commandments of our Heavenly Father
and become missionaries in ver)^ deed, we
could contribute more to the cause of
peace than all the power that might be
gathered together by all the governments
and all the men in uniform. May we
prove worthy of our membership in the
Church and Kingdom of God is my
prayer.
The Pheasant
Gladys Hesser Burnham
When gold and bronze and red of fall
Have burnished ditchbank's tattered edge,
And ragged goldenrod stands tall
Along the marsh, among the sedge,
The multicolored pheasant hides,
All wary of the season's chill.
Protective plumage now derides
The innate caution of his will.
He hesitates and cocks an eye,
Crouches, sprints across the loam,
Clucks at his maneuver, sly.
Triumphant in his hidden home.
Bernard P. Brockbank
Appointed Assistant to the
Council of the Twelve
ON October 6, 1962, at the
1 32d Semi-Annual Confer-
ence of the Church, Elder
Bernard P. Brockbank was sustained
as an Assistant to the Council of the
Twelve to fill the vacancy occasioned
by the appointment of Elder Nathan
Eldon Tanner to membership in the
Council of the Twelve. Elder Brock-
bank has been a devoted and suc-
cessful mission president for two
years, serving first as president of the
North British Mission, and later as
president of the Scottish Mission.
He recently conducted the session
at which the new Glasgow Stake was
formed by President McKay and
Elder Nathan Eldon Tanner, in the
native land of the paternal ancestors
of President McKay.
Elder Brockbank was born in Salt
Lake City, Utah, May 24, 1909, the
son of Taylor P. Brockbank and
Sarah LeCheminant Brockbank. He
graduated from Granite High School
and attended the University of Utah
and George Washington University,
majoring in business studies. He
has been a prominent business man,
builder, and contractor in Salt Lake
City and has contributed much to
civic improvement and community
activities.
Before his appointment as Presi-
dent of Holladay Stake in May 1959,
he had served as a counselor in two
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Manchester, England
ELDER BERNARD P. BROCKBANK
bishoprics, as bishop of the Winder
Ward, and as a high councilman in
both the Big Cottonwood and Holla-
day Stakes. He filled a mission to
Great Britain in 1929-30, during
which he was president of the Leeds
District.
Elder Brockbank was married to
Nada Rich of Logan, Utah, Novem-
ber 11, 1935, in Washington, D. C.
The marriage was later solemnized
in the Logan Temple. They are the
parents of six children: Loren Rich,
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ELDER AND SISTER BERNARD P.
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Center: Nada Rich Brockbank and Elder Bernard P
to right: Von R.; Roger R.; Diane; and Bruce.
This picture was taken in i960 at the time Elder Brockbank was called to preside
over the North British Mission. Two other sons, Loren Rich, and Bernard Park, Jr.,
are not in the picture.
Bernard Park, Jr., Diane, Bruce,
Von, and Roger.
In concluding the address which
he gave upon the acceptance of his
new calling, Elder Brockbank spoke
of his gratitude for the opportunity
to serve the Church and to be a wit-
ness to the restoration of the gospel:
I pray for the ability and inspiration to
serve the Lord and my fellow men. I am
thankful for the atonement of our Savior
Jesus Christ and for the principle of re-
pentance. . . .
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The Relief Society
Anniial
General Conference
1962
Hulda Parker
General Secretary-Treasurer
IN a beautiful autumn setting,
Relief Society workers from all
over the world assembled in the
historic Tabernacle on Temple
Square in Salt Lake City and re-
ceived inspiration, instruction, and
renewed enthusiasm for the work
through the sessions of the Relief
Society Annual General Conference
held 6n Wednesday and Thursday,
October 3 and 4, 1962. The uni-
versality of the organization was
strongly felt through the presence of
leaders from such faraway places as
Samoa, Australia, England, the
European Continent, and South
Africa, and when, for the first time
in a Relief Society Conference,
translating facilities and special in-
terpreters were used to convey the
messages of the conference to Ger-
man and Spanish-speaking sisters
in attendance from newly created
stakes in Germany, Switzerland, and
Mexico.
A total of 2,997 stake and mission
officers from 344 stakes and 16 mis-
sions attended the opening session,
the Officers Meeting, on Wednes-
day morning.
All sessions of the conference were
conducted by President Belle S.
Spafford with her counselors, Mari-
anne C. Sharp and Louise W.
Madsen and the thirty-three other
members of the General Board in
attendance.
Stirring and inspirational mes-
sages were given in the opening
session by President Joseph Fielding
Smith and Elder Mark E. Petersen,
the Relief Society advisors from the
Council of The Twelve. Each
stressed the need for mothers in the
Church to teach and set proper ex-
amples of modesty in dress and pur-
ity in thought. President Smith
admonished the women of the
Church to make their children
aware of the pitfalls and dangers of
living in this wicked world and to
deplore the tendency to imitate the
fashions of the world. Elder Peter-
sen declared that ''If the women of
the Church would practice the
kind of virtue the Lord speaks of,
they could change this situation,"
and thus protect the virtue of their
young people with a shield of
integrity.
In her Report and Official Instruc-
tions President Spafford told of the
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outstanding increase of 17,000 Re-
lief Society members during 1961,
and the magnitude of the services
and accomphshments of Rehef So-
cieties throughout the world as re-
vealed in the annual reports. She
also gave pertinent instruction rela-
tive to various phases of the vv^ork,
stated new policies related to record
keeping, and cited examples of the
blessings and development that
come through service and affiliation
with Relief Society.
The music for the opening session
was provided by a well-trained
chorus of Singing Mothers from the
South Sanpete Stake under the di-
rection of Bly M. Beal, with Elder
Alexander Schreiner at the organ.
T^HE Wednesday afternoon meet-
ing was a general session for
Relief Society members and the gen-
eral public. All in attendance were
deeply touched and inspired through
the presence in that session of our
beloved Prophet, President David
O. McKay, who was the principal
speaker. He appealed for greater
parental guidance and training in the
homes, in having prayer and in-
stilling faith in the hearts of children,
and in the development of strong
characters. He declared that ''Never
before was there such need of re-
vitalizing the teaching of faith and
repentance on the part of par-
ents. Never before in the history
of our country was the state in
greater need of young men and
young women who cherish the high-
er life in preference to the sordid,
the selfish, and the obscene."
President Spafford and her coun-
selors and Sister Charlotte A.
Larsen of the General Board also
spoke in this session. President
Spafford urged mothers to train and
fortify their children for rich, sei:-
viceable lives by teaching them to
study the standard works of the
Church. She said parents should
''train children in the use of the
scriptures, for the Lord has made
clear that it is the duty of parents
to see that children are reared in
light and in truth." Counselor
Sharp told of the greatest func-
tion of Relief Society through its
entire program to build testimony in
the lives of its members. Counselor
Madsen emphasized the tremen-
dous influence for good that can be
exerted by women of the Church
when they are unified in feeling
and purpose, seeking power from our
Heavenly Father in righteousness.
Sister Larsen stressed the importance
of keeping all of the Lord's com-
mandments and the blessings that
are realized through doing so.
Under the baton of Sister Flor-
ence Jepperson Madsen, with Elder
Alexander Schreiner at the organ, a
chorus of 450 Singing Mothers in-
spired those in attendance through
the music it provided in the general
session. The participants in the
chorus were from the American
Falls, Bannock, East Pocatello, Ida-
ho, North Pocatello, Pocatello,
Portneuf, West Pocatello, Blaine,
Burley, Cassia, Cooding, Minidoka,
Raft River and Twin Falls Stakes.
Wednesday evening approximate-
ly 3,000 Relief Society stake and
mission leaders were warmly greeted
by members of the General Board at
a beautiful reception in the Relief
Society Building.
The second day of the conference
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THE OPENING SESSION OF THE RELIEF SOCIETY ANNUAL
GENERAL CONFERENCE, 1962
President Belle S. Spafford stands at the pulpit addressing the audience. Seated at Presi-
dent Spafford's right, First Counselor Marianne C. Sharp, and at her left, Second Counselor
Louise W. Madsen.
Seated at the right: Elder Mark E. Petersen of The Council of The Twelve, and President
Joseph Fielding Smith, President of The Council of The Twelve, advisors to Relief Society;
Sister Jessie Evans Smith.
Members of the General Board of Relief Society are seated in front, and the Singing
Mothers are seen in the background, with their conductor, Florence J. Madsen, of the General
Board of Relief Society, seated at the right.
was devoted to impressive presenta-
tions in the Tabernacle featuring the
various courses of study for the 1962-
63 season, and to specific instruc-
tions for stake and mission officers in
separate departmental sessions. The
presentation ''An Eye Single to My
Glory" introduced the theology
course, the sixth year of the study
of The Doctrine and Covenants. A
glimpse into some of the writings of
the authors to be studied in the fifth
year of the course on American lit-
erature was given in the dramatiza-
tion ''Stairway of Surprise," and a
new social science course on "Divine
Law and Church Government" was
featured in the presentation "For
God So Loved the World." The
presentation "Toward Ideal Wom-
anhood" based on the life of Mary
Fielding Smith emphasized an ap-
plication of eternal principles con-
tained in the visiting teaching mes-
sages for the new season. Elder
Frank W. Asper was at the console
at both sessions in the Tabernacle
on Thursday.
Elder Marion G. Romney of The
Council of The Twelve addressed the
1 130 P.M. session on Thursday telling
of the function of Relief Society to
administer to the spiritual and physi-
cal needs of people and of the great
service that has been given by the
sisters in "supplying clothing, pre-
serving of foodstuffs, nursing the
sick, and all that relates to the care
of the poor."
Separate departmental sessions
were held in the afternoon for presi-
dencies, secretary-treasurers, work
meeting leaders, choristers and or-
ganists, Magazine representatives,
and theology, literature, and social
science class leaders.
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Utristmas n>ith
Helen H. Tiutton
DRIVING alone the fifty miles
from my apartment in Coun-
cil City to Uncle Ben's and
Aunt Sarah's farm in Willow Coun-
ty, gave me time to reminisce about
the happy holidays I had spent with
them in former years. Five, to be
exact, and every one filled with the
spirit of true Christmas meaning.
This one would be just as glorious
as all the rest. It had to be, because
it would be my last one with them
before Gary returned from his
Church mission in Scotland, and I
wanted to carry a lasting memory of
an old-fashioned Christmas, free of
expensive gifts, debts, and worldly
frivolities that seemed so prevalent
in the world. I wanted their way
to be a pattern for Gary and me and
our future family.
Auntie's invitation to spend the
holidays with them lay beside me on
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the car seat, but every time I
thought about it, my enthusiasm
took a sudden nosedive. Usually,
she wrote pages of bubbling, excit-
ing plans and news, even though
she would be seeing me in a few
days, but this year, the sparkle just
wasn't in her words. Maybe she
was busier than usual, or tired, but,
again, she might not be well, or per-
haps Uncle Ben was sick? There
was nothing to do but wait.
I tried to relax a little in my driv-
ing, traffic was very light, and I
visualized Auntie at about this mo-
ment. Likely, she was hurrying
about the kitchen, dressed in a crisp
cotton frock with an immaculate
gay apron tied around her slightly
chubby waist, taking care of last
minute details. When she would
spot my car coming up the drive-
way, she would rush out the kitchen
CHRISTMAS WITH AUNTIE Wl
door, still clutching whatever object CUDDENLY big snowflakes came
she was working with at the mo- swirling down from the gray
ment, whether it be rolling pin, skies, spreading a fresh blanket of
bread pan, or maybe a cookie cutter, white over the countryside as I came
''Camille, darling, I thought you'd near the farm. If only Gary could
never get here," she would greet me spend Christmas with us, I breathed,
with open arms. ''We should see as I drank in the beauty and peace-
you more often." Then she would fulness of the picturesque setting,
look down at her usually doughy But that wasn't possible, for he
hands and apologize. ''I should be would not finish his mission until
finished with all this, but I had a August, and was accepting a posi-
few last minute chores." tion in the East immediately. We
I laughed aloud. Aunt Sarah would be married in the temple
purposely left the cookie and bread upon his return and leave for Phila-
making until late afternoon so the delphia within the week,
delicious aroma of fresh baking Glancing down at Auntie's note
filled the room and encouraged ap- again, I repeated aloud her exact
petites, or so I suspected. Fruit words: ''We're looking forward to
cakes and plum puddings had been your visit as usual." Surely, she
prepared several weeks ago and would have said something if she
stacked away in the basement until or Uncle were ill. I had been
tonight when Uncle would bring imagining things, been too over-
them upstairs, and after supper, they anxious with this being my last
would be delivered to neighbors in Christmas with them. Or was I?
Willow County. Her note had included only a few
There would be a cake and a knit other sentences. Telephone lines
shawl for Widow Marsh, as every- had been down in Willow County,
one called her; the Kennedy family I couldn't call.
— they had six children and he As I came around the last bend
wasn't always able to find steady in the road, I caught sight of their
work — so they would find special neat white farmhouse nestled against
little gifts in their box, like gay red the foothills, looking like a frosty
mittens and warm socks, soft rag painting on a Christmas card. A
dolls and stuffed animals, plus the large glittering tree, decorated with
small gifts I had brought for them, brightly sequined lights, twinkled
and, of course, several loaves of out its cheery welcome through the
fresh, light bread. The elderly front window, and old Britt, the
Brother Barnes would get a basket family dog, lazily got up from the
of Auntie's goodies, a warm knit porch and trotted out to meet me.
scarf, and an invitation to spend Other than that, the place remained
Christmas with us; the Wilsons, as quiet as a tomb after I stopped
Carsons, and others I couldn't re- the car. Quickly gathering an arm-
member would receive a gift cake load of packages from the back seat,
or a pudding. Naturally, Miss Em- I passed loyal old Britt without even
ily Green, Aunt Sarah's best friend, a pat as I hurried up the steps and
would spend Christmas with us. knocked.
She always did. There was a shuffling sound in-
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side and the door opened. Auntie
looked at me in astonishment. ''Whv
I can't beheve you could drive up
without my seeing you. I must have
really been preoccupied. Come in,
Camille darling," and she hugged
me closely to her as my packages
tumbled to the floor.
''Aunt Sarah, are you all right?" I
asked when she gave me a chance
to speak.
"Of course, dear."
"And Uncle Ben?"
"Same as ever." He came forward,
kissing me on the cheek. "Sarah and
I were just talking about how we're
going to miss you next year." He
picked up my packages from the
floor and loaded my arms again.
"We're mighty happy for you,
though."
"He's a lucky one." Auntie
squeezed my hand. "Here, let me
help you with those packages. I
hope you haven't spent money on
us."
"Not much. Most of them I
made. You taught me that," I
said as we walked into the living
room and placed the gifts under the
tree. And then I noticed Emily
Green was missing.
"W^^^^'^ Emily?"
Aunt Sarah turned away,
but not before I saw the hurt look
in her eyes.
"She isn't spending Christmas
with us this year."
"Why?" I asked, astonished. "Is
she ill?"
"No. Well, she's just not spend-
ing Christmas with us, that's all.
Now, if you'll excuse me, dear, I'll
finish up in the kitchen," and she
hurried out of the room.
"Why?" I repeated, turning to
Uncle Ben. "Emily is always here.
She doesn't have any near relatives."
"I know, but things are different
this, year," he said, looking to make
sure Aunt Sarah was out of hearing
before he sat down beside me.
"You see, they had a misunderstand-
ing. Emily likely wouldn't come
even if Sarah asked her."
"They've been friends since they
were children. Besides, it just isn't
like Auntie to hold a grudge."
"Sarah is miserable," Uncle Ben
sighed.
"Do vou mind telling me about
it?"
He ran his hand through his thick
gray hair before speaking. "It's ri-
diculous. Last fall, just before the
county fair," he hesitated a moment,
"Emily raises dahlias, you know."
"Yes, I know."
"She had a rare beauty. Sarah
went up to see it a few days before
the fair, and, well, Britt tagged
along. That's not unusual," he
looked quickly at me. "He often
does."
"Go on."
"I don't know what got into that
dog. He saw a mole digging, of all
places, right by that prize dahlia, and
before Sarah or Emily could do any-
thing, he dug the plant up, trying
to get the blame rodent. Emily was
furious."
"I suppose she would be disap-
pointed, but she must have known
it wasn't Auntie's fault."
"She should have. Sarah apolo-
gized and offered to pay for it. She
even offered to give Emily her best
dahlia." Uncle shook his head sad-
ly. "Sarah didn't even enter her
dahlias in the fair out of respect for
Emily's bad luck."
"If Auntie apologized, even offered
CHRISTMAS WITH AUNTIE
893
restitution, what more could she
have done?"
''I don't know, Camille. Sarah
thinks it's up to Emily to speak up
now."
<<T yy
I see.
"I hoped Sarah would try again,
but she has not."
'I'm sorry. Uncle Ben."
AUNTIE came back into the
room and sat down opposite
us. "Is Gary still happy on his mis-
sion?" she asked.
'Tes, very," I answered, wonder-
ing if she had heard our conversation
and come in to change the subject.
"He's a wonderful missionary."
"I'm sure of that," she smiled.
Then, leaning back in her chair, she
looked mutely out the window for
several minutes before speaking
again. "It's getting late. I'll fix
something to eat."
"Let me help you." I followed
her to the kitchen. "Do we go the
usual places tonight?"
"Mostly. The Simpsons had a
bit of bad luck this year, so we'll
include them." She handed me a
pitcher of milk. "And there's a new
family moved into our community."
"Oh! Aunt Sarah," I asked, after
a silence, "couldn't I talk to Em-
ily?"
She glanced up quickly. "Ben
told you?"
"Yes."
"No, dear. It wouldn't help,"
she said, opening the refrigerator
and reaching for the eggs. "It's up
to Emily now."
"I could try "
"Emily doesn't want my friend-
ship. Would you like to set the
table?"
"Of course."
In a few minutes, we sat down to
a platter of scrambled eggs, warm
bread, raspberry jam, a pitcher of
milk, and cookies. After Uncle
blessed the food, Aunt Sarah smiled
across the table at me.
"You've been like a daughter to
us. We'll be lost without you."
"I'll miss you both, too. With
Dad and Mother gone, I'd have
been terribly lonely these past five
years." I stopped speaking, over-
come with emotion, and for some
time, we ate in silence. We were
going to miss each other, but that
was only a small fragment of our
lack of enthusiasm tonight. Nor
was it entirely that Emily wasn't
with us, either. We missed her very
much, of course, but something else
was missing, something intangible.
It was peace in our hearts!
"Maybe some Christmas you two
can spend the holidays with Gary
and me," I broke the long silence.
Aunt Sarah shook her head.
"We'd love to, but Philadelphia is
a long way from here."
"We may not always live in the
East," I remarked. "Gary is going
to work for his Uncle Thad for
awhile at least. We aren't buying
a home until we're sure we want to
live back there!"
"Good idea," Uncle agreed, shov-
ing his chair away from the table.
"And speaking of good ideas, I'd
better get the things from the base-
ment."
"Everything else is ready," Auntie
called after her husband as he start-
ed down the steps.
Y^ITHIN a short time, the car
was loaded and we were on
our way. These, I thought, are the
things I'm going to miss, living in
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a strange city — driving along a
country lane, watching the earth
silently take on its beautiful fresh
white armor as the snowflakes fall
earthward, greeting old and dear
friends, like the Kennedys, Emily,
Sister Marsh, and others, riding
through the countryside in a car
filled with the spicy fragrance of
new-made cookies and bread. Most
of all, though, I would miss the two
wonderful people sitting next to me.
Only, Emily should be here with
us, too, like old times.
We were passing her house now.
It seemed that Uncle Ben slowed
down a little, but Auntie only
glanced momentarily in that direc-
tion, and then looked the other way.
Our first stop was at Sister
Marsh's home. She greeted us with
a cheery, ''Merry Christmas.'' Tak-
ing Auntie by the hand, she said,
''You shouldn't do things for me,
Sarah. You do so much for every-
one."
"How's that rheumatism?" Auntie
inquired.
"Oh, it's better, or I'm learning
to live with it. I was just straighten-
ing up Roy's room."
"He's making it home for Christ-
mas?"
"Be here in the morning," she
smiled. "The army will have to get
along without my son for a couple
of weeks. He has a furlough."
"That's good news," Auntie re-
plied, loosening her coat. "I'd just
better give you a hand straightening
up that room."
Half an hour later, we left Sister
Marsh and drove to the Kennedys.
It was my favorite stop. Just watch-
ing six excited, happy faces converg-
ing upon us, and listening to their
gay chatter was reward enough for
anyone.
Mrs. Kennedy met us at the door,
looking tired and worn. "You're
all so kind to drop by. Come in,
the children have a little gift for
you."
Each year the children presented
us with these special gifts — draw-
ings they had made at school.
Auntie prized their offerings very
highly, not for the skill, usually
quite lacking, but that they were
gifts from the children's hearts.
"Daddy has a steady job coming
up the first of January," Mary, the
eight-year-old told us. "Next Christ-
mas we'll give you a better gift."
A UNTIE slipped her arm around
^^ the little girl. "That's great
news about your Daddy's job, but
we love these presents. I've saved
every one."
Mary danced around the room.
"Really?"
"Right," Auntie answered, and
then turning to Mrs. Kennedy, she
said. "You look tired. Are you all
finished with the day's work?"
"I just have to bathe Delores,
then I'm finished. The children go
to bed early."
Without looking, I knew what
Aunt Sarah was doing. She was
taking off her coat again. "Well,
now you just sit right in that chair
and rest a bit. I'll give Delores her
bath,' she said, shooing Mrs. Ken-
nedy to a chair. "You look ex-
hausted."
Mrs. Kennedy protested, but
Auntie insisted. Just where she got
such bubbling energy after the busy
day she had spent at home was a
puzzle to me. But that was Auntie,
always willing to help someone,
CHRISTMAS WITH AUNTIE 895
only, why wasn't she trying to be her. '1 want us to be friends again,
friends with Emily? We want you to spend Christmas
with us. Please forgive me for be-
\ FTER leaving the grateful Ken- ing so stubborn in not asking you
nedys, we stopped at Brother earlier. I wanted to."
Barnes'. He was delighted to spend Emily looked away a moment,
Christmas Day with us. Next we then her eyes filled with tears,
went to the Carsons, Simpsons, and 'Tour heart is so big, Sarah. Fm
the new people named Sanders, the one who should be apologizing
Then the Wilsons, an elderly couple, to you. Fve been too stubborn to
and, finally, we were on our way admit I was wrong." She was cry-
home, ing softly now, and Auntie put her
We passed the Kennedys again arm around her and repeated, 'Tou
and it was in darkness, and once will spend Christmas with us?"
again, we came to Emily's. From ''If you want me, Sarah. Come
the road, I could see a small light in," she stood aside for us to enter,
flickering through the window, and for the first time, noticed me
Uncle Ben started past just as Aunt standing back of Auntie. "It's good
Sarah called, "Stop, Ben, a mo- to see you, Camille."
ment." To say the least, we were a happy
Uncle Ben brought the car to a foursome on our way home. Emily
stop and waited. No one said any- and Auntie chatted continuously,
thing for several seconds. Finally with Uncle Ben and me joining in
Auntie spoke. "I can't have peace in every opportunity we found ' an
my heart and be at odds with any- opening. That wasn't often,
one." She looked at Uncle Ben Soon we were back at the farm
and then off into the distance. "It in the living room, taking off our
is the birthday of Jesus. He was the wraps and settling in our usual
Prince of Peace. I'll ask Emily to places, just as we had the past five
spend Christmas with us." years. Uncle Ben strolled over to
Uncle slipped his arm around her the fireplace and poked at the fire
waist and smiled down proudly at before picking up the Bible from
her. "I have the best wife in the the table and sitting down in his
world." usual favorite chair. As always, he
"I always thought I was the lucky was going to read the first Christ-
one." She patted his arm. "I won't mas from the second chapter of
be long, Ben. Want to come along, Luke.
Camille?" Leaning back contentedly in my
We walked quickly up to the chair, I watched the flickering blue
door and Aunt Sarah knocked. No and yellow flames dart crazily from
one answered, so she knocked again log to log in the fire as I silently
a little louder. Then we saw Emily mused, if you toss one pebble in a
coming to the door. pond, the waves spread and reach
"Hello, Emily," Auntie greeted out. Peace was like that, too. If
her. only people of all nations could
"Hello," she answered. feel the deep need to have peace in
"Emily," Aunt Sarah smiled at their hearts for all mankind, if they
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were willing to go the second mile,
as Auntie was tonight, they would
be following the teaching of the one
whose birthday we were commem-
orating.
Reaching out, I took Auntie and
Emily's hands in mine. ''You know,
this is the best Christmas ever."
'It sure is," Emily smiled through
tears.
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Uncle Ben's firm, strong voice
could be heard over the crackling
of the fire as he began to read:
"And it came to pass in those
days. . . ." When he came to the
fourteenth verse, he looked tender-
ly over at Auntie. "Glory to God in
the highest, and on earth peace,
good will toward men."
The Sfreet You'd Love to Live On
Helen F. Parker
Along the street the trees are bare;
Their dehquescent tips investigate the frosty air.
A stone wall and the hedges, snow encrusted,
Surround the houses,
Tall Cape Cods,
Skywards,
Upthrusted.
Knee deep in snow rose bushes stand and stare.
Their leaves, dead, brown, and dry,
Hang waiting in the quiet air.
I am the stranger here —
Newly moved into this place.
I stare
At all the stark beauty exposed to what my eyes might meet,
And ponder —
Can spring possibly add to the wonder of my street?
Opposite Page: Winter in Yosemite National Park, California
Photograph by Don Knight
Words Af^ Snow
Ida Ehihe, James
This season of white fortitude will melt
At last into a tender time of bloopi,
An hour less visioned. than obscurely felt,
After long months of chaste^^jad frozen gloom
Insistently the heart, cloakeo^^^spair,
Scents fragrance subtle as the breath of hope.
Moving through braciches, pulseless yet,\ttd bare,
Over the winter's chill and empty slope. ^
There will come beauty from this barren hour
A peril-sweet interval when children sing
Beneath the dogwood's luminqus ivory floweyg^,
When faith shall come to warm awakening,
To roll the stone of winter's bhght and doom
Away at last fron^ vspring's beleaguered tomb.
^*]^Jr»*-f^h
(§m Kttl^ OltynBtmaH (gift
Sylvia Probst Young
WHEN I came out of Miss
Mandy's house two days
before Christmas, the win-
ter sun was fast disappearing behind
the low western hills, and the sky
was like a great, rainbow-painted
bowl overhead — a special kind of
sky that made the world look gold-
en and glowing. Happy as my heart,
I thought, as I held the cardboard
box more closely, and hurried along
the snow-covered road. Mother
would be so pleased with a dozen
fresh eggs from Miss Mandy's hens.
Tomorrow we could make Christ-
mas cookies and a pound cake and
still have eggs to fry for breakfast
on Christmas morning.
But more important than the
eggs in the box were the two nickels
slipped inside of my glove. I cupped
my fingers to feel them. What I
could buy with two shining nickels!
In the window of Van Wagoner's
Mercantile were all sorts of toys.
Night after night on our way home
from school, Susie and I had stood
with our noses pressed against the
cold pane, gazing at the wonderful
things there — harmonicas — story-
books — jackknives — and dolls —
beautiful little dolls with rubber
bodies and movable arms and legs.
Ten cents would buy one of those
dolls, and I had that much money!
I had earned it and the eggs by do-
ing Miss Mandy's dusting, and
scrubbing her kitchen floor every
Saturday morning since she had
broken her leg.
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Of course, I was sorry that Miss
Mandy had slipped on her front
steps and had to be an invalid, but
I was real glad that she had asked
me to do her work, for if she hadn't
I wouldn't have had a chance to earn
anything. Mama didn't have dimes
to pay with, and almost nobody in
Hillsburg had a hired girl, especially
not a nine-year-old. No wonder I
felt luckv!
The kitchen was warm and
bright, and Mama, who was stirring
a pot of soup at the stove, turned a
smiling face to me as I entered.
Mama's smile was the thing you
remembered most about her, for she
was a smiling kind of person. I
thought she was beautiful, with her
thick, shining hair that looked like
warm honey, and her eyes bright as
Christmas lights.
''Hello, Polly," she greeted me.
"How's Miss Mandy? Fine, I hope.
And what do you have in the box,
dear?"
''Miss Mandy's feeling much bet-
ter, today." I set the box down
carefully on the table.
"These are eggs," I said, "a dozen
of Miss Mandy's fresh eggs."
Mama beamed. "How wonderful,
Polly. With our own hens on
strike as they are. Miss Mandy
couldn't have given you anything
better."
"But, Mama, that isn't all she
gave me." I pulled off my glove and
held up the coins for her to see.
Little Tim and Susie, who had
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been playing with Mama's button
box on the floor, came to look at
my wealth, too.
"Bless Miss Mandys heart,"
Mama exclaimed, ''now you can buy
one of those little dolls in Van
Wagoner's window."
I was glad to hear Mama say that
because I knew that Santa Claus
was awful poor, and Mama had said
she was afraid that he couldn't bring
new dolls for Susie and me. Susie,
who always liked to play with kit-
tens and stick horses better than
dolls, didn't mind at all, but to me
dolls were very special. Samantha,
the one doll I had, was forgotten in
a summer rain and the paint on her
face was almost all washed away.
She really wasn't very beautiful now.
So the prospects of having even a
little new doll seemed wonderful,
especially since Mama had suggested
it.
She turned from the stove and
her eyes were shining.
'Tut the eggs in the pantry, hon-
ey," she said, "and tomorrow morn-
ing we'll borrow Aunt Mary's cookie
cutters and make cookies and a
pound cake, too."
V\/^HEN Papa came in with a
bucket of white, foaming
milk, the table was set with bowls
of steaming onion soup and warm
biscuits.
"Well, isn't this a happy family,"
he observed.
Papa was so thin, and I thought
his eyes looked as deep as the forest.
But it was wonderful to have him up
and about again, it seemed he had
been sick for so long.
While Mama was straining the
milk, I told Papa about Miss Mandy
and the eggs and my dime. He was
real interested and pleased.
"Now you can buy that little doll
you've talked about," he said.
"That's just what Mama said,"
I replied happily.
Papa smiled. "Your Mama and
I usually think alike."
When Johnny came in from feed-
ing the calves and our supper was
over. Papa put a big log on the fire
in the front room. There, by the
dancing, warm light, we sat while
he read the Christmas story from
the old family Bible.
We all loved to hear that wonder-
ful story, even Susie and little Tim,
for the way Papa read it made you
feel you were on the plains of Judea
hearing the angels sing. We talked
about Bethlehem and the Christ
Child, and why he had come to
earth.
"The happiest people in the
world are those who would rather
give than get," Papa concluded, "for
they are following the example of
the Lord."
Papa and Mama believed in giv-
ing. I remembered more than once
when we had gone without to give
to someone who they thought was
in greater need than we.
"When you give what you want
for yourself, that's when giving is
really giving," Papa had often ex-
plained.
Now the log on the fire was
almost burned away. Timmy lay
asleep, curled up like a kitten on the
big bear rug. Little fingers of frost
were creeping around the window-
panes.
"It's going to be a cold night,"
Papa observed, as he bent down to
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get Timmy. ''Time for bed, chil-
dren, tomorrow's a big day."
We went up the stairs thinking
of the morrow. To us the day be-
fore Christmas, with corn popping,
cookie making, and going up the
hill for a tree, was almost as good
as Christmas day.
IVTEXT morning the windows
were silver sheets of ice, and
when Papa came in from milking,
his moustache looked as if it had
been dipped in white frosting.
'1 hate to think of you hauling
the milk in this weather," Mama
told him, and before he left she
found a square of calico in her rag
bag and tied it around his face.
'1 don't want you breathing that
cold air or you'll be in bed again."
''What Papa needs is a scarf to
cover his face on mornings like
this," she sighed, as we watched him
going toward the barn to harness
the horses.
Turning to our own work, we
cleared the breakfast dishes away in
record time, and then our kitchen
became a hive of activity as we pre-
pared for Christmas Day.
By noon the windows were all
thawed out, Johnny brought the
hand sleigh from the shed, and I
went with him up the hill to get
our Christmas tree.
When we came back. Mama
brought out a half dollar she had
been carefully saving.
"Polly," she said, "you can go to
Van Wagoner's and get some pea-
nuts — two pounds, and the rest
in hardtack candy."
My feet fairly flew along the
glistening white road. I was think-
ing of the precious little doll that
I wanted so much. The two nickels
were safe with the fifty cents in
Mama's brown handbag that she
had let me carry.
There weren't many toys left in
Van Wagoner's window now, and
for a moment my heart sank, but
then I saw it — one little doll still
standing there.
Mr. Van Wagoner was a round,
jolly man with twinkling eyes. I
thought he looked like Santa Claus'
brother. He smiled at me when I
came into the store, but he was
busy showing outing flannel to Mrs.
Christy, so I just wandered around
looking at things. There was every-
thing you could think of in that
store from barn lanterns to penny
candy.
Usually I liked to look at the
fancy trinkets in the showcases, but
today I had eyes for a doll only.
Then I saw it — a red bandana
handkerchief in the window, right
beside my precious doll, funny, I
hadn't noticed it before. For some
reason I thought of Papa then with
the white frost covering his mous-
tache. Papa had been sick with
pneumonia for a long time. It had
only been the last two weeks that
he had been out on his milk route
again, and it worried Mama so much
to have him out in this zero weather.
"I should buy him a scarf of some
kind to cover his face," she had said
anxiously.
Right then I had an idea — that
bandana handkerchief would make
a fine face scarf. I tried to turn my
attention back to the doll, but
thoughts of Papa and the handker-
chief persisted. Papa — just think-
ing about him made my heart warm.
Mr. Van Wagoner came to
wait on me then. While he
weighed out the candy and peanuts
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I was thinking of the first Christ- Mama didn't mention the doll
mas, and about giving gifts. Mama when I got home, she was so busy I
had always said that only the people guess that she forgot, and I was glad
who sacrificed to give really knew because I wanted Papa's present to
the meaning of giving. be a surprise to everyone.
''Can I get anything else for you, Johnny had made a stand for the
Polly?" Mr. Van Wagoner asked, tree, and he had brought it into the
as he turned from the scales and house.
held out a piece of peanut brittle to "Let's decorate it now," Susie
me. cried.
'The red bandana in the window So Mama let us start with the
— how much is it Mr. Van Wag- apples and popcorn strings. When
oner?" we had finished decorating it, our
"Oh, that?" He took out a box Christmas tree was an unforgettable
from under the counter. "A lot of sight, with ropes of popcorn and
them in here," he said, lifting the rose berries, apples, bright red, and
lid, "and they're just ten cents each, cookies cut in all sorts of shapes.
Bet you're thinking of a present for Mama put the candles on and prom-
your Papa." ised that we could light them for a
I nodded. "My Papa," I told few minutes before we went to bed.
him, "needs something to cover his When supper dishes were done
face on a cold morning. He hasn't we gathered around the organ and,
a scarf. And I have ten cents that while Mama played, we sang "Silent
I earned myself." Night," and "Away in a Manger,"
"Well now, isn't that nice?" Mr. and all the other carols we knew.
Van Wagoner approved. "Not every
man gets a present from his daugh- T^HEN it was time to light the
ter." Christmas tree, and we watched
"I think Fd like to buy one," I in breathless wonder as one tiny
heard myself saying. light after another flickered into
Mr. Van Wagoner beamed. "I'll view. When the last candle was
wrap it up. Let's see. . . ." He lighted Papa blew out the lamp, and
disappeared into the back room for the wonderful Christmas tree stood
a minute, and returned with a small glowing in the darkened room,
piece of green tissue paper and a All too soon it was time for bed.
length of red twine. I watched for a chance, and when
"Lm going to make your Papa's no one was looking, I laid Papa's
present look really festive," he said, present under the tree. Then I went
With wide eyes I watched him, to bed with my wonderful secret
and when he handed it to me I making me feel warm and happy
thought that I had never seen a inside,
package that looked so beautiful. In the early Christmas dawn we
Thanking Mr. Van Wagoner, I trouped downstairs to see what
turned and went out of the store, Santa Claus had left. My old doll,
but I didn't trust my eyes to look Samantha, and Susie's Mary Jane
at the window where the little doll were sitting proudly under the tree
was still standing. all dressed up in new clothes. The
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clothes almost made the dolls look
new, too. There was a harmonica
for Johnny, and some building
blocks for little Tim. And, wonder
of wonders, somehow Santa had
managed to leave a pearl necklace
for Susie and a blue bracelet for me.
Papa and Mama stood by smiling
at our exclamations of delight. But
when everything else had been ex-
amined, one little gift was still under
the tree.
'Tapa," I said, ''you forgot one
present, there under the tree."
''Well, so I did,'' he exclaimed,
stooping down to pick it up. "I
wonder whom this is for?"
"It's for you," I said quickly, re-
membering that I had forgotten to
write his name on it.
With starry eyes I watched as he
untied the red string. The whole
family was watching, too. And Ma-
ma looked at me and gave me such
a wonderful, sweet kind of smile that
I knew I would never forget it.
As Papa held up the red ban-
dana, his voice got kind of chokey.
"Polly," he said, "it's the nicest
Christmas gift I've ever had in my
whole life."
"It will make a perfect scarf for
your face on these cold mornings,"
Mama told him, and she tied it
around his face to show us.
My heart was singing, I hadn't
known until then just how wonder-
ful it was to be a giver. I was proud
and happy, happier than I had ever
been on any Christmas before. I
think I knew a little how the Ju-
dean hill folks felt when they
brought presents to the manger on
that first Christmas morning.
Later, when I was helping Mama
clear up the breakfast dishes, she
looked at me with glowing eyes.
"Polly," she said wisely, "you
have made your Papa and me so
happy and proud, and this is the
Christmas you will remember the
longest, for today you have learned
what Christmas really means."
New Serial to Begin in January
A new serial "Keep My Own," by Kit Linford, will begin in the January
1963 issue of The Relief Society Magazine. The story narrates the
adjustments and sacrifices by which a young bride, Irene Spencer, strives
to integrate herself into her husband's family. Her ideal is a pattern of
love and unity, which requires a mature devotion and the giving up of
many treasures.
The Breath of Life
James E. Perkins, M. D., Managing Director
National Tuberculosis Association
IT has been said, "It is a woman's world'' and also "The hand that rocks
the cradle shapes the earth." These two eloquently phrased thoughts
are oft repeated and hence must hold the important element of truth. It
is then to the women, the guardians of the family health, we would like to
bring our short message.
Along with our battle against TB, we should remember two more
letters — "RD." RD stands for Respiratory Diseases. RD has for so long
complicated and cost us many battles with Tuberculosis. Anything that
damages lungs or hinders breathing must be of concern to your local TB
Associations across the country.
How many mothers have been awakened in the still, dark hours of
the night to hear the gasping struggle to breathe and cry of a child suffer-
ing from Asthma?
Bronchitis, Pneumonia, Emphysema, Influenza, Pleurisy, and even the
Common Cold can be helped by the expanded research program financed
by Christmas Seals. Won't you add Christmas Seals to all your holiday
mail?
Join us in our quest to save lives and ease human suffering. Support
your local Tuberculosis Association by keeping and using the 1962 Christ-
mas Seals.
Whistling Carols
Evelyn Fjddsted
Up and down the street he went each night
Bicycle spinning on his route.
Whistling carols loud and clear
"Joy to the world" and "Peace on Earth."
And as he whistled stars came out,
And blinked approval of his joy.
For David's music long ago
Could not have brought more peace and cheer
Than David in our little town,
Whistling on his paper route.
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Si:sty Years Ago
Excerpts From the Woman's Exponent, December 1902
"For the Rights of the Women of Zion and the Rights of the Women
OF All Nations"
CHRISTMAS THOUGHTS: It is but a small thing to give of one's substance,
but how great comparatively to receive the compensation of the soul that comes
through reaction to the giver. The joy one feels but does not quite comprehend,
which invariably comes afterwards to those whose hearts are attuned to harmony and
love for all mankind. . . . The Christmas spirit is one of forgiveness, it partakes of the
charity that forgives seventy times seven, delighting in doing good to suffering hu-
manity. ... — Editorial
CHRISTMAS CAROL
The wise men journey from afar,
And follow close His guiding star;
It stands o'er Bethlehem tonight.
Imposing, wondrous, is the sight.
O, hear the angels sing again,
"On earth dawns peace, good will to men."
He lowly in the manger's laid.
No room for him can else be made. . . .
— Lydia D. Alder
TESTIMONIAL TO SISTER M. I. HORNE: The anniversary of Sister M. I.
Home's eighty-fourth birthday was celebrated by the officers and members of the
Relief Society of Salt Lake Stake. . . . President Angus M. Cannon addressed the sisters:
I am very glad to be honored and privileged to meet with Sister Home and the rest of
the sisters. ... I have been acquainted with her for fifty-eight years. ... I thought
while sitting here of the experience this "woman has obtained in gaining a testimony
of the Prophet Joseph Smith and in associating with the wives and brethren of some
of the twelve apostles. . . . She was acquainted with the Prophet Joseph, and with his
brother Hyrum, and with his sisters and with his other brothers. . , . When I have
thought of a happy home and of the dignity of a woman, a woman of gentle and
queenly dignity, I have thought of Joseph Home, Sister Home, their children, and the
government of their family. ... — News Note
RELIEF SOCIETY CONFERENCE IN WOODRUFF STAKE: Sister Steven-
son and Sister Badger, visitors from Salt Lake City, were on the stand , . . Sister
Stevenson said the Relief Society work is a self-denying work . , . spoke of the love and
unity that should be in the family circle, teach our daughters how to be good wives
and our sons to seek a wife by inspiration; said the duties of a Relief Society teacher
were very sacred and they were the backbone of Relief Society. . . . Let us not forget
the dead or neglect the wonderful work for them. . . . We are to be judged out of
the books, and I believe one of these is the Relief Society books. We don't want to
be at ease in Zion, we want to set an example that our lives will be acceptable to the
Lord. ... — Katie H. Eppich, Stake Sec.
NOTES AND NEWS: Mrs. Kipling, the mother of Rudyard Kipling, has just
published, with her daughter, Mrs. Fleming, a little book of poems entitled "Hand
in Hand."
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man's Sphere
Ramona W. Cannon
A/TARY BRAN is an independent
impresario, who in Europe and
America has presented the pubhc
such artists as Anna Pavlova, Vasalav
Nyinsky, Yvette Guilbert, Jose Gre-
co, the Stainislavsky Moscow Art
Theatre, the Vienna Boys Choir.
She has settled in Los Angeles, and
has received some of the highest
decorations for artistic achievement
given in France, Italy, and America.
OUTH MEHRTENS, one of
America's most distinguished
newspaper women, is Bureau Chief
of the New England area for Time
Magazine. She brings to her re-
sponsible position a limitless curios-
ity and an agile mind. A Boston
colleague describes Miss Mehrtens as
one who ''grasps any kind of news
situation in a minute." She works
quickly, and efficiently supervises
her staff of reporters who were re-
sponsible for three cover stories in
Time for 1961.
T^HE death rate among married
men and women is lower than
among unmarried adults. Girls born
in Sweden have the longest life ex-
pectancy of any women in the world
—seventy-five years.
lyrRS. CHESTER WILLIAMS of
Kanarraville, Utah, is chief of
the volunteers fire department, com-
posed entirely of women. Her group
has been called ''The Girls Who Go
to Blazes." Numbering twenty-two
women, including grandmothers and
young mothers, the women assumed
a responsibility necessitated by the
men of the town being at work in
other towns or on adjacent ranches.
V\^OMEN represent only seven
per cent of the 166,000 per-
sons listed in the United States
National Register of Scientific and
Technical Personnel. Most of these
women work in the fields of biology
and psychology. In medicine, wom-
en tend to go into pediatrics, ob-
stetrics, gynecology, anesthesiology,
general practice, laboratory diagno-
sis, and laboratory research.
M
RS. ERWIN SMOGOR, of
South Bend, Indiana, won first
prize in Pillsbury's fourteenth grand
national bakeoff. The prize was
$25,000, the product, an apple pie
with caramel and whipped cream
cheese topping.
905
EDITORIAL
The 132d Semi-Annual Church Conference
'T^HE 1320! Semi-Annual Confer-
ence of the Church was held in
the Tabernacle in Salt Lake City,
Utah, October 5th, 6th, and yth,
1962. Under autumn skies, and in
a valley golden with harvest, the
saints from many lands assembled
to hear words of testimony, inspira-
tion, and direction from the General
Authorities, all of whom were pres-
ent for the conference sessions.
President David O. McKay, Prophet,
Seer, and Revelator, now in his
ninetieth year, presided at and con-
ducted all the general sessions and
the Priesthood meeting.
There was much rejoicing among
the saints to know that the words of
this conference were the most wide-
ly disseminated in all the history of
the Church. Reception was excel-
lent in Europe, Africa, the Islands
of the Sea, and other far-off lands,
as well as in all parts of the United
States. The potential viewing audi-
ence on Sunday was estimated at
seventy-seven million.
Of much interest was the appoint-
ment of Elder Nathan Eldon Tan-
ner, former Assistant to the Council
of the Twelve, as a member of the
Council of the Twelve. The saints
assembled also participated in sus-
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taining Elder Bernard P. Brockbank,
President of the Scottish Mission, as
an Assistant to the Council of the
Twelve. President George Carlos
Smith, Jr., of the Central States Mis-
sion was named Superintendent of
the Young Men's Mutual Improve-
ment Association, to succeed Joseph
T. Bentley. Marvin J. Ashton and
Carl W. Buehner were sustained as
counselors to President Smith.
pOREMOST among the many
outstanding features of the con-
ference was the opening address of
President David O. McKay. Key-
noting his address on the theme of
obedience to the gospel in the life
of the individual. President McKay
declared:
I believe that governments, institutions,
and organizations exist primarily for the
purpose of securing to the individual his
rights, his happiness, and proper develop-
ment of his character. When organiza-
tions fail to accomplish this purpose, their
usefulness ends. ... In all ages of the
world men have been prone to ignore the
personality of others, to disregard men's
rights by closing against them the oppor-
tunity to develop. The worth of man is
a good measuring rod by which we may
judge the rightfulness or the wrongfulness
of a policy or principle, whether in gov-
ernment, in business, or in social activities.
Belle S. Spafford, President • Marianne C. Sharp, First Counselor
Louise W. Madsen, Second Counselor • Hulda Parker, Secretary- Treasurer
Anna B. Hart
Edith S. Elliott
Florence J. Madsen
Leone G. Layton
Blanche B. Stoddard
Evon W. Peterson
Aleine M. Young
Josie B. Bay
Alberta H. Christensen
Mildred B. Eyring
Charlotte A. Larsen
Edith P. Backman
Winniefred S.
Man waring
Elna P. Haymond
Annie M. Ellsworth
Mary R. Young
Mary V. Cameron
Afton W. Hunt
Wealtha S. Mendenhall
Pearle M. Olsen
Elsa T. Peterson
Fanny S. Kienitz
Elizabeth B. Winters
LaRue H. Resell
Jennie R. Scott
Alice L. Wilkinson
LaPriel S. Bunker
Irene W. Buehner
Irene C. Lloyd
Hazel S. Cannon
Hazel S. Love
Fawn H. Sharp
Theories and ideologies exploited dur-
ing the last half century present challenges
more critical and dangerous than mankind
has ever before faced. . . .
Force and compulsion will never estab-
lish the ideal society. This can come only
by a transformation within the individual
soul.
PRESIDENT Henry D. Moyle
declared that obedience to the
gospel must be our ensign in order
to estabhsh peace within ourselves
and make ourselves secure in the
household of God.
Our work, therefore, is to promulgate
knowledge of God that all who listen may
come to know God and thereby put them-
selves in the way of immortality and eternal
life
Our work is cut out for us once we
accept membership in his Church and
kingdom and obey the commandments of
God. We become conscious of the reality
and the actual existence of God — the
Holy Ghost becomes our comforter and
our guide. . . .
We must know Christ to become part
of his household and prepare for the day
of judgment, which will start at his
house. . . .
AN eternal quest is necessary to
the attainment of a knowledge
of God, President Hugh B. Brown
declared, in explaining the attri-
butes of this knowledge and the way
it may be obtained.
As God is our father and the source of
all truth, as we are all primarily interested
in attaining eternal life, and as it is eternal
life to know him, surely an open-minded
and courageous study of him and his di-
vine plan with respect to our salvation will
be the most interesting and permanently
rewarding of all ventures into the vast
realms which invite man's questing
spirit. . . .
The restored gospel of Jesus Christ
which we proclaim, when understood and
accepted, will unite all men in a common
cause, and then only will all new scientific
discoveries be utilized for the benefit of
mankind and then we shall have peace. A
knowledge of truth will help men to be
free. . . .
In his fervent and solicitous
closing address, President McKay
thanked all those who had partici-
pated in the conference and extend-
ed his blessing to the saints in all
lands, and to all people everywhere.
God bless you that you may realize the
blessings that are yours through the revela-
tion and restoration in this day and age
of the world of the Priesthood of God,
which gives you authority to represent
him ... in this day of the gospel as given
through Christ the Lord as the plan of
salvation to all mankind.
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Christmas in the Home
/^HRISTMAS holidays are of long-lasting significance in the family pat-
tern. Marked by family love and unity, they also set the the pattern
throughout the generations of those who have shared in the joy of the
home, and who have carried its ideals in a design for affection and unity
in the many new homes that are the branches of the family tree.
Some small remembrance given in love, some gift requiring fore-
thought and sacrifice, some handmade memento, may carry a long-contin-
ued aura of affection. There are many now grown old, and others at
various stations along the lifetime progression, who recall a picture of
father standing in the open door carrying in his arms the needle-boughed
Christmas tree. And there are those who will not forget the blessed
occasion of the exchange of gifts, with mother seated in the midst of the
little ones.
It is from the home that there must come the true and everlasting
meaning of Christmas. It is there that children learn the difference be-
tween the symbol and the substance, the tinsel and the testament.
The Wise Men, the shepherds, the star, the evergreen trees, the
various customs in many lands — they are not Christmas — but they are
symbols of Christmas. Such long-established and beloved symbols may
help to impart the everlasting significance of the Christmas star and the
birth of the Savior and this a small child can understand.
Some children, even those who have not yet been to school, will listen
to a few lines from the New Testament, wherein Luke speaks of the shep-
herds ''abiding in the fields" and their journey to the manger. The children
must be told that through the long centuries the people had looked for
the coming of a King through the royal lineage of David — a King who
would bring a message of salvation ''from everlasting to everlasting."
The children, seeing a star at the top of the Christmas tree, can be
told of the new star that lighted the darkness of Bethlehem and shone
above the place where the young Child lay. They may not understand the
unlimited vastness of space and the innumerable suns and planets of the
universe, but they can hear the story of a new light that came to illuminate
the pathway for all children and for all people everywhere in every land,
and through all the generations.
And the Wise Men, journeying by the light of the star, coming from
a far land, in search of a promised King — let the children hear for them-
selves the words of the Bible: "Now when Jesus was born in Bethlehem
of Judea in the days of Herod the king, behold, there came wise men from
the east. . . ."
How quickly the Christmas Eve comes — how soon the Christmas
Day departs — how soon the family is grown and the members scattered
. . . how soon earth life is done. Let us cherish each moment with the
children that the story of the first Christmas may become the reality of
reverence and rejoicing. —V. P. C.
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WE have established a tradi-
tion in the family of
having Christmas Eve
dinner together in one of our homes.
It is one of the few times during
the year when all of us, my mother,
brother, sisters, and children gather
together, and we all look forward
to it with keen anticipation. To me,
it is the highlight of the Christmas
season.
It was our turn last year to have
the party at my home, and what
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fun it was to plan! From the first
moment of their arrival, with every-
one attired in his holiday best, the
litde ones scrubbed and combed,
and wearing excited expressions, to
the climax of the evening, when re-
membrances from Santa Claus were
passed around, it was a truly happy
occasion.
The soft candlelight, the smell of
pine, the warmth of the glowing fire
and the gaily lighted Christmas
tree combined to cast a magic spell.
And the aroma of roasting turkey green, and white felt. At the base
and freshly baked goodies added were fresh greens and white styro-
the finishing touch. foam balls. The dolls in their vari-
The fireplace is the focal point ous positions caused a great deal of
in our living room, and the deco- merriment for those little children,
ration I chose to hang on the The grownups' table was in the
wall last year dictated the color dining room, and here, again, a
scheme for our table decorations, bright color scheme was used. This
An old, worn violin was wired to table was more formal, but very
large sprays of deep green pine. At- festive by candlelight. I used a
tached to this were clusters of artifi- Bristol blue linen cloth which I
cial fruits. Tables were set up in trimmed in lime green fringe. The
this room for the teenagers, and the linen napkins were alternating blue
tables were covered in cloths made and green. Tall blue tapers were
from inexpensive drip-dry cotton used in the silver candelabra and
in the bright colors of the fruits and glass hurricanes. Clusters of balls
greens. Centering each table were in assorted sizes, in blue, green, and
wicker sleds, sprayed with gold silver completed the centerpiece,
paint, trimmed with leftover bits of These were decorations that
felt and velvet. Gold braid and anyone could put together; but it
paper decorations were glued on, was the use of many bright colors
and tiny bunches of fruit attached which were, nevertheless, compli-
to both sides. These were filled with mentary to each other, against the
wrapped, homemade caramels. For simple beige background of my
place card holders, I sprayed pine home, that made them warm and
cones gold, and tucked a tiny bunch appealing,
of fruit in each one. The candy filled sleds were given
In our television room, we set up to each family as favors, and the
a larger table for the younger chil- children took home gaily wrapped
dren in the family. This was bright trinkets from Santa Claus. No
and gay, and especially interesting Christmas party would be complete
to them. Vivid red was used for without the singing of carols. And
the cloth, here, again in the cotton from the harmonies of the older
material. members to the precious voices of
At each place was a candy cane the little ones, it was a heart-warm-
with Santa Claus heads for the ing experience. We all had a prayer
boys' places, and litde girls' heads of thanksgiving in our hearts for
marking the girls' places. In the our bounteous blessings, and I be-
center of the table was a white lieve each one went to bed that
candolier with white candles. Hang- night feeling that the real spirit of
ing from the branches of the cando- Christmas — gratitude for our
lier, in amusing positions, were Savior and love, one for another —
wired pixie dolls, dressed in red, was truly felt by all.
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Th ARLY in the new year. Mother hand, use the drill to bore a hole
begins to plan and work on her di rough the shell. Dip end of 21^
decorations and gifts for the Christ- inch piece of wire into the glue and
mas season. Her Christmas wreaths insert the same end into hole in nut.
are beautiful to behold, especially Set aside to dry. If you are adept
the ones which utilize the materials with a jigsaw, cut pine cones into
nature provides. two-inch sections. Otherwise, ask
If you wish to make a wreath of your husband or butcher to do this,
nuts and pine cones like the one as there is no place on the wreath
pictured here, these are the things for a sawed-off thumb. Using the
you will need: drill again, bore hole in back of pine
A styrofoam circle, which can be cone, insert wire dipped in glue,
purchased at your florist or display and dry. Only the roses, or tops of
house, or a substitute circle made of the pine cones, were used in the pic-
chicken wire stuffed with moss. tured wreath, but the other sections
Green plastic ribbon to wrap the may be used,
circle or green or brown paint to Now you are ready to form your
spray it. wreath. Using your imagination,
Handiwork for Christmas
Adele Williams Worsley
Designs and Arrangements
by Florence C. Williams
Any hard-shelled nuts, such as push the nuts and pine cones into
walnuts, pecans> hazelnuts, Brazil the styrofoam circle, placing them
nuts, acorns, horse chestnuts. as close together as possible in order
Large and small hard pine cones, to conceal the basic circle. When
An electric drill set in a vise, with you have covered the front of the
a small finishing nail inserted in- wreath completely, stick a heavy
stead of the drill. wire into the back for hanging. To
Stiff wire cut in 2V2 inch pieces. preserve your wreath for many
A jigsaw to cut through the pine years, spray it with clear plastic,
cones. which also gives it a lovely sheen.
Florist pins that look like this Make four or five loops of green
or stiff wire formed velvet ribbon, tie it, and insert it
in the same shape. P into die wreath with a florist pin. It
A commercial glue. is now ready to hang on your front
Three yards of 2V2 or SVi inch door, above your mande, or it can
moss green velvet ribbon. be used as a centerpiece for your
After your materials are assem- Christmas table. Mother hap-
bled, either wrap the circle wreath pened to have three handsome brass
with green plastic ribbon, or spray bells which she placed in the center
paint it to conceal the white color, of her wreath before hanging on the
Next, holding a nut firmly in one door knocker.
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Christmas Wreaths
The other wreaths pictured here
were made in the same manner.
However, in both these wreaths,
various kinds of artificial fruit
were used, as well as soft pine
cones (both natural and sprayed
gold) , and colored Christmas balls.
Around the edges of one, fresh hol-
ly was stuck into the wreath with
florist pins. The other one is fin-
Transparencies by Arthur Gritfin
Free Lance Photographers Guild, Inc.
ished with Euonymus leaves. Why
not try pine or cedar? As you walk
in the fields and canyons nearby,
open your eyes to the things around
you, such as dried seed pods and
weeds, and you can make your
wreath an original creation to en-
joy for many years.
CTARTING with the bag nestled cover the many attractive combina-
in the pine branch directly below tions you can assemble,
the candles this bag would make a The next bag (hanging below the
lovely gift to be used for evening candles), with the brightly colored
wear. Shop for an inexpensive flowers embroidered with a satin
cloth clutch bag, or if you have one stitch and buttonhole stitch, is truly
of which you have grown tired, a work of art. Mother bought an
reline and recover it yourself. The ordinary tapestry bag for $5 and
one pictured here is black silk. In began working on it several months
her ribbon box, Mother found ago. She would pick it up in the
quarter-inch velvet ribbon in shades evening while watching television,
of purple, green, and fuchsia, and or carry it to a party. While sitting
one-inch black brocade ribbon em- and chatting, she would take out
broidered \vith small field flowers, her needle and embroider a flower
Using pins, and starting about IV2 or even a leaf. What an heirloom
this will be.
The first basket on the rim of the
sofa (at the left) has been fun to
use at Christmas, for her grandchil-
dren know "Nanny" has a surprise
for them when she goes to visit with
it on her arm. It is a roomy, wicker
inches in from the side of the purse, basket with two jolly stuffed holi-
she applied five rows of the vari- day figures sewed on, plus a row of
colored velvet ribbon, tucking the gay red braid to trim the bottom,
ends under the band at the top. and For a gardening friend, the next
going completely around the bag. basket (center) makes an appealing
Next, she glued the velvet ribbon gift. Made of shiny reed, it is filled
in place. Tlie brocade ribbon came widi seed pods of the Oriental pop-
next, then three more rows of the py. To make this, cut a piece of
velvet ribbon, a repeat of brocade, florists' oasis, or any other porous
another set of velvet, one more row material to fit the shape of the bas-
of brocade, and last, the five rows ket. Leaving various length stems
of velvet ribbon. If there is not a on the dried pods, push them into
band at the top of the bag to hide the oasis until the desired arrange-
the edges, a piece of fine round ment is achieved. A bright yellow
braid may be glued on to cover the bird perched atop the handle adds
ends of the ribbons. Rummage a note of spring,
through your ribbon box and dis- The circus basket (at the right)
Baskets and Bags
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would be fun for someone planning is covered with peasants made of
a resort vacation. Spray a basket yarn, giving it an old-world look,
white, cut out circus animals of Speaking of evening, what could
brightly colored felt, and glue them be lovelier for your own daughter
to the purse. Each animal could be than her first party bag done in
decorated with discarded pieces of strips of baby blue velvet and soft
jewelry. To complete the illusion, blue and gold brocade ribbon, such
add strips of gold braid to resemble as the one in the picture (on sofa
the bars of a cage. at left) .
The three small bags resting on And now, why not a Christmas
the back of the sofa are made in shopping bag for you? The large
the same manner as the first bag de- black felt one in the center will put
scribed. They were bought for $1 you in a holiday mood, with its
each in the basement of a depart- Christmas carolers and tree cut out
ment store. The red and white bags of felt and appliqued with glue,
at the ends are especially treasured Mother made the large red sewing
by the young girls in our family, basket (on sofa at right) for me
for the figured Tyrolean braids several years ago, and I must say it
decorating, the bags look well with always seems to be full. Find a
both school clothes and afternoon durable basket, spray it bright red,
ski outfits. The braid and ribbon and line it with red and white
on these three bags cover the entire checked gingham with an attractive
purse. Plastic bags could not be edging of scalloped blue felt in-
used as the glue will not hold. serted. Shape the lining to the
One of the two burlap bags is sewing basket and sew it on by
lined with red, the other with orange hand. A heart-shaped gingham
broadcloth, with zippers inserted pocket, trimmed in the same scal-
into the lining of each for a money loped felt, is attached to the lining,
purse. Mother trimmed the inside Red felt geraniums, with green
of the handles and finished the top leaves, are cut with pinking shears,
of the lining with two-inch Swiss and sewed to the handle and rim
braid. The strips of burlap are of the basket. A 11^ yard long tube
sewed together with a zigzag stitch, of green felt is tied in a bow on the
To decorate the bag at the left handle. From the ends protrude a
Mother embroidered large pompons bright red darning egg and pin
of colored yarn. The other burlap cushion. Glued to the edge of the
bag (at the right) has just returned basket is a tiny farmer sitting in his
from a jaunt to Europe, where it wagon, looking to see if his clothes
must have felt right at home, as it have been mended.
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/^HRISTMAS will be more festive use a full row of pine roses to start
^ in our house this year because the tree. Next, place the nuts on
of the pine cone and nut tree which the tree in groups of three, adding
Mother made for us. We will place pine cones here and there, until you
it on a Chinese red lacquered com- reach the top. To finish, place a
pote which is centered in a wreath pine cone rose on the top.
also made of nuts and pine cones,
and use it on a low round table in
the living room. Around the tree
will be branches of freshly cut pine
which have been fireproofed so we
can tuck bright red candles here
and there. What a warm and frag-
rant spot to gather for our stories
and music on Christmas Eve.
Gala Holiday Tree
If you have studied the directions
for making the nut wreath, it will
be easy to make a tree for your
home. From your florist or display
house, obtain a styrofoam cone.
These cones come in various sizes,
and should be sprayed either green
or brown, or wrapped with green
plastic ribbon. If necessary, you
can make a cone of chicken wire
and moss, being careful to keep a
true cone shape. Prepare the nuts
and pine cones in the same manner
as for a wreath, and push them into
the styrofoam cone, beginning at
the bottom. It is more attractive to
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When making any of her Christ-
mas decorations. Mother accom-
plishes much more by drilling, glu-
ing, or assembling whenever she has
ten or fifteen minutes to spare, rath-
er than trying to finish the product
at one sitting. The tree can be an
exciting family project and one that
boys as well as girls will enjoy.
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Easy Christmas Cookies
Myrtle E. Henderson
Courtesy American Dairy Association
Sugar Cookies
(Key recipe)
Mix thoroughly:
% c. soft shortening (part butter) Sift together and stir in:
1 c. sugar zYz c. sifted flour
2 eggs 1 tsp. baking powder
1 tsp. flavoring (I like Yi tsp. lemon i tsp. salt
and Yz tsp. vanilla)
This will make a soft dough. Chill at least i hr. Roll out Ys inch thick. Cut
into desired shapes. Sprinkle with sugar if desired. Place on ungreased baking sheet
and bake about 6 minutes at 400°.
Chocolate Pinwheels
Follow key recipe. Divide the dough into two equal parts. Into 1 part blend
2 squares unsweetened chocolate melted. Chill all the dough. Roll out white dough
to Ys inch thick. Roll out the chocolate dough to the same size and lay on top of the
white dough. Roll the double layer of dough gently to about Ys inch thick. Cut the edges
straight. Beginning at the wide side, roll up tightly to a roll about 2 inches in diameter
and 12 inches long. Chill. Cut in sHces Y2 inch thick. Bake 6 to 8 minutes at
400°
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Surprise Sugar Cookies
Use key recipe. Divide dough into two equal parts. Roll out one part and
sprinkle liberally with candied fruit mix. Cover with the rest of the dough rolled to
the same size (about 9" x 12"). Roll double layer gently and cut into desired shapes.
Bake 6 to 8 minutes at 400°.
Cinnamon-Pecan Bars
Use key recipe. Mix into the dough 1 c. finely chopped nuts. Roll out Vi inch
thick. Cut into oblongs i/4" x 3". Sprinkle with a mixture of 2 tbsp. sugar and 2
tsp. cinnamon. Press Vi of pecan nut into each bar. Bake 5 or 6 minutes at 400°.
Filled Sugar Cookies
Use key recipe. After cutting out cookies put 1 tsp. raisin filling on Vi of the
cookies and cover them with the other half. Press down firmly with a fork.
Filling for Sugar Cookies:
1 c. ground raisins Vi c. water
4 tbsp. sugar 1 tbsp. flour
Mix raisins and sugar well, bring to a boil and thicken with flour mixed with
water.
Sugar Plum Cookies
3 Vi c. flour
1 tsp. salt
1 c. shortening (part butter)
1 pkg. active dry yeast
!4 c. warm water (not hot)
Mix flour, sugar, and salt and cut in the shortening. Dissolve the yeast in water.
Stir into flour mixture with sour cream, eggs, and flavoring. Mix well. If you desire
to make canes of red and white, and wreaths of green, divide the dough into two
equal parts, then divide one part again into equal parts. Into Vi of the dough put
about 1 tsp. red food coloring, and into the other half put 1 Vi tsp. green food coloring.
Cover all the dough with a damp cloth and chill 2 hours. Heat oven to 375°.
Roll red piece of dough on sugared board to oblong shape. (Keep the rest chilled.)
Sprinkle with sugar. Fold the two ends to the center, then sprinkle with sugar and
roll again to about Vs inch thick. Now take Vi the white dough and repeat the
process. Cut both the red and white dough into strips 4" x Vi" . Place the white
strips on top of the red and twist the ends in opposite directions and shape into canes.
Put on ungreascd baking sheet and bake 10 to 12 minutes. Repeat with the green
dough and form into wreaths. Decorate with pieces of maraschino cherries. The rest
of the white dough may be made into hearts, twisters, bells, or stars and decorated
with pieces of candied fruit mix or cake candies.
% c. commercial sour cream
2 eggs, well beaten
1 tbsp. flavoring
1 c. sugar
GRANDMOTHER'S CHRISTMAS COOKIES
Vi c. shortening
Vi c. brown sugar
/4 c. granulated sugar
1 egg
1 tsp. vanilla
2 c. flour
Vz tsp. salt
2 tsp. baking powder
Cream shortening and sugar. Add egg and beat well. Add vanilla. Add sifted
dry ingredients and shape into roll. Place in waxed paper and chill in refrigerator over-
night. Roll the dough out as for a cinnamon roll. Make a sauce of butter, sugar,
chopped fruit mix, and chopped Brazil nuts in amounts to suit taste. Spread on the
dough and roll up like a cinnamon roll. Slice Vz inch thick. Bake at 425° for 10
minutes.
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Cora E. Cook-Specialist in Household Handicraft
Mrs. Cora E. Cook, of Naples, Uintah County, Utah, is a speciahst in household
handicraft. Her designs and her craftsmanship are an inspiration to all the needle and
thread women who know her. Her rugs and quilts are beautiful, as well as useful. For
Christmas 1961, Mrs. Cook gave each of her thirty-three grandchildren a handmade
article. For these lovely and thoughtful gifts, she will always be remembered in the
homes of her posterity. Many friends and neighbors of Sister Cook have been made
happy with handiwork gifts. Mrs. Cook is partially paralyzed, but her handicap has
been overshadowed by the courage and enthusiasm Mrs. Cook displays for her many
hobbies, and for all her lifetime blessings.
Seagulls
Ida Isaacson
What a pavilion of air
Where gray gulls rise and soar at will,
And winging skyward mount a stair
Of ether, light, high, vast, and still.
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Out of the Wilderness
Chapter 6
Shirley Thulin
Synopsis: Marian Morgan, a widow and
mother of six children, has come to Mon-
tana to supervise assessment work on the
mining property owned by the family.
They encounter many difficulties, and they
mistrust Jake Hadley, the owner of a
neighboring mine, who has made protesta-
tions of friendship. While Marian and the
older boys are repairing the roof on the
cabin, three-year-old Jill wanders away and
becomes lost in the wilderness.
MARIAN and Jim hurried along
toward the road that led to
the Silver Bear mine to get
help. Jim's long, anxious strides
made it difficult for Marian to keep
up with him as they picked their
way over roots and rocks. Daylight
was slipping away, and Jill was out
there somewhere in the wilderness
alone, frightened. . . .
"Jim, there's not much time left,
is there?" Marian was talking more
to herself than to him.
''Hurry, Mother, just hurry." His
words were so sharp that Marian
knew something other than worry
was mixed with them.
''Jim, wait." As he turned, she
could see there was something be-
sides fright in his eyes, and there
were lines of pain around his mouth.
"Jim, what is it?"
"Nothing, let's just hurry."
"Oh, Jim, your wrist!" Marian
saw that he was holding his right
arm with his left hand. "Let me
see it, son."
"We haven't time. Every minute
counts.
"But. . . ." She could say no
more.
He strode out ahead of her and
thereby dismissed further conversa-
tion. They were almost running
now, but running where? Marian
knew that Jill could be clear over
the opposite mountain by now. But
even as she thought this, something
compelled her feet to move quickly
in the direction of the mine.
They hurried along in silence.
Then Marian turned around to see
where the sun was. It was setting on
a ridge between two towering peaks,
reluctant to go behind the moun-
tain. It seemed to know how much
its light meant to them.
"Jim, will the men at the Silver
Bear have something to light our
way? Torches, maybe, or. . . ?"
"They have carbide lamps. They
use them for light in the mines."
"Oh, yes, I remember the carbide
lamps. . . ."
"I didn't think to bring ours.
They're back in the shed. Come on,
Mother, please hurry."
They were coming to a clearing
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now, and even after so many years,
Marian recognized the wooden-
framed hole in the face of the moun-
tain. It was their mine, the ''Silver
Star/'
''Jim. . . ." Marian's feet were
heavy, her body weary. She leaned
against a tree and put her hand up
to her pounding chest.
"What's the matter?" he came
back to her, a mixture of anxiety and
annoyance in his face.
"I'm . . . I'm out of breath. I'll
have to rest a minute . . . just a min-
ute."
Jim wiped his forehead with the
back of his left arm, and Marian saw
the swelling in his right wrist as he
let go of it. She didn't say anything.
She knew they must find Jill. There
was no time for swollen wrists, or
for being tired. She straightened up
and tried to make her feet take her
where she knew they must. Jim
looked at the lowering sun, and then
at the path that now began its steep
climb over the hill to the other
mine.
"Mother, I think you had better
go back to the cabin. ... I can go
faster by myself."
"No, Jim. I can't."
"Then wait here. I'll go for the
men and when we come back, you'll
be rested."
"No! I've got to go with you."
"Mother, please. We are losing
too much time."
There was a new note in his voice.
It was a note that hung somewhere
between tolerance and anger. Mar-
ian knew he was right. She knew
she must not slow him down, but
how could she stay here alone? How
could she just sit here on a rock and
do nothing toward finding Jill? Final-
ly her words came. Slowly she told
him she would stay, but as he started
to run up the path, she called him,
called his name as though she were
grabbing a floating log in the sea of
bewilderment that swirled around
her. Even as her words formed his
name, she was sorry — ashamed. He
stopped and turned. She lifted her
hand and waved him on. He smiled
briefly and waved in silent acknowl-
edgment of what he must have
known she felt, then went swiftly on
his way, up the trail and out of sight
in the underbrush.
rj^OR a long time Marian watched
the place where he had vanished
from her view. Too heartsick to
think, too weary to move, she leaned
there against the tree. Then realiza-
tion began to take hold of her. She
should have told Jim she would go
back to the cabin. At least she
could do something worthwhile
there, get something for the other
children to eat and comfort them.
Here she could do nothing. It was
too late to go now. She had said she
would wait here. Why did she
always make such poor choices, she
wondered? Why did she seem to be
so short-sighted?
She looked around her. The last
flickers of sunlight struck the mine
entrance at an odd angle, and lighted
part of the way inside. The rail was
rusty from idleness, and partly cov-
ered with dirt. The old brown
boards that outlined the mouth of
the mine looked rotted as though a
push would send them crashing to
the ground.
Marian's gaze was about to move
on, when something caught her
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eye. Something peculiar about the mixed with green moss trickhng
ground where the dampness had set- down and running along, and black-
tied just outside the mine. ness beyond the small circle of their
''It can't be!" she said aloud. lamps.
Running to the spot which now "Jill! Oh, Jill, can you hear Mom-
revealed itself as truly the little girl's my?" Marian screamed into the
footprints in the wet earth, she knelt mine, not being able to control
down. There were many prints in her voice now, or the sobbing of it.
all directions, and she was sure they She took a few steps into the en-
were made by Jill. For a moment trance and called over and over, but
her thoughts came and went in never the slightest sound came in re-
almost hysterical unrealities. Then turn, only the odor of musty wood
fear gripped her anew. Jill's in the to annoy her nose, and the ominous
mine, she told herself. And though silence of the darkness within gave
she had been terrified when she first answer.
knew her baby was somewhere in Marian stepped back outside to
the woods, she was even more so do her thinking. She knew she had
now. The mine, to Marian, held to make a plan . . . something, any-
even worse danger than the trees and thing, but what? How long is Jim
underbrush. going to be? she wondered. I can't
From her honeymoon days she just stand here and wait. Jill must
remembered the mine. David had be lying in there hurt. . . . I've got
coaxed so hard to get her to put on to go in and find her, she thought,
a pair of his coveralls and the heavy but it's so dark ... the carbide
helmet with the light attached. lights. Jim said they were back in
''We won't go in very far," he had the shed. Quickly Marian started
told her. "Just let me tell you about towards the cabin to get a lamp,
the work I'm doing, and show you She had gone but a few feet, not
the streaks of ore." even out of the clearing, when she
Marian only gave in to him to heard the voices, men's voices, heavy
avoid making his fine brow wrinkle and loud echoing against the moun-
in disappointment. . . . "Only be- tains. She couldn't believe they had
cause I love you very much," she come so soon.
had told him. ''Jim, oh, Jim. . . ." She ran up
the path, and then, as the men came
"M'OW, as she knelt in the warm within her view, she stopped,
dirt, near the damp place, she stopped and stared in disbelief. It
recalled how, after a few feet of flat couldn't be . . . but it was. . . . Jim
ground with the rail and wooden was carrying Jill piggyback, and she
ties running along, there was a sud- was laughing and Jim was grinning,
den drop. David had led the way "Mom, look. Jill . . . safe and
down a rickety old board ladder, to sound."
still another few feet of flat ground "But she's . . . she's. . . ."
and then more ladders and every- "She wandered into our camp a
where old wood holding up the dirt little while ago," Jake explained,
ceilings and dirt walls, and water "She must have followed the road
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from our cabin/' said Jim. ''I met
them on the way. They were bring-
ing her home."
''Oh, Jill!" Marian took her from
Jim and hugged her closely. ''I found
her footprints. ... I thought she was
in the mine." And when they got
back to the mine, Marian showed
them the tiny prints on the ground.
''She had gone in, all right/' one of
the men said.
"It was dark in there/' Jill said.
"There are so many prints that
you couldn't see she came back out/'
Jake said.
"Oh, Jim, let's get back to the
cabin fast. The other children will
be so anxious."
"Let me carry her back," Jake
offered.
"We can, thanks, anyway. And
thanks to all of you for bringing her
back "
"That's all right, I'm glad she fol-
lowed that road," Jake said. "When
kids get lost in these mountains
they are hard to find. Dangerous
place for kids."
Marian studied Jake. Was he try-
ing to make polite conversation, or
to frighten her? The look in his
eves confused her.
"Mommy, Spotty ran away," Jill
said.
"Oh, he did, did he?" said Mar-
ian. She hugged the little girl very
close and said a silent ih^vik you.
"Poor little Spotty," said Jim. "I
hope he'l! be able to take care of
himself."
Then Jim looked in the direction
of the departing men, and Marian
knew he was wishing there was
something he could do about their
killing the deer.
IT was so good to get back to the
cabin that for a moment Marian
felt a warm glow all about her. She
felt as though she had come home.
Why, yes, she told herself, surprised,
the cabin really feels like home. It
must be because we are all together,
she thought.
Jill couldn't understand all the
hugs and kisses, and she mildly pro-
tested.
"I'm hungry," she finally an-
nounced, and that reminded the oth-
ers that they were, too.
"We were so worried that we for-
got we hadn't eaten," Sue said.
"Tell us how you found her, Jim,"
Jed coaxed.
"We thought you wouldn't find
her," Tommy said.
And while the children talked ex-
citedly, Jim made a fire and Marian
opened fruit and heated leftovers
and cut thick slices of her home-
made bread.
After the little ones were tucked
into bed, Marian heated some water
and helped Jim soak his painfully
swollen wrist.
"Jim." She didn't want to say the
words that she felt must be said.
"Jim, we'll have to go home now.
You can't do anything with your
wrist like this."
"No." There was a finality to his
voice that made Marian raise hers
a little.
"But we have to! You can't work
now, and there ate so many things
that need to be done . . . and I'm
frightened, Jim. If Jill or one of the
little boys should wander away, we
wouldn't find them next time. We
have to go back with Dick when he
comes Saturday. That gives us two
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925
days to get all the clothes ready and
packed."
She finished wrapping his arm,
then looked at him, sitting there,
his head slightly forward, his chin
firm.
'Til never let you sell out to
Jake," he said.
''We don't have to. Maybe some-
body else. . . ."
"No, Mother. That mine should
be mine."
"Let's not decide now."
Marian went into her bedroom,
with the unspoken words still hang-
ing between them.
For a long time she lay there in
the darkness. She knew she had
hurt Jim by giving up the fight, but
she knew it was the only thing they
could do.
"If only I had listened to Charles
in the first place," she said to her-
self, "if only "
"Mom." Jim's voice came to her
from the darkness of her doorway.
"You awake?"
"Yes, Jim."
"I'm not going home. If I have
to do it all alone with my one hand,
I'm not going home."
Marian felt the determination in
his voice there in the night. She also
felt the disappointment and the
hurt.
"Let's talk about it in the morn-
ing, son," she said.
But the morning was long in com-
ing. The night was full of a number
of little nightmares that blended in-
to one frightening one. She woke
up time and time again and went
over to make sure Jill was still there.
She heard time and time again the
hurt in Jim's voice, and felt the dis-
tasteful bitterness that was within
her. Just before the light came into
her window, she had made up her
mind what she had to do.
{To be continued)
Where Are the Nine?
Hazel Loomis
leaped and ran!
Ten lepers crying from afar —
Have mercy, Lord. Have mercy. Lord!
The Master answered with a word . . . with a word,
And they were cleansed that day.
Ten lepers exultant, leaped and ran .
One turned back — only one,
And he a loathed Samaritan
Who, falling at the Master's feet,
A well — an everflowing spring
Of thankful worshiping.
One leper — cleansed — prostrate at the Master's feet,
Waited for his Lord to speak
The sorrowing impassioned line:
You are but one, where are the nine?
LESSON DEPARTMENT
THEOLOGY • The Doctrine and Covenants
Lesson 46 — The Waters and The Land
Elder Roy W. Doxey
(Text: The Doctrine and Covenants, Section 61)
For First Meeting, March 1963
Objective: To learn that although one of the signs of the last days is destruction on
tl:^ waters, yet the Lord warns^^xixi-^fot-ects-the- f ai Lhf nt
ackPTOund W. W. Phelps. This is suggested in
S pointed out in the last lesson, the opening verses of Section 61,
the Prophet Joseph Smith and a where the Lord d'ecTares that their
A
party of elders left Independence
landing for St. Louis by canoe. In
the Prophet's own words, we read:
... in company with ten Elders, I
left Independence landing for Kirtland
... at Mcllwaine's Bend, Brother Phelps,
in open vision by daylight, saw the de-
stroyer in his most horrible power, ride
upon the face of the waters; others heard
the noise, but saw not the vision.
The next morning after prayer, I re-
ceived the following: [D.H.C. 1:202-203;
D & C, Section 61) ^
sins are.^rgiven. It continues to
make//Known the reason, for this
blessing, as follows:
... for I, the Lord forgive sins, and
an-\ merciful unto those who confess their
sins^with hurnble hearts (D & C 61:2).
Bear Record By Testimony
These elders were permitted to
travel upon the waters that they
might bear record of their experi-
ences. Some of the elders traveling
1^
/ - i ^ (p ^'1 by water needed to preach to the
It appears that the elders In thq-; ■ people on both sides of the river
party were greatly humbled becausei/; who were perishing, in unbehef.
of the dangerous water arid beOTisq ^(Jbid., 61:3-4.) fZc-'c^.
of the great noise and th^ h^ribll Vi\ What was there in this experi-
power ^f the adversary on^Jthe wat- '"ence about which they could bear
ers, as shown in vision to Brother t%imonyL OYregbajportant faet-^ar"^
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927
the existence of Satan, the^estroy^r.
His powers on the wate^^ were
Inewn to- these brethren. They
could also be thankful that the
Lord was all-powerful for the bene-
fit-olthe faithful. (Ibid., 61:5-6.)
n outstanding example of pro-
ction to the faithful is that of
elaman's two thousand sons. (Al-
ma 53:10-23; 56:41-57.) True faith
y in God will bring preservation to a
Vpeople. (Alma 44:4.)
President Wilford Woodruff, who
was appointed by President Brig-
ham Young to gather saints living
in New England and Canada, said:
... I did as he told me. It took me
two years to gather up everybody, and I
brought up the rear with a company.
When I got into Pittsburg with this
company it was dusk, and I saw a steamer
just preparing to go out. I walked right
up to the captain and asked him if he
was ready to go out. He said he was.
"How many passengers have you?" "Two
hundred and fifty." "Can you take an-
other hundred?" "I can." "Then," said
I, "I would like to go aboard with you."
The words were hardly out of my mouth
when the Holy Ghost said to me, "Don't
you nor your company go aboard that
steamer." That was enough; I had
learned the voice of the Spirit. I turned
and told the captain that I had made up
my mind not to go at present. That
steamer started out. It was a dark night,
and before the steamer had gone far she
took fire, and all on board was lost. We
should probably have shared the same
fate, had it not been for that monitor
within me {The Deseret Weekly, Vol. 53,
No. 21, Nov. 7, 1896, Nelson, P & Pub.
Spk. 436-44; cf. Discouises oi WiJfoid
The Lord Reasons
The Lord said' he wdjuld reason
with Jmese elders as he had done
with/men in days of old (D & C
61/13).
^A modern revelation showing
forth the reasoning of the Lord with
his servants is Section 50, verses 10
through 24. (Lesson 35, Relief So-
ciety Magazine, September 1961.)
"'""'"Why did the Lord give this reve-
lation; was it for these few elders
, only? It is apparent from the fol-
' lowing verses that the counsel con-
cerning the waters was for all saints
in the latter days:
Behold, I, the Lord, in the beginning
blessed the waters; but in the last days,
by the mouth of my servant John, I
cursed the waters.
Wherefore, the days will come that no
flesh shall be safe upon the waters.
And it shall be said in days to come
that none is able to go up to the land
of Zion upon the waters, but he that is
upright in heart (D & C 61:14-16).
In the beginning the Lord saw
that his creations were good. (Gen.
1 :io.) The waters were blessed for
the use of man. But in the last days
the waters are cursed. It was John
the Revelator who saw the judg-
ments of God poured out upon the
world in the last days. Among the
viaTs^ of wrath, the second angel
poured his vial upon the sea and
every living soul died in the sea..
With the release of the contents of
the vial upon the rivers carried by
the next angel, they became blood.
(Rev. 16:3-4.)
"As a part of the Plan conceived'
in the heavens before the world was
formed, men were to learn from the
prophets that judgments or calami-
ties would visit the earth if the laws
of God were not observed. Amos
announced the truth that the Lord
would do nothing but what he
would reveal it to his prophets first.
(Amos 3:7.) The Lord's object is
to save and not to destroy or curse.
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As pointed out in Proverbs, the
Lord's object is to bless, even in
chastisement (Proverbs 3:11-12.)
Waters Cursed
Attention is called to verse 5 of
Section 61 in^Avhich the brethren in
Joseph Smith's party were informed
that many destructions would occur
on the Missouri .and Mississippi
Rivers. It is virtually impossible to
give specific data regarding the de-
struction on these two rivers and
their tributaries since the time that
this revelatioii was given. That the
number of /lives lost has been great
and the property damage enormou^
is known. During his lifetime, the
Prophet Joseph Smith mentioned
great losses in lives and property
damage. (D & C^Gommentary, pp.
362-363.)
^^^^^^eslruc t ion&^.LIp£m~ th e W-etcrs —■"•--
Not only were the waters of the
Missouri and Mississippi cursed in
the last days, but also other waters.
(D &C 61:4-5.)
It states that the days would come
when no flesh would be safe upon
the waters except the upright in
heart. {Ibid., verses 15-16.) One
need only think of the great sea
disasters caused by striking iceburgs,
collisions, burnings, tossing on rocks
or other objects during peace times,
to bring forcefully to one's mind
destructions upon the waters. The
tremendous property damage and
loss of life during the last two
World Wars are staggering. (D Sl C
C(pnimentary, page 365.)
A Contrast and the Lords
Assurance
, /J, In the last days the waters are
\ ■^cursed. Nevertheless, there would
be traffic on the waters. The elders
for whom Section 61 was given
specifically, were to travel by water,
after a little while, or by land. Other
brethren were, however, to be
warned about the Missouri and
Mississippi River&C? 4
And now I give unto you a command-
ment that what I say unto one I say unto
all, that you shall forewarn your brethren
concerning these waters, that they come
not in journeying upon them, lest their
faith fail and they are caught in snares;
I, the Lord, have decreed, and the
destrover ridcth upon the face thereof,
and I revoke not the decree (D & C
61:18-19).
The Lord, however, gave assur-
ances to his saints that they would
not perish by the waters, although
the day would come that only the
upright in heart would come to Zion
Nevertheless, all flesh is in mine hand,
and he that is faithful among you shall
not perish by the waters. . . .
Wherefore, the days will come that no
flesh shall be safe upon the waters.
And it shall be said in days to come
that none is able to go up to the land of
Zion upon the waters, but he that is
upright in heart (Jbid., 61:6, 15-16).
Emigration to Zion in
Earlier Days
To come to Zion was the desire
of the saints almost as soon as the
gospel was preached in Great Brit-
ain, the first European mission to be
opened. This movement of the
members to assist in the building of
settlements and temples in selected
areas of the Western United States
was encouraged by providing funds
for the converts from the Emigra-
tion Fund.
LESSON DEPARTMENT
929
The success of this emigration
movement under the direction of
the General Authorities of the
Church is history. The pioneer
period was ended with the coming
of the railroad to Utah in 1869. In
this same year the emigrant voyages
by sailing vessels ceased, as the
steamship took the place of the
slower vessel. It would take from
five to six weeks by sailing vessel
from Europe. 'An interesting, no-
TaBTe description on one of these
Tpacket" ships was given by the
ted English author Charles Dick-
ens, who went on board the Mor-
mon emigrant ship to testify against
the saints but came off the ship
praising the character of them..
r. Uncommercial" in the fol-
ding is Charles Dickens:
Behold me on my way to an Emigrant
Ship, on a hot morning early in June. . . .
I go aboard my Emigjrant sliip . . .
But nobody is in an ill-temper, nobody is
the worseTor dniiT, nobody swears an
oath or uses a coirse word, nobodv appears
depressed, nobody^ is weeping, and down
upon the deck in every corner where it
is nossiblr +-0 find a few square feet to
kneel, crouch, or lie in, people in every
unsuitable attitude for writing, are writing
letters. ~
Now, I have been in emigrant ships
before this day in June. And these people
are so strikingly different from all other
people in like circumstances whom I have
ever seen, that I wonder aloud, "What
would a stranger suppose these emigrants
to be!"
The vigilant bright face of the weather-
browned captain of the Amazon is at my
shoulder, and he says, "What, indeed!
The most of these came aboard yesterday
evening. They came from various parts
of England in small parties that had never
seen one another before. Yet they had
not been a couple of hours on board,
when they established their own police^
made their own regulations, and set their
own watclies.at all the hatchways. Before
nine o'clock, the ship was as orderly and
aTquiet as a man-of-war! . . .
"A stranger would be puzzled to gu^s
the right name of these people, Mr. Un-
commercial," says the captain.
"Indeed he would."
"If you hadn't known, could you ever
have supposed — ?"
"How could I!" I should have said
they were in their degree the pick and
flower of England."
"So should I," says the captain.
"How many are they?"
''EightJiiindxedillJXiund numbers." . . .
EIGHT HUNDRED MORMONS.
I afterwards learned that a Dispatch
was sent home^by the captain before he
struck 15ut into the wide Atlantic, his^hly
extolling the behavior of these Emip;rants,
9^c\ the perfect order and propriety of
all their social arrangements. . . . But I
went on board their ship to bear testi-
mony against them if thev deserved it,
as I fullv believed they would; to my
great astonishment they did not deserve
it; and my predispositions and tendencies*
must not affect me as an honest witness.
I went_Qver the Amazon's side, feeling it
impossible to deny that, so far, some re-
markable influence had produced a re-
markable result, which better known in-
fl^enres have often missed (Dickens,
Charles: The Uncommercial TiaveUer,
pp. 200-21 O.
^in^ ''^^bUjLu/^
Thtsmmillu's maternal grandpar-
ents were among; the more than 800
saints described by Charles Dickens
on the vessel ''Amazon" that left
London, England, on June 4, 1863.
It is traditional in the family that
the ship was saved from destruction
by heavy storms through the prayers
of the ship's passengers.
Among the many accounts of this
kind, the following one concerning
Harrison Burgess, a missionary to
England in 1850, indicates fulfil-
ment of the Lord's promise that
they who traveled to Zion in the
lastdavs__vvouLd_npt_ perish by the
water:
Wc sailed along quite comfortililv
until the tvvent\-sixth of tin, month
(Januan-, 1850] when a terrible storm
aldose! ^out two o'cloek in tTic after-
noon the sea began to swell and show
its power, and the vessel lay first on one
side and then on the other. Water came in
upon us on both sides of our ship. We
lost our sails and yard-arms, and the
cTiains in the rigging on the ship broke.
In the e\ening, wlien e\er\'t]iing looked
most dismal, our president called togetlier
his counselors and all joined in prayer to
thr""t(5fd to cause the winds to cease.
Scarcely had the brethren censed their
supplications when' there was a calm, so
su^cri in fact that the captain and the
officers of the ship were greatly surprised,
and thcv came and inquired of us how it
was that we felt so happy and gay amid
tlT£ great danger through which wc had
just passed. Thej- could not realize that
the Lord remo\ed all fear from the hearts
of his faithful Saints when they were
endeavoring to do their dutj- (Labors in
tlTe Vineyard, Twelfth Book of the Faith-
Promoting Series, pp. -2-1,).
When the time comes for the
saints to gather to Zion, the Lord's
power will be manifest in their
behalf.
Land Blessed
In the beginning the land was
cursed (Gen. 3:17), but in the last
days it is blessed for the use of the
saints. (D & C 61:17.) The eom-
plcte fulfillment of this prophecv is
reserved for the millennium when
the earth will be rcnev\ed and re-
ceive its condition of terrestrializa-
tion and become as a beautiful
garden. Elder George A. Smith
made this observation concerning
the way the Lord blessed the land
of Utah for his saints:
Wtycame to this^Wd [Utah] because
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RELIEF SOCIETrMAGAHNE— DECEMBQ 1962
that no mortal upon earth ever would
co\et it; but, as Colonel Fremont reported,
that at the mouth of the Bear River, in
the early part of August, his thermom-
eter stood at 29 degrees Fahrenheit,
three degrees bcTmv the freezing-point,
which would kill grain, fruit, or vege-
tables, our enemies said, "You Mormons
may go there and welcome," chuckling
to each other over what seemed to them
our annihilation. . . . The newspapers
recorded the jo\-. and gratificalion felt" at'
the iiftci ciul of "Mormonism." . . .
Notwithstanding, however, the many
drawbacks and difficulties encountered in
the shape of~cIrought, crickets, grasshop-
pers, and the cold, sterile climate, the
Spirit of the J-ord was hovering over the
Great JBasinLa_ ;_i_3llii ihe- climate, became
genial and__soft .(D & C Commentary, 1
Prophetic L/freraricc ' ^ \
Verses24~th rough 29 of Section
ii give instructions concerning the /
'course the saints were to travel en
route to Zion. In the main they
' were to journey by land and not by
these waters, the Missouri and '
Mississippi Rivers. By the spirit of ,
revelation they were to be led as the
\ children of Israel were led anciently
yby Moses. (^ ^ C^Qomni^pfflry.
I
age ^)
I<j1.aA
Section 61 Concluded
The Lord counseled his servants
in their traveling to Cincinnati,
Ohio, and beginning in Cincinnati,
- to be diligent in testimony. (See
D & C 61:30-35.) In concluding
the revelation, encouragement is
given to these brethren by remind-
ing them that they are little chil-
dren who should be cheerful, for ■$/-'
the Lord is with them. He has not )^
forsaken them. (Ibid., verses 3 6- 3 7 J^*"". "9
Finally, there comes this admoni
tion, applicable to all saints
Vl V Gird up your loins and be watchful
and be sober, looking forth for the com-
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LESSON DEPARTMENT
ing of the Son of Man, for he cometh
in an hour you think not.
Pray always that you enter not into
temptation, that you may abide the day
of his coming, whether in life or in death.
Even so. Amen (/bid., verses 38-39).
Gird up your loins . . ." is a
common statement among Latter-
day Saints. It means "Be Prepared."
For what? The coming of the Lord.
What should be one means of
preparation? Praying that one will
have the strength and courage to
resist temptation. If so, the saints
will surely abide the day of Jesus'
coming, whether in death or in life.
Ouaikms for Discussion
1. What scriptural basis is there for
the fact that the waters arc cursed in the
last days?
2. How may the land be blessed in
the last days?
3. How docs the scripture "Gird up
your loins" apply to you?
VISITING TEACHER MESSAGES
Truths to Live By From the Doctrine and Covenants
Message 46 — "He Who Has Repented of His Sins, the Some Is Forgiven,
and I, the Lord, Remember Them No More" (D & C 58:42).
Chxisiine H. Robinson
For First Week, March 1963
Objective: To .show how greatly we are blessed through the divine principle of re-
pentance.
/^NE of the most gracious and
generous promises that comes
to us from our Father in heaven is
the divine blessing of repentance
coupled with forgiveness. It is a
,i,»*^ wonderfully encouraging and stimu-
lating conviction to know that if
we sincerely and genuinely repent
^ of our faults, errors, and sins they
will be forgiven by the great and
final Judge, our Father in heaven,
and "shall be as white as snow"
(Isa. 1:18).
Truly, this is a marvelous blessing
which comes to us from the good-
ness of God. As the apostle Paul
said, "the goodness of God leadeth
thee to repentance" (Romans 2:4).
If it were not for this "goodness,"
all of us would remain forever in
our sins and we would be unable to
move forward toward more useful,
purposeful, and effective lives.
What is the meaning of true
repentance? How does it lay the
foundation for progress and for
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more satisfying and useful lives?
The process of repentance has been
said to consist of the application of
the four ''R's/' These are, recog-
nition, remorse, resolve, and lestitu-
tion. Certainly, the first step in
true repentance consists in a genu-
ine recognition of our faults. After
recognizing our mistakes, the next
step follows naturally, we must be
sorry and regret them. Tlien comes
a genuine desire and resolve to elim-
inate them and, finally, to make full
and complete restitution. President
Joseph F. Smith expressed this
thought beautifully when he said:
. . . True repentance is not only sorrow
for sins, and humble penitence and con-
trition before God, but it involves the
necessity of turning away from them, a
discontinuance of all evil practices and
deeds, a thorough reformation of life, a
vital change from evil to good, from vice
to virtue, from darkness to light. Not only
so, but to make restitution, so far as is
possible, for all the wrongs we have done,
to pay our debts, and restore to God and
man their rights — that which is due to
them from us. This is true repentance,
and the exercise of the will and all the
powers of body and mind is demanded,
to complete this glorious work of repent-
ance; then God will accept it {Joiunal of
Discourses. Vol. 19, page 190).
According to an ancient account,
a man in a far eastern country
was caught stealing. As a part of
his punishment a large ''S" was
branded on his forehead. Applying
the great gift of repentance, this
man overcame his sin and lived a
life of virtue and service in his com-
munity. Some years later a stran-
ger asked one of his friends the
meaning of the "S" that had been
burned into this man's forehead.
The friend replied, "I don't really
know, but judging by his life, Fm
sure it must stand for 'Saint.' "
Every day we live there is room
for repentance. Every one of us
needs constantly to be cleansed by
this purifying principle, for we read,
". . . there is not a just man upon
earth, that doeth good, and sinneth
not" (Feci. 7:20). The apostle
John re-emphasized this truth when
he said, ''If we say that we have no
sin, we deceive ourselves, and the
truth is not in us" (i John 1:8).
Probably one of the greatest dif-
ficulties we encounter in repenting
lies in the rationalization of our so-
called "little sins." Most of us have
consciences that are sufficiently
sharp to bring us remorse when we
make big mistakes. Our "little"
sins, however, such as jealousy, mal-
ice, gossip, and similar weaknesses
are easy to rationalize, cover up, and
forget. If we truly are going to re-
pent, we should follow the admoni-
tion of the ancient apostles when
they said to lay aside "all malice,
and all guile, and hypocrisies, and
envies, and all evil speakings" (I
Peter 2:1) and "Put on therefore
. . . kindness, humbleness of mind,
meekness, longsuffering; forbearing
one another, and forgiving one
another" (Col. 3:12-13).
Repentance has a purifying power
because associated with it and as a i
fundamental part of it, is the glori-
ous principle of forgiveness. As the
Lord has promised in The Doctrine
and Covenants, "he who has repent-
ed of his sins, the same is forgiven,
and I, the Lord, remember them no
more" (D & C 58:42). Milton has
said that forgiveness and repentance
are "the golden keys that open the
palace of eternity."
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Daily: Sweep linoleum and tile care-
fully. Wipe up spots. Use roller-broom
on rugs and carpets or, if there is much
traffic, use vacuum cleaner. Clean spots.
Weekly or when necessary: Damp mop
linoleum or tile using light suds or clear
water. Vacuum rugs and carpets.
Monthly or oftener: Use self-polishing
wax on linoleum and tile after damp mop.
Annually: Use absorbent rug cleaning
powder on rugs, and vacuum, or hire a
professional rug cleaner. Tips on using
vacuum: count to six slowly as you push
vacuum slowly forward and count to six
slowly as you bring vacuum back. The
machine will do the best work if given
time to draw in dirt. Clean vacuum
brushes after each use.
Tell Show — How to Clean
Upholstered Furniture
Daily: Remove spots. Sugar spots can
be removed with clear water. Crease
spots can be removed with a commercial
cleaner. (Test anything you do on an
inconspicuous place before doing com-
plete job.) In cleaning spots, work from
outside of spot toward center.
Weekly Use vacuum upholstery attach-
ment or brush and dust thoroughly. If
cushions are made of down, do not
vacuum, but fluff up and air in the sun.
Turn reversible cushions.
Annually: Dry scrub. Put Vs cup of
pure white soap flakes and I tablespoon
of ammonia into 2 cups of boiling water
and let cool. Then beat vigorously with
rotary egg beater until the bowl is filled
with suds. With a soft brush, use some
suds and work over an eight-inch square
of fabric. With a soft cloth wrung light-
ly out of clean warm water, wipe off suds
and if the fabric has a pile, smooth fabric
in the direction of the pile. Continue
until all the fabric has been cleaned. Try
to prevent the fabric from absorbing much
moisture. Dry for twenty-four hours be-
fore using. There are good commercial
cleaners on the market, if you do not
wish to make your own.
Tell Show — How to Clean Metals
Metals are the magic elements
that give sparkle to a home. If
they are not clean and bright, they
should be hidden from sight, for
there isn't anything which so quick-
ly gives the status of the managerial
ability of a homemaker as the con-
dition of her metals.
Daily: Wash pots and pans in sudsy
water and keep aluminum bright by
using a stainless steel wool soap pad.
Clean copper with hot vinegar and salt.
Wipe enamel surfaces of range and re-
frigerator; wipe and shine chromium.
Weekly: Remove tarnish from tips of
silver forks and spoons by dipping them
into an old aluminum pan which con-
tains 2 cups of boiling water, Yz teaspoon
salt, and Yz teaspoon soda. Commercial
polish takes more time, but it is recom-
mended for more thorough all-over pol-
ishing. Use a treated silver polishing
cloth to shine ornamental pieces. Polish
brass by using commercial polish; let dry,
rub with a soft cloth, and finish with a
chamois. Lacquered brass needs only a
dusting and occasional washing. Clean
all parts of your range. Ammonia in the
water helps. Put aluminum foil under
electric burners to catch the drip and
replace as needed.
Ways to Make Cleaning Easy
1. Get your daily exercise as you
make the best use of your body.
Use your leg muscles instead of
back muscles when bending and
when lifting objects. Imagine that
you have a third leg to sit on as you
bend your knees; keep your back
straight.
2. Save energy for time with your
family. It takes six times as much
energy to go upstairs as it takes to
walk the same distance on the level;
plan your trips up and down; have
duplicate cleaning materials where
needed. It takes three times as
much energy to stand as to sit; try
ironing sitting down and do as many
jobs as possible while seated.
3. Use the best tools and cleaning
agents for the job. Try long han-
dled mops and brushes for floors,
walls, and bathtubs; cellulose spong-
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es for wipe-up jobs; carts on wheels
for moving equipment and supplies;
vacuum attachments for brushing
walls and dusting furniture and
draperies; commercial products,
such as disposable dusting paper,
self-polishing wax, and cleaning
agents that require no rinsing.
4. Plan your cleaning jobs and
arrange a work schedule. Spread
out the hardest jobs to avoid peaks
of overwork.
5. Prevent dirt from collecting.
Keep walks and porches clean. Have
storage space near entrance for
boots and rubbers. Close off rooms
not in use.
6. Learn something new every
day about your profession as a
homemaker, and be ready to change
your methods if you find a better
way. New acquisitions that en-
hance and enlarge your understand-
ing of the world and its peoples will
have deeper meaning, if you know
how to care for them and if you
make them a meaningful part of
your family life.
Questions for Discussion
1. Give some pointers about cleaning
windows, mirrors, and glass dishes and
stem ware.
2. Relate some historical event in con-
nection with family china, silver, or fur-
nishings.
LITERATURE • America's Literature
The New Birth of Freedom
Lesson 38 - Herman Melville (1819-1891)
Elder Biiant S. Jacobs
(Textbook: America's Literature by James D. Hart and Clarence Gohdes
Dryden Press, New York, pp. 512-537)
For Third Meeting, March 1963
Objective: To become acquainted with Melville as man and as American that we may
better understand the close relationship between his life and his writings.
TJERMAN Melville, born in She was proud of her patriot an-
1819 in New York City, was cestors. Her parents were con-
reared there and in Albany, New scientious members of the Dutch
York. His mother was Maria Gan- Reformed Church. She inherited
sevoort — New York City Dutch, their piety and was strict in her re-
saturated with centuries of tradition, ligious observances all her life. This
regal and stern in money and pride, religious orthodoxy left an impres-
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sion upon young Herman though
he later turned away from it. Her-
man worshipped his father, Allan
Melville, who loved travel and was
a merchant in elegant imports and
fineries. During a business depres-
sion he became bankrupt before
Herman was in his teens. Bravely
he tried to provide for his family
but he died from overwork and
worry in 1832 leaving his responsi-
bilities to his widow and eight chil-
dren. The shock of being the be-
holden poor relatives in complete
contrast to their former security
stunned young Herman who was
forced to leave school for office
jobs, boarding about as a rural
schoolteacher and finally, at eight-
een, shipping as a cabin boy aboard
a merchant vessel bound for Liver-
pool in 1837.
This incident, sometimes thought
of as an escape from hardship, was
more romantic than real. Actually
his mood was understood, and his
departure planned by his widowed
mother and his envious but helpful
brothers who went down to New
York to make the necessary arrange-
ments.
The cowardice and inhumanity
of the wealthy cabin passengers
aboard the vessel outraged his
sense of fairness and human broth-
erhood. On his arrival in Liverpool,
still resentful and confused at the
disturbing change in his fortunes,
he attempted to guide himself
through the city by the map his
father had used thirty years earlier,
but learned after wandering through
''the black spot on the river Mer-
sey" with its abject poverty and de-
graded misery that ''the thing that
had guided the father could not
guide the son." Thus young Mel-
HERMAN MELVILLE
From a Painting by Goff Dowding
Reproduced by Permission of
Wheelwright Lithographing Company
ville, in his untried innocence, fell
from the security of family pride
into a violent awareness of the evils
of his time which became an even
stronger reality, one of the great
themes of American literature. Fol-
lowing his return home he taught
school at intervals in New York.
This he disliked; it did not prove
congenial with the things he really
wanted to do.
Pioneer oi the Exotic Mystic
Pacific
The spirit of westeining, which
has been the germinal force of our
American greatness and character,
applied to western waters as well as
to western lands. The Sandwich
(now the Hawaiian) Islands were
discovered by Captain Cook in
1778 during the American Revolu-
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ion; in 1788 the first British settle-
ment, a penal colony, was estab-
lished where Sydney, Australia, now
stands. Some sixty years later Mel-
ville discovered the vast Pacific for
literature when, on January 3, 1841,
he shipped at New Bedford, Massa-
chusetts, aboard the whaling ship
Acushnet for the South Seas. He
was twenty-three, one of 18,000
Americans seeking whales on 735
American vessels out of 900 whal-
ers then afloat on the oceans of
the world. Whaling was one of the
vigorous young Nation's major in-
dustries, adventurous, lonely, rough,
dangerous, but immensely profitable
to the crews and ship-owners whose
vessels returned, every barrel filled
with precious spermaceti oil from
which the best candles were made.
But crew mortality was high. Com-
posed of ''the bottom-dogs of all
nations and races, one-half were
green hands such as Melville, and
more than two-thirds deserted every
voyage."
If the vast west, stretching end-
lessly to the Pacific was huge, the
Pacific which bordered these un-
spoiled, empty, wealthy lands was
ten times more so. Optimism, ex-
pansion, desire for space, free lands
and oceans, dominated young Mel-
ville as they did his countrymen.
The pioneering credo known as
Manifest Destiny surged strong in
the impassioned young writer:
God has predestinated, mankind expects,
great things from our race; and great
things we feel in our souls. The rest of
the nations must soon be in our rear.
We are the pioneers of the world; the
advance-guard, sent on through the wil-
derness of untried things, to break a new
path in the New World that is ours. In
our youth is our strength; in our inex-
perience, our wisdom. At a period when
other nations have but lisped, our deep
voice is heard afar. . . . And let us always
remember that with ourselves, almost for
the first time in the history of earth,
national selfishness is unbounded phi-
lanthropy; for we cannot do a good to
America but we give alms to the world.
The Acushnet was better than
most ships, but when its luck
changed for the worse Melville be-
gan to find conditions intolerable.
Accordingly, he and one of his ship-
mates, 'Toby" Green, deserted in
a harbor of the Marquesas Islands
on July 9, 1842. They sought ref-
uge among the natives who were
reputed to be ferocious cannibals.
Although they held Herman a pris-
oner after "Toby" escaped, they
were friendly and free from the eco-
nomic worries of civilization. On
August 9, an Australian whaler
rescued him. Conditions on the
new ship turned out to be even
worse than on the Acushnet. When
it put in at the harbor of Tahiti,
Melville again escaped to a neighbor-
ing island. After two weeks' wander-
ing about the island, he was picked
up by a Nantucket whaler and taken
to the Hawaiian Islands, May 2,
1843. Weary and homesick, he
enlisted in the United States Navy
for a voyage home on the frigate,
United States. The voyage lasted
for fourteen months. While it gave
him a strong distaste for the flog-
gings so often used in maintaining
naval discipline, the ship provided
him with a number of interesting
companions with whom he cor-
responded and whom he never for-
got. The crew arrived in Boston and
was discharged on October 14, 1844.
Early Novels
In retrospect, Melville dated the
beginning of his life from 1844, his
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twenty-fifth year, when his seven These early novels brought him
years of intermittent sea-voyaging popularity, fame, and money, but no
ended. Early in 1846 Typee, his lasting self-esteem. In his own
first novel telling of his four-month scornful phrase he feared being
stay among the friendly, happy can- remembered only as 'The author
nibals of the Marquesas Islands in of Typee and Piddledee' ; instead,
the South Pacific, made him famous he yearned to write so ''true" a nov-
over night. This was followed in el that it would not make money.
1847 by Omoo. The simple charms Moby-DicJc, published in 1851, ful-
of Polynesian life detailed in Typee filled that dream — perhaps all too
and Omoo created for Melville a abundantly.
wide audience. But Melville could Other novels written and pub-
not escape from seeing that the lished after Moby-Dick are: Pierre
white man's entry into the great (1852), a study of good and evil;
Oceania brought to the hitherto Israel Potter (1855; Piazza Tales
peaceful islanders ruthless and vio- (1856), which include "Benito
lent pillaging, smallpox and social Cereno," perhaps Melvilles best
diseases, conflicts and frustrations short story; The Confidence Man
withm the natives' social, cultural, (1857); Billy Budd (1924), a sea-
and religious lives, and he did not faring novel published after Mel-
permit his readers to escape seeing yille's death and considered second
these results. to his masterpiece Moby-Dick.
Mardf, published in March 1849,
is also based on his South Pacific The Domesticated Author
experiences but in it Melville In 1844 Melville's distinguished
changes his style to allegory and family was delighted to have the
satire. Redburn, based on his voy- bronzed young sailor safely home,
age to Liverpool and published in and even more delighted with the
September 1849, opposes the evils exciting tales which he reeled off to
of the Liverpool slums and expres- them with animation and power,
ses concern over the horrible condi- But after only two years at home,
tions in the immigrant's black hole with the successes of Typee and
below deck compared with the sel- Omoo now behind him, he had
fish comforts of the cabin passen- to borrow money to rent a large
gers. In White Jacket, published in house in New York City in prepara-
1850, he voices his hatred of mili- tion for his marriage, August 4,
tary medicine and surgical practices, 1847, to Elizabeth Shaw, daughter
constant severe floggings, and of Chief Justice Lemuel Shaw of
tyrannical military authoritarianism Boston, perhaps the closest friend
which he witnessed as a common Herman Melville had ever had. But
seaman while aboard the United from the beginning of his married
States. As long as such abuses were life Melville's family circle included
allowed to exist Melville felt our his mother, his four unmarried sis-
Declaration of Independence with ters, and his brother and his bride,
its guarantees of "life, liberty, and all for whom Melville felt full love
the pursuit of happiness" was a and responsibility. Realizing how
mockery. large his "family" was, it is not
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surprising to find Herman applying
for a government position. Soon
his first of four children was born.
He went to England to insure best
possible publishing arrangements for
his books, then removed his family
to ''Arrowhead," a large farm just
outside Pittsfield, Massachusetts,
not far from Hawthorne, who be-
came his confidant and literary
stimulant. It was here that he
wrote Moby-Dick and lived for
thirteen years. Following the sar-
castic and hostile reception accord-
ed Mohy-Dick, Melville's health be-
ban to fail. In 1857 he sailed for
the Holy Land and Europe, return-
ing five months later restored in
health and spirits. Unsuccessful in
his attempts to gain consulships,
Melville tried lecturing, but by i860
he felt he was a failure in this as
in all else. In 1863 he moved once
more to New York City where he
worked as a customs inspector for
almost twenty years, and where he
lived in retirement until his death
in 1891.
Melville's Poetry
During the last thirty-five years
of his life Melville wrote little ex-
cept poetry. His earliest printed
poetry as we know it appeared in
his third novel Mardi. Although
we have no evidence of earlier po-
etic writing, we may reasonably
assume that he had written verses
before the ones printed in Mardi.
Melville's wife wrote her moth-
er in 1859: "Herman has taken to
writing poetry. You need not tell
anyone, for you know how such
things get around." Whatever
meaning she intended to convey by
this remark, it is fact that Mrs. Mel-
ville assumed the responsibility of
seeing through the press the volume
he had prepared. Melville wished
to have his poems published but
feared the reaction of his readers.
''The publication of a first volume
. . . though a matter of no moment
to the world ... is still of some
concern to the author," he wrote.
Indeed, it was of such sensitive
concern to Melville that he evaded
the task of finding a publisher by
taking passage for San Francisco on
his brother's ship, the Meteor. Mrs.
Melville, however, sought the help
and opinion of Evart Duyckinck,
the well-known editor of the Liter-
ary World. His efforts were unsuc-
cessful in securing a publisher, al-
though he spoke favorably of the
poems. This caused Mrs. Melville
to write Mr. Duyckinck that she did
not consider rejection by the pub-
lishers a true test of the merits of
the writing. "I think infinitely
more of your opinion of it, and feel
some confidence in its worth, since
it has been such a profound secret
between Herman and myself for so
long that I rejoice to have my own
prejudice in its favor confirmed by
someone in whose appreciation we
can feel confidence." The loyalty
and faith expressed in this letter are
but one evidence of the devotion
and encouragement which Eliza-
beth Shaw Melville gave to her hus-
band during their lifetime together.
The poems never appeared as
planned. If he was sadly disap-
pointed by the failure of his book
to find a publisher, he tried to con-
ceal it in the half jocular way in
which he wrote his brother Tom,
May 25, 1862, that a trunkmaker
had taken the whole lot of it off
his hands at ten cents a pound. He
suggested if Tom were not "such a
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RELIEF SOCIETY MAGAZINE— DECEMBER 1962
devil of a ways off" he would send
him a trunk lined with the stanzas
as a presentation copy. He frequent-
ly referred to his poems in this
depreciatory manner.
When the Civil War began in
1861, Melville volunteered his serv-
ices but he was rejected, even while
his cousins of similar age were ac-
cepted and advanced in their mili-
tary careers. However, the war
moved him to affirmative action
such as he had not known since
Moby-Dick. In 1866 he published
Battle Pieces, a collection of his
poems prefaced by his fervent plea
for a reconstruction policy of ''do-
ing as we would be done by," and
of allowing no consideration to
''tempt us to pervert the national
victory into oppression for the van-
quished." The pity and terror and
irony of war he caught in such mem-
orable examples as are found in our
text, "The Portent" (page 536),
"Misgivings" (page 536), "Shiloh"
(page 537), and "The House-Top"
(page 537)-
Clarel, A Poem and Pilgnmage in
the Holy Land, was written shortly
after he took up his duties as Cus-
toms Inspector for the Port of New
York (1865). It was inspired by his
own trip to the Holy Land and was
written under extreme difficulties,
with nerve-shattering labor. Only
with the selfless devotion of Eliza-
beth to sustain his spirits was he
able to give it shape. It remained
unpublished until 1876 when,
through the generosity of his Uncle
Peter Gansevoort, it was given to
the public. It was completely
ignored by his readers. A long,
two-volume poem, it hopelessly be-
wilders the casual reader. It begins
as a story of Clarel, a theological
student, who becomes engaged to a
young Jewess, Ruth. Following her
father's death, he is forbidden by
Jewish custom to see her so he
leaves on a pilgrimage to the Dead
Sea and Bethlehem. From here
the story fades away into a descrip-
tion of places and a record of con-
versations on science, faith, and
problems of the modern age. When
the story finally reappears with the
sudden discovery of Ruth's death,
the emotion it might have aroused
in us is lost for we have forgotten
her. And yet, students of Melville
seem to ponder over this work long-
er than any other, for it is the key
to his thought in his later years.
Here "he has it out with himself,"
coming at last to a fixed place
where "he can stand for the rest of
his days." We are rewarded, how-
ever, when we come to the Epilogue
which concludes on a triumphant
note:
Then keep thy heart, though yet but ill-
resigned —
Clarel, thy heart, the issues there but
mind;
That like the crocus budding through the
snow —
That like a swimmer rising from the
deep —
That like a burning secret which doth go
Even from the bosom that would hoard
and keep;
Emerge thou mayst from the last whelm-
ing sea,
And prove that death but routs life into
victory.
In the last six years of his life
Melville produced two other vol-
umes of poetry, John Man and
Other SaiJors (1888) and TimoJeon
(1891).
Until he found himself anew in
Billy Budd, written during the three
years immediately preceding his
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death, Melville found his greatest
creative release in poetry. Often
uneven in quality, patched, and
rough, nevertheless some of his
works, such as ''Art," and ''Maldive
Shark" achieve their own power to
a degree not unworthy of Melville.
ART
In placid hours well-pleased we dream
Of many a brave unbodied scheme.
But form to lend, pulsed life create,
What unlike things must meet and mate;
A flame to melt — a wind to freeze;
Sad patience — joyous energies;
Humility — yet pride and scorn;
Instinct and study; love and hate;
Audacity — reverence. These must mate
And fuse with Jacob's mystic heart.
To wrestle with the angel — Art.
Like his friend Hawthorne, Mel-
ville knew full well the duality of
life. To them the great challenge
lay in condensing and unifying
seeming opposites into one blending
truth. While Melville did not
always succeed in his poetic endeav-
ors, the art which is the unexplic-
able secret of his prose is at once
evident.
It is necessary that we know Mel-
ville, the man, completely alive in
the searing cross-currents of his
time, that we might have back-
ground for a reading of Mohy-Dick,
which among other major forces is
one of the greatest treatments of
mortal pride and evil ever written.
A simple, subtle statement of the
relation of obvious brute evil to
concealed, intellectual evil is found
in
THE MALDIVE SHARK
About the shark, phlegmatical one,
Pale sot of the Maldive sea.
The sleek little pilot-fish, azure and slim.
How alert in attendance be.
From his saw-pit of mouth, from his
charnel of maw
They have nothing of harm to dread.
But liquidly glide on his ghastly flank
Or before his Gorgonian head;
Or lurk in the port of serrated teeth
In white triple tiers of glittering gates,
And there find a heaven when peril's
abroad,
An asylum in jaws of the Fates.
They are friends; and friendly they guide
him to prey.
Yet never partake of the treat —
Eyes and brains to the dotard lethargic
and dull.
Pale ravener of horrible meat.
Thoughts foT Discussion
1. Enumerate some of the experiences
of Melville's early life which influenced
his writings.
2. In the poem excerpts included in
this lesson do you think clarity of expres-
sion was the most important character-
istic?
3. What did Elizabeth Melville con-
tribute to Melville's success as a writer?
Note: Clare] is a two-volume narra-
tive poem. Class leaders are not expected
to read this poem in order to present the
lesson.
SOCIAL SCIENCE • Divine Law and Church Government
The Foundation of Church Government
Lesson 5 — Application of the Law in the Dispensations of Man
Elder Ariel S. Ballif
For Fourth Meeting, March 1963
Objective: To help reahze that divine law has operated from the beginning of time.
Hear, O ye heavens, and give ear, O earth, and rejoice ye inhabitants thereof, for
the Lord is God, and beside him there is no Savior. Great is his wisdom, marvelous are
his ways, and the extent of his doings none can find out. His purposes fail not, neither
are there any who can stay his hand. From eternity to eternity he is the same, and
his years never fail (D & C 76:1-4) .
The works, and the designs, and the purposes of God cannot be frustrated, neither
can they come to naught (D & C 3:1).
Purpose in the Divine Law
T N the Pearl of Great Price (Moses
1) we are informed that Moses,
speaking to the Lord, said, ''Be
merciful unto thy servant, O God,
and tell me concerning this earth,
and the inhabitants thereof, and
also the heavens . . ." (verse 36).
The Lord explained to Moses that
the heavens and earths could not be
numbered. As one passes away an-
other comes. Thus there is no end
to his works or his word. Then in
a simple statement, the Lord gives
meaning and understanding to his
creation — 'Tor behold, this is my
work and my glory — to bring to
pass the immortality and eternal life
of man" (verse 39).
From the discussions in previous
lessons, we are aware that through
divine law God has established a
plan of life and salvation, the ob-
servance of which makes possible
the accomplishment of his purpose.
From the quotations at the begin-
942
ning of this lesson, we are informed
of God's great wisdom, that his
purposes fail not, and that no one
can stay his hand. We are further
impressed with his eternal nature
and that there is no end to eternity.
From this we can conclude that the
purpose and plan of God in its es-
sential points has been revealed to
man from Adam to the present day.
It is also evident that the divine
laws directing man's activities were
equally binding on the people of
each period of time.
The Dispensations
These periods of time are often
referred to as dispensations, meaning
a period of time during which God
has made himself known to man,
establishing his Priesthood upon the
earth and revealing the essential ele-
ments of the plan of life and salva-
tion, providing for the function and
operation of his Church through
organization. Elder Orson F. Whit-
ney writes that Mormonism
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. . . stands for the Gospel itself in all
the dispensations, as those periods are
termed during which God, from the begin-
ning, has spoken to man and revealed' from
heaven these sa\'ing principles and powers
(Saturday Night Thoughts, page 96).
The dispensations are usually re-
ferred to under the name of the
distinguished prophet and leader of
the period. Specifically they refer to
the dispensations of Adam, Enoch,
Noah, Abraham, Moses, Jesus
Christ, and the dispensation of the
fulness of times. What they are
called is not so important as the
fact that during each dispensation
the divine law governing the destiny
of man was upon the earth. That
men held the Priesthood and were
properly commissioned to organize
The Church of Jesus Christ for the
enlightenment and welfare of the
human family was equally im-
portant.
What Adam Taught
''And thus the gospel began to be
preached, from the beginning, being
declared by holy angels sent forth
from the presence of God, and by
his own voice, and by the gift of
the Holy Ghost" ( Moses 5:58). The
gospel includes a clear understand-
ing of man's relationship to God,
the rules governing individual de-
velopment, and man's relationship
to his fellow men. In other words,
it is the plan of life and salvation.
Adam made all things known unto
his children. Thus the descendants
of Adam were made aware of the
teachings essential to their exalta-
tion. The teachings Adam received
may be summarized as follows:
1. That God the Eternal Father
hves. Adam walked and talked with
him. The Priesthood, the power to
act in his name, was bestowed upon
Adam. ''And thus all things were
confirmed upon Adam, by an holy
ordinance . . . (Moses 5:59).
2. That Jesus Christ is the Son of
God and that his mission is to re-
deem the world. Adam was given
the law of sacrifice, "a similitude of
the sacrifice of the Only Begotten
of the Father, which is full of grace
and truth" (Moses 5:7). Christ's
action provided for the redemption
of man from the fall. "And the Lord
God called upon men by the Holy
Ghost everywhere and commanded
them that they should repent"
(Moses 5:14). Eternal life is prom-
ised to those who can hear (under-
stand ) the word of the Lord and act
in the hght of truth. Baptism is the
portal to the joy of exaltation and
the presence of the Eternal Father.
3. That the Holy Ghost, a person-
age of spirit, is a member of the
Godhead and the special witness of
the Father and the Son to man-
kind. The Holy Ghost is a con-
stant source of light and truth for
human progress.
4. That revelation is a continual
flow of the divine will to enlighten
mankind.
5. An acceptance of the first and
great commandment, love of God.
The second is like unto it, love thy
neighbor as thyself. "On these two
commandments hang all the law
and the prophets." In an effort to
give man the proper concept of love
and to assure its continuance, the
celestial pattern of family life was
given to Adam. "... It is not good
that the man should be alone"
(Genesis 2:18). In the teachings of
love of fellow men, their general
welfare was emphasized and specifi-
cally the fact that we are our broth-
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er's keeper. Essential to the
operation of love is the personal
discipline of bridling desires and
controlling appetites.
Divine Law and Human Response
Adam taught the essentials for the
exaltation of his children. At the
same time they were subject to the
influence of evil. They had the
capacitv to make judgments and de-
cisions in the exercise of their right
of choice. The first apostasy oc-
curred within Adam's time. Not all
of Adam's children loved darkness
more than light, but there were
those among them who were envi-
ous, selfish, and greedy. They cov-
enanted with Satan and swore secret
oaths among themselves to gain
power over their fellow men. This
is all symbolized in the actions of
Cain which brought death, sin, and
misery to those who disregarded the
divine law. There were many who
followed after him.
Enoch received direct revelation
to assist him in calling the people to
repentance. The basic teachings
were the same as Adam taught, with
great emphasis upon the importance
of accepting the mission of Jesus
Christ and being baptized in his
name for the remission of sins. The
people had become carnal, sensual,
and devilish following the counsel of
Satan. These conditions refer to
the weakness of the flesh. In this
condition, men are ruled by the
gratification of their desires and
appetites. War, a common expres-
sion of Satan's influence in the world
and basically caused by greed and
selfishness, was rampant in the land.
Enoch's plea was to return to proper
human relations with love of God the
directing force in the people's lives.
He pointed out that ''naught but
peace, justice, and truth is the habi-
tation of" the throne of God (Moses
7:31). Many of Enoch's people,
particularly those living in the city
of Zion, believed in his teachings.
''And the Lord called his people
Zion, because they were of one heart
and one mind, and dwelt in
righteousness; and there was no
poor among them (Moses 7:18).
"And Enoch and all his people
walked with God, and he dwelt in
the midst of Zion; and it came to
pass that Zion was not, for God
received it up into his own bos-
om . . ." (Moses 7:69). But the
balance of mankind was left in their
wickedness.
When Noah came to his leader-
ship, the spiritual condition of men
and their behavior patterns had fal-
len very low. "... Noah prophe-
sied, and taught the things of God,
even as it was in the beginning"
(Moses 8:16). Noah was ordained
after the order of the Lord and
cried repentance unto the people,
but they were lifted up in their own
pride. In fact they had so com-
pletely forsaken the way of the Lord
that "God said unto Noah: The end
of all flesh is come before me, for
the earth is filled with violence, and
behold I will destroy all flesh from
off the earth" (Moses 8:30).
Noah had the unique position of
giving mankind a new start. He,
with his sons and their families, was
given the responsibility of peopling
the earth and of establishing the
basic teachings given to Adam as
the directing force in human associa-
tion and progress. But the descend-
ants of Noah lost themselves in the
quest for the material riches of the
world. They spent themselves in
LESSON DEPARTMENT
945
building cities, in accumulating
riches, and defending their gain.
Finally they attempted to defy God
by building Babel and he dispersed
them o\er the face of the earth.
(See Genesis 9, 10, 11.)
The dispensation of Abraham is
a record of the rise of the house of
Israel. Abraham, being dissatisfied
with his social environment, decided
to find another place of residence.
He received the Priesthood and the
knowledge of the fathers, and called
his own generation to repentance.
But thev v/ere steeped in the idol-
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would not listen. (See Abraham
1:5.) Following the inspiration of
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"out of the world" (the land of the
Chaldeans) into the promised land.
Here he established his people (who
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from his grandson Jacob), whose
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Moses, we must be aware of the fact
that the people of the world who
did not follow the divine law nor
recognize the Priesthood as the
authority to act in the name of God
now constituted the mass of man-
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The law of an eye for an eye and
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Moses taught with patience and
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in righteousness. The golden calf,
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The people were slow to respond.
Finally, God took Moses and the
higher or Melchizedek Priesthood
out of their midst. The Aaronic
Priesthood was left for their official
direction until the coming of Christ.
LESSON DEPARTMENT
947
Fulfilling the Law
The dispensation of Christ is re-
ferred to as the meridian of time.
All the prophets from Adam on
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origin. They could not believe.
Consequently, the Priesthood and
his Church were taken from the
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The Dispensation of the
Fuhiess oi Times
When the boy Prophet Joseph
Smith received the manifestation of
God the Father and his Son, the
dispensation of the fulness of times
began. With the bestowal of the
Priesthood and the revealing of di-
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available to assist man in his struggle
to perfection.
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same today as in Adam's day? .
2. What is meant by "neither are there
any who can stay his hand"?
3. What do you understand by the term
"dispensation"?
4. Does the right of choice assure cor-
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REFERENCES
D&C Sections 3, 76.
Pearl of Great Price
Moses, Chapters 1,
Book of Abraham
6,7, 8
New Testament
Book of Revelation
Chapters 5, 6, 8
Old Testament
Genesis, Chapters 9-41
Exodus
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