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MINNESOTA  HISTORICAL  SOCIETY. 
VOL.  XV.     PLATE  XIII. 


A  SHEAF  OF  REMEMBRANCES.* 


BY  MRS.  REBECCA  MARSHALL  CATHCART. 


I  have  heard  it  said  that  the  most  uneventful  life,  if  care- 
fully written  up,  would  make  an  interesting  book,  and  I  have 
been  persuaded  to  prove  this  statement. 

My  life  has  seemed  to  me  to  have  experienced  little  be- 
yond ordinary,  commonplace  events,  yet,  at  the  earnest  request 
of  my  children,  and  overcoming  my  extreme  dislike  for  the 
manual  drudgery  of  writing,  I  shall  try  to  jot  down  some  remin- 
iscences of  my  childhood  in  Illinois  and  Wisconsin,  as  well  as 
those  of  later  years  in  St.  Paul,  Minnesota,  hoping  to  interest 
those  who  care  for  early  memories  of  our  city. 

My  earliest  remembrances  are  those  in  frontier  life.  My 
great-grandparents,  both  paternal  and  maternal,  came  from 
the  north  of  Ireland  and  were  what  is  known  as  Scotch-Irish. 
They  came  to  this  country  in  the  eighteenth  century  and  set- 
tled near  Philadelphia.  I  know  very  little  about  their  lives,  as 
they  were  too  busy  trying  to  establish  homes  to  keep  any  record 
of  daily  experiences. 

My  paternal  grandfather,  David  Marshall,  visited  Kentucky 
before  the  War  of  the  Revolution ;  at  the  outbreak  of  the  war 
he  enlisted  and  served  throughout  the  war  in  the  Pennsylvania 
troops  under  Gen.  Anthony  Wayne ;  after  peace  was  declared, 
he  married  Sarah  Graham,  and  bride  and  groom  started  for 
their  future  home  in  Kentucky  on  horseback,  making  the  en- 
tire journey  in  that  way.  They  bade  good-bye  to  their  rela- 
tives, never  expecting  to  see  them  again;  however,  a  sister  of 
my  grandmother  married  and  went  to  Lexington  to  live  some 
years  later.  A  descendant  of  hers,  James  Fisher  Robinson,  was 
governor  of  Kentucky  during  a  part  of  the  Civil  War,  in  1862-3. 

We  often  talk  and  tell  stories  of  heroes  during  the  forming 

*Read  at  the  monthly  meeting  of  the  Executive  Council,  November 

10,  1 9 1  o. 


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of  the  West,  but  there  were  heroines  as  well,  and  I  always  think 
of  my  grandmother  Marshall  as  one  of  that  number.  In  1872 
I  visited  my  ancestor's  home  in  Kentucky;  the  farm  on  which 
my  grandfather  located  was  near  Paris,  Bourbon  county. 
While  I  was  there,  one  among  many  incidents  which  my  mother 
had  told  me  as  happening  there  was  forcibly  brought  to  my 
mind;  it  occurred  soon  after  the  birth  of  my  grandmother's 
eldest  child.  The  first  settlers  had  built  their  log  cabins  of 
one  room  near  together  as  a  protection  from  the  Indians,  and 
these  little  settlements  -were  called  stations ;  each  cabin  had  a 
hole  in  the  wall  closed  with  a  wooden  plug,  and  every  morning 
before  opening  the  door  the  occupant  would  look  out  of  this 
opening  to  see  if  any  Indians  were  around.  On  the  morning 
of  this  incident  my  grandfather  looked  out,  as  usual,  and  saw 
an  Indian  with  his  gun  pointed  at  the  door  of  the  adjoining 
cabin.  He  took  down  his  rifle,  loaded  it,  asked  my  grand- 
mother to  hold  a  charge  in  her  hand,  and  then,  not  wishing  to 
frighten  her,  said  he  saw  a  deer;  he  fired  and  wounded  the 
Indian,  whereupon  other  Indians  appeared  and  carried  off  the 
wounded  one.  The  settlers  were  roused  by  the  noise  of  the  shot 
and  traced  the  trail  of  the  Indians  a  long  way  by  the  drops  of 
blood,  but  could  not  catch  up  with  them.  I  was  much  inter- 
ested in  visiting  the  cabin,  which  was  then  used  as  a  chicken 
house  and  was  still  standing  on  its  original  site  on  the  farm 
owned  by  my  grandfather,  and  in  actually  looking  through  the 
very  hole  through  which  my  grandfather  fired. 

My  maternal  grandfather  was  Samuel  Shaw;  I  know  he 
lived  in  Carlisle,  Pa.,  and  married  my  grandmother  there,  her 
maiden  name  being  Rebecca  Lowry  Black;  I  was  named  Re- 
becca Lowry  after  her.  My  mother,  named  Abigail,  was  born 
in  Carlisle,  February  19,  1789,  and  was  eight  years  old  when 
her  father  and  mother  moved  to  Kentucky.  My  grandfather 
Shaw  located  on  a  farm  near  my  grandfather  Marshall,  and 
both  families  grew  up  together  in  the  famous  "blue  grass  re- 
gion." 

In  the  year  1820  a  number  of  families  emigrated  from  Ken- 
tucky to  Ohio  and  Missouri ;  my  father  and  mother  were  among 
the  emigrants  and  went  to  Missouri.  They  located  on  a  farm 
near  Boonville,  and  there  the  four  younger  children  were  born, 


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two  sons,  Joseph  Miller  and  William  Rainey,  and  two  daugh- 
ters, Sarah  Jane  and  myself,  Rebecca  Lowry. 

In  1830  my  grandfather  Shaw,  having  become  dissatisfied 
with  slavery,  decided  to  remove  to  a  free  state  and  Illinois  at- 
tracted him;  he  went  to  Quincy  with  his  family,  consisting  of 
five  grown  children,  his  wife  having  died,  and  located  on  a 
farm  three  miles  out  of  the  village,  where  he  died  in  1832. 

My  father  had  financial  reverses  in  Missouri,  chiefly  owing 
to  the  burning  of  a  large  barn  stored  with  tobacco,  and  he  de- 
cided to  join  my  mother's  family  at  Quincy.  I  was  born  on 
May  30,  1830,  and  in  the  following  September  my  father  moved 
to  Quincy.  They  traveled,  as  all  emigrants  did  in  those  days, 
in  covered  wagons  during  the  daytime,  and  camped  out  at 
night.  My  father  bought  a  farm  in  the  vicinity  of  grand- 
father Shaw,  but  before  he  was  able  to  move  onto  it  he  was 
taken  ill  with  typhoid  fever  and  died,  leaving  my  mother  with 
six  children,  the  eldest  one  twelve  years  old,  and  the  youngest, 
myself,  six  months.  Now  came  the  time  to  show  what  a  heroine 
my  mother  was ;  she  moved  to  the  farm  with  her  small  children 
that  fall,  and  the  first  winter  proved  a  terrible  one  for  her. 
She  and  all  the  family  had  the  ague,  as  indeed  all  the  inhab- 
itants of  that  region  were  subject  to  chills  and  fever;  my 
mother  had  a  chill  every  alternate  day,  and  on  the  interven- 
ing well  day  she  worked  hard  to  get  ready  for  the  sick  day. 
I  was  so  ill  that  my  aunts  kept  me  at  my  grandfather's  place; 
no  one  thought  I  would  live,  nor  desired  me  to  live,  as  it  was 
deemed  I  could  not  have  good  sense  should  I  live;  yet  now  I 
am  well  and  vigorous  after  eighty-three  years  of  active  life. 

In  1832  an  epidemic  of  cholera  visited  the  country  and  was 
particularly  severe  in  Quincy  and  the  surrounding  district. 
My  grandfather  Shaw  and  my  oldest  brother  were  stricken 
with  the  dread  disease,  and  both  died  the  same  day ;  my  aunts 
were  helpless  from  fright,  and  my  mother  had  everything  to 
do;  she  prepared  them  for  the  burial,  and  returned  from  the 
funeral  to  take  up  her  burden  again.  One  of  her  neighbors, 
Mr.  Edward  Pearson,  helped  her  in  every  way  he  could,  and 
they  both  nursed  cholera  patients  without  catching  the  disease. 

My  mother's  next  trial  was  the  death  of  the  eldest  of  the 
remaining  children  from  fever;  after  this  she  rented  the  farm 


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and  moved  into  the  village  of  Quincy.  My  first  recollections 
begin  when  I  was  about  five  years  old;  our  family  numbered 
five,  my  mother,  two  brothers,  aged  nine  and  eleven,  a  sister 
seven  years  old,  and  myself ;  my  sister  died  in  her  eighth  year. 
My  brothers  and  I  attended  a  school  taught  by  Mr.  Stafford 
and  his  sister,  situated  near  where  we  lived;  I  must  have 
learned  to  read  at  this  early  age,  as  I  can  never  remember  the 
time  when  I  could  not  read.  Mr.  Stafford's  mother  taught  me 
to  work  a  sampler  also,  and  I  well  recollect  how  patient  the 
dear  old  lady  was,  how  stupid  I  was,  and  how  many  tears  I 
shed ;  I  have  thought  ever  since  it  was  a  mistake  to  teach  chil- 
dren too  young.  From  the  time  I  was  nine  years  old  until  I 
was  fourteen,  I  was  very  fortunate  in  attending  a  school  kept 
by  a  lady  of  fine  character  and  education;  she  was  a  Mrs. 
Thornton,  and  I  feel  that  I  owe  all  I  know  to  her  faithful 
teaching. 

My  mother  was  a  strict  disciplinarian;  with  her  to  speak 
was  to  be  obeyed.  I  remember  one  instance :  my  brother  Wil- 
liam was  very  easily  provoked  to  laughter,  and  one  day  began 
laughing  in  school ;  the  teacher  demanded  to  know  what  caused 
him  such  mirth ;  my  brother 's  answer  did  not  please  the  teach- 
er, and  he  gave  him  a  severe  whipping.  My  brother  felt  that 
the  teacher  was  unjust,  so  he  took  his  books  and  went  home ; 
mother  heard  his  complaint,  and  then  took  down  a  whip  and 
told  him  to  return  to  school,  which  he  did.  The  teacher  after- 
ward acknowledged  he  was  wrong,  and  begged  my  brother's 
forgiveness.  In  those  days  discipline  was  strictly  maintained, 
and  there  was  no  need  of  parental  schools. 

My  mother  had  two  brothers  who  served  in  the  Black  Hawk 
War;  one  died  during  the  war,  and  the  other  retired  with  the 
rank  of  captain;  he  lived  in  the  mining  region  of  Wisconsin, 
about  twelve  miles  from  Galena,  Illinois.  My  brother  Joseph 
went  to  live  with  this  uncle  when  he  was  sixteen,  and  in  a 
year  or  two  my  brother  William  joined  him;  this  left  my 
mother  and  me  alone. 

In  the  spring  of  1844  mother  and  I  visited  my  brothers, 
and  we  remained  with  them  a  year;  to  me  it  was  a  year  full 
of  physical  benefit,  as  the  great  freedom  from  school,  and  out- 
of-door  life  at  a  period  when  I  was  growing  rapidly,  estab- 


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lished  my  health,  and  I  think  my  four  score  years  are  due  to 
this  one  year  spent  in  the  lead  mining  district  of  Wisconsin. 

We  returned  to  Quincy  in  the  spring  of  1845,  and  I  again 
took  up  my  school  duties ;  but  my  good,  efficient  teacher,  Mrs. 
Thornton,  had  gone  to  Oregon,  and  the  school  seemed  to  be  run 
to  support  the  teacher,  not  to  educate  the  pupils.  I  made  very 
little  progress,  and  have  always  felt  that  I  was  defrauded  of 
the  education  I  ought  to  have  had. 

In  1849  my  brothers  left  Wisconsin  and  went  to  the  new 
territory  of  Minnesota.  In  May  of  that  year  my  brother  Wil- 
liam came  for  mother  and  me,  and,  much  to  my  delight,  we 
started  for  our  new  home.  We  came  by  steamboat  to  Galena, 
and  then  changed  to  another  boat  for  the  upper  Mississippi. 
The  trip  in  those  days  was  delightful ;  the  boats  were  large,  the 
captains  were  gentlemen,  and  the  food  was  of  the  best.  Since 
traffic  by  railroad  has  been  introduced,  all  this  has  been 
changed. 

Our  trip  up  the  river  was  made  at  the  most  favorable  time 
of  the  year,  and  most  of  each  day  was  spent  on  the  hurricane 
deck ;  the  scenery  of  the  upper  Mississippi  was  grand,  far  sur- 
passing the  Hudson.  I  feel  very  sorry  for  people  who  traverse 
Europe  for  the  purpose  of  enjoying  grand  scenery  and  have 
never  looked  upon  the  magnificent  bluffs  of  the  Mississippi 
river.  Our  boat,  the  Lady  Franklin,  with  Captain  Smith  in 
command,  landed  at  Mendota  the  morning  of  the  tenth  of  May, 
1849,  for  Mendota  was  then  of  more  importance  than  St.  Paul. 
Mr.  Sibley,  afterward  Governor  and  General,  lived  there;  as 
he  was  the  delegate  to  Congress  from  the  territory  of  Minne- 
sota, his  residence  and  influence  had  made  Mendota  a  place  of 
prime  importance.  After  lying  there  most  of  the  day  to  dis- 
charge freight,  the  Lady  Franklin  brought  us  to  St.  Paul,  as 
all  our  passengers  were  bound  for  this  point. 

The  only  hotel  here  was  a  small  one  built  partly  of  logs  and 
partly  of  frame  work,  called  the  St.  Paul  House;  it  was  sit- 
uated on  the  corner  of  Third  and  Jackson  streets,  on  the;  site 
of  the  present  Merchants'  Hotel.  Besides  being  the  only  hotel, 
it  was  also  the  post  office,  and  Mr.  J.  W.  Bass  was  both  land- 
lord and  post  master.  Here  we  were  crowded  like  sardines  in 
a  box,  and  some  of  the  younger  members  among  the  passen- 


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gers  had  to  sleep  on  the  floor,  I  among  the  number.  One  of 
the  passengers  was  a  Mrs.  Parker  from  Boston,  the  future  land- 
lady of  the  American  House  then  being  built. 

Those  days  are  very  vivid  in  my  memory.  The  morning 
after  our  arrival  a  Miss  Bishop  introduced  herself  to  us  as  the 
school  teacher,  and  asked  my  mother  and  me  to  take  a  walk 
with  her  and  see  the  village,  I  might  say,  the  Indian  village. 
Our  walk  took  us  up  a  high  hill  at  the  rear  of  the  hotel,  from 
which  we  had  a  splendid  view  of  the  bluffs  on  either  side  of 
the  river  as  far  as  to  Fort  Snelling.  All  the  surrounding  coun- 
try was  in  its  primitive  state,  and  the  prospect  was  a  glorious 
one;  as  we  gazed  around  there  came  to  our  notice  Dayton's 
bluff  (but  not  Dayton's  then)  on  the  east;  what  is  now  Sum- 
mit avenue  on  the  west;  and  the  Wabasha  bluff  on  the  north. 
Could  anything  be  grander  than  the  view  at  that  time?  Who 
could  imagine  then  that  this  little  French  and  Indian  village 
would  one  day  become  one  of  the  largest  and  most  important 
cities  of  the  Northwest?  Oh,  if  our  future  citizens  could  have 
realized  this  great  fact,  how  much  more  wisely  would  they 
have  wrought!  The  Third  street  bluff  might  have  been  kept 
intact  as  a  boulevard  for  all  time,  and  Summit  avenue  could 
have  been  laid  out  so  as  not  to  destroy  the  bluff  line.  God  did 
everything  for  our  city,  but  man's  greed  has  defaced  the 
Creator's  work. 

The  second  day  after  our  arrival  a  party  was  made  up  to 
visit  St.  Anthony  Falls,  noted  from  the  time  it  was  discovered 
by  Father  Hennepin  on  his  voyage  down  the  river  in  1680.  We 
drove  up  the  river  until  opposite  Fort  Snelling,  and  then  lost 
our  way ;  no  one  in  the  party  knew  the  road,  but  after  going 
through  the  woods  for  some  distance  we  finally  struck  the  right 
path  between  St.  Paul  and  St.  Anthony.  During  our  drive  we 
saw  several  deer,  and  realized  we  were  indeed  in  the  wilder- 
ness. The  thunder  of  the  falling  water  reached  our  ears  long 
before  we  came  to  the  famous  cataract;  but  when  at  last  our 
eyes  saw  the  great  volume  of  water  that  rushed  over  the  preci- 
pice, the  sight  surpassed  all  our  expectations.  It  was  superb; 
no  one  can  realize  now  anything  of  the  grandeur  of  the  scene 
as  it  was  then;  no  wonder  that  the  poor  Indian  worshipped 
the  Great  Spirit  of  the  cataract.  But  here  again  man  has  de- 


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stroyed  for  utilitarian  purposes  what  the  savage  worshipped. 

The  only  building,  except  sawmills,  at  the  Falls  of  St.  An- 
thony at  that  time,  May  11,  1849,  was  a  boarding  house  for  the 
mill  hands.  Two  sawmills  were  operated  on  the  east  side  just 
below  Nicollet  island ;  several  small  buildings  were  in  the  pro- 
cess of  erection,  however,  and  among  them  a  one-story  frame 
house  was  being  built  by  my  brothers,  Joseph  M.  and  William 
R.  Marshall.  The  front  room  was  intended  to  be  used  as  a 
general  country  store,  and  the  rooms  back  of  that  for  a  resi- 
dence; it  was  the  only  plastered  house  in  the  village.  Today 
the  Pillsbury  "A"  mill  stands  near  the  site  of  that  early  home, 
and  the  little  village  of  1849-50  has  long  since  been  swallowed 
up  in  the  progress  and  enterprise  which  have  built  the  stirring 
city  of  Minneapolis. 

After  remaining  a  few  weeks  in  St.  Paul,  waiting  for  our 
house  to  be  finished,  we  moved  to  St.  Anthony.  We  had  very 
little  furniture,  as  everything  had  to  be  hauled  by  team  from 
St.  Paul ;  aside  from  merchantable  things,  only  what  was  abso- 
lutely necessary  for  our  living  was  taken  over ;  our  dining  table 
all  summer  was  a  dry  goods  box,  although  my  mother  had 
brought  fine  mahogany  furniture  with  her,  tables,  chairs,  sofas, 
bureaus,  washstands,  and  dining-room  set.  Governor  Ramsey 
wished  to  buy  the  parlor  set,  offering  my  mother  several  hun- 
dred dollars  for  it;  my  brothers  urged  her  to  sell  it  and  buy 
real  estate,  but  she  said  that  she  had  but  a  few  years  to  live 
and  she  wished  to  live  those  few  years  respectably.  Part  of 
this  furniture  is  still  preserved  by  the  family  as  an  heirloom. 

The  summer  of  '49  was  a  most  interesting  period  in  my 
life.  I  had  been  raised  under  the  strict  rules  laid  down  by  the 
straitest  sect  of  the  Presbyterians,  and  had  never  been  to  a 
dance,  theater,  or  any  place  of  amusement  supposed  to  have 
the  Evil  One  for  a  patron.  Here  I  was  like  one  let  out  of 
prison,  and  each  day  was  one  of  joy  and  gladness.  People  were 
pouring  into  the  Territory;  every  steamboat's  passenger  list 
was  full;  every  stage  arriving  in  the  village  of  St.  Anthony 
was  crowded  with  tourists;  some  came  to  settle,  others  to  spy 
out  the  land.  The  stage  stopped  within  a  few  rods  of  our 
house,  and  the  tourists  always  crossed  from  our  side  of  the 
river  to  Hennepin  island,  on  a  foot  bridge,  in  order  to  get  the 


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best  view  of  the  Falls.  They  were  invariably  enraptured  with 
the  sight;  as  I  have  said,  the  fall  of  water  at  this  time  was 
grand,  the  river  not  being  obstructed  with  logs,  and  the  preci- 
pice over  which  the  river  dashed  not  having  broken  away.  My 
brothers  had  inherited  the  hospitable  spirit  of  our  Southern 
ancestors,  and  our  home,  poor  as  it  was,  became  a  center  of 
entertainment;  and  thus  it  was  that  those  travelers  from  the 
far  East  partook  of  our  meager  fare,  with  many  thanks,  all 
the  recompense  asked.  It  is  a  great  source  of  regret  to  me 
that  I  did  not  keep  a  visitor's  book  during  the  years  of  1849-50, 
as  so  many  distinguished  people  were  our  guests  during  those 
years,  some  spending  two  or  three  days,  while  others  took  only 
one  meal. 

Our  guests  were  not  all  white  citizens,  however,  for  many  a 
time  when  I  was  busy  in  the  house  I  became  conscious  that 
some  one  was  near  me,  and  on  looking  around  I  saw  a  half 
dozen  Indians  inside  the  door;  their  moccasined  feet  had  not 
made  the  slightest  noise.  It  was  not  very  pleasant  to  have 
such  visitors,  although  they  were  perfectly  harmless ;  they  were 
inveterate  beggars,  and  would  never  leave  until  you  gave  them 
something  to  eat.  After  a  while  I  learned  to  keep  the  outside 
door  locked. 

Altogether  that  first  summer  in  our  new  home  was  delightful, 
but  we  all  dreaded  the  approach  of  winter.  It  would  be  at 
least  five  months  after  the  close  of  navigation  before  it  would 
be  resumed,  and  during  that  time  we  should  be  practically 
prisoners,  our  only  means  of  communication  with  the  rest  of 
the  world  being  by  stage,  a  very  hard  and  dangerous  journey 
in  any  direction. 

A  great  number  of  young  men  from  eastern  cities  came  also 
that  first  summer;  most  of  them  settled  in  St.  Paul,  commer- 
cial life  appealing  to  them  more  than  manufacturing.  Many 
succeeded  in  business,  went  back  east  to  marry,  and  returned 
with  their  brides ;  few,  very  few,  of  these  founders  of  our  com- 
monwealth are  now  living,  but  their  children  and  grandchil- 
dren are  our  present  active  citizens.  Fortunately  for  our  new 
Territory,  the  rough  class  which  emigrated  to  Colorado,  Mont- 
ana, and  the  territories  farther  west,  did  not  come  to  Minne- 
sota, there  being  no  mineral  resources  to  attract  them. 


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Governor  Ramsey  and  the  other  territorial  officers  came  in 
May,  1849.  Most  of  those  officials  were  old  war  horses,  who 
had  been  living  on  politics  the  greater  part  of  their  lives;  al- 
though many  of  them  were  men  of  ability,  I  am  sorry  to  say 
that  in  many  respects  they  did  not  prove  shining  examples. 
Ramsey  was  an  exception;  he  had  plenty  of  good  common 
sense,  and  though  not  as  brilliant,  perhaps,  as  some  of  the 
judges,  he  was  a  safe  man  and  made  a  most  excellent  governor, 
never,  however,  losing  sight  of  the  political  outlook  and  the 
part  he  was  to  play.  He  was  most  fortunate  in  having  a  charm- 
ing wife,  to  whom  was  due  much  of  his  success,  and  of  whom  I 
shall  have  more  to  say  later. 

The  American  House,  with  Mrs.  Parker  as  landlady,  was 
headquarters  for  the  territorial  officers.  Mrs.  Parker  was  a 
large,  handsome  woman,  rather  masculine,  but  well  adapted  to 
conduct  the  business  of  a  frontier  hotel.  Hon.  Henry  M.  Rice, 
afterward  delegate  to  Congress  and  United  States  senator,  was 
the  principal  owner  of  the  American  House,  and  he  had  secured 
her  as  landlady;  there  was  a  Mr.  Parker,  but  he  was  chiefly 
known  as  Mrs.  Parker's  husband.  When  the  hotel  was  first 
opened,  it  was  called  the  Rice  House,  and  it  continued  to  be 
so  called  until  there  arose  a  quarrel  between  Mr.  Rice  and  Mrs. 
Parker.  I  do  not  know  the  cause  of  it,  but  I  know  that  Mrs. 
Parker  felt  so  bitter  that  she  practiced  at  a  mark  for  weeks, 
declaring  her  intention  of  shooting  Mr.  Rice.  Finally,  how- 
ever, she  gave  up  her  desire  for  blood,  and  revenged  herself 
by  changing  the  name  of  the  hotel  from  Rice  House  to  the 
American  House,  and  later  it  was  burned  down.  Mrs.  Parker 
built  a  fine  dwelling  on  Irvine  Park,  was  confirmed  in  Christ 
Church,  and  lived  to  an  honorable  old  age. 

St.  Anthony  was  first  settled  by  lumbermen  who  came  from 
the  vicinity  of  Bangor,  Maine ;  they  were  a  sturdy,  honest,  and 
industrious  class  of  men.  We  were  the  only  family  of  South- 
ern lineage,  but  my  brothers  were  also  typical  pioneers,  with 
plenty  of  enterprise  and  endurance.  Brother  William,  although 
not  then  twenty-four  years  of  age,  became  a  leader  in  both 
business  and  political  affairs.  He  surveyed  and  platted  the 
village  of  St.  Anthony  in  the  autumn  of  1849,  and  named  the 
streets. 


524  MINNESOTA   HISTORICAL   SOCIETY    COLLECTIONS. 

The  inhabitants  being  also  God-fearing  men  and  anxious 
for  mental  improvement,  built  a  schoolhouse,  which  was  to  be 
used  as  a  church  and  lecture  hall  as  well  as  for  school  pur- 
poses. The  Presbyterian,  Baptist,  and  Methodist  ministers  from 
St.  Paul  came  over  on  alternate  Sundays  to  hold  service  in  this 
building,  and  my  mother  always  gladly  entertained  them  from 
Saturday  night  until  Monday  morning. 

St.  Paul  and  St.  Anthony  united  to  celebrate  the  Fourth  of 
July,  1849,  with  a  parade,  a  banquet,  and  a  ball.  The  army 
corps  from  Ft.  Snelling  was  invited  to  join  in  the  parade,  and 
indeed  it  really  was  the  parade,  but  I  was  too  busy  preparing 
for  the  ball  to  see  it  myself.  The  oration  of  the  day  was  deliv- 
ered by  Judge  Meeker  in  a  grove  on  the  site  of  Rice  Park ;  the 
banquet  was  held  in  the  American  House  in  the  afternoon ;  and 
the  ball  was  in  the  same  place  in  the  evening.  These  festivi- 
ties also  marked  the  opening  of  the  American  House.  The  elite 
of  both  villages  attended  the  ball,  and  as  the  men  outnumbered 
the  women  there  were  no  wall  flowers  throughout  the  evening. 

Just  before  supper  was  served,  my  attention  was  attracted 
to  a  group  of  ladies  who  had  entered  the  dining-room;  they 
were  Mrs.  Ramsey,  Mrs.  Sibley,  Mrs.  H.  M.  Rice,  and  Mrs. 
Steele.  I  do  not  think  four  handsomer  women  could  have  been 
found  in  the  United  States.  Mrs.  Ramsey  was  easily  distin- 
guished from  the  others,  however,  on  account  of  her  regal  bear- 
ing, and  she  immediately  captured  my  admiration  to  the  exclu- 
sion of  the  others;  but  meeting  the  other  three  at  a  later  date, 
and  seeing  how  beautiful  they  were,  I  wondered  how  I  could 
have  been  so  partial  that  evening. 

The  first  Territorial  Legislature  met  in  St.  Paul  in  the  fall 
of  1849;  it  met  in  the  Central  House,  a  boarding  house  near 
Third  street  and  what  are  now  Cedar  and  Minnesota  streets. 
Besides  being  a  hotel,  it  was  also  the  place  where  many  society 
functions  were  held.  My  brother  William  was  a  member  of 
this  legislature  and  frequently  walked  from  St.  Anthony  to 
St.  Paul  to  attend  to  his  public  duties.  This  was  the  legisla- 
ture which  decided  the  location  of  the  Capitol,  the  State  Uni- 
versity, and  the  State  Prison;  of  course  the  capitol  had  been 
already  located  in  St.  Paul  by  Congress,  when  General  Sibley 
was  our  territorial  delegate,  but  many  attempts  were  made  to 


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have  it  moved,  and  several  times  the  efforts  were  very  nearly 
successful.  My  brother  earnestly  argued  for  locating  the  State 
University  at  St.  Anthony. 

A  few  society  people  in  St.  Paul  planned  to  celebrate  Christ- 
mas, '49,  by  a  sleigh  ride  to  Banfil's  on  Manomin  creek,  about 
nine  miles  above  St.  Anthony.  I  was  invited  to  be  one  of  their 
guests,  and  Mr.  Whitall,  a  brother  of  Mrs.  H.  M.  Rice,  was  my 
escort.  The  sleighing  was  fine  and  being  well  protected  with 
fur  robes  the  drive  was  delightful  to  us,  and  it  seemed  very 
short.  We  arrived  at  Banfil's  in  time  for  an  early  supper, 
which  consisted  of  viands  that  even  in  these  luxurious  days 
would  be  tempting  to  the  appetite ;  after  supper  the  dining- 
room  was  cleared,  and  we  had  a  grand  dance. 

The  musicians  were  colored  barbers  from  St.  Paul,  and  the 
leader  was  a  large,  fine-looking  man  named  Taylor;  he  had  a 
voice  a  brigadier  general  might  envy,  and  as  at  that  time  the 
figures  were  called  off,  a  clear,  strong  voice  was  much  sought 
for.  He  was  killed  in  the  Indian  outbreak  of  '62.  This  colored 
band  was  in  great  demand  in  both  St.  Paul  and  St.  Anthony 
during  several  years. 

We  danced  until  the  wee,  small  hours  of  the  morning,  and 
then  retired  for  a  short  rest;  after  a  breakfast  equally  as  ap- 
petizing as  our  supper  of  the  night  before,  we  prepared  for  our 
drive  home. 

An  amusing  incident  occurred  just  as  we  were  ready  to 
start  for  home.  One  of  our  party  was  a  stalwart,  young  man, 
afterward  known  as  Sonny  Dayton ;  he  was  quite  smitten  with 
a  young  lady  whose  escort  was  a  Southerner  of  blue  blood,  but 
of  diminutive  stature.  This  couple  were  seated  opposite  each 
other  when  suddenly  Mr.  Dayton  came  up  to  the  sleigh,  lifted 
the  small  escort  out,  jumped  in  himself  and  signaled  the  driver 
to  start.  The  Southerner  was  what  was  called  a  fire-eater,  and 
we  fully  expected  coffee  and  pistols  for  two,  but  happily  the 
affair  closed  without  any  blood  being  shed. 

When  the  restraints  of  an  older  and  long  settled  community 
are  thrown  off,  as  they  are  to  a  large  extent  in  newly  settled 
districts,  an  unseemly  indulgence  is  often  a  source  of  great 
embarrassment  to  those  of  stronger  character,  and  the  experi- 
ence of  those  early  days  bore  ample  testimony  to  this  fact. 


526  MINNESOTA  HISTORICAL  SOCIETY  COLLECTIONS. 

I  remember  well  the  New  Year's  Day  of  1850.  I  was  spend- 
ing the  holidays  with  Mr.  and  Mrs.  Edmund  Rice  in  St.  Paul; 
early  in  the  morning  of  this  day  a  delegation  of  Sioux  Indians 
from  the  west  side  of  the  village,  which  was  still  an  Indian 
reservation,  called  to  pay  their  respects.  They  shook  hands 
with  us,  said  in  English,  "Happy  New  Year,"  and  then  seated 
themselves  on  the  floor.  Mr.  Rice  sent  to  the  baker's  for 
bread,  and  gave  each  one  of  them  a  loaf ;  after  staying  a  short 
time,  they  bowed  in  a  very  courteous  manner  and  left.  Dur- 
ing the  afternoon  several  of  the  territorial  officers  called ;  they 
were  gentlemen  born  and  bred,  but  they  had  so  far  forgotten 
both  birth  and  breeding  that  they  fell  far  below, our  savage 
guests.  Mrs.  Rice  felt  so  insulted  by  their  behavior  that  she 
had  what  we  women  call  a  good  cry,  when  they  at  last  reeled 
out  of  her  home. 

My  brother  William  became  greatly  interested  in  some  of 
the  young  clerks  who  had  fallen  under  this  influence,  and 
brought  them  to  our  home  to  recover  from  the  effects  of  too 
much  liquor.  He  persuaded  two  of  them  to  resign  and  return 
to  their  homes;  one  of  them  became  a  prominent  Baptist  min- 
ister, and  the  other  a  famous  editor  in  Dayton,  Ohio.  They 
both  said  they  owed  their  salvation  to  my  brother's  efforts  in 
their  behalf.  My  brother  was  also  held  in  such  respect  by  the 
territorial  officers  that  during  a  week  when  he  was  a  guest  at 
the  American  House,  while  busy  surveying  an  addition  to  St. 
Paul,  no  liquor  was  served  at  the  table;  but,  to  compensate 
themselves  for  their  self-denial,  on  the  Saturday  my  brother 
left,  the  officials  of  the  Territory  had  a  jamboree  and  flooded 
the  dining-room  as  well  as  themselves  with  the  vile  stuff. 

In  the  spring  of  1850  the  Episcopalians  began  missionary 
and  pastoral  work  in  the  Territory,  and  the  Associate  Mission, 
consisting  of  three  clergymen,  Rev.  James  Lloyd  Breck,  Rev. 
Timothy  Wilcoxson,  and  Rev.  John  A.  Merrick,  arrived  in  St. 
Paul  and  located  on  the  mission  grounds  now  called  Park  Place. 
They  organized  Christ  Church  in  St.  Paul,  and  planned  to  visit 
Stillwater,  St.  Anthony,  and  other  places,  holding  service  once 
a  Sunday.  They, walked  to  these  several  stations  and  were 
faithful  workers  in  God's  vineyard.  The  seed  sown  then  has 


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produced  a  truly  bountiful  harvest  for  the  reapers  who  are 
gathering  it  and  sowing  again. 

One  little  incident  occurred  that  summer  which  is  worthy 
of  being  told.  One  Sunday  we  expected  the  Rev.  Mr.  Wilcox 
son  to  hold  service  in  St.  Anthony,  and  my  mother  prepared 
supper  for  him  in  her  hospitable  way,  but  he  did  not  come.  My 
brothers  and  I  went  to  church,  and  found  that  he  had  gone 
directly  there.  The  service  began,  but  in  the  midst  of  it  Mr. 
Wilcoxson  fainted;  the  congregation  was  dismissed,  and  later, 
when  he  was  taken  to  our  home,  we  found  out  that  he  had 
walked  from  St.  Paul  and  begun  the  service  without  having 
anything  to  eat;  nature  was  outraged  and  rebelled.  We  took 
the  best  possible  care  of  him,  and  the  next  morning,  after  a 
comfortable  breakfast,  he  left  us  to  return  to  St.  Paul.  As  a 
sequel  to  this,  five  years  later  when  my  mother  lay  dying  in 
St.  Paul,  Mr.  Wilcoxson  comforted  her  with  the  Church's 
prayers  and  blessing. 

A  personal  experience  during  this  early  residence  in  St. 
Anthony  shows  how  the  unexpected  may  come  to  pass.  A 
young  man  from  Boston  became  the  guest  of  my  brother,  and 
being  a  devout  Episcopalian  held  many  an  argument  with  me 
over  our  differing  religious  beliefs,  he  upholding  the  f  'faith 
once  delivered  to  the  saints,"  as  represented  by  the  Episcopal 
Church,  and  I  arguing  for  my  mother's  form  of  doctrine,  rep- 
resented by  the  Presbyterian  Church.  Finally  he  ended  our 
argument  by  saying,  "You  will  some  day  be  a  good  church- 
woman,  and  to  help  you  become  such  an  one  I  will  send  you  a 
Book  of  Common  Prayer,  and  I  know  you  will  use  it.  "  I  said, 
"You  will  only  be  wasting  money,  as  I  will  never  use  it;"  but 
he  was  as  good  as  his  word,  and  I  received  a  beautifully  bound 
copy  of  the  Prayer  Book.  In  the  year  1853  I  married  a  devout 
churchman,  and  the  prayer  book  sent  was  used  until  it  had 
grown  shabby,  and  it  has  since  been  carefully  preserved  as  a 
memento  of  former  days. 

In  June,  1850,  I  enjoyed  two  interesting  and  unique  river 
excursions.  One  was  early  in  that  month,  when  Mrs.  North 
and  I  were  guests  on  a  little  steamboat  called  the  Governor 
Ramsey,  on  its  trial  trip  up  the  river  ;  the  boat  was  built  above 
the  Falls,  to  ply  on  the  upper  Mississippi,  and  it  was  small  and 


528  MINNESOTA   HISTORICAL    SOCIETY    COLLECTIONS. 

of  very  light  draught,  We  left  St.  Anthony  one  morning,  the 
weather  being  delightful  so  that  we  spent  all  our  time  on  deck 
under  an  awning.  Captain  Rollins,  if  I  am  not  mistaken,  was 
in  charge  of  the  boat ;  at  evening  he  tied  up  to  the  river  bank, 
navigation  being  so  uncertain  that  the  pilot  did  not  dare  to 
proceed  during  the  night.  We  reached  our  destination  the  next 
day,  and,  I  think,  landed  at  what  is  now  Saint  Cloud ;  at  least, 
it  was  below  Sauk  Rapids. 

At  this  time  a  treaty  had  been  arranged  by  the  Governor 
between  the  hostile  tribes  of  Indians,  the  Sioux  and  Chippe- 
was,  to  take  place  at  Fort  Snelling ;  so  awaiting  our  boat  were 
several  hundred  Chippewas  to  be  transported  to  the  fort.  Mr. 
Beaulieu  was  the  interpreter;  he  was  a  French  Canadian  who 
had  lived  many  years  among  the  Chippewas,  and  had  an  Indian 
wife.  The  Indians  came  on  board,  and  we  steamed  down  the 
river  on  our  return  trip.  Mrs.  North  and  I  were  much  inter- 
ested in  watching  our  Indian  passengers,  who  were  well  con- 
trolled by  their  chief;  no  body  of  white  men  could  have  be- 
haved better.  Indians  are  great  admirers  of  red  or  curly  hair, 
and  my  hair,  though  brown,  curled  naturally  and  profusely, 
and  it  was  so  worn  according  to  the  fashion  of  those  days. 
Several  of  them  came  to  me  and  lifted  my  curls  in  their  hands, 
saying  in  their  native  tongue,  "Pretty,  pretty."  It  did  not 
make  me  feel  very  comfortable, 'but  I  knew  that  they  meant 
no  harm,  only  admiration,  and  I  didn't  resent  their  familiarity. 
The  homeward  trip  was  charming;  the  little  steamboat  stood 
its  trial  trip  satisfactorily ;  but  it  did  not  prove  to  be  profitable 
afterward,  and  it  was  taken  to  pieces  and  transferred  to  the 
Red  river. 

Quite  a  party  of  St.  Anthony  people  attended  the  treaty  at 
Fort  Snelling,  on  the  12th  of  June.  We  went  in  a  farmer's 
wagon  and  across  a  prairie  where  now  stands  the  city  of  Min- 
neapolis, not  a  single  cabin  meeting  our  eyes  in  any  direction ; 
there  were  many  wild  flowers,  and  the  air  was  fragrant  with 
the  wild  strawberries.  We  passed  Lake  Calhoun  and  Lake 
Harriet,  and  crossed  their  outlet  above  Minnehaha  Falls.  Like 
St.  Anthony  Falls,  the  natural  beauty  of  these  lakes  and  of  the 
picturesque  Minnehaha  have  been  partially  spoiled  by  the  hand 
of  man. 


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It  was  an  interesting  scene  at  the  fort ;  the  Chippewas  were 
stationed  on  the  ground  inside  the  fort,  when  the  Sioux 
marched  up  the  steep  hill  and  circled  around  their  deadly  ene- 
mies. The  commandant  had  the  guns  trained  on  them  ready 
to  use  if  there  should  be  the  least  outbreak;  but  the  Indians 
were  cowed,  knowing  the  white  men  had  them  in  their  power. 
The  Chippewas  were  a  much  finer  appearing  body  of  men  than 
the  Sioux;  and  their  chief,  Hole-in-the-Day,  was  a  dignified, 
grand  looking  Indian,  reminding  one  of  the  Indian  chiefs  we 
read  about  in  colonial  days. 

Governor  Ramsey  and  the  commissioners  had  everything 
planned,  and  acted  with  such  good  judgment  that  they  accom- 
plished what  they  wished.  On  our  return  home  across  the 
prairie,  we  lost  our  way  and  were  several  hours  getting  back 
on  the  right  trail,  so  we  arrived  home  late  in  the  evening. 

Fifty-one  years  later  I  met  these  tribes  of  Indians,  or  rather 
members  of  these  two  tribes,  amid  very  different  surroundings 
and  on  a  very  different  occasion ;  it  was  at  the  funeral  of  our 
beloved  Bishop  Whipple,  held  in  the  cathedral  at  Faribault. 
A  band  of  Christian  Chippewas  and  a  band  of  Christian  Sioux 
came  to  show  their  love  for  one  who  had  been  to  them  truly 
an  apostle;  each  band  had  a  share  in  the  service,  one  band 
singing  a  hymn  in  their  native  language  during  the  service  in 
the  cathedral,  and  the  other  band  singing  outside  the  cathedral 
at  the  close  of  the  service.  I,  who  had  known  them  when  to 
meet  was  to  murder  each  other,  could  not  but  marvel  at  the 
power  of  Christ  which  could  convert  deadly  enemies  into 
brothers.  The  hymns  they  sang  were  much  more  effective  as 
funeral  hymns  than  those  rendered  by  the  cathedral  choir ;  and 
I  remember  feeling  this  same  way  when  attending  the  me- 
morial service  for  Queen  Victoria  in  Honolulu.  The  native 
Hawaiians  sang  at  that  service,  and  their  music  was  pathetic 
and  solemn,  being  much  better  adapted  to  a  mournful  occa- 
sion than  that  of  the  American  choir. 

My  second  river  excursion  was  enjoyed  on  the  first  steam- 
boat that  made  an  exploring  trip  up  the  Minnesota  river.  On 
the  morning  of  June  28,  1850,  the  Anthony  Wayne  under 
charge  of  Captain  Dan  Able  left  St.  Paul  for  a  journey  up  the 


53(J  MINNESOTA   HISTORICAL    SOCIETY    COLLECTIONS. 

unknown  waters  of  the  St.  Peter  river,  now  called  the  Minne- 
sota. There  was  a  gay  crowd  on  board,  composed  of  our  most 
prominent  citizens,  with  quite  a  number  of  young  men  and 
women  who  later  grew  to  be  the  bone  and  sinew  of  our  great 
Northwest.  At  this  time  I  was  the  guest  of  Mrs.  Edmund  Rice 
of  St.  Paul,  in  whose  home  I  met  the  gentleman  who  was  my 
escort  on  the  excursion;  he  was  Gen.  Sylvanus  B.  Lowry  of 
Stearns  county,  whose  principal  city,  St.  Cloud,  was  then  a 
small  village.  General  Lowry  was  a  Kentuckian  by  birth,  the 
son  of  a  Presbyterian  minister,  and  had  all  the  polish  of  a  well- 
born gentleman.  We  had  a  band  of  music  on  board,  and  also 
a  quantity  of  fireworks,  which  were  to  be  fired  off  the  night 
we  reached  the  highest  point  on  the  river.  I  shall  never  forget 
the  beauty  of  that  ride;  the  vegetation  was  perfect,  as  it  al- 
ways is  in  this  climate  in  June ;  the  banks  were  gay  with  wild 
flowers  of  gorgeous  hues,  and  acres  and  acres  of  wild  roses 
covered  the  islands  we  passed  by.  We  landed  at  various 
points,  amusing  ourselves  by  gathering  flowers  and  walking 
through  grass  a  foot  or  more  in  height.  Sunset  brought  us 
to  a  mission  station,  now  the  city  of  Shakopee,  and  the  mis- 
sionary in  charge  was  the  Rev.  Samuel  W.  Pond. 

The  Indians  there  were  Sioux  or  Dacotahs ;  they  had  never 
seen  such  a  monster  as  a  steamboat,  and  were  so  excited  that 
Mr.  Pond  would  not  let  us  set  off  the  fire  works,  and  said  that 
the  Indians  probably  could  not  be  restrained  and  might  cause 
great  trouble.  The  night  was  anything  but  peaceful,  however ; 
it  was  not  the  Indians  who  disturbed  us,  but  billions  upon  bil- 
lions of  mosquitoes;  they  filled  the  air,  and  the  walls  of  our 
cabin  were  black  with  them;  we  walked  the  deck  all  night 
fighting  them  off.  In  the  morning  the  captain  concluded  he 
had  reached  the  highest  point  to  which  it  was  safe  to  go  and 
turned  homeward;  aside  from  the  plague  of  mosquitoes,  we 
had  a  jolly  time  dancing  and  feasting  to  our  heart's  content. 
Again  my  greatest  admirers  on  this  trip  were  some  half-civil- 
ized Indians  who  often  touched  my  curly  hair,  saying,  in  their 
language,  "Pretty,  pretty." 

My  mother's  health  not  being  very  good,  my  brother  Wil- 
liam thought  it  best  for  her  to  visit  her  old  home  in  Kentucky, 


A  SHEAF  OF  REMEMBRANCES.  531 

and  accordingly  arrangements  were  made  for  us  to  spend  the 
winter  of  1850-51  in  the  South;  we  were  to  leave  St.  Paul  on 
the  last  steamboat  of  the  season,  about  the  first  of  November, 
and  we  boarded  in  St.  Paul  at  the  Central  House  a  few  days 
waiting  for  the  steamer.  At  the  hotel  we  found  Miss  Harriet 
E.  Bishop  prepared  to  be  a  passenger  also ;  we  were  much  sur- 
prised to  find  that  she  had  decided  to  leave,  thinking  her  more 
permanently  established  than  many  others.  But  a  great  dis- 
appointment had  come  into  her  life,  and  as  her  story  was  quite 
romantic  and  unusual  for  those  days,  I  shall  tell  it  here. 

In  1848  Governor  Slade  of  Vermont,  who  was  much  inter- 
ested in  educational  matters,  sent  out  two  teachers  to  Minne- 
sota; they  were  Miss  Amanda  Horsford  (later  Mrs.  H.  L.  Moss) 
to  Stillwater,  and  Miss  Bishop  to  St.  Paul.  One  year  later  he 
sent  Miss  Backus  to  St.  Anthony.  Miss  Bishop  found  St.  Paul 
an  Indian  half-breed  village  with  a  very  few  white  people,  but 
she  opened  the  first  school  here  in  a  log  hut  and  did  her  duty 
faithfully  to  her  pupils.  As  I  have  before  said,  she  was  the 
first  one  to  greet  us  on  our  arrival  in  May,  1849,  and  she  be- 
came quite  intimate  in  our  family  and  was  always  a  welcome 
visitor. 

Miss  Bishop  became  engaged  to  Mr.  James  K.  Humphrey,  a 
young  lawyer  of  St.  Paul,  and  some  years  younger  than  her- 
self, but  not  her  equal  intellectually.  She  was  devoted  to  him, 
and  during  all  one  summer  had  planned  to  be  married  in  the 
fall ;  Mr.  Humphrey  had  built  a  pretty  cottage  on  Irvine  Park ; 
the  trousseau  had  been  completed,  and  everything  was  going 
smoothly;  but,  alas,  there  was  a  rock  ahead  which  made  ship- 
wreck of  all  these  fond  anticipations  and  plans.  Mr.  Hum- 
phrey's sister,  Mrs.  Selby,  came  back  from  the  East,  where  she 
had  been  spending  the  summer,  and  she  forbade  the  bans;  her 
only  reason  stated  was  that  Miss  Bishop  was  older  than  her 
brother;  and  he  then  and  there  proved  our  opinion  of  him, 
that  he  was  weak,  and  broke  the  engagement.  Miss  Bishop 
was  broken-hearted  and  decided  she  could  not  remain  in  St. 
Paul ;  we  all  sympathized  with  her,  but  thought  that  she  would 
realize  after  a  time  that  he  had  not  been  worthy  of  her  love. 
Nevertheless  the  result  was  that  her  life  was  wrecked  and  she 


532  MINNESOTA   HISTORICAL    SOCIETY    COLLECTIONS. 

seemed  to  lose  her  fine  mental  balance.  She  married  a  few 
years  after  this,  and  was  the  author  of  a  historical  book  enti- 
tled "Dakota  War  Whoop,  or  Indian  Massacres  and  War  in 
Minnesota,  of  1862-3;"  but  she  had  lost  her  prestige  as  Miss 
Bishop,  and  twenty  years  later  she  died  in  this  city,  almost 
unknown.  An  island  in  the  river  was  named  Harriet  after  her, 
and  today  this  island  is  covered  with  the  Public  Baths  and 
Playgrounds,  so  that  in  a  certain  sense  her  name  will  always 
be  connected  with  the  education  and  enlightenment  of  youth. 

Upon  our  arrival  South,  it  was  thought  best  that  I  should 
spend  a  few  months  in  a  boarding-school  in  Quincy,  Illinois, 
my  former  home.  The  school  was  organized  and  run  by  Cath- 
erine Beecher,  sister  of  Henry  Ward  Beecher;  the  teachers 
were  all  from  Boston  and  very  celebrated  women.  I  had  the 
privilege  of  selecting  my  studies,  and  chose  music,  Latin, 
French,  and  history.  Mrs.  Dana,  an  aunt  of  Richard  Dana, 
author  of  "Two  Years  Before  the  Mast,"  was  the  history 
teacher;  and  her  daughter,  Miss  Dana,  taught  Latin  and 
French. 

In  June,  1851,  my  mother  and  I  returned  to  Minnesota  and 
to  our  home  in  St.  Anthony.  The  trip  by  steamboat  from 
Quincy  to  St.  Paul  was  delightful  in  the  beautiful  summer 
weather;  the  present  generation  cannot  realize  what  the  Mis- 
sissippi was  and  still  is. 

The  summer  of  1851  passed  very  much  as  did  the  summer 
of  '49 ;  numerous  tourists  came  to  view  the  country,  and  many 
became  permanent  residents-  One  especially  interesting  event 
of  that  summer  was  the  visit  of  the  Swedish  authoress,  Fred- 
rika  Bremer ;  she  was  the  guest  of  Governor  and  Mrs.  Ramsey, 
and  they  brought  her  to  St.  Anthony  Falls  to  enjoy  its  beauty. 
They  called  on  my  mother,  and  later  my  brother  William  and  I 
accompanied  them  on  a  visit  to  Mrs.  North,  who  lived  on  Nicol- 
let  island. 

It  is  very  hard  to  believe  that  sixty  years  ago  that  island 
had  only  one  house  on  it,  and  that  one  built  of  logs ;  it  was  also 
heavily  wooded,  and  in  its  wild  state  was  very  beautiful. 
There  was  no  bridge  connecting  it  with  the  main  land;  the 
crossing  had  to  be  made  on  the  pine  logs  lying  in  the  mill  dam 


A  SHEAF  OF  REMEMBRANCES.  533 

above  the  sawmills.  Mrs.  North  was  a  fine  musician,  and  I  had 
taken  music  lessons  from  her,  and  so  I  had  become  quite  ac- 
complished in  making  this  dangerous  passage  every  day.  But 
naturally  Miss  Bremer  was  terrified  at  the  prospect,  and  Gov- 
ernor Ramsey  and  my  brother  had  to  use  their  best  persuasive 
powers  to  get  her  started  on  the  perilous  journey.  Fortunately 
the  logs  nearer  the  mill  were  more  tightly  jammed,  and  the 
noted  authoress  reached  the  island  safely.  Mrs.  North  enter- 
tained us  with  some  of  the  finest  selections  of  music,  both  vocal 
and  instrumental,  and  at  the  conclusion  of  our  visit  we  re- 
turned to  the  main  shore  over  the  same  log  jam.  I  remember 
one  remark  of  Miss  Bremer  on  that  memorable  visit ;  she  was 
asked  to  sing,  but  declined,  saying,  "I  only  sing  for  God  in 
the  church,  and  for  little  children." 

When  I  now  visit  the  city  of  Minneapolis  and  see  Nicollet 
island,  with  its  streets  and  row  upon  row  of  houses,  street  cars 
crossing  it,  and  bridges  on  either  side,  I  think  progress  is  all 
utilitarian.  No  grand  cataract,  no  magnificent  forest  trees,  no 
majestic  river,  are  there  now;  but  everything  has  been  bound 
and  fettered,  to  add  to  the  wealth  and  comfort  of  man.  I  am 
glad  that  I  lived  in  the  wild  days  when  nature  reigned  supreme. 

In  the  fall  of  1851  I  went  to  Rock  Island,  Illinois,  to  act  as 
bridesmaid  to  my  friend,  Miss  Slaymaker,  and  while  I  was  away 
my  family  made  a  momentous  change.  My  brothers  had  de- 
cided that  the  future  of  St.  Anthony  would  be  greatly  retarded 
from  the  fact  that  the  water  power  was  in  litigation,  and  that 
it  might  be  years  before  the  lawsuits  .would  end  and  the  power 
could  be  used;  but  they  knew  that  St.  Paul,  as  the  head  of 
navigation,  was  bound  to  be  a  commercial  city,  and  so  they 
decided  to  remove  to  this  place.  Then,  too,  the  strife  between 
the  "Twin  Cities,"  as  they  were  fain  to  be  called,  was  well 
begun. 

St.  Anthony  residents  contended  that  their  city  was  the 
head  of  navigation ;  and  indeed,  to  prove  it,  one  steamboat  was 
induced  to  ascend  the  river  as  far  as  Cheever  's  landing,  a  point 
near  where  the  University  now  stands.  The  citizens  of  St. 
Anthony  made  a  great  celebration  over  the  event,  and  in  the 
evening  a  dance  on  board  the  boat  was  given;  but  on  the  re- 


534  MINNESOTA    HISTORICAL    SOCIETY    COLLECTIONS. 

turn  of  the  boat  to  St.  Paul,  the  captain  said  that  nothing  would 
ever  induce  him  to  take  that  risk  again.  He  had  not  expected 
to  reach  St.  Paul  without  the  loss  of  the  boat,  and  perhaps  of 
life;  but  we  passengers  knew  nothing  of  the  danger  and  en- 
joyed it  all.  As  far  as  I  know,  that  was  the  first  and  last  time 
a  boat  reached  Cheever's  landing. 

On  my  return  to  St.  Paul  from  the  wedding,  I  found  my 
family  living  there.  My  brother  had  bought  several  lots  on 
Irvine  Park,  and  had  a  much  more  comfortable  house  than  the 
one  we  had  in  St.  Anthony. 

The  winter  of  1851-2  was  spent  very  pleasantly;  small 
dancing  parties  were  given,  and  many  sleigh  rides  were  taken 
on  the  river  to  Fort  Snelling.  In  the  spring  of  '52  my  brother 
Joseph  kept  the  house  on  Irvine  Park,  and  my  brother  William 
bought  a  house  on  the  northwest  corner  of  Rice  Park  and 
Fourth  street,  into  which  my  mother,  himself,  and  I  moved.  In 
this  house  I  was  married,  and  in  it  my  mother  died ;  it  has  long 
since  been  torn  down,  and  the  only  thing  left  to  remind  me  of 
those  old  days  is  a  maple  tree,  one  of  a  row  that  my  mother 
had  transplanted  there;  it  still  flourishes,  but  each  spring  I 
expect  it  will  disappear  to  give  place  to  modern  improvements. 

In  this  locality  was  the  First  Methodist  Church;  it  was 
built  in  1849,  and  was  used  as  a  place  of  worship  by  the  Meth- 
odists for  many  years ;  later  it  was  occupied  by  the  New  Jeru- 
salem or  Swedenborgian  congregation;  it  still  stands  to  re- 
mind us  of  the  day  of  small  things,  in  contrast  to  the  present 
beautiful  Methodist  church  edifice  just  completed  in  a  fashion- 
able part  of  the  city.  I  do  not  think  that  one  member  of  the 
congregation  who  worshipped  in  the  little  brick  church  on  Rice 
Park  in  1849  is  now  living.  Truly,  man  passes  away  like  a 
shadow,  but  "the  word  of  God  abideth  forever." 

In  1852-3  my  brothers  had  a  hardware  store  on  Washing- 
ton street,  near  the  corner  of  Fourth  street;  they  sold  it  to 
John  Nicols,  and  it  is  now  a  large  wholesale  store,  the  firm 
name  being  "Nicols,  Dean  &  Gregg,"  two  of  the  proprietors 
being  son  and  son-in-law  of  the  Mr.  Nicols  who  purchased  it 
from  my  brothers.  Afterward  my  brothers  organized  a  bank 
that  failed  in  the  great  panic  of  1857,  which  was  so  general 


A  SHEAF  OF  REMEMBRANCES.  535 

that  not  one  citizen  of  the  Northwest  escaped  the  crash ;  busi- 
ness houses  fell  down  like  card  houses.  Every  one  had  to  start 
anew  to  build  up  his  fortune,  but  all  being  young  and  full  of 
energy  we  went  to  work  immediately;  in  a  few  years  we  had 
forgotten  the  trials  and  economies  of  the  panic,  which  really 
lasted  until  the  outbreak  of  the  Civil  War  in  1861- 

As  I  think  of  those  years,  I  cannot  remember  that  the  loss 
of  money  made  any  of  us  unhappy ;  we  all  went  down  together, 
and  we  were  all  willing  to  economize  and  live  plainly,  enter- 
taining our  friends  and  having  a  happy  time  in  a  simple  way. 
Youth,  happy  youth,  always  hopeful,  looks  forward  to  the 
good  time,  which  most  of  us  realized. 

We  were  living  on  Rice  Park  when  I  met  my  husband.  I 
was  taking  tea  with  Miss  Day,  a  friend  of  mine  who  was  visit- 
ing her  brother  who  lived  on  the  corner  of  Wabasha  and  Tenth 
streets,  opposite  the  old  Capitol,  and  in  the  evening  two  young 
gentlemen  called  on  us,  Mr.  William  P.  Murray  and  Mr.  Alex- 
ander H.  Cathcart.  I  had  never  met  either  gentleman  before ; 
the  evening  passed  pleasantly,  and  in  a  few  days,  having  asked 
my  permission,  both  gentlemen  called  at  our  house.  The  win- 
ter of  1852-3  was  a  gay  one,  and  my  acquaintance  with  Mr. 
Cathcart  progressed  so  rapidly  that  I  was  engaged  to  him  in 
the  spring,  and  we  were  married  the  following  November  on 
the  tenth  day  of  the  month.  Mr.  Cathcart,  born  and  raised  in 
Toronto,  Canada,  was  a  member  of  the  Church  of  England,  and 
at  his  request,  we  were  married  by  an  Episcopal  clergyman. 
After  our  marriage  we  attended  Christ  Church,  became  com- 
municants of  the  church,  and  I  am  still  a  member,  having  com- 
pleted my  sixtieth  year  of  enjoyment  of  this  great  privilege. 

My  mother  had  been  failing  in  health  for  a  year  or  more, 
and  died  in  January,  1854;  her  grave  was  one  of  the  first  in 
Oakland  Cemetery.  She  was  a  member  of  the  First  Presby- 
terian Church,  on  Third  street  midway  between  Market  and 
St.  Peter  streets,  of  which  the  Rev.  Edward  D.  Neill  was  pastor. 

My  marriage  and  my  mother 's  death  brought  great  changes 
to  our  household,  and  in  the  spring  of  '54  we  left  the  home  on 
Fourth  street  and  for  a  few  months  lived  on  Seventh  street  be- 
low Broadway.  We  then  bought  a  house  on  Robert  street,  at 


536  MINNESOTA    HISTORICAL    SOCIETY    COLLECTIONS. 

that  time  a  very  pleasant  location,  though  now  one  of  the  most 
forlorn  parts  of  the  city.  The  little  cottage  is  still  standing, 
and  it  is  hard  to  realize  that  it  was  once  a  comfortable  and 
happy  home. 

In  the  fall  of  1857  my  husband  purchased  a  newly  built 
residence  on  Summit  avenue  between  Rice  and  St.  Peter  streets ; 
at  that  time  this  location  was  one  of  the  best  in  the  city.  The 
block  opposite  our  home  was  owned  by  the  Episcopal  Church, 
and  it  was  expected  that  the  future  bishop's  residence  and  the 
cathedral  would  be  built  on  those  grounds. 

The  three  clergymen,  Dr.  Breck,  Rev.  Mr.  Wilcoxson,  and 
Rev.  Mr.  Merrick,  occupied  a  building  there ;  the  grounds  were 
beautiful,  each  clergyman  having  a  flower  garden  amidst  the 
fine  native  oak  trees ;  this  gave  us  a  charming  outlook,  and  we 
felt  settled  for  life.  Alas,  how  uncertain  life  is!  Now  that 
fine  neighborhood  has  deteriorated;  the  mission  property  has 
been  allowed  to  go  to  rack  and  ruin;  boarding  houses  have 
crowded  in,  and  the  bishop's  residence  and  cathedral  are  in 
Faribault. 

When  we  moved  to  the  Summit  avenue  home,  no  grading 
had  been  done  on  either  Rice  street  or  St.  Peter  street.  The 
ascent  up  St.  Peter  street  was  very  steep,  and  the  road  ran 
through  a  Roman  Catholic  cemetery,  one  of  the  first  to  be 
located  in  the  city.  A  little  below,  we  crossed  the  street  in 
front  of  the  old  Capitol  on  Wabasha  street  on  a  plank  walk 
elevated  a  few  feet,  as  all  the  ground  below  the  St.  Peter  street 
hill  was  then  a  tamarack  swamp ;  the  trees  had  been  cut  down, 
but  the  swamp  was  not  yet  drained.  It  is  very  difficult  now  to 
realize  that  this  condition  existed,  when  I  see  that  part  of  the 
city  so  closely  built  up  with  large  substantial  houses;  and  it 
seems  like  a  dream  when  my  mind,  going  back  to  1857  and  the 
following  years,  recalls  the  many  nights  I  worried  about  my 
husband's  returning  after  nightfall  across  that  swamp,  and 
lest  he  should  stumble  into  one  of  the  empty  graves  in  the 
cemetery.  Gradually  this  cemetery  was  removed,  and  when 
St.  Peter  street  was  graded  and  the  mission  grounds  leased  to 
a  company  who  were  to  build  the  Park  Place  Hotel,  it  became 
necessary  to  remove  all  the  bodies  remaining;  it  was  a  grue- 


A  SHEAF  OF  REMEMBRANCES.  537 

some  sight  to  see  wagon  load  after  wagon  load  of  them  taken 
away. 

On  the  mission  grounds  there  was  a  spring  of  water,  which 
was  supposed  to  contain  a  great  deal  of  iron,  and  the  good 
clergymen  had  it  so  arranged  that  people  generally  could  drink 
the  water,  thinking  it  very  beneficial ;  but,  like  many  other  so- 
called  health-giving  remedies,  it  proved,  on  being  analyzed,  to 
have  no  medicinal  qualities  at  all,  but  to  be  only  the  seepings 
of  the  tamarack  swamp. 

The  panic  did  not  materially  affect  Mr.  Cathcart's  business 
until  1862,  when  he  compromised  with  his  creditors,  by  giving 
or  assigning  to  them  all  his  property,  and  continued  to  carry 
on  his  dry  goods  store,  the  largest  one  in  the  city-  We  removed 
from  our  homestead  on  Summit  avenue,  between  Rice  and  St. 
Peter  streets,  to  another  house  on  Summit  avenue  near  where 
James  J.  Hill  now  lives.  This  house  was  built  by  Mr.  Master- 
son,  a  young  lawyer,  who  went  East  and  brought  back  his 
bride  to  this  far  Western  home,  but  his  visions  of  happiness 
disappeared  within  two  years,  as  his  wife  died;  the  house  was 
closed,  and  it  was  not  again  occupied  until  we  moved  into  it  in 
the  spring  of  1863. 

Mr.  Masterson  had  planted  grape  vines  on  his  terraces,  and 
also  pear  and  peach  trees ;  he  was  fond  of  gardening  and  took 
great  care  of  the  little  orchard.  Knowing  that  peaches  and 
pears  were  too  tender  to  endure  our  cold  climate  very  well,  he 
dwarfed  the  trees,  training  the  branches  on  the  ground  so  that 
they  could  be  well  covered  during  the  winter ;  as  a  reward  for 
this  skillful  care,  the  trees  and  vines  were  all  bearing  fruit  in 
the  fall  of  '63.  He  was  proud  of  the  results  of  his  labor,  as 
well  as  he  might  be ;  these  delicate  fruits  had  never  before  been 
raised  in  this  climate  out  of  doors,  and,  as  far  as  my  knowledge 
extends,  they  have  never  been  grown  successfully  up  to  this 
time,  1913.  Grapes  of  a  hardy  variety  are  grown  in  abundance, 
but  Mr.  Masterson  was  able  to  raise  the  choice  varieties  which 
have  never  been  cultivated  so  far  north. 

Wishing  to  give  his  friends  a  rare  treat,  he  invited  over  a 
hundred  of  them  to  partake  of  the  fruit  on  the  lawn  surround- 
ing his  former  home,  and  urged  every  one  to  eat  all  he  or  she 


538  MINNESOTA  HISTORICAL  SOCIETY  COLLECTIONS. 

could,  afterward  distributing  what  was  left  among  them.  Our 
family  received  a  quantity  of  pears,  which  being  kept  in  a  dark 
place  improved  with  age.  I  have  written  about  this  little  at- 
tempt at  fruit  growing  in  early  days  because  I  am  almost  the 
only  one  left  to  remember  this  feasting  on  fruit  which  was  sup- 
posed impossible  to  be  raised  in  Minnesota;  but  Mr.  Master- 
son's  enthusiasm  expired  after  he  had  proved  his  experiment 
to  be  successful,  and  he  allowed  both  grape  vines  and  fruit 
trees  to  die  out,  so  that  there  was  never  again  such  a  picnic 
on  those  grounds.  A  fine  residence  has  now  replaced  the  house 
built  for  his  bride,  and  an  automobile  garage  occupies  the  ter- 
race where  his  grape  vines  grew. 

Summit  avenue  was  a  lonely  place  at  this  time.  Between  it 
and  Selby  avenue  stood  a  dense  forest  of  native  oaks,  and  the 
few  houses  were  separated  by  large,  unoccupied  grounds. 
Many  and  many  a  night,  after  the  Indian  massacre  of  1862, 
have  I  lain  awake  listening  for  the  Indian  warwhoop,  and 
thinking  how  easily  they  could  come  through  the  woods  and 
kill  us  all. 

Our  present  inhabitants,  in  their  palatial  homes  that  line 
our  famous  avenue,  may  think  that  I  am  drawing  on  my  imagi- 
nation in  giving  these  pen  pictures,  but  it  is  all  true. 

The  foregoing  reminiscences  have  told  some  of  the  inci- 
dents of  the  Territorial  days  and  the  early  statehood  of  Min- 
nesota; and  I  wish  now  to  emphasize  the  social  life  and  qual- 
ities of  some  of  my  early  friends  and  acquaintances. 

As  I  have  said,  the  Twin  Cities  were  particularly  fortunate 
in  the  class  of  young  men  which  they  attracted-  They  were 
mostly  college-bred  men  from  fine  families,  who  had  the  enter- 
prise and  enthusiasm  to  test  Horace  Greeley's  advice,  "Go 
West,  young  man,  go  West." 

Those  who  went  to  St.  Anthony  have  proved  what  they 
could  do  by  the  wonderful  city  of  Minneapolis,  which  in  time 
absorbed  the  town  of  St.  Anthony.  Almost  all  the  pioneer 
founders  have  passed  into  the  Great  Unknown,  but  "their 
works  do  follow  them. ' '  The  little  village  has  become  a  great 
and  mighty  city,  known  all  over  the  world  in  sending  the  "staff 
of  life"  to  its  utmost  bounds. 


A  SHEAF  OF  REMEMBRANCES.  539 

St.  Paul,  being  the  head  of  navigation,  and  the  state  capital, 
attracted  the  commercially  and  politically  inclined;  many  of 
the  young  men  who  came  here  were  budding  lawyers,  pros- 
pective merchants,  and  bankers.  They  had  so  much  energy 
that  they  did  not  sit  down  and  wait  for  business, — indeed,  that 
would  have  been  a  weary  waiting, — but  set  to  work  at  the  first 
task  that  offered  itself;  some  who  afterwards  became  famous 
as  lawyers  and  bankers,  taught  school,  did  carpenter  work,  or 
employed  their  time  in  other  ways  earning  an  honest  penny. 
Most  of  them  had  become  engaged  to  be  married  before  com- 
ing out  here,  and  as  soon  as  they  could  make  and  keep  a  home 
they  brought  their  brides  here,  and  then  began  the  social  life 
of  our  city. 

As  early  as  the  years  1843-4  some  of  the  most  prominent 
citizens  were  living  at  Fort  Snelling  and  Mendota.  Henry  H. 
Sibley  married  Miss  Steele  in  '43,  and  when  Governor  Ramsey 
came  in  May,  '49,  he  and  his  wife  were  entertained  by  Mr.  and 
Mrs.  Sibley  in  their  hospitable  home  at  Mendota.  Franklin 
Steele,  Mrs.  Sibley 's  brother,  was  then  sutler  at  the  fort,  and 
he  had  a  charming  wife  who  became  a  leader  in  the  social  life 
of  our  city. 

I  must  not  neglect  to  give  due  honour  to  the  very  earliest 
pioneer  women,  Mrs.  John  R.  Irvine  and  Mrs.  Jacob  Bass.  We 
forty-niners  found  them  here,  and  they  antedated  us  by  several 
years.  Mrs.  Irvine  came  in  the  year  1843,  and  endured  great 
hardships  in  the  truly  pioneer  days;  she  was  a  remarkably 
handsome  woman,  and  her  mental  characteristics  equalled  her 
physical  beauty ;  through  all  the  trying  yars  before  this  North- 
west could  be  called  civilized  she  kept  her  womanly  qualities, 
and  when  refined  social  life  displaced  the  early  frontier  so- 
ciety, Mrs.  Irvine  took  her  place  among  the  best;  during  the 
many  years  she  was  permitted  to  live  in  our  midst,  she  was 
prominent  in  all  good  works,  and  died  at  a  good  old  age,  great- 
ly regretted. 

Mrs.  Bass  came,  a  very  young  bride,  to  the  French  and  half- 
breed  village  called  St.  Paul,  and  assisted  her  husband  in  wel- 
coming the  new  comers  whom  every  steamboat  brought  to  the 
newly  organized  Territory.  I  remember  well  the  pleasant 


540  MINNESOTA    HISTORICAL    SOCIETY    COLLECTIONS. 

greeting  which  my  mother  and  I  received  on  reaching  the  St. 
Paul  House,  after  the  dreary  landing  at  what  seemed  to  us  the 
end  of  civilized  life.  Mrs.  Bass  was  then  the  mother  of  two 
sons,  one  aged  six  years  and  the  other  six  months.  Edgar,  the 
elder,  and  I  became  friends  and  spent  part  of  each  day  picking 
flowers  in  a  deep  ravine  back  of  the  hotel,  and  decorating  the 
dining-room  table.  The  difference  of  twelve  years  in  our  ages 
did  not  prevent  our  comradeship,  as  Edgar  was  a  manly  little 
fellow;  he  became  an  officer  in  the  U.  S.  army,  and  is  now  on 
the  retired  list.  Mrs.  Bass  helped  greatly  in  the  formative 
period  of  our  social  life,  and  when  her  husband  became  wealthy 
and  built  a  beautiful  home  on  Woodward  avenue,  she  enter- 
tained in  a  most  hospitable  manner;  and,  by  the  way,  their 
house  was  the  first  one  in  St.  Paul  to  have  French  plate  glass 
windows.  She  died  this  past  summer,  1913,  and  we  all  feel 
that  our  city  has  been  made  the  better  for  her  life. 

Ex-Governor  Marshall,  in  his  address  before  the  old  set- 
tlers of  Hennepin  county,  considered  the  coming  of  Henry  M. 
Rice  the  turning  point  in  favor  of  St.  Paul.  Socially  it  was  a 
most  fortunate  incident,  for  Mr.  Rice  brought  his  bride,  a 
charming  Southern  girl,  in  the  spring  of  '49,  and  they  began 
housekeeping  in  a  cottage  he  built  on  Third  street  near  what 
is  now  Washington  street;  this  cottage  was  beautifully  fur- 
nished, and  it  was  the  beginning  of  one  of  our  loveliest  homes. 
Mr.  Rice  had  the  task  of  removing  the  Winnebago  Indians 
from  their  reservation  at  Fort  Atkinson  in  1848 ;  it  was  a  most 
difficult  undertaking,  as  the  Indians  were  very  unwilling  to 
move  to  the  cold  Northwest.  While  superintending  the  re- 
moval of  this  tribe,  he  became  interested  in  St.  Paul  and  bought 
an  interest  in  the  village  from  John  R.  Irvine;  this  property 
was  surveyed  and  called  Rice  and  Irvine's  Addition,  and  after- 
ward it  became  an  important  part  of  the  city. 

Another  addition  to  the  social  life  of  1849  was  the  arrival 
in  July  of  Mr.  and  Mrs.  Edmund  Rice,  with  Mr.  Rice's  sister, 
who  later,  in  1851,  married  Mr.  William  Hollinshead,  a  prom- 
inent lawyer  from  Philadelphia.  Mr.  Rice  being  a  lawyer,  a 
law  firm  was  established  bearing  the  name,  "Rice,  Hollinshead 
&  Becker." 


A  SHEAF  OF  REMEMBRANCES.  541 

Another  charming  family  came  that  same  summer,  Rev. 
Edward  D.  Neill  and  wife ;  Mr.  Neill  purchased  a  lot  on  the 
corner  of  Fourth  street  and  Rice  Park,  and  built  a  two  story 
brick  house,  which  was  a  most  attractive  home  for  many  years. 
This  was  the  first  brick  dwelling  house  in  the  city.  Mrs.  Neill, 
a  very  attractive  lady,  became  a  social  power,  standing  for  the 
best  religiously  and  socially.  Mr.  Neill  built  a  small  chapel 
on  Washington  street  during  the  summer  of  '49,  and  this 
chapel  was  the  progenitor  of  the  First  Presbyterian  Church 
built  on  Third  street  in  1850;  unfortunately  this  chapel  was 
burned  down  in  the  winter  of  that  same  year. 

Mr.  J.  W.  Selby  and  his  family  came  in  '49  also ;  they  came 
from  Ohio,  and  after  looking  around  Mr.  Selby  decided  to  buy 
a  farm  adjoining  the  village ;  this  farm  extended  from  what  is 
now  College  avenue  to  Dale  street,  and  from  Dayton  avenue 
to  Summit  avenue.  On  hearing  of  this  purchase,  Mr.  Rice  said, 
"What  a  fool  Selby  is  to  go  out  into  the  woods."  Mr.  Selby 
built  a  very  small  cottage  on  the  hill  near  where  the  First 
Methodist  Church  (now  abandoned)  stands;  St.  Anthony  hill, 
as  it  was  called,  was  very  steep  and  had  a  tamarack  swamp  at 
its  foot,  crossed  by  a  corduroy  bridge.  After  the  arrival  of 
Mrs.  Selby,  with  her  sister  and  an  attractive  young  brother, 
this  home  became  the  social  center  for  young  people,  and  one 
of  the  chief  winter  diversions  was  coasting  down  hill  in  front 
of  their  house,  where  Selby  avenue  now  is.  After  some  years 
Mr.  Selby  built  a  very  handsome  residence  on  Dayton  avenue, 
on  a  lot  which  ran  back  to  Selby  avenue.  I  can  well  remember 
the  time  when  Mr.  Selby 's  cows  and  horses  pastured  luxu- 
riously on  this  farm  site,  and  I  felt  the  force  of  Mr.  Rice 's  com- 
ment; but  now  these  "woods"  are  in  the  most  thickly  settled 
portion  of  the  city.  Mr.  Selby  died  before  his  property  be- 
came very  valuable,  however;  his  widow  sold  the  homestead 
to  Norman  Kittson  for  a  large  sum,  and  Mr.  Kittson  built  a 
grand  house  on  the  site  of  it.  Since  his  death  the  mansion  has 
made  way  for  the  Roman  Catholic  Cathedral,  which  is  now  in 
process  of  erection.  Mr.  and  Mrs.  Selby  were  devout  Presby- 
terians, Mr.  Selby  being  an  elder  in  the  First  Presbyterian 
Church  and  an  ardent  supporter  of  the  pastor,  Rev.  E.  D.  Neill. 


542  MINNESOTA   HISTORICAL    SOCIETY    COLLECTIONS. 

I  trust  their  knowledge  is  now  so  developed  in  the  Great  Be- 
yond that  their  souls  are  not  vexed  by  the  cathedral  occupying 
their  old  home  site. 

In  May,  1849,  Dr.  Charles  William  Wulff  Borup  and  his 
brother-in-law,  Mr.  Charles  H.  Oakes,  came  to  St.  Paul  and 
added  much  to  our  social  life.  Both  gentlemen  married  wives 
of  mixed  French  and  Indian  blood,  who  were  sisters  and  had 
been  well  educated  in  an  eastern  school ;  they  were  ladies  and 
a  great  addition  to  our  little  circle.  Both  men  built  attractive 
homes,  much  more  modern  than  any  other  in  our  embryo 
town;  Dr.  Borup 's  occupied  a  city  block  fronting  on  Ninth 
street,  and  his  garden  and  hothouses  were  the  admiration  of 
our  citizens  for  many  years.  Mr.  Oakes'  residence  was  on 
Eighth  street,  and  at  that  time  and  for  several  years  later 
Eighth  street  from  Jackson  to  Broadway  was  the  fashionable 
part  of  the  city  and  boasted  many  handsome  houses. 

We  are  indebted  to  Dr.  Borup  for  the  first  musical  cultiva- 
tion in  St.  Paul ;  he  was  very  fond  of  music,  had  a  fine  musical 
education,  and  his  family  of  several  daughters  inherited  his 
talent  and  became  fine  pianists  under  his  training.  After  his 
home  was  finished,  Dr.  Borup  gave  frequent  musicals  in  which 
local  talent  assisted,  and  one  of  these  local  musicians  became 
the  founder  and  principal  supporter  of  the  later  musical  soci- 
eties of  St.  Paul.  Richards  Gordon's  name  and  the  work  he 
accomplished  are  well  known,  but  back  of  him  great  credit 
should  be  given  to  Dr.  Borup  for  the  high  standard  he  set  as 
the  musical  impulse  of  our  people.  The  entertainments  given 
by  Mrs.  Borup  and  Mrs.  Oakes  were  of  the  most  refined  type, 
and  I  feel  sure  that  any  one  attending  them  could  easily  have 
imagined  she  was  in  an  eastern  city,  instead  of  a  frontier  town 
in  the  extreme  Northwest. 

One  of  the  young  men  who  came  in  '49  was  Dr.  David  Day ; 
he  had  not  selected  his  bride  then,  but  waited  several  years 
before  he  brought  from  Pittsburg  a  most  charming  young 
woman,  indeed  a  very  young  woman,  only  eighteen;  she  was 
the  daughter  of  General  Butler  of  the  United  States  army.  Dr. 
Day  died  some  years  since,  but  his  widow  and  lovely  daughter 
are  still  with  us,  and  no  social  function  is  complete  without 


A  SHEAF  OP  REMEMBRANCES.  543 

dear  Mrs.  Day.  I  must  also  mention  here  Mrs.  Day's  older  sis- 
ter, the  widow  of  Senator  McMillan ;  the  senator  and  his  wife 
came  to  Stillwater  in  1854,  and  to  St.  Paul  in  '56.  Senator 
McMillan's  ancestors  were  Scotch-Irish,  descendants  of  the 
Covenanters,  and  his  religion  was  a  part  of  his  life  never  laid 
aside,  but  Sunday  and  week  days  the  same.  His  wife  fully 
agreed  with  him,  and  their  family  was  raised  to  truly  love 
God  and  their  fellow  men ;  no  personal  sacrifice  was  too  great 
to  show  their  loyalty  to  God  and  his  divine  laws,  or  to  help 
their  neighbor.  Mrs.  McMillan  is  still  with  us,  and  surely  her 
children  and  grand-children  "rise  up  and  call  her  blessed." 

In  1849  Mr.  Henry  L.  Moss,  a  young  lawyer  of  Stillwater, 
married  Miss  Horsford  and  brought  her  to  St.  Paul  to  live; 
Miss  Horsford  was  one  of  the  teachers  sent  out  by  Governor 
Slade,  you  remember,  at  the  request  of  Dr.  Williamson,  one  of 
the  early  missionaries,  and  she  had  settled  in  Stillwater,  an 
older  place  than  St.  Paul  and  larger  at  that  time.  Mrs.  Moss 
was  a  remarkably  intelligent,  well  educated  woman,  petite  and 
attractive  in  appearance,  and  greatly  interested  in  all  philan- 
thropic work.  Mr.  Moss  built  a  home  on  Exchange  street,  near 
Irvine  Park,  where  they  lived  for  over  fifty  years.  They  gave 
many  notable  entertainments,  of  which  two  should  go  down 
into  history,  the  one  in  1874  when  they  celebrated  their  silver 
wedding,  and  the  other  in  1899  on  the  occasion  of  their  golden 
wedding. 

Among  the  early  merchants  were  three  brothers  who  came 
to  St.  Paul  in  1849;  they  built  a  two-story  building  on  Third 
street  near  what  is  now  Exchange  street,  and  this  building  is 
still  standing  and  apparently  will  last  another  half  century. 
These  brothers  were  Abram,  Edwin,  and  Charles  Elfelt,  sons 
of  a  Jewish  family  in  Philadelphia ;  this  family  belonged  to  a 
very  high  class  of  Jews,  the  same  from  which  "Walter  Scott 
took  his  character  of  Rebecca  in  Ivanhoe.  It  was  Washington 
Irving  who  told  Scott  about  her;  she  was  a  Gratz,  and  in  her 
grandfather's  time  Jefferson  was  often  a  guest  at  his  house. 
A  great-granddaughter,  married  to  a  cousin  of  Ex-Governor 
Marshall,  told  him  that  Jefferson  wrote  the  Declaration  of 
Independence  in  her  great-grandfather's  house. 


544  MINNESOTA   HISTORICAL   SOCIETY    COLLECTIONS. 

The  Elfelts  were  refined,  cultivated  men;  they  opened  a 
fine  stock  of  dry  goods  in  their  new  building,  and  for  several 
years  they  had  the  leading  dry  goods  store  in  the  city.  In 
1852  Mr.  Abram  Elfelt  brought  his  bride  from  Philadelphia,  a 
most  beautiful  woman,  who  became  a  social  leader;  their 
daughter,  Mrs.  Bramhall,  is  now  prominent  in  advancing  plans 
to  improve  our  civic  life,  and  especially  in  conserving  our  for- 
ests. Mr.  Elfelt  built  a  modern  house  on  the  west  side  of 
Irvine  Park,  and  furnished  it  with  furniture  brought  from 
Philadelphia.  Mr.  and  Mrs.  Elfelt  were  most  hospitable,  and 
many  dancing  parties  were  given  in  their  beautifully  ap- 
pointed home. 

The  second  story  of  the  Elfelts'  dry  goods  store  was  a 
hall,  which  was  called  Mazurka  Hall,  and  it  filled  a  great  need 
during  several  years;  almost  all  our  public  dancing  parties 
were  held  there,  and  many  public  meetings.  I  often  think  that 
this  building  should  be  purchased  by  the  city,  to  be  preserved 
as  an  historical  relic.  It  is  sad  for  us  pioneers  to  see  building 
after  building  demolished,  which  rendered  such  great  service 
in  the  early  days;  and  many  times  not  even  the  site  is  pre- 
served, but  all  must  give  way  to  progress. 

Many  have  written  about  the  pioneer  men;  but  very  little 
has  been  told  of  the  pioneer  women  who  came  from  luxurious 
eastern  homes  to  endure  the  hardships  of  our  border  life.  How 
nobly  they  bore  them,  and  what  brave  men  and  women  they 
reared  to  take  their  places  and  carry  on  their  work  of  advanc- 
ing Christianity  and  civilization  in  this  great  territory. 

Among  the  most  notable  of  these  women  stood  Mrs.  Ramsey, 
the  Governor's  wife;  she  was  not  only  queenly  in  appearance, 
but  had  most  charming  manners.  Her  Quaker  education  had 
given  her  simplicity,  which,  combined  with  cordiality,  im- 
pressed one  with  the  genuineness  of  her  character;  no  one 
for  an  instant  could  think  she  was  acting  a  part.  Her  tone  of 
voice  and  manner  of  talking  were  so  fascinating  that  I  loved 
to  listen  to  her.  She  was  the  same  charming  personality  after 
returning  from  Washington,  where  Governor  Ramsey  had 
served  as  Secretary  of  War  and  of  the  Treasury;  no  worldly 
prosperity  could  change  her.  The  last  entertainment  she 


A  SHEAF  OF  REMEMBRANCES.  545 

gave  was  a  reception,  perhaps  two  years  before  she  died ;  after 
the  reception  she  was  criticized  for  being  close,  as  she  had 
neither  flowers  nor  music.  All  the  disagreeable  things  said 
came  to  her  ears,  and  she  said  to  me,  "I  gave  that  reception 
without  flowers  or  music  on  purpose;  I  could  have  had  both, 
but  I  wanted  to  show  my  friends  that  a  reception  could  be  given 
in  a  simple  way.  It  was  the  kind  of  an  entertainment  that 
most  of  our  citizens  can  afford  to  give,  and  I  wanted  to  rebuke 
the  extravagance  of  our  friends  of  moderate  circumstances." 
Her  death  was  a  great  loss  to  our  city,  where  she  dominated 
society  and  set  a  sensible  example  to  our  citizens. 

Mrs.  Goodhue,  wife  of  James  M.  Goodhue,  the  founder  and 
editor  of  our  first  newspaper,  The  Pioneer,  was  a  woman  of 
unusual  intellectual  ability  and  very  great  social  qualities. 
She  not  only  kept  her  household  in  order,  but  could  edit  her 
husband's  newspaper  in  an  emergency.  Her  sister,  Miss  Cor- 
delia Kneeland,  lived  with  her,  a  young  lady  whose  great  wit 
and  conversational  talents  made  a  success  of  many  of  our  social 
entertainments. 

Indeed,  when  I  think  of  the  fall  of  1849  and  the  winter  of 
1850,1  cannot  imagine  a  finer  society  than  existed  in  the  villages 
of  Mendota,  St.  Paul,  and  St.  Anthony,  and  at  Fort  Snelling, 
small  as  the  numbers  were.  All  attended  the  social  functions 
given  in  St.  Paul,  and,  with  the  regimental  band  from  the  fort 
for  music,  the  parties  could  not  fail  of  being  a  success.  Most 
of  the  entertainments  had  to  be  given  in  a  hall  or  hotel,  of 
course,  as  the  few  private  homes  were  too  small  to  accommodate 
them. 

In  July,  1850,  Colonel  Robertson  of  Ohio  became  a  citizen 
of  St.  Paul ;  and  his  wife,  a  very  attractive  young  matron,  be- 
came noted  for  her  hospitality.  She  was  the  first  person  to 
have  regular  "at  home"  days.  Her  sister,  bride  of  Lafayette 
Emmett  (afterward  Judge  Emmett),  was  also  a  most  charming 
hostess  and  both  Mrs.  Robertson  and  Mrs.  Emmett  were  for 
many  years  a  social  and  intellectual  force  among  us. 

In  the  spring  of  1851  General  James  H.  Simpson  arrived, 
accompanied  by  his  wife  and  a  young  sister-in-law,  Miss  Champ- 
lin.  Mrs.  Simpson  was  a  fine  pianist,  and  proved  an  added 


546  MINNESOTA    HISTORICAL    SOCIETY    COLLECTIONS. 

inspiration  to  our  musical  society,  taking  part  in  the  musical 
entertainments  given  by  Dr.  Borup.  Her  brother,  Mr.  Champ- 
lin,  married  Dr.  Borup 's  oldest  daughter.  Mrs.  Simpson  was 
not  only  a  cultivated  musician,  but  a  very  fine  conversationalist, 
and  had  a  very  cheerful,  bright  disposition,  always  seeing  the 
humorous  side  of  life.  Such  a  cheerful  temperament  endeared 
her  to  her  friends,  who,  however  despondent,  always  felt  hap- 
pier after  an  interview  with  her.  Both  the  General  and  his 
wife  were  devout  Christians,  members  of  Christ  Church,  and 
were  a  great  help  in  sustaining  the  parish  in  its  formative 
period;  both  have  passed  away  years  since,  but  their  works 
live  after  them. 

Miss  Champlin  married  John  B.  Cook,  and  for  many  years 
dispensed  a  gracious  hospitality  in  the  city;  both  "have  now 
joined  the  great  majority  across  the  "dark  river." 

In  1852  Mr.  and  Mrs.  Charles  L.  Willes  came  from  Cleve- 
land, Ohio,  Mrs.  Willes  coming  on  her  wedding  trip;  they 
bought  a  home  on  Irvine  Park,  adding  another  to  our  attractive 
homes.  Mrs.  Willes  was  beautiful  and  refined,  worthy  to  join 
the  group  composed  of  Mrs.  Ramsey,  Mrs.  Sibley,  and  others  of 
our  company  forming  the  best  society.  Mr.  Willes  had  the 
advantage  of  some  of  our  young  men,  in  that  he  was  well  to 
do  and  could  help  in  civic  improvements  in  many  ways.  Mrs. 
Willes  is  still  with  us,  and  her  children  and  grandchildren  are 
leaders  in  social  and  intellectual  life. 

In  May,  1853,  Governor  Gorman  came  with  his  family ; 
Mrs.  Gorman  did  the  honors  of  the  governor's  mansion  in  a 
most  gracious  way;  she  was  fond  of  entertaining,  and  during 
her  husband's  term  of  office,  and  for  several  years  after,  kept 
open  house  for  all,  and  many  were  the  social  gatherings  that 
were  enjoyed  there.  The  most  notable  event,  perhaps,  was  the 
marriage  of  her  eldest  daughter  to  Harvey  Officer,  a  rising 
young  lawyer  of  St.  Paul;  the  wedding  ceremony  and  recep- 
tion were  held  at  the  home,  and  nothing  was  lacking  to  make 
the  occasion  a  society  function  equal  to  a  wedding  of  these 
latter  days. 

Mrs.  Gorman's  sister,  wife  of  Robert  A.  Smith,  many  times 
Mayor  of  St.  Paul,  was  a  great  assistance  to  Mrs.  Gorman  in 


A  SHEAF  OF  REMEMBRANCES.  547 

entertaining;  she  is  still  living,  and  although  her  later  years 
have  been  spent  in  caring  for  an  invalid  husband,  she  is  remem- 
bered as  a  gracious  entertainer,  not  only  at  Mrs.  Gorman's, 
but  later  at  her  own  home  on  Summit  avenue.  May  she  be 
with  us  many  days  to  come  ! 

Another  most  charming  woman  must  not  be  forgotten,  Mrs. 
Prince,  wife  of  the  late  John  S.  Prince,  one  of  the  most  prom- 
inent early  bankers;  upon  her  arrival  here,  in  1854,  she  took 
her  place  as  a  leader  in  society.  Mr.  Prince  built  a  most  at- 
tractive home  in  lower  town,  and  from  the  time  it  was  occu- 
pied until  his  death  no  home  in  the  city  equalled  it  in  hospi- 
tality ;  delightful  entertainments  for  both  old  and  young  were 
given,  and  to  be  welcomed  by  Mr.  and  Mrs.  Prince  was  an 
event  in  one's  life.  I  remember  one  occasion  when  a  children's 
party  was  in  full  swing;  Mr.  Egbert  Thompson  came  in  and 
in  a  depressed  manner  said,  "Well,  I  have  missed  it  all  my 
life ;  when  I  was  young,  children  were  of  no  account,  and  now, 
when  I  am  old,  old  people  are  of  no  account. ' '  Mrs.  Prince  lived 
to  a  good  old  age,  dying  this  past  summer,  1913;  each  year 
of  her  life  was  a  benediction  to  her  children  and  her  friends. 

Yet  another  of  the  women  who  came  in  1853  is  with  us,  Mrs. 
Hunt,  widow  of  Mr.  Edgar  Hunt;  she  is  a  deeply  religious 
woman,  and  has  been  a  power  for  good  in  the  Episcopal 
Church,  as  well  as  in  the  community ;  her  children  and  grand- 
children have  followed  in  her  footsteps,  and  are  active  workers 
in  church  and  society  for  the  uplift  of  all. 

In  March,  1854,  William  R.  Marshall  brought  his  bride  from 
Utica,  N.  Y. ;  she  was  the  daughter  of  George  Langford,  a 
banker,  and  was  connected  with  the  most  prominent  families 
of  Oneida  county.  Mr.  and  Mrs.  Marshall  began  housekeeping 
on  the  corner  of  Fourth  street  and  Rice  Park;  Mrs.  Marshall, 
having  been  reared  in  the  center  of  culture  and  refinement, 
brought  these  qualities  into  her  new  home,  and  for  forty  years 
she  was  a  most  delightful  hostess. 

Through  her  influence,  two  of  her  sisters  also  became  resi- 
dents of  St.  Paul ;  one  was  the  wife  of  William  Spencer,  son  of 
Joshua  Spencer,  the  most  noted  lawyer  of  New  York;  and  one 
was  the  wife  of  James  W.  Taylor,  who  became  prominent  as  our 


548  MINNESOTA   HISTORICAL    SOCIETY    COLLECTIONS. 

consul  at  Winnipeg,  being  held  in  such  esteem  by  the  English 
that  at  his  death  the  flag  of  Windsor  Castle  was  lowered.  Both 
these  women  had  a  delightful  personality,  and  took  a  leading 
part  in  social  life  for  many  years ;  they  were  also  most  efficient 
in  helping  to  care  for  the  sick,  in  the  days  before  trained  nurses, 
or  indeed  any  kind  of  nurses,  were  here.  In  those  days  kind 
neighbors  went  and  ministered  to  the  helpless  ones ;  and  many 
now  living  can  remember  how  the  anxieties  attending  the  sick 
bed  were  removed  when  Mrs.  Spencer  appeared,  and  many  a 
dying  one's  last  hours  were  comforted  and  soothed  by  her  gen- 
tle words  and  tender  ministrations.  Children  and  grandchil- 
dren are  living  in  our  midst  and  "rise  up  to  call  her  blessed." 

Mrs.  Marshall  also  influenced  two  young  brothers  to  join 
her  in  the  fall  of  1854,  and  these  brothers  became  permanent 
citizens.  Mr.  Nathaniel  P.  Langford  died  in  October,  1911, 
greatly  lamented,  having  taken  an  active  part  in  all  our  civic 
affairs  and  always  for  the  benefit  of  the  city.  The  other  brother, 
Augustine  G.  Langford,  married  Elizabeth  Robertson,  daughter 
of  Col.  D.  A.  Robertson ;  he  died  in  Denver  many  years  since, 
but  the  sons,  Nathaniel  and  William  Langford,  are  among  our 
best  business  men,  and,  no  doubt,  their  children  will  follow  in 
their  footsteps. 

In  1860  Miss  Fanny  Spencer  visited  her  brother,  William 
Spencer,  and  during  this  visit  she  met  Mr.  Amherst  H.  Wilder, 
who  immediately  fell  in  love  with  her;  they  were  married  in 
1861,  and  settled  permanently  in  St.  Paul.  This  marriage 
proved  a  very  important  event  for  the  city,  not  only  in  starting 
a  new  home  and  adding  to  the  social  life,  but  eventually  in 
founding  the  "Wilder  Charity,"  which  will  continue  to  benefit 
the  worthy  poor  among  us  for  all  tim,e.  Mrs.  Wilder  was  a 
very  superior  woman;  she  had  a  fine  education,  and  all  her 
early  life  had  been  spent  in  the  midst  of  intellectutal  and  culti- 
vated society;  the  guests  in  her  father's  house  were  such  men 
as  Henry  Clay  and  Daniel  Webster,  and  she  imbibed  from  her 
earliest  years  a  love  for  things  which  make  for  refinement  and 
culture.  She  excelled  in  conversation,  and  could  maintain  her 
side  in  argument  with  the  most  highly  educated  men.  A  sad 
calamity  it  was  to  St.  Paul  when  the  Wilder  family,  father, 


A  SHEAF  OF  REMEMBRANCES.  549 

mother,  and  daughter,  Mrs.  Appleby,  passed  away  within  a  few 
years  of  each  other. 

So,  indirectly,  the  coming  of  Mrs.  Marshall  brought  a  num- 
ber of  people  who  have  added  to  our  growth  both  in  intellectual 
advancement  and  wealth. 

In  the  spring  of  1854,  Mr.  and  Mrs.  Thomas  W.  Coleman 
came  here  from  Canada ;  they  resided  in  St.  Paul  several  years, 
and  afterward  in  Iowa,  but  returned  here  in  1877.  Mr.  Coleman 
invested  largely  in  real  estate,  and  also  bought  stock  in  one  of 
our  banks;  the  family  consisted  of  two  daughters,  Jenny  and 
Emily,  and  a  sister  of  Mrs.  Coleman.  Mrs.  Coleman  and  her 
sister,  Miss  Newington,  at  once  became  important  members  of 
our  circle,  having  moved  in  the  best  society  in  Canada,  and  we 
all  know  an  educated  Englishwoman  cannot  be  excelled  in  re- 
finement and  good  manners.  Mrs.  Coleman  played  delightfully, 
and  many  impromptu  dances  were  indebted  to  her  for  the 
music  which  added  so  much  to  the  enjoyment  of  the  young  peo- 
ple. Mr.  Coleman  purchased  the  Brown  residence,  which  after- 
wards was  sold  to  the  city  for  a  hospital,  and  their  home  became 
a  place  where  young  people  loved  to  congregate.  Miss  New- 
ington some  years  later  became  the  wife  of  Ex-Governor  Gor- 
man, and  for  many  years  led  in  church  work  and  philanthropic 
and  social  activities.  Miss  Jenny  Coleman,  the  older  daughter, 
married  Mr.  G.  W.  Armstrong,  a  young  lawyer,  and  their  sons, 
James  and  John,  today  rank  among  our  most  useful  citizens; 
one  is  a  lawyer  and  one  a  physician,  continuing  the  good  work 
begun  by  their  father  and  grandfather.  Mrs.  Armstrong  is  now 
living,  a  most  gracious  lady  beloved  by  all  who  know  her. 

I  hope  I  have  done  justice  to  a  few  of  the  pioneer  women 
who  bore  the  heat  and  burden  of  the  day ;  we  were  truly  blessed 
in  the  character  of  these  women  who  laid  the  foundation  of 
our  family  and  social  life;  their  children  and  grandchildren 
have  maintained  their  principles,  so  that  St.  Paul  is  known  as 
one  of  the  most  refined  cities  in  the  Union.  I  have  mentioned 
only  a  few  of  the  gracious,  charming  women  who  made  their 
home  among  us  then;  but  I  have  neither  strength  nor  time  to 
write  of  the  many  who  came  after  1854,  and  who  kept  up  the 
high  moral  and  intellectual  standard  of  their  predecessors. 


550  MINNESOTA    HISTORICAL    SOCIETY    COLLECTIONS. 

Our  method  of  entertaining  in  those  early  days  made  us  all 
like  one  family,  each  of  our  friends,  or  perhaps  only  a  certain 
number  of  our  friends,  contributing  to  the  menu ;  this  was  made 
necessary  because  we  had  no  public  caterers  and  our  domestic 
help  was  very  inexperienced.  One  of  the  wonders  of  that  time 
was  what  famous  housekeepers  and  cooks  our  ignorant,  help- 
less brides  became ;  after  sixty  years  the  mention  of  their  names 
brings  to  mind  the  savor  of  good  viands.  When  an  entertain- 
ment was  planned,  one  would  send  the  salad,  another  the  rolls, 
and  another  the  cake,  etc.;  the  hostess  had  very  little  to  do, 
except  to  see  that  her  house  was  in  order ;  and  she,  of  course, 
returned  those  favors  when  her  friends  entertained.  I  was 
amused  and  reminded  of  old  times,  when  celebrating  the  fiftieth 
anniversary  of  my  arrival  in  St.  Paul,  by  having  some  of  the 
older  friends  say  to  me,  ''Why  did  you  not  ask  me  to  make  the 
salad?"  or  "Why  did  you  not  send  to  me  for  cake?"  and  "I 
expected  to  have  to  send  you  some  lamps."  When  I  was  mar- 
ried, Mrs.  Goodhue  made  the  bride's  cake,  and  Mrs.  Emmett 
and  Mrs.  Simpson  assisted  in  making  the  fruit  cake,  salad,  etc., 
for  the  supper.  Such  close  intimacy  endeared  us  to  each  other, 
and  the  bonds  of  friendship  lasted  all  through  our  lives. 

During  those  days  surprise  parties  were  quite  common,  or 
at  least  so-called  surprise  parties;  but  the  lady  of  the  house 
that  was  intended  to  be  surprised  always  had  a  hint  that  some- 
thing unusual  might  occur  on  such  and  such  an  evening.  We 
generally  received  a  hospitable  welcome,  and  soon  the  dancing 
began  and  a  delightful  evening  was  spent. 

One  party,  however,  was  made  more  of  a  surprise  to  the 
guests  than  to  the  host  and  hostess.  In  the  family  of  one  of  our 
prominent  citizens  there  was  a  young  lady  visiting ;  the  young 
people  thought  it  would  be  all  right  to  take  music  and  refresh- 
ments and  surprise  the  hostess  and  her  guest  in  the  customary 
way.  The  hint  was  duly  given,  and  the  hostess  signified  that 
the  party  would  be  welcome ;  everything  went  off  as  scheduled ; 
the  guests  were  welcomed  by  the  hostess,  as  her  husband  was 
out  of  town ;  dancing  began  soon,  and  all  were  having  a  merry 
time,  when  the  host  came  home  quite  unexpectedly.  He  was 


A  SHEAF  OF  REMEMBRANCES.  551 

furious  at  having  his  home  invaded  by  uninvited  guests,  al- 
though they  were  the  cream  of  our  little  circle,  and  he  told 
them  in  no  very  civil  words  that  when  he  wanted  guests  he 
would  invite  them.  The  guests  left  in  double-quick  time,  and 
none  of  them  ever  entered  that  house  again;  the  hostess,  a 
lovely  woman,  never  had  a  social  position,  or,  rather  I  should 
say,  a  position  in  society.  This  ended  surprise  parties  among 
our  best  society  people. 

Telling  of  parties,  I  must  not  omit  one  which  proved  almost 
a  tragedy ;  I  am  not  quite  sure  of  the  year  in  which  it  occurred, 
but  think  it  was  the  very  cold  winter  of  '55.  The  party  was 
given  by  Mr.  and  Mrs.  D.  A.  J.  Baker  at  their  farm,  now  Mer- 
riam  Park.  There  was  a  stretch  of  prairie  to  be  crossed,  reach- 
ing from  what  is  now  Mackubin  street  but  then  called  Mar- 
shall's farm,  to  what  is  now  Snelling  avenue.  The  invited 
guests  started  about  seven  o'clock  in  sleighs  to  meet  at  a  ren- 
dezvous and  go  all  together,  which  arrangement  proved  very 
fortunate  and  saved  many  lives.  On  reaching  the  crest  of  the 
hill,  called  St.  Anthony  hill,  a  sharp  wind  met  them  and  the 
atmosphere  became  filled  with  snow  in  a  short  time;  it  was  a 
genuine  blizzard.  The  road  was  soon  obliterated,  and  the  in- 
stinct of  the  horses  remained  their  only  guide.  Mr.  John  Cath- 
cart  led  the  line  of  sleighs,  and  he  said  afterward  that  it  was 
much  more  like  a  funeral  procession  than  a  prospective  dancing 
party.  One  or  two  of  the  sleighs  wandered  out  from  the  line, 
but  fortunately  reached  a  house  on  Governor  Ramsey's  farm, 
quite  far  to  the  north  of  University  avenue,  or,  as  it  was  then 
called,  the  "Territorial  road."  They  were  fortunate  in  finding 
shelter  for  the  night,  as  otherwise  they  would  have  been  frozen 
to  death,  there  being  no  other  house  within  miles.  The  party 
led  by  Mr.  Cathcart  finally  reached  Mr.  Baker's,  but  how  it  was 
impossible  to  tell;  several  of  the  party  were  frostbitten,  but 
only  one  seriously;  a  Mr.  Wolf  had  his  hands  frozen  and  suf- 
fered intensely,  but  recovered  eventually  without  losing  his 
fingers.  My  brother  William  started  for  Mr.  Baker's  in  a 
double  sleigh  drawn  by  a  fine  pair  of  horses,  but  had  gone  only 
a  short  distance  when  he  turned  back,  realizing  the  great  dan- 


552  MINNESOTA   HISTORICAL   SOCIETY    COLLECTIONS. 

ger  of  being  lost  in  a  Minnesota  blizzard.  However,  " All's 
well  that  ends  well,"  and  our  party  returned  home  the  next 
morning  grateful  to  the  Power  that  guided  them  safely. 

After  1855  immigration  came  so  rapidly  that  a  great  change 
took  place  in  our  social  life ;  the  family  parties  were  succeeded 
by  social  circles  formed  in  the  churches,  the  members  feeling 
that  they  should  become  acquainted  with  each  other.  A  few  of 
us  older  residents  still  kept  our  social  compact,  but  the  early 
custom  of  all  citizens  meeting  together  had  to  give  way  to 
smaller  and  more  formal  affairs. 

Now,  after  sixty-four  years,  few,  very  few,  can  remember 
those  youthful,  happy,  hospitable  days  in  the  little  French  and 
Indian  village  which  has  grown  into  our  great,  cosmopolitan 
City  of  St.  Paul. 


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